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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + + + + +Title: Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 6 (of 6) + +Author: Havelock Ellis + +Release Date: October 8, 2004 [eBook #13615] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + + +***START OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, +VOLUME 6 (OF 6)*** + + +E-text prepared by Juliet Sutherland and the Project Gutenberg Online +Distributed Proofreading Team (https://www.pgdp.net) + + + +STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, VOLUME VI + + Sex in Relation to Society + +by + +HAVELOCK ELLIS + +1927 + + + + + + + +PREFACE. + +In the previous five volumes of these _Studies_, I have dealt mainly with +the sexual impulse in relation to its object, leaving out of account the +external persons and the environmental influences which yet may powerfully +affect that impulse and its gratification. We cannot afford, however, to +pass unnoticed this relationship of the sexual impulse to third persons +and to the community at large with all its anciently established +traditions. We have to consider sex in relation to society. + +In so doing, it will be possible to discuss more summarily than in +preceding volumes the manifold and important problems that are presented +to us. In considering the more special questions of sexual psychology we +entered a neglected field and it was necessary to expend an analytic care +and precision which at many points had never been expended before on these +questions. But when we reach the relationships of sex to society we have +for the most part no such neglect to encounter. The subject of every +chapter in the present volume could easily form, and often has formed, the +topic of a volume, and the literature of many of these subjects is already +extremely voluminous. It must therefore be our main object here not to +accumulate details but to place each subject by turn, as clearly and +succinctly as may be, in relation to those fundamental principles of +sexual psychology which--so far as the data at present admit--have been +set forth in the preceding volumes. + +It may seem to some, indeed, that in this exposition I should have +confined myself to the present, and not included so wide a sweep of the +course of human history and the traditions of the race. It may especially +seem that I have laid too great a stress on the influence of Christianity +in moulding sexual ideals and establishing sexual institutions. That, I am +convinced, is an error. It is because it is so frequently made that the +movements of progress among us--movements that can never at any period of +social history cease--are by many so seriously misunderstood. We cannot +escape from our traditions. There never has been, and never can be, any +"age of reason." The most ardent co-called "free-thinker," who casts aside +as he imagines the authority of the Christian past, is still held by that +past. If its traditions are not absolutely in his blood, they are +ingrained in the texture of all the social institutions into which he was +born and they affect even his modes of thinking. The latest modifications +of our institutions are inevitably influenced by the past form of those +institutions. We cannot realize where we are, nor whither we are moving, +unless we know whence we came. We cannot understand the significance of +the changes around us, nor face them with cheerful confidence, unless we +are acquainted with the drift of the great movements that stir all +civilization in never-ending cycles. + +In discussing sexual questions which are very largely matters of social +hygiene we shall thus still be preserving the psychological point of view. +Such a point of view in relation to these matters is not only legitimate +but necessary. Discussions of social hygiene that are purely medical or +purely juridical or purely moral or purely theological not only lead to +conclusions that are often entirely opposed to each other but they +obviously fail to possess complete applicability to the complex human +personality. The main task before us must be to ascertain what best +expresses, and what best satisfies, the totality of the impulses and ideas +of civilized men and women. So that while we must constantly bear in mind +medical, legal, and moral demands--which all correspond in some respects +to some individual or social need--the main thing is to satisfy the +demands of the whole human person. + +It is necessary to emphasize this point of view because it would seem +that no error is more common among writers on the hygienic and moral +problems of sex than the neglect of the psychological standpoint. They may +take, for instance, the side of sexual restraint, or the side of sexual +unrestraint, but they fail to realize that so narrow a basis is inadequate +for the needs of complex human beings. From the wider psychological +standpoint we recognize that we have to conciliate opposing impulses that +are both alike founded on the human psychic organism. + +In the preceding volumes of these _Studies_ I have sought to refrain from +the expression of any personal opinion and to maintain, so far as +possible, a strictly objective attitude. In this endeavor, I trust, I have +been successful if I may judge from the fact that I have received the +sympathy and approval of all kinds of people, not less of the +rationalistic free-thinker than of the orthodox believer, of those who +accept, as well as of those who reject, our most current standards of +morality. This is as it should be, for whatever our criteria of the worth +of feelings and of conduct, it must always be of use to us to know what +exactly are the feelings of people and how those feelings tend to affect +their conduct. In the present volume, however, where social traditions +necessarily come in for consideration and where we have to discuss the +growth of those traditions in the past and their probable evolution in the +future, I am not sanguine that the objectivity of my attitude will be +equally clear to the reader. I have here to set down not only what people +actually feel and do but what I think they are tending to feel and do. +That is a matter of estimation only, however widely and however cautiously +it is approached; it cannot be a matter of absolute demonstration. I trust +that those who have followed me in the past will bear with me still, even +if it is impossible for them always to accept the conclusions I have +myself reached. + +HAVELOCK ELLIS. + +Carbis Bay, Cornwall, England. + + + + +CONTENTS. + + +CHAPTER I. + +THE MOTHER AND HER CHILD. + +The Child's Right to Choose Its Ancestry--How This is Effected--The Mother +the Child's Supreme Parent--Motherhood and the Woman Movement--The Immense +Importance of Motherhood--Infant Mortality and Its Causes--The Chief Cause +in the Mother--The Need of Rest During Pregnancy--Frequency of Premature +Birth--The Function of the State--Recent Advance in Puericulture--The +Question of Coitus During Pregnancy--The Need of Rest During +Lactation--The Mother's Duty to Suckle Her Child--The Economic +Question--The Duty of the State--Recent Progress in the Protection of the +Mother--The Fallacy of State Nurseries. + + +CHAPTER II. + +SEXUAL EDUCATION. + +Nurture Necessary as Well as Breed--Precocious Manifestations of the +Sexual Impulse--Are they to be Regarded as Normal?--The Sexual Play of +Children--The Emotion of Love in Childhood--Are Town Children More +Precocious Sexually Than Country Children?--Children's Ideas Concerning +the Origin of Babies--Need for Beginning the Sexual Education of Children +in Early Years--The Importance of Early Training in Responsibility--Evil +of the Old Doctrine of Silence in Matters of Sex--The Evil Magnified When +Applied to Girls--The Mother the Natural and Best Teacher--The Morbid +Influence of Artificial Mystery in Sex Matters--Books on Sexual +Enlightenment of the Young--Nature of the Mother's Task--Sexual Education +in the School--The Value of Botany--Zoölogy--Sexual Education After +Puberty--The Necessity of Counteracting Quack Literature--Danger of +Neglecting to Prepare for the First Onset of Menstruation--The Right +Attitude Towards Woman's Sexual Life--The Vital Necessity of the Hygiene +of Menstruation During Adolescence--Such Hygiene Compatible with the +Educational and Social Equality of the Sexes--The Invalidism of Women +Mainly Due to Hygienic Neglect--Good Influence of Physical Training on +Women and Bad Influence of Athletics--The Evils of Emotional +Suppression--Need of Teaching the Dignity of Sex--Influence of These +Factors on a Woman's Fate in Marriage--Lectures and Addresses on Sexual +Hygiene--The Doctor's Part in Sexual Education--Pubertal Initiation Into +the Ideal World--The Place of the Religious and Ethical Teacher--The +Initiation Rites of Savages Into Manhood and Womanhood--The Sexual +Influence of Literature--The Sexual Influence of Art. + + +CHAPTER III. + +SEXUAL EDUCATION AND NAKEDNESS. + +The Greek Attitude Towards Nakedness--How the Romans Modified That +Attitude--The Influence of Christianity--Nakedness in Mediæval +Times--Evolution of the Horror of Nakedness--Concomitant Change in the +Conception of Nakedness--Prudery--The Romantic Movement--Rise of a New +Feeling in Regard to Nakedness--The Hygienic Aspect of Nakedness--How +Children May Be Accustomed to Nakedness--Nakedness Not Inimical to +Modesty--The Instinct of Physical Pride--The Value of Nakedness in +Education--The Æsthetic Value of Nakedness--The Human Body as One of the +Prime Tonics of Life--How Nakedness May Be Cultivated--The Moral Value of +Nakedness. + + +CHAPTER IV. + +THE VALUATION OF SEXUAL LOVE. + +The Conception of Sexual Love--The Attitude of Mediæval Asceticism--St. +Bernard and St. Odo of Cluny--The Ascetic Insistence on the Proximity of +the Sexual and Excretory Centres--Love as a Sacrament of Nature--The Idea +of the Impurity of Sex in Primitive Religions Generally--Theories of the +Origin of This Idea--The Anti-Ascetic Element in the Bible and Early +Christianity--Clement of Alexandria--St. Augustine's Attitude--The +Recognition of the Sacredness of the Body by Tertullian, Rufinus and +Athanasius--The Reformation--The Sexual Instinct Regarded as Beastly--The +Human Sexual Instinct Not Animal-like--Lust and Love--The Definition of +Love--Love and Names for Love Unknown in Some Parts of the World--Romantic +Love of Late Development in the White Race--The Mystery of Sexual +Desire--Whether Love is a Delusion--The Spiritual as Well as the Physical +Structure of the World in Part Built up on Sexual Love The Testimony of +Men of Intellect to the Supremacy of Love. + + +CHAPTER V. + +THE FUNCTION OF CHASTITY. + +Chastity Essential to the Dignity of Love--The Eighteenth Century Revolt +Against the Ideal of Chastity--Unnatural Forms of Chastity--The +Psychological Basis of Asceticism--Asceticism and Chastity as Savage +Virtues--The Significance of Tahiti--Chastity Among Barbarous +Peoples--Chastity Among the Early Christians--Struggles of the Saints with +the Flesh--The Romance of Christian Chastity--Its Decay in Mediæval +Times--_Aucassin et Nicolette_ and the New Romance of Chaste Love--The +Unchastity of the Northern Barbarians--The Penitentials--Influence of the +Renaissance and the Reformation--The Revolt Against Virginity as a +Virtue--The Modern Conception of Chastity as a Virtue--The Influences That +Favor the Virtue of Chastity--Chastity as a Discipline--The Value of +Chastity for the Artist--Potency and Impotence in Popular Estimation--The +Correct Definitions of Asceticism and Chastity. + + +CHAPTER VI. + +THE PROBLEM OF SEXUAL ABSTINENCE. + +The Influence of Tradition--The Theological Conception of Lust--Tendency +of These Influences to Degrade Sexual Morality--Their Result in Creating +the Problem of Sexual Abstinence--The Protests Against Sexual +Abstinence--Sexual Abstinence and Genius--Sexual Abstinence in Women--The +Advocates of Sexual Abstinence--Intermediate Attitude--Unsatisfactory +Nature of the Whole Discussion--Criticism of the Conception of Sexual +Abstinence--Sexual Abstinence as Compared to Abstinence from Food--No +Complete Analogy--The Morality of Sexual Abstinence Entirely Negative--Is +It the Physician's Duty to Advise Extra-Conjugal Sexual +Intercourse?--Opinions of Those Who Affirm or Deny This Duty--The +Conclusion Against Such Advice--The Physician Bound by the Social and +Moral Ideas of His Age--The Physician as Reformer--Sexual Abstinence and +Sexual Hygiene--Alcohol--The Influence of Physical and Mental +Exercise--The Inadequacy of Sexual Hygiene in This Field--The Unreal +Nature of the Conception of Sexual Abstinence--The Necessity of Replacing +It by a More Positive Ideal. + + +CHAPTER VII. + +PROSTITUTION. + +I. _The Orgy:_--The Religious Origin of the Orgy--The Feast of +Fools--Recognition of the Orgy by the Greeks and Romans--The Orgy Among +Savages--The Drama--The Object Subserved by the Orgy. + +II. _The Origin and Development of Prostitution:_--The Definition of +Prostitution--Prostitution Among Savages--The Conditions Under Which +Professional Prostitution Arises--Sacred Prostitution--The Rite of +Mylitta--The Practice of Prostitution to Obtain a Marriage Portion--The +Rise of Secular Prostitution in Greece--Prostitution in the East--India, +China, Japan, etc.--Prostitution in Rome--The Influence of Christianity on +Prostitution--The Effort to Combat Prostitution--The Mediæval Brothel--The +Appearance of the Courtesan--Tullia D'Aragona--Veronica Franco--Ninon de +Lenclos--Later Attempts to Eradicate Prostitution--The Regulation of +Prostitution--Its Futility Becoming Recognized. + +III. _The Causes of Prostitution:_--Prostitution as a Part of the Marriage +System--The Complex Causation of Prostitution--The Motives Assigned by +Prostitutes--(1) Economic Factor of Prostitution--Poverty Seldom the Chief +Motive for Prostitution--But Economic Pressure Exerts a Real +Influence--The Large Proportion of Prostitutes Recruited from Domestic +Service--Significance of This Fact--(2) The Biological Factor of +Prostitution--The So-called Born-Prostitute--Alleged Identity with the +Born-Criminal--The Sexual Instinct in Prostitutes--The Physical and +Psychic Characters of Prostitutes--(3) Moral Necessity as a Factor in the +Existence of Prostitution--The Moral Advocates of Prostitution--The Moral +Attitude of Christianity Towards Prostitution--The Attitude of +Protestantism--Recent Advocates of the Moral Necessity of +Prostitution--(4) Civilizational Value as a Factor of Prostitution--The +Influence of Urban Life--The Craving for Excitement--Why Servant-girls so +Often Turn to Prostitution--The Small Part Played by Seduction--Prostitutes +Come Largely from the Country--The Appeal of Civilization Attracts Women +to Prostitution--The Corresponding Attraction Felt by Men--The Prostitute +as Artist and Leader of Fashion--The Charm of Vulgarity. + +IV. _The Present Social Attitude Towards Prostitution:_--The Decay of the +Brothel--The Tendency to the Humanization of Prostitution--The Monetary +Aspects of Prostitution--The Geisha--The Hetaira--The Moral Revolt Against +Prostitution--Squalid Vice Based on Luxurious Virtue--The Ordinary +Attitude Towards Prostitutes--Its Cruelty Absurd--The Need of Reforming +Prostitution--The Need of Reforming Marriage--These Two Needs Closely +Correlated--The Dynamic Relationships Involved. + + +CHAPTER VIII. + +THE CONQUEST OF THE VENEREAL DISEASES. + +The Significance of the Venereal Diseases--The History of Syphilis--The +Problem of Its Origin--The Social Gravity of Syphilis--The Social Dangers +of Gonorrhoea--The Modern Change in the Methods of Combating Venereal +Diseases--Causes of the Decay of the System of Police Regulation--Necessity +of Facing the Facts--The Innocent Victims of Venereal Diseases--Diseases +Not Crimes--The Principle of Notification--The Scandinavian +System--Gratuitous Treatment--Punishment For Transmitting +Venereal Diseases--Sexual Education in Relation to Venereal +Diseases--Lectures, Etc.--Discussion in Novels and on the Stage--The +"Disgusting" Not the "Immoral". + + +CHAPTER IX. + +SEXUAL MORALITY. + +Prostitution in Relation to Our Marriage System--Marriage and +Morality--The Definition of the Term "Morality"--Theoretical Morality--Its +Division Into Traditional Morality and Ideal Morality--Practical +Morality--Practical Morality Based on Custom--The Only Subject of +Scientific Ethics--The Reaction Between Theoretical and Practical +Morality--Sexual Morality in the Past an Application of Economic +Morality--The Combined Rigidity and Laxity of This Morality--The +Growth of a Specific Sexual Morality and the Evolution of Moral +Ideals--Manifestations of Sexual Morality--Disregard of the Forms of +Marriage--Trial Marriage--Marriage After Conception of Child--Phenomena in +Germany, Anglo-Saxon Countries, Russia, etc.--The Status of Woman--The +Historical Tendency Favoring Moral Equality of Women with Men--The Theory +of the Matriarchate--Mother-Descent--Women in Babylonia--Egypt--Rome--The +Eighteenth and Nineteenth Centuries--The Historical Tendency +Favoring Moral Inequality of Woman--The Ambiguous Influence of +Christianity--Influence of Teutonic Custom and Feudalism--Chivalry--Woman +in England--The Sale of Wives--The Vanishing Subjection of +Woman--Inaptitude of the Modern Man to Domineer--The Growth of Moral +Responsibility in Women--The Concomitant Development of Economic +Independence--The Increase of Women Who Work--Invasion of the Modern +Industrial Field by Women--In How Far This Is Socially Justifiable--The +Sexual Responsibility of Women and Its Consequences--The Alleged Moral +Inferiority of Women--The "Self-Sacrifice" of Women--Society Not +Concerned with Sexual Relationships--Procreation the Sole Sexual Concern +of the State--The Supreme Importance of Maternity. + + +CHAPTER X. + +MARRIAGE. + +The Definition of Marriage--Marriage Among Animals--The Predominance of +Monogamy--The Question of Group Marriage--Monogamy a Natural Fact, Not +Based on Human Law--The Tendency to Place the Form of Marriage Above the +Fact of Marriage--The History of Marriage--Marriage in Ancient +Rome--Germanic Influence on Marriage--Bride-Sale--The Ring--The Influence +of Christianity on Marriage--The Great Extent of this Influence--The +Sacrament of Matrimony--Origin and Growth of the Sacramental +Conception--The Church Made Marriage a Public Act--Canon Law--Its Sound +Core--Its Development--Its Confusions and Absurdities--Peculiarities of +English Marriage Law--Influence of the Reformation on Marriage--The +Protestant Conception of Marriage as a Secular Contract--The Puritan +Reform of Marriage--Milton as the Pioneer of Marriage Reform--His Views on +Divorce--The Backward Position of England in Marriage Reform--Criticism of +the English Divorce Law--Traditions of the Canon Law Still Persistent--The +Question of Damages for Adultery--Collusion as a Bar to +Divorce--Divorce in France, Germany, Austria, Russia, etc.--The United +States--Impossibility of Deciding by Statute the Causes for +Divorce--Divorce by Mutual Consent--Its Origin and Development--Impeded by +the Traditions of Canon Law--Wilhelm von Humboldt--Modern Pioneer +Advocates of Divorce by Mutual Consent--The Arguments Against Facility of +Divorce--The Interests of the Children--The Protection of Women--The +Present Tendency of the Divorce Movement--Marriage Not a Contract--The +Proposal of Marriage for a Term of Years--Legal Disabilities and +Disadvantages in the Position of the Husband and the Wife--Marriage Not a +Contract But a Fact--Only the Non-Essentials of Marriage, Not the +Essentials, a Proper Matter for Contract--The Legal Recognition of +Marriage as a Fact Without Any Ceremony--Contracts of the Person Opposed +to Modern Tendencies--The Factor of Moral Responsibility--Marriage as an +Ethical Sacrament--Personal Responsibility Involves Freedom--Freedom the +Best Guarantee of Stability--False Ideas of Individualism--Modern Tendency +of Marriage--With the Birth of a Child Marriage Ceases to be a Private +Concern--Every Child Must Have a Legal Father and Mother--How This Can be +Effected--The Firm Basis of Monogamy--The Question of Marriage +Variations--Such Variations Not Inimical to Monogamy--The Most Common +Variations--The Flexibility of Marriage Holds Variations in +Check--Marriage Variations _versus_ Prostitution--Marriage on a Reasonable +and Humane Basis--Summary and Conclusion. + + +CHAPTER XI. + +THE ART OF LOVE. + +Marriage Not Only for Procreation--Theologians on the _Sacramentum +Solationis_--Importance of the _Art of Love_--The Basis of Stability in +Marriage and the Condition for Right Procreation--The Art of Love the +Bulwark Against Divorce--The Unity of Love and Marriage a Principle of +Modern Morality--Christianity and the Art of Love--Ovid--The Art of Love +Among Primitive Peoples--Sexual Initiation in Africa and Elsewhere--The +Tendency to Spontaneous Development of the Art of Love in Early +Life--Flirtation--Sexual Ignorance in Women--The Husband's Place in Sexual +Initiation--Sexual Ignorance in Men--The Husband's Education for +Marriage--The Injury Done by the Ignorance of Husbands--The Physical and +Mental Results of Unskilful Coitus--Women Understand the Art of Love +Better Than Men--Ancient and Modern Opinions Concerning Frequency of +Coitus--Variation in Sexual Capacity--The Sexual Appetite--The Art of Love +Based on the Biological Facts of Courtship--The Art of Pleasing Women--The +Lover Compared to the Musician--The Proposal as a Part of +Courtship--Divination in the Art of Love--The Importance of the +Preliminaries in Courtship--The Unskilful Husband Frequently the Cause of +the Frigid Wife--The Difficulty of Courtship--Simultaneous Orgasm--The +Evils of Incomplete Gratification in Women--Coitus Interruptus--Coitus +Reservatus--The Human Method of Coitus--Variations in Coitus--Posture in +Coitus--The Best Time for Coitus--The Influence of Coitus in Marriage--The +Advantages of Absence in Marriage--The Risks of Absence--Jealousy--The +Primitive Function of Jealousy--Its Predominance Among Animals, Savages, +etc, and in Pathological States--An Anti-Social Emotion--Jealousy +Incompatible With the Progress of Civilization--The Possibility of Loving +More Than One Person at a Time--Platonic Friendship--The Conditions Which +Make It Possible--The Maternal Element in Woman's Love--The Final +Development of Conjugal Love--The Problem of Love One of the Greatest Of +Social Questions. + + +CHAPTER XII. + +THE SCIENCE OF PROCREATION. + +The Relationship of the Science of Procreation to the Art of Love--Sexual +Desire and Sexual Pleasure as the Conditions of Conception--Reproduction +Formerly Left to Caprice and Lust--The Question of Procreation as a +Religious Question--The Creed of Eugenics--Ellen Key and Sir Francis +Galton--Our Debt to Posterity--The Problem of Replacing Natural +Selection--The Origin and Development of Eugenics--The General Acceptance +of Eugenical Principles To-day--The Two Channels by Which Eugenical +Principles are Becoming Embodied in Practice--The Sense of Sexual +Responsibility in Women--The Rejection of Compulsory Motherhood--The +Privilege of Voluntary Motherhood--Causes of the Degradation of +Motherhood--The Control of Conception--Now Practiced by the Majority of +the Population in Civilized Countries--The Fallacy of "Racial +Suicide"--Are Large Families a Stigma of Degeneration?--Procreative +Control the Outcome of Natural and Civilized Progress--The Growth of +Neo-Malthusian Beliefs and Practices--Facultative Sterility as Distinct +from Neo-Malthusianism--The Medical and Hygienic Necessity of Control of +Conception--Preventive Methods--Abortion--The New Doctrine of the Duty to +Practice Abortion--How Far is this Justifiable?--Castration as a Method of +Controlling Procreation--Negative Eugenics and Positive Eugenics--The +Question of Certificates for Marriage--The Inadequacy of Eugenics by Act +of Parliament--The Quickening of the Social Conscience in Regard to +Heredity--Limitations to the Endowment of Motherhood--The Conditions +Favorable to Procreation--Sterility--The Question of Artificial +Fecundation--The Best Age of Procreation--The Question of Early +Motherhood--The Best Time for Procreation--The Completion of the Divine +Cycle of Life. + + + + +CHAPTER I. + +THE MOTHER AND HER CHILD. + +The Child's Right to Choose Its Ancestry--How This is Effected--The Mother +the Child's Supreme Parent--Motherhood and the Woman Movement--The Immense +Importance of Motherhood--Infant Mortality and Its Causes--The Chief Cause +in the Mother--The Need of Rest During Pregnancy--Frequency of Premature +Birth--The Function of the State--Recent Advance in Puericulture--The +Question of Coitus During Pregnancy--The Need of Rest During +Lactation--The Mother's Duty to Suckle Her Child--The Economic +Question--The Duty of the State--Recent Progress in the Protection of the +Mother--The Fallacy of State Nurseries. + + +A man's sexual nature, like all else that is most essential in him, is +rooted in a soil that was formed very long before his birth. In this, as +in every other respect, he draws the elements of his life from his +ancestors, however new the recombination may be and however greatly it may +be modified by subsequent conditions. A man's destiny stands not in the +future but in the past. That, rightly considered, is the most vital of all +vital facts. Every child thus has a right to choose his own ancestors. +Naturally he can only do this vicariously, through his parents. It is the +most serious and sacred duty of the future father to choose one half of +the ancestral and hereditary character of his future child; it is the most +serious and sacred duty of the future mother to make a similar choice.[1] +In choosing each other they have between them chosen the whole ancestry of +their child. They have determined the stars that will rule his fate. + +In the past that fateful determination has usually been made helplessly, +ignorantly, almost unconsciously. It has either been guided by an +instinct which, on the whole, has worked out fairly well, or controlled by +economic interests of the results of which so much cannot be said, or left +to the risks of lower than bestial chances which can produce nothing but +evil. In the future we cannot but have faith--for all the hope of humanity +must rest on that faith--that a new guiding impulse, reinforcing natural +instinct and becoming in time an inseparable accompaniment of it, will +lead civilized man on his racial course. Just as in the past the race has, +on the whole, been moulded by a natural, and in part sexual, selection, +that was unconscious of itself and ignorant of the ends it made towards, +so in the future the race will be moulded by deliberate selection, the +creative energy of Nature becoming self-conscious in the civilized brain +of man. This is not a faith which has its source in a vague hope. The +problems of the individual life are linked on to the fate of the racial +life, and again and again we shall find as we ponder the individual +questions we are here concerned with, that at all points they ultimately +converge towards this same racial end. + +Since we have here, therefore, to follow out the sexual relationships of +the individual as they bear on society, it will be convenient at this +point to put aside the questions of ancestry and to accept the individual +as, with hereditary constitution already determined, he lies in his +mother's womb. + +It is the mother who is the child's supreme parent. At various points in +zoölogical evolution it has seemed possible that the functions that we now +know as those of maternity would be largely and even equally shared by the +male parent. Nature has tried various experiments in this direction, among +the fishes, for instance, and even among birds. But reasonable and +excellent as these experiments were, and though they were sufficiently +sound to secure their perpetuation unto this day, it remains true that it +was not along these lines that Man was destined to emerge. Among all the +mammal predecessors of Man, the male is an imposing and important figure +in the early days of courtship, but after conception has once been secured +the mother plays the chief part in the racial life. The male must be +content to forage abroad and stand on guard when at home in the +ante-chamber of the family. When she has once been impregnated the female +animal angrily rejects the caresses she had welcomed so coquettishly +before, and even in Man the place of the father at the birth of his child +is not a notably dignified or comfortable one. Nature accords the male but +a secondary and comparatively humble place in the home, the breeding-place +of the race; he may compensate himself if he will, by seeking adventure +and renown in the world outside. The mother is the child's supreme parent, +and during the period from conception to birth the hygiene of the future +man can only be affected by influences which work through her. + +Fundamental and elementary as is the fact of the predominant position of +the mother in relation to the life of the race, incontestable as it must +seem to all those who have traversed the volumes of these _Studies_ up to +the present point, it must be admitted that it has sometimes been +forgotten or ignored. In the great ages of humanity it has indeed been +accepted as a central and sacred fact. In classic Rome at one period the +house of the pregnant woman was adorned with garlands, and in Athens it +was an inviolable sanctuary where even the criminal might find shelter. +Even amid the mixed influences of the exuberantly vital times which +preceded the outburst of the Renaissance, the ideally beautiful woman, as +pictures still show, was the pregnant woman. But it has not always been +so. At the present time, for instance, there can be no doubt that we are +but beginning to emerge from a period during which this fact was often +disputed and denied, both in theory and in practice, even by women +themselves. This was notably the case both in England and America, and it +is probably owing in large part to the unfortunate infatuation which led +women in these lands to follow after masculine ideals that at the present +moment the inspirations of progress in women's movements come mainly +to-day from the women of other lands. Motherhood and the future of the +race were systematically belittled. Paternity is but a mere incident, it +was argued, in man's life: why should maternity be more than a mere +incident in woman's life? In England, by a curiously perverted form of +sexual attraction, women were so fascinated by the glamour that surrounded +men that they desired to suppress or forget all the facts of organic +constitution which made them unlike men, counting their glory as their +shame, and sought the same education as men, the same occupations as men, +even the same sports. As we know, there was at the origin an element of +rightness in this impulse.[2] It was absolutely right in so far as it was +a claim for freedom from artificial restriction, and a demand for economic +independence. But it became mischievous and absurd when it developed into +a passion for doing, in all respects, the same things as men do; how +mischievous and how absurd we may realize if we imagine men developing a +passion to imitate the ways and avocations of women. Freedom is only good +when it is a freedom to follow the laws of one's own nature; it ceases to +be freedom when it becomes a slavish attempt to imitate others, and would +be disastrous if it could be successful.[3] + +At the present day this movement on the theoretical side has ceased to +possess any representatives who exert serious influence. Yet its practical +results are still prominently exhibited in England and the other countries +in which it has been felt. Infantile mortality is enormous, and in England +at all events is only beginning to show a tendency to diminish; motherhood +is without dignity, and the vitality of mothers is speedily crushed, so +that often they cannot so much as suckle their infants; ignorant +girl-mothers give their infants potatoes and gin; on every hand we are +told of the evidence of degeneracy in the race, or if not in the race, at +all events, in the young individuals of to-day. + + It would be out of place, and would lead us too far, to discuss + here these various practical outcomes of the foolish attempt to + belittle the immense racial importance of motherhood. It is + enough here to touch on the one point of the excess of infantile + mortality. + + In England--which is not from the social point of view in a very + much worse condition than most countries, for in Austria and + Russia the infant mortality is higher still, though in Australia + and New Zealand much lower, but still excessive--more than + one-fourth of the total number of deaths every year is of infants + under one year of age. In the opinion of medical officers of + health who are in the best position to form an opinion, about + one-half of this mortality, roughly speaking, is absolutely + preventable. Moreover, it is doubtful whether there is any real + movement of decrease in this mortality; during the past half + century it has sometimes slightly risen and sometimes slightly + fallen, and though during the past few years the general movement + of mortality for children under five in England and Wales has + shown a tendency to decrease, in London (according to J.F.J. + Sykes, although Sir Shirley Murphy has attempted to minimize the + significance of these figures) the infantile mortality rate for + the first three months of life actually rose from 69 per 1,000 in + the period 1888-1892 to 75 per 1,000 in the period 1898-1901. + (This refers, it must be remembered, to the period before the + introduction of the Notification of Births Act.) In any case, + although the general mortality shows a marked tendency to + improvement there is certainly no adequately corresponding + improvement in the infantile mortality. This is scarcely + surprising, when we realize that there has been no change for the + better, but rather for the worse, in the conditions under which + our infants are born and reared. Thus William Hall, who has had + an intimate knowledge extending over fifty-six years of the slums + of Leeds, and has weighed and measured many thousands of slum + children, besides examining over 120,000 boys and girls as to + their fitness for factory labor, states (_British Medical + Journal_, October 14, 1905) that "fifty years ago the slum mother + was much more sober, cleanly, domestic, and motherly than she is + to-day; she was herself better nourished and she almost always + suckled her children, and after weaning they received more + nutritious bone-making food, and she was able to prepare more + wholesome food at home." The system of compulsory education has + had an unfortunate influence in exerting a strain on the parents + and worsening the conditions of the home. For, excellent as + education is in itself, it is not the primary need of life, and + has been made compulsory before the more essential things of life + have been made equally compulsory. How absolutely unnecessary + this great mortality is may be shown, without evoking the good + example of Australia and New Zealand, by merely comparing small + English towns; thus while in Guildford the infantile death rate + is 65 per thousand, in Burslem it is 205 per thousand. + + It is sometimes said that infantile mortality is an economic + question, and that with improvement in wages it would cease. This + is only true to a limited extent and under certain conditions. In + Australia there is no grinding poverty, but the deaths of infants + under one year of age are still between 80 and 90 per thousand, + and one-third of this mortality, according to Hooper (_British + Medical Journal_, 1908, vol. ii, p. 289), being due to the + ignorance of mothers and the dislike to suckling, is easily + preventable. The employment of married women greatly diminishes + the poverty of a family, but nothing can be worse for the welfare + of the woman as mother, or for the welfare of her child. Reid, + the medical officer of health for Staffordshire, where there are + two large centres of artisan population with identical health + conditions, has shown that in the northern centre, where a very + large number of women are engaged in factories, still-births are + three times as frequent as in the southern centre, where there + are practically no trade employments for women; the frequency of + abnormalities is also in the same ratio. The superiority of + Jewish over Christian children, again, and their lower infantile + mortality, seem to be entirely due to the fact that Jewesses are + better mothers. "The Jewish children in the slums," says William + Hall (_British Medical Journal_, October 14, 1905), speaking from + wide and accurate knowledge, "were superior in weight, in teeth, + and in general bodily development, and they seemed less + susceptible to infectious disease. Yet these Jews were + overcrowded, they took little exercise, and their unsanitary + environment was obvious. The fact was, their children were much + better nourished. The pregnant Jewess was more cared for, and no + doubt supplied better nutriment to the foetus. After the children + were born 90 per cent. received breast-milk, and during later + childhood they were abundantly fed on bone-making material; eggs + and oil, fish, fresh vegetables, and fruit entered largely into + their diet." G. Newman, in his important and comprehensive book + on _Infant Mortality_, emphasizes the conclusion that "first of + all we need a higher standard of physical motherhood." The + problem of infantile mortality, he declares (page 259), is not + one of sanitation alone, or housing, or indeed of poverty as + such, "_but is mainly a question of motherhood_." + +The fundamental need of the pregnant woman is _rest_. Without a large +degree of maternal rest there can be no puericulture.[4] The task of +creating a man needs the whole of a woman's best energies, more especially +during the three months before birth. It cannot be subordinated to the tax +on strength involved by manual or mental labor, or even strenuous social +duties and amusements. The numerous experiments and observations which +have been made during recent years in Maternity Hospitals, more especially +in France, have shown conclusively that not only the present and future +well-being of the mother and the ease of her confinement, but the fate of +the child, are immensely influenced by rest during the last month of +pregnancy. "Every working woman is entitled to rest during the last three +months of her pregnancy." This formula was adopted by the International +Congress of Hygiene in 1900, but it cannot be practically carried out +except by the coöperation of the whole community. For it is not enough to +say that a woman ought to rest during pregnancy; it is the business of the +community to ensure that that rest is duly secured. The woman herself, and +her employer, we may be certain, will do their best to cheat the +community, but it is the community which suffers, both economically and +morally, when a woman casts her inferior children into the world, and in +its own interests the community is forced to control both employer and +employed. We can no longer allow it to be said, in Bouchacourt's words, +that "to-day the dregs of the human species--the blind, the deaf-mute, the +degenerate, the nervous, the vicious, the idiotic, the imbecile, the +cretins and epileptics--are better protected than pregnant women."[5] + + Pinard, who must always be honored as one of the founders of + eugenics, has, together with his pupils, done much to prepare the + way for the acceptance of this simple but important principle by + making clear the grounds on which it is based. From prolonged + observations on the pregnant women of all classes Pinard has + shown conclusively that women who rest during pregnancy have + finer children than women who do not rest. Apart from the more + general evils of work during pregnancy, Pinard found that during + the later months it had a tendency to press the uterus down into + the pelvis, and so cause the premature birth of undeveloped + children, while labor was rendered more difficult and dangerous + (see, e.g., Pinard, _Gazette des Hôpitaux_, Nov. 28, 1895, Id., + _Annales de Gynécologie_, Aug., 1898). + + Letourneux has studied the question whether repose during + pregnancy is necessary for women whose professional work is only + slightly fatiguing. He investigated 732 successive confinements + at the Clinique Baudelocque in Paris. He found that 137 women + engaged in fatiguing occupations (servants, cooks, etc.) and not + resting during pregnancy, produced children with an average + weight of 3,081 grammes; 115 women engaged in only slightly + fatiguing occupations (dressmakers, milliners, etc.) and also not + resting during pregnancy, had children with an average weight of + 3,130 grammes, a slight but significant difference, in view of + the fact that the women of the first group were large and robust, + while those of the second group were of slight and elegant build. + Again, comparing groups of women who rested during pregnancy, it + was found that the women accustomed to fatiguing work had + children with an average weight of 3,319 grammes, while those + accustomed to less fatiguing work had children with an average + weight of 3,318 grammes. The difference between repose and + non-repose is thus considerable, while it also enables robust + women exercising a fatiguing occupation to catch up, though not + to surpass, the frailer women exercising a less fatiguing + occupation. We see, too, that even in the comparatively + unfatiguing occupations of milliners, etc., rest during pregnancy + still remains important, and cannot safely be dispensed with. + "Society," Letourneux concludes, "must guarantee rest to women + not well off during a part of pregnancy. It will be repaid the + cost of doing so by the increased vigor of the children thus + produced" (Letourneux, _De l'Influence de la Profession de la + Mère sur le Poids de l'Enfant_, Thèse de Paris, 1897). + + Dr. Dweira-Bernson (_Revue Pratique d'Obstétrique et de + Pédiatrie_, 1903, p. 370), compared four groups of pregnant women + (servants with light work, servants with heavy work, farm girls, + dressmakers) who rested for three months before confinement with + four groups similarly composed who took no rest before + confinement. In every group he found that the difference in the + average weight of the child was markedly in favor of the women + who rested, and it was notable that the greatest difference was + found in the case of the farm girls who were probably the most + robust and also the hardest worked. + + The usual time of gestation ranges between 274 and 280 days (or + 280 to 290 days from the last menstrual period), and occasionally + a few days longer, though there is dispute as to the length of + the extreme limit, which some authorities would extend to 300 + days, or even to 320 days (Pinard, in Richet's _Dictionnaire de + Physiologie_, vol. vii, pp. 150-162; Taylor, _Medical + Jurisprudence_, fifth edition, pp. 44, 98 et seq.; L.M. Allen, + "Prolonged Gestation," _American Journal Obstetrics_, April, + 1907). It is possible, as Müller suggested in 1898 in a Thèse de + Nancy, that civilization tends to shorten the period of + gestation, and that in earlier ages it was longer than it is now. + Such a tendency to premature birth under the exciting nervous + influences of civilization would thus correspond, as Bouchacourt + has pointed out (_La Grossesse_, p. 113), to the similar effect + of domestication in animals. The robust countrywoman becomes + transformed into the more graceful, but also more fragile, town + woman who needs a degree of care and hygiene which the + countrywoman with her more resistant nervous system can to some + extent dispense with, although even she, as we see, suffers in + the person of her child, and probably in her own person, from the + effects of work during pregnancy. The serious nature of this + civilized tendency to premature birth--of which lack of rest in + pregnancy is, however, only one of several important causes--is + shown by the fact that Séropian (_Fréquence Comparée des Causes + de l'Accouchement Prémature_, Thèse de Paris, 1907) found that + about one-third of French births (32.28 per cent.) are to a + greater or less extent premature. Pregnancy is not a morbid + condition; on the contrary, a pregnant woman is at the climax of + her most normal physiological life, but owing to the tension thus + involved she is specially liable to suffer from any slight shock + or strain. + + It must be remarked that the increased tendency to premature + birth, while in part it may be due to general tendencies of + civilization, is also in part due to very definite and + preventable causes. Syphilis, alcoholism, and attempts to produce + abortion are among the not uncommon causes of premature birth + (see, e.g., G.F. McCleary, "The Influence of Antenatal Conditions + on Infantile Mortality," _British Medical Journal_, Aug. 13, + 1904). + + Premature birth ought to be avoided, because the child born too + early is insufficiently equipped for the task before him. + Astengo, dealing with nearly 19,000 cases at the Lariboisière + Hospital in Paris and the Maternité, found, that reckoning from + the date of the last menstruation, there is a direct relation + between the weight of the infant at birth and the length of the + pregnancy. The longer the pregnancy, the finer the child + (Astengo, _Rapport du Poids des Enfants à la Durée de la + Grossesse_, Thèse de Paris, 1905). + + The frequency of premature birth is probably as great in England + as in France. Ballantyne states (_Manual of Antenatal Pathology; + The Foetus_, p. 456) that for practical purposes the frequency + of premature labors in maternity hospitals may be put at 20 per + cent., but that if all infants weighing less than 3,000 grammes + are to be regarded as premature, it rises to 41.5 per cent. That + premature birth is increasing in England seems to be indicated by + the fact that during the past twenty-five years there has been a + steady rise in the mortality rate from premature birth. McCleary, + who discusses this point and considers the increase real, + concludes that "it would appear that there has been a diminution + in the quality as well as in the quantity of our output of + babies" (see also a discussion, introduced by Dawson Williams, on + "Physical Deterioration," _British Medical Journal_, Oct. 14, + 1905). + + It need scarcely be pointed out that not only is immaturity a + cause of deterioration in the infants that survive, but that it + alone serves enormously to decrease the number of infants that + are able to survive. Thus G. Newman states (loc. cit.) that in + most large English urban districts immaturity is the chief cause + of infant mortality, furnishing about 30 per cent. of the infant + deaths; even in London (Islington) Alfred Harris (_British + Medical Journal_, Dec. 14, 1907) finds that it is responsible for + nearly 17 per cent. of the infantile deaths. It is estimated by + Newman that about half of the mothers of infants dying of + immaturity suffer from marked ill-health and poor physique; they + are not, therefore, fitted to be mothers. + + Rest during pregnancy is a very powerful agent in preventing + premature birth. Thus Dr. Sarraute-Lourié has compared 1,550 + pregnant women at the Asile Michelet who rested before + confinement with 1,550 women confined at the Hôpital Lariboisière + who had enjoyed no such period of rest. She found that the + average duration of pregnancy was at least twenty days shorter in + the latter group (Mme. Sarraute-Lourié, _De l'Influence du Repos + sur la Durée de la Gestation_, Thèse de Paris, 1899). + + Leyboff has insisted on the absolute necessity of rest during + pregnancy, as well for the sake of the woman herself as the + burden she carries, and shows the evil results which follow when + rest is neglected. Railway traveling, horse-riding, bicycling, + and sea-voyages are also, Leyboff believes, liable to be + injurious to the course of pregnancy. Leyboff recognizes the + difficulties which procreating women are placed under by present + industrial conditions, and concludes that "it is urgently + necessary to prevent women, by law, from working during the last + three months of pregnancy; that in every district there should be + a maternity fund; that during this enforced rest a woman should + receive the same salary as during work." He adds that the + children of unmarried mothers should be cared for by the State, + that there should be an eight-hours' day for all workers, and + that no children under sixteen should be allowed to work (E. + Leyboff, _L'Hygiène de la Grossesse_, Thèse de Paris, 1905). + + Perruc states that at least two months' rest before confinement + should be made compulsory, and that during this period the woman + should receive an indemnity regulated by the State. He is of + opinion that it should take the form of compulsory assurance, to + which the worker, the employer, and the State alike contributed + (Perruc, _Assistance aux Femmes Enceintes_, Thèse de Paris, + 1905). + + It is probable that during the earlier months of pregnancy, work, + if not excessively heavy and exhausting, has little or no bad + effect; thus Bacchimont (_Documents pour servir a l'Histoire de + la Puériculture Intra-utérine_, Thèse de Paris, 1898) found that, + while there was a great gain in the weight of children of mothers + who had rested for three months, there was no corresponding gain + in the children of those mothers who had rested for longer + periods. It is during the last three months that freedom, repose, + the cessation of the obligatory routine of employment become + necessary. This is the opinion of Pinard, the chief authority on + this matter. Many, however, fearing that economic and industrial + conditions render so long a period of rest too difficult of + practical attainment, are, with Clappier and G. Newman, content + to demand two months as a minimum; Salvat only asks for one + month's rest before confinement, the woman, whether married or + not, receiving a pecuniary indemnity during this period, with + medical care and drugs free. Ballantyne (_Manual of Antenatal + Pathology: The Foetus_, p. 475), as well as Niven, also asks only + for one month's compulsory rest during pregnancy, with indemnity. + Arthur Helme, however, taking a more comprehensive view of all + the factors involved, concludes in a valuable paper on "The + Unborn Child: Its Care and Its Rights" (_British Medical + Journal_, Aug. 24, 1907), "The important thing would be to + prohibit pregnant women from going to work at all, and it is as + important from the standpoint of the child that this prohibition + should include the early as the late months of pregnancy." + + In England little progress has yet been made as regards this + question of rest during pregnancy, even as regards the education + of public opinion. Sir William Sinclair, Professor of Obstetrics + at the Victoria University of Manchester, has published (1907) _A + Plea for Establishing Municipal Maternity Homes_. Ballantyne, a + great British authority on the embryology of the child, has + published a "Plea for a Pre-Maternity Hospital" (_British Medical + Journal_, April 6, 1901), has since given an important lecture on + the subject (_British Medical Journal_, Jan. 11, 1908), and has + further discussed the matter in his _Manual of Ante-Natal + Pathology: The Foetus_ (Ch. XXVII); he is, however, more + interested in the establishment of hospitals for the diseases of + pregnancy than in the wider and more fundamental question of rest + for all pregnant women. In England there are, indeed, a few + institutions which receive unmarried women, with a record of good + conduct, who are pregnant for the first time, for, as + Bouchacourt remarks, ancient British prejudices are opposed to + any mercy being shown to women who are recidivists in committing + the crime of conception. + + At present, indeed, it is only in France that the urgent need of + rest during the latter months of pregnancy has been clearly + realized, and any serious and official attempts made to provide + for it. In an interesting Paris thesis (_De la Puériculture avant + le Naissance_, 1907) Clappier has brought together much + information bearing on the efforts now being made to deal + practically with this question. There are many _Asiles_ in Paris + for pregnant women. One of the best is the Asile Michelet, + founded in 1893 by the Assistance Publique de Paris. This is a + sanatorium for pregnant women who have reached a period of seven + and a half months. It is nominally restricted to the admission of + French women who have been domiciled for a year in Paris, but, in + practice, it appears that women from all parts of France are + received. They are employed in light and occasional work for the + institution, being paid for this work, and are also occupied in + making clothes for the expected baby. Married and unmarried women + are admitted alike, all women being equal from the point of view + of motherhood, and indeed the majority of the women who come to + the Asile Michelet are unmarried, some being girls who have even + trudged on foot from Brittany and other remote parts of France, + to seek concealment from their friends in the hospitable + seclusion of these refuges in the great city. It is not the least + advantage of these institutions that they shield unmarried + mothers and their offspring from the manifold evils to which they + are exposed, and thus tend to decrease crime and suffering. In + addition to the maternity refuges, there are institutions in + France for assisting with help and advice those pregnant women + who prefer to remain at home, but are thus enabled to avoid the + necessity for undue domestic labor. + + There ought to be no manner of doubt that when, as is the case + to-day in our own and some other supposedly civilized countries, + motherhood outside marriage is accounted as almost a crime, there + is the very greatest need for adequate provision for unmarried + women who are about to become mothers, enabling them to receive + shelter and care in secrecy, and to preserve their self-respect + and social position. This is necessary not only in the interests + of humanity and public economy, but also, as is too often + forgotten, in the interests of morality, for it is certain that + by the neglect to furnish adequate provision of this nature women + are driven to infanticide and prostitution. In earlier, more + humane days, the general provision for the secret reception and + care of illegitimate infants was undoubtedly most beneficial. The + suppression of the mediæval method, which in France took place + gradually between 1833 and 1862, led to a great increase in + infanticide and abortion, and was a direct encouragement to crime + and immorality. In 1887 the Conseil Général of the Seine sought + to replace the prevailing neglect of this matter by the adoption + of more enlightened ideas and founded a _bureau secret + d'admission_ for pregnant women. Since then both the abandonment + of infants and infanticide have greatly diminished, though they + are increasing in those parts of France which possess no + facilities of this kind. It is widely held that the State should + unify the arrangements for assuring secret maternity, and should, + in its own interests, undertake the expense. In 1904 French law + ensured the protection of unmarried mothers by guaranteeing their + secret, but it failed to organize the general establishment of + secret maternities, and has left to doctors the pioneering part + in this great and humane public work (A. Maillard-Brune, + _Refuges, Maternités, Bureaux d'Admission Secrets, comme Moyens + Préservatives des Infanticide_, Thèse de Paris, 1908). It is not + among the least benefits of the falling birth rate that it has + helped to stimulate this beneficent movement. + +The development of an industrial system which subordinates the human body +and the human soul to the thirst for gold, has, for a time, dismissed from +social consideration the interests of the race and even of the individual, +but it must be remembered that this has not been always and everywhere so. +Although in some parts of the world the women of savage peoples work up to +the time of confinement, it must be remarked that the conditions of work +in savage life do not resemble the strenuous and continuous labor of +modern factories. In many parts of the world, however, women are not +allowed to work hard during pregnancy and every consideration is shown to +them. This is so, for instance, among the Pueblo Indians, and among the +Indians of Mexico. Similar care is taken in the Carolines and the Gilbert +Islands and in many other regions all over the world. In some places, +women are secluded during pregnancy, and in others are compelled to +observe many more or less excellent rules. It is true that the assigned +cause for these rules is frequently the fear of evil spirits, but they +nevertheless often preserve a hygienic value. In many parts of the world +the discovery of pregnancy is the sign for a festival of more or less +ritual character, and much good advice is given to the expectant mother. +The modern Musselmans are careful to guard the health of their women when +pregnant, and so are the Chinese.