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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + + + + +Title: Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3 (of 6) + +Author: Havelock Ellis + +Release Date: October 8, 2004 [eBook #13612] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + + +***START OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, +VOLUME 3 (OF 6)*** + + +E-text prepared by Juliet Sutherland and the Project Gutenberg Online +Distributed Proofreading Team (https://www.pgdp.net) + + + +STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, VOLUME III + + Analysis of the Sexual Impulse + Love and Pain + The Sexual Impulse in Women + + +by + +HAVELOCK ELLIS + +1927 + + + + + + + +PREFACE TO SECOND EDITION. + + +This volume has been thoroughly revised for the present edition and +considerably enlarged throughout, in order to render it more accurate and +more illustrative, while bringing it fairly up to date with reference to +scientific investigation. Numerous histories have also been added to the +Appendix. + +It has not been found necessary to modify the main doctrines set forth ten +years ago. At the same time, however, it may be mentioned, as regards the +first study in the volume, that our knowledge of the physiological +mechanism of the sexual instinct has been revolutionized during recent +years. This is due to the investigations that have been made, and the +deductions that have been built up, concerning the part played by +hormones, or internal secretions of the ductless glands, in the physical +production of the sexual instinct and the secondary sexual characters. The +conception of the psychology of the sexual impulse here set forth, while +correlated to terms of a physical process of tumescence and detumescence, +may be said to be independent of the ultimate physiological origins of +that process. But we cannot fail to realize the bearing of physiological +chemistry in this field; and the doctrine of internal secretions, since it +may throw light on many complex problems presented by the sexual instinct, +is full of interest for us. + +HAVELOCK ELLIS. + +June, 1913. + + + + +PREFACE TO FIRST EDITION. + + +The present volume of _Studies_ deals with some of the most essential +problems of sexual psychology. The _Analysis of the Sexual Impulse_ is +fundamental. Unless we comprehend the exact process which is being worked +out beneath the shifting and multifold phenomena presented to us we can +never hope to grasp in their true relations any of the normal or abnormal +manifestations of this instinct. I do not claim that the conception of the +process here stated is novel or original. Indeed, even since I began to +work it out some years ago, various investigators in these fields, +especially in Germany, have deprived it of any novelty it might otherwise +have possessed, while at the same time aiding me in reaching a more +precise statement. This is to me a cause of satisfaction. On so +fundamental a matter I should have been sorry to find myself tending to a +peculiar and individual standpoint. It is a source of gratification to me +that the positions I have reached are those toward which current +intelligent and scientific opinions are tending. Any originality in my +study of this problem can only lie in the bringing together of elements +from somewhat diverse fields. I shall be content if it is found that I +have attained a fairly balanced, general, and judicial statement of these +main factors in the sexual instinct. + +In the study of _Love and Pain_ I have discussed the sources of those +aberrations which are commonly called, not altogether happily, "sadism" +and "masochism." Here we are brought before the most extreme and perhaps +the most widely known group of sexual perversions. I have considered them +from the medico-legal standpoint, because that has already been done by +other writers whose works are accessible. I have preferred to show how +these aberrations may be explained; how they may be linked on to normal +and fundamental aspects of the sexual impulse; and, indeed, in their +elementary forms, may themselves be regarded as normal. In some degree +they are present, in every case, at some point of sexual development; +their threads are subtly woven in and out of the whole psychological +process of sex. I have made no attempt to reduce their complexity to a +simplicity that would be fallacious. I hope that my attempt to unravel +these long and tangled threads will be found to make them fairly clear. + +In the third study, on _The Sexual Impulse in Women_, we approach a +practical question of applied sexual psychology, and a question of the +first importance. No doubt the sex impulse in men is of great moment from +the social point of view. It is, however, fairly obvious and well +understood. The impulse in women is not only of at least equal moment, but +it is far more obscure. The natural difficulties of the subject have been +increased by the assumption of most writers who have touched it--casually +and hurriedly, for the most part--that the only differences to be sought +in the sexual impulse in man and in woman are quantitative differences. I +have pointed out that we may more profitably seek for qualitative +differences, and have endeavored to indicate such of these differences as +seem to be of significance. + +In an Appendix will be found a selection of histories of more or less +normal sexual development. Histories of gross sexual perversion have often +been presented in books devoted to the sexual instinct; it has not +hitherto been usual to inquire into the facts of normal sexual +development. Yet it is concerning normal sexual development that our +ignorance is greatest, and the innovation can scarcely need justification. +I have inserted these histories not only because many of them are highly +instructive in themselves, but also because they exhibit the nature of the +material on which my work is mainly founded. + +I am indebted to many correspondents, medical and other, in various parts +of the world, for much valuable assistance. When they have permitted me +to do so I have usually mentioned their names in the text. This has not +been possible in the case of many women friends and correspondents, to +whom, however, my debt is very great. Nature has put upon women the +greater part of the burden of sexual reproduction; they have consequently +become the supreme authorities on all matters in which the sexual emotions +come into question. Many circumstances, however, that are fairly obvious, +conspire to make it difficult for women to assert publicly the wisdom and +knowledge which, in matters of love, the experiences of life have brought +to them. The ladies who, in all earnestness and sincerity, write books on +these questions are often the last people to whom we should go as the +representatives of their sex; those who know most have written least. I +can therefore but express again, as in previous volumes I have expressed +before, my deep gratitude to these anonymous collaborators who have aided +me in throwing light on a field of human life which is of such primary +social importance and is yet so dimly visible. + +HAVELOCK ELLIS. + +Carbis Water, + +Lelant, Cornwall, England. + + + + +CONTENTS. + + +ANALYSIS OF THE SEXUAL IMPULSE. + +Definition of Instinct--The Sexual Impulse a Factor of the Sexual +Instinct--Theory of the Sexual Impulse as an Impulse of Evacuation--The +Evidence in Support of this Theory Inadequate--The Sexual Impulse to Some +Extent Independent of the Sexual Glands--The Sexual Impulse in Castrated +Animals and Men--The Sexual Impulse in Castrated Women, After the +Menopause, and in the Congenital Absence of the Sexual Glands--The +Internal Secretions--Analogy between the Sexual Relationship and that of +the Suckling Mother and her Child--The Theory of the Sexual Impulse as a +Reproductive Impulse--This Theory Untenable--Moll's Definition--The +Impulse of Detumescence--The Impulse of Contrectation--Modification of +this Theory Proposed--Its Relation to Darwin's Sexual Selection--The +Essential Element in Darwin's Conception--Summary of the History of the +Doctrine of Sexual Selection. Its Psychological Aspect--Sexual Selection a +Part of Natural Selection--The Fundamental Importance of +Tumescence--Illustrated by the Phenomena of Courtship in Animals and in +Man--The Object of Courtship is to Produce Sexual Tumescence--The +Primitive Significance of Dancing in Animals and Man--Dancing is a Potent +Agent for Producing Tumescence--The Element of Truth in the Comparison of +the Sexual Impulse with an Evacuation, Especially of the Bladder--Both +Essentially Involve Nervous Explosions--Their Intimate and Sometimes +Vicarious Relationships--Analogy between Coitus and Epilepsy--Analogy of +the Sexual Impulse to Hunger--Final Object of the Impulses of Tumescence +and Detumescence. + + +LOVE AND PAIN. + +I. + +The Chief Key to the Relationship between Love and Pain to be Found in +Animal Courtship--Courtship a Source of Combativity and of Cruelty--Human +Play in the Light of Animal Courtship--The Frequency of Crimes Against the +Person in Adolescence--Marriage by Capture and its Psychological +Basis--Man's Pleasure in Exerting Force and Woman's Pleasure in +Experiencing it--Resemblance of Love to Pain even in Outward +Expression--The Love-bite--In What Sense Pain May be Pleasurable--The +Natural Contradiction in the Emotional Attitude of Women Toward +Men--Relative Insensibility to Pain of the Organic Sexual Sphere in +Women--The Significance of the Use of the Ampallang and Similar Appliances +in Coitus--The Sexual Subjection of Women to Men in Part Explainable as +the Necessary Condition for Sexual Pleasure. + +II. + +The Definition of Sadism--De Sade--Masochism to some Extent +Normal--Sacher-Masoch--No Real Line of Demarcation between Sadism and +Masochism--Algolagnia Includes Both Groups of Manifestations--The +Love-bite as a Bridge from Normal Phenomena to Algolagnia--The Fascination +of Blood--The Most Extreme Perversions are Linked on to Normal Phenomena. + +III. + +Flagellation as a Typical Illustration of Algolagnia--Causes of Connection +between Sexual Emotion and Whipping--Physical Causes--Psychic Causes +Probably More Important--The Varied Emotional Associations of +Whipping--Its Wide Prevalence. + +IV. + +The Impulse to Strangle the Object of Sexual Desire--The Wish to be +Strangled. Respiratory Disturbance the Essential Element in this Group of +Phenomena--The Part Played by Respiratory Excitement in the Process of +Courtship--Swinging and Suspension--The Attraction Exerted by the Idea of +being Chained and Fettered. + +V. + +Pain, and not Cruelty, the Essential Element in Sadism and Masochism--Pain +Felt as Pleasure--Does the Sadist Identify Himself with the Feelings of +his Victim?--The Sadist Often a Masochist in Disguise--The Spectacle of +Pain or Struggle as a Sexual Stimulant. + +VI. + +Why is Pain a Sexual Stimulant?--It is the Most Effective Method of +Arousing Emotion--Anger and Fear the Most Powerful Emotions--Their +Biological Significance in Courtship--Their General and Special Effects in +Stimulating the Organism--Grief as a Sexual Stimulant--The Physiological +Mechanism of Fatigue Renders Pain Pleasurable. + +VII. + +Summary of Results Reached--The Joy of Emotional Expansion--The +Satisfaction of the Craving for Power--The Influence of Neurasthenic and +Neuropathic Conditions--The Problem of Pain in Love Largely Constitutes a +Special Case of Erotic Symbolism. + + +THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN WOMEN. + +Introduction. + +I. + +The Primitive View of Women--As a Supernatural Element in Life--As +Peculiarly Embodying the Sexual Instinct--The Modern Tendency to +Underestimate the Sexual Impulse in Women--This Tendency Confined to +Recent Times--Sexual Anæsthesia--Its Prevalence--Difficulties in +Investigating the Subject--Some Attempts to Investigate it--Sexual +Anæsthesia Must be Regarded as Abnormal--The Tendency to Spontaneous +Manifestations of the Sexual Impulse in Young Girls at Puberty. + +II. + +Special Characters of the Sexual Impulse in Women--The More Passive Part +Played by Women in Courtship--This Passivity Only Apparent--The Physical +Mechanism of the Sexual Process in Women More Complex--The Slower +Development of Orgasm in Women--The Sexual Impulse in Women More +Frequently Needs to be Actively Aroused--The Climax of Sexual Energy Falls +Later in Women's Lives than in Men's--Sexual Ardor in Women increased +After the Establishment of Sexual Relationships--Women Bear Sexual +Excesses Better than Men--The Sexual Sphere Larger and More Diffused in +Women--The Sexual Impulse in Women Shows a Greater Tendency to Periodicity +and a Wider Range of Variation. + +III. + +Summary of Conclusions. + + +APPENDIX A. + +The Sexual Instinct in Savages. + + +APPENDIX B. + +The Development of the Sexual Instinct. + + +INDEX OF AUTHORS. + + +INDEX OF SUBJECTS. + + + + +ANALYSIS OF THE SEXUAL IMPULSE. + +Definition of Instinct--The Sexual Impulse a Factor of the Sexual +Instinct--Theory of the Sexual Impulse as an Impulse of Evacuation--The +Evidence in Support of this Theory Inadequate--The Sexual Impulse to Some +Extent Independent of the Sexual Glands--The Sexual Impulse in Castrated +Animals and Men--The Sexual Impulse in Castrated Women, after the +Menopause, and in the Congenital Absence of the Sexual Glands--The +Internal Secretions--Analogy between the Sexual Relationship and that of +the Suckling Mother and her Child--The Theory of the Sexual Impulse as a +Reproductive Impulse--This Theory Untenable--Moll's Definition--The +Impulse of Detumescence--The Impulse of Contrectation--Modification of +this Theory Proposed--Its Relation to Darwin's Sexual Selection--The +Essential Element in Darwin's Conception--Summary of the History of the +Doctrine of Sexual Selection--Its Psychological Aspect--Sexual Selection a +Part of Natural Selection--The Fundamental Importance of +Tumescence--Illustrated by the Phenomena of Courtship in Animals and in +Man--The Object of Courtship is to Produce Sexual Tumescence--The +Primitive Significance of Dancing in Animals and Man--Dancing is a Potent +Agent for Producing Tumescence--The Element of Truth in the Comparison of +the Sexual Impulse with an Evacuation, Especially of the Bladder--Both +Essentially Involve Nervous Explosions--Their Intimate and Sometimes +Vicarious Relationships--Analogy between Coitus and Epilepsy--Analogy of +the Sexual Impulse to Hunger--Final Object of the Impulses of Tumescence +and Detumescence. + + +The term "sexual instinct" may be said to cover the whole of the +neuropsychic phenomena of reproduction which man shares with the lower +animals. It is true that much discussion has taken place concerning the +proper use of the term "instinct," and some definitions of instinctive +action would appear to exclude the essential mechanism of the process +whereby sexual reproduction is assured. Such definitions scarcely seem +legitimate, and are certainly unfortunate. Herbert Spencer's definition of +instinct as "compound reflex action" is sufficiently clear and definite +for ordinary use. + + A fairly satisfactory definition of instinct is that supplied by + Dr. and Mrs. Peckham in the course of their study _On the + Instincts and Habits of Solitary Wasps_. "Under the term + 'instinct,'" they say, "we place all complex acts which are + performed previous to experience and in a similar manner by all + members of the same sex and race, leaving out as non-essential, + at this time, the question of whether they are or are not + accompanied by consciousness." This definition is quoted with + approval by Lloyd Morgan, who modifies and further elaborates it + (_Animal Behavior_, 1900, p. 21). "The distinction between + instinctive and reflex behavior," he remarks, "turns in large + degree on their relative complexity," and instinctive behavior, + he concludes, may be said to comprise "those complex groups of + co-ordinated acts which are, on their first occurrence, + independent of experience; which tend to the well-being of the + individual and the preservation of the race; which are due to the + co-operation of external and internal stimuli; which are + similarly performed by all the members of the same more or less + restricted group of animals; but which are subject to variation, + and to subsequent modification under the guidance of experience." + Such a definition clearly justifies us in speaking of a "sexual + instinct." It may be added that the various questions involved in + the definition of the sexual instinct have been fully discussed + by Moll in the early sections of his _Untersuchungen über die + Libido Sexualis_. + + Of recent years there has been a tendency to avoid the use of the + term "instinct," or, at all events, to refrain from attaching any + serious scientific sense to it. Loeb's influence has especially + given force to this tendency. Thus, while Piéron, in an + interesting discussion of the question ("Les Problèmes Actuels de + l'Instinct," _Revue Philosophique_, Oct., 1908), thinks it would + still be convenient to retain the term, giving it a philosophical + meaning, Georges Bohn, who devotes a chapter to the notion of + instinct (_La Naissance de l'Intelligence_, 1909), is strongly in + favor of eliminating the word, as being merely a legacy of + medieval theologians and metaphysicians, serving to conceal our + ignorance or our lack of exact analysis. + +It may be said that the whole of the task undertaken in these _Studies_ is +really an attempt to analyze what is commonly called the sexual instinct. +In order to grasp it we have to break it up into its component parts. +Lloyd Morgan has pointed out that the components of an instinct may be +regarded as four: first, the internal messages giving rise to the impulse; +secondly, the external stimuli which co-operate with the impulse to affect +the nervous centers; thirdly, the active response due to the co-ordinate +outgoing discharges; and, fourthly, the message from the organs concerned +in the behavior by which the central nervous system is further +affected.[1] + +In dealing with the sexual instinct the first two factors are those which +we have most fully to discuss. With the external stimuli we shall be +concerned in a future volume (IV). We may here confine ourselves mainly to +the first factor: the nature of the internal messages which prompt the +sexual act. We may, in other words, attempt to analyze the _sexual +impulse_. + +The first definition of the sexual impulse we meet with is that which +regards it as an impulse of evacuation. The psychological element is thus +reduced to a minimum. It is true that, especially in early life, the +emotions caused by forced repression of the excretions are frequently +massive or acute in the highest degree, and the joy of relief +correspondingly great. But in adult life, on most occasions, these desires +can be largely pushed into the background of consciousness, partly by +training, partly by the fact that involuntary muscular activity is less +imperative in adult life; so that the ideal element in connection with the +ordinary excretions is almost a negligible quantity. The evacuation theory +of the sexual instinct is, however, that which has most popular vogue, and +the cynic delights to express it in crude language. It is the view that +appeals to the criminal mind, and in the slang of French criminals the +brothel is _le cloaque_. It was also the view implicitly accepted by +medieval ascetic writers, who regarded woman as "a temple built over a +sewer," and from a very different standpoint it was concisely set forth by +Montaigne, who has doubtless contributed greatly to support this view of +the matter: "I find," he said, "that Venus, after all, is nothing more +than the pleasure of discharging our vessels, just as nature renders +pleasurable the discharges from other parts."[2] Luther, again, always +compared the sexual to the excretory impulse, and said that marriage was +just as necessary as the emission of urine. Sir Thomas More, also, in the +second book of _Utopia_, referring to the pleasure of evacuation, speaks +of that felt "when we do our natural easement, or when we be doing the act +of generation." This view would, however, scarcely deserve serious +consideration if various distinguished investigators, among whom Féré may +be specially mentioned, had not accepted it as the best and most accurate +definition of the sexual impulse. "The genesic need may be considered," +writes Féré, "as a need of evacuation; the choice is determined by the +excitations which render the evacuation more agreeable."[3] Certain facts +observed in the lower animals tend to support this view; it is, therefore, +necessary, in the first place, to set forth the main results of +observation on this matter. Spallanzani had shown how the male frog during +coitus will undergo the most horrible mutilations, even decapitation, and +yet resolutely continue the act of intercourse, which lasts from four to +ten days, sitting on the back of the female and firmly clasping her with +his forelegs. Goltz confirmed Spallanzani's observations and threw new +light on the mechanism of the sexual instinct and the sexual act in the +frog. By removing various parts of the female frog Goltz found that every +part of the female was attractive to the male at pairing time, and that he +was not imposed on when parts of a male were substituted. By removing +various of the sense-organs of the male Goltz[4] further found that it was +not by any special organ, but by the whole of his sensitive system, that +this activity was set in action. If, however, the skin of the arms and of +the breast between was removed, no embrace took place; so that the sexual +sensations seemed to be exerted through this apparatus. When the +testicles were removed the embrace still took place. It could scarcely be +said that these observations demonstrated, or in any way indicated, that +the sexual impulse is dependent on the need of evacuation. Professor +Tarchanoff, of St. Petersburg, however, made an experiment which seemed to +be crucial. He took several hundred frogs (_Rana temporaria_), nearly all +in the act of coitus, and in the first place repeated Goltz's experiments. +He removed the heart; but this led to no direct or indirect stoppage of +coitus, nor did removal of the lungs, parts of the liver, the spleen, the +intestines, the stomach, or the kidneys. In the same way even careful +removal of both testicles had no result. But on removing the seminal +receptacles coitus was immediately or very shortly stopped, and not +renewed. Thus, Tarchanoff concluded that in frogs, and possibly therefore +in mammals, the seminal receptacles are the starting-point of the +centripetal impulse which by reflex action sets in motion the complicated +apparatus of sexual activity.[5] A few years later the question was again +taken up by Steinach, of Prague. Granting that Tarchanoff's experiments +are reliable as regards the frog, Steinach points out that we may still +ask whether in mammals the integrity of the seminal receptacles is bound +up with the preservation of sexual excitability. This cannot be taken for +granted, nor can we assume that the seminal receptacles of the frog are +homologous with the seminal vesicles of mammals. In order to test the +question, Steinach chose the white rat, as possessing large seminal +vesicles and a very developed sexual impulse. He found that removal of the +seminal sacs led to no decrease in the intensity of the sexual impulse; +the sexual act was still repeated with the same frequency and the same +vigor. But these receptacles, Steinach proceeded to argue, do not really +contain semen, but a special secretion of their own; they are anatomically +quite unlike the seminal receptacles of the frog; so that no doubt is thus +thrown on Tarchanoff's observations. Steinach remarked, however, that +one's faith is rather shaken by the fact that in the _Esculenta_, which +in sexual life closely resembles _Rana temporaria_, there are no seminal +receptacles. He therefore repeated Tarchanoff's experiments, and found +that the seminal receptacles were empty before coitus, only becoming +gradually filled during coitus; it could not, therefore, be argued that +the sexual impulse started from the receptacles. He then extirpated the +seminal receptacles, avoiding hemorrhage as far as possible, and found +that, in the majority of cases so operated on, coitus still continued for +from five to seven days, and in the minority for a longer time. He +therefore concluded, with Goltz, that it is from the swollen testicles, +not from the seminal receptacles, that the impulse first starts. Goltz +himself pointed out that the fact that the removal of the testicles did +not stop coitus by no means proves that it did not begin it, for, when the +central nervous mechanism is once set in action, it can continue even when +the exciting stimulus is removed. By extirpating the testicles some months +before the sexual season he found that no coitus occurred. At the same +time, even in these frogs, a certain degree of sexual inclination and a +certain excitability of the embracing center still persisted, disappearing +when the sexual epoch was over. + +According to most recent writers, the seminal vesicles of mammals are +receptacles for their own albuminous secretion, the function of which is +unknown. Steinach could find no spermatozoa in these "seminal" sacs, and +therefore he proposed to use Owen's name of _glandulæ vesiculares_. After +extirpation of these vesicular glands in the white rat typical coitus +occurred. But the capacity for _procreation_ was diminished, and +extirpation of both _glandulæ vesiculares_ and _glandulæ prostaticæ_ led +to disappearance of the capacity for procreation. Steinach came to the +conclusion that this is because the secretions of these glands impart +increased vitality to the spermatozoa, and he points out that great +fertility and high development of the accessory sexual glands go together. + +Steinach found that, when sexually mature white rats were castrated, +though at first they remained as potent as ever, their potency gradually +declined; sexual excitement, however, and sexual inclination always +persisted. He then proceeded to castrate rats before puberty and +discovered the highly significant fact that in these also a quite +considerable degree of sexual inclination appeared. They followed, +sniffed, and licked the females like ordinary males; and that this was not +a mere indication of curiosity was shown by the fact that they made +attempts at coitus which only differed from those of normal males by the +failure of erection and ejaculation, though, occasionally, there was +imperfect erection. This lasted for a year, and then their sexual +inclinations began to decline, and they showed signs of premature age. +These manifestations of sexual sense Steinach compares to those noted in +the human species during childhood.[6] + +The genesic tendencies are thus, to a certain degree, independent of the +generative glands, although the development of these glands serves to +increase the genesic ability and to furnish the impulsion necessary to +assure procreation, as well as to insure the development of the secondary +sexual characters, probably by the influence of secretions elaborated and +thrown into the system from the primary sexual glands.[7] + + Halban ("Die Entstehung der Geschlechtscharaktere," _Archiv für + Gynäkologie_, 1903, pp. 205-308) argues that the primary sex + glands do not necessarily produce the secondary sex characters, + nor inhibit the development of those characteristic of the + opposite sex. It is indeed the rule, but it is not the inevitable + result. Sexual differences exist from the first. Nussbaum made + experiments on frogs (_Rana fusca_), which go through a yearly + cycle of secondary sexual changes at the period of heat. These + changes cease on castration, but, if the testes of other frogs + are introduced beneath the skin of the castrated frogs, Nussbaum + found that they acted as if the frog had not been castrated. It + is the secretion of the testes which produces the secondary + sexual changes. But Nussbaum found that the testicular secretion + does not work if the nerves of the secondary sexual region are + cut, and that the secretion has no direct action on the organism. + Pflüger, discussing these experiments (_Archiv für die Gesammte + Physiologie_, 1907, vol. cxvi, parts 5 and 6), disputes this + conclusion, and argues that the secretion is not dependent on the + action of the nervous system, and that therefore the secondary + sexual characters are independent of the nervous system. + + Steinach has also in later experiments ("Geschlechtstrieb und + echt Sekundäre Geschlechtsmerkmale als Folge der + innerskretorischen Funktion der Keimdrusen," _Zentralblatt für + Physiologie_, Bd. xxiv, Nu. 13, 1910) argued against any local + nervous influence. He found in _Rana fusca_ and _esculenta_ that + after castration in autumn the impulse to grasp the female + persisted in some degrees and then disappeared, reappearing in a + slight degree, however, every winter at the normal period of + sexual activity. But when the testicular substance of actively + sexual frogs was injected into the castrated frogs it exerted an + elective action on the sexual reflex, sometimes in a few hours, + but the action is, Steinach concludes, first central. The + testicular secretion of frogs that were not sexually active had + no stimulating action, but if the frogs were sexually active the + injection of their central nervous substance was as effective as + their testicular substance. In either case, Steinach concludes, + there is the removal of an inhibition which is in operation at + sexually quiescent periods. + + Speaking generally, Steinach considers that there is a process of + "erotisation" (Erotisieurung) of the nervous center under the + influence of the internal testicular secretions, and that this + persists even when the primary physical stimulus has been + removed. + +The experience of veterinary surgeons also shows that the sexual impulse +tends to persist in animals after castration. Thus the ox and the gelding +make frequent efforts to copulate with females in heat. In some cases, at +all events in the case of the horse, castrated animals remain potent, and +are even abnormally ardent, although impregnation cannot, of course, +result.[8] + +The results obtained by scientific experiment and veterinary experience on +the lower animals are confirmed by observation of various groups of +phenomena in the human species. There can be no doubt that castrated men +may still possess sexual impulses. This has been noted by observers in +various countries in which eunuchs are made and employed.[9] + + It is important to remember that there are different degrees of + castration, for in current language these are seldom + distinguished. The Romans recognized four different degrees: 1. + True _castrati_, from whom both the testicles and the penis had + been removed. 2. _Spadones_, from whom the testicles only had + been removed; this was the most common practice. 3. _Thlibiæ_, in + whom the testicles had not been removed, but destroyed by + crushing; this practice is referred to by Hippocrates. 4. + _Thlasiæ_, in whom the spermatic cord had simply been cut. + Millant, from whose Paris thesis (_Castration Criminelle et + Maniaque_, 1902) I take these definitions, points out that it was + recognized that _spadones_ remained apt for coitus if the + operation was performed after puberty, a fact appreciated by many + Roman ladies, _ad seouras libidinationes_, as St. Jerome + remarked, while Martial (lib. iv) said of a Roman lady who sought + eunuchs: "Vult futui Gallia, non parere." (See also Millant, _Les + Eunuques à Travers les Ages_, 1909, and articles by Lipa Bey and + Zambaco, _Sexual-Probleme_, Oct. and Dec., 1911.) + +In China, Matignon, formerly physician to the French legation in Pekin, +tells us that eunuchs are by no means without sexual feeling, that they +seek the company of women and, he believes, gratify their sexual desires +by such methods as are left open to them, for the sexual organs are +entirely removed. It would seem probable that, the earlier the age at +which the operation is performed, the less marked are the sexual desires, +for Matignon mentions that boys castrated before the age of 10 are +regarded by the Chinese as peculiarly virginal and pure.[10] At +Constantinople, where the eunuchs are of negro race, castration is usually +complete and performed before puberty, in order to abolish sexual potency +and desire as far as possible. Even when castration is effected in +infancy, sexual desire is not necessarily rendered impossible. Thus Marie +has recorded the case of an insane Egyptian eunuch whose penis and scrotum +were removed in infancy; yet, he had frequent and intense sexual desire +with ejaculation of mucus and believed that an invisible princess touched +him and aroused voluptuous sensations. Although the body had a feminine +appearance, the prostate was normal and the vesiculæ seminales not +atrophied.[11] It may be added that Lancaster[12] quotes the following +remark, made by a resident for many years in the land, concerning Nubian +eunuchs: "As far as I can judge, sex feeling exists unmodified by absence +of the sexual organs. The eunuch differs from the man not in the absence +of sexual passion, but only in the fact that he cannot fully gratify it. +As far as he can approach a gratification of it he does so." In this +connection it may be noted that (as quoted by Moll) Jäger attributes the +preference of some women--noted in ancient Rome and in the East--for +castrated men as due not only to the freedom from risk of impregnation in +such intercourse, but also to the longer duration of erection in the +castrated. + +When castration is performed without removal of the penis it is said that +potency remains for at least ten years afterward, and Disselhorst, who in +his _Die accessorischen Geschlechtsdrüsen der Wirbelthiere_ takes the same +view as has been here adopted, mentions that, according to Pelikan (_Das +Skopzentum in Rüssland_), those castrated at puberty are fit for coitus +long afterward. When castration is performed for surgical reasons at a +later age it is still less likely to affect potency or to change the +sexual feelings.[13] Guinard concludes that the sexual impulse after +castration is relatively more persistent in man than in the lower animals, +and is sometimes even heightened, being probably more dependent on +external stimuli.[14] + +Except in the East, castration is more often performed on women than on +men, and then the evidence as to the influence of the removal of the +ovaries on the sexual emotions shows varying results. It has been found +that after castration sexual desire and sexual pleasure in coitus may +either remain the same, be diminished or extinguished, or be increased. By +some the diminution has been attributed to autosuggestion, the woman being +convinced that she can no longer be like other women; the augmentation of +desire and pleasure has been supposed to be due to the removal of the +dread of impregnation. We have, of course, to take into account individual +peculiarities, method of life, and the state of the health. + + In France Jayle ("Effets physiologiques de la Castration chez la + Femme," _Revue de Gynécologie_, 1897, pp. 403-57) found that, + among 33 patients in whom ovariotomy had been performed, in 18 + sexual desire remained the same, in 3 it was diminished, in 8 + abolished, in 3 increased; while pleasure in coitus remained the + same in 17, was diminished in 1, abolished in 4, and increased in + 5, in 6 cases sexual intercourse was very painful. In two other + groups of cases--one in which both ovaries and uterus were + removed and another in which the uterus alone was removed--the + results were not notably different. + + In Germany Gläveke (_Archiv für Gynäkologie_, Bd. xxxv, 1889) + found that desire remained in 6 cases, was diminished in 10, and + disappeared in 11, while pleasure in intercourse remained in 8, + was diminished in 10, and was lost in 8. Pfister, again (_Archiv + für Gynäkologie_, Bd. lvi, 1898), examined this point in 99 + castrated women; he remarks that sexual desire and sexual + pleasure in intercourse were usually associated, and found the + former unchanged in 19 cases, decreased in 24, lost in 35, never + present in 21, while the latter was unchanged in 18 cases and + diminished or lost in 60. Keppler (International Medical + Congress, Berlin, 1890) found that among 46 castrated women + sexual feeling was in no case abolished. Adler also, who + discusses this question (_Die Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung + des Weibes_, 1904, p. 75 et seq.), criticises Gläveke's + statements and concludes that there is no strict relation between + the sexual organs and the sexual feelings. Kisch, who has known + several cases in which the feelings remained the same as before + the operation, brings together (_The Sexual Life of Women_) + varying opinions of numerous authors regarding the effects of + removal of the ovaries on the sexual appetite. + + In America Bloom (as quoted in _Medical Standard_, 1896, p. 121) + found that in none of the cases of women investigated, in which + oöphorectomy had been performed before the age of 33, was the + sexual appetite entirely lost; in most of them it had not + materially diminished and in a few it was intensified. There + was, however, a general consensus of opinion that the normal + vaginal secretion during coitus was greatly lessened. In the + cases of women over 33, including also hysterectomies, a gradual + lessening of sexual feeling and desire was found to occur most + generally. Dr. Isabel Davenport records 2 cases (reported in + _Medical Standard_, 1895, p. 346) of women between 30 and 35 + years of age whose erotic tendencies were extreme; the ovaries + and tubes were removed, in one case for disease, in the other + with a view of removing the sexual tendencies; in neither case + was there any change. Lapthorn Smith (_Medical Record_, vol. + xlviii) has reported the case of an unmarried woman of 24 whose + ovaries and tubes had been removed seven years previously for + pain and enlargement, and the periods had disappeared for six + years; she had had experience of sexual intercourse, and declared + that she had never felt such extreme sexual excitement and + pleasure as during coitus at the end of this time. + + In England Lawson Tait and Bantock (_British Medical Journal_, + October 14, 1899, p. 975) have noted that sexual passion seems + sometimes to be increased even after the removal of ovaries, + tubes, and uterus. Lawson Tait also stated (_British + Gynæcological Journal_, Feb., 1887, p. 534) that after systematic + and extensive inquiry he had not found a single instance in + which, provided that sexual appetite existed before the removal + of the appendages, it was abolished by that operation. A Medical + Inquiry Committee appointed by the Liverpool Medical Institute + (ibid., p. 617) had previously reported that a considerable + number of patients stated that they had suffered a distinct loss + of sexual feeling. Lawson Tait, however, throws doubts on the + reliability of the Committee's results, which were based on the + statements of unintelligent hospital patients. + + I may quote the following remarks from a communication sent to me + by an experienced physician in Australia: "No rule can be laid + down in cases in which both ovaries have been extirpated. Some + women say that, though formerly passionate, they have since + become quite indifferent, but I am of opinion that the majority + of women who have had prior sexual experience retain desire and + gratification in an equal degree to that they had before + operation. I know one case in which a young girl hardly 19 years + old, who had been accustomed to congress for some twelve months, + had trouble which necessitated the removal of the ovaries and + tubes on both sides. Far from losing all her desire or + gratification, both were very materially increased in intensity. + Menstruation has entirely ceased, without loss of femininity in + either disposition or appearance. During intercourse, I am told, + there is continuous spasmodic contraction of various parts of the + vagina and vulva." + +The independence of the sexual impulse from the distention of the sexual +glands is further indicated by the great frequency with which sexual +sensations, in a faint or even strong degree, are experienced in childhood +and sometimes in infancy, and by the fact that they often persist in women +long after the sexual glands have ceased their functions. + + In the study of auto-erotism in another volume of these _Studies_ + I have brought together some of the evidence showing that even in + very young children spontaneous self-induced sexual excitement, + with orgasm, may occur. Indeed, from an early age sexual + differences pervade the whole nervous tissue. I may here quote + the remarks of an experienced gynecologist: "I venture to think," + Braxton Hicks said many years ago, "that those who have much + attended to children will agree with me in saying that, almost + from the cradle, a difference can be seen in manner, habits of + mind, and in illness, requiring variations in their treatment. + The change is certainly hastened and intensified at the time of + puberty; but there is, even to an average observer, a clear + difference between the sexes from early infancy, gradually + becoming more marked up to puberty. That sexual feelings exist + [it would be better to say 'may exist'] from earliest infancy is + well known, and therefore this function does not depend upon + puberty, though intensified by it. Hence, may we not conclude + that the progress toward development is not so abrupt as has been + generally supposed?... The changes of puberty are all of them + dependent on the primordial force which, gradually gathering in + power, culminates in the perfection both of form and of the + sexual system, primary and secondary." + + There appear to have been but few systematic observations on the + persistence of the sexual impulse in women after the menopause. + It is regarded as a fairly frequent phenomenon by Kisch, and also + by Löwenfeld (_Sexualleben und Nervenleiden_, p. 29). In America, + Bloom (as quoted in _Medical Standard_, 1896), from an + investigation of four hundred cases, found that in some cases the + sexual impulse persisted to a very advanced age, and mentions a + case of a woman of 70, twenty years past the menopause, who had + been long a widow, but had recently married, and who declared + that both desire and gratification were as great, if not greater, + than before the menopause. + +Reference may finally be made to those cases in which the sexual impulse +has developed notwithstanding the absence, verified or probable, of any +sexual glands at all. In such cases sexual desire and sexual gratification +are sometimes even stronger than normal. Colman has reported a case in +which neither ovaries nor uterus could be detected, and the vagina was too +small for coitus, but pleasurable intercourse took place by the rectum and +sexual desire was at times so strong as to amount almost to nymphomania. +Clara Barrus has reported the case of a woman in whom there was congenital +absence of uterus and ovaries, as proved subsequently by autopsy, but the +sexual impulse was very strong and she had had illicit intercourse with a +lover. She suffered from recurrent mania, and then masturbated +shamelessly; when sane she was attractively feminine. Macnaughton-Jones +describes the case of a woman of 32 with normal sexual feelings and fully +developed breasts, clitoris, and labia, but no vagina or internal +genitalia could be detected even under the most thorough examination. In a +case of Bridgman's, again, the womb and ovaries were absent, and the +vagina small, but coitus was not painful, and the voluptuous sensations +were complete and sexual passion was strong. In a case of Cotterill's, the +ovaries and uterus were of minute size and functionless, and the vagina +was absent, but the sexual feelings were normal, and the clitoris +preserved its usual sensibility. Mundé had recorded two similar cases, of +which he presents photographs. In all these cases not only was the sexual +impulse present in full degree, but the subjects were feminine in +disposition and of normal womanly conformation; in most cases the external +sexual organs were properly developed.[15] + + Féré (_L'Instinct sexuel_, p. 241) has sought to explain away + some of these phenomena, in so far as they may be brought against + the theory that the secretions and excretions of the sexual + glands are the sole source of the sexual impulse. The persistence + of sexual feelings after castration may be due, he argues, to the + presence of the nerves in the cicatrices, just as the amputated + have the illusion that the missing limb is still there. Exactly + the same explanation has since been put forward by Moll, + _Medizinische Klinik_, 1905, Nrs. 12 and 13. In the same way the + presence of sexual feelings after the menopause may be due to + similar irritation determined by degeneration during involution + of the glands. The precocious appearance of the sexual impulse in + childhood he would explain as due to an anomaly of development in + the sexual organs. Féré makes no attempt to explain the presence + of the sexual impulse in the congenital absence of the sexual + glands; here, however, Mundé intervenes with the suggestion that + it is possible that in most cases "an infinitesimal trace of + ovary" may exist, and preserve femininity, though insufficient to + produce ovulation or menstruation. + + It is proper to mention these ingenious arguments. They are, + however, purely hypothetical, obviously invented to support a + theory. It can scarcely be said that they carry conviction. We + may rather agree with Guinard that so great is the importance of + reproduction that nature has multiplied the means by which + preparation is made for the conjunction of the sexes and the + roads by which sexual excitation may arrive. As Hirschfeld puts + it, in a discussion of this subject (_Sexual-Probleme_, Feb., + 1912), "Nature has several irons in the fire." + + It will be seen that the conclusions we have reached indirectly + involve the assumption that the spinal nervous centers, through + which the sexual mechanism operates, are not sufficient to + account for the whole of the phenomena of the sexual impulse. The + nervous circuit tends to involve a cerebral element, which may + sometimes be of dominant importance. Various investigators, from + the time of Gall onward, have attempted to localize the sexual + instinct centrally. Such attempts, however, cannot be said to + have succeeded, although they tend to show that there is a real + connection between the brain and the generative organs. Thus + Ceni, of Modena, by experiments on chickens, claims to have + proved the influence of the cortical centers of procreation on + the faculty of generation, for he found that lesions of the + cortex led to sterility corresponding in degree to the lesion; + but as these results followed even independently of any + disturbance of the sexual instinct, their significance is not + altogether clear (Carlo Ceni, "L'Influenza dei Centri Corticali + sui Fenomeni della Generazione," _Revista Sperimentale di + Freniatria_, 1907, fasc. 2-3). At present, as Obici and + Marchesini have well remarked, all that we can do is to assume + the existence of cerebral as well as spinal sexual centers; a + cerebral sexual center, in the strictest sense, remains purely + hypothetical. + + Although Gall's attempt to locate the sexual instinct in the + cerebellum--well supported as it was by observations--is no + longer considered to be tenable, his discussion of the sexual + instinct was of great value, far in advance of his time, and + accompanied by a mass of facts gathered from many fields. He + maintained that the sexual instinct is a function of the brain, + not of the sexual organs. He combated the view ruling in his day + that the seat of erotic mania must be sought in the sexual + organs. He fully dealt with the development of the sexual + instinct in many children before maturity of the sexual glands, + the prolongation of the instinct into old age, its existence in + the castrated and in the congenital absence of the sexual glands; + he pointed out that even with an apparently sound and normal + sexual apparatus all sorts of psychic pathological deviations may + yet occur. In fact, all the lines of argument I have briefly + indicated in the foregoing pages--although when they were first + written this fact was unknown to me--had been fully discussed by + this remarkable man nearly a century ago. (The greater part of + the third volume of Gall's _Sur les Fonctions du Cerveau_, in the + edition of 1825, is devoted to this subject. For a good summary, + sympathetic, though critical, of Gall's views on this matter, see + Möbius, "Ueber Gall's Specielle Organologie," _Schmidt's + Jahrbücher der Medicin_, 1900, vol. cclxvii; also _Ausgewahlte + Werke_, vol. vii.) + +It will be seen that the question of the nature of the sexual impulse has +been slowly transformed. It is no longer a question of the formation of +semen in the male, of the function of menstruation in the female. It has +become largely a question of physiological chemistry. The chief parts in +the drama of sex, alike on its psychic as on its physical sides, are thus +supposed to be played by two mysterious protagonists, the hormones, or +internal secretions, of the testes and of the ovary. Even the part played +by the brain is now often regarded as chemical, the brain being considered +to be a great chemical laboratory. There is a tendency, moreover, to +extend the sexual sphere so as to admit the influence of internal +secretions from other glands. The thymus, the adrenals, the thyroid, the +pituitary, even the kidneys: it is possible that internal secretions from +all these glands may combine to fill in the complete picture of sexuality +as we know it in men and women.[16] The subject is, however, so complex +and at present so little known that it would be hazardous, and for the +present purpose it is needless, to attempt to set forth any conclusions. + +It is sufficiently clear that there is on the surface a striking analogy +between sexual desire and the impulse to evacuate an excretion, and that +this analogy is not only seen in the frog, but extends also to the highest +vertebrates. It is quite another matter, however, to assert that the +sexual impulse can be adequately defined as an impulse to evacuate. To +show fully the inadequate nature of this conception would require a +detailed consideration of the facts of sexual life. That is, however, +unnecessary. It is enough to point out certain considerations which alone +suffice to invalidate this view. In the first place, it must be remarked +that the trifling amount of fluid emitted in sexual intercourse is +altogether out of proportion to the emotions aroused by the act and to its +after-effect on the organism; the ancient dictum _omne animal post coitum +triste_ may not be exact, but it is certain that the effect of coitus on +the organism is far more profound than that produced by the far more +extensive evacuation of the bladder or bowels. Again, this definition +leaves unexplained all those elaborate preliminaries which, both in man +and the lower animals, precede the sexual act, preliminaries which in +civilized human beings sometimes themselves constitute a partial +satisfaction to the sexual impulse. It must also be observed that, unlike +the ordinary excretions, this discharge of the sexual glands is not +always, or in every person, necessary at all. Moreover, the theory of +evacuation at once becomes hopelessly inadequate when we apply it to +women; no one will venture to claim that an adequate psychological +explanation of the sexual impulse in a woman is to be found in the desire +to expel a little bland mucus from the minute glands of the genital tract. +We must undoubtedly reject this view of the sexual impulse. It has a +certain element of truth and it permits an instructive and helpful +analogy; but that is all. The sexual act presents many characters which +are absent in an ordinary act of evacuation, and, on the other hand, it +lacks the special characteristic of the evacuation proper, the +elimination of waste material; the seminal fluid is not a waste material, +and its retention is, to some extent perhaps, rather an advantage than a +disadvantage to the organism. + +Eduard von Hartmann long since remarked that the satisfaction of what we +call the sexual instinct through an act carried out with a person of the +opposite sex is a very wonderful phenomenon. It cannot be said, however, +that the conception of the sexual act as a simple process of evacuation +does anything to explain the wonder. We are, at most, in the same position +as regards the stilling of normal sexual desire as we should be as regards +the emptying of the bladder, supposing it were very difficult for either +sex to effect this satisfactorily without the aid of a portion of the body +of a person of the other sex acting as a catheter. In such a case our +thoughts and ideals would center around persons of opposite sex, and we +should court their attention and help precisely as we do now in the case +of our sexual needs. Some such relationship does actually exist in the +case of the suckling mother and her infant. The mother is indebted to the +child for the pleasurable relief of her distended breasts; and, while in +civilization more subtle pleasures and intelligent reflection render this +massive physical satisfaction comparatively unessential to the act of +suckling, in more primitive conditions and among animals the need of this +pleasurable physical satisfaction is a real bond between the mother and +her offspring. The analogy is indeed very close: the erectile nipple +corresponds to the erectile penis, the eager watery mouth of the infant to +the moist and throbbing vagina, the vitally albuminous milk to the vitally +albuminous semen.[17] The complete mutual satisfaction, physical and +psychic, of mother and child, in the transfer from one to the other of a +precious organized fluid, is the one true physiological analogy to the +relationship of a man and a woman at the climax of the sexual act. Even +this close analogy, however, fails to cover all the facts of the sexual +life. + +A very different view is presented to us in the definition of the sexual +instinct as a reproductive impulse, a desire for offspring. Hegar, +Eulenburg, Näcke, and Löwenfeld have accepted this as, at all events, a +partial definition.[18] No one, indeed, would argue that it is a complete +definition, although a few writers appear to have asserted that it is so +sometimes as regards the sexual impulse in women. There is, however, +considerable mental confusion in the attempt to set up such a definition. +If we define an instinct as an action adapted to an end which is not +present to consciousness, then it is quite true that the sexual instinct +is an instinct of reproduction. But we do not adequately define the sexual +instinct by merely stating its ultimate object. We might as well say that +the impulse by which young animals seize food is "an instinct of +nutrition." The object of reproduction certainly constitutes no part of +the sexual impulse whatever in any animal apart from man, and it reveals a +lack of the most elementary sense of biological continuity to assert that +in man so fundamental and involuntary a process can suddenly be +revolutionized. That the sexual impulse is very often associated with a +strong desire for offspring there can be no doubt, and in women the +longing for a child--that is to say, the longing to fulfill those +functions for which their bodies are constituted--may become so urgent and +imperative that we may regard it as scarcely less imperative than the +sexual impulse. But it is not the sexual impulse, though intimately +associated with it, and though it explains it. A reproductive instinct +might be found in parthenogenetic animals, but would be meaningless, +because useless, in organisms propagating by sexual union. A woman may not +want a lover, but may yet want a child. This merely means that her +maternal instincts have been aroused, while her sexual instincts are still +latent. A desire for reproduction, as soon as that desire becomes +instinctive, necessarily takes on the form of the sexual impulse, for +there is no other instinctive mechanism by which it can possibly express +itself. A "reproductive instinct," apart from the sexual instinct and +apart from the maternal instinct, cannot be admitted; it would be an +absurdity. Even in women in whom the maternal instincts are strong, it may +generally be observed that, although before a woman is in love, and also +during the later stages of her love, the conscious desire for a child may +be strong, during the time when sexual passion is at its highest the +thought of offspring, under normally happy conditions, tends to recede +into the background. Reproduction is the natural end and object of the +sexual instinct, but the statement that it is part of the contents of the +sexual impulse, or can in any way be used to define that impulse, must be +dismissed as altogether inacceptable. Indeed, although the term +"reproductive instinct" is frequently used, it is seldom used in a sense +that we need take seriously; it is vaguely employed as a euphemism by +those who wish to veil the facts of the sexual life; it is more precisely +employed mainly by those who are unconsciously dominated by a +superstitious repugnance to sex. + +I now turn to a very much more serious and elaborate attempt to define the +constitution of the sexual impulse, that of Moll. He finds that it is made +up of two separate components, each of which may be looked upon as an +uncontrollable impulse.[19] One of these is that by which the tension of +the sexual organs is spasmodically relieved; this he calls the _impulse of +detumescence_,[20] and he regards it as primary, resembling the impulse to +empty a full bladder. The other impulse is the "instinct to approach, +touch, and kiss another person, usually of the opposite sex"; this he +terms the _impulse of contrectation_, and he includes under this head not +only the tendency to general physical contact, but also the psychic +inclination to become generally interested in a person of the opposite +sex. Each of these primary impulses Moll regards as forming a constituent +of the sexual instinct in both men and women. It seems to me undoubtedly +true that these two impulses do correspond to the essential phenomena. The +awkward and unsatisfactory part of Moll's analysis is the relation of the +one to the other. It is true that he traces both impulses back to the +sexual glands, that of detumescence directly, that of contrectation +indirectly; but evidently he does not regard them as intimately related to +each other; he insists on the fact that they may exist apart from each +other, that they do not appear synchronously in youth: the contrectation +impulse he regards as secondary; it is, he states, an indirect result of +the sexual glands, "only to be understood by the developmental history of +these glands and the object which they subserve"; that is to say, that it +is connected with the rise of the sexual method of reproduction and the +desirability of the mingling of the two sexes in procreation, while the +impulse of detumescence arose before the sexual method of reproduction had +appeared; thus the contrectation impulse was propagated by natural +selection together with the sexual method of reproduction. The impulse of +contrectation is secondary, and Moll even regards it as a secondary sexual +character. + +While, therefore, this analysis seems to include all the phenomena and to +be worthy of very careful study as a serious and elaborate attempt to +present an adequate psychological definition of the sexual impulse, it +scarcely seems to me that we can accept it in precisely the form in which +Moll presents it. I believe, however, that by analyzing the process a +little more minutely we shall find that these two constituents of the +sexual impulse are really much more intimately associated than at the +first glance appears, and that we need by no means go back to the time +when the sexual method of reproduction arose to explain the significance +of the phenomena which Moll includes under the term contrectation. + +To discover the true significance of the phenomena in men it is necessary +to observe carefully the phenomena of love-making not only among men, but +among animals, in which the impulse of contrectation plays a very large +part, and involves an enormous expenditure of energy. Darwin was the first +to present a comprehensive view of, at all events a certain group of, the +phenomena of contrectation in animals; on his interpretation of those +phenomena he founded his famous theory of sexual selection. We are not +primarily concerned with that theory; but the facts on which Darwin based +his theory lie at the very roots of our subject, and we are bound to +consider their psychological significance. In the first place, since these +phenomena are specially associated with Darwin's name, it may not be out +of place to ask what Darwin himself considered to be their psychological +significance. It is a somewhat important question, even for those who are +mainly concerned with the validity of the theory which Darwin established +on those facts, but so far as I know it has not hitherto been asked. I +find that a careful perusal of the _Descent of Man_ reveals the presence +in Darwin's mind of two quite distinct theories, neither of them fully +developed, as to the psychological meaning of the facts he was collecting. +The two following groups of extracts will serve to show this very +conclusively: "The lower animals have a sense of beauty," he declares, +"powers of discrimination and taste on the part of the female" (p. +211[21]); "the females habitually or occasionally prefer the more +beautiful males," "there is little improbability in the females of insects +appreciating beauty in form or color" (p. 329); he speaks of birds as the +most "esthetic" of all animals excepting man, and adds that they have +"nearly the same taste for the beautiful as we have" (p. 359); he remarks +that a change of any kind in the structure or color of the male bird +"appears to have been admired by the female" (p. 385). He speaks of the +female Argus pheasant as possessing "this almost human degree of taste." +Birds, again, "seem to have some taste for the beautiful both in color and +sound," and "we ought not to feel too sure that the female does not attend +to each detail of beauty" (p. 421). Novelty, he says, is "admired by birds +for its own sake" (p. 495). "Birds have fine powers of discrimination and +in some few instances it can be shown that they have a taste for the +beautiful" (p. 496). The "esthetic capacity" of female animals has been +advanced by exercise just as our own taste has improved (p. 616). On the +other hand, we find running throughout the book quite another idea. Of +cicadas he tells us that it is probable that, "like female birds, they are +excited or allured by the male with the most attractive voice" (p. 282); +and, coming to _Locustidæ_, he states that "all observers agree that the +sounds serve either to call or excite the mute females" (p. 283). Of birds +he says, "I am led to believe that the females prefer or are most excited +by the more brilliant males" (p. 316). Among birds also the males +"endeavor to charm or excite their mates by love-notes," etc., and "the +females are excited by certain males, and thus unconsciously prefer them" +(p. 367), while ornaments of all kinds "apparently serve to excite, +attract, or fascinate the female" (p. 394). In a supplemental note, also, +written in 1876, five years after the first publication of the _Descent of +Man_, and therefore a late statement of his views, Darwin remarks that "no +supporter of the principle of sexual selection believes that the females +select particular points of beauty in the males; they are merely excited +or attracted in a greater degree by one male than by another, and this +seems often to depend, especially with birds, on brilliant coloring" (p. +623). Thus, on the one hand, Darwin interprets the phenomena as involving +a real esthetic element, a taste for the beautiful; on the other hand, he +states, without apparently any clear perception that the two views are +quite distinct, that the colors and sounds and other characteristics of +the male are not an appeal to any esthetic sense of the female, but an +appeal to her sexual emotions, a stimulus to sexual excitement, an +allurement to sexual contact. According to the first theory, the female +admires beauty, consciously or unconsciously, and selects the most +beautiful partner[22]; according to the second theory, there is no +esthetic question involved, but the female is unconsciously influenced by +the most powerful or complex organic stimulus to which she is subjected. +There can be no question that it is the second, and not the first, of +these two views which we are justified in accepting. Darwin, it must be +remembered, was not a psychologist, and he lived before the methods of +comparative psychology had begun to be developed; had he written twenty +years later we may be sure he would never have used so incautiously some +of the vague and hazardous expressions I have quoted. He certainly injured +his theory of sexual selection by stating it in too anthropomorphic +language, by insisting on "choice," "preference," "esthetic sense," etc. +There is no need whatever to burden any statement of the actual facts by +such terms borrowed from human psychology. The female responds to the +stimulation of the male at the right moment just as the tree responds to +the stimulation of the warmest days in spring. We should but obscure this +fact by stating that the tree "chooses" the most beautiful days on which +to put forth its young sprouts. In explaining the correlation between +responsive females and accomplished males the supposition of esthetic +choice is equally unnecessary. It is, however, interesting to observe +that, though Darwin failed to see that the love-combats, pursuits, dances, +and parades of the males served as a method of stimulating the impulse of +contrectation--or, as it would be better to term it, tumescence--in the +male himself,[23] he to some extent realized the part thus played in +exciting the equally necessary activity of tumescence in the female. + + The justification for using the term "tumescence," which I here + propose, is to be found in the fact that vascular congestion, + more especially of the parts related to generation, is an + essential preliminary to acute sexual desire. This is clearly + brought out in Heape's careful study of the "sexual season" in + mammals. Heape distinguishes between the "pro-estrum," or + preliminary period of congestion, in female animals and the + immediately following "estrus," or period of desire. The latter + period is the result of the former, and, among the lower animals + at all events, intercourse only takes place during the estrus, + not during the pro-estrum. Tumescence must thus be obtained + before desire can become acute, and courtship runs _pari passu_ + with physiological processes. "Normal estrus," Heape states, + "occurs in conjunction with certain changes in the uterine + tissue, and this is accompanied by congestion and stimulation or + irritation of the copulatory organs.... Congestion is invariably + present and is an essential condition.... The first sign of + pro-estrum noticed in the lower mammals is a swollen and + congested vulva and a general restlessness, excitement, or + uneasiness. There are other signs familiar to breeders of various + mammals, such as the congested conjunctiva of the rabbit's eye + and the drooping ears of the pig. Many monkeys exhibit congestion + of the face and nipples, as well as of the buttocks, thighs, and + neighboring parts; sometimes they are congested to a very marked + extent, and in some species a swelling, occasionally prodigious, + of the soft tissues round the anal and generative openings, which + is also at the time brilliantly congested, indicates the progress + of the pro-estrum.... The growth of the stroma-tissue [in the + uterus of monkeys during the pro-estrum] is rapidly followed by + an increase in the number and size of the vessels of the stroma; + the whole becomes richly supplied with blood, and the surface is + flushed and highly vascular. This process goes on until the whole + of the internal stroma becomes tense and brilliantly injected + with blood.... In all essential points the menstruation or + pro-estrum of the human female is identical with that of + monkeys.... Estrus is possible only after the changes due to + pro-estrum have taken place in the uterus. A wave of disturbance, + at first evident in the external generative organs, extends to + the uterus, and after the various phases of pro-estrum have been + gone through in that organ, and the excitement there is + subsiding, it would seem as if the external organs gain renewed + stimulus, and it is then that estrus takes place.... In all + animals which have been investigated coition is not allowed by + the female until some time after the swelling and congestion of + the vulva and surrounding tissue are first demonstrated, and in + those animals which suffer from a considerable discharge of blood + the main portion of that discharge, if not the whole of it, will + be evacuated before sexual intercourse is allowed." (W. Heape, + "The 'Sexual Season' of Mammals," _Quarterly Journal of + Microscopical Science_, vol. xliv, Part I, 1900. Estrus has since + been fully discussed in Marshall's _Physiology of Reproduction_.) + This description clearly brings out the fundamentally vascular + character of the process I have termed "tumescence"; it must be + added, however, that in man the nervous elements in the process + tend to become more conspicuous, and more or less obliterate + these primitive limitations of sexual desire. (See "Sexual + Periodicity" in the first volume of these _Studies_.) + + Moll subsequently restated his position with reference to my + somewhat different analysis of the sexual impulse, still + maintaining his original view ("Analyse des Geschlechtstriebes," + _Medizinische Klinik_, Nos. 12 and 13, 1905; also _Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, vol. ii, Nos. 9 and 10). Numa Praetorius + (_Jahrbuch für Sexeuelle Zwischenstufen_, 1904, p. 592) accepts + contrectation, tumescence, and detumescence as all being stages + in the same process, contrectation, which he defines as the + sexual craving for a definite individual, coming first. Robert + Müller (_Sexualbiologie_, 1907, p. 37) criticises Moll much in + the same sense as I have done and considers that contrectation + and detumescence cannot be separated, but are two expressions of + the same impulse; so also Max Katte, "Die Präliminarien des + Geschlechtsaktes," _Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft_, Oct., + 1908, and G. Saint-Paul, _L'Homosexualité et les Types + Homosexuels_, 1910, p. 390. + + While I regard Moll's analysis as a valuable contribution to the + elucidation of the sexual impulse, I must repeat that I cannot + regard it as final or completely adequate. As I understand the + process, contrectation is an incident in the development of + tumescence, an extremely important incident indeed, but not an + absolutely fundamental and primitive part of it. It is equally an + incident, highly important though not primitive and fundamental, + of detumescence. Contrectation, from first to last; furnishes + the best conditions for the exercise of the sexual process, but + it is not an absolutely essential part of the process and in the + early stages of zoölogical development it had no existence at + all. Tumescence and detumescence are alike fundamental, + primitive, and essential; in resting the sexual impulse on these + necessarily connected processes we are basing ourselves on the + solid bedrock of nature. + + Moreover, of the two processes, tumescence, which in time comes + first, is by far the most important, and nearly the whole of + sexual psychology is rooted in it. To assert, with Moll, that the + sexual process may be analyzed into contrectation and + detumescence alone is to omit the most essential part of the + process. It is much the same as to analyze the mechanism of a gun + into probable contact with the hand, and a more or less + independent discharge, omitting all reference to the loading of + the gun. The essential elements are the loading and the + discharging. Contrectation is a part of loading, though not a + necessary part, since the loading may be effected mechanically. + But to understand the process of firing a gun and to comprehend + the mechanism of the discharge, we must insist on the act of + loading and not merely on the contact of the hand. So it is in + analyzing the sexual impulse. Contrectation is indeed highly + important, but it is important only in so far as it aids + tumescence, and so may be subordinated to tumescence, exactly as + it may also be subordinated to detumescence. It is tumescence + which is the really essential part of the process, and we cannot + afford, with Moll, to ignore it altogether. + +Wallace opposed Darwin's theory of sexual selection, but it can scarcely +be said that his attitude toward it bears critical examination. On the one +hand, as has already been noted, he saw but one side of that theory and +that the unessential side, and, on the other hand, his own view really +coincided with the more essential elements in Darwin's theory. In his +_Tropical Nature_ he admitted that the male's "persistency and energy win +the day," and also that this "vigor and liveliness" of the male are +usually associated with intense coloration, while twenty years later (in +his _Darwinism_) he admitted also that it is highly probable that the +female is pleased or excited by the male's display. But all that is really +essential in Darwin's theory is involved, directly or indirectly, in these +admissions. + +Espinas, in 1878, in his suggestive book, _Des Sociétés Animales_, +described the odors, colors and forms, sounds, games, parades, and mock +battles of animals, approaching the subject in a somewhat more +psychological spirit than either Darwin or Wallace, and he somewhat more +clearly apprehended the object of these phenomena in producing mutual +excitement and stimulating tumescence. He noted the significance of the +action of the hermaphroditic snails in inserting their darts into each +other's flesh near the vulva in order to cause preliminary excitation. He +remarks of this whole group of phenomena: "It is the preliminary of sexual +union, it constitutes the first act of it. By it the image of the male is +graven on the consciousness of the female, and in a manner impregnates it, +so as to determine there, as the effects of this representation descend to +the depths of the organism, the physiological modifications necessary to +fecundation." Beaunis, again, in an analysis of the sexual sensations, was +inclined to think that the dances and parades of the male are solely +intended to excite the female, not perceiving, however, that they at the +same time serve to further excite the male also.[24] + +A better and more comprehensive statement was reached by Tillier, who, to +some extent, may be said to have anticipated Groos. Darwin, Tillier +pointed out, had not sufficiently taken into account the coexistence of +combat and courtship, nor the order of the phenomena. Courtship without +combat, Tillier argued, is rare; "there is a normal coexistence of combat +and courtship."[25] Moreover, he proceeded, force is the chief factor in +determining the possession of the female by the male, who in some species +is even prepared to exert force on her; so that the female has little +opportunity of sexual selection, though she is always present at these +combats. He then emphasized the significant fact that courtship takes +place long after pairing has ceased, and the question of selection thus +been eliminated. The object of courtship, he concluded, is not sexual +selection by the female, but the sexual excitement of both male and +female, such excitement, he asserted, not only rendering coupling easier, +but favoring fecundation. Modesty, also, Tillier further argued, again +anticipating Groos, works toward the same end; it renders the male more +ardent, and by retarding coupling may also increase the secretions of the +sexual glands and favor the chances of reproduction.[26] + + In a charming volume entitled _The Naturalist in La Plata_ (1892) + Mr. W.H. Hudson included a remarkable chapter on "Music and + Dancing in Nature." In this chapter he described many of the + dances, songs, and love-antics of birds, but regarded all such + phenomena as merely "periodical fits of gladness." While, + however, we may quite well agree with Mr. Hudson that conscious + sexual gratification on the part of the female is not the cause + of music and dancing performances in birds, nor of the brighter + colors and ornaments that distinguish the male, such an opinion + by no means excludes the conclusion that these phenomena are + primarily sexual and intimately connected with the process of + tumescence in both sexes. It is noteworthy that, according to + H.E. Howard ("On Sexual Selection in Birds," _Zoölogist_, Nov., + 1903), color is most developed just before pairing, rapidly + becoming less beautiful--even within a few hours--after this, and + the most beautiful male is most successful in getting paired. The + fact that, as Mr. Hudson himself points out, it is at the season + of love that these manifestations mainly, if not exclusively, + appear, and that it is the more brilliant and highly endowed + males which play the chief part in them, only serves to confirm + such a conclusion. To argue, with Mr. Hudson, that they cannot be + sexual because they sometimes occur before the arrival of the + females, is much the same as to argue that the antics of a + kitten with a feather or a reel have no relationship whatever to + mice. The birds that began earliest to practise their + accomplishments would probably have most chance of success when + the females arrived. Darwin himself said that nothing is commoner + than for animals to take pleasure in practising whatever instinct + they follow at other times for some real good. These + manifestations are primarily for the sake of producing sexual + tumescence, and could not well have been developed to the height + they have reached unless they were connected closely with + propagation. That they may incidentally serve to express + "gladness" one need not feel called upon to question. + + Another observer of birds, Mr. E. Selous, has made observations + which are of interest in this connection. He finds that all + bird-dances are not nuptial, but that some birds--the + stone-curlew (or great plover), for example--have different kinds + of dances. Among these birds he has made the observation, very + significant from our present point of view, that the nuptial + dances, taken part in by both of the pair, are immediately + followed by intercourse. In spring "all such runnings and + chasings are, at this time, but a part of the business of + pairing, and one divines at once that such attitudes are of a + sexual character.... Here we have a bird with distinct nuptial + (sexual) and social (non-sexual) forms of display or antics, and + the former as well as the latter are equally indulged in by both + sexes." (E. Selous, _Bird Watching_, pp. 15-20.) + + The same author (ibid., pp. 79, 94) argues that in the fights of + two males for one female--with violent emotion on one side and + interested curiosity on the other--the attitude of the former + "might gradually come to be a display made entirely for the + female, and of the latter a greater or less degree of pleasurable + excitement raised by it, with a choice in accordance." On this + view the interest of the female would first have been directed, + not to the plumage, but to the frenzied actions and antics of the + male. From these antics in undecorated birds would gradually + develop the interest in waving plumes and fluttering wings. Such + a dance might come to be of a quite formal and non-courting + nature. + + Last, we owe to Professor Häcker what may fairly be regarded, in + all main outlines, as an almost final statement of the matter. In + his _Gesang der Vögel_ (1900) he gives a very clear account of + the evolution of bird-song, which he regards as the most + essential element in all this group of manifestations, furnishing + the key also to the dancing and other antics. Originally the song + consists only of call-cries and recognition-notes. Under the + parallel influence of natural selection and sexual selection they + become at the pairing season reflexes of excitement and thus + develop into methods of producing excitement, in the male by the + muscular energy required, and in the female through the ear; + finally they become play, though here also it is probable that + use is not excluded. Thus, so far as the male bird is concerned, + bird-song possesses a primary prenuptial significance in + attracting the female, a secondary nuptial significance in + producing excitement (p. 48). He holds also that the + less-developed voices of the females aid in attaining the same + end (p. 51). Finally, bird-song possesses a tertiary extranuptial + significance (including exercise play, expression of gladness). + Häcker points out, at the same time, that the maintenance of some + degree of sexual excitement beyond pairing time may be of value + for the preservation of the species, in case of disturbance + during breeding and consequent necessity for commencing breeding + over again. + + Such a theory as this fairly coincides with the views brought + forward in the preceding pages,--views which are believed to be + in harmony with the general trend of thought today,--since it + emphasizes the importance of tumescence and all that favors + tumescence in the sexual process. The so-called esthetic element + in sexual selection is only indirectly of importance. The male's + beauty is really a symbol of his force. + + It will be seen that this attitude toward the facts of tumescence + among birds and other animals includes the recognition of dances, + songs, etc., as expressions of "gladness." As such they are + closely comparable to the art manifestations among human races. + Here, as Weismann in his _Gedanken über Musik_ has remarked, we + may regard the artistic faculty as a by-product: "This [musical] + faculty is, as it were, the mental hand with which we play on our + own emotional nature, a hand not shaped for this purpose, not due + to the necessity for the enjoyment of music, but owing its origin + to entirely different requirements." + +The psychological significance of these facts has been carefully studied +and admirably developed by Groos in his classic works on the play instinct +in animals and in men.[27] Going beyond Wallace, Groos denies _conscious_ +sexual selection, but, as he points out, this by no means involves the +denial of unconscious selection in the sense that "the female is most +easily won by the male who most strongly excites her sexual instincts." +Groos further quotes a pregnant generalization of Ziegler: "In all animals +a high degree of excitement of the nervous system is _necessary to +procreation_, and thus we find an excited prelude to procreation widely +spread."[28] Such a stage, indeed, as Groos points out, is usually +necessary before any markedly passionate discharge of motor energy, as may +be observed in angry dogs and the Homeric heroes. While, however, in other +motor explosions the prelude may be reduced to a minimum, in courtship it +is found in a highly marked degree. The primary object of courtship, Groos +insists, is to produce sexual excitement. + +It is true that Groos's main propositions were by no means novel. Thus, as +I have pointed out, he was at most points anticipated by Tillier. But +Groos developed the argument in so masterly a manner, and with so many +wide-ranging illustrations, that he has carried conviction where the mere +insight of others had passed unperceived. Since Darwin wrote the _Descent +of Man_ the chief step in the development of the theory of sexual +selection has been taken by Groos, who has at the same time made it clear +that sexual selection is largely a special case of natural selection.[29] +The conjunction of the sexes is seen to be an end only to be obtained with +much struggle; the difficulty of achieving sexual erethism in both sexes, +the difficulty of so stimulating such erethism in the female that her +instinctive coyness is overcome, these difficulties the best and most +vigorous males,[30] those most adapted in other respects to carry on the +race, may most easily overcome. In this connection we may note what Marro +has said in another connection, when attempting to answer the question why +it is that among savages courtship becomes so often a matter in which +persuasion takes the form of force. The explanation, he remarks, is yet +very simple. Force is the foundation of virility, and its psychic +manifestation is courage. In the struggle for life violence is the first +virtue. The modesty of women--in its primordial form consisting in +physical resistance, active or passive, to the assaults of the male--aided +selection by putting to the test man's most important quality, force. Thus +it is that when choosing among rivals for her favors a woman attributes +value to violence.[31] Marro thus independently confirms the result +reached by Groos. + +The debate which has for so many years been proceeding concerning the +validity of the theory of sexual selection may now be said to be brought +to an end. Those who supported Darwin and those who opposed him were, both +alike, in part right and in part wrong, and it is now possible to combine +the elements of truth on either side into a coherent whole. This is now +beginning to be widely recognized; Lloyd Morgan,[32] for instance, has +readjusted his position as regards the "pairing instinct" in the light of +Groos's contribution to the subject. "The hypothesis of sexual selection," +he concludes, "suggests that the accepted male is the one which adequately +evokes the pairing impulse.... Courtship may thus be regarded from the +physiological point of view as a means of producing the requisite amount +of pairing hunger; of stimulating the whole system and facilitating +general and special vascular changes; of creating that state of profound +and explosive irritability which has for its psychological concomitant or +antecedent an imperious and irresistible craving.... Courtship is thus +the strong and steady bending of the bow that the arrow may find its mark +in a biological end of the highest importance in the survival of a healthy +and vigorous race." + + Having thus viewed the matter broadly, we may consider in detail + a few examples of the process of tumescence among the lower + animals and man, for, as will be seen, the process in both is + identical. As regards animal courtship, the best treasury of + facts is Brehm's _Thierleben_, while Büchner's _Liebe und + Liebes-Leben in der Thierwelt_ is a useful summary; the admirable + discussion of bird-dancing and other forms of courtship in + Häcker's _Gesang der Vögel_, chapter iv, may also be consulted. + As regards man, Wallaschek's _Primitive Music_, chapter vii, + brings together much scattered material, and is all the more + valuable since the author rejects any form of sexual selection; + Hirn's _Origins of Art_, chapter xvii, is well worth reading, and + Finck's _Primitive Love and Love-stories_ contains a large amount + of miscellaneous information. I have preferred not to draw on any + of these easily accessible sources (except that in one or two + cases I have utilized references they supplied), but here simply + furnish illustrations met with in the course of my own reading. + + Even in the hermaphroditic slugs (_Limax maximus_) the process of + courtship is slow and elaborate. It has been described by James + Bladon ("The Loves of the Slug [_Limax cinereus_]," _Zoölogist_, + vol. xv, 1857, p. 6272). It begins toward midnight on sultry + summer nights, one slug slowly following another, resting its + mouth on what may be called the tail of the first, and following + its every movement. Finally they stop and begin crawling around + each other, emitting large quantities of mucus. When this has + constituted a mass of sufficient size and consistence they + suspend themselves from it by a cord of mucus from nine to + fifteen inches in length, continuing to turn round each other + till their bodies form a cone. Then the organs of generation are + protruded from their orifice near the mouth and, hanging down a + short distance, touch each other. They also then begin again the + same spiral motion, twisting around each other, like a two-strand + cord, assuming various and beautiful forms, sometimes like an + inverted agaric, or a foliated murex, or a leaf of curled + parsley, the light falling on the ever-varying surface of the + generative organs sometimes producing iridescence. It is not + until after a considerable time that the organs untwist and are + withdrawn and the bodies separate, to crawl up the suspending + cord and depart. + + Some snails have a special organ for creating sexual excitement. + A remarkable part of the reproductive system in many of the true + Helicidæ is the so-called _dart, Liebespfeil_, or _telum + Veneris_. It consists of a straight or curved, sometimes + slightly twisted, tubular shaft of carbonate of lime, tapering to + a fine point above, and enlarging gradually, more often somewhat + abruptly, to the base. The sides of the shaft are sometimes + furnished with two or more blades; these are apparently not for + cutting purposes, but simply to brace the stem. The dart is + contained in a dart-sac, which is attached as a sort of pocket to + the vagina, at no great distance from its orifice. In _Helix + aspersa_ the dart is about five-sixteenths of an inch in length, + and one-eighth of an inch in breadth at its base. It appears most + probable that the dart is employed as an adjunct for the sexual + act. Besides the fact of the position of the dart-sac + anatomically, we find that the darts are extended and become + imbedded in the flesh, just before or during the act of + copulation. It may be regarded, then, as an organ whose functions + induce excitement preparatory to sexual union. It only occurs in + well-grown specimens. (Rev. L.H. Cooke, "Molluscs," _Cambridge + Natural History_, vol. iii, p. 143.) + + Racovitza has shown that in the octopus (_Octopus vulgaris_) + courtship is carried on with considerable delicacy, and not + brutally, as had previously been supposed. The male gently + stretches out his third arm on the right and caresses the female + with its extremity, eventually passing it into the chamber formed + by the mantle. The female contracts spasmodically, but does not + attempt to move. They remain thus about an hour or more, and + during this time the male shifts the arm from one oviduct to the + other. Finally he withdraws his arm, caresses her with it for a + few moments, and then replaces it with his other arm. (E.G. + Racovitza, in _Archives de Zoölogie Expérimentale_, quoted in + _Natural Science_, November, 1894.) + + The phenomena of courtship are very well illustrated by spiders. + Peckham, who has carefully studied them, tells us of _Saitis + pulex_: "On May 24th we found a mature female, and placed her in + one of the larger boxes, and the next day we put a male in with + her. He saw her as she stood perfectly still, twelve inches away; + the glance seemed to excite him, and he at once moved toward her; + when some four inches from her he stood still, and then began the + most remarkable performances that an amorous male could offer to + an admiring female. She eyed him eagerly, changing her position + from time to time so that he might be always in view. He, raising + his whole body on one side by straightening out the legs, and + lowering it on the other by folding the first two pairs of legs + up and under, leaned so far over as to be in danger of losing his + balance, which he only maintained by sliding rapidly toward the + lowered side. The palpus, too, on this side was turned back to + correspond to the direction of the legs nearest it. He moved in a + semicircle for about two inches, and then instantly reversed the + position of the legs and circled in the opposite direction, + gradually approaching nearer and nearer to the female. Now she + dashes toward him, while he, raising his first pair of legs, + extends them upward and forward as if to hold her off, but withal + slowly retreats. Again and again he circles from side to side, + she gazing toward him in a softer mood, evidently admiring the + grace of his antics. This is repeated until we have counted one + hundred and eleven circles made by the ardent little male. Now he + approaches nearer and nearer, and when almost within reach whirls + madly around and around her, she joining and whirling with him in + a giddy maze. Again he falls back and resumes his semicircular + motions, with his body tilted over; she, all excitement, lowers + her head and raises her body so that it is almost vertical; both + draw nearer; she moves slowly under him, he crawling over her + head, and the mating is accomplished." + + The same author thus describes the courtship of _Dendryphantes + elegans_: "While from three to five inches distant from her, he + begins to wave his plumy first legs in a way that reminds one of + a windmill. She eyes him fiercely, and he keeps at a proper + distance for a long time. If he comes close she dashes at him, + and he quickly retreats. Sometimes he becomes bolder, and when + within an inch, pauses, with the first legs outstretched before + him, not raised as is common in other species; the palpi also are + held stiffly out in front with the points together. Again she + drives him off, and so the play continues. Now the male grows + excited as he approaches her, and while still several inches + away, whirls completely around and around; pausing, he runs + closer and begins to make his abdomen quiver as he stands on + tiptoe in front of her. Prancing from side to side, he grows + bolder and bolder, while she seems less fierce, and yielding to + the excitement, lifts up her magnificently iridescent abdomen, + holding it at one time vertical, and at another sideways to him. + She no longer rushes at him, but retreats a little as he + approaches. At last he comes close to her, lying flat, with his + first legs stretched out and quivering. With the tips of his + front legs he gently pats her; this seems to arouse the old demon + of resistance, and she drives him back. Again and again he pats + her with a caressing movement, gradually creeping nearer and + nearer, which she now permits without resistance, until he crawls + over her head to her abdomen, far enough to reach the epigynum + with his palpus." (G.W. Peckham, "Sexual Selection of Spiders," + _Occasional Papers of the Natural History Society of Wisconsin_, + 1889, quoted in _Nature_, August 21, 1890.) + + The courtship of another spider, the _Agelena labyrinthica_, has + been studied by Lécaillon ("Les Instincts et les Psychismes des + Araignées," _Revue Scientifique_, Sept. 15, 1906.) The male + enters the female's web and may be found there about the middle + of July. When courtship has begun it is not interrupted by the + closest observation, even under the magnifying glass. At first it + is the male which seeks to couple and he pursues the female over + her web till she consents. The pursuit may last some hours, the + male agitating his abdomen in a peculiar way, while the female + simply retreats a short distance without allowing herself to be + approached. At last the female holds herself completely + motionless, and then the male approaches, seizes her, places her + on her side, sometimes carrying her to a more suitable part of + the web. Then one of his copulative apparatus is applied to the + female genital opening, and copulation begins. When completed (on + an average in about two hours) the male withdraws his copulatory + palpus and turns over the female, who is still inert, on to her + other side, then brings his second copulatory apparatus to the + female opening and starts afresh. When the process is definitely + completed the male leaves the female, suddenly retiring to a + little distance. The female, who had remained completely + motionless for four hours, suddenly runs after the male. But she + only pursues him for a short distance, and the two spiders remain + together without any danger to either. Lécaillon disbelieves the + statement of Romanes (in his _Animal Intelligence_) that the + female eats the male after copulation. But this certainly seems + to occur sometimes among insects, as illustrated by the following + instance described by so careful an observer of insects as Fabre. + + The _Mantis religiosa_ is described by Fabre as contemplating the + female for a long time in an attitude of ecstasy. She remains + still and seems indifferent. He is small and she is large. At + last he approaches; spreads his wings, which tremble + convulsively; leaps on her back, and fixes himself there. The + preludes are long and the coupling itself sometimes occupies five + or six hours. Then they separate. But the same day or the + following day she seizes him and eats him up in small mouthfuls. + She will permit a whole series of males to have intercourse with + her, always eating them up directly afterward. Fabre has even + seen her eating the male while still on her back, his head and + neck gone, but his body still firmly attached. (J.H. Fabre, + _Souvenirs Entomologiques_, fifth series, p. 307.) Fabre also + describes in great detail (ibid., ninth series, chs. xxi-xxii) + the sexual parades of the Languedoc scorpion (_Scorpio + occitanus_), an arachnid. These parades are in public; for their + subsequent intercourse the couple seek complete seclusion, and + the female finally eats the male. + + An insect (a species of _Empis_) has been described which excites + the female by manipulating a large balloon. "This is of + elliptical shape, about seven millimeters long (nearly twice as + long as the fly), hollow, and composed entirely of a single layer + of minute bubbles, nearly uniform in size, arranged in regular + circles concentric with the axis of the structure. The + beautiful, glistening whiteness of the object when the sun shines + upon it makes it very conspicuous. The bubbles were slightly + viscid, and in nearly every case there was a small fly pressed + into the front end of the balloon, apparently as food for the + _Empis_. In all cases they were dead. The balloon appears to be + made while the insect is flying in the air. Those flying highest + had the smallest balloons. The bubbles are probably produced by + some modification of the anal organs. It is possible that the + captured fly serves as a nucleus to begin the balloon on. One + case of a captured fly but no balloon was observed. After + commencing, it is probable that the rest of the structure is made + by revolving the completed part between the hind legs and adding + more bubbles somewhat spirally. The posterior end of the balloon + is left more or less open. The purpose of this structure is to + attract the female. When numerous males were flying up and down + the road, it happened several times that a female was seen to + approach them from some choke-cherry blossoms near by. The males + immediately gathered in her path, and she with little hesitation + selected for a mate the one with the largest balloon, taking a + position _upon his back_. After copulation had begun, the pair + would settle down toward the ground, select a quiet spot, and the + female would alight by placing her front legs across a horizontal + grass blade, her head resting against the blade so as to brace + the body in position. Here she would continue to hold the male + beneath her for a little time, until the process was finished. + The male, meanwhile, would be rolling the balloon about in a + variety of positions, juggling with it, one might almost say. + After the male and female parted company, the male immediately + dropped the balloon upon the ground, and it was greedily seized + by ants. No illustration could properly show the beauty of the + balloon." (Aldrich and Turley, "A Balloon-making Fly," _American + Naturalist_, October, 1899.) + + "In many species of moths the males 'assemble' around the freshly + emerged female, but no special advantage appears to attend on + early arrival. The female sits apparently motionless, while the + little crowd of suitors buzz around her for several minutes. + Suddenly, and, as far as one can see, without any sign from the + female, one of the males pairs with her and all the others + immediately disappear. In these cases the males do not fight or + struggle in any way, and as one watches the ceremony the wonder + arises as to how the moment is determined, and why the pairing + did not take place before. Proximity does not decide the point, + for long beforehand the males often alight close to the female + and brush against her with fluttering wings. I have watched the + process exactly as I have described it in a common Northern + _Noctua_, the antler moth (_Charæax graminis_), and I have seen + the same thing among beetles." (E.B. Poulton, _The Colors of + Animals_, 1890, p. 391.) This author mentions that among some + butterflies the females take the active part. The example here + quoted of courtship among moths illustrates how phenomena which + are with difficulty explicable by the theory of sexual selection + in its original form become at once intelligible when we realize + the importance of tumescence in courtship. + + Of the Argentine cow-bird (_Molothrus bonariensis_) Hudson says + (_Argentine Ornithology_, vol. i, p. 73): "The song of the male, + particularly when making love, is accompanied with gestures and + actions somewhat like those of the domestic pigeon. He swells + himself out, beating the ground with his wings, and uttering a + series of deep internal notes, followed by others loud and clear; + and occasionally, when uttering them, he suddenly takes wing and + flies directly away from the female to a distance of fifty yards, + and performs a wide circuit about her in the air, singing all the + time. The homely object of his passion always appears utterly + indifferent to this curious and pretty performance; yet she must + be even more impressionable than most female birds, since she + continues scattering about her parasitical and often wasted eggs + during four months in every year." + + Of a tyrant-bird (_Pitangus Bolivianus_) Hudson writes + (_Argentine Ornithology_, vol. i, p. 148): "Though the male and + female are greatly attached, they do not go afield to hunt in + company, but separate to meet again at intervals during the day. + One of a couple (say, the female) returns to the trees where they + are accustomed to meet, and after a time, becoming impatient or + anxious at the delay of her consort, utters a very long, clear + call-note. He is perhaps a quarter of a mile away, watching for a + frog beside a pool, or beating over a thistle-bed, but he hears + the note and presently responds with one of equal power. Then, + perhaps, for half an hour, at intervals of half a minute, the + birds answer each other, though the powerful call of the one must + interfere with his hunting. At length he returns; then the two + birds, perched close together, with their yellow bosoms almost + touching, crests elevated, and beating the branch with their + wings, scream their loudest notes in concert--a confused jubilant + noise that rings through the whole plantation. Their joy at + meeting is patent, and their action corresponds to the warm + embrace of a loving human couple." + + Of the red-breasted marsh-bird (_Leistes superciliaris_) Hudson + (_Argentine Ornithology_, vol. i, p. 100) writes: "These birds + are migratory, and appear everywhere in the eastern part of the + Argentine country early in October, arriving singly, after which + each male takes up a position in a field or open space abounding + with coarse grass and herbage, where he spends most of his time + perched on the summit of a tall stalk or weed, his glowing + crimson bosom showing at a distance like some splendid flower + above the herbage. At intervals of two or three minutes he soars + vertically up to a height of twenty or twenty-five yards to utter + his song, composed of a single long, powerful and rather musical + note, ending with an attempt at a flourish, during which the bird + flutters and turns about in the air; then, as if discouraged at + his failure, he drops down, emitting harsh, guttural chirps, to + resume his stand. Meanwhile the female is invisible, keeping + closely concealed under the long grass. But at length, attracted + perhaps by the bright bosom and aërial music of the male, she + occasionally exhibits herself for a few moments, starting up with + a wild zigzag flight, and, darting this way and that, presently + drops into the grass once more. The moment she appears above the + grass the male gives chase, and they vanish from sight together." + + "Courtship with the mallard," says J.G. Millais (_Natural History + of British Ducks_, p. 6), "appears to be carried on by both + sexes, though generally three or four drakes are seen showing + themselves off to attract the attention of a single duck. + Swimming round her, in a coy and semi-self-conscious manner, they + now and again all stop quite still, nod, bow, and throw their + necks out in token of their admiration and their desire of a + favorable response. But the most interesting display is when all + the drakes simultaneously stand up in the water and rapidly pass + their bills down their breasts, uttering at the same time a low + single note somewhat like the first half of the call that teal + and pintail make when 'showing off.' At other times the + love-making of the drake seems to be rather passive than active. + While graciously allowing himself to be courted, he holds his + head high with conscious pride, and accepts as a matter of course + any attention that may be paid to him. A proud bird is he when + three or four ducks come swimming along beside and around him, + uttering a curious guttural note, and at the same time dipping + their bills in quick succession to right and left. He knows what + that means, and carries himself with even greater dignity than + before. In the end, however, he must give in. As a last appeal, + one of his lady lovers may coyly lower herself in the water till + only the top of her back, head, and neck is seen, and so + fascinating an advance as this no drake of any sensibility can + withstand." + + The courting of the Argus pheasant, noted for the extreme beauty + of the male's plumage, was observed by H.O. Forbes in Sumatra. It + is the habit of this bird to make "a large circus, some ten or + twelve feet in diameter, in the forest, which it clears of every + leaf and twig and branch, till the ground is perfectly swept and + garnished. On the margin of this circus there is invariably a + projecting branch or high-arched root, at a few feet elevation + above the ground, on which the female bird takes its place, while + in the ring the male--the male birds alone possess great + decoration--shows off all its magnificence for the gratification + and pleasure of his consort and to exalt himself in her eyes." + (H.O. Forbes, _A. Naturalist's Wanderings_, 1885, p. 131.) + + "All ostriches, adults as well as chicks, have a strange habit + known as 'waltzing.' After running for a few hundred yards they + will also stop, and, with raised wings, spin around rapidly for + some time after until quite giddy, when a broken leg occasionally + occurs.... Vicious cocks 'roll' when challenging to fight or when + wooing the hen. The cock will suddenly bump down on to his knees + (the ankle-joint), open his wings, and then swing them + alternately backward and forward, as if on a pivot.... While + rolling, every feather over the whole body is on end, and the + plumes are open, like a large white fan. At such a time the bird + sees very imperfectly, if at all; in fact, he seems so + preoccupied that, if pursued, one may often approach unnoticed. + Just before rolling, a cock, especially if courting the hen, will + often run slowly and daintily on the points of his toes, with + neck slightly inflated, upright, and rigid, the tail + half-drooped, and all his body-feathers fluffed up; the wings + raised and expanded, the inside edges touching the sides of the + neck for nearly the whole of its length, and the plumes showing + separately, like an open fan. In no other attitude is the + splendid beauty of his plumage displayed to such advantage." + (S.C. Cronwright Schreiner, "The Ostrich," _Zoölogist_, March, + 1897.) + + As may be seen from the foregoing fairly typical examples, the + phenomena of courtship are highly developed, and have been most + carefully studied, in animals outside the mammal series. It may + seem a long leap from birds to man; yet, as will be seen, the + phenomena among primitive human peoples, if not, indeed, among + many civilized peoples also, closely resemble those found among + birds, though, unfortunately, they have not usually been so + carefully studied. + + In Australia, where dancing is carried to a high pitch of + elaboration, its association with the sexual impulse is close and + unmistakable. Thus, Mr. Samuel Gason (of whom it has been said + that "no man living has been more among blacks or knows more of + their ways") remarks concerning a dance of the Dieyerie tribe: + "This dance men and women only take part in, in regular form and + position, keeping splendid time to the rattle of the beat of two + boomerangs; some of the women keep time by clapping their hands + between their thighs; promiscuous sexual intercourse follows + after the dance; jealousy is forbidden." Again, at the Mobierrie, + or rat-harvest, "many weeks' preparation before the dance comes + off; no quarreling is allowed; promiscuous sexual intercourse + during the ceremony." The fact that jealousy is forbidden at + these festivals clearly indicates that sexual intercourse is a + recognized and probably essential element in the ceremonies. This + is further emphasized by the fact that at other festivals open + sexual intercourse is not allowed. Thus, at the Mindarie, or + dance at a peace festival (when a number of tribes comes + together), "there is great rejoicing at the coming festival, + which is generally held at the full of the moon, and kept up all + night. The men are artistically decorated with down and feathers, + with all kinds of designs. The down and feathers are stuck on + their bodies with blood freshly taken from their penis; they are + also nicely painted with various colors; tufts of boughs are tied + on their ankles to make a noise while dancing. Promiscuous sexual + intercourse is carried on _secretly_; many quarrels occur at this + time." (_Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, vol. xxiv, + November, 1894, p. 174.) + + In Australian dances, sometimes men and women dance together, + sometimes the men dance alone, sometimes the women. In one dance + described by Eyre: "Women are the chief performers; their bodies + are painted with white streaks, and their hair adorned with + cockatoo feathers. They carry large sticks in their hands, and + place themselves in a row in front, while the men with their + spears stand in a row behind them. They then all commence their + movements, but without intermingling, the males and females + dancing by themselves. The women have occasionally another mode + of dancing, by joining the hands together over the head, closing + the feet, and bringing the knees into contact. The legs are then + thrown outward from the knee, while the feet and hands are kept + in their original position, and, being drawn quickly in again, a + sharp sound is produced by the collision. This is also practised + alone by young girls or by several together for their own + amusement. It is adopted also when a single woman is placed in + front of a row of male dancers to excite their passions." (E.J. + Eyre, _Journals of Expeditions into Central Australia_, vol. ii, + p. 235.) + + A charming Australian folk-tale concerning two sisters with + wings, who disliked men, and their wooing by a man, clearly + indicates, even among the Australians (whose love-making is + commonly supposed to be somewhat brutal in character), the + consciousness that it is by his beauty, charm, and skill in + courtship that a man wins a woman. Unahanach, the lover, stole + unperceived to the river where the girls were bathing and at last + showed himself carelessly sitting on a high tree. The girls were + startled, but thought it would be safe to amuse themselves by + looking at the intruder. "Young and with the most active figure, + yet of a strength that defied the strongest emu, and even enabled + him to resist an 'old man' kangaroo, he had no equal in the + chase, and conscious power gave a dignity to his expression that + at one glance calmed the fears of the two girls. His large + brilliant eyes, shaded by a deep fringe of soft black eyelashes, + gazed down upon them admiringly, and his rich black hair hung + around his well-formed face, smooth and shining from the emu-oil + with which it was abundantly covered." At last he persuaded them + to talk and by and by induced them to call him husband. Then they + went off with him, with no thought of flight in their hearts. + ("Australian Folklore Stories," collected by W. Dunlop, _Journal + of the Anthropological Institute_, new series, vol. i, 1898, p. + 33.) + + Of the people of Torres Straits Haddon states (_Reports + Anthropological Expedition to Torres Straits_, vol. v, p. 222): + "It was during the secular dance, or _Kap_, that the girls + usually lost their hearts to the young men. A young man who was a + good dancer would find favor in the sight of the girls. This can + be readily understood by anyone who has seen the active, skilful, + and fatiguing dances of these people. A young man who could + acquit himself well in these dances must be possessed of no mean + strength and agility, qualities which everywhere appeal to the + opposite sex. Further, he was decorated, according to local + custom, with all that would render him more imposing in the eyes + of the spectators. As the former chief of Mabuiag put it, 'In + England if a man has plenty of money, women want to marry him; so + here, if a man dances well they too want him.' In olden days the + war-dance, which was performed after a successful foray, would be + the most powerful excitement to a marriageable girl, especially + if a young man had distinguished himself sufficiently to bring + home the head of someone he had killed." + + Among the tribes inhabiting the mouth of the Wanigela River, New + Guinea, "when a boy admires a girl, he will not look at her, + speak to her, or go near her. He, however, shows his love by + athletic bounds, posing, and pursuit, and by the spearing of + imaginary enemies, etc., before her, to attract her attention. If + the girl reciprocates his love she will employ a small girl to + give to him an _ugauga gauna_, or love invitation, consisting of + an areca-nut whose skin has been marked with different designs, + significant of her wish to _ugauga_. After dark he is apprised of + the place where the girl awaits him; repairing thither, he seats + himself beside her as close as possible, and they mutually share + in the consumption of the betel-nut." This constitutes betrothal; + henceforth he is free to visit the girl's house and sleep there. + Marriages usually take place at the most important festival of + the year, the _kapa_, preparations for which are made during the + three previous months, so that there may be a bountiful and + unfailing supply of bananas. Much dancing takes place among the + unmarried girls, who, also, are tattooed at this time over the + whole of the front of the body, special attention being paid to + the lower parts, as a girl who is not properly tattooed there + possesses no attraction in the eyes of young men. Married women + and widows and divorced women are not forbidden to take part in + these dances, but it would be considered ridiculous for them to + do so. (R.E. Guise, "On the Tribes of the Wanigela River," + _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, new series, vol. i, + 1899, pp. 209, 214 et seq.) + + In the island of Nias in the Malay Archipelago, Modigliani + (mainly on the excellent authority of Sundermann, the missionary) + states, at a wedding "dancing and singing go on throughout the + day. The women, two or three at a time, a little apart from the + men, take part in the dancing, which is very well adapted to + emphasize the curves of the flanks and the breasts, though at the + same time the defects of their legs are exhibited in this series + of rhythmic contortions which constitute a Nias dance. The most + graceful movement they execute is a lascivious undulation of the + flanks while the face and breast are slowly wound round by the + _sarong_ [a sort of skirt] held in the hands, and then again + revealed. These movements are executed with jerks of the wrist + and contortions of the flanks, not always graceful, but which + excite the admiration of the spectators, even of the women, who + form in groups to sing in chorus a compliment, more or less + sincere, in which they say: 'They dance with the grace of birds + when they fly. They dance as the hawk flies; it is lovely to + see.' They sing and dance both at weddings and at other + festivals." (Elio Modigliani, _Un Viaggio a Nias_, 1890, p. 549.) + + In Sumatra Marsden states that chastity prevails more, perhaps, + than among any other people: "But little apparent courtship + precedes their marriages. Their manners do not admit of it, the + _boojong_ and _geddas_ (youths of each sex) being carefully kept + asunder and the latter seldom trusted from under the wings of + their mothers.... The opportunities which the young people have + of seeing and conversing with each other are at the _birnbangs_, + or public festivals. On these occasions the young people meet + together and dance and sing in company. The men, when determined + in their regard, generally employ an old woman as their agent, by + whom they make known their sentiments, and send presents to the + female of their choice. The parents then interfere, and the + preliminaries being settled, a _birnbang_ takes place. The young + women proceed in a body to the upper end of the _balli_ (hall), + where there is a part divided off for them by a curtain. They do + not always make their appearance before dinner, that time, + previous to a second or third meal, being appropriated to + cock-fighting or other diversions peculiar to men. In the evening + their other amusements take place, of which the dances are the + principal. These are performed either singly or by two women, two + men, or with both mixed. Their motions and attitudes are usually + slow, approaching often to the lascivious. They bend forward as + they dance, and usually carry a fan, which they close and strike + smartly against their elbows at particular cadences.... The + assembly seldom breaks up before daylight and these _birnbangs_ + are often continued for several days together. The young men + frequent them in order to look out for wives, and the lasses of + course set themselves off to the best advantage. They wear their + best silken dresses, of their own weaving, as many ornaments of + filigree as they possess, silver rings upon their arms and legs, + and ear-rings of a particular construction. Their hair is + variously adorned with flowers, and perfumed with oil of + benjamin. Civet is also in repute, but more used by the men. To + render their skin fine, smooth, and soft they make use of a white + cosmetic called _poopoor_ [a mixture of ginger, patch-leaf, + maize, sandal-wood, fairy-cotton, and mush-seed with a basis of + fine rice]." (W. Marsden, _History of Sumatra_, 1783, p. 230.) + + The Alfurus of Seram in the Moluccas, who have not yet been + spoilt by foreign influences, are very fond of music and dancing. + Their _maku_ dances, which take place at night, have been + described by Joest: "Great torches of dry bamboos and piles of + burning resinous leaves light up the giant trees to their very + summits and reveal in the distance the little huts which the + Alfuras have built in the virgin forests, as well as the skulls + of the slain. The women squat together by the fire, making a + deafening noise with the gongs and the drums, while the young + girls, richly adorned with pearls and fragrant flowers, await the + beginning of the dance. Then appear the men and youths without + weapons, but in full war-costume, the girdle freshly marked with + the number of slain enemies. [Among the Alfuras it is the man who + has the largest number of heads to show who has most chance of + winning the object of his love.] They hold each other's arms and + form a circle, which is not, however, completely closed. A song + is started, and with small, slow steps this ring of bodies, like + a winding snake, moves sideways, backward, closes, opens again, + the steps become heavier, the songs and drums louder, the girls + enter the circle and with closed eyes grasp the girdle of their + chosen youths, who clasp them by the hips and necks, the chain + becomes longer and longer, the dance and song more ardent, until + the dancers grow tired and disappear in the gloom of the forest." + (W. Joest, _Welt-Fahrten_, 1895, Bd. ii, p. 159.) + + The women of the New Hebrides dance, or rather sway, to and fro + in the midst of a circle formed by the men, with whom they do not + directly mingle. They leap, show their genital parts to the men, + and imitate the movements of coitus. Meanwhile the men unfasten + the _manou_ (penis-wrap) from their girdles with one hand, with + the other imitating the action of seizing a woman, and, excited + by the women, also go through a mock copulation. Sometimes, it is + said, the dancers masturbate. This takes place amid plaintive + songs, interrupted from time to time by loud cries and howls. + (_Untrodden Fields of Anthropology_, by a French army-surgeon, + 1898, vol. ii, p. 341.) + + Among the hill tribes of the Central Indian Hills may be traced a + desire to secure communion with the spirit of fertility embodied + in vegetation. This appears, for instance, in a tree-dance, which + is carried out on a date associated not only with the growths of + the crops or with harvest, but also with the seasonal period for + marriage and the annual Saturnalia. (W. Crooke, "The Hill + Tribes," _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, new series, + vol. i, 1899, p. 243.) The association of dancing with seasonal + ritual festivals of a generative character--of which the above is + a fairly typical instance--leads us to another aspect of these + phenomena on which I have elsewhere touched in these _Studies_ + (vol. i) when discussing the "Phenomena of Periodicity." + + The Tahitians, when first discovered by Europeans, appear to have + been highly civilized on the sexual side and very licentious. Yet + even at Tahiti, when visited by Cook, the strict primitive + relationship between dancing and courtship still remained + traceable. Cook found "a dance called Timorodee, which is + performed by young girls, whenever eight or ten of them can be + collected together, consisting of motions and gestures beyond + imagination wanton, in the practice of which they are brought up + from their earliest childhood, accompanied by words which, if it + were possible, would more explicitly convey the same ideas. But + the practice which is allowed to the virgin is prohibited to the + woman from the moment that she has put these hopeful lessons in + practice and realized the symbols of the dance." He added, + however, that among the specially privileged class of the Areoi + these limitations were not observed, for he had heard that this + dance was sometimes performed by them as a preliminary to sexual + intercourse. (Hawkesworth, _An Account of the Voyages_, etc., + 1775, vol. ii, p. 54.) + + Among the Marquesans at the marriage of a woman, even of high + rank, she lies with her head at the bridegroom's knees and all + the male guests come in single file, singing and dancing--those + of lower class first and the great chiefs last--and have + connection with the woman. There are often a very large number of + guests and the bride is sometimes so exhausted at the end that + she has to spend several days in bed. (Tautain, "Etude sur le + Mariage chez les Polynésiens," _L'Anthropologie_, + November-December, 1895, p. 642.) The interesting point for us + here is that singing and dancing are still regarded as a + preliminary to a sexual act. It has been noted that in sexual + matters the Polynesians, when first discovered by Europeans, had + largely gone beyond the primitive stage, and that this applies + also to some of their dances. Thus the _hula-hula_ dance, while + primitive in origin, may probably be compared more to a civilized + than to a primitive dance, since it has become divorced from real + life. In the same way, while the sexual pantomime dance of the + Azimba girls of central Africa has a direct and recognized + relationship to the demands of real life, the somewhat allied + _danses du ventre_ of the Hamitic peoples of northern Africa are + merely an amusement, a play more or less based on the sexual + instinct. At the same time it is important to bear in mind that + there is no rigid distinction between dances that are, and those + that are not, primitive. As Haddon truly points out in a book + containing valuable detailed descriptions of dances, even among + savages dances are so developed that it is difficult to trace + their origin, and at Torres Straits, he remarks, "there are + certainly play or secular dances, dances for pure amusement + without any ulterior design." (A.C. Haddon, _Head Hunters_, p. + 233.) When we remember that dancing had probably become highly + developed long before man appeared on the earth, this difficulty + in determining the precise origin of human dancing cannot cause + surprise. + + Spix and Martius described how the Muras of Brazil by moonlight + would engage all night in a Bacchantic dance in a great circle, + hand in hand, the men on one side, the women on the other, + shouting out all the time, the men "Who will marry me?" the + women, "You are a beautiful devil; all women will marry you," + (Spix and Martius, _Reise in Brasilien_, 1831, vol. iii, p. + 1117.) They also described in detail the dance of the Brazilian + Puris, performed in a state of complete nakedness, the men in a + row, the women in another row behind them. They danced backward + and forward, stamping and singing, at first in a slow and + melancholy style, but gradually with increasing vigor and + excitement. Then the women began to rotate the pelvis backward + and forward, and the men to thrust their bodies forward, the + dance becoming a pantomimic representation of sexual intercourse + (ibid., vol. i, 1823, pp. 373-5). + + Among the Apinages of Brazil, also, the women stand in a row, + almost motionless, while the men dance and leap in front of them, + both men and women at the same time singing. (Buscalioni, "Reise + zu den Apinages," _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1899, ht. 6, p. + 650.) + + Among the Gilas of New Mexico, "when a young man sees a girl whom + he desires for a wife, he first endeavors to gain the good-will + of the parents; this accomplished, he proceeds to serenade his + lady-love, and will often sit for hours, day after day, near her + home, playing on his flute. Should the girl not appear, it is a + sign she rejects him; but if, on the other hand, she comes out to + meet him, he knows that his suit is accepted, and he takes her to + his home. No marriage ceremony is performed."[33] (H.H. Bancroft, + _Native Races of the Pacific_, vol. i, p. 549.) + + "Among the Minnetarees a singular night-dance is, it is said, + sometimes held. During this amusement an opportunity is given to + the squaws to select their favorites. A squaw, as she dances, + will advance to a person with whom she is captivated, either for + his personal attractions or for his renown in arms; she taps him + on the shoulder and immediately runs out of the lodge and betakes + herself to the bushes, followed by the favorite. But if it should + happen that he has a particular preference for another from whom + he expects the same favor, or if he is restrained by a vow, or is + already satiated with indulgence, he politely declines her offer + by placing his hand in her bosom, on which they return to the + assembly and rejoin the dance." It is worthy of remark that in + the language of the Omahas the word _watche_ applies equally to + the amusement of dancing and to sexual intercourse. (S.H. Long, + _Expedition to the Rocky Mountains_, 1823, vol. i, p. 337.) + + At a Kaffir marriage "singing and dancing last until midnight. + Each party [the bride's and the bridegroom's] dances in front of + the other, but they do not mingle together. As the evening + advances, the spirits and passions of all become greatly excited; + and the power of song, the display of muscular action, and the + gesticulations of the dancers and leapers are something + extraordinary. The manner in which, at certain times, one man or + woman, more excited than the rest, bounds from the ranks, leaps + into the air, bounces forward, and darts backward beggars all + description. These violent exercises usually close about + midnight, when each party retires; generally, each man selects a + paramour, and, indulging in sexual gratification, spends the + remainder of the night." (W.C. Holden, _The Kaffir Race_, 1866, + p. 192.) + + At the initiation of Kaffir boys into manhood, as described by + Holden, they were circumcised. "Cattle are then slaughtered by + the parents, and the boys are plentifully supplied with flesh + meat; a good deal of dancing also ensues at this stage of the + proceedings. The _ukut-shila_ consists in attiring themselves + with the leaves of the wild date in the most fantastic manner; + thus attired they visit each of the kraals to which they belong + in rotation, for the purpose of dancing. These dances are the + most licentious which can be imagined. The women act a prominent + part in them, and endeavor to excite the passions of the novices + by performing all sorts of obscene gesticulations. As soon as the + soreness occasioned by the act of circumcision is healed the boys + are, as it were, let loose upon society, and exempted from nearly + all the restraints of law; so that should they even steal and + slaughter their neighbor's cattle they would not be punished; and + they have the special privilege of seizing by force, if force be + necessary, every unmarried woman they choose, for the purpose of + gratifying their passions." Similar festivals take place at the + initiation of girls. (W.C. Holden, _The Kaffir Race_, 1866, p. + 185.) + + The Rev. J. Macdonald has described the ceremonies and customs + attending and following the initiation-rites of a young girl on + her first menstruation among the Zulus between the Tugela and + Delagoa Bay. At this time the girl is called an _intonjane_. A + beast is killed as a thank-offering to the ancestral spirits, + high revel is held for several days, and dancing and music take + place every night till those engaged in it are all exhausted or + daylight arrives. "After a few days and when dancing has been + discontinued, young men and girls congregate in the outer + apartment of the hut, and begin singing, clapping their hands, + and making a grunting noise to show their joy. At nightfall most + of the young girls who were the intonjane's attendants, leave for + their own homes for the night, to return the following morning. + Thereafter the young men and girls who gathered into the hut in + the afternoon separate into pairs and sleep together _in puris + naturalibus_, for that is strictly ordained by custom. Sexual + intercourse is not allowed, but what is known as _metsha_ or + _ukumetsha_ is the sole purpose of the novel arrangement. + _Ukumetsha_ may be defined as partial intercourse. Every man who + sleeps thus with a girl has to send to the father of the + intonjane an assegai; should he have formed an attachment for his + partner of the night and wish to pay her his addresses, he sends + two assegais." (Rev. J. Macdonald, "Manners, etc., of South + African Tribes," _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, vol. + xx, November, 1890, p. 117.) + + Goncourt reports the account given him by a French officer from + Senegal of the dances of the women, "a dance which is a gentle + oscillation of the body, with gradually increasing excitement, + from time to time a woman darting forward from the group to stand + in front of her lover, contorting herself as though in a + passionate embrace, and, on passing her hand between her thighs, + showing it covered with the moisture of amorous enjoyment." + (_Journal_, vol. ix, p. 79.) The dance here referred to is + probably the Bamboula dance of the Wolofs, a spring festival + which has been described by Pierre Loti in his _Roman d'un + Spahi_, and concerning which various details are furnished by a + French army-surgeon, acquainted with Senegal, in his _Untrodden + Fields of Anthropology_. The dance, as described by the latter, + takes place at night during full moon, the dancers, male and + female, beginning timidly, but, as the beat of the tam-tams and + the encouraging cries of the spectators become louder, the dance + becomes more furious. The native name of the dance is _anamalis + fobil_, "the dance of the treading drake." "The dancer in his + movements imitates the copulation of the great Indian duck. This + drake has a member of a corkscrew shape, and a peculiar movement + is required to introduce it into the duck. The woman tucks up her + clothes and convulsively agitates the lower part of her body; she + alternately shows her partner her vulva and hides it from him by + a regular movement, backward and forward, of the body." + (_Untrodden Fields of Anthropology_, Paris, 1898, vol. ii, p. + 112.) + + Among the Gurus of the Ivory Coast (Gulf of Guinea), Eysséric + observes, dancing is usually carried on at night and more + especially by the men, and on certain occasions women must not + appear, for if they assisted at fetichistic dances "they would + die." Under other circumstances men and women dance together with + ardor, not forming couples but often _vis-à-vis_: their movements + are lascivious. Even the dances following a funeral tend to + become sexual in character. At the end of the rites attending the + funeral of a chief's son the entire population began to dance + with ever-growing ardor; there was nothing ritualistic or sad in + these contortions, which took on the character of a lascivious + dance. Men and women, boys and girls, young and old, sought to + rival each other in suppleness, and the festival became joyous + and general, as if in celebration of a marriage or a victory. + (Eysséric, "La Côte d'Ivoire," _Nouvelles Archives des Missions + Scientifiques_, tome ix, 1890, pp. 241-49.) + + Mrs. French-Sheldon has described the marriage-rites she observed + at Taveta in East Africa. "During this time the young people + dance and carouse and make themselves generally merry and + promiscuously drunk, carrying the excess of their dissipation to + such an extent that they dance until they fall down in a species + of epileptic fit." It is the privilege of the bridegroom's four + groomsmen to enjoy the bride first, and she is then handed over + to her legitimate husband. This people, both men and women, are + "great dancers and merry-makers; the young fellows will collect + in groups and dance as though in competition one with the other; + one lad will dash out from the circle of his companions, rush + into the middle of a circumscribed space, and scream out 'Wow, + wow!' Another follows him and screams; then a third does the + same. These men will dance with their knees almost rigid, jumping + into the air until their excitement becomes very great and their + energy almost spasmodic, leaving the ground frequently three feet + as they spring into the air. At some of their festivals their + dancing is carried to such an extent that I have seen a young + fellow's muscles quiver from head to foot and his jaws tremble + without any apparent ability on his part to control them, until, + foaming at the mouth and with his eyes rolling, he falls in a + paroxysm upon the ground, to be carried off by his companions." + The writer adds significantly that this dancing "would seem to + emanate from a species of voluptuousness." (Mrs. French-Sheldon, + "Customs among the Natives of East Africa," _Journal of the + Anthropological Institute_, vol. xxi, May, 1892, pp. 366-67.) It + may be added that among the Suaheli dances are intimately + associated with weddings; the Suaheli dances have been minutely + described by Velten (_Sitten und Gebraüche der Suaheli_, pp. + 144-175). Among the Akamba of British East Africa, also, + according to H.R. Tate (_Journal of the Anthropological + Institute_, Jan.-June, 1904, p. 137), the dances are followed by + connection between the young men and girls, approved of by the + parents. + + The dances of the Faroe Islanders have been described by Raymond + Pilet ("Rapport sur une Mission en Islande et aux lies Féroë," + _Nouvelles Archives des Missions Scientifiques_, tome vii, 1897, + p. 285). These dances, which are entirely decorous, include + poetry, music, and much mimicry, especially of battle. They + sometimes last for two consecutive days and nights. "The dance is + simply a permitted and discreet method by which the young men may + court the young girls. The islander enters the circle and places + himself beside the girl to whom he desires to show his affection; + if he meets with her approval she stays and continues to dance at + his side; if not, she leaves the circle and appears later at + another spot." + + Pitre (_Usi, etc., del Popolo Siciliano_, vol. ii, p. 24, as + quoted in Marro's _Pubertà_) states that in Sicily the youth who + wishes to marry seeks to give some public proof of his valor and + to show himself off. In Chiaramonte, in evidence of his virile + force, he bears in procession the standard of some confraternity, + a high and richly adorned standard which makes its staff bend to + a semicircle, of such enormous weight that the bearer must walk + in a painfully bent position, his head thrown back and his feet + forward. On reaching the house of his betrothed he makes proof of + his boldness and skill in wielding this extremely heavy standard + which at this moment seems a plaything in his hands, but may yet + prove fatal to him through injury to the loins or other parts. + + This same tendency, which we find in so highly developed a degree + among animals and primitive human peoples, is also universal + among the children of even the most civilized human races, + although in a less organized and more confused way. It manifests + itself as "showing-off." Sanford Bell, in his study of the + emotion of love in children, finds that "showing-off" is an + essential element in the love of children in what he terms the + second stage (from the eighth to the twelfth year in girls and + the fourteenth in boys). "It constitutes one of the chief numbers + in the boy's repertory of love charms, and is not totally absent + from the girl's. It is a most common sight to see the boys taxing + their resources in devising means of exposing their own + excellencies, and often doing the most ridiculous and extravagant + things. Running, jumping, dancing, prancing, sparring, wrestling, + turning handsprings, somersaults, climbing, walking fences, + swinging, giving yodels and yells, whistling, imitating the + movements of animals, 'taking people off,' courting danger, + affecting courage are some of its common forms.... This + 'showing-off' in the boy lover is the forerunner of the skilful, + purposive, and elaborate means of self-exhibition in the adult + male and the charming coquetry in the adult female, in their + love-relations." (Sanford Bell, "The Emotion of Love Between the + Sexes," _American Journal Psychology_, July, 1902; cf. + "Showing-off and Bashfulness," _Pedagogical Seminary_, June, + 1903.) + +If, in the light of the previous discussion, we examine such facts as +those here collected, we may easily trace throughout the perpetual +operations of the same instinct. It is everywhere the instinctive object +of the male, who is very rarely passive in the process of courtship, to +assure by his activity in display, his energy or skill or beauty, both his +own passion and the passion of the female. Throughout nature sexual +conjugation only takes place after much expenditure of energy.[34] We are +deceived by what we see among highly fed domesticated animals, and among +the lazy classes of human society, whose sexual instincts are at once both +unnaturally stimulated and unnaturally repressed, when we imagine that the +instinct of detumescence is normally ever craving to be satisfied, and +that throughout nature it can always be set off at a touch whenever the +stimulus is applied. So far from the instinct of tumescence naturally +needing to be crushed, it needs, on the contrary, in either sex to be +submitted to the most elaborate and prolonged processes in order to bring +about those conditions which detumescence relieves. A state of tumescence +is not normally constant, and tumescence must be obtained before +detumescence is possible.[35] The whole object of courtship, of the mutual +approximation and caresses of two persons of the opposite sex, is to +create the state of sexual tumescence. + +It will be seen that the most usual method of attaining tumescence--a +method found among the most various kinds of animals, from insects and +birds to man--is some form of the dance. Among the Negritos of the +Philippines dancing is described by A.B. Meyer as "jumping in a circle +around a girl and stamping with the feet"; as we have seen, such a dance +is, essentially, a form of courtship that is widespread among animals. +"The true cake-walk," again, Stanley Hall remarks, "as seen in the South +is perhaps the purest expression of this impulse to courtship antics seen +in man."[36] Muscular movement of which the dance is the highest and most +complex expression, is undoubtedly a method of auto-intoxication of the +very greatest potency. All energetic movement, indeed, tends to produce +active congestion. In its influence on the brain violent exercise may thus +result in a state of intoxication even resembling insanity. As Lagrange +remarks, the visible effects of exercise--heightened color, bright eyes, +resolute air and walk--are those of slight intoxication, and a girl who +has waltzed for a quarter of an hour is in the same condition as if she +had drunk champagne.[37] Groos regards the dance as, above all, an +intoxicating play of movement, possessing, like other methods of +intoxication,--and even apart from its relationship to combat and +love,--the charm of being able to draw us out of our everyday life and +lead us into a self-created dream-world.[38] That the dance is not only a +narcotic, but also a powerful stimulant, we may clearly realize from the +experiments which show that this effect is produced even by much less +complex kinds of muscular movement. This has been clearly determined, for +instance, by Féré, in the course of a long and elaborate series of +experiments dealing with the various influences that modify work as +measured by Mosso's ergograph. This investigator found that muscular +movement is the most efficacious of all stimulants in increasing muscular +power.[39] It is easy to trace these pleasurable effects of combined +narcotic and stimulant motion in everyday life and it is unnecessary to +enumerate its manifestations.[40] + + Dancing is so powerful an agent on the organism, as Sergi truly + remarks (_Les Emotions_, p. 288), because its excitation is + general, because it touches every vital organ, the higher centers + no longer dominating. Primitive dancing differs very widely from + that civilized kind of dancing--finding its extreme type in the + ballet--in which energy is concentrated into the muscles below + the knee. In the finest kinds of primitive dancing all the limbs, + the whole body, take part. For instance, "the Marquisan girls," + Herman Melville remarked in _Typee_, "dance all over, as it were; + not only do their feet dance, but their arms, hands, + fingers,--ay, their very eyes seem to dance in their heads. In + good sooth, they so sway their floating forms, arch their necks, + toss aloft their naked arms, and glide, and swim, and whirl," + etc. + + If we turn to a very different people, we find this + characteristic of primitive dancing admirably illustrated by the + missionary, Holden, in the case of Kaffir dances. "So far as I + have observed," he states, "the perfection of the art or science + consists in their _being able to put every part of the body into + motion at the same time_. And as they are naked, the bystander + has a good opportunity of observing the whole process, which + presents a remarkably odd and grotesque appearance,--the head, + the trunk, the arms, the legs, the hands, the feet, bones, + muscles, sinews, skin, scalp, and hair, each and all in motion at + the same time, with feathers waving, tails of monkeys and wild + beasts dangling, and shields beating, accompanied with whistling, + shouting, and leaping. It would appear as though the whole frame + was hung on springing wires or cords. Dances are held in high + repute, being the natural expression of joyous emotion, or + creating it when absent. There is, perhaps, no exercise in + greater accordance with the sentiments or feelings of a barbarous + people, or more fully calculated to gratify their wild and + ungoverned passions." (W.C. Holden, _The Kaffir Race_, 1866, p. + 274.) + +Dancing, as the highest and most complex form of muscular movement, is the +most potent method of obtaining the organic excitement muscular movement +yields, and thus we understand how from the earliest zoölogical ages it +has been brought to the service of the sexual instinct as a mode of +attaining tumescence. Among savages this use of dancing works harmoniously +with the various other uses which dancing possesses in primitive times +and which cause it to occupy so large and vital a part in savage life that +it may possibly even affect the organism to such an extent as to mold the +bones; so that some authorities have associated platycnemia with dancing. +As civilization advances, the other uses of dancing fall away, but it +still remains a sexual stimulant. Burton, in his _Anatomy of Melancholy_, +brings forward a number of quotations from old authors showing that +dancing is an incitement to love.[41] + + The Catholic theologians (Debreyne, _Moechialogie_, pp. 190-199) + for the most part condemn dancing with much severity. In + Protestant Germany, also, it is held that dance meetings and + musical gatherings are frequent occasions of unchastity. Thus in + the Leipzig district when a girl is asked "How did you fall?" she + nearly always replies "At the dance." (_Die + Geschlechtlich-Sittliche Verhältnisse im Deutschen Reiche_, vol. + i, p. 196.) It leads quite as often, and no doubt oftener, to + marriage. Rousseau defended it on this account (_Nouvelle + Heloïse_, bk. iv, letter x); dancing is, he held, an admirable + preliminary to courtship, and the best way for young people to + reveal themselves to each other, in their grace and decorum, + their qualities and defects, while its publicity is its + safeguard. An International Congress of Dancing Masters was held + at Barcelona in 1907. In connection with this Congress, Giraudet, + president of the International Academy of Dancing Masters, issued + an inquiry to over 3000 teachers of dancing throughout the world + in order to ascertain the frequency with which dancing led to + marriage. Of over one million pupils of dancing, either married + or engaged to be married, it was found that in most countries + more than 50 per cent. met their conjugal partners at dances. The + smallest proportion was in Norway, with only 39 per cent., and + the highest, Germany, with 97 per cent. Intermediate are France, + 83 per cent.; America, 80 per cent.; Italy, 70 per cent.; Spain, + 68 per cent.; Holland, Bulgaria, and England, 65 per cent.; + Australia and Roumania, 60 per cent., etc. Of the teachers + themselves 92 per cent. met their partners at dances. (Quoted + from the _Figaro_ in Beiblatt "Sexualreform" to _Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, 1907, p. 175.) + +In civilization, however, dancing is not only an incitement to love and a +preliminary to courtship, but it is often a substitute for the normal +gratification of the sexual instinct, procuring something of the pleasure +and relief of gratified love. In occasional abnormal cases this may be +consciously realized. Thus Sadger, who regards the joy of dancing as a +manifestation of "muscular eroticism," gives the case of a married +hysterical woman of 21, with genital anesthesia, but otherwise strongly +developed skin eroticism, who was a passionate dancer: "I often felt as +though I was giving myself to my partner in dancing," she said, "and was +actually having coitus with him. I have the feeling that in me dancing +takes the place of coitus."[42] Normally something of the same feeling is +experienced by many young women, who will expend a prodigious amount of +energy in dancing, thus procuring, not fatigue, but happiness and +relief.[43] It is significant that, after sexual relations have begun, +girls generally lose much of their ardor in dancing. Even our modern +dances, it is worthy of note, are often of sexual origin; thus, the most +typical of all, the waltz, was originally (as Schaller, quoted by Groos, +states) the close of a complicated dance which "represented the romance of +love, the seeking and the fleeing, the playful sulking and shunning, and +finally the jubilation of the wedding."[44] + +Not only is movement itself a source of tumescence, but even the spectacle +of movement tends to produce the same effect. The pleasure of witnessing +movement, as represented by its stimulating effect on the muscular +system,--for states of well-being are accompanied by an increase of +power,--has been found susceptible of exact measurement by Féré. He has +shown that to watch a colored disk when in motion produced stronger +muscular contractions, as measured by the dynamometer, than to watch the +same disk when motionless. Even in the absence of color a similar +influence of movement was noted, and watching a modified metronome +produced a greater increase of work with the ergograph than when working +to the rhythm of the metronome without watching it.[45] This psychological +fact has been independently discovered by advertisers, who seek to impress +the value of their wares on the public by the device of announcing them by +moving colored lights. The pleasure given by the ballet largely depends on +the same fact. Not only is dancing an excitation, but the spectacle of +dancing is itself exciting, and even among savages dances have a public +which becomes almost as passionately excited as the dancers +themselves.[46] It is in virtue of this effect of dancing and similar +movements that we so frequently find, both among the lower animals and +savage man, that to obtain tumescence in both sexes, it is sufficient for +one sex alone, usually the male, to take the active part. This point +attracted the attention of Kulischer many years ago, and he showed how the +dances of the men, among savages, excite the women, who watch them +intently though unobtrusively, and are thus influenced in choosing their +lovers. He was probably the first to insist that in man sexual selection +has taken place mainly through the agency of dances, games, and +festivals.[47] + +It is now clear, therefore, why the evacuation theory of the sexual +impulse must necessarily be partial and inadequate. It leaves out of +account the whole of the phenomena connected with tumescence, and those +phenomena constitute the most prolonged, the most important, the most +significant stage of the sexual process. It is during tumescence that the +whole psychology of the sexual impulse is built up; it is as an incident +arising during tumescence and influencing its course that we must probably +regard nearly every sexual aberration. It is with the second stage of the +sexual process, when the instinct of detumescence arises, that the analogy +of evacuation can alone be called in. Even here, that analogy, though +real, is not complete, the nervous element involved in detumescence being +out of all proportion to the extent of the evacuation. The typical act of +evacuation, however, is a nervous process, and when we bear this in mind +we may see whatever truth the evacuation theory possesses. Beaunis classes +the sexual impulse with the "needs of activity," but under this head he +coordinates it with the "need of urination." That is to say, that both +alike are nervous explosions. Micturition, like detumescence, is a +convulsive act, and, like detumescence also, it is certainly connected +with cerebral processes; thus in epilepsy the passage of urine which may +occur (as in a girl described by Gowers with minor attacks during which it +was emitted consciously, but involuntarily) is really a part of the +process.[48] + +There appears, indeed, to be a special and intimate connection between the +explosion of sexual detumescence and the explosive energy of the bladder; +so that they may reinforce each other and to a limited extent act +vicariously in relieving each other's tension. It is noteworthy that +nocturnal and diurnal incontinence of urine, as well as "stammering" of +the bladder, are all specially liable to begin or to cease at puberty. In +men and even infants, distention of the bladder favors tumescence by +producing venous congestion, though at the same time it acts as a physical +hindrance to sexual detumescence[49]; in women--probably not from pressure +alone, but from reflex nervous action--a full bladder increases both +sexual excitement and pleasure, and I have been informed by several women +that they have independently discovered this fact for themselves and +acted in accordance with it. Conversely, sexual excitement increases the +explosive force of the bladder, the desire to urinate is aroused, and in +women the sexual orgasm, when very acute and occurring with a full +bladder, is occasionally accompanied, alike in savage and civilized life, +by an involuntary and sometimes full and forcible expulsion of urine.[50] +The desire to urinate may possibly be, as has been said, the normal +accompaniment of sexual excitement in women (just as it is said to be in +mares; so that the Arabs judge that the mare is ready for the stallion +when she urinates immediately on hearing him neigh). The association may +even form the basis of sexual obsessions.[51] I have elsewhere shown that, +of all the influences which increase the expulsive force of the bladder, +sexual excitement is the most powerful.[52] It may also have a reverse +influence and inhibit contraction of the bladder, sometimes in association +with shyness, but also independently of shyness. There is also reason to +suppose that the nervous energy expended in an explosion of the tension +of the sexual organs may sometimes relieve the bladder; it is well +recognized that a full bladder is a factor in producing sexual emissions +during sleep, the explosive energy of the bladder being inhibited and +passing over into the sexual sphere. Conversely, it appears that explosion +of the bladder relieves sexual tension. An explosion of the nervous +centers connected with the contraction of the bladder will relieve nervous +tension generally; there are forms of epilepsy in which the act of +urination constitutes the climax, and Gowers, in dealing with minor +epilepsy, emphasizes the frequency of micturition, which "may occur with +spasmodic energy when there is only the slightest general stiffness," +especially in women. He adds the significant remark that it "sometimes +seems to relieve the cerebral tension,"[53] and gives the case of a girl +in whom the aura consisted mainly of a desire to urinate; if she could +satisfy this the fit was arrested; if not she lost consciousness and a +severe fit followed. + +If micturition may thus relieve nervous tension generally, it is not +surprising that it should relieve the tension of the centers with which it +is most intimately connected. Sérieux records the case of a girl of 12, +possessed by an impulse to masturbation which she was unable to control, +although anxious to conquer it, who only found relief in the act of +urination; this soothed her and to some extent satisfied the sexual +excitement; when the impulse to masturbate was restrained the impulse to +urinate became imperative; she would rise four or five times in the night +for this purpose, and even urinate in bed or in her clothes to obtain the +desired sexual relief.[54] I am acquainted with a lady who had a similar, +but less intense, experience during childhood. Sometimes, especially in +children, the act of urination becomes an act of gratification at the +climax of sexual pleasure, the imitative symbol of detumescence. Thus +Schultze-Malkowsky describes a little girl of 7 who would bribe her girl +companions with little presents to play the part of horses on all fours +while she would ride on their necks with naked thighs in order to obtain +the pleasurable sensation of close contact. With one special friend she +would ride facing backward, and leaning forward to embrace her body +impulsively, and at the same time pressing the neck closely between her +thighs, would urinate.[55] Féré has recorded the interesting case of a man +who, having all his life after puberty been subject to monthly attacks of +sexual excitement, after the age of 45 completely lost the liability to +these manifestations, but found himself subject, in place of them, to +monthly attacks of frequent and copious urination, accompanied by sexual +day-dreams, but by no genital excitement.[56] Such a case admirably +illustrates the compensatory relation of sexual and vesical excitation. +This mutual interaction is easily comprehensible when we recall the very +close nervous connection which exists between the mechanisms of the sexual +organs and the bladder. + +Nor are such relationships found to be confined to these two centers; in a +lesser degree the more remote explosive centers are also affected; all +motor influences may spread to related muscles; the convulsion of +laughter, for instance, seems to be often in relation with the sexual +center, and Groos has suggested that the laughter which, especially in the +sexually minded, often follows allusions to the genital sphere is merely +an effort to dispel nascent sexual excitement by liberating an explosion +of nervous energy in another direction.[57] Nervous discharges tend to +spread, or to act vicariously, because the motor centers are more or less +connected.[58] Of all the physiological motor explosions, the sexual +orgasm, or detumescence, is the most massive, powerful, and overwhelming. +So volcanic is it that to the ancient Greek philosophers it seemed to be a +minor kind of epilepsy. The relief of detumescence is not merely the +relief of an evacuation; it is the discharge, by the most powerful +apparatus for nervous explosion in the body, of the energy accumulated and +stored up in the slow process of tumescence, and that discharge +reverberates through all the nervous centers in the organism. + + "The sophist of Abdera said that coitus is a slight fit of + epilepsy, judging it to be an incurable disease." (Clement of + Alexandria, _Pædagogus_, bk. ii, chapter x.) And Coelius + Aurelianus, one of the chief physicians of antiquity, said that + "coitus is a brief epilepsy." Féré has pointed out that both + these forms of nervous storm are sometimes accompanied by similar + phenomena, by subjective sensations of sight or smell, for + example; and that the two kinds of discharge may even be + combined. (Féré, _Les Epileptiques_, pp. 283-84; also "Exces + Vénériens et Epilepsie," _Comptes-rendus de la Société de + Biologie_, April 3, 1897, and the same author's _Instinct + Sexuel_, pp. 209, 221, and his "Priapisme Epileptique," _La + Médecine Moderne_, February 4, 1899.) The epileptic convulsion in + some cases involves the sexual mechanism, and it is noteworthy + that epilepsy tends to appear at puberty. In modern times even so + great a physician as Boerhaave said that coitus is a "true + epilepsy," and more recently Roubaud, Hammond, and Kowalevsky + have emphasized the resemblance between coitus and epilepsy, + though without identifying the two states. Some authorities have + considered that coitus is a cause of epilepsy, but this is denied + by Christian, Strümpell, and Löwenfeld. (Löwenfeld, _Sexualleben + und Nervenleiden_, 1899, p. 68.) Féré has recorded the case of a + youth in whom the adoption of the practice of masturbation, + several times a day, was followed by epileptic attacks which + ceased when masturbation was abandoned. (Féré, _Comptes-rendus de + la Socitété de Biologie_, April 3, 1897.) + +It seems unprofitable at present to attempt any more fundamental analysis +of the sexual impulse. Beaunis, in the work already quoted, vaguely +suggests that we ought possibly to connect the sexual excitation which +leads the male to seek the female with chemical action, either exercised +directly on the protoplasm of the organism or indirectly by the +intermediary of the nervous system, and especially by smell in the higher +animals. Clevenger, Spitzka, Kiernan, and others have also regarded the +sexual impulse as protoplasmic hunger, tracing it back to the presexual +times when one protozoal form absorbed another. In the same way Joanny +Roux, insisting that the sexual need is a need of the whole organism, and +that "we love with the whole of our body," compares the sexual instinct to +hunger, and distinguishes between "sexual hunger" affecting the whole +system and "sexual appetite" as a more localized desire; he concludes that +the sexual need is an aspect of the nutritive need.[59] Useful as these +views are as a protest against too crude and narrow a conception of the +part played by the sexual impulse, they carry us into a speculative region +where proof is difficult. + +We are now, however, at all events, in a better position to define the +contents of the sexual impulse. We see that there are certainly, as Moll +has indicated, two constituents in that impulse; but, instead of being +unrelated, or only distantly related, we see that they are really so +intimately connected as to form two distinct stages in the same process: a +first stage, in which--usually under the parallel influence of internal +and external stimuli--images, desires, and ideals grow up within the mind, +while the organism generally is charged with energy and the sexual +apparatus congested with blood; and a second stage, in which the sexual +apparatus is discharged amid profound sexual excitement, followed by deep +organic relief. By the first process is constituted the tension which the +second process relieves. It seems best to call the first impulse the +_process of tumescence_; the second the _process of detumescence_.[60] The +first, taking on usually a more active form in the male, has the double +object of bringing the male himself into the condition in which discharge +becomes imperative, and at the same time arousing in the female a similar +ardent state of emotional excitement and sexual turgescence. The second +process has the object, directly, of discharging the tension thus produced +and, indirectly, of effecting the act by which the race is propagated. + +It seems to me that this is at present the most satisfactory way in which +we can attempt to define the sexual impulse. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[1] C. Lloyd Morgan, "Instinct and Intelligence in Animals," _Nature_, +February 3, 1898. + +[2] _Essais_, livre iii, ch. v. + +[3] Féré, "La Prédisposition dans l'étiologie des perversions sexuelles," +_Revue de médecine_, 1898. In his more recent work on the evolution and +dissolution of the sexual instinct Féré perhaps slightly modified his +position by stating that "the sexual appetite is, above all, a general +need of the organism based on a sensation of fullness, a sort of need of +evacuation," _L'Instinct sexuel_, 1899, p. 6. Löwenfeld (_Ueber die +Sexuelle Konstitution_, p. 30) gives a qualified acceptance to the +excretory theory, as also Rohleder (_Die Zeugung beim Menschen_, p. 25). + +[4] Goltz, _Centralblatt für die med. Wissenschaften_, 1865, No. 19, and +1866, No. 18; also _Beiträge zur Lehre von den Funktionen des Frosches_, +Berlin, 1869, p. 20. + +[5] J. Tarchanoff, "Zur Physiologie des Geschlechtsapparatus des +Frosches," _Archiv für die Gesammte Physiologie_, 1887, vol. xl, p. 330. + +[6] E. Steinach, "Untersuchungen zur vergleichenden Physiologie der +männlicher Geschlechtsorgane insbesondere der accessorischen +Geschlechtsdrüsen," _Archiv für die Gesammte Physiologie_, vol. lvi, 1894, +pp. 304-338. + +[7] See, e.g., Shattock and Seligmann, "The Acquirement of Secondary +Sexual Characters," _Proceedings of the Royal Society_, vol. lxxiii, 1904, +p. 49. + +[8] For facts bearing on this point, see Guinard, art. "Castration," +Richet's _Dictionnaire de Physiologie_. The general results of castration +are summarized by Robert Müller in ch. vii of his _Sexualbiologie_; also +by F.H.A. Marshall, _The Physiology of Reproduction_, ch, ix; see also E. +Pittard, "Les Skoptzy," _L'Anthropologie_, 1903, p. 463. + +[9] For an ancient discussion of this point, see Schurig, _Spermatologia_, +1720, cap. ix. + +[10] J.J. Matignon, _Superstition, Crime, et Misère en Chine_, "Les +Eunuques du Palais Impérial de Pékin," 1901. + +[11] P. Marie, "Eunuchisme et Erotisme," _Nouvelle Iconographie de la +Salpêtrière_, 1906, No. 5, and _Progrès médical_, Jan. 26, 1907. + +[12] _Pedagogical Seminary_, July, 1897, p. 121. + +[13] See, for instance, the case reported in another volume of these +_Studies_ ("Sexual Inversion"), in which castration was performed on a +sexual invert without effecting any change. + +[14] Guinard, art. "Castration," _Dictionnaire de Physiologie_. + +[15] M.A. Colman, _Medical Standard_, August, 1895; Clara Barrus, +_American Journal of Insanity_, April, 1895; Macnaughton-Jones, _British +Gynæcological Journal_, August, 1902; W.G. Bridgman, _Medical Standard_, +1896; J.M. Cotterill, _British Medical Journal_, April 7, 1900 (also +private communication); Paul F. Mundé, _American Journal of Obstetrics_, +March, 1899. + +[16] See Swale Vincent, _Internal Secretion and the Ductless Glands_, +1912; F.H.A. Marshall, _The Physiology of Reproduction_, 1910, ch. ix; +Munzer, _Berliner klinische Wochenschrift_, Nov., 1910; C. Sajous, _The +Internal Secretions_, vol. i, 1911. The adrenal glands have been fully and +interestingly studied by Glynn, _Quarterly Journal of Medicine_, Jan., +1912; the thyroid, by Ewan Waller, _Practitioner_, Aug., 1912; the +internal secretion of the ovary, by A. Louise McIlroy, _Proceedings Royal +Society Medicine_, July, 1912. For a discussion at the Neurology Section +of the British Medical Association Meeting, 1912, see _British Medical +Journal_, Nov. 16, 1912. + +[17] Since this was written I have come across a passage in _Hampa_ (p. +228), by Rafael Salillas, the Spanish sociologist, which shows that the +analogy has been detected by the popular mind and been embodied in popular +language: "A significant anatomico-physiological concordance supposes a +resemblance between the mouth and the sexual organs of a woman, between +coitus and the ingestion of food, and between foods which do not require +mastication and the spermatic ejaculation; these representations find +expression in the popular name _papo_ given to women's genital organs. +'Papo' is the crop of birds, and is derived from 'papar' (Latin, +_papare_), to eat soft food such as we call pap. With this representation +of infantile food is connected the term _leche_ [milk] as applied to the +ejaculated genital fluid." Cleland, it may be added, in the most +remarkable of English erotic novels, _The Memoirs of Fanny Hill_, refers +to "the compressive exsuction with which the sensitive mechanism of that +part [the vagina] thirstily draws and drains the nipple of Love," and +proceeds to compare it to the action of the child at the breast. It +appears that, in some parts of the animal world at least, there is a real +analogy of formation between the oral and vaginal ends of the trunk. This +is notably the case in some insects, and the point has been elaborately +discussed by Walter Wesché, "The Genitalia of Both the Sexes in Diptera, +and their Relation to the Armature of the Mouth," _Transactions of the +Linnean Society_, second series, vol. ix, Zoölogy, 1906. + +[18] Näcke now expresses himself very dubiously on the point; see, e.g., +_Archiv für Kriminal-Anthropologie_, 1905, p. 186. + +[19] _Untersuchungen über die Libido Sexualis_, Berlin, 1897-98. + +[20] Moll adopts the term "impulse of detumescence" (_Detumescenztrieb_) +instead of "impulse of ejaculation," because in women there is either no +ejaculation or it cannot be regarded as essential. + +[21] I quote from the second edition, as issued in 1881. + +[22] This is the theory which by many has alone been seen in Darwin's +_Descent of Man_. Thus even his friend Wallace states unconditionally +(_Tropical Nature_, p. 193) that Darwin accepted a "voluntary or conscious +sexual selection," and seems to repeat the same statement in _Darwinism_ +(1889), p. 283. Lloyd Morgan, in his discussion of the pairing instinct in +_Habit and Instinct_ (1896), seems also only to see this side of Darwin's +statement. + +[23] In his _Variation of Animals and Plants under Domestication_, Darwin +was puzzled by the fact that, in captivity, animals often copulate without +conceiving and failed to connect that fact with the processes behind his +own theory of sexual selection. + +[24] Beaunis, _Sensations Internes_, ch. v, "Besoins Sexuels," 1889. It +may be noted that many years earlier Burdach (in his _Physiologie als +Erfahrungswissenschaft_, 1826) had recognized that the activity of the +male favored procreation, and that mental and physical excitement seemed +to have the same effect in the female also. + +[25] It is scarcely necessary to point out that this is too extreme a +position. As J.G. Millais remarks of ducks (_Natural History of British +Ducks_, p. 45), in courtship "success in winning the admiration of the +female is rather a matter of persistent and active attention than physical +force," though the males occasionally fight over the female. The ruff +(_Machetes pugnax_) is a pugnacious bird, as his name indicates. Yet, the +reeve, the female of this species, is, as E. Selous shows ("Sexual +Selection in Birds," _Zoölogist_, Feb. and May, 1907), completely mistress +of the situation. "She seems the plain and unconcerned little mistress of +a numerous and handsome seraglio, each member of which, however he flounce +and bounce, can only wait to be chosen." Any fighting among the males is +only incidental and is not a factor in selection. Moreover, as R. Müller +points out (loc. cit., p. 290), fighting would not usually attain the end +desired, for if the males expend their time and strength in a serious +combat they merely afford a third less pugnacious male a better +opportunity of running off with the prize. + +[26] L. Tillier, _L'Instinct Sexuel_, 1889, pp. 74, 118, 119, 124 et seq., +289. + +[27] K. Groos, _Die Spiele der Thiere_, 1896; _Die Spiele der Menschen_, +1899; both are translated into English. + +[28] Prof. H.E. Ziegler, in a private letter to Professor Groos, _Spiele +der Thiere_, p. 202. + +[29] _Die Spiele der Thiere_, p. 244. This had been briefly pointed out by +earlier writers. Thus, Haeckel (_Gen. Morph._, ii, p. 244) remarked that +fighting for females is a special or modified kind of struggle for +existence, and that it acts on both sexes. + +[30] It may be added that in the human species, as Bray remarks ("Le Beau +dans la Nature," _Revue Philosophique_, October, 1901, p. 403), "the hymen +would seem to tend to the same end, as if nature had wished to reinforce +by a natural obstacle the moral restraint of modesty, so that only the +vigorous male could insure his reproduction." There can be no doubt that +among many animals pairing is delayed so far as possible until maturity is +reached. "It is a strict rule amongst birds," remarks J.G. Millais (op. +cit., p. 46), "that they do not breed until both sexes have attained the +perfect adult plumage." Until that happens, it seems probable, the +conditions for sexual excitation are not fully established. We know +little, says Howard (_Zoölogist_, 1903, p. 407), of the age at which birds +begin to breed, but it is known that "there are yearly great numbers of +individuals who do not breed, and the evidence seems to show that such +individuals are immature." + +[31] A. Marro, _La Puberté_, 1901, p. 464. + +[32] Lloyd Morgan, _Animal Behavior_, 1900, pp. 264-5. It may be added +that, on the esthetic side, Hirn, in his study (_The Origins of Art_, +1900), reaches conclusions which likewise, in the main, concord with those +of Groos. + +[33] It may be noted that the marriage ceremony itself is often of the +nature of a courtship, a symbolic courtship, embodying a method of +attaining tumescence. As Crawley, who has brought out this point, puts it, +"Marriage-rites of union are essentially identical with love charms," and +he refers in illustration to the custom of the Australian Arunta, among +whom the man or woman by making music on the bull-roarer compels a person +of the opposite sex to court him or her, the marriage being thus +completed. (E. Crawley, _The Mystic Rose_, p. 318.) + +[34] The more carefully animals are observed, the more often this is found +to be the case, even with respect to species which possess no obvious and +elaborate process for obtaining tumescence. See, for instance, the +detailed and very instructive account--too long to quote here--given by E. +Selous of the preliminaries to intercourse practised by a pair of great +crested grebes, while nest-building. Intercourse only took place with much +difficulty, after many fruitless invitations, more usually given by the +female. ("Observational Diary of the Habits of the Great Crested Grebe," +_Zöologist_, September, 1901.) It is exactly the same with savages. The +observation of Foley (_Bulletin de la Société d'Anthropologie de Paris_, +November 6, 1879) that in savages "sexual erethism is very difficult" is +of great significance and certainly in accordance with the facts. This +difficulty of erethism is the real cause of many savage practices which to +the civilized person often seem perverse; the women of the Caroline +Islands, for instance, as described by Finsch, require the tongue or even +the teeth to be applied to the clitoris, or a great ant to be applied to +bite the parts, in order to stimulate orgasm. Westermarck, after quoting a +remark of Mariner's concerning the women of Tonga,--"it must not be +supposed that these women are always easily won; the greatest attentions +and the most fervent solicitations are sometimes requisite, even though +there be no other lover in the way,"--adds that these words "hold true for +a great many, not to say all, savage and barbarous races now existing." +(_Human Marriage_, p. 163.) The old notions, however, as to the sexual +licentiousness of peoples living in natural conditions have scarcely yet +disappeared. See Appendix A; "The Sexual Instinct in Savages." + +[35] In men a certain degree of tumescence is essential before coitus can +be effected at all; in women, though tumescence is not essential to +coitus, it is essential to orgasm and the accompanying physical and +psychic relief. The preference which women often experience for prolonged +coitus is not, as might possibly be imagined, due to sensuality, but has a +profound physiological basis. + +[36] Stanley Hall, _Adolescence_, vol. i, p. 223. + +[37] See Lagrange's _Physiology of Bodily Exercise_, especially chapter +ii. It is a significant fact that, as Sergi remarks (_Les Emotions_, p. +330), the physiological results of dancing are identical with the +physiological results of pleasure. + +[38] Groos, _Spiele der Menschen_, p. 112. Zmigrodzki (_Die Mutter bei den +Volkern des Arischen Stammes_, p. 414 et seq.) has an interesting passage +describing the dance--especially the Russian dance--in its orgiastic +aspects. + +[39] Féré, "L'Influence sur le Travail Volontaire d'un muscle de +l'activité d'autres muscles," _Nouvelles Iconographie de la Salpêtrière_, +1901. + +[40] "The sensation of motion," Kline remarks ("The Migratory Impulse," +_American Journal of Psychology_, October, 1898, p. 62), "as yet but +little studied from a pleasure-pain standpoint, is undoubtedly a +pleasure-giving sensation. For Aristippus the end of life is pleasure, +which he defines as gentle motion. Motherhood long ago discovered its +virtue as furnished by the cradle. Galloping to town on the parental knee +is a pleasing pastime in every nursery. The several varieties of swings, +the hammock, see-saw, flying-jenny, merry-go-round, shooting the chutes, +sailing, coasting, rowing, and skating, together with the fondness of +children for rotating rapidly in one spot until dizzy and for jumping from +high places, are all devices and sports for stimulating the sense of +motion. In most of these modes of motion the body is passive or +semipassive, save in such motions as skating and rotating on the feet. The +passiveness of the body precludes any important contribution of stimuli +from kinesthetic sources. The stimuli are probably furnished, as Dr. Hall +and others have suggested, by a redistribution of fluid pressure (due to +the unusual motions and positions of the body) to the inner walls of the +several vascular systems of the body." + +[41] _Anatomy of Melancholy_, part iii., sect. ii, mem. ii, subs. iv. + +[42] Sadger, "Haut-, Schleimhaut-, und Muskel-erotik," _Jahrbuch für +psychoanalytische Forschungen_, Bd. iii, 1912, p. 556. + +[43] Marro (_Pubertà_, p. 367 et seq.) has some observations on this +point. It was an insight into this action of dancing which led the Spanish +clergy of the eighteenth century to encourage the national enthusiasm for +dancing (as Baretti informs us) in the interests of morality. + +[44] It is scarcely necessary to remark that a primitive dance, even when +associated with courtship, is not necessarily a sexual pantomime; as +Wallaschek, in his comprehensive survey of primitive dances, observes, it +is more usually an animal pantomime, but nonetheless connected with the +sexual instinct, separation of the sexes, also, being no proof to the +contrary. (Wallaschek, _Primitive Music_, pp. 211-13.) Grosse (_Anfänge +der Kunst_, English translation, p. 228) has pointed out that the best +dancer would be the best fighter and hunter, and that sexual selection and +natural selection would thus work in harmony. + +[45] Féré, "Le plaisir de la vue du Mouvement," _Comptes-rendus de la +Société de Biologie_, November 2, 1901; also _Travail et Plaisir_, ch. +xxix. + +[46] Groos repeatedly emphasizes the significance of this fact (_Spiele +der Menschen_, pp. 81-9, 460 et seq.); Grosse (_Anfänge der Kunst_, p. +215) had previously made some remarks on this point. + +[47] M. Kulischer, "Die Geschlechtliche Zuchtwahl bei den Menschen in der +Urzeit," _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1876, p. 140 _et seq._ + +[48] Sir W.R. Gowers, _Epilepsy_, 2d ed., 1901, pp. 61, 138. + +[49] Guyon, _Leçons Cliniques sur les Maladies des Voies Urinaires_, 3d +ed., 1896, vol. ii, p. 397. + +[50] See, e.g., Féré, _L'Instinct Sexuel_, pp. 222-23: Brantôme was +probably the first writer in modern times who referred to this phenomenon. +MacGillicuddy (_Functional Disorders of the Nervous System in Women_, p. +110) refers to the case of a lady who always had sudden and uncontrollable +expulsion of urine whenever her husband even began to perform the marital +act, on which account he finally ceased intercourse with her. Kubary +states that in Ponape (Western Carolines) the men are accustomed to +titillate the vulva of their women with the tongue until the excitement is +so intense that involuntary emission of urine takes place; this is +regarded as the proper moment for intercourse. + +[51] Thus Pitres and Régis (_Transactions of the International Medical +Congress, Moscow_, vol. iv, p. 19) record the case of a young girl whose +life was for some years tormented by a groundless fear of experiencing an +irresistible desire to urinate. This obsession arose from once seeing at a +theater a man whom she liked, and being overcome by sexual feeling +accompanied by so strong a desire to urinate that she had to leave the +theater. An exactly similar case in a young woman of erotic temperament, +but prudish, has been recorded by Freud (_Zur Neurosenlehre_, Bd. i, p. +54). Morbid obsessions of modesty involving the urinary sphere and +appearing at puberty are evidently based on transformed sexual emotion. +Such a case has been recorded by Marandon de Montyel (_Archives de +Neurologie_, vol. xii, 1901, p. 36); this lady, who was of somewhat +neuropathic temperament, from puberty onward, in order to be able to +urinate found it necessary not only to be absolutely alone, but to feel +assured that no one even knew what was taking place. + +[52] H. Ellis, "The Bladder as a Dynamometer," _American Journal of +Dermatology_, May, 1902. + +[53] Sir W. Gowers, "Minor Epilepsy," _British Medical Journal_, January +6, 1900; ib., _Epilepsy_, 2d ed., 1901, p. 106; see also H. Ellis, art. +"Urinary Bladder, Influence of the Mind on the," in Tuke's _Dictionary of +Psychological Medicine_. + +[54] Sérieux, _Recherches Cliniques sur les Anomalies de l'Instinct +Sexuel_, p. 22. + +[55] Emil Schultze-Malkowsky, "Der Sexuelle Trieb in Kindesalter," +_Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, vol. ii, part 8, p. 372. + +[56] Féré, "Note sur un Cas de Periodicité Sexuelle chez l'Homme," +_Comptes-rendus Société de Biologie_, July 23, 1904. + +[57] It is a familiar fact that, in women, occasionally, a violent +explosion of laughter may be propagated to the bladder-center and produce +urination. "She laughed till she nearly wetted the floor," I have heard a +young woman in the country say, evidently using without thought a familiar +locution. Professor Bechterew has recorded the case of a young married +lady who, from childhood, wherever she might be--in friends' houses, in +the street, in her own drawing-room--had always experienced an involuntary +and forcible emission of urine, which could not be stopped or controlled, +whenever she laughed; the bladder was quite sound and no muscular effort +produced the same result. (W. Bechterew, _Neurologisches Centralblatt_, +1899.) In women these relationships are most easily observed, partly +because in them the explosive centers are more easily discharged, and +partly, it is probable, so far as the bladder is concerned, because, +although after death the resistance to the emission of urine is notably +less in women, during life about the same amount of force is necessary in +both sexes; so that a greater amount of energy flows to the bladder in +women, and any nervous storm or disturbance is thus specially apt to +affect the bladder. + +[58] "Every pain," remarks Marie de Manacéine, "produces a number of +movements which are apparently useless: we cry out, we groan, we move our +limbs, we throw ourselves from one side to the other, and at bottom all +these movements are logical because by interrupting and breaking our +attention they render us less sensitive to the pain. In the days before +chloroform, skillful surgeons requested their patients to cry out during +the operation, as we are told by Gratiolet, who could not explain so +strange a fact, for in his time the antagonism of movements and attention +was not recognized." (Marie de Manacéine, _Archives Italiennes de +Biologie_, 1894, p. 250.) This antagonism of attention by movement is but +another way of expressing the vicarious relationship of motor discharges. + +[59] Joanny Roux, _Psychologie de l'Instinct Sexuel_, 1899, pp. 22-23. It +is disputed whether hunger is located in the whole organism, and powerful +arguments have been brought against the view. (W. Cannon, "The Nature of +Hunger," _Popular Science Monthly_, Sept., 1912.) Thirst is usually +regarded as organic (A. Mayer, _La Soif_, 1901). + +[60] If there is any objection to these terms it is chiefly because they +have reference to vascular congestion rather than to the underlying +nervous charging and discharging, which is equally fundamental, and in man +more prominent than the vascular phenomena. + + + + +LOVE AND PAIN. + +I. + +The Chief Key to the Relationship between Love and Pain to be Found in +Animal Courtship--Courtship a Source of Combativity and of Cruelty--Human +Play in the Light of Animal Courtship--The Frequency of Crimes Against the +Person in Adolescence--Marriage by Capture and its Psychological +Basis--Man's Pleasure in Exerting Force and Woman's Pleasure in +Experiencing it--Resemblance of Love to Pain even in Outward +Expression--The Love-bite--In what Sense Pain may be Pleasurable--The +Natural Contradiction in the Emotional Attitude of Women Toward +Men--Relative Insensibility to Pain of the Organic Sexual Sphere in +Women--The Significance of the Use of the Ampallang and Similar Appliances +in Coitus--The Sexual Subjection of Women to Men in Part Explainable as +the Necessary Condition for Sexual Pleasure. + + +The relation of love to pain is one of the most difficult problems, and +yet one of the most fundamental, in the whole range of sexual psychology. +Why is it that love inflicts, and even seeks to inflict, pain? Why is it +that love suffers pain, and even seeks to suffer it? In answering that +question, it seems to me, we have to take an apparently circuitous route, +sometimes going beyond the ostensible limits of sex altogether; but if we +can succeed in answering it we shall have come very near one of the great +mysteries of love. At the same time we shall have made clear the normal +basis on which rest the extreme aberrations of love. + +The chief key to the relationship of love to pain is to be found by +returning to the consideration of the essential phenomena of courtship in +the animal world generally. Courtship is a play, a game; even its combats +are often, to a large extent, mock-combats; but the process behind it is +one of terrible earnestness, and the play may at any moment become deadly. +Courtship tends to involve a mock-combat between males for the possession +of the female which may at any time become a real combat; it is a pursuit +of the female by the male which may at any time become a kind of +persecution; so that, as Colin Scott remarks, "Courting may be looked upon +as a refined and delicate form of combat." The note of courtship, more +especially among mammals, is very easily forced, and as soon as we force +it we reach pain.[61] The intimate and inevitable association in the +animal world of combat--of the fighting and hunting impulses--with the +process of courtship alone suffices to bring love into close connection +with pain. + +Among mammals the male wins the female very largely by the display of +force. The infliction of pain must inevitably be a frequent indirect +result of the exertion of power. It is even more than this; the infliction +of pain by the male on the female may itself be a gratification of the +impulse to exert force. This tendency has always to be held in check, for +it is of the essence of courtship that the male should win the female, and +she can only be won by the promise of pleasure. The tendency of the male +to inflict pain must be restrained, so far as the female is concerned, by +the consideration of what is pleasing to her. Yet, the more carefully we +study the essential elements of courtship, the clearer it becomes that, +playful as these manifestations may seem on the surface, in every +direction they are verging on pain. It is so among animals generally; it +is so in man among savages. "It is precisely the alliance of pleasure and +pain," wrote the physiologist Burdach, "which constitutes the voluptuous +emotion." + +Nor is this emotional attitude entirely confined to the male. The female +also in courtship delights to arouse to the highest degree in the male the +desire for her favors and to withhold those favors from him, thus finding +on her part also the enjoyment of power in cruelty. "One's cruelty is +one's power," Millament says in Congreve's _Way of the World_, "and when +one parts with one's cruelty one parts with one's power." + +At the outset, then, the impulse to inflict pain is brought into +courtship, and at the same time rendered a pleasurable idea to the female, +because with primitive man, as well as among his immediate ancestors, the +victor in love has been the bravest and strongest rather than the most +beautiful or the most skilful. Until he can fight he is not reckoned a man +and he cannot hope to win a woman. Among the African Masai a man is not +supposed to marry until he has blooded his spear, and in a very different +part of the world, among the Dyaks of Borneo, there can be little doubt +that the chief incentive to head-hunting is the desire to please the +women, the possession of a head decapitated by himself being an excellent +way of winning a maiden's favor.[62] Such instances are too well known to +need multiplication here, and they survive in civilization, for, even +among ourselves, although courtship is now chiefly ruled by quite other +considerations, most women are in some degree emotionally affected by +strength and courage. But the direct result of this is that a group of +phenomena with which cruelty and the infliction of pain must inevitably be +more or less allied is brought within the sphere of courtship and rendered +agreeable to women. Here, indeed, we have the source of that love of +cruelty which some have found so marked in women. This is a phase of +courtship which helps us to understand how it is that, as we shall see, +the idea of pain, having become associated with sexual emotion, may be +pleasurable to women. + +Thus, in order to understand the connection between love and pain, we have +once more to return to the consideration, under a somewhat new aspect, of +the fundamental elements in the sexual impulse. In discussing the +"Evolution of Modesty" we found that the primary part of the female in +courtship is the playful, yet serious, assumption of the rôle of a hunted +animal who lures on the pursuer, not with the object of escaping, but with +the object of being finally caught. In considering the "Analysis of the +Sexual Impulse" we found that the primary part of the male in courtship is +by the display of his energy and skill to capture the female or to arouse +in her an emotional condition which leads her to surrender herself to him, +this process itself at the same time heightening his own excitement. In +the playing of these two different parts is attained in both male and +female that charging of nervous energy, that degree of vascular +tumescence, necessary for adequate discharge and detumescence in an +explosion by which sperm-cells and germ-cells are brought together for the +propagation of the race. We are now concerned with the necessary interplay +of the differing male and female rôles in courtship, and with their +accidental emotional by-products. Both male and female are instinctively +seeking the same end of sexual union at the moment of highest excitement. +There cannot, therefore, be real conflict.[63] But there is the semblance +of a conflict, an apparent clash of aim, an appearance of cruelty. +Moreover,--and this is a significant moment in the process from our +present point of view,--when there are rivals for the possession of one +female there is always a possibility of actual combat, so tending to +introduce an element of real violence, of undisguised cruelty, which the +male inflicts on his rival and which the female views with satisfaction +and delight in the prowess of the successful claimant. Here we are brought +close to the zoölogical root of the connection between love and pain.[64] + +In his admirable work on play in man Groos has fully discussed the plays +of combat (_Kampfspiele_), which begin to develop even in childhood and +assume full activity during adolescence; and he points out that, while the +impulse to such play certainly has a wider biological significance, it +still possesses a relationship to the sexual life and to the rivalries of +animals in courtship which must not be forgotten.[65] + +Nor is it only in play that the connection between love and combativity +may still be traced. With the epoch of the first sexual relationship, +Marro points out, awakes the instinct of cruelty, which prompts the youth +to acts which are sometimes in absolute contrast to his previous conduct, +and leads him to be careless of the lives of others as well as of his own +life.[66] Marro presents a diagram showing how crimes against the person +in Italy rise rapidly from the age of 16 to 20 and reach a climax between +21 and 25. In Paris, Gamier states, crimes of blood are six times more +frequent in adolescents (aged 16 to 20) than in adults. It is the same +elsewhere.[67] This tendency to criminal violence during the age-period of +courtship is a by-product of the sexual impulse, a kind of tertiary sexual +character. + +In the process of what is commonly termed "marriage by capture" we have a +method of courtship which closely resembles the most typical form of +animal courtship, and is yet found in all but the highest and most +artificial stages of human society. It may not be true that, as MacLennan +and others have argued, almost every race of man has passed through an +actual stage of marriage by capture, but the phenomena in question have +certainly been extremely widespread and exist in popular custom even among +the highest races today. George Sand has presented a charming picture of +such a custom, existing in France, in her _Mare au Diable_. Farther away, +among the Kirghiz, the young woman is pursued by all her lovers, but she +is armed with a formidable whip, which she does not hesitate to use if +overtaken by a lover to whom she is not favorable. Among the Malays, +according to early travelers, courtship is carried on in the water in +canoes with double-bladed paddles; or, if no water is near, the damsel, +stripped naked of all but a waistband, is given a certain start and runs +off on foot followed by her lover. Vaughan Stevens in 1896 reported that +this performance is merely a sport; but Skeat and Blagden, in their more +recent and very elaborate investigations in the Malay States, find that it +is a rite. + +Even if we regard "marriage by capture" as simply a primitive human +institution stimulated by tribal exigencies and early social conditions, +yet, when we recall its widespread and persistent character, its close +resemblance to the most general method of courtship among animals, and the +emotional tendencies which still persist even in the most civilized men +and women, we have to recognize that we are in presence of a real +psychological impulse which cannot fail in its exercise to introduce some +element of pain into love. + +There are, however, two fundamentally different theories concerning +"marriage by capture." According to the first, that of MacLennan, which, +until recently, has been very widely accepted, and to which Professor +Tylor has given the weight of his authority, there has really been in +primitive society a recognized stage in which marriages were effected by +the capture of the wife. Such a state of things MacLennan regarded as once +world-wide. There can be no doubt that women very frequently have been +captured in this way among primitive peoples. Nor, indeed, has the custom +been confined to savages. In Europe we find that even up to comparatively +recent times the abduction of women was not only very common, but was +often more or less recognized. In England it was not until Henry VII's +time that the violent seizure of a woman was made a criminal offense, and +even then the statute was limited to women possessed of lands and goods. A +man might still carry off a girl provided she was not an heiress; but even +the abduction of heiresses continued to be common, and in Ireland remained +so until the end of the eighteenth century. But it is not so clear that +such raids and abductions, even when not of a genuinely hostile character, +have ever been a recognized and constant method of marriage. + +According to the second set of theories, the capture is not real, but +simulated, and may be accounted for by psychological reasons. Fustel de +Coulanges, in _La Cité Antique_,[68] discussing simulated marriage by +capture among the Romans, mentioned the view that it was "a symbol of the +young girl's modesty," but himself regarded it as an act of force to +symbolize the husband's power. He was possibly alluding to Herbert +Spencer, who suggested a psychological explanation of the apparent +prevalence of marriage by capture based on the supposition that, capturing +a wife being a proof of bravery, such a method of obtaining a wife would +be practised by the strongest men and be admired, while, on the other +hand, he considered that "female coyness" was "an important factor" in +constituting the more formal kinds of marriage by capture ceremonial.[69] +Westermarck, while accepting true marriage by capture, considers that +Spencer's statement "can scarcely be disproved."[70] In his valuable study +of certain aspects of primitive marriage Crawley, developing the +explanation rejected by Fustel de Coulanges, regards the fundamental fact +to be the modesty of women, which has to be neutralized, and this is done +by "a ceremonial use of force, which is half real and half make-believe." +Thus the manifestations are not survivals, but "arising in a natural way +from normal human feelings. It is not the tribe from which the bride is +abducted, nor, primarily, her family and kindred, but her _sex_"; and her +"sexual characters of timidity, bashfulness, and passivity are +sympathetically overcome by make-believe representations of male +characteristic actions."[71] + +It is not necessary for the present purpose that either of these two +opposing theories concerning the origin of the customs and feelings we are +here concerned with should be definitely rejected. Whichever theory is +adopted, the fundamental psychic element which here alone concerns us +still exists intact.[72] It may be pointed out, however, that we probably +have to accept two groups of such phenomena: one, seldom or never existing +as the sole form of marriage, in which the capture is real; and another in +which the "capture" is more or less ceremonial or playful. The two groups +coexist among the Turcomans, as described by Vambery, who are constantly +capturing and enslaving the Persians of both sexes, and, side by side with +this, have a marriage ceremonial of mock-capture of entirely playful +character. At the same time the two groups sometimes overlap, as is +indicated by cases in which, while the "capture" appears to be ceremonial, +the girl is still allowed to escape altogether if she wishes. The +difficulty of disentangling the two groups is shown by the fact that so +careful an investigator as Westermarck cites cases of real capture and +mock-capture together without attempting to distinguish between them. From +our present point of view it is quite unnecessary to attempt such a +distinction. Whether the capture is simulated or real, the man is still +playing the masculine and aggressive part proper to the male; the woman is +still playing the feminine and defensive part proper to the female. The +universal prevalence of these phenomena is due to the fact that +manifestations of this kind, real or pretended, afford each sex the very +best opportunity for playing its proper part in courtship, and so, even +when the force is real, must always gratify a profound instinct. + + It is not necessary to quote examples of marriage by capture from + the numerous and easily accessible books on the evolution of + marriage. (Sir A.B. Ellis, adopting MacLennan's standpoint, + presented a concise statement of the facts in an article on + "Survivals from Marriage by Capture," _Popular Science Monthly_, + 1891, p. 207.) It may, however, be worth while to bring together + from scattered sources a few of the facts concerning the + phenomena in this group and their accompanying emotional state, + more especially as they bear on the association of love with + force, inflicted or suffered. + + In New Caledonia, Foley remarks, the successful coquette goes off + with her lover into the bush. "It usually happens that, when she + is successful, she returns from her expedition, tumbled, beaten, + scratched, even bitten on the nape and shoulders, her wounds thus + bearing witness to the quadrupedal attitude she has assumed amid + the foliage." (Foley, _Bulletin de la Société d'Anthropologie_, + Paris, November 6, 1879.) + + Of the natives of New South Wales, Turnbull remarked at the + beginning of the nineteenth century that "their mode of courtship + is not without its singularity. When a young man sees a female to + his fancy he informs her she must accompany him home; the lady + refuses; he not only enforces compliance with threats but blows; + thus the gallant, according to the custom, never fails to gain + the victory, and bears off the willing, though struggling + pugilist. The colonists for some time entertained the idea that + the women were compelled and forced away against their + inclinations; but the young ladies informed them that this mode + of gallantry was the custom, and perfectly to their taste," (J. + Turnbull, _A Voyage Round the World_, 1813, p. 98; cf. Brough + Smyth, _Aborigines of Victoria_, 1878, vol. i, p. 81.) + + As regards capture of women among Central Australian tribes, + Spencer and Gillen remark: "We have never in any of these central + tribes met with any such thing, and the clubbing part of the + story may be dismissed, so far as the central area of the + continent is concerned. To the casual observer what looks like a + capture (we are, of course, only speaking of these tribes) is in + reality an elopement, in which the woman is an aiding and + abetting party." (_Northern Tribes of Central Australia_. p. 32.) + + "The New Zealand method of courtship and matrimony is a most + extraordinary one. A man sees a woman whom he fancies he should + like for a wife; he asks the consent of her father, or, if an + orphan, of her nearest relative, which, if he obtain, he carries + his intended off by force, she resisting with all her strength, + and, as the New Zealand girls are generally fairly robust, + sometimes a dreadful struggle takes place; both are soon stripped + to the skin and it is sometimes the work of hours to remove the + fair prize a hundred yards. It sometimes happens that she secures + her retreat into her father's house, and the lover loses all + chance of ever obtaining her." (A. Earle, _Narratives of + Residence in New Zealand_, 1832, p. 244.) + + Among the Eskimos (probably near Smith Sound) "there is no + marriage ceremony further than that the boy is required to carry + off his bride by main force, for even among these blubber-eating + people the woman only saves her modesty by a show of resistance, + although she knows years beforehand that her destiny is sealed + and that she is to become the wife of the man from whose + embraces, when the nuptial day comes, she is obliged by the + inexorable law of public opinion to free herself, if possible, by + kicking and screaming with might and main until she is safely + landed in the hut of her future lord, when she gives up the + combat very cheerfully and takes possession of her new abode. The + betrothal often takes place at a very early period of life and at + very dissimilar ages." Marriage only takes place when the lover + has killed his first seal; this is the test of manhood and + maturity. (J.J. Hayes, _Open Polar Sea_, 1867, p. 432.) + + Marriage by "capture" is common in war and raiding in central + Africa. "The women, as a rule," Johnston says, "make no very + great resistance on these occasions. It is almost like playing a + game. A woman is surprised as she goes to get water at the + stream, or when she is on the way to or from the plantation. The + man has only got to show her she is cornered and that escape is + not easy or pleasant and she submits to be carried off. As a + general rule, they seem to accept very cheerfully these abrupt + changes in their matrimonial existence." (Sir H.H. Johnston, + _British Central Africa_, p. 412.) + + Among the wild tribes of the Malay Peninsula in one form of + wedding rite the bridegroom is required to run seven times around + an artificial mound decorated with flowers and the emblem of the + people's religion. In the event of the bridegroom failing to + catch the bride the marriage has to be postponed. Among the Orang + Laut, or sea-gipsies, the pursuit sometimes takes the form of a + canoe-race; the woman is given a good start and must be overtaken + before she has gone a certain distance. (W.W. Skeat, _Journal + Anthropological Institute_, Jan.-June, 1902, p. 134; Skeat and + Blagden, _Pagan Races of the Malay_, vol. ii, p. 69 et seq., + fully discuss the ceremony around the mound.) + + "Calmuck women ride better than the men. A male Calmuck on + horseback looks as if he was intoxicated, and likely to fall off + every instant, though he never loses his seat; but the women sit + with more ease, and ride with extraordinary skill. The ceremony + of marriage among the Calmucks is performed on horseback. A girl + is first mounted, who rides off at full speed. Her lover pursues, + and if he overtakes her she becomes his wife and the marriage is + consummated upon the spot, after which she returns with him to + his tent. But it sometimes happens that the woman does not wish + to marry the person by whom she is pursued, in which case she + will not suffer him to overtake her; and we were assured that no + instance occurs of a Calmuck girl being thus caught, unless she + has a partiality for her pursuer. If she dislikes him, she rides, + to use the language of English sportsmen, 'neck or nothing,' + until she has completely escaped or until the pursuer's horse is + tired out, leaving her at liberty to return, to be afterward + chased by some more favored admirer." (E.D. Clarke, _Travels_, + 1810, vol. i, p. 333.) + + Among the Bedouins marriage is arranged between the lover and the + girl's father, often without consulting the girl herself. "Among + the Arabs of Sinai the young maid comes home in the evening with + the cattle. At a short distance from the camp she is met by the + future spouse and a couple of his young friends and carried off + by force to her father's tent. If she entertains any suspicion of + their designs she defends herself with stones, and often inflicts + wounds on the young men, even though she does not dislike the + lover, for, according to custom, the more she struggles, bites, + kicks, cries, and strikes, the more she is applauded ever after + by her own companions." After being taken to her father's tent, + where a man's cloak is thrown over her by one of the bridegroom's + relations, she is dressed in garments provided by her future + husband, and placed on a camel, "still continuing to struggle in + a most unruly manner, and held by the bridegroom's friends on + both sides." She is then placed in a recess of the husband's + tent. Here the marriage is finally consummated, "the bride still + continuing to cry very loudly. It sometimes happens that the + husband is obliged to tie his bride, and even to beat her, before + she can be induced to comply with his desires." If, however, she + really does not like her husband, she is perfectly free to leave + him next morning, and her father is obliged to receive her back + whether he wishes to or not. It is not considered proper for a + widow or divorced woman to make any resistance on being married. + (J.L. Burckhardt, _Notes on the Bedouins and Wahábys_, 1830, p. + 149 et seq.) + + Among the Turcomans forays for capturing and enslaving their + Persian neighbors were once habitual. Vambery describes their + "marriage ceremonial when the young maiden, attired in bridal + costume, mounts a high-bred courser, taking on her lap the + carcass of a lamb or goat, and setting off at full gallop, + followed by the bridegroom and other young men of the party, also + on horseback; she is always to strive, by adroit turns, etc., to + avoid her pursuers, that no one approach near enough to snatch + from her the burden on her lap. This game, called _kökbüri_ + (green wolf), is in use among all the nomads of central Asia." + (A. Vambery, _Travels in Central Asia_, 1864, p. 323.) + + In China, a missionary describes how, when he was called upon to + marry the daughter of a Chinese Christian brought up in native + customs, he was compelled to wait several hours, as the bride + refused to get up and dress until long after the time appointed + for the wedding ceremony, and then only by force. "Extreme + reluctance and dislike and fear are the true marks of a happy and + lively wedding." (A.E. Moule, _New China and Old_, p. 128.) + + It is interesting to find that in the Indian art of love a kind + of mock-combat, accompanied by striking, is a recognized and + normal method of heightening tumescence. Vatsyayana has a + chapter "On Various Manners of Striking," and he approves of the + man striking the woman on the back, belly, flanks, and buttocks, + before and during coitus, as a kind of play, increasing as sexual + excitement increases, which the woman, with cries and groans, + pretends to bid the man to stop. It is mentioned that, especially + in southern India, various instruments (scissors, needles, etc.) + are used in striking, but this practice is condemned as barbarous + and dangerous. (_Kama Sutra_, French translation, iii, chapter + v.) + + In the story of Aladdin, in the _Arabian Nights_, the bride is + undressed by the mother and the other women, who place her in the + bridegroom's bed "as if by force, and, according to the custom of + the newly married, she pretends to resist, twisting herself in + every direction, and seeking to escape from their hands." (_Les + Mille Nuits_, tr. Mardrus, vol. xi, p. 253.) + + It is said that in those parts of Germany where preliminary + _Probenächte_ before formal marriage are the rule it is not + uncommon for a young woman before finally giving herself to a man + to provoke him to a physical struggle. If she proves stronger she + dismisses him; if he is stronger she yields herself willingly. + (W. Henz, "Probenächte," _Sexual-Probleme_, Oct., 1910, p. 743.) + + Among the South Slavs of Servia and Bulgaria, according to + Krauss, it is the custom to win a woman by seizing her by the + ankle and bringing her to the ground by force. This method of + wooing is to the taste of the woman, and they are refractory to + any other method. The custom of beating or being beaten before + coitus is also found among the South Slavs. (Kryptadia, vol. vi, + p. 209.) + + In earlier days violent courtship was viewed with approval in the + European world, even among aristocratic circles. Thus in the + medieval _Lai de Graélent_ of Marie de France this Breton knight + is represented as very chaste, possessing a high ideal of love + and able to withstand the wiles of women. One day when he is + hunting in a forest he comes upon a naked damsel bathing, + together with her handmaidens. Overcome by her beauty, he seizes + her clothes in case she should be alarmed, but is persuaded to + hand them to her; then he proceeds to make love to her. She + replies that his love is an insult to a woman of her high + lineage. Finding her so proud, Graélent sees that his prayers are + in vain. He drags her by force into the depth of the forest, has + his will of her, and begs her very gently not to be angry, + promising to love her loyally and never to leave her. The damsel + saw that he was a good knight, courteous, and wise. She thought + within herself that if she were to leave him she would never find + a better friend. + + Brantôme mentions a lady who confessed that she liked to be + "half-forced" by her husband, and he remarks that a woman who is + "a little difficult and resists" gives more pleasure also to her + lover than one who yields at once, just as a hard-fought battle + is a more notable triumph than an easily won victory. (Brantôme, + _Vie des Dames Galantes_, discours i.) Restif de la Bretonne, + again, whose experience was extensive, wrote in his + _Anti-Justine_ that "all women of strong temperament like a sort + of brutality in sexual intercourse and its accessories." + + Ovid had said that a little force is pleasing to a woman, and + that she is grateful to the ravisher against whom she struggles + (_Ars Amatoria_, lib. i). One of Janet's patients (Raymond and + Janet, _Les Obsessions et la Psychasthénie_, vol. ii, p. 406) + complained that her husband was too good, too devoted. "He does + not know how to make me suffer a little. One cannot love anyone + who does not make one suffer a little." Another hysterical woman + (a silk fetichist, frigid with men) had dreams of men and animals + abusing her: "I cried with pain and was happy at the same time." + (Clérambault, _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, June, 1908, + p. 442.) + + It has been said that among Slavs of the lower class the wives + feel hurt if they are not beaten by their husbands. Paullinus, in + the seventeenth century, remarked that Russian women are never + more pleased and happy than when beaten by their husbands, and + regard such treatment as proof of love. (See, e.g., C.F. von + Schlichtegroll, _Sacher-Masoch und der Masochismus_, p. 69.) + Krafft-Ebing believes that this is true at the present day, and + adds that it is the same in Hungary, a Hungarian official having + informed him that the peasant women of the Somogyer Comitate do + not think they are loved by their husbands until they have + received the first box on the ear. (Krafft-Ebing, _Psychopathia + Sexualis_, English translation of the tenth edition, p. 188.) I + may add that a Russian proverb says "Love your wife like your + soul and beat her like your _shuba_" (overcoat); and, according + to another Russian proverb, "a dear one's blows hurt not long." + At the same time it has been remarked that the domination of men + by women is peculiarly frequent among the Slav peoples. (V. + Schlichtegroll, op. cit., p. 23.) Cellini, in an interesting + passage in his _Life_ (book ii, chapters xxxiv-xxxv), describes + his own brutal treatment of his model Caterina, who was also his + mistress, and the pleasure which, to his surprise, she took in + it. Dr. Simon Forman, also, the astrologist, tells in his + _Autobiography_ (p. 7) how, as a young and puny apprentice to a + hosier, he was beaten, scolded, and badly treated by the servant + girl, but after some years of this treatment he turned on her, + beat her black and blue, and ever after "Mary would do for him + all that she could." + + That it is a sign of love for a man to beat his sweetheart, and a + sign much appreciated by women, is illustrated by the episode of + Cariharta and Repolido, in "Rinconete and Cortadillo," one of + Cervantes's _Exemplary Novels_. The Indian women of South + America feel in the same way, and Mantegazza when traveling in + Bolivia found that they complained when they were not beaten by + their husbands, and that a girl was proud when she could say "He + loves me greatly, for he often beats me." (_Fisiologia della + Donna_, chapter xiii.) The same feeling evidently existed in + classic antiquity, for we find Lucian, in his "Dialogues of + Courtesans," makes a woman say: "He who has not rained blows on + his mistress and torn her hair and her garments is not yet in + love," while Ovid advises lovers sometimes to be angry with their + sweethearts and to tear their dresses. + + Among the Italian Camorrista, according to Russo, wives are very + badly treated. Expression is given to this fact in the popular + songs. But the women only feel themselves tenderly loved when + they are badly treated by their husbands; the man who does not + beat them they look upon as a fool. It is the same in the east + end of London. "If anyone has doubts as to the brutalities + practised on women by men," writes a London magistrate, "let him + visit the London Hospital on a Saturday night. Very terrible + sights will meet his eye. Sometimes as many as twelve or fourteen + women may be seen seated in the receiving room, waiting for their + bruised and bleeding faces and bodies to be attended to. In nine + cases out of ten the injuries have been inflicted by brutal and + perhaps drunken husbands. The nurses tell me, however, that any + remarks they may make reflecting on the aggressors are received + with great indignation by the wretched sufferers. They positively + will not hear a single word against the cowardly ruffians. + 'Sometimes,' said a nurse to me, 'when I have told a woman that + her husband is a brute, she has drawn herself up and replied: + "You mind your own business, miss. We find the rates and taxes, + and the likes of you are paid out of 'em to wait on us."'" + (Montagu Williams, _Round London_, p. 79.) + + "The prostitute really loves her _souteneur_, notwithstanding all + the persecutions he inflicts on her. Their torments only increase + the devotion of the poor slaves to their 'Alphonses.' + Parent-Duchâtelet wrote that he had seen them come to the + hospital with their eyes out of their heads, faces bleeding, and + bodies torn by the blows of their drunken lovers, but as soon as + they were healed they went back to them. Police-officers tell us + that it is very difficult to make a prostitute confess anything + concerning her _souteneur_. Thus, Rosa L., whom her 'Alphonse' + had often threatened to kill, even putting the knife to her + throat, would say nothing, and denied everything when the + magistrate questioned her. Maria R., with her face marked by a + terrible scar produced by her _souteneur_, still carefully + preserved many years afterward the portrait of the aggressor, and + when we asked her to explain her affection she replied: 'But he + wounded me because he loved me.' The _souteneur's_ brutality only + increases the ill-treated woman's love; the humiliation and + slavery in which the woman's soul is drowned feed her love." + (Niceforo, _Il Gergo_, etc., 1897, p. 128.) + + In a modern novel written in autobiographic form by a young + Australian lady the heroine is represented as striking her + betrothed with a whip when he merely attempts to kiss her. Later + on her behavior so stings him that his self-control breaks down + and he seizes her fiercely by the arms. For the first time she + realizes that he loves her. "I laughed a joyous little laugh, + saying 'Hal, we are quits'; when on disrobing for the night I + discovered on my soft white shoulders and arms--so susceptible to + bruises--many marks, and black. It had been a very happy day for + me." (Miles Franklin, _My Brilliant Career_.) + + It is in large measure the existence of this feeling of + attraction for violence which accounts for the love-letters + received by men who are accused of crimes of violence. Thus in + one instance, in Chicago (as Dr. Kiernan writes to me), "a man + arrested for conspiracy to commit abortion, and also suspected of + being a sadist, received many proposals of marriage and other + less modest expressions of affection from unknown women. To judge + by the signatures, these women belonged to the Germans and Slavs + rather than to the Anglo-Celts." + + Neuropathic or degenerative conditions sometimes serve to + accentuate or reveal ancestral traits that are very ancient in + the race. Under such conditions the tendency to find pleasure in + subjection and pain, which is often faintly traceable even in + normal civilized women, may become more pronounced. This may be + seen in a case described in some detail in the _Archivio di + Psichiatria_. The subject was a young lady of 19, of noble + Italian birth, but born in Tunis. On the maternal side there is a + somewhat neurotic heredity, and she is herself subject to attacks + of hystero-epileptoid character. She was very carefully, but + strictly, educated; she knows several languages, possesses marked + intellectual aptitudes, and is greatly interested in social and + political questions, in which she takes the socialistic and + revolutionary side. She has an attractive and sympathetic + personality; in complexion she is dark, with dark eyes and very + dark and abundant hair; the fine down on the upper lip and lower + parts of the cheeks is also much developed; the jaw is large, the + head acrocephalic, and the external genital organs of normal + size, but rather asymmetric. Ever since she was a child she has + loved to work and dream in solitude. Her dreams have always been + of love, since menstruation began as early as the age of 10, and + accompanied by strong sexual feelings, though at that age these + feelings remained vague and indefinite; but in them the desire + for pleasure was always accompanied by the desire for pain, the + desire to bite and destroy something, and, as it were, to + annihilate herself. She experienced great relief after periods of + "erotic rumination," and if this rumination took place at night + she would sometimes masturbate, the contact of the bedclothes, + she said, giving her the illusion of a man. In time this vague + longing for the male gave place to more definite desires for a + man who would love her, and, as she imagined, strike her. + Eventually she formed secret relationships with two or three + lovers in succession, each of these relationships being, however, + discovered by her family and leading to ineffectual attempts at + suicide. But the association of pain with love, which had + developed spontaneously in her solitary dreams, continued in her + actual relations with her lovers. During coitus she would bite + and squeeze her arms until the nails penetrated the flesh. When + her lover asked her why at the moment of coitus she would + vigorously repel him, she replied: "Because I want to be + possessed by force, to be hurt, suffocated, to be thrown down in + a struggle." At another time she said: "I want a man with all his + vitality, so that he can torture and kill my body." We seem to + see here clearly the ancient biological character of animal + courtship, the desire of the female to be violently subjugated by + the male. In this case it was united to sensitiveness to the + sexual domination of an intellectual man, and the subject also + sought to stimulate her lovers' intellectual tastes. (_Archivio + di Psichiatria_, vol. xx, fasc. 5-6, p. 528.) + +This association between love and pain still persists even among the most +normal civilized men and women possessing well-developed sexual impulses. +The masculine tendency to delight in domination, the feminine tendency to +delight in submission, still maintain the ancient traditions when the male +animal pursued the female. The phenomena of "marriage by capture," in its +real and its simulated forms, have been traced to various causes. But it +has to be remembered that these causes could only have been operative in +the presence of a favorable emotional aptitude, constituted by the +zoölogical history of our race and still traceable even today. To exert +power, as psychologists well recognize, is one of our most primary +impulses, and it always tends to be manifested in the attitude of a man +toward the woman he loves.[73] + +It might be possible to maintain that the primitive element of more or +less latent cruelty in courtship tends to be more rather than less marked +in civilized man. In civilization the opportunity of dissipating the +surplus energy of the courtship process by inflicting pain on rivals +usually has to be inhibited; thus the woman to be wooed tends to become +the recipient of the whole of this energy, both in its pleasure-giving and +its pain-giving aspects. Moreover, the natural process of courtship, as it +exists among animals and usually among the lower human races, tends to +become disguised and distorted in civilization, as well by economic +conditions as by conventional social conditions and even ethical +prescription. It becomes forgotten that the woman's pleasure is an +essential element in the process of courtship. A woman is often reduced to +seek a man for the sake of maintenance; she is taught that pleasure is +sinful or shameful, that sex-matters are disgusting, and that it is a +woman's duty, and also her best policy, to be in subjection to her +husband. Thus, various external checks which normally inhibit any passing +over of masculine sexual energy into cruelty are liable to be removed. + +We have to admit that a certain pleasure in manifesting his power over a +woman by inflicting pain upon her is an outcome and survival of the +primitive process of courtship, and an almost or quite normal constituent +of the sexual impulse in man. But it must be at once added that in the +normal well-balanced and well-conditioned man this constituent of the +sexual impulse, when present, is always held in check. When the normal man +inflicts, or feels the impulse to inflict, some degree of physical pain on +the woman he loves he can scarcely be said to be moved by cruelty. He +feels, more or less obscurely, that the pain he inflicts, or desires to +inflict, is really a part of his love, and that, moreover, it is not +really resented by the woman on whom it is exercised. His feeling is by +no means always according to knowledge, but it has to be taken into +account as an essential part of his emotional state. The physical force, +the teasing and bullying, which he may be moved to exert under the stress +of sexual excitement, are, he usually more or less unconsciously persuades +himself, not really unwelcome to the object of his love.[74] Moreover, we +have to bear in mind the fact--a very significant fact from more than one +point of view--that the normal manifestations of a woman's sexual pleasure +are exceedingly like those of pain. "The outward expressions of pain," as +a lady very truly writes,--"tears, cries, etc.,--which are laid stress on +to prove the cruelty of the person who inflicts it, are not so different +from those of a woman in the ecstasy of passion, when she implores the man +to desist, though that is really the last thing she desires."[75] If a man +is convinced that he is causing real and unmitigated pain, he becomes +repentant at once. If this is not the case he must either be regarded as a +radically abnormal person or as carried away by passion to a point of +temporary insanity. + +The intimate connection of love with pain, its tendency to approach +cruelty, is seen in one of the most widespread of the occasional and +non-essential manifestations of strong sexual emotion, especially in +women, the tendency to bite. We may find references to love-bites in the +literature of ancient as well as of modern times, in the East as well as +in the West. Plautus, Catullus, Propertius, Horace, Ovid, Petronius, and +other Latin writers refer to bites as associated with kisses and usually +on the lips. Plutarch says that Flora, the mistress of Cnæus Pompey, in +commending her lover remarked that he was so lovable that she could never +leave him without giving him a bite. In the Arabic _Perfumed Garden_ there +are many references to love-bites, while in the Indian _Kama Sutra_ of +Vatsyayana a chapter is devoted to this subject. Biting in love is also +common among the South Slavs.[76] The phenomenon is indeed sufficiently +familiar to enable Heine, in one of his _Romancero_, to describe those +marks by which the ancient chronicler states that Edith Swanneck +recognized Harold, after the Battle of Hastings, as the scars of the bites +she had once given him. + +It would be fanciful to trace this tendency back to that process of +devouring to which sexual congress has, in the primitive stages of its +evolution, been reduced. But we may probably find one of the germs of the +love-bite in the attitude of many mammals during or before coitus; in +attaining a firm grip of the female it is not uncommon (as may be observed +in the donkey) for the male to seize the female's neck between his teeth. +The horse sometimes bites the mare before coitus and it is said that among +the Arabs when a mare is not apt for coitus she is sent to pasture with a +small ardent horse, who excites her by playing with her and biting +her.[77] It may be noted, also, that dogs often show their affection for +their masters by gentle bites. Children also, as Stanley Hall has pointed +out, are similarly fond of biting. + +Perhaps a still more important factor is the element of combat in +tumescence, since the primitive conditions associated with tumescence +provide a reservoir of emotions which are constantly drawn on even in the +sexual excitement of individuals belonging to civilization. The tendency +to show affection by biting is, indeed, commoner among women than among +men and not only in civilization. It has been noted among idiot girls as +well as among the women of various savage races. It may thus be that the +conservative instincts of women have preserved a primitive tendency that +at its origin marked the male more than the female. But in any case the +tendency to bite at the climax of sexual excitement is so common and +widespread that it must be regarded, when occurring in women, as coming +within the normal range of variation in such manifestations. The +gradations are of wide extent; while in its slight forms it is more or +less normal and is one of the origins of the kiss,[78] in its extreme +forms it tends to become one of the most violent and antisocial of sexual +aberrations. + + A correspondent writes regarding his experience of biting and + being bitten: "I have often felt inclination to bite a woman I + love, even when not in coitus or even excited. (I like doing so + also with my little boy, playfully, as a cat and kittens.) There + seem to be several reasons for this: (1) the muscular effect + relieves me; (2) I imagine I am giving the woman pleasure; (3) I + seem to attain to a more intimate possession of the loved one. I + cannot remember when I first felt desire to be bitten in coitus, + or whether the idea was first suggested to me. I was initiated + into pinching by a French prostitute who once pinched my nates in + coitus, no doubt as a matter of business; it heightened my + pleasure, perhaps by stimulating muscular movement. It does not + occur to me to ask to be pinched when I am very much excited + already, but only at an earlier stage, no doubt with the object + of promoting excitement. Apart altogether from sexual excitement, + being pinched is unpleasant to me. It has not seemed to me that + women usually like to be bitten. One or two women have bitten and + sucked my flesh. (The latter does not affect me.) I like being + bitten, partly for the same reason as I like being pinched, + because if spontaneous it is a sign of my partner's amorousness + and the biting never seems too hard. Women do not usually seem to + like being bitten, though there are exceptions; 'I should like to + bite you and I should like you to bite me,' said one woman; I did + so hard, in coitus, and she did not flinch." "She is particularly + anxious to eat me alive," another correspondent writes, "and + nothing gives her greater satisfaction than to tear open my + clothes and fasten her teeth into my flesh until I yell for + mercy. My experience has generally been, however," the same + correspondent continues, "that the cruelty is _unconscious_. A + woman just grows mad with the desire to squeeze or bite + something, with a complete unconsciousness of what result it will + produce in the victim. She is astonished when she sees the result + and will hardly believe she has done it." It is unnecessary to + accumulate evidence of a tendency which is sufficiently common to + be fairly well known, but one or two quotations may be presented + to show its wide distribution. In the _Kama Sutra_ we read: "If + she is very exalted, and if in the exaltation of her passionate + transports she begins a sort of combat, then she takes her lover + by the hair, draws his head to hers, kisses his lower lip, and + then in her delirium bites him all over his body, shutting her + eyes"; it is added that with the marks of such bites lovers can + remind each other of their affections, and that such love will + last for ages. In Japan the maiden of Ainu race feels the same + impulse. A.H. Savage Landor (_Alone with the Hairy Ainu_, 1893, + p. 140) says of an Ainu girl: "Loving and biting went together + with her. She could not do the one without the other. As we sat + on a stone in the twilight she began by gently biting my fingers + without hurting me, as affectionate dogs do to their masters. She + then bit my arm, then my shoulder, and when she had worked + herself up into a passion she put her arms around my neck and bit + my cheeks. It was undoubtedly a curious way of making love, and, + when I had been bitten all over, and was pretty tired of the new + sensation, we retired to our respective homes. Kissing, + apparently, was an unknown art to her." + + The significance of biting, and the close relationship which, as + will have to be pointed out later, it reveals to other phenomena, + may be illustrated by some observations which have been made by + Alonzi on the peasant women of Sicily. "The women of the people," + he remarks, "especially in the districts where crimes of blood + are prevalent, give vent to their affection for their little ones + by kissing and sucking them on the neck and arms till they make + them cry convulsively; all the while they say: 'How sweet you + are! I will bite you, I will gnaw you all over,' exhibiting every + appearance of great pleasure. If a child commits some slight + fault they do not resort to simple blows, but pursue it through + the street and bite it on the face, ears, and arms until the + blood flows. At such moments the face of even a beautiful woman + is transformed, with injected eyes, gnashing teeth, and + convulsive tremors. Among both men and women a very common threat + is 'I will drink your blood.' It is told on ocular evidence that + a man who had murdered another in a quarrel licked the hot blood + from the victim's hand." (G. Alonzi, _Archivio di Psichiatria_, + vol. vi, fasc. 4.) A few years ago a nurse girl in New York was + sentenced to prison for cruelty to the baby in her charge. The + mother had frequently noticed that the child was in pain and at + last discovered the marks of teeth on its legs. The girl admitted + that she had bitten the child because that action gave her + intense pleasure. (_Alienist and Neurologist_, August, 1901, p. + 558.) In the light of such observations as these we may + understand a morbid perversion of affection such as was recorded + in the London police news some years ago (1894). A man of 30 was + charged with ill-treating his wife's illegitimate daughter, aged + 3, during a period of many months; her lips, eyes, and hands were + bitten and bruised from sucking, and sometimes her pinafore was + covered with blood. "Defendant admitted he had bitten the child + because he loved it." + + It is not surprising that such phenomena as these should + sometimes be the stimulant and accompaniment to the sexual act. + Ferriani thus reports such a case in the words of the young man's + mistress: "Certainly he is a strange, maddish youth, though he is + fond of me and spends money on me when he has any. He likes much + sexual intercourse, but, to tell the truth, he has worn out my + patience, for before our embraces there are always struggles + which become assaults. He tells me he has no pleasure except when + he sees me crying on account of his bites and vigorous pinching. + Lately, just before going with me, when I was groaning with + pleasure, he threw himself on me and at the moment of emission + furiously bit my right cheek till the blood came. Then he kissed + me and begged my pardon, but would do it again if the wish took + him." (L. Ferriani, _Archivio di Psicopatie Sessuale_, vol. i, + fasc. 7 and 8, 1896, p. 107.) + + In morbid cases biting may even become a substitute for coitus. + Thus, Moll (_Die Konträre Sexualempfindung_, second edition, p. + 323) records the case of a hysterical woman who was sexually + anesthetic, though she greatly loved her husband. It was her + chief delight to bite him till the blood flowed, and she was + content if, instead of coitus, he bit her and she him, though she + was grieved if she inflicted much pain. In other still more + morbid cases the fear of inflicting pain is more or less + abolished. + + An idealized view of the impulse of love to bite and devour is + presented in the following passage from a letter by a lady who + associates this impulse with the idea of the Last Supper: "Your + remarks about the Lord's Supper in 'Whitman' make it natural to + me to tell you my thoughts about that 'central sacrament of + Christianity.' I cannot tell many people because they + misunderstand, and a clergyman, a very great friend of mine, when + I once told what I thought and felt, said I was carnal. He did + not understand the divinity and intensity of human love as I + understand it. Well, when one loves anyone very much,--a child, a + woman, or a man,--one loves everything belonging to him: the + things he wears, still more his hands, and his face, every bit of + his body. We always want to have all, or part, of him as part of + ourselves. Hence the expression: I could _devour_ you, I love you + so. In some such warm, devouring way Jesus Christ, I have always + felt, loved each and every human creature. So it was that he took + this mystery of food, which by eating became part of ourselves, + as the symbol of the most intense human love, the most intense + Divine love. Some day, perhaps, love will be so understood by all + that this sacrament will cease to be a superstition, a bone of + contention, an 'article' of the church, and become, in all + simplicity, a symbol of pure love." + +While in men it is possible to trace a tendency to inflict pain, or the +simulacrum of pain, on the women they love, it is still easier to trace in +women a delight in experiencing physical pain when inflicted by a lover, +and an eagerness to accept subjection to his will. Such a tendency is +certainly normal. To abandon herself to her lover, to be able to rely on +his physical strength and mental resourcefulness, to be swept out of +herself and beyond the control of her own will, to drift idly in delicious +submission to another and stronger will--this is one of the commonest +aspirations in a young woman's intimate love-dreams. In our own age these +aspirations most often only find their expression in such dreams. In ages +when life was more nakedly lived, and emotion more openly expressed, it +was easier to trace this impulse. In the thirteenth century we have found +Marie de France--a French poetess living in England who has been credited +with "an exquisite sense of the generosities and delicacy of the heart," +and whose work was certainly highly appreciated in the best circles and +among the most cultivated class of her day--describing as a perfect, wise, +and courteous knight a man who practically commits a rape on a woman who +has refused to have anything to do with him, and, in so acting, he wins +her entire love. The savage beauty of New Caledonia furnishes no better +illustration of the fascination of force, for she, at all events, has done +her best to court the violence she undergoes. In Middleton's _Spanish +Gypsy_ we find exactly the same episode, and the unhappy Portuguese nun +wrote: "Love me for ever and make me suffer still more." To find in +literature more attenuated examples of the same tendency is easy. +Shakespeare, whose observation so little escaped, has seldom depicted the +adult passion of a grown woman, but in the play which he has mainly +devoted to this subject he makes Cleopatra refer to "amorous pinches," and +she says in the end: "The stroke of death is as a lover's pinch, which +hurts and is desired." "I think the Sabine woman enjoyed being carried off +like that," a woman remarked in front of Rubens's "Rape of the Sabines," +confessing that such a method of love-making appealed strongly to +herself, and it is probable that the majority of women would be prepared +to echo that remark. + + It may be argued that pain cannot give pleasure, and that when + what would usually be pain is felt as pleasure it cannot be + regarded as pain at all. It must be admitted that the emotional + state is often somewhat complex. Moreover, women by no means + always agree in the statement of their experience. It is + noteworthy, however, that even when the pleasurableness of pain + in love is denied it is still admitted that, under some + circumstances, pain, or the idea of pain, is felt as pleasurable. + I am indebted to a lady for a somewhat elaborate discussion of + this subject, which I may here quote at length: "As regards + physical pain, though the idea of it is sometimes exciting, I + think the reality is the reverse. A very slight amount of pain + destroys my pleasure completely. This was the case with me for + fully a month after marriage, and since. When pain has + occasionally been associated with passion, pleasure has been + sensibly diminished. I can imagine that, when there is a want of + sensitiveness so that the tender kiss or caress might fail to + give pleasure, more forcible methods are desired; but in that + case what would be pain to a sensitive person would be only a + pleasant excitement, and it could not be truly said that such + obtuse persons liked pain, though they might appear to do so. I + cannot think that anyone enjoys what is pain _to them_, if only + from the fact that it detracts and divides the attention. This, + however, is only my own idea drawn from my own negative + experience. No woman has ever told me that she would like to have + pain inflicted on her. On the other hand, the desire to inflict + pain seems almost universal among men. I have only met one man in + whom I have never at any time been able to detect it. At the same + time most men shrink from putting their ideas into practice. A + friend of my husband finds his chief pleasure in imagining women + hurt and ill-treated, but is too tender-hearted ever to inflict + pain on them in reality, even when they are willing to submit to + it. Perhaps a woman's readiness to submit to pain to please a man + may sometimes be taken for pleasure in it. Even when women like + the idea of pain, I fancy it is only because it implies + subjection to the man, from association with the fact that + physical pleasure must necessarily be preceded by submission to + his will." + + In a subsequent communication this lady enlarged and perhaps + somewhat modified her statements on this point:-- + + "I don't think that what I said to you was quite correct. + _Actual_ pain gives me no pleasure, yet the _idea_ of pain does, + _if inflicted by way of discipline and for the ultimate good of + the person suffering it_. This is essential. For instance, I once + read a poem in which the devil and the lost souls in hell were + represented as recognizing that they could not be good except + under torture, but that while suffering the purifying actions of + the flames of hell they so realized the beauty of holiness that + they submitted willingly to their agony and praised God for the + sternness of his judgment. This poem gave me decided physical + pleasure, yet I know that if my hand were held in a fire for five + minutes I should feel nothing but the pain of the burning. To get + the feeling of pleasure, too, I must, for the moment, revert to + my old religious beliefs and my old notion that mere suffering + has an elevating influence; one's emotions are greatly modified + by one's beliefs. When I was about fifteen I invented a game + which I played with a younger sister, in which we were supposed + to be going through a process of discipline and preparation for + heaven after death. Each person was supposed to enter this state + on dying and to pass successively into the charge of different + angels named after the special virtues it was their function to + instill. The last angel was that of Love, who governed solely by + the quality whose name he bore. In the lower stages, we were + under an angel called Severity who prepared us by extreme + harshness and by exacting implicit obedience to arbitrary orders + for the acquirement of later virtues. Our duties were to + superintend the weather, paint the sunrise and sunset, etc., the + constant work involved exercising us in patience and submission. + The physical pleasure came in in inventing and recounting to each + other our day's work and the penalties and hardships we had been + subjected to. We never told each other that we got any physical + pleasure out of this, and I cannot therefore be sure that my + sister did so; I only imagine she did because she entered so + heartily into the spirit of the game. I could get as much + pleasure by imagining myself the angel and inflicting the pain, + under the conditions mentioned; but my sister did not like this + so much, as she then had no companion in subjection. I could not, + however, thus reverse my feelings in regard to a man, as it would + appear to me unnatural, and, besides, the greater physical + strength is essential in the superior position. I can, however, + by imagining myself a man, sometimes get pleasure in conceiving + myself as educating and disciplining a woman by severe measures. + There is, however, no real cruelty in this idea, as I always + imagine her liking it. + + "I only get pleasure in the idea of a woman submitting herself to + pain and harshness from the man she loves when the following + conditions are fulfilled: 1. She must be absolutely sure of the + man's love. 2. She must have perfect confidence in his judgment. + 3. The pain must be deliberately inflicted, not accidental. 4. It + must be inflicted in kindness and for her own improvement, not in + anger or with any revengeful feelings, as that would spoil one's + ideal of the man. 5. The pain must not be excessive and must be + what when we were children we used to call a 'tidy' pain; i.e., + there must be no mutilation, cutting, etc. 6. Last, one would + have to feel very sure of one's own influence over the man. So + much for the idea. As I have never suffered pain under a + combination of all these conditions, I have no right to say that + I should or should not experience pleasure from its infliction in + reality." + + Another lady writes: "I quite agree that the idea of pain may be + pleasurable, but must be associated with something to be gained + by it. My experience is that it [coitus] does often hurt for a + few moments, but that passes and the rest is easy; so that the + little hurt is nothing terrible, but all the same annoying if + only for the sake of a few minutes' pleasure, which is not long + enough. I do not know how my experience compares with other + women's, but I feel sure that in my case the time needed is + longer than usual, and the longer the better, always, with me. As + to liking pain--no, I do not really like it, although I can + tolerate pain very well, of any kind; but I like to feel force + and strength; this is usual, I think, women being--or supposed to + be--passive in love. I have not found that 'pain at once kills + pleasure.'" + + Again, another lady briefly states that, for her, pain has a + mental fascination, and that such pain as she has had she has + liked, but that, if it had been any stronger, pleasure would have + been destroyed. + + The evidence thus seems to point, with various shades of + gradation, to the conclusion that the idea or even the reality of + pain in sexual emotion is welcomed by women, provided that this + element of pain is of small amount and subordinate to the + pleasure which is to follow it. Unless coitus is fundamentally + pleasure the element of pain must necessarily be unmitigated + pain, and a craving for pain unassociated with a greater + satisfaction to follow it cannot be regarded as normal. + + In this connection I may refer to a suggestive chapter on "The + Enjoyment of Pain" in Hirn's _Origins of Art_. "If we take into + account," says Hirn, "the powerful stimulating effect which is + produced by acute pain, we may easily understand why people + submit to momentary unpleasantness for the sake of enjoying the + subsequent excitement. This motive leads to the deliberate + creation, not only of pain-sensations, but also of emotions in + which pain enters as an element. The violent activity which is + involved in the reaction against fear, and still more in that + against anger, affords us a sensation of pleasurable excitement + which is well worth the cost of the passing unpleasantness. It + is, moreover, notorious that some persons have developed a + peculiar art of making the initial pain of anger so transient + that they can enjoy the active elements in it with almost + undivided delight. Such an accomplishment is far more difficult + in the case of sorrow.... The creation of pain-sensations may be + explained as a desperate device for enhancing the intensity of + the emotional state." + + The relation of pain and pleasure to emotion has been thoroughly + discussed, I may add, by H.R. Marshall in his _Pain, Pleasure, + and Æsthetics_. He contends that pleasure and pain are "general + qualities, one of which must, and either of which may, belong to + any fixed element of consciousness." "Pleasure," he considers, + "is experienced whenever the physical activity coincident with + the psychic state to which the pleasure is attached involves the + use of surplus stored force." We can see, therefore, how, if pain + acts as a stimulant to emotion, it becomes the servant of + pleasure by supplying it with surplus stored force. + + This problem of pain is thus one of psychic dynamics. If we + realize this we shall begin to understand the place of cruelty in + life. "One ought to learn anew about cruelty," said Nietzsche + (_Beyond Good and Evil_, 229), "and open one's eyes. Almost + everything that we call 'higher culture' is based upon the + spiritualizing and intensifying of _cruelty_.... Then, to be + sure, we must put aside teaching the blundering psychology of + former times, which could only teach with regard to cruelty that + it originated at the sight of the suffering of _others_; there is + an abundant, superabundant enjoyment even in one's own suffering, + in causing one's own suffering." The element of paradox + disappears from this statement if we realize that it is not a + question of "cruelty," but of the dynamics of pain. + + Camille Bos in a suggestive essay ("Du Plaisir de la Douleur," + _Revue Philosophique_, July, 1902) finds the explanation of the + mystery in that complexity of the phenomena to which I have + already referred. Both pain and pleasure are complex feelings, + the resultant of various components, and we name that resultant + in accordance with the nature of the strongest component. "Thus + we give to a complexus a name which strictly belongs only to one + of its factors, _and in pain all is not painful_." When pain + becomes a desired end Camille Bos regards the desire as due to + three causes: (1) the pain contrasts with and revives a pleasure + which custom threatens to dull; (2) the pain by preceding the + pleasure accentuates the positive character of the latter; (3) + pain momentarily raises the lowered level of sensibility and + restores to the organism for a brief period the faculty of + enjoyment it had lost. + + It must therefore be said that, in so far as pain is pleasurable, + it is so only in so far as it is recognized as a prelude to + pleasure, or else when it is an actual stimulus to the nerves + conveying the sensation of pleasure. The nymphomaniac who + experienced an orgasm at the moment when the knife passed through + her clitoris (as recorded by Mantegazza) and the prostitute who + experienced keen pleasure when the surgeon removed vegetations + from her vulva (as recorded by Féré) took no pleasure in pain, + but in one case the intense craving for strong sexual emotion, + and in the other the long-blunted nerves of pleasure, welcomed + the abnormally strong impulse; and the pain of the incision, if + felt at all, was immediately swallowed up in the sensation of + pleasure. Moll remarks (_Konträre Sexualempfindung_, third + edition, p. 278) that even in man a trace of physical pain may be + normally combined with sexual pleasure, when the vagina + contracts on the penis at the moment of ejaculation, the pain, + when not too severe, being almost immediately felt as pleasure. + That there is no pleasure in the actual pain, even in masochism, + is indicated by the following statement which Krafft-Ebing gives + as representing the experiences of a masochist (_Psychopathia + Sexualis_ English translation, p. 201): "The relation is not of + such a nature that what causes physical pain is simply perceived + as physical pleasure, for the person in a state of masochistic + ecstasy feels no pain, either because by reason of his emotional + state (like that of the soldier in battle) the physical effect on + his cutaneous nerves is not apperceived, or because (as with + religious martyrs and enthusiasts) in the preoccupation of + consciousness with sexual emotion the idea of maltreatment + remains merely a symbol, without its quality of pain. To a + certain extent there is overcompensation of physical pain in + psychic pleasure, and only the excess remains in consciousness as + psychic lust. This also undergoes an increase, since, either + through reflex spinal influence or through a peculiar coloring in + the sensorium of sensory impressions, a kind of hallucination of + bodily pleasure takes place, with a vague localization of the + objectively projected sensation. In the self-torture of religious + enthusiasts (fakirs, howling dervishes, religious flagellants) + there is an analogous state, only with a difference in the + quality of pleasurable feeling. Here the conception of martyrdom + is also apperceived without its pain, for consciousness is filled + with the pleasurably colored idea of serving God, atoning for + sins, deserving Heaven, etc., through martyrdom." This statement + cannot be said to clear up the matter entirely; but it is fairly + evident that, when a woman says that she finds pleasure in the + pain inflicted by a lover, she means that under the special + circumstances she finds pleasure in treatment which would at + other times be felt as pain, or else that the slight real pain + experienced is so quickly followed by overwhelming pleasure that + in memory the pain itself seems to have been pleasure and may + even be regarded as the symbol of pleasure. + + There is a special peculiarity of physical pain, which may be + well borne in mind in considering the phenomena now before us, + for it helps to account for the tolerance with which the idea of + pain is regarded. I refer to the great ease with which physical + pain is forgotten, a fact well known to all mothers, or to all + who have been present at the birth of a child. As Professor von + Tschisch points out ("Der Schmerz," _Zeitschrift für Psychologie + und Physiologie der Sinnesorgane_, Bd. xxvi, ht. 1 and 2, 1901), + memory can only preserve impressions as a whole; physical pain + consists of a sensation and of a feeling. But memory cannot + easily reproduce the definite sensation of the pain, and thus the + whole memory is disintegrated and speedily forgotten. It is quite + otherwise with moral suffering, which persists in memory and has + far more influence on conduct. No one wishes to suffer moral pain + or has any pleasure even in the idea of suffering it. + +It is the presence of this essential tendency which leads to a certain +apparent contradiction in a woman's emotions. On the one hand, rooted in +the maternal instinct, we find pity, tenderness, and compassion; on the +other hand, rooted in the sexual instinct, we find a delight in roughness, +violence, pain, and danger, sometimes in herself, sometimes also in +others. The one impulse craves something innocent and helpless, to cherish +and protect; the other delights in the spectacle of recklessness, +audacity, sometimes even effrontery.[79] A woman is not perfectly happy in +her lover unless he can give at least some satisfaction to each of these +two opposite longings. + +The psychological satisfaction which women tend to feel in a certain +degree of pain in love is strictly co-ordinated with a physical fact. +Women possess a minor degree of sensibility in the sexual region. This +fact must not be misunderstood. On the one hand, it by no means begs the +question as to whether women's sensibility generally is greater or less +than that of men; this is a disputed question and the evidence is still +somewhat conflicting.[80] On the other hand, it also by no means involves +a less degree of specific sexual pleasure in women, for the tactile +sensibility of the sexual organs is no index to the specific sexual +sensibility of those organs when in a state of tumescence. The real +significance of the less tactile sensibility of the genital region in +women is to be found in parturition and the special liability of the +sexual region in women to injury.[81] The women who are less sensitive in +this respect would be better able and more willing to endure the risks of +childbirth, and would therefore tend to supplant those who were more +sensitive. But, as a by-product of this less degree of sensibility, we +have a condition in which physical irritation amounting even to pain may +become to normal women in the state of extreme tumescence a source of +pleasurable excitement, such as it would rarely be to normal men. + + To Calmann appear to be due the first carefully made observations + showing the minor sensibility of the genital tract in women. + (Adolf Calmann, "Sensibilitütsprufungen am weiblicken Genitale + nach forensichen Gesichtspunkten," _Archiv für Gynäkologie_, + 1898, p. 454.) He investigated the vagina, urethra, and anus in + eighteen women and found a great lack of sensibility, least + marked in anus, and most marked in vagina. [This distribution of + the insensitiveness alone indicates that it is due, as I have + suggested, to natural selection.] Sometimes a finger in the + vagina could not be felt at all. One woman, when a catheter was + introduced into the anus, said it might be the vagina or urethra, + but was certainly not the anus. (Calmann remarks that he was + careful to put his questions in an intelligible form.) The women + were only conscious of the urine being drawn off when they heard + the familiar sound of the stream or when the bladder was very + full; if the sound of the stream was deadened by a towel they + were quite unconscious that the bladder had been emptied. [In + confirmation of this statement I have noticed that in a lady + whose distended bladder it was necessary to empty by the catheter + shortly before the birth of her first child--but who had, indeed, + been partly under the influence of chloroform--there was no + consciousness of the artificial relief; she merely remarked that + she thought she could now relieve herself.] There was some sense + of temperature, but sense of locality, tactile sense, and + judgment of size were often widely erroneous. It is significant + that virgins were just as insensitive as married women or those + who had had children. Calmann's experiments appear to be + confirmed by the experiments of Marco Treves, of Turin, on the + thermoesthesiometry of mucous membranes, as reported to the Turin + International Congress of Physiology (and briefly noted in + _Nature_, November 21, 1901). Treves found that the sensitivity + of mucous membranes is always less than that of the skin. The + mucosa of the urethra and of the cervix uteri was quite incapable + of heat and cold sensations, and even the cautery excited only + slight, and that painful, sensation. + + In further illustration of this point reference may be made to + the not infrequent cases in which the whole process of + parturition and the enormous distention of tissues which it + involves proceed throughout in an almost or quite painless + manner. It is sufficient to refer to two cases reported in Paris + by Macé and briefly summarized in the _British Medical Journal_, + May 25, 1901. In the first the patient was a primipara 20 years + of age, and, until the dilatation of the cervix was complete and + efforts at expulsion had commenced, the uterine contractions were + quite painless. In the second case, the mother, aged 25, a + tripara, had previously had very rapid labors; she awoke in the + middle of the night without pains, but during micturition the + fetal head appeared at the vulva, and was soon born. + + Further illustration may be found in those cases in which severe + inflammatory processes may take place in the genital canal + without being noticed. Thus, Maxwell reports the case of a young + Chinese woman, certainly quite normal, in whom after the birth of + her first child the vagina became almost obliterated, yet beyond + slight occasional pain she noticed nothing wrong until the + husband found that penetration was impossible (_British Medical + Journal_, January 11, 1902, p. 78). The insensitiveness of the + vagina and its contrast, in this respect, with the penis--though + we are justified in regarding the penis as being, like organs of + special sense, relatively deficient in general sensibility--are + vividly presented in such an incident as the following, reported + a few years ago in America by Dr. G.W. Allen in the _Boston + Medical and Surgical Journal_: A man came under observation with + an edematous, inflamed penis. The wife, the night previous, on + advice of friends, had injected pure carbolic acid into the + vagina just previous to coitus. The husband, ignorant of the + fact, experienced untoward burning and smarting during and after + coitus, but thought little of it, and soon fell asleep. The next + morning there were large blisters on the penis, but it was no + longer painful. When seen by Dr. Allen the prepuce was retracted + and edematous, the whole penis was much swollen, and there were + large, perfectly raw surfaces on either side of the glans. + +In this connection we may well bring into line a remarkable group of +phenomena concerning which much evidence has now accumulated. I refer to +the use of various appliances, fixed in or around the penis, whether +permanently or temporarily during coitus, such appliance being employed at +the woman's instigation and solely in order to heighten her excitement in +congress. These appliances have their great center among the Indonesian +peoples (in Borneo, Java, Sumatra, the Malay peninsula, the Philippines, +etc.), thence extending in a modified form through China, to become, it +appears, considerably prevalent in Russia; I have also a note of their +appearance in India. They have another widely diffused center, through +which, however, they are more sparsely scattered, among the American +Indians of the northern and more especially of the southern continents. +Amerigo Vespucci and other early travelers noted the existence of some of +these appliances, and since Miklucho-Macleay carefully described them as +used in Borneo[82] their existence has been generally recognized. They are +usually regarded merely as ethnological curiosities. As such they would +not concern us here. Their real significance for us is that they +illustrate the comparative insensitiveness of the genital canal in women, +while at the same time they show that a certain amount of what we cannot +but regard as painful stimulation is craved by women, in order to heighten +tumescence and increase sexual pleasure, even though it can only by +procured by artificial methods. It is, of course, possible to argue that +in these cases we are not concerned with pain at all, but with a strong +stimulation that is felt as purely pleasurable. There can be no doubt, +however, that in the absence of sexual excitement this stimulation would +be felt as purely painful, and--in the light of our previous +discussion--we may, perhaps, fairly regard it as a painful stimulation +which is craved, not because it is itself pleasurable, but because it +heightens the highly pleasurable state of tumescence. + + Borneo, the geographical center of the Indonesian world, appears + also to be the district in which these instruments are most + popular. The _ampallang, palang, kambion_, or _sprit-sail yard_, + as it is variously termed, is a little rod of bone or metal + nearly two inches in length, rounded at the ends, and used by the + Kyans and Dyaks of Borneo. Before coitus it is inserted into a + transverse orifice in the penis, made by a painful and somewhat + dangerous operation and kept open by a quill. Two or more of + these instruments are occasionally worn. Sometimes little brushes + are attached to each end of the instrument. Another instrument, + used by the Dyaks, but said to have been borrowed from the + Malays, is the _palang anus_, which is a ring or collar of + plaited palm-fiber, furnished with a pair of stiffish horns of + the same wiry material; it is worn on the neck of the glans and + fits tight to the skin so as not to slip off. (Brooke Low, "The + Natives of Borneo," _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, + August and November, 1892, p. 45; the _ampallang_ and similar + instruments are described by Ploss and Bartels, _Das Weib_, Bd. + i, chapter xvii; also in _Untrodden Fields of Anthropology_, by a + French army surgeon, 1898, vol. ii, pp. 135-141; also Mantegazza, + _Gli Amori degli Uomini_, French translation, p. 83 et seq.) + Riedel informed Miklucho-Macleay that in the Celebes the Alfurus + fasten the eyelids of goats with the eyelashes round the corona + of the glans penis, and in Java a piece of goatskin is used in a + similar way, so as to form a hairy sheath (_Zeitschrift für + Ethnologie_, 1876, pp. 22-25), while among the Batta, of Sumatra, + Hagen found that small stones are inserted by an incision under + the skin of the penis (_Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1891, ht. 3, + p. 351). + + In the Malay peninsula Stevens found instruments somewhat similar + to the _ampallang_ still in use among some tribes, and among + others formerly in use. He thinks they were brought from Borneo. + (H.V. Stevens, _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1896, ht. 4, p. + 181.) Bloch, who brings forward other examples of similar devices + (_Beiträge zur Ætiologie der Psychopathia Sexualis_, pp. 56-58), + considers that the Australian mica operation may thus in part be + explained. + + Such instruments are not, however, entirely unknown in Europe. In + France, in the eighteenth century, it appears that rings, + sometimes set with hard knobs, and called "aides," were + occasionally used by men to heighten the pleasure of women in + intercourse. (Dühren, _Marquis de Sade_, 1901, p. 130.) In + Russia, according to Weissenberg, of Elizabethsgrad, it is not + uncommon to use elastic rings set with little teeth; these rings + are fastened around the base of the glans. (Weissenberg, + _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1893, ht. 2, p. 135.) This + instrument must have been brought to Russia from the East, for + Burton (in the notes to his _Arabian Nights_) mentions a + precisely similar instrument as in use in China. Somewhat similar + is the "Chinese hedgehog," a wreath of fine, soft feathers with + the quills solidly fastened by silver wire to a ring of the same + metal, which is slipped over the glans. In South America the + Araucanians of Argentina use a little horsehair brush fastened + around the penis; one of these is in the museum at La Plata; it + is said the custom may have been borrowed from the Patagonians; + these instruments, called _geskels_, are made by the women and + the workmanship is very delicate. (Lehmann-Nitsche, _Zeitschrift + für Ethnologie_, 1900, ht. 6, p. 491.) It is noteworthy that a + somewhat similar tuft of horsehair is also worn in Borneo. + (Breitenstein, _21 Jahre in India_, 1899, pt. i, p. 227.) Most of + the accounts state that the women attach great importance to the + gratification afforded by such instruments. In Borneo a modest + woman symbolically indicates to her lover the exact length of the + ampallang she would prefer by leaving at a particular spot a + cigarette of that length. Miklucho-Macleay considers that these + instruments were invented by women. Brooke Low remarks that "no + woman once habituated to its use will ever dream of permitting + her bedfellow to discontinue the practice of wearing it," and + Stevens states that at one time no woman would marry a man who + was not furnished with such an apparatus. It may be added that a + very similar appliance may be found in European countries + (especially Germany) in the use of a condom furnished with + irregularities, or a frill, in order to increase the woman's + excitement. It is not impossible to find evidence that, in + European countries, even in the absence of such instruments, the + craving which they gratify still exists in women. Thus, Mauriac + tells of a patient with vegetations on the glans who delayed + treatment because his mistress liked him so best (art. + "Végétations," _Dictionnaire de Médecine et Chirurgie pratique_). + + It may seem that such impulses and such devices to gratify them + are altogether unnatural. This is not so. They have a zoölogical + basis and in many animals are embodied in the anatomical + structure. Many rodents, ruminants, and some of the carnivora + show natural developments of the penis closely resembling some of + those artificially adopted by man. Thus the guinea-pigs possess + two horny styles attached to the penis, while the glans of the + penis is covered with sharp spines. Some of the Caviidæ also have + two sharp, horny saws at the side of the penis. The cat, the + rhinoceros, the tapir, and other animals possess projecting + structures on the penis, and some species of ruminants, such as + the sheep, the giraffe, and many antelopes, have, attached to the + penis, long filiform processes through which the urethra passes. + (F.H.A. Marshall, _The Physiology of Reproduction_, pp. 246-248.) + + We find, even in creatures so delicate and ethereal as the + butterflies, a whole armory of keen weapons for use in coitus. + These were described in detail in an elaborate and fully + illustrated memoir by P.H. Gosse ("On the Clasping Organs + Ancillary to Generation in Certain Groups of the Lepidoptera," + _Transactions of the Linnæan Society_, second series, vol. ii, + Zoölogy, 1882). These organs, which Gosse terms _harpes_ (or + grappling irons), are found in the Papilionidæ and are very + beautiful and varied, taking the forms of projecting claws, + hooks, pikes, swords, knobs, and strange combinations of these, + commonly brought to a keen edge and then cut into sharp teeth. + + It is probable that all these structures serve to excite the + sexual apparatus of the female and to promote tumescence. + + To the careless observer there may seem to be something vicious + or perverted in such manifestations in man. That opinion becomes + very doubtful when we consider how these tendencies occur in + people living under natural conditions in widely separated parts + of the world. It becomes still further untenable if we are + justified in believing that the ancestors of men possessed + projecting epithelial appendages attached to the penis, and if we + accept the discovery by Friedenthal of the rudiment of these + appendages on the penis of the human fetus at an early stage + (Friedenthal, "Sonderformen der menschlichen Leibesbildung," + _Sexual-Probleme_, Feb., 1912, p. 129). In this case human + ingenuity would merely be seeking to supply an organ which nature + has ceased to furnish, although it is still in some cases needed, + especially among peoples whose aptitude for erethism has remained + at, or fallen to, a subhuman level. + +At first sight the connection between love and pain--the tendency of men +to delight in inflicting it and women in suffering it--seems strange and +inexplicable. It seems amazing that a tender and even independent woman +should maintain a passionate attachment to a man who subjects her to +physical and moral insults, and that a strong man, often intelligent, +reasonable, and even kind-hearted, should desire to subject to such +insults a woman whom he loves passionately and who has given him every +final proof of her own passion. In understanding such cases we have to +remember that it is only within limits that a woman really enjoys the +pain, discomfort, or subjection to which she submits. A little pain which +the man knows he can himself soothe, a little pain which the woman gladly +accepts as the sign and forerunner of pleasure--this degree of pain comes +within the normal limits of love and is rooted, as we have seen, in the +experience of the race. But when it is carried beyond these limits, though +it may still be tolerated because of the support it receives from its +biological basis, it is no longer enjoyed. The natural note has been too +violently struck, and the rhythm of love has ceased to be perfect. A woman +may desire to be forced, to be roughly forced, to be ravished away beyond +her own will. But all the time she only desires to be forced toward those +things which are essentially and profoundly agreeable to her. A man who +fails to realize this has made little progress in the art of love. "I like +being knocked about and made to do things I don't want to do," a woman +said, but she admitted, on being questioned, that she would not like to +have _much_ pain inflicted, and that she might not care to be made to do +important things she did not want to do. The story of Griselda's unbounded +submissiveness can scarcely be said to be psychologically right, though it +has its artistic rightness as an elaborate fantasia on this theme +justified by its conclusion. + + This point is further illustrated by the following passage from a + letter written by a lady: "Submission to the man's will is still, + and always must be, the prelude to pleasure, and the association + of ideas will probably always produce this much misunderstood + instinct. Now, I find, indirectly from other women and directly + from my own experience, that, when the point in dispute is very + important and the man exerts his authority, the desire to get + one's own way completely obliterates the sexual feeling, while, + conversely, in small things the sexual feeling obliterates the + desire to have one's own way. Where the two are nearly equal a + conflict between them ensues, and I can stand aside and wonder + which will get the best of it, though I encourage the sexual + feeling when possible, as, if the other conquers, it leaves a + sense of great mental irritation and physical discomfort. A man + should command in small things, as in nine cases out of ten this + will produce excitement. He should _advise_ in large matters, or + he may find either that he is unable to enforce his orders or + that he produces a feeling of dislike and annoyance he was far + from intending. Women imagine men must be stronger than + themselves to excite their passion. I disagree. A passionate man + has the best chance, for in him the primitive instincts are + strong. The wish to subdue the female is one of them, and in + small things he will exert his authority to make her feel his + power, while she knows that on a question of real importance she + has a good chance of getting her own way by working on his + greater susceptibility. Perhaps an illustration will show what I + mean. I was listening to the band and a girl and her _fiancé_ + came up to occupy two seats near me. The girl sank into one seat, + but for some reason the man wished her to take the other. She + refused. He repeated his order twice, the second time so + peremptorily that she changed places, and I heard him say: 'I + don't think you heard what I said. I don't expect to give an + order three times.' + + "This little scene interested me, and I afterward asked the girl + the following questions:-- + + "'Had you any reason for taking one chair more than the other?' + + "'No.' + + "'Did Mr. ----'s insistence on your changing give you any + pleasure?' + + "'Yes' (after a little hesitation). + + "'Why?' + + "'I don't know.' + + "'Would it have done so if you had particularly wished to sit in + that chair; if, for instance, you had had a boil on your cheek + and wished to turn that side away from him?' + + "'No; certainly not. The worry of thinking he was looking at it + would have made me too cross to feel pleased.' + + "Does this explain what I mean? The occasion, by the way, need + not be really important, but, as in this imaginary case of the + boil, if it _seems important_ to the woman, irritation will + outweigh the physical sensation." + +I am well aware that in thus asserting a certain tendency in women to +delight in suffering pain--however careful and qualified the position I +have taken--many estimable people will cry out that I am degrading a whole +sex and generally supporting the "subjection of women." But the day for +academic discussion concerning the "subjection of women" has gone by. The +tendency I have sought to make clear is too well established by the +experience of normal and typical women--however numerous the exceptions +may be--to be called in question. I would point out to those who would +deprecate the influence of such facts in relation to social progress that +nothing is gained by regarding women as simply men of smaller growth. They +are not so; they have the laws of their own nature; their development must +be along their own lines, and not along masculine lines. It is as true now +as in Bacon's day that we only learn to command nature by obeying her. To +ignore facts is to court disappointment in our measure of progress. The +particular fact with which we have here come in contact is very vital and +radical, and most subtle in its influence. It is foolish to ignore it; we +must allow for its existence. We can neither attain a sane view of life +nor a sane social legislation of life unless we possess a just and +accurate knowledge of the fundamental instincts upon which life is built. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[61] Various mammals, carried away by the reckless fury of the sexual +impulse, are apt to ill-treat their females (R. Müller, _Sexualbiologie_, +p. 123). This treatment is, however, usually only an incident of +courtship, the result of excess of ardor. "The chaffinches and +saffron-finches (_Fringella_ and _Sycalis_) are very rough wooers," says +A.G. Butler (_Zoölogist_, 1902, p. 241); "they sing vociferously, and +chase their hens violently, knocking them over in their flight, pursuing +and savagely pecking them even on the ground; but when once the hens +become submissive, the males change their tactics, and become for the time +model husbands, feeding their wives from their crop, and assisting in +rearing the young." + +[62] Cf. A.C. Haddon, _Head Hunters_, p. 107. + +[63] Marro considers that there may be transference of emotion,--the +impulse of violence generated in the male by his rivals being turned +against his partner,--according to a tendency noted by Sully and +illustrated by Ribot in his _Psychology of the Emotions_, part i, chapter +xii. + +[64] Several writers have found in the facts of primitive animal courtship +the explanation of the connection between love and pain. Thus, +Krafft-Ebing (_Psychopathia Sexualis_, English translation of tenth German +edition, p. 80) briefly notes that outbreaks of sadism are possibly +atavistic. Marro (_La Pubertà_, 1898, p. 219 et seq.) has some suggestive +pages on this subject. It would appear that this explanation was vaguely +outlined by Jäger. Laserre, in a Bordeaux thesis mentioned by Féré, has +argued in the same sense. Féré (_L'Instinct Sexuel_, p. 134), on grounds +that are scarcely sufficient, regards this explanation as merely a +superficial analogy. But it is certainly not a complete explanation. + +[65] Schäfer (_Jahrbücher für Psychologie_, Bd. ii, p. 128, and quoted by +Krafft-Ebing in _Psychopathia Sexualis_), in connection with a case in +which sexual excitement was produced by the sight of battles or of +paintings of them, remarks: "The pleasure of battle and murder is so +predominantly an attribute of the male sex throughout the animal kingdom +that there can be no question about the close connection between this side +of the masculine character and male sexuality. I believe that I can show +by observation that in men who are absolutely normal, mentally and +physically, the first indefinite and incomprehensible precursors of sexual +excitement may be induced by reading exciting scenes of chase and war. +These give rise to unconscious longings for a kind of satisfaction in +warlike games (wrestling, etc.) which express the fundamental sexual +impulse to close and complete contact with a companion, with a secondary +more or less clearly defined thought of conquest." Groos (_Spiele der +Menschen_, 1899, p. 232) also thinks there is more or less truth in this +suggestion of a subconscious sexual element in the playful wrestling +combats of boys. Freud considers (_Drei Abhandlungen zur Sexualtheorie_, +p. 49) that the tendency to sexual excitement through muscular activity in +wrestling, etc., is one of the roots of sadism. I have been told of normal +men who feel a conscious pleasure of this kind when lifted in games, as +may happen, for instance, in football. It may be added that in some parts +of the world the suitor has to throw the girl in a wrestling-bout in order +to secure her hand. + +[66] A minor manifestation of this tendency, appearing even in quite +normal and well-conditioned individuals, is the impulse among boys at and +after puberty to take pleasure in persecuting and hurting lower animals or +their own young companions. Some youths display a diabolical enjoyment and +ingenuity in torturing sensitive juniors, and even a boy who is otherwise +kindly and considerate may find enjoyment in deliberately mutilating a +frog. In some cases, in boys and youths who have no true sadistic impulse +and are not usually cruel, this infliction of torture on a lower animal +produces an erection, though not necessarily any pleasant sexual +sensations. + +[67] Marro, _La Pubertà_, 1898, p. 223; Garnier, "La Criminalité +Juvenile," _Comptes-rendus Congrès Internationale d'Anthropologie +Criminelle_, Amsterdam, 1901, p. 296; _Archivio di Psichiatria_, 1899, +fasc. v-vi, p. 572. + +[68] Bk. ii, ch. ii. + +[69] Herbert Spencer, _Principles of Sociology_, 1876, vol. i, p. 651. + +[70] Westermarck, _Human Marriage_, p. 388. Grosse is of the same opinion; +he considers also that the mock-capture is often an imitation, due to +admiration, of real capture; he does not believe that the latter has ever +been a form of marriage recognized by custom and law, but only "an +occasional and punishable act of violence." (_Die Formen der Familie_, pp. +105-7.) This position is too extreme. + +[71] Ernest Crawley, _The Mystic Rose_, 1902, p. 350 et seq. Van Gennep +rightly remarks that we cannot correctly say that the woman is abducted +from "her sex," but only from her "sexual society." + +[72] A. Van Gennep (_Rites de Passage_, 1909, pp. 175-186) has put forward +a third theory, though also of a psychological character, according to +which the "capture" is a rite indicating the separation of the young girl +from the special societies of her childhood. Gennep regards this rite as +one of a vast group of "rites of passage," which come into action whenever +a person changes his social or natural environment. + +[73] Féré (_L'Instinct Sexuel_, p. 133) appears to regard the +satisfaction, based on the sentiment of personal power, which may be +experienced in the suffering and subjection of a victim as an adequate +explanation of the association of pain with love. This I can scarcely +admit. It is a factor in the emotional attitude, but when it only exists +in the sexual sphere it is reasonable to base this attitude largely on the +still more fundamental biological attitude of the male toward the female +in the process of courtship. Féré regards this biological element as +merely a superficial analogy, on the ground that an act of cruelty may +become an equivalent of coitus. But a sexual perversion is quite commonly +constituted by the selection and magnification of a single moment in the +normal sexual process. + +[74] The process may, however, be quite conscious. Thus, a correspondent +tells me that he not only finds sexual pleasure in cruelty toward the +woman he loves, but that he regards this as an essential element. He is +convinced that it gives the woman pleasure, and that it is possible to +distinguish by gesture, inflection of voice, etc., an hysterical, assumed, +or imagined feeling of pain from real pain. He would not wish to give real +pain, and would regard that as sadism. + +[75] De Sade had already made the same remark, while Duchenne, of +Boulogne, pointed out that the facial expressions of sexual passion and of +cruelty are similar. + +[76] Kryptadia, vol. vi, p. 208. + +[77] Daumas, _Chevaux de Sahara_, p. 49. + +[78] See in vol. iv of these _Studies_ ("Sexual Selection in Man"), +Appendix A, on "The Origins of the Kiss." + +[79] De Stendhal (_De l'Amour_) mentions that when in London he was on +terms of friendship with an English actress who was the mistress of a +wealthy colonel, but privately had another lover. One day the colonel +arrived when the other man was present. "This gentleman has called about +the pony I want to sell," said the actress. "I have come for a very +different purpose," said the little man, and thus aroused a love which was +beginning to languish. + +[80] See Havelock Ellis, _Man and Woman_, chapter vi, "The Senses." + +[81] This liability is emphasized by Adler, _Die Mangelhafte +Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes_, p. 125. + +[82] _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, Bd. viii, 1876, pp. 22-28. + + + + +II. + +The Definition of Sadism--De Sade--Masochism to some Extent +Normal--Sacher-Masoch--No Real Line of Demarcation between Sadism and +Masochism--Algolagnia includes both Groups of Manifestations--The +Love-bite as a Bridge from Normal Phenomena to Algolagnia--The Fascination +of Blood--The Most Extreme Perversions are Linked on to Normal Phenomena. + + +We thus see that there are here two separate groups of feelings: one, in +the masculine line, which delights in displaying force and often inflicts +pain or the simulacrum of pain; the other, in the feminine line, which +delights in submitting to that force, and even finds pleasure in a slight +amount of pain, or the idea of pain, when associated with the experiences +of love. We see, also, that these two groups of feelings are +complementary. Within the limits consistent with normal and healthy life, +what men are impelled to give women love to receive. So that we need not +unduly deprecate the "cruelty" of men within these limits, nor unduly +commiserate the women who are subjected to it. + +Such a conclusion, however, as we have also seen, only holds good within +those normal limits which an attempt has here been made to determine. The +phenomena we have been considering are strictly normal phenomena, having +their basis in the conditions of tumescence and detumescence in animal and +primitive human courtship. At one point, however, when discussing the +phenomena of the love-bite, I referred to the facts which indicate how +this purely normal manifestation yet insensibly passes over into the +region of the morbid. It is an instance that enables us to realize how +even the most terrible and repugnant sexual perversions are still +demonstrably linked on to phenomena that are fundamentally normal. The +love-bite may be said to give us the key to that perverse impulse which +has been commonly called sadism. + +There is some difference of opinion as to how "sadism" may be best +defined. Perhaps the simplest and most usual definition is that of +Krafft-Ebing, as sexual emotion associated with the wish to inflict pain +and use violence, or, as he elsewhere expresses it, "the impulse to cruel +and violent treatment of the opposite sex, and the coloring of the idea of +such acts with lustful feeling."[83] A more complete definition is that of +Moll, who describes sadism as a condition in which "the sexual impulse +consists in the tendency to strike, ill-use, and humiliate the beloved +person."[84] This definition has the advantage of bringing in the element +of moral pain. A further extension is made in Féré's definition as "the +need of association of violence and cruelty with sexual enjoyment, such +violence or cruelty not being necessarily exerted by the person himself +who seeks sexual pleasure in this association."[85] Garnier's definition, +while comprising all these points, further allows for the fact that a +certain degree of sadism may be regarded as normal. "Pathological sadism," +he states, "is an impulsive and obsessing sexual perversion characterized +by a close connection between suffering inflicted or mentally represented +and the sexual orgasm, without this necessary and sufficing condition +frigidity usually remaining absolute."[86] It must be added that these +definitions are very incomplete if by "sadism" we are to understand the +special sexual perversions which are displayed in De Sade's novels. Iwan +Bloch ("Eugen Dühren"), in the course of his book on De Sade, has +attempted a definition strictly on this basis, and, as will be seen, it is +necessary to make it very elaborate: "A connection, whether intentionally +sought or offered by chance, of sexual excitement and sexual enjoyment +with the real or only symbolic (ideal, illusionary) appearance of +frightful and shocking events, destructive occurrences and practices, +which threaten or destroy the life, health, and property of man and other +living creatures, and threaten and interrupt the continuity of inanimate +objects, whereby the person who from such occurrences obtains sexual +enjoyment may either himself be the direct cause, or cause them to take +place by means of other persons, or merely be the spectator, or, finally, +be, voluntarily or involuntarily, the object against which these processes +are directed."[87] This definition of sadism as found in De Sade's works +is thus, more especially by its final clause, a very much wider conception +than the usual definition. + + Donatien Alphonse François, Marquis De Sade, was born in 1740 at + Paris in the house of the great Condé. He belonged to a very + noble, ancient, and distinguished Provençal family; Petrarch's + Laura, who married a De Sade, was one of his ancestors, and the + family had cultivated both arms and letters with success. He was, + according to Lacroix, "an adorable youth whose delicately pale + and dusky face, lighted up by two large black [according to + another account blue] eyes, already bore the languorous imprint + of the vice which was to corrupt his whole being"; his voice was + "drawling and caressing"; his gait had "a softly feminine grace." + Unfortunately there is no authentic portrait of him. His early + life is sketched in letter iv of his _Aline et Valcourt_. On + leaving the Collège-Louis-le-Grand he became a cavalry officer + and went through the Seven Years' War in Germany. There can be + little doubt that the experiences of his military life, working + on a femininely vicious temperament, had much to do with the + development of his perversion. He appears to have got into + numerous scrapes, of which the details are unknown, and his + father sought to marry him to the daughter of an aristocratic + friend of his own, a noble and amiable girl of 20. It so chanced + that when young De Sade first went to the house of his future + wife only her younger sister, a girl of 13, was at home; with her + he at once fell in love and his love was reciprocated; they were + both musical enthusiasts, and she had a beautiful voice. The + parents insisted on carrying out the original scheme of marriage. + De Sade's wife loved him, and, in spite of everything, served his + interests with Griselda-like devotion; she was, Ginisty remarks, + a saint, a saint of conjugal life; but her love was from the + first only requited with repulsion, contempt, and suspicion. + There were, however, children of the marriage; the career of the + eldest--an estimable young man who went into the army and also + had artistic ability, but otherwise had no community of tastes + with his father--has been sketched by Paul Ginisty, who has also + edited the letters of the Marquise. De Sade's passion for the + younger sister continued (he idealized her as Juliette), though + she was placed in a convent beyond his reach, and at a much later + period he eloped with her and spent perhaps the happiest period + of his life, soon terminated by her death. It is evident that + this unhappy marriage was decisive in determining De Sade's + career; he at once threw himself recklessly into every form of + dissipation, spending his health and his substance sometimes + among refinedly debauched nobles and sometimes among coarsely + debauched lackeys. He was, however, always something of an + artist, something of a student, something of a philosopher, and + at an early period he began to write, apparently at the age of + 23. It was at this age, and only a few months after his marriage, + that on account of some excess he was for a time confined in + Vincennes. He was destined to spend 27 years of his life in + prisons, if we include the 13 years which in old age he passed in + the asylum at Charenton. His actual offenses were by no means so + terrible as those he loved to dwell on in imagination, and for + the most part they have been greatly exaggerated. His most + extreme offenses were the indecent and forcible flagellation in + 1768 of a young woman, Rosa Keller, who had accosted him in the + street for alms, and whom he induced by false pretenses to come + to his house, and the administration of aphrodisiacal bonbons to + some prostitutes at Marseilles. It is owing to the fact that the + prime of his manhood was spent in prisons that De Sade fell back + on dreaming, study, and novel-writing. Shut out from real life, + he solaced his imagination with the perverted visions--to a very + large extent, however, founded on knowledge of the real facts of + perverted life in his time--which he has recorded in _Justine_ + (1781); _Les 120 Journées de Sodome ou l'Ecole du Libertinage_ + (1785); _Aline et Valcour ou le Roman Philosophique_ (1788); + _Juliette_ (1796); _La Philosophie dans le Boudoir_ (1795). These + books constitute a sort of encyclopedia of sexual perversions, an + eighteenth century _Psychopathia Sexualis_, and embody, at the + same time, a philosophy. He was the first, Bloch remarks, who + realized the immense importance of the sexual question. His + general attitude may be illustrated by the following passage (as + quoted by Lacassagne): "If there are beings in the world whose + acts shock all accepted prejudices, we must not preach at them or + punish them ... because their bizarre tastes no more depend upon + themselves than it depends on you whether you are witty or + stupid, well made or hump-backed.... What would become of your + laws, your morality, your religion, your gallows, your Paradise, + your gods, your hell, if it were shown that such and such + fluids, such fibers, or a certain acridity in the blood, or in + the animal spirits, alone suffice to make a man the object of + your punishments or your rewards?" He was enormously well read, + Bloch points out, and his interest extended to every field of + literature: _belles lettres_, philosophy, theology, politics, + sociology, ethnology, mythology, and history. Perhaps his + favorite reading was travels. He was minutely familiar with the + bible, though his attitude was extremely critical. His favorite + philosopher was Lamettrie, whom he very frequently quotes, and he + had carefully studied Machiavelli. + + De Sade had foreseen the Revolution; he was an ardent admirer of + Marat, and at this period he entered into public life as a mild, + gentle, rather bald and gray-haired person. Many scenes of the + Revolution were the embodiment in real life of De Sade's + imagination; such, for instance, were the barbaric tortures + inflicted, at the instigation of Théroigne de Méricourt, on La + Belle Bouquetière. Yet De Sade played a very peaceful part in the + events of that time, chiefly as a philanthropist, spending much + of his time in the hospitals. He saved his parents-in-law from + the scaffold, although they had always been hostile to him, and + by his moderation aroused the suspicions of the revolutionary + party, and was again imprisoned. Later he wrote a pamphlet + against Napoleon, who never forgave him and had him shut up in + Charenton as a lunatic; it was a not unusual method at that time + of disposing of persons whom it was wished to put out of the way, + and, notwithstanding De Sade's organically abnormal temperament, + there is no reason to regard him as actually insane. + Royer-Collard, an eminent alienist of that period, then at the + head of Charenton, declared De Sade to be sane, and his detailed + report is still extant. Other specialists were of the same + opinion. Bloch, who quotes these opinions (_Neue Forschungen_, + etc., p. 370), says that the only possible conclusion is that De + Sade was sane, but neurasthenic, and Eulenburg also concludes + that he cannot be regarded as insane, although he was highly + degenerate. In the asylum he amused himself by organizing a + theater. Lacroix, many years later, questioning old people who + had known him, was surprised to find that even in the memory of + most virtuous and respectable persons he lived merely as an + "_aimable mauvais sujet_." It is noteworthy that De Sade aroused, + in a singular degree, the love and devotion of women,--whether or + not we may regard this as evidence of the fascination exerted on + women by cruelty. Janin remarks that he had seen many pretty + little letters written by young and charming women of the great + world, begging for the release of the "_pauvre marquis_." + + Sardou, the dramatist, has stated that in 1855 he visited the + Bicêtre and met an old gardener who had known De Sade during his + reclusion there. He told that one of the marquis's amusements + was to procure baskets of the most beautiful and expensive roses; + he would then sit on a footstool by a dirty streamlet which ran + through the courtyard, and would take the roses, one by one, gaze + at them, smell them with a voluptuous expression, soak them in + the muddy water, and fling them away, laughing as he did so. He + died on the 2d of December, 1814, at the age of 74. He was almost + blind, and had long been a martyr to gout, asthma, and an + affection of the stomach. It was his wish that acorns should be + planted over his grave and his memory effaced. At a later period + his skull was examined by a phrenologist, who found it small and + well formed; "one would take it at first for a woman's head." The + skull belonged to Dr. Londe, but about the middle of the century + it was stolen by a doctor who conveyed it to England, where it + may possibly yet be found. [The foregoing account is mainly + founded on Paul Lacroix, _Revue de Paris_, 1837, and _Curiosités + de l'Histoire de France_, second series, _Procès Célèbres_, p. + 225; Janin, _Revue de Paris_, 1834; Eugen Dühren (Iwan Bloch), + _Der Marquis de Sade und Seine Zeit_, third edition, 1901; id., + _Neue Forschungen über den Marquis de Sade und Seine Zeit_, 1904; + Lacassagne, _Vacher l'Eventreur et les Crimes Sadiques_, 1899; + Paul Ginisty, _La Marquise de Sade_, 1901.] + +The attempt to define sadism strictly and penetrate to its roots in De +Sade's personal temperament reveals a certain weakness in the current +conception of this sexual perversion. It is not, as we might infer, both +from the definition usually given and from its probable biological +heredity from primitive times, a perversion due to excessive masculinity. +The strong man is more apt to be tender than cruel, or at all events knows +how to restrain within bounds any impulse to cruelty; the most extreme and +elaborate forms of sadism (putting aside such as are associated with a +considerable degree of imbecility) are more apt to be allied with a +somewhat feminine organization. Montaigne, indeed, observed long ago that +cruelty is usually accompanied by feminine softness. + + In the same way it is a mistake to suppose that the very feminine + woman is not capable of sadistic tendencies. Even if we take into + account the primitive animal conditions of combat, the male must + suffer as well as inflict pain, and the female must not only + experience subjection to the male, but also share in the emotions + of her partner's victory over his rivals. As bearing on these + points, I may quote the following remarks written by a lady: "It + is said that, the weaker and more feminine a woman is, the + greater the subjection she likes. I don't think it has anything + at all to do with the general character, but depends entirely on + whether the feeling of constraint and helplessness affects her + sexually. In men I have several times noticed that those who were + most desirous of subjection to the women they loved had, in + ordinary life, very strong and determined characters. I know of + others, too, who with very weak characters are very imperious + toward the women they care for. Among women I have often been + surprised to see how a strong, determined woman will give way to + a man she loves, and how tenacious of her own will may be some + fragile, clinging creature who in daily life seems quite unable + to act on her own responsibility. A certain amount of passivity, + a desire to have their emotions worked on, seems to me, so far as + my small experience goes, very common among ordinary, presumably + normal men. A good deal of stress is laid on femininity as an + attraction in a woman, and this may be so to very strong natures, + but, so far as I have seen, the women who obtain extraordinary + empire over men are those with a certain _virility_ in their + character and passions. If with this virility they combine a + fragility or childishness of appearance which appeals to a man in + another way at the same time, they appear to be irresistible." + + I have noted some of the feminine traits in De Sade's temperament + and appearance. The same may often be noted in sadists whose + crimes were very much more serious and brutal than those of De + Sade. A man who stabbed women in the streets at St. Louis was a + waiter with a high-pitched, effeminate voice and boyish + appearance. Reidel, the sadistic murderer, was timid, modest, and + delicate; he was too shy to urinate in the presence of other + people. A sadistic zoöphilist, described by A. Marie, who + attempted to strangle a woman fellow-worker, had always been very + timid, blushed with much facility, could not look even children + in the eyes, or urinate in the presence of another person, or + make sexual advances to women. + + Kiernan and Moyer are inclined to connect the modesty and + timidity of sadists with a disgust for normal coitus. They were + called upon to examine an inverted married woman who had + inflicted several hundred wounds, mostly superficial, with forks, + scissors, etc., on the genital organs and other parts of a girl + whom she had adopted from a "Home." This woman was very prominent + in church and social matters in the city in which she lived, so + that many clergymen and local persons of importance testified to + her chaste, modest, and even prudish character; she was found to + be sane at the time of the acts. (Moyer, _Alienist and + Neurologist_, May, 1907, and private letter from Dr. Kiernan.) + +We are thus led to another sexual perversion, which is usually considered +the opposite of sadism. Masochism is commonly regarded as a peculiarly +feminine sexual perversion, in women, indeed, as normal in some degree, +and in man as a sort of inversion of the normal masculine emotional +attitude, but this view of the matter is not altogether justified, for +definite and pronounced masochism seems to be much rarer in women than +sadism.[88] Krafft-Ebing, whose treatment of this phenomenon is, perhaps, +his most valuable and original contribution to sexual psychology, has +dealt very fully with the matter and brought forward many cases. He thus +defines this perversion: "By masochism I understand a peculiar perversion +of the psychical _vita sexualis_ in which the individual affected, in +sexual feeling and thought, is controlled by the idea of being completely +and unconditionally subject to the will of a person of the opposite sex, +of being treated by this person as by a master, humiliated and abused. +This idea is colored by sexual feeling; the masochist lives in fancies in +which he creates situations of this kind, and he often attempts to realize +them."[89] + +In a minor degree, not amounting to a complete perversion of the sexual +instinct, this sentiment of abnegation, the desire to be even physically +subjected to the adored woman, cannot be regarded as abnormal. More than +two centuries before Krafft-Ebing appeared, Robert Burton, who was no mean +psychologist, dilated on the fact that love is a kind of slavery. "They +are commonly slaves," he wrote of lovers, "captives, voluntary servants; +_amator amicæ mancipium_, as Castilio terms him; his mistress's servant, +her drudge, prisoner, bondman, what not?"[90] Before Burton's time the +legend of the erotic servitude of Aristotle was widely spread in Europe, +and pictures exist of the venerable philosopher on all fours ridden by a +woman with a whip.[91] In classic times various masochistic phenomena are +noted with approval by Ovid. It has been pointed out by Moll[92] that +there are traces of masochistic feeling in some of Goethe's poems, +especially "Lilis Park" and "Erwin und Elmire." Similar traces have been +found in the poems of Heine, Platen, Hamerling, and many other poets.[93] +The poetry of the people is also said to contain many such traces. It may, +indeed, be said that passion in its more lyric exaltations almost +necessarily involves some resort to masochistic expression. A popular lady +novelist in a novel written many years ago represents her hero, a robust +soldier, imploring the lady of his love, in a moment of passionate +exaltation, to trample on him, certainly without any wish to suggest +sexual perversion. If it is true that the Antonio of Otway's _Venice +Preserved_ is a caricature of Shaftesbury, then it would appear that one +of the greatest of English statesmen was supposed to exhibit very +pronounced and characteristic masochistic tendencies; and in more recent +days masochistic expressions have been noted as occurring in the +love-letters of so emphatically virile a statesman as Bismarck. + +Thus a minor degree of the masochistic tendency may be said to be fairly +common, while its more pronounced manifestations are more common than +pronounced sadism.[94] It very frequently affects persons of a sensitive, +refined, and artistic temperament. It may even be said that this tendency +is in the line of civilization. Krafft-Ebing points out that some of the +most delicate and romantic love-episodes of the Middle Ages are distinctly +colored by masochistic emotion.[95] The increasing tendency to masochism +with increasing civilization becomes explicable if we accept Colin Scott's +"secondary law of courting" as accessory to the primary law that the male +is active, and the female passive and imaginatively attentive to the +states of the excited male. According to the secondary law, "the female +develops a superadded activity, the male becoming relatively passive and +imaginatively attentive to the psychical and bodily states of the +female."[96] We may probably agree that this "secondary law of courting" +does really represent a tendency of love in individuals of complex and +sensitive nature, and the outcome of such a receptive attitude on the part +of the male is undoubtedly in well-marked cases a desire of submission to +the female's will, and a craving to experience in some physical or psychic +form, not necessarily painful, the manifestations of her activity. + +When we turn from vague and unpronounced forms of the masochistic tendency +to the more definite forms in which it becomes an unquestionable sexual +perversion, we find a very eminent and fairly typical example in Rousseau, +an example all the more interesting because here the subject has himself +portrayed his perversion in his famous _Confessions_. It is, however, the +name of a less eminent author, the Austrian novelist, Sacher-Masoch, which +has become identified with the perversion through the fact that +Krafft-Ebing fixed upon it as furnishing a convenient counterpart to the +term "sadism." It is on the strength of a considerable number of his +novels and stories, more especially of _Die Venus im Pelz_, that +Krafft-Ebing took the scarcely warrantable liberty of identifying his +name, while yet living, with a sexual perversion. + + Sacher-Masoch's biography has been written with intimate + knowledge and much candor by C.F. von Schlichtegroll + (_Sacher-Masoch und der Masochismus_, 1901) and, more indirectly, + by his first wife Wanda von Sacher-Masoch in her autobiography + (_Meine Lebensbeichte_, 1906; French translation, _Confession de + ma Vie_, 1907). Schlichtegroll's book is written with a somewhat + undue attempt to exalt his hero and to attribute his misfortunes + to his first wife. The autobiography of the latter, however, + enables us to form a more complete picture of Sacher-Masoch's + life, for, while his wife by no means spares herself, she clearly + shows that Sacher-Masoch was the victim of his own abnormal + temperament, and she presents both the sensitive, refined, + exalted, and generous aspects of his nature, and his morbid, + imaginative, vain aspects. + + Leopold von Sacher-Masoch was born in 1836 at Lemberg in Galicia. + He was of Spanish, German, and more especially Slavonic race. The + founder of the family may be said to be a certain Don Matthias + Sacher, a young Spanish nobleman, in the sixteenth century, who + settled in Prague. The novelist's father was director of police + in Lemberg and married Charlotte von Masoch, a Little Russian + lady of noble birth. The novelist, the eldest child of this + union, was not born until after nine years of marriage, and in + infancy was so delicate that he was not expected to survive. He + began to improve, however, when his mother gave him to be suckled + to a robust Russian peasant woman, from whom, as he said later, + he gained not only health, but "his soul"; from her he learned + all the strange and melancholy legends of her people and a love + of the Little Russians which never left him. While still a child + young Sacher-Masoch was in the midst of the bloody scenes of the + revolution which culminated in 1848. When he was 12 the family + migrated to Prague, and the boy, though precocious in his + development, then first learned the German language, of which he + attained so fine a mastery. At a very early age he had found the + atmosphere, and even some of the most characteristic elements, of + the peculiar types which mark his work as a novelist. + + It is interesting to trace the germinal elements of those + peculiarities which so strongly affected his imagination on the + sexual side. As a child, he was greatly attracted by + representations of cruelty; he loved to gaze at pictures of + executions, the legends of martyrs were his favorite reading, and + with the onset of puberty he regularly dreamed that he was + fettered and in the power of a cruel woman who tortured him. It + has been said by an anonymous author that the women of Galicia + either rule their husbands entirely and make them their slaves or + themselves sink to be the wretchedest of slaves. At the age of + 10, according to Schlichtegroll's narrative, the child Leopold + witnessed a scene in which a woman of the former kind, a certain + Countess Xenobia X., a relative of his own on the paternal side, + played the chief part, and this scene left an undying impress on + his imagination. The Countess was a beautiful but wanton + creature, and the child adored her, impressed alike by her beauty + and the costly furs she wore. She accepted his devotion and + little services and would sometimes allow him to assist her in + dressing; on one occasion, as he was kneeling before her to put + on her ermine slippers, he kissed her feet; she smiled and gave + him a kick which filled him with pleasure. Not long afterward + occurred the episode which so profoundly affected his + imagination. He was playing with his sisters at hide-and-seek and + had carefully hidden himself behind the dresses on a clothes-rail + in the Countess's bedroom. At this moment the Countess suddenly + entered the house and ascended the stairs, followed by a lover, + and the child, who dared not betray his presence, saw the + countess sink down on a sofa and begin to caress her lover. But a + few moments later the husband, accompanied by two friends, dashed + into the room. Before, however, he could decide which of the + lovers to turn against the Countess had risen and struck him so + powerful a blow in the face with her fist that he fell back + streaming with blood. She then seized a whip, drove all three men + out of the room, and in the confusion the lover slipped away. At + this moment the clothes-rail fell and the child, the involuntary + witness of the scene, was revealed to the Countess, who now fell + on him in anger, threw him to the ground, pressed her knee on his + shoulder, and struck him unmercifully. The pain was great, and + yet he was conscious of a strange pleasure. While this + castigation was proceeding the Count returned, no longer in a + rage, but meek and humble as a slave, and kneeled down before her + to beg forgiveness. As the boy escaped he saw her kick her + husband. The child could not resist the temptation to return to + the spot; the door was closed and he could see nothing, but he + heard the sound of the whip and the groans of the Count beneath + his wife's blows. + + It is unnecessary to insist that in this scene, acting on a + highly sensitive and somewhat peculiar child, we have the key to + the emotional attitude which affected so much of Sacher-Masoch's + work. As his biographer remarks, woman became to him, during a + considerable part of his life, a creature at once to be loved and + hated, a being whose beauty and brutality enabled her to set her + foot at will on the necks of men, and in the heroine of his first + important novel, the _Emissär_, dealing with the Polish + Revolution, he embodied the contradictory personality of Countess + Xenobia. Even the whip and the fur garments, Sacher-Masoch's + favorite emotional symbols, find their explanation in this early + episode. He was accustomed to say of an attractive woman: "I + should like to see her in furs," and, of an unattractive woman: + "I could not imagine her in furs." His writing-paper at one time + was adorned with the figure of a woman in Russian Boyar costume, + her cloak lined with ermine, and brandishing a scourge. On his + walls he liked to have pictures of women in furs, of the kind of + which there is so magnificent an example by Rubens in the gallery + at Munich. He would even keep a woman's fur cloak on an ottoman + in his study and stroke it from time to time, finding that his + brain thus received the same kind of stimulation as Schiller + found in the odor of rotten apples.[97] + + At the age of 13, in the revolution of 1848, young Sacher-Masoch + received his baptism of fire; carried away in the popular + movement, he helped to defend the barricades together with a + young lady, a relative of his family, an amazon with a pistol in + her girdle, such as later he loved to depict. This episode was, + however, but a brief interruption of his education; he pursued + his studies with brilliance, and on the higher side his education + was aided by his father's esthetic tastes. Amateur theatricals + were in special favor at his home, and here even the serious + plays of Goethe and Gogol were performed, thus helping to train + and direct the boy's taste. It is, perhaps, however, significant + that it was a tragic event which, at the age of 16, first brought + to him the full realization of life and the consciousness of his + own power. This was the sudden death of his favorite sister. He + became serious and quiet, and always regarded this grief as a + turning-point in his life. + + At the Universities of Prague and Graz he studied with such zeal + that when only 19 he took his doctor's degree in law and shortly + afterward became a _privatdocent_ for German history at Graz. + Gradually, however, the charms of literature asserted themselves + definitely, and he soon abandoned teaching. He took part, + however, in the war of 1866 in Italy, and at the battle of + Solferino he was decorated on the field for bravery in action by + the Austrian field-marshal. These incidents, however, had little + disturbing influence on Sacher-Masoch's literary career, and he + was gradually acquiring a European reputation by his novels and + stories. + + A far more seriously disturbing influence had already begun to be + exerted on his life by a series of love-episodes. Some of these + were of slight and ephemeral character; some were a source of + unalloyed happiness, all the more so if there was an element of + extravagance to appeal to his Quixotic nature. He always longed + to give a dramatic and romantic character to his life, his wife + says, and he spent some blissful days on an occasion when he ran + away to Florence with a Russian princess as her private + secretary. Most often these episodes culminated in deception and + misery. It was after a relationship of this kind from which he + could not free himself for four years that he wrote _Die + Geschiedene Frau, Passionsgeschichte eines Idealisten_, putting + into it much of his own personal history. At one time he was + engaged to a sweet and charming young girl. Then it was that he + met a young woman at Graz, Laura Rümelin, 27 years of age, + engaged as a glove-maker, and living with her mother. Though of + poor parentage, with little or no knowledge of the world, she had + great natural ability and intelligence. Schlichtegroll represents + her as spontaneously engaging in a mysterious intrigue with the + novelist. Her own detailed narrative renders the circumstances + more intelligible. She approached Sacher-Masoch by letter, + adopting for disguise the name of his heroine Wanda von Dunajev, + in order to recover possession of some compromising letters which + had been written to him, as a joke, by a friend of hers. + Sacher-Masoch insisted on seeing his correspondent before + returning the letters, and with his eager thirst for romantic + adventure he imagined that she was a married woman of the + aristocratic world, probably a Russian countess, whose simple + costume was a disguise. Not anxious to reveal the prosaic facts, + she humored him in his imaginations and a web of mystification + was thus formed. A strong attraction grew up on both sides and, + though for some time Laura Rümelin maintained the mystery and + held herself aloof from him, a relationship was formed and a + child born. Thereupon, in 1893, they married. Before long, + however, there was disillusion on both sides. She began to detect + the morbid, chimerical, and unpractical aspects of his character, + and he realized that not only was his wife not an aristocrat, + but, what was of more importance to him, she was by no means the + domineering heroine of his dreams. Soon after marriage, in the + course of an innocent romp in which the whole of the small + household took part, he asked his wife to inflict a whipping on + him. She refused, and he thereupon suggested that the servant + should do it; the wife failed to take this idea seriously; but he + had it carried out, with great satisfaction at the severity of + the castigation he received. When, however, his wife explained to + him that, after this incident, it was impossible for the servant + to stay, Sacher-Masoch quite agreed and she was at once + discharged. But he constantly found pleasure in placing his wife + in awkward or compromising circumstances, a pleasure she was too + normal to share. This necessarily led to much domestic + wretchedness. He had persuaded her, against her wish, to whip him + nearly every day, with whips which he devised, having nails + attached to them. He found this a stimulant to his literary work, + and it enabled him to dispense in his novels with his stereotyped + heroine who is always engaged in subjugating men, for, as he + explained to his wife, when he had the reality in his life he was + no longer obsessed by it in his imaginative dreams. Not content + with this, however, he was constantly desirous for his wife to be + unfaithful. He even put an advertisement in a newspaper to the + effect that a young and beautiful woman desired to make the + acquaintance of an energetic man. The wife, however, though she + wished to please her husband, was not anxious to do so to this + extent. She went to an hotel by appointment to meet a stranger + who had answered this advertisement, but when she had explained + to him the state of affairs he chivalrously conducted her home. + It was some time before Sacher-Masoch eventually succeeded in + rendering his wife unfaithful. He attended to the minutest + details of her toilette on this occasion, and as he bade her + farewell at the door he exclaimed: "How I envy him!" This episode + thoroughly humiliated the wife, and from that moment her love for + her husband turned to hate. A final separation was only a + question of time. Sacher-Masoch formed a relationship with Hulda + Meister, who had come to act as secretary and translator to him, + while his wife became attached to Rosenthal, a clever journalist + later known to readers of the _Figaro_ as "Jacques St.-Cère," who + realized her painful position and felt sympathy and affection for + her. She went to live with him in Paris and, having refused to + divorce her husband, he eventually obtained a divorce from her; + she states, however, that she never at any time had physical + relationships with Rosenthal, who was a man of fragile + organization and health. Sacher-Masoch united himself to Hulda + Meister, who is described by the first wife as a prim and faded + but coquettish old maid, and by the biographer as a highly + accomplished and gentle woman, who cared for him with almost + maternal devotion. No doubt there is truth in both descriptions. + It must be noted that, as Wanda clearly shows, apart from his + abnormal sexual temperament, Sacher-Masoch was kind and + sympathetic, and he was strongly attached to his eldest child. + Eulenburg also quotes the statement of a distinguished Austrian + woman writer acquainted with him that, "apart from his sexual + eccentricities, he was an amiable, simple, and sympathetic man + with a touchingly tender love for his children." He had very few + needs, did not drink or smoke, and though he liked to put the + woman he was attached to in rich furs and fantastically gorgeous + raiment he dressed himself with extreme simplicity. His wife + quotes the saying of another woman that he was as simple as a + child and as naughty as a monkey. + + In 1883 Sacher-Masoch and Hulda Meister settled in Lindheim, a + village in Germany near the Taunus, a spot to which the novelist + seems to have been attached because in the grounds of his little + estate was a haunted and ruined tower associated with a tragic + medieval episode. Here, after many legal delays, Sacher-Masoch + was able to render his union with Hulda Meister legitimate; here + two children were in due course born, and here the novelist spent + the remaining years of his life in comparative peace. At first, + as is usual, treated with suspicion by the peasants, + Sacher-Masoch gradually acquired great influence over them; he + became a kind of Tolstoy in the rural life around him, the friend + and confidant of all the villagers (something of Tolstoy's + communism is also, it appears, to be seen in the books he wrote + at this time), while the theatrical performances which he + inaugurated, and in which his wife took an active part, spread + the fame of the household in many neighboring villages. Meanwhile + his health began to break up; a visit to Nauheim in 1894 was of + no benefit, and he died March 9, 1895. + +A careful consideration of the phenomena of sadism and masochism may be +said to lead us to the conclusion that there is no real line of +demarcation. Even De Sade himself was not a pure sadist, as Bloch's +careful definition is alone sufficient to indicate; it might even be +argued that De Sade was really a masochist; the investigation of histories +of sadism and masochism, even those given by Krafft-Ebing (as, indeed, +Colin Scott and Féré have already pointed out), constantly reveals traces +of both groups of phenomena in the same individual. They cannot, +therefore, be regarded as opposed manifestations. This has been felt by +some writers, who have, in consequence, proposed other names more clearly +indicating the relationship of the phenomena. Féré speaks of sexual +algophily[98]; he only applies the term to masochism; it might equally +well be applied to sadism. Schrenck-Notzing, to cover both sadism and +masochism, has invented the term algolagnia (algos, pain, and lagnos +sexually excited), and calls the former active, the latter passive, +algolagnia.[99] Eulenburg has also emphasized the close connection between +these groups of perverted sexual manifestations, and has adopted the same +terms, adding the further group of ideal (illusionary) algolagnia, to +cover the cases in which the mere autosuggestive representation of pain, +inflicted or suffered, suffices to give sexual gratification.[100] + +A brief discussion of the terms "sadism" and "masochism" has imposed +itself upon us at this point because as soon as, in any study of the +relationship between love and pain, we pass over the limits of normal +manifestations into a region which is more or less abnormal, these two +conceptions are always brought before us, and it was necessary to show on +what grounds they are here rejected as the pivots on which the discussion +ought to turn. We may accept them as useful terms to indicate two groups +of clinical phenomena; but we cannot regard them as of any real scientific +value. Having reached this result, we may continue our consideration of +the love-bite, as the normal manifestation of the connection between love +and pain which most naturally leads us across the frontier of the +abnormal. + +The result of the love-bite in its extreme degree is to shed blood. This +cannot be regarded as the direct aim of the bite in its normal +manifestations, for the mingled feelings of close contact, of passionate +gripping, of symbolic devouring, which constitute the emotional +accompaniments of the bite would be too violently discomposed by actual +wounding and real shedding of blood. With some persons, however, perhaps +more especially women, the love-bite is really associated with a conscious +desire, even if more or less restrained, to draw blood, a real delight in +this process, a love of blood. Probably this only occurs in persons who +are not absolutely normal, but on the borderland of the abnormal. We have +to admit that this craving has, however, a perfectly normal basis. There +is scarcely any natural object with so profoundly emotional an effect as +blood, and it is very easy to understand why this should be so.[101] +Moreover, blood enters into the sphere of courtship by virtue of the same +conditions by which cruelty enters into it; they are both accidents of +combat, and combat is of the very essence of animal and primitive human +courtship, certainly its most frequent accompaniment. So that the +repelling or attracting fascination of blood may be regarded as a +by-product of normal courtship, which, like other such by-products, may +become an essential element of abnormal courtship.[102] + +Normally the fascination of blood, if present at all during sexual +excitement, remains more or less latent, either because it is weak or +because the checks that inhibit it are inevitably very powerful. +Occasionally it becomes more clearly manifest, and this may happen early +in life. Féré records the case of a man of Anglo-Saxon origin, of sound +heredity so far as could be ascertained and presenting no obvious stigmata +of degeneration, who first experienced sexual manifestations at the age of +5 when a boy cousin was attacked by bleeding at the nose. It was the first +time he had seen such a thing and he experienced erection and much +pleasure at the sight. This was repeated the next time the cousin's nose +bled and also whenever he witnessed any injuries or wounds, especially +when occurring in males. A few years later he began to find pleasure in +pinching and otherwise inflicting slight suffering. This sadism was not, +however, further developed, although a tendency to inversion +persisted.[103] + + Somewhat similar may have been the origin of the attraction of + blood in a case which has been reported to me of a youth of 17, + the youngest of a large family who are all very strong and + entirely normal. He is himself, however, delicate, overgrown, + with a narrow chest, a small head, and babyish features, while + mentally he is backward, with very defective memory and scant + powers of assimilation. He is intensely nervous, peevish, and + subject to fits of childish rage. He takes violent fancies to + persons of his own sex. But he appears to have only one way of + obtaining sexual excitement and gratification. It is his custom + to get into a hot bath and there to produce erection and + emission, not by masturbation, but by thinking of flowing blood. + He does not associate himself with the causation of this + imaginary flow of blood; he is merely the passive but pleased + spectator. He is aware of his peculiarity and endeavors to shake + it off, but his efforts to obtain normal pleasure by thinking of + a girl are vain. + + I may here narrate a case which has been communicated to me of + algolagnia in a woman, combined with sexual hyperesthesia. + + R.D., aged 25, married, and of good social position; she is a + small and dark woman, restless and alert in manner. She has one + child. + + She has practised masturbation from an early age--ever since she + can remember--by the method of external friction and pressure. + From the age of 17 she was able (and is still) to produce the + orgasm almost without effort, by calling up the image of any man + who had struck her fancy. She has often done so while seated + talking to such a man, even when he is almost a stranger; in + doing it, she says, a tightening of the muscles of the thighs and + the slightest movement are sufficient. Ugly men (if not + deformed), as well as men with the reputation of being _roués_, + greatly excite her sexually, more especially if of good social + position, though this is not essential. + + At the age of 18 she became hysterical, probably, she herself + believes, in consequence of a great increase at that time of + indulgence in masturbation. The doctors, apparently suspecting + her habits, urged her parents to get her married early. She + married, at the age of 20, a man about twice her own age. + + As a child (and in a less degree still) she was very fond of + watching dog-fights. This spectacle produced strong sexual + feelings and usually orgasm, especially if much blood was shed + during the fight. Clean cuts and wounds greatly attract her, + whether on herself or a man. She has frequently slightly cut or + scratched herself "to see the blood," and likes to suck the + wound, thinking the taste "delicious." This produces strong + sexual feelings and often orgasm, especially if at the time she + thinks of some attractive man and imagines that she is sucking + his blood. The sight of injury to a woman only very slightly + affects her, and that, she thinks, only because of an involuntary + association of ideas. Nor has the sight of suffering in illness + any exciting effects, only that which is due to violence, and + when there is a visible cause for the suffering, such as cuts and + wounds. (Bruises, from the absence of blood, have only a slight + effect.) The excitement is intensified if she imagines that she + has herself inflicted the injury. She likes to imagine that the + man wished to rape her, and that she fought him in order to make + him more greatly value her favor, so wounding him. + + Impersonal ideas of torture also excite her. She thinks Fox's + _Book of Martyrs_ "lovely," and the more horrible and bloody the + tortures described the greater is the sexual excitement produced. + The book excites her from the point of view of the torturer, not + that of the victim. She has frequently masturbated while reading + it. + + So far as practicable she has sought to carry out these ideas in + her relations with her husband. She has several times bitten him + till the blood came and sucked the bite during coitus. She likes + to bite him enough to make him wince. The pleasure is greatly + heightened by thinking of various tortures, chiefly by cutting. + She likes to have her husband talk to her, and she to him, of all + the tortures they could inflict on each other. She has, however, + never actually tried to carry out these tortures. She would like + to, but dares not, as she is sure he could not endure them. She + has no desire for her husband to try them on her, although she + likes to hear him talk about it. + + She is at the same time fond of normal coitus, even to excess. + She likes her husband to remain entirely passive during + connection, so that he can continue in a state of strong erection + for a long time. She can thus, she says, procure for herself the + orgasm a number of times in succession, even nine or ten, quite + easily. On one occasion she even had the orgasm twenty-six times + within about one and a quarter hours, her husband during this + time having two orgasms. (She is quite certain about the accuracy + of this statement.) During this feat much talk about torture was + indulged in, and it took place after a month's separation from + her husband, during which she was careful not to masturbate, so + that she might have "a real good time" when he came back. She + acknowledges that on this occasion she was a "complete wreck" for + a couple of days afterward, but states that usually ten or a + dozen orgasms (or spasms, as she terms them) only make her "feel + lively." She becomes frenzied with excitement during intercourse + and insensible to everything but the pleasure of it. + + She has never hitherto allowed anyone (except her husband after + marriage) to know of her sadistic impulses, nor has she carried + them out with anyone, though she would like to, if she dared. Nor + has she allowed any man but her husband to have connection with + her or to take any liberties. + +Outbursts of sadism may occur episodically in fairly normal persons. Thus, +Coutagne describes the case of a lad of 17--always regarded as quite +normal, and without any signs of degeneracy, even on careful examination, +or any traces of hysteria or alcoholism, though there was insanity among +his cousins--who had had occasional sexual relations for a year or two, +and on one occasion, being in a state of erection, struck the girl three +times on the breast and abdomen with a kitchen knife bought for the +purpose. He was much ashamed of his act immediately afterward, and, all +the circumstances being taken into consideration, he was acquitted by the +court.[104] Here we seem to have the obscure and latent fascination of +blood, which is almost normal, germinating momentarily into an active +impulse which is distinctly abnormal, though it produced little beyond +those incisions which Vatsyayana disapproved of, but still regarded as a +part of courtship. One step more and we are amid the most outrageous and +extreme of all forms of sexual perversion: with the heroes of De Sade's +novels, who, in exemplification of their author's most cherished ideals, +plan scenes of debauchery in which the flowing of blood is an essential +element of coitus; with the Marshall Gilles de Rais and the Hungarian +Countess Bathory, whose lust could only be satiated by the death of +innumerable victims. + + This impulse to stab--with no desire to kill, or even in most + cases to give pain, but only to draw blood and so either + stimulate or altogether gratify the sexual impulse--is no doubt + the commonest form of sanguinary sadism. These women-stabbers + have been known in France as _piqueurs_ for nearly a century, and + in Germany are termed _Stecher_ or _Messerstecher_ (they have + been studied by Näcke, "Zur Psychologie der sadistischen + Messerstecher," _Archiv für Kriminal-Anthropologie_, Bd. 35, + 1909). A case of this kind where a man stabbed girls in the + abdomen occurred in Paris in the middle of the eighteenth + century, and in 1819 or 1820 there seems to have been an epidemic + of _piqueurs_ in Paris; as we learn from a letter of Charlotte + von Schiller's to Knebel; the offenders (though perhaps there was + only one) frequented the Boulevards and the Palais Royal and + stabbed women in the buttocks or thighs; they were never caught. + About the same time similar cases of a slighter kind occurred in + London, Brussels, Hamburg, and Munich. + + Stabbers are nearly always men, but cases of the same perversion + in women are not unknown. Thus Dr. Kiernan informs me of an Irish + woman, aged 40, and at the beginning of the menopause, who, in + New York in 1909, stabbed five men with a hatpin. The motive was + sexual and she told one of the men that she stabbed him because + she "loved" him. + + Gilles de Rais, who had fought beside Joan of Arc, is the classic + example of sadism in its extreme form, involving the murder of + youths and maidens. Bernelle considers that there is some truth + in the contention of Huysmans that the association with Joan of + Arc was a predisposing cause in unbalancing Gilles de Rais. + Another cause was his luxurious habit of life. He himself, no + doubt rightly, attached importance to the suggestions received in + reading Suetonius. He appears to have been a sexually precocious + child, judging from an obscure passage in his confessions. He was + artistic and scholarly, fond of books, of the society of learned + men, and of music. Bernelle sums him up as "a pious warrior, a + cruel and keen artist, a voluptuous assassin, an exalted mystic," + who was at the same time unbalanced, a superior degenerate, and + morbidly impulsive. (The best books on Gilles de Rais are the + Abbé Bossard's _Gilles de Rais_, in which, however, the author, + being a priest, treats his subject as quite sane and abnormally + wicked; Huysmans's novel, _La-Bas_, which embodies a detailed + study of Gilles de Rais, and F.H. Bernelle's Thèse de Paris, _La + Psychose de Gilles de Rais_, 1910.) + + The opinion has been hazarded that the history of Gilles de Rais + is merely a legend. This view is not accepted, but there can be + no doubt that the sadistic manifestations which occurred in the + Middle Ages were mixed up with legendary and folk-lore elements. + These elements centered on the conception of the _werwolf_, + supposed to be a man temporarily transformed into a wolf with + blood-thirsty impulses. (See, e.g., articles "Werwolf" and + "Lycanthropy" in _Encyclopædia Britannica_.) France, especially, + was infested with werwolves in the sixteenth century. In 1603, + however, it was decided at Bordeaux, in a trial involving a + werwolf, that lycanthropy was only an insane delusion. Dumas + ("Les Loup-Garous," _Journal de Psychologie Normale et + Pathologique_, May-June, 1907) argues that the medieval werwolves + were sadists whose crimes were largely imaginative, though + sometimes real, the predecessor of the modern Jack the Ripper. + The complex nature of the elements making up the belief in the + werwolf is emphasized by Ernest Jones, _Der Alptraum_, 1912. + + Related to the werwolf, but distinct, was the _vampire_, supposed + to be a dead person who rose from the dead to suck the blood of + the living during sleep. By way of reprisal the living dug up, + exorcised, and mutilated the supposed vampires. This was called + vampirism. The name vampire was then transferred to the living + person who had so treated a corpse. All profanation of the + corpse, whatever its origin, is now frequently called vampirism + (Epaulow, _Vampirisme_, Thèse de Lyon, 1901; id., "Le Vampire du + Muy," _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Sept., 1903). The + earliest definite reference to necrophily is in Herodotus, who + tells (bk. ii, ch. lxxxix) of an Egyptian who had connection with + the corpse of a woman recently dead. Epaulow gives various old + cases and, at full length, the case which he himself + investigated, of Ardisson, the "Vampire du Muy." W.A.F. Browne + also has an interesting article on "Necrophilism" (_Journal of + Mental Science_, Jan., 1875) which he regards as atavistic. When + there is, in addition, mutilation of the corpse, the condition is + termed necrosadism. There seems usually to be no true sadism in + either necrosadism or necrophilism. (See, however, Bloch, + _Beiträge_, vol. ii, p. 284 et seq.) + + It must be said also that cases of rape followed by murder are + quite commonly not sadistic. The type of such cases is + represented by Soleilland, who raped and then murdered children. + He showed no sadistic perversion. He merely killed to prevent + discovery, as a burglar who is interrupted may commit murder in + order to escape. (E. Dupré, "L'Affaire Soleilland," _Archives + d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Jan.-Feb., 1910.) + + A careful and elaborate study of a completely developed sadist + has been furnished by Lacassagne, Rousset, and Papillon + ("L'Affaire Reidal," _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, + Oct.-Nov., 1907). Reidal, a youth of 18, a seminarist, was a + congenital sanguinary sadist who killed another youth and was + finally sent to an asylum. From the age of 4 he had voluptuous + ideas connected with blood and killing, and liked to play at + killing with other children. He was of infantile physical + development, with a pleasant, childish expression of face, very + religious, and hated obscenity and immorality. But the love of + blood and murder was an irresistible obsession and its + gratification produced immense emotional relief. + + Sadism generally has been especially studied by Lacassagne, + _Vacher l'Eventreur et les Crimes Sadiques_, 1899. Zoösadism, or + sadism toward animals, has been dealt with by P. Thomas, "Le + Sadisme sur les Animaux," _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, + Sept., 1903. Auto-sadism, or "auto-erotic cruelty," that is to + say, injuries inflicted on a person by himself with a sexual + motive, has been investigated by G. Bach (_Sexuelle Verrirungen + des Menschen und der Nature_, p. 427); this condition seems, + however, a form of algolagnia more masochistic than sadistic in + character. + + With regard to the medico-legal aspects, Kiernan ("Responsibility + in Active Algophily," _Medicine_, April, 1903) sets forth the + reasons in favor of the full and complete responsibility of + sadists, and Harold Moyer comes to the same conclusion ("Is + Sexual Perversion Insanity?" _Alienist and Neurologist_, May, + 1907). See also Thoinot's _Medico-legal Aspects of Moral + Offenses_ (edited by Weysse, 1911), ch. xviii. While we are + probably justified in considering the sadist as morally not + insane in the technical sense, we must remember that he is, for + the most part, highly abnormal from the outset. As Gaupp points + out (_Sexual-Probleme_, Oct., 1909, p. 797), we cannot measure + the influences which create the sadist and we must not therefore + attempt to "punish" him, but we are bound to place him in a + position where he will not injure society. + +It is enough here to emphasize the fact that there is no solution of +continuity in the links that bind the absolutely normal manifestations of +sex with the most extreme violations of all human law. This is so true +that in saying that these manifestations are violations of all human law +we cannot go on to add, what would seem fairly obvious, that they are +violations also of all natural law. We have but to go sufficiently far +back, or sufficiently far afield, in the various zoölogical series to find +that manifestations which, from the human point of view, are in the +extreme degree abnormally sadistic here become actually normal. Among very +various species wounding and rending normally take place at or immediately +after coitus; if we go back to the beginning of animal life in the +protozoa sexual conjugation itself is sometimes found to present the +similitude, if not the actuality, of the complete devouring of one +organism by another. Over a very large part of nature, as it has been +truly said, "but a thin veil divides love from death."[105] + +There is, indeed, on the whole, a point of difference. In that abnormal +sadism which appears from time to time among civilized human beings it is +nearly always the female who becomes the victim of the male. But in the +normal sadism which occurs throughout a large part of nature it is nearly +always the male who is the victim of the female. It is the male spider who +impregnates the female at the risk of his life and sometimes perishes in +the attempt; it is the male bee who, after intercourse with the queen, +falls dead from that fatal embrace, leaving her to fling aside his +entrails and calmly pursue her course.[106] If it may seem to some that +the course of our inquiry leads us to contemplate with equanimity, as a +natural phenomenon, a certain semblance of cruelty in man in his relations +with woman, they may, if they will, reflect that this phenomenon is but a +very slight counterpoise to that cruelty which has been naturally exerted +by the female on the male long even before man began to be. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[83] Krafft-Ebing, _Psychopathia Sexualis_, English translation of tenth +German edition, pp. 80, 209. It should be added that the object of the +sadistic impulse is not necessarily a person of the opposite sex. + +[84] A. Moll, _Die Konträre Sexualempfindung_, third edition, 1899, p. +309. + +[85] Féré, _L'Instinct Sexuel_, p. 133. + +[86] P. Garnier, "Des Perversions Sexuelles," Thirteenth International +Congress of Medicine, Section of Psychiatry, Paris, 1900. + +[87] E. Dühren, _Der Marquis de Sade und Seine Zeit_, third edition, 1901, +p. 449. + +[88] See, for instance, Bloch's _Beiträge zur Ætiologie der Psychopathia +Sexualis_, part ii, p. 178. + +[89] Krafft-Ebing, _Psychopathia Sexualis_, English translation of tenth +German edition, p. 115. Stefanowsky, who also discussed this condition +(_Archives de l'Anthropologie Criminelle_, May, 1892, and translation, +with notes by Kiernan, _Alienist and Neurologist_, Oct., 1892), termed it +passivism. + +[90] _Anatomy of Melancholy_, part iii, section 2, mem. iii, subs, 1. + +[91] "Aristoteles als Masochist," _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Bd. ii, +ht. 2. + +[92] _Die Konträre Sexualempfindung_, third edition, p. 277. Cf. C.F. von +Schlichtegroll, _Sacher-Masoch und der Masochismus_, p. 120. + +[93] See C.F. von Schlichtegroll, loc. cit., p. 124 et seq. + +[94] Iwan Bloch considers that it is the commonest of all sexual +perversions, more prevalent even than homosexuality. + +[95] It has no doubt been prominent in earlier civilization. A very +pronounced masochist utterance may be found in an ancient Egyptian +love-song written about 1200 B.C.: "Oh! were I made her porter, I should +cause her to be wrathful with me. Then when I did but hear her voice, the +voice of her anger, a child shall I be for fear." (Wiedemann, _Popular +Literature in Ancient Egypt_, p. 9.) The activity and independence of the +Egyptian women at the time may well have offered many opportunities to the +ancient Egyptian masochist. + +[96] Colin Scott, "Sex and Art," _American Journal of Psychology_, vol. +vii, No. 2, p. 208. + +[97] It must not be supposed that the attraction of fur or of the whip is +altogether accounted for by such a casual early experience as in +Sacher-Masoch's case served to evoke it. The whip we shall have to +consider briefly later on. The fascination exerted by fur, whether +manifesting itself as love or fear, would appear to be very common in many +children, and almost instinctive. Stanley Hall, in his "Study of Fears" +(_American Journal of Psychology_, vol. viii, p. 213) has obtained as many +as 111 well-developed cases of fear of fur, or, as he terms it, +doraphobia, in some cases appearing as early as the age of 6 months, and +he gives many examples. He remarks that the love of fur is still more +common, and concludes that "both this love and fear are so strong and +instinctive that they can hardly be fully accounted for without recourse +to a time when association with animals was far closer than now, or +perhaps when our remote ancestors were hairy." (Cf. "Erotic Symbolism," +iv, in the fifth volume of these _Studies_.) + +[98] Féré, _L'Instinct Sexuel_, p. 138. + +[99] Schrenck-Notzing, _Zeitschrift für Hypnotismus_, Bd. ix, ht. 2, 1899. + +[100] Eulenburg, _Sadismus und Masochismus_, second edition, 1911, p. 5. + +[101] I have elsewhere dealt with this point in discussing the special +emotional tone of red (Havelock Ellis, "The Psychology of Red," _Popular +Science Monthly_, August and September, 1900). + +[102] It is probable that the motive of sexual murders is nearly always to +shed blood, and not to cause death. Leppmann (_Bulletin Internationale de +Droit Pénal_, vol. vi, 1896, p. 115) points out that such murders are +generally produced by wounds in the neck or mutilation of the abdomen, +never by wounds of the head. T. Claye Shaw, who terms the lust for blood +hemothymia, has written an interesting and suggestive paper ("A Prominent +Motive in Murder," _Lancet_, June 19, 1909) on the natural fascination of +blood. Blumröder, in 1830, seems to have been the first who definitely +called attention to the connection between lust and blood. + +[103] Féré, _Revue de Chirurgie_, March 10, 1905. + +[104] H. Coutagne, "Cas de Perversion Sanguinaire de l'Instinct Sexuel," +_Annales Médico-Psychologiques_, July and August, 1893. D.S. Booth +(_Alienist and Neurologist_, Aug., 1906) describes the case of a man of +neurotic heredity who slightly stabbed a woman with a penknife when on his +way to a prostitute. + +[105] Kiernan appears to have been the first to suggest the bearing of +these facts on sadism, which he would regard as the abnormal human form of +phenomena which may be found at the very beginning of animal life, as, +indeed, the survival or atavistic reappearance of a primitive sexual +cannibalism. See his "Psychological Aspects of the Sexual Appetite," +_Alienist and Neurologist_, April, 1891, and "Responsibility in Sexual +Perversion," _Chicago Medical Recorder_, March, 1892. Penta has also +independently developed the conception of the biological basis of sadism +and other sexual perversions (_I Pervertimenti Sessuali_, 1893). It must +be added that, as Remy de Gourmont points out (_Promenades +Philosophiques_, 2d series, p. 273), this sexual cannibalism exerted by +the female may have, primarily, no erotic significance: "She eats him +because she is hungry and because when exhausted he is an easy prey." + +[106] In the chapter entitled "Le Vol Nuptial" of his charming book on the +life of bees Maeterlinck has given an incomparable picture of the tragic +courtship of these insects. + + + + +III. + +Flagellation as a Typical Illustration of Algolagnia--Causes of Connection +between Sexual Emotion and Whipping--Physical Causes--Psychic Causes +probably more Important--The Varied Emotional Associations of +Whipping--Its Wide Prevalence. + + +The whole problem of love and pain, in its complementary sadistic and +masochistic aspects, is presented to us in connection with the pleasure +sometimes experienced in whipping, or in being whipped, or in witnessing +or thinking about scenes of whipping. The association of sexual emotion +with bloodshed is so extreme a perversion, it so swiftly sinks to phases +that are obviously cruel, repulsive, and monstrous in an extreme degree, +that it is necessarily rare, and those who are afflicted by it are often +more or less imbecile. With whipping it is otherwise. Whipping has always +been a recognized religious penance; it is still regarded as a beneficial +and harmless method of chastisement; there is nothing necessarily cruel, +repulsive, or monstrous in the idea or the reality of whipping, and it is +perfectly easy and natural for an interest in the subject to arise in an +innocent and even normal child, and thus to furnish a germ around which, +temporarily at all events, sexual ideas may crystallize. For these reasons +the connection between love and pain may be more clearly brought out in +connection with whipping than with blood. + +There is, by no means, any necessary connection between flagellation and +the sexual emotions. If there were, this form of penance would not have +been so long approved or at all events tolerated by the Church.[107] + +As a matter of fact, indeed, it was not always approved or even tolerated. +Pope Adrian IV in the eighth century forbade priests to beat their +penitents, and at the time of the epidemic of flagellation in the +thirteenth century, which was highly approved by many holy men, the abuses +were yet so frequent that Clement VI issued a bull against these +processions. All such papal prohibitions remained without effect. The +association of religious flagellation with perverted sexual motives is +shown by its condemnation in later ages by the Inquisition, which was +accustomed to prosecute the priests who, in prescribing flagellation as a +penance, exerted it personally, or caused it to be inflicted on the +stripped penitent in his presence, or made a woman penitent discipline +him, such offences being regarded as forms of "solicitation."[108] There +seems even to be some reason to suppose that the religious flagellation +mania which was so prevalent in the later Middle Ages, when processions of +penitents, male and female, eagerly flogged themselves and each other, may +have had something to do with the discovery of erotic flagellation,[109] +which, at all events in Europe, seems scarcely to have been known before +the sixteenth century. It must, in any case, have assisted to create a +predisposition. The introduction of flagellation as a definitely +recognized sexual stimulant is by Eulenburg, in his interesting book, +_Sadismus und Masochismus_, attributed to the Arabian physicians. It would +appear to have been by the advice of an Arabian physician that the Duchess +Leonora Gonzaga, of Mantua, was whipped by her mother to aid her in +responding more warmly to her husband's embraces and to conceive. + +Whatever the precise origin of sexual flagellation in Europe, there can be +no doubt that it soon became extremely common, and so it remains at the +present day. Those who possess a special knowledge of such matters declare +that sexual flagellation is the most frequent of all sexual perversions +in England.[110] This belief is, I know, shared by many people both inside +and outside England. However this may be, the tendency is certainly +common. I doubt if it is any or at all less common in Germany, judging by +the large number of books on the subject of flagellation which have been +published in German. In a catalogue of "interesting books" on this and +allied subjects issued by a German publisher and bookseller, I find that, +of fifty-five volumes, as many as seventeen or eighteen, all in German, +deal solely with the question of flagellation, while many of the other +books appear to deal in part with the same subject.