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diff --git a/.gitattributes b/.gitattributes new file mode 100644 index 0000000..6833f05 --- /dev/null +++ b/.gitattributes @@ -0,0 +1,3 @@ +* text=auto +*.txt text +*.md text diff --git a/34309-8.txt b/34309-8.txt new file mode 100644 index 0000000..6ece569 --- /dev/null +++ b/34309-8.txt @@ -0,0 +1,2354 @@ +Project Gutenberg's An Outline of Sexual Morality, by Kenneth Ingram + +This eBook is for the use of anyone anywhere at no cost and with +almost no restrictions whatsoever. You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: An Outline of Sexual Morality + +Author: Kenneth Ingram + +Release Date: November 14, 2010 [EBook #34309] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK AN OUTLINE OF SEXUAL MORALITY *** + + + + +Produced by The Online Distributed Proofreading Team at +http://www.pgdp.net (This file was produced from images +generously made available by The Internet Archive/American +Libraries.) + + + + + + + + + +An Outline of Sexual Morality + + + + + An Outline of + Sexual Morality + + Kenneth Ingram + + _The Introduction_ by F. W. W. Griffin, + M.A., M.D., M.R.C.S., L.R.C.P. + + Jonathan Cape + Eleven Gower Street, London + + + + _First published 1922 + All Rights reserved_ + + + + +Author's Note + + +I am anxious to take this opportunity of thanking those friends who have +helped me by valuable suggestion and criticism in correcting the proofs of +this small book. In particular I desire to mention Canon Lacey and Dr. +Griffin, and to apologize for the amount of time which I must have stolen +from them. + +KENNETH INGRAM + +_March 1922_ + + + + +Introduction + + +Any honest inquiry into the Primal Instincts of humanity will necessarily +lead to a clearer understanding of their nature, their functions, and +their potentialities, and so will help to pave the way for the appearance +of a healthier and happier race of men. The dictum "Learn to know +yourself," inscribed on the Temple of Apollo at Delphi, has never been of +more vital importance, both individually and nationally, than it is +to-day, and the various schools of modern psychological thought, which are +steadily opening up those hitherto scarcely explored regions whence flow +the springs of human actions, are gradually clearing away the ignorance +which has been the real cause of so much disease and distress. The +following chapters are to be welcomed particularly as an effort at the +constructional reform of our treatment of one of our deepest and most +powerful instincts. Even those who do not necessarily give assent to all +the details in the line of argument therein pursued must surely approve +the insistence upon the vital necessity of there being love in all sex +relationships. + +The word "sexual," though indispensable perhaps in such a book as this, +invariably induces some measure of opposition by reason of the +associations which it calls up, and so is often replaced by the cognate +adjective "racial," which emphasizes the wider aims of Race Preservation +rather than the narrower matter of the reproduction of individuals. It is +not a matter of curing individual immorality, not even of explaining it +only, it is the greater matter of laying a sound foundation for a +practicable social morality that is the object of consideration here. It +is important that any such opposition should be neither hypocritical nor +hyper-critical, for great national issues are at stake. Without the +healthy mind there can be no healthy body, at any rate from the point of +view of the community, and thus such a scientific inquiry as is set forth +in these pages is definitely leading towards the production of a healthier +nation. + +The necessity of there being established a balance between an unlimited +self-expression and a rigid self-repression is clearly indicated also, and +the importance of self-control is not ignored here as it has been +elsewhere, unfortunately, both as regards the individual's physical health +and the weal of the community at large; for self-control is a vital +essential in the health of a man just as it is a vital necessity for the +continuance of a nation. The following pages contain information and +suggestions which should tend to the formation of a wiser and more hopeful +outlook over the problems of sexual morality, and should therefore receive +the careful consideration of all who have the interests of humanity at +heart. + +F. W. W. GRIFFIN M.A., M.D., M.R.C.S., L.R.C.P. + +_March 1922_ + + + + +Contents + + +CHAPTER PAGE + + 1. APOLOGIA 7 + + 2. OFFICIAL ATTITUDES TOWARDS SEX 13 + + 3. THE GENERAL PRINCIPLES OF PURITY 23 + + 4. CELIBACY 31 + + 5. NON-CELIBACY 36 + + 6. DIVORCE 45 + + 7. EUGENICS AND PROSTITUTION 52 + + 8. THE HOMOSEXUAL TEMPERAMENT 60 + + 9. THE SEXLESS CLASS 76 + + 10. SUPER-ABNORMALITIES 78 + + 11. SEX EDUCATION 87 + + + + +An Outline of Sexual Morality + + + + +Chapter 1: Apologia + + +I have been impelled to attempt this definition of sexual morality for at +least three reasons. The first is that, at this moment particularly, +science is emphasizing the large responsibility which sex assumes in our +lives. We may think that Freud has overestimated this influence; +nevertheless, all psycho-analysis tends to show that the sex-force cannot +be wholly repressed and that even with the most passionless individuals +sex is the unconscious motive in a large percentage of their activities. +It is well therefore that we should have as clear a conception as possible +as to the moral rights of this enormous factor in our lives. + +Secondly, a handbook of this kind is perhaps the most convenient medium +for defining my personal attitude towards this problem. My own views are, +of course, unimportant, but it so happens that I have often been asked, in +private conversations, to define them. Now to summarize them to the +extent which a casual conversation must almost necessarily entail, is +difficult; and often, I suspect, I may have given a wholly wrong +impression. I am anxious to set that right. + +But my chief reason is the chaos of public opinion on this question. One +is continually having this fact forced on one. Largely this is the result +of transition and reaction. In England, the country to which I shall +almost entirely confine myself, we have been enormously affected by that +presentation of religion which has been called Puritanism. We have been +steeped in the theology of Milton. All forms of religion--Catholic as well +as Protestant--have been comparatively infected. When we speak of the +"religious attitude" towards any question, we find ourselves irresistibly +considering the Puritan attitude. + +It is not, I think, unfair to define the influence of Puritanism as a +tendency to regard all amusement with disfavour. The original Puritans +were notoriously dour in their manner and their dress. It has been said +that they attacked the sport of bear-baiting, because it gave pleasure to +the onlookers, and not because it was painful to the bears. Sunday, on +which the outward observance of religion was necessarily concentrated, +became a day of complete abstention from worldly recreation. Puritanism +might supply spiritual compensation, but anything which gave pleasure to +the senses was essentially evil. Thus art and beauty were banished from +religious services and sacred buildings. Not only was the stage an +entrance to hell, but a consistent Puritan like Bunyan prayed God to +forgive him the sin of having played a game of hockey. + +Puritanism had reached its zenith, not of intensity but of universality, +by the latter half of the last century. Those of us who are old enough to +have been Victorians were brought up on comparative doses of the Puritan +medicine. Especially among the middle-classes the history of every English +family from the eighties till the War is extraordinarily similar; it +consists of a series of emancipations. Our grandparents were almost +entirely Puritan in their manner of living, our parents had compromised +and extricated themselves to some degree, and our children have become +almost wholly free. How many of us realize that up to the seventies it was +quite improper for a lady to ride on the top of an omnibus? + +In no instance was the effect of Puritanism stronger than on sex. For sex +is pre-eminently inspired by a desire for pleasure, whether it be +spiritual, emotional, or carnal. On this score alone it would have been +marked out as a deadly evil. But there was a further indictment in the +Puritan creed. According to the Miltonian interpretation Paradise had been +lost on account of the sex impulse; "original sin" was nothing more or +less than the sense of sex--the loss of sexual ignorance. Accordingly the +whole sex-nature was regarded as evil, and sex generally became a taboo, a +closed subject to which no reference could be made. Victorian Puritanism +often, indeed, suggests the ostrich burying his head in the sand--the +attempt to remedy evil by pretending that it does not exist. + +The effect of Puritanism on the Victorian was precisely this conformity of +outward behaviour. It assumed that all men and women were innocent, and +that, except in marriage, sex played no part in life. It pretended they +were innocent, and it made them only respectable. Parents would often +refrain, on the plea that innocence must not be disturbed, from teaching +their children anything about sex. So impure and evil a subject must not +be referred to. Such unpleasant problems as venereal disease must be +hidden out of sight, although prostitution and venereal disease continue +to flourish. The Victorian, in fact, carried out the Puritan doctrine that +all sex is evil, by outwardly pretending that, unless married, he +possessed no sexual instinct. Actually he was no more inclined to +abstention than any other human generation has been. + +Indeed, we do not find any evidence that Puritanism succeeds in carrying +its anti-sex theories into practice. In South Wales, for example, where +Puritanism has established a particular stronghold, sexual laxity is +peculiarly marked. + +The reaction from Puritanism, especially in regard to sex, has been +precipitated and exaggerated by the Great War. We have therefore in modern +society two opposing policies. Among those who have thrown over all +"religious" observance and have freed themselves entirely from Puritanism, +there seems to be a complete absence of any moral sex-standard. We can +appreciate that impasse if we consider the inability of the sex-novel or +play to suggest any form of conduct which is immoral. Those who still +adhere to organized religion continue to look at sex largely through +Puritan spectacles. The "fallen woman" or the convicted clergyman is +genuinely regarded as being guilty of the most damning of all offences. +The sexual laxity of the neo-Georgian is used as a convincing argument +that once the Puritan view is abandoned, complete anarchy is the only +alternative. Religious teachers continue to preach what many of them would +deny to be Puritan doctrine, but what I hope to prove belongs peculiarly +to that aspect of Christianity. And meanwhile the "non-religious world" +pronounces the opposite extreme. + +It is because I believe both these attitudes to contain error, that I am +anxious to contribute the foundation for some principle in the current +deadlock. + + + + +Chapter 2: Official Attitudes towards Sex + + +It will now be convenient to define the chief collective or official +attitudes towards sex. In a mere outline such as this handbook professes +to be, we may divide these attitudes into three, and label them the +popular attitude, the legal or State attitude, and the religious attitude. + +With the popular attitude we have already largely dealt. It is still in a +transitory, confused state, merging at one end into the old Puritan +extreme, and at the other to mere negativism, mere opposition to Puritan +asceticism, and without even an attempt to reconstruct a moral standard. +This perhaps is an inevitable stage in any transition; but it is none the +less unsatisfactory. Man cannot succeed without a standard; and moreover +we know intuitively that all things are not morally permissible. If there +is purity and beauty and divinity in life, there must be impurity and sin. +Will it be considered an exaggeration if I say that it is almost better to +have a Puritan standard than none at all? The Roundhead at least was more +than a match for the Cavalier because he had a positive inspiration. + +But there is one common feature in this chaos of evolving popular opinion. +The vulgar mind tends to measure morality by what is usual. The sins which +most men commit are regarded as hardly evil; the acts which may not be +evil, are regarded as sins if they are peculiar. Thus an occasional lapse +from continency on the part of a young man is popularly regarded as not +very reprehensible, whereas the perpetrator of some weird act of +bestiality would be hounded to prison. The flaw in this estimate is not +only that the normal standard varies in race and age, but that there is no +single human sex nature; there are infinite varieties. To condemn variety +_per se_ is, as we shall presently observe, a contradiction of the laws of +nature. + +The gradual emancipation of society from the taboo on sex in conversation +is an undoubted gain. We owe such men as Bernard Shaw a debt of gratitude +for the way in which they have forced sex reference into the play, and +therefore on public notice. But if this is to result in eliminating sex +modesty it is creating evils greater than those which it seeks to remove. +I will not here embark upon a consideration of such a theory as that which +has been interestingly propounded by Mr. Westermarck, namely that there is +a relationship between sexual modesty and the feeling against incest.[1] +I will only insist that modesty is natural in all qualities which we +regard as sacred. + +If we are modest about sex in our conversation to the extent of placing a +taboo on sex, and allowing sexual problems to remain unsolved, or in +letting our children confuse innocence with ignorance, we are on +indefensible ground; indefensible, I think, because our modesty is based +on the Puritan doctrine that sex is at heart an unclean thing. I wish +especially to defend modesty because sex is so clean. We do not want to +vulgarize by public reference our most spiritual experiences, our sense of +love, our feeling of exaltation in the presence of what is beautiful and +divine. We speak of these things only at more sacred moments, if at all. +We must be careful, too, lest in a reaction from taboo we allow science to +rob sex of its romantic and divine character. We have carefully to +preserve the centre of gravitation between two extremes. We should look +askance at a man who collected in a glass bottle, and analysed, his +mother's tears. + +In this connexion it may be well to call attention to the inconsistency of +the male in making the sex-act a subject for humour. Whatever our +religious belief, we know that the sex-act is the means of procreation, +and is, for this reason alone, a sacred function. It seems inconsistent, +therefore, that we should so persistently treat it as a mark for ridicule. + + * * * * * + +The second general attitude is that of the State, or legislature. Here we +find ourselves in the presence of a consistent motive. The State is +concerned only with the preservation of the birth-rate; any sex behaviour +which defeats this object it regards as immoral and punishable. The State +cannot interfere so far with individual privacy as to punish masturbation +or artificial means of restraint; but it does go to the extent of +punishing "unnatural" acts between husband and wife,[2] and in America, +the State has even penalized the activities of the neo-Malthusian +propaganda. All sex abnormalities are rigidly punished, whereas the +procreation of children outside wedlock is not a legal offence.[3] + +This is a consistent attitude, but it suggests one serious flaw. Whatever +may have been the case in early days when an increase of population was +essential, there can be little doubt that to-day that necessity has +diminished. Indeed, without entering into the Malthusian controversy, it +is almost impossible to deny that at the moment we are suffering largely +from over-population. Consequently, whatever opportunist policy may +dictate, we cannot poise our estimate of morality on so shifting a basis +as the needs of population. Instinctively we cannot associate morality in +anything with the legal attitude. There are many acts even outside the sex +sphere which most of us would consider immoral, but which are unpunished +by law, and others which are illegal but are not immoral; it is immoral to +lie, but unless we lie on oath there is no State offence; it is punishable +to ride a bicycle without lights after dark, but we are conscious of no +moral delinquency in so doing. + + * * * * * + +The third attitude is that of religion. We have already discussed the +Puritan attitude and the manner in which it has permeated our unconscious +religious thought. In the Anglican marriage-service there appears at first +sight to be some endorsement of the theory that the sex-act is unclean and +is only permitted in marriage as a concession to human weakness.[4] This +doctrine owes its derivation to St. Paul, although it is important to +notice that St. Paul specially emphasizes that he is not speaking +ex-cathedra: "I say therefore to the unmarried and widows it is good for +them to remain even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry; for +it is better to marry than to burn."[5] + +These words will probably be used as an argument against the statement +that it is a specifically Puritan doctrine to regard the sex-act as +unclean. It will be urged that the early Christian Church, as shown by the +writings of the Fathers, discouraged marriage and upheld celibacy as the +ideal. I hope, in a moment, to differentiate between the Catholic and the +Puritan doctrine. But more immediately we will consider what I have +broadly defined as the Puritan attitude. + +The flaw in the argument that the sex-act is by nature unclean and must be +suppressed, even though in marriage it may be legitimized, is that it is +the ordained means of procreation. Further than this, we have the +inevitable fact to face that the sex-instinct in normal persons is so +strong that it can only with great difficulty be suppressed, and then +results in an outflow of sex activity in what we usually know as +non-sexual channels. Often this suppression will find its vent in mental +dislocation and general nervous irritability. But without analysing these +complex symptoms, it is sufficient to ask those who admit the control of +God, why God created the sex impulse in order that it should be +obliterated. + +Directly we move away from this strict doctrine to the modified popular +expression of it, we find that the position is becoming more intelligible +but less logical. It is consistent to regard all sex as evil. But when the +average Christian, while denouncing adultery as a sin, insists on +copulation in marriage as its consummation, a difficulty arises which must +not be ignored. Here, in adultery, is a sin which is so serious in the +eyes of Christian men, that it can never be redeemed; the stigma of +impurity remains for ever on the offender. Yet this same act, if only +committed under the regulation of marriage becomes not merely something +permissible, but the essential act of consummation, the divine method of +procreation. One can understand how an act, good in itself, can become a +sin because it is performed under impermissible circumstances. But it is +difficult to conceive of an act changing its integral nature, so that at +one moment it is a necessary virtue, and at another the basest vice. It +is, for instance, legal for a soldier to kill an enemy in battle, while it +is a crime for one civilian to kill another; but the act of killing is +_per se_ an evil thing, even in the case of a soldier. It never becomes so +exalted as is the sex-act in marriage. + +The Catholic doctrine, however, while at first sight it appears to be +identical with the Puritan, is actually quite distinct. + +For one thing there is a difference of attitude towards sin. Puritanism +seems to suggest that those who have been "converted" are actually +perfect. It insists that they shall keep up this outward appearance, and +consequently ensures that their sins must be committed secretly. They are +then sufficiently perfect to ascend, after death, direct to Heaven. +Catholicism, however, is continually recognizing that man is normally a +sinner; the confessional is a public recognition of this fact. Catholicism +therefore approaches the question of sex with the expectation that man +will sin, that the probability of his fall is so great as to make it +unnecessary and undesirable to hide all traces of his sin from public +view. The Puritan attitude towards sex is really that of the prude. The +Catholic Church is so ready to talk about sex in a decent manner that she +provides the confessional as a permanent institution. + +When we turn to the Catholic attitude towards sex we are faced indeed with +two significant dogmas which make up a position fundamentally distinct +from that of Puritanism. The first of these is the doctrine that marriage +is a sacrament, and the second that the _esse_ of the marriage is the +consent of the parties. + +The significance of the first is that marriage is not merely a licence +whereby an unclean act is permitted as a sop to human weakness. The sex +function, as the integral part of marriage, is acknowledged to be an +actual objective of divine grace. + +The significance of the second doctrine is that wherever two people +eligible to give consent, give it, there is the essence of marriage. Few +non-Catholics realize that though the Church normally requires the +ecclesiastical and civil regulations to be observed, she does not profess +to marry the two persons; she merely pronounces a blessing on their +marriage. She may make conditions before she will give her blessing or +even her witness to the validity of the marriage; but she recognizes that +a marriage may be just as valid on a desert island as in a cathedral.[6] +And hence she really regards adultery, not as does the Puritan, but as an +act which should be sacramental but has been prostituted by the absence of +the love-motive, or by becoming promiscuous rather than constant. Sexual +union may even itself be of the nature of a marriage, and it is +significant that the Church has always insisted on the right of parents +subsequently to legitimize children born out of wedlock; it is the English +law which has forbidden that privilege. + +This is the official Catholic doctrine, however much it has been +assimilated to the Puritan conception by the personnel of the Church. + +Yet the Church has consistently upheld the celibate life as the higher +vocation. She has represented a celibate priesthood as a greater ideal +than a married priesthood. She has exalted Our Lady as a Virgin. She has +insisted on the Virgin Birth. But she has done this, not because sex is +evil, but because celibacy is better. And, as we shall see, religious +celibacy is entirely distinct from a condition in which the sex impulse is +merely repressed. + + + + +Chapter 3: The General Principles of Purity + + +In attempting to define these principles I have no desire to enter into a +controversy of relatives and absolutes. It is sufficient to meet those who +deny that there can be any abstract standard of purity by pointing out +that we know the direction in which to look for what is good and pure. +Just as we know that certain acts are less worthy than others, so we are +aware of the general direction of the nobler activities. + +The first principle to be observed is that relatively _purity is +comparative_. This is a commonplace of all personal estimates. However +much we may adhere to the conception of a moral standard, which is +abstract and unvarying, we realize that there are also personal standards +which vary very much. We do not, for instance, consider a cat to be guilty +of murder when she kills a bird; we do not execute her as we execute men +who have taken human life. We do not even condemn lions or tigers as +homicidal criminals, though we may kill them in self-defence, thus showing +that it is not the distinction between taking animal and human life +which constitutes the crime; it is the difference between the killers. Nor +is it true that we draw a distinction merely between animal and human +responsibility, for even in the human kingdom we apply a comparative moral +standard; we do not consider a savage who steals or kills as being guilty +to the extent which a civilized European would be who performed a similar +act. We are in fact constantly applying a comparative standard to the +comparative intelligences of individuals, and quite rightly, for all +intelligence and moral sense is graded from brute-beast to savage-man and +upwards. + +We must be careful not to avoid this standard of comparative values in +approaching sex morality. So long as we admit that at least there are acts +and principles which, taken in the abstract, approach purity more nearly +than others, we must not judge all individuals by the same standard. We +must not consider a very ordinary, unintelligent, animal-blooded young man +as being excessively sinful for having a vivid sex experience; perhaps he +is living right up to the level of his imperfect standard. We must not +expect people to be more moral than they can be, though it is the duty of +Church and religion to educate them to see that there are better +standards. + +The second principle is simple, but of the deepest importance. + +It consists of the proposition that variety and not uniformity is the +fundamental rule of nature, or, as Christians would hold, the intention of +God. + +I cannot recall any distinctive attribute to which this rule does not +apply. There are an infinite species of creatures, and infinite tastes and +tendencies. Even if we narrow down our field of investigation to one +nation or even a single family, we find that each individual is +approaching life by different byways, with different prejudices and +different temperaments and different conceptions. But throughout history +the majority of the normal type has been inclined to flout this divine +principle. The Puritans, for example, were a particular type who did not +like the gayer life of the world, and preferred a stern evangelical +atmosphere. Consequently they regarded those amusements for which they +happened to possess no partiality, as evil, and whenever they had the +opportunity they suppressed them; they eliminated Christmas and the +mince-pie. Equally we can see that if the normal mechanical Teutonic type +had said that it was unnatural for men to be artistic and had suppressed +the arts, it would have been a disaster for the world. There is not one +vocation, but there are many vocations; all types are the design of +intention, and are there, not to be suppressed, but to carry out their +particular mission. + +This again, is equally true of sex, and we must apply the same conclusions +towards the many types which we shall presently meet, abnormal as well as +normal. The Protestant, for example, really acknowledges a uniform +sex-nature only. You will continually hear a Protestant declaring that it +is unnatural for a man to be a celibate: this is, of course, pure +nonsense. It might be unnatural for a normal sex-nature to remain +celibate, just as it would be unnatural for a natural celibate to marry. +The Catholic Church has been far wiser. She can offer the Religious Life +to the celibate and the Sacrament of Marriage to the non-celibate. There +are few types of individual more unintelligent than that which, while it +cannot so interfere with personal liberty as to compel marriage, persists +in uttering the convention that "every man ought to do his duty to the +State." The truism is true; what is wrong is the failure to conceive that +there is no uniform duty for every man. + +But the third principle is more complex in character, or, rather, in the +considerations which it involves. + +It consists, really, of a re-affirmation as to the Catholic condemnation +of the heresy of Manichæism. + +The Puritan and the type he has evolved do radically regard the physical +as evil. Protestantism, until it became adulterated by the Catholic +movement, eliminated as far as possible, the physical medium in religious +worship. Not only doctrinally, but liturgically, in the abandonment of +ritual and artistic atmosphere, it attempted to limit religion as far as +possible to the spiritual level, and it regarded sacramentalism as evil +because sacramentalism involves an outward physical sign. In the same way +the average Englishman, who has been inculcated, far more than he +realizes, with Calvinist dogma, regards sex as immoral only when it is +physical. A man may indulge in sexual emotion and thought, but so long as +he suppresses any physical act he is not guilty; if this can be regarded +as an exaggeration it is certainly true that popular Protestant theology +regards a man as more immoral if he commits the physical sex-act than if +he thinks of it. It is strange to note how far this theory has departed +from the teaching of Christ, Who declared that "he that lusteth against a +woman hath committed adultery against her in his heart." + +It is obvious the moment we examine this conception that it is utterly +indefensible. If the sex-act is evil[7] because it is physical, then it +is equally evil to eat or drink. And if an attempt is made to avoid this +difficulty by saying that it is evil to debase love by expressing it in a +physical act, or that it is better to love spiritually and non-physically, +then it is equally evil to debase artistic inspiration by expressing it +with paints on a physical canvas, or better to allow melodies to float in +one's mind than to reduce them to the level of a physical composition. + +Without entering into a highly involved philosophy and therefore at the +risk of apparent dogmatism, I wish now to emphasize that there are certain +ascending levels, with which man is concerned. We may confine ourselves to +the physical, the emotional, the mental, and the spiritual levels. The +physical level is the lowest, in so far as man functions there in common +with the animal. He is more active emotionally than the animal. But what +distinguishes him chiefly from the animal, and makes him master over all +brute-creation, is his activity on the mental level. Physically he is less +powerful than the elephant; but because he can function mentally and the +elephant can do so hardly at all, he can employ the elephant as a beast of +labour. Here then we have a distinct gradation, a gradation which +continues to apply within the human kingdom and makes us able to +distinguish a civilised man from a savage. + +We should therefore apply this principle to sex. Sex activity is more pure +or impure according to the level on which it chiefly functions. A man who +traffics with prostitutes is not immoral because he is functioning +physically, but because he is functioning almost entirely on the physical +level. Purity is really sex emphasis on the highest levels. Ideally the +physically sex-act should therefore be a mere expression of spiritual, +mental, emotional love; it should just happen. The moment one begins to +lay the emphasis on the lower levels, the more one becomes correspondingly +less pure. Lust, in fact, is the desire only for physical sex +experience--the wrong proportion and balance. A man's stage of moral +development is to be discovered by the particular level on which he is +most active. + +We must not avoid the consequence of this principle. We must be prepared +to admit as relatively moral, behaviour which popular philosophy might +regard as immoral. We must also be prepared to regard as immoral many +marriages in which the physical is the chief incentive. The lowest stage +of impurity would seem to be reached in cases, whether between man and +harlot, or husband and wife, where the physical function is so emphasized +that artificial physical aids are invoked in order to excite the physical +passions and make them the cause instead of the result of sex emotion and +thought. + + + + +Chapter 4: Celibacy + + +If once the third principle named in the preceding chapter is fully +appreciated, we have already laid the foundation of our moral standard. We +shall have seen that physical expression is the sacramental form of the +invisible and super-physical motive, and that immorality is the shifting +of emphasis from higher to lower levels. We shall be in possession of a +test by which we may in almost all sex problems determine a comparative +virtue or evil of any practice or conduct. + +Now this involves the equally fundamental theory that sex is not entirely +a physical activity. In the popular conception sex is always confused with +physical sex expression. But this conception, I submit, is entirely +inaccurate. Even though Freud may be justifiably criticised for straining +the word "sex" to include many forces which do not directly tend to incite +physical sex activity, he has successfully shown that sex is the motive +behind emotions and conduct which would not popularly be termed sexual at +all. A musician may, for example, be drawing on his sex-energy in +composing or performing musical works; a humanitarian may be sexual in his +diffused love of fellow-men and women. We cannot possibly draw a line and +say that here sex begins and there it ends. We can only admit that it +carries far beyond those particular physical manifestations which we +popularly associate with sex. + +If we accept the principle of ascending levels of physical, emotional, +mental, and spiritual functions, we should expect to find that sex makes +its appearance in more than one form. We know, that is to say, that there +are, not one, but many emotions and thoughts which are directly sexual, +and that there would seem to be every reason why sex, which manifests +variety in its physical expression, should be equally various in the realm +of the mind. Further than this, we are able to advance the principle that +when the emphasis is laid further away from the physical level, the +functioning power on that level weakens. Man, as we have already agreed, +is a more developed animal than the elephant, because he is active in +thought. But he pays the price for this by the inferiority of his physical +strength. Similarly, the less mentally equipped are frequently more +physically powerful. Like all other rules, there are of course exceptions. +But there does seem to be a principle, and a principle that we should +logically expect, that the more man functions on what we have described +as super-physical levels, the less powerful his strength on the physical +level becomes. + +Again, we have seen that, morally, the physical level is the lowest. The +highest human developments are those which the animal cannot reach. The +ordinary physical instincts are not evil, they are simply less evolved. +Some of them, like the sense of maternity, are good. But we cannot doubt +that man's superiority over the animal lies precisely in his ability to do +what the animal cannot do, and that, therefore, the realm of mind is +"higher" than the realm of action. + +When the Catholic Church therefore presents religious celibacy[8] as being +the higher vocation she is enunciating this very principle. She is not +suggesting that non-celibacy is an evil state. We do not pretend that the +profession of crossing-sweeper is evil because the profession of prime +minister is a higher ambition; indeed, it would be probably disastrous to +persuade a man who had a natural ability to be a crossing-sweeper to +qualify as a prime minister. Relatively, a man performs his moral duty in +fulfilling his vocation, for whatever grade it may be designed. The true +religious celibate is the extreme exception; no one should attempt such +perfection who has not the actual call. The means by which we realize our +true vocation is too individual a question to enter upon here. + +The whole fault of the puritanic conception of sex is to assume that +complete repression should be attempted by all men, and that marriage is +solely a concession to failure.[9] + +Almost the exact reverse is the truth. The celibate is a rare product. And +moreover he is not one in whom sex is repressed; he is essentially a human +being in whom the sex-force is sublimated into non-physical channels. This +may take the form of extreme religious devotion, in wide humanitarianism, +in a love of children or animals, in artistic creation or scientific +research. It becomes true celibacy only when the individual instinct is so +far diverted towards these energies that desire for physical sex functions +becomes eliminated. Nor is it true that such a man is barren; he is +procreating, as really as the father, a mental or spiritual progeny. + +We cannot emphasize this distinction too strongly. For the vast majority +of men the celibate life is not intended, and to some extent, though, as +we shall see, not entirely, other rules apply. What indeed we have so +carefully to distinguish is the transference of sex from the repression of +sex. To transfer the sex-force is a healthy and natural energy, whereas to +repress sex is an evil which must always tend to produce unfortunate +results. + + + + +Chapter 5: Non-Celibacy + + +We have now arrived at a point where we can emphasize a further +distinction. We must, in fact, differentiate between those emotions and +thoughts which are sexual in the sense that they naturally incite physical +sex functions, and those which manifest themselves in non-sexual +activities. It may be true that the energy which is exercised in the +latter way is itself sexual; that does not matter for our immediate +purpose. It is sufficient that the force is at work in a non-sexual +channel. + +Here then we have two entirely different processes. The first is the +shifting of the emphasis of the sex-force from body to mind, so that the +sex-force ceases to be concentrated in physical sex-acts and begins to be +concerned rather with love emotion and sex-thought; the second is the +transmutation of the sex-force to non-sexual channels. Both of these +processes are necessary in the life of the non-celibate. + +The latter process is what happens naturally in the case of the true +religious celibate. His development and temperament are such that his +sex-nature finds a complete expression, as we have already seen, in such +directions as a general love of humanity, an intense spiritual devotion, +the worship of art or nature. There is no repression, but a full exercise +of the sex activities in a "non-sexual" direction. + +The vast majority of men, however, are not so developed, and are not +intended to carry out such a life. Yet, for them, too, this process must +be to some extent adopted. It is largely a matter of common-sense. The +animal exercises no restraint; whenever the sex-impulse arises, it is +satisfied--so far, of course, as the opportunity is provided. But as we +trace the conduct of the more developed species from savage to civilized +man we are conscious of a new element of will-power. The influences which +cause this power to come into operation may vary. Religious obligations, +considerations of business, social, or intellectual responsibilities, help +to intervene. An intelligent man simply cannot afford to give vent to sex +proclivities every time they arise; he has other interests which must of +necessity at many times of the day have the first claim. Imagine a man who +sacrificed a business engagement for some sex gratification! Often in the +recent war a man, however strong his sexual emotions, would be forced to +cast away all ideas of sex in order to dodge a shell; his mind for +continuous periods would be so driven with anxieties and the stress of +responsibility that sex would sink into insignificance. This is an extreme +instance, but to a lesser degree it is what is happening to everyone who +leads a normal life. The more developed the man, the wider his +intellectual interests; and it is precisely in this capacity to exercise +his will-power that he proves his superiority over the animal. + +This process of transmutation is the remedy which must be applied in cases +where men find themselves the victims of sexual emotion out of all true +proportion, whether in married or unmarried life. Mere repression is +useless; it is actually harmful. But the mind must be switched off to dig +a thought-passage in other directions, in non-sexual interests. Where +there is undue sex obsession there is disease. And this mental +transference is the chief cure. Really, this transmutation is a diffusing +of the sex-force into a wide general area. The man is no longer +concentrating all his sex-energy in love for one particular person; he is +beginning sexually to love all humanity. He is finding sexual expression +in the "non-sexual" forms of art or nature. He is still in love--but in +love with love, rather than with one separate personal fragment of the +whole. + +But with the ordinary man, there must remain a balance of sexual +inclination which cannot entirely be transmuted. Here we encounter the +first process, and our problem, particularly in non-married life, becomes +acute. Is it possible, and is it healthy, to deny the sex-instincts all +satisfaction? Different answers are given by religious advisers and by men +of the world, while even in the ranks of the medical profession there is +no consensus of opinion. + +I suggest that there is only one general principle which can be our guide. + +The natural tendency of all sexual thought and emotion is to find its +outlet in physical expression of some kind. If a man indulges in sexual +thought, it is almost impossible for him to avoid a physical result. He +may have recourse to prostitution or he may commit solitary practices. The +tendency of Puritan morality is, as we have seen, to regard the physical +act as the sin and to avoid the conclusion that the thought is evil; +consequently the patient is urged at all cost to refrain from action. Let +it be stated, quite frankly, that this attitude is scientifically and +morally indefensible. It is the thought rather than the act on which the +responsibility should be weighed. I have no hesitation whatever in +asserting that it is worse, medically and morally, for the individual to +indulge in sexual thought and repress the consequent action, than to +commit it. The mere absence of physical conduct is harmful and deplorable +if the mind is a seething mass of sexual energy which is being denied all +outlet. + +The first duty in such cases is, as we have seen, to apply the process of +transmuting this sexual thought to non-sexual interests, so far as this +can be done. The extent to which this is possible must vary in each +individual nature. The comparative balance then remains. And here we must +bring into play the moral principle to which I have already +referred--namely that the morality of sex is determined by the extent to +which love is the motive. Sex inspired by love is moral; sex inspired by +any other motive is not. The part which the physical sex-force should +alone play is the sacramental expression of pure love; so employed it is a +perfect and divine activity. When the love-motive is absent, or is not the +dominant incentive, the sex-force becomes comparatively immoral and +abused. + +This is a general principle which can be rigidly employed. And I do not +want to escape from the consequences of this doctrine. It appears to me +the one natural, fundamental principle upon which a moral standard can be +based. Therefore I am ready to accept the conclusion that there are many +marriages which are highly immoral because the sex-act is not an +expression of love, but either a mere mechanical duty or the result of a +physical and emotional excitement, as distinct from love. On the other +hand there are many sex adventures, inspired by love, which do not occur +within the matrimonial state. This principle alone must guide us in any +moral estimate we draw. + +Let us apply this doctrine by taking the simple case of a man and woman +who are accused of having committed adultery. We inquire first, whether +mutual love was the true motive, whether in fact the act of adultery was +an unpremeditated incident which occurred as naturally as the kiss which a +child gives to its mother. We draw a clear moral line between the sort of +assignation which has for its one object the gratification of physical +sensations, or the even lower motive, so far as the prostitute is +concerned, of substituting for love the earning of a few shillings. But +suppose we are satisfied that the physical act was not the object but the +result, and that there was love. We go on to ask how deep was the love, +and if a deep love is alleged, we ask why the parties are not married. For +it is doubtful whether normal love can be wholly spasmodic. It seems +contrary to the very nature of love that a man should love one woman for +an hour and then throw her over for someone else. The essence of love +tends to completeness and permanence. + +But we will imagine that even these conditions are satisfied, and that +financial difficulties or parental objections alone prevent the formal +marriage. We have also discovered that the two people have loved each +other for some time, and that there is not therefore simply a sudden +fascination, but a love based on knowledge and matured by experience. We +are then left with a technical and not a moral offence. In effect a +marriage has taken place; there has been the consent which is the essence +of the union. It is only when the Catholic conception of the sacrament of +matrimony is abandoned that we find ourselves regarding the ceremony in +Church or registry-office as the union, and that therefore a moral offence +is committed in the sex-act where no such ceremony has taken place. It is +true that the parties would be in honour bound to receive the blessing of +the Church. The union is irregular; but it is a true union. + +Incidentally, I suggest that this theory may be the basis of the +scriptural exception in St. Matthew's gospel made as regards divorce where +there has been "fornication," or a pre-marital sex-act--namely that by +this act a natural marriage has been consummated, and that the subsequent +marriage is therefore invalid. + +One might almost draw up a schedule of the tests which should be applied +whenever we may happen to be forced to adjudicate as to the morality of +any sex-behaviour. For already there have emerged certain definite +test-principles. There is the consideration of the standard of the +relative degree of intelligence to which the particular individual has +developed, and of the fact that there are many types of sex-temperament. +On the other hand we see that the direction of absolute morality to which +our faces should be set, is the raising of the sex-force to super-physical +levels, so that the physical side becomes a mere incident, or is even +eliminated altogether. Then we apply the rule that there must be an +exercise of restraint and will-power, so that sex obsession is entirely +avoided. The extent to which the mind can be diverted from sexual channels +must depend on the stage of development which the individual has reached. +Lastly, we apply the test of how far love, so deep and pure that it is +permanent rather than spasmodic, a monopoly rather than promiscuous, is +the motive. + +Modern society has gone, I contend, as much astray in drifting to the +extreme of considering all things permissible, as has Puritanism in +regarding the sex-act outside marriage as in all circumstances a deadly +evil. And I can only marvel that this latter attitude is taken up so +often in the name of the Christian religion, when its Founder, while +declaring that at the last day it would be "more tolerable for Sodom and +Gomorrah than for the Scribes and Pharisees," also said to the woman taken +in adultery, "Neither do I condemn thee; go thy way, from henceforth sin +no more." + + + + +Chapter 6: Divorce + + +In leaving the moorland of general principles for the fields of particular +problems it will be convenient to group sex natures under three heads: (1) +the normal or hetero-sexual, (2) the invert or homo-sexual, and (3) the +neuter or sexless. It is necessary only to add that it will not be +possible to deal in more than the merest outline with any of these +important questions. + +The most prominent of the problems concerned with the normal group is that +of divorce. The problem arises because on the one hand there is a sense +that marriage ought to be a permanent state, while on the other, there are +many human exigences which go to break up particular marriages. +Separation, without permission to re-marry, is of course an admitted +remedy. But the question then arises whether parties so separated will +continue to live as celibates; and as it appears certain that the vast +majority will not, we have to ask whether it is better to legalise the +fresh unions which are formed, or to permit adultery. + +Every modern State has wrestled with this problem, and for the most part +ineffectually. Where there is no divorce, as in England before 1857,[10] +or among the poorer classes who cannot afford divorce, irregular unions +and prostitution undoubtedly flourish. Where a compromise is introduced, +the permanence of marriage, and therefore of the home, becomes +correspondingly impaired, while there are left a number of unhappy cases +for which divorce is not allowed.