[6] Even in Europe, in the thirteenth +century, as Clappier notes, industrial corporations sometimes had regard +to this matter, and would not allow women to work during pregnancy. In +Iceland, where much of the primitive life of Scandinavian Europe is still +preserved, great precautions are taken with pregnant women. They must lead +a quiet life, avoid tight garments, be moderate in eating and drinking, +take no alcohol, be safeguarded from all shocks, while their husbands and +all others who surround them must treat them with consideration, save them +from worry and always bear with them patiently.[7] + +It is necessary to emphasize this point because we have to realize that +the modern movement for surrounding the pregnant woman with tenderness and +care, so far from being the mere outcome of civilized softness and +degeneracy, is, in all probability, the return on a higher plane to the +sane practice of those races which laid the foundations of human +greatness. + +While rest is the cardinal virtue imposed on a woman during the later +months of pregnancy, there are other points in her regimen that are far +from unimportant in their bearing on the fate of the child. One of these +is the question of the mother's use of alcohol. Undoubtedly alcohol has +been a cause of much fanaticism. But the declamatory extravagance of +anti-alcoholists must not blind us to the fact that the evils of alcohol +are real. On the reproductive process especially, on the mammary glands, +and on the child, alcohol has an arresting and degenerative influence +without any compensatory advantages. It has been proved by experiments on +animals and observations on the human subject that alcohol taken by the +pregnant woman passes freely from the maternal circulation to the foetal +circulation. Féré has further shown that, by injecting alcohol and +aldehydes into hen's eggs during incubation, it is possible to cause +arrest of development and malformation in the chick.[8] The woman who is +bearing her child in her womb or suckling it at her breast would do well +to remember that the alcohol which may be harmless to herself is little +better than poison to the immature being who derives nourishment from her +blood. She should confine herself to the very lightest of alcoholic +beverages in very moderate amounts and would do better still to abandon +these entirely and drink milk instead. She is now the sole source of the +child's life and she cannot be too scrupulous in creating around it an +atmosphere of purity and health. No after-influence can ever compensate +for mistakes made at this time.[9] + +What is true of alcohol is equally true of other potent drugs and poisons, +which should all be avoided so far as possible during pregnancy because of +the harmful influence they may directly exert on the embryo. Hygiene is +better than drugs, and care should be exercised in diet, which should by +no means be excessive. It is a mistake to suppose that the pregnant woman +needs considerably more food than usual, and there is much reason to +believe not only that a rich meat diet tends to cause sterility but that +it is also unfavorable to the development of the child in the womb.[10] + +How far, if at all, it is often asked, should sexual intercourse be +continued after fecundation has been clearly ascertained? This has not +always been found an easy question to answer, for in the human couple many +considerations combine to complicate the answer. Even the Catholic +theologians have not been entirely in agreement on this point. Clement of +Alexandria said that when the seed had been sown the field must be left +till harvest. But it may be concluded that, as a rule, the Church was +inclined to regard intercourse during pregnancy as at most a venial sin, +provided there was no danger of abortion. Augustine, Gregory the Great, +Aquinas, Dens, for instance, seem to be of this mind; for a few, indeed, +it is no sin at all.[11] Among animals the rule is simple and uniform; as +soon as the female is impregnated at the period of oestrus she absolutely +rejects all advance of the male until, after birth and lactation are over, +another period of oestrus occurs. Among savages the tendency is less +uniform, and sexual abstinence, when it occurs during pregnancy, tends to +become less a natural instinct than a ritual observance, or a custom now +chiefly supported by superstitions. Among many primitive peoples +abstinence during the whole of pregnancy is enjoined because it is +believed that the semen would kill the foetus.[12] + + The Talmud is unfavorable to coitus during pregnancy, and the + Koran prohibits it during the whole of the period, as well as + during suckling. Among the Hindus, on the other hand, intercourse + is continued up to the last fortnight of pregnancy, and it is + even believed that the injected semen helps to nourish the embryo + (W.D. Sutherland, "Ueber das Alltagsleben und die Volksmedizin + unter den Bauern Britischostindiens," _Münchener Medizinische + Wochenschrift_, Nos. 12 and 13, 1906). The great Indian physician + Susruta, however, was opposed to coitus during pregnancy, and the + Chinese are emphatically on the same side. + +As men have emerged from barbarism in the direction of civilization, the +animal instinct of refusal after impregnation has been completely lost in +women, while at the same time both sexes tend to become indifferent to +those ritual restraints which at an earlier period were almost as binding +as instinct. Sexual intercourse thus came to be practiced after +impregnation, much the same as before, as part of ordinary "marital +rights," though sometimes there has remained a faint suspicion, reflected +in the hesitating attitude of the Catholic Church already alluded to, that +such intercourse may be a sinful indulgence. Morality is, however, called +in to fortify this indulgence. If the husband is shut out from marital +intercourse at this time, it is argued, he will seek extra-marital +intercourse, as indeed in some parts of the world it is recognized that he +legitimately may; therefore the interests of the wife, anxious to retain +her husband's fidelity, and the interests of Christian morality, anxious +to uphold the institution of monogamy, combine to permit the continuation +of coitus during pregnancy. The custom has been furthered by the fact +that, in civilized women at all events, coitus during pregnancy is usually +not less agreeable than at other times and by some women is felt indeed to +be even more agreeable.[13] There is also the further consideration, for +those couples who have sought to prevent conception, that now intercourse +may be enjoyed with impunity. From a higher point of view such intercourse +may also be justified, for if, as all the finer moralists of the sexual +impulse now believe, love has its value not only in so far as it induces +procreation but also in so far as it aids individual development and the +mutual good and harmony of the united couple, it becomes morally right +during pregnancy. + +From an early period, however, great authorities have declared themselves +in opposition to the custom of practicing coitus during pregnancy. At the +end of the first century, Soranus, the first of great gynæcologists, +stated, in his treatise on the diseases of women, that sexual intercourse +is injurious throughout pregnancy, because of the movement imparted to the +uterus, and especially injurious during the latter months. For more than +sixteen hundred years the question, having fallen into the hands of the +theologians, seems to have been neglected on the medical side until in +1721 a distinguished French obstetrician, Mauriceau, stated that no +pregnant woman should have intercourse during the last two months and that +no woman subject to miscarriage should have intercourse at all during +pregnancy. For more than a century, however, Mauriceau remained a pioneer +with few or no followers. It would be inconvenient, the opinion went, even +if it were necessary, to forbid intercourse during pregnancy.[14] + +During recent years, nevertheless, there has been an increasingly strong +tendency among obstetricians to speak decisively concerning intercourse +during pregnancy, either by condemning it altogether or by enjoining great +prudence. It is highly probable that, in accordance with the classical +experiments of Dareste on chicken embryos, shocks and disturbances to the +human embryo may also produce injurious effects on growth. The disturbance +due to coitus in the early stages of pregnancy may thus tend to produce +malformation. When such conditions are found in the children of perfectly +healthy, vigorous, and generally temperate parents who have indulged +recklessly in coitus during the early stages of pregnancy it is possible +that such coitus has acted on the embryo in the same way as shocks and +intoxications are known to act on the embryo of lower organisms. However +this may be, it is quite certain that in predisposed women, coitus during +pregnancy causes premature birth; it sometimes happens that labor pains +begin a few minutes after the act.[15] The natural instinct of animals +refuses to allow intercourse during pregnancy; the ritual observance of +primitive peoples very frequently points in the same direction; the voice +of medical science, so far as it speaks at all, is beginning to utter the +same warning, and before long will probably be in a position to do so on +the basis of more solid and coherent evidence. + + Pinard, the greatest of authorities on puericulture, asserts that + there must be complete cessation of sexual intercourse during the + whole of pregnancy, and in his consulting room at the Clinique + Baudelocque he has placed a large placard with an "Important + Notice" to this effect. Féré was strongly of opinion that sexual + relations during pregnancy, especially when recklessly carried + out, play an important part in the causation of nervous troubles + in children who are of sound heredity and otherwise free from all + morbid infection during gestation and development; he recorded in + detail a case which he considered conclusive ("L'Influence de + l'Incontinence Sexuelle pendant la Gestation sur la Descendance," + _Archives de Neurologie_, April, 1905). Bouchacourt discusses the + subject fully (_La Grossesse_, pp. 177-214), and thinks that + sexual intercourse during pregnancy should be avoided as much as + possible. Fürbringer (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in + Relation to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 226) recommends abstinence from + the sixth or seventh month, and throughout the whole of pregnancy + where there is any tendency to miscarriage, while in all cases + much care and gentleness should be exercised. + + The whole subject has been investigated in a Paris Thesis by H. + Brénot (_De L'Influence de la Copulation pendant la Grossesse_, + 1903); he concludes that sexual relations are dangerous + throughout pregnancy, frequently provoking premature confinement + or abortion, and that they are more dangerous in primiparæ than + in multiparæ. + +Nearly everything that has been said of the hygiene of pregnancy, and the +need for rest, applies also to the period immediately following the birth +of the child. Rest and hygiene on the mother's part continue to be +necessary alike in her own interests and in the child's. This need has +indeed been more generally and more practically recognized than the need +for rest during pregnancy. The laws of several countries make compulsory a +period of rest from employment after confinement, and in some countries +they seek to provide for the remuneration of the mother during this +enforced rest. In no country, indeed, is the principle carried out so +thoroughly and for so long a period as is desirable. But it is the right +principle, and embodies the germ which, in the future, will be developed. +There can be little doubt that whatever are the matters, and they are +certainly many, which may be safely left to the discretion of the +individual, the care of the mother and her child is not among them. That +is a matter which, more than any other, concerns the community as a whole, +and the community cannot afford to be slack in asserting its authority +over it. The State needs healthy men and women, and by any negligence in +attending to this need it inflicts serious charges of all sorts upon +itself, and at the same time dangerously impairs its efficiency in the +world. Nations have begun to recognize the desirability of education, but +they have scarcely yet begun to realize that the nationalization of health +is even more important than the nationalization of education. If it were +necessary to choose between the task of getting children educated and the +task of getting them well-born and healthy it would be better to abandon +education. There have been many great peoples who never dreamed of +national systems of education; there has been no great people without the +art of producing healthy and vigorous children. + +This matter becomes of peculiar importance in great industrial states like +England, the United States, and Germany, because in such states a tacit +conspiracy tends to grow up to subordinate national ends to individual +ends, and practically to work for the deterioration of the race. In +England, for instance, this tendency has become peculiarly well marked +with disastrous results. The interest of the employed woman tends to +become one with that of her employer; between them they combine to crush +the interests of the child who represents the race, and to defeat the laws +made in the interests of the race which are those of the community as a +whole. The employed woman wishes to earn as much wages as she can and with +as little interruption as she can; in gratifying that wish she is, at the +same time, acting in the interests of the employer, who carefully avoids +thwarting her. + +This impulse on the employed woman's part is by no means always and +entirely the result of poverty, and would not, therefore, be removed by +raising her wages. Long before marriage, when little more than a child, +she has usually gone out to work, and work has become a second nature. She +has mastered her work, she enjoys a certain position and what to her are +high wages; she is among her friends and companions; the noise and bustle +and excitement of the work-room or the factory have become an agreeable +stimulant which she can no longer do without. On the other hand, her home +means nothing to her; she only returns there to sleep, leaving it next +morning at day-break or earlier; she is ignorant even of the simplest +domestic arts; she moves about in her own home like a strange and awkward +child. The mere act of marriage cannot change this state of things; +however willing she may be at marriage to become a domesticated wife, she +is destitute alike of the inclination or the skill for domesticity. Even +in spite of herself she is driven back to the work-shop, to the one place +where she feels really at home. + + In Germany women are not allowed to work for four weeks after + confinement, nor during the following two weeks except by medical + certificate. The obligatory insurance against disease which + covers women at confinement assures them an indemnity at this + time equivalent to a large part of their wages. Married and + unmarried mothers benefit alike. The Austrian law is founded on + the same model. This measure has led to a very great decrease in + infantile mortality, and, therefore, a great increase in health + among those who survive. It is, however, regarded as very + inadequate, and there is a movement in Germany for extending the + time, for applying the system to a larger number of women, and + for making it still more definitely compulsory. + + In Switzerland it has been illegal since 1877 for any woman to be + received into a factory after confinement, unless she has rested + in all for eight weeks, six weeks at least of this period being + after confinement. Since 1898 Swiss working women have been + protected by law from exercising hard work during pregnancy, and + from various other influences likely to be injurious. But this + law is evaded in practice, because it provides no compensatory + indemnity for the woman. An attempt, in 1899, to amend the law by + providing for such indemnity was rejected by the people. + + In Belgium and Holland there are laws against women working + immediately after confinement, but no indemnity is provided, so + that employers and employed combine to evade the law. In France + there is no such law, although its necessity has often been + emphatically asserted (see, e.g., Salvat, _La Dépopulation de la + France_, Thèse de Lyon, 1903). + + In England it is illegal to employ a woman "knowingly" in a + work-shop within four weeks of the birth of her child, but no + provision is made by the law for the compensation of the woman + who is thus required to sacrifice herself to the interests of the + State. The woman evades the law in tacit collusion with her + employers, who can always avoid "knowing" that a birth has taken + place, and so escape all responsibility for the mother's + employment. Thus the factory inspectors are unable to take + action, and the law becomes a dead letter; in 1906 only one + prosecution for this offense could be brought into court. By the + insertion of this "knowingly" a premium is placed on ignorance. + The unwisdom of thus beforehand placing a premium on ignorance + has always been more or less clearly recognized by the framers of + legal codes even as far back as the days of the Ten Commandments + and the laws of Hamurabi. It is the business of the Court, of + those who administer the law, to make allowance for ignorance + where such allowance is fairly called for; it is not for the + law-maker to make smooth the path of the law-breaker. There are + evidently law-makers nowadays so scrupulous, or so simple-minded, + that they would be prepared to exact that no pickpocket should be + prosecuted if he was able to declare on oath that he had no + "knowledge" that the purse he had taken belonged to the person he + extracted it from. + + The annual reports of the English factory inspectors serve to + bring ridicule on this law, which looks so wisely humane and yet + means nothing, but have so far been powerless to effect any + change. These reports show, moreover, that the difficulty is + increasing in magnitude. Thus Miss Martindale, a factory + inspector, states that in all the towns she visits, from a quiet + cathedral city to a large manufacturing town, the employment of + married women is rapidly increasing; they have worked in mills or + factories all their lives and are quite unaccustomed to cooking, + housework and the rearing of children, so that after marriage, + even when not compelled by poverty, they prefer to go on working + as before. Miss Vines, another factory inspector, repeats the + remark of a woman worker in a factory. "I do not need to work, + but I do not like staying at home," while another woman said, "I + would rather be at work a hundred times than at home. I get lost + at home" (_Annual Report Chief Inspector of Factories and + Workshops for 1906_, pp. 325, etc.). + + It may be added that not only is the English law enjoining four + weeks' rest on the mother after childbirth practically + inoperative, but the period itself is absurdly inadequate. As a + rest for the mother it is indeed sufficient, but the State is + still more interested in the child than in its mother, and the + child needs the mother's chief care for a much longer period than + four weeks. Helme advocates the State prohibition of women's work + for at least six months after confinement. Where nurseries are + attached to factories, enabling the mother to suckle her infant + in intervals of work, the period may doubtless be shortened. + + It is important to remember that it is by no means only the women + in factories who are induced to work as usual during the whole + period of pregnancy, and to return to work immediately after the + brief rest of confinement. The Research Committee of the + Christian Social Union (London Branch) undertook, in 1905, an + inquiry into the employment of women after childbirth. Women in + factories and workshops were excluded from the inquiry which only + had reference to women engaged in household duties, in home + industries, and in casual work. It was found that the majority + carry on their employment right up to the time of confinement and + resume it from ten to fourteen days later. The infantile death + rate for the children of women engaged only in household duties + was greatly lower than that for the children of the other women, + while, as ever, the hand-fed infants had a vastly higher death + rate than the breast-fed infants (_British Medical Journal_, Oct. + 24, 1908, p. 1297). + + In the great French gun and armour-plate works at Creuzot (Saône + et Loire) the salaries of expectant mothers among the employees + are raised; arrangements are made for giving them proper advice + and medical attendance; they are not allowed to work after the + middle of pregnancy or to return to work after confinement + without a medical certificate of fitness. The results are said to + be excellent, not only on the health of the mothers, but in the + diminution of premature births, the decrease of infantile deaths, + and the general prevalence of breast-feeding. It would probably + be hopeless to expect many employers in Anglo-Saxon lands to + adopt this policy. They are too "practical," they know how small + is the money-value of human lives. With us it is necessary for + the State to intervene. + + There can be no doubt that, on the whole, modern civilized + communities are beginning to realize that under the social and + economic conditions now tending more and more to prevail, they + must in their own interests insure that the mother's best energy + and vitality are devoted to the child, both before and after its + birth. They are also realizing that they cannot carry out their + duty in this respect unless they make adequate provision for the + mothers who are thus compelled to renounce their employment in + order to devote themselves to their children. We here reach a + point at which Individualism is at one with Socialism. The + individualist cannot fail to see that it is at all cost necessary + to remove social conditions which crush out all individuality; + the Socialist cannot fail to see that a society which neglects to + introduce order at this central and vital point, the production + of the individual, must speedily perish. + +It is involved in the proper fulfilment of a mother's relationship to her +infant child that, provided she is healthy, she should suckle it. Of +recent years this question has become a matter of serious gravity. In the +middle of the eighteenth century, when the upper-class women of France had +grown disinclined to suckle their own children, Rousseau raised so loud +and eloquent a protest that it became once more the fashion for a woman to +fulfil her natural duties. At the present time, when the same evil is +found once more, and in a far more serious form, for now it is not the +small upper-class but the great lower-class that is concerned, the +eloquence of a Rousseau would be powerless, for it is not fashion so much +as convenience, and especially an intractable economic factor, that is +chiefly concerned. Not the least urgent reason for putting women, and +especially mothers, upon a sounder economic basis, is the necessity of +enabling them to suckle their children. + + No woman is sound, healthy, and complete unless she possesses + breasts that are beautiful enough to hold the promise of being + functional when the time for their exercise arrives, and nipples + that can give suck. The gravity of this question to-day is shown + by the frequency with which women are lacking in this essential + element of womanhood, and the young man of to-day, it has been + said, often in taking a wife, "actually marries but part of a + woman, the other part being exhibited in the chemist's shop + window, in the shape of a glass feeding-bottle." Blacker found + among a thousand patients from the maternity department of + University College Hospital that thirty-nine had never suckled at + all, seven hundred and forty-seven had suckled all their + children, and two hundred and fourteen had suckled only some. + The chief reason given for not suckling was absence or + insufficiency of milk; other reasons being inability or + disinclination to suckle, and refusal of the child to take the + breast (Blacker, _Medical Chronicle_, Feb., 1900). These results + among the London poor are certainly very much better than could + be found in many manufacturing towns where women work after + marriage. In the other large countries of Europe equally + unsatisfactory results are found. In Paris Madame Dluska has + shown that of 209 women who came for their confinement to the + Clinique Baudelocque, only 74 suckled their children; of the 135 + who did not suckle, 35 were prevented by pathological causes or + absence of milk, 100 by the necessities of their work. Even those + who suckled could seldom continue more than seven months on + account of the physiological strain of work (Dluska, + _Contribution à l'Etude de l'Allaitement Maternel_, Thèse de + Paris, 1894). Many statistics have been gathered in the German + countries. Thus Wiedow (_Centralblatt für Gynäkologie_, No. 29, + 1895) found that of 525 women at the Freiburg Maternity only half + could suckle thoroughly during the first two weeks; imperfect + nipples were noted in 49 cases, and it was found that the + development of the nipple bore a direct relation to the value of + the breast as a secretory organ. At Munich Escherich and Büller + found that nearly 60 per cent. of women of the lower class were + unable to suckle their children, and at Stuttgart three-quarters + of the child-bearing women were in this condition. + +The reasons why children should be suckled at their mothers' breasts are +larger than some may be inclined to believe. In the first place the +psychological reason is one of no mean importance. The breast with its +exquisitely sensitive nipple, vibrating in harmony with the sexual organs, +furnishes the normal mechanism by which maternal love is developed. No +doubt the woman who never suckles her child may love it, but such love is +liable to remain defective on the fundamental and instinctive side. In +some women, indeed, whom we may hesitate to call abnormal, maternal love +fails to awaken at all until brought into action through this mechanism by +the act of suckling. + +A more generally recognized and certainly fundamental reason for suckling +the child is that the milk of the mother, provided she is reasonably +healthy, is the infant's only ideally fit food. There are some people +whose confidence in science leads them to believe that it is possible to +manufacture foods that are as good or better than mother's milk; they +fancy that the milk which is best for the calf is equally best for so +different an animal as the baby. These are delusions. The infant's best +food is that elaborated in his own mother's body. All other foods are more +or less possible substitutes, which require trouble to prepare properly +and are, moreover, exposed to various risks from which the mother's milk +is free. + +A further reason, especially among the poor, against the use of any +artificial foods is that it accustoms those around the child to try +experiments with its feeding and to fancy that any kind of food they eat +themselves may be good for the infant. It thus happens that bread and +potatoes, brandy and gin, are thrust into infants' mouths. With the infant +that is given the breast it is easier to make plain that, except by the +doctor's orders, nothing else must be given. + +An additional reason why the mother should suckle her child is the close +and frequent association with the child thus involved. Not only is the +child better cared for in all respects, but the mother is not deprived of +the discipline of such care, and is also enabled from the outset to learn +and to understand the child's nature. + + The inability to suckle acquires great significance if we realize + that it is associated, probably in a large measure as a direct + cause, with infantile mortality. The mortality of + artificially-fed infants during the first year of life is seldom + less than double that of the breast-fed, sometimes it is as much + as three times that of the breast-fed, or even more; thus at + Derby 51.7 per cent. of hand-fed infants die under the age of + twelve months, but only 8.6 per cent. of breast-fed infants. + Those who survive are by no means free from suffering. At the end + of the first year they are found to weigh about 25 per cent. less + than the breast-fed, and to be much shorter; they are more liable + to tuberculosis and rickets, with all the evil results that flow + from these diseases; and there is some reason to believe that the + development of their teeth is injuriously affected. The + degenerate character of the artificially-fed is well indicated by + the fact that of 40,000 children who were brought for treatment + to the Children's Hospital in Munich, 86 per cent. had been + brought up by hand, and the few who had been suckled had usually + only had the breast for a short time. The evil influence persists + even up to adult life. In some parts of France where the + wet-nurse industry flourishes so greatly that nearly all the + children are brought up by hand, it has been found that the + percentage of rejected conscripts is nearly double that for + France generally. Corresponding results have been found by + Friedjung in a large German athletic association. Among 155 + members, 65 per cent. were found on inquiry to have been + breast-fed as infants (for an average of six months); but among + the best athletes the percentage of breast-fed rose to 72 per + cent. (for an average period of nine or ten months), while for + the group of 56 who stood lowest in athletic power the percentage + of breast-fed fell to 57 (for an average of only three months). + + The advantages for an infant of being suckled by its mother are + greater than can be accounted for by the mere fact of being + suckled rather than hand-fed. This has been shown by Vitrey (_De + la Mortalité Infantile_, Thèse de Lyon, 1907), who found from the + statistics of the Hôtel-Dieu at Lyons, that infants suckled by + their mothers have a mortality of only 12 per cent., but if + suckled by strangers, the mortality rises to 33 per cent. It may + be added that, while suckling is essential to the complete + well-being of the child, it is highly desirable for the sake of + the mother's health also. (Some important statistics are + summarized in a paper on "Infantile Mortality" in _British + Medical Journal_, Nov. 2, 1907), while the various aspects of + suckling have been thoroughly discussed by Bollinger, "Ueber + Säuglings-Sterblichkeit und die Erbliche functionelle Atrophie + der menschlichen Milchdrüse" (_Correspondenzblatt Deutschen + Gesellschaft Anthropologie_, Oct., 1899). + + It appears that in Sweden, in the middle of the eighteenth + century, it was a punishable offense for a woman to give her baby + the bottle when she was able to suckle it. In recent years Prof. + Anton von Menger, of Vienna, has argued (in his _Burgerliche + Recht und die Besitzlosen Klassen_) that the future generation + has the right to make this claim, and he proposes that every + mother shall be legally bound to suckle her child unless her + inability to do so has been certified by a physician. E.A. + Schroeder (_Das Recht in der Geschlechtlichen Ordnung_, 1893, p. + 346) also argued that a mother should be legally bound to suckle + her infant for at least nine months, unless solid grounds could + be shown to the contrary, and this demand, which seems reasonable + and natural, since it is a mother's privilege as well as her duty + to suckle her infant when able to do so, has been insistently + made by others also. It has been supported from the legal side by + Weinberg (_Mutterschutz_, Sept., 1907). In France the Loi Roussel + forbids a woman to act as a wet-nurse until her child is seven + months old, and this has had an excellent effect in lowering + infantile mortality (A. Allée, _Puériculture et la Loi Roussel_, + Thèse de Paris, 1908). In some parts of Germany manufacturers are + compelled to set up a suckling-room in the factory, where mothers + can give the breast to the child in the intervals of work. The + control and upkeep of these rooms, with provision of doctors and + nurses, is undertaken by the municipality (_Sexual-Probleme_, + Sept., 1908, p. 573). + +As things are to-day in modern industrial countries the righting of these +wrongs cannot be left to Nature, that is, to the ignorant and untrained +impulses of persons who live in a whirl of artificial life where the voice +of instinct is drowned. The mother, we are accustomed to think, may be +trusted to see to the welfare of her child, and it is unnecessary, or even +"immoral," to come to her assistance. Yet there are few things, I think, +more pathetic than the sight of a young Lancashire mother who works in the +mills, when she has to stay at home to nurse her sick child. She is used +to rise before day-break to go to the mill; she has scarcely seen her +child by the light of the sun, she knows nothing of its necessities, the +hands that are so skilful to catch the loom cannot soothe the child. The +mother gazes down at it in vague, awkward, speechless misery. It is not a +sight one can ever forget. + +It is France that is taking the lead in the initiation of the scientific +and practical movements for the care of the young child before and after +birth, and it is in France that we may find the germs of nearly all the +methods now becoming adopted for arresting infantile mortality. The +village system of Villiers-le-Duc, near Dijon in the Côte d'Or, has proved +a germ of this fruitful kind. Here every pregnant woman not able to secure +the right conditions for her own life and that of the child she is +bearing, is able to claim the assistance of the village authorities; she +is entitled, without payment, to the attendance of a doctor and midwife +and to one franc a day during her confinement. The measures adopted in +this village have practically abolished both maternal and infantile +mortality. A few years ago Dr. Samson Moore, the medical officer of health +for Huddersfield, heard of this village, and Mr. Benjamin Broadbent, the +Mayor of Huddersfield, visited Villiers-le-Duc. It was resolved to +initiate in Huddersfield a movement for combating infant mortality. +Henceforth arose what is known as the Huddersfield scheme, a scheme which +has been fruitful in splendid results. The points of the Huddersfield +scheme are: (1) compulsory notification of births within forty-eight +hours; (2) the appointment of lady assistant medical officers of help to +visit the home, inquire, advise, and assist; (3) the organized aid of +voluntary lady workers in subordination to the municipal part of the +scheme; (4) appeal to the medical officer of help when the baby, not being +under medical care, fails to thrive. The infantile mortality of +Huddersfield has been very greatly reduced by this scheme.[16] + + The Huddersfield scheme may be said to be the origin of the + English Notification of Births Act, which came into operation in + 1908. This Act represents, in England, the national inauguration + of a scheme for the betterment of the race, the ultimate results + of which it is impossible to foresee. When this Act comes into + universal action every baby of the land will be entitled--legally + and not by individual caprice or philanthropic condescension--to + medical attention from the day of birth, and every mother will + have at hand the counsel of an educated woman in touch with the + municipal authorities. There could be no greater triumph for + medical science, for national efficiency, and the cause of + humanity generally. Even on the lower financial plane, it is easy + to see that an enormous saving of public and private money will + thus be effected. The Act is adoptive, and not compulsory. This + was a wise precaution, for an Act of this kind cannot be + effectual unless it is carried out thoroughly by the community + adopting it, and it will not be adopted until a community has + clearly realized its advantages and the methods of attaining + them. + + An important adjunct of this organization is the School for + Mothers. Such schools, which are now beginning to spring up + everywhere, may be said to have their origins in the + _Consultations de Nourrissons_ (with their offshoot the _Goutte + de Lait_), established by Professor Budin in 1892, which have + spread all over France and been widely influential for good. At + the _Consultations_ infants are examined and weighed weekly, and + the mothers advised and encouraged to suckle their children. The + _Gouttes_ are practically milk dispensaries where infants for + whom breast-feeding is impossible are fed with milk under medical + supervision. Schools for Mothers represent an enlargement of the + same scheme, covering a variety of subjects which it is necessary + for a mother to know. Some of the first of these schools were + established at Bonn, at the Bavarian town of Weissenberg, and in + Ghent. At some of the Schools for Mothers, and notably at Ghent + (described by Mrs. Bertrand Russell in the _Nineteenth Century_, + 1906), the important step has been taken of giving training to + young girls from fourteen to eighteen; they receive instruction + in infant anatomy and physiology, in the preparation of + sterilized milk, in weighing children, in taking temperatures and + making charts, in managing crêches, and after two years are able + to earn a salary. In various parts of England, schools for young + mothers and girls on these lines are now being established, first + in London, under the auspices of Dr. F.J. Sykes, Medical Officer + of Health for St. Pancreas (see, e.g., _A School For Mothers_, + 1908, describing an establishment of this kind at Somers Town, + with a preface by Sir Thomas Barlow; an account of recent + attempts to improve the care of infants in London will also be + found in the _Lancet_, Sept. 26, 1908). It may be added that some + English municipalities have established depôts for supplying + mothers cheaply with good milk. Such depôts are, however, likely + to be more mischievous than beneficial if they promote the + substitution of hand-feeding for suckling. They should never be + established except in connection with Schools for Mothers, where + an educational influence may be exerted, and no mother should be + supplied with milk unless she presents a medical certificate + showing that she is unable to nourish her child (Byers, "Medical + Women and Public Health Questions," _British Medical Journal_, + Oct. 6, 1906). It is noteworthy that in England the local + authorities will shortly be empowered by law to establish Schools + for Mothers. + + The great benefits produced by these institutions in France, both + in diminishing the infant mortality and in promoting the + education of mothers and their pride and interest in their + children, have been set forth in two Paris theses by G. Chaignon + (_Organisation des Consultations de Nourrissons à la Campagne_, + 1908), and Alcide Alexandre (_Consultation de Nourrissons et + Goutte de Lait d'Arques_, 1908). + + The movement is now spreading throughout Europe, and an + International Union has been formed, including all the + institutions specially founded for the protection of child life + and the promotion of puericulture. The permanent committee is in + Brussels, and a Congress of Infant Protection (_Goutte de Lait_) + is held every two years. + +It will be seen that all the movements now being set in action for the +improvement of the race through the child and the child's mother, +recognize the intimacy of the relation between the mother and her child +and are designed to aid her, even if necessary by the exercise of some +pressure, in performing her natural functions in relation to her child. To +the theoretical philanthropist, eager to reform the world on paper, +nothing seems simpler than to cure the present evils of child-rearing by +setting up State nurseries which are at once to relieve mothers of +everything connected with the production of the men of the future beyond +the pleasure--if such it happens to be--of conceiving them and the trouble +of bearing them, and at the same time to rear them up independently of the +home, in a wholesome, economical, and scientific manner.[17] Nothing seems +simpler, but from the fundamental psychological standpoint nothing is +falser. The idea of a State which is outside the community is but a +survival in another form of that antiquated notion which compelled Louis +XIV to declare "L'Etat c'est moi!" A State which admits that the +individuals composing it are incompetent to perform their own most sacred +and intimate functions, and takes upon itself to perform them instead, +attempts a task which would be undesirable, even if it were possible of +achievement. It must always be remembered that a State which proposes to +relieve its constituent members of their natural functions and +responsibilities attempts something quite different from the State which +seeks to aid its members to fulfil their own biological and social +functions more adequately. A State which enables its mothers to rest when +they are child-bearing is engaged in a reasonable task; a State which +takes over its mothers' children is reducing philanthropy to absurdity. It +is easy to realize this if we consider the inevitable course of +circumstances under a system of "State-nurseries." The child would be +removed from its natural mother at the earliest age, but some one has to +perform the mother's duties; the substitute must therefore be properly +trained for such duties; and in exercising them under favorable +circumstances a maternal relationship is developed between the child and +the "mother," who doubtless possesses natural maternal instincts but has +no natural maternal bond to the child she is mothering. Such a +relationship tends to become on both sides practically and emotionally the +real relationship. We very often have opportunity of seeing how +unsatisfactory such a relationship becomes. The artificial mother is +deprived of a child she had begun to feel her own; the child's emotional +relationships are upset, split and distorted; the real mother has the +bitterness of feeling that for her child she is not the real mother. Would +it not have been much better for all if the State had encouraged the vast +army of women it had trained for the position of mothering other women's +children, to have, instead, children of their own? The women who are +incapable of mothering their own children could then be trained to refrain +from bearing them. + + Ellen Key (in her _Century of the Child_, and elsewhere) has + advocated for all young women a year of compulsory "service," + analogous to the compulsory military service imposed in most + countries on young men. During this period the girl would be + trained in rational housekeeping, in the principles of hygiene, + in the care of the sick, and especially in the care of infants + and all that concerns the physical and psychic development of + children. The principle of this proposal has since been widely + accepted. Marie von Schmid (in her _Mutterdienst_, 1907) goes so + far as to advocate a general training of young women in such + duties, carried on in a kind of enlarged and improved midwifery + school. The service would last a year, and the young woman would + then be for three years in the reserves, and liable to be called + up for duty. There is certainly much to be said for such a + proposal, considerably more than is to be said for compulsory + military service. For while it is very doubtful whether a man + will ever be called on to fight, most women are liable to be + called on to exercise household duties or to look after children, + whether for themselves or for other people. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[1] It is not, of course, always literally true that each parent supplies +exactly half the heredity, for, as we see among animals generally, the +offspring may sometimes approach more nearly to one parent, sometimes to +the other, while among plants, as De Vries and others have shown, the +heredity may be still more unequally divided. + +[2] It should scarcely be necessary to say that to assert that motherhood +is a woman's supreme function is by no means to assert that her activities +should be confined to the home. That is an opinion which may now be +regarded as almost extinct even among those who most glorify the function +of woman as mother. As Friedrich Naumann and others have very truly +pointed out, a woman is not adequately equipped to fulfil her functions as +mother and trainer of children unless she has lived in the world and +exercised a vocation. + +[3] "Were the capacities of the brain and the heart equal in the sexes," +Lily Braun (_Die Frauenfrage_, page 207) well says, "the entry of women +into public life would be of no value to humanity, and would even lead to +a still wilder competition. Only the recognition that the entire nature of +woman is different from that of man, that it signifies a new vivifying +principle in human life, makes the women's movement, in spite of the +misconception of its enemies and its friends, a social revolution" (see +also Havelock Ellis, _Man and Woman_, fourth edition, 1904, especially Ch. +XVIII). + +[4] The word "puericulture" was invented by Dr. Caron in 1866 to signify +the culture of children after birth. It was Pinard, the distinguished +French obstetrician, who, in 1895, gave it a larger and truer significance +by applying it to include the culture of children before birth. It is now +defined as "the science which has for its end the search for the knowledge +relative to the reproduction, the preservation, and the amelioration of +the human race" (Péchin, _La Puériculture avant la Naissance_, Thèse de +Paris, 1908). + +[5] In _La Grossesse_ (pp. 450 et seq.) Bouchacourt has discussed the +problems of puericulture at some length. + +[6] The importance of antenatal puericulture was fully recognized in China +a thousand years ago. Thus Madame Cheng wrote at that time concerning the +education of the child: "Even before birth his education may begin; and, +therefore, the prospective mother of old, when lying down, lay straight; +when sitting down, sat upright; and when standing, stood erect. She would +not taste strange flavors, nor have anything to do with spiritualism; if +her food were not cut straight she would not eat it, and if her mat were +not set straight, she would not sit upon it. She would not look at any +objectionable sight, nor listen to any objectionable sound, nor utter any +rude word, nor handle any impure thing. At night she studied some +canonical work, by day she occupied herself with ceremonies and music. +Therefore, her sons were upright and eminent for their talents and +virtues; such was the result of antenatal training" (H.A. Giles, "Woman in +Chinese Literature," _Nineteenth Century_, Nov., 1904). + +[7] Max Bartels, "Isländischer Brauch," etc., _Zeitschrift für +Ethnologie_, 1900, p. 65. A summary of the customs of various peoples in +regard to pregnancy is given by Ploss and Bartels, _Das Weib_, Sect. XXIX. + +[8] On the influence of alcohol during pregnancy on the embryo, see, e.g., +G. Newman, _Infant Mortality_, pp. 72-77. W.C. Sullivan (_Alcoholism_, +1906, Ch. XI), summarizes the evidence showing that alcohol is a factor in +human degeneration. + +[9] There is even reason to believe that the alcoholism of the mother's +father may impair her ability as a mother. Bunge (_Die Zunehmende +Unfähigkeit der Frauen ihre Kinder zu Stillen_, fifth edition, 1907), from +an investigation extending over 2,000 families, finds that chronic +alcoholic poisoning in the father is the chief cause of the daughter's +inability to suckle, this inability not usually being recovered in +subsequent generations. Bunge has, however, been opposed by Dr. Agnes +Bluhm, "Die Stillungsnot," _Zeitschrift für Soziale Medizin_, 1908 (fully +summarized by herself in _Sexual-Probleme_, Jan., 1909). + +[10] See, e.g., T. Arthur Helme, "The Unborn Child," _British Medical +Journal_, Aug. 24, 1907. Nutrition should, of course, be adequate. Noel +Paton has shown (_Lancet_, July 4, 1903) that defective nutrition of the +pregnant woman diminishes the weight of the offspring. + +[11] Debreyne, _Moechialogie_, p. 277. And from the Protestant side see +Northcote (_Christianity and Sex Problems_, Ch. IX), who permits sexual +intercourse during pregnancy. + +[12] See Appendix A to the third volume of these _Studies_; also Ploss and +Bartels, loc. cit. + +[13] Thus one lady writes: "I have only had one child, but I may say that +during pregnancy the desire for union was much stronger, for the whole +time, than at any other period." Bouchacourt (_La Grossesse_, pp. 180-183) +states that, as a rule, sexual desire is not diminished by pregnancy, and +is occasionally increased. + +[14] This "inconvenience" remains to-day a stumbling-block with many +excellent authorities. "Except when there is a tendency to miscarriage," +says Kossmann (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation to +Marriage_, vol. i, p. 257), "we must be very guarded in ordering +abstinence from intercourse during pregnancy," and Ballantyne (_The +Foetus_, p. 475) cautiously remarks that the question is difficult to +decide. Forel also (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, fourth edition, p. 81), who is +not prepared to advocate complete sexual abstinence during a normal +pregnancy, admits that it is a rather difficult question. + +[15] This point is discussed, for instance, by Séropian in a Paris Thesis +(_Fréquence comparée des Causes de l'Accouchement Prémature_, 1907); he +concludes that coitus during pregnancy is a more frequent cause of +premature confinement than is commonly supposed, especially in primiparæ, +and markedly so by the ninth month. + +[16] "Infantile Mortality: The Huddersfield Scheme," _British Medical +Journal_, Dec., 1907; Samson Moore, "Infant Mortality," ib., August 29, +1908. + +[17] Ellen Key has admirably dealt with proposals of this kind (as put +forth by C.P. Stetson) in her Essays "On Love and Marriage." In opposition +to such proposals Ellen Key suggests that such women as have been properly +trained for maternal duties and are unable entirely to support themselves +while exercising them should be subsidized by the State during the child's +first three years of life. It may be added that in Leipzig the plan of +subsidizing mothers who (under proper medical and other supervision) +suckle their infants has already been introduced. + + + + +CHAPTER II. + +SEXUAL EDUCATION. + +Nurture Necessary as Well as Breed--Precocious Manifestations of the +Sexual Impulse--Are They to be Regarded as Normal?--The Sexual Play of +Children--The Emotion of Love in Childhood--Are Town Children More +Precocious Sexually Than Country Children?--Children's Ideas Concerning +the Origin of Babies--Need for Beginning the Sexual Education of Children +in Early Years--The Importance of Early Training in Responsibility--Evil +of the Old Doctrine of Silence in Matters of Sex--The Evil Magnified When +Applied to Girls--The Mother the Natural and Best Teacher--The Morbid +Influence of Artificial Mystery in Sex Matters--Books on Sexual +Enlightenment of the Young--Nature of the Mother's Task--Sexual Education +in the School--The Value of Botany--Zoölogy--Sexual Education After +Puberty--The Necessity of Counteracting Quack Literature--Danger of +Neglecting to Prepare for the First Onset of Menstruation--The Right +Attitude Towards Woman's Sexual Life--The Vital Necessity of the Hygiene +of Menstruation During Adolescence--Such Hygiene Compatible with the +Educational and Social Equality of the Sexes--The Invalidism of Women +Mainly Due to Hygienic Neglect--Good Influence of Physical Training on +Women and Bad Influence of Athletics--The Evils of Emotional +Suppression--Need of Teaching the Dignity of Sex--Influence of These +Factors on a Woman's Fate in Marriage--Lectures and Addresses on Sexual +Hygiene--The Doctor's Part in Sexual Education--Pubertal Initiation Into +the Ideal World--The Place of the Religious and Ethical Teacher--The +Initiation Rites of Savages Into Manhood and Womanhood--The Sexual +Influence of Literature--The Sexual Influence of Art. + + +It may seem to some that in attaching weight to the ancestry, the +parentage, the conception, the gestation, even the first infancy, of the +child we are wandering away from the sphere of the psychology of sex. That +is far from being the case. We are, on the contrary, going to the root of +sex. All our growing knowledge tends to show that, equally with his +physical nature, the child's psychic nature is based on breed and nurture, +on the quality of the stocks he belongs to, and on the care taken at the +early moments when care counts for most, to preserve the fine quality of +those stocks. + + It must, of course, be remembered that the influences of both + breed and nurture are alike influential on the fate of the + individual. The influence of nurture is so obvious that few are + likely to under-rate it. The influence of breed, however, is less + obvious, and we may still meet with persons so ill informed, and + perhaps so prejudiced, as to deny it altogether. The growth of + our knowledge in this matter, by showing how subtle and + penetrative is the influence of heredity, cannot fail to dispel + this mischievous notion. No sound civilization is possible except + in a community which in the mass is not only well-nurtured but + well-bred. And in no part of life so much as in the sexual + relationships is the influence of good breeding more decisive. An + instructive illustration may be gleaned from the minute and + precise history of his early life furnished to me by a highly + cultured Russian gentleman. He was brought up in childhood with + his own brothers and sisters and a little girl of the same age + who had been adopted from infancy, the child of a prostitute who + had died soon after the infant's birth. The adopted child was + treated as one of the family, and all the children supposed that + she was a real sister. Yet from early years she developed + instincts unlike those of the children with whom she was + nurtured; she lied, she was cruel, she loved to make mischief, + and she developed precociously vicious sexual impulses; though + carefully educated, she adopted the occupation of her mother, and + at the age of twenty-two was exiled to Siberia for robbery and + attempt to murder. The child of a chance father and a prostitute + mother is not fatally devoted to ruin; but such a child is + ill-bred, and that fact, in some cases, may neutralize all the + influences of good nurture. + +When we reach the period of infancy we have already passed beyond the +foundations and potentialities of the sexual life; we are in some cases +witnessing its actual beginnings. It is a well-established fact that +auto-erotic manifestations may sometimes be observed even in infants of +less than twelve months. We are not now called upon to discuss the +disputable point as to how far such manifestations at this age can be +called normal.[18] A slight degree of menstrual and mammary activity +sometimes occurs at birth.[19] It seems clear that nervous and psychic +sexual activity has its first springs at this early period, and as the +years go by an increasing number of individuals join the stream until at +puberty practically all are carried along in the great current. + +While, therefore, it is possibly, even probably, true that the soundest +and healthiest individuals show no definite signs of nervous and psychic +sexuality in childhood, such manifestations are still sufficiently +frequent to make it impossible to say that sexual hygiene may be +completely ignored until puberty is approaching. + + Precocious physical development occurs as a somewhat rare + variation. W. Roger Williams ("Precocious Sexual Development with + Abstracts of over One Hundred Cases," _British Gynæcological + Journal_, May, 1902) has furnished an important contribution to + the knowledge of this anomaly which is much commoner in girls + than in boys. Roger Williams's cases include only twenty boys to + eighty girls, and precocity is not only more frequent but more + pronounced in girls, who have been known to conceive at eight, + while thirteen is stated to be the earliest age at which boys + have proved able to beget children. This, it may be remarked, is + also the earliest age at which spermatozoa are found in the + seminal fluid of boys; before that age the ejaculations contain + no spermatozoa, and, as Fürbringer and Moll have found, they may + even be absent at sixteen, or later. In female children + precocious sexual development is less commonly associated with + general increase of bodily development than in boys. (An + individual case of early sexual development in a girl of five has + been completely described and figured in the _Zeitschrift für + Ethnologie_, 1896, Heft 4, p. 262.) + + Precocious sexual impulses are generally vague, occasional, and + more or less innocent. A case of rare and pronounced character, + in which a child, a boy, from the age of two had been sexually + attracted to girls and women, and directed all his thoughts and + actions to sexual attempts on them, has been described by Herbert + Rich, of Detroit (_Alienist and Neurologist_, Nov., 1905). + General evidence from the literature of the subject as to sexual + precocity, its frequency and significance, has been brought + together by L.M. Terman ("A Study in Precocity," _American + Journal Psychology_, April, 1905). + + The erections that are liable to occur in male infants have + usually no sexual significance, though, as Moll remarks, they may + acquire it by attracting the child's attention; they are merely + reflex. It is believed by some, however, and notably by Freud, + that certain manifestations of infant activity, especially + thumb-sucking, are of sexual causation, and that the sexual + impulse constantly manifests itself at a very early age. The + belief that the sexual instinct is absent in childhood, Freud + regards as a serious error, so easy to correct by observation + that he wonders how it can have arisen. "In reality," he remarks, + "the new-born infant brings sexuality with it into the world, + sexual sensations accompany it through the days of lactation and + childhood, and very few children can fail to experience sexual + activities and feelings before the period of puberty" (Freud, + "Zur Sexuellen Aufklärung der Kinder," _Soziale Medizin und + Hygiene_, Bd. ii, 1907; cf., for details, the same author's _Drei + Abhandlungen zur Sexualtheorie_, 1905). Moll, on the other hand, + considers that Freud's views on sexuality in infancy are + exaggerations which must be decisively rejected, though he admits + that it is difficult, if not impossible, to differentiate the + feelings in childhood (Moll, _Das Sexualleben des Kindes_, p. + 154). Moll believes also that psycho-sexual manifestations + appearing after the age of eight are not pathological; children + who are weakly or of bad heredity are not seldom sexually + precocious, but, on the other hand, Moll has known children of + eight or nine with strongly developed sexual impulses, who yet + become finely developed men. + + Rudimentary sexual activities in childhood, accompanied by sexual + feelings, must indeed--when they are not too pronounced or too + premature--be regarded as coming within the normal sphere, though + when they occur in children of bad heredity they are not without + serious risks. But in healthy children, after the age of seven or + eight, they tend to produce no evil results, and are strictly of + the nature of play. Play, both in animals and men, as Groos has + shown with marvelous wealth of illustration, is a beneficent + process of education; the young creature is thereby preparing + itself for the exercise of those functions which in later life it + must carry out more completely and more seriously. In his _Spiele + der Menschen_, Groos applies this idea to the sexual play of + children, and brings forward quotations from literature in + evidence. Keller, in his "Romeo und Juliet auf dem Dorfe," has + given an admirably truthful picture of these childish + love-relationships. Emil Schultze-Malkowsky (_Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, Bd. ii, p. 370) reproduces some scenes from the + life of a little girl of seven clearly illustrating the exact + nature of the sexual manifestation at this age. + + A kind of rudimentary sexual intercourse between children, as + Bloch has remarked (_Beiträge_, etc., Bd. ii, p. 254), occurs in + many parts of the world, and is recognized by their elders as + play. This is, for instance, the case among the Bawenda of the + Transvaal (_Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1896, Heft 4, p. 364), + and among the Papuans of Kaiser-Wilhelms-Land, with the approval + of the parents, although much reticence is observed (id., 1889, + Heft 1, p. 16). Godard (_Egypte et Palestine_, 1867, p. 105) + noted the sexual play of the boys and girls in Cairo. In New + Mexico W.A. Hammond (_Sexual Impotence_, p. 107) has seen boys + and girls attempting a playful sexual conjunction with the + encouragement of men and women, and in New York he has seen boys + and girls of three and four doing the same in the presence of + their parents, with only a laughing rebuke. "Playing at pa and + ma" is indeed extremely common among children in genuine + innocence, and with a complete absence of viciousness; and is by + no means confined to children of low social class. Moll remarks + on its frequency (_Libido Sexualis_, Bd. i, p. 277), and the + committee of evangelical pastors, in their investigation of + German rural morality (_Die Geschlechtliche-sittliche + Verhältnisse_, Bd. i, p. 102) found that children who are not yet + of school age make attempts at coitus. The sexual play of + children is by no means confined to father and mother games; + frequently there are games of school with the climax in exposure + and smackings, and occasionally there are games of being doctors + and making examinations. Thus a young English woman says: "Of + course, when we were at school [at the age of twelve and earlier] + we used to play with one another, several of us girls; we used to + go into a field and pretend we were doctors and had to examine + one another, and then we used to pull up one another's clothes + and feel each other." + + These games do not necessarily involve the coöperation of the + sexual impulse, and still less have they any element of love. But + emotions of love, scarcely if at all distinguishable from adult + sexual love, frequently appear at equally early ages. They are of + the nature of play, in so far as play is a preparation for the + activities of later life, though, unlike the games, they are not + felt as play. Ramdohr, more than a century ago (_Venus Urania_, + 1798), referred to the frequent love of little boys for women. + More usually the love is felt towards individuals of the opposite + or the same sex who are not widely different in age, though + usually older. The most comprehensive study of the matter has + been made by Sanford Bell in America on a basis of as many as + 2,300 cases (S. Bell, "A Preliminary Study of the Emotion of Love + Between the Sexes," _American Journal Psychology_, July, 1902). + Bell finds that the presence of the emotion between three and + eight years of age is shown by such actions as hugging, kissing, + lifting each other, scuffling, sitting close to each other, + confessions to each other and to others, talking about each other + when apart, seeking each other and excluding the rest, grief at + separation, giving gifts, showing special courtesies to each + other, making sacrifices for each other, exhibiting jealousy. The + girls are, on the whole, more aggressive than the boys, and less + anxious to keep the matter secret. After the age of eight, the + girls increase in modesty and the boys become still more + secretive. The physical sensations are not usually located in the + sexual organs; erection of the penis and hyperæmia of the female + sexual parts Bell regards as marking undue precocity. But there + is diffused vascular and nervous tumescence and a state of + exaltation comparable, though not equal, to that experienced in + adolescent and adult age. On the whole, as Bell soundly + concludes, "love between children of opposite sex bears much the + same relation to that between adults as the flower does to the + fruit, and has about as little of physical sexuality in it as an + apple-blossom has of the apple that develops from it." Moll also + (op. cit. p. 76) considers that kissing and other similar + superficial contacts, which he denominates the phenomena of + contrectation, constitute most frequently the first and sole + manifestation of the sexual impulse in childhood. + + It is often stated that it is easier for children to preserve + their sexual innocence in the country than in the town, and that + only in cities is sexuality rampant and conspicuous. This is by + no means true, and in some respects it is the reverse of the + truth. Certainly, hard work, a natural and simple life, and a + lack of alert intelligence often combine to keep the rural lad + chaste in thought and act until the period of adolescence is + completed. Ammon, for instance, states, though without giving + definite evidence, that this is common among the Baden + conscripts. Certainly, also, all the multiple sensory excitements + of urban life tend to arouse the nervous and cerebral + excitability of the young at a comparatively early age in the + sexual as in other fields, and promote premature desires and + curiosities. But, on the other hand, urban life offers the young + no gratification for their desires and curiosities. The publicity + of a city, the universal surveillance, the studied decorum of a + population conscious that it is continually exposed to the gaze + of strangers, combine to spread a veil over the esoteric side of + life, which, even when at last it fails to conceal from the young + the urban stimuli of that life, effectually conceals, for the + most part, the gratifications of those stimuli. In the country, + however, these restraints do not exist in any corresponding + degree; animals render the elemental facts of sexual life clear + to all; there is less need or regard for decorum; speech is + plainer; supervision is impossible, and the amplest opportunities + for sexual intimacy are at hand. If the city may perhaps be said + to favor unchastity of thought in the young, the country may + certainly be said to favor unchastity of act. + + The elaborate investigations of the Committee of Lutheran pastors + into sexual morality (_Die Geschlechtich-sittliche Verhältnisse + im Deutschen Reiche_), published a few years ago, demonstrate + amply the sexual freedom in rural Germany, and Moll, who is + decidedly of opinion that the country enjoys no relative freedom + from sexuality, states (op. cit., pp. 137-139, 239) that even the + circulation of obscene books and pictures among school-children + seems to be more frequent in small towns and the country than in + large cities. In Russia, where it might be thought that urban and + rural conditions offered less contrast than in many countries, + the same difference has been observed. "I do not know," a Russian + correspondent writes, "whether Zola in _La Terre_ correctly + describes the life of French villages. But the ways of a Russian + village, where I passed part of my childhood, fairly resemble + those described by Zola. In the life of the rural population into + which I was plunged everything was impregnated with erotism. One + was surrounded by animal lubricity in all its immodesty. Contrary + to the generally received opinion, I believe that a child may + preserve his sexual innocence more easily in a town than in the + country. There are, no doubt, many exceptions to this rule. But + the functions of the sexual life are generally more concealed in + the towns than in the fields. Modesty (whether or not of the + merely superficial and exterior kind) is more developed among + urban populations. In speaking of sexual things in the towns + people veil their thought more; even the lower class in towns + employ more restraint, more euphemisms, than peasants. Thus in + the towns a child may easily fail to comprehend when risky + subjects are talked of in his presence. It may be said that the + corruption of towns, though more concealed, is all the deeper. + Maybe, but that concealment preserves children from it. The town + child sees prostitutes in the street every day without + distinguishing them from other people. In the country he would + every day hear it stated in the crudest terms that such and such + a girl has been found at night in a barn or a ditch making love + with such and such a youth, or that the servant girl slips every + night into the coachman's bed, the facts of sexual intercourse, + pregnancy, and childbirth being spoken of in the plainest terms. + In towns the child's attention is solicited by a thousand + different objects; in the country, except fieldwork, which fails + to interest him, he hears only of the reproduction of animals and + the erotic exploits of girls and youths. When we say that the + urban environment is more exciting we are thinking of adults, but + the things which excite the adult have usually no erotic effect + on the child, who cannot, however, long remain asexual when he + sees the great peasant girls, as ardent as mares in heat, + abandoning themselves to the arms of robust youths. He cannot + fail to remark these frank manifestations of sexuality, though + the subtle and perverse refinements of the town would escape his + notice. I know that in the countries of exaggerated prudery there + is much hidden corruption, more, one is sometimes inclined to + think, than in less hypocritical countries. But I believe that + that is a false impression, and am persuaded that precisely + because of all these little concealments which excite the + malicious amusement of foreigners, there are really many more + young people in England who remain chaste than in the countries + which treat sexual relations more frankly. At all events, if I + have known Englishmen who were very debauched and very refined in + vice, I have also known young men of the same nation, over + twenty, who were as innocent as children, but never a young + Frenchman, Italian, or Spaniard of whom this could be said." + There is undoubtedly truth in this statement, though it must be + remembered that, excellent as chastity is, if it is based on mere + ignorance, its possessor is exposed to terrible dangers. + +The question of sexual hygiene, more especially in its special aspect of +sexual enlightenment, is not, however, dependent on the fact that in some +children the psychic and nervous manifestation of sex appears at an +earlier age than in others. It rests upon the larger general fact that in +all children the activity of intelligence begins to work at a very early +age, and that this activity tends to manifest itself in an inquisitive +desire to know many elementary facts of life which are really dependent on +sex. The primary and most universal of these desires is the desire to know +where children come from. No question could be more natural; the question +of origins is necessarily a fundamental one in childish philosophies as, +in more ultimate shapes, it is in adult philosophies. Most children, +either guided by the statements, usually the misstatements, of their +elders, or by their own intelligence working amid such indications as are +open to them, are in possession of a theory of the origin of babies. + + Stanley Hall ("Contents of Children's Minds on Entering School," + _Pedagogical Seminary_, June, 1891) has collected some of the + beliefs of young children as to the origin of babies. "God makes + babies in heaven, though the Holy Mother and even Santa Claus + make some. He lets them down and drops them, and the women or + doctors catch them, or He leaves them on the sidewalk, or brings + them down a wooden ladder backwards and pulls it up again, or + mamma or the doctor or the nurse go up and fetch them, sometimes + in a balloon, or they fly down and lose off their wings in some + place or other and forget it, and jump down to Jesus, who gives + them around. They were also often said to be found in + flour-barrels, and the flour sticks ever so long, you know, or + they grew in cabbages, or God puts them in water, perhaps in the + sewer, and the doctor gets them out and takes them to sick folks + that want them, or the milkman brings them early in the morning; + they are dug out of the ground, or bought at the baby store." + + In England and America the inquisitive child is often told that + the baby was found in the garden, under a gooseberry bush or + elsewhere; or more commonly it is said, with what is doubtless + felt to be a nearer approach to the truth, that the doctor + brought it. In Germany the common story told to children is that + the stork brings the baby. Various theories, mostly based on + folk-lore, have been put forward to explain this story, but none + of them seem quite convincing (see, e.g., G. Herman, + "Sexual-Mythen," _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, vol. i, Heft 5, + 1906, p. 176, and P. Näcke, _Neurologische Centralblatt_, No. 17, + 1907). Näcke thinks there is some plausibility in Professor + Petermann's suggestion that a frog writhing in a stork's bill + resembles a tiny human creature. + + In Iceland, according to Max Bartels ("Isländischer Brauch und + Volksglaube," etc., _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1900, Heft 2 + and 3) we find a transition between the natural and the fanciful + in the stories told to children of the origin of babies (the + stork is here precluded, for it only extends to the southern + border of Scandinavian lands). In North Iceland it is said that + God made the baby and the mother bore it, and on that account is + now ill. In the northwest it is said that God made the baby and + gave it to the mother. Elsewhere it is said that God sent the + baby and the midwife brought it, the mother only being in bed to + be near the baby (which is seldom placed in a cradle). It is also + sometimes said that a lamb or a bird brought the baby. Again it + is said to have entered during the night through the window. + Sometimes, however, the child is told that the baby came out of + the mother's breasts, or from below her breasts, and that is why + she is not well. + + Even when children learn that babies come out of the mother's + body this knowledge often remains very vague and inaccurate. It + very commonly happens, for instance, in all civilized countries + that the navel is regarded as the baby's point of exit from the + body. This is a natural conclusion, since the navel is seemingly + a channel into the body, and a channel for which there is no + obvious use, while the pudendal cleft would not suggest itself to + girls (and still less to boys) as the gate of birth, since it + already appears to be monopolized by the urinary excretion. This + belief concerning the navel is sometimes preserved through the + whole period of adolescence, especially in girls of the so-called + educated class, who are too well-bred to discuss the matter with + their married friends, and believe indeed that they are already + sufficiently well informed. At this age the belief may not be + altogether harmless, in so far as it leads to the real gate of + sex being left unguarded. In Elsass where girls commonly believe, + and are taught, that babies come through the navel, popular + folk-tales are current (_Anthropophyteia_, vol. iii, p. 89) + which represent the mistakes resulting from this belief as + leading to the loss of virginity. + + Freud, who believes that children give little credit to the stork + fable and similar stories invented for their mystification, has + made an interesting psychological investigation into the real + theories which children themselves, as the result of observation + and thought, reach concerning the sexual facts of life (S. Freud, + "Ueber Infantile Sexualtheorien," _Sexual-Probleme_, Dec., 1908). + Such theories, he remarks, correspond to the brilliant, but + defective hypotheses which primitive peoples arrive at concerning + the nature and origin of the world. There are three theories, + which, as Freud quite truly concludes, are very commonly formed + by children. The first, and the most widely disseminated, is that + there is no real anatomical difference between boys and girls; if + the boy notices that his little sister has no obvious penis he + even concludes that it is because she is too young, and the + little girl herself takes the same view. The fact that in early + life the clitoris is relatively larger and more penis-like helps + to confirm this view which Freud connects with the tendency in + later life to erotic dream of women furnished with a penis. This + theory, as Freud also remarks, favors the growth of homosexuality + when its germs are present. The second theory is the fæcal theory + of the origin of babies. The child, who perhaps thinks his mother + has a penis, and is in any case ignorant of the vagina, concludes + that the baby is brought into the world by an action analogous to + the action of the bowels. The third theory, which is perhaps less + prevalent than the others, Freud terms the sadistic theory of + coitus. The child realizes that his father must have taken some + sort of part in his production. The theory that sexual + intercourse consists in violence has in it a trace of truth, but + seems to be arrived at rather obscurely. The child's own sexual + feelings are often aroused for the first time when wrestling or + struggling with a companion; he may see his mother, also, + resisting more or less playfully a sudden caress from his father, + and if a real quarrel takes place, the impression may be + fortified. As to what the state of marriage consists in, Freud + finds that it is usually regarded as a state which abolishes + modesty; the most prevalent theory being that marriage means that + people can make water before each other, while another common + childish theory is that marriage is when people can show each + other their private parts. + +Thus it is that at a very early stage of the child's life we are brought +face to face with the question how we may most wisely begin his initiation +into the knowledge of the great central facts of sex. It is perhaps a +little late in the day to regard it as a question, but so it is among us, +although three thousand five hundred years ago, the Egyptian father spoke +to his child: "I have given you a mother who has carried you within her, a +heavy burden, for your sake, and without resting on me. When at last you +were born, she indeed submitted herself to the yoke, for during three +years were her nipples in your mouth. Your excrements never turned her +stomach, nor made her say, 'What am I doing?' When you were sent to school +she went regularly every day to carry the household bread and beer to your +master. When in your turn you marry and have a child, bring up your child +as your mother brought you up."[20] + +I take it for granted, however, that--whatever doubt there may be as to +the how or the when--no doubt is any longer possible as to the absolute +necessity of taking deliberate and active part in this sexual initiation, +instead of leaving it to the chance revelation of ignorant and perhaps +vicious companions or servants. It is becoming more and more widely felt +that the risks of ignorant innocence are too great. + + "All the love and solicitude parental yearning can bestow," + writes Dr. G.F. Butler, of Chicago (_Love and its Affinities_, + 1899, p. 83), "all that the most refined religious influence can + offer, all that the most cultivated associations can accomplish, + in one fatal moment may be obliterated. There is no room for + ethical reasoning, indeed oftentimes no consciousness of wrong, + but only Margaret's 'Es war so süss'." The same writer adds (as + had been previously remarked by Mrs. Craik and others) that among + church members it is the finer and more sensitive organizations + that are the most susceptible to sexual emotions. So far as boys + are concerned, we leave instruction in matters of sex, the most + sacred and central fact in the world, as Canon Lyttelton remarks, + to "dirty-minded school-boys, grooms, garden-boys, anyone, in + short, who at an early age may be sufficiently defiled and + sufficiently reckless to talk of them." And, so far as girls are + concerned, as Balzac long ago remarked, "a mother may bring up + her daughter severely, and cover her beneath her wings for + seventeen years; but a servant-girl can destroy that long work by + a word, even by a gesture." + + The great part played by servant-girls of the lower class in the + sexual initiation of the children of the middle class has been + illustrated in dealing with "The Sexual Impulse in Women" in vol. + iii, of these _Studies_, and need not now be further discussed. + I would only here say a word, in passing, on the other side. + Often as servant-girls take this part, we must not go so far as + to say that it is the case with the majority. As regards Germany, + Dr. Alfred Kind has lately put on record his experience: "I have + _never_, in youth, heard a bad or improper word on + sex-relationships from a servant-girl, although servant-girls + followed one another in our house like sunshine and showers in + April, and there was always a relation of comradeship between us + children and the servants." As regards England, I can add that my + own youthful experiences correspond to Dr. Kind's. This is not + surprising, for one may say that in the ordinary well-conditioned + girl, though her virtue may not be developed to heroic + proportions, there is yet usually a natural respect for the + innocence of children, a natural sexual indifference to them, and + a natural expectation that the male should take the active part + when a sexual situation arises. + +It is also beginning to be felt that, especially as regards women, +ignorant innocence is not merely too fragile a possession to be worth +preservation, but that it is positively mischievous, since it involves the +lack of necessary knowledge. "It is little short of criminal," writes Dr. +F.M. Goodchild,[21] "to send our young people into the midst of the +excitements and temptations of a great city with no more preparation than +if they were going to live in Paradise." In the case of women, ignorance +has the further disadvantage that it deprives them of the knowledge +necessary for intelligent sympathy with other women. The unsympathetic +attitude of women towards women is often largely due to sheer ignorance of +the facts of life. "Why," writes in a private letter a married lady who +keenly realizes this, "are women brought up with such a profound ignorance +of their own and especially other women's natures? They do not know half +as much about other women as a man of the most average capacity learns in +his day's march." We try to make up for our failure to educate women in +the essential matters of sex by imposing upon the police and other +guardians of public order the duty of protecting women and morals. But, as +Moll insists, the real problem of chastity lies, not in the multiplication +of laws and policemen, but largely in women's knowledge of the dangers of +sex and in the cultivation of their sense of responsibility.[22] We are +always making laws for the protection of children and setting the police +on guard. But laws and the police, whether their activities are good or +bad, are in either case alike ineffectual. They can for the most part only +be invoked when the damage is already done. We have to learn to go to the +root of the matter. We have to teach children to be a law to themselves. +We have to give them that knowledge which will enable them to guard their +own personalities.[23] There is an authentic story of a lady who had +learned to swim, much to the horror of her clergyman, who thought that +swimming was unfeminine. "But," she said, "suppose I was drowning." "In +that case," he replied, "you ought to wait until a man comes along and +saves you." There we have the two methods of salvation which have been +preached to women, the old method and the new. In no sea have women been +more often in danger of drowning than that of sex. There ought to be no +question as to which is the better method of salvation. + + It is difficult nowadays to find any serious arguments against + the desirability of early sexual enlightenment, and it is almost + with amusement that we read how the novelist Alphonse Daudet, + when asked his opinion of such enlightenment, protested--in a + spirit certainly common among the men of his time--that it was + unnecessary, because boys could learn everything from the streets + and the newspapers, while "as to young girls--no! I would teach + them none of the truths of physiology. I can only see + disadvantages in such a proceeding. These truths are ugly, + disillusioning, sure to shock, to frighten, to disgust the mind, + the nature, of a girl." It is as much as to say that there is no + need to supply sources of pure water when there are puddles in + the street that anyone can drink of. A contemporary of Daudet's, + who possessed a far finer spiritual insight, Coventry Patmore, + the poet, in the essay on "Ancient and Modern Ideas of Purity" in + his beautiful book, _Religio Poetæ_, had already finely protested + against that "disease of impurity" which comes of "our modern + undivine silences" for which Daudet pleaded. And Metchnikoff, + more recently, from the scientific side, speaking especially as + regards women, declares that knowledge is so indispensable for + moral conduct that "ignorance must be counted the most immoral of + acts" (_Essais Optimistes_, p. 420). + + The distinguished Belgian novelist, Camille Lemonnier, in his + _L'Homme en Amour_, deals with the question of the sexual + education of the young by presenting the history of a young man, + brought up under the influence of the conventional and + hypocritical views which teach that nudity and sex are shameful + and disgusting things. In this way he passes by the opportunities + of innocent and natural love, to become hopelessly enslaved at + last to a sensual woman who treats him merely as the instrument + of her pleasure, the last of a long succession of lovers. The + book is a powerful plea for a sane, wholesome, and natural + education in matters of sex. It was, however, prosecuted at + Bruges, in 1901, though the trial finally ended in acquittal. + Such a verdict is in harmony with the general tendency of feeling + at the present time. + + The old ideas, expressed by Daudet, that the facts of sex are + ugly and disillusioning, and that they shock the mind of the + young, are both alike entirely false. As Canon Lyttelton remarks, + in urging that the laws of the transmission of life should be + taught to children by the mother: "The way they receive it with + native reverence, truthfulness of understanding and guileless + delicacy, is nothing short of a revelation of the never-ceasing + beauty of nature. People sometimes speak of the indescribable + beauty of children's innocence. But I venture to say that no one + quite knows what it is who has foregone the privilege of being + the first to set before them the true meaning of life and birth + and the mystery of their own being. Not only do we fail to build + up sound knowledge in them, but we put away from ourselves the + chance of learning something that must be divine." In the same + way, Edward Carpenter, stating that it is easy and natural for + the child to learn from the first its physical relation to its + mother, remarks (_Love's Coming of Age_, p. 9): "A child at the + age of puberty, with the unfolding of its far-down emotional and + sexual nature, is eminently capable of the most sensitive, + affectional and serene appreciation of what _sex_ means + (generally more so as things are to-day, than its worldling + parent or guardian); and can absorb the teaching, if + sympathetically given, without any shock or disturbance to its + sense of shame--that sense which is so natural and valuable a + safeguard of early youth." + + How widespread, even some years ago, had become the conviction + that the sexual facts of life should be taught to girls as well + as boys, was shown when the opinions of a very miscellaneous + assortment of more or less prominent persons were sought on the + question ("The Tree of Knowledge," _New Review_, June, 1894). A + small minority of two only (Rabbi Adler and Mrs. Lynn Lynton) + were against such knowledge, while among the majority in favor of + it were Mme. Adam, Thomas Hardy, Sir Walter Besant, Björnson, + Hall Caine, Sarah Grand, Nordau, Lady Henry Somerset, Baroness + von Suttner, and Miss Willard. The leaders of the woman's + movement are, of course, in favor of such knowledge. Thus a + meeting of the Bund für Mutterschutz at Berlin, in 1905, almost + unanimously passed a resolution declaring that the early sexual + enlightenment of children in the facts of the sexual life is + urgently necessary (_Mutterschutz_, 1905, Heft 2, p. 91). It may + be added that medical opinion has long approved of this + enlightenment. Thus in England it was editorially stated in the + _British Medical Journal_ some years ago (June 9, 1894): "Most + medical men of an age to beget confidence in such affairs will be + able to recall instances in which an ignorance, which would have + been ludicrous if it had not been so sad, has been displayed on + matters regarding which every woman entering on married life + ought to have been accurately informed. There can, we think, be + little doubt that much unhappiness and a great deal of illness + would be prevented if young people of both sexes possessed a + little accurate knowledge regarding the sexual relations, and + were well impressed with the profound importance of selecting + healthy mates. Knowledge need not necessarily be nasty, but even + if it were, it certainly is not comparable in that respect with + the imaginings of ignorance." In America, also, where at an + annual meeting of the American Medical Association, Dr. Denslow + Lewis, of Chicago, eloquently urged the need of teaching sexual + hygiene to youths and girls, all the subsequent nine speakers, + some of them physicians of worldwide fame, expressed their + essential agreement (_Medico-Legal Journal_, June-Sept., 1903). + Howard, again, at the end of his elaborate _History of + Matrimonial Institutions_ (vol. iii, p. 257) asserts the + necessity for education in matters of sex, as going to the root + of the marriage problem. "In the future educational programme," + he remarks, "sex questions must hold an honorable place." + +While, however, it is now widely recognized that children are entitled to +sexual enlightenment, it cannot be said that this belief is widely put +into practice. Many persons, who are fully persuaded that children should +sooner or later be enlightened concerning the sexual sources of life, are +somewhat nervously anxious as to the precise age at which this +enlightenment should begin. Their latent feeling seems to be that sex is +an evil, and enlightenment concerning sex also an evil, however necessary, +and that the chief point is to ascertain the latest moment to which we can +safely postpone this necessary evil. Such an attitude is, however, +altogether wrong-headed. The child's desire for knowledge concerning the +origin of himself is a perfectly natural, honest, and harmless desire, so +long as it is not perverted by being thwarted. A child of four may ask +questions on this matter, simply and spontaneously. As soon as the +questions are put, certainly as soon as they become at all insistent, they +should be answered, in the same simple and spontaneous spirit, truthfully, +though according to the measure of the child's intelligence and his +capacity and desire for knowledge. This period should not, and, if these +indications are followed, naturally would not, in any case, be delayed +beyond the sixth year. After that age even the most carefully guarded +child is liable to contaminating communications from outside. Moll points +out that the sexual enlightenment of girls in its various stages ought to +be always a little ahead of that of boys, and as the development of girls +up to the pubertal age is more precocious than that of boys, this demand +is reasonable. + +If the elements of sexual education are to be imparted in early childhood, +it is quite clear who ought to be the teacher. There should be no question +that this privilege belongs by every right to the mother. Except where a +child is artificially separated from his chief parent it is indeed only +the mother who has any