[111] It is, no doubt, +true that the large part which the rod has played in the past history of +our civilization justifies a considerable amount of scientific interest in +the subject of flagellation, but it is clear that the interest in these +books is by no means always scientific, but very frequently sexual. + + It is remarkable that, while the sexual associations of whipping, + whether in slight or in marked degrees, are so frequent in modern + times, they appear to be by no means easy to trace in ancient + times. "Flagellation," I find it stated by a modern editor of the + _Priapeia_, "so extensively practised in England as a provocation + to venery, is almost entirely unnoticed by the Latin erotic + writers, although, in the _Satyricon_ of Petronius (ch. + cxxxviii), Encolpius, in describing the steps taken by OEnothea + to undo the temporary impotence to which he was subjected, says: + 'Next she mixed nasturtium-juice with southern wood, and, having + bathed my foreparts, she took a bunch of green nettles, and + gently whipped my belly all over below the navel.'" It appears + also that many ancient courtesans dedicated to Venus as ex-votos + a whip, a bridle, or a spur as tokens of their skill in riding + their lovers. The whip was sometimes used in antiquity, but if it + aroused sexual emotions they seem to have passed unregarded. "We + naturally know nothing," Eulenburg remarks (_Sadismus und + Masochismus_, p. 72), "of the feelings of the priestess of + Artemis at the flagellation of Spartan youths; or what emotions + inspired the priestess of the Syrian goddess under similar + circumstances; or what the Roman Pontifex Maximus felt when he + castigated the exposed body of a negligent vestal (as described + by Plutarch) behind a curtain, and the 'plagosus Orbilius' only + practised on children." + + It was at the Renaissance that cases of abnormal sexual pleasure + in flagellation began to be recorded. The earliest distinct + reference to a masochistic flagellant seems to have been made by + Pico della Mirandola, toward the end of the fifteenth century, in + his _Disputationes Adversus Astrologiam Divinatricem_, bk. iii, + ch. xxvii. Coelius Rhodiginus in 1516, again, narrated the case + of a man he knew who liked to be severely whipped, and found this + a stimulant to coitus. Otto Brunfels, in his _Onomasticon_ + (1534), art. "Coitus," refers to another case of a man who could + not have intercourse with his wife until he had been whipped. + Then, a century later, in 1643, Meibomius wrote _De Usu Flagrorum + in re Venerea_, the earliest treatise on this subject, narrating + various cases. Numerous old cases of pleasure in flagellation and + urtication were brought together by Schurig in 1720 in his + _Spermatologia_, pp. 253-258. + + The earliest definitely described medical case of sadistic + pleasure in the sight of active whipping which I have myself come + across belongs to the year 1672, and occurs in a letter in which + Nesterus seeks the opinion of Garmann. He knows intimately, he + states, a very learned man--whose name, for the honor he bears + him, he refrains from mentioning--who, whenever in a school or + elsewhere he sees a boy unbreeched and birched, and hears him + crying out, at once emits semen copiously without any erection, + but with great mental commotion. The same accident frequently + happens to him during sleep, accompanied by dreams of whipping. + Nesterus proceeds to mention that this "_laudatus vir_" was also + extremely sensitive to the odor of strawberries and other fruits, + which produced nausea. He was evidently a neurotic subject. + (L.C.F. Garmanni et Aliorum Virorum Clarissimorum, _Epistolarum + Centuria_, Rostochi et Lipsiæ, 1714.) + + In England we find that toward the end of the sixteenth century + one of Marlowe's epigrams deals with a certain Francus who before + intercourse with his mistress "sends for rods and strips himself + stark naked," and by the middle of the seventeenth century the + existence of an association between flagellation and sexual + pleasure seems to have been popularly recognized. In 1661, in a + vulgar "tragicomedy" entitled _The Presbyterian Lash_, we find: + "I warrant he thought that the tickling of the wench's buttocks + with the rod would provoke her to lechery." That whipping was + well known as a sexual stimulant in England in the eighteenth + century is sufficiently indicated by the fact that in one of + Hogarth's series representing the "Harlot's Progress" a birch rod + hangs over the bed. The prevalence of sexual flagellation in + England at the end of that century and the beginning of the + nineteenth is discussed by Dühren (Iwan Bloch) in his + _Geschlechtsleben in England_ (1901-3), especially vol. ii, ch. + vi. + + While, however, the evidence regarding sexual flagellation is + rare, until recent times whipping as a punishment was extremely + common. It is even possible that its very prevalence, and the + consequent familiarity with which it was regarded, were + unfavorable to the development of any mysterious emotional state + likely to act on the sexual sphere, except in markedly neurotic + subjects. Thus, the corporal chastisement of wives by husbands + was common and permitted. Not only was this so to a proverbial + extent in eastern Europe, but also in the extreme west and among + a people whose women enjoyed much freedom and honor. Cymric law + allowed a husband to chastise his wife for angry speaking, such + as calling him a cur; for giving away property she was not + entitled to give away; or for being found in hiding with another + man. For the first two offenses she had the option of paying him + three kine. When she accepted the chastisement she was to receive + "three strokes with a rod of the length of her husband's forearm + and the thickness of his long finger, and that wheresoever he + might will, excepting on the head"; so that she was to suffer + pain only, and not injury. (R.B. Holt, "Marriage Laws and Customs + of the Cymri," _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, + August-November, 1898, p. 162.) + + "The Cymric law," writes a correspondent, "seems to have survived + in popular belief in the Eastern and Middle States of the United + States. In police-courts in New York, for example, it has been + unsuccessfully pleaded that a man is entitled to beat his wife + with a stick no thicker than his thumb. In Pennsylvania actual + acquittals have been rendered." + + Among all classes children were severely whipped by their parents + and others in authority over them. It may be recalled that in the + twelfth century when Abelard became tutor to Heloise, then about + 18 years of age, her uncle authorized him to beat her, if + negligent in her studies. Even in the sixteenth century Jeanne + d'Albert, who became the mother of Henry IV of France, at the + age of 13½ was married to the Duke of Cleves, and to overcome her + resistance to this union the Queen, her mother, had her whipped + to such an extent that she thought she would die of it. The whip + on this occasion was, however, only partially successful, for the + Duke never succeeded in consummating the marriage, which was, in + consequence, annulled. (Cabanès brings together numerous facts + regarding the prevalence of flagellation as a chastisement in + ancient France in the interesting chapter on "La Flagellation a + la Cour et à la Ville" in his _Indiscretions de l'Histoire_, + 1903.) + + As to the prevalence of whipping in England evidence is furnished + by Andrews, in the chapter on "Whipping and Whipping Posts," in + his book on ancient punishments. It existed from the earliest + times and was administered for a great variety of offenses, to + men and women alike, for vagrancy, for theft, to the fathers and + mothers of illegitimate children, for drunkenness, for insanity, + even sometimes for small-pox. At one time both sexes were whipped + naked, but from Queen Elizabeth's time only from the waist + upward. In 1791 the whipping of female vagrants ceased by law. + (W. Andrews, _Bygone Punishments_, 1899.) + + It must, however, be remarked that law always lags far behind + social feeling and custom, and flagellation as a common + punishment had fallen into disuse or become very perfunctory long + before any change was made in the law, though it is not + absolutely extinct, even by law, today. There is even an ignorant + and retrograde tendency to revive it. Thus, even in severe + Commonwealth days, the alleged whipping with rods of a + servant-girl by her master, though with no serious physical + injury, produced a great public outcry, as we see by the case of + the Rev. Zachary Crofton, a distinguished London clergyman, who + was prosecuted in 1657 on the charge of whipping his + servant-girl, Mary Cadman, because she lay in bed late in the + morning and stole sugar. This incident led to several pamphlets. + In _The Presbyterian, Lash or Noctroff's Maid Whipt_ (1661), a + satire on Crofton, we read: "It is not only contrary to Gospel + but good manners to take up a wench's petticoats, smock and all"; + and in the doggerel ballad of "Bo-Peep," which was also written + on the same subject, it is said that Crofton should have left his + wife to chastise the maid. Crofton published two pamphlets, one + under his own name and one under that of Alethes Noctroff (1657), + in which he elaborately dealt with the charge as both false and + frivolous. In one passage he offers a qualified defense of such + an act: "I cannot but bewail the exceeding rudeness of our times + to suffer such foolery to be prosecuted as of some high and + notorious crime. Suppose it were (as it is not) true, may not + some eminent congregational brother be found guilty of the same + act? Is it not much short of drinking an health naked on a + signpost? May it not be as theologically defended as the + husband's correction of his wife?" This passage, and the whole + episode, show that feeling in regard to this matter was at that + time in a state of transition. + + Flagellation as a penance, whether inflicted by the penitent + himself or by another person, was also extremely common in + medieval and later days. According to Walsingham ("Master of the + Rolls' Collection," vol. i, p. 275), in England, in the middle of + the fourteenth century, penitents, sometimes men of noble birth, + would severely flagellate themselves, even to the shedding of + blood, weeping or singing as they did so; they used cords with + knots containing nails. + + At a later time the custom of religious flagellation was more + especially preserved in Spain. The Countess d'Aulnoy, who visited + Spain in 1685, has described the flagellations practised in + public at Madrid. After giving an account of the dress worn by + these flagellants, which corresponds to that worn in Spain in + Holy Week at the present time by the members of the _Cofradias_, + the face concealed by the high sugar-loaf head-covering, she + continues: "They attach ribbons to their scourges, and usually + their mistresses honor them with their favors. In gaining public + admiration they must not gesticulate with the arm, but only move + the wrist and hand; the blows must be given without haste, and + the blood must not spoil the costume. They make terrible wounds + on their shoulders, from which the blood flows in streams; they + march through the streets with measured steps; they pass before + the windows of their mistresses, where they flagellate themselves + with marvelous patience. The lady gazes at this fine sight + through the blinds of her room, and by a sign she encourages him + to flog himself, and lets him understand how much she likes this + sort of gallantry. When they meet a good-looking woman they + strike themselves in such a way that the blood goes on to her; + this is a great honor, and the grateful lady thanks them.... All + this is true to the letter." + + The Countess proceeds to describe other and more genuine + penitents, often of high birth, who may be seen in the street + naked above the waist, and with naked feet on the rough and sharp + pavement; some had swords passed through the skin of their body + and arms, others heavy crosses that weighed them down. She + remarks that she was told by the Papal Nuncio that he had + forbidden confessors to impose such penances, and that they were + due to the devotion of the penitents themselves. (_Relation du + Voyage d'Espagne_, 1692, vol. ii, pp. 158-164.) + + The practice of public self-flagellation in church during Lent + existed in Spain and Portugal up to the early years of the + nineteenth century. Descriptions of it will often be met with in + old volumes of travel. Thus, I find a traveler through Spain in + 1786 describing how, at Barcelona, he was present when, in Lent, + at a Miserere in the Convent Church of San Felipe Neri on Friday + evening the doors were shut, the lights put out, and in perfect + darkness all bared their backs and applied the discipline, + singing while they scourged themselves, ever louder and harsher + and with ever greater vehemence until in twenty minutes' time the + whole ended in a deep groan. It is mentioned that at Malaga, + after such a scene, the whole church was in the morning sprinkled + with blood. (Joseph Townsend, _A Journey through Spain in 1786_, + vol. i, p. 122; vol. iii, p. 15.) + + Even to our own day religious self-flagellation is practised by + Spaniards in the Azores, in the darkened churches during Lent, + and the walls are often spotted and smeared with blood at this + time. (O.H. Howarth, "The Survival of Corporal Punishment," + _Journal Anthropological Institute_, Feb., 1889.) In remote + districts of Spain (as near Haro in Rioja) there are also + brotherhoods who will flagellate themselves on Good Friday, but + not within the church. (Dario de Regoyos, _España Negra_, 1899, + p. 72.) + +When we glance over the history of flagellation and realize that, though +whipping as a punishment has been very widespread and common, there have +been periods and lands showing no clear knowledge of any sexual +association of whipping, it becomes clear that whipping is not necessarily +an algolagnic manifestation. It seems evident that there must be special +circumstances, and perhaps a congenital predisposition, to bring out +definitely the relationship of flagellation to the sexual impulse. Thus, +Löwenfeld considers that only about 1 per cent, of people can be sexually +excited by flagellation of the buttocks,[112] and Näcke also is decidedly +of opinion that there can be no sexual pleasure in flagellation without +predisposition, which is rare.[113] On these grounds many are of opinion +that physical chastisement, provided it is moderate, seldom applied, and +only to children who are quite healthy and vigorous, need not be +absolutely prohibited.[114] But, however rare and abnormal a sexual +response to actual flagellation may be in adults, we shall see that the +general sexual association of whipping in the minds of children, and +frequently of their elders, is by; no means rare and scarcely abnormal. + +What is the cause of the connection between sexual emotion and whipping? A +very simple physical cause has been believed by some to account fully for +the phenomena. It is known that strong stimulation of the gluteal region +may, especially under predisposing conditions, produce or heighten sexual +excitement, by virtue of the fact that both regions are supplied by +branches of the same nerve. + +There is another reason why whipping should exert a sexual influence. As +Féré especially has pointed out, in moderate amount it has a tonic effect, +and as such has a general beneficial result in stimulating the whole body. +This fact was, indeed, recognized by the classic physicians, and Galen +regarded flagellation as a tonic.[115] Thus, not only must it be said that +whipping, when applied to the gluteal region, has a direct influence in +stimulating the sexual organs, but its general tonic influence must +naturally extend to the sexual system. + + It is possible that we must take into account here a biological + factor, such as we have found involved in other forms of sadism + and masochism. In this connection a lady writes to me: "With + regard to the theory which connects the desire for whipping with + the way in which animals make love, where blows or pressure on + the hindquarters are almost a necessary preliminary to pleasure, + have you ever noticed the way in which stags behave? Their does + seem as timid as the males are excitable, and the blows inflicted + on them by the horns of their mates to reduce them to submission + must be, I should think, an exact equivalent to being beaten with + a stick." + + It is remarkable that in some cases the whip would even appear to + have a psychic influence in producing sexual excitement in + animals accustomed to its application as a stimulant to action. + Thus, Professor Cornevin, of Lyons, describes the case of a + Hungarian stallion, otherwise quite potent, in whom erection + could only be produced in the presence of a mare in heat when a + whip was cracked near him, and occasionally applied gently to his + legs. (Cornevin, _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, January, + 1896.) + +Here, undoubtedly, we have a definite anatomical and physiological +relationship which often serves as a starting-point for the turning of the +sexual feelings in this direction, and will sometimes support the +perversion when it has otherwise arisen. But this relationship, even if we +regard it as a fairly frequent channel by which sexual emotion is aroused, +will not suffice to account for most, or even many, of the cases in which +whipping exerts a sexual fascination. In many, if not most, cases it is +found that the idea of whipping asserts its sexual significance quite +apart from any personal experience, even in persons who have never been +whipped;[116] not seldom also in persons who have been whipped and who +feel nothing but repugnance for the actual performance, attractive as it +may be in imagination. + +It is evident that we have to seek the explanation of this phenomenon +largely in psychic causes. Whipping, whether inflicted or suffered, tends +to arouse, vaguely but massively, the very fundamental and primitive +emotions of anger and fear, which, as we have seen, have always been +associated with courtship, and it tends to arouse them at an age when the +sexual emotions have not become clearly defined, and under circumstances +which are likely to introduce sexual associations. From their earliest +years children have been trained to fear whipping, even when not actually +submitted to it, and an unjust punishment of this kind, whether inflicted +on themselves or others, frequently arouses intense anger, nervous +excitement, or terror in the sensitive minds of children.[117] Moreover, +as has been pointed out to me by a lady who herself in early life was +affected by the sexual associations of whipping, a child only sees the +naked body of elder children when uncovered for whipping, and its sexual +charm may in part be due to this cause. We further have to remark that the +spectacle of suffering itself is, to some extent and under some +circumstances, a stimulant of sexual emotion. It is evident that a number +of factors contribute to surround whipping at a very early age with +powerful emotional associations, and that these associations are of such a +character that in predisposed subjects they are very easily led into a +sexual channel.[118] Various lines of evidence support this conclusion. +Thus, from several reliable quarters I learn that the sight of a boy being +caned at school may produce sexual excitement in the boys who look on. The +association of sexual emotion with whipping is, again, very liable to show +itself in schoolmasters, and many cases have been recorded in which the +flogging of boys, under the stress of this impulse, has been carried to +extreme lengths. An early and eminent example is furnished by Udall, the +humanist, at one time headmaster of Eton, who was noted for his habit of +inflicting frequent corporal punishment for little or no cause, and who +confessed to sexual practices with the boys under his care.[119] + +Sanitchenko has called attention to the case of a Russian functionary, a +school inspector, who every day had some fifty pupils flogged in his +presence, as evidence of a morbid pleasure in such scenes. Even when no +sexual element can be distinctly traced, scenes of whipping sometimes +exert a singular fascination on some persons of sensitive emotional +temperament. A friend, a clergyman, who has read many novels tells me that +he has been struck by the frequency with which novelists describe such +scenes with much luxury of detail; his list includes novels by well-known +religious writers of both sexes. In some of these cases there is reason to +believe that the writers felt this sexual association of whipping. + +It is natural that an interest in whipping should be developed very early +in childhood, and, indeed, it enters very frequently into the games of +young children, and constitutes a much relished element of such games, +more especially among girls. I know of many cases in which young girls +between 6 and 12 years of age took great pleasure in games in which the +chief point consisted in unfastening each other's drawers and smacking +each other, and some of these girls, when they grew older, realized that +there was an element of sexual enjoyment in their games. It has indeed, it +seems, always been a child's game, and even an amusement of older persons, +to play at smacking each other's nates. In _The Presbyter's Lash_ in 1661 +a young woman is represented as stating that she had done this as a child, +and in ancient France it was a privileged custom on Innocents' Day +(December 28th) to smack all the young people found lying late in bed; it +was a custom which, as Clement Marot bears witness, was attractive to +lovers. + + If we turn to the histories I have brought together in Appendix B + we find various references to whipping more or less clearly + connected with the rudimentary sexual feelings of childhood. + + I am acquainted with numerous cases in which the idea of + whipping, or the impulse to whip or be whipped, distinctly + exists, though usually, when persisting to adult life, only in a + rudimentary form. History I in the Appendix B presents a + well-marked instance. I may quote the remarks in another case of + a lady regarding her early feelings: "As a child the idea of + being whipped excited me, but only in connection with a person I + loved, and, moreover, one who had the right to correct me. On one + occasion I was beaten with the back of a brush, and the pain was + sufficient to overcome any excitement; so that, ever after, this + particular form of whipping left me unaffected, though the + excitement still remained connected with forms of which I had no + experience." + + Another lady states that when a little girl of 4 or 5 the + servants used to smack her nates with a soft brush to amuse + themselves (undoubtedly, as she now believes, this gave them a + kind of sexual pleasure); it did not hurt her, but she disliked + it. Her father used to whip her severely on the nates at this age + and onward to the age of 13, but this never gave her any + pleasure. When, however, she was about 9 she began in waking + dreams to imagine that she was whipping somebody, and would + finish by imagining that she was herself being whipped. She would + make up stories of which the climax was a whipping, and felt at + the same time a pleasurable burning sensation in her sexual + parts; she used to prolong the preliminaries of the story to + heighten the climax; she felt more pleasure in the idea of being + whipped than of whipping, although she never experienced any + pleasure from an actual whipping. These day-dreams were most + vivid when she was at school, between the ages of 11 and 14. They + began to fade with the growth of affection for real persons. But + in dreams, even in adult life, she occasionally experienced + sexual excitement accompanied by images of smacking. + + Another correspondent, this time a man, writes: "I experienced + the connection between sexual excitement and whipping long before + I knew what sexuality meant or had any notion regarding the + functions of the sexual organs. What I now know to be distinct + sexual feeling used to occur whenever the idea of whipping arose + or the mention of whipping was made in a way to arrest my + attention. I well remember the strange, mysterious fascination it + had, even apart from any actual physical excitement. I have been + told by many men and a few women that it was the same with them. + Even now the feeling exists sometimes, especially when reading + about whipping." + + The following confession, which I find recorded by a German + manufacturer's wife, corresponds with those I have obtained in + England: "When about 5 years old I was playing with a little girl + friend in the park. Our governesses sat on a bench talking. For + some reason--perhaps because we had wandered away too far and + failed to hear a call to return--my friend aroused the anger of + the governess in charge of her. That young lady, therefore, took + her aside, raised her dress, and vigorously smacked her with the + flat hand. I looked on fascinated, and possessed by an + inexplicable feeling to which I naïvely gave myself up. The + impression was so deep that the scene and the persons concerned + are still clearly present to my mind, and I can even recall the + little details of my companion's underclothing." When sexual + associations are permanently brought into play through such an + early incident it is possible that a special predisposition + exists. (_Gesellschaft und Geschlecht_, Bd. ii, ht. 4, p. 120.) + +It would certainly seem that we must look upon this association as coming +well within the normal range of emotional life in childhood, although +after puberty, when the sexual feelings become clearly defined, the +attraction of whipping normally tends to be left behind as a piece of +childishness, only surviving in the background of consciousness, if at +all, to furnish a vaguely sexual emotional tone to the subject of +whipping, but not affecting conduct, sometimes only emerging in erotic +dreams. + +This, however, is not invariably the case in persons who are organically +abnormal. In such cases, and especially, it would seem, in highly +sensitive and emotional children, the impress left by the fact or the +image of whipping may be so strong that it affects not only definitely, +but permanently, the whole subsequent course of development of the sexual +impulse. Régis has recorded a case which well illustrates the +circumstances and hereditary conditions under which the idea of whipping +may take such firm root in the sexual emotional nature of a child as to +persist into adult life; at the same time the case shows how a sexual +perversion may, in an intelligent person, take on an intellectual +character, and it also indicates a rational method of treatment. + + Jules P., aged 22, of good heredity on father's side, but bad on + that of mother, who is highly hysterical, while his grandmother + was very impulsive and sometimes pursued other women with a + knife. He has one brother and one sister, who are somewhat morbid + and original. He is himself healthy, intelligent, good looking, + and agreeable, though with slightly morbid peculiarities. At the + age of 4 or 5 he suddenly opened a door and saw his sister, then + a girl of 14 or 15, kneeling, with her clothes raised and her + head on her governess's lap, at the moment of being whipped for + some offense. This trivial incident left a profound impression on + his mind, and he recalls every detail of it, especially the sight + of his sister's buttocks,--round, white, and enormous as they + seemed to his childish eyes,--and that momentary vision gave a + permanent direction to the whole of his sexual life. Always after + that he desired to touch and pat his sister's gluteal regions. He + shared her bed, and, though only a child, acquired great skill in + attaining his ends without attracting her attention, lifting her + night-gown when she slept and gently caressing the buttocks, also + contriving to turn her over on to her stomach and then make a + pillow of her hips. This went on until the age of 7, when he + began to play with two little girls of the neighborhood, the + eldest of whom was 10; he liked to take the part of the father + and whip them. The older girl was big for her age, and he would + separate her drawers and smack her with much voluptuous emotion; + so that he frequently sought opportunities to repeat the + experience, to which the girl willingly lent herself, and they + were constantly together in dark corners, the girl herself + opening her drawers to enable him to caress her thighs and + buttocks with his hand until he became conscious of an erection. + Sometimes he would gently use a whip. On one occasion she asked + him if he would not now like to see her in front, but he + declined. + + One day, when 8 or 9 years old, being with a boy companion, he + came upon a picture of a monk being flagellated, and thereupon + persuaded his companion to let himself be whipped; the boy + enjoyed the experience, which was therefore often repeated. Jules + P. himself, however, never took the slightest pleasure in playing + the passive part. These practices were continued even after the + friend became a conscript, when, however, they became very rare. + Only once or twice has he ever done anything of this kind to + girls who were strangers to him. Nor has he ever masturbated or + had any desire for sexual intercourse. He contents himself with + the pleasure of being occasionally able to witness scenes of + whipping in public places--parks and gardens--or of catching + glimpses of the thighs and buttocks of young girls or, if + possible, women. + + His principal enjoyment is in imagination. From the first he has + loved to invent stories in which whippings were the climax, and + at 13 such stories produced the first spontaneous emission. Thus, + he imagines, for instance, a young girl from the country who + comes up to Paris by train; on the way a lady is attracted by + her, takes an interest in her, brings her home to dinner, and at + last can no longer resist the temptation to take the girl in her + arms and whip her amorously. He writes out these scenes and + illustrates them with drawings, many of which Régis reproduces. + He has even written comedies in which whipping plays a prominent + part. He has, moreover, searched public libraries for references + to flagellation, inserted queries in the _Intermédiare des + Chercheurs et des Curieux_, and thus obtained a complete + bibliography of flagellation which is of considerable value. + Régis is acquainted with these _Archives de la Fessée_, and + states that they are carried on with great method and care. He is + especially interested in the whipping of women by women. He + considers that the pleasure of whippings should always be shared + by the person whipped, and he is somewhat concerned to find that + he has an increasing inclination to imagine an element of cruelty + in the whipping. Emissions are somewhat frequent. According to + the latest information, he is much better; he has entered into + sexual relationship with a woman who is much in love with him, + and to whom he has confided his peculiarities. With her aid and + suggestions he has been able to have intercourse with her, at the + moment of coitus whipping her with a harmless India-rubber tube. + (E. Régis, "Un Cas de Perversion Sexuelle, a forme Sadique," + _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelles_, July, 1899.) + + In a case also occurring in a highly educated man (narrated by + Marandon de Montyel) a doctor of laws, brilliantly intellectual + and belonging to a family in which there had been some insanity, + when at school at the age of 11, saw for the first time a + schoolfellow whipped on the nates, and experienced a new pleasure + and emotion. He was never himself whipped at school, but would + invent games with his sisters and playfellows in which whipping + formed an essential part. At the age of 13 he teased a young + woman, a cook, until she seized him and whipped him. He put his + arms around her and experienced his first voluptuous spasm of + sex. The love of flagellation temporarily died out, however, and + gave place to masturbation and later to a normal attraction to + women. But at the age of 32 the old ideas were aroused anew by a + story his mistress told him. He suffered from various obsessions + and finally committed suicide. (Marandon de Montyel, "Obsessions + et Vie Sexuelle," _Archives de Neurologie_, Oct., 1904.) + + In a case that has been reported to me, somewhat similar ideas + played a part. The subject is a tall, well-developed man, aged + 28, delicate in childhood, but now normal in health and physical + condition, though not fond of athletics. His mental ability is + much above the average, especially in scientific directions; he + was brought up in narrow and strict religious views, but at an + early age developed agnostic views of his own. + + From the age of 6, and perhaps earlier, he practised masturbation + almost every night. This was a habit which he carried on in all + innocence. It was as invariable a preliminary, he states, to + going to sleep as was lying down, and at this period he would + have felt no hesitation in telling all about it had the question + been asked. At the age of 12 or 13 he recognized the habit as + abnormal, and fear of ridicule then caused him to keep silence + and to avoid observation. In carrying it out he would lie on his + stomach with the penis directed downward, and not up, and the + thumb resting on the region above the root of the penis. There + was desire for micturition after the act, and when that was + satisfied sound sleep followed. When he realized that the habit + was abnormal he began to make efforts to discontinue it, and + these efforts have been continued up to the present. The chief + obstacle has been the difficulty of sleep without carrying out + the practice. Emissions first began to occur at the age of 13 and + at first caused some alarm. During the six following years + indulgence was irregular, sometimes occurring every other night + and sometimes with a week's intermission. Then at the age of 19 + the habit was broken for a year, during which nocturnal emissions + took place during sleep about every three weeks. Since this, + shorter periods of non-indulgence have occurred, these periods + always coinciding with unusual mental or physical strain, as of + examinations. He has some degree of attraction for women; this is + strongest during cessation from masturbation and tends to + disappear when the habit is resumed. He has never had sexual + intercourse because he prefers his own method of gratification + and feels great abhorrence for professional prostitutes; he could + not afford to marry. Any indecency or immorality, except (he + observes) his own variety, disgusts him. + + At the earliest period no mental images accompanied the act of + masturbation. At about the age of 8, however, sexual excitement + began to be constantly associated with ideas of being whipped. At + or soon after this age only the fear of disgrace prevented him + from committing serious childish offenses likely to be punished + by a good whipping. Parents and masters, however, seem to have + used corporal punishment very sparingly. + + At first this desire was for whipping in general, without + reference to the operator. Soon after the age of 10, however, he + began to wish that certain boy friends should be the operators. + At about the same time definite desire arose for closer contact + with these friends and later for definite indecent acts which, + however, the subject failed to specify; he probably meant mutual + masturbation. These desires were under control, and the fear of + ridicule seems to have been the chief restraining cause. At about + the age of 15 he began to realize that such acts might be + considered morally bad and wrong, and this led to reticence and + careful concealment. Up to the age of 20 there were four definite + attachments to persons of his own sex. There was a tendency, + sometimes, to regard women as possible whippers, and this became + stronger at 22, the images of the two sexes then mingling in his + thoughts of flagellation. Latterly the mental accompaniments of + masturbation have been less personal, lapsing into the mental + picture of being whipped by an unknown and vague somebody. When + definite it has always been a man, and preferably of the type of + a schoolmaster. His desire has been for punishment by whips, + canes, or birches, especially upon the buttocks. He has always + shrunk from the thought of the production of blood or bruises. He + wishes, in mental contemplation, for a punishment sufficiently + severe to make him anxious to stop it, and yet not able to stop + it. He also takes pleasure in the idea of being tied up so as to + be unable to move. + + He has at times indulged in self-whipping, of no great severity. + + In the preceding case we see a tendency to erotic + self-flagellation which in a minor degree is not uncommon. + Occasionally it becomes highly developed. Max Marcuse has + presented such a case in elaborate detail (_Zeitschrift für die + Gesamte Neurologie_, 1912, ht. 3, fully summarized in + _Sexual-Probleme_, Nov., 1912, pp. 815-820). This is the case of + a Catholic priest of highly neurotic heredity, who spontaneously + began to whip himself at the age of 12, this self-flagellation + being continued and accompanied by masturbation after the age of + 15. Other associated perversions were Narcissism and nates + fetichism, as well as homosexual phantasies. He experienced a + certain pleasure (with erection, not ejaculation) in punishing + his boy pupils. It is not uncommon for all forms of erotic + flagellation to be associated with a homosexual element. I have + elsewhere brought forward a case of this kind (the case of A.F., + vol. ii of these _Studies_). + + Significant is Rousseau's account of the origin of his own + masochistic pleasure in whipping at the age of 8: "Mademoiselle + Lambercier showed toward me a mother's affection and also a + mother's authority, which she sometimes carried so far as to + inflict on us the usual punishment of children when we had + deserved it. For a long time she was content with the threat, and + that threat of a chastisement which for me was quite new seemed + very terrible; but after it had been executed I found the + experience less terrible than the expectation had been; and, + strangely enough, this punishment increased my affection for her + who had inflicted it. It needed all my affection and all my + natural gentleness to prevent me from seeking a renewal of the + same treatment by deserving it, for I had found in the pain and + even in the shame of it an element of sensuality which left more + desire than fear of receiving the experience again from the same + hand. It is true that, as in all this a precocious sexual element + was doubtless mixed, the same chastisement if inflicted by her + brother would not have seemed so pleasant." He goes on to say + that the punishment was inflicted a second time, but that that + time was the last, Mademoiselle Lambercier having apparently + noted the effects it produced, and, henceforth, instead of + sleeping in her room, he was placed in another room and treated + by her as a big boy. "Who would have believed," he adds, "that + this childish punishment, received at the age of 8 from the hand + of a young woman of 30, would have determined my tastes, my + desires, my passions, for the rest of my life?" He remarks that + this strange taste drove him almost to madness, but maintained + the purity of his morals, and the joys of love existed for him + chiefly in imagination. (J.J. Rousseau, _Les Confessions_, partie + i, livre i.) It will be seen how all the favoring conditions of + fear, shame, and precocious sexuality were here present in an + extremely sensitive child destined to become the greatest + emotional force of his century, and receptive to influences which + would have had no permanent effect on any ordinary child. (When, + as occasionally happens, the first sexual feelings are + experienced under the stimulation of whipping in normal children, + no permanent perversion necessarily follows; Moll mentions that + he knows such cases, _Zeitschrift für Pädagogie, Psychiatrie, und + Pathologie_, 1901.) It may be added that it is, perhaps, not + fanciful to see a certain inevitableness in the fact that on + Rousseau's highly sensitive and receptive temperament it was a + masochistic germ that fell and fructified, while on Régis's + subject, with his more impulsive ancestral antecedents, a + sadistic germ found favorable soil. + + It may be noted that in Régis's sadistic case the little girl who + was the boy's playmate found scarcely less pleasure in the + passive part of whipping than he found in the active. There is + ample evidence to show that this is very often the case, and that + the attractiveness of the idea of being whipped often even arises + spontaneously in children. Lombroso (_La Donna Delinquente_, p. + 404) refers to a girl of 7 who had voluptuous pleasure in being + whipped, and Hammer (_Monatschrift für Harnkrankheiten_, 1906, p. + 398) speaks of a young girl who similarly experienced pleasure in + punishment by whipping. Krafft-Ebing records the case of a girl + of between 6 and 8 years of age, never at that time having been + whipped or seen anyone else whipped, who spontaneously + acquired--how she did not know--the desire to be castigated in + this manner. It gave her very great pleasure to imagine a woman + friend doing this to her. She never desired to be whipped by a + man, though there was no trace of inversion, and she never + masturbated until the age of 24, when a marriage engagement was + broken off. At the age of 10 this longing passed away before it + was ever actually realized. (Krafft-Ebing, _Psychopathia + Sexualis_, eighth edition, p. 136.) + + In the case of another young woman described by + Krafft-Ebing--where there was neurasthenia with other minor + morbid conditions in the family, but the girl herself appears to + have been sound--the desire to be whipped existed from a very + early age. She traced it to the fact that when she was 5 years + old a friend of her father's playfully placed her across his + knees and pretended to whip her. Since then she has always longed + to be caned, but to her great regret the wish has never been + realized. She longs to be the slave of a man whom she loves: + "Lying in fancy before him, he puts one foot on my neck while I + kiss the other. I revel in the idea of being whipped by him and + imagine different scenes in which he beats me. I take the blows + as so many tokens of love; he is at first extremely kind and + tender, but then in the excess of his love he beats me. I fancy + that to beat me for love's sake gives him the highest pleasure." + Sometimes she imagines that she is his slave, but not his female + slave, for every woman may be her husband's slave. She is of + proud and independent nature in all other matters, and to imagine + herself a man who consents to be a slave gives her a more + satisfying sense of humiliation. She does not understand that + these manifestations are of a sexual nature. (Krafft-Ebing, + _Psychopathia Sexualis_, English translation of tenth edition, p. + 189.) + + Sometimes a woman desires to take the active part in whipping. + Thus Marandon de Montyel records the case of a girl of 19, + hereditarily neuropathic (her father was alcoholic), but very + intelligent and good-hearted, who had never been whipped or seen + anyone whipped. At this age, however, she happened to visit a + married friend who was just about to punish her boy of 9 by + whipping him with a wet towel. The girl spectator was much + interested, and though the boy screamed and struggled she + experienced a new sensation she could not define. "At every + stroke," she said, "a strange shiver went through all my body + from my brain to my heels." She would like to have whipped him + herself and felt sorry when it was over. She could not forget the + scene and would dream of herself whipping a boy. At last the + desire became irresistible and she persuaded a boy of 12, whom + she was very fond of, and who was much attached to her, to let + her whip him on the naked nates. She did this so ferociously that + he at last fainted. She was overcome by grief and remorse. + (Marandon de Montyel, _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, + Jan., 1906, p. 30.) + + Although masochism in a pronounced degree may be said to be rare + in women, the love of active flagellation, and sadistic impulses + generally are not uncommon among them. Bloch believes they are + especially common among English women. Cases occur from time to + time of extreme harshness, cruelty, degrading punishment, and + semi-starvation inflicted upon children. The accused are most + usually women, and when a man and woman in conjunction are + accused it appears generally to have been the woman who played + the more active part. But it is rarely demonstrated in these + cases that the cruelty exercised had a definite sexual origin. + There is nothing, for instance, to indicate true sadism in the + famous English case in the eighteenth century of Mrs. Brownrigg + (Bloch, _Geschlechtsleben in England_, vol. ii, p. 425). It may + well be, however, in many of these cases that the real motive is + sexual, although latent and unconscious. The normal sexual + impulse in women is often obscured and disguised, and it would + not be surprising if the perverse instinct is so likewise. + + It is noteworthy that a passion for whipping may be aroused by + contact with a person who desires to be whipped. This is + illustrated by the following case which has been communicated to + me: "K. is a Jew, about 40 years of age, apparently normal. + Nothing is known of his antecedents. He is a manufacturer with + several shops. S., an Englishwoman, aged 25, entered his service; + she is illegitimate, believed to have been reared in a brothel + kept by her mother, is prepossessing in appearance. On entering + K.'s service S. was continually negligent and careless. This so + provoked K. that on one occasion he struck her. She showed great + pleasure and confessed that her blunder had been deliberately + intended to arouse him to physical violence. At her suggestion K. + ultimately consented to thrash her. This operation took place in + K.'s office, S. stripping for the purpose, and the leather + driving band from a sewing-machine was used. S. manifested + unmistakable pleasure during the flagellation, and connection + occurred after it. These thrashings were repeated at frequent + intervals, and K. found a growing liking for the operation on his + own part. Once, at the suggestion of S., a girl of 13 employed by + K. was thrashed by both K. and S. alternately. The child + complained to her parents and K. made a money payment to them to + avoid scandal, the parents agreeing to keep silence. Other women + (Jewish tailoresses) employed by K. were subsequently thrashed by + him. He asserts that they enjoyed the experience. Mrs. K., + discovering her husband's infatuation for S., commenced divorce + proceedings. S. consented to leave the country at K.'s request, + but returned almost immediately and was kept in hiding until the + decree was granted. The mutual infatuation of K. and S. + continues, though K. asserts that he cares less for her than + formerly. Flagellation has, however, now become a passion with + him, though he declares that the practice was unknown to him + before he met S. His great fear is that he will kill S. during + one of these operations. He is convinced that S. is not an + isolated case, and that all women enjoy flagellation. He claims + that the experiences of the numerous women whom he has now + thrashed bear out this opinion; one of them is a wealthy woman + separated from her husband, and is now infatuated with K." + + Flagellation, more especially in its masochistic form, is + sometimes associated with true inversion. Moll presents the case + of a young inverted woman of 26, showing, indeed, many other + minor sexual anomalies, who is sexually excited when beaten with + a switch. A whip would not do, and the blows must only be on the + nates; she cannot imagine being beaten by a small woman. She has + often in this way been beaten by a friend, who should be naked at + the time, and must submit afterward to cunnilinctus. (Moll, + _Konträre Sexualempfindung_ third edition, p. 568.) + + In the preceding case there were no masochistic ideas; it is + likely that in such a case beating is desired largely on account + of that purely physical effect to which attention has already + been called. In the same way self-beating with a switch or whip + has sometimes been spontaneously discovered as a method of + self-excitement preliminary to masturbation. I am acquainted with + a lady of much intellectual ability, sexually normal, who made + this discovery at the age of 18, and practised it for a time. + Professor Reverdin, also, speaks of the case of a young girl + under his care who, after having exhausted all the resources of + her intelligence, finally discovered that the climax of enjoyment + was best reached by violently whipping her own buttocks and + thighs. She had invented for this purpose a whip composed of + twelve cords each of which terminated in a large chestnut-burr + provided with its spines. (A. Reverdin, _Revue Médicale de la + Suisse Romande_, January 20, 1888, p. 17.) + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[107] The discipline or scourge was classed with fasting as a method of +mastering the flesh and of penance. See, e.g., Lea, _History of Auricular +Confession_, vol. ii, p. 122. For many centuries bishops and priests used +themselves to apply the discipline to their penitents. At first it was +applied to the back; later, especially in the case of female penitents, it +was frequently applied to the nates. Moreover, partial or complete nudity +came to be frequently demanded, the humiliation thereby caused being +pleasant in the sight of God. + +[108] Dulaure, _Des Divinités Génératrices_, ch. xv; Lea, _History of +Sacerdotal Celibacy_, 3d ed., vol. ii, p. 278; Kiernan, "Asceticism as an +Auto-erotism," _Alienist and Neurologist_, Aug., 1911. + +[109] This is the opinion of Löwenfeld, _Ueber die Sexuelle Konstitution_, +p. 43. + +[110] Thus, Dühren (Iwan Bloch) remarks (_Der Marquis de Sade und Seine +Zeit_, 1901, p. 211): "It is well known that England is today the classic +land of sexual flagellation." See the same author's _Geschlechtsleben in +England_, vol. ii, ch. vi. In America it appears also to be common, and +Kiernan mentions that in advertisements of Chicago "massage shops" there +often appears the announcement: "Flagellation a Specialty." The reports of +police inspectors in eighteenth century France show how common +flagellation then was in Paris. It may be added that various men of +distinguished intellectual ability of recent times and earlier are +reported as addicted to passive flagellation; this was the case with +Helvétius. + +[111] A full bibliography of flagellation would include many hundred +items. The more important works on this subject, in connection with the +sexual impulse, are enumerated by Eulenburg, in his _Sadismus und +Masochismus_. An elaborate history of flagellation generally is now being +written by Georg Collas, _Geschichte des Flagellantismus_, vol. i, 1912. + +[112] Löwenfeld, _Ueber die Sexuelle Konstitution_, p. 43. + +[113] _Archiv für Kriminal-Anthropologie_, 1909, p. 361. He brings forward +the evidence of a reliable and cultured man who at one time sought to +obtain the pleasures of passive sexual flagellation. But in spite of his +expectation and good will the only result was to disperse every trace of +sexual desire. + +[114] E.g., Kiefer, _Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft_, Aug., 1908. + +[115] Féré, _Revue de Médecine_, August, 1900. In this paper Féré brings +together many interesting facts concerning flagellation in ancient times. + +[116] Schmidt-Heuert (_Monatschrift für Harnkrankheiten_, 1906, ht. 7) +argues that it is not so much the actual use of the rod as playful, +threatening and mysterious suggestions playing around it which nowadays +gives it sexual fascination. + +[117] Moll (_Untersuchungen über die Libido Sexualis_, Bd. 1, p. 18) +points out that these emotions frequently suffice to cause sexual +emissions in schoolboys. + +[118] As Eulenburg truly points out, the circumstances attending the +whipping of a woman may be sexually attractive, even in the absence of any +morbid impulse. Such circumstances are "the sight of naked feminine charms +and especially--in the usual mode of flagellation--of those parts which +possess for the sexual epicure a peculiar esthetic attraction; the idea of +treating a loved, or at all events desired, person as a child, of having +her in complete subjection and being able to dispose of her despotically; +and finally the immediate results of whipping: the changes in skin-color, +the to and fro movements which simulate or anticipate the initial +phenomena of coitus." (Eulenburg, _Sexuale Neuropathie_, p. 121.) + +[119] See the article on Udall in the _Dictionary of National Biography_. + + + + +IV. + +The Impulse to Strangle the Object of Sexual Desire--The Wish to be +Strangled--Respiratory Disturbance the Essential Element in this Group of +Phenomena--The Part Played by Respiratory Excitement in the Process of +Courtship--Swinging and Suspension--The Attraction Exerted by the Idea of +being Chained and Fettered. + + +There is another impulse which it may be worth while to consider briefly +here, for the sake of the light it throws on the relationship between love +and pain. I allude to the impulse to strangle the object of sexual desire, +and to the corresponding craving to be strangled. Cases have been recorded +in which this impulse was so powerful that men have actually strangled +women at the moment of coitus.[120] Such cases are rare; but, as a mere +idea, the thought of strangling a woman appears to be not infrequently +associated with sexual emotion. We must probably regard it as, in the +main,--with whatever subsidiary elements,--an aspect of that physical +seizure, domination, and forcible embrace of the female which is one of +the primitive elements of courtship.[121] + +The corresponding idea--the pleasurable connection of the thought of being +strangled with sexual emotion--appears to occur still more frequently, +perhaps especially in women. Here we seem to have, as in the case of +whipping, a combination of a physical with a psychic element. Not only is +the idea attractive, but, as a matter of fact, strangulation, suffocation, +or any arrest of respiration, even when carried to the extent of producing +death, may actually provoke emission, as is observed after death by +hanging.[122] It is noteworthy that, as Eulenburg remarks, the method of +treating diseases of the spinal cord by suspension--a method much in vogue +a few years ago--often produced sexual excitement.[123] In brothels, it is +said, some of the clients desire to be suspended vertically by a cord +furnished with pads.[124] A playful attempt to throttle her on the part of +her lover is often felt by a woman as pleasurable, though it may not +necessarily produce definite sexual excitement. Sometimes, however, this +feeling becomes so strong that it must be regarded as an actual +perversion, and I have been told of a woman who is indifferent to the +ordinary sexual embrace; her chief longing is to be throttled, and she +will do anything to have her neck squeezed by her lover till her eyeballs +bulge.[125] + + "I think if I could be left my present feelings," a lady writes, + "and be changed into a male imbecile,--that is, given a man's + strength, but deprived, to a large extent, of reasoning power,--I + might very likely act in the apparently cruel way they do. And + this partly because many of their actions appeal to me on the + passive side. The idea of being _strangled_ by a person I love + does. The great sensitiveness of one's throat and neck come in + here as well as the loss of breath. Once when I was about to be + separated from a man I cared for I put his hands on my throat and + implored him to kill me. It was a moment of madness, which helps + me to understand the feelings of a person always insane. Even now + that I am cool and collected I know that if I were deeply in love + with a man who I thought was going to kill me, especially in that + way, I would make no effort to save myself beforehand, though, of + course, in the final moments nature would assert herself without + my volition. What makes the horror of such cases in insanity is + the fact of the love being left out. But I think I find no + greater difficulty in picturing the mental attitude of a sadistic + lunatic than that of a normal man who gets pleasure out of women + for whom he has no love." + +The imagined pleasure of being strangled by a lover brings us to a group +of feelings which would seem to be not unconnected with respiratory +elements. I refer to the pleasurable excitement experienced by some in +suspension, swinging, restraint, and fetters. Strangulation is the extreme +and most decided type of this group of imagined or real situations, in all +of which a respiratory disturbance seems to be an essential element.[126] + +In explaining these phenomena we have to remark that respiratory +excitement has always been a conspicuous part of the whole process of +tumescence and detumescence, of the struggles of courtship and of its +climax, and that any restraint upon respiration, or, indeed, any restraint +upon muscular and emotional activity generally, tends to heighten the +state of sexual excitement associated with such activity. + + I have elsewhere, when studying the spontaneous solitary + manifestation of the sexual instinct (_Auto-erotism_, in vol. i + of these _Studies_), referred to the pleasurably emotional, and + sometimes sexual, effects of swinging and similar kinds of + movement. It is possible that there is a certain significance in + the frequency with which the eighteenth-century French painters, + who lived at a time when the refinements of sexual emotion were + carefully sought out, have painted women in the act of swinging. + Fragonard mentions that in 1763 a gentleman invited him into the + country, with the request to paint his mistress, especially + stipulating that she should be depicted in a swing. The same + motive was common among the leading artists of that time. It may + be said that this attitude was merely a pretext to secure a + vision of ankles, but that result could easily have been attained + without the aid of the swing. + + I may here quote, as bearing on this and allied questions, a + somewhat lengthy communication from a lady to whom I am indebted + for many subtle and suggestive remarks on the whole of this group + of manifestations:-- + + "With regard to the connection between swinging and suspension, + perhaps the physical basis of it is the loss of breath. Temporary + loss of breath with me produces excitement. Swinging at a height + or a fall from a height would cause loss of breath; in a state of + suspension the imagination would suggest the idea of falling and + the attendant loss of breath. People suffering from lung disease + are often erotically inclined, and anesthetics affect the + breathing. Men also seem to like the idea of suspension, but from + the active side. One man used to put his wife on a high swinging + shelf when she displeased him, and my husband told me once he + would like to suspend me to a crane we were watching at work, + though I have never mentioned my own feeling on this point to + him. Suspension is often mentioned in descriptions of torture. + Beatrice Cenci was hung up by her hair and the recently murdered + Queen of Korea was similarly treated. In Tolstoi's _My Husband + and I_ the girl says she would like her husband to hold her over + a precipice. That passage gave me great pleasure.[127] + + "The idea of slipping off an inclined plane gives me the same + sensation. I always feel it on seeing Michael Angelo's 'Night,' + though the slipping look displeases me artistically. I remember + that when I saw the 'Night' first I did feel excited and was + annoyed, and it seemed to me it was the slipping-off look that + gave it; but I think I am now less affected by that idea. Certain + general ideas seem to excite one, but the particular forms under + which they are presented lose their effect and have to be varied. + The sentence mentioned in Tolstoi leaves me now quite cold, but + if I came across the same idea elsewhere, expressed differently, + then it would excite me. I am very capricious in the small + things, and I think women are so more than men. The idea of + slipping down a plank formerly produced excitement with me; now + it has a less vivid effect, though the idea of loss of breath + still produces excitement. The idea of the plank does not now + affect me unless there is a certain amount of drapery. I think, + therefore, that the feeling must come in part from the + possibility of the drapery catching on some roughness of the + surface of the slope, and so producing pressure on the sexual + organs. The effect is still produced, however, even without any + clothing, if the slope is supposed to end in a deep drop, so that + the idea of falling is strongly presented. I cannot recollect any + early associations that would tend to explain these feelings, + except that jumping from a height, which I used frequently to do + as a child, has a tendency to create excitement. + + "With me, I may add, it is when I cannot express myself, or am + trying to understand what I feel is beyond my grasp, that the + first stage of sexual excitement results. For instance, I never + get excited in thinking over sexual questions, because my ideas, + correct or incorrect, are fairly clear and definite. But I often + feel sexually excited over that question of the inheritance of + acquired characteristics, not because I can't decide between the + two sets of evidence, but because I don't feel confident of + having fully grasped the true significance of either. This + feeling of want of power, mental or physical, always has the same + effect. I feel it if my eyes are blindfolded or my hands tied. I + don't like to see the Washington Post dance, in which the man + stands behind the woman and holds her hands, on that account. If + he held her wrists the feeling would be stronger, as her apparent + helplessness would be increased. The nervous irritability that is + caused by being under restraint seems to manifest itself in that + way, while in the case of mental disability the excitement, which + should flow down a mental channel, being checked, seems to take a + physical course instead. + + "Possibly this would help to explain masochistic sexual feelings. + A physical cause working in the present would be preferable as an + explanation to a psychological cause to be traced back through + heredity to primitive conditions. I believe such feelings are + very common in men as well as in women, only people do not care + to admit them, as a rule." + +The idea of being chained and fettered appears to be not uncommonly +associated with pleasurable sexual feelings, for I have met with numerous +cases in both men and women, and it not infrequently coexists with a +tendency to inversion. It often arises at a very early age, and it is of +considerable interest because we cannot account for its frequency by any +chance association nor by any actual experiences. It would appear to be a +purely psychic fantasia founded on the elementary physical fact that +restraint of emotion, like suspension, produces a heightening of emotion. +In any case the spontaneous character of such ideas and emotions in +children of both sexes suffices to show that they must possess a very +definite organic basis. + + In one of the histories (X) contained in Appendix B at the end of + the present volume a lady describes how, as a child, she reveled + in the idea of being chained and tortured, these ideas appearing + to rise spontaneously. In another case, that of A.N. (for the + most part reproduced in "Erotic Symbolism," in vol. v of these + _Studies_), whose ideals are inverted and who is also affected by + boot-fetichism, the idea of fetters is very attractive. In this + case self-excitement was produced at a very early age, without + the use of the hands, by strapping the legs together. We can, + however, scarcely explain away the idea of fetters in this case + as merely the result of an early association, for it may well be + argued that the idea led to this method of self-excitement. "The + mere idea of fetters," this subject writes, "produces the + greatest excitement, and the sight of pictures representing such + things is a temptation. The reading of books dealing with prison + life, etc., anywhere where physical restraint is treated of, is a + temptation. The temptation is aggravated when the picture + represents the person booted. I suppose all this will have been + intensified in my case by my practices as a child. But why should + a child of 6 do such things unless it were a natural instinct in + him? Nobody showed me; I have never mentioned such things to + anyone. I used to read historical romances for the pleasure of + reading of people being put in prison, in fetters, and tortured, + and always envied them. I feel now that I should like to undergo + the sensation. If I could get anyone to humor me without losing + their self-respect, I should jump at the opportunity. I have been + most powerfully excited by visiting an old Australian + convict-ship, where all the means of restraint are shown; I have + been attracted to it night after night, wanting, but not daring + to ask, to be allowed to have a practical experience." + + Stcherbak, of Warsaw, has recorded a case which resembles that of + A.N., but there was no inversion and the attraction of fetters + was active rather than passive; the subject desired to fetter and + not to be fettered. It is possible that this difference is not + fundamental, though Stcherbak regards the case as one of + fetichism of sadistic origin ("Contribution à l'Etude des + Perversions Sexuelles," _Archives de Neurologie_, Oct., 1907). + The subject was a highly intelligent though neurasthenic youth, + who from the age of 5 had been deeply interested in criminals who + were fettered and sent to prison. The fate of Siberian prisoners + was a frequent source of prolonged meditations. It was the + fettering which alone interested him, and he spent much time in + trying to imagine the feelings of the fettered prisoners, and he + often imagined that he was himself a prisoner in fetters. (This + seems to indicate that the impulse was in its origin masochistic + as much as sadistic, and better described as algolagnia than as + sadism.) He delighted in stories and pictures of fettered + persons. At the age of 15 the sex of the fettered person became + important and he was interested chiefly in fettered women. A new + element also appeared; he was attracted to well-dressed women and + especially to those wearing elegant shoes, delighting to imagine + them fettered. He fastened his own feet together with chains, + attempting to walk about his room in this condition, but + experienced comparatively little pleasure in this way. At the age + of 15 he met a lady 10 years older than himself and of great + intelligence. As he began to know her more intimately she allowed + him to take liberties with her; he fastened her hands behind her + back, and this caused him a violent but delicious emotion which + he had never experienced before. Next time he fastened her feet + together as well as her hands; as he did so her shoes slightly + touched his sexual organs; this caused erection and ejaculation, + accompanied by the most acute sexual pleasure he had ever felt. + He had no wish to see her naked or to uncover himself, and as + long as this relationship lasted he had no abnormal thoughts at + other times, or in connection with other people. He never + masturbated, and his sexual dreams were of fettered men or women. + Stcherbak discusses the case at length and considers that it is + essentially an example of sadism, on the ground that the impulse + of fettering was prompted by the desire to humiliate. There is, + however, no evidence of any such desire, and, as a matter of + fact, no humiliation was effected. The primary and fundamental + element in this and similar cases is an almost abstract sexual + fascination in the idea of restraint, whether endured, inflicted, + or merely witnessed or imagined; the feet become the chief focus + of this fascination, and the basis on which a foot-fetichism or + shoe-fetichism tends to arise, because restraint of the feet + produces a more marked effect than restraint of the hands. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[120] An attenuated and symbolic form of this impulse is seen in the +desire to strangle birds with the object of stimulating or even satisfying +sexual desire. Prostitutes are sometimes acquainted with men who bring a +live pigeon with them to be strangled just before intercourse. Lanphear, +of St. Louis (_Alienist and Neurologist_, May, 1907, p. 204) knew a woman, +having learned masturbation in a convent school, who was only excited and +not satisfied by coitus with her husband, and had to rise from bed, catch +and caress a chicken, and finally wring its neck, whereupon orgasm +occurred. + +[121] Even young girls, however, may experience pleasure in the playful +attempt to strangle. Thus a lady speaking of herself at the time of +puberty, when she was in the habit of masturbating, writes +(_Sexual-Probleme_, Aug., 1909, p. 636): "I acquired a desire to seize +people, especially girls, by the throat, and I enjoyed their way of +screaming out." + +[122] Godard observed that when animals are bled, or felled, as well as +strangled, there is often abundant emission, rich in spermatozoa, but +without erection, though accompanied by the same movements of the tail as +during copulation. Robin (art. "Fécondation," _Dictionnaire Encyclopédique +des Sciences Médicales_), who quotes this observation, has the following +remarks on this subject: "Ejaculation occurring at the moment when the +circulation, maintained artificially, stops is a fact of significance. +It shows how congestive conditions--or inversely anemic +conditions--constitute organic states sufficient to set in movement the +activity of the nerve-centers, as is the case for muscular +contractility.... Everything leads us to believe that at the moment when +the motor nervous action takes place the corresponding sensitive centers +also come into play." It must be added that Minovici, in his elaborate +study of death by hanging ("Etude sur la Pendaison," _Archives +d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, 1905, especially p. 791 et seq.), concludes +that the turgescence of penis and flow of spermatic fluid (sometimes only +prostatic secretion) usually observed in these cases is purely passive and +generally, though not always, of post-mortem occurrence. There is, +therefore, no sexual pleasure in death by hanging, and persons who have +been rescued at the last moment have experienced no voluptuous sensations. +This was so even in the case, referred to by Minovici, of a man who hanged +himself solely with the object of producing sexual pleasure. + +[123] Eulenburg, _Sexuale Neuropathie_, p. 114. + +[124] Bernaldo de Quirós and Llanos Aguilaniedo (_La Mala Vida en Madrid_, +p. 294) knew the case of a man who found pleasure in lying back on an +inclined couch while a prostitute behind him pulled at a slipknot until he +was nearly suffocated; it was the only way in which he could attain sexual +gratification. + +[125] Arrest of respiration, it may be noted, may accompany strong sexual +excitement, as it may some other emotional states; one recalls passages in +the _Arabian Nights_ in which we are told of ladies who at the sight of a +very beautiful youth "felt their reason leave them, yearned to embrace the +marvelous youth, and _ceased breathing_." Inhibited respiration is indeed, +as Stevens shows ("Study of Attention," _American Journal of Psychology_, +Oct., 1905), a characteristic of all active attention. + +[126] The exact part played by the respiration and even the circulation in +constituting emotional states is still not clear, although various +experiments have been made; see, e.g., Angell and Thompson, "A Study of +the Relations between Certain Organic Processes and Consciousness," +_Psychological Review_, January, 1899. A summary statement of the +relations of the respiration and circulation to emotional states will be +found in Külpe's _Outlines of Psychology_, part i, section 2, § 37. + +[127] The words alluded to by my correspondent are as follows: "I needed a +struggle; what I needed was that feeling should guide life, and not that +life should guide feeling. I wanted to go with him to the edge of an abyss +and say: 'Here a step and I will throw myself over; and here a motion and +I have gone to destruction'; and for him, turning pale, to seize me in his +strong arms, hold me back over it till my heart grew cold within me, and +then carry me away wherever he pleased." The whole of the passage in which +these lines occur is of considerable psychological interest. In one +English translation the story is entitled _Family Happiness_. + + + + +V. + +Pain, and Not Cruelty, the Essential Element in Sadism and Masochism--Pain +Felt as Pleasure--Does the Sadist Identify Himself with the Feelings of +his Victim?--The Sadist often a Masochist in Disguise--The Spectacle of +Pain or Struggle as a Sexual Stimulant. + + +In the foregoing rapid survey of the great group of manifestations in +which the sexual emotions come into intimate relationship with pain, it +has become fairly clear that the ordinary division between "sadism" and +"masochism," convenient as these terms may be, has a very slight +correspondence with facts. Sadism and masochism may be regarded as +complementary emotional states; they cannot be regarded as opposed +states.[128] Even De Sade himself, we have seen, can scarcely be regarded +as a pure sadist. A passage in one of his works expressing regret that +sadistic feeling is rare among women, as well as his definite recognition +of the fact that the suffering of pain may call forth voluptuous emotions, +shows that he was not insensitive to the charm of masochistic experience, +and it is evident that a merely blood-thirsty vampire, sane or insane, +could never have retained, as De Sade retained, the undying devotion of +two women so superior in heart and intelligence as his wife and +sister-in-law. Had De Sade possessed any wanton love of cruelty, it would +have appeared during the days of the Revolution, when it was safer for a +man to simulate blood-thirstiness, even if he did not feel it, than to +show humanity. But De Sade distinguished himself at that time not merely +by his general philanthropic activities, but by saving from the scaffold, +at great risk to himself, those who had injured him. It is clear that, +apart from the organically morbid twist by which he obtained sexual +satisfaction in his partner's pain,--a craving which was, for the most +part, only gratified in imaginary visions developed to an inhuman extent +under the influence of solitude,--De Sade was simply, to those who knew +him, "_un aimable mauvais sujet_" gifted with exceptional intellectual +powers. Unless we realize this we run the risk of confounding De Sade and +his like with men of whom Judge Jeffreys was the sinister type. + +It is necessary to emphasize this point because there can be no doubt that +De Sade is really a typical instance of the group of perversions he +represents, and when we understand that it is pain only, and not cruelty, +that is the essential in this group of manifestations we begin to come +nearer to their explanation. The masochist desires to experience pain, but +he generally desires that it should be inflicted in love; the sadist +desires to inflict pain, but in some cases, if not in most, he desires +that it should be felt as love. How far De Sade consciously desired that +the pain he sought to inflict should be felt as pleasure it may not now be +possible to discover, except by indirect inference, but the confessions of +sadists show that such a desire is quite commonly essential. + + I am indebted to a lady for the following communication on the + foregoing aspect of this question: "I believe that, when a person + takes pleasure in inflicting pain, he or she imagines himself or + herself in the victim's place. This would account for the + transmutability of the two sets of feelings. This might be + particularly so in the case of men. A man may not care to lower + his dignity and vanity by putting himself in subjection to a + woman, and he might fear she would feel contempt for him. By + subduing her and subjecting her to passive restraint he would + preserve, even enhance, his own power and dignity, while at the + same time obtaining a reflected pleasure from what he imagined + she was feeling. + + "I think that when I get pleasure out of the idea of subduing + another it is this reflected pleasure I get. And if this is so + one could thus feel more kindly to persons guilty of cruelty, + which has hitherto always seemed the one unpardonable sin. Even + criminals, if it is true that they are themselves often very + insensitive, may, in the excitement of the moment, imagine that + they are only inflicting trifling pain, as it would be to them, + and that their victim's feelings are really pleasurable. The men + I have known most given to inflicting pain are all particularly + tender-hearted when their passions are not in question. I cannot + understand how (as in a case mentioned by Krafft-Ebing) a man + could find any pleasure in binding a girl's hands except by + imagining what he supposed were her feelings, though he would + probably be unconscious that he put himself in her place. + + "As a child I exercised a good deal of authority and influence + over my youngest sister. It used to give me considerable pleasure + to be somewhat arbitrary and severe with her, but, though I never + admitted it to myself or to her, I knew instinctively that she + took pleasure in my treatment. I used to give her childish + lessons, over which I was very strict. I invented catechisms and + chapters of the Bible in which elder sisters were exhorted to + keep their juniors under discipline, and younger sisters were + commanded to give implicit submission and obedience. Some parts + of the _Imitation_ lent themselves to this sort of parody, which + never struck me as in any way irreverent. I used to give her + arbitrary orders to 'exercise her in obedience,' as I told her, + and I used to punish her if she disobeyed me. In all this I was, + _though only half consciously_, guided through my own feelings as + to what I should have liked in her place. For instance, I would + make her put down her playthings and come and repeat a lesson; + but, though she was in appearance having her will subdued to + mine, I always chose a moment when I foresaw she would soon be + tired of play. There was sufficient resistance to make restraint + pleasurable, not enough to render it irksome. In my punishments I + acted on a similar principle. I used to tie her hands behind her + (like the man in Krafft-Ebing's case), but only for a few + moments; I once shut her in a sort of cupboard-room, also for a + very short time. On two or three occasions I completely undressed + her, made her lie down on the bed, tied her hands and feet to the + bedstead, and gave her a slight whipping. I did not wish to hurt + her, only to inflict just enough pain to produce the desire to + move or resist. _My pleasure, a very keen one, came from the + imagined excitement produced by the thwarting of this desire_. + (Are not your own words--that 'emotion' is 'motion in a more or + less arrested form'--an epigrammatic summary of all this, though + in a somewhat different connection?) I did not undress her from + any connection of nakedness with sexual feeling, but simply to + enhance her feeling of helplessness and defenselessness under my + hands. If I were a man and the woman I loved were refractory I + should undress her before finding fault with her. A woman's dress + symbolizes to her the protection civilization affords to the weak + and gives her a fictitious strength. Naked, she is face to face + with primitive conditions, her weakness opposed to the man's + power. Besides, the sense of shame at being naked under the eyes + of a man who regarded her with displeasure would extend itself to + her offense and give him a distinct, though perhaps unfair, + advantage. I used the bristle side of a brush to chastise her + with, as suggesting the greatest amount of severity with the + least possible pain. In fact, my idea was to produce the maximum + of emotion with the minimum of actual discomfort. + + "You must not, however, suppose that at the time I reasoned about + it at all in this way. I was very fond of her, and honestly + believed I was doing it for her good. Had I realized then, as I + do now, that my sole aim and object was physical pleasure, I + believe my pleasure would have ceased; in any case I should not + have felt justified in so treating her. Do I at all persuade you + that my pleasure was a reflection of hers? That it was, I think, + is clear from the fact that I only obtained it when she was + willing to submit. Any _real_ resistance or signs that I was + overpassing the boundary of pleasure in her and urging on pain + without excitement caused me to desist and my own pleasure to + cease. + + "I disclaim all altruism in my dealings with my sister. What + occurs appears to me to be this: A situation appeals to one in + imagination and one at once desires to transfer it to the realms + of fact, being one's self one of the principal actors. If it is + the passive side which appeals to one, one would prefer to be + passive; but if that is not obtainable then one takes the active + part as next best. In either case, however, it is _the + realization of the imagined situation_ that gives the pleasure, + not the other person's pleasure as such, although his or her + supposed pleasure creates the situation. If I were a man it would + afford me great delight to hold a woman over a precipice, even if + she disliked it. The idea appeals to me so strongly that I could + not help _imagining_ her pleasure, though I might _know_ she got + none, and even though she made every demonstration of fear and + dislike of it. The situation so often imagined would have become + a fact. It seems to me I have to say a thing is and is not in the + same breath, but the confusion is only in the words. + + "Let me give you another example: I have a tame pigeon which has + a great affection for me. It sits on my shoulder and squats down + with its wings out as birds do when courting, pecking me to make + me take notice of it, and flickering its wings. I like to hold it + so that it can't move its wings, because I imagine this increases + its excitement. If it struggles, or seems to dislike my holding + it, I let it go. + + "In an early engagement (afterward broken off) my _fiancé_ used + to take an evident pleasure in telling me how he would punish me + if I disobeyed him when we were married. Though we had but little + in common mentally, I was frequently struck with the similarity + between his ideas and what my own had been in regard to my + sister. He used his authority over me most capriciously. On one + occasion he would not let me have any supper at a dance. On + another he objected to my drinking black coffee. No day passed + without a command or prohibition on some trifling point. Whenever + he saw, though, that I really disliked the interference or made + any decided resistance, which happened very seldom, he let me + have my own way at once. I cannot but think, when I recall the + various circumstances, that he got a certain pleasure, as I had + done with my sister, by an almost unconscious transference of my + feelings to himself. + + "I find, too, that, when I want a man to say or do to me what + would cause me pleasure and he does not gratify me, I feel an + intense longing to change places, to be the man and make him, as + the woman, feel what I want to feel. Combined with this is a + sense of irritation at not being gratified and a desire to punish + him for my deprivation, for his stupidity in not saying or doing + the right thing. I don't feel any anger at a man not caring for + me, but only for not divining my feelings when he does care. + + "Now let me take another case: that of the man who used to + experience pleasure when surprising a woman making water. (Cf. + _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Nov. 15, 1900.) Here the + woman's embarrassment appears to be a factor; but it seems to me + there must be more than this, as confusion might be produced in + so many other ways, as if she were found bathing, or undressed, + though it might not be so acute. In reality, I fancy she would be + checked in what she was doing, and that the man, perhaps + unconsciously, imagined this check and a resulting excitement. + That such a check does sometimes produce excitement I know from + experience in traveling. If the bladder is not emptied before + connection the pleasure is often more intense. Long before I + understood these things at all I was struck by this quotation: + 'Cette volupté que ressentent les bords de la mer, d'être + toujours pleins sans jamais déborder?' What would be the effect + on a man of a sudden check at the supreme moment of sexual + pleasure? In reality, I suppose, pain, as the nerves would be at + their full tension and unable to respond to any further stimulus; + but, in imagination, one's nerves are _not_ at their highest + tension, and one imagines an increase or, at any rate, a + prolongation of the pleasurable sensations. Something of all + this, some vague _reflection_ of the woman's possible sensations, + seems to enter in the man's feelings in surprising the woman. In + any case his pleasure in her confusion seems to me a reflection + of her feelings, for the sense of shame and embarrassment before + a man is very exciting, and doubly so if one realizes that the + man enjoys it. Ouida speaks of the 'delicious shame' experienced + by 'Folle Farine.' + + "It seems to me that whenever we are affected by another's + emotion we do practically, though unconsciously, put ourselves in + his place; but we are not always able to gauge accurately its + intensity or to allow for differences between ourselves and + another, and, in the case of pain, it is doubly difficult, as we + can never recall the pain itself, but only the mental effects + upon us of the pain. We cannot even recall the feeling of heat + when we are cold, or _vice versâ_, with any degree of vividness. + + "A woman tells me of a man who frequently asks her if she would + not like him to whip her. He is greatly disappointed when she + says she gets no pleasure from it, as it would give him so much + to do it. He cannot believe she experiences none, because he + would enjoy being whipped so keenly if he were a girl. In another + case the man thinks the woman _must_ enjoy suffering, _because_ + he would get intense pleasure from inflicting it! Why is this, + unless he would like it if a woman, and confuses in his mind the + two personalities? All the men I know who are sadistically + inclined admit that if they were women they would like to be + harshly treated. + + "Of course, I quite see there may be many complications; a man's + natural anger at resistance may come in, and also simple, not + sexual, pleasure in acts of crushing, etc. I always feel inclined + to crush anything very soft or a person with very pretty thick + hair, to rub together two shining surfaces, two bits of satin, + etc., apart from any feelings of excitement. My explanation only + refers to that part of sadism which is sexual enjoyment of + another's pain." + + That the foregoing view holds good as regards the traces of + sadism found within the normal limits of sexual emotion has + already been stated. We may also believe that it is true in many + genuinely perverse cases. In this connection reference may be + made to an interesting case, reported by Moll, of a married lady + 23 years of age, with pronounced sadistic feelings. She belongs + to a normal family and is herself apparently quite healthy, a + tall and strongly built person, of feminine aspect, fond of music + and dancing, of more than average intelligence. Her perverse + inclinations commenced obscurely about the age of 14, when she + began to be dominated by the thought of the pleasure it would be + to strike and torture a man, but were not clearly defined until + the age of 18, while at an early age she was fond of teasing and + contradicting men, though she never experienced the same impulse + toward women. She has never, except in a very slight degree, + actually carried her ideas into practice, either with her husband + or anyone else, being restrained, she says, by a feeling of + shame. Coitus, though frequently practised, gives her no + pleasure, seems, indeed, somewhat disgusting to her, and has + never produced orgasm. Her own ideas, also, though very + pleasurable to her, have not produced definite sexual excitement, + except on two or three occasions, when they had been combined + with the influence of alcohol. She frankly regrets that modern + social relationship makes it impossible for her to find sexual + satisfaction in the only way in which such satisfaction would be + possible to her. + + Her chief delight would be to torture the man she was attached to + in every possible way; to inflict physical pain and mental pain + would give her equal pleasure. "I would bite him till the blood + came, as I have often done to my husband. At that moment all + sympathy for him would disappear." She frequently identifies her + imaginary lover with a real man to whom she feels that she could + be much more attracted than she is to her husband. She imagines + to herself that she makes appointments with this lover, and that + she reaches the rendezvous in her carriage, but only after her + lover has been waiting for her a very long time in the cold. Then + he must feel all her power, he must be her slave with no will of + his own, and she would torture him with various implements as + seemed good to her. She would use a rod, a riding-whip, bind him + and chain him, and so on. But it is to be noted that she declares + "_this could, in general, only give me enjoyment if the man + concerned endured such torture with a certain pleasure_. He must, + indeed, writhe with pain, but at the same time be in a state of + sexual ecstasy, followed by satisfaction." His pleasure must not, + however, be so great that it overwhelms his pain; if it did, her + own pleasure would vanish, and she has found witty her husband + that when in kissing him her bites have given him much pleasure + she has at once refrained. + + It is further noteworthy that only the pain she herself had + inflicted would give her pleasure. If the lover suffered pain + from an accident or a wound she is convinced that she would be + full of sympathy for him. Outside her special sexual perversion + she is sympathetic and very generous. (Moll, _Konträre + Sexualempfindung_, 1899, pp. 507-510.) + + This case is interesting as an uncomplicated example of almost + purely ideal sadism. It is interesting to note the feelings of + the sadist subject toward her imaginary lover's feelings. It is + probably significant that, while his pleasure is regarded as + essential, his pain is regarded as even more essential, and the + resulting apparent confusion may well be of the very essence of + the whole phenomenon. The pleasure of the imaginary lover must be + secured or the manifestation passes out of the sexual sphere; but + his pleasure must, at all costs, be conciliated with his pain, + for in the sadist's eyes the victim's pain has become a vicarious + form of sexual emotion. That, at the same time, the sadist + desires to give pleasure rather than pain finds confirmation in + the fact that he often insists on pleasure being feigned even + though it is not felt. Some years ago a rich Jewish merchant + became notorious for torturing girls with whom he had + intercourse; his performances acquired for him the title of + "_l'homme qui pique_," and led to his prosecution. It was his + custom to spend some hours in sticking pins into various parts of + the girl's body, but it was essential that she should wear a + smiling face throughout the proceedings. (Hamon, _La France + Sociale et Politique_, 1891, p. 445 et seq.) + +We have thus to recognize that sadism by no means involves any love of +inflicting pain outside the sphere of sexual emotion, and is even +compatible with a high degree of general tender-heartedness. We have also +to recognize that even within the sexual sphere the sadist by no means +wishes to exclude the victim's pleasure, and may even regard that pleasure +as essential to his own satisfaction. We have, further, to recognize that, +in view of the close connection between sadism and masochism, it is highly +probable that in some cases the sadist is really a disguised masochist and +enjoys his victim's pain because he identifies himself with that pain. + +But there is a further group of cases, and a very important group, on +account of the light it throws on the essential nature of these phenomena, +and that is the group in which the thought or the spectacle of pain acts +as a sexual stimulant, without the subject identifying himself clearly +either with the inflicter or the sufferer of the pain. Such cases are +sometimes classed as sadistic; but this is incorrect, for they might just +as truly be called masochistic. The term algolagnia might properly be +applied to them (and Eulenburg now classes them as "ideal algolagnia"), +for they reveal an undifferentiated connection between sexual excitement +and pain not developed into either active or passive participation. Such +feelings may arise sporadically in persons in whom no sadistic or +masochistic perversion can be said to exist, though they usually appear in +individuals of neurotic temperament. Casanova describes an instance of +this association which came immediately under his own eyes at the torture +and execution of Damiens in 1757.[129] W.G. Stearns knew a man (having +masturbated and had intercourse to excess) who desired to see his wife +delivered of a child, and finally became impotent without this idea. He +witnessed many deliveries and especially obtained voluptuous gratification +at the delivery of a primipara when the suffering was greatest.[130] A +very trifling episode may, however, suffice. In one case known to me a +man, neither sadistic nor masochistic in his tendencies, when sitting +looking out of his window saw a spider come out of its hole to capture and +infold a fly which had just been caught in its web; as he watched the +process he became conscious of a powerful erection, an occurrence which +had never taken place under such circumstances before.[131] Under favoring +conditions some incident of this kind at an early age may exert a decisive +influence on the sexual life. Tambroni, of Ferrara, records the case of a +boy of 11 who first felt voluptuous emotions on seeing in an illustrated +journal the picture of a man trampling on his daughter; ever afterward he +was obliged to evoke this image in masturbation or coitus.[132] An +instructive case has been recorded by Féré. In this case a lady of +neurotic heredity on one side, and herself liable to hysteria, experienced +her first sexual crisis at the age of 13, not long after menstruation had +become established, and when she had just recovered from an attack of +chorea. Her old nurse, who had remained in the service of the family, had +a ne'er-do-well son who had disappeared for some years and had just now +suddenly returned and thrown himself, crying and sobbing, at the knees of +his mother, who thrust him away. The young girl accidentally witnessed +this scene. The cries and the sobs provoked in her a sexual excitement she +had never experienced before. She rushed away in surprise to the next +room, where, however, she could still hear the sobs, and soon she was +overcome by a sexual orgasm. She was much troubled at this occurrence, and +at the attraction which she now experienced for a man she had never seen +before and whom she had always looked upon as a worthless vagabond. +Shortly afterward she had an erotic dream concerning a man who sobbed at +her knees. Later she again saw the nurse's son, but was agreeably +surprised to find that, though a good-looking youth, he no longer caused +her any emotion, and he disappeared from her mind, though the erotic +dreams concerning an unknown sobbing man still occurred rather frequently. +During the next ten years she suffered from various disorders of more or +less hysterical character, and, although not disinclined to the idea of +marriage, she refused all offers, for no man attracted her. At the age of +23, when staying in the Pyrenees, she made an excursion into Spain, and +was present at a bull-fight. She was greatly excited by the charges of the +bull, especially when the charge was suddenly arrested.[133] She felt no +interest in any of the men who took part in the performance or were +present; no man was occupying her imagination. But she experienced sexual +sensations and accompanying general exhilaration, which were highly +agreeable. After one bull had charged successively several times the +orgasm took place. She considered the whole performance barbarous, but +could not resist the desire to be present at subsequent bull-fights, a +desire several times gratified, always with the same results, which were +often afterward repeated in dreams. From that time she began to take an +interest in horse-races, which she now found produced the same effect, +though not to the same degree, especially when there was a fall. She +subsequently married, but never experienced sexual satisfaction except +under these abnormal circumstances or in dreams.[134] + +As the foregoing case indicates, horses, and especially running or +struggling horses, sometimes have the same effect in stimulating the +sexual emotions, especially on persons predisposed by neurotic heredity, +as we have found that the spectacle of pain possesses. A medical +correspondent in New Zealand tells me of a patient of his own, a young +carpenter of 26, not in good health, who had never masturbated or had +connection with a woman. He lived in a room overlooking a livery-stable +yard where was kept, among other animals, a large black horse. Nearly +every night he had a dream in which he seemed to be pursuing this large +black horse, and when he caught it, which he invariably did, there was a +copious emission. A holiday in the country and tonic treatment dispelled +the dreams and reduced the nocturnal emissions to normal frequency. Féré +has recorded a case of a boy, of neuropathic heredity, who, when 14 years +of age, was one day about to practise mutual masturbation with another boy +of his own age. They were seated on a hillside overlooking a steep road, +and at this moment a heavy wagon came up the road drawn by four horses, +which struggled painfully up, encouraged by the cries and the whip of the +driver. This sight increased the boy's sexual excitement, which reached +its climax when one of the horses suddenly fell. He had never before +experienced such intense excitement, and always afterward a similar +spectacle of struggling horses produced a similar effect.[135] + +In this connection reference may be made to the frequency with which +dreams of struggling horses occur in connection with disturbance or +disease of the heart. In such cases it is clear that the struggling horses +seem to dream-consciousness to embody and explain the panting struggles to +which the heart is subjected. They become, as it were, a visual symbol of +the cardiac oppression. In much the same way, it would appear, under the +influence of sexual excitement, in which cardiac disturbance is one of the +chief constituent elements, the struggling horses became a sexual symbol, +and, having attained that position, they are henceforth alone adequate to +produce sexual excitement. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[128] This opinion appears to be in harmony with the conclusions of +Eulenburg, who has devoted special study to De Sade, and points out that +the ordinary conception of "sadism" is much too narrow. (Eulenburg, +_Sexuale Neuropathie_, 1895, p. 110 et seq.) + +[129] Casanova, _Mémoires_, vol. viii, pp. 74-76. Goncourt in his +_Journal_, under date of April, 1862 (vol. ii, p. 27), tells a story of an +Englishman who engaged a room overlooking a scaffold where a murderer was +to be hanged, proposing to take a woman with him and to avail himself of +the excitement aroused by the scene. This scheme was frustrated by the +remission of the death penalty. + +[130] _Alienist and Neurologist_, May, 1907, p. 204. + +[131] This spectacle of the spider and the fly seems indeed to be +specially apt to exert a sexual influence. I have heard of a precisely +similar case in a man of intellectual distinction, and another in a lady +who acknowledged to a feeling of "exquisite pleasure," on one occasion, at +the mere sound of the death agony of a fly in a spider's web. + +[132] Quoted by Obici and Marchesini, _Le Amicizie di Collegio_, p. 245. + +[133] It may be noted that we have already several times encountered this +increase of excitement produced by arrest of movement. The effect is +produced whether the arrest is witnessed or is actually experienced. "A +man can increase a woman's excitement," a lady writes, "by forbidding her +to respond in any way to his caresses. It is impossible to remain quite +passive for more than a few seconds, but, during these few, excitement is +considerably augmented." In a similar way I have been told of a man of +brilliant intellectual ability who very seldom has connection with a woman +without getting her to compress with her hand the base of the urethral +canal to such an extent as to impede the passage of the semen. On +withdrawal of the hand copious emission occurs, but it is the shock of the +arrest caused by the constriction which gives him supreme pleasure. He has +practised this method for years without evil results. + +[134] Féré, "Le Sadisme aux Courses de Taureaux," _Revue de médecine_, +August, 1900. + +[135] Féré, _L'Instinct sexuel_, p. 255. + + + + +VI. + +Why is Pain a Sexual Stimulant?--It is the Most Effective Method of +Arousing Emotion--Anger and Fear the Most Powerful Emotions--Their +Biological Significance in Courtship--Their General and Special Effects in +Stimulating the Organism--Grief as a Sexual Stimulant--The Physiological +Mechanism of Fatigue Renders Pain Pleasurable. + + +We have seen that the distinction between "sadism" and "masochism" cannot +be maintained; not only was even De Sade himself something of a masochist +and Sacher-Masoch something of a sadist, but between these two extreme +groups of phenomena there is a central group in which the algolagnia is +neither active nor passive. "Sadism" and "masochism" are simply convenient +clinical terms for classes of manifestations which quite commonly occur in +the same person. We have further found that--as might have been +anticipated in view of the foregoing result--it is scarcely correct to use +the word "cruelty" in connection with the phenomena we have been +considering. The persons who experience these impulses usually show no +love of cruelty outside the sphere of sexual emotion; they may even be +very intolerant of cruelty. Even when their sexual impulses come into play +they may still desire to secure the pleasure of the persons who arouse +their sexual emotions, even though it may not be often true that those who +desire to inflict pain at these moments identify themselves with the +feelings of those on whom they inflict it. We have thus seen that when we +take a comprehensive survey of all these phenomena a somewhat general +formula will alone cover them. Our conclusion so far must be that under +certain abnormal circumstances pain, more especially the mental +representation of pain, acts as a powerful sexual stimulant. + +The reader, however, who has followed the discussion to this point will be +prepared to take the next and final step in our discussion and to reach a +more definite conclusion. The question naturally arises: By what process +does pain or its mental representation thus act as a sexual stimulant? The +answer has over and over again been suggested by the facts brought forward +in this study. Pain acts as a sexual stimulant because it is the most +powerful of all methods for arousing emotion. + +The two emotions most intimately associated with pain are anger and fear. +The more masculine and sthenic emotion of anger, the more passive and +asthenic emotion of fear, are the fundamental animal emotions through +which, on the psychic side, the process of natural selection largely +works. Every animal in some degree owes its survival to the emotional +reaction of anger against weaker rivals, to the emotional reaction of fear +against stronger rivals. To this cause we owe it that these two emotions +are so powerfully and deeply rooted in the whole zoölogical series to +which we belong. But anger and fear are not less fundamental in the sexual +life. Courtship on the male's part is largely a display of combativity, +and even the very gestures by which the male seeks to appeal to the female +are often those gestures of angry hostility by which he seeks to +intimidate enemies. On the female's part courtship is a skillful +manipulation of her own fears, and, as we have seen elsewhere, when +studying the phenomena of modesty, that fundamental attitude of the female +in courtship is nothing but an agglomeration of fears. + + The biological significance of the emotions is now well + recognized. "In general," remarks one of the shrewdest writers on + animal psychology, "we may say that emotional states are, under + natural conditions, closely associated with behavior of + biological value--with tendencies that are beneficial in + self-preservation and race preservation--with actions that + promote survival, and especially with the behavior which clusters + round the pairing and parental instincts. The value of the + emotions in animals is that they are an indirect means of + furthering survival." (Lloyd Morgan, _Animal Behavior_, p. 293.) + Emotional aptitudes persist not only by virtue of the fact that + they are still beneficial, but because they once were; that is to + say, they may exist as survivals. In this connection I may quote + from a suggestive paper on "Teasing and Bullying," by F.L. Burk; + at the conclusion of this study, which is founded on a large + body of data concerning American children, the author asks: + "Accepting for the moment the theories of Spencer and Ribot upon + the transmission of rudimentary instincts, is it possible that + the movements which comprise the chief elements of bullying, + teasing, and the egotistic impulses in general of the classes + cited--pursuing, throwing down, punching, striking, throwing + missiles, etc.--are, from the standpoint of consciousness, broken + neurological fragments, which are parts of old chains of activity + involved in the pursuit, combat, capture, torture, and killing of + men and enemies?... Is not this hypothesis of transmitted + fragments of instincts in accord with the strangely anomalous + fact that children are at one moment seemingly cruel and at the + next affectionate and kind, vibrating, as it were, between two + worlds, egotistic and altruistic, without conscious sense of + incongruity?" (F.L. Burk, "Teasing and Bullying," _Pedagogical + Seminary_, April, 1897.) + + The primitive connection of the special emotions of anger and + fear with the sexual impulse has been well expressed by Colin + Scott in his remarkable study of "Sex and Art": "If the higher + forms of courting are based on combat, among the males at least + anger must be intimately associated with love. And below both of + these lies the possibility of fear. In combat the animal is + defeated who is first afraid. Competitive exhibition of prowess + will inspire the less able birds with a deterring fear. Young + grouse and woodcock do not enter the lists with the older birds, + and sing very quietly. It is the same with the very oldest birds. + Audubon says that the old maids and bachelors of the Canada goose + move off by themselves during the courting of the younger birds. + In order to succeed in love, fear must be overcome in the male as + well as in the female. Courage is the essential male virtue, love + is its outcome and reward. The strutting, crowing, dancing, and + singing of male birds and the preliminary movements generally of + animals must gorge the neuromotor and muscular systems with blood + and put them in better fighting trim. The effects of this upon + the feelings of the animal himself must be very great. Hereditary + tendencies swell his heart. He has 'the joy that warriors feel.' + He becomes regardless of danger, and sometimes almost oblivious + of his surroundings. This intense passionateness must react + powerfully on the whole system, and more particularly on those + parts which are capable, such as the brain, of using up a great + surplus of blood, and on the naturally erethic functions of sex. + The flood of anger or fighting instinct is drained off by the + sexual desires, the antipathy of the female is overcome, and + sexual union successfully ensues.... Courting and combat shade + into one another, courting tending to take the place of the more + basal form of combat. The passions which thus come to be + associated with love are those of fear and anger, both of which, + by arousing the whole nature and stimulating the nutritive + sources from which they flow, come to increase the force of the + sexual passion to which they lead up and in which they culminate + and are absorbed," (Colin Scott, "Sex and Art," _American Journal + of Psychology_, vol. vii, No. 2, pp. 170 and 215.) + + It must be remembered that fear is an element liable to arise in + all courtship on one side or the other. It is usually on the side + of the female, but not invariably. Among spiders, for instance, + it is usually the male who feels fear, and very reasonably, for + he is much weaker than the female. "Courtship by the male spider" + says T.H. Montgomery ("The Courtship of Araneads," _American + Naturalist_, March, 1910, p. 166), "results from a combination of + the state of desire for and fear of the female." It is by his + movements of fear that he advertises himself to the female as a + male, and it is by the same movements that he is unconsciously + impelled to display prominently his own ornamentation. + +We are thus brought to those essential facts of primitive courtship with +which we started. But we are now able to understand more clearly how it is +that alien emotional states became abnormally associated with the sexual +life. Normally the sexual impulse is sufficiently reinforced by the +ordinary active energies of the organism which courtship itself arouses, +energies which, while they may be ultimately in part founded on anger and +fear, rarely allow these emotions to be otherwise than latent. Motion, it +may be said, is more prominent than emotion. + +Even normally a stimulant to emotional activities is pleasurable, just as +motion itself is pleasurable. It may even be useful, as was noted long ago +by Erasmus Darwin; he tells of a friend of his who, when painfully +fatigued by riding, would call up ideas arousing indignation, and thus +relieve the fatigue, the indignation, as Darwin pointed out, increasing +muscular activity.[136] + +It is owing to this stimulating action that discomfort, even pain, may be +welcomed on account of the emotional waves they call up, because they +"lash into movement the dreary calm of the sea's soul," and produce that +alternation of pain and enjoyment for which Faust longed. Groos, who +recalls this passage in his very thorough and profound discussion of the +region wherein tragedy has its psychological roots, points out that it is +the overwhelming might of the storm itself, and not the peace of calm +after the storm, which appeals to us. In the same way, he observes, even +surprise and shock may also be pleasurable, and fear, though the most +depressing of emotional states, by virtue of the joy produced by strong +stimuli is felt as attractive; we not only experience an impulse of +pleasure in dominating our environment, but also have pleasure in being +dominated and rendered helpless by a higher power.[137] Hirn, again, in +his work on the origins of art, has an interesting chapter on "The +Enjoyment of Pain," a phenomenon which he explains by its resultant +reactions in increase of outward activity, of motor excitement. Anger, he +observes elsewhere, is "in its active stage a decidedly pleasurable +emotion. Fear, which in its initial stage is paralyzing and depressing, +often changes in time when the first shock has been relieved by motor +reaction.... Anger, fear, sorrow, notwithstanding their distinctly painful +initial stage, are often not only not avoided, but even deliberately +sought."[138] + +In the ordinary healthy organism, however, although the stimulants of +strong emotion may be vaguely pleasurable, they do not have more than a +general action on the sexual sphere, nor are they required for the due +action of the sexual mechanism. But in a slightly abnormal +organism--whether the anomaly is due to a congenital neuropathic +condition, or to a possibly acquired neurasthenic condition, or merely to +the physiological inadequacy of childhood or old age--the balance of +nervous energy is less favorable for the adequate play of the ordinary +energies in courtship. The sexual impulse is itself usually weaker, even +when, as often happens, its irritability assumes the fallacious appearance +of strength. It has become unusually sensitive to unusual stimuli and +also, it is possible,--perhaps as a result of those conditions,--more +liable to atavistic manifestations. An organism in this state becomes +peculiarly apt to seize on the automatic sources of energy generated by +emotion. The parched sexual instinct greedily drinks up and absorbs the +force it obtains by applying abnormal stimuli to its emotional apparatus. +It becomes largely, if not solely, dependent on the energy thus secured. +The abnormal organism in this respect may become as dependent on anger or +fear, and for the same reason, as in other respects it may become +dependent on alcohol. + +We see the process very well illustrated by the occasional action of the +emotion of anger. In animals the connection between love and anger is so +close that even normally, as Groos points out, in some birds the sight of +an enemy may call out the gestures of courtship.[139] As Krafft-Ebing +remarks, both love and anger "seek their object, try to possess themselves +of it, and naturally exhaust themselves in a physical effect on it; both +throw the psychomotor sphere into the most intense excitement, and by +means of this excitement reach their normal expression."[140] Féré has +well remarked that the impatience of desire may itself be regarded as a +true state of anger, and Stanley Hall, in his admirable study of anger, +notes that "erethism of the breasts or sexual parts" was among the +physical manifestations of anger occurring in some of his cases, and in +one case a seminal emission accompanied every violent outburst.[141] Thus +it is that anger may be used to reinforce a weak sexual impulse, and +cases have been recorded in which coitus could only be performed when the +man had succeeded in working himself up into an artificial state of +anger.[142] On the other hand, Féré has recorded a case in which the +sexual excitement accompanying delayed orgasm was always transformed into +anger, though without any true sadistic manifestations.[143] + +As a not unexpected complementary phenomenon to this connection of anger +and sexual emotion in the male, it is sometimes found that the spectacle +of masculine anger excites pleasurable emotion in women. The case has been +recorded of a woman who delighted in arousing anger for the pleasure it +gave her, and who advised another woman to follow her example and excite +her husband's anger, as nothing was so enjoyable as to see a man in a fury +of rage[144]; Lombroso mentions a woman who was mostly frigid, but +experienced sexual feelings when she heard anyone swearing; and a medical +friend tells me of a lady considerably past middle age who experienced +sexual erethism after listening to a heated argument between her husband +and a friend on religious topics. The case has also been recorded of a +masochistic man who found sexual satisfaction in masturbating while a +woman, by his instructions, addressed him in the lowest possible terms of +abuse.[145] Such a feeling doubtless underlies that delight in teasing men +which is so common among young women. Stanley Hall, referring to the +almost morbid dread of witnessing manifestations of anger felt by many +women, remarks: "In animals, females are often described as watching with +complacency the conflict of rival males for their possession, and it seems +probable that the intense horror of this state, which many females +report, is associated more or less unconsciously with the sexual rage +which has followed it."[146] The dread may well be felt at least as much +as regards the emotional state in themselves as in the males. + +Even when the emotion aroused is disgust it may still act as a sexual +stimulant. Stcherbak has narrated the instructive case of a very +intelligent and elegant married lady of rather delicate constitution, an +artist of some talent, who never experienced any pleasure in sexual +intercourse, but ever since sexual feelings first began to be manifested +at all (at the age of 18) has only experienced them in relation to +disgusting things. Anything that is repulsive, like vomit, etc., causes +vague but pleasurable feelings which she gradually came to recognize as +sexual. The sight of a crushed frog will cause very definite sexual +sensations. She has had many admirers and she has observed that a +declaration of love by a disagreeable or even repulsive man sexually +excites her, though she has no desire for sexual intercourse with +him.[147] + +After all that has gone before it is easy to see how the emotion of fear +may act in an analogous manner to anger. Just as anger may reinforce the +active forms of the sexual impulse to which it is allied, so fear may +reinforce the passive forms of that impulse. The following observations, +written by a lady, very well show how we may thus explain the sexual +attractiveness of whipping: "The fascination of whipping, which has always +greatly puzzled me, seems to be a sort of hankering after the stimulus of +fear. In a wild state animals live in constant fear. In civilized life one +but rarely feels it. A woman's pleasure in being afraid of a husband or +lover may be an equivalent of a man's love of adventure; and the fear of +children for their parents may be the dawning of the love of adventure. In +a woman this desire of adventure receives a serious check when she begins +to realize what she might be subjected to by a man if she gratified it. +Excessive fear is demoralizing, but it seems to me that the idea of being +whipped gives a sense of fear which is not excessive. It is almost the +only kind of pain (physical) which is inflicted on children or women by +persons whom they can love and trust, and with a moral object. Any other +kind of bodily ill treatment suggests malignity and may rouse resentment, +and, in extreme cases, an excess of fear which goes beyond the limits of +pleasurable excitement. Given a hereditary feeling of this sort, I think +it is helped by the want of actual experience, as the association with +excitement is freed from the idea of pain as such." In his very valuable +and suggestive study of fears, Stanley Hall, while recognizing the evil of +excessive fear, has emphasized the emotional and even the intellectual +benefits of fear, and the great part played by fear in the evolution of +the race as "the rudimentary organ on the full development and subsequent +reduction of which many of the best things in the soul are dependent." +"Fears that paralyze some brains," he remarks, "are a good tonic for +others. In some form and degree all need it always. Without the fear +apparatus in us, what a wealth of motive would be lost!"[148] + +It is on the basis of this tonic influence of fear that in some morbidly +sensitive natures fear acts as a sexual stimulant. Cullerre has brought +together a number of cases in both men and women, mostly neurasthenic, in +which fits of extreme anxiety and dread, sometimes of a religious +character and often in highly moral people, terminate in spontaneous +orgasm or in masturbation.[149] + +Professor Gurlitt mentions that his first full sexual emission took place +in class at school, when he was absorbed in writing out the life of +Aristides and very anxious lest he should not be able to complete it +within the set time.[150] + +Dread and anxiety not only excite sexual emotion, but in the more extreme +morbid cases they may suppress and replace it. Terror, say Fliess, is +transmuted coitus, and Freud believes that the neurosis of anxiety always +has a sexual cause, while Ballet, Capgras, Löwenfeld, and others, though +not regarding a sexual traumatism as the only cause, still regard it as +frequent. + +It is worthy of note that not only fear, but even so depressing an emotion +as grief, may act as a sexual stimulant, more especially in women. This +fact is not sufficiently recognized, though probably everyone can recall +instances from his personal knowledge, such cases being generally regarded +as inexplicable. It is, however, not more surprising that grief should be +transformed into sexual emotion than that (as in a case recorded by +Stanley Hall) it should manifest itself as anger. In any case we have to +bear in mind the frequency of this psychological transformation in the +presence of cases which might otherwise seem to call for a cynical +interpretation. + + The case has been recorded of an English lady of good social + position who fell in love with an undertaker at her father's + funeral and insisted on marrying him. It is known that some men + have been so abnormally excited by the funeral trappings of death + that only in such surroundings have they been able to effect + coitus. A case has been recorded of a physician of unimpeachable + morality who was unable to attend funerals, even of his own + relatives, on account of the sexual excitement thus aroused. + Funerals, tragedies at the theater, pictures of martyrdom, scenes + of execution, and trials at the law-courts have been grouped + together as arousing pleasure in many people, especially women. + (C.F. von Schlichtegroll, _Sacher-Masoch und der Masochismus_, + pp. 30-31.) Wakes and similar festivals may here find their + psychological basis, and funerals are an unquestionable source of + enjoyment among some people, especially of so-called "Celtic" + race. The stimulating reaction after funerals is well known to + many, and Leigh Hunt refers to this (in his _Autobiography_) as + affecting the sincerely devoted friends who had just cremated + Shelley. + + It may well be, as Kiernan has argued (_Alienist and + Neurologist_, 1891; ibid., 1902, p. 263), that in the disturbance + of emotional balance caused by grief the primitive instincts + become peculiarly apt to respond to stimulus, and that in the + aboulia of grief the mind is specially liable to become the prey + to obsessions. + + "When my child died at the age of 6 months," a correspondent + writes, "I had a violent paroxysm of weeping and for some days I + could not eat. When I kissed the dead boy for the last time (I + had never seen a corpse before) I felt I had reached the depths + of misery and could never smile or have any deep emotions again. + Yet that night, though my thoughts had not strayed to sexual + subjects since the child's death, I had a violent erection. I + felt ashamed to desire carnal things when my dead child was still + in the house, and explained to my wife. She was sympathetic, for + her idea was that our common grief had intensified my love for + her. I feel convinced, however, that my desire was the result of + a stimulus propagated to the sexual centers from the centers + affected by my grief, the transference of my emotion from one set + of nerves to another. I do not perhaps express my meaning + clearly." + + How far the emotional influence of grief entered into the + following episode it is impossible to say, for here it is + probable that we are mainly concerned with one of those almost + irresistible impulses by which adolescent girls are sometimes + overcome. The narrative is from the lips of a reliable witness, a + railway guard, who, some thirty years ago, when a youth of 18, in + Cornwall, lodged with a man and woman who had a daughter of his + own age. Some months later, when requiring a night's lodging, he + called at the house, and was greeted warmly by the woman, who + told him her husband had just died and that she and her daughter + were very nervous and would be glad if he would stay the night, + but that as the corpse occupied the other bedroom he would have + to share their bed ("We don't think very much of that among us," + my informant added). He agreed, and went to bed, and when, a + little later, the two women also came to bed, the girl, at her + own suggestion, lay next to the youth. Nothing happened during + the night, but in the morning, when the mother went down to light + the fire, the daughter immediately threw off the bedclothes, + exposing her naked person, and before the youth had realized what + was happening she had drawn him over on to her. He was so utterly + surprised that nothing whatever happened, but the incident made a + life-long impression on him. + + In this connection reference may be made to the story of the + Ephesian matron in Petronius; the story of the widow, overcome by + grief, who watches by her husband's tomb, and very speedily falls + into the arms of the soldier who is on guard. This story, in very + various forms, is found in China and India, and has occurred + repeatedly in European literature during the last two thousand + years. The history of the wanderings of this story has been told + by Grisebach (Eduard Grisebach, _Die Treulose Witwe_, third + edition, 1877). It is not probable, however, that all the stories + of this type are actually related; in any case it would seem that + their vitality is due to the fact that they have been found to + show a real correspondence to life; one may note, for instance, + the curious tone of personal emotion with which George Chapman + treated this theme in his play, _Widow's Tears_. + +It may be added that, in explaining the resort to pain as an emotional +stimulus, we have to take into account not only the biological and +psychological considerations here brought forward, but also the abnormal +physiological conditions under which stimuli usually felt as painful come +specially to possess a sexually exciting influence. The neurasthenic and +neuropathic states may be regarded as conditions of more or less permanent +fatigue. It is true that under the conditions we are considering there may +be an extreme sensitiveness to stimuli not usually felt as of sexual +character, a kind of hyperesthesia; but hyperesthesia, it has well been +said, is nothing but the beginning of anesthesia.[151] Sergeant Bertrand, +the classical example of necrophily,[152] began to masturbate at the age +of 9, stimulating a sexual impulse which may have been congenitally feeble +by accompanying thoughts of ill-treating women. It was not till +subsequently that he began to imagine that the women were corpses. The +sadistic thoughts were only incidents in the emotional evolution, and the +real object throughout was to procure strong emotion and not to inflict +cruelty. Some observations of Féré's as to the conditions which influence +the amount of muscular work accomplished with the ergograph are +instructive from the present point of view: "Although sensibility +diminishes in the course of fatigue," Féré found that "there are periods +during which the excitability increases before it disappears. As fatigue +increases, the perception of the intercurrent excitation is retarded; an +odor is perceived as exciting before it is perceived as a differentiated +sensation; the most fetid odors arouse feelings of well-being before being +perceived as odors, and their painful quality only appears afterward, or +is not noticed at all." And after recording a series of results with the +ergograph obtained under the stimulus of unpleasant odors he remarks: "We +are thus struck by two facts: the diminution of work during painful +excitation, and its increase when the excitation has ceased. When the +effects following the excitation have disappeared the diminution is more +rapid than in the ordinary state. When the fatigue is manifested by a +notable diminution, if the same excitation is brought into action again, +no diminution is produced, but a more or less durable increase, exactly as +though there had been an agreeable excitation. Moreover, the stimulus +which appears painful in a state of repose loses that painful character +either partially or completely when acting on the same subject in a more +and more fatigued state." Féré defines a painful stimulus as a strong +excitation which causes displays of energy which the will cannot utilize; +when, as a result of diminished sensibility, the excitants are attenuated, +the will can utilize them, and so there is no pain.[153] These experiments +had no reference to the sexual instinct, but it will be seen at once that +they have an extremely significant bearing on the subject before us, for +they show us the mechanism of the process by which in an abnormal organism +pain becomes a sexual stimulant. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[136] Erasmus Darwin, _Zoönomia_, vol. i, p. 496. + +[137] K. Groos, _Spiele der Menschen_, pp. 200-210. + +[138] Hirn, _Origins of Art_, p. 54. Reference may here perhaps be made to +the fact that unpleasant memories persist in women more than in men +(_American Journal of Psychology_, 1899, p. 244). This had already been +pointed out by Coleridge. "It is a remark that I have made many times," we +find it said in one of his fragments (_Anima Poetæ_, p. 89), "and many +times, I guess, shall repeat, that women are infinitely fonder of clinging +to and beating about, hanging upon and keeping up, and reluctantly letting +fall any doleful or painful or unpleasant subject, than men of the same +class and rank." + +[139] Groos, _Spiele der Thiere_, p. 251. Maeder (_Jahrbuch für +Psychoanalytische Forschungen_, 1909, vol. i, p. 149) mentions an +epileptic girl of 22 who masturbates when she is in a rage with anyone. + +[140] Krafft-Ebing, _Psychopathia Sexualis_, English translation of tenth +edition, p. 78. + +[141] Stanley Hall, "A Study of Anger," _American Journal of Psychology_, +July, 1899, p. 549. + +[142] Krafft-Ebing refers to such a case as recorded by Schulz, +_Psychopathia Sexualis_, p. 78. + +[143] Féré, _L'Instinct sexuel_, p. 213. + +[144] C.F. von Schlichtegroll, _Sacher-Masoch und der Masochismus_, p. 31. + +[145] _Archivio di Psichiatria_, vol. xv, p. 120. Mention may also be made +of the cases (described as hysterical mixoscopia by Kiernan, _Alienist and +Neurologist_, May, 1903) in which young women address to themselves +anonymous letters of an abusive and disgusting character, and show them to +others. + +[146] Stanley Hall, loc. cit., p. 587. + +[147] _Archives de Neurologie_, Oct., 1907. + +[148] G. Stanley Hall, "A Study of Fears," _American Journal of +Psychology_, vol. viii, No. 2. + +[149] A. Cullerre, "De l'Excitation Sexuelle dans les Psychopathies +Anxieuses," _Archives de Neurologie_, Feb., 1905. + +[150] L. Gurlitt (_Die Neue Generation_, July, 1909). Moll (_Sexualleben +des Kindes_, p. 84) also give examples of the connection between anxiety +and sexual excitement. Freud (_Der Wahn und die Traüme in Jensen's +Gradiva_, p. 52) considers that in dream-interpretation we may replace +"terror" by "sexual excitement." In noting the general sexual effects of +fear, we need not strictly separate the group of cases in which the sexual +effects are physical only, and fail to be circuited through the brain. + +[151] See the article on "Neurasthenia" by Rudolf Arndt in Tuke's +_Dictionary of Psychological Medicine_. + +[152] Lunier, _Annales Médico-psychologiques_, 1849, p. 153. + +[153] Féré, _Comptes-rendus de la Société de Biologie_, December 15 and +22, 1900; id., _Année Psychologique_, seventh year, 1901, pp. 82-129; more +especially the same author's _Travail et Plaisir_, 1904. + + + + +VII. + +Summary of Results Reached--The Joy of Emotional Expansion--The +Satisfaction of the Craving for Power--The Influence of Neurasthenic and +Neuropathic Conditions--The Problem of Pain in Love Largely Constitutes a +Special Case of Erotic Symbolism. + + +It may seem to some that in our discussion of the relationships of love +and pain we have covered a very wide field. This was inevitable. The +subject is peculiarly difficult and complex, and if we are to gain a real +insight into its nature we must not attempt to force the facts to fit into +any narrow and artificial formulas of our own construction. Yet, as we +have unraveled this seemingly confused mass of phenomena it will not have +escaped the careful reader that the apparently diverse threads we have +disentangled run in a parallel and uniform manner; they all have a like +source and they all converge to a like result. We have seen that the +starting-point of the whole group of manifestations must be found in the +essential facts of courtship among animal and primitive human societies. +Pain is seldom very far from some of the phases of primitive courtship; +but it is not the pain which is the essential element in courtship, it is +the state of intense emotion, of tumescence, with which at any moment, in +some shape or another, pain may, in some way or another, be brought into +connection. So that we have come to see that in the phrase "love and pain" +we have to understand by "pain" a state of intense emotional excitement +with which pain in the stricter sense may be associated, but is by no +means necessarily associated. It is the strong emotion which exerts the +irresistible fascination in the lover, in his partner, or in both. The +pain is merely the means to that end. It is the lever which is employed to +bring the emotional force to bear on the sexual impulse. The question of +love and pain is mainly a question of emotional dynamics. + +In attaining this view of our subject we have learned that any impulse of +true cruelty is almost outside the field altogether. The mistake was +indeed obvious and inevitable. Let us suppose that every musical +instrument is sensitive and that every musical performance involves the +infliction of pain on the instrument. It would then be very difficult +indeed to realize that the pleasure of music lies by no means in the +infliction of pain. We should certainly find would-be scientific and +analytical people ready to declare that the pleasure of music is the +pleasure of giving pain, and that the emotional effects of music are due +to the pain thus inflicted. In algolagnia, as in music, it is not cruelty +that is sought; it is the joy of being plunged among the waves of that +great primitive ocean of emotions which underlies the variegated world of +our everyday lives, and pain--a pain which, as we have seen, is often +deprived so far as possible of cruelty, though sometimes by very thin and +feeble devices--is merely the channel by which that ocean is reached. + +If we try to carry our inquiry beyond the point we have been content to +reach, and ask ourselves why this emotional intoxication exerts so +irresistible a fascination, we might find a final reply in the explanation +of Nietzsche--who regarded this kind of intoxication as of great +significance both in life and in art--that it gives us the consciousness +of energy and the satisfaction of our craving for power.[154] To carry the +inquiry to this point would be, however, to take it into a somewhat +speculative and metaphysical region, and we have perhaps done well not to +attempt to analyze further the joy of emotional expansion. We must be +content to regard the profound satisfaction of emotion as due to a +widespread motor excitement, the elements of which we cannot yet +completely analyze.[155] + +It is because the joy of emotional intoxication is the end really sought +that we have to regard the supposed opposition between "sadism" and +"masochism" as unimportant and indeed misleading. The emotional value of +pain is equally great whether the pain is inflicted, suffered, witnessed, +or merely exists as a mental imagination, and there is no reason why it +should not coexist in all these forms in the same person, as, in fact, we +frequently find it. + +The particular emotions which are invoked by pain to reinforce the sexual +impulse are more especially anger and fear, and, as we have seen, these +two very powerful and primitive emotions are--on the active and passive +sides, respectively--the emotions most constantly brought into play in +animal and early human courtship; so that they naturally constitute the +emotional reservoirs from which the sexual impulse may still most easily +draw. It is not difficult to show that the various forms in which +"pain"--as we must here understand pain--is employed in the service of the +sexual impulse are mainly manifestations or transformations of anger or +fear, either in their simple or usually more complex forms, in some of +which anger and fear may be mingled. + +We thus accept the biological origin of the psychological association +between love and pain; it is traceable to the phenomena of animal +courtship. We do not on this account exclude the more direct physiological +factor. It may seem surprising that manifestations that have their origin +in primeval forms of courtship should in many cases coincide with actual +sensations of definite anatomical base today, and still more surprising +that these traditional manifestations and actual sensations should so +often be complementary to each other in their active and passive aspects: +that is to say, that the pleasure of whipping should be matched by the +pleasure of being whipped, the pleasure of mock strangling by the pleasure +of being so strangled, that pain inflicted is not more desirable than pain +suffered. But such coincidence is of the very essence of the whole group +of phenomena. The manifestations of courtship were from the first +conditioned by physiological facts; it is not strange that they should +always tend to run _pari passu_ with physiological facts. The +manifestations which failed to find anchorage in physiological +relationships might well tend to die out. Even under the most normal +circumstances, in healthy persons of healthy heredity, the manifestations +we have been considering are liable to make themselves felt. Under such +circumstances, however, they never become of the first importance in the +sexual process; they are often little more than play. It is only under +neurasthenic or neuropathic conditions--that is to say, in an organism +which from acquired or congenital causes, and usually perhaps both, has +become enfeebled, irritable, "fatigued"--that these manifestations are +liable to flourish vigorously, to come to the forefront of sexual +consciousness, and even to attain such seriously urgent importance that +they may in themselves constitute the entire end and aim of sexual desire. +Under these pathological conditions, pain, in the broad and special sense +in which we have been obliged to define it, becomes a welcome tonic and a +more or less indispensable stimulant to the sexual system. + +It will not have escaped the careful reader that in following out our +subject we have sometimes been brought into contact with manifestations +which scarcely seem to come within any definition of pain. This is +undoubtedly so, and the references to these manifestations were not +accidental, for they serve to indicate the real bearings of our subject. +The relationships of love and pain constitute a subject at once of so +much gravity and so much psychological significance that it was well to +devote to them a special study. But pain, as we have here to understand +it, largely constitutes a special case of what we shall later learn to +know as erotic symbolism: that is to say, the psychic condition in which a +part of the sexual process, a single idea or group of ideas, tends to +assume unusual importance, or even to occupy the whole field of sexual +consciousness, the part becoming a symbol that stands for the whole. When +we come to the discussion of this great group of abnormal sexual +manifestations it will frequently be necessary to refer to the results we +have reached in studying the sexual significance of pain. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[154] See, for instance, the section "Zur Physiologie der Kunst" in +Nietzsche's fragmentary work, _Der Wille zur Macht_, Werke, Bd. xv. Groos +(_Spiele der Menschen_, p. 89) refers to the significance of the fact that +nearly all races have special methods of procuring intoxication. Cf. +Partridge's study of the psychology of alcohol (_American Journal of +Psychology_, April, 1900). "It is hard to imagine," this writer remarks of +intoxicants, "what the religious or social consciousness of primitive man +would have been without them." + +[155] The muscular element is the most conspicuous in emotion, though it +is not possible, as a careful student of the emotions (H.R. Marshall, +_Pain, Pleasure, and Æsthetics_, p. 84) well points out, "to limit the +physical activities involved with the emotions to such effects of +voluntary innervation or alteration of size of blood-vessels or spasm of +organic muscle, as Lange seems to think determines them; nor to increase +or decrease of muscle-power, as Féré's results might suggest; nor to such +changes, in relation of size of capillaries, in voluntary innervation, in +respiratory and heart functioning, as Lehmann has observed. Emotions seem +to me to be coincidents of reactions of the whole organism tending to +certain results." + + + + +THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN WOMEN. + + +A special and detailed study of the normal characters of the sexual +impulse in men seems unnecessary. I have elsewhere discussed various +aspects of the male sexual impulse, and others remain for later +discussion. But to deal with it broadly as a whole seems unnecessary, if +only because it is predominantly open and aggressive. Moreover, since the +constitution of society has largely been in the hands of men, the nature +of the sexual impulse in men has largely been expressed in the written and +unwritten codes of social law. The sexual instinct in women is much more +elusive. This, indeed, is involved at the outset in the organic +psychological play of male and female, manifesting itself in the phenomena +of modesty and courting. The same elusiveness, the same mocking mystery, +meet us throughout when we seek to investigate the manifestations of the +sexual impulse in women. Nor is it easy to find any full and authentic +record of a social state clearly founded in sexual matters on the demands +of woman's nature. + + An illustration of our ignorance and bias in these matters is + furnished by the relationship of marriage, celibacy, and divorce + to suicide in the two sexes. There can be no doubt that the + sexual emotions of women have a profound influence in determining + suicide. This is indicated, among other facts, by a comparison of + the suicide-rate in the sexes according to age; while in men the + frequency of suicide increases progressively throughout life, in + women there is an arrest after the age of 30; that is to say, + when the period of most intense sexual emotion has been passed. + This phenomenon is witnessed among peoples so unlike as the + French, the Prussians, and the Italians. Now, how do marriage and + divorce affect the sexual liability to suicide? We are always + accustomed to say that marriage protects women, and it is even + asserted that men have self-sacrificingly maintained the + institution of marriage mainly for the benefit of women. + Professor Durkheim, however, who has studied suicide elaborately + from the sociological standpoint, so far as possible eliminating + fallacies, has in recent years thrown considerable doubt on the + current assumption. He shows that if we take the tendency to + suicide as a test, and eliminate the influence of children, who + are an undoubted protection to women, it is not women, but men, + who are protected by marriage, and that the protection of women + from suicide increases regularly as divorces increase. After + discussing these points exhaustively, "we reach a conclusion," he + states, "considerably removed from the current view of marriage + and the part it plays. It is regarded as having been instituted + for the sake of the wife and to protect her weakness against + masculine caprices. Monogamy, especially, is very often presented + as a sacrifice of man's polygamous instincts, made in order to + ameliorate the condition of woman in marriage. In reality, + whatever may have been the historical causes which determined + this restriction, it is man who has profited most. The liberty + which he has thus renounced could only have been a source of + torment to him. Woman had not the same reasons for abandoning + freedom, and from this point of view we may say that in + submitting to the same rule it is she who has made the + sacrifice." (E. Durkheim, _Le Suicide_, 1897, pp. 186-214, + 289-311.) + + There is possibly some significance in the varying incidence of + insanity in unmarried men and unmarried women as compared with + the married. At Erlangen, for example, Hagen found that among + insane women the preponderance of the single over the married is + not nearly so great as among insane men, marriage appearing to + exert a much more marked prophylactic influence in the case of + men than of women. (F.W. Hagen, _Statistische Untersuchungen über + Geisteskrankheiten_, 1876, p. 153.) The phenomena are here, + however, highly complex, and, as Hagen himself points out, the + prophylactic influence of marriage, while very probable, is not + the only or even the chief factor at work. + + It is worth noting that exactly the same sexual difference may be + traced in England. It appears that, in ratio to similar groups in + the general population (taking the years 1876-1900, inclusive), + the number of admissions to asylums is the same for both sexes + among married people (i.e., 8.5), but for the single it is larger + among the men (4.8 to 4.5), as also it is among the widowed (17.9 + to 13.9) (_Fifty-sixth Annual Report of the Commissioners in + Lunacy, England and Wales_, 1902, p. 141). This would seem to + indicate that when living apart from men the tendency to insanity + is less in women, but is raised to the male level when the sexes + live together in marriage. + + Much the same seems to hold true of criminality. It was long + since noted by Horsley that in England marriage decidedly + increases the tendency to crime in women, though it decidedly + decreases it in men. Prinzing has shown (_Zeitschrift für + Sozialwissenschaft_, Bd. ii, 1899) that this is also the case in + Germany. + + Similarly marriage decreases the tendency of men to become + habitual drunkards and increases that of women. Notwithstanding + the fact that the average age of the men is greater than that of + the women, the majority of the men admitted to the inebriate + reformatories under the English Inebriates Acts are single; the + majority of the women are married; of 865 women so admitted 32 + per cent, were single, 50 per cent, married, and 18 per cent, + widows. (_British Medical Journal_, Sept. 2, 1911, p. 518.) + +It thus happens that even the elementary characters of the sexual impulse +in women still arouse, even among the most competent physiological and +medical authorities,--not least so when they are themselves women,--the +most divergent opinions. Its very existence even may be said to be +questioned. It would generally be agreed that among men the strength of +the sexual impulse varies within a considerable range, but that it is very +rarely altogether absent, such total absence being abnormal and probably +more or less pathological. But if applied to women, this statement is by +no means always accepted. By many, sexual anesthesia is considered natural +in women, some even declaring that any other opinion would be degrading to +women; even by those who do not hold this opinion it is believed that +there is an unnatural prevalence of sexual frigidity among civilized +women. On these grounds it is desirable to deal generally with this and +other elementary questions of allied character. + + + + +I. + +The Primitive View of Women--As a Supernatural Element in Life--As +Peculiarly Embodying the Sexual Instinct--The Modern Tendency to +Underestimate the Sexual Impulse in Women--This Tendency Confined to +Recent Times--Sexual Anæsthesia--Its Prevalence--Difficulties in +Investigating the Subject--Some Attempts to Investigate it--Sexual +Anesthesia must be Regarded as Abnormal--The Tendency to Spontaneous +Manifestations of the Sexual Impulse in Young Girls at Puberty. + + +From very early times it seems possible to trace two streams of opinion +regarding women: on the one hand, a tendency to regard women as a +supernatural element in life, more or less superior to men, and, on the +other hand, a tendency to regard women as especially embodying the sexual +instinct and as peculiarly prone to exhibit its manifestations. + +In the most primitive societies, indeed, the two views seem to be to some +extent amalgamated; or, it should rather be said, they have not yet been +differentiated; and, as in such societies it is usual to venerate the +generative principle of nature and its embodiments in the human body and +in human functions, such a co-ordination of ideas is entirely rational. +But with the development of culture the tendency is for this homogeneous +conception to be split up into two inharmonious tendencies. Even apart +from Christianity and before its advent this may be noted. It was, +however, to Christianity and the Christian ascetic spirit that we owe the +complete differentiation and extreme development which these opposing +views have reached. The condemnation of sexuality involved the +glorification of the virgin; and indifference, even contempt, was felt for +the woman who exercised sexual functions. It remained open to anyone, +according to his own temperament, to identify the typical average woman +with the one or with the other type; all the fund of latent sexual emotion +which no ascetic rule can crush out of the human heart assured the +picturesque idealization alike of the angelic and the diabolic types of +woman. We may trace the same influence subtly lurking even in the most +would-be scientific statements of anthropologists and physicians +today.[156] + + It may not be out of place to recall at this point, once more, + the fact, fairly obvious indeed, that the judgments of men + concerning women are very rarely matters of cold scientific + observation, but are colored both by their own sexual emotions + and by their own moral attitude toward the sexual impulse. The + ascetic who is unsuccessfully warring with his own carnal + impulses may (like the voluptuary) see nothing in women but + incarnations of sexual impulse; the ascetic who has subdued his + own carnal impulses may see no elements of sex in women at all. + Thus the opinions regarding this matter are not only tinged by + elements of primitive culture, but by elements of individual + disposition. Statements about the sexual impulses of women often + tell us less about women than about the persons who make them. + + The curious manner in which for men women become incarnations of + the sexual impulse is shown by the tendency of both general and + personal names for women to become applicable to prostitutes + only. This is the case with the words "garce" and "fille" in + French, "Mädchen" and "Dirne" in German, as well as with the + French "catin" (Catherine) and the German "Metze" (Mathilde). + (See, e.g., R. Kleinpaul, _Die Räthsel der Sprache_, 1890, pp. + 197-198.) + + At the same time, though we have to recognize the presence of + elements which color and distort in various ways the judgments of + men regarding women, it must not be hastily assumed that these + elements render discussion of the question altogether + unprofitable. In most cases such prejudices lead chiefly to a + one-sided solution of facts, against which we can guard. + +While, however, these two opposing currents of opinion are of very ancient +origin, it is only within quite recent times, and only in two or three +countries, that they have led to any marked difference of opinion +regarding the sexual aptitude of women. In ancient times men blamed women +for concupiscence or praised them for chastity, but it seems to have been +reserved for the nineteenth century to state that women are apt to be +congenitally incapable of experiencing complete sexual satisfaction, and +peculiarly liable to sexual anesthesia. This idea appears to have been +almost unknown to the eighteenth century. During the last century, +however, and more especially in England, Germany, and Italy, this opinion +has been frequently set down, sometimes even as a matter of course, with a +tincture of contempt or pity for any woman afflicted with sexual emotions. + + In the treatise _On Generation_ (chapter v), which until recent + times was commonly ascribed to Hippocrates, it is stated that men + have greater pleasure in coitus than women, though the pleasure + of women lasts longer, and this opinion, though not usually + accepted, was treated with great respect by medical authors down + to the end of the seventeenth century. Thus A. Laurentius (Du + Laurens), after a long discussion, decides that men have stronger + sexual desire and greater pleasure in coitus than women. + (_Historia Anatomica Humani Corporis_, 1599, lib. viii, quest, ii + and vii.) + + About half a century ago a book entitled _Functions and Disorders + of the Reproductive Organs_, by W. Acton, a surgeon, passed + through many editions and was popularly regarded as a standard + authority on the subjects with which it deals. This extraordinary + book is almost solely concerned with men; the author evidently + regards the function of reproduction as almost exclusively + appertaining to men. Women, if "well brought up," are, and should + be, he states, in England, absolutely ignorant of all matters + concerning it. "I should say," this author again remarks, "that + the majority of women (happily for society) are not very much + troubled with sexual feeling of any kind." The supposition that + women do possess sexual feelings he considers "a vile aspersion." + + In the article "Generation," contained in another medical work + belonging to the middle of the nineteenth century,--Rees's + _Cyclopedia_,--we find the following statement: "That a mucous + fluid is sometimes found in coition from the internal organs and + vagina is undoubted; but this only happens in lascivious women, + or such as live luxuriously." + + Gall had stated decisively that the sexual desires of men are + stronger and more imperious than those of women. (_Fonctions du + Cerveau_, 1825, vol. iii, pp. 241-271.) + + Raciborski declared that three-fourths of women merely endure the + approaches of men. (_De la Puberté chez la Femme_, 1844, p. 486.) + + "When the question is carefully inquired into and without + prejudice," said Lawson Tait, "it is found that women have their + sexual appetites far less developed than men." (Lawson Tait, + "Remote Effects of Removal of the Uterine Appendages," + _Provincial Medical Journal_, May, 1891.) "The sexual instinct is + very powerful in man and comparatively weak in women," he stated + elsewhere (_Diseases of Women_, 1889, p. 60). + + Hammond stated that, leaving prostitutes out of consideration, it + is doubtful if in one-tenth of the instances of intercourse they + [women] experience the slightest pleasurable sensation from first + to last (Hammond, _Sexual Impotence_, p. 300), and he considered + (p. 281) that this condition was sometimes congenital. + + Lombroso and Ferrero consider that sexual sensibility, as well as + all other forms of sensibility, is less pronounced in women, and + they bring forward various facts and opinions which seem to them + to point in the same direction. "Woman is naturally and + organically frigid." At the same time they consider that, while + erethism is less, sexuality is greater than in men. (Lombroso and + Ferrero, _La Donna Delinquente, la Prostituta, e la Donna + Normale_, 1893, pp. 54-58.) + + "It is an altogether false idea," Fehling declared, in his + rectorial address at the University of Basel in 1891, "that a + young woman has just as strong an impulse to the opposite sex as + a young man.... The appearance of the sexual side in the love of + a young girl is pathological." (H. Fehling, _Die Bestimmung der + Frau_, 1892, p. 18.) In his _Lehrbuch der Frauenkrankheiten_ the + same gynecological authority states his belief that half of all + women are not sexually excitable. + + Krafft-Ebing was of opinion that women require less sexual + satisfaction than men, being less sensual. (Krafft-Ebing, "Ueber + Neurosen und Psychosen durch sexuelle Abstinenz," _Jahrbücher für + Psychiatrie_, 1888, Bd. viii, ht. I and 2.) + + "In the normal woman, especially of the higher social classes," + states Windscheid, "the sexual instinct is acquired, not inborn; + when it is inborn, or awakes by itself, there is abnormality. + Since women do not know this instinct before marriage, they do + not miss it when they have no occasion in life to learn it." (F. + Windscheid, "Die Beziehungen zwischen Gynäkologie und + Neurologie," _Zentralblatt für Gynäkologie_, 1896, No. 22; quoted + by. Moll, _Libido Sexualis_, Bd. i, p. 271.) + + "The sensuality of men," Moll states, "is in my opinion very much + greater than that of women." (A. Moll, _Die Konträre + Sexualempfindung_, third edition, 1899, p. 592.) + + "Women are, in general, less sensual than men," remarks Näcke, + "notwithstanding the alleged greater nervous supply of their + sexual organs." (P. Näcke, "Kritisches zum Kapitel der + Sexualität," _Archiv für Psychiatrie_, 1899, p. 341.) + + Löwenfeld states that in normal young girls the specifically + sexual feelings are absolutely unknown; so that desire cannot + exist in them. Putting aside the not inconsiderable proportion of + women in whom this absence of desire may persist and be + permanent, even after sexual relationships have begun, thus + constituting absolute frigidity, in a still larger number desire + remains extremely moderate, constituting a state of relative + frigidity. He adds that he cannot unconditionally support the + view of Fürbringer, who is inclined to ascribe sexual coldness to + the majority of German married women. (L. Löwenfeld, _Sexualleben + und Nervenleiden_, 1899, second edition, p. 11.) + + Adler, who discusses the question at some length, decides that + the sexual needs of women are less than those of men, though in + some cases the orgasm in quantity and quality greatly exceeds + that of men. He believes, not only that the sexual impulse in + women is absolutely less than in men, and requires stronger + stimulation to arouse it, but that also it suffers from a latency + due to inhibition, which acts like a foreign body in the brain + (analogous to the psychic trauma of Breuer and Freud in + hysteria), and demands great skill in the man who is to awaken + the woman to love. (O. Adler, _Die Mangelhafte + Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes_, 1904, pp. 47, 126 et seq.; + also enlarged second edition, 1911; id., "Die Frigide Frau," + _Sexual-Probleme_, Jan., 1912.) + +It must not, however, be supposed that this view of the natural tendency +of women to frigidity has everywhere found acceptance. It is not only an +opinion of very recent growth, but is confined, on the whole, to a few +countries. + + "Turn to history," wrote Brierre de Boismont, "and on every page + you will be able to recognize the predominance of erotic ideas in + women." It is the same today, he adds, and he attributes it to + the fact that men are more easily able to gratify their sexual + impulses. (_Des Hallucinations_, 1862, p. 431.) + + The laws of Manu attribute to women concupiscence and anger, the + love of bed and of adornment. + + The Jews attributed to women greater sexual desire than to men. + This is illustrated, according to Knobel (as quoted by Dillmann), + by _Genesis_, chapter iii, v. 16. + + In Greek antiquity the romance and sentiment of love were mainly + felt toward persons of the same sex, and were divorced from the + more purely sexual feelings felt for persons of opposite sex. + Theognis compared marriage to cattle-breeding. In love between + men and women the latter were nearly always regarded as taking + the more active part. In all Greek love-stories of early date the + woman falls in love with the man, and never the reverse. Æschylus + makes even a father assume that his daughters will misbehave if + left to themselves. Euripides emphasized the importance of women; + "The Euripidean woman who 'falls in love' thinks first of all: + 'How can I seduce the man I love?"' (E.F.M. Benecke, _Antimachus + of Colophon and the Position of Women in Greek Poetry_, 1896, pp. + 34, 54.) + + The most famous passage in Latin literature as to the question of + whether men or women obtain greater pleasure from sexual + intercourse is that in which Ovid narrates the legend of Tiresias + (_Metamorphoses_, iii, 317-333). Tiresias, having been both a man + and a woman, decided in favor of women. This passage was + frequently quoted down to the eighteenth century. + + In a passage quoted from a lost work of Galen by the Arabian + biographer, Abu-l-Faraj, that great physician says of the + Christians "that they practice celibacy, that even many of their + women do so." So that in Galen's opinion it was more difficult + for a woman than for a man to be continent. + + The same view is widely prevalent among Arabic authors, and there + is an Arabic saying that "The longing of the woman for the penis + is greater than that of the man for the vulva." + + In China, remarks Dr. Coltman, "when an old gentleman of my + acquaintance was visiting me my little daughter, 5 years old, ran + into the room, and, climbing upon my knee, kissed me. My visitor + expressed his surprise, and remarked: 'We never kiss our + daughters when they are so large; we may when they are very + small, but not after they are 3 years old,' said he, 'because it + is apt to excite in them bad emotions.'" (Coltman, _The Chinese_, + 1900, p. 99.) + + The early Christian Fathers clearly show that they regard women + as more inclined to sexual enjoyment than men. That was, for + instance, the opinion of Tertullian (_De Virginibus Velandis_, + chapter x), and it is clearly implied in some of St. Jerome's + epistles. + + Notwithstanding the influence of Christianity, among the vigorous + barbarian races of medieval Europe, the existence of sexual + appetite in women was not considered to be, as it later became, a + matter to be concealed or denied. Thus in 1068 the ecclesiastical + historian, Ordericus Vitalis (himself half Norman and half + English), narrates that the wives of the Norman knights who had + accompanied William the Conqueror to England two years earlier + sent over to their husbands to say that they were consumed by the + fierce names of desire ("sæva libidinis face urebantur"), and + that if their husbands failed to return very shortly they + proposed to take other husbands. It is added that this threat + brought a few husbands back to their wanton ladies ("lascivis + dominabus suis"). + + During the medieval period in Europe, largely in consequence, no + doubt, of the predominance of ascetic ideals set up by men who + naturally regarded woman as the symbol of sex, the doctrine of + the incontinence of woman became firmly fixed, and it is + unnecessary and unprofitable to quote examples. It is sufficient + to mention the very comprehensive statement of Jean de Meung (in + the _Roman de la Rose_, 9903):-- + + "Toutes estes, serés, ou fûtes + De fait ou de volunté putes." + + The satirical Jean de Meung was, however, a somewhat extreme and + untypical representative of his age, and the fourteenth century + Johannes de Sancto Amando (Jean de St. Amand) gives a somewhat + more scientifically based opinion (quoted by Pagel, _Neue + litterarische Beiträge zur Mittelalterlichen Medicin_, 1896, p. + 30) that sexual desire is stronger in women than in men. + + Humanism and the spread of the Renaissance movement brought in a + spirit more sympathetic to women. Soon after, especially in Italy + and France, we begin to find attempts at analyzing the sexual + emotions, which are not always without a certain subtlety. In the + seventeenth century a book of this kind was written by Venette. + In matters of love, Venette declared, "men are but children + compared to women. In these matters women have a more lively + imagination, and they usually have more leisure to think of love. + Women are much more lascivious and amorous than men." This is the + conclusion reached in a chapter devoted to the question whether + men or women are the more amorous. In a subsequent chapter, + dealing with the question whether men or women receive more + pleasure from the sexual embrace, Venette concludes, after + admitting the great difficulty of the question, that man's + pleasure is greater, but woman's lasts longer. (N. Venette, _De + la Génération de l'Homme ou Tableau de l'Amour Conjugal_, + Amsterdam, 1688.) + + At a much earlier date, however, Montaigne had discussed this + matter with his usual wisdom, and, while pointing out that men + have imposed their own rule of life on women and their own + ideals, and have demanded from them opposite and contradictory + virtues,--a statement not yet antiquated,--he argues that women + are incomparably more apt and more ardent in love than men are, + and that in this matter they always know far more than men can + teach them, for "it is a discipline that is born in their veins." + (Montaigne, _Essais_, book iii, chapter v.) + + The old physiologists generally mentioned the appearance of + sexual desire in girls as one of the normal signs of puberty. + This may be seen in the numerous quotations brought together by + Schurig, in his _Parthenologia_, cap. ii. + + A long succession of distinguished physicians throughout the + seventeenth century discussed at more or less length the relative + amount of sexual desire in men and women, and the relative degree + of their pleasure in coitus. It is remarkable that, although they + usually attach great weight to the supposed opinion of + Hippocrates in the opposite sense, most of them decide that both + desire and pleasure are greater in women. + + Plazzonus decides that women have more sources of pleasure in + coitus than men because of the larger extent of surface excited; + and if it were not so, he adds, women would not be induced to + incur the pains and risks of pregnancy and childbirth. + (Plazzonus, _De Partibus Generationi Inservientibus_, 1621, lib. + ii, cap. xiii.) + + "Without doubt," says Ferrand, "woman is more passionate than + man, and more often torn by the evils of love." (Ferrand, _De la + Maladie d'Amour_, 1623, chapter ii.) + + Zacchia, mainly on _a priori_ grounds, concludes that women have + more pleasure in coitus than men. (Zacchia, _Quæstiones + Medico-legales_, 1630, lib. iii, quest, vii.) + + Sinibaldus, discussing whether men or women have more salacity, + decides in favor of women. (J.B. Sinibaldus, _Geneanthropeia_, + 1642, lib. ii, tract. ii, cap. v.) + + Hornius believed that women have greater sexual pleasure than + men, though he mainly supported his opinion by the authority of + classical poets. (Hornius, _Historic Naturalis_, 1670, lib. iii, + cap. i.) + + Nenter describes what we may now call women's affectability, and + considers that it makes them more prone than men to the sexual + emotions, as is shown by the fact that, notwithstanding their + modesty, they sometimes make sexual advances. This greater + proneness of women to the sexual impulse is, he remarks, entirely + natural and right, for the work of generation is mainly carried + on by women, and love is its basis: "generationis fundamentum est + amor." (G.P. Nenter, _Theoria Hominis Sani_, 1714, cap. v, memb. + ii.) + + The above opinions of seventeenth-century physicians are quoted + from the original sources. Schurig, in his _Gynæcologia_, (pp. + 46-50 and 71-81), quotes a number of passages on this subject + from medical authorities of the same period, on which I have not + drawn. + + Sénancour, in his fine and suggestive book on love, first + published in 1806, asks: "Has sexual pleasure the same power on + the sex which less loudly demands it? It has more, at all events + in some respects. The very vigor and laboriousness of men may + lead them to neglect love, but the constant cares of maternity + make women feel how important it must ever be to them. We must + remember also that in men the special emotions of love only have + a single focus, while in women the organs of lactation are united + to those of conception. Our feelings are all determined by these + material causes." (Sénancour, _De l'Amour_, fourth edition, 1834, + vol. i, p. 68.) A later psychologist of love, this time a woman, + Ellen Key, states that woman's erotic demands, though more + silent than man's, are stronger. (Ellen Key, _Ueber Liebe und + Ehe_, p. 138.) + + Michael Ryan considered that sexual enjoyment "is more delicious + and protracted" in women, and ascribed this to a more sensitive + nervous system, a finer and more delicate skin, more acute + feelings, and the fact that in women the mammæ are the seat of a + vivid sensibility in sympathy with the uterus. (M. Ryan, + _Philosophy of Marriage_, 1837, p. 153.) + + Busch was inclined to think women have greater sexual pleasure + than men. (D.W.H. Busch, _Das Geschlechtsleben des Weibes_, 1839, + vol. i, p. 69.) Kobelt held that the anatomical conformation of + the sexual organs in women led to the conclusion that this must + be the case. + + Guttceit, speaking of his thirty years' medical experience in + Russia, says: "In Russia at all events, a girl, as very many have + acknowledged to me, cannot resist the ever stronger impulses of + sex beyond the twenty-second or twenty-third year. And if she + cannot do so in natural ways she adopts artificial ways. The + belief that the feminine sex feels the stimulus of sex less than + the male is quite false." (Guttceit, _Dreissig Jahre Praxis_, + 1873, theil i, p. 313.) + + In Scandinavia, according to Vedeler, the sexual emotions are at + least as strong in women as in men (Vedeler, "De Impotentia + Feminarum," _Norsk Magazin for Laegevidenskaben_, March, 1894). + In Sweden, Dr. Eklund, of Stockholm, remarking that from 25 to 33 + per cent. of the births are illegitimate, adds: "We hardly ever + hear anyone talk of a woman having been seduced, simply because + the lust is at the worst in the woman, who, as a rule, is the + seducing party." (Eklund, _Transactions of the American + Association of Obstetricians_, Philadelphia, 1892, p. 307.) + + On the opposite side of the Baltic, in the Königsberg district, + the same observation has been made. Intercourse before marriage + is the rule in most villages of this agricultural district, among + the working classes, with or without intention of subsequent + marriage; "the girls are often the seducing parties, or at least + very willing; they seek to bind their lovers to them and compel + them to marriage." In the Köslin district of Pomerania, where + intercourse between the girls and youths is common, the girls + come to the youths' rooms even more frequently than the youths to + the girls'. In some of the Dantzig districts the girls give + themselves to the youths, and even seduce them, sometimes, but + not always, with a view of marriage. (Wittenberg, _Die + geschlechtsittlichen Verhalten der Landbewohner im Deutschen + Reiche_, 1895, Bd. i, pp. 47, 61, 83.) + + Mantegazza devoted great attention to this point in several of + the works he published during fifty years, and was decidedly of + the opinion that the sexual emotions are much stronger in women + than in men, and that women have much more enjoyment in sexual + intercourse. In his _Fisiologia del Piacere_ he supports this + view, and refers to the greater complexity of the genital + apparatus in women (as well as its larger surface and more + protected position), to what he considers to be the keener + sensibility of women generally, to the passivity of women, etc.; + and he considers that sexual pleasure is rendered more seductive + to women by the mystery in which it is veiled for them by modesty + and our social habits. In a more recent work (_Fisiologia della + Donna_, cap. viii) Mantegazza returns to this subject, and + remarks that long experience, while confirming his early opinion, + has modified it to the extent that he now believes that, as + compared with men, the sexual emotions of women vary within far + wider limits. Among men few are quite insensitive to the physical + pleasures of love, while, on the other hand, few are thrown by + the violence of its emotional manifestations into a state of + syncope or convulsions. Among women, while some are absolutely + insensitive, others (as in cases with which he was acquainted) + are so violently excited by the paradise of physical love that, + after the sexual embrace, they faint or fall into a cataleptic + condition for several hours. + + "Physical sex is a larger factor in the life of the woman.... If + this be true of the physical element, it is equally true of the + mental element." (Dr. Elizabeth Blackwell, _The Human Element in + Sex_, fifth edition, 1894, p. 47.) + + "In the female sex," remarks Clouston, "reproduction is a more + dominant function of the organism than in the male, and has far + larger, if not more intense, relationships to feeling, judgment, + and volition." (Clouston, _Neuroses of Development_, 1891.) + + "It may be said," Marro states, "that in woman the visceral + system reacts, if not with greater intensity, certainly in a more + general manner, to all the impressions, having a sexual basis, + which dominate the life of woman, if not as sexual emotions + properly so called, as related emotions closely dependent on the + reproductive instinct." (A. Marro, _La Pubertà_, 1898, p. 233.) + + Forel also believed (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, p. 274) that women are + more erotic than men. + + The gynecologist Kisch states his belief that "The sexual impulse + is so powerful in women that at certain periods of life its + primitive force dominates her whole nature, and there can be no + room left for reason to argue concerning reproduction; on the + contrary, union is desired even in the presence of the fear of + reproduction or when there can be no question of it." He regards + absence of sexual feeling in women as pathological. (Kisch, + _Sterilität des Weibes_, second edition, pp. 205-206.) In his + later work (_The Sexual Life of Woman_) Kisch again asserts that + sexual impulse always exists in mature women (in the absence of + organic sexual defect and cerebral disease), though it varies in + strength and may be repressed. In adolescent girls, however, it + is weaker than in youths of the same age. After she has had + sexual experiences, Kisch maintains, a woman's sexual emotions + are just as powerful as a man's, though she has more motives than + a man for controlling them. + + Eulenburg is of the same opinion as Kisch, and sharply criticises + the loose assertion of some authorities who have expressed + themselves in an opposite sense. (A. Eulenburg, _Sexuale + Neuropathie_, pp. 88-90; the same author has dealt with the point + in the _Zukunft_, December 2, 1893.) + + Kossmann states that the opinion as to the widespread existence + of frigidity among women is a fable. (Kossmann, _Allgemeine + Gynæcologie_, 1903, p. 362.) + + Bloch concludes that "in most cases the sexual coldness of women + is in fact only apparent, either due to the concealment of + glowing sexuality beneath the veil of outward reticence + prescribed by conventional morality, or else to the husband who + has not succeeded in arousing erotic sensations which are + complicated and with difficulty awakened.... The sexual + sensibility of women is certainly different from that of men, but + in strength it is at least as great." (Iwan Bloch, _Das + Sexualleben unserer Zeit_ 1907, ch. v.) + + Nyström, also, after devoting a chapter to the discussion of the + causes of sexual coldness in women, concludes: "My conviction, + founded on experience, is, that only a small number of women + would be without sexual feeling if sound views and teaching + prevailed in respect to the sexual life, if due weight were given + to inner devotion and tender caresses as the preliminaries of + love in marriage, and if couples who wish to avoid pregnancy + would adopt sensible preventive methods instead of _coitus + interruptus_." (A. Nyström, _Das Geschlichtsleben und seine + Gesetze_, eighth edition, 1907, p. 177.) + +We thus find two opinions widely current: one, of world-wide existence and +almost universally accepted in those ages and centers in which life is +lived most nakedly, according to which the sexual impulse is stronger in +women than in men; another, now widely prevalent in many countries, +according to which the sexual instinct is distinctly weaker in women, if, +indeed, it may not be regarded as normally absent altogether. A third view +is possible: it may be held that there is no difference at all. This +view, formerly not very widely held, is that of the French physiologist, +Beaunis, as it is of Winckel; while Rohleder, who formerly held that +sexual feeling tends to be defective in women, now believes that men and +women are equal in sexual impulse. + + At an earlier period, however, Donatus (_De Medica Historia + Mirabili_, 1613, lib. iv, cap. xvii) held the same view, and + remarked that sometimes men and sometimes women are the more + salacious, varying with the individual. Roubaud (_De + l'Impuissance_, 1855, p. 38) stated that the question is so + difficult as to be insoluble. + +In dealing with the characteristics of the sexual impulse in women, it +will be seen, we have to consider the prevalence in them of what is +commonly termed (in its slightest forms) frigidity or hyphedonia, and (in +more complete form) sexual anesthesia or anaphrodism, or erotic blindness, +or anhedonia.[157] + + Many modern writers have referred to the prevalence of frigidity + among women. Shufeldt believes (_Pacific Medical Journal_, Nov., + 1907) that 75 per cent, of married women in New York are + afflicted with sexual frigidity, and that it is on the increase; + it is rare, however, he adds, among Jewish women. Hegar gives 50 + per cent, as the proportion of sexually anesthetic women; + Fürbringer says the majority of women are so. Effertz (quoted by + Löwenfeld, _Sexualleben und Nervenleiden_, p. 11, apparently with + approval) regards 10 per cent, among women generally as sexually + anesthetic, but only 1 per cent, men. Moll states (Eulenburg's + _Encyclopädie_, fourth edition, art. "Geschlechtstrieb") that the + prevalence of sexual anesthesia among German women varies, + according to different authorities, from 10 to 66 per cent. + Elsewhere Moll (_Konträre Sexualempfindung_, third edition, 1890, + p. 510) emphasizes the statement that "sexual anesthesia in women + is much more frequent than is generally supposed." He explains + that he is referring to the physical element of pleasure and + satisfaction in intercourse, and of desire for intercourse. He + adds that the psychic side of love is often more conspicuous in + women than in men. He cannot agree with Sollier that this kind of + sexual frigidity is a symptom of hysteria. Féré (_L'Instinct + Sexuel_, second edition, p. 112), in referring to the greater + frequency of sexual anesthesia in women, remarks that it is often + associated with neuropathic states, as well as with anomalies of + the genital organs, or general troubles of nutrition, and is + usually acquired. Some authors attribute great importance to + amenorrhea in this connection; one investigator has found that in + 4 out of 14 cases of absolute amenorrhea sexual feeling was + absent. Löwenfeld, again (_Sexualleben und Nervenleiden_), + referring to the common misconception that nervous disorder is + associated with increased sexual desire, points out that + nervously degenerate women far more often display frigidity than + increased sexual desire. Elsewhere (_Ueber die Sexuelle + Konstitution_) Löwenfeld says it is only among the upper classes + that sexual anesthesia is common. Campbell Clark, also, showed + some years ago that, in young women with a tendency to chlorosis + and a predisposition to insanity, defects of pelvic and mammary + development are very prevalent. (_Journal of Mental Science_, + October, 1888.) + + As regards the older medical authors, Schurig (_Spermatologia_, + 1720, p. 243, and _Gynæcologia_, 1730, p. 81) brought together + from the literature and from his own knowledge cases of women who + felt no pleasure in coitus, as well as of some men who had + erections without pleasure. + +There is, however, much uncertainty as to what precisely is meant by +sexual frigidity or anesthesia. All the old medical authors carefully +distinguish between the heat of sexual desire and the actual presence of +pleasure in coitus; many modern writers also properly separate _libido_ +from _voluptas_, since it is quite possible to experience sexual desires +and not to be able to obtain their gratification during sexual +intercourse, and it is possible to hold, with Mantegazza, that women +naturally have stronger sexual impulses than men, but are more liable than +men to experience sexual anesthesia. But it is very much more difficult +than most people seem to suppose, to obtain quite precise and definite +data concerning the absence of either _voluptas_ or _libido_ in a woman. +Even if we accept the statement of the woman who asserts that she has +either or both, the statement of their absence is by no means equally +conclusive and final. As even Adler--who discusses this question fully and +has very pronounced opinions about it--admits, there are women who stoutly +deny the existence of any sexual feelings until such feelings are +actually discovered.[158] Some of the most marked characteristics of the +sexual impulse in women, moreover,--its association with modesty, its +comparatively late development, its seeming passivity, its need of +stimulation,--all combine to render difficult the final pronouncement that +a woman is sexually frigid. Most significant of all in this connection is +the complexity of the sexual apparatus in women and the corresponding +psychic difficulty--based on the fundamental principle of sexual +selection--of finding a fitting mate. The fact that a woman is cold with +one man or even with a succession of men by no means shows that she is not +apt to experience sexual emotions; it merely shows that these men have not +been able to arouse them. "I recall two very striking cases," a +distinguished gynecologist, the late Dr. Engelmann, of Boston, wrote to +me, "of very attractive young married women--one having had a child, the +other a miscarriage--who were both absolutely cold to their husbands, as +told me by both husband and wife. They could not understand desire or +passion, and would not even believe that it existed. Yet, both these women +with other men developed ardent passion, all the stronger perhaps because +it had been so long latent." In such cases it is scarcely necessary to +invoke Adler's theory of a morbid inhibition, or "foreign body in +consciousness," which has to be overcome. We are simply in the presence of +the natural fact that the female throughout nature not only requires much +loving, but is usually fastidious in the choice of a lover. In the human +species this natural fact is often disguised and perverted. Women are not +always free to choose the man whom they would prefer as a lover, nor even +free to find out whether the man they prefer sexually fits them; they are, +moreover, very often extremely ignorant of the whole question of sex, and +the victims of the prejudice and false conventions they have been taught. +On the one hand, they are driven into an unnatural primness and austerity; +on the other hand, they rebound to an equally unnatural facility or even +promiscuity. Thus it happens that the men who find that a large number of +women are not so facile as they themselves are, and as they have found a +large number of women to be, rush to the conclusion that women tend to be +"sexually anesthetic." If we wish to be accurate, it is very doubtful +whether we can assert that a woman is ever absolutely without the aptitude +for sexual satisfaction.[159] She may unquestionably be without any +conscious desire for actual coitus. But if we realize to how large an +extent woman is a sexual organism, and how diffused and even unconscious +the sexual impulses may be, it becomes very difficult to assert that she +has never shown any manifestation of the sexual impulse. All we can assert +with some degree of positiveness in some cases is that she has not +manifested sexual gratification, more particularly as shown by the +occurrence of the orgasm, but that is very far indeed from warranting us +to assert that she never will experience such gratification or still less +that she is organically incapable of experiencing it.[160] It is therefore +quite impossible to follow Adler when he asks us to accept the existence +of a condition which he solemnly terms _anæsthesia sexualis completa +idiopathica_, in which there is no mechanical difficulty in the way or +psychic inhibition, but an "absolute" lack of sexual sensibility and a +complete absence of sexual inclination.[161] + +It is instructive to observe that Adler himself knows no "pure" case of +this condition. To find such a case he has to go back nearly two centuries +to Madame de Warens, to whom he devotes a whole chapter. He has, +moreover, had the courage in writing this chapter to rely entirely on +Rousseau's _Confessions_, which were written nearly half a century later +than the episodes they narrated, and are therefore full of inaccuracies, +besides being founded on an imperfect and false knowledge of Madame de +Warens's earlier life, and written by a man who was, there can be no +doubt, not able to arouse women's passions. Adler shows himself completely +ignorant of the historical investigations of De Montet, Mugnier, Ritter, +and others which, during recent years, have thrown a flood of light on the +life and character of Madame de Warens, and not even acquainted with the +highly significant fact that she was hysterical.[162] This is the basis of +"fact" on which we are asked to accept _anæsthesia sexualis completa +idiopathica!_[163] + + "In dealing with the alleged absence of the sexual impulse," a + well-informed medical correspondent writes from America, "much + caution has to be used in accepting statements as to its absence, + from the fact that most women fear by the admission to place + themselves in an impure category. I am also satisfied that influx + of women into universities, etc., is often due to the sexual + impulse causing restlessness, and that this factor finds + expression in the prurient prudishness so often presenting itself + in such women, which interferes with coeducation. This is + becoming especially noticeable at the University of Chicago, + where prudishness interferes with classical, biological, + sociological, and physiological discussion in the classroom. + There have been complaints by such women that a given professor + has not left out embryological facts not in themselves in any way + implying indelicacy. I have even been informed that the opinion + is often expressed in college dormitories that embryological + facts and discussions should be left out of a course intended for + both sexes." Such prudishness, it is scarcely necessary to + remark, whether found in women or men, indicates a mind that has + become morbidly sensitive to sexual impressions. For the healthy + mind embryological and allied facts have no emotionally sexual + significance, and there is, therefore, no need to shun them. + + Kolischer, of Chicago ("Sexual Frigidity in Women," _American + Journal of Obstetrics_, Sept., 1905), points out that it is often + the failure of the husband to produce sexual excitement in the + wife which leads to voluntary repression of sexual sensation on + her part, or an acquired sexual anesthesia. "Sexual excitement," + he remarks, "not brought to its natural climax, the reaction + leaves the woman in a very disagreeable condition, and repeated + occurrences of this kind may even lead to general nervous + disturbances. Some of these unfortunate women learn to suppress + their sexual sensation so as to avoid all these disagreeable + sequelæ. Such a state of affairs is not only unfortunate, because + it deprives the female partner of her natural rights, but it is + also to be deplored because it practically brings down such a + married woman to the level of the prostitute." + + In illustration of the prevalence of inhibitions of various + kinds, from without and from within, in suppressing or disguising + sexual feeling in women, I may quote the following observations + by an American lady concerning a series of women of her + acquaintance:-- + + "Mrs. A. This woman is handsome and healthy. She has never had + children, much to the grief of herself and her husband. The man + is also handsome and attractive. Mrs. A. once asked me if + love-making between me and my husband ever originated with me. I + replied it was as often so as not, and she said that in that + event she could not see how passion between husband and wife + could be regulated. When I seemed not to be ashamed of the + matter, but rather to be positive in my views that it should be + so, she at once tried to impress me with the fact that she did + not wish me to think she 'could not be aroused.' This woman + several times hinted that she had learned a great amount that was + not edifying at boarding school, and I always felt that, with + proper encouragement, she would have retailed suggestive stories. + + "Mrs. B. This woman lives to please her husband, who is a spoiled + man. She gave birth to a child soon after marriage, but was left + an invalid for some years. She told me coition always hurt her, + and she said it made her sick to see her husband nude. I was + therefore surprised, years afterward, to hear her say, in reply + to a remark of another person, 'Yes; women are not only as + passionate as men, I am sure they are more so.' I therefore + questioned the lack of passion she had on former occasions + avowed, or else felt convinced her improvement in health had made + intercourse pleasant. + + "Miss C. A teacher. She is emotional and easily becomes + hysterical. Her life has been one of self-sacrifice and her + rearing most Puritanical. She told me she thought women did not + crave sexual satisfaction unless it had been aroused in them. I + consider her one who physically is injured by not having it. + + "Mrs. D. After being married a few years this person told me she + thought intercourse 'horrid.' Some years after this, however, she + fell in love with a man not her husband, which caused their + separation. She always fancied men in love with her, and she told + me that she and her husband tried to live without intercourse, + fearing more children, but they could not do it; she also told of + trying to refrain, for the same purpose, until safe parts of the + menstrual month, but that 'was just the time she cared least for + it.' These remarks made me doubt the sincerity of the first. + + "Mrs. E. said she enjoyed intercourse as well as her husband, and + she 'didn't see why she should not say so.' This same woman, + whether using a current phrase or not, afterward said her husband + 'did not bother her very often.' + + "Mrs. F., the mother of several children, was married to a man + she neither loved nor respected, but she said that when a strange + man touched her it made her tremble all over. + + "Mrs. G., the mother of many children, divorced on account of the + dissipation, drinking and otherwise, of her husband. She is of + the creole type, but large and almost repulsive. She is a + brilliant talker and she supports herself by writing. She has + fallen in love with a number of young men, 'wildly, madly, + passionately,' as one of them told me, and I am sure she suffers + greatly from the lack of satisfaction. She would no doubt procure + it if it were possible. + + "I believe," the writer concludes, "women are as passionate as + men, but the enforced restraint of years possibly smothers it. + The fear of having children and the methods to prevent conception + are, I am sure, potent factors in the injury to the emotions of + married women. Perhaps the lack of intercourse acts less + disastrously upon a woman because of the renewed feeling which + comes after each menstrual period." + + As bearing on the causes which have led to the disguise and + misinterpretation of the sexual impulse in women I may quote the + following communication from another lady:-- + + "I do think the coldness of women has been greatly exaggerated. + Men's theoretically ideal woman (though they don't care so much + about it in practice) is passionless, and women are afraid to + admit that they have any desire for sexual pleasure. Rousseau, + who was not very straight-laced, excuses the conduct of Madame de + Warens on the ground that it was not the result of passion: an + aggravation rather than a palliation of the offense, if society + viewed it from the point of view of any other fault. Even in the + modern novels written by the 'new woman' the longing for + maternity, always an honorable sentiment, is dragged in to veil + the so-called 'lower' desire. That some women, at any rate, have + very strong passions and that great suffering is entailed by + their repression is not, I am sure, sufficiently recognized, even + by women themselves. + + "Besides the 'passionless ideal' which checks their sincerity, + there are many causes which serve to disguise a woman's feelings + to herself and make her seem to herself colder than she really + is. Briefly these are:-- + + "1. Unrecognized disease of the reproductive organs, especially + after the birth of children. A friend of mine lamented to me her + inability to feel pleasure, though she had done so before the + birth of her child, then 3 years old. With considerable + difficulty I persuaded her to see a doctor, who told her all the + reproductive organs were seriously congested; so that for three + years she had lived in ignorance and regret for her husband's + sake and her own. + + "2. The dread of recommencing, once having suffered them, all the + pains and discomforts of child-bearing. + + "3. Even when precautions are taken, much bother and anxiety is + involved, which has a very dampening effect on excitement. + + "4. The fact that men will never take any trouble to find out + what specially excites a woman. A woman, as a rule, is at some + pains to find out the little things which particularly affect the + man she loves,--it may be a trick of speech, a rose in her hair, + or what not,--and she makes use of her knowledge. But do you know + one man who will take the same trouble? (It is difficult to + specify, as what pleases one person may not another. I find that + the things that affect me personally are the following: [_a_] + Admiration for a man's mental capacity will translate itself + sometimes into direct physical excitement. [_b_] Scents of white + flowers, like tuberose or syringa. [_c_] The sight of fireflies. + [_d_] The idea or the reality of suspension. [_e_] Occasionally + absolute passivity.) + + "5. The fact that many women satisfy their husbands when + themselves disinclined. This is like eating jam when one does not + fancy it, and has a similar effect. It is a great mistake, in my + opinion, to do so, except very rarely. A man, though perhaps + cross at the time, prefers, I believe, to gratify himself a few + times, when the woman also enjoys it, to many times when she does + not. + + "6. The masochistic tendency of women, or their desire for + subjection to the man they love. I believe no point in the whole + question is more misunderstood than this. Nearly every man + imagines that to secure a woman's love and respect he must give + her her own way in small things, and compel her obedience in + great ones. Every man who desires success with a woman should + exactly reverse that theory." + +When we are faced by these various and often conflicting statements of +opinion it seems necessary to obtain, if possible, a definite basis of +objective fact. It would be fairly obvious in any case, and it becomes +unquestionable in view of the statements I have brought together, that the +best-informed and most sagacious clinical observers, when giving an +opinion on a very difficult and elusive subject which they have not +studied with any attention and method, are liable to make unguarded +assertions; sometimes, also, they become the victims of ethical or +pseudoethical prejudices, so as to be most easily influenced by that class +of cases which happens to fit in best with their prepossessions.[164] In +order to reach any conclusions on a reasonable basis it is necessary to +take a series of unselected individuals and to ascertain carefully the +condition of the sexual impulse in each. + +At present, however, this is extremely difficult to do at all +satisfactorily, and quite impossible, indeed, to do in a manner likely to +yield absolutely unimpeachable results. Nevertheless, a few series of +observations have been made. Thus, Dr. Harry Campbell[165] records the +result of an investigation, carried on in his hospital practice, of 52 +married women of the poorer class; they were not patients, but ordinary, +healthy working-class women, and the inquiry was not made directly, but of +the husbands, who were patients. Sexual instinct was said to be present in +12 cases before marriage, and absent in 40; in 13 of the 40 it never +appeared at all; so that it altogether appeared in 39, or in the ratio of +something over 75 per cent. Among the 12 in whom it existed before +marriage it was said to have appeared in most with puberty; in 3, however, +a few years before puberty, and in 2 a few years later. In 2 of those in +whom it appeared before puberty, menstruation began late; in the third it +rose almost to nymphomania on the day preceding the first menstruation. +In nearly all the cases desire was said to be stronger in the husband than +in the wife; when it was stronger in the wife, the husband was +exceptionally indifferent. Of the 13 in whom desire was absent after +marriage, 5 had been married for a period under two years, and Campbell +remarks that it would be wrong to conclude that it would never develop in +these cases, for in this group of cases the appearance of sexual instinct +was sometimes a matter of days, sometimes of years, after the date of +marriage. In two-thirds of the cases there was a diminution of desire, +usually gradual, at the climacteric; in the remaining third there was +either no change or exaltation of desire. The most important general +result, Campbell concludes, is that "the sexual instinct is very much less +intense in woman than in man," and to this he elsewhere adds a corollary +that "the sexual instinct in the civilized woman is, I believe, tending to +atrophy." + +An eminent gynecologist, the late Dr. Matthews Duncan, has (in his work on +_Sterility in Women_) presented a table which, although foreign to this +subject, has a certain bearing on the matter. Matthews Duncan, believing +that the absence of sexual desire and of sexual pleasure in coitus are +powerful influences working for sterility, noted their presence or absence +in a number of cases, and found that, among 191 sterile women between the +ages of 15 and 45, 152, or 79 per cent., acknowledged the presence of +sexual desire; and among 196 sterile women (mostly the same cases), 134, +or 68 per cent., acknowledged the presence of sexual pleasure in coitus. +Omitting the cases over 35 years of age, which were comparatively few, the +largest proportion of affirmative answers, both as regards sexual pleasure +and sexual desire, was from between 30 and 34 years of age. Matthews +Duncan assumes that the absence of sexual desire and sexual pleasure in +women is thoroughly abnormal.[166] + +An English non-medical author, in the course of a thoughtful discussion of +sexual phenomena, revealing considerable knowledge and observation,[167] +has devoted a chapter to this subject in another of its aspects. Without +attempting to ascertain the normal strength of the sexual instinct in +women, he briefly describes 11 cases of "sexual anesthesia" in Women (in 2 +or 3 of which there appears, however, to be an element of latent +homosexuality) from among the circle of his own friends. This author +concludes that sexual coldness is very common among English women, and +that it involves questions of great social and ethical importance. + + I have not met with any series of observations made among + seemingly healthy and normal women in other countries; there are, + however, various series of somewhat abnormal cases in which the + point was noted, and the results are not uninstructive. Thus, in + Vienna at Krafft-Ebing's psychiatric clinic, Gattel (_Ueber die + sexuellen Ursachen der Neurasthenie und Angstneurose_, 1898) + carefully investigated the cases of 42 women, mostly at the + height of sexual life,--i.e., between 20 and 35,--who were + suffering from slight nervous disorders, especially neurasthenia + and mild hysteria, but none of them from grave nervous or other + disease. Of these 42, at least 17 had masturbated, at one time or + another, either before or after marriage, in order to obtain + relief of sexual feelings. In the case of 4 it is stated that + they do not obtain sexual satisfaction in marriage, but in these + cases only _coitus interruptus_ is practised, and the fact that + the absence of sexual satisfaction was complained of seems to + indicate an aptitude for experiencing it. These 4 cases can + therefore scarcely be regarded as exceptions. In all the other + cases sexual desire, sexual excitement, or sexual satisfaction is + always clearly indicated, and in a considerable proportion of + cases it is noted that the sexual impulse is very strongly + developed. This series is valuable, since the facts of the sexual + life are, as far as possible, recorded with much precision. The + significance of the facts varies, however, according to the view + taken as to the causation of neurasthenia and allied conditions + of slight nervous disorder. Gattel argues that sexual + irregularities are a peculiarly fruitful, if not invariable, + source of such disorders; according to the more commonly accepted + view this is not so. If we accept the more usual view, these + women fairly correspond to average women of lower class; if, + however, we accept Gattel's view, they may possess the sexual + instinct in a more marked degree than average women. + + In a series of 116 German women in whom the operation of removing + the ovaries was performed, Pfister usually noted briefly in what + way the sexual impulse was affected by the operation ("Die + Wirkung der Castration auf den Weiblichen Organismus," _Archiv + für Gynäkologie_, 1898, p. 583). In 13 cases (all but 3 + unmarried) the presence of sexual desire at any time was denied, + and 2 of these expressed disgust of sexual matters. In 12 cases + the point is left doubtful. In all the other cases sexual desire + had once been present, and in 2 or 3 cases it was acknowledged to + be so strong as to approach nymphomania. In about 30 of these + (not including any in which it was previously very strong) it was + extinguished by castration, in a few others it was diminished, + and in the rest unaffected. Thus, when we exclude the 12 cases in + which the point was not apparently investigated, and the 10 + unmarried women, in whom it may have been latent or unavowed, we + find that, of 94 married women, 91 women acknowledged the + existence of sexual desire and only 3 denied it. + + Schröter, again in Germany, has investigated the manifestations + of the sexual impulse among 402 insane women in the asylum at + Eichberg in Rheingau. ("Wird bei jungen Unverheiratheten zur Zeit + der Menstruation stärkere sexuelle Erregheit beobaehtet?" + _Allgemeine Zeitschrift für Psychiatrie_, vol. lvi, 1899, pp. + 321-333.) There is no reason to suppose that the insane represent + a class of the community specially liable to sexual emotion, + although its manifestations may become unrestrained and + conspicuous under the influence of insanity; and at the same + time, while the appearance of such manifestations is evidence of + the aptitude for sexual emotions, their absence may be only due + to disease, seclusion, or to an intact power of self-control. + + Of the 402 women, 166 were married and 236 unmarried. Schröter + divided them into four groups: (1) those below 20; (2) those + between 20 and 30; (3) those between 30 and 40; (4) those from 40 + to the menopause. The patients included persons from the lowest + class of the population, and only about a quarter of them could + fairly be regarded as curable. Thus the manifestations of + sexuality were diminished, for with advance of mental disease + sexual manifestations cease to appear. Schröter only counted + those cases in which the sexual manifestations were decided and + fairly constant at the menstrual epoch; if not visibly + manifested, sexual feeling was not taken into account. Sexual + phenomena accompanied the entry of the menstrual epoch in 141 + cases: i.e., in 20 (or in the proportion of 72 per cent.) of the + first group, consisting entirely of unmarried women; in 33 (or 28 + per cent.) of the second group; in 55 (or 35 per cent.) of the + third group; and in 33 (or 33 per cent.) of the fourth group. It + was found that 181 patients showed no sexual phenomena at any + time, while 80 showed sexual phenomena frequently between the + menstrual epochs, but only in a slight degree, and not at all + during the period. At all ages sexual manifestations were more + prevalent among the unmarried than among the married, though this + difference became regularly and progressively less with increase + in age. + + Schröter inclines to think that sexual excitement is commoner + among insane women belonging to the lower social classes than in + those belonging to the better classes. Among 184 women in a + private asylum, only 13 (6.13 per cent.) showed very marked and + constant excitement at menstrual periods. He points out, however, + that this may be due to a greater ability to restrain the + manifestations of feeling. + + There is some interest in Schröter's results, though they cannot + be put on a line with inquiries made among the sane; they only + represent the prevalence of the grossest and strongest sexual + manifestations when freed from the restraints of sanity. + +As a slight contribution toward the question, I have selected a series of +12 cases of women of whose sexual development I possess precise +information, with the following results: In 2 cases distinct sexual +feeling was experienced spontaneously at the age of 7 and 8, but the +complete orgasm only occurred some years after puberty; in 5 cases sexual +feeling appeared spontaneously for a few months to a year after the +appearance of menstruation, which began between 12 and 14 years of age, +usually at 13; in another case sexual feeling first appeared shortly after +menstruation began, but not spontaneously, being called out by a lover's +advances; in the remaining 4 cases sexual emotion never became definite +and conscious until adult life (the ages being 26, 27, 34, 35), in 2 cases +through being made love to, and in 2 cases through self-manipulation out +of accident or curiosity. It is noteworthy that the sexual feelings first +developed in adult life were usually as strong as those arising at +puberty. It may be added that, of these 12 women, 9 had at some time or +another masturbated (4 shortly after puberty, 5 in adult life), but, +except in 1 case, rarely and at intervals. All belong to the middle class, +2 or 3 leading easy, though not idle, lives, while all the others are +engaged in professional or other avocations often involving severe labor. +They differ widely in character and mental ability; but, while 2 or 3 +might be regarded as slightly abnormal, they are all fairly healthy. + +I am inclined to believe that the experiences of the foregoing group are +fairly typical of the social class to which they belong. I may, however, +bring forward another series of 35 women, varying in age from 18 to 40 +(with 2 exceptions all over 25), and in every respect comparable with the +smaller group, but concerning whom my knowledge, though reliable, is +usually less precise and detailed. In this group 5 state that they have +never experienced sexual emotion, these being all unmarried and leading +strictly chaste lives; in 18 cases the sexual impulse may be described as +strong, or is so considered by the subject herself; in 9 cases it is only +moderate; in 3 it is very slight when evoked, and with difficulty evoked, +in 1 of these only appearing two years after marriage, in another the +exhaustion and worry of household cares being assigned for its comparative +absence. It is noteworthy that all the more highly intelligent, energetic +women in the series appear in the group of those with strong sexual +emotions, and also that severe mental and physical labor, even when +cultivated for this purpose, has usually had little or no influence in +relieving sexual emotion. + + An American physician in the State of Connecticut sends me the + following notes concerning a series of 13 married women, taken, + as they occurred, in obstetric practice. They are in every way + respectable and moral women:-- + + "Mrs. A. says that her husband does not give her sufficient + sexual attention, as he fears they will have more children than + he can properly care for. Mrs. B. always enjoys intercourse; so + does Mrs. C. Mrs. D. is easily excited and very fond of sexual + attention. Mrs. E. likes intercourse if her husband is careful + not to hurt her. Mrs. F. never had any sexual desire until after + second marriage, but it is now very urgent at times. Mrs. G. is + not easily excited, but has never objected to her husband's + attention. Mrs. H. would prefer to have her husband exhibit more + attention. Mrs. I. never refused her husband, but he does not + trouble her much. Mrs. J. thinks that three or four times a week + is satisfactory, but would not object to nightly intercourse. + Mrs. K. does not think that her husband could give her more than + she would like. Mrs. L. would prefer to live with a woman if it + were not for sexual intercourse. Mrs. M., aged 40, says that her + husband, aged 65, insists upon intercourse three times every + night, and that he keeps her tired and disgusted. She each time + has at least one orgasm, and would not object to reasonable + attention." + +It may be remarked that, while these results in English women of the +middle class are in fair agreement with the German and Austrian +observations I have quoted, they differ from Campbell's results among +women of the working class in London. This discrepancy is, perhaps, not +difficult to explain. While the conditions of upper-class life may +possibly be peculiarly favorable to the development of the sexual +emotions, among the working classes in London, where the stress of the +struggle for existence under bad hygienic conditions is so severe, they +may be peculiarly unfavorable. It is thus possible that there really are a +smaller number of women experiencing sexual emotion among the class dealt +with by Campbell than among the class to which my series belong.[168] + +A more serious consideration is the method of investigation. A working +man, who is perhaps unintelligent outside his own work, and in many cases +married to a woman who is superior in refinement, may possibly be able to +arouse his wife's sexual emotions, and also able to ascertain what those +emotions are, and be willing to answer questions truthfully on this point, +to the best of his ability, but he is by no means a witness whose evidence +is final. While, however, Campbell's facts may not be quite +unquestionable, I am inclined to agree with his conclusion, and +Mantegazza's, that there is a very great range of variation in this +matter, and that there is no age at which the sexual impulse in women may +not appear. A lady who has received the confidence of very many women +tells me that she has never found a woman who was without sexual feeling. +I should myself be inclined to say that it is extremely difficult to find +a woman who is without the aptitude for sexual emotion, although a great +variety of circumstances may hinder, temporarily or permanently, the +development of this latent aptitude. In other words, while the latent +sexual aptitude may always be present, the sexual impulse is liable to be +defective and the aptitude to remain latent, with consequent deficiency of +sexual emotion, and absence of sexual satisfaction. + + This is not only indicated by the considerable proportion of my + cases in which there is only moderate or slight sexual feeling. I + have ample evidence that in many cases the element of pain, which + may almost be said to be normal in the establishment of the + sexual function, is never merged, as it normally is, in + pleasurable sensations on the full establishment of sexual + relationships. Sometimes, no doubt, this may be due to + dyspareunia. Sometimes there may be an absolute sexual + anesthesia, whether of congenital or hysterical origin. I have + been told of the case of a married lady who has never been able + to obtain sexual pleasure, although she has had relations with + several men, partly to try if she could obtain the experience, + and partly to please them; the very fact that the motives for + sexual relationships arose from no stronger impulse itself + indicates a congenital defect on the psychic as well as on the + physical side. But, as a rule, the sexual anesthesia involved is + not absolute, but lies in a disinclination to the sexual act due + to various causes, in a defect of strong sexual impulse, and an + inaptitude for the sexual orgasm. + + I am indebted to a lady who has written largely on the woman + question, and is herself the mother of a numerous family, for + several letters in regard to the prevalence among women of sexual + coldness, a condition which she regards as by no means to be + regretted. She considers that in all her own children the sexual + impulse is very slightly developed, the boys being indifferent to + women, the girls cold toward men and with no desire to marry, + though all are intelligent and affectionate, the girls showing a + very delicate and refined kind of beauty. (A large selection of + photographs accompanied this communication.) Something of the + same tendency is said to mark the stocks from which this family + springs, and they are said to be notable for their longevity, + healthiness, and disinclination for excesses of all kinds. It is + scarcely necessary to remark that a mother, however highly + intelligent, is by no means an infallible judge as to the + presence or absence in her children of so shy, subtle, and + elusive an impulse as that of sex. At the same time I am by no + means disposed to question the existence in individuals, and even + in families or stocks, of a relatively weak sexual impulse, + which, while still enabling procreation to take place, is + accompanied by no strong attraction to the opposite sex and no + marked inclination for marriage. (Adler, op. cit., p. 168, found + such a condition transmitted from mother to daughter.) Such + persons often possess a delicate type of beauty. Even, however, + when the health is good there seems usually to be a certain lack + of vitality. + +It seems to me that a state of sexual anesthesia, relative or absolute, +cannot be considered as anything but abnormal. To take even the lowest +ground, the satisfaction of the reproductive function ought to be at least +as gratifying as the evacuation of the bowels or bladder; while, if we +take, as we certainly must, higher ground than this, an act which is at +once the supreme fact and symbol of love and the supreme creative act +cannot under normal conditions be other than the most pleasurable of all +acts, or it would stand in violent opposition to all that we find in +nature. + +How natural the sexual impulse is in women, whatever difficulties may +arise in regard to its complete gratification, is clearly seen when we +come to consider the frequency with which in young women we witness its +more or less instinctive manifestations. Such manifestations are liable to +occur in a specially marked manner in the years immediately following the +establishment of puberty, and are the more impressive when we remember the +comparatively passive part played by the female generally in the game of +courtship, and the immense social force working on women to compel them to +even an unnatural extension of that passive part. The manifestations to +which I allude not only occur with most frequency in young girls, but, +contrary to the common belief, they seem to occur chiefly in innocent and +unperverted girls. The more vicious are skillful enough to avoid the +necessity for any such open manifestations. We have to bear this in mind +when confronted by flagrant sexual phenomena in young girls. + + "A young girl," says Hammer ("Ueber die Sinnlichkeit gesunder + Jungfrauen," _Die Neue Generation_, Aug., 1911), "who has not + previously adopted any method of self-gratification experiences + at the beginning of puberty, about the time of the first + menstruation and the sprouting of the pubic hair, in the absence + of all stimulation by a man, spontaneous sexual tendencies of + both local and psychic nature. On the psychic side there is a + feeling of emptiness and dissatisfaction, a need of subjection + and of serving, and, if the opportunity has so far been absent, + the craving to see masculine nudity and to learn the facts of + procreation. Side by side with these wishes, there are at the + same time inhibitory desires, such as the wish to keep herself + pure, either for a man whom she represents to herself as the + 'ideal,' or for her parents, who must not be worried, or as a + member of a chosen people in whose spirit she must live and die, + or out of love to Jesus or to some saint. On the physical side, + there is the feeling of fresh power and energy, of enterprise; + the agreeable tension of the genital regions, which easily become + moist. Then there is the feeling of overirritability and excess + of tension, and the need of relieving the tension through + pinches, blows, tight lacing, and so forth. If the girl remains + innocent of sex satisfaction, there takes place during sleep, at + regular intervals of about three days, more or less the relief + and emission of the tense glands, not corresponding to the + menstrual period, but to intercourse, and serving better than + sexual instruction to represent to her the phenomena of + intercourse. If at this period actual intercourse takes place, it + is, as a rule, free from pain, as also is the introduction of the + speculum. Without any seduction from without, the chaste girl now + frequently finds a way to relieve the excessive tension without + the aid of a man. It is self-abuse that leads gradually to the + production of pain in defloration. The menstrual phenomena + correspond to birth; self-gratification or relief during sleep to + intercourse." This statement of the matter is somewhat too + absolute and unqualified. Under the artificial conditions of + civilization the inhibitory influences of training speedily work + powerfully, and more or less successfully, in banishing sexual + phenomena into the subconscious, sometimes to work all the + mischief there which Freud attributes to them. It must also be + said (as I have pointed out in the discussion of Auto-erotism in + another volume) that sexual dreams seem to be the exception + rather than the rule in innocent girls. It remains true that + sexual phenomena in girls at puberty must not be regarded as + morbid or unnatural. There is also very good reason for believing + (even apart from the testimony of so experienced a gynecologist + as Hammer) that on the physical side sexual processes tend to be + accomplished with a facility that is often lost in later years + with prolonged chastity. This is true alike of intercourse and of + childbirth. (See vol. vi of these _Studies_, ch. xii.) + +Even, however, in the case of adults the active part played by women in +real life in matters of love by no means corresponds to the conventional +ideas on these subjects. No doubt nearly every woman receives her sexual +initiation from an older and more experienced man. But, on the other hand, +nearly every man receives his first initiation through the active and +designed steps taken by an older and more experienced woman. It is too +often forgotten by those who write on these subjects that the man who +seduces a woman has usually himself in the first place been "seduced" by a +woman. + + A well-known physician in Chicago tells me that on making inquiry + of 25 middle-class married men in succession be found that 16 had + been first seduced by a woman. An officer in the Indian Medical + Service writes to me as follows: "Once at a club in Burma we were + some 25 at table and the subject of first intercourse came up. + All had been led astray by servants save 2, whom their sisters' + governesses had initiated. We were all men in the 'service,' so + the facts may be taken to be typical of what occurs in our + stratum of society. All had had sexual relations with respectable + unmarried girls, and most with the wives of men known to their + fathers, in some instances these being old enough to be their + lovers' mothers. Apparently up to the age of 17 none had dared to + make the first advances, yet from the age of 13 onward all had + had ample opportunity for gratifying their sexual instincts with + women. Though all had been to public schools where homosexuality + was known to occur, yet (as I can assert from intimate knowledge) + none had given signs of inversion or perversion in Burma." + + In Russia, Tchlenoff, investigating the sexual life of over 2000 + Moscow students of upper and middle class (_Archives + d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Oct.-Nov., 1908), found that in half + of them the first coitus took place between 14 and 17 years of + age; in 41 per cent, with prostitutes, in 39 per cent, with + servants, and in 10 per cent, with married women. In 41 per cent, + the young man declared that he had taken the initiative, in 25 + per cent, the women took it, and in 23 per cent, the incitement + came from a comrade. + + The histories I have recorded in Appendix B (as well as in the + two following volumes of these _Studies_) very well illustrate + the tendency of young girls to manifest sexual impulses when + freed from the constraint which they feel in the presence of + adult men and from the fear of consequences. These histories show + especially how very frequently nurse-maids and servant-girls + effect the sexual initiation of the young boys intrusted to them. + How common this impulse is among adolescent girls of low social + class is indicated by the fact that certainly the majority of + middle-class men can recall instances from their own childhood. + (I here leave out of account the widespread practice among nurses + of soothing very young children in their charge by manipulating + the sexual organs.) + + A medical correspondent, in emphasizing this point, writes that + "many boys will tell you that, if a nurse-girl is allowed to + sleep in the same room with them, she will attempt sexual + manipulations. Either the girl gets into bed with the boy and + pulling him on to her tickles the penis and inserts it into the + vulva, making the boy imitate sexual movements, or she simply + masturbates the child, to get him excited and interested, often + showing him the female sexual opening in herself or in his + sisters, teaching him to finger it. In fact, a nurse-girl may + ruin a boy, chiefly, I think, because she has been brought up to + regard the sexual organs as a mystery, and is in utter ignorance + about them. She thus takes the opportunity of investigating the + boy's penis to find out how it works, etc., in order to satisfy + her curiosity. I know of a case in which a nurse in a fashionable + London Square garden used to collect all the boys and girls + (gentlemen's children) in a summer-house when it grew dark, and, + turning up her petticoats, invite all the boys to look at and + feel her vulva, and also incite the older boys of 12 or 14 to + have coitus with her. Girls are afraid of pregnancy, so do not + allow an adult penis to operate. I think people should take on a + far higher class of nurses, than they do." + + "Children ought never to be allowed, under any circumstances + whatever," wrote Lawson Tait (_Diseases of Women_, 1889, p. 62), + "to sleep with servants. In every instance where I have found a + number of children affected [by masturbation] the contagion has + been traced to a servant." Freud has found (_Neurologisches + Centralblatt_, No. 10, 1896) that in cases of severe youthful + hysteria the starting point may frequently be traced to sexual + manipulations by servants, nurse-girls, and governesses. + + "When I was about 8 or 9," a friend writes, "a servant-maid of + our family, who used to carry the candle out of my bedroom, often + drew down the bedclothes and inspected my organs. One night she + put the penis in her mouth. When I asked her why she did it her + answer was that 'sucking a boy's little dangle' cured her of + pains in her stomach. She said that she had done it to other + little boys, and declared that she liked doing it. This girl was + about 16; she had lately been 'converted.' Another maid in our + family used to kiss me warmly on the naked abdomen when I was a + small boy. But she never did more than that. I have heard of + various instances of servant-girls tampering with boys before + puberty, exciting the penis to premature erection by + manipulation, suction, and contact with their own parts." Such + overstimulation must necessarily in some cases have an injurious + influence on the boy's immature nervous system. Thus, Hutchinson + (_Archives of Surgery_, vol. iv, p. 200) describes a case of + amblyopia in a boy, developing after he had been placed to sleep + in a servant-girl's room. + + Moll (_Konträre Sexualempfindung_, third edition, 1899, p. 325) + refers to the frequency with which servant-girls (between the + ages of 18 and 30) carry on sexual practices with young boys + (between 5 and 13) committed to their care. More than a century + earlier Tissot, in his famous work on onanism, referred to the + frequency with which servant-girls corrupt boys by teaching them + to masturbate; and still earlier, in England, the author of + _Onania_ gave many such cases. We may, indeed, go back to the + time of Rabelais, who (as Dr. Kiernan reminds me) represents the + governesses of Gargantua, when he was a child, as taking pleasure + in playing with his penis till it became wet, and joking with + each other about it. (_Gargantua_, book i, chapter ix.) + + The prevalence of such manifestations among servant-girls + witnesses to their prevalence among lower-class girls generally. + In judging such acts, even when they seem to be very deliberate, + it is important to remember that at this age unreasoning instinct + plays a very large part in the manifestations of the sexual + impulse. This is clearly indicated by the phenomena observed in + the insane. Thus, as we have seen (page 214), Schröter has found + that, among girls of low social class under 20 years of age, + spontaneous periodical sexual manifestations at menstrual epochs + occurred in as large a proportion as 72 per cent. Among girls of + better social position these impulses are inhibited, or at all + events modified, by good taste or good feeling, the influences of + tradition or education; it is only to the latter that children + should be intrusted. + + Hoche mentions a case in which a man was accused of repeatedly + exhibiting his sexual organs to the servant-girl at a house; she + enjoyed the spectacle (_Neurologisches Centralblatt_, 1896, No. + 2). It may well be that in some cases of self-exhibition the + offender has good reason, on the ground of previous experience, + for thinking that he is giving pleasure. "When we used to go to + bathe while I was at school," writes a correspondent, "girls from + a poor quarter of the lower town (some quite 16) often followed + us and stood to watch about a hundred yards from the river. They + used to 'giggle' and 'pass remarks.' I have seen girls of this + class peeping through chinks of a palisade around a bathing-place + on the Thames." A correspondent who has given special attention + to the point tells me of the great interest displayed by young + girls of the people in Italy in the sexual organs of men. + + Curiosity--whether in the form of the desire for knowledge or the + desire for sensation--is, of course, not confined to young girls + and women of lower social strata, though in them it is less often + restrained by motives of self-respect and good feeling. "At the + age of 8," writes a correspondent, "I was one day playing in a + spare room with a girl of about 12 or 13. She gave me a + penholder, and, crouching upon her hands and knees, with her + posterior toward me, invited me to introduce the instrument into + the vulva. This was the first time I had seen the female parts, + and, as I appeared to be somewhat repelled, she coaxed me to + comply with her desire. I did as she directed, and she said that + it gave her pleasure. Several times after I repeated the same act + at her request. A friend tells me that when he was 10 a girl of + 16 asked him to lace up her boots. While he was kneeling at her + feet his hand touched her ankle. She asked him to put his hand + higher, and repeated 'Higher, higher,' till he touched the + pudenda, and finally, at her request, put his finger into the + vestibule. This girl was very handsome and amiable, and a + favorite of the boy's mother. No one suspected this propensity." + Again, a correspondent (a man of science) tells me of a friend + who lately, when dining out, met a girl, the daughter of a + country vicar; he was not specially attracted to her and paid her + no special attention. "A few days afterward he was astonished to + receive a call from her one afternoon (though his address is not + discoverable from any recognized source). She sat down as near to + him as she could, and rested her hand on his thigh, etc., while + talking on different subjects and drinking tea. Then without any + verbal prelude she asked him to have connection with her. Though + not exactly a Puritan, he is not the man to jump at such an offer + from a woman he is not in love with, so, after ascertaining that + the girl was _virgo intacta_, he declined and she went away. A + fortnight or so later he received a letter from her in the + country, making no reference to what had passed, but giving an + account of her work with her Sunday-school class. He did not + reply, and then came a curt note asking him to return her letter. + My friend feels sure she was devoted to auto-erotic performances, + but, having become attracted to him, came to the conclusion she + would like to try normal intercourse." + + Wolbarst, studying the prevalence of gonorrhea among boys in New + York (especially, it would appear, in quarters where the + foreign-born elements--mainly Russian Jew and south Italian--are + large), states: "In my study of this subject there have been + observed 3 cases of gonorrheal urethritis, in boys aged, + respectively, 4, 10, and 12 years, which were acquired in the + usual manner, from girls ranging between 10 and 12 years of age. + In each case, according to the story told by the victim, the girl + made the first advances, and in I case, that of the 4-year-old + boy, the act was consummated in the form of an assault, by a + girl 12 years old, in which the child was threatened with injury + unless he performed his part." (A.L. Wolbarst, _Journal of the + American Medical Association_, Sept. 28, 1901.) In a further + series of cases (_Medical Record_, Oct. 29, 1910) Wolbarst + obtained similar results, though he recognizes also the frequency + of precocious sexuality in the young boys themselves. + + Gibb states, concerning assaults on children by women: "It is + undeniably true that they occur much more frequently than is + generally supposed, although but few of the cases are brought to + public notice, owing to the difficulty of proving the charge." + (W.T. Gibb, article "Indecent Assaults upon Children," in A. + McLane Hamilton's _System of Legal Medicine_, vol. i, p. 651.) + Gibb's opinion carries weight, since he is medical adviser for + the New York Society for the Protection of Children, and + compelled to sift the evidence carefully in such cases. + + It should be mentioned that, while a sexual curiosity exercised + on younger children is, in girls about the age of puberty, an + ill-regulated, but scarcely morbid, manifestation, in older women + it may be of pathological origin. Thus, Kisch records the case of + a refined and educated lady of 30 who had been married for nine + years, but had never experienced sexual pleasure in coitus. For a + long time past, however, she had felt a strong desire to play + with the genital organs of children of either sex, a proceeding + which gave her sexual pleasure. She sought to resist this impulse + as much as possible, but during menstruation it was often + irresistible. Examination showed an enlarged and retroflexed + uterus and anesthesia of vagina. (Kisch, _Die Sterilität des + Weibes_, 1886, p. 103.) The psychological mechanism by which an + anesthetic vagina leads to a feeling of repulsion for normal + coitus and normal sexual organs, and directs the sexual feelings + toward more infantile forms of sexuality, is here not difficult + to trace. + + It is not often that the sexual attempts of girls and young women + on boys--notwithstanding their undoubted frequency--become of + medico-legal interest. In France in the course of ten years (1874 + to 1884) only 181 women, who were mostly between 20 and 30 years + of age, were actually convicted of sexual attempts on children + below 15. (Paul Bernard, "Viols et attentats a la Pudeur," + _Archives de l'Anthropologie Criminelle_, 1887.) Lop ("Attentats + à la Pudeur commis par des Femmes sur des Petits Enfants," id., + Aug., 1896) brings together a number of cases chiefly committed + by girls between the ages of 18 and 20. In England such + accusations against a young woman or girl may easily be + circumvented. If she is under 16 she is protected by the Criminal + Law Amendment Act and cannot be punished. In any case, when found + out, she can always easily bring the sympathy to her side by + declaring that she is not the aggressor, but the victim. Cases of + violent sexual assault upon girls, Lawson Tait remarks, while + they undoubtedly do occur, are very much rarer than the frequency + with which the charge is made would lead us to suspect. At one + time, by arrangement with the authority, 70 such charges at + Birmingham were consecutively brought before Lawson Tait. These + charges were all made under the Criminal Law Amendment Act. In + only 6 of these cases was he able to advise prosecution, in all + of which cases conviction was obtained. In 7 other cases in which + the police decided to prosecute there was either no conviction or + a very light sentence. In at least 26 cases the charge was + clearly trumped up. The average age of these girls was 12. "There + is not a piece of sexual argot that ever had before reached my + ears," remarks Mr. Tait, "but was used by these children in the + descriptions given by them of what had been done to them; and + they introduced, in addition, quite a new vocabulary on the + subject. The minute and detailed descriptions of the sexual act + given by chits of 10 and 11 would do credit to the pages of + Mirabeau. At first sight it is a puzzle to see how children so + young obtained their information." "About the use of the word + 'seduced,'" the same writer remarks, "I wish to say that the + class of women from amongst whom the great bulk of these cases + are drawn seem to use it in a sense altogether different from + that generally employed. It is not with them a process in which + male villainy succeeds by various arts in overcoming female + virtue and reluctance, but simply a date at which an incident in + their lives occurs for the first time; and, according to their + use of the phrase, the ancient legend of the Sacred Scriptures, + had it ended in the more ordinary and usual way by the virtue of + Joseph yielding to the temptation offered, would have to read as + a record of the seduction of Mrs. Potiphar." + + With reference to Lawson Tait's observation that violent assaults + on women, while they do occur, are very much rarer than the + frequency with which such charges are made would lead us to + believe, it may be remarked that many medico-legal authorities + are of the same opinion. (See, e.g., G. Vivian Poore's _Treatise + on Medical Jurisprudence_, 1901, p. 325. This writer also + remarks: "I hold very strongly that a woman may rape a man as + much as a man may rape a woman.") There can be little doubt that + the plea of force is very frequently seized on by women as the + easiest available weapon of defense when her connection with a + man has been revealed. She has been so permeated by the current + notion that no "respectable" woman can possibly have any sexual + impulses of her own to gratify that, in order to screen what she + feels to be regarded as an utterly shameful and wicked, as well + as foolish, act, she declares it never took place by her own will + at all. "Now, I ask you, gentlemen," I once heard an experienced + counsel address the jury in a criminal case, "as men of the + world, have you ever known or heard of a woman, a single woman, + confess that she had had sexual connection and not declare that + force had been used to compel her to such connection?" The + statement is a little sweeping, but in this matter there is some + element of truth in the "man of the world's" opinion. One may + refer to the story (told by Etienne de Bourbon, by Francisco de + Osuna in a religious work, and by Cervantes in _Don Quixote_, + part ii, ch. xlv) concerning a magistrate who, when a girl came + before him to complain of rape, ordered the accused young man + either to marry her or pay her a sum of money. The fine was paid, + and the magistrate then told the man to follow the girl and take + the money from her by force; the man obeyed, but the girl + defended herself so energetically that he could not secure the + money. Then the judge, calling the parties before him again, + ordered the fine to be returned: "Had you defended your chastity + as well as you have defended your money it could not have been + taken away from you." In most cases of "rape," in the case of + adults, there has probably been some degree of consent, though + that partial assent may have been basely secured by an appeal to + the lower nervous centers alone, with no participation of the + intelligence and will. Freud (_Zur Psychopathologie des + Alltagslebens_, p. 87) considers that on this ground the judge's + decision in _Don Quixote_ is "psychologically unjust," because in + such a case the woman's strength is paralyzed by the fact that an + unconscious instinct in herself takes her assailant's part + against her own conscious resistance. But it must be remembered + that the factor of instinct plays a large part even when no + violence is attempted. + +Such facts and considerations as these tend to show that the sexual +impulse is by no means so weak in women as many would lead us to think. It +would appear that, whereas in earlier ages there was generally a tendency +to credit women with an unduly large share of the sexual impulse, there is +now a tendency to unduly minimize the sexual impulse in women. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[156] I have had occasion to refer to the historic evolution of male +opinion regarding women in previous volumes, as, e.g., _Man and Woman_, +chapter i, and the appendix on "The Influence of Menstruation on the +Position of Women" in the first volume of these _Studies_. + +[157] The terminology proposed by Ziehen ("Zur Lehre von den +psychopathischen Konstitutionen," _Charité Annalen_, vol. xxxxiii, 1909) +is as follows: For absence of sexual feeling, _anhedonia_; for diminution +of the same, _hyphedonia_; for excess of sexual feeling, _hyperhedonia_; +for qualitative sexual perversions, _parhedonia_. "Erotic blindness" was +suggested by Nardelli. + +[158] O. Adler, _Die Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes_, 1904, +p. 146. + +[159] A correspondent tells me that he knows a woman who has been a +prostitute since the age of 15, but never experienced sexual pleasure and +a real, non-simulated orgasm till she was 23; since then she has become +very sensual. In other similar cases the hitherto indifferent prostitute, +having found the man who suits her, abandons her profession, even though +she is thereby compelled to live in extreme poverty. "An insensible +woman," as La Bruyère long ago remarked in his chapter "Des Femmes," "is +merely one who has not yet seen the man she must love." + +[160] Guttceit (_Dreissig Jahre Praxis_, vol. i, p. 416) pointed out that +the presence or absence of the orgasm is the only factor in "sexual +anesthesia" of which we can speak at all definitely; and he believed that +anaphrodism, in the sense of absence of the sexual impulse, never occurs +at all, many women having confided to him that they had sexual desires, +although those desires were not gratified by coitus. + +[161] _Op. cit._, p. 164. + +[162] Havelock Ellis, "Madame de Warens," _The Venture_, 1903. + +[163] It is interesting to observe that finally even Adler admits (op. +cit., p. 155) that there is no such thing as _congenital_ lack of aptitude +for sexual sensibility. + +[164] "I am not entirely satisfied with the testimony as to the alleged +sexual anesthesia," a medical correspondent writes. "The same principle +which makes the young harlot an old saint makes the repentant rake a +believer in sexual anesthesia. Most of the medical men who believe, or +claim to believe, that sexual anesthesia is so prevalent do so either to +flatter their hysterical patients or because they have the mentality of +the Hyacinthe of Zola's _Paris_." + +[165] _Differences in the Nervous Organization of Man and Woman_, 1891; +chapter xiii, "Sexual Instinct in Men and Women Compared." + +[166] Matthews Duncan considered that "the healthy performance of the +functions of child-bearing is surely connected with a well-regulated +condition of desire and pleasure." "Desire and pleasure," he adds, "may be +excessive, furious, overpowering, without bringing the female into the +class of maniacs; they may be temporary, healthy, and moderate; they may +be absent or dull." (Matthews Duncan, _Goulstonian Lectures on Sterility +in Woman_, pp. 91, 121.) + +[167] Geoffrey Mortimer, _Chapters on Human Love_, 1898, ch. xvi. + +[168] I do not, however, attach much weight to this possibility. The +sexual instinct among the lower social classes everywhere is subject to +comparatively weak inhibition, and Löwenfeld is probably right in +believing the women of the lower class do not suffer from sexual +anesthesia to anything like the same extent as upper-class women. In +England most women of the working class appear to have had sexual +intercourse at some time in their lives, notwithstanding the risks of +pregnancy, and if pregnancy occurs they refer to it calmly as an +"accident," for which they cannot be held responsible; "Well, I couldn't +help that," I have heard a young widow remark when mildly reproached for +the existence of her illegitimate child. Again, among American negresses +there seems to be no defect of sexual passion, and it is said that the +majority of negresses in the Southern States support not only their +children, but their lovers and husbands. + + + + +II. + +Special Characters of the Sexual Impulse in Women--The More Passive Part +Played by Women in Courtship--This Passivity only Apparent--The Physical +Mechanism of the Sexual Process in Women More Complex--The Slower +Development of Orgasm in Women--The Sexual Impulse in Women More +Frequently Needs to be Actively Aroused--The Climax of Sexual Energy Falls +Later in Women's Lives than in Men's--Sexual Ardor in Women Increased +After the Establishment of Sexual Relationships--Women bear Sexual +Excesses better than Men--The Sexual Sphere Larger and More Diffused in +Women--The Sexual Impulse in Women Shows a Greater Tendency to Periodicity +and a Wider Range of Variation. + + +So far I have been discussing the question of the sexual impulse in women +on the ground upon which previous writers have usually placed it. The +question, that is, has usually presented itself to them as one concerning +the relative strength of the impulse in men and women. When so considered, +not hastily and with prepossession, as is too often the case, but with a +genuine desire to get at the real facts in all their aspects, there is no +reason, as we have seen, to conclude that, on the whole, the sexual +impulse in women is lacking in strength. + +But we have to push our investigation of the matter further. In reality, +the question as to whether the sexual impulse is or is not stronger in one +sex than in the other is a somewhat crude one. To put the question in that +form is to reveal ignorance of the real facts of the matter. And in that +form, moreover, no really definite and satisfactory answer can be given. + +It is necessary to put the matter on different ground. Instead of taking +more or less insolvable questions as to the strength of the sexual impulse +in the two sexes, it is more profitable to consider its differences. What +are the special characters of the sexual impulse in women? + +There is certainly one purely natural sexual difference of a fundamental +character, which lies at the basis of whatever truth may be in the +assertion that women are not susceptible of sexual emotion. As may he +seen when considering the phenomena of modesty, the part played by the +female in courtship throughout nature is usually different from that +played by the male, and is, in some respects, a more difficult and complex +part. Except when the male fails to play his part properly, she is usually +comparatively passive; in the proper playing of her part she has to appear +to shun the male, to flee from his approaches--even actually to repel +them.[169] + +Courtship resembles very closely, indeed, a drama or game; and the +aggressiveness of the male, the coyness of the female, are alike +unconsciously assumed in order to bring about in the most effectual manner +the ultimate union of the sexes. The seeming reluctance of the female is +not intended to inhibit sexual activity either in the male or in herself, +but to increase it in both. The passivity of the female, therefore, is not +a real, but only an apparent, passivity, and this holds true of our own +species as much as of the lower animals. "Women are like delicately +adjusted alembics," said a seventeenth-century author. "No fire can be +seen outside, but if you look underneath the alembic, if you place your +hand on the hearts of women, in both places you will find a great +furnace."[170] Or, as Marro has finely put it, the passivity of women in +love is the passivity of the magnet, which in its apparent immobility is +drawing the iron toward it. An intense energy lies behind such passivity, +an absorbed preoccupation in the end to be attained. + +Tarde, when exercising magistrate's functions, once had to inquire into a +case in which a young man was accused of murder. In questioning a girl of +18, a shepherdess, who appeared before him as a witness, she told him that +on the morning following the crime she had seen the footmarks of the +accused up to a certain point. He asked how she recognized them, and she +replied, ingenuously but with assurance, that she could recognize the +footprints of every young man in the neighborhood, even in a plowed +field.[171] No better illustration could be given of the real significance +of the sexual passivity of women, even at its most negative point. + + "The women I have known," a correspondent writes, "do not express + their sensations and feelings as much as I do. Nor have I found + women usually anxious to practise 'luxuries.' They seldom care to + practice _fellatio_; I have only known one woman who offered to + do _fellatio_ because she liked it. Nor do they generally care to + masturbate a man; that is, they do not care greatly to enjoy the + contemplation of the other person's excitement. (To me, to see + the woman excited means almost more than my own pleasure.) They + usually resist _cunnilinctus_, although they enjoy it. They do + not seem to care to touch or look at a man's parts so much as he + does at theirs. And they seem to dislike the tongue-kiss unless + they feel very sexual or really love a man." My correspondent + admits that his relationships have been numerous and facile, + while his erotic demands tend also to deviate from the normal + path. Under such circumstances, which not uncommonly occur, the + woman's passions fail to be deeply stirred, and she retains her + normal attitude of relative passivity. + + It is owing to the fact that the sexual passivity of women is + only an apparent, and not a real, passivity that women are apt to + suffer, as men are, from prolonged sexual abstinence. This, + indeed, has been denied, but can scarcely be said to admit of + doubt. The only question is as to the relative amount of such + suffering, necessarily a very difficult question. As far back as + the fourteenth century Johannes de Sancto Amando stated that + women are more injured than men by sexual abstinence. In modern + times Maudsley considers that women "suffer more than men do from + the entire deprivation of sexual intercourse" ("Relations between + Body and Mind," _Lancet_, May 28, 1870). By some it has been held + that this cause may produce actual disease. Thus, Tilt, an + eminent gynecologist of the middle of the nineteenth century, in + discussing this question, wrote: "When we consider how much of + the lifetime of woman is occupied by the various phases of the + generative process, and how terrible is often the conflict within + her between the impulse of passion and the dictates of duty, it + may be well understood how such a conflict reacts on the organs + of the sexual economy in the unimpregnated female, and + principally on the ovaria, causing an orgasm, which, if often + repeated, may _possibly_ be productive of subacute ovaritis." + (Tilt, _On Uterine and Ovarian Inflammation_, 1862, pp. 309-310.) + Long before Tilt, Haller, it seems, had said that women are + especially liable to suffer from privation of sexual intercourse + to which they have been accustomed, and referred to chlorosis, + hysteria, nymphomania, and simple mania curable by intercourse. + Hegar considers that in women an injurious result follows the + nonsatisfaction of the sexual impulse and of the "ideal + feelings," and that symptoms thus arise (pallor, loss of flesh, + cardialgia, malaise, sleeplessness, disturbances of menstruation) + which are diagnosed as "chlorosis." (Hegar, _Zusammenhang der + Geschlechtskrankheiten mit nervösen Leiden_, 1885, p. 45.) Freud, + as well as Gattel, has found that states of anxiety + (_Angstzustände_) are caused by sexual abstinence. Löwenfeld, on + careful examination of his own cases, is able to confirm this + connection in both sexes. He has specially noticed it in young + women who marry elderly husbands. Löwenfeld believes, however, + that, on the whole, healthy unmarried women bear sexual + abstinence better than men. If, however, they are of at all + neuropathic disposition, ungratified sexual emotions may easily + lead to various morbid conditions, especially of a + hysteroneurasthenic character. (Löwenfeld, _Sexualleben und + Nervenleiden_, second edition, 1899, pp. 44, 47, 54-60.) + Balls-Headley considers that unsatisfied sexual desires in women + may lead to the following conditions: general atrophy, anemia, + neuralgia and hysteria, irregular menstruation, leucorrhea, + atrophy of sexual organs. He also refers to the frequency of + myoma of the uterus among those who have not become pregnant or + who have long ceased to bear children. (Balls-Headley, art. + "Etiology of Diseases of Female Genital Organs," Allbutt and + Playfair, _System of Gynæcology_, 1896, p. 141.) It cannot, + however, be said that he brings forward substantial evidence in + favor of these beliefs. It may be added that in America, during + recent years, leading gynecologists have recorded a number of + cases in which widows on remarriage have shown marked improvement + in uterine and pelvic conditions. + + The question as to whether men or women suffer most from sexual + abstinence, as well as the question whether definite morbid + conditions are produced by such abstinence, remains, however, an + obscure and debated problem. The available data do not enable us + to answer it decisively. It is one of those subtle and complex + questions which can only be investigated properly by a + gynecologist who is also a psychologist. Incidentally, however, + we have met and shall have occasion to meet with evidence bearing + on this question. It is sufficient to say here, briefly, that it + is impossible to believe, even if no evidence were forthcoming, + that the exercise or non-exercise of so vastly important a + function can make no difference to the organism generally. So + far as the evidence goes, it may be said to indicate that the + results of the abeyance of the sexual functions in healthy women + in whom the sexual emotions have never been definitely aroused + tend to be diffused and unconscious, as the sexual impulse itself + often is, but that, in women in whom the sexual emotions have + been definitely aroused and gratified, the results of sexual + abstinence tend to be acute and conscious. + + These acute results are at the present day very often due to + premature ejaculation by nervous or neurasthenic husbands, the + rapidity with which detumescence is reached in the husband + allowing insufficient time for tumescence in the wife, who + consequently fails to reach the orgasm. This has of late been + frequently pointed out. Thus Kafemann (_Sexual-Probleme_, March, + 1910, p. 194 et seq.) emphasizes the prevalence of sexual + incompetence in men. Ferenczi, of Budapest (_Zentralblatt für + Psychoanalyse_, 1910, ht. 1 and 2, p. 75), believes that the + combination of neurasthenic husbands with resultantly nervous + wives is extraordinarily common; even putting aside the + neurasthenic, he considers it may be said that the whole male sex + in relation to women suffer from precocious ejaculation. He adds + that it is often difficult to say whether the lack of harmony may + not be due to retarded orgasm in the woman. He regards the + influence of masturbation in early life as tending to quicken + orgasm in man, while when practised by the other sex it tends to + slow orgasm, and thus increases the disharmony. He holds, + however, that the chief cause lies in the education of women with + its emphasis on sexual repression; this works too well and the + result is that when the external impediments to the sexual + impulse are removed the impulse has become incapable of normal + action. Porosz (_British Medical Journal_, April 1, 1911) has + brought forward cases of serious nervous trouble in women which + have been dispersed when the sexual weakness and premature + ejaculation of the husband have been cured. + +The true nature of the passivity of the female is revealed by the ease +with which it is thrown off, more especially when the male refuses to +accept his cue. Or, if we prefer to accept the analogy of a game, we may +say that in the play of courtship the first move belongs to the male, but +that, if he fails to play, it is then the female's turn to play. + + Among many birds the males at mating time fall into a state of + sexual frenzy, but not the females. "I cannot call to mind a + single case," states an authority on birds (H.E. Howard, + _Zoölogist_, 1902, p. 146), "where I have seen anything + approaching frenzy in the female of any species while mating." + + Another great authority on birds, a very patient and skillful + observer, Mr. Edmund Selous, remarks, however, in describing the + courting habits of the ruffs and reeves (_Machetes pugnax_) that, + notwithstanding the passivity of the females beforehand, their + movements during and after coitus show that they derive at least + as much pleasure as the males. (E. Selous, "Selection in Birds," + _Zoölogist_, Feb. and May, 1907.) + + The same observer, after speaking of the great beauty of the male + eider duck, continues: "These glorified males--there were a dozen + of these, perhaps, to some six or seven females--swam closely + about the latter, but more in attendance upon them than as + actively pursuing them, for the females seemed themselves almost + as active agents in the sport of being wooed as were their lovers + in wooing them. The male bird first dipped down his head till his + beak just touched the water, then raised it again in a + constrained and tense manner,--the curious rigid action so + frequent in the nuptial antics of birds,--at the same time + uttering his strange haunting note. The air became filled with + it; every moment one or other of the birds--sometimes several + together--with upturned bill would softly laugh or exclaim, and + while the males did this, the females, turning excitedly, and + with little eager demonstrations from one to another of them, + kept lowering and extending forward the head and neck in the + direction of each in turn.... I noticed that a female would often + approach a male bird with her head and neck laid flat along the + water as though in a very 'coming on' disposition, and that the + male bird declined her advances. This, taken in conjunction with + the actions of the female when courted by the male, appears to me + to raise a doubt as to the universal application of the law that + throughout nature the male, in courtship, is eager, and the + female coy. Here, to all appearances, courtship was proceeding, + and the birds had not yet mated. The female eider ducks, + however,--at any rate, some of them,--appeared to be anything but + coy." (_Bird Watching_, pp. 144-146.) + + Among moor-hens and great-crested grebes sometimes what Selous + terms "functional hermaphroditism" occurs and the females play + the part of the male toward their male companions, and then + repeat the sexual act with a reversion to the normal order, the + whole to the satisfaction of both parties. (E. Selous, + _Zoölogist_, 1902, p. 196.) + + It is not only among birds that the female sometimes takes the + active part, but also among mammals. Among white rats, for + instance, the males are exceptionally eager. Steinach, who has + made many valuable experiments on these animals (_Archiv für die + Gesammte Physiologie_, Bd. lvi, 1894, p. 319), tells us that, + when a female white rat is introduced into the cage of a male, he + at once leaves off eating, or whatever else he may be doing, + becomes indifferent to noises or any other source of + distraction, and devotes himself entirely to her. If, however, he + is introduced into her cage the new environment renders him + nervous and suspicious, and then it is she who takes the active + part, trying to attract him in every way. The impetuosity during + heat of female animals of various species, when at length + admitted to the male, is indeed well known to all who are + familiar with animals. + + I have referred to the frequency with which, in the human + species,--and very markedly in early adolescence, when the sexual + impulse is in a high degree unconscious and unrestrainedly + instinctive,--similar manifestations may often be noted. We have + to recognize that they are not necessarily abnormal and still + less pathological. They merely represent the unseasonable + apparition of a tendency which in due subordination is implied in + the phases of courtship throughout the animal world. Among some + peoples and in some stages of culture, tending to withdraw the + men from women and the thought of women, this phase of courtship + and this attitude assume a prominence which is absolutely normal. + The literature of the Middle Ages presents a state of society in + which men were devoted to war and to warlike sports, while the + women took the more active part in love-making. The medieval + poets represent women as actively encouraging backward lovers, + and as delighting to offer to great heroes the chastity they had + preserved, sometimes entering their bed-chambers at night. + Schultz (_Das Höfische Leben_, Bd. i, pp. 594-598) considers that + these representations are not exaggerated. Cf. Krabbes, _Die Frau + im Altfranzösischen Karls-Epos_, 1884, p. 20 et seq.; and M.A. + Potter, _Sohrab and Rustem_, 1902, pp. 152-163. + + Among savages and barbarous races in various parts of the world + it is the recognized custom, reversing the more usual method, for + the girl to take the initiative in courtship. This is especially + so in New Guinea. Here the girls almost invariably take the + initiative, and in consequence hold a very independent position. + Women are always regarded as the seducers: "Women steal men." A + youth who proposed to a girl would be making himself ridiculous, + would be called a woman, and be laughed at by the girls. The + usual method by which a girl proposes is to send a present to the + youth by a third party, following this up by repeated gifts of + food; the young man sometimes waits a month or two, receiving + presents all the time, in order to assure himself of the girl's + constancy before decisively accepting her advances. (A.C. Haddon, + _Cambridge Expedition to Torres Straits_, vol. v, ch. viii; id., + "Western Tribes of Torres Straits," _Journal of the + Anthropological Institute_, vol. xix, February, 1890, pp. 314, + 356, 394, 395, 411, 413; id., _Head Hunters_, pp. 158-164; R.E. + Guise, "Tribes of the Wanigela River," _Journal of the + Anthropological Institute_, new series, vol. i, February-May, + 1899, p. 209.) Westermarck gives instances of races among whom + the women take the initiative in courtship. (_History of + Marriage_, p. 158; so also Finck, _Primitive Love and + Love-stories_, 1899, p. 109 et seq.; and as regards Celtic women, + see Rhys and Brynmor Jones, _The Welsh People_.) + +There is another characteristic of great significance by which the sexual +impulse in women differs from that in men: the widely unlike character of +the physical mechanism involved in the process of coitus. Considering how +obvious this difference is, it is strange that its fundamental importance +should so often be underrated. In man the process of tumescence and +detumescence is simple. In women it is complex. In man we have the more or +less spontaneously erectile penis, which needs but very simple conditions +to secure the ejaculation which brings relief. In women we have in the +clitoris a corresponding apparatus on a small scale, but behind this has +developed a much more extensive mechanism, which also demands +satisfaction, and requires for that satisfaction the presence of various +conditions that are almost antagonistic. Naturally the more complex +mechanism is the more easily disturbed. It is the difference, roughly +speaking, between a lock and a key. This analogy is far from indicating +all the difficulties involved. We have to imagine a lock that not only +requires a key to fit it, but should only be entered at the right moment, +and, under the best conditions, may only become adjusted to the key by +considerable use. The fact that the man takes the more active part in +coitus has increased these difficulties; the woman is too often taught to +believe that the whole function is low and impure, only to be submitted to +at her husband's will and for his sake, and the man has no proper +knowledge of the mechanism involved and the best way of dealing with it. +The grossest brutality thus may be, and not infrequently is, exercised in +all innocence by an ignorant husband who simply believes that he is +performing his "marital duties." For a woman to exercise this physical +brutality on a man is with difficulty possible; a man's pleasurable +excitement is usually the necessary condition of the woman's sexual +gratification. But the reverse is not the case, and, if the man is +sufficiently ignorant or sufficiently coarse-grained to be satisfied with +the woman's submission, he may easily become to her, in all innocence, a +cause of torture. + +To the man coitus must be in some slight degree pleasurable or it cannot +take place at all. To the woman the same act which, under some +circumstances, in the desire it arouses and the satisfaction it imparts, +will cause the whole universe to shrivel into nothingness, under other +circumstances will be a source of anguish, physical and mental. This is so +to some extent even in the presence of the right and fit man. There can be +no doubt whatever that the mucus which is so profusely poured out over the +external sexual organs in woman during the excitement of sexual desire has +for its end the lubrication of the parts and the facilitation of the +passage of the intromittent organ. The most casual inspection of the cold, +contracted, dry vulva in its usual aspect and the same when distended, +hot, and moist suffices to show which condition is and which is not that +ready for intercourse, and until the proper condition is reached it is +certain that coitus should not be attempted. + +The varying sensitiveness of the female parts again offers difficulties. +Sexual relations in women are, at the onset, almost inevitably painful; +and to some extent the same experience may be repeated at every act of +coitus. Ordinary tactile sensibility in the female genitourinary region is +notably obtuse, but at the beginning of the sexual act there is normally a +hyperesthesia which may be painful or pleasurable as excitement +culminates, passing into a seeming anesthesia, which even craves for rough +contact; so that in sexual excitement a woman normally displays in quick +succession that same quality of sensibility to superficial pressure and +insensibility to deep pressure which the hysterical woman exhibits +simultaneously. + +Thus we see that a highly important practical result follows from the +greater complexity of the sexual apparatus in women and the greater +difficulty with which it is aroused. In coitus the orgasm tends to occur +more slowly in women than in men. It may easily happen that the whole +process of detumescence is completed in the man before it has begun in +his partner, who is left either cold or unsatisfied. This is one of the +respects in which women remain nearer than men to the primitive stage of +humanity. + + In the Hippocratic treatise, _Of Generation_, it is stated that, + while woman has less pleasure in coitus than man, her pleasure + lasts longer. (_Oeuvres d'Hippocrate_, edition Littré, vol. vii, + p. 477.) + + Beaunis considers that the slower development of the orgasm in + women is the only essential difference in the sexual process in + men and women. (Beaunis, _Les Sensations Internes_, 1889, p. + 151.) This characteristic of the sexual impulse in women, though + recognized for so long a period, is still far too often ignored + or unknown. There is even a superstition that injurious results + may follow if the male orgasm is not effected as rapidly as + possible. That this is not so is shown by the experiences of the + Oneida community in America, who in their system of sexual + relationship carried prolonged intercourse without ejaculation to + an extreme degree. There can be no doubt whatever that very + prolonged intercourse gives the maximum amount of pleasure and + relief to the woman. Not only is this the very decided opinion of + women who have experienced it, but it is also indicated by the + well-recognized fact that a woman who repeats the sexual act + several times in succession often experiences more intense orgasm + and pleasure with each repetition. + + This point is much better understood in the East than in the + West. The prolongation of the man's excitement, in order to give + the woman time for orgasm, is, remarks Sir Richard Burton + (_Arabian Nights_, vol. v, p. 76), much studied by Moslems, as + also by Hindoos, who, on this account, during the orgasm seek to + avoid overtension of muscles and to preoccupy the brain. During + coitus they will drink sherbet, chew betel-nut, and even smoke. + Europeans devote no care to this matter, and Hindoo women, who + require about twenty minutes to complete the act, contemptuously + call them "village cocks." I have received confirmation of + Burton's statements on this point from medical correspondents in + India. + + While the European desires to perform as many acts of coitus in + one night as possible, Breitenstein remarks, the Malay, as still + more the Javanese, wishes, not to repeat the act many times, but + to prolong it. His aim is to remain in the vagina for about a + quarter of an hour. Unlike the European, also, he boasts of the + pleasure he has given his partner far more than of his own + pleasure. (Breitenstein, _21 Jahre in India_, theil i, "Borneo," + p. 228.) + + Jäger (_Entdeckung der Seele_, second edition, vol. i, 1884, p. + 203), as quoted by Moll, explains the preference of some women + for castrated men as due, not merely to the absence of risk of + impregnation, but to the prolonged erections that take place in + the castrated. Aly-Belfàdel remarks (_Archivio di Psichiatria_, + 1903, p. 117) that he knows women who prefer old men in coitus + simply because of their delay in ejaculation which allows more + time to the women to become excited. + + A Russian correspondent living in Italy informs me that a + Neapolitan girl of 17, who had only recently ceased to be a + virgin, explained to him that she preferred _coitus in ore vulvæ_ + to real intercourse because the latter was over before she had + time to obtain the orgasm (or, as she put it, "the big bird has + fled from the cage and I am left in the lurch"), while in the + other way she was able to experience the orgasm twice before her + partner reached the climax. "This reminds me," my correspondent + continues, "that a Milanese cocotte once told me that she much + liked intercourse with Jews because, on account of the + circumcised penis being less sensitive to contact, they ejaculate + more slowly then Christians. 'With Christians,' she said, 'it + constantly happens that I am left unsatisfied because they + ejaculate before me, while in coitus with Jews I sometimes + ejaculate twice before the orgasm occurs in my partner, or, + rather, I hold back the second orgasm until he is ready.' This is + confirmed," my correspondent continues, "by what I was told by a + Russian Jew, a student at the Zürich Polytechnic, who had a + Russian comrade living with a mistress, also a Russian student, + or pseudostudent. One day the Jew, going early to see his friend, + was told to enter by a woman's voice and found his friend's + mistress alone and in her chemise beside the bed. He was about to + retire, but the young woman bade him stay and in a few minutes he + was in bed with her. She told him that her lover had just gone + away and that she never had sexual relief with him because he + always ejaculated too soon. That morning he had left her so + excited and so unrelieved that she was just about to + masturbate--which she rarely did because it gave her + headache--when she heard the Jew's voice, and, knowing that Jews + are slower in coitus than Christians, she had suddenly resolved + to give herself to him." + + I am informed that the sexual power of negroes and slower + ejaculation (see Appendix A) are the cause of the favor with + which they are viewed by some white women of strong sexual + passions in America, and by many prostitutes. At one time there + was a special house in New York City to which white women + resorted for these "buck lovers"; the women came heavily veiled + and would inspect the penises of the men before making their + selection. + +It is thus a result of the complexity of the sexual mechanism in women +that the whole attitude of a woman toward the sexual relationship is +liable to be affected disastrously by the husband's lack of skill or +consideration in initiating her into this intimate mystery. Normally the +stage of apparent repulsion and passivity, often associated with great +sensitiveness, physical and moral, passes into one of active participation +and aid in the consummation of the sexual act. But if, from whatever +cause, there is partial arrest on the woman's side of this evolution in +the process of courtship, if her submission is merely a mental and +deliberate act of will, and not an instinctive and impulsive +participation, there is a necessary failure of sexual relief and +gratification. When we find that a woman displays a certain degree of +indifference in sexual relationships, and a failure of complete +gratification, we have to recognize that the fault may possibly lie, not +in her, but in the defective skill of a lover who has not known how to +play successfully the complex and subtle game of courtship. Sexual +coldness due to the shock and suffering of the wedding-night is a +phenomenon that is far too frequent.[172] Hence it is that many women may +never experience sexual gratification and relief, through no defect on +their part, but through the failure of the husband to understand the +lover's part. We make a false analogy when we compare the courtship of +animals exclusively with our own courtships before marriage. Courtship, +properly understood, is the process whereby both the male and the female +are brought into that state of sexual tumescence which is a more or less +necessary condition for sexual intercourse. The play of courtship cannot, +therefore, be considered to be definitely brought to an end by the +ceremony of marriage; it may more properly be regarded as the natural +preliminary to every act of coitus. + + Tumescence is not merely a more or less essential condition for + proper sexual intercourse. It is probably of more fundamental + significance as one of the favoring conditions of impregnation. + This has, indeed, been long recognized. Van Swieten, when + consulted by the childless Maria Theresa, gave the opinion "Ego + vero censeo, vulvam Sacratissimæ Majestatis ante coitum diutius + esse titillandam," and thereafter she had many children. "I think + it very nearly certain," Matthews Duncan wrote (_Goulstonian + Lectures on Sterility in Woman_, 1884, p. 96), "that desire and + pleasure in due or moderate degree are very important aids to, or + predisposing causes of, fecundity," as bringing into action the + complicated processes of fecundation. Hirst (_Text-book of + Obstetrics_, 1899, p. 67) mentions the case of a childless + married woman who for six years had had no orgasm during + intercourse; then it occurred at the same time as coitus, and + pregnancy resulted. + + Kisch is very decidedly of the same opinion, and considers that + the popular belief on this point is fully justified. It is a + fact, he states, that an unfaithful wife is more likely to + conceive with her lover than with her husband, and he concludes + that, whatever the precise mechanism may be, "sexual excitement + on the woman's part is a necessary link in the chain of + conditions producing impregnation." (E.H. Kisch, _Die Sterilität + des Weibes_, 1886, p. 99.) Kisch believes (p. 103) that in the + majority of women sexual pleasure only appears gradually, after + the first cohabitation, and then develops progressively, and that + the first conception usually coincides with its complete + awakening. In 556 cases of his own the most frequent epoch of + first impregnation was found to be between ten and fifteen months + after marriage. + + The removal of sexual frigidity thus becomes a matter of some + importance. This removal may in some cases be effected by + treatment through the husband, but that course is not always + practicable. Dr. Douglas Bryan, of Leicester, informs me that in + several cases he has succeeded in removing sexual coldness and + physical aversion in the wife by hypnotic suggestion. The + suggestions given to the patient are "that all her womanly + natural feelings would be quickly and satisfactorily developed + during coitus; that she would experience no feeling of disgust + and nausea, would have no fear of the orgasm not developing; that + there would be no involuntary resistance on her part." The fact + that such suggestions can be permanently effective tends to show + how superficial the sexual "anesthesia" of women usually is. + +Not only, therefore, is the apparatus of sexual excitement in women more +complex than in men, but--in part, possibly as a result of this greater +complexity--it much more frequently requires to be actively aroused. In +men tumescence tends to occur almost spontaneously, or under the simple +influence of accumulated semen. In women, also, especially in those who +live a natural and healthy life, sexual excitement also tends to occur +spontaneously, but by no means so frequently as in men. The comparative +rarity of sexual dreams in women who have not had sexual relationships +alone serves to indicate this sexual difference. In a very large number of +women the sexual impulse remains latent until aroused by a lover's +caresses. The youth spontaneously becomes a man; but the maiden--as it has +been said--"must be kissed into a woman." + +One result of this characteristic is that, more especially when love is +unduly delayed beyond the first youth, this complex apparatus has +difficulty in responding to the unfamiliar demands of sexual excitement. +Moreover, delayed normal sexual relations, when the sexual impulse is not +absolutely latent, tend to induce all degrees of perverted or abnormal +sexual gratification, and the physical mechanism when trained to respond +in other ways often fails to respond normally when, at last, the normal +conditions of response are presented. In all these ways passivity and even +aversion may be produced in the conjugal relationship. The fact that it is +almost normally the function of the male to arouse the female, and that +the greater complexity of the sexual mechanism in women leads to more +frequent disturbance of that mechanism, produces a simulation of organic +sexual coldness which has deceived many. + + An instructive study of cases in which the sexual impulse has + been thus perverted has been presented by Smith Baker ("The + Neuropsychical Element in Conjugal Aversion," _Journal of Nervous + and Mental Disease_, vol. xvii, September, 1892). Raymond and + Janet, who believes that sexual coldness is extremely frequent in + marriage, and that it plays an important part in the causation of + physical and moral troubles, find that it is most often due to + masturbation. (_Les Obsessions_, vol. ii, p. 307.) Adler, after + discussing the complexity of the feminine sexual mechanism, and + the difficulty which women find in obtaining sexual gratification + in normal coitus, concludes that "masturbation is a frequent, + perhaps the most frequent, cause of defective sexual sensibility + in women." (_Op. cit._, p. 119.) He remarks that in women + masturbation usually has less resemblance to normal coitus than + in men and involves very frequently the special excitation of + parts which are not the chief focus of excitement in coitus, so + that coitus fails to supply the excitation which has become + habitual (pp. 113-116). In the discussion of "Auto-erotism" in + the first volume of these _Studies_, I had already referred to + the divorce between the physical and the ideal sides of love + which may, especially in women, be induced by masturbation. + + Another cause of inhibited sexual feeling has been brought + forward. A married lady with normal sexual impulse states + (_Sexual-Probleme_, April, 1912, p. 290) that she cannot + experience orgasm and sexual satisfaction when the intercourse is + not for conception. This is a psychic inhibition independent of + any disturbance due to the process of prevention. She knows other + women who are similarly affected. Such an inhibition must be + regarded as artificial and abnormal, since the final result of + sexual intercourse, under natural and normal conditions, forms no + essential constituent of the psychic process of intercourse. + +As a result of the fact that in women the sexual emotions tend not to +develop great intensity until submitted to powerful stimulation, we find +that the maximum climax of sexual emotion tends to fall somewhat later in +a woman's life than in a man's. Among animals generally there appears to +be frequently traceable a tendency for the sexual activities of the male +to develop at a somewhat earlier age than those of the female. In the +human, species we may certainly trace the same tendency. As the great +physiologist, Burdach, pointed out, throughout nature, with the +accomplishment of the sexual act the part of the male in the work of +generation comes to an end; but that act represents only the beginning of +a woman's generative activity. + +A youth of 20 may often display a passionate ardor in love which is very +seldom indeed found in women who are under 25. It is rare for a woman, +even though her sexual emotions may awaken at puberty or earlier, to +experience the great passion of her life until after the age of 25 has +been passed. In confirmation of this statement, which is supported by +daily observation, it may be pointed out that nearly all the most +passionate love-letters of women, as well as their most passionate +devotions, have come from women who had passed, sometimes long passed, +their first youth. When Heloise wrote to Abelard the first of the letters +which have come down to us she was at least 32. Mademoiselle Aissé's +relation with the Chevalier began when she was 32, and when she died, six +years later, the passion of each was at its height. Mary Wollstonecraft +was 34 when her love-letters to Imlay began, and her child was born in the +following year. Mademoiselle de Lespinasse was 43 when she began to write +her letters to M. de Guibert. In some cases the sexual impulse may not +even appear until after the period of the menopause has been passed.[173] + + In Roman times Ovid remarked (_Ars Amatoria_, lib. ii) that a + woman fails to understand the art of love until she has reached + the age of 35. "A girl of 18," said Stendhal (_De l'Amour_, ch. + viii), "has not the power to crystallize her emotions; she forms + desires that are too limited by her lack of experience in the + things of life, to be able to love with such passion as a woman + of 28." "Sexual needs," said Restif de la Bretonne (_Monsieur + Nicolas_, vol. xi, p. 221), "often only appears in young women + when they are between 26 and 27 years of age; at least, that is + what I have observed." + + Erb states that it is about the middle of the twenties that women + begin to suffer physically, morally, and intellectually from + their sexual needs. Nyström (_Das Geschlechtsleben_, p. 163) + considers that it is about the age of 30 that a woman first + begins to feel conscious of sex needs. In a case of Adler's (_op. + cit._, p. 141), sexual feelings first appeared after the birth of + the third child, at the age of 30. Forel (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, + 1906, p. 219) considers that sexual desire in woman is often + strongest between the ages of 30 and 40. Leith Napier + (_Menopause_, p. 94) remarks that from 28 to 30 is often an + important age in woman who have retained their virginity, erotism + then appearing with the full maturity of the nervous system. + Yellowlees (art. "Masturbation," _Dictionary of Psychological + Medicine_), again, states that at about the age of 33 some women + experience great sexual irritability, often resulting in + masturbation. Audiffrent (_Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, + Jan. 15, 1902, p. 3) considers that it is toward the age of 30 + that a woman reaches her full moral and physical development, and + that at this period her emotional and idealizing impulses reach a + degree of intensity which is sometimes irresistible. It has + already been mentioned that Matthews Duncan's careful inquiries + showed that it is between the ages of 30 and 34 that the largest + proportion of women experience sexual desire and sexual pleasure. + It may be remarked, also, that while the typical English + novelists, who have generally sought to avoid touching the deeper + and more complex aspects of passion, often choose very youthful + heroines, French novelists, who have frequently had a + predilection for the problems of passion, often choose heroines + who are approaching the age of 30. + + Hirschfeld (_Von Wesen der Liebe_, p. 26) was consulted by a lady + who, being without any sexual desires or feelings, married an + inverted man in order to live with him a life of simple + comradeship. Within six months, however, she fell violently in + love with her husband, with the full manifestation of sexual + feelings and accompanying emotions of jealousy. Under all the + circumstances, however, she would not enter into sexual + relationship with her husband, and the torture she endured became + so acute that she desired to be castrated. In this connection, + also, I may mention a case, which has been communicated to me + from Glasgow, of a girl--strong and healthy and menstruating + regularly since the age of 17--who was seduced at the age of 20 + without any sexual desire on her part, giving birth to a child + nine months later. Subsequently she became a prostitute for three + years, and during this period had not the slightest sexual desire + or any pleasure in sexual connection. Thereafter she met a poor + lad with whom she has full sexual desire and sexual pleasure, the + result being that she refuses to go with any other man, and + consequently is almost without food for several days every week. + + The late appearance of the great climax of sexual emotion in + women is indicated by a tendency to nervous and psychic + disturbances between the ages of 25 and about 33, which has been + independently noted by various alienists (though it may be noted + that 25 to 30 is not an unusual age for first attacks of insanity + in men also). Thus, Krafft-Ebing states that adult unmarried + women between the ages of 25 and 30 often show nervous symptoms + and peculiarities. (Krafft-Ebing, "Ueber Neurosen und Psychosen + durch Sexuelle Abstinenz," _Jahrbücher für Psychiatrie_, Bd. + viii, ht. 1-4, 1888.) Pitres and Régis find also (_Comptes-rendus + XIIe Congrès International de Médecine_, Moscow, 1897, vol. iv, + p. 45) that obsessions, which are commoner in women than in men + and are commonly connected in their causation with strong moral + emotion, occur in women chiefly between the ages of 26 and 30, + though in men much earlier. The average age at which in England + women inebriates begin drinking in excess is 26. (_British + Medical Journal_, Sept. 2, 1911, p. 518.) + + A case recorded by Sérieux is instructive as regards the + development of the sexual impulse, although it comes within the + sphere of mental disorder. A woman of 32 with bad heredity had in + childhood had weak health and become shy, silent, and fond of + solitude, teased by her companions and finding consolation in + hard work. Though very emotional, she never, even in the vaguest + form, experienced any of those feelings and aspirations which + reveal the presence of the sexual impulse. She had no love of + dancing and was indifferent to any embraces she might chance to + receive from young men. She never masturbated or showed inverted + feelings. At the age of 23 she married. She still, however, + experienced no sexual feelings; twice only she felt a faint + sensation of pleasure. A child was born, but her home was unhappy + on account of her husband's drunken habits. He died and she + worked hard for her own living and the support of her mother. + Then at the age of 31 a new phase occurs in her life: she falls + in love with the master of her workshop. It was at first a purely + psychic affection, without any mixture of physical elements; it + was enough to see him, and she trembled when she touched anything + that belonged to him. She was constantly thinking about him; she + loved him for his eyes, which seemed to her those of her own + child, and especially for his intelligence. Gradually, however, + the lower nervous centers began to take part in these emotions; + one day in passing her the master chanced to touch her shoulder; + this contact was sufficient to produce sexual turgescence. She + began to masturbate daily, thinking of her master, and for the + first time in her life she desired coitus. She evoked the image + of her master so constantly and vividly that at last + hallucinations of sight, touch, and hearing appeared, and it + seemed to her that he was present. These hallucinations were only + with difficulty dissipated. (P. Sérieux, _Les Anomalies de + L'Instinct Sexuel_, 1888, p. 50.) This case presents in an insane + form a phenomenon which is certainly by no means uncommon and is + very significant. Up to the age of 31 we should certainly have + been forced to conclude that this woman was sexually anesthetic + to an almost absolute degree. In reality, we see this was by no + means the case. Weak health, hard work, and a brutal husband had + prolonged the latency of the sexual emotions; but they were + there, ready to explode with even insane intensity (this being + due to the unsound heredity) in the presence of a man who + appealed to these emotions. + + In connection with the late evolution of the sexual emotions in + women reference may be made to what is usually termed "old maid's + insanity," a condition not met with in men. In these cases, which + are not, indeed, common, single women who have led severely + strict and virtuous lives, devoting themselves to religious or + intellectual work, and carefully repressing the animal side of + their natures, at last, just before the climacteric, experience + an awakening of the erotic impulse; they fall in love with some + unfortunate man, often a clergyman, persecute him with their + attentions, and frequently suffer from the delusion that he + reciprocates their affections. + +When once duly aroused, there cannot usually be any doubt concerning the +strength of the sexual impulse in normal and healthy women. There would, +however, appear to be a distinct difference between the sexes at this +point also. Before sexual union the male tends to be more ardent; after +sexual union it is the female who tends to be more ardent. The sexual +energy of women, under these circumstances, would seem to be the greater +on account of the long period during which it has been dormant. + + Sinibaldus in the seventeenth century, in his _Geneanthropeia_, + argued that, though women are cold at first, and aroused with + more difficulty and greater slowness than men, the flame of + passion spreads in them the more afterward, just as iron is by + nature cold, but when heated gives a great degree of heat. + Similarly Mandeville said of women that "their passions are not + so easily raised nor so suddenly fixed upon any particular + object; but when this passion is once rooted in women it is much + stronger and more durable than in men, and rather increases than + diminishes by enjoying the person of the beloved." (_A Modest + Defence of Public Stews_, 1724, p. 34.) Burdach considered that + women only acquire the full enjoyment of their general strength + after marriage and pregnancy, while it is before marriage that + men have most vigor. Schopenhauer also said that a man's love + decreases with enjoyment, and a woman's increases. And Ellen Key + has remarked (_Love and Marriage_) that "where there is no + mixture of Southern blood it is a long time, sometimes indeed not + till years after marriage, that the senses of the Northern women + awake to consciousness." + + Even among animals this tendency seems to be manifested. Edmund + Selous (_Bird Watching_, p. 112) remarks, concerning sea-gulls: + "Always, or almost always, one of the birds--and this I take to + be the female--is more eager, has a more soliciting manner and + tender begging look than the other. It is she who, as a rule, + draws the male bird on. She looks fondly up at him, and, raising + her bill to his, as though beseeching a kiss, just touches with + it, in raising, the feathers of the throat--an action light, but + full of endearment. And in every way she shows herself the most + desirous, and, in fact, so worries and pesters the poor male gull + that often, to avoid her importunities, he flies away. This may + seem odd, but I have seen other instances of it. No doubt, in + actual courting, before the sexes are paired, the male bird is + usually the most eager, but after marriage the female often + becomes the wooer. Of this I have seen some marked instances." + Selous mentions especially the plover, kestrel hawk, and rook. + +In association with the fact that women tend to show an increase of sexual +ardor after sexual relationships have been set up may be noted the +probably related fact that sexual intercourse is undoubtedly less +injurious to women than to men. Other things being equal, that is to say, +the threshold of excess is passed very much sooner by the man than by the +woman. This was long ago pointed out by Montaigne. The ancient saying, +"_Omne animal post coitum triste_," is of limited application at the best, +but certainly has little reference to women.[174] Alacrity, rather than +languor, as Robin has truly observed,[175] marks a woman after coitus, or, +as a medical friend of my own has said, a woman then goes about the house +singing.[176] It is, indeed, only after intercourse with a woman for whom, +in reality, he feels contempt that a man experiences that revulsion of +feeling described by Shakespeare (sonnet cxxix). Such a passage should not +be quoted, as it sometimes has been quoted, as the representation of a +normal phenomenon. But, with equal gratification on both sides, it remains +true that, while after a single coitus the man may experience a not +unpleasant lassitude and readiness for sleep, this is rarely the case with +his partner, for whom a single coitus is often but a pleasant stimulus, +the climax of satisfaction not being reached until a second or subsequent +act of intercourse. "Excess in venery," which, rightly or wrongly, is set +down as the cause of so many evils in men, seldom, indeed, appears in +connection with women, although in every act of venery the woman has taken +part.[177] + + That women bear sexual excesses better than men was noted by + Cabanis and other early writers. Alienists frequently refer to + the fact that women are less liable to be affected by insanity + following such excesses. (See, e.g., Maudsley, "Relations between + Body and Mind," _Lancet_, May 28, 1870; and G. Savage, art. + "Marriage and Insanity" in _Dictionary of Psychological + Medicine_.) Trousseau remarked on the fact that women are not + exhausted by repeated acts of coitus within a short period, + notwithstanding that the nervous excitement in their case is as + great, if not greater, and he considered that this showed that + the loss of semen is a cause of exhaustion in men. Löwenfeld + (_Sexualleben und Nervenleiden_, pp. 74, 153) states that there + cannot be question that the nervous system in women is less + influenced by the after-effects of coitus than in men. Not only, + he remarks, are prostitutes very little liable to suffer from + nervous overstimulation, and neurasthenia and hysteria when + occurring in them be easily traceable to other causes, but + "healthy women who are not given to prostitution, when they + indulge in very frequent sexual intercourse, provided it is + practised normally, do not experience the slightest injurious + effect. I have seen many young married couples where the husband + had been reduced to a pitiable condition of nervous prostration + and general discomfort by the zeal with which he had exercised + his marital duties, while the wife had been benefited and was in + the uninterrupted enjoyment of the best health." This experience + is by no means uncommon. + + A correspondent writes: "It is quite true that the threshold of + excess is less easily reached by women than by men. I have found + that women can reach the orgasm much more frequently than men. + Take an ordinary case. I spend two hours with ----. I have the + orgasm 3 times, with difficulty; she has it 6 or 8, or even 10 or + 12, times. Women can also experience it a second or third time in + succession, with no interval between. Sometimes the mere fact of + realizing that the man is having the orgasm causes the woman to + have it also, though it is true that a woman usually requires as + many minutes to develop the orgasm as a man does seconds." I may + also refer to the case recorded in another part of this volume in + which a wife had the orgasm 26 times to her husband's twice. + + Hutchinson, under the name of post-marital amblyopia (_Archives + of Surgery_, vol. iv, p. 200), has described a condition + occurring in men in good health who soon after marriage become + nearly blind, but recover as soon as the cause is removed. He + mentions no cases in women due to coitus, but finds that in + women some failure of sight may occur after parturition. + + Näcke states that, in his experience, while masturbation is, + apparently, commoner in insane men than in insane women, + masturbation repeated several times a day is much commoner in the + women. (P. Näcke, "Die Sexuellen Perversitäten in der + Irrenanstalt," _Psychiatrische Bladen_, 1899, No. 2.) + + Great excesses in masturbation seem also to be commoner among + women who may be said to be sane than among men. Thus, Bloch + (_New Orleans Medical Journal_, 1896) records the case of a young + married woman of 25, of bad heredity, who had suffered from + almost life-long sexual hyperesthesia, and would masturbate + fourteen times daily during the menstrual periods. + + With regard to excesses in coitus the case may be mentioned of a + country girl of 17, living in a rural district in North Carolina + where prostitution was unknown, who would cohabit with men almost + openly. On one Sunday she went to a secluded school-house and let + three or four men wear themselves out cohabiting with her. On + another occasion, at night, in a field, she allowed anyone who + would to perform the sexual act, and 25 men and boys then had + intercourse with her. When seen she was much prostrated and with + a tendency to spasm, but quite rational. Subsequently she married + and attacks of this nature became rare. + + Mr. Lawson made an "attested statement" of what he had observed + among the Marquesan women. "He mentions one case in which he + heard a parcel of boys next morning count over and _name_ 103 men + who during the night had intercourse with _one_ woman." + (_Medico-Chirurgical Review_, 1871, vol. ii, p. 360, apparently + quoting Chevers.) This statement seems open to question, but, if + reliable, would furnish a case which must be unique. + +There is a further important difference, though intimately related to some +of the differences already mentioned, between the sexual impulse in women +and in men. In women it is at once larger and more diffused. As Sinibaldus +long ago said, the sexual pleasure of men is intensive, of women +extensive. In men the sexual impulse is, as it were, focused to a single +point. This is necessarily so, for the whole of the essentially necessary +part of the male in the process of human procreation is confined to the +ejaculation of semen into the vagina. But in women, mainly owing to the +fact that women are the child-bearers, in place of one primary sexual +center and one primary erogenous region, there are at least three such +sexual centers and erogenous regions: the clitoris (corresponding to the +penis), the vaginal passage up to the womb, and the nipple. In both sexes +there are other secondary and reflex centers, but there is good reason for +believing that these are more numerous and more widespread in women than +in men.[178] How numerous the secondary sexual centers in women may be is +indicated by the case of a woman mentioned by Moraglia, who boasted that +she knew fourteen different ways of masturbating herself. + +This great diffusion of the sexual impulse and emotions in women is as +visible on the psychic as on the physical side. A woman can find sexual +satisfaction in a great number of ways that do not include the sexual act +proper, and in a great number of ways that apparently are not physical at +all, simply because their physical basis is diffused or is to be found in +one of the outlying sexual zones. + +It is, moreover, owing to the diffused character of the sexual emotions in +women that it so often happens that emotion really having a sexual origin +is not recognized as such even by the woman herself. It is possible that +the great prevalence in women of the religious emotional state of "storm +and stress," noted by Professor Starbuck,[179] is largely due to +unemployed sexual impulse. In this and similar ways it happens that the +magnitude of the sexual sphere in woman is unrealized by the careless +observer. + + A number of converging facts tend to indicate that the sexual + sphere is larger, and more potent in its influence on the + organism, in women than in men. It would appear that among the + males and females of lower animals the same difference may be + found. It is stated that in birds there is a greater flow of + blood to the ovaries than to the testes. + + In women the system generally is more affected by disturbances in + the sexual sphere than in men. This appears to be the case as + regards the eye. "The influence of the sexual system upon the eye + in man," Power states, "is far less potent, and the connection, + in consequence, far less easy to trace than in woman." (H. Power, + "Relation of Ophthalmic Disease to the Sexual Organs," _Lancet_, + November 26, 1887.) + + The greater predominance of the sexual system in women on the + psychic side is clearly brought out in insane conditions. It is + well known that, while satyriasis is rare, nymphomania is + comparatively common. These conditions are probably often forms + of mania, and in mania, while sexual symptoms are common in men, + they are often stated to be the rule in women (see, e.g., + Krafft-Ebing, _Psychopathia Sexualis_, tenth edition, English + translation, p. 465). Bouchereau, in noting this difference in + the prevalence of sexual manifestations during insanity, remarks + that it is partly due to the naturally greater dependence of + women on the organs of generation, and partly to the more active, + independent, and laborious lives of men; in his opinion, + satyriasis is specially apt to develop in men who lead lives + resembling those of women. (Bouchereau, art. "Satyriasis," + _Dictionnaire Encyclopédique des Sciences Médicales_.) Again, + postconnubial insanity is very much commoner in women than in + men, a fact which may indicate the more predominant part played + by the sexual sphere in women. (Savage, art. "Marriage and + Insanity," _Dictionary of Psychological Medicine_.) + + Insanity tends to remove the artificial inhibitory influences + that rule in ordinary life, and there is therefore significance + in such a fact as that the sexual appetite is often increased in + general paralysis and to a notable extent in women. (Pactet and + Colin, _Les Aliénés devant la Justice_, 1902, p. 122.) + + Näcke, from his experiences among the insane, makes an + interesting and possibly sound distinction regarding the + character of the sexual manifestations in the two sexes. Among + men he finds these manifestations to be more of a reflex and + purely spinal nature and chiefly manifested in masturbation; in + women he finds them to be of a more cerebral character, and + chiefly manifested in erotic gestures, lascivious conversation, + etc. The sexual impulse would thus tend to involve to a greater + extent the higher psychic region in women than in men. + + Forel likewise (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, 1906, p. 276), remarking on + the much greater prevalence of erotic manifestations among insane + women than insane men (and pointing out that it is by no means + due merely to the presence of a male doctor, for it remains the + same when the doctor is a woman), considers that it proves that + in women the sexual impulse resides more prominently in the + higher nervous centers and in men in the lower centers. (As + regards the great prevalence of erotic manifestations among the + female insane, I may also refer to Claye Shaw's interesting + observations, "The Sexes in Lunacy," _St. Bartholomew's Hospital + Reports_, vol. xxiv, 1888; also quoted in Havelock Ellis, _Man + and Woman_, p. 370 et seq.) Whether or not we may accept Näcke's + and Forel's interpretation of the facts, which is at least + doubtful, there can be little doubt that the sexual impulse is + more fundamental in women. This is indicated by Näcke's + observation that among idiots sexual manifestations are commoner + in females than in males. Of 16 idiot girls, of the age of 16 and + under, 15 certainly masturbated, sometimes as often as fourteen + times a day, while the remaining girl probably masturbated; but + of 25 youthful male idiots only 1 played with his penis. (P. + Näcke, "Die Sexuellen Perversitäten in der Irrenanstalt," + _Psychiatrische Bladen_, 1899, No. 2, pp. 9, 12.) On the physical + side Bourneville and Sollier found (_Progrès médical_, 1888) that + puberty is much retarded in idiot and imbecile boys, while J. + Voisin (_Annales d'Hygiène Publique_, June, 1894) found that in + idiot and imbecile girls, on the contrary, there is no lack of + full sexual development or retardation of puberty, while + masturbation is common. In women, it may be added, as Ball + pointed out (_Folie érotique_, p. 40), sexual hallucinations are + especially common, while under the influence of anesthetics + erotic manifestations and feelings are frequent in women, but + rare in men. (Havelock Ellis, _Man and Woman_, p. 256.) + + The fact that the first coitus has a much more profound moral and + psychic influence on a woman than on a man would also seem to + indicate how much more fundamental the sexual region is in women. + The fact may be considered as undoubted. (It is referred to by + Marro, _La Pubertà_, p. 460.) The mere physical fact that, while + in men coitus remains a merely exterior contact, in women it + involves penetration into the sensitive and virginal interior of + the body would alone indicate this difference. + +We are told that in the East there was once a woman named Moârbeda who was +a philosopher and considered to be the wisest woman of her time. When +Moârbeda was once asked: "In what part of a woman's body does her mind +reside?" she replied: "Between her thighs." To many women,--perhaps, +indeed, we might even say to most women,--to a certain extent may be +applied--and in no offensive sense--the dictum of the wise woman of the +East; in a certain sense their brains are in their wombs. Their mental +activity may sometimes seem to be limited; they may appear to be passing +through life always in a rather inert or dreamy state; but, when their +sexual emotions are touched, then at once they spring into life; they +become alert, resourceful, courageous, indefatigable. "But when I am not +in love I am nothing!" exclaimed a woman when reproached by a French +magistrate for living with a thief. There are many women who could truly +make the same statement, not many men. That emotion, which, one is tempted +to say, often unmans the man, makes the woman for the first time truly +herself. + + "Women are more occupied with love than men," wrote De Sénancour + (_De l'Amour_, vol. ii, p. 59); "it shows itself in all their + movements, animates their looks, gives to their gestures a grace + that is always new, to their smiles and voices an inexpressible + charm; they live for love, while many men in obeying love feel + that they are forgetting themselves." + + Restif de la Bretonne (_Monsieur Nicolas_, vol. vi, p. 223) + quotes a young girl who well describes the difference which love + makes to a woman: "Before I vegetated; now all my actions have a + motive, an end; they have become important. When I wake my first + thought is 'Someone is occupied with me and desires me.' I am no + longer alone, as I was before; another feels my existence and + cherishes it," etc. + + "One is surprised to see in the south," remarks Bonstetten, in + his suggestive book, _L'Homme du Midi et l'Homme du Nord_ + (1824),--and the remark by no means applies only to the + south,--"how love imparts intelligence even to those who are most + deficient in ideas. An Italian woman in love is inexhaustible in + the variety of her feelings, all subordinated to the supreme + emotion which dominates her. Her ideas follow one another with + prodigious rapidity, and produce a lambent play which is fed by + her heart alone. If she ceases to love, her mind becomes merely + the scoria of the lava which yesterday had been so bright." + + Cabanis had already made some observations to much the same + effect. Referring to the years of nubility following puberty, he + remarks: "I have very often seen the greatest fecundity of ideas, + the most brilliant imagination, a singular aptitude for the arts, + suddenly develop in girls of this age, only to give place soon + afterward to the most absolute mental mediocrity." (Cabanis, "De + l'Influence des Sexes," etc., _Rapports du Physique et du Morale + de l'Homme_.) + +This phenomenon seems to be one of the indications of the immense organic +significance of the sexual relations. Woman's part in the world is less +obtrusively active than man's, but there is a moment when nature cannot +dispense with energy and mental vigor in women, and that is during the +reproductive period. The languidest woman must needs be alive when her +sexual emotions are profoundly stirred. People often marvel at the +infatuation which men display for women who, in the eyes of all the world, +seem commonplace and dull. This is not, as we usually suppose, always +entirely due to the proverbial blindness of love. For the man whom she +loves, such a woman is often alive and transformed. He sees a woman who is +hidden from all the world. He experiences something of that surprise and +awe which Dostoieffsky felt when the seemingly dull and brutish criminals +of Siberia suddenly exhibited gleams of exquisite sensibility. + +In women, it must further be said, the sexual impulse shows a much more +marked tendency to periodicity than in men; not only is it less apt to +appear spontaneously, but its spontaneous manifestations are in a very +pronounced manner correlated with menstruation. A woman who may experience +almost overmastering sexual desire just before, during, or after the +monthly period may remain perfectly calm and self-possessed during the +rest of the month. In men such irregularities of the sexual impulse are +far less marked. Thus it is that a woman may often appear capricious, +unaccountable, or cold, merely because her moments of strong emotion have +been physiologically confined within a limited period. She may be one day +capable of audacities of which on another the very memory might seem to +have left her. + +Not only is the intensity of the sexual impulse in women, as compared to +men, more liable to vary from day to day, or from week to week, but the +same greater variability is marked when we compare the whole cycle of life +in women to that of men. The stress of early womanhood, when the +reproductive functions are in fullest activity, and of late womanhood, +when they are ceasing, produces a profound organic fermentation, psychic +as much as physical, which is not paralleled in the lives of men. This +greater variability in the cycle of a woman's life as compared with a +man's is indicated very delicately and precisely by the varying incidence +of insanity, and is made clearly visible in a diagram prepared by Marro +showing the relative liability to mental diseases in the two sexes +according to age.[180] At the age of 20 the incidence of insanity in both +sexes is equal; from that age onward the curve in men proceeds in a +gradual and equable manner, with only the slightest oscillation, on to old +age. But in women the curve is extremely irregular; it remains high during +all the years from 20 to 30, instead of falling like the masculine curve; +then it falls rapidly to considerably below the masculine curve, rising +again considerably above the masculine level during the climacteric years +from 40 to 50, after which age the two sexes remain fairly close together +to the end of life. Thus, as measured by the test of insanity, the curve +of woman's life, in the sudden rise and sudden fall of its sexual crisis, +differs from the curve of man's life and closely resembles the minor curve +of her menstrual cycle. + +The general tendency of this difference in sexual life and impulse is to +show a greater range of variation in women than in men. Fairly uniform, on +the whole, in men generally and in the same man throughout mature life, +sexual impulse varies widely between woman and woman, and even in the same +woman at different periods. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[169] Ovid remarks (_Ars Amatoria_, bk. i) that, if men were silent, women +would take the active and suppliant part. + +[170] Ferrand, _De la Maladie d'Amour_, 1623, ch. ii. + +[171] Tarde, _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, May 15, 1897. Marro, +who quotes this observation (_Pubertà_, p. 467; in French edition, p. 61), +remarks that his own evidence lends some support to Lombroso's conclusion +that under ordinary circumstances woman's sensory acuteness is less than +that of man. He is, however, inclined to impute this to defective +attention; within the sexual sphere women's attention becomes +concentrated, and their sensory perceptions then go far beyond those of +men. There is probably considerable truth in this subtle observation. + +[172] A well-known gynecologist writes from America: "Abhorrence due to +suffering on first nights I have repeatedly seen. One very marked case is +that of a fine womanly young woman with splendid figure; she is a very +good woman, and admires her husband, but, though she tries to develop +desire and passion, she cannot succeed. I fear the man will some day +appear who will be able to develop the latent feelings." + +[173] It is curious that, while the sexual impulse in women tends to +develop at a late age more frequently than in men, it would also appear to +develop more frequently at a very early age than in the other sex. The +majority of cases of precocious sexual development seems to be in female +children. W. Roger Williams ("Precocious Sexual Development," _British +Gynæcological Journal_, May, 1902) finds that 80 such cases have been +recorded in females and only 20 in males, and, while 13 is the earliest +age at which boys have proved virile, girls have been known to conceive at +8. + +[174] I find the same remark made by Plazzonus in the seventeenth century. + +[175] Art. "Fécondation," _Dictionnaire Encyclopédique des Sciences +Médicales_. + +[176] This also is an ancient remark, for in the early treatise _De +Secretis Mulierum_, once attributed to Michael Scot, it is stated, +concerning the woman who finds pleasure in coitus, "cantat libenter." + +[177] It is scarcely necessary to add that prostitutes can furnish little +evidence one way or the other. Not only may prostitutes refuse to +participate in the sexual orgasm, but the evils of a prostitute's life are +obviously connected with causes quite other than mere excess of sexual +gratification. + +[178] This is, for instance, indicated by the experiments of Gualino +concerning the sexual sensitiveness of the lips (_Archivio di +Psichiatria_, 1904, fasc. 3). He found that mechanical irritation applied +to the lips produced more or less sexual feeling in 12 out of 20 women, +but in only 10 out of 25 men, i.e., in three-fifths of the women and +two-fifths of the men. + +[179] "Adolescence is for women primarily a period of storm and stress, +while for men it is in the highest sense a period of doubt," (Starbuck, +_Psychology of Religion_, p. 241.) It is interesting to note that in the +religious sphere, also, the emotions of women are more diffused than those +of men; Starbuck confirms the conclusion of Professor Coe that, while +women have at least as much religious emotion as men, in them it is more +all pervasive, and they experience fewer struggles and acute crises. +(Ibid., p. 80.) + +[180] Marro, _La Pubertà_, p. 233. This table covers all those cases, +nearly 3000, of patients entering the Turin asylum, from 1886 to 1895, in +which the age of the first appearance of insanity was known. + + + + +III. + +Summary of Conclusions. + + +In conclusion it may be worth while to sum up the main points brought out +in this brief discussion of a very large question. We have seen that there +are two streams of opinion regarding the relative strength of the sexual +impulse in men and women: one tending to regard it as greater in men, the +other as greater in women. We have concluded that, since a large body of +facts may be brought forward to support either view, we may fairly hold +that, roughly speaking, the distribution of the sexual impulse between the +two sexes is fairly balanced. + +We have, however, further seen that the phenomena are in reality too +complex to be settled by the usual crude method of attempting to discover +quantitative differences in the sexual impulse. We more nearly get to the +bottom of the question by a more analytic method, breaking up our mass of +facts into groups. In this way we find that there are certain well-marked +characteristics by which the sexual impulse in women differs from the same +impulse in men: 1. It shows greater apparent passivity. 2. It is more +complex, less apt to appear spontaneously, and more often needing to be +aroused, while the sexual orgasm develops more slowly than in men. 3. It +tends to become stronger after sexual relationships are established. 4. +The threshold of excess is less easily reached than in men. 5. The sexual +sphere is larger and more diffused. 6. There is a more marked tendency to +periodicity in the spontaneous manifestations of sexual desire. 7. Largely +as a result of these characteristics, the sexual impulse shows a greater +range of variation in women than in men, both as between woman and woman +and in the same woman at different periods. + +It may be added that a proper understanding of these sexual differences in +men and women is of great importance, both in the practical management of +sexual hygiene and in the comprehension of those wider psychological +characteristics by which women differ from men. + + + + +APPENDICES. + + +APPENDIX A. + +THE SEXUAL INSTINCT IN SAVAGES. + +I. + + +In the eighteenth century, when savage tribes in various parts of the +world first began to be visited, extravagantly romantic views widely +prevailed as to the simple and idyllic lives led by primitive peoples. +During the greater part of the nineteenth century the tendency of opinion +was to the opposite extreme, and it became usual to insist on the degraded +and licentious morals of savages.[181] + +In reality, however, savage life is just as little a prolonged debauch as +a prolonged idyll. The inquiries of such writers as Westermarck, Frazer, +and Crawley are tending to introduce a sounder conception of the actual, +often highly complex, conditions of primitive life in its relations to the +sexual instinct. + +At the same time it is not difficult to account for the belief, widely +spread during the nineteenth century, in the unbridled licentiousness of +savages. In the first place, the doctrine of evolution inevitably created +a prejudice in favor of such a view. It was assumed that modesty, +chastity, and restraint were the finest and ultimate flowers of moral +development; therefore at the beginnings of civilization we must needs +expect to find the opposite of these things. Apart, however, from any mere +prejudice of this kind, a superficial observation of the actual facts +necessarily led to much misunderstanding. Just as the nakedness of many +savage peoples led to the belief that they were lacking in modesty, +although, as a matter of fact, modesty is more highly developed in savage +life than in civilization,[182] so the absence of our European rules of +sexual behavior among savages led to the conclusion that they were +abandoned to debauchery. The widespread custom of lending the wife under +certain circumstances was especially regarded as indicating gross +licentiousness. Moreover, even when intercourse was found to be free +before marriage, scarcely any investigator sought to ascertain what amount +of sexual intercourse this freedom involved. It was not clearly understood +that such freedom must by no means be necessarily assumed to involve very +frequent intercourse. Again, it often happened that no clear distinction +was made between peoples contaminated by association with civilization, +and peoples not so contaminated. For instance, when prostitution is +attributed to a savage people we must usually suppose either that a +mistake has been made or that the people in question have been degraded by +intercourse with white peoples, for among unspoilt savages customs that +can properly be called prostitution rarely prevail. Nor, indeed, would +they be in harmony with the conditions of primitive life. + +It has been seriously maintained that the chastity of savages, so far as +it exists at all, is due to European civilization. It is doubtless true +that this is the case with individual persons and tribes, but there is +ample evidence from various parts of the world to show that this is by no +means the rule. And, indeed, it may be said--with no disregard of the +energy and sincerity of missionary efforts--that it could not be so. A new +system of beliefs and practices, however excellent it may be in itself, +can never possess the same stringent and unquestionable force as the +system in which an individual and his ancestors have always lived, and +which they have never doubted the validity of. That this is so we may have +occasion to observe among ourselves. Christian teachers question the +wisdom of bringing young people under free-thinking influence, because, +although they do not deny the morals of free-thinkers, they believe that +to unsettle the young may have a disastrous effect, not only on belief, +but also on conduct. Yet this dangerously unsettling process has been +applied by missionaries on a wholesale scale to races which in some +respect are often little more than children. When, therefore, we are +considering the chastity of savages we must not take into account those +peoples which have been brought into close contact with Europeans. + +In order to understand the sexual habits of savages generally there are +two points which always have to be borne in mind as of the first +importance: (1) the checks restraining sexual intercourse among savages, +especially as regards time and season, are so numerous, and the sanctions +upholding those checks so stringent, that sexual excess cannot prevail to +the same extent as in civilization; (2) even in the absence of such +checks, that difficulty of obtaining sexual erethism which has been noted +as so common among savages, when not overcome by the stimulating +influences prevailing at special times and seasons, and which is probably +in large measure dependent on hard condition of life as well as an +insensitive quality of nervous texture, still remains an important factor, +tending to produce a natural chastity. There is a third consideration +which, though from the present point of view subsidiary, is not without +bearing on our conception of chastity among savages: the importance, even +sacredness, of procreation is much more generally recognized by savage +than by civilized peoples, and also a certain symbolic significance is +frequently attached to human procreation as related to natural +fruitfulness generally; so that a primitive sexual orgy, instead of being +a mere manifestation of licentiousness, may have a ritual significance, as +a magical means of evoking the fruitfulness of fields and herds.[183] + +When a savage practises extraconjugal sexual intercourse, the act is +frequently not, as it has come to be conventionally regarded in +civilization, an immorality or at least an illegitimate indulgence; it is +a useful and entirely justifiable act, producing definite benefits, +conducing alike to cosmic order and social order, although these benefits +are not always such as we in civilization believe to be caused by the act. +Thus, speaking of the northern tribes of central Australia, Spencer and +Gillen remark: "It is very usual amongst all of the tribes to allow +considerable license during the performance of certain of their ceremonies +when a large number of natives, some of them coming often from distant +parts, are gathered together--in fact, on such occasions all of the +ordinary marital rules seem to be more or less set aside for the time +being. Each day, in some tribes, one or more women are told off whose duty +it is to attend at the corrobboree grounds,--sometimes only during the +day, sometimes at night,--and all of the men, except those who are +fathers, elder and younger brothers, and sons, have access to them.... The +idea is that the sexual intercourse assists in some way in the proper +performance of the ceremony, causing everything to work smoothly and +preventing the decorations from falling off."[184] + +It is largely this sacred character of sexual intercourse--the fact that +it is among the things that are at once "divine" and "impure," these two +conceptions not being differentiated in primitive thought--which leads to +the frequency with which in savage life a taboo is put upon its exercise. +Robertson Smith added an appendix to his _Religion of the Semites_ on +"Taboo on the Intercourse of the Sexes."[185] Westermarck brought together +evidence showing the frequency with which this and allied causes tended to +the chastity of savages.[186] Frazer has very luminously expounded the +whole primitive conception of sexual intercourse, and showed how it +affected chastity.[187] Warriors must often be chaste; the men who go on +any hunting or other expedition require to be chaste to be successful; the +women left behind must be strictly chaste; sometimes even the whole of the +people left behind, and for long periods, must be chaste in order to +insure the success of the expedition. Hubert and Maus touched on the same +point in their elaborate essay on sacrifice, pointing out how frequently +sexual relationships are prohibited on the occasion of any ceremony +whatever.[188] Crawley, in elaborating the primitive conception of taboo, +has dealt fully with ritual and traditional influences making for chastity +among savages. He brings forward, for instance, a number of cases, from +various parts of the world, in which intercourse has to be delayed for +days, weeks, even months, after marriage. He considers that the sexual +continence prevalent among savages is largely due to a belief in the +enervating effects of coitus; so dangerous are the sexes to each other +that, as he points out, even now sexual separation of the sexes commonly +occurs.[189] + +There are thus a great number of constantly recurring occasions in savage +life when continence must be preserved, and when, it is firmly believed, +terrible risks would be incurred by its violation--during war, after +victory, after festivals, during mourning, on journeys, in hunting and +fishing, in a vast number of agricultural and industrial occupations. + +It might fairly be argued that the facility with which the savage places +these checks on sexual intercourse itself bears witness to the weakness of +the sexual impulse. Evidence of another order which seems to point to the +undeveloped state of the sexual impulse among savages may be found in the +comparatively undeveloped condition of their sexual organs, a condition +not, indeed, by any means constant, but very frequently noted. As regards +women, it has in many parts of the world been observed to be the rule, and +the data which Ploss and Bartels have accumulated seem to me, on the +whole, to point clearly in this direction.[190] + +At another point, also, it may be remarked, the repulsion between the +sexes and the restraints on intercourse may be associated with weak sexual +impulse. It is not improbable that a certain horror of the sexual organs +may be a natural feeling which is extinguished in the intoxication of +desire, yet still has a physiological basis which renders the sexual +organs--disguised and minimized by convention and by artistic +representation--more or less disgusting in the absence of erotic +emotion.[191] And this is probably more marked in cases in which the +sexual instinct is constitutionally feeble. A lady who had no marked +sexual desires, and who considered it well bred to be indifferent to such +matters, on inspecting her sexual parts in a mirror for the first time in +her life was shocked and disgusted at the sight. Certainly many women +could record a similar experience on being first approached by a man, +although artistic conventions present the male form with greater truth +than the female. Moreover,--and here is the significant point,--this +feeling is by no means restricted to the refined and cultured. "When +working at Michelangelo," wrote a correspondent from Italy, "my upper +gondolier used to see photographs and statuettes of all that man's works. +Stopping one day before the Night and Dawn of S. Lorenzo, sprawling naked +women, he exclaimed: 'How hideous they are!' I pressed him to explain +himself. He went on: 'The ugliest man naked is handsomer than the finest +woman naked. Women have crooked legs, and their sexual organs stink. I +only once saw a naked woman. It was in a brothel, when I was 18. The sight +of her "natura" made me go out and vomit into the canal. You know I have +been twice married, but I never saw either of my wives without clothing.' +Of very rank cheese he said one day: 'Puzza come la natura d'una donna.'" +This man, my correspondent added, was entirely normal and robust, but +seemed to regard sexual congress as a mere evacuation, the sexual instinct +apparently not being strong. + +It seems possible that, if the sexual impulse had no existence, all men +would regard women with this _horror feminæ_. As things are, however, at +all events in civilization, sexual emotions begin to develop even earlier, +usually, than acquaintance with the organs of the other sex begins; so +that this disgust is inhibited. If, however, among savages the sexual +impulse is habitually weak, and only aroused to strength under the impetus +of powerful stimuli, often acting periodically, then we should expect the +_horror_ to be a factor of considerable importance. + +The weakness of the physical sexual impulse among savages is reflected in +the psychic sphere. Many writers have pointed out that love plays but a +small part in their lives. They practise few endearments; they often only +kiss children (Westermarck notes that sexual love is far less strong than +parental love); love-poems are among some primitive peoples few (mostly +originating with the women), and their literature often gives little or no +attention to passion.[192] Affection and devotion are, however, often +strong, especially in savage women. + +It is not surprising that jealousy should often, though not by any means +invariably, be absent, both among men and among women. Among savages this +is doubtless a proof of the weakness of the sexual impulse. Spencer and +Gillen note the comparative absence of jealousy in men among the Central +Australian tribes they studied.[193] Negresses, it is said by a French +army surgeon in his _Untrodden Fields of Anthropology_, do not know what +jealousy is, and the first wife will even borrow money to buy the second +wife. Among a much higher race, the women in a Korean household, it is +said, live together happily, as an almost invariable rule, though it +appears that this was not always the case among a polygamous people of +European race, the Mormons. + +The tendency of the sexual instinct in savages to periodicity, to seasonal +manifestations, I do not discuss here, as I have dealt with it in the +first volume of these _Studies_.[194] It has, however, a very important +bearing on this subject. Periodicity of sexual manifestations is, indeed, +less absolute in primitive man than in most animals, but it is still very +often quite clearly marked. It is largely the occurrence of these violent +occasional outbursts of the sexual instinct--during which the organic +impulse to tumescence becomes so powerful that external stimuli are no +longer necessary--that has led to the belief in the peculiar strength of +the impulse in savages.[195] + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[181] Thus, Lubbock (Lord Avebury), in the _Origin of Civilization_, fifth +edition, 1889, brings forward a number of references in evidence of this +belief. More recently Finck, in his _Primitive Love and Love-stories_, +1899, seeks to accumulate data in favor of the unbounded licentiousness of +savages. He admits, however, that a view of the matter opposed to his own +is now tending to prevail. + +[182] See "The Evolution of Modesty" in the first volume of these +_Studies_. + +[183] The sacredness of sexual relations often applies also to individual +marriage. Thus, Skeat, in his _Malay Magic_, shows that the bride and +bridegroom are definitely recognized as sacred, in the same sense that the +king is, and in Malay States the king is a very sacred person. See also, +concerning the sacred character of coitus, whether individual or +collective, A. Van Gennep, _Rites de Passage, passim_. + +[184] Spencer and Gillen, _Northern Tribes of Central Australia_, p. 136. + +[185] _Religion of the Semites_, second edition, 1894, p. 454 _et seq._ + +[186] _History of Marriage_, pp. 66-70, 150-156, etc. + +[187] _Golden Bough_, third edition, part ii, _Taboo and the Perils of the +Soul_. Frazer has discussed taboo generally. For a shorter account of +taboo, see art. "Taboo" by Northcote Thomas in _Encyclopædia Britannica_, +eleventh edition, 1911. Freud has lately (_Imago_, 1912) made an attempt +to explain the origin of taboo psychologically by comparing it to neurotic +obsessions. Taboo, Freud believes, has its origin in a forbidden act to +perform which there is a strong unconscious tendency; an ambivalent +attitude, that is, combining the opposite tendencies, is thus established. +In this way Freud would account for the fact that tabooed persons and +things are both sacred and unclean. + +[188] "Essai sur le Sacrifice," _L'Année Sociologique_, 1899, pp. 50-51. + +[189] _The Mystic Rose_, 1902, p. 187 et seq., 215 et seq., 342 et seq. + +[190] _Das Weib_, vol. i, section 6. + +[191] This statement has been questioned. It should, however, be fairly +evident that the sexual organs in either sex, when closely examined, can +scarcely be regarded as beautiful except in the eyes of a person of the +opposite sex who is in a condition of sexual excitement, and they are not +always attractive even then. Moreover, it must be remembered that the +snake-like aptitude of the penis to enter into a state of erection apart +from the control of the will puts it in a different category from any +other organ of the body, and could not fail to attract the attention of +primitive peoples so easily alarmed by unusual manifestations. We find +even in the early ages of Christianity that St. Augustine attached immense +importance to this alarming aptitude of the penis as a sign of man's +sinful and degenerate state. + +[192] Lubbock, _Origin of Civilization_, fifth edition, pp. 69, 73; +Westermarck, _History of Marriage_, p. 357; Grosse, _Anfänge der Kunst_, +p. 236; Herbert Spencer, "Origin of Music," _Mind_, Oct., 1890. + +[193] Spencer and Gillen, _Native Tribes of Central Australia_, p. 99; cf. +Finck, _Primitive Love and Love-stories_, p. 89 et seq. + +[194] "The Phenomena of Sexual Periodicity." The subject has also been +more recently discussed by Walter Heape, "The 'Sexual Season' of Mammals," +_Quarterly Journal of Microscopical Science_, vol. xliv, 1900. See also +F.H.A. Marshall, _The Physiology of Reproduction_, 1910. + +[195] This view finds a belated supporter in Max Marcuse +("Geschlechtstrieb des Urmenschens," _Sexual-Probleme_, Oct., 1909), who, +on grounds which I cannot regard as sound, seeks to maintain the belief +that the sexual instinct is more highly developed among savage than among +civilized peoples. + + + + +II. + + +The facts thus seem to indicate that among primitive peoples, while the +magical, ceremonial, and traditional restraints on sexual intercourse are +very numerous, very widespread, and nearly always very stringent, there +is, underlying this prevalence of restraints on intercourse, a fundamental +weakness of the sexual instinct, which craves less, and craves less +frequently, than is the case among civilized peoples, but is liable to be +powerfully manifested at special seasons. It is perfectly true that among +savages, as Sutherland states, "there is no ideal which makes chastity a +thing beautiful in itself"; but when the same writer goes on to state that +"it is untrue that in sexual license the savage has everything to learn," +we must demand greater precision of statement.[196] Travelers, and too +often would-be scientific writers, have been so much impressed by the +absence among savages of the civilized ideal of chastity, and by the +frequent freedom of sexual intercourse, that they have not paused to +inquire more carefully into the phenomena, or to put themselves at the +primitive point of view, but have assumed that freedom here means all that +it would mean in a European population. + +In order to illustrate the actual circumstances of savage life in this +respect from the scanty evidence furnished by the most careful observers, +I have brought together from scattered sources a few statements concerning +primitive peoples in very various parts of the world.[197] + +Among the Andamanese, Portman, who knows them well, says that sexual +desire is very moderate; in males it appears at the age of 18, but, as +"their love for sport is greater than their passions, these are not +gratified to any great extent till after marriage, which rarely takes +place till a man is about 26."[198] + +Although chastity is not esteemed by the Fuegians, and virginity is lost +at a very early age, yet both men and women are extremely moderate in +sexual indulgence.[199] + +Among the Eskimo at the other end of the American continent, according to +Dr. F. Cook, the sexual passions are suppressed during the long darkness +of winter, as also is the menstrual function usually, and the majority of +the children are born nine months after the appearance of the sun.[200] + +Among the Indians of North America it is the custom of many tribes to +refrain from sexual intercourse during the whole period of lactation, as +also D'Orbigny found to be the case among South American Indians, although +suckling went on for over three years.[201] Many of the Indian tribes have +now been rendered licentious by contact with civilization. In the +primitive condition their customs were entirely different. Dr. Holder, who +knows many tribes of North American Indians well, has dealt in some detail +with this point. "Several of the virtues," he states, "and among them +chastity, were more faithfully practised by the Indian race before the +invasion from the East than these same virtues are practised by the white +race of the present day.... The race is less salacious than either the +negro or white race.... That the women of some tribes are now more careful +of their virtue than the women of any other community whose history I +know, I am fully convinced."[202] It is not only on the women that sexual +abstinence is imposed. Among some branches of the Salish Indians of +British Columbia a young widower must refrain from sexual intercourse for +a year, and sometimes lives entirely apart during that period.[203] + +In many parts of Polynesia, although the sexual impulse seems often to +have been highly developed before the arrival of Europeans, it is very +doubtful whether license, in the European sense, at all generally +prevailed. The Marquesans, who have sometimes been regarded as peculiarly +licentious, are especially mentioned by Foley as illustrating his +statement that sexual erethism is with difficulty attained by primitive +peoples except during sexual seasons.[204] Herman Melville's detailed +account in _Typee_ of the Marquesans (somewhat idealized, no doubt) +reveals nothing that can fairly be called licentiousness. At Rotuma, J. +Stanley Gardiner remarks, before the missionaries came sexual intercourse +before marriage was free, but gross immorality and prostitution and +adultery were unknown. Matters are much worse now.[205] The Maoris of New +Zealand, in the old days, according to one who had lived among them, were +more chaste than the English, and, though a chief might lend his wife to a +friend as an honor, it would be very difficult to take her (_private +communication_).[206] Captain Cook also represented these people as modest +and virtuous. + +Among the Papuans of New Guinea and Torres Straits, although intercourse +before marriage is free, it is by no means unbridled, nor is it carried to +excess. There are many circumstances restraining intercourse. Thus, +unmarried men must not indulge in it during October and November at Torres +Straits. It is the general rule also that there should be no sexual +intercourse during pregnancy, while a child is being suckled (which goes +on for three or four years), or even until it can speak or walk.[207] In +Astrolabe Bay, New Guinea, according to Vahness, a young couple must +abstain from intercourse for several weeks after marriage, and to break +this rule would be disgraceful.[208] + +As regards Australia, Brough Smyth wrote: "Promiscuous intercourse between +the sexes is not practised by the aborigines, and their laws on the +subject, particularly those of New South Wales, are very strict. When at +camp all the young unmarried men are stationed by themselves at the +extreme end, while the married men, each with his family, occupy the +center. No conversation is allowed between the single men and the girls or +the married women. Infractions of these laws were visited by punishment; +... five or six warriors threw from a comparatively short distance several +spears at him [the offender]. The man was often severely wounded and +sometimes killed."[209] This author mentions that a black woman has been +known to kill a white man who attempted to have intercourse with her by +force. Yet both sexes have occasional sexual intercourse from an early +age. After marriage, in various parts of Australia, there are numerous +restraints on intercourse, which is forbidden not merely during +menstruation, but during the latter part of pregnancy and for one moon +after childbirth.[210] + +Concerning the people of the Malay Peninsula, Hrolf Vaughan Stevens +states: "The sexual impulse among the Belendas is only developed to a +slight extent; they are not sensual, and the husband has intercourse with +his wife not oftener than three times a month. The women also are not +ardent.... The Orang Lâut are more sensual than the Dyaks, who are, +however, more given to obscene jokes than their neighbors.... With the +Belendas there is little or no love-play in sexual relations".[211] Skeat +tells us also that among Malays in war-time strict chastity must be +observed in a stockade, or the bullets of the garrison will lose their +power.[212] + +It is a common notion that the negro and negroid races of Africa are +peculiarly prone to sexual indulgence. This notion is not supported by +those who have had the most intimate knowledge of these peoples. It +probably gained currency in part owing to the open and expansive +temperament of the negro, and in part owing to the extremely sexual +character of many African orgies and festivals, though those might quite +as legitimately be taken as evidence of difficulty in attaining sexual +erethism. + +A French army surgeon, speaking from knowledge of the black races in +various French colonies, states in his _Untrodden Fields of Anthropology_ +that it is a mistake to imagine that the negress is very amorous. She is +rather cold, and indifferent to the refinements of love, in which respects +she is very unlike the mulatto. The white man is usually powerless to +excite her, partly from his small penis, partly from his rapidity of +emission; the black man, on account of his blunter nervous system, takes +three times as long to reach emission as the white man. Among the +Mohammedan peoples of West Africa, Daniell remarks, as well as in central +and northern Africa, it is usual to suckle a child for two or more years. +From the time when pregnancy becomes apparent to the end of weaning no +intercourse takes place. It is believed that this would greatly endanger +the infant, if not destroy it. This means that for every child the woman, +at all events, must remain continent for about three years.[213] Sir H.H. +Johnston, writing concerning the peoples of central Africa, remarks that +the man also must remain chaste during these periods. Thus, among the +Atonga the wife leaves her husband at the sixth month of pregnancy, and +does not resume relations with him until five or six months after the +birth of the child. If, in the interval, he has relations with any other +woman, it is believed his wife will certainly die. "The negro is very +rarely vicious," Johnston says, "after he has attained to the age of +puberty. He is only more or less uxorious. The children are vicious, as +they are among most races of mankind, the boys outrageously so. As regards +the little girls over nearly the whole of British Central Africa, chastity +before puberty is an unknown condition, except perhaps among the A-nyanja. +Before a girl is become a woman it is a matter of absolute indifference +what she does, and scarcely any girl remains a virgin after about 5 years +of age."[214] Among the Bangala of the upper Congo a woman suckles her +child for six to eighteen months and during all this period the husband +has no intercourse with his wife, for that, it is believed, would kill the +child.[215] + +Among the Yoruba-speaking people of West Africa A.B. Ellis mentions that +suckling lasts for three years, during the whole of which period the wife +must not cohabit with her husband.[216] + +Although chastity before marriage appears to be, as a rule, little +regarded in Africa, this is not always so. In some parts of West Africa, a +girl, at all events if of high birth, when found guilty of unchastity may +be punished by the insertion into her vagina of bird pepper, a kind of +capsicum, beaten into a mass; this produces intense pain and such acute +inflammation that the canal may even be obliterated.[217] + +Among the Dahomey women there is no coitus during pregnancy nor during +suckling, which lasts for nearly three years. The same is true among the +Jekris and other tribes on the Niger, where it is believed that the milk +would suffer if intercourse took place during lactation.[218] + +In another part of Africa, among the Suaheli, even after marriage only +incomplete coitus is at first allowed and there is no intercourse for a +year after the child's birth.[219] + +Farther south, among the Ba Wenda of north Transvaal, says the Rev. R. +Wessmann, although the young men are permitted to "play" with the young +girls before marriage, no sexual intercourse is allowed. If it is seen +that a girl's labia are apart when she sits down on a stone, she is +scolded, or even punished, as guilty of having had intercourse.[220] + +Among the higher races in India the sexual instinct is very developed, and +sexual intercourse has been cultivated as an art, perhaps more elaborately +than anywhere else. Here, however, we are far removed from primitive +conditions and among a people closely allied to the Europeans. Farther to +the east, as among the Cambodians, strict chastity seems to prevail, and +if we cross the Himalayas to the north we find ourselves among wild people +to whom sexual license is unknown. Thus, among the Turcomans, even a few +days after the marriage has been celebrated, the young couple are +separated for an entire year.[221] + +All the great organized religions have seized on this value of sexual +abstinence, already consecrated by primitive magic and religion, and +embodied it in their system. It was so in ancient Egypt. Thus, according +to Diodorus, on the death of a king, the entire population of Egypt +abstained from sexual intercourse for seventy-two days. The Persians, +again, attached great value to sexual as to all other kinds of purity. +Even involuntary seminal emissions were severely punishable. To lie with a +menstruating woman, according to the _Vendidad_, was as serious a matter +as to pollute holy fire, and to lie with a pregnant woman was to incur a +penalty of 2000 strokes. Among the modern Parsees a man must not lie with +his wife after she is four months and ten days pregnant. Mohammedanism +cannot be described as an ascetic religion, yet long and frequent periods +of sexual abstinence are enjoined. There must be no sexual intercourse +during the whole of pregnancy, during suckling, during menstruation (and +for eight days before and after), nor during the thirty days of the +Ramedan fast. Other times of sexual abstinence are also prescribed; thus +among the Mohammedan Yezidis of Mardin in northern Mesopotamia there must +be no sexual intercourse on Wednesdays or Fridays.[222] + +In the early Christian Church many rules of sexual abstinence still +prevailed, similar to those usual among savages, though not for such +prolonged periods. In Egbert's Penitential, belonging to the ninth +century, it is stated that a woman must abstain from intercourse with her +husband three months after conception and for forty days after birth. +There were a number of other occasions, including Lent, when a husband +must not know his wife.[223] "Some canonists say," remarks Jeremy Taylor, +"that the Church forbids a mutual congression of married pairs upon +festival days.... The Council of Eliberis commanded abstinence from +conjugal rights for three or four or seven days before the communion. Pope +Liberius commanded the same during the whole time of Lent, supposing the +fast is polluted by such congressions."[224] + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[196] A. Sutherland, _Origin and Growth of the Moral Instinct_, vol. i, +pp. 8, 187. As has been shown by, for instance, Dr. Iwan Bloch (_Beiträge +zur Ætiologie der Psychopathia Sexualis_, Erster Theil, 1902), every +perverse sexual practice may be found, somewhere or other, among savages +or barbarians; but, as the same writer acutely points out (p. 58), these +devices bear witness to the need of overcoming frigidity rather than to +the strength of the sexual impulse. + +[197] Ploss and Bartels have brought together in _Das Weib_ a large number +of facts in the same sense, more especially under the headings of +_Abstinenz-Vorschriften_ and _Die Fernhaltung der Schwangeren_. I have not +drawn upon their collection. + +[198] _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, May, 1896, p. 369. + +[199] Hyades and Deniker, _Mission Scientifique du Cap Horn_, vol. vii, p. +188. + +[200] F. Cook, _New York Journal of Gynecology and Obstetrics_, 1894. + +[201] A. d'Orbigny, _L'Homme Américain_, 1839, vol. i, p. 47. + +[202] A.B. Holder, "Gynecic Notes Among the American Indians," _American +Journal of Obstetrics_, 1892, vol. xxvi, No. 1. + +[203] _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, 1905, p. 139. + +[204] Foley, _Bulletin de la Société d' Anthropologie_, Paris, November 6, +1879. + +[205] J.S. Gardiner, _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, February, +1898, p. 409. + +[206] As regards the modern Maoris, a medical correspondent in New Zealand +writes: "It is nothing for members of both sexes to live in the same room, +and for promiscuous intercourse to take place between father and daughter +or brother and sister. Maori women, who will display a great deal of +modesty when in the presence of male Maoris, will openly ask strange +Europeans to have sexual intercourse with them, and without any desire for +reward. The men, however, seem to prefer their own women, and even when +staying in towns, where they can obtain prostitutes, they will remain +continent until they return home again, a period of perhaps a month." + +[207] Schellong, _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1889, i, pp. 17, 19; +Haddon, _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, February, 1890, pp. +316, 397; Guise, ib., February and May, 1899, p. 207; Seligmann, ib., +1902, pp. 298, 301-302; _Reports Cambridge Expedition_, vol. v, pp. +199-200, 275. + +[208] _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1900, ht. v, p. 414. + +[209] R. Brough Smyth, _The Aborigines of Victoria_, vol. ii, p. 318. + +[210] _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, 1894, pp. 170, 177, 187. + +[211] _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1896, iv, pp. 180-181. + +[212] W.W. Skeat, _Malay Magic_, p. 524. + +[213] W.F. Daniell, _Medical Topography of Gulf of Guinea_, 1849, p. 55. + +[214] Sir H.H. Johnston, _British Central Africa_, 1899, pp. 409, 414. + +[215] Rev. J.H. Weeks, _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, 1910, +p. 418. + +[216] Sir A.B. Ellis, _Yoruba-Speaking Peoples_, p. 185. + +[217] W.F. Daniell, op. cit., p. 36. + +[218] _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, August and November, +1898, p. 106. + +[219] _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1899, ii and iii, p. 84; Velten, +_Sitten und Gebraüche der Suaheli_, p. 12. + +[220] _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1896, p. 364. + +[221] Vambery, _Travels in Central Asia_, 1864, p. 323. + +[222] Heard, _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, Jan.-June, 1911, +p. 210. The same rule is also observed by the Christians of this district. + +[223] Haddon and Stubbs, _Councils and Ecclesiastical Documents_, vol. +iii, p. 423. + +[224] Jeremy Taylor, _The Rule of Conscience_, bk. iii, ch. iv, rule xx. + + + + +III. + + +Thus it would seem probable that, contrary to a belief once widely +prevalent, the sexual instinct has increased rather than diminished with +the growth of civilization. This fact was clear to the insight of +Lucretius, though it has often been lost sight of since.[225] Yet even +observation of animals might have suggested the real bearing of the facts. +The higher breeds of cattle, it is said, require the male more often than +the inferior breeds.[226] Thorough-bred horses soon reach sexual maturity, +and I understand that since pains have been taken to improve cart-horses +the sexual instincts of the mares have become less trustworthy. There is +certainly no doubt that in our domestic animals generally, which live +under what may be called civilized conditions, the sexual system and the +sexual needs are more developed than in the wild species most closely +related to them.[227] All observers seem to agree on this point, and it is +sufficient to refer to the excellent summary of the question furnished by +Heape in the study of "The 'Sexual Season' of Mammals," to which reference +has already been made. He remarks, moreover, that, "while the sexual +activity of domestic animals and of wild animals in captivity may be more +frequently exhibited, it is not so violent as is shown by animals in the +wild state."[228] So that, it would seem, the greater periodicity of the +instinct in the wild state, alike in animals and in man, is associated +with greater violence of the manifestations when they do appear. Certain +rodents, such as the rat and the mouse, are well known to possess both +great reproductive power and marked sexual proclivities. Heape suggests +that this also is "due to the advantages derived from their intimate +relations with the luxuries of civilization." Heape recognizes that, as +regards reproductive power, the same development may be traced in man: "It +would seem highly probable that the reproductive power of man has +increased with civilization, precisely as it may be increased in the lower +animals by domestication; that the effect of a regular supply of good +food, together with all the other stimulating factors available and +exercised in modern civilized communities, has resulted in such great +activity of the generative organs, and so great an increase in the supply +of the reproductive elements, that conception in the healthy human female +may be said to be possible almost at any time during the reproductive +period." + +"People of sense and reflection are most apt to have violent and constant +passions," wrote Mary Wollstonecraft, "and to be preyed on by them."[229] +It is that fact which leads to the greater importance of sexual phenomena +among the civilized as compared to savages. The conditions of civilization +increase the sexual instinct, which consequently tends to be more +intimately connected with moral feelings. Morality is bound up with the +development of the sexual instinct. The more casual and periodic character +of the impulse in animals, since it involves greater sexual indifference, +tends to favor a loose tie between the sexes, and hence is not favorable +to the development of morals as we understand morals. In man the +ever-present impulse of sex, idealizing each sex to the other sex, draws +men and women together and holds them together. Foolish and ignorant +persons may deplore the full development which the sexual instinct has +reached in civilized man; to a finer insight that development is seen to +be indissolubly linked with all that is most poignant and most difficult, +indeed, but also all that is best, in human life as we know it. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[225] _De Rerum Naturâ_, v, 1016. + +[226] Raciborski (_Traité de la Menstruation_, p. 43) quotes the +observation of an experienced breeder of choice cattle to this effect. + +[227] "The organs which in the feral state," as Adlerz remarks +(_Biologisches Centralblatt_, No. 4, 1902; quoted in _Science_, May 16, +1902), "are continually exercised in a severe struggle for existence, do +not under domestication compete so closely with one another for the less +needed nutriment. Hence, organs like the reproductive glands, which are +not so directly implicated in self-preservation, are able to avail +themselves of more food." + +[228] _Quarterly Journal of Microscopical Science_, vol. xliv, 1900, p. +12, 31, 39. + +[229] "Love," in _Thoughts on the Education of Daughters_. + + + + +APPENDIX B. + +THE DEVELOPMENT OF THE SEXUAL INSTINCT. + + +It is a very remarkable fact that, although for many years past serious +attempts have been made to elucidate the psychology of sexual perversions, +little or no endeavor has been made to study the development of the normal +sexual emotions. Nearly every writer seems either to take for granted that +he and his readers are so familiar with all the facts of normal sex +psychology that any detailed statement is altogether uncalled for, or else +he is content to write a few fragmentary remarks, mostly made up of +miscellaneous extracts from anatomical, philosophical, and historical +works. + +Yet it is as unreasonable to take normal phenomena for granted here as in +any other region of science. A knowledge of such phenomena is as necessary +here as physiology is to pathology or anatomy to surgery. So far from the +facts of normal sex development, sex emotions, and sex needs being uniform +and constant, as is assumed by those who consider their discussion +unnecessary, the range of variation within fairly normal limits is +immense, and it is impossible to meet with two individuals whose records +are nearly identical. + +There are two fundamental reasons why the endeavor should be made to +obtain a broad basis of clear information on the subject. In the first +place, the normal phenomena give the key to the abnormal phenomena, and +the majority of sexual perversions, including even those that are most +repulsive, are but exaggerations of instincts and emotions that are +germinal in normal human beings. In the second place, we cannot even know +what is normal until we are acquainted with the sexual life of a large +number of healthy individuals. And until we know the limits of normal +sexuality we are not in position to lay down any reasonable rules of +sexual hygiene. + +On these grounds I have for some time sought to obtain the sexual +histories, and more especially the early histories, of men and women who, +on _prima facie_ grounds, may fairly be considered, or are at all events +by themselves and others considered, ordinarily healthy and normal. + +There are many difficulties about such a task, difficulties which are +sufficiently obvious. There is, first of all, the natural reticence to +reveal facts of so intimately personal a character. There is the +prevailing ignorance and unintelligence which leads to the phenomena being +obscure to the subject himself. When the first difficulty has been +overcome, and the second is non-existent, there is still a lack of +sufficiently strong motive to undertake the record, as well as a failure +to realize the value of such records. I have, however, received a large +number of such histories, for the most part offered spontaneously with +permission to make such further inquiries as I thought desirable. Some of +these histories are extremely interesting and instructive. In the present +Appendix, and in a corresponding Appendix to the two following volumes of +these _Studies_, I bring forward a varied selection of these narratives. +In a few cases, it will be seen, the subjects are, to say the least, on +the borderland of the abnormal, but they do not come before us as patients +desiring treatment. They are playing their, usually active, sometimes even +distinguished, part in the world, which knows nothing of their intimate +histories. + + HISTORY I.