[11] The English civil law is +particularly unhappy in its compromise. It is based on the Protestant +interpretation of the passage in St. Matthew already mentioned, namely +that divorce is permissible where adultery has occurred, and it goes on to +make it easier for the husband to sue for divorce when the wife has +committed adultery than for the wife to do so in the reverse +circumstances. Hence it places a premium on adultery, and exaggerates its +importance as regards other sins. It deliberately incites an unhappy wife +to commit adultery in order to obtain relief--she can usually evade the +vigilance of the King's Proctor--and it singles out adultery as a worse +sin than, let us say, cruelty or habitual drunkenness, for which divorce +is not at present obtainable. In fact it is difficult to find any logical +or moral defence for the English law as it stands. + +Let us first see how far the popular critics of the Catholic doctrine of +indissoluble marriage are wrong. They regard marriage as simply a +contract, from which it follows that divorce should be obtained by mutual +consent, or even on the application of one of the parties. But this +ignores, among other things, one vital natural law. Marriage begets +parenthood, and between the parents of the same child there is a definite +and permanent relationship. No Act of Parliament can make men and women +cease to be the parents of their own children. Nor, even in childless +marriages, is the sense of permanence an artificial convention which can +be abolished by the decree of a court. The deeper the love, the more +permanent must its nature tend to be. Love is not a contract; it is a +spiritual bond. + +It is impossible, I contend, to think of a normally healthy marriage +without realizing that both the man and woman naturally enter into it with +the assumption that it will be a permanent relationship. The possibility +of a family, the break-up of the maiden life--even the furnishing of a +home, is evidence of a strong probability in the minds of the parties that +the step which is being taken is something more than a temporary contract. +Indeed, the marriage is only temporary if unhappiness arises. Men and +women marry because they want to enter into as permanent a relationship as +possible; they enter into it because, as they say, they wish to "settle +down." The natural desire of man is that marriage should be permanent. + +A reversion to free love would be more than the undoing of the evolution +from animal to man. It would completely change the basis of human society. +And in proportion as any divorce law encourages the conception of a +temporary contract this dangerous instability of home-life is threatened. +Americans sometimes describe their own laws as approaching the "ideal." +"The question will soon be," wrote a journalist describing the American +"smart set," "who is to be your husband next year?"--or, "Has your last +season's wife re-married yet?" This is of course an exaggeration; but it +is a warning as to logical developments. + +In fact, divorce tends to create itself. Divorce is only applied for where +the marriage is unhappy. A fair proportion of unhappy marriages arise +because they have been hastily entered into; with due inquiry many of +them could have been prevented. But the easier divorce is to obtain, the +more incentive will be given to enter into these hasty marriages--the type +of union which so often gives rise to divorce. + +On the other hand, whatever their cause, there are marriages in which all +trace of love has disappeared, and it may fairly be argued that the union +is dead. Thus a husband may, in later years, become incurably insane or +habitually drunk. There are many unions in which the one party has married +in blind infatuation only to discover that the partner is so contemptible +a creature as to destroy all vestige of love. Such unions remain marriages +in formality only; their pretended existence is a sacrilege, particularly +if there are no children and the husband and wife are not therefore +co-related as parents. + +For all such cases the Catholic Church permits divorce (_a mensa et +thoro_)--or separation, as it is known in civil law, without permission to +re-marry. The issue, therefore, becomes simply a question as to whether it +is right to expect the parties so separated to remain celibate. + +In an outline such as this, I suppose that one can only attempt a summary +reply to these questions. If, for a moment, we are to exclude the +complications of a subsequent love-affair there appears to me to be no +reason whatever why any man or woman should not remain celibate during the +lifetime of the divorced partner. The _journalese_ theory that it is +unnatural and unhealthy for people so to remain is simply untrue, so long +as the celibacy takes the form of sublimation or transmutation and not +repression. The complication of an intense love-romance however, is a +serious proposition. Ought two people in love to remain sexually apart +simply because one of them is still married to, let us say, an incurable +lunatic? In principle there seems to be every reason why they should; no +actual physical or mental harm is done to them, provided they have a +sufficiently developed will-power to transfer their sex-desire into other +channels of activity. The sacrifice will be immense, but it is no more +than any man has to make who refrains from marrying his beloved because he +is too poor or is suffering from some disease which may affect his +children. In this case the sacrifice is offered for the supremely +important principle that only God, by the act of death, can undo the +vinculum of the original marriage. + +But I am equally sure that most people under these or less intense +circumstances will not remain celibate. + +Therefore, to descend from theory to practice, I see no alternative but to +draw a rigid line between civil and religious marriages. The State must +make its own arrangements and go its own way. But there should always be a +higher type of marriage where the Catholic Church has been invoked for her +blessing. And for those who choose to ask for this sacrament, the union +should be irrevocable, save by death. The parties will receive that +sacrament knowing what a heavy responsibility they are assuming. And it is +only right that the Church should be far more particular in refusing to +prostitute her sacramental grace on unions which ought not to be +consummated. She ought, I conceive, rigidly to inquire into the +desirability of the union, and not to give her blessing unless she is +satisfied that both parties are giving their consent with as full a +knowledge of the facts as is humanly possible. Equally she should refuse +her ministrations where she is unconvinced that love is the motive of the +marriage. I see no reason why some form of sponsorship should not be +demanded. + +And I think it may be argued that a consent without a knowledge of the +facts is not a valid consent, and that such a union is null. I should +welcome a careful extension of the decree of nullity, for that reason. + + + + +Chapter 7: Eugenics and Prostitution + + +The doctrine that love is the only motive for sex--that physical +expression is pure only so far as it is the sacramental accidence of +love--leads to important conclusions. There is, for instance, a class of +moralist who teach that the sex-act in marriage must only be for the +purpose of procreation. It would follow from this that it is immoral for +sex intimacies to occur between a man and his wife once she has passed a +certain age. In the ideal marriage, so this school of thought affirms, +copulation is strictly regulated and occurs only when the moment is +favourable for generation. + +To this theory I cannot subscribe. It runs counter to the doctrine in +which I believe. It Changes the sex-act from an incident or a result to a +means or a cause. It is really immoral because it lays emphasis on the +physical. This cold-blooded calculation of the times when sex is to be +thus physically expressed is the exact opposite of the principle by which +love directs and the act merely occurs, with no purpose but to express +love physically. + +This leads us to a consideration as to how far those practices between man +and woman are moral in which procreation cannot result. It is interesting +to note that the English law holds that "unnatural" acts between husband +and wife are criminal. Although it is true that prosecution cannot occur +unless there is an absence of consent, for otherwise there would be no +evidence--these acts are apparently regarded as _per se_ criminal in +nature. And this indeed is a logical position, when we remember the +standpoint which the State adopts towards all sex questions. + +To this class of conduct artificial preventatives are closely allied. A +chaos of opinion rages over this subject, from the neo-malthusian who +advocates the practice as a necessity, to the purist who talks of +"child-murder." It seems clear that this latter designation is an +unwarrantable exaggeration; to prevent the possibility of life coming into +existence cannot by any strain of imagination be confused with destroying +what is actually alive. On the other hand, the moral test which we are +applying to all these problems hardly acquits the practice. It is +difficult to think of preventatives without being conscious that +premeditation of the physical act is being emphasized, and the ideal of a +natural incident almost banished. To prepare for a thing is to insist on +its importance. The minds of the two parties must almost necessarily be +focussed--though not absolutely necessarily--on the physical sex-act. + +There is no doubt however that, apart from ideals, preventatives are a +means of averting more serious evils. This is not the place to enter into +a detailed consideration of eugenics. We can only face the blatant fact +that thousands of degenerate parents continue each year to breed +degenerate children. The moral aspect with which alone I am dealing, is +that this is a crime against the community; however irresponsible or +ignorant the perpetrators, they are helping to burden the State with an +altogether undesirable progeny. Now, whether they are allowed to marry or +not, there is not the least likelihood that they will desist from sexual +intercourse. Therefore, it seems to me an obviously lesser evil to remove +all excuse for procreation by placing within reach the artificial means of +prevention. + +In this, just as in the divorce problem, we have to determine whether it +is better to insist on an ideal, which we know the majority will not keep, +or to legislate down to the majority. There is no doubt in my own mind +that to legislate on an ideal is not only impracticable but dangerous. I +may believe, for instance, that it would be a higher ideal to live on +vegetables and fruit rather than to slaughter animals and drink their +blood. But even so, I should vehemently oppose a law which attempted to +impose vegetarianism. + +I believe, too, that every moral influence should be brought to bear +against marriages where the physical or mental degeneracy[12] of the +parents renders the use of preventatives desirable. I wish to emphasize +that the ideal towards which we should set our faces is that of fewer but +healthier marriages. Both Church and State should, I feel, take pains to +assure themselves that these undesirable elements are absent in all unions +which they are respectively called upon to solemnize. And I emphasize this +because I believe that we are suffering far too much from the popular +fallacy and the smug Puritanic doctrine that the cure for all sexual +proclivities is for men and women to marry, and that once they marry all +things are sexually permissible. It is not only irritating, but it is a +fallacy, for men who are comfortably married to declare that there is +"really no sex-problem." There is probably as much immorality within the +married state as outside it; and far from it being the duty of every man +to marry, there are many men whose duty it is not to do so. + +Closely allied with eugenics is the problem of venereal disease, and out +of this again, arises the problem of prostitution. How far is prostitution +tolerable, so that a medical system of registration should be introduced +into England? We have seen why prostitution is immoral; it is concerned +with the physical side of sex, and with little else. But no thoughtful man +could reasonably advocate the suppression of prostitution by law. The +result of such a measure, at the present state of national development, +would be deplorable, even if it were practicable. People do not become +moral because they are frightened to do what they still want to do. It is +always a confession of the weakness of religion or moral influences where +you have to fall back on the police-force of the State for support. In +moral questions, State prosecution seems only to be justifiable where the +liberty of individuals, or the welfare of the community, is endangered. + +Prostitution[13] as an evil can only be treated by the slow process of +moral education. Of that I shall speak later. But it is worth while +remembering in this connexion, that the feminist movement must have a +beneficial effect, to some extent, on prostitution. Largely, it is an +economic problem. If a woman were able to earn a decent wage, it is +inconceivable that she should wish to submit herself to every voluptuous +patron who happens to come along. Education and economic independence must +tend largely to breed dissatisfaction with such a slavish occupation. It +will not do so entirely, for a certain percentage of women are prostitutes +because they hunger for promiscuous sex intercourse. + +That some serious attempt must be made, not merely to alleviate, but to +prevent venereal disease, is evident to all who are aware how widespread +it has become. And it may therefore be pointed out that it would not be +impossible to prosecute the prostitute, suffering from these diseases, +without introducing the vexed question of registration and official +recognition of prostitution. All unmarried men and women below a certain +age could be compelled to submit to periodical medical examination, and if +any person was found to have solicited, after having been certified as +infected, prosecution would lie. Probably a storm of protest would be +aroused against an alleged interference with individual privacy. But the +danger of syphilis may necessitate such a law, and after all, no one is +being asked to do more than that to which every soldier and sailor has to +submit. + +We have seen that love, and therefore marriage, naturally contains the +sense of permanence. There is also a sense of distaste towards incest, and +of the apparently natural evils arising therefrom. No-one will deny that +the State and the Catholic Church are scientifically justified in +insisting upon some table of prohibited degrees. How far this distaste is +essentially natural I do not know. I imagine that a sister who had been +separated from her brother since birth, and who did not know that he was +her brother, might fall in love with him. But the scientific dangers of +such marriages would remain.[14] + +The Church of England some years ago found herself immersed in a storm of +controversy over the Deceased Wife's Sister Act. To most men her attitude +seemed pedantic and unworthy of serious attention. The English Church is +unfortunate: her apparently narrow ecclesiasticism was really the result +of a liberal policy at the time of the Reformation. During the Middle +Ages the Church had extended her prohibited degrees to such an extent that +it must have been difficult to know whom one could marry without a +dispensation.[15] Only a person more than four degrees removed from the +other party was an eligible partner without dispensation, the degrees so +being reckoned as to include even second cousins. The English Church swept +away these anomalies and concentrated on an irreducible minimum of +prohibition up to three degrees (reckoned in direct ascending and +descending generation from the common ancestor)--thus sacrificing all +regulation against marriage between first cousins, who are four degrees +removed. + +The real opposition to the ecclesiastical attitude was, however, that any +affinity, as distinguished from consanguinity, should be a bar to +marriage. The unhappy deceased wife's sister was merely a convenient +representative. But this is a controversy which is not sufficiently +imminent to engage us in these pages. + + + + +Chapter 8: The Homosexual Temperament + + +We must now pass from the normal or hetero-sexual to the second-class of +sex-temperament. This is the homosexual--that in which the individual's +sex attraction is directed towards the same sex. And here it will be +necessary to utter a note of warning. The sex instinct lies so deep in +human nature that many men are incapable of regarding sex characteristics +save through their own temperamental colour. Normal men are frequently +found, for instance, of such underdeveloped mental faculties that they +start out with an immense sex prejudice against the homosexual. Without +being able to consider the question impartially they abhor this variety as +an unspeakable evil. It is essential that we should place such critics +outside the area of practical investigation. The homosexual tendency may +be as evil as they imagine it to be, but we must only arrive at that +conclusion as a result of impartial and incontestable reason. And any man +who cannot undertake that inquiry is as valueless for our purpose as are +his prejudicial opinions; he must simply go back to the nursery. + +Let us therefore, as far as is individually possible, attempt to treat +this question with an open mind. And accordingly we shall find it most +convenient first to consider the various attitudes which have been taken +up with regard to this difficult problem. + +The legal or State attitude we have already to some extent anticipated. +The State looks with suspicious eyes on any influence which tends to +sterilize the birth-rate. Accordingly, in England, homosexuality is +branded as a crime for which a heavy sentence can be pronounced. It is +true that legally this sentence, under the Criminal Amendment Act, can +only be inflicted for the physical sex-act itself; but this includes any +assault or any behaviour which may be construed as an attempt to lead up +to the commission of the act. And, accordingly, any man is legally under +suspicion if he is thought to be homosexual, even though no perpetration +of the physical offence can be alleged against him. The hideous system of +blackmail is thus encouraged by the law. Once a man is understood to be +subject to these proclivities, it is assumed that sooner or later he will +commit the offence, and he is watched, if not by the over-busy police, by +those idle persons who trade upon the legal attitude toward this problem. +Any conversation or literature on the subject is suppressed, so far as is +possible, by the State, because the physical expression being a crime, all +that may become an incentive to the crime is itself criminal. + +We have already mentioned the basic fallacy of the legal attitude. It does +not follow that because a line of conduct may decrease the birth-rate, it +is therefore wrong. Celibacy, as we have seen, may be an actual virtue. +But in this particular instance there is a still more serious error. The +English law, by branding homosexuality as a crime, assumes that it is a +deliberate perversion; for it would be obviously ridiculous to punish a +man for doing what he could not help doing. Even the law is not so +illogical as to sentence a madman to penal servitude because he insists on +being mad. No, the State regards the homosexual as one who has of his own +choice assumed this form of sex temperament, in the same way as a man +decides to rob or forge a signature. The legal attitude _must_ rest on +this supposition, for otherwise its policy would be flagrantly unjust. And +accordingly we find the law classifying this family of behaviour as +"unnatural." + +Now, if there is one fact which is clear from an investigation of the +problem, it is that this supposition is as false as it is possible for +any supposition to be. Let it be granted that a certain number of +homosexual offences are committed by persons who are sexually normal in +temperament. There remains the whole body of homosexuals, of those, that +is to say, in whom the homogenic attraction is as integral a part of their +nature as the appreciation of music or the love of colour. Abundant proof +of this contention is to hand. There have been thousands of individuals in +every age, including the present, who have never heard of +homosexuality,[16] have never met other homosexuals, or come into contact +with anything approaching homosexual practice; and yet they have been +homosexual all their lives. I have known persons who believed that no one +else in the world shared their aspirations, and also have suffered +tortures because of their supposed isolated abnormality. + +The State attitude simply ignores this factor, and accordingly reveals +itself as unscientific. + +It is true that perhaps by such an agency as psycho-analysis reasons could +be found in many of these cases why the individual had developed on +inverted sex lines; home repressions, the system of early education, the +age of the parents, these or other influences, may have produced a complex +which has switched the sex-nature on to a particular path. But these +reasons do not necessarily show the result to be artificial; it is our +very nature indeed which these influences construct. It is impossible to +trace an exact line between the inherent nature and the effect which +outside influences have had upon it. We must, and we do in fact, regard +the permanent and fundamental traits, however derived, as "natural." + +Moreover psycho-analysis definitely indicates that there is a homosexual +period through which all individuals inevitably pass. + +The State theory that the temperament is "unnatural" cannot therefore be +supported on any grounds, except in the cases where it is deliberately +assumed by normal persons. In most cases it is natural to the individual's +nature, and not "unnatural," but "abnormal." + +Once this simple scientific truth is grasped the legal attitude is seen to +crumble in all directions. The case for criminal prosecution rests +logically on the assumption that unless homosexual practices are rigidly +suppressed they will spread. And since their increase would seriously +diminish the birth-rate the State is necessarily anxious to avert this +danger. But it is an odd perversion which imagines that sober respectable +citizens are only restrained from indulging in homosexual vice by the +threat of penal servitude! Once the scientific truth is grasped and +homosexuality is seen to be, except in a small number of cases, the +natural temperament of a small minority, it will be realized that normal +persons are not likely to wish to commit unnatural acts, whether there is +or there is not a penal law; nor can any Act of Parliament prevent +homosexuals from being homosexual. + +And in practice this theoretical conclusion is found to hold true. For in +the countries, such as France, where the Code Napoléon does not cover +these prosecutions, homosexuality is far less rife than in England, or in +Germany, where until the Revolution the penal law was rigidly enforced. + +It is well that we should face these facts unreservedly, however strong +may be our personal antipathy to the practices. + + * * * * * + +The second attitude may be described generally as that of society. Public +opinion must necessarily be too vague to admit of succinct definition. But +generally its attitude towards this question may be defined as that of an +ordinary man towards a freak; he has no sympathy with freaks and indeed +dislikes them--but they are so very rare that he can afford to ignore +them. + +The problem of the homosexual cannot however be avoided in this way, for +the simple reason that the invert forms so comparatively large and +permanent a part of the community. It is difficult to attempt an accurate +estimate, partly because many homosexuals are so afraid of incurring the +odium of public opinion that they successfully disguise their true nature +and are unsuspected even by their most intimate friends. But there is a +more fundamental difficulty. It appears to be undeniable that a large +number of normal people possess to some extent a strain of the homosexual +temperament. We have, in fact, as in almost all classifications, not a +naturally dividing gulf but a gradually ascending scale. Some individuals +may have only 5 per cent. inverted and 95 per cent. hetero-sexual +tendencies, while others are only 10 per cent. normal. There are a large +and increasing number of persons who are almost equally balanced on either +side. These bisexuals often marry happily and at the same time enjoy +homogenic experiences. + +When we remember that, according to psycho-analysis, everyone about the +age of puberty passes through a homosexual stage, it is probably not an +exaggeration to state that few people fail to preserve a stratum of this +nature, however small the percentage and however deeply such tendencies +may be buried in the unconsciousness. + +If however we decide to draw an arbitrary distinction and to define +persons with less than 30 per cent. inverted nature as normal, persons +from 30 to 60 per cent. as bisexual, and the remainder as homosexual, we +are left with a considerable number of the last variety. Havelock Ellis +has reckoned the percentage of homosexuals among the professional middle +classes in England as 5 per cent. and among women as 10 per cent.[17] In +any case the popular view that the proportion is so small as to be +negligible is quite impossible, and is due to the fact that most men are +so unobservant of psychological evidence that their opinion is of little +serious value. + +However undesirable, then, this species of temperament may be, it cannot +be described as unnatural in the sense of artificial or unusual. The third +or current scientific attitude does seem at first to avoid these +superstitions and to rest on a reasonable basis. This attitude may be +described as that of regarding homosexuality as a disease, which should +neither be punished nor ignored, but treated. The theory that we all pass +through a homosexual period at a comparatively early stage, lends support +to this conclusion. The hero-age of boys and girls, it is urged, is almost +always directed towards the child's own sex. Therefore it can fairly be +argued that where the sex development has been restricted to these lines +it denotes some strange dislocation which has prevented natural growth. +The fact that in some cases this cause can actually be traced--such as a +disappointment in an early love affair with the opposite sex, or to +artificial circumstances which have made for celibacy--confirm many +students of sex-science in this opinion. + +But as if nature deliberately intends to thwart all easily attained +explanations, she sets out certain facts, in practice, which entirely +invalidate the theory. It is true that many homosexuals, both men and +women, portray in general mental efficiency that peculiar want of +proportion in some direction which is the inevitable symptom of mental +abnormality; the male may be obviously effeminate, or, male or female, +eccentric or hysterical. But this is distinctly the exception. So far as +my personal experience goes, the majority of homosexuals are +indistinguishable from normal men, except by some psychic or intuitional +sense, in physical or mental appearance; and I observe that this +experience is shared by all those scientists who have written on the +subject. The undeniable facts are that among this minority of the race a +majority of men have, in all ages and races, held a pre-eminent and +honourable position in society, revealing the brilliance of sanity rather +than the abnormality of genius. The homosexual has succeeded not only as +might have been expected in the arts. It is true that, in general, he +possesses certain feminine attributes, such as a gentler and more +emotional positivity than the normal. But he has excelled in such +masculine paths as soldiering, statesmanship, and engineering. It is +almost irritating, where one wishes to find support for the scientific +explanation, to turn to history and discover that the homosexual section +of the Greeks were magnificent warriors as well as philosophers; that not +only Shakespeare, who wrote many of his sonnets to a boy, or Michael +Angelo, but Alexander the Great, Charles XII of Sweden, Frederick II of +Prussia, and William III of England, had their homosexual tendencies. +Indeed, were it permissible to do so, it would be possible to instance +some of our most famous generals and politicians of modern times as +possessing this unmistakable temperament. + +It is well then freely to admit that the scientific theory simply does +not square with the full facts of the case. + +The fourth attitude is that of religion. The Church's official position is +mainly indistinguishable from that of the State, although the atmosphere +of the Church has tended largely to be congenial to this development. It +is evident that Christianity was influenced in its early days by the +appalling condition of vice in Roman society, and it is not to be wondered +at that a severe legacy of prejudice has been inherited in the light of +this indescribable experience. But this brings us conveniently to a point +where we must admit a fallacy underlying almost all considerations of the +homogenic sex nature. And unless we are able to dispose of the fallacy in +our minds, further investigation is useless. + +The fallacy consists of the assumption that homosexuality means only the +perpetration of the physical sex-act. In reality this is as untrue as to +suppose that the normal man is necessarily a patron of prostitutes. Such a +confusion of thought is obviously ludicrous. But not less inaccurate is +this prevailing idea regarding the homosexual. Not only is the particular +sex-act, popularly associated with this subject, an extremely rare +occurence, even as among the physical sex-expressions of this temperament, +but probably a vast majority of homosexuals are deliberately celibate. +Homosexuality is a romantic cult rather than a physical vice. Nine-tenths +of its energy is directed purely in the realm of ideals. The old +misconception of sex as a rather disreputable physical function again dogs +our steps. But sex is almost entirely emotional; sex-love, and especially +homosexual love, is not lust. Its desire is romantic and idealistic, and +when physical incidents occur, they are usually the unintentional outlets +of the purely emotional passion. + +The literature of homosexuality is almost entirely romantic, and small +though it is forced to be, in quality and ideal its average must rank as +extraordinarily noble. + +It is noticeable, indeed, that in a large proportion of the unpleasant +cases which are tried in police-courts, the offenders are admittedly +normal men who have deliberately perpetrated homosexual acts for various +causes, such as a neurotic desire for novelty, or the desire to avoid +disease. There are also the considerable class of perverted normals whose +deviation from their natural path as the result of some such influence as +heterosexual disappointment or repression, has been so emphasized as to +render their perversion distinct from natural developments, and who +refuse, or are unable, to deny themselves physical gratification. + +If we dissociate the true homosexual from this class, and concentrate our +attention only on the "celibate" species of such attachments, it is +evident that we are in the presence, not merely of something which is not +criminal, but of an ideal which is sacred in character. Pure love, +especially so intense a love as the homogenic attachment, is not profane +but divine. And though the Church may be unable to recognize it by her +sacramental benediction, because, unlike marriage, it cannot effect +physical procreation, she possesses such Biblical precedents as the story +of David and Jonathan--an episode which is obviously homosexual in the +sense that it describes not a platonic companionship but a romantic +passion. + +In the social sphere also, the place of this aspect of homosexuality is +obvious. The homosexual must, and does in fact, exist in the most honoured +offices of the community. Indeed, it is no exaggeration to declare that +few men can be successful in educational or philanthropic work unless they +have some homogenic temperament in their nature. Without this they may +compel discipline but they are powerless to attract sympathetic +co-operation. The testimony in favour of this assertion is overwhelming. + +But when we admit that sex tends to find a physical expression, and we +come therefore face to face with the physical problem, the difficulty I +admit to be considerable. And I can only re-emphasize that this feature +is numerically and potentially the least important, but that there can be +no religious countenance for any physical sex-act outside the sacrament of +matrimony. + + * * * * * + +Rape, and seduction without consent, are obviously evils calling for legal +prosecution, as being an infringement of personal liberty. And in this +connexion it must be remembered that homosexual practices tend to +seduction, inasmuch as the attraction is frequently towards those who have +not attained intellectual manhood. For the rest, I am inclined only to +re-affirm the general principle which I have already attempted to +define--namely, that sex becomes a sin where the main objective becomes +the physical gratification. Once the proportion is weighed on the side of +physical expression, love is prostituted. The purity of true love is known +by the fact that its face is turned not to mere physical functions, but +beyond the emotional and even mental, to the spiritual ideal. Indeed, a +lover, whatever his temperament happens to be, loves even if his beloved +is removed from all physical reach. That is the test. + +I do not look for salvation to the arms of mere criminal legislation. This +seems to me to be almost powerless as a moral force, and indeed, to +encourage the hideous apparatus of blackmail.