natural opportunity of receiving and responding to +these questions. It is unnecessary for her to take any initiative in the +matter. The inevitable awakening of the child's intelligence and the +evolution of his boundless curiosity furnish her love and skill with all +opportunities for guiding her child's thoughts and knowledge. Nor is it +necessary for her to possess the slightest technical information at this +stage. It is only essential that she should have the most absolute faith +in the purity and dignity of her physical relationship to her child, and +be able to speak of it with frankness and tenderness. When that essential +condition is fulfilled every mother has all the knowledge that her young +child needs. + + Among the best authorities, both men and women, in all the + countries where this matter is attracting attention, there seems + now to be unanimity of opinion in favor of the elementary facts + of the baby's relationship to its mother being explained to the + child by the mother as soon as the child begins to ask questions. + Thus in Germany Moll has repeatedly argued in this sense; he + insists that sexual enlightenment should be mainly a private and + individual matter; that in schools there should be no general and + personal warnings about masturbation, etc. (though at a later age + he approves of instruction in regard to venereal diseases), but + that the mother is the proper person to impart intimate knowledge + to the child, and that any age is suitable for the commencement + of such enlightenment, provided it is put into a form fitted for + the age (Moll, op. cit., p. 264). + + At the Mannheim meeting of the Congress of the German Society for + Combating Venereal Disease, when the question of sexual + enlightenment formed the sole subject of discussion, the opinion + in favor of early teaching by the mother prevailed. "It is the + mother who must, in the first place, be made responsible for the + child's clear understanding of sexual things, so often lacking," + said Frau Krukenberg ("Die Aufgabe der Mutter," + _Sexualpädagogik_, p. 13), while Max Enderlin, a teacher, said on + the same occasion ("Die Sexuelle Frage in die Volksschule," id., + p. 35): "It is the mother who has to give the child his first + explanations, for it is to his mother that he first naturally + comes with his questions." In England, Canon Lyttelton, who is + distinguished among the heads of public schools not least by his + clear and admirable statements on these questions, states + (_Mothers and Sons_, p. 99) that the mother's part in the sexual + enlightenment and sexual guardianship of her son is of paramount + importance, and should begin at the earliest years. J.H. Badley, + another schoolmaster ("The Sex Difficulty," _Broad Views_, June, + 1904), also states that the mother's part comes first. Northcote + (_Christianity and Sex Problems_, p. 25) believes that the duty + of the parents is primary in this matter, the family doctor and + the schoolmaster coming in at a later stage. In America, Dr. Mary + Wood Allen, who occupies a prominent and influential position in + women's social movements, urges (in _Child-Confidence Rewarded_, + and other pamphlets) that a mother should begin to tell her child + these things as soon as he begins to ask questions, the age of + four not being too young, and explains how this may be done, + giving examples of its happy results in promoting a sweet + confidence between the child and his mother. + +If, as a few believe should be the case, the first initiation is delayed +to the tenth year or even later, there is the difficulty that it is no +longer so easy to talk simply and naturally about such things; the mother +is beginning to feel too shy to speak for the first time about these +difficult subjects to a son or a daughter who is nearly as big as herself. +She feels that she can only do it awkwardly and ineffectively, and she +probably decides not to do it at all. Thus an atmosphere of mystery is +created with all the embarrassing and perverting influences which mystery +encourages. + + There can be no doubt that, more especially in highly intelligent + children with vague and unspecialized yet insistent sexual + impulses, the artificial mystery with which sex is too often + clothed not only accentuates the natural curiosity but also tends + to favor the morbid intensity and even prurience of the sexual + impulse. This has long been recognized. Dr. Beddoes wrote at the + beginning of the nineteenth century: "It is in vain that we + dissemble to ourselves the eagerness with which children of + either sex seek to satisfy themselves concerning the conformation + of the other. No degree of reserve in the heads of families, no + contrivances, no care to put books of one description out of + sight and to garble others, has perhaps, with any one set of + children, succeeded in preventing or stifling this kind of + curiosity. No part of the history of human thought would perhaps + be more singular than the stratagems devised by young people in + different situations to make themselves masters or witnesses of + the secret. And every discovery, due to their own inquiries, can + but be so much oil poured upon an imagination in flames" (T. + Beddoes, _Hygeia_, 1802, vol. iii, p. 59). Kaan, again, in one of + the earliest books on morbid sexuality, sets down mystery as one + of the causes of _psychopathia sexualis_. Marro (_La Pubertà_, p. + 299) points out how the veil of mystery thrown over sexual + matters merely serves to concentrate attention on them. The + distinguished Dutch writer Multatuli, in one of his letters + (quoted with approval by Freud), remarks on the dangers of hiding + things from boys and girls in a veil of mystery, pointing out + that this must only heighten the curiosity of children, and so + far from keeping them pure, which mere ignorance can never do, + heats and perverts their imaginations. Mrs. Mary Wood Allen, + also, warns the mother (op. cit., p. 5) against the danger of + allowing any air of embarrassing mystery to creep over these + things. "If the instructor feels any embarrassment in answering + the queries of the child, he is not fitted to be the teacher, for + the feeling of embarrassment will, in some subtle way, + communicate itself to the child, and he will experience an + indefinable sense of offended delicacy which is both unnecessary + and undesirable. Purification of one's own thought is, then, the + first step towards teaching the truth purely. Why," she adds, "is + death, the gateway out of life, any more dignified or pathetic + than birth, the gateway into life? Or why is the taking of + earthly life a more awful fact than the giving of life?" Mrs. + Ennis Richmond, in a book of advice to mothers which contains + many wise and true things, says: "I want to insist, more strongly + than upon anything else, that it is the _secrecy_ that surrounds + certain parts of the body and their functions that gives them + their danger in the child's thought. Little children, from + earliest years, are taught to think of these parts of their body + as mysterious, and not only so, but that they are mysterious + because they are unclean. Children have not even a name for them. + If you have to speak to your child, you allude to them + mysteriously and in a half-whisper as 'that little part of you + that you don't speak of,' or words to that effect. Before + everything it is important that your child should have a good + working name for these parts of his body, and for their + functions, and that he should be taught to use and to hear the + names, and that as naturally and openly as though he or you were + speaking of his head or his foot. Convention has, for various + reasons, made it impossible to speak in this way in public. But + you can, at any rate, break through this in the nursery. There + this rule of convention has no advantage, and many a serious + disadvantage. It is easy to say to a child, the first time he + makes an 'awkward' remark in public: 'Look here, laddie, you may + say what you like to me or to daddy, but, for some reason or + other, one does not talk about these' (only say _what_ things) + 'in public.' Only let your child make the remark in public + _before_ you speak (never mind the shock to your caller's + feelings), don't warn him against doing so" (Ennis Richmond, + _Boyhood_, p. 60). Sex must always be a mystery, but, as Mrs. + Richmond rightly says, "the real and true mysteries of generation + and birth are very different from the vulgar secretiveness with + which custom surrounds them." + + The question as to the precise names to be given to the more + private bodily parts and functions is sometimes a little + difficult to solve. Every mother will naturally follow her own + instincts, and probably her own traditions, in this matter. I + have elsewhere pointed out (in the study of "The Evolution of + Modesty") how widespread and instinctive is the tendency to adopt + constantly new euphemisms in this field. The ancient and simple + words, which in England a great poet like Chaucer could still use + rightly and naturally, are so often dropped in the mud by the + vulgar that there is an instinctive hesitation nowadays in + applying them to beautiful uses. They are, however, + unquestionably the best, and, in their origin, the most dignified + and expressive words. Many persons are of opinion that on this + account they should be rescued from the mud, and their sacredness + taught to children. A medical friend writes that he always taught + his son that the vulgar sex names are really beautiful words of + ancient origin, and that when we understand them aright we cannot + possibly see in them any motive for low jesting. They are simple, + serious and solemn words, connoting the most central facts of + life, and only to ignorant and plebeian vulgarity can they cause + obscene mirth. An American man of science, who has privately and + anonymously printed some pamphlets on sex questions, also takes + this view, and consistently and methodically uses the ancient + and simple words. I am of opinion that this is the ideal to be + sought, but that there are obvious difficulties at present in the + way of attaining it. In any case, however, the mother should be + in possession of a very precise vocabulary for all the bodily + parts and acts which it concerns her children to know. + +It is sometimes said that at this early age children should not be told, +even in a simple and elementary form, the real facts of their origin but +should, instead, hear a fairy-tale having in it perhaps some kind of +symbolic truth. This contention may be absolutely rejected, without +thereby, in any degree, denying the important place which fairy-tales hold +in the imagination of young children. Fairy-tales have a real value to the +child; they are a mental food he needs, if he is not to be spiritually +starved; to deprive him of fairy-tales at this age is to do him a wrong +which can never be made up at any subsequent age. But not only are sex +matters too vital even in childhood to be safely made matter for a +fairy-tale, but the real facts are themselves as wonderful as any +fairy-tale, and appeal to the child's imagination with as much force as a +fairy-tale. + +Even, however, if there were no other reasons against telling children +fairy-tales of sex instead of the real facts, there is one reason which +ought to be decisive with every mother who values her influence over her +child. He will very quickly discover, either by information from others or +by his own natural intelligence, that the fairy-tale, that was told him in +reply to a question about a simple matter of fact, was a lie. With that +discovery his mother's influence over him in all such matters vanishes for +ever, for not only has a child a horror of being duped, but he is +extremely sensitive about any rebuff of this kind, and never repeats what +he has been made to feel was a mistake to be ashamed of. He will not +trouble his mother with any more questions on this matter; he will not +confide in her; he will himself learn the art of telling "fairy-tales" +about sex matters. He had turned to his mother in trust; she had not +responded with equal trust, and she must suffer the punishment, as +Henriette Fürth puts it, of seeing "the love and trust of her son stolen +from her by the first boy he makes friends with in the street." When, as +sometimes happens (Moll mentions a case), a mother goes on repeating these +silly stories to a girl or boy of seven who is secretly well-informed, she +only degrades herself in her child's eyes. It is this fatal mistake, so +often made by mothers, which at first leads them to imagine that their +children are so innocent, and in later years causes them many hours of +bitterness because they realize they do not possess their children's +trust. In the matter of trust it is for the mother to take the first step; +the children who do not trust their mothers are, for the most part, merely +remembering the lesson they learned at their mother's knee. + + The number of little books and pamphlets dealing with the + question of the sexual enlightenment of the young--whether + intended to be read by the young or offering guidance to mothers + and teachers in the task of imparting knowledge--has become very + large indeed during recent years in America, England, and + especially Germany, where there has been of late an enormous + production of such literature. The late Ben Elmy, writing under + the pseudonym of "Ellis Ethelmer," published two booklets, _Baby + Buds_, and _The Human Flower_ (issued by Mrs. Wolstenholme Elmy, + Buxton House, Congleton), which state the facts in a simple and + delicate manner, though the author was not a notably reliable + guide on the scientific aspects of these questions. A charming + conversation between a mother and child, from a French source, is + reprinted by Edward Carpenter at the end of his _Love's Coming of + Age. How We Are Born_, by Mrs. N.J. (apparently a Russian lady + writing in English), prefaced by J.H. Badley, is satisfactory. + Mention may also be made of _The Wonder of Life_, by Mary Tudor + Pole. Margaret Morley's _Song of Life_, an American book, which I + have not seen, has been highly praised. Most of these books are + intended for quite young children, and while they explain more or + less clearly the origin of babies, nearly always starting with + the facts of plant life, they touch very slightly, if at all, on + the relations of the sexes. + + Mrs. Ennis Richmond's books, largely addressed to mothers, deal + with these questions in a very sane, direct, and admirable + manner, and Canon Lyttelton's books, discussing such questions + generally, are also excellent. Most of the books now to be + mentioned are intended to be read by boys and girls who have + reached the age of puberty. They refer more or less precisely to + sexual relationships, and they usually touch on masturbation. + _The Story of Life_, written by a very accomplished woman, the + late Ellice Hopkins, is somewhat vague, and introduces too many + exalted religious ideas. Arthur Trewby's _Healthy Boyhood_ is a + little book of wholesome tendency; it deals specially with + masturbation. _A Talk with Boys About Themselves_ and _A Talk + with Girls About Themselves_, both by Edward Bruce Kirk (the + latter book written in conjunction with a lady) deal with general + as well as sexual hygiene. There could be no better book to put + into the hands of a boy or girl at puberty than M.A. Warren's + _Almost Fourteen_, written by an American school teacher in 1892. + It was a most charming and delicately written book, which could + not have offended the innocence of the most sensitive maiden. + Nothing, however, is sacred to prurience, and it was easy for the + prurient to capture the law and obtain (in 1897) legal + condemnation of this book as "obscene." Anything which sexually + excites a prurient mind is, it is true, "obscene" for that mind, + for, as Mr. Theodore Schroeder remarks, obscenity is "the + contribution of the reading mind," but we need such books as this + in order to diminish the number of prurient minds, and the + condemnation of so entirely admirable a book makes, not for + morality, but for immorality. I am told that the book was + subsequently issued anew with most of its best portions omitted, + and it is stated by Schroeder (_Liberty of Speech and Press + Essential to Purity Propaganda_, p. 34) that the author was + compelled to resign his position as a public school principal. + Maria Lischnewska's _Geschlechtliche Belehrung der Kinder_ + (reprinted from _Mutterschutz_, 1905, Heft 4 and 5) is a most + admirable and thorough discussion of the whole question of sexual + education, though the writer is more interested in the teacher's + share in this question than in the mother's. Suggestions to + mothers are contained in Hugo Salus, _Wo kommen die Kinder her?_, + E. Stiehl, _Eine Mutterpflicht_, and many other books. Dr. Alfred + Kind strongly recommends Ludwig Gurlitt's _Der Verkehr mit meinem + Kindern_, more especially in its combination of sexual education + with artistic education. Many similar books are referred to by + Bloch, in his _Sexual Life of Our Time_, Ch. xxvi. + + I have enumerated the names of these little books because they + are frequently issued in a semi-private manner, and are seldom + easy to procure or to hear of. The propagation of such books + seems to be felt to be almost a disgraceful action, only to be + performed by stealth. And such a feeling seems not unnatural when + we see, as in the case of the author of _Almost Fourteen_, that a + nominally civilized country, instead of loading with honors a man + who has worked for its moral and physical welfare, seeks so far + as it can to ruin him. + + I may add that while it would usually be very helpful to a mother + to be acquainted with a few of the booklets I have named, she + would do well, in actually talking to her children, to rely + mainly on her own knowledge and inspiration. + +The sexual education which it is the mother's duty and privilege to +initiate during her child's early years cannot and ought not to be +technical. It is not of the nature of formal instruction but is a private +and intimate initiation. No doubt the mother must herself be taught.[24] +But the education she needs is mainly an education in love and insight. +The actual facts which she requires to use at this early stage are very +simple. Her main task is to make clear the child's own intimate relations +to herself and to show that all young things have a similar intimate +relation to their mothers; in generalizing on this point the egg is the +simplest and most fundamental type to explain the origin of the individual +life, for the idea of the egg--in its widest sense as the seed--not only +has its truth for the human creature but may be applied throughout the +animal and vegetable world. In this explanation the child's physical +relationship to his father is not necessarily at first involved; it may be +left to a further stage or until the child's questions lead up to it. + +Apart from his interest in his origin, the child is also interested in his +sexual, or as they seem to him exclusively, his excretory organs, and in +those of other people, his sisters and parents. On these points, at this +age, his mother may simply and naturally satisfy his simple and natural +curiosity, calling things by precise names, whether the names used are +common or uncommon being a matter in regard to which she may exercise her +judgment and taste. In this manner the mother will, indirectly, be able to +safeguard her child at the outset against the prudish and prurient notions +alike which he will encounter later. She will also without unnatural +stress be able to lead the child into a reverential attitude towards his +own organs and so exert an influence against any undesirable tampering +with them. In talking with him about the origin of life and about his own +body and functions, in however elementary a fashion, she will have +initiated him both in sexual knowledge and in sexual hygiene. + +The mother who establishes a relationship of confidence with her child +during these first years will probably, if she possesses any measure of +wisdom and tact, be able to preserve it even after the epoch of puberty +into the difficult years of adolescence. But as an educator in the +narrower sense her functions will, in most cases, end at or before +puberty. A somewhat more technical and completely impersonal acquaintance +with the essential facts of sex then becomes desirable, and this would +usually be supplied by the school. + + The great though capricious educator, Basedow, to some extent a + pupil of Rousseau, was an early pioneer in both the theory and + the practice of giving school children instruction in the facts + of the sexual life, from the age of ten onwards. He insists much + on this subject in his great treatise, the _Elementarwerk_ + (1770-1774). The questions of children are to be answered + truthfully, he states, and they must be taught never to jest at + anything so sacred and serious as the sexual relations. They are + to be shown pictures of childbirth, and the dangers of sexual + irregularities are to be clearly expounded to them at the outset. + Boys are to be taken to hospitals to see the results of venereal + disease. Basedow is aware that many parents and teachers will be + shocked at his insistence on these things in his books and in his + practical pedagogic work, but such people, he declares, ought to + be shocked at the Bible (see, e.g., Pinloche, _La Rèforme de + l'Education en Allemagne au dixhuitième siècle: Basedow et le + Philanthropinisme_, pp. 125, 256, 260, 272). Basedow was too far + ahead of his own time, and even of ours, to exert much influence + in this matter, and he had few immediate imitators. + + Somewhat later than Basedow, a distinguished English physician, + Thomas Beddoes, worked on somewhat the same lines, seeking to + promote sexual knowledge by lectures and demonstrations. In his + remarkable book, _Hygeia_, published in 1802 (vol. i, Essay IV) + he sets forth the absurdity of the conventional requirement that + "discretion and ignorance should lodge in the same bosom," and + deals at length with the question of masturbation and the need of + sexual education. He insists on the great importance of lectures + on natural history which, he had found, could be given with + perfect propriety to a mixed audience. His experiences had shown + that botany, the amphibia, the hen and her eggs, human anatomy, + even disease and sometimes the sight of it, are salutary from + this point of view. He thinks it is a happy thing for a child to + gain his first knowledge of sexual difference from anatomical + subjects, the dignity of death being a noble prelude to the + knowledge of sex and depriving it forever of morbid prurience. + It is scarcely necessary to remark that this method of teaching + children the elements of sexual anatomy in the _post-mortem_ room + has not found many advocates or followers; it is undesirable, for + it fails to take into account the sensitiveness of children to + such impressions, and it is unnecessary, for it is just as easy + to teach the dignity of life as the dignity of death. + + The duty of the school to impart education in matters of sex to + children has in recent years been vigorously and ably advocated + by Maria Lischnewska (op. cit.), who speaks with thirty years' + experience as a teacher and an intimate acquaintance with + children and their home life. She argues that among the mass of + the population to-day, while in the home-life there is every + opportunity for coarse familiarity with sexual matters, there is + no opportunity for a pure and enlightened introduction to them, + parents being for the most part both morally and intellectually + incapable of aiding their children here. That the school should + assume the leading part in this task is, she believes, in + accordance with the whole tendency of modern civilized life. She + would have the instruction graduated in such a manner that during + the fifth or sixth year of school life the pupil would receive + instruction, with the aid of diagrams, concerning the sexual + organs and functions of the higher mammals, the bull and cow + being selected by preference. The facts of gestation would of + course be included. When this stage was reached it would be easy + to pass on to the human species with the statement: "Just in the + same way as the calf develops in the cow so the child develops in + the mother's body." + + It is difficult not to recognize the force of Maria Lischnewska's + argument, and it seems highly probable that, as she asserts, the + instruction proposed lies in the course of our present path of + progress. Such instruction would be formal, unemotional, and + impersonal; it would be given not as specific instruction in + matters of sex, but simply as a part of natural history. It would + supplement, so far as mere knowledge is concerned, the + information the child had already received from its mother. But + it would by no means supplant or replace the personal and + intimate relationship of confidence between mother and child. + That is always to be aimed at, and though it may not be possible + among the ill-educated masses of to-day, nothing else will + adequately take its place. + +There can be no doubt, however, that while in the future the school will +most probably be regarded as the proper place in which to teach the +elements of physiology--and not as at present a merely emasculated and +effeminated physiology--the introduction of such reformed teaching is as +yet impracticable in many communities. A coarse and ill-bred community +moves in a vicious circle. Its members are brought up to believe that sex +matters are filthy, and when they become adults they protest violently +against their children being taught this filthy knowledge. The teacher's +task is thus rendered at the best difficult, and under democratic +conditions impossible. We cannot, therefore, hope for any immediate +introduction of sexual physiology into schools, even in the unobtrusive +form in which alone it could properly be introduced, that is to say as a +natural and inevitable part of general physiology. + +This objection to animal physiology by no means applies, however, to +botany. There can be little doubt that botany is of all the natural +sciences that which best admits of this incidental instruction in the +fundamental facts of sex, when we are concerned with children below the +age of puberty. There are at least two reasons why this should be so. In +the first place botany really presents the beginnings of sex, in their +most naked and essential forms; it makes clear the nature, origin, and +significance of sex. In the second place, in dealing with plants the facts +of sex can be stated to children of either sex or any age quite plainly +and nakedly without any reserve, for no one nowadays regards the botanical +facts of sex as in any way offensive. The expounder of sex in plants also +has on his side the advantage of being able to assert, without question, +the entire beauty of the sexual process. He is not confronted by the +ignorance, bad education, and false associations which have made it so +difficult either to see or to show the beauty of sex in animals. From the +sex-life of plants to the sex-life of the lower animals there is, however, +but a step which the teacher, according to his discretion, may take. + + An early educational authority, Salzmann, in 1785 advocated the + sexual enlightenment of children by first teaching them botany, + to be followed by zoölogy. In modern times the method of + imparting sex knowledge to children by means, in the first place, + of botany, has been generally advocated, and from the most + various quarters. Thus Marro (_La Pubertà_, p. 300) recommends + this plan. J. Hudrey-Menos ("La Question du Sexe dans + l'Education," _Revue Socialiste_, June, 1895), gives the same + advice. Rudolf Sommer, in a paper entitled "Mädchenerziehung oder + Menschenbildung?" (_Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Jahrgang I, + Heft 3) recommends that the first introduction of sex knowledge + to children should be made by talking to them on simple natural + history subjects; "there are endless opportunities," he remarks, + "over a fairy-tale, or a walk, or a fruit, or an egg, the sowing + of seed or the nest-building of birds." Canon Lyttelton + (_Training of the Young in Laws of Sex_, pp. 74 et seq.) advises + a somewhat similar method, though laying chief stress on personal + confidence between the child and his mother; "reference is made + to the animal world just so far as the child's knowledge extends, + so as to prevent the new facts from being viewed in isolation, + but the main emphasis is laid on his feeling for his mother and + the instinct which exists in nearly all children of reverence due + to the maternal relation;" he adds that, however difficult the + subject may seem, the essential facts of paternity must also be + explained to boys and girls alike. Keyes, again (_New York + Medical Journal_, Feb. 10, 1906), advocates teaching children + from an early age the sexual facts of plant life and also + concerning insects and other lower animals, and so gradually + leading up to human beings, the matter being thus robbed of its + unwholesome mystery. Mrs. Ennis Richmond (_Boyhood_, p. 62) + recommends that children should be sent to spend some of their + time upon a farm, so that they may not only become acquainted + with the general facts of the natural world, but also with the + sexual lives of animals, learning things which it is difficult to + teach verbally. Karina Karin ("Wie erzieht man ein Kind zür + wissenden Keuschheit?" _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Jahrgang I, + Heft 4), reproducing some of her talks with her nine-year old + son, from the time that he first asked her where children came + from, shows how she began with telling him about flowers, to pass + on to fish and birds, and finally to the facts of human + pregnancy, showing him pictures from an obstetrical manual of the + child in its mother's body. It may be added that the advisability + of beginning the sex teaching of children with the facts of + botany was repeatedly emphasized by various speakers at the + special meeting of the German Congress for Combating Venereal + Disease devoted to the subject of sexual instruction + (_Sexualpädagogik_, especially pp. 36, 47, 76). + +The transition from botany to the elementary zoölogy of the lower animals, +to human anatomy and physiology, and to the science of anthropology based +on these, is simple and natural. It is not likely to be taken in detail +until the age of puberty. Sex enters into all these subjects and should +not be artificially excluded from them in the education of either boys or +girls. The text-books from which the sexual system is entirely omitted +ought no longer to be tolerated. The nature and secretion of the +testicles, the meaning of the ovaries and of menstruation, as well as the +significance of metabolism and the urinary excretion, should be clear in +their main lines to all boys and girls who have reached the age of +puberty. + +At puberty there arises a new and powerful reason why boys and girls +should receive definite instruction in matters of sex. Before that age it +is possible for the foolish parent to imagine that a child may be +preserved in ignorant innocence.[25] At puberty that belief is obviously +no longer possible. The efflorescence of puberty with the development of +the sexual organs, the appearance of hair in unfamiliar places, the +general related organic changes, the spontaneous and perhaps alarming +occurrence in boys of seminal emissions, and in girls of menstruation, the +unaccustomed and sometimes acute recognition of sexual desire accompanied +by new sensations in the sexual organs and leading perhaps to +masturbation; all these arouse, as we cannot fail to realize, a new +anxiety in the boy's or girl's mind, and a new curiosity, all the more +acute in many cases because it is carefully concealed as too private, and +even too shameful, to speak of to anyone. In boys, especially if of +sensitive temperament, the suffering thus caused may be keen and +prolonged. + + A doctor of philosophy, prominent in his profession, wrote to + Stanley Hall (_Adolescence_, vol. i, p. 452): "My entire youth, + from six to eighteen, was made miserable from lack of knowledge + that any one who knew anything of the nature of puberty might + have given; this long sense of defect, dread of operation, shame + and worry, has left an indelible mark." There are certainly many + men who could say the same. Lancaster ("Psychology and Pedagogy + of Adolescence," _Pedagogical Seminary_, July, 1897, pp. 123-5) + speaks strongly regarding the evils of ignorance of sexual + hygiene, and the terrible fact that millions of youths are always + in the hands of quacks who dupe them into the belief that they + are on the road to an awful destiny merely because they have + occasional emissions during sleep. "This is not a light matter," + Lancaster declares. "It strikes at the very foundation of our + inmost life. It deals with the reproductory part of our natures, + and must have a deep hereditary influence. It is a natural result + of the foolish false modesty shown regarding all sex instruction. + Every boy should be taught the simple physiological facts before + his life is forever blighted by this cause." Lancaster has had in + his hands one thousand letters, mostly written by young people, + who were usually normal, and addressed to quacks who were duping + them. From time to time the suicides of youths from this cause + are reported, and in many mysterious suicides this has + undoubtedly been the real cause. "Week after week," writes the + _British Medical Journal_ in an editorial ("Dangerous Quack + Literature: The Moral of a Recent Suicide," Oct. 1, 1892), "we + receive despairing letters from those victims of foul birds of + prey who have obtained their first hold on those they rob, + torture and often ruin, by advertisements inserted by newspapers + of a respectable, nay, even of a valuable and respected, + character." It is added that the wealthy proprietors of such + newspapers, often enjoying a reputation for benevolence, even + when the matter is brought before them, refuse to interfere as + they would thereby lose a source of income, and a censorship of + advertisements is proposed. This, however, is difficult, and + would be quite unnecessary if youths received proper + enlightenment from their natural guardians. + + Masturbation, and the fear that by an occasional and perhaps + outgrown practice of masturbation they have sometimes done + themselves irreparable injury, is a common source of anxiety to + boys. It has long been a question whether a boy should be warned + against masturbation. At a meeting of the Section of Psychology + of the British Medical Association some years ago, four speakers, + including the President (Dr. Blandford), were decidedly in favor + of parents warning their children against masturbation, while + three speakers were decidedly against that course, mainly on the + ground that it was possible to pass through even a public school + life without hearing of masturbation, and also that the warning + against masturbation might encourage the practice. It is, + however, becoming more and more clearly realized that ignorance, + even if it can be maintained, is a perilous possession, while the + teaching that consists, as it should, in a loving mother's + counsel to the child from his earliest years to treat his sexual + parts with care and respect, can only lead to masturbation in the + child who is already irresistibly impelled to it. Most of the sex + manuals for boys touch on masturbation, sometimes exaggerating + its dangers; such exaggeration should be avoided, for it leads to + far worse evils than those it attempts to prevent. It seems + undesirable that any warnings about masturbation should form part + of school instruction, unless under very special circumstances. + The sexual instruction imparted in the school on sexual as on + other subjects should be absolutely impersonal and objective. + + At this point we approach one of the difficulties in the way of + sexual enlightenment: the ignorance or unwisdom of the would-be + teachers. This difficulty at present exists both in the home and + the school, while it destroys the value of many manuals written + for the sexual instruction of the young. The mother, who ought to + be the child's confidant and guide in matters of sexual + education, and could naturally be so if left to her own healthy + instincts, has usually been brought up in false traditions which + it requires a high degree of intelligence and character to escape + from; the school-teacher, even if only called upon to give + instruction in natural history, is oppressed by the same + traditions, and by false shame concerning the whole subject of + sex; the writer of manuals on sex has often only freed himself + from these bonds in order to advocate dogmatic, unscientific, and + sometimes mischievous opinions which have been evolved in entire + ignorance of the real facts. As Moll says (Das _Sexualleben des + Kindes_, p. 276), necessary as sexual enlightenment is, we cannot + help feeling a little skeptical as to its results so long as + those who ought to enlighten are themselves often in need of + enlightenment. He refers also to the fact that even among + competent authorities there is difference of opinion concerning + important matters, as, for instance, whether masturbation is + physiological at the first development of the sexual impulse and + how far sexual abstinence is beneficial. But it is evident that + the difficulties due to false tradition and ignorance will + diminish as sound traditions and better knowledge become more + widely diffused. + +The girl at puberty is usually less keenly and definitely conscious of her +sexual nature than the boy. But the risks she runs from sexual ignorance, +though for the most part different, are more subtle and less easy to +repair. She is often extremely inquisitive concerning these matters; the +thoughts of adolescent girls, and often their conversation among +themselves, revolve much around sexual and allied mysteries. Even in the +matter of conscious sexual impulse the girl is often not so widely +different from her brother, nor so much less likely to escape the +contamination of evil communications, so that the scruples of foolish and +ignorant persons who dread to "sully her purity" by proper instruction are +exceedingly misplaced. + + Conversations dealing with the important mysteries of human + nature, Obici and Marchesini were told by ladies who had formerly + been pupils in Italian Normal Schools, are the order of the day + in schools and colleges, and specially circle around procreation, + the most difficult mystery of all. In England, even in the best + and most modern colleges, in which games and physical exercise + are much cultivated, I am told that "the majority of the girls + are entirely ignorant of all sexual matters, and understand + nothing whatever about them. But they do wonder about them, and + talk about them constantly" (see Appendix D, "The School + Friendships of Girls," in the second volume of these _Studies_). + "The restricted life and fettered mind of girls," wrote a + well-known physician some years ago (J. Milner Fothergill, + _Adolescence_, 1880, pp. 20, 22) "leave them with less to + actively occupy their thoughts than is the case with boys. They + are studiously taught concealment, and a girl may be a perfect + model of outward decorum and yet have a very filthy mind. The + prudishness with which she is brought up leaves her no + alternative but to view her passions from the nasty side of human + nature. All healthy thought on the subject is vigorously + repressed. Everything is done to darken her mind and foul her + imagination by throwing her back on her own thoughts and a + literature with which she is ashamed to own acquaintance. It is + opposed to a girl's best interests to prevent her from having + fair and just conceptions about herself and her nature. Many a + fair young girl is irredeemably ruined on the very threshold of + life, herself and her family disgraced, from ignorance as much as + from vice. When the moment of temptation comes she falls without + any palpable resistance; she has no trained educated power of + resistance within herself; her whole future hangs, not upon + herself, but upon the perfection of the social safeguards by + which she is hedged and surrounded." Under the free social order + of America to-day much the same results are found. In an + instructive article ("Why Girls Go Wrong," _Ladies' Home + Journal_, Jan., 1907) B.B. Lindsey, who, as Judge of the Juvenile + Court of Denver, is able to speak with authority, brings forward + ample evidence on this head. Both girls and boys, he has found, + sometimes possess manuscript books in which they had written down + the crudest sexual things. These children were often sweet-faced, + pleasant, refined and intelligent, and they had respectable + parents; but no one had ever spoken to them of sex matters, + except the worst of their school-fellows or some coarse-minded + and reckless adult. By careful inquiry Lindsey found that only in + one in twenty cases had the parents ever spoken to the children + of sexual subjects. In nearly every case the children + acknowledged that it was not from their parents, but in the + street or from older companions, that they learnt the facts of + sex. The parents usually imagined that their children were + absolutely ignorant of these matters, and were astonished to + realize their mistake; "parents do not know their children, nor + have they the least idea of what their children know, or what + their children talk about and do when away from them." The + parents guilty of this neglect to instruct their children, are, + Lindsey declares, traitors to their children. From his own + experience he judges that nine-tenths of the girls who "go + wrong," whether or not they sink in the world, do so owing to the + inattention of their parents, and that in the case of most + prostitutes the mischief is really done before the age of twelve; + "every wayward girl I have talked to has assured me of this + truth." He considers that nine-tenths of school-boys and + school-girls, in town or country, are very inquisitive regarding + matters of sex, and, to his own amazement, he has found that in + the girls this is as marked as in the boys. + +It is the business of the girl's mother, at least as much as of the boy's, +to watch over her child from the earliest years and to win her confidence +in all the intimate and personal matters of sex. With these aspects the +school cannot properly meddle. But in matters of physical sexual hygiene, +notably menstruation, in regard to which all girls stand on the same +level, it is certainly the duty of the teacher to take an actively +watchful part, and, moreover, to direct the general work of education +accordingly, and to ensure that the pupil shall rest whenever that may +seem to be desirable. This is part of the very elements of the education +of girls. To disregard it should disqualify a teacher from taking further +share in educational work. Yet it is constantly and persistently +neglected. A large number of girls have not even been prepared by their +mothers or teachers for the first onset of the menstrual flow, sometimes +with disastrous results both to their bodily and mental health.[26] + + "I know of no large girl's school," wrote a distinguished + gynæcologist, Sir W.S. Playfair ("Education and Training of Girls + at Puberty," _British Medical Journal_, Dec. 7, 1895), "in which + the absolute distinction which exists between boys and girls as + regards the dominant menstrual function is systematically cared + for and attended to. Indeed, the feeling of all schoolmistresses + is distinctly antagonistic to such an admission. The contention + is that there is no real difference between an adolescent male + and female, that what is good for one is good for the other, and + that such as there is is due to the evil customs of the past + which have denied to women the ambitions and advantages open to + men, and that this will disappear when a happier era is + inaugurated. If this be so, how comes it that while every + practical physician of experience has seen many cases of anæmia + and chlorosis in girls, accompanied by amenorrhæa or menorrhagia, + headaches, palpitations, emaciation, and all the familiar + accompaniments of breakdown, an analogous condition in a + school-boy is so rare that it may well be doubted if it is ever + seen at all?" + + It is, however, only the excuses for this almost criminal + negligence, as it ought to be considered, which are new; the + negligence itself is ancient. Half a century earlier, before the + new era of feminine education, another distinguished + gynæcologist, Tilt (_Elements of Health and Principles of Female + Hygiene_, 1852, p. 18) stated that from a statistical inquiry + regarding the onset of menstruation in nearly one thousand women + he found that "25 per cent. were totally unprepared for its + appearance; that thirteen out of the twenty-five were much + frightened, screamed, or went into hysterical fits; and that six + out of the thirteen thought themselves wounded and washed with + cold water. Of those frightened ... the general health was + seriously impaired." + + Engelmann, after stating that his experience in America was + similar to Tilt's in England, continues ("The Health of the + American Girl," _Transactions of the Southern Surgical and + Gynæcological Society_, 1890): "To innumerable women has fright, + nervous and emotional excitement, exposure to cold, brought + injury at puberty. What more natural than that the anxious girl, + surprised by the sudden and unexpected loss of the precious + life-fluid, should seek to check the bleeding wound--as she + supposes? For this purpose the use of cold washes and + applications is common, some even seek to stop the flow by a cold + bath, as was done by a now careful mother, who long lay at the + point of death from the result of such indiscretion, and but + slowly, by years of care, regained her health. The terrible + warning has not been lost, and mindful of her own experience she + has taught her children a lesson which but few are fortunate + enough to learn--the individual care during periods of functional + activity which is needful for the preservation of woman's + health." + + In a study of one hundred and twenty-five American high school + girls Dr. Helen Kennedy refers to the "modesty" which makes it + impossible even for mothers and daughters to speak to each other + concerning the menstrual functions. "Thirty-six girls in this + high school passed into womanhood with no knowledge whatever, + from a proper source, of all that makes them women. Thirty-nine + were probably not much wiser, for they stated that they had + received some instruction, but had not talked freely on the + matter. From the fact that the curious girl did not talk freely + on what naturally interested her, it is possible she was put off + with a few words as to personal care, and a reprimand for her + curiosity. Less than half of the girls felt free to talk with + their mothers of this most important matter!" (Helen Kennedy, + "Effects of High School Work upon Girls During Adolescence," + _Pedagogical Seminary_, June, 1896.) + + The same state of things probably also prevails in other + countries. Thus, as regards France, Edmond de Goncourt in + _Chérie_ (pp. 137-139) described the terror of his young heroine + at the appearance of the first menstrual period for which she + had never been prepared. He adds: "It is very seldom, indeed, + that women speak of this eventuality. Mothers fear to warn their + daughters, elder sisters dislike confidences with their younger + sisters, governesses are generally mute with girls who have no + mothers or sisters." + + Sometimes this leads to suicide or to attempts at suicide. Thus a + few years ago the case was reported in the French newspapers of a + young girl of fifteen, who threw herself into the Seine at + Saint-Ouen. She was rescued, and on being brought before the + police commissioner said that she had been attacked by an + "unknown disease" which had driven her to despair. Discreet + inquiry revealed that the mysterious malady was one common to all + women, and the girl was restored to her insufficiently punished + parents. + +Half a century ago the sexual life of girls was ignored by their parents +and teachers from reasons of prudishness; at the present time, when quite +different ideas prevail regarding feminine education, it is ignored on the +ground that girls should be as independent of their physiological sexual +life as boys are. The fact that this mischievous neglect has prevailed +equally under such different conditions indicates clearly that the varying +reasons assigned for it are merely the cloaks of ignorance. With the +growth of knowledge we may reasonably hope that one of the chief evils +which at present undermine in early life not only healthy motherhood but +healthy womanhood generally, may be gradually eliminated. The data now +being accumulated show not only the extreme prevalence of painful, +disordered, and absent menstruation in adolescent girls and young women, +but also the great and sometimes permanent evils inflicted upon even +healthy girls when at the beginning of sexual life they are subjected to +severe strain of any kind. Medical authorities, whichever sex they belong +to, may now be said to be almost or quite unanimous on this point. Some +years ago, indeed, Dr. Mary Putnam Jacobi, in a very able book, _The +Question of Rest for Women_, concluded that "ordinarily healthy" women may +disregard the menstrual period, but she admitted that forty-six per cent, +of women are not "ordinarily healthy," and a minority which comes so near +to being a majority can by no means be dismissed as a negligible quantity. +Girls themselves, indeed, carried away by the ardor of their pursuit of +work or amusement, are usually recklessly and ignorantly indifferent to +the serious risks they run. But the opinions of teachers are now tending +to agree with medical opinion in recognizing the importance of care and +rest during the years of adolescence, and teachers are even prepared to +admit that a year's rest from hard work during the period that a girl's +sexual life is becoming established, while it may ensure her health and +vigor, is not even a disadvantage from the educational point of view. With +the growth of knowledge and the decay of ancient prejudices, we may +reasonably hope that women will be emancipated from the traditions of a +false civilization, which have forced her to regard her glory as her +shame,--though it has never been so among robust primitive peoples,--and +it is encouraging to find that so distinguished an educator as Principal +Stanley Hall looks forward with confidence to such a time. In his +exhaustive work on _Adolescence_ he writes: "Instead of shame of this +function girls should be taught the greatest reverence for it, and should +help it to normality by regularly stepping aside at stated times for a few +years till it is well established and normal. To higher beings that looked +down upon human life as we do upon flowers, these would be the most +interesting and beautiful hours of blossoming. With more self-knowledge +women will have more self-respect at this time. Savagery reveres this +state and it gives to women a mystic awe. The time may come when we must +even change the divisions of the year for women, leaving to man his week +and giving to her the same number of Sabbaths per year, but in groups of +four successive days per month. When woman asserts her true physiological +rights she will begin here, and will glory in what, in an age of +ignorance, man made her think to be her shame. The pathos about the +leaders of woman's so-called emancipation, is that they, even more than +those they would persuade, accept man's estimate of this state."