--E.T. (I reproduce this history, written in the third + person, as it reached my hands.) T.'s earliest recollections of + ideas of a sexual character are vaguely associated with thoughts + upon whipping inflicted on companions by their parents, and + sometimes upon his own person. About the age of 7 T. occasionally + depicted to himself the appearance of the bare nates and + genitalia of boys during flagellation. Reflection upon whipping + gave rise to slight curious sensations at the base of the abdomen + and in the nerves of the sexual system. The sight of a boy being + whipped upon the bare nates caused erection before the age of 9. + He cannot account for these excitations, as at the time he had + not learned the most rudimentary facts of sex. The spectacle of + the boy's nudity had no attraction for him, while the beating + aroused his indignation against the person who administered it. + T. knew a boy and girl of about his own age whose imaginations + dwelt somewhat morbidly upon whipping. The three used to talk + together about such chastisement, and the little girl liked to + read "stories that had whippings in them." None of these children + delighted in cruelty; the fascination in the theme of castigation + seemed to be in imagining the spectacle of the exposed nates, + though actual witnessing of the whipping made them angry at the + time. + + Accustomed to watch a young sister being bathed, T. had no + distinct curiosity concerning the differences in sex until the + age of 9. About this time he asked his father where babies came + from, and was told to be quiet. When he persisted in the inquiry + his father threatened to box his ears. His mother told him + subsequently that doctors brought babies to mothers. He credited + the story so far as to carefully watch the doctor who came when + his mother "was going to have a new baby," in the hope of seeing + a bundle in his arm. T. was 9 when he interrogated a servant-girl + of 16 about babies and their origin. She laughed and said that + one day she would tell him how children came. One Sunday this + servant took T. for a country walk and initiated him in sexual + intercourse, telling him he was too young to be a father, but + that was the way babies were made. The girl took him into a + field, saying she would show him how to do something which would + make him "feel as though he was in heaven," informing him that + she had often done this with young men. She then succeeded in + causing erection and instructed him how to act. His feeling at + the time was one of disgust; the appearance and odor of the + female genitalia repelled him. Afterward, however, he wished to + repeat the experience with girls of his own age. Finding the boy + unresponsive, the girl took the masculine position and embraced + him with great passion. T. can recall the expression of the + girl's face, the perspiration on her forehead, and the whispered + query whether it pleased him. The embrace lasted for about ten + minutes, when the girl said it had "done her good." Later the + same day they met a girl cousin of this servant about 10 or 12 + years old. The three went to a lonely part of the seashore. The + servant there suggested that T. should repeat the act with the + little girl. T. was too shy, though the girl seemed quite willing + and experienced. The older girl told the younger to keep watch a + few yards away, while she again brought about intercourse in the + same way. The servant told T. not to tell anyone. Intercourse + with the servant was never repeated after that day; from shame he + kept the promise for many years. + + After this episode T. began to speculate about sexual matters and + to observe the coupling of dogs with newly acquired interest. At + 10 years he often lay awake, listening to a woman of 25 singing + to a piano accompaniment. The woman's voice seemed very + beautiful, and so strongly impressed him that he fell in love + with her and longed to embrace her sexually. This secret + attachment was much more romantic than sensual, though the idea + of embracing the woman seemed to T. a natural part of the + romance. He was beginning to invest the sex with angelic + qualities. The thought of his adventure with the servant no + longer caused repulsion, but rather pleasure. He reflected that + if he could meet the girl now he could be very fond of her and + understand things better. At this time he had not masturbated, + nor even heard of the practice. One day, while playing with a + girl of his own age, he succeeded in overcoming her shyness and + induced her to expose herself, at the same time uncovering his + own sexual parts. On this occasion and once afterward he + succeeded in penetrating the vulva. Both he and the girl + experienced imperfect enjoyment. + + At boarding-school, where he was sent at 10, T. learned the + vulgar phrases for sexual organs and sexual acts, and acquired + the habit of moderate masturbation. Coarse talk and indecent + jests about the opposite sex were common amusements of the + playroom and dormitories. At first the obscene conversation was + very distasteful; later he became more used to it, but thought it + strange that sex intimacy should be a subject for ridicule and + jest. + + He began to read love-stories and think much about girls. At the + same time he learned the nature of "the sin of fornication," and + wondered why it should be considered so heinous. Parts of the + Bible condemning intercourse between the unmarried alarmed him. + Being of a serious as well as emotional and amorous nature, he + became converted to evangelic belief. His mother warned him to + beware of unclean companions at school. He tried to act as a + Christian and think only pure thoughts about women. The talk, + however, was always of girls and of being in love. His mind was + often engrossed with amatory ideas of a poetic, sensuous nature, + his sexual experiences having a firm hold on his imagination, + while they gave him gratifying assurance of actual knowledge + concerning things merely imagined by most of his companions. + + His health was vigorous and he keenly enjoyed all outdoor games + and excelled in daring and schoolboy mischief. + + At 12 he fell deeply in love with a girl of corresponding age. He + never felt any powerful sexual desire for his sweetheart, and + never attempted anything but kissing and decorous caresses. He + liked to walk and sit with the girl, to hold her hand, and stroke + her soft hair. He felt real grief when separated from her. His + thoughts of her were seldom sensual. A year or so afterward he + had a temporary passion for a woman of 30, who used to flirt with + him and allow kissing. T. thought her queen-like and very lovely, + and wished to be her knight. + + One day he saw, for a moment, in a friend's house, a dark, + earnest-looking girl of 13, who made a very deep impression upon + him, and, though he did not exchange a word with her, he often + thought about her afterward. Five years later he met the dark + girl again, and the pair were mutually drawn to one another. He + proposed marriage and avowed a most desperate passion. A refusal + on the plea of youth caused him the deepest misery. About eight + years thereafter T. married the girl, and the marriage proved a + very happy one for both. + + When he was 15 T. made the acquaintance of a pretty blonde of the + same age. She was a high-spirited hoiden. They were soon close + friends and later lovers. They wrote a number of letters to each + other and exchanged locks of hair and presents. Their talk about + love was unreserved. One day she told T. that she had been + sexually embraced by a former lover, a boy of 16, hinting very + plainly that she would like T. to embrace her. This amour lasted + for about six months. The lovers had many opportunities for + clandestine intercourse. They used to consummate their passion in + a part of a wood they called "the bower." Now and then one or the + other would experience a pricking of conscience, but they were + too passionately attached to each other to sever the intimacy. At + length the girl began to dread the risk of conception and the + intercourse ceased. Looking back upon this episode T. avers that + the attachment and its physical expression seemed quite natural, + poetic, and beautiful, though at times his religious principles + condemned his conduct. He now thinks that the experience is by no + means to be regretted either by the girl or himself. It was a + wholesome youthful passion, as innocent as the mating of birds, + and the insight which it gave to both of the hidden emotions of + human nature was morally advantageous in after-life. + + T. believes that his amative precocity was due to the early + awakening of sex feeling by the servant-girl. But he also + believes that the love passion would have asserted itself early + in any case, since he inherits a warm temperament, had erectile + power long before puberty, and has considerable seminal capacity. + Having closely watched the effects of suppressed normal emotions + and desires in youth at the time of pubescence, he maintains that + such suppression is disastrous, causing unhealthy thoughts and + leading to the formation of a habit of masturbation which may + persist throughout life. He believes that temporary sexual + intimacies between boys and girls under 20 from the period of + puberty would be far less harmful than separation of the sexes + until marriage, with its resultants: masturbation, hysteria, + repressed and disordered functions in young women, seduction, + prostitution, venereal affections, and many other evils. + + + HISTORY II.--The following narrative was written by a married + lady: "My mother (herself a very passionate and attractive woman) + recognized the difficulty for English girls of getting + satisfactorily married, and determined, if possible, to shield us + from disappointment by turning our thoughts in a different + direction. Theoretically the idea was perhaps good, but in + practice it proved useless. The natural desires were there. + Disappointment and disillusion followed their repression none the + less surely for having altered their natural shape. I think the + love I had for my mother was almost sexual, as to be with her was + a keen pleasure, and to be long away from her an almost + unendurable pain. She used to talk to us a good deal on all sorts + of subjects, but she never troubled about education in the + ordinary sense. When 9 years old I had been taught nothing except + to read and write. She never forbade us to read anything, but if + by accident we got hold of a book of which she did not approve + she used to say: 'I think that is rather a silly story, don't + you?' We were so eager to come up to her standard of taste that + we at once imagined we thought it silly, too. In the same way she + discouraged ideas about love or marriage, not by suggesting there + was anything wrong or improper about them, but by implying great + contempt for girls who thought about lovers, etc. Up to the age + of about 20 I had a vague general impression that love was very + well for ordinary women, but far beneath the dignity of a + somewhat superior person like myself. To show how little it + entered my thoughts I may add that, up to 17, I fancied a woman + got a child by being kissed on the lips by a man. Hence all the + fuss in novels about the kiss on the mouth. + + "When I was 9 years old I began to feel a great craving for + scientific knowledge. _A Child's Guide to Science_, which I + discovered at a second-hand book-stall (and which, by the way, + informed me that heat is due to a substance called caloric), + became a constant companion. In order to learn about light and + gravitation, I saved up my money and ordered (of all books) + Newton's _Principia_, shedding bitter tears when I found I could + not understand a word of it. At the same time I was horribly + ashamed of this desire for knowledge. I got such books as I could + surreptitiously and hid them in odd corners. Why, I cannot + imagine, as no one would have objected, but, on the contrary, I + should have been helped to suitable books. + + "My sisters and I were all violently argumentative, but our + quarrels were all on abstract subjects. We saw little of other + children and made no friendships, preferring each other's society + to that of outsiders. When I was about 10 a girl of the same age + came to stay with us for a few days. When we went to bed the + first night she asked me if I ever played with myself, whereupon + I took a great dislike to her. No sexual ideas or feelings were + excited. When still quite a child, however, I had feelings of + excitement which I now recognize as sexual. Such feelings always + came to me in bed (at least I cannot remember them at any other + time) and were generally accompanied by a gradually increasing + desire to make water. For a long time I would not dare to get out + of bed for fear of being scolded for staying awake, and only did + so at last when actually compelled. In the mean time the sexual + excitement increased also, and I believe I thought the latter was + the result of the former, or, perhaps, rather, that both were the + same thing. (This was when I was about 7 or 8 years old.) So far + as I can recollect, the excitement did not recur when the desire + to make water had been gratified. I seemed to remember wondering + why thinking of certain things (I can't remember what these were) + should make one want to urinate. (In later life I have found + that, if the bladder is not emptied before coitus, pleasure is + often more intense.) There were also feelings, which I now + recognize as sexual, in connection with ideas of whipping. + + "As a child and girl I had very strong religious feelings (I + should have now if I could believe in the reality of religion), + which were absent in my sisters. These feelings were much the + same as I experienced later sexually; I felt toward God what I + imagined I should like to feel to my husband if I married. This, + I fancy, is what usually occurs. At 14 I went to a + boarding-school where there were seventy girls between 7 and 19. + I think it goes to show that there is but very little sexual + precocity among English girls that during the three years I + stayed there I never heard a word the strictest mother would have + objected to. One or two of the older girls were occasionally a + little sentimental, but on no occasion did I hear the physical + side of things touched upon. I think this is partly due to the + amount of exercise we took. When picturing my childhood I always + see myself racing about, jumping walls, climbing trees. In France + and Italy I have been struck by the greater sedateness of + Continental children. Our idea of naughtiness consisted chiefly + in having suppers in our bedrooms and sliding down the banisters + after being sent to bed. The first gratified our natural + appetite, while the second supplied the necessary thrill in the + fear of being caught. + + "I made no violent friendships with the other girls, but I became + much attached to the French governess. She was 30, and a born + teacher, very strict with all of us, and doubly so with me for + fear of showing favoritism. But she was never unjust, and I was + rather proud of her severity and took a certain pleasure in being + punished by her, the punishment always taking the form of + learning by heart, which I rather liked doing. So I had my + thrill, excitement, I don't quite know what to call it, without + any very great inconvenience to myself. Just before we left + school the sexual instinct began to show itself in enthusiasm for + art with a capital A, Ouida's novels being mainly responsible. My + sister and I agreed that we would spend our lives traveling about + France, Italy, and the Continent, generally _à la Tricotrin_, + with a violin in one pocket and an Atravante Dante in the other. + To do this satisfactorily to ourselves we must be artists, and I + resolved to go in for music and become a second Liszt. When my + father offered to take us to Italy, the artist's Mecca, for a + couple of years, we were wild with delight. We went, and + disillusionment began. It may perhaps seem absurd, but we + suffered acutely that first summer. Our villa was quite on the + beach, the lowest of its flight of steps being washed by the + Mediterranean. At the back were grounds which seemed a paradise. + Long alleys covered over with vines and carpeted with long grass + and poppies, grassy slopes dotted with olives and ilex, roses + everywhere, and almost every flower in profusion, with, at night, + the fireflies and the heavy scents of syringa and orange + blossoms. In the midst of every possible excitement to the senses + there was one thing wanting, and we did not know what that was. + + "We attributed our restlessness and dissatisfaction to the slow + progress in our artistic education, and consoled ourselves by + thinking when once we had mastered the technical difficulties we + should feel all right. And of course we did derive a very real + pleasure from all the beauties of art and nature with which Italy + abounds. + + "It seems to me, however, that the art craze is one of the modern + phases of woman's sexual life. When we were in Italy the great + centers of the country were simply overrun with girls studying + art, most of whom had very little talent, but who had mistaken + the restlessness due to the first awakening of the sexual + instinct for the divine flame of genius. In our case it did not + matter, as we were not dependent upon our own exertions. But it + must have been terribly hard for girls who had burned their boats + and chosen art as a career, to have added to the repression of + their natural desires the bitterness of knowing that in their + chosen walk of life they were failures. The results as far as + work goes might not be so bad if the passions, as in men, were + occasionally gratified. It is the constant drudgery combined with + the disappointment and finding that art alone does not satisfy + which is so paralyzing. Besides, sexual gratification is always + followed by exaltation of the mental faculties, with, in my + experience, no depressing reaction such as follows pleasure + excited by mental causes alone. + + "At one time when living at the villa I met a man about 45, who + took rather a fancy to me. I mention this because it woke me up; + no emotion was excited, but I realized for the first time (I must + have been nearly 20) that I was no longer a child, and that a + man could think of me in connection with love. It was only after + this, and not immediately after, either, that men's society began + to have an interest for me, and that I began to think a man's + love would be a pleasant thing to possess, after all. + + "The sexual instinct, at any rate as regards consciousness, thus + developed slowly and in what I believe to be a very usual + sequence: religion, admiration for an older woman, and art. I am + not sure that I have made quite enough of the first, yet I do not + know that there is any more to say. There were very strong + physical feelings connected with all these which were identical + with those now connected with passion, but they were completely + satisfied by the mental idea which excited them. + + "The first time I can remember feeling keen physical pleasure was + when I was between 7 and 8 years old. I can't recollect the + cause, but I remember lying quite still in my little cot clasping + the iron rails at the top. It may be said that this is hardly + slow development, but I mean slow as regards (1) any connection + of the idea with a man or (2) any physical means of excitation. + + "I have laid stress on my desire for knowledge, as I think my + sexual feelings were affected by it. A great part of my feeling + for my mother was due to the stores of information she appeared + to possess. The omniscience of God was to me his most striking + attribute. My French teacher's capacity was her chief attraction. + When, as a girl, I thought of marriage, I desired a man who + 'could explain things to me.' One learns later to live one's + mental and sexual life separately to a great extent. But at 20 I + could not have done so; given the opportunity, I should have made + the mistake of Dorothea in _Middlemarch_. + + "I have spoken of the depressing after-effects of pleasure + brought about by a purely mental cause, but I do not think this + is the case in childhood and early youth. (Perhaps some women + feel no such depression afterward, and this may account for their + coldness in regard to men.) This may perhaps be accounted for by + the fact that it occurs much more rarely, and also it is perhaps + a natural process before the sexual organs fully develop, and so + not harmful. + + "I always find it difficult in expressing the different degrees + of physical excitement even to myself, though I know exactly what + I felt. As a child, from the time of the early experience already + mentioned (about the age of 7 or 8), and as a young girl, the + second stage (secretion of mucus) was always reached. The amount + of secretion has always been excessive, but at first secretion + only lasted a short time; later it began to last for several + hours, or even sometimes the whole night, if the natural + gratification has been withheld for a long time (say, three + months). I do not remember ever feeling the third stage (complete + orgasm) until I saw the first man I fancied I cared for. I do not + think that mental causes alone have ever produced more than the + first two stages (general diffuse excitement and secretion). I + have sometimes wondered whether I could produce the third + mechanically, but I have a curious unreasonable repugnance to + trying the experiment; it would seem to materialize it too much. + As a child and a girl I was contented to arrive at the second + stage, possibly because I did not realize that there was any + other, and perhaps this is why I have experienced no evil + results. + + "In dreams the third stage seems to come suddenly without any + leading up to it, either mental or physical, of which I am + conscious. I do not, however, remember having any such dreams + before I was engaged. They came at a later period; even then, + when great pleasure was experienced, it came, as a rule, suddenly + and sharply, with no dreams leading up to it. The dreams + generally take a sad form (an Evangeline and Gabriel business), + where one vainly seeks the person who eludes one. I have, + however, sometimes had pleasurable dreams of men who were quite + indifferent to me and of whom I never thought when awake. The + impression on waking is so strong one could almost fancy one's + self really in love with them. I can quite understand falling in + love with a person by dreaming of him in this way. + + "The first time I remember experiencing the third stage in waking + moments was at a picnic, when the man, to whom I have before + referred as the first that I fancied I cared for, leaned against + me accidentally in passing a plate or dish; but I was already in + a violent state of excitement at being with him. There was no + possibility of anything between us, as he was married. If he + guessed my feelings, they were never admitted, as I did my best + to hide them. I never experienced this, except at the touch of + some one I loved. (I think the saying about the woman 'desiring + the desire of the man' is just about as true as most epigrams. It + is the man's personality alone which affects me. His feelings + toward me are of--I was going to say--indifference, but at any + rate quite secondary importance, and the gratification of my own + vanity counts as nothing in such relations.) + + "As a rule, to reach even the second stage the exciting ideas + must be associated with some particular person, except in the + case of a story, where one identifies one's self with one of the + characters. In childhood and early youth it was, in the case of + religion, the idea of God and the presence and the personality of + God which aroused my feelings and always seemed very vivid to me. + In the case of my governess, my feelings were aroused in exactly + the same way as later they would be by one's lover. In the art + craze I am rather vague as to how it came about, but I think, as + a rule, there was rather a craving for pleasure than pleasure + itself. I do not remember ever thinking much about the physical + feeling. It seemed as natural that a pleasant emotion should + produce pleasant physical effects as that a painful one should + cause tears. As a child, one takes so much for granted, and later + on my mind was so much occupied with worrying about the truth of + religion that I hardly thought enough about anything else to + analyze it carefully. + + "I may summarize my own feelings thus: First, exciting ideas + alone produce, as a rule, merely the first stage of sexual + excitement. Second, the same ideas connected with a particular + person will produce the second stage. Third, the same may be said + of the presence of the beloved person. Fourth, actual contact + appears necessary for the third stage. If the first stage only be + reached, the sensation is not pleasurable in reality, or would + not be but for its association. If produced, as I have sometimes + found it to be, by a sense of mental incapacity, it is distinctly + disagreeable, especially if one feels that the energy which might + have been used in coping with the difficulty is being thus + dissipated. If it be produced, as it may be, as the result of + physical or mental restraint, it is also unpleasant unless the + restraint were put upon one by a person one loves. Then, however, + the second stage would probably be reached, but this would depend + a good deal on one's mood. If the first stage only were reached, + I think it would be disagreeable; it would mean a conflict + between one's will and sexual feeling. Perhaps women who feel + actual repugnance to the sexual act with a man they love have + never gone beyond the first stage, when their dislike to it would + be quite intelligible to me. + + "Some time after the life in Italy had come to an end I became + engaged. There was considerable difficulty in the way of + marriage, but we saw a good deal of each other. My _fiancé_ often + dined with us, and we met every day. The result of seeing him so + frequently was that I was kept in a constant state of strong, but + suppressed, sexual excitement. This was particularly the case + when we met in the evening and wandered about the moonlit garden + together. When this had gone on about three months I began to + experience a sense of discomfort after each of his visits. The + abdomen seemed to swell with a feeling of fullness and + congestion; but, though these sensations were closely connected + with the physical excitement, they were not sufficiently painful + to cause me any alarm or make me endeavor to avoid their + pleasurable cause. The symptoms got worse, however, and no longer + passed off quickly as at first. The swelling increased; + considerable pain and a dragged-down sensation resulted the + moment I tried to walk even a short distance. I was troubled + with constant indigestion, weight in the chest, pain in the head + and eyes, and continual slight diarrhea. This went on for about + nine months, and then my _fiancé_ was called away from the + neighborhood. After his departure I got a trifle better, but the + symptoms remained, though in less acute form. A few months later + the engagement was broken off, and for some weeks I was severely + ill with influenza and was on my back for several weeks. When I + could get about a little, though very weak, all the swelling was + gone, but pain returned whenever I tried to walk or stand for + long. The indigestion and diarrhea were also very troublesome. I + was treated for both by a physician, but without success. Next + year I became engaged to my husband and was shortly after + married. The indigestion and diarrhea disappeared soon after. The + pain and dragging feeling in the abdomen bothered me much in + walking or any kind of exercise. One day I came across a medical + work, _The Elements of Social Science_, in which I found + descriptions of symptoms like those I suffered from ascribed to + uterine disease. I again applied to a doctor, telling him I + thought there was displacement and possibly congestion. He + confirmed my opinion and told me to wear a pessary. He ascribed + the displacement to the relaxing climate, and said he did not + think I should ever get quite right again. After the pessary had + been placed in position every trace of pain, etc., left me. A + year later I thought I would try and do without the pessary, and + to my great satisfaction none of the old trials came back after + its removal, in spite of much trouble, anxiety, sick nursing, and + fatigue. I attribute the disorder entirely to violent sexual + excitement which was not permitted its natural gratification and + relief. + + "I have reason to believe that suppression acts very injuriously + on a woman's mental capacity. When excitement is naturally + relieved the mind turns of its own accord to another subject, but + when suppressed it is unable to do this. Personally, in the + latter event, I find the greatest difficulty in concentrating my + thoughts, and mental effort becomes painful. Other women have + complained to me of the same difficulty. I have tried mechanical + mental work, such as solving arithmetical or algebraic problems, + but it does no good; in fact, it seems only to increase the + excitement. (I may remark here that my feelings are always very + strong not only before and after the monthly period, but also + during the time itself; very unfortunately, as, of course, they + cannot then be gratified. This only applies to desire from + within, as I am strongly susceptible to influences from without + at any time.) There seems nothing to be done but to bow to the + storm till it passes over. Anything I do during the time it + lasts, even household work, is badly done. The brain seems to + become addled for the time being, while after gratification of + desire it seems to attain an additional quickness and cleverness. + Perhaps this cause contributes to the small amount of + intellectual and artistic work done by women, admitting their + natural inferiority to men in artistic impulse. A woman whose + passions are satisfied generally has her strength sapped by + maternity, while her attention is drawn from abstract ideas to + her children." + + + HISTORY III.--B. states that his first sexual thoughts and acts + were curiously connected with whipping. At 12 he and another boy + used to beat each other with a cricket bat upon the bare nates, + and afterward indulge in mutual masturbation. He cannot remember + the beginning of his sexual speculation as a child, nor how he + learned masturbation. When he was 13 he used to discuss erotic + matters with a schoolfellow who was in the habit of engaging in + vulvar intercourse with a girl of his own age. The intercourse + was practised on the way home from school, and in a standing + posture. B. embraced the girl in the same way. He is not + interested in the psychological aspects of the sexual emotion. + Although his sex passion was early kindled, he never had commerce + with prostitutes. He thinks that his youthful experiences had no + ill effect upon him morally, mentally, or physically. He + practised masturbation in moderation till he married, at the age + of 31. + + + HISTORY IV.--"I can remember" (writes the subject) "trotting away + as a youngster about 5 with another boy to 'see a girl's legs'; + the idea emanated from the other boy, but I was vaguely + interested. How or where we were going to see the object in + question I do not remember nor anything further than the + intention. When 6 or 7 I remember being put to bed with the nurse + girl and feeling her bare arm with undoubted sexual excitement; I + remember, too, gradually feeling along the arm very cautiously, + fearing the girl would wake and being bitterly disappointed to + find it was merely the arm. I am almost certain I had then no + idea of sex, but the disappointment was actual. + + "These are the only early experiences of the sort I can remember. + When about 9 I had others. On the coast of the north of England, + which had then very few visitors and seemed to me very remote, I + lived in a farm-house and used to assist the girls of the farm in + looking after young cattle. These girls certainly instilled + sexual ideas, though I did not realize them with precision. They + used to talk about things a good many of which, I can now see, I + did not then understand as they did. I liked to see these girls + wading with their dresses tucked up. About this time I fell + passionately in love with a girl cousin, but do not remember + having any sensual ideas in regard to her. I cannot say that + these early experiences had any influence on my later sexual + development so far as I am consciously aware. I have always + remembered them vaguely, never with sexual excitement. + + "Sexual dreams took place first at about the age of 13; there was + then emission and sensation in sleep. These were, however, not + much associated with distinctly sexual dreams. All that I recall + after them was the sensation, which, however, I did not even then + absolutely localize. Masturbation was undoubtedly the direct + result of these dreams. It was tried at first tentatively, out of + curiosity to determine if the sensation of the dream could be so + reproduced. Sexual dreams, such as I have described, occurred + frequently, although I cannot say at what interval. I have never + experienced the slightest attraction for the same sex." + + + HISTORY V.--"My maternal grandfather" (writes the subject of this + history) "was a small farmer who kept a few beagles and + greyhounds for hare-hunting. He had three daughters, one of whom + became my mother. One of his sporting companions, a doctor of + profligate habits and a drunkard, seduced my mother at the age of + 20. When her condition was discovered she had to flee from the + violence of her father, and I was born some distance from her + home. After my grandfather's death I was reared by my + grandmother, and saw nothing of my mother until I was nearly 16; + she had left the country in shame and disgrace. + + "I believe that in my heredity the transmission comes chiefly + from my mother, who is now 58 years old. Although her life has + been blameless in every particular since her youthful + indiscretion, she has never got over it. I feel in my character a + reflection of her overstrung condition during pregnancy. + + "I can distinctly remember from the age of 9 years, and am sure + that I had no sexual feelings before the age of 13, though always + in the company of girls. I had many boyish passions for girls, + always older than myself, but these were never accompanied by + sexual desires. I deified all my sweethearts, and was satisfied + if I got a flower, a handkerchief, or even a shred of clothing of + my inamorata for the time being. These things gave me a strange + idealistic emotion, but caused no sexual desire or erection. + + "At 13 a 26-year-old sister of a boy companion once sat down on a + sheaf of corn so as to expose the mons veneris and enticed me to + copulate. There was slight erection, and after the act had been + continued some time a pleasurable sensation of ejaculation, but + without true emission. I had frequent relations with this woman + after that. + + "About this time the farm servant of a neighbor taught me + masturbation. The mistress of the farm, a thin, willowy, dark + woman, the mother of several children, treated me with such + familiarity as once to urinate in my presence, so that I saw her + very hirsute mons veneris. From that moment I conceived a great + passion for her, and used to tremble as soon as I saw her. I had + become well developed and virile, but, though I think she was a + lustful woman, I never ventured to touch her. I found an extreme + ecstasy in masturbating while gazing upon some article of her + clothing. This gave me much greater sexual pleasure than actual + connection with the ever-willing sister of my schoolfellow. I + think I loved the married woman best because the mons veneris was + more covered with hair. + + "This has always had a peculiar attraction for me. Later, when + accosted by prostitutes, I never would go with them unless I was + assured the mons veneris was very hirsute. Never much addicted to + masturbation, I derived no great enjoyment therefrom unless I had + hair or part of the clothing of the woman with whom I was + indulging in psychic coitus. + + "At 16 I left school and went to a large city to learn a + business. At this time the sexual appetite was very strong. I + frequently had intercourse with three women in one evening. + + "I have had but few lascivious dreams. In these the phantom + partner was almost invariably a dead woman. (When about 8 I had + seen the dead body of an aunt who died at 24.) + + "When 20 I went to London and took all the pleasure which came my + way. I cared only for normal coitus. Offers of another type + created disgust. I once allowed a woman to exhaust me sexually + orally, but felt degraded thereby. Women with whom I had become + very intimate often urged me to _cunnilingus_, but I could not do + it. I have practised intermammary coitus a very few times. + + "At 26 I married a pure, gentle woman, after having for ten + months before marriage led a life of celibacy. My wife died when + I was 30, and for about eight months I lived a celibate life. + Lascivious dreams sometimes occurred, but I invariably awoke + before ejaculation. Eventually I gave way to the cravings of my + strong sexual nature, but never wished for anything out of the + usual except intercourse from behind. A woman with marked + development of the nates has great attraction for me. Solitary + masturbation has for some time ceased, but a nude woman in the + act of masturbation with her back to me gives me great pleasure. + I am as strong sexually at 38 as I was at 20, only I never want + women unless I am brought into actual contact with them and they + are hairy and have large pelvic development. I am in excellent + health. Genitals are well developed, and I am clothed with hair + from the chin to the genitals. My skull is dolichocephalic. I am + violent and tenacious in temper, high-strung, and rapid in + thought and action. My digestion is good, but I have a tendency + to constipation. Occasionally I have a twinge of pain below the + occipital region. + + "My early views of women have changed; I no longer deify them, + though I study them. I have known very sensual women living at + home in respectable middle-class society. One, in particular, a + girl of 18, after coitus used to excite me lingually. I have had + a sweetheart who remained _virgo intacta_. Had I seduced her, as + I could have done, I should have lost all interest in her. I + could never bear the presence of naked men, and would never go to + a public swimming bath for that reason. I regard myself as a man + of abnormally strong, but, on the whole, healthy and wholesome, + sexual feelings. As a rule, I have coitus twice or oftener in one + week and I practise withdrawal. I am a total abstainer, and never + could embrace a woman who smelled of drink." + + HISTORY VI.--The writer of the following is a man of letters, + married. "Quite early I remember a strange and romantic interest + in the feminine. Certainly before I was 9 I had a strong + affection for a little girl playmate; our family lost sight of + hers, and I saw and heard nothing of her for sixteen years; then, + hearing she was coming to town, I experienced quite a flutter of + heart, so strong had been the impression caused at even the early + age of our acquaintance. Not that I mean to say I never wavered + in between! Through the whole of my boyhood I remember persistent + romantic interests in girls and women, whose smooth, fair faces + and sweet voices exercised ever a subtle attraction over me. + Before I was 12 I had picked out my 'future wife' a dozen times + at least! (A different one each time of course!) Curiosity as to + the physical detail of sex and birth was singularly absent. + Possibly this was partly due to the fact that the only younger + member of our family was born when I was but 4 years old. Grave, + shy, and reserved, I was never taken into the counsels of + prurient schoolmates. I was unaware that there was such + discussion between them--though it is, I suppose, not probable + that our school was exempt. I was a great reader, and when about + 12 or 13 I came across a reference to an illegitimate child which + puzzled me. Ere long, however, in my random and extensive reading + I hit on a book that touched on phallicism, and I learned that + there were male and female organs of generation. I had neither + shame nor curiosity; I jumped to the conclusion that during close + caresses somehow a subtle aroma arose from the man to fertilize + the woman; I left the subject at this, satisfied, and had no + inkling of the real intimacy of the embrace. + + "About 14, much interested in Bradlaugh, I bought both the + Knowlton pamphlet and Mrs. Besant's population book. I found the + physical details in scientific language so dull that I could not + peruse them. By reading the argumentative passages I learned that + _somehow_ (I knew not how) children could be produced or not + produced as desired; and in this stage of the matter it seemed + to me so admirable that it should be so that I wondered why there + should be cavil. + + "About this age my elder brother believed it to be his duty to + tell me the secrets of sex; I remember his talking to me, while + I, bored and uninterested, thought of something else. When he + finished I had heard nothing. Remember, I felt no shame on the + matter--none at all. I was simply bored. This I attribute to two + things: first, my preponderating interest in the romantic side of + things; secondly (and this bears with it a strong moral), _the + feeling that the knowledge lay always within my grasp kept me + from that curiosity which so oft consumes those who think it is + hidden away from them_. + + "The changes of puberty came naturally and without startling me. + Even the fact of emissions--which took place during sleep at + intervals, unaccompanied by dreams or by any physical prostration + afterward--has left on my memory no recollection of surprise; I + knew it to be somehow connected with generation, but I had no + physical trouble, and I am quite sure I did not bother further + about it. The best possible proof of this lies in the fact that + my memory is a blank on the matter. At the age of 21 (I take this + from a diary, so I know it is correct) I was still ignorant as to + intrinsic fact. Then I pulled myself together and felt it was + really time I learned the actual details of the matter. I went to + a clever friend of mine and asked him to tell me all about it. He + expressed himself astounded at my not knowing; and he had very + great shyness about telling me. In fact, I had to drag facts out + of him by a real cross-examination, during which he persistently + marveled at my ignorance. Though he had a great deal of false + shame about the matter, I had none at all. His revelations + considerably surprised me, because I had no idea that there was + actual intromission. When I came to reflect on what I had learned + the fact of this close physical intimacy appealed to me as being + quite poetic and beautiful between two lovers; and I have had no + reason since to change my opinion. + + "_Summary._--1. Romantic interest in girls and women commencing + early and remaining persistently. + + "2. Knowledge before puberty of the fact that this interest was + based on the all-important process of reproduction. + + "3. Absence of further physical curiosity even at puberty itself. + + "4. Knowledge ultimately acquired without shock. + + "The physical in sex has never been any bother to me, neither + have I bothered about it. I have recognized it, frankly, and + don't see why I shouldn't, but my unashamed recognition has + probably been because the merely physical is less absorbing to me + than to most. Mental and emotional interest in passion has + absorbed me greatly, but the merely physical has sunk into what + I call its natural place of subordination. Nature is kind. It is + our 'conspiracy of silence' which tends to emphasize physical + detail." + + + HISTORY VII.--G.D., who is a doctor and a man of science, writes: + "There is a strong history of gout on the paternal side. No + history of alcohol, tubercle, brain trouble, or of the + arthropathies. There is some reason to believe that two of my + maternal aunts were sexually frigid, and perhaps this was true to + a less extent of my mother, who had a contracted pelvis, + necessitating the induction of labor at the eighth month of + pregnancy. + + "About the age of 7 a German nursery governess, B., took charge + of me, and I soon became devoted to her. I was then a delicate + child, and used to suffer frequently from nightmare, waking up + screaming and covered with sweat. When this happened, B. would + sometimes take me into her bed and soothe me with kisses, etc. + These I returned, and can remember that I was particularly fond + of kissing her breasts. + + "About this time a girl cousin, A., about a year older than + myself, was one of my most frequent playmates. I endeavored to + monopolize her company and attention, and on this account often + came to blows with C., a cousin rather younger than myself, who + has since told me that he was then 'in love' with A. and + 'jealous' of me. I believe I was really jealous and in love at + the time, but cannot remember that anything in the nature of + caresses took place between A. and myself. + + "Some time later, probably when I was about 9, something led up + to B. saying that she was not built like I was, that she had no + penis, etc. (I cannot remember my nursery term for penis.) I was + incredulous, and demanded to be allowed to see if it was true; + this was refused, and I made many plans to gratify my curiosity, + such as slipping into her room when she was dressing, tipping up + the chair she was sitting in, and trying to suddenly thrust my + hand up under her skirts. I did not succeed in finding out, but + have since thought that, although she did not allow me to attain + the object of my efforts, the later game caused her pleasurable + sensations. I regard these efforts as being prompted purely by + curiosity; I had no feelings of warmth or irritations of the + genitals, and I certainly never manipulated them, nor was I, as + far as I can judge, an unusually prurient small boy. B. left when + I was about 10, when I went to a preparatory school. + + "At 12½ I was sent to a public school, and was then told by my + father the chief facts of sex and warned to avoid masturbation. + My first wet dream took place when I was 14. Rather before this I + had begun to suffer with severe intermittent testicular neuralgia + which practically defied all treatment and continued on and off + for four or five years, the attacks gradually becoming fewer and + less severe. + + "When 15, circumstances compelled me to leave school and to live + for two years at the seaside with no companions of my own age. I + had, however, the run of a well-stocked library, and fished and + collected insects energetically. + + "At 16 I made love to the trained nurse attending my mother, but, + owing more, I think, to my timidity than to the austerity of her + virtue, got no further than kissing. About this time wet dreams + became inconveniently frequent; they would occur three or four + times weekly, and resisted the stock remedies. At 17 I was + advised to try connection. This I did, and found but little + pleasure in the act, there being a strong esthetic objection to + the 'love that keeps awake for lure.' + + "About this time I found in the United States Pharmacopoeia a + remedy for my emissions, which have, however, always remained + rather more frequent than those of the average individual, + judging from the experience of my friends. Emissions are + generally accompanied by lascivious dreams, but at times take + place when I dream that I am hurrying to catch a train, or to + micturate against time. + + "I have of late years (not noticed till after 20) observed that + the dream accompanying emission is shorter; so that, whereas up + to, say, 21 I generally performed the whole physiological act + with my dream-charmer, I now almost invariably emit and awake + before intromission has taken place. There has been no + alternation comparable to this in the performance of the act + while I am awake. + + "As regards my physique I should mention that all my reflexes are + very brisk, though I am only slightly ticklish in the ordinary + sense of the term. I sweat easily and am very shy, not only with + women, but with any strangers. I have, however, trained myself + not to show this. About averagely passionate, I should say, and + extremely critical where women are concerned, the latter quality + often keeping me chaste for months at a time." + + + HISTORY VIII.--"When I was about 8 years old" (states the lady + who is the subject of the present observation) "I remember that, + with several other children, we used to play in an old garden at + being father and mother, unfastening our drawers and bringing the + sexual parts together, as we imagined married people to do, but + no sexual feelings were aroused, nor did the boys have + erections." When about 10 years old she became conscious of a + pleasurable sensation associated with the smell of leather, which + has ever since persisted. At that age she was sometimes left to + wait in the office of a wholesale business house full of + leather-bound ledgers. She did not then notice the sensation + particularly, and was certainly not conscious of any connection + with sexual emotion. Menstruation was established at 13½ years. + Distinct sexual feelings were first observed a few months later. + "The first feelings of love which I ever felt were at the age of + 14 for a nice, manly boy of my own age, who often came to our + house. He liked me, but was not in love with me. It was very + seldom that he would sit by me and hold my hand, as I wished him. + This went on till I was about 17, when he went to the university. + After his first term he came back and was then attracted to me; + but, though I loved him very much, I was too proud to show it. + When he tried to kiss me, I resisted, though I longed for it. + Thinking I was greatly offended, he apologized, which only made + me angry. All these years I was worshiping at his shrine and + mixed him up with all my ideas of life." Whenever she was near + him she experienced physical sensations, with moistening of the + vulva. This continued till she was about 20, but the object of + these emotions never again attempted any advances. + + At 19 she became engaged to someone else. At the beginning she + was physically indifferent to her lover, but when he first kissed + her she became greatly excited. The engagement, however, was soon + broken off from absence of strong affection on either side and + chiefly, it would seem, from the cooling of the lover's ardor. + She thinks he would have been more strongly attached to her if + she had been colder to him, or pretended to be, instead of + responding with simplicity and frankness. + + During the next few years little occurred. She was working hard, + and her amusements would mostly, she says, be regarded as rather + childish. She was extremely fond of dancing, and she was always + pleased when anyone paid her attention. She was frequently + conscious of sexual feelings, sometimes tormented by them, and + she regarded this as something to be ashamed of. The constant + longing for love was affected little or not at all by hard work. + "At about this time I was very fond of abandoning myself to + day-dreams. I was very glad if I could get everyone out of the + house and lie on an easy chair or the bed. I liked especially to + read poetry, all the more if I did not quite understand it. This + would lead me on to all sorts of dreams of love, which, however, + never went beyond the preliminaries of actual love--as that was + all I then knew of love." The only climax to her dream of love + was founded on a piece of information volunteered by a married + woman many years earlier, when she was about 12. This + lady--evidently agreeing with Rousseau (who in _Emile_ commended + the mother's reply to the child's query whence babies come, "Les + femmes les pissent, mon enfant, avec des grands douleurs") that + the unknown should first be explained to the young in terms of + the known--told her that the husband micturated into the wife. + She therefore used to imagine a lover who would bear her away + into a forest and do this on her as she lay at the foot of a + tree. (At a later date she accidentally discovered that a full + bladder tended to enhance sexual feelings, and occasionally + resorted to this physical measure of heightening excitement.) All + the physical sensations of sexual desire were called out by these + day-dreams, with abundant secretion, but never the orgasm. Her + reveries never led to masturbation or to allied manifestations, + which have never taken place. Such a method of relief has, + indeed, never offered any temptation to her and she doubts even + its possibility in her case. (At a later period of life, however, + at the age of 31, masturbation began and was practised at + intervals.) At the same time she remarks that, while no orgasm + (of which, indeed, she was then ignorant) ever occurred, the + sexual excitement produced by the day-dreams was sufficiently + great to cause a feeling of relief afterward. These day-dreams + were the only way in which the sexual erethism was discharged. + She cannot recall having erotic dreams or any sexual + manifestations during sleep. + + Spontaneous sexual excitement was present a few days before + menstruation, and fairly marked during and immediately after the + period. It also tended to recur in the middle of the + intermenstrual period. + + The pleasurable sensation connected with the smell of leather + became more marked as she approached adult age. It was especially + pronounced about the age of 24, and the sexual emotion it + produced (with moisture of the vulva) was then clearly conscious. + No other odor produced this effect in such a marked degree. It + was often associated with leather bags, but not with boots, + though on rubbing the leather of shoes she found that this odor + was given out. She cannot account for its origin, and does not + connect any association with it. It never affected her conduct or + led to fetichistic habits. + + Some other odors affect her in the same way, though not to the + same degree as leather. This is more especially the case with + some flowers, especially white flowers with heavy odors, like + gardenias. Many flowers, on the other hand, like primroses, seem + rather opposed to sex effect, too fresh, though stimulating to + the mind. Some artificial scents tend to produce sexual effects + also. Personal odors have no influence of this kind. (At a later + period the sexual influence of personal odors was occasionally + experienced, but the present history deals only with the period + before marriage.) + + She believes that most beautiful things, however unconnected with + sex, have a tendency to produce distinctively sexual feelings in + a faint degree, although sometimes more marked, with secretion. + She has, however, never experienced homosexual feeling, and, on + first consideration, was inclined to believe that the sight of a + beautiful woman had no sexual effect on her, though she could + quite understand such an effect. Subsequently, on recalling as + well as observing her experiences more carefully, she found that + a lovely woman's face and figure (especially on one occasion the + very graceful figure of a beautiful fairy in a ballet) produced + distinct sexual sensations (with mucous emission). Music, + however, has strongly emotional effects upon her, and she cannot + recall that she ever felt any equally powerful influence of this + kind in the absence of music. + + Looking back on the development of her feelings she finds that, + though in some respects they may have been slow, they were + simple, natural, spontaneous, and correspond to "the dawning and + progress which go on in the development of every girl. While it + is going on in actual fact, the girl does not know or bother + herself about trying to understand it. Afterward it seems quite + clear and simple. Full occupation of the brain, and hands too, + while it does not do away with desire, is a great help and + safeguard to a growing girl, when combined with proper + information about herself and her relation to man the animal, so + that she may realize where she is and how to choose the right + man--though under the best conditions failure may occur." + + HISTORY IX.--The subject belongs to a large family having some + neurotic members; she spent her early life on a large farm. She + is vigorous and energetic, has intellectual tastes, and is + accustomed to think for herself, from unconventional standpoints, + on many subjects. Her parents were very religious, and not, she + thinks, of sensual temperament. Her own early life was free from + associations of a sexual character, and she can recall little + that now seems to be significant in this respect. She remembers + that in childhood and for some time later she believed that + children were born through the navel. Her activities went chiefly + into humanitarian and utopian directions, and she cherished ideas + of a large, healthy, free life, untrammeled by civilization. She + regards herself as very passionate, but her sexual emotions + appear to have developed very slowly and have been somewhat + intellectualized. After reaching adult life she has formed + several successive relationships with men to whom she has been + attracted by affinity in temperament, in intellectual views, and + in tastes. These relationships have usually been followed by some + degree of disillusion, and so have been dissolved. She does not + believe in legal marriage, though under fitting circumstances she + would much like to have a child. + + She never masturbated until the age of 27. At that time a married + friend told her that such a thing could be done. She found it + gave her decided pleasure, indeed, more than coitus had ever + given her except with one man. She has never practised it to + excess, only at rare intervals, and is of the opinion that it is + decidedly beneficial when thus moderately indulged in. She has + sometimes found, for instance, that, after the mental excitement + produced by delivering a lecture, sleep would be impossible if + masturbation were not resorted to as a sedative to relieve the + tension. + + Spontaneous sexual excitement is strongest just before the + monthly period. + + Definite sexual dreams and sexual excitement during sleep have + not occurred except possibly on one or two occasions. + + She has from girlhood experienced erotic day-dreams, imagining + love-stories of which she herself was the heroine; the climax of + these stories has developed with her own developing knowledge of + sexual matters. + + She is not inverted, and has never been in love with a woman. She + finds, however, that a beautiful woman is distinctly a sexual + excitation, calling out definite physical manifestations of + sexual emotion. She explains this by saying that she thinks she + instinctively puts herself in the place of a man and feels as it + seems to her a man would feel. + + She finds that music excites the sexual emotions, as well as many + scents, whether of flowers, the personal odor of the beloved + person, or artificial perfumes. + + HISTORY X.--The subject is of German extraction on both sides. + The father is of marked intellectual tastes, as also is she + herself. There is no unhealthy strain in the family so far as she + is aware, though they all have very strong passions. She is well + developed, healthy, vigorous, and athletic, any trouble to which + she is subject being mainly due to overwork. + + Looking back on her childhood, she can now see various sexual + manifestations occurring at a period when she was quite ignorant + of sex matters. "The very first," she writes, "was at the age of + 6. I remember once sitting astride a banister while my parents + were waiting for me outside. I distinctly remember a pleasurable + sensation--probably in part due to a physical feeling--in the + thought of staying there when I knew I ought to have run out to + them. From that year till the age of 10 I simply reveled in the + idea of being tortured. I went gladly to bed every night to + imagine myself a slave, chained, beaten, made to carry loads and + do ignominious work. One of my imaginings, I remember, was that I + was chained to a moldering skeleton." As she grew older these + fancies were discontinued. At the same time there was a trace of + sadistic tendency: "I used to frighten and tease a young child, + driven to it by an irresistible impulse, and experiencing a + certain pleasurable feeling in so doing. But this, I am glad to + say, was rare, as I hate all cruelty." + + One of her favorite imaginings as a child was that she was a boy, + and especially that she was a knight rescuing damsels in + distress. She was not fond of girls' occupations, and has always + had a sort of chivalrous feeling toward women. + + "When I first heard of the sexual act," she writes, "it appeared + to me so absurd that I took little notice. About the age of 10 I + discussed it a good deal with other girls, and we used to play + childishly indecent games--out of pure mischief and not from any + definite physical feeling." + + About a year after menstruation was established she accidentally + discovered the act of masturbation by leaning over a table. "I + discovered it naturally; no one taught me; and the very + naturalness of the impulse that led me to it often made me in + later years question the harmfulness." Both her sisters + masturbated from a very early age, but not, to her knowledge, her + brother. The practice of masturbation was continued. "For many + years, imbued with the old ideas of morality, I struggled against + it in vain. The sight of animals copulating, the perusal of + various books (Shakespeare, Rabelais, Gautier's _Mademoiselle de + Maupin_, etc.), the sight of the nude in some Bacchanalian + pictures (such as Rubens's), all aroused passion. Coexistent with + this--perhaps (though I doubt it) due to it--arose a disgust for + normal intercourse. I fell in love and enjoyed kisses, etc., but + the mere thought of anything beyond disgusted me. Had my lover + suggested such a thing I would have lost all love for him. But + all this time I went on masturbating, though as seldom as + possible and without thought of my lover. Love was to me a thing + ideal and quite apart from lust, and I still think that it is + false to try to connect the two. I fear that even now, if I fell + in love, sexual intercourse would break the charm. At the age of + 18 I came across Tolstoy's _Kreutzer Sonata_ and was overjoyed to + find all I had thought written down there. Gradually, through + seeing a friend happily married, I have grown to a more normal + view of things. I am very critical of men and have never met one + liberal-minded and just enough to please me. Perhaps if I did I + might take a perfectly healthy view of things." + + In course of time various devices had been adopted to heighten + sexual excitement when indulging in masturbation. Thus, for + instance, she found that the effects of sexual excitement are + increased by keeping the bladder full. But the chief method which + she had devised for heightening and prolonging the preliminary + excitement consisted in wearing tight stays (as a rule, she wears + loose stays) and in painting her face. She cannot herself explain + this. Self-excitement is completed by friction, or sometimes by + the introduction of a piece of wood into the vagina. She finds + that, the more frequently she masturbates, the more easily she is + excited. Spontaneous sexual feeling is strongest before and after + the menstrual period; not so much so during the periods. + + There are various faint traces of homosexuality, it may be + gathered, in the history of this subject's sexual development. + Recently these have come to a climax in the formation of a + homosexual relationship with a girl friend. This relationship has + given her great pleasure and satisfaction. She does not, however, + regard herself as being a really inverted person. + + There have been vivid sexual dreams from about 17 (apparently + about the period of the relationship with the lover). These + dreams have not, however, had special reference to persons of + either sex. + + Apart from the influence of books and pictures already mentioned, + she remarks that she is sexually affected by the personal odor of + a beloved person, but is not consciously affected by any other + odors. + + + HISTORY XI.--Widower, aged 40 years. Surgeon. "My experience of + sexual matters began early. When I was about 10 years of age a + boy friend who was staying with us told me that his sister made + him uncover his person, with which she played and encouraged him + to do the same for her. He said it was great fun, and suggested + that we should take two of my sisters into an old barn and repeat + his experience on them. This we did, and tried all we could to + have connection with them; they were nothing loath and did all + they could to help us, but nothing was effected and I experienced + no pleasure in it. + + "When I went back to school I attracted the attention of one of + the big boys who slept in the same room with me; he came into my + bed and began to play with my member, saying that it was the + usual thing to do and would give me pleasure. I did not feel any + pleasure, but I liked the attention, and rather enjoyed playing + with his member, which was of large size, and surrounded by thick + pubic hair. After I had played with him for some time I was + surprised at his having an emission of sticky matter. Afterward + he rubbed me again, saying that if I let him do it long enough he + would produce the same substance from me. This he failed to do, + however, though he rubbed me long and frequently, on that and + many other occasions. I was very disappointed at not being able + to have an emission, and on every occasion that offered I + endeavored to excite myself to the extent of compassing this. I + used to ask to go out of school two or three times a day, and + retired to the closet, where I practised on myself most + diligently, but to no purpose, at that time, though I began to + have pleasurable emotions in the act. + + "When I went home for the holidays I took a great interest in one + of my father's maids, whose legs I felt as she ran upstairs one + day. I was in great fear that she would complain of what I had + done, but I was delighted to find that she did nothing of the + sort; on the contrary, she took to kissing and fondling me, + calling me her sweetheart and saying that I was a forward boy. + This encouraged me greatly, and I was not long in getting to + more intimate relations with her. She called me into her room one + day when we were alone in the house, she being in a half-dressed + condition, and put me on the bed and laid herself on me, kissing + me passionately on the mouth. She next unbuttoned my trousers and + fondled and kissed my member, and directed my hand to her + privates. I became very much excited and trembled violently, but + was able to do for her what she wanted in the way of masturbation + until she became wet. After this we had many meetings in which we + embraced and she let me introduce my member until she had + satisfied herself, though I was too young to have an emission. + + "On return to school I practised mutual masturbation with several + of my schoolfellows, and finally, at the age of 14 years, had my + first real emission. I was greatly pleased thereat, and, with + this and the growth of hair which began to show on my pubis, + began to feel myself quite a man. I loved lying in the arms of + another boy, pressing against his body, and fondling his person + and being fondled by him in return. We always finished up with + mutual masturbation. We never indulged in any unnatural + connections. + + "After leaving school I had no opportunity of indulging in + relations with my own sex, and, indeed, did not wish for such, as + I became a slave to the charms of the other sex, and passed most + of my time in either enjoying, or planning to enjoy, love + passages with them. + + "The sight of a woman's limbs or bust, especially if partly + hidden by pretty underclothing, and the more so if seen by + stealth, was sufficient to give a lustful feeling and a violent + erection, accompanied by palpitation of the heart and throbbing + in the head. + + "I had frequent coitus at the age of 17, as well as masturbating + regularly. I liked to perform masturbation on a girl, even more + than I liked having connection with her; and this was especially + so in the case of girls who had never had masturbation practised + on them before; I loved to see the look of surprised pleasure + appear on their faces as they felt the delightful and novel + sensation. + + "To gratify this desire I persuaded dozens of girls to allow me + to take liberties with them, and it would surprise you to learn + what a number of girls, many of them in good social position, + permitted me the liberty I desired, though the supply was never + equal to my demand. + + "With a view to enlarging my opportunities I took up the study of + medicine as a profession, and reveled in the chances it gave of + being on intimate sexual terms with many who would have been, + otherwise, out of my reach. + + "At the age of 25 I married the daughter of an officer, a + beautiful girl with a fully developed figure and an amorous + disposition. While engaged, we used to pass hours wrapped in each + other's arms, practising mutual masturbation, or I would kiss + her passionately on the mouth, introducing my tongue into her + mouth at intervals, with the invariable result that I had an + emission and she went off into sighs and shivers. After marriage + we practised all sorts of fancy coitus, _coitus reservatus_, + etc., and rarely passed twenty-four hours without two + conjunctions, until she got far on in the family way, and our + play had to cease for a while. + + "During this interval I went to stay at the house of an old + schoolfellow, who had been one of my lovers of days gone by. It + happened that on account of the number of guests staying in the + house the bed accommodation was somewhat scanty, and I agreed to + share my friend's bedroom. The sight of his naked body as he + undressed gave rise to lustful feelings in me; and when he had + turned out the light I stole across to his bed and got in beside + him. He made no objection, and we passed the night in mutual + masturbation and embraces, _coitus inter femora_, etc. I was + surprised to find how much I preferred this state of affairs to + coitus with my wife, and determined to enjoy the occasion to the + full. We passed a fortnight together in the above fashion, and, + though I afterward went back and did my duty by my wife, I never + took the same pleasure in her again, and when she died, five + years later, I felt no inclination to contract another marriage, + but devoted myself heart and soul to my old school-friend, with + whom I continued tender relations until his death by accident + last year. Since then I have lost all interest in life." + + "The patient," writes the well-known alienist to whom I am + indebted for the above history, "consulted me lately. I found him + a fairly healthy man to look at, suffering from some neurasthenia + and a tendency to melancholia. Generative organs large, one + testicle shows some wasting, pubic hair abundant, form of body + distinctly masculine; temperament neurotic. He improved under + treatment, and, after seeing me three times and writing out the + above history, came no more." + + + HISTORY XII.--Mrs. B., aged 32. Father's family normal; mother's + family clever, eccentric, somewhat neuropathic. She is herself + normal, good-looking, usually healthy, highly intelligent, and + with much practical ability, though at some periods of life, and + especially in childhood, she has shared to some extent in the + high-strung and supersensitive temperament of her mother's + family. As a child she was sometimes spoiled and sometimes + cuffed, and suffered tortures from nervousness. She has, however, + acquired a large measure of self-control. + + The first sensations which she now recognizes as sexual were + experienced at the age of 3, when her mother gave her an + injection; afterward she declared herself unable to relieve her + bowels naturally in order to obtain a repetition of this + experience, which was several times repeated. At the age of 7 a + man pursued her with attentions and attempted to take liberties, + but she rejected his advances in terror; four years later another + man attempted to assault her, but she resisted vigorously, struck + him, and escaped by running. Neither of these sexual attempts + appears to have left any serious permanent impression on the + child's mind. + + At the age of 11, when her mother was giving her a bath, the + sensation of her mother's fingers touching her private parts gave + her what she now knows to be sexual feelings, and a year later + when taking her bath she would pour hot water on to the sexual + region in order to cause these sensations; this did not lead to + masturbation, but she had a vague idea that it was "wrong." + + At the age of 12 menstruation began; she suffered very severely + from dysmenorrhea, the period sometimes lasting for ten days, and + the pain being often extreme. She was not treated for this + condition, her mother being of opinion that she would outgrow it. + From the age of 14 or 15 until 23, or about the period of her + marriage, she suffered from anemia. + + She had little curiosity about sexual matters; her mother wished + that she should always come to her for information about things + she became acquainted with as to the general facts of sex; she + did not, however, know definitely the facts of copulation until + her marriage. She knew nothing of erection or semen, and thought + that when a man and woman placed their organs together a child + resulted. She hated talking about these subjects indecently, and + would not listen to the sexual conversation of her schoolfellows. + She never felt any homosexual attraction. Once another girl was + much in love with her, but she despised and disliked her + attentions; again, when a girl much older than herself, a friend + of her mother's, slept with her and made advances, she repelled + her and refused to sleep with her again. + + She always got on well with men, and men were attracted to her. + She was direct and sincere, without undue modesty. But she never + allowed men to touch her or kiss her. She was a good dancer, and + fond of dancing, but denies that it ever led to sexual feelings. + She never felt any sexual attraction for a man until, at the age + of 20, she fell in love with her future husband five years or + more before marriage. + + At this period she began to feel vague discomfort, which she knew + to be localized near her sexual organs. She was aware, in a dim + way, that it was connected with her love, and was of a sexual + nature. But there was no definite idea of sexual intercourse. She + felt nervous and depressed. If she had been asked to state what + would relieve her, she could only have said B.'s presence and + tenderness. A few days before he declared his love she + experienced the nearest approach to sexual feeling she had ever + had. It was summer and, with B. and some of her family, she had + gone on a little expedition. One evening, in the train after a + day's excursion, B. took her hand (unperceived by the others) and + held it for some time. This aroused the strongest emotions in + her; she closed her eyes, and, though she was not at the time + aware that her sensations were localized in her sexual organs, + she thinks, in the light of subsequent knowledge, that she then + experienced the orgasm. + + During the engagement, which lasted between two and three years, + circumstances prevented frequent meetings. B. would kiss her, + suck her nipples, which became erect, and lie on her. She allowed + him to take these liberties, feeling that if she refused him all + satisfaction he might have relations with other women. She still + felt no definite desire for contact of the sexual organs. She + longed rather to be embraced and kissed, and to lie in her + lover's arms all night. A few months before marriage, however, + she masturbated occasionally, just before or just after + menstruation, imagining, while doing it, that she was in her + lover's arms. The act was usually followed by a sick feeling. + Just before marriage she underwent an operation for the relief of + the dysmenorrhea. She was somewhat shocked and sickened by the + experiences of the wedding night. It seemed to her that her + husband approached her with the violence of an animal, and there + was some difficulty in effecting entrance. Coitus, though + incomplete, took place some seven times on this first night. The + bleeding from rupture of the hymen continued, so that for two + days she had to wear a towel. For two months subsequently there + was great pain during intercourse, although she suppressed the + indications of this. + + There were several children born of the marriage and for some + years she lived happily, on the whole, with her husband, + notwithstanding various hardships and difficulties and some + incompatibility of temper. + + As regards her sexual feelings she considers, from what other + women have told her, that her feelings are, if anything, stronger + than the average. The orgasm, however, was not fully developed + until about five years after marriage. Sexual feeling is most + pronounced before, during, and after the menstrual period, more + especially before and about the third day (the period usually + lasts from five to seven days). There is more sexual desire + during pregnancy, especially toward the end, than at any other + time. She never refused normal intercourse to her husband, but + any abnormal or perverted method of sexual gratification is + repellent. She was awakened one night about the third month of + pregnancy by her husband inserting his penis _in ore_; the child + was born with palate defect and she is herself inclined to + believe that this incident was the cause of the defect. Though + she desires normal intercourse, she has seldom obtained complete + gratification. For a long time she disliked seeing or touching + the penis, and the feel, and especially the smell, of the semen + produced nausea and even vomiting. (She has a very delicate sense + of smell as well as of taste; though fond of the scent of + flowers, no sexual feelings are thus aroused.) Withdrawal and the + use of condoms are unsatisfactory to her, and mutual masturbation + gives no relief and produces headache. Feelings of friendship for + her husband have been most potent in arousing the sexual + emotions, and she has had most pleasure in intercourse after a + day spent in bicycling together. She has been for many months at + a time without sexual intercourse, and during such periods has + suffered much from pain in the head; this, however, she has now + completely surmounted. She eventually discovered that her + husband's abstinence from marital intercourse was due to + infidelity. This led to a definite separation. She still + occasionally experiences sexual desire, but has no inclination to + masturbate. Her life is full and busy, affording ample scope for + her energies and intelligence; moreover, she has her children to + train and educate. She herself believes that her sexual life is + at an end. + + + HISTORY XIII.--G.R., army officer. "I am 35 years of age. My + parents married at the ages of 38 and 25, and my father is now 84 + and my mother 71; both are particularly strong and healthy in + body and mind. I am of old lineage on both sides, and know of no + disease, defect, or abnormality among any of my ancestors or + relations, except that my mother's family has a slight tendency + to drink and excess, the present members of it all being + considered eccentric. I have one brother and one sister living + (brother unmarried, sister with several children) and am the + youngest of a family of five. My brother is abnormal, but I don't + know exactly in what way or from what cause. I have a strong + suspicion that he masturbates to excess. My father is artistic + and my mother musical. I have no aptitude for either, but + appreciate both enormously, though not until about ten years ago. + My principal reading is religion, science, and philosophy, with + an occasional standard novel, or a modern novel of the 'improper' + type by way of relaxation. I became a convinced and militant + rationalist about five years ago, but have been an unbeliever + since I left school. I was anemic and threatened with bowel + complaint at the age of 7, and was in consequence taken abroad + for my health. I am now strong and vigorous, with great powers of + endurance, and enjoy all forms of sport and exercise, + particularly hunting, pig-sticking, and polo. I drink a lot, and + am never fitter than when eating, drinking, and taking exercise + in what most people would call excess. It takes more alcohol than + I can hold to make me drunk when in England; but not so in the + East. I have been told that I am very good-looking. + + "When I was about 4 or 5 I was constantly chaffed by my older + companions about putting my hand down my trousers and playing + with my privates. I don't remember getting an erection, nor at + what age this first occurred with me. At one time my brother and + I used to play about with my sister's underclothing, and took + great pleasure in it, but we never saw her genitals. She told us + that on carefully examining herself one day she was glad to find + that she had a small penis like boys had--doubtless the clitoris. + When in France, at the age of 8 to 10, I began to notice the + sexual parts of animals, and was very keen to know what mares + kept between their hind legs. Later on I took great pleasure with + another boy in feeling the teats of a she-ass, and, by myself, + the penis of a donkey, as I had seen the French grooms do; but I + took no interest in my own penis. I used to put my finger as far + up the anus as it would go, and got a vague satisfaction from it. + I went to a small private school at the age of 11, having been + previously told by my mother of the manner of birth of men and + animals, of which I was quite ignorant till then. She made no + mention of the part taken by the father, and I never thought + about it. Even then I was left with the impression that one was + born through the navel. I was initiated at school, and used to + handle the penis of the boy who told me. On several occasions I + did _fellatio_ for him, and liked it, but he never offered to do + the same for me, and I don't think he got much satisfaction out + of it. Soon after this I became conscious of pleasurable + sensations when lying on my stomach with an erection, and used + occasionally to gratify myself that way, caring little for the + school tradition that it was 'wicked' and bad for one. On one + occasion, when talking at night with another boy, we compared our + organs, both in erection, and I then for the first time thought + of trying what I had heard vaguely mentioned, viz., two boys + playing at man and woman. I lay on him with my penis on his + stomach and almost at once had an orgasm with emission, and + experienced acute pleasure, though both he and I supposed that I + had involuntarily micturated. I was 13 when this happened. I did + it once more with him before I left, this time the other way up, + so as to spare him the unpleasantness. I used to like kissing and + hugging the smaller boys, and had a great eye for good looks. On + going home for the holidays I masturbated with my hand out of + curiosity to see what happened when the orgasm occurred, and then + only did I fully understand the nature of the act. After this the + rush and strangeness of a large public school distracted my + attention, but I heard about wet dreams, masturbation, and + homosexuality from the other boys, and soon became thoroughly + initiated. I believe the tone of my house, if not of the whole + school, was exceptionally bad; though it may only be that I saw + more of it because I was attracted by it, and that other schools + are the same really. Things involving certain expulsion if found + out were done more or less in public, and I have myself openly + got into bed with or masturbated other boys, and on more than one + occasion have helped forcibly to masturbate small boys or to hold + them while others had connection with them, the idea of the last + two acts being that the boy would thereby be seduced and become + available for, and willing to perform, homosexuality. Before I + became big enough to have boys myself I masturbated frequently + (on one occasion three times in the day), and invariably by lying + on my stomach without the use of the hands. In having connection + with other boys I used to do it between the thighs or on the + stomach, and I never heard of any other way at that school. + _Pædicatio_ would disgust me, and, moreover, would deprive me of + the principal pleasure of intercourse, viz., the feeling of lying + face to face and stomach to stomach. Of course, the satisfaction + used to be mutual, but, though good-looking, I was never the + passive party only, like some small boys who might be called + professionals and whom I used to pay for their services. I went + back after I had left and had a boy in the dark whom I had never + seen before, having been told that he was all right. I used to + have a very genuine affection for any party to my pleasure, + though I took delight in torturing one in particular, but for + what reason I cannot say. For one boy I developed a deep love, + which lasted long after we had left school and had ceased all + sexual connection. This love was as strong as anything I have + ever felt since. + + "I don't remember whether it was while I was at school or later + that I first began again to take a sexual interest in animals. I + used to masturbate a good deal and was always trying to find new + ways of doing it and new substances to lie on. It was while + feeling the vulva of a young mare that the brilliant thought + struck me of trying to copulate with her, and thus getting the + advantage of the soft vagina. It afforded me great satisfaction + and I had an emission, though I did not then, nor at any other + time with any other animal, succeed in penetrating properly. I + afterward did the same with other mares and with a certain cow + whenever I got a safe opportunity, which was not as often as I + could have wished. I have not had connection with an animal for + about ten years, but would have no objection to doing so, and + feel sure I could perform the act properly now. After I left + school at 17, I occasionally had longings for boys, but it was + the exception and not the rule. I continued to masturbate, but + not to excess, and used to make ineffectual efforts to stop it, + but never succeeded for very long. When I was confirmed, at the + age of 15, I became intensely religious, and was so remorseful at + my first lapse from virtue that I burnt my leg with a red-hot + poker, and I bear the scar still. On leaving school I went to + Germany and there had my first coitus with a woman, a fat old + German who gave me very little satisfaction. My next, a Jewess, + gave me more than I asked for, in the shape of a soft chancre. In + my ignorance I never had it treated, but it must have been very + mild, for it disappeared of its own accord. When cramming in + England I occasionally went home with a prostitute, but did not + care much about them and could not afford good ones. On one + occasion I was impotent. It may have been through drink, but it + disgusted me with myself. I liked seeing the women naked, and + always insisted that they should strip, especially the breasts, + which I liked large and full. I had not learned to kiss on the + lips, and had no desire to kiss the body, except the breasts, + which I was generally too shy to do. But as I nearly always wore + a condom and found penetration difficult I did not much enjoy the + actual coitus. I am fully convinced that if women had been more + accessible, if I had not thought myself bound to use preventives + in self-defense, and if the act had not been looked upon with + such disfavor by those in authority over me, I should have + masturbated less or not at all, and would not have been tempted + to bestiality. When I was 22 I had coitus with a girl who was not + a prostitute for the first time. I was violently excited and + enjoyed it more than anything I had yet experienced, in spite of + the facts that she would not undress and insisted on withdrawal + before emission. On one other occasion only have I had coitus + with a non-professional unmarried woman. Shortly after this I + caught syphilis from a girl of the streets. I was circumcised and + stayed in a private hospital for six weeks. It never went beyond + the primary stage, and I have felt no ill effects from it, except + that I have got a hydrocele in the right testicle. Of course, + this incident necessitated the use of a condom on every occasion, + and it greatly spoiled my pleasure. About this time a + brother-officer older than myself made advances to me. He + compared me to a Greek statue, and wanted to kiss me. I would + have nothing to do with him, but was glad to have his confessions + of homosexuality and somewhat surprised to learn that he was not + alone in the regiment. I afterward fell in love with his sister, + and he married and had children. He was bisexual in his + inclinations, but was really in love with me for a short time. + + "I had little to do with professionals until I went to South + Africa, and though I was fond of ladies' society, and liked by + ladies, I looked upon them as something apart, especially married + women, and never attempted to take liberties with them; though I + used to with shopgirls, etc., in my cramming days, and had often + been in love. In South Africa I first began really to enjoy + coitus, and on going to India continued to do so; in fact, I + thought sexually of nothing else and rarely masturbated,--perhaps + once in three weeks. I would go to brothels wherever they were + available, Durban, Cape Town, Colombo, Calcutta, Bombay, and at + one time preferred black women to white. I used to have horrible + orgies with my brother-officers, and on one occasion I ordered + six women to my bungalow in order to celebrate my birthday, and + made a present of them to five of my friends after dinner. During + this period, and until I went home, I rarely spoke to a lady, the + chief exception being No. 1, a brother-officer's wife, with whom + I began to be in love. + + "Shortly after the South African War I fell violently in love + with a young brother-officer, 'Z.' It amounted to a passion and I + was forced to make overtures to him. He did not understand, being + ignorant of homosexuality and quite virile, and would have + nothing to do with me, though he was very nice about it. This + lasted for about a year, and then, thinking no doubt that he had + better stop it, as I was really making myself very ridiculous and + was mad with love, he threw me up altogether. I was intensely + miserable for some time, and then I recovered and we made it up, + and are now firm friends. I still want to kiss and stroke him + when I see him naked, but would do nothing more. I went home by + way of Japan after several years' absence from home, taking the + women of the Eastern ports as I went, until I contracted + gonorrhea in the Tokio Yoshiwara. I could not get rid of it, and + arrived home in that state, having been deprived of the pleasure + of trying several new races on the way in consequence. In England + I rushed into a society which I had quit on such different terms, + and it received me with open arms. I very soon began a flirtation + with a married woman, and she completed my education in kissing + which had been begun by the Japanese harlots. I was just coming + to the point with this woman when I met No. 1 again, and my love + for her was at once renewed. I told her so, but I knew that she + did not return it. I then became attracted to No. 2, a girl older + than myself, whom I had known all my life. I kissed her and + fondled her breasts; but she would not allow anything else, until + one night, when in the train with her, I got my hand down farther + than she intended. It ended in my performing _cunnilingus_ on her + first, and then obtaining satisfaction between her thighs--a + large step to take after the former limitations. Previous to this + I had on several occasions obtained an emission, without meaning + to, by lying on her fully dressed. She was aware of my disease, + which by that time had become a gleet and did not inconvenience + me in any way. From that time until I went back to India we went + through the same performance whenever possible, I masturbating + her sometimes with the finger, sometimes with the tongue, and + having connection with various parts of her body, including the + breasts, but always with a condom on account of my disease. She + used to strip for my edification, and we frequently spent the + night in the same bed. I was attracted to her mentally, but not + very much physically; that is to say, that if circumstances had + not thrown us together I should never have picked her out from + other girls as being sexually attractive to me. I returned to + India, and to No. 1, though I kept faithful to No. 2 in word and + deed for five months, but gradually the overmastering influence + of No. 1 reasserted itself over me. And then I met No. 3. We were + attracted to each other at first acquaintance, and the attraction + was mental and sexual. She was married and in love with another + man, but that did not prevent her from kissing me. I felt her + breasts, masturbated her, and had emissions by lying on her, but + she drew the line at one thing, viz., kissing on the lips; and I + drew it at coitus. We arranged a trip together during which I + went to bed with her, but never had coitus, though we both had + frequent orgasms in other ways. Before starting on this trip I + had thought that I should not see No. 1 again, and she let me + kiss her, to my unspeakable joy. Circumstances, however, + intervened, and I went straight to No. 1 after parting with No. + 3, told her all I had done, and then kissed her again, leaving + her just before her real lover, with whom she was then living, + arrived. Later I returned again to No. 1, now in child to her + lover. We lived together for three nights in spite of this. She + then went home, and I had no connection with any woman for two + years, except one black woman, being consumed with love and + worship for No. 1. I was much in society, but never had any luck. + At the end of this time I was traveling one night with a young + officer ('X'), slight and effeminate and preferring men to women, + with whom I had been until then on friendly but not intimate + terms. I watched him undress and go to bed, and then, having + myself undressed, went over to his bunk and put my hand under his + clothes. He at once responded, and I got into his bed, both of us + being in a frenzy of passion and surprise. But I was fairly sure + of my ground or I would not have dared to take the risk. I used + often to go to his bed after this, and on one occasion had coitus + with a girl on a chair at a ball and the next night with my young + officer. I scarcely knew the girl, and don't know her name now, + but I took her measure, made her excited by manipulation and + kissing, and then got her consent. I did not harm her, even if I + had been the first, for orgasm occurred before I had penetrated + beyond the lips. X surprised me by telling me that he had had + connection with three other officers in my regiment, as well as + with several others in the same station. He would not tell me + their names, but I guessed easily enough. He used to drink + heavily, and once I got into his bed when he was in a drunken + stupor and he was quite unaware that I was there for some time. I + myself was drinking too much at this time, and was frequently + drunk before dinner. In the hot weather that followed I had one + orgy in Bombay which lasted three nights. I started on a Greek + and a Pole and finished up with a Japanese, two brother-officers + accompanying me. Afterward I was much alone during the day in my + bungalow, and used to become possessed by intense desire. I + masturbated occasionally, but by this time took but little + pleasure in it, always craving for the moist human vagina. I had + often heard, and myself quoted, the Pathan proverb 'Women for + breeding; boys for pleasure; melons for delight,' and one day + when seeking for some novelty with which to masturbate, and my + eye being caught by a melon put ready for me to eat, it flashed + across me to try whether the proverb was in any way true. I found + it most satisfactory, and practised it several times after that, + the pepita (papaye or pawpaw) being the nearest approach to the + human vagina. The opportune arrival of a fairly good-looking + punkah woman, however, put an end to this form of enjoyment by + providing me with what I wanted. Soon afterward I went home + again, taking the Japanese at Bombay on my way. + + "I had kept up a correspondence with No. 1 all this time, but we + had made a compact that whatever each did until we met again was + not to count, and I knew that she had had at least one liaison + since our parting, and was in entire ignorance of the state of + her feelings toward me. Therefore, while trying to arrange a + meeting with her, I took the first thing that chance threw in my + way, thinking a bird in the hand better than the off chance of a + better one in the bush. This was No. 4, with whom I spent three + days at the seaside after having first had coitus with her in my + own home while she was in the monthly state. Immediately on + parting from her I came home to receive No. 1. The first time we + were alone she kissed me, and this was followed by mutual + confessions and coitus, though at first she said my affair was + too recent. I agreed not to have connection again with No. 4, and + kept to this until when staying in the same house again with her + I was tempted beyond my powers; and I may add that she gave me no + assistance in keeping this promise, of which she was fully + cognizant. I at once wrote and confessed to No. 1, and she very + naturally would have nothing more to do with me. But I managed to + reconcile her, and we afterward lived together for three days in + the country, as well as in London and in her own house. Meanwhile + No. 5 had been making advances to me which I could not well + refuse, being a very old friend. Nos. 4 and 5 were on one + occasion staying together at my house, just after I had been + faithless to No. 1 with No. 4. I could not very well sleep with + them both, so at the earnest entreaty of No. 4 I went to her room + first, told her my reasons for not having connection with her, + left her in tears, and then went and slept with No. 5. This is + the only transaction I have ever concealed from No. 1; but No. 5 + knows my whole story and accepts the situation of being only + second so long as I give her satisfaction whenever possible. + About this time I again met No. 3 and kissed and masturbated her + in a cab, but she would not allow me to go home with her. At the + bidding of No. 1 I now broke entirely with No. 4, to the great + grief and astonishment of my sister, whose friend she was. + Shortly after this I again returned to India, where I quarreled + hopelessly with No. 1, and I don't know to this day what my fault + was, except that she had got tired of me. Her influence over me + is, however, too great to be so easily broken, and I would return + to her tomorrow if she moved a finger in reconciliation. During + the following hot weather I slowly but surely, albeit quite + unconsciously, obtained an influence over No. 6, and it ended by + her falling desperately in love with me and allowing me to do + what I liked. I did not love her, and told her about No. 1, whose + image always remained in the back of my vision, whatever I was + doing. She also accepted the situation, and I don't think has any + grievance against me. For my part I have nothing but thanks and + gratitude and as much love as I am capable of to give her, and + all the other women with whom I have had any sexual relations. + The following is a short account of the above women:-- + + "No. 1. Had coitus before marriage, for love and with full + knowledge of the nature of the act. Agreement with her husband + not to have coitus rigidly adhered to by both. Has had connection + with five other men since marriage. Very passionate, but faddy + and particular. Slow at producing orgasm. Likes being in bed + naked, and liked me once for having kissed her mons veneris. + Thin, with undeveloped breasts. Brilliant, good-looking. Artistic + and highly intellectual. Never masturbated, and did not know of + homosexuality among women; very sensitive to touch on the + pudenda. + + "No. 2. Has had sexual relations, but never coitus, with many + men. Mutually masturbated with one man. Masturbated herself + frequently, and took a long time to produce orgasm, even with + _cunnilingus_, which delighted her immensely. After having it + performed, she would stoop down and passionately kiss my lips. + Fond of prolonged kisses, during which the tongue played a + prominent part. Tall and fully developed, but no looks. Clever, + masculine brain, and strong physically. Skillfully concealed her + passionate nature, which, however, was long in developing and was + long kept in check by maidenly modesty. + + "No. 3. Innocent before marriage, and hated her _fiancé_ even to + touch her, which feeling still persists. Has had liaisons with + many men, and several miscarriages, one legitimate, others + illegitimate, and one illegitimate child. Does not masturbate + herself, but readily yields to its seduction when performed by + others. The most passionate woman I have ever met. Good, typical, + womanly figure, but thin and weak. Not much looks, but very + fascinating to men. Clever and intellectual. + + "No. 4. Coitus only with her husband before myself. Not very + passionate. I know nothing about masturbation or homosexuality in + her case. Very broad hips, large breasts, and well-developed + nates. Deserted by her husband. No children. Rather foolish and + weak-minded. Penetration difficult owing to long labia majora. + + "No. 5. Knows all about homosexuality of both sexes and wants to + know more about everything. Probably masturbates. Several + children. In love with her husband at first, but now tired of him + and took to other men for variety and because her husband had + ceased to give her sexual pleasure. Very passionate; has slow + orgasm; likes nakedness and contact of body. Very large vagina. + Broad hips and full breasts. Intellectual, but not so by nature. + Artistic and very musical. + + "No. 6. Absolutely innocent before marriage. Was practically + raped by her husband on her marriage night. This disgusted her + with the whole performance, and she could not bear her husband's + caresses. During pregnancy she was frightened because she did not + know what was going to happen, i.e., how the child was going to + be born; and no one enlightened her,--doctor, nurse, or mother. + Did not know the meaning of the words sexual feeling, and never + thought about sexual matters at all until marriage. I roused her + passion, put things in their true light, made her have an orgasm, + and told her what it meant. The orgasms at first made her cry and + nearly faint, and she thereafter became intensely passionate. + Very excited at cunnilingus, which I practised on her more than + once. She confessed that the orgasm was stronger and more + complete during coitus than during masturbation, which relieved + my mind. She volunteered to strip naked and has but little + shyness with me. Cannot bear her husband yet. She admits that she + was only half a woman before she knew me, but now regrets her + marriage. Short, thin, and slight, with narrow hips and no + breasts. Quick woman's wit, but not intellectual. + + "Of the prostitutes I have known, perhaps 60 in number, the + Japanese easily take the palm. They are scrupulously clean, have + charming manners and beautiful bodies, and take an intelligent + interest in the proceedings. Also they are not always thinking + about the money. Perhaps the Kashmiris come next, though the + Chinese run them very close. Some of the more expensive London + women are bearable, but they are such harlots! The white women in + the East are insupportable, and small wonder, for they consist of + the dregs of the European and American markets. My list comprises + English, French, German, Italian, Spanish-American, American, + Bengali, Punjabi, Kashmiri, Kaffir, Singhalese, Tamil, Burmese, + Malay, Japanese, Chinese, Greek, and Pole. + + "I naturally prefer to satisfy myself with a woman, a friend and + a lady of my own class; but in the absence of the best I gladly + take the next best available, down the scale from a lady for + whom I do not care to prostitutes of all classes and colors, men, + boys, animals, melons, and masturbation. I would as cheerfully + have connection with my sister, or any other female relative. I + have frequent erotic dreams about the most extraordinary + subjects--male and female relations, casual acquaintances of both + sexes, and animals. When I have got an intrigue in hand with a + woman, I have no wish to masturbate, and often restrain myself + when I know that I am going to have access before long to + prostitutes. After coitus it takes a long time before I am ready + for the next, sometimes two hours; and the first is always very + quick, nearly always too quick for the woman. With a strange + woman I have difficulty in maintaining erection at the instant of + penetration, and this has often given me trouble. + + "I know that most women like, and few dislike, being touched by + me. My favorite colors are green and red, and I can whistle quite + well. + + "I would be very glad to know whether I may be considered + sexually normal or not, but I do not desire any opinion on the + morality of my acts, for the simple reason that without knowing + all the circumstances it would be impossible to judge. But I + cannot help saying that I do not consider anything I have done is + wrong in itself, and I am quite certain that I have never harmed + in any way any of the ladies with whom I have had relations. I am + certain, if I had made promises which I knew I could not keep, I + might have married one of them. But the result would have been + great unhappiness to both, quarrels, and ultimate separation or + divorce--and she realized that as well as I did. I may seem + egotistical in my attitude and assurance toward ladies, but I + only speak the honest truth; and I know that No. 6, for instance, + has only gratitude and worship to give me for having opened her + eyes. I have made her promise to have intercourse with her + husband as soon as she can bear it, and I have satisfied myself + that I have not started her on the road to sexual perversion. So + much in self-explanation. I may add that I do not deliberately + seek 'affaires de coeur,' and that, when they come my way, I do + my utmost to use all consideration for the lady, thinking, as I + do, that I owe them a far bigger debt than I shall ever be able + to pay." + + + HISTORY XIV.--J.E., professional man, aged 32. Public school and + university education, in which he did well. From age of 6 or 7 + had strong sexual emotions, and from 9 sexually pleasurable + dreams, though no emission till 12 or 13. He remembers the + association of sexual excitement with whipping, either at sight + or imagination of it, and this feeling was certainly shared by + boys aged 9 to 12 at his private boarding-school and others at + the public school later on. His nurse-maid used to invent excuses + for beating his nates with a long lead-pencil when he was aged + about 7, and he saw occasional whippings with clothes removed in + the family nursery. + + When nearly 16 he was initiated into masturbation, which at once + coincided with rapid mental development and success at school. He + has practised it ever since under same conditions and + restrictions as marital intercourse. Religion has never acted as + any restraint, and the best restraint to all young people, in his + opinion, is to warn them on hygienic grounds. (He became a + freethinker at 17, partly on observing the inconsistency of + religious persons in this connection. He was twice set upon by + Catholics when 16, who attempted mutual masturbation.) He can + vaguely remember some such warning when very young from his + mother. + + No intercourse with women till age of 19, though strong + homosexual feelings from 10 upward, associated with feminine + youths. These feelings were quite distinct from feelings of + affection and friendship for more virile youths. An attack of + gonorrhea at 21 was followed by an operation for circumcision, + which had beneficial effects, but did not prevent an attack of + syphilis at age of 23, caught at a guaranteed state establishment + in France. Intercourse almost always with prostitutes, on + prudential and worldly grounds, though what he approves would be + greater laxity between boys and girls, with proper safeguards + against undesired offspring. He is now happily married. He only + indulges in masturbation at times when intercourse is impossible + (e.g., childbirth). It is then practised once or twice a week in + the early morning; overnight it causes troubled sleep, brain + activity, and constipation. This seems ethically more desirable + unless the wife were to condone physical infidelity, which she + would not, and even then there might be risks of venereal + disease. His general health and working power are in all respects + excellent, as the venereal diseases were speedily and thoroughly + cured. Homosexual feeling has entirely disappeared since + marriage. + + HISTORY XV.--G.D., English; aged 60. "My earliest essays in + juvenile vice were due not so much to unguarded as to unguided + ignorance. I slipped where my natural protectors suspected no + danger, and I fell because I had never been warned of the + treacherous nature of the ground. Before or soon after I was 7 + years old, the example of an elder brother, who had lately begun + to go to school as a day-boy, initiated me into the mysteries of + masturbation, which seemed to me then as harmless as it was + fascinating; and the novel pleasure was almost daily indulged in, + after I had acquired sufficient dexterity to accomplish the act + within a reasonable time, without a twinge of conscience, either + in that brother's company or when alone. Decency demanded secrecy + in the gratification of what soon became an imperious desire, + and the preliminary operations included, almost from the first, + mutual _fellatio_ and approximation of the excited organs; but + similar privacy was very properly sought during the performance + of other bodily acts associated with those 'less honorable + members,' and it appeared to me quite as natural and right for us + to amuse ourselves together in that way as for a married couple + to hide their most intimate embraces from the observation of + others. Indeed, I went farther than that, and even came to regard + the absence of all shame between us as akin to the primeval + innocence which Adam and Eve exhibited before the Fall. I + believed for long that we two were specially privileged and + possessed a peculiar sense denied to other boys, for I had never + heard of masturbation till I learnt, not the word indeed, but the + thing itself. + + "My curiosity about the real nature of sexual union in the case + of human beings set my intelligence to work at the interesting + problem, and by carefully studying certain parts of the Bible, + Lemprière's classical and other dictionaries, as well as by + persistently watching when I could the amorous proceedings of + domestic animals, I learnt enough to make its most prominent + features pretty clear before I was 11 years of age. I was then + all eagerness to have the opportunity of inspecting at close + quarters the genitals of women or young girls, and a stay at the + seaside when I was 12 made the latter at least feasible. When the + shore was nearly deserted, between 1 and 2 P.M., the daughters of + the fisherfolk used to besiege the bathing machines and disport + themselves in the water, bathing and paddling in various stages + of nudity. I would pretend that my whole attention was being + given to the making of miniature tunnels in the sand, while all + the time I slyly peeped at what I most desired to see, whether in + front or from behind, as the dancing damsels stood upright or + stooped till their haunches were higher than their heads. I had + already read something somewhere about the _clitoris_, and wanted + especially to see it, but indistinct glimpses were all that I + could obtain; nor was it until I visited an anatomical museum, + which then existed at the top of the Haymarket in London, that I + learned, a good many years later, from several life-sized models + there displayed, the characteristic features of that part, as + well as the abnormal modifications to which it is subject, either + congenitally or in consequence of profligate habits. I was 15, I + think, when I first came to know that girls can masturbate as + well as boys. + + "Long after I had realized why the terms male and female are so + distinguished, my imagination was occupied with the possible + postures in which the act of copulation may be accomplished by a + man and woman; from Horace, Lucretius, Martial, Aristophanes, + and, above all, from Ovid's _Ars Amatoria_ I obtained much, but + not always very clear, information while still a schoolboy. This + was supplemented later by photographic pictures from Pompeiian + brothels and photographs from life, purchased at Florence and + gloated over one night, with twice-repeated masturbation, and + afterward destroyed in a revulsion of shame. + + "But while continuing to practise self-abuse (with a certain + degree of restraint indeed, but seldom less often than once or + even twice a week), after I had been made fully aware of its + perils by Dr. Adam Clarke's alarming comments on Genesis xxxviii, + 9, when I was about 12 or 13, I never had connection with a woman + until I married somewhat late in life. This abstinence was not + due to any frigidity of disposition, but from prudential and + religious motives, and, to some extent perhaps, from the + imperfect but genuine satisfaction afforded by solitary + indulgence. My imagination, like that of young J.J. Rousseau, as + set forth in his _Confessions_, was allowed free scope for its + exercise, but in practice I confined myself to what seemed to me + comparatively innocent as compared with fornication. I was never + an unreserved 'exhibitionist' like Rousseau, but I have on more + than one occasion turned toward a hedge and pretended to make + water, when a girl had just passed me on the road, showing a + _turgens cauda_ if she should chance out of curiosity to look + back, as once, at any rate, happened. + + "I watched with interest the first indications of puberty in my + own person. I had, of course, seen the pubic hair on many of my + own sex, but I was 17 when I first saw a naked woman. She was + standing at the door of her machine, wringing out her + bathing-dress, as I swam past, and her face was hidden by the + awning then used, so that she could not see me. A slight effusion + of limpid mucus began to characterize the orgasm, at the age of + 12 or 13 (before any ejaculation of semen was experienced), such + as exuded later from the _urethra_ when salacious excitement + reached a certain pitch, even though the final climax might be + postponed or prevented altogether. I found it a refinement of + luxury to prolong the period of tumescence as far as possible, by + frequently checking a too rapid progress toward the goal. By this + practice of repeated arrest when the orgasm was imminent, and the + mental debauchery which was its habitual accompaniment, I believe + I did my nervous system more damage than by anything else--even + the early age at which the dangerous indulgence became + established. Nocturnal emissions (the sequel of lascivious + dreams) commenced when I was about 15, at which age I had my + first experience of an involuntary discharge when awake, under + the influence of purely mental emotion; but this latter mode of + escape did not often happen, and later on ceased altogether. My + muscular strength was not impaired by too frequent indulgence, + and I acquired some athletic prowess on the football field and on + the running path, both as a boy and as a young man. Walking tours + were for long my favorite recreation, even after the bicycle + became an increasing attraction. My health, however, suffered in + other ways from too constant absorption in lustful thoughts, + which found vent in erotic verses and tales, generally destroyed + soon after they were written. I have been subject since I was a + boy to more or less prolonged fits of mental depression. How far + I have inherited this tendency (my father and his father both + married first cousins, and a neurotic diathesis has been + characteristic of our family), or how far it has been aggravated + by pernicious habits, I cannot say; cause and effect have no + doubt acted and reacted on each other. + + "As I grew toward adolescence I endeavored to make self-abuse as + close an imitation as possible of sexual intercourse by such + methods as may be easily imagined. My biological studies (I won a + scholarship and took honors at my university) were directed with + most intent predilection toward the reproductive system, + particularly the modifications of the copulatory organs in + different animals and the diverse manner of their employment. The + sexual instinct, whether in its normal or abnormal + manifestations, is a subject which has always had a strong + attraction for me, nor has it lost its fascination with the + growth of years (I am now 60) nor the competition of other + interests. + + "My very limited experience of the sexual system in women would + lead me to believe that the _clitoris_ is the only peculiarly + sensitive part of the female _genitalia_, coition giving no + pleasure unless 'the trigger of love' is simultaneously + manipulated, as can be done when intromission is effected _a + tergo_; that the mind of a normally healthy maiden is altogether + free from sexual excitement of a physical kind, and that little + curiosity is felt about the precise _modus operandi_ of conjugal + intercourse; but, nevertheless, I have good reason to believe + that this, if not an unusual type, is by no means the only one + that exists. + + "As to sexual inversion my personal experience has been confined + to two or three _grandes passions_ for boys, the first of which + possessed me when between the ages of 16 and 18, and involved, + when I was 17, the most intense mental emotion, of a romantic + kind, tinged with poignant jealousy and vexation at comparative + coldness toward myself. These love passages never led me into + indelicate behavior (I was once threatened with such treatment + myself by a stranger whose acquaintance I made one day at the + British Museum, when a lad of 15. He took me to his bedroom at an + inn, locked the door, and showed me a collection of coins, giving + me some, and, while doing so, attempted to take indecent + liberties; but I pretended that I must catch a certain train, + unlocked the door, and made a hasty escape), nor was any + gratification sought beyond occasional kisses and other innocent + endearments, though such caresses would sometimes excite an + erection, which I carefully concealed. These amours were, + however, no outcome of perverted instinct, nor were they any bar + to fancies for the opposite sex which affected my imagination + rather than my heart." + + + HISTORY XVI.--This history is given in the subject's own words: + A.N., 34 years of age, a university graduate, devoted to learning + and interested in philosophy and theology. He is happily married + and the father of an only daughter. Since puberty he has enjoyed + excellent health. + + "Looking back he finds the beginnings of sexual feeling obscure. + This feeling is by no means identical in its progress with the + knowledge of the phenomena of sex generally. The latter he + acquired thus: His mother told him at a very early age the + outlines of the phenomena of birth and explained to him (perhaps + at that time unnecessarily) that the genital organs of little + girls were different from his own. This piece of knowledge led to + his asking, when 9 years old, a little girl cousin who came to + live with the family (he was an only child) and who shared his + bed to let him see her genitalia. This she readily did and also + invited him to coitus, which she described as a 'nice game.' He + complied, but without, of course, any feeling of pleasure or any + understanding of the nature of what he was doing. Shortly after + this he went to a day school, where, amid the extraordinarily + coarse conversation of the boys, he was initiated into all the + more obvious phenomena of sex. But still it was only a matter of + intellectual curiosity. As such it had a strange fascination for + him, and to this day he remembers many of the obscene words and + phrases, as, for example, a set of indecent verses beginning + 'William, the milkman, sat under a tree,' describing coitus, + though some of the details were yet misunderstood by him. That up + to his tenth or eleventh year no real sexual desire was awakened + is plain from the fact that there was no desire for any + repetition of attempts at coitus with his cousin, though he did + indeed, again out of curiosity, finger her genitals sometimes, a + thing which she, grown evidently more fastidious, reported to his + mother, who gravely reprimanded him, telling him that it was the + 'beginning of all evil.' + + "Desire was awakened gradually and, as I have said, obscurely. + Not only at school, but among his own cousins, especially two + girls (other than the one above mentioned) and a boy, the + conversation was lascivious in the extreme, though words never + proceeded to deeds as between the boys and the girls. He was + soon, however, about his fifteenth year, so far as he can + remember, initiated into the practice of masturbation, first, + sleeping with his boy cousin, the two used to play at 'husband + and wife,' and then, more directly, a neighbor, a heavy, sensual + type of boy, took him aside one day and drawing out his own penis + asked him 'if he knew how to make some buttermilk.' Out of + curiosity at first, and to obtain the new and voluptuous + sensation afterward, he began assiduously to practise this vice, + which, as he afterward found out, was very common, if not + universal about him. That it was morally reprehensible he had not + at that time the ghost of a notion; he considered that it + belonged to the category of the 'dirty' only. His father quite + neglected this development, believing, I suppose, in the + superstition of the 'innocence of childhood.' + + "This practice of masturbation went on assiduously to his + sixteenth year, when its true nature and danger were revealed to + him by a good clergyman who prepared him for confirmation. He had + at this time gone far, in both solitary vice and vice 'à deux,' + with his male cousin, with whom he practised even 'fellatio' and + 'intromissio in anum.' But now he began to struggle against it + and made some headway, but never entirely shook it off before his + marriage at 26, so deeply rooted was the hold it had on him. + Especially at the time between sleeping and waking, or while + lying sleepless at night--when the monks prayed 'ne polluantur + corpora'--did its attacks come insidiously upon him. He would + struggle for weeks and then would come a relapse. On one occasion + he slept with a young uncle who amused himself, thinking he was + asleep, by playing with his penis until he had an emission. A.N. + hailed the occasion with keen joy--he caustically argued that he + experienced the pleasure without being culpable in its + production! Then on 'coming to himself' he would agonize over his + vice, remembering, for example, that, while _he_ had rejoiced in + what had been done, the very cousin who some time before used to + share his sin was genuinely annoyed at the same uncle's + attentions when it was he who suffered them. + + "Looking back over the whole period of his youth and adolescence, + he can trace the psychological effect of what was going on + secretly, in his relations to girls and women. In a word, these + relations were sentimental only. He often imagined himself in + love; but it was imagination only. He was in love with a wraith, + not a girl of flesh and blood. He hesitated to regard in any + sexual way any girl of whom he had a high opinion; sexual desire + and 'love' seemed for him to inhabit different worlds and that it + would be a pollution to bring them together. In hours of + relaxation from the very hard intellectual work which he was at + this time engaged on at school and at the university, he was + quite content with the society of quite young girls or even + children when most of his friends would have sought out females + of their own age. Nothing could have been farther from his + desires or intention than any lascivious or, indeed, unseemly act + toward any female in whose company he might be: no mother need + have hesitated to trust her daughter in his company. I firmly + believe that the discipline of the same bed which Gibbon + (_Decline and Fall_, ed. Bury, vol. ii, p. 37) makes so merry + over could have been endured by him without difficulty. His + outward conduct was in all these respects most seemly and + decorous, yet night after night he could masturbate, his + imagination glowing with visions of female nakedness. + + "Curiously the one and only actual female for whom he felt any + desire at the earlier period (aged 14 to 16) began to be the + cousin who lived in the house. On one occasion he touched her + breasts, on another her naked thighs--and that was all! As she + grew to puberty, she would have allowed far more liberties, but + he contented himself with a sly glance now and again, when he + could procure it, at her swelling bosom. The fear of putting her + with child was ample to keep him away from her bed. Later on even + so much as the foregoing occurred no more, and, as I have said, + his outward life became absolutely decorous. + + "Consequently he was in no danger of having dealings with + prostitutes. The preliminaries, the conversation of such women, + especially their drinking habits, would have been disgusting and + repugnant to him in the extreme. He would have shunned the + possibility of acquiring venereal disease like the plague. But he + was never free from solitary vice; he secretly envied those who + had occasions for coitus in what I may call a seemly and cleanly + manner, friends in the country with farm girls, etc., of whom he + had heard. He indulged also in lascivious reading, the obscene + when he could procure it, rather than the merely suggestive, + which has never been to his taste. He was familiar with quite a + large number of Latin and Greek indecent passages, knew the + broader farces of the _Canterbury Tales_ and of the _Decameron_, + and, later, the 'contes' of La Fontaine and the _Facetiæ_ of + Poggio. As Ste.-Beuve says of Gibbon, I think, he acquired an + 'erudite and cold' sort of obscenity in this way. + + "All this, of course, is only one half, and by no means always + the dominant half, of his nature. He was often repentant for + these delinquencies, and he was sincerely religious. He was also + fond of serious learning and contrived to take a first-class + university degree. Yet, ever and anon, the deeply sensual side of + his nature made itself felt. Scotched for a time it could be, but + killed never. + + "Yet, I do not think it could be said that he had the sexual + instinct in any really high degree. It was more like a small fly + that makes a large buzz than any considerable factor in his + constitution. He had a companion about this time of whom such a + remark is even more true. This man's mind was replete with all + manner of risky stories, all sorts of sexual details. He would + take long walks with girls of loose character, talk with + prostitutes at home and abroad, and yet, I believe, he never + proceeded to coitus. + + "Such then, was the subject of this notice up to the time of his + marriage. Two men, one might say, in one skin. One learned, one + merely obscene; one a pattern of decorousness, the other a + self-polluter. + + "On the sexual side he was as one knowing everything there is to + know--yet knowing nothing. Like the boy-hero in Wedekind's + _Frühling's Erwachen_, he had been long in Egypt, yet he had + never seen the pyramids. He began to distress himself with + questions as to whether he was yet capable; whether his recurring + vice had not permanently injured him; whether he had made himself + unfit for marriage. So shy and reserved was he about his secret + that he could never have brought himself to mention it to a + medical man. 'What! he! the good, the religious! the wholly moral + and decorous!' (such was, indeed, the reputation he had among his + friends); 'he, the victim of a vice so black!' No, no! '_Secretum + meum mihi_,' he cried. + + "Fortune, however, was kind to him. He was at an early age free + from financial worries, which had almost crushed him earlier in + his career, and he met in course of time the family from which he + selected his excellent wife. + + "The society in which he lived was of all English classes, I + should suppose, the most reticent in matters of sex--the + respectable, lower middle class; shopkeepers and the like, with a + tradition of homely religion and virtue. The classes a little + higher in the scale (to which, by the way, his mother had + belonged) could far better sympathize with one in his position. + Well, the family of his future wife was of a higher class and, + what is far more, of foreign origin, for whom a large number of + our English 'convenances' do not exist. To them sex was frankly + recognized as a factor in life, and the mother of this household, + as he grew more intimate, broached subjects which he had never, + in such a manner, discussed before. It is unnecessary to give + here any general history of his relationships with this + household, as they have nothing to do with the matter in hand. + After some time he became engaged to the youngest daughter, two + years his senior, a woman of remarkable beauty and splendid + development, one who attracted him as none other had done, both + on account of her intellectual and social qualities and her + physical beauty (he had hitherto despaired of finding the two + combined in one person), for she is certainly the most beautiful + woman with whom he has ever been acquainted. + + "He now began to make the practical acquaintance of a woman--and + one who, in impulses, temper, manner, and habit of thought, + differed _toto cælo_ from the girls he had known in his old home. + Her sexual nature was ripe and developed, and it is lucky that + the engagement was of short duration, or the strain and + anticipation of that time might have been injurious to the health + of both. As usual, in his outward relations toward women, so + toward his _fiancée_, he was prepared for chaste caresses only. + This, however, did not suffice for her hot and passionate nature. + They went as far as possible short of actual coitus. + + "After a few months, however, the marriage took place, and, at + first, this brought him bitter disappointment and seemed to + confirm his worst fears. He found himself quite unable to have + pleasure or satisfactory coitus; quite incapable, with any + erection that he could command, of introducing his well-developed + penis into his wife's extremely narrow and contracted vagina. + About a fortnight after the marriage, however, on his return from + their short wedding tour, he felt much stronger and copulated + with her, especially in the early mornings, so satisfactorily + that she soon found herself with child. Coitus now began to be + much more pleasurable for him, but to his wife still attended + with pain. + + "After nine months of married life, the child, the only offspring + of the marriage, a healthy girl, was born. The stress of this + time, the upsetting of his wife's health, her nervous breakdown + and consequently uncertain temper, seemed for a period of nearly + two years effectually to repress any sexual desire in the + husband, and this period is perhaps the chastest of his life. + Desire seemed to be the one thing absent. The revulsion of + feeling in his wife was remarkable. The erstwhile amorous + _fiancée_, who could hardly wait until marriage to test her + lover, became now the wife and mother who hardly wished to be + touched by her husband. + + "Her health, however, gradually improved and a more normal state + of affairs was brought about, which has continued to the present + day, broken only by periods of abstention, chiefly caused by the + attacks of anemia and menstrual irregularities from which his + wife suffers from time to time. Ordinarily, he enjoys coitus once + or twice in the month, hardly oftener, taking one month with + another. At one time he exemplified in his own person the saying + _omne animal post coitum triste_, but now happily this depression + of spirits is rarely felt. Sometimes he has felt a depression of + spirits, a general discontentedness, before experiencing a strong + erection; in these cases coitus has cleared his spirits. He would + naturally look upon coitus as an evacuation, although he + recognizes the imperfectness of that view. For one thing he is + constantly sorry, viz., that the act gives no pleasure to his + wife, and that he has never been able to induce a crisis with her + by normal means. In this state of affairs, knowing that 'après + coup' she was still unsatisfied, he slipped into the practice of + rubbing the clitoris with his fingers until the emission takes + place. To do this, they assume the position 'ille sub, illa + super.' From his own limited marital experience, he has never + been able to understand the stories of women who masturbate + several times a day, as his wife would be physically incapable + (so he believes) of anything of the kind, and only easily reaches + the crisis in any circumstances during the first few days after + the menstrual flow has ceased. In fine, while agreeing + theoretically with Sir Richard Burton and others that the eastern + style of coitus (directed with a view to the pleasure of your + partner) is the right one, it is one of his standing regrets that + he is unable to practise it. In the place of the twenty minutes + required by the women of India (according to Burton) he is happy + if he can give two or three at the most, much as he would wish to + prolong a pleasure as keen to himself as he could desire it to be + to his dear and excellent spouse." + + HISTORY XVII.--R.L., American; aged 43; height, 5 ft. 7 in.; + weight, about 145 lbs.; occupation, teacher; somewhat neurotic; a + slight myopia associated with acute astigmatism and muscular + weakness of the eyes, producing a tendency to migraine. Uric acid + diathesis, producing occasionally severe neuralgia, particularly + in the intestines. These symptoms have been more or less constant + since very early childhood. General health very good. Not + inclined to indulge in athletic sports, but prefers sedentary + occupations and recreations. + + "My early ideas of sexual things are not very clear in + recollection. I think that when 7 or 8 years of age I had a + knowledge of the common or vulgar terms for intercourse and for + the genital organs. Boys of my own age and slightly older would + discuss sex relations, and I had a general knowledge that, in + some way connected with the sexual act, 'babies were made.' We + would tell, occasionally, lewd stories, and a few times attempted + sexual practices with one another. Not till after puberty did I + ever attempt masturbation. I must have been 9 or 10 years old + before I learned that there was a difference in the sex organs of + boys and girls. Up to this time I had supposed that intercourse + was _per anum._ I attended a public school with both sexes. Talk + among my boy associates was often nasty and concerned the sexual + act with girls. At about 12 years I began to have erotic day + dreams. I always had a sentimental attachment for some girl + acquaintance whom I would idealize and with whom I would imagine + myself having sex relations. As a matter of fact, there was no + real sexual feeling about this. As I was very shy and timid + naturally, I never made any kind of advances toward any of them, + and they were entirely ignorant of any sentiments of affection in + me. + + "Pubertal changes commenced, I presume, about the age of 13½ + years. I place it at this period from the following + circumstances, which are fixed very strongly in my memory: I had, + as a child, a soprano voice that was praised considerably by + older friends, and about which I was inordinately conceited, I + enjoyed greatly taking part in operettas, cantatas, etc. The + dramatic instinct, if so it may be called, has always been marked + with me, and amateur dramatics are still my chief diversion. When + I was about the age mentioned above my voice changed quite + rapidly, greatly to my distress of mind, as I was obliged to give + up taking a part for which I had been cast in a school + entertainment. The memory of that disappointment is still + poignant. Other changes, such as the appearance of the pubertal + hair, must have made no impression on my mind, as I cannot + recollect anything in connection therewith. No involuntary + emissions occurred. Indeed, during periods of continence in later + life, when the sexual tension has been very strong, I have had + very few such emissions. + + "As a lad of 11 or 12, I had heard frequent allusions to + masturbation by other boys who were older, but always in a way + that indicated contempt. Yet there is no doubt now in my mind + that the practice was very general. I think that I was probably + about 15 when I decided to try the act. I think that there was + little sex impulse in this decision. The animating purpose was + rather curiosity. I succeeded in producing the complete orgasm + and found it pleasurable, though there was a considerable shock + of surprise at the ejaculation of semen. As nearly as I can + estimate in my memory of an event as far back as this was, this + was the beginning of definite sexual sensibility in me. I cannot + but believe, however, that it would have been aroused sooner or + later in some other way. Thereafter I would imagine myself + embracing some of the girl friends to whom I have referred above, + and, when excited, would masturbate. The act was in every + instance a psychic intercourse. For some time I did not know that + the practice was considered harmful. I indulged whenever I felt + the inclination. This at times was rather frequent; again only at + considerable intervals. I did know that it was looked upon as + being unmanly, and never admitted, except to perhaps two or three + boy friends, that I ever indulged. With these boys I practised + mutual masturbation a few times. There was no homosexual feeling + connected with these acts in any of us. It was only that the + normal method of gratifying our desires was not available. I know + the subsequent history of each of these boys, and there has been + nothing to indicate any perverted instinct in any of them. About + the age of 16 I heard a talk on sexual matters by a traveling + evangelist, who portrayed the effects of masturbation in fearful + colors. I now realize that he was an ignorant though + well-intentioned man; but the general effect of his talk upon me + was a bad one. One of the results of the habit, according to his + statements, was insanity. Therefore I expected at any moment to + lose my mind. I felt that I must stop the practice at once, but + the matter became so great an obsession that again and again I + broke my resolutions for reform. I undertook exercise, dieting, + the reading of serious literature: all of which I had seen + referred to in books as methods of lessening sexual desire. The + object of these disciplinary practices was always the thing most + prominently in mind, and so they were of no avail. Fortunately I + entered college a little later, and the affairs of school life + gradually took a commanding place in my thoughts, and the + practice was not so much in mind. I did not, however, completely + break away from it until almost the time of my marriage. If the + present attitude of the scientific medical world toward the + subject had been known to me, I do not believe that any evil + would have come to me from the practice. At a later period of my + life, say between 21 and 24, I would not indulge the habit for a + considerable interval. At times I did not notice the presence or + lack of desire. But then there would come periods when I would be + under a severe sexual tension. This would be marked by intense + nervousness, an inability to fix my attention upon any one thing, + and a great desire to have intercourse. An act of masturbation at + such a time would generally give relief. However, when I yielded + to this form of relief, there would always follow feelings of + profound self-reproach and of self-repugnance. Had I had + nocturnal emissions they might have relieved me; but, as I have + said before, they very rarely occurred. When, rarely, one did + occur I would be greatly frightened, for I had the old, erroneous + idea that they meant serious weakness and always ascribed them to + my bad habit. That my habit of masturbation had any relation to + the rarity of the involuntary emissions would, of course, be a + matter of pure conjecture. In passing from the discussion of + personal masturbation, I wish to say that my associations with + boys as a pupil and as a teacher lead me to believe that the + practice is practically universal. When discussing the hygienic + evils of prostitution with boy pupils I have noted that, whereas + not infrequently a boy will voluntarily protest that he has never + had intercourse, there has always been a significant silence when + masturbation is mentioned. I have never heard a boy make a + denial, direct or indirect, that he had indulged in the practice. + But it has seldom been a perversion. It has rather been, as in my + own case, an available means of relieving a sexual impulse. + + "During my college life I associated with many boys who had more + or less regular sexual relations with prostitutes or with girls + who were not virtuous. Their attitude toward the practice was an + immoral one. The ethical aspect of irregular sexual relations + never concerned them. It certainly did not concern me. What I + have learned through my conversations on the subject with my + pupils makes it evident to me that this is the common feeling of + most boys of the adolescent period. I think of two things which + operated strongly to prevent my entering into sexual relations + with girls during this period of my life. One was an esthetic + repugnance to the average prostitute. These are the women most + easily available to the youth whose sexual desires are developed. + I do not remember ever having seen an avowed prostitute who did + not seem repulsive to me. I confess to an inclination to + priggishness. I preferred to associate with people whom I called + 'nice people.' It was fortunate for me that I was thrown into the + society of a rather rough crowd of youths, who knocked a great + deal of this snobbishness out of me. But it did act to prevent my + having recourse to prostitution. A second preventive was my + natural timidity in making advances to people. This has been a + trait that I have never completely overcome. In my professional + life this has been some detriment to my advancement. In the + matter of sex relationship it tended to prevent my taking + advantage of association with and even of advances from girls + who, not prostitutes, were nevertheless not virtuous. There were + a number of such in the town and neighborhood in which I lived, + and I undoubtedly could have had sexual relations with them if I + had only been able to overcome my shyness. The desire was not + wanting. I really craved intercourse with them. It was simply a + matter of cowardice. There was one girl whom I knew very well, + with whom I was on friendly terms, who I knew had had sexual + relations with other boys. She showed, at times, a marked + preference for me, and I am sure would have welcomed any advances + that I should have made. A number of times I sought her company + with the intention of suggesting intercourse, but my resolution + always failed. + + "All through my college course I was much in the society of + girls. We were in class together, associated very freely in + society, frequently studied together. This is the most usual + state of things in the western part of our country. But they were + simply comrades: sex thoughts never arose in connection with such + association. And I am quite certain that this was the general + attitude of the other boys. Although the talk among the boy + students was at times, very frankly and crudely, about sexual + relations, no breath of scandal ever touched one of the college + girls. Again my experience as teacher and student brings a + conclusion that coeducation of the sexes does not affect, in one + way or the other, the strictly sexual life of the male student. A + very intimate friend who has had a varied experience in school + work has told me recently that his conclusions are the same. + + "When I was about 20 years old I became acquainted with a very + beautiful girl, four years my junior. Our acquaintance very + rapidly developed into deeper affection, and about five years + later we were married. During all this time very little of the + physical aspects of love entered into our attachment. My + sweetheart had much of the same shyness as was so pronounced in + my own character. For several years I think that the thought of + marriage was never distinctly present in our minds. A formal + betrothal between us did not take place until within a year and a + half of our marriage. Yet each of us had a very distinct + understanding of the feelings of the other. But until our + betrothal there were none of even those very innocent expressions + of endearment common, I imagine, to all lovers. I am sure that + during this period of our attachment no thought of any physical + relations between us was ever in my mind; or, at any rate, was + promptly banished if it occurred. Yet all this time my sex + desires were very strong and at times became an obsession. Never, + though, were they directed toward my sweetheart. The first time + that we engaged in the endearments and caresses allowed to lovers + I became conscious, after a time, of a state of sexual + excitement. I experienced an erection. It was absolutely reflex; + no thought had entered into it. I was at once overwhelmed with a + feeling of shame. I felt that I had been guilty of unthinkable + indecency toward my betrothed. Then there arose a fear that it + might be noticed. (Men at that time wore abominably tight + clothing.) As a matter of fact, I now know that there was no real + danger of this, for she was absolutely ignorant of the nature of + the male sexual organs. But I made a pretext for withdrawing from + the room and tried to adjust my clothing so that no exposure + could occur. I was fearful of coming into close proximity to her + again, lest there should be a recurrence of the feeling. As a + matter of fact it did occur a number of times, but my good sense + finally suggested the explanation and after a time it ceased to + trouble me. The thought was latent in my mind that sexual + excitement was necessarily more or less indecent at all times, + and I could not reconcile its manifestation with a pure love. + + "I have said that my sexual desire was strong. Up to the time of + marriage it was never gratified in the normal manner. My esthetic + abhorrence of prostitutes continued to prevent its gratification + in that manner. No other opportunity offered. I am positive that + moral considerations did not enter into the matter at all. I + think now that it was strange that the thought that it would be + disloyal to my promised wife to have connection with other women + did not affect me. But I am sure that it did not. I am inclined + to think that conscientious scruples very rarely enter into the + average young man's considerations of contemplated sexual + relations. + + "As the time of my marriage drew near, thoughts of the physical + relationship of husband and wife became, of course, more + insistent. The idea of establishing sexual relations was not at + all a pleasant one. I dreaded it as an ordeal. I wondered if it + would be possible for us to retain the same love and affection + for one another after such intimate relations were established. + This was a recurrence of the fallacious notion that there was + something inherently indecent in sexual things. I am in hopes + that other ideas are replacing this wrong one, in the minds of + the younger generation, as the result of the saner and franker + discussion of sex. By a great effort, I had practically stopped + masturbating. At times I felt almost maddened by desire. But + never did the prospect of marriage seem desirable from this point + of view. Up to the very day of our wedding my affection for my + betrothed seemed free from sexual desire. But my physical being + was craving sexual companionship. + + "Theoretically I knew a great deal of the nature of intercourse. + Practically I was absolutely ignorant. In some ways I was better + informed, on matters that a new husband should know, than the + average man entering the married life. A physician's library had + been at my disposal, and I had read somewhat extensively on + physiology and hygiene. My chosen lines of study had given me a + theoretical knowledge of the anatomy of the female genital organs + that was fairly thorough. I knew a little about the physiology of + reproduction and rather less of intercourse. Fortunately, I + learned in the course of my reading that the first sexual + approaches were likely to be quite painful to a woman, and that + great care should be exercised at this time. I tried to put into + practice what little I had learned in theory and I imagine that + we got through the introductory attempts with less than the + average difficulties. Our first efforts were not satisfactory to + either of us. My wife was absolutely unprepared so far as any + definite knowledge of the act was concerned. I sincerely hope + that the prudish notions of the past generations will give way to + more sensible views in the future, and that the girl becoming a + wife will be just as chaste, but wiser in matters of such + importance to her happiness. I presume that my timidity was a + valuable asset at this time; for I was afraid to force matters in + any way, and time and repeated attempts finally overcame our + difficulties. And when our sexual relations were once + established, the whole tenor of my life was changed. All the + former sexual unrest disappeared. My former feeling toward sexual + relations was altered. They no longer seemed that which, though + very desirable, was yet necessarily indecent. Fortunately, after + the first few weeks, they have been quite pleasurable to my wife. + I am sure that our sexual life since marriage has been a large + factor in deepening the love that has made our married life an + ideal one. As I look back at the first year of marriage, I wonder + that we got through it so well. My knowledge of sexual hygiene + was a strange mixture of fact and nonsense. If the frequency of + acts of intercourse advocated by some of the authorities I have + lately read is correct, then we must have passed the bounds of + moderation. But it is certain that our general health has been + very good: better in both cases than before marriage. + + "In reviewing these phases of the development of my sexual life, + one or two conclusions seem to me to be strongly emphasized. It + was unfortunate that the real sexual desire was aroused as early + and in the manner that it was. Whether this would have been + prevented by more definite education in the hygiene and the + purpose of the function, I can only conjecture. I believe that + mine was and is the common experience of boys. I am decidedly of + the opinion that there should be instruction given of the anatomy + of the genital organs and of the hygiene of intercourse, and this + shortly after the youth has reached puberty. How this is to be + done is a grave question. It will require tact and knowledge not + possessed by the average teacher and parent. However it is done, + it should be honest, frank, and free from piosity. + + "I am certain that, in my own case, rather frequent intercourse + is decidedly beneficial. Any prolonged abstinence always brings + about the same nervous disturbances that I have referred to + above. It is fortunate for me that this repetition of the act is + satisfactory to both concerned." + + + HISTORY XVIII.--E.W., dentist, aged 32, of New England Puritan + stock. Height, 5 ft. 10½ in.; weight, 144 lbs. Spare and active, + of nervobilious temperament. + + "My earliest recollection is being punished for 'playing with + myself' when I could not have been more than 3 or 4 years of age. + I distinctly remember my exultation on discovering that I could + excite myself (while my hands were tied behind my back for + punishment) by rubbing my small but erect penis against the + carpet while lying on my stomach. At this time, of course, I knew + nothing of sex or of what I was doing. I did what my desires and + instincts at that time prompted me to do. However, punishments + and lectures failed utterly to break up this habit, and, though I + always wished and tried faithfully to obey my parents, I soon + grew to indulge quietly in bed when I was thought to be asleep. + The matter apparently passed out of the minds of my parents as + soon as they ceased to detect me further in the act, and they + regarded it as abandoned. I now feel reasonably certain that this + precocity was due to an adherent foreskin which covered the glans + tightly almost to the meatus, and so kept up a continual + irritation. + + "I have no recollection that anyone ever taught me the habit, and + I know beyond a doubt that no one ever learned of the habit or + even a word as to the possibility of autoexcitement through word + or deed of mine. My recollection of the sensations is that there + was a short period of excitation, usually by rubbing, which was + not particularly, often not at all, pleasurable, and this was + followed by a single thrill of pleasure that extended all over + my little body. The curious thing was, however, that there seemed + to be no limit to the number of times I could consecutively + produce this sensation. My recollection is perfectly clear of how + I would lie in bed of a morning and thus excite myself time after + time. As I grew older this condition, of course, changed. + Masturbation was not a consuming passion with me at this or any + other time. I enjoyed it and felt that in it I had a means of + entertainment when other sources of enjoyment were not at hand. + + "By the time I was 6 or 7 I had figured out the difference in sex + in animals and suspected that 'all was not as it should be' in + some portions of a girl's anatomy. This suspicion was suddenly + confirmed one never-to-be-forgotten morning, when I induced my + dearest playmate, a little girl, to urinate in my presence. I was + more thunderstruck than excited over this discovery, and it led + to no results in any other way, nor did we ever again unveil + ourselves to each other. At this time I began to learn from the + older boys the pitiful, childish vulgarities and common terms of + sex, and to invent and exchange rhymes and stories that were + pathetic in their attempts at vulgarity. + + "At the age of 11 a buxom servant-girl threw out some vague hints + to me,--I was very tall for my age,--and tried to induce me to + take liberties with her, at least to the extent of telling her + vulgar stories, but I would not rise to the lure. I believe that + the thing which held me in check was fear of discovery by my + parents and the consequent humiliation. A short time previous to + this my father had enlightened me as to the means and manner of + reproduction and had encouraged me to talk to him and to my + mother on such subjects rather than with anyone else. I think + this had a great influence for good, as it made me feel that I + had some authoritative knowledge and that I was trusted by my + parents. My determination not to prove entirely unworthy of their + trust has been the anchor that has held through all the storms + and temptations of youth and young manhood. + + "About the age of puberty I began to long for more realistic + experiences and tried through a period of a year or so the + disgusting experiments of intercourse with animals, using hens + and a cow for this purpose. Details are of no importance, and I + spare myself their repetition. My better nature or general mental + development soon overcame my desires in this direction, and the + practice was abandoned. + + "With the dawning of the power of emission I noticed that the + adherent foreskin before alluded to, which had never been + examined during all these years (as I had discovered that I was + different from other boys and so was shy about exposing myself), + began to trouble me by being painful during erections. + Accordingly I took a buttonhook and tore all the adhesions loose. + A very painful though ultimately entirely satisfactory + operation! + + "(I may mention in this connection that my two sons were + afflicted with adherent foreskins to such an extent as to render + circumcision necessary a few days after birth, in order that the + function of urination might become fully established.) + + "As my powers developed I had my first wet dream at about the age + of 15, and was much surprised thereat. My father, however, told + me not to be alarmed and soothed my anxious fears, which were + easily aroused by my guilty feelings on account of my habit of + masturbation, in which I still indulged from one to three times a + week. + + "Between the ages of 12 and 17 my father had the good judgment to + require a large amount of active outdoor labor from me, as well + as sending me to excellent schools. Certain kinds of study had a + distinct effect upon the sexual organs, namely, difficult Latin + and German translations and problems in fractions. I considered + at the time that it was because my mind wandered from the subject + I was studying. Now I am perfectly sure it was because my mind + focused on the subject I was studying. At any rate the fact + existed, and when alone in my room, wrestling with a knotty + problem, I used almost as a rule to keep myself in the most + violent state of erection for long periods--an hour or + so--sometimes ending with an emission, but more often I forced + myself to forego this climax through fear of overindulgence. + During these years my curiosity as to the exact nature of the + female organs was something terrible, and I wasted many hours and + much ingenuity in the attempt to surreptitiously gratify it. My + perseverance in the face of failure along this line was surely + worthy of a nobler cause. + + "I was much in the society of girls of my own age or older during + these years and until I was 19. I found with them a keen and + entirely pure and wholesome enjoyment utterly separate and apart + from the desires and indulgences which I have been describing. I + never cared for any girl who was 'forward' or in any way + unladylike, and the idea of taking any undue liberties with any + of my youthful sweethearts was as remote from my thoughts as a + trip to the moon. Perhaps I can say this better and more + distinctly by stating that I would be perfectly willing to have + my wife know of, or my boys repeat, any action that I ever took + with any woman. + + "I spent my spare time in their society and lavished upon my girl + companions every cent I could spare, but had no thought of + immediate sex desire or gratification. At the age of 17 I went as + an apprentice in my present profession of dentistry. Whenever it + became necessary for me, in assisting at the operating chair, to + touch a lady's hair or face, I would be seized with the utmost + confusion and could with difficulty control my hands so that they + did not tremble. This soon wore off as I came to a realization of + the true professional spirit and attitude toward all patients, + and, needless to say, has now become a matter of the utmost + indifference to me. + + "From 19 to 22 I attended a professional school in a large city, + remote from my home, where I was an utter stranger. During these + years I devoted myself to my professional studies and to music + with much diligence. I took an active part in all student life + and problems save only that of the 'eternal feminine.' + + "Frequently I have been out with a crowd of 'the boys' when they + headed for a brothel, and have been the only one to turn back or + to remain on the sidewalk as the door closed behind my last + companion. I say this not in self-praise, but in the same spirit + of accuracy which has prompted me to put down everything + concerning this greatest mystery of our natures as I have + experienced it and worked it out. + + "It was during these three years at school that I placed upon + myself the most stringent and effective curbs to my sex nature. I + somehow never could 'get my own consent' to go to a brothel or + stay with a 'soiled dove,' for I had by this time firmly resolved + that I would bring to my wife, whoever she might turn out to be, + a clean body at least. I limited myself in my autoexcitement to + one emission a week and on one or two occasions went two weeks + without inducing an emission. Spontaneous nocturnal emissions + were quite common during these years. I cannot state just how + frequent they were, but perhaps one a week would be a fair + average. + + "Shortly after graduation at the age of 22 I became engaged to + the woman who is now my wife. (She was 17 at the time of our + engagement, brunette, well developed, and with a wisdom and charm + that have held me a willing captive for ten years and no prospect + of escape!) + + "With our engagement began for each of us that divine and + mysterious unfolding of the nature of one to the nature of the + other. Our engagement lasted two years and a half and, ignorant + as we both were, I am sure that it was none too long. Never shall + I forget the surprise I felt--to say nothing of the delight--when + I discovered that my sweetheart was as anxious to find out the + uttermost facts about me as I was to explore the divine mystery + of her sweet body. + + "We lived in different towns and I used to spend Sundays at her + home. I slept in a room adjoining that occupied by my betrothed + and a friend. There was a transom with clear glass over the door + which connected these two rooms, and to have stood upon the foot + of the bed and looked through this transom would have been the + easiest thing in the world, and was such an opportunity as I + would have given years of my life to have obtained in my + adolescence; but now that the chance was afforded me to freely + spy upon the chamber of my future bride my soul revolted, for the + feeling was upon me that not until it was revealed to me because + she could no longer bear to keep it concealed from me would I + look upon the blessed vision of her maiden loveliness. Nor was I + disappointed, for gradually we became acquainted with each + other's bodies, and this gradual unveiling of each to the other + led, during the last months of our engagement, to mutual manual + manipulations, excitement and gratification. Intercourse did not + take place until the second night after our marriage, and our + first baby was born nine months and three days after our + marriage, though my wife was ten days past the cessation of her + period at the time of my first entering. + + "Since marriage I have made it my first duty to study my wife's + inclinations and desires with regard to our sexual relations, and + can say that now, after seven years of married life, and after + she has borne me two sons, we are enjoying a fullness of + happiness that neither of us would have believed possible during + the first year of our married life. + + "I have found that the woman must have the entire charge of the + time and number of approaches in a week or month, and that when + she is for any reason disinclined to the sexual act the husband + must keep away, no matter how he feels about the matter. Also the + man must be sure that his wife reaches the orgasm or is at the + point of it before he allows himself to 'let go.' + + "Our meetings have averaged eight or nine a month. During the + latter months of pregnancy they were _nil_, and in the month + following an enforced separation of several weeks they were + fourteen. We have never tried nor had the slightest curiosity to + know how far we could indulge ourselves. + + "For myself I seem to demand a gratification of the sexual desire + rather oftener than my wife, and when I feel I cannot get a good + night's rest without first being relieved of my seminal burden, + while at the same time my wife is disinclined to the sexual act, + I have her perform manual manipulation until relief is effected. + Mind, I say _relief_, for the emission gives me very little + pleasure under these circumstances, but it does give _relief_. In + my present health I find I cannot sleep well if I go over more + than two nights without an emission. My wife understands my + condition, and is entirely willing to assist me in this way when + she feels she cannot give me the gratification which I crave. We + have come to see sex matters as they are, and respect and + reverence have taken the place of ignorance and fear. + + "To sum up, owing to lack of circumcision the sex instinct + developed too soon and out of all proportion during my early + youth. I cannot see that masturbation has ever had the slightest + bad effect upon my health or mental state (except as I was + constantly loathing myself more or less for being unable to stop + it). + + "The husband must subordinate himself to the wife in order to + obtain the highest good and pleasure of both. + + "I have always been successful in my undertakings. Stood at the + head of my class at school, and in my professional work graduated + with highest honors. I have a memory for prose or verse that is + the cause of envy to many of my friends. The facts here set down + are recorded in the interest of advancing study along this most + important but neglected and ignored line. That they have been + truthfully recorded without favor to the black or light on the + white is my sincere belief." + + + HISTORY XIX.--E.B. Parents sound; strong constitution in mother, + moderately so in father; vigorous and healthy, but of refined + nature. Breast-milk for six months. + + "_Age 4-5_. Took great delight in the little waterworks. Severely + punished for this. Interest in the parts morbidly increased + thereby. + + "_Age 5_. Earliest recollection of 'counter-erection'--the penis + shrinking tensely into itself, producing local and general + discomfort. This resulted from certain kinds of + _mauvaise-honte_,--having to kiss aged persons, having officious + help at micturition, bathing, dressing, etc., which caused a sort + of physical disgust. Toward puberty the experience grew rare. One + such occasion was at about eighteen, when solicited on the street + by a prostitute. The very _idea_ of homosexual relations produces + it. It would appear to be a powerful safeguard against + promiscuous sex relations. I have met two men subject to the same + thing, and have heard of one woman subject to something + analogous. It might be called a nausea of the 'nether heart' in + Georg Hirth's phrase. + + "_Age 6-7_. Earliest recollection of erection. Unprovoked at + first. A disposition to _punish_ the organ and satisfaction in + doing so. From this time erection took place whenever it was + thought about. + + "_Age 10_. Present at a discussion in the playground about the + best way of intercourse, which I heard of for the first time. + This was followed by enlightenment on the source of children. + Concluded it must be very painful to both parties. 'Just the + other way,' I was told. But the idea of pain to the genitals was + 'interesting' to me. Pain felt by the other sex was + 'interesting.' Pained looks captivated me--I liked to imagine + some mysterious trouble; and, as I learned more, 'female + complaints' interested me greatly in their subjects. I got a + 'grateful pang' at the pit of the stomach at the thought, but + neither erection nor the opposite. This hypogastric feeling has + continued to associate itself with certain sexual impressions. + The thought of a _woman mortifying herself_ later on excited me + sexually. Once, pulling a stay-string for fun (my wife never + laced) gave me a powerful and quite unexpected erection. + + "_Age 12_. A girl visitor of the same age got me talking about + the genitals, and at bedtime came and proposed coitus. We failed + to manage it. The vulva stripped back the foreskin, which was a + voluptuous feeling; then we were alarmed by something and + separated. I never saw her again. She too liked to 'punish' her + vulva. She put whole pepper in it, and advised me to use the + same. I continued greatly excited when she had gone; the hand + flew to the phallus and worried it, and orgasm came on at + once--the childish orgasm consisting of well-spaced spasms of the + ejaculators, without the poignant preliminary nisus of the adult + orgasm. There was no reaction or depression, except that the + phallus--which did not subside at once--was painful to touch. A + week or so later I tried again, but failed. A month later, being + more excited, I succeeded. I found that I could only compass it + about once in three weeks. There were no emissions. I used to + have a spontaneous mental image of a small Grecian temple in a + sunny park, which charmed me, and I had no scruples. + + "_Age 12-13_. Masturbated once or twice a month. + + "_Age 13-14_. Was sent to a small public school, where it + happened that a very good tone prevailed. I learned that + masturbation was bad form and unmanly. The proper thing was to + save one's self up for women--at about 18. I dropped the practice + easily, in spite of indulging my imagination about coitus. I + thought of the initiation with prostitutes at 18, with the mixed + feelings that even the most combative soldier must regard the + fray. The hypogastric feeling above referred to would come + on--which I liked and disliked at the same time. The first + occasion on which I remember this feeling was when I got my first + braces. Anything that harped on my sex produced it. Every time I + received the sacrament, which I was forced to do very young, I + repented of my intention of whoring at 18--as a man 'must' + do--and afterward I relapsed to the expectation. Religion was a + great reality to me, but it did not produce the radical effect + that the development of the romantic sentiment did later on. + (Both my wife and I became free-thinkers at about 30.) + + "_Age 15-17_. Read poetry and romance. Conceived a high ideal of + faithfulness and constancy. What a mockery all this loyalty is, I + said to myself, if a man has stultified it beforehand. That was + no mere castle-building. I had not understood what I was about in + expecting to whore. The critical feelings were now awakening, and + what they produced was revulsion against the abuse of sex, which + got stronger every year. It became plain that there would be no + whoring or the like for me; I was far too proud and fastidious. I + neglected my tasks, which were uncongenial, and read a great deal + of anatomy and physiology, which stood me in good stead later. As + I rose in the school I was surprised to find the tone worse, but + quite at the top it was better again, and with my latest + companions sex was never even mentioned. At 14 I had a friend who + importuned me to come into his bed, but I never would get under + his bedclothes, for the male sex repels me powerfully in personal + contact; he began to talk of masturbation, and now I can + understand what he was aiming at. But my day-dreams of nymphs and + dryads kept me in a state of perpetual tension, and erection was + very frequent. The early morbid admiration of delicate women + became replaced by admiration of health and strength combined + with grace. + + "_Age 17-18_. I was given a cubicle in which my neighbor on the + right masturbated noisily two or three times a week, and the one + on the left every night, using intermittent friction to drag it + out longer. One night, kneeling at my bedside, saying prayers, my + attention was divided between these and the occupation of my + neighbor, when, after not having masturbated for four years,--the + critical years of development,--the hand flew to the phallus and + + "'pulses pounding through palms and trembling + encircling fingers' + + "procured, in Walt Whitman's language, + + "'the wholesome relief,--repose, content.' + + "I slept well and had a sense of elation at the proof of manhood, + for we boys were anxious about whether we secreted semen or not. + The sexual obsession was tempered, and about three weeks later I + had my first 'pollution'--the 'angel of the night,' as Mantegazza + with better sense calls it. From that time on I had pollutions + every two or three weeks, with dreams sometimes of masturbation + or of nymphs, or quite irrelevant matters. For a time these gave + me perfect relief; then my 'dilectatio morosa' began to grow + again, and the phallus would become so sensitive that working + about on the belly would liberate the orgasm. + + "_Age 18-19_. I had kept on persuading myself I was not + masturbating--avoiding the use of the hand--but now I dropped + this pretense, and frankly conceded the need to myself. I got + done with it in a peremptory way and thought no more of it. I had + no evil effects, moral or physical, and my mother would often + compliment me on my bright appearance the morning after. At that + time the appetite matured every seven to ten days, and, though I + dreaded the idea of slavery to it, it would have been very hard + to forego it. Headaches, which had begun to plague me from + puberty on, grew rarer. Pollutions occurred in between, but were + less effectual. I had up to this point accepted the incidental + pleasure under a sort of protest; but now I got over that too and + I allowed what I would prefer to call an idio-erotism (rather + than an auto-erotism) its way, always picturing beautiful nymphs + to myself. Surroundings of natural beauty moved me to this kind + of reverie, partly perhaps because I had once secretly observed a + lad basking naked on the sandy beach and toying with himself. + The recollection is wholly unsullied to me. Happening on one + occasion to check the stimulation about two-thirds way to orgasm, + I experienced a miniature orgasm like the childish one, but with + no declension of the tumescence, and I was able to repeat this + maneuver several times before the full orgasm. This I later + practised in _Coitus prolongatus_--giving the partner time to + come up. I had already got into the way of poising the feeling on + its climax. The ejaculator reflex, being habituated to this, + seems to set in with its throbs when the maneuver is simulated, + though no semen has yet been poured into the bulbous portion for + the ejaculators to act upon. If this play be broken off before + the critical spasm--as in the American 'Karezza,' etc.--there is + no perceptible reaction, though an unsatisfied feeling remains. + But when the act proceeds to emission and the poignant + _undercurrent_ of feeling sets in that ushers the ejaculation and + may only last two to five seconds, it makes all the difference, + and constitutional signs appear--perspiration, etc. This leads to + the question whether the critical sensation specially involves + the sympathetic nervous system? Up to that point the process is + under control, but then automatic. + + "An observation of practical importance to me at that time was + this: I awoke in the morning after a pollution at night, with an + acute headache of a specific kind, and erection. This had + happened before, after pollution, and the erection suggested to + me whether 'a hair of the dog that bit me' might not prove + beneficial. As the excitation proceeded, the pain in the head was + directly drained away, as if I were drawing it out. Other pain is + also relieved for the moment, such as neuralgia, but to return + soon with interest. This, however, was specific and pure benefit. + The next time I got a bad headache of this character, without + preceding pollution, I tried the remedy, at about 10 A.M. The + semen was copious and watery, and the relief was marked, but in + an hour's time the headache returned. I had never repeated the + act at short interval, i.e., while the organs were under the + influence of a previous act, and now I tried the effect of that. + The second emission was also profuse, but much thicker, and the + relief much greater. In about three hours the headache was, + however, again intolerable, and, the connection being now clear, + I ventured on a third act, which proved to be the most voluptuous + I had so far experienced, the nisus being far more intense. The + semen was copious, but thick and ropy, with lumps as large as + small peas that could scarcely be crushed with the finger, and + yellow in color and rank in odor. After that I was perfectly well + and kept so. (The urethra was blocked so that I could with + difficulty stroke the masses out.) Later I have examined such + semen microscopically and found the spermatozoa dead and + disintegrating. My period in my best years--21 to 48--was twice + a week, the odd number being an inconvenience, and I have since + endeavored to avoid accumulations, emptying the receptacles on + the fourth day, when I remembered the interval, even if the + organs did not remind me. On the fifth day headache would + otherwise appear and perhaps two acts be needful, or, if I forgot + about it for a week, three acts running. That I did not abuse the + function the fact proves that every year I would forget about it + two to three times and have to resort to this drastic mode.[230] + But there is quite a different headache that follows on + indulgence during convalescence or when the system is otherwise + much lowered. Railway traveling greatly accentuates the need with + me; also riding. Girls aroused no physical desire, though I + chiefly sought their society, and even after the genital tension + was so pronounced, up to 20, I was troubled by the fact that + women did not affect me sexually. About this time a buxom girl I + liked and who liked me vehemently laid her hand on my arm, in + trying to persuade me to give up shooting. The phallus leaped + simultaneously. That was my first _sexual_ experience--the proof + that the _nexus_ was established between the genital mechanism + and the complex of feeling we call sexual. + + "_Age 24_. At this age I went to stay at a house where there were + two very pretty girls. I at once lost my heart to the elder, + L.B., as she did to me (strong constitution, but refined nature; + parents sound; brought up in the country; eleven months' + breast-milk). 'What a mother she will make,' I said to myself. + Now began a time of the spiritual and physical communion that I + had pictured to myself.... + + "I am 60 now; she is 57. We are still like lovers. No; not _like_ + lovers; we _are_ lovers. Of course, I do not mean to imply that + sexual impressions have preponderated in our life, as they do in + this account. Quite the contrary. We are both strong and, + according to all accounts, unusually well preserved. We are very + temperate. Since 48 I notice a gradual decline of the erotic + propensity. It is now once in five or seven days. Since the + menopause her propensity has declined markedly, but it is not + extinct, and she delights as much as ever in my delight. She + began to menstruate at 12, was regular till 17; then got + chlorotic for a few months, soon recovered, though menstruation + was often irregular, but never painful. Sexual experience began + at 25. I have often wondered if a moderate self-gymnastic of the + faculty, in Venturi's sense, would not have educated her genital + sphere, and made her a still better comrade--excluded the periods + of irregularity and frigidity. The stage of latency was too + protracted. We often noticed that, when menstruation was due or + nearly so, prolonged love-sports at bedtime would be followed by + menstruation in the morning. We never were separated for longer + than three months, and on that occasion, menstruation being + delayed, she tried what masturbation would do to determine it, + and with a positive result. My need, though less, is as + imperative as ever. Seminal headaches--as I would call them--have + ceased since 50; the accumulation only produces muddleheadedness. + But I have not suffered accumulation over ten to at most twelve + days. The quantity of semen is also less. The sensibility of the + corpora has declined much; that of the glans is unimpaired. + Erection is good. Orgasm takes two to four minutes to provoke, + against forty to fifty seconds when young; it is in some respects + even more enjoyable--perhaps less intense, but much more + prolonged. I have no reaction from indulgence. But I never press + it; it always presses me. For overaccumulation, with headache or + muddleheadedness, the wifely hand is more efficacious than the + vulva. Even the most vivid dream of coitus fails to compass the + orgasm now. The peripheral stimulus is essential. + + "In our case physical and psychical intensity of emotion have + gone hand in hand. I have become specialized to one woman, + despite an erotic endowment certainly not meager. The pervasive + fragrance makes one adore the whole sex, but my wife does not + interpret this homage in a sexually promiscuous sense. We both + agree in the principle that if one cannot hold the affection of + the other there is no title to it. Tarde says that constancy in + love is rarely anything but a voyage of discovery round the + beloved object. I am perpetually making fresh discoveries. But + her constancy, I mean the high level of her passion, is + independent of discoveries." + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[230] "A practical question arising out of the foregoing is whether such +semen should be committed to the vagina? Its presence is known to me by +constitutional symptoms (toxic). It is the last to be expelled, and its +degenerate germ-cells have no chance against those of the normal fluid +deposited in preceding acts, supposing that to be retained. But it may +well happen that the prior emissions only reach the pouch, whereas the +last is injected into the womb itself. I have frequently had the sense of +the orifices of meatus and cervix matching directly, especially when she +had powerful orgasm (including two conceptions), and of the semen being +sucked from me rather than occluded in its exit, as also happens, +requiring me to relax the urge a little. At 18 to 19 the semen of a +'pollution' has left tender red patches where it dried on the neighboring +skin, and deep straw-colored stains in the linen." + + + + +INDEX OF AUTHORS. + +Abu-l-Faraj +Acton, W. +Adler, O. +Adlerz +Aguilaniedo +Aldrich +Allen, G.W. +Alonzi +Aly-Belfàdel +Amand, St. +Andrews, W. +Angell +Arndt, R. +Avebury, Lord + +Bach, G. +Baker, Smith +Ballet +Balls-Headley +Bancroft, H.H. +Bantock +Baretti +Barrus, Clara +Bartels, Max +Beaunis +Bechterew +Bell, Sanford +Benecke, E.F.M. +Bernard, P. +Bernelle +Blackwell, E. +Bladon, J. +Blagden +Bloch +Bloch, Iwan +Bloom +Blumröder +Boerhaave +Bohn, G. +Bonstetten +Booth, D.S. +Bos, C. +Bossard +Bouchereau +Bourneville +Brantôme +Bray +Brehm +Breitenstein +Bridgman, W.G. +Brierre de Boismont +Browne, W.A.F. +Brunfels +Bryan, D. +Büchner +Burckhardt, J.L. +Burdach +Burk, F.L. +Burton, Robert +Burton, Si: R. +Buscalioni +Busch, D.W.H. +Butler, A.G. + +Cabanès +Cabanis +Calmann +Campbell, Harry +Cannon, W. +Capgras +Casanova +Catullus +Cellini +Ceni +Cervantes +Chapman, G. +Christian +Clark, Campbell +Clarke, E.D. +Cleland +Clement of Alexandria +Clérambault +Clevenger +Clouston +Coelius Aurelianus +Coleridge +Colin +Collas +Colman, W.A. +Coltman +Congreve +Cook, F. +Cook, J. +Cooke, Kev. 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Van +Gibb +Gillen +Ginisty +Gläveke +Glynn +Godard +Goltz +Goncourt, J. de +Gosse, P.H. +Gourmont, Remy de +Gowers, Sir W. +Grisebach, E. +Groos, K. +Grosse, E. +Gualino +Guinard +Guise +Guyon +Gurlitt +Guttceit + +Häcker +Haddon, A.C. +Haeckel +Hagen +Halban +Hall, G. 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R. +Westermarck +Wiedemann +Weysse +Williams, Montagu +Williams, W. Roger +Winckel +Windscheid +Wittenberg +Wolbarst +Wollstonecraft, Mary + +Yellowlees + +Zacchia +Zambaco +Ziegler, H.E. +Ziehen +Zmigrodski + + + + +INDEX OF SUBJECTS. + +Abduction of women in Great Britain +Abstinence in women, + effects of sexual +Adolescence, + criminality and +Adolescent girls, + sexual manifestations in +Adrenal glands +Africa, + marriage by capture in + sexual instinct in +_Agelena labyrinthica_ +Ainu, + love-bite among +Algolagnia + ideal +Algophily +Amblyopia, + post-marital +American Indians, + courtship among + sexual instinct in +Ampallang +Anæsthesia in women, + sexual + a cause of sterility + causes of +Anger and sexual emotion +Anhedonia +Anxiety as a sexual stimulant +Ardisson +Argus pheasant, courtship of +Aristotle as a masochist +Arrest of movement producing sexual excitement +Ascetic attitude toward women, the +Assaults on children by women, + sexual +Australians, + courtship among + sexual instinct in +Auto-intoxication by muscular movement +Auto-sadism + +Bambula dance +Bathory, Countess +Bedouins, + marriage by capture among +Bertrand, Sergeant +Birds, + sexual impulse in +Bismarck, + traces of masochism in +Biting in relationship to sexual instinct +Bladder and sexual organs, + relationship between +Blood, + the fascination of +Borneo, + use of ampallang in +Brazil, + courtship in +Bullying + +Capture, + marriage by +Castration +Cerebellum as a sexual center +Cerebral sexual centers, + alleged +Chained, + the idea of being +Chastity among savages +China, + marriage ceremony in +Chinese eunuchs +Chinese hedgehog +Christianity and women +Church and flagellation, the +Coitus, + mechanism of + compared to epilepsy + often sacred among savages +Combat and courtship +Contrectation +Courtship +Cow-birds, + courtship of +Crime as a manifestation of adolescence +Criminality in relation to marriage +Cruelty among animals + in human beings +Cymri, + marriage customs of + +Dancing in relation to sexual impulse +Dancing among Australians + the most usual method of attaining tumescence + why it acts so powerfully on the organism +Day-dreams, erotic +Degenerative conditions on sexual desire, + influence of +_Dendryphantes elegans_ +Detumescence, + impulse of +Diffusion of sexual impulse in women +Discipline, the +Disgust as a sexual stimulant +Divorce in relation to sexual difference in the suicide-rate +Doraphobia +Dreams of struggling horses + erotic +Drunkenness in relation to marriage +Ducks, + courtship among +Ductless glands + +Eider-ducks, + courtship of +Ejaculation, + premature +Emotion aroused by pain +Ephesian matron, the +Epilepsy and micturition + analogy between coitus +Erotic symbolism +Erotisation +Eskimos, + marriage by capture among + sexual instinct in +Esthetic sense of animals, + alleged +Estrus +Eunuchs, + sexual impulse in +Evacuation theory of sexual impulse +Excess in intercourse not injurious to women +Exercise, the intoxication of muscular +Exhibitionism, a cause of + +Faroe Islanders, + courtship among. +Fatigue +Fear as a sexual stimulant +Fetichism +Fetters, + the fascination of +Flagellation +Frigidity, + in women, sexual + a cause of sterility +Frog, + sexual instinct of +Fuegians, + sexual instinct in +Funerals as a sexual stimulant +Fur, + fascination of + +Gelding, + sexual impulse in +Genital sphere larger in women +Geskel +_Glandulæ vesiculares_ +Goethe's masochism +Gonorrhoea in young boys +Greek antiquity, love in +Grief as a sexual stimulant +Griselda +Gurus, + courtship among + +Hanging and sexual excitement +Head hunting +_Helix aspersa_ +Hemothymia +Hormones +_Horror feminæ_ normal in absence of sexual impulse +Horses, + sexual perversion in + sexual excitement produced by spectacle of +Hungary, + masochism in +Hunger, + analogy between sexual impulse and +Hyperhedonia +Hyphedonia +Hypnotic suggestions and frigidity + +Impregnation in relation to tumescence +Impulse, + definition of sexual +India, + courtship in + sexual instinct in +Indians, + courtship among American + sexual instinct among American +Indonesian peoples, + use of ampallang, etc., among +Insanity, + in relation to marriage + in relation to sexual instinct +Instinct, + definition of +Internal secretions +Intoxication, + the fascination of + of muscular movement +Inversion, + associated with masochism + +Jealousy among savages +Jew, + sexual impulse in + +Kaffirs, + courtship among +Kambion +Kirghiz, + marriage by capture among +Kiss, + origin of + +Lactation, + no intercourse among some savages during +Laughter and the sexual sphere +_Leistes superciliaris_ +Love-bite, the +Love-songs rare among savages +Lycanthropy + +Malays, + coitus among + courtship among + sexual instinct in +_Mantis religiosa_ +Maoris, + marriage by capture among + sexual instinct in +Marquesans, + courtship among + sexual instinct in +Marriage by capture + in relation to suicide + in relation to insanity and criminality +Marsh-bird, + courtship of +Masochism among Slav women + definition of + its psychological mechanism +Masturbation in women +Menopause, sexual impulse after +Menstruation and sexual impulse +Micturition and sexual impulse +Mixoscopia, + hysterical +Modesty among savages + object of + obsessions of +_Molothrus bonariensis_ +Moluccas, + courtship in +Monogamy, + its advantages for men +Mortality connected with the development of the sexual instinct +Moslems, + coitus among +Moths, + courtship of +Motion, + the pleasure of + arrest of +Muscular movement, + auto-intoxication by +Music, + sexual influence of + +Necrophilism +Necrosadism +Negresses not jealous +Negro eunuchs +Negroes, + sexual instinct in +Neurasthenia, sexual +New Caledonia, + courtship in +New Guinea, + courtship in +New Hebrides, + courtship in +New Mexico, + courtship in +New Zealand, + marriage by capture in +Nubia, + eunuchs in + +Obsessions, + sexual +Octopus, + courtship of +Odour, + excitation by +Oneida community +Oöphorectomy and sexual impulse +Orgasm lasts longer in women +Ostrich, + courtship of +Ovariotomy and sexual impulse +Ovary, + secretions of +Ox, + sexual impulse in + +Pain the essential element in algolagnia +Palang +Papuans, + courtship among + sexual instinct in +Parturition sometimes painless +Passivism +Passivity of women only apparent +Penis in lower animals, + peculiarities of +Periodicity of sexual impulse among savages + greater in women +_Pitangus Bolivianus_ +Pleasure, + in what sense pain may be felt as + its manifestations resemble those of pain +Plover, + dances of great +Power in sexual sphere, + love of +Precocity of women, + sexual +Pregnancy, + savages often avoid intercourse during +_Probenächte_ +Procreation among savages, + sacredness of +Pro-estrum +Prostitutes' love of _souteneur_ +Prostitution not found under primitive conditions +Puberty in girls, + sexual manifestations at + +Rais, Gilles de +_Rana temporaria_ +Rape and sadism +Rat, + sexual instinct of white +Reeves and ruffs +Reflex action, + instinct and +Reidal +Religious flagellation +Religious storm and stress in women +Reproductive impulse, + alleged +Respiration in connection with sexual emotion +Responsibility of Sadists +Rome, + eunuchs in ancient +Rosseau's masochism +Russia, + masochism in + +Sacher-Masoch +Sacredness of procreation among savages +Sade, De +Sadism + definition of + its psychological mechanism + responsibility in + often combined with masochism + ideal +_Saitis pulex_ +Savages, + sexual erethism in + dancing among + sexual impulse weak in +Sea-gulls, + courtship among +Secondary sexual characters +Seminal receptacles of frogs +Seminal vesicles + functions of +Senegal, + courtship in +Sensibility of genital sphere in women +Sensory acuteness in women +Sexual cerebral centers, + hypothetical +Sexual impulse, + definition of +Sexual incompetence, + prevalence of +Sexual selection, + psychological aspects of +Sexual season +Shaftesbury's supposed masochism +Shoe-fetichism +Sicily, courtship in + love-bite in +Slavery, erotic +Slavs, + courtship customs of + masochism among +Slug, + courtship of +Smell, + stimulation of +Snails, + sexual process in +Social class and sexual feeling +Soleilland +Song of birds, + sexual significance of +_Spadones_ +Spain, + flagellation in +Spiders, + courtship of +Sprit-sail yard +Stabbers +Sterility, + absence of sexual desire in women as a cause of +Stone-curlew, + dances of +Storm and stress in women, + religious +Strangle, + the impulse to +Subjection in women, + sexual +Suckling, + compared to sexual act + no intercourse among some savages during +Suicide, + divorce and +Sumatra, + courtship in +Suspension and sexual excitement +Swinging and sexual excitement +Symbolism, + erotic + +Taboo, + sexual +Tahitians, + courtship among +Teasing +_Telum veneris_ +_Thlasiæ_ +_Thlibiæ_ +Torture, + the attraction of +Tumescence +Turcomans, + marriage by capture among +Tyrant-bird, + courtship of + +Urination in relation to sexual excitement + +Vacher +Vampirism +Variation in sexual impulse greater in women +Venereal disease in the young +Vesicles, + function of seminal + +Waltz, + origin of the +Warens, Mme. de +Werwolf +Whipping in relation to the sexual emotions +Women-stabbers +Wrestling combats + +Zoösadism +Zulus, + courtship among + + + +***END OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, +VOLUME 3 (OF 6)*** + + +******* This file should be named 13612-8.txt or 13612-8.zip ******* + + +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: +https://www.gutenberg.org/dirs/1/3/6/1/13612 + + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at <a href = "https://www.gutenberg.org">www.gutenberg.org</a></pre> +<p>Title: Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3 (of 6)</p> +<p>Author: Havelock Ellis</p> +<p>Release Date: October 8, 2004 [eBook #13612]</p> +<p>Language: English</p> +<p>Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1</p> +<p>***START OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, VOLUME 3 (OF 6)***</p> +<br><br><h3>E-text prepared by Juliet Sutherland<br> + and the Project Gutenberg Online Distributed Proofreading Team<br> + (https://www.pgdp.net)</h3><br><br> +<hr class="pg" noshade> +<br> +<br> +<br> +<a name='3_Page_iii'></a> + +<h1>STUDIES<br /> +<br /> +IN THE<br /> +<br /> +PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX</h1> +<br /> +<h2>VOLUME III</h2> +<br /> +<h3>ANALYSIS OF THE SEXUAL IMPULSE<br /> +LOVE AND PAIN<br /> +THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN WOMEN</h3><br /> +<br /> +<h3>BY</h3> +<br /> +<h2>HAVELOCK ELLIS</h2> +<br /> +<h4>SECOND EDITION, REVISED AND ENLARGED</h4> +<br /> +<h5>1927</h5><br /> +<hr class="full" /> +<br> +<a name='3_Page_iv'></a> +<a name='3_PREFACE_TO_SECOND_EDITION'></a><h2><a name='3_Page_v'></a>PREFACE TO SECOND EDITION.</h2> +<br /> + +<p>This volume has been thoroughly revised for the present edition and +considerably enlarged throughout, in order to render it more accurate and +more illustrative, while bringing it fairly up to date with reference to +scientific investigation. Numerous histories have also been added to the +Appendix.</p> + +<p>It has not been found necessary to modify the main doctrines set forth ten +years ago. At the same time, however, it may be mentioned, as regards the +first study in the volume, that our knowledge of the physiological +mechanism of the sexual instinct has been revolutionized during recent +years. This is due to the investigations that have been made, and the +deductions that have been built up, concerning the part played by +hormones, or internal secretions of the ductless glands, in the physical +production of the sexual instinct and the secondary sexual characters. The +conception of the psychology of the sexual impulse here set forth, while +correlated to terms of a physical process of tumescence and detumescence, +may be said to be independent of the ultimate physiological origins of +that process. But we cannot fail to realize the bearing of physiological +chemistry in this field; and the doctrine of internal secretions, since it +may throw light on many complex problems presented by the sexual instinct, +is full of interest for us.</p> + +<p>HAVELOCK ELLIS.</p> + +<p>June, 1913.</p> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_PREFACE_TO_FIRST_EDITION'></a><h2><a name='3_Page_vi'></a>PREFACE TO FIRST EDITION.</h2> +<br /> + +<p>The present volume of <i>Studies</i> deals with some of the most essential +problems of sexual psychology. The <i>Analysis of the Sexual Impulse</i> is +fundamental. Unless we comprehend the exact process which is being worked +out beneath the shifting and multifold phenomena presented to us we can +never hope to grasp in their true relations any of the normal or abnormal +manifestations of this instinct. I do not claim that the conception of the +process here stated is novel or original. Indeed, even since I began to +work it out some years ago, various investigators in these fields, +especially in Germany, have deprived it of any novelty it might otherwise +have possessed, while at the same time aiding me in reaching a more +precise statement. This is to me a cause of satisfaction. On so +fundamental a matter I should have been sorry to find myself tending to a +peculiar and individual standpoint. It is a source of gratification to me +that the positions I have reached are those toward which current +intelligent and scientific opinions are tending. Any originality in my +study of this problem can only lie in the bringing together of elements +from somewhat diverse fields. I shall be content if it is found that I +have attained a fairly balanced, general, and judicial statement of these +main factors in the sexual instinct.</p> + +<p>In the study of <i>Love and Pain</i> I have discussed the sources of those +aberrations which are commonly called, not altogether happily, "sadism" +and "masochism." Here we are brought before the most extreme and perhaps +the most widely known group of sexual perversions. I have considered them +from the medico-legal standpoint, because that has already been done by +other writers whose works are accessible. I have preferred to show how +these aberrations may be explained; how <a name='3_Page_vii'></a>they may be linked on to normal +and fundamental aspects of the sexual impulse; and, indeed, in their +elementary forms, may themselves be regarded as normal. In some degree +they are present, in every case, at some point of sexual development; +their threads are subtly woven in and out of the whole psychological +process of sex. I have made no attempt to reduce their complexity to a +simplicity that would be fallacious. I hope that my attempt to unravel +these long and tangled threads will be found to make them fairly clear.</p> + +<p>In the third study, on <i>The Sexual Impulse in Women</i>, we approach a +practical question of applied sexual psychology, and a question of the +first importance. No doubt the sex impulse in men is of great moment from +the social point of view. It is, however, fairly obvious and well +understood. The impulse in women is not only of at least equal moment, but +it is far more obscure. The natural difficulties of the subject have been +increased by the assumption of most writers who have touched it—casually +and hurriedly, for the most part—that the only differences to be sought +in the sexual impulse in man and in woman are quantitative differences. I +have pointed out that we may more profitably seek for qualitative +differences, and have endeavored to indicate such of these differences as +seem to be of significance.</p> + +<p>In an Appendix will be found a selection of histories of more or less +normal sexual development. Histories of gross sexual perversion have often +been presented in books devoted to the sexual instinct; it has not +hitherto been usual to inquire into the facts of normal sexual +development. Yet it is concerning normal sexual development that our +ignorance is greatest, and the innovation can scarcely need justification. +I have inserted these histories not only because many of them are highly +instructive in themselves, but also because they exhibit the nature of the +material on which my work is mainly founded.</p> + +<p>I am indebted to many correspondents, medical and other, in various parts +of the world, for much valuable assistance.<a name='3_Page_viii'></a> When they have permitted me +to do so I have usually mentioned their names in the text. This has not +been possible in the case of many women friends and correspondents, to +whom, however, my debt is very great. Nature has put upon women the +greater part of the burden of sexual reproduction; they have consequently +become the supreme authorities on all matters in which the sexual emotions +come into question. Many circumstances, however, that are fairly obvious, +conspire to make it difficult for women to assert publicly the wisdom and +knowledge which, in matters of love, the experiences of life have brought +to them. The ladies who, in all earnestness and sincerity, write books on +these questions are often the last people to whom we should go as the +representatives of their sex; those who know most have written least. I +can therefore but express again, as in previous volumes I have expressed +before, my deep gratitude to these anonymous collaborators who have aided +me in throwing light on a field of human life which is of such primary +social importance and is yet so dimly visible.</p> + +<p>HAVELOCK ELLIS.</p> + +<p>Carbis Water,</p> + +<p>Lelant, Cornwall, England.</p> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_Page_ix'></a><a name='3_CONTENTS'></a><h2>CONTENTS.</h2> +<h4><a href='#3_PREFACE_TO_SECOND_EDITION'>PREFACE TO SECOND EDITION.</a></h4> +<h4><a href='#3_PREFACE_TO_FIRST_EDITION'>PREFACE TO FIRST EDITION.</a></h4> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#3_ANALYSIS_OF_THE_SEXUAL_IMPULSE'>ANALYSIS OF THE SEXUAL IMPULSE.</a></h4> +<div class='blkquot'><p>Definition of Instinct—The Sexual Impulse a Factor of the Sexual +Instinct—Theory of the Sexual Impulse as an Impulse of Evacuation—The +Evidence in Support of this Theory Inadequate—The Sexual Impulse to Some +Extent Independent of the Sexual Glands—The Sexual Impulse in Castrated +Animals and Men—The Sexual Impulse in Castrated Women, After the +Menopause, and in the Congenital Absence of the Sexual Glands—The +Internal Secretions—Analogy between the Sexual Relationship and that of +the Suckling Mother and her Child—The Theory of the Sexual Impulse as a +Reproductive Impulse—This Theory Untenable—Moll's Definition—The +Impulse of Detumescence—The Impulse of Contrectation—Modification of +this Theory Proposed—Its Relation to Darwin's Sexual Selection—The +Essential Element in Darwin's Conception—Summary of the History of the +Doctrine of Sexual Selection. Its Psychological Aspect—Sexual Selection a +Part of Natural Selection—The Fundamental Importance of +Tumescence—Illustrated by the Phenomena of Courtship in Animals and in +Man—The Object of Courtship is to Produce Sexual Tumescence—The +Primitive Significance of Dancing in Animals and Man—Dancing is a Potent +Agent for Producing Tumescence—The Element of Truth in the Comparison of +the Sexual Impulse with an Evacuation, Especially of the Bladder—Both +Essentially Involve Nervous Explosions—Their Intimate and Sometimes +Vicarious Relationships—Analogy between Coitus and Epilepsy—Analogy of +the Sexual Impulse to Hunger—Final Object of the Impulses of Tumescence +and Detumescence.</p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#3_LOVE_AND_PAIN'>LOVE AND PAIN.</a></h4> +<h5><a href='#3_L_I'>I.</a></h5> +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Chief Key to the Relationship between Love and Pain to be Found in +Animal Courtship—Courtship a Source of Combativity and of Cruelty—Human +Play in the Light of Animal Courtship—The Frequency of Crimes Against the +Person in<a name='3_Page_x'></a> Adolescence—Marriage by Capture and its Psychological +Basis—Man's Pleasure in Exerting Force and Woman's Pleasure in +Experiencing it—Resemblance of Love to Pain even in Outward +Expression—The Love-bite—In What Sense Pain May be Pleasurable—The +Natural Contradiction in the Emotional Attitude of Women Toward +Men—Relative Insensibility to Pain of the Organic Sexual Sphere in +Women—The Significance of the Use of the Ampallang and Similar Appliances +in Coitus—The Sexual Subjection of Women to Men in Part Explainable as +the Necessary Condition for Sexual Pleasure.</p></div> +<h5><a href='#3_L_II'>II.</a></h5> +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Definition of Sadism—De Sade—Masochism to some Extent +Normal—Sacher-Masoch—No Real Line of Demarcation between Sadism and +Masochism—Algolagnia Includes Both Groups of Manifestations—The +Love-bite as a Bridge from Normal Phenomena to Algolagnia—The Fascination +of Blood—The Most Extreme Perversions are Linked on to Normal Phenomena.</p></div> +<h5><a href='#3_L_III'>III.</a></h5> +<div class='blkquot'><p>Flagellation as a Typical Illustration of Algolagnia—Causes of Connection +between Sexual Emotion and Whipping—Physical Causes—Psychic Causes +Probably More Important—The Varied Emotional Associations of +Whipping—Its Wide Prevalence.</p></div> +<h5><a href='#3_L_IV'>IV.</a></h5> +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Impulse to Strangle the Object of Sexual Desire—The Wish to be +Strangled. Respiratory Disturbance the Essential Element in this Group of +Phenomena—The Part Played by Respiratory Excitement in the Process of +Courtship—Swinging and Suspension—The Attraction Exerted by the Idea of +being Chained and Fettered.</p></div> +<h5><a href='#3_L_V'>V.</a></h5> +<div class='blkquot'><p>Pain, and not Cruelty, the Essential Element in Sadism and Masochism—Pain +Felt as Pleasure—Does the Sadist Identify<a name='3_Page_xi'></a> Himself with the Feelings of +his Victim?—The Sadist Often a Masochist in Disguise—The Spectacle of +Pain or Struggle as a Sexual Stimulant.</p></div> +<h5><a href='#3_L_VI'>VI.</a></h5> +<div class='blkquot'><p>Why is Pain a Sexual Stimulant?—It is the Most Effective Method of +Arousing Emotion—Anger and Fear the Most Powerful Emotions—Their +Biological Significance in Courtship—Their General and Special Effects in +Stimulating the Organism—Grief as a Sexual Stimulant—The Physiological +Mechanism of Fatigue Renders Pain Pleasurable.</p></div> +<h5><a href='#3_L_VII'>VII.</a></h5> +<div class='blkquot'><p>Summary of Results Reached—The Joy of Emotional Expansion—The +Satisfaction of the Craving for Power—The Influence of Neurasthenic and +Neuropathic Conditions—The Problem of Pain in Love Largely Constitutes a +Special Case of Erotic Symbolism.</p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#3_THE_SEXUAL_IMPULSE_IN_WOMEN'>THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN WOMEN.</a></h4> +<h5><a href='#3_S_I'>I.</a></h5> +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Primitive View of Women—As a Supernatural Element in Life—As +Peculiarly Embodying the Sexual Instinct—The Modern Tendency to +Underestimate the Sexual Impulse in Women—This Tendency Confined to +Recent Times—Sexual Anæsthesia—Its Prevalence—Difficulties in +Investigating the Subject—Some Attempts to Investigate it—Sexual +Anæsthesia Must be Regarded as Abnormal—The Tendency to Spontaneous +Manifestations of the Sexual Impulse in Young Girls at Puberty.</p></div> +<h5><a href='#3_S_II'>II.</a></h5> +<div class='blkquot'><p>Special Characters of the Sexual Impulse in Women—The More Passive Part +Played by Women in Courtship—This Passivity Only Apparent—The Physical +Mechanism of the Sexual Process in Women More Complex—The Slower +Development of Orgasm <a name='3_Page_xii'></a>in Women—The Sexual Impulse in Women More +Frequently Needs to be Actively Aroused—The Climax of Sexual Energy Falls +Later in Women's Lives than in Men's—Sexual Ardor in Women increased +After the Establishment of Sexual Relationships—Women Bear Sexual +Excesses Better than Men—The Sexual Sphere Larger and More Diffused in +Women—The Sexual Impulse in Women Shows a Greater Tendency to Periodicity +and a Wider Range of Variation.</p></div> +<h5><a href='#3_S_III'>III.</a></h5> +<div class='blkquot'><p>Summary of Conclusions. </p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#3_APPENDIX_A'>APPENDIX A.</a></h4> +<center>The Sexual Instinct in Savages.</center> +<h5><a href='#3_A_I'>I.</a></h5> +<h5><a href='#3_A_II'>II.</a></h5> +<h5><a href='#3_A_III'>III.</a></h5> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#3_APPENDIX_B'>APPENDIX B.</a></h4> +<center>The Development of the Sexual Instinct.</center> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#3_INDEX_OF_AUTHORS'>INDEX OF AUTHORS.</a></h4> +<h4><a href='#3_INDEX_OF_SUBJECTS'>INDEX OF SUBJECTS.</a></h4> + + +<a name='3_Page_1'></a> +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_ANALYSIS_OF_THE_SEXUAL_IMPULSE'></a><h2>ANALYSIS OF THE SEXUAL IMPULSE.</h2> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Definition of Instinct—The Sexual Impulse a Factor of the Sexual +Instinct—Theory of the Sexual Impulse as an Impulse of Evacuation—The +Evidence in Support of this Theory Inadequate—The Sexual Impulse to Some +Extent Independent of the Sexual Glands—The Sexual Impulse in Castrated +Animals and Men—The Sexual Impulse in Castrated Women, after the +Menopause, and in the Congenital Absence of the Sexual Glands—The +Internal Secretions—Analogy between the Sexual Relationship and that of +the Suckling Mother and her Child—The Theory of the Sexual Impulse as a +Reproductive Impulse—This Theory Untenable—Moll's Definition—The +Impulse of Detumescence—The Impulse of Contrectation—Modification of +this Theory Proposed—Its Relation to Darwin's Sexual Selection—The +Essential Element in Darwin's Conception—Summary of the History of the +Doctrine of Sexual Selection—Its Psychological Aspect—Sexual Selection a +Part of Natural Selection—The Fundamental Importance of +Tumescence—Illustrated by the Phenomena of Courtship in Animals and in +Man—The Object of Courtship is to Produce Sexual Tumescence—The +Primitive Significance of Dancing in Animals and Man—Dancing is a Potent +Agent for Producing Tumescence—The Element of Truth in the Comparison of +the Sexual Impulse with an Evacuation, Especially of the Bladder—Both +Essentially Involve Nervous Explosions—Their Intimate and Sometimes +Vicarious Relationships—Analogy between Coitus and Epilepsy—Analogy of +the Sexual Impulse to Hunger—Final Object of the Impulses of Tumescence +and Detumescence.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>The term "sexual instinct" may be said to cover the whole of the +neuropsychic phenomena of reproduction which man shares with the lower +animals. It is true that much discussion has taken place concerning the +proper use of the term "instinct," and some definitions of instinctive +action would appear to exclude the essential mechanism of the process +whereby sexual reproduction is assured. Such definitions scarcely seem +legitimate, and are certainly unfortunate. Herbert Spencer's definition of +instinct as "compound reflex action" is sufficiently clear and definite +for ordinary use.</p><a name='3_Page_2'></a> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>A fairly satisfactory definition of instinct is that supplied by + Dr. and Mrs. Peckham in the course of their study <i>On the + Instincts and Habits of Solitary Wasps</i>. "Under the term + 'instinct,'" they say, "we place all complex acts which are + performed previous to experience and in a similar manner by all + members of the same sex and race, leaving out as non-essential, + at this time, the question of whether they are or are not + accompanied by consciousness." This definition is quoted with + approval by Lloyd Morgan, who modifies and further elaborates it + (<i>Animal Behavior</i>, 1900, p. 21). "The distinction between + instinctive and reflex behavior," he remarks, "turns in large + degree on their relative complexity," and instinctive behavior, + he concludes, may be said to comprise "those complex groups of + co-ordinated acts which are, on their first occurrence, + independent of experience; which tend to the well-being of the + individual and the preservation of the race; which are due to the + co-operation of external and internal stimuli; which are + similarly performed by all the members of the same more or less + restricted group of animals; but which are subject to variation, + and to subsequent modification under the guidance of experience." + Such a definition clearly justifies us in speaking of a "sexual + instinct." It may be added that the various questions involved in + the definition of the sexual instinct have been fully discussed + by Moll in the early sections of his <i>Untersuchungen über die + Libido Sexualis</i>.</p> + +<p> Of recent years there has been a tendency to avoid the use of the + term "instinct," or, at all events, to refrain from attaching any + serious scientific sense to it. Loeb's influence has especially + given force to this tendency. Thus, while Piéron, in an + interesting discussion of the question ("Les Problèmes Actuels de + l'Instinct," <i>Revue Philosophique</i>, Oct., 1908), thinks it would + still be convenient to retain the term, giving it a philosophical + meaning, Georges Bohn, who devotes a chapter to the notion of + instinct (<i>La Naissance de l'Intelligence</i>, 1909), is strongly in + favor of eliminating the word, as being merely a legacy of + medieval theologians and metaphysicians, serving to conceal our + ignorance or our lack of exact analysis. </p></div> + +<p>It may be said that the whole of the task undertaken in these <i>Studies</i> is +really an attempt to analyze what is commonly called the sexual instinct. +In order to grasp it we have to break it up into its component parts. +Lloyd Morgan has pointed out that the components of an instinct may be +regarded as four: first, the internal messages giving rise to the impulse; +secondly, the external stimuli which co-operate with the impulse to affect +the nervous centers; thirdly, the active response due to the co-ordinate +<a name='3_Page_3'></a>outgoing discharges; and, fourthly, the message from the organs concerned +in the behavior by which the central nervous system is further +affected.<a name='3_FNanchor_1'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_1'><sup>[1]</sup></a></p> + +<p>In dealing with the sexual instinct the first two factors are those which +we have most fully to discuss. With the external stimuli we shall be +concerned in a future volume (IV). We may here confine ourselves mainly to +the first factor: the nature of the internal messages which prompt the +sexual act. We may, in other words, attempt to analyze the <i>sexual +impulse</i>.</p> + +<p>The first definition of the sexual impulse we meet with is that which +regards it as an impulse of evacuation. The psychological element is thus +reduced to a minimum. It is true that, especially in early life, the +emotions caused by forced repression of the excretions are frequently +massive or acute in the highest degree, and the joy of relief +correspondingly great. But in adult life, on most occasions, these desires +can be largely pushed into the background of consciousness, partly by +training, partly by the fact that involuntary muscular activity is less +imperative in adult life; so that the ideal element in connection with the +ordinary excretions is almost a negligible quantity. The evacuation theory +of the sexual instinct is, however, that which has most popular vogue, and +the cynic delights to express it in crude language. It is the view that +appeals to the criminal mind, and in the slang of French criminals the +brothel is <i>le cloaque</i>. It was also the view implicitly accepted by +medieval ascetic writers, who regarded woman as "a temple built over a +sewer," and from a very different standpoint it was concisely set forth by +Montaigne, who has doubtless contributed greatly to support this view of +the matter: "I find," he said, "that Venus, after all, is nothing more +than the pleasure of discharging our vessels, just as nature renders +pleasurable the discharges from other parts."<a name='3_FNanchor_2'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_2'><sup>[2]</sup></a> Luther, again, always +compared the sexual to the excretory impulse, and said that marriage was +<a name='3_Page_4'></a>just as necessary as the emission of urine. Sir Thomas More, also, in the +second book of <i>Utopia</i>, referring to the pleasure of evacuation, speaks +of that felt "when we do our natural easement, or when we be doing the act +of generation." This view would, however, scarcely deserve serious +consideration if various distinguished investigators, among whom Féré may +be specially mentioned, had not accepted it as the best and most accurate +definition of the sexual impulse. "The genesic need may be considered," +writes Féré, "as a need of evacuation; the choice is determined by the +excitations which render the evacuation more agreeable."<a name='3_FNanchor_3'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_3'><sup>[3]</sup></a> Certain facts +observed in the lower animals tend to support this view; it is, therefore, +necessary, in the first place, to set forth the main results of +observation on this matter. Spallanzani had shown how the male frog during +coitus will undergo the most horrible mutilations, even decapitation, and +yet resolutely continue the act of intercourse, which lasts from four to +ten days, sitting on the back of the female and firmly clasping her with +his forelegs. Goltz confirmed Spallanzani's observations and threw new +light on the mechanism of the sexual instinct and the sexual act in the +frog. By removing various parts of the female frog Goltz found that every +part of the female was attractive to the male at pairing time, and that he +was not imposed on when parts of a male were substituted. By removing +various of the sense-organs of the male Goltz<a name='3_FNanchor_4'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_4'><sup>[4]</sup></a> further found that it was +not by any special organ, but by the whole of his sensitive system, that +this activity was set in action. If, however, the skin of the arms and of +the breast between was removed, no embrace took place; so that the sexual +sensations seemed to <a name='3_Page_5'></a>be exerted through this apparatus. When the +testicles were removed the embrace still took place. It could scarcely be +said that these observations demonstrated, or in any way indicated, that +the sexual impulse is dependent on the need of evacuation. Professor +Tarchanoff, of St. Petersburg, however, made an experiment which seemed to +be crucial. He took several hundred frogs (<i>Rana temporaria</i>), nearly all +in the act of coitus, and in the first place repeated Goltz's experiments. +He removed the heart; but this led to no direct or indirect stoppage of +coitus, nor did removal of the lungs, parts of the liver, the spleen, the +intestines, the stomach, or the kidneys. In the same way even careful +removal of both testicles had no result. But on removing the seminal +receptacles coitus was immediately or very shortly stopped, and not +renewed. Thus, Tarchanoff concluded that in frogs, and possibly therefore +in mammals, the seminal receptacles are the starting-point of the +centripetal impulse which by reflex action sets in motion the complicated +apparatus of sexual activity.<a name='3_FNanchor_5'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_5'><sup>[5]</sup></a> A few years later the question was again +taken up by Steinach, of Prague. Granting that Tarchanoff's experiments +are reliable as regards the frog, Steinach points out that we may still +ask whether in mammals the integrity of the seminal receptacles is bound +up with the preservation of sexual excitability. This cannot be taken for +granted, nor can we assume that the seminal receptacles of the frog are +homologous with the seminal vesicles of mammals. In order to test the +question, Steinach chose the white rat, as possessing large seminal +vesicles and a very developed sexual impulse. He found that removal of the +seminal sacs led to no decrease in the intensity of the sexual impulse; +the sexual act was still repeated with the same frequency and the same +vigor. But these receptacles, Steinach proceeded to argue, do not really +contain semen, but a special secretion of their own; they are anatomically +quite unlike the seminal receptacles of the frog; so that no doubt is thus +thrown on Tarchanoff's observations. Steinach remarked, however, that +<a name='3_Page_6'></a>one's faith is rather shaken by the fact that in the <i>Esculenta</i>, which +in sexual life closely resembles <i>Rana temporaria</i>, there are no seminal +receptacles. He therefore repeated Tarchanoff's experiments, and found +that the seminal receptacles were empty before coitus, only becoming +gradually filled during coitus; it could not, therefore, be argued that +the sexual impulse started from the receptacles. He then extirpated the +seminal receptacles, avoiding hemorrhage as far as possible, and found +that, in the majority of cases so operated on, coitus still continued for +from five to seven days, and in the minority for a longer time. He +therefore concluded, with Goltz, that it is from the swollen testicles, +not from the seminal receptacles, that the impulse first starts. Goltz +himself pointed out that the fact that the removal of the testicles did +not stop coitus by no means proves that it did not begin it, for, when the +central nervous mechanism is once set in action, it can continue even when +the exciting stimulus is removed. By extirpating the testicles some months +before the sexual season he found that no coitus occurred. At the same +time, even in these frogs, a certain degree of sexual inclination and a +certain excitability of the embracing center still persisted, disappearing +when the sexual epoch was over.</p> + +<p>According to most recent writers, the seminal vesicles of mammals are +receptacles for their own albuminous secretion, the function of which is +unknown. Steinach could find no spermatozoa in these "seminal" sacs, and +therefore he proposed to use Owen's name of <i>glandulæ vesiculares</i>. After +extirpation of these vesicular glands in the white rat typical coitus +occurred. But the capacity for <i>procreation</i> was diminished, and +extirpation of both <i>glandulæ vesiculares</i> and <i>glandulæ prostaticæ</i> led +to disappearance of the capacity for procreation. Steinach came to the +conclusion that this is because the secretions of these glands impart +increased vitality to the spermatozoa, and he points out that great +fertility and high development of the accessory sexual glands go together.</p> + +<p>Steinach found that, when sexually mature white rats were castrated, +though at first they remained as potent as ever, their <a name='3_Page_7'></a>potency gradually +declined; sexual excitement, however, and sexual inclination always +persisted. He then proceeded to castrate rats before puberty and +discovered the highly significant fact that in these also a quite +considerable degree of sexual inclination appeared. They followed, +sniffed, and licked the females like ordinary males; and that this was not +a mere indication of curiosity was shown by the fact that they made +attempts at coitus which only differed from those of normal males by the +failure of erection and ejaculation, though, occasionally, there was +imperfect erection. This lasted for a year, and then their sexual +inclinations began to decline, and they showed signs of premature age. +These manifestations of sexual sense Steinach compares to those noted in +the human species during childhood.<a name='3_FNanchor_6'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_6'><sup>[6]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The genesic tendencies are thus, to a certain degree, independent of the +generative glands, although the development of these glands serves to +increase the genesic ability and to furnish the impulsion necessary to +assure procreation, as well as to insure the development of the secondary +sexual characters, probably by the influence of secretions elaborated and +thrown into the system from the primary sexual glands.<a name='3_FNanchor_7'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_7'><sup>[7]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Halban ("Die Entstehung der Geschlechtscharaktere," <i>Archiv für + Gynäkologie</i>, 1903, pp. 205-308) argues that the primary sex + glands do not necessarily produce the secondary sex characters, + nor inhibit the development of those characteristic of the + opposite sex. It is indeed the rule, but it is not the inevitable + result. Sexual differences exist from the first. Nussbaum made + experiments on frogs (<i>Rana fusca</i>), which go through a yearly + cycle of secondary sexual changes at the period of heat. These + changes cease on castration, but, if the testes of other frogs + are introduced beneath the skin of the castrated frogs, Nussbaum + found that they acted as if the frog had not been castrated. It + is the secretion of the testes which produces the secondary + sexual changes.<a name='3_Page_8'></a> But Nussbaum found that the testicular secretion + does not work if the nerves of the secondary sexual region are + cut, and that the secretion has no direct action on the organism. + Pflüger, discussing these experiments (<i>Archiv für die Gesammte + Physiologie</i>, 1907, vol. cxvi, parts 5 and 6), disputes this + conclusion, and argues that the secretion is not dependent on the + action of the nervous system, and that therefore the secondary + sexual characters are independent of the nervous system.</p> + +<p> Steinach has also in later experiments ("Geschlechtstrieb und + echt Sekundäre Geschlechtsmerkmale als Folge der + innerskretorischen Funktion der Keimdrusen," <i>Zentralblatt für + Physiologie</i>, Bd. xxiv, Nu. 13, 1910) argued against any local + nervous influence. He found in <i>Rana fusca</i> and <i>esculenta</i> that + after castration in autumn the impulse to grasp the female + persisted in some degrees and then disappeared, reappearing in a + slight degree, however, every winter at the normal period of + sexual activity. But when the testicular substance of actively + sexual frogs was injected into the castrated frogs it exerted an + elective action on the sexual reflex, sometimes in a few hours, + but the action is, Steinach concludes, first central. The + testicular secretion of frogs that were not sexually active had + no stimulating action, but if the frogs were sexually active the + injection of their central nervous substance was as effective as + their testicular substance. In either case, Steinach concludes, + there is the removal of an inhibition which is in operation at + sexually quiescent periods.</p> + +<p> Speaking generally, Steinach considers that there is a process of + "erotisation" (Erotisieurung) of the nervous center under the + influence of the internal testicular secretions, and that this + persists even when the primary physical stimulus has been + removed. </p></div> + +<p>The experience of veterinary surgeons also shows that the sexual impulse +tends to persist in animals after castration. Thus the ox and the gelding +make frequent efforts to copulate with females in heat. In some cases, at +all events in the case of the horse, castrated animals remain potent, and +are even abnormally ardent, although impregnation cannot, of course, +result.<a name='3_FNanchor_8'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_8'><sup>[8]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The results obtained by scientific experiment and veterinary experience on +the lower animals are confirmed by observation of various groups of +phenomena in the human species.<a name='3_Page_9'></a> There can be no doubt that castrated men +may still possess sexual impulses. This has been noted by observers in +various countries in which eunuchs are made and employed.<a name='3_FNanchor_9'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_9'><sup>[9]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is important to remember that there are different degrees of + castration, for in current language these are seldom + distinguished. The Romans recognized four different degrees: 1. + True <i>castrati</i>, from whom both the testicles and the penis had + been removed. 2. <i>Spadones</i>, from whom the testicles only had + been removed; this was the most common practice. 3. <i>Thlibiæ</i>, in + whom the testicles had not been removed, but destroyed by + crushing; this practice is referred to by Hippocrates. 4. + <i>Thlasiæ</i>, in whom the spermatic cord had simply been cut. + Millant, from whose Paris thesis (<i>Castration Criminelle et + Maniaque</i>, 1902) I take these definitions, points out that it was + recognized that <i>spadones</i> remained apt for coitus if the + operation was performed after puberty, a fact appreciated by many + Roman ladies, <i>ad seouras libidinationes</i>, as St. Jerome + remarked, while Martial (lib. iv) said of a Roman lady who sought + eunuchs: "Vult futui Gallia, non parere." (See also Millant, <i>Les + Eunuques à Travers les Ages</i>, 1909, and articles by Lipa Bey and + Zambaco, <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Oct. and Dec., 1911.) </p></div> + +<p>In China, Matignon, formerly physician to the French legation in Pekin, +tells us that eunuchs are by no means without sexual feeling, that they +seek the company of women and, he believes, gratify their sexual desires +by such methods as are left open to them, for the sexual organs are +entirely removed. It would seem probable that, the earlier the age at +which the operation is performed, the less marked are the sexual desires, +for Matignon mentions that boys castrated before the age of 10 are +regarded by the Chinese as peculiarly virginal and pure.<a name='3_FNanchor_10'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_10'><sup>[10]</sup></a> At +Constantinople, where the eunuchs are of negro race, castration is usually +complete and performed before puberty, in order to abolish sexual potency +and desire as far as possible. Even when castration is effected in +infancy, sexual desire is not necessarily rendered impossible. Thus Marie +has recorded the case of an insane Egyptian eunuch whose penis and scrotum +were <a name='3_Page_10'></a>removed in infancy; yet, he had frequent and intense sexual desire +with ejaculation of mucus and believed that an invisible princess touched +him and aroused voluptuous sensations. Although the body had a feminine +appearance, the prostate was normal and the vesiculæ seminales not +atrophied.<a name='3_FNanchor_11'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_11'><sup>[11]</sup></a> It may be added that Lancaster<a name='3_FNanchor_12'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_12'><sup>[12]</sup></a> quotes the following +remark, made by a resident for many years in the land, concerning Nubian +eunuchs: "As far as I can judge, sex feeling exists unmodified by absence +of the sexual organs. The eunuch differs from the man not in the absence +of sexual passion, but only in the fact that he cannot fully gratify it. +As far as he can approach a gratification of it he does so." In this +connection it may be noted that (as quoted by Moll) Jäger attributes the +preference of some women—noted in ancient Rome and in the East—for +castrated men as due not only to the freedom from risk of impregnation in +such intercourse, but also to the longer duration of erection in the +castrated.</p> + +<p>When castration is performed without removal of the penis it is said that +potency remains for at least ten years afterward, and Disselhorst, who in +his <i>Die accessorischen Geschlechtsdrüsen der Wirbelthiere</i> takes the same +view as has been here adopted, mentions that, according to Pelikan (<i>Das +Skopzentum in Rüssland</i>), those castrated at puberty are fit for coitus +long afterward. When castration is performed for surgical reasons at a +later age it is still less likely to affect potency or to change the +sexual feelings.<a name='3_FNanchor_13'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_13'><sup>[13]</sup></a> Guinard concludes that the sexual impulse after +castration is relatively more persistent in man than in the lower animals, +and is sometimes even heightened, being probably more dependent on +external stimuli.<a name='3_FNanchor_14'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_14'><sup>[14]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Except in the East, castration is more often performed on women than on +men, and then the evidence as to the influence <a name='3_Page_11'></a>of the removal of the +ovaries on the sexual emotions shows varying results. It has been found +that after castration sexual desire and sexual pleasure in coitus may +either remain the same, be diminished or extinguished, or be increased. By +some the diminution has been attributed to autosuggestion, the woman being +convinced that she can no longer be like other women; the augmentation of +desire and pleasure has been supposed to be due to the removal of the +dread of impregnation. We have, of course, to take into account individual +peculiarities, method of life, and the state of the health.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In France Jayle ("Effets physiologiques de la Castration chez la + Femme," <i>Revue de Gynécologie</i>, 1897, pp. 403-57) found that, + among 33 patients in whom ovariotomy had been performed, in 18 + sexual desire remained the same, in 3 it was diminished, in 8 + abolished, in 3 increased; while pleasure in coitus remained the + same in 17, was diminished in 1, abolished in 4, and increased in + 5, in 6 cases sexual intercourse was very painful. In two other + groups of cases—one in which both ovaries and uterus were + removed and another in which the uterus alone was removed—the + results were not notably different.</p> + +<p> In Germany Gläveke (<i>Archiv für Gynäkologie</i>, Bd. xxxv, 1889) + found that desire remained in 6 cases, was diminished in 10, and + disappeared in 11, while pleasure in intercourse remained in 8, + was diminished in 10, and was lost in 8. Pfister, again (<i>Archiv + für Gynäkologie</i>, Bd. lvi, 1898), examined this point in 99 + castrated women; he remarks that sexual desire and sexual + pleasure in intercourse were usually associated, and found the + former unchanged in 19 cases, decreased in 24, lost in 35, never + present in 21, while the latter was unchanged in 18 cases and + diminished or lost in 60. Keppler (International Medical + Congress, Berlin, 1890) found that among 46 castrated women + sexual feeling was in no case abolished. Adler also, who + discusses this question (<i>Die Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung + des Weibes</i>, 1904, p. 75 <i>et seq.</i>), criticises Gläveke's + statements and concludes that there is no strict relation between + the sexual organs and the sexual feelings. Kisch, who has known + several cases in which the feelings remained the same as before + the operation, brings together (<i>The Sexual Life of Women</i>) + varying opinions of numerous authors regarding the effects of + removal of the ovaries on the sexual appetite.</p> + +<p> In America Bloom (as quoted in <i>Medical Standard</i>, 1896, p. 121) + found that in none of the cases of women investigated, in which + oöphorectomy had been performed before the age of 33, was the + sexual appetite entirely lost; in most of them it had not + materially diminished <a name='3_Page_12'></a>and in a few it was intensified. There + was, however, a general consensus of opinion that the normal + vaginal secretion during coitus was greatly lessened. In the + cases of women over 33, including also hysterectomies, a gradual + lessening of sexual feeling and desire was found to occur most + generally. Dr. Isabel Davenport records 2 cases (reported in + <i>Medical Standard</i>, 1895, p. 346) of women between 30 and 35 + years of age whose erotic tendencies were extreme; the ovaries + and tubes were removed, in one case for disease, in the other + with a view of removing the sexual tendencies; in neither case + was there any change. Lapthorn Smith (<i>Medical Record</i>, vol. + xlviii) has reported the case of an unmarried woman of 24 whose + ovaries and tubes had been removed seven years previously for + pain and enlargement, and the periods had disappeared for six + years; she had had experience of sexual intercourse, and declared + that she had never felt such extreme sexual excitement and + pleasure as during coitus at the end of this time.</p> + +<p> In England Lawson Tait and Bantock (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, + October 14, 1899, p. 975) have noted that sexual passion seems + sometimes to be increased even after the removal of ovaries, + tubes, and uterus. Lawson Tait also stated (<i>British + Gynæcological Journal</i>, Feb., 1887, p. 534) that after systematic + and extensive inquiry he had not found a single instance in + which, provided that sexual appetite existed before the removal + of the appendages, it was abolished by that operation. A Medical + Inquiry Committee appointed by the Liverpool Medical Institute + (<i>ibid.</i>, p. 617) had previously reported that a considerable + number of patients stated that they had suffered a distinct loss + of sexual feeling. Lawson Tait, however, throws doubts on the + reliability of the Committee's results, which were based on the + statements of unintelligent hospital patients.</p> + +<p> I may quote the following remarks from a communication sent to me + by an experienced physician in Australia: "No rule can be laid + down in cases in which both ovaries have been extirpated. Some + women say that, though formerly passionate, they have since + become quite indifferent, but I am of opinion that the majority + of women who have had prior sexual experience retain desire and + gratification in an equal degree to that they had before + operation. I know one case in which a young girl hardly 19 years + old, who had been accustomed to congress for some twelve months, + had trouble which necessitated the removal of the ovaries and + tubes on both sides. Far from losing all her desire or + gratification, both were very materially increased in intensity. + Menstruation has entirely ceased, without loss of femininity in + either disposition or appearance. During intercourse, I am told, + there is continuous spasmodic contraction of various parts of the + vagina and vulva." </p></div><a name='3_Page_13'></a> + +<p>The independence of the sexual impulse from the distention of the sexual +glands is further indicated by the great frequency with which sexual +sensations, in a faint or even strong degree, are experienced in childhood +and sometimes in infancy, and by the fact that they often persist in women +long after the sexual glands have ceased their functions.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In the study of auto-erotism in another volume of these <i>Studies</i> + I have brought together some of the evidence showing that even in + very young children spontaneous self-induced sexual excitement, + with orgasm, may occur. Indeed, from an early age sexual + differences pervade the whole nervous tissue. I may here quote + the remarks of an experienced gynecologist: "I venture to think," + Braxton Hicks said many years ago, "that those who have much + attended to children will agree with me in saying that, almost + from the cradle, a difference can be seen in manner, habits of + mind, and in illness, requiring variations in their treatment. + The change is certainly hastened and intensified at the time of + puberty; but there is, even to an average observer, a clear + difference between the sexes from early infancy, gradually + becoming more marked up to puberty. That sexual feelings exist + [it would be better to say 'may exist'] from earliest infancy is + well known, and therefore this function does not depend upon + puberty, though intensified by it. Hence, may we not conclude + that the progress toward development is not so abrupt as has been + generally supposed?... The changes of puberty are all of them + dependent on the primordial force which, gradually gathering in + power, culminates in the perfection both of form and of the + sexual system, primary and secondary."</p> + +<p> There appear to have been but few systematic observations on the + persistence of the sexual impulse in women after the menopause. + It is regarded as a fairly frequent phenomenon by Kisch, and also + by Löwenfeld (<i>Sexualleben und Nervenleiden</i>, p. 29). In America, + Bloom (as quoted in <i>Medical Standard</i>, 1896), from an + investigation of four hundred cases, found that in some cases the + sexual impulse persisted to a very advanced age, and mentions a + case of a woman of 70, twenty years past the menopause, who had + been long a widow, but had recently married, and who declared + that both desire and gratification were as great, if not greater, + than before the menopause. </p></div> + +<p>Reference may finally be made to those cases in which the sexual impulse +has developed notwithstanding the absence, verified or probable, of any +sexual glands at all. In such cases sexual desire and sexual gratification +are sometimes even stronger <a name='3_Page_14'></a>than normal. Colman has reported a case in +which neither ovaries nor uterus could be detected, and the vagina was too +small for coitus, but pleasurable intercourse took place by the rectum and +sexual desire was at times so strong as to amount almost to nymphomania. +Clara Barrus has reported the case of a woman in whom there was congenital +absence of uterus and ovaries, as proved subsequently by autopsy, but the +sexual impulse was very strong and she had had illicit intercourse with a +lover. She suffered from recurrent mania, and then masturbated +shamelessly; when sane she was attractively feminine. Macnaughton-Jones +describes the case of a woman of 32 with normal sexual feelings and fully +developed breasts, clitoris, and labia, but no vagina or internal +genitalia could be detected even under the most thorough examination. In a +case of Bridgman's, again, the womb and ovaries were absent, and the +vagina small, but coitus was not painful, and the voluptuous sensations +were complete and sexual passion was strong. In a case of Cotterill's, the +ovaries and uterus were of minute size and functionless, and the vagina +was absent, but the sexual feelings were normal, and the clitoris +preserved its usual sensibility. Mundé had recorded two similar cases, of +which he presents photographs. In all these cases not only was the sexual +impulse present in full degree, but the subjects were feminine in +disposition and of normal womanly conformation; in most cases the external +sexual organs were properly developed.<a name='3_FNanchor_15'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_15'><sup>[15]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Féré (<i>L'Instinct sexuel</i>, p. 241) has sought to explain away + some of these phenomena, in so far as they may be brought against + the theory that the secretions and excretions of the sexual + glands are the sole source of the sexual impulse. The persistence + of sexual feelings after castration may be due, he argues, to the + presence of the nerves in the cicatrices, just as the amputated + have the illusion that the missing limb is still there. Exactly + the same explanation has since been put forward by Moll, + <i>Medizinische Klinik</i>, 1905, Nrs. 12 and 13. In the same way the + presence of sexual feelings after the menopause may be due to + similar irritation determined by degeneration during involution + of the glands. The precocious appearance of the sexual impulse in + childhood he would explain as due to an anomaly of development in + the sexual organs. Féré makes no attempt to explain the presence + of the <a name='3_Page_15'></a>sexual impulse in the congenital absence of the sexual + glands; here, however, Mundé intervenes with the suggestion that + it is possible that in most cases "an infinitesimal trace of + ovary" may exist, and preserve femininity, though insufficient to + produce ovulation or menstruation.</p> + +<p> It is proper to mention these ingenious arguments. They are, + however, purely hypothetical, obviously invented to support a + theory. It can scarcely be said that they carry conviction. We + may rather agree with Guinard that so great is the importance of + reproduction that nature has multiplied the means by which + preparation is made for the conjunction of the sexes and the + roads by which sexual excitation may arrive. As Hirschfeld puts + it, in a discussion of this subject (<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Feb., + 1912), "Nature has several irons in the fire."</p> + +<p> It will be seen that the conclusions we have reached indirectly + involve the assumption that the spinal nervous centers, through + which the sexual mechanism operates, are not sufficient to + account for the whole of the phenomena of the sexual impulse. The + nervous circuit tends to involve a cerebral element, which may + sometimes be of dominant importance. Various investigators, from + the time of Gall onward, have attempted to localize the sexual + instinct centrally. Such attempts, however, cannot be said to + have succeeded, although they tend to show that there is a real + connection between the brain and the generative organs. Thus + Ceni, of Modena, by experiments on chickens, claims to have + proved the influence of the cortical centers of procreation on + the faculty of generation, for he found that lesions of the + cortex led to sterility corresponding in degree to the lesion; + but as these results followed even independently of any + disturbance of the sexual instinct, their significance is not + altogether clear (Carlo Ceni, "L'Influenza dei Centri Corticali + sui Fenomeni della Generazione," <i>Revista Sperimentale di + Freniatria</i>, 1907, fasc. 2-3). At present, as Obici and + Marchesini have well remarked, all that we can do is to assume + the existence of cerebral as well as spinal sexual centers; a + cerebral sexual center, in the strictest sense, remains purely + hypothetical.</p> + +<p> Although Gall's attempt to locate the sexual instinct in the + cerebellum—well supported as it was by observations—is no + longer considered to be tenable, his discussion of the sexual + instinct was of great value, far in advance of his time, and + accompanied by a mass of facts gathered from many fields. He + maintained that the sexual instinct is <a name='3_Page_16'></a>a function of the brain, + not of the sexual organs. He combated the view ruling in his day + that the seat of erotic mania must be sought in the sexual + organs. He fully dealt with the development of the sexual + instinct in many children before maturity of the sexual glands, + the prolongation of the instinct into old age, its existence in + the castrated and in the congenital absence of the sexual glands; + he pointed out that even with an apparently sound and normal + sexual apparatus all sorts of psychic pathological deviations may + yet occur. In fact, all the lines of argument I have briefly + indicated in the foregoing pages—although when they were first + written this fact was unknown to me—had been fully discussed by + this remarkable man nearly a century ago. (The greater part of + the third volume of Gall's <i>Sur les Fonctions du Cerveau</i>, in the + edition of 1825, is devoted to this subject. For a good summary, + sympathetic, though critical, of Gall's views on this matter, see + Möbius, "Ueber Gall's Specielle Organologie," <i>Schmidt's + Jahrbücher der Medicin</i>, 1900, vol. cclxvii; also <i>Ausgewahlte + Werke</i>, vol. vii.) </p></div> + +<p>It will be seen that the question of the nature of the sexual impulse has +been slowly transformed. It is no longer a question of the formation of +semen in the male, of the function of menstruation in the female. It has +become largely a question of physiological chemistry. The chief parts in +the drama of sex, alike on its psychic as on its physical sides, are thus +supposed to be played by two mysterious protagonists, the hormones, or +internal secretions, of the testes and of the ovary. Even the part played +by the brain is now often regarded as chemical, the brain being considered +to be a great chemical laboratory. There is a tendency, moreover, to +extend the sexual sphere so as to admit the influence of internal +secretions from other glands. The thymus, the adrenals, the thyroid, the +pituitary, even the kidneys: it is possible that internal secretions from +all these glands may combine to fill in the complete picture of sexuality +as we know it in men and women.<a name='3_FNanchor_16'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_16'><sup>[16]</sup></a> The subject is, however, <a name='3_Page_17'></a>so complex +and at present so little known that it would be hazardous, and for the +present purpose it is needless, to attempt to set forth any conclusions.</p> + +<p>It is sufficiently clear that there is on the surface a striking analogy +between sexual desire and the impulse to evacuate an excretion, and that +this analogy is not only seen in the frog, but extends also to the highest +vertebrates. It is quite another matter, however, to assert that the +sexual impulse can be adequately defined as an impulse to evacuate. To +show fully the inadequate nature of this conception would require a +detailed consideration of the facts of sexual life. That is, however, +unnecessary. It is enough to point out certain considerations which alone +suffice to invalidate this view. In the first place, it must be remarked +that the trifling amount of fluid emitted in sexual intercourse is +altogether out of proportion to the emotions aroused by the act and to its +after-effect on the organism; the ancient dictum <i>omne animal post coitum +triste</i> may not be exact, but it is certain that the effect of coitus on +the organism is far more profound than that produced by the far more +extensive evacuation of the bladder or bowels. Again, this definition +leaves unexplained all those elaborate preliminaries which, both in man +and the lower animals, precede the sexual act, preliminaries which in +civilized human beings sometimes themselves constitute a partial +satisfaction to the sexual impulse. It must also be observed that, unlike +the ordinary excretions, this discharge of the sexual glands is not +always, or in every person, necessary at all. Moreover, the theory of +evacuation at once becomes hopelessly inadequate when we apply it to +women; no one will venture to claim that an adequate psychological +explanation of the sexual impulse in a woman is to be found in the desire +to expel a little bland mucus from the minute glands of the genital tract. +We must undoubtedly reject this view of the sexual impulse. It has a +certain element of truth and it permits an instructive and helpful +analogy; but that is all. The sexual act presents many characters which +are absent in an ordinary act of evacuation, and, on the other hand, it +lacks the <a name='3_Page_18'></a>special characteristic of the evacuation proper, the +elimination of waste material; the seminal fluid is not a waste material, +and its retention is, to some extent perhaps, rather an advantage than a +disadvantage to the organism.</p> + +<p>Eduard von Hartmann long since remarked that the satisfaction of what we +call the sexual instinct through an act carried out with a person of the +opposite sex is a very wonderful phenomenon. It cannot be said, however, +that the conception of the sexual act as a simple process of evacuation +does anything to explain the wonder. We are, at most, in the same position +as regards the stilling of normal sexual desire as we should be as regards +the emptying of the bladder, supposing it were very difficult for either +sex to effect this satisfactorily without the aid of a portion of the body +of a person of the other sex acting as a catheter. In such a case our +thoughts and ideals would center around persons of opposite sex, and we +should court their attention and help precisely as we do now in the case +of our sexual needs. Some such relationship does actually exist in the +case of the suckling mother and her infant. The mother is indebted to the +child for the pleasurable relief of her distended breasts; and, while in +civilization more subtle pleasures and intelligent reflection render this +massive physical satisfaction comparatively unessential to the act of +suckling, in more primitive conditions and among animals the need of this +pleasurable physical satisfaction is a real bond between the mother and +her offspring. The analogy is indeed very close: the erectile nipple +corresponds to the erectile penis, the eager watery mouth of the infant to +the moist and throbbing vagina, the vitally albuminous milk to the vitally +albuminous semen.<a name='3_FNanchor_17'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_17'><sup>[17]</sup></a> The complete <a name='3_Page_19'></a>mutual satisfaction, physical and +psychic, of mother and child, in the transfer from one to the other of a +precious organized fluid, is the one true physiological analogy to the +relationship of a man and a woman at the climax of the sexual act. Even +this close analogy, however, fails to cover all the facts of the sexual +life.</p> + +<p>A very different view is presented to us in the definition of the sexual +instinct as a reproductive impulse, a desire for offspring. Hegar, +Eulenburg, Näcke, and Löwenfeld have accepted this as, at all events, a +partial definition.<a name='3_FNanchor_18'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_18'><sup>[18]</sup></a> No one, indeed, would argue that it is a complete +definition, although a few writers appear to have asserted that it is so +sometimes as regards the sexual impulse in women. There is, however, +considerable mental confusion in the attempt to set up such a definition. +If we define an instinct as an action adapted to an end which is not +present to consciousness, then it is quite true that the sexual instinct +is an instinct of reproduction. But we do not adequately define the sexual +instinct by merely stating its ultimate object. We might as well say that +the impulse by which young animals seize food is "an instinct of +nutrition." The object of reproduction certainly constitutes no part of +the sexual impulse whatever in any animal apart from man, and it reveals a +lack of the most elementary sense of biological continuity to assert that +in man so fundamental and involuntary a process can suddenly be +revolutionized. That <a name='3_Page_20'></a>the sexual impulse is very often associated with a +strong desire for offspring there can be no doubt, and in women the +longing for a child—that is to say, the longing to fulfill those +functions for which their bodies are constituted—may become so urgent and +imperative that we may regard it as scarcely less imperative than the +sexual impulse. But it is not the sexual impulse, though intimately +associated with it, and though it explains it. A reproductive instinct +might be found in parthenogenetic animals, but would be meaningless, +because useless, in organisms propagating by sexual union. A woman may not +want a lover, but may yet want a child. This merely means that her +maternal instincts have been aroused, while her sexual instincts are still +latent. A desire for reproduction, as soon as that desire becomes +instinctive, necessarily takes on the form of the sexual impulse, for +there is no other instinctive mechanism by which it can possibly express +itself. A "reproductive instinct," apart from the sexual instinct and +apart from the maternal instinct, cannot be admitted; it would be an +absurdity. Even in women in whom the maternal instincts are strong, it may +generally be observed that, although before a woman is in love, and also +during the later stages of her love, the conscious desire for a child may +be strong, during the time when sexual passion is at its highest the +thought of offspring, under normally happy conditions, tends to recede +into the background. Reproduction is the natural end and object of the +sexual instinct, but the statement that it is part of the contents of the +sexual impulse, or can in any way be used to define that impulse, must be +dismissed as altogether inacceptable. Indeed, although the term +"reproductive instinct" is frequently used, it is seldom used in a sense +that we need take seriously; it is vaguely employed as a euphemism by +those who wish to veil the facts of the sexual life; it is more precisely +employed mainly by those who are unconsciously dominated by a +superstitious repugnance to sex.</p> + +<p>I now turn to a very much more serious and elaborate attempt to define the +constitution of the sexual impulse, that of Moll. He finds that it is made +up of two separate components, <a name='3_Page_21'></a>each of which may be looked upon as an +uncontrollable impulse.<a name='3_FNanchor_19'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_19'><sup>[19]</sup></a> One of these is that by which the tension of +the sexual organs is spasmodically relieved; this he calls the <i>impulse of +detumescence</i>,<a name='3_FNanchor_20'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_20'><sup>[20]</sup></a> and he regards it as primary, resembling the impulse to +empty a full bladder. The other impulse is the "instinct to approach, +touch, and kiss another person, usually of the opposite sex"; this he +terms the <i>impulse of contrectation</i>, and he includes under this head not +only the tendency to general physical contact, but also the psychic +inclination to become generally interested in a person of the opposite +sex. Each of these primary impulses Moll regards as forming a constituent +of the sexual instinct in both men and women. It seems to me undoubtedly +true that these two impulses do correspond to the essential phenomena. The +awkward and unsatisfactory part of Moll's analysis is the relation of the +one to the other. It is true that he traces both impulses back to the +sexual glands, that of detumescence directly, that of contrectation +indirectly; but evidently he does not regard them as intimately related to +each other; he insists on the fact that they may exist apart from each +other, that they do not appear synchronously in youth: the contrectation +impulse he regards as secondary; it is, he states, an indirect result of +the sexual glands, "only to be understood by the developmental history of +these glands and the object which they subserve"; that is to say, that it +is connected with the rise of the sexual method of reproduction and the +desirability of the mingling of the two sexes in procreation, while the +impulse of detumescence arose before the sexual method of reproduction had +appeared; thus the contrectation impulse was propagated by natural +selection together with the sexual method of reproduction. The impulse of +contrectation is secondary, and Moll even regards it as a secondary sexual +character.</p> + +<p>While, therefore, this analysis seems to include all the phenomena and to +be worthy of very careful study as a serious <a name='3_Page_22'></a>and elaborate attempt to +present an adequate psychological definition of the sexual impulse, it +scarcely seems to me that we can accept it in precisely the form in which +Moll presents it. I believe, however, that by analyzing the process a +little more minutely we shall find that these two constituents of the +sexual impulse are really much more intimately associated than at the +first glance appears, and that we need by no means go back to the time +when the sexual method of reproduction arose to explain the significance +of the phenomena which Moll includes under the term contrectation.</p> + +<p>To discover the true significance of the phenomena in men it is necessary +to observe carefully the phenomena of love-making not only among men, but +among animals, in which the impulse of contrectation plays a very large +part, and involves an enormous expenditure of energy. Darwin was the first +to present a comprehensive view of, at all events a certain group of, the +phenomena of contrectation in animals; on his interpretation of those +phenomena he founded his famous theory of sexual selection. We are not +primarily concerned with that theory; but the facts on which Darwin based +his theory lie at the very roots of our subject, and we are bound to +consider their psychological significance. In the first place, since these +phenomena are specially associated with Darwin's name, it may not be out +of place to ask what Darwin himself considered to be their psychological +significance. It is a somewhat important question, even for those who are +mainly concerned with the validity of the theory which Darwin established +on those facts, but so far as I know it has not hitherto been asked. I +find that a careful perusal of the <i>Descent of Man</i> reveals the presence +in Darwin's mind of two quite distinct theories, neither of them fully +developed, as to the psychological meaning of the facts he was collecting. +The two following groups of extracts will serve to show this very +conclusively: "The lower animals have a sense of beauty," he declares, +"powers of discrimination and taste on the part of the female" (p. +211<a name='3_FNanchor_21'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_21'><sup>[21]</sup></a>); "the females habitually <a name='3_Page_23'></a>or occasionally prefer the more +beautiful males," "there is little improbability in the females of insects +appreciating beauty in form or color" (p. 329); he speaks of birds as the +most "esthetic" of all animals excepting man, and adds that they have +"nearly the same taste for the beautiful as we have" (p. 359); he remarks +that a change of any kind in the structure or color of the male bird +"appears to have been admired by the female" (p. 385). He speaks of the +female Argus pheasant as possessing "this almost human degree of taste." +Birds, again, "seem to have some taste for the beautiful both in color and +sound," and "we ought not to feel too sure that the female does not attend +to each detail of beauty" (p. 421). Novelty, he says, is "admired by birds +for its own sake" (p. 495). "Birds have fine powers of discrimination and +in some few instances it can be shown that they have a taste for the +beautiful" (p. 496). The "esthetic capacity" of female animals has been +advanced by exercise just as our own taste has improved (p. 616). On the +other hand, we find running throughout the book quite another idea. Of +cicadas he tells us that it is probable that, "like female birds, they are +excited or allured by the male with the most attractive voice" (p. 282); +and, coming to <i>Locustidæ</i>, he states that "all observers agree that the +sounds serve either to call or excite the mute females" (p. 283). Of birds +he says, "I am led to believe that the females prefer or are most excited +by the more brilliant males" (p. 316). Among birds also the males +"endeavor to charm or excite their mates by love-notes," etc., and "the +females are excited by certain males, and thus unconsciously prefer them" +(p. 367), while ornaments of all kinds "apparently serve to excite, +attract, or fascinate the female" (p. 394). In a supplemental note, also, +written in 1876, five years after the first publication of the <i>Descent of +Man</i>, and therefore a late statement of his views, Darwin remarks that "no +supporter of the principle of sexual selection believes that the females +select particular points of beauty in the males; they are merely excited +or attracted in a greater degree by one male than by another, and this +seems often to depend, especially <a name='3_Page_24'></a>with birds, on brilliant coloring" (p. +623). Thus, on the one hand, Darwin interprets the phenomena as involving +a real esthetic element, a taste for the beautiful; on the other hand, he +states, without apparently any clear perception that the two views are +quite distinct, that the colors and sounds and other characteristics of +the male are not an appeal to any esthetic sense of the female, but an +appeal to her sexual emotions, a stimulus to sexual excitement, an +allurement to sexual contact. According to the first theory, the female +admires beauty, consciously or unconsciously, and selects the most +beautiful partner<a name='3_FNanchor_22'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_22'><sup>[22]</sup></a>; according to the second theory, there is no +esthetic question involved, but the female is unconsciously influenced by +the most powerful or complex organic stimulus to which she is subjected. +There can be no question that it is the second, and not the first, of +these two views which we are justified in accepting. Darwin, it must be +remembered, was not a psychologist, and he lived before the methods of +comparative psychology had begun to be developed; had he written twenty +years later we may be sure he would never have used so incautiously some +of the vague and hazardous expressions I have quoted. He certainly injured +his theory of sexual selection by stating it in too anthropomorphic +language, by insisting on "choice," "preference," "esthetic sense," etc. +There is no need whatever to burden any statement of the actual facts by +such terms borrowed from human psychology. The female responds to the +stimulation of the male at the right moment just as the tree responds to +the stimulation of the warmest days in spring. We should but obscure this +fact by stating that the tree "chooses" the most beautiful days on which +to put forth its young sprouts. In explaining the correlation between +responsive females and accomplished males the supposition of esthetic +<a name='3_Page_25'></a>choice is equally unnecessary. It is, however, interesting to observe +that, though Darwin failed to see that the love-combats, pursuits, dances, +and parades of the males served as a method of stimulating the impulse of +contrectation—or, as it would be better to term it, tumescence—in the +male himself,<a name='3_FNanchor_23'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_23'><sup>[23]</sup></a> he to some extent realized the part thus played in +exciting the equally necessary activity of tumescence in the female.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The justification for using the term "tumescence," which I here + propose, is to be found in the fact that vascular congestion, + more especially of the parts related to generation, is an + essential preliminary to acute sexual desire. This is clearly + brought out in Heape's careful study of the "sexual season" in + mammals. Heape distinguishes between the "pro-estrum," or + preliminary period of congestion, in female animals and the + immediately following "estrus," or period of desire. The latter + period is the result of the former, and, among the lower animals + at all events, intercourse only takes place during the estrus, + not during the pro-estrum. Tumescence must thus be obtained + before desire can become acute, and courtship runs <i>pari passu</i> + with physiological processes. "Normal estrus," Heape states, + "occurs in conjunction with certain changes in the uterine + tissue, and this is accompanied by congestion and stimulation or + irritation of the copulatory organs.... Congestion is invariably + present and is an essential condition.... The first sign of + pro-estrum noticed in the lower mammals is a swollen and + congested vulva and a general restlessness, excitement, or + uneasiness. There are other signs familiar to breeders of various + mammals, such as the congested conjunctiva of the rabbit's eye + and the drooping ears of the pig. Many monkeys exhibit congestion + of the face and nipples, as well as of the buttocks, thighs, and + neighboring parts; sometimes they are congested to a very marked + extent, and in some species a swelling, occasionally prodigious, + of the soft tissues round the anal and generative openings, which + is also at the time brilliantly congested, indicates the progress + of the pro-estrum.... The growth of the stroma-tissue [in the + uterus of monkeys during the pro-estrum] is rapidly followed by + an increase in the number and size of the vessels of the stroma; + the whole becomes richly supplied with blood, and the surface is + flushed and highly vascular. This process goes on until the whole + of the internal stroma becomes tense and brilliantly injected + <a name='3_Page_26'></a>with blood.... In all essential points the menstruation or + pro-estrum of the human female is identical with that of + monkeys.... Estrus is possible only after the changes due to + pro-estrum have taken place in the uterus. A wave of disturbance, + at first evident in the external generative organs, extends to + the uterus, and after the various phases of pro-estrum have been + gone through in that organ, and the excitement there is + subsiding, it would seem as if the external organs gain renewed + stimulus, and it is then that estrus takes place.... In all + animals which have been investigated coition is not allowed by + the female until some time after the swelling and congestion of + the vulva and surrounding tissue are first demonstrated, and in + those animals which suffer from a considerable discharge of blood + the main portion of that discharge, if not the whole of it, will + be evacuated before sexual intercourse is allowed." (W. Heape, + "The 'Sexual Season' of Mammals," <i>Quarterly Journal of + Microscopical Science</i>, vol. xliv, Part I, 1900. Estrus has since + been fully discussed in Marshall's <i>Physiology of Reproduction</i>.) + This description clearly brings out the fundamentally vascular + character of the process I have termed "tumescence"; it must be + added, however, that in man the nervous elements in the process + tend to become more conspicuous, and more or less obliterate + these primitive limitations of sexual desire. (See "Sexual + Periodicity" in the first volume of these <i>Studies</i>.)</p> + +<p> Moll subsequently restated his position with reference to my + somewhat different analysis of the sexual impulse, still + maintaining his original view ("Analyse des Geschlechtstriebes," + <i>Medizinische Klinik</i>, Nos. 12 and 13, 1905; also <i>Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft</i>, vol. ii, Nos. 9 and 10). Numa Praetorius + (<i>Jahrbuch für Sexeuelle Zwischenstufen</i>, 1904, p. 592) accepts + contrectation, tumescence, and detumescence as all being stages + in the same process, contrectation, which he defines as the + sexual craving for a definite individual, coming first. Robert + Müller (<i>Sexualbiologie</i>, 1907, p. 37) criticises Moll much in + the same sense as I have done and considers that contrectation + and detumescence cannot be separated, but are two expressions of + the same impulse; so also Max Katte, "Die Präliminarien des + Geschlechtsaktes," <i>Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft</i>, Oct., + 1908, and G. Saint-Paul, <i>L'Homosexualité et les Types + Homosexuels</i>, 1910, p. 390.</p> + +<p> While I regard Moll's analysis as a valuable contribution to the + elucidation of the sexual impulse, I must repeat that I cannot + regard it as final or completely adequate. As I understand the + process, contrectation is an incident in the development of + tumescence, an extremely important incident indeed, but not an + absolutely fundamental and primitive part of it. It is equally an + incident, highly important though not primitive and fundamental, + of detumescence. Contrectation, <a name='3_Page_27'></a>from first to last; furnishes + the best conditions for the exercise of the sexual process, but + it is not an absolutely essential part of the process and in the + early stages of zoölogical development it had no existence at + all. Tumescence and detumescence are alike fundamental, + primitive, and essential; in resting the sexual impulse on these + necessarily connected processes we are basing ourselves on the + solid bedrock of nature.</p> + +<p> Moreover, of the two processes, tumescence, which in time comes + first, is by far the most important, and nearly the whole of + sexual psychology is rooted in it. To assert, with Moll, that the + sexual process may be analyzed into contrectation and + detumescence alone is to omit the most essential part of the + process. It is much the same as to analyze the mechanism of a gun + into probable contact with the hand, and a more or less + independent discharge, omitting all reference to the loading of + the gun. The essential elements are the loading and the + discharging. Contrectation is a part of loading, though not a + necessary part, since the loading may be effected mechanically. + But to understand the process of firing a gun and to comprehend + the mechanism of the discharge, we must insist on the act of + loading and not merely on the contact of the hand. So it is in + analyzing the sexual impulse. Contrectation is indeed highly + important, but it is important only in so far as it aids + tumescence, and so may be subordinated to tumescence, exactly as + it may also be subordinated to detumescence. It is tumescence + which is the really essential part of the process, and we cannot + afford, with Moll, to ignore it altogether. </p></div> + +<p>Wallace opposed Darwin's theory of sexual selection, but it can scarcely +be said that his attitude toward it bears critical examination. On the one +hand, as has already been noted, he saw but one side of that theory and +that the unessential side, and, on the other hand, his own view really +coincided with the more essential elements in Darwin's theory. In his +<i>Tropical Nature</i> he admitted that the male's "persistency and energy win +the day," and also that this "vigor and liveliness" of the male are +usually associated with intense coloration, while twenty years later (in +his <i>Darwinism</i>) he admitted also that it is highly probable that the +female is pleased or excited by the male's display. But all that is really +essential in Darwin's theory is involved, directly or indirectly, in these +admissions.</p> + +<p>Espinas, in 1878, in his suggestive book, <i>Des Sociétés Animales</i>, +described the odors, colors and forms, sounds, games, parades, and mock +battles of animals, approaching the subject <a name='3_Page_28'></a>in a somewhat more +psychological spirit than either Darwin or Wallace, and he somewhat more +clearly apprehended the object of these phenomena in producing mutual +excitement and stimulating tumescence. He noted the significance of the +action of the hermaphroditic snails in inserting their darts into each +other's flesh near the vulva in order to cause preliminary excitation. He +remarks of this whole group of phenomena: "It is the preliminary of sexual +union, it constitutes the first act of it. By it the image of the male is +graven on the consciousness of the female, and in a manner impregnates it, +so as to determine there, as the effects of this representation descend to +the depths of the organism, the physiological modifications necessary to +fecundation." Beaunis, again, in an analysis of the sexual sensations, was +inclined to think that the dances and parades of the male are solely +intended to excite the female, not perceiving, however, that they at the +same time serve to further excite the male also.<a name='3_FNanchor_24'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_24'><sup>[24]</sup></a></p> + +<p>A better and more comprehensive statement was reached by Tillier, who, to +some extent, may be said to have anticipated Groos. Darwin, Tillier +pointed out, had not sufficiently taken into account the coexistence of +combat and courtship, nor the order of the phenomena. Courtship without +combat, Tillier argued, is rare; "there is a normal coexistence of combat +and courtship."<a name='3_FNanchor_25'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_25'><sup>[25]</sup></a> Moreover, he proceeded, force is the chief factor <a name='3_Page_29'></a>in +determining the possession of the female by the male, who in some species +is even prepared to exert force on her; so that the female has little +opportunity of sexual selection, though she is always present at these +combats. He then emphasized the significant fact that courtship takes +place long after pairing has ceased, and the question of selection thus +been eliminated. The object of courtship, he concluded, is not sexual +selection by the female, but the sexual excitement of both male and +female, such excitement, he asserted, not only rendering coupling easier, +but favoring fecundation. Modesty, also, Tillier further argued, again +anticipating Groos, works toward the same end; it renders the male more +ardent, and by retarding coupling may also increase the secretions of the +sexual glands and favor the chances of reproduction.<a name='3_FNanchor_26'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_26'><sup>[26]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In a charming volume entitled <i>The Naturalist in La Plata</i> (1892) + Mr. W. H. Hudson included a remarkable chapter on "Music and + Dancing in Nature." In this chapter he described many of the + dances, songs, and love-antics of birds, but regarded all such + phenomena as merely "periodical fits of gladness." While, + however, we may quite well agree with Mr. Hudson that conscious + sexual gratification on the part of the female is not the cause + of music and dancing performances in birds, nor of the brighter + colors and ornaments that distinguish the male, such an opinion + by no means excludes the conclusion that these phenomena are + primarily sexual and intimately connected with the process of + tumescence in both sexes. It is noteworthy that, according to + H. E. Howard ("On Sexual Selection in Birds," <i>Zoölogist</i>, Nov., + 1903), color is most developed just before pairing, rapidly + becoming less beautiful—even within a few hours—after this, and + the most beautiful male is most successful in getting paired. The + fact that, as Mr. Hudson himself points out, it is at the season + of love that these manifestations mainly, if not exclusively, + appear, and that it is the more brilliant and highly endowed + males which play the chief part in them, only serves to confirm + such a conclusion. To argue, with Mr. Hudson, that they cannot be + sexual because they sometimes occur before the arrival of the + females, is much the same as to argue that the <a name='3_Page_30'></a>antics of a + kitten with a feather or a reel have no relationship whatever to + mice. The birds that began earliest to practise their + accomplishments would probably have most chance of success when + the females arrived. Darwin himself said that nothing is commoner + than for animals to take pleasure in practising whatever instinct + they follow at other times for some real good. These + manifestations are primarily for the sake of producing sexual + tumescence, and could not well have been developed to the height + they have reached unless they were connected closely with + propagation. That they may incidentally serve to express + "gladness" one need not feel called upon to question.</p> + +<p> Another observer of birds, Mr. E. Selous, has made observations + which are of interest in this connection. He finds that all + bird-dances are not nuptial, but that some birds—the + stone-curlew (or great plover), for example—have different kinds + of dances. Among these birds he has made the observation, very + significant from our present point of view, that the nuptial + dances, taken part in by both of the pair, are immediately + followed by intercourse. In spring "all such runnings and + chasings are, at this time, but a part of the business of + pairing, and one divines at once that such attitudes are of a + sexual character.... Here we have a bird with distinct nuptial + (sexual) and social (non-sexual) forms of display or antics, and + the former as well as the latter are equally indulged in by both + sexes." (E. Selous, <i>Bird Watching</i>, pp. 15-20.)</p> + +<p> The same author (<i>ibid.</i>, pp. 79, 94) argues that in the fights + of two males for one female—with violent emotion on one side and + interested curiosity on the other—the attitude of the former + "might gradually come to be a display made entirely for the + female, and of the latter a greater or less degree of pleasurable + excitement raised by it, with a choice in accordance." On this + view the interest of the female would first have been directed, + not to the plumage, but to the frenzied actions and antics of the + male. From these antics in undecorated birds would gradually + develop the interest in waving plumes and fluttering wings. Such + a dance might come to be of a quite formal and non-courting + nature.</p> + +<p> Last, we owe to Professor Häcker what may fairly be regarded, in + all main outlines, as an almost final statement of the matter. In + his <i>Gesang der Vögel</i> (1900) he gives a very clear account of + the evolution of bird-song, which he regards as the most + essential element in all this group of manifestations, furnishing + the key also to the dancing and other antics. Originally the song + consists only of call-cries and recognition-notes. Under the + parallel influence of natural selection and sexual selection they + become at the pairing season reflexes of excitement and thus + develop into methods of producing excitement, in the male by the + <a name='3_Page_31'></a>muscular energy required, and in the female through the ear; + finally they become play, though here also it is probable that + use is not excluded. Thus, so far as the male bird is concerned, + bird-song possesses a primary prenuptial significance in + attracting the female, a secondary nuptial significance in + producing excitement (p. 48). He holds also that the + less-developed voices of the females aid in attaining the same + end (p. 51). Finally, bird-song possesses a tertiary extranuptial + significance (including exercise play, expression of gladness). + Häcker points out, at the same time, that the maintenance of some + degree of sexual excitement beyond pairing time may be of value + for the preservation of the species, in case of disturbance + during breeding and consequent necessity for commencing breeding + over again.</p> + +<p> Such a theory as this fairly coincides with the views brought + forward in the preceding pages,—views which are believed to be + in harmony with the general trend of thought today,—since it + emphasizes the importance of tumescence and all that favors + tumescence in the sexual process. The so-called esthetic element + in sexual selection is only indirectly of importance. The male's + beauty is really a symbol of his force.</p> + +<p> It will be seen that this attitude toward the facts of tumescence + among birds and other animals includes the recognition of dances, + songs, etc., as expressions of "gladness." As such they are + closely comparable to the art manifestations among human races. + Here, as Weismann in his <i>Gedanken über Musik</i> has remarked, we + may regard the artistic faculty as a by-product: "This [musical] + faculty is, as it were, the mental hand with which we play on our + own emotional nature, a hand not shaped for this purpose, not due + to the necessity for the enjoyment of music, but owing its origin + to entirely different requirements." </p></div> + +<p>The psychological significance of these facts has been carefully studied +and admirably developed by Groos in his classic works on the play instinct +in animals and in men.<a name='3_FNanchor_27'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_27'><sup>[27]</sup></a> Going beyond Wallace, Groos denies <i>conscious</i> +sexual selection, but, as he points out, this by no means involves the +denial of unconscious selection in the sense that "the female is most +easily won by the male who most strongly excites her sexual instincts." +Groos further quotes a pregnant generalization of Ziegler: "In all animals +a high degree of excitement of the nervous system is <i>necessary to +procreation</i>, and thus we find an excited prelude <a name='3_Page_32'></a>to procreation widely +spread."<a name='3_FNanchor_28'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_28'><sup>[28]</sup></a> Such a stage, indeed, as Groos points out, is usually +necessary before any markedly passionate discharge of motor energy, as may +be observed in angry dogs and the Homeric heroes. While, however, in other +motor explosions the prelude may be reduced to a minimum, in courtship it +is found in a highly marked degree. The primary object of courtship, Groos +insists, is to produce sexual excitement.</p> + +<p>It is true that Groos's main propositions were by no means novel. Thus, as +I have pointed out, he was at most points anticipated by Tillier. But +Groos developed the argument in so masterly a manner, and with so many +wide-ranging illustrations, that he has carried conviction where the mere +insight of others had passed unperceived. Since Darwin wrote the <i>Descent +of Man</i> the chief step in the development of the theory of sexual +selection has been taken by Groos, who has at the same time made it clear +that sexual selection is largely a special case of natural selection.<a name='3_FNanchor_29'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_29'><sup>[29]</sup></a> +The conjunction of the sexes is seen to be an end only to be obtained with +much struggle; the difficulty of achieving sexual erethism in both sexes, +the difficulty of so stimulating such erethism in the female that her +instinctive coyness is overcome, these difficulties the best and most +vigorous males,<a name='3_FNanchor_30'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_30'><sup>[30]</sup></a> those most adapted in other <a name='3_Page_33'></a>respects to carry on the +race, may most easily overcome. In this connection we may note what Marro +has said in another connection, when attempting to answer the question why +it is that among savages courtship becomes so often a matter in which +persuasion takes the form of force. The explanation, he remarks, is yet +very simple. Force is the foundation of virility, and its psychic +manifestation is courage. In the struggle for life violence is the first +virtue. The modesty of women—in its primordial form consisting in +physical resistance, active or passive, to the assaults of the male—aided +selection by putting to the test man's most important quality, force. Thus +it is that when choosing among rivals for her favors a woman attributes +value to violence.<a name='3_FNanchor_31'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_31'><sup>[31]</sup></a> Marro thus independently confirms the result +reached by Groos.</p> + +<p>The debate which has for so many years been proceeding concerning the +validity of the theory of sexual selection may now be said to be brought +to an end. Those who supported Darwin and those who opposed him were, both +alike, in part right and in part wrong, and it is now possible to combine +the elements of truth on either side into a coherent whole. This is now +beginning to be widely recognized; Lloyd Morgan,<a name='3_FNanchor_32'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_32'><sup>[32]</sup></a> for instance, has +readjusted his position as regards the "pairing instinct" in the light of +Groos's contribution to the subject. "The hypothesis of sexual selection," +he concludes, "suggests that the accepted male is the one which adequately +evokes the pairing impulse.... Courtship may thus be regarded from the +physiological point of view as a means of producing the requisite amount +of pairing hunger; of stimulating the whole system and facilitating +general and special vascular changes; of creating that state of profound +and explosive irritability which has for its psychological concomitant or +antecedent an imperious and irresistible craving.... Courtship is thus +<a name='3_Page_34'></a>the strong and steady bending of the bow that the arrow may find its mark +in a biological end of the highest importance in the survival of a healthy +and vigorous race."</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Having thus viewed the matter broadly, we may consider in detail + a few examples of the process of tumescence among the lower + animals and man, for, as will be seen, the process in both is + identical. As regards animal courtship, the best treasury of + facts is Brehm's <i>Thierleben</i>, while Büchner's <i>Liebe und + Liebes-Leben in der Thierwelt</i> is a useful summary; the admirable + discussion of bird-dancing and other forms of courtship in + Häcker's <i>Gesang der Vögel</i>, chapter iv, may also be consulted. + As regards man, Wallaschek's <i>Primitive Music</i>, chapter vii, + brings together much scattered material, and is all the more + valuable since the author rejects any form of sexual selection; + Hirn's <i>Origins of Art</i>, chapter xvii, is well worth reading, and + Finck's <i>Primitive Love and Love-stories</i> contains a large amount + of miscellaneous information. I have preferred not to draw on any + of these easily accessible sources (except that in one or two + cases I have utilized references they supplied), but here simply + furnish illustrations met with in the course of my own reading.</p> + +<p> Even in the hermaphroditic slugs (<i>Limax maximus</i>) the process of + courtship is slow and elaborate. It has been described by James + Bladon ("The Loves of the Slug [<i>Limax cinereus</i>]," <i>Zoölogist</i>, + vol. xv, 1857, p. 6272). It begins toward midnight on sultry + summer nights, one slug slowly following another, resting its + mouth on what may be called the tail of the first, and following + its every movement. Finally they stop and begin crawling around + each other, emitting large quantities of mucus. When this has + constituted a mass of sufficient size and consistence they + suspend themselves from it by a cord of mucus from nine to + fifteen inches in length, continuing to turn round each other + till their bodies form a cone. Then the organs of generation are + protruded from their orifice near the mouth and, hanging down a + short distance, touch each other. They also then begin again the + same spiral motion, twisting around each other, like a two-strand + cord, assuming various and beautiful forms, sometimes like an + inverted agaric, or a foliated murex, or a leaf of curled + parsley, the light falling on the ever-varying surface of the + generative organs sometimes producing iridescence. It is not + until after a considerable time that the organs untwist and are + withdrawn and the bodies separate, to crawl up the suspending + cord and depart.</p> + +<p> Some snails have a special organ for creating sexual excitement. + A remarkable part of the reproductive system in many of the true + Helicidæ is the so-called <i>dart, Liebespfeil</i>, or <i>telum + Veneris</i>. It consists <a name='3_Page_35'></a>of a straight or curved, sometimes + slightly twisted, tubular shaft of carbonate of lime, tapering to + a fine point above, and enlarging gradually, more often somewhat + abruptly, to the base. The sides of the shaft are sometimes + furnished with two or more blades; these are apparently not for + cutting purposes, but simply to brace the stem. The dart is + contained in a dart-sac, which is attached as a sort of pocket to + the vagina, at no great distance from its orifice. In <i>Helix + aspersa</i> the dart is about five-sixteenths of an inch in length, + and one-eighth of an inch in breadth at its base. It appears most + probable that the dart is employed as an adjunct for the sexual + act. Besides the fact of the position of the dart-sac + anatomically, we find that the darts are extended and become + imbedded in the flesh, just before or during the act of + copulation. It may be regarded, then, as an organ whose functions + induce excitement preparatory to sexual union. It only occurs in + well-grown specimens. (Rev. L. H. Cooke, "Molluscs," <i>Cambridge + Natural History</i>, vol. iii, p. 143.)</p> + +<p> Racovitza has shown that in the octopus (<i>Octopus vulgaris</i>) + courtship is carried on with considerable delicacy, and not + brutally, as had previously been supposed. The male gently + stretches out his third arm on the right and caresses the female + with its extremity, eventually passing it into the chamber formed + by the mantle. The female contracts spasmodically, but does not + attempt to move. They remain thus about an hour or more, and + during this time the male shifts the arm from one oviduct to the + other. Finally he withdraws his arm, caresses her with it for a + few moments, and then replaces it with his other arm. (E. G. + Racovitza, in <i>Archives de Zoölogie Expérimentale</i>, quoted in + <i>Natural Science</i>, November, 1894.)</p> + +<p> The phenomena of courtship are very well illustrated by spiders. + Peckham, who has carefully studied them, tells us of <i>Saitis + pulex</i>: "On May 24th we found a mature female, and placed her in + one of the larger boxes, and the next day we put a male in with + her. He saw her as she stood perfectly still, twelve inches away; + the glance seemed to excite him, and he at once moved toward her; + when some four inches from her he stood still, and then began the + most remarkable performances that an amorous male could offer to + an admiring female. She eyed him eagerly, changing her position + from time to time so that he might be always in view. He, raising + his whole body on one side by straightening out the legs, and + lowering it on the other by folding the first two pairs of legs + up and under, leaned so far over as to be in danger of losing his + balance, which he only maintained by sliding rapidly toward the + lowered side. The palpus, too, on this side was turned back to + correspond to the direction of the legs nearest it. He moved in a + semicircle for about two inches, and then instantly reversed <a name='3_Page_36'></a>the + position of the legs and circled in the opposite direction, + gradually approaching nearer and nearer to the female. Now she + dashes toward him, while he, raising his first pair of legs, + extends them upward and forward as if to hold her off, but withal + slowly retreats. Again and again he circles from side to side, + she gazing toward him in a softer mood, evidently admiring the + grace of his antics. This is repeated until we have counted one + hundred and eleven circles made by the ardent little male. Now he + approaches nearer and nearer, and when almost within reach whirls + madly around and around her, she joining and whirling with him in + a giddy maze. Again he falls back and resumes his semicircular + motions, with his body tilted over; she, all excitement, lowers + her head and raises her body so that it is almost vertical; both + draw nearer; she moves slowly under him, he crawling over her + head, and the mating is accomplished."</p> + +<p> The same author thus describes the courtship of <i>Dendryphantes + elegans</i>: "While from three to five inches distant from her, he + begins to wave his plumy first legs in a way that reminds one of + a windmill. She eyes him fiercely, and he keeps at a proper + distance for a long time. If he comes close she dashes at him, + and he quickly retreats. Sometimes he becomes bolder, and when + within an inch, pauses, with the first legs outstretched before + him, not raised as is common in other species; the palpi also are + held stiffly out in front with the points together. Again she + drives him off, and so the play continues. Now the male grows + excited as he approaches her, and while still several inches + away, whirls completely around and around; pausing, he runs + closer and begins to make his abdomen quiver as he stands on + tiptoe in front of her. Prancing from side to side, he grows + bolder and bolder, while she seems less fierce, and yielding to + the excitement, lifts up her magnificently iridescent abdomen, + holding it at one time vertical, and at another sideways to him. + She no longer rushes at him, but retreats a little as he + approaches. At last he comes close to her, lying flat, with his + first legs stretched out and quivering. With the tips of his + front legs he gently pats her; this seems to arouse the old demon + of resistance, and she drives him back. Again and again he pats + her with a caressing movement, gradually creeping nearer and + nearer, which she now permits without resistance, until he crawls + over her head to her abdomen, far enough to reach the epigynum + with his palpus." (G. W. Peckham, "Sexual Selection of Spiders," + <i>Occasional Papers of the Natural History Society of Wisconsin</i>, + 1889, quoted in <i>Nature</i>, August 21, 1890.)</p> + +<p> The courtship of another spider, the <i>Agelena labyrinthica</i>, has + been studied by Lécaillon ("Les Instincts et les Psychismes des + Araignées," <i>Revue Scientifique</i>, Sept. 15, 1906.) The male + enters the female's web and may be found there about the middle + of July. When <a name='3_Page_37'></a>courtship has begun it is not interrupted by the + closest observation, even under the magnifying glass. At first it + is the male which seeks to couple and he pursues the female over + her web till she consents. The pursuit may last some hours, the + male agitating his abdomen in a peculiar way, while the female + simply retreats a short distance without allowing herself to be + approached. At last the female holds herself completely + motionless, and then the male approaches, seizes her, places her + on her side, sometimes carrying her to a more suitable part of + the web. Then one of his copulative apparatus is applied to the + female genital opening, and copulation begins. When completed (on + an average in about two hours) the male withdraws his copulatory + palpus and turns over the female, who is still inert, on to her + other side, then brings his second copulatory apparatus to the + female opening and starts afresh. When the process is definitely + completed the male leaves the female, suddenly retiring to a + little distance. The female, who had remained completely + motionless for four hours, suddenly runs after the male. But she + only pursues him for a short distance, and the two spiders remain + together without any danger to either. Lécaillon disbelieves the + statement of Romanes (in his <i>Animal Intelligence</i>) that the + female eats the male after copulation. But this certainly seems + to occur sometimes among insects, as illustrated by the following + instance described by so careful an observer of insects as Fabre.</p> + +<p> The <i>Mantis religiosa</i> is described by Fabre as contemplating the + female for a long time in an attitude of ecstasy. She remains + still and seems indifferent. He is small and she is large. At + last he approaches; spreads his wings, which tremble + convulsively; leaps on her back, and fixes himself there. The + preludes are long and the coupling itself sometimes occupies five + or six hours. Then they separate. But the same day or the + following day she seizes him and eats him up in small mouthfuls. + She will permit a whole series of males to have intercourse with + her, always eating them up directly afterward. Fabre has even + seen her eating the male while still on her back, his head and + neck gone, but his body still firmly attached. (J. H. Fabre, + <i>Souvenirs Entomologiques</i>, fifth series, p. 307.) Fabre also + describes in great detail (<i>ibid.</i>, ninth series, chs. xxi-xxii) + the sexual parades of the Languedoc scorpion (<i>Scorpio + occitanus</i>), an arachnid. These parades are in public; for their + subsequent intercourse the couple seek complete seclusion, and + the female finally eats the male.</p> + +<p> An insect (a species of <i>Empis</i>) has been described which excites + the female by manipulating a large balloon. "This is of + elliptical shape, about seven millimeters long (nearly twice as + long as the fly), hollow, and composed entirely of a single layer + of minute bubbles, nearly uniform in size, arranged in regular + circles concentric with the axis of the <a name='3_Page_38'></a>structure. The + beautiful, glistening whiteness of the object when the sun shines + upon it makes it very conspicuous. The bubbles were slightly + viscid, and in nearly every case there was a small fly pressed + into the front end of the balloon, apparently as food for the + <i>Empis</i>. In all cases they were dead. The balloon appears to be + made while the insect is flying in the air. Those flying highest + had the smallest balloons. The bubbles are probably produced by + some modification of the anal organs. It is possible that the + captured fly serves as a nucleus to begin the balloon on. One + case of a captured fly but no balloon was observed. After + commencing, it is probable that the rest of the structure is made + by revolving the completed part between the hind legs and adding + more bubbles somewhat spirally. The posterior end of the balloon + is left more or less open. The purpose of this structure is to + attract the female. When numerous males were flying up and down + the road, it happened several times that a female was seen to + approach them from some choke-cherry blossoms near by. The males + immediately gathered in her path, and she with little hesitation + selected for a mate the one with the largest balloon, taking a + position <i>upon his back</i>. After copulation had begun, the pair + would settle down toward the ground, select a quiet spot, and the + female would alight by placing her front legs across a horizontal + grass blade, her head resting against the blade so as to brace + the body in position. Here she would continue to hold the male + beneath her for a little time, until the process was finished. + The male, meanwhile, would be rolling the balloon about in a + variety of positions, juggling with it, one might almost say. + After the male and female parted company, the male immediately + dropped the balloon upon the ground, and it was greedily seized + by ants. No illustration could properly show the beauty of the + balloon." (Aldrich and Turley, "A Balloon-making Fly," <i>American + Naturalist</i>, October, 1899.)</p> + +<p> "In many species of moths the males 'assemble' around the freshly + emerged female, but no special advantage appears to attend on + early arrival. The female sits apparently motionless, while the + little crowd of suitors buzz around her for several minutes. + Suddenly, and, as far as one can see, without any sign from the + female, one of the males pairs with her and all the others + immediately disappear. In these cases the males do not fight or + struggle in any way, and as one watches the ceremony the wonder + arises as to how the moment is determined, and why the pairing + did not take place before. Proximity does not decide the point, + for long beforehand the males often alight close to the female + and brush against her with fluttering wings. I have watched the + process exactly as I have described it in a common Northern + <i>Noctua</i>, the antler moth (<i>Charæax graminis</i>), and I have seen + the same thing among beetles." (E. B. Poulton, <i>The Colors of + Animals</i>, 1890, p. 391.) This <a name='3_Page_39'></a>author mentions that among some + butterflies the females take the active part. The example here + quoted of courtship among moths illustrates how phenomena which + are with difficulty explicable by the theory of sexual selection + in its original form become at once intelligible when we realize + the importance of tumescence in courtship.</p> + +<p> Of the Argentine cow-bird (<i>Molothrus bonariensis</i>) Hudson says + (<i>Argentine Ornithology</i>, vol. i, p. 73): "The song of the male, + particularly when making love, is accompanied with gestures and + actions somewhat like those of the domestic pigeon. He swells + himself out, beating the ground with his wings, and uttering a + series of deep internal notes, followed by others loud and clear; + and occasionally, when uttering them, he suddenly takes wing and + flies directly away from the female to a distance of fifty yards, + and performs a wide circuit about her in the air, singing all the + time. The homely object of his passion always appears utterly + indifferent to this curious and pretty performance; yet she must + be even more impressionable than most female birds, since she + continues scattering about her parasitical and often wasted eggs + during four months in every year."</p> + +<p> Of a tyrant-bird (<i>Pitangus Bolivianus</i>) Hudson writes + (<i>Argentine Ornithology</i>, vol. i, p. 148): "Though the male and + female are greatly attached, they do not go afield to hunt in + company, but separate to meet again at intervals during the day. + One of a couple (say, the female) returns to the trees where they + are accustomed to meet, and after a time, becoming impatient or + anxious at the delay of her consort, utters a very long, clear + call-note. He is perhaps a quarter of a mile away, watching for a + frog beside a pool, or beating over a thistle-bed, but he hears + the note and presently responds with one of equal power. Then, + perhaps, for half an hour, at intervals of half a minute, the + birds answer each other, though the powerful call of the one must + interfere with his hunting. At length he returns; then the two + birds, perched close together, with their yellow bosoms almost + touching, crests elevated, and beating the branch with their + wings, scream their loudest notes in concert—a confused jubilant + noise that rings through the whole plantation. Their joy at + meeting is patent, and their action corresponds to the warm + embrace of a loving human couple."</p> + +<p> Of the red-breasted marsh-bird (<i>Leistes superciliaris</i>) Hudson + (<i>Argentine Ornithology</i>, vol. i, p. 100) writes: "These birds + are migratory, and appear everywhere in the eastern part of the + Argentine country early in October, arriving singly, after which + each male takes up a position in a field or open space abounding + with coarse grass and herbage, where he spends most of his time + perched on the summit of a tall stalk or weed, his glowing + crimson bosom showing at a distance like some splendid flower + above the herbage. At intervals of two or three <a name='3_Page_40'></a>minutes he soars + vertically up to a height of twenty or twenty-five yards to utter + his song, composed of a single long, powerful and rather musical + note, ending with an attempt at a flourish, during which the bird + flutters and turns about in the air; then, as if discouraged at + his failure, he drops down, emitting harsh, guttural chirps, to + resume his stand. Meanwhile the female is invisible, keeping + closely concealed under the long grass. But at length, attracted + perhaps by the bright bosom and aërial music of the male, she + occasionally exhibits herself for a few moments, starting up with + a wild zigzag flight, and, darting this way and that, presently + drops into the grass once more. The moment she appears above the + grass the male gives chase, and they vanish from sight together."</p> + +<p> "Courtship with the mallard," says J. G. Millais (<i>Natural History + of British Ducks</i>, p. 6), "appears to be carried on by both + sexes, though generally three or four drakes are seen showing + themselves off to attract the attention of a single duck. + Swimming round her, in a coy and semi-self-conscious manner, they + now and again all stop quite still, nod, bow, and throw their + necks out in token of their admiration and their desire of a + favorable response. But the most interesting display is when all + the drakes simultaneously stand up in the water and rapidly pass + their bills down their breasts, uttering at the same time a low + single note somewhat like the first half of the call that teal + and pintail make when 'showing off.' At other times the + love-making of the drake seems to be rather passive than active. + While graciously allowing himself to be courted, he holds his + head high with conscious pride, and accepts as a matter of course + any attention that may be paid to him. A proud bird is he when + three or four ducks come swimming along beside and around him, + uttering a curious guttural note, and at the same time dipping + their bills in quick succession to right and left. He knows what + that means, and carries himself with even greater dignity than + before. In the end, however, he must give in. As a last appeal, + one of his lady lovers may coyly lower herself in the water till + only the top of her back, head, and neck is seen, and so + fascinating an advance as this no drake of any sensibility can + withstand."</p> + +<p> The courting of the Argus pheasant, noted for the extreme beauty + of the male's plumage, was observed by H. O. Forbes in Sumatra. It + is the habit of this bird to make "a large circus, some ten or + twelve feet in diameter, in the forest, which it clears of every + leaf and twig and branch, till the ground is perfectly swept and + garnished. On the margin of this circus there is invariably a + projecting branch or high-arched root, at a few feet elevation + above the ground, on which the female bird takes its place, while + in the ring the male—the male birds alone possess great + decoration—shows off all its magnificence for the gratification + and <a name='3_Page_41'></a>pleasure of his consort and to exalt himself in her eyes." + (H. O. Forbes, <i>A. Naturalist's Wanderings</i>, 1885, p. 131.)</p> + +<p> "All ostriches, adults as well as chicks, have a strange habit + known as 'waltzing.' After running for a few hundred yards they + will also stop, and, with raised wings, spin around rapidly for + some time after until quite giddy, when a broken leg occasionally + occurs.... Vicious cocks 'roll' when challenging to fight or when + wooing the hen. The cock will suddenly bump down on to his knees + (the ankle-joint), open his wings, and then swing them + alternately backward and forward, as if on a pivot.... While + rolling, every feather over the whole body is on end, and the + plumes are open, like a large white fan. At such a time the bird + sees very imperfectly, if at all; in fact, he seems so + preoccupied that, if pursued, one may often approach unnoticed. + Just before rolling, a cock, especially if courting the hen, will + often run slowly and daintily on the points of his toes, with + neck slightly inflated, upright, and rigid, the tail + half-drooped, and all his body-feathers fluffed up; the wings + raised and expanded, the inside edges touching the sides of the + neck for nearly the whole of its length, and the plumes showing + separately, like an open fan. In no other attitude is the + splendid beauty of his plumage displayed to such advantage." + (S. C. Cronwright Schreiner, "The Ostrich," <i>Zoölogist</i>, March, + 1897.)</p> + +<p> As may be seen from the foregoing fairly typical examples, the + phenomena of courtship are highly developed, and have been most + carefully studied, in animals outside the mammal series. It may + seem a long leap from birds to man; yet, as will be seen, the + phenomena among primitive human peoples, if not, indeed, among + many civilized peoples also, closely resemble those found among + birds, though, unfortunately, they have not usually been so + carefully studied.</p> + +<p> In Australia, where dancing is carried to a high pitch of + elaboration, its association with the sexual impulse is close and + unmistakable. Thus, Mr. Samuel Gason (of whom it has been said + that "no man living has been more among blacks or knows more of + their ways") remarks concerning a dance of the Dieyerie tribe: + "This dance men and women only take part in, in regular form and + position, keeping splendid time to the rattle of the beat of two + boomerangs; some of the women keep time by clapping their hands + between their thighs; promiscuous sexual intercourse follows + after the dance; jealousy is forbidden." Again, at the Mobierrie, + or rat-harvest, "many weeks' preparation before the dance comes + off; no quarreling is allowed; promiscuous sexual intercourse + during the ceremony." The fact that jealousy is forbidden at + these festivals clearly indicates that sexual intercourse is a + recognized and probably essential element in the ceremonies. This + is further emphasized by the fact that at other festivals open + sexual intercourse <a name='3_Page_42'></a>is not allowed. Thus, at the Mindarie, or + dance at a peace festival (when a number of tribes comes + together), "there is great rejoicing at the coming festival, + which is generally held at the full of the moon, and kept up all + night. The men are artistically decorated with down and feathers, + with all kinds of designs. The down and feathers are stuck on + their bodies with blood freshly taken from their penis; they are + also nicely painted with various colors; tufts of boughs are tied + on their ankles to make a noise while dancing. Promiscuous sexual + intercourse is carried on <i>secretly</i>; many quarrels occur at this + time." (<i>Journal of the Anthropological Institute</i>, vol. xxiv, + November, 1894, p. 174.)</p> + +<p> In Australian dances, sometimes men and women dance together, + sometimes the men dance alone, sometimes the women. In one dance + described by Eyre: "Women are the chief performers; their bodies + are painted with white streaks, and their hair adorned with + cockatoo feathers. They carry large sticks in their hands, and + place themselves in a row in front, while the men with their + spears stand in a row behind them. They then all commence their + movements, but without intermingling, the males and females + dancing by themselves. The women have occasionally another mode + of dancing, by joining the hands together over the head, closing + the feet, and bringing the knees into contact. The legs are then + thrown outward from the knee, while the feet and hands are kept + in their original position, and, being drawn quickly in again, a + sharp sound is produced by the collision. This is also practised + alone by young girls or by several together for their own + amusement. It is adopted also when a single woman is placed in + front of a row of male dancers to excite their passions." (E. J. + Eyre, <i>Journals of Expeditions into Central Australia</i>, vol. ii, + p. 235.)</p> + +<p> A charming Australian folk-tale concerning two sisters with + wings, who disliked men, and their wooing by a man, clearly + indicates, even among the Australians (whose love-making is + commonly supposed to be somewhat brutal in character), the + consciousness that it is by his beauty, charm, and skill in + courtship that a man wins a woman. Unahanach, the lover, stole + unperceived to the river where the girls were bathing and at last + showed himself carelessly sitting on a high tree. The girls were + startled, but thought it would be safe to amuse themselves by + looking at the intruder. "Young and with the most active figure, + yet of a strength that defied the strongest emu, and even enabled + him to resist an 'old man' kangaroo, he had no equal in the + chase, and conscious power gave a dignity to his expression that + at one glance calmed the fears of the two girls. His large + brilliant eyes, shaded by a deep fringe of soft black eyelashes, + gazed down upon them admiringly, and his rich black hair hung + around his well-formed face, smooth and shining from the emu-oil + with which it was abundantly <a name='3_Page_43'></a>covered." At last he persuaded them + to talk and by and by induced them to call him husband. Then they + went off with him, with no thought of flight in their hearts. + ("Australian Folklore Stories," collected by W. Dunlop, <i>Journal + of the Anthropological Institute</i>, new series, vol. i, 1898, p. + 33.)</p> + +<p> Of the people of Torres Straits Haddon states (<i>Reports + Anthropological Expedition to Torres Straits</i>, vol. v, p. 222): + "It was during the secular dance, or <i>Kap</i>, that the girls + usually lost their hearts to the young men. A young man who was a + good dancer would find favor in the sight of the girls. This can + be readily understood by anyone who has seen the active, skilful, + and fatiguing dances of these people. A young man who could + acquit himself well in these dances must be possessed of no mean + strength and agility, qualities which everywhere appeal to the + opposite sex. Further, he was decorated, according to local + custom, with all that would render him more imposing in the eyes + of the spectators. As the former chief of Mabuiag put it, 'In + England if a man has plenty of money, women want to marry him; so + here, if a man dances well they too want him.' In olden days the + war-dance, which was performed after a successful foray, would be + the most powerful excitement to a marriageable girl, especially + if a young man had distinguished himself sufficiently to bring + home the head of someone he had killed."</p> + +<p> Among the tribes inhabiting the mouth of the Wanigela River, New + Guinea, "when a boy admires a girl, he will not look at her, + speak to her, or go near her. He, however, shows his love by + athletic bounds, posing, and pursuit, and by the spearing of + imaginary enemies, etc., before her, to attract her attention. If + the girl reciprocates his love she will employ a small girl to + give to him an <i>ugauga gauna</i>, or love invitation, consisting of + an areca-nut whose skin has been marked with different designs, + significant of her wish to <i>ugauga</i>. After dark he is apprised of + the place where the girl awaits him; repairing thither, he seats + himself beside her as close as possible, and they mutually share + in the consumption of the betel-nut." This constitutes betrothal; + henceforth he is free to visit the girl's house and sleep there. + Marriages usually take place at the most important festival of + the year, the <i>kapa</i>, preparations for which are made during the + three previous months, so that there may be a bountiful and + unfailing supply of bananas. Much dancing takes place among the + unmarried girls, who, also, are tattooed at this time over the + whole of the front of the body, special attention being paid to + the lower parts, as a girl who is not properly tattooed there + possesses no attraction in the eyes of young men. Married women + and widows and divorced women are not forbidden to take part in + these dances, but it would be considered ridiculous <a name='3_Page_44'></a>for them to + do so. (R. E. Guise, "On the Tribes of the Wanigela River," + <i>Journal of the Anthropological Institute</i>, new series, vol. i, + 1899, pp. 209, 214 <i>et seq.</i>)</p> + +<p> In the island of Nias in the Malay Archipelago, Modigliani + (mainly on the excellent authority of Sundermann, the missionary) + states, at a wedding "dancing and singing go on throughout the + day. The women, two or three at a time, a little apart from the + men, take part in the dancing, which is very well adapted to + emphasize the curves of the flanks and the breasts, though at the + same time the defects of their legs are exhibited in this series + of rhythmic contortions which constitute a Nias dance. The most + graceful movement they execute is a lascivious undulation of the + flanks while the face and breast are slowly wound round by the + <i>sarong</i> [a sort of skirt] held in the hands, and then again + revealed. These movements are executed with jerks of the wrist + and contortions of the flanks, not always graceful, but which + excite the admiration of the spectators, even of the women, who + form in groups to sing in chorus a compliment, more or less + sincere, in which they say: 'They dance with the grace of birds + when they fly. They dance as the hawk flies; it is lovely to + see.' They sing and dance both at weddings and at other + festivals." (Elio Modigliani, <i>Un Viaggio a Nias</i>, 1890, p. 549.)</p> + +<p> In Sumatra Marsden states that chastity prevails more, perhaps, + than among any other people: "But little apparent courtship + precedes their marriages. Their manners do not admit of it, the + <i>boojong</i> and <i>geddas</i> (youths of each sex) being carefully kept + asunder and the latter seldom trusted from under the wings of + their mothers.... The opportunities which the young people have + of seeing and conversing with each other are at the <i>birnbangs</i>, + or public festivals. On these occasions the young people meet + together and dance and sing in company. The men, when determined + in their regard, generally employ an old woman as their agent, by + whom they make known their sentiments, and send presents to the + female of their choice. The parents then interfere, and the + preliminaries being settled, a <i>birnbang</i> takes place. The young + women proceed in a body to the upper end of the <i>balli</i> (hall), + where there is a part divided off for them by a curtain. They do + not always make their appearance before dinner, that time, + previous to a second or third meal, being appropriated to + cock-fighting or other diversions peculiar to men. In the evening + their other amusements take place, of which the dances are the + principal. These are performed either singly or by two women, two + men, or with both mixed. Their motions and attitudes are usually + slow, approaching often to the lascivious. They bend forward as + they dance, and usually carry a fan, which they close and strike + smartly against their elbows at particular <a name='3_Page_45'></a>cadences.... The + assembly seldom breaks up before daylight and these <i>birnbangs</i> + are often continued for several days together. The young men + frequent them in order to look out for wives, and the lasses of + course set themselves off to the best advantage. They wear their + best silken dresses, of their own weaving, as many ornaments of + filigree as they possess, silver rings upon their arms and legs, + and ear-rings of a particular construction. Their hair is + variously adorned with flowers, and perfumed with oil of + benjamin. Civet is also in repute, but more used by the men. To + render their skin fine, smooth, and soft they make use of a white + cosmetic called <i>poopoor</i> [a mixture of ginger, patch-leaf, + maize, sandal-wood, fairy-cotton, and mush-seed with a basis of + fine rice]." (W. Marsden, <i>History of Sumatra</i>, 1783, p. 230.)</p> + +<p> The Alfurus of Seram in the Moluccas, who have not yet been + spoilt by foreign influences, are very fond of music and dancing. + Their <i>maku</i> dances, which take place at night, have been + described by Joest: "Great torches of dry bamboos and piles of + burning resinous leaves light up the giant trees to their very + summits and reveal in the distance the little huts which the + Alfuras have built in the virgin forests, as well as the skulls + of the slain. The women squat together by the fire, making a + deafening noise with the gongs and the drums, while the young + girls, richly adorned with pearls and fragrant flowers, await the + beginning of the dance. Then appear the men and youths without + weapons, but in full war-costume, the girdle freshly marked with + the number of slain enemies. [Among the Alfuras it is the man who + has the largest number of heads to show who has most chance of + winning the object of his love.] They hold each other's arms and + form a circle, which is not, however, completely closed. A song + is started, and with small, slow steps this ring of bodies, like + a winding snake, moves sideways, backward, closes, opens again, + the steps become heavier, the songs and drums louder, the girls + enter the circle and with closed eyes grasp the girdle of their + chosen youths, who clasp them by the hips and necks, the chain + becomes longer and longer, the dance and song more ardent, until + the dancers grow tired and disappear in the gloom of the forest." + (W. Joest, <i>Welt-Fahrten</i>, 1895, Bd. ii, p. 159.)</p> + +<p> The women of the New Hebrides dance, or rather sway, to and fro + in the midst of a circle formed by the men, with whom they do not + directly mingle. They leap, show their genital parts to the men, + and imitate the movements of coitus. Meanwhile the men unfasten + the <i>manou</i> (penis-wrap) from their girdles with one hand, with + the other imitating the action of seizing a woman, and, excited + by the women, also go through a mock copulation. Sometimes, it is + said, the dancers masturbate. This takes place amid plaintive + songs, interrupted from time to time by loud cries and howls. + (<i>Untrodden Fields of Anthropology</i>, by a French army-surgeon, + 1898, vol. ii, p. 341.)</p><a name='3_Page_46'></a> + +<p> Among the hill tribes of the Central Indian Hills may be traced a + desire to secure communion with the spirit of fertility embodied + in vegetation. This appears, for instance, in a tree-dance, which + is carried out on a date associated not only with the growths of + the crops or with harvest, but also with the seasonal period for + marriage and the annual Saturnalia. (W. Crooke, "The Hill + Tribes," <i>Journal of the Anthropological Institute</i>, new series, + vol. i, 1899, p. 243.) The association of dancing with seasonal + ritual festivals of a generative character—of which the above is + a fairly typical instance—leads us to another aspect of these + phenomena on which I have elsewhere touched in these <i>Studies</i> + (vol. i) when discussing the "Phenomena of Periodicity."</p> + +<p> The Tahitians, when first discovered by Europeans, appear to have + been highly civilized on the sexual side and very licentious. Yet + even at Tahiti, when visited by Cook, the strict primitive + relationship between dancing and courtship still remained + traceable. Cook found "a dance called Timorodee, which is + performed by young girls, whenever eight or ten of them can be + collected together, consisting of motions and gestures beyond + imagination wanton, in the practice of which they are brought up + from their earliest childhood, accompanied by words which, if it + were possible, would more explicitly convey the same ideas. But + the practice which is allowed to the virgin is prohibited to the + woman from the moment that she has put these hopeful lessons in + practice and realized the symbols of the dance." He added, + however, that among the specially privileged class of the Areoi + these limitations were not observed, for he had heard that this + dance was sometimes performed by them as a preliminary to sexual + intercourse. (Hawkesworth, <i>An Account of the Voyages</i>, etc., + 1775, vol. ii, p. 54.)</p> + +<p> Among the Marquesans at the marriage of a woman, even of high + rank, she lies with her head at the bridegroom's knees and all + the male guests come in single file, singing and dancing—those + of lower class first and the great chiefs last—and have + connection with the woman. There are often a very large number of + guests and the bride is sometimes so exhausted at the end that + she has to spend several days in bed. (Tautain, "Etude sur le + Mariage chez les Polynésiens," <i>L'Anthropologie</i>, + November-December, 1895, p. 642.) The interesting point for us + here is that singing and dancing are still regarded as a + preliminary to a sexual act. It has been noted that in sexual + matters the Polynesians, when first discovered by Europeans, had + largely gone beyond the primitive stage, and that this applies + also to some of their dances. Thus the <i>hula-hula</i> dance, while + primitive in origin, may probably be compared more to a civilized + than to a primitive dance, since it has become divorced from real + life. In the same way, while the sexual pantomime dance of the + Azimba girls of central Africa has a direct and recognized + <a name='3_Page_47'></a>relationship to the demands of real life, the somewhat allied + <i>danses du ventre</i> of the Hamitic peoples of northern Africa are + merely an amusement, a play more or less based on the sexual + instinct. At the same time it is important to bear in mind that + there is no rigid distinction between dances that are, and those + that are not, primitive. As Haddon truly points out in a book + containing valuable detailed descriptions of dances, even among + savages dances are so developed that it is difficult to trace + their origin, and at Torres Straits, he remarks, "there are + certainly play or secular dances, dances for pure amusement + without any ulterior design." (A. C. Haddon, <i>Head Hunters</i>, p. + 233.) When we remember that dancing had probably become highly + developed long before man appeared on the earth, this difficulty + in determining the precise origin of human dancing cannot cause + surprise.</p> + +<p> Spix and Martius described how the Muras of Brazil by moonlight + would engage all night in a Bacchantic dance in a great circle, + hand in hand, the men on one side, the women on the other, + shouting out all the time, the men "Who will marry me?" the + women, "You are a beautiful devil; all women will marry you," + (Spix and Martius, <i>Reise in Brasilien</i>, 1831, vol. iii, p. + 1117.) They also described in detail the dance of the Brazilian + Puris, performed in a state of complete nakedness, the men in a + row, the women in another row behind them. They danced backward + and forward, stamping and singing, at first in a slow and + melancholy style, but gradually with increasing vigor and + excitement. Then the women began to rotate the pelvis backward + and forward, and the men to thrust their bodies forward, the + dance becoming a pantomimic representation of sexual intercourse + (<i>ibid.</i>, vol. i, 1823, pp. 373-5).</p> + +<p> Among the Apinages of Brazil, also, the women stand in a row, + almost motionless, while the men dance and leap in front of them, + both men and women at the same time singing. (Buscalioni, "Reise + zu den Apinages," <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1899, ht. 6, p. + 650.)</p> + +<p> Among the Gilas of New Mexico, "when a young man sees a girl whom + he desires for a wife, he first endeavors to gain the good-will + of the parents; this accomplished, he proceeds to serenade his + lady-love, and will often sit for hours, day after day, near her + home, playing on his flute. Should the girl not appear, it is a + sign she rejects him; but if, on the other hand, she comes out to + meet him, he knows that his suit is accepted, and he takes her to + his home. No marriage ceremony is performed."<a name='3_FNanchor_33'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_33'><sup>[33]</sup></a> (H. H. Bancroft, + <i>Native Races of the Pacific</i>, vol. i, p. 549.)</p><a name='3_Page_48'></a> + +<p> "Among the Minnetarees a singular night-dance is, it is said, + sometimes held. During this amusement an opportunity is given to + the squaws to select their favorites. A squaw, as she dances, + will advance to a person with whom she is captivated, either for + his personal attractions or for his renown in arms; she taps him + on the shoulder and immediately runs out of the lodge and betakes + herself to the bushes, followed by the favorite. But if it should + happen that he has a particular preference for another from whom + he expects the same favor, or if he is restrained by a vow, or is + already satiated with indulgence, he politely declines her offer + by placing his hand in her bosom, on which they return to the + assembly and rejoin the dance." It is worthy of remark that in + the language of the Omahas the word <i>watche</i> applies equally to + the amusement of dancing and to sexual intercourse. (S. H. Long, + <i>Expedition to the Rocky Mountains</i>, 1823, vol. i, p. 337.)</p> + +<p> At a Kaffir marriage "singing and dancing last until midnight. + Each party [the bride's and the bridegroom's] dances in front of + the other, but they do not mingle together. As the evening + advances, the spirits and passions of all become greatly excited; + and the power of song, the display of muscular action, and the + gesticulations of the dancers and leapers are something + extraordinary. The manner in which, at certain times, one man or + woman, more excited than the rest, bounds from the ranks, leaps + into the air, bounces forward, and darts backward beggars all + description. These violent exercises usually close about + midnight, when each party retires; generally, each man selects a + paramour, and, indulging in sexual gratification, spends the + remainder of the night." (W. C. Holden, <i>The Kaffir Race</i>, 1866, + p. 192.)</p> + +<p> At the initiation of Kaffir boys into manhood, as described by + Holden, they were circumcised. "Cattle are then slaughtered by + the parents, and the boys are plentifully supplied with flesh + meat; a good deal of dancing also ensues at this stage of the + proceedings. The <i>ukut-shila</i> consists in attiring themselves + with the leaves of the wild date in the most fantastic manner; + thus attired they visit each of the kraals to which they belong + in rotation, for the purpose of dancing. These dances are the + most licentious which can be imagined. The women act a prominent + part in them, and endeavor to excite the passions of the novices + by performing all sorts of obscene gesticulations. As soon as the + soreness occasioned by the act of circumcision is healed the boys + are, as it were, let loose upon society, and exempted from nearly + all the <a name='3_Page_49'></a>restraints of law; so that should they even steal and + slaughter their neighbor's cattle they would not be punished; and + they have the special privilege of seizing by force, if force be + necessary, every unmarried woman they choose, for the purpose of + gratifying their passions." Similar festivals take place at the + initiation of girls. (W. C. Holden, <i>The Kaffir Race</i>, 1866, p. + 185.)</p> + +<p> The Rev. J. Macdonald has described the ceremonies and customs + attending and following the initiation-rites of a young girl on + her first menstruation among the Zulus between the Tugela and + Delagoa Bay. At this time the girl is called an <i>intonjane</i>. A + beast is killed as a thank-offering to the ancestral spirits, + high revel is held for several days, and dancing and music take + place every night till those engaged in it are all exhausted or + daylight arrives. "After a few days and when dancing has been + discontinued, young men and girls congregate in the outer + apartment of the hut, and begin singing, clapping their hands, + and making a grunting noise to show their joy. At nightfall most + of the young girls who were the intonjane's attendants, leave for + their own homes for the night, to return the following morning. + Thereafter the young men and girls who gathered into the hut in + the afternoon separate into pairs and sleep together <i>in puris + naturalibus</i>, for that is strictly ordained by custom. Sexual + intercourse is not allowed, but what is known as <i>metsha</i> or + <i>ukumetsha</i> is the sole purpose of the novel arrangement. + <i>Ukumetsha</i> may be defined as partial intercourse. Every man who + sleeps thus with a girl has to send to the father of the + intonjane an assegai; should he have formed an attachment for his + partner of the night and wish to pay her his addresses, he sends + two assegais." (Rev. J. Macdonald, "Manners, etc., of South + African Tribes," <i>Journal of the Anthropological Institute</i>, vol. + xx, November, 1890, p. 117.)</p> + +<p> Goncourt reports the account given him by a French officer from + Senegal of the dances of the women, "a dance which is a gentle + oscillation of the body, with gradually increasing excitement, + from time to time a woman darting forward from the group to stand + in front of her lover, contorting herself as though in a + passionate embrace, and, on passing her hand between her thighs, + showing it covered with the moisture of amorous enjoyment." + (<i>Journal</i>, vol. ix, p. 79.) The dance here referred to is + probably the Bamboula dance of the Wolofs, a spring festival + which has been described by Pierre Loti in his <i>Roman d'un + Spahi</i>, and concerning which various details are furnished by a + French army-surgeon, acquainted with Senegal, in his <i>Untrodden + Fields of Anthropology</i>. The dance, as described by the latter, + takes place at night during full moon, the dancers, male and + female, beginning timidly, but, as the beat of the tam-tams and + the encouraging cries of the spectators become louder, the dance + becomes more furious. The native <a name='3_Page_50'></a>name of the dance is <i>anamalis + fobil</i>, "the dance of the treading drake." "The dancer in his + movements imitates the copulation of the great Indian duck. This + drake has a member of a corkscrew shape, and a peculiar movement + is required to introduce it into the duck. The woman tucks up her + clothes and convulsively agitates the lower part of her body; she + alternately shows her partner her vulva and hides it from him by + a regular movement, backward and forward, of the body." + (<i>Untrodden Fields of Anthropology</i>, Paris, 1898, vol. ii, p. + 112.)</p> + +<p> Among the Gurus of the Ivory Coast (Gulf of Guinea), Eysséric + observes, dancing is usually carried on at night and more + especially by the men, and on certain occasions women must not + appear, for if they assisted at fetichistic dances "they would + die." Under other circumstances men and women dance together with + ardor, not forming couples but often <i>vis-à-vis</i>: their movements + are lascivious. Even the dances following a funeral tend to + become sexual in character. At the end of the rites attending the + funeral of a chief's son the entire population began to dance + with ever-growing ardor; there was nothing ritualistic or sad in + these contortions, which took on the character of a lascivious + dance. Men and women, boys and girls, young and old, sought to + rival each other in suppleness, and the festival became joyous + and general, as if in celebration of a marriage or a victory. + (Eysséric, "La Côte d'Ivoire," <i>Nouvelles Archives des Missions + Scientifiques</i>, tome ix, 1890, pp. 241-49.)</p> + +<p> Mrs. French-Sheldon has described the marriage-rites she observed + at Taveta in East Africa. "During this time the young people + dance and carouse and make themselves generally merry and + promiscuously drunk, carrying the excess of their dissipation to + such an extent that they dance until they fall down in a species + of epileptic fit." It is the privilege of the bridegroom's four + groomsmen to enjoy the bride first, and she is then handed over + to her legitimate husband. This people, both men and women, are + "great dancers and merry-makers; the young fellows will collect + in groups and dance as though in competition one with the other; + one lad will dash out from the circle of his companions, rush + into the middle of a circumscribed space, and scream out 'Wow, + wow!' Another follows him and screams; then a third does the + same. These men will dance with their knees almost rigid, jumping + into the air until their excitement becomes very great and their + energy almost spasmodic, leaving the ground frequently three feet + as they spring into the air. At some of their festivals their + dancing is carried to such an extent that I have seen a young + fellow's muscles quiver from head to foot and his jaws tremble + without any apparent ability on his part to control them, until, + foaming at the mouth and with his eyes rolling, he falls in a + paroxysm upon the ground, to be carried off by his companions."<a name='3_Page_51'></a> + The writer adds significantly that this dancing "would seem to + emanate from a species of voluptuousness." (Mrs. French-Sheldon, + "Customs among the Natives of East Africa," <i>Journal of the + Anthropological Institute</i>, vol. xxi, May, 1892, pp. 366-67.) It + may be added that among the Suaheli dances are intimately + associated with weddings; the Suaheli dances have been minutely + described by Velten (<i>Sitten und Gebraüche der Suaheli</i>, pp. + 144-175). Among the Akamba of British East Africa, also, + according to H. R. Tate (<i>Journal of the Anthropological + Institute</i>, Jan.-June, 1904, p. 137), the dances are followed by + connection between the young men and girls, approved of by the + parents.</p> + +<p> The dances of the Faroe Islanders have been described by Raymond + Pilet ("Rapport sur une Mission en Islande et aux lies Féroë," + <i>Nouvelles Archives des Missions Scientifiques</i>, tome vii, 1897, + p. 285). These dances, which are entirely decorous, include + poetry, music, and much mimicry, especially of battle. They + sometimes last for two consecutive days and nights. "The dance is + simply a permitted and discreet method by which the young men may + court the young girls. The islander enters the circle and places + himself beside the girl to whom he desires to show his affection; + if he meets with her approval she stays and continues to dance at + his side; if not, she leaves the circle and appears later at + another spot."</p> + +<p> Pitre (<i>Usi, etc., del Popolo Siciliano</i>, vol. ii, p. 24, as + quoted in Marro's <i>Pubertà</i>) states that in Sicily the youth who + wishes to marry seeks to give some public proof of his valor and + to show himself off. In Chiaramonte, in evidence of his virile + force, he bears in procession the standard of some confraternity, + a high and richly adorned standard which makes its staff bend to + a semicircle, of such enormous weight that the bearer must walk + in a painfully bent position, his head thrown back and his feet + forward. On reaching the house of his betrothed he makes proof of + his boldness and skill in wielding this extremely heavy standard + which at this moment seems a plaything in his hands, but may yet + prove fatal to him through injury to the loins or other parts.</p> + +<p> This same tendency, which we find in so highly developed a degree + among animals and primitive human peoples, is also universal + among the children of even the most civilized human races, + although in a less organized and more confused way. It manifests + itself as "showing-off." Sanford Bell, in his study of the + emotion of love in children, finds that "showing-off" is an + essential element in the love of children in what he terms the + second stage (from the eighth to the twelfth year in girls and + the fourteenth in boys). "It constitutes one of the chief numbers + in the boy's repertory of love charms, and is not totally absent + from the girl's. It is a most common sight to see the boys taxing + their <a name='3_Page_52'></a>resources in devising means of exposing their own + excellencies, and often doing the most ridiculous and extravagant + things. Running, jumping, dancing, prancing, sparring, wrestling, + turning handsprings, somersaults, climbing, walking fences, + swinging, giving yodels and yells, whistling, imitating the + movements of animals, 'taking people off,' courting danger, + affecting courage are some of its common forms.... This + 'showing-off' in the boy lover is the forerunner of the skilful, + purposive, and elaborate means of self-exhibition in the adult + male and the charming coquetry in the adult female, in their + love-relations." (Sanford Bell, "The Emotion of Love Between the + Sexes," <i>American Journal Psychology</i>, July, 1902; <i>cf.</i> + "Showing-off and Bashfulness," <i>Pedagogical Seminary</i>, June, + 1903.) </p></div> + +<p>If, in the light of the previous discussion, we examine such facts as +those here collected, we may easily trace throughout the perpetual +operations of the same instinct. It is everywhere the instinctive object +of the male, who is very rarely passive in the process of courtship, to +assure by his activity in display, his energy or skill or beauty, both his +own passion and the passion of the female. Throughout nature sexual +conjugation only takes place after much expenditure of energy.<a name='3_FNanchor_34'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_34'><sup>[34]</sup></a><a name='3_Page_53'></a> We are +deceived by what we see among highly fed domesticated animals, and among +the lazy classes of human society, whose sexual instincts are at once both +unnaturally stimulated and unnaturally repressed, when we imagine that the +instinct of detumescence is normally ever craving to be satisfied, and +that throughout nature it can always be set off at a touch whenever the +stimulus is applied. So far from the instinct of tumescence naturally +needing to be crushed, it needs, on the contrary, in either sex to be +submitted to the most elaborate and prolonged processes in order to bring +about those conditions which detumescence relieves. A state of tumescence +is not normally constant, and tumescence must be obtained before +detumescence is possible.<a name='3_FNanchor_35'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_35'><sup>[35]</sup></a> The whole object of courtship, of the mutual +approximation and caresses of two persons of the opposite sex, is to +create the state of sexual tumescence.</p> + +<p>It will be seen that the most usual method of attaining tumescence—a +method found among the most various kinds of animals, from insects and +birds to man—is some form of the dance. Among the Negritos of the +Philippines dancing is described by A. B. Meyer as "jumping in a circle +around a girl and stamping with the feet"; as we have seen, such a dance +is, essentially, a form of courtship that is widespread among animals. +"The true cake-walk," again, Stanley Hall remarks, "as seen in the South +is perhaps the purest expression of this impulse to courtship antics seen +in man."<a name='3_FNanchor_36'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_36'><sup>[36]</sup></a> Muscular movement of which the dance is the highest and most +complex expression, is undoubtedly a method of auto-intoxication of the +very greatest potency. All energetic movement, indeed, tends to produce +active congestion. In its influence on the brain violent exercise may thus +result in a state of intoxication even resembling insanity. As Lagrange +remarks, the visible effects of exercise—heightened <a name='3_Page_54'></a>color, bright eyes, +resolute air and walk—are those of slight intoxication, and a girl who +has waltzed for a quarter of an hour is in the same condition as if she +had drunk champagne.<a name='3_FNanchor_37'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_37'><sup>[37]</sup></a> Groos regards the dance as, above all, an +intoxicating play of movement, possessing, like other methods of +intoxication,—and even apart from its relationship to combat and +love,—the charm of being able to draw us out of our everyday life and +lead us into a self-created dream-world.<a name='3_FNanchor_38'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_38'><sup>[38]</sup></a> That the dance is not only a +narcotic, but also a powerful stimulant, we may clearly realize from the +experiments which show that this effect is produced even by much less +complex kinds of muscular movement. This has been clearly determined, for +instance, by Féré, in the course of a long and elaborate series of +experiments dealing with the various influences that modify work as +measured by Mosso's ergograph. This investigator found that muscular +movement is the most efficacious of all stimulants in increasing muscular +power.<a name='3_FNanchor_39'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_39'><sup>[39]</sup></a> It is easy to trace these pleasurable effects of combined +narcotic and stimulant motion in everyday life and it is unnecessary to +enumerate its manifestations.<a name='3_FNanchor_40'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_40'><sup>[40]</sup></a> </p><a name='3_Page_55'></a> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Dancing is so powerful an agent on the organism, as Sergi truly + remarks (<i>Les Emotions</i>, p. 288), because its excitation is + general, because it touches every vital organ, the higher centers + no longer dominating. Primitive dancing differs very widely from + that civilized kind of dancing—finding its extreme type in the + ballet—in which energy is concentrated into the muscles below + the knee. In the finest kinds of primitive dancing all the limbs, + the whole body, take part. For instance, "the Marquisan girls," + Herman Melville remarked in <i>Typee</i>, "dance all over, as it were; + not only do their feet dance, but their arms, hands, + fingers,—ay, their very eyes seem to dance in their heads. In + good sooth, they so sway their floating forms, arch their necks, + toss aloft their naked arms, and glide, and swim, and whirl," + etc.</p> + +<p> If we turn to a very different people, we find this + characteristic of primitive dancing admirably illustrated by the + missionary, Holden, in the case of Kaffir dances. "So far as I + have observed," he states, "the perfection of the art or science + consists in their <i>being able to put every part of the body into + motion at the same time</i>. And as they are naked, the bystander + has a good opportunity of observing the whole process, which + presents a remarkably odd and grotesque appearance,—the head, + the trunk, the arms, the legs, the hands, the feet, bones, + muscles, sinews, skin, scalp, and hair, each and all in motion at + the same time, with feathers waving, tails of monkeys and wild + beasts dangling, and shields beating, accompanied with whistling, + shouting, and leaping. It would appear as though the whole frame + was hung on springing wires or cords. Dances are held in high + repute, being the natural expression of joyous emotion, or + creating it when absent. There is, perhaps, no exercise in + greater accordance with the sentiments or feelings of a barbarous + people, or more fully calculated to gratify their wild and + ungoverned passions." (W. C. Holden, <i>The Kaffir Race</i>, 1866, p. + 274.) </p></div> + +<p>Dancing, as the highest and most complex form of muscular movement, is the +most potent method of obtaining the organic excitement muscular movement +yields, and thus we understand how from the earliest zoölogical ages it +has been brought to the service of the sexual instinct as a mode of +attaining tumescence. Among savages this use of dancing works harmoniously +with the various other uses which dancing possesses in primitive <a name='3_Page_56'></a>times +and which cause it to occupy so large and vital a part in savage life that +it may possibly even affect the organism to such an extent as to mold the +bones; so that some authorities have associated platycnemia with dancing. +As civilization advances, the other uses of dancing fall away, but it +still remains a sexual stimulant. Burton, in his <i>Anatomy of Melancholy</i>, +brings forward a number of quotations from old authors showing that +dancing is an incitement to love.<a name='3_FNanchor_41'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_41'><sup>[41]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Catholic theologians (Debreyne, <i>Mœchialogie</i>, pp. + 190-199) for the most part condemn dancing with much severity. In + Protestant Germany, also, it is held that dance meetings and + musical gatherings are frequent occasions of unchastity. Thus in + the Leipzig district when a girl is asked "How did you fall?" she + nearly always replies "At the dance." (<i>Die + Geschlechtlich-Sittliche Verhältnisse im Deutschen Reiche</i>, vol. + i, p. 196.) It leads quite as often, and no doubt oftener, to + marriage. Rousseau defended it on this account (<i>Nouvelle + Heloïse</i>, bk. iv, letter x); dancing is, he held, an admirable + preliminary to courtship, and the best way for young people to + reveal themselves to each other, in their grace and decorum, + their qualities and defects, while its publicity is its + safeguard. An International Congress of Dancing Masters was held + at Barcelona in 1907. In connection with this Congress, Giraudet, + president of the International Academy of Dancing Masters, issued + an inquiry to over 3000 teachers of dancing throughout the world + in order to ascertain the frequency with which dancing led to + marriage. Of over one million pupils of dancing, either married + or engaged to be married, it was found that in most countries + more than 50 per cent. met their conjugal partners at dances. The + smallest proportion was in Norway, with only 39 per cent., and + the highest, Germany, with 97 per cent. Intermediate are France, + 83 per cent.; America, 80 per cent.; Italy, 70 per cent.; Spain, + 68 per cent.; Holland, Bulgaria, and England, 65 per cent.; + Australia and Roumania, 60 per cent., etc. Of the teachers + themselves 92 per cent. met their partners at dances. (Quoted + from the <i>Figaro</i> in Beiblatt "Sexualreform" to <i>Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft</i>, 1907, p. 175.) </p></div> + +<p>In civilization, however, dancing is not only an incitement to love and a +preliminary to courtship, but it is often a substitute for the normal +gratification of the sexual instinct, procuring something of the pleasure +and relief of gratified love. In occasional <a name='3_Page_57'></a>abnormal cases this may be +consciously realized. Thus Sadger, who regards the joy of dancing as a +manifestation of "muscular eroticism," gives the case of a married +hysterical woman of 21, with genital anesthesia, but otherwise strongly +developed skin eroticism, who was a passionate dancer: "I often felt as +though I was giving myself to my partner in dancing," she said, "and was +actually having coitus with him. I have the feeling that in me dancing +takes the place of coitus."<a name='3_FNanchor_42'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_42'><sup>[42]</sup></a> Normally something of the same feeling is +experienced by many young women, who will expend a prodigious amount of +energy in dancing, thus procuring, not fatigue, but happiness and +relief.<a name='3_FNanchor_43'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_43'><sup>[43]</sup></a> It is significant that, after sexual relations have begun, +girls generally lose much of their ardor in dancing. Even our modern +dances, it is worthy of note, are often of sexual origin; thus, the most +typical of all, the waltz, was originally (as Schaller, quoted by Groos, +states) the close of a complicated dance which "represented the romance of +love, the seeking and the fleeing, the playful sulking and shunning, and +finally the jubilation of the wedding."<a name='3_FNanchor_44'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_44'><sup>[44]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Not only is movement itself a source of tumescence, but even the spectacle +of movement tends to produce the same effect. The pleasure of witnessing +movement, as represented by its stimulating effect on the muscular +system,—for states of well-being are accompanied by an increase of +power,—has been found susceptible of exact measurement by Féré. He <a name='3_Page_58'></a>has +shown that to watch a colored disk when in motion produced stronger +muscular contractions, as measured by the dynamometer, than to watch the +same disk when motionless. Even in the absence of color a similar +influence of movement was noted, and watching a modified metronome +produced a greater increase of work with the ergograph than when working +to the rhythm of the metronome without watching it.<a name='3_FNanchor_45'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_45'><sup>[45]</sup></a> This psychological +fact has been independently discovered by advertisers, who seek to impress +the value of their wares on the public by the device of announcing them by +moving colored lights. The pleasure given by the ballet largely depends on +the same fact. Not only is dancing an excitation, but the spectacle of +dancing is itself exciting, and even among savages dances have a public +which becomes almost as passionately excited as the dancers +themselves.<a name='3_FNanchor_46'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_46'><sup>[46]</sup></a> It is in virtue of this effect of dancing and similar +movements that we so frequently find, both among the lower animals and +savage man, that to obtain tumescence in both sexes, it is sufficient for +one sex alone, usually the male, to take the active part. This point +attracted the attention of Kulischer many years ago, and he showed how the +dances of the men, among savages, excite the women, who watch them +intently though unobtrusively, and are thus influenced in choosing their +lovers. He was probably the first to insist that in man sexual selection +has taken place mainly through the agency of dances, games, and +festivals.<a name='3_FNanchor_47'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_47'><sup>[47]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is now clear, therefore, why the evacuation theory of the sexual +impulse must necessarily be partial and inadequate. It leaves out of +account the whole of the phenomena connected with tumescence, and those +phenomena constitute the most prolonged, the most important, the most +significant stage of <a name='3_Page_59'></a>the sexual process. It is during tumescence that the +whole psychology of the sexual impulse is built up; it is as an incident +arising during tumescence and influencing its course that we must probably +regard nearly every sexual aberration. It is with the second stage of the +sexual process, when the instinct of detumescence arises, that the analogy +of evacuation can alone be called in. Even here, that analogy, though +real, is not complete, the nervous element involved in detumescence being +out of all proportion to the extent of the evacuation. The typical act of +evacuation, however, is a nervous process, and when we bear this in mind +we may see whatever truth the evacuation theory possesses. Beaunis classes +the sexual impulse with the "needs of activity," but under this head he +coordinates it with the "need of urination." That is to say, that both +alike are nervous explosions. Micturition, like detumescence, is a +convulsive act, and, like detumescence also, it is certainly connected +with cerebral processes; thus in epilepsy the passage of urine which may +occur (as in a girl described by Gowers with minor attacks during which it +was emitted consciously, but involuntarily) is really a part of the +process.<a name='3_FNanchor_48'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_48'><sup>[48]</sup></a></p> + +<p>There appears, indeed, to be a special and intimate connection between the +explosion of sexual detumescence and the explosive energy of the bladder; +so that they may reinforce each other and to a limited extent act +vicariously in relieving each other's tension. It is noteworthy that +nocturnal and diurnal incontinence of urine, as well as "stammering" of +the bladder, are all specially liable to begin or to cease at puberty. In +men and even infants, distention of the bladder favors tumescence by +producing venous congestion, though at the same time it acts as a physical +hindrance to sexual detumescence<a name='3_FNanchor_49'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_49'><sup>[49]</sup></a>; in women—probably not from pressure +alone, but from reflex nervous action—a full bladder increases both +sexual excitement and pleasure, and I have been informed by several women +that they have <a name='3_Page_60'></a>independently discovered this fact for themselves and +acted in accordance with it. Conversely, sexual excitement increases the +explosive force of the bladder, the desire to urinate is aroused, and in +women the sexual orgasm, when very acute and occurring with a full +bladder, is occasionally accompanied, alike in savage and civilized life, +by an involuntary and sometimes full and forcible expulsion of urine.<a name='3_FNanchor_50'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_50'><sup>[50]</sup></a> +The desire to urinate may possibly be, as has been said, the normal +accompaniment of sexual excitement in women (just as it is said to be in +mares; so that the Arabs judge that the mare is ready for the stallion +when she urinates immediately on hearing him neigh). The association may +even form the basis of sexual obsessions.<a name='3_FNanchor_51'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_51'><sup>[51]</sup></a> I have elsewhere shown that, +of all the influences which increase the expulsive force of the bladder, +sexual excitement is the most powerful.<a name='3_FNanchor_52'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_52'><sup>[52]</sup></a> It may also have a reverse +influence and inhibit contraction of the bladder, sometimes in association +with shyness, but also independently of shyness. There is also reason to +suppose <a name='3_Page_61'></a>that the nervous energy expended in an explosion of the tension +of the sexual organs may sometimes relieve the bladder; it is well +recognized that a full bladder is a factor in producing sexual emissions +during sleep, the explosive energy of the bladder being inhibited and +passing over into the sexual sphere. Conversely, it appears that explosion +of the bladder relieves sexual tension. An explosion of the nervous +centers connected with the contraction of the bladder will relieve nervous +tension generally; there are forms of epilepsy in which the act of +urination constitutes the climax, and Gowers, in dealing with minor +epilepsy, emphasizes the frequency of micturition, which "may occur with +spasmodic energy when there is only the slightest general stiffness," +especially in women. He adds the significant remark that it "sometimes +seems to relieve the cerebral tension,"<a name='3_FNanchor_53'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_53'><sup>[53]</sup></a> and gives the case of a girl +in whom the aura consisted mainly of a desire to urinate; if she could +satisfy this the fit was arrested; if not she lost consciousness and a +severe fit followed.