[18] Gradual and +unsensational as it may be, I believe that morals can only be improved by +educational and religious influences. + +And so far as theoretical solutions are concerned I believe that Mr. +Edward Carpenter[19] comes nearest to the truth. Nature is deliberate in +creating not uniformity but variety, and I doubt if the world would +continue if there were only normal men in it. The homosexual has his +place, within restrictions, as has the celibate or the sexless type. The +real truth, I feel to be, is that few men are wholly masculine or women +feminine, and that somewhere, in comparative degrees, homosexuality is in +us all. It may become so excessive as to be a disease, or so feeble as to +create that unæsthetic, bourgeoise type, which is an unpleasant symptom +of super-normality. + +We enter the realm of pure conjecture if we attempt to inquire the purpose +for which this type has been deliberately created. And I can only record +my own entirely unproveable, but definite opinion, that the human race, in +the far ages ahead, will return, by a spiral process, to the bisexual +species from which I believe it has come. If this is so, the homosexual is +apparently a prototype, a preliminary attempt of nature to combine both +sex-natures in one individual. And with all his present imperfections, I +believe that there are evidences which go strongly to support this +conjecture. + + + + +Chapter 9: The Sexless Class + + +There is little that need be written on this subject, not because it is +devoid of interest, but because it raises no vital sex problem. + +The number of sexless people is small, though apparently increasing. It +may be questioned whether there are any really sexless people--individuals, +i.e. whose sex-nature is non-existent. Probably in most of these cases +sex, for some reason or other, is there, dormant but positive. But it is +convenient so to classify those in whom, for some reason, the sex-force +has never yet been stirred. + +It must be remembered that this class is quite distinct from the religious +celibate. The celibate has all the sexual ardour for his religious or +humanitarian devotion. The sexless man or woman is cold, intellectually +aloof, and generally critical. + +There are only two considerations calling for remarks on this interesting +psychological problem. The first is that we must not allow the great body +of normal opinion to label such people as unnatural, and as having no part +to play in the community. They have, on the contrary, an important rôle. +Their intellectual ability is in itself a great asset, particularly in +abstract and critical directions. And in all sex questions they should, +and frequently have, an impartial outlook, for the very reason that they +can view sex from a detached standpoint. + +But, conversely--and this is the second consideration--they possess the +immoral tendency of regarding sex with abhorrence, especially when they +confuse sex with mere physical expression. In extreme cases the sexless +individual has been known even to faint or exhibit symptoms of nausea at +the chance touch of a woman. This is obviously to magnify the physical +side out of all clean proportion. And probably such cases show themselves +to be the result of artificial repression and consequent complex. It may +be argued from this that all deviations from the normal are the results of +repression. But, as we have seen, the difference between natural and +unnatural is comparative, and most of our nature is built up, in the first +instance, by early exterior influences. + + + + +Chapter 10: Super-Abnormalities + + +Under this head I have included a number of characteristics, which have no +connective bearing upon one another. It seemed the most convenient +classification. + +Perhaps it will be best to take as the first example a sex tendency which +can hardly be described as super-abnormal, for among single men, and +especially among boys, it is extremely common. + +Auto-eroticism in the form of self-abuse is not an easy problem to tackle. +The usual policy adopted towards boys is most immoral. Well-meaning but +hopelessly vicious purists, write terrifying pamphlets or deliver lectures +in which they declare that this practice will inevitably lead to lunacy, +paralysis or even death. The result is that the boy is scared into an +ineffectual attempt at repression, which, so far as it is successful, sets +the sex-impulse at work into morose channels and makes him a liar or a +thief. Or he may be impelled to inquire for himself. He finds that, so +long as self-abuse occurs infrequently, it does not bring about these dire +evils, and accordingly he assumes that all moral doctrine is hypocrisy +and often falls into the opposite extreme of constant self-abuse, with the +result that actual physical and mental deterioration sets in. + +What is really the truth? + +The first consideration is that frequent and unregulated abuse does cause +physical harm. The margin of frequency which will escape this harm varies +with the individual. But, with growing boys, the practice is perhaps more +dangerous than after physical maturity. The whole reserve of the physical +constitution appears to be needed while the body is developing. + +The difficulty of this problem is its complications. There are several +entirely conflicting influences which must be weighed one against the +other. + +We have seen the physical danger, and, since morality must not be founded +on a lie, we must freely admit that the physical danger may be eliminated +by limiting the frequency of the practice. It may then be physically +harmless. There remain, however, at least two causes which make for a +misuse of the sex-force, that is--for immorality. The first is that it is +usually the result of mental weakness, sheer inability to overcome the +inclination. The mind, the will, _must_ be supreme in its own house. Until +that is done little else matters. And it comes, therefore, to this, so far +as this particular consideration is concerned, that it is better for a +man deliberately to regulate himself by programme to certain times, than +to keep up an ineffectual struggle, or to obey whenever the inclination +arises. + +For, in both these cases, remorse follows. And this is as great an evil as +the failure of will; indeed, it _is_ failure of will. Remorse is not +penitence. It is useless thereby to regret what has been done. A man must +simply own to himself that he has failed, make a resolution to be stronger +next time, and then sweep the recollection from his mind, switching off on +to other mental channels. + +The second influence which makes for impurity is that by this practice the +sex-force becomes literally selfish. Now, sex is fundamentally a movement +towards union through love, whether it be physical or super-physical. This +practice is merely a vicious circle, in which the love element, save in +the perverted form of narcissism, is absent. Accordingly, there must, +almost always, be evil mental results from this abuse. And, once again, we +see that the real evil is not in the physical act but in the realm of +thought, whether the act occurs or not. + +On the other hand, we must not become such abstract moralists as to deny +that in many individuals the sex-force is so strong as to press almost +irresistibly towards physical expression. Even dreams, which are the +normal outlet, may not be sufficient. A man who for some reason, cannot +marry, will therefore argue that his only alternative is recourse to +prostitution, and that self-abuse, so long as it is regulated, is morally +preferable. One remedy is, as we have already seen, the transfer of the +sex-force to higher channels, so that all the glow and energy of sex is +energized in devotion to a group of persons, or to a religious or +humanitarian ideal in concrete labour. For sex is primarily creative, and +if it is not creating physical children it may have, and should have, a +spiritual progeny--as in art and literature. + +The truth is that each individual case must be treated according to its +particular state of development. General rules in this instance are +particularly dangerous. We can only repeat that the repression is worse +than commission, that a seething mass of sexual thought is worse when it +has no physical outlet; that the ideal, when there may be no legitimate +outlet--and, indeed, to some extent, in all cases--is to find an emotional +outlet, to dig thought and emotional channels along which the sex-force +may flow, but the physical expression of which is, in the ordinary sense +of the term, non-sexual.[20] + +And this is quite possible. + + +II + +Attraction towards young children is frequently, perhaps almost entirely, +sexual. A symptom of this temperament is that romantic attachments are +formed towards either sex, because, before puberty, the child is bisexual +or sexless. This must essentially be a cult; it is a clean and noble cult, +but the penalty of its high standard is that here all physical sex +expression must be denied except in the lesser form of embrace. + +Here, indeed, the prosecution of the law against sex-acts is justified. +For, not only is the child incapable of giving valid consent, but the +commission of the sex-act is physically and morally injurious. It is +physically injurious beyond all doubt at a young age, and it is morally +injurious, because it introduces sex to an age of development when the +consciousness of sex should not have appeared above the horizon. The +inevitable result is that if sex-acts take place the child eventually ages +rapidly, as can be seen among the child-mothers of India. Maturity is +induced far before its time. + +The sex consciousness, as distinct from the unconsciousness, can be +awakened in the earliest years of childhood. The young boy or girl often +shows an extraordinarily intuitive perception that there is a sexual +design behind even the apparently harmless overtures. And this is why this +cult is particularly dangerous. The lover, in fact, must not only entirely +eliminate the morally criminal sex inclinations, but he must take care not +to become so sentimental and romantic as really to suggest sex to the +child's unconsciousness. It is difficult to draw the line as to what is a +lawful and what is an unlawful expression of this sex-temperament. One can +only say that the remedy is not to concentrate love on one child, but on +children generally. The child must not be treated as an adult; there must +be no manifestations of jealousy, or insistence on a return of love +expression. The embrace of children must be natural but not too ardent. In +fact, the lover must diffuse his love and romp with children as a class +rather than allow himself to appear emotional over one individual. + +Many unthinking people will at once regard this temperament as impure when +they have been convinced that scientifically it is sexual. But this is +only because they cannot understand that sex is a clean thing and that the +physical side of it is an occasional and by no means an inevitable +incident. The cult of child-love is in fact one of the purest and noblest +of sex-expressions. But it is a difficult path, and he who treads it must +beware of many pitfalls. + +Again, I quite deny that it is due to thwarted paternal instinct. I +believe it to be as natural a variety as any other of the +sex-temperaments. We have suffered too long from the superstition that sex +is a uniformity of type. + + +III + +Then there is that strange form of sex-expression known as bestiality. + +To most of us the connexion between man and beast in sex is so revolting +that there is a great danger of our prejudice running away with us. + +I believe that prejudice against what seems to me so debased a vice, is +justifiable. But I am equally sure that to punish such offences by +criminal law has no shred of justification, except when the act is done in +public so as to be openly indecent. No physical or moral harm can be done +to the animal. And were it not tragic, the idea of sentencing the +offenders to penal servitude would be itself a travesty. + +The practice, which is not so uncommon as many people imagine, is not so +much immoral as unnatural. I mean that this can hardly ever be a variety +of sex-temperament. Although the love of women for pet dogs is probably a +form of perverted sex-outlet, it seems impossible to discover here any +actual love going out towards animals rather than to humans. Therefore, +the act is almost always due to a desire for mere physical expression, +when this happens to have been chosen as the most convenient. + +The true remedy, therefore, can only be to take the individual and educate +him. He must be shown that it is immoral for man to devolve back to the +animal level. He is superior to the beast. He must be reminded that sex +must be a result of love, and that sex-love between man and animal would +only be possible if it were moral for man to cease to reason, to go down +on all fours, and to eat and drink and live like an animal. Even the most +primitive man would not wish to do that. And if he feels any sense of +abhorrence at such a proposal, then he must learn to extend his abhorrence +to any attempt at a similar equality in sex. + + +IV + +The strange and almost endless forms of sex-association need not be +considered, since they have no moral problem of their own. The man whose +sex-force is stirred into energy by the sight of some inanimate physical +object is obviously the victim of a sex-repression. And such diseases must +be treated as any other repressions should be. These general +considerations must suffice here for all forms of sex perversions, such as +sadism and its converse. And it is not difficult to distinguish between +the unnaturalness of such practices and the natural character of the main +sex-types which we have already mentioned. + + + + +Chapter XI: Sex Education + + +It is becoming evident to all students of the sex-problem that the remedy +for many of the difficulties arising therefrom is a wholesome and +efficient sex-education. + +In many cases the parents are not the persons most fitted to give this +education. They may not possess the art of imparting knowledge, and often +there is a certain reticence between parent and child, which when present +creates a bar to the proper handling of this question. The child goes to +school to learn, and the school must take its share of this +responsibility. Where this is not done the effect is deplorable. In the +preparatory school sex has hardly appeared. But in any school where there +are older boys or girls, and where sex-education is not given, knowledge +is rapidly obtained. Officially sex is ignored until, on rare occasions, +it is detected. Severe punishment is then meted out, and perhaps the +offender is even expelled, although the school is really penalizing the +results of its own system. + +It is unnecessary to labour the apology that the absence of sex-education +ensures innocence. In no school is this the case. If it were, with growing +boys and girls, it would be unnatural. Sex-instinct is bound to grow as +the physical body grows, and to ignore this fact is to create the +conception that sex-instinct is immoral. We then obtain the usual attitude +adopted in public schools--that sex is to be indulged behind closed doors +and sex literature sniggered at in dark corners. The boy grows up with a +totally unclean view of sex. He becomes either an intolerable prude, or +else he approaches sex-experience with an entirely twisted conception of +sex-morality. One is continually meeting instances of this perverted +imagination. Not only boys, but men, will regard an outspoken book on sex, +perhaps written with the purest of motives, as "hot stuff," something to +be greedily devoured when the eye of respectable authority is conveniently +removed. Recently, a man was told that a certain clergyman was a member of +a group of students studying sex-psychology. He expressed the opinion, +with a knowing leer, that "some parsons are not such fools after all." + +These crude examples of the result of driving sex into a dark corner +exactly represent what one is up against in school, and in the world, when +one begins to deal with sex openly and cleanly as a natural and +non-repressible instinct. Really these people are a type of prude, much +as they would resent this classification, for they persist in regarding +sex as something which is rather naughty. They even imagine that to take +away from it the cloak of unnaturalness with which they have surrounded it +is to rob it of all its attraction. This is ridiculously untrue. Sex is +attractive because it is romantic, and, so long as one does not go to the +opposite extreme of regarding it merely through the musty glasses of +scientific classification, it becomes no less attractive when it is open +and natural, and ceases to be the cause of giggling asides. + +Before any moral sense in the sex-problem can be established there must be +a fundamental cleaning of this cess-pool, this strange medley of official +silence, unnatural repression, and unclean secretiveness. The main road to +a moral sense is sex-education. And it is necessary, therefore, to +conclude this outline of principles by suggesting some conditions which +should govern such instruction. + +It is obvious that sex-education must be advanced on the process of a +sliding scale. Before puberty sex should not appear on the horizon of the +child's consciousness. The precocious child must of course be specially +dealt with, but usually the first lessons in sex should commence with the +period of mental puberty. Before that time the small child jokes only +about the normal excretory functions, and this can be adjusted by +emphasizing the unmanly and unnecessary character of such forms of humour. +A child has usually an exaggerated impression of the value of the adult +standard, an impression which it must be confessed is too often subject to +subsequent disillusionment. While it remains, however, it can be used, and +it can be pointed out that "grown-ups" do not consider the excretory +system has any more claim to ridicule than the process of digestion or +sleep. Vulgarity and coarseness are not symptoms even of immoral +sexuality. + +The problem commences, then, with puberty. And here a warning should be +uttered against that school of reformers which tends to the view that sex +can be regarded as naturally and as publicly as natural history or +chemistry. This attitude ignores the fact that there is such a quality as +sexual appetite. And consequently, sex education should be rather a matter +for individuals than for public instruction. We have remarked that the +parent may not infrequently be an unfortunate educator. But where these +objections do not arise, the home is an admirable atmosphere for sensible +teaching. The Catholic Church possesses the invaluable medium of the +Confessional, and where the Confessor can give sound sex instruction no +better opportunity can be imagined. There remains the school, but even +here better work will be done in the study than the classroom. + +The immediate problem in the early post-puberty age is the tendency +towards solitary practices. It must be recognized that this is usual with +all children, and that there is no evidence to show that, save in extreme +exceptions, physical harm results. All attempt at _alarmist prudism_ must +be abandoned. Sane instruction will tend rather to emphasize that sex +abuse is due to a weakness of will-power, and that man is most manly, i.e. +most removed from the animal, in the exercise of will-power. All education +should contain that subject which is at present consistently ignored, +namely, the art of thought-control. The child will be interested to follow +certain simple rules of mental exercise, and where this is followed the +liability to indulge in sex-acts diminishes. It is this element which must +be emphasized, the fact, that is, that solitary practices are usually the +result of an inability to exercise the will and control the mind. + +At a slightly later period, the public-school age, there emerges the +tendency, in addition to onanism, for promiscuous practices, usually of a +homogenic nature. A further stage of sex-education must now be opened out, +namely the principle that physical sex expression must be the expression +only of love. The problem now becomes necessarily more acute, but there is +this element which tends to lessen the difficulties of the instructor's +task. The individual is always interested about himself; he is naturally +egotistical. The youth will gladly listen to what can be told him of his +own nature. He must be shown the immense superiority of mind both over the +emotional and physical natures. This may involve a slight dethronement of +the public school appreciation of sport. So long as it is slight such a +dethronement will be a reform in itself. The boy in his middle teens must +be taught that man is greater in his mental than in his physical activity; +he must be reminded that he is inferior to many animals on the physical +level. The application of this doctrine to sex is that sex-expression for +the purpose of physical curiosity or excitement is a denial of the +monopoly of love, which belongs to the emotional and mental capacities. + +The young man and the girl, who has left school, will be ready to receive +the whole standard of sex-morality as has been outlined in this manual. +The chief trouble now becomes over-sentimentality, the tendency to develop +emotionally at the expense of the mind. And it becomes, therefore, +essential to remind the pupil that where there are continual passing and +promiscuous sexual or love affairs, the mind is being shut out from its +natural functions. To be attracted sexually towards any pretty girl, to +develop sexual relations with different women from week to week, is simply +a form of mental unbalance. The emotions are in the saddle. For directly +the mind begins to operate there is introduced the element of permanency +and constancy. The deepest and most real pleasures only begin in the realm +of mentality. The man who hears music only to beat time or remember a +catchy tune is shut out of the immense joy of the intellectual love of +music. So the young man who lives in a fever of hot-house sexuality, of +absorbing intrigues in the dance-room, or the morbid atmosphere of the +street corner, is shut out of all the exquisite joys of love. He does not +know this, any more than the irreligious man knows what he loses through +an absence of the spiritual sense. But he must be told. + +The basic principle of sex values is that sex is immoral so far as the +physical side outweighs in proportion the emotional and mental--so far +indeed, as the act becomes the motive and not the incident. Sex may be +dedicated only to love; divorced from love, it is an abuse. There can be +no exceptions to this rule, and we can only clarify our ideas as to what +is and what is not love. Perhaps this maxim, which we learn by gradual +experience, will help us. Sex passion quickly burns itself out. The +pleasures derived from passion will be of a purely temporary nature, +without the satisfaction which alone comes from permanence. All physical +things are less permanent than the mental. There is no joy, no divine +nature in sex, save where from the ashes of passion rises the phoenix of +the "sexual" but the super-passionate attachment. And this permanent +possession can only come, whether in marriage or outside, where the mind, +healthily developed and exercised, is taking its true place in the +expression of pure love. + + +_Printed in Great Britain by Hazell, Watson & Viney, Ld., London and +Aylesbury._ + + + + +Footnotes: + +[1] _The Origin of Sexual Modesty_, by Edward Westermarck. + +[2] _Vide_ R. V. Jellyman (1838) 8 C and P, 604. + +[3] Until recently incest was not a civil offence. + +[4] The second object of marriage is declared to be "a remedy against +sin...; that such persons as have not the gift of continency marry and +keep themselves undefiled members of Christ's body." + +[5] 1 Cor. vii. 8, 9. "Burn" means sex-obsession as mentioned on page 38. + +[6] "Where the decree Tametsi of the Council of Trent has not been +proclaimed, marriage is constituted by mere consent freely exchanged +between persons who are by natural and canonical law competent and able to +intermarry."--Geary's _Marriage and Family Relations_. (Now altered by _Ne +temere_-decree, but the principle remains.) + +[7] We have already commented on the strange inconsistency of regarding +the sex-act as evil _per se_ outside marriage, and as a virtue in +marriage. + +[8] I am using "celibacy" to imply complete physical chastity. + +[9] With the curious inconsistency, already referred to, that in marriage +non-celibacy is a virtue. + +[10] Except by Act of Parliament. + +[11] The Majority Report of the Divorce Commission is a good instance of +the unnecessary hardship which results from half-hearted proposals of this +kind. Divorce is to be allowed, for example, after desertion for three +years; why not for two? Or again, the wife of an incurable drunkard is to +be free to obtain divorce, while the unhappy wife of a man who suffers +from violent fits of intermittent drunkenness is to be denied this relief. + +[12] I refrain from adding "economic" reasons, for I believe that the +State should remove, as far as possible, all such obstacles against +healthy parents begetting children. + +[13] Procuration for the purpose of prostitution is of course an entirely +different matter. + +[14] No actual physical harm need result from an incestuous union. The +only effect which seems to be caused is that the characteristics to be +hereditarily transmitted are doubled. Thus with only a small grain of +insanity in a family the chances of aggravated insanity appearing in the +offspring of a brother and sister would be considerable. + +[15] Spiritual affinity was a bar, so that not only could not godparents +marry each other, but there could be no valid unions between a godparent +and the child's father or mother. (Geary's _Marriage and Family +Relations_.) + +[16] Some apology must be made for the use of this hybrid term. The +unwarrantable confusion of Greek and Latin terminology must, however, be +laid at the door of popular use. + +[17] _Psychology of Sex_; Vol. _Sexual Inversion_. Dr. Hirschfeld in his +_Statistischen Vatersuchunge über den Prozentensetz der Homosexuellen_, +considers that out of 100,000 inhabitants, 94,600 on the average are +sexually normal, 1,500 exclusively homosexual, and 3,900 bisexual. + +[18] The existence of this danger was admitted in a debate in the House of +Lords on August 15, 1921, on The Criminal Law Amendment Bill. The Earl of +Malmesbury, speaking on a proposal to apply criminal prosecution to +homosexual offences among women, declared that "the opportunity for +blackmail will be vastly and enormously increased." Other speakers +concurred in this view, and it was partly on this ground that the proposal +was thrown out. + +It is hardly necessary to point out that if blackmail would be encouraged +by such legislation, it must equally be encouraged by the present law +regarding similar offences between males. + +[19] _The Intermediate Sex._ + +[20] I cannot enter here into that further theory which may be described +as "expression through a phantasy." + + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's An Outline of Sexual Morality, by Kenneth Ingram + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK AN OUTLINE OF SEXUAL MORALITY *** + +***** This file should be named 34309-8.txt or 34309-8.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/3/4/3/0/34309/ + +Produced by The Online Distributed Proofreading Team at +http://www.pgdp.net (This file was produced from images +generously made available by The Internet Archive/American +Libraries.) + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: An Outline of Sexual Morality + +Author: Kenneth Ingram + +Release Date: November 14, 2010 [EBook #34309] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK AN OUTLINE OF SEXUAL MORALITY *** + + + + +Produced by The Online Distributed Proofreading Team at +http://www.pgdp.net (This file was produced from images +generously made available by The Internet Archive/American +Libraries.) + + + + + + +</pre> + + + + +<h1>An Outline of Sexual Morality</h1> +<p> </p><p> </p> +<h1>An Outline of<br />Sexual Morality</h1> +<p> </p> +<h2>Kenneth Ingram</h2> +<p> </p> +<h3><i>The Introduction</i> by F. W. W. Griffin, M.A.,<br />M.D., M.R.C.S., L.R.C.P.</h3> +<p> </p> +<p class="center"><strong>Jonathan Cape<br />Eleven Gower Street, London</strong></p> +<p> </p><p> </p> +<p class="center"><i>First published 1922</i><br /><i>All Rights reserved</i></p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_1" id="Page_1">[Pg 1]</a></span></p> +<h2>Author’s Note</h2> + +<div class="note"> +<p class="dropcap"><span class="caps">I am</span> anxious to take this opportunity of thanking those friends who have +helped me by valuable suggestion and criticism in correcting the proofs of +this small book. In particular I desire to mention Canon Lacey and Dr. +Griffin, and to apologize for the amount of time which I must have stolen +from them.</p> + +<p class="right"><span class="smcap">Kenneth Ingram</span></p> + +<p><i>March 1922</i></p></div> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_2" id="Page_2">[Pg 2]</a></span></p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_3" id="Page_3">[Pg 3]</a></span></p> +<h2>Introduction</h2> + +<p class="dropcap"><span class="caps">Any</span> honest inquiry into the Primal Instincts of humanity will necessarily +lead to a clearer understanding of their nature, their functions, and +their potentialities, and so will help to pave the way for the appearance +of a healthier and happier race of men. The dictum “Learn to know +yourself,” inscribed on the Temple of Apollo at Delphi, has never been of +more vital importance, both individually and nationally, than it is +to-day, and the various schools of modern psychological thought, which are +steadily opening up those hitherto scarcely explored regions whence flow +the springs of human actions, are gradually clearing away the ignorance +which has been the real cause of so much disease and distress. The +following chapters are to be welcomed particularly as an effort at the +constructional reform of our treatment of one of our deepest and most +powerful instincts. Even those who do not necessarily give assent to all +the details in the line of argument therein pursued must surely approve +the insistence upon the vital necessity of there being love in all sex +relationships.</p> + +<p>The word “sexual,” though indispensable perhaps in such a book as this, +invariably induces some measure of opposition by reason of the +associations which it calls up, and so is often replaced by the cognate +<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_4" id="Page_4">[Pg 4]</a></span>adjective “racial,” which emphasizes the wider aims of Race Preservation +rather than the narrower matter of the reproduction of individuals. It is +not a matter of curing individual immorality, not even of explaining it +only, it is the greater matter of laying a sound foundation for a +practicable social morality that is the object of consideration here. It +is important that any such opposition should be neither hypocritical nor +hyper-critical, for great national issues are at stake. Without the +healthy mind there can be no healthy body, at any rate from the point of +view of the community, and thus such a scientific inquiry as is set forth +in these pages is definitely leading towards the production of a healthier +nation.</p> + +<p>The necessity of there being established a balance between an unlimited +self-expression and a rigid self-repression is clearly indicated also, and +the importance of self-control is not ignored here as it has been +elsewhere, unfortunately, both as regards the individual’s physical health +and the weal of the community at large; for self-control is a vital +essential in the health of a man just as it is a vital necessity for the +continuance of a nation. The following pages contain information and +suggestions which should tend to the formation of a wiser and more hopeful +outlook over the problems of sexual morality, and should therefore receive +the careful consideration of all who have the interests of humanity at heart.</p> + +<p class="right">F. W. W. <span class="smcap">Griffin</span><br /> +M.A., M.D., M.R.C.S., L.R.C.P.</p> + +<p><i>March 1922</i></p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_5" id="Page_5">[Pg 5]</a></span></p> +<h2>Contents</h2> + +<table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="5" summary="table"> +<tr><td><small>CHAPTER</small></td><td> </td><td align="right"><small>PAGE</small></td></tr> +<tr><td align="right">1.</td><td>APOLOGIA</td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_7">7</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="right">2.</td><td>OFFICIAL ATTITUDES TOWARDS SEX</td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_13">13</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="right">3.</td><td>THE GENERAL PRINCIPLES OF PURITY</td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_23">23</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="right">4.</td><td>CELIBACY</td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_31">31</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="right">5.</td><td>NON-CELIBACY</td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_36">36</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="right">6.</td><td>DIVORCE</td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_45">45</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="right">7.</td><td>EUGENICS AND PROSTITUTION</td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_52">52</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="right">8.</td><td>THE HOMOSEXUAL TEMPERAMENT</td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_60">60</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="right">9.</td><td>THE SEXLESS CLASS</td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_76">76</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="right">10.</td><td>SUPER-ABNORMALITIES</td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_78">78</a></td></tr> +<tr><td align="right">11.</td><td>SEX EDUCATION</td><td align="right"><a href="#Page_87">87</a></td></tr></table> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_6" id="Page_6">[Pg 6]</a></span></p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_7" id="Page_7">[Pg 7]</a></span></p> +<h1>An Outline of Sexual Morality</h1> +<p> </p> +<h2>Chapter 1: Apologia</h2> + +<p class="dropcap"><span class="caps">I have</span> been impelled to attempt this definition of sexual morality for at +least three reasons. The first is that, at this moment particularly, +science is emphasizing the large responsibility which sex assumes in our +lives. We may think that Freud has overestimated this influence; +nevertheless, all psycho-analysis tends to show that the sex-force cannot +be wholly repressed and that even with the most passionless individuals +sex is the unconscious motive in a large percentage of their activities. +It is well therefore that we should have as clear a conception as possible +as to the moral rights of this enormous factor in our lives.</p> + +<p>Secondly, a handbook of this kind is perhaps the most convenient medium +for defining my personal attitude towards this problem. My own views are, +of course, unimportant, but it so happens that I have often been asked, in +private conversations, to define<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_8" id="Page_8">[Pg 8]</a></span> them. Now to summarize them to the +extent which a casual conversation must almost necessarily entail, is +difficult; and often, I suspect, I may have given a wholly wrong +impression. I am anxious to set that right.</p> + +<p>But my chief reason is the chaos of public opinion on this question. One +is continually having this fact forced on one. Largely this is the result +of transition and reaction. In England, the country to which I shall +almost entirely confine myself, we have been enormously affected by that +presentation of religion which has been called Puritanism. We have been +steeped in the theology of Milton. All forms of religion—Catholic as well +as Protestant—have been comparatively infected. When we speak of the +“religious attitude” towards any question, we find ourselves irresistibly +considering the Puritan attitude.</p> + +<p>It is not, I think, unfair to define the influence of Puritanism as a +tendency to regard all amusement with disfavour. The original Puritans +were notoriously dour in their manner and their dress. It has been said +that they attacked the sport of bear-baiting, because it gave pleasure to +the onlookers, and not because it was painful to the bears. Sunday, on +which the outward observance of religion was necessarily concentrated, +became a day of complete<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_9" id="Page_9">[Pg 9]</a></span> abstention from worldly recreation. Puritanism +might supply spiritual compensation, but anything which gave pleasure to +the senses was essentially evil. Thus art and beauty were banished from +religious services and sacred buildings. Not only was the stage an +entrance to hell, but a consistent Puritan like Bunyan prayed God to +forgive him the sin of having played a game of hockey.</p> + +<p>Puritanism had reached its zenith, not of intensity but of universality, +by the latter half of the last century. Those of us who are old enough to +have been Victorians were brought up on comparative doses of the Puritan +medicine. Especially among the middle-classes the history of every English +family from the eighties till the War is extraordinarily similar; it +consists of a series of emancipations. Our grandparents were almost +entirely Puritan in their manner of living, our parents had compromised +and extricated themselves to some degree, and our children have become +almost wholly free. How many of us realize that up to the seventies it was +quite improper for a lady to ride on the top of an omnibus?</p> + +<p>In no instance was the effect of Puritanism stronger than on sex. For sex +is pre-eminently inspired by a desire for pleasure, whether it be +spiritual, emotional, or carnal. On this score alone it would have been<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_10" id="Page_10">[Pg 10]</a></span> +marked out as a deadly evil. But there was a further indictment in the +Puritan creed. According to the Miltonian interpretation Paradise had been +lost on account of the sex impulse; “original sin” was nothing more or +less than the sense of sex—the loss of sexual ignorance. Accordingly the +whole sex-nature was regarded as evil, and sex generally became a taboo, a +closed subject to which no reference could be made. Victorian Puritanism +often, indeed, suggests the ostrich burying his head in the sand—the +attempt to remedy evil by pretending that it does not exist.</p> + +<p>The effect of Puritanism on the Victorian was precisely this conformity of +outward behaviour. It assumed that all men and women were innocent, and +that, except in marriage, sex played no part in life. It pretended they +were innocent, and it made them only respectable. Parents would often +refrain, on the plea that innocence must not be disturbed, from teaching +their children anything about sex. So impure and evil a subject must not +be referred to. Such unpleasant problems as venereal disease must be +hidden out of sight, although prostitution and venereal disease continue +to flourish. The Victorian, in fact, carried out the Puritan doctrine that +all sex is evil, by outwardly pretending that, unless married, he +possessed no sexual instinct. Actually<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_11" id="Page_11">[Pg 11]</a></span> he was no more inclined to +abstention than any other human generation has been.</p> + +<p>Indeed, we do not find any evidence that Puritanism succeeds in carrying +its anti-sex theories into practice. In South Wales, for example, where +Puritanism has established a particular stronghold, sexual laxity is +peculiarly marked.</p> + +<p>The reaction from Puritanism, especially in regard to sex, has been +precipitated and exaggerated by the Great War. We have therefore in modern +society two opposing policies. Among those who have thrown over all +“religious” observance and have freed themselves entirely from Puritanism, +there seems to be a complete absence of any moral sex-standard. We can +appreciate that impasse if we consider the inability of the sex-novel or +play to suggest any form of conduct which is immoral. Those who still +adhere to organized religion continue to look at sex largely through +Puritan spectacles. The “fallen woman” or the convicted clergyman is +genuinely regarded as being guilty of the most damning of all offences. +The sexual laxity of the neo-Georgian is used as a convincing argument +that once the Puritan view is abandoned, complete anarchy is the only +alternative. Religious teachers continue to preach what many of them would +deny to be Puritan doctrine, but what I hope to prove<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_12" id="Page_12">[Pg 12]</a></span> belongs peculiarly +to that aspect of Christianity. And meanwhile the “non-religious world” +pronounces the opposite extreme.</p> + +<p>It is because I believe both these attitudes to contain error, that I am +anxious to contribute the foundation for some principle in the current +deadlock.</p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_13" id="Page_13">[Pg 13]</a></span></p> +<h2>Chapter 2: Official Attitudes towards Sex</h2> + +<p class="dropcap"><span class="caps">It</span> will now be convenient to define the chief collective or official +attitudes towards sex. In a mere outline such as this handbook professes +to be, we may divide these attitudes into three, and label them the +popular attitude, the legal or State attitude, and the religious attitude.</p> + +<p>With the popular attitude we have already largely dealt. It is still in a +transitory, confused state, merging at one end into the old Puritan +extreme, and at the other to mere negativism, mere opposition to Puritan +asceticism, and without even an attempt to reconstruct a moral standard. +This perhaps is an inevitable stage in any transition; but it is none the +less unsatisfactory. Man cannot succeed without a standard; and moreover +we know intuitively that all things are not morally permissible. If there +is purity and beauty and divinity in life, there must be impurity and sin. +Will it be considered an exaggeration if I say that it is almost better to +have a Puritan standard than none at all? The Roundhead at least was more +than a match for the Cavalier because he had a positive inspiration.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_14" id="Page_14">[Pg 14]</a></span>But there is one common feature in this chaos of evolving popular opinion. +The vulgar mind tends to measure morality by what is usual. The sins which +most men commit are regarded as hardly evil; the acts which may not be +evil, are regarded as sins if they are peculiar. Thus an occasional lapse +from continency on the part of a young man is popularly regarded as not +very reprehensible, whereas the perpetrator of some weird act of +bestiality would be hounded to prison. The flaw in this estimate is not +only that the normal standard varies in race and age, but that there is no +single human sex nature; there are infinite varieties. To condemn variety +<i>per se</i> is, as we shall presently observe, a contradiction of the laws of +nature.</p> + +<p>The gradual emancipation of society from the taboo on sex in conversation +is an undoubted gain. We owe such men as Bernard Shaw a debt of gratitude +for the way in which they have forced sex reference into the play, and +therefore on public notice. But if this is to result in eliminating sex +modesty it is creating evils greater than those which it seeks to remove. +I will not here embark upon a consideration of such a theory as that which +has been interestingly propounded by Mr. Westermarck, namely that there is +a relationship between sexual modesty and the feeling against<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_15" id="Page_15">[Pg 15]</a></span> incest.<small><a name="f1.1" id="f1.1" href="#f1">[1]</a></small> +I will only insist that modesty is natural in all qualities which we +regard as sacred.</p> + +<p>If we are modest about sex in our conversation to the extent of placing a +taboo on sex, and allowing sexual problems to remain unsolved, or in +letting our children confuse innocence with ignorance, we are on +indefensible ground; indefensible, I think, because our modesty is based +on the Puritan doctrine that sex is at heart an unclean thing. I wish +especially to defend modesty because sex is so clean. We do not want to +vulgarize by public reference our most spiritual experiences, our sense of +love, our feeling of exaltation in the presence of what is beautiful and +divine. We speak of these things only at more sacred moments, if at all. +We must be careful, too, lest in a reaction from taboo we allow science to +rob sex of its romantic and divine character. We have carefully to +preserve the centre of gravitation between two extremes. We should look +askance at a man who collected in a glass bottle, and analysed, his +mother’s tears.</p> + +<p>In this connexion it may be well to call attention to the inconsistency of +the male in making the sex-act a subject for humour. Whatever our +religious belief, we know that the sex-act is the means of procreation, +and is, for this reason alone, a sacred<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_16" id="Page_16">[Pg 16]</a></span> function. It seems inconsistent, +therefore, that we should so persistently treat it as a mark for ridicule.</p> + +<hr style="width: 25%;" /> + +<p>The second general attitude is that of the State, or legislature. Here we +find ourselves in the presence of a consistent motive. The State is +concerned only with the preservation of the birth-rate; any sex behaviour +which defeats this object it regards as immoral and punishable. The State +cannot interfere so far with individual privacy as to punish masturbation +or artificial means of restraint; but it does go to the extent of +punishing “unnatural” acts between husband and wife,<small><a name="f2.1" id="f2.1" href="#f2">[2]</a></small> and in America, +the State has even penalized the activities of the neo-Malthusian +propaganda. All sex abnormalities are rigidly punished, whereas the +procreation of children outside wedlock is not a legal offence.