[27] + +These wise words cannot be too deeply pondered. The pathos of the +situation has indeed been--at all events in the past for to-day a more +enlightened generation is growing up--that the very leaders of the woman's +movement have often betrayed the cause of women. They have adopted the +ideals of men, they have urged women to become second-rate men, they have +declared that the healthy natural woman disregards the presence of her +menstrual functions. This is the very reverse of the truth. "They claim," +remarks Engelmann, "that woman in her natural state is the physical equal +of man, and constantly point to the primitive woman, the female of savage +peoples, as an example of this supposed axiom. Do they know how well this +same savage is aware of the weakness of woman and her susceptibility at +certain periods of her life? And with what care he protects her from harm +at these periods? I believe not. The importance of surrounding women with +certain precautions during the height of these great functional waves of +her existence was appreciated by all peoples living in an approximately +natural state, by all races at all times; and among their comparatively +few religious customs this one, affording rest to women, was most +persistently adhered to." It is among the white races alone that the +sexual invalidism of women prevails, and it is the white races alone, +which, outgrowing the religious ideas with which the menstrual seclusion +of women was associated, have flung away that beneficent seclusion itself, +throwing away the baby with the bath in an almost literal sense.[28] + + In Germany Tobler has investigated the menstrual histories of + over one thousand women (_Monatsschrift für Geburtshülfe und + Gynäkologie_, July, 1905). He finds that in the great majority of + women at the present day menstruation is associated with + distinct deterioration of the general health, and diminution of + functional energy. In 26 per cent. local pain, general malaise, + and mental and nervous anomalies coexisted; in larger proportion + come the cases in which local pain, general weak health or + psychic abnormality was experienced alone at this period. In 16 + per cent. only none of these symptoms were experienced. In a very + small separate group the physical and mental functions were + stronger during this period, but in half of these cases there was + distinct disturbance during the intermenstrual period. Tobler + concludes that, while menstruation itself is physiological, all + these disturbances are pathological. + + As far as England is concerned, at a discussion of normal and + painful menstruation at a meeting of the British Association of + Registered Medical Women on the 7th of July, 1908, it was stated + by Miss Bentham that 50 per cent. of girls in good position + suffered from painful menstruation. Mrs. Dunnett said it usually + occurred between the ages of twenty-four and thirty, being + frequently due to neglect to rest during menstruation in the + earlier years, and Mrs. Grainger Evans had found that this + condition was very common among elementary school teachers who + had worked hard for examinations during early girlhood. + + In America various investigations have been carried out, showing + the prevalence of disturbance in the sexual health of school + girls and young women. Thus Dr. Helen P. Kennedy obtained + elaborate data concerning the menstrual life of one hundred and + twenty-five high school girls of the average age of eighteen + ("Effect of High School Work upon Girls During Adolescence," + _Pedagogical Seminary_, June, 1896). Only twenty-eight felt no + pain during the period; half the total number experienced + disagreeable symptoms before the period (such as headache, + malaise, irritability of temper), while forty-four complained of + other symptoms besides pain during the period (especially + headache and great weakness). Jane Kelley Sabine (quoted in + _Boston Medical and Surgical Journal_, Sept. 15, 1904) found in + New England schools among two thousand girls that 75 per cent. + had menstrual troubles, 90 per cent. had leucorrhoea and ovarian + neuralgia, and 60 per cent. had to give up work for two days + during each month. These results seem more than usually + unfavorable, but are significant, as they cover a large number of + cases. The conditions in the Pacific States are not much better. + Dr. Mary Ritter (in a paper read before the California State + Medical Society in 1903) stated that of 660 Freshmen girls at the + University of California, 67 per cent. were subject to menstrual + disorders, 27 per cent. to headaches, 30 per cent. to backaches, + 29 per cent. were habitually constipated, 16 per cent. had + abnormal heart sounds; only 23 per cent. were free from + functional disturbances. Dr. Helen MacMurchey, in an interesting + paper on "Physiological Phenomena Preceding or Accompanying + Menstruation" (_Lancet_, Oct. 5, 1901), by inquiries among one + hundred medical women, nurses, and women teachers in Toronto + concerning the presence or absence of twenty-one different + abnormal menstrual phenomena, found that between 50 and 60 per + cent. admitted that they were liable at this time to disturbed + sleep, to headache, to mental depression, to digestive + disturbance, or to disturbance of the special senses, while about + 25 to 50 per cent. were liable to neuralgia, to vertigo, to + excessive nervous energy, to defective nervous and muscular + power, to cutaneous hyperæsthesia, to vasomotor disturbances, to + constipation, to diarrhoea, to increased urination, to cutaneous + eruption, to increased liability to take cold, or to irritating + watery discharges before or after the menstrual discharge. This + inquiry is of much interest, because it clearly brings out the + marked prevalence at menstruation of conditions which, though not + necessarily of any gravity, yet definitely indicate decreased + power of resistance to morbid influences and diminished + efficiency for work. + + How serious an impediment menstrual troubles are to a woman is + indicated by the fact that the women who achieve success and fame + seem seldom to be greatly affected by them. To that we may, in + part, attribute the frequency with which leaders of the women's + movement have treated menstruation as a thing of no importance in + a woman's life. Adele Gerhard, and Helene Simon, also, in their + valuable and impartial work, _Mutterschaft und Geistige Arbeit_ + (p. 312), failed to find, in their inquiries among women of + distinguished ability, that menstruation was regarded as + seriously disturbing to work. + + Of late the suggestion that adolescent girls shall not only rest + from work during two days of the menstrual period, but have an + entire holiday from school during the first year of sexual life, + has frequently been put forward, both from the medical and the + educational side. At the meeting of the Association of Registered + Medical Women, already referred to, Miss Sturge spoke of the good + results obtained in a school where, during the first two years + after puberty, the girls were kept in bed for the first two days + of each menstrual period. Some years ago Dr. G.W. Cook ("Some + Disorders of Menstruation," _American Journal of Obstetrics_, + April, 1896), after giving cases in point, wrote: "It is my + deliberate conviction that no girl should be confined at study + during the year of her puberty, but she should live an outdoor + life." In an article on "Alumna's Children," by "An Alumna" + (_Popular Science Monthly_, May, 1904), dealing with the sexual + invalidism of American women and the severe strain of motherhood + upon them, the author, though she is by no means hostile to + education, which is not, she declares, at fault, pleads for rest + for the pubertal girl. "If the brain claims her whole vitality, + how can there be any proper development? Just as very young + children should give all their strength for some years solely to + physical growth before the brain is allowed to make any + considerable demands, so at this critical period in the life of + the woman nothing should obstruct the right of way of this + important system. A year at the least should be made especially + easy for her, with neither mental nor nervous strain; and + throughout the rest of her school days she should have her + periodical day of rest, free from any study or overexertion." In + another article on the same subject in the same journal ("The + Health of American Girls," Sept., 1907), Nellie Comins Whitaker + advocates a similar course. "I am coming to be convinced, + somewhat against my wish, that there are many cases when the girl + ought to be taken out of school entirely for some months or for a + year _at the period of puberty_." She adds that the chief + obstacle in the way is the girl's own likes and dislikes, and the + ignorance of her mother who has been accustomed to think that + pain is a woman's natural lot. + + Such a period of rest from mental strain, while it would fortify + the organism in its resistance to any reasonable strain later, + need by no means be lost for education in the wider sense of the + word, for the education required in classrooms is but a small + part of the education required for life. Nor should it by any + means be reserved merely for the sickly and delicate girl. The + tragic part of the present neglect to give girls a really sound + and fitting education is that the best and finest girls are + thereby so often ruined. Even the English policeman, who + admittedly belongs in physical vigor and nervous balance to the + flower of the population, is unable to bear the strain of his + life, and is said to be worn out in twenty-five years. It is + equally foolish to submit the finest flowers of girlhood to a + strain which is admittedly too severe. + +It seems to be clear that the main factor in the common sexual and general +invalidism of girls and young women is bad hygiene, in the first place +consisting in neglect of the menstrual functions and in the second place +in faulty habits generally. In all the more essential matters that concern +the hygiene of the body the traditions of girls--and this seems to be more +especially the case in the Anglo-Saxon countries--are inferior to those of +youths. Women are much more inclined than men to subordinate these things +to what seems to them some more urgent interest or fancy of the moment; +they are trained to wear awkward and constricting garments, they are +indifferent to regular and substantial meals, preferring innutritious and +indigestible foods and drinks; they are apt to disregard the demands of +the bowels and the bladder out of laziness or modesty; they are even +indifferent to physical cleanliness.[29] In a great number of minor ways, +which separately may seem to be of little importance, they play into the +hands of an environment which, not always having been adequately adjusted +to their special needs, would exert a considerable stress and strain even +if they carefully sought to guard themselves against it. It has been found +in an American Women's College in which about half the scholars wore +corsets and half not, that nearly all the honors and prizes went to the +non-corset-wearers. McBride, in bringing forward this fact, pertinently +remarks, "If the wearing of a single style of dress will make this +difference in the lives of young women, and that, too, in their most +vigorous and resistive period, how much difference will a score of +unhealthy habits make, if persisted in for a life-time?"[30] + + "It seems evident," A.E. Giles concludes ("Some Points of + Preventive Treatment in the Diseases of Women," _The Hospital_, + April 10, 1897) "that dysmenorrhoea might be to a large extent + prevented by attention to general health and education. Short + hours of work, especially of standing; plenty of outdoor + exercise--tennis, boating, cycling, gymnastics, and walking for + those who cannot afford these; regularity of meals and food of + the proper quality--not the incessant tea and bread and butter + with variation of pastry; the avoidance of overexertion and + prolonged fatigue; these are some of the principal things which + require attention. Let girls pursue their study, but more + leisurely; they will arrive at the same goal, but a little + later." The benefit of allowing free movement and exercise to the + whole body is undoubtedly very great, both as regards the sexual + and general physical health and the mental balance; in order to + insure this it is necessary to avoid heavy and constricting + garments, more especially around the chest, for it is in + respiratory power and chest expansion more than in any other + respect that girls fall behind boys (see, e.g., Havelock Ellis, + _Man and Woman_, Ch. IX). In old days the great obstacle to the + free exercise of girls lay in an ideal of feminine behavior which + involved a prim restraint on every natural movement of the body. + At the present day that ideal is not so fervently preached as of + old, but its traditional influence still to some extent persists, + while there is the further difficulty that adequate time and + opportunity and encouragement are by no means generally afforded + to girls for the cultivation and training of the romping + instincts which are really a serious part of education, for it is + by such free exercise of the whole body that the neuro-muscular + system, the basis of all vital activity, is built up. The neglect + of such education is to-day clearly visible in the structure of + our women. Dr. F. May Dickinson Berry, Medical Examiner to the + Technical Education Board of the London County Council, found + (_British Medical Journal_, May 28, 1904) among over 1,500 girls, + who represent the flower of the schools, since they had obtained + scholarships enabling them to proceed to higher grade schools, + that 22 per cent, presented some degree, not always pronounced, + of lateral curvature of the spine, though such cases were very + rare among the boys. In the same way among a very similar class + of select girls at the Chicago Normal School, Miss Lura Sanborn + (_Doctors' Magazine_, Dec., 1900) found 17 per cent, with spinal + curvature, in some cases of a very pronounced degree. There is no + reason why a girl should not have as straight a back as a boy, + and the cause can only lie in the defective muscular development + which was found in most of the cases, sometimes accompanied by + anæmia. Here and there nowadays, among the better social classes, + there is ample provision for the development of muscular power in + girls, but in any generalized way there is no adequate + opportunity for such exercise, and among the working class, above + all, in the section of it which touches the lower middle class, + although their lives are destined to be filled with a constant + strain on the neuro-muscular system from work at home or in + shops, etc., there is usually a minimum of healthy exercise and + physical development. Dr. W.A.B. Sellman, of Baltimore ("Causes + of Painful Menstruation in Unmarried Women," _American Journal + Obstetrics_, Nov., 1907), emphasizes the admirable results + obtained by moderate physical exercise for young women, and in + training them to care for their bodies and to rest their nervous + systems, while Dr. Charlotte Brown, of San Francisco, rightly + insists on the establishment in all towns and villages alike of + outdoor gymnastic fields for women and girls, and of a building, + in connection with every large school, for training in physical, + manual, and domestic science. The provision of special + playgrounds is necessary where the exercising of girls is so + unfamiliar as to cause an embarrassing amount of attention from + the opposite sex, though when it is an immemorial custom it can + be carried out on the village green without attracting the + slightest attention, as I have seen in Spain, where one cannot + fail to connect it with the physical vigor of the women. In boys' + schools games are not only encouraged, but made compulsory; but + this is by no means a universal rule in girls' schools. It is not + necessary, and is indeed highly undesirable, that the games + adopted should be those of boys. In England especially, where the + movements of women are so often marked by awkwardness, angularity + and lack of grace, it is essential that nothing should be done to + emphasize these characteristics, for where vigor involves + violence we are in the presence of a lack of due neuro-muscular + coördination. Swimming, when possible, and especially some forms + of dancing, are admirably adapted to develop the bodily movements + of women both vigorously and harmoniously (see, e.g., Havelock + Ellis, _Man and Woman_, Ch. VII). At the International Congress + of School Hygiene in 1907 (see, e.g., _British Medical Journal_, + Aug. 24, 1907) Dr. L.H. Gulick, formerly Director of Physical + Training in the Public Schools of New York City, stated that + after many experiments it had been found in the New York + elementary and high schools that folk-dancing constituted the + very best exercise for girls. "The dances selected involved many + contractions of the large muscular masses of the body and had + therefore a great effect on respiration, circulation and + nutrition. Such movements, moreover, when done as dances, could + be carried on three or four times as long without producing + fatigue as formal gymnastics. Many folk-dances were imitative, + sowing and reaping dance, dances expressing trade movements (the + shoemaker's dance), others illustrating attack and defense, or + the pursuit of game. Such neuro-muscular movements were racially + old and fitted in with man's expressive life, and if it were + accepted that the folk-dances really expressed an epitome of + man's neuro-muscular history, as distinguished from mere + permutation of movements, the folk-dance combinations should be + preferred on these biological grounds to the unselected, or even + the physiologically selected. From the æsthetic point of view the + sense of beauty as shown in dancing was far commoner than the + power to sing, paint or model." + +It must always be remembered that in realizing the especial demands of +woman's nature, we do not commit ourselves to the belief that higher +education is unfitted for a woman. That question may now be regarded as +settled. There is therefore no longer any need for the feverish anxiety of +the early leaders of feminine education to prove that girls can be +educated exactly as if they were boys, and yield at least as good +educational results. At the present time, indeed, that anxiety is not only +unnecessary but mischievous. It is now more necessary to show that women +have special needs just as men have special needs, and that it is as bad +for women, and therefore, for the world, to force them to accept the +special laws and limitations of men as it would be bad for men, and +therefore, for the world, to force men to accept the special laws and +limitations of women. Each sex must seek to reach the goal by following +the laws of its own nature, even although it remains desirable that, both +in the school and in the world, they should work so far as possible side +by side. The great fact to be remembered always is that, not only are +women, in physical size and physical texture, slighter and finer than men, +but that to an extent altogether unknown among men, their centre of +gravity is apt to be deflected by the series of rhythmic sexual curves on +which they are always living. They are thus more delicately poised and any +kind of stress or strain--cerebral, nervous, or muscular--is more likely +to produce serious disturbance and requires an accurate adjustment to +their special needs. + + The fact that it is stress and strain in general, and not + necessarily educational studies, that are injurious to adolescent + women, is sufficiently proved, if proof is necessary, by the fact + that sexual arrest, and physical or nervous breakdown, occur with + extreme frequency in girls who work in shops or mills, even in + girls who have never been to school at all. Even excesses in + athletics--which now not infrequently occur as a reaction against + woman's indifference to physical exercise--are bad. Cycling is + beneficial for women who can ride without pain or discomfort, + and, according to Watkins, it is even beneficial in many diseased + and disordered pelvic conditions, but excessive cycling is evil + in its results on women, more especially by inducing rigidity of + the perineum to an extent which may even prevent childbirth and + necessitate operation. I may add that the same objection applies + to much horse-riding. In the same way everything which causes + shocks to the body is apt to be dangerous to women, since in the + womb they possess a delicately poised organ which varies in + weight at different times, and it would, for instance, be + impossible to commend football as a game for girls. "I do not + believe," wrote Miss H. Ballantine, Director of Vassar College + Gymnasium, to Prof. W. Thomas (_Sex and Society_, p. 22) "women + can ever, no matter what the training, approach men in their + physical achievements; and," she wisely adds, "I see no reason + why they should." There seem, indeed, as has already been + indicated, to be reasons why they should not, especially if they + look forward to becoming mothers. I have noticed that women who + have lived a very robust and athletic outdoor life, so far from + always having the easy confinements which we might anticipate, + sometimes have very seriously difficult times, imperilling the + life of the child. On making this observation to a distinguished + obstetrician, the late Dr. Engelmann, who was an ardent advocate + of physical exercise for women (in e.g. his presidential address, + "The Health of the American Girl," _Transactions Southern + Surgical and Gynæcological Association_, 1890), he replied that + he had himself made the same observation, and that instructors in + physical training, both in America and England, had also told him + of such cases among their pupils. "I hold," he wrote, "precisely + the opinion you express [as to the unfavorable influence of + muscular development in women]. _Athletics_, i.e., overdone + physical training, causes the girl's system to approximate to the + masculine; this is so whether due to sport or necessity. The + woman who indulges in it approximates to the male in her + attributes; this is marked in diminished sexual intensity, and in + increased difficulty of childbirth, with, in time, lessened + fecundity. Healthy habits improve, but masculine muscular + development diminishes, womanly qualities, although it is true + that the peasant and the laboring woman have easy labor. I have + never advocated muscular development for girls, only physical + training, but have perhaps said too much for it and praised it + too unguardedly. In schools and colleges, so far, however, it is + insufficient rather than too much; only the wealthy have too much + golf and athletic sports. I am collecting new material, but from + what I already have seen I am impressed with the truth of what + you say. I am studying the point, and shall elaborate the + explanation." Any publication on this subject was, however, + prevented by Engelmann's death a few years later. + +A proper recognition of the special nature of woman, of her peculiar needs +and her dignity, has a significance beyond its importance in education and +hygiene. The traditions and training to which she is subjected in this +matter have a subtle and far-reaching significance, according as they are +good or evil. If she is taught, implicitly or explicitly, contempt for the +characteristics of her own sex, she naturally develops masculine ideals +which may permanently discolor her vision of life and distort her +practical activities; it has been found that as many as fifty per cent. of +American school girls have masculine ideals, while fifteen per cent. +American and no fewer than thirty-four per cent. English school girls +wished to be men, though scarcely any boys wished to be women.[31] With +the same tendency may be connected that neglect to cultivate the emotions, +which, by a mischievously extravagant but inevitable reaction from the +opposite extreme, has sometimes marked the modern training of women. In +the finely developed woman, intelligence is interpenetrated with emotion. +If there is an exaggerated and isolated culture of intelligence a tendency +shows itself to disharmony which breaks up the character or impairs its +completeness. In this connection Reibmayr has remarked that the American +woman may serve as a warning.[32] Within the emotional sphere itself, it +may be added, there is a tendency to disharmony in women owing to the +contradictory nature of the feelings which are traditionally impressed +upon her, a contradiction which dates back indeed to the identification of +sacredness and impurity at the dawn of civilization. "Every girl and +woman," wrote Hellmann, in a pioneering book which pushed a sound +principle to eccentric extremes, "is taught to regard her sexual parts as +a precious and sacred spot, only to be approached by a husband or in +special circumstances a doctor. She is, at the same time, taught to regard +this spot as a kind of water-closet which she ought to be extremely +ashamed to possess, and the mere mention of which should cause a painful +blush."[33] The average unthinking woman accepts the incongruity of this +opposition without question, and grows accustomed to adapt herself to each +of the incompatibles according to circumstances. The more thoughtful woman +works out a private theory of her own. But in very many cases this +mischievous opposition exerts a subtly perverting influence on the whole +outlook towards Nature and life. In a few cases, also, in women of +sensitive temperament, it even undermines and ruins the psychic +personality. + + Thus Boris Sidis has recorded a case illustrating the disastrous + results of inculcating on a morbidly sensitive girl the doctrine + of the impurity of women. She was educated in a convent. "While + there she was impressed with the belief that woman is a vessel of + vice and impurity. This seemed to have been imbued in her by one + of the nuns who was very holy and practiced self-mortification. + With the onset of her periods, and with the observation of the + same in the other girls, this doctrine of female impurity was all + the stronger impressed on her sensitive mind." It lapsed, + however, from conscious memory and only came to the foreground in + subsequent years with the exhaustion and fatigue of prolonged + office work. Then she married. Now "she has an extreme abhorrence + of women. Woman, to the patient, is impurity, filth, the very + incarnation of degradation and vice. The house wash must not be + given to a laundry where women work. Nothing must be picked up in + the street, not even the most valuable object, perchance it might + have been dropped by a woman" (Boris Sidis, "Studies in + Psychopathology," _Boston Medical and Surgical Journal_, April 4, + 1907). That is the logical outcome of much of the traditional + teaching which is given to girls. Fortunately, the healthy mind + offers a natural resistance to its complete acceptation, yet it + usually, in some degree, persists and exerts a mischievous + influence. + +It is, however, not only in her relations to herself and to her sex that a +girl's thoughts and feelings tend to be distorted by the ignorance or the +false traditions by which she is so often carefully surrounded. Her +happiness in marriage, her whole future career, is put in peril. The +innocent young woman must always risk much in entering the door of +indissoluble marriage; she knows nothing truly of her husband, she knows +nothing of the great laws of love, she knows nothing of her own +possibilities, and, worse still, she is even ignorant of her ignorance. +She runs the risk of losing the game while she is still only beginning to +learn it. To some extent that is quite inevitable if we are to insist +that a woman should bind herself to marry a man before she has experienced +the nature of the forces that marriage may unloose in her. A young girl +believes she possesses a certain character; she arranges her future in +accordance with that character; she marries. Then, in a considerable +proportion of cases (five out of six, according to the novelist Bourget), +within a year or even a week, she finds she was completely mistaken in +herself and in the man she has married; she discovers within her another +self, and that self detests the man to whom she is bound. That is a +possible fate against which only the woman who has already been aroused to +love is entitled to regard herself as fairly protected. + +There is, however, a certain kind of protection which it is possible to +afford the bride, even without departing from our most conventional +conceptions of marriage. We can at least insist that she shall be +accurately informed as to the exact nature of her physical relations to +her future husband and be safeguarded from the shocks or the disillusions +which marriage might otherwise bring. Notwithstanding the decay of +prejudices, it is probable that even to-day the majority of women of the +so-called educated class marry with only the vaguest and most inaccurate +notions, picked up more or less clandestinely, concerning the nature of +the sexual relationships. So highly intelligent a woman as Madame Adam has +stated that she believed herself bound to marry a man who had kissed her +on the mouth, imagining that to be the supreme act of sexual union,[34] +and it has frequently happened that women have married sexually inverted +persons of their own sex, not always knowingly, but believing them to be +men, and never discovering their mistake; it is not long indeed since in +America three women were thus successively married to the same woman, none +of them apparently ever finding out the real sex of the "husband." "The +civilized girl," as Edward Carpenter remarks, "is led to the 'altar' +often in uttermost ignorance and misunderstanding of the sacrificial rites +about to be consummated." Certainly more rapes have been effected in +marriage than outside it.[35] The girl is full of vague and romantic faith +in the promises of love, often heightened by the ecstasies depicted in +sentimental novels from which every touch of wholesome reality has been +carefully omitted. "All the candor of faith is there," as Sénancour puts +it in his book _De l'Amour_, "the desires of inexperience, the needs of a +new life, the hopes of an upright heart. She has all the faculties of +love, she must love; she has all the means of pleasure, she must be loved. +Everything expresses love and demands love: this hand formed for sweet +caresses, an eye whose resources are unknown if it must not say that it +consents to be loved, a bosom which is motionless and useless without +love, and will fade without having been worshipped; these feelings that +are so vast, so tender, so voluptuous, the ambition of the heart, the +heroism of passion! She needs must follow the delicious rule which the law +of the world has dictated. That intoxicating part, which she knows so +well, which everything recalls, which the day inspires and the night +commands, what young, sensitive, loving woman can imagine that she shall +not play it?" But when the actual drama of love begins to unroll before +her, and she realizes the true nature of the "intoxicating part" she has +to play, then, it has often happened, the case is altered; she finds +herself altogether unprepared, and is overcome with terror and alarm. All +the felicity of her married life may then hang on a few chances, her +husband's skill and consideration, her own presence of mind. Hirschfeld +records the case of an innocent young girl of seventeen--in this case, it +eventually proved, an invert--who was persuaded to marry but on +discovering what marriage meant energetically resisted her husband's +sexual approaches. He appealed to her mother to explain to her daughter +the nature of "wifely duties." But the young wife replied to her mother's +expostulations, "If that is my wifely duty then it was your parental duty +to have told me beforehand, for, if I had known, I should never have +married." The husband in this case, much in love with his wife, sought for +eight years to over-persuade her, but in vain, and a separation finally +took place.[36] That, no doubt, is an extreme case, but how many innocent +young inverted girls never realize their true nature until after marriage, +and how many perfectly normal girls are so shocked by the too sudden +initiation of marriage that their beautiful early dreams of love never +develop slowly and wholesomely into the acceptance of its still more +beautiful realities? + +Before the age of puberty it would seem that the sexual initiation of the +child--apart from such scientific information as would form part of school +courses in botany and zoölogy--should be the exclusive privilege of the +mother, or whomever it may be to whom the mother's duties are delegated. +At puberty more authoritative and precise advice is desirable than the +mother may be able or willing to give. It is at this age that she should +put into her son's or daughter's hands some one or other of the very +numerous manuals to which reference has already been made (page 53), +expounding the physical and moral aspects of the sexual life and the +principles of sexual hygiene. The boy or girl is already, we may take it, +acquainted with the facts of motherhood, and the origin of babies, as well +as, more or less precisely, with the father's part in their procreation. +Whatever manual is now placed in his or her hands should at least deal +summarily, but definitely, with the sexual relationship, and should also +comment, warningly but in no alarmist spirit, with the chief auto-erotic +phenomena, and by no means exclusively with masturbation. Nothing but good +can come of the use of such a manual, if it has been wisely selected; it +will supplant what the mother has already done, what the teacher may still +be doing, and what later may be done by private interview with a doctor. +It has indeed been argued that the boy or girl to whom such literature is +presented will merely make it an opportunity for morbid revelry and +sensual enjoyment. It can well be believed that this may sometimes happen +with boys or girls from whom all sexual facts have always been +mysteriously veiled, and that when at last they find the opportunity of +gratifying their long-repressed and perfectly natural curiosity they are +overcome by the excitement of the event. It could not happen to children +who have been naturally and wholesomely brought up. At a later age, during +adolescence, there is doubtless great advantage in the plan, now +frequently adopted, especially in Germany, of giving lectures, addresses, +or quiet talks to young people of each sex separately. The speaker is +usually a specially selected teacher, a doctor or other qualified person +who may be brought in for this special purpose. + + Stanley Hall, after remarking that sexual education should be + chiefly from fathers to sons and from mothers to daughters, adds: + "It may be that in the future this kind of initiation will again + become an art, and experts will tell us with more confidence how + to do our duty to the manifold exigencies, types and stages of + youth, and instead of feeling baffled and defeated, we shall see + that this age and theme is the supreme opening for the highest + pedagogy to do its best and most transforming work, as well as + being the greatest of all opportunities for the teacher of + religion" (Stanley Hall, _Adolescence_, vol. i, p. 469). "At + Williams College, Harvard, Johns Hopkins and Clark," the same + distinguished teacher observes (ib., p. 465), "I have made it a + duty in my departmental teaching to speak very briefly, but + plainly to young men under my instruction, personally if I deemed + it wise, and often, though here only in general terms, before + student bodies, and I believe I have nowhere done more good, but + it is a painful duty. It requires tact and some degree of hard + and strenuous common sense rather than technical knowledge." + + It is scarcely necessary to say that the ordinary teacher of + either sex is quite incompetent to speak of sexual hygiene. It is + a task to which all, or some, teachers must be trained. A + beginning in this direction has been made in Germany by the + delivery to teachers of courses of lectures on sexual hygiene in + education. In Prussia the first attempt was made in Breslau when + the central school authorities requested Dr. Martin Chotzen to + deliver such a course to one hundred and fifty teachers who took + the greatest interest in the lectures, which covered the anatomy + of the sexual organs, the development of the sexual instinct, its + chief perversions, venereal diseases, and the importance of the + cultivation of self-control. In _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_ + (Bd. i, Heft 7) Dr. Fritz Reuther gives the substance of lectures + which he has delivered to a class of young teachers; they cover + much the same ground as Chotzen's. + + There is no evidence that in England the Minister of Education + has yet taken any steps to insure the delivery of lectures on + sexual hygiene to the pupils who are about to leave school. In + Prussia, however, the Ministry of Education has taken an active + interest in this matter, and such lectures are beginning to be + commonly delivered, though attendance at them is not usually + obligatory. Some years ago (in 1900), when it was proposed to + deliver a series of lectures on sexual hygiene to the advanced + pupils in Berlin schools, under the auspices of a society for the + improvement of morals, the municipal authorities withdrew their + permission to use the classrooms, on the ground that "such + lectures would be extremely dangerous to the moral sense of an + audience of the young." The same objection has been made by + municipal officials in France. In Germany, at all events, + however, opinion is rapidly growing more enlightened. In England + little or no progress has yet been made, but in America steps are + being taken in this direction, as by the Chicago Society for + Social Hygiene. It must, indeed, be said that those who oppose + the sexual enlightenment of youth in large cities are directly + allying themselves, whether or not they know it, with the + influences that make for vice and immorality. + + Such lectures are also given to girls on leaving school, not only + girls of the well-to-do, but also those of the poor class, who + need them fully as much, and in some respects more. Thus Dr. A. + Heidenhain has published a lecture (_Sexuelle Belehrung der aus + den Volksschule entlassenen Mädchen_, 1907), accompanied by + anatomical tables, which he has delivered to girls about to leave + school, and which is intended to be put into their hands at this + time. Salvat, in a Lyons thesis (_La Dépopulation de la France_, + 1903), insists that the hygiene of pregnancy and the care of + infants should form part of the subject of such lectures. These + subjects might well be left, however, to a somewhat later period. + +Something is clearly needed beyond lectures on these matters. It should be +the business of the parents or other guardians of every adolescent youth +and girl to arrange that, once at least at this period of life, there +should be a private, personal interview with a medical man to afford an +opportunity for a friendly and confidential talk concerning the main +points of sexual hygiene. The family doctor would be the best for this +duty because he would be familiar with the personal temperament of the +youth and the family tendencies.[37] In the case of girls a woman doctor +would often be preferred. Sex is properly a mystery; and to the unspoilt +youth, it is instinctively so; except in an abstract and technical form it +cannot properly form the subject of lectures. In a private and +individualized conversation between the novice in life and the expert, it +is possible to say many necessary things that could not be said in public, +and it is possible, moreover, for the youth to ask questions which shyness +and reserve make it impossible to put to parents, while the convenient +opportunity of putting them naturally to the expert otherwise seldom or +never occurs. Most youths have their own special ignorances, their own +special difficulties, difficulties and ignorances that could sometimes be +resolved by a word. Yet it by no means infrequently happens that they +carry them far on into adult life because they have lacked the +opportunity, or the skill and assurance to create the opportunity, of +obtaining enlightenment. + +It must be clearly understood that these talks are of medical, hygienic, +and physiological character; they are not to be used for retailing moral +platitudes. To make them that would be a fatal mistake. The young are +often very hostile to merely conventional moral maxims, and suspect their +hollowness, not always without reason. The end to be aimed at here is +enlightenment. Certainly knowledge can never be immoral, but nothing is +gained by jumbling up knowledge and morality together. + +In emphasizing the nature of the physician's task in this matter as purely +and simply that of wise practical enlightenment, nothing is implied +against the advantages, and indeed the immense value in sexual hygiene, of +the moral, religious, ideal elements of life. It is not the primary +business of the physician to inspire these, but they have a very intimate +relation with the sexual life, and every boy and girl at puberty, and +never before puberty, should be granted the privilege--and not the duty or +the task--of initiation into those elements of the world's life which are, +at the same time, natural functions of the adolescent soul. Here, however, +is the sphere of the religious or ethical teacher. At puberty he has his +great opportunity, the greatest he can ever obtain. The flower of sex that +blossoms in the body at puberty has its spiritual counterpart which at the +same moment blossoms in the soul. The churches from of old have recognized +the religious significance of this moment, for it is this period of life +that they have appointed as the time of confirmation and similar rites. +With the progress of the ages, it is true, such rites become merely formal +and apparently meaningless fossils. But they have a meaning nevertheless, +and are capable of being again vitalized. Nor in their spirit and essence +should they be confined to those who accept supernaturally revealed +religion. They concern all ethical teachers, who must realize that it is +at puberty that they are called upon to inspire or to fortify the great +ideal aspirations which at this period tend spontaneously to arise in the +youth's or maiden's soul.