</p> + +<p>If micturition may thus relieve nervous tension generally, it is not +surprising that it should relieve the tension of the centers with which it +is most intimately connected. Sérieux records the case of a girl of 12, +possessed by an impulse to masturbation which she was unable to control, +although anxious to conquer it, who only found relief in the act of +urination; this soothed her and to some extent satisfied the sexual +excitement; when the impulse to masturbate was restrained the impulse to +urinate became imperative; she would rise four or five times in the night +for this purpose, and even urinate in bed or in her clothes to obtain the +desired sexual relief.<a name='3_FNanchor_54'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_54'><sup>[54]</sup></a> I am acquainted with a lady who had a similar, +but less intense, experience during childhood. Sometimes, especially in +children, the act of urination becomes an act of gratification at the +climax <a name='3_Page_62'></a>of sexual pleasure, the imitative symbol of detumescence. Thus +Schultze-Malkowsky describes a little girl of 7 who would bribe her girl +companions with little presents to play the part of horses on all fours +while she would ride on their necks with naked thighs in order to obtain +the pleasurable sensation of close contact. With one special friend she +would ride facing backward, and leaning forward to embrace her body +impulsively, and at the same time pressing the neck closely between her +thighs, would urinate.<a name='3_FNanchor_55'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_55'><sup>[55]</sup></a> Féré has recorded the interesting case of a man +who, having all his life after puberty been subject to monthly attacks of +sexual excitement, after the age of 45 completely lost the liability to +these manifestations, but found himself subject, in place of them, to +monthly attacks of frequent and copious urination, accompanied by sexual +day-dreams, but by no genital excitement.<a name='3_FNanchor_56'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_56'><sup>[56]</sup></a> Such a case admirably +illustrates the compensatory relation of sexual and vesical excitation. +This mutual interaction is easily comprehensible when we recall the very +close nervous connection which exists between the mechanisms of the sexual +organs and the bladder.</p> + +<p>Nor are such relationships found to be confined to these two centers; in a +lesser degree the more remote explosive centers are also affected; all +motor influences may spread to related muscles; the convulsion of +laughter, for instance, seems to be often in relation with the sexual +center, and Groos has suggested that the laughter which, especially in the +sexually minded, often follows allusions to the genital sphere is merely +an effort to dispel nascent sexual excitement by liberating an explosion +of nervous energy in another direction.<a name='3_FNanchor_57'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_57'><sup>[57]</sup></a> Nervous <a name='3_Page_63'></a>discharges tend to +spread, or to act vicariously, because the motor centers are more or less +connected.<a name='3_FNanchor_58'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_58'><sup>[58]</sup></a> Of all the physiological motor explosions, the sexual +orgasm, or detumescence, is the most massive, powerful, and overwhelming. +So volcanic is it that to the ancient Greek philosophers it seemed to be a +minor kind of epilepsy. The relief of detumescence is not merely the +relief of an evacuation; it is the discharge, by the most powerful +apparatus for nervous explosion in the body, of the energy accumulated and +stored up in the slow process of tumescence, and that discharge +reverberates through all the nervous centers in the organism.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"The sophist of Abdera said that coitus is a slight fit of + epilepsy, judging it to be an incurable disease." (Clement of + Alexandria, <i>Pædagogus</i>, bk. ii, chapter x.) And Cœlius + Aurelianus, one of the chief physicians of antiquity, said that + "coitus is a brief epilepsy." Féré has pointed out that both + these forms of nervous storm are sometimes accompanied by similar + phenomena, by subjective sensations of sight or smell, for + example; and that the two kinds of discharge may even be + combined. (Féré, <i>Les Epileptiques</i>, pp. 283-84; also "Exces + Vénériens et Epilepsie," <i>Comptes-rendus de la Société de + Biologie</i>, April 3, 1897, and the same author's <i>Instinct + Sexuel</i>, pp. 209, 221, and his "Priapisme<a name='3_Page_64'></a> Epileptique," <i>La + Médecine Moderne</i>, February 4, 1899.) The epileptic convulsion in + some cases involves the sexual mechanism, and it is noteworthy + that epilepsy tends to appear at puberty. In modern times even so + great a physician as Boerhaave said that coitus is a "true + epilepsy," and more recently Roubaud, Hammond, and Kowalevsky + have emphasized the resemblance between coitus and epilepsy, + though without identifying the two states. Some authorities have + considered that coitus is a cause of epilepsy, but this is denied + by Christian, Strümpell, and Löwenfeld. (Löwenfeld, <i>Sexualleben + und Nervenleiden</i>, 1899, p. 68.) Féré has recorded the case of a + youth in whom the adoption of the practice of masturbation, + several times a day, was followed by epileptic attacks which + ceased when masturbation was abandoned. (Féré, <i>Comptes-rendus de + la Socitété de Biologie</i>, April 3, 1897.) </p></div> + +<p>It seems unprofitable at present to attempt any more fundamental analysis +of the sexual impulse. Beaunis, in the work already quoted, vaguely +suggests that we ought possibly to connect the sexual excitation which +leads the male to seek the female with chemical action, either exercised +directly on the protoplasm of the organism or indirectly by the +intermediary of the nervous system, and especially by smell in the higher +animals. Clevenger, Spitzka, Kiernan, and others have also regarded the +sexual impulse as protoplasmic hunger, tracing it back to the presexual +times when one protozoal form absorbed another. In the same way Joanny +Roux, insisting that the sexual need is a need of the whole organism, and +that "we love with the whole of our body," compares the sexual instinct to +hunger, and distinguishes between "sexual hunger" affecting the whole +system and "sexual appetite" as a more localized desire; he concludes that +the sexual need is an aspect of the nutritive need.<a name='3_FNanchor_59'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_59'><sup>[59]</sup></a> Useful as these +views are as a protest against too crude and narrow a conception of the +part played by the sexual impulse, they carry us into a speculative region +where proof is difficult. </p><a name='3_Page_65'></a> + +<p>We are now, however, at all events, in a better position to define the +contents of the sexual impulse. We see that there are certainly, as Moll +has indicated, two constituents in that impulse; but, instead of being +unrelated, or only distantly related, we see that they are really so +intimately connected as to form two distinct stages in the same process: a +first stage, in which—usually under the parallel influence of internal +and external stimuli—images, desires, and ideals grow up within the mind, +while the organism generally is charged with energy and the sexual +apparatus congested with blood; and a second stage, in which the sexual +apparatus is discharged amid profound sexual excitement, followed by deep +organic relief. By the first process is constituted the tension which the +second process relieves. It seems best to call the first impulse the +<i>process of tumescence</i>; the second the <i>process of detumescence</i>.<a name='3_FNanchor_60'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_60'><sup>[60]</sup></a> The +first, taking on usually a more active form in the male, has the double +object of bringing the male himself into the condition in which discharge +becomes imperative, and at the same time arousing in the female a similar +ardent state of emotional excitement and sexual turgescence. The second +process has the object, directly, of discharging the tension thus produced +and, indirectly, of effecting the act by which the race is propagated.</p> + +<p>It seems to me that this is at present the most satisfactory way in which +we can attempt to define the sexual impulse.</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='3_Footnote_1'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_1'>[1]</a><div class='note'><p> C. Lloyd Morgan, "Instinct and Intelligence in Animals," +<i>Nature</i>, February 3, 1898.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_2'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_2'>[2]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Essais</i>, livre iii, ch. v.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_3'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_3'>[3]</a><div class='note'><p> Féré, "La Prédisposition dans l'étiologie des perversions +sexuelles," <i>Revue de médecine</i>, 1898. In his more recent work on the +evolution and dissolution of the sexual instinct Féré perhaps slightly +modified his position by stating that "the sexual appetite is, above all, +a general need of the organism based on a sensation of fullness, a sort of +need of evacuation," <i>L'Instinct sexuel</i>, 1899, p. 6. Löwenfeld (<i>Ueber +die Sexuelle Konstitution</i>, p. 30) gives a qualified acceptance to the +excretory theory, as also Rohleder (<i>Die Zeugung beim Menschen</i>, p. 25).</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_4'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_4'>[4]</a><div class='note'><p> Goltz, <i>Centralblatt für die med. Wissenschaften</i>, 1865, No. +19, and 1866, No. 18; also <i>Beiträge zur Lehre von den Funktionen des +Frosches</i>, Berlin, 1869, p. 20.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_5'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_5'>[5]</a><div class='note'><p> J. Tarchanoff, "Zur Physiologie des Geschlechtsapparatus des +Frosches," <i>Archiv für die Gesammte Physiologie</i>, 1887, vol. xl, p. 330.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_6'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_6'>[6]</a><div class='note'><p> E. Steinach, "Untersuchungen zur vergleichenden Physiologie +der männlicher Geschlechtsorgane insbesondere der accessorischen +Geschlechtsdrüsen," <i>Archiv für die Gesammte Physiologie</i>, vol. lvi, 1894, +pp. 304-338.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_7'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_7'>[7]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, Shattock and Seligmann, "The Acquirement of +Secondary Sexual Characters," <i>Proceedings of the Royal Society</i>, vol. +lxxiii, 1904, p. 49.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_8'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_8'>[8]</a><div class='note'><p> For facts bearing on this point, see Guinard, art. +"Castration," Richet's <i>Dictionnaire de Physiologie</i>. The general results +of castration are summarized by Robert Müller in ch. vii of his +<i>Sexualbiologie</i>; also by F. H. A. Marshall, <i>The Physiology of +Reproduction</i>, ch, ix; see also E. Pittard, "Les Skoptzy," +<i>L'Anthropologie</i>, 1903, p. 463.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_9'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_9'>[9]</a><div class='note'><p> For an ancient discussion of this point, see Schurig, +<i>Spermatologia</i>, 1720, cap. ix.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_10'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_10'>[10]</a><div class='note'><p> J. J. Matignon, <i>Superstition, Crime, et Misère en Chine</i>, +"Les Eunuques du Palais Impérial de Pékin," 1901.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_11'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_11'>[11]</a><div class='note'><p> P. Marie, "Eunuchisme et Erotisme," <i>Nouvelle Iconographie +de la Salpêtrière</i>, 1906, No. 5, and <i>Progrès médical</i>, Jan. 26, 1907.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_12'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_12'>[12]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Pedagogical Seminary</i>, July, 1897, p. 121.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_13'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_13'>[13]</a><div class='note'><p> See, for instance, the case reported in another volume of +these <i>Studies</i> ("Sexual Inversion"), in which castration was performed on +a sexual invert without effecting any change.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_14'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_14'>[14]</a><div class='note'><p> Guinard, art. "Castration," <i>Dictionnaire de Physiologie</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_15'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_15'>[15]</a><div class='note'><p> M. A. Colman, <i>Medical Standard</i>, August, 1895; Clara Barrus, +<i>American Journal of Insanity</i>, April, 1895; Macnaughton-Jones, <i>British +Gynæcological Journal</i>, August, 1902; W. G. Bridgman, <i>Medical Standard</i>, +1896; J. M. Cotterill, <i>British Medical Journal</i>, April 7, 1900 (also +private communication); Paul F. Mundé, <i>American Journal of Obstetrics</i>, +March, 1899.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_16'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_16'>[16]</a><div class='note'><p> See Swale Vincent, <i>Internal Secretion and the Ductless +Glands</i>, 1912; F. H. A. Marshall, <i>The Physiology of Reproduction</i>, 1910, +ch. ix; Munzer, <i>Berliner klinische Wochenschrift</i>, Nov., 1910; C. Sajous, +<i>The Internal Secretions</i>, vol. i, 1911. The adrenal glands have been +fully and interestingly studied by Glynn, <i>Quarterly Journal of Medicine</i>, +Jan., 1912; the thyroid, by Ewan Waller, <i>Practitioner</i>, Aug., 1912; the +internal secretion of the ovary, by A. Louise McIlroy, <i>Proceedings Royal +Society Medicine</i>, July, 1912. For a discussion at the Neurology Section +of the British Medical Association Meeting, 1912, see <i>British Medical +Journal</i>, Nov. 16, 1912.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_17'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_17'>[17]</a><div class='note'><p> Since this was written I have come across a passage in +<i>Hampa</i> (p. 228), by Rafael Salillas, the Spanish sociologist, which shows +that the analogy has been detected by the popular mind and been embodied +in popular language: "A significant anatomico-physiological concordance +supposes a resemblance between the mouth and the sexual organs of a woman, +between coitus and the ingestion of food, and between foods which do not +require mastication and the spermatic ejaculation; these representations +find expression in the popular name <i>papo</i> given to women's genital +organs. 'Papo' is the crop of birds, and is derived from 'papar' (Latin, +<i>papare</i>), to eat soft food such as we call pap. With this representation +of infantile food is connected the term <i>leche</i> [milk] as applied to the +ejaculated genital fluid." Cleland, it may be added, in the most +remarkable of English erotic novels, <i>The Memoirs of Fanny Hill</i>, refers +to "the compressive exsuction with which the sensitive mechanism of that +part [the vagina] thirstily draws and drains the nipple of Love," and +proceeds to compare it to the action of the child at the breast. It +appears that, in some parts of the animal world at least, there is a real +analogy of formation between the oral and vaginal ends of the trunk. This +is notably the case in some insects, and the point has been elaborately +discussed by Walter Wesché, "The Genitalia of Both the Sexes in Diptera, +and their Relation to the Armature of the Mouth," <i>Transactions of the +Linnean Society</i>, second series, vol. ix, Zoölogy, 1906.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_18'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_18'>[18]</a><div class='note'><p> Näcke now expresses himself very dubiously on the point; +see, <i>e.g.</i>, <i>Archiv für Kriminal-Anthropologie</i>, 1905, p. 186.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_19'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_19'>[19]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Untersuchungen über die Libido Sexualis</i>, Berlin, 1897-98.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_20'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_20'>[20]</a><div class='note'><p> Moll adopts the term "impulse of detumescence" +(<i>Detumescenztrieb</i>) instead of "impulse of ejaculation," because in women +there is either no ejaculation or it cannot be regarded as essential.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_21'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_21'>[21]</a><div class='note'><p> I quote from the second edition, as issued in 1881.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_22'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_22'>[22]</a><div class='note'><p> This is the theory which by many has alone been seen in +Darwin's <i>Descent of Man</i>. Thus even his friend Wallace states +unconditionally (<i>Tropical Nature</i>, p. 193) that Darwin accepted a +"voluntary or conscious sexual selection," and seems to repeat the same +statement in <i>Darwinism</i> (1889), p. 283. Lloyd Morgan, in his discussion +of the pairing instinct in <i>Habit and Instinct</i> (1896), seems also only to +see this side of Darwin's statement.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_23'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_23'>[23]</a><div class='note'><p> In his <i>Variation of Animals and Plants under +Domestication</i>, Darwin was puzzled by the fact that, in captivity, animals +often copulate without conceiving and failed to connect that fact with the +processes behind his own theory of sexual selection.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_24'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_24'>[24]</a><div class='note'><p> Beaunis, <i>Sensations Internes</i>, ch. v, "Besoins Sexuels," +1889. It may be noted that many years earlier Burdach (in his <i>Physiologie +als Erfahrungswissenschaft</i>, 1826) had recognized that the activity of the +male favored procreation, and that mental and physical excitement seemed +to have the same effect in the female also.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_25'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_25'>[25]</a><div class='note'><p> It is scarcely necessary to point out that this is too +extreme a position. As J. G. Millais remarks of ducks (<i>Natural History of +British Ducks</i>, p. 45), in courtship "success in winning the admiration of +the female is rather a matter of persistent and active attention than +physical force," though the males occasionally fight over the female. The +ruff (<i>Machetes pugnax</i>) is a pugnacious bird, as his name indicates. Yet, +the reeve, the female of this species, is, as E. Selous shows ("Sexual +Selection in Birds," <i>Zoölogist</i>, Feb. and May, 1907), completely mistress +of the situation. "She seems the plain and unconcerned little mistress of +a numerous and handsome seraglio, each member of which, however he flounce +and bounce, can only wait to be chosen." Any fighting among the males is +only incidental and is not a factor in selection. Moreover, as R. Müller +points out (<i>loc. cit.</i>, p. 290), fighting would not usually attain the +end desired, for if the males expend their time and strength in a serious +combat they merely afford a third less pugnacious male a better +opportunity of running off with the prize.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_26'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_26'>[26]</a><div class='note'><p> L. Tillier, <i>L'Instinct Sexuel</i>, 1889, pp. 74, 118, 119, 124 +<i>et seq.</i>, 289.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_27'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_27'>[27]</a><div class='note'><p> K. Groos, <i>Die Spiele der Thiere</i>, 1896; <i>Die Spiele der +Menschen</i>, 1899; both are translated into English.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_28'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_28'>[28]</a><div class='note'><p> Prof. H. E. Ziegler, in a private letter to Professor Groos, +<i>Spiele der Thiere</i>, p. 202.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_29'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_29'>[29]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Die Spiele der Thiere</i>, p. 244. This had been briefly +pointed out by earlier writers. Thus, Haeckel (<i>Gen. Morph.</i>, ii, p. 244) +remarked that fighting for females is a special or modified kind of +struggle for existence, and that it acts on both sexes.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_30'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_30'>[30]</a><div class='note'><p> It may be added that in the human species, as Bray remarks +("Le Beau dans la Nature," <i>Revue Philosophique</i>, October, 1901, p. 403), +"the hymen would seem to tend to the same end, as if nature had wished to +reinforce by a natural obstacle the moral restraint of modesty, so that +only the vigorous male could insure his reproduction." There can be no +doubt that among many animals pairing is delayed so far as possible until +maturity is reached. "It is a strict rule amongst birds," remarks J. G. +Millais (<i>op. cit.</i>, p. 46), "that they do not breed until both sexes have +attained the perfect adult plumage." Until that happens, it seems +probable, the conditions for sexual excitation are not fully established. +We know little, says Howard (<i>Zoölogist</i>, 1903, p. 407), of the age at +which birds begin to breed, but it is known that "there are yearly great +numbers of individuals who do not breed, and the evidence seems to show +that such individuals are immature."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_31'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_31'>[31]</a><div class='note'><p> A. Marro, <i>La Puberté</i>, 1901, p. 464.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_32'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_32'>[32]</a><div class='note'><p> Lloyd Morgan, <i>Animal Behavior</i>, 1900, pp. 264-5. It may be +added that, on the esthetic side, Hirn, in his study (<i>The Origins of +Art</i>, 1900), reaches conclusions which likewise, in the main, concord with +those of Groos.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_33'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_33'>[33]</a><div class='note'><p> It may be noted that the marriage ceremony itself is often +of the nature of a courtship, a symbolic courtship, embodying a method of +attaining tumescence. As Crawley, who has brought out this point, puts it, +"Marriage-rites of union are essentially identical with love charms," and +he refers in illustration to the custom of the Australian Arunta, among +whom the man or woman by making music on the bull-roarer compels a person +of the opposite sex to court him or her, the marriage being thus +completed. (E. Crawley, <i>The Mystic Rose</i>, p. 318.)</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_34'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_34'>[34]</a><div class='note'><p> The more carefully animals are observed, the more often this +is found to be the case, even with respect to species which possess no +obvious and elaborate process for obtaining tumescence. See, for instance, +the detailed and very instructive account—too long to quote here—given +by E. Selous of the preliminaries to intercourse practised by a pair of +great crested grebes, while nest-building. Intercourse only took place +with much difficulty, after many fruitless invitations, more usually given +by the female. ("Observational Diary of the Habits of the Great Crested +Grebe," <i>Zöologist</i>, September, 1901.) It is exactly the same with +savages. The observation of Foley (<i>Bulletin de la Société d'Anthropologie +de Paris</i>, November 6, 1879) that in savages "sexual erethism is very +difficult" is of great significance and certainly in accordance with the +facts. This difficulty of erethism is the real cause of many savage +practices which to the civilized person often seem perverse; the women of +the Caroline Islands, for instance, as described by Finsch, require the +tongue or even the teeth to be applied to the clitoris, or a great ant to +be applied to bite the parts, in order to stimulate orgasm. Westermarck, +after quoting a remark of Mariner's concerning the women of Tonga,—"it +must not be supposed that these women are always easily won; the greatest +attentions and the most fervent solicitations are sometimes requisite, +even though there be no other lover in the way,"—adds that these words +"hold true for a great many, not to say all, savage and barbarous races +now existing." (<i>Human Marriage</i>, p. 163.) The old notions, however, as to +the sexual licentiousness of peoples living in natural conditions have +scarcely yet disappeared. See Appendix A; "The Sexual Instinct in +Savages."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_35'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_35'>[35]</a><div class='note'><p> In men a certain degree of tumescence is essential before +coitus can be effected at all; in women, though tumescence is not +essential to coitus, it is essential to orgasm and the accompanying +physical and psychic relief. The preference which women often experience +for prolonged coitus is not, as might possibly be imagined, due to +sensuality, but has a profound physiological basis.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_36'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_36'>[36]</a><div class='note'><p> Stanley Hall, <i>Adolescence</i>, vol. i, p. 223.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_37'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_37'>[37]</a><div class='note'><p> See Lagrange's <i>Physiology of Bodily Exercise</i>, especially +chapter ii. It is a significant fact that, as Sergi remarks (<i>Les +Emotions</i>, p. 330), the physiological results of dancing are identical +with the physiological results of pleasure.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_38'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_38'>[38]</a><div class='note'><p> Groos, <i>Spiele der Menschen</i>, p. 112. Zmigrodzki (<i>Die +Mutter bei den Volkern des Arischen Stammes</i>, p. 414 <i>et seq.</i>) has an +interesting passage describing the dance—especially the Russian dance—in +its orgiastic aspects.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_39'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_39'>[39]</a><div class='note'><p> Féré, "L'Influence sur le Travail Volontaire d'un muscle de +l'activité d'autres muscles," <i>Nouvelles Iconographie de la Salpêtrière</i>, +1901.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_40'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_40'>[40]</a><div class='note'><p> "The sensation of motion," Kline remarks ("The Migratory +Impulse," <i>American Journal of Psychology</i>, October, 1898, p. 62), "as yet +but little studied from a pleasure-pain standpoint, is undoubtedly a +pleasure-giving sensation. For Aristippus the end of life is pleasure, +which he defines as gentle motion. Motherhood long ago discovered its +virtue as furnished by the cradle. Galloping to town on the parental knee +is a pleasing pastime in every nursery. The several varieties of swings, +the hammock, see-saw, flying-jenny, merry-go-round, shooting the chutes, +sailing, coasting, rowing, and skating, together with the fondness of +children for rotating rapidly in one spot until dizzy and for jumping from +high places, are all devices and sports for stimulating the sense of +motion. In most of these modes of motion the body is passive or +semipassive, save in such motions as skating and rotating on the feet. The +passiveness of the body precludes any important contribution of stimuli +from kinesthetic sources. The stimuli are probably furnished, as Dr. Hall +and others have suggested, by a redistribution of fluid pressure (due to +the unusual motions and positions of the body) to the inner walls of the +several vascular systems of the body."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_41'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_41'>[41]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Anatomy of Melancholy</i>, part iii., sect. ii, mem. ii, subs. +iv.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_42'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_42'>[42]</a><div class='note'><p> Sadger, "Haut-, Schleimhaut-, und Muskel-erotik," <i>Jahrbuch +für psychoanalytische Forschungen</i>, Bd. iii, 1912, p. 556.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_43'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_43'>[43]</a><div class='note'><p> Marro (<i>Pubertà</i>, p. 367 <i>et seq.</i>) has some observations on +this point. It was an insight into this action of dancing which led the +Spanish clergy of the eighteenth century to encourage the national +enthusiasm for dancing (as Baretti informs us) in the interests of +morality.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_44'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_44'>[44]</a><div class='note'><p> It is scarcely necessary to remark that a primitive dance, +even when associated with courtship, is not necessarily a sexual +pantomime; as Wallaschek, in his comprehensive survey of primitive dances, +observes, it is more usually an animal pantomime, but nonetheless +connected with the sexual instinct, separation of the sexes, also, being +no proof to the contrary. (Wallaschek, <i>Primitive Music</i>, pp. 211-13.) +Grosse (<i>Anfänge der Kunst</i>, English translation, p. 228) has pointed out +that the best dancer would be the best fighter and hunter, and that sexual +selection and natural selection would thus work in harmony.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_45'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_45'>[45]</a><div class='note'><p> Féré, "Le plaisir de la vue du Mouvement," <i>Comptes-rendus +de la Société de Biologie</i>, November 2, 1901; also <i>Travail et Plaisir</i>, +ch. xxix.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_46'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_46'>[46]</a><div class='note'><p> Groos repeatedly emphasizes the significance of this fact +(<i>Spiele der Menschen</i>, pp. 81-9, 460 <i>et seq.</i>); Grosse (<i>Anfänge der +Kunst</i>, p. 215) had previously made some remarks on this point.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_47'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_47'>[47]</a><div class='note'><p> M. Kulischer, "Die Geschlechtliche Zuchtwahl bei den +Menschen in der Urzeit," <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1876, p. 140 <i>et +seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_48'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_48'>[48]</a><div class='note'><p> Sir W. R. Gowers, <i>Epilepsy</i>, 2d ed., 1901, pp. 61, 138.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_49'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_49'>[49]</a><div class='note'><p> Guyon, <i>Leçons Cliniques sur les Maladies des Voies +Urinaires</i>, 3d ed., 1896, vol. ii, p. 397.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_50'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_50'>[50]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, Féré, <i>L'Instinct Sexuel</i>, pp. 222-23: Brantôme +was probably the first writer in modern times who referred to this +phenomenon. MacGillicuddy (<i>Functional Disorders of the Nervous System in +Women</i>, p. 110) refers to the case of a lady who always had sudden and +uncontrollable expulsion of urine whenever her husband even began to +perform the marital act, on which account he finally ceased intercourse +with her. Kubary states that in Ponape (Western Carolines) the men are +accustomed to titillate the vulva of their women with the tongue until the +excitement is so intense that involuntary emission of urine takes place; +this is regarded as the proper moment for intercourse.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_51'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_51'>[51]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus Pitres and Régis (<i>Transactions of the International +Medical Congress, Moscow</i>, vol. iv, p. 19) record the case of a young girl +whose life was for some years tormented by a groundless fear of +experiencing an irresistible desire to urinate. This obsession arose from +once seeing at a theater a man whom she liked, and being overcome by +sexual feeling accompanied by so strong a desire to urinate that she had +to leave the theater. An exactly similar case in a young woman of erotic +temperament, but prudish, has been recorded by Freud (<i>Zur Neurosenlehre</i>, +Bd. i, p. 54). Morbid obsessions of modesty involving the urinary sphere +and appearing at puberty are evidently based on transformed sexual +emotion. Such a case has been recorded by Marandon de Montyel (<i>Archives +de Neurologie</i>, vol. xii, 1901, p. 36); this lady, who was of somewhat +neuropathic temperament, from puberty onward, in order to be able to +urinate found it necessary not only to be absolutely alone, but to feel +assured that no one even knew what was taking place.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_52'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_52'>[52]</a><div class='note'><p> H. Ellis, "The Bladder as a Dynamometer," <i>American Journal +of Dermatology</i>, May, 1902.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_53'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_53'>[53]</a><div class='note'><p> Sir W. Gowers, "Minor Epilepsy," <i>British Medical Journal</i>, +January 6, 1900; <i>ib.</i>, <i>Epilepsy</i>, 2d ed., 1901, p. 106; see also H. +Ellis, art. "Urinary Bladder, Influence of the Mind on the," in Tuke's +<i>Dictionary of Psychological Medicine</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_54'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_54'>[54]</a><div class='note'><p> Sérieux, <i>Recherches Cliniques sur les Anomalies de +l'Instinct Sexuel</i>, p. 22.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_55'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_55'>[55]</a><div class='note'><p> Emil Schultze-Malkowsky, "Der Sexuelle Trieb in +Kindesalter," <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, vol. ii, part 8, p. 372.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_56'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_56'>[56]</a><div class='note'><p> Féré, "Note sur un Cas de Periodicité Sexuelle chez +l'Homme," <i>Comptes-rendus Société de Biologie</i>, July 23, 1904.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_57'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_57'>[57]</a><div class='note'><p> It is a familiar fact that, in women, occasionally, a +violent explosion of laughter may be propagated to the bladder-center and +produce urination. "She laughed till she nearly wetted the floor," I have +heard a young woman in the country say, evidently using without thought a +familiar locution. Professor Bechterew has recorded the case of a young +married lady who, from childhood, wherever she might be—in friends' +houses, in the street, in her own drawing-room—had always experienced an +involuntary and forcible emission of urine, which could not be stopped or +controlled, whenever she laughed; the bladder was quite sound and no +muscular effort produced the same result. (W. Bechterew, <i>Neurologisches +Centralblatt</i>, 1899.) In women these relationships are most easily +observed, partly because in them the explosive centers are more easily +discharged, and partly, it is probable, so far as the bladder is +concerned, because, although after death the resistance to the emission of +urine is notably less in women, during life about the same amount of force +is necessary in both sexes; so that a greater amount of energy flows to +the bladder in women, and any nervous storm or disturbance is thus +specially apt to affect the bladder.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_58'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_58'>[58]</a><div class='note'><p> "Every pain," remarks Marie de Manacéine, "produces a number +of movements which are apparently useless: we cry out, we groan, we move +our limbs, we throw ourselves from one side to the other, and at bottom +all these movements are logical because by interrupting and breaking our +attention they render us less sensitive to the pain. In the days before +chloroform, skillful surgeons requested their patients to cry out during +the operation, as we are told by Gratiolet, who could not explain so +strange a fact, for in his time the antagonism of movements and attention +was not recognized." (Marie de Manacéine, <i>Archives Italiennes de +Biologie</i>, 1894, p. 250.) This antagonism of attention by movement is but +another way of expressing the vicarious relationship of motor discharges.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_59'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_59'>[59]</a><div class='note'><p> Joanny Roux, <i>Psychologie de l'Instinct Sexuel</i>, 1899, pp. +22-23. It is disputed whether hunger is located in the whole organism, and +powerful arguments have been brought against the view. (W. Cannon, "The +Nature of Hunger," <i>Popular Science Monthly</i>, Sept., 1912.) Thirst is +usually regarded as organic (A. Mayer, <i>La Soif</i>, 1901).</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_60'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_60'>[60]</a><div class='note'><p> If there is any objection to these terms it is chiefly +because they have reference to vascular congestion rather than to the +underlying nervous charging and discharging, which is equally fundamental, +and in man more prominent than the vascular phenomena.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_LOVE_AND_PAIN'></a><h2><a name='3_Page_66'></a>LOVE AND PAIN.</h2> + +<a name='3_L_I'></a><h3>I.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Chief Key to the Relationship between Love and Pain to be Found in +Animal Courtship—Courtship a Source of Combativity and of Cruelty—Human +Play in the Light of Animal Courtship—The Frequency of Crimes Against the +Person in Adolescence—Marriage by Capture and its Psychological +Basis—Man's Pleasure in Exerting Force and Woman's Pleasure in +Experiencing it—Resemblance of Love to Pain even in Outward +Expression—The Love-bite—In what Sense Pain may be Pleasurable—The +Natural Contradiction in the Emotional Attitude of Women Toward +Men—Relative Insensibility to Pain of the Organic Sexual Sphere in +Women—The Significance of the Use of the Ampallang and Similar Appliances +in Coitus—The Sexual Subjection of Women to Men in Part Explainable as +the Necessary Condition for Sexual Pleasure.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>The relation of love to pain is one of the most difficult problems, and +yet one of the most fundamental, in the whole range of sexual psychology. +Why is it that love inflicts, and even seeks to inflict, pain? Why is it +that love suffers pain, and even seeks to suffer it? In answering that +question, it seems to me, we have to take an apparently circuitous route, +sometimes going beyond the ostensible limits of sex altogether; but if we +can succeed in answering it we shall have come very near one of the great +mysteries of love. At the same time we shall have made clear the normal +basis on which rest the extreme aberrations of love.</p> + +<p>The chief key to the relationship of love to pain is to be found by +returning to the consideration of the essential phenomena of courtship in +the animal world generally. Courtship is a play, a game; even its combats +are often, to a large extent, mock-combats; but the process behind it is +one of terrible earnestness, and the play may at any moment become deadly. +Courtship tends to involve a mock-combat between males for the possession +of the female which may at any time become a real combat; it is a pursuit +of the female by the <a name='3_Page_67'></a>male which may at any time become a kind of +persecution; so that, as Colin Scott remarks, "Courting may be looked upon +as a refined and delicate form of combat." The note of courtship, more +especially among mammals, is very easily forced, and as soon as we force +it we reach pain.<a name='3_FNanchor_61'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_61'><sup>[61]</sup></a> The intimate and inevitable association in the +animal world of combat—of the fighting and hunting impulses—with the +process of courtship alone suffices to bring love into close connection +with pain.</p> + +<p>Among mammals the male wins the female very largely by the display of +force. The infliction of pain must inevitably be a frequent indirect +result of the exertion of power. It is even more than this; the infliction +of pain by the male on the female may itself be a gratification of the +impulse to exert force. This tendency has always to be held in check, for +it is of the essence of courtship that the male should win the female, and +she can only be won by the promise of pleasure. The tendency of the male +to inflict pain must be restrained, so far as the female is concerned, by +the consideration of what is pleasing to her. Yet, the more carefully we +study the essential elements of courtship, the clearer it becomes that, +playful as these manifestations may seem on the surface, in every +direction they are verging on pain. It is so among animals generally; it +is so in man among savages. "It is precisely the alliance of pleasure and +pain," wrote the physiologist Burdach, "which constitutes the voluptuous +emotion."</p> + +<p>Nor is this emotional attitude entirely confined to the male. The female +also in courtship delights to arouse to the highest degree in the male the +desire for her favors and to withhold <a name='3_Page_68'></a>those favors from him, thus finding +on her part also the enjoyment of power in cruelty. "One's cruelty is +one's power," Millament says in Congreve's <i>Way of the World</i>, "and when +one parts with one's cruelty one parts with one's power."</p> + +<p>At the outset, then, the impulse to inflict pain is brought into +courtship, and at the same time rendered a pleasurable idea to the female, +because with primitive man, as well as among his immediate ancestors, the +victor in love has been the bravest and strongest rather than the most +beautiful or the most skilful. Until he can fight he is not reckoned a man +and he cannot hope to win a woman. Among the African Masai a man is not +supposed to marry until he has blooded his spear, and in a very different +part of the world, among the Dyaks of Borneo, there can be little doubt +that the chief incentive to head-hunting is the desire to please the +women, the possession of a head decapitated by himself being an excellent +way of winning a maiden's favor.<a name='3_FNanchor_62'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_62'><sup>[62]</sup></a> Such instances are too well known to +need multiplication here, and they survive in civilization, for, even +among ourselves, although courtship is now chiefly ruled by quite other +considerations, most women are in some degree emotionally affected by +strength and courage. But the direct result of this is that a group of +phenomena with which cruelty and the infliction of pain must inevitably be +more or less allied is brought within the sphere of courtship and rendered +agreeable to women. Here, indeed, we have the source of that love of +cruelty which some have found so marked in women. This is a phase of +courtship which helps us to understand how it is that, as we shall see, +the idea of pain, having become associated with sexual emotion, may be +pleasurable to women.</p> + +<p>Thus, in order to understand the connection between love and pain, we have +once more to return to the consideration, under a somewhat new aspect, of +the fundamental elements in the sexual impulse. In discussing the +"Evolution of Modesty" we found that the primary part of the female in +courtship <a name='3_Page_69'></a>is the playful, yet serious, assumption of the rôle of a hunted +animal who lures on the pursuer, not with the object of escaping, but with +the object of being finally caught. In considering the "Analysis of the +Sexual Impulse" we found that the primary part of the male in courtship is +by the display of his energy and skill to capture the female or to arouse +in her an emotional condition which leads her to surrender herself to him, +this process itself at the same time heightening his own excitement. In +the playing of these two different parts is attained in both male and +female that charging of nervous energy, that degree of vascular +tumescence, necessary for adequate discharge and detumescence in an +explosion by which sperm-cells and germ-cells are brought together for the +propagation of the race. We are now concerned with the necessary interplay +of the differing male and female rôles in courtship, and with their +accidental emotional by-products. Both male and female are instinctively +seeking the same end of sexual union at the moment of highest excitement. +There cannot, therefore, be real conflict.<a name='3_FNanchor_63'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_63'><sup>[63]</sup></a> But there is the semblance +of a conflict, an apparent clash of aim, an appearance of cruelty. +Moreover,—and this is a significant moment in the process from our +present point of view,—when there are rivals for the possession of one +female there is always a possibility of actual combat, so tending to +introduce an element of real violence, of undisguised cruelty, which the +male inflicts on his rival and which the female views with satisfaction +and delight in the prowess of the successful claimant. Here we are brought +close to the zoölogical root of the connection between love and pain.<a name='3_FNanchor_64'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_64'><sup>[64]</sup></a></p> +<a name='3_Page_70'></a> + +<p>In his admirable work on play in man Groos has fully discussed the plays +of combat (<i>Kampfspiele</i>), which begin to develop even in childhood and +assume full activity during adolescence; and he points out that, while the +impulse to such play certainly has a wider biological significance, it +still possesses a relationship to the sexual life and to the rivalries of +animals in courtship which must not be forgotten.<a name='3_FNanchor_65'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_65'><sup>[65]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Nor is it only in play that the connection between love and combativity +may still be traced. With the epoch of the first sexual relationship, +Marro points out, awakes the instinct of cruelty, which prompts the youth +to acts which are sometimes in absolute contrast to his previous conduct, +and leads him to be careless of the lives of others as well as of his own +life.<a name='3_FNanchor_66'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_66'><sup>[66]</sup></a> Marro presents a diagram showing how crimes against <a name='3_Page_71'></a>the person +in Italy rise rapidly from the age of 16 to 20 and reach a climax between +21 and 25. In Paris, Gamier states, crimes of blood are six times more +frequent in adolescents (aged 16 to 20) than in adults. It is the same +elsewhere.<a name='3_FNanchor_67'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_67'><sup>[67]</sup></a> This tendency to criminal violence during the age-period of +courtship is a by-product of the sexual impulse, a kind of tertiary sexual +character.</p> + +<p>In the process of what is commonly termed "marriage by capture" we have a +method of courtship which closely resembles the most typical form of +animal courtship, and is yet found in all but the highest and most +artificial stages of human society. It may not be true that, as MacLennan +and others have argued, almost every race of man has passed through an +actual stage of marriage by capture, but the phenomena in question have +certainly been extremely widespread and exist in popular custom even among +the highest races today. George Sand has presented a charming picture of +such a custom, existing in France, in her <i>Mare au Diable</i>. Farther away, +among the Kirghiz, the young woman is pursued by all her lovers, but she +is armed with a formidable whip, which she does not hesitate to use if +overtaken by a lover to whom she is not favorable. Among the Malays, +according to early travelers, courtship is carried on in the water in +canoes with double-bladed paddles; or, if no water is near, the damsel, +stripped naked of all but a waistband, is given a certain start and runs +off on foot followed by her lover. Vaughan Stevens in 1896 reported that +this performance is merely a sport; but Skeat and Blagden, in their more +recent and very elaborate investigations in the Malay States, find that it +is a rite. </p><a name='3_Page_72'></a> + +<p>Even if we regard "marriage by capture" as simply a primitive human +institution stimulated by tribal exigencies and early social conditions, +yet, when we recall its widespread and persistent character, its close +resemblance to the most general method of courtship among animals, and the +emotional tendencies which still persist even in the most civilized men +and women, we have to recognize that we are in presence of a real +psychological impulse which cannot fail in its exercise to introduce some +element of pain into love.</p> + +<p>There are, however, two fundamentally different theories concerning +"marriage by capture." According to the first, that of MacLennan, which, +until recently, has been very widely accepted, and to which Professor +Tylor has given the weight of his authority, there has really been in +primitive society a recognized stage in which marriages were effected by +the capture of the wife. Such a state of things MacLennan regarded as once +world-wide. There can be no doubt that women very frequently have been +captured in this way among primitive peoples. Nor, indeed, has the custom +been confined to savages. In Europe we find that even up to comparatively +recent times the abduction of women was not only very common, but was +often more or less recognized. In England it was not until Henry VII's +time that the violent seizure of a woman was made a criminal offense, and +even then the statute was limited to women possessed of lands and goods. A +man might still carry off a girl provided she was not an heiress; but even +the abduction of heiresses continued to be common, and in Ireland remained +so until the end of the eighteenth century. But it is not so clear that +such raids and abductions, even when not of a genuinely hostile character, +have ever been a recognized and constant method of marriage.</p> + +<p>According to the second set of theories, the capture is not real, but +simulated, and may be accounted for by psychological reasons. Fustel de +Coulanges, in <i>La Cité Antique</i>,<a name='3_FNanchor_68'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_68'><sup>[68]</sup></a> discussing simulated marriage by +capture among the Romans, mentioned the <a name='3_Page_73'></a>view that it was "a symbol of the +young girl's modesty," but himself regarded it as an act of force to +symbolize the husband's power. He was possibly alluding to Herbert +Spencer, who suggested a psychological explanation of the apparent +prevalence of marriage by capture based on the supposition that, capturing +a wife being a proof of bravery, such a method of obtaining a wife would +be practised by the strongest men and be admired, while, on the other +hand, he considered that "female coyness" was "an important factor" in +constituting the more formal kinds of marriage by capture ceremonial.<a name='3_FNanchor_69'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_69'><sup>[69]</sup></a> +Westermarck, while accepting true marriage by capture, considers that +Spencer's statement "can scarcely be disproved."<a name='3_FNanchor_70'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_70'><sup>[70]</sup></a> In his valuable study +of certain aspects of primitive marriage Crawley, developing the +explanation rejected by Fustel de Coulanges, regards the fundamental fact +to be the modesty of women, which has to be neutralized, and this is done +by "a ceremonial use of force, which is half real and half make-believe." +Thus the manifestations are not survivals, but "arising in a natural way +from normal human feelings. It is not the tribe from which the bride is +abducted, nor, primarily, her family and kindred, but her <i>sex</i>"; and her +"sexual characters of timidity, bashfulness, and passivity are +sympathetically overcome by make-believe representations of male +characteristic actions."<a name='3_FNanchor_71'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_71'><sup>[71]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is not necessary for the present purpose that either of these two +opposing theories concerning the origin of the customs and feelings we are +here concerned with should be definitely rejected. Whichever theory is +adopted, the fundamental psychic element which here alone concerns us +still exists <a name='3_Page_74'></a>intact.<a name='3_FNanchor_72'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_72'><sup>[72]</sup></a> It may be pointed out, however, that we probably +have to accept two groups of such phenomena: one, seldom or never existing +as the sole form of marriage, in which the capture is real; and another in +which the "capture" is more or less ceremonial or playful. The two groups +coexist among the Turcomans, as described by Vambery, who are constantly +capturing and enslaving the Persians of both sexes, and, side by side with +this, have a marriage ceremonial of mock-capture of entirely playful +character. At the same time the two groups sometimes overlap, as is +indicated by cases in which, while the "capture" appears to be ceremonial, +the girl is still allowed to escape altogether if she wishes. The +difficulty of disentangling the two groups is shown by the fact that so +careful an investigator as Westermarck cites cases of real capture and +mock-capture together without attempting to distinguish between them. From +our present point of view it is quite unnecessary to attempt such a +distinction. Whether the capture is simulated or real, the man is still +playing the masculine and aggressive part proper to the male; the woman is +still playing the feminine and defensive part proper to the female. The +universal prevalence of these phenomena is due to the fact that +manifestations of this kind, real or pretended, afford each sex the very +best opportunity for playing its proper part in courtship, and so, even +when the force is real, must always gratify a profound instinct.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is not necessary to quote examples of marriage by capture from + the numerous and easily accessible books on the evolution of + marriage. (Sir A. B. Ellis, adopting MacLennan's standpoint, + presented a concise statement of the facts in an article on + "Survivals from Marriage by Capture," <i>Popular Science Monthly</i>, + 1891, p. 207.) It may, however, be worth while to bring together + from scattered sources a few of the facts concerning the + phenomena in this group and their accompanying emotional <a name='3_Page_75'></a>state, + more especially as they bear on the association of love with + force, inflicted or suffered.</p> + +<p> In New Caledonia, Foley remarks, the successful coquette goes off + with her lover into the bush. "It usually happens that, when she + is successful, she returns from her expedition, tumbled, beaten, + scratched, even bitten on the nape and shoulders, her wounds thus + bearing witness to the quadrupedal attitude she has assumed amid + the foliage." (Foley, <i>Bulletin de la Société d'Anthropologie</i>, + Paris, November 6, 1879.)</p> + +<p> Of the natives of New South Wales, Turnbull remarked at the + beginning of the nineteenth century that "their mode of courtship + is not without its singularity. When a young man sees a female to + his fancy he informs her she must accompany him home; the lady + refuses; he not only enforces compliance with threats but blows; + thus the gallant, according to the custom, never fails to gain + the victory, and bears off the willing, though struggling + pugilist. The colonists for some time entertained the idea that + the women were compelled and forced away against their + inclinations; but the young ladies informed them that this mode + of gallantry was the custom, and perfectly to their taste," (J. + Turnbull, <i>A Voyage Round the World</i>, 1813, p. 98; <i>cf.</i> Brough + Smyth, <i>Aborigines of Victoria</i>, 1878, vol. i, p. 81.)</p> + +<p> As regards capture of women among Central Australian tribes, + Spencer and Gillen remark: "We have never in any of these central + tribes met with any such thing, and the clubbing part of the + story may be dismissed, so far as the central area of the + continent is concerned. To the casual observer what looks like a + capture (we are, of course, only speaking of these tribes) is in + reality an elopement, in which the woman is an aiding and + abetting party." (<i>Northern Tribes of Central Australia</i>. p. 32.)</p> + +<p> "The New Zealand method of courtship and matrimony is a most + extraordinary one. A man sees a woman whom he fancies he should + like for a wife; he asks the consent of her father, or, if an + orphan, of her nearest relative, which, if he obtain, he carries + his intended off by force, she resisting with all her strength, + and, as the New Zealand girls are generally fairly robust, + sometimes a dreadful struggle takes place; both are soon stripped + to the skin and it is sometimes the work of hours to remove the + fair prize a hundred yards. It sometimes happens that she secures + her retreat into her father's house, and the lover loses all + chance of ever obtaining her." (A. Earle, <i>Narratives of + Residence in New Zealand</i>, 1832, p. 244.)</p> + +<p> Among the Eskimos (probably near Smith Sound) "there is no + marriage ceremony further than that the boy is required to carry + off his bride by main force, for even among these blubber-eating + people the woman only saves her modesty by a show of resistance, + although she <a name='3_Page_76'></a>knows years beforehand that her destiny is sealed + and that she is to become the wife of the man from whose + embraces, when the nuptial day comes, she is obliged by the + inexorable law of public opinion to free herself, if possible, by + kicking and screaming with might and main until she is safely + landed in the hut of her future lord, when she gives up the + combat very cheerfully and takes possession of her new abode. The + betrothal often takes place at a very early period of life and at + very dissimilar ages." Marriage only takes place when the lover + has killed his first seal; this is the test of manhood and + maturity. (J. J. Hayes, <i>Open Polar Sea</i>, 1867, p. 432.)</p> + +<p> Marriage by "capture" is common in war and raiding in central + Africa. "The women, as a rule," Johnston says, "make no very + great resistance on these occasions. It is almost like playing a + game. A woman is surprised as she goes to get water at the + stream, or when she is on the way to or from the plantation. The + man has only got to show her she is cornered and that escape is + not easy or pleasant and she submits to be carried off. As a + general rule, they seem to accept very cheerfully these abrupt + changes in their matrimonial existence." (Sir H. H. Johnston, + <i>British Central Africa</i>, p. 412.)</p> + +<p> Among the wild tribes of the Malay Peninsula in one form of + wedding rite the bridegroom is required to run seven times around + an artificial mound decorated with flowers and the emblem of the + people's religion. In the event of the bridegroom failing to + catch the bride the marriage has to be postponed. Among the Orang + Laut, or sea-gipsies, the pursuit sometimes takes the form of a + canoe-race; the woman is given a good start and must be overtaken + before she has gone a certain distance. (W. W. Skeat, <i>Journal + Anthropological Institute</i>, Jan.-June, 1902, p. 134; Skeat and + Blagden, <i>Pagan Races of the Malay</i>, vol. ii, p. 69 <i>et seq.</i>, + fully discuss the ceremony around the mound.)</p> + +<p> "Calmuck women ride better than the men. A male Calmuck on + horseback looks as if he was intoxicated, and likely to fall off + every instant, though he never loses his seat; but the women sit + with more ease, and ride with extraordinary skill. The ceremony + of marriage among the Calmucks is performed on horseback. A girl + is first mounted, who rides off at full speed. Her lover pursues, + and if he overtakes her she becomes his wife and the marriage is + consummated upon the spot, after which she returns with him to + his tent. But it sometimes happens that the woman does not wish + to marry the person by whom she is pursued, in which case she + will not suffer him to overtake her; and we were assured that no + instance occurs of a Calmuck girl being thus caught, unless she + has a partiality for her pursuer. If she dislikes him, she rides, + to use the language of English sportsmen, 'neck or nothing,' + until she has completely escaped or until the pursuer's horse is + tired <a name='3_Page_77'></a>out, leaving her at liberty to return, to be afterward + chased by some more favored admirer." (E. D. Clarke, <i>Travels</i>, + 1810, vol. i, p. 333.)</p> + +<p> Among the Bedouins marriage is arranged between the lover and the + girl's father, often without consulting the girl herself. "Among + the Arabs of Sinai the young maid comes home in the evening with + the cattle. At a short distance from the camp she is met by the + future spouse and a couple of his young friends and carried off + by force to her father's tent. If she entertains any suspicion of + their designs she defends herself with stones, and often inflicts + wounds on the young men, even though she does not dislike the + lover, for, according to custom, the more she struggles, bites, + kicks, cries, and strikes, the more she is applauded ever after + by her own companions." After being taken to her father's tent, + where a man's cloak is thrown over her by one of the bridegroom's + relations, she is dressed in garments provided by her future + husband, and placed on a camel, "still continuing to struggle in + a most unruly manner, and held by the bridegroom's friends on + both sides." She is then placed in a recess of the husband's + tent. Here the marriage is finally consummated, "the bride still + continuing to cry very loudly. It sometimes happens that the + husband is obliged to tie his bride, and even to beat her, before + she can be induced to comply with his desires." If, however, she + really does not like her husband, she is perfectly free to leave + him next morning, and her father is obliged to receive her back + whether he wishes to or not. It is not considered proper for a + widow or divorced woman to make any resistance on being married. + (J. L. Burckhardt, <i>Notes on the Bedouins and Wahábys</i>, 1830, p. + 149 <i>et seq.</i>)</p> + +<p> Among the Turcomans forays for capturing and enslaving their + Persian neighbors were once habitual. Vambery describes their + "marriage ceremonial when the young maiden, attired in bridal + costume, mounts a high-bred courser, taking on her lap the + carcass of a lamb or goat, and setting off at full gallop, + followed by the bridegroom and other young men of the party, also + on horseback; she is always to strive, by adroit turns, etc., to + avoid her pursuers, that no one approach near enough to snatch + from her the burden on her lap. This game, called <i>kökbüri</i> + (green wolf), is in use among all the nomads of central Asia." + (A. Vambery, <i>Travels in Central Asia</i>, 1864, p. 323.)</p> + +<p> In China, a missionary describes how, when he was called upon to + marry the daughter of a Chinese Christian brought up in native + customs, he was compelled to wait several hours, as the bride + refused to get up and dress until long after the time appointed + for the wedding ceremony, and then only by force. "Extreme + reluctance and dislike and fear are the true marks of a happy and + lively wedding." (A. E. Moule, <i>New China and Old</i>, p. 128.)</p> + +<p> It is interesting to find that in the Indian art of love a kind + of mock-combat, accompanied by striking, is a recognized and + normal <a name='3_Page_78'></a>method of heightening tumescence. Vatsyayana has a + chapter "On Various Manners of Striking," and he approves of the + man striking the woman on the back, belly, flanks, and buttocks, + before and during coitus, as a kind of play, increasing as sexual + excitement increases, which the woman, with cries and groans, + pretends to bid the man to stop. It is mentioned that, especially + in southern India, various instruments (scissors, needles, etc.) + are used in striking, but this practice is condemned as barbarous + and dangerous. (<i>Kama Sutra</i>, French translation, iii, chapter + v.)</p> + +<p> In the story of Aladdin, in the <i>Arabian Nights</i>, the bride is + undressed by the mother and the other women, who place her in the + bridegroom's bed "as if by force, and, according to the custom of + the newly married, she pretends to resist, twisting herself in + every direction, and seeking to escape from their hands." (<i>Les + Mille Nuits</i>, tr. Mardrus, vol. xi, p. 253.)</p> + +<p> It is said that in those parts of Germany where preliminary + <i>Probenächte</i> before formal marriage are the rule it is not + uncommon for a young woman before finally giving herself to a man + to provoke him to a physical struggle. If she proves stronger she + dismisses him; if he is stronger she yields herself willingly. + (W. Henz, "Probenächte," <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Oct., 1910, p. 743.)</p> + +<p> Among the South Slavs of Servia and Bulgaria, according to + Krauss, it is the custom to win a woman by seizing her by the + ankle and bringing her to the ground by force. This method of + wooing is to the taste of the woman, and they are refractory to + any other method. The custom of beating or being beaten before + coitus is also found among the South Slavs. (Κρυπτάδια, + vol. vi, p. 209.)</p> + +<p> In earlier days violent courtship was viewed with approval in the + European world, even among aristocratic circles. Thus in the + medieval <i>Lai de Graélent</i> of Marie de France this Breton knight + is represented as very chaste, possessing a high ideal of love + and able to withstand the wiles of women. One day when he is + hunting in a forest he comes upon a naked damsel bathing, + together with her handmaidens. Overcome by her beauty, he seizes + her clothes in case she should be alarmed, but is persuaded to + hand them to her; then he proceeds to make love to her. She + replies that his love is an insult to a woman of her high + lineage. Finding her so proud, Graélent sees that his prayers are + in vain. He drags her by force into the depth of the forest, has + his will of her, and begs her very gently not to be angry, + promising to love her loyally and never to leave her. The damsel + saw that he was a good knight, courteous, and wise. She thought + within herself that if she were to leave him she would never find + a better friend.</p> + +<p> Brantôme mentions a lady who confessed that she liked to be + "half-forced" by her husband, and he remarks that a woman who is + "a <a name='3_Page_79'></a>little difficult and resists" gives more pleasure also to her + lover than one who yields at once, just as a hard-fought battle + is a more notable triumph than an easily won victory. (Brantôme, + <i>Vie des Dames Galantes</i>, discours i.) Restif de la Bretonne, + again, whose experience was extensive, wrote in his + <i>Anti-Justine</i> that "all women of strong temperament like a sort + of brutality in sexual intercourse and its accessories."</p> + +<p> Ovid had said that a little force is pleasing to a woman, and + that she is grateful to the ravisher against whom she struggles + (<i>Ars Amatoria</i>, lib. i). One of Janet's patients (Raymond and + Janet, <i>Les Obsessions et la Psychasthénie</i>, vol. ii, p. 406) + complained that her husband was too good, too devoted. "He does + not know how to make me suffer a little. One cannot love anyone + who does not make one suffer a little." Another hysterical woman + (a silk fetichist, frigid with men) had dreams of men and animals + abusing her: "I cried with pain and was happy at the same time." + (Clérambault, <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, June, 1908, + p. 442.)</p> + +<p> It has been said that among Slavs of the lower class the wives + feel hurt if they are not beaten by their husbands. Paullinus, in + the seventeenth century, remarked that Russian women are never + more pleased and happy than when beaten by their husbands, and + regard such treatment as proof of love. (See, <i>e.g.</i>, C. F. von + Schlichtegroll, <i>Sacher-Masoch und der Masochismus</i>, p. 69.) + Krafft-Ebing believes that this is true at the present day, and + adds that it is the same in Hungary, a Hungarian official having + informed him that the peasant women of the Somogyer Comitate do + not think they are loved by their husbands until they have + received the first box on the ear. (Krafft-Ebing, <i>Psychopathia + Sexualis</i>, English translation of the tenth edition, p. 188.) I + may add that a Russian proverb says "Love your wife like your + soul and beat her like your <i>shuba</i>" (overcoat); and, according + to another Russian proverb, "a dear one's blows hurt not long." + At the same time it has been remarked that the domination of men + by women is peculiarly frequent among the Slav peoples. (V. + Schlichtegroll, <i>op. cit.</i>, p. 23.) Cellini, in an interesting + passage in his <i>Life</i> (book ii, chapters xxxiv-xxxv), describes + his own brutal treatment of his model Caterina, who was also his + mistress, and the pleasure which, to his surprise, she took in + it. Dr. Simon Forman, also, the astrologist, tells in his + <i>Autobiography</i> (p. 7) how, as a young and puny apprentice to a + hosier, he was beaten, scolded, and badly treated by the servant + girl, but after some years of this treatment he turned on her, + beat her black and blue, and ever after "Mary would do for him + all that she could."</p> + +<p> That it is a sign of love for a man to beat his sweetheart, and a + sign much appreciated by women, is illustrated by the episode of + Cariharta and Repolido, in "Rinconete and Cortadillo," one of + Cervantes's<a name='3_Page_80'></a> <i>Exemplary Novels</i>. The Indian women of South + America feel in the same way, and Mantegazza when traveling in + Bolivia found that they complained when they were not beaten by + their husbands, and that a girl was proud when she could say "He + loves me greatly, for he often beats me." (<i>Fisiologia della + Donna</i>, chapter xiii.) The same feeling evidently existed in + classic antiquity, for we find Lucian, in his "Dialogues of + Courtesans," makes a woman say: "He who has not rained blows on + his mistress and torn her hair and her garments is not yet in + love," while Ovid advises lovers sometimes to be angry with their + sweethearts and to tear their dresses.</p> + +<p> Among the Italian Camorrista, according to Russo, wives are very + badly treated. Expression is given to this fact in the popular + songs. But the women only feel themselves tenderly loved when + they are badly treated by their husbands; the man who does not + beat them they look upon as a fool. It is the same in the east + end of London. "If anyone has doubts as to the brutalities + practised on women by men," writes a London magistrate, "let him + visit the London Hospital on a Saturday night. Very terrible + sights will meet his eye. Sometimes as many as twelve or fourteen + women may be seen seated in the receiving room, waiting for their + bruised and bleeding faces and bodies to be attended to. In nine + cases out of ten the injuries have been inflicted by brutal and + perhaps drunken husbands. The nurses tell me, however, that any + remarks they may make reflecting on the aggressors are received + with great indignation by the wretched sufferers. They positively + will not hear a single word against the cowardly ruffians. + 'Sometimes,' said a nurse to me, 'when I have told a woman that + her husband is a brute, she has drawn herself up and replied: + "You mind your own business, miss. We find the rates and taxes, + and the likes of you are paid out of 'em to wait on us."'" + (Montagu Williams, <i>Round London</i>, p. 79.)</p> + +<p> "The prostitute really loves her <i>souteneur</i>, notwithstanding all + the persecutions he inflicts on her. Their torments only increase + the devotion of the poor slaves to their 'Alphonses.' + Parent-Duchâtelet wrote that he had seen them come to the + hospital with their eyes out of their heads, faces bleeding, and + bodies torn by the blows of their drunken lovers, but as soon as + they were healed they went back to them. Police-officers tell us + that it is very difficult to make a prostitute confess anything + concerning her <i>souteneur</i>. Thus, Rosa L., whom her 'Alphonse' + had often threatened to kill, even putting the knife to her + throat, would say nothing, and denied everything when the + magistrate questioned her. Maria R., with her face marked by a + terrible scar produced by her <i>souteneur</i>, still carefully + preserved many years afterward the portrait of the aggressor, and + when we asked her to explain her affection she replied: 'But he + wounded me because he loved me.' The <i>souteneur's</i> brutality only + increases the ill-treated woman's love; the humiliation <a name='3_Page_81'></a>and + slavery in which the woman's soul is drowned feed her love." + (Niceforo, <i>Il Gergo</i>, etc., 1897, p. 128.)</p> + +<p> In a modern novel written in autobiographic form by a young + Australian lady the heroine is represented as striking her + betrothed with a whip when he merely attempts to kiss her. Later + on her behavior so stings him that his self-control breaks down + and he seizes her fiercely by the arms. For the first time she + realizes that he loves her. "I laughed a joyous little laugh, + saying 'Hal, we are quits'; when on disrobing for the night I + discovered on my soft white shoulders and arms—so susceptible to + bruises—many marks, and black. It had been a very happy day for + me." (Miles Franklin, <i>My Brilliant Career</i>.)</p> + +<p> It is in large measure the existence of this feeling of + attraction for violence which accounts for the love-letters + received by men who are accused of crimes of violence. Thus in + one instance, in Chicago (as Dr. Kiernan writes to me), "a man + arrested for conspiracy to commit abortion, and also suspected of + being a sadist, received many proposals of marriage and other + less modest expressions of affection from unknown women. To judge + by the signatures, these women belonged to the Germans and Slavs + rather than to the Anglo-Celts."</p> + +<p> Neuropathic or degenerative conditions sometimes serve to + accentuate or reveal ancestral traits that are very ancient in + the race. Under such conditions the tendency to find pleasure in + subjection and pain, which is often faintly traceable even in + normal civilized women, may become more pronounced. This may be + seen in a case described in some detail in the <i>Archivio di + Psichiatria</i>. The subject was a young lady of 19, of noble + Italian birth, but born in Tunis. On the maternal side there is a + somewhat neurotic heredity, and she is herself subject to attacks + of hystero-epileptoid character. She was very carefully, but + strictly, educated; she knows several languages, possesses marked + intellectual aptitudes, and is greatly interested in social and + political questions, in which she takes the socialistic and + revolutionary side. She has an attractive and sympathetic + personality; in complexion she is dark, with dark eyes and very + dark and abundant hair; the fine down on the upper lip and lower + parts of the cheeks is also much developed; the jaw is large, the + head acrocephalic, and the external genital organs of normal + size, but rather asymmetric. Ever since she was a child she has + loved to work and dream in solitude. Her dreams have always been + of love, since menstruation began as early as the age of 10, and + accompanied by strong sexual feelings, though at that age these + feelings remained vague and indefinite; but in them the desire + for pleasure was always accompanied by the desire for pain, the + desire to bite and destroy something, and, as it were, to + annihilate herself. She experienced great relief after periods of + "erotic rumination," and if this rumination <a name='3_Page_82'></a>took place at night + she would sometimes masturbate, the contact of the bedclothes, + she said, giving her the illusion of a man. In time this vague + longing for the male gave place to more definite desires for a + man who would love her, and, as she imagined, strike her. + Eventually she formed secret relationships with two or three + lovers in succession, each of these relationships being, however, + discovered by her family and leading to ineffectual attempts at + suicide. But the association of pain with love, which had + developed spontaneously in her solitary dreams, continued in her + actual relations with her lovers. During coitus she would bite + and squeeze her arms until the nails penetrated the flesh. When + her lover asked her why at the moment of coitus she would + vigorously repel him, she replied: "Because I want to be + possessed by force, to be hurt, suffocated, to be thrown down in + a struggle." At another time she said: "I want a man with all his + vitality, so that he can torture and kill my body." We seem to + see here clearly the ancient biological character of animal + courtship, the desire of the female to be violently subjugated by + the male. In this case it was united to sensitiveness to the + sexual domination of an intellectual man, and the subject also + sought to stimulate her lovers' intellectual tastes. (<i>Archivio + di Psichiatria</i>, vol. xx, fasc. 5-6, p. 528.) </p></div> + +<p>This association between love and pain still persists even among the most +normal civilized men and women possessing well-developed sexual impulses. +The masculine tendency to delight in domination, the feminine tendency to +delight in submission, still maintain the ancient traditions when the male +animal pursued the female. The phenomena of "marriage by capture," in its +real and its simulated forms, have been traced to various causes. But it +has to be remembered that these causes could only have been operative in +the presence of a favorable emotional aptitude, constituted by the +zoölogical history of our race and still traceable even today. To exert +power, as psychologists well recognize, is one of our most primary +impulses, and it always tends to be manifested in the attitude of a man +toward the woman he loves.<a name='3_FNanchor_73'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_73'><sup>[73]</sup></a> </p><a name='3_Page_83'></a> + +<p>It might be possible to maintain that the primitive element of more or +less latent cruelty in courtship tends to be more rather than less marked +in civilized man. In civilization the opportunity of dissipating the +surplus energy of the courtship process by inflicting pain on rivals +usually has to be inhibited; thus the woman to be wooed tends to become +the recipient of the whole of this energy, both in its pleasure-giving and +its pain-giving aspects. Moreover, the natural process of courtship, as it +exists among animals and usually among the lower human races, tends to +become disguised and distorted in civilization, as well by economic +conditions as by conventional social conditions and even ethical +prescription. It becomes forgotten that the woman's pleasure is an +essential element in the process of courtship. A woman is often reduced to +seek a man for the sake of maintenance; she is taught that pleasure is +sinful or shameful, that sex-matters are disgusting, and that it is a +woman's duty, and also her best policy, to be in subjection to her +husband. Thus, various external checks which normally inhibit any passing +over of masculine sexual energy into cruelty are liable to be removed.</p> + +<p>We have to admit that a certain pleasure in manifesting his power over a +woman by inflicting pain upon her is an outcome and survival of the +primitive process of courtship, and an almost or quite normal constituent +of the sexual impulse in man. But it must be at once added that in the +normal well-balanced and well-conditioned man this constituent of the +sexual impulse, when present, is always held in check. When the normal man +inflicts, or feels the impulse to inflict, some degree of physical pain on +the woman he loves he can scarcely be said to be moved by cruelty. He +feels, more or less obscurely, that the pain he inflicts, or desires to +inflict, is really a part of his love, and that, moreover, it is not +really resented by the woman <a name='3_Page_84'></a>on whom it is exercised. His feeling is by +no means always according to knowledge, but it has to be taken into +account as an essential part of his emotional state. The physical force, +the teasing and bullying, which he may be moved to exert under the stress +of sexual excitement, are, he usually more or less unconsciously persuades +himself, not really unwelcome to the object of his love.<a name='3_FNanchor_74'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_74'><sup>[74]</sup></a> Moreover, we +have to bear in mind the fact—a very significant fact from more than one +point of view—that the normal manifestations of a woman's sexual pleasure +are exceedingly like those of pain. "The outward expressions of pain," as +a lady very truly writes,—"tears, cries, etc.,—which are laid stress on +to prove the cruelty of the person who inflicts it, are not so different +from those of a woman in the ecstasy of passion, when she implores the man +to desist, though that is really the last thing she desires."<a name='3_FNanchor_75'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_75'><sup>[75]</sup></a> If a man +is convinced that he is causing real and unmitigated pain, he becomes +repentant at once. If this is not the case he must either be regarded as a +radically abnormal person or as carried away by passion to a point of +temporary insanity.</p> + +<p>The intimate connection of love with pain, its tendency to approach +cruelty, is seen in one of the most widespread of the occasional and +non-essential manifestations of strong sexual emotion, especially in +women, the tendency to bite. We may find references to love-bites in the +literature of ancient as well as of modern times, in the East as well as +in the West. Plautus, Catullus, Propertius, Horace, Ovid, Petronius, and +other Latin writers refer to bites as associated with kisses and usually +on the lips. Plutarch says that Flora, the mistress of Cnæus Pompey, in +commending her lover remarked that he was so lovable that <a name='3_Page_85'></a>she could never +leave him without giving him a bite. In the Arabic <i>Perfumed Garden</i> there +are many references to love-bites, while in the Indian <i>Kama Sutra</i> of +Vatsyayana a chapter is devoted to this subject. Biting in love is also +common among the South Slavs.<a name='3_FNanchor_76'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_76'><sup>[76]</sup></a> The phenomenon is indeed sufficiently +familiar to enable Heine, in one of his <i>Romancero</i>, to describe those +marks by which the ancient chronicler states that Edith Swanneck +recognized Harold, after the Battle of Hastings, as the scars of the bites +she had once given him.</p> + +<p>It would be fanciful to trace this tendency back to that process of +devouring to which sexual congress has, in the primitive stages of its +evolution, been reduced. But we may probably find one of the germs of the +love-bite in the attitude of many mammals during or before coitus; in +attaining a firm grip of the female it is not uncommon (as may be observed +in the donkey) for the male to seize the female's neck between his teeth. +The horse sometimes bites the mare before coitus and it is said that among +the Arabs when a mare is not apt for coitus she is sent to pasture with a +small ardent horse, who excites her by playing with her and biting +her.<a name='3_FNanchor_77'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_77'><sup>[77]</sup></a> It may be noted, also, that dogs often show their affection for +their masters by gentle bites. Children also, as Stanley Hall has pointed +out, are similarly fond of biting.</p> + +<p>Perhaps a still more important factor is the element of combat in +tumescence, since the primitive conditions associated with tumescence +provide a reservoir of emotions which are constantly drawn on even in the +sexual excitement of individuals belonging to civilization. The tendency +to show affection by biting is, indeed, commoner among women than among +men and not only in civilization. It has been noted among idiot girls as +well as among the women of various savage races. It may thus be that the +conservative instincts of women have preserved a primitive tendency that +at its origin marked the male more than the female. But in any case the +tendency to <a name='3_Page_86'></a>bite at the climax of sexual excitement is so common and +widespread that it must be regarded, when occurring in women, as coming +within the normal range of variation in such manifestations. The +gradations are of wide extent; while in its slight forms it is more or +less normal and is one of the origins of the kiss,<a name='3_FNanchor_78'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_78'><sup>[78]</sup></a> in its extreme +forms it tends to become one of the most violent and antisocial of sexual +aberrations.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>A correspondent writes regarding his experience of biting and + being bitten: "I have often felt inclination to bite a woman I + love, even when not in coitus or even excited. (I like doing so + also with my little boy, playfully, as a cat and kittens.) There + seem to be several reasons for this: (1) the muscular effect + relieves me; (2) I imagine I am giving the woman pleasure; (3) I + seem to attain to a more intimate possession of the loved one. I + cannot remember when I first felt desire to be bitten in coitus, + or whether the idea was first suggested to me. I was initiated + into pinching by a French prostitute who once pinched my nates in + coitus, no doubt as a matter of business; it heightened my + pleasure, perhaps by stimulating muscular movement. It does not + occur to me to ask to be pinched when I am very much excited + already, but only at an earlier stage, no doubt with the object + of promoting excitement. Apart altogether from sexual excitement, + being pinched is unpleasant to me. It has not seemed to me that + women usually like to be bitten. One or two women have bitten and + sucked my flesh. (The latter does not affect me.) I like being + bitten, partly for the same reason as I like being pinched, + because if spontaneous it is a sign of my partner's amorousness + and the biting never seems too hard. Women do not usually seem to + like being bitten, though there are exceptions; 'I should like to + bite you and I should like you to bite me,' said one woman; I did + so hard, in coitus, and she did not flinch." "She is particularly + anxious to eat me alive," another correspondent writes, "and + nothing gives her greater satisfaction than to tear open my + clothes and fasten her teeth into my flesh until I yell for + mercy. My experience has generally been, however," the same + correspondent continues, "that the cruelty is <i>unconscious</i>. A + woman just grows mad with the desire to squeeze or bite + something, with a complete unconsciousness of what result it will + produce in the victim. She is astonished when she sees the result + and will hardly believe she has done it." It is unnecessary to + accumulate evidence of a tendency which is sufficiently common to + be fairly well known, but one or two quotations may be <a name='3_Page_87'></a>presented + to show its wide distribution. In the <i>Kama Sutra</i> we read: "If + she is very exalted, and if in the exaltation of her passionate + transports she begins a sort of combat, then she takes her lover + by the hair, draws his head to hers, kisses his lower lip, and + then in her delirium bites him all over his body, shutting her + eyes"; it is added that with the marks of such bites lovers can + remind each other of their affections, and that such love will + last for ages. In Japan the maiden of Ainu race feels the same + impulse. A. H. Savage Landor (<i>Alone with the Hairy Ainu</i>, 1893, + p. 140) says of an Ainu girl: "Loving and biting went together + with her. She could not do the one without the other. As we sat + on a stone in the twilight she began by gently biting my fingers + without hurting me, as affectionate dogs do to their masters. She + then bit my arm, then my shoulder, and when she had worked + herself up into a passion she put her arms around my neck and bit + my cheeks. It was undoubtedly a curious way of making love, and, + when I had been bitten all over, and was pretty tired of the new + sensation, we retired to our respective homes. Kissing, + apparently, was an unknown art to her."</p> + +<p> The significance of biting, and the close relationship which, as + will have to be pointed out later, it reveals to other phenomena, + may be illustrated by some observations which have been made by + Alonzi on the peasant women of Sicily. "The women of the people," + he remarks, "especially in the districts where crimes of blood + are prevalent, give vent to their affection for their little ones + by kissing and sucking them on the neck and arms till they make + them cry convulsively; all the while they say: 'How sweet you + are! I will bite you, I will gnaw you all over,' exhibiting every + appearance of great pleasure. If a child commits some slight + fault they do not resort to simple blows, but pursue it through + the street and bite it on the face, ears, and arms until the + blood flows. At such moments the face of even a beautiful woman + is transformed, with injected eyes, gnashing teeth, and + convulsive tremors. Among both men and women a very common threat + is 'I will drink your blood.' It is told on ocular evidence that + a man who had murdered another in a quarrel licked the hot blood + from the victim's hand." (G. Alonzi, <i>Archivio di Psichiatria</i>, + vol. vi, fasc. 4.) A few years ago a nurse girl in New York was + sentenced to prison for cruelty to the baby in her charge. The + mother had frequently noticed that the child was in pain and at + last discovered the marks of teeth on its legs. The girl admitted + that she had bitten the child because that action gave her + intense pleasure. (<i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, August, 1901, p. + 558.) In the light of such observations as these we may + understand a morbid perversion of affection such as was recorded + in the London police news some years ago (1894). A man of 30 was + charged with ill-treating his wife's illegitimate daughter, aged + 3, during a period of many months; her lips, eyes, and hands were + bitten and bruised from sucking, and <a name='3_Page_88'></a>sometimes her pinafore was + covered with blood. "Defendant admitted he had bitten the child + because he loved it."</p> + +<p> It is not surprising that such phenomena as these should + sometimes be the stimulant and accompaniment to the sexual act. + Ferriani thus reports such a case in the words of the young man's + mistress: "Certainly he is a strange, maddish youth, though he is + fond of me and spends money on me when he has any. He likes much + sexual intercourse, but, to tell the truth, he has worn out my + patience, for before our embraces there are always struggles + which become assaults. He tells me he has no pleasure except when + he sees me crying on account of his bites and vigorous pinching. + Lately, just before going with me, when I was groaning with + pleasure, he threw himself on me and at the moment of emission + furiously bit my right cheek till the blood came. Then he kissed + me and begged my pardon, but would do it again if the wish took + him." (L. Ferriani, <i>Archivio di Psicopatie Sessuale</i>, vol. i, + fasc. 7 and 8, 1896, p. 107.)</p> + +<p> In morbid cases biting may even become a substitute for coitus. + Thus, Moll (<i>Die Konträre Sexualempfindung</i>, second edition, p. + 323) records the case of a hysterical woman who was sexually + anesthetic, though she greatly loved her husband. It was her + chief delight to bite him till the blood flowed, and she was + content if, instead of coitus, he bit her and she him, though she + was grieved if she inflicted much pain. In other still more + morbid cases the fear of inflicting pain is more or less + abolished.</p> + +<p> An idealized view of the impulse of love to bite and devour is + presented in the following passage from a letter by a lady who + associates this impulse with the idea of the Last Supper: "Your + remarks about the Lord's Supper in 'Whitman' make it natural to + me to tell you my thoughts about that 'central sacrament of + Christianity.' I cannot tell many people because they + misunderstand, and a clergyman, a very great friend of mine, when + I once told what I thought and felt, said I was carnal. He did + not understand the divinity and intensity of human love as I + understand it. Well, when one loves anyone very much,—a child, a + woman, or a man,—one loves everything belonging to him: the + things he wears, still more his hands, and his face, every bit of + his body. We always want to have all, or part, of him as part of + ourselves. Hence the expression: I could <i>devour</i> you, I love you + so. In some such warm, devouring way Jesus Christ, I have always + felt, loved each and every human creature. So it was that he took + this mystery of food, which by eating became part of ourselves, + as the symbol of the most intense human love, the most intense + Divine love. Some day, perhaps, love will be so understood by all + that this sacrament will cease to be a superstition, a bone of + contention, an 'article' of the church, and become, in all + simplicity, a symbol of pure love." </p></div><a name='3_Page_89'></a> + +<p>While in men it is possible to trace a tendency to inflict pain, or the +simulacrum of pain, on the women they love, it is still easier to trace in +women a delight in experiencing physical pain when inflicted by a lover, +and an eagerness to accept subjection to his will. Such a tendency is +certainly normal. To abandon herself to her lover, to be able to rely on +his physical strength and mental resourcefulness, to be swept out of +herself and beyond the control of her own will, to drift idly in delicious +submission to another and stronger will—this is one of the commonest +aspirations in a young woman's intimate love-dreams. In our own age these +aspirations most often only find their expression in such dreams. In ages +when life was more nakedly lived, and emotion more openly expressed, it +was easier to trace this impulse. In the thirteenth century we have found +Marie de France—a French poetess living in England who has been credited +with "an exquisite sense of the generosities and delicacy of the heart," +and whose work was certainly highly appreciated in the best circles and +among the most cultivated class of her day—describing as a perfect, wise, +and courteous knight a man who practically commits a rape on a woman who +has refused to have anything to do with him, and, in so acting, he wins +her entire love. The savage beauty of New Caledonia furnishes no better +illustration of the fascination of force, for she, at all events, has done +her best to court the violence she undergoes. In Middleton's <i>Spanish +Gypsy</i> we find exactly the same episode, and the unhappy Portuguese nun +wrote: "Love me for ever and make me suffer still more." To find in +literature more attenuated examples of the same tendency is easy. +Shakespeare, whose observation so little escaped, has seldom depicted the +adult passion of a grown woman, but in the play which he has mainly +devoted to this subject he makes Cleopatra refer to "amorous pinches," and +she says in the end: "The stroke of death is as a lover's pinch, which +hurts and is desired." "I think the Sabine woman enjoyed being carried off +like that," a woman remarked in front of Rubens's "Rape of the Sabines," +confessing that such a method of love-making <a name='3_Page_90'></a>appealed strongly to +herself, and it is probable that the majority of women would be prepared +to echo that remark.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It may be argued that pain cannot give pleasure, and that when + what would usually be pain is felt as pleasure it cannot be + regarded as pain at all. It must be admitted that the emotional + state is often somewhat complex. Moreover, women by no means + always agree in the statement of their experience. It is + noteworthy, however, that even when the pleasurableness of pain + in love is denied it is still admitted that, under some + circumstances, pain, or the idea of pain, is felt as pleasurable. + I am indebted to a lady for a somewhat elaborate discussion of + this subject, which I may here quote at length: "As regards + physical pain, though the idea of it is sometimes exciting, I + think the reality is the reverse. A very slight amount of pain + destroys my pleasure completely. This was the case with me for + fully a month after marriage, and since. When pain has + occasionally been associated with passion, pleasure has been + sensibly diminished. I can imagine that, when there is a want of + sensitiveness so that the tender kiss or caress might fail to + give pleasure, more forcible methods are desired; but in that + case what would be pain to a sensitive person would be only a + pleasant excitement, and it could not be truly said that such + obtuse persons liked pain, though they might appear to do so. I + cannot think that anyone enjoys what is pain <i>to them</i>, if only + from the fact that it detracts and divides the attention. This, + however, is only my own idea drawn from my own negative + experience. No woman has ever told me that she would like to have + pain inflicted on her. On the other hand, the desire to inflict + pain seems almost universal among men. I have only met one man in + whom I have never at any time been able to detect it. At the same + time most men shrink from putting their ideas into practice. A + friend of my husband finds his chief pleasure in imagining women + hurt and ill-treated, but is too tender-hearted ever to inflict + pain on them in reality, even when they are willing to submit to + it. Perhaps a woman's readiness to submit to pain to please a man + may sometimes be taken for pleasure in it. Even when women like + the idea of pain, I fancy it is only because it implies + subjection to the man, from association with the fact that + physical pleasure must necessarily be preceded by submission to + his will."</p> + +<p> In a subsequent communication this lady enlarged and perhaps + somewhat modified her statements on this point:—</p> + +<p> "I don't think that what I said to you was quite correct. + <i>Actual</i> pain gives me no pleasure, yet the <i>idea</i> of pain does, + <i>if inflicted by way of discipline and for the ultimate good of + the person suffering it</i>. This is essential. For instance, I once + read a poem in which the devil and the lost souls in hell were + represented as recognizing that they could not <a name='3_Page_91'></a>be good except + under torture, but that while suffering the purifying actions of + the flames of hell they so realized the beauty of holiness that + they submitted willingly to their agony and praised God for the + sternness of his judgment. This poem gave me decided physical + pleasure, yet I know that if my hand were held in a fire for five + minutes I should feel nothing but the pain of the burning. To get + the feeling of pleasure, too, I must, for the moment, revert to + my old religious beliefs and my old notion that mere suffering + has an elevating influence; one's emotions are greatly modified + by one's beliefs. When I was about fifteen I invented a game + which I played with a younger sister, in which we were supposed + to be going through a process of discipline and preparation for + heaven after death. Each person was supposed to enter this state + on dying and to pass successively into the charge of different + angels named after the special virtues it was their function to + instill. The last angel was that of Love, who governed solely by + the quality whose name he bore. In the lower stages, we were + under an angel called Severity who prepared us by extreme + harshness and by exacting implicit obedience to arbitrary orders + for the acquirement of later virtues. Our duties were to + superintend the weather, paint the sunrise and sunset, etc., the + constant work involved exercising us in patience and submission. + The physical pleasure came in in inventing and recounting to each + other our day's work and the penalties and hardships we had been + subjected to. We never told each other that we got any physical + pleasure out of this, and I cannot therefore be sure that my + sister did so; I only imagine she did because she entered so + heartily into the spirit of the game. I could get as much + pleasure by imagining myself the angel and inflicting the pain, + under the conditions mentioned; but my sister did not like this + so much, as she then had no companion in subjection. I could not, + however, thus reverse my feelings in regard to a man, as it would + appear to me unnatural, and, besides, the greater physical + strength is essential in the superior position. I can, however, + by imagining myself a man, sometimes get pleasure in conceiving + myself as educating and disciplining a woman by severe measures. + There is, however, no real cruelty in this idea, as I always + imagine her liking it.</p> + +<p> "I only get pleasure in the idea of a woman submitting herself to + pain and harshness from the man she loves when the following + conditions are fulfilled: 1. She must be absolutely sure of the + man's love. 2. She must have perfect confidence in his judgment. + 3. The pain must be deliberately inflicted, not accidental. 4. It + must be inflicted in kindness and for her own improvement, not in + anger or with any revengeful feelings, as that would spoil one's + ideal of the man. 5. The pain must not be excessive and must be + what when we were children we used to call a 'tidy' pain; <i>i.e.</i>, + there must be no mutilation, cutting, etc. 6. Last, one would + have to feel very sure of one's own influence over <a name='3_Page_92'></a>the man. So + much for the idea. As I have never suffered pain under a + combination of all these conditions, I have no right to say that + I should or should not experience pleasure from its infliction in + reality."</p> + +<p> Another lady writes: "I quite agree that the idea of pain may be + pleasurable, but must be associated with something to be gained + by it. My experience is that it [coitus] does often hurt for a + few moments, but that passes and the rest is easy; so that the + little hurt is nothing terrible, but all the same annoying if + only for the sake of a few minutes' pleasure, which is not long + enough. I do not know how my experience compares with other + women's, but I feel sure that in my case the time needed is + longer than usual, and the longer the better, always, with me. As + to liking pain—no, I do not really like it, although I can + tolerate pain very well, of any kind; but I like to feel force + and strength; this is usual, I think, women being—or supposed to + be—passive in love. I have not found that 'pain at once kills + pleasure.'"</p> + +<p> Again, another lady briefly states that, for her, pain has a + mental fascination, and that such pain as she has had she has + liked, but that, if it had been any stronger, pleasure would have + been destroyed.</p> + +<p> The evidence thus seems to point, with various shades of + gradation, to the conclusion that the idea or even the reality of + pain in sexual emotion is welcomed by women, provided that this + element of pain is of small amount and subordinate to the + pleasure which is to follow it. Unless coitus is fundamentally + pleasure the element of pain must necessarily be unmitigated + pain, and a craving for pain unassociated with a greater + satisfaction to follow it cannot be regarded as normal.</p> + +<p> In this connection I may refer to a suggestive chapter on "The + Enjoyment of Pain" in Hirn's <i>Origins of Art</i>. "If we take into + account," says Hirn, "the powerful stimulating effect which is + produced by acute pain, we may easily understand why people + submit to momentary unpleasantness for the sake of enjoying the + subsequent excitement. This motive leads to the deliberate + creation, not only of pain-sensations, but also of emotions in + which pain enters as an element. The violent activity which is + involved in the reaction against fear, and still more in that + against anger, affords us a sensation of pleasurable excitement + which is well worth the cost of the passing unpleasantness. It + is, moreover, notorious that some persons have developed a + peculiar art of making the initial pain of anger so transient + that they can enjoy the active elements in it with almost + undivided delight. Such an accomplishment is far more difficult + in the case of sorrow.... The creation of pain-sensations may be + explained as a desperate device for enhancing the intensity of + the emotional state."</p> + +<p> The relation of pain and pleasure to emotion has been thoroughly + discussed, I may add, by H. R. Marshall in his <i>Pain, Pleasure, + and Æsthetics</i>. He contends that pleasure and pain are "general + qualities, <a name='3_Page_93'></a>one of which must, and either of which may, belong to + any fixed element of consciousness." "Pleasure," he considers, + "is experienced whenever the physical activity coincident with + the psychic state to which the pleasure is attached involves the + use of surplus stored force." We can see, therefore, how, if pain + acts as a stimulant to emotion, it becomes the servant of + pleasure by supplying it with surplus stored force.</p> + +<p> This problem of pain is thus one of psychic dynamics. If we + realize this we shall begin to understand the place of cruelty in + life. "One ought to learn anew about cruelty," said Nietzsche + (<i>Beyond Good and Evil</i>, 229), "and open one's eyes. Almost + everything that we call 'higher culture' is based upon the + spiritualizing and intensifying of <i>cruelty</i>.... Then, to be + sure, we must put aside teaching the blundering psychology of + former times, which could only teach with regard to cruelty that + it originated at the sight of the suffering of <i>others</i>; there is + an abundant, superabundant enjoyment even in one's own suffering, + in causing one's own suffering." The element of paradox + disappears from this statement if we realize that it is not a + question of "cruelty," but of the dynamics of pain.</p> + +<p> Camille Bos in a suggestive essay ("Du Plaisir de la Douleur," + <i>Revue Philosophique</i>, July, 1902) finds the explanation of the + mystery in that complexity of the phenomena to which I have + already referred. Both pain and pleasure are complex feelings, + the resultant of various components, and we name that resultant + in accordance with the nature of the strongest component. "Thus + we give to a complexus a name which strictly belongs only to one + of its factors, <i>and in pain all is not painful</i>." When pain + becomes a desired end Camille Bos regards the desire as due to + three causes: (1) the pain contrasts with and revives a pleasure + which custom threatens to dull; (2) the pain by preceding the + pleasure accentuates the positive character of the latter; (3) + pain momentarily raises the lowered level of sensibility and + restores to the organism for a brief period the faculty of + enjoyment it had lost.</p> + +<p> It must therefore be said that, in so far as pain is pleasurable, + it is so only in so far as it is recognized as a prelude to + pleasure, or else when it is an actual stimulus to the nerves + conveying the sensation of pleasure. The nymphomaniac who + experienced an orgasm at the moment when the knife passed through + her clitoris (as recorded by Mantegazza) and the prostitute who + experienced keen pleasure when the surgeon removed vegetations + from her vulva (as recorded by Féré) took no pleasure in pain, + but in one case the intense craving for strong sexual emotion, + and in the other the long-blunted nerves of pleasure, welcomed + the abnormally strong impulse; and the pain of the incision, if + felt at all, was immediately swallowed up in the sensation of + pleasure. Moll remarks (<i>Konträre Sexualempfindung</i>, third + edition, p. 278) that even in man a trace of physical pain may be + normally combined with <a name='3_Page_94'></a>sexual pleasure, when the vagina + contracts on the penis at the moment of ejaculation, the pain, + when not too severe, being almost immediately felt as pleasure. + That there is no pleasure in the actual pain, even in masochism, + is indicated by the following statement which Krafft-Ebing gives + as representing the experiences of a masochist (<i>Psychopathia + Sexualis</i> English translation, p. 201): "The relation is not of + such a nature that what causes physical pain is simply perceived + as physical pleasure, for the person in a state of masochistic + ecstasy feels no pain, either because by reason of his emotional + state (like that of the soldier in battle) the physical effect on + his cutaneous nerves is not apperceived, or because (as with + religious martyrs and enthusiasts) in the preoccupation of + consciousness with sexual emotion the idea of maltreatment + remains merely a symbol, without its quality of pain. To a + certain extent there is overcompensation of physical pain in + psychic pleasure, and only the excess remains in consciousness as + psychic lust. This also undergoes an increase, since, either + through reflex spinal influence or through a peculiar coloring in + the sensorium of sensory impressions, a kind of hallucination of + bodily pleasure takes place, with a vague localization of the + objectively projected sensation. In the self-torture of religious + enthusiasts (fakirs, howling dervishes, religious flagellants) + there is an analogous state, only with a difference in the + quality of pleasurable feeling. Here the conception of martyrdom + is also apperceived without its pain, for consciousness is filled + with the pleasurably colored idea of serving God, atoning for + sins, deserving Heaven, etc., through martyrdom." This statement + cannot be said to clear up the matter entirely; but it is fairly + evident that, when a woman says that she finds pleasure in the + pain inflicted by a lover, she means that under the special + circumstances she finds pleasure in treatment which would at + other times be felt as pain, or else that the slight real pain + experienced is so quickly followed by overwhelming pleasure that + in memory the pain itself seems to have been pleasure and may + even be regarded as the symbol of pleasure.</p> + +<p> There is a special peculiarity of physical pain, which may be + well borne in mind in considering the phenomena now before us, + for it helps to account for the tolerance with which the idea of + pain is regarded. I refer to the great ease with which physical + pain is forgotten, a fact well known to all mothers, or to all + who have been present at the birth of a child. As Professor von + Tschisch points out ("Der Schmerz," <i>Zeitschrift für Psychologie + und Physiologie der Sinnesorgane</i>, Bd. xxvi, ht. 1 and 2, 1901), + memory can only preserve impressions as a whole; physical pain + consists of a sensation and of a feeling. But memory cannot + easily reproduce the definite sensation of the pain, and thus the + whole memory is disintegrated and speedily forgotten. It is quite + otherwise <a name='3_Page_95'></a>with moral suffering, which persists in memory and has + far more influence on conduct. No one wishes to suffer moral pain + or has any pleasure even in the idea of suffering it. </p></div> + +<p>It is the presence of this essential tendency which leads to a certain +apparent contradiction in a woman's emotions. On the one hand, rooted in +the maternal instinct, we find pity, tenderness, and compassion; on the +other hand, rooted in the sexual instinct, we find a delight in roughness, +violence, pain, and danger, sometimes in herself, sometimes also in +others. The one impulse craves something innocent and helpless, to cherish +and protect; the other delights in the spectacle of recklessness, +audacity, sometimes even effrontery.<a name='3_FNanchor_79'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_79'><sup>[79]</sup></a> A woman is not perfectly happy in +her lover unless he can give at least some satisfaction to each of these +two opposite longings.</p> + +<p>The psychological satisfaction which women tend to feel in a certain +degree of pain in love is strictly co-ordinated with a physical fact. +Women possess a minor degree of sensibility in the sexual region. This +fact must not be misunderstood. On the one hand, it by no means begs the +question as to whether women's sensibility generally is greater or less +than that of men; this is a disputed question and the evidence is still +somewhat conflicting.<a name='3_FNanchor_80'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_80'><sup>[80]</sup></a> On the other hand, it also by no means involves +a less degree of specific sexual pleasure in women, for the tactile +sensibility of the sexual organs is no index to the specific sexual +sensibility of those organs when in a state of tumescence. The real +significance of the less tactile sensibility of the genital region in +women is to be found in parturition and the special liability of the +sexual region in women to injury.<a name='3_FNanchor_81'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_81'><sup>[81]</sup></a><a name='3_Page_96'></a> The women who are less sensitive in +this respect would be better able and more willing to endure the risks of +childbirth, and would therefore tend to supplant those who were more +sensitive. But, as a by-product of this less degree of sensibility, we +have a condition in which physical irritation amounting even to pain may +become to normal women in the state of extreme tumescence a source of +pleasurable excitement, such as it would rarely be to normal men.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>To Calmann appear to be due the first carefully made observations + showing the minor sensibility of the genital tract in women. + (Adolf Calmann, "Sensibilitütsprufungen am weiblicken Genitale + nach forensichen Gesichtspunkten," <i>Archiv für Gynäkologie</i>, + 1898, p. 454.) He investigated the vagina, urethra, and anus in + eighteen women and found a great lack of sensibility, least + marked in anus, and most marked in vagina. [This distribution of + the insensitiveness alone indicates that it is due, as I have + suggested, to natural selection.] Sometimes a finger in the + vagina could not be felt at all. One woman, when a catheter was + introduced into the anus, said it might be the vagina or urethra, + but was certainly not the anus. (Calmann remarks that he was + careful to put his questions in an intelligible form.) The women + were only conscious of the urine being drawn off when they heard + the familiar sound of the stream or when the bladder was very + full; if the sound of the stream was deadened by a towel they + were quite unconscious that the bladder had been emptied. [In + confirmation of this statement I have noticed that in a lady + whose distended bladder it was necessary to empty by the catheter + shortly before the birth of her first child—but who had, indeed, + been partly under the influence of chloroform—there was no + consciousness of the artificial relief; she merely remarked that + she thought she could now relieve herself.] There was some sense + of temperature, but sense of locality, tactile sense, and + judgment of size were often widely erroneous. It is significant + that virgins were just as insensitive as married women or those + who had had children. Calmann's experiments appear to be + confirmed by the experiments of Marco Treves, of Turin, on the + thermoesthesiometry of mucous membranes, as reported to the Turin + International Congress of Physiology (and briefly noted in + <i>Nature</i>, November 21, 1901). Treves found that the sensitivity + of mucous membranes is always less than that of the skin. The + mucosa of the urethra and of the cervix uteri was quite incapable + of heat and cold sensations, and even the cautery excited only + slight, and that painful, sensation.</p> + +<p> In further illustration of this point reference may be made to + the not infrequent cases in which the whole process of + parturition and the <a name='3_Page_97'></a>enormous distention of tissues which it + involves proceed throughout in an almost or quite painless + manner. It is sufficient to refer to two cases reported in Paris + by Macé and briefly summarized in the <i>British Medical Journal</i>, + May 25, 1901. In the first the patient was a primipara 20 years + of age, and, until the dilatation of the cervix was complete and + efforts at expulsion had commenced, the uterine contractions were + quite painless. In the second case, the mother, aged 25, a + tripara, had previously had very rapid labors; she awoke in the + middle of the night without pains, but during micturition the + fetal head appeared at the vulva, and was soon born.</p> + +<p> Further illustration may be found in those cases in which severe + inflammatory processes may take place in the genital canal + without being noticed. Thus, Maxwell reports the case of a young + Chinese woman, certainly quite normal, in whom after the birth of + her first child the vagina became almost obliterated, yet beyond + slight occasional pain she noticed nothing wrong until the + husband found that penetration was impossible (<i>British Medical + Journal</i>, January 11, 1902, p. 78). The insensitiveness of the + vagina and its contrast, in this respect, with the penis—though + we are justified in regarding the penis as being, like organs of + special sense, relatively deficient in general sensibility—are + vividly presented in such an incident as the following, reported + a few years ago in America by Dr. G. W. Allen in the <i>Boston + Medical and Surgical Journal</i>: A man came under observation with + an edematous, inflamed penis. The wife, the night previous, on + advice of friends, had injected pure carbolic acid into the + vagina just previous to coitus. The husband, ignorant of the + fact, experienced untoward burning and smarting during and after + coitus, but thought little of it, and soon fell asleep. The next + morning there were large blisters on the penis, but it was no + longer painful. When seen by Dr. Allen the prepuce was retracted + and edematous, the whole penis was much swollen, and there were + large, perfectly raw surfaces on either side of the glans. </p></div> + +<p>In this connection we may well bring into line a remarkable group of +phenomena concerning which much evidence has now accumulated. I refer to +the use of various appliances, fixed in or around the penis, whether +permanently or temporarily during coitus, such appliance being employed at +the woman's instigation and solely in order to heighten her excitement in +congress. These appliances have their great center among the Indonesian +peoples (in Borneo, Java, Sumatra, the Malay peninsula, the Philippines, +etc.), thence extending in a modified form through China, to become, it +appears, considerably prevalent <a name='3_Page_98'></a>in Russia; I have also a note of their +appearance in India. They have another widely diffused center, through +which, however, they are more sparsely scattered, among the American +Indians of the northern and more especially of the southern continents. +Amerigo Vespucci and other early travelers noted the existence of some of +these appliances, and since Miklucho-Macleay carefully described them as +used in Borneo<a name='3_FNanchor_82'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_82'><sup>[82]</sup></a> their existence has been generally recognized. They are +usually regarded merely as ethnological curiosities. As such they would +not concern us here. Their real significance for us is that they +illustrate the comparative insensitiveness of the genital canal in women, +while at the same time they show that a certain amount of what we cannot +but regard as painful stimulation is craved by women, in order to heighten +tumescence and increase sexual pleasure, even though it can only by +procured by artificial methods. It is, of course, possible to argue that +in these cases we are not concerned with pain at all, but with a strong +stimulation that is felt as purely pleasurable. There can be no doubt, +however, that in the absence of sexual excitement this stimulation would +be felt as purely painful, and—in the light of our previous +discussion—we may, perhaps, fairly regard it as a painful stimulation +which is craved, not because it is itself pleasurable, but because it +heightens the highly pleasurable state of tumescence.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Borneo, the geographical center of the Indonesian world, appears + also to be the district in which these instruments are most + popular. The <i>ampallang, palang, kambion</i>, or <i>sprit-sail yard</i>, + as it is variously termed, is a little rod of bone or metal + nearly two inches in length, rounded at the ends, and used by the + Kyans and Dyaks of Borneo. Before coitus it is inserted into a + transverse orifice in the penis, made by a painful and somewhat + dangerous operation and kept open by a quill. Two or more of + these instruments are occasionally worn. Sometimes little brushes + are attached to each end of the instrument. Another instrument, + used by the Dyaks, but said to have been borrowed from the + Malays, is the <i>palang anus</i>, which is a ring or collar of + plaited palm-fiber, furnished with a pair of stiffish horns of + the same wiry material; <a name='3_Page_99'></a>it is worn on the neck of the glans and + fits tight to the skin so as not to slip off. (Brooke Low, "The + Natives of Borneo," <i>Journal of the Anthropological Institute</i>, + August and November, 1892, p. 45; the <i>ampallang</i> and similar + instruments are described by Ploss and Bartels, <i>Das Weib</i>, Bd. + i, chapter xvii; also in <i>Untrodden Fields of Anthropology</i>, by a + French army surgeon, 1898, vol. ii, pp. 135-141; also Mantegazza, + <i>Gli Amori degli Uomini</i>, French translation, p. 83 <i>et seq.</i>) + Riedel informed Miklucho-Macleay that in the Celebes the Alfurus + fasten the eyelids of goats with the eyelashes round the corona + of the glans penis, and in Java a piece of goatskin is used in a + similar way, so as to form a hairy sheath (<i>Zeitschrift für + Ethnologie</i>, 1876, pp. 22-25), while among the Batta, of Sumatra, + Hagen found that small stones are inserted by an incision under + the skin of the penis (<i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1891, ht. 3, + p. 351).</p> + +<p> In the Malay peninsula Stevens found instruments somewhat similar + to the <i>ampallang</i> still in use among some tribes, and among + others formerly in use. He thinks they were brought from Borneo. + (H. V. Stevens, <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1896, ht. 4, p. + 181.) Bloch, who brings forward other examples of similar devices + (<i>Beiträge zur Ætiologie der Psychopathia Sexualis</i>, pp. 56-58), + considers that the Australian mica operation may thus in part be + explained.</p> + +<p> Such instruments are not, however, entirely unknown in Europe. In + France, in the eighteenth century, it appears that rings, + sometimes set with hard knobs, and called "aides," were + occasionally used by men to heighten the pleasure of women in + intercourse. (Dühren, <i>Marquis de Sade</i>, 1901, p. 130.) In + Russia, according to Weissenberg, of Elizabethsgrad, it is not + uncommon to use elastic rings set with little teeth; these rings + are fastened around the base of the glans. (Weissenberg, + <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1893, ht. 2, p. 135.) This + instrument must have been brought to Russia from the East, for + Burton (in the notes to his <i>Arabian Nights</i>) mentions a + precisely similar instrument as in use in China. Somewhat similar + is the "Chinese hedgehog," a wreath of fine, soft feathers with + the quills solidly fastened by silver wire to a ring of the same + metal, which is slipped over the glans. In South America the + Araucanians of Argentina use a little horsehair brush fastened + around the penis; one of these is in the museum at La Plata; it + is said the custom may have been borrowed from the Patagonians; + these instruments, called <i>geskels</i>, are made by the women and + the workmanship is very delicate. (Lehmann-Nitsche, <i>Zeitschrift + für Ethnologie</i>, 1900, ht. 6, p. 491.) It is noteworthy that a + somewhat similar tuft of horsehair is also worn in Borneo. + (Breitenstein, <i>21 Jahre in India</i>, 1899, pt. i, p. 227.) Most of + the accounts state that the women attach great importance to the + gratification afforded by such instruments. In Borneo <a name='3_Page_100'></a>a modest + woman symbolically indicates to her lover the exact length of the + ampallang she would prefer by leaving at a particular spot a + cigarette of that length. Miklucho-Macleay considers that these + instruments were invented by women. Brooke Low remarks that "no + woman once habituated to its use will ever dream of permitting + her bedfellow to discontinue the practice of wearing it," and + Stevens states that at one time no woman would marry a man who + was not furnished with such an apparatus. It may be added that a + very similar appliance may be found in European countries + (especially Germany) in the use of a condom furnished with + irregularities, or a frill, in order to increase the woman's + excitement. It is not impossible to find evidence that, in + European countries, even in the absence of such instruments, the + craving which they gratify still exists in women. Thus, Mauriac + tells of a patient with vegetations on the glans who delayed + treatment because his mistress liked him so best (art. + "Végétations," <i>Dictionnaire de Médecine et Chirurgie pratique</i>).</p> + +<p> It may seem that such impulses and such devices to gratify them + are altogether unnatural. This is not so. They have a zoölogical + basis and in many animals are embodied in the anatomical + structure. Many rodents, ruminants, and some of the carnivora + show natural developments of the penis closely resembling some of + those artificially adopted by man. Thus the guinea-pigs possess + two horny styles attached to the penis, while the glans of the + penis is covered with sharp spines. Some of the Caviidæ also have + two sharp, horny saws at the side of the penis. The cat, the + rhinoceros, the tapir, and other animals possess projecting + structures on the penis, and some species of ruminants, such as + the sheep, the giraffe, and many antelopes, have, attached to the + penis, long filiform processes through which the urethra passes. + (F. H. A. Marshall, <i>The Physiology of Reproduction</i>, pp. 246-248.)</p> + +<p> We find, even in creatures so delicate and ethereal as the + butterflies, a whole armory of keen weapons for use in coitus. + These were described in detail in an elaborate and fully + illustrated memoir by P. H. Gosse ("On the Clasping Organs + Ancillary to Generation in Certain Groups of the Lepidoptera," + <i>Transactions of the Linnæan Society</i>, second series, vol. ii, + Zoölogy, 1882). These organs, which Gosse terms <i>harpes</i> (or + grappling irons), are found in the Papilionidæ and are very + beautiful and varied, taking the forms of projecting claws, + hooks, pikes, swords, knobs, and strange combinations of these, + commonly brought to a keen edge and then cut into sharp teeth.</p> + +<p> It is probable that all these structures serve to excite the + sexual apparatus of the female and to promote tumescence.</p> + +<p> To the careless observer there may seem to be something vicious + or perverted in such manifestations in man. That opinion becomes + <a name='3_Page_101'></a>very doubtful when we consider how these tendencies occur in + people living under natural conditions in widely separated parts + of the world. It becomes still further untenable if we are + justified in believing that the ancestors of men possessed + projecting epithelial appendages attached to the penis, and if we + accept the discovery by Friedenthal of the rudiment of these + appendages on the penis of the human fetus at an early stage + (Friedenthal, "Sonderformen der menschlichen Leibesbildung," + <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Feb., 1912, p. 129). In this case human + ingenuity would merely be seeking to supply an organ which nature + has ceased to furnish, although it is still in some cases needed, + especially among peoples whose aptitude for erethism has remained + at, or fallen to, a subhuman level. </p></div> + +<p>At first sight the connection between love and pain—the tendency of men +to delight in inflicting it and women in suffering it—seems strange and +inexplicable. It seems amazing that a tender and even independent woman +should maintain a passionate attachment to a man who subjects her to +physical and moral insults, and that a strong man, often intelligent, +reasonable, and even kind-hearted, should desire to subject to such +insults a woman whom he loves passionately and who has given him every +final proof of her own passion. In understanding such cases we have to +remember that it is only within limits that a woman really enjoys the +pain, discomfort, or subjection to which she submits. A little pain which +the man knows he can himself soothe, a little pain which the woman gladly +accepts as the sign and forerunner of pleasure—this degree of pain comes +within the normal limits of love and is rooted, as we have seen, in the +experience of the race. But when it is carried beyond these limits, though +it may still be tolerated because of the support it receives from its +biological basis, it is no longer enjoyed. The natural note has been too +violently struck, and the rhythm of love has ceased to be perfect. A woman +may desire to be forced, to be roughly forced, to be ravished away beyond +her own will. But all the time she only desires to be forced toward those +things which are essentially and profoundly agreeable to her. A man who +fails to realize this has made little progress in the art of love. "I like +being knocked about and made to do things I don't want to do," a <a name='3_Page_102'></a>woman +said, but she admitted, on being questioned, that she would not like to +have <i>much</i> pain inflicted, and that she might not care to be made to do +important things she did not want to do. The story of Griselda's unbounded +submissiveness can scarcely be said to be psychologically right, though it +has its artistic rightness as an elaborate fantasia on this theme +justified by its conclusion.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>This point is further illustrated by the following passage from a + letter written by a lady: "Submission to the man's will is still, + and always must be, the prelude to pleasure, and the association + of ideas will probably always produce this much misunderstood + instinct. Now, I find, indirectly from other women and directly + from my own experience, that, when the point in dispute is very + important and the man exerts his authority, the desire to get + one's own way completely obliterates the sexual feeling, while, + conversely, in small things the sexual feeling obliterates the + desire to have one's own way. Where the two are nearly equal a + conflict between them ensues, and I can stand aside and wonder + which will get the best of it, though I encourage the sexual + feeling when possible, as, if the other conquers, it leaves a + sense of great mental irritation and physical discomfort. A man + should command in small things, as in nine cases out of ten this + will produce excitement. He should <i>advise</i> in large matters, or + he may find either that he is unable to enforce his orders or + that he produces a feeling of dislike and annoyance he was far + from intending. Women imagine men must be stronger than + themselves to excite their passion. I disagree. A passionate man + has the best chance, for in him the primitive instincts are + strong. The wish to subdue the female is one of them, and in + small things he will exert his authority to make her feel his + power, while she knows that on a question of real importance she + has a good chance of getting her own way by working on his + greater susceptibility. Perhaps an illustration will show what I + mean. I was listening to the band and a girl and her <i>fiancé</i> + came up to occupy two seats near me. The girl sank into one seat, + but for some reason the man wished her to take the other. She + refused. He repeated his order twice, the second time so + peremptorily that she changed places, and I heard him say: 'I + don't think you heard what I said. I don't expect to give an + order three times.'</p> + +<p> "This little scene interested me, and I afterward asked the girl + the following questions:—</p> + +<p> "'Had you any reason for taking one chair more than the other?'</p> + +<p> "'No.'</p><a name='3_Page_103'></a> + +<p> "'Did Mr. ——'s insistence on your changing give you any + pleasure?'</p> + +<p> "'Yes' (after a little hesitation).</p> + +<p> "'Why?'</p> + +<p> "'I don't know.'</p> + +<p> "'Would it have done so if you had particularly wished to sit in + that chair; if, for instance, you had had a boil on your cheek + and wished to turn that side away from him?'</p> + +<p> "'No; certainly not. The worry of thinking he was looking at it + would have made me too cross to feel pleased.'</p> + +<p> "Does this explain what I mean? The occasion, by the way, need + not be really important, but, as in this imaginary case of the + boil, if it <i>seems important</i> to the woman, irritation will + outweigh the physical sensation." </p></div> + +<p>I am well aware that in thus asserting a certain tendency in women to +delight in suffering pain—however careful and qualified the position I +have taken—many estimable people will cry out that I am degrading a whole +sex and generally supporting the "subjection of women." But the day for +academic discussion concerning the "subjection of women" has gone by. The +tendency I have sought to make clear is too well established by the +experience of normal and typical women—however numerous the exceptions +may be—to be called in question. I would point out to those who would +deprecate the influence of such facts in relation to social progress that +nothing is gained by regarding women as simply men of smaller growth. They +are not so; they have the laws of their own nature; their development must +be along their own lines, and not along masculine lines. It is as true now +as in Bacon's day that we only learn to command nature by obeying her. To +ignore facts is to court disappointment in our measure of progress. The +particular fact with which we have here come in contact is very vital and +radical, and most subtle in its influence. It is foolish to ignore it; we +must allow for its existence. We can neither attain a sane view of life +nor a sane social legislation of life unless we possess a just and +accurate knowledge of the fundamental instincts upon which life is built.</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='3_Footnote_61'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_61'>[61]</a><div class='note'><p> Various mammals, carried away by the reckless fury of the +sexual impulse, are apt to ill-treat their females (R. Müller, +<i>Sexualbiologie</i>, p. 123). This treatment is, however, usually only an +incident of courtship, the result of excess of ardor. "The chaffinches and +saffron-finches (<i>Fringella</i> and <i>Sycalis</i>) are very rough wooers," says +A. G. Butler (<i>Zoölogist</i>, 1902, p. 241); "they sing vociferously, and +chase their hens violently, knocking them over in their flight, pursuing +and savagely pecking them even on the ground; but when once the hens +become submissive, the males change their tactics, and become for the time +model husbands, feeding their wives from their crop, and assisting in +rearing the young."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_62'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_62'>[62]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Cf.</i> A. C. Haddon, <i>Head Hunters</i>, p. 107.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_63'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_63'>[63]</a><div class='note'><p> Marro considers that there may be transference of +emotion,—the impulse of violence generated in the male by his rivals +being turned against his partner,—according to a tendency noted by Sully +and illustrated by Ribot in his <i>Psychology of the Emotions</i>, part i, +chapter xii.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_64'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_64'>[64]</a><div class='note'><p> Several writers have found in the facts of primitive animal +courtship the explanation of the connection between love and pain. Thus, +Krafft-Ebing (<i>Psychopathia Sexualis</i>, English translation of tenth German +edition, p. 80) briefly notes that outbreaks of sadism are possibly +atavistic. Marro (<i>La Pubertà</i>, 1898, p. 219 <i>et seq.</i>) has some +suggestive pages on this subject. It would appear that this explanation +was vaguely outlined by Jäger. Laserre, in a Bordeaux thesis mentioned by +Féré, has argued in the same sense. Féré (<i>L'Instinct Sexuel</i>, p. 134), on +grounds that are scarcely sufficient, regards this explanation as merely a +superficial analogy. But it is certainly not a complete explanation.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_65'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_65'>[65]</a><div class='note'><p> Schäfer (<i>Jahrbücher für Psychologie</i>, Bd. ii, p. 128, and +quoted by Krafft-Ebing in <i>Psychopathia Sexualis</i>), in connection with a +case in which sexual excitement was produced by the sight of battles or of +paintings of them, remarks: "The pleasure of battle and murder is so +predominantly an attribute of the male sex throughout the animal kingdom +that there can be no question about the close connection between this side +of the masculine character and male sexuality. I believe that I can show +by observation that in men who are absolutely normal, mentally and +physically, the first indefinite and incomprehensible precursors of sexual +excitement may be induced by reading exciting scenes of chase and war. +These give rise to unconscious longings for a kind of satisfaction in +warlike games (wrestling, etc.) which express the fundamental sexual +impulse to close and complete contact with a companion, with a secondary +more or less clearly defined thought of conquest." Groos (<i>Spiele der +Menschen</i>, 1899, p. 232) also thinks there is more or less truth in this +suggestion of a subconscious sexual element in the playful wrestling +combats of boys. Freud considers (<i>Drei Abhandlungen zur Sexualtheorie</i>, +p. 49) that the tendency to sexual excitement through muscular activity in +wrestling, etc., is one of the roots of sadism. I have been told of normal +men who feel a conscious pleasure of this kind when lifted in games, as +may happen, for instance, in football. It may be added that in some parts +of the world the suitor has to throw the girl in a wrestling-bout in order +to secure her hand.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_66'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_66'>[66]</a><div class='note'><p> A minor manifestation of this tendency, appearing even in +quite normal and well-conditioned individuals, is the impulse among boys +at and after puberty to take pleasure in persecuting and hurting lower +animals or their own young companions. Some youths display a diabolical +enjoyment and ingenuity in torturing sensitive juniors, and even a boy who +is otherwise kindly and considerate may find enjoyment in deliberately +mutilating a frog. In some cases, in boys and youths who have no true +sadistic impulse and are not usually cruel, this infliction of torture on +a lower animal produces an erection, though not necessarily any pleasant +sexual sensations.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_67'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_67'>[67]</a><div class='note'><p> Marro, <i>La Pubertà</i>, 1898, p. 223; Garnier, "La Criminalité +Juvenile," <i>Comptes-rendus Congrès Internationale d'Anthropologie +Criminelle</i>, Amsterdam, 1901, p. 296; <i>Archivio di Psichiatria</i>, 1899, +fasc. v-vi, p. 572.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_68'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_68'>[68]</a><div class='note'><p> Bk. ii, ch. ii.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_69'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_69'>[69]</a><div class='note'><p> Herbert Spencer, <i>Principles of Sociology</i>, 1876, vol. i, p. +651.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_70'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_70'>[70]</a><div class='note'><p> Westermarck, <i>Human Marriage</i>, p. 388. Grosse is of the same +opinion; he considers also that the mock-capture is often an imitation, +due to admiration, of real capture; he does not believe that the latter +has ever been a form of marriage recognized by custom and law, but only +"an occasional and punishable act of violence." (<i>Die Formen der Familie</i>, +pp. 105-7.) This position is too extreme.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_71'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_71'>[71]</a><div class='note'><p> Ernest Crawley, <i>The Mystic Rose</i>, 1902, p. 350 <i>et seq.</i> +Van Gennep rightly remarks that we cannot correctly say that the woman is +abducted from "her sex," but only from her "sexual society."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_72'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_72'>[72]</a><div class='note'><p> A. Van Gennep (<i>Rites de Passage</i>, 1909, pp. 175-186) has +put forward a third theory, though also of a psychological character, +according to which the "capture" is a rite indicating the separation of +the young girl from the special societies of her childhood. Gennep regards +this rite as one of a vast group of "rites of passage," which come into +action whenever a person changes his social or natural environment.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_73'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_73'>[73]</a><div class='note'><p> Féré (<i>L'Instinct Sexuel</i>, p. 133) appears to regard the +satisfaction, based on the sentiment of personal power, which may be +experienced in the suffering and subjection of a victim as an adequate +explanation of the association of pain with love. This I can scarcely +admit. It is a factor in the emotional attitude, but when it only exists +in the sexual sphere it is reasonable to base this attitude largely on the +still more fundamental biological attitude of the male toward the female +in the process of courtship. Féré regards this biological element as +merely a superficial analogy, on the ground that an act of cruelty may +become an equivalent of coitus. But a sexual perversion is quite commonly +constituted by the selection and magnification of a single moment in the +normal sexual process.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_74'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_74'>[74]</a><div class='note'><p> The process may, however, be quite conscious. Thus, a +correspondent tells me that he not only finds sexual pleasure in cruelty +toward the woman he loves, but that he regards this as an essential +element. He is convinced that it gives the woman pleasure, and that it is +possible to distinguish by gesture, inflection of voice, etc., an +hysterical, assumed, or imagined feeling of pain from real pain. He would +not wish to give real pain, and would regard that as sadism.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_75'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_75'>[75]</a><div class='note'><p> De Sade had already made the same remark, while Duchenne, of +Boulogne, pointed out that the facial expressions of sexual passion and of +cruelty are similar.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_76'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_76'>[76]</a><div class='note'><p> Κρυπτάδια, vol. vi, p. 208.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_77'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_77'>[77]</a><div class='note'><p> Daumas, <i>Chevaux de Sahara</i>, p. 49.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_78'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_78'>[78]</a><div class='note'><p> See in vol. iv of these <i>Studies</i> ("Sexual Selection in +Man"), Appendix A, on "The Origins of the Kiss."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_79'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_79'>[79]</a><div class='note'><p> De Stendhal (<i>De l'Amour</i>) mentions that when in London he +was on terms of friendship with an English actress who was the mistress of +a wealthy colonel, but privately had another lover. One day the colonel +arrived when the other man was present. "This gentleman has called about +the pony I want to sell," said the actress. "I have come for a very +different purpose," said the little man, and thus aroused a love which was +beginning to languish.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_80'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_80'>[80]</a><div class='note'><p> See Havelock Ellis, <i>Man and Woman</i>, chapter vi, "The +Senses."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_81'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_81'>[81]</a><div class='note'><p> This liability is emphasized by Adler, <i>Die Mangelhafte +Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes</i>, p. 125.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_82'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_82'>[82]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, Bd. viii, 1876, pp. 22-28.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_L_II'></a><h3><a name='3_Page_104'></a>II.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Definition of Sadism—De Sade—Masochism to some Extent +Normal—Sacher-Masoch—No Real Line of Demarcation between Sadism and +Masochism—Algolagnia includes both Groups of Manifestations—The +Love-bite as a Bridge from Normal Phenomena to Algolagnia—The Fascination +of Blood—The Most Extreme Perversions are Linked on to Normal Phenomena.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>We thus see that there are here two separate groups of feelings: one, in +the masculine line, which delights in displaying force and often inflicts +pain or the simulacrum of pain; the other, in the feminine line, which +delights in submitting to that force, and even finds pleasure in a slight +amount of pain, or the idea of pain, when associated with the experiences +of love. We see, also, that these two groups of feelings are +complementary. Within the limits consistent with normal and healthy life, +what men are impelled to give women love to receive. So that we need not +unduly deprecate the "cruelty" of men within these limits, nor unduly +commiserate the women who are subjected to it.</p> + +<p>Such a conclusion, however, as we have also seen, only holds good within +those normal limits which an attempt has here been made to determine. The +phenomena we have been considering are strictly normal phenomena, having +their basis in the conditions of tumescence and detumescence in animal and +primitive human courtship. At one point, however, when discussing the +phenomena of the love-bite, I referred to the facts which indicate how +this purely normal manifestation yet insensibly passes over into the +region of the morbid. It is an instance that enables us to realize how +even the most terrible and repugnant sexual perversions are still +demonstrably linked on to phenomena that are fundamentally normal. The +love-bite may be said to give us the key to that perverse impulse which +has been commonly called sadism.</p><a name='3_Page_105'></a> + +<p>There is some difference of opinion as to how "sadism" may be best +defined. Perhaps the simplest and most usual definition is that of +Krafft-Ebing, as sexual emotion associated with the wish to inflict pain +and use violence, or, as he elsewhere expresses it, "the impulse to cruel +and violent treatment of the opposite sex, and the coloring of the idea of +such acts with lustful feeling."<a name='3_FNanchor_83'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_83'><sup>[83]</sup></a> A more complete definition is that of +Moll, who describes sadism as a condition in which "the sexual impulse +consists in the tendency to strike, ill-use, and humiliate the beloved +person."<a name='3_FNanchor_84'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_84'><sup>[84]</sup></a> This definition has the advantage of bringing in the element +of moral pain. A further extension is made in Féré's definition as "the +need of association of violence and cruelty with sexual enjoyment, such +violence or cruelty not being necessarily exerted by the person himself +who seeks sexual pleasure in this association."<a name='3_FNanchor_85'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_85'><sup>[85]</sup></a> Garnier's definition, +while comprising all these points, further allows for the fact that a +certain degree of sadism may be regarded as normal. "Pathological sadism," +he states, "is an impulsive and obsessing sexual perversion characterized +by a close connection between suffering inflicted or mentally represented +and the sexual orgasm, without this necessary and sufficing condition +frigidity usually remaining absolute."<a name='3_FNanchor_86'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_86'><sup>[86]</sup></a> It must be added that these +definitions are very incomplete if by "sadism" we are to understand the +special sexual perversions which are displayed in De Sade's novels. Iwan +Bloch ("Eugen Dühren"), in the course of his book on De Sade, has +attempted a definition strictly on this basis, and, as will be seen, it is +necessary to make it very elaborate: "A connection, whether intentionally +sought or offered by chance, of sexual excitement and sexual enjoyment +with the real or only symbolic (ideal, illusionary) appearance of +<a name='3_Page_106'></a>frightful and shocking events, destructive occurrences and practices, +which threaten or destroy the life, health, and property of man and other +living creatures, and threaten and interrupt the continuity of inanimate +objects, whereby the person who from such occurrences obtains sexual +enjoyment may either himself be the direct cause, or cause them to take +place by means of other persons, or merely be the spectator, or, finally, +be, voluntarily or involuntarily, the object against which these processes +are directed."<a name='3_FNanchor_87'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_87'><sup>[87]</sup></a> This definition of sadism as found in De Sade's works +is thus, more especially by its final clause, a very much wider conception +than the usual definition.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Donatien Alphonse François, Marquis De Sade, was born in 1740 at + Paris in the house of the great Condé. He belonged to a very + noble, ancient, and distinguished Provençal family; Petrarch's + Laura, who married a De Sade, was one of his ancestors, and the + family had cultivated both arms and letters with success. He was, + according to Lacroix, "an adorable youth whose delicately pale + and dusky face, lighted up by two large black [according to + another account blue] eyes, already bore the languorous imprint + of the vice which was to corrupt his whole being"; his voice was + "drawling and caressing"; his gait had "a softly feminine grace." + Unfortunately there is no authentic portrait of him. His early + life is sketched in letter iv of his <i>Aline et Valcourt</i>. On + leaving the Collège-Louis-le-Grand he became a cavalry officer + and went through the Seven Years' War in Germany. There can be + little doubt that the experiences of his military life, working + on a femininely vicious temperament, had much to do with the + development of his perversion. He appears to have got into + numerous scrapes, of which the details are unknown, and his + father sought to marry him to the daughter of an aristocratic + friend of his own, a noble and amiable girl of 20. It so chanced + that when young De Sade first went to the house of his future + wife only her younger sister, a girl of 13, was at home; with her + he at once fell in love and his love was reciprocated; they were + both musical enthusiasts, and she had a beautiful voice. The + parents insisted on carrying out the original scheme of marriage. + De Sade's wife loved him, and, in spite of everything, served his + interests with Griselda-like devotion; she was, Ginisty remarks, + a saint, a saint of conjugal life; but her love was from the + first only requited with repulsion, contempt, and suspicion. + There were, however, children of the <a name='3_Page_107'></a>marriage; the career of the + eldest—an estimable young man who went into the army and also + had artistic ability, but otherwise had no community of tastes + with his father—has been sketched by Paul Ginisty, who has also + edited the letters of the Marquise. De Sade's passion for the + younger sister continued (he idealized her as Juliette), though + she was placed in a convent beyond his reach, and at a much later + period he eloped with her and spent perhaps the happiest period + of his life, soon terminated by her death. It is evident that + this unhappy marriage was decisive in determining De Sade's + career; he at once threw himself recklessly into every form of + dissipation, spending his health and his substance sometimes + among refinedly debauched nobles and sometimes among coarsely + debauched lackeys. He was, however, always something of an + artist, something of a student, something of a philosopher, and + at an early period he began to write, apparently at the age of + 23. It was at this age, and only a few months after his marriage, + that on account of some excess he was for a time confined in + Vincennes. He was destined to spend 27 years of his life in + prisons, if we include the 13 years which in old age he passed in + the asylum at Charenton. His actual offenses were by no means so + terrible as those he loved to dwell on in imagination, and for + the most part they have been greatly exaggerated. His most + extreme offenses were the indecent and forcible flagellation in + 1768 of a young woman, Rosa Keller, who had accosted him in the + street for alms, and whom he induced by false pretenses to come + to his house, and the administration of aphrodisiacal bonbons to + some prostitutes at Marseilles. It is owing to the fact that the + prime of his manhood was spent in prisons that De Sade fell back + on dreaming, study, and novel-writing. Shut out from real life, + he solaced his imagination with the perverted visions—to a very + large extent, however, founded on knowledge of the real facts of + perverted life in his time—which he has recorded in <i>Justine</i> + (1781); <i>Les 120 Journées de Sodome ou l'Ecole du Libertinage</i> + (1785); <i>Aline et Valcour ou le Roman Philosophique</i> (1788); + <i>Juliette</i> (1796); <i>La Philosophie dans le Boudoir</i> (1795). These + books constitute a sort of encyclopedia of sexual perversions, an + eighteenth century <i>Psychopathia Sexualis</i>, and embody, at the + same time, a philosophy. He was the first, Bloch remarks, who + realized the immense importance of the sexual question. His + general attitude may be illustrated by the following passage (as + quoted by Lacassagne): "If there are beings in the world whose + acts shock all accepted prejudices, we must not preach at them or + punish them ... because their bizarre tastes no more depend upon + themselves than it depends on you whether you are witty or + stupid, well made or hump-backed.... What would become of your + laws, your morality, your religion, your gallows, your Paradise, + your gods, <a name='3_Page_108'></a>your hell, if it were shown that such and such + fluids, such fibers, or a certain acridity in the blood, or in + the animal spirits, alone suffice to make a man the object of + your punishments or your rewards?" He was enormously well read, + Bloch points out, and his interest extended to every field of + literature: <i>belles lettres</i>, philosophy, theology, politics, + sociology, ethnology, mythology, and history. Perhaps his + favorite reading was travels. He was minutely familiar with the + bible, though his attitude was extremely critical. His favorite + philosopher was Lamettrie, whom he very frequently quotes, and he + had carefully studied Machiavelli.</p> + +<p> De Sade had foreseen the Revolution; he was an ardent admirer of + Marat, and at this period he entered into public life as a mild, + gentle, rather bald and gray-haired person. Many scenes of the + Revolution were the embodiment in real life of De Sade's + imagination; such, for instance, were the barbaric tortures + inflicted, at the instigation of Théroigne de Méricourt, on La + Belle Bouquetière. Yet De Sade played a very peaceful part in the + events of that time, chiefly as a philanthropist, spending much + of his time in the hospitals. He saved his parents-in-law from + the scaffold, although they had always been hostile to him, and + by his moderation aroused the suspicions of the revolutionary + party, and was again imprisoned. Later he wrote a pamphlet + against Napoleon, who never forgave him and had him shut up in + Charenton as a lunatic; it was a not unusual method at that time + of disposing of persons whom it was wished to put out of the way, + and, notwithstanding De Sade's organically abnormal temperament, + there is no reason to regard him as actually insane. + Royer-Collard, an eminent alienist of that period, then at the + head of Charenton, declared De Sade to be sane, and his detailed + report is still extant. Other specialists were of the same + opinion. Bloch, who quotes these opinions (<i>Neue Forschungen</i>, + etc., p. 370), says that the only possible conclusion is that De + Sade was sane, but neurasthenic, and Eulenburg also concludes + that he cannot be regarded as insane, although he was highly + degenerate. In the asylum he amused himself by organizing a + theater. Lacroix, many years later, questioning old people who + had known him, was surprised to find that even in the memory of + most virtuous and respectable persons he lived merely as an + "<i>aimable mauvais sujet</i>." It is noteworthy that De Sade aroused, + in a singular degree, the love and devotion of women,—whether or + not we may regard this as evidence of the fascination exerted on + women by cruelty. Janin remarks that he had seen many pretty + little letters written by young and charming women of the great + world, begging for the release of the "<i>pauvre marquis</i>."</p> + +<p> Sardou, the dramatist, has stated that in 1855 he visited the + Bicêtre and met an old gardener who had known De Sade during his + <a name='3_Page_109'></a>reclusion there. He told that one of the marquis's amusements + was to procure baskets of the most beautiful and expensive roses; + he would then sit on a footstool by a dirty streamlet which ran + through the courtyard, and would take the roses, one by one, gaze + at them, smell them with a voluptuous expression, soak them in + the muddy water, and fling them away, laughing as he did so. He + died on the 2d of December, 1814, at the age of 74. He was almost + blind, and had long been a martyr to gout, asthma, and an + affection of the stomach. It was his wish that acorns should be + planted over his grave and his memory effaced. At a later period + his skull was examined by a phrenologist, who found it small and + well formed; "one would take it at first for a woman's head." The + skull belonged to Dr. Londe, but about the middle of the century + it was stolen by a doctor who conveyed it to England, where it + may possibly yet be found. [The foregoing account is mainly + founded on Paul Lacroix, <i>Revue de Paris</i>, 1837, and <i>Curiosités + de l'Histoire de France</i>, second series, <i>Procès Célèbres</i>, p. + 225; Janin, <i>Revue de Paris</i>, 1834; Eugen Dühren (Iwan Bloch), + <i>Der Marquis de Sade und Seine Zeit</i>, third edition, 1901; <i>id.</i>, + <i>Neue Forschungen über den Marquis de Sade und Seine Zeit</i>, 1904; + Lacassagne, <i>Vacher l'Eventreur et les Crimes Sadiques</i>, 1899; + Paul Ginisty, <i>La Marquise de Sade</i>, 1901.] </p></div> + +<p>The attempt to define sadism strictly and penetrate to its roots in De +Sade's personal temperament reveals a certain weakness in the current +conception of this sexual perversion. It is not, as we might infer, both +from the definition usually given and from its probable biological +heredity from primitive times, a perversion due to excessive masculinity. +The strong man is more apt to be tender than cruel, or at all events knows +how to restrain within bounds any impulse to cruelty; the most extreme and +elaborate forms of sadism (putting aside such as are associated with a +considerable degree of imbecility) are more apt to be allied with a +somewhat feminine organization. Montaigne, indeed, observed long ago that +cruelty is usually accompanied by feminine softness.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In the same way it is a mistake to suppose that the very feminine + woman is not capable of sadistic tendencies. Even if we take into + account the primitive animal conditions of combat, the male must + suffer as well as inflict pain, and the female must not only + experience subjection to the male, but also share in the emotions + of her partner's victory over his rivals. As bearing on these + points, I may quote the following <a name='3_Page_110'></a>remarks written by a lady: "It + is said that, the weaker and more feminine a woman is, the + greater the subjection she likes. I don't think it has anything + at all to do with the general character, but depends entirely on + whether the feeling of constraint and helplessness affects her + sexually. In men I have several times noticed that those who were + most desirous of subjection to the women they loved had, in + ordinary life, very strong and determined characters. I know of + others, too, who with very weak characters are very imperious + toward the women they care for. Among women I have often been + surprised to see how a strong, determined woman will give way to + a man she loves, and how tenacious of her own will may be some + fragile, clinging creature who in daily life seems quite unable + to act on her own responsibility. A certain amount of passivity, + a desire to have their emotions worked on, seems to me, so far as + my small experience goes, very common among ordinary, presumably + normal men. A good deal of stress is laid on femininity as an + attraction in a woman, and this may be so to very strong natures, + but, so far as I have seen, the women who obtain extraordinary + empire over men are those with a certain <i>virility</i> in their + character and passions. If with this virility they combine a + fragility or childishness of appearance which appeals to a man in + another way at the same time, they appear to be irresistible."</p> + +<p> I have noted some of the feminine traits in De Sade's temperament + and appearance. The same may often be noted in sadists whose + crimes were very much more serious and brutal than those of De + Sade. A man who stabbed women in the streets at St. Louis was a + waiter with a high-pitched, effeminate voice and boyish + appearance. Reidel, the sadistic murderer, was timid, modest, and + delicate; he was too shy to urinate in the presence of other + people. A sadistic zoöphilist, described by A. Marie, who + attempted to strangle a woman fellow-worker, had always been very + timid, blushed with much facility, could not look even children + in the eyes, or urinate in the presence of another person, or + make sexual advances to women.</p> + +<p> Kiernan and Moyer are inclined to connect the modesty and + timidity of sadists with a disgust for normal coitus. They were + called upon to examine an inverted married woman who had + inflicted several hundred wounds, mostly superficial, with forks, + scissors, etc., on the genital organs and other parts of a girl + whom she had adopted from a "Home." This woman was very prominent + in church and social matters in the city in which she lived, so + that many clergymen and local persons of importance testified to + her chaste, modest, and even prudish character; she was found to + be sane at the time of the acts. (Moyer, <i>Alienist and + Neurologist</i>, May, 1907, and private letter from Dr. Kiernan.) </p></div><a name='3_Page_111'></a> + +<p>We are thus led to another sexual perversion, which is usually considered +the opposite of sadism. Masochism is commonly regarded as a peculiarly +feminine sexual perversion, in women, indeed, as normal in some degree, +and in man as a sort of inversion of the normal masculine emotional +attitude, but this view of the matter is not altogether justified, for +definite and pronounced masochism seems to be much rarer in women than +sadism.<a name='3_FNanchor_88'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_88'><sup>[88]</sup></a> Krafft-Ebing, whose treatment of this phenomenon is, perhaps, +his most valuable and original contribution to sexual psychology, has +dealt very fully with the matter and brought forward many cases. He thus +defines this perversion: "By masochism I understand a peculiar perversion +of the psychical <i>vita sexualis</i> in which the individual affected, in +sexual feeling and thought, is controlled by the idea of being completely +and unconditionally subject to the will of a person of the opposite sex, +of being treated by this person as by a master, humiliated and abused. +This idea is colored by sexual feeling; the masochist lives in fancies in +which he creates situations of this kind, and he often attempts to realize +them."<a name='3_FNanchor_89'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_89'><sup>[89]</sup></a></p> + +<p>In a minor degree, not amounting to a complete perversion of the sexual +instinct, this sentiment of abnegation, the desire to be even physically +subjected to the adored woman, cannot be regarded as abnormal. More than +two centuries before Krafft-Ebing appeared, Robert Burton, who was no mean +psychologist, dilated on the fact that love is a kind of slavery. "They +are commonly slaves," he wrote of lovers, "captives, voluntary servants; +<i>amator amicæ mancipium</i>, as Castilio terms him; his mistress's servant, +her drudge, prisoner, bondman, what not?"<a name='3_FNanchor_90'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_90'><sup>[90]</sup></a> Before Burton's time the +legend of the erotic servitude of Aristotle was widely spread in Europe, +and pictures exist of the <a name='3_Page_112'></a>venerable philosopher on all fours ridden by a +woman with a whip.<a name='3_FNanchor_91'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_91'><sup>[91]</sup></a> In classic times various masochistic phenomena are +noted with approval by Ovid. It has been pointed out by Moll<a name='3_FNanchor_92'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_92'><sup>[92]</sup></a> that +there are traces of masochistic feeling in some of Goethe's poems, +especially "Lilis Park" and "Erwin und Elmire." Similar traces have been +found in the poems of Heine, Platen, Hamerling, and many other poets.<a name='3_FNanchor_93'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_93'><sup>[93]</sup></a> +The poetry of the people is also said to contain many such traces. It may, +indeed, be said that passion in its more lyric exaltations almost +necessarily involves some resort to masochistic expression. A popular lady +novelist in a novel written many years ago represents her hero, a robust +soldier, imploring the lady of his love, in a moment of passionate +exaltation, to trample on him, certainly without any wish to suggest +sexual perversion. If it is true that the Antonio of Otway's <i>Venice +Preserved</i> is a caricature of Shaftesbury, then it would appear that one +of the greatest of English statesmen was supposed to exhibit very +pronounced and characteristic masochistic tendencies; and in more recent +days masochistic expressions have been noted as occurring in the +love-letters of so emphatically virile a statesman as Bismarck.</p> + +<p>Thus a minor degree of the masochistic tendency may be said to be fairly +common, while its more pronounced manifestations are more common than +pronounced sadism.<a name='3_FNanchor_94'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_94'><sup>[94]</sup></a> It very frequently affects persons of a sensitive, +refined, and artistic temperament. It may even be said that this tendency +is in the line of civilization. Krafft-Ebing points out that some of the +most delicate and romantic love-episodes of the Middle Ages are distinctly +colored by masochistic emotion.<a name='3_FNanchor_95'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_95'><sup>[95]</sup></a> The increasing <a name='3_Page_113'></a>tendency to masochism +with increasing civilization becomes explicable if we accept Colin Scott's +"secondary law of courting" as accessory to the primary law that the male +is active, and the female passive and imaginatively attentive to the +states of the excited male. According to the secondary law, "the female +develops a superadded activity, the male becoming relatively passive and +imaginatively attentive to the psychical and bodily states of the +female."<a name='3_FNanchor_96'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_96'><sup>[96]</sup></a> We may probably agree that this "secondary law of courting" +does really represent a tendency of love in individuals of complex and +sensitive nature, and the outcome of such a receptive attitude on the part +of the male is undoubtedly in well-marked cases a desire of submission to +the female's will, and a craving to experience in some physical or psychic +form, not necessarily painful, the manifestations of her activity.</p> + +<p>When we turn from vague and unpronounced forms of the masochistic tendency +to the more definite forms in which it becomes an unquestionable sexual +perversion, we find a very eminent and fairly typical example in Rousseau, +an example all the more interesting because here the subject has himself +portrayed his perversion in his famous <i>Confessions</i>. It is, however, the +name of a less eminent author, the Austrian novelist, Sacher-Masoch, which +has become identified with the perversion through the fact that +Krafft-Ebing fixed upon it as furnishing a convenient counterpart to the +term "sadism." It is on the strength of a considerable number of his +novels and stories, more especially of <i>Die Venus im Pelz</i>, that +Krafft-Ebing took the scarcely warrantable liberty of identifying his +name, while yet living, with a sexual perversion. </p><a name='3_Page_114'></a> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Sacher-Masoch's biography has been written with intimate + knowledge and much candor by C. F. von Schlichtegroll + (<i>Sacher-Masoch und der Masochismus</i>, 1901) and, more indirectly, + by his first wife Wanda von Sacher-Masoch in her autobiography + (<i>Meine Lebensbeichte</i>, 1906; French translation, <i>Confession de + ma Vie</i>, 1907). Schlichtegroll's book is written with a somewhat + undue attempt to exalt his hero and to attribute his misfortunes + to his first wife. The autobiography of the latter, however, + enables us to form a more complete picture of Sacher-Masoch's + life, for, while his wife by no means spares herself, she clearly + shows that Sacher-Masoch was the victim of his own abnormal + temperament, and she presents both the sensitive, refined, + exalted, and generous aspects of his nature, and his morbid, + imaginative, vain aspects.</p> + +<p> Leopold von Sacher-Masoch was born in 1836 at Lemberg in Galicia. + He was of Spanish, German, and more especially Slavonic race. The + founder of the family may be said to be a certain Don Matthias + Sacher, a young Spanish nobleman, in the sixteenth century, who + settled in Prague. The novelist's father was director of police + in Lemberg and married Charlotte von Masoch, a Little Russian + lady of noble birth. The novelist, the eldest child of this + union, was not born until after nine years of marriage, and in + infancy was so delicate that he was not expected to survive. He + began to improve, however, when his mother gave him to be suckled + to a robust Russian peasant woman, from whom, as he said later, + he gained not only health, but "his soul"; from her he learned + all the strange and melancholy legends of her people and a love + of the Little Russians which never left him. While still a child + young Sacher-Masoch was in the midst of the bloody scenes of the + revolution which culminated in 1848. When he was 12 the family + migrated to Prague, and the boy, though precocious in his + development, then first learned the German language, of which he + attained so fine a mastery. At a very early age he had found the + atmosphere, and even some of the most characteristic elements, of + the peculiar types which mark his work as a novelist.</p> + +<p> It is interesting to trace the germinal elements of those + peculiarities which so strongly affected his imagination on the + sexual side. As a child, he was greatly attracted by + representations of cruelty; he loved to gaze at pictures of + executions, the legends of martyrs were his favorite reading, and + with the onset of puberty he regularly dreamed that he was + fettered and in the power of a cruel woman who tortured him. It + has been said by an anonymous author that the women of Galicia + either rule their husbands entirely and make them their slaves or + themselves sink to be the wretchedest of slaves. At the age of + 10, according to Schlichtegroll's narrative, the child Leopold + witnessed a scene in which a woman of the former kind, a certain + Countess Xenobia<a name='3_Page_115'></a> X., a relative of his own on the paternal side, + played the chief part, and this scene left an undying impress on + his imagination. The Countess was a beautiful but wanton + creature, and the child adored her, impressed alike by her beauty + and the costly furs she wore. She accepted his devotion and + little services and would sometimes allow him to assist her in + dressing; on one occasion, as he was kneeling before her to put + on her ermine slippers, he kissed her feet; she smiled and gave + him a kick which filled him with pleasure. Not long afterward + occurred the episode which so profoundly affected his + imagination. He was playing with his sisters at hide-and-seek and + had carefully hidden himself behind the dresses on a clothes-rail + in the Countess's bedroom. At this moment the Countess suddenly + entered the house and ascended the stairs, followed by a lover, + and the child, who dared not betray his presence, saw the + countess sink down on a sofa and begin to caress her lover. But a + few moments later the husband, accompanied by two friends, dashed + into the room. Before, however, he could decide which of the + lovers to turn against the Countess had risen and struck him so + powerful a blow in the face with her fist that he fell back + streaming with blood. She then seized a whip, drove all three men + out of the room, and in the confusion the lover slipped away. At + this moment the clothes-rail fell and the child, the involuntary + witness of the scene, was revealed to the Countess, who now fell + on him in anger, threw him to the ground, pressed her knee on his + shoulder, and struck him unmercifully. The pain was great, and + yet he was conscious of a strange pleasure. While this + castigation was proceeding the Count returned, no longer in a + rage, but meek and humble as a slave, and kneeled down before her + to beg forgiveness. As the boy escaped he saw her kick her + husband. The child could not resist the temptation to return to + the spot; the door was closed and he could see nothing, but he + heard the sound of the whip and the groans of the Count beneath + his wife's blows.</p> + +<p> It is unnecessary to insist that in this scene, acting on a + highly sensitive and somewhat peculiar child, we have the key to + the emotional attitude which affected so much of Sacher-Masoch's + work. As his biographer remarks, woman became to him, during a + considerable part of his life, a creature at once to be loved and + hated, a being whose beauty and brutality enabled her to set her + foot at will on the necks of men, and in the heroine of his first + important novel, the <i>Emissär</i>, dealing with the Polish + Revolution, he embodied the contradictory personality of Countess + Xenobia. Even the whip and the fur garments, Sacher-Masoch's + favorite emotional symbols, find their explanation in this early + episode. He was accustomed to say of an attractive woman: "I + should like to see her in furs," and, of an unattractive woman: + "I could not imagine her in furs." His writing-paper at one time + was <a name='3_Page_116'></a>adorned with the figure of a woman in Russian Boyar costume, + her cloak lined with ermine, and brandishing a scourge. On his + walls he liked to have pictures of women in furs, of the kind of + which there is so magnificent an example by Rubens in the gallery + at Munich. He would even keep a woman's fur cloak on an ottoman + in his study and stroke it from time to time, finding that his + brain thus received the same kind of stimulation as Schiller + found in the odor of rotten apples.<a name='3_FNanchor_97'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_97'><sup>[97]</sup></a></p> + +<p> At the age of 13, in the revolution of 1848, young Sacher-Masoch + received his baptism of fire; carried away in the popular + movement, he helped to defend the barricades together with a + young lady, a relative of his family, an amazon with a pistol in + her girdle, such as later he loved to depict. This episode was, + however, but a brief interruption of his education; he pursued + his studies with brilliance, and on the higher side his education + was aided by his father's esthetic tastes. Amateur theatricals + were in special favor at his home, and here even the serious + plays of Goethe and Gogol were performed, thus helping to train + and direct the boy's taste. It is, perhaps, however, significant + that it was a tragic event which, at the age of 16, first brought + to him the full realization of life and the consciousness of his + own power. This was the sudden death of his favorite sister. He + became serious and quiet, and always regarded this grief as a + turning-point in his life.</p> + +<p> At the Universities of Prague and Graz he studied with such zeal + that when only 19 he took his doctor's degree in law and shortly + afterward became a <i>privatdocent</i> for German history at Graz. + Gradually, however, the charms of literature asserted themselves + definitely, and he soon abandoned teaching. He took part, + however, in the war of 1866 in Italy, and at the battle of + Solferino he was decorated on the field for bravery in action by + the Austrian field-marshal. These incidents, however, had little + disturbing influence on Sacher-Masoch's literary career, and he + was gradually acquiring a European reputation by his novels and + stories.</p><a name='3_Page_117'></a> + +<p> A far more seriously disturbing influence had already begun to be + exerted on his life by a series of love-episodes. Some of these + were of slight and ephemeral character; some were a source of + unalloyed happiness, all the more so if there was an element of + extravagance to appeal to his Quixotic nature. He always longed + to give a dramatic and romantic character to his life, his wife + says, and he spent some blissful days on an occasion when he ran + away to Florence with a Russian princess as her private + secretary. Most often these episodes culminated in deception and + misery. It was after a relationship of this kind from which he + could not free himself for four years that he wrote <i>Die + Geschiedene Frau, Passionsgeschichte eines Idealisten</i>, putting + into it much of his own personal history. At one time he was + engaged to a sweet and charming young girl. Then it was that he + met a young woman at Graz, Laura Rümelin, 27 years of age, + engaged as a glove-maker, and living with her mother. Though of + poor parentage, with little or no knowledge of the world, she had + great natural ability and intelligence. Schlichtegroll represents + her as spontaneously engaging in a mysterious intrigue with the + novelist. Her own detailed narrative renders the circumstances + more intelligible. She approached Sacher-Masoch by letter, + adopting for disguise the name of his heroine Wanda von Dunajev, + in order to recover possession of some compromising letters which + had been written to him, as a joke, by a friend of hers. + Sacher-Masoch insisted on seeing his correspondent before + returning the letters, and with his eager thirst for romantic + adventure he imagined that she was a married woman of the + aristocratic world, probably a Russian countess, whose simple + costume was a disguise. Not anxious to reveal the prosaic facts, + she humored him in his imaginations and a web of mystification + was thus formed. A strong attraction grew up on both sides and, + though for some time Laura Rümelin maintained the mystery and + held herself aloof from him, a relationship was formed and a + child born. Thereupon, in 1893, they married. Before long, + however, there was disillusion on both sides. She began to detect + the morbid, chimerical, and unpractical aspects of his character, + and he realized that not only was his wife not an aristocrat, + but, what was of more importance to him, she was by no means the + domineering heroine of his dreams. Soon after marriage, in the + course of an innocent romp in which the whole of the small + household took part, he asked his wife to inflict a whipping on + him. She refused, and he thereupon suggested that the servant + should do it; the wife failed to take this idea seriously; but he + had it carried out, with great satisfaction at the severity of + the castigation he received. When, however, his wife explained to + him that, after this incident, it was impossible for the servant + to stay, Sacher-Masoch quite agreed and <a name='3_Page_118'></a>she was at once + discharged. But he constantly found pleasure in placing his wife + in awkward or compromising circumstances, a pleasure she was too + normal to share. This necessarily led to much domestic + wretchedness. He had persuaded her, against her wish, to whip him + nearly every day, with whips which he devised, having nails + attached to them. He found this a stimulant to his literary work, + and it enabled him to dispense in his novels with his stereotyped + heroine who is always engaged in subjugating men, for, as he + explained to his wife, when he had the reality in his life he was + no longer obsessed by it in his imaginative dreams. Not content + with this, however, he was constantly desirous for his wife to be + unfaithful. He even put an advertisement in a newspaper to the + effect that a young and beautiful woman desired to make the + acquaintance of an energetic man. The wife, however, though she + wished to please her husband, was not anxious to do so to this + extent. She went to an hotel by appointment to meet a stranger + who had answered this advertisement, but when she had explained + to him the state of affairs he chivalrously conducted her home. + It was some time before Sacher-Masoch eventually succeeded in + rendering his wife unfaithful. He attended to the minutest + details of her toilette on this occasion, and as he bade her + farewell at the door he exclaimed: "How I envy him!" This episode + thoroughly humiliated the wife, and from that moment her love for + her husband turned to hate. A final separation was only a + question of time. Sacher-Masoch formed a relationship with Hulda + Meister, who had come to act as secretary and translator to him, + while his wife became attached to Rosenthal, a clever journalist + later known to readers of the <i>Figaro</i> as "Jacques St.-Cère," who + realized her painful position and felt sympathy and affection for + her. She went to live with him in Paris and, having refused to + divorce her husband, he eventually obtained a divorce from her; + she states, however, that she never at any time had physical + relationships with Rosenthal, who was a man of fragile + organization and health. Sacher-Masoch united himself to Hulda + Meister, who is described by the first wife as a prim and faded + but coquettish old maid, and by the biographer as a highly + accomplished and gentle woman, who cared for him with almost + maternal devotion. No doubt there is truth in both descriptions. + It must be noted that, as Wanda clearly shows, apart from his + abnormal sexual temperament, Sacher-Masoch was kind and + sympathetic, and he was strongly attached to his eldest child. + Eulenburg also quotes the statement of a distinguished Austrian + woman writer acquainted with him that, "apart from his sexual + eccentricities, he was an amiable, simple, and sympathetic man + with a touchingly tender love for his children." He had very few + needs, did not drink or smoke, and though he liked to put the + woman he <a name='3_Page_119'></a>was attached to in rich furs and fantastically gorgeous + raiment he dressed himself with extreme simplicity. His wife + quotes the saying of another woman that he was as simple as a + child and as naughty as a monkey.</p> + +<p> In 1883 Sacher-Masoch and Hulda Meister settled in Lindheim, a + village in Germany near the Taunus, a spot to which the novelist + seems to have been attached because in the grounds of his little + estate was a haunted and ruined tower associated with a tragic + medieval episode. Here, after many legal delays, Sacher-Masoch + was able to render his union with Hulda Meister legitimate; here + two children were in due course born, and here the novelist spent + the remaining years of his life in comparative peace. At first, + as is usual, treated with suspicion by the peasants, + Sacher-Masoch gradually acquired great influence over them; he + became a kind of Tolstoy in the rural life around him, the friend + and confidant of all the villagers (something of Tolstoy's + communism is also, it appears, to be seen in the books he wrote + at this time), while the theatrical performances which he + inaugurated, and in which his wife took an active part, spread + the fame of the household in many neighboring villages. Meanwhile + his health began to break up; a visit to Nauheim in 1894 was of + no benefit, and he died March 9, 1895. </p></div> + +<p>A careful consideration of the phenomena of sadism and masochism may be +said to lead us to the conclusion that there is no real line of +demarcation. Even De Sade himself was not a pure sadist, as Bloch's +careful definition is alone sufficient to indicate; it might even be +argued that De Sade was really a masochist; the investigation of histories +of sadism and masochism, even those given by Krafft-Ebing (as, indeed, +Colin Scott and Féré have already pointed out), constantly reveals traces +of both groups of phenomena in the same individual. They cannot, +therefore, be regarded as opposed manifestations. This has been felt by +some writers, who have, in consequence, proposed other names more clearly +indicating the relationship of the phenomena. Féré speaks of sexual +algophily<a name='3_FNanchor_98'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_98'><sup>[98]</sup></a>; he only applies the term to masochism; it might equally +well be applied to sadism. Schrenck-Notzing, to cover both sadism and +masochism, has invented the term algolagnia (ἄλγος, pain, and +λάγνος sexually excited), and calls the former active, the latter +<a name='3_Page_120'></a>passive, algolagnia.<a name='3_FNanchor_99'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_99'><sup>[99]</sup></a> Eulenburg has also emphasized the close +connection between these groups of perverted sexual manifestations, and +has adopted the same terms, adding the further group of ideal +(illusionary) algolagnia, to cover the cases in which the mere +autosuggestive representation of pain, inflicted or suffered, suffices to +give sexual gratification.<a name='3_FNanchor_100'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_100'><sup>[100]</sup></a></p> + +<p>A brief discussion of the terms "sadism" and "masochism" has imposed +itself upon us at this point because as soon as, in any study of the +relationship between love and pain, we pass over the limits of normal +manifestations into a region which is more or less abnormal, these two +conceptions are always brought before us, and it was necessary to show on +what grounds they are here rejected as the pivots on which the discussion +ought to turn. We may accept them as useful terms to indicate two groups +of clinical phenomena; but we cannot regard them as of any real scientific +value. Having reached this result, we may continue our consideration of +the love-bite, as the normal manifestation of the connection between love +and pain which most naturally leads us across the frontier of the +abnormal.</p> + +<p>The result of the love-bite in its extreme degree is to shed blood. This +cannot be regarded as the direct aim of the bite in its normal +manifestations, for the mingled feelings of close contact, of passionate +gripping, of symbolic devouring, which constitute the emotional +accompaniments of the bite would be too violently discomposed by actual +wounding and real shedding of blood. With some persons, however, perhaps +more especially women, the love-bite is really associated with a conscious +desire, even if more or less restrained, to draw blood, a real delight in +this process, a love of blood. Probably this only occurs in persons who +are not absolutely normal, but on the borderland of the abnormal. We have +to admit that this craving has, however, a perfectly normal basis. There +is scarcely any <a name='3_Page_121'></a>natural object with so profoundly emotional an effect as +blood, and it is very easy to understand why this should be so.<a name='3_FNanchor_101'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_101'><sup>[101]</sup></a> +Moreover, blood enters into the sphere of courtship by virtue of the same +conditions by which cruelty enters into it; they are both accidents of +combat, and combat is of the very essence of animal and primitive human +courtship, certainly its most frequent accompaniment. So that the +repelling or attracting fascination of blood may be regarded as a +by-product of normal courtship, which, like other such by-products, may +become an essential element of abnormal courtship.<a name='3_FNanchor_102'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_102'><sup>[102]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Normally the fascination of blood, if present at all during sexual +excitement, remains more or less latent, either because it is weak or +because the checks that inhibit it are inevitably very powerful. +Occasionally it becomes more clearly manifest, and this may happen early +in life. Féré records the case of a man of Anglo-Saxon origin, of sound +heredity so far as could be ascertained and presenting no obvious stigmata +of degeneration, who first experienced sexual manifestations at the age of +5 when a boy cousin was attacked by bleeding at the nose. It was the first +time he had seen such a thing and he experienced erection and much +pleasure at the sight. This was repeated the next time the cousin's nose +bled and also whenever he witnessed any injuries or wounds, especially +when occurring in males. A few years later he began to find pleasure in +pinching and otherwise inflicting slight suffering. This sadism was not, +however, further developed, although a tendency to inversion +persisted.<a name='3_FNanchor_103'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_103'><sup>[103]</sup></a> </p><a name='3_Page_122'></a> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Somewhat similar may have been the origin of the attraction of + blood in a case which has been reported to me of a youth of 17, + the youngest of a large family who are all very strong and + entirely normal. He is himself, however, delicate, overgrown, + with a narrow chest, a small head, and babyish features, while + mentally he is backward, with very defective memory and scant + powers of assimilation. He is intensely nervous, peevish, and + subject to fits of childish rage. He takes violent fancies to + persons of his own sex. But he appears to have only one way of + obtaining sexual excitement and gratification. It is his custom + to get into a hot bath and there to produce erection and + emission, not by masturbation, but by thinking of flowing blood. + He does not associate himself with the causation of this + imaginary flow of blood; he is merely the passive but pleased + spectator. He is aware of his peculiarity and endeavors to shake + it off, but his efforts to obtain normal pleasure by thinking of + a girl are vain.</p> + +<p> I may here narrate a case which has been communicated to me of + algolagnia in a woman, combined with sexual hyperesthesia.</p> + +<p> R. D., aged 25, married, and of good social position; she is a + small and dark woman, restless and alert in manner. She has one + child.</p> + +<p> She has practised masturbation from an early age—ever since she + can remember—by the method of external friction and pressure. + From the age of 17 she was able (and is still) to produce the + orgasm almost without effort, by calling up the image of any man + who had struck her fancy. She has often done so while seated + talking to such a man, even when he is almost a stranger; in + doing it, she says, a tightening of the muscles of the thighs and + the slightest movement are sufficient. Ugly men (if not + deformed), as well as men with the reputation of being <i>roués</i>, + greatly excite her sexually, more especially if of good social + position, though this is not essential.</p> + +<p> At the age of 18 she became hysterical, probably, she herself + believes, in consequence of a great increase at that time of + indulgence in masturbation. The doctors, apparently suspecting + her habits, urged her parents to get her married early. She + married, at the age of 20, a man about twice her own age.</p> + +<p> As a child (and in a less degree still) she was very fond of + watching dog-fights. This spectacle produced strong sexual + feelings and usually orgasm, especially if much blood was shed + during the fight. Clean cuts and wounds greatly attract her, + whether on herself or a man. She has frequently slightly cut or + scratched herself "to see the blood," and likes to suck the + wound, thinking the taste "delicious." This produces strong + sexual feelings and often orgasm, especially if at the time she + thinks of some attractive man and imagines that she is <a name='3_Page_123'></a>sucking + his blood. The sight of injury to a woman only very slightly + affects her, and that, she thinks, only because of an involuntary + association of ideas. Nor has the sight of suffering in illness + any exciting effects, only that which is due to violence, and + when there is a visible cause for the suffering, such as cuts and + wounds. (Bruises, from the absence of blood, have only a slight + effect.) The excitement is intensified if she imagines that she + has herself inflicted the injury. She likes to imagine that the + man wished to rape her, and that she fought him in order to make + him more greatly value her favor, so wounding him.</p> + +<p> Impersonal ideas of torture also excite her. She thinks Fox's + <i>Book of Martyrs</i> "lovely," and the more horrible and bloody the + tortures described the greater is the sexual excitement produced. + The book excites her from the point of view of the torturer, not + that of the victim. She has frequently masturbated while reading + it.</p> + +<p> So far as practicable she has sought to carry out these ideas in + her relations with her husband. She has several times bitten him + till the blood came and sucked the bite during coitus. She likes + to bite him enough to make him wince. The pleasure is greatly + heightened by thinking of various tortures, chiefly by cutting. + She likes to have her husband talk to her, and she to him, of all + the tortures they could inflict on each other. She has, however, + never actually tried to carry out these tortures. She would like + to, but dares not, as she is sure he could not endure them. She + has no desire for her husband to try them on her, although she + likes to hear him talk about it.</p> + +<p> She is at the same time fond of normal coitus, even to excess. + She likes her husband to remain entirely passive during + connection, so that he can continue in a state of strong erection + for a long time. She can thus, she says, procure for herself the + orgasm a number of times in succession, even nine or ten, quite + easily. On one occasion she even had the orgasm twenty-six times + within about one and a quarter hours, her husband during this + time having two orgasms. (She is quite certain about the accuracy + of this statement.) During this feat much talk about torture was + indulged in, and it took place after a month's separation from + her husband, during which she was careful not to masturbate, so + that she might have "a real good time" when he came back. She + acknowledges that on this occasion she was a "complete wreck" for + a couple of days afterward, but states that usually ten or a + dozen orgasms (or spasms, as she terms them) only make her "feel + lively." She becomes frenzied with excitement during intercourse + and insensible to everything but the pleasure of it.</p> + +<p> She has never hitherto allowed anyone (except her husband after + marriage) to know of her sadistic impulses, nor has she carried + them out with anyone, though she would like to, if she dared. Nor + has she <a name='3_Page_124'></a>allowed any man but her husband to have connection with + her or to take any liberties. </p></div> + +<p>Outbursts of sadism may occur episodically in fairly normal persons. Thus, +Coutagne describes the case of a lad of 17—always regarded as quite +normal, and without any signs of degeneracy, even on careful examination, +or any traces of hysteria or alcoholism, though there was insanity among +his cousins—who had had occasional sexual relations for a year or two, +and on one occasion, being in a state of erection, struck the girl three +times on the breast and abdomen with a kitchen knife bought for the +purpose. He was much ashamed of his act immediately afterward, and, all +the circumstances being taken into consideration, he was acquitted by the +court.<a name='3_FNanchor_104'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_104'><sup>[104]</sup></a> Here we seem to have the obscure and latent fascination of +blood, which is almost normal, germinating momentarily into an active +impulse which is distinctly abnormal, though it produced little beyond +those incisions which Vatsyayana disapproved of, but still regarded as a +part of courtship. One step more and we are amid the most outrageous and +extreme of all forms of sexual perversion: with the heroes of De Sade's +novels, who, in exemplification of their author's most cherished ideals, +plan scenes of debauchery in which the flowing of blood is an essential +element of coitus; with the Marshall Gilles de Rais and the Hungarian +Countess Bathory, whose lust could only be satiated by the death of +innumerable victims.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>This impulse to stab—with no desire to kill, or even in most + cases to give pain, but only to draw blood and so either + stimulate or altogether gratify the sexual impulse—is no doubt + the commonest form of sanguinary sadism. These women-stabbers + have been known in France as <i>piqueurs</i> for nearly a century, and + in Germany are termed <i>Stecher</i> or <i>Messerstecher</i> (they have + been studied by Näcke, "Zur Psychologie der sadistischen + Messerstecher," <i>Archiv für Kriminal-Anthropologie</i>, Bd. 35, + 1909). A case of this kind where a man stabbed <a name='3_Page_125'></a>girls in the + abdomen occurred in Paris in the middle of the eighteenth + century, and in 1819 or 1820 there seems to have been an epidemic + of <i>piqueurs</i> in Paris; as we learn from a letter of Charlotte + von Schiller's to Knebel; the offenders (though perhaps there was + only one) frequented the Boulevards and the Palais Royal and + stabbed women in the buttocks or thighs; they were never caught. + About the same time similar cases of a slighter kind occurred in + London, Brussels, Hamburg, and Munich.</p> + +<p> Stabbers are nearly always men, but cases of the same perversion + in women are not unknown. Thus Dr. Kiernan informs me of an Irish + woman, aged 40, and at the beginning of the menopause, who, in + New York in 1909, stabbed five men with a hatpin. The motive was + sexual and she told one of the men that she stabbed him because + she "loved" him.</p> + +<p> Gilles de Rais, who had fought beside Joan of Arc, is the classic + example of sadism in its extreme form, involving the murder of + youths and maidens. Bernelle considers that there is some truth + in the contention of Huysmans that the association with Joan of + Arc was a predisposing cause in unbalancing Gilles de Rais. + Another cause was his luxurious habit of life. He himself, no + doubt rightly, attached importance to the suggestions received in + reading Suetonius. He appears to have been a sexually precocious + child, judging from an obscure passage in his confessions. He was + artistic and scholarly, fond of books, of the society of learned + men, and of music. Bernelle sums him up as "a pious warrior, a + cruel and keen artist, a voluptuous assassin, an exalted mystic," + who was at the same time unbalanced, a superior degenerate, and + morbidly impulsive. (The best books on Gilles de Rais are the + Abbé Bossard's <i>Gilles de Rais</i>, in which, however, the author, + being a priest, treats his subject as quite sane and abnormally + wicked; Huysmans's novel, <i>La-Bas</i>, which embodies a detailed + study of Gilles de Rais, and F. H. Bernelle's Thèse de Paris, <i>La + Psychose de Gilles de Rais</i>, 1910.)</p> + +<p> The opinion has been hazarded that the history of Gilles de Rais + is merely a legend. This view is not accepted, but there can be + no doubt that the sadistic manifestations which occurred in the + Middle Ages were mixed up with legendary and folk-lore elements. + These elements centered on the conception of the <i>werwolf</i>, + supposed to be a man temporarily transformed into a wolf with + blood-thirsty impulses. (See, <i>e.g.</i>, articles "Werwolf" and + "Lycanthropy" in <i>Encyclopædia Britannica</i>.) France, especially, + was infested with werwolves in the sixteenth century. In 1603, + however, it was decided at Bordeaux, in a trial involving a + werwolf, that lycanthropy was only an insane delusion. Dumas + ("Les Loup-Garous," <i>Journal de Psychologie Normale et + Pathologique</i>, May-June, 1907) argues that the medieval werwolves + were <a name='3_Page_126'></a>sadists whose crimes were largely imaginative, though + sometimes real, the predecessor of the modern Jack the Ripper. + The complex nature of the elements making up the belief in the + werwolf is emphasized by Ernest Jones, <i>Der Alptraum</i>, 1912.</p> + +<p> Related to the werwolf, but distinct, was the <i>vampire</i>, supposed + to be a dead person who rose from the dead to suck the blood of + the living during sleep. By way of reprisal the living dug up, + exorcised, and mutilated the supposed vampires. This was called + vampirism. The name vampire was then transferred to the living + person who had so treated a corpse. All profanation of the + corpse, whatever its origin, is now frequently called vampirism + (Epaulow, <i>Vampirisme</i>, Thèse de Lyon, 1901; <i>id.</i>, "Le Vampire + du Muy," <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, Sept., 1903). The + earliest definite reference to necrophily is in Herodotus, who + tells (bk. ii, ch. lxxxix) of an Egyptian who had connection with + the corpse of a woman recently dead. Epaulow gives various old + cases and, at full length, the case which he himself + investigated, of Ardisson, the "Vampire du Muy." W. A. F. Browne + also has an interesting article on "Necrophilism" (<i>Journal of + Mental Science</i>, Jan., 1875) which he regards as atavistic. When + there is, in addition, mutilation of the corpse, the condition is + termed necrosadism. There seems usually to be no true sadism in + either necrosadism or necrophilism. (See, however, Bloch, + <i>Beiträge</i>, vol. ii, p. 284 <i>et seq.</i>)</p> + +<p> It must be said also that cases of rape followed by murder are + quite commonly not sadistic. The type of such cases is + represented by Soleilland, who raped and then murdered children. + He showed no sadistic perversion. He merely killed to prevent + discovery, as a burglar who is interrupted may commit murder in + order to escape. (E. Dupré, "L'Affaire Soleilland," <i>Archives + d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, Jan.-Feb., 1910.)</p> + +<p> A careful and elaborate study of a completely developed sadist + has been furnished by Lacassagne, Rousset, and Papillon + ("L'Affaire Reidal," <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, + Oct.-Nov., 1907). Reidal, a youth of 18, a seminarist, was a + congenital sanguinary sadist who killed another youth and was + finally sent to an asylum. From the age of 4 he had voluptuous + ideas connected with blood and killing, and liked to play at + killing with other children. He was of infantile physical + development, with a pleasant, childish expression of face, very + religious, and hated obscenity and immorality. But the love of + blood and murder was an irresistible obsession and its + gratification produced immense emotional relief.</p> + +<p> Sadism generally has been especially studied by Lacassagne, + <i>Vacher l'Eventreur et les Crimes Sadiques</i>, 1899. Zoösadism, or + sadism toward animals, has been dealt with by P. Thomas, "Le + Sadisme sur les<a name='3_Page_127'></a> Animaux," <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, + Sept., 1903. Auto-sadism, or "auto-erotic cruelty," that is to + say, injuries inflicted on a person by himself with a sexual + motive, has been investigated by G. Bach (<i>Sexuelle Verrirungen + des Menschen und der Nature</i>, p. 427); this condition seems, + however, a form of algolagnia more masochistic than sadistic in + character.</p> + +<p> With regard to the medico-legal aspects, Kiernan ("Responsibility + in Active Algophily," <i>Medicine</i>, April, 1903) sets forth the + reasons in favor of the full and complete responsibility of + sadists, and Harold Moyer comes to the same conclusion ("Is + Sexual Perversion Insanity?" <i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, May, + 1907). See also Thoinot's <i>Medico-legal Aspects of Moral + Offenses</i> (edited by Weysse, 1911), ch. xviii. While we are + probably justified in considering the sadist as morally not + insane in the technical sense, we must remember that he is, for + the most part, highly abnormal from the outset. As Gaupp points + out (<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Oct., 1909, p. 797), we cannot measure + the influences which create the sadist and we must not therefore + attempt to "punish" him, but we are bound to place him in a + position where he will not injure society. </p></div> + +<p>It is enough here to emphasize the fact that there is no solution of +continuity in the links that bind the absolutely normal manifestations of +sex with the most extreme violations of all human law. This is so true +that in saying that these manifestations are violations of all human law +we cannot go on to add, what would seem fairly obvious, that they are +violations also of all natural law. We have but to go sufficiently far +back, or sufficiently far afield, in the various zoölogical series to find +that manifestations which, from the human point of view, are in the +extreme degree abnormally sadistic here become actually normal. Among very +various species wounding and rending normally take place at or immediately +after coitus; if we go back to the beginning of animal life in the +protozoa sexual conjugation itself is sometimes found to present the +similitude, if not the actuality, of the complete devouring of one +organism by another. Over a very large part of nature, as it has been +truly said, "but a thin veil divides love from death."<a name='3_FNanchor_105'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_105'><sup>[105]</sup></a> </p><a name='3_Page_128'></a> + +<p>There is, indeed, on the whole, a point of difference. In that abnormal +sadism which appears from time to time among civilized human beings it is +nearly always the female who becomes the victim of the male. But in the +normal sadism which occurs throughout a large part of nature it is nearly +always the male who is the victim of the female. It is the male spider who +impregnates the female at the risk of his life and sometimes perishes in +the attempt; it is the male bee who, after intercourse with the queen, +falls dead from that fatal embrace, leaving her to fling aside his +entrails and calmly pursue her course.<a name='3_FNanchor_106'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_106'><sup>[106]</sup></a> If it may seem to some that +the course of our inquiry leads us to contemplate with equanimity, as a +natural phenomenon, a certain semblance of cruelty in man in his relations +with woman, they may, if they will, reflect that this phenomenon is but a +very slight counterpoise to that cruelty which has been naturally exerted +by the female on the male long even before man began to be.</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='3_Footnote_83'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_83'>[83]</a><div class='note'><p> Krafft-Ebing, <i>Psychopathia Sexualis</i>, English translation +of tenth German edition, pp. 80, 209. It should be added that the object +of the sadistic impulse is not necessarily a person of the opposite sex.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_84'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_84'>[84]</a><div class='note'><p> A. Moll, <i>Die Konträre Sexualempfindung</i>, third edition, +1899, p. 309.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_85'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_85'>[85]</a><div class='note'><p> Féré, <i>L'Instinct Sexuel</i>, p. 133.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_86'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_86'>[86]</a><div class='note'><p> P. Garnier, "Des Perversions Sexuelles," Thirteenth +International Congress of Medicine, Section of Psychiatry, Paris, 1900.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_87'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_87'>[87]</a><div class='note'><p> E. Dühren, <i>Der Marquis de Sade und Seine Zeit</i>, third +edition, 1901, p. 449.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_88'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_88'>[88]</a><div class='note'><p> See, for instance, Bloch's <i>Beiträge zur Ætiologie der +Psychopathia Sexualis</i>, part ii, p. 178.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_89'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_89'>[89]</a><div class='note'><p> Krafft-Ebing, <i>Psychopathia Sexualis</i>, English translation +of tenth German edition, p. 115. Stefanowsky, who also discussed this +condition (<i>Archives de l'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, May, 1892, and +translation, with notes by Kiernan, <i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, Oct., +1892), termed it passivism.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_90'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_90'>[90]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Anatomy of Melancholy</i>, part iii, section 2, mem. iii, +subs, 1.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_91'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_91'>[91]</a><div class='note'><p> "Aristoteles als Masochist," <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, +Bd. ii, ht. 2.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_92'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_92'>[92]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Die Konträre Sexualempfindung</i>, third edition, p. 277. +<i>Cf.</i> C. F. von Schlichtegroll, <i>Sacher-Masoch und der Masochismus</i>, p. +120.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_93'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_93'>[93]</a><div class='note'><p> See C. F. von Schlichtegroll, <i>loc. cit.</i>, p. 124 <i>et seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_94'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_94'>[94]</a><div class='note'><p> Iwan Bloch considers that it is the commonest of all sexual +perversions, more prevalent even than homosexuality.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_95'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_95'>[95]</a><div class='note'><p> It has no doubt been prominent in earlier civilization. A +very pronounced masochist utterance may be found in an ancient Egyptian +love-song written about 1200 B.C.: "Oh! were I made her porter, I should +cause her to be wrathful with me. Then when I did but hear her voice, the +voice of her anger, a child shall I be for fear." (Wiedemann, <i>Popular +Literature in Ancient Egypt</i>, p. 9.) The activity and independence of the +Egyptian women at the time may well have offered many opportunities to the +ancient Egyptian masochist.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_96'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_96'>[96]</a><div class='note'><p> Colin Scott, "Sex and Art," <i>American Journal of +Psychology</i>, vol. vii, No. 2, p. 208.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_97'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_97'>[97]</a><div class='note'><p> It must not be supposed that the attraction of fur or of the +whip is altogether accounted for by such a casual early experience as in +Sacher-Masoch's case served to evoke it. The whip we shall have to +consider briefly later on. The fascination exerted by fur, whether +manifesting itself as love or fear, would appear to be very common in many +children, and almost instinctive. Stanley Hall, in his "Study of Fears" +(<i>American Journal of Psychology</i>, vol. viii, p. 213) has obtained as many +as 111 well-developed cases of fear of fur, or, as he terms it, +doraphobia, in some cases appearing as early as the age of 6 months, and +he gives many examples. He remarks that the love of fur is still more +common, and concludes that "both this love and fear are so strong and +instinctive that they can hardly be fully accounted for without recourse +to a time when association with animals was far closer than now, or +perhaps when our remote ancestors were hairy." (<i>Cf.</i> "Erotic Symbolism," +iv, in the fifth volume of these <i>Studies</i>.)</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_98'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_98'>[98]</a><div class='note'><p> Féré, <i>L'Instinct Sexuel</i>, p. 138.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_99'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_99'>[99]</a><div class='note'><p> Schrenck-Notzing, <i>Zeitschrift für Hypnotismus</i>, Bd. ix, ht. +2, 1899.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_100'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_100'>[100]</a><div class='note'><p> Eulenburg, <i>Sadismus und Masochismus</i>, second edition, +1911, p. 5.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_101'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_101'>[101]</a><div class='note'><p> I have elsewhere dealt with this point in discussing the +special emotional tone of red (Havelock Ellis, "The Psychology of Red," +<i>Popular Science Monthly</i>, August and September, 1900).</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_102'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_102'>[102]</a><div class='note'><p> It is probable that the motive of sexual murders is nearly +always to shed blood, and not to cause death. Leppmann (<i>Bulletin +Internationale de Droit Pénal</i>, vol. vi, 1896, p. 115) points out that +such murders are generally produced by wounds in the neck or mutilation of +the abdomen, never by wounds of the head. T. Claye Shaw, who terms the +lust for blood hemothymia, has written an interesting and suggestive paper +("A Prominent Motive in Murder," <i>Lancet</i>, June 19, 1909) on the natural +fascination of blood. Blumröder, in 1830, seems to have been the first who +definitely called attention to the connection between lust and blood.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_103'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_103'>[103]</a><div class='note'><p> Féré, <i>Revue de Chirurgie</i>, March 10, 1905.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_104'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_104'>[104]</a><div class='note'><p> H. Coutagne, "Cas de Perversion Sanguinaire de l'Instinct +Sexuel," <i>Annales Médico-Psychologiques</i>, July and August, 1893. D. S. +Booth (<i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, Aug., 1906) describes the case of a man +of neurotic heredity who slightly stabbed a woman with a penknife when on +his way to a prostitute.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_105'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_105'>[105]</a><div class='note'><p> Kiernan appears to have been the first to suggest the +bearing of these facts on sadism, which he would regard as the abnormal +human form of phenomena which may be found at the very beginning of animal +life, as, indeed, the survival or atavistic reappearance of a primitive +sexual cannibalism. See his "Psychological Aspects of the Sexual +Appetite," <i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, April, 1891, and "Responsibility in +Sexual Perversion," <i>Chicago Medical Recorder</i>, March, 1892. Penta has +also independently developed the conception of the biological basis of +sadism and other sexual perversions (<i>I Pervertimenti Sessuali</i>, 1893). It +must be added that, as Remy de Gourmont points out (<i>Promenades +Philosophiques</i>, 2d series, p. 273), this sexual cannibalism exerted by +the female may have, primarily, no erotic significance: "She eats him +because she is hungry and because when exhausted he is an easy prey."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_106'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_106'>[106]</a><div class='note'><p> In the chapter entitled "Le Vol Nuptial" of his charming +book on the life of bees Maeterlinck has given an incomparable picture of +the tragic courtship of these insects.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_L_III'></a><h3><a name='3_Page_129'></a>III.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Flagellation as a Typical Illustration of Algolagnia—Causes of Connection +between Sexual Emotion and Whipping—Physical Causes—Psychic Causes +probably more Important—The Varied Emotional Associations of +Whipping—Its Wide Prevalence.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>The whole problem of love and pain, in its complementary sadistic and +masochistic aspects, is presented to us in connection with the pleasure +sometimes experienced in whipping, or in being whipped, or in witnessing +or thinking about scenes of whipping. The association of sexual emotion +with bloodshed is so extreme a perversion, it so swiftly sinks to phases +that are obviously cruel, repulsive, and monstrous in an extreme degree, +that it is necessarily rare, and those who are afflicted by it are often +more or less imbecile. With whipping it is otherwise. Whipping has always +been a recognized religious penance; it is still regarded as a beneficial +and harmless method of chastisement; there is nothing necessarily cruel, +repulsive, or monstrous in the idea or the reality of whipping, and it is +perfectly easy and natural for an interest in the subject to arise in an +innocent and even normal child, and thus to furnish a germ around which, +temporarily at all events, sexual ideas may crystallize. For these reasons +the connection between love and pain may be more clearly brought out in +connection with whipping than with blood.</p> + +<p>There is, by no means, any necessary connection between flagellation and +the sexual emotions. If there were, this form of penance would not have +been so long approved or at all events tolerated by the Church.<a name='3_FNanchor_107'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_107'><sup>[107]</sup></a> </p><a name='3_Page_130'></a> + +<p>As a matter of fact, indeed, it was not always approved or even tolerated. +Pope Adrian IV in the eighth century forbade priests to beat their +penitents, and at the time of the epidemic of flagellation in the +thirteenth century, which was highly approved by many holy men, the abuses +were yet so frequent that Clement VI issued a bull against these +processions. All such papal prohibitions remained without effect. The +association of religious flagellation with perverted sexual motives is +shown by its condemnation in later ages by the Inquisition, which was +accustomed to prosecute the priests who, in prescribing flagellation as a +penance, exerted it personally, or caused it to be inflicted on the +stripped penitent in his presence, or made a woman penitent discipline +him, such offences being regarded as forms of "solicitation."<a name='3_FNanchor_108'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_108'><sup>[108]</sup></a> There +seems even to be some reason to suppose that the religious flagellation +mania which was so prevalent in the later Middle Ages, when processions of +penitents, male and female, eagerly flogged themselves and each other, may +have had something to do with the discovery of erotic flagellation,<a name='3_FNanchor_109'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_109'><sup>[109]</sup></a> +which, at all events in Europe, seems scarcely to have been known before +the sixteenth century. It must, in any case, have assisted to create a +predisposition. The introduction of flagellation as a definitely +recognized sexual stimulant is by Eulenburg, in his interesting book, +<i>Sadismus und Masochismus</i>, attributed to the Arabian physicians. It would +appear to have been by the advice of an Arabian physician that the Duchess +Leonora Gonzaga, of Mantua, was whipped by her mother to aid her in +responding more warmly to her husband's embraces and to conceive.</p> + +<p>Whatever the precise origin of sexual flagellation in Europe, there can be +no doubt that it soon became extremely common, and so it remains at the +present day. Those who possess a special knowledge of such matters declare +that sexual flagellation is <a name='3_Page_131'></a>the most frequent of all sexual perversions +in England.<a name='3_FNanchor_110'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_110'><sup>[110]</sup></a> This belief is, I know, shared by many people both inside +and outside England. However this may be, the tendency is certainly +common. I doubt if it is any or at all less common in Germany, judging by +the large number of books on the subject of flagellation which have been +published in German. In a catalogue of "interesting books" on this and +allied subjects issued by a German publisher and bookseller, I find that, +of fifty-five volumes, as many as seventeen or eighteen, all in German, +deal solely with the question of flagellation, while many of the other +books appear to deal in part with the same subject.<a name='3_FNanchor_111'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_111'><sup>[111]</sup></a> It is, no doubt, +true that the large part which the rod has played in the past history of +our civilization justifies a considerable amount of scientific interest in +the subject of flagellation, but it is clear that the interest in these +books is by no means always scientific, but very frequently sexual.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is remarkable that, while the sexual associations of whipping, + whether in slight or in marked degrees, are so frequent in modern + times, they appear to be by no means easy to trace in ancient + times. "Flagellation," I find it stated by a modern editor of the + <i>Priapeia</i>, "so extensively practised in England as a provocation + to venery, is almost entirely unnoticed by the Latin erotic + writers, although, in the <i>Satyricon</i> of Petronius (ch. + cxxxviii), Encolpius, in describing the steps taken by Œnothea + to undo the temporary impotence to which he was + subjected, says: 'Next she mixed nasturtium-juice with southern + wood, and, <a name='3_Page_132'></a>having bathed my foreparts, she took a bunch of green + nettles, and gently whipped my belly all over below the navel.'" + It appears also that many ancient courtesans dedicated to Venus + as ex-votos a whip, a bridle, or a spur as tokens of their skill + in riding their lovers. The whip was sometimes used in antiquity, + but if it aroused sexual emotions they seem to have passed + unregarded. "We naturally know nothing," Eulenburg remarks + (<i>Sadismus und Masochismus</i>, p. 72), "of the feelings of the + priestess of Artemis at the flagellation of Spartan youths; or + what emotions inspired the priestess of the Syrian goddess under + similar circumstances; or what the Roman Pontifex Maximus felt + when he castigated the exposed body of a negligent vestal (as + described by Plutarch) behind a curtain, and the 'plagosus + Orbilius' only practised on children."</p> + +<p> It was at the Renaissance that cases of abnormal sexual pleasure + in flagellation began to be recorded. The earliest distinct + reference to a masochistic flagellant seems to have been made by + Pico della Mirandola, toward the end of the fifteenth century, in + his <i>Disputationes Adversus Astrologiam Divinatricem</i>, bk. iii, + ch. xxvii. Cœlius Rhodiginus in 1516, again, narrated + the case of a man he knew who liked to be severely whipped, and + found this a stimulant to coitus. Otto Brunfels, in his + <i>Onomasticon</i> (1534), art. "Coitus," refers to another case of a + man who could not have intercourse with his wife until he had + been whipped. Then, a century later, in 1643, Meibomius wrote <i>De + Usu Flagrorum in re Venerea</i>, the earliest treatise on this + subject, narrating various cases. Numerous old cases of pleasure + in flagellation and urtication were brought together by Schurig + in 1720 in his <i>Spermatologia</i>, pp. 253-258.</p> + +<p> The earliest definitely described medical case of sadistic + pleasure in the sight of active whipping which I have myself come + across belongs to the year 1672, and occurs in a letter in which + Nesterus seeks the opinion of Garmann. He knows intimately, he + states, a very learned man—whose name, for the honor he bears + him, he refrains from mentioning—who, whenever in a school or + elsewhere he sees a boy unbreeched and birched, and hears him + crying out, at once emits semen copiously without any erection, + but with great mental commotion. The same accident frequently + happens to him during sleep, accompanied by dreams of whipping. + Nesterus proceeds to mention that this "<i>laudatus vir</i>" was also + extremely sensitive to the odor of strawberries and other fruits, + which produced nausea. He was evidently a neurotic subject. + (L. C. F. Garmanni et Aliorum Virorum Clarissimorum, <i>Epistolarum + Centuria</i>, Rostochi et Lipsiæ, 1714.)</p> + +<p> In England we find that toward the end of the sixteenth century + one of Marlowe's epigrams deals with a certain Francus who before + <a name='3_Page_133'></a>intercourse with his mistress "sends for rods and strips himself + stark naked," and by the middle of the seventeenth century the + existence of an association between flagellation and sexual + pleasure seems to have been popularly recognized. In 1661, in a + vulgar "tragicomedy" entitled <i>The Presbyterian Lash</i>, we find: + "I warrant he thought that the tickling of the wench's buttocks + with the rod would provoke her to lechery." That whipping was + well known as a sexual stimulant in England in the eighteenth + century is sufficiently indicated by the fact that in one of + Hogarth's series representing the "Harlot's Progress" a birch rod + hangs over the bed. The prevalence of sexual flagellation in + England at the end of that century and the beginning of the + nineteenth is discussed by Dühren (Iwan Bloch) in his + <i>Geschlechtsleben in England</i> (1901-3), especially vol. ii, ch. + vi.</p> + +<p> While, however, the evidence regarding sexual flagellation is + rare, until recent times whipping as a punishment was extremely + common. It is even possible that its very prevalence, and the + consequent familiarity with which it was regarded, were + unfavorable to the development of any mysterious emotional state + likely to act on the sexual sphere, except in markedly neurotic + subjects. Thus, the corporal chastisement of wives by husbands + was common and permitted. Not only was this so to a proverbial + extent in eastern Europe, but also in the extreme west and among + a people whose women enjoyed much freedom and honor. Cymric law + allowed a husband to chastise his wife for angry speaking, such + as calling him a cur; for giving away property she was not + entitled to give away; or for being found in hiding with another + man. For the first two offenses she had the option of paying him + three kine. When she accepted the chastisement she was to receive + "three strokes with a rod of the length of her husband's forearm + and the thickness of his long finger, and that wheresoever he + might will, excepting on the head"; so that she was to suffer + pain only, and not injury. (R. B. Holt, "Marriage Laws and Customs + of the Cymri," <i>Journal of the Anthropological Institute</i>, + August-November, 1898, p. 162.)</p> + +<p> "The Cymric law," writes a correspondent, "seems to have survived + in popular belief in the Eastern and Middle States of the United + States. In police-courts in New York, for example, it has been + unsuccessfully pleaded that a man is entitled to beat his wife + with a stick no thicker than his thumb. In Pennsylvania actual + acquittals have been rendered."</p> + +<p> Among all classes children were severely whipped by their parents + and others in authority over them. It may be recalled that in the + twelfth century when Abelard became tutor to Heloise, then about + 18 years of age, her uncle authorized him to beat her, if + negligent in her studies. Even in the sixteenth century Jeanne + d'Albert, who <a name='3_Page_134'></a>became the mother of Henry IV of France, at the + age of 13½ was married to the Duke of Cleves, and to overcome her + resistance to this union the Queen, her mother, had her whipped + to such an extent that she thought she would die of it. The whip + on this occasion was, however, only partially successful, for the + Duke never succeeded in consummating the marriage, which was, in + consequence, annulled. (Cabanès brings together numerous facts + regarding the prevalence of flagellation as a chastisement in + ancient France in the interesting chapter on "La Flagellation a + la Cour et à la Ville" in his <i>Indiscretions de l'Histoire</i>, + 1903.)</p> + +<p> As to the prevalence of whipping in England evidence is furnished + by Andrews, in the chapter on "Whipping and Whipping Posts," in + his book on ancient punishments. It existed from the earliest + times and was administered for a great variety of offenses, to + men and women alike, for vagrancy, for theft, to the fathers and + mothers of illegitimate children, for drunkenness, for insanity, + even sometimes for small-pox. At one time both sexes were whipped + naked, but from Queen Elizabeth's time only from the waist + upward. In 1791 the whipping of female vagrants ceased by law. + (W. Andrews, <i>Bygone Punishments</i>, 1899.)</p> + +<p> It must, however, be remarked that law always lags far behind + social feeling and custom, and flagellation as a common + punishment had fallen into disuse or become very perfunctory long + before any change was made in the law, though it is not + absolutely extinct, even by law, today. There is even an ignorant + and retrograde tendency to revive it. Thus, even in severe + Commonwealth days, the alleged whipping with rods of a + servant-girl by her master, though with no serious physical + injury, produced a great public outcry, as we see by the case of + the Rev. Zachary Crofton, a distinguished London clergyman, who + was prosecuted in 1657 on the charge of whipping his + servant-girl, Mary Cadman, because she lay in bed late in the + morning and stole sugar. This incident led to several pamphlets. + In <i>The Presbyterian, Lash or Noctroff's Maid Whipt</i> (1661), a + satire on Crofton, we read: "It is not only contrary to Gospel + but good manners to take up a wench's petticoats, smock and all"; + and in the doggerel ballad of "Bo-Peep," which was also written + on the same subject, it is said that Crofton should have left his + wife to chastise the maid. Crofton published two pamphlets, one + under his own name and one under that of Alethes Noctroff (1657), + in which he elaborately dealt with the charge as both false and + frivolous. In one passage he offers a qualified defense of such + an act: "I cannot but bewail the exceeding rudeness of our times + to suffer such foolery to be prosecuted as of some high and + notorious crime. Suppose it were (as it is not) true, may not + some eminent congregational brother be found guilty of the same + act? Is it not <a name='3_Page_135'></a>much short of drinking an health naked on a + signpost? May it not be as theologically defended as the + husband's correction of his wife?" This passage, and the whole + episode, show that feeling in regard to this matter was at that + time in a state of transition.</p> + +<p> Flagellation as a penance, whether inflicted by the penitent + himself or by another person, was also extremely common in + medieval and later days. According to Walsingham ("Master of the + Rolls' Collection," vol. i, p. 275), in England, in the middle of + the fourteenth century, penitents, sometimes men of noble birth, + would severely flagellate themselves, even to the shedding of + blood, weeping or singing as they did so; they used cords with + knots containing nails.</p> + +<p> At a later time the custom of religious flagellation was more + especially preserved in Spain. The Countess d'Aulnoy, who visited + Spain in 1685, has described the flagellations practised in + public at Madrid. After giving an account of the dress worn by + these flagellants, which corresponds to that worn in Spain in + Holy Week at the present time by the members of the <i>Cofradias</i>, + the face concealed by the high sugar-loaf head-covering, she + continues: "They attach ribbons to their scourges, and usually + their mistresses honor them with their favors. In gaining public + admiration they must not gesticulate with the arm, but only move + the wrist and hand; the blows must be given without haste, and + the blood must not spoil the costume. They make terrible wounds + on their shoulders, from which the blood flows in streams; they + march through the streets with measured steps; they pass before + the windows of their mistresses, where they flagellate themselves + with marvelous patience. The lady gazes at this fine sight + through the blinds of her room, and by a sign she encourages him + to flog himself, and lets him understand how much she likes this + sort of gallantry. When they meet a good-looking woman they + strike themselves in such a way that the blood goes on to her; + this is a great honor, and the grateful lady thanks them.... All + this is true to the letter."</p> + +<p> The Countess proceeds to describe other and more genuine + penitents, often of high birth, who may be seen in the street + naked above the waist, and with naked feet on the rough and sharp + pavement; some had swords passed through the skin of their body + and arms, others heavy crosses that weighed them down. She + remarks that she was told by the Papal Nuncio that he had + forbidden confessors to impose such penances, and that they were + due to the devotion of the penitents themselves. (<i>Relation du + Voyage d'Espagne</i>, 1692, vol. ii, pp. 158-164.)</p> + +<p> The practice of public self-flagellation in church during Lent + existed in Spain and Portugal up to the early years of the + nineteenth century. Descriptions of it will often be met with in + old volumes of travel. Thus, I find a traveler through Spain in + 1786 describing how, <a name='3_Page_136'></a>at Barcelona, he was present when, in Lent, + at a Miserere in the Convent Church of San Felipe Neri on Friday + evening the doors were shut, the lights put out, and in perfect + darkness all bared their backs and applied the discipline, + singing while they scourged themselves, ever louder and harsher + and with ever greater vehemence until in twenty minutes' time the + whole ended in a deep groan. It is mentioned that at Malaga, + after such a scene, the whole church was in the morning sprinkled + with blood. (Joseph Townsend, <i>A Journey through Spain in 1786</i>, + vol. i, p. 122; vol. iii, p. 15.)</p> + +<p> Even to our own day religious self-flagellation is practised by + Spaniards in the Azores, in the darkened churches during Lent, + and the walls are often spotted and smeared with blood at this + time. (O. H. Howarth, "The Survival of Corporal Punishment," + <i>Journal Anthropological Institute</i>, Feb., 1889.) In remote + districts of Spain (as near Haro in Rioja) there are also + brotherhoods who will flagellate themselves on Good Friday, but + not within the church. (Dario de Regoyos, <i>España Negra</i>, 1899, + p. 72.) </p></div> + +<p>When we glance over the history of flagellation and realize that, though +whipping as a punishment has been very widespread and common, there have +been periods and lands showing no clear knowledge of any sexual +association of whipping, it becomes clear that whipping is not necessarily +an algolagnic manifestation. It seems evident that there must be special +circumstances, and perhaps a congenital predisposition, to bring out +definitely the relationship of flagellation to the sexual impulse. Thus, +Löwenfeld considers that only about 1 per cent, of people can be sexually +excited by flagellation of the buttocks,<a name='3_FNanchor_112'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_112'><sup>[112]</sup></a> and Näcke also is decidedly +of opinion that there can be no sexual pleasure in flagellation without +predisposition, which is rare.<a name='3_FNanchor_113'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_113'><sup>[113]</sup></a> On these grounds many are of opinion +that physical chastisement, provided it is moderate, seldom applied, and +only to children who are quite healthy and vigorous, need not be +absolutely prohibited.<a name='3_FNanchor_114'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_114'><sup>[114]</sup></a> But, however rare and abnormal a sexual +response to <a name='3_Page_137'></a>actual flagellation may be in adults, we shall see that the +general sexual association of whipping in the minds of children, and +frequently of their elders, is by; no means rare and scarcely abnormal.</p> + +<p>What is the cause of the connection between sexual emotion and whipping? A +very simple physical cause has been believed by some to account fully for +the phenomena. It is known that strong stimulation of the gluteal region +may, especially under predisposing conditions, produce or heighten sexual +excitement, by virtue of the fact that both regions are supplied by +branches of the same nerve.</p> + +<p>There is another reason why whipping should exert a sexual influence. As +Féré especially has pointed out, in moderate amount it has a tonic effect, +and as such has a general beneficial result in stimulating the whole body. +This fact was, indeed, recognized by the classic physicians, and Galen +regarded flagellation as a tonic.<a name='3_FNanchor_115'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_115'><sup>[115]</sup></a> Thus, not only must it be said that +whipping, when applied to the gluteal region, has a direct influence in +stimulating the sexual organs, but its general tonic influence must +naturally extend to the sexual system.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is possible that we must take into account here a biological + factor, such as we have found involved in other forms of sadism + and masochism. In this connection a lady writes to me: "With + regard to the theory which connects the desire for whipping with + the way in which animals make love, where blows or pressure on + the hindquarters are almost a necessary preliminary to pleasure, + have you ever noticed the way in which stags behave? Their does + seem as timid as the males are excitable, and the blows inflicted + on them by the horns of their mates to reduce them to submission + must be, I should think, an exact equivalent to being beaten with + a stick."</p> + +<p> It is remarkable that in some cases the whip would even appear to + have a psychic influence in producing sexual excitement in + animals accustomed to its application as a stimulant to action. + Thus, Professor Cornevin, of Lyons, describes the case of a + Hungarian stallion, otherwise quite potent, in whom erection + could only be produced in the presence of a mare in heat when a + whip was cracked near him, and occasionally applied gently to his + legs. (Cornevin, <i>Archives d'Anthropologie <a name='3_Page_138'></a>Criminelle</i>, January, + 1896.) </p></div> + +<p>Here, undoubtedly, we have a definite anatomical and physiological +relationship which often serves as a starting-point for the turning of the +sexual feelings in this direction, and will sometimes support the +perversion when it has otherwise arisen. But this relationship, even if we +regard it as a fairly frequent channel by which sexual emotion is aroused, +will not suffice to account for most, or even many, of the cases in which +whipping exerts a sexual fascination. In many, if not most, cases it is +found that the idea of whipping asserts its sexual significance quite +apart from any personal experience, even in persons who have never been +whipped;<a name='3_FNanchor_116'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_116'><sup>[116]</sup></a> not seldom also in persons who have been whipped and who +feel nothing but repugnance for the actual performance, attractive as it +may be in imagination.</p> + +<p>It is evident that we have to seek the explanation of this phenomenon +largely in psychic causes. Whipping, whether inflicted or suffered, tends +to arouse, vaguely but massively, the very fundamental and primitive +emotions of anger and fear, which, as we have seen, have always been +associated with courtship, and it tends to arouse them at an age when the +sexual emotions have not become clearly defined, and under circumstances +which are likely to introduce sexual associations. From their earliest +years children have been trained to fear whipping, even when not actually +submitted to it, and an unjust punishment of this kind, whether inflicted +on themselves or others, frequently arouses intense anger, nervous +excitement, or terror in the sensitive minds of children.<a name='3_FNanchor_117'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_117'><sup>[117]</sup></a> Moreover, +as has been pointed out to me by a lady who herself in early life was +affected by the sexual associations of whipping, a child only sees the +naked body of elder children when uncovered for whipping, and <a name='3_Page_139'></a>its sexual +charm may in part be due to this cause. We further have to remark that the +spectacle of suffering itself is, to some extent and under some +circumstances, a stimulant of sexual emotion. It is evident that a number +of factors contribute to surround whipping at a very early age with +powerful emotional associations, and that these associations are of such a +character that in predisposed subjects they are very easily led into a +sexual channel.<a name='3_FNanchor_118'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_118'><sup>[118]</sup></a> Various lines of evidence support this conclusion. +Thus, from several reliable quarters I learn that the sight of a boy being +caned at school may produce sexual excitement in the boys who look on. The +association of sexual emotion with whipping is, again, very liable to show +itself in schoolmasters, and many cases have been recorded in which the +flogging of boys, under the stress of this impulse, has been carried to +extreme lengths. An early and eminent example is furnished by Udall, the +humanist, at one time headmaster of Eton, who was noted for his habit of +inflicting frequent corporal punishment for little or no cause, and who +confessed to sexual practices with the boys under his care.<a name='3_FNanchor_119'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_119'><sup>[119]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Sanitchenko has called attention to the case of a Russian functionary, a +school inspector, who every day had some fifty pupils flogged in his +presence, as evidence of a morbid pleasure in such scenes. Even when no +sexual element can be distinctly traced, scenes of whipping sometimes +exert a singular fascination on some persons of sensitive emotional +temperament. A friend, a clergyman, who has read many novels tells me that +he has been <a name='3_Page_140'></a>struck by the frequency with which novelists describe such +scenes with much luxury of detail; his list includes novels by well-known +religious writers of both sexes. In some of these cases there is reason to +believe that the writers felt this sexual association of whipping.</p> + +<p>It is natural that an interest in whipping should be developed very early +in childhood, and, indeed, it enters very frequently into the games of +young children, and constitutes a much relished element of such games, +more especially among girls. I know of many cases in which young girls +between 6 and 12 years of age took great pleasure in games in which the +chief point consisted in unfastening each other's drawers and smacking +each other, and some of these girls, when they grew older, realized that +there was an element of sexual enjoyment in their games. It has indeed, it +seems, always been a child's game, and even an amusement of older persons, +to play at smacking each other's nates. In <i>The Presbyter's Lash</i> in 1661 +a young woman is represented as stating that she had done this as a child, +and in ancient France it was a privileged custom on Innocents' Day +(December 28th) to smack all the young people found lying late in bed; it +was a custom which, as Clement Marot bears witness, was attractive to +lovers.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>If we turn to the histories I have brought together in Appendix B + we find various references to whipping more or less clearly + connected with the rudimentary sexual feelings of childhood.</p> + +<p> I am acquainted with numerous cases in which the idea of + whipping, or the impulse to whip or be whipped, distinctly + exists, though usually, when persisting to adult life, only in a + rudimentary form. History I in the Appendix B presents a + well-marked instance. I may quote the remarks in another case of + a lady regarding her early feelings: "As a child the idea of + being whipped excited me, but only in connection with a person I + loved, and, moreover, one who had the right to correct me. On one + occasion I was beaten with the back of a brush, and the pain was + sufficient to overcome any excitement; so that, ever after, this + particular form of whipping left me unaffected, though the + excitement still remained connected with forms of which I had no + experience."</p> + +<p> Another lady states that when a little girl of 4 or 5 the + servants used to smack her nates with a soft brush to amuse + themselves (undoubtedly, <a name='3_Page_141'></a>as she now believes, this gave them a + kind of sexual pleasure); it did not hurt her, but she disliked + it. Her father used to whip her severely on the nates at this age + and onward to the age of 13, but this never gave her any + pleasure. When, however, she was about 9 she began in waking + dreams to imagine that she was whipping somebody, and would + finish by imagining that she was herself being whipped. She would + make up stories of which the climax was a whipping, and felt at + the same time a pleasurable burning sensation in her sexual + parts; she used to prolong the preliminaries of the story to + heighten the climax; she felt more pleasure in the idea of being + whipped than of whipping, although she never experienced any + pleasure from an actual whipping. These day-dreams were most + vivid when she was at school, between the ages of 11 and 14. They + began to fade with the growth of affection for real persons. But + in dreams, even in adult life, she occasionally experienced + sexual excitement accompanied by images of smacking.</p> + +<p> Another correspondent, this time a man, writes: "I experienced + the connection between sexual excitement and whipping long before + I knew what sexuality meant or had any notion regarding the + functions of the sexual organs. What I now know to be distinct + sexual feeling used to occur whenever the idea of whipping arose + or the mention of whipping was made in a way to arrest my + attention. I well remember the strange, mysterious fascination it + had, even apart from any actual physical excitement. I have been + told by many men and a few women that it was the same with them. + Even now the feeling exists sometimes, especially when reading + about whipping."</p> + +<p> The following confession, which I find recorded by a German + manufacturer's wife, corresponds with those I have obtained in + England: "When about 5 years old I was playing with a little girl + friend in the park. Our governesses sat on a bench talking. For + some reason—perhaps because we had wandered away too far and + failed to hear a call to return—my friend aroused the anger of + the governess in charge of her. That young lady, therefore, took + her aside, raised her dress, and vigorously smacked her with the + flat hand. I looked on fascinated, and possessed by an + inexplicable feeling to which I naïvely gave myself up. The + impression was so deep that the scene and the persons concerned + are still clearly present to my mind, and I can even recall the + little details of my companion's underclothing." When sexual + associations are permanently brought into play through such an + early incident it is possible that a special predisposition + exists. (<i>Gesellschaft und Geschlecht</i>, Bd. ii, ht. 4, p. 120.) </p></div> + +<p>It would certainly seem that we must look upon this association as coming +well within the normal range of emotional life <a name='3_Page_142'></a>in childhood, although +after puberty, when the sexual feelings become clearly defined, the +attraction of whipping normally tends to be left behind as a piece of +childishness, only surviving in the background of consciousness, if at +all, to furnish a vaguely sexual emotional tone to the subject of +whipping, but not affecting conduct, sometimes only emerging in erotic +dreams.</p> + +<p>This, however, is not invariably the case in persons who are organically +abnormal. In such cases, and especially, it would seem, in highly +sensitive and emotional children, the impress left by the fact or the +image of whipping may be so strong that it affects not only definitely, +but permanently, the whole subsequent course of development of the sexual +impulse. Régis has recorded a case which well illustrates the +circumstances and hereditary conditions under which the idea of whipping +may take such firm root in the sexual emotional nature of a child as to +persist into adult life; at the same time the case shows how a sexual +perversion may, in an intelligent person, take on an intellectual +character, and it also indicates a rational method of treatment.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Jules P., aged 22, of good heredity on father's side, but bad on + that of mother, who is highly hysterical, while his grandmother + was very impulsive and sometimes pursued other women with a + knife. He has one brother and one sister, who are somewhat morbid + and original. He is himself healthy, intelligent, good looking, + and agreeable, though with slightly morbid peculiarities. At the + age of 4 or 5 he suddenly opened a door and saw his sister, then + a girl of 14 or 15, kneeling, with her clothes raised and her + head on her governess's lap, at the moment of being whipped for + some offense. This trivial incident left a profound impression on + his mind, and he recalls every detail of it, especially the sight + of his sister's buttocks,—round, white, and enormous as they + seemed to his childish eyes,—and that momentary vision gave a + permanent direction to the whole of his sexual life. Always after + that he desired to touch and pat his sister's gluteal regions. He + shared her bed, and, though only a child, acquired great skill in + attaining his ends without attracting her attention, lifting her + night-gown when she slept and gently caressing the buttocks, also + contriving to turn her over on to her stomach and then make a + pillow of her hips. This went on until the age of 7, when he + began to play with two little girls of the neighborhood, the + eldest of whom was 10; he liked to take the part of <a name='3_Page_143'></a>the father + and whip them. The older girl was big for her age, and he would + separate her drawers and smack her with much voluptuous emotion; + so that he frequently sought opportunities to repeat the + experience, to which the girl willingly lent herself, and they + were constantly together in dark corners, the girl herself + opening her drawers to enable him to caress her thighs and + buttocks with his hand until he became conscious of an erection. + Sometimes he would gently use a whip. On one occasion she asked + him if he would not now like to see her in front, but he + declined.</p> + +<p> One day, when 8 or 9 years old, being with a boy companion, he + came upon a picture of a monk being flagellated, and thereupon + persuaded his companion to let himself be whipped; the boy + enjoyed the experience, which was therefore often repeated. Jules + P. himself, however, never took the slightest pleasure in playing + the passive part. These practices were continued even after the + friend became a conscript, when, however, they became very rare. + Only once or twice has he ever done anything of this kind to + girls who were strangers to him. Nor has he ever masturbated or + had any desire for sexual intercourse. He contents himself with + the pleasure of being occasionally able to witness scenes of + whipping in public places—parks and gardens—or of catching + glimpses of the thighs and buttocks of young girls or, if + possible, women.</p> + +<p> His principal enjoyment is in imagination. From the first he has + loved to invent stories in which whippings were the climax, and + at 13 such stories produced the first spontaneous emission. Thus, + he imagines, for instance, a young girl from the country who + comes up to Paris by train; on the way a lady is attracted by + her, takes an interest in her, brings her home to dinner, and at + last can no longer resist the temptation to take the girl in her + arms and whip her amorously. He writes out these scenes and + illustrates them with drawings, many of which Régis reproduces. + He has even written comedies in which whipping plays a prominent + part. He has, moreover, searched public libraries for references + to flagellation, inserted queries in the <i>Intermédiare des + Chercheurs et des Curieux</i>, and thus obtained a complete + bibliography of flagellation which is of considerable value. + Régis is acquainted with these <i>Archives de la Fessée</i>, and + states that they are carried on with great method and care. He is + especially interested in the whipping of women by women. He + considers that the pleasure of whippings should always be shared + by the person whipped, and he is somewhat concerned to find that + he has an increasing inclination to imagine an element of cruelty + in the whipping. Emissions are somewhat frequent. According to + the latest information, he is much better; he has entered into + sexual relationship with a woman who is much in love with him, + and <a name='3_Page_144'></a>to whom he has confided his peculiarities. With her aid and + suggestions he has been able to have intercourse with her, at the + moment of coitus whipping her with a harmless India-rubber tube. + (E. Régis, "Un Cas de Perversion Sexuelle, a forme Sadique," + <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelles</i>, July, 1899.)</p> + +<p> In a case also occurring in a highly educated man (narrated by + Marandon de Montyel) a doctor of laws, brilliantly intellectual + and belonging to a family in which there had been some insanity, + when at school at the age of 11, saw for the first time a + schoolfellow whipped on the nates, and experienced a new pleasure + and emotion. He was never himself whipped at school, but would + invent games with his sisters and playfellows in which whipping + formed an essential part. At the age of 13 he teased a young + woman, a cook, until she seized him and whipped him. He put his + arms around her and experienced his first voluptuous spasm of + sex. The love of flagellation temporarily died out, however, and + gave place to masturbation and later to a normal attraction to + women. But at the age of 32 the old ideas were aroused anew by a + story his mistress told him. He suffered from various obsessions + and finally committed suicide. (Marandon de Montyel, "Obsessions + et Vie Sexuelle," <i>Archives de Neurologie</i>, Oct., 1904.)</p> + +<p> In a case that has been reported to me, somewhat similar ideas + played a part. The subject is a tall, well-developed man, aged + 28, delicate in childhood, but now normal in health and physical + condition, though not fond of athletics. His mental ability is + much above the average, especially in scientific directions; he + was brought up in narrow and strict religious views, but at an + early age developed agnostic views of his own.</p> + +<p> From the age of 6, and perhaps earlier, he practised masturbation + almost every night. This was a habit which he carried on in all + innocence. It was as invariable a preliminary, he states, to + going to sleep as was lying down, and at this period he would + have felt no hesitation in telling all about it had the question + been asked. At the age of 12 or 13 he recognized the habit as + abnormal, and fear of ridicule then caused him to keep silence + and to avoid observation. In carrying it out he would lie on his + stomach with the penis directed downward, and not up, and the + thumb resting on the region above the root of the penis. There + was desire for micturition after the act, and when that was + satisfied sound sleep followed. When he realized that the habit + was abnormal he began to make efforts to discontinue it, and + these efforts have been continued up to the present. The chief + obstacle has been the difficulty of sleep without carrying out + the practice. Emissions first began to occur at the age of 13 and + at first caused some alarm. During the six following years + indulgence was irregular, sometimes <a name='3_Page_145'></a>occurring every other night + and sometimes with a week's intermission. Then at the age of 19 + the habit was broken for a year, during which nocturnal emissions + took place during sleep about every three weeks. Since this, + shorter periods of non-indulgence have occurred, these periods + always coinciding with unusual mental or physical strain, as of + examinations. He has some degree of attraction for women; this is + strongest during cessation from masturbation and tends to + disappear when the habit is resumed. He has never had sexual + intercourse because he prefers his own method of gratification + and feels great abhorrence for professional prostitutes; he could + not afford to marry. Any indecency or immorality, except (he + observes) his own variety, disgusts him.</p> + +<p> At the earliest period no mental images accompanied the act of + masturbation. At about the age of 8, however, sexual excitement + began to be constantly associated with ideas of being whipped. At + or soon after this age only the fear of disgrace prevented him + from committing serious childish offenses likely to be punished + by a good whipping. Parents and masters, however, seem to have + used corporal punishment very sparingly.</p> + +<p> At first this desire was for whipping in general, without + reference to the operator. Soon after the age of 10, however, he + began to wish that certain boy friends should be the operators. + At about the same time definite desire arose for closer contact + with these friends and later for definite indecent acts which, + however, the subject failed to specify; he probably meant mutual + masturbation. These desires were under control, and the fear of + ridicule seems to have been the chief restraining cause. At about + the age of 15 he began to realize that such acts might be + considered morally bad and wrong, and this led to reticence and + careful concealment. Up to the age of 20 there were four definite + attachments to persons of his own sex. There was a tendency, + sometimes, to regard women as possible whippers, and this became + stronger at 22, the images of the two sexes then mingling in his + thoughts of flagellation. Latterly the mental accompaniments of + masturbation have been less personal, lapsing into the mental + picture of being whipped by an unknown and vague somebody. When + definite it has always been a man, and preferably of the type of + a schoolmaster. His desire has been for punishment by whips, + canes, or birches, especially upon the buttocks. He has always + shrunk from the thought of the production of blood or bruises. He + wishes, in mental contemplation, for a punishment sufficiently + severe to make him anxious to stop it, and yet not able to stop + it. He also takes pleasure in the idea of being tied up so as to + be unable to move.</p> + +<p> He has at times indulged in self-whipping, of no great severity.</p><a name='3_Page_146'></a> + +<p> In the preceding case we see a tendency to erotic + self-flagellation which in a minor degree is not uncommon. + Occasionally it becomes highly developed. Max Marcuse has + presented such a case in elaborate detail (<i>Zeitschrift für die + Gesamte Neurologie</i>, 1912, ht. 3, fully summarized in + <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Nov., 1912, pp. 815-820). This is the case of + a Catholic priest of highly neurotic heredity, who spontaneously + began to whip himself at the age of 12, this self-flagellation + being continued and accompanied by masturbation after the age of + 15. Other associated perversions were Narcissism and nates + fetichism, as well as homosexual phantasies. He experienced a + certain pleasure (with erection, not ejaculation) in punishing + his boy pupils. It is not uncommon for all forms of erotic + flagellation to be associated with a homosexual element. I have + elsewhere brought forward a case of this kind (the case of A. F., + vol. ii of these <i>Studies</i>).</p> + +<p> Significant is Rousseau's account of the origin of his own + masochistic pleasure in whipping at the age of 8: "Mademoiselle + Lambercier showed toward me a mother's affection and also a + mother's authority, which she sometimes carried so far as to + inflict on us the usual punishment of children when we had + deserved it. For a long time she was content with the threat, and + that threat of a chastisement which for me was quite new seemed + very terrible; but after it had been executed I found the + experience less terrible than the expectation had been; and, + strangely enough, this punishment increased my affection for her + who had inflicted it. It needed all my affection and all my + natural gentleness to prevent me from seeking a renewal of the + same treatment by deserving it, for I had found in the pain and + even in the shame of it an element of sensuality which left more + desire than fear of receiving the experience again from the same + hand. It is true that, as in all this a precocious sexual element + was doubtless mixed, the same chastisement if inflicted by her + brother would not have seemed so pleasant." He goes on to say + that the punishment was inflicted a second time, but that that + time was the last, Mademoiselle Lambercier having apparently + noted the effects it produced, and, henceforth, instead of + sleeping in her room, he was placed in another room and treated + by her as a big boy. "Who would have believed," he adds, "that + this childish punishment, received at the age of 8 from the hand + of a young woman of 30, would have determined my tastes, my + desires, my passions, for the rest of my life?" He remarks that + this strange taste drove him almost to madness, but maintained + the purity of his morals, and the joys of love existed for him + chiefly in imagination. (J. J. Rousseau, <i>Les Confessions</i>, partie + i, livre i.) It will be seen how all the favoring conditions of + fear, shame, and precocious sexuality were here present in an + extremely sensitive child destined to become the <a name='3_Page_147'></a>greatest + emotional force of his century, and receptive to influences which + would have had no permanent effect on any ordinary child. (When, + as occasionally happens, the first sexual feelings are + experienced under the stimulation of whipping in normal children, + no permanent perversion necessarily follows; Moll mentions that + he knows such cases, <i>Zeitschrift für Pädagogie, Psychiatrie, und + Pathologie</i>, 1901.) It may be added that it is, perhaps, not + fanciful to see a certain inevitableness in the fact that on + Rousseau's highly sensitive and receptive temperament it was a + masochistic germ that fell and fructified, while on Régis's + subject, with his more impulsive ancestral antecedents, a + sadistic germ found favorable soil.</p> + +<p> It may be noted that in Régis's sadistic case the little girl who + was the boy's playmate found scarcely less pleasure in the + passive part of whipping than he found in the active. There is + ample evidence to show that this is very often the case, and that + the attractiveness of the idea of being whipped often even arises + spontaneously in children. Lombroso (<i>La Donna Delinquente</i>, p. + 404) refers to a girl of 7 who had voluptuous pleasure in being + whipped, and Hammer (<i>Monatschrift für Harnkrankheiten</i>, 1906, p. + 398) speaks of a young girl who similarly experienced pleasure in + punishment by whipping. Krafft-Ebing records the case of a girl + of between 6 and 8 years of age, never at that time having been + whipped or seen anyone else whipped, who spontaneously + acquired—how she did not know—the desire to be castigated in + this manner. It gave her very great pleasure to imagine a woman + friend doing this to her. She never desired to be whipped by a + man, though there was no trace of inversion, and she never + masturbated until the age of 24, when a marriage engagement was + broken off. At the age of 10 this longing passed away before it + was ever actually realized. (Krafft-Ebing, <i>Psychopathia + Sexualis</i>, eighth edition, p. 136.)</p> + +<p> In the case of another young woman described by + Krafft-Ebing—where there was neurasthenia with other minor + morbid conditions in the family, but the girl herself appears to + have been sound—the desire to be whipped existed from a very + early age. She traced it to the fact that when she was 5 years + old a friend of her father's playfully placed her across his + knees and pretended to whip her. Since then she has always longed + to be caned, but to her great regret the wish has never been + realized. She longs to be the slave of a man whom she loves: + "Lying in fancy before him, he puts one foot on my neck while I + kiss the other. I revel in the idea of being whipped by him and + imagine different scenes in which he beats me. I take the blows + as so many tokens of love; he is at first extremely kind and + tender, but then in the excess of his love he beats me. I fancy + that to beat me for love's sake gives him the highest pleasure." + Sometimes she imagines <a name='3_Page_148'></a>that she is his slave, but not his female + slave, for every woman may be her husband's slave. She is of + proud and independent nature in all other matters, and to imagine + herself a man who consents to be a slave gives her a more + satisfying sense of humiliation. She does not understand that + these manifestations are of a sexual nature. (Krafft-Ebing, + <i>Psychopathia Sexualis</i>, English translation of tenth edition, p. + 189.)</p> + +<p> Sometimes a woman desires to take the active part in whipping. + Thus Marandon de Montyel records the case of a girl of 19, + hereditarily neuropathic (her father was alcoholic), but very + intelligent and good-hearted, who had never been whipped or seen + anyone whipped. At this age, however, she happened to visit a + married friend who was just about to punish her boy of 9 by + whipping him with a wet towel. The girl spectator was much + interested, and though the boy screamed and struggled she + experienced a new sensation she could not define. "At every + stroke," she said, "a strange shiver went through all my body + from my brain to my heels." She would like to have whipped him + herself and felt sorry when it was over. She could not forget the + scene and would dream of herself whipping a boy. At last the + desire became irresistible and she persuaded a boy of 12, whom + she was very fond of, and who was much attached to her, to let + her whip him on the naked nates. She did this so ferociously that + he at last fainted. She was overcome by grief and remorse. + (Marandon de Montyel, <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, + Jan., 1906, p. 30.)</p> + +<p> Although masochism in a pronounced degree may be said to be rare + in women, the love of active flagellation, and sadistic impulses + generally are not uncommon among them. Bloch believes they are + especially common among English women. Cases occur from time to + time of extreme harshness, cruelty, degrading punishment, and + semi-starvation inflicted upon children. The accused are most + usually women, and when a man and woman in conjunction are + accused it appears generally to have been the woman who played + the more active part. But it is rarely demonstrated in these + cases that the cruelty exercised had a definite sexual origin. + There is nothing, for instance, to indicate true sadism in the + famous English case in the eighteenth century of Mrs. Brownrigg + (Bloch, <i>Geschlechtsleben in England</i>, vol. ii, p. 425). It may + well be, however, in many of these cases that the real motive is + sexual, although latent and unconscious. The normal sexual + impulse in women is often obscured and disguised, and it would + not be surprising if the perverse instinct is so likewise.</p> + +<p> It is noteworthy that a passion for whipping may be aroused by + contact with a person who desires to be whipped. This is + illustrated by the following case which has been communicated to + me: "K. is a Jew, about 40 years of age, apparently normal. + Nothing is known of <a name='3_Page_149'></a>his antecedents. He is a manufacturer with + several shops. S., an Englishwoman, aged 25, entered his service; + she is illegitimate, believed to have been reared in a brothel + kept by her mother, is prepossessing in appearance. On entering + K.'s service S. was continually negligent and careless. This so + provoked K. that on one occasion he struck her. She showed great + pleasure and confessed that her blunder had been deliberately + intended to arouse him to physical violence. At her suggestion K. + ultimately consented to thrash her. This operation took place in + K.'s office, S. stripping for the purpose, and the leather + driving band from a sewing-machine was used. S. manifested + unmistakable pleasure during the flagellation, and connection + occurred after it. These thrashings were repeated at frequent + intervals, and K. found a growing liking for the operation on his + own part. Once, at the suggestion of S., a girl of 13 employed by + K. was thrashed by both K. and S. alternately. The child + complained to her parents and K. made a money payment to them to + avoid scandal, the parents agreeing to keep silence. Other women + (Jewish tailoresses) employed by K. were subsequently thrashed by + him. He asserts that they enjoyed the experience. Mrs. K., + discovering her husband's infatuation for S., commenced divorce + proceedings. S. consented to leave the country at K.'s request, + but returned almost immediately and was kept in hiding until the + decree was granted. The mutual infatuation of K. and S. + continues, though K. asserts that he cares less for her than + formerly. Flagellation has, however, now become a passion with + him, though he declares that the practice was unknown to him + before he met S. His great fear is that he will kill S. during + one of these operations. He is convinced that S. is not an + isolated case, and that all women enjoy flagellation. He claims + that the experiences of the numerous women whom he has now + thrashed bear out this opinion; one of them is a wealthy woman + separated from her husband, and is now infatuated with K."</p> + +<p> Flagellation, more especially in its masochistic form, is + sometimes associated with true inversion. Moll presents the case + of a young inverted woman of 26, showing, indeed, many other + minor sexual anomalies, who is sexually excited when beaten with + a switch. A whip would not do, and the blows must only be on the + nates; she cannot imagine being beaten by a small woman. She has + often in this way been beaten by a friend, who should be naked at + the time, and must submit afterward to cunnilinctus. (Moll, + <i>Konträre Sexualempfindung</i> third edition, p. 568.)</p> + +<p> In the preceding case there were no masochistic ideas; it is + likely that in such a case beating is desired largely on account + of that purely physical effect to which attention has already + been called. In the same <a name='3_Page_150'></a>way self-beating with a switch or whip + has sometimes been spontaneously discovered as a method of + self-excitement preliminary to masturbation. I am acquainted with + a lady of much intellectual ability, sexually normal, who made + this discovery at the age of 18, and practised it for a time. + Professor Reverdin, also, speaks of the case of a young girl + under his care who, after having exhausted all the resources of + her intelligence, finally discovered that the climax of enjoyment + was best reached by violently whipping her own buttocks and + thighs. She had invented for this purpose a whip composed of + twelve cords each of which terminated in a large chestnut-burr + provided with its spines. (A. Reverdin, <i>Revue Médicale de la + Suisse Romande</i>, January 20, 1888, p. 17.) </p></div> + +<hr /> + +<a name='3_Footnote_107'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_107'>[107]</a><div class='note'><p> The discipline or scourge was classed with fasting as a +method of mastering the flesh and of penance. See, <i>e.g.</i>, Lea, <i>History +of Auricular Confession</i>, vol. ii, p. 122. For many centuries bishops and +priests used themselves to apply the discipline to their penitents. At +first it was applied to the back; later, especially in the case of female +penitents, it was frequently applied to the nates. Moreover, partial or +complete nudity came to be frequently demanded, the humiliation thereby +caused being pleasant in the sight of God.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_108'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_108'>[108]</a><div class='note'><p> Dulaure, <i>Des Divinités Génératrices</i>, ch. xv; Lea, +<i>History of Sacerdotal Celibacy</i>, 3d ed., vol. ii, p. 278; Kiernan, +"Asceticism as an Auto-erotism," <i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, Aug., 1911.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_109'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_109'>[109]</a><div class='note'><p> This is the opinion of Löwenfeld, <i>Ueber die Sexuelle +Konstitution</i>, p. 43.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_110'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_110'>[110]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus, Dühren (Iwan Bloch) remarks (<i>Der Marquis de Sade und +Seine Zeit</i>, 1901, p. 211): "It is well known that England is today the +classic land of sexual flagellation." See the same author's +<i>Geschlechtsleben in England</i>, vol. ii, ch. vi. In America it appears also +to be common, and Kiernan mentions that in advertisements of Chicago +"massage shops" there often appears the announcement: "Flagellation a +Specialty." The reports of police inspectors in eighteenth century France +show how common flagellation then was in Paris. It may be added that +various men of distinguished intellectual ability of recent times and +earlier are reported as addicted to passive flagellation; this was the +case with Helvétius.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_111'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_111'>[111]</a><div class='note'><p> A full bibliography of flagellation would include many +hundred items. The more important works on this subject, in connection +with the sexual impulse, are enumerated by Eulenburg, in his <i>Sadismus und +Masochismus</i>. An elaborate history of flagellation generally is now being +written by Georg Collas, <i>Geschichte des Flagellantismus</i>, vol. i, 1912.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_112'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_112'>[112]</a><div class='note'><p> Löwenfeld, <i>Ueber die Sexuelle Konstitution</i>, p. 43.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_113'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_113'>[113]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Archiv für Kriminal-Anthropologie</i>, 1909, p. 361. He +brings forward the evidence of a reliable and cultured man who at one time +sought to obtain the pleasures of passive sexual flagellation. But in +spite of his expectation and good will the only result was to disperse +every trace of sexual desire.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_114'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_114'>[114]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>E.g.</i>, Kiefer, <i>Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft</i>, Aug., +1908.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_115'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_115'>[115]</a><div class='note'><p> Féré, <i>Revue de Médecine</i>, August, 1900. In this paper Féré +brings together many interesting facts concerning flagellation in ancient +times.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_116'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_116'>[116]</a><div class='note'><p> Schmidt-Heuert (<i>Monatschrift für Harnkrankheiten</i>, 1906, +ht. 7) argues that it is not so much the actual use of the rod as playful, +threatening and mysterious suggestions playing around it which nowadays +gives it sexual fascination.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_117'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_117'>[117]</a><div class='note'><p> Moll (<i>Untersuchungen über die Libido Sexualis</i>, Bd. 1, p. +18) points out that these emotions frequently suffice to cause sexual +emissions in schoolboys.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_118'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_118'>[118]</a><div class='note'><p> As Eulenburg truly points out, the circumstances attending +the whipping of a woman may be sexually attractive, even in the absence of +any morbid impulse. Such circumstances are "the sight of naked feminine +charms and especially—in the usual mode of flagellation—of those parts +which possess for the sexual epicure a peculiar esthetic attraction; the +idea of treating a loved, or at all events desired, person as a child, of +having her in complete subjection and being able to dispose of her +despotically; and finally the immediate results of whipping: the changes +in skin-color, the to and fro movements which simulate or anticipate the +initial phenomena of coitus." (Eulenburg, <i>Sexuale Neuropathie</i>, p. 121.)</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_119'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_119'>[119]</a><div class='note'><p> See the article on Udall in the <i>Dictionary of National +Biography</i>.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_L_IV'></a><h3><a name='3_Page_151'></a>IV.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Impulse to Strangle the Object of Sexual Desire—The Wish to be +Strangled—Respiratory Disturbance the Essential Element in this Group of +Phenomena—The Part Played by Respiratory Excitement in the Process of +Courtship—Swinging and Suspension—The Attraction Exerted by the Idea of +being Chained and Fettered.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>There is another impulse which it may be worth while to consider briefly +here, for the sake of the light it throws on the relationship between love +and pain. I allude to the impulse to strangle the object of sexual desire, +and to the corresponding craving to be strangled. Cases have been recorded +in which this impulse was so powerful that men have actually strangled +women at the moment of coitus.<a name='3_FNanchor_120'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_120'><sup>[120]</sup></a> Such cases are rare; but, as a mere +idea, the thought of strangling a woman appears to be not infrequently +associated with sexual emotion. We must probably regard it as, in the +main,—with whatever subsidiary elements,—an aspect of that physical +seizure, domination, and forcible embrace of the female which is one of +the primitive elements of courtship.<a name='3_FNanchor_121'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_121'><sup>[121]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The corresponding idea—the pleasurable connection of the thought of being +strangled with sexual emotion—appears to occur still more frequently, +perhaps especially in women. Here we seem to have, as in the case of +whipping, a combination <a name='3_Page_152'></a>of a physical with a psychic element. Not only is +the idea attractive, but, as a matter of fact, strangulation, suffocation, +or any arrest of respiration, even when carried to the extent of producing +death, may actually provoke emission, as is observed after death by +hanging.<a name='3_FNanchor_122'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_122'><sup>[122]</sup></a> It is noteworthy that, as Eulenburg remarks, the method of +treating diseases of the spinal cord by suspension—a method much in vogue +a few years ago—often produced sexual excitement.<a name='3_FNanchor_123'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_123'><sup>[123]</sup></a> In brothels, it is +said, some of the clients desire to be suspended vertically by a cord +furnished with pads.<a name='3_FNanchor_124'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_124'><sup>[124]</sup></a> A playful attempt to throttle her on the part of +her lover is often felt by a woman as pleasurable, though it may not +necessarily produce definite sexual excitement. Sometimes, however, this +feeling becomes so strong that it must be regarded as an actual +perversion, and I have been told of a woman who is indifferent to the +ordinary sexual embrace; her chief longing is <a name='3_Page_153'></a>to be throttled, and she +will do anything to have her neck squeezed by her lover till her eyeballs +bulge.<a name='3_FNanchor_125'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_125'><sup>[125]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"I think if I could be left my present feelings," a lady writes, + "and be changed into a male imbecile,—that is, given a man's + strength, but deprived, to a large extent, of reasoning power,—I + might very likely act in the apparently cruel way they do. And + this partly because many of their actions appeal to me on the + passive side. The idea of being <i>strangled</i> by a person I love + does. The great sensitiveness of one's throat and neck come in + here as well as the loss of breath. Once when I was about to be + separated from a man I cared for I put his hands on my throat and + implored him to kill me. It was a moment of madness, which helps + me to understand the feelings of a person always insane. Even now + that I am cool and collected I know that if I were deeply in love + with a man who I thought was going to kill me, especially in that + way, I would make no effort to save myself beforehand, though, of + course, in the final moments nature would assert herself without + my volition. What makes the horror of such cases in insanity is + the fact of the love being left out. But I think I find no + greater difficulty in picturing the mental attitude of a sadistic + lunatic than that of a normal man who gets pleasure out of women + for whom he has no love." </p></div> + +<p>The imagined pleasure of being strangled by a lover brings us to a group +of feelings which would seem to be not unconnected with respiratory +elements. I refer to the pleasurable excitement experienced by some in +suspension, swinging, restraint, and fetters. Strangulation is the extreme +and most decided type of this group of imagined or real situations, in all +of which a respiratory disturbance seems to be an essential element.<a name='3_FNanchor_126'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_126'><sup>[126]</sup></a></p> +<a name='3_Page_154'></a> + +<p>In explaining these phenomena we have to remark that respiratory +excitement has always been a conspicuous part of the whole process of +tumescence and detumescence, of the struggles of courtship and of its +climax, and that any restraint upon respiration, or, indeed, any restraint +upon muscular and emotional activity generally, tends to heighten the +state of sexual excitement associated with such activity.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>I have elsewhere, when studying the spontaneous solitary + manifestation of the sexual instinct (<i>Auto-erotism</i>, in vol. i + of these <i>Studies</i>), referred to the pleasurably emotional, and + sometimes sexual, effects of swinging and similar kinds of + movement. It is possible that there is a certain significance in + the frequency with which the eighteenth-century French painters, + who lived at a time when the refinements of sexual emotion were + carefully sought out, have painted women in the act of swinging. + Fragonard mentions that in 1763 a gentleman invited him into the + country, with the request to paint his mistress, especially + stipulating that she should be depicted in a swing. The same + motive was common among the leading artists of that time. It may + be said that this attitude was merely a pretext to secure a + vision of ankles, but that result could easily have been attained + without the aid of the swing.</p> + +<p> I may here quote, as bearing on this and allied questions, a + somewhat lengthy communication from a lady to whom I am indebted + for many subtle and suggestive remarks on the whole of this group + of manifestations:—</p> + +<p> "With regard to the connection between swinging and suspension, + perhaps the physical basis of it is the loss of breath. Temporary + loss of breath with me produces excitement. Swinging at a height + or a fall from a height would cause loss of breath; in a state of + suspension the imagination would suggest the idea of falling and + the attendant loss of breath. People suffering from lung disease + are often erotically inclined, and anesthetics affect the + breathing. Men also seem to like the idea of suspension, but from + the active side. One man used to put his wife on a high swinging + shelf when she displeased him, and my husband told me once he + would like to suspend me to a crane we were watching at work, + though I have never mentioned my own feeling on this point to + him. Suspension is often mentioned in descriptions of torture. + Beatrice Cenci was hung up by her hair and the recently murdered + Queen of Korea was similarly treated. In Tolstoi's <i>My Husband + and I</i> the girl says she would like her husband to hold her over + a precipice. That passage gave me great pleasure.<a name='3_FNanchor_127'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_127'><sup>[127]</sup></a></p><a name='3_Page_155'></a> + +<p> "The idea of slipping off an inclined plane gives me the same + sensation. I always feel it on seeing Michael Angelo's 'Night,' + though the slipping look displeases me artistically. I remember + that when I saw the 'Night' first I did feel excited and was + annoyed, and it seemed to me it was the slipping-off look that + gave it; but I think I am now less affected by that idea. Certain + general ideas seem to excite one, but the particular forms under + which they are presented lose their effect and have to be varied. + The sentence mentioned in Tolstoi leaves me now quite cold, but + if I came across the same idea elsewhere, expressed differently, + then it would excite me. I am very capricious in the small + things, and I think women are so more than men. The idea of + slipping down a plank formerly produced excitement with me; now + it has a less vivid effect, though the idea of loss of breath + still produces excitement. The idea of the plank does not now + affect me unless there is a certain amount of drapery. I think, + therefore, that the feeling must come in part from the + possibility of the drapery catching on some roughness of the + surface of the slope, and so producing pressure on the sexual + organs. The effect is still produced, however, even without any + clothing, if the slope is supposed to end in a deep drop, so that + the idea of falling is strongly presented. I cannot recollect any + early associations that would tend to explain these feelings, + except that jumping from a height, which I used frequently to do + as a child, has a tendency to create excitement.</p> + +<p> "With me, I may add, it is when I cannot express myself, or am + trying to understand what I feel is beyond my grasp, that the + first stage of sexual excitement results. For instance, I never + get excited in thinking over sexual questions, because my ideas, + correct or incorrect, are fairly clear and definite. But I often + feel sexually excited over that question of the inheritance of + acquired characteristics, not because I can't decide between the + two sets of evidence, but because I don't feel confident of + having fully grasped the true significance of either. This + feeling of want of power, mental or physical, always has the same + effect. I feel it if my eyes are blindfolded or my hands tied. I + don't like to see the Washington Post dance, in which the man + stands behind the woman and holds her hands, on that account. If + he held her wrists the feeling would be stronger, as her apparent + helplessness would be increased. The nervous irritability that is + caused by being <a name='3_Page_156'></a>under restraint seems to manifest itself in that + way, while in the case of mental disability the excitement, which + should flow down a mental channel, being checked, seems to take a + physical course instead.</p> + +<p> "Possibly this would help to explain masochistic sexual feelings. + A physical cause working in the present would be preferable as an + explanation to a psychological cause to be traced back through + heredity to primitive conditions. I believe such feelings are + very common in men as well as in women, only people do not care + to admit them, as a rule." </p></div> + +<p>The idea of being chained and fettered appears to be not uncommonly +associated with pleasurable sexual feelings, for I have met with numerous +cases in both men and women, and it not infrequently coexists with a +tendency to inversion. It often arises at a very early age, and it is of +considerable interest because we cannot account for its frequency by any +chance association nor by any actual experiences. It would appear to be a +purely psychic fantasia founded on the elementary physical fact that +restraint of emotion, like suspension, produces a heightening of emotion. +In any case the spontaneous character of such ideas and emotions in +children of both sexes suffices to show that they must possess a very +definite organic basis.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In one of the histories (X) contained in Appendix B at the end of + the present volume a lady describes how, as a child, she reveled + in the idea of being chained and tortured, these ideas appearing + to rise spontaneously. In another case, that of A. N. (for the + most part reproduced in "Erotic Symbolism," in vol. v of these + <i>Studies</i>), whose ideals are inverted and who is also affected by + boot-fetichism, the idea of fetters is very attractive. In this + case self-excitement was produced at a very early age, without + the use of the hands, by strapping the legs together. We can, + however, scarcely explain away the idea of fetters in this case + as merely the result of an early association, for it may well be + argued that the idea led to this method of self-excitement. "The + mere idea of fetters," this subject writes, "produces the + greatest excitement, and the sight of pictures representing such + things is a temptation. The reading of books dealing with prison + life, etc., anywhere where physical restraint is treated of, is a + temptation. The temptation is aggravated when the picture + represents the person booted. I suppose all this will have been + intensified in my case by my practices as a child. But why should + a child of 6 do such things unless it were a natural instinct in + him? Nobody showed me; I have never mentioned <a name='3_Page_157'></a>such things to + anyone. I used to read historical romances for the pleasure of + reading of people being put in prison, in fetters, and tortured, + and always envied them. I feel now that I should like to undergo + the sensation. If I could get anyone to humor me without losing + their self-respect, I should jump at the opportunity. I have been + most powerfully excited by visiting an old Australian + convict-ship, where all the means of restraint are shown; I have + been attracted to it night after night, wanting, but not daring + to ask, to be allowed to have a practical experience."</p> + +<p> Stcherbak, of Warsaw, has recorded a case which resembles that of + A. N., but there was no inversion and the attraction of fetters + was active rather than passive; the subject desired to fetter and + not to be fettered. It is possible that this difference is not + fundamental, though Stcherbak regards the case as one of + fetichism of sadistic origin ("Contribution à l'Etude des + Perversions Sexuelles," <i>Archives de Neurologie</i>, Oct., 1907). + The subject was a highly intelligent though neurasthenic youth, + who from the age of 5 had been deeply interested in criminals who + were fettered and sent to prison. The fate of Siberian prisoners + was a frequent source of prolonged meditations. It was the + fettering which alone interested him, and he spent much time in + trying to imagine the feelings of the fettered prisoners, and he + often imagined that he was himself a prisoner in fetters. (This + seems to indicate that the impulse was in its origin masochistic + as much as sadistic, and better described as algolagnia than as + sadism.) He delighted in stories and pictures of fettered + persons. At the age of 15 the sex of the fettered person became + important and he was interested chiefly in fettered women. A new + element also appeared; he was attracted to well-dressed women and + especially to those wearing elegant shoes, delighting to imagine + them fettered. He fastened his own feet together with chains, + attempting to walk about his room in this condition, but + experienced comparatively little pleasure in this way. At the age + of 15 he met a lady 10 years older than himself and of great + intelligence. As he began to know her more intimately she allowed + him to take liberties with her; he fastened her hands behind her + back, and this caused him a violent but delicious emotion which + he had never experienced before. Next time he fastened her feet + together as well as her hands; as he did so her shoes slightly + touched his sexual organs; this caused erection and ejaculation, + accompanied by the most acute sexual pleasure he had ever felt. + He had no wish to see her naked or to uncover himself, and as + long as this relationship lasted he had no abnormal thoughts at + other times, or in connection with other people. He never + masturbated, and his sexual dreams were of fettered men or women. + Stcherbak discusses the case at length and considers <a name='3_Page_158'></a>that it is + essentially an example of sadism, on the ground that the impulse + of fettering was prompted by the desire to humiliate. There is, + however, no evidence of any such desire, and, as a matter of + fact, no humiliation was effected. The primary and fundamental + element in this and similar cases is an almost abstract sexual + fascination in the idea of restraint, whether endured, inflicted, + or merely witnessed or imagined; the feet become the chief focus + of this fascination, and the basis on which a foot-fetichism or + shoe-fetichism tends to arise, because restraint of the feet + produces a more marked effect than restraint of the hands. </p></div> + +<hr /> + +<a name='3_Footnote_120'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_120'>[120]</a><div class='note'><p> An attenuated and symbolic form of this impulse is seen in +the desire to strangle birds with the object of stimulating or even +satisfying sexual desire. Prostitutes are sometimes acquainted with men +who bring a live pigeon with them to be strangled just before intercourse. +Lanphear, of St. Louis (<i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, May, 1907, p. 204) +knew a woman, having learned masturbation in a convent school, who was +only excited and not satisfied by coitus with her husband, and had to rise +from bed, catch and caress a chicken, and finally wring its neck, +whereupon orgasm occurred.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_121'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_121'>[121]</a><div class='note'><p> Even young girls, however, may experience pleasure in the +playful attempt to strangle. Thus a lady speaking of herself at the time +of puberty, when she was in the habit of masturbating, writes +(<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Aug., 1909, p. 636): "I acquired a desire to seize +people, especially girls, by the throat, and I enjoyed their way of +screaming out."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_122'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_122'>[122]</a><div class='note'><p> Godard observed that when animals are bled, or felled, as +well as strangled, there is often abundant emission, rich in spermatozoa, +but without erection, though accompanied by the same movements of the tail +as during copulation. Robin (art. "Fécondation," <i>Dictionnaire +Encyclopédique des Sciences Médicales</i>), who quotes this observation, has +the following remarks on this subject: "Ejaculation occurring at the +moment when the circulation, maintained artificially, stops is a fact of +significance. It shows how congestive conditions—or inversely anemic +conditions—constitute organic states sufficient to set in movement the +activity of the nerve-centers, as is the case for muscular +contractility.... Everything leads us to believe that at the moment when +the motor nervous action takes place the corresponding sensitive centers +also come into play." It must be added that Minovici, in his elaborate +study of death by hanging ("Etude sur la Pendaison," <i>Archives +d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, 1905, especially p. 791 <i>et seq.</i>), concludes +that the turgescence of penis and flow of spermatic fluid (sometimes only +prostatic secretion) usually observed in these cases is purely passive and +generally, though not always, of post-mortem occurrence. There is, +therefore, no sexual pleasure in death by hanging, and persons who have +been rescued at the last moment have experienced no voluptuous sensations. +This was so even in the case, referred to by Minovici, of a man who hanged +himself solely with the object of producing sexual pleasure.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_123'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_123'>[123]</a><div class='note'><p> Eulenburg, <i>Sexuale Neuropathie</i>, p. 114.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_124'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_124'>[124]</a><div class='note'><p> Bernaldo de Quirós and Llanos Aguilaniedo (<i>La Mala Vida en +Madrid</i>, p. 294) knew the case of a man who found pleasure in lying back +on an inclined couch while a prostitute behind him pulled at a slipknot +until he was nearly suffocated; it was the only way in which he could +attain sexual gratification.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_125'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_125'>[125]</a><div class='note'><p> Arrest of respiration, it may be noted, may accompany +strong sexual excitement, as it may some other emotional states; one +recalls passages in the <i>Arabian Nights</i> in which we are told of ladies +who at the sight of a very beautiful youth "felt their reason leave them, +yearned to embrace the marvelous youth, and <i>ceased breathing</i>." Inhibited +respiration is indeed, as Stevens shows ("Study of Attention," <i>American +Journal of Psychology</i>, Oct., 1905), a characteristic of all active +attention.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_126'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_126'>[126]</a><div class='note'><p> The exact part played by the respiration and even the +circulation in constituting emotional states is still not clear, although +various experiments have been made; see, <i>e.g.</i>, Angell and Thompson, "A +Study of the Relations between Certain Organic Processes and +Consciousness," <i>Psychological Review</i>, January, 1899. A summary statement +of the relations of the respiration and circulation to emotional states +will be found in Külpe's <i>Outlines of Psychology</i>, part i, section 2, § +37.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_127'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_127'>[127]</a><div class='note'><p> The words alluded to by my correspondent are as follows: "I +needed a struggle; what I needed was that feeling should guide life, and +not that life should guide feeling. I wanted to go with him to the edge of +an abyss and say: 'Here a step and I will throw myself over; and here a +motion and I have gone to destruction'; and for him, turning pale, to +seize me in his strong arms, hold me back over it till my heart grew cold +within me, and then carry me away wherever he pleased." The whole of the +passage in which these lines occur is of considerable psychological +interest. In one English translation the story is entitled <i>Family +Happiness</i>.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_L_V'></a><h3><a name='3_Page_159'></a>V.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Pain, and Not Cruelty, the Essential Element in Sadism and Masochism—Pain +Felt as Pleasure—Does the Sadist Identify Himself with the Feelings of +his Victim?—The Sadist often a Masochist in Disguise—The Spectacle of +Pain or Struggle as a Sexual Stimulant.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>In the foregoing rapid survey of the great group of manifestations in +which the sexual emotions come into intimate relationship with pain, it +has become fairly clear that the ordinary division between "sadism" and +"masochism," convenient as these terms may be, has a very slight +correspondence with facts. Sadism and masochism may be regarded as +complementary emotional states; they cannot be regarded as opposed +states.<a name='3_FNanchor_128'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_128'><sup>[128]</sup></a> Even De Sade himself, we have seen, can scarcely be regarded +as a pure sadist. A passage in one of his works expressing regret that +sadistic feeling is rare among women, as well as his definite recognition +of the fact that the suffering of pain may call forth voluptuous emotions, +shows that he was not insensitive to the charm of masochistic experience, +and it is evident that a merely blood-thirsty vampire, sane or insane, +could never have retained, as De Sade retained, the undying devotion of +two women so superior in heart and intelligence as his wife and +sister-in-law. Had De Sade possessed any wanton love of cruelty, it would +have appeared during the days of the Revolution, when it was safer for a +man to simulate blood-thirstiness, even if he did not feel it, than to +show humanity. But De Sade distinguished himself at that time not merely +by his general philanthropic activities, but by saving from the scaffold, +at great risk to himself, those who had injured him. It is clear that, +apart from the organically morbid twist by which he obtained sexual +satisfaction in his partner's pain,—a craving <a name='3_Page_160'></a>which was, for the most +part, only gratified in imaginary visions developed to an inhuman extent +under the influence of solitude,—De Sade was simply, to those who knew +him, "<i>un aimable mauvais sujet</i>" gifted with exceptional intellectual +powers. Unless we realize this we run the risk of confounding De Sade and +his like with men of whom Judge Jeffreys was the sinister type.</p> + +<p>It is necessary to emphasize this point because there can be no doubt that +De Sade is really a typical instance of the group of perversions he +represents, and when we understand that it is pain only, and not cruelty, +that is the essential in this group of manifestations we begin to come +nearer to their explanation. The masochist desires to experience pain, but +he generally desires that it should be inflicted in love; the sadist +desires to inflict pain, but in some cases, if not in most, he desires +that it should be felt as love. How far De Sade consciously desired that +the pain he sought to inflict should be felt as pleasure it may not now be +possible to discover, except by indirect inference, but the confessions of +sadists show that such a desire is quite commonly essential.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>I am indebted to a lady for the following communication on the + foregoing aspect of this question: "I believe that, when a person + takes pleasure in inflicting pain, he or she imagines himself or + herself in the victim's place. This would account for the + transmutability of the two sets of feelings. This might be + particularly so in the case of men. A man may not care to lower + his dignity and vanity by putting himself in subjection to a + woman, and he might fear she would feel contempt for him. By + subduing her and subjecting her to passive restraint he would + preserve, even enhance, his own power and dignity, while at the + same time obtaining a reflected pleasure from what he imagined + she was feeling.</p> + +<p> "I think that when I get pleasure out of the idea of subduing + another it is this reflected pleasure I get. And if this is so + one could thus feel more kindly to persons guilty of cruelty, + which has hitherto always seemed the one unpardonable sin. Even + criminals, if it is true that they are themselves often very + insensitive, may, in the excitement of the moment, imagine that + they are only inflicting trifling pain, as it would be to them, + and that their victim's feelings are really pleasurable. The men + I have known most given to inflicting pain are all particularly + tender-hearted when their passions are not in question. I cannot + understand <a name='3_Page_161'></a>how (as in a case mentioned by Krafft-Ebing) a man + could find any pleasure in binding a girl's hands except by + imagining what he supposed were her feelings, though he would + probably be unconscious that he put himself in her place.</p> + +<p> "As a child I exercised a good deal of authority and influence + over my youngest sister. It used to give me considerable pleasure + to be somewhat arbitrary and severe with her, but, though I never + admitted it to myself or to her, I knew instinctively that she + took pleasure in my treatment. I used to give her childish + lessons, over which I was very strict. I invented catechisms and + chapters of the Bible in which elder sisters were exhorted to + keep their juniors under discipline, and younger sisters were + commanded to give implicit submission and obedience. Some parts + of the <i>Imitation</i> lent themselves to this sort of parody, which + never struck me as in any way irreverent. I used to give her + arbitrary orders to 'exercise her in obedience,' as I told her, + and I used to punish her if she disobeyed me. In all this I was, + <i>though only half consciously</i>, guided through my own feelings as + to what I should have liked in her place. For instance, I would + make her put down her playthings and come and repeat a lesson; + but, though she was in appearance having her will subdued to + mine, I always chose a moment when I foresaw she would soon be + tired of play. There was sufficient resistance to make restraint + pleasurable, not enough to render it irksome. In my punishments I + acted on a similar principle. I used to tie her hands behind her + (like the man in Krafft-Ebing's case), but only for a few + moments; I once shut her in a sort of cupboard-room, also for a + very short time. On two or three occasions I completely undressed + her, made her lie down on the bed, tied her hands and feet to the + bedstead, and gave her a slight whipping. I did not wish to hurt + her, only to inflict just enough pain to produce the desire to + move or resist. <i>My pleasure, a very keen one, came from the + imagined excitement produced by the thwarting of this desire</i>. + (Are not your own words—that 'emotion' is 'motion in a more or + less arrested form'—an epigrammatic summary of all this, though + in a somewhat different connection?) I did not undress her from + any connection of nakedness with sexual feeling, but simply to + enhance her feeling of helplessness and defenselessness under my + hands. If I were a man and the woman I loved were refractory I + should undress her before finding fault with her. A woman's dress + symbolizes to her the protection civilization affords to the weak + and gives her a fictitious strength. Naked, she is face to face + with primitive conditions, her weakness opposed to the man's + power. Besides, the sense of shame at being naked under the eyes + of a man who regarded her with displeasure would extend itself to + her offense and give him a distinct, though perhaps unfair, + advantage.<a name='3_Page_162'></a> I used the bristle side of a brush to chastise her + with, as suggesting the greatest amount of severity with the + least possible pain. In fact, my idea was to produce the maximum + of emotion with the minimum of actual discomfort.</p> + +<p> "You must not, however, suppose that at the time I reasoned about + it at all in this way. I was very fond of her, and honestly + believed I was doing it for her good. Had I realized then, as I + do now, that my sole aim and object was physical pleasure, I + believe my pleasure would have ceased; in any case I should not + have felt justified in so treating her. Do I at all persuade you + that my pleasure was a reflection of hers? That it was, I think, + is clear from the fact that I only obtained it when she was + willing to submit. Any <i>real</i> resistance or signs that I was + overpassing the boundary of pleasure in her and urging on pain + without excitement caused me to desist and my own pleasure to + cease.</p> + +<p> "I disclaim all altruism in my dealings with my sister. What + occurs appears to me to be this: A situation appeals to one in + imagination and one at once desires to transfer it to the realms + of fact, being one's self one of the principal actors. If it is + the passive side which appeals to one, one would prefer to be + passive; but if that is not obtainable then one takes the active + part as next best. In either case, however, it is <i>the + realization of the imagined situation</i> that gives the pleasure, + not the other person's pleasure as such, although his or her + supposed pleasure creates the situation. If I were a man it would + afford me great delight to hold a woman over a precipice, even if + she disliked it. The idea appeals to me so strongly that I could + not help <i>imagining</i> her pleasure, though I might <i>know</i> she got + none, and even though she made every demonstration of fear and + dislike of it. The situation so often imagined would have become + a fact. It seems to me I have to say a thing is and is not in the + same breath, but the confusion is only in the words.</p> + +<p> "Let me give you another example: I have a tame pigeon which has + a great affection for me. It sits on my shoulder and squats down + with its wings out as birds do when courting, pecking me to make + me take notice of it, and flickering its wings. I like to hold it + so that it can't move its wings, because I imagine this increases + its excitement. If it struggles, or seems to dislike my holding + it, I let it go.</p> + +<p> "In an early engagement (afterward broken off) my <i>fiancé</i> used + to take an evident pleasure in telling me how he would punish me + if I disobeyed him when we were married. Though we had but little + in common mentally, I was frequently struck with the similarity + between his ideas and what my own had been in regard to my + sister. He used his authority over me most capriciously. On one + occasion he would <a name='3_Page_163'></a>not let me have any supper at a dance. On + another he objected to my drinking black coffee. No day passed + without a command or prohibition on some trifling point. Whenever + he saw, though, that I really disliked the interference or made + any decided resistance, which happened very seldom, he let me + have my own way at once. I cannot but think, when I recall the + various circumstances, that he got a certain pleasure, as I had + done with my sister, by an almost unconscious transference of my + feelings to himself.</p> + +<p> "I find, too, that, when I want a man to say or do to me what + would cause me pleasure and he does not gratify me, I feel an + intense longing to change places, to be the man and make him, as + the woman, feel what I want to feel. Combined with this is a + sense of irritation at not being gratified and a desire to punish + him for my deprivation, for his stupidity in not saying or doing + the right thing. I don't feel any anger at a man not caring for + me, but only for not divining my feelings when he does care.</p> + +<p> "Now let me take another case: that of the man who used to + experience pleasure when surprising a woman making water. (<i>Cf.</i> + <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, Nov. 15, 1900.) Here the + woman's embarrassment appears to be a factor; but it seems to me + there must be more than this, as confusion might be produced in + so many other ways, as if she were found bathing, or undressed, + though it might not be so acute. In reality, I fancy she would be + checked in what she was doing, and that the man, perhaps + unconsciously, imagined this check and a resulting excitement. + That such a check does sometimes produce excitement I know from + experience in traveling. If the bladder is not emptied before + connection the pleasure is often more intense. Long before I + understood these things at all I was struck by this quotation: + 'Cette volupté que ressentent les bords de la mer, d'être + toujours pleins sans jamais déborder?' What would be the effect + on a man of a sudden check at the supreme moment of sexual + pleasure? In reality, I suppose, pain, as the nerves would be at + their full tension and unable to respond to any further stimulus; + but, in imagination, one's nerves are <i>not</i> at their highest + tension, and one imagines an increase or, at any rate, a + prolongation of the pleasurable sensations. Something of all + this, some vague <i>reflection</i> of the woman's possible sensations, + seems to enter in the man's feelings in surprising the woman. In + any case his pleasure in her confusion seems to me a reflection + of her feelings, for the sense of shame and embarrassment before + a man is very exciting, and doubly so if one realizes that the + man enjoys it. Ouida speaks of the 'delicious shame' experienced + by 'Folle Farine.'</p> + +<p> "It seems to me that whenever we are affected by another's + emotion we do practically, though unconsciously, put ourselves in + his <a name='3_Page_164'></a>place; but we are not always able to gauge accurately its + intensity or to allow for differences between ourselves and + another, and, in the case of pain, it is doubly difficult, as we + can never recall the pain itself, but only the mental effects + upon us of the pain. We cannot even recall the feeling of heat + when we are cold, or <i>vice versâ</i>, with any degree of vividness.</p> + +<p> "A woman tells me of a man who frequently asks her if she would + not like him to whip her. He is greatly disappointed when she + says she gets no pleasure from it, as it would give him so much + to do it. He cannot believe she experiences none, because he + would enjoy being whipped so keenly if he were a girl. In another + case the man thinks the woman <i>must</i> enjoy suffering, <i>because</i> + he would get intense pleasure from inflicting it! Why is this, + unless he would like it if a woman, and confuses in his mind the + two personalities? All the men I know who are sadistically + inclined admit that if they were women they would like to be + harshly treated.</p> + +<p> "Of course, I quite see there may be many complications; a man's + natural anger at resistance may come in, and also simple, not + sexual, pleasure in acts of crushing, etc. I always feel inclined + to crush anything very soft or a person with very pretty thick + hair, to rub together two shining surfaces, two bits of satin, + etc., apart from any feelings of excitement. My explanation only + refers to that part of sadism which is sexual enjoyment of + another's pain."</p> + +<p> That the foregoing view holds good as regards the traces of + sadism found within the normal limits of sexual emotion has + already been stated. We may also believe that it is true in many + genuinely perverse cases. In this connection reference may be + made to an interesting case, reported by Moll, of a married lady + 23 years of age, with pronounced sadistic feelings. She belongs + to a normal family and is herself apparently quite healthy, a + tall and strongly built person, of feminine aspect, fond of music + and dancing, of more than average intelligence. Her perverse + inclinations commenced obscurely about the age of 14, when she + began to be dominated by the thought of the pleasure it would be + to strike and torture a man, but were not clearly defined until + the age of 18, while at an early age she was fond of teasing and + contradicting men, though she never experienced the same impulse + toward women. She has never, except in a very slight degree, + actually carried her ideas into practice, either with her husband + or anyone else, being restrained, she says, by a feeling of + shame. Coitus, though frequently practised, gives her no + pleasure, seems, indeed, somewhat disgusting to her, and has + never produced orgasm. Her own ideas, also, though very + pleasurable to her, have not produced definite sexual excitement, + except on two or three occasions, when they had been combined + <a name='3_Page_165'></a>with the influence of alcohol. She frankly regrets that modern + social relationship makes it impossible for her to find sexual + satisfaction in the only way in which such satisfaction would be + possible to her.</p> + +<p> Her chief delight would be to torture the man she was attached to + in every possible way; to inflict physical pain and mental pain + would give her equal pleasure. "I would bite him till the blood + came, as I have often done to my husband. At that moment all + sympathy for him would disappear." She frequently identifies her + imaginary lover with a real man to whom she feels that she could + be much more attracted than she is to her husband. She imagines + to herself that she makes appointments with this lover, and that + she reaches the rendezvous in her carriage, but only after her + lover has been waiting for her a very long time in the cold. Then + he must feel all her power, he must be her slave with no will of + his own, and she would torture him with various implements as + seemed good to her. She would use a rod, a riding-whip, bind him + and chain him, and so on. But it is to be noted that she declares + "<i>this could, in general, only give me enjoyment if the man + concerned endured such torture with a certain pleasure</i>. He must, + indeed, writhe with pain, but at the same time be in a state of + sexual ecstasy, followed by satisfaction." His pleasure must not, + however, be so great that it overwhelms his pain; if it did, her + own pleasure would vanish, and she has found witty her husband + that when in kissing him her bites have given him much pleasure + she has at once refrained.</p> + +<p> It is further noteworthy that only the pain she herself had + inflicted would give her pleasure. If the lover suffered pain + from an accident or a wound she is convinced that she would be + full of sympathy for him. Outside her special sexual perversion + she is sympathetic and very generous. (Moll, <i>Konträre + Sexualempfindung</i>, 1899, pp. 507-510.)</p> + +<p> This case is interesting as an uncomplicated example of almost + purely ideal sadism. It is interesting to note the feelings of + the sadist subject toward her imaginary lover's feelings. It is + probably significant that, while his pleasure is regarded as + essential, his pain is regarded as even more essential, and the + resulting apparent confusion may well be of the very essence of + the whole phenomenon. The pleasure of the imaginary lover must be + secured or the manifestation passes out of the sexual sphere; but + his pleasure must, at all costs, be conciliated with his pain, + for in the sadist's eyes the victim's pain has become a vicarious + form of sexual emotion. That, at the same time, the sadist + desires to give pleasure rather than pain finds confirmation in + the fact that he often insists on pleasure being feigned even + though it is not felt. Some years ago a rich Jewish merchant + became notorious for torturing girls with whom he had + intercourse; his performances acquired for him the title of + "<i>l'homme qui pique</i>," and led to his prosecution. It <a name='3_Page_166'></a>was his + custom to spend some hours in sticking pins into various parts of + the girl's body, but it was essential that she should wear a + smiling face throughout the proceedings. (Hamon, <i>La France + Sociale et Politique</i>, 1891, p. 445 <i>et seq.</i>) </p></div> + +<p>We have thus to recognize that sadism by no means involves any love of +inflicting pain outside the sphere of sexual emotion, and is even +compatible with a high degree of general tender-heartedness. We have also +to recognize that even within the sexual sphere the sadist by no means +wishes to exclude the victim's pleasure, and may even regard that pleasure +as essential to his own satisfaction. We have, further, to recognize that, +in view of the close connection between sadism and masochism, it is highly +probable that in some cases the sadist is really a disguised masochist and +enjoys his victim's pain because he identifies himself with that pain.</p> + +<p>But there is a further group of cases, and a very important group, on +account of the light it throws on the essential nature of these phenomena, +and that is the group in which the thought or the spectacle of pain acts +as a sexual stimulant, without the subject identifying himself clearly +either with the inflicter or the sufferer of the pain. Such cases are +sometimes classed as sadistic; but this is incorrect, for they might just +as truly be called masochistic. The term algolagnia might properly be +applied to them (and Eulenburg now classes them as "ideal algolagnia"), +for they reveal an undifferentiated connection between sexual excitement +and pain not developed into either active or passive participation. Such +feelings may arise sporadically in persons in whom no sadistic or +masochistic perversion can be said to exist, though they usually appear in +individuals of neurotic temperament. Casanova describes an instance of +this association which came immediately under his own eyes at the torture +and execution of Damiens in 1757.<a name='3_FNanchor_129'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_129'><sup>[129]</sup></a> W. G. Stearns <a name='3_Page_167'></a>knew a man (having +masturbated and had intercourse to excess) who desired to see his wife +delivered of a child, and finally became impotent without this idea. He +witnessed many deliveries and especially obtained voluptuous gratification +at the delivery of a primipara when the suffering was greatest.<a name='3_FNanchor_130'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_130'><sup>[130]</sup></a> A +very trifling episode may, however, suffice. In one case known to me a +man, neither sadistic nor masochistic in his tendencies, when sitting +looking out of his window saw a spider come out of its hole to capture and +infold a fly which had just been caught in its web; as he watched the +process he became conscious of a powerful erection, an occurrence which +had never taken place under such circumstances before.<a name='3_FNanchor_131'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_131'><sup>[131]</sup></a> Under favoring +conditions some incident of this kind at an early age may exert a decisive +influence on the sexual life. Tambroni, of Ferrara, records the case of a +boy of 11 who first felt voluptuous emotions on seeing in an illustrated +journal the picture of a man trampling on his daughter; ever afterward he +was obliged to evoke this image in masturbation or coitus.<a name='3_FNanchor_132'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_132'><sup>[132]</sup></a> An +instructive case has been recorded by Féré. In this case a lady of +neurotic heredity on one side, and herself liable to hysteria, experienced +her first sexual crisis at the age of 13, not long after menstruation had +become established, and when she had just recovered from an attack of +chorea. Her old nurse, who had remained in the service of the family, had +a ne'er-do-well son who had disappeared for some years and had just now +suddenly returned and thrown himself, crying and sobbing, at the knees of +his mother, who thrust him away. The young girl accidentally witnessed +this scene. The cries and the sobs provoked in her a sexual excitement she +had never experienced before. She rushed away in surprise to the next +room, where, however, she could still <a name='3_Page_168'></a>hear the sobs, and soon she was +overcome by a sexual orgasm. She was much troubled at this occurrence, and +at the attraction which she now experienced for a man she had never seen +before and whom she had always looked upon as a worthless vagabond. +Shortly afterward she had an erotic dream concerning a man who sobbed at +her knees. Later she again saw the nurse's son, but was agreeably +surprised to find that, though a good-looking youth, he no longer caused +her any emotion, and he disappeared from her mind, though the erotic +dreams concerning an unknown sobbing man still occurred rather frequently. +During the next ten years she suffered from various disorders of more or +less hysterical character, and, although not disinclined to the idea of +marriage, she refused all offers, for no man attracted her. At the age of +23, when staying in the Pyrenees, she made an excursion into Spain, and +was present at a bull-fight. She was greatly excited by the charges of the +bull, especially when the charge was suddenly arrested.<a name='3_FNanchor_133'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_133'><sup>[133]</sup></a> She felt no +interest in any of the men who took part in the performance or were +present; no man was occupying her imagination. But she experienced sexual +sensations and accompanying general exhilaration, which were highly +agreeable. After one bull had charged successively several times the +orgasm took place. She considered the whole performance barbarous, but +could not resist the desire to be present at subsequent bull-fights, a +desire several times gratified, always with the same results, which were +often afterward <a name='3_Page_169'></a>repeated in dreams. From that time she began to take an +interest in horse-races, which she now found produced the same effect, +though not to the same degree, especially when there was a fall. She +subsequently married, but never experienced sexual satisfaction except +under these abnormal circumstances or in dreams.<a name='3_FNanchor_134'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_134'><sup>[134]</sup></a></p> + +<p>As the foregoing case indicates, horses, and especially running or +struggling horses, sometimes have the same effect in stimulating the +sexual emotions, especially on persons predisposed by neurotic heredity, +as we have found that the spectacle of pain possesses. A medical +correspondent in New Zealand tells me of a patient of his own, a young +carpenter of 26, not in good health, who had never masturbated or had +connection with a woman. He lived in a room overlooking a livery-stable +yard where was kept, among other animals, a large black horse. Nearly +every night he had a dream in which he seemed to be pursuing this large +black horse, and when he caught it, which he invariably did, there was a +copious emission. A holiday in the country and tonic treatment dispelled +the dreams and reduced the nocturnal emissions to normal frequency. Féré +has recorded a case of a boy, of neuropathic heredity, who, when 14 years +of age, was one day about to practise mutual masturbation with another boy +of his own age. They were seated on a hillside overlooking a steep road, +and at this moment a heavy wagon came up the road drawn by four horses, +which struggled painfully up, encouraged by the cries and the whip of the +driver. This sight increased the boy's sexual excitement, which reached +its climax when one of the horses suddenly fell. He had never before +experienced such intense excitement, and always afterward a similar +spectacle of struggling horses produced a similar effect.<a name='3_FNanchor_135'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_135'><sup>[135]</sup></a></p> + +<p>In this connection reference may be made to the frequency with which +dreams of struggling horses occur in connection <a name='3_Page_170'></a>with disturbance or +disease of the heart. In such cases it is clear that the struggling horses +seem to dream-consciousness to embody and explain the panting struggles to +which the heart is subjected. They become, as it were, a visual symbol of +the cardiac oppression. In much the same way, it would appear, under the +influence of sexual excitement, in which cardiac disturbance is one of the +chief constituent elements, the struggling horses became a sexual symbol, +and, having attained that position, they are henceforth alone adequate to +produce sexual excitement.</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='3_Footnote_128'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_128'>[128]</a><div class='note'><p> This opinion appears to be in harmony with the conclusions +of Eulenburg, who has devoted special study to De Sade, and points out +that the ordinary conception of "sadism" is much too narrow. (Eulenburg, +<i>Sexuale Neuropathie</i>, 1895, p. 110 <i>et seq.</i>)</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_129'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_129'>[129]</a><div class='note'><p> Casanova, <i>Mémoires</i>, vol. viii, pp. 74-76. Goncourt in his +<i>Journal</i>, under date of April, 1862 (vol. ii, p. 27), tells a story of an +Englishman who engaged a room overlooking a scaffold where a murderer was +to be hanged, proposing to take a woman with him and to avail himself of +the excitement aroused by the scene. This scheme was frustrated by the +remission of the death penalty.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_130'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_130'>[130]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, May, 1907, p. 204.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_131'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_131'>[131]</a><div class='note'><p> This spectacle of the spider and the fly seems indeed to be +specially apt to exert a sexual influence. I have heard of a precisely +similar case in a man of intellectual distinction, and another in a lady +who acknowledged to a feeling of "exquisite pleasure," on one occasion, at +the mere sound of the death agony of a fly in a spider's web.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_132'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_132'>[132]</a><div class='note'><p> Quoted by Obici and Marchesini, <i>Le Amicizie di Collegio</i>, +p. 245.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_133'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_133'>[133]</a><div class='note'><p> It may be noted that we have already several times +encountered this increase of excitement produced by arrest of movement. +The effect is produced whether the arrest is witnessed or is actually +experienced. "A man can increase a woman's excitement," a lady writes, "by +forbidding her to respond in any way to his caresses. It is impossible to +remain quite passive for more than a few seconds, but, during these few, +excitement is considerably augmented." In a similar way I have been told +of a man of brilliant intellectual ability who very seldom has connection +with a woman without getting her to compress with her hand the base of the +urethral canal to such an extent as to impede the passage of the semen. On +withdrawal of the hand copious emission occurs, but it is the shock of the +arrest caused by the constriction which gives him supreme pleasure. He has +practised this method for years without evil results.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_134'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_134'>[134]</a><div class='note'><p> Féré, "Le Sadisme aux Courses de Taureaux," <i>Revue de +médecine</i>, August, 1900.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_135'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_135'>[135]</a><div class='note'><p> Féré, <i>L'Instinct sexuel</i>, p. 255.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_L_VI'></a><h3><a name='3_Page_171'></a>VI.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Why is Pain a Sexual Stimulant?—It is the Most Effective Method of +Arousing Emotion—Anger and Fear the Most Powerful Emotions—Their +Biological Significance in Courtship—Their General and Special Effects in +Stimulating the Organism—Grief as a Sexual Stimulant—The Physiological +Mechanism of Fatigue Renders Pain Pleasurable.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>We have seen that the distinction between "sadism" and "masochism" cannot +be maintained; not only was even De Sade himself something of a masochist +and Sacher-Masoch something of a sadist, but between these two extreme +groups of phenomena there is a central group in which the algolagnia is +neither active nor passive. "Sadism" and "masochism" are simply convenient +clinical terms for classes of manifestations which quite commonly occur in +the same person. We have further found that—as might have been +anticipated in view of the foregoing result—it is scarcely correct to use +the word "cruelty" in connection with the phenomena we have been +considering. The persons who experience these impulses usually show no +love of cruelty outside the sphere of sexual emotion; they may even be +very intolerant of cruelty. Even when their sexual impulses come into play +they may still desire to secure the pleasure of the persons who arouse +their sexual emotions, even though it may not be often true that those who +desire to inflict pain at these moments identify themselves with the +feelings of those on whom they inflict it. We have thus seen that when we +take a comprehensive survey of all these phenomena a somewhat general +formula will alone cover them. Our conclusion so far must be that under +certain abnormal circumstances pain, more especially the mental +representation of pain, acts as a powerful sexual stimulant.</p> + +<p>The reader, however, who has followed the discussion to this point will be +prepared to take the next and final step in our discussion and to reach a +more definite conclusion. The <a name='3_Page_172'></a>question naturally arises: By what process +does pain or its mental representation thus act as a sexual stimulant? The +answer has over and over again been suggested by the facts brought forward +in this study. Pain acts as a sexual stimulant because it is the most +powerful of all methods for arousing emotion.</p> + +<p>The two emotions most intimately associated with pain are anger and fear. +The more masculine and sthenic emotion of anger, the more passive and +asthenic emotion of fear, are the fundamental animal emotions through +which, on the psychic side, the process of natural selection largely +works. Every animal in some degree owes its survival to the emotional +reaction of anger against weaker rivals, to the emotional reaction of fear +against stronger rivals. To this cause we owe it that these two emotions +are so powerfully and deeply rooted in the whole zoölogical series to +which we belong. But anger and fear are not less fundamental in the sexual +life. Courtship on the male's part is largely a display of combativity, +and even the very gestures by which the male seeks to appeal to the female +are often those gestures of angry hostility by which he seeks to +intimidate enemies. On the female's part courtship is a skillful +manipulation of her own fears, and, as we have seen elsewhere, when +studying the phenomena of modesty, that fundamental attitude of the female +in courtship is nothing but an agglomeration of fears.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The biological significance of the emotions is now well + recognized. "In general," remarks one of the shrewdest writers on + animal psychology, "we may say that emotional states are, under + natural conditions, closely associated with behavior of + biological value—with tendencies that are beneficial in + self-preservation and race preservation—with actions that + promote survival, and especially with the behavior which clusters + round the pairing and parental instincts. The value of the + emotions in animals is that they are an indirect means of + furthering survival." (Lloyd Morgan, <i>Animal Behavior</i>, p. 293.) + Emotional aptitudes persist not only by virtue of the fact that + they are still beneficial, but because they once were; that is to + say, they may exist as survivals. In this connection I may quote + from a suggestive paper on "Teasing and Bullying," by F. L. Burk; + at the conclusion of this study, <a name='3_Page_173'></a>which is founded on a large + body of data concerning American children, the author asks: + "Accepting for the moment the theories of Spencer and Ribot upon + the transmission of rudimentary instincts, is it possible that + the movements which comprise the chief elements of bullying, + teasing, and the egotistic impulses in general of the classes + cited—pursuing, throwing down, punching, striking, throwing + missiles, etc.—are, from the standpoint of consciousness, broken + neurological fragments, which are parts of old chains of activity + involved in the pursuit, combat, capture, torture, and killing of + men and enemies?... Is not this hypothesis of transmitted + fragments of instincts in accord with the strangely anomalous + fact that children are at one moment seemingly cruel and at the + next affectionate and kind, vibrating, as it were, between two + worlds, egotistic and altruistic, without conscious sense of + incongruity?" (F. L. Burk, "Teasing and Bullying," <i>Pedagogical + Seminary</i>, April, 1897.)</p> + +<p> The primitive connection of the special emotions of anger and + fear with the sexual impulse has been well expressed by Colin + Scott in his remarkable study of "Sex and Art": "If the higher + forms of courting are based on combat, among the males at least + anger must be intimately associated with love. And below both of + these lies the possibility of fear. In combat the animal is + defeated who is first afraid. Competitive exhibition of prowess + will inspire the less able birds with a deterring fear. Young + grouse and woodcock do not enter the lists with the older birds, + and sing very quietly. It is the same with the very oldest birds. + Audubon says that the old maids and bachelors of the Canada goose + move off by themselves during the courting of the younger birds. + In order to succeed in love, fear must be overcome in the male as + well as in the female. Courage is the essential male virtue, love + is its outcome and reward. The strutting, crowing, dancing, and + singing of male birds and the preliminary movements generally of + animals must gorge the neuromotor and muscular systems with blood + and put them in better fighting trim. The effects of this upon + the feelings of the animal himself must be very great. Hereditary + tendencies swell his heart. He has 'the joy that warriors feel.' + He becomes regardless of danger, and sometimes almost oblivious + of his surroundings. This intense passionateness must react + powerfully on the whole system, and more particularly on those + parts which are capable, such as the brain, of using up a great + surplus of blood, and on the naturally erethic functions of sex. + The flood of anger or fighting instinct is drained off by the + sexual desires, the antipathy of the female is overcome, and + sexual union successfully ensues.... Courting and combat shade + into one another, courting tending to take the place of the more + basal form of combat. The passions which thus come to be + associated with love are <a name='3_Page_174'></a>those of fear and anger, both of which, + by arousing the whole nature and stimulating the nutritive + sources from which they flow, come to increase the force of the + sexual passion to which they lead up and in which they culminate + and are absorbed," (Colin Scott, "Sex and Art," <i>American Journal + of Psychology</i>, vol. vii, No. 2, pp. 170 and 215.)</p> + +<p> It must be remembered that fear is an element liable to arise in + all courtship on one side or the other. It is usually on the side + of the female, but not invariably. Among spiders, for instance, + it is usually the male who feels fear, and very reasonably, for + he is much weaker than the female. "Courtship by the male spider" + says T. H. Montgomery ("The Courtship of Araneads," <i>American + Naturalist</i>, March, 1910, p. 166), "results from a combination of + the state of desire for and fear of the female." It is by his + movements of fear that he advertises himself to the female as a + male, and it is by the same movements that he is unconsciously + impelled to display prominently his own ornamentation. </p></div> + +<p>We are thus brought to those essential facts of primitive courtship with +which we started. But we are now able to understand more clearly how it is +that alien emotional states became abnormally associated with the sexual +life. Normally the sexual impulse is sufficiently reinforced by the +ordinary active energies of the organism which courtship itself arouses, +energies which, while they may be ultimately in part founded on anger and +fear, rarely allow these emotions to be otherwise than latent. Motion, it +may be said, is more prominent than emotion.</p> + +<p>Even normally a stimulant to emotional activities is pleasurable, just as +motion itself is pleasurable. It may even be useful, as was noted long ago +by Erasmus Darwin; he tells of a friend of his who, when painfully +fatigued by riding, would call up ideas arousing indignation, and thus +relieve the fatigue, the indignation, as Darwin pointed out, increasing +muscular activity.<a name='3_FNanchor_136'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_136'><sup>[136]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is owing to this stimulating action that discomfort, even pain, may be +welcomed on account of the emotional waves they call up, because they +"lash into movement the dreary calm of the sea's soul," and produce that +alternation of pain and <a name='3_Page_175'></a>enjoyment for which Faust longed. Groos, who +recalls this passage in his very thorough and profound discussion of the +region wherein tragedy has its psychological roots, points out that it is +the overwhelming might of the storm itself, and not the peace of calm +after the storm, which appeals to us. In the same way, he observes, even +surprise and shock may also be pleasurable, and fear, though the most +depressing of emotional states, by virtue of the joy produced by strong +stimuli is felt as attractive; we not only experience an impulse of +pleasure in dominating our environment, but also have pleasure in being +dominated and rendered helpless by a higher power.<a name='3_FNanchor_137'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_137'><sup>[137]</sup></a> Hirn, again, in +his work on the origins of art, has an interesting chapter on "The +Enjoyment of Pain," a phenomenon which he explains by its resultant +reactions in increase of outward activity, of motor excitement. Anger, he +observes elsewhere, is "in its active stage a decidedly pleasurable +emotion. Fear, which in its initial stage is paralyzing and depressing, +often changes in time when the first shock has been relieved by motor +reaction.... Anger, fear, sorrow, notwithstanding their distinctly painful +initial stage, are often not only not avoided, but even deliberately +sought."<a name='3_FNanchor_138'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_138'><sup>[138]</sup></a></p> + +<p>In the ordinary healthy organism, however, although the stimulants of +strong emotion may be vaguely pleasurable, they do not have more than a +general action on the sexual sphere, nor are they required for the due +action of the sexual mechanism. But in a slightly abnormal +organism—whether the anomaly is due to a congenital neuropathic +condition, or to a possibly acquired neurasthenic condition, or merely to +the physiological inadequacy of childhood or old age—the balance <a name='3_Page_176'></a>of +nervous energy is less favorable for the adequate play of the ordinary +energies in courtship. The sexual impulse is itself usually weaker, even +when, as often happens, its irritability assumes the fallacious appearance +of strength. It has become unusually sensitive to unusual stimuli and +also, it is possible,—perhaps as a result of those conditions,—more +liable to atavistic manifestations. An organism in this state becomes +peculiarly apt to seize on the automatic sources of energy generated by +emotion. The parched sexual instinct greedily drinks up and absorbs the +force it obtains by applying abnormal stimuli to its emotional apparatus. +It becomes largely, if not solely, dependent on the energy thus secured. +The abnormal organism in this respect may become as dependent on anger or +fear, and for the same reason, as in other respects it may become +dependent on alcohol.</p> + +<p>We see the process very well illustrated by the occasional action of the +emotion of anger. In animals the connection between love and anger is so +close that even normally, as Groos points out, in some birds the sight of +an enemy may call out the gestures of courtship.<a name='3_FNanchor_139'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_139'><sup>[139]</sup></a> As Krafft-Ebing +remarks, both love and anger "seek their object, try to possess themselves +of it, and naturally exhaust themselves in a physical effect on it; both +throw the psychomotor sphere into the most intense excitement, and by +means of this excitement reach their normal expression."<a name='3_FNanchor_140'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_140'><sup>[140]</sup></a> Féré has +well remarked that the impatience of desire may itself be regarded as a +true state of anger, and Stanley Hall, in his admirable study of anger, +notes that "erethism of the breasts or sexual parts" was among the +physical manifestations of anger occurring in some of his cases, and in +one case a seminal emission accompanied every violent outburst.<a name='3_FNanchor_141'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_141'><sup>[141]</sup></a> Thus +it is that anger may be used to reinforce a <a name='3_Page_177'></a>weak sexual impulse, and +cases have been recorded in which coitus could only be performed when the +man had succeeded in working himself up into an artificial state of +anger.<a name='3_FNanchor_142'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_142'><sup>[142]</sup></a> On the other hand, Féré has recorded a case in which the +sexual excitement accompanying delayed orgasm was always transformed into +anger, though without any true sadistic manifestations.<a name='3_FNanchor_143'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_143'><sup>[143]</sup></a></p> + +<p>As a not unexpected complementary phenomenon to this connection of anger +and sexual emotion in the male, it is sometimes found that the spectacle +of masculine anger excites pleasurable emotion in women. The case has been +recorded of a woman who delighted in arousing anger for the pleasure it +gave her, and who advised another woman to follow her example and excite +her husband's anger, as nothing was so enjoyable as to see a man in a fury +of rage<a name='3_FNanchor_144'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_144'><sup>[144]</sup></a>; Lombroso mentions a woman who was mostly frigid, but +experienced sexual feelings when she heard anyone swearing; and a medical +friend tells me of a lady considerably past middle age who experienced +sexual erethism after listening to a heated argument between her husband +and a friend on religious topics. The case has also been recorded of a +masochistic man who found sexual satisfaction in masturbating while a +woman, by his instructions, addressed him in the lowest possible terms of +abuse.<a name='3_FNanchor_145'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_145'><sup>[145]</sup></a> Such a feeling doubtless underlies that delight in teasing men +which is so common among young women. Stanley Hall, referring to the +almost morbid dread of witnessing manifestations of anger felt by many +women, remarks: "In animals, females are often described as watching with +complacency the conflict of rival males for their possession, and it seems +probable that the <a name='3_Page_178'></a>intense horror of this state, which many females +report, is associated more or less unconsciously with the sexual rage +which has followed it."<a name='3_FNanchor_146'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_146'><sup>[146]</sup></a> The dread may well be felt at least as much +as regards the emotional state in themselves as in the males.</p> + +<p>Even when the emotion aroused is disgust it may still act as a sexual +stimulant. Stcherbak has narrated the instructive case of a very +intelligent and elegant married lady of rather delicate constitution, an +artist of some talent, who never experienced any pleasure in sexual +intercourse, but ever since sexual feelings first began to be manifested +at all (at the age of 18) has only experienced them in relation to +disgusting things. Anything that is repulsive, like vomit, etc., causes +vague but pleasurable feelings which she gradually came to recognize as +sexual. The sight of a crushed frog will cause very definite sexual +sensations. She has had many admirers and she has observed that a +declaration of love by a disagreeable or even repulsive man sexually +excites her, though she has no desire for sexual intercourse with +him.<a name='3_FNanchor_147'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_147'><sup>[147]</sup></a></p> + +<p>After all that has gone before it is easy to see how the emotion of fear +may act in an analogous manner to anger. Just as anger may reinforce the +active forms of the sexual impulse to which it is allied, so fear may +reinforce the passive forms of that impulse. The following observations, +written by a lady, very well show how we may thus explain the sexual +attractiveness of whipping: "The fascination of whipping, which has always +greatly puzzled me, seems to be a sort of hankering after the stimulus of +fear. In a wild state animals live in constant fear. In civilized life one +but rarely feels it. A woman's pleasure in being afraid of a husband or +lover may be an equivalent of a man's love of adventure; and the fear of +children for their parents may be the dawning of the love of adventure. In +a woman this desire of adventure receives a serious check when she begins +to realize what she might be <a name='3_Page_179'></a>subjected to by a man if she gratified it. +Excessive fear is demoralizing, but it seems to me that the idea of being +whipped gives a sense of fear which is not excessive. It is almost the +only kind of pain (physical) which is inflicted on children or women by +persons whom they can love and trust, and with a moral object. Any other +kind of bodily ill treatment suggests malignity and may rouse resentment, +and, in extreme cases, an excess of fear which goes beyond the limits of +pleasurable excitement. Given a hereditary feeling of this sort, I think +it is helped by the want of actual experience, as the association with +excitement is freed from the idea of pain as such." In his very valuable +and suggestive study of fears, Stanley Hall, while recognizing the evil of +excessive fear, has emphasized the emotional and even the intellectual +benefits of fear, and the great part played by fear in the evolution of +the race as "the rudimentary organ on the full development and subsequent +reduction of which many of the best things in the soul are dependent." +"Fears that paralyze some brains," he remarks, "are a good tonic for +others. In some form and degree all need it always. Without the fear +apparatus in us, what a wealth of motive would be lost!"<a name='3_FNanchor_148'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_148'><sup>[148]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is on the basis of this tonic influence of fear that in some morbidly +sensitive natures fear acts as a sexual stimulant. Cullerre has brought +together a number of cases in both men and women, mostly neurasthenic, in +which fits of extreme anxiety and dread, sometimes of a religious +character and often in highly moral people, terminate in spontaneous +orgasm or in masturbation.<a name='3_FNanchor_149'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_149'><sup>[149]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Professor Gurlitt mentions that his first full sexual emission took place +in class at school, when he was absorbed in writing out the life of +Aristides and very anxious lest he should not be able to complete it +within the set time.<a name='3_FNanchor_150'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_150'><sup>[150]</sup></a> </p><a name='3_Page_180'></a> + +<p>Dread and anxiety not only excite sexual emotion, but in the more extreme +morbid cases they may suppress and replace it. Terror, say Fliess, is +transmuted coitus, and Freud believes that the neurosis of anxiety always +has a sexual cause, while Ballet, Capgras, Löwenfeld, and others, though +not regarding a sexual traumatism as the only cause, still regard it as +frequent.</p> + +<p>It is worthy of note that not only fear, but even so depressing an emotion +as grief, may act as a sexual stimulant, more especially in women. This +fact is not sufficiently recognized, though probably everyone can recall +instances from his personal knowledge, such cases being generally regarded +as inexplicable. It is, however, not more surprising that grief should be +transformed into sexual emotion than that (as in a case recorded by +Stanley Hall) it should manifest itself as anger. In any case we have to +bear in mind the frequency of this psychological transformation in the +presence of cases which might otherwise seem to call for a cynical +interpretation.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The case has been recorded of an English lady of good social + position who fell in love with an undertaker at her father's + funeral and insisted on marrying him. It is known that some men + have been so abnormally excited by the funeral trappings of death + that only in such surroundings have they been able to effect + coitus. A case has been recorded of a physician of unimpeachable + morality who was unable to attend funerals, even of his own + relatives, on account of the sexual excitement thus aroused. + Funerals, tragedies at the theater, pictures of martyrdom, scenes + of execution, and trials at the law-courts have been grouped + together as arousing pleasure in many people, especially women. + (C. F. von Schlichtegroll, <i>Sacher-Masoch und der Masochismus</i>, + pp. 30-31.) Wakes and similar festivals may here find their + psychological basis, and funerals are an unquestionable source of + enjoyment among some people, especially of so-called "Celtic" + race. The stimulating reaction after funerals is well known to + many, and Leigh Hunt refers to this (in his <i>Autobiography</i>) as + affecting the sincerely devoted friends who had just cremated + Shelley.</p><a name='3_Page_181'></a> + +<p> It may well be, as Kiernan has argued (<i>Alienist and + Neurologist</i>, 1891; <i>ibid.</i>, 1902, p. 263), that in the + disturbance of emotional balance caused by grief the primitive + instincts become peculiarly apt to respond to stimulus, and that + in the aboulia of grief the mind is specially liable to become + the prey to obsessions.