<small><a name="f3.1" id="f3.1" href="#f3">[3]</a></small></p> + +<p>This is a consistent attitude, but it suggests one serious flaw. Whatever +may have been the case in early days when an increase of population was +essential, there can be little doubt that to-day that necessity has +diminished. Indeed, without entering into the Malthusian controversy, it +is almost impossible to deny that at the moment we are suffering largely +from over-population. Consequently, <span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_17" id="Page_17">[Pg 17]</a></span>whatever opportunist policy may +dictate, we cannot poise our estimate of morality on so shifting a basis +as the needs of population. Instinctively we cannot associate morality in +anything with the legal attitude. There are many acts even outside the sex +sphere which most of us would consider immoral, but which are unpunished +by law, and others which are illegal but are not immoral; it is immoral to +lie, but unless we lie on oath there is no State offence; it is punishable +to ride a bicycle without lights after dark, but we are conscious of no +moral delinquency in so doing.</p> + +<hr style="width: 25%;" /> + +<p>The third attitude is that of religion. We have already discussed the +Puritan attitude and the manner in which it has permeated our unconscious +religious thought. In the Anglican marriage-service there appears at first +sight to be some endorsement of the theory that the sex-act is unclean and +is only permitted in marriage as a concession to human weakness.<small><a name="f4.1" id="f4.1" href="#f4">[4]</a></small> This +doctrine owes its derivation to St. Paul, although it is important to +notice that St. Paul specially emphasizes that he is not speaking +ex-cathedra: “I say therefore to the unmarried and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_18" id="Page_18">[Pg 18]</a></span> widows it is good for +them to remain even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry; for +it is better to marry than to burn.”<small><a name="f5.1" id="f5.1" href="#f5">[5]</a></small></p> + +<p>These words will probably be used as an argument against the statement +that it is a specifically Puritan doctrine to regard the sex-act as +unclean. It will be urged that the early Christian Church, as shown by the +writings of the Fathers, discouraged marriage and upheld celibacy as the +ideal. I hope, in a moment, to differentiate between the Catholic and the +Puritan doctrine. But more immediately we will consider what I have +broadly defined as the Puritan attitude.</p> + +<p>The flaw in the argument that the sex-act is by nature unclean and must be +suppressed, even though in marriage it may be legitimized, is that it is +the ordained means of procreation. Further than this, we have the +inevitable fact to face that the sex-instinct in normal persons is so +strong that it can only with great difficulty be suppressed, and then +results in an outflow of sex activity in what we usually know as +non-sexual channels. Often this suppression will find its vent in mental +dislocation and general nervous irritability. But without analysing these +complex symptoms, it is sufficient to ask those who admit the control of +God, why God<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_19" id="Page_19">[Pg 19]</a></span> created the sex impulse in order that it should be +obliterated.</p> + +<p>Directly we move away from this strict doctrine to the modified popular +expression of it, we find that the position is becoming more intelligible +but less logical. It is consistent to regard all sex as evil. But when the +average Christian, while denouncing adultery as a sin, insists on +copulation in marriage as its consummation, a difficulty arises which must +not be ignored. Here, in adultery, is a sin which is so serious in the +eyes of Christian men, that it can never be redeemed; the stigma of +impurity remains for ever on the offender. Yet this same act, if only +committed under the regulation of marriage becomes not merely something +permissible, but the essential act of consummation, the divine method of +procreation. One can understand how an act, good in itself, can become a +sin because it is performed under impermissible circumstances. But it is +difficult to conceive of an act changing its integral nature, so that at +one moment it is a necessary virtue, and at another the basest vice. It +is, for instance, legal for a soldier to kill an enemy in battle, while it +is a crime for one civilian to kill another; but the act of killing is +<i>per se</i> an evil thing, even in the case of a soldier. It never becomes so +exalted as is the sex-act in marriage.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_20" id="Page_20">[Pg 20]</a></span>The Catholic doctrine, however, while at first sight it appears to be +identical with the Puritan, is actually quite distinct.</p> + +<p>For one thing there is a difference of attitude towards sin. Puritanism +seems to suggest that those who have been “converted” are actually +perfect. It insists that they shall keep up this outward appearance, and +consequently ensures that their sins must be committed secretly. They are +then sufficiently perfect to ascend, after death, direct to Heaven. +Catholicism, however, is continually recognizing that man is normally a +sinner; the confessional is a public recognition of this fact. Catholicism +therefore approaches the question of sex with the expectation that man +will sin, that the probability of his fall is so great as to make it +unnecessary and undesirable to hide all traces of his sin from public +view. The Puritan attitude towards sex is really that of the prude. The +Catholic Church is so ready to talk about sex in a decent manner that she +provides the confessional as a permanent institution.</p> + +<p>When we turn to the Catholic attitude towards sex we are faced indeed with +two significant dogmas which make up a position fundamentally distinct +from that of Puritanism. The first of these is the doctrine that marriage +is a sacrament, and the second<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_21" id="Page_21">[Pg 21]</a></span> that the <i>esse</i> of the marriage is the +consent of the parties.</p> + +<p>The significance of the first is that marriage is not merely a licence +whereby an unclean act is permitted as a sop to human weakness. The sex +function, as the integral part of marriage, is acknowledged to be an +actual objective of divine grace.</p> + +<p>The significance of the second doctrine is that wherever two people +eligible to give consent, give it, there is the essence of marriage. Few +non-Catholics realize that though the Church normally requires the +ecclesiastical and civil regulations to be observed, she does not profess +to marry the two persons; she merely pronounces a blessing on their +marriage. She may make conditions before she will give her blessing or +even her witness to the validity of the marriage; but she recognizes that +a marriage may be just as valid on a desert island as in a cathedral.<small><a name="f6.1" id="f6.1" href="#f6">[6]</a></small> +And hence she really regards adultery, not as does the Puritan, but as an +act which should be sacramental but has been prostituted by the absence of +the love-motive, or by becoming promiscuous rather than<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_22" id="Page_22">[Pg 22]</a></span> constant. Sexual +union may even itself be of the nature of a marriage, and it is +significant that the Church has always insisted on the right of parents +subsequently to legitimize children born out of wedlock; it is the English +law which has forbidden that privilege.</p> + +<p>This is the official Catholic doctrine, however much it has been +assimilated to the Puritan conception by the personnel of the Church.</p> + +<p>Yet the Church has consistently upheld the celibate life as the higher +vocation. She has represented a celibate priesthood as a greater ideal +than a married priesthood. She has exalted Our Lady as a Virgin. She has +insisted on the Virgin Birth. But she has done this, not because sex is +evil, but because celibacy is better. And, as we shall see, religious +celibacy is entirely distinct from a condition in which the sex impulse is +merely repressed.</p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_23" id="Page_23">[Pg 23]</a></span></p> +<h2>Chapter 3: The General Principles of Purity</h2> + +<p class="dropcap"><span class="caps">In</span> attempting to define these principles I have no desire to enter into a +controversy of relatives and absolutes. It is sufficient to meet those who +deny that there can be any abstract standard of purity by pointing out +that we know the direction in which to look for what is good and pure. +Just as we know that certain acts are less worthy than others, so we are +aware of the general direction of the nobler activities.</p> + +<p>The first principle to be observed is that relatively <i>purity is +comparative</i>. This is a commonplace of all personal estimates. However +much we may adhere to the conception of a moral standard, which is +abstract and unvarying, we realize that there are also personal standards +which vary very much. We do not, for instance, consider a cat to be guilty +of murder when she kills a bird; we do not execute her as we execute men +who have taken human life. We do not even condemn lions or tigers as +homicidal criminals, though we may kill them in self-defence, thus showing +that it is not the distinction between taking<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_24" id="Page_24">[Pg 24]</a></span> animal and human life +which constitutes the crime; it is the difference between the killers. Nor +is it true that we draw a distinction merely between animal and human +responsibility, for even in the human kingdom we apply a comparative moral +standard; we do not consider a savage who steals or kills as being guilty +to the extent which a civilized European would be who performed a similar +act. We are in fact constantly applying a comparative standard to the +comparative intelligences of individuals, and quite rightly, for all +intelligence and moral sense is graded from brute-beast to savage-man and +upwards.</p> + +<p>We must be careful not to avoid this standard of comparative values in +approaching sex morality. So long as we admit that at least there are acts +and principles which, taken in the abstract, approach purity more nearly +than others, we must not judge all individuals by the same standard. We +must not consider a very ordinary, unintelligent, animal-blooded young man +as being excessively sinful for having a vivid sex experience; perhaps he +is living right up to the level of his imperfect standard. We must not +expect people to be more moral than they can be, though it is the duty of +Church and religion to educate them to see that there are better +standards.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_25" id="Page_25">[Pg 25]</a></span>The second principle is simple, but of the deepest importance.</p> + +<p>It consists of the proposition that variety and not uniformity is the +fundamental rule of nature, or, as Christians would hold, the intention of +God.</p> + +<p>I cannot recall any distinctive attribute to which this rule does not +apply. There are an infinite species of creatures, and infinite tastes and +tendencies. Even if we narrow down our field of investigation to one +nation or even a single family, we find that each individual is +approaching life by different byways, with different prejudices and +different temperaments and different conceptions. But throughout history +the majority of the normal type has been inclined to flout this divine +principle. The Puritans, for example, were a particular type who did not +like the gayer life of the world, and preferred a stern evangelical +atmosphere. Consequently they regarded those amusements for which they +happened to possess no partiality, as evil, and whenever they had the +opportunity they suppressed them; they eliminated Christmas and the +mince-pie. Equally we can see that if the normal mechanical Teutonic type +had said that it was unnatural for men to be artistic and had suppressed +the arts, it would have been a disaster for the world. There is not one +vocation, but there<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_26" id="Page_26">[Pg 26]</a></span> are many vocations; all types are the design of +intention, and are there, not to be suppressed, but to carry out their +particular mission.</p> + +<p>This again, is equally true of sex, and we must apply the same conclusions +towards the many types which we shall presently meet, abnormal as well as +normal. The Protestant, for example, really acknowledges a uniform +sex-nature only. You will continually hear a Protestant declaring that it +is unnatural for a man to be a celibate: this is, of course, pure +nonsense. It might be unnatural for a normal sex-nature to remain +celibate, just as it would be unnatural for a natural celibate to marry. +The Catholic Church has been far wiser. She can offer the Religious Life +to the celibate and the Sacrament of Marriage to the non-celibate. There +are few types of individual more unintelligent than that which, while it +cannot so interfere with personal liberty as to compel marriage, persists +in uttering the convention that “every man ought to do his duty to the +State.” The truism is true; what is wrong is the failure to conceive that +there is no uniform duty for every man.</p> + +<p>But the third principle is more complex in character, or, rather, in the +considerations which it involves.</p> + +<p>It consists, really, of a re-affirmation as to<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_27" id="Page_27">[Pg 27]</a></span> the Catholic condemnation +of the heresy of Manichæism.</p> + +<p>The Puritan and the type he has evolved do radically regard the physical +as evil. Protestantism, until it became adulterated by the Catholic +movement, eliminated as far as possible, the physical medium in religious +worship. Not only doctrinally, but liturgically, in the abandonment of +ritual and artistic atmosphere, it attempted to limit religion as far as +possible to the spiritual level, and it regarded sacramentalism as evil +because sacramentalism involves an outward physical sign. In the same way +the average Englishman, who has been inculcated, far more than he +realizes, with Calvinist dogma, regards sex as immoral only when it is +physical. A man may indulge in sexual emotion and thought, but so long as +he suppresses any physical act he is not guilty; if this can be regarded +as an exaggeration it is certainly true that popular Protestant theology +regards a man as more immoral if he commits the physical sex-act than if +he thinks of it. It is strange to note how far this theory has departed +from the teaching of Christ, Who declared that “he that lusteth against a +woman hath committed adultery against her in his heart.”</p> + +<p>It is obvious the moment we examine this conception that it is utterly +indefensible. If the <span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_28" id="Page_28">[Pg 28]</a></span>sex-act is evil<small><a name="f7.1" id="f7.1" href="#f7">[7]</a></small> because it is physical, then it +is equally evil to eat or drink. And if an attempt is made to avoid this +difficulty by saying that it is evil to debase love by expressing it in a +physical act, or that it is better to love spiritually and non-physically, +then it is equally evil to debase artistic inspiration by expressing it +with paints on a physical canvas, or better to allow melodies to float in +one’s mind than to reduce them to the level of a physical composition.</p> + +<p>Without entering into a highly involved philosophy and therefore at the +risk of apparent dogmatism, I wish now to emphasize that there are certain +ascending levels, with which man is concerned. We may confine ourselves to +the physical, the emotional, the mental, and the spiritual levels. The +physical level is the lowest, in so far as man functions there in common +with the animal. He is more active emotionally than the animal. But what +distinguishes him chiefly from the animal, and makes him master over all +brute-creation, is his activity on the mental level. Physically he is less +powerful than the elephant; but because he can function mentally and the +elephant can do so hardly at all, he can employ the elephant as a beast of +labour. Here then<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_29" id="Page_29">[Pg 29]</a></span> we have a distinct gradation, a gradation which +continues to apply within the human kingdom and makes us able to +distinguish a civilised man from a savage.</p> + +<p>We should therefore apply this principle to sex. Sex activity is more pure +or impure according to the level on which it chiefly functions. A man who +traffics with prostitutes is not immoral because he is functioning +physically, but because he is functioning almost entirely on the physical +level. Purity is really sex emphasis on the highest levels. Ideally the +physically sex-act should therefore be a mere expression of spiritual, +mental, emotional love; it should just happen. The moment one begins to +lay the emphasis on the lower levels, the more one becomes correspondingly +less pure. Lust, in fact, is the desire only for physical sex +experience—the wrong proportion and balance. A man’s stage of moral +development is to be discovered by the particular level on which he is +most active.</p> + +<p>We must not avoid the consequence of this principle. We must be prepared +to admit as relatively moral, behaviour which popular philosophy might +regard as immoral. We must also be prepared to regard as immoral many +marriages in which the physical is the chief incentive. The lowest stage +of impurity would seem to be reached in<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_30" id="Page_30">[Pg 30]</a></span> cases, whether between man and +harlot, or husband and wife, where the physical function is so emphasized +that artificial physical aids are invoked in order to excite the physical +passions and make them the cause instead of the result of sex emotion and +thought.</p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_31" id="Page_31">[Pg 31]</a></span></p> +<h2>Chapter 4: Celibacy</h2> + +<p class="dropcap"><span class="caps">If</span> once the third principle named in the preceding chapter is fully +appreciated, we have already laid the foundation of our moral standard. We +shall have seen that physical expression is the sacramental form of the +invisible and super-physical motive, and that immorality is the shifting +of emphasis from higher to lower levels. We shall be in possession of a +test by which we may in almost all sex problems determine a comparative +virtue or evil of any practice or conduct.</p> + +<p>Now this involves the equally fundamental theory that sex is not entirely +a physical activity. In the popular conception sex is always confused with +physical sex expression. But this conception, I submit, is entirely +inaccurate. Even though Freud may be justifiably criticised for straining +the word “sex” to include many forces which do not directly tend to incite +physical sex activity, he has successfully shown that sex is the motive +behind emotions and conduct which would not popularly be termed sexual at +all. A musician may, for <span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_32" id="Page_32">[Pg 32]</a></span>example, be drawing on his sex-energy in +composing or performing musical works; a humanitarian may be sexual in his +diffused love of fellow-men and women. We cannot possibly draw a line and +say that here sex begins and there it ends. We can only admit that it +carries far beyond those particular physical manifestations which we +popularly associate with sex.</p> + +<p>If we accept the principle of ascending levels of physical, emotional, +mental, and spiritual functions, we should expect to find that sex makes +its appearance in more than one form. We know, that is to say, that there +are, not one, but many emotions and thoughts which are directly sexual, +and that there would seem to be every reason why sex, which manifests +variety in its physical expression, should be equally various in the realm +of the mind. Further than this, we are able to advance the principle that +when the emphasis is laid further away from the physical level, the +functioning power on that level weakens. Man, as we have already agreed, +is a more developed animal than the elephant, because he is active in +thought. But he pays the price for this by the inferiority of his physical +strength. Similarly, the less mentally equipped are frequently more +physically powerful. Like all other rules, there are of course exceptions. +But there does seem to be a principle, and a principle that we should +logically<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_33" id="Page_33">[Pg 33]</a></span> expect, that the more man functions on what we have described +as super-physical levels, the less powerful his strength on the physical +level becomes.</p> + +<p>Again, we have seen that, morally, the physical level is the lowest. The +highest human developments are those which the animal cannot reach. The +ordinary physical instincts are not evil, they are simply less evolved. +Some of them, like the sense of maternity, are good. But we cannot doubt +that man’s superiority over the animal lies precisely in his ability to do +what the animal cannot do, and that, therefore, the realm of mind is +“higher” than the realm of action.</p> + +<p>When the Catholic Church therefore presents religious celibacy<small><a name="f8.1" id="f8.1" href="#f8">[8]</a></small> as being +the higher vocation she is enunciating this very principle. She is not +suggesting that non-celibacy is an evil state. We do not pretend that the +profession of crossing-sweeper is evil because the profession of prime +minister is a higher ambition; indeed, it would be probably disastrous to +persuade a man who had a natural ability to be a crossing-sweeper to +qualify as a prime minister. Relatively, a man performs his moral duty in +fulfilling his vocation, for whatever grade it may be designed. The true +religious celibate is the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_34" id="Page_34">[Pg 34]</a></span> extreme exception; no one should attempt such +perfection who has not the actual call. The means by which we realize our +true vocation is too individual a question to enter upon here.</p> + +<p>The whole fault of the puritanic conception of sex is to assume that +complete repression should be attempted by all men, and that marriage is +solely a concession to failure.<small><a name="f9.1" id="f9.1" href="#f9">[9]</a></small></p> + +<p>Almost the exact reverse is the truth. The celibate is a rare product. And +moreover he is not one in whom sex is repressed; he is essentially a human +being in whom the sex-force is sublimated into non-physical channels. This +may take the form of extreme religious devotion, in wide humanitarianism, +in a love of children or animals, in artistic creation or scientific +research. It becomes true celibacy only when the individual instinct is so +far diverted towards these energies that desire for physical sex functions +becomes eliminated. Nor is it true that such a man is barren; he is +procreating, as really as the father, a mental or spiritual progeny.</p> + +<p>We cannot emphasize this distinction too strongly. For the vast majority +of men the celibate life is not intended, and to some extent, though, as +we shall<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_35" id="Page_35">[Pg 35]</a></span> see, not entirely, other rules apply. What indeed we have so +carefully to distinguish is the transference of sex from the repression of +sex. To transfer the sex-force is a healthy and natural energy, whereas to +repress sex is an evil which must always tend to produce unfortunate +results.</p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_36" id="Page_36">[Pg 36]</a></span></p> +<h2>Chapter 5: Non-Celibacy</h2> + +<p class="dropcap"><span class="caps">We</span> have now arrived at a point where we can emphasize a further +distinction. We must, in fact, differentiate between those emotions and +thoughts which are sexual in the sense that they naturally incite physical +sex functions, and those which manifest themselves in non-sexual +activities. It may be true that the energy which is exercised in the +latter way is itself sexual; that does not matter for our immediate +purpose. It is sufficient that the force is at work in a non-sexual +channel.</p> + +<p>Here then we have two entirely different processes. The first is the +shifting of the emphasis of the sex-force from body to mind, so that the +sex-force ceases to be concentrated in physical sex-acts and begins to be +concerned rather with love emotion and sex-thought; the second is the +transmutation of the sex-force to non-sexual channels. Both of these +processes are necessary in the life of the non-celibate.</p> + +<p>The latter process is what happens naturally in the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_37" id="Page_37">[Pg 37]</a></span> case of the true +religious celibate. His development and temperament are such that his +sex-nature finds a complete expression, as we have already seen, in such +directions as a general love of humanity, an intense spiritual devotion, +the worship of art or nature. There is no repression, but a full exercise +of the sex activities in a “non-sexual” direction.</p> + +<p>The vast majority of men, however, are not so developed, and are not +intended to carry out such a life. Yet, for them, too, this process must +be to some extent adopted. It is largely a matter of common-sense. The +animal exercises no restraint; whenever the sex-impulse arises, it is +satisfied—so far, of course, as the opportunity is provided. But as we +trace the conduct of the more developed species from savage to civilized +man we are conscious of a new element of will-power. The influences which +cause this power to come into operation may vary. Religious obligations, +considerations of business, social, or intellectual responsibilities, help +to intervene. An intelligent man simply cannot afford to give vent to sex +proclivities every time they arise; he has other interests which must of +necessity at many times of the day have the first claim. Imagine a man who +sacrificed a business engagement for some sex gratification! Often in the +recent war a man, however strong his sexual emotions, would be forced<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_38" id="Page_38">[Pg 38]</a></span> to +cast away all ideas of sex in order to dodge a shell; his mind for +continuous periods would be so driven with anxieties and the stress of +responsibility that sex would sink into insignificance. This is an extreme +instance, but to a lesser degree it is what is happening to everyone who +leads a normal life. The more developed the man, the wider his +intellectual interests; and it is precisely in this capacity to exercise +his will-power that he proves his superiority over the animal.</p> + +<p>This process of transmutation is the remedy which must be applied in cases +where men find themselves the victims of sexual emotion out of all true +proportion, whether in married or unmarried life. Mere repression is +useless; it is actually harmful. But the mind must be switched off to dig +a thought-passage in other directions, in non-sexual interests. Where +there is undue sex obsession there is disease. And this mental +transference is the chief cure. Really, this transmutation is a diffusing +of the sex-force into a wide general area. The man is no longer +concentrating all his sex-energy in love for one particular person; he is +beginning sexually to love all humanity. He is finding sexual expression +in the “non-sexual” forms of art or nature. He is still in love—but in +love with love, rather than with one separate personal fragment of the +whole.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_39" id="Page_39">[Pg 39]</a></span>But with the ordinary man, there must remain a balance of sexual +inclination which cannot entirely be transmuted. Here we encounter the +first process, and our problem, particularly in non-married life, becomes +acute. Is it possible, and is it healthy, to deny the sex-instincts all +satisfaction? Different answers are given by religious advisers and by men +of the world, while even in the ranks of the medical profession there is +no consensus of opinion.</p> + +<p>I suggest that there is only one general principle which can be our guide.</p> + +<p>The natural tendency of all sexual thought and emotion is to find its +outlet in physical expression of some kind. If a man indulges in sexual +thought, it is almost impossible for him to avoid a physical result. He +may have recourse to prostitution or he may commit solitary practices. The +tendency of Puritan morality is, as we have seen, to regard the physical +act as the sin and to avoid the conclusion that the thought is evil; +consequently the patient is urged at all cost to refrain from action. Let +it be stated, quite frankly, that this attitude is scientifically and +morally indefensible. It is the thought rather than the act on which the +responsibility should be weighed. I have no hesitation whatever in +asserting that it is worse, medically and morally, for the individual to +indulge in sexual thought and repress<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_40" id="Page_40">[Pg 40]</a></span> the consequent action, than to +commit it. The mere absence of physical conduct is harmful and deplorable +if the mind is a seething mass of sexual energy which is being denied all +outlet.</p> + +<p>The first duty in such cases is, as we have seen, to apply the process of +transmuting this sexual thought to non-sexual interests, so far as this +can be done. The extent to which this is possible must vary in each +individual nature. The comparative balance then remains. And here we must +bring into play the moral principle to which I have already +referred—namely that the morality of sex is determined by the extent to +which love is the motive. Sex inspired by love is moral; sex inspired by +any other motive is not. The part which the physical sex-force should +alone play is the sacramental expression of pure love; so employed it is a +perfect and divine activity. When the love-motive is absent, or is not the +dominant incentive, the sex-force becomes comparatively immoral and +abused.</p> + +<p>This is a general principle which can be rigidly employed. And I do not +want to escape from the consequences of this doctrine. It appears to me +the one natural, fundamental principle upon which a moral standard can be +based. Therefore I am ready to accept the conclusion that there are many<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_41" id="Page_41">[Pg 41]</a></span> +marriages which are highly immoral because the sex-act is not an +expression of love, but either a mere mechanical duty or the result of a +physical and emotional excitement, as distinct from love. On the other +hand there are many sex adventures, inspired by love, which do not occur +within the matrimonial state. This principle alone must guide us in any +moral estimate we draw.</p> + +<p>Let us apply this doctrine by taking the simple case of a man and woman +who are accused of having committed adultery. We inquire first, whether +mutual love was the true motive, whether in fact the act of adultery was +an unpremeditated incident which occurred as naturally as the kiss which a +child gives to its mother. We draw a clear moral line between the sort of +assignation which has for its one object the gratification of physical +sensations, or the even lower motive, so far as the prostitute is +concerned, of substituting for love the earning of a few shillings. But +suppose we are satisfied that the physical act was not the object but the +result, and that there was love. We go on to ask how deep was the love, +and if a deep love is alleged, we ask why the parties are not married. For +it is doubtful whether normal love can be wholly spasmodic. It seems +contrary to the very nature of love that a man should love one woman for +an hour and then throw her over<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_42" id="Page_42">[Pg 42]</a></span> for someone else. The essence of love +tends to completeness and permanence.</p> + +<p>But we will imagine that even these conditions are satisfied, and that +financial difficulties or parental objections alone prevent the formal +marriage. We have also discovered that the two people have loved each +other for some time, and that there is not therefore simply a sudden +fascination, but a love based on knowledge and matured by experience. We +are then left with a technical and not a moral offence. In effect a +marriage has taken place; there has been the consent which is the essence +of the union. It is only when the Catholic conception of the sacrament of +matrimony is abandoned that we find ourselves regarding the ceremony in +Church or registry-office as the union, and that therefore a moral offence +is committed in the sex-act where no such ceremony has taken place. It is +true that the parties would be in honour bound to receive the blessing of +the Church. The union is irregular; but it is a true union.</p> + +<p>Incidentally, I suggest that this theory may be the basis of the +scriptural exception in St. Matthew’s gospel made as regards divorce where +there has been “fornication,” or a pre-marital sex-act—namely that by +this act a natural marriage has been consummated, and that the subsequent +marriage is therefore invalid.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_43" id="Page_43">[Pg 43]</a></span>One might almost draw up a schedule of the tests which should be applied +whenever we may happen to be forced to adjudicate as to the morality of +any sex-behaviour. For already there have emerged certain definite +test-principles. There is the consideration of the standard of the +relative degree of intelligence to which the particular individual has +developed, and of the fact that there are many types of sex-temperament. +On the other hand we see that the direction of absolute morality to which +our faces should be set, is the raising of the sex-force to super-physical +levels, so that the physical side becomes a mere incident, or is even +eliminated altogether. Then we apply the rule that there must be an +exercise of restraint and will-power, so that sex obsession is entirely +avoided. The extent to which the mind can be diverted from sexual channels +must depend on the stage of development which the individual has reached. +Lastly, we apply the test of how far love, so deep and pure that it is +permanent rather than spasmodic, a monopoly rather than promiscuous, is +the motive.</p> + +<p>Modern society has gone, I contend, as much astray in drifting to the +extreme of considering all things permissible, as has Puritanism in +regarding the sex-act outside marriage as in all circumstances a deadly +evil. And I can only marvel that this latter<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_44" id="Page_44">[Pg 44]</a></span> attitude is taken up so +often in the name of the Christian religion, when its Founder, while +declaring that at the last day it would be “more tolerable for Sodom and +Gomorrah than for the Scribes and Pharisees,” also said to the woman taken +in adultery, “Neither do I condemn thee; go thy way, from henceforth sin +no more.”</p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_45" id="Page_45">[Pg 45]</a></span></p> +<h2>Chapter 6: Divorce</h2> + +<p class="dropcap"><span class="caps">In</span> leaving the moorland of general principles for the fields of particular +problems it will be convenient to group sex natures under three heads: (1) +the normal or hetero-sexual, (2) the invert or homo-sexual, and (3) the +neuter or sexless. It is necessary only to add that it will not be +possible to deal in more than the merest outline with any of these +important questions.</p> + +<p>The most prominent of the problems concerned with the normal group is that +of divorce. The problem arises because on the one hand there is a sense +that marriage ought to be a permanent state, while on the other, there are +many human exigences which go to break up particular marriages. +Separation, without permission to re-marry, is of course an admitted +remedy. But the question then arises whether parties so separated will +continue to live as celibates; and as it appears certain that the vast +majority will not, we have to ask whether it is better to legalise the +fresh unions which are formed, or to permit adultery.</p> + +<p>Every modern State has wrestled with this <span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_46" id="Page_46">[Pg 46]</a></span>problem, and for the most part +ineffectually. Where there is no divorce, as in England before 1857,<small><a name="f10.1" id="f10.1" href="#f10">[10]</a></small> +or among the poorer classes who cannot afford divorce, irregular unions +and prostitution undoubtedly flourish. Where a compromise is introduced, +the permanence of marriage, and therefore of the home, becomes +correspondingly impaired, while there are left a number of unhappy cases +for which divorce is not allowed.<small><a name="f11.1" id="f11.1" href="#f11">[11]</a></small> The English civil law is +particularly unhappy in its compromise. It is based on the Protestant +interpretation of the passage in St. Matthew already mentioned, namely +that divorce is permissible where adultery has occurred, and it goes on to +make it easier for the husband to sue for divorce when the wife has +committed adultery than for the wife to do so in the reverse +circumstances. Hence it places a premium on adultery, and exaggerates its +importance as regards other sins. It deliberately incites an unhappy wife +to commit adultery in order to obtain relief—she can usually<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_47" id="Page_47">[Pg 47]</a></span> evade the +vigilance of the King’s Proctor—and it singles out adultery as a worse +sin than, let us say, cruelty or habitual drunkenness, for which divorce +is not at present obtainable. In fact it is difficult to find any logical +or moral defence for the English law as it stands.</p> + +<p>Let us first see how far the popular critics of the Catholic doctrine of +indissoluble marriage are wrong. They regard marriage as simply a +contract, from which it follows that divorce should be obtained by mutual +consent, or even on the application of one of the parties. But this +ignores, among other things, one vital natural law. Marriage begets +parenthood, and between the parents of the same child there is a definite +and permanent relationship. No Act of Parliament can make men and women +cease to be the parents of their own children. Nor, even in childless +marriages, is the sense of permanence an artificial convention which can +be abolished by the decree of a court. The deeper the love, the more +permanent must its nature tend to be. Love is not a contract; it is a +spiritual bond.</p> + +<p>It is impossible, I contend, to think of a normally healthy marriage +without realizing that both the man and woman naturally enter into it with +the assumption that it will be a permanent relationship. The possibility +of a family, the break-up of the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_48" id="Page_48">[Pg 48]</a></span> maiden life—even the furnishing of a +home, is evidence of a strong probability in the minds of the parties that +the step which is being taken is something more than a temporary contract. +Indeed, the marriage is only temporary if unhappiness arises. Men and +women marry because they want to enter into as permanent a relationship as +possible; they enter into it because, as they say, they wish to “settle +down.” The natural desire of man is that marriage should be permanent.</p> + +<p>A reversion to free love would be more than the undoing of the evolution +from animal to man. It would completely change the basis of human society. +And in proportion as any divorce law encourages the conception of a +temporary contract this dangerous instability of home-life is threatened. +Americans sometimes describe their own laws as approaching the “ideal.” +“The question will soon be,” wrote a journalist describing the American +“smart set,” “who is to be your husband next year?”—or, “Has your last +season’s wife re-married yet?” This is of course an exaggeration; but it +is a warning as to logical developments.</p> + +<p>In fact, divorce tends to create itself. Divorce is only applied for where +the marriage is unhappy. A fair proportion of unhappy marriages arise +because they have been hastily entered into; with due inquiry<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_49" id="Page_49">[Pg 49]</a></span> many of +them could have been prevented. But the easier divorce is to obtain, the +more incentive will be given to enter into these hasty marriages—the type +of union which so often gives rise to divorce.</p> + +<p>On the other hand, whatever their cause, there are marriages in which all +trace of love has disappeared, and it may fairly be argued that the union +is dead. Thus a husband may, in later years, become incurably insane or +habitually drunk. There are many unions in which the one party has married +in blind infatuation only to discover that the partner is so contemptible +a creature as to destroy all vestige of love. Such unions remain marriages +in formality only; their pretended existence is a sacrilege, particularly +if there are no children and the husband and wife are not therefore +co-related as parents.</p> + +<p>For all such cases the Catholic Church permits divorce (<i>a mensa et +thoro</i>)—or separation, as it is known in civil law, without permission to +re-marry. The issue, therefore, becomes simply a question as to whether it +is right to expect the parties so separated to remain celibate.</p> + +<p>In an outline such as this, I suppose that one can only attempt a summary +reply to these questions. If, for a moment, we are to exclude the +complications of a subsequent love-affair there appears to me<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_50" id="Page_50">[Pg 50]</a></span> to be no +reason whatever why any man or woman should not remain celibate during the +lifetime of the divorced partner. The <i>journalese</i> theory that it is +unnatural and unhealthy for people so to remain is simply untrue, so long +as the celibacy takes the form of sublimation or transmutation and not +repression. The complication of an intense love-romance however, is a +serious proposition. Ought two people in love to remain sexually apart +simply because one of them is still married to, let us say, an incurable +lunatic? In principle there seems to be every reason why they should; no +actual physical or mental harm is done to them, provided they have a +sufficiently developed will-power to transfer their sex-desire into other +channels of activity. The sacrifice will be immense, but it is no more +than any man has to make who refrains from marrying his beloved because he +is too poor or is suffering from some disease which may affect his +children. In this case the sacrifice is offered for the supremely +important principle that only God, by the act of death, can undo the +vinculum of the original marriage.