[38] + +The age of puberty, I have said, marks the period at which this new kind +of sexual initiation is called for. Before puberty, although the psychic +emotion of love frequently develops, as well as sometimes physical sexual +emotions that are mostly vague and diffused, definite and localized sexual +sensations are rare. For the normal boy or girl love is usually an +unspecialized emotion; it is in Guyau's words "a state in which the body +has but the smallest place." At the first rising of the sun of sex the +boy or girl sees, as Blake said he saw at sunrise, not a round yellow body +emerging above the horizon, or any other physical manifestation, but a +great company of singing angels. With the definite eruption of physical +sexual manifestation and desire, whether at puberty or later in +adolescence, a new turbulent disturbing influence appears. Against the +force of this influence, mere intellectual enlightenment, or even loving +maternal counsel--the agencies we have so far been concerned with--may be +powerless. In gaining control of it we must find our auxiliary in the fact +that puberty is the efflorescence not only of a new physical but a new +psychic force. The ideal world naturally unfolds itself to the boy or girl +at puberty. The magic of beauty, the instinct of modesty, the naturalness +of self-restraint, the idea of unselfish love, the meaning of duty, the +feeling for art and poetry, the craving for religious conceptions and +emotions--all these things awake spontaneously in the unspoiled boy or +girl at puberty. I say "unspoiled," for if these things have been thrust +on the child before puberty when they have yet no meaning for him--as is +unfortunately far too often done, more especially as regards religious +notions--then it is but too likely that he will fail to react properly at +that moment of his development when he would otherwise naturally respond +to them. Under natural conditions this is the period for spiritual +initiation. Now, and not before, is the time for the religious or ethical +teacher as the case may be--for all religions and ethical systems may +equally adapt themselves to this task--to take the boy or girl in hand, +not with any special and obtrusive reference to the sexual impulses but +for the purpose of assisting the development and manifestation of this +psychic puberty, of indirectly aiding the young soul to escape from sexual +dangers by harnessing his chariot to a star that may help to save it from +sticking fast in any miry ruts of the flesh. + +Such an initiation, it is important to remark, is more than an +introduction to the sphere of religious sentiment. It is an initiation +into manhood, it must involve a recognition of the masculine even more +than of the feminine virtues. This has been well understood by the finest +primitive races. They constantly give their boys and girls an initiation +at puberty; it is an initiation that involves not merely education in the +ordinary sense, but a stern discipline of the character, feats of +endurance, the trial of character, the testing of the muscles of the soul +as much as of the body. + + Ceremonies of initiation into manhood at puberty--involving + physical and mental discipline, as well as instruction, lasting + for weeks or months, and never identical for both sexes--are + common among savages in all parts of the world. They nearly + always involve the endurance of a certain amount of pain and + hardship, a wise measure of training which the softness of + civilization has too foolishly allowed to drop, for the ability + to endure hardness is an essential condition of all real manhood. + It is as a corrective to this tendency to flabbiness in modern + education that the teaching of Nietzsche is so invaluable. + + The initiation of boys among the natives of Torres Straits has + been elaborately described by A.C. Haddon (_Reports + Anthropological Expedition to Torres Straits_, vol. v, Chs. VII + and XII). It lasts a month, involves much severe training and + power of endurance, and includes admirable moral instruction. + Haddon remarks that it formed "a very good discipline," and adds, + "it is not easy to conceive of a more effectual means for a rapid + training." + + Among the aborigines of Victoria, Australia, the initiatory + ceremonies, as described by R.H. Mathews ("Some Initiation + Ceremonies," _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1905, Heft 6), last + for seven months, and constitute an admirable discipline. The + boys are taken away by the elders of the tribe, subjected to many + trials of patience and endurance of pain and discomfort, + sometimes involving even the swallowing of urine and excrement, + brought into contact with strange tribes, taught the laws and + folk-lore, and at the end meetings are held at which betrothals + are arranged. + + Among the northern tribes of Central Australia the initiation + ceremonies involve circumcision and urethral subincision, as well + as hard manual labor and hardships. The initiation of girls into + womanhood is accompanied by cutting open of the vagina. These + ceremonies have been described by Spencer and Gillen (_Northern + Tribes of Central Australia_, Ch. XI). Among various peoples in + British East Africa (including the Masai) pubertal initiation is + a great ceremonial event extending over a period of many months, + and it includes circumcision in boys, and in girls + clitoridectomy, as well as, among some tribes, removal of the + nymphæ. A girl who winces or cries out during the operation is + disgraced among the women and expelled from the settlement. When + the ceremony has been satisfactorily completed the boy or girl is + marriageable (C. Marsh Beadnell, "Circumcision and Clitoridectomy + as Practiced by the Natives of British East Africa," _British + Medical Journal_, April 29, 1905). + + Initiation among the African Bawenda, as described by a + missionary, is in three stages: (1) A stage of instruction and + discipline during which the traditions and sacred things of the + tribe are revealed, the art of warfare taught, self-restraint and + endurance borne; then the youths are counted as full-grown. (2) + In the next stage the art of dancing is practiced, by each sex + separately, during the day. (3) In the final stage, which is that + of complete sexual initiation, the two sexes dance together by + night; the scene, in the opinion of the good missionary, "does + not bear description;" the initiated are now complete adults, + with all the privileges and responsibilities of adults (Rev. E. + Gottschling, "The Bawenda," _Journal Anthropological + Institution_, July to Dec., 1905, p. 372. Cf., an interesting + account of the Bawenda Tondo schools by another missionary, + Wessmann, _The Bawenda_, pp. 60 et seq.). + + The initiation of girls in Azimba Land, Central Africa, has been + fully and interestingly described by H. Crawford Angus ("The + Chensamwali' or Initiation Ceremony of Girls," _Zeitschrift für + Ethnologie_, 1898, Heft 6). At the first sign of menstruation the + girl is taken by her mother out of the village to a grass hut + prepared for her where only the women are allowed to visit her. + At the end of menstruation she is taken to a secluded spot and + the women dance round her, no men being present. It was only with + much difficulty that Angus was enabled to witness the ceremony. + The girl is then informed in regard to the hygiene of + menstruation. "Many songs about the relations between men and + women are sung, and the girl is instructed as to all her duties + when she becomes a wife.... The girl is taught to be faithful to + her husband, and to try and bear children. The whole matter is + looked upon as a matter of course, and not as a thing to be + ashamed of or to hide, and being thus openly treated of and no + secrecy made about it, you find in this tribe that the women are + very virtuous, because the subject of married life has no glamour + for them. When a woman is pregnant she is again danced; this time + all the dancers are naked, and she is taught how to behave and + what to do when the time of her delivery arrives." + + Among the Yuman Indians of California, as described by Horatio + Rust ("A Puberty Ceremony of the Mission Indians," _American + Anthropologist_, Jan. to March, 1906, p. 28) the girls are at + puberty prepared for marriage by a ceremony. They are wrapped in + blankets and placed in a warm pit, where they lie looking very + happy as they peer out through their covers. For four days and + nights they lie here (occasionally going away for food), while + the old women of the tribe dance and sing round the pit + constantly. At times the old women throw silver coins among the + crowd to teach the girls to be generous. They also give away + cloth and wheat, to teach them to be kind to the old and needy; + and they sow wild seeds broadcast over the girls to cause them to + be prolific. Finally, all strangers are ordered away, garlands + are placed on the girls' heads, and they are led to a hillside + and shown the large and sacred stone, symbolical of the female + organs of generation and resembling them, which is said to + protect women. Then grain is thrown over all present, and the + ceremony is over. + + The Thlinkeet Eskimo women were long noted for their fine + qualities. At puberty they were secluded, sometimes for a whole + year, being kept in darkness, suffering, and filth. Yet defective + and unsatisfactory as this initiation was, "Langsdorf suggests," + says Bancroft (_Native Races of Pacific_, vol. i, p. 110), + referring to the virtues of the Thlinkeet woman, "that it may be + during this period of confinement that the foundation of her + influence is laid; that in modest reserve and meditation her + character is strengthened, and she comes forth cleansed in mind + as well as body." + +We have lost these ancient and invaluable rites of initiation into manhood +and womanhood, with their inestimable moral benefits; at the most we have +merely preserved the shells of initiation in which the core has decayed. +In time, we cannot doubt, they will be revived in modern forms. At present +the spiritual initiation of youths and maidens is left to the chances of +some happy accident, and usually it is of a purely cerebral character +which cannot be perfectly wholesome, and is at the best absurdly +incomplete. + +This cerebral initiation commonly occurs to the youth through the medium +of literature. The influence of literature in sexual education thus +extends, in an incalculable degree, beyond the narrow sphere of manuals on +sexual hygiene, however admirable and desirable these may be. The greater +part of literature is more or less distinctly penetrated by erotic and +auto-erotic conceptions and impulses; nearly all imaginative literature +proceeds from the root of sex to flower in visions of beauty and ecstasy. +The Divine Comedy of Dante is herein the immortal type of the poet's +evolution. The youth becomes acquainted with the imaginative +representations of love before he becomes acquainted with the reality of +love, so that, as Leo Berg puts it, "the way to love among civilized +peoples passes through imagination." All literature is thus, to the +adolescent soul, a part of sexual education.[39] It depends, to some +extent, though fortunately not entirely, on the judgment of those in +authority over the young soul whether the literature to which the youth or +girl is admitted is or is not of the large and humanizing order. + + All great literature touches nakedly and sanely on the central + facts of sex. It is always consoling to remember this in an age + of petty pruderies. And it is a satisfaction to know that it + would not be possible to emasculate the literature of the great + ages, however desirable it might seem to the men of more + degenerate ages, or to close the avenues to that literature + against the young. All our religious and literary traditions + serve to fortify the position of the Bible and of Shakespeare. + "So many men and women," writes a correspondent, a literary man, + "gain sexual ideas in childhood from reading the Old Testament, + that the Bible may be called an erotic text-book. Most persons of + either sex with whom I have conversed on the subject, say that + the Books of Moses, and the stories of Amnon and Tamar, Lot and + his daughters, Potiphar's wife and Joseph, etc., caused + speculation and curiosity, and gave them information of the + sexual relationship. A boy and girl of fifteen, both friends of + the writer, and now over thirty years of age, used to find out + erotic passages in the Bible on Sunday mornings, while in a + Dissenting chapel, and pass their Bibles to one another, with + their fingers on the portions that interested them." In the same + way many a young woman has borrowed Shakespeare in order to read + the glowing erotic poetry of _Venus and Adonis_, which her + friends have told her about. + + The Bible, it may be remarked, is not in every respect, a model + introduction for the young mind to the questions of sex. But even + its frank acceptance, as of divine origin, of sexual rules so + unlike those that are nominally our own, such as polygamy and + concubinage, helps to enlarge the vision of the youthful mind by + showing that the rules surrounding the child are not those + everywhere and always valid, while the nakedness and realism of + the Bible cannot but be a wholesome and tonic corrective to + conventional pruderies. + + We must, indeed, always protest against the absurd confusion + whereby nakedness of speech is regarded as equivalent to + immorality, and not the less because it is often adopted even in + what are regarded as intellectual quarters. When in the House of + Lords, in the last century, the question of the exclusion of + Byron's statue from Westminster Abbey was under discussion, Lord + Brougham "denied that Shakespeare was more moral than Byron. He + could, on the contrary, point out in a single page of Shakespeare + more grossness than was to be found in all Lord Byron's works." + The conclusion Brougham thus reached, that Byron is an + incomparably more moral writer than Shakespeare, ought to have + been a sufficient _reductio ad absurdum_ of his argument, but it + does not appear that anyone pointed out the vulgar confusion into + which he had fallen. + + It may be said that the special attractiveness which the + nakedness of great literature sometimes possesses for young minds + is unwholesome. But it must be remembered that the peculiar + interest of this element is merely due to the fact that elsewhere + there is an inveterate and abnormal concealment. It must also be + said that the statements of the great writers about natural + things are never degrading, nor even erotically exciting to the + young, and what Emilia Pardo Bazan tells of herself and her + delight when a child in the historical books of the Old + Testament, that the crude passages in them failed to send the + faintest cloud of trouble across her young imagination, is + equally true of most children. It is necessary, indeed, that + these naked and serious things should be left standing, even if + only to counterbalance the lewdly comic efforts to besmirch love + and sex, which are visible to all in every low-class bookseller's + shop window. + + This point of view was vigorously championed by the speakers on + sexual education at the Third Congress of the German Gesellschaft + zur Bekämpfung der Geschlechtskrankheiten in 1907. Thus Enderlin, + speaking as a headmaster, protested against the custom of + bowdlerizing poems and folk-songs for the use of children, and + thus robbing them of the finest introduction to purified sexual + impulses and the highest sphere of emotion, while at the same + time they are recklessly exposed to the "psychic infection" of + the vulgar comic papers everywhere exposed for sale. "So long as + children are too young to respond to erotic poetry it cannot hurt + them; when they are old enough to respond it can only benefit + them by opening to them the highest and purest channels of human + emotion" (_Sexualpädagogik_, p. 60). Professor Schäfenacker (id., + p. 98) expresses himself in the same sense, and remarks that "the + method of removing from school-books all those passages which, in + the opinion of short-sighted and narrow-hearted schoolmasters, + are unsuited for youth, must be decisively condemned." Every + healthy boy and girl who has reached the age of puberty may be + safely allowed to ramble in any good library, however varied its + contents. So far from needing guidance they will usually show a + much more refined taste than their elders. At this age, when the + emotions are still virginal and sensitive, the things that are + realistic, ugly, or morbid, jar on the young spirit and are cast + aside, though in adult life, with the coarsening of mental + texture which comes of years and experience, this repugnance, + doubtless by an equally sound and natural instinct, may become + much less acute. + + Ellen Key in Ch. VI of her _Century of the Child_ well summarizes + the reasons against the practice of selecting for children books + that are "suitable" for them, a practice which she considers one + of the follies of modern education. The child should be free to + read all great literature, and will himself instinctively put + aside the things he is not yet ripe for. His cooler senses are + undisturbed by scenes that his elders find too exciting, while + even at a later stage it is not the nakedness of great + literature, but much more the method of the modern novel, which + is likely to stain the imagination, falsify reality and injure + taste. It is concealment which misleads and coarsens, producing a + state of mind in which even the Bible becomes a stimulus to the + senses. The writings of the great masters yield the imaginative + food which the child craves, and the erotic moment in them is too + brief to be overheating. It is the more necessary, Ellen Key + remarks, for children to be introduced to great literature, since + they often have little opportunity to occupy themselves with it + in later life. Many years earlier Ruskin, in _Sesame and Lilies_, + had eloquently urged that even young girls should be allowed to + range freely in libraries. + +What has been said about literature applies equally to art. Art, as well +as literature, and in the same indirect way, can be made a valuable aid in +the task of sexual enlightenment and sexual hygiene. Modern art may, +indeed, for the most part, be ignored from this point of view, but +children cannot be too early familiarized with the representations of the +nude in ancient sculpture and in the paintings of the old masters of the +Italian school. In this way they may be immunized, as Enderlin expresses +it, against those representations of the nude which make an appeal to the +baser instincts. Early familiarity with nudity in art is at the same time +an aid to the attainment of a proper attitude towards purity in nature. +"He who has once learnt," as Höller remarks, "to enjoy peacefully +nakedness in art, will be able to look on nakedness in nature as on a work +of art." + + Casts of classic nude statues and reproductions of the pictures + of the old Venetian and other Italian masters may fittingly be + used to adorn schoolrooms, not so much as objects of instruction + as things of beauty with which the child cannot too early become + familiarized. In Italy it is said to be usual for school classes + to be taken by their teachers to the art museums with good + results; such visits form part of the official scheme of + education. + + There can be no doubt that such early familiarity with the beauty + of nudity in classic art is widely needed among all social + classes and in many countries. It is to this defect of our + education that we must attribute the occasional, and indeed in + America and England frequent, occurrence of such incidents as + petitions and protests against the exhibition of nude statuary in + art museums, the display of pictures so inoffensive as Leighton's + "Bath of Psyche" in shop windows, and the demand for the draping + of the naked personifications of abstract virtues in + architectural street decoration. So imperfect is still the + education of the multitude that in these matters the ill-bred + fanatic of pruriency usually gains his will. Such a state of + things cannot but have an unwholesome reaction on the moral + atmosphere of the community in which it is possible. Even from + the religious point of view, prurient prudery is not justifiable. + Northcote has very temperately and sensibly discussed the + question of the nude in art from the standpoint of Christian + morality. He points out that not only is the nude in art not to + be condemned without qualification, and that the nude is by no + means necessarily the erotic, but he also adds that even erotic + art, in its best and purest manifestations, only arouses emotions + that are the legitimate object of man's aspirations. It would be + impossible even to represent Biblical stories adequately on + canvas or in marble if erotic art were to be tabooed (Rev. H. + Northcote, _Christianity and Sex Problems_, Ch. XIV). + + Early familiarity with the nude in classic and early Italian art + should be combined at puberty with an equal familiarity with + photographs of beautiful and naturally developed nude models. In + former years books containing such pictures in a suitable and + attractive manner to place before the young were difficult to + procure. Now this difficulty no longer exists. Dr. C.H. Stratz, + of The Hague, has been the pioneer in this matter, and in a + series of beautiful books (notably in _Der Körper des Kindes, Die + Schönheit des Weiblichen Körpers_ and _Die Rassenschönheit des + Weibes_, all published by Enke in Stuttgart), he has brought + together a large number of admirably selected photographs of nude + but entirely chaste figures. More recently Dr. Shufeldt, of + Washington (who dedicates his work to Stratz), has published his + _Studies of the Human Form_ in which, in the same spirit, he has + brought together the results of his own studies of the naked + human form during many years. It is necessary to correct the + impressions received from classic sources by good photographic + illustrations on account of the false conventions prevailing in + classic works, though those conventions were not necessarily + false for the artists who originated them. The omission of the + pudendal hair, in representations of the nude was, for instance, + quite natural for the people of countries still under Oriental + influence are accustomed to remove the hair from the body. If, + however, under quite different conditions, we perpetuate that + artistic convention to-day, we put ourselves into a perverse + relation to nature. There is ample evidence of this. "There is + one convention so ancient, so necessary, so universal," writes + Mr. Frederic Harrison (_Nineteenth Century and After_, Aug., + 1907), "that its deliberate defiance to-day may arouse the bile + of the least squeamish of men and should make women withdraw at + once." If boys and girls were brought up at their mother's knees + in familiarity with pictures of beautiful and natural nakedness, + it would be impossible for anyone to write such silly and + shameful words as these. + + There can be no doubt that among ourselves the simple and direct + attitude of the child towards nakedness is so early crushed out + of him that intelligent education is necessary in order that he + may be enabled to discern what is and what is not obscene. To the + plough-boy and the country servant-girl all nakedness, including + that of Greek statuary, is alike shameful or lustful. "I have a + picture of women like that," said a countryman with a grin, as he + pointed to a photograph of one of Tintoret's most beautiful + groups, "smoking cigarettes." And the mass of people in most + northern countries have still passed little beyond this stage of + discernment; in ability to distinguish between the beautiful and + the obscene they are still on the level of the plough-boy and the + servant-girl. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[18] These manifestations have been dealt with in the study of Autoerotism +in vol. i of the present _Studies_. It may be added that the sexual life +of the child has been exhaustively investigated by Moll, _Das Sexualleben +des Kindes_, 1909. + +[19] This genital efflorescence in the sexual glands and breasts at birth +or in early infancy has been discussed in a Paris thesis, by Camille +Renouf (_La Crise Génital et les Manifestations Connexes chez le Foetus et +le Nouveau-né_, 1905); he is unable to offer a satisfactory explanation of +these phenomena. + +[20] Amélineau, _La Morale des Egyptiens_, p. 64. + +[21] "The Social Evil in Philadelphia," _Arena_, March, 1896. + +[22] Moll, _Konträre Sexualempfindung_, third edition, p. 592. + +[23] This powerlessness of the law and the police is well recognized by +lawyers familiar with the matter. Thus F. Werthauer (_Sittlichkeitsdelikte +der Grosstadt_, 1907) insists throughout on the importance of parents and +teachers imparting to children from their early years a progressively +increasing knowledge of sexual matters. + +[24] "Parents must be taught how to impart information," remarks E.L. +Keyes ("Education upon Sexual Matters," _New York Medical Journal_, Feb. +10, 1906), "and this teaching of the parent should begin when he is +himself a child." + +[25] Moll (op. cit., p. 224) argues well how impossible it is to preserve +children from sights and influence connected with the sexual life. + +[26] Girls are not even prepared, in many cases, for the appearance of the +pubic hair. This unexpected growth of hair frequently causes young girls +much secret worry, and often they carefully cut it off. + +[27] G.S. Hall, _Adolescence_, vol. i, p. 511. Many years ago, in 1875, +the late Dr. Clarke, in his _Sex in Education_, advised menstrual rest for +girls, and thereby aroused a violent opposition which would certainly not +be found nowadays, when the special risks of womanhood are becoming more +clearly understood. + +[28] For a summary of the physical and mental phenomena of the menstrual +period, see Havelock Ellis: _Man and Woman_, Ch. XI. The primitive +conception of menstruation is briefly discussed in Appendix A to the first +volume of these _Studies_, and more elaborately by J.G. Frazer in _The +Golden Bough_. A large collection of facts with regard to the menstrual +seclusion of women throughout the world will be found in Ploss and +Bartels, _Das Weib_. The pubertal seclusion of girls at Torres Straits has +been especially studied by Seligmann, _Reports Anthropological Expedition +to Torres Straits_, vol. v, Ch. VI. + +[29] Thus Miss Lura Sanborn, Director of Physical Training at the Chicago +Normal School, found that a bath once a fortnight was not unusual. At the +menstrual period especially there is still a superstitious dread of water. +Girls should always be taught that at this period, above all, cleanliness +is imperatively necessary. There should be a tepid hip bath night and +morning, and a vaginal douche (which should never be cold) is always +advantageous, both for comfort as well as cleanliness. There is not the +slightest reason to dread water during menstruation. This point was +discussed a few years ago in the _British Medical Journal_ with complete +unanimity of opinion. A distinguished American obstetrician, also, Dr. J. +Clifton Edgar, after a careful study of opinion and practice in this +matter ("Bathing During the Menstrual Period," _American Journal +Obstetrics_, Sept., 1900), concludes that it is possible and beneficial to +take cold baths (though not sea-baths) during the period, provided due +precautions are observed, and that there are no sudden changes of habits. +Such a course should not be indiscriminately adopted, but there can be no +doubt that in sturdy peasant women who are inured to it early in life even +prolonged immersion in the sea in fishing has no evil results, and is even +beneficial. Houzel (_Annales de Gynécologie_, Dec., 1894) has published +statistics of the menstrual life of 123 fisherwomen on the French coast. +They were accustomed to shrimp for hours at a time in the sea, often to +above the waist, and then walk about in their wet clothes selling the +shrimps. They all insisted that their menstruation was easier when they +were actively at work. Their periods are notably regular, and their +fertility is high. + +[30] J.H. McBride, "The Life and Health of Our Girls in Relation to Their +Future," _Alienist and Neurologist_, Feb., 1904. + +[31] W.G. Chambers, "The Evolution of Ideals," _Pedagogical Seminary_, +March, 1903; Catherine Dodd, "School Children's Ideals," _National +Review_, Feb. and Dec., 1900, and June, 1901. No German girls acknowledged +a wish to be men; they said it would be wicked. Among Flemish girls, +however, Varendonck found at Ghent (_Archives de Psychologie_, July, 1908) +that 26 per cent. had men as their ideals. + +[32] A. Reibmayr, _Die Entwicklungsgeschichte des Talentes und Genies_, +1908, Bd. i, p. 70. + +[33] R. Hellmann, _Ueber Geschlechtsfreiheit_, p. 14. + +[34] This belief seems frequent among young girls in Continental Europe. +It forms the subject of one of Marcel Prevost's _Lettres de Femmes_. In +Austria, according to Freud, it is not uncommon, exclusively among girls. + +[35] Yet, according to English law, rape is a crime which it is impossible +for a husband to commit on his wife (see, e.g., Nevill Geary, _The Law of +Marriage_, Ch. XV, Sect. V). The performance of the marriage ceremony, +however, even if it necessarily involved a clear explanation of marital +privileges, cannot be regarded as adequate justification for an act of +sexual intercourse performed with violence or without the wife's consent. + +[36] Hirschfeld, _Jahrbuch für Sexuelle Zwischenstufen_, 1903, p. 88. It +may be added that a horror of coitus is not necessarily due to bad +education, and may also occur in hereditarily degenerate women, whose +ancestors have shown similar or allied mental peculiarities. A case of +such "functional impotence" has been reported in a young Italian wife of +twenty-one, who was otherwise healthy, and strongly attached to her +husband. The marriage was annulled on the ground that "rudimentary sexual +or emotional paranoia, which renders a wife invincibly refractory to +sexual union, notwithstanding the integrity of the sexual organs, +constitutes psychic functional impotence" (_Archivio di Psichiatria_, +1906, fasc. vi, p. 806). + +[37] The reasonableness of this step is so obvious that it should scarcely +need insistence. "The instruction of school-boys and school-girls is most +adequately effected by an elderly doctor," Näcke remarks, "sometimes +perhaps the school-doctor." "I strongly advocate," says Clouston (_The +Hygiene of Mind_, p. 249), "that the family doctor, guided by the parent +and the teacher, is by far the best instructor and monitor." Moll is of +the same opinion. + +[38] I have further developed this argument in "Religion and the Child," +_Nineteenth Century and After_, 1907. + +[39] The intimate relation of art and poetry to the sexual impulse has +been realized in a fragmentary way by many who have not attained to any +wide vision of auto-erotic activity in life. "Poetry is necessarily +related to the sexual function," says Metchnikoff (_Essais Optimistes_, p. +352), who also quotes with approval the statement of Möbius (previously +made by Ferrero and many others) that "artistic aptitudes must probably be +considered as secondary sexual characters." + + + + +CHAPTER III. + +SEXUAL EDUCATION AND NAKEDNESS. + +The Greek Attitude Towards Nakedness--How the Romans Modified That +Attitude--The Influence of Christianity--Nakedness in Mediæval +Times--Evolution of the Horror of Nakedness--Concomitant Change in the +Conception of Nakedness--Prudery--The Romantic Movement--Rise of a New +Feeling in Regard to Nakedness--The Hygienic Aspect of Nakedness--How +Children May Be Accustomed to Nakedness--Nakedness Not Inimical to +Modesty--The Instinct of Physical Pride--The Value of Nakedness in +Education--The Æsthetic Value of Nakedness--The Human Body as One of the +Prime Tonics of Life--How Nakedness May Be Cultivated--The Moral Value of +Nakedness. + + +The discussion of the value of nakedness in art leads us on to the allied +question of nakedness in nature. What is the psychological influence of +familiarity with nakedness? How far should children be made familiar with +the naked body? This is a question in regard to which different opinions +have been held in different ages, and during recent years a remarkable +change has begun to come over the minds of practical educationalists in +regard to it. + +In Sparta, in Chios, and elsewhere in Greece, women at one time practiced +gymnastic feats and dances in nakedness, together with the men, or in +their presence.[40] Plato in his _Republic_ approved of such customs and +said that the ridicule of those who laughed at them was but "unripe fruit +plucked from the tree of knowledge." On many questions Plato's opinions +changed, but not on this. In the _Laws_, which are the last outcome of his +philosophic reflection in old age, he still advocates (Bk. viii) a similar +co-education of the sexes and their coöperation in all the works of life, +in part with a view to blunt the over-keen edge of sexual appetite; with +the same object he advocated the association together of youths and girls +without constraint in costumes which offered no concealment to the form. + +It is noteworthy that the Romans, a coarser-grained people than the Greeks +and in our narrow modern sense more "moral," showed no perception of the +moralizing and refining influence of nakedness. Nudity to them was merely +a licentious indulgence, to be treated with contempt even when it was +enjoyed. It was confined to the stage, and clamored for by the populace. +In the Floralia, especially, the crowd seem to have claimed it as their +right that the actors should play naked, probably, it has been thought, as +a survival of a folk-ritual. But the Romans, though they were eager to run +to the theatre, felt nothing but disdain for the performers. "Flagitii +principium est, nudare inter cives corpora." So thought old Ennius, as +reported by Cicero, and that remained the genuine Roman feeling to the +last. "Quanta perversitas!" as Tertullian exclaimed. "Artem magnificant, +artificem notant."[41] In this matter the Romans, although they aroused +the horror of the Christians, were yet in reality laying the foundation of +Christian morality. + +Christianity, which found so many of Plato's opinions congenial, would +have nothing to do with his view of nakedness and failed to recognize its +psychological correctness. The reason was simple, and indeed +simple-minded. The Church was passionately eager to fight against what it +called "the flesh," and thus fell into the error of confusing the +subjective question of sexual desire with the objective spectacle of the +naked form. "The flesh" is evil; therefore, "the flesh" must be hidden. +And they hid it, without understanding that in so doing they had not +suppressed the craving for the human form, but, on the contrary, had +heightened it by imparting to it the additional fascination of a forbidden +mystery. + + Burton, in his _Anatomy of Melancholy_ (Part III, Sect II, Mem. + II, Subs. IV), referring to the recommendations of Plato, adds: + "But _Eusebius_ and _Theodoret_ worthily lash him for it; and + well they might: for as one saith, the very sight of naked + parts, _causeth enormous, exceeding concupiscences, and stirs up + both men and women to burning lust_." Yet, as Burton himself adds + further on in the same section of his work (Mem. V, Subs. III), + without protest, "some are of opinion, that to see a woman naked, + is able of itself to alter his affection; and it is worthy of + consideration, saith _Montaigne_, the Frenchman, in his Essays, + that the skilfullest masters of amorous dalliance appoint for a + remedy of venereous passions, a full survey of the body." + + There ought to be no question regarding the fact that it is the + adorned, the partially concealed body, and not the absolutely + naked body, which acts as a sexual excitant. I have brought + together some evidence on this point in the study of "The + Evolution of Modesty." "In Madagascar, West Africa, and the + Cape," says G.F. Scott Elliot (_A Naturalist in Mid-Africa_, p. + 36), "I have always found the same rule. Chastity varies + inversely as the amount of clothing." It is now indeed generally + held that one of the chief primary objects of ornament and + clothing was the stimulation of sexual desire, and artists' + models are well aware that when they are completely unclothed, + they are most safe from undesired masculine advances. "A favorite + model of mine told me," remarks Dr. Shufeldt (_Medical Brief_, + Oct., 1904), the distinguished author of _Studies of the Human + Form_, "that it was her practice to disrobe as soon after + entering the artist's studio as possible, for, as men are not + always responsible for their emotions, she felt that she was far + less likely to arouse or excite them when entirely nude than when + only semi-draped." This fact is, indeed, quite familiar to + artists' models. If the conquest of sexual desire were the first + and last consideration of life it would be more reasonable to + prohibit clothing than to prohibit nakedness. + +When Christianity absorbed the whole of the European world this strict +avoidance of even the sight of "the flesh," although nominally accepted by +all as the desirable ideal, could only be carried out, thoroughly and +completely, in the cloister. In the practice of the world outside, +although the original Christian ideals remained influential, various pagan +and primitive traditions in favor of nakedness still persisted, and were, +to some extent, allowed to manifest themselves, alike in ordinary custom +and on special occasions. + + How widespread is the occasional or habitual practice of + nakedness in the world generally, and how entirely concordant it + is with even a most sensitive modesty, has been set forth in "The + Evolution of Modesty," in vol. i of these _Studies_. + + Even during the Christian era the impulse to adopt nudity, often + with the feeling that it was an especially sacred practice, has + persisted. The Adamites of the second century, who read and + prayed naked, and celebrated the sacrament naked, according to + the statement quoted by St. Augustine, seem to have caused little + scandal so long as they only practiced nudity in their sacred + ceremonies. The German Brethren of the Free Spirit, in the + thirteenth century, combined so much chastity with promiscuous + nakedness that orthodox Catholics believed they were assisted by + the Devil. The French Picards, at a much later date, insisted on + public nakedness, believing that God had sent their leader into + the world as a new Adam to reestablish the law of Nature; they + were persecuted and were finally exterminated by the Hussites. + + In daily life, however, a considerable degree of nakedness was + tolerated during mediæval times. This was notably so in the + public baths, frequented by men and women together. Thus Alwin + Schultz remarks (in his _Höfische Leben zur Zeit der + Minnesänger_), that the women of the aristocratic classes, though + not the men, were often naked in these baths except for a hat and + a necklace. + + It is sometimes stated that in the mediæval religious plays Adam + and Eve were absolutely naked. Chambers doubts this, and thinks + they wore flesh-colored tights, or were, as in a later play of + this kind, "apparelled in white leather" (E.K. Chambers, _The + Mediæval Stage_, vol. i, p. 5). It may be so, but the public + exposure even of the sexual organs was permitted, and that in + aristocratic houses, for John of Salisbury (in a passage quoted + by Buckle, _Commonplace Book_, 541) protests against this custom. + + The women of the feminist sixteenth century in France, as R. de + Maulde la Clavière remarks (_Revue de l'Art_, Jan., 1898), had no + scruple in recompensing their adorers by admitting them to their + toilette, or even their bath. Late in the century they became + still less prudish, and many well-known ladies allowed themselves + to be painted naked down to the waist, as we see in the portrait + of "Gabrielle d'Estrées au Bain" at Chantilly. Many of these + pictures, however, are certainly not real portraits. + + Even in the middle of the seventeenth century in England + nakedness was not prohibited in public, for Pepys tells us that + on July 29, 1667, a Quaker came into Westminster Hall, crying, + "Repent! Repent!" being in a state of nakedness, except that he + was "very civilly tied about the privities to avoid scandal." + (This was doubtless Solomon Eccles, who was accustomed to go + about in this costume, both before and after the Restoration. He + had been a distinguished musician, and, though eccentric, was + apparently not insane.) + + In a chapter, "De la Nudité," and in the appendices of his book, + _De l'Amour_ (vol. i, p. 221), Sénancour gives instances of the + occasional practice of nudity in Europe, and adds some + interesting remarks of his own; so, also, Dulaure (_Des Divinités + Génératrices_, Ch. XV). It would appear, as a rule, that though + complete nudity was allowed in other respects, it was usual to + cover the sexual parts. + +The movement of revolt against nakedness never became completely +victorious until the nineteenth century. That century represented the +triumph of all the forces that banned public nakedness everywhere and +altogether. If, as Pudor insists, nakedness is aristocratic and the +slavery of clothes a plebeian characteristic imposed on the lower classes +by an upper class who reserved to themselves the privilege of physical +culture, we may perhaps connect this with the outburst of democratic +plebeianism which, as Nietzsche pointed out, reached its climax in the +nineteenth century. It is in any case certainly interesting to observe +that by this time the movement had entirely changed its character. It had +become general, but at the same time its foundation had been undermined. +It had largely lost its religious and moral character, and instead was +regarded as a matter of convention. The nineteenth century man who +encountered the spectacle of white limbs flashing in the sunlight no +longer felt like the mediæval ascetic that he was risking the salvation of +his immortal soul or even courting the depravation of his morals; he +merely felt that it was "indecent" or, in extreme cases, "disgusting." +That is to say he regarded the matter as simply a question of conventional +etiquette, at the worst, of taste, of æsthetics. In thus bringing down his +repugnance to nakedness to so low a plane he had indeed rendered it +generally acceptable, but at the same time he had deprived it of high +sanction. His profound horror of nakedness was out of relation to the +frivolous grounds on which he based it. + + We must not, however, under-rate the tenacity with which this + horror of nakedness was held. Nothing illustrates more vividly + the deeply ingrained hatred which the nineteenth century felt of + nakedness than the ferocity--there is no other word for it--with + which Christian missionaries to savages all over the world, even + in the tropics, insisted on their converts adopting the + conventional clothing of Northern Europe. Travellers' narratives + abound in references to the emphasis placed by missionaries on + this change of custom, which was both injurious to the health of + the people and degrading to their dignity. It is sufficient to + quote one authoritative witness, Lord Stanmore, formerly Governor + of Fiji, who read a long paper to the Anglican Missionary + Conference in 1894 on the subject of "Undue Introduction of + Western Ways." "In the centre of the village," he remarked in + quoting a typical case (and referring not to Fiji but to Tonga), + "is the church, a wooden barn-like building. If the day be + Sunday, we shall find the native minister arrayed in a + greenish-black swallow-tail coat, a neckcloth, once white, and a + pair of spectacles, which he probably does not need, preaching to + a congregation, the male portion of which is dressed in much the + same manner as himself, while the women are dizened out in old + battered hats or bonnets, and shapeless gowns like bathing + dresses, or it may be in crinolines of an early type. Chiefs of + influence and women of high birth, who in their native dress + would look, and do look, the ladies and gentlemen they are, are, + by their Sunday finery, given the appearance of attendants upon + Jack-in-the-Green. If a visit be paid to the houses of the town, + after the morning's work of the people is over, the family will + be found sitting on chairs, listless and uncomfortable, in a room + full of litter. In the houses of the superior native clergy there + will be a yet greater aping of the manners of the West. There + will be chairs covered with hideous antimacassars, tasteless + round worsted-work mats for absent flower jars, and a lot of ugly + cheap and vulgar china chimney ornaments, which, there being no + fireplace, and consequently no chimney-piece, are set out in + order on a rickety deal table. The whole life of these village + folk is one piece of unreal acting. They are continually asking + themselves whether they are incurring any of the penalties + entailed by infraction of the long table of prohibitions, and + whether they are living up to the foreign garments they wear. + Their faces have, for the most part, an expression of sullen + discontent, they move about silently and joylessly, rebels in + heart to the restrictive code on them, but which they fear to + cast off, partly from a vague apprehension of possible secular + results, and partly because they suppose they will cease to be + good Christians if they do so. They have good ground for their + dissatisfaction. At the time when I visited the villages I have + specially in my eye, it was punishable by fine and imprisonment + to wear native clothing, punishable by fine and imprisonment to + wear long hair or a garland of flowers; punishable by fine or + imprisonment to wrestle or to play at ball; punishable by fine + and imprisonment to build a native-fashioned house; punishable + not to wear shirt and trousers, and in certain localities coat + and shoes also; and, in addition to laws enforcing a strictly + puritanical observation of the Sabbath, it was punishable by fine + and imprisonment to bathe on Sundays. In some other places + bathing on Sunday was punishable by flogging; and to my + knowledge women have been flogged for no other offense. Men in + such circumstances are ripe for revolt, and sometimes the revolt + comes." + + An obvious result of reducing the feeling about nakedness to an + unreasoning but imperative convention is the tendency to + prudishness. This, as we know, is a form of pseudo-modesty which, + being a convention, and not a natural feeling, is capable of + unlimited extension. It is by no means confined to modern times + or to Christian Europe. The ancient Hebrews were not entirely + free from prudishness, and we find in the Old Testament that by a + curious euphemism the sexual organs are sometimes referred to as + "the feet." The Turks are capable of prudishness. So, indeed, + were even the ancient Greeks. "Dion the philosopher tells us," + remarks Clement of Alexandria (_Stromates_, Bk. IV, Ch. XIX) + "that a certain woman, Lysidica, through excess of modesty, + bathed in her clothes, and that Philotera, when she was to enter + the bath, gradually drew back her tunic as the water covered her + naked parts; and then rising by degrees, put it on." Mincing + prudes were found among the early Christians, and their ways are + graphically described by St. Jerome in one of his letters to + Eustochium: "These women," he says, "speak between their teeth or + with the edge of the lips, and with a lisping tongue, only half + pronouncing their words, because they regard as gross whatever is + natural. Such as these," declares Jerome, the scholar in him + overcoming the ascetic, "corrupt even language." Whenever a new + and artificial "modesty" is imposed upon savages prudery tends to + arise. Haddon describes this among the natives of Torres Straits, + where even the children now suffer from exaggerated prudishness, + though formerly absolutely naked and unashamed (_Cambridge + Anthropological Expedition to Torres Straits_, vol. v, p. 271). + +The nineteenth century, which witnessed the triumph of timidity and +prudery in this matter, also produced the first fruitful germ of new +conceptions of nakedness. To some extent these were embodied in the great +Romantic movement. Rousseau, indeed, had placed no special insistence on +nakedness as an element of the return to Nature which he preached so +influentially. A new feeling in this matter emerged, however, with +characteristic extravagance, in some of the episodes of the Revolution, +while in Germany in the pioneering _Lucinde_ of Friedrich Schlegel, a +characteristic figure in the Romantic movement, a still unfamiliar +conception of the body was set forth in a serious and earnest spirit. + +In England, Blake with his strange and flaming genius, proclaimed a +mystical gospel which involved the spiritual glorification of the body and +contempt for the civilized worship of clothes ("As to a modern man," he +wrote, "stripped from his load of clothing he is like a dead corpse"); +while, later, in America, Thoreau and Whitman and Burroughs asserted, +still more definitely, a not dissimilar message concerning the need of +returning to Nature. + + We find the importance of the sight of the body--though very + narrowly, for the avoidance of fraud in the preliminaries of + marriage--set forth as early as the sixteenth century by Sir + Thomas More in his _Utopia_, which is so rich in new and fruitful + ideas. In Utopia, according to Sir Thomas More, before marriage, + a staid and honest matron "showeth the woman, be she maid or + widow, naked to the wooer. And likewise a sage and discreet man + exhibiteth the wooer naked to the woman. At this custom we + laughed and disallowed it as foolish. But they, on their part, do + greatly wonder at the folly of all other nations which, in buying + a colt where a little money is in hazard, be so chary and + circumspect that though he be almost all bare, yet they will not + buy him unless the saddle and all the harness be taken off, lest + under these coverings be hid some gall or sore. And yet, in + choosing a wife, which shall be either pleasure or displeasure to + them all their life after, they be so reckless that all the + residue of the woman's body being covered with clothes, they + estimate her scarcely by one handsbreadth (for they can see no + more but her face) and so join her to them, not without great + jeopardy of evil agreeing together, if anything in her body + afterward should chance to offend or mislike them. Verily, so + foul deformity may be hid under these coverings that it may quite + alienate and take away the man's mind from his wife, when it + shall not be lawful for their bodies to be separate again. If + such deformity happen by any chance after the marriage is + consummate and finished, well, there is no remedy but patience. + But it were well done that a law were made whereby all such + deceits were eschewed and avoided beforehand." + + The clear conception of what may be called the spiritual value of + nakedness--by no means from More's point of view, but as a part + of natural hygiene in the widest sense, and as a high and special + aspect of the purifying and ennobling function of beauty--is of + much later date. It is not clearly expressed until the time of + the Romantic movement at the beginning of the nineteenth century. + We have it admirably set forth in Sénancour's _De l'Amour_ (first + edition, 1806; fourth and enlarged edition, 1834), which still + remains one of the best books on the morality of love. After + remarking that nakedness by no means abolishes modesty, he + proceeds to advocate occasional partial or complete nudity. "Let + us suppose," he remarks, somewhat in the spirit of Plato, "a + country in which at certain general festivals the women should be + absolutely free to be nearly or even quite naked. Swimming, + waltzing, walking, those who thought good to do so might remain + unclothed in the presence of men. No doubt the illusions of love + would be little known, and passion would see a diminution of its + transports. But is it passion that in general ennobles human + affairs? We need honest attachments and delicate delights, and + all these we may obtain while still preserving our + common-sense.... Such nakedness would demand corresponding + institutions, strong and simple, and a great respect for those + conventions which belong to all times" (Sénancour, _De l'Amour_, + vol. i, p. 314). + + From that time onwards references to the value and desirability + of nakedness become more and more frequent in all civilized + countries, sometimes mingled with sarcastic allusions to the + false conventions we have inherited in this matter. Thus Thoreau + writes in his journal on June 12, 1852, as he looks at boys + bathing in the river: "The color of their bodies in the sun at a + distance is pleasing. I hear the sound of their sport borne over + the water. As yet we have not man in Nature. What a singular fact + for an angel visitant to this earth to carry back in his + note-book, that men were forbidden to expose their bodies under + the severest penalties." + + Iwan Bloch, in Chapter VII of his _Sexual Life of Our Time_, + discusses this question of nakedness from the modern point of + view, and concludes: "A natural conception of nakedness: that is + the watchword of the future. All the hygienic, æsthetic, and + moral efforts of our time are pointing in that direction." + + Stratz, as befits one who has worked so strenuously in the cause + of human health and beauty, admirably sets forth the stage which + we have now attained in this matter. After pointing out (_Die + Frauenkleidung_, third edition, 1904, p. 30) that, in opposition + to the pagan world which worshipped naked gods, Christianity + developed the idea that nakedness was merely sexual, and + therefore immoral, he proceeds: "But over all glimmered on the + heavenly heights of the Cross, the naked body of the Saviour. + Under that protection there has gradually disengaged itself from + the confusion of ideas a new transfigured form of nakedness made + free after long struggle. I would call this _artistic nakedness_, + for as it was immortalized by the old Greeks through art, so also + among us it has been awakened to new life by art. Artistic + nakedness is, in its nature, much higher than either the natural + or the sensual conception of nakedness. The simple child of + Nature sees in nakedness nothing at all; the clothed man sees in + the uncovered body only a sensual irritation. But at the highest + standpoint man consciously returns to Nature, and recognizes that + under the manifold coverings of human fabrication there is + hidden the most splendid creature that God has created. One may + stand in silent, worshipping wonder before the sight; another may + be impelled to imitate and show to his fellow-man what in that + holy moment he has seen. But both enjoy the spectacle of human + beauty with full consciousness and enlightened purity of + thought." + +It was not, however, so much on these more spiritual sides, but