</p> + +<p> "When my child died at the age of 6 months," a correspondent + writes, "I had a violent paroxysm of weeping and for some days I + could not eat. When I kissed the dead boy for the last time (I + had never seen a corpse before) I felt I had reached the depths + of misery and could never smile or have any deep emotions again. + Yet that night, though my thoughts had not strayed to sexual + subjects since the child's death, I had a violent erection. I + felt ashamed to desire carnal things when my dead child was still + in the house, and explained to my wife. She was sympathetic, for + her idea was that our common grief had intensified my love for + her. I feel convinced, however, that my desire was the result of + a stimulus propagated to the sexual centers from the centers + affected by my grief, the transference of my emotion from one set + of nerves to another. I do not perhaps express my meaning + clearly."</p> + +<p> How far the emotional influence of grief entered into the + following episode it is impossible to say, for here it is + probable that we are mainly concerned with one of those almost + irresistible impulses by which adolescent girls are sometimes + overcome. The narrative is from the lips of a reliable witness, a + railway guard, who, some thirty years ago, when a youth of 18, in + Cornwall, lodged with a man and woman who had a daughter of his + own age. Some months later, when requiring a night's lodging, he + called at the house, and was greeted warmly by the woman, who + told him her husband had just died and that she and her daughter + were very nervous and would be glad if he would stay the night, + but that as the corpse occupied the other bedroom he would have + to share their bed ("We don't think very much of that among us," + my informant added). He agreed, and went to bed, and when, a + little later, the two women also came to bed, the girl, at her + own suggestion, lay next to the youth. Nothing happened during + the night, but in the morning, when the mother went down to light + the fire, the daughter immediately threw off the bedclothes, + exposing her naked person, and before the youth had realized what + was happening she had drawn him over on to her. He was so utterly + surprised that nothing whatever happened, but the incident made a + life-long impression on him.</p> + +<p> In this connection reference may be made to the story of the + Ephesian matron in Petronius; the story of the widow, overcome by + grief, who watches by her husband's tomb, and very speedily falls + into the arms of the soldier who is on guard. This story, in very + various <a name='3_Page_182'></a>forms, is found in China and India, and has occurred + repeatedly in European literature during the last two thousand + years. The history of the wanderings of this story has been told + by Grisebach (Eduard Grisebach, <i>Die Treulose Witwe</i>, third + edition, 1877). It is not probable, however, that all the stories + of this type are actually related; in any case it would seem that + their vitality is due to the fact that they have been found to + show a real correspondence to life; one may note, for instance, + the curious tone of personal emotion with which George Chapman + treated this theme in his play, <i>Widow's Tears</i>. </p></div> + +<p>It may be added that, in explaining the resort to pain as an emotional +stimulus, we have to take into account not only the biological and +psychological considerations here brought forward, but also the abnormal +physiological conditions under which stimuli usually felt as painful come +specially to possess a sexually exciting influence. The neurasthenic and +neuropathic states may be regarded as conditions of more or less permanent +fatigue. It is true that under the conditions we are considering there may +be an extreme sensitiveness to stimuli not usually felt as of sexual +character, a kind of hyperesthesia; but hyperesthesia, it has well been +said, is nothing but the beginning of anesthesia.<a name='3_FNanchor_151'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_151'><sup>[151]</sup></a> Sergeant Bertrand, +the classical example of necrophily,<a name='3_FNanchor_152'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_152'><sup>[152]</sup></a> began to masturbate at the age +of 9, stimulating a sexual impulse which may have been congenitally feeble +by accompanying thoughts of ill-treating women. It was not till +subsequently that he began to imagine that the women were corpses. The +sadistic thoughts were only incidents in the emotional evolution, and the +real object throughout was to procure strong emotion and not to inflict +cruelty. Some observations of Féré's as to the conditions which influence +the amount of muscular work accomplished with the ergograph are +instructive from the present point of view: "Although sensibility +diminishes in the course of fatigue," Féré found that "there are periods +during which the excitability increases before it disappears. As fatigue +increases, the perception of the intercurrent <a name='3_Page_183'></a>excitation is retarded; an +odor is perceived as exciting before it is perceived as a differentiated +sensation; the most fetid odors arouse feelings of well-being before being +perceived as odors, and their painful quality only appears afterward, or +is not noticed at all." And after recording a series of results with the +ergograph obtained under the stimulus of unpleasant odors he remarks: "We +are thus struck by two facts: the diminution of work during painful +excitation, and its increase when the excitation has ceased. When the +effects following the excitation have disappeared the diminution is more +rapid than in the ordinary state. When the fatigue is manifested by a +notable diminution, if the same excitation is brought into action again, +no diminution is produced, but a more or less durable increase, exactly as +though there had been an agreeable excitation. Moreover, the stimulus +which appears painful in a state of repose loses that painful character +either partially or completely when acting on the same subject in a more +and more fatigued state." Féré defines a painful stimulus as a strong +excitation which causes displays of energy which the will cannot utilize; +when, as a result of diminished sensibility, the excitants are attenuated, +the will can utilize them, and so there is no pain.<a name='3_FNanchor_153'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_153'><sup>[153]</sup></a> These experiments +had no reference to the sexual instinct, but it will be seen at once that +they have an extremely significant bearing on the subject before us, for +they show us the mechanism of the process by which in an abnormal organism +pain becomes a sexual stimulant.</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='3_Footnote_136'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_136'>[136]</a><div class='note'><p> Erasmus Darwin, <i>Zoönomia</i>, vol. i, p. 496.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_137'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_137'>[137]</a><div class='note'><p> K. Groos, <i>Spiele der Menschen</i>, pp. 200-210.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_138'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_138'>[138]</a><div class='note'><p> Hirn, <i>Origins of Art</i>, p. 54. Reference may here perhaps +be made to the fact that unpleasant memories persist in women more than in +men (<i>American Journal of Psychology</i>, 1899, p. 244). This had already +been pointed out by Coleridge. "It is a remark that I have made many +times," we find it said in one of his fragments (<i>Anima Poetæ</i>, p. 89), +"and many times, I guess, shall repeat, that women are infinitely fonder +of clinging to and beating about, hanging upon and keeping up, and +reluctantly letting fall any doleful or painful or unpleasant subject, +than men of the same class and rank."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_139'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_139'>[139]</a><div class='note'><p> Groos, <i>Spiele der Thiere</i>, p. 251. Maeder (<i>Jahrbuch für +Psychoanalytische Forschungen</i>, 1909, vol. i, p. 149) mentions an +epileptic girl of 22 who masturbates when she is in a rage with anyone.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_140'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_140'>[140]</a><div class='note'><p> Krafft-Ebing, <i>Psychopathia Sexualis</i>, English translation +of tenth edition, p. 78.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_141'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_141'>[141]</a><div class='note'><p> Stanley Hall, "A Study of Anger," <i>American Journal of +Psychology</i>, July, 1899, p. 549.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_142'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_142'>[142]</a><div class='note'><p> Krafft-Ebing refers to such a case as recorded by Schulz, +<i>Psychopathia Sexualis</i>, p. 78.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_143'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_143'>[143]</a><div class='note'><p> Féré, <i>L'Instinct sexuel</i>, p. 213.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_144'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_144'>[144]</a><div class='note'><p> C. F. von Schlichtegroll, <i>Sacher-Masoch und der +Masochismus</i>, p. 31.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_145'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_145'>[145]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Archivio di Psichiatria</i>, vol. xv, p. 120. Mention may +also be made of the cases (described as hysterical mixoscopia by Kiernan, +<i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, May, 1903) in which young women address to +themselves anonymous letters of an abusive and disgusting character, and +show them to others.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_146'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_146'>[146]</a><div class='note'><p> Stanley Hall, <i>loc. cit.</i>, p. 587.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_147'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_147'>[147]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Archives de Neurologie</i>, Oct., 1907.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_148'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_148'>[148]</a><div class='note'><p> G. Stanley Hall, "A Study of Fears," <i>American Journal of +Psychology</i>, vol. viii, No. 2.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_149'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_149'>[149]</a><div class='note'><p> A. Cullerre, "De l'Excitation Sexuelle dans les +Psychopathies Anxieuses," <i>Archives de Neurologie</i>, Feb., 1905.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_150'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_150'>[150]</a><div class='note'><p> L. Gurlitt (<i>Die Neue Generation</i>, July, 1909). Moll +(<i>Sexualleben des Kindes</i>, p. 84) also give examples of the connection +between anxiety and sexual excitement. Freud (<i>Der Wahn und die Traüme in +Jensen's Gradiva</i>, p. 52) considers that in dream-interpretation we may +replace "terror" by "sexual excitement." In noting the general sexual +effects of fear, we need not strictly separate the group of cases in which +the sexual effects are physical only, and fail to be circuited through the +brain.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_151'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_151'>[151]</a><div class='note'><p> See the article on "Neurasthenia" by Rudolf Arndt in Tuke's +<i>Dictionary of Psychological Medicine</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_152'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_152'>[152]</a><div class='note'><p> Lunier, <i>Annales Médico-psychologiques</i>, 1849, p. 153.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_153'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_153'>[153]</a><div class='note'><p> Féré, <i>Comptes-rendus de la Société de Biologie</i>, December +15 and 22, 1900; <i>id.</i>, <i>Année Psychologique</i>, seventh year, 1901, pp. +82-129; more especially the same author's <i>Travail et Plaisir</i>, 1904.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_L_VII'></a><h3><a name='3_Page_184'></a>VII.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Summary of Results Reached—The Joy of Emotional Expansion—The +Satisfaction of the Craving for Power—The Influence of Neurasthenic and +Neuropathic Conditions—The Problem of Pain in Love Largely Constitutes a +Special Case of Erotic Symbolism.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>It may seem to some that in our discussion of the relationships of love +and pain we have covered a very wide field. This was inevitable. The +subject is peculiarly difficult and complex, and if we are to gain a real +insight into its nature we must not attempt to force the facts to fit into +any narrow and artificial formulas of our own construction. Yet, as we +have unraveled this seemingly confused mass of phenomena it will not have +escaped the careful reader that the apparently diverse threads we have +disentangled run in a parallel and uniform manner; they all have a like +source and they all converge to a like result. We have seen that the +starting-point of the whole group of manifestations must be found in the +essential facts of courtship among animal and primitive human societies. +Pain is seldom very far from some of the phases of primitive courtship; +but it is not the pain which is the essential element in courtship, it is +the state of intense emotion, of tumescence, with which at any moment, in +some shape or another, pain may, in some way or another, be brought into +connection. So that we have come to see that in the phrase "love and pain" +we have to understand by "pain" a state of intense emotional excitement +with which pain in the stricter sense may be associated, but is by no +means necessarily associated. It is the strong emotion which exerts the +irresistible fascination in the lover, in his partner, or in both. The +pain is merely the means to that end. It is the lever which is employed to +bring the emotional force to bear on the sexual <a name='3_Page_185'></a>impulse. The question of +love and pain is mainly a question of emotional dynamics.</p> + +<p>In attaining this view of our subject we have learned that any impulse of +true cruelty is almost outside the field altogether. The mistake was +indeed obvious and inevitable. Let us suppose that every musical +instrument is sensitive and that every musical performance involves the +infliction of pain on the instrument. It would then be very difficult +indeed to realize that the pleasure of music lies by no means in the +infliction of pain. We should certainly find would-be scientific and +analytical people ready to declare that the pleasure of music is the +pleasure of giving pain, and that the emotional effects of music are due +to the pain thus inflicted. In algolagnia, as in music, it is not cruelty +that is sought; it is the joy of being plunged among the waves of that +great primitive ocean of emotions which underlies the variegated world of +our everyday lives, and pain—a pain which, as we have seen, is often +deprived so far as possible of cruelty, though sometimes by very thin and +feeble devices—is merely the channel by which that ocean is reached.</p> + +<p>If we try to carry our inquiry beyond the point we have been content to +reach, and ask ourselves why this emotional intoxication exerts so +irresistible a fascination, we might find a final reply in the explanation +of Nietzsche—who regarded this kind of intoxication as of great +significance both in life and in art—that it gives us the consciousness +of energy and the satisfaction of our craving for power.<a name='3_FNanchor_154'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_154'><sup>[154]</sup></a> To carry the +inquiry to this point would be, however, to take it into a somewhat +speculative and metaphysical region, and we have perhaps done well not to +attempt to analyze further the joy of emotional expansion. We must be +content to regard the profound satisfaction <a name='3_Page_186'></a>of emotion as due to a +widespread motor excitement, the elements of which we cannot yet +completely analyze.<a name='3_FNanchor_155'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_155'><sup>[155]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is because the joy of emotional intoxication is the end really sought +that we have to regard the supposed opposition between "sadism" and +"masochism" as unimportant and indeed misleading. The emotional value of +pain is equally great whether the pain is inflicted, suffered, witnessed, +or merely exists as a mental imagination, and there is no reason why it +should not coexist in all these forms in the same person, as, in fact, we +frequently find it.</p> + +<p>The particular emotions which are invoked by pain to reinforce the sexual +impulse are more especially anger and fear, and, as we have seen, these +two very powerful and primitive emotions are—on the active and passive +sides, respectively—the emotions most constantly brought into play in +animal and early human courtship; so that they naturally constitute the +emotional reservoirs from which the sexual impulse may still most easily +draw. It is not difficult to show that the various forms in which +"pain"—as we must here understand pain—is employed in the service of the +sexual impulse are mainly manifestations or transformations of anger or +fear, either in their simple or usually more complex forms, in some of +which anger and fear may be mingled.</p> + +<p>We thus accept the biological origin of the psychological association +between love and pain; it is traceable to the phenomena of animal +courtship. We do not on this account exclude the more direct physiological +factor. It may seem surprising that manifestations that have their origin +in primeval <a name='3_Page_187'></a>forms of courtship should in many cases coincide with actual +sensations of definite anatomical base today, and still more surprising +that these traditional manifestations and actual sensations should so +often be complementary to each other in their active and passive aspects: +that is to say, that the pleasure of whipping should be matched by the +pleasure of being whipped, the pleasure of mock strangling by the pleasure +of being so strangled, that pain inflicted is not more desirable than pain +suffered. But such coincidence is of the very essence of the whole group +of phenomena. The manifestations of courtship were from the first +conditioned by physiological facts; it is not strange that they should +always tend to run <i>pari passu</i> with physiological facts. The +manifestations which failed to find anchorage in physiological +relationships might well tend to die out. Even under the most normal +circumstances, in healthy persons of healthy heredity, the manifestations +we have been considering are liable to make themselves felt. Under such +circumstances, however, they never become of the first importance in the +sexual process; they are often little more than play. It is only under +neurasthenic or neuropathic conditions—that is to say, in an organism +which from acquired or congenital causes, and usually perhaps both, has +become enfeebled, irritable, "fatigued"—that these manifestations are +liable to flourish vigorously, to come to the forefront of sexual +consciousness, and even to attain such seriously urgent importance that +they may in themselves constitute the entire end and aim of sexual desire. +Under these pathological conditions, pain, in the broad and special sense +in which we have been obliged to define it, becomes a welcome tonic and a +more or less indispensable stimulant to the sexual system.</p> + +<p>It will not have escaped the careful reader that in following out our +subject we have sometimes been brought into contact with manifestations +which scarcely seem to come within any definition of pain. This is +undoubtedly so, and the references to these manifestations were not +accidental, for they serve to indicate the real bearings of our subject. +The relationships <a name='3_Page_188'></a>of love and pain constitute a subject at once of so +much gravity and so much psychological significance that it was well to +devote to them a special study. But pain, as we have here to understand +it, largely constitutes a special case of what we shall later learn to +know as erotic symbolism: that is to say, the psychic condition in which a +part of the sexual process, a single idea or group of ideas, tends to +assume unusual importance, or even to occupy the whole field of sexual +consciousness, the part becoming a symbol that stands for the whole. When +we come to the discussion of this great group of abnormal sexual +manifestations it will frequently be necessary to refer to the results we +have reached in studying the sexual significance of pain.</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='3_Footnote_154'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_154'>[154]</a><div class='note'><p> See, for instance, the section "Zur Physiologie der Kunst" +in Nietzsche's fragmentary work, <i>Der Wille zur Macht</i>, Werke, Bd. xv. +Groos (<i>Spiele der Menschen</i>, p. 89) refers to the significance of the +fact that nearly all races have special methods of procuring intoxication. +<i>Cf.</i> Partridge's study of the psychology of alcohol (<i>American Journal of +Psychology</i>, April, 1900). "It is hard to imagine," this writer remarks of +intoxicants, "what the religious or social consciousness of primitive man +would have been without them."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_155'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_155'>[155]</a><div class='note'><p> The muscular element is the most conspicuous in emotion, +though it is not possible, as a careful student of the emotions (H. R. +Marshall, <i>Pain, Pleasure, and Æsthetics</i>, p. 84) well points out, "to +limit the physical activities involved with the emotions to such effects +of voluntary innervation or alteration of size of blood-vessels or spasm +of organic muscle, as Lange seems to think determines them; nor to +increase or decrease of muscle-power, as Féré's results might suggest; nor +to such changes, in relation of size of capillaries, in voluntary +innervation, in respiratory and heart functioning, as Lehmann has +observed. Emotions seem to me to be coincidents of reactions of the whole +organism tending to certain results."</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_THE_SEXUAL_IMPULSE_IN_WOMEN'></a><h2><a name='3_Page_189'></a>THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN WOMEN.</h2> +<br /> + +<p>A special and detailed study of the normal characters of the sexual +impulse in men seems unnecessary. I have elsewhere discussed various +aspects of the male sexual impulse, and others remain for later +discussion. But to deal with it broadly as a whole seems unnecessary, if +only because it is predominantly open and aggressive. Moreover, since the +constitution of society has largely been in the hands of men, the nature +of the sexual impulse in men has largely been expressed in the written and +unwritten codes of social law. The sexual instinct in women is much more +elusive. This, indeed, is involved at the outset in the organic +psychological play of male and female, manifesting itself in the phenomena +of modesty and courting. The same elusiveness, the same mocking mystery, +meet us throughout when we seek to investigate the manifestations of the +sexual impulse in women. Nor is it easy to find any full and authentic +record of a social state clearly founded in sexual matters on the demands +of woman's nature.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>An illustration of our ignorance and bias in these matters is + furnished by the relationship of marriage, celibacy, and divorce + to suicide in the two sexes. There can be no doubt that the + sexual emotions of women have a profound influence in determining + suicide. This is indicated, among other facts, by a comparison of + the suicide-rate in the sexes according to age; while in men the + frequency of suicide increases progressively throughout life, in + women there is an arrest after the age of 30; that is to say, + when the period of most intense sexual emotion has been passed. + This phenomenon is witnessed among peoples so unlike as the + French, the Prussians, and the Italians. Now, how do marriage and + divorce affect the sexual liability to suicide? We are always + accustomed to say that marriage protects women, and it is even + asserted that men have self-sacrificingly maintained the + institution of marriage mainly for the benefit of women. + Professor Durkheim, however, who has studied suicide elaborately + from the sociological standpoint, so far as possible eliminating + fallacies, has in recent years thrown considerable doubt on the + current assumption. He shows that <a name='3_Page_190'></a>if we take the tendency to + suicide as a test, and eliminate the influence of children, who + are an undoubted protection to women, it is not women, but men, + who are protected by marriage, and that the protection of women + from suicide increases regularly as divorces increase. After + discussing these points exhaustively, "we reach a conclusion," he + states, "considerably removed from the current view of marriage + and the part it plays. It is regarded as having been instituted + for the sake of the wife and to protect her weakness against + masculine caprices. Monogamy, especially, is very often presented + as a sacrifice of man's polygamous instincts, made in order to + ameliorate the condition of woman in marriage. In reality, + whatever may have been the historical causes which determined + this restriction, it is man who has profited most. The liberty + which he has thus renounced could only have been a source of + torment to him. Woman had not the same reasons for abandoning + freedom, and from this point of view we may say that in + submitting to the same rule it is she who has made the + sacrifice." (E. Durkheim, <i>Le Suicide</i>, 1897, pp. 186-214, + 289-311.)</p> + +<p> There is possibly some significance in the varying incidence of + insanity in unmarried men and unmarried women as compared with + the married. At Erlangen, for example, Hagen found that among + insane women the preponderance of the single over the married is + not nearly so great as among insane men, marriage appearing to + exert a much more marked prophylactic influence in the case of + men than of women. (F. W. Hagen, <i>Statistische Untersuchungen über + Geisteskrankheiten</i>, 1876, p. 153.) The phenomena are here, + however, highly complex, and, as Hagen himself points out, the + prophylactic influence of marriage, while very probable, is not + the only or even the chief factor at work.</p> + +<p> It is worth noting that exactly the same sexual difference may be + traced in England. It appears that, in ratio to similar groups in + the general population (taking the years 1876-1900, inclusive), + the number of admissions to asylums is the same for both sexes + among married people (<i>i.e.</i>, 8.5), but for the single it is + larger among the men (4.8 to 4.5), as also it is among the + widowed (17.9 to 13.9) (<i>Fifty-sixth Annual Report of the + Commissioners in Lunacy, England and Wales</i>, 1902, p. 141). This + would seem to indicate that when living apart from men the + tendency to insanity is less in women, but is raised to the male + level when the sexes live together in marriage.</p> + +<p> Much the same seems to hold true of criminality. It was long + since noted by Horsley that in England marriage decidedly + increases the tendency to crime in women, though it decidedly + decreases it in men. Prinzing has shown (<i>Zeitschrift für + Sozialwissenschaft</i>, Bd. ii, 1899) that this is also the case in + Germany.</p><a name='3_Page_191'></a> + +<p> Similarly marriage decreases the tendency of men to become + habitual drunkards and increases that of women. Notwithstanding + the fact that the average age of the men is greater than that of + the women, the majority of the men admitted to the inebriate + reformatories under the English Inebriates Acts are single; the + majority of the women are married; of 865 women so admitted 32 + per cent, were single, 50 per cent, married, and 18 per cent, + widows. (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, Sept. 2, 1911, p. 518.) </p></div> + +<p>It thus happens that even the elementary characters of the sexual impulse +in women still arouse, even among the most competent physiological and +medical authorities,—not least so when they are themselves women,—the +most divergent opinions. Its very existence even may be said to be +questioned. It would generally be agreed that among men the strength of +the sexual impulse varies within a considerable range, but that it is very +rarely altogether absent, such total absence being abnormal and probably +more or less pathological. But if applied to women, this statement is by +no means always accepted. By many, sexual anesthesia is considered natural +in women, some even declaring that any other opinion would be degrading to +women; even by those who do not hold this opinion it is believed that +there is an unnatural prevalence of sexual frigidity among civilized +women. On these grounds it is desirable to deal generally with this and +other elementary questions of allied character.</p> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_S_I'></a><h3><a name='3_Page_192'></a>I.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Primitive View of Women—As a Supernatural Element in Life—As +Peculiarly Embodying the Sexual Instinct—The Modern Tendency to +Underestimate the Sexual Impulse in Women—This Tendency Confined to +Recent Times—Sexual Anæsthesia—Its Prevalence—Difficulties in +Investigating the Subject—Some Attempts to Investigate it—Sexual +Anesthesia must be Regarded as Abnormal—The Tendency to Spontaneous +Manifestations of the Sexual Impulse in Young Girls at Puberty.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>From very early times it seems possible to trace two streams of opinion +regarding women: on the one hand, a tendency to regard women as a +supernatural element in life, more or less superior to men, and, on the +other hand, a tendency to regard women as especially embodying the sexual +instinct and as peculiarly prone to exhibit its manifestations.</p> + +<p>In the most primitive societies, indeed, the two views seem to be to some +extent amalgamated; or, it should rather be said, they have not yet been +differentiated; and, as in such societies it is usual to venerate the +generative principle of nature and its embodiments in the human body and +in human functions, such a co-ordination of ideas is entirely rational. +But with the development of culture the tendency is for this homogeneous +conception to be split up into two inharmonious tendencies. Even apart +from Christianity and before its advent this may be noted. It was, +however, to Christianity and the Christian ascetic spirit that we owe the +complete differentiation and extreme development which these opposing +views have reached. The condemnation of sexuality involved the +glorification of the virgin; and indifference, even contempt, was felt for +the woman who exercised sexual functions. It remained open to anyone, +according to his own temperament, to identify the typical average woman +with the one or with the other type; all the fund of latent sexual emotion +which no ascetic rule can crush out of the human heart assured the +<a name='3_Page_193'></a>picturesque idealization alike of the angelic and the diabolic types of +woman. We may trace the same influence subtly lurking even in the most +would-be scientific statements of anthropologists and physicians +today.<a name='3_FNanchor_156'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_156'><sup>[156]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It may not be out of place to recall at this point, once more, + the fact, fairly obvious indeed, that the judgments of men + concerning women are very rarely matters of cold scientific + observation, but are colored both by their own sexual emotions + and by their own moral attitude toward the sexual impulse. The + ascetic who is unsuccessfully warring with his own carnal + impulses may (like the voluptuary) see nothing in women but + incarnations of sexual impulse; the ascetic who has subdued his + own carnal impulses may see no elements of sex in women at all. + Thus the opinions regarding this matter are not only tinged by + elements of primitive culture, but by elements of individual + disposition. Statements about the sexual impulses of women often + tell us less about women than about the persons who make them.</p> + +<p> The curious manner in which for men women become incarnations of + the sexual impulse is shown by the tendency of both general and + personal names for women to become applicable to prostitutes + only. This is the case with the words "garce" and "fille" in + French, "Mädchen" and "Dirne" in German, as well as with the + French "catin" (Catherine) and the German "Metze" (Mathilde). + (See, <i>e.g.</i>, R. Kleinpaul, <i>Die Räthsel der Sprache</i>, 1890, pp. + 197-198.)</p> + +<p> At the same time, though we have to recognize the presence of + elements which color and distort in various ways the judgments of + men regarding women, it must not be hastily assumed that these + elements render discussion of the question altogether + unprofitable. In most cases such prejudices lead chiefly to a + one-sided solution of facts, against which we can guard. </p></div> + +<p>While, however, these two opposing currents of opinion are of very ancient +origin, it is only within quite recent times, and only in two or three +countries, that they have led to any marked difference of opinion +regarding the sexual aptitude of women. In ancient times men blamed women +for concupiscence or praised them for chastity, but it seems to have been +reserved for the nineteenth century to state that women are <a name='3_Page_194'></a>apt to be +congenitally incapable of experiencing complete sexual satisfaction, and +peculiarly liable to sexual anesthesia. This idea appears to have been +almost unknown to the eighteenth century. During the last century, +however, and more especially in England, Germany, and Italy, this opinion +has been frequently set down, sometimes even as a matter of course, with a +tincture of contempt or pity for any woman afflicted with sexual emotions.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In the treatise <i>On Generation</i> (chapter v), which until recent + times was commonly ascribed to Hippocrates, it is stated that men + have greater pleasure in coitus than women, though the pleasure + of women lasts longer, and this opinion, though not usually + accepted, was treated with great respect by medical authors down + to the end of the seventeenth century. Thus A. Laurentius (Du + Laurens), after a long discussion, decides that men have stronger + sexual desire and greater pleasure in coitus than women. + (<i>Historia Anatomica Humani Corporis</i>, 1599, lib. viii, quest, ii + and vii.)</p> + +<p> About half a century ago a book entitled <i>Functions and Disorders + of the Reproductive Organs</i>, by W. Acton, a surgeon, passed + through many editions and was popularly regarded as a standard + authority on the subjects with which it deals. This extraordinary + book is almost solely concerned with men; the author evidently + regards the function of reproduction as almost exclusively + appertaining to men. Women, if "well brought up," are, and should + be, he states, in England, absolutely ignorant of all matters + concerning it. "I should say," this author again remarks, "that + the majority of women (happily for society) are not very much + troubled with sexual feeling of any kind." The supposition that + women do possess sexual feelings he considers "a vile aspersion."</p> + +<p> In the article "Generation," contained in another medical work + belonging to the middle of the nineteenth century,—Rees's + <i>Cyclopedia</i>,—we find the following statement: "That a mucous + fluid is sometimes found in coition from the internal organs and + vagina is undoubted; but this only happens in lascivious women, + or such as live luxuriously."</p> + +<p> Gall had stated decisively that the sexual desires of men are + stronger and more imperious than those of women. (<i>Fonctions du + Cerveau</i>, 1825, vol. iii, pp. 241-271.)</p> + +<p> Raciborski declared that three-fourths of women merely endure the + approaches of men. (<i>De la Puberté chez la Femme</i>, 1844, p. 486.)</p> + +<p> "When the question is carefully inquired into and without + prejudice," said Lawson Tait, "it is found that women have their + sexual appetites far less developed than men." (Lawson Tait, + "Remote Effects of Removal of the Uterine Appendages," + <i>Provincial Medical Journal</i>, May, 1891.) "The sexual instinct is + very powerful in man and comparatively <a name='3_Page_195'></a>weak in women," he stated + elsewhere (<i>Diseases of Women</i>, 1889, p. 60).</p> + +<p> Hammond stated that, leaving prostitutes out of consideration, it + is doubtful if in one-tenth of the instances of intercourse they + [women] experience the slightest pleasurable sensation from first + to last (Hammond, <i>Sexual Impotence</i>, p. 300), and he considered + (p. 281) that this condition was sometimes congenital.</p> + +<p> Lombroso and Ferrero consider that sexual sensibility, as well as + all other forms of sensibility, is less pronounced in women, and + they bring forward various facts and opinions which seem to them + to point in the same direction. "Woman is naturally and + organically frigid." At the same time they consider that, while + erethism is less, sexuality is greater than in men. (Lombroso and + Ferrero, <i>La Donna Delinquente, la Prostituta, e la Donna + Normale</i>, 1893, pp. 54-58.)</p> + +<p> "It is an altogether false idea," Fehling declared, in his + rectorial address at the University of Basel in 1891, "that a + young woman has just as strong an impulse to the opposite sex as + a young man.... The appearance of the sexual side in the love of + a young girl is pathological." (H. Fehling, <i>Die Bestimmung der + Frau</i>, 1892, p. 18.) In his <i>Lehrbuch der Frauenkrankheiten</i> the + same gynecological authority states his belief that half of all + women are not sexually excitable.</p> + +<p> Krafft-Ebing was of opinion that women require less sexual + satisfaction than men, being less sensual. (Krafft-Ebing, "Ueber + Neurosen und Psychosen durch sexuelle Abstinenz," <i>Jahrbücher für + Psychiatrie</i>, 1888, Bd. viii, ht. I and 2.)</p> + +<p> "In the normal woman, especially of the higher social classes," + states Windscheid, "the sexual instinct is acquired, not inborn; + when it is inborn, or awakes by itself, there is abnormality. + Since women do not know this instinct before marriage, they do + not miss it when they have no occasion in life to learn it." (F. + Windscheid, "Die Beziehungen zwischen Gynäkologie und + Neurologie," <i>Zentralblatt für Gynäkologie</i>, 1896, No. 22; quoted + by. Moll, <i>Libido Sexualis</i>, Bd. i, p. 271.)</p> + +<p> "The sensuality of men," Moll states, "is in my opinion very much + greater than that of women." (A. Moll, <i>Die Konträre + Sexualempfindung</i>, third edition, 1899, p. 592.)</p> + +<p> "Women are, in general, less sensual than men," remarks Näcke, + "notwithstanding the alleged greater nervous supply of their + sexual organs." (P. Näcke, "Kritisches zum Kapitel der + Sexualität," <i>Archiv für Psychiatrie</i>, 1899, p. 341.)</p> + +<p> Löwenfeld states that in normal young girls the specifically + sexual feelings are absolutely unknown; so that desire cannot + exist in them. Putting aside the not inconsiderable proportion of + women in whom this absence of desire may persist and be + permanent, even after sexual relationships <a name='3_Page_196'></a>have begun, thus + constituting absolute frigidity, in a still larger number desire + remains extremely moderate, constituting a state of relative + frigidity. He adds that he cannot unconditionally support the + view of Fürbringer, who is inclined to ascribe sexual coldness to + the majority of German married women. (L. Löwenfeld, <i>Sexualleben + und Nervenleiden</i>, 1899, second edition, p. 11.)</p> + +<p> Adler, who discusses the question at some length, decides that + the sexual needs of women are less than those of men, though in + some cases the orgasm in quantity and quality greatly exceeds + that of men. He believes, not only that the sexual impulse in + women is absolutely less than in men, and requires stronger + stimulation to arouse it, but that also it suffers from a latency + due to inhibition, which acts like a foreign body in the brain + (analogous to the psychic trauma of Breuer and Freud in + hysteria), and demands great skill in the man who is to awaken + the woman to love. (O. Adler, <i>Die Mangelhafte + Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes</i>, 1904, pp. 47, 126 <i>et seq.</i>; + also enlarged second edition, 1911; <i>id.</i>, "Die Frigide Frau," + <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Jan., 1912.) </p></div> + +<p>It must not, however, be supposed that this view of the natural tendency +of women to frigidity has everywhere found acceptance. It is not only an +opinion of very recent growth, but is confined, on the whole, to a few +countries.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"Turn to history," wrote Brierre de Boismont, "and on every page + you will be able to recognize the predominance of erotic ideas in + women." It is the same today, he adds, and he attributes it to + the fact that men are more easily able to gratify their sexual + impulses. (<i>Des Hallucinations</i>, 1862, p. 431.)</p> + +<p> The laws of Manu attribute to women concupiscence and anger, the + love of bed and of adornment.</p> + +<p> The Jews attributed to women greater sexual desire than to men. + This is illustrated, according to Knobel (as quoted by Dillmann), + by <i>Genesis</i>, chapter iii, v. 16.</p> + +<p> In Greek antiquity the romance and sentiment of love were mainly + felt toward persons of the same sex, and were divorced from the + more purely sexual feelings felt for persons of opposite sex. + Theognis compared marriage to cattle-breeding. In love between + men and women the latter were nearly always regarded as taking + the more active part. In all Greek love-stories of early date the + woman falls in love with the man, and never the reverse. Æschylus + makes even a father assume that his daughters will misbehave if + left to themselves. Euripides emphasized the importance of women; + "The Euripidean woman who 'falls in love' thinks first of all: + 'How can I seduce the man I love?"' (E. F. M.<a name='3_Page_197'></a> Benecke, <i>Antimachus + of Colophon and the Position of Women in Greek Poetry</i>, 1896, pp. + 34, 54.)</p> + +<p> The most famous passage in Latin literature as to the question of + whether men or women obtain greater pleasure from sexual + intercourse is that in which Ovid narrates the legend of Tiresias + (<i>Metamorphoses</i>, iii, 317-333). Tiresias, having been both a man + and a woman, decided in favor of women. This passage was + frequently quoted down to the eighteenth century.</p> + +<p> In a passage quoted from a lost work of Galen by the Arabian + biographer, Abu-l-Faraj, that great physician says of the + Christians "that they practice celibacy, that even many of their + women do so." So that in Galen's opinion it was more difficult + for a woman than for a man to be continent.</p> + +<p> The same view is widely prevalent among Arabic authors, and there + is an Arabic saying that "The longing of the woman for the penis + is greater than that of the man for the vulva."</p> + +<p> In China, remarks Dr. Coltman, "when an old gentleman of my + acquaintance was visiting me my little daughter, 5 years old, ran + into the room, and, climbing upon my knee, kissed me. My visitor + expressed his surprise, and remarked: 'We never kiss our + daughters when they are so large; we may when they are very + small, but not after they are 3 years old,' said he, 'because it + is apt to excite in them bad emotions.'" (Coltman, <i>The Chinese</i>, + 1900, p. 99.)</p> + +<p> The early Christian Fathers clearly show that they regard women + as more inclined to sexual enjoyment than men. That was, for + instance, the opinion of Tertullian (<i>De Virginibus Velandis</i>, + chapter x), and it is clearly implied in some of St. Jerome's + epistles.</p> + +<p> Notwithstanding the influence of Christianity, among the vigorous + barbarian races of medieval Europe, the existence of sexual + appetite in women was not considered to be, as it later became, a + matter to be concealed or denied. Thus in 1068 the ecclesiastical + historian, Ordericus Vitalis (himself half Norman and half + English), narrates that the wives of the Norman knights who had + accompanied William the Conqueror to England two years earlier + sent over to their husbands to say that they were consumed by the + fierce names of desire ("sæva libidinis face urebantur"), and + that if their husbands failed to return very shortly they + proposed to take other husbands. It is added that this threat + brought a few husbands back to their wanton ladies ("lascivis + dominabus suis").</p> + +<p> During the medieval period in Europe, largely in consequence, no + doubt, of the predominance of ascetic ideals set up by men who + naturally regarded woman as the symbol of sex, the doctrine of + the incontinence of woman became firmly fixed, and it is + unnecessary and unprofitable to <a name='3_Page_198'></a>quote examples. It is sufficient + to mention the very comprehensive statement of Jean de Meung (in + the <i>Roman de la Rose</i>, 9903):—</p></div> + +<div class='poem'><div class='stanza'> +<span class='i4'>"Toutes estes, serés, ou fûtes<br /></span> +<span class='i4'>De fait ou de volunté putes."<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The satirical Jean de Meung was, however, a somewhat extreme and + untypical representative of his age, and the fourteenth century + Johannes de Sancto Amando (Jean de St. Amand) gives a somewhat + more scientifically based opinion (quoted by Pagel, <i>Neue + litterarische Beiträge zur Mittelalterlichen Medicin</i>, 1896, p. + 30) that sexual desire is stronger in women than in men.</p> + +<p> Humanism and the spread of the Renaissance movement brought in a + spirit more sympathetic to women. Soon after, especially in Italy + and France, we begin to find attempts at analyzing the sexual + emotions, which are not always without a certain subtlety. In the + seventeenth century a book of this kind was written by Venette. + In matters of love, Venette declared, "men are but children + compared to women. In these matters women have a more lively + imagination, and they usually have more leisure to think of love. + Women are much more lascivious and amorous than men." This is the + conclusion reached in a chapter devoted to the question whether + men or women are the more amorous. In a subsequent chapter, + dealing with the question whether men or women receive more + pleasure from the sexual embrace, Venette concludes, after + admitting the great difficulty of the question, that man's + pleasure is greater, but woman's lasts longer. (N. Venette, <i>De + la Génération de l'Homme ou Tableau de l'Amour Conjugal</i>, + Amsterdam, 1688.)</p> + +<p> At a much earlier date, however, Montaigne had discussed this + matter with his usual wisdom, and, while pointing out that men + have imposed their own rule of life on women and their own + ideals, and have demanded from them opposite and contradictory + virtues,—a statement not yet antiquated,—he argues that women + are incomparably more apt and more ardent in love than men are, + and that in this matter they always know far more than men can + teach them, for "it is a discipline that is born in their veins." + (Montaigne, <i>Essais</i>, book iii, chapter v.)</p> + +<p> The old physiologists generally mentioned the appearance of + sexual desire in girls as one of the normal signs of puberty. + This may be seen in the numerous quotations brought together by + Schurig, in his <i>Parthenologia</i>, cap. ii.</p> + +<p> A long succession of distinguished physicians throughout the + seventeenth century discussed at more or less length the relative + amount of sexual desire in men and women, and the relative degree + of their pleasure in coitus. It is remarkable that, although they + usually attach <a name='3_Page_199'></a>great weight to the supposed opinion of + Hippocrates in the opposite sense, most of them decide that both + desire and pleasure are greater in women.</p> + +<p> Plazzonus decides that women have more sources of pleasure in + coitus than men because of the larger extent of surface excited; + and if it were not so, he adds, women would not be induced to + incur the pains and risks of pregnancy and childbirth. + (Plazzonus, <i>De Partibus Generationi Inservientibus</i>, 1621, lib. + ii, cap. xiii.)</p> + +<p> "Without doubt," says Ferrand, "woman is more passionate than + man, and more often torn by the evils of love." (Ferrand, <i>De la + Maladie d'Amour</i>, 1623, chapter ii.)</p> + +<p> Zacchia, mainly on <i>a priori</i> grounds, concludes that women have + more pleasure in coitus than men. (Zacchia, <i>Quæstiones + Medico-legales</i>, 1630, lib. iii, quest, vii.)</p> + +<p> Sinibaldus, discussing whether men or women have more salacity, + decides in favor of women. (J. B. Sinibaldus, <i>Geneanthropeia</i>, + 1642, lib. ii, tract. ii, cap. v.)</p> + +<p> Hornius believed that women have greater sexual pleasure than + men, though he mainly supported his opinion by the authority of + classical poets. (Hornius, <i>Historic Naturalis</i>, 1670, lib. iii, + cap. i.)</p> + +<p> Nenter describes what we may now call women's affectability, and + considers that it makes them more prone than men to the sexual + emotions, as is shown by the fact that, notwithstanding their + modesty, they sometimes make sexual advances. This greater + proneness of women to the sexual impulse is, he remarks, entirely + natural and right, for the work of generation is mainly carried + on by women, and love is its basis: "generationis fundamentum est + amor." (G. P. Nenter, <i>Theoria Hominis Sani</i>, 1714, cap. v, memb. + ii.)</p> + +<p> The above opinions of seventeenth-century physicians are quoted + from the original sources. Schurig, in his <i>Gynæcologia</i>, (pp. + 46-50 and 71-81), quotes a number of passages on this subject + from medical authorities of the same period, on which I have not + drawn.</p> + +<p> Sénancour, in his fine and suggestive book on love, first + published in 1806, asks: "Has sexual pleasure the same power on + the sex which less loudly demands it? It has more, at all events + in some respects. The very vigor and laboriousness of men may + lead them to neglect love, but the constant cares of maternity + make women feel how important it must ever be to them. We must + remember also that in men the special emotions of love only have + a single focus, while in women the organs of lactation are united + to those of conception. Our feelings are all determined by these + material causes." (Sénancour, <i>De l'Amour</i>, fourth edition, 1834, + vol. i, p. 68.) A later psychologist of love, this time a woman, + Ellen Key, states that woman's erotic demands, <a name='3_Page_200'></a>though more + silent than man's, are stronger. (Ellen Key, <i>Ueber Liebe und + Ehe</i>, p. 138.)</p> + +<p> Michael Ryan considered that sexual enjoyment "is more delicious + and protracted" in women, and ascribed this to a more sensitive + nervous system, a finer and more delicate skin, more acute + feelings, and the fact that in women the mammæ are the seat of a + vivid sensibility in sympathy with the uterus. (M. Ryan, + <i>Philosophy of Marriage</i>, 1837, p. 153.)</p> + +<p> Busch was inclined to think women have greater sexual pleasure + than men. (D. W. H. Busch, <i>Das Geschlechtsleben des Weibes</i>, 1839, + vol. i, p. 69.) Kobelt held that the anatomical conformation of + the sexual organs in women led to the conclusion that this must + be the case.</p> + +<p> Guttceit, speaking of his thirty years' medical experience in + Russia, says: "In Russia at all events, a girl, as very many have + acknowledged to me, cannot resist the ever stronger impulses of + sex beyond the twenty-second or twenty-third year. And if she + cannot do so in natural ways she adopts artificial ways. The + belief that the feminine sex feels the stimulus of sex less than + the male is quite false." (Guttceit, <i>Dreissig Jahre Praxis</i>, + 1873, theil i, p. 313.)</p> + +<p> In Scandinavia, according to Vedeler, the sexual emotions are at + least as strong in women as in men (Vedeler, "De Impotentia + Feminarum," <i>Norsk Magazin for Laegevidenskaben</i>, March, 1894). + In Sweden, Dr. Eklund, of Stockholm, remarking that from 25 to 33 + per cent. of the births are illegitimate, adds: "We hardly ever + hear anyone talk of a woman having been seduced, simply because + the lust is at the worst in the woman, who, as a rule, is the + seducing party." (Eklund, <i>Transactions of the American + Association of Obstetricians</i>, Philadelphia, 1892, p. 307.)</p> + +<p> On the opposite side of the Baltic, in the Königsberg district, + the same observation has been made. Intercourse before marriage + is the rule in most villages of this agricultural district, among + the working classes, with or without intention of subsequent + marriage; "the girls are often the seducing parties, or at least + very willing; they seek to bind their lovers to them and compel + them to marriage." In the Köslin district of Pomerania, where + intercourse between the girls and youths is common, the girls + come to the youths' rooms even more frequently than the youths to + the girls'. In some of the Dantzig districts the girls give + themselves to the youths, and even seduce them, sometimes, but + not always, with a view of marriage. (Wittenberg, <i>Die + geschlechtsittlichen Verhalten der Landbewohner im Deutschen + Reiche</i>, 1895, Bd. i, pp. 47, 61, 83.)</p> + +<p> Mantegazza devoted great attention to this point in several of + the <a name='3_Page_201'></a>works he published during fifty years, and was decidedly of + the opinion that the sexual emotions are much stronger in women + than in men, and that women have much more enjoyment in sexual + intercourse. In his <i>Fisiologia del Piacere</i> he supports this + view, and refers to the greater complexity of the genital + apparatus in women (as well as its larger surface and more + protected position), to what he considers to be the keener + sensibility of women generally, to the passivity of women, etc.; + and he considers that sexual pleasure is rendered more seductive + to women by the mystery in which it is veiled for them by modesty + and our social habits. In a more recent work (<i>Fisiologia della + Donna</i>, cap. viii) Mantegazza returns to this subject, and + remarks that long experience, while confirming his early opinion, + has modified it to the extent that he now believes that, as + compared with men, the sexual emotions of women vary within far + wider limits. Among men few are quite insensitive to the physical + pleasures of love, while, on the other hand, few are thrown by + the violence of its emotional manifestations into a state of + syncope or convulsions. Among women, while some are absolutely + insensitive, others (as in cases with which he was acquainted) + are so violently excited by the paradise of physical love that, + after the sexual embrace, they faint or fall into a cataleptic + condition for several hours.</p> + +<p> "Physical sex is a larger factor in the life of the woman.... If + this be true of the physical element, it is equally true of the + mental element." (Dr. Elizabeth Blackwell, <i>The Human Element in + Sex</i>, fifth edition, 1894, p. 47.)</p> + +<p> "In the female sex," remarks Clouston, "reproduction is a more + dominant function of the organism than in the male, and has far + larger, if not more intense, relationships to feeling, judgment, + and volition." (Clouston, <i>Neuroses of Development</i>, 1891.)</p> + +<p> "It may be said," Marro states, "that in woman the visceral + system reacts, if not with greater intensity, certainly in a more + general manner, to all the impressions, having a sexual basis, + which dominate the life of woman, if not as sexual emotions + properly so called, as related emotions closely dependent on the + reproductive instinct." (A. Marro, <i>La Pubertà</i>, 1898, p. 233.)</p> + +<p> Forel also believed (<i>Die Sexuelle Frage</i>, p. 274) that women are + more erotic than men.</p> + +<p> The gynecologist Kisch states his belief that "The sexual impulse + is so powerful in women that at certain periods of life its + primitive force dominates her whole nature, and there can be no + room left for reason to argue concerning reproduction; on the + contrary, union is desired even in the presence of the fear of + reproduction or when there can be no question of it." He regards + absence of sexual feeling in women as pathological.<a name='3_Page_202'></a> (Kisch, + <i>Sterilität des Weibes</i>, second edition, pp. 205-206.) In his + later work (<i>The Sexual Life of Woman</i>) Kisch again asserts that + sexual impulse always exists in mature women (in the absence of + organic sexual defect and cerebral disease), though it varies in + strength and may be repressed. In adolescent girls, however, it + is weaker than in youths of the same age. After she has had + sexual experiences, Kisch maintains, a woman's sexual emotions + are just as powerful as a man's, though she has more motives than + a man for controlling them.</p> + +<p> Eulenburg is of the same opinion as Kisch, and sharply criticises + the loose assertion of some authorities who have expressed + themselves in an opposite sense. (A. Eulenburg, <i>Sexuale + Neuropathie</i>, pp. 88-90; the same author has dealt with the point + in the <i>Zukunft</i>, December 2, 1893.)</p> + +<p> Kossmann states that the opinion as to the widespread existence + of frigidity among women is a fable. (Kossmann, <i>Allgemeine + Gynæcologie</i>, 1903, p. 362.)</p> + +<p> Bloch concludes that "in most cases the sexual coldness of women + is in fact only apparent, either due to the concealment of + glowing sexuality beneath the veil of outward reticence + prescribed by conventional morality, or else to the husband who + has not succeeded in arousing erotic sensations which are + complicated and with difficulty awakened.... The sexual + sensibility of women is certainly different from that of men, but + in strength it is at least as great." (Iwan Bloch, <i>Das + Sexualleben unserer Zeit</i> 1907, ch. v.)</p> + +<p> Nyström, also, after devoting a chapter to the discussion of the + causes of sexual coldness in women, concludes: "My conviction, + founded on experience, is, that only a small number of women + would be without sexual feeling if sound views and teaching + prevailed in respect to the sexual life, if due weight were given + to inner devotion and tender caresses as the preliminaries of + love in marriage, and if couples who wish to avoid pregnancy + would adopt sensible preventive methods instead of <i>coitus + interruptus</i>." (A. Nyström, <i>Das Geschlichtsleben und seine + Gesetze</i>, eighth edition, 1907, p. 177.) </p></div> + +<p>We thus find two opinions widely current: one, of world-wide existence and +almost universally accepted in those ages and centers in which life is +lived most nakedly, according to which the sexual impulse is stronger in +women than in men; another, now widely prevalent in many countries, +according to which the sexual instinct is distinctly weaker in women, if, +indeed, it may not be regarded as normally absent altogether. A third view +is possible: it may be held that there is no difference <a name='3_Page_203'></a>at all. This +view, formerly not very widely held, is that of the French physiologist, +Beaunis, as it is of Winckel; while Rohleder, who formerly held that +sexual feeling tends to be defective in women, now believes that men and +women are equal in sexual impulse.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>At an earlier period, however, Donatus (<i>De Medica Historia + Mirabili</i>, 1613, lib. iv, cap. xvii) held the same view, and + remarked that sometimes men and sometimes women are the more + salacious, varying with the individual. Roubaud (<i>De + l'Impuissance</i>, 1855, p. 38) stated that the question is so + difficult as to be insoluble. </p></div> + +<p>In dealing with the characteristics of the sexual impulse in women, it +will be seen, we have to consider the prevalence in them of what is +commonly termed (in its slightest forms) frigidity or hyphedonia, and (in +more complete form) sexual anesthesia or anaphrodism, or erotic blindness, +or anhedonia.<a name='3_FNanchor_157'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_157'><sup>[157]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Many modern writers have referred to the prevalence of frigidity + among women. Shufeldt believes (<i>Pacific Medical Journal</i>, Nov., + 1907) that 75 per cent, of married women in New York are + afflicted with sexual frigidity, and that it is on the increase; + it is rare, however, he adds, among Jewish women. Hegar gives 50 + per cent, as the proportion of sexually anesthetic women; + Fürbringer says the majority of women are so. Effertz (quoted by + Löwenfeld, <i>Sexualleben und Nervenleiden</i>, p. 11, apparently with + approval) regards 10 per cent, among women generally as sexually + anesthetic, but only 1 per cent, men. Moll states (Eulenburg's + <i>Encyclopädie</i>, fourth edition, art. "Geschlechtstrieb") that the + prevalence of sexual anesthesia among German women varies, + according to different authorities, from 10 to 66 per cent. + Elsewhere Moll (<i>Konträre Sexualempfindung</i>, third edition, 1890, + p. 510) emphasizes the statement that "sexual anesthesia in women + is much more frequent than is generally supposed." He explains + that he is referring to the physical element of pleasure and + satisfaction in intercourse, and of desire for intercourse. He + adds that the psychic side of love is often more conspicuous in + women than in men. He cannot agree with Sollier that this kind of + sexual frigidity <a name='3_Page_204'></a>is a symptom of hysteria. Féré (<i>L'Instinct + Sexuel</i>, second edition, p. 112), in referring to the greater + frequency of sexual anesthesia in women, remarks that it is often + associated with neuropathic states, as well as with anomalies of + the genital organs, or general troubles of nutrition, and is + usually acquired. Some authors attribute great importance to + amenorrhea in this connection; one investigator has found that in + 4 out of 14 cases of absolute amenorrhea sexual feeling was + absent. Löwenfeld, again (<i>Sexualleben und Nervenleiden</i>), + referring to the common misconception that nervous disorder is + associated with increased sexual desire, points out that + nervously degenerate women far more often display frigidity than + increased sexual desire. Elsewhere (<i>Ueber die Sexuelle + Konstitution</i>) Löwenfeld says it is only among the upper classes + that sexual anesthesia is common. Campbell Clark, also, showed + some years ago that, in young women with a tendency to chlorosis + and a predisposition to insanity, defects of pelvic and mammary + development are very prevalent. (<i>Journal of Mental Science</i>, + October, 1888.)</p> + +<p> As regards the older medical authors, Schurig (<i>Spermatologia</i>, + 1720, p. 243, and <i>Gynæcologia</i>, 1730, p. 81) brought together + from the literature and from his own knowledge cases of women who + felt no pleasure in coitus, as well as of some men who had + erections without pleasure. </p></div> + +<p>There is, however, much uncertainty as to what precisely is meant by +sexual frigidity or anesthesia. All the old medical authors carefully +distinguish between the heat of sexual desire and the actual presence of +pleasure in coitus; many modern writers also properly separate <i>libido</i> +from <i>voluptas</i>, since it is quite possible to experience sexual desires +and not to be able to obtain their gratification during sexual +intercourse, and it is possible to hold, with Mantegazza, that women +naturally have stronger sexual impulses than men, but are more liable than +men to experience sexual anesthesia. But it is very much more difficult +than most people seem to suppose, to obtain quite precise and definite +data concerning the absence of either <i>voluptas</i> or <i>libido</i> in a woman. +Even if we accept the statement of the woman who asserts that she has +either or both, the statement of their absence is by no means equally +conclusive and final. As even Adler—who discusses this question fully and +has very pronounced opinions about it—admits, there are women who stoutly +deny the existence of any sexual feelings until such feelings are +<a name='3_Page_205'></a>actually discovered.<a name='3_FNanchor_158'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_158'><sup>[158]</sup></a> Some of the most marked characteristics of the +sexual impulse in women, moreover,—its association with modesty, its +comparatively late development, its seeming passivity, its need of +stimulation,—all combine to render difficult the final pronouncement that +a woman is sexually frigid. Most significant of all in this connection is +the complexity of the sexual apparatus in women and the corresponding +psychic difficulty—based on the fundamental principle of sexual +selection—of finding a fitting mate. The fact that a woman is cold with +one man or even with a succession of men by no means shows that she is not +apt to experience sexual emotions; it merely shows that these men have not +been able to arouse them. "I recall two very striking cases," a +distinguished gynecologist, the late Dr. Engelmann, of Boston, wrote to +me, "of very attractive young married women—one having had a child, the +other a miscarriage—who were both absolutely cold to their husbands, as +told me by both husband and wife. They could not understand desire or +passion, and would not even believe that it existed. Yet, both these women +with other men developed ardent passion, all the stronger perhaps because +it had been so long latent." In such cases it is scarcely necessary to +invoke Adler's theory of a morbid inhibition, or "foreign body in +consciousness," which has to be overcome. We are simply in the presence of +the natural fact that the female throughout nature not only requires much +loving, but is usually fastidious in the choice of a lover. In the human +species this natural fact is often disguised and perverted. Women are not +always free to choose the man whom they would prefer as a lover, nor even +free to find out whether the man they prefer sexually fits them; they are, +moreover, very often extremely ignorant of the whole question of sex, and +the victims of the prejudice and false conventions they have been taught. +On the one hand, they are driven into an unnatural primness and austerity; +on the other hand, they rebound to an equally unnatural facility or even +promiscuity. Thus it happens that <a name='3_Page_206'></a>the men who find that a large number of +women are not so facile as they themselves are, and as they have found a +large number of women to be, rush to the conclusion that women tend to be +"sexually anesthetic." If we wish to be accurate, it is very doubtful +whether we can assert that a woman is ever absolutely without the aptitude +for sexual satisfaction.<a name='3_FNanchor_159'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_159'><sup>[159]</sup></a> She may unquestionably be without any +conscious desire for actual coitus. But if we realize to how large an +extent woman is a sexual organism, and how diffused and even unconscious +the sexual impulses may be, it becomes very difficult to assert that she +has never shown any manifestation of the sexual impulse. All we can assert +with some degree of positiveness in some cases is that she has not +manifested sexual gratification, more particularly as shown by the +occurrence of the orgasm, but that is very far indeed from warranting us +to assert that she never will experience such gratification or still less +that she is organically incapable of experiencing it.<a name='3_FNanchor_160'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_160'><sup>[160]</sup></a> It is therefore +quite impossible to follow Adler when he asks us to accept the existence +of a condition which he solemnly terms <i>anæsthesia sexualis completa +idiopathica</i>, in which there is no mechanical difficulty in the way or +psychic inhibition, but an "absolute" lack of sexual sensibility and a +complete absence of sexual inclination.<a name='3_FNanchor_161'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_161'><sup>[161]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is instructive to observe that Adler himself knows no "pure" case of +this condition. To find such a case he has to go back nearly two centuries +to Madame de Warens, to whom he <a name='3_Page_207'></a>devotes a whole chapter. He has, +moreover, had the courage in writing this chapter to rely entirely on +Rousseau's <i>Confessions</i>, which were written nearly half a century later +than the episodes they narrated, and are therefore full of inaccuracies, +besides being founded on an imperfect and false knowledge of Madame de +Warens's earlier life, and written by a man who was, there can be no +doubt, not able to arouse women's passions. Adler shows himself completely +ignorant of the historical investigations of De Montet, Mugnier, Ritter, +and others which, during recent years, have thrown a flood of light on the +life and character of Madame de Warens, and not even acquainted with the +highly significant fact that she was hysterical.<a name='3_FNanchor_162'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_162'><sup>[162]</sup></a> This is the basis of +"fact" on which we are asked to accept <i>anæsthesia sexualis completa +idiopathica!</i><a name='3_FNanchor_163'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_163'><sup>[163]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"In dealing with the alleged absence of the sexual impulse," a + well-informed medical correspondent writes from America, "much + caution has to be used in accepting statements as to its absence, + from the fact that most women fear by the admission to place + themselves in an impure category. I am also satisfied that influx + of women into universities, etc., is often due to the sexual + impulse causing restlessness, and that this factor finds + expression in the prurient prudishness so often presenting itself + in such women, which interferes with coeducation. This is + becoming especially noticeable at the University of Chicago, + where prudishness interferes with classical, biological, + sociological, and physiological discussion in the classroom. + There have been complaints by such women that a given professor + has not left out embryological facts not in themselves in any way + implying indelicacy. I have even been informed that the opinion + is often expressed in college dormitories that embryological + facts and discussions should be left out of a course intended for + both sexes." Such prudishness, it is scarcely necessary to + remark, whether found in women or men, indicates a mind that has + become morbidly sensitive to sexual impressions. For the healthy + mind embryological and allied facts have no emotionally sexual + significance, and there is, therefore, no need to shun them.</p> + +<p> Kolischer, of Chicago ("Sexual Frigidity in Women," <i>American + Journal of Obstetrics</i>, Sept., 1905), points out that it is often + the failure of the husband to produce sexual excitement in the + wife which leads to voluntary repression of sexual sensation on + her part, or an <a name='3_Page_208'></a>acquired sexual anesthesia. "Sexual excitement," + he remarks, "not brought to its natural climax, the reaction + leaves the woman in a very disagreeable condition, and repeated + occurrences of this kind may even lead to general nervous + disturbances. Some of these unfortunate women learn to suppress + their sexual sensation so as to avoid all these disagreeable + sequelæ. Such a state of affairs is not only unfortunate, because + it deprives the female partner of her natural rights, but it is + also to be deplored because it practically brings down such a + married woman to the level of the prostitute."</p> + +<p> In illustration of the prevalence of inhibitions of various + kinds, from without and from within, in suppressing or disguising + sexual feeling in women, I may quote the following observations + by an American lady concerning a series of women of her + acquaintance:—</p> + +<p> "Mrs. A. This woman is handsome and healthy. She has never had + children, much to the grief of herself and her husband. The man + is also handsome and attractive. Mrs. A. once asked me if + love-making between me and my husband ever originated with me. I + replied it was as often so as not, and she said that in that + event she could not see how passion between husband and wife + could be regulated. When I seemed not to be ashamed of the + matter, but rather to be positive in my views that it should be + so, she at once tried to impress me with the fact that she did + not wish me to think she 'could not be aroused.' This woman + several times hinted that she had learned a great amount that was + not edifying at boarding school, and I always felt that, with + proper encouragement, she would have retailed suggestive stories.</p> + +<p> "Mrs. B. This woman lives to please her husband, who is a spoiled + man. She gave birth to a child soon after marriage, but was left + an invalid for some years. She told me coition always hurt her, + and she said it made her sick to see her husband nude. I was + therefore surprised, years afterward, to hear her say, in reply + to a remark of another person, 'Yes; women are not only as + passionate as men, I am sure they are more so.' I therefore + questioned the lack of passion she had on former occasions + avowed, or else felt convinced her improvement in health had made + intercourse pleasant.</p> + +<p> "Miss C. A teacher. She is emotional and easily becomes + hysterical. Her life has been one of self-sacrifice and her + rearing most Puritanical. She told me she thought women did not + crave sexual satisfaction unless it had been aroused in them. I + consider her one who physically is injured by not having it.</p> + +<p> "Mrs. D. After being married a few years this person told me she + thought intercourse 'horrid.' Some years after this, however, she + fell in love with a man not her husband, which caused their + separation. She always fancied men in love with her, and she told + me that she and <a name='3_Page_209'></a>her husband tried to live without intercourse, + fearing more children, but they could not do it; she also told of + trying to refrain, for the same purpose, until safe parts of the + menstrual month, but that 'was just the time she cared least for + it.' These remarks made me doubt the sincerity of the first.</p> + +<p> "Mrs. E. said she enjoyed intercourse as well as her husband, and + she 'didn't see why she should not say so.' This same woman, + whether using a current phrase or not, afterward said her husband + 'did not bother her very often.'</p> + +<p> "Mrs. F., the mother of several children, was married to a man + she neither loved nor respected, but she said that when a strange + man touched her it made her tremble all over.</p> + +<p> "Mrs. G., the mother of many children, divorced on account of the + dissipation, drinking and otherwise, of her husband. She is of + the creole type, but large and almost repulsive. She is a + brilliant talker and she supports herself by writing. She has + fallen in love with a number of young men, 'wildly, madly, + passionately,' as one of them told me, and I am sure she suffers + greatly from the lack of satisfaction. She would no doubt procure + it if it were possible.</p> + +<p> "I believe," the writer concludes, "women are as passionate as + men, but the enforced restraint of years possibly smothers it. + The fear of having children and the methods to prevent conception + are, I am sure, potent factors in the injury to the emotions of + married women. Perhaps the lack of intercourse acts less + disastrously upon a woman because of the renewed feeling which + comes after each menstrual period."</p> + +<p> As bearing on the causes which have led to the disguise and + misinterpretation of the sexual impulse in women I may quote the + following communication from another lady:—</p> + +<p> "I do think the coldness of women has been greatly exaggerated. + Men's theoretically ideal woman (though they don't care so much + about it in practice) is passionless, and women are afraid to + admit that they have any desire for sexual pleasure. Rousseau, + who was not very straight-laced, excuses the conduct of Madame de + Warens on the ground that it was not the result of passion: an + aggravation rather than a palliation of the offense, if society + viewed it from the point of view of any other fault. Even in the + modern novels written by the 'new woman' the longing for + maternity, always an honorable sentiment, is dragged in to veil + the so-called 'lower' desire. That some women, at any rate, have + very strong passions and that great suffering is entailed by + their repression is not, I am sure, sufficiently recognized, even + by women themselves.</p><a name='3_Page_210'></a> + +<p> "Besides the 'passionless ideal' which checks their sincerity, + there are many causes which serve to disguise a woman's feelings + to herself and make her seem to herself colder than she really + is. Briefly these are:—</p> + +<p> "1. Unrecognized disease of the reproductive organs, especially + after the birth of children. A friend of mine lamented to me her + inability to feel pleasure, though she had done so before the + birth of her child, then 3 years old. With considerable + difficulty I persuaded her to see a doctor, who told her all the + reproductive organs were seriously congested; so that for three + years she had lived in ignorance and regret for her husband's + sake and her own.</p> + +<p> "2. The dread of recommencing, once having suffered them, all the + pains and discomforts of child-bearing.</p> + +<p> "3. Even when precautions are taken, much bother and anxiety is + involved, which has a very dampening effect on excitement.</p> + +<p> "4. The fact that men will never take any trouble to find out + what specially excites a woman. A woman, as a rule, is at some + pains to find out the little things which particularly affect the + man she loves,—it may be a trick of speech, a rose in her hair, + or what not,—and she makes use of her knowledge. But do you know + one man who will take the same trouble? (It is difficult to + specify, as what pleases one person may not another. I find that + the things that affect me personally are the following: [<i>a</i>] + Admiration for a man's mental capacity will translate itself + sometimes into direct physical excitement. [<i>b</i>] Scents of white + flowers, like tuberose or syringa. [<i>c</i>] The sight of fireflies. + [<i>d</i>] The idea or the reality of suspension. [<i>e</i>] Occasionally + absolute passivity.)</p> + +<p> "5. The fact that many women satisfy their husbands when + themselves disinclined. This is like eating jam when one does not + fancy it, and has a similar effect. It is a great mistake, in my + opinion, to do so, except very rarely. A man, though perhaps + cross at the time, prefers, I believe, to gratify himself a few + times, when the woman also enjoys it, to many times when she does + not.</p> + +<p> "6. The masochistic tendency of women, or their desire for + subjection to the man they love. I believe no point in the whole + question is more misunderstood than this. Nearly every man + imagines that to secure a woman's love and respect he must give + her her own way in small things, and compel her obedience in + great ones. Every man who desires success with a woman should + exactly reverse that theory." </p></div> + +<p>When we are faced by these various and often conflicting statements of +opinion it seems necessary to obtain, if possible, a <a name='3_Page_211'></a>definite basis of +objective fact. It would be fairly obvious in any case, and it becomes +unquestionable in view of the statements I have brought together, that the +best-informed and most sagacious clinical observers, when giving an +opinion on a very difficult and elusive subject which they have not +studied with any attention and method, are liable to make unguarded +assertions; sometimes, also, they become the victims of ethical or +pseudoethical prejudices, so as to be most easily influenced by that class +of cases which happens to fit in best with their prepossessions.<a name='3_FNanchor_164'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_164'><sup>[164]</sup></a> In +order to reach any conclusions on a reasonable basis it is necessary to +take a series of unselected individuals and to ascertain carefully the +condition of the sexual impulse in each.</p> + +<p>At present, however, this is extremely difficult to do at all +satisfactorily, and quite impossible, indeed, to do in a manner likely to +yield absolutely unimpeachable results. Nevertheless, a few series of +observations have been made. Thus, Dr. Harry Campbell<a name='3_FNanchor_165'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_165'><sup>[165]</sup></a> records the +result of an investigation, carried on in his hospital practice, of 52 +married women of the poorer class; they were not patients, but ordinary, +healthy working-class women, and the inquiry was not made directly, but of +the husbands, who were patients. Sexual instinct was said to be present in +12 cases before marriage, and absent in 40; in 13 of the 40 it never +appeared at all; so that it altogether appeared in 39, or in the ratio of +something over 75 per cent. Among the 12 in whom it existed before +marriage it was said to have appeared in most with puberty; in 3, however, +a few years before puberty, and in 2 a few years later. In 2 of those in +whom it appeared before puberty, menstruation began late; in the third it +rose almost to nymphomania on the day preceding the first menstruation.<a name='3_Page_212'></a> +In nearly all the cases desire was said to be stronger in the husband than +in the wife; when it was stronger in the wife, the husband was +exceptionally indifferent. Of the 13 in whom desire was absent after +marriage, 5 had been married for a period under two years, and Campbell +remarks that it would be wrong to conclude that it would never develop in +these cases, for in this group of cases the appearance of sexual instinct +was sometimes a matter of days, sometimes of years, after the date of +marriage. In two-thirds of the cases there was a diminution of desire, +usually gradual, at the climacteric; in the remaining third there was +either no change or exaltation of desire. The most important general +result, Campbell concludes, is that "the sexual instinct is very much less +intense in woman than in man," and to this he elsewhere adds a corollary +that "the sexual instinct in the civilized woman is, I believe, tending to +atrophy."</p> + +<p>An eminent gynecologist, the late Dr. Matthews Duncan, has (in his work on +<i>Sterility in Women</i>) presented a table which, although foreign to this +subject, has a certain bearing on the matter. Matthews Duncan, believing +that the absence of sexual desire and of sexual pleasure in coitus are +powerful influences working for sterility, noted their presence or absence +in a number of cases, and found that, among 191 sterile women between the +ages of 15 and 45, 152, or 79 per cent., acknowledged the presence of +sexual desire; and among 196 sterile women (mostly the same cases), 134, +or 68 per cent., acknowledged the presence of sexual pleasure in coitus. +Omitting the cases over 35 years of age, which were comparatively few, the +largest proportion of affirmative answers, both as regards sexual pleasure +and sexual desire, was from between 30 and 34 years of age. Matthews +Duncan assumes that the absence of sexual desire and sexual pleasure in +women is thoroughly abnormal.<a name='3_FNanchor_166'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_166'><sup>[166]</sup></a> </p><a name='3_Page_213'></a> + +<p>An English non-medical author, in the course of a thoughtful discussion of +sexual phenomena, revealing considerable knowledge and observation,<a name='3_FNanchor_167'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_167'><sup>[167]</sup></a> +has devoted a chapter to this subject in another of its aspects. Without +attempting to ascertain the normal strength of the sexual instinct in +women, he briefly describes 11 cases of "sexual anesthesia" in Women (in 2 +or 3 of which there appears, however, to be an element of latent +homosexuality) from among the circle of his own friends. This author +concludes that sexual coldness is very common among English women, and +that it involves questions of great social and ethical importance.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>I have not met with any series of observations made among + seemingly healthy and normal women in other countries; there are, + however, various series of somewhat abnormal cases in which the + point was noted, and the results are not uninstructive. Thus, in + Vienna at Krafft-Ebing's psychiatric clinic, Gattel (<i>Ueber die + sexuellen Ursachen der Neurasthenie und Angstneurose</i>, 1898) + carefully investigated the cases of 42 women, mostly at the + height of sexual life,—<i>i.e.</i>, between 20 and 35,—who were + suffering from slight nervous disorders, especially neurasthenia + and mild hysteria, but none of them from grave nervous or other + disease. Of these 42, at least 17 had masturbated, at one time or + another, either before or after marriage, in order to obtain + relief of sexual feelings. In the case of 4 it is stated that + they do not obtain sexual satisfaction in marriage, but in these + cases only <i>coitus interruptus</i> is practised, and the fact that + the absence of sexual satisfaction was complained of seems to + indicate an aptitude for experiencing it. These 4 cases can + therefore scarcely be regarded as exceptions. In all the other + cases sexual desire, sexual excitement, or sexual satisfaction is + always clearly indicated, and in a considerable proportion of + cases it is noted that the sexual impulse is very strongly + developed. This series is valuable, since the facts of the sexual + life are, as far as possible, recorded with much precision. The + significance of the facts varies, however, according to the view + taken as to the causation of neurasthenia and allied conditions + of slight nervous disorder. Gattel argues that sexual + irregularities are a peculiarly fruitful, if not invariable, + source of such disorders; according to the more commonly accepted + view this is not so. If we accept the more usual view, these + women fairly correspond to average women of lower class; if, + however, we accept Gattel's view, they may possess the sexual + instinct in a more marked degree than average women.</p><a name='3_Page_214'></a> + +<p> In a series of 116 German women in whom the operation of removing + the ovaries was performed, Pfister usually noted briefly in what + way the sexual impulse was affected by the operation ("Die + Wirkung der Castration auf den Weiblichen Organismus," <i>Archiv + für Gynäkologie</i>, 1898, p. 583). In 13 cases (all but 3 + unmarried) the presence of sexual desire at any time was denied, + and 2 of these expressed disgust of sexual matters. In 12 cases + the point is left doubtful. In all the other cases sexual desire + had once been present, and in 2 or 3 cases it was acknowledged to + be so strong as to approach nymphomania. In about 30 of these + (not including any in which it was previously very strong) it was + extinguished by castration, in a few others it was diminished, + and in the rest unaffected. Thus, when we exclude the 12 cases in + which the point was not apparently investigated, and the 10 + unmarried women, in whom it may have been latent or unavowed, we + find that, of 94 married women, 91 women acknowledged the + existence of sexual desire and only 3 denied it.</p> + +<p> Schröter, again in Germany, has investigated the manifestations + of the sexual impulse among 402 insane women in the asylum at + Eichberg in Rheingau. ("Wird bei jungen Unverheiratheten zur Zeit + der Menstruation stärkere sexuelle Erregheit beobaehtet?" + <i>Allgemeine Zeitschrift für Psychiatrie</i>, vol. lvi, 1899, pp. + 321-333.) There is no reason to suppose that the insane represent + a class of the community specially liable to sexual emotion, + although its manifestations may become unrestrained and + conspicuous under the influence of insanity; and at the same + time, while the appearance of such manifestations is evidence of + the aptitude for sexual emotions, their absence may be only due + to disease, seclusion, or to an intact power of self-control.</p> + +<p> Of the 402 women, 166 were married and 236 unmarried. Schröter + divided them into four groups: (1) those below 20; (2) those + between 20 and 30; (3) those between 30 and 40; (4) those from 40 + to the menopause. The patients included persons from the lowest + class of the population, and only about a quarter of them could + fairly be regarded as curable. Thus the manifestations of + sexuality were diminished, for with advance of mental disease + sexual manifestations cease to appear. Schröter only counted + those cases in which the sexual manifestations were decided and + fairly constant at the menstrual epoch; if not visibly + manifested, sexual feeling was not taken into account. Sexual + phenomena accompanied the entry of the menstrual epoch in 141 + cases: <i>i.e.</i>, in 20 (or in the proportion of 72 per cent.) of + the first group, consisting entirely of unmarried women; in 33 + (or 28 per cent.) of the second group; in 55 (or 35 per cent.) of + the third group; and in 33 (or 33 per cent.) of the fourth group. + It was found that 181 patients showed no sexual phenomena at any + time, while 80 showed sexual phenomena frequently <a name='3_Page_215'></a>between the + menstrual epochs, but only in a slight degree, and not at all + during the period. At all ages sexual manifestations were more + prevalent among the unmarried than among the married, though this + difference became regularly and progressively less with increase + in age.</p> + +<p> Schröter inclines to think that sexual excitement is commoner + among insane women belonging to the lower social classes than in + those belonging to the better classes. Among 184 women in a + private asylum, only 13 (6.13 per cent.) showed very marked and + constant excitement at menstrual periods. He points out, however, + that this may be due to a greater ability to restrain the + manifestations of feeling.</p> + +<p> There is some interest in Schröter's results, though they cannot + be put on a line with inquiries made among the sane; they only + represent the prevalence of the grossest and strongest sexual + manifestations when freed from the restraints of sanity. </p></div> + +<p>As a slight contribution toward the question, I have selected a series of +12 cases of women of whose sexual development I possess precise +information, with the following results: In 2 cases distinct sexual +feeling was experienced spontaneously at the age of 7 and 8, but the +complete orgasm only occurred some years after puberty; in 5 cases sexual +feeling appeared spontaneously for a few months to a year after the +appearance of menstruation, which began between 12 and 14 years of age, +usually at 13; in another case sexual feeling first appeared shortly after +menstruation began, but not spontaneously, being called out by a lover's +advances; in the remaining 4 cases sexual emotion never became definite +and conscious until adult life (the ages being 26, 27, 34, 35), in 2 cases +through being made love to, and in 2 cases through self-manipulation out +of accident or curiosity. It is noteworthy that the sexual feelings first +developed in adult life were usually as strong as those arising at +puberty. It may be added that, of these 12 women, 9 had at some time or +another masturbated (4 shortly after puberty, 5 in adult life), but, +except in 1 case, rarely and at intervals. All belong to the middle class, +2 or 3 leading easy, though not idle, lives, while all the others are +engaged in professional or other avocations often involving severe labor. +They differ widely in character and mental ability; but, while 2 or 3 +might be regarded as slightly abnormal, they are all fairly healthy.</p><a name='3_Page_216'></a> + +<p>I am inclined to believe that the experiences of the foregoing group are +fairly typical of the social class to which they belong. I may, however, +bring forward another series of 35 women, varying in age from 18 to 40 +(with 2 exceptions all over 25), and in every respect comparable with the +smaller group, but concerning whom my knowledge, though reliable, is +usually less precise and detailed. In this group 5 state that they have +never experienced sexual emotion, these being all unmarried and leading +strictly chaste lives; in 18 cases the sexual impulse may be described as +strong, or is so considered by the subject herself; in 9 cases it is only +moderate; in 3 it is very slight when evoked, and with difficulty evoked, +in 1 of these only appearing two years after marriage, in another the +exhaustion and worry of household cares being assigned for its comparative +absence. It is noteworthy that all the more highly intelligent, energetic +women in the series appear in the group of those with strong sexual +emotions, and also that severe mental and physical labor, even when +cultivated for this purpose, has usually had little or no influence in +relieving sexual emotion.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>An American physician in the State of Connecticut sends me the + following notes concerning a series of 13 married women, taken, + as they occurred, in obstetric practice. They are in every way + respectable and moral women:—</p> + +<p> "Mrs. A. says that her husband does not give her sufficient + sexual attention, as he fears they will have more children than + he can properly care for. Mrs. B. always enjoys intercourse; so + does Mrs. C. Mrs. D. is easily excited and very fond of sexual + attention. Mrs. E. likes intercourse if her husband is careful + not to hurt her. Mrs. F. never had any sexual desire until after + second marriage, but it is now very urgent at times. Mrs. G. is + not easily excited, but has never objected to her husband's + attention. Mrs. H. would prefer to have her husband exhibit more + attention. Mrs. I. never refused her husband, but he does not + trouble her much. Mrs. J. thinks that three or four times a week + is satisfactory, but would not object to nightly intercourse. + Mrs. K. does not think that her husband could give her more than + she would like. Mrs. L. would prefer to live with a woman if it + were not for sexual intercourse. Mrs. M., aged 40, says that her + husband, aged 65, insists upon intercourse three times every + night, and that he keeps her tired and disgusted. She each time + has at least one orgasm, and would not object to reasonable + attention." </p></div><a name='3_Page_217'></a> + +<p>It may be remarked that, while these results in English women of the +middle class are in fair agreement with the German and Austrian +observations I have quoted, they differ from Campbell's results among +women of the working class in London. This discrepancy is, perhaps, not +difficult to explain. While the conditions of upper-class life may +possibly be peculiarly favorable to the development of the sexual +emotions, among the working classes in London, where the stress of the +struggle for existence under bad hygienic conditions is so severe, they +may be peculiarly unfavorable. It is thus possible that there really are a +smaller number of women experiencing sexual emotion among the class dealt +with by Campbell than among the class to which my series belong.<a name='3_FNanchor_168'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_168'><sup>[168]</sup></a></p> + +<p>A more serious consideration is the method of investigation. A working +man, who is perhaps unintelligent outside his own work, and in many cases +married to a woman who is superior in refinement, may possibly be able to +arouse his wife's sexual emotions, and also able to ascertain what those +emotions are, and be willing to answer questions truthfully on this point, +to the best of his ability, but he is by no means a witness whose evidence +is final. While, however, Campbell's facts may not be quite +unquestionable, I am inclined to agree with his conclusion, and +Mantegazza's, that there is a very great range of variation in this +matter, and that there is no age at which the sexual impulse in women may +not appear. A lady who has received the confidence of very many women +tells me that she has never found a woman <a name='3_Page_218'></a>who was without sexual feeling. +I should myself be inclined to say that it is extremely difficult to find +a woman who is without the aptitude for sexual emotion, although a great +variety of circumstances may hinder, temporarily or permanently, the +development of this latent aptitude. In other words, while the latent +sexual aptitude may always be present, the sexual impulse is liable to be +defective and the aptitude to remain latent, with consequent deficiency of +sexual emotion, and absence of sexual satisfaction.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>This is not only indicated by the considerable proportion of my + cases in which there is only moderate or slight sexual feeling. I + have ample evidence that in many cases the element of pain, which + may almost be said to be normal in the establishment of the + sexual function, is never merged, as it normally is, in + pleasurable sensations on the full establishment of sexual + relationships. Sometimes, no doubt, this may be due to + dyspareunia. Sometimes there may be an absolute sexual + anesthesia, whether of congenital or hysterical origin. I have + been told of the case of a married lady who has never been able + to obtain sexual pleasure, although she has had relations with + several men, partly to try if she could obtain the experience, + and partly to please them; the very fact that the motives for + sexual relationships arose from no stronger impulse itself + indicates a congenital defect on the psychic as well as on the + physical side. But, as a rule, the sexual anesthesia involved is + not absolute, but lies in a disinclination to the sexual act due + to various causes, in a defect of strong sexual impulse, and an + inaptitude for the sexual orgasm.</p> + +<p> I am indebted to a lady who has written largely on the woman + question, and is herself the mother of a numerous family, for + several letters in regard to the prevalence among women of sexual + coldness, a condition which she regards as by no means to be + regretted. She considers that in all her own children the sexual + impulse is very slightly developed, the boys being indifferent to + women, the girls cold toward men and with no desire to marry, + though all are intelligent and affectionate, the girls showing a + very delicate and refined kind of beauty. (A large selection of + photographs accompanied this communication.) Something of the + same tendency is said to mark the stocks from which this family + springs, and they are said to be notable for their longevity, + healthiness, and disinclination for excesses of all kinds. It is + scarcely necessary to remark that a mother, however highly + intelligent, is by no means an infallible judge as to the + presence or absence in her children of so shy, subtle, and + elusive an impulse as that of sex. At the <a name='3_Page_219'></a>same time I am by no + means disposed to question the existence in individuals, and even + in families or stocks, of a relatively weak sexual impulse, + which, while still enabling procreation to take place, is + accompanied by no strong attraction to the opposite sex and no + marked inclination for marriage. (Adler, <i>op. cit.</i>, p. 168, + found such a condition transmitted from mother to daughter.) Such + persons often possess a delicate type of beauty. Even, however, + when the health is good there seems usually to be a certain lack + of vitality. </p></div> + +<p>It seems to me that a state of sexual anesthesia, relative or absolute, +cannot be considered as anything but abnormal. To take even the lowest +ground, the satisfaction of the reproductive function ought to be at least +as gratifying as the evacuation of the bowels or bladder; while, if we +take, as we certainly must, higher ground than this, an act which is at +once the supreme fact and symbol of love and the supreme creative act +cannot under normal conditions be other than the most pleasurable of all +acts, or it would stand in violent opposition to all that we find in +nature.</p> + +<p>How natural the sexual impulse is in women, whatever difficulties may +arise in regard to its complete gratification, is clearly seen when we +come to consider the frequency with which in young women we witness its +more or less instinctive manifestations. Such manifestations are liable to +occur in a specially marked manner in the years immediately following the +establishment of puberty, and are the more impressive when we remember the +comparatively passive part played by the female generally in the game of +courtship, and the immense social force working on women to compel them to +even an unnatural extension of that passive part. The manifestations to +which I allude not only occur with most frequency in young girls, but, +contrary to the common belief, they seem to occur chiefly in innocent and +unperverted girls. The more vicious are skillful enough to avoid the +necessity for any such open manifestations. We have to bear this in mind +when confronted by flagrant sexual phenomena in young girls.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"A young girl," says Hammer ("Ueber die Sinnlichkeit gesunder + Jungfrauen," <i>Die Neue Generation</i>, Aug., 1911), "who has not + previously <a name='3_Page_220'></a>adopted any method of self-gratification experiences + at the beginning of puberty, about the time of the first + menstruation and the sprouting of the pubic hair, in the absence + of all stimulation by a man, spontaneous sexual tendencies of + both local and psychic nature. On the psychic side there is a + feeling of emptiness and dissatisfaction, a need of subjection + and of serving, and, if the opportunity has so far been absent, + the craving to see masculine nudity and to learn the facts of + procreation. Side by side with these wishes, there are at the + same time inhibitory desires, such as the wish to keep herself + pure, either for a man whom she represents to herself as the + 'ideal,' or for her parents, who must not be worried, or as a + member of a chosen people in whose spirit she must live and die, + or out of love to Jesus or to some saint. On the physical side, + there is the feeling of fresh power and energy, of enterprise; + the agreeable tension of the genital regions, which easily become + moist. Then there is the feeling of overirritability and excess + of tension, and the need of relieving the tension through + pinches, blows, tight lacing, and so forth. If the girl remains + innocent of sex satisfaction, there takes place during sleep, at + regular intervals of about three days, more or less the relief + and emission of the tense glands, not corresponding to the + menstrual period, but to intercourse, and serving better than + sexual instruction to represent to her the phenomena of + intercourse. If at this period actual intercourse takes place, it + is, as a rule, free from pain, as also is the introduction of the + speculum. Without any seduction from without, the chaste girl now + frequently finds a way to relieve the excessive tension without + the aid of a man. It is self-abuse that leads gradually to the + production of pain in defloration. The menstrual phenomena + correspond to birth; self-gratification or relief during sleep to + intercourse." This statement of the matter is somewhat too + absolute and unqualified. Under the artificial conditions of + civilization the inhibitory influences of training speedily work + powerfully, and more or less successfully, in banishing sexual + phenomena into the subconscious, sometimes to work all the + mischief there which Freud attributes to them. It must also be + said (as I have pointed out in the discussion of Auto-erotism in + another volume) that sexual dreams seem to be the exception + rather than the rule in innocent girls. It remains true that + sexual phenomena in girls at puberty must not be regarded as + morbid or unnatural. There is also very good reason for believing + (even apart from the testimony of so experienced a gynecologist + as Hammer) that on the physical side sexual processes tend to be + accomplished with a facility that is often lost in later years + with prolonged chastity. This is true alike of intercourse and of + childbirth. (See vol. vi of these <i>Studies</i>, ch. xii.) </p></div><a name='3_Page_221'></a> + +<p>Even, however, in the case of adults the active part played by women in +real life in matters of love by no means corresponds to the conventional +ideas on these subjects. No doubt nearly every woman receives her sexual +initiation from an older and more experienced man. But, on the other hand, +nearly every man receives his first initiation through the active and +designed steps taken by an older and more experienced woman. It is too +often forgotten by those who write on these subjects that the man who +seduces a woman has usually himself in the first place been "seduced" by a +woman.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>A well-known physician in Chicago tells me that on making inquiry + of 25 middle-class married men in succession be found that 16 had + been first seduced by a woman. An officer in the Indian Medical + Service writes to me as follows: "Once at a club in Burma we were + some 25 at table and the subject of first intercourse came up. + All had been led astray by servants save 2, whom their sisters' + governesses had initiated. We were all men in the 'service,' so + the facts may be taken to be typical of what occurs in our + stratum of society. All had had sexual relations with respectable + unmarried girls, and most with the wives of men known to their + fathers, in some instances these being old enough to be their + lovers' mothers. Apparently up to the age of 17 none had dared to + make the first advances, yet from the age of 13 onward all had + had ample opportunity for gratifying their sexual instincts with + women. Though all had been to public schools where homosexuality + was known to occur, yet (as I can assert from intimate knowledge) + none had given signs of inversion or perversion in Burma."</p> + +<p> In Russia, Tchlenoff, investigating the sexual life of over 2000 + Moscow students of upper and middle class (<i>Archives + d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, Oct.-Nov., 1908), found that in half + of them the first coitus took place between 14 and 17 years of + age; in 41 per cent, with prostitutes, in 39 per cent, with + servants, and in 10 per cent, with married women. In 41 per cent, + the young man declared that he had taken the initiative, in 25 + per cent, the women took it, and in 23 per cent, the incitement + came from a comrade.</p> + +<p> The histories I have recorded in Appendix B (as well as in the + two following volumes of these <i>Studies</i>) very well illustrate + the tendency of young girls to manifest sexual impulses when + freed from the constraint which they feel in the presence of + adult men and from the fear of consequences. These histories show + especially how very frequently nurse-maids and servant-girls + effect the sexual initiation of the young boys intrusted to them. + How common this impulse is among adolescent <a name='3_Page_222'></a>girls of low social + class is indicated by the fact that certainly the majority of + middle-class men can recall instances from their own childhood. + (I here leave out of account the widespread practice among nurses + of soothing very young children in their charge by manipulating + the sexual organs.)</p> + +<p> A medical correspondent, in emphasizing this point, writes that + "many boys will tell you that, if a nurse-girl is allowed to + sleep in the same room with them, she will attempt sexual + manipulations. Either the girl gets into bed with the boy and + pulling him on to her tickles the penis and inserts it into the + vulva, making the boy imitate sexual movements, or she simply + masturbates the child, to get him excited and interested, often + showing him the female sexual opening in herself or in his + sisters, teaching him to finger it. In fact, a nurse-girl may + ruin a boy, chiefly, I think, because she has been brought up to + regard the sexual organs as a mystery, and is in utter ignorance + about them. She thus takes the opportunity of investigating the + boy's penis to find out how it works, etc., in order to satisfy + her curiosity. I know of a case in which a nurse in a fashionable + London Square garden used to collect all the boys and girls + (gentlemen's children) in a summer-house when it grew dark, and, + turning up her petticoats, invite all the boys to look at and + feel her vulva, and also incite the older boys of 12 or 14 to + have coitus with her. Girls are afraid of pregnancy, so do not + allow an adult penis to operate. I think people should take on a + far higher class of nurses, than they do."</p> + +<p> "Children ought never to be allowed, under any circumstances + whatever," wrote Lawson Tait (<i>Diseases of Women</i>, 1889, p. 62), + "to sleep with servants. In every instance where I have found a + number of children affected [by masturbation] the contagion has + been traced to a servant." Freud has found (<i>Neurologisches + Centralblatt</i>, No. 10, 1896) that in cases of severe youthful + hysteria the starting point may frequently be traced to sexual + manipulations by servants, nurse-girls, and governesses.</p> + +<p> "When I was about 8 or 9," a friend writes, "a servant-maid of + our family, who used to carry the candle out of my bedroom, often + drew down the bedclothes and inspected my organs. One night she + put the penis in her mouth. When I asked her why she did it her + answer was that 'sucking a boy's little dangle' cured her of + pains in her stomach. She said that she had done it to other + little boys, and declared that she liked doing it. This girl was + about 16; she had lately been 'converted.' Another maid in our + family used to kiss me warmly on the naked abdomen when I was a + small boy. But she never did more than that. I have heard of + various instances of servant-girls tampering with boys before + puberty, exciting the penis to premature erection by + <a name='3_Page_223'></a>manipulation, suction, and contact with their own parts." Such + overstimulation must necessarily in some cases have an injurious + influence on the boy's immature nervous system. Thus, Hutchinson + (<i>Archives of Surgery</i>, vol. iv, p. 200) describes a case of + amblyopia in a boy, developing after he had been placed to sleep + in a servant-girl's room.</p> + +<p> Moll (<i>Konträre Sexualempfindung</i>, third edition, 1899, p. 325) + refers to the frequency with which servant-girls (between the + ages of 18 and 30) carry on sexual practices with young boys + (between 5 and 13) committed to their care. More than a century + earlier Tissot, in his famous work on onanism, referred to the + frequency with which servant-girls corrupt boys by teaching them + to masturbate; and still earlier, in England, the author of + <i>Onania</i> gave many such cases. We may, indeed, go back to the + time of Rabelais, who (as Dr. Kiernan reminds me) represents the + governesses of Gargantua, when he was a child, as taking pleasure + in playing with his penis till it became wet, and joking with + each other about it. (<i>Gargantua</i>, book i, chapter ix.)</p> + +<p> The prevalence of such manifestations among servant-girls + witnesses to their prevalence among lower-class girls generally. + In judging such acts, even when they seem to be very deliberate, + it is important to remember that at this age unreasoning instinct + plays a very large part in the manifestations of the sexual + impulse. This is clearly indicated by the phenomena observed in + the insane. Thus, as we have seen (page 214), Schröter has found + that, among girls of low social class under 20 years of age, + spontaneous periodical sexual manifestations at menstrual epochs + occurred in as large a proportion as 72 per cent. Among girls of + better social position these impulses are inhibited, or at all + events modified, by good taste or good feeling, the influences of + tradition or education; it is only to the latter that children + should be intrusted.</p> + +<p> Hoche mentions a case in which a man was accused of repeatedly + exhibiting his sexual organs to the servant-girl at a house; she + enjoyed the spectacle (<i>Neurologisches Centralblatt</i>, 1896, No. + 2). It may well be that in some cases of self-exhibition the + offender has good reason, on the ground of previous experience, + for thinking that he is giving pleasure. "When we used to go to + bathe while I was at school," writes a correspondent, "girls from + a poor quarter of the lower town (some quite 16) often followed + us and stood to watch about a hundred yards from the river. They + used to 'giggle' and 'pass remarks.' I have seen girls of this + class peeping through chinks of a palisade around a bathing-place + on the Thames." A correspondent who has given special attention + to the point tells me of the great interest displayed by young + girls of the people in Italy in the sexual organs of men.</p><a name='3_Page_224'></a> + +<p> Curiosity—whether in the form of the desire for knowledge or the + desire for sensation—is, of course, not confined to young girls + and women of lower social strata, though in them it is less often + restrained by motives of self-respect and good feeling. "At the + age of 8," writes a correspondent, "I was one day playing in a + spare room with a girl of about 12 or 13. She gave me a + penholder, and, crouching upon her hands and knees, with her + posterior toward me, invited me to introduce the instrument into + the vulva. This was the first time I had seen the female parts, + and, as I appeared to be somewhat repelled, she coaxed me to + comply with her desire. I did as she directed, and she said that + it gave her pleasure. Several times after I repeated the same act + at her request. A friend tells me that when he was 10 a girl of + 16 asked him to lace up her boots. While he was kneeling at her + feet his hand touched her ankle. She asked him to put his hand + higher, and repeated 'Higher, higher,' till he touched the + pudenda, and finally, at her request, put his finger into the + vestibule. This girl was very handsome and amiable, and a + favorite of the boy's mother. No one suspected this propensity." + Again, a correspondent (a man of science) tells me of a friend + who lately, when dining out, met a girl, the daughter of a + country vicar; he was not specially attracted to her and paid her + no special attention. "A few days afterward he was astonished to + receive a call from her one afternoon (though his address is not + discoverable from any recognized source). She sat down as near to + him as she could, and rested her hand on his thigh, etc., while + talking on different subjects and drinking tea. Then without any + verbal prelude she asked him to have connection with her. Though + not exactly a Puritan, he is not the man to jump at such an offer + from a woman he is not in love with, so, after ascertaining that + the girl was <i>virgo intacta</i>, he declined and she went away. A + fortnight or so later he received a letter from her in the + country, making no reference to what had passed, but giving an + account of her work with her Sunday-school class. He did not + reply, and then came a curt note asking him to return her letter. + My friend feels sure she was devoted to auto-erotic performances, + but, having become attracted to him, came to the conclusion she + would like to try normal intercourse."</p> + +<p> Wolbarst, studying the prevalence of gonorrhea among boys in New + York (especially, it would appear, in quarters where the + foreign-born elements—mainly Russian Jew and south Italian—are + large), states: "In my study of this subject there have been + observed 3 cases of gonorrheal urethritis, in boys aged, + respectively, 4, 10, and 12 years, which were acquired in the + usual manner, from girls ranging between 10 and 12 years of age. + In each case, according to the story told by the victim, the girl + made the first advances, and in I case, that of the 4-year-old + boy, the act was consummated in the form of an assault, <a name='3_Page_225'></a>by a + girl 12 years old, in which the child was threatened with injury + unless he performed his part." (A. L. Wolbarst, <i>Journal of the + American Medical Association</i>, Sept. 28, 1901.) In a further + series of cases (<i>Medical Record</i>, Oct. 29, 1910) Wolbarst + obtained similar results, though he recognizes also the frequency + of precocious sexuality in the young boys themselves.</p> + +<p> Gibb states, concerning assaults on children by women: "It is + undeniably true that they occur much more frequently than is + generally supposed, although but few of the cases are brought to + public notice, owing to the difficulty of proving the charge." + (W. T. Gibb, article "Indecent Assaults upon Children," in A. + McLane Hamilton's <i>System of Legal Medicine</i>, vol. i, p. 651.) + Gibb's opinion carries weight, since he is medical adviser for + the New York Society for the Protection of Children, and + compelled to sift the evidence carefully in such cases.</p> + +<p> It should be mentioned that, while a sexual curiosity exercised + on younger children is, in girls about the age of puberty, an + ill-regulated, but scarcely morbid, manifestation, in older women + it may be of pathological origin. Thus, Kisch records the case of + a refined and educated lady of 30 who had been married for nine + years, but had never experienced sexual pleasure in coitus. For a + long time past, however, she had felt a strong desire to play + with the genital organs of children of either sex, a proceeding + which gave her sexual pleasure. She sought to resist this impulse + as much as possible, but during menstruation it was often + irresistible. Examination showed an enlarged and retroflexed + uterus and anesthesia of vagina. (Kisch, <i>Die Sterilität des + Weibes</i>, 1886, p. 103.) The psychological mechanism by which an + anesthetic vagina leads to a feeling of repulsion for normal + coitus and normal sexual organs, and directs the sexual feelings + toward more infantile forms of sexuality, is here not difficult + to trace.</p> + +<p> It is not often that the sexual attempts of girls and young women + on boys—notwithstanding their undoubted frequency—become of + medico-legal interest. In France in the course of ten years (1874 + to 1884) only 181 women, who were mostly between 20 and 30 years + of age, were actually convicted of sexual attempts on children + below 15. (Paul Bernard, "Viols et attentats a la Pudeur," + <i>Archives de l'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, 1887.) Lop ("Attentats + à la Pudeur commis par des Femmes sur des Petits Enfants," <i>id.</i>, + Aug., 1896) brings together a number of cases chiefly committed + by girls between the ages of 18 and 20. In England such + accusations against a young woman or girl may easily be + circumvented. If she is under 16 she is protected by the Criminal + Law Amendment Act and cannot be punished. In any case, when found + out, she can always easily bring the sympathy to her side by + declaring that she is not the aggressor, but the victim. Cases of + <a name='3_Page_226'></a>violent sexual assault upon girls, Lawson Tait remarks, while + they undoubtedly do occur, are very much rarer than the frequency + with which the charge is made would lead us to suspect. At one + time, by arrangement with the authority, 70 such charges at + Birmingham were consecutively brought before Lawson Tait. These + charges were all made under the Criminal Law Amendment Act. In + only 6 of these cases was he able to advise prosecution, in all + of which cases conviction was obtained. In 7 other cases in which + the police decided to prosecute there was either no conviction or + a very light sentence. In at least 26 cases the charge was + clearly trumped up. The average age of these girls was 12. "There + is not a piece of sexual argot that ever had before reached my + ears," remarks Mr. Tait, "but was used by these children in the + descriptions given by them of what had been done to them; and + they introduced, in addition, quite a new vocabulary on the + subject. The minute and detailed descriptions of the sexual act + given by chits of 10 and 11 would do credit to the pages of + Mirabeau. At first sight it is a puzzle to see how children so + young obtained their information." "About the use of the word + 'seduced,'" the same writer remarks, "I wish to say that the + class of women from amongst whom the great bulk of these cases + are drawn seem to use it in a sense altogether different from + that generally employed. It is not with them a process in which + male villainy succeeds by various arts in overcoming female + virtue and reluctance, but simply a date at which an incident in + their lives occurs for the first time; and, according to their + use of the phrase, the ancient legend of the Sacred Scriptures, + had it ended in the more ordinary and usual way by the virtue of + Joseph yielding to the temptation offered, would have to read as + a record of the seduction of Mrs. Potiphar."</p> + +<p> With reference to Lawson Tait's observation that violent assaults + on women, while they do occur, are very much rarer than the + frequency with which such charges are made would lead us to + believe, it may be remarked that many medico-legal authorities + are of the same opinion. (See, <i>e.g.</i>, G. Vivian Poore's + <i>Treatise on Medical Jurisprudence</i>, 1901, p. 325. This writer + also remarks: "I hold very strongly that a woman may rape a man + as much as a man may rape a woman.") There can be little doubt + that the plea of force is very frequently seized on by women as + the easiest available weapon of defense when her connection with + a man has been revealed. She has been so permeated by the current + notion that no "respectable" woman can possibly have any sexual + impulses of her own to gratify that, in order to screen what she + feels to be regarded as an utterly shameful and wicked, as well + as foolish, act, she declares it never took place by her own will + at all. "Now, I ask you, gentlemen," I once heard an experienced + counsel address the jury in a criminal case, "as men of the + world, have you ever known <a name='3_Page_227'></a>or heard of a woman, a single woman, + confess that she had had sexual connection and not declare that + force had been used to compel her to such connection?" The + statement is a little sweeping, but in this matter there is some + element of truth in the "man of the world's" opinion. One may + refer to the story (told by Etienne de Bourbon, by Francisco de + Osuna in a religious work, and by Cervantes in <i>Don Quixote</i>, + part ii, ch. xlv) concerning a magistrate who, when a girl came + before him to complain of rape, ordered the accused young man + either to marry her or pay her a sum of money. The fine was paid, + and the magistrate then told the man to follow the girl and take + the money from her by force; the man obeyed, but the girl + defended herself so energetically that he could not secure the + money. Then the judge, calling the parties before him again, + ordered the fine to be returned: "Had you defended your chastity + as well as you have defended your money it could not have been + taken away from you." In most cases of "rape," in the case of + adults, there has probably been some degree of consent, though + that partial assent may have been basely secured by an appeal to + the lower nervous centers alone, with no participation of the + intelligence and will. Freud (<i>Zur Psychopathologie des + Alltagslebens</i>, p. 87) considers that on this ground the judge's + decision in <i>Don Quixote</i> is "psychologically unjust," because in + such a case the woman's strength is paralyzed by the fact that an + unconscious instinct in herself takes her assailant's part + against her own conscious resistance. But it must be remembered + that the factor of instinct plays a large part even when no + violence is attempted. </p></div> + +<p>Such facts and considerations as these tend to show that the sexual +impulse is by no means so weak in women as many would lead us to think. It +would appear that, whereas in earlier ages there was generally a tendency +to credit women with an unduly large share of the sexual impulse, there is +now a tendency to unduly minimize the sexual impulse in women.</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='3_Footnote_156'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_156'>[156]</a><div class='note'><p> I have had occasion to refer to the historic evolution of +male opinion regarding women in previous volumes, as, <i>e.g.</i>, <i>Man and +Woman</i>, chapter i, and the appendix on "The Influence of Menstruation on +the Position of Women" in the first volume of these <i>Studies</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_157'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_157'>[157]</a><div class='note'><p> The terminology proposed by Ziehen ("Zur Lehre von den +psychopathischen Konstitutionen," <i>Charité Annalen</i>, vol. xxxxiii, 1909) +is as follows: For absence of sexual feeling, <i>anhedonia</i>; for diminution +of the same, <i>hyphedonia</i>; for excess of sexual feeling, <i>hyperhedonia</i>; +for qualitative sexual perversions, <i>parhedonia</i>. "Erotic blindness" was +suggested by Nardelli.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_158'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_158'>[158]</a><div class='note'><p> O. Adler, <i>Die Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung des +Weibes</i>, 1904, p. 146.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_159'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_159'>[159]</a><div class='note'><p> A correspondent tells me that he knows a woman who has been +a prostitute since the age of 15, but never experienced sexual pleasure +and a real, non-simulated orgasm till she was 23; since then she has +become very sensual. In other similar cases the hitherto indifferent +prostitute, having found the man who suits her, abandons her profession, +even though she is thereby compelled to live in extreme poverty. "An +insensible woman," as La Bruyère long ago remarked in his chapter "Des +Femmes," "is merely one who has not yet seen the man she must love."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_160'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_160'>[160]</a><div class='note'><p> Guttceit (<i>Dreissig Jahre Praxis</i>, vol. i, p. 416) pointed +out that the presence or absence of the orgasm is the only factor in +"sexual anesthesia" of which we can speak at all definitely; and he +believed that anaphrodism, in the sense of absence of the sexual impulse, +never occurs at all, many women having confided to him that they had +sexual desires, although those desires were not gratified by coitus.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_161'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_161'>[161]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Op. cit.</i>, p. 164.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_162'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_162'>[162]</a><div class='note'><p> Havelock Ellis, "Madame de Warens," <i>The Venture</i>, 1903.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_163'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_163'>[163]</a><div class='note'><p> It is interesting to observe that finally even Adler admits +(<i>op. cit.</i>, p. 155) that there is no such thing as <i>congenital</i> lack of +aptitude for sexual sensibility.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_164'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_164'>[164]</a><div class='note'><p> "I am not entirely satisfied with the testimony as to the +alleged sexual anesthesia," a medical correspondent writes. "The same +principle which makes the young harlot an old saint makes the repentant +rake a believer in sexual anesthesia. Most of the medical men who believe, +or claim to believe, that sexual anesthesia is so prevalent do so either +to flatter their hysterical patients or because they have the mentality of +the Hyacinthe of Zola's <i>Paris</i>."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_165'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_165'>[165]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Differences in the Nervous Organization of Man and Woman</i>, +1891; chapter xiii, "Sexual Instinct in Men and Women Compared."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_166'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_166'>[166]</a><div class='note'><p> Matthews Duncan considered that "the healthy performance of +the functions of child-bearing is surely connected with a well-regulated +condition of desire and pleasure." "Desire and pleasure," he adds, "may be +excessive, furious, overpowering, without bringing the female into the +class of maniacs; they may be temporary, healthy, and moderate; they may +be absent or dull." (Matthews Duncan, <i>Goulstonian Lectures on Sterility +in Woman</i>, pp. 91, 121.)</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_167'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_167'>[167]</a><div class='note'><p> Geoffrey Mortimer, <i>Chapters on Human Love</i>, 1898, ch. +xvi.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_168'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_168'>[168]</a><div class='note'><p> I do not, however, attach much weight to this possibility. +The sexual instinct among the lower social classes everywhere is subject +to comparatively weak inhibition, and Löwenfeld is probably right in +believing the women of the lower class do not suffer from sexual +anesthesia to anything like the same extent as upper-class women. In +England most women of the working class appear to have had sexual +intercourse at some time in their lives, notwithstanding the risks of +pregnancy, and if pregnancy occurs they refer to it calmly as an +"accident," for which they cannot be held responsible; "Well, I couldn't +help that," I have heard a young widow remark when mildly reproached for +the existence of her illegitimate child. Again, among American negresses +there seems to be no defect of sexual passion, and it is said that the +majority of negresses in the Southern States support not only their +children, but their lovers and husbands.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_S_II'></a><h3><a name='3_Page_228'></a>II.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Special Characters of the Sexual Impulse in Women—The More Passive Part +Played by Women in Courtship—This Passivity only Apparent—The Physical +Mechanism of the Sexual Process in Women More Complex—The Slower +Development of Orgasm in Women—The Sexual Impulse in Women More +Frequently Needs to be Actively Aroused—The Climax of Sexual Energy Falls +Later in Women's Lives than in Men's—Sexual Ardor in Women Increased +After the Establishment of Sexual Relationships—Women bear Sexual +Excesses better than Men—The Sexual Sphere Larger and More Diffused in +Women—The Sexual Impulse in Women Shows a Greater Tendency to Periodicity +and a Wider Range of Variation.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>So far I have been discussing the question of the sexual impulse in women +on the ground upon which previous writers have usually placed it. The +question, that is, has usually presented itself to them as one concerning +the relative strength of the impulse in men and women. When so considered, +not hastily and with prepossession, as is too often the case, but with a +genuine desire to get at the real facts in all their aspects, there is no +reason, as we have seen, to conclude that, on the whole, the sexual +impulse in women is lacking in strength.</p> + +<p>But we have to push our investigation of the matter further. In reality, +the question as to whether the sexual impulse is or is not stronger in one +sex than in the other is a somewhat crude one. To put the question in that +form is to reveal ignorance of the real facts of the matter. And in that +form, moreover, no really definite and satisfactory answer can be given.</p> + +<p>It is necessary to put the matter on different ground. Instead of taking +more or less insolvable questions as to the strength of the sexual impulse +in the two sexes, it is more profitable to consider its differences. What +are the special characters of the sexual impulse in women?</p> + +<p>There is certainly one purely natural sexual difference of a fundamental +character, which lies at the basis of whatever truth may be in the +assertion that women are not susceptible <a name='3_Page_229'></a>of sexual emotion. As may he +seen when considering the phenomena of modesty, the part played by the +female in courtship throughout nature is usually different from that +played by the male, and is, in some respects, a more difficult and complex +part. Except when the male fails to play his part properly, she is usually +comparatively passive; in the proper playing of her part she has to appear +to shun the male, to flee from his approaches—even actually to repel +them.<a name='3_FNanchor_169'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_169'><sup>[169]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Courtship resembles very closely, indeed, a drama or game; and the +aggressiveness of the male, the coyness of the female, are alike +unconsciously assumed in order to bring about in the most effectual manner +the ultimate union of the sexes. The seeming reluctance of the female is +not intended to inhibit sexual activity either in the male or in herself, +but to increase it in both. The passivity of the female, therefore, is not +a real, but only an apparent, passivity, and this holds true of our own +species as much as of the lower animals. "Women are like delicately +adjusted alembics," said a seventeenth-century author. "No fire can be +seen outside, but if you look underneath the alembic, if you place your +hand on the hearts of women, in both places you will find a great +furnace."<a name='3_FNanchor_170'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_170'><sup>[170]</sup></a> Or, as Marro has finely put it, the passivity of women in +love is the passivity of the magnet, which in its apparent immobility is +drawing the iron toward it. An intense energy lies behind such passivity, +an absorbed preoccupation in the end to be attained.</p> + +<p>Tarde, when exercising magistrate's functions, once had to inquire into a +case in which a young man was accused of murder. In questioning a girl of +18, a shepherdess, who appeared before him as a witness, she told him that +on the morning following the crime she had seen the footmarks of the +accused up to a certain point. He asked how she recognized them, and she +replied, ingenuously but with assurance, that she could recognize the +footprints of every young man in the neighborhood, even in <a name='3_Page_230'></a>a plowed +field.<a name='3_FNanchor_171'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_171'><sup>[171]</sup></a> No better illustration could be given of the real significance +of the sexual passivity of women, even at its most negative point.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"The women I have known," a correspondent writes, "do not express + their sensations and feelings as much as I do. Nor have I found + women usually anxious to practise 'luxuries.' They seldom care to + practice <i>fellatio</i>; I have only known one woman who offered to + do <i>fellatio</i> because she liked it. Nor do they generally care to + masturbate a man; that is, they do not care greatly to enjoy the + contemplation of the other person's excitement. (To me, to see + the woman excited means almost more than my own pleasure.) They + usually resist <i>cunnilinctus</i>, although they enjoy it. They do + not seem to care to touch or look at a man's parts so much as he + does at theirs. And they seem to dislike the tongue-kiss unless + they feel very sexual or really love a man." My correspondent + admits that his relationships have been numerous and facile, + while his erotic demands tend also to deviate from the normal + path. Under such circumstances, which not uncommonly occur, the + woman's passions fail to be deeply stirred, and she retains her + normal attitude of relative passivity.</p> + +<p> It is owing to the fact that the sexual passivity of women is + only an apparent, and not a real, passivity that women are apt to + suffer, as men are, from prolonged sexual abstinence. This, + indeed, has been denied, but can scarcely be said to admit of + doubt. The only question is as to the relative amount of such + suffering, necessarily a very difficult question. As far back as + the fourteenth century Johannes de Sancto Amando stated that + women are more injured than men by sexual abstinence. In modern + times Maudsley considers that women "suffer more than men do from + the entire deprivation of sexual intercourse" ("Relations between + Body and Mind," <i>Lancet</i>, May 28, 1870). By some it has been held + that this cause may produce actual disease. Thus, Tilt, an + eminent gynecologist of the middle of the nineteenth century, in + discussing this question, wrote: "When we consider how much of + the lifetime of woman is occupied by the various phases of the + generative process, and how terrible is often the conflict within + her between the impulse of passion and the dictates of duty, it + may be well understood how such a conflict reacts on the organs + of the sexual economy in the unimpregnated female, and + principally on the ovaria, <a name='3_Page_231'></a>causing an orgasm, which, if often + repeated, may <i>possibly</i> be productive of subacute ovaritis." + (Tilt, <i>On Uterine and Ovarian Inflammation</i>, 1862, pp. 309-310.) + Long before Tilt, Haller, it seems, had said that women are + especially liable to suffer from privation of sexual intercourse + to which they have been accustomed, and referred to chlorosis, + hysteria, nymphomania, and simple mania curable by intercourse. + Hegar considers that in women an injurious result follows the + nonsatisfaction of the sexual impulse and of the "ideal + feelings," and that symptoms thus arise (pallor, loss of flesh, + cardialgia, malaise, sleeplessness, disturbances of menstruation) + which are diagnosed as "chlorosis." (Hegar, <i>Zusammenhang der + Geschlechtskrankheiten mit nervösen Leiden</i>, 1885, p. 45.) Freud, + as well as Gattel, has found that states of anxiety + (<i>Angstzustände</i>) are caused by sexual abstinence. Löwenfeld, on + careful examination of his own cases, is able to confirm this + connection in both sexes. He has specially noticed it in young + women who marry elderly husbands. Löwenfeld believes, however, + that, on the whole, healthy unmarried women bear sexual + abstinence better than men. If, however, they are of at all + neuropathic disposition, ungratified sexual emotions may easily + lead to various morbid conditions, especially of a + hysteroneurasthenic character. (Löwenfeld, <i>Sexualleben und + Nervenleiden</i>, second edition, 1899, pp. 44, 47, 54-60.) + Balls-Headley considers that unsatisfied sexual desires in women + may lead to the following conditions: general atrophy, anemia, + neuralgia and hysteria, irregular menstruation, leucorrhea, + atrophy of sexual organs. He also refers to the frequency of + myoma of the uterus among those who have not become pregnant or + who have long ceased to bear children. (Balls-Headley, art. + "Etiology of Diseases of Female Genital Organs," Allbutt and + Playfair, <i>System of Gynæcology</i>, 1896, p. 141.) It cannot, + however, be said that he brings forward substantial evidence in + favor of these beliefs. It may be added that in America, during + recent years, leading gynecologists have recorded a number of + cases in which widows on remarriage have shown marked improvement + in uterine and pelvic conditions.</p> + +<p> The question as to whether men or women suffer most from sexual + abstinence, as well as the question whether definite morbid + conditions are produced by such abstinence, remains, however, an + obscure and debated problem. The available data do not enable us + to answer it decisively. It is one of those subtle and complex + questions which can only be investigated properly by a + gynecologist who is also a psychologist. Incidentally, however, + we have met and shall have occasion to meet with evidence bearing + on this question. It is sufficient to say here, briefly, that it + is impossible to believe, even if no evidence were forthcoming, + that the exercise or non-exercise of so vastly important a + <a name='3_Page_232'></a>function can make no difference to the organism generally. So + far as the evidence goes, it may be said to indicate that the + results of the abeyance of the sexual functions in healthy women + in whom the sexual emotions have never been definitely aroused + tend to be diffused and unconscious, as the sexual impulse itself + often is, but that, in women in whom the sexual emotions have + been definitely aroused and gratified, the results of sexual + abstinence tend to be acute and conscious.</p> + +<p> These acute results are at the present day very often due to + premature ejaculation by nervous or neurasthenic husbands, the + rapidity with which detumescence is reached in the husband + allowing insufficient time for tumescence in the wife, who + consequently fails to reach the orgasm. This has of late been + frequently pointed out. Thus Kafemann (<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, March, + 1910, p. 194 <i>et seq.</i>) emphasizes the prevalence of sexual + incompetence in men. Ferenczi, of Budapest (<i>Zentralblatt für + Psychoanalyse</i>, 1910, ht. 1 and 2, p. 75), believes that the + combination of neurasthenic husbands with resultantly nervous + wives is extraordinarily common; even putting aside the + neurasthenic, he considers it may be said that the whole male sex + in relation to women suffer from precocious ejaculation. He adds + that it is often difficult to say whether the lack of harmony may + not be due to retarded orgasm in the woman. He regards the + influence of masturbation in early life as tending to quicken + orgasm in man, while when practised by the other sex it tends to + slow orgasm, and thus increases the disharmony. He holds, + however, that the chief cause lies in the education of women with + its emphasis on sexual repression; this works too well and the + result is that when the external impediments to the sexual + impulse are removed the impulse has become incapable of normal + action. Porosz (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, April 1, 1911) has + brought forward cases of serious nervous trouble in women which + have been dispersed when the sexual weakness and premature + ejaculation of the husband have been cured. </p></div> + +<p>The true nature of the passivity of the female is revealed by the ease +with which it is thrown off, more especially when the male refuses to +accept his cue. Or, if we prefer to accept the analogy of a game, we may +say that in the play of courtship the first move belongs to the male, but +that, if he fails to play, it is then the female's turn to play.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Among many birds the males at mating time fall into a state of + sexual frenzy, but not the females. "I cannot call to mind a + single case," states an authority on birds (H. E. Howard, + <i>Zoölogist</i>, 1902, p. 146), "where I have seen anything + approaching frenzy in the female of any species while mating."</p><a name='3_Page_233'></a> + +<p> Another great authority on birds, a very patient and skillful + observer, Mr. Edmund Selous, remarks, however, in describing the + courting habits of the ruffs and reeves (<i>Machetes pugnax</i>) that, + notwithstanding the passivity of the females beforehand, their + movements during and after coitus show that they derive at least + as much pleasure as the males. (E. Selous, "Selection in Birds," + <i>Zoölogist</i>, Feb. and May, 1907.)</p> + +<p> The same observer, after speaking of the great beauty of the male + eider duck, continues: "These glorified males—there were a dozen + of these, perhaps, to some six or seven females—swam closely + about the latter, but more in attendance upon them than as + actively pursuing them, for the females seemed themselves almost + as active agents in the sport of being wooed as were their lovers + in wooing them. The male bird first dipped down his head till his + beak just touched the water, then raised it again in a + constrained and tense manner,—the curious rigid action so + frequent in the nuptial antics of birds,—at the same time + uttering his strange haunting note. The air became filled with + it; every moment one or other of the birds—sometimes several + together—with upturned bill would softly laugh or exclaim, and + while the males did this, the females, turning excitedly, and + with little eager demonstrations from one to another of them, + kept lowering and extending forward the head and neck in the + direction of each in turn.... I noticed that a female would often + approach a male bird with her head and neck laid flat along the + water as though in a very 'coming on' disposition, and that the + male bird declined her advances. This, taken in conjunction with + the actions of the female when courted by the male, appears to me + to raise a doubt as to the universal application of the law that + throughout nature the male, in courtship, is eager, and the + female coy. Here, to all appearances, courtship was proceeding, + and the birds had not yet mated. The female eider ducks, + however,—at any rate, some of them,—appeared to be anything but + coy." (<i>Bird Watching</i>, pp. 144-146.)</p> + +<p> Among moor-hens and great-crested grebes sometimes what Selous + terms "functional hermaphroditism" occurs and the females play + the part of the male toward their male companions, and then + repeat the sexual act with a reversion to the normal order, the + whole to the satisfaction of both parties. (E. Selous, + <i>Zoölogist</i>, 1902, p. 196.)</p> + +<p> It is not only among birds that the female sometimes takes the + active part, but also among mammals. Among white rats, for + instance, the males are exceptionally eager. Steinach, who has + made many valuable experiments on these animals (<i>Archiv für die + Gesammte Physiologie</i>, Bd. lvi, 1894, p. 319), tells us that, + when a female white rat is introduced into the cage of a male, he + at once leaves off eating, or whatever else he may be doing, + becomes indifferent to noises or any <a name='3_Page_234'></a>other source of + distraction, and devotes himself entirely to her. If, however, he + is introduced into her cage the new environment renders him + nervous and suspicious, and then it is she who takes the active + part, trying to attract him in every way. The impetuosity during + heat of female animals of various species, when at length + admitted to the male, is indeed well known to all who are + familiar with animals.</p> + +<p> I have referred to the frequency with which, in the human + species,—and very markedly in early adolescence, when the sexual + impulse is in a high degree unconscious and unrestrainedly + instinctive,—similar manifestations may often be noted. We have + to recognize that they are not necessarily abnormal and still + less pathological. They merely represent the unseasonable + apparition of a tendency which in due subordination is implied in + the phases of courtship throughout the animal world. Among some + peoples and in some stages of culture, tending to withdraw the + men from women and the thought of women, this phase of courtship + and this attitude assume a prominence which is absolutely normal. + The literature of the Middle Ages presents a state of society in + which men were devoted to war and to warlike sports, while the + women took the more active part in love-making. The medieval + poets represent women as actively encouraging backward lovers, + and as delighting to offer to great heroes the chastity they had + preserved, sometimes entering their bed-chambers at night. + Schultz (<i>Das Höfische Leben</i>, Bd. i, pp. 594-598) considers that + these representations are not exaggerated. <i>Cf.</i> Krabbes, <i>Die + Frau im Altfranzösischen Karls-Epos</i>, 1884, p. 20 <i>et seq.</i>; and + M. A. Potter, <i>Sohrab and Rustem</i>, 1902, pp. 152-163.</p> + +<p> Among savages and barbarous races in various parts of the world + it is the recognized custom, reversing the more usual method, for + the girl to take the initiative in courtship. This is especially + so in New Guinea. Here the girls almost invariably take the + initiative, and in consequence hold a very independent position. + Women are always regarded as the seducers: "Women steal men." A + youth who proposed to a girl would be making himself ridiculous, + would be called a woman, and be laughed at by the girls. The + usual method by which a girl proposes is to send a present to the + youth by a third party, following this up by repeated gifts of + food; the young man sometimes waits a month or two, receiving + presents all the time, in order to assure himself of the girl's + constancy before decisively accepting her advances. (A. C. Haddon, + <i>Cambridge Expedition to Torres Straits</i>, vol. v, ch. viii; + <i>id.</i>, "Western Tribes of Torres Straits," <i>Journal of the + Anthropological Institute</i>, vol. xix, February, 1890, pp. 314, + 356, 394, 395, 411, 413; <i>id.</i>, <i>Head Hunters</i>, pp. 158-164; R. E. + Guise, "Tribes of the Wanigela River," <i>Journal of the + Anthropological Institute</i>, new series, vol. i, February-May, + 1899, p. 209.) Westermarck gives instances of <a name='3_Page_235'></a>races among whom + the women take the initiative in courtship. (<i>History of + Marriage</i>, p. 158; so also Finck, <i>Primitive Love and + Love-stories</i>, 1899, p. 109 <i>et seq.</i>; and as regards Celtic + women, see Rhys and Brynmor Jones, <i>The Welsh People</i>.) </p></div> + +<p>There is another characteristic of great significance by which the sexual +impulse in women differs from that in men: the widely unlike character of +the physical mechanism involved in the process of coitus. Considering how +obvious this difference is, it is strange that its fundamental importance +should so often be underrated. In man the process of tumescence and +detumescence is simple. In women it is complex. In man we have the more or +less spontaneously erectile penis, which needs but very simple conditions +to secure the ejaculation which brings relief. In women we have in the +clitoris a corresponding apparatus on a small scale, but behind this has +developed a much more extensive mechanism, which also demands +satisfaction, and requires for that satisfaction the presence of various +conditions that are almost antagonistic. Naturally the more complex +mechanism is the more easily disturbed. It is the difference, roughly +speaking, between a lock and a key. This analogy is far from indicating +all the difficulties involved. We have to imagine a lock that not only +requires a key to fit it, but should only be entered at the right moment, +and, under the best conditions, may only become adjusted to the key by +considerable use. The fact that the man takes the more active part in +coitus has increased these difficulties; the woman is too often taught to +believe that the whole function is low and impure, only to be submitted to +at her husband's will and for his sake, and the man has no proper +knowledge of the mechanism involved and the best way of dealing with it. +The grossest brutality thus may be, and not infrequently is, exercised in +all innocence by an ignorant husband who simply believes that he is +performing his "marital duties." For a woman to exercise this physical +brutality on a man is with difficulty possible; a man's pleasurable +excitement is usually the necessary condition of the woman's sexual +gratification. But the reverse is not the case, and, if the man is +sufficiently ignorant or <a name='3_Page_236'></a>sufficiently coarse-grained to be satisfied with +the woman's submission, he may easily become to her, in all innocence, a +cause of torture.</p> + +<p>To the man coitus must be in some slight degree pleasurable or it cannot +take place at all. To the woman the same act which, under some +circumstances, in the desire it arouses and the satisfaction it imparts, +will cause the whole universe to shrivel into nothingness, under other +circumstances will be a source of anguish, physical and mental. This is so +to some extent even in the presence of the right and fit man. There can be +no doubt whatever that the mucus which is so profusely poured out over the +external sexual organs in woman during the excitement of sexual desire has +for its end the lubrication of the parts and the facilitation of the +passage of the intromittent organ. The most casual inspection of the cold, +contracted, dry vulva in its usual aspect and the same when distended, +hot, and moist suffices to show which condition is and which is not that +ready for intercourse, and until the proper condition is reached it is +certain that coitus should not be attempted.</p> + +<p>The varying sensitiveness of the female parts again offers difficulties. +Sexual relations in women are, at the onset, almost inevitably painful; +and to some extent the same experience may be repeated at every act of +coitus. Ordinary tactile sensibility in the female genitourinary region is +notably obtuse, but at the beginning of the sexual act there is normally a +hyperesthesia which may be painful or pleasurable as excitement +culminates, passing into a seeming anesthesia, which even craves for rough +contact; so that in sexual excitement a woman normally displays in quick +succession that same quality of sensibility to superficial pressure and +insensibility to deep pressure which the hysterical woman exhibits +simultaneously.</p> + +<p>Thus we see that a highly important practical result follows from the +greater complexity of the sexual apparatus in women and the greater +difficulty with which it is aroused. In coitus the orgasm tends to occur +more slowly in women than in men. It may easily happen that the whole +process of detumescence <a name='3_Page_237'></a>is completed in the man before it has begun in +his partner, who is left either cold or unsatisfied. This is one of the +respects in which women remain nearer than men to the primitive stage of +humanity.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In the Hippocratic treatise, <i>Of Generation</i>, it is stated that, + while woman has less pleasure in coitus than man, her pleasure + lasts longer. (<i>Œuvres d'Hippocrate</i>, edition Littré, + vol. vii, p. 477.)</p> + +<p> Beaunis considers that the slower development of the orgasm in + women is the only essential difference in the sexual process in + men and women. (Beaunis, <i>Les Sensations Internes</i>, 1889, p. + 151.) This characteristic of the sexual impulse in women, though + recognized for so long a period, is still far too often ignored + or unknown. There is even a superstition that injurious results + may follow if the male orgasm is not effected as rapidly as + possible. That this is not so is shown by the experiences of the + Oneida community in America, who in their system of sexual + relationship carried prolonged intercourse without ejaculation to + an extreme degree. There can be no doubt whatever that very + prolonged intercourse gives the maximum amount of pleasure and + relief to the woman. Not only is this the very decided opinion of + women who have experienced it, but it is also indicated by the + well-recognized fact that a woman who repeats the sexual act + several times in succession often experiences more intense orgasm + and pleasure with each repetition.</p> + +<p> This point is much better understood in the East than in the + West. The prolongation of the man's excitement, in order to give + the woman time for orgasm, is, remarks Sir Richard Burton + (<i>Arabian Nights</i>, vol. v, p. 76), much studied by Moslems, as + also by Hindoos, who, on this account, during the orgasm seek to + avoid overtension of muscles and to preoccupy the brain. During + coitus they will drink sherbet, chew betel-nut, and even smoke. + Europeans devote no care to this matter, and Hindoo women, who + require about twenty minutes to complete the act, contemptuously + call them "village cocks." I have received confirmation of + Burton's statements on this point from medical correspondents in + India.</p> + +<p> While the European desires to perform as many acts of coitus in + one night as possible, Breitenstein remarks, the Malay, as still + more the Javanese, wishes, not to repeat the act many times, but + to prolong it. His aim is to remain in the vagina for about a + quarter of an hour. Unlike the European, also, he boasts of the + pleasure he has given his partner far more than of his own + pleasure. (Breitenstein, <i>21 Jahre in India</i>, theil i, "Borneo," + p. 228.)</p> + +<p> Jäger (<i>Entdeckung der Seele</i>, second edition, vol. i, 1884, p. + 203), as quoted by Moll, explains the preference of some women + for castrated <a name='3_Page_238'></a>men as due, not merely to the absence of risk of + impregnation, but to the prolonged erections that take place in + the castrated. Aly-Belfàdel remarks (<i>Archivio di Psichiatria</i>, + 1903, p. 117) that he knows women who prefer old men in coitus + simply because of their delay in ejaculation which allows more + time to the women to become excited.</p> + +<p> A Russian correspondent living in Italy informs me that a + Neapolitan girl of 17, who had only recently ceased to be a + virgin, explained to him that she preferred <i>coitus in ore vulvæ</i> + to real intercourse because the latter was over before she had + time to obtain the orgasm (or, as she put it, "the big bird has + fled from the cage and I am left in the lurch"), while in the + other way she was able to experience the orgasm twice before her + partner reached the climax. "This reminds me," my correspondent + continues, "that a Milanese cocotte once told me that she much + liked intercourse with Jews because, on account of the + circumcised penis being less sensitive to contact, they ejaculate + more slowly then Christians. 'With Christians,' she said, 'it + constantly happens that I am left unsatisfied because they + ejaculate before me, while in coitus with Jews I sometimes + ejaculate twice before the orgasm occurs in my partner, or, + rather, I hold back the second orgasm until he is ready.' This is + confirmed," my correspondent continues, "by what I was told by a + Russian Jew, a student at the Zürich Polytechnic, who had a + Russian comrade living with a mistress, also a Russian student, + or pseudostudent. One day the Jew, going early to see his friend, + was told to enter by a woman's voice and found his friend's + mistress alone and in her chemise beside the bed. He was about to + retire, but the young woman bade him stay and in a few minutes he + was in bed with her. She told him that her lover had just gone + away and that she never had sexual relief with him because he + always ejaculated too soon. That morning he had left her so + excited and so unrelieved that she was just about to + masturbate—which she rarely did because it gave her + headache—when she heard the Jew's voice, and, knowing that Jews + are slower in coitus than Christians, she had suddenly resolved + to give herself to him."</p> + +<p> I am informed that the sexual power of negroes and slower + ejaculation (see Appendix A) are the cause of the favor with + which they are viewed by some white women of strong sexual + passions in America, and by many prostitutes. At one time there + was a special house in New York City to which white women + resorted for these "buck lovers"; the women came heavily veiled + and would inspect the penises of the men before making their + selection. </p></div> + +<p>It is thus a result of the complexity of the sexual mechanism in women +that the whole attitude of a woman toward <a name='3_Page_239'></a>the sexual relationship is +liable to be affected disastrously by the husband's lack of skill or +consideration in initiating her into this intimate mystery. Normally the +stage of apparent repulsion and passivity, often associated with great +sensitiveness, physical and moral, passes into one of active participation +and aid in the consummation of the sexual act. But if, from whatever +cause, there is partial arrest on the woman's side of this evolution in +the process of courtship, if her submission is merely a mental and +deliberate act of will, and not an instinctive and impulsive +participation, there is a necessary failure of sexual relief and +gratification. When we find that a woman displays a certain degree of +indifference in sexual relationships, and a failure of complete +gratification, we have to recognize that the fault may possibly lie, not +in her, but in the defective skill of a lover who has not known how to +play successfully the complex and subtle game of courtship. Sexual +coldness due to the shock and suffering of the wedding-night is a +phenomenon that is far too frequent.<a name='3_FNanchor_172'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_172'><sup>[172]</sup></a> Hence it is that many women may +never experience sexual gratification and relief, through no defect on +their part, but through the failure of the husband to understand the +lover's part. We make a false analogy when we compare the courtship of +animals exclusively with our own courtships before marriage. Courtship, +properly understood, is the process whereby both the male and the female +are brought into that state of sexual tumescence which is a more or less +necessary condition for sexual intercourse. The play of courtship cannot, +therefore, be considered to be definitely brought to an end by the +ceremony of marriage; it may more properly be regarded as the natural +preliminary to every act of coitus.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Tumescence is not merely a more or less essential condition for + proper sexual intercourse. It is probably of more fundamental + significance as one of the favoring conditions of impregnation. + This has, <a name='3_Page_240'></a>indeed, been long recognized. Van Swieten, when + consulted by the childless Maria Theresa, gave the opinion "Ego + vero censeo, vulvam Sacratissimæ Majestatis ante coitum diutius + esse titillandam," and thereafter she had many children. "I think + it very nearly certain," Matthews Duncan wrote (<i>Goulstonian + Lectures on Sterility in Woman</i>, 1884, p. 96), "that desire and + pleasure in due or moderate degree are very important aids to, or + predisposing causes of, fecundity," as bringing into action the + complicated processes of fecundation. Hirst (<i>Text-book of + Obstetrics</i>, 1899, p. 67) mentions the case of a childless + married woman who for six years had had no orgasm during + intercourse; then it occurred at the same time as coitus, and + pregnancy resulted.</p> + +<p> Kisch is very decidedly of the same opinion, and considers that + the popular belief on this point is fully justified. It is a + fact, he states, that an unfaithful wife is more likely to + conceive with her lover than with her husband, and he concludes + that, whatever the precise mechanism may be, "sexual excitement + on the woman's part is a necessary link in the chain of + conditions producing impregnation." (E. H. Kisch, <i>Die Sterilität + des Weibes</i>, 1886, p. 99.) Kisch believes (p. 103) that in the + majority of women sexual pleasure only appears gradually, after + the first cohabitation, and then develops progressively, and that + the first conception usually coincides with its complete + awakening. In 556 cases of his own the most frequent epoch of + first impregnation was found to be between ten and fifteen months + after marriage.</p> + +<p> The removal of sexual frigidity thus becomes a matter of some + importance. This removal may in some cases be effected by + treatment through the husband, but that course is not always + practicable. Dr. Douglas Bryan, of Leicester, informs me that in + several cases he has succeeded in removing sexual coldness and + physical aversion in the wife by hypnotic suggestion. The + suggestions given to the patient are "that all her womanly + natural feelings would be quickly and satisfactorily developed + during coitus; that she would experience no feeling of disgust + and nausea, would have no fear of the orgasm not developing; that + there would be no involuntary resistance on her part." The fact + that such suggestions can be permanently effective tends to show + how superficial the sexual "anesthesia" of women usually is. </p></div> + +<p>Not only, therefore, is the apparatus of sexual excitement in women more +complex than in men, but—in part, possibly as a result of this greater +complexity—it much more frequently requires to be actively aroused. In +men tumescence tends to occur almost spontaneously, or under the simple +influence of accumulated semen. In women, also, especially in those who +live <a name='3_Page_241'></a>a natural and healthy life, sexual excitement also tends to occur +spontaneously, but by no means so frequently as in men. The comparative +rarity of sexual dreams in women who have not had sexual relationships +alone serves to indicate this sexual difference. In a very large number of +women the sexual impulse remains latent until aroused by a lover's +caresses. The youth spontaneously becomes a man; but the maiden—as it has +been said—"must be kissed into a woman."</p> + +<p>One result of this characteristic is that, more especially when love is +unduly delayed beyond the first youth, this complex apparatus has +difficulty in responding to the unfamiliar demands of sexual excitement. +Moreover, delayed normal sexual relations, when the sexual impulse is not +absolutely latent, tend to induce all degrees of perverted or abnormal +sexual gratification, and the physical mechanism when trained to respond +in other ways often fails to respond normally when, at last, the normal +conditions of response are presented. In all these ways passivity and even +aversion may be produced in the conjugal relationship. The fact that it is +almost normally the function of the male to arouse the female, and that +the greater complexity of the sexual mechanism in women leads to more +frequent disturbance of that mechanism, produces a simulation of organic +sexual coldness which has deceived many.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>An instructive study of cases in which the sexual impulse has + been thus perverted has been presented by Smith Baker ("The + Neuropsychical Element in Conjugal Aversion," <i>Journal of Nervous + and Mental Disease</i>, vol. xvii, September, 1892). Raymond and + Janet, who believes that sexual coldness is extremely frequent in + marriage, and that it plays an important part in the causation of + physical and moral troubles, find that it is most often due to + masturbation. (<i>Les Obsessions</i>, vol. ii, p. 307.) Adler, after + discussing the complexity of the feminine sexual mechanism, and + the difficulty which women find in obtaining sexual gratification + in normal coitus, concludes that "masturbation is a frequent, + perhaps the most frequent, cause of defective sexual sensibility + in women." (<i>Op. cit.</i>, p. 119.) He remarks that in women + masturbation usually has less resemblance to normal coitus than + in men and involves very frequently the special excitation of + parts which are not the chief focus of excitement in coitus, so + that coitus fails <a name='3_Page_242'></a>to supply the excitation which has become + habitual (pp. 113-116). In the discussion of "Auto-erotism" in + the first volume of these <i>Studies</i>, I had already referred to + the divorce between the physical and the ideal sides of love + which may, especially in women, be induced by masturbation.</p> + +<p> Another cause of inhibited sexual feeling has been brought + forward. A married lady with normal sexual impulse states + (<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, April, 1912, p. 290) that she cannot + experience orgasm and sexual satisfaction when the intercourse is + not for conception. This is a psychic inhibition independent of + any disturbance due to the process of prevention. She knows other + women who are similarly affected. Such an inhibition must be + regarded as artificial and abnormal, since the final result of + sexual intercourse, under natural and normal conditions, forms no + essential constituent of the psychic process of intercourse. </p></div> + +<p>As a result of the fact that in women the sexual emotions tend not to +develop great intensity until submitted to powerful stimulation, we find +that the maximum climax of sexual emotion tends to fall somewhat later in +a woman's life than in a man's. Among animals generally there appears to +be frequently traceable a tendency for the sexual activities of the male +to develop at a somewhat earlier age than those of the female. In the +human, species we may certainly trace the same tendency. As the great +physiologist, Burdach, pointed out, throughout nature, with the +accomplishment of the sexual act the part of the male in the work of +generation comes to an end; but that act represents only the beginning of +a woman's generative activity.</p> + +<p>A youth of 20 may often display a passionate ardor in love which is very +seldom indeed found in women who are under 25. It is rare for a woman, +even though her sexual emotions may awaken at puberty or earlier, to +experience the great passion of her life until after the age of 25 has +been passed. In confirmation of this statement, which is supported by +daily observation, it may be pointed out that nearly all the most +passionate love-letters of women, as well as their most passionate +devotions, have come from women who had passed, sometimes long passed, +their first youth. When Heloise wrote to Abelard the first of the letters +which have come down to us she was at least 32. Mademoiselle Aissé's +relation with the Chevalier began when she was<a name='3_Page_243'></a> 32, and when she died, six +years later, the passion of each was at its height. Mary Wollstonecraft +was 34 when her love-letters to Imlay began, and her child was born in the +following year. Mademoiselle de Lespinasse was 43 when she began to write +her letters to M. de Guibert. In some cases the sexual impulse may not +even appear until after the period of the menopause has been passed.<a name='3_FNanchor_173'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_173'><sup>[173]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In Roman times Ovid remarked (<i>Ars Amatoria</i>, lib. ii) that a + woman fails to understand the art of love until she has reached + the age of 35. "A girl of 18," said Stendhal (<i>De l'Amour</i>, ch. + viii), "has not the power to crystallize her emotions; she forms + desires that are too limited by her lack of experience in the + things of life, to be able to love with such passion as a woman + of 28." "Sexual needs," said Restif de la Bretonne (<i>Monsieur + Nicolas</i>, vol. xi, p. 221), "often only appears in young women + when they are between 26 and 27 years of age; at least, that is + what I have observed."</p> + +<p> Erb states that it is about the middle of the twenties that women + begin to suffer physically, morally, and intellectually from + their sexual needs. Nyström (<i>Das Geschlechtsleben</i>, p. 163) + considers that it is about the age of 30 that a woman first + begins to feel conscious of sex needs. In a case of Adler's (<i>op. + cit.</i>, p. 141), sexual feelings first appeared after the birth of + the third child, at the age of 30. Forel (<i>Die Sexuelle Frage</i>, + 1906, p. 219) considers that sexual desire in woman is often + strongest between the ages of 30 and 40. Leith Napier + (<i>Menopause</i>, p. 94) remarks that from 28 to 30 is often an + important age in woman who have retained their virginity, erotism + then appearing with the full maturity of the nervous system. + Yellowlees (art. "Masturbation," <i>Dictionary of Psychological + Medicine</i>), again, states that at about the age of 33 some women + experience great sexual irritability, often resulting in + masturbation. Audiffrent (<i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, + Jan. 15, 1902, p. 3) considers that it is toward the age of 30 + that a woman reaches her full moral and physical development, and + that at this period her emotional and idealizing impulses reach a + degree of intensity which is sometimes <a name='3_Page_244'></a>irresistible. It has + already been mentioned that Matthews Duncan's careful inquiries + showed that it is between the ages of 30 and 34 that the largest + proportion of women experience sexual desire and sexual pleasure. + It may be remarked, also, that while the typical English + novelists, who have generally sought to avoid touching the deeper + and more complex aspects of passion, often choose very youthful + heroines, French novelists, who have frequently had a + predilection for the problems of passion, often choose heroines + who are approaching the age of 30.</p> + +<p> Hirschfeld (<i>Von Wesen der Liebe</i>, p. 26) was consulted by a lady + who, being without any sexual desires or feelings, married an + inverted man in order to live with him a life of simple + comradeship. Within six months, however, she fell violently in + love with her husband, with the full manifestation of sexual + feelings and accompanying emotions of jealousy. Under all the + circumstances, however, she would not enter into sexual + relationship with her husband, and the torture she endured became + so acute that she desired to be castrated. In this connection, + also, I may mention a case, which has been communicated to me + from Glasgow, of a girl—strong and healthy and menstruating + regularly since the age of 17—who was seduced at the age of 20 + without any sexual desire on her part, giving birth to a child + nine months later. Subsequently she became a prostitute for three + years, and during this period had not the slightest sexual desire + or any pleasure in sexual connection. Thereafter she met a poor + lad with whom she has full sexual desire and sexual pleasure, the + result being that she refuses to go with any other man, and + consequently is almost without food for several days every week.</p> + +<p> The late appearance of the great climax of sexual emotion in + women is indicated by a tendency to nervous and psychic + disturbances between the ages of 25 and about 33, which has been + independently noted by various alienists (though it may be noted + that 25 to 30 is not an unusual age for first attacks of insanity + in men also). Thus, Krafft-Ebing states that adult unmarried + women between the ages of 25 and 30 often show nervous symptoms + and peculiarities. (Krafft-Ebing, "Ueber Neurosen und Psychosen + durch Sexuelle Abstinenz," <i>Jahrbücher für Psychiatrie</i>, Bd. + viii, ht. 1-4, 1888.) Pitres and Régis find also (<i>Comptes-rendus + XIIe Congrès International de Médecine</i>, Moscow, 1897, vol. iv, + p. 45) that obsessions, which are commoner in women than in men + and are commonly connected in their causation with strong moral + emotion, occur in women chiefly between the ages of 26 and 30, + though in men much earlier. The average age at which in England + women inebriates begin drinking in excess is 26. (<i>British + Medical Journal</i>, Sept. 2, 1911, p. 518.)</p><a name='3_Page_245'></a> + +<p> A case recorded by Sérieux is instructive as regards the + development of the sexual impulse, although it comes within the + sphere of mental disorder. A woman of 32 with bad heredity had in + childhood had weak health and become shy, silent, and fond of + solitude, teased by her companions and finding consolation in + hard work. Though very emotional, she never, even in the vaguest + form, experienced any of those feelings and aspirations which + reveal the presence of the sexual impulse. She had no love of + dancing and was indifferent to any embraces she might chance to + receive from young men. She never masturbated or showed inverted + feelings. At the age of 23 she married. She still, however, + experienced no sexual feelings; twice only she felt a faint + sensation of pleasure. A child was born, but her home was unhappy + on account of her husband's drunken habits. He died and she + worked hard for her own living and the support of her mother. + Then at the age of 31 a new phase occurs in her life: she falls + in love with the master of her workshop. It was at first a purely + psychic affection, without any mixture of physical elements; it + was enough to see him, and she trembled when she touched anything + that belonged to him. She was constantly thinking about him; she + loved him for his eyes, which seemed to her those of her own + child, and especially for his intelligence. Gradually, however, + the lower nervous centers began to take part in these emotions; + one day in passing her the master chanced to touch her shoulder; + this contact was sufficient to produce sexual turgescence. She + began to masturbate daily, thinking of her master, and for the + first time in her life she desired coitus. She evoked the image + of her master so constantly and vividly that at last + hallucinations of sight, touch, and hearing appeared, and it + seemed to her that he was present. These hallucinations were only + with difficulty dissipated. (P. Sérieux, <i>Les Anomalies de + L'Instinct Sexuel</i>, 1888, p. 50.) This case presents in an insane + form a phenomenon which is certainly by no means uncommon and is + very significant. Up to the age of 31 we should certainly have + been forced to conclude that this woman was sexually anesthetic + to an almost absolute degree. In reality, we see this was by no + means the case. Weak health, hard work, and a brutal husband had + prolonged the latency of the sexual emotions; but they were + there, ready to explode with even insane intensity (this being + due to the unsound heredity) in the presence of a man who + appealed to these emotions.</p> + +<p> In connection with the late evolution of the sexual emotions in + women reference may be made to what is usually termed "old maid's + insanity," a condition not met with in men. In these cases, which + are not, indeed, common, single women who have led severely + strict and virtuous lives, devoting themselves to religious or + intellectual work, <a name='3_Page_246'></a>and carefully repressing the animal side of + their natures, at last, just before the climacteric, experience + an awakening of the erotic impulse; they fall in love with some + unfortunate man, often a clergyman, persecute him with their + attentions, and frequently suffer from the delusion that he + reciprocates their affections. </p></div> + +<p>When once duly aroused, there cannot usually be any doubt concerning the +strength of the sexual impulse in normal and healthy women. There would, +however, appear to be a distinct difference between the sexes at this +point also. Before sexual union the male tends to be more ardent; after +sexual union it is the female who tends to be more ardent. The sexual +energy of women, under these circumstances, would seem to be the greater +on account of the long period during which it has been dormant.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Sinibaldus in the seventeenth century, in his <i>Geneanthropeia</i>, + argued that, though women are cold at first, and aroused with + more difficulty and greater slowness than men, the flame of + passion spreads in them the more afterward, just as iron is by + nature cold, but when heated gives a great degree of heat. + Similarly Mandeville said of women that "their passions are not + so easily raised nor so suddenly fixed upon any particular + object; but when this passion is once rooted in women it is much + stronger and more durable than in men, and rather increases than + diminishes by enjoying the person of the beloved." (<i>A Modest + Defence of Public Stews</i>, 1724, p. 34.) Burdach considered that + women only acquire the full enjoyment of their general strength + after marriage and pregnancy, while it is before marriage that + men have most vigor. Schopenhauer also said that a man's love + decreases with enjoyment, and a woman's increases. And Ellen Key + has remarked (<i>Love and Marriage</i>) that "where there is no + mixture of Southern blood it is a long time, sometimes indeed not + till years after marriage, that the senses of the Northern women + awake to consciousness."</p> + +<p> Even among animals this tendency seems to be manifested. Edmund + Selous (<i>Bird Watching</i>, p. 112) remarks, concerning sea-gulls: + "Always, or almost always, one of the birds—and this I take to + be the female—is more eager, has a more soliciting manner and + tender begging look than the other. It is she who, as a rule, + draws the male bird on. She looks fondly up at him, and, raising + her bill to his, as though beseeching a kiss, just touches with + it, in raising, the feathers of the throat—an action light, but + full of endearment. And in every way she shows herself the most + desirous, and, in fact, so worries and pesters the poor male gull + that often, to avoid her importunities, he flies away. This may + seem odd, but I have seen other instances of it. No doubt, <a name='3_Page_247'></a>in + actual courting, before the sexes are paired, the male bird is + usually the most eager, but after marriage the female often + becomes the wooer. Of this I have seen some marked instances." + Selous mentions especially the plover, kestrel hawk, and rook. </p></div> + +<p>In association with the fact that women tend to show an increase of sexual +ardor after sexual relationships have been set up may be noted the +probably related fact that sexual intercourse is undoubtedly less +injurious to women than to men. Other things being equal, that is to say, +the threshold of excess is passed very much sooner by the man than by the +woman. This was long ago pointed out by Montaigne. The ancient saying, +"<i>Omne animal post coitum triste</i>," is of limited application at the best, +but certainly has little reference to women.<a name='3_FNanchor_174'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_174'><sup>[174]</sup></a> Alacrity, rather than +languor, as Robin has truly observed,<a name='3_FNanchor_175'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_175'><sup>[175]</sup></a> marks a woman after coitus, or, +as a medical friend of my own has said, a woman then goes about the house +singing.<a name='3_FNanchor_176'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_176'><sup>[176]</sup></a> It is, indeed, only after intercourse with a woman for whom, +in reality, he feels contempt that a man experiences that revulsion of +feeling described by Shakespeare (sonnet cxxix). Such a passage should not +be quoted, as it sometimes has been quoted, as the representation of a +normal phenomenon. But, with equal gratification on both sides, it remains +true that, while after a single coitus the man may experience a not +unpleasant lassitude and readiness for sleep, this is rarely the case with +his partner, for whom a single coitus is often but a pleasant stimulus, +the climax of satisfaction not being reached until a second or subsequent +act of intercourse. "Excess in venery," which, rightly or wrongly, is set +down as the cause of so many evils in men, seldom, indeed, appears in +connection with women, although in every act of venery the woman has taken +part.<a name='3_FNanchor_177'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_177'><sup>[177]</sup></a> </p><a name='3_Page_248'></a> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>That women bear sexual excesses better than men was noted by + Cabanis and other early writers. Alienists frequently refer to + the fact that women are less liable to be affected by insanity + following such excesses. (See, <i>e.g.</i>, Maudsley, "Relations + between Body and Mind," <i>Lancet</i>, May 28, 1870; and G. Savage, + art. "Marriage and Insanity" in <i>Dictionary of Psychological + Medicine</i>.) Trousseau remarked on the fact that women are not + exhausted by repeated acts of coitus within a short period, + notwithstanding that the nervous excitement in their case is as + great, if not greater, and he considered that this showed that + the loss of semen is a cause of exhaustion in men. Löwenfeld + (<i>Sexualleben und Nervenleiden</i>, pp. 74, 153) states that there + cannot be question that the nervous system in women is less + influenced by the after-effects of coitus than in men. Not only, + he remarks, are prostitutes very little liable to suffer from + nervous overstimulation, and neurasthenia and hysteria when + occurring in them be easily traceable to other causes, but + "healthy women who are not given to prostitution, when they + indulge in very frequent sexual intercourse, provided it is + practised normally, do not experience the slightest injurious + effect. I have seen many young married couples where the husband + had been reduced to a pitiable condition of nervous prostration + and general discomfort by the zeal with which he had exercised + his marital duties, while the wife had been benefited and was in + the uninterrupted enjoyment of the best health." This experience + is by no means uncommon.</p> + +<p> A correspondent writes: "It is quite true that the threshold of + excess is less easily reached by women than by men. I have found + that women can reach the orgasm much more frequently than men. + Take an ordinary case. I spend two hours with ——. I have the + orgasm 3 times, with difficulty; she has it 6 or 8, or even 10 or + 12, times. Women can also experience it a second or third time in + succession, with no interval between. Sometimes the mere fact of + realizing that the man is having the orgasm causes the woman to + have it also, though it is true that a woman usually requires as + many minutes to develop the orgasm as a man does seconds." I may + also refer to the case recorded in another part of this volume in + which a wife had the orgasm 26 times to her husband's twice.</p> + +<p> Hutchinson, under the name of post-marital amblyopia (<i>Archives + of Surgery</i>, vol. iv, p. 200), has described a condition + occurring in men in good health who soon after marriage become + nearly blind, but recover as soon as the cause is removed. He + mentions no cases in women <a name='3_Page_249'></a>due to coitus, but finds that in + women some failure of sight may occur after parturition.</p> + +<p> Näcke states that, in his experience, while masturbation is, + apparently, commoner in insane men than in insane women, + masturbation repeated several times a day is much commoner in the + women. (P. Näcke, "Die Sexuellen Perversitäten in der + Irrenanstalt," <i>Psychiatrische Bladen</i>, 1899, No. 2.)</p> + +<p> Great excesses in masturbation seem also to be commoner among + women who may be said to be sane than among men. Thus, Bloch + (<i>New Orleans Medical Journal</i>, 1896) records the case of a young + married woman of 25, of bad heredity, who had suffered from + almost life-long sexual hyperesthesia, and would masturbate + fourteen times daily during the menstrual periods.</p> + +<p> With regard to excesses in coitus the case may be mentioned of a + country girl of 17, living in a rural district in North Carolina + where prostitution was unknown, who would cohabit with men almost + openly. On one Sunday she went to a secluded school-house and let + three or four men wear themselves out cohabiting with her. On + another occasion, at night, in a field, she allowed anyone who + would to perform the sexual act, and 25 men and boys then had + intercourse with her. When seen she was much prostrated and with + a tendency to spasm, but quite rational. Subsequently she married + and attacks of this nature became rare.</p> + +<p> Mr. Lawson made an "attested statement" of what he had observed + among the Marquesan women. "He mentions one case in which he + heard a parcel of boys next morning count over and <i>name</i> 103 men + who during the night had intercourse with <i>one</i> woman." + (<i>Medico-Chirurgical Review</i>, 1871, vol. ii, p. 360, apparently + quoting Chevers.) This statement seems open to question, but, if + reliable, would furnish a case which must be unique. </p></div> + +<p>There is a further important difference, though intimately related to some +of the differences already mentioned, between the sexual impulse in women +and in men. In women it is at once larger and more diffused. As Sinibaldus +long ago said, the sexual pleasure of men is intensive, of women +extensive. In men the sexual impulse is, as it were, focused to a single +point. This is necessarily so, for the whole of the essentially necessary +part of the male in the process of human procreation is confined to the +ejaculation of semen into the vagina. But in women, mainly owing to the +fact that women are the child-bearers, in place of one primary sexual +center and one primary erogenous <a name='3_Page_250'></a>region, there are at least three such +sexual centers and erogenous regions: the clitoris (corresponding to the +penis), the vaginal passage up to the womb, and the nipple. In both sexes +there are other secondary and reflex centers, but there is good reason for +believing that these are more numerous and more widespread in women than +in men.<a name='3_FNanchor_178'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_178'><sup>[178]</sup></a> How numerous the secondary sexual centers in women may be is +indicated by the case of a woman mentioned by Moraglia, who boasted that +she knew fourteen different ways of masturbating herself.</p> + +<p>This great diffusion of the sexual impulse and emotions in women is as +visible on the psychic as on the physical side. A woman can find sexual +satisfaction in a great number of ways that do not include the sexual act +proper, and in a great number of ways that apparently are not physical at +all, simply because their physical basis is diffused or is to be found in +one of the outlying sexual zones.</p> + +<p>It is, moreover, owing to the diffused character of the sexual emotions in +women that it so often happens that emotion really having a sexual origin +is not recognized as such even by the woman herself. It is possible that +the great prevalence in women of the religious emotional state of "storm +and stress," noted by Professor Starbuck,<a name='3_FNanchor_179'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_179'><sup>[179]</sup></a> is largely due to +unemployed sexual impulse. In this and similar ways it happens that the +magnitude of the sexual sphere in woman is unrealized by the careless +observer. </p><a name='3_Page_251'></a> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>A number of converging facts tend to indicate that the sexual + sphere is larger, and more potent in its influence on the + organism, in women than in men. It would appear that among the + males and females of lower animals the same difference may be + found. It is stated that in birds there is a greater flow of + blood to the ovaries than to the testes.</p> + +<p> In women the system generally is more affected by disturbances in + the sexual sphere than in men. This appears to be the case as + regards the eye. "The influence of the sexual system upon the eye + in man," Power states, "is far less potent, and the connection, + in consequence, far less easy to trace than in woman." (H. Power, + "Relation of Ophthalmic Disease to the Sexual Organs," <i>Lancet</i>, + November 26, 1887.)</p> + +<p> The greater predominance of the sexual system in women on the + psychic side is clearly brought out in insane conditions. It is + well known that, while satyriasis is rare, nymphomania is + comparatively common. These conditions are probably often forms + of mania, and in mania, while sexual symptoms are common in men, + they are often stated to be the rule in women (see, <i>e.g.</i>, + Krafft-Ebing, <i>Psychopathia Sexualis</i>, tenth edition, English + translation, p. 465). Bouchereau, in noting this difference in + the prevalence of sexual manifestations during insanity, remarks + that it is partly due to the naturally greater dependence of + women on the organs of generation, and partly to the more active, + independent, and laborious lives of men; in his opinion, + satyriasis is specially apt to develop in men who lead lives + resembling those of women. (Bouchereau, art. "Satyriasis," + <i>Dictionnaire Encyclopédique des Sciences Médicales</i>.) Again, + postconnubial insanity is very much commoner in women than in + men, a fact which may indicate the more predominant part played + by the sexual sphere in women. (Savage, art. "Marriage and + Insanity," <i>Dictionary of Psychological Medicine</i>.)</p> + +<p> Insanity tends to remove the artificial inhibitory influences + that rule in ordinary life, and there is therefore significance + in such a fact as that the sexual appetite is often increased in + general paralysis and to a notable extent in women. (Pactet and + Colin, <i>Les Aliénés devant la Justice</i>, 1902, p. 122.)</p> + +<p> Näcke, from his experiences among the insane, makes an + interesting and possibly sound distinction regarding the + character of the sexual manifestations in the two sexes. Among + men he finds these manifestations to be more of a reflex and + purely spinal nature and chiefly manifested in masturbation; in + women he finds them to be of a more cerebral character, and + chiefly manifested in erotic gestures, lascivious conversation, + etc. The sexual impulse would thus tend to involve to a greater + extent the higher psychic region in women than in men.</p><a name='3_Page_252'></a> + +<p> Forel likewise (<i>Die Sexuelle Frage</i>, 1906, p. 276), remarking on + the much greater prevalence of erotic manifestations among insane + women than insane men (and pointing out that it is by no means + due merely to the presence of a male doctor, for it remains the + same when the doctor is a woman), considers that it proves that + in women the sexual impulse resides more prominently in the + higher nervous centers and in men in the lower centers. (As + regards the great prevalence of erotic manifestations among the + female insane, I may also refer to Claye Shaw's interesting + observations, "The Sexes in Lunacy," <i>St. Bartholomew's Hospital + Reports</i>, vol. xxiv, 1888; also quoted in Havelock Ellis, <i>Man + and Woman</i>, p. 370 <i>et seq.</i>) Whether or not we may accept + Näcke's and Forel's interpretation of the facts, which is at + least doubtful, there can be little doubt that the sexual impulse + is more fundamental in women. This is indicated by Näcke's + observation that among idiots sexual manifestations are commoner + in females than in males. Of 16 idiot girls, of the age of 16 and + under, 15 certainly masturbated, sometimes as often as fourteen + times a day, while the remaining girl probably masturbated; but + of 25 youthful male idiots only 1 played with his penis. (P. + Näcke, "Die Sexuellen Perversitäten in der Irrenanstalt," + <i>Psychiatrische Bladen</i>, 1899, No. 2, pp. 9, 12.) On the physical + side Bourneville and Sollier found (<i>Progrès médical</i>, 1888) that + puberty is much retarded in idiot and imbecile boys, while J. + Voisin (<i>Annales d'Hygiène Publique</i>, June, 1894) found that in + idiot and imbecile girls, on the contrary, there is no lack of + full sexual development or retardation of puberty, while + masturbation is common. In women, it may be added, as Ball + pointed out (<i>Folie érotique</i>, p. 40), sexual hallucinations are + especially common, while under the influence of anesthetics + erotic manifestations and feelings are frequent in women, but + rare in men. (Havelock Ellis, <i>Man and Woman</i>, p. 256.)</p> + +<p> The fact that the first coitus has a much more profound moral and + psychic influence on a woman than on a man would also seem to + indicate how much more fundamental the sexual region is in women. + The fact may be considered as undoubted. (It is referred to by + Marro, <i>La Pubertà</i>, p. 460.) The mere physical fact that, while + in men coitus remains a merely exterior contact, in women it + involves penetration into the sensitive and virginal interior of + the body would alone indicate this difference. </p></div> + +<p>We are told that in the East there was once a woman named Moârbeda who was +a philosopher and considered to be the wisest woman of her time. When +Moârbeda was once asked: "In what part of a woman's body does her mind +reside?" she replied: "Between her thighs." To many women,—perhaps, +indeed, <a name='3_Page_253'></a>we might even say to most women,—to a certain extent may be +applied—and in no offensive sense—the dictum of the wise woman of the +East; in a certain sense their brains are in their wombs. Their mental +activity may sometimes seem to be limited; they may appear to be passing +through life always in a rather inert or dreamy state; but, when their +sexual emotions are touched, then at once they spring into life; they +become alert, resourceful, courageous, indefatigable. "But when I am not +in love I am nothing!" exclaimed a woman when reproached by a French +magistrate for living with a thief. There are many women who could truly +make the same statement, not many men. That emotion, which, one is tempted +to say, often unmans the man, makes the woman for the first time truly +herself.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"Women are more occupied with love than men," wrote De Sénancour + (<i>De l'Amour</i>, vol. ii, p. 59); "it shows itself in all their + movements, animates their looks, gives to their gestures a grace + that is always new, to their smiles and voices an inexpressible + charm; they live for love, while many men in obeying love feel + that they are forgetting themselves."</p> + +<p> Restif de la Bretonne (<i>Monsieur Nicolas</i>, vol. vi, p. 223) + quotes a young girl who well describes the difference which love + makes to a woman: "Before I vegetated; now all my actions have a + motive, an end; they have become important. When I wake my first + thought is 'Someone is occupied with me and desires me.' I am no + longer alone, as I was before; another feels my existence and + cherishes it," etc.</p> + +<p> "One is surprised to see in the south," remarks Bonstetten, in + his suggestive book, <i>L'Homme du Midi et l'Homme du Nord</i> + (1824),—and the remark by no means applies only to the + south,—"how love imparts intelligence even to those who are most + deficient in ideas. An Italian woman in love is inexhaustible in + the variety of her feelings, all subordinated to the supreme + emotion which dominates her. Her ideas follow one another with + prodigious rapidity, and produce a lambent play which is fed by + her heart alone. If she ceases to love, her mind becomes merely + the scoria of the lava which yesterday had been so bright."</p> + +<p> Cabanis had already made some observations to much the same + effect. Referring to the years of nubility following puberty, he + remarks: "I have very often seen the greatest fecundity of ideas, + the most brilliant imagination, a singular aptitude for the arts, + suddenly develop in girls of this age, only to give place soon + afterward to the most absolute mental mediocrity." (Cabanis, "De + l'Influence des Sexes," etc., <i>Rapports du Physique et du Morale + de l'Homme</i>.) </p></div><a name='3_Page_254'></a> + +<p>This phenomenon seems to be one of the indications of the immense organic +significance of the sexual relations. Woman's part in the world is less +obtrusively active than man's, but there is a moment when nature cannot +dispense with energy and mental vigor in women, and that is during the +reproductive period. The languidest woman must needs be alive when her +sexual emotions are profoundly stirred. People often marvel at the +infatuation which men display for women who, in the eyes of all the world, +seem commonplace and dull. This is not, as we usually suppose, always +entirely due to the proverbial blindness of love. For the man whom she +loves, such a woman is often alive and transformed. He sees a woman who is +hidden from all the world. He experiences something of that surprise and +awe which Dostoieffsky felt when the seemingly dull and brutish criminals +of Siberia suddenly exhibited gleams of exquisite sensibility.</p> + +<p>In women, it must further be said, the sexual impulse shows a much more +marked tendency to periodicity than in men; not only is it less apt to +appear spontaneously, but its spontaneous manifestations are in a very +pronounced manner correlated with menstruation. A woman who may experience +almost overmastering sexual desire just before, during, or after the +monthly period may remain perfectly calm and self-possessed during the +rest of the month. In men such irregularities of the sexual impulse are +far less marked. Thus it is that a woman may often appear capricious, +unaccountable, or cold, merely because her moments of strong emotion have +been physiologically confined within a limited period. She may be one day +capable of audacities of which on another the very memory might seem to +have left her.</p> + +<p>Not only is the intensity of the sexual impulse in women, as compared to +men, more liable to vary from day to day, or from week to week, but the +same greater variability is marked when we compare the whole cycle of life +in women to that of men. The stress of early womanhood, when the +reproductive functions are in fullest activity, and of late womanhood, +when <a name='3_Page_255'></a>they are ceasing, produces a profound organic fermentation, psychic +as much as physical, which is not paralleled in the lives of men. This +greater variability in the cycle of a woman's life as compared with a +man's is indicated very delicately and precisely by the varying incidence +of insanity, and is made clearly visible in a diagram prepared by Marro +showing the relative liability to mental diseases in the two sexes +according to age.<a name='3_FNanchor_180'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_180'><sup>[180]</sup></a> At the age of 20 the incidence of insanity in both +sexes is equal; from that age onward the curve in men proceeds in a +gradual and equable manner, with only the slightest oscillation, on to old +age. But in women the curve is extremely irregular; it remains high during +all the years from 20 to 30, instead of falling like the masculine curve; +then it falls rapidly to considerably below the masculine curve, rising +again considerably above the masculine level during the climacteric years +from 40 to 50, after which age the two sexes remain fairly close together +to the end of life. Thus, as measured by the test of insanity, the curve +of woman's life, in the sudden rise and sudden fall of its sexual crisis, +differs from the curve of man's life and closely resembles the minor curve +of her menstrual cycle.</p> + +<p>The general tendency of this difference in sexual life and impulse is to +show a greater range of variation in women than in men. Fairly uniform, on +the whole, in men generally and in the same man throughout mature life, +sexual impulse varies widely between woman and woman, and even in the same +woman at different periods.</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='3_Footnote_169'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_169'>[169]</a><div class='note'><p> Ovid remarks (<i>Ars Amatoria</i>, bk. i) that, if men were +silent, women would take the active and suppliant part.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_170'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_170'>[170]</a><div class='note'><p> Ferrand, <i>De la Maladie d'Amour</i>, 1623, ch. ii.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_171'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_171'>[171]</a><div class='note'><p> Tarde, <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, May 15, 1897. +Marro, who quotes this observation (<i>Pubertà</i>, p. 467; in French edition, +p. 61), remarks that his own evidence lends some support to Lombroso's +conclusion that under ordinary circumstances woman's sensory acuteness is +less than that of man. He is, however, inclined to impute this to +defective attention; within the sexual sphere women's attention becomes +concentrated, and their sensory perceptions then go far beyond those of +men. There is probably considerable truth in this subtle observation.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_172'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_172'>[172]</a><div class='note'><p> A well-known gynecologist writes from America: "Abhorrence +due to suffering on first nights I have repeatedly seen. One very marked +case is that of a fine womanly young woman with splendid figure; she is a +very good woman, and admires her husband, but, though she tries to develop +desire and passion, she cannot succeed. I fear the man will some day +appear who will be able to develop the latent feelings."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_173'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_173'>[173]</a><div class='note'><p> It is curious that, while the sexual impulse in women tends +to develop at a late age more frequently than in men, it would also appear +to develop more frequently at a very early age than in the other sex. The +majority of cases of precocious sexual development seems to be in female +children. W. Roger Williams ("Precocious Sexual Development," <i>British +Gynæcological Journal</i>, May, 1902) finds that 80 such cases have been +recorded in females and only 20 in males, and, while 13 is the earliest +age at which boys have proved virile, girls have been known to conceive at +8.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_174'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_174'>[174]</a><div class='note'><p> I find the same remark made by Plazzonus in the seventeenth +century.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_175'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_175'>[175]</a><div class='note'><p> Art. "Fécondation," <i>Dictionnaire Encyclopédique des +Sciences Médicales</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_176'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_176'>[176]</a><div class='note'><p> This also is an ancient remark, for in the early treatise +<i>De Secretis Mulierum</i>, once attributed to Michael Scot, it is stated, +concerning the woman who finds pleasure in coitus, "cantat libenter."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_177'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_177'>[177]</a><div class='note'><p> It is scarcely necessary to add that prostitutes can +furnish little evidence one way or the other. Not only may prostitutes +refuse to participate in the sexual orgasm, but the evils of a +prostitute's life are obviously connected with causes quite other than +mere excess of sexual gratification.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_178'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_178'>[178]</a><div class='note'><p> This is, for instance, indicated by the experiments of +Gualino concerning the sexual sensitiveness of the lips (<i>Archivio di +Psichiatria</i>, 1904, fasc. 3). He found that mechanical irritation applied +to the lips produced more or less sexual feeling in 12 out of 20 women, +but in only 10 out of 25 men, <i>i.e.</i>, in three-fifths of the women and +two-fifths of the men.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_179'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_179'>[179]</a><div class='note'><p> "Adolescence is for women primarily a period of storm and +stress, while for men it is in the highest sense a period of doubt," +(Starbuck, <i>Psychology of Religion</i>, p. 241.) It is interesting to note +that in the religious sphere, also, the emotions of women are more +diffused than those of men; Starbuck confirms the conclusion of Professor +Coe that, while women have at least as much religious emotion as men, in +them it is more all pervasive, and they experience fewer struggles and +acute crises. (<i>Ibid.</i>, p. 80.)</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_180'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_180'>[180]</a><div class='note'><p> Marro, <i>La Pubertà</i>, p. 233. This table covers all those +cases, nearly 3000, of patients entering the Turin asylum, from 1886 to +1895, in which the age of the first appearance of insanity was known.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_S_III'></a><h3><a name='3_Page_256'></a>III.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Summary of Conclusions.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>In conclusion it may be worth while to sum up the main points brought out +in this brief discussion of a very large question. We have seen that there +are two streams of opinion regarding the relative strength of the sexual +impulse in men and women: one tending to regard it as greater in men, the +other as greater in women. We have concluded that, since a large body of +facts may be brought forward to support either view, we may fairly hold +that, roughly speaking, the distribution of the sexual impulse between the +two sexes is fairly balanced.</p> + +<p>We have, however, further seen that the phenomena are in reality too +complex to be settled by the usual crude method of attempting to discover +quantitative differences in the sexual impulse. We more nearly get to the +bottom of the question by a more analytic method, breaking up our mass of +facts into groups. In this way we find that there are certain well-marked +characteristics by which the sexual impulse in women differs from the same +impulse in men: 1. It shows greater apparent passivity. 2. It is more +complex, less apt to appear spontaneously, and more often needing to be +aroused, while the sexual orgasm develops more slowly than in men. 3. It +tends to become stronger after sexual relationships are established. 4. +The threshold of excess is less easily reached than in men. 5. The sexual +sphere is larger and more diffused. 6. There is a more marked tendency to +periodicity in the spontaneous manifestations of sexual desire. 7. Largely +as a result of these characteristics, the sexual impulse shows a greater +range of variation in women than in men, both as between woman and woman +and in the same woman at different periods.</p> + +<p>It may be added that a proper understanding of these sexual differences in +men and women is of great importance, both in the practical management of +sexual hygiene and in the comprehension of those wider psychological +characteristics by which women differ from men.</p> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_APPENDICES'></a><h2><a name='3_Page_257'></a>APPENDICES.</h2> + + +<a name='3_Page_258'></a> +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_APPENDIX_A'></a><h3><a name='3_Page_259'></a>APPENDIX A.</h3> + +<h4>THE SEXUAL INSTINCT IN SAVAGES.</h4> + +<a name='3_A_I'></a><h5>I.</h5> +<br /> + +<p>In the eighteenth century, when savage tribes in various parts of the +world first began to be visited, extravagantly romantic views widely +prevailed as to the simple and idyllic lives led by primitive peoples. +During the greater part of the nineteenth century the tendency of opinion +was to the opposite extreme, and it became usual to insist on the degraded +and licentious morals of savages.<a name='3_FNanchor_181'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_181'><sup>[181]</sup></a></p> + +<p>In reality, however, savage life is just as little a prolonged debauch as +a prolonged idyll. The inquiries of such writers as Westermarck, Frazer, +and Crawley are tending to introduce a sounder conception of the actual, +often highly complex, conditions of primitive life in its relations to the +sexual instinct.</p> + +<p>At the same time it is not difficult to account for the belief, widely +spread during the nineteenth century, in the unbridled licentiousness of +savages. In the first place, the doctrine of evolution inevitably created +a prejudice in favor of such a view. It was assumed that modesty, +chastity, and restraint were the finest and ultimate flowers of moral +development; therefore at the beginnings of civilization we must needs +expect to find the opposite of these things. Apart, however, from any mere +prejudice of this kind, a superficial observation of the actual facts +necessarily led to much misunderstanding. Just as the nakedness of many +savage peoples led to the belief that they were <a name='3_Page_260'></a>lacking in modesty, +although, as a matter of fact, modesty is more highly developed in savage +life than in civilization,<a name='3_FNanchor_182'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_182'><sup>[182]</sup></a> so the absence of our European rules of +sexual behavior among savages led to the conclusion that they were +abandoned to debauchery. The widespread custom of lending the wife under +certain circumstances was especially regarded as indicating gross +licentiousness. Moreover, even when intercourse was found to be free +before marriage, scarcely any investigator sought to ascertain what amount +of sexual intercourse this freedom involved. It was not clearly understood +that such freedom must by no means be necessarily assumed to involve very +frequent intercourse. Again, it often happened that no clear distinction +was made between peoples contaminated by association with civilization, +and peoples not so contaminated. For instance, when prostitution is +attributed to a savage people we must usually suppose either that a +mistake has been made or that the people in question have been degraded by +intercourse with white peoples, for among unspoilt savages customs that +can properly be called prostitution rarely prevail. Nor, indeed, would +they be in harmony with the conditions of primitive life.</p> + +<p>It has been seriously maintained that the chastity of savages, so far as +it exists at all, is due to European civilization. It is doubtless true +that this is the case with individual persons and tribes, but there is +ample evidence from various parts of the world to show that this is by no +means the rule. And, indeed, it may be said—with no disregard of the +energy and sincerity of missionary efforts—that it could not be so. A new +system of beliefs and practices, however excellent it may be in itself, +can never possess the same stringent and unquestionable force as the +system in which an individual and his ancestors have always lived, and +which they have never doubted the validity of. That this is so we may have +occasion to observe among ourselves. Christian teachers question the +wisdom of bringing young people under free-thinking influence, because, +although they do not <a name='3_Page_261'></a>deny the morals of free-thinkers, they believe that +to unsettle the young may have a disastrous effect, not only on belief, +but also on conduct. Yet this dangerously unsettling process has been +applied by missionaries on a wholesale scale to races which in some +respect are often little more than children. When, therefore, we are +considering the chastity of savages we must not take into account those +peoples which have been brought into close contact with Europeans.</p> + +<p>In order to understand the sexual habits of savages generally there are +two points which always have to be borne in mind as of the first +importance: (1) the checks restraining sexual intercourse among savages, +especially as regards time and season, are so numerous, and the sanctions +upholding those checks so stringent, that sexual excess cannot prevail to +the same extent as in civilization; (2) even in the absence of such +checks, that difficulty of obtaining sexual erethism which has been noted +as so common among savages, when not overcome by the stimulating +influences prevailing at special times and seasons, and which is probably +in large measure dependent on hard condition of life as well as an +insensitive quality of nervous texture, still remains an important factor, +tending to produce a natural chastity. There is a third consideration +which, though from the present point of view subsidiary, is not without +bearing on our conception of chastity among savages: the importance, even +sacredness, of procreation is much more generally recognized by savage +than by civilized peoples, and also a certain symbolic significance is +frequently attached to human procreation as related to natural +fruitfulness generally; so that a primitive sexual orgy, instead of being +a mere manifestation of licentiousness, may have a ritual significance, as +a magical means of evoking the fruitfulness of fields and herds.<a name='3_FNanchor_183'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_183'><sup>[183]</sup></a> </p><a name='3_Page_262'></a> + +<p>When a savage practises extraconjugal sexual intercourse, the act is +frequently not, as it has come to be conventionally regarded in +civilization, an immorality or at least an illegitimate indulgence; it is +a useful and entirely justifiable act, producing definite benefits, +conducing alike to cosmic order and social order, although these benefits +are not always such as we in civilization believe to be caused by the act. +Thus, speaking of the northern tribes of central Australia, Spencer and +Gillen remark: "It is very usual amongst all of the tribes to allow +considerable license during the performance of certain of their ceremonies +when a large number of natives, some of them coming often from distant +parts, are gathered together—in fact, on such occasions all of the +ordinary marital rules seem to be more or less set aside for the time +being. Each day, in some tribes, one or more women are told off whose duty +it is to attend at the corrobboree grounds,—sometimes only during the +day, sometimes at night,—and all of the men, except those who are +fathers, elder and younger brothers, and sons, have access to them.... The +idea is that the sexual intercourse assists in some way in the proper +performance of the ceremony, causing everything to work smoothly and +preventing the decorations from falling off."<a name='3_FNanchor_184'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_184'><sup>[184]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is largely this sacred character of sexual intercourse—the fact that +it is among the things that are at once "divine" and "impure," these two +conceptions not being differentiated in primitive thought—which leads to +the frequency with which in savage life a taboo is put upon its exercise. +Robertson Smith added an appendix to his <i>Religion of the Semites</i> on +"Taboo on the Intercourse of the Sexes."<a name='3_FNanchor_185'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_185'><sup>[185]</sup></a> Westermarck brought together +evidence showing the frequency with which this and allied causes tended to +the chastity of savages.<a name='3_FNanchor_186'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_186'><sup>[186]</sup></a> Frazer has very luminously expounded the +whole primitive conception of sexual intercourse, and showed how it +affected chastity.<a name='3_FNanchor_187'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_187'><sup>[187]</sup></a> Warriors must often be <a name='3_Page_263'></a>chaste; the men who go on +any hunting or other expedition require to be chaste to be successful; the +women left behind must be strictly chaste; sometimes even the whole of the +people left behind, and for long periods, must be chaste in order to +insure the success of the expedition. Hubert and Maus touched on the same +point in their elaborate essay on sacrifice, pointing out how frequently +sexual relationships are prohibited on the occasion of any ceremony +whatever.<a name='3_FNanchor_188'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_188'><sup>[188]</sup></a> Crawley, in elaborating the primitive conception of taboo, +has dealt fully with ritual and traditional influences making for chastity +among savages. He brings forward, for instance, a number of cases, from +various parts of the world, in which intercourse has to be delayed for +days, weeks, even months, after marriage. He considers that the sexual +continence prevalent among savages is largely due to a belief in the +enervating effects of coitus; so dangerous are the sexes to each other +that, as he points out, even now sexual separation of the sexes commonly +occurs.<a name='3_FNanchor_189'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_189'><sup>[189]</sup></a></p> + +<p>There are thus a great number of constantly recurring occasions in savage +life when continence must be preserved, and when, it is firmly believed, +terrible risks would be incurred by its violation—during war, after +victory, after festivals, during mourning, on journeys, in hunting and +fishing, in a vast number of agricultural and industrial occupations.</p> + +<p>It might fairly be argued that the facility with which the savage places +these checks on sexual intercourse itself bears witness to the weakness of +the sexual impulse. Evidence of another order which seems to point to the +undeveloped state of the sexual impulse among savages may be found in the +comparatively undeveloped condition of their sexual organs, a condition +<a name='3_Page_264'></a>not, indeed, by any means constant, but very frequently noted. As regards +women, it has in many parts of the world been observed to be the rule, and +the data which Ploss and Bartels have accumulated seem to me, on the +whole, to point clearly in this direction.<a name='3_FNanchor_190'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_190'><sup>[190]</sup></a></p> + +<p>At another point, also, it may be remarked, the repulsion between the +sexes and the restraints on intercourse may be associated with weak sexual +impulse. It is not improbable that a certain horror of the sexual organs +may be a natural feeling which is extinguished in the intoxication of +desire, yet still has a physiological basis which renders the sexual +organs—disguised and minimized by convention and by artistic +representation—more or less disgusting in the absence of erotic +emotion.<a name='3_FNanchor_191'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_191'><sup>[191]</sup></a> And this is probably more marked in cases in which the +sexual instinct is constitutionally feeble. A lady who had no marked +sexual desires, and who considered it well bred to be indifferent to such +matters, on inspecting her sexual parts in a mirror for the first time in +her life was shocked and disgusted at the sight. Certainly many women +could record a similar experience on being first approached by a man, +although artistic conventions present the male form with greater truth +than the female. Moreover,—and here is the significant point,—this +feeling is by no means restricted to the refined and cultured. "When +working at Michelangelo," wrote a correspondent from Italy, "my upper +gondolier used to see photographs and statuettes of all that man's works. +Stopping one day before the Night and Dawn of S. Lorenzo, sprawling naked +women, he exclaimed: 'How hideous <a name='3_Page_265'></a>they are!' I pressed him to explain +himself. He went on: 'The ugliest man naked is handsomer than the finest +woman naked. Women have crooked legs, and their sexual organs stink. I +only once saw a naked woman. It was in a brothel, when I was 18. The sight +of her "natura" made me go out and vomit into the canal. You know I have +been twice married, but I never saw either of my wives without clothing.' +Of very rank cheese he said one day: 'Puzza come la natura d'una donna.'" +This man, my correspondent added, was entirely normal and robust, but +seemed to regard sexual congress as a mere evacuation, the sexual instinct +apparently not being strong.</p> + +<p>It seems possible that, if the sexual impulse had no existence, all men +would regard women with this <i>horror feminæ</i>. As things are, however, at +all events in civilization, sexual emotions begin to develop even earlier, +usually, than acquaintance with the organs of the other sex begins; so +that this disgust is inhibited. If, however, among savages the sexual +impulse is habitually weak, and only aroused to strength under the impetus +of powerful stimuli, often acting periodically, then we should expect the +<i>horror</i> to be a factor of considerable importance.</p> + +<p>The weakness of the physical sexual impulse among savages is reflected in +the psychic sphere. Many writers have pointed out that love plays but a +small part in their lives. They practise few endearments; they often only +kiss children (Westermarck notes that sexual love is far less strong than +parental love); love-poems are among some primitive peoples few (mostly +originating with the women), and their literature often gives little or no +attention to passion.<a name='3_FNanchor_192'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_192'><sup>[192]</sup></a> Affection and devotion are, however, often +strong, especially in savage women.</p> + +<p>It is not surprising that jealousy should often, though not by any means +invariably, be absent, both among men and among women. Among savages this +is doubtless a proof of the weakness of the sexual impulse. Spencer and +Gillen note the comparative <a name='3_Page_266'></a>absence of jealousy in men among the Central +Australian tribes they studied.<a name='3_FNanchor_193'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_193'><sup>[193]</sup></a> Negresses, it is said by a French +army surgeon in his <i>Untrodden Fields of Anthropology</i>, do not know what +jealousy is, and the first wife will even borrow money to buy the second +wife. Among a much higher race, the women in a Korean household, it is +said, live together happily, as an almost invariable rule, though it +appears that this was not always the case among a polygamous people of +European race, the Mormons.</p> + +<p>The tendency of the sexual instinct in savages to periodicity, to seasonal +manifestations, I do not discuss here, as I have dealt with it in the +first volume of these <i>Studies</i>.<a name='3_FNanchor_194'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_194'><sup>[194]</sup></a> It has, however, a very important +bearing on this subject. Periodicity of sexual manifestations is, indeed, +less absolute in primitive man than in most animals, but it is still very +often quite clearly marked. It is largely the occurrence of these violent +occasional outbursts of the sexual instinct—during which the organic +impulse to tumescence becomes so powerful that external stimuli are no +longer necessary—that has led to the belief in the peculiar strength of +the impulse in savages.<a name='3_FNanchor_195'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_195'><sup>[195]</sup></a></p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='3_Footnote_181'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_181'>[181]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus, Lubbock (Lord Avebury), in the <i>Origin of +Civilization</i>, fifth edition, 1889, brings forward a number of references +in evidence of this belief. More recently Finck, in his <i>Primitive Love +and Love-stories</i>, 1899, seeks to accumulate data in favor of the +unbounded licentiousness of savages. He admits, however, that a view of +the matter opposed to his own is now tending to prevail.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_182'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_182'>[182]</a><div class='note'><p> See "The Evolution of Modesty" in the first volume of these +<i>Studies</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_183'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_183'>[183]</a><div class='note'><p> The sacredness of sexual relations often applies also to +individual marriage. Thus, Skeat, in his <i>Malay Magic</i>, shows that the +bride and bridegroom are definitely recognized as sacred, in the same +sense that the king is, and in Malay States the king is a very sacred +person. See also, concerning the sacred character of coitus, whether +individual or collective, A. Van Gennep, <i>Rites de Passage, passim</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_184'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_184'>[184]</a><div class='note'><p> Spencer and Gillen, <i>Northern Tribes of Central Australia</i>, +p. 136.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_185'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_185'>[185]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Religion of the Semites</i>, second edition, 1894, p. 454 <i>et +seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_186'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_186'>[186]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>History of Marriage</i>, pp. 66-70, 150-156, etc.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_187'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_187'>[187]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Golden Bough</i>, third edition, part ii, <i>Taboo and the +Perils of the Soul</i>. Frazer has discussed taboo generally. For a shorter +account of taboo, see art. "Taboo" by Northcote Thomas in <i>Encyclopædia +Britannica</i>, eleventh edition, 1911. Freud has lately (<i>Imago</i>, 1912) made +an attempt to explain the origin of taboo psychologically by comparing it +to neurotic obsessions. Taboo, Freud believes, has its origin in a +forbidden act to perform which there is a strong unconscious tendency; an +ambivalent attitude, that is, combining the opposite tendencies, is thus +established. In this way Freud would account for the fact that tabooed +persons and things are both sacred and unclean.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_188'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_188'>[188]</a><div class='note'><p> "Essai sur le Sacrifice," <i>L'Année Sociologique</i>, 1899, pp. +50-51.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_189'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_189'>[189]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>The Mystic Rose</i>, 1902, p. 187 <i>et seq.</i>, 215 <i>et seq.</i>, +342 <i>et seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_190'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_190'>[190]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Das Weib</i>, vol. i, section 6.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_191'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_191'>[191]</a><div class='note'><p> This statement has been questioned. It should, however, be +fairly evident that the sexual organs in either sex, when closely +examined, can scarcely be regarded as beautiful except in the eyes of a +person of the opposite sex who is in a condition of sexual excitement, and +they are not always attractive even then. Moreover, it must be remembered +that the snake-like aptitude of the penis to enter into a state of +erection apart from the control of the will puts it in a different +category from any other organ of the body, and could not fail to attract +the attention of primitive peoples so easily alarmed by unusual +manifestations. We find even in the early ages of Christianity that St. +Augustine attached immense importance to this alarming aptitude of the +penis as a sign of man's sinful and degenerate state.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_192'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_192'>[192]</a><div class='note'><p> Lubbock, <i>Origin of Civilization</i>, fifth edition, pp. 69, +73; Westermarck, <i>History of Marriage</i>, p. 357; Grosse, <i>Anfänge der +Kunst</i>, p. 236; Herbert Spencer, "Origin of Music," <i>Mind</i>, Oct., 1890.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_193'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_193'>[193]</a><div class='note'><p> Spencer and Gillen, <i>Native Tribes of Central Australia</i>, +p. 99; <i>cf.</i> Finck, <i>Primitive Love and Love-stories</i>, p. 89 <i>et seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_194'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_194'>[194]</a><div class='note'><p> "The Phenomena of Sexual Periodicity." The subject has also +been more recently discussed by Walter Heape, "The 'Sexual Season' of +Mammals," <i>Quarterly Journal of Microscopical Science</i>, vol. xliv, 1900. +See also F. H. A. Marshall, <i>The Physiology of Reproduction</i>, 1910.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_195'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_195'>[195]</a><div class='note'><p> This view finds a belated supporter in Max Marcuse +("Geschlechtstrieb des Urmenschens," <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Oct., 1909), who, +on grounds which I cannot regard as sound, seeks to maintain the belief +that the sexual instinct is more highly developed among savage than among +civilized peoples.</p></div> + +<hr /> +<a name='3_A_II'></a><h5><a name='3_Page_267'></a>II.</h5> +<br /> + +<p>The facts thus seem to indicate that among primitive peoples, while the +magical, ceremonial, and traditional restraints on sexual intercourse are +very numerous, very widespread, and nearly always very stringent, there +is, underlying this prevalence of restraints on intercourse, a fundamental +weakness of the sexual instinct, which craves less, and craves less +frequently, than is the case among civilized peoples, but is liable to be +powerfully manifested at special seasons. It is perfectly true that among +savages, as Sutherland states, "there is no ideal which makes chastity a +thing beautiful in itself"; but when the same writer goes on to state that +"it is untrue that in sexual license the savage has everything to learn," +we must demand greater precision of statement.<a name='3_FNanchor_196'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_196'><sup>[196]</sup></a> Travelers, and too +often would-be scientific writers, have been so much impressed by the +absence among savages of the civilized ideal of chastity, and by the +frequent freedom of sexual intercourse, that they have not paused to +inquire more carefully into the phenomena, or to put themselves at the +primitive point of view, but have assumed that freedom here means all that +it would mean in a European population.</p> + +<p>In order to illustrate the actual circumstances of savage life in this +respect from the scanty evidence furnished by the most careful observers, +I have brought together from scattered sources a few statements concerning +primitive peoples in very various parts of the world.<a name='3_FNanchor_197'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_197'><sup>[197]</sup></a> </p><a name='3_Page_268'></a> + +<p>Among the Andamanese, Portman, who knows them well, says that sexual +desire is very moderate; in males it appears at the age of 18, but, as +"their love for sport is greater than their passions, these are not +gratified to any great extent till after marriage, which rarely takes +place till a man is about 26."<a name='3_FNanchor_198'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_198'><sup>[198]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Although chastity is not esteemed by the Fuegians, and virginity is lost +at a very early age, yet both men and women are extremely moderate in +sexual indulgence.<a name='3_FNanchor_199'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_199'><sup>[199]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Among the Eskimo at the other end of the American continent, according to +Dr. F. Cook, the sexual passions are suppressed during the long darkness +of winter, as also is the menstrual function usually, and the majority of +the children are born nine months after the appearance of the sun.<a name='3_FNanchor_200'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_200'><sup>[200]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Among the Indians of North America it is the custom of many tribes to +refrain from sexual intercourse during the whole period of lactation, as +also D'Orbigny found to be the case among South American Indians, although +suckling went on for over three years.<a name='3_FNanchor_201'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_201'><sup>[201]</sup></a> Many of the Indian tribes have +now been rendered licentious by contact with civilization. In the +primitive condition their customs were entirely different. Dr. Holder, who +knows many tribes of North American Indians well, has dealt in some detail +with this point. "Several of the virtues," he states, "and among them +chastity, were more faithfully practised by the Indian race before the +invasion from the East than these same virtues are practised by the white +race of the present day.... The race is less salacious than either the +negro or white race.... That the women of some tribes are now more careful +of their virtue than the women of any other community whose history I +know, I am fully convinced."<a name='3_FNanchor_202'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_202'><sup>[202]</sup></a> It is not only on the women that sexual +abstinence is imposed. Among <a name='3_Page_269'></a>some branches of the Salish Indians of +British Columbia a young widower must refrain from sexual intercourse for +a year, and sometimes lives entirely apart during that period.<a name='3_FNanchor_203'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_203'><sup>[203]</sup></a></p> + +<p>In many parts of Polynesia, although the sexual impulse seems often to +have been highly developed before the arrival of Europeans, it is very +doubtful whether license, in the European sense, at all generally +prevailed. The Marquesans, who have sometimes been regarded as peculiarly +licentious, are especially mentioned by Foley as illustrating his +statement that sexual erethism is with difficulty attained by primitive +peoples except during sexual seasons.<a name='3_FNanchor_204'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_204'><sup>[204]</sup></a> Herman Melville's detailed +account in <i>Typee</i> of the Marquesans (somewhat idealized, no doubt) +reveals nothing that can fairly be called licentiousness. At Rotuma, J. +Stanley Gardiner remarks, before the missionaries came sexual intercourse +before marriage was free, but gross immorality and prostitution and +adultery were unknown. Matters are much worse now.<a name='3_FNanchor_205'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_205'><sup>[205]</sup></a> The Maoris of New +Zealand, in the old days, according to one who had lived among them, were +more chaste than the English, and, though a chief might lend his wife to a +friend as an honor, it would be very difficult to take her (<i>private +communication</i>).<a name='3_FNanchor_206'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_206'><sup>[206]</sup></a> Captain Cook also represented these people as modest +and virtuous.</p> + +<p>Among the Papuans of New Guinea and Torres Straits, although intercourse +before marriage is free, it is by no means unbridled, nor is it carried to +excess. There are many circumstances <a name='3_Page_270'></a>restraining intercourse. Thus, +unmarried men must not indulge in it during October and November at Torres +Straits. It is the general rule also that there should be no sexual +intercourse during pregnancy, while a child is being suckled (which goes +on for three or four years), or even until it can speak or walk.<a name='3_FNanchor_207'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_207'><sup>[207]</sup></a> In +Astrolabe Bay, New Guinea, according to Vahness, a young couple must +abstain from intercourse for several weeks after marriage, and to break +this rule would be disgraceful.<a name='3_FNanchor_208'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_208'><sup>[208]</sup></a></p> + +<p>As regards Australia, Brough Smyth wrote: "Promiscuous intercourse between +the sexes is not practised by the aborigines, and their laws on the +subject, particularly those of New South Wales, are very strict. When at +camp all the young unmarried men are stationed by themselves at the +extreme end, while the married men, each with his family, occupy the +center. No conversation is allowed between the single men and the girls or +the married women. Infractions of these laws were visited by punishment; +... five or six warriors threw from a comparatively short distance several +spears at him [the offender]. The man was often severely wounded and +sometimes killed."<a name='3_FNanchor_209'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_209'><sup>[209]</sup></a> This author mentions that a black woman has been +known to kill a white man who attempted to have intercourse with her by +force. Yet both sexes have occasional sexual intercourse from an early +age. After marriage, in various parts of Australia, there are numerous +restraints on intercourse, which is forbidden not merely during +menstruation, but during the latter part of pregnancy and for one moon +after childbirth.<a name='3_FNanchor_210'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_210'><sup>[210]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Concerning the people of the Malay Peninsula, Hrolf Vaughan Stevens +states: "The sexual impulse among the Belendas is only developed to a +slight extent; they are not sensual, and the husband has intercourse with +his wife not oftener than three times a month. The women also are not +ardent.... The <a name='3_Page_271'></a>Orang Lâut are more sensual than the Dyaks, who are, +however, more given to obscene jokes than their neighbors.... With the +Belendas there is little or no love-play in sexual relations".<a name='3_FNanchor_211'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_211'><sup>[211]</sup></a> Skeat +tells us also that among Malays in war-time strict chastity must be +observed in a stockade, or the bullets of the garrison will lose their +power.<a name='3_FNanchor_212'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_212'><sup>[212]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is a common notion that the negro and negroid races of Africa are +peculiarly prone to sexual indulgence. This notion is not supported by +those who have had the most intimate knowledge of these peoples. It +probably gained currency in part owing to the open and expansive +temperament of the negro, and in part owing to the extremely sexual +character of many African orgies and festivals, though those might quite +as legitimately be taken as evidence of difficulty in attaining sexual +erethism.</p> + +<p>A French army surgeon, speaking from knowledge of the black races in +various French colonies, states in his <i>Untrodden Fields of Anthropology</i> +that it is a mistake to imagine that the negress is very amorous. She is +rather cold, and indifferent to the refinements of love, in which respects +she is very unlike the mulatto. The white man is usually powerless to +excite her, partly from his small penis, partly from his rapidity of +emission; the black man, on account of his blunter nervous system, takes +three times as long to reach emission as the white man. Among the +Mohammedan peoples of West Africa, Daniell remarks, as well as in central +and northern Africa, it is usual to suckle a child for two or more years. +From the time when pregnancy becomes apparent to the end of weaning no +intercourse takes place. It is believed that this would greatly endanger +the infant, if not destroy it. This means that for every child the woman, +at all events, must remain continent for about three years.<a name='3_FNanchor_213'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_213'><sup>[213]</sup></a> Sir H. H. +Johnston, writing concerning the peoples <a name='3_Page_272'></a>of central Africa, remarks that +the man also must remain chaste during these periods. Thus, among the +Atonga the wife leaves her husband at the sixth month of pregnancy, and +does not resume relations with him until five or six months after the +birth of the child. If, in the interval, he has relations with any other +woman, it is believed his wife will certainly die. "The negro is very +rarely vicious," Johnston says, "after he has attained to the age of +puberty. He is only more or less uxorious. The children are vicious, as +they are among most races of mankind, the boys outrageously so. As regards +the little girls over nearly the whole of British Central Africa, chastity +before puberty is an unknown condition, except perhaps among the A-nyanja. +Before a girl is become a woman it is a matter of absolute indifference +what she does, and scarcely any girl remains a virgin after about 5 years +of age."<a name='3_FNanchor_214'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_214'><sup>[214]</sup></a> Among the Bangala of the upper Congo a woman suckles her +child for six to eighteen months and during all this period the husband +has no intercourse with his wife, for that, it is believed, would kill the +child.<a name='3_FNanchor_215'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_215'><sup>[215]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Among the Yoruba-speaking people of West Africa A. B. Ellis mentions that +suckling lasts for three years, during the whole of which period the wife +must not cohabit with her husband.<a name='3_FNanchor_216'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_216'><sup>[216]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Although chastity before marriage appears to be, as a rule, little +regarded in Africa, this is not always so. In some parts of West Africa, a +girl, at all events if of high birth, when found guilty of unchastity may +be punished by the insertion into her vagina of bird pepper, a kind of +capsicum, beaten into a mass; this produces intense pain and such acute +inflammation that the canal may even be obliterated.<a name='3_FNanchor_217'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_217'><sup>[217]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Among the Dahomey women there is no coitus during pregnancy nor during +suckling, which lasts for nearly three years.<a name='3_Page_273'></a> The same is true among the +Jekris and other tribes on the Niger, where it is believed that the milk +would suffer if intercourse took place during lactation.<a name='3_FNanchor_218'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_218'><sup>[218]</sup></a></p> + +<p>In another part of Africa, among the Suaheli, even after marriage only +incomplete coitus is at first allowed and there is no intercourse for a +year after the child's birth.<a name='3_FNanchor_219'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_219'><sup>[219]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Farther south, among the Ba Wenda of north Transvaal, says the Rev. R. +Wessmann, although the young men are permitted to "play" with the young +girls before marriage, no sexual intercourse is allowed. If it is seen +that a girl's labia are apart when she sits down on a stone, she is +scolded, or even punished, as guilty of having had intercourse.<a name='3_FNanchor_220'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_220'><sup>[220]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Among the higher races in India the sexual instinct is very developed, and +sexual intercourse has been cultivated as an art, perhaps more elaborately +than anywhere else. Here, however, we are far removed from primitive +conditions and among a people closely allied to the Europeans. Farther to +the east, as among the Cambodians, strict chastity seems to prevail, and +if we cross the Himalayas to the north we find ourselves among wild people +to whom sexual license is unknown. Thus, among the Turcomans, even a few +days after the marriage has been celebrated, the young couple are +separated for an entire year.<a name='3_FNanchor_221'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_221'><sup>[221]</sup></a></p> + +<p>All the great organized religions have seized on this value of sexual +abstinence, already consecrated by primitive magic and religion, and +embodied it in their system. It was so in ancient Egypt. Thus, according +to Diodorus, on the death of a king, the entire population of Egypt +abstained from sexual intercourse for seventy-two days. The Persians, +again, attached great value to sexual as to all other kinds of purity. +Even involuntary seminal emissions were severely punishable. To lie with a +menstruating <a name='3_Page_274'></a>woman, according to the <i>Vendidad</i>, was as serious a matter +as to pollute holy fire, and to lie with a pregnant woman was to incur a +penalty of 2000 strokes. Among the modern Parsees a man must not lie with +his wife after she is four months and ten days pregnant. Mohammedanism +cannot be described as an ascetic religion, yet long and frequent periods +of sexual abstinence are enjoined. There must be no sexual intercourse +during the whole of pregnancy, during suckling, during menstruation (and +for eight days before and after), nor during the thirty days of the +Ramedan fast. Other times of sexual abstinence are also prescribed; thus +among the Mohammedan Yezidis of Mardin in northern Mesopotamia there must +be no sexual intercourse on Wednesdays or Fridays.<a name='3_FNanchor_222'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_222'><sup>[222]</sup></a></p> + +<p>In the early Christian Church many rules of sexual abstinence still +prevailed, similar to those usual among savages, though not for such +prolonged periods. In Egbert's Penitential, belonging to the ninth +century, it is stated that a woman must abstain from intercourse with her +husband three months after conception and for forty days after birth. +There were a number of other occasions, including Lent, when a husband +must not know his wife.<a name='3_FNanchor_223'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_223'><sup>[223]</sup></a> "Some canonists say," remarks Jeremy Taylor, +"that the Church forbids a mutual congression of married pairs upon +festival days.... The Council of Eliberis commanded abstinence from +conjugal rights for three or four or seven days before the communion. Pope +Liberius commanded the same during the whole time of Lent, supposing the +fast is polluted by such congressions."<a name='3_FNanchor_224'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_224'><sup>[224]</sup></a></p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='3_Footnote_196'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_196'>[196]</a><div class='note'><p> A. Sutherland, <i>Origin and Growth of the Moral Instinct</i>, +vol. i, pp. 8, 187. As has been shown by, for instance, Dr. Iwan Bloch +(<i>Beiträge zur Ætiologie der Psychopathia Sexualis</i>, Erster Theil, 1902), +every perverse sexual practice may be found, somewhere or other, among +savages or barbarians; but, as the same writer acutely points out (p. 58), +these devices bear witness to the need of overcoming frigidity rather than +to the strength of the sexual impulse.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_197'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_197'>[197]</a><div class='note'><p> Ploss and Bartels have brought together in <i>Das Weib</i> a +large number of facts in the same sense, more especially under the +headings of <i>Abstinenz-Vorschriften</i> and <i>Die Fernhaltung der +Schwangeren</i>. I have not drawn upon their collection.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_198'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_198'>[198]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Journal of the Anthropological Institute</i>, May, 1896, p. +369.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_199'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_199'>[199]</a><div class='note'><p> Hyades and Deniker, <i>Mission Scientifique du Cap Horn</i>, +vol. vii, p. 188.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_200'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_200'>[200]</a><div class='note'><p> F. Cook, <i>New York Journal of Gynecology and Obstetrics</i>, +1894.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_201'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_201'>[201]</a><div class='note'><p> A. d'Orbigny, <i>L'Homme Américain</i>, 1839, vol. i, p. 47.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_202'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_202'>[202]</a><div class='note'><p> A. B. Holder, "Gynecic Notes Among the American Indians," +<i>American Journal of Obstetrics</i>, 1892, vol. xxvi, No. 1.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_203'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_203'>[203]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Journal of the Anthropological Institute</i>, 1905, p. 139.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_204'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_204'>[204]</a><div class='note'><p> Foley, <i>Bulletin de la Société d' Anthropologie</i>, Paris, +November 6, 1879.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_205'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_205'>[205]</a><div class='note'><p> J. S. Gardiner, <i>Journal of the Anthropological Institute</i>, +February, 1898, p. 409.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_206'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_206'>[206]</a><div class='note'><p> As regards the modern Maoris, a medical correspondent in +New Zealand writes: "It is nothing for members of both sexes to live in +the same room, and for promiscuous intercourse to take place between +father and daughter or brother and sister. Maori women, who will display a +great deal of modesty when in the presence of male Maoris, will openly ask +strange Europeans to have sexual intercourse with them, and without any +desire for reward. The men, however, seem to prefer their own women, and +even when staying in towns, where they can obtain prostitutes, they will +remain continent until they return home again, a period of perhaps a +month."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_207'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_207'>[207]</a><div class='note'><p> Schellong, <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1889, i, pp. 17, +19; Haddon, <i>Journal of the Anthropological Institute</i>, February, 1890, +pp. 316, 397; Guise, <i>ib.</i>, February and May, 1899, p. 207; Seligmann, +<i>ib.</i>, 1902, pp. 298, 301-302; <i>Reports Cambridge Expedition</i>, vol. v, pp. +199-200, 275.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_208'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_208'>[208]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1900, ht. v, p. 414.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_209'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_209'>[209]</a><div class='note'><p> R. Brough Smyth, <i>The Aborigines of Victoria</i>, vol. ii, p. +318.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_210'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_210'>[210]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Journal of the Anthropological Institute</i>, 1894, pp. 170, +177, 187.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_211'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_211'>[211]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1896, iv, pp. 180-181.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_212'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_212'>[212]</a><div class='note'><p> W. W. Skeat, <i>Malay Magic</i>, p. 524.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_213'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_213'>[213]</a><div class='note'><p> W. F. Daniell, <i>Medical Topography of Gulf of Guinea</i>, 1849, +p. 55.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_214'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_214'>[214]</a><div class='note'><p> Sir H. H. Johnston, <i>British Central Africa</i>, 1899, pp. 409, +414.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_215'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_215'>[215]</a><div class='note'><p> Rev. J. H. Weeks, <i>Journal of the Anthropological +Institute</i>, 1910, p. 418.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_216'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_216'>[216]</a><div class='note'><p> Sir A. B. Ellis, <i>Yoruba-Speaking Peoples</i>, p. 185.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_217'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_217'>[217]</a><div class='note'><p> W. F. Daniell, <i>op. cit.</i>, p. 36.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_218'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_218'>[218]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Journal of the Anthropological Institute</i>, August and +November, 1898, p. 106.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_219'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_219'>[219]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1899, ii and iii, p. 84; +Velten, <i>Sitten und Gebraüche der Suaheli</i>, p. 12.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_220'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_220'>[220]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1896, p. 364.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_221'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_221'>[221]</a><div class='note'><p> Vambery, <i>Travels in Central Asia</i>, 1864, p. 323.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_222'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_222'>[222]</a><div class='note'><p> Heard, <i>Journal of the Anthropological Institute</i>, +Jan.-June, 1911, p. 210. The same rule is also observed by the Christians +of this district.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_223'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_223'>[223]</a><div class='note'><p> Haddon and Stubbs, <i>Councils and Ecclesiastical Documents</i>, +vol. iii, p. 423.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_224'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_224'>[224]</a><div class='note'><p> Jeremy Taylor, <i>The Rule of Conscience</i>, bk. iii, ch. iv, +rule xx.</p></div> + + + +<hr /> +<a name='3_A_III'></a><h5><a name='3_Page_275'></a>III.</h5> +<br /> + +<p>Thus it would seem probable that, contrary to a belief once widely +prevalent, the sexual instinct has increased rather than diminished with +the growth of civilization. This fact was clear to the insight of +Lucretius, though it has often been lost sight of since.<a name='3_FNanchor_225'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_225'><sup>[225]</sup></a> Yet even +observation of animals might have suggested the real bearing of the facts. +The higher breeds of cattle, it is said, require the male more often than +the inferior breeds.<a name='3_FNanchor_226'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_226'><sup>[226]</sup></a> Thorough-bred horses soon reach sexual maturity, +and I understand that since pains have been taken to improve cart-horses +the sexual instincts of the mares have become less trustworthy. There is +certainly no doubt that in our domestic animals generally, which live +under what may be called civilized conditions, the sexual system and the +sexual needs are more developed than in the wild species most closely +related to them.<a name='3_FNanchor_227'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_227'><sup>[227]</sup></a> All observers seem to agree on this point, and it is +sufficient to refer to the excellent summary of the question furnished by +Heape in the study of "The 'Sexual Season' of Mammals," to which reference +has already been made. He remarks, moreover, that, "while the sexual +activity of domestic animals and of wild animals in captivity may be more +frequently exhibited, it is not so violent as is shown by animals in the +wild state."<a name='3_FNanchor_228'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_228'><sup>[228]</sup></a> So that, it would seem, the greater periodicity of the +instinct in the wild state, alike in animals and in man, is associated +with greater violence of the manifestations when they do appear.<a name='3_Page_276'></a> Certain +rodents, such as the rat and the mouse, are well known to possess both +great reproductive power and marked sexual proclivities. Heape suggests +that this also is "due to the advantages derived from their intimate +relations with the luxuries of civilization." Heape recognizes that, as +regards reproductive power, the same development may be traced in man: "It +would seem highly probable that the reproductive power of man has +increased with civilization, precisely as it may be increased in the lower +animals by domestication; that the effect of a regular supply of good +food, together with all the other stimulating factors available and +exercised in modern civilized communities, has resulted in such great +activity of the generative organs, and so great an increase in the supply +of the reproductive elements, that conception in the healthy human female +may be said to be possible almost at any time during the reproductive +period."</p> + +<p>"People of sense and reflection are most apt to have violent and constant +passions," wrote Mary Wollstonecraft, "and to be preyed on by them."<a name='3_FNanchor_229'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_229'><sup>[229]</sup></a> +It is that fact which leads to the greater importance of sexual phenomena +among the civilized as compared to savages. The conditions of civilization +increase the sexual instinct, which consequently tends to be more +intimately connected with moral feelings. Morality is bound up with the +development of the sexual instinct. The more casual and periodic character +of the impulse in animals, since it involves greater sexual indifference, +tends to favor a loose tie between the sexes, and hence is not favorable +to the development of morals as we understand morals. In man the +ever-present impulse of sex, idealizing each sex to the other sex, draws +men and women together and holds them together. Foolish and ignorant +persons may deplore the full development which the sexual instinct has +reached in civilized man; to a finer insight that development is seen to +be indissolubly linked with all that is most poignant and most difficult, +indeed, but also all that is best, in human life as we know it.</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='3_Footnote_225'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_225'>[225]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>De Rerum Naturâ</i>, v, 1016.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_226'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_226'>[226]</a><div class='note'><p> Raciborski (<i>Traité de la Menstruation</i>, p. 43) quotes the +observation of an experienced breeder of choice cattle to this effect.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_227'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_227'>[227]</a><div class='note'><p> "The organs which in the feral state," as Adlerz remarks +(<i>Biologisches Centralblatt</i>, No. 4, 1902; quoted in <i>Science</i>, May 16, +1902), "are continually exercised in a severe struggle for existence, do +not under domestication compete so closely with one another for the less +needed nutriment. Hence, organs like the reproductive glands, which are +not so directly implicated in self-preservation, are able to avail +themselves of more food."</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_228'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_228'>[228]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Quarterly Journal of Microscopical Science</i>, vol. xliv, +1900, p. 12, 31, 39.</p></div> + +<a name='3_Footnote_229'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_229'>[229]</a><div class='note'><p> "Love," in <i>Thoughts on the Education of Daughters</i>.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_APPENDIX_B'></a><h3><a name='3_Page_277'></a>APPENDIX B.</h3> + +<h4>THE DEVELOPMENT OF THE SEXUAL INSTINCT.</h4> +<br /> + +<p>It is a very remarkable fact that, although for many years past serious +attempts have been made to elucidate the psychology of sexual perversions, +little or no endeavor has been made to study the development of the normal +sexual emotions. Nearly every writer seems either to take for granted that +he and his readers are so familiar with all the facts of normal sex +psychology that any detailed statement is altogether uncalled for, or else +he is content to write a few fragmentary remarks, mostly made up of +miscellaneous extracts from anatomical, philosophical, and historical +works.</p> + +<p>Yet it is as unreasonable to take normal phenomena for granted here as in +any other region of science. A knowledge of such phenomena is as necessary +here as physiology is to pathology or anatomy to surgery. So far from the +facts of normal sex development, sex emotions, and sex needs being uniform +and constant, as is assumed by those who consider their discussion +unnecessary, the range of variation within fairly normal limits is +immense, and it is impossible to meet with two individuals whose records +are nearly identical.</p> + +<p>There are two fundamental reasons why the endeavor should be made to +obtain a broad basis of clear information on the subject. In the first +place, the normal phenomena give the key to the abnormal phenomena, and +the majority of sexual perversions, including even those that are most +repulsive, are but exaggerations of instincts and emotions that are +germinal in normal human beings. In the second place, we cannot even know +what is normal until we are acquainted with the sexual life of a large +number of healthy individuals. And until we know the limits of normal +sexuality we are not in position to lay down any reasonable rules of +sexual hygiene.</p><a name='3_Page_278'></a> + +<p>On these grounds I have for some time sought to obtain the sexual +histories, and more especially the early histories, of men and women who, +on <i>prima facie</i> grounds, may fairly be considered, or are at all events +by themselves and others considered, ordinarily healthy and normal.</p> + +<p>There are many difficulties about such a task, difficulties which are +sufficiently obvious. There is, first of all, the natural reticence to +reveal facts of so intimately personal a character. There is the +prevailing ignorance and unintelligence which leads to the phenomena being +obscure to the subject himself. When the first difficulty has been +overcome, and the second is non-existent, there is still a lack of +sufficiently strong motive to undertake the record, as well as a failure +to realize the value of such records. I have, however, received a large +number of such histories, for the most part offered spontaneously with +permission to make such further inquiries as I thought desirable. Some of +these histories are extremely interesting and instructive. In the present +Appendix, and in a corresponding Appendix to the two following volumes of +these <i>Studies</i>, I bring forward a varied selection of these narratives. +In a few cases, it will be seen, the subjects are, to say the least, on +the borderland of the abnormal, but they do not come before us as patients +desiring treatment. They are playing their, usually active, sometimes even +distinguished, part in the world, which knows nothing of their intimate +histories.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p><b>HISTORY I.—</b>E. T. (I reproduce this history, written in the third + person, as it reached my hands.) T.'s earliest recollections of + ideas of a sexual character are vaguely associated with thoughts + upon whipping inflicted on companions by their parents, and + sometimes upon his own person. About the age of 7 T. occasionally + depicted to himself the appearance of the bare nates and + genitalia of boys during flagellation. Reflection upon whipping + gave rise to slight curious sensations at the base of the abdomen + and in the nerves of the sexual system. The sight of a boy being + whipped upon the bare nates caused erection before the age of 9. + He cannot account for these excitations, as at the time he had + not learned the most rudimentary facts of sex. The spectacle of + the boy's nudity had no attraction for him, while the beating + aroused his indignation against the person who administered it. + T. knew a boy <a name='3_Page_279'></a>and girl of about his own age whose imaginations + dwelt somewhat morbidly upon whipping. The three used to talk + together about such chastisement, and the little girl liked to + read "stories that had whippings in them." None of these children + delighted in cruelty; the fascination in the theme of castigation + seemed to be in imagining the spectacle of the exposed nates, + though actual witnessing of the whipping made them angry at the + time.</p> + +<p> Accustomed to watch a young sister being bathed, T. had no + distinct curiosity concerning the differences in sex until the + age of 9. About this time he asked his father where babies came + from, and was told to be quiet. When he persisted in the inquiry + his father threatened to box his ears. His mother told him + subsequently that doctors brought babies to mothers. He credited + the story so far as to carefully watch the doctor who came when + his mother "was going to have a new baby," in the hope of seeing + a bundle in his arm. T. was 9 when he interrogated a servant-girl + of 16 about babies and their origin. She laughed and said that + one day she would tell him how children came. One Sunday this + servant took T. for a country walk and initiated him in sexual + intercourse, telling him he was too young to be a father, but + that was the way babies were made. The girl took him into a + field, saying she would show him how to do something which would + make him "feel as though he was in heaven," informing him that + she had often done this with young men. She then succeeded in + causing erection and instructed him how to act. His feeling at + the time was one of disgust; the appearance and odor of the + female genitalia repelled him. Afterward, however, he wished to + repeat the experience with girls of his own age. Finding the boy + unresponsive, the girl took the masculine position and embraced + him with great passion. T. can recall the expression of the + girl's face, the perspiration on her forehead, and the whispered + query whether it pleased him. The embrace lasted for about ten + minutes, when the girl said it had "done her good." Later the + same day they met a girl cousin of this servant about 10 or 12 + years old. The three went to a lonely part of the seashore. The + servant there suggested that T. should repeat the act with the + little girl. T. was too shy, though the girl seemed quite willing + and experienced. The older girl told the younger to keep watch a + few yards away, while she again brought about intercourse in the + same way. The servant told T. not to tell anyone. Intercourse + with the servant was never repeated after that day; from shame he + kept the promise for many years.</p> + +<p> After this episode T. began to speculate about sexual matters and + to observe the coupling of dogs with newly acquired interest. At + 10 years he often lay awake, listening to a woman of 25 singing + to a piano <a name='3_Page_280'></a>accompaniment. The woman's voice seemed very + beautiful, and so strongly impressed him that he fell in love + with her and longed to embrace her sexually. This secret + attachment was much more romantic than sensual, though the idea + of embracing the woman seemed to T. a natural part of the + romance. He was beginning to invest the sex with angelic + qualities. The thought of his adventure with the servant no + longer caused repulsion, but rather pleasure. He reflected that + if he could meet the girl now he could be very fond of her and + understand things better. At this time he had not masturbated, + nor even heard of the practice. One day, while playing with a + girl of his own age, he succeeded in overcoming her shyness and + induced her to expose herself, at the same time uncovering his + own sexual parts. On this occasion and once afterward he + succeeded in penetrating the vulva. Both he and the girl + experienced imperfect enjoyment.</p> + +<p> At boarding-school, where he was sent at 10, T. learned the + vulgar phrases for sexual organs and sexual acts, and acquired + the habit of moderate masturbation. Coarse talk and indecent + jests about the opposite sex were common amusements of the + playroom and dormitories. At first the obscene conversation was + very distasteful; later he became more used to it, but thought it + strange that sex intimacy should be a subject for ridicule and + jest.</p> + +<p> He began to read love-stories and think much about girls. At the + same time he learned the nature of "the sin of fornication," and + wondered why it should be considered so heinous. Parts of the + Bible condemning intercourse between the unmarried alarmed him. + Being of a serious as well as emotional and amorous nature, he + became converted to evangelic belief. His mother warned him to + beware of unclean companions at school. He tried to act as a + Christian and think only pure thoughts about women. The talk, + however, was always of girls and of being in love. His mind was + often engrossed with amatory ideas of a poetic, sensuous nature, + his sexual experiences having a firm hold on his imagination, + while they gave him gratifying assurance of actual knowledge + concerning things merely imagined by most of his companions.</p> + +<p> His health was vigorous and he keenly enjoyed all outdoor games + and excelled in daring and schoolboy mischief.</p> + +<p> At 12 he fell deeply in love with a girl of corresponding age. He + never felt any powerful sexual desire for his sweetheart, and + never attempted anything but kissing and decorous caresses. He + liked to walk and sit with the girl, to hold her hand, and stroke + her soft hair. He felt real grief when separated from her. His + thoughts of her were seldom sensual. A year or so afterward he + had a temporary passion for a woman of 30, who used to flirt with + him and allow kissing. T. thought her queen-like and very lovely, + and wished to be her knight.</p><a name='3_Page_281'></a> + +<p> One day he saw, for a moment, in a friend's house, a dark, + earnest-looking girl of 13, who made a very deep impression upon + him, and, though he did not exchange a word with her, he often + thought about her afterward. Five years later he met the dark + girl again, and the pair were mutually drawn to one another. He + proposed marriage and avowed a most desperate passion. A refusal + on the plea of youth caused him the deepest misery. About eight + years thereafter T. married the girl, and the marriage proved a + very happy one for both.</p> + +<p> When he was 15 T. made the acquaintance of a pretty blonde of the + same age. She was a high-spirited hoiden. They were soon close + friends and later lovers. They wrote a number of letters to each + other and exchanged locks of hair and presents. Their talk about + love was unreserved. One day she told T. that she had been + sexually embraced by a former lover, a boy of 16, hinting very + plainly that she would like T. to embrace her. This amour lasted + for about six months. The lovers had many opportunities for + clandestine intercourse. They used to consummate their passion in + a part of a wood they called "the bower." Now and then one or the + other would experience a pricking of conscience, but they were + too passionately attached to each other to sever the intimacy. At + length the girl began to dread the risk of conception and the + intercourse ceased. Looking back upon this episode T. avers that + the attachment and its physical expression seemed quite natural, + poetic, and beautiful, though at times his religious principles + condemned his conduct. He now thinks that the experience is by no + means to be regretted either by the girl or himself. It was a + wholesome youthful passion, as innocent as the mating of birds, + and the insight which it gave to both of the hidden emotions of + human nature was morally advantageous in after-life.</p> + +<p> T. believes that his amative precocity was due to the early + awakening of sex feeling by the servant-girl. But he also + believes that the love passion would have asserted itself early + in any case, since he inherits a warm temperament, had erectile + power long before puberty, and has considerable seminal capacity. + Having closely watched the effects of suppressed normal emotions + and desires in youth at the time of pubescence, he maintains that + such suppression is disastrous, causing unhealthy thoughts and + leading to the formation of a habit of masturbation which may + persist throughout life. He believes that temporary sexual + intimacies between boys and girls under 20 from the period of + puberty would be far less harmful than separation of the sexes + until marriage, with its resultants: masturbation, hysteria, + repressed and disordered functions in young women, seduction, + prostitution, venereal affections, and many other evils.</p><a name='3_Page_282'></a> +<br /> + +<p> <b>HISTORY II.—</b>The following narrative was written by a married + lady: "My mother (herself a very passionate and attractive woman) + recognized the difficulty for English girls of getting + satisfactorily married, and determined, if possible, to shield us + from disappointment by turning our thoughts in a different + direction. Theoretically the idea was perhaps good, but in + practice it proved useless. The natural desires were there. + Disappointment and disillusion followed their repression none the + less surely for having altered their natural shape. I think the + love I had for my mother was almost sexual, as to be with her was + a keen pleasure, and to be long away from her an almost + unendurable pain. She used to talk to us a good deal on all sorts + of subjects, but she never troubled about education in the + ordinary sense. When 9 years old I had been taught nothing except + to read and write. She never forbade us to read anything, but if + by accident we got hold of a book of which she did not approve + she used to say: 'I think that is rather a silly story, don't + you?' We were so eager to come up to her standard of taste that + we at once imagined we thought it silly, too. In the same way she + discouraged ideas about love or marriage, not by suggesting there + was anything wrong or improper about them, but by implying great + contempt for girls who thought about lovers, etc. Up to the age + of about 20 I had a vague general impression that love was very + well for ordinary women, but far beneath the dignity of a + somewhat superior person like myself. To show how little it + entered my thoughts I may add that, up to 17, I fancied a woman + got a child by being kissed on the lips by a man. Hence all the + fuss in novels about the kiss on the mouth.</p> + +<p> "When I was 9 years old I began to feel a great craving for + scientific knowledge. <i>A Child's Guide to Science</i>, which I + discovered at a second-hand book-stall (and which, by the way, + informed me that heat is due to a substance called caloric), + became a constant companion. In order to learn about light and + gravitation, I saved up my money and ordered (of all books) + Newton's <i>Principia</i>, shedding bitter tears when I found I could + not understand a word of it. At the same time I was horribly + ashamed of this desire for knowledge. I got such books as I could + surreptitiously and hid them in odd corners. Why, I cannot + imagine, as no one would have objected, but, on the contrary, I + should have been helped to suitable books.</p> + +<p> "My sisters and I were all violently argumentative, but our + quarrels were all on abstract subjects. We saw little of other + children and made no friendships, preferring each other's society + to that of outsiders. When I was about 10 a girl of the same age + came to stay with us for a few days. When we went to bed the + first night she asked me if I ever played with myself, whereupon + I took a great dislike to her. No <a name='3_Page_283'></a>sexual ideas or feelings were + excited. When still quite a child, however, I had feelings of + excitement which I now recognize as sexual. Such feelings always + came to me in bed (at least I cannot remember them at any other + time) and were generally accompanied by a gradually increasing + desire to make water. For a long time I would not dare to get out + of bed for fear of being scolded for staying awake, and only did + so at last when actually compelled. In the mean time the sexual + excitement increased also, and I believe I thought the latter was + the result of the former, or, perhaps, rather, that both were the + same thing. (This was when I was about 7 or 8 years old.) So far + as I can recollect, the excitement did not recur when the desire + to make water had been gratified. I seemed to remember wondering + why thinking of certain things (I can't remember what these were) + should make one want to urinate. (In later life I have found + that, if the bladder is not emptied before coitus, pleasure is + often more intense.) There were also feelings, which I now + recognize as sexual, in connection with ideas of whipping.</p> + +<p> "As a child and girl I had very strong religious feelings (I + should have now if I could believe in the reality of religion), + which were absent in my sisters. These feelings were much the + same as I experienced later sexually; I felt toward God what I + imagined I should like to feel to my husband if I married. This, + I fancy, is what usually occurs. At 14 I went to a + boarding-school where there were seventy girls between 7 and 19. + I think it goes to show that there is but very little sexual + precocity among English girls that during the three years I + stayed there I never heard a word the strictest mother would have + objected to. One or two of the older girls were occasionally a + little sentimental, but on no occasion did I hear the physical + side of things touched upon. I think this is partly due to the + amount of exercise we took. When picturing my childhood I always + see myself racing about, jumping walls, climbing trees. In France + and Italy I have been struck by the greater sedateness of + Continental children. Our idea of naughtiness consisted chiefly + in having suppers in our bedrooms and sliding down the banisters + after being sent to bed. The first gratified our natural + appetite, while the second supplied the necessary thrill in the + fear of being caught.</p> + +<p> "I made no violent friendships with the other girls, but I became + much attached to the French governess. She was 30, and a born + teacher, very strict with all of us, and doubly so with me for + fear of showing favoritism. But she was never unjust, and I was + rather proud of her severity and took a certain pleasure in being + punished by her, the punishment always taking the form of + learning by heart, which I rather liked doing. So I had my + thrill, excitement, I don't quite know <a name='3_Page_284'></a>what to call it, without + any very great inconvenience to myself. Just before we left + school the sexual instinct began to show itself in enthusiasm for + art with a capital A, Ouida's novels being mainly responsible. My + sister and I agreed that we would spend our lives traveling about + France, Italy, and the Continent, generally <i>à la Tricotrin</i>, + with a violin in one pocket and an Atravante Dante in the other. + To do this satisfactorily to ourselves we must be artists, and I + resolved to go in for music and become a second Liszt. When my + father offered to take us to Italy, the artist's Mecca, for a + couple of years, we were wild with delight. We went, and + disillusionment began. It may perhaps seem absurd, but we + suffered acutely that first summer. Our villa was quite on the + beach, the lowest of its flight of steps being washed by the + Mediterranean. At the back were grounds which seemed a paradise. + Long alleys covered over with vines and carpeted with long grass + and poppies, grassy slopes dotted with olives and ilex, roses + everywhere, and almost every flower in profusion, with, at night, + the fireflies and the heavy scents of syringa and orange + blossoms. In the midst of every possible excitement to the senses + there was one thing wanting, and we did not know what that was.</p> + +<p> "We attributed our restlessness and dissatisfaction to the slow + progress in our artistic education, and consoled ourselves by + thinking when once we had mastered the technical difficulties we + should feel all right. And of course we did derive a very real + pleasure from all the beauties of art and nature with which Italy + abounds.</p> + +<p> "It seems to me, however, that the art craze is one of the modern + phases of woman's sexual life. When we were in Italy the great + centers of the country were simply overrun with girls studying + art, most of whom had very little talent, but who had mistaken + the restlessness due to the first awakening of the sexual + instinct for the divine flame of genius. In our case it did not + matter, as we were not dependent upon our own exertions. But it + must have been terribly hard for girls who had burned their boats + and chosen art as a career, to have added to the repression of + their natural desires the bitterness of knowing that in their + chosen walk of life they were failures. The results as far as + work goes might not be so bad if the passions, as in men, were + occasionally gratified. It is the constant drudgery combined with + the disappointment and finding that art alone does not satisfy + which is so paralyzing. Besides, sexual gratification is always + followed by exaltation of the mental faculties, with, in my + experience, no depressing reaction such as follows pleasure + excited by mental causes alone.</p> + +<p> "At one time when living at the villa I met a man about 45, who + took rather a fancy to me. I mention this because it woke me up; + no emotion was excited, but I realized for the first time (I must + have been <a name='3_Page_285'></a>nearly 20) that I was no longer a child, and that a + man could think of me in connection with love. It was only after + this, and not immediately after, either, that men's society began + to have an interest for me, and that I began to think a man's + love would be a pleasant thing to possess, after all.</p> + +<p> "The sexual instinct, at any rate as regards consciousness, thus + developed slowly and in what I believe to be a very usual + sequence: religion, admiration for an older woman, and art. I am + not sure that I have made quite enough of the first, yet I do not + know that there is any more to say. There were very strong + physical feelings connected with all these which were identical + with those now connected with passion, but they were completely + satisfied by the mental idea which excited them.</p> + +<p> "The first time I can remember feeling keen physical pleasure was + when I was between 7 and 8 years old. I can't recollect the + cause, but I remember lying quite still in my little cot clasping + the iron rails at the top. It may be said that this is hardly + slow development, but I mean slow as regards (1) any connection + of the idea with a man or (2) any physical means of excitation.</p> + +<p> "I have laid stress on my desire for knowledge, as I think my + sexual feelings were affected by it. A great part of my feeling + for my mother was due to the stores of information she appeared + to possess. The omniscience of God was to me his most striking + attribute. My French teacher's capacity was her chief attraction. + When, as a girl, I thought of marriage, I desired a man who + 'could explain things to me.' One learns later to live one's + mental and sexual life separately to a great extent. But at 20 I + could not have done so; given the opportunity, I should have made + the mistake of Dorothea in <i>Middlemarch</i>.</p> + +<p> "I have spoken of the depressing after-effects of pleasure + brought about by a purely mental cause, but I do not think this + is the case in childhood and early youth. (Perhaps some women + feel no such depression afterward, and this may account for their + coldness in regard to men.) This may perhaps be accounted for by + the fact that it occurs much more rarely, and also it is perhaps + a natural process before the sexual organs fully develop, and so + not harmful.</p> + +<p> "I always find it difficult in expressing the different degrees + of physical excitement even to myself, though I know exactly what + I felt. As a child, from the time of the early experience already + mentioned (about the age of 7 or 8), and as a young girl, the + second stage (secretion of mucus) was always reached. The amount + of secretion has always been excessive, but at first secretion + only lasted a short time; later it began to last for several + hours, or even sometimes the whole <a name='3_Page_286'></a>night, if the natural + gratification has been withheld for a long time (say, three + months). I do not remember ever feeling the third stage (complete + orgasm) until I saw the first man I fancied I cared for. I do not + think that mental causes alone have ever produced more than the + first two stages (general diffuse excitement and secretion). I + have sometimes wondered whether I could produce the third + mechanically, but I have a curious unreasonable repugnance to + trying the experiment; it would seem to materialize it too much. + As a child and a girl I was contented to arrive at the second + stage, possibly because I did not realize that there was any + other, and perhaps this is why I have experienced no evil + results.</p> + +<p> "In dreams the third stage seems to come suddenly without any + leading up to it, either mental or physical, of which I am + conscious. I do not, however, remember having any such dreams + before I was engaged. They came at a later period; even then, + when great pleasure was experienced, it came, as a rule, suddenly + and sharply, with no dreams leading up to it. The dreams + generally take a sad form (an Evangeline and Gabriel business), + where one vainly seeks the person who eludes one. I have, + however, sometimes had pleasurable dreams of men who were quite + indifferent to me and of whom I never thought when awake. The + impression on waking is so strong one could almost fancy one's + self really in love with them. I can quite understand falling in + love with a person by dreaming of him in this way.</p> + +<p> "The first time I remember experiencing the third stage in waking + moments was at a picnic, when the man, to whom I have before + referred as the first that I fancied I cared for, leaned against + me accidentally in passing a plate or dish; but I was already in + a violent state of excitement at being with him. There was no + possibility of anything between us, as he was married. If he + guessed my feelings, they were never admitted, as I did my best + to hide them. I never experienced this, except at the touch of + some one I loved. (I think the saying about the woman 'desiring + the desire of the man' is just about as true as most epigrams. It + is the man's personality alone which affects me. His feelings + toward me are of—I was going to say—indifference, but at any + rate quite secondary importance, and the gratification of my own + vanity counts as nothing in such relations.)</p> + +<p> "As a rule, to reach even the second stage the exciting ideas + must be associated with some particular person, except in the + case of a story, where one identifies one's self with one of the + characters. In childhood and early youth it was, in the case of + religion, the idea of God and the presence and the personality of + God which aroused my feelings and always seemed very vivid to me. + In the case of my governess, my feelings were aroused in exactly + the same way as later they would be <a name='3_Page_287'></a>by one's lover. In the art + craze I am rather vague as to how it came about, but I think, as + a rule, there was rather a craving for pleasure than pleasure + itself. I do not remember ever thinking much about the physical + feeling. It seemed as natural that a pleasant emotion should + produce pleasant physical effects as that a painful one should + cause tears. As a child, one takes so much for granted, and later + on my mind was so much occupied with worrying about the truth of + religion that I hardly thought enough about anything else to + analyze it carefully.</p> + +<p> "I may summarize my own feelings thus: First, exciting ideas + alone produce, as a rule, merely the first stage of sexual + excitement. Second, the same ideas connected with a particular + person will produce the second stage. Third, the same may be said + of the presence of the beloved person. Fourth, actual contact + appears necessary for the third stage. If the first stage only be + reached, the sensation is not pleasurable in reality, or would + not be but for its association. If produced, as I have sometimes + found it to be, by a sense of mental incapacity, it is distinctly + disagreeable, especially if one feels that the energy which might + have been used in coping with the difficulty is being thus + dissipated. If it be produced, as it may be, as the result of + physical or mental restraint, it is also unpleasant unless the + restraint were put upon one by a person one loves. Then, however, + the second stage would probably be reached, but this would depend + a good deal on one's mood. If the first stage only were reached, + I think it would be disagreeable; it would mean a conflict + between one's will and sexual feeling. Perhaps women who feel + actual repugnance to the sexual act with a man they love have + never gone beyond the first stage, when their dislike to it would + be quite intelligible to me.</p> + +<p> "Some time after the life in Italy had come to an end I became + engaged. There was considerable difficulty in the way of + marriage, but we saw a good deal of each other. My <i>fiancé</i> often + dined with us, and we met every day. The result of seeing him so + frequently was that I was kept in a constant state of strong, but + suppressed, sexual excitement. This was particularly the case + when we met in the evening and wandered about the moonlit garden + together. When this had gone on about three months I began to + experience a sense of discomfort after each of his visits. The + abdomen seemed to swell with a feeling of fullness and + congestion; but, though these sensations were closely connected + with the physical excitement, they were not sufficiently painful + to cause me any alarm or make me endeavor to avoid their + pleasurable cause. The symptoms got worse, however, and no longer + passed off quickly as at first. The swelling increased; + considerable pain and a dragged-down sensation resulted the + moment I tried to walk even a <a name='3_Page_288'></a>short distance. I was troubled + with constant indigestion, weight in the chest, pain in the head + and eyes, and continual slight diarrhea. This went on for about + nine months, and then my <i>fiancé</i> was called away from the + neighborhood. After his departure I got a trifle better, but the + symptoms remained, though in less acute form. A few months later + the engagement was broken off, and for some weeks I was severely + ill with influenza and was on my back for several weeks. When I + could get about a little, though very weak, all the swelling was + gone, but pain returned whenever I tried to walk or stand for + long. The indigestion and diarrhea were also very troublesome. I + was treated for both by a physician, but without success. Next + year I became engaged to my husband and was shortly after + married. The indigestion and diarrhea disappeared soon after. The + pain and dragging feeling in the abdomen bothered me much in + walking or any kind of exercise. One day I came across a medical + work, <i>The Elements of Social Science</i>, in which I found + descriptions of symptoms like those I suffered from ascribed to + uterine disease. I again applied to a doctor, telling him I + thought there was displacement and possibly congestion. He + confirmed my opinion and told me to wear a pessary. He ascribed + the displacement to the relaxing climate, and said he did not + think I should ever get quite right again. After the pessary had + been placed in position every trace of pain, etc., left me. A + year later I thought I would try and do without the pessary, and + to my great satisfaction none of the old trials came back after + its removal, in spite of much trouble, anxiety, sick nursing, and + fatigue. I attribute the disorder entirely to violent sexual + excitement which was not permitted its natural gratification and + relief.</p> + +<p> "I have reason to believe that suppression acts very injuriously + on a woman's mental capacity. When excitement is naturally + relieved the mind turns of its own accord to another subject, but + when suppressed it is unable to do this. Personally, in the + latter event, I find the greatest difficulty in concentrating my + thoughts, and mental effort becomes painful. Other women have + complained to me of the same difficulty. I have tried mechanical + mental work, such as solving arithmetical or algebraic problems, + but it does no good; in fact, it seems only to increase the + excitement. (I may remark here that my feelings are always very + strong not only before and after the monthly period, but also + during the time itself; very unfortunately, as, of course, they + cannot then be gratified. This only applies to desire from + within, as I am strongly susceptible to influences from without + at any time.) There seems nothing to be done but to bow to the + storm till it passes over. Anything I do during the time it + lasts, even household work, is badly done. The brain seems to + become addled for the time being, <a name='3_Page_289'></a>while after gratification of + desire it seems to attain an additional quickness and cleverness. + Perhaps this cause contributes to the small amount of + intellectual and artistic work done by women, admitting their + natural inferiority to men in artistic impulse. A woman whose + passions are satisfied generally has her strength sapped by + maternity, while her attention is drawn from abstract ideas to + her children."</p> +<br /> + +<p> <b>HISTORY III.—</b>B. states that his first sexual thoughts and acts + were curiously connected with whipping. At 12 he and another boy + used to beat each other with a cricket bat upon the bare nates, + and afterward indulge in mutual masturbation. He cannot remember + the beginning of his sexual speculation as a child, nor how he + learned masturbation. When he was 13 he used to discuss erotic + matters with a schoolfellow who was in the habit of engaging in + vulvar intercourse with a girl of his own age. The intercourse + was practised on the way home from school, and in a standing + posture. B. embraced the girl in the same way. He is not + interested in the psychological aspects of the sexual emotion. + Although his sex passion was early kindled, he never had commerce + with prostitutes. He thinks that his youthful experiences had no + ill effect upon him morally, mentally, or physically. He + practised masturbation in moderation till he married, at the age + of 31.</p> +<br /> + +<p> <b>HISTORY IV.—</b>"I can remember" (writes the subject) "trotting away + as a youngster about 5 with another boy to 'see a girl's legs'; + the idea emanated from the other boy, but I was vaguely + interested. How or where we were going to see the object in + question I do not remember nor anything further than the + intention. When 6 or 7 I remember being put to bed with the nurse + girl and feeling her bare arm with undoubted sexual excitement; I + remember, too, gradually feeling along the arm very cautiously, + fearing the girl would wake and being bitterly disappointed to + find it was merely the arm. I am almost certain I had then no + idea of sex, but the disappointment was actual.</p> + +<p> "These are the only early experiences of the sort I can remember. + When about 9 I had others. On the coast of the north of England, + which had then very few visitors and seemed to me very remote, I + lived in a farm-house and used to assist the girls of the farm in + looking after young cattle. These girls certainly instilled + sexual ideas, though I did not realize them with precision. They + used to talk about things a good many of which, I can now see, I + did not then understand as they did. I liked to see these girls + wading with their dresses tucked up. About this time I fell + passionately in love with a girl cousin, but do not remember + having any sensual ideas in regard to her. I cannot say that + these early experiences had any influence on my later sexual + development so far as I am consciously aware. I have always + remembered them vaguely, never with sexual excitement.</p><a name='3_Page_290'></a> + +<p> "Sexual dreams took place first at about the age of 13; there was + then emission and sensation in sleep. These were, however, not + much associated with distinctly sexual dreams. All that I recall + after them was the sensation, which, however, I did not even then + absolutely localize. Masturbation was undoubtedly the direct + result of these dreams. It was tried at first tentatively, out of + curiosity to determine if the sensation of the dream could be so + reproduced. Sexual dreams, such as I have described, occurred + frequently, although I cannot say at what interval. I have never + experienced the slightest attraction for the same sex."</p> +<br /> + +<p> <b>HISTORY V.—</b>"My maternal grandfather" (writes the subject of this + history) "was a small farmer who kept a few beagles and + greyhounds for hare-hunting. He had three daughters, one of whom + became my mother. One of his sporting companions, a doctor of + profligate habits and a drunkard, seduced my mother at the age of + 20. When her condition was discovered she had to flee from the + violence of her father, and I was born some distance from her + home. After my grandfather's death I was reared by my + grandmother, and saw nothing of my mother until I was nearly 16; + she had left the country in shame and disgrace.</p> + +<p> "I believe that in my heredity the transmission comes chiefly + from my mother, who is now 58 years old. Although her life has + been blameless in every particular since her youthful + indiscretion, she has never got over it. I feel in my character a + reflection of her overstrung condition during pregnancy.</p> + +<p> "I can distinctly remember from the age of 9 years, and am sure + that I had no sexual feelings before the age of 13, though always + in the company of girls. I had many boyish passions for girls, + always older than myself, but these were never accompanied by + sexual desires. I deified all my sweethearts, and was satisfied + if I got a flower, a handkerchief, or even a shred of clothing of + my inamorata for the time being. These things gave me a strange + idealistic emotion, but caused no sexual desire or erection.</p> + +<p> "At 13 a 26-year-old sister of a boy companion once sat down on a + sheaf of corn so as to expose the mons veneris and enticed me to + copulate. There was slight erection, and after the act had been + continued some time a pleasurable sensation of ejaculation, but + without true emission. I had frequent relations with this woman + after that.</p> + +<p> "About this time the farm servant of a neighbor taught me + masturbation. The mistress of the farm, a thin, willowy, dark + woman, the mother of several children, treated me with such + familiarity as once to urinate in my presence, so that I saw her + very hirsute mons veneris. From that moment I conceived a great + passion for her, and used to <a name='3_Page_291'></a>tremble as soon as I saw her. I had + become well developed and virile, but, though I think she was a + lustful woman, I never ventured to touch her. I found an extreme + ecstasy in masturbating while gazing upon some article of her + clothing. This gave me much greater sexual pleasure than actual + connection with the ever-willing sister of my schoolfellow. I + think I loved the married woman best because the mons veneris was + more covered with hair.</p> + +<p> "This has always had a peculiar attraction for me. Later, when + accosted by prostitutes, I never would go with them unless I was + assured the mons veneris was very hirsute. Never much addicted to + masturbation, I derived no great enjoyment therefrom unless I had + hair or part of the clothing of the woman with whom I was + indulging in psychic coitus.</p> + +<p> "At 16 I left school and went to a large city to learn a + business. At this time the sexual appetite was very strong. I + frequently had intercourse with three women in one evening.</p> + +<p> "I have had but few lascivious dreams. In these the phantom + partner was almost invariably a dead woman. (When about 8 I had + seen the dead body of an aunt who died at 24.)</p> + +<p> "When 20 I went to London and took all the pleasure which came my + way. I cared only for normal coitus. Offers of another type + created disgust. I once allowed a woman to exhaust me sexually + orally, but felt degraded thereby. Women with whom I had become + very intimate often urged me to <i>cunnilingus</i>, but I could not do + it. I have practised intermammary coitus a very few times.</p> + +<p> "At 26 I married a pure, gentle woman, after having for ten + months before marriage led a life of celibacy. My wife died when + I was 30, and for about eight months I lived a celibate life. + Lascivious dreams sometimes occurred, but I invariably awoke + before ejaculation. Eventually I gave way to the cravings of my + strong sexual nature, but never wished for anything out of the + usual except intercourse from behind. A woman with marked + development of the nates has great attraction for me. Solitary + masturbation has for some time ceased, but a nude woman in the + act of masturbation with her back to me gives me great pleasure. + I am as strong sexually at 38 as I was at 20, only I never want + women unless I am brought into actual contact with them and they + are hairy and have large pelvic development. I am in excellent + health. Genitals are well developed, and I am clothed with hair + from the chin to the genitals. My skull is dolichocephalic. I am + violent and tenacious in temper, high-strung, and rapid in + thought and action. My digestion is good, but I have a tendency + to constipation. Occasionally I have a twinge of pain below the + occipital region.</p><a name='3_Page_292'></a> + +<p> "My early views of women have changed; I no longer deify them, + though I study them. I have known very sensual women living at + home in respectable middle-class society. One, in particular, a + girl of 18, after coitus used to excite me lingually. I have had + a sweetheart who remained <i>virgo intacta</i>. Had I seduced her, as + I could have done, I should have lost all interest in her. I + could never bear the presence of naked men, and would never go to + a public swimming bath for that reason. I regard myself as a man + of abnormally strong, but, on the whole, healthy and wholesome, + sexual feelings. As a rule, I have coitus twice or oftener in one + week and I practise withdrawal. I am a total abstainer, and never + could embrace a woman who smelled of drink."</p> +<br /> +<p> <b>HISTORY VI.—</b>The writer of the following is a man of letters, + married. "Quite early I remember a strange and romantic interest + in the feminine. Certainly before I was 9 I had a strong + affection for a little girl playmate; our family lost sight of + hers, and I saw and heard nothing of her for sixteen years; then, + hearing she was coming to town, I experienced quite a flutter of + heart, so strong had been the impression caused at even the early + age of our acquaintance. Not that I mean to say I never wavered + in between! Through the whole of my boyhood I remember persistent + romantic interests in girls and women, whose smooth, fair faces + and sweet voices exercised ever a subtle attraction over me. + Before I was 12 I had picked out my 'future wife' a dozen times + at least! (A different one each time of course!) Curiosity as to + the physical detail of sex and birth was singularly absent. + Possibly this was partly due to the fact that the only younger + member of our family was born when I was but 4 years old. Grave, + shy, and reserved, I was never taken into the counsels of + prurient schoolmates. I was unaware that there was such + discussion between them—though it is, I suppose, not probable + that our school was exempt. I was a great reader, and when about + 12 or 13 I came across a reference to an illegitimate child which + puzzled me. Ere long, however, in my random and extensive reading + I hit on a book that touched on phallicism, and I learned that + there were male and female organs of generation. I had neither + shame nor curiosity; I jumped to the conclusion that during close + caresses somehow a subtle aroma arose from the man to fertilize + the woman; I left the subject at this, satisfied, and had no + inkling of the real intimacy of the embrace.</p> + +<p> "About 14, much interested in Bradlaugh, I bought both the + Knowlton pamphlet and Mrs. Besant's population book. I found the + physical details in scientific language so dull that I could not + peruse them. By reading the argumentative passages I learned that + <i>somehow</i> (I knew not how) children could be produced or not + produced as desired; <a name='3_Page_293'></a>and in this stage of the matter it seemed + to me so admirable that it should be so that I wondered why there + should be cavil.</p> + +<p> "About this age my elder brother believed it to be his duty to + tell me the secrets of sex; I remember his talking to me, while + I, bored and uninterested, thought of something else. When he + finished I had heard nothing. Remember, I felt no shame on the + matter—none at all. I was simply bored. This I attribute to two + things: first, my preponderating interest in the romantic side of + things; secondly (and this bears with it a strong moral), <i>the + feeling that the knowledge lay always within my grasp kept me + from that curiosity which so oft consumes those who think it is + hidden away from them</i>.</p> + +<p> "The changes of puberty came naturally and without startling me. + Even the fact of emissions—which took place during sleep at + intervals, unaccompanied by dreams or by any physical prostration + afterward—has left on my memory no recollection of surprise; I + knew it to be somehow connected with generation, but I had no + physical trouble, and I am quite sure I did not bother further + about it. The best possible proof of this lies in the fact that + my memory is a blank on the matter. At the age of 21 (I take this + from a diary, so I know it is correct) I was still ignorant as to + intrinsic fact. Then I pulled myself together and felt it was + really time I learned the actual details of the matter. I went to + a clever friend of mine and asked him to tell me all about it. He + expressed himself astounded at my not knowing; and he had very + great shyness about telling me. In fact, I had to drag facts out + of him by a real cross-examination, during which he persistently + marveled at my ignorance. Though he had a great deal of false + shame about the matter, I had none at all. His revelations + considerably surprised me, because I had no idea that there was + actual intromission. When I came to reflect on what I had learned + the fact of this close physical intimacy appealed to me as being + quite poetic and beautiful between two lovers; and I have had no + reason since to change my opinion.</p> + +<p> "<i>Summary.</i>—1. Romantic interest in girls and women commencing + early and remaining persistently.</p> + +<p> "2. Knowledge before puberty of the fact that this interest was + based on the all-important process of reproduction.</p> + +<p> "3. Absence of further physical curiosity even at puberty itself.</p> + +<p> "4. Knowledge ultimately acquired without shock.</p> + +<p> "The physical in sex has never been any bother to me, neither + have I bothered about it. I have recognized it, frankly, and + don't see why I shouldn't, but my unashamed recognition has + probably been because the merely physical is less absorbing to me + than to most. Mental and emotional interest in passion has + absorbed me greatly, but the <a name='3_Page_294'></a>merely physical has sunk into what + I call its natural place of subordination. Nature is kind. It is + our 'conspiracy of silence' which tends to emphasize physical + detail."</p> +<br /> + +<p> <b>HISTORY VII.—</b>G. D., who is a doctor and a man of science, writes: + "There is a strong history of gout on the paternal side. No + history of alcohol, tubercle, brain trouble, or of the + arthropathies. There is some reason to believe that two of my + maternal aunts were sexually frigid, and perhaps this was true to + a less extent of my mother, who had a contracted pelvis, + necessitating the induction of labor at the eighth month of + pregnancy.</p> + +<p> "About the age of 7 a German nursery governess, B., took charge + of me, and I soon became devoted to her. I was then a delicate + child, and used to suffer frequently from nightmare, waking up + screaming and covered with sweat. When this happened, B. would + sometimes take me into her bed and soothe me with kisses, etc. + These I returned, and can remember that I was particularly fond + of kissing her breasts.</p> + +<p> "About this time a girl cousin, A., about a year older than + myself, was one of my most frequent playmates. I endeavored to + monopolize her company and attention, and on this account often + came to blows with C., a cousin rather younger than myself, who + has since told me that he was then 'in love' with A. and + 'jealous' of me. I believe I was really jealous and in love at + the time, but cannot remember that anything in the nature of + caresses took place between A. and myself.</p> + +<p> "Some time later, probably when I was about 9, something led up + to B. saying that she was not built like I was, that she had no + penis, etc. (I cannot remember my nursery term for penis.) I was + incredulous, and demanded to be allowed to see if it was true; + this was refused, and I made many plans to gratify my curiosity, + such as slipping into her room when she was dressing, tipping up + the chair she was sitting in, and trying to suddenly thrust my + hand up under her skirts. I did not succeed in finding out, but + have since thought that, although she did not allow me to attain + the object of my efforts, the later game caused her pleasurable + sensations. I regard these efforts as being prompted purely by + curiosity; I had no feelings of warmth or irritations of the + genitals, and I certainly never manipulated them, nor was I, as + far as I can judge, an unusually prurient small boy. B. left when + I was about 10, when I went to a preparatory school.</p> + +<p> "At 12½ I was sent to a public school, and was then told by my + father the chief facts of sex and warned to avoid masturbation. + My first wet dream took place when I was 14. Rather before this I + had begun to suffer with severe intermittent testicular neuralgia + which practically defied all treatment and continued on and off + for four or five years, the attacks gradually becoming fewer and + less severe.</p><a name='3_Page_295'></a> + +<p> "When 15, circumstances compelled me to leave school and to live + for two years at the seaside with no companions of my own age. I + had, however, the run of a well-stocked library, and fished and + collected insects energetically.</p> + +<p> "At 16 I made love to the trained nurse attending my mother, but, + owing more, I think, to my timidity than to the austerity of her + virtue, got no further than kissing. About this time wet dreams + became inconveniently frequent; they would occur three or four + times weekly, and resisted the stock remedies. At 17 I was + advised to try connection. This I did, and found but little + pleasure in the act, there being a strong esthetic objection to + the 'love that keeps awake for lure.'</p> + +<p> "About this time I found in the United States Pharmacopœia + a remedy for my emissions, which have, however, always + remained rather more frequent than those of the average + individual, judging from the experience of my friends. Emissions + are generally accompanied by lascivious dreams, but at times take + place when I dream that I am hurrying to catch a train, or to + micturate against time.</p> + +<p> "I have of late years (not noticed till after 20) observed that + the dream accompanying emission is shorter; so that, whereas up + to, say, 21 I generally performed the whole physiological act + with my dream-charmer, I now almost invariably emit and awake + before intromission has taken place. There has been no + alternation comparable to this in the performance of the act + while I am awake.</p> + +<p> "As regards my physique I should mention that all my reflexes are + very brisk, though I am only slightly ticklish in the ordinary + sense of the term. I sweat easily and am very shy, not only with + women, but with any strangers. I have, however, trained myself + not to show this. About averagely passionate, I should say, and + extremely critical where women are concerned, the latter quality + often keeping me chaste for months at a time."</p> +<br /> + +<p> <b>HISTORY VIII.—</b>"When I was about 8 years old" (states the lady + who is the subject of the present observation) "I remember that, + with several other children, we used to play in an old garden at + being father and mother, unfastening our drawers and bringing the + sexual parts together, as we imagined married people to do, but + no sexual feelings were aroused, nor did the boys have + erections." When about 10 years old she became conscious of a + pleasurable sensation associated with the smell of leather, which + has ever since persisted. At that age she was sometimes left to + wait in the office of a wholesale business house full of + leather-bound ledgers. She did not then notice the sensation + particularly, and was certainly not conscious of any connection + with sexual emotion. Menstruation was established at 13½ years. + Distinct <a name='3_Page_296'></a>sexual feelings were first observed a few months later. + "The first feelings of love which I ever felt were at the age of + 14 for a nice, manly boy of my own age, who often came to our + house. He liked me, but was not in love with me. It was very + seldom that he would sit by me and hold my hand, as I wished him. + This went on till I was about 17, when he went to the university. + After his first term he came back and was then attracted to me; + but, though I loved him very much, I was too proud to show it. + When he tried to kiss me, I resisted, though I longed for it. + Thinking I was greatly offended, he apologized, which only made + me angry. All these years I was worshiping at his shrine and + mixed him up with all my ideas of life." Whenever she was near + him she experienced physical sensations, with moistening of the + vulva. This continued till she was about 20, but the object of + these emotions never again attempted any advances.</p> + +<p> At 19 she became engaged to someone else. At the beginning she + was physically indifferent to her lover, but when he first kissed + her she became greatly excited. The engagement, however, was soon + broken off from absence of strong affection on either side and + chiefly, it would seem, from the cooling of the lover's ardor. + She thinks he would have been more strongly attached to her if + she had been colder to him, or pretended to be, instead of + responding with simplicity and frankness.</p> + +<p> During the next few years little occurred. She was working hard, + and her amusements would mostly, she says, be regarded as rather + childish. She was extremely fond of dancing, and she was always + pleased when anyone paid her attention. She was frequently + conscious of sexual feelings, sometimes tormented by them, and + she regarded this as something to be ashamed of. The constant + longing for love was affected little or not at all by hard work. + "At about this time I was very fond of abandoning myself to + day-dreams. I was very glad if I could get everyone out of the + house and lie on an easy chair or the bed. I liked especially to + read poetry, all the more if I did not quite understand it. This + would lead me on to all sorts of dreams of love, which, however, + never went beyond the preliminaries of actual love—as that was + all I then knew of love." The only climax to her dream of love + was founded on a piece of information volunteered by a married + woman many years earlier, when she was about 12. This + lady—evidently agreeing with Rousseau (who in <i>Emile</i> commended + the mother's reply to the child's query whence babies come, "Les + femmes les pissent, mon enfant, avec des grands douleurs") that + the unknown should first be explained to the young in terms of + the known—told her that the husband micturated into the wife. + She therefore used to imagine a lover who would bear her away + into a forest and do this on her as she lay at the foot of a + tree. (At a later date she accidentally discovered <a name='3_Page_297'></a>that a full + bladder tended to enhance sexual feelings, and occasionally + resorted to this physical measure of heightening excitement.) All + the physical sensations of sexual desire were called out by these + day-dreams, with abundant secretion, but never the orgasm. Her + reveries never led to masturbation or to allied manifestations, + which have never taken place. Such a method of relief has, + indeed, never offered any temptation to her and she doubts even + its possibility in her case. (At a later period of life, however, + at the age of 31, masturbation began and was practised at + intervals.) At the same time she remarks that, while no orgasm + (of which, indeed, she was then ignorant) ever occurred, the + sexual excitement produced by the day-dreams was sufficiently + great to cause a feeling of relief afterward. These day-dreams + were the only way in which the sexual erethism was discharged. + She cannot recall having erotic dreams or any sexual + manifestations during sleep.</p> + +<p> Spontaneous sexual excitement was present a few days before + menstruation, and fairly marked during and immediately after the + period. It also tended to recur in the middle of the + intermenstrual period.</p> + +<p> The pleasurable sensation connected with the smell of leather + became more marked as she approached adult age. It was especially + pronounced about the age of 24, and the sexual emotion it + produced (with moisture of the vulva) was then clearly conscious. + No other odor produced this effect in such a marked degree. It + was often associated with leather bags, but not with boots, + though on rubbing the leather of shoes she found that this odor + was given out. She cannot account for its origin, and does not + connect any association with it. It never affected her conduct or + led to fetichistic habits.</p> + +<p> Some other odors affect her in the same way, though not to the + same degree as leather. This is more especially the case with + some flowers, especially white flowers with heavy odors, like + gardenias. Many flowers, on the other hand, like primroses, seem + rather opposed to sex effect, too fresh, though stimulating to + the mind. Some artificial scents tend to produce sexual effects + also. Personal odors have no influence of this kind. (At a later + period the sexual influence of personal odors was occasionally + experienced, but the present history deals only with the period + before marriage.)</p> + +<p> She believes that most beautiful things, however unconnected with + sex, have a tendency to produce distinctively sexual feelings in + a faint degree, although sometimes more marked, with secretion. + She has, however, never experienced homosexual feeling, and, on + first consideration, was inclined to believe that the sight of a + beautiful woman had no sexual effect on her, though she could + quite understand such an effect.<a name='3_Page_298'></a> Subsequently, on recalling as + well as observing her experiences more carefully, she found that + a lovely woman's face and figure (especially on one occasion the + very graceful figure of a beautiful fairy in a ballet) produced + distinct sexual sensations (with mucous emission). Music, + however, has strongly emotional effects upon her, and she cannot + recall that she ever felt any equally powerful influence of this + kind in the absence of music.</p> + +<p> Looking back on the development of her feelings she finds that, + though in some respects they may have been slow, they were + simple, natural, spontaneous, and correspond to "the dawning and + progress which go on in the development of every girl. While it + is going on in actual fact, the girl does not know or bother + herself about trying to understand it. Afterward it seems quite + clear and simple. Full occupation of the brain, and hands too, + while it does not do away with desire, is a great help and + safeguard to a growing girl, when combined with proper + information about herself and her relation to man the animal, so + that she may realize where she is and how to choose the right + man—though under the best conditions failure may occur."</p> +<br /> +<p> <b>HISTORY IX.—</b>The subject belongs to a large family having some + neurotic members; she spent her early life on a large farm. She + is vigorous and energetic, has intellectual tastes, and is + accustomed to think for herself, from unconventional standpoints, + on many subjects. Her parents were very religious, and not, she + thinks, of sensual temperament. Her own early life was free from + associations of a sexual character, and she can recall little + that now seems to be significant in this respect. She remembers + that in childhood and for some time later she believed that + children were born through the navel. Her activities went chiefly + into humanitarian and utopian directions, and she cherished ideas + of a large, healthy, free life, untrammeled by civilization. She + regards herself as very passionate, but her sexual emotions + appear to have developed very slowly and have been somewhat + intellectualized. After reaching adult life she has formed + several successive relationships with men to whom she has been + attracted by affinity in temperament, in intellectual views, and + in tastes. These relationships have usually been followed by some + degree of disillusion, and so have been dissolved. She does not + believe in legal marriage, though under fitting circumstances she + would much like to have a child.</p> + +<p> She never masturbated until the age of 27. At that time a married + friend told her that such a thing could be done. She found it + gave her decided pleasure, indeed, more than coitus had ever + given her except with one man. She has never practised it to + excess, only at rare intervals, and is of the opinion that it is + decidedly beneficial when thus moderately indulged in. She has + sometimes found, for instance, that, <a name='3_Page_299'></a>after the mental excitement + produced by delivering a lecture, sleep would be impossible if + masturbation were not resorted to as a sedative to relieve the + tension.</p> + +<p> Spontaneous sexual excitement is strongest just before the + monthly period.</p> + +<p> Definite sexual dreams and sexual excitement during sleep have + not occurred except possibly on one or two occasions.</p> + +<p> She has from girlhood experienced erotic day-dreams, imagining + love-stories of which she herself was the heroine; the climax of + these stories has developed with her own developing knowledge of + sexual matters.</p> + +<p> She is not inverted, and has never been in love with a woman. She + finds, however, that a beautiful woman is distinctly a sexual + excitation, calling out definite physical manifestations of + sexual emotion. She explains this by saying that she thinks she + instinctively puts herself in the place of a man and feels as it + seems to her a man would feel.</p> + +<p> She finds that music excites the sexual emotions, as well as many + scents, whether of flowers, the personal odor of the beloved + person, or artificial perfumes.</p> +<br /> +<p> <b>HISTORY X.—</b>The subject is of German extraction on both sides. + The father is of marked intellectual tastes, as also is she + herself. There is no unhealthy strain in the family so far as she + is aware, though they all have very strong passions. She is well + developed, healthy, vigorous, and athletic, any trouble to which + she is subject being mainly due to overwork.</p> + +<p> Looking back on her childhood, she can now see various sexual + manifestations occurring at a period when she was quite ignorant + of sex matters. "The very first," she writes, "was at the age of + 6. I remember once sitting astride a banister while my parents + were waiting for me outside. I distinctly remember a pleasurable + sensation—probably in part due to a physical feeling—in the + thought of staying there when I knew I ought to have run out to + them. From that year till the age of 10 I simply reveled in the + idea of being tortured. I went gladly to bed every night to + imagine myself a slave, chained, beaten, made to carry loads and + do ignominious work. One of my imaginings, I remember, was that I + was chained to a moldering skeleton." As she grew older these + fancies were discontinued. At the same time there was a trace of + sadistic tendency: "I used to frighten and tease a young child, + driven to it by an irresistible impulse, and experiencing a + certain pleasurable feeling in so doing. But this, I am glad to + say, was rare, as I hate all cruelty."</p> + +<p> One of her favorite imaginings as a child was that she was a boy, + and especially that she was a knight rescuing damsels in + distress. She <a name='3_Page_300'></a>was not fond of girls' occupations, and has always + had a sort of chivalrous feeling toward women.</p> + +<p> "When I first heard of the sexual act," she writes, "it appeared + to me so absurd that I took little notice. About the age of 10 I + discussed it a good deal with other girls, and we used to play + childishly indecent games—out of pure mischief and not from any + definite physical feeling."</p> + +<p> About a year after menstruation was established she accidentally + discovered the act of masturbation by leaning over a table. "I + discovered it naturally; no one taught me; and the very + naturalness of the impulse that led me to it often made me in + later years question the harmfulness." Both her sisters + masturbated from a very early age, but not, to her knowledge, her + brother. The practice of masturbation was continued. "For many + years, imbued with the old ideas of morality, I struggled against + it in vain. The sight of animals copulating, the perusal of + various books (Shakespeare, Rabelais, Gautier's <i>Mademoiselle de + Maupin</i>, etc.), the sight of the nude in some Bacchanalian + pictures (such as Rubens's), all aroused passion. Coexistent with + this—perhaps (though I doubt it) due to it—arose a disgust for + normal intercourse. I fell in love and enjoyed kisses, etc., but + the mere thought of anything beyond disgusted me. Had my lover + suggested such a thing I would have lost all love for him. But + all this time I went on masturbating, though as seldom as + possible and without thought of my lover. Love was to me a thing + ideal and quite apart from lust, and I still think that it is + false to try to connect the two. I fear that even now, if I fell + in love, sexual intercourse would break the charm. At the age of + 18 I came across Tolstoy's <i>Kreutzer Sonata</i> and was overjoyed to + find all I had thought written down there. Gradually, through + seeing a friend happily married, I have grown to a more normal + view of things. I am very critical of men and have never met one + liberal-minded and just enough to please me. Perhaps if I did I + might take a perfectly healthy view of things."</p> + +<p> In course of time various devices had been adopted to heighten + sexual excitement when indulging in masturbation. Thus, for + instance, she found that the effects of sexual excitement are + increased by keeping the bladder full. But the chief method which + she had devised for heightening and prolonging the preliminary + excitement consisted in wearing tight stays (as a rule, she wears + loose stays) and in painting her face. She cannot herself explain + this. Self-excitement is completed by friction, or sometimes by + the introduction of a piece of wood into the vagina. She finds + that, the more frequently she masturbates, the more easily she is + excited. Spontaneous sexual feeling is strongest before and after + the menstrual period; not so much so during the periods.</p><a name='3_Page_301'></a> + +<p> There are various faint traces of homosexuality, it may be + gathered, in the history of this subject's sexual development. + Recently these have come to a climax in the formation of a + homosexual relationship with a girl friend. This relationship has + given her great pleasure and satisfaction. She does not, however, + regard herself as being a really inverted person.</p> + +<p> There have been vivid sexual dreams from about 17 (apparently + about the period of the relationship with the lover). These + dreams have not, however, had special reference to persons of + either sex.</p> + +<p> Apart from the influence of books and pictures already mentioned, + she remarks that she is sexually affected by the personal odor of + a beloved person, but is not consciously affected by any other + odors.</p> +<br /> + +<p> <b>HISTORY XI.—</b>Widower, aged 40 years. Surgeon. "My experience of + sexual matters began early. When I was about 10 years of age a + boy friend who was staying with us told me that his sister made + him uncover his person, with which she played and encouraged him + to do the same for her. He said it was great fun, and suggested + that we should take two of my sisters into an old barn and repeat + his experience on them. This we did, and tried all we could to + have connection with them; they were nothing loath and did all + they could to help us, but nothing was effected and I experienced + no pleasure in it.</p> + +<p> "When I went back to school I attracted the attention of one of + the big boys who slept in the same room with me; he came into my + bed and began to play with my member, saying that it was the + usual thing to do and would give me pleasure. I did not feel any + pleasure, but I liked the attention, and rather enjoyed playing + with his member, which was of large size, and surrounded by thick + pubic hair. After I had played with him for some time I was + surprised at his having an emission of sticky matter. Afterward + he rubbed me again, saying that if I let him do it long enough he + would produce the same substance from me. This he failed to do, + however, though he rubbed me long and frequently, on that and + many other occasions. I was very disappointed at not being able + to have an emission, and on every occasion that offered I + endeavored to excite myself to the extent of compassing this. I + used to ask to go out of school two or three times a day, and + retired to the closet, where I practised on myself most + diligently, but to no purpose, at that time, though I began to + have pleasurable emotions in the act.</p> + +<p> "When I went home for the holidays I took a great interest in one + of my father's maids, whose legs I felt as she ran upstairs one + day. I was in great fear that she would complain of what I had + done, but I was delighted to find that she did nothing of the + sort; on the contrary, she took to kissing and fondling me, + calling me her sweetheart and saying that I was a forward boy. + This encouraged me greatly, and<a name='3_Page_302'></a> I was not long in getting to + more intimate relations with her. She called me into her room one + day when we were alone in the house, she being in a half-dressed + condition, and put me on the bed and laid herself on me, kissing + me passionately on the mouth. She next unbuttoned my trousers and + fondled and kissed my member, and directed my hand to her + privates. I became very much excited and trembled violently, but + was able to do for her what she wanted in the way of masturbation + until she became wet. After this we had many meetings in which we + embraced and she let me introduce my member until she had + satisfied herself, though I was too young to have an emission.</p> + +<p> "On return to school I practised mutual masturbation with several + of my schoolfellows, and finally, at the age of 14 years, had my + first real emission. I was greatly pleased thereat, and, with + this and the growth of hair which began to show on my pubis, + began to feel myself quite a man. I loved lying in the arms of + another boy, pressing against his body, and fondling his person + and being fondled by him in return. We always finished up with + mutual masturbation. We never indulged in any unnatural + connections.</p> + +<p> "After leaving school I had no opportunity of indulging in + relations with my own sex, and, indeed, did not wish for such, as + I became a slave to the charms of the other sex, and passed most + of my time in either enjoying, or planning to enjoy, love + passages with them.</p> + +<p> "The sight of a woman's limbs or bust, especially if partly + hidden by pretty underclothing, and the more so if seen by + stealth, was sufficient to give a lustful feeling and a violent + erection, accompanied by palpitation of the heart and throbbing + in the head.</p> + +<p> "I had frequent coitus at the age of 17, as well as masturbating + regularly. I liked to perform masturbation on a girl, even more + than I liked having connection with her; and this was especially + so in the case of girls who had never had masturbation practised + on them before; I loved to see the look of surprised pleasure + appear on their faces as they felt the delightful and novel + sensation.</p> + +<p> "To gratify this desire I persuaded dozens of girls to allow me + to take liberties with them, and it would surprise you to learn + what a number of girls, many of them in good social position, + permitted me the liberty I desired, though the supply was never + equal to my demand.</p> + +<p> "With a view to enlarging my opportunities I took up the study of + medicine as a profession, and reveled in the chances it gave of + being on intimate sexual terms with many who would have been, + otherwise, out of my reach.</p> + +<p> "At the age of 25 I married the daughter of an officer, a + beautiful girl with a fully developed figure and an amorous + disposition. While engaged, we used to pass hours wrapped in each + other's arms, practising <a name='3_Page_303'></a>mutual masturbation, or I would kiss + her passionately on the mouth, introducing my tongue into her + mouth at intervals, with the invariable result that I had an + emission and she went off into sighs and shivers. After marriage + we practised all sorts of fancy coitus, <i>coitus reservatus</i>, + etc., and rarely passed twenty-four hours without two + conjunctions, until she got far on in the family way, and our + play had to cease for a while.</p> + +<p> "During this interval I went to stay at the house of an old + schoolfellow, who had been one of my lovers of days gone by. It + happened that on account of the number of guests staying in the + house the bed accommodation was somewhat scanty, and I agreed to + share my friend's bedroom. The sight of his naked body as he + undressed gave rise to lustful feelings in me; and when he had + turned out the light I stole across to his bed and got in beside + him. He made no objection, and we passed the night in mutual + masturbation and embraces, <i>coitus inter femora</i>, etc. I was + surprised to find how much I preferred this state of affairs to + coitus with my wife, and determined to enjoy the occasion to the + full. We passed a fortnight together in the above fashion, and, + though I afterward went back and did my duty by my wife, I never + took the same pleasure in her again, and when she died, five + years later, I felt no inclination to contract another marriage, + but devoted myself heart and soul to my old school-friend, with + whom I continued tender relations until his death by accident + last year. Since then I have lost all interest in life."</p> + +<p> "The patient," writes the well-known alienist to whom I am + indebted for the above history, "consulted me lately. I found him + a fairly healthy man to look at, suffering from some neurasthenia + and a tendency to melancholia. Generative organs large, one + testicle shows some wasting, pubic hair abundant, form of body + distinctly masculine; temperament neurotic. He improved under + treatment, and, after seeing me three times and writing out the + above history, came no more."</p> +<br /> + +<p> <b>HISTORY XII.—</b>Mrs. B., aged 32. Father's family normal; mother's + family clever, eccentric, somewhat neuropathic. She is herself + normal, good-looking, usually healthy, highly intelligent, and + with much practical ability, though at some periods of life, and + especially in childhood, she has shared to some extent in the + high-strung and supersensitive temperament of her mother's + family. As a child she was sometimes spoiled and sometimes + cuffed, and suffered tortures from nervousness. She has, however, + acquired a large measure of self-control.</p> + +<p> The first sensations which she now recognizes as sexual were + experienced at the age of 3, when her mother gave her an + injection; afterward she declared herself unable to relieve her + bowels naturally in <a name='3_Page_304'></a>order to obtain a repetition of this + experience, which was several times repeated. At the age of 7 a + man pursued her with attentions and attempted to take liberties, + but she rejected his advances in terror; four years later another + man attempted to assault her, but she resisted vigorously, struck + him, and escaped by running. Neither of these sexual attempts + appears to have left any serious permanent impression on the + child's mind.</p> + +<p> At the age of 11, when her mother was giving her a bath, the + sensation of her mother's fingers touching her private parts gave + her what she now knows to be sexual feelings, and a year later + when taking her bath she would pour hot water on to the sexual + region in order to cause these sensations; this did not lead to + masturbation, but she had a vague idea that it was "wrong."</p> + +<p> At the age of 12 menstruation began; she suffered very severely + from dysmenorrhea, the period sometimes lasting for ten days, and + the pain being often extreme. She was not treated for this + condition, her mother being of opinion that she would outgrow it. + From the age of 14 or 15 until 23, or about the period of her + marriage, she suffered from anemia.</p> + +<p> She had little curiosity about sexual matters; her mother wished + that she should always come to her for information about things + she became acquainted with as to the general facts of sex; she + did not, however, know definitely the facts of copulation until + her marriage. She knew nothing of erection or semen, and thought + that when a man and woman placed their organs together a child + resulted. She hated talking about these subjects indecently, and + would not listen to the sexual conversation of her schoolfellows. + She never felt any homosexual attraction. Once another girl was + much in love with her, but she despised and disliked her + attentions; again, when a girl much older than herself, a friend + of her mother's, slept with her and made advances, she repelled + her and refused to sleep with her again.</p> + +<p> She always got on well with men, and men were attracted to her. + She was direct and sincere, without undue modesty. But she never + allowed men to touch her or kiss her. She was a good dancer, and + fond of dancing, but denies that it ever led to sexual feelings. + She never felt any sexual attraction for a man until, at the age + of 20, she fell in love with her future husband five years or + more before marriage.</p> + +<p> At this period she began to feel vague discomfort, which she knew + to be localized near her sexual organs. She was aware, in a dim + way, that it was connected with her love, and was of a sexual + nature. But there was no definite idea of sexual intercourse. She + felt nervous and depressed. If she had been asked to state what + would relieve her, she could only have said B.'s presence and + tenderness. A few days before <a name='3_Page_305'></a>he declared his love she + experienced the nearest approach to sexual feeling she had ever + had. It was summer and, with B. and some of her family, she had + gone on a little expedition. One evening, in the train after a + day's excursion, B. took her hand (unperceived by the others) and + held it for some time. This aroused the strongest emotions in + her; she closed her eyes, and, though she was not at the time + aware that her sensations were localized in her sexual organs, + she thinks, in the light of subsequent knowledge, that she then + experienced the orgasm.</p> + +<p> During the engagement, which lasted between two and three years, + circumstances prevented frequent meetings. B. would kiss her, + suck her nipples, which became erect, and lie on her. She allowed + him to take these liberties, feeling that if she refused him all + satisfaction he might have relations with other women. She still + felt no definite desire for contact of the sexual organs. She + longed rather to be embraced and kissed, and to lie in her + lover's arms all night. A few months before marriage, however, + she masturbated occasionally, just before or just after + menstruation, imagining, while doing it, that she was in her + lover's arms. The act was usually followed by a sick feeling. + Just before marriage she underwent an operation for the relief of + the dysmenorrhea. She was somewhat shocked and sickened by the + experiences of the wedding night. It seemed to her that her + husband approached her with the violence of an animal, and there + was some difficulty in effecting entrance. Coitus, though + incomplete, took place some seven times on this first night. The + bleeding from rupture of the hymen continued, so that for two + days she had to wear a towel. For two months subsequently there + was great pain during intercourse, although she suppressed the + indications of this.</p> + +<p> There were several children born of the marriage and for some + years she lived happily, on the whole, with her husband, + notwithstanding various hardships and difficulties and some + incompatibility of temper.</p> + +<p> As regards her sexual feelings she considers, from what other + women have told her, that her feelings are, if anything, stronger + than the average. The orgasm, however, was not fully developed + until about five years after marriage. Sexual feeling is most + pronounced before, during, and after the menstrual period, more + especially before and about the third day (the period usually + lasts from five to seven days). There is more sexual desire + during pregnancy, especially toward the end, than at any other + time. She never refused normal intercourse to her husband, but + any abnormal or perverted method of sexual gratification is + repellent. She was awakened one night about the third month of + pregnancy by her husband inserting his penis <i>in ore</i>; the child + was born with palate defect and she is herself inclined to + believe that this incident was the cause of the defect. Though + she desires normal intercourse, <a name='3_Page_306'></a>she has seldom obtained complete + gratification. For a long time she disliked seeing or touching + the penis, and the feel, and especially the smell, of the semen + produced nausea and even vomiting. (She has a very delicate sense + of smell as well as of taste; though fond of the scent of + flowers, no sexual feelings are thus aroused.) Withdrawal and the + use of condoms are unsatisfactory to her, and mutual masturbation + gives no relief and produces headache. Feelings of friendship for + her husband have been most potent in arousing the sexual + emotions, and she has had most pleasure in intercourse after a + day spent in bicycling together. She has been for many months at + a time without sexual intercourse, and during such periods has + suffered much from pain in the head; this, however, she has now + completely surmounted. She eventually discovered that her + husband's abstinence from marital intercourse was due to + infidelity. This led to a definite separation. She still + occasionally experiences sexual desire, but has no inclination to + masturbate. Her life is full and busy, affording ample scope for + her energies and intelligence; moreover, she has her children to + train and educate. She herself believes that her sexual life is + at an end.</p> +<br /> + +<p> <b>HISTORY XIII.—</b>G. R., army officer. "I am 35 years of age. My + parents married at the ages of 38 and 25, and my father is now 84 + and my mother 71; both are particularly strong and healthy in + body and mind. I am of old lineage on both sides, and know of no + disease, defect, or abnormality among any of my ancestors or + relations, except that my mother's family has a slight tendency + to drink and excess, the present members of it all being + considered eccentric. I have one brother and one sister living + (brother unmarried, sister with several children) and am the + youngest of a family of five. My brother is abnormal, but I don't + know exactly in what way or from what cause. I have a strong + suspicion that he masturbates to excess. My father is artistic + and my mother musical. I have no aptitude for either, but + appreciate both enormously, though not until about ten years ago. + My principal reading is religion, science, and philosophy, with + an occasional standard novel, or a modern novel of the 'improper' + type by way of relaxation. I became a convinced and militant + rationalist about five years ago, but have been an unbeliever + since I left school. I was anemic and threatened with bowel + complaint at the age of 7, and was in consequence taken abroad + for my health. I am now strong and vigorous, with great powers of + endurance, and enjoy all forms of sport and exercise, + particularly hunting, pig-sticking, and polo. I drink a lot, and + am never fitter than when eating, drinking, and taking exercise + in what most people would call excess. It takes more alcohol than + I can hold to make me drunk when in England; but not so in the + East. I have been told that I am very good-looking.</p><a name='3_Page_307'></a> + +<p> "When I was about 4 or 5 I was constantly chaffed by my older + companions about putting my hand down my trousers and playing + with my privates. I don't remember getting an erection, nor at + what age this first occurred with me. At one time my brother and + I used to play about with my sister's underclothing, and took + great pleasure in it, but we never saw her genitals. She told us + that on carefully examining herself one day she was glad to find + that she had a small penis like boys had—doubtless the clitoris. + When in France, at the age of 8 to 10, I began to notice the + sexual parts of animals, and was very keen to know what mares + kept between their hind legs. Later on I took great pleasure with + another boy in feeling the teats of a she-ass, and, by myself, + the penis of a donkey, as I had seen the French grooms do; but I + took no interest in my own penis. I used to put my finger as far + up the anus as it would go, and got a vague satisfaction from it. + I went to a small private school at the age of 11, having been + previously told by my mother of the manner of birth of men and + animals, of which I was quite ignorant till then. She made no + mention of the part taken by the father, and I never thought + about it. Even then I was left with the impression that one was + born through the navel. I was initiated at school, and used to + handle the penis of the boy who told me. On several occasions I + did <i>fellatio</i> for him, and liked it, but he never offered to do + the same for me, and I don't think he got much satisfaction out + of it. Soon after this I became conscious of pleasurable + sensations when lying on my stomach with an erection, and used + occasionally to gratify myself that way, caring little for the + school tradition that it was 'wicked' and bad for one. On one + occasion, when talking at night with another boy, we compared our + organs, both in erection, and I then for the first time thought + of trying what I had heard vaguely mentioned, viz., two boys + playing at man and woman. I lay on him with my penis on his + stomach and almost at once had an orgasm with emission, and + experienced acute pleasure, though both he and I supposed that I + had involuntarily micturated. I was 13 when this happened. I did + it once more with him before I left, this time the other way up, + so as to spare him the unpleasantness. I used to like kissing and + hugging the smaller boys, and had a great eye for good looks. On + going home for the holidays I masturbated with my hand out of + curiosity to see what happened when the orgasm occurred, and then + only did I fully understand the nature of the act. After this the + rush and strangeness of a large public school distracted my + attention, but I heard about wet dreams, masturbation, and + homosexuality from the other boys, and soon became thoroughly + initiated. I believe the tone of my house, if not of the whole + school, was exceptionally bad; though it may only be that I saw + more of it because I was attracted by it, and that other schools + <a name='3_Page_308'></a>are the same really. Things involving certain expulsion if found + out were done more or less in public, and I have myself openly + got into bed with or masturbated other boys, and on more than one + occasion have helped forcibly to masturbate small boys or to hold + them while others had connection with them, the idea of the last + two acts being that the boy would thereby be seduced and become + available for, and willing to perform, homosexuality. Before I + became big enough to have boys myself I masturbated frequently + (on one occasion three times in the day), and invariably by lying + on my stomach without the use of the hands. In having connection + with other boys I used to do it between the thighs or on the + stomach, and I never heard of any other way at that school. + <i>Pædicatio</i> would disgust me, and, moreover, would deprive me of + the principal pleasure of intercourse, viz., the feeling of lying + face to face and stomach to stomach. Of course, the satisfaction + used to be mutual, but, though good-looking, I was never the + passive party only, like some small boys who might be called + professionals and whom I used to pay for their services. I went + back after I had left and had a boy in the dark whom I had never + seen before, having been told that he was all right. I used to + have a very genuine affection for any party to my pleasure, + though I took delight in torturing one in particular, but for + what reason I cannot say. For one boy I developed a deep love, + which lasted long after we had left school and had ceased all + sexual connection. This love was as strong as anything I have + ever felt since.</p> + +<p> "I don't remember whether it was while I was at school or later + that I first began again to take a sexual interest in animals. I + used to masturbate a good deal and was always trying to find new + ways of doing it and new substances to lie on. It was while + feeling the vulva of a young mare that the brilliant thought + struck me of trying to copulate with her, and thus getting the + advantage of the soft vagina. It afforded me great satisfaction + and I had an emission, though I did not then, nor at any other + time with any other animal, succeed in penetrating properly. I + afterward did the same with other mares and with a certain cow + whenever I got a safe opportunity, which was not as often as I + could have wished. I have not had connection with an animal for + about ten years, but would have no objection to doing so, and + feel sure I could perform the act properly now. After I left + school at 17, I occasionally had longings for boys, but it was + the exception and not the rule. I continued to masturbate, but + not to excess, and used to make ineffectual efforts to stop it, + but never succeeded for very long. When I was confirmed, at the + age of 15, I became intensely religious, and was so remorseful at + my first lapse from virtue that I burnt my leg with a red-hot + poker, and I bear the scar still. On leaving school I went to + Germany and there had my first coitus with a woman, a fat old + German <a name='3_Page_309'></a>who gave me very little satisfaction. My next, a Jewess, + gave me more than I asked for, in the shape of a soft chancre. In + my ignorance I never had it treated, but it must have been very + mild, for it disappeared of its own accord. When cramming in + England I occasionally went home with a prostitute, but did not + care much about them and could not afford good ones. On one + occasion I was impotent. It may have been through drink, but it + disgusted me with myself. I liked seeing the women naked, and + always insisted that they should strip, especially the breasts, + which I liked large and full. I had not learned to kiss on the + lips, and had no desire to kiss the body, except the breasts, + which I was generally too shy to do. But as I nearly always wore + a condom and found penetration difficult I did not much enjoy the + actual coitus. I am fully convinced that if women had been more + accessible, if I had not thought myself bound to use preventives + in self-defense, and if the act had not been looked upon with + such disfavor by those in authority over me, I should have + masturbated less or not at all, and would not have been tempted + to bestiality. When I was 22 I had coitus with a girl who was not + a prostitute for the first time. I was violently excited and + enjoyed it more than anything I had yet experienced, in spite of + the facts that she would not undress and insisted on withdrawal + before emission. On one other occasion only have I had coitus + with a non-professional unmarried woman. Shortly after this I + caught syphilis from a girl of the streets. I was circumcised and + stayed in a private hospital for six weeks. It never went beyond + the primary stage, and I have felt no ill effects from it, except + that I have got a hydrocele in the right testicle. Of course, + this incident necessitated the use of a condom on every occasion, + and it greatly spoiled my pleasure. About this time a + brother-officer older than myself made advances to me. He + compared me to a Greek statue, and wanted to kiss me. I would + have nothing to do with him, but was glad to have his confessions + of homosexuality and somewhat surprised to learn that he was not + alone in the regiment. I afterward fell in love with his sister, + and he married and had children. He was bisexual in his + inclinations, but was really in love with me for a short time.