</p> + +<p>But I am equally sure that most people under these or less intense +circumstances will not remain celibate.</p> + +<p>Therefore, to descend from theory to practice, I see no alternative but to +draw a rigid line between<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_51" id="Page_51">[Pg 51]</a></span> civil and religious marriages. The State must +make its own arrangements and go its own way. But there should always be a +higher type of marriage where the Catholic Church has been invoked for her +blessing. And for those who choose to ask for this sacrament, the union +should be irrevocable, save by death. The parties will receive that +sacrament knowing what a heavy responsibility they are assuming. And it is +only right that the Church should be far more particular in refusing to +prostitute her sacramental grace on unions which ought not to be +consummated. She ought, I conceive, rigidly to inquire into the +desirability of the union, and not to give her blessing unless she is +satisfied that both parties are giving their consent with as full a +knowledge of the facts as is humanly possible. Equally she should refuse +her ministrations where she is unconvinced that love is the motive of the +marriage. I see no reason why some form of sponsorship should not be +demanded.</p> + +<p>And I think it may be argued that a consent without a knowledge of the +facts is not a valid consent, and that such a union is null. I should +welcome a careful extension of the decree of nullity, for that reason.</p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_52" id="Page_52">[Pg 52]</a></span></p> +<h2>Chapter 7: Eugenics and Prostitution</h2> + +<p class="dropcap"><span class="caps">The</span> doctrine that love is the only motive for sex—that physical +expression is pure only so far as it is the sacramental accidence of +love—leads to important conclusions. There is, for instance, a class of +moralist who teach that the sex-act in marriage must only be for the +purpose of procreation. It would follow from this that it is immoral for +sex intimacies to occur between a man and his wife once she has passed a +certain age. In the ideal marriage, so this school of thought affirms, +copulation is strictly regulated and occurs only when the moment is +favourable for generation.</p> + +<p>To this theory I cannot subscribe. It runs counter to the doctrine in +which I believe. It Changes the sex-act from an incident or a result to a +means or a cause. It is really immoral because it lays emphasis on the +physical. This cold-blooded calculation of the times when sex is to be +thus physically expressed is the exact opposite of the principle by which +love directs and the act merely<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_53" id="Page_53">[Pg 53]</a></span> occurs, with no purpose but to express +love physically.</p> + +<p>This leads us to a consideration as to how far those practices between man +and woman are moral in which procreation cannot result. It is interesting +to note that the English law holds that “unnatural” acts between husband +and wife are criminal. Although it is true that prosecution cannot occur +unless there is an absence of consent, for otherwise there would be no +evidence—these acts are apparently regarded as <i>per se</i> criminal in +nature. And this indeed is a logical position, when we remember the +standpoint which the State adopts towards all sex questions.</p> + +<p>To this class of conduct artificial preventatives are closely allied. A +chaos of opinion rages over this subject, from the neo-malthusian who +advocates the practice as a necessity, to the purist who talks of +“child-murder.” It seems clear that this latter designation is an +unwarrantable exaggeration; to prevent the possibility of life coming into +existence cannot by any strain of imagination be confused with destroying +what is actually alive. On the other hand, the moral test which we are +applying to all these problems hardly acquits the practice. It is +difficult to think of preventatives without being conscious that +premeditation of the physical act is<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_54" id="Page_54">[Pg 54]</a></span> being emphasized, and the ideal of a +natural incident almost banished. To prepare for a thing is to insist on +its importance. The minds of the two parties must almost necessarily be +focussed—though not absolutely necessarily—on the physical sex-act.</p> + +<p>There is no doubt however that, apart from ideals, preventatives are a +means of averting more serious evils. This is not the place to enter into +a detailed consideration of eugenics. We can only face the blatant fact +that thousands of degenerate parents continue each year to breed +degenerate children. The moral aspect with which alone I am dealing, is +that this is a crime against the community; however irresponsible or +ignorant the perpetrators, they are helping to burden the State with an +altogether undesirable progeny. Now, whether they are allowed to marry or +not, there is not the least likelihood that they will desist from sexual +intercourse. Therefore, it seems to me an obviously lesser evil to remove +all excuse for procreation by placing within reach the artificial means of +prevention.</p> + +<p>In this, just as in the divorce problem, we have to determine whether it +is better to insist on an ideal, which we know the majority will not keep, +or to legislate down to the majority. There is no doubt in my own mind +that to legislate on an ideal is not only<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_55" id="Page_55">[Pg 55]</a></span> impracticable but dangerous. I +may believe, for instance, that it would be a higher ideal to live on +vegetables and fruit rather than to slaughter animals and drink their +blood. But even so, I should vehemently oppose a law which attempted to +impose vegetarianism.</p> + +<p>I believe, too, that every moral influence should be brought to bear +against marriages where the physical or mental degeneracy<small><a name="f12.1" id="f12.1" href="#f12">[12]</a></small> of the +parents renders the use of preventatives desirable. I wish to emphasize +that the ideal towards which we should set our faces is that of fewer but +healthier marriages. Both Church and State should, I feel, take pains to +assure themselves that these undesirable elements are absent in all unions +which they are respectively called upon to solemnize. And I emphasize this +because I believe that we are suffering far too much from the popular +fallacy and the smug Puritanic doctrine that the cure for all sexual +proclivities is for men and women to marry, and that once they marry all +things are sexually permissible. It is not only irritating, but it is a +fallacy, for men who are comfortably married to declare that there is +“really no sex-problem.” There is probably as much immorality<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_56" id="Page_56">[Pg 56]</a></span> within the +married state as outside it; and far from it being the duty of every man +to marry, there are many men whose duty it is not to do so.</p> + +<p>Closely allied with eugenics is the problem of venereal disease, and out +of this again, arises the problem of prostitution. How far is prostitution +tolerable, so that a medical system of registration should be introduced +into England? We have seen why prostitution is immoral; it is concerned +with the physical side of sex, and with little else. But no thoughtful man +could reasonably advocate the suppression of prostitution by law. The +result of such a measure, at the present state of national development, +would be deplorable, even if it were practicable. People do not become +moral because they are frightened to do what they still want to do. It is +always a confession of the weakness of religion or moral influences where +you have to fall back on the police-force of the State for support. In +moral questions, State prosecution seems only to be justifiable where the +liberty of individuals, or the welfare of the community, is endangered.</p> + +<p>Prostitution<small><a name="f13.1" id="f13.1" href="#f13">[13]</a></small> as an evil can only be treated by the slow process of +moral education. Of that I shall speak later. But it is worth while +remembering in<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_57" id="Page_57">[Pg 57]</a></span> this connexion, that the feminist movement must have a +beneficial effect, to some extent, on prostitution. Largely, it is an +economic problem. If a woman were able to earn a decent wage, it is +inconceivable that she should wish to submit herself to every voluptuous +patron who happens to come along. Education and economic independence must +tend largely to breed dissatisfaction with such a slavish occupation. It +will not do so entirely, for a certain percentage of women are prostitutes +because they hunger for promiscuous sex intercourse.</p> + +<p>That some serious attempt must be made, not merely to alleviate, but to +prevent venereal disease, is evident to all who are aware how widespread +it has become. And it may therefore be pointed out that it would not be +impossible to prosecute the prostitute, suffering from these diseases, +without introducing the vexed question of registration and official +recognition of prostitution. All unmarried men and women below a certain +age could be compelled to submit to periodical medical examination, and if +any person was found to have solicited, after having been certified as +infected, prosecution would lie. Probably a storm of protest would be +aroused against an alleged interference with individual privacy. But the +danger of syphilis may necessitate such a law, and after all, no one is +being asked to do more than<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_58" id="Page_58">[Pg 58]</a></span> that to which every soldier and sailor has to +submit.</p> + +<p>We have seen that love, and therefore marriage, naturally contains the +sense of permanence. There is also a sense of distaste towards incest, and +of the apparently natural evils arising therefrom. No-one will deny that +the State and the Catholic Church are scientifically justified in +insisting upon some table of prohibited degrees. How far this distaste is +essentially natural I do not know. I imagine that a sister who had been +separated from her brother since birth, and who did not know that he was +her brother, might fall in love with him. But the scientific dangers of +such marriages would remain.<small><a name="f14.1" id="f14.1" href="#f14">[14]</a></small></p> + +<p>The Church of England some years ago found herself immersed in a storm of +controversy over the Deceased Wife’s Sister Act. To most men her attitude +seemed pedantic and unworthy of serious attention. The English Church is +unfortunate: her apparently narrow ecclesiasticism was really the result +of a liberal policy at the time of the Reformation.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_59" id="Page_59">[Pg 59]</a></span> During the Middle +Ages the Church had extended her prohibited degrees to such an extent that +it must have been difficult to know whom one could marry without a +dispensation.<small><a name="f15.1" id="f15.1" href="#f15">[15]</a></small> Only a person more than four degrees removed from the +other party was an eligible partner without dispensation, the degrees so +being reckoned as to include even second cousins. The English Church swept +away these anomalies and concentrated on an irreducible minimum of +prohibition up to three degrees (reckoned in direct ascending and +descending generation from the common ancestor)—thus sacrificing all +regulation against marriage between first cousins, who are four degrees +removed.</p> + +<p>The real opposition to the ecclesiastical attitude was, however, that any +affinity, as distinguished from consanguinity, should be a bar to +marriage. The unhappy deceased wife’s sister was merely a convenient +representative. But this is a controversy which is not sufficiently +imminent to engage us in these pages.</p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_60" id="Page_60">[Pg 60]</a></span></p> +<h2>Chapter 8: The Homosexual Temperament</h2> + +<p class="dropcap"><span class="caps">We</span> must now pass from the normal or hetero-sexual to the second-class of +sex-temperament. This is the homosexual—that in which the individual’s +sex attraction is directed towards the same sex. And here it will be +necessary to utter a note of warning. The sex instinct lies so deep in +human nature that many men are incapable of regarding sex characteristics +save through their own temperamental colour. Normal men are frequently +found, for instance, of such underdeveloped mental faculties that they +start out with an immense sex prejudice against the homosexual. Without +being able to consider the question impartially they abhor this variety as +an unspeakable evil. It is essential that we should place such critics +outside the area of practical investigation. The homosexual tendency may +be as evil as they imagine it to be, but we must only arrive at that +conclusion as a result of impartial and incontestable reason. And any man +who cannot undertake that inquiry is as valueless for our purpose as are +his<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_61" id="Page_61">[Pg 61]</a></span> prejudicial opinions; he must simply go back to the nursery.</p> + +<p>Let us therefore, as far as is individually possible, attempt to treat +this question with an open mind. And accordingly we shall find it most +convenient first to consider the various attitudes which have been taken +up with regard to this difficult problem.</p> + +<p>The legal or State attitude we have already to some extent anticipated. +The State looks with suspicious eyes on any influence which tends to +sterilize the birth-rate. Accordingly, in England, homosexuality is +branded as a crime for which a heavy sentence can be pronounced. It is +true that legally this sentence, under the Criminal Amendment Act, can +only be inflicted for the physical sex-act itself; but this includes any +assault or any behaviour which may be construed as an attempt to lead up +to the commission of the act. And, accordingly, any man is legally under +suspicion if he is thought to be homosexual, even though no perpetration +of the physical offence can be alleged against him. The hideous system of +blackmail is thus encouraged by the law. Once a man is understood to be +subject to these proclivities, it is assumed that sooner or later he will +commit the offence, and he is watched, if not by the over-busy police, by +those idle persons who trade upon the legal attitude toward this problem. +Any<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_62" id="Page_62">[Pg 62]</a></span> conversation or literature on the subject is suppressed, so far as is +possible, by the State, because the physical expression being a crime, all +that may become an incentive to the crime is itself criminal.</p> + +<p>We have already mentioned the basic fallacy of the legal attitude. It does +not follow that because a line of conduct may decrease the birth-rate, it +is therefore wrong. Celibacy, as we have seen, may be an actual virtue. +But in this particular instance there is a still more serious error. The +English law, by branding homosexuality as a crime, assumes that it is a +deliberate perversion; for it would be obviously ridiculous to punish a +man for doing what he could not help doing. Even the law is not so +illogical as to sentence a madman to penal servitude because he insists on +being mad. No, the State regards the homosexual as one who has of his own +choice assumed this form of sex temperament, in the same way as a man +decides to rob or forge a signature. The legal attitude <i>must</i> rest on +this supposition, for otherwise its policy would be flagrantly unjust. And +accordingly we find the law classifying this family of behaviour as +“unnatural.”</p> + +<p>Now, if there is one fact which is clear from an investigation of the +problem, it is that this <span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_63" id="Page_63">[Pg 63]</a></span>supposition is as false as it is possible for +any supposition to be. Let it be granted that a certain number of +homosexual offences are committed by persons who are sexually normal in +temperament. There remains the whole body of homosexuals, of those, that +is to say, in whom the homogenic attraction is as integral a part of their +nature as the appreciation of music or the love of colour. Abundant proof +of this contention is to hand. There have been thousands of individuals in +every age, including the present, who have never heard of +homosexuality,<small><a name="f16.1" id="f16.1" href="#f16">[16]</a></small> have never met other homosexuals, or come into contact +with anything approaching homosexual practice; and yet they have been +homosexual all their lives. I have known persons who believed that no one +else in the world shared their aspirations, and also have suffered +tortures because of their supposed isolated abnormality.</p> + +<p>The State attitude simply ignores this factor, and accordingly reveals +itself as unscientific.</p> + +<p>It is true that perhaps by such an agency as psycho-analysis reasons could +be found in many of these cases why the individual had developed on +inverted sex lines; home repressions, the system of<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_64" id="Page_64">[Pg 64]</a></span> early education, the +age of the parents, these or other influences, may have produced a complex +which has switched the sex-nature on to a particular path. But these +reasons do not necessarily show the result to be artificial; it is our +very nature indeed which these influences construct. It is impossible to +trace an exact line between the inherent nature and the effect which +outside influences have had upon it. We must, and we do in fact, regard +the permanent and fundamental traits, however derived, as “natural.”</p> + +<p>Moreover psycho-analysis definitely indicates that there is a homosexual +period through which all individuals inevitably pass.</p> + +<p>The State theory that the temperament is “unnatural” cannot therefore be +supported on any grounds, except in the cases where it is deliberately +assumed by normal persons. In most cases it is natural to the individual’s +nature, and not “unnatural,” but “abnormal.”</p> + +<p>Once this simple scientific truth is grasped the legal attitude is seen to +crumble in all directions. The case for criminal prosecution rests +logically on the assumption that unless homosexual practices are rigidly +suppressed they will spread. And since their increase would seriously +diminish the birth-rate the State is necessarily anxious to avert this +danger.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_65" id="Page_65">[Pg 65]</a></span> But it is an odd perversion which imagines that sober respectable +citizens are only restrained from indulging in homosexual vice by the +threat of penal servitude! Once the scientific truth is grasped and +homosexuality is seen to be, except in a small number of cases, the +natural temperament of a small minority, it will be realized that normal +persons are not likely to wish to commit unnatural acts, whether there is +or there is not a penal law; nor can any Act of Parliament prevent +homosexuals from being homosexual.</p> + +<p>And in practice this theoretical conclusion is found to hold true. For in +the countries, such as France, where the Code Napoléon does not cover +these prosecutions, homosexuality is far less rife than in England, or in +Germany, where until the Revolution the penal law was rigidly enforced.</p> + +<p>It is well that we should face these facts unreservedly, however strong +may be our personal antipathy to the practices.</p> + +<hr style="width: 25%;" /> + +<p>The second attitude may be described generally as that of society. Public +opinion must necessarily be too vague to admit of succinct definition. But +generally its attitude towards this question may be defined as that of an +ordinary man towards a freak; he has no sympathy with freaks and<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_66" id="Page_66">[Pg 66]</a></span> indeed +dislikes them—but they are so very rare that he can afford to ignore +them.</p> + +<p>The problem of the homosexual cannot however be avoided in this way, for +the simple reason that the invert forms so comparatively large and +permanent a part of the community. It is difficult to attempt an accurate +estimate, partly because many homosexuals are so afraid of incurring the +odium of public opinion that they successfully disguise their true nature +and are unsuspected even by their most intimate friends. But there is a +more fundamental difficulty. It appears to be undeniable that a large +number of normal people possess to some extent a strain of the homosexual +temperament. We have, in fact, as in almost all classifications, not a +naturally dividing gulf but a gradually ascending scale. Some individuals +may have only 5 per cent. inverted and 95 per cent. hetero-sexual +tendencies, while others are only 10 per cent. normal. There are a large +and increasing number of persons who are almost equally balanced on either +side. These bisexuals often marry happily and at the same time enjoy +homogenic experiences.</p> + +<p>When we remember that, according to psycho-analysis, everyone about the +age of puberty passes through a homosexual stage, it is probably not an +exaggeration to state that few people fail to preserve<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_67" id="Page_67">[Pg 67]</a></span> a stratum of this +nature, however small the percentage and however deeply such tendencies +may be buried in the unconsciousness.</p> + +<p>If however we decide to draw an arbitrary distinction and to define +persons with less than 30 per cent. inverted nature as normal, persons +from 30 to 60 per cent. as bisexual, and the remainder as homosexual, we +are left with a considerable number of the last variety. Havelock Ellis +has reckoned the percentage of homosexuals among the professional middle +classes in England as 5 per cent. and among women as 10 per cent.<small><a name="f17.1" id="f17.1" href="#f17">[17]</a></small> In +any case the popular view that the proportion is so small as to be +negligible is quite impossible, and is due to the fact that most men are +so unobservant of psychological evidence that their opinion is of little +serious value.</p> + +<p>However undesirable, then, this species of temperament may be, it cannot +be described as unnatural in the sense of artificial or unusual. The third +or current scientific attitude does seem at first to avoid these +superstitions and to rest on a reasonable basis. This attitude may be +described as that of regarding<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_68" id="Page_68">[Pg 68]</a></span> homosexuality as a disease, which should +neither be punished nor ignored, but treated. The theory that we all pass +through a homosexual period at a comparatively early stage, lends support +to this conclusion. The hero-age of boys and girls, it is urged, is almost +always directed towards the child’s own sex. Therefore it can fairly be +argued that where the sex development has been restricted to these lines +it denotes some strange dislocation which has prevented natural growth. +The fact that in some cases this cause can actually be traced—such as a +disappointment in an early love affair with the opposite sex, or to +artificial circumstances which have made for celibacy—confirm many +students of sex-science in this opinion.</p> + +<p>But as if nature deliberately intends to thwart all easily attained +explanations, she sets out certain facts, in practice, which entirely +invalidate the theory. It is true that many homosexuals, both men and +women, portray in general mental efficiency that peculiar want of +proportion in some direction which is the inevitable symptom of mental +abnormality; the male may be obviously effeminate, or, male or female, +eccentric or hysterical. But this is distinctly the exception. So far as +my personal experience goes, the majority of homosexuals are +indistinguishable from normal men, except by some<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_69" id="Page_69">[Pg 69]</a></span> psychic or intuitional +sense, in physical or mental appearance; and I observe that this +experience is shared by all those scientists who have written on the +subject. The undeniable facts are that among this minority of the race a +majority of men have, in all ages and races, held a pre-eminent and +honourable position in society, revealing the brilliance of sanity rather +than the abnormality of genius. The homosexual has succeeded not only as +might have been expected in the arts. It is true that, in general, he +possesses certain feminine attributes, such as a gentler and more +emotional positivity than the normal. But he has excelled in such +masculine paths as soldiering, statesmanship, and engineering. It is +almost irritating, where one wishes to find support for the scientific +explanation, to turn to history and discover that the homosexual section +of the Greeks were magnificent warriors as well as philosophers; that not +only Shakespeare, who wrote many of his sonnets to a boy, or Michael +Angelo, but Alexander the Great, Charles XII of Sweden, Frederick II of +Prussia, and William III of England, had their homosexual tendencies. +Indeed, were it permissible to do so, it would be possible to instance +some of our most famous generals and politicians of modern times as +possessing this unmistakable temperament.</p> + +<p>It is well then freely to admit that the scientific<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_70" id="Page_70">[Pg 70]</a></span> theory simply does +not square with the full facts of the case.</p> + +<p>The fourth attitude is that of religion. The Church’s official position is +mainly indistinguishable from that of the State, although the atmosphere +of the Church has tended largely to be congenial to this development. It +is evident that Christianity was influenced in its early days by the +appalling condition of vice in Roman society, and it is not to be wondered +at that a severe legacy of prejudice has been inherited in the light of +this indescribable experience. But this brings us conveniently to a point +where we must admit a fallacy underlying almost all considerations of the +homogenic sex nature. And unless we are able to dispose of the fallacy in +our minds, further investigation is useless.</p> + +<p>The fallacy consists of the assumption that homosexuality means only the +perpetration of the physical sex-act. In reality this is as untrue as to +suppose that the normal man is necessarily a patron of prostitutes. Such a +confusion of thought is obviously ludicrous. But not less inaccurate is +this prevailing idea regarding the homosexual. Not only is the particular +sex-act, popularly associated with this subject, an extremely rare +occurence, even as among the physical sex-expressions of this temperament, +but probably a vast majority of homosexuals<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_71" id="Page_71">[Pg 71]</a></span> are deliberately celibate. +Homosexuality is a romantic cult rather than a physical vice. Nine-tenths +of its energy is directed purely in the realm of ideals. The old +misconception of sex as a rather disreputable physical function again dogs +our steps. But sex is almost entirely emotional; sex-love, and especially +homosexual love, is not lust. Its desire is romantic and idealistic, and +when physical incidents occur, they are usually the unintentional outlets +of the purely emotional passion.</p> + +<p>The literature of homosexuality is almost entirely romantic, and small +though it is forced to be, in quality and ideal its average must rank as +extraordinarily noble.</p> + +<p>It is noticeable, indeed, that in a large proportion of the unpleasant +cases which are tried in police-courts, the offenders are admittedly +normal men who have deliberately perpetrated homosexual acts for various +causes, such as a neurotic desire for novelty, or the desire to avoid +disease. There are also the considerable class of perverted normals whose +deviation from their natural path as the result of some such influence as +heterosexual disappointment or repression, has been so emphasized as to +render their perversion distinct from natural developments, and who +refuse, or are unable, to deny themselves physical gratification.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_72" id="Page_72">[Pg 72]</a></span>If we dissociate the true homosexual from this class, and concentrate our +attention only on the “celibate” species of such attachments, it is +evident that we are in the presence, not merely of something which is not +criminal, but of an ideal which is sacred in character. Pure love, +especially so intense a love as the homogenic attachment, is not profane +but divine. And though the Church may be unable to recognize it by her +sacramental benediction, because, unlike marriage, it cannot effect +physical procreation, she possesses such Biblical precedents as the story +of David and Jonathan—an episode which is obviously homosexual in the +sense that it describes not a platonic companionship but a romantic +passion.</p> + +<p>In the social sphere also, the place of this aspect of homosexuality is +obvious. The homosexual must, and does in fact, exist in the most honoured +offices of the community. Indeed, it is no exaggeration to declare that +few men can be successful in educational or philanthropic work unless they +have some homogenic temperament in their nature. Without this they may +compel discipline but they are powerless to attract sympathetic +co-operation. The testimony in favour of this assertion is overwhelming.</p> + +<p>But when we admit that sex tends to find a physical expression, and we +come therefore face to face with the physical problem, the difficulty I +admit<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_73" id="Page_73">[Pg 73]</a></span> to be considerable. And I can only re-emphasize that this feature +is numerically and potentially the least important, but that there can be +no religious countenance for any physical sex-act outside the sacrament of +matrimony.</p> + +<hr style="width: 25%;" /> + +<p>Rape, and seduction without consent, are obviously evils calling for legal +prosecution, as being an infringement of personal liberty. And in this +connexion it must be remembered that homosexual practices tend to +seduction, inasmuch as the attraction is frequently towards those who have +not attained intellectual manhood. For the rest, I am inclined only to +re-affirm the general principle which I have already attempted to +define—namely, that sex becomes a sin where the main objective becomes +the physical gratification. Once the proportion is weighed on the side of +physical expression, love is prostituted. The purity of true love is known +by the fact that its face is turned not to mere physical functions, but +beyond the emotional and even mental, to the spiritual ideal. Indeed, a +lover, whatever his temperament happens to be, loves even if his beloved +is removed from all physical reach. That is the test.</p> + +<p>I do not look for salvation to the arms of mere criminal legislation. This +seems to me to be almost<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_74" id="Page_74">[Pg 74]</a></span> powerless as a moral force, and indeed, to +encourage the hideous apparatus of blackmail.<small><a name="f18.1" id="f18.1" href="#f18">[18]</a></small> Gradual and +unsensational as it may be, I believe that morals can only be improved by +educational and religious influences.</p> + +<p>And so far as theoretical solutions are concerned I believe that Mr. +Edward Carpenter<small><a name="f19.1" id="f19.1" href="#f19">[19]</a></small> comes nearest to the truth. Nature is deliberate in +creating not uniformity but variety, and I doubt if the world would +continue if there were only normal men in it. The homosexual has his +place, within restrictions, as has the celibate or the sexless type. The +real truth, I feel to be, is that few men are wholly masculine or women +feminine, and that somewhere, in comparative degrees, homosexuality is in +us all. It may become so excessive as to be a disease, or so feeble as to +create that unæsthetic, bourgeoise type,<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_75" id="Page_75">[Pg 75]</a></span> which is an unpleasant symptom +of super-normality.</p> + +<p>We enter the realm of pure conjecture if we attempt to inquire the purpose +for which this type has been deliberately created. And I can only record +my own entirely unproveable, but definite opinion, that the human race, in +the far ages ahead, will return, by a spiral process, to the bisexual +species from which I believe it has come. If this is so, the homosexual is +apparently a prototype, a preliminary attempt of nature to combine both +sex-natures in one individual. And with all his present imperfections, I +believe that there are evidences which go strongly to support this +conjecture.</p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_76" id="Page_76">[Pg 76]</a></span></p> +<h2>Chapter 9: The Sexless Class</h2> + +<p class="dropcap"><span class="caps">There</span> is little that need be written on this subject, not because it is +devoid of interest, but because it raises no vital sex problem.</p> + +<p>The number of sexless people is small, though apparently increasing. It +may be questioned whether there are any really sexless people—individuals, +i.e. whose sex-nature is non-existent. Probably in most of these cases +sex, for some reason or other, is there, dormant but positive. But it is +convenient so to classify those in whom, for some reason, the sex-force +has never yet been stirred.</p> + +<p>It must be remembered that this class is quite distinct from the religious +celibate. The celibate has all the sexual ardour for his religious or +humanitarian devotion. The sexless man or woman is cold, intellectually +aloof, and generally critical.</p> + +<p>There are only two considerations calling for remarks on this interesting +psychological problem. The first is that we must not allow the great body +of normal opinion to label such people as unnatural, and as having no part +to play in the community.<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_77" id="Page_77">[Pg 77]</a></span> They have, on the contrary, an important rôle. +Their intellectual ability is in itself a great asset, particularly in +abstract and critical directions. And in all sex questions they should, +and frequently have, an impartial outlook, for the very reason that they +can view sex from a detached standpoint.</p> + +<p>But, conversely—and this is the second consideration—they possess the +immoral tendency of regarding sex with abhorrence, especially when they +confuse sex with mere physical expression. In extreme cases the sexless +individual has been known even to faint or exhibit symptoms of nausea at +the chance touch of a woman. This is obviously to magnify the physical +side out of all clean proportion. And probably such cases show themselves +to be the result of artificial repression and consequent complex. It may +be argued from this that all deviations from the normal are the results of +repression. But, as we have seen, the difference between natural and +unnatural is comparative, and most of our nature is built up, in the first +instance, by early exterior influences.</p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_78" id="Page_78">[Pg 78]</a></span></p> +<h2>Chapter 10: Super-Abnormalities</h2> + +<p class="dropcap"><span class="caps">Under</span> this head I have included a number of characteristics, which have no +connective bearing upon one another. It seemed the most convenient +classification.</p> + +<p>Perhaps it will be best to take as the first example a sex tendency which +can hardly be described as super-abnormal, for among single men, and +especially among boys, it is extremely common.</p> + +<p>Auto-eroticism in the form of self-abuse is not an easy problem to tackle. +The usual policy adopted towards boys is most immoral. Well-meaning but +hopelessly vicious purists, write terrifying pamphlets or deliver lectures +in which they declare that this practice will inevitably lead to lunacy, +paralysis or even death. The result is that the boy is scared into an +ineffectual attempt at repression, which, so far as it is successful, sets +the sex-impulse at work into morose channels and makes him a liar or a +thief. Or he may be impelled to inquire for himself. He finds that, so +long as self-abuse occurs infrequently, it does not bring about these dire +evils, and accordingly he assumes that all moral doctrine is<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_79" id="Page_79">[Pg 79]</a></span> hypocrisy +and often falls into the opposite extreme of constant self-abuse, with the +result that actual physical and mental deterioration sets in.</p> + +<p>What is really the truth?</p> + +<p>The first consideration is that frequent and unregulated abuse does cause +physical harm. The margin of frequency which will escape this harm varies +with the individual. But, with growing boys, the practice is perhaps more +dangerous than after physical maturity. The whole reserve of the physical +constitution appears to be needed while the body is developing.</p> + +<p>The difficulty of this problem is its complications. There are several +entirely conflicting influences which must be weighed one against the +other.</p> + +<p>We have seen the physical danger, and, since morality must not be founded +on a lie, we must freely admit that the physical danger may be eliminated +by limiting the frequency of the practice. It may then be physically +harmless. There remain, however, at least two causes which make for a +misuse of the sex-force, that is—for immorality. The first is that it is +usually the result of mental weakness, sheer inability to overcome the +inclination. The mind, the will, <i>must</i> be supreme in its own house. Until +that is done little else matters. And it comes, therefore, to this, so far +as this particular consideration<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_80" id="Page_80">[Pg 80]</a></span> is concerned, that it is better for a +man deliberately to regulate himself by programme to certain times, than +to keep up an ineffectual struggle, or to obey whenever the inclination +arises.</p> + +<p>For, in both these cases, remorse follows. And this is as great an evil as +the failure of will; indeed, it <i>is</i> failure of will. Remorse is not +penitence. It is useless thereby to regret what has been done. A man must +simply own to himself that he has failed, make a resolution to be stronger +next time, and then sweep the recollection from his mind, switching off on +to other mental channels.</p> + +<p>The second influence which makes for impurity is that by this practice the +sex-force becomes literally selfish. Now, sex is fundamentally a movement +towards union through love, whether it be physical or super-physical. This +practice is merely a vicious circle, in which the love element, save in +the perverted form of narcissism, is absent. Accordingly, there must, +almost always, be evil mental results from this abuse. And, once again, we +see that the real evil is not in the physical act but in the realm of +thought, whether the act occurs or not.</p> + +<p>On the other hand, we must not become such abstract moralists as to deny +that in many individuals the sex-force is so strong as to press almost +irresistibly towards physical expression. Even dreams, which<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_81" id="Page_81">[Pg 81]</a></span> are the +normal outlet, may not be sufficient. A man who for some reason, cannot +marry, will therefore argue that his only alternative is recourse to +prostitution, and that self-abuse, so long as it is regulated, is morally +preferable. One remedy is, as we have already seen, the transfer of the +sex-force to higher channels, so that all the glow and energy of sex is +energized in devotion to a group of persons, or to a religious or +humanitarian ideal in concrete labour. For sex is primarily creative, and +if it is not creating physical children it may have, and should have, a +spiritual progeny—as in art and literature.</p> + +<p>The truth is that each individual case must be treated according to its +particular state of development. General rules in this instance are +particularly dangerous. We can only repeat that the repression is worse +than commission, that a seething mass of sexual thought is worse when it +has no physical outlet; that the ideal, when there may be no legitimate +outlet—and, indeed, to some extent, in all cases—is to find an emotional +outlet, to dig thought and emotional channels along which the sex-force +may flow, but the physical expression of which is, in the ordinary sense +of the term, non-sexual.<small><a name="f20.1" id="f20.1" href="#f20">[20]</a></small></p> + +<p>And this is quite possible.</p> + +<p> <span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_82" id="Page_82">[Pg 82]</a></span></p> +<p class="center">II</p> + +<p>Attraction towards young children is frequently, perhaps almost entirely, +sexual. A symptom of this temperament is that romantic attachments are +formed towards either sex, because, before puberty, the child is bisexual +or sexless. This must essentially be a cult; it is a clean and noble cult, +but the penalty of its high standard is that here all physical sex +expression must be denied except in the lesser form of embrace.</p> + +<p>Here, indeed, the prosecution of the law against sex-acts is justified. +For, not only is the child incapable of giving valid consent, but the +commission of the sex-act is physically and morally injurious. It is +physically injurious beyond all doubt at a young age, and it is morally +injurious, because it introduces sex to an age of development when the +consciousness of sex should not have appeared above the horizon. The +inevitable result is that if sex-acts take place the child eventually ages +rapidly, as can be seen among the child-mothers of India. Maturity is +induced far before its time.</p> + +<p>The sex consciousness, as distinct from the unconsciousness, can be +awakened in the earliest years of childhood. The young boy or girl often +shows an extraordinarily intuitive perception that there is a<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_83" id="Page_83">[Pg 83]</a></span> sexual +design behind even the apparently harmless overtures. And this is why this +cult is particularly dangerous. The lover, in fact, must not only entirely +eliminate the morally criminal sex inclinations, but he must take care not +to become so sentimental and romantic as really to suggest sex to the +child’s unconsciousness. It is difficult to draw the line as to what is a +lawful and what is an unlawful expression of this sex-temperament. One can +only say that the remedy is not to concentrate love on one child, but on +children generally. The child must not be treated as an adult; there must +be no manifestations of jealousy, or insistence on a return of love +expression. The embrace of children must be natural but not too ardent. In +fact, the lover must diffuse his love and romp with children as a class +rather than allow himself to appear emotional over one individual.