on the +side of hygiene, that the nineteenth century furnished its chief practical +contribution to the new attitude towards nakedness. + + Lord Monboddo, the Scotch judge, who was a pioneer in regard to + many modern ideas, had already in the eighteenth century realized + the hygienic value of "air-baths," and he invented that now + familiar name. "Lord Monboddo," says Boswell, in 1777 (_Life of + Johnson_, edited by Hill, vol. iii, p. 168) "told me that he + awaked every morning at four, and then for his health got up and + walked in his room naked, with the window open, which he called + taking _an air-bath_." It is said also, I know not on what + authority, that he made his beautiful daughters take an air-bath + naked on the terrace every morning. Another distinguished man of + the same century, Benjamin Franklin, used sometimes to work naked + in his study on hygienic grounds, and, it is recorded, once + affrighted a servant-girl by opening the door in an absent-minded + moment, thus unattired. + + Rikli seems to have been the apostle of air-baths and sun-baths + regarded as a systematic method. He established light-and + air-baths over half a century ago at Trieste and elsewhere in + Austria. His motto was: "Light, Truth, and Freedom are the motive + forces towards the highest development of physical and moral + health." Man is not a fish, he declared; light and air are the + first conditions of a highly organized life. Solaria for the + treatment of a number of different disordered conditions are now + commonly established, and most systems of natural therapeutics + attach prime importance to light and air, while in medicine + generally it is beginning to be recognized that such influences + can by no means be neglected. Dr. Fernand Sandoz, in his + _Introduction à la Thérapeutique Naturiste par les agents + Physiques et Dietétiques_ (1907) sets forth such methods + comprehensively. In Germany sun-baths have become widely common; + thus Lenkei (in a paper summarized in _British Medical Journal_, + Oct. 31, 1908) prescribes them with much benefit in tuberculosis, + rheumatic conditions, obesity, anæmia, neurasthenia, etc. He + considers that their peculiar value lies in the action of light. + Professor J.N. Hyde, of Chicago, even believes ("Light-Hunger in + the Production of Psoriasis," _British Medical Journal_, Oct. 6, + 1906), that psoriasis is caused by deficiency of sunlight, and + is best cured by the application of light. This belief, which has + not, however, been generally accepted in its unqualified form, he + ingeniously supports by the fact that psoriasis tends to appear + on the most exposed parts of the body, which may be held to + naturally receive and require the maximum of light, and by the + absence of the disease in hot countries and among negroes. + + The hygienic value of nakedness is indicated by the robust health + of the savages throughout the world who go naked. The vigor of + the Irish, also, has been connected with the fact that (as Fynes + Moryson's _Itinerary_ shows) both sexes, even among persons of + high social class, were accustomed to go naked except for a + mantle, especially in more remote parts of the country, as late + as the seventeenth century. Where-ever primitive races abandon + nakedness for clothing, at once the tendency to disease, + mortality, and degeneracy notably increases, though it must be + remembered that the use of clothing is commonly accompanied by + the introduction of other bad habits. "Nakedness is the only + condition universal among vigorous and healthy savages; at every + other point perhaps they differ," remarks Frederick Boyle in a + paper ("Savages and Clothes," _Monthly Review_, Sept., 1905) in + which he brings together much evidence concerning the hygienic + advantages of the natural human state in which man is "all face." + + It is in Germany that a return towards nakedness has been most + ably and thoroughly advocated, notably by Dr. H. Pudor in his + _Nackt-Cultur_, and by R. Ungewitter in _Die Nacktheit_ (first + published in 1905), a book which has had a very large circulation + in many editions. These writers enthusiastically advocate + nakedness, not only on hygienic, but on moral and artistic + grounds. Pudor insists more especially that "nakedness, both in + gymnastics and in sport, is a method of cure and a method of + regeneration;" he advocates co-education in this culture of + nakedness. Although he makes large claims for + nakedness--believing that all the nations which have disregarded + these claims have rapidly become decadent--Pudor is less hopeful + than Ungewitter of any speedy victory over the prejudices opposed + to the culture of nakedness. He considers that the immediate task + is education, and that a practical commencement may best be made + with the foot which is specially in need of hygiene and exercise; + a large part of the first volume of his book is devoted to the + foot. + +As the matter is to-day viewed by those educationalists who are equally +alive to sanitary and sexual considerations, the claims of nakedness, so +far as concerns the young, are regarded as part alike of physical and +moral hygiene. The free contact of the naked body with air and water and +light makes for the health of the body; familiarity with the sight of the +body abolishes petty pruriencies, trains the sense of beauty, and makes +for the health of the soul. This double aspect of the matter has +undoubtedly weighed greatly with those teachers who now approve of customs +which, a few years ago, would have been hastily dismissed as "indecent." +There is still a wide difference of opinion as to the limits to which the +practice of nakedness may be carried, and also as to the age when it +should begin to be restricted. The fact that the adult generation of +to-day grew up under the influence of the old horror of nakedness is an +inevitable check on any revolutionary changes in these matters. + + Maria Lischnewska, one of the ablest advocates of the methodical + enlightenment of children in matters of sex (op. cit.), clearly + realizes that a sane attitude towards the body lies at the root + of a sound education for life. She finds that the chief objection + encountered in such education, as applied in the higher classes + of schools, is "the horror of the civilized man at his own body." + She shows that there can be no doubt that those who are engaged + in the difficult task of working towards the abolition of that + superstitious horror have taken up a moral task of the first + importance. + + Walter Gerhard, in a thoughtful and sensible paper on the + educational question ("Ein Kapitel zur Erziehungsfrage," + _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, vol. i, Heft 2), points out that + it is the adult who needs education in this matter--as in so many + other matters of sexual enlightenment--considerably more than the + child. Parents educate their children from the earliest years in + prudery, and vainly flatter themselves that they have thereby + promoted their modesty and morality. He records his own early + life in a tropical land and accustomed to nakedness from the + first. "It was not till I came to Germany when nearly twenty that + I learnt that the human body is indecent, and that it must not be + shown because that 'would arouse bad impulses.' It was not till + the human body was entirely withdrawn from my sight and after I + was constantly told that there was something improper behind + clothes, that I was able to understand this.... Until then I had + not known that a naked body, by the mere fact of being naked, + could arouse erotic feelings. I had known erotic feelings, but + they had not arisen from the sight of the naked body, but + gradually blossomed from the union of our souls." And he draws + the final moral that, if only for the sake of our children, we + must learn to educate ourselves. + + Forel (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, p. 140), speaking in entirely the + same sense as Gerhard, remarks that prudery may be either caused + or cured in children. It may be caused by undue anxiety in + covering their bodies and hiding from them the bodies of others. + It may be cured by making them realize that there is nothing in + the body that is unnatural and that we need be ashamed of, and by + encouraging bathing of the sexes in common. He points out (p. + 512) the advantages of allowing children to be acquainted with + the adult forms which they will themselves some day assume, and + condemns the conduct of those foolish persons who assume that + children already possess the adult's erotic feelings about the + body. That is so far from being the case that children are + frequently unable to distinguish the sex of other children apart + from their clothes. + + At the Mannheim Congress of the German Society for Combating + Venereal Diseases, specially devoted to sexual hygiene, the + speakers constantly referred to the necessity of promoting + familiarity with the naked body. Thus Eulenburg and Julian + Marcuse (_Sexualpädagogik_, p. 264) emphasize the importance of + air-baths, not only for the sake of the physical health of the + young, but in the interests of rational sexual training. Höller, + a teacher, speaking at the same congress (op. cit., p. 85), after + insisting on familiarity with the nude in art and literature, and + protesting against the bowdlerising of poems for the young, + continues: "By bathing-drawers ordinances no soul was ever yet + saved from moral ruin. One who has learnt to enjoy peacefully the + naked in art is only stirred by the naked in nature as by a work + of art." Enderlin, another teacher, speaking in the same sense + (p. 58), points out that nakedness cannot act sexually or + immorally on the child, since the sexual impulse has not yet + become pronounced, and the earlier he is introduced to the naked + in nature and in art, as a matter of course, the less likely are + the sexual feelings to be developed precociously. The child thus, + indeed, becomes immune to impure influences, so that later, when + representations of the nude are brought before him for the object + of provoking his wantonness, they are powerless to injure him. It + is important, Enderlin adds, for familiarity with the nude in art + to be learnt at school, for most of us, as Siebert remarks, have + to learn purity through art. + + Nakedness in bathing, remarks Bölsche in his _Liebesleben in der + Natur_ (vol. iii, pp. 139 et seq.), we already in some measure + possess; we need it in physical exercises, at first for the sexes + separately; then, when we have grown accustomed to the idea, + occasionally for both sexes together. We need to acquire the + capacity to see the bodies of individuals of the other sex with + such self-control and such natural instinct that they become + non-erotic to us and can be gazed at without erotic feeling. Art, + he says, shows that this is possible in civilization. Science, he + adds, comes to the aid of the same view. + + Ungewitter (_Die Nacktheit_, p. 57) also advocates boys and girls + engaging in play and gymnastics together, entirely naked in + air-baths. "In this way," he believes, "the gymnasium would + become a school of morality, in which young growing things would + be able to retain their purity as long as possible through + becoming naturally accustomed to each other. At the same time + their bodies would be hardened and developed, and the perception + of beautiful and natural forms awakened." To those who have any + "moral" doubts on the matter, he mentions the custom in remote + country districts of boys and girls bathing together quite naked + and without any sexual consciousness. Rudolf Sommer, similarly, + in an excellent article entitled "Mädchenerziehung oder + Menschenbildung?" (_Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Bd. i, Heft 3) + advises that children should be made accustomed to each other's + nakedness from an early age in the family life of the house or + the garden, in games, and especially in bathing; he remarks that + parents having children of only one sex should cultivate for + their children's sake intimate relations with a family having + children of like age of the opposite sex, so that they may grow + up together. + +It is scarcely necessary to add that the cultivation of nakedness must +always be conciliated with respect for the natural instincts of modesty. +If the practice of nakedness led the young to experience a diminished +reverence for their own or others' personalities the advantages of it +would be too dearly bought. This is, in part, a matter of wholesome +instinct, in part of wise training. We now know that the absence of +clothes has little relation with the absence of modesty, such relation as +there is being of the inverse order, for the savage races which go naked +are usually more modest than those which wear clothes. The saying quoted +by Herodotus in the early Greek world that "A woman takes off her modesty +with her shift" was a favorite text of the Christian Fathers. But +Plutarch, who was also a moralist, had already protested against it at the +close of the Greek world: "By no means," he declared, "she who is modest +clothes herself with modesty when she lays aside her tunic." "A woman may +be naked," as Mrs. Bishop, the traveller, remarked to Dr. Baelz, in Japan, +"and yet behave like a lady."[42] + +The question is complicated among ourselves because established +traditions of rigid concealment have fostered a pruriency which is an +offensive insult to naked modesty. In many lands the women who are +accustomed to be almost or quite naked in the presence of their own people +cover themselves as soon as they become conscious of the lustful +inquisitive eyes of Europeans. Stratz refers to the prevalence of this +impulse of offended modesty in Japan, and mentions that he himself failed +to arouse it simply because he was a physician, and, moreover, had long +lived in another land (Java) where also the custom of nakedness +prevails.[43] So long as this unnatural prurience exists a free +unqualified nakedness is rendered difficult. + +Modesty is not, however, the only natural impulse which has to be +considered in relation to the custom of nakedness. It seems probable that +in cultivating the practice of nakedness we are not merely carrying out a +moral and hygienic prescription but allowing legitimate scope to an +instinct which at some periods of life, especially in adolescence, is +spontaneous and natural, even, it may be, wholesomely based in the +traditions of the race in sexual selection. Our rigid conventions make it +impossible for us to discover the laws of nature in this matter by +stifling them at the outset. It may well be that there is a rhythmic +harmony and concordance between impulses of modesty and impulses of +ostentation, though we have done our best to disguise the natural law by +our stupid and perverse by-laws. + + Stanley Hall, who emphasizes the importance of nakedness, remarks + that at puberty we have much reason to assume that in a state of + nature there is a certain instinctive pride and ostentation that + accompanies the new local development, and quotes the observation + of Dr. Seerley that the impulse to conceal the sexual organs is + especially marked in young men who are underdeveloped, but not + evident in those who are developed beyond the average. Stanley + Hall (_Adolescence_, vol. ii, p. 97), also refers to the + frequency with which not only "virtuous young men, but even + women, rather glory in occasions when they can display the beauty + of their forms without reserve, not only to themselves and to + loved ones, but even to others with proper pretexts." + + Many have doubtless noted this tendency, especially in women, and + chiefly in those who are conscious of beautiful physical + development. Madame Céline Renooz believes that the tendency + corresponds to a really deep-rooted instinct in women, little or + not at all manifested in men who have consequently sought to + impose artificially on women their own masculine conceptions of + modesty. "In the actual life of the young girl to-day there is a + moment when, by a secret atavism, she feels the pride of her sex, + the intuition of her moral superiority and cannot understand why + she must hide its cause. At this moment, wavering between the + laws of Nature and social conventions, she scarcely knows if + nakedness should, or should not, affright her. A sort of confused + atavistic memory recalls to her a period before clothing was + known, and reveals to her as a paradisaical ideal the customs of + that human epoch" (Céline Renooz, _Psychologie Comparée de + l'Homme et de la Femme_, pp. 85-87). Perhaps this was obscurely + felt by the German girl (mentioned in Kalbeck's _Life of + Brahms_), who said: "One enjoys music twice as much + _décolletée_." + +From the point of view with which we are here essentially concerned there +are three ways in which the cultivation of nakedness--so far as it is +permitted by the slow education of public opinion--tends to exert an +influence: (1) It is an important element in the sexual hygiene of the +young, introducing a wholesome knowledge and incuriosity into a sphere +once given up to prudery and pruriency. (2) The effect of nakedness is +beneficial on those of more mature age, also, in so far as it tends to +cultivate the sense of beauty and to furnish the tonic and consoling +influences of natural vigor and grace. (3) The custom of nakedness, in its +inception at all events, has a dynamic psychological influence also on +morals, an influence exerted in the substitution of a strenuous and +positive morality for the merely negative and timid morality which has +ruled in this sphere. + +Perhaps there are not many adults who realize the intense and secret +absorption of thought in the minds of many boys and some girls concerning +the problem of the physical conformation of the other sex, and the time, +patience, and intellectual energy which they are willing to expend on the +solution of this problem. This is mostly effected in secret, but not +seldom the secret impulse manifests itself with a sudden violence which in +the blind eyes of the law is reckoned as crime. A German lawyer, Dr. +Werthauer, has lately stated that if there were a due degree of +familiarity with the natural organs and functions of the opposite sex +ninety per cent. of the indecent acts of youths with girl children would +disappear, for in most cases these are not assaults but merely the +innocent, though uncontrollable, outcome of a repressed natural curiosity. +It is quite true that not a few children boldly enlist each others' +coöperation in the settlement of the question and resolve it to their +mutual satisfaction. But even this is not altogether satisfactory, for the +end is not attained openly and wholesomely, with a due subordination of +the specifically sexual, but with a consciousness of wrong-doing and an +exclusive attentiveness to the merely physical fact which tend directly to +develop sexual excitement. When familiarity with the naked body of the +other sex is gained openly and with no consciousness of indecorum, in the +course of work and of play, in exercise or gymnastics, in running or in +bathing, from a child's earliest years, no unwholesome results accompany +the knowledge of the essential facts of physical conformation thus +naturally acquired. The prurience and prudery which have poisoned sexual +life in the past are alike rendered impossible. + +Nakedness has, however, a hygienic value, as well as a spiritual +significance, far beyond its influences in allaying the natural +inquisitiveness of the young or acting as a preventative of morbid +emotion. It is an inspiration to adults who have long outgrown any +youthful curiosities. The vision of the essential and eternal human form, +the nearest thing to us in all the world, with its vigor and its beauty +and its grace, is one of the prime tonics of life. "The power of a woman's +body," said James Hinton, "is no more bodily than the power of music is a +power of atmospheric vibrations." It is more than all the beautiful and +stimulating things of the world, than flowers or stars or the sea. History +and legend and myth reveal to us the sacred and awful influence of +nakedness, for, as Stanley Hall says, nakedness has always been "a +talisman of wondrous power with gods and men." How sorely men crave for +the spectacle of the human body--even to-day after generations have +inculcated the notion that it is an indecorous and even disgusting +spectacle--is witnessed by the eagerness with which they seek after the +spectacle of even its imperfect and meretricious forms, although these +certainly possess a heady and stimulating quality which can never be found +in the pathetic simplicity of naked beauty. It was another spectacle when +the queens of ancient Madagascar at the annual Fandroon, or feast of the +bath, laid aside their royal robes and while their subjects crowded the +palace courtyard, descended the marble steps to the bath in complete +nakedness. When we make our conventions of clothing rigid we at once +spread a feast for lust and deny ourselves one of the prime tonics of +life. + + "I was feeling in despair and walking despondently along a + Melbourne street," writes the Australian author of a yet + unpublished autobiography, "when three children came running out + of a lane and crossed the road in full daylight. The beauty and + texture of their legs in the open air filled me with joy, so that + I forgot all my troubles whilst looking at them. It was a bright + revelation, an unexpected glimpse of Paradise, and I have never + ceased to thank the happy combination of shape, pure blood, and + fine skin of these poverty-stricken children, for the wind seemed + to quicken their golden beauty, and I retained the rosy vision of + their natural young limbs, so much more divine than those always + under cover. Another occasion when naked young limbs made me + forget all my gloom and despondency was on my first visit to + Adelaide. I came on a naked boy leaning on the railing near the + Baths, and the beauty of his face, torso, fair young limbs and + exquisite feet filled me with joy and renewed hope. The tears + came to my eyes, and I said to myself, 'While there is beauty in + the world I will continue to struggle,'" + + We must, as Bölsche declares (loc. cit.), accustom ourselves to + gaze on the naked human body exactly as we gaze at a beautiful + flower, not merely with the pity with which the doctor looks at + the body, but with joy in its strength and health and beauty. For + a flower, as Bölsche truly adds, is not merely "naked body," it + is the most sacred region of the body, the sexual organs of the + plant. + + "For girls to dance naked," said Hinton, "is the only truly pure + form of dancing, and in due time it must therefore come about. + This is certain: girls will dance naked and men will be pure + enough to gaze on them." It has already been so in Greece, he + elsewhere remarks, as it is to-day in Japan (as more recently + described by Stratz). It is nearly forty years since these + prophetic words were written, but Hinton himself would probably + have been surprised at the progress which has already been made + slowly (for all true progress must be slow) towards this goal. + Even on the stage new and more natural traditions are beginning + to prevail in Europe. It is not many years since an English + actress regarded as a calumny the statement that she appeared on + the stage bare-foot, and brought an action for libel, winning + substantial damages. Such a result would scarcely be possible + to-day. The movement in which Isadora Duncan was a pioneer has + led to a partial disuse among dancers of the offensive device of + tights, and it is no longer considered indecorous to show many + parts of the body which it was formerly usual to cover. + + It should, however, be added at the same time that, while + dancers, in so far as they are genuine artists, are entitled to + determine the conditions most favorable to their art, nothing + whatever is gained for the cause of a wholesome culture of + nakedness by the "living statues" and "living pictures" which + have obtained an international vogue during recent years. These + may be legitimate as variety performances, but they have nothing + whatever to do with either Nature or art. Dr. Pudor, writing as + one of the earliest apostles of the culture of nakedness, has + energetically protested against these performances + (_Sexual-Probleme_, Dec., 1908, p. 828). He rightly points out + that nakedness, to be wholesome, requires the open air, the + meadows, the sunlight, and that nakedness at night, in a music + hall, by artificial light, in the presence of spectators who are + themselves clothed, has no element of morality about it. Attempts + have here and there been quietly made to cultivate a certain + amount of mutual nakedness as between the sexes on remote country + excursions. It is significant to find a record of such an + experiment in Ungewitter's _Die Nacktheit_. In this case a party + of people, men and women, would regularly every Sunday seek + remote spots in woods or meadows where they would settle down, + picnic, and enjoy games. "They made themselves as comfortable as + possible, the men laying aside their coats, waistcoats, boots and + socks; the women their blouses, skirts, shoes and stockings. + Gradually, as the moral conception of nakedness developed in + their minds, more and more clothing fell away, until the men wore + nothing but bathing-drawers and the women only their chemises. In + this 'costume' games were carried out in common, and a regular + camp-life led. The ladies (some of whom were unmarried) would + then lie in hammocks and we men on the grass, and the intercourse + was delightful. We felt as members of one family, and behaved + accordingly. In an entirely natural and unembarrassed way we gave + ourselves up entirely to the liberating feelings aroused by this + light- and air-bath, and passed these splendid hours in joyous + singing and dancing, in wantonly childish fashion, freed from the + burden of a false civilization. It was, of course, necessary to + seek spots as remote as possible from high-roads, for fear of + being disturbed. At the same time we by no means failed in + natural modesty and consideration towards one another. Children, + who can be entirely naked, may be allowed to take part in such + meetings of adults, and will thus be brought up free from morbid + prudery" (R. Ungewitter, _Die Nacktheit_, p. 58). + + No doubt it may be said that the ideal in this matter is the + possibility of permitting complete nakedness. This may be + admitted, and it is undoubtedly true that our rigid police + regulations do much to artificially foster a concealment in this + matter which is not based on any natural instinct. Dr. Shufeldt + narrates in his _Studies of the Human Form_ that once in the + course of a photographic expedition in the woods he came upon two + boys, naked except for bathing-drawers, engaged in getting water + lilies from a pond. He found them a good subject for his camera, + but they could not be induced to remove their drawers, by no + means out of either modesty or mock-modesty, but simply because + they feared they might possibly be caught and arrested. We have + to recognize that at the present day the general popular + sentiment is not yet sufficiently educated to allow of public + disregard for the convention of covering the sexual centres, and + all attempts to extend the bounds of nakedness must show a due + regard for this requirement. As concerns women, Valentin Lehr, of + Freiburg, in Breisgau, has invented a costume (figured in + Ungewitter's _Die Nacktheit_) which is suitable for either public + water-baths or air-baths, because it meets the demand of those + whose minimum requirement is that the chief sexual centres of the + body should be covered in public, while it is otherwise fairly + unobjectionable. It consists of two pieces, made of porous + material, one covering the breasts with a band over the + shoulders, and the other covering the abdomen below the navel and + drawn between the legs. This minimal costume, while neither ideal + nor æsthetic, adequately covers the sexual regions of the body, + while leaving the arms, waist, hips, and legs entirely free. + +There finally remains the moral aspect of nakedness. Although this has +been emphasized by many during the past half century it is still +unfamiliar to the majority. The human body can never be a little thing. +The wise educator may see to it that boys and girls are brought up in a +natural and wholesome familiarity with each other, but a certain terror +and beauty must always attach to the spectacle of the body, a mixed +attraction and repulsion. Because it has this force it naturally calls out +the virtue of those who take part in the spectacle, and makes impossible +any soft compliance to emotion. Even if we admit that the spectacle of +nakedness is a challenge to passion it is still a challenge that calls +out the ennobling qualities of self-control. It is but a poor sort of +virtue that lies in fleeing into the desert from things that we fear may +have in them a temptation. We have to learn that it is even worse to +attempt to create a desert around us in the midst of civilization. We +cannot dispense with passions if we would; reason, as Holbach said, is the +art of choosing the right passions, and education the art of sowing and +cultivating them in human hearts. The spectacle of nakedness has its moral +value in teaching us to learn to enjoy what we do not possess, a lesson +which is an essential part of the training for any kind of fine social +life. The child has to learn to look at flowers and not pluck them; the +man has to learn to look at a woman's beauty and not desire to possess it. +The joyous conquest over that "erotic kleptomania," as Ellen Key has well +said, reveals the blossoming of a fine civilization. We fancy the conquest +is difficult, even impossibly difficult. But it is not so. This impulse, +like other human impulses, tends under natural conditions to develop +temperately and wholesomely. We artificially press a stupid and brutal +hand on it, and it is driven into the two unnatural extremes of repression +and license, one extreme as foul as the other. + +To those who have been bred under bad conditions, it may indeed seem +hopeless to attempt to rise to the level of the Greeks and the other finer +tempered peoples of antiquity in realizing the moral, as well as the +pedagogic, hygienic, and æsthetic advantages[44] of admitting into life +the spectacle of the naked human body. But unless we do we hopelessly +fetter ourselves in our march along the road of civilization, we deprive +ourselves at once of a source of moral strength and of joyous inspiration. +Just as Wesley once asked why the devil should have all the best tunes, so +to-day men are beginning to ask why the human body, the most divine melody +at its finest moments that creation has yielded, should be allowed to +become the perquisite of those who lust for the obscene. And some are, +further, convinced that by enlisting it on the side of purity and strength +they are raising the most powerful of all bulwarks against the invasion of +a vicious conception of life and the consequent degradation of sex. These +are considerations which we cannot longer afford to neglect, however great +the opposition they arouse among the unthinking. + + "Folk are afraid of such things rousing the passions," Edward + Carpenter remarks. "No doubt the things may act that way. But + why, we may ask, should people be afraid of rousing passions + which, after all, are the great driving forces of human life?" It + is true, the same writer continues, our conventional moral + formulæ are no longer strong enough to control passion + adequately, and that we are generating steam in a boiler that is + cankered with rust. "The cure is not to cut off the passions, or + to be weakly afraid of them, but to find a new, sound, healthy + engine of general morality and common sense within which they + will work" (Edward Carpenter, _Albany Review_, Sept., 1907). + + So far as I am aware, however, it was James Hinton who chiefly + sought to make clear the possibility of a positive morality on + the basis of nakedness, beauty, and sexual influence, regarded as + dynamic forces which, when suppressed, make for corruption and + when wisely used serve to inspire and ennoble life. He worked out + his thoughts on this matter in MSS., written from about 1870 to + his death two years later, which, never having been prepared for + publication, remain in a fragmentary state and have not been + published. I quote a few brief characteristic passages: "Is not," + he wrote, "the Hindu refusal to see a woman eating strangely like + ours to see one naked? The real sensuality of the thought is + visibly identical.... Suppose, because they are delicious to eat, + pineapples were forbidden to be seen, except in pictures, and + about that there was something dubious. Suppose no one might have + sight of a pineapple unless he were rich enough to purchase one + for his particular eating, the sight and the eating being so + indissolubly joined. What lustfulness would surround them, what + constant pruriency, what stealing!... Miss ---- told us of her + Syrian adventures, and how she went into a wood-carver's shop and + he would not look at her; and how she took up a tool and worked, + till at last he looked, and they both burst out laughing. Will it + not be even so with our looking at women altogether? There will + come a _work_--and at last we shall look up and both burst out + laughing.... When men see truly what is amiss, and act with + reason and forethought in respect to the sexual relations, will + they not insist on the enjoyment of women's beauty by youths, and + from the earliest age, that the first feeling may be of beauty? + Will they not say, 'We must not allow the false purity, we must + have the true.' The false has been tried, and it is not good + enough; the power purely to enjoy beauty must be gained; + attempting to do with less is fatal. Every instructor of youth + shall say: 'This beauty of woman, God's chief work of beauty, it + is good you see it; it is a pleasure that serves good; all beauty + serves it, and above all this, for its office is to make you + pure. Come to it as you come to daily bread, or pure air, or the + cleansing bath: this is pure to you if you be pure, it will aid + you in your effort to be so. But if any of you are impure, and + make of it the feeder of impurity, then you should be ashamed and + pray; it is not for you our life can be ordered; it is for men + and not for beasts.' This must come when men open their eyes, and + act coolly and with reason and forethought, and not in mere panic + in respect to the sexual passion in its moral relations." + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[40] Thus Athenæus (Bk. xiii, Ch. XX) says: "In the Island of Chios it is +a beautiful sight to go to the gymnasia and the race-courses, and to see +the young men wrestling naked with the maidens who are also naked." + +[41] Augustine (_De civitate Dei_, lib. ii, cap. XIII) refers to the same +point, contrasting the Romans with the Greeks who honored their actors. + +[42] See "The Evolution of Modesty" in the first volume of these +_Studies_, where this question of the relationship of nakedness to modesty +is fully discussed. + +[43] C.H. Stratz, _Die Körperformen in Kunst und Leben der Japaner_, +Second edition, Ch. III; id., _Frauenkleidung_, Third edition, pp. 22, 30. + +[44] I have not considered it in place here to emphasize the æsthetic +influence of familiarity with nakedness. The most æsthetic nations +(notably the Greeks and the Japanese) have been those that preserved a +certain degree of familiarity with the naked body. "In all arts," +Maeterlinck remarks, "civilized peoples have approached or departed from +pure beauty according as they approached or departed from the habit of +nakedness." Ungewitter insists on the advantage to the artist of being +able to study the naked body in movement, and it may be worth mentioning +that Fidus (Hugo Höppener), the German artist of to-day who has exerted +great influence by his fresh, powerful and yet reverent delineation of the +naked human form in all its varying aspects, attributes his inspiration +and vision to the fact that, as a pupil of Diefenbach, he was accustomed +with his companions to work naked in the solitudes outside Munich which +they frequented (F. Enzensberger, "Fidus," _Deutsche Kultur_, Aug., 1906). + + + + +CHAPTER IV. + +THE VALUATION OF SEXUAL LOVE. + +The Conception of Sexual Love--The Attitude of Mediæval Asceticism--St. +Bernard and St. Odo of Cluny--The Ascetic Insistence on the Proximity of +the Sexual and Excretory Centres--Love as a Sacrament of Nature--The Idea +of the Impurity of Sex in Primitive Religions Generally--Theories of the +Origin of This Idea--The Anti-Ascetic Element in the Bible and Early +Christianity--Clement of Alexandria--St. Augustine's Attitude--The +Recognition of the Sacredness of the Body by Tertullian, Rufinus and +Athanasius--The Reformation--The Sexual Instinct regarded as Beastly--The +Human Sexual Instinct Not Animal-like--Lust and Love--The Definition of +Love--Love and Names for Love Unknown in Some Parts of the World--Romantic +Love of Late Development in the White Race--The Mystery of Sexual +Desire--Whether Love is a Delusion--The Spiritual as Well as the Physical +Structure of the World in Part Built up on Sexual Love--The Testimony of +Men of Intellect to the Supremacy of Love. + + +It will be seen that the preceding discussion of nakedness has a +significance beyond what it appeared to possess at the outset. The +hygienic value, physically and mentally, of familiarity with nakedness +during the early years of life, however considerable it may be, is not the +only value which such familiarity possesses. Beyond its æsthetic value, +also, there lies in it a moral value, a source of dynamic energy. And now, +taking a still further step, we may say that it has a spiritual value in +relation to our whole conception of the sexual impulse. Our attitude +towards the naked human body is the test of our attitude towards the +instinct of sex. If our own and our fellows' bodies seem to us +intrinsically shameful or disgusting, nothing will ever really ennoble or +purify our conceptions of sexual love. Love craves the flesh, and if the +flesh is shameful the lover must be shameful. "Se la cosa amata è vile," +as Leonardo da Vinci profoundly said, "l'amante se fa vile." However +illogical it may have been, there really was a justification for the old +Christian identification of the flesh with the sexual instinct. They stand +or fall together; we cannot degrade the one and exalt the other. As our +feelings towards nakedness are, so will be our feelings towards love. + +"Man is nothing else than fetid sperm, a sack of dung, the food of +worms.... You have never seen a viler dung-hill." Such was the outcome of +St. Bernard's cloistered _Meditationes Piissimæ_.[45] Sometimes, indeed, +these mediæval monks would admit that the skin possessed a certain +superficial beauty, but they only made that admission in order to +emphasize the hideousness of the body when deprived of this film of +loveliness, and strained all their perverse intellectual acumen, and their +ferocious irony, as they eagerly pointed the finger of mockery at every +detail of what seemed to them the pitiful figure of man. St. Odo of +Cluny--charming saint as he was and a pioneer in his appreciation of the +wild beauty of the Alps he had often traversed--was yet an adept in this +art of reviling the beauty of the human body. That beauty only lies in the +skin, he insists; if we could see beneath the skin women would arouse +nothing but nausea. Their adornments are but blood and mucus and bile. If +we refuse to touch dung and phlegm even with a fingertip, how can we +desire to embrace a sack of dung?[46] The mediæval monks of the more +contemplative order, indeed, often found here a delectable field of +meditation, and the Christian world generally was content to accept their +opinions in more or less diluted versions, or at all events never made any +definite protest against them. + +Even men of science accepted these conceptions and are, indeed, only now +beginning to emancipate themselves from such ancient superstitions. R. de +Graef in the Preface to his famous treatise on the generative organs of +women, _De Mulierum Organis Generatione Inservientibus_, dedicated to +Cosmo III de Medici in 1672, considered it necessary to apologize for the +subject of his work. Even a century later, Linnæus in his great work, _The +System of Nature_, dismissed as "abominable" the exact study of the female +genitals, although he admitted the scientific interest of such +investigations. And if men of science have found it difficult to attain an +objective vision of women we cannot be surprised that medieval and still +more ancient conceptions have often been subtly mingled with the views of +philosophical and semi-philosophical writers.[47] + +We may regard as a special variety of the ascetic view of sex,--for the +ascetics, as we see, freely but not quite legitimately, based their +asceticism largely on æsthetic considerations,--that insistence on the +proximity of the sexual to the excretory centres which found expression in +the early Church in Augustine's depreciatory assertion: "Inter fæces et +urinam nascimur," and still persists among many who by no means always +associate it with religious asceticism.[48] "As a result of what +ridiculous economy, and of what Mephistophilian irony," asks Tarde,[49] +"has Nature imagined that a function so lofty, so worthy of the poetic and +philosophical hymns which have celebrated it, only deserved to have its +exclusive organ shared with that of the vilest corporal functions?" + +It may, however, be pointed out that this view of the matter, however +unconsciously, is itself the outcome of the ascetic depreciation of the +body. From a scientific point of view, the metabolic processes of the +body from one end to the other, whether regarded chemically or +psychologically, are all interwoven and all of equal dignity. We cannot +separate out any particular chemical or biological process and declare: +This is vile. Even what we call excrement still stores up the stuff of our +lives. Eating has to some persons seemed a disgusting process. But yet it +has been possible to say, with Thoreau, that "the gods have really +intended that men should feed divinely, as themselves, on their own nectar +and ambrosia.... I have felt that eating became a sacrament, a method of +communion, an ecstatic exercise, and a sitting at the communion table of +the world." + +The sacraments of Nature are in this way everywhere woven into the texture +of men's and women's bodies. Lips good to kiss with are indeed first of +all chiefly good to eat and drink with. So accumulated and overlapped have +the centres of force become in the long course of development, that the +mucous membranes of the natural orifices, through the sensitiveness gained +in their own offices, all become agents to thrill the soul in the contact +of love; it is idle to discriminate high or low, pure or impure; all alike +are sanctified already by the extreme unction of Nature. The nose receives +the breath of life; the vagina receives the water of life. Ultimately the +worth and loveliness of life must be measured by the worth and loveliness +for us of the instruments of life. The swelling breasts are such divinely +gracious insignia of womanhood because of the potential child that hangs +at them and sucks; the large curves of the hips are so voluptuous because +of the potential child they clasp within them; there can be no division +here, we cannot cut the roots from the tree. The supreme function of +manhood--the handing on of the lamp of life to future races--is carried +on, it is true, by the same instrument that is the daily conduit of the +bladder. It has been said in scorn that we are born between urine and +excrement; it may be said, in reverence, that the passage through this +channel of birth is a sacrament of Nature's more sacred and significant +than men could ever invent. + +These relationships have been sometimes perceived and their meaning +realized by a sort of mystical intuition. We catch glimpses of such an +insight now and again, first among the poets and later among the +physicians of the Renaissance. In 1664 Rolfincius, in his _Ordo et Methods +Generationi Partium etc._, at the outset of the second Part devoted to the +sexual organs of women, sets forth what ancient writers have said of the +Eleusinian and other mysteries and the devotion and purity demanded of +those who approached these sacred rites. It is so also with us, he +continues, in the rites of scientific investigation. "We also operate with +sacred things. The organs of sex are to be held among sacred things. They +who approach these altars must come with devout minds. Let the profane +stand without, and the doors be closed." In those days, even for science, +faith and intuition were alone possible. It is only of recent years that +the histologist's microscope and the physiological chemist's test-tube +have furnished them with a rational basis. It is no longer possible to cut +Nature in two and assert that here she is pure and there impure.[50] + + There thus appears to be no adequate ground for agreeing with + those who consider that the proximity of the generative and + excretory centres is "a stupid bungle of Nature's." An + association which is so ancient and primitive in Nature can only + seem repulsive to those whose feelings have become morbidly + unnatural. It may further be remarked that the anus, which is the + more æsthetically unattractive of the excretory centres, is + comparatively remote from the sexual centre, and that, as R. + Hellmann remarked many years ago in discussing this question + (_Ueber Geschlechtsfreiheit_, p. 82): "In the first place, + freshly voided urine has nothing specially unpleasant about it, + and in the second place, even if it had, we might reflect that a + rosy mouth by no means loses its charm merely because it fails to + invite a kiss at the moment when its possessor is vomiting." + + A clergyman writes suggesting that we may go further and find a + positive advantage in this proximity: "I am glad that you do not + agree with the man who considered that Nature had bungled by + using the genitals for urinary purposes; apart from teleological + or theological grounds I could not follow that line of reasoning. + I think there is no need for disgust concerning the urinary + organs, though I feel that the anus can never be attractive to + the normal mind; but the anus is quite separate from the + genitals. I would suggest that the proximity serves a good end in + making the organs more or less secret except at times of sexual + emotion or to those in love. The result is some degree of + repulsion at ordinary times and a strong attraction at times of + sexual activity. Hence, the ordinary guarding of the parts, from + fear of creating disgust, greatly increases their attractiveness + at other times when sexual emotion is paramount. Further, the + feeling of disgust itself is merely the result of habit and + sentiment, however useful it may be, and according to Scripture + everything is clean and good. The ascetic feeling of repulsion, + if we go back to origin, is due to other than Christian + influence. Christianity came out of Judaism which had no sense of + the impurity of marriage, for 'unclean' in the Old Testament + simply means 'sacred.' The ascetic side of the religion of + Christianity is no part of the religion of Christ as it came from + the hands of its Founder, and the modern feeling on this matter + is a lingering remnant of the heresy of the Manichæans." I may + add, however, that, as Northcote points out (_Christianity and + Sex Problems_, p. 14), side by side in the Old Testament with the + frank recognition of sexuality, there is a circle of ideas + revealing the feeling of impurity in sex and of shame in + connection with it. Christianity inherited this mixed feeling. It + has really been a widespread and almost universal feeling among + the ancient and primitive peoples that there is something impure + and sinful in the things of sex, so that those who would lead a + religious life must avoid sexual relationships; even in India + celibacy has commanded respect (see, e.g., Westermarck, + _Marriage_, pp. 150 et seq.). As to the original foundation of + this notion--which it is unnecessary to discuss more fully + here--many theories have been put forward; St. Augustine, in his + _De Civitate Dei_, sets forth the ingenious idea that the penis, + being liable to spontaneous movements and erections that are not + under the control of the will, is a shameful organ and involves + the whole sphere of sex in its shame. Westermarck argues that + among nearly all peoples there is a feeling against sexual + relationship with members of the same family or household, and as + sex was thus banished from the sphere of domestic life a notion + of its general impurity arose; Northcote points out that from the + first it has been necessary to seek concealment for sexual + intercourse, because at that moment the couple would be a prey to + hostile attacks, and that it was by an easy transition that sex + came to be regarded as a thing that ought to be concealed, and, + therefore, a sinful thing. (Diderot, in his _Supplément au Voyage + de Bougainville_, had already referred to this motive for + seclusion as "the only natural element in modesty.") Crawley has + devoted a large part of his suggestive work, _The Mystic Rose_, + to showing that, to savage man, sex is a perilous, dangerous, and + enfeebling element in life, and, therefore, sinful. + +It would, however, be a mistake to think that such men as St. Bernard and +St. Odo of Cluny, admirably as they represented the ascetic and even the +general Christian views of their own time, are to be regarded as +altogether typical exponents of the genuine and primitive Christian view. +So far as I have been able to discover, during the first thousand years of +Christianity we do not find this concentrated intellectual and emotional +ferocity of attack on the body; it only developed at the moment when, with +Pope Gregory VII, mediæval Christianity reached the climax of its conquest +over the souls of European men, in the establishment of the celibacy of +the secular clergy, and the growth of the great cloistered communities of +monks in severely regulated and secluded orders.