</p> + +<p> "I had little to do with professionals until I went to South + Africa, and though I was fond of ladies' society, and liked by + ladies, I looked upon them as something apart, especially married + women, and never attempted to take liberties with them; though I + used to with shopgirls, etc., in my cramming days, and had often + been in love. In South Africa I first began really to enjoy + coitus, and on going to India continued to do so; in fact, I + thought sexually of nothing else and rarely masturbated,—perhaps + once in three weeks. I would go to brothels wherever they were + available, Durban, Cape Town, Colombo,<a name='3_Page_310'></a> Calcutta, Bombay, and at + one time preferred black women to white. I used to have horrible + orgies with my brother-officers, and on one occasion I ordered + six women to my bungalow in order to celebrate my birthday, and + made a present of them to five of my friends after dinner. During + this period, and until I went home, I rarely spoke to a lady, the + chief exception being No. 1, a brother-officer's wife, with whom + I began to be in love.</p> + +<p> "Shortly after the South African War I fell violently in love + with a young brother-officer, 'Z.' It amounted to a passion and I + was forced to make overtures to him. He did not understand, being + ignorant of homosexuality and quite virile, and would have + nothing to do with me, though he was very nice about it. This + lasted for about a year, and then, thinking no doubt that he had + better stop it, as I was really making myself very ridiculous and + was mad with love, he threw me up altogether. I was intensely + miserable for some time, and then I recovered and we made it up, + and are now firm friends. I still want to kiss and stroke him + when I see him naked, but would do nothing more. I went home by + way of Japan after several years' absence from home, taking the + women of the Eastern ports as I went, until I contracted + gonorrhea in the Tokio Yoshiwara. I could not get rid of it, and + arrived home in that state, having been deprived of the pleasure + of trying several new races on the way in consequence. In England + I rushed into a society which I had quit on such different terms, + and it received me with open arms. I very soon began a flirtation + with a married woman, and she completed my education in kissing + which had been begun by the Japanese harlots. I was just coming + to the point with this woman when I met No. 1 again, and my love + for her was at once renewed. I told her so, but I knew that she + did not return it. I then became attracted to No. 2, a girl older + than myself, whom I had known all my life. I kissed her and + fondled her breasts; but she would not allow anything else, until + one night, when in the train with her, I got my hand down farther + than she intended. It ended in my performing <i>cunnilingus</i> on her + first, and then obtaining satisfaction between her thighs—a + large step to take after the former limitations. Previous to this + I had on several occasions obtained an emission, without meaning + to, by lying on her fully dressed. She was aware of my disease, + which by that time had become a gleet and did not inconvenience + me in any way. From that time until I went back to India we went + through the same performance whenever possible, I masturbating + her sometimes with the finger, sometimes with the tongue, and + having connection with various parts of her body, including the + breasts, but always with a condom on account of my disease. She + used to strip for my edification, and we frequently spent the + night in the same bed. I was attracted to <a name='3_Page_311'></a>her mentally, but not + very much physically; that is to say, that if circumstances had + not thrown us together I should never have picked her out from + other girls as being sexually attractive to me. I returned to + India, and to No. 1, though I kept faithful to No. 2 in word and + deed for five months, but gradually the overmastering influence + of No. 1 reasserted itself over me. And then I met No. 3. We were + attracted to each other at first acquaintance, and the attraction + was mental and sexual. She was married and in love with another + man, but that did not prevent her from kissing me. I felt her + breasts, masturbated her, and had emissions by lying on her, but + she drew the line at one thing, viz., kissing on the lips; and I + drew it at coitus. We arranged a trip together during which I + went to bed with her, but never had coitus, though we both had + frequent orgasms in other ways. Before starting on this trip I + had thought that I should not see No. 1 again, and she let me + kiss her, to my unspeakable joy. Circumstances, however, + intervened, and I went straight to No. 1 after parting with No. + 3, told her all I had done, and then kissed her again, leaving + her just before her real lover, with whom she was then living, + arrived. Later I returned again to No. 1, now in child to her + lover. We lived together for three nights in spite of this. She + then went home, and I had no connection with any woman for two + years, except one black woman, being consumed with love and + worship for No. 1. I was much in society, but never had any luck. + At the end of this time I was traveling one night with a young + officer ('X'), slight and effeminate and preferring men to women, + with whom I had been until then on friendly but not intimate + terms. I watched him undress and go to bed, and then, having + myself undressed, went over to his bunk and put my hand under his + clothes. He at once responded, and I got into his bed, both of us + being in a frenzy of passion and surprise. But I was fairly sure + of my ground or I would not have dared to take the risk. I used + often to go to his bed after this, and on one occasion had coitus + with a girl on a chair at a ball and the next night with my young + officer. I scarcely knew the girl, and don't know her name now, + but I took her measure, made her excited by manipulation and + kissing, and then got her consent. I did not harm her, even if I + had been the first, for orgasm occurred before I had penetrated + beyond the lips. X surprised me by telling me that he had had + connection with three other officers in my regiment, as well as + with several others in the same station. He would not tell me + their names, but I guessed easily enough. He used to drink + heavily, and once I got into his bed when he was in a drunken + stupor and he was quite unaware that I was there for some time. I + myself was drinking too much at this time, and was frequently + drunk before dinner. In the hot weather that followed I had one + orgy in Bombay which lasted three nights. I started <a name='3_Page_312'></a>on a Greek + and a Pole and finished up with a Japanese, two brother-officers + accompanying me. Afterward I was much alone during the day in my + bungalow, and used to become possessed by intense desire. I + masturbated occasionally, but by this time took but little + pleasure in it, always craving for the moist human vagina. I had + often heard, and myself quoted, the Pathan proverb 'Women for + breeding; boys for pleasure; melons for delight,' and one day + when seeking for some novelty with which to masturbate, and my + eye being caught by a melon put ready for me to eat, it flashed + across me to try whether the proverb was in any way true. I found + it most satisfactory, and practised it several times after that, + the pepita (papaye or pawpaw) being the nearest approach to the + human vagina. The opportune arrival of a fairly good-looking + punkah woman, however, put an end to this form of enjoyment by + providing me with what I wanted. Soon afterward I went home + again, taking the Japanese at Bombay on my way.</p> + +<p> "I had kept up a correspondence with No. 1 all this time, but we + had made a compact that whatever each did until we met again was + not to count, and I knew that she had had at least one liaison + since our parting, and was in entire ignorance of the state of + her feelings toward me. Therefore, while trying to arrange a + meeting with her, I took the first thing that chance threw in my + way, thinking a bird in the hand better than the off chance of a + better one in the bush. This was No. 4, with whom I spent three + days at the seaside after having first had coitus with her in my + own home while she was in the monthly state. Immediately on + parting from her I came home to receive No. 1. The first time we + were alone she kissed me, and this was followed by mutual + confessions and coitus, though at first she said my affair was + too recent. I agreed not to have connection again with No. 4, and + kept to this until when staying in the same house again with her + I was tempted beyond my powers; and I may add that she gave me no + assistance in keeping this promise, of which she was fully + cognizant. I at once wrote and confessed to No. 1, and she very + naturally would have nothing more to do with me. But I managed to + reconcile her, and we afterward lived together for three days in + the country, as well as in London and in her own house. Meanwhile + No. 5 had been making advances to me which I could not well + refuse, being a very old friend. Nos. 4 and 5 were on one + occasion staying together at my house, just after I had been + faithless to No. 1 with No. 4. I could not very well sleep with + them both, so at the earnest entreaty of No. 4 I went to her room + first, told her my reasons for not having connection with her, + left her in tears, and then went and slept with No. 5. This is + the only transaction I have ever concealed from No. 1; but No. 5 + knows my whole story and accepts the situation of being only + second so long as I give her satisfaction whenever <a name='3_Page_313'></a>possible. + About this time I again met No. 3 and kissed and masturbated her + in a cab, but she would not allow me to go home with her. At the + bidding of No. 1 I now broke entirely with No. 4, to the great + grief and astonishment of my sister, whose friend she was. + Shortly after this I again returned to India, where I quarreled + hopelessly with No. 1, and I don't know to this day what my fault + was, except that she had got tired of me. Her influence over me + is, however, too great to be so easily broken, and I would return + to her tomorrow if she moved a finger in reconciliation. During + the following hot weather I slowly but surely, albeit quite + unconsciously, obtained an influence over No. 6, and it ended by + her falling desperately in love with me and allowing me to do + what I liked. I did not love her, and told her about No. 1, whose + image always remained in the back of my vision, whatever I was + doing. She also accepted the situation, and I don't think has any + grievance against me. For my part I have nothing but thanks and + gratitude and as much love as I am capable of to give her, and + all the other women with whom I have had any sexual relations. + The following is a short account of the above women:—</p> + +<p> "No. 1. Had coitus before marriage, for love and with full + knowledge of the nature of the act. Agreement with her husband + not to have coitus rigidly adhered to by both. Has had connection + with five other men since marriage. Very passionate, but faddy + and particular. Slow at producing orgasm. Likes being in bed + naked, and liked me once for having kissed her mons veneris. + Thin, with undeveloped breasts. Brilliant, good-looking. Artistic + and highly intellectual. Never masturbated, and did not know of + homosexuality among women; very sensitive to touch on the + pudenda.</p> + +<p> "No. 2. Has had sexual relations, but never coitus, with many + men. Mutually masturbated with one man. Masturbated herself + frequently, and took a long time to produce orgasm, even with + <i>cunnilingus</i>, which delighted her immensely. After having it + performed, she would stoop down and passionately kiss my lips. + Fond of prolonged kisses, during which the tongue played a + prominent part. Tall and fully developed, but no looks. Clever, + masculine brain, and strong physically. Skillfully concealed her + passionate nature, which, however, was long in developing and was + long kept in check by maidenly modesty.</p> + +<p> "No. 3. Innocent before marriage, and hated her <i>fiancé</i> even to + touch her, which feeling still persists. Has had liaisons with + many men, and several miscarriages, one legitimate, others + illegitimate, and one illegitimate child. Does not masturbate + herself, but readily yields to its seduction when performed by + others. The most passionate woman I have ever met. Good, typical, + womanly figure, but thin and weak. Not much looks, but very + fascinating to men. Clever and intellectual.</p><a name='3_Page_314'></a> + +<p> "No. 4. Coitus only with her husband before myself. Not very + passionate. I know nothing about masturbation or homosexuality in + her case. Very broad hips, large breasts, and well-developed + nates. Deserted by her husband. No children. Rather foolish and + weak-minded. Penetration difficult owing to long labia majora.</p> + +<p> "No. 5. Knows all about homosexuality of both sexes and wants to + know more about everything. Probably masturbates. Several + children. In love with her husband at first, but now tired of him + and took to other men for variety and because her husband had + ceased to give her sexual pleasure. Very passionate; has slow + orgasm; likes nakedness and contact of body. Very large vagina. + Broad hips and full breasts. Intellectual, but not so by nature. + Artistic and very musical.</p> + +<p> "No. 6. Absolutely innocent before marriage. Was practically + raped by her husband on her marriage night. This disgusted her + with the whole performance, and she could not bear her husband's + caresses. During pregnancy she was frightened because she did not + know what was going to happen, <i>i.e.</i>, how the child was going to + be born; and no one enlightened her,—doctor, nurse, or mother. + Did not know the meaning of the words sexual feeling, and never + thought about sexual matters at all until marriage. I roused her + passion, put things in their true light, made her have an orgasm, + and told her what it meant. The orgasms at first made her cry and + nearly faint, and she thereafter became intensely passionate. + Very excited at cunnilingus, which I practised on her more than + once. She confessed that the orgasm was stronger and more + complete during coitus than during masturbation, which relieved + my mind. She volunteered to strip naked and has but little + shyness with me. Cannot bear her husband yet. She admits that she + was only half a woman before she knew me, but now regrets her + marriage. Short, thin, and slight, with narrow hips and no + breasts. Quick woman's wit, but not intellectual.</p> + +<p> "Of the prostitutes I have known, perhaps 60 in number, the + Japanese easily take the palm. They are scrupulously clean, have + charming manners and beautiful bodies, and take an intelligent + interest in the proceedings. Also they are not always thinking + about the money. Perhaps the Kashmiris come next, though the + Chinese run them very close. Some of the more expensive London + women are bearable, but they are such harlots! The white women in + the East are insupportable, and small wonder, for they consist of + the dregs of the European and American markets. My list comprises + English, French, German, Italian, Spanish-American, American, + Bengali, Punjabi, Kashmiri, Kaffir, Singhalese, Tamil, Burmese, + Malay, Japanese, Chinese, Greek, and Pole.</p> + +<p> "I naturally prefer to satisfy myself with a woman, a friend and + a lady of my own class; but in the absence of the best I gladly + take the <a name='3_Page_315'></a>next best available, down the scale from a lady for + whom I do not care to prostitutes of all classes and colors, men, + boys, animals, melons, and masturbation. I would as cheerfully + have connection with my sister, or any other female relative. I + have frequent erotic dreams about the most extraordinary + subjects—male and female relations, casual acquaintances of both + sexes, and animals. When I have got an intrigue in hand with a + woman, I have no wish to masturbate, and often restrain myself + when I know that I am going to have access before long to + prostitutes. After coitus it takes a long time before I am ready + for the next, sometimes two hours; and the first is always very + quick, nearly always too quick for the woman. With a strange + woman I have difficulty in maintaining erection at the instant of + penetration, and this has often given me trouble.</p> + +<p> "I know that most women like, and few dislike, being touched by + me. My favorite colors are green and red, and I can whistle quite + well.</p> + +<p> "I would be very glad to know whether I may be considered + sexually normal or not, but I do not desire any opinion on the + morality of my acts, for the simple reason that without knowing + all the circumstances it would be impossible to judge. But I + cannot help saying that I do not consider anything I have done is + wrong in itself, and I am quite certain that I have never harmed + in any way any of the ladies with whom I have had relations. I am + certain, if I had made promises which I knew I could not keep, I + might have married one of them. But the result would have been + great unhappiness to both, quarrels, and ultimate separation or + divorce—and she realized that as well as I did. I may seem + egotistical in my attitude and assurance toward ladies, but I + only speak the honest truth; and I know that No. 6, for instance, + has only gratitude and worship to give me for having opened her + eyes. I have made her promise to have intercourse with her + husband as soon as she can bear it, and I have satisfied myself + that I have not started her on the road to sexual perversion. So + much in self-explanation. I may add that I do not deliberately + seek 'affaires de cœur,' and that, when they come my + way, I do my utmost to use all consideration for the lady, + thinking, as I do, that I owe them a far bigger debt than I shall + ever be able to pay."</p> +<br /> + +<p> <b>HISTORY XIV.—</b>J. E., professional man, aged 32. Public school and + university education, in which he did well. From age of 6 or 7 + had strong sexual emotions, and from 9 sexually pleasurable + dreams, though no emission till 12 or 13. He remembers the + association of sexual excitement with whipping, either at sight + or imagination of it, and this feeling was certainly shared by + boys aged 9 to 12 at his private boarding-school and others at + the public school later on. His nurse-maid used to invent excuses + for beating his nates with a long lead-pencil when he was <a name='3_Page_316'></a>aged + about 7, and he saw occasional whippings with clothes removed in + the family nursery.</p> + +<p> When nearly 16 he was initiated into masturbation, which at once + coincided with rapid mental development and success at school. He + has practised it ever since under same conditions and + restrictions as marital intercourse. Religion has never acted as + any restraint, and the best restraint to all young people, in his + opinion, is to warn them on hygienic grounds. (He became a + freethinker at 17, partly on observing the inconsistency of + religious persons in this connection. He was twice set upon by + Catholics when 16, who attempted mutual masturbation.) He can + vaguely remember some such warning when very young from his + mother.</p> + +<p> No intercourse with women till age of 19, though strong + homosexual feelings from 10 upward, associated with feminine + youths. These feelings were quite distinct from feelings of + affection and friendship for more virile youths. An attack of + gonorrhea at 21 was followed by an operation for circumcision, + which had beneficial effects, but did not prevent an attack of + syphilis at age of 23, caught at a guaranteed state establishment + in France. Intercourse almost always with prostitutes, on + prudential and worldly grounds, though what he approves would be + greater laxity between boys and girls, with proper safeguards + against undesired offspring. He is now happily married. He only + indulges in masturbation at times when intercourse is impossible + (<i>e.g.</i>, childbirth). It is then practised once or twice a week + in the early morning; overnight it causes troubled sleep, brain + activity, and constipation. This seems ethically more desirable + unless the wife were to condone physical infidelity, which she + would not, and even then there might be risks of venereal + disease. His general health and working power are in all respects + excellent, as the venereal diseases were speedily and thoroughly + cured. Homosexual feeling has entirely disappeared since + marriage.</p> +<br /> +<p> <b>HISTORY XV.—</b>G. D., English; aged 60. "My earliest essays in + juvenile vice were due not so much to unguarded as to unguided + ignorance. I slipped where my natural protectors suspected no + danger, and I fell because I had never been warned of the + treacherous nature of the ground. Before or soon after I was 7 + years old, the example of an elder brother, who had lately begun + to go to school as a day-boy, initiated me into the mysteries of + masturbation, which seemed to me then as harmless as it was + fascinating; and the novel pleasure was almost daily indulged in, + after I had acquired sufficient dexterity to accomplish the act + within a reasonable time, without a twinge of conscience, either + in that brother's company or when alone. Decency demanded secrecy + in the gratification of what soon became an imperious <a name='3_Page_317'></a>desire, + and the preliminary operations included, almost from the first, + mutual <i>fellatio</i> and approximation of the excited organs; but + similar privacy was very properly sought during the performance + of other bodily acts associated with those 'less honorable + members,' and it appeared to me quite as natural and right for us + to amuse ourselves together in that way as for a married couple + to hide their most intimate embraces from the observation of + others. Indeed, I went farther than that, and even came to regard + the absence of all shame between us as akin to the primeval + innocence which Adam and Eve exhibited before the Fall. I + believed for long that we two were specially privileged and + possessed a peculiar sense denied to other boys, for I had never + heard of masturbation till I learnt, not the word indeed, but the + thing itself.</p> + +<p> "My curiosity about the real nature of sexual union in the case + of human beings set my intelligence to work at the interesting + problem, and by carefully studying certain parts of the Bible, + Lemprière's classical and other dictionaries, as well as by + persistently watching when I could the amorous proceedings of + domestic animals, I learnt enough to make its most prominent + features pretty clear before I was 11 years of age. I was then + all eagerness to have the opportunity of inspecting at close + quarters the genitals of women or young girls, and a stay at the + seaside when I was 12 made the latter at least feasible. When the + shore was nearly deserted, between 1 and 2 P.M., the daughters of + the fisherfolk used to besiege the bathing machines and disport + themselves in the water, bathing and paddling in various stages + of nudity. I would pretend that my whole attention was being + given to the making of miniature tunnels in the sand, while all + the time I slyly peeped at what I most desired to see, whether in + front or from behind, as the dancing damsels stood upright or + stooped till their haunches were higher than their heads. I had + already read something somewhere about the <i>clitoris</i>, and wanted + especially to see it, but indistinct glimpses were all that I + could obtain; nor was it until I visited an anatomical museum, + which then existed at the top of the Haymarket in London, that I + learned, a good many years later, from several life-sized models + there displayed, the characteristic features of that part, as + well as the abnormal modifications to which it is subject, either + congenitally or in consequence of profligate habits. I was 15, I + think, when I first came to know that girls can masturbate as + well as boys.</p> + +<p> "Long after I had realized why the terms male and female are so + distinguished, my imagination was occupied with the possible + postures in which the act of copulation may be accomplished by a + man and woman; from Horace, Lucretius, Martial, Aristophanes, + and, above all, from Ovid's <i>Ars Amatoria</i> I obtained much, but + not always very clear, information while still a schoolboy. This + was supplemented later by <a name='3_Page_318'></a>photographic pictures from Pompeiian + brothels and photographs from life, purchased at Florence and + gloated over one night, with twice-repeated masturbation, and + afterward destroyed in a revulsion of shame.</p> + +<p> "But while continuing to practise self-abuse (with a certain + degree of restraint indeed, but seldom less often than once or + even twice a week), after I had been made fully aware of its + perils by Dr. Adam Clarke's alarming comments on Genesis xxxviii, + 9, when I was about 12 or 13, I never had connection with a woman + until I married somewhat late in life. This abstinence was not + due to any frigidity of disposition, but from prudential and + religious motives, and, to some extent perhaps, from the + imperfect but genuine satisfaction afforded by solitary + indulgence. My imagination, like that of young J. J. Rousseau, as + set forth in his <i>Confessions</i>, was allowed free scope for its + exercise, but in practice I confined myself to what seemed to me + comparatively innocent as compared with fornication. I was never + an unreserved 'exhibitionist' like Rousseau, but I have on more + than one occasion turned toward a hedge and pretended to make + water, when a girl had just passed me on the road, showing a + <i>turgens cauda</i> if she should chance out of curiosity to look + back, as once, at any rate, happened.</p> + +<p> "I watched with interest the first indications of puberty in my + own person. I had, of course, seen the pubic hair on many of my + own sex, but I was 17 when I first saw a naked woman. She was + standing at the door of her machine, wringing out her + bathing-dress, as I swam past, and her face was hidden by the + awning then used, so that she could not see me. A slight effusion + of limpid mucus began to characterize the orgasm, at the age of + 12 or 13 (before any ejaculation of semen was experienced), such + as exuded later from the <i>urethra</i> when salacious excitement + reached a certain pitch, even though the final climax might be + postponed or prevented altogether. I found it a refinement of + luxury to prolong the period of tumescence as far as possible, by + frequently checking a too rapid progress toward the goal. By this + practice of repeated arrest when the orgasm was imminent, and the + mental debauchery which was its habitual accompaniment, I believe + I did my nervous system more damage than by anything else—even + the early age at which the dangerous indulgence became + established. Nocturnal emissions (the sequel of lascivious + dreams) commenced when I was about 15, at which age I had my + first experience of an involuntary discharge when awake, under + the influence of purely mental emotion; but this latter mode of + escape did not often happen, and later on ceased altogether. My + muscular strength was not impaired by too frequent indulgence, + and I acquired some athletic prowess on the football field and on + the running path, both as a boy and as a young man. Walking tours + were for long my favorite recreation, even after the bicycle + became <a name='3_Page_319'></a>an increasing attraction. My health, however, suffered in + other ways from too constant absorption in lustful thoughts, + which found vent in erotic verses and tales, generally destroyed + soon after they were written. I have been subject since I was a + boy to more or less prolonged fits of mental depression. How far + I have inherited this tendency (my father and his father both + married first cousins, and a neurotic diathesis has been + characteristic of our family), or how far it has been aggravated + by pernicious habits, I cannot say; cause and effect have no + doubt acted and reacted on each other.</p> + +<p> "As I grew toward adolescence I endeavored to make self-abuse as + close an imitation as possible of sexual intercourse by such + methods as may be easily imagined. My biological studies (I won a + scholarship and took honors at my university) were directed with + most intent predilection toward the reproductive system, + particularly the modifications of the copulatory organs in + different animals and the diverse manner of their employment. The + sexual instinct, whether in its normal or abnormal + manifestations, is a subject which has always had a strong + attraction for me, nor has it lost its fascination with the + growth of years (I am now 60) nor the competition of other + interests.</p> + +<p> "My very limited experience of the sexual system in women would + lead me to believe that the <i>clitoris</i> is the only peculiarly + sensitive part of the female <i>genitalia</i>, coition giving no + pleasure unless 'the trigger of love' is simultaneously + manipulated, as can be done when intromission is effected <i>a + tergo</i>; that the mind of a normally healthy maiden is altogether + free from sexual excitement of a physical kind, and that little + curiosity is felt about the precise <i>modus operandi</i> of conjugal + intercourse; but, nevertheless, I have good reason to believe + that this, if not an unusual type, is by no means the only one + that exists.</p> + +<p> "As to sexual inversion my personal experience has been confined + to two or three <i>grandes passions</i> for boys, the first of which + possessed me when between the ages of 16 and 18, and involved, + when I was 17, the most intense mental emotion, of a romantic + kind, tinged with poignant jealousy and vexation at comparative + coldness toward myself. These love passages never led me into + indelicate behavior (I was once threatened with such treatment + myself by a stranger whose acquaintance I made one day at the + British Museum, when a lad of 15. He took me to his bedroom at an + inn, locked the door, and showed me a collection of coins, giving + me some, and, while doing so, attempted to take indecent + liberties; but I pretended that I must catch a certain train, + unlocked the door, and made a hasty escape), nor was any + gratification sought beyond occasional kisses and other innocent + endearments, though such caresses would sometimes excite an + erection, which I carefully concealed. These amours were, + however, no outcome of perverted instinct, <a name='3_Page_320'></a>nor were they any bar + to fancies for the opposite sex which affected my imagination + rather than my heart."</p> +<br /> + +<p> <b>HISTORY XVI.—</b>This history is given in the subject's own words: + A. N., 34 years of age, a university graduate, devoted to learning + and interested in philosophy and theology. He is happily married + and the father of an only daughter. Since puberty he has enjoyed + excellent health.</p> + +<p> "Looking back he finds the beginnings of sexual feeling obscure. + This feeling is by no means identical in its progress with the + knowledge of the phenomena of sex generally. The latter he + acquired thus: His mother told him at a very early age the + outlines of the phenomena of birth and explained to him (perhaps + at that time unnecessarily) that the genital organs of little + girls were different from his own. This piece of knowledge led to + his asking, when 9 years old, a little girl cousin who came to + live with the family (he was an only child) and who shared his + bed to let him see her genitalia. This she readily did and also + invited him to coitus, which she described as a 'nice game.' He + complied, but without, of course, any feeling of pleasure or any + understanding of the nature of what he was doing. Shortly after + this he went to a day school, where, amid the extraordinarily + coarse conversation of the boys, he was initiated into all the + more obvious phenomena of sex. But still it was only a matter of + intellectual curiosity. As such it had a strange fascination for + him, and to this day he remembers many of the obscene words and + phrases, as, for example, a set of indecent verses beginning + 'William, the milkman, sat under a tree,' describing coitus, + though some of the details were yet misunderstood by him. That up + to his tenth or eleventh year no real sexual desire was awakened + is plain from the fact that there was no desire for any + repetition of attempts at coitus with his cousin, though he did + indeed, again out of curiosity, finger her genitals sometimes, a + thing which she, grown evidently more fastidious, reported to his + mother, who gravely reprimanded him, telling him that it was the + 'beginning of all evil.'</p> + +<p> "Desire was awakened gradually and, as I have said, obscurely. + Not only at school, but among his own cousins, especially two + girls (other than the one above mentioned) and a boy, the + conversation was lascivious in the extreme, though words never + proceeded to deeds as between the boys and the girls. He was + soon, however, about his fifteenth year, so far as he can + remember, initiated into the practice of masturbation, first, + sleeping with his boy cousin, the two used to play at 'husband + and wife,' and then, more directly, a neighbor, a heavy, sensual + type of boy, took him aside one day and drawing out his own penis + asked him 'if he knew how to make some buttermilk.' Out of + curiosity at first, and to obtain the new and voluptuous + sensation afterward, <a name='3_Page_321'></a>he began assiduously to practise this vice, + which, as he afterward found out, was very common, if not + universal about him. That it was morally reprehensible he had not + at that time the ghost of a notion; he considered that it + belonged to the category of the 'dirty' only. His father quite + neglected this development, believing, I suppose, in the + superstition of the 'innocence of childhood.'</p> + +<p> "This practice of masturbation went on assiduously to his + sixteenth year, when its true nature and danger were revealed to + him by a good clergyman who prepared him for confirmation. He had + at this time gone far, in both solitary vice and vice 'à deux,' + with his male cousin, with whom he practised even 'fellatio' and + 'intromissio in anum.' But now he began to struggle against it + and made some headway, but never entirely shook it off before his + marriage at 26, so deeply rooted was the hold it had on him. + Especially at the time between sleeping and waking, or while + lying sleepless at night—when the monks prayed 'ne polluantur + corpora'—did its attacks come insidiously upon him. He would + struggle for weeks and then would come a relapse. On one occasion + he slept with a young uncle who amused himself, thinking he was + asleep, by playing with his penis until he had an emission. A. N. + hailed the occasion with keen joy—he caustically argued that he + experienced the pleasure without being culpable in its + production! Then on 'coming to himself' he would agonize over his + vice, remembering, for example, that, while <i>he</i> had rejoiced in + what had been done, the very cousin who some time before used to + share his sin was genuinely annoyed at the same uncle's + attentions when it was he who suffered them.</p> + +<p> "Looking back over the whole period of his youth and adolescence, + he can trace the psychological effect of what was going on + secretly, in his relations to girls and women. In a word, these + relations were sentimental only. He often imagined himself in + love; but it was imagination only. He was in love with a wraith, + not a girl of flesh and blood. He hesitated to regard in any + sexual way any girl of whom he had a high opinion; sexual desire + and 'love' seemed for him to inhabit different worlds and that it + would be a pollution to bring them together. In hours of + relaxation from the very hard intellectual work which he was at + this time engaged on at school and at the university, he was + quite content with the society of quite young girls or even + children when most of his friends would have sought out females + of their own age. Nothing could have been farther from his + desires or intention than any lascivious or, indeed, unseemly act + toward any female in whose company he might be: no mother need + have hesitated to trust her daughter in his company. I firmly + believe that the discipline of the same bed which Gibbon + (<i>Decline and Fall</i>, ed. Bury, vol. ii, p. 37) makes so merry + over could <a name='3_Page_322'></a>have been endured by him without difficulty. His + outward conduct was in all these respects most seemly and + decorous, yet night after night he could masturbate, his + imagination glowing with visions of female nakedness.</p> + +<p> "Curiously the one and only actual female for whom he felt any + desire at the earlier period (aged 14 to 16) began to be the + cousin who lived in the house. On one occasion he touched her + breasts, on another her naked thighs—and that was all! As she + grew to puberty, she would have allowed far more liberties, but + he contented himself with a sly glance now and again, when he + could procure it, at her swelling bosom. The fear of putting her + with child was ample to keep him away from her bed. Later on even + so much as the foregoing occurred no more, and, as I have said, + his outward life became absolutely decorous.</p> + +<p> "Consequently he was in no danger of having dealings with + prostitutes. The preliminaries, the conversation of such women, + especially their drinking habits, would have been disgusting and + repugnant to him in the extreme. He would have shunned the + possibility of acquiring venereal disease like the plague. But he + was never free from solitary vice; he secretly envied those who + had occasions for coitus in what I may call a seemly and cleanly + manner, friends in the country with farm girls, etc., of whom he + had heard. He indulged also in lascivious reading, the obscene + when he could procure it, rather than the merely suggestive, + which has never been to his taste. He was familiar with quite a + large number of Latin and Greek indecent passages, knew the + broader farces of the <i>Canterbury Tales</i> and of the <i>Decameron</i>, + and, later, the 'contes' of La Fontaine and the <i>Facetiæ</i> of + Poggio. As Ste.-Beuve says of Gibbon, I think, he acquired an + 'erudite and cold' sort of obscenity in this way.</p> + +<p> "All this, of course, is only one half, and by no means always + the dominant half, of his nature. He was often repentant for + these delinquencies, and he was sincerely religious. He was also + fond of serious learning and contrived to take a first-class + university degree. Yet, ever and anon, the deeply sensual side of + his nature made itself felt. Scotched for a time it could be, but + killed never.</p> + +<p> "Yet, I do not think it could be said that he had the sexual + instinct in any really high degree. It was more like a small fly + that makes a large buzz than any considerable factor in his + constitution. He had a companion about this time of whom such a + remark is even more true. This man's mind was replete with all + manner of risky stories, all sorts of sexual details. He would + take long walks with girls of loose character, talk with + prostitutes at home and abroad, and yet, I believe, he never + proceeded to coitus.</p><a name='3_Page_323'></a> + +<p> "Such then, was the subject of this notice up to the time of his + marriage. Two men, one might say, in one skin. One learned, one + merely obscene; one a pattern of decorousness, the other a + self-polluter.</p> + +<p> "On the sexual side he was as one knowing everything there is to + know—yet knowing nothing. Like the boy-hero in Wedekind's + <i>Frühling's Erwachen</i>, he had been long in Egypt, yet he had + never seen the pyramids. He began to distress himself with + questions as to whether he was yet capable; whether his recurring + vice had not permanently injured him; whether he had made himself + unfit for marriage. So shy and reserved was he about his secret + that he could never have brought himself to mention it to a + medical man. 'What! he! the good, the religious! the wholly moral + and decorous!' (such was, indeed, the reputation he had among his + friends); 'he, the victim of a vice so black!' No, no! '<i>Secretum + meum mihi</i>,' he cried.</p> + +<p> "Fortune, however, was kind to him. He was at an early age free + from financial worries, which had almost crushed him earlier in + his career, and he met in course of time the family from which he + selected his excellent wife.</p> + +<p> "The society in which he lived was of all English classes, I + should suppose, the most reticent in matters of sex—the + respectable, lower middle class; shopkeepers and the like, with a + tradition of homely religion and virtue. The classes a little + higher in the scale (to which, by the way, his mother had + belonged) could far better sympathize with one in his position. + Well, the family of his future wife was of a higher class and, + what is far more, of foreign origin, for whom a large number of + our English 'convenances' do not exist. To them sex was frankly + recognized as a factor in life, and the mother of this household, + as he grew more intimate, broached subjects which he had never, + in such a manner, discussed before. It is unnecessary to give + here any general history of his relationships with this + household, as they have nothing to do with the matter in hand. + After some time he became engaged to the youngest daughter, two + years his senior, a woman of remarkable beauty and splendid + development, one who attracted him as none other had done, both + on account of her intellectual and social qualities and her + physical beauty (he had hitherto despaired of finding the two + combined in one person), for she is certainly the most beautiful + woman with whom he has ever been acquainted.</p> + +<p> "He now began to make the practical acquaintance of a woman—and + one who, in impulses, temper, manner, and habit of thought, + differed <i>toto cælo</i> from the girls he had known in his old home. + Her sexual nature was ripe and developed, and it is lucky that + the engagement was of short duration, or the strain and + anticipation of that time might have been injurious to the health + of both. As usual, in his outward relations <a name='3_Page_324'></a>toward women, so + toward his <i>fiancée</i>, he was prepared for chaste caresses only. + This, however, did not suffice for her hot and passionate nature. + They went as far as possible short of actual coitus.</p> + +<p> "After a few months, however, the marriage took place, and, at + first, this brought him bitter disappointment and seemed to + confirm his worst fears. He found himself quite unable to have + pleasure or satisfactory coitus; quite incapable, with any + erection that he could command, of introducing his well-developed + penis into his wife's extremely narrow and contracted vagina. + About a fortnight after the marriage, however, on his return from + their short wedding tour, he felt much stronger and copulated + with her, especially in the early mornings, so satisfactorily + that she soon found herself with child. Coitus now began to be + much more pleasurable for him, but to his wife still attended + with pain.</p> + +<p> "After nine months of married life, the child, the only offspring + of the marriage, a healthy girl, was born. The stress of this + time, the upsetting of his wife's health, her nervous breakdown + and consequently uncertain temper, seemed for a period of nearly + two years effectually to repress any sexual desire in the + husband, and this period is perhaps the chastest of his life. + Desire seemed to be the one thing absent. The revulsion of + feeling in his wife was remarkable. The erstwhile amorous + <i>fiancée</i>, who could hardly wait until marriage to test her + lover, became now the wife and mother who hardly wished to be + touched by her husband.</p> + +<p> "Her health, however, gradually improved and a more normal state + of affairs was brought about, which has continued to the present + day, broken only by periods of abstention, chiefly caused by the + attacks of anemia and menstrual irregularities from which his + wife suffers from time to time. Ordinarily, he enjoys coitus once + or twice in the month, hardly oftener, taking one month with + another. At one time he exemplified in his own person the saying + <i>omne animal post coitum triste</i>, but now happily this depression + of spirits is rarely felt. Sometimes he has felt a depression of + spirits, a general discontentedness, before experiencing a strong + erection; in these cases coitus has cleared his spirits. He would + naturally look upon coitus as an evacuation, although he + recognizes the imperfectness of that view. For one thing he is + constantly sorry, viz., that the act gives no pleasure to his + wife, and that he has never been able to induce a crisis with her + by normal means. In this state of affairs, knowing that 'après + coup' she was still unsatisfied, he slipped into the practice of + rubbing the clitoris with his fingers until the emission takes + place. To do this, they assume the position 'ille sub, illa + super.' From his own limited marital experience, he has never + been able to understand the stories of women who masturbate + several <a name='3_Page_325'></a>times a day, as his wife would be physically incapable + (so he believes) of anything of the kind, and only easily reaches + the crisis in any circumstances during the first few days after + the menstrual flow has ceased. In fine, while agreeing + theoretically with Sir Richard Burton and others that the eastern + style of coitus (directed with a view to the pleasure of your + partner) is the right one, it is one of his standing regrets that + he is unable to practise it. In the place of the twenty minutes + required by the women of India (according to Burton) he is happy + if he can give two or three at the most, much as he would wish to + prolong a pleasure as keen to himself as he could desire it to be + to his dear and excellent spouse."</p> +<br /> +<p> <b>HISTORY XVII.—</b>R. L., American; aged 43; height, 5 ft. 7 in.; + weight, about 145 lbs.; occupation, teacher; somewhat neurotic; a + slight myopia associated with acute astigmatism and muscular + weakness of the eyes, producing a tendency to migraine. Uric acid + diathesis, producing occasionally severe neuralgia, particularly + in the intestines. These symptoms have been more or less constant + since very early childhood. General health very good. Not + inclined to indulge in athletic sports, but prefers sedentary + occupations and recreations.</p> + +<p> "My early ideas of sexual things are not very clear in + recollection. I think that when 7 or 8 years of age I had a + knowledge of the common or vulgar terms for intercourse and for + the genital organs. Boys of my own age and slightly older would + discuss sex relations, and I had a general knowledge that, in + some way connected with the sexual act, 'babies were made.' We + would tell, occasionally, lewd stories, and a few times attempted + sexual practices with one another. Not till after puberty did I + ever attempt masturbation. I must have been 9 or 10 years old + before I learned that there was a difference in the sex organs of + boys and girls. Up to this time I had supposed that intercourse + was <i>per anum.</i> I attended a public school with both sexes. Talk + among my boy associates was often nasty and concerned the sexual + act with girls. At about 12 years I began to have erotic day + dreams. I always had a sentimental attachment for some girl + acquaintance whom I would idealize and with whom I would imagine + myself having sex relations. As a matter of fact, there was no + real sexual feeling about this. As I was very shy and timid + naturally, I never made any kind of advances toward any of them, + and they were entirely ignorant of any sentiments of affection in + me.</p> + +<p> "Pubertal changes commenced, I presume, about the age of 13½ + years. I place it at this period from the following + circumstances, which are fixed very strongly in my memory: I had, + as a child, a soprano voice that was praised considerably by + older friends, and about which I was inordinately conceited, I + enjoyed greatly taking part in operettas, cantatas, <a name='3_Page_326'></a>etc. The + dramatic instinct, if so it may be called, has always been marked + with me, and amateur dramatics are still my chief diversion. When + I was about the age mentioned above my voice changed quite + rapidly, greatly to my distress of mind, as I was obliged to give + up taking a part for which I had been cast in a school + entertainment. The memory of that disappointment is still + poignant. Other changes, such as the appearance of the pubertal + hair, must have made no impression on my mind, as I cannot + recollect anything in connection therewith. No involuntary + emissions occurred. Indeed, during periods of continence in later + life, when the sexual tension has been very strong, I have had + very few such emissions.</p> + +<p> "As a lad of 11 or 12, I had heard frequent allusions to + masturbation by other boys who were older, but always in a way + that indicated contempt. Yet there is no doubt now in my mind + that the practice was very general. I think that I was probably + about 15 when I decided to try the act. I think that there was + little sex impulse in this decision. The animating purpose was + rather curiosity. I succeeded in producing the complete orgasm + and found it pleasurable, though there was a considerable shock + of surprise at the ejaculation of semen. As nearly as I can + estimate in my memory of an event as far back as this was, this + was the beginning of definite sexual sensibility in me. I cannot + but believe, however, that it would have been aroused sooner or + later in some other way. Thereafter I would imagine myself + embracing some of the girl friends to whom I have referred above, + and, when excited, would masturbate. The act was in every + instance a psychic intercourse. For some time I did not know that + the practice was considered harmful. I indulged whenever I felt + the inclination. This at times was rather frequent; again only at + considerable intervals. I did know that it was looked upon as + being unmanly, and never admitted, except to perhaps two or three + boy friends, that I ever indulged. With these boys I practised + mutual masturbation a few times. There was no homosexual feeling + connected with these acts in any of us. It was only that the + normal method of gratifying our desires was not available. I know + the subsequent history of each of these boys, and there has been + nothing to indicate any perverted instinct in any of them. About + the age of 16 I heard a talk on sexual matters by a traveling + evangelist, who portrayed the effects of masturbation in fearful + colors. I now realize that he was an ignorant though + well-intentioned man; but the general effect of his talk upon me + was a bad one. One of the results of the habit, according to his + statements, was insanity. Therefore I expected at any moment to + lose my mind. I felt that I must stop the practice at once, but + the matter became so great an obsession that again and again I + broke my resolutions for reform. I undertook exercise, dieting, + the reading of <a name='3_Page_327'></a>serious literature: all of which I had seen + referred to in books as methods of lessening sexual desire. The + object of these disciplinary practices was always the thing most + prominently in mind, and so they were of no avail. Fortunately I + entered college a little later, and the affairs of school life + gradually took a commanding place in my thoughts, and the + practice was not so much in mind. I did not, however, completely + break away from it until almost the time of my marriage. If the + present attitude of the scientific medical world toward the + subject had been known to me, I do not believe that any evil + would have come to me from the practice. At a later period of my + life, say between 21 and 24, I would not indulge the habit for a + considerable interval. At times I did not notice the presence or + lack of desire. But then there would come periods when I would be + under a severe sexual tension. This would be marked by intense + nervousness, an inability to fix my attention upon any one thing, + and a great desire to have intercourse. An act of masturbation at + such a time would generally give relief. However, when I yielded + to this form of relief, there would always follow feelings of + profound self-reproach and of self-repugnance. Had I had + nocturnal emissions they might have relieved me; but, as I have + said before, they very rarely occurred. When, rarely, one did + occur I would be greatly frightened, for I had the old, erroneous + idea that they meant serious weakness and always ascribed them to + my bad habit. That my habit of masturbation had any relation to + the rarity of the involuntary emissions would, of course, be a + matter of pure conjecture. In passing from the discussion of + personal masturbation, I wish to say that my associations with + boys as a pupil and as a teacher lead me to believe that the + practice is practically universal. When discussing the hygienic + evils of prostitution with boy pupils I have noted that, whereas + not infrequently a boy will voluntarily protest that he has never + had intercourse, there has always been a significant silence when + masturbation is mentioned. I have never heard a boy make a + denial, direct or indirect, that he had indulged in the practice. + But it has seldom been a perversion. It has rather been, as in my + own case, an available means of relieving a sexual impulse.</p> + +<p> "During my college life I associated with many boys who had more + or less regular sexual relations with prostitutes or with girls + who were not virtuous. Their attitude toward the practice was an + immoral one. The ethical aspect of irregular sexual relations + never concerned them. It certainly did not concern me. What I + have learned through my conversations on the subject with my + pupils makes it evident to me that this is the common feeling of + most boys of the adolescent period. I think of two things which + operated strongly to prevent my entering into sexual relations + with girls during this period of my life. One was an <a name='3_Page_328'></a>esthetic + repugnance to the average prostitute. These are the women most + easily available to the youth whose sexual desires are developed. + I do not remember ever having seen an avowed prostitute who did + not seem repulsive to me. I confess to an inclination to + priggishness. I preferred to associate with people whom I called + 'nice people.' It was fortunate for me that I was thrown into the + society of a rather rough crowd of youths, who knocked a great + deal of this snobbishness out of me. But it did act to prevent my + having recourse to prostitution. A second preventive was my + natural timidity in making advances to people. This has been a + trait that I have never completely overcome. In my professional + life this has been some detriment to my advancement. In the + matter of sex relationship it tended to prevent my taking + advantage of association with and even of advances from girls + who, not prostitutes, were nevertheless not virtuous. There were + a number of such in the town and neighborhood in which I lived, + and I undoubtedly could have had sexual relations with them if I + had only been able to overcome my shyness. The desire was not + wanting. I really craved intercourse with them. It was simply a + matter of cowardice. There was one girl whom I knew very well, + with whom I was on friendly terms, who I knew had had sexual + relations with other boys. She showed, at times, a marked + preference for me, and I am sure would have welcomed any advances + that I should have made. A number of times I sought her company + with the intention of suggesting intercourse, but my resolution + always failed.</p> + +<p> "All through my college course I was much in the society of + girls. We were in class together, associated very freely in + society, frequently studied together. This is the most usual + state of things in the western part of our country. But they were + simply comrades: sex thoughts never arose in connection with such + association. And I am quite certain that this was the general + attitude of the other boys. Although the talk among the boy + students was at times, very frankly and crudely, about sexual + relations, no breath of scandal ever touched one of the college + girls. Again my experience as teacher and student brings a + conclusion that coeducation of the sexes does not affect, in one + way or the other, the strictly sexual life of the male student. A + very intimate friend who has had a varied experience in school + work has told me recently that his conclusions are the same.</p> + +<p> "When I was about 20 years old I became acquainted with a very + beautiful girl, four years my junior. Our acquaintance very + rapidly developed into deeper affection, and about five years + later we were married. During all this time very little of the + physical aspects of love entered into our attachment. My + sweetheart had much of the same shyness as was so pronounced in + my own character. For several years<a name='3_Page_329'></a> I think that the thought of + marriage was never distinctly present in our minds. A formal + betrothal between us did not take place until within a year and a + half of our marriage. Yet each of us had a very distinct + understanding of the feelings of the other. But until our + betrothal there were none of even those very innocent expressions + of endearment common, I imagine, to all lovers. I am sure that + during this period of our attachment no thought of any physical + relations between us was ever in my mind; or, at any rate, was + promptly banished if it occurred. Yet all this time my sex + desires were very strong and at times became an obsession. Never, + though, were they directed toward my sweetheart. The first time + that we engaged in the endearments and caresses allowed to lovers + I became conscious, after a time, of a state of sexual + excitement. I experienced an erection. It was absolutely reflex; + no thought had entered into it. I was at once overwhelmed with a + feeling of shame. I felt that I had been guilty of unthinkable + indecency toward my betrothed. Then there arose a fear that it + might be noticed. (Men at that time wore abominably tight + clothing.) As a matter of fact, I now know that there was no real + danger of this, for she was absolutely ignorant of the nature of + the male sexual organs. But I made a pretext for withdrawing from + the room and tried to adjust my clothing so that no exposure + could occur. I was fearful of coming into close proximity to her + again, lest there should be a recurrence of the feeling. As a + matter of fact it did occur a number of times, but my good sense + finally suggested the explanation and after a time it ceased to + trouble me. The thought was latent in my mind that sexual + excitement was necessarily more or less indecent at all times, + and I could not reconcile its manifestation with a pure love.</p> + +<p> "I have said that my sexual desire was strong. Up to the time of + marriage it was never gratified in the normal manner. My esthetic + abhorrence of prostitutes continued to prevent its gratification + in that manner. No other opportunity offered. I am positive that + moral considerations did not enter into the matter at all. I + think now that it was strange that the thought that it would be + disloyal to my promised wife to have connection with other women + did not affect me. But I am sure that it did not. I am inclined + to think that conscientious scruples very rarely enter into the + average young man's considerations of contemplated sexual + relations.</p> + +<p> "As the time of my marriage drew near, thoughts of the physical + relationship of husband and wife became, of course, more + insistent. The idea of establishing sexual relations was not at + all a pleasant one. I dreaded it as an ordeal. I wondered if it + would be possible for us to retain the same love and affection + for one another after such intimate relations were established. + This was a recurrence of the fallacious <a name='3_Page_330'></a>notion that there was + something inherently indecent in sexual things. I am in hopes + that other ideas are replacing this wrong one, in the minds of + the younger generation, as the result of the saner and franker + discussion of sex. By a great effort, I had practically stopped + masturbating. At times I felt almost maddened by desire. But + never did the prospect of marriage seem desirable from this point + of view. Up to the very day of our wedding my affection for my + betrothed seemed free from sexual desire. But my physical being + was craving sexual companionship.</p> + +<p> "Theoretically I knew a great deal of the nature of intercourse. + Practically I was absolutely ignorant. In some ways I was better + informed, on matters that a new husband should know, than the + average man entering the married life. A physician's library had + been at my disposal, and I had read somewhat extensively on + physiology and hygiene. My chosen lines of study had given me a + theoretical knowledge of the anatomy of the female genital organs + that was fairly thorough. I knew a little about the physiology of + reproduction and rather less of intercourse. Fortunately, I + learned in the course of my reading that the first sexual + approaches were likely to be quite painful to a woman, and that + great care should be exercised at this time. I tried to put into + practice what little I had learned in theory and I imagine that + we got through the introductory attempts with less than the + average difficulties. Our first efforts were not satisfactory to + either of us. My wife was absolutely unprepared so far as any + definite knowledge of the act was concerned. I sincerely hope + that the prudish notions of the past generations will give way to + more sensible views in the future, and that the girl becoming a + wife will be just as chaste, but wiser in matters of such + importance to her happiness. I presume that my timidity was a + valuable asset at this time; for I was afraid to force matters in + any way, and time and repeated attempts finally overcame our + difficulties. And when our sexual relations were once + established, the whole tenor of my life was changed. All the + former sexual unrest disappeared. My former feeling toward sexual + relations was altered. They no longer seemed that which, though + very desirable, was yet necessarily indecent. Fortunately, after + the first few weeks, they have been quite pleasurable to my wife. + I am sure that our sexual life since marriage has been a large + factor in deepening the love that has made our married life an + ideal one. As I look back at the first year of marriage, I wonder + that we got through it so well. My knowledge of sexual hygiene + was a strange mixture of fact and nonsense. If the frequency of + acts of intercourse advocated by some of the authorities I have + lately read is correct, then we must have passed the bounds of + <a name='3_Page_331'></a>moderation. But it is certain that our general health has been + very good: better in both cases than before marriage.</p> + +<p> "In reviewing these phases of the development of my sexual life, + one or two conclusions seem to me to be strongly emphasized. It + was unfortunate that the real sexual desire was aroused as early + and in the manner that it was. Whether this would have been + prevented by more definite education in the hygiene and the + purpose of the function, I can only conjecture. I believe that + mine was and is the common experience of boys. I am decidedly of + the opinion that there should be instruction given of the anatomy + of the genital organs and of the hygiene of intercourse, and this + shortly after the youth has reached puberty. How this is to be + done is a grave question. It will require tact and knowledge not + possessed by the average teacher and parent. However it is done, + it should be honest, frank, and free from piosity.</p> + +<p> "I am certain that, in my own case, rather frequent intercourse + is decidedly beneficial. Any prolonged abstinence always brings + about the same nervous disturbances that I have referred to + above. It is fortunate for me that this repetition of the act is + satisfactory to both concerned."</p> +<br /> + +<p> <b>HISTORY XVIII.—</b>E. W., dentist, aged 32, of New England Puritan + stock. Height, 5 ft. 10½ in.; weight, 144 lbs. Spare and active, + of nervobilious temperament.</p> + +<p> "My earliest recollection is being punished for 'playing with + myself' when I could not have been more than 3 or 4 years of age. + I distinctly remember my exultation on discovering that I could + excite myself (while my hands were tied behind my back for + punishment) by rubbing my small but erect penis against the + carpet while lying on my stomach. At this time, of course, I knew + nothing of sex or of what I was doing. I did what my desires and + instincts at that time prompted me to do. However, punishments + and lectures failed utterly to break up this habit, and, though I + always wished and tried faithfully to obey my parents, I soon + grew to indulge quietly in bed when I was thought to be asleep. + The matter apparently passed out of the minds of my parents as + soon as they ceased to detect me further in the act, and they + regarded it as abandoned. I now feel reasonably certain that this + precocity was due to an adherent foreskin which covered the glans + tightly almost to the meatus, and so kept up a continual + irritation.</p> + +<p> "I have no recollection that anyone ever taught me the habit, and + I know beyond a doubt that no one ever learned of the habit or + even a word as to the possibility of autoexcitement through word + or deed of mine. My recollection of the sensations is that there + was a short period of excitation, usually by rubbing, which was + not particularly, often not at all, pleasurable, and this was + followed by a single thrill of pleasure <a name='3_Page_332'></a>that extended all over + my little body. The curious thing was, however, that there seemed + to be no limit to the number of times I could consecutively + produce this sensation. My recollection is perfectly clear of how + I would lie in bed of a morning and thus excite myself time after + time. As I grew older this condition, of course, changed. + Masturbation was not a consuming passion with me at this or any + other time. I enjoyed it and felt that in it I had a means of + entertainment when other sources of enjoyment were not at hand.</p> + +<p> "By the time I was 6 or 7 I had figured out the difference in sex + in animals and suspected that 'all was not as it should be' in + some portions of a girl's anatomy. This suspicion was suddenly + confirmed one never-to-be-forgotten morning, when I induced my + dearest playmate, a little girl, to urinate in my presence. I was + more thunderstruck than excited over this discovery, and it led + to no results in any other way, nor did we ever again unveil + ourselves to each other. At this time I began to learn from the + older boys the pitiful, childish vulgarities and common terms of + sex, and to invent and exchange rhymes and stories that were + pathetic in their attempts at vulgarity.</p> + +<p> "At the age of 11 a buxom servant-girl threw out some vague hints + to me,—I was very tall for my age,—and tried to induce me to + take liberties with her, at least to the extent of telling her + vulgar stories, but I would not rise to the lure. I believe that + the thing which held me in check was fear of discovery by my + parents and the consequent humiliation. A short time previous to + this my father had enlightened me as to the means and manner of + reproduction and had encouraged me to talk to him and to my + mother on such subjects rather than with anyone else. I think + this had a great influence for good, as it made me feel that I + had some authoritative knowledge and that I was trusted by my + parents. My determination not to prove entirely unworthy of their + trust has been the anchor that has held through all the storms + and temptations of youth and young manhood.</p> + +<p> "About the age of puberty I began to long for more realistic + experiences and tried through a period of a year or so the + disgusting experiments of intercourse with animals, using hens + and a cow for this purpose. Details are of no importance, and I + spare myself their repetition. My better nature or general mental + development soon overcame my desires in this direction, and the + practice was abandoned.</p> + +<p> "With the dawning of the power of emission I noticed that the + adherent foreskin before alluded to, which had never been + examined during all these years (as I had discovered that I was + different from other boys and so was shy about exposing myself), + began to trouble me by being painful during erections. + Accordingly I took a buttonhook and tore all the adhesions loose. + A very painful though ultimately entirely satisfactory + operation!</p><a name='3_Page_333'></a> + +<p> "(I may mention in this connection that my two sons were + afflicted with adherent foreskins to such an extent as to render + circumcision necessary a few days after birth, in order that the + function of urination might become fully established.)</p> + +<p> "As my powers developed I had my first wet dream at about the age + of 15, and was much surprised thereat. My father, however, told + me not to be alarmed and soothed my anxious fears, which were + easily aroused by my guilty feelings on account of my habit of + masturbation, in which I still indulged from one to three times a + week.</p> + +<p> "Between the ages of 12 and 17 my father had the good judgment to + require a large amount of active outdoor labor from me, as well + as sending me to excellent schools. Certain kinds of study had a + distinct effect upon the sexual organs, namely, difficult Latin + and German translations and problems in fractions. I considered + at the time that it was because my mind wandered from the subject + I was studying. Now I am perfectly sure it was because my mind + focused on the subject I was studying. At any rate the fact + existed, and when alone in my room, wrestling with a knotty + problem, I used almost as a rule to keep myself in the most + violent state of erection for long periods—an hour or + so—sometimes ending with an emission, but more often I forced + myself to forego this climax through fear of overindulgence. + During these years my curiosity as to the exact nature of the + female organs was something terrible, and I wasted many hours and + much ingenuity in the attempt to surreptitiously gratify it. My + perseverance in the face of failure along this line was surely + worthy of a nobler cause.</p> + +<p> "I was much in the society of girls of my own age or older during + these years and until I was 19. I found with them a keen and + entirely pure and wholesome enjoyment utterly separate and apart + from the desires and indulgences which I have been describing. I + never cared for any girl who was 'forward' or in any way + unladylike, and the idea of taking any undue liberties with any + of my youthful sweethearts was as remote from my thoughts as a + trip to the moon. Perhaps I can say this better and more + distinctly by stating that I would be perfectly willing to have + my wife know of, or my boys repeat, any action that I ever took + with any woman.</p> + +<p> "I spent my spare time in their society and lavished upon my girl + companions every cent I could spare, but had no thought of + immediate sex desire or gratification. At the age of 17 I went as + an apprentice in my present profession of dentistry. Whenever it + became necessary for me, in assisting at the operating chair, to + touch a lady's hair or face, I would be seized with the utmost + confusion and could with difficulty control my hands so that they + did not tremble. This soon wore off as I came to a realization of + the true professional spirit and attitude toward <a name='3_Page_334'></a>all patients, + and, needless to say, has now become a matter of the utmost + indifference to me.</p> + +<p> "From 19 to 22 I attended a professional school in a large city, + remote from my home, where I was an utter stranger. During these + years I devoted myself to my professional studies and to music + with much diligence. I took an active part in all student life + and problems save only that of the 'eternal feminine.'</p> + +<p> "Frequently I have been out with a crowd of 'the boys' when they + headed for a brothel, and have been the only one to turn back or + to remain on the sidewalk as the door closed behind my last + companion. I say this not in self-praise, but in the same spirit + of accuracy which has prompted me to put down everything + concerning this greatest mystery of our natures as I have + experienced it and worked it out.</p> + +<p> "It was during these three years at school that I placed upon + myself the most stringent and effective curbs to my sex nature. I + somehow never could 'get my own consent' to go to a brothel or + stay with a 'soiled dove,' for I had by this time firmly resolved + that I would bring to my wife, whoever she might turn out to be, + a clean body at least. I limited myself in my autoexcitement to + one emission a week and on one or two occasions went two weeks + without inducing an emission. Spontaneous nocturnal emissions + were quite common during these years. I cannot state just how + frequent they were, but perhaps one a week would be a fair + average.</p> + +<p> "Shortly after graduation at the age of 22 I became engaged to + the woman who is now my wife. (She was 17 at the time of our + engagement, brunette, well developed, and with a wisdom and charm + that have held me a willing captive for ten years and no prospect + of escape!)</p> + +<p> "With our engagement began for each of us that divine and + mysterious unfolding of the nature of one to the nature of the + other. Our engagement lasted two years and a half and, ignorant + as we both were, I am sure that it was none too long. Never shall + I forget the surprise I felt—to say nothing of the delight—when + I discovered that my sweetheart was as anxious to find out the + uttermost facts about me as I was to explore the divine mystery + of her sweet body.</p> + +<p> "We lived in different towns and I used to spend Sundays at her + home. I slept in a room adjoining that occupied by my betrothed + and a friend. There was a transom with clear glass over the door + which connected these two rooms, and to have stood upon the foot + of the bed and looked through this transom would have been the + easiest thing in the world, and was such an opportunity as I + would have given years of my life to have obtained in my + adolescence; but now that the chance was afforded me to freely + spy upon the chamber of my future bride my soul revolted, for the + feeling was upon me that not until it was revealed <a name='3_Page_335'></a>to me because + she could no longer bear to keep it concealed from me would I + look upon the blessed vision of her maiden loveliness. Nor was I + disappointed, for gradually we became acquainted with each + other's bodies, and this gradual unveiling of each to the other + led, during the last months of our engagement, to mutual manual + manipulations, excitement and gratification. Intercourse did not + take place until the second night after our marriage, and our + first baby was born nine months and three days after our + marriage, though my wife was ten days past the cessation of her + period at the time of my first entering.</p> + +<p> "Since marriage I have made it my first duty to study my wife's + inclinations and desires with regard to our sexual relations, and + can say that now, after seven years of married life, and after + she has borne me two sons, we are enjoying a fullness of + happiness that neither of us would have believed possible during + the first year of our married life.</p> + +<p> "I have found that the woman must have the entire charge of the + time and number of approaches in a week or month, and that when + she is for any reason disinclined to the sexual act the husband + must keep away, no matter how he feels about the matter. Also the + man must be sure that his wife reaches the orgasm or is at the + point of it before he allows himself to 'let go.'</p> + +<p> "Our meetings have averaged eight or nine a month. During the + latter months of pregnancy they were <i>nil</i>, and in the month + following an enforced separation of several weeks they were + fourteen. We have never tried nor had the slightest curiosity to + know how far we could indulge ourselves.</p> + +<p> "For myself I seem to demand a gratification of the sexual desire + rather oftener than my wife, and when I feel I cannot get a good + night's rest without first being relieved of my seminal burden, + while at the same time my wife is disinclined to the sexual act, + I have her perform manual manipulation until relief is effected. + Mind, I say <i>relief</i>, for the emission gives me very little + pleasure under these circumstances, but it does give <i>relief</i>. In + my present health I find I cannot sleep well if I go over more + than two nights without an emission. My wife understands my + condition, and is entirely willing to assist me in this way when + she feels she cannot give me the gratification which I crave. We + have come to see sex matters as they are, and respect and + reverence have taken the place of ignorance and fear.</p> + +<p> "To sum up, owing to lack of circumcision the sex instinct + developed too soon and out of all proportion during my early + youth. I cannot see that masturbation has ever had the slightest + bad effect upon my health or mental state (except as I was + constantly loathing myself more or less for being unable to stop + it).</p><a name='3_Page_336'></a> + +<p> "The husband must subordinate himself to the wife in order to + obtain the highest good and pleasure of both.</p> + +<p> "I have always been successful in my undertakings. Stood at the + head of my class at school, and in my professional work graduated + with highest honors. I have a memory for prose or verse that is + the cause of envy to many of my friends. The facts here set down + are recorded in the interest of advancing study along this most + important but neglected and ignored line. That they have been + truthfully recorded without favor to the black or light on the + white is my sincere belief."</p> +<br /> + +<p> <b>HISTORY XIX.—</b>E. B. Parents sound; strong constitution in mother, + moderately so in father; vigorous and healthy, but of refined + nature. Breast-milk for six months.</p> + +<p> "<i>Age 4-5</i>. Took great delight in the little waterworks. Severely + punished for this. Interest in the parts morbidly increased + thereby.</p> + +<p> "<i>Age 5</i>. Earliest recollection of 'counter-erection'—the penis + shrinking tensely into itself, producing local and general + discomfort. This resulted from certain kinds of + <i>mauvaise-honte</i>,—having to kiss aged persons, having officious + help at micturition, bathing, dressing, etc., which caused a sort + of physical disgust. Toward puberty the experience grew rare. One + such occasion was at about eighteen, when solicited on the street + by a prostitute. The very <i>idea</i> of homosexual relations produces + it. It would appear to be a powerful safeguard against + promiscuous sex relations. I have met two men subject to the same + thing, and have heard of one woman subject to something + analogous. It might be called a nausea of the 'nether heart' in + Georg Hirth's phrase.</p> + +<p> "<i>Age 6-7</i>. Earliest recollection of erection. Unprovoked at + first. A disposition to <i>punish</i> the organ and satisfaction in + doing so. From this time erection took place whenever it was + thought about.</p> + +<p> "<i>Age 10</i>. Present at a discussion in the playground about the + best way of intercourse, which I heard of for the first time. + This was followed by enlightenment on the source of children. + Concluded it must be very painful to both parties. 'Just the + other way,' I was told. But the idea of pain to the genitals was + 'interesting' to me. Pain felt by the other sex was + 'interesting.' Pained looks captivated me—I liked to imagine + some mysterious trouble; and, as I learned more, 'female + complaints' interested me greatly in their subjects. I got a + 'grateful pang' at the pit of the stomach at the thought, but + neither erection nor the opposite. This hypogastric feeling has + continued to associate itself with certain sexual impressions. + The thought of a <i>woman mortifying herself</i> later on excited me + sexually. Once, pulling a stay-string for fun (my wife never + laced) gave me a powerful and quite unexpected erection.</p><a name='3_Page_337'></a> + +<p> "<i>Age 12</i>. A girl visitor of the same age got me talking about + the genitals, and at bedtime came and proposed coitus. We failed + to manage it. The vulva stripped back the foreskin, which was a + voluptuous feeling; then we were alarmed by something and + separated. I never saw her again. She too liked to 'punish' her + vulva. She put whole pepper in it, and advised me to use the + same. I continued greatly excited when she had gone; the hand + flew to the phallus and worried it, and orgasm came on at + once—the childish orgasm consisting of well-spaced spasms of the + ejaculators, without the poignant preliminary nisus of the adult + orgasm. There was no reaction or depression, except that the + phallus—which did not subside at once—was painful to touch. A + week or so later I tried again, but failed. A month later, being + more excited, I succeeded. I found that I could only compass it + about once in three weeks. There were no emissions. I used to + have a spontaneous mental image of a small Grecian temple in a + sunny park, which charmed me, and I had no scruples.</p> + +<p> "<i>Age 12-13</i>. Masturbated once or twice a month.</p> + +<p> "<i>Age 13-14</i>. Was sent to a small public school, where it + happened that a very good tone prevailed. I learned that + masturbation was bad form and unmanly. The proper thing was to + save one's self up for women—at about 18. I dropped the practice + easily, in spite of indulging my imagination about coitus. I + thought of the initiation with prostitutes at 18, with the mixed + feelings that even the most combative soldier must regard the + fray. The hypogastric feeling above referred to would come + on—which I liked and disliked at the same time. The first + occasion on which I remember this feeling was when I got my first + braces. Anything that harped on my sex produced it. Every time I + received the sacrament, which I was forced to do very young, I + repented of my intention of whoring at 18—as a man 'must' + do—and afterward I relapsed to the expectation. Religion was a + great reality to me, but it did not produce the radical effect + that the development of the romantic sentiment did later on. + (Both my wife and I became free-thinkers at about 30.)</p> + +<p> "<i>Age 15-17</i>. Read poetry and romance. Conceived a high ideal of + faithfulness and constancy. What a mockery all this loyalty is, I + said to myself, if a man has stultified it beforehand. That was + no mere castle-building. I had not understood what I was about in + expecting to whore. The critical feelings were now awakening, and + what they produced was revulsion against the abuse of sex, which + got stronger every year. It became plain that there would be no + whoring or the like for me; I was far too proud and fastidious. I + neglected my tasks, which were uncongenial, and read a great deal + of anatomy and physiology, which stood me in good stead later. As + I rose in the school I was surprised to find the tone worse, but + quite at the top it was better <a name='3_Page_338'></a>again, and with my latest + companions sex was never even mentioned. At 14 I had a friend who + importuned me to come into his bed, but I never would get under + his bedclothes, for the male sex repels me powerfully in personal + contact; he began to talk of masturbation, and now I can + understand what he was aiming at. But my day-dreams of nymphs and + dryads kept me in a state of perpetual tension, and erection was + very frequent. The early morbid admiration of delicate women + became replaced by admiration of health and strength combined + with grace.</p> + +<p> "<i>Age 17-18</i>. I was given a cubicle in which my neighbor on the + right masturbated noisily two or three times a week, and the one + on the left every night, using intermittent friction to drag it + out longer. One night, kneeling at my bedside, saying prayers, my + attention was divided between these and the occupation of my + neighbor, when, after not having masturbated for four years,—the + critical years of development,—the hand flew to the phallus and </p></div> + +<div class='poem'><div class='stanza'> +<span class='i4'>"'pulses pounding through palms and trembling encircling fingers'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"procured, in Walt Whitman's language, </p></div> + +<div class='poem'><div class='stanza'> +<span class='i4'>"'the wholesome relief,—repose, content.'<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"I slept well and had a sense of elation at the proof of manhood, + for we boys were anxious about whether we secreted semen or not. + The sexual obsession was tempered, and about three weeks later I + had my first 'pollution'—the 'angel of the night,' as Mantegazza + with better sense calls it. From that time on I had pollutions + every two or three weeks, with dreams sometimes of masturbation + or of nymphs, or quite irrelevant matters. For a time these gave + me perfect relief; then my 'dilectatio morosa' began to grow + again, and the phallus would become so sensitive that working + about on the belly would liberate the orgasm.</p> + +<p> "<i>Age 18-19</i>. I had kept on persuading myself I was not + masturbating—avoiding the use of the hand—but now I dropped + this pretense, and frankly conceded the need to myself. I got + done with it in a peremptory way and thought no more of it. I had + no evil effects, moral or physical, and my mother would often + compliment me on my bright appearance the morning after. At that + time the appetite matured every seven to ten days, and, though I + dreaded the idea of slavery to it, it would have been very hard + to forego it. Headaches, which had begun to plague me from + puberty on, grew rarer. Pollutions occurred in between, but were + less effectual. I had up to this point accepted the incidental + pleasure under a sort of protest; but now I got over that too and + I allowed what I would prefer to call an idio-erotism (rather + than an auto-erotism) its way, always picturing beautiful nymphs + to myself. Surroundings of natural beauty moved me to this kind + of reverie, partly perhaps because I had once secretly observed a + lad <a name='3_Page_339'></a>basking naked on the sandy beach and toying with himself. + The recollection is wholly unsullied to me. Happening on one + occasion to check the stimulation about two-thirds way to orgasm, + I experienced a miniature orgasm like the childish one, but with + no declension of the tumescence, and I was able to repeat this + maneuver several times before the full orgasm. This I later + practised in <i>Coitus prolongatus</i>—giving the partner time to + come up. I had already got into the way of poising the feeling on + its climax. The ejaculator reflex, being habituated to this, + seems to set in with its throbs when the maneuver is simulated, + though no semen has yet been poured into the bulbous portion for + the ejaculators to act upon. If this play be broken off before + the critical spasm—as in the American 'Karezza,' etc.—there is + no perceptible reaction, though an unsatisfied feeling remains. + But when the act proceeds to emission and the poignant + <i>undercurrent</i> of feeling sets in that ushers the ejaculation and + may only last two to five seconds, it makes all the difference, + and constitutional signs appear—perspiration, etc. This leads to + the question whether the critical sensation specially involves + the sympathetic nervous system? Up to that point the process is + under control, but then automatic.</p> + +<p> "An observation of practical importance to me at that time was + this: I awoke in the morning after a pollution at night, with an + acute headache of a specific kind, and erection. This had + happened before, after pollution, and the erection suggested to + me whether 'a hair of the dog that bit me' might not prove + beneficial. As the excitation proceeded, the pain in the head was + directly drained away, as if I were drawing it out. Other pain is + also relieved for the moment, such as neuralgia, but to return + soon with interest. This, however, was specific and pure benefit. + The next time I got a bad headache of this character, without + preceding pollution, I tried the remedy, at about 10 A. M. The + semen was copious and watery, and the relief was marked, but in + an hour's time the headache returned. I had never repeated the + act at short interval, <i>i.e.</i>, while the organs were under the + influence of a previous act, and now I tried the effect of that. + The second emission was also profuse, but much thicker, and the + relief much greater. In about three hours the headache was, + however, again intolerable, and, the connection being now clear, + I ventured on a third act, which proved to be the most voluptuous + I had so far experienced, the nisus being far more intense. The + semen was copious, but thick and ropy, with lumps as large as + small peas that could scarcely be crushed with the finger, and + yellow in color and rank in odor. After that I was perfectly well + and kept so. (The urethra was blocked so that I could with + difficulty stroke the masses out.) Later I have examined such + semen microscopically and found the spermatozoa dead and + disintegrating. My <a name='3_Page_340'></a>period in my best years—21 to 48—was twice + a week, the odd number being an inconvenience, and I have since + endeavored to avoid accumulations, emptying the receptacles on + the fourth day, when I remembered the interval, even if the + organs did not remind me. On the fifth day headache would + otherwise appear and perhaps two acts be needful, or, if I forgot + about it for a week, three acts running. That I did not abuse the + function the fact proves that every year I would forget about it + two to three times and have to resort to this drastic mode.<a name='3_FNanchor_230'></a><a href='#3_Footnote_230'><sup>[230]</sup></a> + But there is quite a different headache that follows on + indulgence during convalescence or when the system is otherwise + much lowered. Railway traveling greatly accentuates the need with + me; also riding. Girls aroused no physical desire, though I + chiefly sought their society, and even after the genital tension + was so pronounced, up to 20, I was troubled by the fact that + women did not affect me sexually. About this time a buxom girl I + liked and who liked me vehemently laid her hand on my arm, in + trying to persuade me to give up shooting. The phallus leaped + simultaneously. That was my first <i>sexual</i> experience—the proof + that the <i>nexus</i> was established between the genital mechanism + and the complex of feeling we call sexual.</p> + +<p> "<i>Age 24</i>. At this age I went to stay at a house where there were + two very pretty girls. I at once lost my heart to the elder, + L. B., as she did to me (strong constitution, but refined nature; + parents sound; brought up in the country; eleven months' + breast-milk). 'What a mother she will make,' I said to myself. + Now began a time of the spiritual and physical communion that I + had pictured to myself....</p> + +<p> "I am 60 now; she is 57. We are still like lovers. No; not <i>like</i> + lovers; we <i>are</i> lovers. Of course, I do not mean to imply that + sexual impressions have preponderated in our life, as they do in + this account. Quite the contrary. We are both strong and, + according to all accounts, unusually well preserved. We are very + temperate. Since 48 I notice a gradual decline of the erotic + propensity. It is now once in five or seven <a name='3_Page_341'></a>days. Since the + menopause her propensity has declined markedly, but it is not + extinct, and she delights as much as ever in my delight. She + began to menstruate at 12, was regular till 17; then got + chlorotic for a few months, soon recovered, though menstruation + was often irregular, but never painful. Sexual experience began + at 25. I have often wondered if a moderate self-gymnastic of the + faculty, in Venturi's sense, would not have educated her genital + sphere, and made her a still better comrade—excluded the periods + of irregularity and frigidity. The stage of latency was too + protracted. We often noticed that, when menstruation was due or + nearly so, prolonged love-sports at bedtime would be followed by + menstruation in the morning. We never were separated for longer + than three months, and on that occasion, menstruation being + delayed, she tried what masturbation would do to determine it, + and with a positive result. My need, though less, is as + imperative as ever. Seminal headaches—as I would call them—have + ceased since 50; the accumulation only produces muddleheadedness. + But I have not suffered accumulation over ten to at most twelve + days. The quantity of semen is also less. The sensibility of the + corpora has declined much; that of the glans is unimpaired. + Erection is good. Orgasm takes two to four minutes to provoke, + against forty to fifty seconds when young; it is in some respects + even more enjoyable—perhaps less intense, but much more + prolonged. I have no reaction from indulgence. But I never press + it; it always presses me. For overaccumulation, with headache or + muddleheadedness, the wifely hand is more efficacious than the + vulva. Even the most vivid dream of coitus fails to compass the + orgasm now. The peripheral stimulus is essential.</p> + +<p> "In our case physical and psychical intensity of emotion have + gone hand in hand. I have become specialized to one woman, + despite an erotic endowment certainly not meager. The pervasive + fragrance makes one adore the whole sex, but my wife does not + interpret this homage in a sexually promiscuous sense. We both + agree in the principle that if one cannot hold the affection of + the other there is no title to it. Tarde says that constancy in + love is rarely anything but a voyage of discovery round the + beloved object. I am perpetually making fresh discoveries. But + her constancy, I mean the high level of her passion, is + independent of discoveries." </p></div> + +<hr /> + +<a name='3_Footnote_230'></a><a href='#3_FNanchor_230'>[230]</a><div class='note'><p> "A practical question arising out of the foregoing is +whether such semen should be committed to the vagina? Its presence is +known to me by constitutional symptoms (toxic). It is the last to be +expelled, and its degenerate germ-cells have no chance against those of +the normal fluid deposited in preceding acts, supposing that to be +retained. But it may well happen that the prior emissions only reach the +pouch, whereas the last is injected into the womb itself. I have +frequently had the sense of the orifices of meatus and cervix matching +directly, especially when she had powerful orgasm (including two +conceptions), and of the semen being sucked from me rather than occluded +in its exit, as also happens, requiring me to relax the urge a little. At +18 to 19 the semen of a 'pollution' has left tender red patches where it +dried on the neighboring skin, and deep straw-colored stains in the +linen."</p></div> + + + + +<a name='3_Page_342'></a> +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_INDEX_OF_AUTHORS'></a><h2><a name='3_Page_343'></a>INDEX OF AUTHORS.</h2> + +<ul><li>Abu-l-Faraj, <a href='#3_Page_197'>197</a>.</li> +<li>Acton, W., <a href='#3_Page_194'>194</a>.</li> +<li>Adler, O., <a href='#3_Page_11'>11</a>, <a href='#3_Page_95'>95</a>, <a href='#3_Page_196'>196</a>, <a href='#3_Page_204'>204</a>, <a href='#3_Page_205'>205</a>, <a href='#3_Page_206'>206</a>, <a href='#3_Page_241'>241</a>.</li> +<li>Adlerz, <a href='#3_Page_275'>275</a>.</li> +<li>Aguilaniedo, <a href='#3_Page_152'>152</a>.</li> +<li>Aldrich, <a href='#3_Page_38'>38</a>.</li> +<li>Allen, G. W., <a href='#3_Page_97'>97</a>.</li> +<li>Alonzi, <a href='#3_Page_87'>87</a>.</li> +<li>Aly-Belfàdel, <a href='#3_Page_238'>238</a>.</li> +<li>Amand, St., <a href='#3_Page_198'>198</a>, <a href='#3_Page_230'>230</a>.</li> +<li>Andrews, W., <a href='#3_Page_134'>134</a>.</li> +<li>Angell, <a href='#3_Page_153'>153</a>.</li> +<li>Arndt, R., <a href='#3_Page_243'>243</a>.</li> +<li>Avebury, Lord, <a href='#3_Page_259'>259</a>, <a href='#3_Page_265'>265</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Bach, G., <a href='#3_Page_127'>127</a>.</li> +<li>Baker, Smith, <a href='#3_Page_241'>241</a>.</li> +<li>Ballet, <a href='#3_Page_180'>180</a>.</li> +<li>Balls-Headley, <a href='#3_Page_231'>231</a>.</li> +<li>Bancroft, H. H., <a href='#3_Page_47'>47</a>.</li> +<li>Bantock, <a href='#3_Page_12'>12</a>.</li> +<li>Baretti, <a href='#3_Page_57'>57</a>.</li> +<li>Barrus, Clara, <a href='#3_Page_14'>14</a>.</li> +<li>Bartels, Max, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>, <a href='#3_Page_264'>264</a>, <a href='#3_Page_267'>267</a>.</li> +<li>Beaunis, <a href='#3_Page_28'>28</a>, <a href='#3_Page_59'>59</a>, <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a>, <a href='#3_Page_237'>237</a>.</li> +<li>Bechterew, <a href='#3_Page_62'>62</a>.</li> +<li>Bell, Sanford, <a href='#3_Page_51'>51</a>.</li> +<li>Benecke, E. F. M., <a href='#3_Page_196'>196</a>.</li> +<li>Bernard, P., <a href='#3_Page_2'>2</a>, <a href='#3_Page_251'>251</a>.</li> +<li>Bernelle, <a href='#3_Page_125'>125</a>.</li> +<li>Blackwell, E., <a href='#3_Page_201'>201</a>.</li> +<li>Bladon, J., <a href='#3_Page_34'>34</a>.</li> +<li>Blagden, <a href='#3_Page_71'>71</a>, <a href='#3_Page_76'>76</a>.</li> +<li>Bloch, <a href='#3_Page_249'>249</a>.</li> +<li>Bloch, Iwan, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>, <a href='#3_Page_105'>105</a>, <a href='#3_Page_108'>108</a>, <a href='#3_Page_111'>111</a>, <a href='#3_Page_112'>112</a>, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>, <a href='#3_Page_131'>131</a>, <a href='#3_Page_133'>133</a>, <a href='#3_Page_148'>148</a>, <a href='#3_Page_202'>202</a>, <a href='#3_Page_267'>267</a>.</li> +<li>Bloom, <a href='#3_Page_13'>13</a>.</li> +<li>Blumröder, <a href='#3_Page_121'>121</a>.</li> +<li>Boerhaave, <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>.</li> +<li>Bohn, G., <a href='#3_Page_2'>2</a>.</li> +<li>Bonstetten, <a href='#3_Page_253'>253</a>.</li> +<li>Booth, D. S., <a href='#3_Page_124'>124</a>.</li> +<li>Bos, C., <a href='#3_Page_93'>93</a>.</li> +<li>Bossard, <a href='#3_Page_125'>125</a>.</li> +<li>Bouchereau, <a href='#3_Page_251'>251</a>.</li> +<li>Bourneville, <a href='#3_Page_252'>252</a>.</li> +<li>Brantôme, <a href='#3_Page_60'>60</a>, <a href='#3_Page_78'>78</a>.</li> +<li>Bray, <a href='#3_Page_32'>32</a>.</li> +<li>Brehm, <a href='#3_Page_34'>34</a>.</li> +<li>Breitenstein, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>, <a href='#3_Page_237'>237</a>.</li> +<li>Bridgman, W. G., <a href='#3_Page_14'>14</a>.</li> +<li>Brierre de Boismont, <a href='#3_Page_196'>196</a>.</li> +<li>Browne, W. A. F., <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Brunfels, <a href='#3_Page_132'>132</a>.</li> +<li>Bryan, D., <a href='#3_Page_240'>240</a>.</li> +<li>Büchner, <a href='#3_Page_34'>34</a>.</li> +<li>Burckhardt, J. L., <a href='#3_Page_77'>77</a>.</li> +<li>Burdach, <a href='#3_Page_28'>28</a>, <a href='#3_Page_67'>67</a>, <a href='#3_Page_242'>242</a>, <a href='#3_Page_246'>246</a>.</li> +<li>Burk, F. L., <a href='#3_Page_172'>172</a>.</li> +<li>Burton, Robert, <a href='#3_Page_56'>56</a>.</li> +<li>Burton, Si: R., <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>, <a href='#3_Page_237'>237</a>.</li> +<li>Buscalioni, <a href='#3_Page_47'>47</a>.</li> +<li>Busch, D. W. H., <a href='#3_Page_200'>200</a>.</li> +<li>Butler, A. G., <a href='#3_Page_67'>67</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Cabanès, <a href='#3_Page_134'>134</a>.</li> +<li>Cabanis, <a href='#3_Page_248'>248</a>, <a href='#3_Page_253'>253</a>.</li> +<li>Calmann, <a href='#3_Page_96'>96</a>.</li> +<li>Campbell, Harry, <a href='#3_Page_211'>211</a>, <a href='#3_Page_217'>217</a>.</li> +<li>Cannon, W., <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>.</li> +<li>Capgras, <a href='#3_Page_180'>180</a>.</li> +<li>Casanova, <a href='#3_Page_166'>166</a>.</li> +<li>Catullus, <a href='#3_Page_84'>84</a>.</li> +<li>Cellini, <a href='#3_Page_79'>79</a>.</li> +<li>Ceni, <a href='#3_Page_15'>15</a>.</li> +<li>Cervantes, <a href='#3_Page_79'>79</a>, <a href='#3_Page_227'>227</a>.</li> +<li>Chapman, G., <a href='#3_Page_182'>182</a>.</li> +<li>Christian, <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>.</li> +<li>Clark, Campbell, <a href='#3_Page_204'>204</a>.</li> +<li>Clarke, E. D., <a href='#3_Page_77'>77</a>.</li> +<li>Cleland, <a href='#3_Page_19'>19</a>.</li> +<li>Clement of Alexandria, <a href='#3_Page_63'>63</a>.</li> +<li>Clérambault, <a href='#3_Page_79'>79</a>.</li> +<li>Clevenger, <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>.</li> +<li>Clouston, <a href='#3_Page_201'>201</a>.</li> +<li>Cœlius Aurelianus, <a href='#3_Page_63'>63</a>.</li> +<li>Coleridge, <a href='#3_Page_175'>175</a>.</li> +<li>Colin, <a href='#3_Page_251'>251</a>.</li> +<li>Collas, <a href='#3_Page_131'>131</a>.</li> +<li>Colman, W. A., <a href='#3_Page_14'>14</a>.</li> +<li>Coltman, <a href='#3_Page_197'>197</a>.<a name='3_Page_344'></a></li> +<li>Congreve, <a href='#3_Page_68'>68</a>.</li> +<li>Cook, F., <a href='#3_Page_15'>15</a>, <a href='#3_Page_268'>268</a>.</li> +<li>Cook, J., <a href='#3_Page_46'>46</a>, <a href='#3_Page_269'>269</a>.</li> +<li>Cooke, Kev. L. H., <a href='#3_Page_35'>35</a>.</li> +<li>Cornevin, <a href='#3_Page_138'>138</a>.</li> +<li>Cotterill, J. M., <a href='#3_Page_14'>14</a>.</li> +<li>Coutagne, <a href='#3_Page_124'>124</a>.</li> +<li>Crawley, E., <a href='#3_Page_47'>47</a>, <a href='#3_Page_73'>73</a>, <a href='#3_Page_259'>259</a>, <a href='#3_Page_263'>263</a>.</li> +<li>Crofton, <a href='#3_Page_134'>134</a>.</li> +<li>Crooke, W., <a href='#3_Page_46'>46</a>.</li> +<li>Cullerre, <a href='#3_Page_179'>179</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Daniell, W. F., <a href='#3_Page_271'>271</a>, <a href='#3_Page_272'>272</a>.</li> +<li>Darwin, C., <a href='#3_Page_22'>22</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Darwin, E., <a href='#3_Page_174'>174</a>.</li> +<li>D'Aulnoy, Countess, <a href='#3_Page_135'>135</a>.</li> +<li>Daumas, <a href='#3_Page_85'>85</a>.</li> +<li>Davenport, Isabel, <a href='#3_Page_12'>12</a>.</li> +<li>Debreyne, <a href='#3_Page_56'>56</a>.</li> +<li>Dillmann, <a href='#3_Page_196'>196</a>.</li> +<li>Diodorus, <a href='#3_Page_273'>273</a>.</li> +<li>Disselhorst, <a href='#3_Page_10'>10</a>.</li> +<li>D'Orbigny, <a href='#3_Page_268'>268</a>.</li> +<li>Duchenne, <a href='#3_Page_84'>84</a>.</li> +<li>Dühren, E. <i>See</i> Bloch, Iwan.</li> +<li>Dulaure, <a href='#3_Page_130'>130</a>.</li> +<li>Dumas, G., <a href='#3_Page_125'>125</a>.</li> +<li>Duncan, Matthews, <a href='#3_Page_212'>212</a>, <a href='#3_Page_240'>240</a>.</li> +<li>Dunlop, W., <a href='#3_Page_43'>43</a>.</li> +<li>Dupré, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Durkheim, <a href='#3_Page_189'>189</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Earle, A., <a href='#3_Page_75'>75</a>.</li> +<li>Effertz, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a>.</li> +<li>Eklund, <a href='#3_Page_200'>200</a>.</li> +<li>Ellis, Havelock, <a href='#3_Page_13'>13</a>, <a href='#3_Page_26'>26</a>, <a href='#3_Page_46'>46</a>, <a href='#3_Page_60'>60</a>, <a href='#3_Page_61'>61</a>, <a href='#3_Page_86'>86</a>, <a href='#3_Page_95'>95</a>, <a href='#3_Page_121'>121</a>, <a href='#3_Page_154'>154</a>, <a href='#3_Page_193'>193</a>, <a href='#3_Page_207'>207</a>, <a href='#3_Page_242'>242</a>, <a href='#3_Page_252'>252</a>.</li> +<li>Ellis, Sir A. B., <a href='#3_Page_74'>74</a>, <a href='#3_Page_272'>272</a>.</li> +<li>Engelmann, <a href='#3_Page_205'>205</a>.</li> +<li>Epaulow, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Erb, <a href='#3_Page_243'>243</a>.</li> +<li>Espinas, <a href='#3_Page_27'>27</a>.</li> +<li>Eulenburg, <a href='#3_Page_19'>19</a>, <a href='#3_Page_108'>108</a>, <a href='#3_Page_120'>120</a>, <a href='#3_Page_130'>130</a>, <a href='#3_Page_131'>131</a>, <a href='#3_Page_132'>132</a>, <a href='#3_Page_139'>139</a>, <a href='#3_Page_152'>152</a>, <a href='#3_Page_159'>159</a>, <a href='#3_Page_166'>166</a>, <a href='#3_Page_202'>202</a>.</li> +<li>Eysséric, <a href='#3_Page_50'>50</a>.</li> +<li>Eyre, E. J., <a href='#3_Page_42'>42</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Fabre, J. H., <a href='#3_Page_37'>37</a>.</li> +<li>Fehling, <a href='#3_Page_195'>195</a>.</li> +<li>Féré, <a href='#3_Page_4'>4</a>, <a href='#3_Page_14'>14</a>, <a href='#3_Page_54'>54</a>, <a href='#3_Page_60'>60</a>, <a href='#3_Page_62'>62</a>, <a href='#3_Page_63'>63</a>, <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>, <a href='#3_Page_70'>70</a>, <a href='#3_Page_82'>82</a>, <a href='#3_Page_93'>93</a>, <a href='#3_Page_119'>119</a>, <a href='#3_Page_121'>121</a>, <a href='#3_Page_137'>137</a>, <a href='#3_Page_167'>167</a>, <a href='#3_Page_169'>169</a>, <a href='#3_Page_177'>177</a>, <a href='#3_Page_182'>182</a>, <a href='#3_Page_204'>204</a>.</li> +<li>Ferenczi, <a href='#3_Page_232'>232</a>.</li> +<li>Ferrand, <a href='#3_Page_199'>199</a>, <a href='#3_Page_229'>229</a>.</li> +<li>Ferrero, <a href='#3_Page_195'>195</a>.</li> +<li>Ferriani, <a href='#3_Page_88'>88</a>.</li> +<li>Finck, <a href='#3_Page_34'>34</a>, <a href='#3_Page_235'>235</a>, <a href='#3_Page_259'>259</a>, <a href='#3_Page_266'>266</a>.</li> +<li>Fliess, <a href='#3_Page_180'>180</a>.</li> +<li>Foley, <a href='#3_Page_52'>52</a>, <a href='#3_Page_75'>75</a>, <a href='#3_Page_269'>269</a>.</li> +<li>Forbes, H. O., <a href='#3_Page_40'>40</a>.</li> +<li>Forel, <a href='#3_Page_201'>201</a>, <a href='#3_Page_243'>243</a>, <a href='#3_Page_252'>252</a>.</li> +<li>Forman, S., <a href='#3_Page_79'>79</a>.</li> +<li>Franklin, Miles, <a href='#3_Page_81'>81</a>.</li> +<li>Frazer, J. G., <a href='#3_Page_259'>259</a>, <a href='#3_Page_262'>262</a>.</li> +<li>French-Sheldon, Mrs., <a href='#3_Page_50'>50</a>.</li> +<li>Freud, <a href='#3_Page_60'>60</a>, <a href='#3_Page_70'>70</a>, <a href='#3_Page_180'>180</a>, <a href='#3_Page_227'>227</a>, <a href='#3_Page_231'>231</a>, <a href='#3_Page_263'>263</a>.</li> +<li>Friedenthal, <a href='#3_Page_101'>101</a>.</li> +<li>Fürbringer, <a href='#3_Page_196'>196</a>, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a>.</li> +<li>Fustel de Coulanges, <a href='#3_Page_72'>72</a>, <a href='#3_Page_73'>73</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Galen, <a href='#3_Page_137'>137</a>, <a href='#3_Page_197'>197</a>.</li> +<li>Gall, <a href='#3_Page_15'>15</a>, <a href='#3_Page_16'>16</a>, <a href='#3_Page_194'>194</a>.</li> +<li>Gardiner, J. S., <a href='#3_Page_269'>269</a>.</li> +<li>Garnier, P., <a href='#3_Page_71'>71</a>, <a href='#3_Page_105'>105</a>.</li> +<li>Gason, S., <a href='#3_Page_41'>41</a>.</li> +<li>Gattel, <a href='#3_Page_213'>213</a>, <a href='#3_Page_231'>231</a>.</li> +<li>Gaupp, <a href='#3_Page_127'>127</a>.</li> +<li>Gennep, A. Van, <a href='#3_Page_73'>73</a>, <a href='#3_Page_74'>74</a>, <a href='#3_Page_261'>261</a></li> +<li>Gibb, <a href='#3_Page_225'>225</a>.</li> +<li>Gillen, <a href='#3_Page_75'>75</a>, <a href='#3_Page_262'>262</a>, <a href='#3_Page_264'>264</a>.</li> +<li>Ginisty, <a href='#3_Page_109'>109</a>.</li> +<li>Gläveke, <a href='#3_Page_11'>11</a>.</li> +<li>Glynn, <a href='#3_Page_16'>16</a>.</li> +<li>Godard, <a href='#3_Page_252'>252</a>.</li> +<li>Goltz, <a href='#3_Page_4'>4</a>, <a href='#3_Page_6'>6</a>.</li> +<li>Goncourt, J. de, <a href='#3_Page_49'>49</a>.</li> +<li>Gosse, P. H., <a href='#3_Page_100'>100</a>.</li> +<li>Gourmont, Remy de, <a href='#3_Page_128'>128</a>.</li> +<li>Gowers, Sir W., <a href='#3_Page_59'>59</a>, <a href='#3_Page_61'>61</a>.</li> +<li>Grisebach, E., <a href='#3_Page_182'>182</a>.</li> +<li>Groos, K., <a href='#3_Page_28'>28</a>, <a href='#3_Page_31'>31</a>, <a href='#3_Page_32'>32</a>, <a href='#3_Page_54'>54</a>, <a href='#3_Page_62'>62</a>, <a href='#3_Page_70'>70</a>, <a href='#3_Page_175'>175</a>.</li> +<li>Grosse, E., <a href='#3_Page_57'>57</a>, <a href='#3_Page_73'>73</a>, <a href='#3_Page_265'>265</a>.</li> +<li>Gualino, <a href='#3_Page_250'>250</a>.</li> +<li>Guinard, <a href='#3_Page_8'>8</a>, <a href='#3_Page_10'>10</a>, <a href='#3_Page_15'>15</a>.</li> +<li>Guise, <a href='#3_Page_44'>44</a>, <a href='#3_Page_234'>234</a>, <a href='#3_Page_270'>270</a>.</li> +<li>Guyon, <a href='#3_Page_59'>59</a>.</li> +<li>Gurlitt, <a href='#3_Page_179'>179</a>.</li> +<li>Guttceit, <a href='#3_Page_200'>200</a>, <a href='#3_Page_206'>206</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Häcker, <a href='#3_Page_30'>30</a>, <a href='#3_Page_34'>34</a>.</li> +<li>Haddon, A. C., <a href='#3_Page_43'>43</a>, <a href='#3_Page_47'>47</a>, <a href='#3_Page_68'>68</a>, <a href='#3_Page_234'>234</a>, <a href='#3_Page_270'>270</a>.</li> +<li>Haeckel, <a href='#3_Page_32'>32</a>.</li> +<li>Hagen, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>, <a href='#3_Page_190'>190</a>.</li> +<li>Halban, <a href='#3_Page_7'>7</a>.</li> +<li>Hall, G. Stanley, <a href='#3_Page_53'>53</a>, <a href='#3_Page_85'>85</a>, <a href='#3_Page_116'>116</a>, <a href='#3_Page_176'>176</a>, <a href='#3_Page_177'>177</a>, <a href='#3_Page_179'>179</a>.<a name='3_Page_345'></a></li> +<li>Haller, <a href='#3_Page_231'>231</a>.</li> +<li>Hamerling, <a href='#3_Page_112'>112</a>.</li> +<li>Hammer, <a href='#3_Page_147'>147</a>, <a href='#3_Page_219'>219</a>.</li> +<li>Hammond, <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>, <a href='#3_Page_195'>195</a>.</li> +<li>Hamon, <a href='#3_Page_166'>166</a>.</li> +<li>Hartmann, E. von, <a href='#3_Page_18'>18</a>.</li> +<li>Hawkesworth, <a href='#3_Page_46'>46</a>.</li> +<li>Hayes, J. J., <a href='#3_Page_76'>76</a>.</li> +<li>Heape, W., <a href='#3_Page_25'>25</a>, <a href='#3_Page_266'>266</a>, <a href='#3_Page_275'>275</a>.</li> +<li>Heard, <a href='#3_Page_274'>274</a>.</li> +<li>Hegar, <a href='#3_Page_19'>19</a>, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a>, <a href='#3_Page_231'>231</a>.</li> +<li>Heine, <a href='#3_Page_85'>85</a>, <a href='#3_Page_112'>112</a>.</li> +<li>Henz, <a href='#3_Page_78'>78</a>.</li> +<li>Herodotus, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Hicks, Braxton, <a href='#3_Page_13'>13</a>.</li> +<li>Hippocrates, <a href='#3_Page_194'>194</a>, <a href='#3_Page_237'>237</a>.</li> +<li>Hirn, <a href='#3_Page_33'>33</a>, <a href='#3_Page_34'>34</a>, <a href='#3_Page_92'>92</a>, <a href='#3_Page_175'>175</a>.</li> +<li>Hirschfeld, <a href='#3_Page_15'>15</a>, <a href='#3_Page_244'>244</a>.</li> +<li>Hoche, <a href='#3_Page_223'>223</a>.</li> +<li>Holden, W. C., <a href='#3_Page_48'>48</a>, <a href='#3_Page_55'>55</a>.</li> +<li>Holder, A. B., <a href='#3_Page_268'>268</a>.</li> +<li>Holt, R. B., <a href='#3_Page_133'>133</a>.</li> +<li>Horace, <a href='#3_Page_84'>84</a>.</li> +<li>Hornius, <a href='#3_Page_199'>199</a>.</li> +<li>Horsley, <a href='#3_Page_190'>190</a>.</li> +<li>Howard, <a href='#3_Page_29'>29</a>, <a href='#3_Page_32'>32</a>, <a href='#3_Page_232'>232</a>.</li> +<li>Howard, H. E., <a href='#3_Page_29'>29</a>, <a href='#3_Page_32'>32</a>.</li> +<li>Howarth, O. H., <a href='#3_Page_136'>136</a>.</li> +<li>Hubert, <a href='#3_Page_263'>263</a>.</li> +<li>Hudson, W. H., <a href='#3_Page_29'>29</a>, <a href='#3_Page_39'>39</a>.</li> +<li>Hutchinson, Sir J., <a href='#3_Page_248'>248</a>.</li> +<li>Huysmans, <a href='#3_Page_125'>125</a>.</li> +<li>Hyades, <a href='#3_Page_215'>215</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Jäger, <a href='#3_Page_10'>10</a>, <a href='#3_Page_69'>69</a>, <a href='#3_Page_237'>237</a>.</li> +<li>Janet, <a href='#3_Page_79'>79</a>, <a href='#3_Page_241'>241</a>.</li> +<li>Janin, <a href='#3_Page_108'>108</a>.</li> +<li>Jayle, <a href='#3_Page_11'>11</a>.</li> +<li>Jerome, St., <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>, <a href='#3_Page_197'>197</a>.</li> +<li>Joest, W., <a href='#3_Page_45'>45</a>.</li> +<li>Johnston, Sir H., <a href='#3_Page_76'>76</a>, <a href='#3_Page_271'>271</a>.</li> +<li>Jones, Brynmor, <a href='#3_Page_235'>235</a>.</li> +<li>Jones, Ernest, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Kafemann, <a href='#3_Page_232'>232</a>.</li> +<li>Keppler, <a href='#3_Page_11'>11</a>.</li> +<li>Key, Ellen, <a href='#3_Page_199'>199</a>, <a href='#3_Page_246'>246</a>.</li> +<li>Kiefer, <a href='#3_Page_136'>136</a>.</li> +<li>Kiernan, J. G., <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>, <a href='#3_Page_81'>81</a>, <a href='#3_Page_110'>110</a>, <a href='#3_Page_111'>111</a>, <a href='#3_Page_125'>125</a>, <a href='#3_Page_127'>127</a>, <a href='#3_Page_130'>130</a>, <a href='#3_Page_131'>131</a>, <a href='#3_Page_177'>177</a>, <a href='#3_Page_181'>181</a>, <a href='#3_Page_223'>223</a>.</li> +<li>Kisch, E. H., <a href='#3_Page_13'>13</a>, <a href='#3_Page_201'>201</a>, <a href='#3_Page_225'>225</a>, <a href='#3_Page_240'>240</a>.</li> +<li>Kleinpaul, <a href='#3_Page_193'>193</a>.</li> +<li>Kline, <a href='#3_Page_54'>54</a>.</li> +<li>Kolischer, <a href='#3_Page_207'>207</a>.</li> +<li>Kossmann, <a href='#3_Page_202'>202</a>.</li> +<li>Kowalevsky, <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>.</li> +<li>Krabbes, <a href='#3_Page_234'>234</a>.</li> +<li>Krafft-Ebing, <a href='#3_Page_69'>69</a>, <a href='#3_Page_70'>70</a>, <a href='#3_Page_79'>79</a>, <a href='#3_Page_94'>94</a>, <a href='#3_Page_105'>105</a>, <a href='#3_Page_111'>111</a>, <a href='#3_Page_112'>112</a>, <a href='#3_Page_113'>113</a>, <a href='#3_Page_147'>147</a>, <a href='#3_Page_176'>176</a>, <a href='#3_Page_195'>195</a>, <a href='#3_Page_244'>244</a>, <a href='#3_Page_251'>251</a>.</li> +<li>Krauss, <a href='#3_Page_78'>78</a>.</li> +<li>Kubary, <a href='#3_Page_60'>60</a>.</li> +<li>Kulischer, <a href='#3_Page_58'>58</a>.</li> +<li>Külpe, <a href='#3_Page_153'>153</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Lacassagne, <a href='#3_Page_109'>109</a>, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Lacroix, P., <a href='#3_Page_108'>108</a>.</li> +<li>Lagrange, <a href='#3_Page_53'>53</a>.</li> +<li>Lancaster, <a href='#3_Page_10'>10</a>.</li> +<li>Landor, A. H., Savage, <a href='#3_Page_87'>87</a>.</li> +<li>Lanphear, <a href='#3_Page_151'>151</a>.</li> +<li>Laserre, <a href='#3_Page_69'>69</a>.</li> +<li>Laurentius, <a href='#3_Page_194'>194</a>.</li> +<li>Lawson, <a href='#3_Page_249'>249</a>.</li> +<li>Lea, <a href='#3_Page_129'>129</a>.</li> +<li>Lécaillon, <a href='#3_Page_36'>36</a>.</li> +<li>Lehmann-Nitsche, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>.</li> +<li>Leppmann, <a href='#3_Page_121'>121</a>.</li> +<li>Lipa Bey, <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>.</li> +<li>Loeb, <a href='#3_Page_2'>2</a>.</li> +<li>Lombroso, <a href='#3_Page_147'>147</a>, <a href='#3_Page_177'>177</a>, <a href='#3_Page_195'>195</a>.</li> +<li>Long, S. H., <a href='#3_Page_48'>48</a>.</li> +<li>Lop, <a href='#3_Page_225'>225</a>.</li> +<li>Low, Brooke, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>, <a href='#3_Page_100'>100</a>.</li> +<li>Loti, P., <a href='#3_Page_49'>49</a>.</li> +<li>Löwenfeld, <a href='#3_Page_4'>4</a>, <a href='#3_Page_13'>13</a>, <a href='#3_Page_19'>19</a>, <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>, <a href='#3_Page_130'>130</a>, <a href='#3_Page_136'>136</a>, <a href='#3_Page_180'>180</a>, <a href='#3_Page_195'>195</a>, <a href='#3_Page_204'>204</a>, <a href='#3_Page_217'>217</a>, <a href='#3_Page_231'>231</a>, <a href='#3_Page_248'>248</a>.</li> +<li>Lubbock (Lord Avebury), <a href='#3_Page_259'>259</a>, <a href='#3_Page_265'>265</a>.</li> +<li>Lucian, <a href='#3_Page_80'>80</a>.</li> +<li>Lucretius, <a href='#3_Page_275'>275</a>.</li> +<li>Lunier, <a href='#3_Page_182'>182</a>.</li> +<li>Luther, <a href='#3_Page_3'>3</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Macdonald, Rev. J., <a href='#3_Page_49'>49</a>.</li> +<li>Macé, <a href='#3_Page_97'>97</a>.</li> +<li>MacGillicuddy, <a href='#3_Page_60'>60</a>.</li> +<li>MacLennan, <a href='#3_Page_71'>71</a>, <a href='#3_Page_72'>72</a>.</li> +<li>Macnaughton-Jones, <a href='#3_Page_14'>14</a>.</li> +<li>Maeder, <a href='#3_Page_176'>176</a>.</li> +<li>Maeterlinck, <a href='#3_Page_128'>128</a>.</li> +<li>Manacéine, Marie de, <a href='#3_Page_63'>63</a>.</li> +<li>Mandeville, <a href='#3_Page_246'>246</a>.</li> +<li>Mantegazza, <a href='#3_Page_80'>80</a>, <a href='#3_Page_93'>93</a>, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>, <a href='#3_Page_200'>200</a>, <a href='#3_Page_204'>204</a>.</li> +<li>Marandon de Montyel, <a href='#3_Page_60'>60</a>, <a href='#3_Page_144'>144</a>, <a href='#3_Page_148'>148</a>.</li> +<li>Marchesini, <a href='#3_Page_15'>15</a>, <a href='#3_Page_167'>167</a>.</li> +<li>Marcuse, Max, <a href='#3_Page_146'>146</a>, <a href='#3_Page_266'>266</a>.<a name='3_Page_346'></a></li> +<li>Mardrus, <a href='#3_Page_78'>78</a>.</li> +<li>Marie, A., <a href='#3_Page_110'>110</a>.</li> +<li>Marie, P., <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>.</li> +<li>Marie de France, <a href='#3_Page_78'>78</a>, <a href='#3_Page_89'>89</a>.</li> +<li>Mariner, <a href='#3_Page_52'>52</a>.</li> +<li>Marlowe, <a href='#3_Page_132'>132</a>.</li> +<li>Marot, Clement, <a href='#3_Page_140'>140</a>.</li> +<li>Marro, <a href='#3_Page_33'>33</a>, <a href='#3_Page_57'>57</a>, <a href='#3_Page_69'>69</a>, <a href='#3_Page_70'>70</a>, <a href='#3_Page_201'>201</a>, <a href='#3_Page_229'>229</a>, <a href='#3_Page_252'>252</a>, <a href='#3_Page_255'>255</a>.</li> +<li>Marsden, W., <a href='#3_Page_44'>44</a>.</li> +<li>Marshall, F. H. A., <a href='#3_Page_8'>8</a>, <a href='#3_Page_16'>16</a>, <a href='#3_Page_26'>26</a>, <a href='#3_Page_100'>100</a>, <a href='#3_Page_266'>266</a>.</li> +<li>Marshall, H. R., <a href='#3_Page_92'>92</a>, <a href='#3_Page_186'>186</a>.</li> +<li>Martial, <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>.</li> +<li>Martins, <a href='#3_Page_47'>47</a>.</li> +<li>Matignon, <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>.</li> +<li>Maudsley, <a href='#3_Page_230'>230</a>, <a href='#3_Page_248'>248</a>.</li> +<li>Mauriac, <a href='#3_Page_100'>100</a>.</li> +<li>Maus, <a href='#3_Page_263'>263</a>.</li> +<li>Maxwell, <a href='#3_Page_97'>97</a>.</li> +<li>Mayer, A., <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>.</li> +<li>McIlroy, A. L., <a href='#3_Page_16'>16</a>.</li> +<li>Meibomius, <a href='#3_Page_132'>132</a>.</li> +<li>Melville, Herman, <a href='#3_Page_55'>55</a>, <a href='#3_Page_269'>269</a>.</li> +<li>Meung, Jean de, <a href='#3_Page_198'>198</a>.</li> +<li>Meyer, A. B., <a href='#3_Page_53'>53</a>.</li> +<li>Middleton, T., <a href='#3_Page_89'>89</a>.</li> +<li>Miklucho-Macleay, <a href='#3_Page_98'>98</a>, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>, <a href='#3_Page_100'>100</a>.</li> +<li>Millais, J. G., <a href='#3_Page_28'>28</a>, <a href='#3_Page_32'>32</a>, <a href='#3_Page_40'>40</a>.</li> +<li>Millant, <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>.</li> +<li>Minovici, <a href='#3_Page_152'>152</a>.</li> +<li>Mirandola, Pico della, <a href='#3_Page_132'>132</a>.</li> +<li>Möbius, <a href='#3_Page_16'>16</a>.</li> +<li>Modigliani, E., <a href='#3_Page_44'>44</a>.</li> +<li>Moll, <a href='#3_Page_2'>2</a>, <a href='#3_Page_10'>10</a>, <a href='#3_Page_15'>15</a>, <a href='#3_Page_20'>20</a>, <a href='#3_Page_27'>27</a>, <a href='#3_Page_65'>65</a>, <a href='#3_Page_88'>88</a>, <a href='#3_Page_93'>93</a>, <a href='#3_Page_105'>105</a>, <a href='#3_Page_112'>112</a>, <a href='#3_Page_138'>138</a>, <a href='#3_Page_149'>149</a>, <a href='#3_Page_164'>164</a>, <a href='#3_Page_195'>195</a>, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a>, <a href='#3_Page_223'>223</a>.</li> +<li>Montaigne, <a href='#3_Page_3'>3</a>, <a href='#3_Page_109'>109</a>, <a href='#3_Page_198'>198</a>, <a href='#3_Page_247'>247</a>.</li> +<li>Montet, <a href='#3_Page_207'>207</a>.</li> +<li>Montgomery, T. H., <a href='#3_Page_174'>174</a>.</li> +<li>Moraglia, <a href='#3_Page_250'>250</a>.</li> +<li>More, Sir Thomas, <a href='#3_Page_4'>4</a>.</li> +<li>Morgan, C. Lloyd, <a href='#3_Page_2'>2</a>, <a href='#3_Page_24'>24</a>, <a href='#3_Page_33'>33</a>, <a href='#3_Page_172'>172</a>.</li> +<li>Mortimer, G., <a href='#3_Page_213'>213</a>.</li> +<li>Moule, <a href='#3_Page_77'>77</a>.</li> +<li>Moyer, <a href='#3_Page_110'>110</a>, <a href='#3_Page_127'>127</a>.</li> +<li>Mugnier, <a href='#3_Page_207'>207</a>.</li> +<li>Müller, R., <a href='#3_Page_8'>8</a>, <a href='#3_Page_29'>29</a>, <a href='#3_Page_67'>67</a>.</li> +<li>Mundé, P., <a href='#3_Page_14'>14</a>.</li> +<li>Munzer, <a href='#3_Page_16'>16</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Näcke, <a href='#3_Page_19'>19</a>, <a href='#3_Page_124'>124</a>, <a href='#3_Page_136'>136</a>, <a href='#3_Page_195'>195</a>, <a href='#3_Page_249'>249</a>, <a href='#3_Page_251'>251</a>, <a href='#3_Page_252'>252</a>.</li> +<li>Napier, Leith, <a href='#3_Page_243'>243</a>.</li> +<li>Nardelli, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a>.</li> +<li>Nenter, <a href='#3_Page_199'>199</a>.</li> +<li>Nesterus, <a href='#3_Page_132'>132</a>.</li> +<li>Nicefero, <a href='#3_Page_81'>81</a>.</li> +<li>Nietzsche, <a href='#3_Page_93'>93</a>, <a href='#3_Page_185'>185</a>.</li> +<li>Nussbaum, <a href='#3_Page_7'>7</a>.</li> +<li>Nyström, <a href='#3_Page_202'>202</a>, <a href='#3_Page_243'>243</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Obici, <a href='#3_Page_15'>15</a>, <a href='#3_Page_167'>167</a>.</li> +<li>Ordericus, Vitalis, <a href='#3_Page_197'>197</a>.</li> +<li>Otway, <a href='#3_Page_112'>112</a>.</li> +<li>Ovid, <a href='#3_Page_80'>80</a>, <a href='#3_Page_84'>84</a>, <a href='#3_Page_112'>112</a>, <a href='#3_Page_197'>197</a>, <a href='#3_Page_229'>229</a>, <a href='#3_Page_243'>243</a>.</li> +<li>Owen, Sir R., <a href='#3_Page_6'>6</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Pactet, <a href='#3_Page_251'>251</a>.</li> +<li>Papillon, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Parent-Duchâtelet, <a href='#3_Page_80'>80</a>.</li> +<li>Partridge, <a href='#3_Page_185'>185</a>.</li> +<li>Paullinus, <a href='#3_Page_79'>79</a>.</li> +<li>Peckham, G. W., <a href='#3_Page_2'>2</a>, <a href='#3_Page_35'>35</a>.</li> +<li>Pelikan, <a href='#3_Page_10'>10</a>.</li> +<li>Penta, <a href='#3_Page_128'>128</a>.</li> +<li>Petronius, <a href='#3_Page_84'>84</a>, <a href='#3_Page_181'>181</a>.</li> +<li>Pfister, <a href='#3_Page_11'>11</a>, <a href='#3_Page_214'>214</a>.</li> +<li>Pflüger, <a href='#3_Page_8'>8</a>.</li> +<li>Piéron, <a href='#3_Page_2'>2</a>.</li> +<li>Pilet, R., <a href='#3_Page_51'>51</a>.</li> +<li>Pitre, <a href='#3_Page_51'>51</a>.</li> +<li>Pitres, <a href='#3_Page_244'>244</a>.</li> +<li>Pittard, <a href='#3_Page_8'>8</a>.</li> +<li>Platen, <a href='#3_Page_112'>112</a>.</li> +<li>Plautus, <a href='#3_Page_84'>84</a>.</li> +<li>Plazzonus, <a href='#3_Page_199'>199</a>, <a href='#3_Page_247'>247</a>.</li> +<li>Ploss, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>, <a href='#3_Page_264'>264</a>, <a href='#3_Page_267'>267</a>.</li> +<li>Plutarch, <a href='#3_Page_84'>84</a>.</li> +<li>Poore, G. V., <a href='#3_Page_220'>220</a>.</li> +<li>Porosz, <a href='#3_Page_232'>232</a>.</li> +<li>Portman, <a href='#3_Page_268'>268</a>.</li> +<li>Potter, M. A., <a href='#3_Page_234'>234</a>.</li> +<li>Poulton, E. B., <a href='#3_Page_38'>38</a>.</li> +<li>Power, H., <a href='#3_Page_251'>251</a>.</li> +<li>Prinzing, <a href='#3_Page_190'>190</a>.</li> +<li>Propertius, <a href='#3_Page_84'>84</a>.</li> +<li>Purnell, C. W., <a href='#3_Page_2'>2</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Quirós, B. de, <a href='#3_Page_152'>152</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Rabelais, <a href='#3_Page_223'>223</a>.</li> +<li>Raciborski, <a href='#3_Page_194'>194</a>, <a href='#3_Page_275'>275</a>.</li> +<li>Racovitza, E. G., <a href='#3_Page_35'>35</a></li> +<li>Raymond, <a href='#3_Page_79'>79</a>, <a href='#3_Page_241'>241</a>.</li> +<li>Rees, <a href='#3_Page_194'>194</a>.</li> +<li>Régis, <a href='#3_Page_60'>60</a>, <a href='#3_Page_142'>142</a>, <a href='#3_Page_244'>244</a>.</li> +<li>Regoyos, <a href='#3_Page_136'>136</a>.<a name='3_Page_347'></a></li> +<li>Restif de la Bretonne, <a href='#3_Page_79'>79</a>, <a href='#3_Page_243'>243</a>, <a href='#3_Page_253'>253</a>.</li> +<li>Reverdin, <a href='#3_Page_150'>150</a>.</li> +<li>Rhodiginus, <a href='#3_Page_132'>132</a>.</li> +<li>Rhys, <a href='#3_Page_235'>235</a>.</li> +<li>Ribot, <a href='#3_Page_68'>68</a>.</li> +<li>Riedel, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>.</li> +<li>Ritter, <a href='#3_Page_207'>207</a>.</li> +<li>Robin, <a href='#3_Page_152'>152</a>, <a href='#3_Page_247'>247</a>.</li> +<li>Rohleder, <a href='#3_Page_4'>4</a>, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a>.</li> +<li>Roubaud, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a>.</li> +<li>Rousseau, J. J., <a href='#3_Page_56'>56</a>, <a href='#3_Page_113'>113</a>, <a href='#3_Page_146'>146</a>.</li> +<li>Rousset, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Roux, J., <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>.</li> +<li>Russo, <a href='#3_Page_80'>80</a>.</li> +<li>Ryan, M., <a href='#3_Page_200'>200</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Sacher-Masoch, <a href='#3_Page_113'>113</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Sacher-Masoch, Wanda von, <a href='#3_Page_114'>114</a>.</li> +<li>Sade, De, <a href='#3_Page_84'>84</a>, <a href='#3_Page_107'>107</a>.</li> +<li>Sadger, <a href='#3_Page_57'>57</a>.</li> +<li>Sajous, <a href='#3_Page_16'>16</a>.</li> +<li>Salillas, <a href='#3_Page_18'>18</a>.</li> +<li>Sand, George, <a href='#3_Page_71'>71</a>.</li> +<li>Sanitchenko, <a href='#3_Page_139'>139</a>.</li> +<li>Savage, Sir G., <a href='#3_Page_248'>248</a>, <a href='#3_Page_251'>251</a>.</li> +<li>Schäfer, <a href='#3_Page_70'>70</a>.</li> +<li>Schaller, <a href='#3_Page_57'>57</a>.</li> +<li>Schellong, <a href='#3_Page_270'>270</a>.</li> +<li>Schlichtegroll, C. F. von, <a href='#3_Page_79'>79</a>, <a href='#3_Page_114'>114</a>, <a href='#3_Page_177'>177</a>, <a href='#3_Page_180'>180</a>.</li> +<li>Schmidt-Heuert, <a href='#3_Page_138'>138</a>.</li> +<li>Schopenhauer, <a href='#3_Page_246'>246</a>.</li> +<li>Schreiner, S. C. Cronwright, <a href='#3_Page_41'>41</a>.</li> +<li>Schrenck-Notzing, <a href='#3_Page_119'>119</a>.</li> +<li>Schröter, <a href='#3_Page_214'>214</a>.</li> +<li>Schultz, <a href='#3_Page_234'>234</a>.</li> +<li>Schultze-Malkowsky, <a href='#3_Page_62'>62</a>.</li> +<li>Schurig, <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>, <a href='#3_Page_132'>132</a>, <a href='#3_Page_198'>198</a>.</li> +<li>Scott, Colin, <a href='#3_Page_67'>67</a>, <a href='#3_Page_113'>113</a>, <a href='#3_Page_173'>173</a>.</li> +<li>Seligmann, <a href='#3_Page_7'>7</a>.</li> +<li>Selous, Edmund, <a href='#3_Page_28'>28</a>, <a href='#3_Page_30'>30</a>, <a href='#3_Page_52'>52</a>, <a href='#3_Page_233'>233</a>, <a href='#3_Page_276'>276</a>.</li> +<li>Sénancour, <a href='#3_Page_199'>199</a>, <a href='#3_Page_253'>253</a>.</li> +<li>Sérieux, <a href='#3_Page_61'>61</a>, <a href='#3_Page_244'>244</a>.</li> +<li>Sergi, <a href='#3_Page_54'>54</a>, <a href='#3_Page_55'>55</a>.</li> +<li>Shakespeare, <a href='#3_Page_89'>89</a>, <a href='#3_Page_247'>247</a>.</li> +<li>Shattock, <a href='#3_Page_7'>7</a>.</li> +<li>Shaw, Claye, <a href='#3_Page_121'>121</a>, <a href='#3_Page_252'>252</a>, <a href='#3_Page_261'>261</a>, <a href='#3_Page_271'>271</a>.</li> +<li>Shufeldt, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a>.</li> +<li>Sinibaldus, <a href='#3_Page_199'>199</a>, <a href='#3_Page_246'>246</a>, <a href='#3_Page_249'>249</a>.</li> +<li>Skeat, <a href='#3_Page_71'>71</a>, <a href='#3_Page_76'>76</a>.</li> +<li>Smith, Lapthorn, <a href='#3_Page_12'>12</a>.</li> +<li>Smith, W. Robertson, <a href='#3_Page_262'>262</a>.</li> +<li>Smyth, Brough, <a href='#3_Page_75'>75</a>, <a href='#3_Page_270'>270</a>.</li> +<li>Sollier, <a href='#3_Page_252'>252</a>.</li> +<li>Spallanzani, <a href='#3_Page_4'>4</a>.</li> +<li>Spencer, Baldwin, <a href='#3_Page_75'>75</a>, <a href='#3_Page_262'>262</a>, <a href='#3_Page_264'>264</a>.</li> +<li>Spencer, Herbert, <a href='#3_Page_1'>1</a>, <a href='#3_Page_73'>73</a>, <a href='#3_Page_265'>265</a>.</li> +<li>Spitzka, <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>.</li> +<li>Spix, <a href='#3_Page_47'>47</a>.</li> +<li>Starbuck, <a href='#3_Page_250'>250</a>.</li> +<li>Stcherbak, <a href='#3_Page_157'>157</a>, <a href='#3_Page_178'>178</a>.</li> +<li>Stearns, <a href='#3_Page_166'>166</a>.</li> +<li>Stefanowsky, <a href='#3_Page_111'>111</a>.</li> +<li>Steinach, E., <a href='#3_Page_5'>5</a>, <a href='#3_Page_7'>7</a>, <a href='#3_Page_8'>8</a>, <a href='#3_Page_233'>233</a>.</li> +<li>Stendhal, De, <a href='#3_Page_95'>95</a>, <a href='#3_Page_243'>243</a>.</li> +<li>Stevens, <a href='#3_Page_153'>153</a>.</li> +<li>Stevens, H. V., <a href='#3_Page_71'>71</a>, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>, <a href='#3_Page_270'>270</a>.</li> +<li>Strümpell, <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>.</li> +<li>Stubbs, <a href='#3_Page_274'>274</a>.</li> +<li>Sully, <a href='#3_Page_68'>68</a>.</li> +<li>Sutherland, A., <a href='#3_Page_267'>267</a>.</li> +<li>Swieten, Van, <a href='#3_Page_240'>240</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Tait, Lawson, <a href='#3_Page_12'>12</a>, <a href='#3_Page_194'>194</a>, <a href='#3_Page_222'>222</a>, <a href='#3_Page_226'>226</a>.</li> +<li>Tambroni, <a href='#3_Page_167'>167</a>.</li> +<li>Tarchanoff, <a href='#3_Page_5'>5</a>.</li> +<li>Tarde, <a href='#3_Page_4'>4</a>, <a href='#3_Page_229'>229</a>, <a href='#3_Page_230'>230</a>.</li> +<li>Tate, H. R., <a href='#3_Page_51'>51</a>.</li> +<li>Tautain, <a href='#3_Page_46'>46</a>.</li> +<li>Taylor, Jeremy, <a href='#3_Page_274'>274</a>.</li> +<li>Tchlenoff, <a href='#3_Page_221'>221</a>.</li> +<li>Tertullian, <a href='#3_Page_197'>197</a>.</li> +<li>Thoinot, <a href='#3_Page_127'>127</a>.</li> +<li>Thomas, N., <a href='#3_Page_263'>263</a>.</li> +<li>Thomas, P., <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Thompson, <a href='#3_Page_153'>153</a>.</li> +<li>Tillier, <a href='#3_Page_28'>28</a>, <a href='#3_Page_32'>32</a>.</li> +<li>Tilt, <a href='#3_Page_231'>231</a>.</li> +<li>Tolstoy, <a href='#3_Page_154'>154</a>.</li> +<li>Townsend, J., <a href='#3_Page_136'>136</a>.</li> +<li>Treves, Marco, <a href='#3_Page_96'>96</a>.</li> +<li>Trousseau, <a href='#3_Page_248'>248</a>.</li> +<li>Tschisch, <a href='#3_Page_94'>94</a>.</li> +<li>Turley, <a href='#3_Page_38'>38</a>.</li> +<li>Turnbull, J., <a href='#3_Page_75'>75</a>.</li> +<li>Tylor, <a href='#3_Page_72'>72</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Vahness, <a href='#3_Page_270'>270</a>.</li> +<li>Vambery, <a href='#3_Page_74'>74</a>, <a href='#3_Page_77'>77</a>, <a href='#3_Page_273'>273</a>.</li> +<li>Vatsyayana, <a href='#3_Page_78'>78</a>, <a href='#3_Page_85'>85</a>, <a href='#3_Page_87'>87</a>, <a href='#3_Page_124'>124</a>.</li> +<li>Vedeler, <a href='#3_Page_200'>200</a>.</li> +<li>Velten, <a href='#3_Page_51'>51</a>, <a href='#3_Page_273'>273</a>.</li> +<li>Venette, <a href='#3_Page_198'>198</a>.</li> +<li>Vespucci, Amerigo, <a href='#3_Page_98'>98</a>.</li> +<li>Vincent, Swale, <a href='#3_Page_16'>16</a>.</li> +<li>Voisin, <a href='#3_Page_252'>252</a>.</li> +</ul> + +<a name='3_Page_348'></a> +<ul><li>Wallace, A. R., <a href='#3_Page_24'>24</a>, <a href='#3_Page_27'>27</a>.</li> +<li>Wallaschek, <a href='#3_Page_34'>34</a>, <a href='#3_Page_57'>57</a>.</li> +<li>Waller, E., <a href='#3_Page_16'>16</a>.</li> +<li>Walsingham, <a href='#3_Page_135'>135</a>.</li> +<li>Weismann, <a href='#3_Page_31'>31</a>.</li> +<li>Weissenberg, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>.</li> +<li>Wesché, W., <a href='#3_Page_19'>19</a>.</li> +<li>Wessmann, Rev. R., <a href='#3_Page_273'>273</a>.</li> +<li>Westermarck, <a href='#3_Page_52'>52</a>, <a href='#3_Page_73'>73</a>, <a href='#3_Page_74'>74</a>, <a href='#3_Page_234'>234</a>, <a href='#3_Page_265'>265</a>.</li> +<li>Wiedemann, <a href='#3_Page_113'>113</a>.</li> +<li>Weysse, <a href='#3_Page_127'>127</a>.</li> +<li>Williams, Montagu, <a href='#3_Page_80'>80</a>.</li> +<li>Williams, W. Roger, <a href='#3_Page_243'>243</a>.</li> +<li>Winckel, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a>.</li> +<li>Windscheid, <a href='#3_Page_195'>195</a>.</li> +<li>Wittenberg, <a href='#3_Page_200'>200</a>.</li> +<li>Wolbarst, <a href='#3_Page_224'>224</a>.</li> +<li>Wollstonecraft, Mary, <a href='#3_Page_276'>276</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Yellowlees, <a href='#3_Page_243'>243</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Zacchia, <a href='#3_Page_199'>199</a>.</li> +<li>Zambaco, <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>.</li> +<li>Ziegler, H. E., <a href='#3_Page_31'>31</a>.</li> +<li>Ziehen, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a>.</li> +<li>Zmigrodski, <a href='#3_Page_54'>54</a>.</li> +</ul> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='3_INDEX_OF_SUBJECTS'></a><h2>INDEX OF SUBJECTS.</h2> +<a name='3_Page_349'></a> + +<ul><li>Abduction of women in Great Britain, <a href='#3_Page_72'>72</a>.</li> +<li>Abstinence in women, +<ul><li>effects of sexual, <a href='#3_Page_230'>230</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Adolescence, +<ul><li>criminality and, <a href='#3_Page_70'>70</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Adolescent girls, +<ul><li>sexual manifestations in, <a href='#3_Page_209'>209</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Adrenal glands, <a href='#3_Page_16'>16</a>.</li> +<li>Africa, +<ul><li>marriage by capture in, <a href='#3_Page_76'>76</a>. +<li>sexual instinct in, <a href='#3_Page_27'>27</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li><i>Agelena labyrinthica</i>, <a href='#3_Page_36'>36</a>.</li> +<li>Ainu, +<ul><li>love-bite among, <a href='#3_Page_87'>87</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Algolagnia, <a href='#3_Page_119'>119</a>. +<ul><li>ideal, <a href='#3_Page_166'>166</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Algophily, <a href='#3_Page_119'>119</a>.</li> +<li>Amblyopia, +<ul><li>post-marital, <a href='#3_Page_248'>248</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>American Indians, +<ul><li>courtship among, <a href='#3_Page_48'>48</a>, <a href='#3_Page_80'>80</a>. +<li>sexual instinct in, <a href='#3_Page_268'>268</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Ampallang, <a href='#3_Page_98'>98</a>.</li> +<li>Anæsthesia in women, +<ul><li>sexual, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a> <i>et seq.</i> +<li>a cause of sterility, <a href='#3_Page_212'>212</a>. +<li>causes of, <a href='#3_Page_207'>207</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Anger and sexual emotion, <a href='#3_Page_138'>138</a>, <a href='#3_Page_172'>172</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Anhedonia, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a>.</li> +<li>Anxiety as a sexual stimulant, <a href='#3_Page_179'>179</a>.</li> +<li>Ardisson, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Argus pheasant, courtship of, <a href='#3_Page_40'>40</a>.</li> +<li>Aristotle as a masochist, <a href='#3_Page_111'>111</a>.</li> +<li>Arrest of movement producing sexual excitement, <a href='#3_Page_168'>168</a>.</li> +<li>Ascetic attitude toward women, the, <a href='#3_Page_192'>192</a>.</li> +<li>Assaults on children by women, +<ul><li>sexual, <a href='#3_Page_225'>225</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Australians, +<ul><li>courtship among, <a href='#3_Page_41'>41</a>, <a href='#3_Page_75'>75</a>. +<li>sexual instinct in, <a href='#3_Page_262'>262</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Auto-intoxication by muscular movement, <a href='#3_Page_53'>53</a>.</li> +<li>Auto-sadism, <a href='#3_Page_127'>127</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Bambula dance, <a href='#3_Page_49'>49</a>.</li> +<li>Bathory, Countess, <a href='#3_Page_124'>124</a>.</li> +<li>Bedouins, +<ul><li>marriage by capture among, <a href='#3_Page_77'>77</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Bertrand, Sergeant, <a href='#3_Page_182'>182</a>.</li> +<li>Birds, +<ul><li>sexual impulse in, <a href='#3_Page_30'>30</a>, <a href='#3_Page_233'>233</a>, <a href='#3_Page_246'>246</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Bismarck, +<ul><li>traces of masochism in, <a href='#3_Page_112'>112</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Biting in relationship to sexual instinct, <a href='#3_Page_84'>84</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#3_Page_120'>120</a>.</li> +<li>Bladder and sexual organs, +<ul><li>relationship between, <a href='#3_Page_59'>59</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Blood, +<ul><li>the fascination of, <a href='#3_Page_121'>121</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Borneo, +<ul><li>use of ampallang in, <a href='#3_Page_98'>98</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Brazil, +<ul><li>courtship in, <a href='#3_Page_47'>47</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Bullying, <a href='#3_Page_173'>173</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Capture, +<ul><li>marriage by, <a href='#3_Page_71'>71</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Castration, <a href='#3_Page_7'>7</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#3_Page_237'>237</a>.</li> +<li>Cerebellum as a sexual center, <a href='#3_Page_15'>15</a>.</li> +<li>Cerebral sexual centers, +<ul><li>alleged, <a href='#3_Page_15'>15</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Chained, +<ul><li>the idea of being, <a href='#3_Page_156'>156</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Chastity among savages, <a href='#3_Page_260'>260</a>, <a href='#3_Page_266'>266</a>.</li> +<li>China, +<ul><li>marriage ceremony in, <a href='#3_Page_77'>77</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Chinese eunuchs, <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>.</li> +<li>Chinese hedgehog, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>.</li> +<li>Christianity and women, <a href='#3_Page_192'>192</a>, <a href='#3_Page_197'>197</a>.</li> +<li>Church and flagellation, the, <a href='#3_Page_129'>129</a>, <a href='#3_Page_130'>130</a>.</li> +<li>Coitus, +<ul><li>mechanism of, <a href='#3_Page_235'>235</a>. +<li>compared to epilepsy, <a href='#3_Page_63'>63</a>. +<li>often sacred among savages, <a href='#3_Page_261'>261</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Combat and courtship, <a href='#3_Page_28'>28</a>, <a href='#3_Page_67'>67</a>, <a href='#3_Page_172'>172</a>.</li> +<li>Contrectation, <a href='#3_Page_21'>21</a>.</li> +<li>Courtship, <a href='#3_Page_22'>22</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#3_Page_33'>33</a>, <a href='#3_Page_34'>34</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#3_Page_66'>66</a> <i>et seq.</i>, +<ul><li> <a href='#3_Page_172'>172</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#3_Page_229'>229</a>, <a href='#3_Page_239'>239</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Cow-birds, +<ul><li>courtship of, <a href='#3_Page_39'>39</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Crime as a manifestation of adolescence, <a href='#3_Page_70'>70</a>.</li> +<li>Criminality in relation to marriage, <a href='#3_Page_190'>190</a>.</li> +<li>Cruelty among animals, <a href='#3_Page_67'>67</a>. +<ul><li>in human beings, <a href='#3_Page_68'>68</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#3_Page_83'>83</a>, <a href='#3_Page_109'>109</a>, <a href='#3_Page_171'>171</a>, <a href='#3_Page_185'>185</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Cymri, +<ul><li>marriage customs of, <a href='#3_Page_133'>133</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Dancing in relation to sexual impulse, <a href='#3_Page_29'>29</a>, <a href='#3_Page_41'>41</a> <i>et seq.</i> <a href='#3_Page_53'>53</a>, <a href='#3_Page_56'>56</a>. +<ul><li>among Australians, <a href='#3_Page_41'>41</a>.<a name='3_Page_350'></a></li> +<li> the most usual method of attaining tumescence, <a href='#3_Page_53'>53</a>.</li> +<li>why it acts so powerfully on the organism, <a href='#3_Page_54'>54</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Day-dreams, erotic, <a href='#3_Page_143'>143</a>, <a href='#3_Page_145'>145</a>, <a href='#3_Page_146'>146</a>.</li> +<li>Degenerative conditions on sexual desire, +<ul><li>influence of, <a href='#3_Page_175'>175</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li><i>Dendryphantes elegans</i>, <a href='#3_Page_36'>36</a>.</li> +<li>Detumescence, +<ul><li>impulse of, <a href='#3_Page_21'>21</a>, <a href='#3_Page_59'>59</a>, <a href='#3_Page_63'>63</a>, <a href='#3_Page_65'>65</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Diffusion of sexual impulse in women, <a href='#3_Page_249'>249</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Discipline, the, <a href='#3_Page_129'>129</a>.</li> +<li>Disgust as a sexual stimulant, <a href='#3_Page_178'>178</a>.</li> +<li>Divorce in relation to sexual difference in the suicide-rate, <a href='#3_Page_189'>189</a>.</li> +<li>Doraphobia, <a href='#3_Page_115'>115</a>.</li> +<li>Dreams of struggling horses, <a href='#3_Page_169'>169</a>. +<ul><li>erotic, <a href='#3_Page_241'>241</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Drunkenness in relation to marriage, <a href='#3_Page_191'>191</a>.</li> +<li>Ducks, +<ul><li>courtship among, <a href='#3_Page_10'>10</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Ductless glands, <a href='#3_Page_16'>16</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Eider-ducks, +<ul><li>courtship of, <a href='#3_Page_233'>233</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Ejaculation, +<ul><li>premature, <a href='#3_Page_232'>232</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Emotion aroused by pain, <a href='#3_Page_172'>172</a>, <a href='#3_Page_186'>186</a>.</li> +<li>Ephesian matron, the, <a href='#3_Page_181'>181</a>.</li> +<li>Epilepsy and micturition, <a href='#3_Page_59'>59</a>, <a href='#3_Page_61'>61</a>. +<ul><li>analogy between coitus, <a href='#3_Page_63'>63</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Erotic symbolism, <a href='#3_Page_188'>188</a>.</li> +<li>Erotisation, <a href='#3_Page_8'>8</a>.</li> +<li>Eskimos, +<ul><li>marriage by capture among, <a href='#3_Page_75'>75</a>. +<li>sexual instinct in, <a href='#3_Page_268'>268</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Esthetic sense of animals, +<ul><li>alleged, <a href='#3_Page_266'>266</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Estrus, <a href='#3_Page_25'>25</a>.</li> +<li>Eunuchs, +<ul><li>sexual impulse in, <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Evacuation theory of sexual impulse, <a href='#3_Page_3'>3</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#3_Page_17'>17</a>, <a href='#3_Page_58'>58</a>.</li> +<li>Excess in intercourse not injurious to women, <a href='#3_Page_247'>247</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Exercise, the intoxication of muscular, <a href='#3_Page_53'>53</a>.</li> +<li>Exhibitionism, a cause of, <a href='#3_Page_223'>223</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Faroe Islanders, +<ul><li>courtship among.</li></ul></li> +<li>Fatigue, <a href='#3_Page_182'>182</a>, <a href='#3_Page_187'>187</a>.</li> +<li>Fear as a sexual stimulant, <a href='#3_Page_138'>138</a>, <a href='#3_Page_172'>172</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Fetichism, <a href='#3_Page_156'>156</a>, <a href='#3_Page_157'>157</a>.</li> +<li>Fetters, +<ul><li>the fascination of, <a href='#3_Page_156'>156</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Flagellation, <a href='#3_Page_129'>129</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Frigidity, +<ul><li>in women, sexual, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a> <i>et seq.</i> +<li>a cause of sterility, <a href='#3_Page_212'>212</a>, <a href='#3_Page_239'>239</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Frog, +<ul><li>sexual instinct of, <a href='#3_Page_4'>4</a>, <a href='#3_Page_7'>7</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Fuegians, +<ul><li>sexual instinct in, <a href='#3_Page_268'>268</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Funerals as a sexual stimulant, <a href='#3_Page_180'>180</a>.</li> +<li>Fur, +<ul><li>fascination of, <a href='#3_Page_115'>115</a>, <a href='#3_Page_116'>116</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Gelding, +<ul><li>sexual impulse in, <a href='#3_Page_8'>8</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Genital sphere larger in women, <a href='#3_Page_249'>249</a>.</li> +<li>Geskel, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>.</li> +<li><i>Glandulæ vesiculares</i>, <a href='#3_Page_6'>6</a>.</li> +<li>Goethe's masochism, <a href='#3_Page_112'>112</a>.</li> +<li>Gonorrhœa in young boys, <a href='#3_Page_224'>224</a>.</li> +<li>Greek antiquity, love in, <a href='#3_Page_196'>196</a>.</li> +<li>Grief as a sexual stimulant, <a href='#3_Page_180'>180</a>.</li> +<li>Griselda, <a href='#3_Page_102'>102</a>.</li> +<li>Gurus, +<ul><li>courtship among, <a href='#3_Page_50'>50</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Hanging and sexual excitement, <a href='#3_Page_152'>152</a>.</li> +<li>Head hunting, <a href='#3_Page_68'>68</a>.</li> +<li><i>Helix aspersa</i>, <a href='#3_Page_35'>35</a>.</li> +<li>Hemothymia, <a href='#3_Page_121'>121</a>.</li> +<li>Hormones, <a href='#3_Page_16'>16</a>.</li> +<li><i>Horror feminæ</i> normal in absence of sexual impulse, <a href='#3_Page_265'>265</a>.</li> +<li>Horses, +<ul><li>sexual perversion in, <a href='#3_Page_137'>137</a>. +<li>sexual excitement produced by spectacle of, <a href='#3_Page_169'>169</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Hungary, +<ul><li>masochism in, <a href='#3_Page_79'>79</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Hunger, +<ul><li>analogy between sexual impulse and, <a href='#3_Page_64'>64</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Hyperhedonia, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a>.</li> +<li>Hyphedonia, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a>.</li> +<li>Hypnotic suggestions and frigidity, <a href='#3_Page_240'>240</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Impregnation in relation to tumescence, <a href='#3_Page_212'>212</a>, <a href='#3_Page_239'>239</a>.</li> +<li>Impulse, +<ul><li>definition of sexual, <a href='#3_Page_2'>2</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>India, +<ul><li>courtship in, <a href='#3_Page_46'>46</a>, <a href='#3_Page_77'>77</a>. +<li>sexual instinct in, <a href='#3_Page_273'>273</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Indians, +<ul><li>courtship among American, <a href='#3_Page_48'>48</a>, <a href='#3_Page_80'>80</a>. +<li>sexual instinct among American, <a href='#3_Page_268'>268</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Indonesian peoples, +<ul><li>use of ampallang, etc., among, <a href='#3_Page_97'>97</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Insanity,<a name='3_Page_351'></a> +<ul><li> in relation to marriage, <a href='#3_Page_190'>190</a>. +<li>in relation to sexual instinct, <a href='#3_Page_214'>214</a>, <a href='#3_Page_251'>251</a>, <a href='#3_Page_255'>255</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Instinct, +<ul><li>definition of, <a href='#3_Page_1'>1</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Internal secretions, <a href='#3_Page_16'>16</a>.</li> +<li>Intoxication, +<ul><li>the fascination of, <a href='#3_Page_54'>54</a>, <a href='#3_Page_185'>185</a>. +<li>of muscular movement, <a href='#3_Page_53'>53</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Inversion, +<ul><li>associated with masochism, <a href='#3_Page_149'>149</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Jealousy among savages, <a href='#3_Page_265'>265</a>.</li> +<li>Jew, +<ul><li>sexual impulse in, <a href='#3_Page_238'>238</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Kaffirs, +<ul><li>courtship among, <a href='#3_Page_48'>48</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Kambion, <a href='#3_Page_98'>98</a>.</li> +<li>Kirghiz, +<ul><li>marriage by capture among, <a href='#3_Page_71'>71</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Kiss, +<ul><li>origin of, <a href='#3_Page_86'>86</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Lactation, +<ul><li>no intercourse among some savages during, <a href='#3_Page_268'>268</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Laughter and the sexual sphere, <a href='#3_Page_62'>62</a>.</li> +<li><i>Leistes superciliaris</i>, <a href='#3_Page_39'>39</a>.</li> +<li>Love-bite, the, <a href='#3_Page_84'>84</a>, <a href='#3_Page_120'>120</a>.</li> +<li>Love-songs rare among savages, <a href='#3_Page_265'>265</a>.</li> +<li>Lycanthropy, <a href='#3_Page_125'>125</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Malays, +<ul><li>coitus among, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>, <a href='#3_Page_237'>237</a>, <a href='#3_Page_270'>270</a>. +<li>courtship among, <a href='#3_Page_44'>44</a>, <a href='#3_Page_71'>71</a>, <a href='#3_Page_76'>76</a>. +<li>sexual instinct in, <a href='#3_Page_270'>270</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li><i>Mantis religiosa</i>, <a href='#3_Page_37'>37</a>.</li> +<li>Maoris, +<ul><li>marriage by capture among, <a href='#3_Page_75'>75</a>. +<li>sexual instinct in, <a href='#3_Page_269'>269</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Marquesans, +<ul><li>courtship among, <a href='#3_Page_46'>46</a>. +<li>sexual instinct in, <a href='#3_Page_269'>269</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Marriage by capture, <a href='#3_Page_71'>71</a> <i>et seq.</i> +<ul><li>in relation to suicide, <a href='#3_Page_189'>189</a>. +<li>in relation to insanity and criminality, <a href='#3_Page_190'>190</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Marsh-bird, +<ul><li>courtship of, <a href='#3_Page_39'>39</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Masochism among Slav women, <a href='#3_Page_79'>79</a>. +<ul><li>definition of, <a href='#3_Page_111'>111</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#3_Page_120'>120</a>, <a href='#3_Page_132'>132</a>. +<li>its psychological mechanism, <a href='#3_Page_101'>101</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#3_Page_149'>149</a>, <a href='#3_Page_159'>159</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Masturbation in women, <a href='#3_Page_241'>241</a>, <a href='#3_Page_243'>243</a>, <a href='#3_Page_249'>249</a>.</li> +<li>Menopause, sexual impulse after, <a href='#3_Page_13'>13</a>.</li> +<li>Menstruation and sexual impulse, <a href='#3_Page_214'>214</a>, <a href='#3_Page_215'>215</a>.</li> +<li>Micturition and sexual impulse, <a href='#3_Page_59'>59</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Mixoscopia, +<ul><li>hysterical, <a href='#3_Page_177'>177</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Modesty among savages, <a href='#3_Page_259'>259</a>. +<ul><li>object of, <a href='#3_Page_29'>29</a>, <a href='#3_Page_33'>33</a>, <a href='#3_Page_68'>68</a>, <a href='#3_Page_73'>73</a>. +<li>obsessions of, <a href='#3_Page_60'>60</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li><i>Molothrus bonariensis</i>, <a href='#3_Page_39'>39</a>.</li> +<li>Moluccas, +<ul><li>courtship in, <a href='#3_Page_45'>45</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Monogamy, +<ul><li>its advantages for men, <a href='#3_Page_189'>189</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Mortality connected with the development of the sexual instinct, <a href='#3_Page_276'>276</a>.</li> +<li>Moslems, +<ul><li>coitus among, <a href='#3_Page_274'>274</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Moths, +<ul><li>courtship of, <a href='#3_Page_38'>38</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Motion, +<ul><li>the pleasure of, <a href='#3_Page_54'>54</a>, <a href='#3_Page_58'>58</a>. +<li>arrest of, <a href='#3_Page_168'>168</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Muscular movement, +<ul><li>auto-intoxication by, <a href='#3_Page_53'>53</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Music, +<ul><li>sexual influence of, <a href='#3_Page_29'>29</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Necrophilism, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>, <a href='#3_Page_182'>182</a>.</li> +<li>Necrosadism, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Negresses not jealous, <a href='#3_Page_266'>266</a>.</li> +<li>Negro eunuchs, <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>.</li> +<li>Negroes, +<ul><li>sexual instinct in, <a href='#3_Page_238'>238</a>, <a href='#3_Page_271'>271</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Neurasthenia, sexual, <a href='#3_Page_232'>232</a>.</li> +<li>New Caledonia, +<ul><li>courtship in, <a href='#3_Page_75'>75</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>New Guinea, +<ul><li>courtship in, <a href='#3_Page_43'>43</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>New Hebrides, +<ul><li>courtship in, <a href='#3_Page_45'>45</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>New Mexico, +<ul><li>courtship in, <a href='#3_Page_47'>47</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>New Zealand, +<ul><li>marriage by capture in, <a href='#3_Page_75'>75</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Nubia, +<ul><li>eunuchs in, <a href='#3_Page_10'>10</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Obsessions, +<ul><li>sexual, <a href='#3_Page_60'>60</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Octopus, +<ul><li>courtship of, <a href='#3_Page_35'>35</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Odour, +<ul><li>excitation by, <a href='#3_Page_183'>183</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Oneida community, <a href='#3_Page_237'>237</a>.</li> +<li>Oöphorectomy and sexual impulse, <a href='#3_Page_13'>13</a>, <a href='#3_Page_204'>204</a>.</li> +<li>Orgasm lasts longer in women, <a href='#3_Page_236'>236</a>.</li> +<li>Ostrich, +<ul><li>courtship of, <a href='#3_Page_41'>41</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Ovariotomy and sexual impulse, <a href='#3_Page_13'>13</a>, <a href='#3_Page_204'>204</a>.</li> +<li>Ovary, +<ul><li>secretions of, <a href='#3_Page_16'>16</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Ox, +<ul><li>sexual impulse in, <a href='#3_Page_8'>8</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + +<a name='3_Page_352'></a> +<ul><li>Pain the essential element in algolagnia, <a href='#3_Page_159'>159</a>, <a href='#3_Page_172'>172</a>.</li> +<li>Palang, <a href='#3_Page_98'>98</a>.</li> +<li>Papuans, +<ul><li>courtship among, <a href='#3_Page_43'>43</a>. +<li>sexual instinct in, <a href='#3_Page_269'>269</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Parturition sometimes painless, <a href='#3_Page_96'>96</a>.</li> +<li>Passivism, <a href='#3_Page_111'>111</a>.</li> +<li>Passivity of women only apparent, <a href='#3_Page_229'>229</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Penis in lower animals, +<ul><li>peculiarities of, <a href='#3_Page_100'>100</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Periodicity of sexual impulse among savages, <a href='#3_Page_275'>275</a>. +<ul><li>greater in women, <a href='#3_Page_223'>223</a>, <a href='#3_Page_254'>254</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li><i>Pitangus Bolivianus</i>, <a href='#3_Page_39'>39</a>.</li> +<li>Pleasure, +<ul><li>in what sense pain may be felt as, <a href='#3_Page_90'>90</a> <i>et seq.</i> +<li>its manifestations resemble those of pain, <a href='#3_Page_84'>84</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Plover, +<ul><li>dances of great, <a href='#3_Page_30'>30</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Power in sexual sphere, +<ul><li>love of, <a href='#3_Page_78'>78</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Precocity of women, +<ul><li>sexual, <a href='#3_Page_243'>243</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Pregnancy, +<ul><li>savages often avoid intercourse during, <a href='#3_Page_268'>268</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li><i>Probenächte</i>, <a href='#3_Page_78'>78</a>.</li> +<li>Procreation among savages, +<ul><li>sacredness of, <a href='#3_Page_261'>261</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Pro-estrum, <a href='#3_Page_25'>25</a>.</li> +<li>Prostitutes' love of <i>souteneur</i>, <a href='#3_Page_80'>80</a>.</li> +<li>Prostitution not found under primitive conditions, <a href='#3_Page_260'>260</a>, <a href='#3_Page_269'>269</a>.</li> +<li>Puberty in girls, +<ul><li>sexual manifestations at, <a href='#3_Page_209'>209</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Rais, Gilles de, <a href='#3_Page_125'>125</a>.</li> +<li><i>Rana temporaria</i>, <a href='#3_Page_5'>5</a>.</li> +<li>Rape and sadism, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Rat, +<ul><li>sexual instinct of white, <a href='#3_Page_5'>5</a>, <a href='#3_Page_6'>6</a>, <a href='#3_Page_233'>233</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Reeves and ruffs, <a href='#3_Page_28'>28</a>.</li> +<li>Reflex action, +<ul><li>instinct and, <a href='#3_Page_2'>2</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Reidal, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Religious flagellation, <a href='#3_Page_130'>130</a>.</li> +<li>Religious storm and stress in women, <a href='#3_Page_250'>250</a>.</li> +<li>Reproductive impulse, +<ul><li>alleged, <a href='#3_Page_19'>19</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Respiration in connection with sexual emotion, <a href='#3_Page_153'>153</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Responsibility of Sadists, <a href='#3_Page_127'>127</a>.</li> +<li>Rome, +<ul><li>eunuchs in ancient, <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Rosseau's masochism, <a href='#3_Page_113'>113</a>, <a href='#3_Page_146'>146</a>, <a href='#3_Page_207'>207</a>.</li> +<li>Russia, +<ul><li>masochism in, <a href='#3_Page_79'>79</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Sacher-Masoch, <a href='#3_Page_114'>114</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Sacredness of procreation among savages, <a href='#3_Page_261'>261</a>.</li> +<li>Sade, De, <a href='#3_Page_106'>106</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#3_Page_159'>159</a>.</li> +<li>Sadism, <a href='#3_Page_69'>69</a>, <a href='#3_Page_132'>132</a>, <a href='#3_Page_148'>148</a>. +<ul><li>definition of, <a href='#3_Page_105'>105</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#3_Page_120'>120</a>. +<li>its psychological mechanism, <a href='#3_Page_160'>160</a> <i>et seq.</i> +<li>responsibility in, <a href='#3_Page_127'>127</a>. +<li>often combined with masochism, <a href='#3_Page_159'>159</a>. +<li>ideal, <a href='#3_Page_165'>165</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li><i>Saitis pulex</i>, <a href='#3_Page_35'>35</a>.</li> +<li>Savages, +<ul><li>sexual erethism in, <a href='#3_Page_52'>52</a>, <a href='#3_Page_259'>259</a> <i>et seq.</i> +<li>dancing among, <a href='#3_Page_53'>53</a>. +<li>sexual impulse weak in, <a href='#3_Page_52'>52</a>, <a href='#3_Page_261'>261</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Sea-gulls, +<ul><li>courtship among, <a href='#3_Page_246'>246</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Secondary sexual characters, <a href='#3_Page_7'>7</a>.</li> +<li>Seminal receptacles of frogs, <a href='#3_Page_5'>5</a>.</li> +<li>Seminal vesicles, <a href='#3_Page_5'>5</a>. +<ul><li>functions of, <a href='#3_Page_6'>6</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Senegal, +<ul><li>courtship in, <a href='#3_Page_49'>49</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Sensibility of genital sphere in women, <a href='#3_Page_95'>95</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#3_Page_236'>236</a>.</li> +<li>Sensory acuteness in women, <a href='#3_Page_203'>203</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Sexual cerebral centers, +<ul><li>hypothetical, <a href='#3_Page_15'>15</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Sexual impulse, +<ul><li>definition of, <a href='#3_Page_2'>2</a>, <a href='#3_Page_65'>65</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Sexual incompetence, +<ul><li>prevalence of, <a href='#3_Page_232'>232</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Sexual selection, +<ul><li>psychological aspects of, <a href='#3_Page_22'>22</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Sexual season, <a href='#3_Page_25'>25</a>.</li> +<li>Shaftesbury's supposed masochism, <a href='#3_Page_112'>112</a>.</li> +<li>Shoe-fetichism, <a href='#3_Page_157'>157</a>.</li> +<li>Sicily, courtship in, <a href='#3_Page_51'>51</a>. +<ul><li>love-bite in, <a href='#3_Page_87'>87</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Slavery, erotic, <a href='#3_Page_111'>111</a>.</li> +<li>Slavs, +<ul><li>courtship customs of, <a href='#3_Page_78'>78</a>. +<li>masochism among, <a href='#3_Page_79'>79</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Slug, +<ul><li>courtship of, <a href='#3_Page_34'>34</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Smell, +<ul><li>stimulation of, <a href='#3_Page_183'>183</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Snails, +<ul><li>sexual process in, <a href='#3_Page_28'>28</a>, <a href='#3_Page_34'>34</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Social class and sexual feeling, <a href='#3_Page_207'>207</a>.</li> +<li>Soleilland, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Song of birds, +<ul><li>sexual significance of, <a href='#3_Page_29'>29</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li><i>Spadones</i>, <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>.</li> +<li>Spain,<a name='3_Page_353'></a> +<ul><li> flagellation in, <a href='#3_Page_135'>135</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Spiders, +<ul><li>courtship of, <a href='#3_Page_35'>35</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Sprit-sail yard, <a href='#3_Page_98'>98</a>.</li> +<li>Stabbers, <a href='#3_Page_124'>124</a>.</li> +<li>Sterility, +<ul><li>absence of sexual desire in women as a cause of, <a href='#3_Page_212'>212</a>, <a href='#3_Page_239'>239</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Stone-curlew, +<ul><li>dances of, <a href='#3_Page_30'>30</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Storm and stress in women, +<ul><li>religious, <a href='#3_Page_250'>250</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Strangle, +<ul><li>the impulse to, <a href='#3_Page_151'>151</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Subjection in women, +<ul><li>sexual, <a href='#3_Page_78'>78</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#3_Page_102'>102</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Suckling, +<ul><li>compared to sexual act, <a href='#3_Page_18'>18</a>. +<li>no intercourse among some savages during, <a href='#3_Page_268'>268</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Suicide, +<ul><li>divorce and, <a href='#3_Page_189'>189</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Sumatra, +<ul><li>courtship in, <a href='#3_Page_44'>44</a>, <a href='#3_Page_99'>99</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Suspension and sexual excitement, <a href='#3_Page_154'>154</a>.</li> +<li>Swinging and sexual excitement, <a href='#3_Page_154'>154</a>.</li> +<li>Symbolism, +<ul><li>erotic, <a href='#3_Page_188'>188</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Taboo, +<ul><li>sexual, <a href='#3_Page_263'>263</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Tahitians, +<ul><li>courtship among, <a href='#3_Page_46'>46</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Teasing, <a href='#3_Page_173'>173</a>.</li> +<li><i>Telum veneris</i>, <a href='#3_Page_34'>34</a>.</li> +<li><i>Thlasiæ</i>, <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>.</li> +<li><i>Thlibiæ</i>, <a href='#3_Page_9'>9</a>.</li> +<li>Torture, +<ul><li>the attraction of, <a href='#3_Page_156'>156</a>, <a href='#3_Page_164'>164</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Tumescence, <a href='#3_Page_25'>25</a>, <a href='#3_Page_34'>34</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#3_Page_53'>53</a>, <a href='#3_Page_57'>57</a>, <a href='#3_Page_65'>65</a>.</li> +<li>Turcomans, +<ul><li>marriage by capture among, <a href='#3_Page_74'>74</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Tyrant-bird, +<ul><li>courtship of, <a href='#3_Page_39'>39</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Urination in relation to sexual excitement, <a href='#3_Page_59'>59</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Vacher, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Vampirism, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Variation in sexual impulse greater in women, <a href='#3_Page_254'>254</a>.</li> +<li>Venereal disease in the young, <a href='#3_Page_224'>224</a>.</li> +<li>Vesicles, +<ul><li>function of seminal, <a href='#3_Page_6'>6</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Waltz, +<ul><li>origin of the, <a href='#3_Page_57'>57</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Warens, Mme. de, <a href='#3_Page_206'>206</a>.</li> +<li>Werwolf, <a href='#3_Page_125'>125</a>.</li> +<li>Whipping in relation to the sexual emotions, <a href='#3_Page_115'>115</a>, <a href='#3_Page_129'>129</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Women-stabbers, <a href='#3_Page_124'>124</a>.</li> +<li>Wrestling combats, <a href='#3_Page_70'>70</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Zoösadism, <a href='#3_Page_126'>126</a>.</li> +<li>Zulus, +<ul><li>courtship among, <a href='#3_Page_49'>49</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + +<br> +<br> +<hr class="pg" noshade> +<p>***END OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + + + + +Title: Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3 (of 6) + +Author: Havelock Ellis + +Release Date: October 8, 2004 [eBook #13612] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-646-US (US-ASCII) + + +***START OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, +VOLUME 3 (OF 6)*** + + +E-text prepared by Juliet Sutherland and the Project Gutenberg Online +Distributed Proofreading Team (https://www.pgdp.net) + + + +STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, VOLUME III + + Analysis of the Sexual Impulse + Love and Pain + The Sexual Impulse in Women + + +by + +HAVELOCK ELLIS + +1927 + + + + + + + +PREFACE TO SECOND EDITION. + + +This volume has been thoroughly revised for the present edition and +considerably enlarged throughout, in order to render it more accurate and +more illustrative, while bringing it fairly up to date with reference to +scientific investigation. Numerous histories have also been added to the +Appendix. + +It has not been found necessary to modify the main doctrines set forth ten +years ago. At the same time, however, it may be mentioned, as regards the +first study in the volume, that our knowledge of the physiological +mechanism of the sexual instinct has been revolutionized during recent +years. This is due to the investigations that have been made, and the +deductions that have been built up, concerning the part played by +hormones, or internal secretions of the ductless glands, in the physical +production of the sexual instinct and the secondary sexual characters. The +conception of the psychology of the sexual impulse here set forth, while +correlated to terms of a physical process of tumescence and detumescence, +may be said to be independent of the ultimate physiological origins of +that process. But we cannot fail to realize the bearing of physiological +chemistry in this field; and the doctrine of internal secretions, since it +may throw light on many complex problems presented by the sexual instinct, +is full of interest for us. + +HAVELOCK ELLIS. + +June, 1913. + + + + +PREFACE TO FIRST EDITION. + + +The present volume of _Studies_ deals with some of the most essential +problems of sexual psychology. The _Analysis of the Sexual Impulse_ is +fundamental. Unless we comprehend the exact process which is being worked +out beneath the shifting and multifold phenomena presented to us we can +never hope to grasp in their true relations any of the normal or abnormal +manifestations of this instinct. I do not claim that the conception of the +process here stated is novel or original. Indeed, even since I began to +work it out some years ago, various investigators in these fields, +especially in Germany, have deprived it of any novelty it might otherwise +have possessed, while at the same time aiding me in reaching a more +precise statement. This is to me a cause of satisfaction. On so +fundamental a matter I should have been sorry to find myself tending to a +peculiar and individual standpoint. It is a source of gratification to me +that the positions I have reached are those toward which current +intelligent and scientific opinions are tending. Any originality in my +study of this problem can only lie in the bringing together of elements +from somewhat diverse fields. I shall be content if it is found that I +have attained a fairly balanced, general, and judicial statement of these +main factors in the sexual instinct. + +In the study of _Love and Pain_ I have discussed the sources of those +aberrations which are commonly called, not altogether happily, "sadism" +and "masochism." Here we are brought before the most extreme and perhaps +the most widely known group of sexual perversions. I have considered them +from the medico-legal standpoint, because that has already been done by +other writers whose works are accessible. I have preferred to show how +these aberrations may be explained; how they may be linked on to normal +and fundamental aspects of the sexual impulse; and, indeed, in their +elementary forms, may themselves be regarded as normal. In some degree +they are present, in every case, at some point of sexual development; +their threads are subtly woven in and out of the whole psychological +process of sex. I have made no attempt to reduce their complexity to a +simplicity that would be fallacious. I hope that my attempt to unravel +these long and tangled threads will be found to make them fairly clear. + +In the third study, on _The Sexual Impulse in Women_, we approach a +practical question of applied sexual psychology, and a question of the +first importance. No doubt the sex impulse in men is of great moment from +the social point of view. It is, however, fairly obvious and well +understood. The impulse in women is not only of at least equal moment, but +it is far more obscure. The natural difficulties of the subject have been +increased by the assumption of most writers who have touched it--casually +and hurriedly, for the most part--that the only differences to be sought +in the sexual impulse in man and in woman are quantitative differences. I +have pointed out that we may more profitably seek for qualitative +differences, and have endeavored to indicate such of these differences as +seem to be of significance. + +In an Appendix will be found a selection of histories of more or less +normal sexual development. Histories of gross sexual perversion have often +been presented in books devoted to the sexual instinct; it has not +hitherto been usual to inquire into the facts of normal sexual +development. Yet it is concerning normal sexual development that our +ignorance is greatest, and the innovation can scarcely need justification. +I have inserted these histories not only because many of them are highly +instructive in themselves, but also because they exhibit the nature of the +material on which my work is mainly founded. + +I am indebted to many correspondents, medical and other, in various parts +of the world, for much valuable assistance. When they have permitted me +to do so I have usually mentioned their names in the text. This has not +been possible in the case of many women friends and correspondents, to +whom, however, my debt is very great. Nature has put upon women the +greater part of the burden of sexual reproduction; they have consequently +become the supreme authorities on all matters in which the sexual emotions +come into question. Many circumstances, however, that are fairly obvious, +conspire to make it difficult for women to assert publicly the wisdom and +knowledge which, in matters of love, the experiences of life have brought +to them. The ladies who, in all earnestness and sincerity, write books on +these questions are often the last people to whom we should go as the +representatives of their sex; those who know most have written least. I +can therefore but express again, as in previous volumes I have expressed +before, my deep gratitude to these anonymous collaborators who have aided +me in throwing light on a field of human life which is of such primary +social importance and is yet so dimly visible. + +HAVELOCK ELLIS. + +Carbis Water, + +Lelant, Cornwall, England. + + + + +CONTENTS. + + +ANALYSIS OF THE SEXUAL IMPULSE. + +Definition of Instinct--The Sexual Impulse a Factor of the Sexual +Instinct--Theory of the Sexual Impulse as an Impulse of Evacuation--The +Evidence in Support of this Theory Inadequate--The Sexual Impulse to Some +Extent Independent of the Sexual Glands--The Sexual Impulse in Castrated +Animals and Men--The Sexual Impulse in Castrated Women, After the +Menopause, and in the Congenital Absence of the Sexual Glands--The +Internal Secretions--Analogy between the Sexual Relationship and that of +the Suckling Mother and her Child--The Theory of the Sexual Impulse as a +Reproductive Impulse--This Theory Untenable--Moll's Definition--The +Impulse of Detumescence--The Impulse of Contrectation--Modification of +this Theory Proposed--Its Relation to Darwin's Sexual Selection--The +Essential Element in Darwin's Conception--Summary of the History of the +Doctrine of Sexual Selection. Its Psychological Aspect--Sexual Selection a +Part of Natural Selection--The Fundamental Importance of +Tumescence--Illustrated by the Phenomena of Courtship in Animals and in +Man--The Object of Courtship is to Produce Sexual Tumescence--The +Primitive Significance of Dancing in Animals and Man--Dancing is a Potent +Agent for Producing Tumescence--The Element of Truth in the Comparison of +the Sexual Impulse with an Evacuation, Especially of the Bladder--Both +Essentially Involve Nervous Explosions--Their Intimate and Sometimes +Vicarious Relationships--Analogy between Coitus and Epilepsy--Analogy of +the Sexual Impulse to Hunger--Final Object of the Impulses of Tumescence +and Detumescence. + + +LOVE AND PAIN. + +I. + +The Chief Key to the Relationship between Love and Pain to be Found in +Animal Courtship--Courtship a Source of Combativity and of Cruelty--Human +Play in the Light of Animal Courtship--The Frequency of Crimes Against the +Person in Adolescence--Marriage by Capture and its Psychological +Basis--Man's Pleasure in Exerting Force and Woman's Pleasure in +Experiencing it--Resemblance of Love to Pain even in Outward +Expression--The Love-bite--In What Sense Pain May be Pleasurable--The +Natural Contradiction in the Emotional Attitude of Women Toward +Men--Relative Insensibility to Pain of the Organic Sexual Sphere in +Women--The Significance of the Use of the Ampallang and Similar Appliances +in Coitus--The Sexual Subjection of Women to Men in Part Explainable as +the Necessary Condition for Sexual Pleasure. + +II. + +The Definition of Sadism--De Sade--Masochism to some Extent +Normal--Sacher-Masoch--No Real Line of Demarcation between Sadism and +Masochism--Algolagnia Includes Both Groups of Manifestations--The +Love-bite as a Bridge from Normal Phenomena to Algolagnia--The Fascination +of Blood--The Most Extreme Perversions are Linked on to Normal Phenomena. + +III. + +Flagellation as a Typical Illustration of Algolagnia--Causes of Connection +between Sexual Emotion and Whipping--Physical Causes--Psychic Causes +Probably More Important--The Varied Emotional Associations of +Whipping--Its Wide Prevalence. + +IV. + +The Impulse to Strangle the Object of Sexual Desire--The Wish to be +Strangled. Respiratory Disturbance the Essential Element in this Group of +Phenomena--The Part Played by Respiratory Excitement in the Process of +Courtship--Swinging and Suspension--The Attraction Exerted by the Idea of +being Chained and Fettered. + +V. + +Pain, and not Cruelty, the Essential Element in Sadism and Masochism--Pain +Felt as Pleasure--Does the Sadist Identify Himself with the Feelings of +his Victim?--The Sadist Often a Masochist in Disguise--The Spectacle of +Pain or Struggle as a Sexual Stimulant. + +VI. + +Why is Pain a Sexual Stimulant?--It is the Most Effective Method of +Arousing Emotion--Anger and Fear the Most Powerful Emotions--Their +Biological Significance in Courtship--Their General and Special Effects in +Stimulating the Organism--Grief as a Sexual Stimulant--The Physiological +Mechanism of Fatigue Renders Pain Pleasurable. + +VII. + +Summary of Results Reached--The Joy of Emotional Expansion--The +Satisfaction of the Craving for Power--The Influence of Neurasthenic and +Neuropathic Conditions--The Problem of Pain in Love Largely Constitutes a +Special Case of Erotic Symbolism. + + +THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN WOMEN. + +Introduction. + +I. + +The Primitive View of Women--As a Supernatural Element in Life--As +Peculiarly Embodying the Sexual Instinct--The Modern Tendency to +Underestimate the Sexual Impulse in Women--This Tendency Confined to +Recent Times--Sexual Anaesthesia--Its Prevalence--Difficulties in +Investigating the Subject--Some Attempts to Investigate it--Sexual +Anaesthesia Must be Regarded as Abnormal--The Tendency to Spontaneous +Manifestations of the Sexual Impulse in Young Girls at Puberty. + +II. + +Special Characters of the Sexual Impulse in Women--The More Passive Part +Played by Women in Courtship--This Passivity Only Apparent--The Physical +Mechanism of the Sexual Process in Women More Complex--The Slower +Development of Orgasm in Women--The Sexual Impulse in Women More +Frequently Needs to be Actively Aroused--The Climax of Sexual Energy Falls +Later in Women's Lives than in Men's--Sexual Ardor in Women increased +After the Establishment of Sexual Relationships--Women Bear Sexual +Excesses Better than Men--The Sexual Sphere Larger and More Diffused in +Women--The Sexual Impulse in Women Shows a Greater Tendency to Periodicity +and a Wider Range of Variation. + +III. + +Summary of Conclusions. + + +APPENDIX A. + +The Sexual Instinct in Savages. + + +APPENDIX B. + +The Development of the Sexual Instinct. + + +INDEX OF AUTHORS. + + +INDEX OF SUBJECTS. + + + + +ANALYSIS OF THE SEXUAL IMPULSE. + +Definition of Instinct--The Sexual Impulse a Factor of the Sexual +Instinct--Theory of the Sexual Impulse as an Impulse of Evacuation--The +Evidence in Support of this Theory Inadequate--The Sexual Impulse to Some +Extent Independent of the Sexual Glands--The Sexual Impulse in Castrated +Animals and Men--The Sexual Impulse in Castrated Women, after the +Menopause, and in the Congenital Absence of the Sexual Glands--The +Internal Secretions--Analogy between the Sexual Relationship and that of +the Suckling Mother and her Child--The Theory of the Sexual Impulse as a +Reproductive Impulse--This Theory Untenable--Moll's Definition--The +Impulse of Detumescence--The Impulse of Contrectation--Modification of +this Theory Proposed--Its Relation to Darwin's Sexual Selection--The +Essential Element in Darwin's Conception--Summary of the History of the +Doctrine of Sexual Selection--Its Psychological Aspect--Sexual Selection a +Part of Natural Selection--The Fundamental Importance of +Tumescence--Illustrated by the Phenomena of Courtship in Animals and in +Man--The Object of Courtship is to Produce Sexual Tumescence--The +Primitive Significance of Dancing in Animals and Man--Dancing is a Potent +Agent for Producing Tumescence--The Element of Truth in the Comparison of +the Sexual Impulse with an Evacuation, Especially of the Bladder--Both +Essentially Involve Nervous Explosions--Their Intimate and Sometimes +Vicarious Relationships--Analogy between Coitus and Epilepsy--Analogy of +the Sexual Impulse to Hunger--Final Object of the Impulses of Tumescence +and Detumescence. + + +The term "sexual instinct" may be said to cover the whole of the +neuropsychic phenomena of reproduction which man shares with the lower +animals. It is true that much discussion has taken place concerning the +proper use of the term "instinct," and some definitions of instinctive +action would appear to exclude the essential mechanism of the process +whereby sexual reproduction is assured. Such definitions scarcely seem +legitimate, and are certainly unfortunate. Herbert Spencer's definition of +instinct as "compound reflex action" is sufficiently clear and definite +for ordinary use. + + A fairly satisfactory definition of instinct is that supplied by + Dr. and Mrs. Peckham in the course of their study _On the + Instincts and Habits of Solitary Wasps_. "Under the term + 'instinct,'" they say, "we place all complex acts which are + performed previous to experience and in a similar manner by all + members of the same sex and race, leaving out as non-essential, + at this time, the question of whether they are or are not + accompanied by consciousness." This definition is quoted with + approval by Lloyd Morgan, who modifies and further elaborates it + (_Animal Behavior_, 1900, p. 21). "The distinction between + instinctive and reflex behavior," he remarks, "turns in large + degree on their relative complexity," and instinctive behavior, + he concludes, may be said to comprise "those complex groups of + co-ordinated acts which are, on their first occurrence, + independent of experience; which tend to the well-being of the + individual and the preservation of the race; which are due to the + co-operation of external and internal stimuli; which are + similarly performed by all the members of the same more or less + restricted group of animals; but which are subject to variation, + and to subsequent modification under the guidance of experience." + Such a definition clearly justifies us in speaking of a "sexual + instinct." It may be added that the various questions involved in + the definition of the sexual instinct have been fully discussed + by Moll in the early sections of his _Untersuchungen ueber die + Libido Sexualis_. + + Of recent years there has been a tendency to avoid the use of the + term "instinct," or, at all events, to refrain from attaching any + serious scientific sense to it. Loeb's influence has especially + given force to this tendency. Thus, while Pieron, in an + interesting discussion of the question ("Les Problemes Actuels de + l'Instinct," _Revue Philosophique_, Oct., 1908), thinks it would + still be convenient to retain the term, giving it a philosophical + meaning, Georges Bohn, who devotes a chapter to the notion of + instinct (_La Naissance de l'Intelligence_, 1909), is strongly in + favor of eliminating the word, as being merely a legacy of + medieval theologians and metaphysicians, serving to conceal our + ignorance or our lack of exact analysis. + +It may be said that the whole of the task undertaken in these _Studies_ is +really an attempt to analyze what is commonly called the sexual instinct. +In order to grasp it we have to break it up into its component parts. +Lloyd Morgan has pointed out that the components of an instinct may be +regarded as four: first, the internal messages giving rise to the impulse; +secondly, the external stimuli which co-operate with the impulse to affect +the nervous centers; thirdly, the active response due to the co-ordinate +outgoing discharges; and, fourthly, the message from the organs concerned +in the behavior by which the central nervous system is further +affected.[1] + +In dealing with the sexual instinct the first two factors are those which +we have most fully to discuss. With the external stimuli we shall be +concerned in a future volume (IV). We may here confine ourselves mainly to +the first factor: the nature of the internal messages which prompt the +sexual act. We may, in other words, attempt to analyze the _sexual +impulse_. + +The first definition of the sexual impulse we meet with is that which +regards it as an impulse of evacuation. The psychological element is thus +reduced to a minimum. It is true that, especially in early life, the +emotions caused by forced repression of the excretions are frequently +massive or acute in the highest degree, and the joy of relief +correspondingly great. But in adult life, on most occasions, these desires +can be largely pushed into the background of consciousness, partly by +training, partly by the fact that involuntary muscular activity is less +imperative in adult life; so that the ideal element in connection with the +ordinary excretions is almost a negligible quantity. The evacuation theory +of the sexual instinct is, however, that which has most popular vogue, and +the cynic delights to express it in crude language. It is the view that +appeals to the criminal mind, and in the slang of French criminals the +brothel is _le cloaque_. It was also the view implicitly accepted by +medieval ascetic writers, who regarded woman as "a temple built over a +sewer," and from a very different standpoint it was concisely set forth by +Montaigne, who has doubtless contributed greatly to support this view of +the matter: "I find," he said, "that Venus, after all, is nothing more +than the pleasure of discharging our vessels, just as nature renders +pleasurable the discharges from other parts."[2] Luther, again, always +compared the sexual to the excretory impulse, and said that marriage was +just as necessary as the emission of urine. Sir Thomas More, also, in the +second book of _Utopia_, referring to the pleasure of evacuation, speaks +of that felt "when we do our natural easement, or when we be doing the act +of generation." This view would, however, scarcely deserve serious +consideration if various distinguished investigators, among whom Fere may +be specially mentioned, had not accepted it as the best and most accurate +definition of the sexual impulse. "The genesic need may be considered," +writes Fere, "as a need of evacuation; the choice is determined by the +excitations which render the evacuation more agreeable."[3] Certain facts +observed in the lower animals tend to support this view; it is, therefore, +necessary, in the first place, to set forth the main results of +observation on this matter. Spallanzani had shown how the male frog during +coitus will undergo the most horrible mutilations, even decapitation, and +yet resolutely continue the act of intercourse, which lasts from four to +ten days, sitting on the back of the female and firmly clasping her with +his forelegs. Goltz confirmed Spallanzani's observations and threw new +light on the mechanism of the sexual instinct and the sexual act in the +frog. By removing various parts of the female frog Goltz found that every +part of the female was attractive to the male at pairing time, and that he +was not imposed on when parts of a male were substituted. By removing +various of the sense-organs of the male Goltz[4] further found that it was +not by any special organ, but by the whole of his sensitive system, that +this activity was set in action. If, however, the skin of the arms and of +the breast between was removed, no embrace took place; so that the sexual +sensations seemed to be exerted through this apparatus. When the +testicles were removed the embrace still took place. It could scarcely be +said that these observations demonstrated, or in any way indicated, that +the sexual impulse is dependent on the need of evacuation. Professor +Tarchanoff, of St. Petersburg, however, made an experiment which seemed to +be crucial. He took several hundred frogs (_Rana temporaria_), nearly all +in the act of coitus, and in the first place repeated Goltz's experiments. +He removed the heart; but this led to no direct or indirect stoppage of +coitus, nor did removal of the lungs, parts of the liver, the spleen, the +intestines, the stomach, or the kidneys. In the same way even careful +removal of both testicles had no result. But on removing the seminal +receptacles coitus was immediately or very shortly stopped, and not +renewed. Thus, Tarchanoff concluded that in frogs, and possibly therefore +in mammals, the seminal receptacles are the starting-point of the +centripetal impulse which by reflex action sets in motion the complicated +apparatus of sexual activity.[5] A few years later the question was again +taken up by Steinach, of Prague. Granting that Tarchanoff's experiments +are reliable as regards the frog, Steinach points out that we may still +ask whether in mammals the integrity of the seminal receptacles is bound +up with the preservation of sexual excitability. This cannot be taken for +granted, nor can we assume that the seminal receptacles of the frog are +homologous with the seminal vesicles of mammals. In order to test the +question, Steinach chose the white rat, as possessing large seminal +vesicles and a very developed sexual impulse. He found that removal of the +seminal sacs led to no decrease in the intensity of the sexual impulse; +the sexual act was still repeated with the same frequency and the same +vigor. But these receptacles, Steinach proceeded to argue, do not really +contain semen, but a special secretion of their own; they are anatomically +quite unlike the seminal receptacles of the frog; so that no doubt is thus +thrown on Tarchanoff's observations. Steinach remarked, however, that +one's faith is rather shaken by the fact that in the _Esculenta_, which +in sexual life closely resembles _Rana temporaria_, there are no seminal +receptacles. He therefore repeated Tarchanoff's experiments, and found +that the seminal receptacles were empty before coitus, only becoming +gradually filled during coitus; it could not, therefore, be argued that +the sexual impulse started from the receptacles. He then extirpated the +seminal receptacles, avoiding hemorrhage as far as possible, and found +that, in the majority of cases so operated on, coitus still continued for +from five to seven days, and in the minority for a longer time. He +therefore concluded, with Goltz, that it is from the swollen testicles, +not from the seminal receptacles, that the impulse first starts. Goltz +himself pointed out that the fact that the removal of the testicles did +not stop coitus by no means proves that it did not begin it, for, when the +central nervous mechanism is once set in action, it can continue even when +the exciting stimulus is removed. By extirpating the testicles some months +before the sexual season he found that no coitus occurred. At the same +time, even in these frogs, a certain degree of sexual inclination and a +certain excitability of the embracing center still persisted, disappearing +when the sexual epoch was over. + +According to most recent writers, the seminal vesicles of mammals are +receptacles for their own albuminous secretion, the function of which is +unknown. Steinach could find no spermatozoa in these "seminal" sacs, and +therefore he proposed to use Owen's name of _glandulae vesiculares_. After +extirpation of these vesicular glands in the white rat typical coitus +occurred. But the capacity for _procreation_ was diminished, and +extirpation of both _glandulae vesiculares_ and _glandulae prostaticae_ led +to disappearance of the capacity for procreation. Steinach came to the +conclusion that this is because the secretions of these glands impart +increased vitality to the spermatozoa, and he points out that great +fertility and high development of the accessory sexual glands go together. + +Steinach found that, when sexually mature white rats were castrated, +though at first they remained as potent as ever, their potency gradually +declined; sexual excitement, however, and sexual inclination always +persisted. He then proceeded to castrate rats before puberty and +discovered the highly significant fact that in these also a quite +considerable degree of sexual inclination appeared. They followed, +sniffed, and licked the females like ordinary males; and that this was not +a mere indication of curiosity was shown by the fact that they made +attempts at coitus which only differed from those of normal males by the +failure of erection and ejaculation, though, occasionally, there was +imperfect erection. This lasted for a year, and then their sexual +inclinations began to decline, and they showed signs of premature age. +These manifestations of sexual sense Steinach compares to those noted in +the human species during childhood.[6] + +The genesic tendencies are thus, to a certain degree, independent of the +generative glands, although the development of these glands serves to +increase the genesic ability and to furnish the impulsion necessary to +assure procreation, as well as to insure the development of the secondary +sexual characters, probably by the influence of secretions elaborated and +thrown into the system from the primary sexual glands.[7] + + Halban ("Die Entstehung der Geschlechtscharaktere," _Archiv fuer + Gynaekologie_, 1903, pp. 205-308) argues that the primary sex + glands do not necessarily produce the secondary sex characters, + nor inhibit the development of those characteristic of the + opposite sex. It is indeed the rule, but it is not the inevitable + result. Sexual differences exist from the first. Nussbaum made + experiments on frogs (_Rana fusca_), which go through a yearly + cycle of secondary sexual changes at the period of heat. These + changes cease on castration, but, if the testes of other frogs + are introduced beneath the skin of the castrated frogs, Nussbaum + found that they acted as if the frog had not been castrated. It + is the secretion of the testes which produces the secondary + sexual changes. But Nussbaum found that the testicular secretion + does not work if the nerves of the secondary sexual region are + cut, and that the secretion has no direct action on the organism. + Pflueger, discussing these experiments (_Archiv fuer die Gesammte + Physiologie_, 1907, vol. cxvi, parts 5 and 6), disputes this + conclusion, and argues that the secretion is not dependent on the + action of the nervous system, and that therefore the secondary + sexual characters are independent of the nervous system. + + Steinach has also in later experiments ("Geschlechtstrieb und + echt Sekundaere Geschlechtsmerkmale als Folge der + innerskretorischen Funktion der Keimdrusen," _Zentralblatt fuer + Physiologie_, Bd. xxiv, Nu. 13, 1910) argued against any local + nervous influence. He found in _Rana fusca_ and _esculenta_ that + after castration in autumn the impulse to grasp the female + persisted in some degrees and then disappeared, reappearing in a + slight degree, however, every winter at the normal period of + sexual activity. But when the testicular substance of actively + sexual frogs was injected into the castrated frogs it exerted an + elective action on the sexual reflex, sometimes in a few hours, + but the action is, Steinach concludes, first central. The + testicular secretion of frogs that were not sexually active had + no stimulating action, but if the frogs were sexually active the + injection of their central nervous substance was as effective as + their testicular substance. In either case, Steinach concludes, + there is the removal of an inhibition which is in operation at + sexually quiescent periods. + + Speaking generally, Steinach considers that there is a process of + "erotisation" (Erotisieurung) of the nervous center under the + influence of the internal testicular secretions, and that this + persists even when the primary physical stimulus has been + removed. + +The experience of veterinary surgeons also shows that the sexual impulse +tends to persist in animals after castration. Thus the ox and the gelding +make frequent efforts to copulate with females in heat. In some cases, at +all events in the case of the horse, castrated animals remain potent, and +are even abnormally ardent, although impregnation cannot, of course, +result.[8] + +The results obtained by scientific experiment and veterinary experience on +the lower animals are confirmed by observation of various groups of +phenomena in the human species. There can be no doubt that castrated men +may still possess sexual impulses. This has been noted by observers in +various countries in which eunuchs are made and employed.[9] + + It is important to remember that there are different degrees of + castration, for in current language these are seldom + distinguished. The Romans recognized four different degrees: 1. + True _castrati_, from whom both the testicles and the penis had + been removed. 2. _Spadones_, from whom the testicles only had + been removed; this was the most common practice. 3. _Thlibiae_, in + whom the testicles had not been removed, but destroyed by + crushing; this practice is referred to by Hippocrates. 4. + _Thlasiae_, in whom the spermatic cord had simply been cut. + Millant, from whose Paris thesis (_Castration Criminelle et + Maniaque_, 1902) I take these definitions, points out that it was + recognized that _spadones_ remained apt for coitus if the + operation was performed after puberty, a fact appreciated by many + Roman ladies, _ad seouras libidinationes_, as St. Jerome + remarked, while Martial (lib. iv) said of a Roman lady who sought + eunuchs: "Vult futui Gallia, non parere." (See also Millant, _Les + Eunuques a Travers les Ages_, 1909, and articles by Lipa Bey and + Zambaco, _Sexual-Probleme_, Oct. and Dec., 1911.) + +In China, Matignon, formerly physician to the French legation in Pekin, +tells us that eunuchs are by no means without sexual feeling, that they +seek the company of women and, he believes, gratify their sexual desires +by such methods as are left open to them, for the sexual organs are +entirely removed. It would seem probable that, the earlier the age at +which the operation is performed, the less marked are the sexual desires, +for Matignon mentions that boys castrated before the age of 10 are +regarded by the Chinese as peculiarly virginal and pure.[10] At +Constantinople, where the eunuchs are of negro race, castration is usually +complete and performed before puberty, in order to abolish sexual potency +and desire as far as possible. Even when castration is effected in +infancy, sexual desire is not necessarily rendered impossible. Thus Marie +has recorded the case of an insane Egyptian eunuch whose penis and scrotum +were removed in infancy; yet, he had frequent and intense sexual desire +with ejaculation of mucus and believed that an invisible princess touched +him and aroused voluptuous sensations. Although the body had a feminine +appearance, the prostate was normal and the vesiculae seminales not +atrophied.[11] It may be added that Lancaster[12] quotes the following +remark, made by a resident for many years in the land, concerning Nubian +eunuchs: "As far as I can judge, sex feeling exists unmodified by absence +of the sexual organs. The eunuch differs from the man not in the absence +of sexual passion, but only in the fact that he cannot fully gratify it. +As far as he can approach a gratification of it he does so." In this +connection it may be noted that (as quoted by Moll) Jaeger attributes the +preference of some women--noted in ancient Rome and in the East--for +castrated men as due not only to the freedom from risk of impregnation in +such intercourse, but also to the longer duration of erection in the +castrated. + +When castration is performed without removal of the penis it is said that +potency remains for at least ten years afterward, and Disselhorst, who in +his _Die accessorischen Geschlechtsdruesen der Wirbelthiere_ takes the same +view as has been here adopted, mentions that, according to Pelikan (_Das +Skopzentum in Ruessland_), those castrated at puberty are fit for coitus +long afterward. When castration is performed for surgical reasons at a +later age it is still less likely to affect potency or to change the +sexual feelings.[13] Guinard concludes that the sexual impulse after +castration is relatively more persistent in man than in the lower animals, +and is sometimes even heightened, being probably more dependent on +external stimuli.[14] + +Except in the East, castration is more often performed on women than on +men, and then the evidence as to the influence of the removal of the +ovaries on the sexual emotions shows varying results. It has been found +that after castration sexual desire and sexual pleasure in coitus may +either remain the same, be diminished or extinguished, or be increased. By +some the diminution has been attributed to autosuggestion, the woman being +convinced that she can no longer be like other women; the augmentation of +desire and pleasure has been supposed to be due to the removal of the +dread of impregnation. We have, of course, to take into account individual +peculiarities, method of life, and the state of the health. + + In France Jayle ("Effets physiologiques de la Castration chez la + Femme," _Revue de Gynecologie_, 1897, pp. 403-57) found that, + among 33 patients in whom ovariotomy had been performed, in 18 + sexual desire remained the same, in 3 it was diminished, in 8 + abolished, in 3 increased; while pleasure in coitus remained the + same in 17, was diminished in 1, abolished in 4, and increased in + 5, in 6 cases sexual intercourse was very painful. In two other + groups of cases--one in which both ovaries and uterus were + removed and another in which the uterus alone was removed--the + results were not notably different. + + In Germany Glaeveke (_Archiv fuer Gynaekologie_, Bd. xxxv, 1889) + found that desire remained in 6 cases, was diminished in 10, and + disappeared in 11, while pleasure in intercourse remained in 8, + was diminished in 10, and was lost in 8. Pfister, again (_Archiv + fuer Gynaekologie_, Bd. lvi, 1898), examined this point in 99 + castrated women; he remarks that sexual desire and sexual + pleasure in intercourse were usually associated, and found the + former unchanged in 19 cases, decreased in 24, lost in 35, never + present in 21, while the latter was unchanged in 18 cases and + diminished or lost in 60. Keppler (International Medical + Congress, Berlin, 1890) found that among 46 castrated women + sexual feeling was in no case abolished. Adler also, who + discusses this question (_Die Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung + des Weibes_, 1904, p. 75 et seq.), criticises Glaeveke's + statements and concludes that there is no strict relation between + the sexual organs and the sexual feelings. Kisch, who has known + several cases in which the feelings remained the same as before + the operation, brings together (_The Sexual Life of Women_) + varying opinions of numerous authors regarding the effects of + removal of the ovaries on the sexual appetite. + + In America Bloom (as quoted in _Medical Standard_, 1896, p. 121) + found that in none of the cases of women investigated, in which + ooephorectomy had been performed before the age of 33, was the + sexual appetite entirely lost; in most of them it had not + materially diminished and in a few it was intensified. There + was, however, a general consensus of opinion that the normal + vaginal secretion during coitus was greatly lessened. In the + cases of women over 33, including also hysterectomies, a gradual + lessening of sexual feeling and desire was found to occur most + generally. Dr. Isabel Davenport records 2 cases (reported in + _Medical Standard_, 1895, p. 346) of women between 30 and 35 + years of age whose erotic tendencies were extreme; the ovaries + and tubes were removed, in one case for disease, in the other + with a view of removing the sexual tendencies; in neither case + was there any change. Lapthorn Smith (_Medical Record_, vol. + xlviii) has reported the case of an unmarried woman of 24 whose + ovaries and tubes had been removed seven years previously for + pain and enlargement, and the periods had disappeared for six + years; she had had experience of sexual intercourse, and declared + that she had never felt such extreme sexual excitement and + pleasure as during coitus at the end of this time. + + In England Lawson Tait and Bantock (_British Medical Journal_, + October 14, 1899, p. 975) have noted that sexual passion seems + sometimes to be increased even after the removal of ovaries, + tubes, and uterus. Lawson Tait also stated (_British + Gynaecological Journal_, Feb., 1887, p. 534) that after systematic + and extensive inquiry he had not found a single instance in + which, provided that sexual appetite existed before the removal + of the appendages, it was abolished by that operation. A Medical + Inquiry Committee appointed by the Liverpool Medical Institute + (ibid., p. 617) had previously reported that a considerable + number of patients stated that they had suffered a distinct loss + of sexual feeling. Lawson Tait, however, throws doubts on the + reliability of the Committee's results, which were based on the + statements of unintelligent hospital patients. + + I may quote the following remarks from a communication sent to me + by an experienced physician in Australia: "No rule can be laid + down in cases in which both ovaries have been extirpated. Some + women say that, though formerly passionate, they have since + become quite indifferent, but I am of opinion that the majority + of women who have had prior sexual experience retain desire and + gratification in an equal degree to that they had before + operation. I know one case in which a young girl hardly 19 years + old, who had been accustomed to congress for some twelve months, + had trouble which necessitated the removal of the ovaries and + tubes on both sides. Far from losing all her desire or + gratification, both were very materially increased in intensity. + Menstruation has entirely ceased, without loss of femininity in + either disposition or appearance. During intercourse, I am told, + there is continuous spasmodic contraction of various parts of the + vagina and vulva." + +The independence of the sexual impulse from the distention of the sexual +glands is further indicated by the great frequency with which sexual +sensations, in a faint or even strong degree, are experienced in childhood +and sometimes in infancy, and by the fact that they often persist in women +long after the sexual glands have ceased their functions. + + In the study of auto-erotism in another volume of these _Studies_ + I have brought together some of the evidence showing that even in + very young children spontaneous self-induced sexual excitement, + with orgasm, may occur. Indeed, from an early age sexual + differences pervade the whole nervous tissue. I may here quote + the remarks of an experienced gynecologist: "I venture to think," + Braxton Hicks said many years ago, "that those who have much + attended to children will agree with me in saying that, almost + from the cradle, a difference can be seen in manner, habits of + mind, and in illness, requiring variations in their treatment. + The change is certainly hastened and intensified at the time of + puberty; but there is, even to an average observer, a clear + difference between the sexes from early infancy, gradually + becoming more marked up to puberty. That sexual feelings exist + [it would be better to say 'may exist'] from earliest infancy is + well known, and therefore this function does not depend upon + puberty, though intensified by it. Hence, may we not conclude + that the progress toward development is not so abrupt as has been + generally supposed?... The changes of puberty are all of them + dependent on the primordial force which, gradually gathering in + power, culminates in the perfection both of form and of the + sexual system, primary and secondary." + + There appear to have been but few systematic observations on the + persistence of the sexual impulse in women after the menopause. + It is regarded as a fairly frequent phenomenon by Kisch, and also + by Loewenfeld (_Sexualleben und Nervenleiden_, p. 29). In America, + Bloom (as quoted in _Medical Standard_, 1896), from an + investigation of four hundred cases, found that in some cases the + sexual impulse persisted to a very advanced age, and mentions a + case of a woman of 70, twenty years past the menopause, who had + been long a widow, but had recently married, and who declared + that both desire and gratification were as great, if not greater, + than before the menopause. + +Reference may finally be made to those cases in which the sexual impulse +has developed notwithstanding the absence, verified or probable, of any +sexual glands at all. In such cases sexual desire and sexual gratification +are sometimes even stronger than normal. Colman has reported a case in +which neither ovaries nor uterus could be detected, and the vagina was too +small for coitus, but pleasurable intercourse took place by the rectum and +sexual desire was at times so strong as to amount almost to nymphomania. +Clara Barrus has reported the case of a woman in whom there was congenital +absence of uterus and ovaries, as proved subsequently by autopsy, but the +sexual impulse was very strong and she had had illicit intercourse with a +lover. She suffered from recurrent mania, and then masturbated +shamelessly; when sane she was attractively feminine. Macnaughton-Jones +describes the case of a woman of 32 with normal sexual feelings and fully +developed breasts, clitoris, and labia, but no vagina or internal +genitalia could be detected even under the most thorough examination. In a +case of Bridgman's, again, the womb and ovaries were absent, and the +vagina small, but coitus was not painful, and the voluptuous sensations +were complete and sexual passion was strong. In a case of Cotterill's, the +ovaries and uterus were of minute size and functionless, and the vagina +was absent, but the sexual feelings were normal, and the clitoris +preserved its usual sensibility. Munde had recorded two similar cases, of +which he presents photographs. In all these cases not only was the sexual +impulse present in full degree, but the subjects were feminine in +disposition and of normal womanly conformation; in most cases the external +sexual organs were properly developed.[15] + + Fere (_L'Instinct sexuel_, p. 241) has sought to explain away + some of these phenomena, in so far as they may be brought against + the theory that the secretions and excretions of the sexual + glands are the sole source of the sexual impulse. The persistence + of sexual feelings after castration may be due, he argues, to the + presence of the nerves in the cicatrices, just as the amputated + have the illusion that the missing limb is still there. Exactly + the same explanation has since been put forward by Moll, + _Medizinische Klinik_, 1905, Nrs. 12 and 13. In the same way the + presence of sexual feelings after the menopause may be due to + similar irritation determined by degeneration during involution + of the glands. The precocious appearance of the sexual impulse in + childhood he would explain as due to an anomaly of development in + the sexual organs. Fere makes no attempt to explain the presence + of the sexual impulse in the congenital absence of the sexual + glands; here, however, Munde intervenes with the suggestion that + it is possible that in most cases "an infinitesimal trace of + ovary" may exist, and preserve femininity, though insufficient to + produce ovulation or menstruation. + + It is proper to mention these ingenious arguments. They are, + however, purely hypothetical, obviously invented to support a + theory. It can scarcely be said that they carry conviction. We + may rather agree with Guinard that so great is the importance of + reproduction that nature has multiplied the means by which + preparation is made for the conjunction of the sexes and the + roads by which sexual excitation may arrive. As Hirschfeld puts + it, in a discussion of this subject (_Sexual-Probleme_, Feb., + 1912), "Nature has several irons in the fire." + + It will be seen that the conclusions we have reached indirectly + involve the assumption that the spinal nervous centers, through + which the sexual mechanism operates, are not sufficient to + account for the whole of the phenomena of the sexual impulse. The + nervous circuit tends to involve a cerebral element, which may + sometimes be of dominant importance. Various investigators, from + the time of Gall onward, have attempted to localize the sexual + instinct centrally. Such attempts, however, cannot be said to + have succeeded, although they tend to show that there is a real + connection between the brain and the generative organs. Thus + Ceni, of Modena, by experiments on chickens, claims to have + proved the influence of the cortical centers of procreation on + the faculty of generation, for he found that lesions of the + cortex led to sterility corresponding in degree to the lesion; + but as these results followed even independently of any + disturbance of the sexual instinct, their significance is not + altogether clear (Carlo Ceni, "L'Influenza dei Centri Corticali + sui Fenomeni della Generazione," _Revista Sperimentale di + Freniatria_, 1907, fasc. 2-3). At present, as Obici and + Marchesini have well remarked, all that we can do is to assume + the existence of cerebral as well as spinal sexual centers; a + cerebral sexual center, in the strictest sense, remains purely + hypothetical. + + Although Gall's attempt to locate the sexual instinct in the + cerebellum--well supported as it was by observations--is no + longer considered to be tenable, his discussion of the sexual + instinct was of great value, far in advance of his time, and + accompanied by a mass of facts gathered from many fields. He + maintained that the sexual instinct is a function of the brain, + not of the sexual organs. He combated the view ruling in his day + that the seat of erotic mania must be sought in the sexual + organs. He fully dealt with the development of the sexual + instinct in many children before maturity of the sexual glands, + the prolongation of the instinct into old age, its existence in + the castrated and in the congenital absence of the sexual glands; + he pointed out that even with an apparently sound and normal + sexual apparatus all sorts of psychic pathological deviations may + yet occur. In fact, all the lines of argument I have briefly + indicated in the foregoing pages--although when they were first + written this fact was unknown to me--had been fully discussed by + this remarkable man nearly a century ago. (The greater part of + the third volume of Gall's _Sur les Fonctions du Cerveau_, in the + edition of 1825, is devoted to this subject. For a good summary, + sympathetic, though critical, of Gall's views on this matter, see + Moebius, "Ueber Gall's Specielle Organologie," _Schmidt's + Jahrbuecher der Medicin_, 1900, vol. cclxvii; also _Ausgewahlte + Werke_, vol. vii.) + +It will be seen that the question of the nature of the sexual impulse has +been slowly transformed. It is no longer a question of the formation of +semen in the male, of the function of menstruation in the female. It has +become largely a question of physiological chemistry. The chief parts in +the drama of sex, alike on its psychic as on its physical sides, are thus +supposed to be played by two mysterious protagonists, the hormones, or +internal secretions, of the testes and of the ovary. Even the part played +by the brain is now often regarded as chemical, the brain being considered +to be a great chemical laboratory. There is a tendency, moreover, to +extend the sexual sphere so as to admit the influence of internal +secretions from other glands. The thymus, the adrenals, the thyroid, the +pituitary, even the kidneys: it is possible that internal secretions from +all these glands may combine to fill in the complete picture of sexuality +as we know it in men and women.[16] The subject is, however, so complex +and at present so little known that it would be hazardous, and for the +present purpose it is needless, to attempt to set forth any conclusions. + +It is sufficiently clear that there is on the surface a striking analogy +between sexual desire and the impulse to evacuate an excretion, and that +this analogy is not only seen in the frog, but extends also to the highest +vertebrates. It is quite another matter, however, to assert that the +sexual impulse can be adequately defined as an impulse to evacuate. To +show fully the inadequate nature of this conception would require a +detailed consideration of the facts of sexual life. That is, however, +unnecessary. It is enough to point out certain considerations which alone +suffice to invalidate this view. In the first place, it must be remarked +that the trifling amount of fluid emitted in sexual intercourse is +altogether out of proportion to the emotions aroused by the act and to its +after-effect on the organism; the ancient dictum _omne animal post coitum +triste_ may not be exact, but it is certain that the effect of coitus on +the organism is far more profound than that produced by the far more +extensive evacuation of the bladder or bowels. Again, this definition +leaves unexplained all those elaborate preliminaries which, both in man +and the lower animals, precede the sexual act, preliminaries which in +civilized human beings sometimes themselves constitute a partial +satisfaction to the sexual impulse. It must also be observed that, unlike +the ordinary excretions, this discharge of the sexual glands is not +always, or in every person, necessary at all. Moreover, the theory of +evacuation at once becomes hopelessly inadequate when we apply it to +women; no one will venture to claim that an adequate psychological +explanation of the sexual impulse in a woman is to be found in the desire +to expel a little bland mucus from the minute glands of the genital tract. +We must undoubtedly reject this view of the sexual impulse. It has a +certain element of truth and it permits an instructive and helpful +analogy; but that is all. The sexual act presents many characters which +are absent in an ordinary act of evacuation, and, on the other hand, it +lacks the special characteristic of the evacuation proper, the +elimination of waste material; the seminal fluid is not a waste material, +and its retention is, to some extent perhaps, rather an advantage than a +disadvantage to the organism. + +Eduard von Hartmann long since remarked that the satisfaction of what we +call the sexual instinct through an act carried out with a person of the +opposite sex is a very wonderful phenomenon. It cannot be said, however, +that the conception of the sexual act as a simple process of evacuation +does anything to explain the wonder. We are, at most, in the same position +as regards the stilling of normal sexual desire as we should be as regards +the emptying of the bladder, supposing it were very difficult for either +sex to effect this satisfactorily without the aid of a portion of the body +of a person of the other sex acting as a catheter. In such a case our +thoughts and ideals would center around persons of opposite sex, and we +should court their attention and help precisely as we do now in the case +of our sexual needs. Some such relationship does actually exist in the +case of the suckling mother and her infant. The mother is indebted to the +child for the pleasurable relief of her distended breasts; and, while in +civilization more subtle pleasures and intelligent reflection render this +massive physical satisfaction comparatively unessential to the act of +suckling, in more primitive conditions and among animals the need of this +pleasurable physical satisfaction is a real bond between the mother and +her offspring. The analogy is indeed very close: the erectile nipple +corresponds to the erectile penis, the eager watery mouth of the infant to +the moist and throbbing vagina, the vitally albuminous milk to the vitally +albuminous semen.[17] The complete mutual satisfaction, physical and +psychic, of mother and child, in the transfer from one to the other of a +precious organized fluid, is the one true physiological analogy to the +relationship of a man and a woman at the climax of the sexual act. Even +this close analogy, however, fails to cover all the facts of the sexual +life. + +A very different view is presented to us in the definition of the sexual +instinct as a reproductive impulse, a desire for offspring. Hegar, +Eulenburg, Naecke, and Loewenfeld have accepted this as, at all events, a +partial definition.[18] No one, indeed, would argue that it is a complete +definition, although a few writers appear to have asserted that it is so +sometimes as regards the sexual impulse in women. There is, however, +considerable mental confusion in the attempt to set up such a definition. +If we define an instinct as an action adapted to an end which is not +present to consciousness, then it is quite true that the sexual instinct +is an instinct of reproduction. But we do not adequately define the sexual +instinct by merely stating its ultimate object. We might as well say that +the impulse by which young animals seize food is "an instinct of +nutrition." The object of reproduction certainly constitutes no part of +the sexual impulse whatever in any animal apart from man, and it reveals a +lack of the most elementary sense of biological continuity to assert that +in man so fundamental and involuntary a process can suddenly be +revolutionized. That the sexual impulse is very often associated with a +strong desire for offspring there can be no doubt, and in women the +longing for a child--that is to say, the longing to fulfill those +functions for which their bodies are constituted--may become so urgent and +imperative that we may regard it as scarcely less imperative than the +sexual impulse. But it is not the sexual impulse, though intimately +associated with it, and though it explains it. A reproductive instinct +might be found in parthenogenetic animals, but would be meaningless, +because useless, in organisms propagating by sexual union. A woman may not +want a lover, but may yet want a child. This merely means that her +maternal instincts have been aroused, while her sexual instincts are still +latent. A desire for reproduction, as soon as that desire becomes +instinctive, necessarily takes on the form of the sexual impulse, for +there is no other instinctive mechanism by which it can possibly express +itself. A "reproductive instinct," apart from the sexual instinct and +apart from the maternal instinct, cannot be admitted; it would be an +absurdity. Even in women in whom the maternal instincts are strong, it may +generally be observed that, although before a woman is in love, and also +during the later stages of her love, the conscious desire for a child may +be strong, during the time when sexual passion is at its highest the +thought of offspring, under normally happy conditions, tends to recede +into the background. Reproduction is the natural end and object of the +sexual instinct, but the statement that it is part of the contents of the +sexual impulse, or can in any way be used to define that impulse, must be +dismissed as altogether inacceptable. Indeed, although the term +"reproductive instinct" is frequently used, it is seldom used in a sense +that we need take seriously; it is vaguely employed as a euphemism by +those who wish to veil the facts of the sexual life; it is more precisely +employed mainly by those who are unconsciously dominated by a +superstitious repugnance to sex. + +I now turn to a very much more serious and elaborate attempt to define the +constitution of the sexual impulse, that of Moll. He finds that it is made +up of two separate components, each of which may be looked upon as an +uncontrollable impulse.[19] One of these is that by which the tension of +the sexual organs is spasmodically relieved; this he calls the _impulse of +detumescence_,[20] and he regards it as primary, resembling the impulse to +empty a full bladder. The other impulse is the "instinct to approach, +touch, and kiss another person, usually of the opposite sex"; this he +terms the _impulse of contrectation_, and he includes under this head not +only the tendency to general physical contact, but also the psychic +inclination to become generally interested in a person of the opposite +sex. Each of these primary impulses Moll regards as forming a constituent +of the sexual instinct in both men and women. It seems to me undoubtedly +true that these two impulses do correspond to the essential phenomena. The +awkward and unsatisfactory part of Moll's analysis is the relation of the +one to the other. It is true that he traces both impulses back to the +sexual glands, that of detumescence directly, that of contrectation +indirectly; but evidently he does not regard them as intimately related to +each other; he insists on the fact that they may exist apart from each +other, that they do not appear synchronously in youth: the contrectation +impulse he regards as secondary; it is, he states, an indirect result of +the sexual glands, "only to be understood by the developmental history of +these glands and the object which they subserve"; that is to say, that it +is connected with the rise of the sexual method of reproduction and the +desirability of the mingling of the two sexes in procreation, while the +impulse of detumescence arose before the sexual method of reproduction had +appeared; thus the contrectation impulse was propagated by natural +selection together with the sexual method of reproduction. The impulse of +contrectation is secondary, and Moll even regards it as a secondary sexual +character. + +While, therefore, this analysis seems to include all the phenomena and to +be worthy of very careful study as a serious and elaborate attempt to +present an adequate psychological definition of the sexual impulse, it +scarcely seems to me that we can accept it in precisely the form in which +Moll presents it. I believe, however, that by analyzing the process a +little more minutely we shall find that these two constituents of the +sexual impulse are really much more intimately associated than at the +first glance appears, and that we need by no means go back to the time +when the sexual method of reproduction arose to explain the significance +of the phenomena which Moll includes under the term contrectation. + +To discover the true significance of the phenomena in men it is necessary +to observe carefully the phenomena of love-making not only among men, but +among animals, in which the impulse of contrectation plays a very large +part, and involves an enormous expenditure of energy. Darwin was the first +to present a comprehensive view of, at all events a certain group of, the +phenomena of contrectation in animals; on his interpretation of those +phenomena he founded his famous theory of sexual selection. We are not +primarily concerned with that theory; but the facts on which Darwin based +his theory lie at the very roots of our subject, and we are bound to +consider their psychological significance. In the first place, since these +phenomena are specially associated with Darwin's name, it may not be out +of place to ask what Darwin himself considered to be their psychological +significance. It is a somewhat important question, even for those who are +mainly concerned with the validity of the theory which Darwin established +on those facts, but so far as I know it has not hitherto been asked. I +find that a careful perusal of the _Descent of Man_ reveals the presence +in Darwin's mind of two quite distinct theories, neither of them fully +developed, as to the psychological meaning of the facts he was collecting. +The two following groups of extracts will serve to show this very +conclusively: "The lower animals have a sense of beauty," he declares, +"powers of discrimination and taste on the part of the female" (p. +211[21]); "the females habitually or occasionally prefer the more +beautiful males," "there is little improbability in the females of insects +appreciating beauty in form or color" (p. 329); he speaks of birds as the +most "esthetic" of all animals excepting man, and adds that they have +"nearly the same taste for the beautiful as we have" (p. 359); he remarks +that a change of any kind in the structure or color of the male bird +"appears to have been admired by the female" (p. 385). He speaks of the +female Argus pheasant as possessing "this almost human degree of taste." +Birds, again, "seem to have some taste for the beautiful both in color and +sound," and "we ought not to feel too sure that the female does not attend +to each detail of beauty" (p. 421). Novelty, he says, is "admired by birds +for its own sake" (p. 495). "Birds have fine powers of discrimination and +in some few instances it can be shown that they have a taste for the +beautiful" (p. 496). The "esthetic capacity" of female animals has been +advanced by exercise just as our own taste has improved (p. 616). On the +other hand, we find running throughout the book quite another idea. Of +cicadas he tells us that it is probable that, "like female birds, they are +excited or allured by the male with the most attractive voice" (p. 282); +and, coming to _Locustidae_, he states that "all observers agree that the +sounds serve either to call or excite the mute females" (p. 283). Of birds +he says, "I am led to believe that the females prefer or are most excited +by the more brilliant males" (p. 316). Among birds also the males +"endeavor to charm or excite their mates by love-notes," etc., and "the +females are excited by certain males, and thus unconsciously prefer them" +(p. 367), while ornaments of all kinds "apparently serve to excite, +attract, or fascinate the female" (p. 394). In a supplemental note, also, +written in 1876, five years after the first publication of the _Descent of +Man_, and therefore a late statement of his views, Darwin remarks that "no +supporter of the principle of sexual selection believes that the females +select particular points of beauty in the males; they are merely excited +or attracted in a greater degree by one male than by another, and this +seems often to depend, especially with birds, on brilliant coloring" (p. +623). Thus, on the one hand, Darwin interprets the phenomena as involving +a real esthetic element, a taste for the beautiful; on the other hand, he +states, without apparently any clear perception that the two views are +quite distinct, that the colors and sounds and other characteristics of +the male are not an appeal to any esthetic sense of the female, but an +appeal to her sexual emotions, a stimulus to sexual excitement, an +allurement to sexual contact. According to the first theory, the female +admires beauty, consciously or unconsciously, and selects the most +beautiful partner[22]; according to the second theory, there is no +esthetic question involved, but the female is unconsciously influenced by +the most powerful or complex organic stimulus to which she is subjected. +There can be no question that it is the second, and not the first, of +these two views which we are justified in accepting. Darwin, it must be +remembered, was not a psychologist, and he lived before the methods of +comparative psychology had begun to be developed; had he written twenty +years later we may be sure he would never have used so incautiously some +of the vague and hazardous expressions I have quoted. He certainly injured +his theory of sexual selection by stating it in too anthropomorphic +language, by insisting on "choice," "preference," "esthetic sense," etc. +There is no need whatever to burden any statement of the actual facts by +such terms borrowed from human psychology. The female responds to the +stimulation of the male at the right moment just as the tree responds to +the stimulation of the warmest days in spring. We should but obscure this +fact by stating that the tree "chooses" the most beautiful days on which +to put forth its young sprouts. In explaining the correlation between +responsive females and accomplished males the supposition of esthetic +choice is equally unnecessary. It is, however, interesting to observe +that, though Darwin failed to see that the love-combats, pursuits, dances, +and parades of the males served as a method of stimulating the impulse of +contrectation--or, as it would be better to term it, tumescence--in the +male himself,[23] he to some extent realized the part thus played in +exciting the equally necessary activity of tumescence in the female. + + The justification for using the term "tumescence," which I here + propose, is to be found in the fact that vascular congestion, + more especially of the parts related to generation, is an + essential preliminary to acute sexual desire. This is clearly + brought out in Heape's careful study of the "sexual season" in + mammals. Heape distinguishes between the "pro-estrum," or + preliminary period of congestion, in female animals and the + immediately following "estrus," or period of desire. The latter + period is the result of the former, and, among the lower animals + at all events, intercourse only takes place during the estrus, + not during the pro-estrum. Tumescence must thus be obtained + before desire can become acute, and courtship runs _pari passu_ + with physiological processes. "Normal estrus," Heape states, + "occurs in conjunction with certain changes in the uterine + tissue, and this is accompanied by congestion and stimulation or + irritation of the copulatory organs.... Congestion is invariably + present and is an essential condition.... The first sign of + pro-estrum noticed in the lower mammals is a swollen and + congested vulva and a general restlessness, excitement, or + uneasiness. There are other signs familiar to breeders of various + mammals, such as the congested conjunctiva of the rabbit's eye + and the drooping ears of the pig. Many monkeys exhibit congestion + of the face and nipples, as well as of the buttocks, thighs, and + neighboring parts; sometimes they are congested to a very marked + extent, and in some species a swelling, occasionally prodigious, + of the soft tissues round the anal and generative openings, which + is also at the time brilliantly congested, indicates the progress + of the pro-estrum.... The growth of the stroma-tissue [in the + uterus of monkeys during the pro-estrum] is rapidly followed by + an increase in the number and size of the vessels of the stroma; + the whole becomes richly supplied with blood, and the surface is + flushed and highly vascular. This process goes on until the whole + of the internal stroma becomes tense and brilliantly injected + with blood.... In all essential points the menstruation or + pro-estrum of the human female is identical with that of + monkeys.... Estrus is possible only after the changes due to + pro-estrum have taken place in the uterus. A wave of disturbance, + at first evident in the external generative organs, extends to + the uterus, and after the various phases of pro-estrum have been + gone through in that organ, and the excitement there is + subsiding, it would seem as if the external organs gain renewed + stimulus, and it is then that estrus takes place.... In all + animals which have been investigated coition is not allowed by + the female until some time after the swelling and congestion of + the vulva and surrounding tissue are first demonstrated, and in + those animals which suffer from a considerable discharge of blood + the main portion of that discharge, if not the whole of it, will + be evacuated before sexual intercourse is allowed." (W. Heape, + "The 'Sexual Season' of Mammals," _Quarterly Journal of + Microscopical Science_, vol. xliv, Part I, 1900. Estrus has since + been fully discussed in Marshall's _Physiology of Reproduction_.) + This description clearly brings out the fundamentally vascular + character of the process I have termed "tumescence"; it must be + added, however, that in man the nervous elements in the process + tend to become more conspicuous, and more or less obliterate + these primitive limitations of sexual desire. (See "Sexual + Periodicity" in the first volume of these _Studies_.) + + Moll subsequently restated his position with reference to my + somewhat different analysis of the sexual impulse, still + maintaining his original view ("Analyse des Geschlechtstriebes," + _Medizinische Klinik_, Nos. 12 and 13, 1905; also _Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, vol. ii, Nos. 9 and 10). Numa Praetorius + (_Jahrbuch fuer Sexeuelle Zwischenstufen_, 1904, p. 592) accepts + contrectation, tumescence, and detumescence as all being stages + in the same process, contrectation, which he defines as the + sexual craving for a definite individual, coming first. Robert + Mueller (_Sexualbiologie_, 1907, p. 37) criticises Moll much in + the same sense as I have done and considers that contrectation + and detumescence cannot be separated, but are two expressions of + the same impulse; so also Max Katte, "Die Praeliminarien des + Geschlechtsaktes," _Zeitschrift fuer Sexualwissenschaft_, Oct., + 1908, and G. Saint-Paul, _L'Homosexualite et les Types + Homosexuels_, 1910, p. 390. + + While I regard Moll's analysis as a valuable contribution to the + elucidation of the sexual impulse, I must repeat that I cannot + regard it as final or completely adequate. As I understand the + process, contrectation is an incident in the development of + tumescence, an extremely important incident indeed, but not an + absolutely fundamental and primitive part of it. It is equally an + incident, highly important though not primitive and fundamental, + of detumescence. Contrectation, from first to last; furnishes + the best conditions for the exercise of the sexual process, but + it is not an absolutely essential part of the process and in the + early stages of zooelogical development it had no existence at + all. Tumescence and detumescence are alike fundamental, + primitive, and essential; in resting the sexual impulse on these + necessarily connected processes we are basing ourselves on the + solid bedrock of nature. + + Moreover, of the two processes, tumescence, which in time comes + first, is by far the most important, and nearly the whole of + sexual psychology is rooted in it. To assert, with Moll, that the + sexual process may be analyzed into contrectation and + detumescence alone is to omit the most essential part of the + process. It is much the same as to analyze the mechanism of a gun + into probable contact with the hand, and a more or less + independent discharge, omitting all reference to the loading of + the gun. The essential elements are the loading and the + discharging. Contrectation is a part of loading, though not a + necessary part, since the loading may be effected mechanically. + But to understand the process of firing a gun and to comprehend + the mechanism of the discharge, we must insist on the act of + loading and not merely on the contact of the hand. So it is in + analyzing the sexual impulse. Contrectation is indeed highly + important, but it is important only in so far as it aids + tumescence, and so may be subordinated to tumescence, exactly as + it may also be subordinated to detumescence. It is tumescence + which is the really essential part of the process, and we cannot + afford, with Moll, to ignore it altogether. + +Wallace opposed Darwin's theory of sexual selection, but it can scarcely +be said that his attitude toward it bears critical examination. On the one +hand, as has already been noted, he saw but one side of that theory and +that the unessential side, and, on the other hand, his own view really +coincided with the more essential elements in Darwin's theory. In his +_Tropical Nature_ he admitted that the male's "persistency and energy win +the day," and also that this "vigor and liveliness" of the male are +usually associated with intense coloration, while twenty years later (in +his _Darwinism_) he admitted also that it is highly probable that the +female is pleased or excited by the male's display. But all that is really +essential in Darwin's theory is involved, directly or indirectly, in these +admissions. + +Espinas, in 1878, in his suggestive book, _Des Societes Animales_, +described the odors, colors and forms, sounds, games, parades, and mock +battles of animals, approaching the subject in a somewhat more +psychological spirit than either Darwin or Wallace, and he somewhat more +clearly apprehended the object of these phenomena in producing mutual +excitement and stimulating tumescence. He noted the significance of the +action of the hermaphroditic snails in inserting their darts into each +other's flesh near the vulva in order to cause preliminary excitation. He +remarks of this whole group of phenomena: "It is the preliminary of sexual +union, it constitutes the first act of it. By it the image of the male is +graven on the consciousness of the female, and in a manner impregnates it, +so as to determine there, as the effects of this representation descend to +the depths of the organism, the physiological modifications necessary to +fecundation." Beaunis, again, in an analysis of the sexual sensations, was +inclined to think that the dances and parades of the male are solely +intended to excite the female, not perceiving, however, that they at the +same time serve to further excite the male also.[24] + +A better and more comprehensive statement was reached by Tillier, who, to +some extent, may be said to have anticipated Groos. Darwin, Tillier +pointed out, had not sufficiently taken into account the coexistence of +combat and courtship, nor the order of the phenomena. Courtship without +combat, Tillier argued, is rare; "there is a normal coexistence of combat +and courtship."[25] Moreover, he proceeded, force is the chief factor in +determining the possession of the female by the male, who in some species +is even prepared to exert force on her; so that the female has little +opportunity of sexual selection, though she is always present at these +combats. He then emphasized the significant fact that courtship takes +place long after pairing has ceased, and the question of selection thus +been eliminated. The object of courtship, he concluded, is not sexual +selection by the female, but the sexual excitement of both male and +female, such excitement, he asserted, not only rendering coupling easier, +but favoring fecundation. Modesty, also, Tillier further argued, again +anticipating Groos, works toward the same end; it renders the male more +ardent, and by retarding coupling may also increase the secretions of the +sexual glands and favor the chances of reproduction.[26] + + In a charming volume entitled _The Naturalist in La Plata_ (1892) + Mr. W.H. Hudson included a remarkable chapter on "Music and + Dancing in Nature." In this chapter he described many of the + dances, songs, and love-antics of birds, but regarded all such + phenomena as merely "periodical fits of gladness." While, + however, we may quite well agree with Mr. Hudson that conscious + sexual gratification on the part of the female is not the cause + of music and dancing performances in birds, nor of the brighter + colors and ornaments that distinguish the male, such an opinion + by no means excludes the conclusion that these phenomena are + primarily sexual and intimately connected with the process of + tumescence in both sexes. It is noteworthy that, according to + H.E. Howard ("On Sexual Selection in Birds," _Zooelogist_, Nov., + 1903), color is most developed just before pairing, rapidly + becoming less beautiful--even within a few hours--after this, and + the most beautiful male is most successful in getting paired. The + fact that, as Mr. Hudson himself points out, it is at the season + of love that these manifestations mainly, if not exclusively, + appear, and that it is the more brilliant and highly endowed + males which play the chief part in them, only serves to confirm + such a conclusion. To argue, with Mr. Hudson, that they cannot be + sexual because they sometimes occur before the arrival of the + females, is much the same as to argue that the antics of a + kitten with a feather or a reel have no relationship whatever to + mice. The birds that began earliest to practise their + accomplishments would probably have most chance of success when + the females arrived. Darwin himself said that nothing is commoner + than for animals to take pleasure in practising whatever instinct + they follow at other times for some real good. These + manifestations are primarily for the sake of producing sexual + tumescence, and could not well have been developed to the height + they have reached unless they were connected closely with + propagation. That they may incidentally serve to express + "gladness" one need not feel called upon to question. + + Another observer of birds, Mr. E. Selous, has made observations + which are of interest in this connection. He finds that all + bird-dances are not nuptial, but that some birds--the + stone-curlew (or great plover), for example--have different kinds + of dances. Among these birds he has made the observation, very + significant from our present point of view, that the nuptial + dances, taken part in by both of the pair, are immediately + followed by intercourse. In spring "all such runnings and + chasings are, at this time, but a part of the business of + pairing, and one divines at once that such attitudes are of a + sexual character.... Here we have a bird with distinct nuptial + (sexual) and social (non-sexual) forms of display or antics, and + the former as well as the latter are equally indulged in by both + sexes." (E. Selous, _Bird Watching_, pp. 15-20.) + + The same author (ibid., pp. 79, 94) argues that in the fights of + two males for one female--with violent emotion on one side and + interested curiosity on the other--the attitude of the former + "might gradually come to be a display made entirely for the + female, and of the latter a greater or less degree of pleasurable + excitement raised by it, with a choice in accordance." On this + view the interest of the female would first have been directed, + not to the plumage, but to the frenzied actions and antics of the + male. From these antics in undecorated birds would gradually + develop the interest in waving plumes and fluttering wings. Such + a dance might come to be of a quite formal and non-courting + nature. + + Last, we owe to Professor Haecker what may fairly be regarded, in + all main outlines, as an almost final statement of the matter. In + his _Gesang der Voegel_ (1900) he gives a very clear account of + the evolution of bird-song, which he regards as the most + essential element in all this group of manifestations, furnishing + the key also to the dancing and other antics. Originally the song + consists only of call-cries and recognition-notes. Under the + parallel influence of natural selection and sexual selection they + become at the pairing season reflexes of excitement and thus + develop into methods of producing excitement, in the male by the + muscular energy required, and in the female through the ear; + finally they become play, though here also it is probable that + use is not excluded. Thus, so far as the male bird is concerned, + bird-song possesses a primary prenuptial significance in + attracting the female, a secondary nuptial significance in + producing excitement (p. 48). He holds also that the + less-developed voices of the females aid in attaining the same + end (p. 51). Finally, bird-song possesses a tertiary extranuptial + significance (including exercise play, expression of gladness). + Haecker points out, at the same time, that the maintenance of some + degree of sexual excitement beyond pairing time may be of value + for the preservation of the species, in case of disturbance + during breeding and consequent necessity for commencing breeding + over again. + + Such a theory as this fairly coincides with the views brought + forward in the preceding pages,--views which are believed to be + in harmony with the general trend of thought today,--since it + emphasizes the importance of tumescence and all that favors + tumescence in the sexual process. The so-called esthetic element + in sexual selection is only indirectly of importance. The male's + beauty is really a symbol of his force. + + It will be seen that this attitude toward the facts of tumescence + among birds and other animals includes the recognition of dances, + songs, etc., as expressions of "gladness." As such they are + closely comparable to the art manifestations among human races. + Here, as Weismann in his _Gedanken ueber Musik_ has remarked, we + may regard the artistic faculty as a by-product: "This [musical] + faculty is, as it were, the mental hand with which we play on our + own emotional nature, a hand not shaped for this purpose, not due + to the necessity for the enjoyment of music, but owing its origin + to entirely different requirements." + +The psychological significance of these facts has been carefully studied +and admirably developed by Groos in his classic works on the play instinct +in animals and in men.[27] Going beyond Wallace, Groos denies _conscious_ +sexual selection, but, as he points out, this by no means involves the +denial of unconscious selection in the sense that "the female is most +easily won by the male who most strongly excites her sexual instincts." +Groos further quotes a pregnant generalization of Ziegler: "In all animals +a high degree of excitement of the nervous system is _necessary to +procreation_, and thus we find an excited prelude to procreation widely +spread."[28] Such a stage, indeed, as Groos points out, is usually +necessary before any markedly passionate discharge of motor energy, as may +be observed in angry dogs and the Homeric heroes. While, however, in other +motor explosions the prelude may be reduced to a minimum, in courtship it +is found in a highly marked degree. The primary object of courtship, Groos +insists, is to produce sexual excitement. + +It is true that Groos's main propositions were by no means novel. Thus, as +I have pointed out, he was at most points anticipated by Tillier. But +Groos developed the argument in so masterly a manner, and with so many +wide-ranging illustrations, that he has carried conviction where the mere +insight of others had passed unperceived. Since Darwin wrote the _Descent +of Man_ the chief step in the development of the theory of sexual +selection has been taken by Groos, who has at the same time made it clear +that sexual selection is largely a special case of natural selection.[29] +The conjunction of the sexes is seen to be an end only to be obtained with +much struggle; the difficulty of achieving sexual erethism in both sexes, +the difficulty of so stimulating such erethism in the female that her +instinctive coyness is overcome, these difficulties the best and most +vigorous males,[30] those most adapted in other respects to carry on the +race, may most easily overcome. In this connection we may note what Marro +has said in another connection, when attempting to answer the question why +it is that among savages courtship becomes so often a matter in which +persuasion takes the form of force. The explanation, he remarks, is yet +very simple. Force is the foundation of virility, and its psychic +manifestation is courage. In the struggle for life violence is the first +virtue. The modesty of women--in its primordial form consisting in +physical resistance, active or passive, to the assaults of the male--aided +selection by putting to the test man's most important quality, force. Thus +it is that when choosing among rivals for her favors a woman attributes +value to violence.[31] Marro thus independently confirms the result +reached by Groos. + +The debate which has for so many years been proceeding concerning the +validity of the theory of sexual selection may now be said to be brought +to an end. Those who supported Darwin and those who opposed him were, both +alike, in part right and in part wrong, and it is now possible to combine +the elements of truth on either side into a coherent whole. This is now +beginning to be widely recognized; Lloyd Morgan,[32] for instance, has +readjusted his position as regards the "pairing instinct" in the light of +Groos's contribution to the subject. "The hypothesis of sexual selection," +he concludes, "suggests that the accepted male is the one which adequately +evokes the pairing impulse.... Courtship may thus be regarded from the +physiological point of view as a means of producing the requisite amount +of pairing hunger; of stimulating the whole system and facilitating +general and special vascular changes; of creating that state of profound +and explosive irritability which has for its psychological concomitant or +antecedent an imperious and irresistible craving.... Courtship is thus +the strong and steady bending of the bow that the arrow may find its mark +in a biological end of the highest importance in the survival of a healthy +and vigorous race." + + Having thus viewed the matter broadly, we may consider in detail + a few examples of the process of tumescence among the lower + animals and man, for, as will be seen, the process in both is + identical. As regards animal courtship, the best treasury of + facts is Brehm's _Thierleben_, while Buechner's _Liebe und + Liebes-Leben in der Thierwelt_ is a useful summary; the admirable + discussion of bird-dancing and other forms of courtship in + Haecker's _Gesang der Voegel_, chapter iv, may also be consulted. + As regards man, Wallaschek's _Primitive Music_, chapter vii, + brings together much scattered material, and is all the more + valuable since the author rejects any form of sexual selection; + Hirn's _Origins of Art_, chapter xvii, is well worth reading, and + Finck's _Primitive Love and Love-stories_ contains a large amount + of miscellaneous information. I have preferred not to draw on any + of these easily accessible sources (except that in one or two + cases I have utilized references they supplied), but here simply + furnish illustrations met with in the course of my own reading. + + Even in the hermaphroditic slugs (_Limax maximus_) the process of + courtship is slow and elaborate. It has been described by James + Bladon ("The Loves of the Slug [_Limax cinereus_]," _Zooelogist_, + vol. xv, 1857, p. 6272). It begins toward midnight on sultry + summer nights, one slug slowly following another, resting its + mouth on what may be called the tail of the first, and following + its every movement. Finally they stop and begin crawling around + each other, emitting large quantities of mucus. When this has + constituted a mass of sufficient size and consistence they + suspend themselves from it by a cord of mucus from nine to + fifteen inches in length, continuing to turn round each other + till their bodies form a cone. Then the organs of generation are + protruded from their orifice near the mouth and, hanging down a + short distance, touch each other. They also then begin again the + same spiral motion, twisting around each other, like a two-strand + cord, assuming various and beautiful forms, sometimes like an + inverted agaric, or a foliated murex, or a leaf of curled + parsley, the light falling on the ever-varying surface of the + generative organs sometimes producing iridescence. It is not + until after a considerable time that the organs untwist and are + withdrawn and the bodies separate, to crawl up the suspending + cord and depart. + + Some snails have a special organ for creating sexual excitement. + A remarkable part of the reproductive system in many of the true + Helicidae is the so-called _dart, Liebespfeil_, or _telum + Veneris_. It consists of a straight or curved, sometimes + slightly twisted, tubular shaft of carbonate of lime, tapering to + a fine point above, and enlarging gradually, more often somewhat + abruptly, to the base. The sides of the shaft are sometimes + furnished with two or more blades; these are apparently not for + cutting purposes, but simply to brace the stem. The dart is + contained in a dart-sac, which is attached as a sort of pocket to + the vagina, at no great distance from its orifice. In _Helix + aspersa_ the dart is about five-sixteenths of an inch in length, + and one-eighth of an inch in breadth at its base. It appears most + probable that the dart is employed as an adjunct for the sexual + act. Besides the fact of the position of the dart-sac + anatomically, we find that the darts are extended and become + imbedded in the flesh, just before or during the act of + copulation. It may be regarded, then, as an organ whose functions + induce excitement preparatory to sexual union. It only occurs in + well-grown specimens. (Rev. L.H. Cooke, "Molluscs," _Cambridge + Natural History_, vol. iii, p. 143.) + + Racovitza has shown that in the octopus (_Octopus vulgaris_) + courtship is carried on with considerable delicacy, and not + brutally, as had previously been supposed. The male gently + stretches out his third arm on the right and caresses the female + with its extremity, eventually passing it into the chamber formed + by the mantle. The female contracts spasmodically, but does not + attempt to move. They remain thus about an hour or more, and + during this time the male shifts the arm from one oviduct to the + other. Finally he withdraws his arm, caresses her with it for a + few moments, and then replaces it with his other arm. (E.G. + Racovitza, in _Archives de Zooelogie Experimentale_, quoted in + _Natural Science_, November, 1894.) + + The phenomena of courtship are very well illustrated by spiders. + Peckham, who has carefully studied them, tells us of _Saitis + pulex_: "On May 24th we found a mature female, and placed her in + one of the larger boxes, and the next day we put a male in with + her. He saw her as she stood perfectly still, twelve inches away; + the glance seemed to excite him, and he at once moved toward her; + when some four inches from her he stood still, and then began the + most remarkable performances that an amorous male could offer to + an admiring female. She eyed him eagerly, changing her position + from time to time so that he might be always in view. He, raising + his whole body on one side by straightening out the legs, and + lowering it on the other by folding the first two pairs of legs + up and under, leaned so far over as to be in danger of losing his + balance, which he only maintained by sliding rapidly toward the + lowered side. The palpus, too, on this side was turned back to + correspond to the direction of the legs nearest it. He moved in a + semicircle for about two inches, and then instantly reversed the + position of the legs and circled in the opposite direction, + gradually approaching nearer and nearer to the female. Now she + dashes toward him, while he, raising his first pair of legs, + extends them upward and forward as if to hold her off, but withal + slowly retreats. Again and again he circles from side to side, + she gazing toward him in a softer mood, evidently admiring the + grace of his antics. This is repeated until we have counted one + hundred and eleven circles made by the ardent little male. Now he + approaches nearer and nearer, and when almost within reach whirls + madly around and around her, she joining and whirling with him in + a giddy maze. Again he falls back and resumes his semicircular + motions, with his body tilted over; she, all excitement, lowers + her head and raises her body so that it is almost vertical; both + draw nearer; she moves slowly under him, he crawling over her + head, and the mating is accomplished." + + The same author thus describes the courtship of _Dendryphantes + elegans_: "While from three to five inches distant from her, he + begins to wave his plumy first legs in a way that reminds one of + a windmill. She eyes him fiercely, and he keeps at a proper + distance for a long time. If he comes close she dashes at him, + and he quickly retreats. Sometimes he becomes bolder, and when + within an inch, pauses, with the first legs outstretched before + him, not raised as is common in other species; the palpi also are + held stiffly out in front with the points together. Again she + drives him off, and so the play continues. Now the male grows + excited as he approaches her, and while still several inches + away, whirls completely around and around; pausing, he runs + closer and begins to make his abdomen quiver as he stands on + tiptoe in front of her. Prancing from side to side, he grows + bolder and bolder, while she seems less fierce, and yielding to + the excitement, lifts up her magnificently iridescent abdomen, + holding it at one time vertical, and at another sideways to him. + She no longer rushes at him, but retreats a little as he + approaches. At last he comes close to her, lying flat, with his + first legs stretched out and quivering. With the tips of his + front legs he gently pats her; this seems to arouse the old demon + of resistance, and she drives him back. Again and again he pats + her with a caressing movement, gradually creeping nearer and + nearer, which she now permits without resistance, until he crawls + over her head to her abdomen, far enough to reach the epigynum + with his palpus." (G.W. Peckham, "Sexual Selection of Spiders," + _Occasional Papers of the Natural History Society of Wisconsin_, + 1889, quoted in _Nature_, August 21, 1890.) + + The courtship of another spider, the _Agelena labyrinthica_, has + been studied by Lecaillon ("Les Instincts et les Psychismes des + Araignees," _Revue Scientifique_, Sept. 15, 1906.) The male + enters the female's web and may be found there about the middle + of July. When courtship has begun it is not interrupted by the + closest observation, even under the magnifying glass. At first it + is the male which seeks to couple and he pursues the female over + her web till she consents. The pursuit may last some hours, the + male agitating his abdomen in a peculiar way, while the female + simply retreats a short distance without allowing herself to be + approached. At last the female holds herself completely + motionless, and then the male approaches, seizes her, places her + on her side, sometimes carrying her to a more suitable part of + the web. Then one of his copulative apparatus is applied to the + female genital opening, and copulation begins. When completed (on + an average in about two hours) the male withdraws his copulatory + palpus and turns over the female, who is still inert, on to her + other side, then brings his second copulatory apparatus to the + female opening and starts afresh. When the process is definitely + completed the male leaves the female, suddenly retiring to a + little distance. The female, who had remained completely + motionless for four hours, suddenly runs after the male. But she + only pursues him for a short distance, and the two spiders remain + together without any danger to either. Lecaillon disbelieves the + statement of Romanes (in his _Animal Intelligence_) that the + female eats the male after copulation. But this certainly seems + to occur sometimes among insects, as illustrated by the following + instance described by so careful an observer of insects as Fabre. + + The _Mantis religiosa_ is described by Fabre as contemplating the + female for a long time in an attitude of ecstasy. She remains + still and seems indifferent. He is small and she is large. At + last he approaches; spreads his wings, which tremble + convulsively; leaps on her back, and fixes himself there. The + preludes are long and the coupling itself sometimes occupies five + or six hours. Then they separate. But the same day or the + following day she seizes him and eats him up in small mouthfuls. + She will permit a whole series of males to have intercourse with + her, always eating them up directly afterward. Fabre has even + seen her eating the male while still on her back, his head and + neck gone, but his body still firmly attached. (J.H. Fabre, + _Souvenirs Entomologiques_, fifth series, p. 307.) Fabre also + describes in great detail (ibid., ninth series, chs. xxi-xxii) + the sexual parades of the Languedoc scorpion (_Scorpio + occitanus_), an arachnid. These parades are in public; for their + subsequent intercourse the couple seek complete seclusion, and + the female finally eats the male. + + An insect (a species of _Empis_) has been described which excites + the female by manipulating a large balloon. "This is of + elliptical shape, about seven millimeters long (nearly twice as + long as the fly), hollow, and composed entirely of a single layer + of minute bubbles, nearly uniform in size, arranged in regular + circles concentric with the axis of the structure. The + beautiful, glistening whiteness of the object when the sun shines + upon it makes it very conspicuous. The bubbles were slightly + viscid, and in nearly every case there was a small fly pressed + into the front end of the balloon, apparently as food for the + _Empis_. In all cases they were dead. The balloon appears to be + made while the insect is flying in the air. Those flying highest + had the smallest balloons. The bubbles are probably produced by + some modification of the anal organs. It is possible that the + captured fly serves as a nucleus to begin the balloon on. One + case of a captured fly but no balloon was observed. After + commencing, it is probable that the rest of the structure is made + by revolving the completed part between the hind legs and adding + more bubbles somewhat spirally. The posterior end of the balloon + is left more or less open. The purpose of this structure is to + attract the female. When numerous males were flying up and down + the road, it happened several times that a female was seen to + approach them from some choke-cherry blossoms near by. The males + immediately gathered in her path, and she with little hesitation + selected for a mate the one with the largest balloon, taking a + position _upon his back_. After copulation had begun, the pair + would settle down toward the ground, select a quiet spot, and the + female would alight by placing her front legs across a horizontal + grass blade, her head resting against the blade so as to brace + the body in position. Here she would continue to hold the male + beneath her for a little time, until the process was finished. + The male, meanwhile, would be rolling the balloon about in a + variety of positions, juggling with it, one might almost say. + After the male and female parted company, the male immediately + dropped the balloon upon the ground, and it was greedily seized + by ants. No illustration could properly show the beauty of the + balloon." (Aldrich and Turley, "A Balloon-making Fly," _American + Naturalist_, October, 1899.) + + "In many species of moths the males 'assemble' around the freshly + emerged female, but no special advantage appears to attend on + early arrival. The female sits apparently motionless, while the + little crowd of suitors buzz around her for several minutes. + Suddenly, and, as far as one can see, without any sign from the + female, one of the males pairs with her and all the others + immediately disappear. In these cases the males do not fight or + struggle in any way, and as one watches the ceremony the wonder + arises as to how the moment is determined, and why the pairing + did not take place before. Proximity does not decide the point, + for long beforehand the males often alight close to the female + and brush against her with fluttering wings. I have watched the + process exactly as I have described it in a common Northern + _Noctua_, the antler moth (_Charaeax graminis_), and I have seen + the same thing among beetles." (E.B. Poulton, _The Colors of + Animals_, 1890, p. 391.) This author mentions that among some + butterflies the females take the active part. The example here + quoted of courtship among moths illustrates how phenomena which + are with difficulty explicable by the theory of sexual selection + in its original form become at once intelligible when we realize + the importance of tumescence in courtship. + + Of the Argentine cow-bird (_Molothrus bonariensis_) Hudson says + (_Argentine Ornithology_, vol. i, p. 73): "The song of the male, + particularly when making love, is accompanied with gestures and + actions somewhat like those of the domestic pigeon. He swells + himself out, beating the ground with his wings, and uttering a + series of deep internal notes, followed by others loud and clear; + and occasionally, when uttering them, he suddenly takes wing and + flies directly away from the female to a distance of fifty yards, + and performs a wide circuit about her in the air, singing all the + time. The homely object of his passion always appears utterly + indifferent to this curious and pretty performance; yet she must + be even more impressionable than most female birds, since she + continues scattering about her parasitical and often wasted eggs + during four months in every year." + + Of a tyrant-bird (_Pitangus Bolivianus_) Hudson writes + (_Argentine Ornithology_, vol. i, p. 148): "Though the male and + female are greatly attached, they do not go afield to hunt in + company, but separate to meet again at intervals during the day. + One of a couple (say, the female) returns to the trees where they + are accustomed to meet, and after a time, becoming impatient or + anxious at the delay of her consort, utters a very long, clear + call-note. He is perhaps a quarter of a mile away, watching for a + frog beside a pool, or beating over a thistle-bed, but he hears + the note and presently responds with one of equal power. Then, + perhaps, for half an hour, at intervals of half a minute, the + birds answer each other, though the powerful call of the one must + interfere with his hunting. At length he returns; then the two + birds, perched close together, with their yellow bosoms almost + touching, crests elevated, and beating the branch with their + wings, scream their loudest notes in concert--a confused jubilant + noise that rings through the whole plantation. Their joy at + meeting is patent, and their action corresponds to the warm + embrace of a loving human couple." + + Of the red-breasted marsh-bird (_Leistes superciliaris_) Hudson + (_Argentine Ornithology_, vol. i, p. 100) writes: "These birds + are migratory, and appear everywhere in the eastern part of the + Argentine country early in October, arriving singly, after which + each male takes up a position in a field or open space abounding + with coarse grass and herbage, where he spends most of his time + perched on the summit of a tall stalk or weed, his glowing + crimson bosom showing at a distance like some splendid flower + above the herbage. At intervals of two or three minutes he soars + vertically up to a height of twenty or twenty-five yards to utter + his song, composed of a single long, powerful and rather musical + note, ending with an attempt at a flourish, during which the bird + flutters and turns about in the air; then, as if discouraged at + his failure, he drops down, emitting harsh, guttural chirps, to + resume his stand. Meanwhile the female is invisible, keeping + closely concealed under the long grass. But at length, attracted + perhaps by the bright bosom and aerial music of the male, she + occasionally exhibits herself for a few moments, starting up with + a wild zigzag flight, and, darting this way and that, presently + drops into the grass once more. The moment she appears above the + grass the male gives chase, and they vanish from sight together." + + "Courtship with the mallard," says J.G. Millais (_Natural History + of British Ducks_, p. 6), "appears to be carried on by both + sexes, though generally three or four drakes are seen showing + themselves off to attract the attention of a single duck. + Swimming round her, in a coy and semi-self-conscious manner, they + now and again all stop quite still, nod, bow, and throw their + necks out in token of their admiration and their desire of a + favorable response. But the most interesting display is when all + the drakes simultaneously stand up in the water and rapidly pass + their bills down their breasts, uttering at the same time a low + single note somewhat like the first half of the call that teal + and pintail make when 'showing off.' At other times the + love-making of the drake seems to be rather passive than active. + While graciously allowing himself to be courted, he holds his + head high with conscious pride, and accepts as a matter of course + any attention that may be paid to him. A proud bird is he when + three or four ducks come swimming along beside and around him, + uttering a curious guttural note, and at the same time dipping + their bills in quick succession to right and left. He knows what + that means, and carries himself with even greater dignity than + before. In the end, however, he must give in. As a last appeal, + one of his lady lovers may coyly lower herself in the water till + only the top of her back, head, and neck is seen, and so + fascinating an advance as this no drake of any sensibility can + withstand." + + The courting of the Argus pheasant, noted for the extreme beauty + of the male's plumage, was observed by H.O. Forbes in Sumatra. It + is the habit of this bird to make "a large circus, some ten or + twelve feet in diameter, in the forest, which it clears of every + leaf and twig and branch, till the ground is perfectly swept and + garnished. On the margin of this circus there is invariably a + projecting branch or high-arched root, at a few feet elevation + above the ground, on which the female bird takes its place, while + in the ring the male--the male birds alone possess great + decoration--shows off all its magnificence for the gratification + and pleasure of his consort and to exalt himself in her eyes." + (H.O. Forbes, _A. Naturalist's Wanderings_, 1885, p. 131.) + + "All ostriches, adults as well as chicks, have a strange habit + known as 'waltzing.' After running for a few hundred yards they + will also stop, and, with raised wings, spin around rapidly for + some time after until quite giddy, when a broken leg occasionally + occurs.... Vicious cocks 'roll' when challenging to fight or when + wooing the hen. The cock will suddenly bump down on to his knees + (the ankle-joint), open his wings, and then swing them + alternately backward and forward, as if on a pivot.... While + rolling, every feather over the whole body is on end, and the + plumes are open, like a large white fan. At such a time the bird + sees very imperfectly, if at all; in fact, he seems so + preoccupied that, if pursued, one may often approach unnoticed. + Just before rolling, a cock, especially if courting the hen, will + often run slowly and daintily on the points of his toes, with + neck slightly inflated, upright, and rigid, the tail + half-drooped, and all his body-feathers fluffed up; the wings + raised and expanded, the inside edges touching the sides of the + neck for nearly the whole of its length, and the plumes showing + separately, like an open fan. In no other attitude is the + splendid beauty of his plumage displayed to such advantage." + (S.C. Cronwright Schreiner, "The Ostrich," _Zooelogist_, March, + 1897.) + + As may be seen from the foregoing fairly typical examples, the + phenomena of courtship are highly developed, and have been most + carefully studied, in animals outside the mammal series. It may + seem a long leap from birds to man; yet, as will be seen, the + phenomena among primitive human peoples, if not, indeed, among + many civilized peoples also, closely resemble those found among + birds, though, unfortunately, they have not usually been so + carefully studied. + + In Australia, where dancing is carried to a high pitch of + elaboration, its association with the sexual impulse is close and + unmistakable. Thus, Mr. Samuel Gason (of whom it has been said + that "no man living has been more among blacks or knows more of + their ways") remarks concerning a dance of the Dieyerie tribe: + "This dance men and women only take part in, in regular form and + position, keeping splendid time to the rattle of the beat of two + boomerangs; some of the women keep time by clapping their hands + between their thighs; promiscuous sexual intercourse follows + after the dance; jealousy is forbidden." Again, at the Mobierrie, + or rat-harvest, "many weeks' preparation before the dance comes + off; no quarreling is allowed; promiscuous sexual intercourse + during the ceremony." The fact that jealousy is forbidden at + these festivals clearly indicates that sexual intercourse is a + recognized and probably essential element in the ceremonies. This + is further emphasized by the fact that at other festivals open + sexual intercourse is not allowed. Thus, at the Mindarie, or + dance at a peace festival (when a number of tribes comes + together), "there is great rejoicing at the coming festival, + which is generally held at the full of the moon, and kept up all + night. The men are artistically decorated with down and feathers, + with all kinds of designs. The down and feathers are stuck on + their bodies with blood freshly taken from their penis; they are + also nicely painted with various colors; tufts of boughs are tied + on their ankles to make a noise while dancing. Promiscuous sexual + intercourse is carried on _secretly_; many quarrels occur at this + time." (_Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, vol. xxiv, + November, 1894, p. 174.) + + In Australian dances, sometimes men and women dance together, + sometimes the men dance alone, sometimes the women. In one dance + described by Eyre: "Women are the chief performers; their bodies + are painted with white streaks, and their hair adorned with + cockatoo feathers. They carry large sticks in their hands, and + place themselves in a row in front, while the men with their + spears stand in a row behind them. They then all commence their + movements, but without intermingling, the males and females + dancing by themselves. The women have occasionally another mode + of dancing, by joining the hands together over the head, closing + the feet, and bringing the knees into contact. The legs are then + thrown outward from the knee, while the feet and hands are kept + in their original position, and, being drawn quickly in again, a + sharp sound is produced by the collision. This is also practised + alone by young girls or by several together for their own + amusement. It is adopted also when a single woman is placed in + front of a row of male dancers to excite their passions." (E.J. + Eyre, _Journals of Expeditions into Central Australia_, vol. ii, + p. 235.) + + A charming Australian folk-tale concerning two sisters with + wings, who disliked men, and their wooing by a man, clearly + indicates, even among the Australians (whose love-making is + commonly supposed to be somewhat brutal in character), the + consciousness that it is by his beauty, charm, and skill in + courtship that a man wins a woman. Unahanach, the lover, stole + unperceived to the river where the girls were bathing and at last + showed himself carelessly sitting on a high tree. The girls were + startled, but thought it would be safe to amuse themselves by + looking at the intruder. "Young and with the most active figure, + yet of a strength that defied the strongest emu, and even enabled + him to resist an 'old man' kangaroo, he had no equal in the + chase, and conscious power gave a dignity to his expression that + at one glance calmed the fears of the two girls. His large + brilliant eyes, shaded by a deep fringe of soft black eyelashes, + gazed down upon them admiringly, and his rich black hair hung + around his well-formed face, smooth and shining from the emu-oil + with which it was abundantly covered." At last he persuaded them + to talk and by and by induced them to call him husband. Then they + went off with him, with no thought of flight in their hearts. + ("Australian Folklore Stories," collected by W. Dunlop, _Journal + of the Anthropological Institute_, new series, vol. i, 1898, p. + 33.) + + Of the people of Torres Straits Haddon states (_Reports + Anthropological Expedition to Torres Straits_, vol. v, p. 222): + "It was during the secular dance, or _Kap_, that the girls + usually lost their hearts to the young men. A young man who was a + good dancer would find favor in the sight of the girls. This can + be readily understood by anyone who has seen the active, skilful, + and fatiguing dances of these people. A young man who could + acquit himself well in these dances must be possessed of no mean + strength and agility, qualities which everywhere appeal to the + opposite sex. Further, he was decorated, according to local + custom, with all that would render him more imposing in the eyes + of the spectators. As the former chief of Mabuiag put it, 'In + England if a man has plenty of money, women want to marry him; so + here, if a man dances well they too want him.' In olden days the + war-dance, which was performed after a successful foray, would be + the most powerful excitement to a marriageable girl, especially + if a young man had distinguished himself sufficiently to bring + home the head of someone he had killed." + + Among the tribes inhabiting the mouth of the Wanigela River, New + Guinea, "when a boy admires a girl, he will not look at her, + speak to her, or go near her. He, however, shows his love by + athletic bounds, posing, and pursuit, and by the spearing of + imaginary enemies, etc., before her, to attract her attention. If + the girl reciprocates his love she will employ a small girl to + give to him an _ugauga gauna_, or love invitation, consisting of + an areca-nut whose skin has been marked with different designs, + significant of her wish to _ugauga_. After dark he is apprised of + the place where the girl awaits him; repairing thither, he seats + himself beside her as close as possible, and they mutually share + in the consumption of the betel-nut." This constitutes betrothal; + henceforth he is free to visit the girl's house and sleep there. + Marriages usually take place at the most important festival of + the year, the _kapa_, preparations for which are made during the + three previous months, so that there may be a bountiful and + unfailing supply of bananas. Much dancing takes place among the + unmarried girls, who, also, are tattooed at this time over the + whole of the front of the body, special attention being paid to + the lower parts, as a girl who is not properly tattooed there + possesses no attraction in the eyes of young men. Married women + and widows and divorced women are not forbidden to take part in + these dances, but it would be considered ridiculous for them to + do so. (R.E. Guise, "On the Tribes of the Wanigela River," + _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, new series, vol. i, + 1899, pp. 209, 214 et seq.) + + In the island of Nias in the Malay Archipelago, Modigliani + (mainly on the excellent authority of Sundermann, the missionary) + states, at a wedding "dancing and singing go on throughout the + day. The women, two or three at a time, a little apart from the + men, take part in the dancing, which is very well adapted to + emphasize the curves of the flanks and the breasts, though at the + same time the defects of their legs are exhibited in this series + of rhythmic contortions which constitute a Nias dance. The most + graceful movement they execute is a lascivious undulation of the + flanks while the face and breast are slowly wound round by the + _sarong_ [a sort of skirt] held in the hands, and then again + revealed. These movements are executed with jerks of the wrist + and contortions of the flanks, not always graceful, but which + excite the admiration of the spectators, even of the women, who + form in groups to sing in chorus a compliment, more or less + sincere, in which they say: 'They dance with the grace of birds + when they fly. They dance as the hawk flies; it is lovely to + see.' They sing and dance both at weddings and at other + festivals." (Elio Modigliani, _Un Viaggio a Nias_, 1890, p. 549.) + + In Sumatra Marsden states that chastity prevails more, perhaps, + than among any other people: "But little apparent courtship + precedes their marriages. Their manners do not admit of it, the + _boojong_ and _geddas_ (youths of each sex) being carefully kept + asunder and the latter seldom trusted from under the wings of + their mothers.... The opportunities which the young people have + of seeing and conversing with each other are at the _birnbangs_, + or public festivals. On these occasions the young people meet + together and dance and sing in company. The men, when determined + in their regard, generally employ an old woman as their agent, by + whom they make known their sentiments, and send presents to the + female of their choice. The parents then interfere, and the + preliminaries being settled, a _birnbang_ takes place. The young + women proceed in a body to the upper end of the _balli_ (hall), + where there is a part divided off for them by a curtain. They do + not always make their appearance before dinner, that time, + previous to a second or third meal, being appropriated to + cock-fighting or other diversions peculiar to men. In the evening + their other amusements take place, of which the dances are the + principal. These are performed either singly or by two women, two + men, or with both mixed. Their motions and attitudes are usually + slow, approaching often to the lascivious. They bend forward as + they dance, and usually carry a fan, which they close and strike + smartly against their elbows at particular cadences.... The + assembly seldom breaks up before daylight and these _birnbangs_ + are often continued for several days together. The young men + frequent them in order to look out for wives, and the lasses of + course set themselves off to the best advantage. They wear their + best silken dresses, of their own weaving, as many ornaments of + filigree as they possess, silver rings upon their arms and legs, + and ear-rings of a particular construction. Their hair is + variously adorned with flowers, and perfumed with oil of + benjamin. Civet is also in repute, but more used by the men. To + render their skin fine, smooth, and soft they make use of a white + cosmetic called _poopoor_ [a mixture of ginger, patch-leaf, + maize, sandal-wood, fairy-cotton, and mush-seed with a basis of + fine rice]." (W. Marsden, _History of Sumatra_, 1783, p. 230.) + + The Alfurus of Seram in the Moluccas, who have not yet been + spoilt by foreign influences, are very fond of music and dancing. + Their _maku_ dances, which take place at night, have been + described by Joest: "Great torches of dry bamboos and piles of + burning resinous leaves light up the giant trees to their very + summits and reveal in the distance the little huts which the + Alfuras have built in the virgin forests, as well as the skulls + of the slain. The women squat together by the fire, making a + deafening noise with the gongs and the drums, while the young + girls, richly adorned with pearls and fragrant flowers, await the + beginning of the dance. Then appear the men and youths without + weapons, but in full war-costume, the girdle freshly marked with + the number of slain enemies. [Among the Alfuras it is the man who + has the largest number of heads to show who has most chance of + winning the object of his love.] They hold each other's arms and + form a circle, which is not, however, completely closed. A song + is started, and with small, slow steps this ring of bodies, like + a winding snake, moves sideways, backward, closes, opens again, + the steps become heavier, the songs and drums louder, the girls + enter the circle and with closed eyes grasp the girdle of their + chosen youths, who clasp them by the hips and necks, the chain + becomes longer and longer, the dance and song more ardent, until + the dancers grow tired and disappear in the gloom of the forest." + (W. Joest, _Welt-Fahrten_, 1895, Bd. ii, p. 159.) + + The women of the New Hebrides dance, or rather sway, to and fro + in the midst of a circle formed by the men, with whom they do not + directly mingle. They leap, show their genital parts to the men, + and imitate the movements of coitus. Meanwhile the men unfasten + the _manou_ (penis-wrap) from their girdles with one hand, with + the other imitating the action of seizing a woman, and, excited + by the women, also go through a mock copulation. Sometimes, it is + said, the dancers masturbate. This takes place amid plaintive + songs, interrupted from time to time by loud cries and howls. + (_Untrodden Fields of Anthropology_, by a French army-surgeon, + 1898, vol. ii, p. 341.) + + Among the hill tribes of the Central Indian Hills may be traced a + desire to secure communion with the spirit of fertility embodied + in vegetation. This appears, for instance, in a tree-dance, which + is carried out on a date associated not only with the growths of + the crops or with harvest, but also with the seasonal period for + marriage and the annual Saturnalia. (W. Crooke, "The Hill + Tribes," _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, new series, + vol. i, 1899, p. 243.) The association of dancing with seasonal + ritual festivals of a generative character--of which the above is + a fairly typical instance--leads us to another aspect of these + phenomena on which I have elsewhere touched in these _Studies_ + (vol. i) when discussing the "Phenomena of Periodicity." + + The Tahitians, when first discovered by Europeans, appear to have + been highly civilized on the sexual side and very licentious. Yet + even at Tahiti, when visited by Cook, the strict primitive + relationship between dancing and courtship still remained + traceable. Cook found "a dance called Timorodee, which is + performed by young girls, whenever eight or ten of them can be + collected together, consisting of motions and gestures beyond + imagination wanton, in the practice of which they are brought up + from their earliest childhood, accompanied by words which, if it + were possible, would more explicitly convey the same ideas. But + the practice which is allowed to the virgin is prohibited to the + woman from the moment that she has put these hopeful lessons in + practice and realized the symbols of the dance." He added, + however, that among the specially privileged class of the Areoi + these limitations were not observed, for he had heard that this + dance was sometimes performed by them as a preliminary to sexual + intercourse. (Hawkesworth, _An Account of the Voyages_, etc., + 1775, vol. ii, p. 54.) + + Among the Marquesans at the marriage of a woman, even of high + rank, she lies with her head at the bridegroom's knees and all + the male guests come in single file, singing and dancing--those + of lower class first and the great chiefs last--and have + connection with the woman. There are often a very large number of + guests and the bride is sometimes so exhausted at the end that + she has to spend several days in bed. (Tautain, "Etude sur le + Mariage chez les Polynesiens," _L'Anthropologie_, + November-December, 1895, p. 642.) The interesting point for us + here is that singing and dancing are still regarded as a + preliminary to a sexual act. It has been noted that in sexual + matters the Polynesians, when first discovered by Europeans, had + largely gone beyond the primitive stage, and that this applies + also to some of their dances. Thus the _hula-hula_ dance, while + primitive in origin, may probably be compared more to a civilized + than to a primitive dance, since it has become divorced from real + life. In the same way, while the sexual pantomime dance of the + Azimba girls of central Africa has a direct and recognized + relationship to the demands of real life, the somewhat allied + _danses du ventre_ of the Hamitic peoples of northern Africa are + merely an amusement, a play more or less based on the sexual + instinct. At the same time it is important to bear in mind that + there is no rigid distinction between dances that are, and those + that are not, primitive. As Haddon truly points out in a book + containing valuable detailed descriptions of dances, even among + savages dances are so developed that it is difficult to trace + their origin, and at Torres Straits, he remarks, "there are + certainly play or secular dances, dances for pure amusement + without any ulterior design." (A.C. Haddon, _Head Hunters_, p. + 233.) When we remember that dancing had probably become highly + developed long before man appeared on the earth, this difficulty + in determining the precise origin of human dancing cannot cause + surprise. + + Spix and Martius described how the Muras of Brazil by moonlight + would engage all night in a Bacchantic dance in a great circle, + hand in hand, the men on one side, the women on the other, + shouting out all the time, the men "Who will marry me?" the + women, "You are a beautiful devil; all women will marry you," + (Spix and Martius, _Reise in Brasilien_, 1831, vol. iii, p. + 1117.) They also described in detail the dance of the Brazilian + Puris, performed in a state of complete nakedness, the men in a + row, the women in another row behind them. They danced backward + and forward, stamping and singing, at first in a slow and + melancholy style, but gradually with increasing vigor and + excitement. Then the women began to rotate the pelvis backward + and forward, and the men to thrust their bodies forward, the + dance becoming a pantomimic representation of sexual intercourse + (ibid., vol. i, 1823, pp. 373-5). + + Among the Apinages of Brazil, also, the women stand in a row, + almost motionless, while the men dance and leap in front of them, + both men and women at the same time singing. (Buscalioni, "Reise + zu den Apinages," _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1899, ht. 6, p. + 650.) + + Among the Gilas of New Mexico, "when a young man sees a girl whom + he desires for a wife, he first endeavors to gain the good-will + of the parents; this accomplished, he proceeds to serenade his + lady-love, and will often sit for hours, day after day, near her + home, playing on his flute. Should the girl not appear, it is a + sign she rejects him; but if, on the other hand, she comes out to + meet him, he knows that his suit is accepted, and he takes her to + his home. No marriage ceremony is performed."[33] (H.H. Bancroft, + _Native Races of the Pacific_, vol. i, p. 549.) + + "Among the Minnetarees a singular night-dance is, it is said, + sometimes held. During this amusement an opportunity is given to + the squaws to select their favorites. A squaw, as she dances, + will advance to a person with whom she is captivated, either for + his personal attractions or for his renown in arms; she taps him + on the shoulder and immediately runs out of the lodge and betakes + herself to the bushes, followed by the favorite. But if it should + happen that he has a particular preference for another from whom + he expects the same favor, or if he is restrained by a vow, or is + already satiated with indulgence, he politely declines her offer + by placing his hand in her bosom, on which they return to the + assembly and rejoin the dance." It is worthy of remark that in + the language of the Omahas the word _watche_ applies equally to + the amusement of dancing and to sexual intercourse. (S.H. Long, + _Expedition to the Rocky Mountains_, 1823, vol. i, p. 337.) + + At a Kaffir marriage "singing and dancing last until midnight. + Each party [the bride's and the bridegroom's] dances in front of + the other, but they do not mingle together. As the evening + advances, the spirits and passions of all become greatly excited; + and the power of song, the display of muscular action, and the + gesticulations of the dancers and leapers are something + extraordinary. The manner in which, at certain times, one man or + woman, more excited than the rest, bounds from the ranks, leaps + into the air, bounces forward, and darts backward beggars all + description. These violent exercises usually close about + midnight, when each party retires; generally, each man selects a + paramour, and, indulging in sexual gratification, spends the + remainder of the night." (W.C. Holden, _The Kaffir Race_, 1866, + p. 192.) + + At the initiation of Kaffir boys into manhood, as described by + Holden, they were circumcised. "Cattle are then slaughtered by + the parents, and the boys are plentifully supplied with flesh + meat; a good deal of dancing also ensues at this stage of the + proceedings. The _ukut-shila_ consists in attiring themselves + with the leaves of the wild date in the most fantastic manner; + thus attired they visit each of the kraals to which they belong + in rotation, for the purpose of dancing. These dances are the + most licentious which can be imagined. The women act a prominent + part in them, and endeavor to excite the passions of the novices + by performing all sorts of obscene gesticulations. As soon as the + soreness occasioned by the act of circumcision is healed the boys + are, as it were, let loose upon society, and exempted from nearly + all the restraints of law; so that should they even steal and + slaughter their neighbor's cattle they would not be punished; and + they have the special privilege of seizing by force, if force be + necessary, every unmarried woman they choose, for the purpose of + gratifying their passions." Similar festivals take place at the + initiation of girls. (W.C. Holden, _The Kaffir Race_, 1866, p. + 185.) + + The Rev. J. Macdonald has described the ceremonies and customs + attending and following the initiation-rites of a young girl on + her first menstruation among the Zulus between the Tugela and + Delagoa Bay. At this time the girl is called an _intonjane_. A + beast is killed as a thank-offering to the ancestral spirits, + high revel is held for several days, and dancing and music take + place every night till those engaged in it are all exhausted or + daylight arrives. "After a few days and when dancing has been + discontinued, young men and girls congregate in the outer + apartment of the hut, and begin singing, clapping their hands, + and making a grunting noise to show their joy. At nightfall most + of the young girls who were the intonjane's attendants, leave for + their own homes for the night, to return the following morning. + Thereafter the young men and girls who gathered into the hut in + the afternoon separate into pairs and sleep together _in puris + naturalibus_, for that is strictly ordained by custom. Sexual + intercourse is not allowed, but what is known as _metsha_ or + _ukumetsha_ is the sole purpose of the novel arrangement. + _Ukumetsha_ may be defined as partial intercourse. Every man who + sleeps thus with a girl has to send to the father of the + intonjane an assegai; should he have formed an attachment for his + partner of the night and wish to pay her his addresses, he sends + two assegais." (Rev. J. Macdonald, "Manners, etc., of South + African Tribes," _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, vol. + xx, November, 1890, p. 117.) + + Goncourt reports the account given him by a French officer from + Senegal of the dances of the women, "a dance which is a gentle + oscillation of the body, with gradually increasing excitement, + from time to time a woman darting forward from the group to stand + in front of her lover, contorting herself as though in a + passionate embrace, and, on passing her hand between her thighs, + showing it covered with the moisture of amorous enjoyment." + (_Journal_, vol. ix, p. 79.) The dance here referred to is + probably the Bamboula dance of the Wolofs, a spring festival + which has been described by Pierre Loti in his _Roman d'un + Spahi_, and concerning which various details are furnished by a + French army-surgeon, acquainted with Senegal, in his _Untrodden + Fields of Anthropology_. The dance, as described by the latter, + takes place at night during full moon, the dancers, male and + female, beginning timidly, but, as the beat of the tam-tams and + the encouraging cries of the spectators become louder, the dance + becomes more furious. The native name of the dance is _anamalis + fobil_, "the dance of the treading drake." "The dancer in his + movements imitates the copulation of the great Indian duck. This + drake has a member of a corkscrew shape, and a peculiar movement + is required to introduce it into the duck. The woman tucks up her + clothes and convulsively agitates the lower part of her body; she + alternately shows her partner her vulva and hides it from him by + a regular movement, backward and forward, of the body." + (_Untrodden Fields of Anthropology_, Paris, 1898, vol. ii, p. + 112.) + + Among the Gurus of the Ivory Coast (Gulf of Guinea), Eysseric + observes, dancing is usually carried on at night and more + especially by the men, and on certain occasions women must not + appear, for if they assisted at fetichistic dances "they would + die." Under other circumstances men and women dance together with + ardor, not forming couples but often _vis-a-vis_: their movements + are lascivious. Even the dances following a funeral tend to + become sexual in character. At the end of the rites attending the + funeral of a chief's son the entire population began to dance + with ever-growing ardor; there was nothing ritualistic or sad in + these contortions, which took on the character of a lascivious + dance. Men and women, boys and girls, young and old, sought to + rival each other in suppleness, and the festival became joyous + and general, as if in celebration of a marriage or a victory. + (Eysseric, "La Cote d'Ivoire," _Nouvelles Archives des Missions + Scientifiques_, tome ix, 1890, pp. 241-49.) + + Mrs. French-Sheldon has described the marriage-rites she observed + at Taveta in East Africa. "During this time the young people + dance and carouse and make themselves generally merry and + promiscuously drunk, carrying the excess of their dissipation to + such an extent that they dance until they fall down in a species + of epileptic fit." It is the privilege of the bridegroom's four + groomsmen to enjoy the bride first, and she is then handed over + to her legitimate husband. This people, both men and women, are + "great dancers and merry-makers; the young fellows will collect + in groups and dance as though in competition one with the other; + one lad will dash out from the circle of his companions, rush + into the middle of a circumscribed space, and scream out 'Wow, + wow!' Another follows him and screams; then a third does the + same. These men will dance with their knees almost rigid, jumping + into the air until their excitement becomes very great and their + energy almost spasmodic, leaving the ground frequently three feet + as they spring into the air. At some of their festivals their + dancing is carried to such an extent that I have seen a young + fellow's muscles quiver from head to foot and his jaws tremble + without any apparent ability on his part to control them, until, + foaming at the mouth and with his eyes rolling, he falls in a + paroxysm upon the ground, to be carried off by his companions." + The writer adds significantly that this dancing "would seem to + emanate from a species of voluptuousness." (Mrs. French-Sheldon, + "Customs among the Natives of East Africa," _Journal of the + Anthropological Institute_, vol. xxi, May, 1892, pp. 366-67.) It + may be added that among the Suaheli dances are intimately + associated with weddings; the Suaheli dances have been minutely + described by Velten (_Sitten und Gebraueche der Suaheli_, pp. + 144-175). Among the Akamba of British East Africa, also, + according to H.R. Tate (_Journal of the Anthropological + Institute_, Jan.-June, 1904, p. 137), the dances are followed by + connection between the young men and girls, approved of by the + parents. + + The dances of the Faroe Islanders have been described by Raymond + Pilet ("Rapport sur une Mission en Islande et aux lies Feroe," + _Nouvelles Archives des Missions Scientifiques_, tome vii, 1897, + p. 285). These dances, which are entirely decorous, include + poetry, music, and much mimicry, especially of battle. They + sometimes last for two consecutive days and nights. "The dance is + simply a permitted and discreet method by which the young men may + court the young girls. The islander enters the circle and places + himself beside the girl to whom he desires to show his affection; + if he meets with her approval she stays and continues to dance at + his side; if not, she leaves the circle and appears later at + another spot." + + Pitre (_Usi, etc., del Popolo Siciliano_, vol. ii, p. 24, as + quoted in Marro's _Puberta_) states that in Sicily the youth who + wishes to marry seeks to give some public proof of his valor and + to show himself off. In Chiaramonte, in evidence of his virile + force, he bears in procession the standard of some confraternity, + a high and richly adorned standard which makes its staff bend to + a semicircle, of such enormous weight that the bearer must walk + in a painfully bent position, his head thrown back and his feet + forward. On reaching the house of his betrothed he makes proof of + his boldness and skill in wielding this extremely heavy standard + which at this moment seems a plaything in his hands, but may yet + prove fatal to him through injury to the loins or other parts. + + This same tendency, which we find in so highly developed a degree + among animals and primitive human peoples, is also universal + among the children of even the most civilized human races, + although in a less organized and more confused way. It manifests + itself as "showing-off." Sanford Bell, in his study of the + emotion of love in children, finds that "showing-off" is an + essential element in the love of children in what he terms the + second stage (from the eighth to the twelfth year in girls and + the fourteenth in boys). "It constitutes one of the chief numbers + in the boy's repertory of love charms, and is not totally absent + from the girl's. It is a most common sight to see the boys taxing + their resources in devising means of exposing their own + excellencies, and often doing the most ridiculous and extravagant + things. Running, jumping, dancing, prancing, sparring, wrestling, + turning handsprings, somersaults, climbing, walking fences, + swinging, giving yodels and yells, whistling, imitating the + movements of animals, 'taking people off,' courting danger, + affecting courage are some of its common forms.... This + 'showing-off' in the boy lover is the forerunner of the skilful, + purposive, and elaborate means of self-exhibition in the adult + male and the charming coquetry in the adult female, in their + love-relations." (Sanford Bell, "The Emotion of Love Between the + Sexes," _American Journal Psychology_, July, 1902; cf. + "Showing-off and Bashfulness," _Pedagogical Seminary_, June, + 1903.) + +If, in the light of the previous discussion, we examine such facts as +those here collected, we may easily trace throughout the perpetual +operations of the same instinct. It is everywhere the instinctive object +of the male, who is very rarely passive in the process of courtship, to +assure by his activity in display, his energy or skill or beauty, both his +own passion and the passion of the female. Throughout nature sexual +conjugation only takes place after much expenditure of energy.[34] We are +deceived by what we see among highly fed domesticated animals, and among +the lazy classes of human society, whose sexual instincts are at once both +unnaturally stimulated and unnaturally repressed, when we imagine that the +instinct of detumescence is normally ever craving to be satisfied, and +that throughout nature it can always be set off at a touch whenever the +stimulus is applied. So far from the instinct of tumescence naturally +needing to be crushed, it needs, on the contrary, in either sex to be +submitted to the most elaborate and prolonged processes in order to bring +about those conditions which detumescence relieves. A state of tumescence +is not normally constant, and tumescence must be obtained before +detumescence is possible.[35] The whole object of courtship, of the mutual +approximation and caresses of two persons of the opposite sex, is to +create the state of sexual tumescence. + +It will be seen that the most usual method of attaining tumescence--a +method found among the most various kinds of animals, from insects and +birds to man--is some form of the dance. Among the Negritos of the +Philippines dancing is described by A.B. Meyer as "jumping in a circle +around a girl and stamping with the feet"; as we have seen, such a dance +is, essentially, a form of courtship that is widespread among animals. +"The true cake-walk," again, Stanley Hall remarks, "as seen in the South +is perhaps the purest expression of this impulse to courtship antics seen +in man."[36] Muscular movement of which the dance is the highest and most +complex expression, is undoubtedly a method of auto-intoxication of the +very greatest potency. All energetic movement, indeed, tends to produce +active congestion. In its influence on the brain violent exercise may thus +result in a state of intoxication even resembling insanity. As Lagrange +remarks, the visible effects of exercise--heightened color, bright eyes, +resolute air and walk--are those of slight intoxication, and a girl who +has waltzed for a quarter of an hour is in the same condition as if she +had drunk champagne.[37] Groos regards the dance as, above all, an +intoxicating play of movement, possessing, like other methods of +intoxication,--and even apart from its relationship to combat and +love,--the charm of being able to draw us out of our everyday life and +lead us into a self-created dream-world.[38] That the dance is not only a +narcotic, but also a powerful stimulant, we may clearly realize from the +experiments which show that this effect is produced even by much less +complex kinds of muscular movement. This has been clearly determined, for +instance, by Fere, in the course of a long and elaborate series of +experiments dealing with the various influences that modify work as +measured by Mosso's ergograph. This investigator found that muscular +movement is the most efficacious of all stimulants in increasing muscular +power.[39] It is easy to trace these pleasurable effects of combined +narcotic and stimulant motion in everyday life and it is unnecessary to +enumerate its manifestations.[40] + + Dancing is so powerful an agent on the organism, as Sergi truly + remarks (_Les Emotions_, p. 288), because its excitation is + general, because it touches every vital organ, the higher centers + no longer dominating. Primitive dancing differs very widely from + that civilized kind of dancing--finding its extreme type in the + ballet--in which energy is concentrated into the muscles below + the knee. In the finest kinds of primitive dancing all the limbs, + the whole body, take part. For instance, "the Marquisan girls," + Herman Melville remarked in _Typee_, "dance all over, as it were; + not only do their feet dance, but their arms, hands, + fingers,--ay, their very eyes seem to dance in their heads. In + good sooth, they so sway their floating forms, arch their necks, + toss aloft their naked arms, and glide, and swim, and whirl," + etc. + + If we turn to a very different people, we find this + characteristic of primitive dancing admirably illustrated by the + missionary, Holden, in the case of Kaffir dances. "So far as I + have observed," he states, "the perfection of the art or science + consists in their _being able to put every part of the body into + motion at the same time_. And as they are naked, the bystander + has a good opportunity of observing the whole process, which + presents a remarkably odd and grotesque appearance,--the head, + the trunk, the arms, the legs, the hands, the feet, bones, + muscles, sinews, skin, scalp, and hair, each and all in motion at + the same time, with feathers waving, tails of monkeys and wild + beasts dangling, and shields beating, accompanied with whistling, + shouting, and leaping. It would appear as though the whole frame + was hung on springing wires or cords. Dances are held in high + repute, being the natural expression of joyous emotion, or + creating it when absent. There is, perhaps, no exercise in + greater accordance with the sentiments or feelings of a barbarous + people, or more fully calculated to gratify their wild and + ungoverned passions." (W.C. Holden, _The Kaffir Race_, 1866, p. + 274.) + +Dancing, as the highest and most complex form of muscular movement, is the +most potent method of obtaining the organic excitement muscular movement +yields, and thus we understand how from the earliest zooelogical ages it +has been brought to the service of the sexual instinct as a mode of +attaining tumescence. Among savages this use of dancing works harmoniously +with the various other uses which dancing possesses in primitive times +and which cause it to occupy so large and vital a part in savage life that +it may possibly even affect the organism to such an extent as to mold the +bones; so that some authorities have associated platycnemia with dancing. +As civilization advances, the other uses of dancing fall away, but it +still remains a sexual stimulant. Burton, in his _Anatomy of Melancholy_, +brings forward a number of quotations from old authors showing that +dancing is an incitement to love.[41] + + The Catholic theologians (Debreyne, _Moechialogie_, pp. 190-199) + for the most part condemn dancing with much severity. In + Protestant Germany, also, it is held that dance meetings and + musical gatherings are frequent occasions of unchastity. Thus in + the Leipzig district when a girl is asked "How did you fall?" she + nearly always replies "At the dance." (_Die + Geschlechtlich-Sittliche Verhaeltnisse im Deutschen Reiche_, vol. + i, p. 196.) It leads quite as often, and no doubt oftener, to + marriage. Rousseau defended it on this account (_Nouvelle + Heloise_, bk. iv, letter x); dancing is, he held, an admirable + preliminary to courtship, and the best way for young people to + reveal themselves to each other, in their grace and decorum, + their qualities and defects, while its publicity is its + safeguard. An International Congress of Dancing Masters was held + at Barcelona in 1907. In connection with this Congress, Giraudet, + president of the International Academy of Dancing Masters, issued + an inquiry to over 3000 teachers of dancing throughout the world + in order to ascertain the frequency with which dancing led to + marriage. Of over one million pupils of dancing, either married + or engaged to be married, it was found that in most countries + more than 50 per cent. met their conjugal partners at dances. The + smallest proportion was in Norway, with only 39 per cent., and + the highest, Germany, with 97 per cent. Intermediate are France, + 83 per cent.; America, 80 per cent.; Italy, 70 per cent.; Spain, + 68 per cent.; Holland, Bulgaria, and England, 65 per cent.; + Australia and Roumania, 60 per cent., etc. Of the teachers + themselves 92 per cent. met their partners at dances. (Quoted + from the _Figaro_ in Beiblatt "Sexualreform" to _Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, 1907, p. 175.) + +In civilization, however, dancing is not only an incitement to love and a +preliminary to courtship, but it is often a substitute for the normal +gratification of the sexual instinct, procuring something of the pleasure +and relief of gratified love. In occasional abnormal cases this may be +consciously realized. Thus Sadger, who regards the joy of dancing as a +manifestation of "muscular eroticism," gives the case of a married +hysterical woman of 21, with genital anesthesia, but otherwise strongly +developed skin eroticism, who was a passionate dancer: "I often felt as +though I was giving myself to my partner in dancing," she said, "and was +actually having coitus with him. I have the feeling that in me dancing +takes the place of coitus."[42] Normally something of the same feeling is +experienced by many young women, who will expend a prodigious amount of +energy in dancing, thus procuring, not fatigue, but happiness and +relief.[43] It is significant that, after sexual relations have begun, +girls generally lose much of their ardor in dancing. Even our modern +dances, it is worthy of note, are often of sexual origin; thus, the most +typical of all, the waltz, was originally (as Schaller, quoted by Groos, +states) the close of a complicated dance which "represented the romance of +love, the seeking and the fleeing, the playful sulking and shunning, and +finally the jubilation of the wedding."[44] + +Not only is movement itself a source of tumescence, but even the spectacle +of movement tends to produce the same effect. The pleasure of witnessing +movement, as represented by its stimulating effect on the muscular +system,--for states of well-being are accompanied by an increase of +power,--has been found susceptible of exact measurement by Fere. He has +shown that to watch a colored disk when in motion produced stronger +muscular contractions, as measured by the dynamometer, than to watch the +same disk when motionless. Even in the absence of color a similar +influence of movement was noted, and watching a modified metronome +produced a greater increase of work with the ergograph than when working +to the rhythm of the metronome without watching it.[45] This psychological +fact has been independently discovered by advertisers, who seek to impress +the value of their wares on the public by the device of announcing them by +moving colored lights. The pleasure given by the ballet largely depends on +the same fact. Not only is dancing an excitation, but the spectacle of +dancing is itself exciting, and even among savages dances have a public +which becomes almost as passionately excited as the dancers +themselves.[46] It is in virtue of this effect of dancing and similar +movements that we so frequently find, both among the lower animals and +savage man, that to obtain tumescence in both sexes, it is sufficient for +one sex alone, usually the male, to take the active part. This point +attracted the attention of Kulischer many years ago, and he showed how the +dances of the men, among savages, excite the women, who watch them +intently though unobtrusively, and are thus influenced in choosing their +lovers. He was probably the first to insist that in man sexual selection +has taken place mainly through the agency of dances, games, and +festivals.[47] + +It is now clear, therefore, why the evacuation theory of the sexual +impulse must necessarily be partial and inadequate. It leaves out of +account the whole of the phenomena connected with tumescence, and those +phenomena constitute the most prolonged, the most important, the most +significant stage of the sexual process. It is during tumescence that the +whole psychology of the sexual impulse is built up; it is as an incident +arising during tumescence and influencing its course that we must probably +regard nearly every sexual aberration. It is with the second stage of the +sexual process, when the instinct of detumescence arises, that the analogy +of evacuation can alone be called in. Even here, that analogy, though +real, is not complete, the nervous element involved in detumescence being +out of all proportion to the extent of the evacuation. The typical act of +evacuation, however, is a nervous process, and when we bear this in mind +we may see whatever truth the evacuation theory possesses. Beaunis classes +the sexual impulse with the "needs of activity," but under this head he +coordinates it with the "need of urination." That is to say, that both +alike are nervous explosions. Micturition, like detumescence, is a +convulsive act, and, like detumescence also, it is certainly connected +with cerebral processes; thus in epilepsy the passage of urine which may +occur (as in a girl described by Gowers with minor attacks during which it +was emitted consciously, but involuntarily) is really a part of the +process.[48] + +There appears, indeed, to be a special and intimate connection between the +explosion of sexual detumescence and the explosive energy of the bladder; +so that they may reinforce each other and to a limited extent act +vicariously in relieving each other's tension. It is noteworthy that +nocturnal and diurnal incontinence of urine, as well as "stammering" of +the bladder, are all specially liable to begin or to cease at puberty. In +men and even infants, distention of the bladder favors tumescence by +producing venous congestion, though at the same time it acts as a physical +hindrance to sexual detumescence[49]; in women--probably not from pressure +alone, but from reflex nervous action--a full bladder increases both +sexual excitement and pleasure, and I have been informed by several women +that they have independently discovered this fact for themselves and +acted in accordance with it. Conversely, sexual excitement increases the +explosive force of the bladder, the desire to urinate is aroused, and in +women the sexual orgasm, when very acute and occurring with a full +bladder, is occasionally accompanied, alike in savage and civilized life, +by an involuntary and sometimes full and forcible expulsion of urine.[50] +The desire to urinate may possibly be, as has been said, the normal +accompaniment of sexual excitement in women (just as it is said to be in +mares; so that the Arabs judge that the mare is ready for the stallion +when she urinates immediately on hearing him neigh). The association may +even form the basis of sexual obsessions.[51] I have elsewhere shown that, +of all the influences which increase the expulsive force of the bladder, +sexual excitement is the most powerful.[52] It may also have a reverse +influence and inhibit contraction of the bladder, sometimes in association +with shyness, but also independently of shyness. There is also reason to +suppose that the nervous energy expended in an explosion of the tension +of the sexual organs may sometimes relieve the bladder; it is well +recognized that a full bladder is a factor in producing sexual emissions +during sleep, the explosive energy of the bladder being inhibited and +passing over into the sexual sphere. Conversely, it appears that explosion +of the bladder relieves sexual tension. An explosion of the nervous +centers connected with the contraction of the bladder will relieve nervous +tension generally; there are forms of epilepsy in which the act of +urination constitutes the climax, and Gowers, in dealing with minor +epilepsy, emphasizes the frequency of micturition, which "may occur with +spasmodic energy when there is only the slightest general stiffness," +especially in women. He adds the significant remark that it "sometimes +seems to relieve the cerebral tension,"[53] and gives the case of a girl +in whom the aura consisted mainly of a desire to urinate; if she could +satisfy this the fit was arrested; if not she lost consciousness and a +severe fit followed. + +If micturition may thus relieve nervous tension generally, it is not +surprising that it should relieve the tension of the centers with which it +is most intimately connected. Serieux records the case of a girl of 12, +possessed by an impulse to masturbation which she was unable to control, +although anxious to conquer it, who only found relief in the act of +urination; this soothed her and to some extent satisfied the sexual +excitement; when the impulse to masturbate was restrained the impulse to +urinate became imperative; she would rise four or five times in the night +for this purpose, and even urinate in bed or in her clothes to obtain the +desired sexual relief.[54] I am acquainted with a lady who had a similar, +but less intense, experience during childhood. Sometimes, especially in +children, the act of urination becomes an act of gratification at the +climax of sexual pleasure, the imitative symbol of detumescence. Thus +Schultze-Malkowsky describes a little girl of 7 who would bribe her girl +companions with little presents to play the part of horses on all fours +while she would ride on their necks with naked thighs in order to obtain +the pleasurable sensation of close contact. With one special friend she +would ride facing backward, and leaning forward to embrace her body +impulsively, and at the same time pressing the neck closely between her +thighs, would urinate.[55] Fere has recorded the interesting case of a man +who, having all his life after puberty been subject to monthly attacks of +sexual excitement, after the age of 45 completely lost the liability to +these manifestations, but found himself subject, in place of them, to +monthly attacks of frequent and copious urination, accompanied by sexual +day-dreams, but by no genital excitement.[56] Such a case admirably +illustrates the compensatory relation of sexual and vesical excitation. +This mutual interaction is easily comprehensible when we recall the very +close nervous connection which exists between the mechanisms of the sexual +organs and the bladder. + +Nor are such relationships found to be confined to these two centers; in a +lesser degree the more remote explosive centers are also affected; all +motor influences may spread to related muscles; the convulsion of +laughter, for instance, seems to be often in relation with the sexual +center, and Groos has suggested that the laughter which, especially in the +sexually minded, often follows allusions to the genital sphere is merely +an effort to dispel nascent sexual excitement by liberating an explosion +of nervous energy in another direction.[57] Nervous discharges tend to +spread, or to act vicariously, because the motor centers are more or less +connected.[58] Of all the physiological motor explosions, the sexual +orgasm, or detumescence, is the most massive, powerful, and overwhelming. +So volcanic is it that to the ancient Greek philosophers it seemed to be a +minor kind of epilepsy. The relief of detumescence is not merely the +relief of an evacuation; it is the discharge, by the most powerful +apparatus for nervous explosion in the body, of the energy accumulated and +stored up in the slow process of tumescence, and that discharge +reverberates through all the nervous centers in the organism. + + "The sophist of Abdera said that coitus is a slight fit of + epilepsy, judging it to be an incurable disease." (Clement of + Alexandria, _Paedagogus_, bk. ii, chapter x.) And Coelius + Aurelianus, one of the chief physicians of antiquity, said that + "coitus is a brief epilepsy." Fere has pointed out that both + these forms of nervous storm are sometimes accompanied by similar + phenomena, by subjective sensations of sight or smell, for + example; and that the two kinds of discharge may even be + combined. (Fere, _Les Epileptiques_, pp. 283-84; also "Exces + Veneriens et Epilepsie," _Comptes-rendus de la Societe de + Biologie_, April 3, 1897, and the same author's _Instinct + Sexuel_, pp. 209, 221, and his "Priapisme Epileptique," _La + Medecine Moderne_, February 4, 1899.) The epileptic convulsion in + some cases involves the sexual mechanism, and it is noteworthy + that epilepsy tends to appear at puberty. In modern times even so + great a physician as Boerhaave said that coitus is a "true + epilepsy," and more recently Roubaud, Hammond, and Kowalevsky + have emphasized the resemblance between coitus and epilepsy, + though without identifying the two states. Some authorities have + considered that coitus is a cause of epilepsy, but this is denied + by Christian, Struempell, and Loewenfeld. (Loewenfeld, _Sexualleben + und Nervenleiden_, 1899, p. 68.) Fere has recorded the case of a + youth in whom the adoption of the practice of masturbation, + several times a day, was followed by epileptic attacks which + ceased when masturbation was abandoned. (Fere, _Comptes-rendus de + la Socitete de Biologie_, April 3, 1897.) + +It seems unprofitable at present to attempt any more fundamental analysis +of the sexual impulse. Beaunis, in the work already quoted, vaguely +suggests that we ought possibly to connect the sexual excitation which +leads the male to seek the female with chemical action, either exercised +directly on the protoplasm of the organism or indirectly by the +intermediary of the nervous system, and especially by smell in the higher +animals. Clevenger, Spitzka, Kiernan, and others have also regarded the +sexual impulse as protoplasmic hunger, tracing it back to the presexual +times when one protozoal form absorbed another. In the same way Joanny +Roux, insisting that the sexual need is a need of the whole organism, and +that "we love with the whole of our body," compares the sexual instinct to +hunger, and distinguishes between "sexual hunger" affecting the whole +system and "sexual appetite" as a more localized desire; he concludes that +the sexual need is an aspect of the nutritive need.[59] Useful as these +views are as a protest against too crude and narrow a conception of the +part played by the sexual impulse, they carry us into a speculative region +where proof is difficult. + +We are now, however, at all events, in a better position to define the +contents of the sexual impulse. We see that there are certainly, as Moll +has indicated, two constituents in that impulse; but, instead of being +unrelated, or only distantly related, we see that they are really so +intimately connected as to form two distinct stages in the same process: a +first stage, in which--usually under the parallel influence of internal +and external stimuli--images, desires, and ideals grow up within the mind, +while the organism generally is charged with energy and the sexual +apparatus congested with blood; and a second stage, in which the sexual +apparatus is discharged amid profound sexual excitement, followed by deep +organic relief. By the first process is constituted the tension which the +second process relieves. It seems best to call the first impulse the +_process of tumescence_; the second the _process of detumescence_.[60] The +first, taking on usually a more active form in the male, has the double +object of bringing the male himself into the condition in which discharge +becomes imperative, and at the same time arousing in the female a similar +ardent state of emotional excitement and sexual turgescence. The second +process has the object, directly, of discharging the tension thus produced +and, indirectly, of effecting the act by which the race is propagated. + +It seems to me that this is at present the most satisfactory way in which +we can attempt to define the sexual impulse. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[1] C. Lloyd Morgan, "Instinct and Intelligence in Animals," _Nature_, +February 3, 1898. + +[2] _Essais_, livre iii, ch. v. + +[3] Fere, "La Predisposition dans l'etiologie des perversions sexuelles," +_Revue de medecine_, 1898. In his more recent work on the evolution and +dissolution of the sexual instinct Fere perhaps slightly modified his +position by stating that "the sexual appetite is, above all, a general +need of the organism based on a sensation of fullness, a sort of need of +evacuation," _L'Instinct sexuel_, 1899, p. 6. Loewenfeld (_Ueber die +Sexuelle Konstitution_, p. 30) gives a qualified acceptance to the +excretory theory, as also Rohleder (_Die Zeugung beim Menschen_, p. 25). + +[4] Goltz, _Centralblatt fuer die med. Wissenschaften_, 1865, No. 19, and +1866, No. 18; also _Beitraege zur Lehre von den Funktionen des Frosches_, +Berlin, 1869, p. 20. + +[5] J. Tarchanoff, "Zur Physiologie des Geschlechtsapparatus des +Frosches," _Archiv fuer die Gesammte Physiologie_, 1887, vol. xl, p. 330. + +[6] E. Steinach, "Untersuchungen zur vergleichenden Physiologie der +maennlicher Geschlechtsorgane insbesondere der accessorischen +Geschlechtsdruesen," _Archiv fuer die Gesammte Physiologie_, vol. lvi, +1894, pp. 304-338. + +[7] See, e.g., Shattock and Seligmann, "The Acquirement of Secondary +Sexual Characters," _Proceedings of the Royal Society_, vol. lxxiii, 1904, +p. 49. + +[8] For facts bearing on this point, see Guinard, art. "Castration," +Richet's _Dictionnaire de Physiologie_. The general results of castration +are summarized by Robert Mueller in ch. vii of his _Sexualbiologie_; also +by F.H.A. Marshall, _The Physiology of Reproduction_, ch, ix; see also E. +Pittard, "Les Skoptzy," _L'Anthropologie_, 1903, p. 463. + +[9] For an ancient discussion of this point, see Schurig, _Spermatologia_, +1720, cap. ix. + +[10] J.J. Matignon, _Superstition, Crime, et Misere en Chine_, "Les +Eunuques du Palais Imperial de Pekin," 1901. + +[11] P. Marie, "Eunuchisme et Erotisme," _Nouvelle Iconographie de la +Salpetriere_, 1906, No. 5, and _Progres medical_, Jan. 26, 1907. + +[12] _Pedagogical Seminary_, July, 1897, p. 121. + +[13] See, for instance, the case reported in another volume of these +_Studies_ ("Sexual Inversion"), in which castration was performed on a +sexual invert without effecting any change. + +[14] Guinard, art. "Castration," _Dictionnaire de Physiologie_. + +[15] M.A. Colman, _Medical Standard_, August, 1895; Clara Barrus, +_American Journal of Insanity_, April, 1895; Macnaughton-Jones, _British +Gynaecological Journal_, August, 1902; W.G. Bridgman, _Medical Standard_, +1896; J.M. Cotterill, _British Medical Journal_, April 7, 1900 (also +private communication); Paul F. Munde, _American Journal of Obstetrics_, +March, 1899. + +[16] See Swale Vincent, _Internal Secretion and the Ductless Glands_, +1912; F.H.A. Marshall, _The Physiology of Reproduction_, 1910, ch. ix; +Munzer, _Berliner klinische Wochenschrift_, Nov., 1910; C. Sajous, _The +Internal Secretions_, vol. i, 1911. The adrenal glands have been fully and +interestingly studied by Glynn, _Quarterly Journal of Medicine_, Jan., +1912; the thyroid, by Ewan Waller, _Practitioner_, Aug., 1912; the +internal secretion of the ovary, by A. Louise McIlroy, _Proceedings Royal +Society Medicine_, July, 1912. For a discussion at the Neurology Section +of the British Medical Association Meeting, 1912, see _British Medical +Journal_, Nov. 16, 1912. + +[17] Since this was written I have come across a passage in _Hampa_ (p. +228), by Rafael Salillas, the Spanish sociologist, which shows that the +analogy has been detected by the popular mind and been embodied in popular +language: "A significant anatomico-physiological concordance supposes a +resemblance between the mouth and the sexual organs of a woman, between +coitus and the ingestion of food, and between foods which do not require +mastication and the spermatic ejaculation; these representations find +expression in the popular name _papo_ given to women's genital organs. +'Papo' is the crop of birds, and is derived from 'papar' (Latin, +_papare_), to eat soft food such as we call pap. With this representation +of infantile food is connected the term _leche_ [milk] as applied to the +ejaculated genital fluid." Cleland, it may be added, in the most +remarkable of English erotic novels, _The Memoirs of Fanny Hill_, refers +to "the compressive exsuction with which the sensitive mechanism of that +part [the vagina] thirstily draws and drains the nipple of Love," and +proceeds to compare it to the action of the child at the breast. It +appears that, in some parts of the animal world at least, there is a real +analogy of formation between the oral and vaginal ends of the trunk. This +is notably the case in some insects, and the point has been elaborately +discussed by Walter Wesche, "The Genitalia of Both the Sexes in Diptera, +and their Relation to the Armature of the Mouth," _Transactions of the +Linnean Society_, second series, vol. ix, Zooelogy, 1906. + +[18] Naecke now expresses himself very dubiously on the point; see, e.g., +_Archiv fuer Kriminal-Anthropologie_, 1905, p. 186. + +[19] _Untersuchungen ueber die Libido Sexualis_, Berlin, 1897-98. + +[20] Moll adopts the term "impulse of detumescence" (_Detumescenztrieb_) +instead of "impulse of ejaculation," because in women there is either no +ejaculation or it cannot be regarded as essential. + +[21] I quote from the second edition, as issued in 1881. + +[22] This is the theory which by many has alone been seen in Darwin's +_Descent of Man_. Thus even his friend Wallace states unconditionally +(_Tropical Nature_, p. 193) that Darwin accepted a "voluntary or conscious +sexual selection," and seems to repeat the same statement in _Darwinism_ +(1889), p. 283. Lloyd Morgan, in his discussion of the pairing instinct in +_Habit and Instinct_ (1896), seems also only to see this side of Darwin's +statement. + +[23] In his _Variation of Animals and Plants under Domestication_, Darwin +was puzzled by the fact that, in captivity, animals often copulate without +conceiving and failed to connect that fact with the processes behind his +own theory of sexual selection. + +[24] Beaunis, _Sensations Internes_, ch. v, "Besoins Sexuels," 1889. It +may be noted that many years earlier Burdach (in his _Physiologie als +Erfahrungswissenschaft_, 1826) had recognized that the activity of the +male favored procreation, and that mental and physical excitement seemed +to have the same effect in the female also. + +[25] It is scarcely necessary to point out that this is too extreme a +position. As J.G. Millais remarks of ducks (_Natural History of British +Ducks_, p. 45), in courtship "success in winning the admiration of the +female is rather a matter of persistent and active attention than physical +force," though the males occasionally fight over the female. The ruff +(_Machetes pugnax_) is a pugnacious bird, as his name indicates. Yet, the +reeve, the female of this species, is, as E. Selous shows ("Sexual +Selection in Birds," _Zooelogist_, Feb. and May, 1907), completely mistress +of the situation. "She seems the plain and unconcerned little mistress of +a numerous and handsome seraglio, each member of which, however he flounce +and bounce, can only wait to be chosen." Any fighting among the males is +only incidental and is not a factor in selection. Moreover, as R. Mueller +points out (loc. cit., p. 290), fighting would not usually attain the end +desired, for if the males expend their time and strength in a serious +combat they merely afford a third less pugnacious male a better +opportunity of running off with the prize. + +[26] L. Tillier, _L'Instinct Sexuel_, 1889, pp. 74, 118, 119, 124 et seq., +289. + +[27] K. Groos, _Die Spiele der Thiere_, 1896; _Die Spiele der Menschen_, +1899; both are translated into English. + +[28] Prof. H.E. Ziegler, in a private letter to Professor Groos, _Spiele +der Thiere_, p. 202. + +[29] _Die Spiele der Thiere_, p. 244. This had been briefly pointed out by +earlier writers. Thus, Haeckel (_Gen. Morph._, ii, p. 244) remarked that +fighting for females is a special or modified kind of struggle for +existence, and that it acts on both sexes. + +[30] It may be added that in the human species, as Bray remarks ("Le Beau +dans la Nature," _Revue Philosophique_, October, 1901, p. 403), "the hymen +would seem to tend to the same end, as if nature had wished to reinforce +by a natural obstacle the moral restraint of modesty, so that only the +vigorous male could insure his reproduction." There can be no doubt that +among many animals pairing is delayed so far as possible until maturity is +reached. "It is a strict rule amongst birds," remarks J.G. Millais (op. +cit., p. 46), "that they do not breed until both sexes have attained the +perfect adult plumage." Until that happens, it seems probable, the +conditions for sexual excitation are not fully established. We know +little, says Howard (_Zooelogist_, 1903, p. 407), of the age at which birds +begin to breed, but it is known that "there are yearly great numbers of +individuals who do not breed, and the evidence seems to show that such +individuals are immature." + +[31] A. Marro, _La Puberte_, 1901, p. 464. + +[32] Lloyd Morgan, _Animal Behavior_, 1900, pp. 264-5. It may be added +that, on the esthetic side, Hirn, in his study (_The Origins of Art_, +1900), reaches conclusions which likewise, in the main, concord with those +of Groos. + +[33] It may be noted that the marriage ceremony itself is often of the +nature of a courtship, a symbolic courtship, embodying a method of +attaining tumescence. As Crawley, who has brought out this point, puts it, +"Marriage-rites of union are essentially identical with love charms," and +he refers in illustration to the custom of the Australian Arunta, among +whom the man or woman by making music on the bull-roarer compels a person +of the opposite sex to court him or her, the marriage being thus +completed. (E. Crawley, _The Mystic Rose_, p. 318.) + +[34] The more carefully animals are observed, the more often this is found +to be the case, even with respect to species which possess no obvious and +elaborate process for obtaining tumescence. See, for instance, the +detailed and very instructive account--too long to quote here--given by E. +Selous of the preliminaries to intercourse practised by a pair of great +crested grebes, while nest-building. Intercourse only took place with much +difficulty, after many fruitless invitations, more usually given by the +female. ("Observational Diary of the Habits of the Great Crested Grebe," +_Zoeologist_, September, 1901.) It is exactly the same with savages. The +observation of Foley (_Bulletin de la Societe d'Anthropologie de Paris_, +November 6, 1879) that in savages "sexual erethism is very difficult" is +of great significance and certainly in accordance with the facts. This +difficulty of erethism is the real cause of many savage practices which to +the civilized person often seem perverse; the women of the Caroline +Islands, for instance, as described by Finsch, require the tongue or even +the teeth to be applied to the clitoris, or a great ant to be applied to +bite the parts, in order to stimulate orgasm. Westermarck, after quoting a +remark of Mariner's concerning the women of Tonga,--"it must not be +supposed that these women are always easily won; the greatest attentions +and the most fervent solicitations are sometimes requisite, even though +there be no other lover in the way,"--adds that these words "hold true for +a great many, not to say all, savage and barbarous races now existing." +(_Human Marriage_, p. 163.) The old notions, however, as to the sexual +licentiousness of peoples living in natural conditions have scarcely yet +disappeared. See Appendix A; "The Sexual Instinct in Savages." + +[35] In men a certain degree of tumescence is essential before coitus can +be effected at all; in women, though tumescence is not essential to +coitus, it is essential to orgasm and the accompanying physical and +psychic relief. The preference which women often experience for prolonged +coitus is not, as might possibly be imagined, due to sensuality, but has a +profound physiological basis. + +[36] Stanley Hall, _Adolescence_, vol. i, p. 223. + +[37] See Lagrange's _Physiology of Bodily Exercise_, especially chapter +ii. It is a significant fact that, as Sergi remarks (_Les Emotions_, p. +330), the physiological results of dancing are identical with the +physiological results of pleasure. + +[38] Groos, _Spiele der Menschen_, p. 112. Zmigrodzki (_Die Mutter bei den +Volkern des Arischen Stammes_, p. 414 et seq.) has an interesting passage +describing the dance--especially the Russian dance--in its orgiastic +aspects. + +[39] Fere, "L'Influence sur le Travail Volontaire d'un muscle de +l'activite d'autres muscles," _Nouvelles Iconographie de la Salpetriere_, +1901. + +[40] "The sensation of motion," Kline remarks ("The Migratory Impulse," +_American Journal of Psychology_, October, 1898, p. 62), "as yet but +little studied from a pleasure-pain standpoint, is undoubtedly a +pleasure-giving sensation. For Aristippus the end of life is pleasure, +which he defines as gentle motion. Motherhood long ago discovered its +virtue as furnished by the cradle. Galloping to town on the parental knee +is a pleasing pastime in every nursery. The several varieties of swings, +the hammock, see-saw, flying-jenny, merry-go-round, shooting the chutes, +sailing, coasting, rowing, and skating, together with the fondness of +children for rotating rapidly in one spot until dizzy and for jumping from +high places, are all devices and sports for stimulating the sense of +motion. In most of these modes of motion the body is passive or +semipassive, save in such motions as skating and rotating on the feet. The +passiveness of the body precludes any important contribution of stimuli +from kinesthetic sources. The stimuli are probably furnished, as Dr. Hall +and others have suggested, by a redistribution of fluid pressure (due to +the unusual motions and positions of the body) to the inner walls of the +several vascular systems of the body." + +[41] _Anatomy of Melancholy_, part iii., sect. ii, mem. ii, subs. iv. + +[42] Sadger, "Haut-, Schleimhaut-, und Muskel-erotik," _Jahrbuch fuer +psychoanalytische Forschungen_, Bd. iii, 1912, p. 556. + +[43] Marro (_Puberta_, p. 367 et seq.) has some observations on this +point. It was an insight into this action of dancing which led the Spanish +clergy of the eighteenth century to encourage the national enthusiasm for +dancing (as Baretti informs us) in the interests of morality. + +[44] It is scarcely necessary to remark that a primitive dance, even when +associated with courtship, is not necessarily a sexual pantomime; as +Wallaschek, in his comprehensive survey of primitive dances, observes, it +is more usually an animal pantomime, but nonetheless connected with the +sexual instinct, separation of the sexes, also, being no proof to the +contrary. (Wallaschek, _Primitive Music_, pp. 211-13.) Grosse (_Anfaenge +der Kunst_, English translation, p. 228) has pointed out that the best +dancer would be the best fighter and hunter, and that sexual selection and +natural selection would thus work in harmony. + +[45] Fere, "Le plaisir de la vue du Mouvement," _Comptes-rendus de la +Societe de Biologie_, November 2, 1901; also _Travail et Plaisir_, ch. +xxix. + +[46] Groos repeatedly emphasizes the significance of this fact (_Spiele +der Menschen_, pp. 81-9, 460 et seq.); Grosse (_Anfaenge der Kunst_, p. +215) had previously made some remarks on this point. + +[47] M. Kulischer, "Die Geschlechtliche Zuchtwahl bei den Menschen in der +Urzeit," _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1876, p. 140 _et seq._ + +[48] Sir W.R. Gowers, _Epilepsy_, 2d ed., 1901, pp. 61, 138. + +[49] Guyon, _Lecons Cliniques sur les Maladies des Voies Urinaires_, 3d +ed., 1896, vol. ii, p. 397. + +[50] See, e.g., Fere, _L'Instinct Sexuel_, pp. 222-23: Brantome was +probably the first writer in modern times who referred to this phenomenon. +MacGillicuddy (_Functional Disorders of the Nervous System in Women_, p. +110) refers to the case of a lady who always had sudden and uncontrollable +expulsion of urine whenever her husband even began to perform the marital +act, on which account he finally ceased intercourse with her. Kubary +states that in Ponape (Western Carolines) the men are accustomed to +titillate the vulva of their women with the tongue until the excitement is +so intense that involuntary emission of urine takes place; this is +regarded as the proper moment for intercourse. + +[51] Thus Pitres and Regis (_Transactions of the International Medical +Congress, Moscow_, vol. iv, p. 19) record the case of a young girl whose +life was for some years tormented by a groundless fear of experiencing an +irresistible desire to urinate. This obsession arose from once seeing at a +theater a man whom she liked, and being overcome by sexual feeling +accompanied by so strong a desire to urinate that she had to leave the +theater. An exactly similar case in a young woman of erotic temperament, +but prudish, has been recorded by Freud (_Zur Neurosenlehre_, Bd. i, p. +54). Morbid obsessions of modesty involving the urinary sphere and +appearing at puberty are evidently based on transformed sexual emotion. +Such a case has been recorded by Marandon de Montyel (_Archives de +Neurologie_, vol. xii, 1901, p. 36); this lady, who was of somewhat +neuropathic temperament, from puberty onward, in order to be able to +urinate found it necessary not only to be absolutely alone, but to feel +assured that no one even knew what was taking place. + +[52] H. Ellis, "The Bladder as a Dynamometer," _American Journal of +Dermatology_, May, 1902. + +[53] Sir W. Gowers, "Minor Epilepsy," _British Medical Journal_, January +6, 1900; ib., _Epilepsy_, 2d ed., 1901, p. 106; see also H. Ellis, art. +"Urinary Bladder, Influence of the Mind on the," in Tuke's _Dictionary of +Psychological Medicine_. + +[54] Serieux, _Recherches Cliniques sur les Anomalies de l'Instinct +Sexuel_, p. 22. + +[55] Emil Schultze-Malkowsky, "Der Sexuelle Trieb in Kindesalter," +_Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, vol. ii, part 8, p. 372. + +[56] Fere, "Note sur un Cas de Periodicite Sexuelle chez l'Homme," +_Comptes-rendus Societe de Biologie_, July 23, 1904. + +[57] It is a familiar fact that, in women, occasionally, a violent +explosion of laughter may be propagated to the bladder-center and produce +urination. "She laughed till she nearly wetted the floor," I have heard a +young woman in the country say, evidently using without thought a familiar +locution. Professor Bechterew has recorded the case of a young married +lady who, from childhood, wherever she might be--in friends' houses, in +the street, in her own drawing-room--had always experienced an involuntary +and forcible emission of urine, which could not be stopped or controlled, +whenever she laughed; the bladder was quite sound and no muscular effort +produced the same result. (W. Bechterew, _Neurologisches Centralblatt_, +1899.) In women these relationships are most easily observed, partly +because in them the explosive centers are more easily discharged, and +partly, it is probable, so far as the bladder is concerned, because, +although after death the resistance to the emission of urine is notably +less in women, during life about the same amount of force is necessary in +both sexes; so that a greater amount of energy flows to the bladder in +women, and any nervous storm or disturbance is thus specially apt to +affect the bladder. + +[58] "Every pain," remarks Marie de Manaceine, "produces a number of +movements which are apparently useless: we cry out, we groan, we move our +limbs, we throw ourselves from one side to the other, and at bottom all +these movements are logical because by interrupting and breaking our +attention they render us less sensitive to the pain. In the days before +chloroform, skillful surgeons requested their patients to cry out during +the operation, as we are told by Gratiolet, who could not explain so +strange a fact, for in his time the antagonism of movements and attention +was not recognized." (Marie de Manaceine, _Archives Italiennes de +Biologie_, 1894, p. 250.) This antagonism of attention by movement is but +another way of expressing the vicarious relationship of motor discharges. + +[59] Joanny Roux, _Psychologie de l'Instinct Sexuel_, 1899, pp. 22-23. It +is disputed whether hunger is located in the whole organism, and powerful +arguments have been brought against the view. (W. Cannon, "The Nature of +Hunger," _Popular Science Monthly_, Sept., 1912.) Thirst is usually +regarded as organic (A. Mayer, _La Soif_, 1901). + +[60] If there is any objection to these terms it is chiefly because they +have reference to vascular congestion rather than to the underlying +nervous charging and discharging, which is equally fundamental, and in man +more prominent than the vascular phenomena. + + + + +LOVE AND PAIN. + +I. + +The Chief Key to the Relationship between Love and Pain to be Found in +Animal Courtship--Courtship a Source of Combativity and of Cruelty--Human +Play in the Light of Animal Courtship--The Frequency of Crimes Against the +Person in Adolescence--Marriage by Capture and its Psychological +Basis--Man's Pleasure in Exerting Force and Woman's Pleasure in +Experiencing it--Resemblance of Love to Pain even in Outward +Expression--The Love-bite--In what Sense Pain may be Pleasurable--The +Natural Contradiction in the Emotional Attitude of Women Toward +Men--Relative Insensibility to Pain of the Organic Sexual Sphere in +Women--The Significance of the Use of the Ampallang and Similar Appliances +in Coitus--The Sexual Subjection of Women to Men in Part Explainable as +the Necessary Condition for Sexual Pleasure. + + +The relation of love to pain is one of the most difficult problems, and +yet one of the most fundamental, in the whole range of sexual psychology. +Why is it that love inflicts, and even seeks to inflict, pain? Why is it +that love suffers pain, and even seeks to suffer it? In answering that +question, it seems to me, we have to take an apparently circuitous route, +sometimes going beyond the ostensible limits of sex altogether; but if we +can succeed in answering it we shall have come very near one of the great +mysteries of love. At the same time we shall have made clear the normal +basis on which rest the extreme aberrations of love. + +The chief key to the relationship of love to pain is to be found by +returning to the consideration of the essential phenomena of courtship in +the animal world generally. Courtship is a play, a game; even its combats +are often, to a large extent, mock-combats; but the process behind it is +one of terrible earnestness, and the play may at any moment become deadly. +Courtship tends to involve a mock-combat between males for the possession +of the female which may at any time become a real combat; it is a pursuit +of the female by the male which may at any time become a kind of +persecution; so that, as Colin Scott remarks, "Courting may be looked upon +as a refined and delicate form of combat." The note of courtship, more +especially among mammals, is very easily forced, and as soon as we force +it we reach pain.[61] The intimate and inevitable association in the +animal world of combat--of the fighting and hunting impulses--with the +process of courtship alone suffices to bring love into close connection +with pain. + +Among mammals the male wins the female very largely by the display of +force. The infliction of pain must inevitably be a frequent indirect +result of the exertion of power. It is even more than this; the infliction +of pain by the male on the female may itself be a gratification of the +impulse to exert force. This tendency has always to be held in check, for +it is of the essence of courtship that the male should win the female, and +she can only be won by the promise of pleasure. The tendency of the male +to inflict pain must be restrained, so far as the female is concerned, by +the consideration of what is pleasing to her. Yet, the more carefully we +study the essential elements of courtship, the clearer it becomes that, +playful as these manifestations may seem on the surface, in every +direction they are verging on pain. It is so among animals generally; it +is so in man among savages. "It is precisely the alliance of pleasure and +pain," wrote the physiologist Burdach, "which constitutes the voluptuous +emotion." + +Nor is this emotional attitude entirely confined to the male. The female +also in courtship delights to arouse to the highest degree in the male the +desire for her favors and to withhold those favors from him, thus finding +on her part also the enjoyment of power in cruelty. "One's cruelty is +one's power," Millament says in Congreve's _Way of the World_, "and when +one parts with one's cruelty one parts with one's power." + +At the outset, then, the impulse to inflict pain is brought into +courtship, and at the same time rendered a pleasurable idea to the female, +because with primitive man, as well as among his immediate ancestors, the +victor in love has been the bravest and strongest rather than the most +beautiful or the most skilful. Until he can fight he is not reckoned a man +and he cannot hope to win a woman. Among the African Masai a man is not +supposed to marry until he has blooded his spear, and in a very different +part of the world, among the Dyaks of Borneo, there can be little doubt +that the chief incentive to head-hunting is the desire to please the +women, the possession of a head decapitated by himself being an excellent +way of winning a maiden's favor.[62] Such instances are too well known to +need multiplication here, and they survive in civilization, for, even +among ourselves, although courtship is now chiefly ruled by quite other +considerations, most women are in some degree emotionally affected by +strength and courage. But the direct result of this is that a group of +phenomena with which cruelty and the infliction of pain must inevitably be +more or less allied is brought within the sphere of courtship and rendered +agreeable to women. Here, indeed, we have the source of that love of +cruelty which some have found so marked in women. This is a phase of +courtship which helps us to understand how it is that, as we shall see, +the idea of pain, having become associated with sexual emotion, may be +pleasurable to women. + +Thus, in order to understand the connection between love and pain, we have +once more to return to the consideration, under a somewhat new aspect, of +the fundamental elements in the sexual impulse. In discussing the +"Evolution of Modesty" we found that the primary part of the female in +courtship is the playful, yet serious, assumption of the role of a hunted +animal who lures on the pursuer, not with the object of escaping, but with +the object of being finally caught. In considering the "Analysis of the +Sexual Impulse" we found that the primary part of the male in courtship is +by the display of his energy and skill to capture the female or to arouse +in her an emotional condition which leads her to surrender herself to him, +this process itself at the same time heightening his own excitement. In +the playing of these two different parts is attained in both male and +female that charging of nervous energy, that degree of vascular +tumescence, necessary for adequate discharge and detumescence in an +explosion by which sperm-cells and germ-cells are brought together for the +propagation of the race. We are now concerned with the necessary interplay +of the differing male and female roles in courtship, and with their +accidental emotional by-products. Both male and female are instinctively +seeking the same end of sexual union at the moment of highest excitement. +There cannot, therefore, be real conflict.[63] But there is the semblance +of a conflict, an apparent clash of aim, an appearance of cruelty. +Moreover,--and this is a significant moment in the process from our +present point of view,--when there are rivals for the possession of one +female there is always a possibility of actual combat, so tending to +introduce an element of real violence, of undisguised cruelty, which the +male inflicts on his rival and which the female views with satisfaction +and delight in the prowess of the successful claimant. Here we are brought +close to the zooelogical root of the connection between love and pain.[64] + +In his admirable work on play in man Groos has fully discussed the plays +of combat (_Kampfspiele_), which begin to develop even in childhood and +assume full activity during adolescence; and he points out that, while the +impulse to such play certainly has a wider biological significance, it +still possesses a relationship to the sexual life and to the rivalries of +animals in courtship which must not be forgotten.[65] + +Nor is it only in play that the connection between love and combativity +may still be traced. With the epoch of the first sexual relationship, +Marro points out, awakes the instinct of cruelty, which prompts the youth +to acts which are sometimes in absolute contrast to his previous conduct, +and leads him to be careless of the lives of others as well as of his own +life.[66] Marro presents a diagram showing how crimes against the person +in Italy rise rapidly from the age of 16 to 20 and reach a climax between +21 and 25. In Paris, Gamier states, crimes of blood are six times more +frequent in adolescents (aged 16 to 20) than in adults. It is the same +elsewhere.