</p> + +<p>Many unthinking people will at once regard this temperament as impure when +they have been convinced that scientifically it is sexual. But this is +only because they cannot understand that sex is a clean thing and that the +physical side of it is an occasional and by no means an inevitable +incident. The cult of child-love is in fact one of the purest and noblest +of sex-expressions. But it is a difficult path, and he who treads it must +beware of many pitfalls.</p> + +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_84" id="Page_84">[Pg 84]</a></span>Again, I quite deny that it is due to thwarted paternal instinct. I +believe it to be as natural a variety as any other of the +sex-temperaments. We have suffered too long from the superstition that sex +is a uniformity of type.</p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">III</p> + +<p>Then there is that strange form of sex-expression known as bestiality.</p> + +<p>To most of us the connexion between man and beast in sex is so revolting +that there is a great danger of our prejudice running away with us.</p> + +<p>I believe that prejudice against what seems to me so debased a vice, is +justifiable. But I am equally sure that to punish such offences by +criminal law has no shred of justification, except when the act is done in +public so as to be openly indecent. No physical or moral harm can be done +to the animal. And were it not tragic, the idea of sentencing the +offenders to penal servitude would be itself a travesty.</p> + +<p>The practice, which is not so uncommon as many people imagine, is not so +much immoral as unnatural. I mean that this can hardly ever be a variety +of sex-temperament. Although the love of women for pet dogs is probably a +form of perverted sex-outlet, it seems impossible to discover here any<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_85" id="Page_85">[Pg 85]</a></span> +actual love going out towards animals rather than to humans. Therefore, +the act is almost always due to a desire for mere physical expression, +when this happens to have been chosen as the most convenient.</p> + +<p>The true remedy, therefore, can only be to take the individual and educate +him. He must be shown that it is immoral for man to devolve back to the +animal level. He is superior to the beast. He must be reminded that sex +must be a result of love, and that sex-love between man and animal would +only be possible if it were moral for man to cease to reason, to go down +on all fours, and to eat and drink and live like an animal. Even the most +primitive man would not wish to do that. And if he feels any sense of +abhorrence at such a proposal, then he must learn to extend his abhorrence +to any attempt at a similar equality in sex.</p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center">IV</p> + +<p>The strange and almost endless forms of sex-association need not be +considered, since they have no moral problem of their own. The man whose +sex-force is stirred into energy by the sight of some inanimate physical +object is obviously the victim of a sex-repression. And such diseases must +be treated as any other repressions should be. These<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_86" id="Page_86">[Pg 86]</a></span> general +considerations must suffice here for all forms of sex perversions, such as +sadism and its converse. And it is not difficult to distinguish between +the unnaturalness of such practices and the natural character of the main +sex-types which we have already mentioned.</p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_87" id="Page_87">[Pg 87]</a></span></p> +<h2>Chapter XI: Sex Education</h2> + +<p class="dropcap"><span class="caps">It</span> is becoming evident to all students of the sex-problem that the remedy +for many of the difficulties arising therefrom is a wholesome and +efficient sex-education.</p> + +<p>In many cases the parents are not the persons most fitted to give this +education. They may not possess the art of imparting knowledge, and often +there is a certain reticence between parent and child, which when present +creates a bar to the proper handling of this question. The child goes to +school to learn, and the school must take its share of this +responsibility. Where this is not done the effect is deplorable. In the +preparatory school sex has hardly appeared. But in any school where there +are older boys or girls, and where sex-education is not given, knowledge +is rapidly obtained. Officially sex is ignored until, on rare occasions, +it is detected. Severe punishment is then meted out, and perhaps the +offender is even expelled, although the school is really penalizing the +results of its own system.</p> + +<p>It is unnecessary to labour the apology that the<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_88" id="Page_88">[Pg 88]</a></span> absence of sex-education +ensures innocence. In no school is this the case. If it were, with growing +boys and girls, it would be unnatural. Sex-instinct is bound to grow as +the physical body grows, and to ignore this fact is to create the +conception that sex-instinct is immoral. We then obtain the usual attitude +adopted in public schools—that sex is to be indulged behind closed doors +and sex literature sniggered at in dark corners. The boy grows up with a +totally unclean view of sex. He becomes either an intolerable prude, or +else he approaches sex-experience with an entirely twisted conception of +sex-morality. One is continually meeting instances of this perverted +imagination. Not only boys, but men, will regard an outspoken book on sex, +perhaps written with the purest of motives, as “hot stuff,” something to +be greedily devoured when the eye of respectable authority is conveniently +removed. Recently, a man was told that a certain clergyman was a member of +a group of students studying sex-psychology. He expressed the opinion, +with a knowing leer, that “some parsons are not such fools after all.”</p> + +<p>These crude examples of the result of driving sex into a dark corner +exactly represent what one is up against in school, and in the world, when +one begins to deal with sex openly and cleanly as a natural and +non-repressible instinct. Really these people are<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_89" id="Page_89">[Pg 89]</a></span> a type of prude, much +as they would resent this classification, for they persist in regarding +sex as something which is rather naughty. They even imagine that to take +away from it the cloak of unnaturalness with which they have surrounded it +is to rob it of all its attraction. This is ridiculously untrue. Sex is +attractive because it is romantic, and, so long as one does not go to the +opposite extreme of regarding it merely through the musty glasses of +scientific classification, it becomes no less attractive when it is open +and natural, and ceases to be the cause of giggling asides.</p> + +<p>Before any moral sense in the sex-problem can be established there must be +a fundamental cleaning of this cess-pool, this strange medley of official +silence, unnatural repression, and unclean secretiveness. The main road to +a moral sense is sex-education. And it is necessary, therefore, to +conclude this outline of principles by suggesting some conditions which +should govern such instruction.</p> + +<p>It is obvious that sex-education must be advanced on the process of a +sliding scale. Before puberty sex should not appear on the horizon of the +child’s consciousness. The precocious child must of course be specially +dealt with, but usually the first lessons in sex should commence with the +period of mental puberty. Before that time the small child jokes only<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_90" id="Page_90">[Pg 90]</a></span> +about the normal excretory functions, and this can be adjusted by +emphasizing the unmanly and unnecessary character of such forms of humour. +A child has usually an exaggerated impression of the value of the adult +standard, an impression which it must be confessed is too often subject to +subsequent disillusionment. While it remains, however, it can be used, and +it can be pointed out that “grown-ups” do not consider the excretory +system has any more claim to ridicule than the process of digestion or +sleep. Vulgarity and coarseness are not symptoms even of immoral +sexuality.</p> + +<p>The problem commences, then, with puberty. And here a warning should be +uttered against that school of reformers which tends to the view that sex +can be regarded as naturally and as publicly as natural history or +chemistry. This attitude ignores the fact that there is such a quality as +sexual appetite. And consequently, sex education should be rather a matter +for individuals than for public instruction. We have remarked that the +parent may not infrequently be an unfortunate educator. But where these +objections do not arise, the home is an admirable atmosphere for sensible +teaching. The Catholic Church possesses the invaluable medium of the +Confessional, and where the Confessor can give sound sex instruction no +better opportunity can be<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_91" id="Page_91">[Pg 91]</a></span> imagined. There remains the school, but even +here better work will be done in the study than the classroom.</p> + +<p>The immediate problem in the early post-puberty age is the tendency +towards solitary practices. It must be recognized that this is usual with +all children, and that there is no evidence to show that, save in extreme +exceptions, physical harm results. All attempt at <i>alarmist prudism</i> must +be abandoned. Sane instruction will tend rather to emphasize that sex +abuse is due to a weakness of will-power, and that man is most manly, i.e. +most removed from the animal, in the exercise of will-power. All education +should contain that subject which is at present consistently ignored, +namely, the art of thought-control. The child will be interested to follow +certain simple rules of mental exercise, and where this is followed the +liability to indulge in sex-acts diminishes. It is this element which must +be emphasized, the fact, that is, that solitary practices are usually the +result of an inability to exercise the will and control the mind.</p> + +<p>At a slightly later period, the public-school age, there emerges the +tendency, in addition to onanism, for promiscuous practices, usually of a +homogenic nature. A further stage of sex-education must now be opened out, +namely the principle that physical<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_92" id="Page_92">[Pg 92]</a></span> sex expression must be the expression +only of love. The problem now becomes necessarily more acute, but there is +this element which tends to lessen the difficulties of the instructor’s +task. The individual is always interested about himself; he is naturally +egotistical. The youth will gladly listen to what can be told him of his +own nature. He must be shown the immense superiority of mind both over the +emotional and physical natures. This may involve a slight dethronement of +the public school appreciation of sport. So long as it is slight such a +dethronement will be a reform in itself. The boy in his middle teens must +be taught that man is greater in his mental than in his physical activity; +he must be reminded that he is inferior to many animals on the physical +level. The application of this doctrine to sex is that sex-expression for +the purpose of physical curiosity or excitement is a denial of the +monopoly of love, which belongs to the emotional and mental capacities.</p> + +<p>The young man and the girl, who has left school, will be ready to receive +the whole standard of sex-morality as has been outlined in this manual. +The chief trouble now becomes over-sentimentality, the tendency to develop +emotionally at the expense of the mind. And it becomes, therefore, +essential to remind the pupil that where there are continual<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_93" id="Page_93">[Pg 93]</a></span> passing and +promiscuous sexual or love affairs, the mind is being shut out from its +natural functions. To be attracted sexually towards any pretty girl, to +develop sexual relations with different women from week to week, is simply +a form of mental unbalance. The emotions are in the saddle. For directly +the mind begins to operate there is introduced the element of permanency +and constancy. The deepest and most real pleasures only begin in the realm +of mentality. The man who hears music only to beat time or remember a +catchy tune is shut out of the immense joy of the intellectual love of +music. So the young man who lives in a fever of hot-house sexuality, of +absorbing intrigues in the dance-room, or the morbid atmosphere of the +street corner, is shut out of all the exquisite joys of love. He does not +know this, any more than the irreligious man knows what he loses through +an absence of the spiritual sense. But he must be told.</p> + +<p>The basic principle of sex values is that sex is immoral so far as the +physical side outweighs in proportion the emotional and mental—so far +indeed, as the act becomes the motive and not the incident. Sex may be +dedicated only to love; divorced from love, it is an abuse. There can be +no exceptions to this rule, and we can only clarify our ideas as to what +is and what is not love. Perhaps this maxim, which<span class="pagenum"><a name="Page_94" id="Page_94">[Pg 94]</a></span> we learn by gradual +experience, will help us. Sex passion quickly burns itself out. The +pleasures derived from passion will be of a purely temporary nature, +without the satisfaction which alone comes from permanence. All physical +things are less permanent than the mental. There is no joy, no divine +nature in sex, save where from the ashes of passion rises the phœnix of +the “sexual” but the super-passionate attachment. And this permanent +possession can only come, whether in marriage or outside, where the mind, +healthily developed and exercised, is taking its true place in the +expression of pure love.</p> + +<p> </p> +<p class="center"><i>Printed in Great Britain by Hazell, Watson & Viney, Ld., London and Aylesbury.</i></p> + + +<p> </p><p> </p> +<hr style="width: 50%;" /> +<p><b>Footnotes:</b></p> + +<p><a name="f1" id="f1" href="#f1.1">[1]</a> <i>The Origin of Sexual Modesty</i>, by Edward Westermarck.</p> + +<p><a name="f2" id="f2" href="#f2.1">[2]</a> <i>Vide</i> R. V. Jellyman (1838) 8 C and P, 604.</p> + +<p><a name="f3" id="f3" href="#f3.1">[3]</a> Until recently incest was not a civil offence.</p> + +<p><a name="f4" id="f4" href="#f4.1">[4]</a> The second object of marriage is declared to be “a remedy against +sin...; that such persons as have not the gift of continency marry and +keep themselves undefiled members of Christ’s body.”</p> + +<p><a name="f5" id="f5" href="#f5.1">[5]</a> 1 Cor. vii. 8, 9. “Burn” means sex-obsession as mentioned on page 38.</p> + +<p><a name="f6" id="f6" href="#f6.1">[6]</a> “Where the decree Tametsi of the Council of Trent has not been +proclaimed, marriage is constituted by mere consent freely exchanged +between persons who are by natural and canonical law competent and able to +intermarry.”—Geary’s <i>Marriage and Family Relations</i>. (Now altered by <i>Ne +temere</i>-decree, but the principle remains.)</p> + +<p><a name="f7" id="f7" href="#f7.1">[7]</a> We have already commented on the strange inconsistency of regarding +the sex-act as evil <i>per se</i> outside marriage, and as a virtue in +marriage.</p> + +<p><a name="f8" id="f8" href="#f8.1">[8]</a> I am using “celibacy” to imply complete physical chastity.</p> + +<p><a name="f9" id="f9" href="#f9.1">[9]</a> With the curious inconsistency, already referred to, that in marriage +non-celibacy is a virtue.</p> + +<p><a name="f10" id="f10" href="#f10.1">[10]</a> Except by Act of Parliament.</p> + +<p><a name="f11" id="f11" href="#f11.1">[11]</a> The Majority Report of the Divorce Commission is a good instance of +the unnecessary hardship which results from half-hearted proposals of this +kind. Divorce is to be allowed, for example, after desertion for three +years; why not for two? Or again, the wife of an incurable drunkard is to +be free to obtain divorce, while the unhappy wife of a man who suffers +from violent fits of intermittent drunkenness is to be denied this relief.</p> + +<p><a name="f12" id="f12" href="#f12.1">[12]</a> I refrain from adding “economic” reasons, for I believe that the +State should remove, as far as possible, all such obstacles against +healthy parents begetting children.</p> + +<p><a name="f13" id="f13" href="#f13.1">[13]</a> Procuration for the purpose of prostitution is of course an entirely +different matter.</p> + +<p><a name="f14" id="f14" href="#f14.1">[14]</a> No actual physical harm need result from an incestuous union. The +only effect which seems to be caused is that the characteristics to be +hereditarily transmitted are doubled. Thus with only a small grain of +insanity in a family the chances of aggravated insanity appearing in the +offspring of a brother and sister would be considerable.</p> + +<p><a name="f15" id="f15" href="#f15.1">[15]</a> Spiritual affinity was a bar, so that not only could not godparents +marry each other, but there could be no valid unions between a godparent +and the child’s father or mother. (Geary’s <i>Marriage and Family +Relations</i>.)</p> + +<p><a name="f16" id="f16" href="#f16.1">[16]</a> Some apology must be made for the use of this hybrid term. The +unwarrantable confusion of Greek and Latin terminology must, however, be +laid at the door of popular use.</p> + +<p><a name="f17" id="f17" href="#f17.1">[17]</a> <i>Psychology of Sex</i>; Vol. <i>Sexual Inversion</i>. Dr. Hirschfeld in his +<i>Statistischen Vatersuchunge über den Prozentensetz der Homosexuellen</i>, +considers that out of 100,000 inhabitants, 94,600 on the average are +sexually normal, 1,500 exclusively homosexual, and 3,900 bisexual.</p> + +<p><a name="f18" id="f18" href="#f18.1">[18]</a> The existence of this danger was admitted in a debate in the House of +Lords on August 15, 1921, on The Criminal Law Amendment Bill. The Earl of +Malmesbury, speaking on a proposal to apply criminal prosecution to +homosexual offences among women, declared that “the opportunity for +blackmail will be vastly and enormously increased.” Other speakers +concurred in this view, and it was partly on this ground that the proposal +was thrown out.</p> + +<p>It is hardly necessary to point out that if blackmail would be encouraged +by such legislation, it must equally be encouraged by the present law +regarding similar offences between males.</p> + +<p><a name="f19" id="f19" href="#f19.1">[19]</a> <i>The Intermediate Sex.</i></p> + +<p><a name="f20" id="f20" href="#f20.1">[20]</a> I cannot enter here into that further theory which may be described +as “expression through a phantasy.”</p> + + + + + + + + + + + +<pre> + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's An Outline of Sexual Morality, by Kenneth Ingram + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK AN OUTLINE OF SEXUAL MORALITY *** + +***** This file should be named 34309-h.htm or 34309-h.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/3/4/3/0/34309/ + +Produced by The Online Distributed Proofreading Team at +http://www.pgdp.net (This file was produced from images +generously made available by The Internet Archive/American +Libraries.) + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: An Outline of Sexual Morality + +Author: Kenneth Ingram + +Release Date: November 14, 2010 [EBook #34309] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ASCII + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK AN OUTLINE OF SEXUAL MORALITY *** + + + + +Produced by The Online Distributed Proofreading Team at +http://www.pgdp.net (This file was produced from images +generously made available by The Internet Archive/American +Libraries.) + + + + + + + + + +An Outline of Sexual Morality + + + + + An Outline of + Sexual Morality + + Kenneth Ingram + + _The Introduction_ by F. W. W. Griffin, + M.A., M.D., M.R.C.S., L.R.C.P. + + Jonathan Cape + Eleven Gower Street, London + + + + _First published 1922 + All Rights reserved_ + + + + +Author's Note + + +I am anxious to take this opportunity of thanking those friends who have +helped me by valuable suggestion and criticism in correcting the proofs of +this small book. In particular I desire to mention Canon Lacey and Dr. +Griffin, and to apologize for the amount of time which I must have stolen +from them. + +KENNETH INGRAM + +_March 1922_ + + + + +Introduction + + +Any honest inquiry into the Primal Instincts of humanity will necessarily +lead to a clearer understanding of their nature, their functions, and +their potentialities, and so will help to pave the way for the appearance +of a healthier and happier race of men. The dictum "Learn to know +yourself," inscribed on the Temple of Apollo at Delphi, has never been of +more vital importance, both individually and nationally, than it is +to-day, and the various schools of modern psychological thought, which are +steadily opening up those hitherto scarcely explored regions whence flow +the springs of human actions, are gradually clearing away the ignorance +which has been the real cause of so much disease and distress. The +following chapters are to be welcomed particularly as an effort at the +constructional reform of our treatment of one of our deepest and most +powerful instincts. Even those who do not necessarily give assent to all +the details in the line of argument therein pursued must surely approve +the insistence upon the vital necessity of there being love in all sex +relationships. + +The word "sexual," though indispensable perhaps in such a book as this, +invariably induces some measure of opposition by reason of the +associations which it calls up, and so is often replaced by the cognate +adjective "racial," which emphasizes the wider aims of Race Preservation +rather than the narrower matter of the reproduction of individuals. It is +not a matter of curing individual immorality, not even of explaining it +only, it is the greater matter of laying a sound foundation for a +practicable social morality that is the object of consideration here. It +is important that any such opposition should be neither hypocritical nor +hyper-critical, for great national issues are at stake. Without the +healthy mind there can be no healthy body, at any rate from the point of +view of the community, and thus such a scientific inquiry as is set forth +in these pages is definitely leading towards the production of a healthier +nation. + +The necessity of there being established a balance between an unlimited +self-expression and a rigid self-repression is clearly indicated also, and +the importance of self-control is not ignored here as it has been +elsewhere, unfortunately, both as regards the individual's physical health +and the weal of the community at large; for self-control is a vital +essential in the health of a man just as it is a vital necessity for the +continuance of a nation. The following pages contain information and +suggestions which should tend to the formation of a wiser and more hopeful +outlook over the problems of sexual morality, and should therefore receive +the careful consideration of all who have the interests of humanity at +heart. + +F. W. W. GRIFFIN M.A., M.D., M.R.C.S., L.R.C.P. + +_March 1922_ + + + + +Contents + + +CHAPTER PAGE + + 1. APOLOGIA 7 + + 2. OFFICIAL ATTITUDES TOWARDS SEX 13 + + 3. THE GENERAL PRINCIPLES OF PURITY 23 + + 4. CELIBACY 31 + + 5. NON-CELIBACY 36 + + 6. DIVORCE 45 + + 7. EUGENICS AND PROSTITUTION 52 + + 8. THE HOMOSEXUAL TEMPERAMENT 60 + + 9. THE SEXLESS CLASS 76 + + 10. SUPER-ABNORMALITIES 78 + + 11. SEX EDUCATION 87 + + + + +An Outline of Sexual Morality + + + + +Chapter 1: Apologia + + +I have been impelled to attempt this definition of sexual morality for at +least three reasons. The first is that, at this moment particularly, +science is emphasizing the large responsibility which sex assumes in our +lives. We may think that Freud has overestimated this influence; +nevertheless, all psycho-analysis tends to show that the sex-force cannot +be wholly repressed and that even with the most passionless individuals +sex is the unconscious motive in a large percentage of their activities. +It is well therefore that we should have as clear a conception as possible +as to the moral rights of this enormous factor in our lives. + +Secondly, a handbook of this kind is perhaps the most convenient medium +for defining my personal attitude towards this problem. My own views are, +of course, unimportant, but it so happens that I have often been asked, in +private conversations, to define them. Now to summarize them to the +extent which a casual conversation must almost necessarily entail, is +difficult; and often, I suspect, I may have given a wholly wrong +impression. I am anxious to set that right. + +But my chief reason is the chaos of public opinion on this question. One +is continually having this fact forced on one. Largely this is the result +of transition and reaction. In England, the country to which I shall +almost entirely confine myself, we have been enormously affected by that +presentation of religion which has been called Puritanism. We have been +steeped in the theology of Milton. All forms of religion--Catholic as well +as Protestant--have been comparatively infected. When we speak of the +"religious attitude" towards any question, we find ourselves irresistibly +considering the Puritan attitude. + +It is not, I think, unfair to define the influence of Puritanism as a +tendency to regard all amusement with disfavour. The original Puritans +were notoriously dour in their manner and their dress. It has been said +that they attacked the sport of bear-baiting, because it gave pleasure to +the onlookers, and not because it was painful to the bears. Sunday, on +which the outward observance of religion was necessarily concentrated, +became a day of complete abstention from worldly recreation. Puritanism +might supply spiritual compensation, but anything which gave pleasure to +the senses was essentially evil. Thus art and beauty were banished from +religious services and sacred buildings. Not only was the stage an +entrance to hell, but a consistent Puritan like Bunyan prayed God to +forgive him the sin of having played a game of hockey. + +Puritanism had reached its zenith, not of intensity but of universality, +by the latter half of the last century. Those of us who are old enough to +have been Victorians were brought up on comparative doses of the Puritan +medicine. Especially among the middle-classes the history of every English +family from the eighties till the War is extraordinarily similar; it +consists of a series of emancipations. Our grandparents were almost +entirely Puritan in their manner of living, our parents had compromised +and extricated themselves to some degree, and our children have become +almost wholly free. How many of us realize that up to the seventies it was +quite improper for a lady to ride on the top of an omnibus? + +In no instance was the effect of Puritanism stronger than on sex. For sex +is pre-eminently inspired by a desire for pleasure, whether it be +spiritual, emotional, or carnal. On this score alone it would have been +marked out as a deadly evil. But there was a further indictment in the +Puritan creed. According to the Miltonian interpretation Paradise had been +lost on account of the sex impulse; "original sin" was nothing more or +less than the sense of sex--the loss of sexual ignorance. Accordingly the +whole sex-nature was regarded as evil, and sex generally became a taboo, a +closed subject to which no reference could be made. Victorian Puritanism +often, indeed, suggests the ostrich burying his head in the sand--the +attempt to remedy evil by pretending that it does not exist. + +The effect of Puritanism on the Victorian was precisely this conformity of +outward behaviour. It assumed that all men and women were innocent, and +that, except in marriage, sex played no part in life. It pretended they +were innocent, and it made them only respectable. Parents would often +refrain, on the plea that innocence must not be disturbed, from teaching +their children anything about sex. So impure and evil a subject must not +be referred to. Such unpleasant problems as venereal disease must be +hidden out of sight, although prostitution and venereal disease continue +to flourish. The Victorian, in fact, carried out the Puritan doctrine that +all sex is evil, by outwardly pretending that, unless married, he +possessed no sexual instinct. Actually he was no more inclined to +abstention than any other human generation has been. + +Indeed, we do not find any evidence that Puritanism succeeds in carrying +its anti-sex theories into practice. In South Wales, for example, where +Puritanism has established a particular stronghold, sexual laxity is +peculiarly marked. + +The reaction from Puritanism, especially in regard to sex, has been +precipitated and exaggerated by the Great War. We have therefore in modern +society two opposing policies. Among those who have thrown over all +"religious" observance and have freed themselves entirely from Puritanism, +there seems to be a complete absence of any moral sex-standard. We can +appreciate that impasse if we consider the inability of the sex-novel or +play to suggest any form of conduct which is immoral. Those who still +adhere to organized religion continue to look at sex largely through +Puritan spectacles. The "fallen woman" or the convicted clergyman is +genuinely regarded as being guilty of the most damning of all offences. +The sexual laxity of the neo-Georgian is used as a convincing argument +that once the Puritan view is abandoned, complete anarchy is the only +alternative. Religious teachers continue to preach what many of them would +deny to be Puritan doctrine, but what I hope to prove belongs peculiarly +to that aspect of Christianity. And meanwhile the "non-religious world" +pronounces the opposite extreme. + +It is because I believe both these attitudes to contain error, that I am +anxious to contribute the foundation for some principle in the current +deadlock. + + + + +Chapter 2: Official Attitudes towards Sex + + +It will now be convenient to define the chief collective or official +attitudes towards sex. In a mere outline such as this handbook professes +to be, we may divide these attitudes into three, and label them the +popular attitude, the legal or State attitude, and the religious attitude. + +With the popular attitude we have already largely dealt. It is still in a +transitory, confused state, merging at one end into the old Puritan +extreme, and at the other to mere negativism, mere opposition to Puritan +asceticism, and without even an attempt to reconstruct a moral standard. +This perhaps is an inevitable stage in any transition; but it is none the +less unsatisfactory. Man cannot succeed without a standard; and moreover +we know intuitively that all things are not morally permissible. If there +is purity and beauty and divinity in life, there must be impurity and sin. +Will it be considered an exaggeration if I say that it is almost better to +have a Puritan standard than none at all? The Roundhead at least was more +than a match for the Cavalier because he had a positive inspiration. + +But there is one common feature in this chaos of evolving popular opinion. +The vulgar mind tends to measure morality by what is usual. The sins which +most men commit are regarded as hardly evil; the acts which may not be +evil, are regarded as sins if they are peculiar. Thus an occasional lapse +from continency on the part of a young man is popularly regarded as not +very reprehensible, whereas the perpetrator of some weird act of +bestiality would be hounded to prison. The flaw in this estimate is not +only that the normal standard varies in race and age, but that there is no +single human sex nature; there are infinite varieties. To condemn variety +_per se_ is, as we shall presently observe, a contradiction of the laws of +nature. + +The gradual emancipation of society from the taboo on sex in conversation +is an undoubted gain. We owe such men as Bernard Shaw a debt of gratitude +for the way in which they have forced sex reference into the play, and +therefore on public notice. But if this is to result in eliminating sex +modesty it is creating evils greater than those which it seeks to remove. +I will not here embark upon a consideration of such a theory as that which +has been interestingly propounded by Mr. Westermarck, namely that there is +a relationship between sexual modesty and the feeling against incest.[1] +I will only insist that modesty is natural in all qualities which we +regard as sacred. + +If we are modest about sex in our conversation to the extent of placing a +taboo on sex, and allowing sexual problems to remain unsolved, or in +letting our children confuse innocence with ignorance, we are on +indefensible ground; indefensible, I think, because our modesty is based +on the Puritan doctrine that sex is at heart an unclean thing. I wish +especially to defend modesty because sex is so clean. We do not want to +vulgarize by public reference our most spiritual experiences, our sense of +love, our feeling of exaltation in the presence of what is beautiful and +divine. We speak of these things only at more sacred moments, if at all. +We must be careful, too, lest in a reaction from taboo we allow science to +rob sex of its romantic and divine character. We have carefully to +preserve the centre of gravitation between two extremes. We should look +askance at a man who collected in a glass bottle, and analysed, his +mother's tears. + +In this connexion it may be well to call attention to the inconsistency of +the male in making the sex-act a subject for humour. Whatever our +religious belief, we know that the sex-act is the means of procreation, +and is, for this reason alone, a sacred function. It seems inconsistent, +therefore, that we should so persistently treat it as a mark for ridicule. + + * * * * * + +The second general attitude is that of the State, or legislature. Here we +find ourselves in the presence of a consistent motive. The State is +concerned only with the preservation of the birth-rate; any sex behaviour +which defeats this object it regards as immoral and punishable. The State +cannot interfere so far with individual privacy as to punish masturbation +or artificial means of restraint; but it does go to the extent of +punishing "unnatural" acts between husband and wife,[2] and in America, +the State has even penalized the activities of the neo-Malthusian +propaganda. All sex abnormalities are rigidly punished, whereas the +procreation of children outside wedlock is not a legal offence.[3] + +This is a consistent attitude, but it suggests one serious flaw. Whatever +may have been the case in early days when an increase of population was +essential, there can be little doubt that to-day that necessity has +diminished. Indeed, without entering into the Malthusian controversy, it +is almost impossible to deny that at the moment we are suffering largely +from over-population. Consequently, whatever opportunist policy may +dictate, we cannot poise our estimate of morality on so shifting a basis +as the needs of population. Instinctively we cannot associate morality in +anything with the legal attitude. There are many acts even outside the sex +sphere which most of us would consider immoral, but which are unpunished +by law, and others which are illegal but are not immoral; it is immoral to +lie, but unless we lie on oath there is no State offence; it is punishable +to ride a bicycle without lights after dark, but we are conscious of no +moral delinquency in so doing. + + * * * * * + +The third attitude is that of religion. We have already discussed the +Puritan attitude and the manner in which it has permeated our unconscious +religious thought. In the Anglican marriage-service there appears at first +sight to be some endorsement of the theory that the sex-act is unclean and +is only permitted in marriage as a concession to human weakness.[4] This +doctrine owes its derivation to St. Paul, although it is important to +notice that St. Paul specially emphasizes that he is not speaking +ex-cathedra: "I say therefore to the unmarried and widows it is good for +them to remain even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry; for +it is better to marry than to burn."[5] + +These words will probably be used as an argument against the statement +that it is a specifically Puritan doctrine to regard the sex-act as +unclean. It will be urged that the early Christian Church, as shown by the +writings of the Fathers, discouraged marriage and upheld celibacy as the +ideal. I hope, in a moment, to differentiate between the Catholic and the +Puritan doctrine. But more immediately we will consider what I have +broadly defined as the Puritan attitude. + +The flaw in the argument that the sex-act is by nature unclean and must be +suppressed, even though in marriage it may be legitimized, is that it is +the ordained means of procreation. Further than this, we have the +inevitable fact to face that the sex-instinct in normal persons is so +strong that it can only with great difficulty be suppressed, and then +results in an outflow of sex activity in what we usually know as +non-sexual channels. Often this suppression will find its vent in mental +dislocation and general nervous irritability. But without analysing these +complex symptoms, it is sufficient to ask those who admit the control of +God, why God created the sex impulse in order that it should be +obliterated. + +Directly we move away from this strict doctrine to the modified popular +expression of it, we find that the position is becoming more intelligible +but less logical. It is consistent to regard all sex as evil. But when the +average Christian, while denouncing adultery as a sin, insists on +copulation in marriage as its consummation, a difficulty arises which must +not be ignored. Here, in adultery, is a sin which is so serious in the +eyes of Christian men, that it can never be redeemed; the stigma of +impurity remains for ever on the offender. Yet this same act, if only +committed under the regulation of marriage becomes not merely something +permissible, but the essential act of consummation, the divine method of +procreation. One can understand how an act, good in itself, can become a +sin because it is performed under impermissible circumstances. But it is +difficult to conceive of an act changing its integral nature, so that at +one moment it is a necessary virtue, and at another the basest vice. It +is, for instance, legal for a soldier to kill an enemy in battle, while it +is a crime for one civilian to kill another; but the act of killing is +_per se_ an evil thing, even in the case of a soldier. It never becomes so +exalted as is the sex-act in marriage. + +The Catholic doctrine, however, while at first sight it appears to be +identical with the Puritan, is actually quite distinct. + +For one thing there is a difference of attitude towards sin. Puritanism +seems to suggest that those who have been "converted" are actually +perfect. It insists that they shall keep up this outward appearance, and +consequently ensures that their sins must be committed secretly. They are +then sufficiently perfect to ascend, after death, direct to Heaven. +Catholicism, however, is continually recognizing that man is normally a +sinner; the confessional is a public recognition of this fact. Catholicism +therefore approaches the question of sex with the expectation that man +will sin, that the probability of his fall is so great as to make it +unnecessary and undesirable to hide all traces of his sin from public +view. The Puritan attitude towards sex is really that of the prude. The +Catholic Church is so ready to talk about sex in a decent manner that she +provides the confessional as a permanent institution. + +When we turn to the Catholic attitude towards sex we are faced indeed with +two significant dogmas which make up a position fundamentally distinct +from that of Puritanism. The first of these is the doctrine that marriage +is a sacrament, and the second that the _esse_ of the marriage is the +consent of the parties. + +The significance of the first is that marriage is not merely a licence +whereby an unclean act is permitted as a sop to human weakness. The sex +function, as the integral part of marriage, is acknowledged to be an +actual objective of divine grace. + +The significance of the second doctrine is that wherever two people +eligible to give consent, give it, there is the essence of marriage. Few +non-Catholics realize that though the Church normally requires the +ecclesiastical and civil regulations to be observed, she does not profess +to marry the two persons; she merely pronounces a blessing on their +marriage. She may make conditions before she will give her blessing or +even her witness to the validity of the marriage; but she recognizes that +a marriage may be just as valid on a desert island as in a cathedral.