[67] This tendency to criminal violence during the age-period of +courtship is a by-product of the sexual impulse, a kind of tertiary sexual +character. + +In the process of what is commonly termed "marriage by capture" we have a +method of courtship which closely resembles the most typical form of +animal courtship, and is yet found in all but the highest and most +artificial stages of human society. It may not be true that, as MacLennan +and others have argued, almost every race of man has passed through an +actual stage of marriage by capture, but the phenomena in question have +certainly been extremely widespread and exist in popular custom even among +the highest races today. George Sand has presented a charming picture of +such a custom, existing in France, in her _Mare au Diable_. Farther away, +among the Kirghiz, the young woman is pursued by all her lovers, but she +is armed with a formidable whip, which she does not hesitate to use if +overtaken by a lover to whom she is not favorable. Among the Malays, +according to early travelers, courtship is carried on in the water in +canoes with double-bladed paddles; or, if no water is near, the damsel, +stripped naked of all but a waistband, is given a certain start and runs +off on foot followed by her lover. Vaughan Stevens in 1896 reported that +this performance is merely a sport; but Skeat and Blagden, in their more +recent and very elaborate investigations in the Malay States, find that it +is a rite. + +Even if we regard "marriage by capture" as simply a primitive human +institution stimulated by tribal exigencies and early social conditions, +yet, when we recall its widespread and persistent character, its close +resemblance to the most general method of courtship among animals, and the +emotional tendencies which still persist even in the most civilized men +and women, we have to recognize that we are in presence of a real +psychological impulse which cannot fail in its exercise to introduce some +element of pain into love. + +There are, however, two fundamentally different theories concerning +"marriage by capture." According to the first, that of MacLennan, which, +until recently, has been very widely accepted, and to which Professor +Tylor has given the weight of his authority, there has really been in +primitive society a recognized stage in which marriages were effected by +the capture of the wife. Such a state of things MacLennan regarded as once +world-wide. There can be no doubt that women very frequently have been +captured in this way among primitive peoples. Nor, indeed, has the custom +been confined to savages. In Europe we find that even up to comparatively +recent times the abduction of women was not only very common, but was +often more or less recognized. In England it was not until Henry VII's +time that the violent seizure of a woman was made a criminal offense, and +even then the statute was limited to women possessed of lands and goods. A +man might still carry off a girl provided she was not an heiress; but even +the abduction of heiresses continued to be common, and in Ireland remained +so until the end of the eighteenth century. But it is not so clear that +such raids and abductions, even when not of a genuinely hostile character, +have ever been a recognized and constant method of marriage. + +According to the second set of theories, the capture is not real, but +simulated, and may be accounted for by psychological reasons. Fustel de +Coulanges, in _La Cite Antique_,[68] discussing simulated marriage by +capture among the Romans, mentioned the view that it was "a symbol of the +young girl's modesty," but himself regarded it as an act of force to +symbolize the husband's power. He was possibly alluding to Herbert +Spencer, who suggested a psychological explanation of the apparent +prevalence of marriage by capture based on the supposition that, capturing +a wife being a proof of bravery, such a method of obtaining a wife would +be practised by the strongest men and be admired, while, on the other +hand, he considered that "female coyness" was "an important factor" in +constituting the more formal kinds of marriage by capture ceremonial.[69] +Westermarck, while accepting true marriage by capture, considers that +Spencer's statement "can scarcely be disproved."[70] In his valuable study +of certain aspects of primitive marriage Crawley, developing the +explanation rejected by Fustel de Coulanges, regards the fundamental fact +to be the modesty of women, which has to be neutralized, and this is done +by "a ceremonial use of force, which is half real and half make-believe." +Thus the manifestations are not survivals, but "arising in a natural way +from normal human feelings. It is not the tribe from which the bride is +abducted, nor, primarily, her family and kindred, but her _sex_"; and her +"sexual characters of timidity, bashfulness, and passivity are +sympathetically overcome by make-believe representations of male +characteristic actions."[71] + +It is not necessary for the present purpose that either of these two +opposing theories concerning the origin of the customs and feelings we are +here concerned with should be definitely rejected. Whichever theory is +adopted, the fundamental psychic element which here alone concerns us +still exists intact.[72] It may be pointed out, however, that we probably +have to accept two groups of such phenomena: one, seldom or never existing +as the sole form of marriage, in which the capture is real; and another in +which the "capture" is more or less ceremonial or playful. The two groups +coexist among the Turcomans, as described by Vambery, who are constantly +capturing and enslaving the Persians of both sexes, and, side by side with +this, have a marriage ceremonial of mock-capture of entirely playful +character. At the same time the two groups sometimes overlap, as is +indicated by cases in which, while the "capture" appears to be ceremonial, +the girl is still allowed to escape altogether if she wishes. The +difficulty of disentangling the two groups is shown by the fact that so +careful an investigator as Westermarck cites cases of real capture and +mock-capture together without attempting to distinguish between them. From +our present point of view it is quite unnecessary to attempt such a +distinction. Whether the capture is simulated or real, the man is still +playing the masculine and aggressive part proper to the male; the woman is +still playing the feminine and defensive part proper to the female. The +universal prevalence of these phenomena is due to the fact that +manifestations of this kind, real or pretended, afford each sex the very +best opportunity for playing its proper part in courtship, and so, even +when the force is real, must always gratify a profound instinct. + + It is not necessary to quote examples of marriage by capture from + the numerous and easily accessible books on the evolution of + marriage. (Sir A.B. Ellis, adopting MacLennan's standpoint, + presented a concise statement of the facts in an article on + "Survivals from Marriage by Capture," _Popular Science Monthly_, + 1891, p. 207.) It may, however, be worth while to bring together + from scattered sources a few of the facts concerning the + phenomena in this group and their accompanying emotional state, + more especially as they bear on the association of love with + force, inflicted or suffered. + + In New Caledonia, Foley remarks, the successful coquette goes off + with her lover into the bush. "It usually happens that, when she + is successful, she returns from her expedition, tumbled, beaten, + scratched, even bitten on the nape and shoulders, her wounds thus + bearing witness to the quadrupedal attitude she has assumed amid + the foliage." (Foley, _Bulletin de la Societe d'Anthropologie_, + Paris, November 6, 1879.) + + Of the natives of New South Wales, Turnbull remarked at the + beginning of the nineteenth century that "their mode of courtship + is not without its singularity. When a young man sees a female to + his fancy he informs her she must accompany him home; the lady + refuses; he not only enforces compliance with threats but blows; + thus the gallant, according to the custom, never fails to gain + the victory, and bears off the willing, though struggling + pugilist. The colonists for some time entertained the idea that + the women were compelled and forced away against their + inclinations; but the young ladies informed them that this mode + of gallantry was the custom, and perfectly to their taste," (J. + Turnbull, _A Voyage Round the World_, 1813, p. 98; cf. Brough + Smyth, _Aborigines of Victoria_, 1878, vol. i, p. 81.) + + As regards capture of women among Central Australian tribes, + Spencer and Gillen remark: "We have never in any of these central + tribes met with any such thing, and the clubbing part of the + story may be dismissed, so far as the central area of the + continent is concerned. To the casual observer what looks like a + capture (we are, of course, only speaking of these tribes) is in + reality an elopement, in which the woman is an aiding and + abetting party." (_Northern Tribes of Central Australia_. p. 32.) + + "The New Zealand method of courtship and matrimony is a most + extraordinary one. A man sees a woman whom he fancies he should + like for a wife; he asks the consent of her father, or, if an + orphan, of her nearest relative, which, if he obtain, he carries + his intended off by force, she resisting with all her strength, + and, as the New Zealand girls are generally fairly robust, + sometimes a dreadful struggle takes place; both are soon stripped + to the skin and it is sometimes the work of hours to remove the + fair prize a hundred yards. It sometimes happens that she secures + her retreat into her father's house, and the lover loses all + chance of ever obtaining her." (A. Earle, _Narratives of + Residence in New Zealand_, 1832, p. 244.) + + Among the Eskimos (probably near Smith Sound) "there is no + marriage ceremony further than that the boy is required to carry + off his bride by main force, for even among these blubber-eating + people the woman only saves her modesty by a show of resistance, + although she knows years beforehand that her destiny is sealed + and that she is to become the wife of the man from whose + embraces, when the nuptial day comes, she is obliged by the + inexorable law of public opinion to free herself, if possible, by + kicking and screaming with might and main until she is safely + landed in the hut of her future lord, when she gives up the + combat very cheerfully and takes possession of her new abode. The + betrothal often takes place at a very early period of life and at + very dissimilar ages." Marriage only takes place when the lover + has killed his first seal; this is the test of manhood and + maturity. (J.J. Hayes, _Open Polar Sea_, 1867, p. 432.) + + Marriage by "capture" is common in war and raiding in central + Africa. "The women, as a rule," Johnston says, "make no very + great resistance on these occasions. It is almost like playing a + game. A woman is surprised as she goes to get water at the + stream, or when she is on the way to or from the plantation. The + man has only got to show her she is cornered and that escape is + not easy or pleasant and she submits to be carried off. As a + general rule, they seem to accept very cheerfully these abrupt + changes in their matrimonial existence." (Sir H.H. Johnston, + _British Central Africa_, p. 412.) + + Among the wild tribes of the Malay Peninsula in one form of + wedding rite the bridegroom is required to run seven times around + an artificial mound decorated with flowers and the emblem of the + people's religion. In the event of the bridegroom failing to + catch the bride the marriage has to be postponed. Among the Orang + Laut, or sea-gipsies, the pursuit sometimes takes the form of a + canoe-race; the woman is given a good start and must be overtaken + before she has gone a certain distance. (W.W. Skeat, _Journal + Anthropological Institute_, Jan.-June, 1902, p. 134; Skeat and + Blagden, _Pagan Races of the Malay_, vol. ii, p. 69 et seq., + fully discuss the ceremony around the mound.) + + "Calmuck women ride better than the men. A male Calmuck on + horseback looks as if he was intoxicated, and likely to fall off + every instant, though he never loses his seat; but the women sit + with more ease, and ride with extraordinary skill. The ceremony + of marriage among the Calmucks is performed on horseback. A girl + is first mounted, who rides off at full speed. Her lover pursues, + and if he overtakes her she becomes his wife and the marriage is + consummated upon the spot, after which she returns with him to + his tent. But it sometimes happens that the woman does not wish + to marry the person by whom she is pursued, in which case she + will not suffer him to overtake her; and we were assured that no + instance occurs of a Calmuck girl being thus caught, unless she + has a partiality for her pursuer. If she dislikes him, she rides, + to use the language of English sportsmen, 'neck or nothing,' + until she has completely escaped or until the pursuer's horse is + tired out, leaving her at liberty to return, to be afterward + chased by some more favored admirer." (E.D. Clarke, _Travels_, + 1810, vol. i, p. 333.) + + Among the Bedouins marriage is arranged between the lover and the + girl's father, often without consulting the girl herself. "Among + the Arabs of Sinai the young maid comes home in the evening with + the cattle. At a short distance from the camp she is met by the + future spouse and a couple of his young friends and carried off + by force to her father's tent. If she entertains any suspicion of + their designs she defends herself with stones, and often inflicts + wounds on the young men, even though she does not dislike the + lover, for, according to custom, the more she struggles, bites, + kicks, cries, and strikes, the more she is applauded ever after + by her own companions." After being taken to her father's tent, + where a man's cloak is thrown over her by one of the bridegroom's + relations, she is dressed in garments provided by her future + husband, and placed on a camel, "still continuing to struggle in + a most unruly manner, and held by the bridegroom's friends on + both sides." She is then placed in a recess of the husband's + tent. Here the marriage is finally consummated, "the bride still + continuing to cry very loudly. It sometimes happens that the + husband is obliged to tie his bride, and even to beat her, before + she can be induced to comply with his desires." If, however, she + really does not like her husband, she is perfectly free to leave + him next morning, and her father is obliged to receive her back + whether he wishes to or not. It is not considered proper for a + widow or divorced woman to make any resistance on being married. + (J.L. Burckhardt, _Notes on the Bedouins and Wahabys_, 1830, p. + 149 et seq.) + + Among the Turcomans forays for capturing and enslaving their + Persian neighbors were once habitual. Vambery describes their + "marriage ceremonial when the young maiden, attired in bridal + costume, mounts a high-bred courser, taking on her lap the + carcass of a lamb or goat, and setting off at full gallop, + followed by the bridegroom and other young men of the party, also + on horseback; she is always to strive, by adroit turns, etc., to + avoid her pursuers, that no one approach near enough to snatch + from her the burden on her lap. This game, called _koekbueri_ + (green wolf), is in use among all the nomads of central Asia." + (A. Vambery, _Travels in Central Asia_, 1864, p. 323.) + + In China, a missionary describes how, when he was called upon to + marry the daughter of a Chinese Christian brought up in native + customs, he was compelled to wait several hours, as the bride + refused to get up and dress until long after the time appointed + for the wedding ceremony, and then only by force. "Extreme + reluctance and dislike and fear are the true marks of a happy and + lively wedding." (A.E. Moule, _New China and Old_, p. 128.) + + It is interesting to find that in the Indian art of love a kind + of mock-combat, accompanied by striking, is a recognized and + normal method of heightening tumescence. Vatsyayana has a + chapter "On Various Manners of Striking," and he approves of the + man striking the woman on the back, belly, flanks, and buttocks, + before and during coitus, as a kind of play, increasing as sexual + excitement increases, which the woman, with cries and groans, + pretends to bid the man to stop. It is mentioned that, especially + in southern India, various instruments (scissors, needles, etc.) + are used in striking, but this practice is condemned as barbarous + and dangerous. (_Kama Sutra_, French translation, iii, chapter + v.) + + In the story of Aladdin, in the _Arabian Nights_, the bride is + undressed by the mother and the other women, who place her in the + bridegroom's bed "as if by force, and, according to the custom of + the newly married, she pretends to resist, twisting herself in + every direction, and seeking to escape from their hands." (_Les + Mille Nuits_, tr. Mardrus, vol. xi, p. 253.) + + It is said that in those parts of Germany where preliminary + _Probenaechte_ before formal marriage are the rule it is not + uncommon for a young woman before finally giving herself to a man + to provoke him to a physical struggle. If she proves stronger she + dismisses him; if he is stronger she yields herself willingly. + (W. Henz, "Probenaechte," _Sexual-Probleme_, Oct., 1910, p. 743.) + + Among the South Slavs of Servia and Bulgaria, according to + Krauss, it is the custom to win a woman by seizing her by the + ankle and bringing her to the ground by force. This method of + wooing is to the taste of the woman, and they are refractory to + any other method. The custom of beating or being beaten before + coitus is also found among the South Slavs. (Kryptadia, vol. vi, + p. 209.) + + In earlier days violent courtship was viewed with approval in the + European world, even among aristocratic circles. Thus in the + medieval _Lai de Graelent_ of Marie de France this Breton knight + is represented as very chaste, possessing a high ideal of love + and able to withstand the wiles of women. One day when he is + hunting in a forest he comes upon a naked damsel bathing, + together with her handmaidens. Overcome by her beauty, he seizes + her clothes in case she should be alarmed, but is persuaded to + hand them to her; then he proceeds to make love to her. She + replies that his love is an insult to a woman of her high + lineage. Finding her so proud, Graelent sees that his prayers are + in vain. He drags her by force into the depth of the forest, has + his will of her, and begs her very gently not to be angry, + promising to love her loyally and never to leave her. The damsel + saw that he was a good knight, courteous, and wise. She thought + within herself that if she were to leave him she would never find + a better friend. + + Brantome mentions a lady who confessed that she liked to be + "half-forced" by her husband, and he remarks that a woman who is + "a little difficult and resists" gives more pleasure also to her + lover than one who yields at once, just as a hard-fought battle + is a more notable triumph than an easily won victory. (Brantome, + _Vie des Dames Galantes_, discours i.) Restif de la Bretonne, + again, whose experience was extensive, wrote in his + _Anti-Justine_ that "all women of strong temperament like a sort + of brutality in sexual intercourse and its accessories." + + Ovid had said that a little force is pleasing to a woman, and + that she is grateful to the ravisher against whom she struggles + (_Ars Amatoria_, lib. i). One of Janet's patients (Raymond and + Janet, _Les Obsessions et la Psychasthenie_, vol. ii, p. 406) + complained that her husband was too good, too devoted. "He does + not know how to make me suffer a little. One cannot love anyone + who does not make one suffer a little." Another hysterical woman + (a silk fetichist, frigid with men) had dreams of men and animals + abusing her: "I cried with pain and was happy at the same time." + (Clerambault, _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, June, 1908, + p. 442.) + + It has been said that among Slavs of the lower class the wives + feel hurt if they are not beaten by their husbands. Paullinus, in + the seventeenth century, remarked that Russian women are never + more pleased and happy than when beaten by their husbands, and + regard such treatment as proof of love. (See, e.g., C.F. von + Schlichtegroll, _Sacher-Masoch und der Masochismus_, p. 69.) + Krafft-Ebing believes that this is true at the present day, and + adds that it is the same in Hungary, a Hungarian official having + informed him that the peasant women of the Somogyer Comitate do + not think they are loved by their husbands until they have + received the first box on the ear. (Krafft-Ebing, _Psychopathia + Sexualis_, English translation of the tenth edition, p. 188.) I + may add that a Russian proverb says "Love your wife like your + soul and beat her like your _shuba_" (overcoat); and, according + to another Russian proverb, "a dear one's blows hurt not long." + At the same time it has been remarked that the domination of men + by women is peculiarly frequent among the Slav peoples. (V. + Schlichtegroll, op. cit., p. 23.) Cellini, in an interesting + passage in his _Life_ (book ii, chapters xxxiv-xxxv), describes + his own brutal treatment of his model Caterina, who was also his + mistress, and the pleasure which, to his surprise, she took in + it. Dr. Simon Forman, also, the astrologist, tells in his + _Autobiography_ (p. 7) how, as a young and puny apprentice to a + hosier, he was beaten, scolded, and badly treated by the servant + girl, but after some years of this treatment he turned on her, + beat her black and blue, and ever after "Mary would do for him + all that she could." + + That it is a sign of love for a man to beat his sweetheart, and a + sign much appreciated by women, is illustrated by the episode of + Cariharta and Repolido, in "Rinconete and Cortadillo," one of + Cervantes's _Exemplary Novels_. The Indian women of South + America feel in the same way, and Mantegazza when traveling in + Bolivia found that they complained when they were not beaten by + their husbands, and that a girl was proud when she could say "He + loves me greatly, for he often beats me." (_Fisiologia della + Donna_, chapter xiii.) The same feeling evidently existed in + classic antiquity, for we find Lucian, in his "Dialogues of + Courtesans," makes a woman say: "He who has not rained blows on + his mistress and torn her hair and her garments is not yet in + love," while Ovid advises lovers sometimes to be angry with their + sweethearts and to tear their dresses. + + Among the Italian Camorrista, according to Russo, wives are very + badly treated. Expression is given to this fact in the popular + songs. But the women only feel themselves tenderly loved when + they are badly treated by their husbands; the man who does not + beat them they look upon as a fool. It is the same in the east + end of London. "If anyone has doubts as to the brutalities + practised on women by men," writes a London magistrate, "let him + visit the London Hospital on a Saturday night. Very terrible + sights will meet his eye. Sometimes as many as twelve or fourteen + women may be seen seated in the receiving room, waiting for their + bruised and bleeding faces and bodies to be attended to. In nine + cases out of ten the injuries have been inflicted by brutal and + perhaps drunken husbands. The nurses tell me, however, that any + remarks they may make reflecting on the aggressors are received + with great indignation by the wretched sufferers. They positively + will not hear a single word against the cowardly ruffians. + 'Sometimes,' said a nurse to me, 'when I have told a woman that + her husband is a brute, she has drawn herself up and replied: + "You mind your own business, miss. We find the rates and taxes, + and the likes of you are paid out of 'em to wait on us."'" + (Montagu Williams, _Round London_, p. 79.) + + "The prostitute really loves her _souteneur_, notwithstanding all + the persecutions he inflicts on her. Their torments only increase + the devotion of the poor slaves to their 'Alphonses.' + Parent-Duchatelet wrote that he had seen them come to the + hospital with their eyes out of their heads, faces bleeding, and + bodies torn by the blows of their drunken lovers, but as soon as + they were healed they went back to them. Police-officers tell us + that it is very difficult to make a prostitute confess anything + concerning her _souteneur_. Thus, Rosa L., whom her 'Alphonse' + had often threatened to kill, even putting the knife to her + throat, would say nothing, and denied everything when the + magistrate questioned her. Maria R., with her face marked by a + terrible scar produced by her _souteneur_, still carefully + preserved many years afterward the portrait of the aggressor, and + when we asked her to explain her affection she replied: 'But he + wounded me because he loved me.' The _souteneur's_ brutality only + increases the ill-treated woman's love; the humiliation and + slavery in which the woman's soul is drowned feed her love." + (Niceforo, _Il Gergo_, etc., 1897, p. 128.) + + In a modern novel written in autobiographic form by a young + Australian lady the heroine is represented as striking her + betrothed with a whip when he merely attempts to kiss her. Later + on her behavior so stings him that his self-control breaks down + and he seizes her fiercely by the arms. For the first time she + realizes that he loves her. "I laughed a joyous little laugh, + saying 'Hal, we are quits'; when on disrobing for the night I + discovered on my soft white shoulders and arms--so susceptible to + bruises--many marks, and black. It had been a very happy day for + me." (Miles Franklin, _My Brilliant Career_.) + + It is in large measure the existence of this feeling of + attraction for violence which accounts for the love-letters + received by men who are accused of crimes of violence. Thus in + one instance, in Chicago (as Dr. Kiernan writes to me), "a man + arrested for conspiracy to commit abortion, and also suspected of + being a sadist, received many proposals of marriage and other + less modest expressions of affection from unknown women. To judge + by the signatures, these women belonged to the Germans and Slavs + rather than to the Anglo-Celts." + + Neuropathic or degenerative conditions sometimes serve to + accentuate or reveal ancestral traits that are very ancient in + the race. Under such conditions the tendency to find pleasure in + subjection and pain, which is often faintly traceable even in + normal civilized women, may become more pronounced. This may be + seen in a case described in some detail in the _Archivio di + Psichiatria_. The subject was a young lady of 19, of noble + Italian birth, but born in Tunis. On the maternal side there is a + somewhat neurotic heredity, and she is herself subject to attacks + of hystero-epileptoid character. She was very carefully, but + strictly, educated; she knows several languages, possesses marked + intellectual aptitudes, and is greatly interested in social and + political questions, in which she takes the socialistic and + revolutionary side. She has an attractive and sympathetic + personality; in complexion she is dark, with dark eyes and very + dark and abundant hair; the fine down on the upper lip and lower + parts of the cheeks is also much developed; the jaw is large, the + head acrocephalic, and the external genital organs of normal + size, but rather asymmetric. Ever since she was a child she has + loved to work and dream in solitude. Her dreams have always been + of love, since menstruation began as early as the age of 10, and + accompanied by strong sexual feelings, though at that age these + feelings remained vague and indefinite; but in them the desire + for pleasure was always accompanied by the desire for pain, the + desire to bite and destroy something, and, as it were, to + annihilate herself. She experienced great relief after periods of + "erotic rumination," and if this rumination took place at night + she would sometimes masturbate, the contact of the bedclothes, + she said, giving her the illusion of a man. In time this vague + longing for the male gave place to more definite desires for a + man who would love her, and, as she imagined, strike her. + Eventually she formed secret relationships with two or three + lovers in succession, each of these relationships being, however, + discovered by her family and leading to ineffectual attempts at + suicide. But the association of pain with love, which had + developed spontaneously in her solitary dreams, continued in her + actual relations with her lovers. During coitus she would bite + and squeeze her arms until the nails penetrated the flesh. When + her lover asked her why at the moment of coitus she would + vigorously repel him, she replied: "Because I want to be + possessed by force, to be hurt, suffocated, to be thrown down in + a struggle." At another time she said: "I want a man with all his + vitality, so that he can torture and kill my body." We seem to + see here clearly the ancient biological character of animal + courtship, the desire of the female to be violently subjugated by + the male. In this case it was united to sensitiveness to the + sexual domination of an intellectual man, and the subject also + sought to stimulate her lovers' intellectual tastes. (_Archivio + di Psichiatria_, vol. xx, fasc. 5-6, p. 528.) + +This association between love and pain still persists even among the most +normal civilized men and women possessing well-developed sexual impulses. +The masculine tendency to delight in domination, the feminine tendency to +delight in submission, still maintain the ancient traditions when the male +animal pursued the female. The phenomena of "marriage by capture," in its +real and its simulated forms, have been traced to various causes. But it +has to be remembered that these causes could only have been operative in +the presence of a favorable emotional aptitude, constituted by the +zooelogical history of our race and still traceable even today. To exert +power, as psychologists well recognize, is one of our most primary +impulses, and it always tends to be manifested in the attitude of a man +toward the woman he loves.[73] + +It might be possible to maintain that the primitive element of more or +less latent cruelty in courtship tends to be more rather than less marked +in civilized man. In civilization the opportunity of dissipating the +surplus energy of the courtship process by inflicting pain on rivals +usually has to be inhibited; thus the woman to be wooed tends to become +the recipient of the whole of this energy, both in its pleasure-giving and +its pain-giving aspects. Moreover, the natural process of courtship, as it +exists among animals and usually among the lower human races, tends to +become disguised and distorted in civilization, as well by economic +conditions as by conventional social conditions and even ethical +prescription. It becomes forgotten that the woman's pleasure is an +essential element in the process of courtship. A woman is often reduced to +seek a man for the sake of maintenance; she is taught that pleasure is +sinful or shameful, that sex-matters are disgusting, and that it is a +woman's duty, and also her best policy, to be in subjection to her +husband. Thus, various external checks which normally inhibit any passing +over of masculine sexual energy into cruelty are liable to be removed. + +We have to admit that a certain pleasure in manifesting his power over a +woman by inflicting pain upon her is an outcome and survival of the +primitive process of courtship, and an almost or quite normal constituent +of the sexual impulse in man. But it must be at once added that in the +normal well-balanced and well-conditioned man this constituent of the +sexual impulse, when present, is always held in check. When the normal man +inflicts, or feels the impulse to inflict, some degree of physical pain on +the woman he loves he can scarcely be said to be moved by cruelty. He +feels, more or less obscurely, that the pain he inflicts, or desires to +inflict, is really a part of his love, and that, moreover, it is not +really resented by the woman on whom it is exercised. His feeling is by +no means always according to knowledge, but it has to be taken into +account as an essential part of his emotional state. The physical force, +the teasing and bullying, which he may be moved to exert under the stress +of sexual excitement, are, he usually more or less unconsciously persuades +himself, not really unwelcome to the object of his love.[74] Moreover, we +have to bear in mind the fact--a very significant fact from more than one +point of view--that the normal manifestations of a woman's sexual pleasure +are exceedingly like those of pain. "The outward expressions of pain," as +a lady very truly writes,--"tears, cries, etc.,--which are laid stress on +to prove the cruelty of the person who inflicts it, are not so different +from those of a woman in the ecstasy of passion, when she implores the man +to desist, though that is really the last thing she desires."[75] If a man +is convinced that he is causing real and unmitigated pain, he becomes +repentant at once. If this is not the case he must either be regarded as a +radically abnormal person or as carried away by passion to a point of +temporary insanity. + +The intimate connection of love with pain, its tendency to approach +cruelty, is seen in one of the most widespread of the occasional and +non-essential manifestations of strong sexual emotion, especially in +women, the tendency to bite. We may find references to love-bites in the +literature of ancient as well as of modern times, in the East as well as +in the West. Plautus, Catullus, Propertius, Horace, Ovid, Petronius, and +other Latin writers refer to bites as associated with kisses and usually +on the lips. Plutarch says that Flora, the mistress of Cnaeus Pompey, in +commending her lover remarked that he was so lovable that she could never +leave him without giving him a bite. In the Arabic _Perfumed Garden_ there +are many references to love-bites, while in the Indian _Kama Sutra_ of +Vatsyayana a chapter is devoted to this subject. Biting in love is also +common among the South Slavs.[76] The phenomenon is indeed sufficiently +familiar to enable Heine, in one of his _Romancero_, to describe those +marks by which the ancient chronicler states that Edith Swanneck +recognized Harold, after the Battle of Hastings, as the scars of the bites +she had once given him. + +It would be fanciful to trace this tendency back to that process of +devouring to which sexual congress has, in the primitive stages of its +evolution, been reduced. But we may probably find one of the germs of the +love-bite in the attitude of many mammals during or before coitus; in +attaining a firm grip of the female it is not uncommon (as may be observed +in the donkey) for the male to seize the female's neck between his teeth. +The horse sometimes bites the mare before coitus and it is said that among +the Arabs when a mare is not apt for coitus she is sent to pasture with a +small ardent horse, who excites her by playing with her and biting +her.[77] It may be noted, also, that dogs often show their affection for +their masters by gentle bites. Children also, as Stanley Hall has pointed +out, are similarly fond of biting. + +Perhaps a still more important factor is the element of combat in +tumescence, since the primitive conditions associated with tumescence +provide a reservoir of emotions which are constantly drawn on even in the +sexual excitement of individuals belonging to civilization. The tendency +to show affection by biting is, indeed, commoner among women than among +men and not only in civilization. It has been noted among idiot girls as +well as among the women of various savage races. It may thus be that the +conservative instincts of women have preserved a primitive tendency that +at its origin marked the male more than the female. But in any case the +tendency to bite at the climax of sexual excitement is so common and +widespread that it must be regarded, when occurring in women, as coming +within the normal range of variation in such manifestations. The +gradations are of wide extent; while in its slight forms it is more or +less normal and is one of the origins of the kiss,[78] in its extreme +forms it tends to become one of the most violent and antisocial of sexual +aberrations. + + A correspondent writes regarding his experience of biting and + being bitten: "I have often felt inclination to bite a woman I + love, even when not in coitus or even excited. (I like doing so + also with my little boy, playfully, as a cat and kittens.) There + seem to be several reasons for this: (1) the muscular effect + relieves me; (2) I imagine I am giving the woman pleasure; (3) I + seem to attain to a more intimate possession of the loved one. I + cannot remember when I first felt desire to be bitten in coitus, + or whether the idea was first suggested to me. I was initiated + into pinching by a French prostitute who once pinched my nates in + coitus, no doubt as a matter of business; it heightened my + pleasure, perhaps by stimulating muscular movement. It does not + occur to me to ask to be pinched when I am very much excited + already, but only at an earlier stage, no doubt with the object + of promoting excitement. Apart altogether from sexual excitement, + being pinched is unpleasant to me. It has not seemed to me that + women usually like to be bitten. One or two women have bitten and + sucked my flesh. (The latter does not affect me.) I like being + bitten, partly for the same reason as I like being pinched, + because if spontaneous it is a sign of my partner's amorousness + and the biting never seems too hard. Women do not usually seem to + like being bitten, though there are exceptions; 'I should like to + bite you and I should like you to bite me,' said one woman; I did + so hard, in coitus, and she did not flinch." "She is particularly + anxious to eat me alive," another correspondent writes, "and + nothing gives her greater satisfaction than to tear open my + clothes and fasten her teeth into my flesh until I yell for + mercy. My experience has generally been, however," the same + correspondent continues, "that the cruelty is _unconscious_. A + woman just grows mad with the desire to squeeze or bite + something, with a complete unconsciousness of what result it will + produce in the victim. She is astonished when she sees the result + and will hardly believe she has done it." It is unnecessary to + accumulate evidence of a tendency which is sufficiently common to + be fairly well known, but one or two quotations may be presented + to show its wide distribution. In the _Kama Sutra_ we read: "If + she is very exalted, and if in the exaltation of her passionate + transports she begins a sort of combat, then she takes her lover + by the hair, draws his head to hers, kisses his lower lip, and + then in her delirium bites him all over his body, shutting her + eyes"; it is added that with the marks of such bites lovers can + remind each other of their affections, and that such love will + last for ages. In Japan the maiden of Ainu race feels the same + impulse. A.H. Savage Landor (_Alone with the Hairy Ainu_, 1893, + p. 140) says of an Ainu girl: "Loving and biting went together + with her. She could not do the one without the other. As we sat + on a stone in the twilight she began by gently biting my fingers + without hurting me, as affectionate dogs do to their masters. She + then bit my arm, then my shoulder, and when she had worked + herself up into a passion she put her arms around my neck and bit + my cheeks. It was undoubtedly a curious way of making love, and, + when I had been bitten all over, and was pretty tired of the new + sensation, we retired to our respective homes. Kissing, + apparently, was an unknown art to her." + + The significance of biting, and the close relationship which, as + will have to be pointed out later, it reveals to other phenomena, + may be illustrated by some observations which have been made by + Alonzi on the peasant women of Sicily. "The women of the people," + he remarks, "especially in the districts where crimes of blood + are prevalent, give vent to their affection for their little ones + by kissing and sucking them on the neck and arms till they make + them cry convulsively; all the while they say: 'How sweet you + are! I will bite you, I will gnaw you all over,' exhibiting every + appearance of great pleasure. If a child commits some slight + fault they do not resort to simple blows, but pursue it through + the street and bite it on the face, ears, and arms until the + blood flows. At such moments the face of even a beautiful woman + is transformed, with injected eyes, gnashing teeth, and + convulsive tremors. Among both men and women a very common threat + is 'I will drink your blood.' It is told on ocular evidence that + a man who had murdered another in a quarrel licked the hot blood + from the victim's hand." (G. Alonzi, _Archivio di Psichiatria_, + vol. vi, fasc. 4.) A few years ago a nurse girl in New York was + sentenced to prison for cruelty to the baby in her charge. The + mother had frequently noticed that the child was in pain and at + last discovered the marks of teeth on its legs. The girl admitted + that she had bitten the child because that action gave her + intense pleasure. (_Alienist and Neurologist_, August, 1901, p. + 558.) In the light of such observations as these we may + understand a morbid perversion of affection such as was recorded + in the London police news some years ago (1894). A man of 30 was + charged with ill-treating his wife's illegitimate daughter, aged + 3, during a period of many months; her lips, eyes, and hands were + bitten and bruised from sucking, and sometimes her pinafore was + covered with blood. "Defendant admitted he had bitten the child + because he loved it." + + It is not surprising that such phenomena as these should + sometimes be the stimulant and accompaniment to the sexual act. + Ferriani thus reports such a case in the words of the young man's + mistress: "Certainly he is a strange, maddish youth, though he is + fond of me and spends money on me when he has any. He likes much + sexual intercourse, but, to tell the truth, he has worn out my + patience, for before our embraces there are always struggles + which become assaults. He tells me he has no pleasure except when + he sees me crying on account of his bites and vigorous pinching. + Lately, just before going with me, when I was groaning with + pleasure, he threw himself on me and at the moment of emission + furiously bit my right cheek till the blood came. Then he kissed + me and begged my pardon, but would do it again if the wish took + him." (L. Ferriani, _Archivio di Psicopatie Sessuale_, vol. i, + fasc. 7 and 8, 1896, p. 107.) + + In morbid cases biting may even become a substitute for coitus. + Thus, Moll (_Die Kontraere Sexualempfindung_, second edition, p. + 323) records the case of a hysterical woman who was sexually + anesthetic, though she greatly loved her husband. It was her + chief delight to bite him till the blood flowed, and she was + content if, instead of coitus, he bit her and she him, though she + was grieved if she inflicted much pain. In other still more + morbid cases the fear of inflicting pain is more or less + abolished. + + An idealized view of the impulse of love to bite and devour is + presented in the following passage from a letter by a lady who + associates this impulse with the idea of the Last Supper: "Your + remarks about the Lord's Supper in 'Whitman' make it natural to + me to tell you my thoughts about that 'central sacrament of + Christianity.' I cannot tell many people because they + misunderstand, and a clergyman, a very great friend of mine, when + I once told what I thought and felt, said I was carnal. He did + not understand the divinity and intensity of human love as I + understand it. Well, when one loves anyone very much,--a child, a + woman, or a man,--one loves everything belonging to him: the + things he wears, still more his hands, and his face, every bit of + his body. We always want to have all, or part, of him as part of + ourselves. Hence the expression: I could _devour_ you, I love you + so. In some such warm, devouring way Jesus Christ, I have always + felt, loved each and every human creature. So it was that he took + this mystery of food, which by eating became part of ourselves, + as the symbol of the most intense human love, the most intense + Divine love. Some day, perhaps, love will be so understood by all + that this sacrament will cease to be a superstition, a bone of + contention, an 'article' of the church, and become, in all + simplicity, a symbol of pure love." + +While in men it is possible to trace a tendency to inflict pain, or the +simulacrum of pain, on the women they love, it is still easier to trace in +women a delight in experiencing physical pain when inflicted by a lover, +and an eagerness to accept subjection to his will. Such a tendency is +certainly normal. To abandon herself to her lover, to be able to rely on +his physical strength and mental resourcefulness, to be swept out of +herself and beyond the control of her own will, to drift idly in delicious +submission to another and stronger will--this is one of the commonest +aspirations in a young woman's intimate love-dreams. In our own age these +aspirations most often only find their expression in such dreams. In ages +when life was more nakedly lived, and emotion more openly expressed, it +was easier to trace this impulse. In the thirteenth century we have found +Marie de France--a French poetess living in England who has been credited +with "an exquisite sense of the generosities and delicacy of the heart," +and whose work was certainly highly appreciated in the best circles and +among the most cultivated class of her day--describing as a perfect, wise, +and courteous knight a man who practically commits a rape on a woman who +has refused to have anything to do with him, and, in so acting, he wins +her entire love. The savage beauty of New Caledonia furnishes no better +illustration of the fascination of force, for she, at all events, has done +her best to court the violence she undergoes. In Middleton's _Spanish +Gypsy_ we find exactly the same episode, and the unhappy Portuguese nun +wrote: "Love me for ever and make me suffer still more." To find in +literature more attenuated examples of the same tendency is easy. +Shakespeare, whose observation so little escaped, has seldom depicted the +adult passion of a grown woman, but in the play which he has mainly +devoted to this subject he makes Cleopatra refer to "amorous pinches," and +she says in the end: "The stroke of death is as a lover's pinch, which +hurts and is desired." "I think the Sabine woman enjoyed being carried off +like that," a woman remarked in front of Rubens's "Rape of the Sabines," +confessing that such a method of love-making appealed strongly to +herself, and it is probable that the majority of women would be prepared +to echo that remark. + + It may be argued that pain cannot give pleasure, and that when + what would usually be pain is felt as pleasure it cannot be + regarded as pain at all. It must be admitted that the emotional + state is often somewhat complex. Moreover, women by no means + always agree in the statement of their experience. It is + noteworthy, however, that even when the pleasurableness of pain + in love is denied it is still admitted that, under some + circumstances, pain, or the idea of pain, is felt as pleasurable. + I am indebted to a lady for a somewhat elaborate discussion of + this subject, which I may here quote at length: "As regards + physical pain, though the idea of it is sometimes exciting, I + think the reality is the reverse. A very slight amount of pain + destroys my pleasure completely. This was the case with me for + fully a month after marriage, and since. When pain has + occasionally been associated with passion, pleasure has been + sensibly diminished. I can imagine that, when there is a want of + sensitiveness so that the tender kiss or caress might fail to + give pleasure, more forcible methods are desired; but in that + case what would be pain to a sensitive person would be only a + pleasant excitement, and it could not be truly said that such + obtuse persons liked pain, though they might appear to do so. I + cannot think that anyone enjoys what is pain _to them_, if only + from the fact that it detracts and divides the attention. This, + however, is only my own idea drawn from my own negative + experience. No woman has ever told me that she would like to have + pain inflicted on her. On the other hand, the desire to inflict + pain seems almost universal among men. I have only met one man in + whom I have never at any time been able to detect it. At the same + time most men shrink from putting their ideas into practice. A + friend of my husband finds his chief pleasure in imagining women + hurt and ill-treated, but is too tender-hearted ever to inflict + pain on them in reality, even when they are willing to submit to + it. Perhaps a woman's readiness to submit to pain to please a man + may sometimes be taken for pleasure in it. Even when women like + the idea of pain, I fancy it is only because it implies + subjection to the man, from association with the fact that + physical pleasure must necessarily be preceded by submission to + his will." + + In a subsequent communication this lady enlarged and perhaps + somewhat modified her statements on this point:-- + + "I don't think that what I said to you was quite correct. + _Actual_ pain gives me no pleasure, yet the _idea_ of pain does, + _if inflicted by way of discipline and for the ultimate good of + the person suffering it_. This is essential. For instance, I once + read a poem in which the devil and the lost souls in hell were + represented as recognizing that they could not be good except + under torture, but that while suffering the purifying actions of + the flames of hell they so realized the beauty of holiness that + they submitted willingly to their agony and praised God for the + sternness of his judgment. This poem gave me decided physical + pleasure, yet I know that if my hand were held in a fire for five + minutes I should feel nothing but the pain of the burning. To get + the feeling of pleasure, too, I must, for the moment, revert to + my old religious beliefs and my old notion that mere suffering + has an elevating influence; one's emotions are greatly modified + by one's beliefs. When I was about fifteen I invented a game + which I played with a younger sister, in which we were supposed + to be going through a process of discipline and preparation for + heaven after death. Each person was supposed to enter this state + on dying and to pass successively into the charge of different + angels named after the special virtues it was their function to + instill. The last angel was that of Love, who governed solely by + the quality whose name he bore. In the lower stages, we were + under an angel called Severity who prepared us by extreme + harshness and by exacting implicit obedience to arbitrary orders + for the acquirement of later virtues. Our duties were to + superintend the weather, paint the sunrise and sunset, etc., the + constant work involved exercising us in patience and submission. + The physical pleasure came in in inventing and recounting to each + other our day's work and the penalties and hardships we had been + subjected to. We never told each other that we got any physical + pleasure out of this, and I cannot therefore be sure that my + sister did so; I only imagine she did because she entered so + heartily into the spirit of the game. I could get as much + pleasure by imagining myself the angel and inflicting the pain, + under the conditions mentioned; but my sister did not like this + so much, as she then had no companion in subjection. I could not, + however, thus reverse my feelings in regard to a man, as it would + appear to me unnatural, and, besides, the greater physical + strength is essential in the superior position. I can, however, + by imagining myself a man, sometimes get pleasure in conceiving + myself as educating and disciplining a woman by severe measures. + There is, however, no real cruelty in this idea, as I always + imagine her liking it. + + "I only get pleasure in the idea of a woman submitting herself to + pain and harshness from the man she loves when the following + conditions are fulfilled: 1. She must be absolutely sure of the + man's love. 2. She must have perfect confidence in his judgment. + 3. The pain must be deliberately inflicted, not accidental. 4. It + must be inflicted in kindness and for her own improvement, not in + anger or with any revengeful feelings, as that would spoil one's + ideal of the man. 5. The pain must not be excessive and must be + what when we were children we used to call a 'tidy' pain; i.e., + there must be no mutilation, cutting, etc. 6. Last, one would + have to feel very sure of one's own influence over the man. So + much for the idea. As I have never suffered pain under a + combination of all these conditions, I have no right to say that + I should or should not experience pleasure from its infliction in + reality." + + Another lady writes: "I quite agree that the idea of pain may be + pleasurable, but must be associated with something to be gained + by it. My experience is that it [coitus] does often hurt for a + few moments, but that passes and the rest is easy; so that the + little hurt is nothing terrible, but all the same annoying if + only for the sake of a few minutes' pleasure, which is not long + enough. I do not know how my experience compares with other + women's, but I feel sure that in my case the time needed is + longer than usual, and the longer the better, always, with me. As + to liking pain--no, I do not really like it, although I can + tolerate pain very well, of any kind; but I like to feel force + and strength; this is usual, I think, women being--or supposed to + be--passive in love. I have not found that 'pain at once kills + pleasure.'" + + Again, another lady briefly states that, for her, pain has a + mental fascination, and that such pain as she has had she has + liked, but that, if it had been any stronger, pleasure would have + been destroyed. + + The evidence thus seems to point, with various shades of + gradation, to the conclusion that the idea or even the reality of + pain in sexual emotion is welcomed by women, provided that this + element of pain is of small amount and subordinate to the + pleasure which is to follow it. Unless coitus is fundamentally + pleasure the element of pain must necessarily be unmitigated + pain, and a craving for pain unassociated with a greater + satisfaction to follow it cannot be regarded as normal. + + In this connection I may refer to a suggestive chapter on "The + Enjoyment of Pain" in Hirn's _Origins of Art_. "If we take into + account," says Hirn, "the powerful stimulating effect which is + produced by acute pain, we may easily understand why people + submit to momentary unpleasantness for the sake of enjoying the + subsequent excitement. This motive leads to the deliberate + creation, not only of pain-sensations, but also of emotions in + which pain enters as an element. The violent activity which is + involved in the reaction against fear, and still more in that + against anger, affords us a sensation of pleasurable excitement + which is well worth the cost of the passing unpleasantness. It + is, moreover, notorious that some persons have developed a + peculiar art of making the initial pain of anger so transient + that they can enjoy the active elements in it with almost + undivided delight. Such an accomplishment is far more difficult + in the case of sorrow.... The creation of pain-sensations may be + explained as a desperate device for enhancing the intensity of + the emotional state." + + The relation of pain and pleasure to emotion has been thoroughly + discussed, I may add, by H.R. Marshall in his _Pain, Pleasure, + and AEsthetics_. He contends that pleasure and pain are "general + qualities, one of which must, and either of which may, belong to + any fixed element of consciousness." "Pleasure," he considers, + "is experienced whenever the physical activity coincident with + the psychic state to which the pleasure is attached involves the + use of surplus stored force." We can see, therefore, how, if pain + acts as a stimulant to emotion, it becomes the servant of + pleasure by supplying it with surplus stored force. + + This problem of pain is thus one of psychic dynamics. If we + realize this we shall begin to understand the place of cruelty in + life. "One ought to learn anew about cruelty," said Nietzsche + (_Beyond Good and Evil_, 229), "and open one's eyes. Almost + everything that we call 'higher culture' is based upon the + spiritualizing and intensifying of _cruelty_.... Then, to be + sure, we must put aside teaching the blundering psychology of + former times, which could only teach with regard to cruelty that + it originated at the sight of the suffering of _others_; there is + an abundant, superabundant enjoyment even in one's own suffering, + in causing one's own suffering." The element of paradox + disappears from this statement if we realize that it is not a + question of "cruelty," but of the dynamics of pain. + + Camille Bos in a suggestive essay ("Du Plaisir de la Douleur," + _Revue Philosophique_, July, 1902) finds the explanation of the + mystery in that complexity of the phenomena to which I have + already referred. Both pain and pleasure are complex feelings, + the resultant of various components, and we name that resultant + in accordance with the nature of the strongest component. "Thus + we give to a complexus a name which strictly belongs only to one + of its factors, _and in pain all is not painful_." When pain + becomes a desired end Camille Bos regards the desire as due to + three causes: (1) the pain contrasts with and revives a pleasure + which custom threatens to dull; (2) the pain by preceding the + pleasure accentuates the positive character of the latter; (3) + pain momentarily raises the lowered level of sensibility and + restores to the organism for a brief period the faculty of + enjoyment it had lost. + + It must therefore be said that, in so far as pain is pleasurable, + it is so only in so far as it is recognized as a prelude to + pleasure, or else when it is an actual stimulus to the nerves + conveying the sensation of pleasure. The nymphomaniac who + experienced an orgasm at the moment when the knife passed through + her clitoris (as recorded by Mantegazza) and the prostitute who + experienced keen pleasure when the surgeon removed vegetations + from her vulva (as recorded by Fere) took no pleasure in pain, + but in one case the intense craving for strong sexual emotion, + and in the other the long-blunted nerves of pleasure, welcomed + the abnormally strong impulse; and the pain of the incision, if + felt at all, was immediately swallowed up in the sensation of + pleasure. Moll remarks (_Kontraere Sexualempfindung_, third + edition, p. 278) that even in man a trace of physical pain may be + normally combined with sexual pleasure, when the vagina + contracts on the penis at the moment of ejaculation, the pain, + when not too severe, being almost immediately felt as pleasure. + That there is no pleasure in the actual pain, even in masochism, + is indicated by the following statement which Krafft-Ebing gives + as representing the experiences of a masochist (_Psychopathia + Sexualis_ English translation, p. 201): "The relation is not of + such a nature that what causes physical pain is simply perceived + as physical pleasure, for the person in a state of masochistic + ecstasy feels no pain, either because by reason of his emotional + state (like that of the soldier in battle) the physical effect on + his cutaneous nerves is not apperceived, or because (as with + religious martyrs and enthusiasts) in the preoccupation of + consciousness with sexual emotion the idea of maltreatment + remains merely a symbol, without its quality of pain. To a + certain extent there is overcompensation of physical pain in + psychic pleasure, and only the excess remains in consciousness as + psychic lust. This also undergoes an increase, since, either + through reflex spinal influence or through a peculiar coloring in + the sensorium of sensory impressions, a kind of hallucination of + bodily pleasure takes place, with a vague localization of the + objectively projected sensation. In the self-torture of religious + enthusiasts (fakirs, howling dervishes, religious flagellants) + there is an analogous state, only with a difference in the + quality of pleasurable feeling. Here the conception of martyrdom + is also apperceived without its pain, for consciousness is filled + with the pleasurably colored idea of serving God, atoning for + sins, deserving Heaven, etc., through martyrdom." This statement + cannot be said to clear up the matter entirely; but it is fairly + evident that, when a woman says that she finds pleasure in the + pain inflicted by a lover, she means that under the special + circumstances she finds pleasure in treatment which would at + other times be felt as pain, or else that the slight real pain + experienced is so quickly followed by overwhelming pleasure that + in memory the pain itself seems to have been pleasure and may + even be regarded as the symbol of pleasure. + + There is a special peculiarity of physical pain, which may be + well borne in mind in considering the phenomena now before us, + for it helps to account for the tolerance with which the idea of + pain is regarded. I refer to the great ease with which physical + pain is forgotten, a fact well known to all mothers, or to all + who have been present at the birth of a child. As Professor von + Tschisch points out ("Der Schmerz," _Zeitschrift fuer Psychologie + und Physiologie der Sinnesorgane_, Bd. xxvi, ht. 1 and 2, 1901), + memory can only preserve impressions as a whole; physical pain + consists of a sensation and of a feeling. But memory cannot + easily reproduce the definite sensation of the pain, and thus the + whole memory is disintegrated and speedily forgotten. It is quite + otherwise with moral suffering, which persists in memory and has + far more influence on conduct. No one wishes to suffer moral pain + or has any pleasure even in the idea of suffering it. + +It is the presence of this essential tendency which leads to a certain +apparent contradiction in a woman's emotions. On the one hand, rooted in +the maternal instinct, we find pity, tenderness, and compassion; on the +other hand, rooted in the sexual instinct, we find a delight in roughness, +violence, pain, and danger, sometimes in herself, sometimes also in +others. The one impulse craves something innocent and helpless, to cherish +and protect; the other delights in the spectacle of recklessness, +audacity, sometimes even effrontery.[79] A woman is not perfectly happy in +her lover unless he can give at least some satisfaction to each of these +two opposite longings. + +The psychological satisfaction which women tend to feel in a certain +degree of pain in love is strictly co-ordinated with a physical fact. +Women possess a minor degree of sensibility in the sexual region. This +fact must not be misunderstood. On the one hand, it by no means begs the +question as to whether women's sensibility generally is greater or less +than that of men; this is a disputed question and the evidence is still +somewhat conflicting.[80] On the other hand, it also by no means involves +a less degree of specific sexual pleasure in women, for the tactile +sensibility of the sexual organs is no index to the specific sexual +sensibility of those organs when in a state of tumescence. The real +significance of the less tactile sensibility of the genital region in +women is to be found in parturition and the special liability of the +sexual region in women to injury.[81] The women who are less sensitive in +this respect would be better able and more willing to endure the risks of +childbirth, and would therefore tend to supplant those who were more +sensitive. But, as a by-product of this less degree of sensibility, we +have a condition in which physical irritation amounting even to pain may +become to normal women in the state of extreme tumescence a source of +pleasurable excitement, such as it would rarely be to normal men. + + To Calmann appear to be due the first carefully made observations + showing the minor sensibility of the genital tract in women. + (Adolf Calmann, "Sensibilituetsprufungen am weiblicken Genitale + nach forensichen Gesichtspunkten," _Archiv fuer Gynaekologie_, + 1898, p. 454.) He investigated the vagina, urethra, and anus in + eighteen women and found a great lack of sensibility, least + marked in anus, and most marked in vagina. [This distribution of + the insensitiveness alone indicates that it is due, as I have + suggested, to natural selection.] Sometimes a finger in the + vagina could not be felt at all. One woman, when a catheter was + introduced into the anus, said it might be the vagina or urethra, + but was certainly not the anus. (Calmann remarks that he was + careful to put his questions in an intelligible form.) The women + were only conscious of the urine being drawn off when they heard + the familiar sound of the stream or when the bladder was very + full; if the sound of the stream was deadened by a towel they + were quite unconscious that the bladder had been emptied. [In + confirmation of this statement I have noticed that in a lady + whose distended bladder it was necessary to empty by the catheter + shortly before the birth of her first child--but who had, indeed, + been partly under the influence of chloroform--there was no + consciousness of the artificial relief; she merely remarked that + she thought she could now relieve herself.] There was some sense + of temperature, but sense of locality, tactile sense, and + judgment of size were often widely erroneous. It is significant + that virgins were just as insensitive as married women or those + who had had children. Calmann's experiments appear to be + confirmed by the experiments of Marco Treves, of Turin, on the + thermoesthesiometry of mucous membranes, as reported to the Turin + International Congress of Physiology (and briefly noted in + _Nature_, November 21, 1901). Treves found that the sensitivity + of mucous membranes is always less than that of the skin. The + mucosa of the urethra and of the cervix uteri was quite incapable + of heat and cold sensations, and even the cautery excited only + slight, and that painful, sensation. + + In further illustration of this point reference may be made to + the not infrequent cases in which the whole process of + parturition and the enormous distention of tissues which it + involves proceed throughout in an almost or quite painless + manner. It is sufficient to refer to two cases reported in Paris + by Mace and briefly summarized in the _British Medical Journal_, + May 25, 1901. In the first the patient was a primipara 20 years + of age, and, until the dilatation of the cervix was complete and + efforts at expulsion had commenced, the uterine contractions were + quite painless. In the second case, the mother, aged 25, a + tripara, had previously had very rapid labors; she awoke in the + middle of the night without pains, but during micturition the + fetal head appeared at the vulva, and was soon born. + + Further illustration may be found in those cases in which severe + inflammatory processes may take place in the genital canal + without being noticed. Thus, Maxwell reports the case of a young + Chinese woman, certainly quite normal, in whom after the birth of + her first child the vagina became almost obliterated, yet beyond + slight occasional pain she noticed nothing wrong until the + husband found that penetration was impossible (_British Medical + Journal_, January 11, 1902, p. 78). The insensitiveness of the + vagina and its contrast, in this respect, with the penis--though + we are justified in regarding the penis as being, like organs of + special sense, relatively deficient in general sensibility--are + vividly presented in such an incident as the following, reported + a few years ago in America by Dr. G.W. Allen in the _Boston + Medical and Surgical Journal_: A man came under observation with + an edematous, inflamed penis. The wife, the night previous, on + advice of friends, had injected pure carbolic acid into the + vagina just previous to coitus. The husband, ignorant of the + fact, experienced untoward burning and smarting during and after + coitus, but thought little of it, and soon fell asleep. The next + morning there were large blisters on the penis, but it was no + longer painful. When seen by Dr. Allen the prepuce was retracted + and edematous, the whole penis was much swollen, and there were + large, perfectly raw surfaces on either side of the glans. + +In this connection we may well bring into line a remarkable group of +phenomena concerning which much evidence has now accumulated. I refer to +the use of various appliances, fixed in or around the penis, whether +permanently or temporarily during coitus, such appliance being employed at +the woman's instigation and solely in order to heighten her excitement in +congress. These appliances have their great center among the Indonesian +peoples (in Borneo, Java, Sumatra, the Malay peninsula, the Philippines, +etc.), thence extending in a modified form through China, to become, it +appears, considerably prevalent in Russia; I have also a note of their +appearance in India. They have another widely diffused center, through +which, however, they are more sparsely scattered, among the American +Indians of the northern and more especially of the southern continents. +Amerigo Vespucci and other early travelers noted the existence of some of +these appliances, and since Miklucho-Macleay carefully described them as +used in Borneo[82] their existence has been generally recognized. They are +usually regarded merely as ethnological curiosities. As such they would +not concern us here. Their real significance for us is that they +illustrate the comparative insensitiveness of the genital canal in women, +while at the same time they show that a certain amount of what we cannot +but regard as painful stimulation is craved by women, in order to heighten +tumescence and increase sexual pleasure, even though it can only by +procured by artificial methods. It is, of course, possible to argue that +in these cases we are not concerned with pain at all, but with a strong +stimulation that is felt as purely pleasurable. There can be no doubt, +however, that in the absence of sexual excitement this stimulation would +be felt as purely painful, and--in the light of our previous +discussion--we may, perhaps, fairly regard it as a painful stimulation +which is craved, not because it is itself pleasurable, but because it +heightens the highly pleasurable state of tumescence. + + Borneo, the geographical center of the Indonesian world, appears + also to be the district in which these instruments are most + popular. The _ampallang, palang, kambion_, or _sprit-sail yard_, + as it is variously termed, is a little rod of bone or metal + nearly two inches in length, rounded at the ends, and used by the + Kyans and Dyaks of Borneo. Before coitus it is inserted into a + transverse orifice in the penis, made by a painful and somewhat + dangerous operation and kept open by a quill. Two or more of + these instruments are occasionally worn. Sometimes little brushes + are attached to each end of the instrument. Another instrument, + used by the Dyaks, but said to have been borrowed from the + Malays, is the _palang anus_, which is a ring or collar of + plaited palm-fiber, furnished with a pair of stiffish horns of + the same wiry material; it is worn on the neck of the glans and + fits tight to the skin so as not to slip off. (Brooke Low, "The + Natives of Borneo," _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, + August and November, 1892, p. 45; the _ampallang_ and similar + instruments are described by Ploss and Bartels, _Das Weib_, Bd. + i, chapter xvii; also in _Untrodden Fields of Anthropology_, by a + French army surgeon, 1898, vol. ii, pp. 135-141; also Mantegazza, + _Gli Amori degli Uomini_, French translation, p. 83 et seq.) + Riedel informed Miklucho-Macleay that in the Celebes the Alfurus + fasten the eyelids of goats with the eyelashes round the corona + of the glans penis, and in Java a piece of goatskin is used in a + similar way, so as to form a hairy sheath (_Zeitschrift fuer + Ethnologie_, 1876, pp. 22-25), while among the Batta, of Sumatra, + Hagen found that small stones are inserted by an incision under + the skin of the penis (_Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1891, ht. 3, + p. 351). + + In the Malay peninsula Stevens found instruments somewhat similar + to the _ampallang_ still in use among some tribes, and among + others formerly in use. He thinks they were brought from Borneo. + (H.V. Stevens, _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1896, ht. 4, p. + 181.) Bloch, who brings forward other examples of similar devices + (_Beitraege zur AEtiologie der Psychopathia Sexualis_, pp. 56-58), + considers that the Australian mica operation may thus in part be + explained. + + Such instruments are not, however, entirely unknown in Europe. In + France, in the eighteenth century, it appears that rings, + sometimes set with hard knobs, and called "aides," were + occasionally used by men to heighten the pleasure of women in + intercourse. (Duehren, _Marquis de Sade_, 1901, p. 130.) In + Russia, according to Weissenberg, of Elizabethsgrad, it is not + uncommon to use elastic rings set with little teeth; these rings + are fastened around the base of the glans. (Weissenberg, + _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1893, ht. 2, p. 135.) This + instrument must have been brought to Russia from the East, for + Burton (in the notes to his _Arabian Nights_) mentions a + precisely similar instrument as in use in China. Somewhat similar + is the "Chinese hedgehog," a wreath of fine, soft feathers with + the quills solidly fastened by silver wire to a ring of the same + metal, which is slipped over the glans. In South America the + Araucanians of Argentina use a little horsehair brush fastened + around the penis; one of these is in the museum at La Plata; it + is said the custom may have been borrowed from the Patagonians; + these instruments, called _geskels_, are made by the women and + the workmanship is very delicate. (Lehmann-Nitsche, _Zeitschrift + fuer Ethnologie_, 1900, ht. 6, p. 491.) It is noteworthy that a + somewhat similar tuft of horsehair is also worn in Borneo. + (Breitenstein, _21 Jahre in India_, 1899, pt. i, p. 227.) Most of + the accounts state that the women attach great importance to the + gratification afforded by such instruments. In Borneo a modest + woman symbolically indicates to her lover the exact length of the + ampallang she would prefer by leaving at a particular spot a + cigarette of that length. Miklucho-Macleay considers that these + instruments were invented by women. Brooke Low remarks that "no + woman once habituated to its use will ever dream of permitting + her bedfellow to discontinue the practice of wearing it," and + Stevens states that at one time no woman would marry a man who + was not furnished with such an apparatus. It may be added that a + very similar appliance may be found in European countries + (especially Germany) in the use of a condom furnished with + irregularities, or a frill, in order to increase the woman's + excitement. It is not impossible to find evidence that, in + European countries, even in the absence of such instruments, the + craving which they gratify still exists in women. Thus, Mauriac + tells of a patient with vegetations on the glans who delayed + treatment because his mistress liked him so best (art. + "Vegetations," _Dictionnaire de Medecine et Chirurgie pratique_). + + It may seem that such impulses and such devices to gratify them + are altogether unnatural. This is not so. They have a zooelogical + basis and in many animals are embodied in the anatomical + structure. Many rodents, ruminants, and some of the carnivora + show natural developments of the penis closely resembling some of + those artificially adopted by man. Thus the guinea-pigs possess + two horny styles attached to the penis, while the glans of the + penis is covered with sharp spines. Some of the Caviidae also have + two sharp, horny saws at the side of the penis. The cat, the + rhinoceros, the tapir, and other animals possess projecting + structures on the penis, and some species of ruminants, such as + the sheep, the giraffe, and many antelopes, have, attached to the + penis, long filiform processes through which the urethra passes. + (F.H.A. Marshall, _The Physiology of Reproduction_, pp. 246-248.) + + We find, even in creatures so delicate and ethereal as the + butterflies, a whole armory of keen weapons for use in coitus. + These were described in detail in an elaborate and fully + illustrated memoir by P.H. Gosse ("On the Clasping Organs + Ancillary to Generation in Certain Groups of the Lepidoptera," + _Transactions of the Linnaean Society_, second series, vol. ii, + Zooelogy, 1882). These organs, which Gosse terms _harpes_ (or + grappling irons), are found in the Papilionidae and are very + beautiful and varied, taking the forms of projecting claws, + hooks, pikes, swords, knobs, and strange combinations of these, + commonly brought to a keen edge and then cut into sharp teeth. + + It is probable that all these structures serve to excite the + sexual apparatus of the female and to promote tumescence. + + To the careless observer there may seem to be something vicious + or perverted in such manifestations in man. That opinion becomes + very doubtful when we consider how these tendencies occur in + people living under natural conditions in widely separated parts + of the world. It becomes still further untenable if we are + justified in believing that the ancestors of men possessed + projecting epithelial appendages attached to the penis, and if we + accept the discovery by Friedenthal of the rudiment of these + appendages on the penis of the human fetus at an early stage + (Friedenthal, "Sonderformen der menschlichen Leibesbildung," + _Sexual-Probleme_, Feb., 1912, p. 129). In this case human + ingenuity would merely be seeking to supply an organ which nature + has ceased to furnish, although it is still in some cases needed, + especially among peoples whose aptitude for erethism has remained + at, or fallen to, a subhuman level. + +At first sight the connection between love and pain--the tendency of men +to delight in inflicting it and women in suffering it--seems strange and +inexplicable. It seems amazing that a tender and even independent woman +should maintain a passionate attachment to a man who subjects her to +physical and moral insults, and that a strong man, often intelligent, +reasonable, and even kind-hearted, should desire to subject to such +insults a woman whom he loves passionately and who has given him every +final proof of her own passion. In understanding such cases we have to +remember that it is only within limits that a woman really enjoys the +pain, discomfort, or subjection to which she submits. A little pain which +the man knows he can himself soothe, a little pain which the woman gladly +accepts as the sign and forerunner of pleasure--this degree of pain comes +within the normal limits of love and is rooted, as we have seen, in the +experience of the race. But when it is carried beyond these limits, though +it may still be tolerated because of the support it receives from its +biological basis, it is no longer enjoyed. The natural note has been too +violently struck, and the rhythm of love has ceased to be perfect. A woman +may desire to be forced, to be roughly forced, to be ravished away beyond +her own will. But all the time she only desires to be forced toward those +things which are essentially and profoundly agreeable to her. A man who +fails to realize this has made little progress in the art of love. "I like +being knocked about and made to do things I don't want to do," a woman +said, but she admitted, on being questioned, that she would not like to +have _much_ pain inflicted, and that she might not care to be made to do +important things she did not want to do. The story of Griselda's unbounded +submissiveness can scarcely be said to be psychologically right, though it +has its artistic rightness as an elaborate fantasia on this theme +justified by its conclusion. + + This point is further illustrated by the following passage from a + letter written by a lady: "Submission to the man's will is still, + and always must be, the prelude to pleasure, and the association + of ideas will probably always produce this much misunderstood + instinct. Now, I find, indirectly from other women and directly + from my own experience, that, when the point in dispute is very + important and the man exerts his authority, the desire to get + one's own way completely obliterates the sexual feeling, while, + conversely, in small things the sexual feeling obliterates the + desire to have one's own way. Where the two are nearly equal a + conflict between them ensues, and I can stand aside and wonder + which will get the best of it, though I encourage the sexual + feeling when possible, as, if the other conquers, it leaves a + sense of great mental irritation and physical discomfort. A man + should command in small things, as in nine cases out of ten this + will produce excitement. He should _advise_ in large matters, or + he may find either that he is unable to enforce his orders or + that he produces a feeling of dislike and annoyance he was far + from intending. Women imagine men must be stronger than + themselves to excite their passion. I disagree. A passionate man + has the best chance, for in him the primitive instincts are + strong. The wish to subdue the female is one of them, and in + small things he will exert his authority to make her feel his + power, while she knows that on a question of real importance she + has a good chance of getting her own way by working on his + greater susceptibility. Perhaps an illustration will show what I + mean. I was listening to the band and a girl and her _fiance_ + came up to occupy two seats near me. The girl sank into one seat, + but for some reason the man wished her to take the other. She + refused. He repeated his order twice, the second time so + peremptorily that she changed places, and I heard him say: 'I + don't think you heard what I said. I don't expect to give an + order three times.' + + "This little scene interested me, and I afterward asked the girl + the following questions:-- + + "'Had you any reason for taking one chair more than the other?' + + "'No.' + + "'Did Mr. ----'s insistence on your changing give you any + pleasure?' + + "'Yes' (after a little hesitation). + + "'Why?' + + "'I don't know.' + + "'Would it have done so if you had particularly wished to sit in + that chair; if, for instance, you had had a boil on your cheek + and wished to turn that side away from him?' + + "'No; certainly not. The worry of thinking he was looking at it + would have made me too cross to feel pleased.' + + "Does this explain what I mean? The occasion, by the way, need + not be really important, but, as in this imaginary case of the + boil, if it _seems important_ to the woman, irritation will + outweigh the physical sensation." + +I am well aware that in thus asserting a certain tendency in women to +delight in suffering pain--however careful and qualified the position I +have taken--many estimable people will cry out that I am degrading a whole +sex and generally supporting the "subjection of women." But the day for +academic discussion concerning the "subjection of women" has gone by. The +tendency I have sought to make clear is too well established by the +experience of normal and typical women--however numerous the exceptions +may be--to be called in question. I would point out to those who would +deprecate the influence of such facts in relation to social progress that +nothing is gained by regarding women as simply men of smaller growth. They +are not so; they have the laws of their own nature; their development must +be along their own lines, and not along masculine lines. It is as true now +as in Bacon's day that we only learn to command nature by obeying her. To +ignore facts is to court disappointment in our measure of progress. The +particular fact with which we have here come in contact is very vital and +radical, and most subtle in its influence. It is foolish to ignore it; we +must allow for its existence. We can neither attain a sane view of life +nor a sane social legislation of life unless we possess a just and +accurate knowledge of the fundamental instincts upon which life is built. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[61] Various mammals, carried away by the reckless fury of the sexual +impulse, are apt to ill-treat their females (R. Mueller, _Sexualbiologie_, +p. 123). This treatment is, however, usually only an incident of +courtship, the result of excess of ardor. "The chaffinches and +saffron-finches (_Fringella_ and _Sycalis_) are very rough wooers," says +A.G. Butler (_Zooelogist_, 1902, p. 241); "they sing vociferously, and +chase their hens violently, knocking them over in their flight, pursuing +and savagely pecking them even on the ground; but when once the hens +become submissive, the males change their tactics, and become for the time +model husbands, feeding their wives from their crop, and assisting in +rearing the young." + +[62] Cf. A.C. Haddon, _Head Hunters_, p. 107. + +[63] Marro considers that there may be transference of emotion,--the +impulse of violence generated in the male by his rivals being turned +against his partner,--according to a tendency noted by Sully and +illustrated by Ribot in his _Psychology of the Emotions_, part i, chapter +xii. + +[64] Several writers have found in the facts of primitive animal courtship +the explanation of the connection between love and pain. Thus, +Krafft-Ebing (_Psychopathia Sexualis_, English translation of tenth German +edition, p. 80) briefly notes that outbreaks of sadism are possibly +atavistic. Marro (_La Puberta_, 1898, p. 219 et seq.) has some suggestive +pages on this subject. It would appear that this explanation was vaguely +outlined by Jaeger. Laserre, in a Bordeaux thesis mentioned by Fere, has +argued in the same sense. Fere (_L'Instinct Sexuel_, p. 134), on grounds +that are scarcely sufficient, regards this explanation as merely a +superficial analogy. But it is certainly not a complete explanation. + +[65] Schaefer (_Jahrbuecher fuer Psychologie_, Bd. ii, p. 128, and quoted +by Krafft-Ebing in _Psychopathia Sexualis_), in connection with a case in +which sexual excitement was produced by the sight of battles or of +paintings of them, remarks: "The pleasure of battle and murder is so +predominantly an attribute of the male sex throughout the animal kingdom +that there can be no question about the close connection between this side +of the masculine character and male sexuality. I believe that I can show +by observation that in men who are absolutely normal, mentally and +physically, the first indefinite and incomprehensible precursors of sexual +excitement may be induced by reading exciting scenes of chase and war. +These give rise to unconscious longings for a kind of satisfaction in +warlike games (wrestling, etc.) which express the fundamental sexual +impulse to close and complete contact with a companion, with a secondary +more or less clearly defined thought of conquest." Groos (_Spiele der +Menschen_, 1899, p. 232) also thinks there is more or less truth in this +suggestion of a subconscious sexual element in the playful wrestling +combats of boys. Freud considers (_Drei Abhandlungen zur Sexualtheorie_, +p. 49) that the tendency to sexual excitement through muscular activity in +wrestling, etc., is one of the roots of sadism. I have been told of normal +men who feel a conscious pleasure of this kind when lifted in games, as +may happen, for instance, in football. It may be added that in some parts +of the world the suitor has to throw the girl in a wrestling-bout in order +to secure her hand. + +[66] A minor manifestation of this tendency, appearing even in quite +normal and well-conditioned individuals, is the impulse among boys at and +after puberty to take pleasure in persecuting and hurting lower animals or +their own young companions. Some youths display a diabolical enjoyment and +ingenuity in torturing sensitive juniors, and even a boy who is otherwise +kindly and considerate may find enjoyment in deliberately mutilating a +frog. In some cases, in boys and youths who have no true sadistic impulse +and are not usually cruel, this infliction of torture on a lower animal +produces an erection, though not necessarily any pleasant sexual +sensations. + +[67] Marro, _La Puberta_, 1898, p. 223; Garnier, "La Criminalite +Juvenile," _Comptes-rendus Congres Internationale d'Anthropologie +Criminelle_, Amsterdam, 1901, p. 296; _Archivio di Psichiatria_, 1899, +fasc. v-vi, p. 572. + +[68] Bk. ii, ch. ii. + +[69] Herbert Spencer, _Principles of Sociology_, 1876, vol. i, p. 651. + +[70] Westermarck, _Human Marriage_, p. 388. Grosse is of the same opinion; +he considers also that the mock-capture is often an imitation, due to +admiration, of real capture; he does not believe that the latter has ever +been a form of marriage recognized by custom and law, but only "an +occasional and punishable act of violence." (_Die Formen der Familie_, pp. +105-7.) This position is too extreme. + +[71] Ernest Crawley, _The Mystic Rose_, 1902, p. 350 et seq. Van Gennep +rightly remarks that we cannot correctly say that the woman is abducted +from "her sex," but only from her "sexual society." + +[72] A. Van Gennep (_Rites de Passage_, 1909, pp. 175-186) has put forward +a third theory, though also of a psychological character, according to +which the "capture" is a rite indicating the separation of the young girl +from the special societies of her childhood. Gennep regards this rite as +one of a vast group of "rites of passage," which come into action whenever +a person changes his social or natural environment. + +[73] Fere (_L'Instinct Sexuel_, p. 133) appears to regard the +satisfaction, based on the sentiment of personal power, which may be +experienced in the suffering and subjection of a victim as an adequate +explanation of the association of pain with love. This I can scarcely +admit. It is a factor in the emotional attitude, but when it only exists +in the sexual sphere it is reasonable to base this attitude largely on the +still more fundamental biological attitude of the male toward the female +in the process of courtship. Fere regards this biological element as +merely a superficial analogy, on the ground that an act of cruelty may +become an equivalent of coitus. But a sexual perversion is quite commonly +constituted by the selection and magnification of a single moment in the +normal sexual process. + +[74] The process may, however, be quite conscious. Thus, a correspondent +tells me that he not only finds sexual pleasure in cruelty toward the +woman he loves, but that he regards this as an essential element. He is +convinced that it gives the woman pleasure, and that it is possible to +distinguish by gesture, inflection of voice, etc., an hysterical, assumed, +or imagined feeling of pain from real pain. He would not wish to give real +pain, and would regard that as sadism. + +[75] De Sade had already made the same remark, while Duchenne, of +Boulogne, pointed out that the facial expressions of sexual passion and of +cruelty are similar. + +[76] Kryptadia, vol. vi, p. 208. + +[77] Daumas, _Chevaux de Sahara_, p. 49. + +[78] See in vol. iv of these _Studies_ ("Sexual Selection in Man"), +Appendix A, on "The Origins of the Kiss." + +[79] De Stendhal (_De l'Amour_) mentions that when in London he was on +terms of friendship with an English actress who was the mistress of a +wealthy colonel, but privately had another lover. One day the colonel +arrived when the other man was present. "This gentleman has called about +the pony I want to sell," said the actress. "I have come for a very +different purpose," said the little man, and thus aroused a love which was +beginning to languish. + +[80] See Havelock Ellis, _Man and Woman_, chapter vi, "The Senses." + +[81] This liability is emphasized by Adler, _Die Mangelhafte +Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes_, p. 125. + +[82] _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, Bd. viii, 1876, pp. 22-28. + + + + +II. + +The Definition of Sadism--De Sade--Masochism to some Extent +Normal--Sacher-Masoch--No Real Line of Demarcation between Sadism and +Masochism--Algolagnia includes both Groups of Manifestations--The +Love-bite as a Bridge from Normal Phenomena to Algolagnia--The Fascination +of Blood--The Most Extreme Perversions are Linked on to Normal Phenomena. + + +We thus see that there are here two separate groups of feelings: one, in +the masculine line, which delights in displaying force and often inflicts +pain or the simulacrum of pain; the other, in the feminine line, which +delights in submitting to that force, and even finds pleasure in a slight +amount of pain, or the idea of pain, when associated with the experiences +of love. We see, also, that these two groups of feelings are +complementary. Within the limits consistent with normal and healthy life, +what men are impelled to give women love to receive. So that we need not +unduly deprecate the "cruelty" of men within these limits, nor unduly +commiserate the women who are subjected to it. + +Such a conclusion, however, as we have also seen, only holds good within +those normal limits which an attempt has here been made to determine. The +phenomena we have been considering are strictly normal phenomena, having +their basis in the conditions of tumescence and detumescence in animal and +primitive human courtship. At one point, however, when discussing the +phenomena of the love-bite, I referred to the facts which indicate how +this purely normal manifestation yet insensibly passes over into the +region of the morbid. It is an instance that enables us to realize how +even the most terrible and repugnant sexual perversions are still +demonstrably linked on to phenomena that are fundamentally normal. The +love-bite may be said to give us the key to that perverse impulse which +has been commonly called sadism. + +There is some difference of opinion as to how "sadism" may be best +defined. Perhaps the simplest and most usual definition is that of +Krafft-Ebing, as sexual emotion associated with the wish to inflict pain +and use violence, or, as he elsewhere expresses it, "the impulse to cruel +and violent treatment of the opposite sex, and the coloring of the idea of +such acts with lustful feeling."[83] A more complete definition is that of +Moll, who describes sadism as a condition in which "the sexual impulse +consists in the tendency to strike, ill-use, and humiliate the beloved +person."[84] This definition has the advantage of bringing in the element +of moral pain. A further extension is made in Fere's definition as "the +need of association of violence and cruelty with sexual enjoyment, such +violence or cruelty not being necessarily exerted by the person himself +who seeks sexual pleasure in this association."[85] Garnier's definition, +while comprising all these points, further allows for the fact that a +certain degree of sadism may be regarded as normal. "Pathological sadism," +he states, "is an impulsive and obsessing sexual perversion characterized +by a close connection between suffering inflicted or mentally represented +and the sexual orgasm, without this necessary and sufficing condition +frigidity usually remaining absolute."[86] It must be added that these +definitions are very incomplete if by "sadism" we are to understand the +special sexual perversions which are displayed in De Sade's novels. Iwan +Bloch ("Eugen Duehren"), in the course of his book on De Sade, has +attempted a definition strictly on this basis, and, as will be seen, it is +necessary to make it very elaborate: "A connection, whether intentionally +sought or offered by chance, of sexual excitement and sexual enjoyment +with the real or only symbolic (ideal, illusionary) appearance of +frightful and shocking events, destructive occurrences and practices, +which threaten or destroy the life, health, and property of man and other +living creatures, and threaten and interrupt the continuity of inanimate +objects, whereby the person who from such occurrences obtains sexual +enjoyment may either himself be the direct cause, or cause them to take +place by means of other persons, or merely be the spectator, or, finally, +be, voluntarily or involuntarily, the object against which these processes +are directed."[87] This definition of sadism as found in De Sade's works +is thus, more especially by its final clause, a very much wider conception +than the usual definition. + + Donatien Alphonse Francois, Marquis De Sade, was born in 1740 at + Paris in the house of the great Conde. He belonged to a very + noble, ancient, and distinguished Provencal family; Petrarch's + Laura, who married a De Sade, was one of his ancestors, and the + family had cultivated both arms and letters with success. He was, + according to Lacroix, "an adorable youth whose delicately pale + and dusky face, lighted up by two large black [according to + another account blue] eyes, already bore the languorous imprint + of the vice which was to corrupt his whole being"; his voice was + "drawling and caressing"; his gait had "a softly feminine grace." + Unfortunately there is no authentic portrait of him. His early + life is sketched in letter iv of his _Aline et Valcourt_. On + leaving the College-Louis-le-Grand he became a cavalry officer + and went through the Seven Years' War in Germany. There can be + little doubt that the experiences of his military life, working + on a femininely vicious temperament, had much to do with the + development of his perversion. He appears to have got into + numerous scrapes, of which the details are unknown, and his + father sought to marry him to the daughter of an aristocratic + friend of his own, a noble and amiable girl of 20. It so chanced + that when young De Sade first went to the house of his future + wife only her younger sister, a girl of 13, was at home; with her + he at once fell in love and his love was reciprocated; they were + both musical enthusiasts, and she had a beautiful voice. The + parents insisted on carrying out the original scheme of marriage. + De Sade's wife loved him, and, in spite of everything, served his + interests with Griselda-like devotion; she was, Ginisty remarks, + a saint, a saint of conjugal life; but her love was from the + first only requited with repulsion, contempt, and suspicion. + There were, however, children of the marriage; the career of the + eldest--an estimable young man who went into the army and also + had artistic ability, but otherwise had no community of tastes + with his father--has been sketched by Paul Ginisty, who has also + edited the letters of the Marquise. De Sade's passion for the + younger sister continued (he idealized her as Juliette), though + she was placed in a convent beyond his reach, and at a much later + period he eloped with her and spent perhaps the happiest period + of his life, soon terminated by her death. It is evident that + this unhappy marriage was decisive in determining De Sade's + career; he at once threw himself recklessly into every form of + dissipation, spending his health and his substance sometimes + among refinedly debauched nobles and sometimes among coarsely + debauched lackeys. He was, however, always something of an + artist, something of a student, something of a philosopher, and + at an early period he began to write, apparently at the age of + 23. It was at this age, and only a few months after his marriage, + that on account of some excess he was for a time confined in + Vincennes. He was destined to spend 27 years of his life in + prisons, if we include the 13 years which in old age he passed in + the asylum at Charenton. His actual offenses were by no means so + terrible as those he loved to dwell on in imagination, and for + the most part they have been greatly exaggerated. His most + extreme offenses were the indecent and forcible flagellation in + 1768 of a young woman, Rosa Keller, who had accosted him in the + street for alms, and whom he induced by false pretenses to come + to his house, and the administration of aphrodisiacal bonbons to + some prostitutes at Marseilles. It is owing to the fact that the + prime of his manhood was spent in prisons that De Sade fell back + on dreaming, study, and novel-writing. Shut out from real life, + he solaced his imagination with the perverted visions--to a very + large extent, however, founded on knowledge of the real facts of + perverted life in his time--which he has recorded in _Justine_ + (1781); _Les 120 Journees de Sodome ou l'Ecole du Libertinage_ + (1785); _Aline et Valcour ou le Roman Philosophique_ (1788); + _Juliette_ (1796); _La Philosophie dans le Boudoir_ (1795). These + books constitute a sort of encyclopedia of sexual perversions, an + eighteenth century _Psychopathia Sexualis_, and embody, at the + same time, a philosophy. He was the first, Bloch remarks, who + realized the immense importance of the sexual question. His + general attitude may be illustrated by the following passage (as + quoted by Lacassagne): "If there are beings in the world whose + acts shock all accepted prejudices, we must not preach at them or + punish them ... because their bizarre tastes no more depend upon + themselves than it depends on you whether you are witty or + stupid, well made or hump-backed.... What would become of your + laws, your morality, your religion, your gallows, your Paradise, + your gods, your hell, if it were shown that such and such + fluids, such fibers, or a certain acridity in the blood, or in + the animal spirits, alone suffice to make a man the object of + your punishments or your rewards?" He was enormously well read, + Bloch points out, and his interest extended to every field of + literature: _belles lettres_, philosophy, theology, politics, + sociology, ethnology, mythology, and history. Perhaps his + favorite reading was travels. He was minutely familiar with the + bible, though his attitude was extremely critical. His favorite + philosopher was Lamettrie, whom he very frequently quotes, and he + had carefully studied Machiavelli. + + De Sade had foreseen the Revolution; he was an ardent admirer of + Marat, and at this period he entered into public life as a mild, + gentle, rather bald and gray-haired person. Many scenes of the + Revolution were the embodiment in real life of De Sade's + imagination; such, for instance, were the barbaric tortures + inflicted, at the instigation of Theroigne de Mericourt, on La + Belle Bouquetiere. Yet De Sade played a very peaceful part in the + events of that time, chiefly as a philanthropist, spending much + of his time in the hospitals. He saved his parents-in-law from + the scaffold, although they had always been hostile to him, and + by his moderation aroused the suspicions of the revolutionary + party, and was again imprisoned. Later he wrote a pamphlet + against Napoleon, who never forgave him and had him shut up in + Charenton as a lunatic; it was a not unusual method at that time + of disposing of persons whom it was wished to put out of the way, + and, notwithstanding De Sade's organically abnormal temperament, + there is no reason to regard him as actually insane. + Royer-Collard, an eminent alienist of that period, then at the + head of Charenton, declared De Sade to be sane, and his detailed + report is still extant. Other specialists were of the same + opinion. Bloch, who quotes these opinions (_Neue Forschungen_, + etc., p. 370), says that the only possible conclusion is that De + Sade was sane, but neurasthenic, and Eulenburg also concludes + that he cannot be regarded as insane, although he was highly + degenerate. In the asylum he amused himself by organizing a + theater. Lacroix, many years later, questioning old people who + had known him, was surprised to find that even in the memory of + most virtuous and respectable persons he lived merely as an + "_aimable mauvais sujet_." It is noteworthy that De Sade aroused, + in a singular degree, the love and devotion of women,--whether or + not we may regard this as evidence of the fascination exerted on + women by cruelty. Janin remarks that he had seen many pretty + little letters written by young and charming women of the great + world, begging for the release of the "_pauvre marquis_." + + Sardou, the dramatist, has stated that in 1855 he visited the + Bicetre and met an old gardener who had known De Sade during his + reclusion there. He told that one of the marquis's amusements + was to procure baskets of the most beautiful and expensive roses; + he would then sit on a footstool by a dirty streamlet which ran + through the courtyard, and would take the roses, one by one, gaze + at them, smell them with a voluptuous expression, soak them in + the muddy water, and fling them away, laughing as he did so. He + died on the 2d of December, 1814, at the age of 74. He was almost + blind, and had long been a martyr to gout, asthma, and an + affection of the stomach. It was his wish that acorns should be + planted over his grave and his memory effaced. At a later period + his skull was examined by a phrenologist, who found it small and + well formed; "one would take it at first for a woman's head." The + skull belonged to Dr. Londe, but about the middle of the century + it was stolen by a doctor who conveyed it to England, where it + may possibly yet be found. [The foregoing account is mainly + founded on Paul Lacroix, _Revue de Paris_, 1837, and _Curiosites + de l'Histoire de France_, second series, _Proces Celebres_, p. + 225; Janin, _Revue de Paris_, 1834; Eugen Duehren (Iwan Bloch), + _Der Marquis de Sade und Seine Zeit_, third edition, 1901; id., + _Neue Forschungen ueber den Marquis de Sade und Seine Zeit_, 1904; + Lacassagne, _Vacher l'Eventreur et les Crimes Sadiques_, 1899; + Paul Ginisty, _La Marquise de Sade_, 1901.] + +The attempt to define sadism strictly and penetrate to its roots in De +Sade's personal temperament reveals a certain weakness in the current +conception of this sexual perversion. It is not, as we might infer, both +from the definition usually given and from its probable biological +heredity from primitive times, a perversion due to excessive masculinity. +The strong man is more apt to be tender than cruel, or at all events knows +how to restrain within bounds any impulse to cruelty; the most extreme and +elaborate forms of sadism (putting aside such as are associated with a +considerable degree of imbecility) are more apt to be allied with a +somewhat feminine organization. Montaigne, indeed, observed long ago that +cruelty is usually accompanied by feminine softness. + + In the same way it is a mistake to suppose that the very feminine + woman is not capable of sadistic tendencies. Even if we take into + account the primitive animal conditions of combat, the male must + suffer as well as inflict pain, and the female must not only + experience subjection to the male, but also share in the emotions + of her partner's victory over his rivals. As bearing on these + points, I may quote the following remarks written by a lady: "It + is said that, the weaker and more feminine a woman is, the + greater the subjection she likes. I don't think it has anything + at all to do with the general character, but depends entirely on + whether the feeling of constraint and helplessness affects her + sexually. In men I have several times noticed that those who were + most desirous of subjection to the women they loved had, in + ordinary life, very strong and determined characters. I know of + others, too, who with very weak characters are very imperious + toward the women they care for. Among women I have often been + surprised to see how a strong, determined woman will give way to + a man she loves, and how tenacious of her own will may be some + fragile, clinging creature who in daily life seems quite unable + to act on her own responsibility. A certain amount of passivity, + a desire to have their emotions worked on, seems to me, so far as + my small experience goes, very common among ordinary, presumably + normal men. A good deal of stress is laid on femininity as an + attraction in a woman, and this may be so to very strong natures, + but, so far as I have seen, the women who obtain extraordinary + empire over men are those with a certain _virility_ in their + character and passions. If with this virility they combine a + fragility or childishness of appearance which appeals to a man in + another way at the same time, they appear to be irresistible." + + I have noted some of the feminine traits in De Sade's temperament + and appearance. The same may often be noted in sadists whose + crimes were very much more serious and brutal than those of De + Sade. A man who stabbed women in the streets at St. Louis was a + waiter with a high-pitched, effeminate voice and boyish + appearance. Reidel, the sadistic murderer, was timid, modest, and + delicate; he was too shy to urinate in the presence of other + people. A sadistic zooephilist, described by A. Marie, who + attempted to strangle a woman fellow-worker, had always been very + timid, blushed with much facility, could not look even children + in the eyes, or urinate in the presence of another person, or + make sexual advances to women. + + Kiernan and Moyer are inclined to connect the modesty and + timidity of sadists with a disgust for normal coitus. They were + called upon to examine an inverted married woman who had + inflicted several hundred wounds, mostly superficial, with forks, + scissors, etc., on the genital organs and other parts of a girl + whom she had adopted from a "Home." This woman was very prominent + in church and social matters in the city in which she lived, so + that many clergymen and local persons of importance testified to + her chaste, modest, and even prudish character; she was found to + be sane at the time of the acts. (Moyer, _Alienist and + Neurologist_, May, 1907, and private letter from Dr. Kiernan.) + +We are thus led to another sexual perversion, which is usually considered +the opposite of sadism. Masochism is commonly regarded as a peculiarly +feminine sexual perversion, in women, indeed, as normal in some degree, +and in man as a sort of inversion of the normal masculine emotional +attitude, but this view of the matter is not altogether justified, for +definite and pronounced masochism seems to be much rarer in women than +sadism.[88] Krafft-Ebing, whose treatment of this phenomenon is, perhaps, +his most valuable and original contribution to sexual psychology, has +dealt very fully with the matter and brought forward many cases. He thus +defines this perversion: "By masochism I understand a peculiar perversion +of the psychical _vita sexualis_ in which the individual affected, in +sexual feeling and thought, is controlled by the idea of being completely +and unconditionally subject to the will of a person of the opposite sex, +of being treated by this person as by a master, humiliated and abused. +This idea is colored by sexual feeling; the masochist lives in fancies in +which he creates situations of this kind, and he often attempts to realize +them."[89] + +In a minor degree, not amounting to a complete perversion of the sexual +instinct, this sentiment of abnegation, the desire to be even physically +subjected to the adored woman, cannot be regarded as abnormal. More than +two centuries before Krafft-Ebing appeared, Robert Burton, who was no mean +psychologist, dilated on the fact that love is a kind of slavery. "They +are commonly slaves," he wrote of lovers, "captives, voluntary servants; +_amator amicae mancipium_, as Castilio terms him; his mistress's servant, +her drudge, prisoner, bondman, what not?"[90] Before Burton's time the +legend of the erotic servitude of Aristotle was widely spread in Europe, +and pictures exist of the venerable philosopher on all fours ridden by a +woman with a whip.[91] In classic times various masochistic phenomena are +noted with approval by Ovid. It has been pointed out by Moll[92] that +there are traces of masochistic feeling in some of Goethe's poems, +especially "Lilis Park" and "Erwin und Elmire." Similar traces have been +found in the poems of Heine, Platen, Hamerling, and many other poets.[93] +The poetry of the people is also said to contain many such traces. It may, +indeed, be said that passion in its more lyric exaltations almost +necessarily involves some resort to masochistic expression. A popular lady +novelist in a novel written many years ago represents her hero, a robust +soldier, imploring the lady of his love, in a moment of passionate +exaltation, to trample on him, certainly without any wish to suggest +sexual perversion. If it is true that the Antonio of Otway's _Venice +Preserved_ is a caricature of Shaftesbury, then it would appear that one +of the greatest of English statesmen was supposed to exhibit very +pronounced and characteristic masochistic tendencies; and in more recent +days masochistic expressions have been noted as occurring in the +love-letters of so emphatically virile a statesman as Bismarck. + +Thus a minor degree of the masochistic tendency may be said to be fairly +common, while its more pronounced manifestations are more common than +pronounced sadism.[94] It very frequently affects persons of a sensitive, +refined, and artistic temperament. It may even be said that this tendency +is in the line of civilization. Krafft-Ebing points out that some of the +most delicate and romantic love-episodes of the Middle Ages are distinctly +colored by masochistic emotion.[95] The increasing tendency to masochism +with increasing civilization becomes explicable if we accept Colin Scott's +"secondary law of courting" as accessory to the primary law that the male +is active, and the female passive and imaginatively attentive to the +states of the excited male. According to the secondary law, "the female +develops a superadded activity, the male becoming relatively passive and +imaginatively attentive to the psychical and bodily states of the +female."[96] We may probably agree that this "secondary law of courting" +does really represent a tendency of love in individuals of complex and +sensitive nature, and the outcome of such a receptive attitude on the part +of the male is undoubtedly in well-marked cases a desire of submission to +the female's will, and a craving to experience in some physical or psychic +form, not necessarily painful, the manifestations of her activity. + +When we turn from vague and unpronounced forms of the masochistic tendency +to the more definite forms in which it becomes an unquestionable sexual +perversion, we find a very eminent and fairly typical example in Rousseau, +an example all the more interesting because here the subject has himself +portrayed his perversion in his famous _Confessions_. It is, however, the +name of a less eminent author, the Austrian novelist, Sacher-Masoch, which +has become identified with the perversion through the fact that +Krafft-Ebing fixed upon it as furnishing a convenient counterpart to the +term "sadism." It is on the strength of a considerable number of his +novels and stories, more especially of _Die Venus im Pelz_, that +Krafft-Ebing took the scarcely warrantable liberty of identifying his +name, while yet living, with a sexual perversion. + + Sacher-Masoch's biography has been written with intimate + knowledge and much candor by C.F. von Schlichtegroll + (_Sacher-Masoch und der Masochismus_, 1901) and, more indirectly, + by his first wife Wanda von Sacher-Masoch in her autobiography + (_Meine Lebensbeichte_, 1906; French translation, _Confession de + ma Vie_, 1907). Schlichtegroll's book is written with a somewhat + undue attempt to exalt his hero and to attribute his misfortunes + to his first wife. The autobiography of the latter, however, + enables us to form a more complete picture of Sacher-Masoch's + life, for, while his wife by no means spares herself, she clearly + shows that Sacher-Masoch was the victim of his own abnormal + temperament, and she presents both the sensitive, refined, + exalted, and generous aspects of his nature, and his morbid, + imaginative, vain aspects. + + Leopold von Sacher-Masoch was born in 1836 at Lemberg in Galicia. + He was of Spanish, German, and more especially Slavonic race. The + founder of the family may be said to be a certain Don Matthias + Sacher, a young Spanish nobleman, in the sixteenth century, who + settled in Prague. The novelist's father was director of police + in Lemberg and married Charlotte von Masoch, a Little Russian + lady of noble birth. The novelist, the eldest child of this + union, was not born until after nine years of marriage, and in + infancy was so delicate that he was not expected to survive. He + began to improve, however, when his mother gave him to be suckled + to a robust Russian peasant woman, from whom, as he said later, + he gained not only health, but "his soul"; from her he learned + all the strange and melancholy legends of her people and a love + of the Little Russians which never left him. While still a child + young Sacher-Masoch was in the midst of the bloody scenes of the + revolution which culminated in 1848. When he was 12 the family + migrated to Prague, and the boy, though precocious in his + development, then first learned the German language, of which he + attained so fine a mastery. At a very early age he had found the + atmosphere, and even some of the most characteristic elements, of + the peculiar types which mark his work as a novelist. + + It is interesting to trace the germinal elements of those + peculiarities which so strongly affected his imagination on the + sexual side. As a child, he was greatly attracted by + representations of cruelty; he loved to gaze at pictures of + executions, the legends of martyrs were his favorite reading, and + with the onset of puberty he regularly dreamed that he was + fettered and in the power of a cruel woman who tortured him. It + has been said by an anonymous author that the women of Galicia + either rule their husbands entirely and make them their slaves or + themselves sink to be the wretchedest of slaves. At the age of + 10, according to Schlichtegroll's narrative, the child Leopold + witnessed a scene in which a woman of the former kind, a certain + Countess Xenobia X., a relative of his own on the paternal side, + played the chief part, and this scene left an undying impress on + his imagination. The Countess was a beautiful but wanton + creature, and the child adored her, impressed alike by her beauty + and the costly furs she wore. She accepted his devotion and + little services and would sometimes allow him to assist her in + dressing; on one occasion, as he was kneeling before her to put + on her ermine slippers, he kissed her feet; she smiled and gave + him a kick which filled him with pleasure. Not long afterward + occurred the episode which so profoundly affected his + imagination. He was playing with his sisters at hide-and-seek and + had carefully hidden himself behind the dresses on a clothes-rail + in the Countess's bedroom. At this moment the Countess suddenly + entered the house and ascended the stairs, followed by a lover, + and the child, who dared not betray his presence, saw the + countess sink down on a sofa and begin to caress her lover. But a + few moments later the husband, accompanied by two friends, dashed + into the room. Before, however, he could decide which of the + lovers to turn against the Countess had risen and struck him so + powerful a blow in the face with her fist that he fell back + streaming with blood. She then seized a whip, drove all three men + out of the room, and in the confusion the lover slipped away. At + this moment the clothes-rail fell and the child, the involuntary + witness of the scene, was revealed to the Countess, who now fell + on him in anger, threw him to the ground, pressed her knee on his + shoulder, and struck him unmercifully. The pain was great, and + yet he was conscious of a strange pleasure. While this + castigation was proceeding the Count returned, no longer in a + rage, but meek and humble as a slave, and kneeled down before her + to beg forgiveness. As the boy escaped he saw her kick her + husband. The child could not resist the temptation to return to + the spot; the door was closed and he could see nothing, but he + heard the sound of the whip and the groans of the Count beneath + his wife's blows. + + It is unnecessary to insist that in this scene, acting on a + highly sensitive and somewhat peculiar child, we have the key to + the emotional attitude which affected so much of Sacher-Masoch's + work. As his biographer remarks, woman became to him, during a + considerable part of his life, a creature at once to be loved and + hated, a being whose beauty and brutality enabled her to set her + foot at will on the necks of men, and in the heroine of his first + important novel, the _Emissaer_, dealing with the Polish + Revolution, he embodied the contradictory personality of Countess + Xenobia. Even the whip and the fur garments, Sacher-Masoch's + favorite emotional symbols, find their explanation in this early + episode. He was accustomed to say of an attractive woman: "I + should like to see her in furs," and, of an unattractive woman: + "I could not imagine her in furs." His writing-paper at one time + was adorned with the figure of a woman in Russian Boyar costume, + her cloak lined with ermine, and brandishing a scourge. On his + walls he liked to have pictures of women in furs, of the kind of + which there is so magnificent an example by Rubens in the gallery + at Munich. He would even keep a woman's fur cloak on an ottoman + in his study and stroke it from time to time, finding that his + brain thus received the same kind of stimulation as Schiller + found in the odor of rotten apples.[97] + + At the age of 13, in the revolution of 1848, young Sacher-Masoch + received his baptism of fire; carried away in the popular + movement, he helped to defend the barricades together with a + young lady, a relative of his family, an amazon with a pistol in + her girdle, such as later he loved to depict. This episode was, + however, but a brief interruption of his education; he pursued + his studies with brilliance, and on the higher side his education + was aided by his father's esthetic tastes. Amateur theatricals + were in special favor at his home, and here even the serious + plays of Goethe and Gogol were performed, thus helping to train + and direct the boy's taste. It is, perhaps, however, significant + that it was a tragic event which, at the age of 16, first brought + to him the full realization of life and the consciousness of his + own power. This was the sudden death of his favorite sister. He + became serious and quiet, and always regarded this grief as a + turning-point in his life. + + At the Universities of Prague and Graz he studied with such zeal + that when only 19 he took his doctor's degree in law and shortly + afterward became a _privatdocent_ for German history at Graz. + Gradually, however, the charms of literature asserted themselves + definitely, and he soon abandoned teaching. He took part, + however, in the war of 1866 in Italy, and at the battle of + Solferino he was decorated on the field for bravery in action by + the Austrian field-marshal. These incidents, however, had little + disturbing influence on Sacher-Masoch's literary career, and he + was gradually acquiring a European reputation by his novels and + stories. + + A far more seriously disturbing influence had already begun to be + exerted on his life by a series of love-episodes. Some of these + were of slight and ephemeral character; some were a source of + unalloyed happiness, all the more so if there was an element of + extravagance to appeal to his Quixotic nature. He always longed + to give a dramatic and romantic character to his life, his wife + says, and he spent some blissful days on an occasion when he ran + away to Florence with a Russian princess as her private + secretary. Most often these episodes culminated in deception and + misery. It was after a relationship of this kind from which he + could not free himself for four years that he wrote _Die + Geschiedene Frau, Passionsgeschichte eines Idealisten_, putting + into it much of his own personal history. At one time he was + engaged to a sweet and charming young girl. Then it was that he + met a young woman at Graz, Laura Ruemelin, 27 years of age, + engaged as a glove-maker, and living with her mother. Though of + poor parentage, with little or no knowledge of the world, she had + great natural ability and intelligence. Schlichtegroll represents + her as spontaneously engaging in a mysterious intrigue with the + novelist. Her own detailed narrative renders the circumstances + more intelligible. She approached Sacher-Masoch by letter, + adopting for disguise the name of his heroine Wanda von Dunajev, + in order to recover possession of some compromising letters which + had been written to him, as a joke, by a friend of hers. + Sacher-Masoch insisted on seeing his correspondent before + returning the letters, and with his eager thirst for romantic + adventure he imagined that she was a married woman of the + aristocratic world, probably a Russian countess, whose simple + costume was a disguise. Not anxious to reveal the prosaic facts, + she humored him in his imaginations and a web of mystification + was thus formed. A strong attraction grew up on both sides and, + though for some time Laura Ruemelin maintained the mystery and + held herself aloof from him, a relationship was formed and a + child born. Thereupon, in 1893, they married. Before long, + however, there was disillusion on both sides. She began to detect + the morbid, chimerical, and unpractical aspects of his character, + and he realized that not only was his wife not an aristocrat, + but, what was of more importance to him, she was by no means the + domineering heroine of his dreams. Soon after marriage, in the + course of an innocent romp in which the whole of the small + household took part, he asked his wife to inflict a whipping on + him. She refused, and he thereupon suggested that the servant + should do it; the wife failed to take this idea seriously; but he + had it carried out, with great satisfaction at the severity of + the castigation he received. When, however, his wife explained to + him that, after this incident, it was impossible for the servant + to stay, Sacher-Masoch quite agreed and she was at once + discharged. But he constantly found pleasure in placing his wife + in awkward or compromising circumstances, a pleasure she was too + normal to share. This necessarily led to much domestic + wretchedness. He had persuaded her, against her wish, to whip him + nearly every day, with whips which he devised, having nails + attached to them. He found this a stimulant to his literary work, + and it enabled him to dispense in his novels with his stereotyped + heroine who is always engaged in subjugating men, for, as he + explained to his wife, when he had the reality in his life he was + no longer obsessed by it in his imaginative dreams. Not content + with this, however, he was constantly desirous for his wife to be + unfaithful. He even put an advertisement in a newspaper to the + effect that a young and beautiful woman desired to make the + acquaintance of an energetic man. The wife, however, though she + wished to please her husband, was not anxious to do so to this + extent. She went to an hotel by appointment to meet a stranger + who had answered this advertisement, but when she had explained + to him the state of affairs he chivalrously conducted her home. + It was some time before Sacher-Masoch eventually succeeded in + rendering his wife unfaithful. He attended to the minutest + details of her toilette on this occasion, and as he bade her + farewell at the door he exclaimed: "How I envy him!" This episode + thoroughly humiliated the wife, and from that moment her love for + her husband turned to hate. A final separation was only a + question of time. Sacher-Masoch formed a relationship with Hulda + Meister, who had come to act as secretary and translator to him, + while his wife became attached to Rosenthal, a clever journalist + later known to readers of the _Figaro_ as "Jacques St.-Cere," who + realized her painful position and felt sympathy and affection for + her. She went to live with him in Paris and, having refused to + divorce her husband, he eventually obtained a divorce from her; + she states, however, that she never at any time had physical + relationships with Rosenthal, who was a man of fragile + organization and health. Sacher-Masoch united himself to Hulda + Meister, who is described by the first wife as a prim and faded + but coquettish old maid, and by the biographer as a highly + accomplished and gentle woman, who cared for him with almost + maternal devotion. No doubt there is truth in both descriptions. + It must be noted that, as Wanda clearly shows, apart from his + abnormal sexual temperament, Sacher-Masoch was kind and + sympathetic, and he was strongly attached to his eldest child. + Eulenburg also quotes the statement of a distinguished Austrian + woman writer acquainted with him that, "apart from his sexual + eccentricities, he was an amiable, simple, and sympathetic man + with a touchingly tender love for his children." He had very few + needs, did not drink or smoke, and though he liked to put the + woman he was attached to in rich furs and fantastically gorgeous + raiment he dressed himself with extreme simplicity. His wife + quotes the saying of another woman that he was as simple as a + child and as naughty as a monkey. + + In 1883 Sacher-Masoch and Hulda Meister settled in Lindheim, a + village in Germany near the Taunus, a spot to which the novelist + seems to have been attached because in the grounds of his little + estate was a haunted and ruined tower associated with a tragic + medieval episode. Here, after many legal delays, Sacher-Masoch + was able to render his union with Hulda Meister legitimate; here + two children were in due course born, and here the novelist spent + the remaining years of his life in comparative peace. At first, + as is usual, treated with suspicion by the peasants, + Sacher-Masoch gradually acquired great influence over them; he + became a kind of Tolstoy in the rural life around him, the friend + and confidant of all the villagers (something of Tolstoy's + communism is also, it appears, to be seen in the books he wrote + at this time), while the theatrical performances which he + inaugurated, and in which his wife took an active part, spread + the fame of the household in many neighboring villages. Meanwhile + his health began to break up; a visit to Nauheim in 1894 was of + no benefit, and he died March 9, 1895. + +A careful consideration of the phenomena of sadism and masochism may be +said to lead us to the conclusion that there is no real line of +demarcation. Even De Sade himself was not a pure sadist, as Bloch's +careful definition is alone sufficient to indicate; it might even be +argued that De Sade was really a masochist; the investigation of histories +of sadism and masochism, even those given by Krafft-Ebing (as, indeed, +Colin Scott and Fere have already pointed out), constantly reveals traces +of both groups of phenomena in the same individual. They cannot, +therefore, be regarded as opposed manifestations. This has been felt by +some writers, who have, in consequence, proposed other names more clearly +indicating the relationship of the phenomena. Fere speaks of sexual +algophily[98]; he only applies the term to masochism; it might equally +well be applied to sadism. Schrenck-Notzing, to cover both sadism and +masochism, has invented the term algolagnia (algos, pain, and lagnos +sexually excited), and calls the former active, the latter passive, +algolagnia.[99] Eulenburg has also emphasized the close connection between +these groups of perverted sexual manifestations, and has adopted the same +terms, adding the further group of ideal (illusionary) algolagnia, to +cover the cases in which the mere autosuggestive representation of pain, +inflicted or suffered, suffices to give sexual gratification.[100] + +A brief discussion of the terms "sadism" and "masochism" has imposed +itself upon us at this point because as soon as, in any study of the +relationship between love and pain, we pass over the limits of normal +manifestations into a region which is more or less abnormal, these two +conceptions are always brought before us, and it was necessary to show on +what grounds they are here rejected as the pivots on which the discussion +ought to turn. We may accept them as useful terms to indicate two groups +of clinical phenomena; but we cannot regard them as of any real scientific +value. Having reached this result, we may continue our consideration of +the love-bite, as the normal manifestation of the connection between love +and pain which most naturally leads us across the frontier of the +abnormal. + +The result of the love-bite in its extreme degree is to shed blood. This +cannot be regarded as the direct aim of the bite in its normal +manifestations, for the mingled feelings of close contact, of passionate +gripping, of symbolic devouring, which constitute the emotional +accompaniments of the bite would be too violently discomposed by actual +wounding and real shedding of blood. With some persons, however, perhaps +more especially women, the love-bite is really associated with a conscious +desire, even if more or less restrained, to draw blood, a real delight in +this process, a love of blood. Probably this only occurs in persons who +are not absolutely normal, but on the borderland of the abnormal. We have +to admit that this craving has, however, a perfectly normal basis. There +is scarcely any natural object with so profoundly emotional an effect as +blood, and it is very easy to understand why this should be so.[101] +Moreover, blood enters into the sphere of courtship by virtue of the same +conditions by which cruelty enters into it; they are both accidents of +combat, and combat is of the very essence of animal and primitive human +courtship, certainly its most frequent accompaniment. So that the +repelling or attracting fascination of blood may be regarded as a +by-product of normal courtship, which, like other such by-products, may +become an essential element of abnormal courtship.[102] + +Normally the fascination of blood, if present at all during sexual +excitement, remains more or less latent, either because it is weak or +because the checks that inhibit it are inevitably very powerful. +Occasionally it becomes more clearly manifest, and this may happen early +in life. Fere records the case of a man of Anglo-Saxon origin, of sound +heredity so far as could be ascertained and presenting no obvious stigmata +of degeneration, who first experienced sexual manifestations at the age of +5 when a boy cousin was attacked by bleeding at the nose. It was the first +time he had seen such a thing and he experienced erection and much +pleasure at the sight. This was repeated the next time the cousin's nose +bled and also whenever he witnessed any injuries or wounds, especially +when occurring in males. A few years later he began to find pleasure in +pinching and otherwise inflicting slight suffering. This sadism was not, +however, further developed, although a tendency to inversion +persisted.[103] + + Somewhat similar may have been the origin of the attraction of + blood in a case which has been reported to me of a youth of 17, + the youngest of a large family who are all very strong and + entirely normal. He is himself, however, delicate, overgrown, + with a narrow chest, a small head, and babyish features, while + mentally he is backward, with very defective memory and scant + powers of assimilation. He is intensely nervous, peevish, and + subject to fits of childish rage. He takes violent fancies to + persons of his own sex. But he appears to have only one way of + obtaining sexual excitement and gratification. It is his custom + to get into a hot bath and there to produce erection and + emission, not by masturbation, but by thinking of flowing blood. + He does not associate himself with the causation of this + imaginary flow of blood; he is merely the passive but pleased + spectator. He is aware of his peculiarity and endeavors to shake + it off, but his efforts to obtain normal pleasure by thinking of + a girl are vain. + + I may here narrate a case which has been communicated to me of + algolagnia in a woman, combined with sexual hyperesthesia. + + R.D., aged 25, married, and of good social position; she is a + small and dark woman, restless and alert in manner. She has one + child. + + She has practised masturbation from an early age--ever since she + can remember--by the method of external friction and pressure. + From the age of 17 she was able (and is still) to produce the + orgasm almost without effort, by calling up the image of any man + who had struck her fancy. She has often done so while seated + talking to such a man, even when he is almost a stranger; in + doing it, she says, a tightening of the muscles of the thighs and + the slightest movement are sufficient. Ugly men (if not + deformed), as well as men with the reputation of being _roues_, + greatly excite her sexually, more especially if of good social + position, though this is not essential. + + At the age of 18 she became hysterical, probably, she herself + believes, in consequence of a great increase at that time of + indulgence in masturbation. The doctors, apparently suspecting + her habits, urged her parents to get her married early. She + married, at the age of 20, a man about twice her own age. + + As a child (and in a less degree still) she was very fond of + watching dog-fights. This spectacle produced strong sexual + feelings and usually orgasm, especially if much blood was shed + during the fight. Clean cuts and wounds greatly attract her, + whether on herself or a man. She has frequently slightly cut or + scratched herself "to see the blood," and likes to suck the + wound, thinking the taste "delicious." This produces strong + sexual feelings and often orgasm, especially if at the time she + thinks of some attractive man and imagines that she is sucking + his blood. The sight of injury to a woman only very slightly + affects her, and that, she thinks, only because of an involuntary + association of ideas. Nor has the sight of suffering in illness + any exciting effects, only that which is due to violence, and + when there is a visible cause for the suffering, such as cuts and + wounds. (Bruises, from the absence of blood, have only a slight + effect.) The excitement is intensified if she imagines that she + has herself inflicted the injury. She likes to imagine that the + man wished to rape her, and that she fought him in order to make + him more greatly value her favor, so wounding him. + + Impersonal ideas of torture also excite her. She thinks Fox's + _Book of Martyrs_ "lovely," and the more horrible and bloody the + tortures described the greater is the sexual excitement produced. + The book excites her from the point of view of the torturer, not + that of the victim. She has frequently masturbated while reading + it. + + So far as practicable she has sought to carry out these ideas in + her relations with her husband. She has several times bitten him + till the blood came and sucked the bite during coitus. She likes + to bite him enough to make him wince. The pleasure is greatly + heightened by thinking of various tortures, chiefly by cutting. + She likes to have her husband talk to her, and she to him, of all + the tortures they could inflict on each other. She has, however, + never actually tried to carry out these tortures. She would like + to, but dares not, as she is sure he could not endure them. She + has no desire for her husband to try them on her, although she + likes to hear him talk about it. + + She is at the same time fond of normal coitus, even to excess. + She likes her husband to remain entirely passive during + connection, so that he can continue in a state of strong erection + for a long time. She can thus, she says, procure for herself the + orgasm a number of times in succession, even nine or ten, quite + easily. On one occasion she even had the orgasm twenty-six times + within about one and a quarter hours, her husband during this + time having two orgasms. (She is quite certain about the accuracy + of this statement.) During this feat much talk about torture was + indulged in, and it took place after a month's separation from + her husband, during which she was careful not to masturbate, so + that she might have "a real good time" when he came back. She + acknowledges that on this occasion she was a "complete wreck" for + a couple of days afterward, but states that usually ten or a + dozen orgasms (or spasms, as she terms them) only make her "feel + lively." She becomes frenzied with excitement during intercourse + and insensible to everything but the pleasure of it. + + She has never hitherto allowed anyone (except her husband after + marriage) to know of her sadistic impulses, nor has she carried + them out with anyone, though she would like to, if she dared. Nor + has she allowed any man but her husband to have connection with + her or to take any liberties. + +Outbursts of sadism may occur episodically in fairly normal persons. Thus, +Coutagne describes the case of a lad of 17--always regarded as quite +normal, and without any signs of degeneracy, even on careful examination, +or any traces of hysteria or alcoholism, though there was insanity among +his cousins--who had had occasional sexual relations for a year or two, +and on one occasion, being in a state of erection, struck the girl three +times on the breast and abdomen with a kitchen knife bought for the +purpose. He was much ashamed of his act immediately afterward, and, all +the circumstances being taken into consideration, he was acquitted by the +court.[104] Here we seem to have the obscure and latent fascination of +blood, which is almost normal, germinating momentarily into an active +impulse which is distinctly abnormal, though it produced little beyond +those incisions which Vatsyayana disapproved of, but still regarded as a +part of courtship. One step more and we are amid the most outrageous and +extreme of all forms of sexual perversion: with the heroes of De Sade's +novels, who, in exemplification of their author's most cherished ideals, +plan scenes of debauchery in which the flowing of blood is an essential +element of coitus; with the Marshall Gilles de Rais and the Hungarian +Countess Bathory, whose lust could only be satiated by the death of +innumerable victims. + + This impulse to stab--with no desire to kill, or even in most + cases to give pain, but only to draw blood and so either + stimulate or altogether gratify the sexual impulse--is no doubt + the commonest form of sanguinary sadism. These women-stabbers + have been known in France as _piqueurs_ for nearly a century, and + in Germany are termed _Stecher_ or _Messerstecher_ (they have + been studied by Naecke, "Zur Psychologie der sadistischen + Messerstecher," _Archiv fuer Kriminal-Anthropologie_, Bd. 35, + 1909). A case of this kind where a man stabbed girls in the + abdomen occurred in Paris in the middle of the eighteenth + century, and in 1819 or 1820 there seems to have been an epidemic + of _piqueurs_ in Paris; as we learn from a letter of Charlotte + von Schiller's to Knebel; the offenders (though perhaps there was + only one) frequented the Boulevards and the Palais Royal and + stabbed women in the buttocks or thighs; they were never caught. + About the same time similar cases of a slighter kind occurred in + London, Brussels, Hamburg, and Munich. + + Stabbers are nearly always men, but cases of the same perversion + in women are not unknown. Thus Dr. Kiernan informs me of an Irish + woman, aged 40, and at the beginning of the menopause, who, in + New York in 1909, stabbed five men with a hatpin. The motive was + sexual and she told one of the men that she stabbed him because + she "loved" him. + + Gilles de Rais, who had fought beside Joan of Arc, is the classic + example of sadism in its extreme form, involving the murder of + youths and maidens. Bernelle considers that there is some truth + in the contention of Huysmans that the association with Joan of + Arc was a predisposing cause in unbalancing Gilles de Rais. + Another cause was his luxurious habit of life. He himself, no + doubt rightly, attached importance to the suggestions received in + reading Suetonius. He appears to have been a sexually precocious + child, judging from an obscure passage in his confessions. He was + artistic and scholarly, fond of books, of the society of learned + men, and of music. Bernelle sums him up as "a pious warrior, a + cruel and keen artist, a voluptuous assassin, an exalted mystic," + who was at the same time unbalanced, a superior degenerate, and + morbidly impulsive. (The best books on Gilles de Rais are the + Abbe Bossard's _Gilles de Rais_, in which, however, the author, + being a priest, treats his subject as quite sane and abnormally + wicked; Huysmans's novel, _La-Bas_, which embodies a detailed + study of Gilles de Rais, and F.H. Bernelle's These de Paris, _La + Psychose de Gilles de Rais_, 1910.) + + The opinion has been hazarded that the history of Gilles de Rais + is merely a legend. This view is not accepted, but there can be + no doubt that the sadistic manifestations which occurred in the + Middle Ages were mixed up with legendary and folk-lore elements. + These elements centered on the conception of the _werwolf_, + supposed to be a man temporarily transformed into a wolf with + blood-thirsty impulses. (See, e.g., articles "Werwolf" and + "Lycanthropy" in _Encyclopaedia Britannica_.) France, especially, + was infested with werwolves in the sixteenth century. In 1603, + however, it was decided at Bordeaux, in a trial involving a + werwolf, that lycanthropy was only an insane delusion. Dumas + ("Les Loup-Garous," _Journal de Psychologie Normale et + Pathologique_, May-June, 1907) argues that the medieval werwolves + were sadists whose crimes were largely imaginative, though + sometimes real, the predecessor of the modern Jack the Ripper. + The complex nature of the elements making up the belief in the + werwolf is emphasized by Ernest Jones, _Der Alptraum_, 1912. + + Related to the werwolf, but distinct, was the _vampire_, supposed + to be a dead person who rose from the dead to suck the blood of + the living during sleep. By way of reprisal the living dug up, + exorcised, and mutilated the supposed vampires. This was called + vampirism. The name vampire was then transferred to the living + person who had so treated a corpse. All profanation of the + corpse, whatever its origin, is now frequently called vampirism + (Epaulow, _Vampirisme_, These de Lyon, 1901; id., "Le Vampire du + Muy," _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Sept., 1903). The + earliest definite reference to necrophily is in Herodotus, who + tells (bk. ii, ch. lxxxix) of an Egyptian who had connection with + the corpse of a woman recently dead. Epaulow gives various old + cases and, at full length, the case which he himself + investigated, of Ardisson, the "Vampire du Muy." W.A.F. Browne + also has an interesting article on "Necrophilism" (_Journal of + Mental Science_, Jan., 1875) which he regards as atavistic. When + there is, in addition, mutilation of the corpse, the condition is + termed necrosadism. There seems usually to be no true sadism in + either necrosadism or necrophilism. (See, however, Bloch, + _Beitraege_, vol. ii, p. 284 et seq.) + + It must be said also that cases of rape followed by murder are + quite commonly not sadistic. The type of such cases is + represented by Soleilland, who raped and then murdered children. + He showed no sadistic perversion. He merely killed to prevent + discovery, as a burglar who is interrupted may commit murder in + order to escape. (E. Dupre, "L'Affaire Soleilland," _Archives + d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Jan.-Feb., 1910.) + + A careful and elaborate study of a completely developed sadist + has been furnished by Lacassagne, Rousset, and Papillon + ("L'Affaire Reidal," _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, + Oct.-Nov., 1907). Reidal, a youth of 18, a seminarist, was a + congenital sanguinary sadist who killed another youth and was + finally sent to an asylum. From the age of 4 he had voluptuous + ideas connected with blood and killing, and liked to play at + killing with other children. He was of infantile physical + development, with a pleasant, childish expression of face, very + religious, and hated obscenity and immorality. But the love of + blood and murder was an irresistible obsession and its + gratification produced immense emotional relief. + + Sadism generally has been especially studied by Lacassagne, + _Vacher l'Eventreur et les Crimes Sadiques_, 1899. Zooesadism, or + sadism toward animals, has been dealt with by P. Thomas, "Le + Sadisme sur les Animaux," _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, + Sept., 1903. Auto-sadism, or "auto-erotic cruelty," that is to + say, injuries inflicted on a person by himself with a sexual + motive, has been investigated by G. Bach (_Sexuelle Verrirungen + des Menschen und der Nature_, p. 427); this condition seems, + however, a form of algolagnia more masochistic than sadistic in + character. + + With regard to the medico-legal aspects, Kiernan ("Responsibility + in Active Algophily," _Medicine_, April, 1903) sets forth the + reasons in favor of the full and complete responsibility of + sadists, and Harold Moyer comes to the same conclusion ("Is + Sexual Perversion Insanity?" _Alienist and Neurologist_, May, + 1907). See also Thoinot's _Medico-legal Aspects of Moral + Offenses_ (edited by Weysse, 1911), ch. xviii. While we are + probably justified in considering the sadist as morally not + insane in the technical sense, we must remember that he is, for + the most part, highly abnormal from the outset. As Gaupp points + out (_Sexual-Probleme_, Oct., 1909, p. 797), we cannot measure + the influences which create the sadist and we must not therefore + attempt to "punish" him, but we are bound to place him in a + position where he will not injure society. + +It is enough here to emphasize the fact that there is no solution of +continuity in the links that bind the absolutely normal manifestations of +sex with the most extreme violations of all human law. This is so true +that in saying that these manifestations are violations of all human law +we cannot go on to add, what would seem fairly obvious, that they are +violations also of all natural law. We have but to go sufficiently far +back, or sufficiently far afield, in the various zooelogical series to find +that manifestations which, from the human point of view, are in the +extreme degree abnormally sadistic here become actually normal. Among very +various species wounding and rending normally take place at or immediately +after coitus; if we go back to the beginning of animal life in the +protozoa sexual conjugation itself is sometimes found to present the +similitude, if not the actuality, of the complete devouring of one +organism by another. Over a very large part of nature, as it has been +truly said, "but a thin veil divides love from death."[105] + +There is, indeed, on the whole, a point of difference. In that abnormal +sadism which appears from time to time among civilized human beings it is +nearly always the female who becomes the victim of the male. But in the +normal sadism which occurs throughout a large part of nature it is nearly +always the male who is the victim of the female. It is the male spider who +impregnates the female at the risk of his life and sometimes perishes in +the attempt; it is the male bee who, after intercourse with the queen, +falls dead from that fatal embrace, leaving her to fling aside his +entrails and calmly pursue her course.[106] If it may seem to some that +the course of our inquiry leads us to contemplate with equanimity, as a +natural phenomenon, a certain semblance of cruelty in man in his relations +with woman, they may, if they will, reflect that this phenomenon is but a +very slight counterpoise to that cruelty which has been naturally exerted +by the female on the male long even before man began to be. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[83] Krafft-Ebing, _Psychopathia Sexualis_, English translation of tenth +German edition, pp. 80, 209. It should be added that the object of the +sadistic impulse is not necessarily a person of the opposite sex. + +[84] A. Moll, _Die Kontraere Sexualempfindung_, third edition, 1899, p. +309. + +[85] Fere, _L'Instinct Sexuel_, p. 133. + +[86] P. Garnier, "Des Perversions Sexuelles," Thirteenth International +Congress of Medicine, Section of Psychiatry, Paris, 1900. + +[87] E. Duehren, _Der Marquis de Sade und Seine Zeit_, third edition, 1901, +p. 449. + +[88] See, for instance, Bloch's _Beitraege zur AEtiologie der Psychopathia +Sexualis_, part ii, p. 178. + +[89] Krafft-Ebing, _Psychopathia Sexualis_, English translation of tenth +German edition, p. 115. Stefanowsky, who also discussed this condition +(_Archives de l'Anthropologie Criminelle_, May, 1892, and translation, +with notes by Kiernan, _Alienist and Neurologist_, Oct., 1892), termed it +passivism. + +[90] _Anatomy of Melancholy_, part iii, section 2, mem. iii, subs, 1. + +[91] "Aristoteles als Masochist," _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Bd. ii, +ht. 2. + +[92] _Die Kontraere Sexualempfindung_, third edition, p. 277. Cf. C.F. von +Schlichtegroll, _Sacher-Masoch und der Masochismus_, p. 120. + +[93] See C.F. von Schlichtegroll, loc. cit., p. 124 et seq. + +[94] Iwan Bloch considers that it is the commonest of all sexual +perversions, more prevalent even than homosexuality. + +[95] It has no doubt been prominent in earlier civilization. A very +pronounced masochist utterance may be found in an ancient Egyptian +love-song written about 1200 B.C.: "Oh! were I made her porter, I should +cause her to be wrathful with me. Then when I did but hear her voice, the +voice of her anger, a child shall I be for fear." (Wiedemann, _Popular +Literature in Ancient Egypt_, p. 9.) The activity and independence of the +Egyptian women at the time may well have offered many opportunities to the +ancient Egyptian masochist. + +[96] Colin Scott, "Sex and Art," _American Journal of Psychology_, vol. +vii, No. 2, p. 208. + +[97] It must not be supposed that the attraction of fur or of the whip is +altogether accounted for by such a casual early experience as in +Sacher-Masoch's case served to evoke it. The whip we shall have to +consider briefly later on. The fascination exerted by fur, whether +manifesting itself as love or fear, would appear to be very common in many +children, and almost instinctive. Stanley Hall, in his "Study of Fears" +(_American Journal of Psychology_, vol. viii, p. 213) has obtained as many +as 111 well-developed cases of fear of fur, or, as he terms it, +doraphobia, in some cases appearing as early as the age of 6 months, and +he gives many examples. He remarks that the love of fur is still more +common, and concludes that "both this love and fear are so strong and +instinctive that they can hardly be fully accounted for without recourse +to a time when association with animals was far closer than now, or +perhaps when our remote ancestors were hairy." (Cf. "Erotic Symbolism," +iv, in the fifth volume of these _Studies_.) + +[98] Fere, _L'Instinct Sexuel_, p. 138. + +[99] Schrenck-Notzing, _Zeitschrift fuer Hypnotismus_, Bd. ix, ht. 2, 1899. + +[100] Eulenburg, _Sadismus und Masochismus_, second edition, 1911, p. 5. + +[101] I have elsewhere dealt with this point in discussing the special +emotional tone of red (Havelock Ellis, "The Psychology of Red," _Popular +Science Monthly_, August and September, 1900). + +[102] It is probable that the motive of sexual murders is nearly always to +shed blood, and not to cause death. Leppmann (_Bulletin Internationale de +Droit Penal_, vol. vi, 1896, p. 115) points out that such murders are +generally produced by wounds in the neck or mutilation of the abdomen, +never by wounds of the head. T. Claye Shaw, who terms the lust for blood +hemothymia, has written an interesting and suggestive paper ("A Prominent +Motive in Murder," _Lancet_, June 19, 1909) on the natural fascination of +blood. Blumroeder, in 1830, seems to have been the first who definitely +called attention to the connection between lust and blood. + +[103] Fere, _Revue de Chirurgie_, March 10, 1905. + +[104] H. Coutagne, "Cas de Perversion Sanguinaire de l'Instinct Sexuel," +_Annales Medico-Psychologiques_, July and August, 1893. D.S. Booth +(_Alienist and Neurologist_, Aug., 1906) describes the case of a man of +neurotic heredity who slightly stabbed a woman with a penknife when on his +way to a prostitute. + +[105] Kiernan appears to have been the first to suggest the bearing of +these facts on sadism, which he would regard as the abnormal human form of +phenomena which may be found at the very beginning of animal life, as, +indeed, the survival or atavistic reappearance of a primitive sexual +cannibalism. See his "Psychological Aspects of the Sexual Appetite," +_Alienist and Neurologist_, April, 1891, and "Responsibility in Sexual +Perversion," _Chicago Medical Recorder_, March, 1892. Penta has also +independently developed the conception of the biological basis of sadism +and other sexual perversions (_I Pervertimenti Sessuali_, 1893). It must +be added that, as Remy de Gourmont points out (_Promenades +Philosophiques_, 2d series, p. 273), this sexual cannibalism exerted by +the female may have, primarily, no erotic significance: "She eats him +because she is hungry and because when exhausted he is an easy prey." + +[106] In the chapter entitled "Le Vol Nuptial" of his charming book on the +life of bees Maeterlinck has given an incomparable picture of the tragic +courtship of these insects. + + + + +III. + +Flagellation as a Typical Illustration of Algolagnia--Causes of Connection +between Sexual Emotion and Whipping--Physical Causes--Psychic Causes +probably more Important--The Varied Emotional Associations of +Whipping--Its Wide Prevalence. + + +The whole problem of love and pain, in its complementary sadistic and +masochistic aspects, is presented to us in connection with the pleasure +sometimes experienced in whipping, or in being whipped, or in witnessing +or thinking about scenes of whipping. The association of sexual emotion +with bloodshed is so extreme a perversion, it so swiftly sinks to phases +that are obviously cruel, repulsive, and monstrous in an extreme degree, +that it is necessarily rare, and those who are afflicted by it are often +more or less imbecile. With whipping it is otherwise. Whipping has always +been a recognized religious penance; it is still regarded as a beneficial +and harmless method of chastisement; there is nothing necessarily cruel, +repulsive, or monstrous in the idea or the reality of whipping, and it is +perfectly easy and natural for an interest in the subject to arise in an +innocent and even normal child, and thus to furnish a germ around which, +temporarily at all events, sexual ideas may crystallize. For these reasons +the connection between love and pain may be more clearly brought out in +connection with whipping than with blood. + +There is, by no means, any necessary connection between flagellation and +the sexual emotions. If there were, this form of penance would not have +been so long approved or at all events tolerated by the Church.[107] + +As a matter of fact, indeed, it was not always approved or even tolerated. +Pope Adrian IV in the eighth century forbade priests to beat their +penitents, and at the time of the epidemic of flagellation in the +thirteenth century, which was highly approved by many holy men, the abuses +were yet so frequent that Clement VI issued a bull against these +processions. All such papal prohibitions remained without effect. The +association of religious flagellation with perverted sexual motives is +shown by its condemnation in later ages by the Inquisition, which was +accustomed to prosecute the priests who, in prescribing flagellation as a +penance, exerted it personally, or caused it to be inflicted on the +stripped penitent in his presence, or made a woman penitent discipline +him, such offences being regarded as forms of "solicitation."[108] There +seems even to be some reason to suppose that the religious flagellation +mania which was so prevalent in the later Middle Ages, when processions of +penitents, male and female, eagerly flogged themselves and each other, may +have had something to do with the discovery of erotic flagellation,[109] +which, at all events in Europe, seems scarcely to have been known before +the sixteenth century. It must, in any case, have assisted to create a +predisposition. The introduction of flagellation as a definitely +recognized sexual stimulant is by Eulenburg, in his interesting book, +_Sadismus und Masochismus_, attributed to the Arabian physicians. It would +appear to have been by the advice of an Arabian physician that the Duchess +Leonora Gonzaga, of Mantua, was whipped by her mother to aid her in +responding more warmly to her husband's embraces and to conceive. + +Whatever the precise origin of sexual flagellation in Europe, there can be +no doubt that it soon became extremely common, and so it remains at the +present day. Those who possess a special knowledge of such matters declare +that sexual flagellation is the most frequent of all sexual perversions +in England.[110] This belief is, I know, shared by many people both inside +and outside England. However this may be, the tendency is certainly +common. I doubt if it is any or at all less common in Germany, judging by +the large number of books on the subject of flagellation which have been +published in German. In a catalogue of "interesting books" on this and +allied subjects issued by a German publisher and bookseller, I find that, +of fifty-five volumes, as many as seventeen or eighteen, all in German, +deal solely with the question of flagellation, while many of the other +books appear to deal in part with the same subject.[111] It is, no doubt, +true that the large part which the rod has played in the past history of +our civilization justifies a considerable amount of scientific interest in +the subject of flagellation, but it is clear that the interest in these +books is by no means always scientific, but very frequently sexual. + + It is remarkable that, while the sexual associations of whipping, + whether in slight or in marked degrees, are so frequent in modern + times, they appear to be by no means easy to trace in ancient + times. "Flagellation," I find it stated by a modern editor of the + _Priapeia_, "so extensively practised in England as a provocation + to venery, is almost entirely unnoticed by the Latin erotic + writers, although, in the _Satyricon_ of Petronius (ch. + cxxxviii), Encolpius, in describing the steps taken by OEnothea + to undo the temporary impotence to which he was subjected, says: + 'Next she mixed nasturtium-juice with southern wood, and, having + bathed my foreparts, she took a bunch of green nettles, and + gently whipped my belly all over below the navel.'" It appears + also that many ancient courtesans dedicated to Venus as ex-votos + a whip, a bridle, or a spur as tokens of their skill in riding + their lovers. The whip was sometimes used in antiquity, but if it + aroused sexual emotions they seem to have passed unregarded. "We + naturally know nothing," Eulenburg remarks (_Sadismus und + Masochismus_, p. 72), "of the feelings of the priestess of + Artemis at the flagellation of Spartan youths; or what emotions + inspired the priestess of the Syrian goddess under similar + circumstances; or what the Roman Pontifex Maximus felt when he + castigated the exposed body of a negligent vestal (as described + by Plutarch) behind a curtain, and the 'plagosus Orbilius' only + practised on children." + + It was at the Renaissance that cases of abnormal sexual pleasure + in flagellation began to be recorded. The earliest distinct + reference to a masochistic flagellant seems to have been made by + Pico della Mirandola, toward the end of the fifteenth century, in + his _Disputationes Adversus Astrologiam Divinatricem_, bk. iii, + ch. xxvii. Coelius Rhodiginus in 1516, again, narrated the case + of a man he knew who liked to be severely whipped, and found this + a stimulant to coitus. Otto Brunfels, in his _Onomasticon_ + (1534), art. "Coitus," refers to another case of a man who could + not have intercourse with his wife until he had been whipped. + Then, a century later, in 1643, Meibomius wrote _De Usu Flagrorum + in re Venerea_, the earliest treatise on this subject, narrating + various cases. Numerous old cases of pleasure in flagellation and + urtication were brought together by Schurig in 1720 in his + _Spermatologia_, pp. 253-258. + + The earliest definitely described medical case of sadistic + pleasure in the sight of active whipping which I have myself come + across belongs to the year 1672, and occurs in a letter in which + Nesterus seeks the opinion of Garmann. He knows intimately, he + states, a very learned man--whose name, for the honor he bears + him, he refrains from mentioning--who, whenever in a school or + elsewhere he sees a boy unbreeched and birched, and hears him + crying out, at once emits semen copiously without any erection, + but with great mental commotion. The same accident frequently + happens to him during sleep, accompanied by dreams of whipping. + Nesterus proceeds to mention that this "_laudatus vir_" was also + extremely sensitive to the odor of strawberries and other fruits, + which produced nausea. He was evidently a neurotic subject. + (L.C.F. Garmanni et Aliorum Virorum Clarissimorum, _Epistolarum + Centuria_, Rostochi et Lipsiae, 1714.) + + In England we find that toward the end of the sixteenth century + one of Marlowe's epigrams deals with a certain Francus who before + intercourse with his mistress "sends for rods and strips himself + stark naked," and by the middle of the seventeenth century the + existence of an association between flagellation and sexual + pleasure seems to have been popularly recognized. In 1661, in a + vulgar "tragicomedy" entitled _The Presbyterian Lash_, we find: + "I warrant he thought that the tickling of the wench's buttocks + with the rod would provoke her to lechery." That whipping was + well known as a sexual stimulant in England in the eighteenth + century is sufficiently indicated by the fact that in one of + Hogarth's series representing the "Harlot's Progress" a birch rod + hangs over the bed. The prevalence of sexual flagellation in + England at the end of that century and the beginning of the + nineteenth is discussed by Duehren (Iwan Bloch) in his + _Geschlechtsleben in England_ (1901-3), especially vol. ii, ch. + vi. + + While, however, the evidence regarding sexual flagellation is + rare, until recent times whipping as a punishment was extremely + common. It is even possible that its very prevalence, and the + consequent familiarity with which it was regarded, were + unfavorable to the development of any mysterious emotional state + likely to act on the sexual sphere, except in markedly neurotic + subjects. Thus, the corporal chastisement of wives by husbands + was common and permitted. Not only was this so to a proverbial + extent in eastern Europe, but also in the extreme west and among + a people whose women enjoyed much freedom and honor. Cymric law + allowed a husband to chastise his wife for angry speaking, such + as calling him a cur; for giving away property she was not + entitled to give away; or for being found in hiding with another + man. For the first two offenses she had the option of paying him + three kine. When she accepted the chastisement she was to receive + "three strokes with a rod of the length of her husband's forearm + and the thickness of his long finger, and that wheresoever he + might will, excepting on the head"; so that she was to suffer + pain only, and not injury. (R.B. Holt, "Marriage Laws and Customs + of the Cymri," _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, + August-November, 1898, p. 162.) + + "The Cymric law," writes a correspondent, "seems to have survived + in popular belief in the Eastern and Middle States of the United + States. In police-courts in New York, for example, it has been + unsuccessfully pleaded that a man is entitled to beat his wife + with a stick no thicker than his thumb. In Pennsylvania actual + acquittals have been rendered." + + Among all classes children were severely whipped by their parents + and others in authority over them. It may be recalled that in the + twelfth century when Abelard became tutor to Heloise, then about + 18 years of age, her uncle authorized him to beat her, if + negligent in her studies. Even in the sixteenth century Jeanne + d'Albert, who became the mother of Henry IV of France, at the + age of 131/2 was married to the Duke of Cleves, and to overcome her + resistance to this union the Queen, her mother, had her whipped + to such an extent that she thought she would die of it. The whip + on this occasion was, however, only partially successful, for the + Duke never succeeded in consummating the marriage, which was, in + consequence, annulled. (Cabanes brings together numerous facts + regarding the prevalence of flagellation as a chastisement in + ancient France in the interesting chapter on "La Flagellation a + la Cour et a la Ville" in his _Indiscretions de l'Histoire_, + 1903.) + + As to the prevalence of whipping in England evidence is furnished + by Andrews, in the chapter on "Whipping and Whipping Posts," in + his book on ancient punishments. It existed from the earliest + times and was administered for a great variety of offenses, to + men and women alike, for vagrancy, for theft, to the fathers and + mothers of illegitimate children, for drunkenness, for insanity, + even sometimes for small-pox. At one time both sexes were whipped + naked, but from Queen Elizabeth's time only from the waist + upward. In 1791 the whipping of female vagrants ceased by law. + (W. Andrews, _Bygone Punishments_, 1899.) + + It must, however, be remarked that law always lags far behind + social feeling and custom, and flagellation as a common + punishment had fallen into disuse or become very perfunctory long + before any change was made in the law, though it is not + absolutely extinct, even by law, today. There is even an ignorant + and retrograde tendency to revive it. Thus, even in severe + Commonwealth days, the alleged whipping with rods of a + servant-girl by her master, though with no serious physical + injury, produced a great public outcry, as we see by the case of + the Rev. Zachary Crofton, a distinguished London clergyman, who + was prosecuted in 1657 on the charge of whipping his + servant-girl, Mary Cadman, because she lay in bed late in the + morning and stole sugar. This incident led to several pamphlets. + In _The Presbyterian, Lash or Noctroff's Maid Whipt_ (1661), a + satire on Crofton, we read: "It is not only contrary to Gospel + but good manners to take up a wench's petticoats, smock and all"; + and in the doggerel ballad of "Bo-Peep," which was also written + on the same subject, it is said that Crofton should have left his + wife to chastise the maid. Crofton published two pamphlets, one + under his own name and one under that of Alethes Noctroff (1657), + in which he elaborately dealt with the charge as both false and + frivolous. In one passage he offers a qualified defense of such + an act: "I cannot but bewail the exceeding rudeness of our times + to suffer such foolery to be prosecuted as of some high and + notorious crime. Suppose it were (as it is not) true, may not + some eminent congregational brother be found guilty of the same + act? Is it not much short of drinking an health naked on a + signpost? May it not be as theologically defended as the + husband's correction of his wife?" This passage, and the whole + episode, show that feeling in regard to this matter was at that + time in a state of transition. + + Flagellation as a penance, whether inflicted by the penitent + himself or by another person, was also extremely common in + medieval and later days. According to Walsingham ("Master of the + Rolls' Collection," vol. i, p. 275), in England, in the middle of + the fourteenth century, penitents, sometimes men of noble birth, + would severely flagellate themselves, even to the shedding of + blood, weeping or singing as they did so; they used cords with + knots containing nails. + + At a later time the custom of religious flagellation was more + especially preserved in Spain. The Countess d'Aulnoy, who visited + Spain in 1685, has described the flagellations practised in + public at Madrid. After giving an account of the dress worn by + these flagellants, which corresponds to that worn in Spain in + Holy Week at the present time by the members of the _Cofradias_, + the face concealed by the high sugar-loaf head-covering, she + continues: "They attach ribbons to their scourges, and usually + their mistresses honor them with their favors. In gaining public + admiration they must not gesticulate with the arm, but only move + the wrist and hand; the blows must be given without haste, and + the blood must not spoil the costume. They make terrible wounds + on their shoulders, from which the blood flows in streams; they + march through the streets with measured steps; they pass before + the windows of their mistresses, where they flagellate themselves + with marvelous patience. The lady gazes at this fine sight + through the blinds of her room, and by a sign she encourages him + to flog himself, and lets him understand how much she likes this + sort of gallantry. When they meet a good-looking woman they + strike themselves in such a way that the blood goes on to her; + this is a great honor, and the grateful lady thanks them.... All + this is true to the letter." + + The Countess proceeds to describe other and more genuine + penitents, often of high birth, who may be seen in the street + naked above the waist, and with naked feet on the rough and sharp + pavement; some had swords passed through the skin of their body + and arms, others heavy crosses that weighed them down. She + remarks that she was told by the Papal Nuncio that he had + forbidden confessors to impose such penances, and that they were + due to the devotion of the penitents themselves. (_Relation du + Voyage d'Espagne_, 1692, vol. ii, pp. 158-164.) + + The practice of public self-flagellation in church during Lent + existed in Spain and Portugal up to the early years of the + nineteenth century. Descriptions of it will often be met with in + old volumes of travel. Thus, I find a traveler through Spain in + 1786 describing how, at Barcelona, he was present when, in Lent, + at a Miserere in the Convent Church of San Felipe Neri on Friday + evening the doors were shut, the lights put out, and in perfect + darkness all bared their backs and applied the discipline, + singing while they scourged themselves, ever louder and harsher + and with ever greater vehemence until in twenty minutes' time the + whole ended in a deep groan. It is mentioned that at Malaga, + after such a scene, the whole church was in the morning sprinkled + with blood. (Joseph Townsend, _A Journey through Spain in 1786_, + vol. i, p. 122; vol. iii, p. 15.) + + Even to our own day religious self-flagellation is practised by + Spaniards in the Azores, in the darkened churches during Lent, + and the walls are often spotted and smeared with blood at this + time. (O.H. Howarth, "The Survival of Corporal Punishment," + _Journal Anthropological Institute_, Feb., 1889.) In remote + districts of Spain (as near Haro in Rioja) there are also + brotherhoods who will flagellate themselves on Good Friday, but + not within the church. (Dario de Regoyos, _Espana Negra_, 1899, + p. 72.) + +When we glance over the history of flagellation and realize that, though +whipping as a punishment has been very widespread and common, there have +been periods and lands showing no clear knowledge of any sexual +association of whipping, it becomes clear that whipping is not necessarily +an algolagnic manifestation. It seems evident that there must be special +circumstances, and perhaps a congenital predisposition, to bring out +definitely the relationship of flagellation to the sexual impulse. Thus, +Loewenfeld considers that only about 1 per cent, of people can be sexually +excited by flagellation of the buttocks,[112] and Naecke also is decidedly +of opinion that there can be no sexual pleasure in flagellation without +predisposition, which is rare.[113] On these grounds many are of opinion +that physical chastisement, provided it is moderate, seldom applied, and +only to children who are quite healthy and vigorous, need not be +absolutely prohibited.[114] But, however rare and abnormal a sexual +response to actual flagellation may be in adults, we shall see that the +general sexual association of whipping in the minds of children, and +frequently of their elders, is by; no means rare and scarcely abnormal. + +What is the cause of the connection between sexual emotion and whipping? A +very simple physical cause has been believed by some to account fully for +the phenomena. It is known that strong stimulation of the gluteal region +may, especially under predisposing conditions, produce or heighten sexual +excitement, by virtue of the fact that both regions are supplied by +branches of the same nerve. + +There is another reason why whipping should exert a sexual influence. As +Fere especially has pointed out, in moderate amount it has a tonic effect, +and as such has a general beneficial result in stimulating the whole body. +This fact was, indeed, recognized by the classic physicians, and Galen +regarded flagellation as a tonic.[115] Thus, not only must it be said that +whipping, when applied to the gluteal region, has a direct influence in +stimulating the sexual organs, but its general tonic influence must +naturally extend to the sexual system. + + It is possible that we must take into account here a biological + factor, such as we have found involved in other forms of sadism + and masochism. In this connection a lady writes to me: "With + regard to the theory which connects the desire for whipping with + the way in which animals make love, where blows or pressure on + the hindquarters are almost a necessary preliminary to pleasure, + have you ever noticed the way in which stags behave? Their does + seem as timid as the males are excitable, and the blows inflicted + on them by the horns of their mates to reduce them to submission + must be, I should think, an exact equivalent to being beaten with + a stick." + + It is remarkable that in some cases the whip would even appear to + have a psychic influence in producing sexual excitement in + animals accustomed to its application as a stimulant to action. + Thus, Professor Cornevin, of Lyons, describes the case of a + Hungarian stallion, otherwise quite potent, in whom erection + could only be produced in the presence of a mare in heat when a + whip was cracked near him, and occasionally applied gently to his + legs. (Cornevin, _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, January, + 1896.) + +Here, undoubtedly, we have a definite anatomical and physiological +relationship which often serves as a starting-point for the turning of the +sexual feelings in this direction, and will sometimes support the +perversion when it has otherwise arisen. But this relationship, even if we +regard it as a fairly frequent channel by which sexual emotion is aroused, +will not suffice to account for most, or even many, of the cases in which +whipping exerts a sexual fascination. In many, if not most, cases it is +found that the idea of whipping asserts its sexual significance quite +apart from any personal experience, even in persons who have never been +whipped;[116] not seldom also in persons who have been whipped and who +feel nothing but repugnance for the actual performance, attractive as it +may be in imagination. + +It is evident that we have to seek the explanation of this phenomenon +largely in psychic causes. Whipping, whether inflicted or suffered, tends +to arouse, vaguely but massively, the very fundamental and primitive +emotions of anger and fear, which, as we have seen, have always been +associated with courtship, and it tends to arouse them at an age when the +sexual emotions have not become clearly defined, and under circumstances +which are likely to introduce sexual associations. From their earliest +years children have been trained to fear whipping, even when not actually +submitted to it, and an unjust punishment of this kind, whether inflicted +on themselves or others, frequently arouses intense anger, nervous +excitement, or terror in the sensitive minds of children.[117] Moreover, +as has been pointed out to me by a lady who herself in early life was +affected by the sexual associations of whipping, a child only sees the +naked body of elder children when uncovered for whipping, and its sexual +charm may in part be due to this cause. We further have to remark that the +spectacle of suffering itself is, to some extent and under some +circumstances, a stimulant of sexual emotion. It is evident that a number +of factors contribute to surround whipping at a very early age with +powerful emotional associations, and that these associations are of such a +character that in predisposed subjects they are very easily led into a +sexual channel.[118] Various lines of evidence support this conclusion. +Thus, from several reliable quarters I learn that the sight of a boy being +caned at school may produce sexual excitement in the boys who look on. The +association of sexual emotion with whipping is, again, very liable to show +itself in schoolmasters, and many cases have been recorded in which the +flogging of boys, under the stress of this impulse, has been carried to +extreme lengths. An early and eminent example is furnished by Udall, the +humanist, at one time headmaster of Eton, who was noted for his habit of +inflicting frequent corporal punishment for little or no cause, and who +confessed to sexual practices with the boys under his care.[119] + +Sanitchenko has called attention to the case of a Russian functionary, a +school inspector, who every day had some fifty pupils flogged in his +presence, as evidence of a morbid pleasure in such scenes. Even when no +sexual element can be distinctly traced, scenes of whipping sometimes +exert a singular fascination on some persons of sensitive emotional +temperament. A friend, a clergyman, who has read many novels tells me that +he has been struck by the frequency with which novelists describe such +scenes with much luxury of detail; his list includes novels by well-known +religious writers of both sexes. In some of these cases there is reason to +believe that the writers felt this sexual association of whipping. + +It is natural that an interest in whipping should be developed very early +in childhood, and, indeed, it enters very frequently into the games of +young children, and constitutes a much relished element of such games, +more especially among girls. I know of many cases in which young girls +between 6 and 12 years of age took great pleasure in games in which the +chief point consisted in unfastening each other's drawers and smacking +each other, and some of these girls, when they grew older, realized that +there was an element of sexual enjoyment in their games. It has indeed, it +seems, always been a child's game, and even an amusement of older persons, +to play at smacking each other's nates. In _The Presbyter's Lash_ in 1661 +a young woman is represented as stating that she had done this as a child, +and in ancient France it was a privileged custom on Innocents' Day +(December 28th) to smack all the young people found lying late in bed; it +was a custom which, as Clement Marot bears witness, was attractive to +lovers. + + If we turn to the histories I have brought together in Appendix B + we find various references to whipping more or less clearly + connected with the rudimentary sexual feelings of childhood. + + I am acquainted with numerous cases in which the idea of + whipping, or the impulse to whip or be whipped, distinctly + exists, though usually, when persisting to adult life, only in a + rudimentary form. History I in the Appendix B presents a + well-marked instance. I may quote the remarks in another case of + a lady regarding her early feelings: "As a child the idea of + being whipped excited me, but only in connection with a person I + loved, and, moreover, one who had the right to correct me. On one + occasion I was beaten with the back of a brush, and the pain was + sufficient to overcome any excitement; so that, ever after, this + particular form of whipping left me unaffected, though the + excitement still remained connected with forms of which I had no + experience." + + Another lady states that when a little girl of 4 or 5 the + servants used to smack her nates with a soft brush to amuse + themselves (undoubtedly, as she now believes, this gave them a + kind of sexual pleasure); it did not hurt her, but she disliked + it. Her father used to whip her severely on the nates at this age + and onward to the age of 13, but this never gave her any + pleasure. When, however, she was about 9 she began in waking + dreams to imagine that she was whipping somebody, and would + finish by imagining that she was herself being whipped. She would + make up stories of which the climax was a whipping, and felt at + the same time a pleasurable burning sensation in her sexual + parts; she used to prolong the preliminaries of the story to + heighten the climax; she felt more pleasure in the idea of being + whipped than of whipping, although she never experienced any + pleasure from an actual whipping. These day-dreams were most + vivid when she was at school, between the ages of 11 and 14. They + began to fade with the growth of affection for real persons. But + in dreams, even in adult life, she occasionally experienced + sexual excitement accompanied by images of smacking. + + Another correspondent, this time a man, writes: "I experienced + the connection between sexual excitement and whipping long before + I knew what sexuality meant or had any notion regarding the + functions of the sexual organs. What I now know to be distinct + sexual feeling used to occur whenever the idea of whipping arose + or the mention of whipping was made in a way to arrest my + attention. I well remember the strange, mysterious fascination it + had, even apart from any actual physical excitement. I have been + told by many men and a few women that it was the same with them. + Even now the feeling exists sometimes, especially when reading + about whipping." + + The following confession, which I find recorded by a German + manufacturer's wife, corresponds with those I have obtained in + England: "When about 5 years old I was playing with a little girl + friend in the park. Our governesses sat on a bench talking. For + some reason--perhaps because we had wandered away too far and + failed to hear a call to return--my friend aroused the anger of + the governess in charge of her. That young lady, therefore, took + her aside, raised her dress, and vigorously smacked her with the + flat hand. I looked on fascinated, and possessed by an + inexplicable feeling to which I naively gave myself up. The + impression was so deep that the scene and the persons concerned + are still clearly present to my mind, and I can even recall the + little details of my companion's underclothing." When sexual + associations are permanently brought into play through such an + early incident it is possible that a special predisposition + exists. (_Gesellschaft und Geschlecht_, Bd. ii, ht. 4, p. 120.) + +It would certainly seem that we must look upon this association as coming +well within the normal range of emotional life in childhood, although +after puberty, when the sexual feelings become clearly defined, the +attraction of whipping normally tends to be left behind as a piece of +childishness, only surviving in the background of consciousness, if at +all, to furnish a vaguely sexual emotional tone to the subject of +whipping, but not affecting conduct, sometimes only emerging in erotic +dreams. + +This, however, is not invariably the case in persons who are organically +abnormal. In such cases, and especially, it would seem, in highly +sensitive and emotional children, the impress left by the fact or the +image of whipping may be so strong that it affects not only definitely, +but permanently, the whole subsequent course of development of the sexual +impulse. Regis has recorded a case which well illustrates the +circumstances and hereditary conditions under which the idea of whipping +may take such firm root in the sexual emotional nature of a child as to +persist into adult life; at the same time the case shows how a sexual +perversion may, in an intelligent person, take on an intellectual +character, and it also indicates a rational method of treatment. + + Jules P., aged 22, of good heredity on father's side, but bad on + that of mother, who is highly hysterical, while his grandmother + was very impulsive and sometimes pursued other women with a + knife. He has one brother and one sister, who are somewhat morbid + and original. He is himself healthy, intelligent, good looking, + and agreeable, though with slightly morbid peculiarities. At the + age of 4 or 5 he suddenly opened a door and saw his sister, then + a girl of 14 or 15, kneeling, with her clothes raised and her + head on her governess's lap, at the moment of being whipped for + some offense. This trivial incident left a profound impression on + his mind, and he recalls every detail of it, especially the sight + of his sister's buttocks,--round, white, and enormous as they + seemed to his childish eyes,--and that momentary vision gave a + permanent direction to the whole of his sexual life. Always after + that he desired to touch and pat his sister's gluteal regions. He + shared her bed, and, though only a child, acquired great skill in + attaining his ends without attracting her attention, lifting her + night-gown when she slept and gently caressing the buttocks, also + contriving to turn her over on to her stomach and then make a + pillow of her hips. This went on until the age of 7, when he + began to play with two little girls of the neighborhood, the + eldest of whom was 10; he liked to take the part of the father + and whip them. The older girl was big for her age, and he would + separate her drawers and smack her with much voluptuous emotion; + so that he frequently sought opportunities to repeat the + experience, to which the girl willingly lent herself, and they + were constantly together in dark corners, the girl herself + opening her drawers to enable him to caress her thighs and + buttocks with his hand until he became conscious of an erection. + Sometimes he would gently use a whip. On one occasion she asked + him if he would not now like to see her in front, but he + declined. + + One day, when 8 or 9 years old, being with a boy companion, he + came upon a picture of a monk being flagellated, and thereupon + persuaded his companion to let himself be whipped; the boy + enjoyed the experience, which was therefore often repeated. Jules + P. himself, however, never took the slightest pleasure in playing + the passive part. These practices were continued even after the + friend became a conscript, when, however, they became very rare. + Only once or twice has he ever done anything of this kind to + girls who were strangers to him. Nor has he ever masturbated or + had any desire for sexual intercourse. He contents himself with + the pleasure of being occasionally able to witness scenes of + whipping in public places--parks and gardens--or of catching + glimpses of the thighs and buttocks of young girls or, if + possible, women. + + His principal enjoyment is in imagination. From the first he has + loved to invent stories in which whippings were the climax, and + at 13 such stories produced the first spontaneous emission. Thus, + he imagines, for instance, a young girl from the country who + comes up to Paris by train; on the way a lady is attracted by + her, takes an interest in her, brings her home to dinner, and at + last can no longer resist the temptation to take the girl in her + arms and whip her amorously. He writes out these scenes and + illustrates them with drawings, many of which Regis reproduces. + He has even written comedies in which whipping plays a prominent + part. He has, moreover, searched public libraries for references + to flagellation, inserted queries in the _Intermediare des + Chercheurs et des Curieux_, and thus obtained a complete + bibliography of flagellation which is of considerable value. + Regis is acquainted with these _Archives de la Fessee_, and + states that they are carried on with great method and care. He is + especially interested in the whipping of women by women. He + considers that the pleasure of whippings should always be shared + by the person whipped, and he is somewhat concerned to find that + he has an increasing inclination to imagine an element of cruelty + in the whipping. Emissions are somewhat frequent. According to + the latest information, he is much better; he has entered into + sexual relationship with a woman who is much in love with him, + and to whom he has confided his peculiarities. With her aid and + suggestions he has been able to have intercourse with her, at the + moment of coitus whipping her with a harmless India-rubber tube. + (E. Regis, "Un Cas de Perversion Sexuelle, a forme Sadique," + _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelles_, July, 1899.) + + In a case also occurring in a highly educated man (narrated by + Marandon de Montyel) a doctor of laws, brilliantly intellectual + and belonging to a family in which there had been some insanity, + when at school at the age of 11, saw for the first time a + schoolfellow whipped on the nates, and experienced a new pleasure + and emotion. He was never himself whipped at school, but would + invent games with his sisters and playfellows in which whipping + formed an essential part. At the age of 13 he teased a young + woman, a cook, until she seized him and whipped him. He put his + arms around her and experienced his first voluptuous spasm of + sex. The love of flagellation temporarily died out, however, and + gave place to masturbation and later to a normal attraction to + women. But at the age of 32 the old ideas were aroused anew by a + story his mistress told him. He suffered from various obsessions + and finally committed suicide. (Marandon de Montyel, "Obsessions + et Vie Sexuelle," _Archives de Neurologie_, Oct., 1904.) + + In a case that has been reported to me, somewhat similar ideas + played a part. The subject is a tall, well-developed man, aged + 28, delicate in childhood, but now normal in health and physical + condition, though not fond of athletics. His mental ability is + much above the average, especially in scientific directions; he + was brought up in narrow and strict religious views, but at an + early age developed agnostic views of his own. + + From the age of 6, and perhaps earlier, he practised masturbation + almost every night. This was a habit which he carried on in all + innocence. It was as invariable a preliminary, he states, to + going to sleep as was lying down, and at this period he would + have felt no hesitation in telling all about it had the question + been asked. At the age of 12 or 13 he recognized the habit as + abnormal, and fear of ridicule then caused him to keep silence + and to avoid observation. In carrying it out he would lie on his + stomach with the penis directed downward, and not up, and the + thumb resting on the region above the root of the penis. There + was desire for micturition after the act, and when that was + satisfied sound sleep followed. When he realized that the habit + was abnormal he began to make efforts to discontinue it, and + these efforts have been continued up to the present. The chief + obstacle has been the difficulty of sleep without carrying out + the practice. Emissions first began to occur at the age of 13 and + at first caused some alarm. During the six following years + indulgence was irregular, sometimes occurring every other night + and sometimes with a week's intermission. Then at the age of 19 + the habit was broken for a year, during which nocturnal emissions + took place during sleep about every three weeks. Since this, + shorter periods of non-indulgence have occurred, these periods + always coinciding with unusual mental or physical strain, as of + examinations. He has some degree of attraction for women; this is + strongest during cessation from masturbation and tends to + disappear when the habit is resumed. He has never had sexual + intercourse because he prefers his own method of gratification + and feels great abhorrence for professional prostitutes; he could + not afford to marry. Any indecency or immorality, except (he + observes) his own variety, disgusts him. + + At the earliest period no mental images accompanied the act of + masturbation. At about the age of 8, however, sexual excitement + began to be constantly associated with ideas of being whipped. At + or soon after this age only the fear of disgrace prevented him + from committing serious childish offenses likely to be punished + by a good whipping. Parents and masters, however, seem to have + used corporal punishment very sparingly. + + At first this desire was for whipping in general, without + reference to the operator. Soon after the age of 10, however, he + began to wish that certain boy friends should be the operators. + At about the same time definite desire arose for closer contact + with these friends and later for definite indecent acts which, + however, the subject failed to specify; he probably meant mutual + masturbation. These desires were under control, and the fear of + ridicule seems to have been the chief restraining cause. At about + the age of 15 he began to realize that such acts might be + considered morally bad and wrong, and this led to reticence and + careful concealment. Up to the age of 20 there were four definite + attachments to persons of his own sex. There was a tendency, + sometimes, to regard women as possible whippers, and this became + stronger at 22, the images of the two sexes then mingling in his + thoughts of flagellation. Latterly the mental accompaniments of + masturbation have been less personal, lapsing into the mental + picture of being whipped by an unknown and vague somebody. When + definite it has always been a man, and preferably of the type of + a schoolmaster. His desire has been for punishment by whips, + canes, or birches, especially upon the buttocks. He has always + shrunk from the thought of the production of blood or bruises. He + wishes, in mental contemplation, for a punishment sufficiently + severe to make him anxious to stop it, and yet not able to stop + it. He also takes pleasure in the idea of being tied up so as to + be unable to move. + + He has at times indulged in self-whipping, of no great severity. + + In the preceding case we see a tendency to erotic + self-flagellation which in a minor degree is not uncommon. + Occasionally it becomes highly developed. Max Marcuse has + presented such a case in elaborate detail (_Zeitschrift fuer die + Gesamte Neurologie_, 1912, ht. 3, fully summarized in + _Sexual-Probleme_, Nov., 1912, pp. 815-820). This is the case of + a Catholic priest of highly neurotic heredity, who spontaneously + began to whip himself at the age of 12, this self-flagellation + being continued and accompanied by masturbation after the age of + 15. Other associated perversions were Narcissism and nates + fetichism, as well as homosexual phantasies. He experienced a + certain pleasure (with erection, not ejaculation) in punishing + his boy pupils. It is not uncommon for all forms of erotic + flagellation to be associated with a homosexual element. I have + elsewhere brought forward a case of this kind (the case of A.F., + vol. ii of these _Studies_). + + Significant is Rousseau's account of the origin of his own + masochistic pleasure in whipping at the age of 8: "Mademoiselle + Lambercier showed toward me a mother's affection and also a + mother's authority, which she sometimes carried so far as to + inflict on us the usual punishment of children when we had + deserved it. For a long time she was content with the threat, and + that threat of a chastisement which for me was quite new seemed + very terrible; but after it had been executed I found the + experience less terrible than the expectation had been; and, + strangely enough, this punishment increased my affection for her + who had inflicted it. It needed all my affection and all my + natural gentleness to prevent me from seeking a renewal of the + same treatment by deserving it, for I had found in the pain and + even in the shame of it an element of sensuality which left more + desire than fear of receiving the experience again from the same + hand. It is true that, as in all this a precocious sexual element + was doubtless mixed, the same chastisement if inflicted by her + brother would not have seemed so pleasant." He goes on to say + that the punishment was inflicted a second time, but that that + time was the last, Mademoiselle Lambercier having apparently + noted the effects it produced, and, henceforth, instead of + sleeping in her room, he was placed in another room and treated + by her as a big boy. "Who would have believed," he adds, "that + this childish punishment, received at the age of 8 from the hand + of a young woman of 30, would have determined my tastes, my + desires, my passions, for the rest of my life?" He remarks that + this strange taste drove him almost to madness, but maintained + the purity of his morals, and the joys of love existed for him + chiefly in imagination. (J.J. Rousseau, _Les Confessions_, partie + i, livre i.) It will be seen how all the favoring conditions of + fear, shame, and precocious sexuality were here present in an + extremely sensitive child destined to become the greatest + emotional force of his century, and receptive to influences which + would have had no permanent effect on any ordinary child. (When, + as occasionally happens, the first sexual feelings are + experienced under the stimulation of whipping in normal children, + no permanent perversion necessarily follows; Moll mentions that + he knows such cases, _Zeitschrift fuer Paedagogie, Psychiatrie, und + Pathologie_, 1901.) It may be added that it is, perhaps, not + fanciful to see a certain inevitableness in the fact that on + Rousseau's highly sensitive and receptive temperament it was a + masochistic germ that fell and fructified, while on Regis's + subject, with his more impulsive ancestral antecedents, a + sadistic germ found favorable soil. + + It may be noted that in Regis's sadistic case the little girl who + was the boy's playmate found scarcely less pleasure in the + passive part of whipping than he found in the active. There is + ample evidence to show that this is very often the case, and that + the attractiveness of the idea of being whipped often even arises + spontaneously in children. Lombroso (_La Donna Delinquente_, p. + 404) refers to a girl of 7 who had voluptuous pleasure in being + whipped, and Hammer (_Monatschrift fuer Harnkrankheiten_, 1906, p. + 398) speaks of a young girl who similarly experienced pleasure in + punishment by whipping. Krafft-Ebing records the case of a girl + of between 6 and 8 years of age, never at that time having been + whipped or seen anyone else whipped, who spontaneously + acquired--how she did not know--the desire to be castigated in + this manner. It gave her very great pleasure to imagine a woman + friend doing this to her. She never desired to be whipped by a + man, though there was no trace of inversion, and she never + masturbated until the age of 24, when a marriage engagement was + broken off. At the age of 10 this longing passed away before it + was ever actually realized. (Krafft-Ebing, _Psychopathia + Sexualis_, eighth edition, p. 136.) + + In the case of another young woman described by + Krafft-Ebing--where there was neurasthenia with other minor + morbid conditions in the family, but the girl herself appears to + have been sound--the desire to be whipped existed from a very + early age. She traced it to the fact that when she was 5 years + old a friend of her father's playfully placed her across his + knees and pretended to whip her. Since then she has always longed + to be caned, but to her great regret the wish has never been + realized. She longs to be the slave of a man whom she loves: + "Lying in fancy before him, he puts one foot on my neck while I + kiss the other. I revel in the idea of being whipped by him and + imagine different scenes in which he beats me. I take the blows + as so many tokens of love; he is at first extremely kind and + tender, but then in the excess of his love he beats me. I fancy + that to beat me for love's sake gives him the highest pleasure." + Sometimes she imagines that she is his slave, but not his female + slave, for every woman may be her husband's slave. She is of + proud and independent nature in all other matters, and to imagine + herself a man who consents to be a slave gives her a more + satisfying sense of humiliation. She does not understand that + these manifestations are of a sexual nature. (Krafft-Ebing, + _Psychopathia Sexualis_, English translation of tenth edition, p. + 189.) + + Sometimes a woman desires to take the active part in whipping. + Thus Marandon de Montyel records the case of a girl of 19, + hereditarily neuropathic (her father was alcoholic), but very + intelligent and good-hearted, who had never been whipped or seen + anyone whipped. At this age, however, she happened to visit a + married friend who was just about to punish her boy of 9 by + whipping him with a wet towel. The girl spectator was much + interested, and though the boy screamed and struggled she + experienced a new sensation she could not define. "At every + stroke," she said, "a strange shiver went through all my body + from my brain to my heels." She would like to have whipped him + herself and felt sorry when it was over. She could not forget the + scene and would dream of herself whipping a boy. At last the + desire became irresistible and she persuaded a boy of 12, whom + she was very fond of, and who was much attached to her, to let + her whip him on the naked nates. She did this so ferociously that + he at last fainted. She was overcome by grief and remorse. + (Marandon de Montyel, _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, + Jan., 1906, p. 30.) + + Although masochism in a pronounced degree may be said to be rare + in women, the love of active flagellation, and sadistic impulses + generally are not uncommon among them. Bloch believes they are + especially common among English women. Cases occur from time to + time of extreme harshness, cruelty, degrading punishment, and + semi-starvation inflicted upon children. The accused are most + usually women, and when a man and woman in conjunction are + accused it appears generally to have been the woman who played + the more active part. But it is rarely demonstrated in these + cases that the cruelty exercised had a definite sexual origin. + There is nothing, for instance, to indicate true sadism in the + famous English case in the eighteenth century of Mrs. Brownrigg + (Bloch, _Geschlechtsleben in England_, vol. ii, p. 425). It may + well be, however, in many of these cases that the real motive is + sexual, although latent and unconscious. The normal sexual + impulse in women is often obscured and disguised, and it would + not be surprising if the perverse instinct is so likewise. + + It is noteworthy that a passion for whipping may be aroused by + contact with a person who desires to be whipped. This is + illustrated by the following case which has been communicated to + me: "K. is a Jew, about 40 years of age, apparently normal. + Nothing is known of his antecedents. He is a manufacturer with + several shops. S., an Englishwoman, aged 25, entered his service; + she is illegitimate, believed to have been reared in a brothel + kept by her mother, is prepossessing in appearance. On entering + K.'s service S. was continually negligent and careless. This so + provoked K. that on one occasion he struck her. She showed great + pleasure and confessed that her blunder had been deliberately + intended to arouse him to physical violence. At her suggestion K. + ultimately consented to thrash her. This operation took place in + K.'s office, S. stripping for the purpose, and the leather + driving band from a sewing-machine was used. S. manifested + unmistakable pleasure during the flagellation, and connection + occurred after it. These thrashings were repeated at frequent + intervals, and K. found a growing liking for the operation on his + own part. Once, at the suggestion of S., a girl of 13 employed by + K. was thrashed by both K. and S. alternately. The child + complained to her parents and K. made a money payment to them to + avoid scandal, the parents agreeing to keep silence. Other women + (Jewish tailoresses) employed by K. were subsequently thrashed by + him. He asserts that they enjoyed the experience. Mrs. K., + discovering her husband's infatuation for S., commenced divorce + proceedings. S. consented to leave the country at K.'s request, + but returned almost immediately and was kept in hiding until the + decree was granted. The mutual infatuation of K. and S. + continues, though K. asserts that he cares less for her than + formerly. Flagellation has, however, now become a passion with + him, though he declares that the practice was unknown to him + before he met S. His great fear is that he will kill S. during + one of these operations. He is convinced that S. is not an + isolated case, and that all women enjoy flagellation. He claims + that the experiences of the numerous women whom he has now + thrashed bear out this opinion; one of them is a wealthy woman + separated from her husband, and is now infatuated with K." + + Flagellation, more especially in its masochistic form, is + sometimes associated with true inversion. Moll presents the case + of a young inverted woman of 26, showing, indeed, many other + minor sexual anomalies, who is sexually excited when beaten with + a switch. A whip would not do, and the blows must only be on the + nates; she cannot imagine being beaten by a small woman. She has + often in this way been beaten by a friend, who should be naked at + the time, and must submit afterward to cunnilinctus. (Moll, + _Kontraere Sexualempfindung_ third edition, p. 568.) + + In the preceding case there were no masochistic ideas; it is + likely that in such a case beating is desired largely on account + of that purely physical effect to which attention has already + been called. In the same way self-beating with a switch or whip + has sometimes been spontaneously discovered as a method of + self-excitement preliminary to masturbation. I am acquainted with + a lady of much intellectual ability, sexually normal, who made + this discovery at the age of 18, and practised it for a time. + Professor Reverdin, also, speaks of the case of a young girl + under his care who, after having exhausted all the resources of + her intelligence, finally discovered that the climax of enjoyment + was best reached by violently whipping her own buttocks and + thighs. She had invented for this purpose a whip composed of + twelve cords each of which terminated in a large chestnut-burr + provided with its spines. (A. Reverdin, _Revue Medicale de la + Suisse Romande_, January 20, 1888, p. 17.) + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[107] The discipline or scourge was classed with fasting as a method of +mastering the flesh and of penance. See, e.g., Lea, _History of Auricular +Confession_, vol. ii, p. 122. For many centuries bishops and priests used +themselves to apply the discipline to their penitents. At first it was +applied to the back; later, especially in the case of female penitents, it +was frequently applied to the nates. Moreover, partial or complete nudity +came to be frequently demanded, the humiliation thereby caused being +pleasant in the sight of God. + +[108] Dulaure, _Des Divinites Generatrices_, ch. xv; Lea, _History of +Sacerdotal Celibacy_, 3d ed., vol. ii, p. 278; Kiernan, "Asceticism as an +Auto-erotism," _Alienist and Neurologist_, Aug., 1911. + +[109] This is the opinion of Loewenfeld, _Ueber die Sexuelle Konstitution_, +p. 43. + +[110] Thus, Duehren (Iwan Bloch) remarks (_Der Marquis de Sade und Seine +Zeit_, 1901, p. 211): "It is well known that England is today the classic +land of sexual flagellation." See the same author's _Geschlechtsleben in +England_, vol. ii, ch. vi. In America it appears also to be common, and +Kiernan mentions that in advertisements of Chicago "massage shops" there +often appears the announcement: "Flagellation a Specialty." The reports of +police inspectors in eighteenth century France show how common +flagellation then was in Paris. It may be added that various men of +distinguished intellectual ability of recent times and earlier are +reported as addicted to passive flagellation; this was the case with +Helvetius. + +[111] A full bibliography of flagellation would include many hundred +items. The more important works on this subject, in connection with the +sexual impulse, are enumerated by Eulenburg, in his _Sadismus und +Masochismus_. An elaborate history of flagellation generally is now being +written by Georg Collas, _Geschichte des Flagellantismus_, vol. i, 1912. + +[112] Loewenfeld, _Ueber die Sexuelle Konstitution_, p. 43. + +[113] _Archiv fuer Kriminal-Anthropologie_, 1909, p. 361. He brings forward +the evidence of a reliable and cultured man who at one time sought to +obtain the pleasures of passive sexual flagellation. But in spite of his +expectation and good will the only result was to disperse every trace of +sexual desire. + +[114] E.g., Kiefer, _Zeitschrift fuer Sexualwissenschaft_, Aug., 1908. + +[115] Fere, _Revue de Medecine_, August, 1900. In this paper Fere brings +together many interesting facts concerning flagellation in ancient times. + +[116] Schmidt-Heuert (_Monatschrift fuer Harnkrankheiten_, 1906, ht. 7) +argues that it is not so much the actual use of the rod as playful, +threatening and mysterious suggestions playing around it which nowadays +gives it sexual fascination. + +[117] Moll (_Untersuchungen ueber die Libido Sexualis_, Bd. 1, p. 18) +points out that these emotions frequently suffice to cause sexual +emissions in schoolboys. + +[118] As Eulenburg truly points out, the circumstances attending the +whipping of a woman may be sexually attractive, even in the absence of any +morbid impulse. Such circumstances are "the sight of naked feminine charms +and especially--in the usual mode of flagellation--of those parts which +possess for the sexual epicure a peculiar esthetic attraction; the idea of +treating a loved, or at all events desired, person as a child, of having +her in complete subjection and being able to dispose of her despotically; +and finally the immediate results of whipping: the changes in skin-color, +the to and fro movements which simulate or anticipate the initial +phenomena of coitus." (Eulenburg, _Sexuale Neuropathie_, p. 121.) + +[119] See the article on Udall in the _Dictionary of National Biography_. + + + + +IV. + +The Impulse to Strangle the Object of Sexual Desire--The Wish to be +Strangled--Respiratory Disturbance the Essential Element in this Group of +Phenomena--The Part Played by Respiratory Excitement in the Process of +Courtship--Swinging and Suspension--The Attraction Exerted by the Idea of +being Chained and Fettered. + + +There is another impulse which it may be worth while to consider briefly +here, for the sake of the light it throws on the relationship between love +and pain. I allude to the impulse to strangle the object of sexual desire, +and to the corresponding craving to be strangled. Cases have been recorded +in which this impulse was so powerful that men have actually strangled +women at the moment of coitus.[120] Such cases are rare; but, as a mere +idea, the thought of strangling a woman appears to be not infrequently +associated with sexual emotion. We must probably regard it as, in the +main,--with whatever subsidiary elements,--an aspect of that physical +seizure, domination, and forcible embrace of the female which is one of +the primitive elements of courtship.[121] + +The corresponding idea--the pleasurable connection of the thought of being +strangled with sexual emotion--appears to occur still more frequently, +perhaps especially in women. Here we seem to have, as in the case of +whipping, a combination of a physical with a psychic element. Not only is +the idea attractive, but, as a matter of fact, strangulation, suffocation, +or any arrest of respiration, even when carried to the extent of producing +death, may actually provoke emission, as is observed after death by +hanging.[122] It is noteworthy that, as Eulenburg remarks, the method of +treating diseases of the spinal cord by suspension--a method much in vogue +a few years ago--often produced sexual excitement.[123] In brothels, it is +said, some of the clients desire to be suspended vertically by a cord +furnished with pads.[124] A playful attempt to throttle her on the part of +her lover is often felt by a woman as pleasurable, though it may not +necessarily produce definite sexual excitement. Sometimes, however, this +feeling becomes so strong that it must be regarded as an actual +perversion, and I have been told of a woman who is indifferent to the +ordinary sexual embrace; her chief longing is to be throttled, and she +will do anything to have her neck squeezed by her lover till her eyeballs +bulge.[125] + + "I think if I could be left my present feelings," a lady writes, + "and be changed into a male imbecile,--that is, given a man's + strength, but deprived, to a large extent, of reasoning power,--I + might very likely act in the apparently cruel way they do. And + this partly because many of their actions appeal to me on the + passive side. The idea of being _strangled_ by a person I love + does. The great sensitiveness of one's throat and neck come in + here as well as the loss of breath. Once when I was about to be + separated from a man I cared for I put his hands on my throat and + implored him to kill me. It was a moment of madness, which helps + me to understand the feelings of a person always insane. Even now + that I am cool and collected I know that if I were deeply in love + with a man who I thought was going to kill me, especially in that + way, I would make no effort to save myself beforehand, though, of + course, in the final moments nature would assert herself without + my volition. What makes the horror of such cases in insanity is + the fact of the love being left out. But I think I find no + greater difficulty in picturing the mental attitude of a sadistic + lunatic than that of a normal man who gets pleasure out of women + for whom he has no love." + +The imagined pleasure of being strangled by a lover brings us to a group +of feelings which would seem to be not unconnected with respiratory +elements. I refer to the pleasurable excitement experienced by some in +suspension, swinging, restraint, and fetters. Strangulation is the extreme +and most decided type of this group of imagined or real situations, in all +of which a respiratory disturbance seems to be an essential element.[126] + +In explaining these phenomena we have to remark that respiratory +excitement has always been a conspicuous part of the whole process of +tumescence and detumescence, of the struggles of courtship and of its +climax, and that any restraint upon respiration, or, indeed, any restraint +upon muscular and emotional activity generally, tends to heighten the +state of sexual excitement associated with such activity. + + I have elsewhere, when studying the spontaneous solitary + manifestation of the sexual instinct (_Auto-erotism_, in vol. i + of these _Studies_), referred to the pleasurably emotional, and + sometimes sexual, effects of swinging and similar kinds of + movement. It is possible that there is a certain significance in + the frequency with which the eighteenth-century French painters, + who lived at a time when the refinements of sexual emotion were + carefully sought out, have painted women in the act of swinging. + Fragonard mentions that in 1763 a gentleman invited him into the + country, with the request to paint his mistress, especially + stipulating that she should be depicted in a swing. The same + motive was common among the leading artists of that time. It may + be said that this attitude was merely a pretext to secure a + vision of ankles, but that result could easily have been attained + without the aid of the swing. + + I may here quote, as bearing on this and allied questions, a + somewhat lengthy communication from a lady to whom I am indebted + for many subtle and suggestive remarks on the whole of this group + of manifestations:-- + + "With regard to the connection between swinging and suspension, + perhaps the physical basis of it is the loss of breath. Temporary + loss of breath with me produces excitement. Swinging at a height + or a fall from a height would cause loss of breath; in a state of + suspension the imagination would suggest the idea of falling and + the attendant loss of breath. People suffering from lung disease + are often erotically inclined, and anesthetics affect the + breathing. Men also seem to like the idea of suspension, but from + the active side. One man used to put his wife on a high swinging + shelf when she displeased him, and my husband told me once he + would like to suspend me to a crane we were watching at work, + though I have never mentioned my own feeling on this point to + him. Suspension is often mentioned in descriptions of torture. + Beatrice Cenci was hung up by her hair and the recently murdered + Queen of Korea was similarly treated. In Tolstoi's _My Husband + and I_ the girl says she would like her husband to hold her over + a precipice. That passage gave me great pleasure.[127] + + "The idea of slipping off an inclined plane gives me the same + sensation. I always feel it on seeing Michael Angelo's 'Night,' + though the slipping look displeases me artistically. I remember + that when I saw the 'Night' first I did feel excited and was + annoyed, and it seemed to me it was the slipping-off look that + gave it; but I think I am now less affected by that idea. Certain + general ideas seem to excite one, but the particular forms under + which they are presented lose their effect and have to be varied. + The sentence mentioned in Tolstoi leaves me now quite cold, but + if I came across the same idea elsewhere, expressed differently, + then it would excite me. I am very capricious in the small + things, and I think women are so more than men. The idea of + slipping down a plank formerly produced excitement with me; now + it has a less vivid effect, though the idea of loss of breath + still produces excitement. The idea of the plank does not now + affect me unless there is a certain amount of drapery. I think, + therefore, that the feeling must come in part from the + possibility of the drapery catching on some roughness of the + surface of the slope, and so producing pressure on the sexual + organs. The effect is still produced, however, even without any + clothing, if the slope is supposed to end in a deep drop, so that + the idea of falling is strongly presented. I cannot recollect any + early associations that would tend to explain these feelings, + except that jumping from a height, which I used frequently to do + as a child, has a tendency to create excitement. + + "With me, I may add, it is when I cannot express myself, or am + trying to understand what I feel is beyond my grasp, that the + first stage of sexual excitement results. For instance, I never + get excited in thinking over sexual questions, because my ideas, + correct or incorrect, are fairly clear and definite. But I often + feel sexually excited over that question of the inheritance of + acquired characteristics, not because I can't decide between the + two sets of evidence, but because I don't feel confident of + having fully grasped the true significance of either. This + feeling of want of power, mental or physical, always has the same + effect. I feel it if my eyes are blindfolded or my hands tied. I + don't like to see the Washington Post dance, in which the man + stands behind the woman and holds her hands, on that account. If + he held her wrists the feeling would be stronger, as her apparent + helplessness would be increased. The nervous irritability that is + caused by being under restraint seems to manifest itself in that + way, while in the case of mental disability the excitement, which + should flow down a mental channel, being checked, seems to take a + physical course instead. + + "Possibly this would help to explain masochistic sexual feelings. + A physical cause working in the present would be preferable as an + explanation to a psychological cause to be traced back through + heredity to primitive conditions. I believe such feelings are + very common in men as well as in women, only people do not care + to admit them, as a rule." + +The idea of being chained and fettered appears to be not uncommonly +associated with pleasurable sexual feelings, for I have met with numerous +cases in both men and women, and it not infrequently coexists with a +tendency to inversion. It often arises at a very early age, and it is of +considerable interest because we cannot account for its frequency by any +chance association nor by any actual experiences. It would appear to be a +purely psychic fantasia founded on the elementary physical fact that +restraint of emotion, like suspension, produces a heightening of emotion. +In any case the spontaneous character of such ideas and emotions in +children of both sexes suffices to show that they must possess a very +definite organic basis. + + In one of the histories (X) contained in Appendix B at the end of + the present volume a lady describes how, as a child, she reveled + in the idea of being chained and tortured, these ideas appearing + to rise spontaneously. In another case, that of A.N. (for the + most part reproduced in "Erotic Symbolism," in vol. v of these + _Studies_), whose ideals are inverted and who is also affected by + boot-fetichism, the idea of fetters is very attractive. In this + case self-excitement was produced at a very early age, without + the use of the hands, by strapping the legs together. We can, + however, scarcely explain away the idea of fetters in this case + as merely the result of an early association, for it may well be + argued that the idea led to this method of self-excitement. "The + mere idea of fetters," this subject writes, "produces the + greatest excitement, and the sight of pictures representing such + things is a temptation. The reading of books dealing with prison + life, etc., anywhere where physical restraint is treated of, is a + temptation. The temptation is aggravated when the picture + represents the person booted. I suppose all this will have been + intensified in my case by my practices as a child. But why should + a child of 6 do such things unless it were a natural instinct in + him? Nobody showed me; I have never mentioned such things to + anyone. I used to read historical romances for the pleasure of + reading of people being put in prison, in fetters, and tortured, + and always envied them. I feel now that I should like to undergo + the sensation. If I could get anyone to humor me without losing + their self-respect, I should jump at the opportunity. I have been + most powerfully excited by visiting an old Australian + convict-ship, where all the means of restraint are shown; I have + been attracted to it night after night, wanting, but not daring + to ask, to be allowed to have a practical experience." + + Stcherbak, of Warsaw, has recorded a case which resembles that of + A.N., but there was no inversion and the attraction of fetters + was active rather than passive; the subject desired to fetter and + not to be fettered. It is possible that this difference is not + fundamental, though Stcherbak regards the case as one of + fetichism of sadistic origin ("Contribution a l'Etude des + Perversions Sexuelles," _Archives de Neurologie_, Oct., 1907). + The subject was a highly intelligent though neurasthenic youth, + who from the age of 5 had been deeply interested in criminals who + were fettered and sent to prison. The fate of Siberian prisoners + was a frequent source of prolonged meditations. It was the + fettering which alone interested him, and he spent much time in + trying to imagine the feelings of the fettered prisoners, and he + often imagined that he was himself a prisoner in fetters. (This + seems to indicate that the impulse was in its origin masochistic + as much as sadistic, and better described as algolagnia than as + sadism.) He delighted in stories and pictures of fettered + persons. At the age of 15 the sex of the fettered person became + important and he was interested chiefly in fettered women. A new + element also appeared; he was attracted to well-dressed women and + especially to those wearing elegant shoes, delighting to imagine + them fettered. He fastened his own feet together with chains, + attempting to walk about his room in this condition, but + experienced comparatively little pleasure in this way. At the age + of 15 he met a lady 10 years older than himself and of great + intelligence. As he began to know her more intimately she allowed + him to take liberties with her; he fastened her hands behind her + back, and this caused him a violent but delicious emotion which + he had never experienced before. Next time he fastened her feet + together as well as her hands; as he did so her shoes slightly + touched his sexual organs; this caused erection and ejaculation, + accompanied by the most acute sexual pleasure he had ever felt. + He had no wish to see her naked or to uncover himself, and as + long as this relationship lasted he had no abnormal thoughts at + other times, or in connection with other people. He never + masturbated, and his sexual dreams were of fettered men or women. + Stcherbak discusses the case at length and considers that it is + essentially an example of sadism, on the ground that the impulse + of fettering was prompted by the desire to humiliate. There is, + however, no evidence of any such desire, and, as a matter of + fact, no humiliation was effected. The primary and fundamental + element in this and similar cases is an almost abstract sexual + fascination in the idea of restraint, whether endured, inflicted, + or merely witnessed or imagined; the feet become the chief focus + of this fascination, and the basis on which a foot-fetichism or + shoe-fetichism tends to arise, because restraint of the feet + produces a more marked effect than restraint of the hands. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[120] An attenuated and symbolic form of this impulse is seen in the +desire to strangle birds with the object of stimulating or even satisfying +sexual desire. Prostitutes are sometimes acquainted with men who bring a +live pigeon with them to be strangled just before intercourse. Lanphear, +of St. Louis (_Alienist and Neurologist_, May, 1907, p. 204) knew a woman, +having learned masturbation in a convent school, who was only excited and +not satisfied by coitus with her husband, and had to rise from bed, catch +and caress a chicken, and finally wring its neck, whereupon orgasm +occurred. + +[121] Even young girls, however, may experience pleasure in the playful +attempt to strangle. Thus a lady speaking of herself at the time of +puberty, when she was in the habit of masturbating, writes +(_Sexual-Probleme_, Aug., 1909, p. 636): "I acquired a desire to seize +people, especially girls, by the throat, and I enjoyed their way of +screaming out." + +[122] Godard observed that when animals are bled, or felled, as well as +strangled, there is often abundant emission, rich in spermatozoa, but +without erection, though accompanied by the same movements of the tail as +during copulation. Robin (art. "Fecondation," _Dictionnaire Encyclopedique +des Sciences Medicales_), who quotes this observation, has the following +remarks on this subject: "Ejaculation occurring at the moment when the +circulation, maintained artificially, stops is a fact of significance. +It shows how congestive conditions--or inversely anemic +conditions--constitute organic states sufficient to set in movement the +activity of the nerve-centers, as is the case for muscular +contractility.... Everything leads us to believe that at the moment when +the motor nervous action takes place the corresponding sensitive centers +also come into play." It must be added that Minovici, in his elaborate +study of death by hanging ("Etude sur la Pendaison," _Archives +d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, 1905, especially p. 791 et seq.), concludes +that the turgescence of penis and flow of spermatic fluid (sometimes only +prostatic secretion) usually observed in these cases is purely passive and +generally, though not always, of post-mortem occurrence. There is, +therefore, no sexual pleasure in death by hanging, and persons who have +been rescued at the last moment have experienced no voluptuous sensations. +This was so even in the case, referred to by Minovici, of a man who hanged +himself solely with the object of producing sexual pleasure. + +[123] Eulenburg, _Sexuale Neuropathie_, p. 114. + +[124] Bernaldo de Quiros and Llanos Aguilaniedo (_La Mala Vida en Madrid_, +p. 294) knew the case of a man who found pleasure in lying back on an +inclined couch while a prostitute behind him pulled at a slipknot until he +was nearly suffocated; it was the only way in which he could attain sexual +gratification. + +[125] Arrest of respiration, it may be noted, may accompany strong sexual +excitement, as it may some other emotional states; one recalls passages in +the _Arabian Nights_ in which we are told of ladies who at the sight of a +very beautiful youth "felt their reason leave them, yearned to embrace the +marvelous youth, and _ceased breathing_." Inhibited respiration is indeed, +as Stevens shows ("Study of Attention," _American Journal of Psychology_, +Oct., 1905), a characteristic of all active attention. + +[126] The exact part played by the respiration and even the circulation in +constituting emotional states is still not clear, although various +experiments have been made; see, e.g., Angell and Thompson, "A Study of +the Relations between Certain Organic Processes and Consciousness," +_Psychological Review_, January, 1899. A summary statement of the +relations of the respiration and circulation to emotional states will be +found in Kuelpe's _Outlines of Psychology_, part i, section 2, § 37. + +[127] The words alluded to by my correspondent are as follows: "I needed a +struggle; what I needed was that feeling should guide life, and not that +life should guide feeling. I wanted to go with him to the edge of an abyss +and say: 'Here a step and I will throw myself over; and here a motion and +I have gone to destruction'; and for him, turning pale, to seize me in his +strong arms, hold me back over it till my heart grew cold within me, and +then carry me away wherever he pleased." The whole of the passage in which +these lines occur is of considerable psychological interest. In one +English translation the story is entitled _Family Happiness_. + + + + +V. + +Pain, and Not Cruelty, the Essential Element in Sadism and Masochism--Pain +Felt as Pleasure--Does the Sadist Identify Himself with the Feelings of +his Victim?--The Sadist often a Masochist in Disguise--The Spectacle of +Pain or Struggle as a Sexual Stimulant. + + +In the foregoing rapid survey of the great group of manifestations in +which the sexual emotions come into intimate relationship with pain, it +has become fairly clear that the ordinary division between "sadism" and +"masochism," convenient as these terms may be, has a very slight +correspondence with facts. Sadism and masochism may be regarded as +complementary emotional states; they cannot be regarded as opposed +states.[128] Even De Sade himself, we have seen, can scarcely be regarded +as a pure sadist. A passage in one of his works expressing regret that +sadistic feeling is rare among women, as well as his definite recognition +of the fact that the suffering of pain may call forth voluptuous emotions, +shows that he was not insensitive to the charm of masochistic experience, +and it is evident that a merely blood-thirsty vampire, sane or insane, +could never have retained, as De Sade retained, the undying devotion of +two women so superior in heart and intelligence as his wife and +sister-in-law. Had De Sade possessed any wanton love of cruelty, it would +have appeared during the days of the Revolution, when it was safer for a +man to simulate blood-thirstiness, even if he did not feel it, than to +show humanity. But De Sade distinguished himself at that time not merely +by his general philanthropic activities, but by saving from the scaffold, +at great risk to himself, those who had injured him. It is clear that, +apart from the organically morbid twist by which he obtained sexual +satisfaction in his partner's pain,--a craving which was, for the most +part, only gratified in imaginary visions developed to an inhuman extent +under the influence of solitude,--De Sade was simply, to those who knew +him, "_un aimable mauvais sujet_" gifted with exceptional intellectual +powers. Unless we realize this we run the risk of confounding De Sade and +his like with men of whom Judge Jeffreys was the sinister type. + +It is necessary to emphasize this point because there can be no doubt that +De Sade is really a typical instance of the group of perversions he +represents, and when we understand that it is pain only, and not cruelty, +that is the essential in this group of manifestations we begin to come +nearer to their explanation. The masochist desires to experience pain, but +he generally desires that it should be inflicted in love; the sadist +desires to inflict pain, but in some cases, if not in most, he desires +that it should be felt as love. How far De Sade consciously desired that +the pain he sought to inflict should be felt as pleasure it may not now be +possible to discover, except by indirect inference, but the confessions of +sadists show that such a desire is quite commonly essential. + + I am indebted to a lady for the following communication on the + foregoing aspect of this question: "I believe that, when a person + takes pleasure in inflicting pain, he or she imagines himself or + herself in the victim's place. This would account for the + transmutability of the two sets of feelings. This might be + particularly so in the case of men. A man may not care to lower + his dignity and vanity by putting himself in subjection to a + woman, and he might fear she would feel contempt for him. By + subduing her and subjecting her to passive restraint he would + preserve, even enhance, his own power and dignity, while at the + same time obtaining a reflected pleasure from what he imagined + she was feeling. + + "I think that when I get pleasure out of the idea of subduing + another it is this reflected pleasure I get. And if this is so + one could thus feel more kindly to persons guilty of cruelty, + which has hitherto always seemed the one unpardonable sin. Even + criminals, if it is true that they are themselves often very + insensitive, may, in the excitement of the moment, imagine that + they are only inflicting trifling pain, as it would be to them, + and that their victim's feelings are really pleasurable. The men + I have known most given to inflicting pain are all particularly + tender-hearted when their passions are not in question. I cannot + understand how (as in a case mentioned by Krafft-Ebing) a man + could find any pleasure in binding a girl's hands except by + imagining what he supposed were her feelings, though he would + probably be unconscious that he put himself in her place. + + "As a child I exercised a good deal of authority and influence + over my youngest sister. It used to give me considerable pleasure + to be somewhat arbitrary and severe with her, but, though I never + admitted it to myself or to her, I knew instinctively that she + took pleasure in my treatment. I used to give her childish + lessons, over which I was very strict. I invented catechisms and + chapters of the Bible in which elder sisters were exhorted to + keep their juniors under discipline, and younger sisters were + commanded to give implicit submission and obedience. Some parts + of the _Imitation_ lent themselves to this sort of parody, which + never struck me as in any way irreverent. I used to give her + arbitrary orders to 'exercise her in obedience,' as I told her, + and I used to punish her if she disobeyed me. In all this I was, + _though only half consciously_, guided through my own feelings as + to what I should have liked in her place. For instance, I would + make her put down her playthings and come and repeat a lesson; + but, though she was in appearance having her will subdued to + mine, I always chose a moment when I foresaw she would soon be + tired of play. There was sufficient resistance to make restraint + pleasurable, not enough to render it irksome. In my punishments I + acted on a similar principle. I used to tie her hands behind her + (like the man in Krafft-Ebing's case), but only for a few + moments; I once shut her in a sort of cupboard-room, also for a + very short time. On two or three occasions I completely undressed + her, made her lie down on the bed, tied her hands and feet to the + bedstead, and gave her a slight whipping. I did not wish to hurt + her, only to inflict just enough pain to produce the desire to + move or resist. _My pleasure, a very keen one, came from the + imagined excitement produced by the thwarting of this desire_. + (Are not your own words--that 'emotion' is 'motion in a more or + less arrested form'--an epigrammatic summary of all this, though + in a somewhat different connection?) I did not undress her from + any connection of nakedness with sexual feeling, but simply to + enhance her feeling of helplessness and defenselessness under my + hands. If I were a man and the woman I loved were refractory I + should undress her before finding fault with her. A woman's dress + symbolizes to her the protection civilization affords to the weak + and gives her a fictitious strength. Naked, she is face to face + with primitive conditions, her weakness opposed to the man's + power. Besides, the sense of shame at being naked under the eyes + of a man who regarded her with displeasure would extend itself to + her offense and give him a distinct, though perhaps unfair, + advantage. I used the bristle side of a brush to chastise her + with, as suggesting the greatest amount of severity with the + least possible pain. In fact, my idea was to produce the maximum + of emotion with the minimum of actual discomfort. + + "You must not, however, suppose that at the time I reasoned about + it at all in this way. I was very fond of her, and honestly + believed I was doing it for her good. Had I realized then, as I + do now, that my sole aim and object was physical pleasure, I + believe my pleasure would have ceased; in any case I should not + have felt justified in so treating her. Do I at all persuade you + that my pleasure was a reflection of hers? That it was, I think, + is clear from the fact that I only obtained it when she was + willing to submit. Any _real_ resistance or signs that I was + overpassing the boundary of pleasure in her and urging on pain + without excitement caused me to desist and my own pleasure to + cease. + + "I disclaim all altruism in my dealings with my sister. What + occurs appears to me to be this: A situation appeals to one in + imagination and one at once desires to transfer it to the realms + of fact, being one's self one of the principal actors. If it is + the passive side which appeals to one, one would prefer to be + passive; but if that is not obtainable then one takes the active + part as next best. In either case, however, it is _the + realization of the imagined situation_ that gives the pleasure, + not the other person's pleasure as such, although his or her + supposed pleasure creates the situation. If I were a man it would + afford me great delight to hold a woman over a precipice, even if + she disliked it. The idea appeals to me so strongly that I could + not help _imagining_ her pleasure, though I might _know_ she got + none, and even though she made every demonstration of fear and + dislike of it. The situation so often imagined would have become + a fact. It seems to me I have to say a thing is and is not in the + same breath, but the confusion is only in the words. + + "Let me give you another example: I have a tame pigeon which has + a great affection for me. It sits on my shoulder and squats down + with its wings out as birds do when courting, pecking me to make + me take notice of it, and flickering its wings. I like to hold it + so that it can't move its wings, because I imagine this increases + its excitement. If it struggles, or seems to dislike my holding + it, I let it go. + + "In an early engagement (afterward broken off) my _fiance_ used + to take an evident pleasure in telling me how he would punish me + if I disobeyed him when we were married. Though we had but little + in common mentally, I was frequently struck with the similarity + between his ideas and what my own had been in regard to my + sister. He used his authority over me most capriciously. On one + occasion he would not let me have any supper at a dance. On + another he objected to my drinking black coffee. No day passed + without a command or prohibition on some trifling point. Whenever + he saw, though, that I really disliked the interference or made + any decided resistance, which happened very seldom, he let me + have my own way at once. I cannot but think, when I recall the + various circumstances, that he got a certain pleasure, as I had + done with my sister, by an almost unconscious transference of my + feelings to himself. + + "I find, too, that, when I want a man to say or do to me what + would cause me pleasure and he does not gratify me, I feel an + intense longing to change places, to be the man and make him, as + the woman, feel what I want to feel. Combined with this is a + sense of irritation at not being gratified and a desire to punish + him for my deprivation, for his stupidity in not saying or doing + the right thing. I don't feel any anger at a man not caring for + me, but only for not divining my feelings when he does care. + + "Now let me take another case: that of the man who used to + experience pleasure when surprising a woman making water. (Cf. + _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Nov. 15, 1900.) Here the + woman's embarrassment appears to be a factor; but it seems to me + there must be more than this, as confusion might be produced in + so many other ways, as if she were found bathing, or undressed, + though it might not be so acute. In reality, I fancy she would be + checked in what she was doing, and that the man, perhaps + unconsciously, imagined this check and a resulting excitement. + That such a check does sometimes produce excitement I know from + experience in traveling. If the bladder is not emptied before + connection the pleasure is often more intense. Long before I + understood these things at all I was struck by this quotation: + 'Cette volupte que ressentent les bords de la mer, d'etre + toujours pleins sans jamais deborder?' What would be the effect + on a man of a sudden check at the supreme moment of sexual + pleasure? In reality, I suppose, pain, as the nerves would be at + their full tension and unable to respond to any further stimulus; + but, in imagination, one's nerves are _not_ at their highest + tension, and one imagines an increase or, at any rate, a + prolongation of the pleasurable sensations. Something of all + this, some vague _reflection_ of the woman's possible sensations, + seems to enter in the man's feelings in surprising the woman. In + any case his pleasure in her confusion seems to me a reflection + of her feelings, for the sense of shame and embarrassment before + a man is very exciting, and doubly so if one realizes that the + man enjoys it. Ouida speaks of the 'delicious shame' experienced + by 'Folle Farine.' + + "It seems to me that whenever we are affected by another's + emotion we do practically, though unconsciously, put ourselves in + his place; but we are not always able to gauge accurately its + intensity or to allow for differences between ourselves and + another, and, in the case of pain, it is doubly difficult, as we + can never recall the pain itself, but only the mental effects + upon us of the pain. We cannot even recall the feeling of heat + when we are cold, or _vice versa_, with any degree of vividness. + + "A woman tells me of a man who frequently asks her if she would + not like him to whip her. He is greatly disappointed when she + says she gets no pleasure from it, as it would give him so much + to do it. He cannot believe she experiences none, because he + would enjoy being whipped so keenly if he were a girl. In another + case the man thinks the woman _must_ enjoy suffering, _because_ + he would get intense pleasure from inflicting it! Why is this, + unless he would like it if a woman, and confuses in his mind the + two personalities? All the men I know who are sadistically + inclined admit that if they were women they would like to be + harshly treated. + + "Of course, I quite see there may be many complications; a man's + natural anger at resistance may come in, and also simple, not + sexual, pleasure in acts of crushing, etc. I always feel inclined + to crush anything very soft or a person with very pretty thick + hair, to rub together two shining surfaces, two bits of satin, + etc., apart from any feelings of excitement. My explanation only + refers to that part of sadism which is sexual enjoyment of + another's pain." + + That the foregoing view holds good as regards the traces of + sadism found within the normal limits of sexual emotion has + already been stated. We may also believe that it is true in many + genuinely perverse cases. In this connection reference may be + made to an interesting case, reported by Moll, of a married lady + 23 years of age, with pronounced sadistic feelings. She belongs + to a normal family and is herself apparently quite healthy, a + tall and strongly built person, of feminine aspect, fond of music + and dancing, of more than average intelligence. Her perverse + inclinations commenced obscurely about the age of 14, when she + began to be dominated by the thought of the pleasure it would be + to strike and torture a man, but were not clearly defined until + the age of 18, while at an early age she was fond of teasing and + contradicting men, though she never experienced the same impulse + toward women. She has never, except in a very slight degree, + actually carried her ideas into practice, either with her husband + or anyone else, being restrained, she says, by a feeling of + shame. Coitus, though frequently practised, gives her no + pleasure, seems, indeed, somewhat disgusting to her, and has + never produced orgasm. Her own ideas, also, though very + pleasurable to her, have not produced definite sexual excitement, + except on two or three occasions, when they had been combined + with the influence of alcohol. She frankly regrets that modern + social relationship makes it impossible for her to find sexual + satisfaction in the only way in which such satisfaction would be + possible to her. + + Her chief delight would be to torture the man she was attached to + in every possible way; to inflict physical pain and mental pain + would give her equal pleasure. "I would bite him till the blood + came, as I have often done to my husband. At that moment all + sympathy for him would disappear." She frequently identifies her + imaginary lover with a real man to whom she feels that she could + be much more attracted than she is to her husband. She imagines + to herself that she makes appointments with this lover, and that + she reaches the rendezvous in her carriage, but only after her + lover has been waiting for her a very long time in the cold. Then + he must feel all her power, he must be her slave with no will of + his own, and she would torture him with various implements as + seemed good to her. She would use a rod, a riding-whip, bind him + and chain him, and so on. But it is to be noted that she declares + "_this could, in general, only give me enjoyment if the man + concerned endured such torture with a certain pleasure_. He must, + indeed, writhe with pain, but at the same time be in a state of + sexual ecstasy, followed by satisfaction." His pleasure must not, + however, be so great that it overwhelms his pain; if it did, her + own pleasure would vanish, and she has found witty her husband + that when in kissing him her bites have given him much pleasure + she has at once refrained. + + It is further noteworthy that only the pain she herself had + inflicted would give her pleasure. If the lover suffered pain + from an accident or a wound she is convinced that she would be + full of sympathy for him. Outside her special sexual perversion + she is sympathetic and very generous. (Moll, _Kontraere + Sexualempfindung_, 1899, pp. 507-510.) + + This case is interesting as an uncomplicated example of almost + purely ideal sadism. It is interesting to note the feelings of + the sadist subject toward her imaginary lover's feelings. It is + probably significant that, while his pleasure is regarded as + essential, his pain is regarded as even more essential, and the + resulting apparent confusion may well be of the very essence of + the whole phenomenon. The pleasure of the imaginary lover must be + secured or the manifestation passes out of the sexual sphere; but + his pleasure must, at all costs, be conciliated with his pain, + for in the sadist's eyes the victim's pain has become a vicarious + form of sexual emotion. That, at the same time, the sadist + desires to give pleasure rather than pain finds confirmation in + the fact that he often insists on pleasure being feigned even + though it is not felt. Some years ago a rich Jewish merchant + became notorious for torturing girls with whom he had + intercourse; his performances acquired for him the title of + "_l'homme qui pique_," and led to his prosecution. It was his + custom to spend some hours in sticking pins into various parts of + the girl's body, but it was essential that she should wear a + smiling face throughout the proceedings. (Hamon, _La France + Sociale et Politique_, 1891, p. 445 et seq.) + +We have thus to recognize that sadism by no means involves any love of +inflicting pain outside the sphere of sexual emotion, and is even +compatible with a high degree of general tender-heartedness. We have also +to recognize that even within the sexual sphere the sadist by no means +wishes to exclude the victim's pleasure, and may even regard that pleasure +as essential to his own satisfaction. We have, further, to recognize that, +in view of the close connection between sadism and masochism, it is highly +probable that in some cases the sadist is really a disguised masochist and +enjoys his victim's pain because he identifies himself with that pain. + +But there is a further group of cases, and a very important group, on +account of the light it throws on the essential nature of these phenomena, +and that is the group in which the thought or the spectacle of pain acts +as a sexual stimulant, without the subject identifying himself clearly +either with the inflicter or the sufferer of the pain. Such cases are +sometimes classed as sadistic; but this is incorrect, for they might just +as truly be called masochistic. The term algolagnia might properly be +applied to them (and Eulenburg now classes them as "ideal algolagnia"), +for they reveal an undifferentiated connection between sexual excitement +and pain not developed into either active or passive participation. Such +feelings may arise sporadically in persons in whom no sadistic or +masochistic perversion can be said to exist, though they usually appear in +individuals of neurotic temperament. Casanova describes an instance of +this association which came immediately under his own eyes at the torture +and execution of Damiens in 1757.[129] W.G. Stearns knew a man (having +masturbated and had intercourse to excess) who desired to see his wife +delivered of a child, and finally became impotent without this idea. He +witnessed many deliveries and especially obtained voluptuous gratification +at the delivery of a primipara when the suffering was greatest.[130] A +very trifling episode may, however, suffice. In one case known to me a +man, neither sadistic nor masochistic in his tendencies, when sitting +looking out of his window saw a spider come out of its hole to capture and +infold a fly which had just been caught in its web; as he watched the +process he became conscious of a powerful erection, an occurrence which +had never taken place under such circumstances before.[131] Under favoring +conditions some incident of this kind at an early age may exert a decisive +influence on the sexual life. Tambroni, of Ferrara, records the case of a +boy of 11 who first felt voluptuous emotions on seeing in an illustrated +journal the picture of a man trampling on his daughter; ever afterward he +was obliged to evoke this image in masturbation or coitus.[132] An +instructive case has been recorded by Fere. In this case a lady of +neurotic heredity on one side, and herself liable to hysteria, experienced +her first sexual crisis at the age of 13, not long after menstruation had +become established, and when she had just recovered from an attack of +chorea. Her old nurse, who had remained in the service of the family, had +a ne'er-do-well son who had disappeared for some years and had just now +suddenly returned and thrown himself, crying and sobbing, at the knees of +his mother, who thrust him away. The young girl accidentally witnessed +this scene. The cries and the sobs provoked in her a sexual excitement she +had never experienced before. She rushed away in surprise to the next +room, where, however, she could still hear the sobs, and soon she was +overcome by a sexual orgasm. She was much troubled at this occurrence, and +at the attraction which she now experienced for a man she had never seen +before and whom she had always looked upon as a worthless vagabond. +Shortly afterward she had an erotic dream concerning a man who sobbed at +her knees. Later she again saw the nurse's son, but was agreeably +surprised to find that, though a good-looking youth, he no longer caused +her any emotion, and he disappeared from her mind, though the erotic +dreams concerning an unknown sobbing man still occurred rather frequently. +During the next ten years she suffered from various disorders of more or +less hysterical character, and, although not disinclined to the idea of +marriage, she refused all offers, for no man attracted her. At the age of +23, when staying in the Pyrenees, she made an excursion into Spain, and +was present at a bull-fight. She was greatly excited by the charges of the +bull, especially when the charge was suddenly arrested.[133] She felt no +interest in any of the men who took part in the performance or were +present; no man was occupying her imagination. But she experienced sexual +sensations and accompanying general exhilaration, which were highly +agreeable. After one bull had charged successively several times the +orgasm took place. She considered the whole performance barbarous, but +could not resist the desire to be present at subsequent bull-fights, a +desire several times gratified, always with the same results, which were +often afterward repeated in dreams. From that time she began to take an +interest in horse-races, which she now found produced the same effect, +though not to the same degree, especially when there was a fall. She +subsequently married, but never experienced sexual satisfaction except +under these abnormal circumstances or in dreams.[134] + +As the foregoing case indicates, horses, and especially running or +struggling horses, sometimes have the same effect in stimulating the +sexual emotions, especially on persons predisposed by neurotic heredity, +as we have found that the spectacle of pain possesses. A medical +correspondent in New Zealand tells me of a patient of his own, a young +carpenter of 26, not in good health, who had never masturbated or had +connection with a woman. He lived in a room overlooking a livery-stable +yard where was kept, among other animals, a large black horse. Nearly +every night he had a dream in which he seemed to be pursuing this large +black horse, and when he caught it, which he invariably did, there was a +copious emission. A holiday in the country and tonic treatment dispelled +the dreams and reduced the nocturnal emissions to normal frequency. Fere +has recorded a case of a boy, of neuropathic heredity, who, when 14 years +of age, was one day about to practise mutual masturbation with another boy +of his own age. They were seated on a hillside overlooking a steep road, +and at this moment a heavy wagon came up the road drawn by four horses, +which struggled painfully up, encouraged by the cries and the whip of the +driver. This sight increased the boy's sexual excitement, which reached +its climax when one of the horses suddenly fell. He had never before +experienced such intense excitement, and always afterward a similar +spectacle of struggling horses produced a similar effect.[135] + +In this connection reference may be made to the frequency with which +dreams of struggling horses occur in connection with disturbance or +disease of the heart. In such cases it is clear that the struggling horses +seem to dream-consciousness to embody and explain the panting struggles to +which the heart is subjected. They become, as it were, a visual symbol of +the cardiac oppression. In much the same way, it would appear, under the +influence of sexual excitement, in which cardiac disturbance is one of the +chief constituent elements, the struggling horses became a sexual symbol, +and, having attained that position, they are henceforth alone adequate to +produce sexual excitement. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[128] This opinion appears to be in harmony with the conclusions of +Eulenburg, who has devoted special study to De Sade, and points out that +the ordinary conception of "sadism" is much too narrow. (Eulenburg, +_Sexuale Neuropathie_, 1895, p. 110 et seq.) + +[129] Casanova, _Memoires_, vol. viii, pp. 74-76. Goncourt in his +_Journal_, under date of April, 1862 (vol. ii, p. 27), tells a story of an +Englishman who engaged a room overlooking a scaffold where a murderer was +to be hanged, proposing to take a woman with him and to avail himself of +the excitement aroused by the scene. This scheme was frustrated by the +remission of the death penalty. + +[130] _Alienist and Neurologist_, May, 1907, p. 204. + +[131] This spectacle of the spider and the fly seems indeed to be +specially apt to exert a sexual influence. I have heard of a precisely +similar case in a man of intellectual distinction, and another in a lady +who acknowledged to a feeling of "exquisite pleasure," on one occasion, at +the mere sound of the death agony of a fly in a spider's web. + +[132] Quoted by Obici and Marchesini, _Le Amicizie di Collegio_, p. 245. + +[133] It may be noted that we have already several times encountered this +increase of excitement produced by arrest of movement. The effect is +produced whether the arrest is witnessed or is actually experienced. "A +man can increase a woman's excitement," a lady writes, "by forbidding her +to respond in any way to his caresses. It is impossible to remain quite +passive for more than a few seconds, but, during these few, excitement is +considerably augmented." In a similar way I have been told of a man of +brilliant intellectual ability who very seldom has connection with a woman +without getting her to compress with her hand the base of the urethral +canal to such an extent as to impede the passage of the semen. On +withdrawal of the hand copious emission occurs, but it is the shock of the +arrest caused by the constriction which gives him supreme pleasure. He has +practised this method for years without evil results. + +[134] Fere, "Le Sadisme aux Courses de Taureaux," _Revue de medecine_, +August, 1900. + +[135] Fere, _L'Instinct sexuel_, p. 255. + + + + +VI. + +Why is Pain a Sexual Stimulant?--It is the Most Effective Method of +Arousing Emotion--Anger and Fear the Most Powerful Emotions--Their +Biological Significance in Courtship--Their General and Special Effects in +Stimulating the Organism--Grief as a Sexual Stimulant--The Physiological +Mechanism of Fatigue Renders Pain Pleasurable. + + +We have seen that the distinction between "sadism" and "masochism" cannot +be maintained; not only was even De Sade himself something of a masochist +and Sacher-Masoch something of a sadist, but between these two extreme +groups of phenomena there is a central group in which the algolagnia is +neither active nor passive. "Sadism" and "masochism" are simply convenient +clinical terms for classes of manifestations which quite commonly occur in +the same person. We have further found that--as might have been +anticipated in view of the foregoing result--it is scarcely correct to use +the word "cruelty" in connection with the phenomena we have been +considering. The persons who experience these impulses usually show no +love of cruelty outside the sphere of sexual emotion; they may even be +very intolerant of cruelty. Even when their sexual impulses come into play +they may still desire to secure the pleasure of the persons who arouse +their sexual emotions, even though it may not be often true that those who +desire to inflict pain at these moments identify themselves with the +feelings of those on whom they inflict it. We have thus seen that when we +take a comprehensive survey of all these phenomena a somewhat general +formula will alone cover them. Our conclusion so far must be that under +certain abnormal circumstances pain, more especially the mental +representation of pain, acts as a powerful sexual stimulant. + +The reader, however, who has followed the discussion to this point will be +prepared to take the next and final step in our discussion and to reach a +more definite conclusion. The question naturally arises: By what process +does pain or its mental representation thus act as a sexual stimulant? The +answer has over and over again been suggested by the facts brought forward +in this study. Pain acts as a sexual stimulant because it is the most +powerful of all methods for arousing emotion. + +The two emotions most intimately associated with pain are anger and fear. +The more masculine and sthenic emotion of anger, the more passive and +asthenic emotion of fear, are the fundamental animal emotions through +which, on the psychic side, the process of natural selection largely +works. Every animal in some degree owes its survival to the emotional +reaction of anger against weaker rivals, to the emotional reaction of fear +against stronger rivals. To this cause we owe it that these two emotions +are so powerfully and deeply rooted in the whole zooelogical series to +which we belong. But anger and fear are not less fundamental in the sexual +life. Courtship on the male's part is largely a display of combativity, +and even the very gestures by which the male seeks to appeal to the female +are often those gestures of angry hostility by which he seeks to +intimidate enemies. On the female's part courtship is a skillful +manipulation of her own fears, and, as we have seen elsewhere, when +studying the phenomena of modesty, that fundamental attitude of the female +in courtship is nothing but an agglomeration of fears. + + The biological significance of the emotions is now well + recognized. "In general," remarks one of the shrewdest writers on + animal psychology, "we may say that emotional states are, under + natural conditions, closely associated with behavior of + biological value--with tendencies that are beneficial in + self-preservation and race preservation--with actions that + promote survival, and especially with the behavior which clusters + round the pairing and parental instincts. The value of the + emotions in animals is that they are an indirect means of + furthering survival." (Lloyd Morgan, _Animal Behavior_, p. 293.) + Emotional aptitudes persist not only by virtue of the fact that + they are still beneficial, but because they once were; that is to + say, they may exist as survivals. In this connection I may quote + from a suggestive paper on "Teasing and Bullying," by F.L. Burk; + at the conclusion of this study, which is founded on a large + body of data concerning American children, the author asks: + "Accepting for the moment the theories of Spencer and Ribot upon + the transmission of rudimentary instincts, is it possible that + the movements which comprise the chief elements of bullying, + teasing, and the egotistic impulses in general of the classes + cited--pursuing, throwing down, punching, striking, throwing + missiles, etc.--are, from the standpoint of consciousness, broken + neurological fragments, which are parts of old chains of activity + involved in the pursuit, combat, capture, torture, and killing of + men and enemies?... Is not this hypothesis of transmitted + fragments of instincts in accord with the strangely anomalous + fact that children are at one moment seemingly cruel and at the + next affectionate and kind, vibrating, as it were, between two + worlds, egotistic and altruistic, without conscious sense of + incongruity?" (F.L. Burk, "Teasing and Bullying," _Pedagogical + Seminary_, April, 1897.) + + The primitive connection of the special emotions of anger and + fear with the sexual impulse has been well expressed by Colin + Scott in his remarkable study of "Sex and Art": "If the higher + forms of courting are based on combat, among the males at least + anger must be intimately associated with love. And below both of + these lies the possibility of fear. In combat the animal is + defeated who is first afraid. Competitive exhibition of prowess + will inspire the less able birds with a deterring fear. Young + grouse and woodcock do not enter the lists with the older birds, + and sing very quietly. It is the same with the very oldest birds. + Audubon says that the old maids and bachelors of the Canada goose + move off by themselves during the courting of the younger birds. + In order to succeed in love, fear must be overcome in the male as + well as in the female. Courage is the essential male virtue, love + is its outcome and reward. The strutting, crowing, dancing, and + singing of male birds and the preliminary movements generally of + animals must gorge the neuromotor and muscular systems with blood + and put them in better fighting trim. The effects of this upon + the feelings of the animal himself must be very great. Hereditary + tendencies swell his heart. He has 'the joy that warriors feel.' + He becomes regardless of danger, and sometimes almost oblivious + of his surroundings. This intense passionateness must react + powerfully on the whole system, and more particularly on those + parts which are capable, such as the brain, of using up a great + surplus of blood, and on the naturally erethic functions of sex. + The flood of anger or fighting instinct is drained off by the + sexual desires, the antipathy of the female is overcome, and + sexual union successfully ensues.... Courting and combat shade + into one another, courting tending to take the place of the more + basal form of combat. The passions which thus come to be + associated with love are those of fear and anger, both of which, + by arousing the whole nature and stimulating the nutritive + sources from which they flow, come to increase the force of the + sexual passion to which they lead up and in which they culminate + and are absorbed," (Colin Scott, "Sex and Art," _American Journal + of Psychology_, vol. vii, No. 2, pp. 170 and 215.) + + It must be remembered that fear is an element liable to arise in + all courtship on one side or the other. It is usually on the side + of the female, but not invariably. Among spiders, for instance, + it is usually the male who feels fear, and very reasonably, for + he is much weaker than the female. "Courtship by the male spider" + says T.H. Montgomery ("The Courtship of Araneads," _American + Naturalist_, March, 1910, p. 166), "results from a combination of + the state of desire for and fear of the female." It is by his + movements of fear that he advertises himself to the female as a + male, and it is by the same movements that he is unconsciously + impelled to display prominently his own ornamentation. + +We are thus brought to those essential facts of primitive courtship with +which we started. But we are now able to understand more clearly how it is +that alien emotional states became abnormally associated with the sexual +life. Normally the sexual impulse is sufficiently reinforced by the +ordinary active energies of the organism which courtship itself arouses, +energies which, while they may be ultimately in part founded on anger and +fear, rarely allow these emotions to be otherwise than latent. Motion, it +may be said, is more prominent than emotion. + +Even normally a stimulant to emotional activities is pleasurable, just as +motion itself is pleasurable. It may even be useful, as was noted long ago +by Erasmus Darwin; he tells of a friend of his who, when painfully +fatigued by riding, would call up ideas arousing indignation, and thus +relieve the fatigue, the indignation, as Darwin pointed out, increasing +muscular activity.[136] + +It is owing to this stimulating action that discomfort, even pain, may be +welcomed on account of the emotional waves they call up, because they +"lash into movement the dreary calm of the sea's soul," and produce that +alternation of pain and enjoyment for which Faust longed. Groos, who +recalls this passage in his very thorough and profound discussion of the +region wherein tragedy has its psychological roots, points out that it is +the overwhelming might of the storm itself, and not the peace of calm +after the storm, which appeals to us. In the same way, he observes, even +surprise and shock may also be pleasurable, and fear, though the most +depressing of emotional states, by virtue of the joy produced by strong +stimuli is felt as attractive; we not only experience an impulse of +pleasure in dominating our environment, but also have pleasure in being +dominated and rendered helpless by a higher power.[137] Hirn, again, in +his work on the origins of art, has an interesting chapter on "The +Enjoyment of Pain," a phenomenon which he explains by its resultant +reactions in increase of outward activity, of motor excitement. Anger, he +observes elsewhere, is "in its active stage a decidedly pleasurable +emotion. Fear, which in its initial stage is paralyzing and depressing, +often changes in time when the first shock has been relieved by motor +reaction.... Anger, fear, sorrow, notwithstanding their distinctly painful +initial stage, are often not only not avoided, but even deliberately +sought."[138] + +In the ordinary healthy organism, however, although the stimulants of +strong emotion may be vaguely pleasurable, they do not have more than a +general action on the sexual sphere, nor are they required for the due +action of the sexual mechanism. But in a slightly abnormal +organism--whether the anomaly is due to a congenital neuropathic +condition, or to a possibly acquired neurasthenic condition, or merely to +the physiological inadequacy of childhood or old age--the balance of +nervous energy is less favorable for the adequate play of the ordinary +energies in courtship. The sexual impulse is itself usually weaker, even +when, as often happens, its irritability assumes the fallacious appearance +of strength. It has become unusually sensitive to unusual stimuli and +also, it is possible,--perhaps as a result of those conditions,--more +liable to atavistic manifestations. An organism in this state becomes +peculiarly apt to seize on the automatic sources of energy generated by +emotion. The parched sexual instinct greedily drinks up and absorbs the +force it obtains by applying abnormal stimuli to its emotional apparatus. +It becomes largely, if not solely, dependent on the energy thus secured. +The abnormal organism in this respect may become as dependent on anger or +fear, and for the same reason, as in other respects it may become +dependent on alcohol. + +We see the process very well illustrated by the occasional action of the +emotion of anger. In animals the connection between love and anger is so +close that even normally, as Groos points out, in some birds the sight of +an enemy may call out the gestures of courtship.[139] As Krafft-Ebing +remarks, both love and anger "seek their object, try to possess themselves +of it, and naturally exhaust themselves in a physical effect on it; both +throw the psychomotor sphere into the most intense excitement, and by +means of this excitement reach their normal expression."[140] Fere has +well remarked that the impatience of desire may itself be regarded as a +true state of anger, and Stanley Hall, in his admirable study of anger, +notes that "erethism of the breasts or sexual parts" was among the +physical manifestations of anger occurring in some of his cases, and in +one case a seminal emission accompanied every violent outburst.[141] Thus +it is that anger may be used to reinforce a weak sexual impulse, and +cases have been recorded in which coitus could only be performed when the +man had succeeded in working himself up into an artificial state of +anger.[142] On the other hand, Fere has recorded a case in which the +sexual excitement accompanying delayed orgasm was always transformed into +anger, though without any true sadistic manifestations.[143] + +As a not unexpected complementary phenomenon to this connection of anger +and sexual emotion in the male, it is sometimes found that the spectacle +of masculine anger excites pleasurable emotion in women. The case has been +recorded of a woman who delighted in arousing anger for the pleasure it +gave her, and who advised another woman to follow her example and excite +her husband's anger, as nothing was so enjoyable as to see a man in a fury +of rage[144]; Lombroso mentions a woman who was mostly frigid, but +experienced sexual feelings when she heard anyone swearing; and a medical +friend tells me of a lady considerably past middle age who experienced +sexual erethism after listening to a heated argument between her husband +and a friend on religious topics. The case has also been recorded of a +masochistic man who found sexual satisfaction in masturbating while a +woman, by his instructions, addressed him in the lowest possible terms of +abuse.[145] Such a feeling doubtless underlies that delight in teasing men +which is so common among young women. Stanley Hall, referring to the +almost morbid dread of witnessing manifestations of anger felt by many +women, remarks: "In animals, females are often described as watching with +complacency the conflict of rival males for their possession, and it seems +probable that the intense horror of this state, which many females +report, is associated more or less unconsciously with the sexual rage +which has followed it."[146] The dread may well be felt at least as much +as regards the emotional state in themselves as in the males. + +Even when the emotion aroused is disgust it may still act as a sexual +stimulant. Stcherbak has narrated the instructive case of a very +intelligent and elegant married lady of rather delicate constitution, an +artist of some talent, who never experienced any pleasure in sexual +intercourse, but ever since sexual feelings first began to be manifested +at all (at the age of 18) has only experienced them in relation to +disgusting things. Anything that is repulsive, like vomit, etc., causes +vague but pleasurable feelings which she gradually came to recognize as +sexual. The sight of a crushed frog will cause very definite sexual +sensations. She has had many admirers and she has observed that a +declaration of love by a disagreeable or even repulsive man sexually +excites her, though she has no desire for sexual intercourse with +him.[147] + +After all that has gone before it is easy to see how the emotion of fear +may act in an analogous manner to anger. Just as anger may reinforce the +active forms of the sexual impulse to which it is allied, so fear may +reinforce the passive forms of that impulse. The following observations, +written by a lady, very well show how we may thus explain the sexual +attractiveness of whipping: "The fascination of whipping, which has always +greatly puzzled me, seems to be a sort of hankering after the stimulus of +fear. In a wild state animals live in constant fear. In civilized life one +but rarely feels it. A woman's pleasure in being afraid of a husband or +lover may be an equivalent of a man's love of adventure; and the fear of +children for their parents may be the dawning of the love of adventure. In +a woman this desire of adventure receives a serious check when she begins +to realize what she might be subjected to by a man if she gratified it. +Excessive fear is demoralizing, but it seems to me that the idea of being +whipped gives a sense of fear which is not excessive. It is almost the +only kind of pain (physical) which is inflicted on children or women by +persons whom they can love and trust, and with a moral object. Any other +kind of bodily ill treatment suggests malignity and may rouse resentment, +and, in extreme cases, an excess of fear which goes beyond the limits of +pleasurable excitement. Given a hereditary feeling of this sort, I think +it is helped by the want of actual experience, as the association with +excitement is freed from the idea of pain as such." In his very valuable +and suggestive study of fears, Stanley Hall, while recognizing the evil of +excessive fear, has emphasized the emotional and even the intellectual +benefits of fear, and the great part played by fear in the evolution of +the race as "the rudimentary organ on the full development and subsequent +reduction of which many of the best things in the soul are dependent." +"Fears that paralyze some brains," he remarks, "are a good tonic for +others. In some form and degree all need it always. Without the fear +apparatus in us, what a wealth of motive would be lost!"[148] + +It is on the basis of this tonic influence of fear that in some morbidly +sensitive natures fear acts as a sexual stimulant. Cullerre has brought +together a number of cases in both men and women, mostly neurasthenic, in +which fits of extreme anxiety and dread, sometimes of a religious +character and often in highly moral people, terminate in spontaneous +orgasm or in masturbation.[149] + +Professor Gurlitt mentions that his first full sexual emission took place +in class at school, when he was absorbed in writing out the life of +Aristides and very anxious lest he should not be able to complete it +within the set time.[150] + +Dread and anxiety not only excite sexual emotion, but in the more extreme +morbid cases they may suppress and replace it. Terror, say Fliess, is +transmuted coitus, and Freud believes that the neurosis of anxiety always +has a sexual cause, while Ballet, Capgras, Loewenfeld, and others, though +not regarding a sexual traumatism as the only cause, still regard it as +frequent. + +It is worthy of note that not only fear, but even so depressing an emotion +as grief, may act as a sexual stimulant, more especially in women. This +fact is not sufficiently recognized, though probably everyone can recall +instances from his personal knowledge, such cases being generally regarded +as inexplicable. It is, however, not more surprising that grief should be +transformed into sexual emotion than that (as in a case recorded by +Stanley Hall) it should manifest itself as anger. In any case we have to +bear in mind the frequency of this psychological transformation in the +presence of cases which might otherwise seem to call for a cynical +interpretation. + + The case has been recorded of an English lady of good social + position who fell in love with an undertaker at her father's + funeral and insisted on marrying him. It is known that some men + have been so abnormally excited by the funeral trappings of death + that only in such surroundings have they been able to effect + coitus. A case has been recorded of a physician of unimpeachable + morality who was unable to attend funerals, even of his own + relatives, on account of the sexual excitement thus aroused. + Funerals, tragedies at the theater, pictures of martyrdom, scenes + of execution, and trials at the law-courts have been grouped + together as arousing pleasure in many people, especially women. + (C.F. von Schlichtegroll, _Sacher-Masoch und der Masochismus_, + pp. 30-31.) Wakes and similar festivals may here find their + psychological basis, and funerals are an unquestionable source of + enjoyment among some people, especially of so-called "Celtic" + race. The stimulating reaction after funerals is well known to + many, and Leigh Hunt refers to this (in his _Autobiography_) as + affecting the sincerely devoted friends who had just cremated + Shelley. + + It may well be, as Kiernan has argued (_Alienist and + Neurologist_, 1891; ibid., 1902, p. 263), that in the disturbance + of emotional balance caused by grief the primitive instincts + become peculiarly apt to respond to stimulus, and that in the + aboulia of grief the mind is specially liable to become the prey + to obsessions. + + "When my child died at the age of 6 months," a correspondent + writes, "I had a violent paroxysm of weeping and for some days I + could not eat. When I kissed the dead boy for the last time (I + had never seen a corpse before) I felt I had reached the depths + of misery and could never smile or have any deep emotions again. + Yet that night, though my thoughts had not strayed to sexual + subjects since the child's death, I had a violent erection. I + felt ashamed to desire carnal things when my dead child was still + in the house, and explained to my wife. She was sympathetic, for + her idea was that our common grief had intensified my love for + her. I feel convinced, however, that my desire was the result of + a stimulus propagated to the sexual centers from the centers + affected by my grief, the transference of my emotion from one set + of nerves to another. I do not perhaps express my meaning + clearly." + + How far the emotional influence of grief entered into the + following episode it is impossible to say, for here it is + probable that we are mainly concerned with one of those almost + irresistible impulses by which adolescent girls are sometimes + overcome. The narrative is from the lips of a reliable witness, a + railway guard, who, some thirty years ago, when a youth of 18, in + Cornwall, lodged with a man and woman who had a daughter of his + own age. Some months later, when requiring a night's lodging, he + called at the house, and was greeted warmly by the woman, who + told him her husband had just died and that she and her daughter + were very nervous and would be glad if he would stay the night, + but that as the corpse occupied the other bedroom he would have + to share their bed ("We don't think very much of that among us," + my informant added). He agreed, and went to bed, and when, a + little later, the two women also came to bed, the girl, at her + own suggestion, lay next to the youth. Nothing happened during + the night, but in the morning, when the mother went down to light + the fire, the daughter immediately threw off the bedclothes, + exposing her naked person, and before the youth had realized what + was happening she had drawn him over on to her. He was so utterly + surprised that nothing whatever happened, but the incident made a + life-long impression on him. + + In this connection reference may be made to the story of the + Ephesian matron in Petronius; the story of the widow, overcome by + grief, who watches by her husband's tomb, and very speedily falls + into the arms of the soldier who is on guard. This story, in very + various forms, is found in China and India, and has occurred + repeatedly in European literature during the last two thousand + years. The history of the wanderings of this story has been told + by Grisebach (Eduard Grisebach, _Die Treulose Witwe_, third + edition, 1877). It is not probable, however, that all the stories + of this type are actually related; in any case it would seem that + their vitality is due to the fact that they have been found to + show a real correspondence to life; one may note, for instance, + the curious tone of personal emotion with which George Chapman + treated this theme in his play, _Widow's Tears_. + +It may be added that, in explaining the resort to pain as an emotional +stimulus, we have to take into account not only the biological and +psychological considerations here brought forward, but also the abnormal +physiological conditions under which stimuli usually felt as painful come +specially to possess a sexually exciting influence. The neurasthenic and +neuropathic states may be regarded as conditions of more or less permanent +fatigue. It is true that under the conditions we are considering there may +be an extreme sensitiveness to stimuli not usually felt as of sexual +character, a kind of hyperesthesia; but hyperesthesia, it has well been +said, is nothing but the beginning of anesthesia.[151] Sergeant Bertrand, +the classical example of necrophily,[152] began to masturbate at the age +of 9, stimulating a sexual impulse which may have been congenitally feeble +by accompanying thoughts of ill-treating women. It was not till +subsequently that he began to imagine that the women were corpses. The +sadistic thoughts were only incidents in the emotional evolution, and the +real object throughout was to procure strong emotion and not to inflict +cruelty. Some observations of Fere's as to the conditions which influence +the amount of muscular work accomplished with the ergograph are +instructive from the present point of view: "Although sensibility +diminishes in the course of fatigue," Fere found that "there are periods +during which the excitability increases before it disappears. As fatigue +increases, the perception of the intercurrent excitation is retarded; an +odor is perceived as exciting before it is perceived as a differentiated +sensation; the most fetid odors arouse feelings of well-being before being +perceived as odors, and their painful quality only appears afterward, or +is not noticed at all." And after recording a series of results with the +ergograph obtained under the stimulus of unpleasant odors he remarks: "We +are thus struck by two facts: the diminution of work during painful +excitation, and its increase when the excitation has ceased. When the +effects following the excitation have disappeared the diminution is more +rapid than in the ordinary state. When the fatigue is manifested by a +notable diminution, if the same excitation is brought into action again, +no diminution is produced, but a more or less durable increase, exactly as +though there had been an agreeable excitation. Moreover, the stimulus +which appears painful in a state of repose loses that painful character +either partially or completely when acting on the same subject in a more +and more fatigued state." Fere defines a painful stimulus as a strong +excitation which causes displays of energy which the will cannot utilize; +when, as a result of diminished sensibility, the excitants are attenuated, +the will can utilize them, and so there is no pain.[153] These experiments +had no reference to the sexual instinct, but it will be seen at once that +they have an extremely significant bearing on the subject before us, for +they show us the mechanism of the process by which in an abnormal organism +pain becomes a sexual stimulant. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[136] Erasmus Darwin, _Zooenomia_, vol. i, p. 496. + +[137] K. Groos, _Spiele der Menschen_, pp. 200-210. + +[138] Hirn, _Origins of Art_, p. 54. Reference may here perhaps be made to +the fact that unpleasant memories persist in women more than in men +(_American Journal of Psychology_, 1899, p. 244). This had already been +pointed out by Coleridge. "It is a remark that I have made many times," we +find it said in one of his fragments (_Anima Poetae_, p. 89), "and many +times, I guess, shall repeat, that women are infinitely fonder of clinging +to and beating about, hanging upon and keeping up, and reluctantly letting +fall any doleful or painful or unpleasant subject, than men of the same +class and rank." + +[139] Groos, _Spiele der Thiere_, p. 251. Maeder (_Jahrbuch fuer +Psychoanalytische Forschungen_, 1909, vol. i, p. 149) mentions an +epileptic girl of 22 who masturbates when she is in a rage with anyone. + +[140] Krafft-Ebing, _Psychopathia Sexualis_, English translation of tenth +edition, p. 78. + +[141] Stanley Hall, "A Study of Anger," _American Journal of Psychology_, +July, 1899, p. 549. + +[142] Krafft-Ebing refers to such a case as recorded by Schulz, +_Psychopathia Sexualis_, p. 78. + +[143] Fere, _L'Instinct sexuel_, p. 213. + +[144] C.F. von Schlichtegroll, _Sacher-Masoch und der Masochismus_, p. 31. + +[145] _Archivio di Psichiatria_, vol. xv, p. 120. Mention may also be made +of the cases (described as hysterical mixoscopia by Kiernan, _Alienist and +Neurologist_, May, 1903) in which young women address to themselves +anonymous letters of an abusive and disgusting character, and show them to +others. + +[146] Stanley Hall, loc. cit., p. 587. + +[147] _Archives de Neurologie_, Oct., 1907. + +[148] G. Stanley Hall, "A Study of Fears," _American Journal of +Psychology_, vol. viii, No. 2. + +[149] A. Cullerre, "De l'Excitation Sexuelle dans les Psychopathies +Anxieuses," _Archives de Neurologie_, Feb., 1905. + +[150] L. Gurlitt (_Die Neue Generation_, July, 1909). Moll (_Sexualleben +des Kindes_, p. 84) also give examples of the connection between anxiety +and sexual excitement. Freud (_Der Wahn und die Traueme in Jensen's +Gradiva_, p. 52) considers that in dream-interpretation we may replace +"terror" by "sexual excitement." In noting the general sexual effects of +fear, we need not strictly separate the group of cases in which the sexual +effects are physical only, and fail to be circuited through the brain. + +[151] See the article on "Neurasthenia" by Rudolf Arndt in Tuke's +_Dictionary of Psychological Medicine_. + +[152] Lunier, _Annales Medico-psychologiques_, 1849, p. 153. + +[153] Fere, _Comptes-rendus de la Societe de Biologie_, December 15 and +22, 1900; id., _Annee Psychologique_, seventh year, 1901, pp. 82-129; more +especially the same author's _Travail et Plaisir_, 1904. + + + + +VII. + +Summary of Results Reached--The Joy of Emotional Expansion--The +Satisfaction of the Craving for Power--The Influence of Neurasthenic and +Neuropathic Conditions--The Problem of Pain in Love Largely Constitutes a +Special Case of Erotic Symbolism. + + +It may seem to some that in our discussion of the relationships of love +and pain we have covered a very wide field. This was inevitable. The +subject is peculiarly difficult and complex, and if we are to gain a real +insight into its nature we must not attempt to force the facts to fit into +any narrow and artificial formulas of our own construction. Yet, as we +have unraveled this seemingly confused mass of phenomena it will not have +escaped the careful reader that the apparently diverse threads we have +disentangled run in a parallel and uniform manner; they all have a like +source and they all converge to a like result. We have seen that the +starting-point of the whole group of manifestations must be found in the +essential facts of courtship among animal and primitive human societies. +Pain is seldom very far from some of the phases of primitive courtship; +but it is not the pain which is the essential element in courtship, it is +the state of intense emotion, of tumescence, with which at any moment, in +some shape or another, pain may, in some way or another, be brought into +connection. So that we have come to see that in the phrase "love and pain" +we have to understand by "pain" a state of intense emotional excitement +with which pain in the stricter sense may be associated, but is by no +means necessarily associated. It is the strong emotion which exerts the +irresistible fascination in the lover, in his partner, or in both. The +pain is merely the means to that end. It is the lever which is employed to +bring the emotional force to bear on the sexual impulse. The question of +love and pain is mainly a question of emotional dynamics. + +In attaining this view of our subject we have learned that any impulse of +true cruelty is almost outside the field altogether. The mistake was +indeed obvious and inevitable. Let us suppose that every musical +instrument is sensitive and that every musical performance involves the +infliction of pain on the instrument. It would then be very difficult +indeed to realize that the pleasure of music lies by no means in the +infliction of pain. We should certainly find would-be scientific and +analytical people ready to declare that the pleasure of music is the +pleasure of giving pain, and that the emotional effects of music are due +to the pain thus inflicted. In algolagnia, as in music, it is not cruelty +that is sought; it is the joy of being plunged among the waves of that +great primitive ocean of emotions which underlies the variegated world of +our everyday lives, and pain--a pain which, as we have seen, is often +deprived so far as possible of cruelty, though sometimes by very thin and +feeble devices--is merely the channel by which that ocean is reached. + +If we try to carry our inquiry beyond the point we have been content to +reach, and ask ourselves why this emotional intoxication exerts so +irresistible a fascination, we might find a final reply in the explanation +of Nietzsche--who regarded this kind of intoxication as of great +significance both in life and in art--that it gives us the consciousness +of energy and the satisfaction of our craving for power.[154] To carry the +inquiry to this point would be, however, to take it into a somewhat +speculative and metaphysical region, and we have perhaps done well not to +attempt to analyze further the joy of emotional expansion. We must be +content to regard the profound satisfaction of emotion as due to a +widespread motor excitement, the elements of which we cannot yet +completely analyze.[155] + +It is because the joy of emotional intoxication is the end really sought +that we have to regard the supposed opposition between "sadism" and +"masochism" as unimportant and indeed misleading. The emotional value of +pain is equally great whether the pain is inflicted, suffered, witnessed, +or merely exists as a mental imagination, and there is no reason why it +should not coexist in all these forms in the same person, as, in fact, we +frequently find it. + +The particular emotions which are invoked by pain to reinforce the sexual +impulse are more especially anger and fear, and, as we have seen, these +two very powerful and primitive emotions are--on the active and passive +sides, respectively--the emotions most constantly brought into play in +animal and early human courtship; so that they naturally constitute the +emotional reservoirs from which the sexual impulse may still most easily +draw. It is not difficult to show that the various forms in which +"pain"--as we must here understand pain--is employed in the service of the +sexual impulse are mainly manifestations or transformations of anger or +fear, either in their simple or usually more complex forms, in some of +which anger and fear may be mingled. + +We thus accept the biological origin of the psychological association +between love and pain; it is traceable to the phenomena of animal +courtship. We do not on this account exclude the more direct physiological +factor. It may seem surprising that manifestations that have their origin +in primeval forms of courtship should in many cases coincide with actual +sensations of definite anatomical base today, and still more surprising +that these traditional manifestations and actual sensations should so +often be complementary to each other in their active and passive aspects: +that is to say, that the pleasure of whipping should be matched by the +pleasure of being whipped, the pleasure of mock strangling by the pleasure +of being so strangled, that pain inflicted is not more desirable than pain +suffered. But such coincidence is of the very essence of the whole group +of phenomena. The manifestations of courtship were from the first +conditioned by physiological facts; it is not strange that they should +always tend to run _pari passu_ with physiological facts. The +manifestations which failed to find anchorage in physiological +relationships might well tend to die out. Even under the most normal +circumstances, in healthy persons of healthy heredity, the manifestations +we have been considering are liable to make themselves felt. Under such +circumstances, however, they never become of the first importance in the +sexual process; they are often little more than play. It is only under +neurasthenic or neuropathic conditions--that is to say, in an organism +which from acquired or congenital causes, and usually perhaps both, has +become enfeebled, irritable, "fatigued"--that these manifestations are +liable to flourish vigorously, to come to the forefront of sexual +consciousness, and even to attain such seriously urgent importance that +they may in themselves constitute the entire end and aim of sexual desire. +Under these pathological conditions, pain, in the broad and special sense +in which we have been obliged to define it, becomes a welcome tonic and a +more or less indispensable stimulant to the sexual system. + +It will not have escaped the careful reader that in following out our +subject we have sometimes been brought into contact with manifestations +which scarcely seem to come within any definition of pain. This is +undoubtedly so, and the references to these manifestations were not +accidental, for they serve to indicate the real bearings of our subject. +The relationships of love and pain constitute a subject at once of so +much gravity and so much psychological significance that it was well to +devote to them a special study. But pain, as we have here to understand +it, largely constitutes a special case of what we shall later learn to +know as erotic symbolism: that is to say, the psychic condition in which a +part of the sexual process, a single idea or group of ideas, tends to +assume unusual importance, or even to occupy the whole field of sexual +consciousness, the part becoming a symbol that stands for the whole. When +we come to the discussion of this great group of abnormal sexual +manifestations it will frequently be necessary to refer to the results we +have reached in studying the sexual significance of pain. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[154] See, for instance, the section "Zur Physiologie der Kunst" in +Nietzsche's fragmentary work, _Der Wille zur Macht_, Werke, Bd. xv. Groos +(_Spiele der Menschen_, p. 89) refers to the significance of the fact that +nearly all races have special methods of procuring intoxication. Cf. +Partridge's study of the psychology of alcohol (_American Journal of +Psychology_, April, 1900). "It is hard to imagine," this writer remarks of +intoxicants, "what the religious or social consciousness of primitive man +would have been without them." + +[155] The muscular element is the most conspicuous in emotion, though it +is not possible, as a careful student of the emotions (H.R. Marshall, +_Pain, Pleasure, and AEsthetics_, p. 84) well points out, "to limit the +physical activities involved with the emotions to such effects of +voluntary innervation or alteration of size of blood-vessels or spasm of +organic muscle, as Lange seems to think determines them; nor to increase +or decrease of muscle-power, as Fere's results might suggest; nor to such +changes, in relation of size of capillaries, in voluntary innervation, in +respiratory and heart functioning, as Lehmann has observed. Emotions seem +to me to be coincidents of reactions of the whole organism tending to +certain results." + + + + +THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN WOMEN. + + +A special and detailed study of the normal characters of the sexual +impulse in men seems unnecessary. I have elsewhere discussed various +aspects of the male sexual impulse, and others remain for later +discussion. But to deal with it broadly as a whole seems unnecessary, if +only because it is predominantly open and aggressive. Moreover, since the +constitution of society has largely been in the hands of men, the nature +of the sexual impulse in men has largely been expressed in the written and +unwritten codes of social law. The sexual instinct in women is much more +elusive. This, indeed, is involved at the outset in the organic +psychological play of male and female, manifesting itself in the phenomena +of modesty and courting. The same elusiveness, the same mocking mystery, +meet us throughout when we seek to investigate the manifestations of the +sexual impulse in women. Nor is it easy to find any full and authentic +record of a social state clearly founded in sexual matters on the demands +of woman's nature. + + An illustration of our ignorance and bias in these matters is + furnished by the relationship of marriage, celibacy, and divorce + to suicide in the two sexes. There can be no doubt that the + sexual emotions of women have a profound influence in determining + suicide. This is indicated, among other facts, by a comparison of + the suicide-rate in the sexes according to age; while in men the + frequency of suicide increases progressively throughout life, in + women there is an arrest after the age of 30; that is to say, + when the period of most intense sexual emotion has been passed. + This phenomenon is witnessed among peoples so unlike as the + French, the Prussians, and the Italians. Now, how do marriage and + divorce affect the sexual liability to suicide? We are always + accustomed to say that marriage protects women, and it is even + asserted that men have self-sacrificingly maintained the + institution of marriage mainly for the benefit of women. + Professor Durkheim, however, who has studied suicide elaborately + from the sociological standpoint, so far as possible eliminating + fallacies, has in recent years thrown considerable doubt on the + current assumption. He shows that if we take the tendency to + suicide as a test, and eliminate the influence of children, who + are an undoubted protection to women, it is not women, but men, + who are protected by marriage, and that the protection of women + from suicide increases regularly as divorces increase. After + discussing these points exhaustively, "we reach a conclusion," he + states, "considerably removed from the current view of marriage + and the part it plays. It is regarded as having been instituted + for the sake of the wife and to protect her weakness against + masculine caprices. Monogamy, especially, is very often presented + as a sacrifice of man's polygamous instincts, made in order to + ameliorate the condition of woman in marriage. In reality, + whatever may have been the historical causes which determined + this restriction, it is man who has profited most. The liberty + which he has thus renounced could only have been a source of + torment to him. Woman had not the same reasons for abandoning + freedom, and from this point of view we may say that in + submitting to the same rule it is she who has made the + sacrifice." (E. Durkheim, _Le Suicide_, 1897, pp. 186-214, + 289-311.) + + There is possibly some significance in the varying incidence of + insanity in unmarried men and unmarried women as compared with + the married. At Erlangen, for example, Hagen found that among + insane women the preponderance of the single over the married is + not nearly so great as among insane men, marriage appearing to + exert a much more marked prophylactic influence in the case of + men than of women. (F.W. Hagen, _Statistische Untersuchungen ueber + Geisteskrankheiten_, 1876, p. 153.) The phenomena are here, + however, highly complex, and, as Hagen himself points out, the + prophylactic influence of marriage, while very probable, is not + the only or even the chief factor at work. + + It is worth noting that exactly the same sexual difference may be + traced in England. It appears that, in ratio to similar groups in + the general population (taking the years 1876-1900, inclusive), + the number of admissions to asylums is the same for both sexes + among married people (i.e., 8.5), but for the single it is larger + among the men (4.8 to 4.5), as also it is among the widowed (17.9 + to 13.9) (_Fifty-sixth Annual Report of the Commissioners in + Lunacy, England and Wales_, 1902, p. 141). This would seem to + indicate that when living apart from men the tendency to insanity + is less in women, but is raised to the male level when the sexes + live together in marriage. + + Much the same seems to hold true of criminality. It was long + since noted by Horsley that in England marriage decidedly + increases the tendency to crime in women, though it decidedly + decreases it in men. Prinzing has shown (_Zeitschrift fuer + Sozialwissenschaft_, Bd. ii, 1899) that this is also the case in + Germany. + + Similarly marriage decreases the tendency of men to become + habitual drunkards and increases that of women. Notwithstanding + the fact that the average age of the men is greater than that of + the women, the majority of the men admitted to the inebriate + reformatories under the English Inebriates Acts are single; the + majority of the women are married; of 865 women so admitted 32 + per cent, were single, 50 per cent, married, and 18 per cent, + widows. (_British Medical Journal_, Sept. 2, 1911, p. 518.) + +It thus happens that even the elementary characters of the sexual impulse +in women still arouse, even among the most competent physiological and +medical authorities,--not least so when they are themselves women,--the +most divergent opinions. Its very existence even may be said to be +questioned. It would generally be agreed that among men the strength of +the sexual impulse varies within a considerable range, but that it is very +rarely altogether absent, such total absence being abnormal and probably +more or less pathological. But if applied to women, this statement is by +no means always accepted. By many, sexual anesthesia is considered natural +in women, some even declaring that any other opinion would be degrading to +women; even by those who do not hold this opinion it is believed that +there is an unnatural prevalence of sexual frigidity among civilized +women. On these grounds it is desirable to deal generally with this and +other elementary questions of allied character. + + + + +I. + +The Primitive View of Women--As a Supernatural Element in Life--As +Peculiarly Embodying the Sexual Instinct--The Modern Tendency to +Underestimate the Sexual Impulse in Women--This Tendency Confined to +Recent Times--Sexual Anaesthesia--Its Prevalence--Difficulties in +Investigating the Subject--Some Attempts to Investigate it--Sexual +Anesthesia must be Regarded as Abnormal--The Tendency to Spontaneous +Manifestations of the Sexual Impulse in Young Girls at Puberty. + + +From very early times it seems possible to trace two streams of opinion +regarding women: on the one hand, a tendency to regard women as a +supernatural element in life, more or less superior to men, and, on the +other hand, a tendency to regard women as especially embodying the sexual +instinct and as peculiarly prone to exhibit its manifestations. + +In the most primitive societies, indeed, the two views seem to be to some +extent amalgamated; or, it should rather be said, they have not yet been +differentiated; and, as in such societies it is usual to venerate the +generative principle of nature and its embodiments in the human body and +in human functions, such a co-ordination of ideas is entirely rational. +But with the development of culture the tendency is for this homogeneous +conception to be split up into two inharmonious tendencies. Even apart +from Christianity and before its advent this may be noted. It was, +however, to Christianity and the Christian ascetic spirit that we owe the +complete differentiation and extreme development which these opposing +views have reached. The condemnation of sexuality involved the +glorification of the virgin; and indifference, even contempt, was felt for +the woman who exercised sexual functions. It remained open to anyone, +according to his own temperament, to identify the typical average woman +with the one or with the other type; all the fund of latent sexual emotion +which no ascetic rule can crush out of the human heart assured the +picturesque idealization alike of the angelic and the diabolic types of +woman. We may trace the same influence subtly lurking even in the most +would-be scientific statements of anthropologists and physicians +today.[156] + + It may not be out of place to recall at this point, once more, + the fact, fairly obvious indeed, that the judgments of men + concerning women are very rarely matters of cold scientific + observation, but are colored both by their own sexual emotions + and by their own moral attitude toward the sexual impulse. The + ascetic who is unsuccessfully warring with his own carnal + impulses may (like the voluptuary) see nothing in women but + incarnations of sexual impulse; the ascetic who has subdued his + own carnal impulses may see no elements of sex in women at all. + Thus the opinions regarding this matter are not only tinged by + elements of primitive culture, but by elements of individual + disposition. Statements about the sexual impulses of women often + tell us less about women than about the persons who make them. + + The curious manner in which for men women become incarnations of + the sexual impulse is shown by the tendency of both general and + personal names for women to become applicable to prostitutes + only. This is the case with the words "garce" and "fille" in + French, "Maedchen" and "Dirne" in German, as well as with the + French "catin" (Catherine) and the German "Metze" (Mathilde). + (See, e.g., R. Kleinpaul, _Die Raethsel der Sprache_, 1890, pp. + 197-198.) + + At the same time, though we have to recognize the presence of + elements which color and distort in various ways the judgments of + men regarding women, it must not be hastily assumed that these + elements render discussion of the question altogether + unprofitable. In most cases such prejudices lead chiefly to a + one-sided solution of facts, against which we can guard. + +While, however, these two opposing currents of opinion are of very ancient +origin, it is only within quite recent times, and only in two or three +countries, that they have led to any marked difference of opinion +regarding the sexual aptitude of women. In ancient times men blamed women +for concupiscence or praised them for chastity, but it seems to have been +reserved for the nineteenth century to state that women are apt to be +congenitally incapable of experiencing complete sexual satisfaction, and +peculiarly liable to sexual anesthesia. This idea appears to have been +almost unknown to the eighteenth century. During the last century, +however, and more especially in England, Germany, and Italy, this opinion +has been frequently set down, sometimes even as a matter of course, with a +tincture of contempt or pity for any woman afflicted with sexual emotions. + + In the treatise _On Generation_ (chapter v), which until recent + times was commonly ascribed to Hippocrates, it is stated that men + have greater pleasure in coitus than women, though the pleasure + of women lasts longer, and this opinion, though not usually + accepted, was treated with great respect by medical authors down + to the end of the seventeenth century. Thus A. Laurentius (Du + Laurens), after a long discussion, decides that men have stronger + sexual desire and greater pleasure in coitus than women. + (_Historia Anatomica Humani Corporis_, 1599, lib. viii, quest, ii + and vii.) + + About half a century ago a book entitled _Functions and Disorders + of the Reproductive Organs_, by W. Acton, a surgeon, passed + through many editions and was popularly regarded as a standard + authority on the subjects with which it deals. This extraordinary + book is almost solely concerned with men; the author evidently + regards the function of reproduction as almost exclusively + appertaining to men. Women, if "well brought up," are, and should + be, he states, in England, absolutely ignorant of all matters + concerning it. "I should say," this author again remarks, "that + the majority of women (happily for society) are not very much + troubled with sexual feeling of any kind." The supposition that + women do possess sexual feelings he considers "a vile aspersion." + + In the article "Generation," contained in another medical work + belonging to the middle of the nineteenth century,--Rees's + _Cyclopedia_,--we find the following statement: "That a mucous + fluid is sometimes found in coition from the internal organs and + vagina is undoubted; but this only happens in lascivious women, + or such as live luxuriously." + + Gall had stated decisively that the sexual desires of men are + stronger and more imperious than those of women. (_Fonctions du + Cerveau_, 1825, vol. iii, pp. 241-271.) + + Raciborski declared that three-fourths of women merely endure the + approaches of men. (_De la Puberte chez la Femme_, 1844, p. 486.) + + "When the question is carefully inquired into and without + prejudice," said Lawson Tait, "it is found that women have their + sexual appetites far less developed than men." (Lawson Tait, + "Remote Effects of Removal of the Uterine Appendages," + _Provincial Medical Journal_, May, 1891.) "The sexual instinct is + very powerful in man and comparatively weak in women," he stated + elsewhere (_Diseases of Women_, 1889, p. 60). + + Hammond stated that, leaving prostitutes out of consideration, it + is doubtful if in one-tenth of the instances of intercourse they + [women] experience the slightest pleasurable sensation from first + to last (Hammond, _Sexual Impotence_, p. 300), and he considered + (p. 281) that this condition was sometimes congenital. + + Lombroso and Ferrero consider that sexual sensibility, as well as + all other forms of sensibility, is less pronounced in women, and + they bring forward various facts and opinions which seem to them + to point in the same direction. "Woman is naturally and + organically frigid." At the same time they consider that, while + erethism is less, sexuality is greater than in men. (Lombroso and + Ferrero, _La Donna Delinquente, la Prostituta, e la Donna + Normale_, 1893, pp. 54-58.) + + "It is an altogether false idea," Fehling declared, in his + rectorial address at the University of Basel in 1891, "that a + young woman has just as strong an impulse to the opposite sex as + a young man.... The appearance of the sexual side in the love of + a young girl is pathological." (H. Fehling, _Die Bestimmung der + Frau_, 1892, p. 18.) In his _Lehrbuch der Frauenkrankheiten_ the + same gynecological authority states his belief that half of all + women are not sexually excitable. + + Krafft-Ebing was of opinion that women require less sexual + satisfaction than men, being less sensual. (Krafft-Ebing, "Ueber + Neurosen und Psychosen durch sexuelle Abstinenz," _Jahrbuecher fuer + Psychiatrie_, 1888, Bd. viii, ht. I and 2.) + + "In the normal woman, especially of the higher social classes," + states Windscheid, "the sexual instinct is acquired, not inborn; + when it is inborn, or awakes by itself, there is abnormality. + Since women do not know this instinct before marriage, they do + not miss it when they have no occasion in life to learn it." (F. + Windscheid, "Die Beziehungen zwischen Gynaekologie und + Neurologie," _Zentralblatt fuer Gynaekologie_, 1896, No. 22; quoted + by. Moll, _Libido Sexualis_, Bd. i, p. 271.) + + "The sensuality of men," Moll states, "is in my opinion very much + greater than that of women." (A. Moll, _Die Kontraere + Sexualempfindung_, third edition, 1899, p. 592.) + + "Women are, in general, less sensual than men," remarks Naecke, + "notwithstanding the alleged greater nervous supply of their + sexual organs." (P. Naecke, "Kritisches zum Kapitel der + Sexualitaet," _Archiv fuer Psychiatrie_, 1899, p. 341.) + + Loewenfeld states that in normal young girls the specifically + sexual feelings are absolutely unknown; so that desire cannot + exist in them. Putting aside the not inconsiderable proportion of + women in whom this absence of desire may persist and be + permanent, even after sexual relationships have begun, thus + constituting absolute frigidity, in a still larger number desire + remains extremely moderate, constituting a state of relative + frigidity. He adds that he cannot unconditionally support the + view of Fuerbringer, who is inclined to ascribe sexual coldness to + the majority of German married women. (L. Loewenfeld, _Sexualleben + und Nervenleiden_, 1899, second edition, p. 11.) + + Adler, who discusses the question at some length, decides that + the sexual needs of women are less than those of men, though in + some cases the orgasm in quantity and quality greatly exceeds + that of men. He believes, not only that the sexual impulse in + women is absolutely less than in men, and requires stronger + stimulation to arouse it, but that also it suffers from a latency + due to inhibition, which acts like a foreign body in the brain + (analogous to the psychic trauma of Breuer and Freud in + hysteria), and demands great skill in the man who is to awaken + the woman to love. (O. Adler, _Die Mangelhafte + Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes_, 1904, pp. 47, 126 et seq.; + also enlarged second edition, 1911; id., "Die Frigide Frau," + _Sexual-Probleme_, Jan., 1912.) + +It must not, however, be supposed that this view of the natural tendency +of women to frigidity has everywhere found acceptance. It is not only an +opinion of very recent growth, but is confined, on the whole, to a few +countries. + + "Turn to history," wrote Brierre de Boismont, "and on every page + you will be able to recognize the predominance of erotic ideas in + women." It is the same today, he adds, and he attributes it to + the fact that men are more easily able to gratify their sexual + impulses. (_Des Hallucinations_, 1862, p. 431.) + + The laws of Manu attribute to women concupiscence and anger, the + love of bed and of adornment. + + The Jews attributed to women greater sexual desire than to men. + This is illustrated, according to Knobel (as quoted by Dillmann), + by _Genesis_, chapter iii, v. 16. + + In Greek antiquity the romance and sentiment of love were mainly + felt toward persons of the same sex, and were divorced from the + more purely sexual feelings felt for persons of opposite sex. + Theognis compared marriage to cattle-breeding. In love between + men and women the latter were nearly always regarded as taking + the more active part. In all Greek love-stories of early date the + woman falls in love with the man, and never the reverse. AEschylus + makes even a father assume that his daughters will misbehave if + left to themselves. Euripides emphasized the importance of women; + "The Euripidean woman who 'falls in love' thinks first of all: + 'How can I seduce the man I love?"' (E.F.M. Benecke, _Antimachus + of Colophon and the Position of Women in Greek Poetry_, 1896, pp. + 34, 54.) + + The most famous passage in Latin literature as to the question of + whether men or women obtain greater pleasure from sexual + intercourse is that in which Ovid narrates the legend of Tiresias + (_Metamorphoses_, iii, 317-333). Tiresias, having been both a man + and a woman, decided in favor of women. This passage was + frequently quoted down to the eighteenth century. + + In a passage quoted from a lost work of Galen by the Arabian + biographer, Abu-l-Faraj, that great physician says of the + Christians "that they practice celibacy, that even many of their + women do so." So that in Galen's opinion it was more difficult + for a woman than for a man to be continent. + + The same view is widely prevalent among Arabic authors, and there + is an Arabic saying that "The longing of the woman for the penis + is greater than that of the man for the vulva." + + In China, remarks Dr. Coltman, "when an old gentleman of my + acquaintance was visiting me my little daughter, 5 years old, ran + into the room, and, climbing upon my knee, kissed me. My visitor + expressed his surprise, and remarked: 'We never kiss our + daughters when they are so large; we may when they are very + small, but not after they are 3 years old,' said he, 'because it + is apt to excite in them bad emotions.'" (Coltman, _The Chinese_, + 1900, p. 99.) + + The early Christian Fathers clearly show that they regard women + as more inclined to sexual enjoyment than men. That was, for + instance, the opinion of Tertullian (_De Virginibus Velandis_, + chapter x), and it is clearly implied in some of St. Jerome's + epistles. + + Notwithstanding the influence of Christianity, among the vigorous + barbarian races of medieval Europe, the existence of sexual + appetite in women was not considered to be, as it later became, a + matter to be concealed or denied. Thus in 1068 the ecclesiastical + historian, Ordericus Vitalis (himself half Norman and half + English), narrates that the wives of the Norman knights who had + accompanied William the Conqueror to England two years earlier + sent over to their husbands to say that they were consumed by the + fierce names of desire ("saeva libidinis face urebantur"), and + that if their husbands failed to return very shortly they + proposed to take other husbands. It is added that this threat + brought a few husbands back to their wanton ladies ("lascivis + dominabus suis"). + + During the medieval period in Europe, largely in consequence, no + doubt, of the predominance of ascetic ideals set up by men who + naturally regarded woman as the symbol of sex, the doctrine of + the incontinence of woman became firmly fixed, and it is + unnecessary and unprofitable to quote examples. It is sufficient + to mention the very comprehensive statement of Jean de Meung (in + the _Roman de la Rose_, 9903):-- + + "Toutes estes, seres, ou futes + De fait ou de volunte putes." + + The satirical Jean de Meung was, however, a somewhat extreme and + untypical representative of his age, and the fourteenth century + Johannes de Sancto Amando (Jean de St. Amand) gives a somewhat + more scientifically based opinion (quoted by Pagel, _Neue + litterarische Beitraege zur Mittelalterlichen Medicin_, 1896, p. + 30) that sexual desire is stronger in women than in men. + + Humanism and the spread of the Renaissance movement brought in a + spirit more sympathetic to women. Soon after, especially in Italy + and France, we begin to find attempts at analyzing the sexual + emotions, which are not always without a certain subtlety. In the + seventeenth century a book of this kind was written by Venette. + In matters of love, Venette declared, "men are but children + compared to women. In these matters women have a more lively + imagination, and they usually have more leisure to think of love. + Women are much more lascivious and amorous than men." This is the + conclusion reached in a chapter devoted to the question whether + men or women are the more amorous. In a subsequent chapter, + dealing with the question whether men or women receive more + pleasure from the sexual embrace, Venette concludes, after + admitting the great difficulty of the question, that man's + pleasure is greater, but woman's lasts longer. (N. Venette, _De + la Generation de l'Homme ou Tableau de l'Amour Conjugal_, + Amsterdam, 1688.) + + At a much earlier date, however, Montaigne had discussed this + matter with his usual wisdom, and, while pointing out that men + have imposed their own rule of life on women and their own + ideals, and have demanded from them opposite and contradictory + virtues,--a statement not yet antiquated,--he argues that women + are incomparably more apt and more ardent in love than men are, + and that in this matter they always know far more than men can + teach them, for "it is a discipline that is born in their veins." + (Montaigne, _Essais_, book iii, chapter v.) + + The old physiologists generally mentioned the appearance of + sexual desire in girls as one of the normal signs of puberty. + This may be seen in the numerous quotations brought together by + Schurig, in his _Parthenologia_, cap. ii. + + A long succession of distinguished physicians throughout the + seventeenth century discussed at more or less length the relative + amount of sexual desire in men and women, and the relative degree + of their pleasure in coitus. It is remarkable that, although they + usually attach great weight to the supposed opinion of + Hippocrates in the opposite sense, most of them decide that both + desire and pleasure are greater in women. + + Plazzonus decides that women have more sources of pleasure in + coitus than men because of the larger extent of surface excited; + and if it were not so, he adds, women would not be induced to + incur the pains and risks of pregnancy and childbirth. + (Plazzonus, _De Partibus Generationi Inservientibus_, 1621, lib. + ii, cap. xiii.) + + "Without doubt," says Ferrand, "woman is more passionate than + man, and more often torn by the evils of love." (Ferrand, _De la + Maladie d'Amour_, 1623, chapter ii.) + + Zacchia, mainly on _a priori_ grounds, concludes that women have + more pleasure in coitus than men. (Zacchia, _Quaestiones + Medico-legales_, 1630, lib. iii, quest, vii.) + + Sinibaldus, discussing whether men or women have more salacity, + decides in favor of women. (J.B. Sinibaldus, _Geneanthropeia_, + 1642, lib. ii, tract. ii, cap. v.) + + Hornius believed that women have greater sexual pleasure than + men, though he mainly supported his opinion by the authority of + classical poets. (Hornius, _Historic Naturalis_, 1670, lib. iii, + cap. i.) + + Nenter describes what we may now call women's affectability, and + considers that it makes them more prone than men to the sexual + emotions, as is shown by the fact that, notwithstanding their + modesty, they sometimes make sexual advances. This greater + proneness of women to the sexual impulse is, he remarks, entirely + natural and right, for the work of generation is mainly carried + on by women, and love is its basis: "generationis fundamentum est + amor." (G.P. Nenter, _Theoria Hominis Sani_, 1714, cap. v, memb. + ii.) + + The above opinions of seventeenth-century physicians are quoted + from the original sources. Schurig, in his _Gynaecologia_, (pp. + 46-50 and 71-81), quotes a number of passages on this subject + from medical authorities of the same period, on which I have not + drawn. + + Senancour, in his fine and suggestive book on love, first + published in 1806, asks: "Has sexual pleasure the same power on + the sex which less loudly demands it? It has more, at all events + in some respects. The very vigor and laboriousness of men may + lead them to neglect love, but the constant cares of maternity + make women feel how important it must ever be to them. We must + remember also that in men the special emotions of love only have + a single focus, while in women the organs of lactation are united + to those of conception. Our feelings are all determined by these + material causes." (Senancour, _De l'Amour_, fourth edition, 1834, + vol. i, p. 68.) A later psychologist of love, this time a woman, + Ellen Key, states that woman's erotic demands, though more + silent than man's, are stronger. (Ellen Key, _Ueber Liebe und + Ehe_, p. 138.) + + Michael Ryan considered that sexual enjoyment "is more delicious + and protracted" in women, and ascribed this to a more sensitive + nervous system, a finer and more delicate skin, more acute + feelings, and the fact that in women the mammae are the seat of a + vivid sensibility in sympathy with the uterus. (M. Ryan, + _Philosophy of Marriage_, 1837, p. 153.) + + Busch was inclined to think women have greater sexual pleasure + than men. (D.W.H. Busch, _Das Geschlechtsleben des Weibes_, 1839, + vol. i, p. 69.) Kobelt held that the anatomical conformation of + the sexual organs in women led to the conclusion that this must + be the case. + + Guttceit, speaking of his thirty years' medical experience in + Russia, says: "In Russia at all events, a girl, as very many have + acknowledged to me, cannot resist the ever stronger impulses of + sex beyond the twenty-second or twenty-third year. And if she + cannot do so in natural ways she adopts artificial ways. The + belief that the feminine sex feels the stimulus of sex less than + the male is quite false." (Guttceit, _Dreissig Jahre Praxis_, + 1873, theil i, p. 313.) + + In Scandinavia, according to Vedeler, the sexual emotions are at + least as strong in women as in men (Vedeler, "De Impotentia + Feminarum," _Norsk Magazin for Laegevidenskaben_, March, 1894). + In Sweden, Dr. Eklund, of Stockholm, remarking that from 25 to 33 + per cent. of the births are illegitimate, adds: "We hardly ever + hear anyone talk of a woman having been seduced, simply because + the lust is at the worst in the woman, who, as a rule, is the + seducing party." (Eklund, _Transactions of the American + Association of Obstetricians_, Philadelphia, 1892, p. 307.) + + On the opposite side of the Baltic, in the Koenigsberg district, + the same observation has been made. Intercourse before marriage + is the rule in most villages of this agricultural district, among + the working classes, with or without intention of subsequent + marriage; "the girls are often the seducing parties, or at least + very willing; they seek to bind their lovers to them and compel + them to marriage." In the Koeslin district of Pomerania, where + intercourse between the girls and youths is common, the girls + come to the youths' rooms even more frequently than the youths to + the girls'. In some of the Dantzig districts the girls give + themselves to the youths, and even seduce them, sometimes, but + not always, with a view of marriage. (Wittenberg, _Die + geschlechtsittlichen Verhalten der Landbewohner im Deutschen + Reiche_, 1895, Bd. i, pp. 47, 61, 83.) + + Mantegazza devoted great attention to this point in several of + the works he published during fifty years, and was decidedly of + the opinion that the sexual emotions are much stronger in women + than in men, and that women have much more enjoyment in sexual + intercourse. In his _Fisiologia del Piacere_ he supports this + view, and refers to the greater complexity of the genital + apparatus in women (as well as its larger surface and more + protected position), to what he considers to be the keener + sensibility of women generally, to the passivity of women, etc.; + and he considers that sexual pleasure is rendered more seductive + to women by the mystery in which it is veiled for them by modesty + and our social habits. In a more recent work (_Fisiologia della + Donna_, cap. viii) Mantegazza returns to this subject, and + remarks that long experience, while confirming his early opinion, + has modified it to the extent that he now believes that, as + compared with men, the sexual emotions of women vary within far + wider limits. Among men few are quite insensitive to the physical + pleasures of love, while, on the other hand, few are thrown by + the violence of its emotional manifestations into a state of + syncope or convulsions. Among women, while some are absolutely + insensitive, others (as in cases with which he was acquainted) + are so violently excited by the paradise of physical love that, + after the sexual embrace, they faint or fall into a cataleptic + condition for several hours. + + "Physical sex is a larger factor in the life of the woman.... If + this be true of the physical element, it is equally true of the + mental element." (Dr. Elizabeth Blackwell, _The Human Element in + Sex_, fifth edition, 1894, p. 47.) + + "In the female sex," remarks Clouston, "reproduction is a more + dominant function of the organism than in the male, and has far + larger, if not more intense, relationships to feeling, judgment, + and volition." (Clouston, _Neuroses of Development_, 1891.) + + "It may be said," Marro states, "that in woman the visceral + system reacts, if not with greater intensity, certainly in a more + general manner, to all the impressions, having a sexual basis, + which dominate the life of woman, if not as sexual emotions + properly so called, as related emotions closely dependent on the + reproductive instinct." (A. Marro, _La Puberta_, 1898, p. 233.) + + Forel also believed (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, p. 274) that women are + more erotic than men. + + The gynecologist Kisch states his belief that "The sexual impulse + is so powerful in women that at certain periods of life its + primitive force dominates her whole nature, and there can be no + room left for reason to argue concerning reproduction; on the + contrary, union is desired even in the presence of the fear of + reproduction or when there can be no question of it." He regards + absence of sexual feeling in women as pathological. (Kisch, + _Sterilitaet des Weibes_, second edition, pp. 205-206.) In his + later work (_The Sexual Life of Woman_) Kisch again asserts that + sexual impulse always exists in mature women (in the absence of + organic sexual defect and cerebral disease), though it varies in + strength and may be repressed. In adolescent girls, however, it + is weaker than in youths of the same age. After she has had + sexual experiences, Kisch maintains, a woman's sexual emotions + are just as powerful as a man's, though she has more motives than + a man for controlling them. + + Eulenburg is of the same opinion as Kisch, and sharply criticises + the loose assertion of some authorities who have expressed + themselves in an opposite sense. (A. Eulenburg, _Sexuale + Neuropathie_, pp. 88-90; the same author has dealt with the point + in the _Zukunft_, December 2, 1893.) + + Kossmann states that the opinion as to the widespread existence + of frigidity among women is a fable. (Kossmann, _Allgemeine + Gynaecologie_, 1903, p. 362.) + + Bloch concludes that "in most cases the sexual coldness of women + is in fact only apparent, either due to the concealment of + glowing sexuality beneath the veil of outward reticence + prescribed by conventional morality, or else to the husband who + has not succeeded in arousing erotic sensations which are + complicated and with difficulty awakened.... The sexual + sensibility of women is certainly different from that of men, but + in strength it is at least as great." (Iwan Bloch, _Das + Sexualleben unserer Zeit_ 1907, ch. v.) + + Nystroem, also, after devoting a chapter to the discussion of the + causes of sexual coldness in women, concludes: "My conviction, + founded on experience, is, that only a small number of women + would be without sexual feeling if sound views and teaching + prevailed in respect to the sexual life, if due weight were given + to inner devotion and tender caresses as the preliminaries of + love in marriage, and if couples who wish to avoid pregnancy + would adopt sensible preventive methods instead of _coitus + interruptus_." (A. Nystroem, _Das Geschlichtsleben und seine + Gesetze_, eighth edition, 1907, p. 177.) + +We thus find two opinions widely current: one, of world-wide existence and +almost universally accepted in those ages and centers in which life is +lived most nakedly, according to which the sexual impulse is stronger in +women than in men; another, now widely prevalent in many countries, +according to which the sexual instinct is distinctly weaker in women, if, +indeed, it may not be regarded as normally absent altogether. A third view +is possible: it may be held that there is no difference at all. This +view, formerly not very widely held, is that of the French physiologist, +Beaunis, as it is of Winckel; while Rohleder, who formerly held that +sexual feeling tends to be defective in women, now believes that men and +women are equal in sexual impulse. + + At an earlier period, however, Donatus (_De Medica Historia + Mirabili_, 1613, lib. iv, cap. xvii) held the same view, and + remarked that sometimes men and sometimes women are the more + salacious, varying with the individual. Roubaud (_De + l'Impuissance_, 1855, p. 38) stated that the question is so + difficult as to be insoluble. + +In dealing with the characteristics of the sexual impulse in women, it +will be seen, we have to consider the prevalence in them of what is +commonly termed (in its slightest forms) frigidity or hyphedonia, and (in +more complete form) sexual anesthesia or anaphrodism, or erotic blindness, +or anhedonia.[157] + + Many modern writers have referred to the prevalence of frigidity + among women. Shufeldt believes (_Pacific Medical Journal_, Nov., + 1907) that 75 per cent, of married women in New York are + afflicted with sexual frigidity, and that it is on the increase; + it is rare, however, he adds, among Jewish women. Hegar gives 50 + per cent, as the proportion of sexually anesthetic women; + Fuerbringer says the majority of women are so. Effertz (quoted by + Loewenfeld, _Sexualleben und Nervenleiden_, p. 11, apparently with + approval) regards 10 per cent, among women generally as sexually + anesthetic, but only 1 per cent, men. Moll states (Eulenburg's + _Encyclopaedie_, fourth edition, art. "Geschlechtstrieb") that the + prevalence of sexual anesthesia among German women varies, + according to different authorities, from 10 to 66 per cent. + Elsewhere Moll (_Kontraere Sexualempfindung_, third edition, 1890, + p. 510) emphasizes the statement that "sexual anesthesia in women + is much more frequent than is generally supposed." He explains + that he is referring to the physical element of pleasure and + satisfaction in intercourse, and of desire for intercourse. He + adds that the psychic side of love is often more conspicuous in + women than in men. He cannot agree with Sollier that this kind of + sexual frigidity is a symptom of hysteria. Fere (_L'Instinct + Sexuel_, second edition, p. 112), in referring to the greater + frequency of sexual anesthesia in women, remarks that it is often + associated with neuropathic states, as well as with anomalies of + the genital organs, or general troubles of nutrition, and is + usually acquired. Some authors attribute great importance to + amenorrhea in this connection; one investigator has found that in + 4 out of 14 cases of absolute amenorrhea sexual feeling was + absent. Loewenfeld, again (_Sexualleben und Nervenleiden_), + referring to the common misconception that nervous disorder is + associated with increased sexual desire, points out that + nervously degenerate women far more often display frigidity than + increased sexual desire. Elsewhere (_Ueber die Sexuelle + Konstitution_) Loewenfeld says it is only among the upper classes + that sexual anesthesia is common. Campbell Clark, also, showed + some years ago that, in young women with a tendency to chlorosis + and a predisposition to insanity, defects of pelvic and mammary + development are very prevalent. (_Journal of Mental Science_, + October, 1888.) + + As regards the older medical authors, Schurig (_Spermatologia_, + 1720, p. 243, and _Gynaecologia_, 1730, p. 81) brought together + from the literature and from his own knowledge cases of women who + felt no pleasure in coitus, as well as of some men who had + erections without pleasure. + +There is, however, much uncertainty as to what precisely is meant by +sexual frigidity or anesthesia. All the old medical authors carefully +distinguish between the heat of sexual desire and the actual presence of +pleasure in coitus; many modern writers also properly separate _libido_ +from _voluptas_, since it is quite possible to experience sexual desires +and not to be able to obtain their gratification during sexual +intercourse, and it is possible to hold, with Mantegazza, that women +naturally have stronger sexual impulses than men, but are more liable than +men to experience sexual anesthesia. But it is very much more difficult +than most people seem to suppose, to obtain quite precise and definite +data concerning the absence of either _voluptas_ or _libido_ in a woman. +Even if we accept the statement of the woman who asserts that she has +either or both, the statement of their absence is by no means equally +conclusive and final. As even Adler--who discusses this question fully and +has very pronounced opinions about it--admits, there are women who stoutly +deny the existence of any sexual feelings until such feelings are +actually discovered.[158] Some of the most marked characteristics of the +sexual impulse in women, moreover,--its association with modesty, its +comparatively late development, its seeming passivity, its need of +stimulation,--all combine to render difficult the final pronouncement that +a woman is sexually frigid. Most significant of all in this connection is +the complexity of the sexual apparatus in women and the corresponding +psychic difficulty--based on the fundamental principle of sexual +selection--of finding a fitting mate. The fact that a woman is cold with +one man or even with a succession of men by no means shows that she is not +apt to experience sexual emotions; it merely shows that these men have not +been able to arouse them. "I recall two very striking cases," a +distinguished gynecologist, the late Dr. Engelmann, of Boston, wrote to +me, "of very attractive young married women--one having had a child, the +other a miscarriage--who were both absolutely cold to their husbands, as +told me by both husband and wife. They could not understand desire or +passion, and would not even believe that it existed. Yet, both these women +with other men developed ardent passion, all the stronger perhaps because +it had been so long latent." In such cases it is scarcely necessary to +invoke Adler's theory of a morbid inhibition, or "foreign body in +consciousness," which has to be overcome. We are simply in the presence of +the natural fact that the female throughout nature not only requires much +loving, but is usually fastidious in the choice of a lover. In the human +species this natural fact is often disguised and perverted. Women are not +always free to choose the man whom they would prefer as a lover, nor even +free to find out whether the man they prefer sexually fits them; they are, +moreover, very often extremely ignorant of the whole question of sex, and +the victims of the prejudice and false conventions they have been taught. +On the one hand, they are driven into an unnatural primness and austerity; +on the other hand, they rebound to an equally unnatural facility or even +promiscuity. Thus it happens that the men who find that a large number of +women are not so facile as they themselves are, and as they have found a +large number of women to be, rush to the conclusion that women tend to be +"sexually anesthetic." If we wish to be accurate, it is very doubtful +whether we can assert that a woman is ever absolutely without the aptitude +for sexual satisfaction.[159] She may unquestionably be without any +conscious desire for actual coitus. But if we realize to how large an +extent woman is a sexual organism, and how diffused and even unconscious +the sexual impulses may be, it becomes very difficult to assert that she +has never shown any manifestation of the sexual impulse. All we can assert +with some degree of positiveness in some cases is that she has not +manifested sexual gratification, more particularly as shown by the +occurrence of the orgasm, but that is very far indeed from warranting us +to assert that she never will experience such gratification or still less +that she is organically incapable of experiencing it.[160] It is therefore +quite impossible to follow Adler when he asks us to accept the existence +of a condition which he solemnly terms _anaesthesia sexualis completa +idiopathica_, in which there is no mechanical difficulty in the way or +psychic inhibition, but an "absolute" lack of sexual sensibility and a +complete absence of sexual inclination.[161] + +It is instructive to observe that Adler himself knows no "pure" case of +this condition. To find such a case he has to go back nearly two centuries +to Madame de Warens, to whom he devotes a whole chapter. He has, +moreover, had the courage in writing this chapter to rely entirely on +Rousseau's _Confessions_, which were written nearly half a century later +than the episodes they narrated, and are therefore full of inaccuracies, +besides being founded on an imperfect and false knowledge of Madame de +Warens's earlier life, and written by a man who was, there can be no +doubt, not able to arouse women's passions. Adler shows himself completely +ignorant of the historical investigations of De Montet, Mugnier, Ritter, +and others which, during recent years, have thrown a flood of light on the +life and character of Madame de Warens, and not even acquainted with the +highly significant fact that she was hysterical.[162] This is the basis of +"fact" on which we are asked to accept _anaesthesia sexualis completa +idiopathica!_[163] + + "In dealing with the alleged absence of the sexual impulse," a + well-informed medical correspondent writes from America, "much + caution has to be used in accepting statements as to its absence, + from the fact that most women fear by the admission to place + themselves in an impure category. I am also satisfied that influx + of women into universities, etc., is often due to the sexual + impulse causing restlessness, and that this factor finds + expression in the prurient prudishness so often presenting itself + in such women, which interferes with coeducation. This is + becoming especially noticeable at the University of Chicago, + where prudishness interferes with classical, biological, + sociological, and physiological discussion in the classroom. + There have been complaints by such women that a given professor + has not left out embryological facts not in themselves in any way + implying indelicacy. I have even been informed that the opinion + is often expressed in college dormitories that embryological + facts and discussions should be left out of a course intended for + both sexes." Such prudishness, it is scarcely necessary to + remark, whether found in women or men, indicates a mind that has + become morbidly sensitive to sexual impressions. For the healthy + mind embryological and allied facts have no emotionally sexual + significance, and there is, therefore, no need to shun them. + + Kolischer, of Chicago ("Sexual Frigidity in Women," _American + Journal of Obstetrics_, Sept., 1905), points out that it is often + the failure of the husband to produce sexual excitement in the + wife which leads to voluntary repression of sexual sensation on + her part, or an acquired sexual anesthesia. "Sexual excitement," + he remarks, "not brought to its natural climax, the reaction + leaves the woman in a very disagreeable condition, and repeated + occurrences of this kind may even lead to general nervous + disturbances. Some of these unfortunate women learn to suppress + their sexual sensation so as to avoid all these disagreeable + sequelae. Such a state of affairs is not only unfortunate, because + it deprives the female partner of her natural rights, but it is + also to be deplored because it practically brings down such a + married woman to the level of the prostitute." + + In illustration of the prevalence of inhibitions of various + kinds, from without and from within, in suppressing or disguising + sexual feeling in women, I may quote the following observations + by an American lady concerning a series of women of her + acquaintance:-- + + "Mrs. A. This woman is handsome and healthy. She has never had + children, much to the grief of herself and her husband. The man + is also handsome and attractive. Mrs. A. once asked me if + love-making between me and my husband ever originated with me. I + replied it was as often so as not, and she said that in that + event she could not see how passion between husband and wife + could be regulated. When I seemed not to be ashamed of the + matter, but rather to be positive in my views that it should be + so, she at once tried to impress me with the fact that she did + not wish me to think she 'could not be aroused.' This woman + several times hinted that she had learned a great amount that was + not edifying at boarding school, and I always felt that, with + proper encouragement, she would have retailed suggestive stories. + + "Mrs. B. This woman lives to please her husband, who is a spoiled + man. She gave birth to a child soon after marriage, but was left + an invalid for some years. She told me coition always hurt her, + and she said it made her sick to see her husband nude. I was + therefore surprised, years afterward, to hear her say, in reply + to a remark of another person, 'Yes; women are not only as + passionate as men, I am sure they are more so.' I therefore + questioned the lack of passion she had on former occasions + avowed, or else felt convinced her improvement in health had made + intercourse pleasant. + + "Miss C. A teacher. She is emotional and easily becomes + hysterical. Her life has been one of self-sacrifice and her + rearing most Puritanical. She told me she thought women did not + crave sexual satisfaction unless it had been aroused in them. I + consider her one who physically is injured by not having it. + + "Mrs. D. After being married a few years this person told me she + thought intercourse 'horrid.' Some years after this, however, she + fell in love with a man not her husband, which caused their + separation. She always fancied men in love with her, and she told + me that she and her husband tried to live without intercourse, + fearing more children, but they could not do it; she also told of + trying to refrain, for the same purpose, until safe parts of the + menstrual month, but that 'was just the time she cared least for + it.' These remarks made me doubt the sincerity of the first. + + "Mrs. E. said she enjoyed intercourse as well as her husband, and + she 'didn't see why she should not say so.' This same woman, + whether using a current phrase or not, afterward said her husband + 'did not bother her very often.' + + "Mrs. F., the mother of several children, was married to a man + she neither loved nor respected, but she said that when a strange + man touched her it made her tremble all over. + + "Mrs. G., the mother of many children, divorced on account of the + dissipation, drinking and otherwise, of her husband. She is of + the creole type, but large and almost repulsive. She is a + brilliant talker and she supports herself by writing. She has + fallen in love with a number of young men, 'wildly, madly, + passionately,' as one of them told me, and I am sure she suffers + greatly from the lack of satisfaction. She would no doubt procure + it if it were possible. + + "I believe," the writer concludes, "women are as passionate as + men, but the enforced restraint of years possibly smothers it. + The fear of having children and the methods to prevent conception + are, I am sure, potent factors in the injury to the emotions of + married women. Perhaps the lack of intercourse acts less + disastrously upon a woman because of the renewed feeling which + comes after each menstrual period." + + As bearing on the causes which have led to the disguise and + misinterpretation of the sexual impulse in women I may quote the + following communication from another lady:-- + + "I do think the coldness of women has been greatly exaggerated. + Men's theoretically ideal woman (though they don't care so much + about it in practice) is passionless, and women are afraid to + admit that they have any desire for sexual pleasure. Rousseau, + who was not very straight-laced, excuses the conduct of Madame de + Warens on the ground that it was not the result of passion: an + aggravation rather than a palliation of the offense, if society + viewed it from the point of view of any other fault. Even in the + modern novels written by the 'new woman' the longing for + maternity, always an honorable sentiment, is dragged in to veil + the so-called 'lower' desire. That some women, at any rate, have + very strong passions and that great suffering is entailed by + their repression is not, I am sure, sufficiently recognized, even + by women themselves. + + "Besides the 'passionless ideal' which checks their sincerity, + there are many causes which serve to disguise a woman's feelings + to herself and make her seem to herself colder than she really + is. Briefly these are:-- + + "1. Unrecognized disease of the reproductive organs, especially + after the birth of children. A friend of mine lamented to me her + inability to feel pleasure, though she had done so before the + birth of her child, then 3 years old. With considerable + difficulty I persuaded her to see a doctor, who told her all the + reproductive organs were seriously congested; so that for three + years she had lived in ignorance and regret for her husband's + sake and her own. + + "2. The dread of recommencing, once having suffered them, all the + pains and discomforts of child-bearing. + + "3. Even when precautions are taken, much bother and anxiety is + involved, which has a very dampening effect on excitement. + + "4. The fact that men will never take any trouble to find out + what specially excites a woman. A woman, as a rule, is at some + pains to find out the little things which particularly affect the + man she loves,--it may be a trick of speech, a rose in her hair, + or what not,--and she makes use of her knowledge. But do you know + one man who will take the same trouble? (It is difficult to + specify, as what pleases one person may not another. I find that + the things that affect me personally are the following: [_a_] + Admiration for a man's mental capacity will translate itself + sometimes into direct physical excitement. [_b_] Scents of white + flowers, like tuberose or syringa. [_c_] The sight of fireflies. + [_d_] The idea or the reality of suspension. [_e_] Occasionally + absolute passivity.) + + "5. The fact that many women satisfy their husbands when + themselves disinclined. This is like eating jam when one does not + fancy it, and has a similar effect. It is a great mistake, in my + opinion, to do so, except very rarely. A man, though perhaps + cross at the time, prefers, I believe, to gratify himself a few + times, when the woman also enjoys it, to many times when she does + not. + + "6. The masochistic tendency of women, or their desire for + subjection to the man they love. I believe no point in the whole + question is more misunderstood than this. Nearly every man + imagines that to secure a woman's love and respect he must give + her her own way in small things, and compel her obedience in + great ones. Every man who desires success with a woman should + exactly reverse that theory." + +When we are faced by these various and often conflicting statements of +opinion it seems necessary to obtain, if possible, a definite basis of +objective fact. It would be fairly obvious in any case, and it becomes +unquestionable in view of the statements I have brought together, that the +best-informed and most sagacious clinical observers, when giving an +opinion on a very difficult and elusive subject which they have not +studied with any attention and method, are liable to make unguarded +assertions; sometimes, also, they become the victims of ethical or +pseudoethical prejudices, so as to be most easily influenced by that class +of cases which happens to fit in best with their prepossessions.[164] In +order to reach any conclusions on a reasonable basis it is necessary to +take a series of unselected individuals and to ascertain carefully the +condition of the sexual impulse in each. + +At present, however, this is extremely difficult to do at all +satisfactorily, and quite impossible, indeed, to do in a manner likely to +yield absolutely unimpeachable results. Nevertheless, a few series of +observations have been made. Thus, Dr. Harry Campbell[165] records the +result of an investigation, carried on in his hospital practice, of 52 +married women of the poorer class; they were not patients, but ordinary, +healthy working-class women, and the inquiry was not made directly, but of +the husbands, who were patients. Sexual instinct was said to be present in +12 cases before marriage, and absent in 40; in 13 of the 40 it never +appeared at all; so that it altogether appeared in 39, or in the ratio of +something over 75 per cent. Among the 12 in whom it existed before +marriage it was said to have appeared in most with puberty; in 3, however, +a few years before puberty, and in 2 a few years later. In 2 of those in +whom it appeared before puberty, menstruation began late; in the third it +rose almost to nymphomania on the day preceding the first menstruation. +In nearly all the cases desire was said to be stronger in the husband than +in the wife; when it was stronger in the wife, the husband was +exceptionally indifferent. Of the 13 in whom desire was absent after +marriage, 5 had been married for a period under two years, and Campbell +remarks that it would be wrong to conclude that it would never develop in +these cases, for in this group of cases the appearance of sexual instinct +was sometimes a matter of days, sometimes of years, after the date of +marriage. In two-thirds of the cases there was a diminution of desire, +usually gradual, at the climacteric; in the remaining third there was +either no change or exaltation of desire. The most important general +result, Campbell concludes, is that "the sexual instinct is very much less +intense in woman than in man," and to this he elsewhere adds a corollary +that "the sexual instinct in the civilized woman is, I believe, tending to +atrophy." + +An eminent gynecologist, the late Dr. Matthews Duncan, has (in his work on +_Sterility in Women_) presented a table which, although foreign to this +subject, has a certain bearing on the matter. Matthews Duncan, believing +that the absence of sexual desire and of sexual pleasure in coitus are +powerful influences working for sterility, noted their presence or absence +in a number of cases, and found that, among 191 sterile women between the +ages of 15 and 45, 152, or 79 per cent., acknowledged the presence of +sexual desire; and among 196 sterile women (mostly the same cases), 134, +or 68 per cent., acknowledged the presence of sexual pleasure in coitus. +Omitting the cases over 35 years of age, which were comparatively few, the +largest proportion of affirmative answers, both as regards sexual pleasure +and sexual desire, was from between 30 and 34 years of age. Matthews +Duncan assumes that the absence of sexual desire and sexual pleasure in +women is thoroughly abnormal.[166] + +An English non-medical author, in the course of a thoughtful discussion of +sexual phenomena, revealing considerable knowledge and observation,[167] +has devoted a chapter to this subject in another of its aspects. Without +attempting to ascertain the normal strength of the sexual instinct in +women, he briefly describes 11 cases of "sexual anesthesia" in Women (in 2 +or 3 of which there appears, however, to be an element of latent +homosexuality) from among the circle of his own friends. This author +concludes that sexual coldness is very common among English women, and +that it involves questions of great social and ethical importance. + + I have not met with any series of observations made among + seemingly healthy and normal women in other countries; there are, + however, various series of somewhat abnormal cases in which the + point was noted, and the results are not uninstructive. Thus, in + Vienna at Krafft-Ebing's psychiatric clinic, Gattel (_Ueber die + sexuellen Ursachen der Neurasthenie und Angstneurose_, 1898) + carefully investigated the cases of 42 women, mostly at the + height of sexual life,--i.e., between 20 and 35,--who were + suffering from slight nervous disorders, especially neurasthenia + and mild hysteria, but none of them from grave nervous or other + disease. Of these 42, at least 17 had masturbated, at one time or + another, either before or after marriage, in order to obtain + relief of sexual feelings. In the case of 4 it is stated that + they do not obtain sexual satisfaction in marriage, but in these + cases only _coitus interruptus_ is practised, and the fact that + the absence of sexual satisfaction was complained of seems to + indicate an aptitude for experiencing it. These 4 cases can + therefore scarcely be regarded as exceptions. In all the other + cases sexual desire, sexual excitement, or sexual satisfaction is + always clearly indicated, and in a considerable proportion of + cases it is noted that the sexual impulse is very strongly + developed. This series is valuable, since the facts of the sexual + life are, as far as possible, recorded with much precision. The + significance of the facts varies, however, according to the view + taken as to the causation of neurasthenia and allied conditions + of slight nervous disorder. Gattel argues that sexual + irregularities are a peculiarly fruitful, if not invariable, + source of such disorders; according to the more commonly accepted + view this is not so. If we accept the more usual view, these + women fairly correspond to average women of lower class; if, + however, we accept Gattel's view, they may possess the sexual + instinct in a more marked degree than average women. + + In a series of 116 German women in whom the operation of removing + the ovaries was performed, Pfister usually noted briefly in what + way the sexual impulse was affected by the operation ("Die + Wirkung der Castration auf den Weiblichen Organismus," _Archiv + fuer Gynaekologie_, 1898, p. 583). In 13 cases (all but 3 + unmarried) the presence of sexual desire at any time was denied, + and 2 of these expressed disgust of sexual matters. In 12 cases + the point is left doubtful. In all the other cases sexual desire + had once been present, and in 2 or 3 cases it was acknowledged to + be so strong as to approach nymphomania. In about 30 of these + (not including any in which it was previously very strong) it was + extinguished by castration, in a few others it was diminished, + and in the rest unaffected. Thus, when we exclude the 12 cases in + which the point was not apparently investigated, and the 10 + unmarried women, in whom it may have been latent or unavowed, we + find that, of 94 married women, 91 women acknowledged the + existence of sexual desire and only 3 denied it. + + Schroeter, again in Germany, has investigated the manifestations + of the sexual impulse among 402 insane women in the asylum at + Eichberg in Rheingau. ("Wird bei jungen Unverheiratheten zur Zeit + der Menstruation staerkere sexuelle Erregheit beobaehtet?" + _Allgemeine Zeitschrift fuer Psychiatrie_, vol. lvi, 1899, pp. + 321-333.) There is no reason to suppose that the insane represent + a class of the community specially liable to sexual emotion, + although its manifestations may become unrestrained and + conspicuous under the influence of insanity; and at the same + time, while the appearance of such manifestations is evidence of + the aptitude for sexual emotions, their absence may be only due + to disease, seclusion, or to an intact power of self-control. + + Of the 402 women, 166 were married and 236 unmarried. Schroeter + divided them into four groups: (1) those below 20; (2) those + between 20 and 30; (3) those between 30 and 40; (4) those from 40 + to the menopause. The patients included persons from the lowest + class of the population, and only about a quarter of them could + fairly be regarded as curable. Thus the manifestations of + sexuality were diminished, for with advance of mental disease + sexual manifestations cease to appear. Schroeter only counted + those cases in which the sexual manifestations were decided and + fairly constant at the menstrual epoch; if not visibly + manifested, sexual feeling was not taken into account. Sexual + phenomena accompanied the entry of the menstrual epoch in 141 + cases: i.e., in 20 (or in the proportion of 72 per cent.) of the + first group, consisting entirely of unmarried women; in 33 (or 28 + per cent.) of the second group; in 55 (or 35 per cent.) of the + third group; and in 33 (or 33 per cent.) of the fourth group. It + was found that 181 patients showed no sexual phenomena at any + time, while 80 showed sexual phenomena frequently between the + menstrual epochs, but only in a slight degree, and not at all + during the period. At all ages sexual manifestations were more + prevalent among the unmarried than among the married, though this + difference became regularly and progressively less with increase + in age. + + Schroeter inclines to think that sexual excitement is commoner + among insane women belonging to the lower social classes than in + those belonging to the better classes. Among 184 women in a + private asylum, only 13 (6.13 per cent.) showed very marked and + constant excitement at menstrual periods. He points out, however, + that this may be due to a greater ability to restrain the + manifestations of feeling. + + There is some interest in Schroeter's results, though they cannot + be put on a line with inquiries made among the sane; they only + represent the prevalence of the grossest and strongest sexual + manifestations when freed from the restraints of sanity. + +As a slight contribution toward the question, I have selected a series of +12 cases of women of whose sexual development I possess precise +information, with the following results: In 2 cases distinct sexual +feeling was experienced spontaneously at the age of 7 and 8, but the +complete orgasm only occurred some years after puberty; in 5 cases sexual +feeling appeared spontaneously for a few months to a year after the +appearance of menstruation, which began between 12 and 14 years of age, +usually at 13; in another case sexual feeling first appeared shortly after +menstruation began, but not spontaneously, being called out by a lover's +advances; in the remaining 4 cases sexual emotion never became definite +and conscious until adult life (the ages being 26, 27, 34, 35), in 2 cases +through being made love to, and in 2 cases through self-manipulation out +of accident or curiosity. It is noteworthy that the sexual feelings first +developed in adult life were usually as strong as those arising at +puberty. It may be added that, of these 12 women, 9 had at some time or +another masturbated (4 shortly after puberty, 5 in adult life), but, +except in 1 case, rarely and at intervals. All belong to the middle class, +2 or 3 leading easy, though not idle, lives, while all the others are +engaged in professional or other avocations often involving severe labor. +They differ widely in character and mental ability; but, while 2 or 3 +might be regarded as slightly abnormal, they are all fairly healthy. + +I am inclined to believe that the experiences of the foregoing group are +fairly typical of the social class to which they belong. I may, however, +bring forward another series of 35 women, varying in age from 18 to 40 +(with 2 exceptions all over 25), and in every respect comparable with the +smaller group, but concerning whom my knowledge, though reliable, is +usually less precise and detailed. In this group 5 state that they have +never experienced sexual emotion, these being all unmarried and leading +strictly chaste lives; in 18 cases the sexual impulse may be described as +strong, or is so considered by the subject herself; in 9 cases it is only +moderate; in 3 it is very slight when evoked, and with difficulty evoked, +in 1 of these only appearing two years after marriage, in another the +exhaustion and worry of household cares being assigned for its comparative +absence. It is noteworthy that all the more highly intelligent, energetic +women in the series appear in the group of those with strong sexual +emotions, and also that severe mental and physical labor, even when +cultivated for this purpose, has usually had little or no influence in +relieving sexual emotion. + + An American physician in the State of Connecticut sends me the + following notes concerning a series of 13 married women, taken, + as they occurred, in obstetric practice. They are in every way + respectable and moral women:-- + + "Mrs. A. says that her husband does not give her sufficient + sexual attention, as he fears they will have more children than + he can properly care for. Mrs. B. always enjoys intercourse; so + does Mrs. C. Mrs. D. is easily excited and very fond of sexual + attention. Mrs. E. likes intercourse if her husband is careful + not to hurt her. Mrs. F. never had any sexual desire until after + second marriage, but it is now very urgent at times. Mrs. G. is + not easily excited, but has never objected to her husband's + attention. Mrs. H. would prefer to have her husband exhibit more + attention. Mrs. I. never refused her husband, but he does not + trouble her much. Mrs. J. thinks that three or four times a week + is satisfactory, but would not object to nightly intercourse. + Mrs. K. does not think that her husband could give her more than + she would like. Mrs. L. would prefer to live with a woman if it + were not for sexual intercourse. Mrs. M., aged 40, says that her + husband, aged 65, insists upon intercourse three times every + night, and that he keeps her tired and disgusted. She each time + has at least one orgasm, and would not object to reasonable + attention." + +It may be remarked that, while these results in English women of the +middle class are in fair agreement with the German and Austrian +observations I have quoted, they differ from Campbell's results among +women of the working class in London. This discrepancy is, perhaps, not +difficult to explain. While the conditions of upper-class life may +possibly be peculiarly favorable to the development of the sexual +emotions, among the working classes in London, where the stress of the +struggle for existence under bad hygienic conditions is so severe, they +may be peculiarly unfavorable. It is thus possible that there really are a +smaller number of women experiencing sexual emotion among the class dealt +with by Campbell than among the class to which my series belong.[168] + +A more serious consideration is the method of investigation. A working +man, who is perhaps unintelligent outside his own work, and in many cases +married to a woman who is superior in refinement, may possibly be able to +arouse his wife's sexual emotions, and also able to ascertain what those +emotions are, and be willing to answer questions truthfully on this point, +to the best of his ability, but he is by no means a witness whose evidence +is final. While, however, Campbell's facts may not be quite +unquestionable, I am inclined to agree with his conclusion, and +Mantegazza's, that there is a very great range of variation in this +matter, and that there is no age at which the sexual impulse in women may +not appear. A lady who has received the confidence of very many women +tells me that she has never found a woman who was without sexual feeling. +I should myself be inclined to say that it is extremely difficult to find +a woman who is without the aptitude for sexual emotion, although a great +variety of circumstances may hinder, temporarily or permanently, the +development of this latent aptitude. In other words, while the latent +sexual aptitude may always be present, the sexual impulse is liable to be +defective and the aptitude to remain latent, with consequent deficiency of +sexual emotion, and absence of sexual satisfaction. + + This is not only indicated by the considerable proportion of my + cases in which there is only moderate or slight sexual feeling. I + have ample evidence that in many cases the element of pain, which + may almost be said to be normal in the establishment of the + sexual function, is never merged, as it normally is, in + pleasurable sensations on the full establishment of sexual + relationships. Sometimes, no doubt, this may be due to + dyspareunia. Sometimes there may be an absolute sexual + anesthesia, whether of congenital or hysterical origin. I have + been told of the case of a married lady who has never been able + to obtain sexual pleasure, although she has had relations with + several men, partly to try if she could obtain the experience, + and partly to please them; the very fact that the motives for + sexual relationships arose from no stronger impulse itself + indicates a congenital defect on the psychic as well as on the + physical side. But, as a rule, the sexual anesthesia involved is + not absolute, but lies in a disinclination to the sexual act due + to various causes, in a defect of strong sexual impulse, and an + inaptitude for the sexual orgasm. + + I am indebted to a lady who has written largely on the woman + question, and is herself the mother of a numerous family, for + several letters in regard to the prevalence among women of sexual + coldness, a condition which she regards as by no means to be + regretted. She considers that in all her own children the sexual + impulse is very slightly developed, the boys being indifferent to + women, the girls cold toward men and with no desire to marry, + though all are intelligent and affectionate, the girls showing a + very delicate and refined kind of beauty. (A large selection of + photographs accompanied this communication.) Something of the + same tendency is said to mark the stocks from which this family + springs, and they are said to be notable for their longevity, + healthiness, and disinclination for excesses of all kinds. It is + scarcely necessary to remark that a mother, however highly + intelligent, is by no means an infallible judge as to the + presence or absence in her children of so shy, subtle, and + elusive an impulse as that of sex. At the same time I am by no + means disposed to question the existence in individuals, and even + in families or stocks, of a relatively weak sexual impulse, + which, while still enabling procreation to take place, is + accompanied by no strong attraction to the opposite sex and no + marked inclination for marriage. (Adler, op. cit., p. 168, found + such a condition transmitted from mother to daughter.) Such + persons often possess a delicate type of beauty. Even, however, + when the health is good there seems usually to be a certain lack + of vitality. + +It seems to me that a state of sexual anesthesia, relative or absolute, +cannot be considered as anything but abnormal. To take even the lowest +ground, the satisfaction of the reproductive function ought to be at least +as gratifying as the evacuation of the bowels or bladder; while, if we +take, as we certainly must, higher ground than this, an act which is at +once the supreme fact and symbol of love and the supreme creative act +cannot under normal conditions be other than the most pleasurable of all +acts, or it would stand in violent opposition to all that we find in +nature. + +How natural the sexual impulse is in women, whatever difficulties may +arise in regard to its complete gratification, is clearly seen when we +come to consider the frequency with which in young women we witness its +more or less instinctive manifestations. Such manifestations are liable to +occur in a specially marked manner in the years immediately following the +establishment of puberty, and are the more impressive when we remember the +comparatively passive part played by the female generally in the game of +courtship, and the immense social force working on women to compel them to +even an unnatural extension of that passive part. The manifestations to +which I allude not only occur with most frequency in young girls, but, +contrary to the common belief, they seem to occur chiefly in innocent and +unperverted girls. The more vicious are skillful enough to avoid the +necessity for any such open manifestations. We have to bear this in mind +when confronted by flagrant sexual phenomena in young girls. + + "A young girl," says Hammer ("Ueber die Sinnlichkeit gesunder + Jungfrauen," _Die Neue Generation_, Aug., 1911), "who has not + previously adopted any method of self-gratification experiences + at the beginning of puberty, about the time of the first + menstruation and the sprouting of the pubic hair, in the absence + of all stimulation by a man, spontaneous sexual tendencies of + both local and psychic nature. On the psychic side there is a + feeling of emptiness and dissatisfaction, a need of subjection + and of serving, and, if the opportunity has so far been absent, + the craving to see masculine nudity and to learn the facts of + procreation. Side by side with these wishes, there are at the + same time inhibitory desires, such as the wish to keep herself + pure, either for a man whom she represents to herself as the + 'ideal,' or for her parents, who must not be worried, or as a + member of a chosen people in whose spirit she must live and die, + or out of love to Jesus or to some saint. On the physical side, + there is the feeling of fresh power and energy, of enterprise; + the agreeable tension of the genital regions, which easily become + moist. Then there is the feeling of overirritability and excess + of tension, and the need of relieving the tension through + pinches, blows, tight lacing, and so forth. If the girl remains + innocent of sex satisfaction, there takes place during sleep, at + regular intervals of about three days, more or less the relief + and emission of the tense glands, not corresponding to the + menstrual period, but to intercourse, and serving better than + sexual instruction to represent to her the phenomena of + intercourse. If at this period actual intercourse takes place, it + is, as a rule, free from pain, as also is the introduction of the + speculum. Without any seduction from without, the chaste girl now + frequently finds a way to relieve the excessive tension without + the aid of a man. It is self-abuse that leads gradually to the + production of pain in defloration. The menstrual phenomena + correspond to birth; self-gratification or relief during sleep to + intercourse." This statement of the matter is somewhat too + absolute and unqualified. Under the artificial conditions of + civilization the inhibitory influences of training speedily work + powerfully, and more or less successfully, in banishing sexual + phenomena into the subconscious, sometimes to work all the + mischief there which Freud attributes to them. It must also be + said (as I have pointed out in the discussion of Auto-erotism in + another volume) that sexual dreams seem to be the exception + rather than the rule in innocent girls. It remains true that + sexual phenomena in girls at puberty must not be regarded as + morbid or unnatural. There is also very good reason for believing + (even apart from the testimony of so experienced a gynecologist + as Hammer) that on the physical side sexual processes tend to be + accomplished with a facility that is often lost in later years + with prolonged chastity. This is true alike of intercourse and of + childbirth. (See vol. vi of these _Studies_, ch. xii.) + +Even, however, in the case of adults the active part played by women in +real life in matters of love by no means corresponds to the conventional +ideas on these subjects. No doubt nearly every woman receives her sexual +initiation from an older and more experienced man. But, on the other hand, +nearly every man receives his first initiation through the active and +designed steps taken by an older and more experienced woman. It is too +often forgotten by those who write on these subjects that the man who +seduces a woman has usually himself in the first place been "seduced" by a +woman. + + A well-known physician in Chicago tells me that on making inquiry + of 25 middle-class married men in succession be found that 16 had + been first seduced by a woman. An officer in the Indian Medical + Service writes to me as follows: "Once at a club in Burma we were + some 25 at table and the subject of first intercourse came up. + All had been led astray by servants save 2, whom their sisters' + governesses had initiated. We were all men in the 'service,' so + the facts may be taken to be typical of what occurs in our + stratum of society. All had had sexual relations with respectable + unmarried girls, and most with the wives of men known to their + fathers, in some instances these being old enough to be their + lovers' mothers. Apparently up to the age of 17 none had dared to + make the first advances, yet from the age of 13 onward all had + had ample opportunity for gratifying their sexual instincts with + women. Though all had been to public schools where homosexuality + was known to occur, yet (as I can assert from intimate knowledge) + none had given signs of inversion or perversion in Burma." + + In Russia, Tchlenoff, investigating the sexual life of over 2000 + Moscow students of upper and middle class (_Archives + d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Oct.-Nov., 1908), found that in half + of them the first coitus took place between 14 and 17 years of + age; in 41 per cent, with prostitutes, in 39 per cent, with + servants, and in 10 per cent, with married women. In 41 per cent, + the young man declared that he had taken the initiative, in 25 + per cent, the women took it, and in 23 per cent, the incitement + came from a comrade. + + The histories I have recorded in Appendix B (as well as in the + two following volumes of these _Studies_) very well illustrate + the tendency of young girls to manifest sexual impulses when + freed from the constraint which they feel in the presence of + adult men and from the fear of consequences. These histories show + especially how very frequently nurse-maids and servant-girls + effect the sexual initiation of the young boys intrusted to them. + How common this impulse is among adolescent girls of low social + class is indicated by the fact that certainly the majority of + middle-class men can recall instances from their own childhood. + (I here leave out of account the widespread practice among nurses + of soothing very young children in their charge by manipulating + the sexual organs.) + + A medical correspondent, in emphasizing this point, writes that + "many boys will tell you that, if a nurse-girl is allowed to + sleep in the same room with them, she will attempt sexual + manipulations. Either the girl gets into bed with the boy and + pulling him on to her tickles the penis and inserts it into the + vulva, making the boy imitate sexual movements, or she simply + masturbates the child, to get him excited and interested, often + showing him the female sexual opening in herself or in his + sisters, teaching him to finger it. In fact, a nurse-girl may + ruin a boy, chiefly, I think, because she has been brought up to + regard the sexual organs as a mystery, and is in utter ignorance + about them. She thus takes the opportunity of investigating the + boy's penis to find out how it works, etc., in order to satisfy + her curiosity. I know of a case in which a nurse in a fashionable + London Square garden used to collect all the boys and girls + (gentlemen's children) in a summer-house when it grew dark, and, + turning up her petticoats, invite all the boys to look at and + feel her vulva, and also incite the older boys of 12 or 14 to + have coitus with her. Girls are afraid of pregnancy, so do not + allow an adult penis to operate. I think people should take on a + far higher class of nurses, than they do." + + "Children ought never to be allowed, under any circumstances + whatever," wrote Lawson Tait (_Diseases of Women_, 1889, p. 62), + "to sleep with servants. In every instance where I have found a + number of children affected [by masturbation] the contagion has + been traced to a servant." Freud has found (_Neurologisches + Centralblatt_, No. 10, 1896) that in cases of severe youthful + hysteria the starting point may frequently be traced to sexual + manipulations by servants, nurse-girls, and governesses. + + "When I was about 8 or 9," a friend writes, "a servant-maid of + our family, who used to carry the candle out of my bedroom, often + drew down the bedclothes and inspected my organs. One night she + put the penis in her mouth. When I asked her why she did it her + answer was that 'sucking a boy's little dangle' cured her of + pains in her stomach. She said that she had done it to other + little boys, and declared that she liked doing it. This girl was + about 16; she had lately been 'converted.' Another maid in our + family used to kiss me warmly on the naked abdomen when I was a + small boy. But she never did more than that. I have heard of + various instances of servant-girls tampering with boys before + puberty, exciting the penis to premature erection by + manipulation, suction, and contact with their own parts." Such + overstimulation must necessarily in some cases have an injurious + influence on the boy's immature nervous system. Thus, Hutchinson + (_Archives of Surgery_, vol. iv, p. 200) describes a case of + amblyopia in a boy, developing after he had been placed to sleep + in a servant-girl's room. + + Moll (_Kontraere Sexualempfindung_, third edition, 1899, p. 325) + refers to the frequency with which servant-girls (between the + ages of 18 and 30) carry on sexual practices with young boys + (between 5 and 13) committed to their care. More than a century + earlier Tissot, in his famous work on onanism, referred to the + frequency with which servant-girls corrupt boys by teaching them + to masturbate; and still earlier, in England, the author of + _Onania_ gave many such cases. We may, indeed, go back to the + time of Rabelais, who (as Dr. Kiernan reminds me) represents the + governesses of Gargantua, when he was a child, as taking pleasure + in playing with his penis till it became wet, and joking with + each other about it. (_Gargantua_, book i, chapter ix.) + + The prevalence of such manifestations among servant-girls + witnesses to their prevalence among lower-class girls generally. + In judging such acts, even when they seem to be very deliberate, + it is important to remember that at this age unreasoning instinct + plays a very large part in the manifestations of the sexual + impulse. This is clearly indicated by the phenomena observed in + the insane. Thus, as we have seen (page 214), Schroeter has found + that, among girls of low social class under 20 years of age, + spontaneous periodical sexual manifestations at menstrual epochs + occurred in as large a proportion as 72 per cent. Among girls of + better social position these impulses are inhibited, or at all + events modified, by good taste or good feeling, the influences of + tradition or education; it is only to the latter that children + should be intrusted. + + Hoche mentions a case in which a man was accused of repeatedly + exhibiting his sexual organs to the servant-girl at a house; she + enjoyed the spectacle (_Neurologisches Centralblatt_, 1896, No. + 2). It may well be that in some cases of self-exhibition the + offender has good reason, on the ground of previous experience, + for thinking that he is giving pleasure. "When we used to go to + bathe while I was at school," writes a correspondent, "girls from + a poor quarter of the lower town (some quite 16) often followed + us and stood to watch about a hundred yards from the river. They + used to 'giggle' and 'pass remarks.' I have seen girls of this + class peeping through chinks of a palisade around a bathing-place + on the Thames." A correspondent who has given special attention + to the point tells me of the great interest displayed by young + girls of the people in Italy in the sexual organs of men. + + Curiosity--whether in the form of the desire for knowledge or the + desire for sensation--is, of course, not confined to young girls + and women of lower social strata, though in them it is less often + restrained by motives of self-respect and good feeling. "At the + age of 8," writes a correspondent, "I was one day playing in a + spare room with a girl of about 12 or 13. She gave me a + penholder, and, crouching upon her hands and knees, with her + posterior toward me, invited me to introduce the instrument into + the vulva. This was the first time I had seen the female parts, + and, as I appeared to be somewhat repelled, she coaxed me to + comply with her desire. I did as she directed, and she said that + it gave her pleasure. Several times after I repeated the same act + at her request. A friend tells me that when he was 10 a girl of + 16 asked him to lace up her boots. While he was kneeling at her + feet his hand touched her ankle. She asked him to put his hand + higher, and repeated 'Higher, higher,' till he touched the + pudenda, and finally, at her request, put his finger into the + vestibule. This girl was very handsome and amiable, and a + favorite of the boy's mother. No one suspected this propensity." + Again, a correspondent (a man of science) tells me of a friend + who lately, when dining out, met a girl, the daughter of a + country vicar; he was not specially attracted to her and paid her + no special attention. "A few days afterward he was astonished to + receive a call from her one afternoon (though his address is not + discoverable from any recognized source). She sat down as near to + him as she could, and rested her hand on his thigh, etc., while + talking on different subjects and drinking tea. Then without any + verbal prelude she asked him to have connection with her. Though + not exactly a Puritan, he is not the man to jump at such an offer + from a woman he is not in love with, so, after ascertaining that + the girl was _virgo intacta_, he declined and she went away. A + fortnight or so later he received a letter from her in the + country, making no reference to what had passed, but giving an + account of her work with her Sunday-school class. He did not + reply, and then came a curt note asking him to return her letter. + My friend feels sure she was devoted to auto-erotic performances, + but, having become attracted to him, came to the conclusion she + would like to try normal intercourse." + + Wolbarst, studying the prevalence of gonorrhea among boys in New + York (especially, it would appear, in quarters where the + foreign-born elements--mainly Russian Jew and south Italian--are + large), states: "In my study of this subject there have been + observed 3 cases of gonorrheal urethritis, in boys aged, + respectively, 4, 10, and 12 years, which were acquired in the + usual manner, from girls ranging between 10 and 12 years of age. + In each case, according to the story told by the victim, the girl + made the first advances, and in I case, that of the 4-year-old + boy, the act was consummated in the form of an assault, by a + girl 12 years old, in which the child was threatened with injury + unless he performed his part." (A.L. Wolbarst, _Journal of the + American Medical Association_, Sept. 28, 1901.) In a further + series of cases (_Medical Record_, Oct. 29, 1910) Wolbarst + obtained similar results, though he recognizes also the frequency + of precocious sexuality in the young boys themselves. + + Gibb states, concerning assaults on children by women: "It is + undeniably true that they occur much more frequently than is + generally supposed, although but few of the cases are brought to + public notice, owing to the difficulty of proving the charge." + (W.T. Gibb, article "Indecent Assaults upon Children," in A. + McLane Hamilton's _System of Legal Medicine_, vol. i, p. 651.) + Gibb's opinion carries weight, since he is medical adviser for + the New York Society for the Protection of Children, and + compelled to sift the evidence carefully in such cases. + + It should be mentioned that, while a sexual curiosity exercised + on younger children is, in girls about the age of puberty, an + ill-regulated, but scarcely morbid, manifestation, in older women + it may be of pathological origin. Thus, Kisch records the case of + a refined and educated lady of 30 who had been married for nine + years, but had never experienced sexual pleasure in coitus. For a + long time past, however, she had felt a strong desire to play + with the genital organs of children of either sex, a proceeding + which gave her sexual pleasure. She sought to resist this impulse + as much as possible, but during menstruation it was often + irresistible. Examination showed an enlarged and retroflexed + uterus and anesthesia of vagina. (Kisch, _Die Sterilitaet des + Weibes_, 1886, p. 103.) The psychological mechanism by which an + anesthetic vagina leads to a feeling of repulsion for normal + coitus and normal sexual organs, and directs the sexual feelings + toward more infantile forms of sexuality, is here not difficult + to trace. + + It is not often that the sexual attempts of girls and young women + on boys--notwithstanding their undoubted frequency--become of + medico-legal interest. In France in the course of ten years (1874 + to 1884) only 181 women, who were mostly between 20 and 30 years + of age, were actually convicted of sexual attempts on children + below 15. (Paul Bernard, "Viols et attentats a la Pudeur," + _Archives de l'Anthropologie Criminelle_, 1887.) Lop ("Attentats + a la Pudeur commis par des Femmes sur des Petits Enfants," id., + Aug., 1896) brings together a number of cases chiefly committed + by girls between the ages of 18 and 20. In England such + accusations against a young woman or girl may easily be + circumvented. If she is under 16 she is protected by the Criminal + Law Amendment Act and cannot be punished. In any case, when found + out, she can always easily bring the sympathy to her side by + declaring that she is not the aggressor, but the victim. Cases of + violent sexual assault upon girls, Lawson Tait remarks, while + they undoubtedly do occur, are very much rarer than the frequency + with which the charge is made would lead us to suspect. At one + time, by arrangement with the authority, 70 such charges at + Birmingham were consecutively brought before Lawson Tait. These + charges were all made under the Criminal Law Amendment Act. In + only 6 of these cases was he able to advise prosecution, in all + of which cases conviction was obtained. In 7 other cases in which + the police decided to prosecute there was either no conviction or + a very light sentence. In at least 26 cases the charge was + clearly trumped up. The average age of these girls was 12. "There + is not a piece of sexual argot that ever had before reached my + ears," remarks Mr. Tait, "but was used by these children in the + descriptions given by them of what had been done to them; and + they introduced, in addition, quite a new vocabulary on the + subject. The minute and detailed descriptions of the sexual act + given by chits of 10 and 11 would do credit to the pages of + Mirabeau. At first sight it is a puzzle to see how children so + young obtained their information." "About the use of the word + 'seduced,'" the same writer remarks, "I wish to say that the + class of women from amongst whom the great bulk of these cases + are drawn seem to use it in a sense altogether different from + that generally employed. It is not with them a process in which + male villainy succeeds by various arts in overcoming female + virtue and reluctance, but simply a date at which an incident in + their lives occurs for the first time; and, according to their + use of the phrase, the ancient legend of the Sacred Scriptures, + had it ended in the more ordinary and usual way by the virtue of + Joseph yielding to the temptation offered, would have to read as + a record of the seduction of Mrs. Potiphar." + + With reference to Lawson Tait's observation that violent assaults + on women, while they do occur, are very much rarer than the + frequency with which such charges are made would lead us to + believe, it may be remarked that many medico-legal authorities + are of the same opinion. (See, e.g., G. Vivian Poore's _Treatise + on Medical Jurisprudence_, 1901, p. 325. This writer also + remarks: "I hold very strongly that a woman may rape a man as + much as a man may rape a woman.") There can be little doubt that + the plea of force is very frequently seized on by women as the + easiest available weapon of defense when her connection with a + man has been revealed. She has been so permeated by the current + notion that no "respectable" woman can possibly have any sexual + impulses of her own to gratify that, in order to screen what she + feels to be regarded as an utterly shameful and wicked, as well + as foolish, act, she declares it never took place by her own will + at all. "Now, I ask you, gentlemen," I once heard an experienced + counsel address the jury in a criminal case, "as men of the + world, have you ever known or heard of a woman, a single woman, + confess that she had had sexual connection and not declare that + force had been used to compel her to such connection?" The + statement is a little sweeping, but in this matter there is some + element of truth in the "man of the world's" opinion. One may + refer to the story (told by Etienne de Bourbon, by Francisco de + Osuna in a religious work, and by Cervantes in _Don Quixote_, + part ii, ch. xlv) concerning a magistrate who, when a girl came + before him to complain of rape, ordered the accused young man + either to marry her or pay her a sum of money. The fine was paid, + and the magistrate then told the man to follow the girl and take + the money from her by force; the man obeyed, but the girl + defended herself so energetically that he could not secure the + money. Then the judge, calling the parties before him again, + ordered the fine to be returned: "Had you defended your chastity + as well as you have defended your money it could not have been + taken away from you." In most cases of "rape," in the case of + adults, there has probably been some degree of consent, though + that partial assent may have been basely secured by an appeal to + the lower nervous centers alone, with no participation of the + intelligence and will. Freud (_Zur Psychopathologie des + Alltagslebens_, p. 87) considers that on this ground the judge's + decision in _Don Quixote_ is "psychologically unjust," because in + such a case the woman's strength is paralyzed by the fact that an + unconscious instinct in herself takes her assailant's part + against her own conscious resistance. But it must be remembered + that the factor of instinct plays a large part even when no + violence is attempted. + +Such facts and considerations as these tend to show that the sexual +impulse is by no means so weak in women as many would lead us to think. It +would appear that, whereas in earlier ages there was generally a tendency +to credit women with an unduly large share of the sexual impulse, there is +now a tendency to unduly minimize the sexual impulse in women. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[156] I have had occasion to refer to the historic evolution of male +opinion regarding women in previous volumes, as, e.g., _Man and Woman_, +chapter i, and the appendix on "The Influence of Menstruation on the +Position of Women" in the first volume of these _Studies_. + +[157] The terminology proposed by Ziehen ("Zur Lehre von den +psychopathischen Konstitutionen," _Charite Annalen_, vol. xxxxiii, 1909) +is as follows: For absence of sexual feeling, _anhedonia_; for diminution +of the same, _hyphedonia_; for excess of sexual feeling, _hyperhedonia_; +for qualitative sexual perversions, _parhedonia_. "Erotic blindness" was +suggested by Nardelli. + +[158] O. Adler, _Die Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes_, 1904, +p. 146. + +[159] A correspondent tells me that he knows a woman who has been a +prostitute since the age of 15, but never experienced sexual pleasure and +a real, non-simulated orgasm till she was 23; since then she has become +very sensual. In other similar cases the hitherto indifferent prostitute, +having found the man who suits her, abandons her profession, even though +she is thereby compelled to live in extreme poverty. "An insensible +woman," as La Bruyere long ago remarked in his chapter "Des Femmes," "is +merely one who has not yet seen the man she must love." + +[160] Guttceit (_Dreissig Jahre Praxis_, vol. i, p. 416) pointed out that +the presence or absence of the orgasm is the only factor in "sexual +anesthesia" of which we can speak at all definitely; and he believed that +anaphrodism, in the sense of absence of the sexual impulse, never occurs +at all, many women having confided to him that they had sexual desires, +although those desires were not gratified by coitus. + +[161] _Op. cit._, p. 164. + +[162] Havelock Ellis, "Madame de Warens," _The Venture_, 1903. + +[163] It is interesting to observe that finally even Adler admits (op. +cit., p. 155) that there is no such thing as _congenital_ lack of aptitude +for sexual sensibility. + +[164] "I am not entirely satisfied with the testimony as to the alleged +sexual anesthesia," a medical correspondent writes. "The same principle +which makes the young harlot an old saint makes the repentant rake a +believer in sexual anesthesia. Most of the medical men who believe, or +claim to believe, that sexual anesthesia is so prevalent do so either to +flatter their hysterical patients or because they have the mentality of +the Hyacinthe of Zola's _Paris_." + +[165] _Differences in the Nervous Organization of Man and Woman_, 1891; +chapter xiii, "Sexual Instinct in Men and Women Compared." + +[166] Matthews Duncan considered that "the healthy performance of the +functions of child-bearing is surely connected with a well-regulated +condition of desire and pleasure." "Desire and pleasure," he adds, "may be +excessive, furious, overpowering, without bringing the female into the +class of maniacs; they may be temporary, healthy, and moderate; they may +be absent or dull." (Matthews Duncan, _Goulstonian Lectures on Sterility +in Woman_, pp. 91, 121.) + +[167] Geoffrey Mortimer, _Chapters on Human Love_, 1898, ch. xvi. + +[168] I do not, however, attach much weight to this possibility. The +sexual instinct among the lower social classes everywhere is subject to +comparatively weak inhibition, and Loewenfeld is probably right in +believing the women of the lower class do not suffer from sexual +anesthesia to anything like the same extent as upper-class women. In +England most women of the working class appear to have had sexual +intercourse at some time in their lives, notwithstanding the risks of +pregnancy, and if pregnancy occurs they refer to it calmly as an +"accident," for which they cannot be held responsible; "Well, I couldn't +help that," I have heard a young widow remark when mildly reproached for +the existence of her illegitimate child. Again, among American negresses +there seems to be no defect of sexual passion, and it is said that the +majority of negresses in the Southern States support not only their +children, but their lovers and husbands. + + + + +II. + +Special Characters of the Sexual Impulse in Women--The More Passive Part +Played by Women in Courtship--This Passivity only Apparent--The Physical +Mechanism of the Sexual Process in Women More Complex--The Slower +Development of Orgasm in Women--The Sexual Impulse in Women More +Frequently Needs to be Actively Aroused--The Climax of Sexual Energy Falls +Later in Women's Lives than in Men's--Sexual Ardor in Women Increased +After the Establishment of Sexual Relationships--Women bear Sexual +Excesses better than Men--The Sexual Sphere Larger and More Diffused in +Women--The Sexual Impulse in Women Shows a Greater Tendency to Periodicity +and a Wider Range of Variation. + + +So far I have been discussing the question of the sexual impulse in women +on the ground upon which previous writers have usually placed it. The +question, that is, has usually presented itself to them as one concerning +the relative strength of the impulse in men and women. When so considered, +not hastily and with prepossession, as is too often the case, but with a +genuine desire to get at the real facts in all their aspects, there is no +reason, as we have seen, to conclude that, on the whole, the sexual +impulse in women is lacking in strength. + +But we have to push our investigation of the matter further. In reality, +the question as to whether the sexual impulse is or is not stronger in one +sex than in the other is a somewhat crude one. To put the question in that +form is to reveal ignorance of the real facts of the matter. And in that +form, moreover, no really definite and satisfactory answer can be given. + +It is necessary to put the matter on different ground. Instead of taking +more or less insolvable questions as to the strength of the sexual impulse +in the two sexes, it is more profitable to consider its differences. What +are the special characters of the sexual impulse in women? + +There is certainly one purely natural sexual difference of a fundamental +character, which lies at the basis of whatever truth may be in the +assertion that women are not susceptible of sexual emotion. As may he +seen when considering the phenomena of modesty, the part played by the +female in courtship throughout nature is usually different from that +played by the male, and is, in some respects, a more difficult and complex +part. Except when the male fails to play his part properly, she is usually +comparatively passive; in the proper playing of her part she has to appear +to shun the male, to flee from his approaches--even actually to repel +them.[169] + +Courtship resembles very closely, indeed, a drama or game; and the +aggressiveness of the male, the coyness of the female, are alike +unconsciously assumed in order to bring about in the most effectual manner +the ultimate union of the sexes. The seeming reluctance of the female is +not intended to inhibit sexual activity either in the male or in herself, +but to increase it in both. The passivity of the female, therefore, is not +a real, but only an apparent, passivity, and this holds true of our own +species as much as of the lower animals. "Women are like delicately +adjusted alembics," said a seventeenth-century author. "No fire can be +seen outside, but if you look underneath the alembic, if you place your +hand on the hearts of women, in both places you will find a great +furnace."[170] Or, as Marro has finely put it, the passivity of women in +love is the passivity of the magnet, which in its apparent immobility is +drawing the iron toward it. An intense energy lies behind such passivity, +an absorbed preoccupation in the end to be attained. + +Tarde, when exercising magistrate's functions, once had to inquire into a +case in which a young man was accused of murder. In questioning a girl of +18, a shepherdess, who appeared before him as a witness, she told him that +on the morning following the crime she had seen the footmarks of the +accused up to a certain point. He asked how she recognized them, and she +replied, ingenuously but with assurance, that she could recognize the +footprints of every young man in the neighborhood, even in a plowed +field.[171] No better illustration could be given of the real significance +of the sexual passivity of women, even at its most negative point. + + "The women I have known," a correspondent writes, "do not express + their sensations and feelings as much as I do. Nor have I found + women usually anxious to practise 'luxuries.' They seldom care to + practice _fellatio_; I have only known one woman who offered to + do _fellatio_ because she liked it. Nor do they generally care to + masturbate a man; that is, they do not care greatly to enjoy the + contemplation of the other person's excitement. (To me, to see + the woman excited means almost more than my own pleasure.) They + usually resist _cunnilinctus_, although they enjoy it. They do + not seem to care to touch or look at a man's parts so much as he + does at theirs. And they seem to dislike the tongue-kiss unless + they feel very sexual or really love a man." My correspondent + admits that his relationships have been numerous and facile, + while his erotic demands tend also to deviate from the normal + path. Under such circumstances, which not uncommonly occur, the + woman's passions fail to be deeply stirred, and she retains her + normal attitude of relative passivity. + + It is owing to the fact that the sexual passivity of women is + only an apparent, and not a real, passivity that women are apt to + suffer, as men are, from prolonged sexual abstinence. This, + indeed, has been denied, but can scarcely be said to admit of + doubt. The only question is as to the relative amount of such + suffering, necessarily a very difficult question. As far back as + the fourteenth century Johannes de Sancto Amando stated that + women are more injured than men by sexual abstinence. In modern + times Maudsley considers that women "suffer more than men do from + the entire deprivation of sexual intercourse" ("Relations between + Body and Mind," _Lancet_, May 28, 1870). By some it has been held + that this cause may produce actual disease. Thus, Tilt, an + eminent gynecologist of the middle of the nineteenth century, in + discussing this question, wrote: "When we consider how much of + the lifetime of woman is occupied by the various phases of the + generative process, and how terrible is often the conflict within + her between the impulse of passion and the dictates of duty, it + may be well understood how such a conflict reacts on the organs + of the sexual economy in the unimpregnated female, and + principally on the ovaria, causing an orgasm, which, if often + repeated, may _possibly_ be productive of subacute ovaritis." + (Tilt, _On Uterine and Ovarian Inflammation_, 1862, pp. 309-310.) + Long before Tilt, Haller, it seems, had said that women are + especially liable to suffer from privation of sexual intercourse + to which they have been accustomed, and referred to chlorosis, + hysteria, nymphomania, and simple mania curable by intercourse. + Hegar considers that in women an injurious result follows the + nonsatisfaction of the sexual impulse and of the "ideal + feelings," and that symptoms thus arise (pallor, loss of flesh, + cardialgia, malaise, sleeplessness, disturbances of menstruation) + which are diagnosed as "chlorosis." (Hegar, _Zusammenhang der + Geschlechtskrankheiten mit nervoesen Leiden_, 1885, p. 45.) Freud, + as well as Gattel, has found that states of anxiety + (_Angstzustaende_) are caused by sexual abstinence. Loewenfeld, on + careful examination of his own cases, is able to confirm this + connection in both sexes. He has specially noticed it in young + women who marry elderly husbands. Loewenfeld believes, however, + that, on the whole, healthy unmarried women bear sexual + abstinence better than men. If, however, they are of at all + neuropathic disposition, ungratified sexual emotions may easily + lead to various morbid conditions, especially of a + hysteroneurasthenic character. (Loewenfeld, _Sexualleben und + Nervenleiden_, second edition, 1899, pp. 44, 47, 54-60.) + Balls-Headley considers that unsatisfied sexual desires in women + may lead to the following conditions: general atrophy, anemia, + neuralgia and hysteria, irregular menstruation, leucorrhea, + atrophy of sexual organs. He also refers to the frequency of + myoma of the uterus among those who have not become pregnant or + who have long ceased to bear children. (Balls-Headley, art. + "Etiology of Diseases of Female Genital Organs," Allbutt and + Playfair, _System of Gynaecology_, 1896, p. 141.) It cannot, + however, be said that he brings forward substantial evidence in + favor of these beliefs. It may be added that in America, during + recent years, leading gynecologists have recorded a number of + cases in which widows on remarriage have shown marked improvement + in uterine and pelvic conditions. + + The question as to whether men or women suffer most from sexual + abstinence, as well as the question whether definite morbid + conditions are produced by such abstinence, remains, however, an + obscure and debated problem. The available data do not enable us + to answer it decisively. It is one of those subtle and complex + questions which can only be investigated properly by a + gynecologist who is also a psychologist. Incidentally, however, + we have met and shall have occasion to meet with evidence bearing + on this question. It is sufficient to say here, briefly, that it + is impossible to believe, even if no evidence were forthcoming, + that the exercise or non-exercise of so vastly important a + function can make no difference to the organism generally. So + far as the evidence goes, it may be said to indicate that the + results of the abeyance of the sexual functions in healthy women + in whom the sexual emotions have never been definitely aroused + tend to be diffused and unconscious, as the sexual impulse itself + often is, but that, in women in whom the sexual emotions have + been definitely aroused and gratified, the results of sexual + abstinence tend to be acute and conscious. + + These acute results are at the present day very often due to + premature ejaculation by nervous or neurasthenic husbands, the + rapidity with which detumescence is reached in the husband + allowing insufficient time for tumescence in the wife, who + consequently fails to reach the orgasm. This has of late been + frequently pointed out. Thus Kafemann (_Sexual-Probleme_, March, + 1910, p. 194 et seq.) emphasizes the prevalence of sexual + incompetence in men. Ferenczi, of Budapest (_Zentralblatt fuer + Psychoanalyse_, 1910, ht. 1 and 2, p. 75), believes that the + combination of neurasthenic husbands with resultantly nervous + wives is extraordinarily common; even putting aside the + neurasthenic, he considers it may be said that the whole male sex + in relation to women suffer from precocious ejaculation. He adds + that it is often difficult to say whether the lack of harmony may + not be due to retarded orgasm in the woman. He regards the + influence of masturbation in early life as tending to quicken + orgasm in man, while when practised by the other sex it tends to + slow orgasm, and thus increases the disharmony. He holds, + however, that the chief cause lies in the education of women with + its emphasis on sexual repression; this works too well and the + result is that when the external impediments to the sexual + impulse are removed the impulse has become incapable of normal + action. Porosz (_British Medical Journal_, April 1, 1911) has + brought forward cases of serious nervous trouble in women which + have been dispersed when the sexual weakness and premature + ejaculation of the husband have been cured. + +The true nature of the passivity of the female is revealed by the ease +with which it is thrown off, more especially when the male refuses to +accept his cue. Or, if we prefer to accept the analogy of a game, we may +say that in the play of courtship the first move belongs to the male, but +that, if he fails to play, it is then the female's turn to play. + + Among many birds the males at mating time fall into a state of + sexual frenzy, but not the females. "I cannot call to mind a + single case," states an authority on birds (H.E. Howard, + _Zooelogist_, 1902, p. 146), "where I have seen anything + approaching frenzy in the female of any species while mating." + + Another great authority on birds, a very patient and skillful + observer, Mr. Edmund Selous, remarks, however, in describing the + courting habits of the ruffs and reeves (_Machetes pugnax_) that, + notwithstanding the passivity of the females beforehand, their + movements during and after coitus show that they derive at least + as much pleasure as the males. (E. Selous, "Selection in Birds," + _Zooelogist_, Feb. and May, 1907.) + + The same observer, after speaking of the great beauty of the male + eider duck, continues: "These glorified males--there were a dozen + of these, perhaps, to some six or seven females--swam closely + about the latter, but more in attendance upon them than as + actively pursuing them, for the females seemed themselves almost + as active agents in the sport of being wooed as were their lovers + in wooing them. The male bird first dipped down his head till his + beak just touched the water, then raised it again in a + constrained and tense manner,--the curious rigid action so + frequent in the nuptial antics of birds,--at the same time + uttering his strange haunting note. The air became filled with + it; every moment one or other of the birds--sometimes several + together--with upturned bill would softly laugh or exclaim, and + while the males did this, the females, turning excitedly, and + with little eager demonstrations from one to another of them, + kept lowering and extending forward the head and neck in the + direction of each in turn.... I noticed that a female would often + approach a male bird with her head and neck laid flat along the + water as though in a very 'coming on' disposition, and that the + male bird declined her advances. This, taken in conjunction with + the actions of the female when courted by the male, appears to me + to raise a doubt as to the universal application of the law that + throughout nature the male, in courtship, is eager, and the + female coy. Here, to all appearances, courtship was proceeding, + and the birds had not yet mated. The female eider ducks, + however,--at any rate, some of them,--appeared to be anything but + coy." (_Bird Watching_, pp. 144-146.) + + Among moor-hens and great-crested grebes sometimes what Selous + terms "functional hermaphroditism" occurs and the females play + the part of the male toward their male companions, and then + repeat the sexual act with a reversion to the normal order, the + whole to the satisfaction of both parties. (E. Selous, + _Zooelogist_, 1902, p. 196.) + + It is not only among birds that the female sometimes takes the + active part, but also among mammals. Among white rats, for + instance, the males are exceptionally eager. Steinach, who has + made many valuable experiments on these animals (_Archiv fuer die + Gesammte Physiologie_, Bd. lvi, 1894, p. 319), tells us that, + when a female white rat is introduced into the cage of a male, he + at once leaves off eating, or whatever else he may be doing, + becomes indifferent to noises or any other source of + distraction, and devotes himself entirely to her. If, however, he + is introduced into her cage the new environment renders him + nervous and suspicious, and then it is she who takes the active + part, trying to attract him in every way. The impetuosity during + heat of female animals of various species, when at length + admitted to the male, is indeed well known to all who are + familiar with animals. + + I have referred to the frequency with which, in the human + species,--and very markedly in early adolescence, when the sexual + impulse is in a high degree unconscious and unrestrainedly + instinctive,--similar manifestations may often be noted. We have + to recognize that they are not necessarily abnormal and still + less pathological. They merely represent the unseasonable + apparition of a tendency which in due subordination is implied in + the phases of courtship throughout the animal world. Among some + peoples and in some stages of culture, tending to withdraw the + men from women and the thought of women, this phase of courtship + and this attitude assume a prominence which is absolutely normal. + The literature of the Middle Ages presents a state of society in + which men were devoted to war and to warlike sports, while the + women took the more active part in love-making. The medieval + poets represent women as actively encouraging backward lovers, + and as delighting to offer to great heroes the chastity they had + preserved, sometimes entering their bed-chambers at night. + Schultz (_Das Hoefische Leben_, Bd. i, pp. 594-598) considers that + these representations are not exaggerated. Cf. Krabbes, _Die Frau + im Altfranzoesischen Karls-Epos_, 1884, p. 20 et seq.; and M.A. + Potter, _Sohrab and Rustem_, 1902, pp. 152-163. + + Among savages and barbarous races in various parts of the world + it is the recognized custom, reversing the more usual method, for + the girl to take the initiative in courtship. This is especially + so in New Guinea. Here the girls almost invariably take the + initiative, and in consequence hold a very independent position. + Women are always regarded as the seducers: "Women steal men." A + youth who proposed to a girl would be making himself ridiculous, + would be called a woman, and be laughed at by the girls. The + usual method by which a girl proposes is to send a present to the + youth by a third party, following this up by repeated gifts of + food; the young man sometimes waits a month or two, receiving + presents all the time, in order to assure himself of the girl's + constancy before decisively accepting her advances. (A.C. Haddon, + _Cambridge Expedition to Torres Straits_, vol. v, ch. viii; id., + "Western Tribes of Torres Straits," _Journal of the + Anthropological Institute_, vol. xix, February, 1890, pp. 314, + 356, 394, 395, 411, 413; id., _Head Hunters_, pp. 158-164; R.E. + Guise, "Tribes of the Wanigela River," _Journal of the + Anthropological Institute_, new series, vol. i, February-May, + 1899, p. 209.) Westermarck gives instances of races among whom + the women take the initiative in courtship. (_History of + Marriage_, p. 158; so also Finck, _Primitive Love and + Love-stories_, 1899, p. 109 et seq.; and as regards Celtic women, + see Rhys and Brynmor Jones, _The Welsh People_.) + +There is another characteristic of great significance by which the sexual +impulse in women differs from that in men: the widely unlike character of +the physical mechanism involved in the process of coitus. Considering how +obvious this difference is, it is strange that its fundamental importance +should so often be underrated. In man the process of tumescence and +detumescence is simple. In women it is complex. In man we have the more or +less spontaneously erectile penis, which needs but very simple conditions +to secure the ejaculation which brings relief. In women we have in the +clitoris a corresponding apparatus on a small scale, but behind this has +developed a much more extensive mechanism, which also demands +satisfaction, and requires for that satisfaction the presence of various +conditions that are almost antagonistic. Naturally the more complex +mechanism is the more easily disturbed. It is the difference, roughly +speaking, between a lock and a key. This analogy is far from indicating +all the difficulties involved. We have to imagine a lock that not only +requires a key to fit it, but should only be entered at the right moment, +and, under the best conditions, may only become adjusted to the key by +considerable use. The fact that the man takes the more active part in +coitus has increased these difficulties; the woman is too often taught to +believe that the whole function is low and impure, only to be submitted to +at her husband's will and for his sake, and the man has no proper +knowledge of the mechanism involved and the best way of dealing with it. +The grossest brutality thus may be, and not infrequently is, exercised in +all innocence by an ignorant husband who simply believes that he is +performing his "marital duties." For a woman to exercise this physical +brutality on a man is with difficulty possible; a man's pleasurable +excitement is usually the necessary condition of the woman's sexual +gratification. But the reverse is not the case, and, if the man is +sufficiently ignorant or sufficiently coarse-grained to be satisfied with +the woman's submission, he may easily become to her, in all innocence, a +cause of torture. + +To the man coitus must be in some slight degree pleasurable or it cannot +take place at all. To the woman the same act which, under some +circumstances, in the desire it arouses and the satisfaction it imparts, +will cause the whole universe to shrivel into nothingness, under other +circumstances will be a source of anguish, physical and mental. This is so +to some extent even in the presence of the right and fit man. There can be +no doubt whatever that the mucus which is so profusely poured out over the +external sexual organs in woman during the excitement of sexual desire has +for its end the lubrication of the parts and the facilitation of the +passage of the intromittent organ. The most casual inspection of the cold, +contracted, dry vulva in its usual aspect and the same when distended, +hot, and moist suffices to show which condition is and which is not that +ready for intercourse, and until the proper condition is reached it is +certain that coitus should not be attempted. + +The varying sensitiveness of the female parts again offers difficulties. +Sexual relations in women are, at the onset, almost inevitably painful; +and to some extent the same experience may be repeated at every act of +coitus. Ordinary tactile sensibility in the female genitourinary region is +notably obtuse, but at the beginning of the sexual act there is normally a +hyperesthesia which may be painful or pleasurable as excitement +culminates, passing into a seeming anesthesia, which even craves for rough +contact; so that in sexual excitement a woman normally displays in quick +succession that same quality of sensibility to superficial pressure and +insensibility to deep pressure which the hysterical woman exhibits +simultaneously. + +Thus we see that a highly important practical result follows from the +greater complexity of the sexual apparatus in women and the greater +difficulty with which it is aroused. In coitus the orgasm tends to occur +more slowly in women than in men. It may easily happen that the whole +process of detumescence is completed in the man before it has begun in +his partner, who is left either cold or unsatisfied. This is one of the +respects in which women remain nearer than men to the primitive stage of +humanity. + + In the Hippocratic treatise, _Of Generation_, it is stated that, + while woman has less pleasure in coitus than man, her pleasure + lasts longer. (_Oeuvres d'Hippocrate_, edition Littre, vol. vii, + p. 477.) + + Beaunis considers that the slower development of the orgasm in + women is the only essential difference in the sexual process in + men and women. (Beaunis, _Les Sensations Internes_, 1889, p. + 151.) This characteristic of the sexual impulse in women, though + recognized for so long a period, is still far too often ignored + or unknown. There is even a superstition that injurious results + may follow if the male orgasm is not effected as rapidly as + possible. That this is not so is shown by the experiences of the + Oneida community in America, who in their system of sexual + relationship carried prolonged intercourse without ejaculation to + an extreme degree. There can be no doubt whatever that very + prolonged intercourse gives the maximum amount of pleasure and + relief to the woman. Not only is this the very decided opinion of + women who have experienced it, but it is also indicated by the + well-recognized fact that a woman who repeats the sexual act + several times in succession often experiences more intense orgasm + and pleasure with each repetition. + + This point is much better understood in the East than in the + West. The prolongation of the man's excitement, in order to give + the woman time for orgasm, is, remarks Sir Richard Burton + (_Arabian Nights_, vol. v, p. 76), much studied by Moslems, as + also by Hindoos, who, on this account, during the orgasm seek to + avoid overtension of muscles and to preoccupy the brain. During + coitus they will drink sherbet, chew betel-nut, and even smoke. + Europeans devote no care to this matter, and Hindoo women, who + require about twenty minutes to complete the act, contemptuously + call them "village cocks." I have received confirmation of + Burton's statements on this point from medical correspondents in + India. + + While the European desires to perform as many acts of coitus in + one night as possible, Breitenstein remarks, the Malay, as still + more the Javanese, wishes, not to repeat the act many times, but + to prolong it. His aim is to remain in the vagina for about a + quarter of an hour. Unlike the European, also, he boasts of the + pleasure he has given his partner far more than of his own + pleasure. (Breitenstein, _21 Jahre in India_, theil i, "Borneo," + p. 228.) + + Jaeger (_Entdeckung der Seele_, second edition, vol. i, 1884, p. + 203), as quoted by Moll, explains the preference of some women + for castrated men as due, not merely to the absence of risk of + impregnation, but to the prolonged erections that take place in + the castrated. Aly-Belfadel remarks (_Archivio di Psichiatria_, + 1903, p. 117) that he knows women who prefer old men in coitus + simply because of their delay in ejaculation which allows more + time to the women to become excited. + + A Russian correspondent living in Italy informs me that a + Neapolitan girl of 17, who had only recently ceased to be a + virgin, explained to him that she preferred _coitus in ore vulvae_ + to real intercourse because the latter was over before she had + time to obtain the orgasm (or, as she put it, "the big bird has + fled from the cage and I am left in the lurch"), while in the + other way she was able to experience the orgasm twice before her + partner reached the climax. "This reminds me," my correspondent + continues, "that a Milanese cocotte once told me that she much + liked intercourse with Jews because, on account of the + circumcised penis being less sensitive to contact, they ejaculate + more slowly then Christians. 'With Christians,' she said, 'it + constantly happens that I am left unsatisfied because they + ejaculate before me, while in coitus with Jews I sometimes + ejaculate twice before the orgasm occurs in my partner, or, + rather, I hold back the second orgasm until he is ready.' This is + confirmed," my correspondent continues, "by what I was told by a + Russian Jew, a student at the Zuerich Polytechnic, who had a + Russian comrade living with a mistress, also a Russian student, + or pseudostudent. One day the Jew, going early to see his friend, + was told to enter by a woman's voice and found his friend's + mistress alone and in her chemise beside the bed. He was about to + retire, but the young woman bade him stay and in a few minutes he + was in bed with her. She told him that her lover had just gone + away and that she never had sexual relief with him because he + always ejaculated too soon. That morning he had left her so + excited and so unrelieved that she was just about to + masturbate--which she rarely did because it gave her + headache--when she heard the Jew's voice, and, knowing that Jews + are slower in coitus than Christians, she had suddenly resolved + to give herself to him." + + I am informed that the sexual power of negroes and slower + ejaculation (see Appendix A) are the cause of the favor with + which they are viewed by some white women of strong sexual + passions in America, and by many prostitutes. At one time there + was a special house in New York City to which white women + resorted for these "buck lovers"; the women came heavily veiled + and would inspect the penises of the men before making their + selection. + +It is thus a result of the complexity of the sexual mechanism in women +that the whole attitude of a woman toward the sexual relationship is +liable to be affected disastrously by the husband's lack of skill or +consideration in initiating her into this intimate mystery. Normally the +stage of apparent repulsion and passivity, often associated with great +sensitiveness, physical and moral, passes into one of active participation +and aid in the consummation of the sexual act. But if, from whatever +cause, there is partial arrest on the woman's side of this evolution in +the process of courtship, if her submission is merely a mental and +deliberate act of will, and not an instinctive and impulsive +participation, there is a necessary failure of sexual relief and +gratification. When we find that a woman displays a certain degree of +indifference in sexual relationships, and a failure of complete +gratification, we have to recognize that the fault may possibly lie, not +in her, but in the defective skill of a lover who has not known how to +play successfully the complex and subtle game of courtship. Sexual +coldness due to the shock and suffering of the wedding-night is a +phenomenon that is far too frequent.[172] Hence it is that many women may +never experience sexual gratification and relief, through no defect on +their part, but through the failure of the husband to understand the +lover's part. We make a false analogy when we compare the courtship of +animals exclusively with our own courtships before marriage. Courtship, +properly understood, is the process whereby both the male and the female +are brought into that state of sexual tumescence which is a more or less +necessary condition for sexual intercourse. The play of courtship cannot, +therefore, be considered to be definitely brought to an end by the +ceremony of marriage; it may more properly be regarded as the natural +preliminary to every act of coitus. + + Tumescence is not merely a more or less essential condition for + proper sexual intercourse. It is probably of more fundamental + significance as one of the favoring conditions of impregnation. + This has, indeed, been long recognized. Van Swieten, when + consulted by the childless Maria Theresa, gave the opinion "Ego + vero censeo, vulvam Sacratissimae Majestatis ante coitum diutius + esse titillandam," and thereafter she had many children. "I think + it very nearly certain," Matthews Duncan wrote (_Goulstonian + Lectures on Sterility in Woman_, 1884, p. 96), "that desire and + pleasure in due or moderate degree are very important aids to, or + predisposing causes of, fecundity," as bringing into action the + complicated processes of fecundation. Hirst (_Text-book of + Obstetrics_, 1899, p. 67) mentions the case of a childless + married woman who for six years had had no orgasm during + intercourse; then it occurred at the same time as coitus, and + pregnancy resulted. + + Kisch is very decidedly of the same opinion, and considers that + the popular belief on this point is fully justified. It is a + fact, he states, that an unfaithful wife is more likely to + conceive with her lover than with her husband, and he concludes + that, whatever the precise mechanism may be, "sexual excitement + on the woman's part is a necessary link in the chain of + conditions producing impregnation." (E.H. Kisch, _Die Sterilitaet + des Weibes_, 1886, p. 99.) Kisch believes (p. 103) that in the + majority of women sexual pleasure only appears gradually, after + the first cohabitation, and then develops progressively, and that + the first conception usually coincides with its complete + awakening. In 556 cases of his own the most frequent epoch of + first impregnation was found to be between ten and fifteen months + after marriage. + + The removal of sexual frigidity thus becomes a matter of some + importance. This removal may in some cases be effected by + treatment through the husband, but that course is not always + practicable. Dr. Douglas Bryan, of Leicester, informs me that in + several cases he has succeeded in removing sexual coldness and + physical aversion in the wife by hypnotic suggestion. The + suggestions given to the patient are "that all her womanly + natural feelings would be quickly and satisfactorily developed + during coitus; that she would experience no feeling of disgust + and nausea, would have no fear of the orgasm not developing; that + there would be no involuntary resistance on her part." The fact + that such suggestions can be permanently effective tends to show + how superficial the sexual "anesthesia" of women usually is. + +Not only, therefore, is the apparatus of sexual excitement in women more +complex than in men, but--in part, possibly as a result of this greater +complexity--it much more frequently requires to be actively aroused. In +men tumescence tends to occur almost spontaneously, or under the simple +influence of accumulated semen. In women, also, especially in those who +live a natural and healthy life, sexual excitement also tends to occur +spontaneously, but by no means so frequently as in men. The comparative +rarity of sexual dreams in women who have not had sexual relationships +alone serves to indicate this sexual difference. In a very large number of +women the sexual impulse remains latent until aroused by a lover's +caresses. The youth spontaneously becomes a man; but the maiden--as it has +been said--"must be kissed into a woman." + +One result of this characteristic is that, more especially when love is +unduly delayed beyond the first youth, this complex apparatus has +difficulty in responding to the unfamiliar demands of sexual excitement. +Moreover, delayed normal sexual relations, when the sexual impulse is not +absolutely latent, tend to induce all degrees of perverted or abnormal +sexual gratification, and the physical mechanism when trained to respond +in other ways often fails to respond normally when, at last, the normal +conditions of response are presented. In all these ways passivity and even +aversion may be produced in the conjugal relationship. The fact that it is +almost normally the function of the male to arouse the female, and that +the greater complexity of the sexual mechanism in women leads to more +frequent disturbance of that mechanism, produces a simulation of organic +sexual coldness which has deceived many. + + An instructive study of cases in which the sexual impulse has + been thus perverted has been presented by Smith Baker ("The + Neuropsychical Element in Conjugal Aversion," _Journal of Nervous + and Mental Disease_, vol. xvii, September, 1892). Raymond and + Janet, who believes that sexual coldness is extremely frequent in + marriage, and that it plays an important part in the causation of + physical and moral troubles, find that it is most often due to + masturbation. (_Les Obsessions_, vol. ii, p. 307.) Adler, after + discussing the complexity of the feminine sexual mechanism, and + the difficulty which women find in obtaining sexual gratification + in normal coitus, concludes that "masturbation is a frequent, + perhaps the most frequent, cause of defective sexual sensibility + in women." (_Op. cit._, p. 119.) He remarks that in women + masturbation usually has less resemblance to normal coitus than + in men and involves very frequently the special excitation of + parts which are not the chief focus of excitement in coitus, so + that coitus fails to supply the excitation which has become + habitual (pp. 113-116). In the discussion of "Auto-erotism" in + the first volume of these _Studies_, I had already referred to + the divorce between the physical and the ideal sides of love + which may, especially in women, be induced by masturbation. + + Another cause of inhibited sexual feeling has been brought + forward. A married lady with normal sexual impulse states + (_Sexual-Probleme_, April, 1912, p. 290) that she cannot + experience orgasm and sexual satisfaction when the intercourse is + not for conception. This is a psychic inhibition independent of + any disturbance due to the process of prevention. She knows other + women who are similarly affected. Such an inhibition must be + regarded as artificial and abnormal, since the final result of + sexual intercourse, under natural and normal conditions, forms no + essential constituent of the psychic process of intercourse. + +As a result of the fact that in women the sexual emotions tend not to +develop great intensity until submitted to powerful stimulation, we find +that the maximum climax of sexual emotion tends to fall somewhat later in +a woman's life than in a man's. Among animals generally there appears to +be frequently traceable a tendency for the sexual activities of the male +to develop at a somewhat earlier age than those of the female. In the +human, species we may certainly trace the same tendency. As the great +physiologist, Burdach, pointed out, throughout nature, with the +accomplishment of the sexual act the part of the male in the work of +generation comes to an end; but that act represents only the beginning of +a woman's generative activity. + +A youth of 20 may often display a passionate ardor in love which is very +seldom indeed found in women who are under 25. It is rare for a woman, +even though her sexual emotions may awaken at puberty or earlier, to +experience the great passion of her life until after the age of 25 has +been passed. In confirmation of this statement, which is supported by +daily observation, it may be pointed out that nearly all the most +passionate love-letters of women, as well as their most passionate +devotions, have come from women who had passed, sometimes long passed, +their first youth. When Heloise wrote to Abelard the first of the letters +which have come down to us she was at least 32. Mademoiselle Aisse's +relation with the Chevalier began when she was 32, and when she died, six +years later, the passion of each was at its height. Mary Wollstonecraft +was 34 when her love-letters to Imlay began, and her child was born in the +following year. Mademoiselle de Lespinasse was 43 when she began to write +her letters to M. de Guibert. In some cases the sexual impulse may not +even appear until after the period of the menopause has been passed.[173] + + In Roman times Ovid remarked (_Ars Amatoria_, lib. ii) that a + woman fails to understand the art of love until she has reached + the age of 35. "A girl of 18," said Stendhal (_De l'Amour_, ch. + viii), "has not the power to crystallize her emotions; she forms + desires that are too limited by her lack of experience in the + things of life, to be able to love with such passion as a woman + of 28." "Sexual needs," said Restif de la Bretonne (_Monsieur + Nicolas_, vol. xi, p. 221), "often only appears in young women + when they are between 26 and 27 years of age; at least, that is + what I have observed." + + Erb states that it is about the middle of the twenties that women + begin to suffer physically, morally, and intellectually from + their sexual needs. Nystroem (_Das Geschlechtsleben_, p. 163) + considers that it is about the age of 30 that a woman first + begins to feel conscious of sex needs. In a case of Adler's (_op. + cit._, p. 141), sexual feelings first appeared after the birth of + the third child, at the age of 30. Forel (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, + 1906, p. 219) considers that sexual desire in woman is often + strongest between the ages of 30 and 40. Leith Napier + (_Menopause_, p. 94) remarks that from 28 to 30 is often an + important age in woman who have retained their virginity, erotism + then appearing with the full maturity of the nervous system. + Yellowlees (art. "Masturbation," _Dictionary of Psychological + Medicine_), again, states that at about the age of 33 some women + experience great sexual irritability, often resulting in + masturbation. Audiffrent (_Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, + Jan. 15, 1902, p. 3) considers that it is toward the age of 30 + that a woman reaches her full moral and physical development, and + that at this period her emotional and idealizing impulses reach a + degree of intensity which is sometimes irresistible. It has + already been mentioned that Matthews Duncan's careful inquiries + showed that it is between the ages of 30 and 34 that the largest + proportion of women experience sexual desire and sexual pleasure. + It may be remarked, also, that while the typical English + novelists, who have generally sought to avoid touching the deeper + and more complex aspects of passion, often choose very youthful + heroines, French novelists, who have frequently had a + predilection for the problems of passion, often choose heroines + who are approaching the age of 30. + + Hirschfeld (_Von Wesen der Liebe_, p. 26) was consulted by a lady + who, being without any sexual desires or feelings, married an + inverted man in order to live with him a life of simple + comradeship. Within six months, however, she fell violently in + love with her husband, with the full manifestation of sexual + feelings and accompanying emotions of jealousy. Under all the + circumstances, however, she would not enter into sexual + relationship with her husband, and the torture she endured became + so acute that she desired to be castrated. In this connection, + also, I may mention a case, which has been communicated to me + from Glasgow, of a girl--strong and healthy and menstruating + regularly since the age of 17--who was seduced at the age of 20 + without any sexual desire on her part, giving birth to a child + nine months later. Subsequently she became a prostitute for three + years, and during this period had not the slightest sexual desire + or any pleasure in sexual connection. Thereafter she met a poor + lad with whom she has full sexual desire and sexual pleasure, the + result being that she refuses to go with any other man, and + consequently is almost without food for several days every week. + + The late appearance of the great climax of sexual emotion in + women is indicated by a tendency to nervous and psychic + disturbances between the ages of 25 and about 33, which has been + independently noted by various alienists (though it may be noted + that 25 to 30 is not an unusual age for first attacks of insanity + in men also). Thus, Krafft-Ebing states that adult unmarried + women between the ages of 25 and 30 often show nervous symptoms + and peculiarities. (Krafft-Ebing, "Ueber Neurosen und Psychosen + durch Sexuelle Abstinenz," _Jahrbuecher fuer Psychiatrie_, Bd. + viii, ht. 1-4, 1888.) Pitres and Regis find also (_Comptes-rendus + XIIe Congres International de Medecine_, Moscow, 1897, vol. iv, + p. 45) that obsessions, which are commoner in women than in men + and are commonly connected in their causation with strong moral + emotion, occur in women chiefly between the ages of 26 and 30, + though in men much earlier. The average age at which in England + women inebriates begin drinking in excess is 26. (_British + Medical Journal_, Sept. 2, 1911, p. 518.) + + A case recorded by Serieux is instructive as regards the + development of the sexual impulse, although it comes within the + sphere of mental disorder. A woman of 32 with bad heredity had in + childhood had weak health and become shy, silent, and fond of + solitude, teased by her companions and finding consolation in + hard work. Though very emotional, she never, even in the vaguest + form, experienced any of those feelings and aspirations which + reveal the presence of the sexual impulse. She had no love of + dancing and was indifferent to any embraces she might chance to + receive from young men. She never masturbated or showed inverted + feelings. At the age of 23 she married. She still, however, + experienced no sexual feelings; twice only she felt a faint + sensation of pleasure. A child was born, but her home was unhappy + on account of her husband's drunken habits. He died and she + worked hard for her own living and the support of her mother. + Then at the age of 31 a new phase occurs in her life: she falls + in love with the master of her workshop. It was at first a purely + psychic affection, without any mixture of physical elements; it + was enough to see him, and she trembled when she touched anything + that belonged to him. She was constantly thinking about him; she + loved him for his eyes, which seemed to her those of her own + child, and especially for his intelligence. Gradually, however, + the lower nervous centers began to take part in these emotions; + one day in passing her the master chanced to touch her shoulder; + this contact was sufficient to produce sexual turgescence. She + began to masturbate daily, thinking of her master, and for the + first time in her life she desired coitus. She evoked the image + of her master so constantly and vividly that at last + hallucinations of sight, touch, and hearing appeared, and it + seemed to her that he was present. These hallucinations were only + with difficulty dissipated. (P. Serieux, _Les Anomalies de + L'Instinct Sexuel_, 1888, p. 50.) This case presents in an insane + form a phenomenon which is certainly by no means uncommon and is + very significant. Up to the age of 31 we should certainly have + been forced to conclude that this woman was sexually anesthetic + to an almost absolute degree. In reality, we see this was by no + means the case. Weak health, hard work, and a brutal husband had + prolonged the latency of the sexual emotions; but they were + there, ready to explode with even insane intensity (this being + due to the unsound heredity) in the presence of a man who + appealed to these emotions. + + In connection with the late evolution of the sexual emotions in + women reference may be made to what is usually termed "old maid's + insanity," a condition not met with in men. In these cases, which + are not, indeed, common, single women who have led severely + strict and virtuous lives, devoting themselves to religious or + intellectual work, and carefully repressing the animal side of + their natures, at last, just before the climacteric, experience + an awakening of the erotic impulse; they fall in love with some + unfortunate man, often a clergyman, persecute him with their + attentions, and frequently suffer from the delusion that he + reciprocates their affections. + +When once duly aroused, there cannot usually be any doubt concerning the +strength of the sexual impulse in normal and healthy women. There would, +however, appear to be a distinct difference between the sexes at this +point also. Before sexual union the male tends to be more ardent; after +sexual union it is the female who tends to be more ardent. The sexual +energy of women, under these circumstances, would seem to be the greater +on account of the long period during which it has been dormant. + + Sinibaldus in the seventeenth century, in his _Geneanthropeia_, + argued that, though women are cold at first, and aroused with + more difficulty and greater slowness than men, the flame of + passion spreads in them the more afterward, just as iron is by + nature cold, but when heated gives a great degree of heat. + Similarly Mandeville said of women that "their passions are not + so easily raised nor so suddenly fixed upon any particular + object; but when this passion is once rooted in women it is much + stronger and more durable than in men, and rather increases than + diminishes by enjoying the person of the beloved." (_A Modest + Defence of Public Stews_, 1724, p. 34.) Burdach considered that + women only acquire the full enjoyment of their general strength + after marriage and pregnancy, while it is before marriage that + men have most vigor. Schopenhauer also said that a man's love + decreases with enjoyment, and a woman's increases. And Ellen Key + has remarked (_Love and Marriage_) that "where there is no + mixture of Southern blood it is a long time, sometimes indeed not + till years after marriage, that the senses of the Northern women + awake to consciousness." + + Even among animals this tendency seems to be manifested. Edmund + Selous (_Bird Watching_, p. 112) remarks, concerning sea-gulls: + "Always, or almost always, one of the birds--and this I take to + be the female--is more eager, has a more soliciting manner and + tender begging look than the other. It is she who, as a rule, + draws the male bird on. She looks fondly up at him, and, raising + her bill to his, as though beseeching a kiss, just touches with + it, in raising, the feathers of the throat--an action light, but + full of endearment. And in every way she shows herself the most + desirous, and, in fact, so worries and pesters the poor male gull + that often, to avoid her importunities, he flies away. This may + seem odd, but I have seen other instances of it. No doubt, in + actual courting, before the sexes are paired, the male bird is + usually the most eager, but after marriage the female often + becomes the wooer. Of this I have seen some marked instances." + Selous mentions especially the plover, kestrel hawk, and rook. + +In association with the fact that women tend to show an increase of sexual +ardor after sexual relationships have been set up may be noted the +probably related fact that sexual intercourse is undoubtedly less +injurious to women than to men. Other things being equal, that is to say, +the threshold of excess is passed very much sooner by the man than by the +woman. This was long ago pointed out by Montaigne. The ancient saying, +"_Omne animal post coitum triste_," is of limited application at the best, +but certainly has little reference to women.[174] Alacrity, rather than +languor, as Robin has truly observed,[175] marks a woman after coitus, or, +as a medical friend of my own has said, a woman then goes about the house +singing.[176] It is, indeed, only after intercourse with a woman for whom, +in reality, he feels contempt that a man experiences that revulsion of +feeling described by Shakespeare (sonnet cxxix). Such a passage should not +be quoted, as it sometimes has been quoted, as the representation of a +normal phenomenon. But, with equal gratification on both sides, it remains +true that, while after a single coitus the man may experience a not +unpleasant lassitude and readiness for sleep, this is rarely the case with +his partner, for whom a single coitus is often but a pleasant stimulus, +the climax of satisfaction not being reached until a second or subsequent +act of intercourse. "Excess in venery," which, rightly or wrongly, is set +down as the cause of so many evils in men, seldom, indeed, appears in +connection with women, although in every act of venery the woman has taken +part.[177] + + That women bear sexual excesses better than men was noted by + Cabanis and other early writers. Alienists frequently refer to + the fact that women are less liable to be affected by insanity + following such excesses. (See, e.g., Maudsley, "Relations between + Body and Mind," _Lancet_, May 28, 1870; and G. Savage, art. + "Marriage and Insanity" in _Dictionary of Psychological + Medicine_.) Trousseau remarked on the fact that women are not + exhausted by repeated acts of coitus within a short period, + notwithstanding that the nervous excitement in their case is as + great, if not greater, and he considered that this showed that + the loss of semen is a cause of exhaustion in men. Loewenfeld + (_Sexualleben und Nervenleiden_, pp. 74, 153) states that there + cannot be question that the nervous system in women is less + influenced by the after-effects of coitus than in men. Not only, + he remarks, are prostitutes very little liable to suffer from + nervous overstimulation, and neurasthenia and hysteria when + occurring in them be easily traceable to other causes, but + "healthy women who are not given to prostitution, when they + indulge in very frequent sexual intercourse, provided it is + practised normally, do not experience the slightest injurious + effect. I have seen many young married couples where the husband + had been reduced to a pitiable condition of nervous prostration + and general discomfort by the zeal with which he had exercised + his marital duties, while the wife had been benefited and was in + the uninterrupted enjoyment of the best health." This experience + is by no means uncommon. + + A correspondent writes: "It is quite true that the threshold of + excess is less easily reached by women than by men. I have found + that women can reach the orgasm much more frequently than men. + Take an ordinary case. I spend two hours with ----. I have the + orgasm 3 times, with difficulty; she has it 6 or 8, or even 10 or + 12, times. Women can also experience it a second or third time in + succession, with no interval between. Sometimes the mere fact of + realizing that the man is having the orgasm causes the woman to + have it also, though it is true that a woman usually requires as + many minutes to develop the orgasm as a man does seconds." I may + also refer to the case recorded in another part of this volume in + which a wife had the orgasm 26 times to her husband's twice. + + Hutchinson, under the name of post-marital amblyopia (_Archives + of Surgery_, vol. iv, p. 200), has described a condition + occurring in men in good health who soon after marriage become + nearly blind, but recover as soon as the cause is removed. He + mentions no cases in women due to coitus, but finds that in + women some failure of sight may occur after parturition. + + Naecke states that, in his experience, while masturbation is, + apparently, commoner in insane men than in insane women, + masturbation repeated several times a day is much commoner in the + women. (P. Naecke, "Die Sexuellen Perversitaeten in der + Irrenanstalt," _Psychiatrische Bladen_, 1899, No. 2.) + + Great excesses in masturbation seem also to be commoner among + women who may be said to be sane than among men. Thus, Bloch + (_New Orleans Medical Journal_, 1896) records the case of a young + married woman of 25, of bad heredity, who had suffered from + almost life-long sexual hyperesthesia, and would masturbate + fourteen times daily during the menstrual periods. + + With regard to excesses in coitus the case may be mentioned of a + country girl of 17, living in a rural district in North Carolina + where prostitution was unknown, who would cohabit with men almost + openly. On one Sunday she went to a secluded school-house and let + three or four men wear themselves out cohabiting with her. On + another occasion, at night, in a field, she allowed anyone who + would to perform the sexual act, and 25 men and boys then had + intercourse with her. When seen she was much prostrated and with + a tendency to spasm, but quite rational. Subsequently she married + and attacks of this nature became rare. + + Mr. Lawson made an "attested statement" of what he had observed + among the Marquesan women. "He mentions one case in which he + heard a parcel of boys next morning count over and _name_ 103 men + who during the night had intercourse with _one_ woman." + (_Medico-Chirurgical Review_, 1871, vol. ii, p. 360, apparently + quoting Chevers.) This statement seems open to question, but, if + reliable, would furnish a case which must be unique. + +There is a further important difference, though intimately related to some +of the differences already mentioned, between the sexual impulse in women +and in men. In women it is at once larger and more diffused. As Sinibaldus +long ago said, the sexual pleasure of men is intensive, of women +extensive. In men the sexual impulse is, as it were, focused to a single +point. This is necessarily so, for the whole of the essentially necessary +part of the male in the process of human procreation is confined to the +ejaculation of semen into the vagina. But in women, mainly owing to the +fact that women are the child-bearers, in place of one primary sexual +center and one primary erogenous region, there are at least three such +sexual centers and erogenous regions: the clitoris (corresponding to the +penis), the vaginal passage up to the womb, and the nipple. In both sexes +there are other secondary and reflex centers, but there is good reason for +believing that these are more numerous and more widespread in women than +in men.[178] How numerous the secondary sexual centers in women may be is +indicated by the case of a woman mentioned by Moraglia, who boasted that +she knew fourteen different ways of masturbating herself. + +This great diffusion of the sexual impulse and emotions in women is as +visible on the psychic as on the physical side. A woman can find sexual +satisfaction in a great number of ways that do not include the sexual act +proper, and in a great number of ways that apparently are not physical at +all, simply because their physical basis is diffused or is to be found in +one of the outlying sexual zones. + +It is, moreover, owing to the diffused character of the sexual emotions in +women that it so often happens that emotion really having a sexual origin +is not recognized as such even by the woman herself. It is possible that +the great prevalence in women of the religious emotional state of "storm +and stress," noted by Professor Starbuck,[179] is largely due to +unemployed sexual impulse. In this and similar ways it happens that the +magnitude of the sexual sphere in woman is unrealized by the careless +observer. + + A number of converging facts tend to indicate that the sexual + sphere is larger, and more potent in its influence on the + organism, in women than in men. It would appear that among the + males and females of lower animals the same difference may be + found. It is stated that in birds there is a greater flow of + blood to the ovaries than to the testes. + + In women the system generally is more affected by disturbances in + the sexual sphere than in men. This appears to be the case as + regards the eye. "The influence of the sexual system upon the eye + in man," Power states, "is far less potent, and the connection, + in consequence, far less easy to trace than in woman." (H. Power, + "Relation of Ophthalmic Disease to the Sexual Organs," _Lancet_, + November 26, 1887.) + + The greater predominance of the sexual system in women on the + psychic side is clearly brought out in insane conditions. It is + well known that, while satyriasis is rare, nymphomania is + comparatively common. These conditions are probably often forms + of mania, and in mania, while sexual symptoms are common in men, + they are often stated to be the rule in women (see, e.g., + Krafft-Ebing, _Psychopathia Sexualis_, tenth edition, English + translation, p. 465). Bouchereau, in noting this difference in + the prevalence of sexual manifestations during insanity, remarks + that it is partly due to the naturally greater dependence of + women on the organs of generation, and partly to the more active, + independent, and laborious lives of men; in his opinion, + satyriasis is specially apt to develop in men who lead lives + resembling those of women. (Bouchereau, art. "Satyriasis," + _Dictionnaire Encyclopedique des Sciences Medicales_.) Again, + postconnubial insanity is very much commoner in women than in + men, a fact which may indicate the more predominant part played + by the sexual sphere in women. (Savage, art. "Marriage and + Insanity," _Dictionary of Psychological Medicine_.) + + Insanity tends to remove the artificial inhibitory influences + that rule in ordinary life, and there is therefore significance + in such a fact as that the sexual appetite is often increased in + general paralysis and to a notable extent in women. (Pactet and + Colin, _Les Alienes devant la Justice_, 1902, p. 122.) + + Naecke, from his experiences among the insane, makes an + interesting and possibly sound distinction regarding the + character of the sexual manifestations in the two sexes. Among + men he finds these manifestations to be more of a reflex and + purely spinal nature and chiefly manifested in masturbation; in + women he finds them to be of a more cerebral character, and + chiefly manifested in erotic gestures, lascivious conversation, + etc. The sexual impulse would thus tend to involve to a greater + extent the higher psychic region in women than in men. + + Forel likewise (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, 1906, p. 276), remarking on + the much greater prevalence of erotic manifestations among insane + women than insane men (and pointing out that it is by no means + due merely to the presence of a male doctor, for it remains the + same when the doctor is a woman), considers that it proves that + in women the sexual impulse resides more prominently in the + higher nervous centers and in men in the lower centers. (As + regards the great prevalence of erotic manifestations among the + female insane, I may also refer to Claye Shaw's interesting + observations, "The Sexes in Lunacy," _St. Bartholomew's Hospital + Reports_, vol. xxiv, 1888; also quoted in Havelock Ellis, _Man + and Woman_, p. 370 et seq.) Whether or not we may accept Naecke's + and Forel's interpretation of the facts, which is at least + doubtful, there can be little doubt that the sexual impulse is + more fundamental in women. This is indicated by Naecke's + observation that among idiots sexual manifestations are commoner + in females than in males. Of 16 idiot girls, of the age of 16 and + under, 15 certainly masturbated, sometimes as often as fourteen + times a day, while the remaining girl probably masturbated; but + of 25 youthful male idiots only 1 played with his penis. (P. + Naecke, "Die Sexuellen Perversitaeten in der Irrenanstalt," + _Psychiatrische Bladen_, 1899, No. 2, pp. 9, 12.) On the physical + side Bourneville and Sollier found (_Progres medical_, 1888) that + puberty is much retarded in idiot and imbecile boys, while J. + Voisin (_Annales d'Hygiene Publique_, June, 1894) found that in + idiot and imbecile girls, on the contrary, there is no lack of + full sexual development or retardation of puberty, while + masturbation is common. In women, it may be added, as Ball + pointed out (_Folie erotique_, p. 40), sexual hallucinations are + especially common, while under the influence of anesthetics + erotic manifestations and feelings are frequent in women, but + rare in men. (Havelock Ellis, _Man and Woman_, p. 256.) + + The fact that the first coitus has a much more profound moral and + psychic influence on a woman than on a man would also seem to + indicate how much more fundamental the sexual region is in women. + The fact may be considered as undoubted. (It is referred to by + Marro, _La Puberta_, p. 460.) The mere physical fact that, while + in men coitus remains a merely exterior contact, in women it + involves penetration into the sensitive and virginal interior of + the body would alone indicate this difference. + +We are told that in the East there was once a woman named Moarbeda who was +a philosopher and considered to be the wisest woman of her time. When +Moarbeda was once asked: "In what part of a woman's body does her mind +reside?" she replied: "Between her thighs." To many women,--perhaps, +indeed, we might even say to most women,--to a certain extent may be +applied--and in no offensive sense--the dictum of the wise woman of the +East; in a certain sense their brains are in their wombs. Their mental +activity may sometimes seem to be limited; they may appear to be passing +through life always in a rather inert or dreamy state; but, when their +sexual emotions are touched, then at once they spring into life; they +become alert, resourceful, courageous, indefatigable. "But when I am not +in love I am nothing!" exclaimed a woman when reproached by a French +magistrate for living with a thief. There are many women who could truly +make the same statement, not many men. That emotion, which, one is tempted +to say, often unmans the man, makes the woman for the first time truly +herself. + + "Women are more occupied with love than men," wrote De Senancour + (_De l'Amour_, vol. ii, p. 59); "it shows itself in all their + movements, animates their looks, gives to their gestures a grace + that is always new, to their smiles and voices an inexpressible + charm; they live for love, while many men in obeying love feel + that they are forgetting themselves." + + Restif de la Bretonne (_Monsieur Nicolas_, vol. vi, p. 223) + quotes a young girl who well describes the difference which love + makes to a woman: "Before I vegetated; now all my actions have a + motive, an end; they have become important. When I wake my first + thought is 'Someone is occupied with me and desires me.' I am no + longer alone, as I was before; another feels my existence and + cherishes it," etc. + + "One is surprised to see in the south," remarks Bonstetten, in + his suggestive book, _L'Homme du Midi et l'Homme du Nord_ + (1824),--and the remark by no means applies only to the + south,--"how love imparts intelligence even to those who are most + deficient in ideas. An Italian woman in love is inexhaustible in + the variety of her feelings, all subordinated to the supreme + emotion which dominates her. Her ideas follow one another with + prodigious rapidity, and produce a lambent play which is fed by + her heart alone. If she ceases to love, her mind becomes merely + the scoria of the lava which yesterday had been so bright." + + Cabanis had already made some observations to much the same + effect. Referring to the years of nubility following puberty, he + remarks: "I have very often seen the greatest fecundity of ideas, + the most brilliant imagination, a singular aptitude for the arts, + suddenly develop in girls of this age, only to give place soon + afterward to the most absolute mental mediocrity." (Cabanis, "De + l'Influence des Sexes," etc., _Rapports du Physique et du Morale + de l'Homme_.) + +This phenomenon seems to be one of the indications of the immense organic +significance of the sexual relations. Woman's part in the world is less +obtrusively active than man's, but there is a moment when nature cannot +dispense with energy and mental vigor in women, and that is during the +reproductive period. The languidest woman must needs be alive when her +sexual emotions are profoundly stirred. People often marvel at the +infatuation which men display for women who, in the eyes of all the world, +seem commonplace and dull. This is not, as we usually suppose, always +entirely due to the proverbial blindness of love. For the man whom she +loves, such a woman is often alive and transformed. He sees a woman who is +hidden from all the world. He experiences something of that surprise and +awe which Dostoieffsky felt when the seemingly dull and brutish criminals +of Siberia suddenly exhibited gleams of exquisite sensibility. + +In women, it must further be said, the sexual impulse shows a much more +marked tendency to periodicity than in men; not only is it less apt to +appear spontaneously, but its spontaneous manifestations are in a very +pronounced manner correlated with menstruation. A woman who may experience +almost overmastering sexual desire just before, during, or after the +monthly period may remain perfectly calm and self-possessed during the +rest of the month. In men such irregularities of the sexual impulse are +far less marked. Thus it is that a woman may often appear capricious, +unaccountable, or cold, merely because her moments of strong emotion have +been physiologically confined within a limited period. She may be one day +capable of audacities of which on another the very memory might seem to +have left her. + +Not only is the intensity of the sexual impulse in women, as compared to +men, more liable to vary from day to day, or from week to week, but the +same greater variability is marked when we compare the whole cycle of life +in women to that of men. The stress of early womanhood, when the +reproductive functions are in fullest activity, and of late womanhood, +when they are ceasing, produces a profound organic fermentation, psychic +as much as physical, which is not paralleled in the lives of men. This +greater variability in the cycle of a woman's life as compared with a +man's is indicated very delicately and precisely by the varying incidence +of insanity, and is made clearly visible in a diagram prepared by Marro +showing the relative liability to mental diseases in the two sexes +according to age.[180] At the age of 20 the incidence of insanity in both +sexes is equal; from that age onward the curve in men proceeds in a +gradual and equable manner, with only the slightest oscillation, on to old +age. But in women the curve is extremely irregular; it remains high during +all the years from 20 to 30, instead of falling like the masculine curve; +then it falls rapidly to considerably below the masculine curve, rising +again considerably above the masculine level during the climacteric years +from 40 to 50, after which age the two sexes remain fairly close together +to the end of life. Thus, as measured by the test of insanity, the curve +of woman's life, in the sudden rise and sudden fall of its sexual crisis, +differs from the curve of man's life and closely resembles the minor curve +of her menstrual cycle. + +The general tendency of this difference in sexual life and impulse is to +show a greater range of variation in women than in men. Fairly uniform, on +the whole, in men generally and in the same man throughout mature life, +sexual impulse varies widely between woman and woman, and even in the same +woman at different periods. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[169] Ovid remarks (_Ars Amatoria_, bk. i) that, if men were silent, women +would take the active and suppliant part. + +[170] Ferrand, _De la Maladie d'Amour_, 1623, ch. ii. + +[171] Tarde, _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, May 15, 1897. Marro, +who quotes this observation (_Puberta_, p. 467; in French edition, p. 61), +remarks that his own evidence lends some support to Lombroso's conclusion +that under ordinary circumstances woman's sensory acuteness is less than +that of man. He is, however, inclined to impute this to defective +attention; within the sexual sphere women's attention becomes +concentrated, and their sensory perceptions then go far beyond those of +men. There is probably considerable truth in this subtle observation. + +[172] A well-known gynecologist writes from America: "Abhorrence due to +suffering on first nights I have repeatedly seen. One very marked case is +that of a fine womanly young woman with splendid figure; she is a very +good woman, and admires her husband, but, though she tries to develop +desire and passion, she cannot succeed. I fear the man will some day +appear who will be able to develop the latent feelings." + +[173] It is curious that, while the sexual impulse in women tends to +develop at a late age more frequently than in men, it would also appear to +develop more frequently at a very early age than in the other sex. The +majority of cases of precocious sexual development seems to be in female +children. W. Roger Williams ("Precocious Sexual Development," _British +Gynaecological Journal_, May, 1902) finds that 80 such cases have been +recorded in females and only 20 in males, and, while 13 is the earliest +age at which boys have proved virile, girls have been known to conceive at +8. + +[174] I find the same remark made by Plazzonus in the seventeenth century. + +[175] Art. "Fecondation," _Dictionnaire Encyclopedique des Sciences +Medicales_. + +[176] This also is an ancient remark, for in the early treatise _De +Secretis Mulierum_, once attributed to Michael Scot, it is stated, +concerning the woman who finds pleasure in coitus, "cantat libenter." + +[177] It is scarcely necessary to add that prostitutes can furnish little +evidence one way or the other. Not only may prostitutes refuse to +participate in the sexual orgasm, but the evils of a prostitute's life are +obviously connected with causes quite other than mere excess of sexual +gratification. + +[178] This is, for instance, indicated by the experiments of Gualino +concerning the sexual sensitiveness of the lips (_Archivio di +Psichiatria_, 1904, fasc. 3). He found that mechanical irritation applied +to the lips produced more or less sexual feeling in 12 out of 20 women, +but in only 10 out of 25 men, i.e., in three-fifths of the women and +two-fifths of the men. + +[179] "Adolescence is for women primarily a period of storm and stress, +while for men it is in the highest sense a period of doubt," (Starbuck, +_Psychology of Religion_, p. 241.) It is interesting to note that in the +religious sphere, also, the emotions of women are more diffused than those +of men; Starbuck confirms the conclusion of Professor Coe that, while +women have at least as much religious emotion as men, in them it is more +all pervasive, and they experience fewer struggles and acute crises. +(Ibid., p. 80.) + +[180] Marro, _La Puberta_, p. 233. This table covers all those cases, +nearly 3000, of patients entering the Turin asylum, from 1886 to 1895, in +which the age of the first appearance of insanity was known. + + + + +III. + +Summary of Conclusions. + + +In conclusion it may be worth while to sum up the main points brought out +in this brief discussion of a very large question. We have seen that there +are two streams of opinion regarding the relative strength of the sexual +impulse in men and women: one tending to regard it as greater in men, the +other as greater in women. We have concluded that, since a large body of +facts may be brought forward to support either view, we may fairly hold +that, roughly speaking, the distribution of the sexual impulse between the +two sexes is fairly balanced. + +We have, however, further seen that the phenomena are in reality too +complex to be settled by the usual crude method of attempting to discover +quantitative differences in the sexual impulse. We more nearly get to the +bottom of the question by a more analytic method, breaking up our mass of +facts into groups. In this way we find that there are certain well-marked +characteristics by which the sexual impulse in women differs from the same +impulse in men: 1. It shows greater apparent passivity. 2. It is more +complex, less apt to appear spontaneously, and more often needing to be +aroused, while the sexual orgasm develops more slowly than in men. 3. It +tends to become stronger after sexual relationships are established. 4. +The threshold of excess is less easily reached than in men. 5. The sexual +sphere is larger and more diffused. 6. There is a more marked tendency to +periodicity in the spontaneous manifestations of sexual desire. 7. Largely +as a result of these characteristics, the sexual impulse shows a greater +range of variation in women than in men, both as between woman and woman +and in the same woman at different periods. + +It may be added that a proper understanding of these sexual differences in +men and women is of great importance, both in the practical management of +sexual hygiene and in the comprehension of those wider psychological +characteristics by which women differ from men. + + + + +APPENDICES. + + +APPENDIX A. + +THE SEXUAL INSTINCT IN SAVAGES. + +I. + + +In the eighteenth century, when savage tribes in various parts of the +world first began to be visited, extravagantly romantic views widely +prevailed as to the simple and idyllic lives led by primitive peoples. +During the greater part of the nineteenth century the tendency of opinion +was to the opposite extreme, and it became usual to insist on the degraded +and licentious morals of savages.[181] + +In reality, however, savage life is just as little a prolonged debauch as +a prolonged idyll. The inquiries of such writers as Westermarck, Frazer, +and Crawley are tending to introduce a sounder conception of the actual, +often highly complex, conditions of primitive life in its relations to the +sexual instinct. + +At the same time it is not difficult to account for the belief, widely +spread during the nineteenth century, in the unbridled licentiousness of +savages. In the first place, the doctrine of evolution inevitably created +a prejudice in favor of such a view. It was assumed that modesty, +chastity, and restraint were the finest and ultimate flowers of moral +development; therefore at the beginnings of civilization we must needs +expect to find the opposite of these things. Apart, however, from any mere +prejudice of this kind, a superficial observation of the actual facts +necessarily led to much misunderstanding. Just as the nakedness of many +savage peoples led to the belief that they were lacking in modesty, +although, as a matter of fact, modesty is more highly developed in savage +life than in civilization,[182] so the absence of our European rules of +sexual behavior among savages led to the conclusion that they were +abandoned to debauchery. The widespread custom of lending the wife under +certain circumstances was especially regarded as indicating gross +licentiousness. Moreover, even when intercourse was found to be free +before marriage, scarcely any investigator sought to ascertain what amount +of sexual intercourse this freedom involved. It was not clearly understood +that such freedom must by no means be necessarily assumed to involve very +frequent intercourse. Again, it often happened that no clear distinction +was made between peoples contaminated by association with civilization, +and peoples not so contaminated. For instance, when prostitution is +attributed to a savage people we must usually suppose either that a +mistake has been made or that the people in question have been degraded by +intercourse with white peoples, for among unspoilt savages customs that +can properly be called prostitution rarely prevail. Nor, indeed, would +they be in harmony with the conditions of primitive life. + +It has been seriously maintained that the chastity of savages, so far as +it exists at all, is due to European civilization. It is doubtless true +that this is the case with individual persons and tribes, but there is +ample evidence from various parts of the world to show that this is by no +means the rule. And, indeed, it may be said--with no disregard of the +energy and sincerity of missionary efforts--that it could not be so. A new +system of beliefs and practices, however excellent it may be in itself, +can never possess the same stringent and unquestionable force as the +system in which an individual and his ancestors have always lived, and +which they have never doubted the validity of. That this is so we may have +occasion to observe among ourselves. Christian teachers question the +wisdom of bringing young people under free-thinking influence, because, +although they do not deny the morals of free-thinkers, they believe that +to unsettle the young may have a disastrous effect, not only on belief, +but also on conduct. Yet this dangerously unsettling process has been +applied by missionaries on a wholesale scale to races which in some +respect are often little more than children. When, therefore, we are +considering the chastity of savages we must not take into account those +peoples which have been brought into close contact with Europeans. + +In order to understand the sexual habits of savages generally there are +two points which always have to be borne in mind as of the first +importance: (1) the checks restraining sexual intercourse among savages, +especially as regards time and season, are so numerous, and the sanctions +upholding those checks so stringent, that sexual excess cannot prevail to +the same extent as in civilization; (2) even in the absence of such +checks, that difficulty of obtaining sexual erethism which has been noted +as so common among savages, when not overcome by the stimulating +influences prevailing at special times and seasons, and which is probably +in large measure dependent on hard condition of life as well as an +insensitive quality of nervous texture, still remains an important factor, +tending to produce a natural chastity. There is a third consideration +which, though from the present point of view subsidiary, is not without +bearing on our conception of chastity among savages: the importance, even +sacredness, of procreation is much more generally recognized by savage +than by civilized peoples, and also a certain symbolic significance is +frequently attached to human procreation as related to natural +fruitfulness generally; so that a primitive sexual orgy, instead of being +a mere manifestation of licentiousness, may have a ritual significance, as +a magical means of evoking the fruitfulness of fields and herds.[183] + +When a savage practises extraconjugal sexual intercourse, the act is +frequently not, as it has come to be conventionally regarded in +civilization, an immorality or at least an illegitimate indulgence; it is +a useful and entirely justifiable act, producing definite benefits, +conducing alike to cosmic order and social order, although these benefits +are not always such as we in civilization believe to be caused by the act. +Thus, speaking of the northern tribes of central Australia, Spencer and +Gillen remark: "It is very usual amongst all of the tribes to allow +considerable license during the performance of certain of their ceremonies +when a large number of natives, some of them coming often from distant +parts, are gathered together--in fact, on such occasions all of the +ordinary marital rules seem to be more or less set aside for the time +being. Each day, in some tribes, one or more women are told off whose duty +it is to attend at the corrobboree grounds,--sometimes only during the +day, sometimes at night,--and all of the men, except those who are +fathers, elder and younger brothers, and sons, have access to them.... The +idea is that the sexual intercourse assists in some way in the proper +performance of the ceremony, causing everything to work smoothly and +preventing the decorations from falling off."[184] + +It is largely this sacred character of sexual intercourse--the fact that +it is among the things that are at once "divine" and "impure," these two +conceptions not being differentiated in primitive thought--which leads to +the frequency with which in savage life a taboo is put upon its exercise. +Robertson Smith added an appendix to his _Religion of the Semites_ on +"Taboo on the Intercourse of the Sexes."[185] Westermarck brought together +evidence showing the frequency with which this and allied causes tended to +the chastity of savages.[186] Frazer has very luminously expounded the +whole primitive conception of sexual intercourse, and showed how it +affected chastity.[187] Warriors must often be chaste; the men who go on +any hunting or other expedition require to be chaste to be successful; the +women left behind must be strictly chaste; sometimes even the whole of the +people left behind, and for long periods, must be chaste in order to +insure the success of the expedition. Hubert and Maus touched on the same +point in their elaborate essay on sacrifice, pointing out how frequently +sexual relationships are prohibited on the occasion of any ceremony +whatever.[188] Crawley, in elaborating the primitive conception of taboo, +has dealt fully with ritual and traditional influences making for chastity +among savages. He brings forward, for instance, a number of cases, from +various parts of the world, in which intercourse has to be delayed for +days, weeks, even months, after marriage. He considers that the sexual +continence prevalent among savages is largely due to a belief in the +enervating effects of coitus; so dangerous are the sexes to each other +that, as he points out, even now sexual separation of the sexes commonly +occurs.[189] + +There are thus a great number of constantly recurring occasions in savage +life when continence must be preserved, and when, it is firmly believed, +terrible risks would be incurred by its violation--during war, after +victory, after festivals, during mourning, on journeys, in hunting and +fishing, in a vast number of agricultural and industrial occupations. + +It might fairly be argued that the facility with which the savage places +these checks on sexual intercourse itself bears witness to the weakness of +the sexual impulse. Evidence of another order which seems to point to the +undeveloped state of the sexual impulse among savages may be found in the +comparatively undeveloped condition of their sexual organs, a condition +not, indeed, by any means constant, but very frequently noted. As regards +women, it has in many parts of the world been observed to be the rule, and +the data which Ploss and Bartels have accumulated seem to me, on the +whole, to point clearly in this direction.[190] + +At another point, also, it may be remarked, the repulsion between the +sexes and the restraints on intercourse may be associated with weak sexual +impulse. It is not improbable that a certain horror of the sexual organs +may be a natural feeling which is extinguished in the intoxication of +desire, yet still has a physiological basis which renders the sexual +organs--disguised and minimized by convention and by artistic +representation--more or less disgusting in the absence of erotic +emotion.[191] And this is probably more marked in cases in which the +sexual instinct is constitutionally feeble. A lady who had no marked +sexual desires, and who considered it well bred to be indifferent to such +matters, on inspecting her sexual parts in a mirror for the first time in +her life was shocked and disgusted at the sight. Certainly many women +could record a similar experience on being first approached by a man, +although artistic conventions present the male form with greater truth +than the female. Moreover,--and here is the significant point,--this +feeling is by no means restricted to the refined and cultured. "When +working at Michelangelo," wrote a correspondent from Italy, "my upper +gondolier used to see photographs and statuettes of all that man's works. +Stopping one day before the Night and Dawn of S. Lorenzo, sprawling naked +women, he exclaimed: 'How hideous they are!' I pressed him to explain +himself. He went on: 'The ugliest man naked is handsomer than the finest +woman naked. Women have crooked legs, and their sexual organs stink. I +only once saw a naked woman. It was in a brothel, when I was 18. The sight +of her "natura" made me go out and vomit into the canal. You know I have +been twice married, but I never saw either of my wives without clothing.' +Of very rank cheese he said one day: 'Puzza come la natura d'una donna.'" +This man, my correspondent added, was entirely normal and robust, but +seemed to regard sexual congress as a mere evacuation, the sexual instinct +apparently not being strong. + +It seems possible that, if the sexual impulse had no existence, all men +would regard women with this _horror feminae_. As things are, however, at +all events in civilization, sexual emotions begin to develop even earlier, +usually, than acquaintance with the organs of the other sex begins; so +that this disgust is inhibited. If, however, among savages the sexual +impulse is habitually weak, and only aroused to strength under the impetus +of powerful stimuli, often acting periodically, then we should expect the +_horror_ to be a factor of considerable importance. + +The weakness of the physical sexual impulse among savages is reflected in +the psychic sphere. Many writers have pointed out that love plays but a +small part in their lives. They practise few endearments; they often only +kiss children (Westermarck notes that sexual love is far less strong than +parental love); love-poems are among some primitive peoples few (mostly +originating with the women), and their literature often gives little or no +attention to passion.[192] Affection and devotion are, however, often +strong, especially in savage women. + +It is not surprising that jealousy should often, though not by any means +invariably, be absent, both among men and among women. Among savages this +is doubtless a proof of the weakness of the sexual impulse. Spencer and +Gillen note the comparative absence of jealousy in men among the Central +Australian tribes they studied.[193] Negresses, it is said by a French +army surgeon in his _Untrodden Fields of Anthropology_, do not know what +jealousy is, and the first wife will even borrow money to buy the second +wife. Among a much higher race, the women in a Korean household, it is +said, live together happily, as an almost invariable rule, though it +appears that this was not always the case among a polygamous people of +European race, the Mormons. + +The tendency of the sexual instinct in savages to periodicity, to seasonal +manifestations, I do not discuss here, as I have dealt with it in the +first volume of these _Studies_.[194] It has, however, a very important +bearing on this subject. Periodicity of sexual manifestations is, indeed, +less absolute in primitive man than in most animals, but it is still very +often quite clearly marked. It is largely the occurrence of these violent +occasional outbursts of the sexual instinct--during which the organic +impulse to tumescence becomes so powerful that external stimuli are no +longer necessary--that has led to the belief in the peculiar strength of +the impulse in savages.[195] + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[181] Thus, Lubbock (Lord Avebury), in the _Origin of Civilization_, fifth +edition, 1889, brings forward a number of references in evidence of this +belief. More recently Finck, in his _Primitive Love and Love-stories_, +1899, seeks to accumulate data in favor of the unbounded licentiousness of +savages. He admits, however, that a view of the matter opposed to his own +is now tending to prevail. + +[182] See "The Evolution of Modesty" in the first volume of these +_Studies_. + +[183] The sacredness of sexual relations often applies also to individual +marriage. Thus, Skeat, in his _Malay Magic_, shows that the bride and +bridegroom are definitely recognized as sacred, in the same sense that the +king is, and in Malay States the king is a very sacred person. See also, +concerning the sacred character of coitus, whether individual or +collective, A. Van Gennep, _Rites de Passage, passim_. + +[184] Spencer and Gillen, _Northern Tribes of Central Australia_, p. 136. + +[185] _Religion of the Semites_, second edition, 1894, p. 454 _et seq._ + +[186] _History of Marriage_, pp. 66-70, 150-156, etc. + +[187] _Golden Bough_, third edition, part ii, _Taboo and the Perils of the +Soul_. Frazer has discussed taboo generally. For a shorter account of +taboo, see art. "Taboo" by Northcote Thomas in _Encyclopaedia Britannica_, +eleventh edition, 1911. Freud has lately (_Imago_, 1912) made an attempt +to explain the origin of taboo psychologically by comparing it to neurotic +obsessions. Taboo, Freud believes, has its origin in a forbidden act to +perform which there is a strong unconscious tendency; an ambivalent +attitude, that is, combining the opposite tendencies, is thus established. +In this way Freud would account for the fact that tabooed persons and +things are both sacred and unclean. + +[188] "Essai sur le Sacrifice," _L'Annee Sociologique_, 1899, pp. 50-51. + +[189] _The Mystic Rose_, 1902, p. 187 et seq., 215 et seq., 342 et seq. + +[190] _Das Weib_, vol. i, section 6. + +[191] This statement has been questioned. It should, however, be fairly +evident that the sexual organs in either sex, when closely examined, can +scarcely be regarded as beautiful except in the eyes of a person of the +opposite sex who is in a condition of sexual excitement, and they are not +always attractive even then. Moreover, it must be remembered that the +snake-like aptitude of the penis to enter into a state of erection apart +from the control of the will puts it in a different category from any +other organ of the body, and could not fail to attract the attention of +primitive peoples so easily alarmed by unusual manifestations. We find +even in the early ages of Christianity that St. Augustine attached immense +importance to this alarming aptitude of the penis as a sign of man's +sinful and degenerate state. + +[192] Lubbock, _Origin of Civilization_, fifth edition, pp. 69, 73; +Westermarck, _History of Marriage_, p. 357; Grosse, _Anfaenge der Kunst_, +p. 236; Herbert Spencer, "Origin of Music," _Mind_, Oct., 1890. + +[193] Spencer and Gillen, _Native Tribes of Central Australia_, p. 99; cf. +Finck, _Primitive Love and Love-stories_, p. 89 et seq. + +[194] "The Phenomena of Sexual Periodicity." The subject has also been +more recently discussed by Walter Heape, "The 'Sexual Season' of Mammals," +_Quarterly Journal of Microscopical Science_, vol. xliv, 1900. See also +F.H.A. Marshall, _The Physiology of Reproduction_, 1910. + +[195] This view finds a belated supporter in Max Marcuse +("Geschlechtstrieb des Urmenschens," _Sexual-Probleme_, Oct., 1909), who, +on grounds which I cannot regard as sound, seeks to maintain the belief +that the sexual instinct is more highly developed among savage than among +civilized peoples. + + + + +II. + + +The facts thus seem to indicate that among primitive peoples, while the +magical, ceremonial, and traditional restraints on sexual intercourse are +very numerous, very widespread, and nearly always very stringent, there +is, underlying this prevalence of restraints on intercourse, a fundamental +weakness of the sexual instinct, which craves less, and craves less +frequently, than is the case among civilized peoples, but is liable to be +powerfully manifested at special seasons. It is perfectly true that among +savages, as Sutherland states, "there is no ideal which makes chastity a +thing beautiful in itself"; but when the same writer goes on to state that +"it is untrue that in sexual license the savage has everything to learn," +we must demand greater precision of statement.[196] Travelers, and too +often would-be scientific writers, have been so much impressed by the +absence among savages of the civilized ideal of chastity, and by the +frequent freedom of sexual intercourse, that they have not paused to +inquire more carefully into the phenomena, or to put themselves at the +primitive point of view, but have assumed that freedom here means all that +it would mean in a European population. + +In order to illustrate the actual circumstances of savage life in this +respect from the scanty evidence furnished by the most careful observers, +I have brought together from scattered sources a few statements concerning +primitive peoples in very various parts of the world.[197] + +Among the Andamanese, Portman, who knows them well, says that sexual +desire is very moderate; in males it appears at the age of 18, but, as +"their love for sport is greater than their passions, these are not +gratified to any great extent till after marriage, which rarely takes +place till a man is about 26."[198] + +Although chastity is not esteemed by the Fuegians, and virginity is lost +at a very early age, yet both men and women are extremely moderate in +sexual indulgence.[199] + +Among the Eskimo at the other end of the American continent, according to +Dr. F. Cook, the sexual passions are suppressed during the long darkness +of winter, as also is the menstrual function usually, and the majority of +the children are born nine months after the appearance of the sun.[200] + +Among the Indians of North America it is the custom of many tribes to +refrain from sexual intercourse during the whole period of lactation, as +also D'Orbigny found to be the case among South American Indians, although +suckling went on for over three years.[201] Many of the Indian tribes have +now been rendered licentious by contact with civilization. In the +primitive condition their customs were entirely different. Dr. Holder, who +knows many tribes of North American Indians well, has dealt in some detail +with this point. "Several of the virtues," he states, "and among them +chastity, were more faithfully practised by the Indian race before the +invasion from the East than these same virtues are practised by the white +race of the present day.... The race is less salacious than either the +negro or white race.... That the women of some tribes are now more careful +of their virtue than the women of any other community whose history I +know, I am fully convinced."[202] It is not only on the women that sexual +abstinence is imposed. Among some branches of the Salish Indians of +British Columbia a young widower must refrain from sexual intercourse for +a year, and sometimes lives entirely apart during that period.[203] + +In many parts of Polynesia, although the sexual impulse seems often to +have been highly developed before the arrival of Europeans, it is very +doubtful whether license, in the European sense, at all generally +prevailed. The Marquesans, who have sometimes been regarded as peculiarly +licentious, are especially mentioned by Foley as illustrating his +statement that sexual erethism is with difficulty attained by primitive +peoples except during sexual seasons.[204] Herman Melville's detailed +account in _Typee_ of the Marquesans (somewhat idealized, no doubt) +reveals nothing that can fairly be called licentiousness. At Rotuma, J. +Stanley Gardiner remarks, before the missionaries came sexual intercourse +before marriage was free, but gross immorality and prostitution and +adultery were unknown. Matters are much worse now.[205] The Maoris of New +Zealand, in the old days, according to one who had lived among them, were +more chaste than the English, and, though a chief might lend his wife to a +friend as an honor, it would be very difficult to take her (_private +communication_).[206] Captain Cook also represented these people as modest +and virtuous. + +Among the Papuans of New Guinea and Torres Straits, although intercourse +before marriage is free, it is by no means unbridled, nor is it carried to +excess. There are many circumstances restraining intercourse. Thus, +unmarried men must not indulge in it during October and November at Torres +Straits. It is the general rule also that there should be no sexual +intercourse during pregnancy, while a child is being suckled (which goes +on for three or four years), or even until it can speak or walk.[207] In +Astrolabe Bay, New Guinea, according to Vahness, a young couple must +abstain from intercourse for several weeks after marriage, and to break +this rule would be disgraceful.[208] + +As regards Australia, Brough Smyth wrote: "Promiscuous intercourse between +the sexes is not practised by the aborigines, and their laws on the +subject, particularly those of New South Wales, are very strict. When at +camp all the young unmarried men are stationed by themselves at the +extreme end, while the married men, each with his family, occupy the +center. No conversation is allowed between the single men and the girls or +the married women. Infractions of these laws were visited by punishment; +... five or six warriors threw from a comparatively short distance several +spears at him [the offender]. The man was often severely wounded and +sometimes killed."[209] This author mentions that a black woman has been +known to kill a white man who attempted to have intercourse with her by +force. Yet both sexes have occasional sexual intercourse from an early +age. After marriage, in various parts of Australia, there are numerous +restraints on intercourse, which is forbidden not merely during +menstruation, but during the latter part of pregnancy and for one moon +after childbirth.[210] + +Concerning the people of the Malay Peninsula, Hrolf Vaughan Stevens +states: "The sexual impulse among the Belendas is only developed to a +slight extent; they are not sensual, and the husband has intercourse with +his wife not oftener than three times a month. The women also are not +ardent.... The Orang Laut are more sensual than the Dyaks, who are, +however, more given to obscene jokes than their neighbors.... With the +Belendas there is little or no love-play in sexual relations".[211] Skeat +tells us also that among Malays in war-time strict chastity must be +observed in a stockade, or the bullets of the garrison will lose their +power.[212] + +It is a common notion that the negro and negroid races of Africa are +peculiarly prone to sexual indulgence. This notion is not supported by +those who have had the most intimate knowledge of these peoples. It +probably gained currency in part owing to the open and expansive +temperament of the negro, and in part owing to the extremely sexual +character of many African orgies and festivals, though those might quite +as legitimately be taken as evidence of difficulty in attaining sexual +erethism. + +A French army surgeon, speaking from knowledge of the black races in +various French colonies, states in his _Untrodden Fields of Anthropology_ +that it is a mistake to imagine that the negress is very amorous. She is +rather cold, and indifferent to the refinements of love, in which respects +she is very unlike the mulatto. The white man is usually powerless to +excite her, partly from his small penis, partly from his rapidity of +emission; the black man, on account of his blunter nervous system, takes +three times as long to reach emission as the white man. Among the +Mohammedan peoples of West Africa, Daniell remarks, as well as in central +and northern Africa, it is usual to suckle a child for two or more years. +From the time when pregnancy becomes apparent to the end of weaning no +intercourse takes place. It is believed that this would greatly endanger +the infant, if not destroy it. This means that for every child the woman, +at all events, must remain continent for about three years.[213] Sir H.H. +Johnston, writing concerning the peoples of central Africa, remarks that +the man also must remain chaste during these periods. Thus, among the +Atonga the wife leaves her husband at the sixth month of pregnancy, and +does not resume relations with him until five or six months after the +birth of the child. If, in the interval, he has relations with any other +woman, it is believed his wife will certainly die. "The negro is very +rarely vicious," Johnston says, "after he has attained to the age of +puberty. He is only more or less uxorious. The children are vicious, as +they are among most races of mankind, the boys outrageously so. As regards +the little girls over nearly the whole of British Central Africa, chastity +before puberty is an unknown condition, except perhaps among the A-nyanja. +Before a girl is become a woman it is a matter of absolute indifference +what she does, and scarcely any girl remains a virgin after about 5 years +of age."[214] Among the Bangala of the upper Congo a woman suckles her +child for six to eighteen months and during all this period the husband +has no intercourse with his wife, for that, it is believed, would kill the +child.[215] + +Among the Yoruba-speaking people of West Africa A.B. Ellis mentions that +suckling lasts for three years, during the whole of which period the wife +must not cohabit with her husband.[216] + +Although chastity before marriage appears to be, as a rule, little +regarded in Africa, this is not always so. In some parts of West Africa, a +girl, at all events if of high birth, when found guilty of unchastity may +be punished by the insertion into her vagina of bird pepper, a kind of +capsicum, beaten into a mass; this produces intense pain and such acute +inflammation that the canal may even be obliterated.[217] + +Among the Dahomey women there is no coitus during pregnancy nor during +suckling, which lasts for nearly three years. The same is true among the +Jekris and other tribes on the Niger, where it is believed that the milk +would suffer if intercourse took place during lactation.[218] + +In another part of Africa, among the Suaheli, even after marriage only +incomplete coitus is at first allowed and there is no intercourse for a +year after the child's birth.[219] + +Farther south, among the Ba Wenda of north Transvaal, says the Rev. R. +Wessmann, although the young men are permitted to "play" with the young +girls before marriage, no sexual intercourse is allowed. If it is seen +that a girl's labia are apart when she sits down on a stone, she is +scolded, or even punished, as guilty of having had intercourse.[220] + +Among the higher races in India the sexual instinct is very developed, and +sexual intercourse has been cultivated as an art, perhaps more elaborately +than anywhere else. Here, however, we are far removed from primitive +conditions and among a people closely allied to the Europeans. Farther to +the east, as among the Cambodians, strict chastity seems to prevail, and +if we cross the Himalayas to the north we find ourselves among wild people +to whom sexual license is unknown. Thus, among the Turcomans, even a few +days after the marriage has been celebrated, the young couple are +separated for an entire year.[221] + +All the great organized religions have seized on this value of sexual +abstinence, already consecrated by primitive magic and religion, and +embodied it in their system. It was so in ancient Egypt. Thus, according +to Diodorus, on the death of a king, the entire population of Egypt +abstained from sexual intercourse for seventy-two days. The Persians, +again, attached great value to sexual as to all other kinds of purity. +Even involuntary seminal emissions were severely punishable. To lie with a +menstruating woman, according to the _Vendidad_, was as serious a matter +as to pollute holy fire, and to lie with a pregnant woman was to incur a +penalty of 2000 strokes. Among the modern Parsees a man must not lie with +his wife after she is four months and ten days pregnant. Mohammedanism +cannot be described as an ascetic religion, yet long and frequent periods +of sexual abstinence are enjoined. There must be no sexual intercourse +during the whole of pregnancy, during suckling, during menstruation (and +for eight days before and after), nor during the thirty days of the +Ramedan fast. Other times of sexual abstinence are also prescribed; thus +among the Mohammedan Yezidis of Mardin in northern Mesopotamia there must +be no sexual intercourse on Wednesdays or Fridays.[222] + +In the early Christian Church many rules of sexual abstinence still +prevailed, similar to those usual among savages, though not for such +prolonged periods. In Egbert's Penitential, belonging to the ninth +century, it is stated that a woman must abstain from intercourse with her +husband three months after conception and for forty days after birth. +There were a number of other occasions, including Lent, when a husband +must not know his wife.[223] "Some canonists say," remarks Jeremy Taylor, +"that the Church forbids a mutual congression of married pairs upon +festival days.... The Council of Eliberis commanded abstinence from +conjugal rights for three or four or seven days before the communion. Pope +Liberius commanded the same during the whole time of Lent, supposing the +fast is polluted by such congressions."[224] + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[196] A. Sutherland, _Origin and Growth of the Moral Instinct_, vol. i, +pp. 8, 187. As has been shown by, for instance, Dr. Iwan Bloch (_Beitraege +zur AEtiologie der Psychopathia Sexualis_, Erster Theil, 1902), every +perverse sexual practice may be found, somewhere or other, among savages +or barbarians; but, as the same writer acutely points out (p. 58), these +devices bear witness to the need of overcoming frigidity rather than to +the strength of the sexual impulse. + +[197] Ploss and Bartels have brought together in _Das Weib_ a large number +of facts in the same sense, more especially under the headings of +_Abstinenz-Vorschriften_ and _Die Fernhaltung der Schwangeren_. I have not +drawn upon their collection. + +[198] _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, May, 1896, p. 369. + +[199] Hyades and Deniker, _Mission Scientifique du Cap Horn_, vol. vii, p. +188. + +[200] F. Cook, _New York Journal of Gynecology and Obstetrics_, 1894. + +[201] A. d'Orbigny, _L'Homme Americain_, 1839, vol. i, p. 47. + +[202] A.B. Holder, "Gynecic Notes Among the American Indians," _American +Journal of Obstetrics_, 1892, vol. xxvi, No. 1. + +[203] _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, 1905, p. 139. + +[204] Foley, _Bulletin de la Societe d' Anthropologie_, Paris, November 6, +1879. + +[205] J.S. Gardiner, _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, February, +1898, p. 409. + +[206] As regards the modern Maoris, a medical correspondent in New Zealand +writes: "It is nothing for members of both sexes to live in the same room, +and for promiscuous intercourse to take place between father and daughter +or brother and sister. Maori women, who will display a great deal of +modesty when in the presence of male Maoris, will openly ask strange +Europeans to have sexual intercourse with them, and without any desire for +reward. The men, however, seem to prefer their own women, and even when +staying in towns, where they can obtain prostitutes, they will remain +continent until they return home again, a period of perhaps a month." + +[207] Schellong, _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1889, i, pp. 17, 19; +Haddon, _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, February, 1890, pp. +316, 397; Guise, ib., February and May, 1899, p. 207; Seligmann, ib., +1902, pp. 298, 301-302; _Reports Cambridge Expedition_, vol. v, pp. +199-200, 275. + +[208] _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1900, ht. v, p. 414. + +[209] R. Brough Smyth, _The Aborigines of Victoria_, vol. ii, p. 318. + +[210] _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, 1894, pp. 170, 177, 187. + +[211] _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1896, iv, pp. 180-181. + +[212] W.W. Skeat, _Malay Magic_, p. 524. + +[213] W.F. Daniell, _Medical Topography of Gulf of Guinea_, 1849, p. 55. + +[214] Sir H.H. Johnston, _British Central Africa_, 1899, pp. 409, 414. + +[215] Rev. J.H. Weeks, _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, 1910, +p. 418. + +[216] Sir A.B. Ellis, _Yoruba-Speaking Peoples_, p. 185. + +[217] W.F. Daniell, op. cit., p. 36. + +[218] _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, August and November, +1898, p. 106. + +[219] _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1899, ii and iii, p. 84; Velten, +_Sitten und Gebraueche der Suaheli_, p. 12. + +[220] _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1896, p. 364. + +[221] Vambery, _Travels in Central Asia_, 1864, p. 323. + +[222] Heard, _Journal of the Anthropological Institute_, Jan.-June, 1911, +p. 210. The same rule is also observed by the Christians of this district. + +[223] Haddon and Stubbs, _Councils and Ecclesiastical Documents_, vol. +iii, p. 423. + +[224] Jeremy Taylor, _The Rule of Conscience_, bk. iii, ch. iv, rule xx. + + + + +III. + + +Thus it would seem probable that, contrary to a belief once widely +prevalent, the sexual instinct has increased rather than diminished with +the growth of civilization. This fact was clear to the insight of +Lucretius, though it has often been lost sight of since.[225] Yet even +observation of animals might have suggested the real bearing of the facts. +The higher breeds of cattle, it is said, require the male more often than +the inferior breeds.[226] Thorough-bred horses soon reach sexual maturity, +and I understand that since pains have been taken to improve cart-horses +the sexual instincts of the mares have become less trustworthy. There is +certainly no doubt that in our domestic animals generally, which live +under what may be called civilized conditions, the sexual system and the +sexual needs are more developed than in the wild species most closely +related to them.[227] All observers seem to agree on this point, and it is +sufficient to refer to the excellent summary of the question furnished by +Heape in the study of "The 'Sexual Season' of Mammals," to which reference +has already been made. He remarks, moreover, that, "while the sexual +activity of domestic animals and of wild animals in captivity may be more +frequently exhibited, it is not so violent as is shown by animals in the +wild state."[228] So that, it would seem, the greater periodicity of the +instinct in the wild state, alike in animals and in man, is associated +with greater violence of the manifestations when they do appear. Certain +rodents, such as the rat and the mouse, are well known to possess both +great reproductive power and marked sexual proclivities. Heape suggests +that this also is "due to the advantages derived from their intimate +relations with the luxuries of civilization." Heape recognizes that, as +regards reproductive power, the same development may be traced in man: "It +would seem highly probable that the reproductive power of man has +increased with civilization, precisely as it may be increased in the lower +animals by domestication; that the effect of a regular supply of good +food, together with all the other stimulating factors available and +exercised in modern civilized communities, has resulted in such great +activity of the generative organs, and so great an increase in the supply +of the reproductive elements, that conception in the healthy human female +may be said to be possible almost at any time during the reproductive +period." + +"People of sense and reflection are most apt to have violent and constant +passions," wrote Mary Wollstonecraft, "and to be preyed on by them."[229] +It is that fact which leads to the greater importance of sexual phenomena +among the civilized as compared to savages. The conditions of civilization +increase the sexual instinct, which consequently tends to be more +intimately connected with moral feelings. Morality is bound up with the +development of the sexual instinct. The more casual and periodic character +of the impulse in animals, since it involves greater sexual indifference, +tends to favor a loose tie between the sexes, and hence is not favorable +to the development of morals as we understand morals. In man the +ever-present impulse of sex, idealizing each sex to the other sex, draws +men and women together and holds them together. Foolish and ignorant +persons may deplore the full development which the sexual instinct has +reached in civilized man; to a finer insight that development is seen to +be indissolubly linked with all that is most poignant and most difficult, +indeed, but also all that is best, in human life as we know it. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[225] _De Rerum Natura_, v, 1016. + +[226] Raciborski (_Traite de la Menstruation_, p. 43) quotes the +observation of an experienced breeder of choice cattle to this effect. + +[227] "The organs which in the feral state," as Adlerz remarks +(_Biologisches Centralblatt_, No. 4, 1902; quoted in _Science_, May 16, +1902), "are continually exercised in a severe struggle for existence, do +not under domestication compete so closely with one another for the less +needed nutriment. Hence, organs like the reproductive glands, which are +not so directly implicated in self-preservation, are able to avail +themselves of more food." + +[228] _Quarterly Journal of Microscopical Science_, vol. xliv, 1900, p. +12, 31, 39. + +[229] "Love," in _Thoughts on the Education of Daughters_. + + + + +APPENDIX B. + +THE DEVELOPMENT OF THE SEXUAL INSTINCT. + + +It is a very remarkable fact that, although for many years past serious +attempts have been made to elucidate the psychology of sexual perversions, +little or no endeavor has been made to study the development of the normal +sexual emotions. Nearly every writer seems either to take for granted that +he and his readers are so familiar with all the facts of normal sex +psychology that any detailed statement is altogether uncalled for, or else +he is content to write a few fragmentary remarks, mostly made up of +miscellaneous extracts from anatomical, philosophical, and historical +works. + +Yet it is as unreasonable to take normal phenomena for granted here as in +any other region of science. A knowledge of such phenomena is as necessary +here as physiology is to pathology or anatomy to surgery. So far from the +facts of normal sex development, sex emotions, and sex needs being uniform +and constant, as is assumed by those who consider their discussion +unnecessary, the range of variation within fairly normal limits is +immense, and it is impossible to meet with two individuals whose records +are nearly identical. + +There are two fundamental reasons why the endeavor should be made to +obtain a broad basis of clear information on the subject. In the first +place, the normal phenomena give the key to the abnormal phenomena, and +the majority of sexual perversions, including even those that are most +repulsive, are but exaggerations of instincts and emotions that are +germinal in normal human beings. In the second place, we cannot even know +what is normal until we are acquainted with the sexual life of a large +number of healthy individuals. And until we know the limits of normal +sexuality we are not in position to lay down any reasonable rules of +sexual hygiene. + +On these grounds I have for some time sought to obtain the sexual +histories, and more especially the early histories, of men and women who, +on _prima facie_ grounds, may fairly be considered, or are at all events +by themselves and others considered, ordinarily healthy and normal. + +There are many difficulties about such a task, difficulties which are +sufficiently obvious. There is, first of all, the natural reticence to +reveal facts of so intimately personal a character. There is the +prevailing ignorance and unintelligence which leads to the phenomena being +obscure to the subject himself. When the first difficulty has been +overcome, and the second is non-existent, there is still a lack of +sufficiently strong motive to undertake the record, as well as a failure +to realize the value of such records. I have, however, received a large +number of such histories, for the most part offered spontaneously with +permission to make such further inquiries as I thought desirable. Some of +these histories are extremely interesting and instructive. In the present +Appendix, and in a corresponding Appendix to the two following volumes of +these _Studies_, I bring forward a varied selection of these narratives. +In a few cases, it will be seen, the subjects are, to say the least, on +the borderland of the abnormal, but they do not come before us as patients +desiring treatment. They are playing their, usually active, sometimes even +distinguished, part in the world, which knows nothing of their intimate +histories. + + HISTORY I.--E.T. (I reproduce this history, written in the third + person, as it reached my hands.) T.'s earliest recollections of + ideas of a sexual character are vaguely associated with thoughts + upon whipping inflicted on companions by their parents, and + sometimes upon his own person. About the age of 7 T. occasionally + depicted to himself the appearance of the bare nates and + genitalia of boys during flagellation. Reflection upon whipping + gave rise to slight curious sensations at the base of the abdomen + and in the nerves of the sexual system. The sight of a boy being + whipped upon the bare nates caused erection before the age of 9. + He cannot account for these excitations, as at the time he had + not learned the most rudimentary facts of sex. The spectacle of + the boy's nudity had no attraction for him, while the beating + aroused his indignation against the person who administered it. + T. knew a boy and girl of about his own age whose imaginations + dwelt somewhat morbidly upon whipping. The three used to talk + together about such chastisement, and the little girl liked to + read "stories that had whippings in them." None of these children + delighted in cruelty; the fascination in the theme of castigation + seemed to be in imagining the spectacle of the exposed nates, + though actual witnessing of the whipping made them angry at the + time. + + Accustomed to watch a young sister being bathed, T. had no + distinct curiosity concerning the differences in sex until the + age of 9. About this time he asked his father where babies came + from, and was told to be quiet. When he persisted in the inquiry + his father threatened to box his ears. His mother told him + subsequently that doctors brought babies to mothers. He credited + the story so far as to carefully watch the doctor who came when + his mother "was going to have a new baby," in the hope of seeing + a bundle in his arm. T. was 9 when he interrogated a servant-girl + of 16 about babies and their origin. She laughed and said that + one day she would tell him how children came. One Sunday this + servant took T. for a country walk and initiated him in sexual + intercourse, telling him he was too young to be a father, but + that was the way babies were made. The girl took him into a + field, saying she would show him how to do something which would + make him "feel as though he was in heaven," informing him that + she had often done this with young men. She then succeeded in + causing erection and instructed him how to act. His feeling at + the time was one of disgust; the appearance and odor of the + female genitalia repelled him. Afterward, however, he wished to + repeat the experience with girls of his own age. Finding the boy + unresponsive, the girl took the masculine position and embraced + him with great passion. T. can recall the expression of the + girl's face, the perspiration on her forehead, and the whispered + query whether it pleased him. The embrace lasted for about ten + minutes, when the girl said it had "done her good." Later the + same day they met a girl cousin of this servant about 10 or 12 + years old. The three went to a lonely part of the seashore. The + servant there suggested that T. should repeat the act with the + little girl. T. was too shy, though the girl seemed quite willing + and experienced. The older girl told the younger to keep watch a + few yards away, while she again brought about intercourse in the + same way. The servant told T. not to tell anyone. Intercourse + with the servant was never repeated after that day; from shame he + kept the promise for many years. + + After this episode T. began to speculate about sexual matters and + to observe the coupling of dogs with newly acquired interest. At + 10 years he often lay awake, listening to a woman of 25 singing + to a piano accompaniment. The woman's voice seemed very + beautiful, and so strongly impressed him that he fell in love + with her and longed to embrace her sexually. This secret + attachment was much more romantic than sensual, though the idea + of embracing the woman seemed to T. a natural part of the + romance. He was beginning to invest the sex with angelic + qualities. The thought of his adventure with the servant no + longer caused repulsion, but rather pleasure. He reflected that + if he could meet the girl now he could be very fond of her and + understand things better. At this time he had not masturbated, + nor even heard of the practice. One day, while playing with a + girl of his own age, he succeeded in overcoming her shyness and + induced her to expose herself, at the same time uncovering his + own sexual parts. On this occasion and once afterward he + succeeded in penetrating the vulva. Both he and the girl + experienced imperfect enjoyment. + + At boarding-school, where he was sent at 10, T. learned the + vulgar phrases for sexual organs and sexual acts, and acquired + the habit of moderate masturbation. Coarse talk and indecent + jests about the opposite sex were common amusements of the + playroom and dormitories. At first the obscene conversation was + very distasteful; later he became more used to it, but thought it + strange that sex intimacy should be a subject for ridicule and + jest. + + He began to read love-stories and think much about girls. At the + same time he learned the nature of "the sin of fornication," and + wondered why it should be considered so heinous. Parts of the + Bible condemning intercourse between the unmarried alarmed him. + Being of a serious as well as emotional and amorous nature, he + became converted to evangelic belief. His mother warned him to + beware of unclean companions at school. He tried to act as a + Christian and think only pure thoughts about women. The talk, + however, was always of girls and of being in love. His mind was + often engrossed with amatory ideas of a poetic, sensuous nature, + his sexual experiences having a firm hold on his imagination, + while they gave him gratifying assurance of actual knowledge + concerning things merely imagined by most of his companions. + + His health was vigorous and he keenly enjoyed all outdoor games + and excelled in daring and schoolboy mischief. + + At 12 he fell deeply in love with a girl of corresponding age. He + never felt any powerful sexual desire for his sweetheart, and + never attempted anything but kissing and decorous caresses. He + liked to walk and sit with the girl, to hold her hand, and stroke + her soft hair. He felt real grief when separated from her. His + thoughts of her were seldom sensual. A year or so afterward he + had a temporary passion for a woman of 30, who used to flirt with + him and allow kissing. T. thought her queen-like and very lovely, + and wished to be her knight. + + One day he saw, for a moment, in a friend's house, a dark, + earnest-looking girl of 13, who made a very deep impression upon + him, and, though he did not exchange a word with her, he often + thought about her afterward. Five years later he met the dark + girl again, and the pair were mutually drawn to one another. He + proposed marriage and avowed a most desperate passion. A refusal + on the plea of youth caused him the deepest misery. About eight + years thereafter T. married the girl, and the marriage proved a + very happy one for both. + + When he was 15 T. made the acquaintance of a pretty blonde of the + same age. She was a high-spirited hoiden. They were soon close + friends and later lovers. They wrote a number of letters to each + other and exchanged locks of hair and presents. Their talk about + love was unreserved. One day she told T. that she had been + sexually embraced by a former lover, a boy of 16, hinting very + plainly that she would like T. to embrace her. This amour lasted + for about six months. The lovers had many opportunities for + clandestine intercourse. They used to consummate their passion in + a part of a wood they called "the bower." Now and then one or the + other would experience a pricking of conscience, but they were + too passionately attached to each other to sever the intimacy. At + length the girl began to dread the risk of conception and the + intercourse ceased. Looking back upon this episode T. avers that + the attachment and its physical expression seemed quite natural, + poetic, and beautiful, though at times his religious principles + condemned his conduct. He now thinks that the experience is by no + means to be regretted either by the girl or himself. It was a + wholesome youthful passion, as innocent as the mating of birds, + and the insight which it gave to both of the hidden emotions of + human nature was morally advantageous in after-life. + + T. believes that his amative precocity was due to the early + awakening of sex feeling by the servant-girl. But he also + believes that the love passion would have asserted itself early + in any case, since he inherits a warm temperament, had erectile + power long before puberty, and has considerable seminal capacity. + Having closely watched the effects of suppressed normal emotions + and desires in youth at the time of pubescence, he maintains that + such suppression is disastrous, causing unhealthy thoughts and + leading to the formation of a habit of masturbation which may + persist throughout life. He believes that temporary sexual + intimacies between boys and girls under 20 from the period of + puberty would be far less harmful than separation of the sexes + until marriage, with its resultants: masturbation, hysteria, + repressed and disordered functions in young women, seduction, + prostitution, venereal affections, and many other evils. + + + HISTORY II.--The following narrative was written by a married + lady: "My mother (herself a very passionate and attractive woman) + recognized the difficulty for English girls of getting + satisfactorily married, and determined, if possible, to shield us + from disappointment by turning our thoughts in a different + direction. Theoretically the idea was perhaps good, but in + practice it proved useless. The natural desires were there. + Disappointment and disillusion followed their repression none the + less surely for having altered their natural shape. I think the + love I had for my mother was almost sexual, as to be with her was + a keen pleasure, and to be long away from her an almost + unendurable pain. She used to talk to us a good deal on all sorts + of subjects, but she never troubled about education in the + ordinary sense. When 9 years old I had been taught nothing except + to read and write. She never forbade us to read anything, but if + by accident we got hold of a book of which she did not approve + she used to say: 'I think that is rather a silly story, don't + you?' We were so eager to come up to her standard of taste that + we at once imagined we thought it silly, too. In the same way she + discouraged ideas about love or marriage, not by suggesting there + was anything wrong or improper about them, but by implying great + contempt for girls who thought about lovers, etc. Up to the age + of about 20 I had a vague general impression that love was very + well for ordinary women, but far beneath the dignity of a + somewhat superior person like myself. To show how little it + entered my thoughts I may add that, up to 17, I fancied a woman + got a child by being kissed on the lips by a man. Hence all the + fuss in novels about the kiss on the mouth. + + "When I was 9 years old I began to feel a great craving for + scientific knowledge. _A Child's Guide to Science_, which I + discovered at a second-hand book-stall (and which, by the way, + informed me that heat is due to a substance called caloric), + became a constant companion. In order to learn about light and + gravitation, I saved up my money and ordered (of all books) + Newton's _Principia_, shedding bitter tears when I found I could + not understand a word of it. At the same time I was horribly + ashamed of this desire for knowledge. I got such books as I could + surreptitiously and hid them in odd corners. Why, I cannot + imagine, as no one would have objected, but, on the contrary, I + should have been helped to suitable books. + + "My sisters and I were all violently argumentative, but our + quarrels were all on abstract subjects. We saw little of other + children and made no friendships, preferring each other's society + to that of outsiders. When I was about 10 a girl of the same age + came to stay with us for a few days. When we went to bed the + first night she asked me if I ever played with myself, whereupon + I took a great dislike to her. No sexual ideas or feelings were + excited. When still quite a child, however, I had feelings of + excitement which I now recognize as sexual. Such feelings always + came to me in bed (at least I cannot remember them at any other + time) and were generally accompanied by a gradually increasing + desire to make water. For a long time I would not dare to get out + of bed for fear of being scolded for staying awake, and only did + so at last when actually compelled. In the mean time the sexual + excitement increased also, and I believe I thought the latter was + the result of the former, or, perhaps, rather, that both were the + same thing. (This was when I was about 7 or 8 years old.) So far + as I can recollect, the excitement did not recur when the desire + to make water had been gratified. I seemed to remember wondering + why thinking of certain things (I can't remember what these were) + should make one want to urinate. (In later life I have found + that, if the bladder is not emptied before coitus, pleasure is + often more intense.) There were also feelings, which I now + recognize as sexual, in connection with ideas of whipping. + + "As a child and girl I had very strong religious feelings (I + should have now if I could believe in the reality of religion), + which were absent in my sisters. These feelings were much the + same as I experienced later sexually; I felt toward God what I + imagined I should like to feel to my husband if I married. This, + I fancy, is what usually occurs. At 14 I went to a + boarding-school where there were seventy girls between 7 and 19. + I think it goes to show that there is but very little sexual + precocity among English girls that during the three years I + stayed there I never heard a word the strictest mother would have + objected to. One or two of the older girls were occasionally a + little sentimental, but on no occasion did I hear the physical + side of things touched upon. I think this is partly due to the + amount of exercise we took. When picturing my childhood I always + see myself racing about, jumping walls, climbing trees. In France + and Italy I have been struck by the greater sedateness of + Continental children. Our idea of naughtiness consisted chiefly + in having suppers in our bedrooms and sliding down the banisters + after being sent to bed. The first gratified our natural + appetite, while the second supplied the necessary thrill in the + fear of being caught. + + "I made no violent friendships with the other girls, but I became + much attached to the French governess. She was 30, and a born + teacher, very strict with all of us, and doubly so with me for + fear of showing favoritism. But she was never unjust, and I was + rather proud of her severity and took a certain pleasure in being + punished by her, the punishment always taking the form of + learning by heart, which I rather liked doing. So I had my + thrill, excitement, I don't quite know what to call it, without + any very great inconvenience to myself. Just before we left + school the sexual instinct began to show itself in enthusiasm for + art with a capital A, Ouida's novels being mainly responsible. My + sister and I agreed that we would spend our lives traveling about + France, Italy, and the Continent, generally _a la Tricotrin_, + with a violin in one pocket and an Atravante Dante in the other. + To do this satisfactorily to ourselves we must be artists, and I + resolved to go in for music and become a second Liszt. When my + father offered to take us to Italy, the artist's Mecca, for a + couple of years, we were wild with delight. We went, and + disillusionment began. It may perhaps seem absurd, but we + suffered acutely that first summer. Our villa was quite on the + beach, the lowest of its flight of steps being washed by the + Mediterranean. At the back were grounds which seemed a paradise. + Long alleys covered over with vines and carpeted with long grass + and poppies, grassy slopes dotted with olives and ilex, roses + everywhere, and almost every flower in profusion, with, at night, + the fireflies and the heavy scents of syringa and orange + blossoms. In the midst of every possible excitement to the senses + there was one thing wanting, and we did not know what that was. + + "We attributed our restlessness and dissatisfaction to the slow + progress in our artistic education, and consoled ourselves by + thinking when once we had mastered the technical difficulties we + should feel all right. And of course we did derive a very real + pleasure from all the beauties of art and nature with which Italy + abounds. + + "It seems to me, however, that the art craze is one of the modern + phases of woman's sexual life. When we were in Italy the great + centers of the country were simply overrun with girls studying + art, most of whom had very little talent, but who had mistaken + the restlessness due to the first awakening of the sexual + instinct for the divine flame of genius. In our case it did not + matter, as we were not dependent upon our own exertions. But it + must have been terribly hard for girls who had burned their boats + and chosen art as a career, to have added to the repression of + their natural desires the bitterness of knowing that in their + chosen walk of life they were failures. The results as far as + work goes might not be so bad if the passions, as in men, were + occasionally gratified. It is the constant drudgery combined with + the disappointment and finding that art alone does not satisfy + which is so paralyzing. Besides, sexual gratification is always + followed by exaltation of the mental faculties, with, in my + experience, no depressing reaction such as follows pleasure + excited by mental causes alone. + + "At one time when living at the villa I met a man about 45, who + took rather a fancy to me. I mention this because it woke me up; + no emotion was excited, but I realized for the first time (I must + have been nearly 20) that I was no longer a child, and that a + man could think of me in connection with love. It was only after + this, and not immediately after, either, that men's society began + to have an interest for me, and that I began to think a man's + love would be a pleasant thing to possess, after all. + + "The sexual instinct, at any rate as regards consciousness, thus + developed slowly and in what I believe to be a very usual + sequence: religion, admiration for an older woman, and art. I am + not sure that I have made quite enough of the first, yet I do not + know that there is any more to say. There were very strong + physical feelings connected with all these which were identical + with those now connected with passion, but they were completely + satisfied by the mental idea which excited them. + + "The first time I can remember feeling keen physical pleasure was + when I was between 7 and 8 years old. I can't recollect the + cause, but I remember lying quite still in my little cot clasping + the iron rails at the top. It may be said that this is hardly + slow development, but I mean slow as regards (1) any connection + of the idea with a man or (2) any physical means of excitation. + + "I have laid stress on my desire for knowledge, as I think my + sexual feelings were affected by it. A great part of my feeling + for my mother was due to the stores of information she appeared + to possess. The omniscience of God was to me his most striking + attribute. My French teacher's capacity was her chief attraction. + When, as a girl, I thought of marriage, I desired a man who + 'could explain things to me.' One learns later to live one's + mental and sexual life separately to a great extent. But at 20 I + could not have done so; given the opportunity, I should have made + the mistake of Dorothea in _Middlemarch_. + + "I have spoken of the depressing after-effects of pleasure + brought about by a purely mental cause, but I do not think this + is the case in childhood and early youth. (Perhaps some women + feel no such depression afterward, and this may account for their + coldness in regard to men.) This may perhaps be accounted for by + the fact that it occurs much more rarely, and also it is perhaps + a natural process before the sexual organs fully develop, and so + not harmful. + + "I always find it difficult in expressing the different degrees + of physical excitement even to myself, though I know exactly what + I felt. As a child, from the time of the early experience already + mentioned (about the age of 7 or 8), and as a young girl, the + second stage (secretion of mucus) was always reached. The amount + of secretion has always been excessive, but at first secretion + only lasted a short time; later it began to last for several + hours, or even sometimes the whole night, if the natural + gratification has been withheld for a long time (say, three + months). I do not remember ever feeling the third stage (complete + orgasm) until I saw the first man I fancied I cared for. I do not + think that mental causes alone have ever produced more than the + first two stages (general diffuse excitement and secretion). I + have sometimes wondered whether I could produce the third + mechanically, but I have a curious unreasonable repugnance to + trying the experiment; it would seem to materialize it too much. + As a child and a girl I was contented to arrive at the second + stage, possibly because I did not realize that there was any + other, and perhaps this is why I have experienced no evil + results. + + "In dreams the third stage seems to come suddenly without any + leading up to it, either mental or physical, of which I am + conscious. I do not, however, remember having any such dreams + before I was engaged. They came at a later period; even then, + when great pleasure was experienced, it came, as a rule, suddenly + and sharply, with no dreams leading up to it. The dreams + generally take a sad form (an Evangeline and Gabriel business), + where one vainly seeks the person who eludes one. I have, + however, sometimes had pleasurable dreams of men who were quite + indifferent to me and of whom I never thought when awake. The + impression on waking is so strong one could almost fancy one's + self really in love with them. I can quite understand falling in + love with a person by dreaming of him in this way. + + "The first time I remember experiencing the third stage in waking + moments was at a picnic, when the man, to whom I have before + referred as the first that I fancied I cared for, leaned against + me accidentally in passing a plate or dish; but I was already in + a violent state of excitement at being with him. There was no + possibility of anything between us, as he was married. If he + guessed my feelings, they were never admitted, as I did my best + to hide them. I never experienced this, except at the touch of + some one I loved. (I think the saying about the woman 'desiring + the desire of the man' is just about as true as most epigrams. It + is the man's personality alone which affects me. His feelings + toward me are of--I was going to say--indifference, but at any + rate quite secondary importance, and the gratification of my own + vanity counts as nothing in such relations.) + + "As a rule, to reach even the second stage the exciting ideas + must be associated with some particular person, except in the + case of a story, where one identifies one's self with one of the + characters. In childhood and early youth it was, in the case of + religion, the idea of God and the presence and the personality of + God which aroused my feelings and always seemed very vivid to me. + In the case of my governess, my feelings were aroused in exactly + the same way as later they would be by one's lover. In the art + craze I am rather vague as to how it came about, but I think, as + a rule, there was rather a craving for pleasure than pleasure + itself. I do not remember ever thinking much about the physical + feeling. It seemed as natural that a pleasant emotion should + produce pleasant physical effects as that a painful one should + cause tears. As a child, one takes so much for granted, and later + on my mind was so much occupied with worrying about the truth of + religion that I hardly thought enough about anything else to + analyze it carefully. + + "I may summarize my own feelings thus: First, exciting ideas + alone produce, as a rule, merely the first stage of sexual + excitement. Second, the same ideas connected with a particular + person will produce the second stage. Third, the same may be said + of the presence of the beloved person. Fourth, actual contact + appears necessary for the third stage. If the first stage only be + reached, the sensation is not pleasurable in reality, or would + not be but for its association. If produced, as I have sometimes + found it to be, by a sense of mental incapacity, it is distinctly + disagreeable, especially if one feels that the energy which might + have been used in coping with the difficulty is being thus + dissipated. If it be produced, as it may be, as the result of + physical or mental restraint, it is also unpleasant unless the + restraint were put upon one by a person one loves. Then, however, + the second stage would probably be reached, but this would depend + a good deal on one's mood. If the first stage only were reached, + I think it would be disagreeable; it would mean a conflict + between one's will and sexual feeling. Perhaps women who feel + actual repugnance to the sexual act with a man they love have + never gone beyond the first stage, when their dislike to it would + be quite intelligible to me. + + "Some time after the life in Italy had come to an end I became + engaged. There was considerable difficulty in the way of + marriage, but we saw a good deal of each other. My _fiance_ often + dined with us, and we met every day. The result of seeing him so + frequently was that I was kept in a constant state of strong, but + suppressed, sexual excitement. This was particularly the case + when we met in the evening and wandered about the moonlit garden + together. When this had gone on about three months I began to + experience a sense of discomfort after each of his visits. The + abdomen seemed to swell with a feeling of fullness and + congestion; but, though these sensations were closely connected + with the physical excitement, they were not sufficiently painful + to cause me any alarm or make me endeavor to avoid their + pleasurable cause. The symptoms got worse, however, and no longer + passed off quickly as at first. The swelling increased; + considerable pain and a dragged-down sensation resulted the + moment I tried to walk even a short distance. I was troubled + with constant indigestion, weight in the chest, pain in the head + and eyes, and continual slight diarrhea. This went on for about + nine months, and then my _fiance_ was called away from the + neighborhood. After his departure I got a trifle better, but the + symptoms remained, though in less acute form. A few months later + the engagement was broken off, and for some weeks I was severely + ill with influenza and was on my back for several weeks. When I + could get about a little, though very weak, all the swelling was + gone, but pain returned whenever I tried to walk or stand for + long. The indigestion and diarrhea were also very troublesome. I + was treated for both by a physician, but without success. Next + year I became engaged to my husband and was shortly after + married. The indigestion and diarrhea disappeared soon after. The + pain and dragging feeling in the abdomen bothered me much in + walking or any kind of exercise. One day I came across a medical + work, _The Elements of Social Science_, in which I found + descriptions of symptoms like those I suffered from ascribed to + uterine disease. I again applied to a doctor, telling him I + thought there was displacement and possibly congestion. He + confirmed my opinion and told me to wear a pessary. He ascribed + the displacement to the relaxing climate, and said he did not + think I should ever get quite right again. After the pessary had + been placed in position every trace of pain, etc., left me. A + year later I thought I would try and do without the pessary, and + to my great satisfaction none of the old trials came back after + its removal, in spite of much trouble, anxiety, sick nursing, and + fatigue. I attribute the disorder entirely to violent sexual + excitement which was not permitted its natural gratification and + relief. + + "I have reason to believe that suppression acts very injuriously + on a woman's mental capacity. When excitement is naturally + relieved the mind turns of its own accord to another subject, but + when suppressed it is unable to do this. Personally, in the + latter event, I find the greatest difficulty in concentrating my + thoughts, and mental effort becomes painful. Other women have + complained to me of the same difficulty. I have tried mechanical + mental work, such as solving arithmetical or algebraic problems, + but it does no good; in fact, it seems only to increase the + excitement. (I may remark here that my feelings are always very + strong not only before and after the monthly period, but also + during the time itself; very unfortunately, as, of course, they + cannot then be gratified. This only applies to desire from + within, as I am strongly susceptible to influences from without + at any time.) There seems nothing to be done but to bow to the + storm till it passes over. Anything I do during the time it + lasts, even household work, is badly done. The brain seems to + become addled for the time being, while after gratification of + desire it seems to attain an additional quickness and cleverness. + Perhaps this cause contributes to the small amount of + intellectual and artistic work done by women, admitting their + natural inferiority to men in artistic impulse. A woman whose + passions are satisfied generally has her strength sapped by + maternity, while her attention is drawn from abstract ideas to + her children." + + + HISTORY III.--B. states that his first sexual thoughts and acts + were curiously connected with whipping. At 12 he and another boy + used to beat each other with a cricket bat upon the bare nates, + and afterward indulge in mutual masturbation. He cannot remember + the beginning of his sexual speculation as a child, nor how he + learned masturbation. When he was 13 he used to discuss erotic + matters with a schoolfellow who was in the habit of engaging in + vulvar intercourse with a girl of his own age. The intercourse + was practised on the way home from school, and in a standing + posture. B. embraced the girl in the same way. He is not + interested in the psychological aspects of the sexual emotion. + Although his sex passion was early kindled, he never had commerce + with prostitutes. He thinks that his youthful experiences had no + ill effect upon him morally, mentally, or physically. He + practised masturbation in moderation till he married, at the age + of 31. + + + HISTORY IV.--"I can remember" (writes the subject) "trotting away + as a youngster about 5 with another boy to 'see a girl's legs'; + the idea emanated from the other boy, but I was vaguely + interested. How or where we were going to see the object in + question I do not remember nor anything further than the + intention. When 6 or 7 I remember being put to bed with the nurse + girl and feeling her bare arm with undoubted sexual excitement; I + remember, too, gradually feeling along the arm very cautiously, + fearing the girl would wake and being bitterly disappointed to + find it was merely the arm. I am almost certain I had then no + idea of sex, but the disappointment was actual. + + "These are the only early experiences of the sort I can remember. + When about 9 I had others. On the coast of the north of England, + which had then very few visitors and seemed to me very remote, I + lived in a farm-house and used to assist the girls of the farm in + looking after young cattle. These girls certainly instilled + sexual ideas, though I did not realize them with precision. They + used to talk about things a good many of which, I can now see, I + did not then understand as they did. I liked to see these girls + wading with their dresses tucked up. About this time I fell + passionately in love with a girl cousin, but do not remember + having any sensual ideas in regard to her. I cannot say that + these early experiences had any influence on my later sexual + development so far as I am consciously aware. I have always + remembered them vaguely, never with sexual excitement. + + "Sexual dreams took place first at about the age of 13; there was + then emission and sensation in sleep. These were, however, not + much associated with distinctly sexual dreams. All that I recall + after them was the sensation, which, however, I did not even then + absolutely localize. Masturbation was undoubtedly the direct + result of these dreams. It was tried at first tentatively, out of + curiosity to determine if the sensation of the dream could be so + reproduced. Sexual dreams, such as I have described, occurred + frequently, although I cannot say at what interval. I have never + experienced the slightest attraction for the same sex." + + + HISTORY V.--"My maternal grandfather" (writes the subject of this + history) "was a small farmer who kept a few beagles and + greyhounds for hare-hunting. He had three daughters, one of whom + became my mother. One of his sporting companions, a doctor of + profligate habits and a drunkard, seduced my mother at the age of + 20. When her condition was discovered she had to flee from the + violence of her father, and I was born some distance from her + home. After my grandfather's death I was reared by my + grandmother, and saw nothing of my mother until I was nearly 16; + she had left the country in shame and disgrace. + + "I believe that in my heredity the transmission comes chiefly + from my mother, who is now 58 years old. Although her life has + been blameless in every particular since her youthful + indiscretion, she has never got over it. I feel in my character a + reflection of her overstrung condition during pregnancy. + + "I can distinctly remember from the age of 9 years, and am sure + that I had no sexual feelings before the age of 13, though always + in the company of girls. I had many boyish passions for girls, + always older than myself, but these were never accompanied by + sexual desires. I deified all my sweethearts, and was satisfied + if I got a flower, a handkerchief, or even a shred of clothing of + my inamorata for the time being. These things gave me a strange + idealistic emotion, but caused no sexual desire or erection. + + "At 13 a 26-year-old sister of a boy companion once sat down on a + sheaf of corn so as to expose the mons veneris and enticed me to + copulate. There was slight erection, and after the act had been + continued some time a pleasurable sensation of ejaculation, but + without true emission. I had frequent relations with this woman + after that. + + "About this time the farm servant of a neighbor taught me + masturbation. The mistress of the farm, a thin, willowy, dark + woman, the mother of several children, treated me with such + familiarity as once to urinate in my presence, so that I saw her + very hirsute mons veneris. From that moment I conceived a great + passion for her, and used to tremble as soon as I saw her. I had + become well developed and virile, but, though I think she was a + lustful woman, I never ventured to touch her. I found an extreme + ecstasy in masturbating while gazing upon some article of her + clothing. This gave me much greater sexual pleasure than actual + connection with the ever-willing sister of my schoolfellow. I + think I loved the married woman best because the mons veneris was + more covered with hair. + + "This has always had a peculiar attraction for me. Later, when + accosted by prostitutes, I never would go with them unless I was + assured the mons veneris was very hirsute. Never much addicted to + masturbation, I derived no great enjoyment therefrom unless I had + hair or part of the clothing of the woman with whom I was + indulging in psychic coitus. + + "At 16 I left school and went to a large city to learn a + business. At this time the sexual appetite was very strong. I + frequently had intercourse with three women in one evening. + + "I have had but few lascivious dreams. In these the phantom + partner was almost invariably a dead woman. (When about 8 I had + seen the dead body of an aunt who died at 24.) + + "When 20 I went to London and took all the pleasure which came my + way. I cared only for normal coitus. Offers of another type + created disgust. I once allowed a woman to exhaust me sexually + orally, but felt degraded thereby. Women with whom I had become + very intimate often urged me to _cunnilingus_, but I could not do + it. I have practised intermammary coitus a very few times. + + "At 26 I married a pure, gentle woman, after having for ten + months before marriage led a life of celibacy. My wife died when + I was 30, and for about eight months I lived a celibate life. + Lascivious dreams sometimes occurred, but I invariably awoke + before ejaculation. Eventually I gave way to the cravings of my + strong sexual nature, but never wished for anything out of the + usual except intercourse from behind. A woman with marked + development of the nates has great attraction for me. Solitary + masturbation has for some time ceased, but a nude woman in the + act of masturbation with her back to me gives me great pleasure. + I am as strong sexually at 38 as I was at 20, only I never want + women unless I am brought into actual contact with them and they + are hairy and have large pelvic development. I am in excellent + health. Genitals are well developed, and I am clothed with hair + from the chin to the genitals. My skull is dolichocephalic. I am + violent and tenacious in temper, high-strung, and rapid in + thought and action. My digestion is good, but I have a tendency + to constipation. Occasionally I have a twinge of pain below the + occipital region. + + "My early views of women have changed; I no longer deify them, + though I study them. I have known very sensual women living at + home in respectable middle-class society. One, in particular, a + girl of 18, after coitus used to excite me lingually. I have had + a sweetheart who remained _virgo intacta_. Had I seduced her, as + I could have done, I should have lost all interest in her. I + could never bear the presence of naked men, and would never go to + a public swimming bath for that reason. I regard myself as a man + of abnormally strong, but, on the whole, healthy and wholesome, + sexual feelings. As a rule, I have coitus twice or oftener in one + week and I practise withdrawal. I am a total abstainer, and never + could embrace a woman who smelled of drink." + + HISTORY VI.--The writer of the following is a man of letters, + married. "Quite early I remember a strange and romantic interest + in the feminine. Certainly before I was 9 I had a strong + affection for a little girl playmate; our family lost sight of + hers, and I saw and heard nothing of her for sixteen years; then, + hearing she was coming to town, I experienced quite a flutter of + heart, so strong had been the impression caused at even the early + age of our acquaintance. Not that I mean to say I never wavered + in between! Through the whole of my boyhood I remember persistent + romantic interests in girls and women, whose smooth, fair faces + and sweet voices exercised ever a subtle attraction over me. + Before I was 12 I had picked out my 'future wife' a dozen times + at least! (A different one each time of course!) Curiosity as to + the physical detail of sex and birth was singularly absent. + Possibly this was partly due to the fact that the only younger + member of our family was born when I was but 4 years old. Grave, + shy, and reserved, I was never taken into the counsels of + prurient schoolmates. I was unaware that there was such + discussion between them--though it is, I suppose, not probable + that our school was exempt. I was a great reader, and when about + 12 or 13 I came across a reference to an illegitimate child which + puzzled me. Ere long, however, in my random and extensive reading + I hit on a book that touched on phallicism, and I learned that + there were male and female organs of generation. I had neither + shame nor curiosity; I jumped to the conclusion that during close + caresses somehow a subtle aroma arose from the man to fertilize + the woman; I left the subject at this, satisfied, and had no + inkling of the real intimacy of the embrace. + + "About 14, much interested in Bradlaugh, I bought both the + Knowlton pamphlet and Mrs. Besant's population book. I found the + physical details in scientific language so dull that I could not + peruse them. By reading the argumentative passages I learned that + _somehow_ (I knew not how) children could be produced or not + produced as desired; and in this stage of the matter it seemed + to me so admirable that it should be so that I wondered why there + should be cavil. + + "About this age my elder brother believed it to be his duty to + tell me the secrets of sex; I remember his talking to me, while + I, bored and uninterested, thought of something else. When he + finished I had heard nothing. Remember, I felt no shame on the + matter--none at all. I was simply bored. This I attribute to two + things: first, my preponderating interest in the romantic side of + things; secondly (and this bears with it a strong moral), _the + feeling that the knowledge lay always within my grasp kept me + from that curiosity which so oft consumes those who think it is + hidden away from them_. + + "The changes of puberty came naturally and without startling me. + Even the fact of emissions--which took place during sleep at + intervals, unaccompanied by dreams or by any physical prostration + afterward--has left on my memory no recollection of surprise; I + knew it to be somehow connected with generation, but I had no + physical trouble, and I am quite sure I did not bother further + about it. The best possible proof of this lies in the fact that + my memory is a blank on the matter. At the age of 21 (I take this + from a diary, so I know it is correct) I was still ignorant as to + intrinsic fact. Then I pulled myself together and felt it was + really time I learned the actual details of the matter. I went to + a clever friend of mine and asked him to tell me all about it. He + expressed himself astounded at my not knowing; and he had very + great shyness about telling me. In fact, I had to drag facts out + of him by a real cross-examination, during which he persistently + marveled at my ignorance. Though he had a great deal of false + shame about the matter, I had none at all. His revelations + considerably surprised me, because I had no idea that there was + actual intromission. When I came to reflect on what I had learned + the fact of this close physical intimacy appealed to me as being + quite poetic and beautiful between two lovers; and I have had no + reason since to change my opinion. + + "_Summary._--1. Romantic interest in girls and women commencing + early and remaining persistently. + + "2. Knowledge before puberty of the fact that this interest was + based on the all-important process of reproduction. + + "3. Absence of further physical curiosity even at puberty itself. + + "4. Knowledge ultimately acquired without shock. + + "The physical in sex has never been any bother to me, neither + have I bothered about it. I have recognized it, frankly, and + don't see why I shouldn't, but my unashamed recognition has + probably been because the merely physical is less absorbing to me + than to most. Mental and emotional interest in passion has + absorbed me greatly, but the merely physical has sunk into what + I call its natural place of subordination. Nature is kind. It is + our 'conspiracy of silence' which tends to emphasize physical + detail." + + + HISTORY VII.--G.D., who is a doctor and a man of science, writes: + "There is a strong history of gout on the paternal side. No + history of alcohol, tubercle, brain trouble, or of the + arthropathies. There is some reason to believe that two of my + maternal aunts were sexually frigid, and perhaps this was true to + a less extent of my mother, who had a contracted pelvis, + necessitating the induction of labor at the eighth month of + pregnancy. + + "About the age of 7 a German nursery governess, B., took charge + of me, and I soon became devoted to her. I was then a delicate + child, and used to suffer frequently from nightmare, waking up + screaming and covered with sweat. When this happened, B. would + sometimes take me into her bed and soothe me with kisses, etc. + These I returned, and can remember that I was particularly fond + of kissing her breasts. + + "About this time a girl cousin, A., about a year older than + myself, was one of my most frequent playmates. I endeavored to + monopolize her company and attention, and on this account often + came to blows with C., a cousin rather younger than myself, who + has since told me that he was then 'in love' with A. and + 'jealous' of me. I believe I was really jealous and in love at + the time, but cannot remember that anything in the nature of + caresses took place between A. and myself. + + "Some time later, probably when I was about 9, something led up + to B. saying that she was not built like I was, that she had no + penis, etc. (I cannot remember my nursery term for penis.) I was + incredulous, and demanded to be allowed to see if it was true; + this was refused, and I made many plans to gratify my curiosity, + such as slipping into her room when she was dressing, tipping up + the chair she was sitting in, and trying to suddenly thrust my + hand up under her skirts. I did not succeed in finding out, but + have since thought that, although she did not allow me to attain + the object of my efforts, the later game caused her pleasurable + sensations. I regard these efforts as being prompted purely by + curiosity; I had no feelings of warmth or irritations of the + genitals, and I certainly never manipulated them, nor was I, as + far as I can judge, an unusually prurient small boy. B. left when + I was about 10, when I went to a preparatory school. + + "At 121/2 I was sent to a public school, and was then told by my + father the chief facts of sex and warned to avoid masturbation. + My first wet dream took place when I was 14. Rather before this I + had begun to suffer with severe intermittent testicular neuralgia + which practically defied all treatment and continued on and off + for four or five years, the attacks gradually becoming fewer and + less severe. + + "When 15, circumstances compelled me to leave school and to live + for two years at the seaside with no companions of my own age. I + had, however, the run of a well-stocked library, and fished and + collected insects energetically. + + "At 16 I made love to the trained nurse attending my mother, but, + owing more, I think, to my timidity than to the austerity of her + virtue, got no further than kissing. About this time wet dreams + became inconveniently frequent; they would occur three or four + times weekly, and resisted the stock remedies. At 17 I was + advised to try connection. This I did, and found but little + pleasure in the act, there being a strong esthetic objection to + the 'love that keeps awake for lure.' + + "About this time I found in the United States Pharmacopoeia a + remedy for my emissions, which have, however, always remained + rather more frequent than those of the average individual, + judging from the experience of my friends. Emissions are + generally accompanied by lascivious dreams, but at times take + place when I dream that I am hurrying to catch a train, or to + micturate against time. + + "I have of late years (not noticed till after 20) observed that + the dream accompanying emission is shorter; so that, whereas up + to, say, 21 I generally performed the whole physiological act + with my dream-charmer, I now almost invariably emit and awake + before intromission has taken place. There has been no + alternation comparable to this in the performance of the act + while I am awake. + + "As regards my physique I should mention that all my reflexes are + very brisk, though I am only slightly ticklish in the ordinary + sense of the term. I sweat easily and am very shy, not only with + women, but with any strangers. I have, however, trained myself + not to show this. About averagely passionate, I should say, and + extremely critical where women are concerned, the latter quality + often keeping me chaste for months at a time." + + + HISTORY VIII.--"When I was about 8 years old" (states the lady + who is the subject of the present observation) "I remember that, + with several other children, we used to play in an old garden at + being father and mother, unfastening our drawers and bringing the + sexual parts together, as we imagined married people to do, but + no sexual feelings were aroused, nor did the boys have + erections." When about 10 years old she became conscious of a + pleasurable sensation associated with the smell of leather, which + has ever since persisted. At that age she was sometimes left to + wait in the office of a wholesale business house full of + leather-bound ledgers. She did not then notice the sensation + particularly, and was certainly not conscious of any connection + with sexual emotion. Menstruation was established at 131/2 years. + Distinct sexual feelings were first observed a few months later. + "The first feelings of love which I ever felt were at the age of + 14 for a nice, manly boy of my own age, who often came to our + house. He liked me, but was not in love with me. It was very + seldom that he would sit by me and hold my hand, as I wished him. + This went on till I was about 17, when he went to the university. + After his first term he came back and was then attracted to me; + but, though I loved him very much, I was too proud to show it. + When he tried to kiss me, I resisted, though I longed for it. + Thinking I was greatly offended, he apologized, which only made + me angry. All these years I was worshiping at his shrine and + mixed him up with all my ideas of life." Whenever she was near + him she experienced physical sensations, with moistening of the + vulva. This continued till she was about 20, but the object of + these emotions never again attempted any advances. + + At 19 she became engaged to someone else. At the beginning she + was physically indifferent to her lover, but when he first kissed + her she became greatly excited. The engagement, however, was soon + broken off from absence of strong affection on either side and + chiefly, it would seem, from the cooling of the lover's ardor. + She thinks he would have been more strongly attached to her if + she had been colder to him, or pretended to be, instead of + responding with simplicity and frankness. + + During the next few years little occurred. She was working hard, + and her amusements would mostly, she says, be regarded as rather + childish. She was extremely fond of dancing, and she was always + pleased when anyone paid her attention. She was frequently + conscious of sexual feelings, sometimes tormented by them, and + she regarded this as something to be ashamed of. The constant + longing for love was affected little or not at all by hard work. + "At about this time I was very fond of abandoning myself to + day-dreams. I was very glad if I could get everyone out of the + house and lie on an easy chair or the bed. I liked especially to + read poetry, all the more if I did not quite understand it. This + would lead me on to all sorts of dreams of love, which, however, + never went beyond the preliminaries of actual love--as that was + all I then knew of love." The only climax to her dream of love + was founded on a piece of information volunteered by a married + woman many years earlier, when she was about 12. This + lady--evidently agreeing with Rousseau (who in _Emile_ commended + the mother's reply to the child's query whence babies come, "Les + femmes les pissent, mon enfant, avec des grands douleurs") that + the unknown should first be explained to the young in terms of + the known--told her that the husband micturated into the wife. + She therefore used to imagine a lover who would bear her away + into a forest and do this on her as she lay at the foot of a + tree. (At a later date she accidentally discovered that a full + bladder tended to enhance sexual feelings, and occasionally + resorted to this physical measure of heightening excitement.) All + the physical sensations of sexual desire were called out by these + day-dreams, with abundant secretion, but never the orgasm. Her + reveries never led to masturbation or to allied manifestations, + which have never taken place. Such a method of relief has, + indeed, never offered any temptation to her and she doubts even + its possibility in her case. (At a later period of life, however, + at the age of 31, masturbation began and was practised at + intervals.) At the same time she remarks that, while no orgasm + (of which, indeed, she was then ignorant) ever occurred, the + sexual excitement produced by the day-dreams was sufficiently + great to cause a feeling of relief afterward. These day-dreams + were the only way in which the sexual erethism was discharged. + She cannot recall having erotic dreams or any sexual + manifestations during sleep. + + Spontaneous sexual excitement was present a few days before + menstruation, and fairly marked during and immediately after the + period. It also tended to recur in the middle of the + intermenstrual period. + + The pleasurable sensation connected with the smell of leather + became more marked as she approached adult age. It was especially + pronounced about the age of 24, and the sexual emotion it + produced (with moisture of the vulva) was then clearly conscious. + No other odor produced this effect in such a marked degree. It + was often associated with leather bags, but not with boots, + though on rubbing the leather of shoes she found that this odor + was given out. She cannot account for its origin, and does not + connect any association with it. It never affected her conduct or + led to fetichistic habits. + + Some other odors affect her in the same way, though not to the + same degree as leather. This is more especially the case with + some flowers, especially white flowers with heavy odors, like + gardenias. Many flowers, on the other hand, like primroses, seem + rather opposed to sex effect, too fresh, though stimulating to + the mind. Some artificial scents tend to produce sexual effects + also. Personal odors have no influence of this kind. (At a later + period the sexual influence of personal odors was occasionally + experienced, but the present history deals only with the period + before marriage.) + + She believes that most beautiful things, however unconnected with + sex, have a tendency to produce distinctively sexual feelings in + a faint degree, although sometimes more marked, with secretion. + She has, however, never experienced homosexual feeling, and, on + first consideration, was inclined to believe that the sight of a + beautiful woman had no sexual effect on her, though she could + quite understand such an effect. Subsequently, on recalling as + well as observing her experiences more carefully, she found that + a lovely woman's face and figure (especially on one occasion the + very graceful figure of a beautiful fairy in a ballet) produced + distinct sexual sensations (with mucous emission). Music, + however, has strongly emotional effects upon her, and she cannot + recall that she ever felt any equally powerful influence of this + kind in the absence of music. + + Looking back on the development of her feelings she finds that, + though in some respects they may have been slow, they were + simple, natural, spontaneous, and correspond to "the dawning and + progress which go on in the development of every girl. While it + is going on in actual fact, the girl does not know or bother + herself about trying to understand it. Afterward it seems quite + clear and simple. Full occupation of the brain, and hands too, + while it does not do away with desire, is a great help and + safeguard to a growing girl, when combined with proper + information about herself and her relation to man the animal, so + that she may realize where she is and how to choose the right + man--though under the best conditions failure may occur." + + HISTORY IX.--The subject belongs to a large family having some + neurotic members; she spent her early life on a large farm. She + is vigorous and energetic, has intellectual tastes, and is + accustomed to think for herself, from unconventional standpoints, + on many subjects. Her parents were very religious, and not, she + thinks, of sensual temperament. Her own early life was free from + associations of a sexual character, and she can recall little + that now seems to be significant in this respect. She remembers + that in childhood and for some time later she believed that + children were born through the navel. Her activities went chiefly + into humanitarian and utopian directions, and she cherished ideas + of a large, healthy, free life, untrammeled by civilization. She + regards herself as very passionate, but her sexual emotions + appear to have developed very slowly and have been somewhat + intellectualized. After reaching adult life she has formed + several successive relationships with men to whom she has been + attracted by affinity in temperament, in intellectual views, and + in tastes. These relationships have usually been followed by some + degree of disillusion, and so have been dissolved. She does not + believe in legal marriage, though under fitting circumstances she + would much like to have a child. + + She never masturbated until the age of 27. At that time a married + friend told her that such a thing could be done. She found it + gave her decided pleasure, indeed, more than coitus had ever + given her except with one man. She has never practised it to + excess, only at rare intervals, and is of the opinion that it is + decidedly beneficial when thus moderately indulged in. She has + sometimes found, for instance, that, after the mental excitement + produced by delivering a lecture, sleep would be impossible if + masturbation were not resorted to as a sedative to relieve the + tension. + + Spontaneous sexual excitement is strongest just before the + monthly period. + + Definite sexual dreams and sexual excitement during sleep have + not occurred except possibly on one or two occasions. + + She has from girlhood experienced erotic day-dreams, imagining + love-stories of which she herself was the heroine; the climax of + these stories has developed with her own developing knowledge of + sexual matters. + + She is not inverted, and has never been in love with a woman. She + finds, however, that a beautiful woman is distinctly a sexual + excitation, calling out definite physical manifestations of + sexual emotion. She explains this by saying that she thinks she + instinctively puts herself in the place of a man and feels as it + seems to her a man would feel. + + She finds that music excites the sexual emotions, as well as many + scents, whether of flowers, the personal odor of the beloved + person, or artificial perfumes. + + HISTORY X.--The subject is of German extraction on both sides. + The father is of marked intellectual tastes, as also is she + herself. There is no unhealthy strain in the family so far as she + is aware, though they all have very strong passions. She is well + developed, healthy, vigorous, and athletic, any trouble to which + she is subject being mainly due to overwork. + + Looking back on her childhood, she can now see various sexual + manifestations occurring at a period when she was quite ignorant + of sex matters. "The very first," she writes, "was at the age of + 6. I remember once sitting astride a banister while my parents + were waiting for me outside. I distinctly remember a pleasurable + sensation--probably in part due to a physical feeling--in the + thought of staying there when I knew I ought to have run out to + them. From that year till the age of 10 I simply reveled in the + idea of being tortured. I went gladly to bed every night to + imagine myself a slave, chained, beaten, made to carry loads and + do ignominious work. One of my imaginings, I remember, was that I + was chained to a moldering skeleton." As she grew older these + fancies were discontinued. At the same time there was a trace of + sadistic tendency: "I used to frighten and tease a young child, + driven to it by an irresistible impulse, and experiencing a + certain pleasurable feeling in so doing. But this, I am glad to + say, was rare, as I hate all cruelty." + + One of her favorite imaginings as a child was that she was a boy, + and especially that she was a knight rescuing damsels in + distress. She was not fond of girls' occupations, and has always + had a sort of chivalrous feeling toward women. + + "When I first heard of the sexual act," she writes, "it appeared + to me so absurd that I took little notice. About the age of 10 I + discussed it a good deal with other girls, and we used to play + childishly indecent games--out of pure mischief and not from any + definite physical feeling." + + About a year after menstruation was established she accidentally + discovered the act of masturbation by leaning over a table. "I + discovered it naturally; no one taught me; and the very + naturalness of the impulse that led me to it often made me in + later years question the harmfulness." Both her sisters + masturbated from a very early age, but not, to her knowledge, her + brother. The practice of masturbation was continued. "For many + years, imbued with the old ideas of morality, I struggled against + it in vain. The sight of animals copulating, the perusal of + various books (Shakespeare, Rabelais, Gautier's _Mademoiselle de + Maupin_, etc.), the sight of the nude in some Bacchanalian + pictures (such as Rubens's), all aroused passion. Coexistent with + this--perhaps (though I doubt it) due to it--arose a disgust for + normal intercourse. I fell in love and enjoyed kisses, etc., but + the mere thought of anything beyond disgusted me. Had my lover + suggested such a thing I would have lost all love for him. But + all this time I went on masturbating, though as seldom as + possible and without thought of my lover. Love was to me a thing + ideal and quite apart from lust, and I still think that it is + false to try to connect the two. I fear that even now, if I fell + in love, sexual intercourse would break the charm. At the age of + 18 I came across Tolstoy's _Kreutzer Sonata_ and was overjoyed to + find all I had thought written down there. Gradually, through + seeing a friend happily married, I have grown to a more normal + view of things. I am very critical of men and have never met one + liberal-minded and just enough to please me. Perhaps if I did I + might take a perfectly healthy view of things." + + In course of time various devices had been adopted to heighten + sexual excitement when indulging in masturbation. Thus, for + instance, she found that the effects of sexual excitement are + increased by keeping the bladder full. But the chief method which + she had devised for heightening and prolonging the preliminary + excitement consisted in wearing tight stays (as a rule, she wears + loose stays) and in painting her face. She cannot herself explain + this. Self-excitement is completed by friction, or sometimes by + the introduction of a piece of wood into the vagina. She finds + that, the more frequently she masturbates, the more easily she is + excited. Spontaneous sexual feeling is strongest before and after + the menstrual period; not so much so during the periods. + + There are various faint traces of homosexuality, it may be + gathered, in the history of this subject's sexual development. + Recently these have come to a climax in the formation of a + homosexual relationship with a girl friend. This relationship has + given her great pleasure and satisfaction. She does not, however, + regard herself as being a really inverted person. + + There have been vivid sexual dreams from about 17 (apparently + about the period of the relationship with the lover). These + dreams have not, however, had special reference to persons of + either sex. + + Apart from the influence of books and pictures already mentioned, + she remarks that she is sexually affected by the personal odor of + a beloved person, but is not consciously affected by any other + odors. + + + HISTORY XI.--Widower, aged 40 years. Surgeon. "My experience of + sexual matters began early. When I was about 10 years of age a + boy friend who was staying with us told me that his sister made + him uncover his person, with which she played and encouraged him + to do the same for her. He said it was great fun, and suggested + that we should take two of my sisters into an old barn and repeat + his experience on them. This we did, and tried all we could to + have connection with them; they were nothing loath and did all + they could to help us, but nothing was effected and I experienced + no pleasure in it. + + "When I went back to school I attracted the attention of one of + the big boys who slept in the same room with me; he came into my + bed and began to play with my member, saying that it was the + usual thing to do and would give me pleasure. I did not feel any + pleasure, but I liked the attention, and rather enjoyed playing + with his member, which was of large size, and surrounded by thick + pubic hair. After I had played with him for some time I was + surprised at his having an emission of sticky matter. Afterward + he rubbed me again, saying that if I let him do it long enough he + would produce the same substance from me. This he failed to do, + however, though he rubbed me long and frequently, on that and + many other occasions. I was very disappointed at not being able + to have an emission, and on every occasion that offered I + endeavored to excite myself to the extent of compassing this. I + used to ask to go out of school two or three times a day, and + retired to the closet, where I practised on myself most + diligently, but to no purpose, at that time, though I began to + have pleasurable emotions in the act. + + "When I went home for the holidays I took a great interest in one + of my father's maids, whose legs I felt as she ran upstairs one + day. I was in great fear that she would complain of what I had + done, but I was delighted to find that she did nothing of the + sort; on the contrary, she took to kissing and fondling me, + calling me her sweetheart and saying that I was a forward boy. + This encouraged me greatly, and I was not long in getting to + more intimate relations with her. She called me into her room one + day when we were alone in the house, she being in a half-dressed + condition, and put me on the bed and laid herself on me, kissing + me passionately on the mouth. She next unbuttoned my trousers and + fondled and kissed my member, and directed my hand to her + privates. I became very much excited and trembled violently, but + was able to do for her what she wanted in the way of masturbation + until she became wet. After this we had many meetings in which we + embraced and she let me introduce my member until she had + satisfied herself, though I was too young to have an emission. + + "On return to school I practised mutual masturbation with several + of my schoolfellows, and finally, at the age of 14 years, had my + first real emission. I was greatly pleased thereat, and, with + this and the growth of hair which began to show on my pubis, + began to feel myself quite a man. I loved lying in the arms of + another boy, pressing against his body, and fondling his person + and being fondled by him in return. We always finished up with + mutual masturbation. We never indulged in any unnatural + connections. + + "After leaving school I had no opportunity of indulging in + relations with my own sex, and, indeed, did not wish for such, as + I became a slave to the charms of the other sex, and passed most + of my time in either enjoying, or planning to enjoy, love + passages with them. + + "The sight of a woman's limbs or bust, especially if partly + hidden by pretty underclothing, and the more so if seen by + stealth, was sufficient to give a lustful feeling and a violent + erection, accompanied by palpitation of the heart and throbbing + in the head. + + "I had frequent coitus at the age of 17, as well as masturbating + regularly. I liked to perform masturbation on a girl, even more + than I liked having connection with her; and this was especially + so in the case of girls who had never had masturbation practised + on them before; I loved to see the look of surprised pleasure + appear on their faces as they felt the delightful and novel + sensation. + + "To gratify this desire I persuaded dozens of girls to allow me + to take liberties with them, and it would surprise you to learn + what a number of girls, many of them in good social position, + permitted me the liberty I desired, though the supply was never + equal to my demand. + + "With a view to enlarging my opportunities I took up the study of + medicine as a profession, and reveled in the chances it gave of + being on intimate sexual terms with many who would have been, + otherwise, out of my reach. + + "At the age of 25 I married the daughter of an officer, a + beautiful girl with a fully developed figure and an amorous + disposition. While engaged, we used to pass hours wrapped in each + other's arms, practising mutual masturbation, or I would kiss + her passionately on the mouth, introducing my tongue into her + mouth at intervals, with the invariable result that I had an + emission and she went off into sighs and shivers. After marriage + we practised all sorts of fancy coitus, _coitus reservatus_, + etc., and rarely passed twenty-four hours without two + conjunctions, until she got far on in the family way, and our + play had to cease for a while. + + "During this interval I went to stay at the house of an old + schoolfellow, who had been one of my lovers of days gone by. It + happened that on account of the number of guests staying in the + house the bed accommodation was somewhat scanty, and I agreed to + share my friend's bedroom. The sight of his naked body as he + undressed gave rise to lustful feelings in me; and when he had + turned out the light I stole across to his bed and got in beside + him. He made no objection, and we passed the night in mutual + masturbation and embraces, _coitus inter femora_, etc. I was + surprised to find how much I preferred this state of affairs to + coitus with my wife, and determined to enjoy the occasion to the + full. We passed a fortnight together in the above fashion, and, + though I afterward went back and did my duty by my wife, I never + took the same pleasure in her again, and when she died, five + years later, I felt no inclination to contract another marriage, + but devoted myself heart and soul to my old school-friend, with + whom I continued tender relations until his death by accident + last year. Since then I have lost all interest in life." + + "The patient," writes the well-known alienist to whom I am + indebted for the above history, "consulted me lately. I found him + a fairly healthy man to look at, suffering from some neurasthenia + and a tendency to melancholia. Generative organs large, one + testicle shows some wasting, pubic hair abundant, form of body + distinctly masculine; temperament neurotic. He improved under + treatment, and, after seeing me three times and writing out the + above history, came no more." + + + HISTORY XII.--Mrs. B., aged 32. Father's family normal; mother's + family clever, eccentric, somewhat neuropathic. She is herself + normal, good-looking, usually healthy, highly intelligent, and + with much practical ability, though at some periods of life, and + especially in childhood, she has shared to some extent in the + high-strung and supersensitive temperament of her mother's + family. As a child she was sometimes spoiled and sometimes + cuffed, and suffered tortures from nervousness. She has, however, + acquired a large measure of self-control. + + The first sensations which she now recognizes as sexual were + experienced at the age of 3, when her mother gave her an + injection; afterward she declared herself unable to relieve her + bowels naturally in order to obtain a repetition of this + experience, which was several times repeated. At the age of 7 a + man pursued her with attentions and attempted to take liberties, + but she rejected his advances in terror; four years later another + man attempted to assault her, but she resisted vigorously, struck + him, and escaped by running. Neither of these sexual attempts + appears to have left any serious permanent impression on the + child's mind. + + At the age of 11, when her mother was giving her a bath, the + sensation of her mother's fingers touching her private parts gave + her what she now knows to be sexual feelings, and a year later + when taking her bath she would pour hot water on to the sexual + region in order to cause these sensations; this did not lead to + masturbation, but she had a vague idea that it was "wrong." + + At the age of 12 menstruation began; she suffered very severely + from dysmenorrhea, the period sometimes lasting for ten days, and + the pain being often extreme. She was not treated for this + condition, her mother being of opinion that she would outgrow it. + From the age of 14 or 15 until 23, or about the period of her + marriage, she suffered from anemia. + + She had little curiosity about sexual matters; her mother wished + that she should always come to her for information about things + she became acquainted with as to the general facts of sex; she + did not, however, know definitely the facts of copulation until + her marriage. She knew nothing of erection or semen, and thought + that when a man and woman placed their organs together a child + resulted. She hated talking about these subjects indecently, and + would not listen to the sexual conversation of her schoolfellows. + She never felt any homosexual attraction. Once another girl was + much in love with her, but she despised and disliked her + attentions; again, when a girl much older than herself, a friend + of her mother's, slept with her and made advances, she repelled + her and refused to sleep with her again. + + She always got on well with men, and men were attracted to her. + She was direct and sincere, without undue modesty. But she never + allowed men to touch her or kiss her. She was a good dancer, and + fond of dancing, but denies that it ever led to sexual feelings. + She never felt any sexual attraction for a man until, at the age + of 20, she fell in love with her future husband five years or + more before marriage. + + At this period she began to feel vague discomfort, which she knew + to be localized near her sexual organs. She was aware, in a dim + way, that it was connected with her love, and was of a sexual + nature. But there was no definite idea of sexual intercourse. She + felt nervous and depressed. If she had been asked to state what + would relieve her, she could only have said B.'s presence and + tenderness. A few days before he declared his love she + experienced the nearest approach to sexual feeling she had ever + had. It was summer and, with B. and some of her family, she had + gone on a little expedition. One evening, in the train after a + day's excursion, B. took her hand (unperceived by the others) and + held it for some time. This aroused the strongest emotions in + her; she closed her eyes, and, though she was not at the time + aware that her sensations were localized in her sexual organs, + she thinks, in the light of subsequent knowledge, that she then + experienced the orgasm. + + During the engagement, which lasted between two and three years, + circumstances prevented frequent meetings. B. would kiss her, + suck her nipples, which became erect, and lie on her. She allowed + him to take these liberties, feeling that if she refused him all + satisfaction he might have relations with other women. She still + felt no definite desire for contact of the sexual organs. She + longed rather to be embraced and kissed, and to lie in her + lover's arms all night. A few months before marriage, however, + she masturbated occasionally, just before or just after + menstruation, imagining, while doing it, that she was in her + lover's arms. The act was usually followed by a sick feeling. + Just before marriage she underwent an operation for the relief of + the dysmenorrhea. She was somewhat shocked and sickened by the + experiences of the wedding night. It seemed to her that her + husband approached her with the violence of an animal, and there + was some difficulty in effecting entrance. Coitus, though + incomplete, took place some seven times on this first night. The + bleeding from rupture of the hymen continued, so that for two + days she had to wear a towel. For two months subsequently there + was great pain during intercourse, although she suppressed the + indications of this. + + There were several children born of the marriage and for some + years she lived happily, on the whole, with her husband, + notwithstanding various hardships and difficulties and some + incompatibility of temper. + + As regards her sexual feelings she considers, from what other + women have told her, that her feelings are, if anything, stronger + than the average. The orgasm, however, was not fully developed + until about five years after marriage. Sexual feeling is most + pronounced before, during, and after the menstrual period, more + especially before and about the third day (the period usually + lasts from five to seven days). There is more sexual desire + during pregnancy, especially toward the end, than at any other + time. She never refused normal intercourse to her husband, but + any abnormal or perverted method of sexual gratification is + repellent. She was awakened one night about the third month of + pregnancy by her husband inserting his penis _in ore_; the child + was born with palate defect and she is herself inclined to + believe that this incident was the cause of the defect. Though + she desires normal intercourse, she has seldom obtained complete + gratification. For a long time she disliked seeing or touching + the penis, and the feel, and especially the smell, of the semen + produced nausea and even vomiting. (She has a very delicate sense + of smell as well as of taste; though fond of the scent of + flowers, no sexual feelings are thus aroused.) Withdrawal and the + use of condoms are unsatisfactory to her, and mutual masturbation + gives no relief and produces headache. Feelings of friendship for + her husband have been most potent in arousing the sexual + emotions, and she has had most pleasure in intercourse after a + day spent in bicycling together. She has been for many months at + a time without sexual intercourse, and during such periods has + suffered much from pain in the head; this, however, she has now + completely surmounted. She eventually discovered that her + husband's abstinence from marital intercourse was due to + infidelity. This led to a definite separation. She still + occasionally experiences sexual desire, but has no inclination to + masturbate. Her life is full and busy, affording ample scope for + her energies and intelligence; moreover, she has her children to + train and educate. She herself believes that her sexual life is + at an end. + + + HISTORY XIII.--G.R., army officer. "I am 35 years of age. My + parents married at the ages of 38 and 25, and my father is now 84 + and my mother 71; both are particularly strong and healthy in + body and mind. I am of old lineage on both sides, and know of no + disease, defect, or abnormality among any of my ancestors or + relations, except that my mother's family has a slight tendency + to drink and excess, the present members of it all being + considered eccentric. I have one brother and one sister living + (brother unmarried, sister with several children) and am the + youngest of a family of five. My brother is abnormal, but I don't + know exactly in what way or from what cause. I have a strong + suspicion that he masturbates to excess. My father is artistic + and my mother musical. I have no aptitude for either, but + appreciate both enormously, though not until about ten years ago. + My principal reading is religion, science, and philosophy, with + an occasional standard novel, or a modern novel of the 'improper' + type by way of relaxation. I became a convinced and militant + rationalist about five years ago, but have been an unbeliever + since I left school. I was anemic and threatened with bowel + complaint at the age of 7, and was in consequence taken abroad + for my health. I am now strong and vigorous, with great powers of + endurance, and enjoy all forms of sport and exercise, + particularly hunting, pig-sticking, and polo. I drink a lot, and + am never fitter than when eating, drinking, and taking exercise + in what most people would call excess. It takes more alcohol than + I can hold to make me drunk when in England; but not so in the + East. I have been told that I am very good-looking. + + "When I was about 4 or 5 I was constantly chaffed by my older + companions about putting my hand down my trousers and playing + with my privates. I don't remember getting an erection, nor at + what age this first occurred with me. At one time my brother and + I used to play about with my sister's underclothing, and took + great pleasure in it, but we never saw her genitals. She told us + that on carefully examining herself one day she was glad to find + that she had a small penis like boys had--doubtless the clitoris. + When in France, at the age of 8 to 10, I began to notice the + sexual parts of animals, and was very keen to know what mares + kept between their hind legs. Later on I took great pleasure with + another boy in feeling the teats of a she-ass, and, by myself, + the penis of a donkey, as I had seen the French grooms do; but I + took no interest in my own penis. I used to put my finger as far + up the anus as it would go, and got a vague satisfaction from it. + I went to a small private school at the age of 11, having been + previously told by my mother of the manner of birth of men and + animals, of which I was quite ignorant till then. She made no + mention of the part taken by the father, and I never thought + about it. Even then I was left with the impression that one was + born through the navel. I was initiated at school, and used to + handle the penis of the boy who told me. On several occasions I + did _fellatio_ for him, and liked it, but he never offered to do + the same for me, and I don't think he got much satisfaction out + of it. Soon after this I became conscious of pleasurable + sensations when lying on my stomach with an erection, and used + occasionally to gratify myself that way, caring little for the + school tradition that it was 'wicked' and bad for one. On one + occasion, when talking at night with another boy, we compared our + organs, both in erection, and I then for the first time thought + of trying what I had heard vaguely mentioned, viz., two boys + playing at man and woman. I lay on him with my penis on his + stomach and almost at once had an orgasm with emission, and + experienced acute pleasure, though both he and I supposed that I + had involuntarily micturated. I was 13 when this happened. I did + it once more with him before I left, this time the other way up, + so as to spare him the unpleasantness. I used to like kissing and + hugging the smaller boys, and had a great eye for good looks. On + going home for the holidays I masturbated with my hand out of + curiosity to see what happened when the orgasm occurred, and then + only did I fully understand the nature of the act. After this the + rush and strangeness of a large public school distracted my + attention, but I heard about wet dreams, masturbation, and + homosexuality from the other boys, and soon became thoroughly + initiated. I believe the tone of my house, if not of the whole + school, was exceptionally bad; though it may only be that I saw + more of it because I was attracted by it, and that other schools + are the same really. Things involving certain expulsion if found + out were done more or less in public, and I have myself openly + got into bed with or masturbated other boys, and on more than one + occasion have helped forcibly to masturbate small boys or to hold + them while others had connection with them, the idea of the last + two acts being that the boy would thereby be seduced and become + available for, and willing to perform, homosexuality. Before I + became big enough to have boys myself I masturbated frequently + (on one occasion three times in the day), and invariably by lying + on my stomach without the use of the hands. In having connection + with other boys I used to do it between the thighs or on the + stomach, and I never heard of any other way at that school. + _Paedicatio_ would disgust me, and, moreover, would deprive me of + the principal pleasure of intercourse, viz., the feeling of lying + face to face and stomach to stomach. Of course, the satisfaction + used to be mutual, but, though good-looking, I was never the + passive party only, like some small boys who might be called + professionals and whom I used to pay for their services. I went + back after I had left and had a boy in the dark whom I had never + seen before, having been told that he was all right. I used to + have a very genuine affection for any party to my pleasure, + though I took delight in torturing one in particular, but for + what reason I cannot say. For one boy I developed a deep love, + which lasted long after we had left school and had ceased all + sexual connection. This love was as strong as anything I have + ever felt since. + + "I don't remember whether it was while I was at school or later + that I first began again to take a sexual interest in animals. I + used to masturbate a good deal and was always trying to find new + ways of doing it and new substances to lie on. It was while + feeling the vulva of a young mare that the brilliant thought + struck me of trying to copulate with her, and thus getting the + advantage of the soft vagina. It afforded me great satisfaction + and I had an emission, though I did not then, nor at any other + time with any other animal, succeed in penetrating properly. I + afterward did the same with other mares and with a certain cow + whenever I got a safe opportunity, which was not as often as I + could have wished. I have not had connection with an animal for + about ten years, but would have no objection to doing so, and + feel sure I could perform the act properly now. After I left + school at 17, I occasionally had longings for boys, but it was + the exception and not the rule. I continued to masturbate, but + not to excess, and used to make ineffectual efforts to stop it, + but never succeeded for very long. When I was confirmed, at the + age of 15, I became intensely religious, and was so remorseful at + my first lapse from virtue that I burnt my leg with a red-hot + poker, and I bear the scar still. On leaving school I went to + Germany and there had my first coitus with a woman, a fat old + German who gave me very little satisfaction. My next, a Jewess, + gave me more than I asked for, in the shape of a soft chancre. In + my ignorance I never had it treated, but it must have been very + mild, for it disappeared of its own accord. When cramming in + England I occasionally went home with a prostitute, but did not + care much about them and could not afford good ones. On one + occasion I was impotent. It may have been through drink, but it + disgusted me with myself. I liked seeing the women naked, and + always insisted that they should strip, especially the breasts, + which I liked large and full. I had not learned to kiss on the + lips, and had no desire to kiss the body, except the breasts, + which I was generally too shy to do. But as I nearly always wore + a condom and found penetration difficult I did not much enjoy the + actual coitus. I am fully convinced that if women had been more + accessible, if I had not thought myself bound to use preventives + in self-defense, and if the act had not been looked upon with + such disfavor by those in authority over me, I should have + masturbated less or not at all, and would not have been tempted + to bestiality. When I was 22 I had coitus with a girl who was not + a prostitute for the first time. I was violently excited and + enjoyed it more than anything I had yet experienced, in spite of + the facts that she would not undress and insisted on withdrawal + before emission. On one other occasion only have I had coitus + with a non-professional unmarried woman. Shortly after this I + caught syphilis from a girl of the streets. I was circumcised and + stayed in a private hospital for six weeks. It never went beyond + the primary stage, and I have felt no ill effects from it, except + that I have got a hydrocele in the right testicle. Of course, + this incident necessitated the use of a condom on every occasion, + and it greatly spoiled my pleasure. About this time a + brother-officer older than myself made advances to me. He + compared me to a Greek statue, and wanted to kiss me. I would + have nothing to do with him, but was glad to have his confessions + of homosexuality and somewhat surprised to learn that he was not + alone in the regiment. I afterward fell in love with his sister, + and he married and had children. He was bisexual in his + inclinations, but was really in love with me for a short time. + + "I had little to do with professionals until I went to South + Africa, and though I was fond of ladies' society, and liked by + ladies, I looked upon them as something apart, especially married + women, and never attempted to take liberties with them; though I + used to with shopgirls, etc., in my cramming days, and had often + been in love. In South Africa I first began really to enjoy + coitus, and on going to India continued to do so; in fact, I + thought sexually of nothing else and rarely masturbated,--perhaps + once in three weeks. I would go to brothels wherever they were + available, Durban, Cape Town, Colombo, Calcutta, Bombay, and at + one time preferred black women to white. I used to have horrible + orgies with my brother-officers, and on one occasion I ordered + six women to my bungalow in order to celebrate my birthday, and + made a present of them to five of my friends after dinner. During + this period, and until I went home, I rarely spoke to a lady, the + chief exception being No. 1, a brother-officer's wife, with whom + I began to be in love. + + "Shortly after the South African War I fell violently in love + with a young brother-officer, 'Z.' It amounted to a passion and I + was forced to make overtures to him. He did not understand, being + ignorant of homosexuality and quite virile, and would have + nothing to do with me, though he was very nice about it. This + lasted for about a year, and then, thinking no doubt that he had + better stop it, as I was really making myself very ridiculous and + was mad with love, he threw me up altogether. I was intensely + miserable for some time, and then I recovered and we made it up, + and are now firm friends. I still want to kiss and stroke him + when I see him naked, but would do nothing more. I went home by + way of Japan after several years' absence from home, taking the + women of the Eastern ports as I went, until I contracted + gonorrhea in the Tokio Yoshiwara. I could not get rid of it, and + arrived home in that state, having been deprived of the pleasure + of trying several new races on the way in consequence. In England + I rushed into a society which I had quit on such different terms, + and it received me with open arms. I very soon began a flirtation + with a married woman, and she completed my education in kissing + which had been begun by the Japanese harlots. I was just coming + to the point with this woman when I met No. 1 again, and my love + for her was at once renewed. I told her so, but I knew that she + did not return it. I then became attracted to No. 2, a girl older + than myself, whom I had known all my life. I kissed her and + fondled her breasts; but she would not allow anything else, until + one night, when in the train with her, I got my hand down farther + than she intended. It ended in my performing _cunnilingus_ on her + first, and then obtaining satisfaction between her thighs--a + large step to take after the former limitations. Previous to this + I had on several occasions obtained an emission, without meaning + to, by lying on her fully dressed. She was aware of my disease, + which by that time had become a gleet and did not inconvenience + me in any way. From that time until I went back to India we went + through the same performance whenever possible, I masturbating + her sometimes with the finger, sometimes with the tongue, and + having connection with various parts of her body, including the + breasts, but always with a condom on account of my disease. She + used to strip for my edification, and we frequently spent the + night in the same bed. I was attracted to her mentally, but not + very much physically; that is to say, that if circumstances had + not thrown us together I should never have picked her out from + other girls as being sexually attractive to me. I returned to + India, and to No. 1, though I kept faithful to No. 2 in word and + deed for five months, but gradually the overmastering influence + of No. 1 reasserted itself over me. And then I met No. 3. We were + attracted to each other at first acquaintance, and the attraction + was mental and sexual. She was married and in love with another + man, but that did not prevent her from kissing me. I felt her + breasts, masturbated her, and had emissions by lying on her, but + she drew the line at one thing, viz., kissing on the lips; and I + drew it at coitus. We arranged a trip together during which I + went to bed with her, but never had coitus, though we both had + frequent orgasms in other ways. Before starting on this trip I + had thought that I should not see No. 1 again, and she let me + kiss her, to my unspeakable joy. Circumstances, however, + intervened, and I went straight to No. 1 after parting with No. + 3, told her all I had done, and then kissed her again, leaving + her just before her real lover, with whom she was then living, + arrived. Later I returned again to No. 1, now in child to her + lover. We lived together for three nights in spite of this. She + then went home, and I had no connection with any woman for two + years, except one black woman, being consumed with love and + worship for No. 1. I was much in society, but never had any luck. + At the end of this time I was traveling one night with a young + officer ('X'), slight and effeminate and preferring men to women, + with whom I had been until then on friendly but not intimate + terms. I watched him undress and go to bed, and then, having + myself undressed, went over to his bunk and put my hand under his + clothes. He at once responded, and I got into his bed, both of us + being in a frenzy of passion and surprise. But I was fairly sure + of my ground or I would not have dared to take the risk. I used + often to go to his bed after this, and on one occasion had coitus + with a girl on a chair at a ball and the next night with my young + officer. I scarcely knew the girl, and don't know her name now, + but I took her measure, made her excited by manipulation and + kissing, and then got her consent. I did not harm her, even if I + had been the first, for orgasm occurred before I had penetrated + beyond the lips. X surprised me by telling me that he had had + connection with three other officers in my regiment, as well as + with several others in the same station. He would not tell me + their names, but I guessed easily enough. He used to drink + heavily, and once I got into his bed when he was in a drunken + stupor and he was quite unaware that I was there for some time. I + myself was drinking too much at this time, and was frequently + drunk before dinner. In the hot weather that followed I had one + orgy in Bombay which lasted three nights. I started on a Greek + and a Pole and finished up with a Japanese, two brother-officers + accompanying me. Afterward I was much alone during the day in my + bungalow, and used to become possessed by intense desire. I + masturbated occasionally, but by this time took but little + pleasure in it, always craving for the moist human vagina. I had + often heard, and myself quoted, the Pathan proverb 'Women for + breeding; boys for pleasure; melons for delight,' and one day + when seeking for some novelty with which to masturbate, and my + eye being caught by a melon put ready for me to eat, it flashed + across me to try whether the proverb was in any way true. I found + it most satisfactory, and practised it several times after that, + the pepita (papaye or pawpaw) being the nearest approach to the + human vagina. The opportune arrival of a fairly good-looking + punkah woman, however, put an end to this form of enjoyment by + providing me with what I wanted. Soon afterward I went home + again, taking the Japanese at Bombay on my way. + + "I had kept up a correspondence with No. 1 all this time, but we + had made a compact that whatever each did until we met again was + not to count, and I knew that she had had at least one liaison + since our parting, and was in entire ignorance of the state of + her feelings toward me. Therefore, while trying to arrange a + meeting with her, I took the first thing that chance threw in my + way, thinking a bird in the hand better than the off chance of a + better one in the bush. This was No. 4, with whom I spent three + days at the seaside after having first had coitus with her in my + own home while she was in the monthly state. Immediately on + parting from her I came home to receive No. 1. The first time we + were alone she kissed me, and this was followed by mutual + confessions and coitus, though at first she said my affair was + too recent. I agreed not to have connection again with No. 4, and + kept to this until when staying in the same house again with her + I was tempted beyond my powers; and I may add that she gave me no + assistance in keeping this promise, of which she was fully + cognizant. I at once wrote and confessed to No. 1, and she very + naturally would have nothing more to do with me. But I managed to + reconcile her, and we afterward lived together for three days in + the country, as well as in London and in her own house. Meanwhile + No. 5 had been making advances to me which I could not well + refuse, being a very old friend. Nos. 4 and 5 were on one + occasion staying together at my house, just after I had been + faithless to No. 1 with No. 4. I could not very well sleep with + them both, so at the earnest entreaty of No. 4 I went to her room + first, told her my reasons for not having connection with her, + left her in tears, and then went and slept with No. 5. This is + the only transaction I have ever concealed from No. 1; but No. 5 + knows my whole story and accepts the situation of being only + second so long as I give her satisfaction whenever possible. + About this time I again met No. 3 and kissed and masturbated her + in a cab, but she would not allow me to go home with her. At the + bidding of No. 1 I now broke entirely with No. 4, to the great + grief and astonishment of my sister, whose friend she was. + Shortly after this I again returned to India, where I quarreled + hopelessly with No. 1, and I don't know to this day what my fault + was, except that she had got tired of me. Her influence over me + is, however, too great to be so easily broken, and I would return + to her tomorrow if she moved a finger in reconciliation. During + the following hot weather I slowly but surely, albeit quite + unconsciously, obtained an influence over No. 6, and it ended by + her falling desperately in love with me and allowing me to do + what I liked. I did not love her, and told her about No. 1, whose + image always remained in the back of my vision, whatever I was + doing. She also accepted the situation, and I don't think has any + grievance against me. For my part I have nothing but thanks and + gratitude and as much love as I am capable of to give her, and + all the other women with whom I have had any sexual relations. + The following is a short account of the above women:-- + + "No. 1. Had coitus before marriage, for love and with full + knowledge of the nature of the act. Agreement with her husband + not to have coitus rigidly adhered to by both. Has had connection + with five other men since marriage. Very passionate, but faddy + and particular. Slow at producing orgasm. Likes being in bed + naked, and liked me once for having kissed her mons veneris. + Thin, with undeveloped breasts. Brilliant, good-looking. Artistic + and highly intellectual. Never masturbated, and did not know of + homosexuality among women; very sensitive to touch on the + pudenda. + + "No. 2. Has had sexual relations, but never coitus, with many + men. Mutually masturbated with one man. Masturbated herself + frequently, and took a long time to produce orgasm, even with + _cunnilingus_, which delighted her immensely. After having it + performed, she would stoop down and passionately kiss my lips. + Fond of prolonged kisses, during which the tongue played a + prominent part. Tall and fully developed, but no looks. Clever, + masculine brain, and strong physically. Skillfully concealed her + passionate nature, which, however, was long in developing and was + long kept in check by maidenly modesty. + + "No. 3. Innocent before marriage, and hated her _fiance_ even to + touch her, which feeling still persists. Has had liaisons with + many men, and several miscarriages, one legitimate, others + illegitimate, and one illegitimate child. Does not masturbate + herself, but readily yields to its seduction when performed by + others. The most passionate woman I have ever met. Good, typical, + womanly figure, but thin and weak. Not much looks, but very + fascinating to men. Clever and intellectual. + + "No. 4. Coitus only with her husband before myself. Not very + passionate. I know nothing about masturbation or homosexuality in + her case. Very broad hips, large breasts, and well-developed + nates. Deserted by her husband. No children. Rather foolish and + weak-minded. Penetration difficult owing to long labia majora. + + "No. 5. Knows all about homosexuality of both sexes and wants to + know more about everything. Probably masturbates. Several + children. In love with her husband at first, but now tired of him + and took to other men for variety and because her husband had + ceased to give her sexual pleasure. Very passionate; has slow + orgasm; likes nakedness and contact of body. Very large vagina. + Broad hips and full breasts. Intellectual, but not so by nature. + Artistic and very musical. + + "No. 6. Absolutely innocent before marriage. Was practically + raped by her husband on her marriage night. This disgusted her + with the whole performance, and she could not bear her husband's + caresses. During pregnancy she was frightened because she did not + know what was going to happen, i.e., how the child was going to + be born; and no one enlightened her,--doctor, nurse, or mother. + Did not know the meaning of the words sexual feeling, and never + thought about sexual matters at all until marriage. I roused her + passion, put things in their true light, made her have an orgasm, + and told her what it meant. The orgasms at first made her cry and + nearly faint, and she thereafter became intensely passionate. + Very excited at cunnilingus, which I practised on her more than + once. She confessed that the orgasm was stronger and more + complete during coitus than during masturbation, which relieved + my mind. She volunteered to strip naked and has but little + shyness with me. Cannot bear her husband yet. She admits that she + was only half a woman before she knew me, but now regrets her + marriage. Short, thin, and slight, with narrow hips and no + breasts. Quick woman's wit, but not intellectual. + + "Of the prostitutes I have known, perhaps 60 in number, the + Japanese easily take the palm. They are scrupulously clean, have + charming manners and beautiful bodies, and take an intelligent + interest in the proceedings. Also they are not always thinking + about the money. Perhaps the Kashmiris come next, though the + Chinese run them very close. Some of the more expensive London + women are bearable, but they are such harlots! The white women in + the East are insupportable, and small wonder, for they consist of + the dregs of the European and American markets. My list comprises + English, French, German, Italian, Spanish-American, American, + Bengali, Punjabi, Kashmiri, Kaffir, Singhalese, Tamil, Burmese, + Malay, Japanese, Chinese, Greek, and Pole. + + "I naturally prefer to satisfy myself with a woman, a friend and + a lady of my own class; but in the absence of the best I gladly + take the next best available, down the scale from a lady for + whom I do not care to prostitutes of all classes and colors, men, + boys, animals, melons, and masturbation. I would as cheerfully + have connection with my sister, or any other female relative. I + have frequent erotic dreams about the most extraordinary + subjects--male and female relations, casual acquaintances of both + sexes, and animals. When I have got an intrigue in hand with a + woman, I have no wish to masturbate, and often restrain myself + when I know that I am going to have access before long to + prostitutes. After coitus it takes a long time before I am ready + for the next, sometimes two hours; and the first is always very + quick, nearly always too quick for the woman. With a strange + woman I have difficulty in maintaining erection at the instant of + penetration, and this has often given me trouble. + + "I know that most women like, and few dislike, being touched by + me. My favorite colors are green and red, and I can whistle quite + well. + + "I would be very glad to know whether I may be considered + sexually normal or not, but I do not desire any opinion on the + morality of my acts, for the simple reason that without knowing + all the circumstances it would be impossible to judge. But I + cannot help saying that I do not consider anything I have done is + wrong in itself, and I am quite certain that I have never harmed + in any way any of the ladies with whom I have had relations. I am + certain, if I had made promises which I knew I could not keep, I + might have married one of them. But the result would have been + great unhappiness to both, quarrels, and ultimate separation or + divorce--and she realized that as well as I did. I may seem + egotistical in my attitude and assurance toward ladies, but I + only speak the honest truth; and I know that No. 6, for instance, + has only gratitude and worship to give me for having opened her + eyes. I have made her promise to have intercourse with her + husband as soon as she can bear it, and I have satisfied myself + that I have not started her on the road to sexual perversion. So + much in self-explanation. I may add that I do not deliberately + seek 'affaires de coeur,' and that, when they come my way, I do + my utmost to use all consideration for the lady, thinking, as I + do, that I owe them a far bigger debt than I shall ever be able + to pay." + + + HISTORY XIV.--J.E., professional man, aged 32. Public school and + university education, in which he did well. From age of 6 or 7 + had strong sexual emotions, and from 9 sexually pleasurable + dreams, though no emission till 12 or 13. He remembers the + association of sexual excitement with whipping, either at sight + or imagination of it, and this feeling was certainly shared by + boys aged 9 to 12 at his private boarding-school and others at + the public school later on. His nurse-maid used to invent excuses + for beating his nates with a long lead-pencil when he was aged + about 7, and he saw occasional whippings with clothes removed in + the family nursery. + + When nearly 16 he was initiated into masturbation, which at once + coincided with rapid mental development and success at school. He + has practised it ever since under same conditions and + restrictions as marital intercourse. Religion has never acted as + any restraint, and the best restraint to all young people, in his + opinion, is to warn them on hygienic grounds. (He became a + freethinker at 17, partly on observing the inconsistency of + religious persons in this connection. He was twice set upon by + Catholics when 16, who attempted mutual masturbation.) He can + vaguely remember some such warning when very young from his + mother. + + No intercourse with women till age of 19, though strong + homosexual feelings from 10 upward, associated with feminine + youths. These feelings were quite distinct from feelings of + affection and friendship for more virile youths. An attack of + gonorrhea at 21 was followed by an operation for circumcision, + which had beneficial effects, but did not prevent an attack of + syphilis at age of 23, caught at a guaranteed state establishment + in France. Intercourse almost always with prostitutes, on + prudential and worldly grounds, though what he approves would be + greater laxity between boys and girls, with proper safeguards + against undesired offspring. He is now happily married. He only + indulges in masturbation at times when intercourse is impossible + (e.g., childbirth). It is then practised once or twice a week in + the early morning; overnight it causes troubled sleep, brain + activity, and constipation. This seems ethically more desirable + unless the wife were to condone physical infidelity, which she + would not, and even then there might be risks of venereal + disease. His general health and working power are in all respects + excellent, as the venereal diseases were speedily and thoroughly + cured. Homosexual feeling has entirely disappeared since + marriage. + + HISTORY XV.--G.D., English; aged 60. "My earliest essays in + juvenile vice were due not so much to unguarded as to unguided + ignorance. I slipped where my natural protectors suspected no + danger, and I fell because I had never been warned of the + treacherous nature of the ground. Before or soon after I was 7 + years old, the example of an elder brother, who had lately begun + to go to school as a day-boy, initiated me into the mysteries of + masturbation, which seemed to me then as harmless as it was + fascinating; and the novel pleasure was almost daily indulged in, + after I had acquired sufficient dexterity to accomplish the act + within a reasonable time, without a twinge of conscience, either + in that brother's company or when alone. Decency demanded secrecy + in the gratification of what soon became an imperious desire, + and the preliminary operations included, almost from the first, + mutual _fellatio_ and approximation of the excited organs; but + similar privacy was very properly sought during the performance + of other bodily acts associated with those 'less honorable + members,' and it appeared to me quite as natural and right for us + to amuse ourselves together in that way as for a married couple + to hide their most intimate embraces from the observation of + others. Indeed, I went farther than that, and even came to regard + the absence of all shame between us as akin to the primeval + innocence which Adam and Eve exhibited before the Fall. I + believed for long that we two were specially privileged and + possessed a peculiar sense denied to other boys, for I had never + heard of masturbation till I learnt, not the word indeed, but the + thing itself. + + "My curiosity about the real nature of sexual union in the case + of human beings set my intelligence to work at the interesting + problem, and by carefully studying certain parts of the Bible, + Lempriere's classical and other dictionaries, as well as by + persistently watching when I could the amorous proceedings of + domestic animals, I learnt enough to make its most prominent + features pretty clear before I was 11 years of age. I was then + all eagerness to have the opportunity of inspecting at close + quarters the genitals of women or young girls, and a stay at the + seaside when I was 12 made the latter at least feasible. When the + shore was nearly deserted, between 1 and 2 P.M., the daughters of + the fisherfolk used to besiege the bathing machines and disport + themselves in the water, bathing and paddling in various stages + of nudity. I would pretend that my whole attention was being + given to the making of miniature tunnels in the sand, while all + the time I slyly peeped at what I most desired to see, whether in + front or from behind, as the dancing damsels stood upright or + stooped till their haunches were higher than their heads. I had + already read something somewhere about the _clitoris_, and wanted + especially to see it, but indistinct glimpses were all that I + could obtain; nor was it until I visited an anatomical museum, + which then existed at the top of the Haymarket in London, that I + learned, a good many years later, from several life-sized models + there displayed, the characteristic features of that part, as + well as the abnormal modifications to which it is subject, either + congenitally or in consequence of profligate habits. I was 15, I + think, when I first came to know that girls can masturbate as + well as boys. + + "Long after I had realized why the terms male and female are so + distinguished, my imagination was occupied with the possible + postures in which the act of copulation may be accomplished by a + man and woman; from Horace, Lucretius, Martial, Aristophanes, + and, above all, from Ovid's _Ars Amatoria_ I obtained much, but + not always very clear, information while still a schoolboy. This + was supplemented later by photographic pictures from Pompeiian + brothels and photographs from life, purchased at Florence and + gloated over one night, with twice-repeated masturbation, and + afterward destroyed in a revulsion of shame. + + "But while continuing to practise self-abuse (with a certain + degree of restraint indeed, but seldom less often than once or + even twice a week), after I had been made fully aware of its + perils by Dr. Adam Clarke's alarming comments on Genesis xxxviii, + 9, when I was about 12 or 13, I never had connection with a woman + until I married somewhat late in life. This abstinence was not + due to any frigidity of disposition, but from prudential and + religious motives, and, to some extent perhaps, from the + imperfect but genuine satisfaction afforded by solitary + indulgence. My imagination, like that of young J.J. Rousseau, as + set forth in his _Confessions_, was allowed free scope for its + exercise, but in practice I confined myself to what seemed to me + comparatively innocent as compared with fornication. I was never + an unreserved 'exhibitionist' like Rousseau, but I have on more + than one occasion turned toward a hedge and pretended to make + water, when a girl had just passed me on the road, showing a + _turgens cauda_ if she should chance out of curiosity to look + back, as once, at any rate, happened. + + "I watched with interest the first indications of puberty in my + own person. I had, of course, seen the pubic hair on many of my + own sex, but I was 17 when I first saw a naked woman. She was + standing at the door of her machine, wringing out her + bathing-dress, as I swam past, and her face was hidden by the + awning then used, so that she could not see me. A slight effusion + of limpid mucus began to characterize the orgasm, at the age of + 12 or 13 (before any ejaculation of semen was experienced), such + as exuded later from the _urethra_ when salacious excitement + reached a certain pitch, even though the final climax might be + postponed or prevented altogether. I found it a refinement of + luxury to prolong the period of tumescence as far as possible, by + frequently checking a too rapid progress toward the goal. By this + practice of repeated arrest when the orgasm was imminent, and the + mental debauchery which was its habitual accompaniment, I believe + I did my nervous system more damage than by anything else--even + the early age at which the dangerous indulgence became + established. Nocturnal emissions (the sequel of lascivious + dreams) commenced when I was about 15, at which age I had my + first experience of an involuntary discharge when awake, under + the influence of purely mental emotion; but this latter mode of + escape did not often happen, and later on ceased altogether. My + muscular strength was not impaired by too frequent indulgence, + and I acquired some athletic prowess on the football field and on + the running path, both as a boy and as a young man. Walking tours + were for long my favorite recreation, even after the bicycle + became an increasing attraction. My health, however, suffered in + other ways from too constant absorption in lustful thoughts, + which found vent in erotic verses and tales, generally destroyed + soon after they were written. I have been subject since I was a + boy to more or less prolonged fits of mental depression. How far + I have inherited this tendency (my father and his father both + married first cousins, and a neurotic diathesis has been + characteristic of our family), or how far it has been aggravated + by pernicious habits, I cannot say; cause and effect have no + doubt acted and reacted on each other. + + "As I grew toward adolescence I endeavored to make self-abuse as + close an imitation as possible of sexual intercourse by such + methods as may be easily imagined. My biological studies (I won a + scholarship and took honors at my university) were directed with + most intent predilection toward the reproductive system, + particularly the modifications of the copulatory organs in + different animals and the diverse manner of their employment. The + sexual instinct, whether in its normal or abnormal + manifestations, is a subject which has always had a strong + attraction for me, nor has it lost its fascination with the + growth of years (I am now 60) nor the competition of other + interests. + + "My very limited experience of the sexual system in women would + lead me to believe that the _clitoris_ is the only peculiarly + sensitive part of the female _genitalia_, coition giving no + pleasure unless 'the trigger of love' is simultaneously + manipulated, as can be done when intromission is effected _a + tergo_; that the mind of a normally healthy maiden is altogether + free from sexual excitement of a physical kind, and that little + curiosity is felt about the precise _modus operandi_ of conjugal + intercourse; but, nevertheless, I have good reason to believe + that this, if not an unusual type, is by no means the only one + that exists. + + "As to sexual inversion my personal experience has been confined + to two or three _grandes passions_ for boys, the first of which + possessed me when between the ages of 16 and 18, and involved, + when I was 17, the most intense mental emotion, of a romantic + kind, tinged with poignant jealousy and vexation at comparative + coldness toward myself. These love passages never led me into + indelicate behavior (I was once threatened with such treatment + myself by a stranger whose acquaintance I made one day at the + British Museum, when a lad of 15. He took me to his bedroom at an + inn, locked the door, and showed me a collection of coins, giving + me some, and, while doing so, attempted to take indecent + liberties; but I pretended that I must catch a certain train, + unlocked the door, and made a hasty escape), nor was any + gratification sought beyond occasional kisses and other innocent + endearments, though such caresses would sometimes excite an + erection, which I carefully concealed. These amours were, + however, no outcome of perverted instinct, nor were they any bar + to fancies for the opposite sex which affected my imagination + rather than my heart." + + + HISTORY XVI.--This history is given in the subject's own words: + A.N., 34 years of age, a university graduate, devoted to learning + and interested in philosophy and theology. He is happily married + and the father of an only daughter. Since puberty he has enjoyed + excellent health. + + "Looking back he finds the beginnings of sexual feeling obscure. + This feeling is by no means identical in its progress with the + knowledge of the phenomena of sex generally. The latter he + acquired thus: His mother told him at a very early age the + outlines of the phenomena of birth and explained to him (perhaps + at that time unnecessarily) that the genital organs of little + girls were different from his own. This piece of knowledge led to + his asking, when 9 years old, a little girl cousin who came to + live with the family (he was an only child) and who shared his + bed to let him see her genitalia. This she readily did and also + invited him to coitus, which she described as a 'nice game.' He + complied, but without, of course, any feeling of pleasure or any + understanding of the nature of what he was doing. Shortly after + this he went to a day school, where, amid the extraordinarily + coarse conversation of the boys, he was initiated into all the + more obvious phenomena of sex. But still it was only a matter of + intellectual curiosity. As such it had a strange fascination for + him, and to this day he remembers many of the obscene words and + phrases, as, for example, a set of indecent verses beginning + 'William, the milkman, sat under a tree,' describing coitus, + though some of the details were yet misunderstood by him. That up + to his tenth or eleventh year no real sexual desire was awakened + is plain from the fact that there was no desire for any + repetition of attempts at coitus with his cousin, though he did + indeed, again out of curiosity, finger her genitals sometimes, a + thing which she, grown evidently more fastidious, reported to his + mother, who gravely reprimanded him, telling him that it was the + 'beginning of all evil.' + + "Desire was awakened gradually and, as I have said, obscurely. + Not only at school, but among his own cousins, especially two + girls (other than the one above mentioned) and a boy, the + conversation was lascivious in the extreme, though words never + proceeded to deeds as between the boys and the girls. He was + soon, however, about his fifteenth year, so far as he can + remember, initiated into the practice of masturbation, first, + sleeping with his boy cousin, the two used to play at 'husband + and wife,' and then, more directly, a neighbor, a heavy, sensual + type of boy, took him aside one day and drawing out his own penis + asked him 'if he knew how to make some buttermilk.' Out of + curiosity at first, and to obtain the new and voluptuous + sensation afterward, he began assiduously to practise this vice, + which, as he afterward found out, was very common, if not + universal about him. That it was morally reprehensible he had not + at that time the ghost of a notion; he considered that it + belonged to the category of the 'dirty' only. His father quite + neglected this development, believing, I suppose, in the + superstition of the 'innocence of childhood.' + + "This practice of masturbation went on assiduously to his + sixteenth year, when its true nature and danger were revealed to + him by a good clergyman who prepared him for confirmation. He had + at this time gone far, in both solitary vice and vice 'a deux,' + with his male cousin, with whom he practised even 'fellatio' and + 'intromissio in anum.' But now he began to struggle against it + and made some headway, but never entirely shook it off before his + marriage at 26, so deeply rooted was the hold it had on him. + Especially at the time between sleeping and waking, or while + lying sleepless at night--when the monks prayed 'ne polluantur + corpora'--did its attacks come insidiously upon him. He would + struggle for weeks and then would come a relapse. On one occasion + he slept with a young uncle who amused himself, thinking he was + asleep, by playing with his penis until he had an emission. A.N. + hailed the occasion with keen joy--he caustically argued that he + experienced the pleasure without being culpable in its + production! Then on 'coming to himself' he would agonize over his + vice, remembering, for example, that, while _he_ had rejoiced in + what had been done, the very cousin who some time before used to + share his sin was genuinely annoyed at the same uncle's + attentions when it was he who suffered them. + + "Looking back over the whole period of his youth and adolescence, + he can trace the psychological effect of what was going on + secretly, in his relations to girls and women. In a word, these + relations were sentimental only. He often imagined himself in + love; but it was imagination only. He was in love with a wraith, + not a girl of flesh and blood. He hesitated to regard in any + sexual way any girl of whom he had a high opinion; sexual desire + and 'love' seemed for him to inhabit different worlds and that it + would be a pollution to bring them together. In hours of + relaxation from the very hard intellectual work which he was at + this time engaged on at school and at the university, he was + quite content with the society of quite young girls or even + children when most of his friends would have sought out females + of their own age. Nothing could have been farther from his + desires or intention than any lascivious or, indeed, unseemly act + toward any female in whose company he might be: no mother need + have hesitated to trust her daughter in his company. I firmly + believe that the discipline of the same bed which Gibbon + (_Decline and Fall_, ed. Bury, vol. ii, p. 37) makes so merry + over could have been endured by him without difficulty. His + outward conduct was in all these respects most seemly and + decorous, yet night after night he could masturbate, his + imagination glowing with visions of female nakedness. + + "Curiously the one and only actual female for whom he felt any + desire at the earlier period (aged 14 to 16) began to be the + cousin who lived in the house. On one occasion he touched her + breasts, on another her naked thighs--and that was all! As she + grew to puberty, she would have allowed far more liberties, but + he contented himself with a sly glance now and again, when he + could procure it, at her swelling bosom. The fear of putting her + with child was ample to keep him away from her bed. Later on even + so much as the foregoing occurred no more, and, as I have said, + his outward life became absolutely decorous. + + "Consequently he was in no danger of having dealings with + prostitutes. The preliminaries, the conversation of such women, + especially their drinking habits, would have been disgusting and + repugnant to him in the extreme. He would have shunned the + possibility of acquiring venereal disease like the plague. But he + was never free from solitary vice; he secretly envied those who + had occasions for coitus in what I may call a seemly and cleanly + manner, friends in the country with farm girls, etc., of whom he + had heard. He indulged also in lascivious reading, the obscene + when he could procure it, rather than the merely suggestive, + which has never been to his taste. He was familiar with quite a + large number of Latin and Greek indecent passages, knew the + broader farces of the _Canterbury Tales_ and of the _Decameron_, + and, later, the 'contes' of La Fontaine and the _Facetiae_ of + Poggio. As Ste.-Beuve says of Gibbon, I think, he acquired an + 'erudite and cold' sort of obscenity in this way. + + "All this, of course, is only one half, and by no means always + the dominant half, of his nature. He was often repentant for + these delinquencies, and he was sincerely religious. He was also + fond of serious learning and contrived to take a first-class + university degree. Yet, ever and anon, the deeply sensual side of + his nature made itself felt. Scotched for a time it could be, but + killed never. + + "Yet, I do not think it could be said that he had the sexual + instinct in any really high degree. It was more like a small fly + that makes a large buzz than any considerable factor in his + constitution. He had a companion about this time of whom such a + remark is even more true. This man's mind was replete with all + manner of risky stories, all sorts of sexual details. He would + take long walks with girls of loose character, talk with + prostitutes at home and abroad, and yet, I believe, he never + proceeded to coitus. + + "Such then, was the subject of this notice up to the time of his + marriage. Two men, one might say, in one skin. One learned, one + merely obscene; one a pattern of decorousness, the other a + self-polluter. + + "On the sexual side he was as one knowing everything there is to + know--yet knowing nothing. Like the boy-hero in Wedekind's + _Fruehling's Erwachen_, he had been long in Egypt, yet he had + never seen the pyramids. He began to distress himself with + questions as to whether he was yet capable; whether his recurring + vice had not permanently injured him; whether he had made himself + unfit for marriage. So shy and reserved was he about his secret + that he could never have brought himself to mention it to a + medical man. 'What! he! the good, the religious! the wholly moral + and decorous!' (such was, indeed, the reputation he had among his + friends); 'he, the victim of a vice so black!' No, no! '_Secretum + meum mihi_,' he cried. + + "Fortune, however, was kind to him. He was at an early age free + from financial worries, which had almost crushed him earlier in + his career, and he met in course of time the family from which he + selected his excellent wife. + + "The society in which he lived was of all English classes, I + should suppose, the most reticent in matters of sex--the + respectable, lower middle class; shopkeepers and the like, with a + tradition of homely religion and virtue. The classes a little + higher in the scale (to which, by the way, his mother had + belonged) could far better sympathize with one in his position. + Well, the family of his future wife was of a higher class and, + what is far more, of foreign origin, for whom a large number of + our English 'convenances' do not exist. To them sex was frankly + recognized as a factor in life, and the mother of this household, + as he grew more intimate, broached subjects which he had never, + in such a manner, discussed before. It is unnecessary to give + here any general history of his relationships with this + household, as they have nothing to do with the matter in hand. + After some time he became engaged to the youngest daughter, two + years his senior, a woman of remarkable beauty and splendid + development, one who attracted him as none other had done, both + on account of her intellectual and social qualities and her + physical beauty (he had hitherto despaired of finding the two + combined in one person), for she is certainly the most beautiful + woman with whom he has ever been acquainted. + + "He now began to make the practical acquaintance of a woman--and + one who, in impulses, temper, manner, and habit of thought, + differed _toto caelo_ from the girls he had known in his old home. + Her sexual nature was ripe and developed, and it is lucky that + the engagement was of short duration, or the strain and + anticipation of that time might have been injurious to the health + of both. As usual, in his outward relations toward women, so + toward his _fiancee_, he was prepared for chaste caresses only. + This, however, did not suffice for her hot and passionate nature. + They went as far as possible short of actual coitus. + + "After a few months, however, the marriage took place, and, at + first, this brought him bitter disappointment and seemed to + confirm his worst fears. He found himself quite unable to have + pleasure or satisfactory coitus; quite incapable, with any + erection that he could command, of introducing his well-developed + penis into his wife's extremely narrow and contracted vagina. + About a fortnight after the marriage, however, on his return from + their short wedding tour, he felt much stronger and copulated + with her, especially in the early mornings, so satisfactorily + that she soon found herself with child. Coitus now began to be + much more pleasurable for him, but to his wife still attended + with pain. + + "After nine months of married life, the child, the only offspring + of the marriage, a healthy girl, was born. The stress of this + time, the upsetting of his wife's health, her nervous breakdown + and consequently uncertain temper, seemed for a period of nearly + two years effectually to repress any sexual desire in the + husband, and this period is perhaps the chastest of his life. + Desire seemed to be the one thing absent. The revulsion of + feeling in his wife was remarkable. The erstwhile amorous + _fiancee_, who could hardly wait until marriage to test her + lover, became now the wife and mother who hardly wished to be + touched by her husband. + + "Her health, however, gradually improved and a more normal state + of affairs was brought about, which has continued to the present + day, broken only by periods of abstention, chiefly caused by the + attacks of anemia and menstrual irregularities from which his + wife suffers from time to time. Ordinarily, he enjoys coitus once + or twice in the month, hardly oftener, taking one month with + another. At one time he exemplified in his own person the saying + _omne animal post coitum triste_, but now happily this depression + of spirits is rarely felt. Sometimes he has felt a depression of + spirits, a general discontentedness, before experiencing a strong + erection; in these cases coitus has cleared his spirits. He would + naturally look upon coitus as an evacuation, although he + recognizes the imperfectness of that view. For one thing he is + constantly sorry, viz., that the act gives no pleasure to his + wife, and that he has never been able to induce a crisis with her + by normal means. In this state of affairs, knowing that 'apres + coup' she was still unsatisfied, he slipped into the practice of + rubbing the clitoris with his fingers until the emission takes + place. To do this, they assume the position 'ille sub, illa + super.' From his own limited marital experience, he has never + been able to understand the stories of women who masturbate + several times a day, as his wife would be physically incapable + (so he believes) of anything of the kind, and only easily reaches + the crisis in any circumstances during the first few days after + the menstrual flow has ceased. In fine, while agreeing + theoretically with Sir Richard Burton and others that the eastern + style of coitus (directed with a view to the pleasure of your + partner) is the right one, it is one of his standing regrets that + he is unable to practise it. In the place of the twenty minutes + required by the women of India (according to Burton) he is happy + if he can give two or three at the most, much as he would wish to + prolong a pleasure as keen to himself as he could desire it to be + to his dear and excellent spouse." + + HISTORY XVII.--R.L., American; aged 43; height, 5 ft. 7 in.; + weight, about 145 lbs.; occupation, teacher; somewhat neurotic; a + slight myopia associated with acute astigmatism and muscular + weakness of the eyes, producing a tendency to migraine. Uric acid + diathesis, producing occasionally severe neuralgia, particularly + in the intestines. These symptoms have been more or less constant + since very early childhood. General health very good. Not + inclined to indulge in athletic sports, but prefers sedentary + occupations and recreations. + + "My early ideas of sexual things are not very clear in + recollection. I think that when 7 or 8 years of age I had a + knowledge of the common or vulgar terms for intercourse and for + the genital organs. Boys of my own age and slightly older would + discuss sex relations, and I had a general knowledge that, in + some way connected with the sexual act, 'babies were made.' We + would tell, occasionally, lewd stories, and a few times attempted + sexual practices with one another. Not till after puberty did I + ever attempt masturbation. I must have been 9 or 10 years old + before I learned that there was a difference in the sex organs of + boys and girls. Up to this time I had supposed that intercourse + was _per anum._ I attended a public school with both sexes. Talk + among my boy associates was often nasty and concerned the sexual + act with girls. At about 12 years I began to have erotic day + dreams. I always had a sentimental attachment for some girl + acquaintance whom I would idealize and with whom I would imagine + myself having sex relations. As a matter of fact, there was no + real sexual feeling about this. As I was very shy and timid + naturally, I never made any kind of advances toward any of them, + and they were entirely ignorant of any sentiments of affection in + me. + + "Pubertal changes commenced, I presume, about the age of 131/2 + years. I place it at this period from the following + circumstances, which are fixed very strongly in my memory: I had, + as a child, a soprano voice that was praised considerably by + older friends, and about which I was inordinately conceited, I + enjoyed greatly taking part in operettas, cantatas, etc. The + dramatic instinct, if so it may be called, has always been marked + with me, and amateur dramatics are still my chief diversion. When + I was about the age mentioned above my voice changed quite + rapidly, greatly to my distress of mind, as I was obliged to give + up taking a part for which I had been cast in a school + entertainment. The memory of that disappointment is still + poignant. Other changes, such as the appearance of the pubertal + hair, must have made no impression on my mind, as I cannot + recollect anything in connection therewith. No involuntary + emissions occurred. Indeed, during periods of continence in later + life, when the sexual tension has been very strong, I have had + very few such emissions. + + "As a lad of 11 or 12, I had heard frequent allusions to + masturbation by other boys who were older, but always in a way + that indicated contempt. Yet there is no doubt now in my mind + that the practice was very general. I think that I was probably + about 15 when I decided to try the act. I think that there was + little sex impulse in this decision. The animating purpose was + rather curiosity. I succeeded in producing the complete orgasm + and found it pleasurable, though there was a considerable shock + of surprise at the ejaculation of semen. As nearly as I can + estimate in my memory of an event as far back as this was, this + was the beginning of definite sexual sensibility in me. I cannot + but believe, however, that it would have been aroused sooner or + later in some other way. Thereafter I would imagine myself + embracing some of the girl friends to whom I have referred above, + and, when excited, would masturbate. The act was in every + instance a psychic intercourse. For some time I did not know that + the practice was considered harmful. I indulged whenever I felt + the inclination. This at times was rather frequent; again only at + considerable intervals. I did know that it was looked upon as + being unmanly, and never admitted, except to perhaps two or three + boy friends, that I ever indulged. With these boys I practised + mutual masturbation a few times. There was no homosexual feeling + connected with these acts in any of us. It was only that the + normal method of gratifying our desires was not available. I know + the subsequent history of each of these boys, and there has been + nothing to indicate any perverted instinct in any of them. About + the age of 16 I heard a talk on sexual matters by a traveling + evangelist, who portrayed the effects of masturbation in fearful + colors. I now realize that he was an ignorant though + well-intentioned man; but the general effect of his talk upon me + was a bad one. One of the results of the habit, according to his + statements, was insanity. Therefore I expected at any moment to + lose my mind. I felt that I must stop the practice at once, but + the matter became so great an obsession that again and again I + broke my resolutions for reform. I undertook exercise, dieting, + the reading of serious literature: all of which I had seen + referred to in books as methods of lessening sexual desire. The + object of these disciplinary practices was always the thing most + prominently in mind, and so they were of no avail. Fortunately I + entered college a little later, and the affairs of school life + gradually took a commanding place in my thoughts, and the + practice was not so much in mind. I did not, however, completely + break away from it until almost the time of my marriage. If the + present attitude of the scientific medical world toward the + subject had been known to me, I do not believe that any evil + would have come to me from the practice. At a later period of my + life, say between 21 and 24, I would not indulge the habit for a + considerable interval. At times I did not notice the presence or + lack of desire. But then there would come periods when I would be + under a severe sexual tension. This would be marked by intense + nervousness, an inability to fix my attention upon any one thing, + and a great desire to have intercourse. An act of masturbation at + such a time would generally give relief. However, when I yielded + to this form of relief, there would always follow feelings of + profound self-reproach and of self-repugnance. Had I had + nocturnal emissions they might have relieved me; but, as I have + said before, they very rarely occurred. When, rarely, one did + occur I would be greatly frightened, for I had the old, erroneous + idea that they meant serious weakness and always ascribed them to + my bad habit. That my habit of masturbation had any relation to + the rarity of the involuntary emissions would, of course, be a + matter of pure conjecture. In passing from the discussion of + personal masturbation, I wish to say that my associations with + boys as a pupil and as a teacher lead me to believe that the + practice is practically universal. When discussing the hygienic + evils of prostitution with boy pupils I have noted that, whereas + not infrequently a boy will voluntarily protest that he has never + had intercourse, there has always been a significant silence when + masturbation is mentioned. I have never heard a boy make a + denial, direct or indirect, that he had indulged in the practice. + But it has seldom been a perversion. It has rather been, as in my + own case, an available means of relieving a sexual impulse. + + "During my college life I associated with many boys who had more + or less regular sexual relations with prostitutes or with girls + who were not virtuous. Their attitude toward the practice was an + immoral one. The ethical aspect of irregular sexual relations + never concerned them. It certainly did not concern me. What I + have learned through my conversations on the subject with my + pupils makes it evident to me that this is the common feeling of + most boys of the adolescent period. I think of two things which + operated strongly to prevent my entering into sexual relations + with girls during this period of my life. One was an esthetic + repugnance to the average prostitute. These are the women most + easily available to the youth whose sexual desires are developed. + I do not remember ever having seen an avowed prostitute who did + not seem repulsive to me. I confess to an inclination to + priggishness. I preferred to associate with people whom I called + 'nice people.' It was fortunate for me that I was thrown into the + society of a rather rough crowd of youths, who knocked a great + deal of this snobbishness out of me. But it did act to prevent my + having recourse to prostitution. A second preventive was my + natural timidity in making advances to people. This has been a + trait that I have never completely overcome. In my professional + life this has been some detriment to my advancement. In the + matter of sex relationship it tended to prevent my taking + advantage of association with and even of advances from girls + who, not prostitutes, were nevertheless not virtuous. There were + a number of such in the town and neighborhood in which I lived, + and I undoubtedly could have had sexual relations with them if I + had only been able to overcome my shyness. The desire was not + wanting. I really craved intercourse with them. It was simply a + matter of cowardice. There was one girl whom I knew very well, + with whom I was on friendly terms, who I knew had had sexual + relations with other boys. She showed, at times, a marked + preference for me, and I am sure would have welcomed any advances + that I should have made. A number of times I sought her company + with the intention of suggesting intercourse, but my resolution + always failed. + + "All through my college course I was much in the society of + girls. We were in class together, associated very freely in + society, frequently studied together. This is the most usual + state of things in the western part of our country. But they were + simply comrades: sex thoughts never arose in connection with such + association. And I am quite certain that this was the general + attitude of the other boys. Although the talk among the boy + students was at times, very frankly and crudely, about sexual + relations, no breath of scandal ever touched one of the college + girls. Again my experience as teacher and student brings a + conclusion that coeducation of the sexes does not affect, in one + way or the other, the strictly sexual life of the male student. A + very intimate friend who has had a varied experience in school + work has told me recently that his conclusions are the same. + + "When I was about 20 years old I became acquainted with a very + beautiful girl, four years my junior. Our acquaintance very + rapidly developed into deeper affection, and about five years + later we were married. During all this time very little of the + physical aspects of love entered into our attachment. My + sweetheart had much of the same shyness as was so pronounced in + my own character. For several years I think that the thought of + marriage was never distinctly present in our minds. A formal + betrothal between us did not take place until within a year and a + half of our marriage. Yet each of us had a very distinct + understanding of the feelings of the other. But until our + betrothal there were none of even those very innocent expressions + of endearment common, I imagine, to all lovers. I am sure that + during this period of our attachment no thought of any physical + relations between us was ever in my mind; or, at any rate, was + promptly banished if it occurred. Yet all this time my sex + desires were very strong and at times became an obsession. Never, + though, were they directed toward my sweetheart. The first time + that we engaged in the endearments and caresses allowed to lovers + I became conscious, after a time, of a state of sexual + excitement. I experienced an erection. It was absolutely reflex; + no thought had entered into it. I was at once overwhelmed with a + feeling of shame. I felt that I had been guilty of unthinkable + indecency toward my betrothed. Then there arose a fear that it + might be noticed. (Men at that time wore abominably tight + clothing.) As a matter of fact, I now know that there was no real + danger of this, for she was absolutely ignorant of the nature of + the male sexual organs. But I made a pretext for withdrawing from + the room and tried to adjust my clothing so that no exposure + could occur. I was fearful of coming into close proximity to her + again, lest there should be a recurrence of the feeling. As a + matter of fact it did occur a number of times, but my good sense + finally suggested the explanation and after a time it ceased to + trouble me. The thought was latent in my mind that sexual + excitement was necessarily more or less indecent at all times, + and I could not reconcile its manifestation with a pure love. + + "I have said that my sexual desire was strong. Up to the time of + marriage it was never gratified in the normal manner. My esthetic + abhorrence of prostitutes continued to prevent its gratification + in that manner. No other opportunity offered. I am positive that + moral considerations did not enter into the matter at all. I + think now that it was strange that the thought that it would be + disloyal to my promised wife to have connection with other women + did not affect me. But I am sure that it did not. I am inclined + to think that conscientious scruples very rarely enter into the + average young man's considerations of contemplated sexual + relations. + + "As the time of my marriage drew near, thoughts of the physical + relationship of husband and wife became, of course, more + insistent. The idea of establishing sexual relations was not at + all a pleasant one. I dreaded it as an ordeal. I wondered if it + would be possible for us to retain the same love and affection + for one another after such intimate relations were established. + This was a recurrence of the fallacious notion that there was + something inherently indecent in sexual things. I am in hopes + that other ideas are replacing this wrong one, in the minds of + the younger generation, as the result of the saner and franker + discussion of sex. By a great effort, I had practically stopped + masturbating. At times I felt almost maddened by desire. But + never did the prospect of marriage seem desirable from this point + of view. Up to the very day of our wedding my affection for my + betrothed seemed free from sexual desire. But my physical being + was craving sexual companionship. + + "Theoretically I knew a great deal of the nature of intercourse. + Practically I was absolutely ignorant. In some ways I was better + informed, on matters that a new husband should know, than the + average man entering the married life. A physician's library had + been at my disposal, and I had read somewhat extensively on + physiology and hygiene. My chosen lines of study had given me a + theoretical knowledge of the anatomy of the female genital organs + that was fairly thorough. I knew a little about the physiology of + reproduction and rather less of intercourse. Fortunately, I + learned in the course of my reading that the first sexual + approaches were likely to be quite painful to a woman, and that + great care should be exercised at this time. I tried to put into + practice what little I had learned in theory and I imagine that + we got through the introductory attempts with less than the + average difficulties. Our first efforts were not satisfactory to + either of us. My wife was absolutely unprepared so far as any + definite knowledge of the act was concerned. I sincerely hope + that the prudish notions of the past generations will give way to + more sensible views in the future, and that the girl becoming a + wife will be just as chaste, but wiser in matters of such + importance to her happiness. I presume that my timidity was a + valuable asset at this time; for I was afraid to force matters in + any way, and time and repeated attempts finally overcame our + difficulties. And when our sexual relations were once + established, the whole tenor of my life was changed. All the + former sexual unrest disappeared. My former feeling toward sexual + relations was altered. They no longer seemed that which, though + very desirable, was yet necessarily indecent. Fortunately, after + the first few weeks, they have been quite pleasurable to my wife. + I am sure that our sexual life since marriage has been a large + factor in deepening the love that has made our married life an + ideal one. As I look back at the first year of marriage, I wonder + that we got through it so well. My knowledge of sexual hygiene + was a strange mixture of fact and nonsense. If the frequency of + acts of intercourse advocated by some of the authorities I have + lately read is correct, then we must have passed the bounds of + moderation. But it is certain that our general health has been + very good: better in both cases than before marriage. + + "In reviewing these phases of the development of my sexual life, + one or two conclusions seem to me to be strongly emphasized. It + was unfortunate that the real sexual desire was aroused as early + and in the manner that it was. Whether this would have been + prevented by more definite education in the hygiene and the + purpose of the function, I can only conjecture. I believe that + mine was and is the common experience of boys. I am decidedly of + the opinion that there should be instruction given of the anatomy + of the genital organs and of the hygiene of intercourse, and this + shortly after the youth has reached puberty. How this is to be + done is a grave question. It will require tact and knowledge not + possessed by the average teacher and parent. However it is done, + it should be honest, frank, and free from piosity. + + "I am certain that, in my own case, rather frequent intercourse + is decidedly beneficial. Any prolonged abstinence always brings + about the same nervous disturbances that I have referred to + above. It is fortunate for me that this repetition of the act is + satisfactory to both concerned." + + + HISTORY XVIII.--E.W., dentist, aged 32, of New England Puritan + stock. Height, 5 ft. 101/2 in.; weight, 144 lbs. Spare and active, + of nervobilious temperament. + + "My earliest recollection is being punished for 'playing with + myself' when I could not have been more than 3 or 4 years of age. + I distinctly remember my exultation on discovering that I could + excite myself (while my hands were tied behind my back for + punishment) by rubbing my small but erect penis against the + carpet while lying on my stomach. At this time, of course, I knew + nothing of sex or of what I was doing. I did what my desires and + instincts at that time prompted me to do. However, punishments + and lectures failed utterly to break up this habit, and, though I + always wished and tried faithfully to obey my parents, I soon + grew to indulge quietly in bed when I was thought to be asleep. + The matter apparently passed out of the minds of my parents as + soon as they ceased to detect me further in the act, and they + regarded it as abandoned. I now feel reasonably certain that this + precocity was due to an adherent foreskin which covered the glans + tightly almost to the meatus, and so kept up a continual + irritation. + + "I have no recollection that anyone ever taught me the habit, and + I know beyond a doubt that no one ever learned of the habit or + even a word as to the possibility of autoexcitement through word + or deed of mine. My recollection of the sensations is that there + was a short period of excitation, usually by rubbing, which was + not particularly, often not at all, pleasurable, and this was + followed by a single thrill of pleasure that extended all over + my little body. The curious thing was, however, that there seemed + to be no limit to the number of times I could consecutively + produce this sensation. My recollection is perfectly clear of how + I would lie in bed of a morning and thus excite myself time after + time. As I grew older this condition, of course, changed. + Masturbation was not a consuming passion with me at this or any + other time. I enjoyed it and felt that in it I had a means of + entertainment when other sources of enjoyment were not at hand. + + "By the time I was 6 or 7 I had figured out the difference in sex + in animals and suspected that 'all was not as it should be' in + some portions of a girl's anatomy. This suspicion was suddenly + confirmed one never-to-be-forgotten morning, when I induced my + dearest playmate, a little girl, to urinate in my presence. I was + more thunderstruck than excited over this discovery, and it led + to no results in any other way, nor did we ever again unveil + ourselves to each other. At this time I began to learn from the + older boys the pitiful, childish vulgarities and common terms of + sex, and to invent and exchange rhymes and stories that were + pathetic in their attempts at vulgarity. + + "At the age of 11 a buxom servant-girl threw out some vague hints + to me,--I was very tall for my age,--and tried to induce me to + take liberties with her, at least to the extent of telling her + vulgar stories, but I would not rise to the lure. I believe that + the thing which held me in check was fear of discovery by my + parents and the consequent humiliation. A short time previous to + this my father had enlightened me as to the means and manner of + reproduction and had encouraged me to talk to him and to my + mother on such subjects rather than with anyone else. I think + this had a great influence for good, as it made me feel that I + had some authoritative knowledge and that I was trusted by my + parents. My determination not to prove entirely unworthy of their + trust has been the anchor that has held through all the storms + and temptations of youth and young manhood. + + "About the age of puberty I began to long for more realistic + experiences and tried through a period of a year or so the + disgusting experiments of intercourse with animals, using hens + and a cow for this purpose. Details are of no importance, and I + spare myself their repetition. My better nature or general mental + development soon overcame my desires in this direction, and the + practice was abandoned. + + "With the dawning of the power of emission I noticed that the + adherent foreskin before alluded to, which had never been + examined during all these years (as I had discovered that I was + different from other boys and so was shy about exposing myself), + began to trouble me by being painful during erections. + Accordingly I took a buttonhook and tore all the adhesions loose. + A very painful though ultimately entirely satisfactory + operation! + + "(I may mention in this connection that my two sons were + afflicted with adherent foreskins to such an extent as to render + circumcision necessary a few days after birth, in order that the + function of urination might become fully established.) + + "As my powers developed I had my first wet dream at about the age + of 15, and was much surprised thereat. My father, however, told + me not to be alarmed and soothed my anxious fears, which were + easily aroused by my guilty feelings on account of my habit of + masturbation, in which I still indulged from one to three times a + week. + + "Between the ages of 12 and 17 my father had the good judgment to + require a large amount of active outdoor labor from me, as well + as sending me to excellent schools. Certain kinds of study had a + distinct effect upon the sexual organs, namely, difficult Latin + and German translations and problems in fractions. I considered + at the time that it was because my mind wandered from the subject + I was studying. Now I am perfectly sure it was because my mind + focused on the subject I was studying. At any rate the fact + existed, and when alone in my room, wrestling with a knotty + problem, I used almost as a rule to keep myself in the most + violent state of erection for long periods--an hour or + so--sometimes ending with an emission, but more often I forced + myself to forego this climax through fear of overindulgence. + During these years my curiosity as to the exact nature of the + female organs was something terrible, and I wasted many hours and + much ingenuity in the attempt to surreptitiously gratify it. My + perseverance in the face of failure along this line was surely + worthy of a nobler cause. + + "I was much in the society of girls of my own age or older during + these years and until I was 19. I found with them a keen and + entirely pure and wholesome enjoyment utterly separate and apart + from the desires and indulgences which I have been describing. I + never cared for any girl who was 'forward' or in any way + unladylike, and the idea of taking any undue liberties with any + of my youthful sweethearts was as remote from my thoughts as a + trip to the moon. Perhaps I can say this better and more + distinctly by stating that I would be perfectly willing to have + my wife know of, or my boys repeat, any action that I ever took + with any woman. + + "I spent my spare time in their society and lavished upon my girl + companions every cent I could spare, but had no thought of + immediate sex desire or gratification. At the age of 17 I went as + an apprentice in my present profession of dentistry. Whenever it + became necessary for me, in assisting at the operating chair, to + touch a lady's hair or face, I would be seized with the utmost + confusion and could with difficulty control my hands so that they + did not tremble. This soon wore off as I came to a realization of + the true professional spirit and attitude toward all patients, + and, needless to say, has now become a matter of the utmost + indifference to me. + + "From 19 to 22 I attended a professional school in a large city, + remote from my home, where I was an utter stranger. During these + years I devoted myself to my professional studies and to music + with much diligence. I took an active part in all student life + and problems save only that of the 'eternal feminine.' + + "Frequently I have been out with a crowd of 'the boys' when they + headed for a brothel, and have been the only one to turn back or + to remain on the sidewalk as the door closed behind my last + companion. I say this not in self-praise, but in the same spirit + of accuracy which has prompted me to put down everything + concerning this greatest mystery of our natures as I have + experienced it and worked it out. + + "It was during these three years at school that I placed upon + myself the most stringent and effective curbs to my sex nature. I + somehow never could 'get my own consent' to go to a brothel or + stay with a 'soiled dove,' for I had by this time firmly resolved + that I would bring to my wife, whoever she might turn out to be, + a clean body at least. I limited myself in my autoexcitement to + one emission a week and on one or two occasions went two weeks + without inducing an emission. Spontaneous nocturnal emissions + were quite common during these years. I cannot state just how + frequent they were, but perhaps one a week would be a fair + average. + + "Shortly after graduation at the age of 22 I became engaged to + the woman who is now my wife. (She was 17 at the time of our + engagement, brunette, well developed, and with a wisdom and charm + that have held me a willing captive for ten years and no prospect + of escape!) + + "With our engagement began for each of us that divine and + mysterious unfolding of the nature of one to the nature of the + other. Our engagement lasted two years and a half and, ignorant + as we both were, I am sure that it was none too long. Never shall + I forget the surprise I felt--to say nothing of the delight--when + I discovered that my sweetheart was as anxious to find out the + uttermost facts about me as I was to explore the divine mystery + of her sweet body. + + "We lived in different towns and I used to spend Sundays at her + home. I slept in a room adjoining that occupied by my betrothed + and a friend. There was a transom with clear glass over the door + which connected these two rooms, and to have stood upon the foot + of the bed and looked through this transom would have been the + easiest thing in the world, and was such an opportunity as I + would have given years of my life to have obtained in my + adolescence; but now that the chance was afforded me to freely + spy upon the chamber of my future bride my soul revolted, for the + feeling was upon me that not until it was revealed to me because + she could no longer bear to keep it concealed from me would I + look upon the blessed vision of her maiden loveliness. Nor was I + disappointed, for gradually we became acquainted with each + other's bodies, and this gradual unveiling of each to the other + led, during the last months of our engagement, to mutual manual + manipulations, excitement and gratification. Intercourse did not + take place until the second night after our marriage, and our + first baby was born nine months and three days after our + marriage, though my wife was ten days past the cessation of her + period at the time of my first entering. + + "Since marriage I have made it my first duty to study my wife's + inclinations and desires with regard to our sexual relations, and + can say that now, after seven years of married life, and after + she has borne me two sons, we are enjoying a fullness of + happiness that neither of us would have believed possible during + the first year of our married life. + + "I have found that the woman must have the entire charge of the + time and number of approaches in a week or month, and that when + she is for any reason disinclined to the sexual act the husband + must keep away, no matter how he feels about the matter. Also the + man must be sure that his wife reaches the orgasm or is at the + point of it before he allows himself to 'let go.' + + "Our meetings have averaged eight or nine a month. During the + latter months of pregnancy they were _nil_, and in the month + following an enforced separation of several weeks they were + fourteen. We have never tried nor had the slightest curiosity to + know how far we could indulge ourselves. + + "For myself I seem to demand a gratification of the sexual desire + rather oftener than my wife, and when I feel I cannot get a good + night's rest without first being relieved of my seminal burden, + while at the same time my wife is disinclined to the sexual act, + I have her perform manual manipulation until relief is effected. + Mind, I say _relief_, for the emission gives me very little + pleasure under these circumstances, but it does give _relief_. In + my present health I find I cannot sleep well if I go over more + than two nights without an emission. My wife understands my + condition, and is entirely willing to assist me in this way when + she feels she cannot give me the gratification which I crave. We + have come to see sex matters as they are, and respect and + reverence have taken the place of ignorance and fear. + + "To sum up, owing to lack of circumcision the sex instinct + developed too soon and out of all proportion during my early + youth. I cannot see that masturbation has ever had the slightest + bad effect upon my health or mental state (except as I was + constantly loathing myself more or less for being unable to stop + it). + + "The husband must subordinate himself to the wife in order to + obtain the highest good and pleasure of both. + + "I have always been successful in my undertakings. Stood at the + head of my class at school, and in my professional work graduated + with highest honors. I have a memory for prose or verse that is + the cause of envy to many of my friends. The facts here set down + are recorded in the interest of advancing study along this most + important but neglected and ignored line. That they have been + truthfully recorded without favor to the black or light on the + white is my sincere belief." + + + HISTORY XIX.--E.B. Parents sound; strong constitution in mother, + moderately so in father; vigorous and healthy, but of refined + nature. Breast-milk for six months. + + "_Age 4-5_. Took great delight in the little waterworks. Severely + punished for this. Interest in the parts morbidly increased + thereby. + + "_Age 5_. Earliest recollection of 'counter-erection'--the penis + shrinking tensely into itself, producing local and general + discomfort. This resulted from certain kinds of + _mauvaise-honte_,--having to kiss aged persons, having officious + help at micturition, bathing, dressing, etc., which caused a sort + of physical disgust. Toward puberty the experience grew rare. One + such occasion was at about eighteen, when solicited on the street + by a prostitute. The very _idea_ of homosexual relations produces + it. It would appear to be a powerful safeguard against + promiscuous sex relations. I have met two men subject to the same + thing, and have heard of one woman subject to something + analogous. It might be called a nausea of the 'nether heart' in + Georg Hirth's phrase. + + "_Age 6-7_. Earliest recollection of erection. Unprovoked at + first. A disposition to _punish_ the organ and satisfaction in + doing so. From this time erection took place whenever it was + thought about. + + "_Age 10_. Present at a discussion in the playground about the + best way of intercourse, which I heard of for the first time. + This was followed by enlightenment on the source of children. + Concluded it must be very painful to both parties. 'Just the + other way,' I was told. But the idea of pain to the genitals was + 'interesting' to me. Pain felt by the other sex was + 'interesting.' Pained looks captivated me--I liked to imagine + some mysterious trouble; and, as I learned more, 'female + complaints' interested me greatly in their subjects. I got a + 'grateful pang' at the pit of the stomach at the thought, but + neither erection nor the opposite. This hypogastric feeling has + continued to associate itself with certain sexual impressions. + The thought of a _woman mortifying herself_ later on excited me + sexually. Once, pulling a stay-string for fun (my wife never + laced) gave me a powerful and quite unexpected erection. + + "_Age 12_. A girl visitor of the same age got me talking about + the genitals, and at bedtime came and proposed coitus. We failed + to manage it. The vulva stripped back the foreskin, which was a + voluptuous feeling; then we were alarmed by something and + separated. I never saw her again. She too liked to 'punish' her + vulva. She put whole pepper in it, and advised me to use the + same. I continued greatly excited when she had gone; the hand + flew to the phallus and worried it, and orgasm came on at + once--the childish orgasm consisting of well-spaced spasms of the + ejaculators, without the poignant preliminary nisus of the adult + orgasm. There was no reaction or depression, except that the + phallus--which did not subside at once--was painful to touch. A + week or so later I tried again, but failed. A month later, being + more excited, I succeeded. I found that I could only compass it + about once in three weeks. There were no emissions. I used to + have a spontaneous mental image of a small Grecian temple in a + sunny park, which charmed me, and I had no scruples. + + "_Age 12-13_. Masturbated once or twice a month. + + "_Age 13-14_. Was sent to a small public school, where it + happened that a very good tone prevailed. I learned that + masturbation was bad form and unmanly. The proper thing was to + save one's self up for women--at about 18. I dropped the practice + easily, in spite of indulging my imagination about coitus. I + thought of the initiation with prostitutes at 18, with the mixed + feelings that even the most combative soldier must regard the + fray. The hypogastric feeling above referred to would come + on--which I liked and disliked at the same time. The first + occasion on which I remember this feeling was when I got my first + braces. Anything that harped on my sex produced it. Every time I + received the sacrament, which I was forced to do very young, I + repented of my intention of whoring at 18--as a man 'must' + do--and afterward I relapsed to the expectation. Religion was a + great reality to me, but it did not produce the radical effect + that the development of the romantic sentiment did later on. + (Both my wife and I became free-thinkers at about 30.) + + "_Age 15-17_. Read poetry and romance. Conceived a high ideal of + faithfulness and constancy. What a mockery all this loyalty is, I + said to myself, if a man has stultified it beforehand. That was + no mere castle-building. I had not understood what I was about in + expecting to whore. The critical feelings were now awakening, and + what they produced was revulsion against the abuse of sex, which + got stronger every year. It became plain that there would be no + whoring or the like for me; I was far too proud and fastidious. I + neglected my tasks, which were uncongenial, and read a great deal + of anatomy and physiology, which stood me in good stead later. As + I rose in the school I was surprised to find the tone worse, but + quite at the top it was better again, and with my latest + companions sex was never even mentioned. At 14 I had a friend who + importuned me to come into his bed, but I never would get under + his bedclothes, for the male sex repels me powerfully in personal + contact; he began to talk of masturbation, and now I can + understand what he was aiming at. But my day-dreams of nymphs and + dryads kept me in a state of perpetual tension, and erection was + very frequent. The early morbid admiration of delicate women + became replaced by admiration of health and strength combined + with grace. + + "_Age 17-18_. I was given a cubicle in which my neighbor on the + right masturbated noisily two or three times a week, and the one + on the left every night, using intermittent friction to drag it + out longer. One night, kneeling at my bedside, saying prayers, my + attention was divided between these and the occupation of my + neighbor, when, after not having masturbated for four years,--the + critical years of development,--the hand flew to the phallus and + + "'pulses pounding through palms and trembling + encircling fingers' + + "procured, in Walt Whitman's language, + + "'the wholesome relief,--repose, content.' + + "I slept well and had a sense of elation at the proof of manhood, + for we boys were anxious about whether we secreted semen or not. + The sexual obsession was tempered, and about three weeks later I + had my first 'pollution'--the 'angel of the night,' as Mantegazza + with better sense calls it. From that time on I had pollutions + every two or three weeks, with dreams sometimes of masturbation + or of nymphs, or quite irrelevant matters. For a time these gave + me perfect relief; then my 'dilectatio morosa' began to grow + again, and the phallus would become so sensitive that working + about on the belly would liberate the orgasm. + + "_Age 18-19_. I had kept on persuading myself I was not + masturbating--avoiding the use of the hand--but now I dropped + this pretense, and frankly conceded the need to myself. I got + done with it in a peremptory way and thought no more of it. I had + no evil effects, moral or physical, and my mother would often + compliment me on my bright appearance the morning after. At that + time the appetite matured every seven to ten days, and, though I + dreaded the idea of slavery to it, it would have been very hard + to forego it. Headaches, which had begun to plague me from + puberty on, grew rarer. Pollutions occurred in between, but were + less effectual. I had up to this point accepted the incidental + pleasure under a sort of protest; but now I got over that too and + I allowed what I would prefer to call an idio-erotism (rather + than an auto-erotism) its way, always picturing beautiful nymphs + to myself. Surroundings of natural beauty moved me to this kind + of reverie, partly perhaps because I had once secretly observed a + lad basking naked on the sandy beach and toying with himself. + The recollection is wholly unsullied to me. Happening on one + occasion to check the stimulation about two-thirds way to orgasm, + I experienced a miniature orgasm like the childish one, but with + no declension of the tumescence, and I was able to repeat this + maneuver several times before the full orgasm. This I later + practised in _Coitus prolongatus_--giving the partner time to + come up. I had already got into the way of poising the feeling on + its climax. The ejaculator reflex, being habituated to this, + seems to set in with its throbs when the maneuver is simulated, + though no semen has yet been poured into the bulbous portion for + the ejaculators to act upon. If this play be broken off before + the critical spasm--as in the American 'Karezza,' etc.--there is + no perceptible reaction, though an unsatisfied feeling remains. + But when the act proceeds to emission and the poignant + _undercurrent_ of feeling sets in that ushers the ejaculation and + may only last two to five seconds, it makes all the difference, + and constitutional signs appear--perspiration, etc. This leads to + the question whether the critical sensation specially involves + the sympathetic nervous system? Up to that point the process is + under control, but then automatic. + + "An observation of practical importance to me at that time was + this: I awoke in the morning after a pollution at night, with an + acute headache of a specific kind, and erection. This had + happened before, after pollution, and the erection suggested to + me whether 'a hair of the dog that bit me' might not prove + beneficial. As the excitation proceeded, the pain in the head was + directly drained away, as if I were drawing it out. Other pain is + also relieved for the moment, such as neuralgia, but to return + soon with interest. This, however, was specific and pure benefit. + The next time I got a bad headache of this character, without + preceding pollution, I tried the remedy, at about 10 A.M. The + semen was copious and watery, and the relief was marked, but in + an hour's time the headache returned. I had never repeated the + act at short interval, i.e., while the organs were under the + influence of a previous act, and now I tried the effect of that. + The second emission was also profuse, but much thicker, and the + relief much greater. In about three hours the headache was, + however, again intolerable, and, the connection being now clear, + I ventured on a third act, which proved to be the most voluptuous + I had so far experienced, the nisus being far more intense. The + semen was copious, but thick and ropy, with lumps as large as + small peas that could scarcely be crushed with the finger, and + yellow in color and rank in odor. After that I was perfectly well + and kept so. (The urethra was blocked so that I could with + difficulty stroke the masses out.) Later I have examined such + semen microscopically and found the spermatozoa dead and + disintegrating. My period in my best years--21 to 48--was twice + a week, the odd number being an inconvenience, and I have since + endeavored to avoid accumulations, emptying the receptacles on + the fourth day, when I remembered the interval, even if the + organs did not remind me. On the fifth day headache would + otherwise appear and perhaps two acts be needful, or, if I forgot + about it for a week, three acts running. That I did not abuse the + function the fact proves that every year I would forget about it + two to three times and have to resort to this drastic mode.[230] + But there is quite a different headache that follows on + indulgence during convalescence or when the system is otherwise + much lowered. Railway traveling greatly accentuates the need with + me; also riding. Girls aroused no physical desire, though I + chiefly sought their society, and even after the genital tension + was so pronounced, up to 20, I was troubled by the fact that + women did not affect me sexually. About this time a buxom girl I + liked and who liked me vehemently laid her hand on my arm, in + trying to persuade me to give up shooting. The phallus leaped + simultaneously. That was my first _sexual_ experience--the proof + that the _nexus_ was established between the genital mechanism + and the complex of feeling we call sexual. + + "_Age 24_. At this age I went to stay at a house where there were + two very pretty girls. I at once lost my heart to the elder, + L.B., as she did to me (strong constitution, but refined nature; + parents sound; brought up in the country; eleven months' + breast-milk). 'What a mother she will make,' I said to myself. + Now began a time of the spiritual and physical communion that I + had pictured to myself.... + + "I am 60 now; she is 57. We are still like lovers. No; not _like_ + lovers; we _are_ lovers. Of course, I do not mean to imply that + sexual impressions have preponderated in our life, as they do in + this account. Quite the contrary. We are both strong and, + according to all accounts, unusually well preserved. We are very + temperate. Since 48 I notice a gradual decline of the erotic + propensity. It is now once in five or seven days. Since the + menopause her propensity has declined markedly, but it is not + extinct, and she delights as much as ever in my delight. She + began to menstruate at 12, was regular till 17; then got + chlorotic for a few months, soon recovered, though menstruation + was often irregular, but never painful. Sexual experience began + at 25. I have often wondered if a moderate self-gymnastic of the + faculty, in Venturi's sense, would not have educated her genital + sphere, and made her a still better comrade--excluded the periods + of irregularity and frigidity. The stage of latency was too + protracted. We often noticed that, when menstruation was due or + nearly so, prolonged love-sports at bedtime would be followed by + menstruation in the morning. We never were separated for longer + than three months, and on that occasion, menstruation being + delayed, she tried what masturbation would do to determine it, + and with a positive result. My need, though less, is as + imperative as ever. Seminal headaches--as I would call them--have + ceased since 50; the accumulation only produces muddleheadedness. + But I have not suffered accumulation over ten to at most twelve + days. The quantity of semen is also less. The sensibility of the + corpora has declined much; that of the glans is unimpaired. + Erection is good. Orgasm takes two to four minutes to provoke, + against forty to fifty seconds when young; it is in some respects + even more enjoyable--perhaps less intense, but much more + prolonged. I have no reaction from indulgence. But I never press + it; it always presses me. For overaccumulation, with headache or + muddleheadedness, the wifely hand is more efficacious than the + vulva. Even the most vivid dream of coitus fails to compass the + orgasm now. The peripheral stimulus is essential. + + "In our case physical and psychical intensity of emotion have + gone hand in hand. I have become specialized to one woman, + despite an erotic endowment certainly not meager. The pervasive + fragrance makes one adore the whole sex, but my wife does not + interpret this homage in a sexually promiscuous sense. We both + agree in the principle that if one cannot hold the affection of + the other there is no title to it. Tarde says that constancy in + love is rarely anything but a voyage of discovery round the + beloved object. I am perpetually making fresh discoveries. But + her constancy, I mean the high level of her passion, is + independent of discoveries." + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[230] "A practical question arising out of the foregoing is whether such +semen should be committed to the vagina? Its presence is known to me by +constitutional symptoms (toxic). It is the last to be expelled, and its +degenerate germ-cells have no chance against those of the normal fluid +deposited in preceding acts, supposing that to be retained. But it may +well happen that the prior emissions only reach the pouch, whereas the +last is injected into the womb itself. I have frequently had the sense of +the orifices of meatus and cervix matching directly, especially when she +had powerful orgasm (including two conceptions), and of the semen being +sucked from me rather than occluded in its exit, as also happens, +requiring me to relax the urge a little. At 18 to 19 the semen of a +'pollution' has left tender red patches where it dried on the neighboring +skin, and deep straw-colored stains in the linen." + + + + +INDEX OF AUTHORS. + +Abu-l-Faraj +Acton, W. +Adler, O. +Adlerz +Aguilaniedo +Aldrich +Allen, G.W. +Alonzi +Aly-Belfadel +Amand, St. +Andrews, W. +Angell +Arndt, R. +Avebury, Lord + +Bach, G. +Baker, Smith +Ballet +Balls-Headley +Bancroft, H.H. +Bantock +Baretti +Barrus, Clara +Bartels, Max +Beaunis +Bechterew +Bell, Sanford +Benecke, E.F.M. +Bernard, P. +Bernelle +Blackwell, E. +Bladon, J. +Blagden +Bloch +Bloch, Iwan +Bloom +Blumroeder +Boerhaave +Bohn, G. +Bonstetten +Booth, D.S. +Bos, C. +Bossard +Bouchereau +Bourneville +Brantome +Bray +Brehm +Breitenstein +Bridgman, W.G. +Brierre de Boismont +Browne, W.A.F. +Brunfels +Bryan, D. +Buechner +Burckhardt, J.L. +Burdach +Burk, F.L. +Burton, Robert +Burton, Si: R. +Buscalioni +Busch, D.W.H. +Butler, A.G. + +Cabanes +Cabanis +Calmann +Campbell, Harry +Cannon, W. +Capgras +Casanova +Catullus +Cellini +Ceni +Cervantes +Chapman, G. +Christian +Clark, Campbell +Clarke, E.D. +Cleland +Clement of Alexandria +Clerambault +Clevenger +Clouston +Coelius Aurelianus +Coleridge +Colin +Collas +Colman, W.A. +Coltman +Congreve +Cook, F. +Cook, J. +Cooke, Kev. 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Cronwright +Schrenck-Notzing +Schroeter +Schultz +Schultze-Malkowsky +Schurig +Scott, Colin +Seligmann +Selous, Edmund +Senancour +Serieux +Sergi +Shakespeare +Shattock +Shaw, Claye +Shufeldt +Sinibaldus +Skeat +Smith, Lapthorn +Smith, W. Robertson +Smyth, Brough +Sollier +Spallanzani +Spencer, Baldwin +Spencer, Herbert +Spitzka +Spix +Starbuck +Stcherbak +Stearns +Stefanowsky +Steinach, E. +Stendhal, De +Stevens +Stevens, H.V. +Struempell +Stubbs +Sully +Sutherland, A. +Swieten, Van + +Tait, Lawson +Tambroni +Tarchanoff +Tarde +Tate, H.R. +Tautain +Taylor, Jeremy +Tchlenoff +Tertullian +Thoinot +Thomas, N. +Thomas, P. +Thompson +Tillier +Tilt +Tolstoy +Townsend, J. +Treves, Marco +Trousseau +Tschisch +Turley +Turnbull, J. +Tylor + +Vahness +Vambery +Vatsyayana +Vedeler +Velten +Venette +Vespucci, Amerigo +Vincent, Swale +Voisin + +Wallace, A.R. +Wallaschek +Waller, E. +Walsingham +Weismann +Weissenberg +Wesche, W. +Wessmann, Rev. R. +Westermarck +Wiedemann +Weysse +Williams, Montagu +Williams, W. Roger +Winckel +Windscheid +Wittenberg +Wolbarst +Wollstonecraft, Mary + +Yellowlees + +Zacchia +Zambaco +Ziegler, H.E. +Ziehen +Zmigrodski + + + + +INDEX OF SUBJECTS. + +Abduction of women in Great Britain +Abstinence in women, + effects of sexual +Adolescence, + criminality and +Adolescent girls, + sexual manifestations in +Adrenal glands +Africa, + marriage by capture in + sexual instinct in +_Agelena labyrinthica_ +Ainu, + love-bite among +Algolagnia + ideal +Algophily +Amblyopia, + post-marital +American Indians, + courtship among + sexual instinct in +Ampallang +Anaesthesia in women, + sexual + a cause of sterility + causes of +Anger and sexual emotion +Anhedonia +Anxiety as a sexual stimulant +Ardisson +Argus pheasant, courtship of +Aristotle as a masochist +Arrest of movement producing sexual excitement +Ascetic attitude toward women, the +Assaults on children by women, + sexual +Australians, + courtship among + sexual instinct in +Auto-intoxication by muscular movement +Auto-sadism + +Bambula dance +Bathory, Countess +Bedouins, + marriage by capture among +Bertrand, Sergeant +Birds, + sexual impulse in +Bismarck, + traces of masochism in +Biting in relationship to sexual instinct +Bladder and sexual organs, + relationship between +Blood, + the fascination of +Borneo, + use of ampallang in +Brazil, + courtship in +Bullying + +Capture, + marriage by +Castration +Cerebellum as a sexual center +Cerebral sexual centers, + alleged +Chained, + the idea of being +Chastity among savages +China, + marriage ceremony in +Chinese eunuchs +Chinese hedgehog +Christianity and women +Church and flagellation, the +Coitus, + mechanism of + compared to epilepsy + often sacred among savages +Combat and courtship +Contrectation +Courtship +Cow-birds, + courtship of +Crime as a manifestation of adolescence +Criminality in relation to marriage +Cruelty among animals + in human beings +Cymri, + marriage customs of + +Dancing in relation to sexual impulse +Dancing among Australians + the most usual method of attaining tumescence + why it acts so powerfully on the organism +Day-dreams, erotic +Degenerative conditions on sexual desire, + influence of +_Dendryphantes elegans_ +Detumescence, + impulse of +Diffusion of sexual impulse in women +Discipline, the +Disgust as a sexual stimulant +Divorce in relation to sexual difference in the suicide-rate +Doraphobia +Dreams of struggling horses + erotic +Drunkenness in relation to marriage +Ducks, + courtship among +Ductless glands + +Eider-ducks, + courtship of +Ejaculation, + premature +Emotion aroused by pain +Ephesian matron, the +Epilepsy and micturition + analogy between coitus +Erotic symbolism +Erotisation +Eskimos, + marriage by capture among + sexual instinct in +Esthetic sense of animals, + alleged +Estrus +Eunuchs, + sexual impulse in +Evacuation theory of sexual impulse +Excess in intercourse not injurious to women +Exercise, the intoxication of muscular +Exhibitionism, a cause of + +Faroe Islanders, + courtship among. +Fatigue +Fear as a sexual stimulant +Fetichism +Fetters, + the fascination of +Flagellation +Frigidity, + in women, sexual + a cause of sterility +Frog, + sexual instinct of +Fuegians, + sexual instinct in +Funerals as a sexual stimulant +Fur, + fascination of + +Gelding, + sexual impulse in +Genital sphere larger in women +Geskel +_Glandulae vesiculares_ +Goethe's masochism +Gonorrhoea in young boys +Greek antiquity, love in +Grief as a sexual stimulant +Griselda +Gurus, + courtship among + +Hanging and sexual excitement +Head hunting +_Helix aspersa_ +Hemothymia +Hormones +_Horror feminae_ normal in absence of sexual impulse +Horses, + sexual perversion in + sexual excitement produced by spectacle of +Hungary, + masochism in +Hunger, + analogy between sexual impulse and +Hyperhedonia +Hyphedonia +Hypnotic suggestions and frigidity + +Impregnation in relation to tumescence +Impulse, + definition of sexual +India, + courtship in + sexual instinct in +Indians, + courtship among American + sexual instinct among American +Indonesian peoples, + use of ampallang, etc., among +Insanity, + in relation to marriage + in relation to sexual instinct +Instinct, + definition of +Internal secretions +Intoxication, + the fascination of + of muscular movement +Inversion, + associated with masochism + +Jealousy among savages +Jew, + sexual impulse in + +Kaffirs, + courtship among +Kambion +Kirghiz, + marriage by capture among +Kiss, + origin of + +Lactation, + no intercourse among some savages during +Laughter and the sexual sphere +_Leistes superciliaris_ +Love-bite, the +Love-songs rare among savages +Lycanthropy + +Malays, + coitus among + courtship among + sexual instinct in +_Mantis religiosa_ +Maoris, + marriage by capture among + sexual instinct in +Marquesans, + courtship among + sexual instinct in +Marriage by capture + in relation to suicide + in relation to insanity and criminality +Marsh-bird, + courtship of +Masochism among Slav women + definition of + its psychological mechanism +Masturbation in women +Menopause, sexual impulse after +Menstruation and sexual impulse +Micturition and sexual impulse +Mixoscopia, + hysterical +Modesty among savages + object of + obsessions of +_Molothrus bonariensis_ +Moluccas, + courtship in +Monogamy, + its advantages for men +Mortality connected with the development of the sexual instinct +Moslems, + coitus among +Moths, + courtship of +Motion, + the pleasure of + arrest of +Muscular movement, + auto-intoxication by +Music, + sexual influence of + +Necrophilism +Necrosadism +Negresses not jealous +Negro eunuchs +Negroes, + sexual instinct in +Neurasthenia, sexual +New Caledonia, + courtship in +New Guinea, + courtship in +New Hebrides, + courtship in +New Mexico, + courtship in +New Zealand, + marriage by capture in +Nubia, + eunuchs in + +Obsessions, + sexual +Octopus, + courtship of +Odour, + excitation by +Oneida community +Ooephorectomy and sexual impulse +Orgasm lasts longer in women +Ostrich, + courtship of +Ovariotomy and sexual impulse +Ovary, + secretions of +Ox, + sexual impulse in + +Pain the essential element in algolagnia +Palang +Papuans, + courtship among + sexual instinct in +Parturition sometimes painless +Passivism +Passivity of women only apparent +Penis in lower animals, + peculiarities of +Periodicity of sexual impulse among savages + greater in women +_Pitangus Bolivianus_ +Pleasure, + in what sense pain may be felt as + its manifestations resemble those of pain +Plover, + dances of great +Power in sexual sphere, + love of +Precocity of women, + sexual +Pregnancy, + savages often avoid intercourse during +_Probenaechte_ +Procreation among savages, + sacredness of +Pro-estrum +Prostitutes' love of _souteneur_ +Prostitution not found under primitive conditions +Puberty in girls, + sexual manifestations at + +Rais, Gilles de +_Rana temporaria_ +Rape and sadism +Rat, + sexual instinct of white +Reeves and ruffs +Reflex action, + instinct and +Reidal +Religious flagellation +Religious storm and stress in women +Reproductive impulse, + alleged +Respiration in connection with sexual emotion +Responsibility of Sadists +Rome, + eunuchs in ancient +Rosseau's masochism +Russia, + masochism in + +Sacher-Masoch +Sacredness of procreation among savages +Sade, De +Sadism + definition of + its psychological mechanism + responsibility in + often combined with masochism + ideal +_Saitis pulex_ +Savages, + sexual erethism in + dancing among + sexual impulse weak in +Sea-gulls, + courtship among +Secondary sexual characters +Seminal receptacles of frogs +Seminal vesicles + functions of +Senegal, + courtship in +Sensibility of genital sphere in women +Sensory acuteness in women +Sexual cerebral centers, + hypothetical +Sexual impulse, + definition of +Sexual incompetence, + prevalence of +Sexual selection, + psychological aspects of +Sexual season +Shaftesbury's supposed masochism +Shoe-fetichism +Sicily, courtship in + love-bite in +Slavery, erotic +Slavs, + courtship customs of + masochism among +Slug, + courtship of +Smell, + stimulation of +Snails, + sexual process in +Social class and sexual feeling +Soleilland +Song of birds, + sexual significance of +_Spadones_ +Spain, + flagellation in +Spiders, + courtship of +Sprit-sail yard +Stabbers +Sterility, + absence of sexual desire in women as a cause of +Stone-curlew, + dances of +Storm and stress in women, + religious +Strangle, + the impulse to +Subjection in women, + sexual +Suckling, + compared to sexual act + no intercourse among some savages during +Suicide, + divorce and +Sumatra, + courtship in +Suspension and sexual excitement +Swinging and sexual excitement +Symbolism, + erotic + +Taboo, + sexual +Tahitians, + courtship among +Teasing +_Telum veneris_ +_Thlasiae_ +_Thlibiae_ +Torture, + the attraction of +Tumescence +Turcomans, + marriage by capture among +Tyrant-bird, + courtship of + +Urination in relation to sexual excitement + +Vacher +Vampirism +Variation in sexual impulse greater in women +Venereal disease in the young +Vesicles, + function of seminal + +Waltz, + origin of the +Warens, Mme. de +Werwolf +Whipping in relation to the sexual emotions +Women-stabbers +Wrestling combats + +Zooesadism +Zulus, + courtship among + + + +***END OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, +VOLUME 3 (OF 6)*** + + +******* This file should be named 13612.txt or 13612.zip ******* + + +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: +https://www.gutenberg.org/dirs/1/3/6/1/13612 + + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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