[6] +And hence she really regards adultery, not as does the Puritan, but as an +act which should be sacramental but has been prostituted by the absence of +the love-motive, or by becoming promiscuous rather than constant. Sexual +union may even itself be of the nature of a marriage, and it is +significant that the Church has always insisted on the right of parents +subsequently to legitimize children born out of wedlock; it is the English +law which has forbidden that privilege. + +This is the official Catholic doctrine, however much it has been +assimilated to the Puritan conception by the personnel of the Church. + +Yet the Church has consistently upheld the celibate life as the higher +vocation. She has represented a celibate priesthood as a greater ideal +than a married priesthood. She has exalted Our Lady as a Virgin. She has +insisted on the Virgin Birth. But she has done this, not because sex is +evil, but because celibacy is better. And, as we shall see, religious +celibacy is entirely distinct from a condition in which the sex impulse is +merely repressed. + + + + +Chapter 3: The General Principles of Purity + + +In attempting to define these principles I have no desire to enter into a +controversy of relatives and absolutes. It is sufficient to meet those who +deny that there can be any abstract standard of purity by pointing out +that we know the direction in which to look for what is good and pure. +Just as we know that certain acts are less worthy than others, so we are +aware of the general direction of the nobler activities. + +The first principle to be observed is that relatively _purity is +comparative_. This is a commonplace of all personal estimates. However +much we may adhere to the conception of a moral standard, which is +abstract and unvarying, we realize that there are also personal standards +which vary very much. We do not, for instance, consider a cat to be guilty +of murder when she kills a bird; we do not execute her as we execute men +who have taken human life. We do not even condemn lions or tigers as +homicidal criminals, though we may kill them in self-defence, thus showing +that it is not the distinction between taking animal and human life +which constitutes the crime; it is the difference between the killers. Nor +is it true that we draw a distinction merely between animal and human +responsibility, for even in the human kingdom we apply a comparative moral +standard; we do not consider a savage who steals or kills as being guilty +to the extent which a civilized European would be who performed a similar +act. We are in fact constantly applying a comparative standard to the +comparative intelligences of individuals, and quite rightly, for all +intelligence and moral sense is graded from brute-beast to savage-man and +upwards. + +We must be careful not to avoid this standard of comparative values in +approaching sex morality. So long as we admit that at least there are acts +and principles which, taken in the abstract, approach purity more nearly +than others, we must not judge all individuals by the same standard. We +must not consider a very ordinary, unintelligent, animal-blooded young man +as being excessively sinful for having a vivid sex experience; perhaps he +is living right up to the level of his imperfect standard. We must not +expect people to be more moral than they can be, though it is the duty of +Church and religion to educate them to see that there are better +standards. + +The second principle is simple, but of the deepest importance. + +It consists of the proposition that variety and not uniformity is the +fundamental rule of nature, or, as Christians would hold, the intention of +God. + +I cannot recall any distinctive attribute to which this rule does not +apply. There are an infinite species of creatures, and infinite tastes and +tendencies. Even if we narrow down our field of investigation to one +nation or even a single family, we find that each individual is +approaching life by different byways, with different prejudices and +different temperaments and different conceptions. But throughout history +the majority of the normal type has been inclined to flout this divine +principle. The Puritans, for example, were a particular type who did not +like the gayer life of the world, and preferred a stern evangelical +atmosphere. Consequently they regarded those amusements for which they +happened to possess no partiality, as evil, and whenever they had the +opportunity they suppressed them; they eliminated Christmas and the +mince-pie. Equally we can see that if the normal mechanical Teutonic type +had said that it was unnatural for men to be artistic and had suppressed +the arts, it would have been a disaster for the world. There is not one +vocation, but there are many vocations; all types are the design of +intention, and are there, not to be suppressed, but to carry out their +particular mission. + +This again, is equally true of sex, and we must apply the same conclusions +towards the many types which we shall presently meet, abnormal as well as +normal. The Protestant, for example, really acknowledges a uniform +sex-nature only. You will continually hear a Protestant declaring that it +is unnatural for a man to be a celibate: this is, of course, pure +nonsense. It might be unnatural for a normal sex-nature to remain +celibate, just as it would be unnatural for a natural celibate to marry. +The Catholic Church has been far wiser. She can offer the Religious Life +to the celibate and the Sacrament of Marriage to the non-celibate. There +are few types of individual more unintelligent than that which, while it +cannot so interfere with personal liberty as to compel marriage, persists +in uttering the convention that "every man ought to do his duty to the +State." The truism is true; what is wrong is the failure to conceive that +there is no uniform duty for every man. + +But the third principle is more complex in character, or, rather, in the +considerations which it involves. + +It consists, really, of a re-affirmation as to the Catholic condemnation +of the heresy of Manichaeism. + +The Puritan and the type he has evolved do radically regard the physical +as evil. Protestantism, until it became adulterated by the Catholic +movement, eliminated as far as possible, the physical medium in religious +worship. Not only doctrinally, but liturgically, in the abandonment of +ritual and artistic atmosphere, it attempted to limit religion as far as +possible to the spiritual level, and it regarded sacramentalism as evil +because sacramentalism involves an outward physical sign. In the same way +the average Englishman, who has been inculcated, far more than he +realizes, with Calvinist dogma, regards sex as immoral only when it is +physical. A man may indulge in sexual emotion and thought, but so long as +he suppresses any physical act he is not guilty; if this can be regarded +as an exaggeration it is certainly true that popular Protestant theology +regards a man as more immoral if he commits the physical sex-act than if +he thinks of it. It is strange to note how far this theory has departed +from the teaching of Christ, Who declared that "he that lusteth against a +woman hath committed adultery against her in his heart." + +It is obvious the moment we examine this conception that it is utterly +indefensible. If the sex-act is evil[7] because it is physical, then it +is equally evil to eat or drink. And if an attempt is made to avoid this +difficulty by saying that it is evil to debase love by expressing it in a +physical act, or that it is better to love spiritually and non-physically, +then it is equally evil to debase artistic inspiration by expressing it +with paints on a physical canvas, or better to allow melodies to float in +one's mind than to reduce them to the level of a physical composition. + +Without entering into a highly involved philosophy and therefore at the +risk of apparent dogmatism, I wish now to emphasize that there are certain +ascending levels, with which man is concerned. We may confine ourselves to +the physical, the emotional, the mental, and the spiritual levels. The +physical level is the lowest, in so far as man functions there in common +with the animal. He is more active emotionally than the animal. But what +distinguishes him chiefly from the animal, and makes him master over all +brute-creation, is his activity on the mental level. Physically he is less +powerful than the elephant; but because he can function mentally and the +elephant can do so hardly at all, he can employ the elephant as a beast of +labour. Here then we have a distinct gradation, a gradation which +continues to apply within the human kingdom and makes us able to +distinguish a civilised man from a savage. + +We should therefore apply this principle to sex. Sex activity is more pure +or impure according to the level on which it chiefly functions. A man who +traffics with prostitutes is not immoral because he is functioning +physically, but because he is functioning almost entirely on the physical +level. Purity is really sex emphasis on the highest levels. Ideally the +physically sex-act should therefore be a mere expression of spiritual, +mental, emotional love; it should just happen. The moment one begins to +lay the emphasis on the lower levels, the more one becomes correspondingly +less pure. Lust, in fact, is the desire only for physical sex +experience--the wrong proportion and balance. A man's stage of moral +development is to be discovered by the particular level on which he is +most active. + +We must not avoid the consequence of this principle. We must be prepared +to admit as relatively moral, behaviour which popular philosophy might +regard as immoral. We must also be prepared to regard as immoral many +marriages in which the physical is the chief incentive. The lowest stage +of impurity would seem to be reached in cases, whether between man and +harlot, or husband and wife, where the physical function is so emphasized +that artificial physical aids are invoked in order to excite the physical +passions and make them the cause instead of the result of sex emotion and +thought. + + + + +Chapter 4: Celibacy + + +If once the third principle named in the preceding chapter is fully +appreciated, we have already laid the foundation of our moral standard. We +shall have seen that physical expression is the sacramental form of the +invisible and super-physical motive, and that immorality is the shifting +of emphasis from higher to lower levels. We shall be in possession of a +test by which we may in almost all sex problems determine a comparative +virtue or evil of any practice or conduct. + +Now this involves the equally fundamental theory that sex is not entirely +a physical activity. In the popular conception sex is always confused with +physical sex expression. But this conception, I submit, is entirely +inaccurate. Even though Freud may be justifiably criticised for straining +the word "sex" to include many forces which do not directly tend to incite +physical sex activity, he has successfully shown that sex is the motive +behind emotions and conduct which would not popularly be termed sexual at +all. A musician may, for example, be drawing on his sex-energy in +composing or performing musical works; a humanitarian may be sexual in his +diffused love of fellow-men and women. We cannot possibly draw a line and +say that here sex begins and there it ends. We can only admit that it +carries far beyond those particular physical manifestations which we +popularly associate with sex. + +If we accept the principle of ascending levels of physical, emotional, +mental, and spiritual functions, we should expect to find that sex makes +its appearance in more than one form. We know, that is to say, that there +are, not one, but many emotions and thoughts which are directly sexual, +and that there would seem to be every reason why sex, which manifests +variety in its physical expression, should be equally various in the realm +of the mind. Further than this, we are able to advance the principle that +when the emphasis is laid further away from the physical level, the +functioning power on that level weakens. Man, as we have already agreed, +is a more developed animal than the elephant, because he is active in +thought. But he pays the price for this by the inferiority of his physical +strength. Similarly, the less mentally equipped are frequently more +physically powerful. Like all other rules, there are of course exceptions. +But there does seem to be a principle, and a principle that we should +logically expect, that the more man functions on what we have described +as super-physical levels, the less powerful his strength on the physical +level becomes. + +Again, we have seen that, morally, the physical level is the lowest. The +highest human developments are those which the animal cannot reach. The +ordinary physical instincts are not evil, they are simply less evolved. +Some of them, like the sense of maternity, are good. But we cannot doubt +that man's superiority over the animal lies precisely in his ability to do +what the animal cannot do, and that, therefore, the realm of mind is +"higher" than the realm of action. + +When the Catholic Church therefore presents religious celibacy[8] as being +the higher vocation she is enunciating this very principle. She is not +suggesting that non-celibacy is an evil state. We do not pretend that the +profession of crossing-sweeper is evil because the profession of prime +minister is a higher ambition; indeed, it would be probably disastrous to +persuade a man who had a natural ability to be a crossing-sweeper to +qualify as a prime minister. Relatively, a man performs his moral duty in +fulfilling his vocation, for whatever grade it may be designed. The true +religious celibate is the extreme exception; no one should attempt such +perfection who has not the actual call. The means by which we realize our +true vocation is too individual a question to enter upon here. + +The whole fault of the puritanic conception of sex is to assume that +complete repression should be attempted by all men, and that marriage is +solely a concession to failure.[9] + +Almost the exact reverse is the truth. The celibate is a rare product. And +moreover he is not one in whom sex is repressed; he is essentially a human +being in whom the sex-force is sublimated into non-physical channels. This +may take the form of extreme religious devotion, in wide humanitarianism, +in a love of children or animals, in artistic creation or scientific +research. It becomes true celibacy only when the individual instinct is so +far diverted towards these energies that desire for physical sex functions +becomes eliminated. Nor is it true that such a man is barren; he is +procreating, as really as the father, a mental or spiritual progeny. + +We cannot emphasize this distinction too strongly. For the vast majority +of men the celibate life is not intended, and to some extent, though, as +we shall see, not entirely, other rules apply. What indeed we have so +carefully to distinguish is the transference of sex from the repression of +sex. To transfer the sex-force is a healthy and natural energy, whereas to +repress sex is an evil which must always tend to produce unfortunate +results. + + + + +Chapter 5: Non-Celibacy + + +We have now arrived at a point where we can emphasize a further +distinction. We must, in fact, differentiate between those emotions and +thoughts which are sexual in the sense that they naturally incite physical +sex functions, and those which manifest themselves in non-sexual +activities. It may be true that the energy which is exercised in the +latter way is itself sexual; that does not matter for our immediate +purpose. It is sufficient that the force is at work in a non-sexual +channel. + +Here then we have two entirely different processes. The first is the +shifting of the emphasis of the sex-force from body to mind, so that the +sex-force ceases to be concentrated in physical sex-acts and begins to be +concerned rather with love emotion and sex-thought; the second is the +transmutation of the sex-force to non-sexual channels. Both of these +processes are necessary in the life of the non-celibate. + +The latter process is what happens naturally in the case of the true +religious celibate. His development and temperament are such that his +sex-nature finds a complete expression, as we have already seen, in such +directions as a general love of humanity, an intense spiritual devotion, +the worship of art or nature. There is no repression, but a full exercise +of the sex activities in a "non-sexual" direction. + +The vast majority of men, however, are not so developed, and are not +intended to carry out such a life. Yet, for them, too, this process must +be to some extent adopted. It is largely a matter of common-sense. The +animal exercises no restraint; whenever the sex-impulse arises, it is +satisfied--so far, of course, as the opportunity is provided. But as we +trace the conduct of the more developed species from savage to civilized +man we are conscious of a new element of will-power. The influences which +cause this power to come into operation may vary. Religious obligations, +considerations of business, social, or intellectual responsibilities, help +to intervene. An intelligent man simply cannot afford to give vent to sex +proclivities every time they arise; he has other interests which must of +necessity at many times of the day have the first claim. Imagine a man who +sacrificed a business engagement for some sex gratification! Often in the +recent war a man, however strong his sexual emotions, would be forced to +cast away all ideas of sex in order to dodge a shell; his mind for +continuous periods would be so driven with anxieties and the stress of +responsibility that sex would sink into insignificance. This is an extreme +instance, but to a lesser degree it is what is happening to everyone who +leads a normal life. The more developed the man, the wider his +intellectual interests; and it is precisely in this capacity to exercise +his will-power that he proves his superiority over the animal. + +This process of transmutation is the remedy which must be applied in cases +where men find themselves the victims of sexual emotion out of all true +proportion, whether in married or unmarried life. Mere repression is +useless; it is actually harmful. But the mind must be switched off to dig +a thought-passage in other directions, in non-sexual interests. Where +there is undue sex obsession there is disease. And this mental +transference is the chief cure. Really, this transmutation is a diffusing +of the sex-force into a wide general area. The man is no longer +concentrating all his sex-energy in love for one particular person; he is +beginning sexually to love all humanity. He is finding sexual expression +in the "non-sexual" forms of art or nature. He is still in love--but in +love with love, rather than with one separate personal fragment of the +whole. + +But with the ordinary man, there must remain a balance of sexual +inclination which cannot entirely be transmuted. Here we encounter the +first process, and our problem, particularly in non-married life, becomes +acute. Is it possible, and is it healthy, to deny the sex-instincts all +satisfaction? Different answers are given by religious advisers and by men +of the world, while even in the ranks of the medical profession there is +no consensus of opinion. + +I suggest that there is only one general principle which can be our guide. + +The natural tendency of all sexual thought and emotion is to find its +outlet in physical expression of some kind. If a man indulges in sexual +thought, it is almost impossible for him to avoid a physical result. He +may have recourse to prostitution or he may commit solitary practices. The +tendency of Puritan morality is, as we have seen, to regard the physical +act as the sin and to avoid the conclusion that the thought is evil; +consequently the patient is urged at all cost to refrain from action. Let +it be stated, quite frankly, that this attitude is scientifically and +morally indefensible. It is the thought rather than the act on which the +responsibility should be weighed. I have no hesitation whatever in +asserting that it is worse, medically and morally, for the individual to +indulge in sexual thought and repress the consequent action, than to +commit it. The mere absence of physical conduct is harmful and deplorable +if the mind is a seething mass of sexual energy which is being denied all +outlet. + +The first duty in such cases is, as we have seen, to apply the process of +transmuting this sexual thought to non-sexual interests, so far as this +can be done. The extent to which this is possible must vary in each +individual nature. The comparative balance then remains. And here we must +bring into play the moral principle to which I have already +referred--namely that the morality of sex is determined by the extent to +which love is the motive. Sex inspired by love is moral; sex inspired by +any other motive is not. The part which the physical sex-force should +alone play is the sacramental expression of pure love; so employed it is a +perfect and divine activity. When the love-motive is absent, or is not the +dominant incentive, the sex-force becomes comparatively immoral and +abused. + +This is a general principle which can be rigidly employed. And I do not +want to escape from the consequences of this doctrine. It appears to me +the one natural, fundamental principle upon which a moral standard can be +based. Therefore I am ready to accept the conclusion that there are many +marriages which are highly immoral because the sex-act is not an +expression of love, but either a mere mechanical duty or the result of a +physical and emotional excitement, as distinct from love. On the other +hand there are many sex adventures, inspired by love, which do not occur +within the matrimonial state. This principle alone must guide us in any +moral estimate we draw. + +Let us apply this doctrine by taking the simple case of a man and woman +who are accused of having committed adultery. We inquire first, whether +mutual love was the true motive, whether in fact the act of adultery was +an unpremeditated incident which occurred as naturally as the kiss which a +child gives to its mother. We draw a clear moral line between the sort of +assignation which has for its one object the gratification of physical +sensations, or the even lower motive, so far as the prostitute is +concerned, of substituting for love the earning of a few shillings. But +suppose we are satisfied that the physical act was not the object but the +result, and that there was love. We go on to ask how deep was the love, +and if a deep love is alleged, we ask why the parties are not married. For +it is doubtful whether normal love can be wholly spasmodic. It seems +contrary to the very nature of love that a man should love one woman for +an hour and then throw her over for someone else. The essence of love +tends to completeness and permanence. + +But we will imagine that even these conditions are satisfied, and that +financial difficulties or parental objections alone prevent the formal +marriage. We have also discovered that the two people have loved each +other for some time, and that there is not therefore simply a sudden +fascination, but a love based on knowledge and matured by experience. We +are then left with a technical and not a moral offence. In effect a +marriage has taken place; there has been the consent which is the essence +of the union. It is only when the Catholic conception of the sacrament of +matrimony is abandoned that we find ourselves regarding the ceremony in +Church or registry-office as the union, and that therefore a moral offence +is committed in the sex-act where no such ceremony has taken place. It is +true that the parties would be in honour bound to receive the blessing of +the Church. The union is irregular; but it is a true union. + +Incidentally, I suggest that this theory may be the basis of the +scriptural exception in St. Matthew's gospel made as regards divorce where +there has been "fornication," or a pre-marital sex-act--namely that by +this act a natural marriage has been consummated, and that the subsequent +marriage is therefore invalid. + +One might almost draw up a schedule of the tests which should be applied +whenever we may happen to be forced to adjudicate as to the morality of +any sex-behaviour. For already there have emerged certain definite +test-principles. There is the consideration of the standard of the +relative degree of intelligence to which the particular individual has +developed, and of the fact that there are many types of sex-temperament. +On the other hand we see that the direction of absolute morality to which +our faces should be set, is the raising of the sex-force to super-physical +levels, so that the physical side becomes a mere incident, or is even +eliminated altogether. Then we apply the rule that there must be an +exercise of restraint and will-power, so that sex obsession is entirely +avoided. The extent to which the mind can be diverted from sexual channels +must depend on the stage of development which the individual has reached. +Lastly, we apply the test of how far love, so deep and pure that it is +permanent rather than spasmodic, a monopoly rather than promiscuous, is +the motive. + +Modern society has gone, I contend, as much astray in drifting to the +extreme of considering all things permissible, as has Puritanism in +regarding the sex-act outside marriage as in all circumstances a deadly +evil. And I can only marvel that this latter attitude is taken up so +often in the name of the Christian religion, when its Founder, while +declaring that at the last day it would be "more tolerable for Sodom and +Gomorrah than for the Scribes and Pharisees," also said to the woman taken +in adultery, "Neither do I condemn thee; go thy way, from henceforth sin +no more." + + + + +Chapter 6: Divorce + + +In leaving the moorland of general principles for the fields of particular +problems it will be convenient to group sex natures under three heads: (1) +the normal or hetero-sexual, (2) the invert or homo-sexual, and (3) the +neuter or sexless. It is necessary only to add that it will not be +possible to deal in more than the merest outline with any of these +important questions. + +The most prominent of the problems concerned with the normal group is that +of divorce. The problem arises because on the one hand there is a sense +that marriage ought to be a permanent state, while on the other, there are +many human exigences which go to break up particular marriages. +Separation, without permission to re-marry, is of course an admitted +remedy. But the question then arises whether parties so separated will +continue to live as celibates; and as it appears certain that the vast +majority will not, we have to ask whether it is better to legalise the +fresh unions which are formed, or to permit adultery. + +Every modern State has wrestled with this problem, and for the most part +ineffectually. Where there is no divorce, as in England before 1857,[10] +or among the poorer classes who cannot afford divorce, irregular unions +and prostitution undoubtedly flourish. Where a compromise is introduced, +the permanence of marriage, and therefore of the home, becomes +correspondingly impaired, while there are left a number of unhappy cases +for which divorce is not allowed.[11] The English civil law is +particularly unhappy in its compromise. It is based on the Protestant +interpretation of the passage in St. Matthew already mentioned, namely +that divorce is permissible where adultery has occurred, and it goes on to +make it easier for the husband to sue for divorce when the wife has +committed adultery than for the wife to do so in the reverse +circumstances. Hence it places a premium on adultery, and exaggerates its +importance as regards other sins. It deliberately incites an unhappy wife +to commit adultery in order to obtain relief--she can usually evade the +vigilance of the King's Proctor--and it singles out adultery as a worse +sin than, let us say, cruelty or habitual drunkenness, for which divorce +is not at present obtainable. In fact it is difficult to find any logical +or moral defence for the English law as it stands. + +Let us first see how far the popular critics of the Catholic doctrine of +indissoluble marriage are wrong. They regard marriage as simply a +contract, from which it follows that divorce should be obtained by mutual +consent, or even on the application of one of the parties. But this +ignores, among other things, one vital natural law. Marriage begets +parenthood, and between the parents of the same child there is a definite +and permanent relationship. No Act of Parliament can make men and women +cease to be the parents of their own children. Nor, even in childless +marriages, is the sense of permanence an artificial convention which can +be abolished by the decree of a court. The deeper the love, the more +permanent must its nature tend to be. Love is not a contract; it is a +spiritual bond. + +It is impossible, I contend, to think of a normally healthy marriage +without realizing that both the man and woman naturally enter into it with +the assumption that it will be a permanent relationship. The possibility +of a family, the break-up of the maiden life--even the furnishing of a +home, is evidence of a strong probability in the minds of the parties that +the step which is being taken is something more than a temporary contract. +Indeed, the marriage is only temporary if unhappiness arises. Men and +women marry because they want to enter into as permanent a relationship as +possible; they enter into it because, as they say, they wish to "settle +down." The natural desire of man is that marriage should be permanent. + +A reversion to free love would be more than the undoing of the evolution +from animal to man. It would completely change the basis of human society. +And in proportion as any divorce law encourages the conception of a +temporary contract this dangerous instability of home-life is threatened. +Americans sometimes describe their own laws as approaching the "ideal." +"The question will soon be," wrote a journalist describing the American +"smart set," "who is to be your husband next year?"--or, "Has your last +season's wife re-married yet?" This is of course an exaggeration; but it +is a warning as to logical developments. + +In fact, divorce tends to create itself. Divorce is only applied for where +the marriage is unhappy. A fair proportion of unhappy marriages arise +because they have been hastily entered into; with due inquiry many of +them could have been prevented. But the easier divorce is to obtain, the +more incentive will be given to enter into these hasty marriages--the type +of union which so often gives rise to divorce. + +On the other hand, whatever their cause, there are marriages in which all +trace of love has disappeared, and it may fairly be argued that the union +is dead. Thus a husband may, in later years, become incurably insane or +habitually drunk. There are many unions in which the one party has married +in blind infatuation only to discover that the partner is so contemptible +a creature as to destroy all vestige of love. Such unions remain marriages +in formality only; their pretended existence is a sacrilege, particularly +if there are no children and the husband and wife are not therefore +co-related as parents. + +For all such cases the Catholic Church permits divorce (_a mensa et +thoro_)--or separation, as it is known in civil law, without permission to +re-marry. The issue, therefore, becomes simply a question as to whether it +is right to expect the parties so separated to remain celibate. + +In an outline such as this, I suppose that one can only attempt a summary +reply to these questions. If, for a moment, we are to exclude the +complications of a subsequent love-affair there appears to me to be no +reason whatever why any man or woman should not remain celibate during the +lifetime of the divorced partner. The _journalese_ theory that it is +unnatural and unhealthy for people so to remain is simply untrue, so long +as the celibacy takes the form of sublimation or transmutation and not +repression. The complication of an intense love-romance however, is a +serious proposition. Ought two people in love to remain sexually apart +simply because one of them is still married to, let us say, an incurable +lunatic? In principle there seems to be every reason why they should; no +actual physical or mental harm is done to them, provided they have a +sufficiently developed will-power to transfer their sex-desire into other +channels of activity. The sacrifice will be immense, but it is no more +than any man has to make who refrains from marrying his beloved because he +is too poor or is suffering from some disease which may affect his +children. In this case the sacrifice is offered for the supremely +important principle that only God, by the act of death, can undo the +vinculum of the original marriage. + +But I am equally sure that most people under these or less intense +circumstances will not remain celibate. + +Therefore, to descend from theory to practice, I see no alternative but to +draw a rigid line between civil and religious marriages. The State must +make its own arrangements and go its own way. But there should always be a +higher type of marriage where the Catholic Church has been invoked for her +blessing. And for those who choose to ask for this sacrament, the union +should be irrevocable, save by death. The parties will receive that +sacrament knowing what a heavy responsibility they are assuming. And it is +only right that the Church should be far more particular in refusing to +prostitute her sacramental grace on unions which ought not to be +consummated. She ought, I conceive, rigidly to inquire into the +desirability of the union, and not to give her blessing unless she is +satisfied that both parties are giving their consent with as full a +knowledge of the facts as is humanly possible. Equally she should refuse +her ministrations where she is unconvinced that love is the motive of the +marriage. I see no reason why some form of sponsorship should not be +demanded. + +And I think it may be argued that a consent without a knowledge of the +facts is not a valid consent, and that such a union is null. I should +welcome a careful extension of the decree of nullity, for that reason. + + + + +Chapter 7: Eugenics and Prostitution + + +The doctrine that love is the only motive for sex--that physical +expression is pure only so far as it is the sacramental accidence of +love--leads to important conclusions. There is, for instance, a class of +moralist who teach that the sex-act in marriage must only be for the +purpose of procreation. It would follow from this that it is immoral for +sex intimacies to occur between a man and his wife once she has passed a +certain age. In the ideal marriage, so this school of thought affirms, +copulation is strictly regulated and occurs only when the moment is +favourable for generation. + +To this theory I cannot subscribe. It runs counter to the doctrine in +which I believe. It Changes the sex-act from an incident or a result to a +means or a cause. It is really immoral because it lays emphasis on the +physical. This cold-blooded calculation of the times when sex is to be +thus physically expressed is the exact opposite of the principle by which +love directs and the act merely occurs, with no purpose but to express +love physically. + +This leads us to a consideration as to how far those practices between man +and woman are moral in which procreation cannot result. It is interesting +to note that the English law holds that "unnatural" acts between husband +and wife are criminal. Although it is true that prosecution cannot occur +unless there is an absence of consent, for otherwise there would be no +evidence--these acts are apparently regarded as _per se_ criminal in +nature. And this indeed is a logical position, when we remember the +standpoint which the State adopts towards all sex questions. + +To this class of conduct artificial preventatives are closely allied. A +chaos of opinion rages over this subject, from the neo-malthusian who +advocates the practice as a necessity, to the purist who talks of +"child-murder." It seems clear that this latter designation is an +unwarrantable exaggeration; to prevent the possibility of life coming into +existence cannot by any strain of imagination be confused with destroying +what is actually alive. On the other hand, the moral test which we are +applying to all these problems hardly acquits the practice. It is +difficult to think of preventatives without being conscious that +premeditation of the physical act is being emphasized, and the ideal of a +natural incident almost banished. To prepare for a thing is to insist on +its importance. The minds of the two parties must almost necessarily be +focussed--though not absolutely necessarily--on the physical sex-act. + +There is no doubt however that, apart from ideals, preventatives are a +means of averting more serious evils. This is not the place to enter into +a detailed consideration of eugenics. We can only face the blatant fact +that thousands of degenerate parents continue each year to breed +degenerate children. The moral aspect with which alone I am dealing, is +that this is a crime against the community; however irresponsible or +ignorant the perpetrators, they are helping to burden the State with an +altogether undesirable progeny. Now, whether they are allowed to marry or +not, there is not the least likelihood that they will desist from sexual +intercourse. Therefore, it seems to me an obviously lesser evil to remove +all excuse for procreation by placing within reach the artificial means of +prevention. + +In this, just as in the divorce problem, we have to determine whether it +is better to insist on an ideal, which we know the majority will not keep, +or to legislate down to the majority. There is no doubt in my own mind +that to legislate on an ideal is not only impracticable but dangerous. I +may believe, for instance, that it would be a higher ideal to live on +vegetables and fruit rather than to slaughter animals and drink their +blood. But even so, I should vehemently oppose a law which attempted to +impose vegetarianism. + +I believe, too, that every moral influence should be brought to bear +against marriages where the physical or mental degeneracy[12] of the +parents renders the use of preventatives desirable. I wish to emphasize +that the ideal towards which we should set our faces is that of fewer but +healthier marriages. Both Church and State should, I feel, take pains to +assure themselves that these undesirable elements are absent in all unions +which they are respectively called upon to solemnize. And I emphasize this +because I believe that we are suffering far too much from the popular +fallacy and the smug Puritanic doctrine that the cure for all sexual +proclivities is for men and women to marry, and that once they marry all +things are sexually permissible. It is not only irritating, but it is a +fallacy, for men who are comfortably married to declare that there is +"really no sex-problem." There is probably as much immorality within the +married state as outside it; and far from it being the duty of every man +to marry, there are many men whose duty it is not to do so. + +Closely allied with eugenics is the problem of venereal disease, and out +of this again, arises the problem of prostitution. How far is prostitution +tolerable, so that a medical system of registration should be introduced +into England? We have seen why prostitution is immoral; it is concerned +with the physical side of sex, and with little else. But no thoughtful man +could reasonably advocate the suppression of prostitution by law. The +result of such a measure, at the present state of national development, +would be deplorable, even if it were practicable. People do not become +moral because they are frightened to do what they still want to do. It is +always a confession of the weakness of religion or moral influences where +you have to fall back on the police-force of the State for support. In +moral questions, State prosecution seems only to be justifiable where the +liberty of individuals, or the welfare of the community, is endangered. + +Prostitution[13] as an evil can only be treated by the slow process of +moral education. Of that I shall speak later. But it is worth while +remembering in this connexion, that the feminist movement must have a +beneficial effect, to some extent, on prostitution. Largely, it is an +economic problem. If a woman were able to earn a decent wage, it is +inconceivable that she should wish to submit herself to every voluptuous +patron who happens to come along. Education and economic independence must +tend largely to breed dissatisfaction with such a slavish occupation. It +will not do so entirely, for a certain percentage of women are prostitutes +because they hunger for promiscuous sex intercourse. + +That some serious attempt must be made, not merely to alleviate, but to +prevent venereal disease, is evident to all who are aware how widespread +it has become. And it may therefore be pointed out that it would not be +impossible to prosecute the prostitute, suffering from these diseases, +without introducing the vexed question of registration and official +recognition of prostitution. All unmarried men and women below a certain +age could be compelled to submit to periodical medical examination, and if +any person was found to have solicited, after having been certified as +infected, prosecution would lie. Probably a storm of protest would be +aroused against an alleged interference with individual privacy. But the +danger of syphilis may necessitate such a law, and after all, no one is +being asked to do more than that to which every soldier and sailor has to +submit. + +We have seen that love, and therefore marriage, naturally contains the +sense of permanence. There is also a sense of distaste towards incest, and +of the apparently natural evils arising therefrom. No-one will deny that +the State and the Catholic Church are scientifically justified in +insisting upon some table of prohibited degrees. How far this distaste is +essentially natural I do not know. I imagine that a sister who had been +separated from her brother since birth, and who did not know that he was +her brother, might fall in love with him. But the scientific dangers of +such marriages would remain.[14] + +The Church of England some years ago found herself immersed in a storm of +controversy over the Deceased Wife's Sister Act. To most men her attitude +seemed pedantic and unworthy of serious attention. The English Church is +unfortunate: her apparently narrow ecclesiasticism was really the result +of a liberal policy at the time of the Reformation. During the Middle +Ages the Church had extended her prohibited degrees to such an extent that +it must have been difficult to know whom one could marry without a +dispensation.[15] Only a person more than four degrees removed from the +other party was an eligible partner without dispensation, the degrees so +being reckoned as to include even second cousins. The English Church swept +away these anomalies and concentrated on an irreducible minimum of +prohibition up to three degrees (reckoned in direct ascending and +descending generation from the common ancestor)--thus sacrificing all +regulation against marriage between first cousins, who are four degrees +removed. + +The real opposition to the ecclesiastical attitude was, however, that any +affinity, as distinguished from consanguinity, should be a bar to +marriage. The unhappy deceased wife's sister was merely a convenient +representative. But this is a controversy which is not sufficiently +imminent to engage us in these pages. + + + + +Chapter 8: The Homosexual Temperament + + +We must now pass from the normal or hetero-sexual to the second-class of +sex-temperament. This is the homosexual--that in which the individual's +sex attraction is directed towards the same sex. And here it will be +necessary to utter a note of warning. The sex instinct lies so deep in +human nature that many men are incapable of regarding sex characteristics +save through their own temperamental colour. Normal men are frequently +found, for instance, of such underdeveloped mental faculties that they +start out with an immense sex prejudice against the homosexual. Without +being able to consider the question impartially they abhor this variety as +an unspeakable evil. It is essential that we should place such critics +outside the area of practical investigation. The homosexual tendency may +be as evil as they imagine it to be, but we must only arrive at that +conclusion as a result of impartial and incontestable reason. And any man +who cannot undertake that inquiry is as valueless for our purpose as are +his prejudicial opinions; he must simply go back to the nursery. + +Let us therefore, as far as is individually possible, attempt to treat +this question with an open mind. And accordingly we shall find it most +convenient first to consider the various attitudes which have been taken +up with regard to this difficult problem. + +The legal or State attitude we have already to some extent anticipated. +The State looks with suspicious eyes on any influence which tends to +sterilize the birth-rate. Accordingly, in England, homosexuality is +branded as a crime for which a heavy sentence can be pronounced. It is +true that legally this sentence, under the Criminal Amendment Act, can +only be inflicted for the physical sex-act itself; but this includes any +assault or any behaviour which may be construed as an attempt to lead up +to the commission of the act. And, accordingly, any man is legally under +suspicion if he is thought to be homosexual, even though no perpetration +of the physical offence can be alleged against him. The hideous system of +blackmail is thus encouraged by the law. Once a man is understood to be +subject to these proclivities, it is assumed that sooner or later he will +commit the offence, and he is watched, if not by the over-busy police, by +those idle persons who trade upon the legal attitude toward this problem. +Any conversation or literature on the subject is suppressed, so far as is +possible, by the State, because the physical expression being a crime, all +that may become an incentive to the crime is itself criminal. + +We have already mentioned the basic fallacy of the legal attitude. It does +not follow that because a line of conduct may decrease the birth-rate, it +is therefore wrong. Celibacy, as we have seen, may be an actual virtue. +But in this particular instance there is a still more serious error. The +English law, by branding homosexuality as a crime, assumes that it is a +deliberate perversion; for it would be obviously ridiculous to punish a +man for doing what he could not help doing. Even the law is not so +illogical as to sentence a madman to penal servitude because he insists on +being mad. No, the State regards the homosexual as one who has of his own +choice assumed this form of sex temperament, in the same way as a man +decides to rob or forge a signature. The legal attitude _must_ rest on +this supposition, for otherwise its policy would be flagrantly unjust. And +accordingly we find the law classifying this family of behaviour as +"unnatural." + +Now, if there is one fact which is clear from an investigation of the +problem, it is that this supposition is as false as it is possible for +any supposition to be. Let it be granted that a certain number of +homosexual offences are committed by persons who are sexually normal in +temperament. There remains the whole body of homosexuals, of those, that +is to say, in whom the homogenic attraction is as integral a part of their +nature as the appreciation of music or the love of colour. Abundant proof +of this contention is to hand. There have been thousands of individuals in +every age, including the present, who have never heard of +homosexuality,[16] have never met other homosexuals, or come into contact +with anything approaching homosexual practice; and yet they have been +homosexual all their lives. I have known persons who believed that no one +else in the world shared their aspirations, and also have suffered +tortures because of their supposed isolated abnormality. + +The State attitude simply ignores this factor, and accordingly reveals +itself as unscientific. + +It is true that perhaps by such an agency as psycho-analysis reasons could +be found in many of these cases why the individual had developed on +inverted sex lines; home repressions, the system of early education, the +age of the parents, these or other influences, may have produced a complex +which has switched the sex-nature on to a particular path. But these +reasons do not necessarily show the result to be artificial; it is our +very nature indeed which these influences construct. It is impossible to +trace an exact line between the inherent nature and the effect which +outside influences have had upon it. We must, and we do in fact, regard +the permanent and fundamental traits, however derived, as "natural." + +Moreover psycho-analysis definitely indicates that there is a homosexual +period through which all individuals inevitably pass. + +The State theory that the temperament is "unnatural" cannot therefore be +supported on any grounds, except in the cases where it is deliberately +assumed by normal persons. In most cases it is natural to the individual's +nature, and not "unnatural," but "abnormal." + +Once this simple scientific truth is grasped the legal attitude is seen to +crumble in all directions. The case for criminal prosecution rests +logically on the assumption that unless homosexual practices are rigidly +suppressed they will spread. And since their increase would seriously +diminish the birth-rate the State is necessarily anxious to avert this +danger. But it is an odd perversion which imagines that sober respectable +citizens are only restrained from indulging in homosexual vice by the +threat of penal servitude! Once the scientific truth is grasped and +homosexuality is seen to be, except in a small number of cases, the +natural temperament of a small minority, it will be realized that normal +persons are not likely to wish to commit unnatural acts, whether there is +or there is not a penal law; nor can any Act of Parliament prevent +homosexuals from being homosexual. + +And in practice this theoretical conclusion is found to hold true. For in +the countries, such as France, where the Code Napoleon does not cover +these prosecutions, homosexuality is far less rife than in England, or in +Germany, where until the Revolution the penal law was rigidly enforced. + +It is well that we should face these facts unreservedly, however strong +may be our personal antipathy to the practices. + + * * * * * + +The second attitude may be described generally as that of society. Public +opinion must necessarily be too vague to admit of succinct definition. But +generally its attitude towards this question may be defined as that of an +ordinary man towards a freak; he has no sympathy with freaks and indeed +dislikes them--but they are so very rare that he can afford to ignore +them. + +The problem of the homosexual cannot however be avoided in this way, for +the simple reason that the invert forms so comparatively large and +permanent a part of the community. It is difficult to attempt an accurate +estimate, partly because many homosexuals are so afraid of incurring the +odium of public opinion that they successfully disguise their true nature +and are unsuspected even by their most intimate friends. But there is a +more fundamental difficulty. It appears to be undeniable that a large +number of normal people possess to some extent a strain of the homosexual +temperament. We have, in fact, as in almost all classifications, not a +naturally dividing gulf but a gradually ascending scale. Some individuals +may have only 5 per cent. inverted and 95 per cent. hetero-sexual +tendencies, while others are only 10 per cent. normal. There are a large +and increasing number of persons who are almost equally balanced on either +side. These bisexuals often marry happily and at the same time enjoy +homogenic experiences. + +When we remember that, according to psycho-analysis, everyone about the +age of puberty passes through a homosexual stage, it is probably not an +exaggeration to state that few people fail to preserve a stratum of this +nature, however small the percentage and however deeply such tendencies +may be buried in the unconsciousness. + +If however we decide to draw an arbitrary distinction and to define +persons with less than 30 per cent. inverted nature as normal, persons +from 30 to 60 per cent. as bisexual, and the remainder as homosexual, we +are left with a considerable number of the last variety. Havelock Ellis +has reckoned the percentage of homosexuals among the professional middle +classes in England as 5 per cent. and among women as 10 per cent.[17] In +any case the popular view that the proportion is so small as to be +negligible is quite impossible, and is due to the fact that most men are +so unobservant of psychological evidence that their opinion is of little +serious value. + +However undesirable, then, this species of temperament may be, it cannot +be described as unnatural in the sense of artificial or unusual. The third +or current scientific attitude does seem at first to avoid these +superstitions and to rest on a reasonable basis. This attitude may be +described as that of regarding homosexuality as a disease, which should +neither be punished nor ignored, but treated. The theory that we all pass +through a homosexual period at a comparatively early stage, lends support +to this conclusion. The hero-age of boys and girls, it is urged, is almost +always directed towards the child's own sex. Therefore it can fairly be +argued that where the sex development has been restricted to these lines +it denotes some strange dislocation which has prevented natural growth. +The fact that in some cases this cause can actually be traced--such as a +disappointment in an early love affair with the opposite sex, or to +artificial circumstances which have made for celibacy--confirm many +students of sex-science in this opinion. + +But as if nature deliberately intends to thwart all easily attained +explanations, she sets out certain facts, in practice, which entirely +invalidate the theory. It is true that many homosexuals, both men and +women, portray in general mental efficiency that peculiar want of +proportion in some direction which is the inevitable symptom of mental +abnormality; the male may be obviously effeminate, or, male or female, +eccentric or hysterical. But this is distinctly the exception. So far as +my personal experience goes, the majority of homosexuals are +indistinguishable from normal men, except by some psychic or intuitional +sense, in physical or mental appearance; and I observe that this +experience is shared by all those scientists who have written on the +subject. The undeniable facts are that among this minority of the race a +majority of men have, in all ages and races, held a pre-eminent and +honourable position in society, revealing the brilliance of sanity rather +than the abnormality of genius. The homosexual has succeeded not only as +might have been expected in the arts. It is true that, in general, he +possesses certain feminine attributes, such as a gentler and more +emotional positivity than the normal. But he has excelled in such +masculine paths as soldiering, statesmanship, and engineering. It is +almost irritating, where one wishes to find support for the scientific +explanation, to turn to history and discover that the homosexual section +of the Greeks were magnificent warriors as well as philosophers; that not +only Shakespeare, who wrote many of his sonnets to a boy, or Michael +Angelo, but Alexander the Great, Charles XII of Sweden, Frederick II of +Prussia, and William III of England, had their homosexual tendencies. +Indeed, were it permissible to do so, it would be possible to instance +some of our most famous generals and politicians of modern times as +possessing this unmistakable temperament. + +It is well then freely to admit that the scientific theory simply does +not square with the full facts of the case. + +The fourth attitude is that of religion. The Church's official position is +mainly indistinguishable from that of the State, although the atmosphere +of the Church has tended largely to be congenial to this development. It +is evident that Christianity was influenced in its early days by the +appalling condition of vice in Roman society, and it is not to be wondered +at that a severe legacy of prejudice has been inherited in the light of +this indescribable experience. But this brings us conveniently to a point +where we must admit a fallacy underlying almost all considerations of the +homogenic sex nature. And unless we are able to dispose of the fallacy in +our minds, further investigation is useless. + +The fallacy consists of the assumption that homosexuality means only the +perpetration of the physical sex-act. In reality this is as untrue as to +suppose that the normal man is necessarily a patron of prostitutes. Such a +confusion of thought is obviously ludicrous. But not less inaccurate is +this prevailing idea regarding the homosexual. Not only is the particular +sex-act, popularly associated with this subject, an extremely rare +occurence, even as among the physical sex-expressions of this temperament, +but probably a vast majority of homosexuals are deliberately celibate. +Homosexuality is a romantic cult rather than a physical vice. Nine-tenths +of its energy is directed purely in the realm of ideals. The old +misconception of sex as a rather disreputable physical function again dogs +our steps. But sex is almost entirely emotional; sex-love, and especially +homosexual love, is not lust. Its desire is romantic and idealistic, and +when physical incidents occur, they are usually the unintentional outlets +of the purely emotional passion. + +The literature of homosexuality is almost entirely romantic, and small +though it is forced to be, in quality and ideal its average must rank as +extraordinarily noble. + +It is noticeable, indeed, that in a large proportion of the unpleasant +cases which are tried in police-courts, the offenders are admittedly +normal men who have deliberately perpetrated homosexual acts for various +causes, such as a neurotic desire for novelty, or the desire to avoid +disease. There are also the considerable class of perverted normals whose +deviation from their natural path as the result of some such influence as +heterosexual disappointment or repression, has been so emphasized as to +render their perversion distinct from natural developments, and who +refuse, or are unable, to deny themselves physical gratification. + +If we dissociate the true homosexual from this class, and concentrate our +attention only on the "celibate" species of such attachments, it is +evident that we are in the presence, not merely of something which is not +criminal, but of an ideal which is sacred in character. Pure love, +especially so intense a love as the homogenic attachment, is not profane +but divine. And though the Church may be unable to recognize it by her +sacramental benediction, because, unlike marriage, it cannot effect +physical procreation, she possesses such Biblical precedents as the story +of David and Jonathan--an episode which is obviously homosexual in the +sense that it describes not a platonic companionship but a romantic +passion. + +In the social sphere also, the place of this aspect of homosexuality is +obvious. The homosexual must, and does in fact, exist in the most honoured +offices of the community. Indeed, it is no exaggeration to declare that +few men can be successful in educational or philanthropic work unless they +have some homogenic temperament in their nature. Without this they may +compel discipline but they are powerless to attract sympathetic +co-operation. The testimony in favour of this assertion is overwhelming. + +But when we admit that sex tends to find a physical expression, and we +come therefore face to face with the physical problem, the difficulty I +admit to be considerable. And I can only re-emphasize that this feature +is numerically and potentially the least important, but that there can be +no religious countenance for any physical sex-act outside the sacrament of +matrimony. + + * * * * * + +Rape, and seduction without consent, are obviously evils calling for legal +prosecution, as being an infringement of personal liberty. And in this +connexion it must be remembered that homosexual practices tend to +seduction, inasmuch as the attraction is frequently towards those who have +not attained intellectual manhood. For the rest, I am inclined only to +re-affirm the general principle which I have already attempted to +define--namely, that sex becomes a sin where the main objective becomes +the physical gratification. Once the proportion is weighed on the side of +physical expression, love is prostituted. The purity of true love is known +by the fact that its face is turned not to mere physical functions, but +beyond the emotional and even mental, to the spiritual ideal. Indeed, a +lover, whatever his temperament happens to be, loves even if his beloved +is removed from all physical reach. That is the test. + +I do not look for salvation to the arms of mere criminal legislation. This +seems to me to be almost powerless as a moral force, and indeed, to +encourage the hideous apparatus of blackmail.[18] Gradual and +unsensational as it may be, I believe that morals can only be improved by +educational and religious influences. + +And so far as theoretical solutions are concerned I believe that Mr. +Edward Carpenter[19] comes nearest to the truth. Nature is deliberate in +creating not uniformity but variety, and I doubt if the world would +continue if there were only normal men in it. The homosexual has his +place, within restrictions, as has the celibate or the sexless type. The +real truth, I feel to be, is that few men are wholly masculine or women +feminine, and that somewhere, in comparative degrees, homosexuality is in +us all. It may become so excessive as to be a disease, or so feeble as to +create that unaesthetic, bourgeoise type, which is an unpleasant symptom +of super-normality. + +We enter the realm of pure conjecture if we attempt to inquire the purpose +for which this type has been deliberately created. And I can only record +my own entirely unproveable, but definite opinion, that the human race, in +the far ages ahead, will return, by a spiral process, to the bisexual +species from which I believe it has come. If this is so, the homosexual is +apparently a prototype, a preliminary attempt of nature to combine both +sex-natures in one individual. And with all his present imperfections, I +believe that there are evidences which go strongly to support this +conjecture. + + + + +Chapter 9: The Sexless Class + + +There is little that need be written on this subject, not because it is +devoid of interest, but because it raises no vital sex problem. + +The number of sexless people is small, though apparently increasing. It +may be questioned whether there are any really sexless people--individuals, +i.e. whose sex-nature is non-existent. Probably in most of these cases +sex, for some reason or other, is there, dormant but positive. But it is +convenient so to classify those in whom, for some reason, the sex-force +has never yet been stirred. + +It must be remembered that this class is quite distinct from the religious +celibate. The celibate has all the sexual ardour for his religious or +humanitarian devotion. The sexless man or woman is cold, intellectually +aloof, and generally critical. + +There are only two considerations calling for remarks on this interesting +psychological problem. The first is that we must not allow the great body +of normal opinion to label such people as unnatural, and as having no part +to play in the community. They have, on the contrary, an important role. +Their intellectual ability is in itself a great asset, particularly in +abstract and critical directions. And in all sex questions they should, +and frequently have, an impartial outlook, for the very reason that they +can view sex from a detached standpoint. + +But, conversely--and this is the second consideration--they possess the +immoral tendency of regarding sex with abhorrence, especially when they +confuse sex with mere physical expression. In extreme cases the sexless +individual has been known even to faint or exhibit symptoms of nausea at +the chance touch of a woman. This is obviously to magnify the physical +side out of all clean proportion. And probably such cases show themselves +to be the result of artificial repression and consequent complex. It may +be argued from this that all deviations from the normal are the results of +repression. But, as we have seen, the difference between natural and +unnatural is comparative, and most of our nature is built up, in the first +instance, by early exterior influences. + + + + +Chapter 10: Super-Abnormalities + + +Under this head I have included a number of characteristics, which have no +connective bearing upon one another. It seemed the most convenient +classification. + +Perhaps it will be best to take as the first example a sex tendency which +can hardly be described as super-abnormal, for among single men, and +especially among boys, it is extremely common. + +Auto-eroticism in the form of self-abuse is not an easy problem to tackle. +The usual policy adopted towards boys is most immoral. Well-meaning but +hopelessly vicious purists, write terrifying pamphlets or deliver lectures +in which they declare that this practice will inevitably lead to lunacy, +paralysis or even death. The result is that the boy is scared into an +ineffectual attempt at repression, which, so far as it is successful, sets +the sex-impulse at work into morose channels and makes him a liar or a +thief. Or he may be impelled to inquire for himself. He finds that, so +long as self-abuse occurs infrequently, it does not bring about these dire +evils, and accordingly he assumes that all moral doctrine is hypocrisy +and often falls into the opposite extreme of constant self-abuse, with the +result that actual physical and mental deterioration sets in. + +What is really the truth? + +The first consideration is that frequent and unregulated abuse does cause +physical harm. The margin of frequency which will escape this harm varies +with the individual. But, with growing boys, the practice is perhaps more +dangerous than after physical maturity. The whole reserve of the physical +constitution appears to be needed while the body is developing. + +The difficulty of this problem is its complications. There are several +entirely conflicting influences which must be weighed one against the +other. + +We have seen the physical danger, and, since morality must not be founded +on a lie, we must freely admit that the physical danger may be eliminated +by limiting the frequency of the practice. It may then be physically +harmless. There remain, however, at least two causes which make for a +misuse of the sex-force, that is--for immorality. The first is that it is +usually the result of mental weakness, sheer inability to overcome the +inclination. The mind, the will, _must_ be supreme in its own house. Until +that is done little else matters. And it comes, therefore, to this, so far +as this particular consideration is concerned, that it is better for a +man deliberately to regulate himself by programme to certain times, than +to keep up an ineffectual struggle, or to obey whenever the inclination +arises. + +For, in both these cases, remorse follows. And this is as great an evil as +the failure of will; indeed, it _is_ failure of will. Remorse is not +penitence. It is useless thereby to regret what has been done. A man must +simply own to himself that he has failed, make a resolution to be stronger +next time, and then sweep the recollection from his mind, switching off on +to other mental channels. + +The second influence which makes for impurity is that by this practice the +sex-force becomes literally selfish. Now, sex is fundamentally a movement +towards union through love, whether it be physical or super-physical. This +practice is merely a vicious circle, in which the love element, save in +the perverted form of narcissism, is absent. Accordingly, there must, +almost always, be evil mental results from this abuse. And, once again, we +see that the real evil is not in the physical act but in the realm of +thought, whether the act occurs or not. + +On the other hand, we must not become such abstract moralists as to deny +that in many individuals the sex-force is so strong as to press almost +irresistibly towards physical expression. Even dreams, which are the +normal outlet, may not be sufficient. A man who for some reason, cannot +marry, will therefore argue that his only alternative is recourse to +prostitution, and that self-abuse, so long as it is regulated, is morally +preferable. One remedy is, as we have already seen, the transfer of the +sex-force to higher channels, so that all the glow and energy of sex is +energized in devotion to a group of persons, or to a religious or +humanitarian ideal in concrete labour. For sex is primarily creative, and +if it is not creating physical children it may have, and should have, a +spiritual progeny--as in art and literature. + +The truth is that each individual case must be treated according to its +particular state of development. General rules in this instance are +particularly dangerous. We can only repeat that the repression is worse +than commission, that a seething mass of sexual thought is worse when it +has no physical outlet; that the ideal, when there may be no legitimate +outlet--and, indeed, to some extent, in all cases--is to find an emotional +outlet, to dig thought and emotional channels along which the sex-force +may flow, but the physical expression of which is, in the ordinary sense +of the term, non-sexual.[20] + +And this is quite possible. + + +II + +Attraction towards young children is frequently, perhaps almost entirely, +sexual. A symptom of this temperament is that romantic attachments are +formed towards either sex, because, before puberty, the child is bisexual +or sexless. This must essentially be a cult; it is a clean and noble cult, +but the penalty of its high standard is that here all physical sex +expression must be denied except in the lesser form of embrace. + +Here, indeed, the prosecution of the law against sex-acts is justified. +For, not only is the child incapable of giving valid consent, but the +commission of the sex-act is physically and morally injurious. It is +physically injurious beyond all doubt at a young age, and it is morally +injurious, because it introduces sex to an age of development when the +consciousness of sex should not have appeared above the horizon. The +inevitable result is that if sex-acts take place the child eventually ages +rapidly, as can be seen among the child-mothers of India. Maturity is +induced far before its time. + +The sex consciousness, as distinct from the unconsciousness, can be +awakened in the earliest years of childhood. The young boy or girl often +shows an extraordinarily intuitive perception that there is a sexual +design behind even the apparently harmless overtures. And this is why this +cult is particularly dangerous. The lover, in fact, must not only entirely +eliminate the morally criminal sex inclinations, but he must take care not +to become so sentimental and romantic as really to suggest sex to the +child's unconsciousness. It is difficult to draw the line as to what is a +lawful and what is an unlawful expression of this sex-temperament. One can +only say that the remedy is not to concentrate love on one child, but on +children generally. The child must not be treated as an adult; there must +be no manifestations of jealousy, or insistence on a return of love +expression. The embrace of children must be natural but not too ardent. In +fact, the lover must diffuse his love and romp with children as a class +rather than allow himself to appear emotional over one individual. + +Many unthinking people will at once regard this temperament as impure when +they have been convinced that scientifically it is sexual. But this is +only because they cannot understand that sex is a clean thing and that the +physical side of it is an occasional and by no means an inevitable +incident. The cult of child-love is in fact one of the purest and noblest +of sex-expressions. But it is a difficult path, and he who treads it must +beware of many pitfalls. + +Again, I quite deny that it is due to thwarted paternal instinct. I +believe it to be as natural a variety as any other of the +sex-temperaments. We have suffered too long from the superstition that sex +is a uniformity of type. + + +III + +Then there is that strange form of sex-expression known as bestiality. + +To most of us the connexion between man and beast in sex is so revolting +that there is a great danger of our prejudice running away with us. + +I believe that prejudice against what seems to me so debased a vice, is +justifiable. But I am equally sure that to punish such offences by +criminal law has no shred of justification, except when the act is done in +public so as to be openly indecent. No physical or moral harm can be done +to the animal. And were it not tragic, the idea of sentencing the +offenders to penal servitude would be itself a travesty. + +The practice, which is not so uncommon as many people imagine, is not so +much immoral as unnatural. I mean that this can hardly ever be a variety +of sex-temperament. Although the love of women for pet dogs is probably a +form of perverted sex-outlet, it seems impossible to discover here any +actual love going out towards animals rather than to humans. Therefore, +the act is almost always due to a desire for mere physical expression, +when this happens to have been chosen as the most convenient. + +The true remedy, therefore, can only be to take the individual and educate +him. He must be shown that it is immoral for man to devolve back to the +animal level. He is superior to the beast. He must be reminded that sex +must be a result of love, and that sex-love between man and animal would +only be possible if it were moral for man to cease to reason, to go down +on all fours, and to eat and drink and live like an animal. Even the most +primitive man would not wish to do that. And if he feels any sense of +abhorrence at such a proposal, then he must learn to extend his abhorrence +to any attempt at a similar equality in sex. + + +IV + +The strange and almost endless forms of sex-association need not be +considered, since they have no moral problem of their own. The man whose +sex-force is stirred into energy by the sight of some inanimate physical +object is obviously the victim of a sex-repression. And such diseases must +be treated as any other repressions should be. These general +considerations must suffice here for all forms of sex perversions, such as +sadism and its converse. And it is not difficult to distinguish between +the unnaturalness of such practices and the natural character of the main +sex-types which we have already mentioned. + + + + +Chapter XI: Sex Education + + +It is becoming evident to all students of the sex-problem that the remedy +for many of the difficulties arising therefrom is a wholesome and +efficient sex-education. + +In many cases the parents are not the persons most fitted to give this +education. They may not possess the art of imparting knowledge, and often +there is a certain reticence between parent and child, which when present +creates a bar to the proper handling of this question. The child goes to +school to learn, and the school must take its share of this +responsibility. Where this is not done the effect is deplorable. In the +preparatory school sex has hardly appeared. But in any school where there +are older boys or girls, and where sex-education is not given, knowledge +is rapidly obtained. Officially sex is ignored until, on rare occasions, +it is detected. Severe punishment is then meted out, and perhaps the +offender is even expelled, although the school is really penalizing the +results of its own system. + +It is unnecessary to labour the apology that the absence of sex-education +ensures innocence. In no school is this the case. If it were, with growing +boys and girls, it would be unnatural. Sex-instinct is bound to grow as +the physical body grows, and to ignore this fact is to create the +conception that sex-instinct is immoral. We then obtain the usual attitude +adopted in public schools--that sex is to be indulged behind closed doors +and sex literature sniggered at in dark corners. The boy grows up with a +totally unclean view of sex. He becomes either an intolerable prude, or +else he approaches sex-experience with an entirely twisted conception of +sex-morality. One is continually meeting instances of this perverted +imagination. Not only boys, but men, will regard an outspoken book on sex, +perhaps written with the purest of motives, as "hot stuff," something to +be greedily devoured when the eye of respectable authority is conveniently +removed. Recently, a man was told that a certain clergyman was a member of +a group of students studying sex-psychology. He expressed the opinion, +with a knowing leer, that "some parsons are not such fools after all." + +These crude examples of the result of driving sex into a dark corner +exactly represent what one is up against in school, and in the world, when +one begins to deal with sex openly and cleanly as a natural and +non-repressible instinct. Really these people are a type of prude, much +as they would resent this classification, for they persist in regarding +sex as something which is rather naughty. They even imagine that to take +away from it the cloak of unnaturalness with which they have surrounded it +is to rob it of all its attraction. This is ridiculously untrue. Sex is +attractive because it is romantic, and, so long as one does not go to the +opposite extreme of regarding it merely through the musty glasses of +scientific classification, it becomes no less attractive when it is open +and natural, and ceases to be the cause of giggling asides. + +Before any moral sense in the sex-problem can be established there must be +a fundamental cleaning of this cess-pool, this strange medley of official +silence, unnatural repression, and unclean secretiveness. The main road to +a moral sense is sex-education. And it is necessary, therefore, to +conclude this outline of principles by suggesting some conditions which +should govern such instruction. + +It is obvious that sex-education must be advanced on the process of a +sliding scale. Before puberty sex should not appear on the horizon of the +child's consciousness. The precocious child must of course be specially +dealt with, but usually the first lessons in sex should commence with the +period of mental puberty. Before that time the small child jokes only +about the normal excretory functions, and this can be adjusted by +emphasizing the unmanly and unnecessary character of such forms of humour. +A child has usually an exaggerated impression of the value of the adult +standard, an impression which it must be confessed is too often subject to +subsequent disillusionment. While it remains, however, it can be used, and +it can be pointed out that "grown-ups" do not consider the excretory +system has any more claim to ridicule than the process of digestion or +sleep. Vulgarity and coarseness are not symptoms even of immoral +sexuality. + +The problem commences, then, with puberty. And here a warning should be +uttered against that school of reformers which tends to the view that sex +can be regarded as naturally and as publicly as natural history or +chemistry. This attitude ignores the fact that there is such a quality as +sexual appetite. And consequently, sex education should be rather a matter +for individuals than for public instruction. We have remarked that the +parent may not infrequently be an unfortunate educator. But where these +objections do not arise, the home is an admirable atmosphere for sensible +teaching. The Catholic Church possesses the invaluable medium of the +Confessional, and where the Confessor can give sound sex instruction no +better opportunity can be imagined. There remains the school, but even +here better work will be done in the study than the classroom. + +The immediate problem in the early post-puberty age is the tendency +towards solitary practices. It must be recognized that this is usual with +all children, and that there is no evidence to show that, save in extreme +exceptions, physical harm results. All attempt at _alarmist prudism_ must +be abandoned. Sane instruction will tend rather to emphasize that sex +abuse is due to a weakness of will-power, and that man is most manly, i.e. +most removed from the animal, in the exercise of will-power. All education +should contain that subject which is at present consistently ignored, +namely, the art of thought-control. The child will be interested to follow +certain simple rules of mental exercise, and where this is followed the +liability to indulge in sex-acts diminishes. It is this element which must +be emphasized, the fact, that is, that solitary practices are usually the +result of an inability to exercise the will and control the mind. + +At a slightly later period, the public-school age, there emerges the +tendency, in addition to onanism, for promiscuous practices, usually of a +homogenic nature. A further stage of sex-education must now be opened out, +namely the principle that physical sex expression must be the expression +only of love. The problem now becomes necessarily more acute, but there is +this element which tends to lessen the difficulties of the instructor's +task. The individual is always interested about himself; he is naturally +egotistical. The youth will gladly listen to what can be told him of his +own nature. He must be shown the immense superiority of mind both over the +emotional and physical natures. This may involve a slight dethronement of +the public school appreciation of sport. So long as it is slight such a +dethronement will be a reform in itself. The boy in his middle teens must +be taught that man is greater in his mental than in his physical activity; +he must be reminded that he is inferior to many animals on the physical +level. The application of this doctrine to sex is that sex-expression for +the purpose of physical curiosity or excitement is a denial of the +monopoly of love, which belongs to the emotional and mental capacities. + +The young man and the girl, who has left school, will be ready to receive +the whole standard of sex-morality as has been outlined in this manual. +The chief trouble now becomes over-sentimentality, the tendency to develop +emotionally at the expense of the mind. And it becomes, therefore, +essential to remind the pupil that where there are continual passing and +promiscuous sexual or love affairs, the mind is being shut out from its +natural functions. To be attracted sexually towards any pretty girl, to +develop sexual relations with different women from week to week, is simply +a form of mental unbalance. The emotions are in the saddle. For directly +the mind begins to operate there is introduced the element of permanency +and constancy. The deepest and most real pleasures only begin in the realm +of mentality. The man who hears music only to beat time or remember a +catchy tune is shut out of the immense joy of the intellectual love of +music. So the young man who lives in a fever of hot-house sexuality, of +absorbing intrigues in the dance-room, or the morbid atmosphere of the +street corner, is shut out of all the exquisite joys of love. He does not +know this, any more than the irreligious man knows what he loses through +an absence of the spiritual sense. But he must be told. + +The basic principle of sex values is that sex is immoral so far as the +physical side outweighs in proportion the emotional and mental--so far +indeed, as the act becomes the motive and not the incident. Sex may be +dedicated only to love; divorced from love, it is an abuse. There can be +no exceptions to this rule, and we can only clarify our ideas as to what +is and what is not love. Perhaps this maxim, which we learn by gradual +experience, will help us. Sex passion quickly burns itself out. The +pleasures derived from passion will be of a purely temporary nature, +without the satisfaction which alone comes from permanence. All physical +things are less permanent than the mental. There is no joy, no divine +nature in sex, save where from the ashes of passion rises the phoenix of +the "sexual" but the super-passionate attachment. And this permanent +possession can only come, whether in marriage or outside, where the mind, +healthily developed and exercised, is taking its true place in the +expression of pure love. + + +_Printed in Great Britain by Hazell, Watson & Viney, Ld., London and +Aylesbury._ + + + + +Footnotes: + +[1] _The Origin of Sexual Modesty_, by Edward Westermarck. + +[2] _Vide_ R. V. Jellyman (1838) 8 C and P, 604. + +[3] Until recently incest was not a civil offence. + +[4] The second object of marriage is declared to be "a remedy against +sin...; that such persons as have not the gift of continency marry and +keep themselves undefiled members of Christ's body." + +[5] 1 Cor. vii. 8, 9. "Burn" means sex-obsession as mentioned on page 38. + +[6] "Where the decree Tametsi of the Council of Trent has not been +proclaimed, marriage is constituted by mere consent freely exchanged +between persons who are by natural and canonical law competent and able to +intermarry."--Geary's _Marriage and Family Relations_. (Now altered by _Ne +temere_-decree, but the principle remains.) + +[7] We have already commented on the strange inconsistency of regarding +the sex-act as evil _per se_ outside marriage, and as a virtue in +marriage. + +[8] I am using "celibacy" to imply complete physical chastity. + +[9] With the curious inconsistency, already referred to, that in marriage +non-celibacy is a virtue. + +[10] Except by Act of Parliament. + +[11] The Majority Report of the Divorce Commission is a good instance of +the unnecessary hardship which results from half-hearted proposals of this +kind. Divorce is to be allowed, for example, after desertion for three +years; why not for two? Or again, the wife of an incurable drunkard is to +be free to obtain divorce, while the unhappy wife of a man who suffers +from violent fits of intermittent drunkenness is to be denied this relief. + +[12] I refrain from adding "economic" reasons, for I believe that the +State should remove, as far as possible, all such obstacles against +healthy parents begetting children. + +[13] Procuration for the purpose of prostitution is of course an entirely +different matter. + +[14] No actual physical harm need result from an incestuous union. The +only effect which seems to be caused is that the characteristics to be +hereditarily transmitted are doubled. Thus with only a small grain of +insanity in a family the chances of aggravated insanity appearing in the +offspring of a brother and sister would be considerable. + +[15] Spiritual affinity was a bar, so that not only could not godparents +marry each other, but there could be no valid unions between a godparent +and the child's father or mother. (Geary's _Marriage and Family +Relations_.) + +[16] Some apology must be made for the use of this hybrid term. The +unwarrantable confusion of Greek and Latin terminology must, however, be +laid at the door of popular use. + +[17] _Psychology of Sex_; Vol. _Sexual Inversion_. Dr. Hirschfeld in his +_Statistischen Vatersuchunge ueber den Prozentensetz der Homosexuellen_, +considers that out of 100,000 inhabitants, 94,600 on the average are +sexually normal, 1,500 exclusively homosexual, and 3,900 bisexual. + +[18] The existence of this danger was admitted in a debate in the House of +Lords on August 15, 1921, on The Criminal Law Amendment Bill. The Earl of +Malmesbury, speaking on a proposal to apply criminal prosecution to +homosexual offences among women, declared that "the opportunity for +blackmail will be vastly and enormously increased." Other speakers +concurred in this view, and it was partly on this ground that the proposal +was thrown out. + +It is hardly necessary to point out that if blackmail would be encouraged +by such legislation, it must equally be encouraged by the present law +regarding similar offences between males. + +[19] _The Intermediate Sex._ + +[20] I cannot enter here into that further theory which may be described +as "expression through a phantasy." + + + + + + +End of Project Gutenberg's An Outline of Sexual Morality, by Kenneth Ingram + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK AN OUTLINE OF SEXUAL MORALITY *** + +***** This file should be named 34309.txt or 34309.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/3/4/3/0/34309/ + +Produced by The Online Distributed Proofreading Team at +http://www.pgdp.net (This file was produced from images +generously made available by The Internet Archive/American +Libraries.) + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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