[51] Before that the +teachers of asceticism were more concerned to exhort to chastity and +modesty than to direct a deliberate and systematic attack on the whole +body; they concentrated their attention rather on spiritual virtues than +on physical imperfections. And if we go back to the Gospels we find little +of the mediæval ascetic spirit in the reported sayings and doings of +Jesus, which may rather indeed be said to reveal, on the whole, +notwithstanding their underlying asceticism, a certain tenderness and +indulgence to the body, while even Paul, though not tender towards the +body, exhorts to reverence towards it as a temple of the Holy Spirit. + +We cannot expect to find the Fathers of the Church sympathetic towards the +spectacle of the naked human body, for their position was based on a +revolt against paganism, and paganism had cultivated the body. Nakedness +had been more especially associated with the public bath, the gymnasium, +and the theatre; in profoundly disapproving of these pagan institutions +Christianity discouraged nakedness. The fact that familiarity with +nakedness was favorable, rather than opposed, to the chastity to which it +attached so much importance, the Church--though indeed at one moment it +accepted nakedness in the rite of baptism--was for the most part unable to +see if it was indeed a fact which the special conditions of decadent +classic life had tended to disguise. But in their decided preference for +the dressed over the naked human body the early Christians frequently +hesitated to take the further step of asserting that the body is a focus +of impurity and that the physical organs of sex are a device of the devil. +On the contrary, indeed, some of the most distinguished of the Fathers, +especially those of the Eastern Church who had felt the vivifying breath +of Greek thought, occasionally expressed themselves on the subject of +Nature, sex, and the body in a spirit which would have won the approval of +Goethe or Whitman. + +Clement of Alexandria, with all the eccentricities of his over-subtle +intellect, was yet the most genuinely Greek of all the Fathers, and it is +not surprising that the dying ray of classic light reflected from his mind +shed some illumination over this question of sex. He protested, for +instance, against that prudery which, as the sun of the classic world set, +had begun to overshadow life. "We should not be ashamed to name," he +declared, "what God has not been ashamed to create."[52] It was a +memorable declaration because, while it accepted the old classic feeling +of no shame in the presence of nature, it put that feeling on a new and +religious basis harmonious to Christianity. Throughout, though not always +quite consistently, Clement defends the body and the functions of sex +against those who treated them with contempt. And as the cause of sex is +the cause of women he always strongly asserts the dignity of women, and +also proclaims the holiness of marriage, a state which he sometimes places +above that of virginity.[53] + +Unfortunately, it must be said, St. Augustine--another North African, but +of Roman Carthage and not of Greek Alexandria--thought that he had a +convincing answer to the kind of argument which Clement presented, and so +great was the force of his passionate and potent genius that he was able +in the end to make his answer prevail. For Augustine sin was hereditary, +and sin had its special seat and symbol in the sexual organs; the fact of +sin has modified the original divine act of creation, and we cannot treat +sex and its organs as though there had been no inherited sin. Our sexual +organs, he declares, have become shameful because, through sin, they are +now moved by lust. At the same time Augustine by no means takes up the +mediæval ascetic position of contemptuous hatred towards the body. Nothing +can be further from Odo of Cluny than Augustine's enthusiasm about the +body, even about the exquisite harmony of the parts beneath the skin. "I +believe it may be concluded," he even says, "that in the creation of the +human body beauty was more regarded than necessity. In truth, necessity is +a transitory thing, and the time is coming when we shall be able to enjoy +one another's beauty without any lust."[54] Even in the sphere of sex he +would be willing to admit purity and beauty, apart from the inherited +influence of Adam's sin. In Paradise, he says, had Paradise continued, the +act of generation would have been as simple and free from shame as the act +of the hand in scattering seed on to the earth. "Sexual conjugation would +have been under the control of the will without any sexual desire. The +semen would be injected into the vagina in as simple a manner as the +menstrual fluid is now ejected. There would not have been any words which +could be called obscene, but all that might be said of these members would +have been as pure as what is said of the other parts of the body."[55] +That, however, for Augustine, is what might have been in Paradise where, +as he believed, sexual desire had no existence. As things are, he held, we +are right to be ashamed, we do well to blush. And it was natural that, as +Clement of Alexandria mentions, many heretics should have gone further on +this road and believed that while God made man down to the navel, the rest +was made by another power; such heretics have their descendants among us +even to-day. + +Alike in the Eastern and Western Churches, however, both before and after +Augustine, though not so often after, great Fathers and teachers have +uttered opinions which recall those of Clement rather than of Augustine. +We cannot lay very much weight on the utterance of the extravagant and +often contradictory Tertullian, but it is worth noting that, while he +declared that woman is the gate of hell, he also said that we must +approach Nature with reverence and not with blushes. "Natura veneranda +est, non erubescenda." "No Christian author," it has indeed been said, +"has so energetically spoken against the heretical contempt of the body as +Tertullian. Soul and body, according to Tertullian, are in the closest +association. The soul is the life-principle of the body, but there is no +activity of the soul which is not manifested and conditioned by the +flesh."[56] More weight attaches to Rufinus Tyrannius, the friend and +fellow-student of St. Jerome, in the fourth century, who wrote a +commentary on the Apostles' Creed, which was greatly esteemed by the early +and mediæval Church, and is indeed still valued even to-day. Here, in +answer to those who declared that there was obscenity in the fact of +Christ's birth through the sexual organs of a woman, Rufinus replies that +God created the sexual organs, and that "it is not Nature but merely human +opinion which teaches that these parts are obscene. For the rest, all the +parts of the body are made from the same clay, whatever differences there +may be in their uses and functions."[57] He looks at the matter, we see, +piously indeed, but naturally and simply, like Clement, and not, like +Augustine, through the distorting medium of a theological system. +Athanasius, in the Eastern Church, spoke in the same sense as Rufinus in +the Western Church. A certain monk named Amun had been much grieved by the +occurrence of seminal emissions during sleep, and he wrote to Athanasius +to inquire if such emissions are a sin. In the letter he wrote in reply, +Athanasius seeks to reassure Amun. "All things," he tells him, "are pure +to the pure. For what, I ask, dear and pious friend, can there be sinful +or naturally impure in excrement? Man is the handwork of God. There is +certainly nothing in us that is impure."[58] We feel as we read these +utterances that the seeds of prudery and pruriency are already alive in +the popular mind, but yet we see also that some of the most distinguished +thinkers of the early Christian Church, in striking contrast to the more +morbid and narrow-minded mediæval ascetics, clearly stood aside from the +popular movement. On the whole, they were submerged because Christianity, +like Buddhism, had in it from the first a germ that lent itself to ascetic +renunciation, and the sexual life is always the first impulse to be +sacrificed to the passion for renunciation. But there were other germs +also in Christianity, and Luther, who in his own plebeian way asserted the +rights of the body, although he broke with mediæval asceticism, by no +means thereby cast himself off from the traditions of the early Christian +Church. + +I have thought it worth while to bring forward this evidence, although I +am perfectly well aware that the facts of Nature gain no additional +support from the authority of the Fathers or even of the Bible. Nature and +humanity existed before the Bible and would continue to exist although the +Bible should be forgotten. But the attitude of Christianity on this point +has so often been unreservedly condemned that it seems as well to point +out that at its finest moments, when it was a young and growing power in +the world, the utterances of Christianity were often at one with those of +Nature and reason. There are many, it may be added, who find it a matter +of consolation that in following the natural and rational path in this +matter they are not thereby altogether breaking with the religious +traditions of their race. + + It is scarcely necessary to remark that when we turn from + Christianity to the other great world-religions, we do not + usually meet with so ambiguous an attitude towards sex. The + Mahommedans were as emphatic in asserting the sanctity of sex as + they were in asserting physical cleanliness; they were prepared + to carry the functions of sex into the future life, and were + never worried, as Luther and so many other Christians have been, + concerning the lack of occupation in Heaven. In India, although + India is the home of the most extreme forms of religious + asceticism, sexual love has been sanctified and divinized to a + greater extent than in any other part of the world. "It seems + never to have entered into the heads of the Hindu legislators," + said Sir William Jones long since (_Works_, vol. ii, p. 311), + "that anything natural could be offensively obscene, a + singularity which pervades all their writings, but is no proof of + the depravity of their morals." The sexual act has often had a + religious significance in India, and the minutest details of the + sexual life and its variations are discussed in Indian erotic + treatises in a spirit of gravity, while nowhere else have the + anatomical and physiological sexual characters of women been + studied with such minute and adoring reverence. "Love in India, + both as regards theory and practice," remarks Richard Schmidt + (_Beiträge zur Indischen Erotik_, p. 2) "possesses an importance + which it is impossible for us even to conceive." + +In Protestant countries the influence of the Reformation, by +rehabilitating sex as natural, indirectly tended to substitute in popular +feeling towards sex the opprobrium of sinfulness by the opprobrium of +animality. Henceforth the sexual impulse must be disguised or adorned to +become respectably human. This may be illustrated by a passage in Pepys's +_Diary_ in the seventeenth century. On the morning after the wedding day +it was customary to call up new married couples by music; the absence of +this music on one occasion (in 1667) seemed to Pepys "as if they had +married like dog and bitch." We no longer insist on the music, but the +same feeling still exists in the craving for other disguises and +adornments for the sexual impulse. We do not always realize that love +brings its own sanctity with it. + +Nowadays indeed, whenever the repugnance to the sexual side of life +manifests itself, the assertion nearly always made is not so much that it +is "sinful" as that it is "beastly." It is regarded as that part of man +which most closely allies him to the lower animals. It should scarcely be +necessary to point out that this is a mistake. On whichever side, indeed, +we approach it, the implication that sex in man and animals is identical +cannot be borne out. From the point of view of those who accept this +identity it would be much more correct to say that men are inferior, +rather than on a level with animals, for in animals under natural +conditions the sexual instinct is strictly subordinated to reproduction +and very little susceptible to deviation, so that from the standpoint of +those who wish to minimize sex, animals are nearer to the ideal, and such +persons must say with Woods Hutchinson: "Take it altogether, our animal +ancestors have quite as good reason to be ashamed of us as we of them." +But if we look at the matter from a wider biological standpoint of +development, our conclusion must be very different. + +So far from being animal-like, the human impulses of sex are among the +least animal-like acquisitions of man. The human sphere of sex differs +from the animal sphere of sex to a singularly great extent.[59] Breathing +is an animal function and here we cannot compete with birds; locomotion is +an animal function and here we cannot equal quadrupeds; we have made no +notable advance in our circulatory, digestive, renal, or hepatic +functions. Even as regards vision and hearing, there are many animals that +are more keen-sighted than man, and many that are capable of hearing +sounds that to him are inaudible. But there are no animals in whom the +sexual instinct is so sensitive, so highly developed, so varied in its +manifestations, so constantly alert, so capable of irradiating the highest +and remotest parts of the organism. The sexual activities of man and woman +belong not to that lower part of our nature which degrades us to the level +of the "brute," but to the higher part which raises us towards all the +finest activities and ideals we are capable of. It is true that it is +chiefly in the mouths of a few ignorant and ill-bred women that we find +sex referred to as "bestial" or "the animal part of our nature."[60] But +since women are the mothers and teachers of the human race this is a piece +of ignorance and ill-breeding which cannot be too swiftly eradicated. + +There are some who seem to think that they have held the balance evenly, +and finally stated the matter, if they admit that sexual love may be +either beautiful or disgusting, and that either view is equally normal and +legitimate. "Listen in turn," Tarde remarks, "to two men who, one cold, +the other ardent, one chaste, the other in love, both equally educated and +large-minded, are estimating the same thing: one judges as disgusting, +odious, revolting, and bestial what the other judges to be delicious, +exquisite, ineffable, divine. What, for one, is in Christian phraseology, +an unforgivable sin, is, for the other, the state of true grace. Acts that +for one seem a sad and occasional necessity, stains that must be carefully +effaced by long intervals of continence, are for the other the golden +nails from which all the rest of conduct and existence is suspended, the +things that alone give human life its value."[61] Yet we may well doubt +whether both these persons are "equally well-educated and broad-minded." +The savage feels that sex is perilous, and he is right. But the person who +feels that the sexual impulse is bad, or even low and vulgar, is an +absurdity in the universe, an anomaly. He is like those persons in our +insane asylums, who feel that the instinct of nutrition is evil and so +proceed to starve themselves. They are alike spiritual outcasts in the +universe whose children they are. It is another matter when a man declares +that, personally, in his own case, he cherishes an ascetic ideal which +leads him to restrain, so far as possible, either or both impulses. The +man, who is sanely ascetic seeks a discipline which aids the ideal he has +personally set before himself. He may still remain theoretically in +harmony with the universe to which he belongs. But to pour contempt on +the sexual life, to throw the veil of "impurity" over it, is, as Nietzsche +declared, the unpardonable sin against the Holy Ghost of Life. + +There are many who seek to conciliate prejudice and reason in their +valuation of sex by drawing a sharp distinction between "lust" and "love," +rejecting the one and accepting the other. It is quite proper to make such +a distinction, but the manner in which it is made will by no means usually +bear examination. We have to define what we mean by "lust" and what we +mean by "love," and this is not easy if they are regarded as mutually +exclusive. It is sometimes said that "lust" must be understood as meaning +a reckless indulgence of the sexual impulse without regard to other +considerations. So understood, we are quite safe in rejecting it. But that +is an entirely arbitrary definition of the word. "Lust" is really a very +ambiguous term; it is a good word that has changed its moral values, and +therefore we need to define it very carefully before we venture to use it. +Properly speaking, "lust" is an entirely colorless word[62] and merely +means desire in general and sexual desire in particular; it corresponds to +"hunger" or "thirst"; to use it in an offensive sense is much the same as +though we should always assume that the word "hungry" had the offensive +meaning of "greedy." The result has been that sensitive minds indignantly +reject the term "lust" in connection with love.[63] In the early use of +our language, "lust," "lusty," and "lustful" conveyed the sense of +wholesome and normal sexual vigor; now, with the partial exception of +"lusty," they have been so completely degraded to a lower sense that +although it would be very convenient to restore them to their original +and proper place, which still remains vacant, the attempt at such a +restoration scarcely seems a hopeful task. We have so deeply poisoned the +springs of feeling in these matters with mediæval ascetic crudities that +all our words of sex tend soon to become bespattered with filth; we may +pick them up from the mud into which they have fallen and seek to purify +them, but to many eyes they will still seem dirty. One result of this +tendency is that we have no simple, precise, natural word for the love of +the sexes, and are compelled to fall back on the general term, which is so +extensive in its range that in English and French and most of the other +leading languages of Europe, it is equally correct to "love" God or to +"love" eating. + +Love, in the sexual sense, is, summarily considered, a synthesis of lust +(in the primitive and uncolored sense of sexual emotion) and friendship. +It is incorrect to apply the term "love" in the sexual sense to elementary +and uncomplicated sexual desire; it is equally incorrect to apply it to +any variety or combination of varieties of friendship. There can be no +sexual love without lust; but, on the other hand, until the currents of +lust in the organism have been so irradiated as to affect other parts of +the psychic organism--at the least the affections and the social +feelings--it is not yet sexual love. Lust, the specific sexual impulse, is +indeed the primary and essential element in this synthesis, for it alone +is adequate to the end of reproduction, not only in animals but in men. +But it is not until lust is expanded and irradiated that it develops into +the exquisite and enthralling flower of love. We may call to mind what +happens among plants: on the one hand we have the lower organisms in which +sex is carried on summarily and cryptogamically, never shedding any shower +of gorgeous blossoms on the world, and on the other hand the higher plants +among whom sex has become phanersgamous and expanded enormously into form +and color and fragrance. + + While "lust" is, of course, known all over the world, and there + are everywhere words to designate it, "love" is not universally + known, and in many languages there are no words for "love." The + failures to find love are often remarkable and unexpected. We may + find it where we least expect it. Sexual desire became idealized + (as Sergi has pointed out) even by some animals, especially + birds, for when a bird pines to death for the loss of its mate + this cannot be due to the uncomplicated instinct of sex, but must + involve the interweaving of that instinct with the other elements + of life to a degree which is rare even among the most civilized + men. Some savage races seem to have no fundamental notion of + love, and (like the American Nahuas) no primary word for it, + while, on the other hand, in Quichua, the language of the ancient + Peruvians, there are nearly six hundred combinations of the verb + _munay_, to love. Among some peoples love seems to be confined to + the women. Letourneau (_L'Evolution Littéraire_, p. 529) points + out that in various parts of the world women have taken a leading + part in creating erotic poetry. It may be mentioned in this + connection that suicide from erotic motives among primitive + peoples occurs chiefly among women (_Zeitschrift für + Sozialwissenschaft_, 1899, p. 578). Not a few savages possess + love-poems, as, for instance, the Suahali (Velten, in his _Prosa + und Poesie der Suahali_, devotes a section to love-poems + reproduced in the Suahali language). D.G. Brinton, in an + interesting paper on "The Conception of Love in Some American + Languages" (_Proceedings American Philosophical Society_, vol. + xxiii, p. 546, 1886) states that the words for love in these + languages reveal four main ways of expressing the conception: (1) + inarticulate cries of emotion; (2) assertions of sameness or + similarity; (3) assertions of conjunction or union; (4) + assertions of a wish, desire, a longing. Brinton adds that "these + same notions are those which underlie the majority of the words + of love in the great Aryan family of languages." The remarkable + fact emerges, however, that the peoples of Aryan tongue were slow + in developing their conception of sexual love. Brinton remarks + that the American Mayas must be placed above the peoples of early + Aryan culture, in that they possessed a radical word for the joy + of love which was in significance purely psychical, referring + strictly to a mental state, and neither to similarity nor desire. + Even the Greeks were late in developing any ideal of sexual love. + This has been well brought out by E.F.M. Benecke in his + _Antimachus of Colophon and the Position of Women in Greek + Poetry_, a book which contains some hazardous assertions, but is + highly instructive from the present point of view. The Greek + lyric poets wrote practically no love poems at all to women + before Anacreon, and his were only written in old age. True love + for the Greeks was nearly always homosexual. The Ionian lyric + poets of early Greece regarded woman as only an instrument of + pleasure and the founder of the family. Theognis compares + marriage to cattle-breeding; Alcman, when he wishes to be + complimentary to the Spartan girls, speaks of them as his "female + boy-friends." Æschylus makes even a father assume that his + daughters will misbehave if left to themselves. There is no + sexual love in Sophocles, and in Euripides it is only the women + who fall in love. Benecke concludes (p. 67) that in Greece sexual + love, down to a comparatively later period, was looked down on, + and held to be unworthy of public discussion and representation. + It was in Magna Græcia rather than in Greece itself that men took + interest in women, and it was not until the Alexandrian period, + and notably in Asclepiades, Benecke maintains, that the love of + women was regarded as a matter of life and death. Thereafter the + conception of sexual love, in its romantic aspects, appears in + European life. With the Celtic story of Tristram, as Gaston Paris + remarks, it finally appears in the Christian European world of + poetry as the chief point in human life, the great motive force + of conduct. + + Romantic love failed, however, to penetrate the masses in Europe. + In the sixteenth century, or whenever it was that the ballad of + "Glasgerion" was written, we see it is assumed that a churl's + relation to his mistress is confined to the mere act of sexual + intercourse; he fails to kiss her on arriving or departing; it is + only the knight, the man of upper class, who would think of + offering that tender civility. And at the present day in, for + instance, the region between East Friesland and the Alps, Bloch + states (_Sexualleben unserer Zeit_, p. 29), following E.H. Meyer, + that the word "love" is unknown among the masses, and only its + coarse counterpart recognized. + + On the other side of the world, in Japan, sexual love seems to be + in as great disrepute as it was in ancient Greece; thus Miss + Tsuda, a Japanese head-mistress, and herself a Christian, remarks + (as quoted by Mrs. Eraser in _World's Work and Play_, Dec., + 1906): "That word 'love' has been hitherto a word unknown among + our girls, in the foreign sense. Duty, submission, + kindness--these were the sentiments which a girl was expected to + bring to the husband who had been chosen for her--and many happy, + harmonious marriages were the result. Now, your dear sentimental + foreign women say to our girls: 'It is wicked to marry without + love; the obedience to parents in such a case is an outrage + against nature and Christianity. If you love a man you must + sacrifice everything to marry him.'" + + When, however, love is fully developed it becomes an enormously + extended, highly complex emotion, and lust, even in the best + sense of that word, becomes merely a coördinated element among + many other elements. Herbert Spencer, in an interesting passage + of his _Principles of Psychology_ (Part IV, Ch. VIII), has + analyzed love into as many as nine distinct and important + elements: (1) the physical impulse of sex; (2) the feeling for + beauty; (3) affection; (4) admiration and respect; (5) love of + approbation; (6) self-esteem; (7) proprietary feeling; (8) + extended liberty of action from the absence of personal barriers; + (9) exaltation of the sympathies. "This passion," he concludes, + "fuses into one immense aggregate most of the elementary + excitations of which we are capable." + +It is scarcely necessary to say that to define sexual love, or even to +analyze its components, is by no means to explain its mystery. We seek to +satisfy our intelligence by means of a coherent picture of love, but the +gulf between that picture and the emotional reality must always be +incommensurable and impassable. "There is no word more often pronounced +than that of love," wrote Bonstetten many years ago, "yet there is no +subject more mysterious. Of that which touches us most nearly we know +least. We measure the march of the stars and we do not know how we love." +And however expert we have become in detecting and analyzing the causes, +the concomitants, and the results of love, we must still make the same +confession to-day. We may, as some have done, attempt to explain love as a +form of hunger and thirst, or as a force analogous to electricity, or as a +kind of magnetism, or as a variety of chemical affinity, or as a vital +tropism, but these explanations are nothing more than ways of expressing +to ourselves the magnitude of the phenomenon we are in the presence of. + +What has always baffled men in the contemplation of sexual love is the +seeming inadequacy of its cause, the immense discrepancy between the +necessarily circumscribed region of mucous membrane which is the final +goal of such love and the sea of world-embracing emotions to which it +seems as the door, so that, as Remy de Gourmont has said, "the mucous +membranes, by an ineffable mystery, enclose in their obscure folds all the +riches of the infinite." It is a mystery before which the thinker and the +artist are alike overcome. Donnay, in his play _L'Escalade_, makes a cold +and stern man of science, who regards love as a mere mental disorder which +can be cured like other disorders, at last fall desperately in love +himself. He forces his way into the girl's room, by a ladder, at dead of +night, and breaks into a long and passionate speech: "Everything that +touches you becomes to me mysterious and sacred. Ah! to think that a thing +so well known as a woman's body, which sculptors have modelled, which +poets have sung of, which men of science like myself have dissected, that +such a thing should suddenly become an unknown mystery and an infinite joy +merely because it is the body of one particular woman--what insanity! And +yet that is what I feel."[64] + +That love is a natural insanity, a temporary delusion which the individual +is compelled to suffer for the sake of the race, is indeed an explanation +that has suggested itself to many who have been baffled by this mystery. +That, as we know, was the explanation offered by Schopenhauer. When a +youth and a girl fall into each other's arms in the ecstacy of love they +imagine that they are seeking their own happiness. But it is not so, said +Schopenhauer; they are deluded by the genius of the race into the belief +that they are seeking a personal end in order that they may be induced to +effect a far greater impersonal end: the creation of the future race. The +intensity of their passion is not the measure of the personal happiness +they will secure but the measure of their aptitude for producing +offspring. In accepting passion and renouncing the counsels of cautious +prudence the youth and the girl are really sacrificing their chances of +selfish happiness and fulfilling the larger ends of Nature. As +Schopenhauer saw the matter, there was here no vulgar illusion. The lovers +thought that they were reaching towards a boundlessly immense personal +happiness; they were probably deceived. But they were deceived not because +the reality was less than their imagination, but because it was more; +instead of pursuing, as they thought, a merely personal end they were +carrying on the creative work of the world, a task better left undone, as +Schopenhauer viewed it, but a task whose magnitude he fully +recognized.[65] + +It must be remembered that in the lower sense of deception, love may be, +and frequently is, a delusion. A man may deceive himself, or be deceived +by the object of his attraction, concerning the qualities that she +possesses or fails to possess. In first love, occurring in youth, such +deception is perhaps entirely normal, and in certain suggestible and +inflammable types of people it is peculiarly apt to occur. This kind of +deception, although far more frequent and conspicuous in matters of +love--and more serious because of the tightness of the marriage bond--is +liable to occur in any relation of life. For most people, however, and +those not the least sane or the least wise, the memory of the exaltation +of love, even when the period of that exaltation is over, still remains +as, at the least, the memory of one of the most real and essential facts +of life.[66] + + Some writers seem to confuse the liability in matters of love to + deception or disappointment with the larger question of a + metaphysical illusion in Schopenhauer's sense. To some extent + this confusion perhaps exists in the discussion of love by + Renouvier and Prat in _La Nouvelle Monadologie_ (pp. 216 _et + seq._). In considering whether love is or is not a delusion, they + answer that it is or is not according as we are, or are not, + dominated by selfishness and injustice. "It was not an essential + error which presided over the creation of the _idol_, for the + idol is only what in all things the _ideal_ is. But to realize + the ideal in love two persons are needed, and therein is the + great difficulty. We are never justified," they conclude, "in + casting contempt on our love, or even on its object, for if it is + true that we have not gained possession of the sovereign beauty + of the world it is equally true that we have not attained a + degree of perfection that would have entitled us justly to claim + so great a prize." And perhaps most of us, it may be added, must + admit in the end, if we are honest with ourselves, that the + prizes of love we have gained in the world, whatever their flaws, + are far greater than we deserved. + +We may well agree that in a certain sense not love alone but all the +passions and desires of men are illusions. In that sense the Gospel of +Buddha is justified, and we may recognize the inspiration of Shakespeare +(in the _Tempest_) and of Calderon (in _La Vida es Sueño_), who felt that +ultimately the whole world is an insubstantial dream. But short of that +large and ultimate vision we cannot accept illusion; we cannot admit that +love is a delusion in some special and peculiar sense that men's other +cravings and aspirations escape. On the contrary, it is the most solid of +realities. All the progressive forms of life are built up on the +attraction of sex. If we admit the action of sexual selection--as we can +scarcely fail to do if we purge it from its unessential +accretions[67]--love has moulded the precise shape and color, the +essential beauty, alike of animal and human life. + +If we further reflect that, as many investigators believe, not only the +physical structure of life but also its spiritual structure--our social +feelings, our morality, our religion, our poetry and art--are, in some +degree at least, also built up on the impulse of sex, and would have been, +if not non-existent, certainly altogether different had other than sexual +methods of propagation prevailed in the world, we may easily realize that +we can only fall into confusion by dismissing love as a delusion. The +whole edifice of life topples down, for as the idealist Schiller long +since said, it is entirely built up on hunger and on love. To look upon +love as in any special sense a delusion is merely to fall into the trap of +a shallow cynicism. Love is only a delusion in so far as the whole of life +is a delusion, and if we accept the fact of life it is unphilosophical to +refuse to accept the fact of love. + + It is unnecessary here to magnify the functions of love in the + world; it is sufficient to investigate its workings in its own + proper sphere. It may, however, be worth while to quote a few + expressions of thinkers, belonging to various schools, who have + pointed out what seemed to them the far-ranging significance of + the sexual emotions for the moral life. "The passions are the + heavenly fire which gives life to the moral world," wrote + Helvétius long since in _De l'Esprit_. "The activity of the mind + depends on the activity of the passions, and it is at the period + of the passions, from the age of twenty-five to thirty-five or + forty that men are capable of the greatest efforts of virtue or + of genius." "What touches sex," wrote Zola, "touches the centre + of social life." Even our regard for the praise and blame of + others has a sexual origin, Professor Thomas argues + (_Psychological Review_, Jan., 1904, pp. 61-67), and it is love + which is the source of susceptibility generally and of the + altruistic side of life. "The appearance of sex," Professor Woods + Hutchinson attempts to show ("Love as a Factor in Evolution," + _Monist_, 1898), "the development of maleness and femaleness, was + not only the birthplace of affection, the well-spring of all + morality, but an enormous economic advantage to the race and an + absolute necessity of progress. In it first we find any conscious + longing for or active impulse toward a fellow creature." "Were + man robbed of the instinct of procreation, and of all that + spiritually springs therefrom," exclaimed Maudsley in his + _Physiology of Mind_, "that moment would all poetry, and perhaps + also his whole moral sense, be obliterated from his life." "One + seems to oneself transfigured, stronger, richer, more complete; + one _is_ more complete," says Nietzsche (_Der Wille zur Macht_, + p. 389), "we find here art as an organic function: we find it + inlaid in the most angelic instinct of 'love:' we find it as the + greatest stimulant of life.... It is not merely that it changes + the feeling of values: the lover _is_ worth more, is stronger. In + animals this condition produces new weapons, pigments, colors, + and forms, above all new movements, new rhythms, a new seductive + music. It is not otherwise in man.... Even in art the door is + opened to him. If we subtract from lyrical work in words and + sounds the suggestions of that intestinal fever, what is left + over in poetry and music? _L'Art pour l'art_ perhaps, the + quacking virtuosity of cold frogs who perish in their marsh. All + the rest is created by love." + + It would be easy to multiply citations tending to show how many + diverse thinkers have come to the conclusion that sexual love + (including therewith parental and especially maternal love) is + the source of the chief manifestations of life. How far they are + justified in that conclusion, it is not our business now to + inquire. + +It is undoubtedly true that, as we have seen when discussing the erratic +and imperfect distribution of the conception of love, and even of words +for love, over the world, by no means all people are equally apt for +experiencing, even at any time in their lives, the emotions of sexual +exaltation. The difference between the knight and the churl still +subsists, and both may sometimes be found in all social strata. Even the +refinements of sexual enjoyment, it is unnecessary to insist, quite +commonly remain on a merely physical basis, and have little effect on the +intellectual and emotional nature.[68] But this is not the case with the +people who have most powerfully influenced the course of the world's +thought and feeling. The personal reality of love, its importance for the +individual life, are facts that have been testified to by some of the +greatest thinkers, after lives devoted to the attainment of intellectual +labor. The experience of Renan, who toward the end of his life set down in +his remarkable drama _L'Abbesse de Jouarre_, his conviction that, even +from the point of view of chastity, love is, after all, the supreme thing +in the world, is far from standing alone. "Love has always appeared as an +inferior mode of human music, ambition as the superior mode," wrote Tarde, +the distinguished sociologist, at the end of his life. "But will it always +be thus? Are there not reasons for thinking that the future perhaps +reserves for us the ineffable surprise of an inversion of that secular +order?" Laplace, half an hour before his death, took up a volume of his +own _Mécanique Celeste_, and said: "All that is only trifles, there is +nothing true but love." Comte, who had spent his life in building up a +Positive Philosophy which should be absolutely real, found (as indeed it +may be said the great English Positivist Mill also found) the culmination +of all his ideals in a woman, who was, he said, Egeria and Beatrice and +Laura in one, and he wrote: "There is nothing real in the world but love. +One grows tired of thinking, and even of acting; one never grows tired of +loving, nor of saying so. In the worst tortures of affection I have never +ceased to feel that the essential of happiness is that the heart should be +worthily filled--even with pain, yes, even with pain, the bitterest pain." +And Sophie Kowalewsky, after intellectual achievements which have placed +her among the most distinguished of her sex, pathetically wrote: "Why can +no one love me? I could give more than most women, and yet the most +insignificant women are loved and I am not." Love, they all seem to say, +is the one thing that is supremely worth while. The greatest and most +brilliant of the world's intellectual giants, in their moments of final +insight, thus reach the habitual level of the humble and almost anonymous +persons, cloistered from the world, who wrote _The Imitation of Christ_ or +_The Letters of a Portuguese Nun_. And how many others! + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[45] _Meditationes Piissimæ de Cognitione Humanæ Conditionis_, Migne's +_Patrologia_, vol. clxxiv, p. 489, cap. III, "De Dignitate Animæ et +Vilitate Corporis." It may be worth while to quote more at length the +vigorous language of the original. "Si diligenter consideres quid per os +et nares cæterosque corporis meatus egrediatur, vilius sterquilinum +numquam vidisti.... Attende, homo, quid fuisti ante ortum, et quid es ab +ortu usque ad occasum, atque quid eris post hanc vitam. Profecto fuit +quand non eras: postea de vili materia factus, et vilissimo panno +involutus, menstruali sanguine in utero materno fuisti nutritus, et tunica +tua fuit pellis secundina. Nihil aliud est homo quam sperma fetidum, +saccus stercorum, cibus vermium.... Quid superbis, pulvis et cinis, cujus +conceptus cula, nasci miseria, vivere poena, mori angustia?" + +[46] See (in Mignes' edition) _S. Odonis abbatis Cluniacensis +Collationes_, lib. ii, cap. IX. + +[47] Dühren (_Neue Forshungen über die Marquis de Sade_, pp. 432 et seq.) +shows how the ascetic view of woman's body persisted, for instance, in +Schopenhauer and De Sade. + +[48] In "The Evolution of Modesty," in the first volume of these +_Studies_, and again in the fifth volume in discussing urolagnia in the +study of "Erotic Symbolism," the mutual reactions of the sexual and +excretory centres were fully dealt with. + +[49] "La Morale Sexuelle," _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Jan., +1907. + +[50] The above passage, now slightly modified, originally formed an +unpublished part of an essay on Walt Whitman in _The New Spirit_, first +issued in 1889. + +[51] Even in the ninth century, however, when the monastic movement was +rapidly developing, there were some who withstood the tendencies of the +new ascetics. Thus, in 850, Ratramnus, the monk of Corbie, wrote a +treatise (_Liber de eo quod Christus ex Virgine natus est_) to prove that +Mary really gave birth to Jesus through her sexual organs, and not, as +some high-strung persons were beginning to think could alone be possible, +through the more conventionally decent breasts. The sexual organs were +sanctified. "Spiritus sanctus ... et thalamum tanto dignum sponso +sanctificavit et portam" (Achery, _Spicilegium_, vol. i, p. 55). + +[52] _Pædagogus_, lib. ii, cap. X. Elsewhere (id., lib. ii, Ch. VI) he +makes a more detailed statement to the same effect. + +[53] See, e.g., Wilhelm Capitaine, _Die Moral des Clemens von +Alexandrien_, pp. 112 et seq. + +[54] _De Civitate Dei_, lib. xxii, cap. XXIV. "There is no need," he says +again (id., lib. xiv, cap. V) "that in our sins and vices we accuse the +nature of the flesh to the injury of the Creator, for in its own kind and +degree the flesh is good." + +[55] St. Augustine, _De Civitate Dei_, lib. xiv, cap. XXIII-XXVI. +Chrysostom and Gregory, of Nyssa, thought that in Paradise human beings +would have multiplied by special creation, but such is not the accepted +Catholic doctrine. + +[56] W. Capitaine, _Die Moral des Clemens von Alexandrien_, pp. 112 et +seq. Without the body, Tertullian declared, there could be no virginity +and no salvation. The soul itself is corporeal. He carries, indeed, his +idea of the omnipresence of the body to the absurd. + +[57] Rufinus, _Commentarius in Symbolum Apostolorum_, cap. XII. + +[58] Migne, _Patrologia Græca_, vol. xxvi, pp. 1170 et seq. + +[59] Even in physical conformation the human sexual organs, when compared +with those of the lower animals, show marked differences (see "The +Mechanism of Detumescence," in the fifth volume of these _Studies_). + +[60] It may perhaps be as well to point out, with Forel (_Die Sexuelle +Frage_, p. 208), that the word "bestial" is generally used quite +incorrectly in this connection. Indeed, not only for the higher, but also +for the lower manifestation of the sexual impulse, it would usually be +more correct to use instead the qualification "human." + +[61] _Loc. cit._, _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Jan., 1907. + +[62] It has, however, become colored and suspect from an early period in +the history of Christianity. St. Augustine (_De Civitate Dei_, lib. xiv, +cap. XV), while admitting that libido or lust is merely the generic name +for all desire, adds that, as specially applied to the sexual appetite, it +is justly and properly mixed up with ideas of shame. + +[63] Hinton well illustrates this feeling. "We call by the name of lust," +he declares in his MSS., "the most simple and natural desires. We might as +well term hunger and thirst 'lust' as so call sex-passion, when expressing +simply Nature's prompting. We miscall it 'lust,' cruelly libelling those +to whom we ascribe it, and introduce absolute disorder. For, by foolishly +confounding Nature's demands with lust, we insist upon restraint upon +her." + +[64] Several centuries earlier another French writer, the distinguished +physician, A. Laurentius (Des Laurens) in his _Historia Anatomica Humani +Corporis_ (lib. viii, Quæstio vii) had likewise puzzled over "the +incredible desire of coitus," and asked how it was that "that divine +animal, full of reason and judgment, which we call Man, should be +attracted to those obscene parts of women, soiled with filth, which are +placed, like a sewer, in the lowest part of the body." It is noteworthy +that, from the first, and equally among men of religion, men of science, +and men of letters, the mystery of this problem has peculiarly appealed to +the French mind. + +[65] Schopenhauer, _Die Welt als Wille und Vorstellung_, vol. ii, pp. 608 +et seq. + +[66] "Perhaps there is scarcely a man," wrote Malthus, a clergyman as well +as one of the profoundest thinkers of his day (_Essay on the Principle of +Population_, 1798, Ch. XI), "who has once experienced the genuine delight +of virtuous love, however great his intellectual pleasures may have been, +that does not look back to the period as the sunny spot in his whole life, +where his imagination loves to bask, which he recollects and contemplates +with the fondest regrets, and which he would most wish to live over again. +The superiority of intellectual to sexual pleasures consists rather in +their filling up more time, in their having a larger range, and in their +being less liable to satiate, than in their being more real and +essential." + +[67] The whole argument of the fourth volume of these _Studies_, on +"Sexual Selection in Man," points in this direction. + +[68] "Perhaps most average men," Forel remarks (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, p. +307), "are but slightly receptive to the intoxication of love; they are at +most on the level of the _gourmet_, which is by no means necessarily an +immoral plane, but is certainly not that of poetry." + + + + +CHAPTER V. + +THE FUNCTION OF CHASTITY. + +Chastity Essential to the Dignity of Love--The Eighteenth Century Revolt +Against the Ideal of Chastity--Unnatural Forms of Chastity--The +Psychological Basis of Asceticism--Asceticism and Chastity as Savage +Virtues--The Significance of Tahiti--Chastity Among Barbarous +Peoples--Chastity Among the Early Christians--Struggles of the Saints with +the Flesh--The Romance of Christian Chastity--Its Decay in Mediæval +Times--_Aucassin et Nicolette_ and the new Romance of Chaste Love--The +Unchastity of the Northern Barbarians--The Penitentials--Influence of the +Renaissance and the Reformation--The Revolt Against Virginity as a +Virtue--The Modern Conception of Chastity as a Virtue--The Influences That +Favor the Virtue of Chastity--Chastity as a Discipline--The Value of +Chastity for the Artist--Potency and Impotence in Popular Estimation--The +Correct Definitions of Asceticism and Chastity. + + +The supreme importance of chastity, and even of asceticism, has never at +any time, or in any greatly vital human society, altogether failed of +recognition. Sometimes chastity has been exalted in human estimation, +sometimes it has been debased; it has frequently changed the nature of its +manifestations; but it has always been there. It is even a part of the +beautiful vision of all Nature. "The glory of the world is seen only by a +chaste mind," said Thoreau with his fine extravagance. "To whomsoever this +fact is not an awful but beautiful mystery there are no flowers in +Nature." Without chastity it is impossible to maintain the dignity of +sexual love. The society in which its estimation sinks to a minimum is in +the last stages of degeneration. Chastity has for sexual love an +importance which it can never lose, least of all to-day. + +It is quite true that during the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries many +men of high moral and intellectual distinction pronounced very decidedly +their condemnation of the ideal of chastity. The great Buffon refused to +recognize chastity as an ideal and referred scornfully to "that kind of +insanity which has turned a girl's virginity into a thing with a real +existence," while William Morris, in his downright manner, once declared +at a meeting of the Fellowship of the New Life, that asceticism is "the +most disgusting vice that afflicted human nature." Blake, though he seems +always to have been a strictly moral man in the most conventional sense, +felt nothing but contempt for chastity, and sometimes confers a kind of +religious solemnity on the idea of unchastity. Shelley, who may have been +unwise in sexual matters but can scarcely be called unchaste, also often +seems to associate religion and morality, not with chastity, but with +unchastity, and much the same may be said of James Hinton.[69] + +But all these men--with other men of high character who have pronounced +similar opinions--were reacting against false, decayed, and conventional +forms of chastity. They were not rebelling against an ideal; they were +seeking to set up an ideal in a place where they realized that a +mischievous pretense was masquerading as a moral reality. + +We cannot accept an ideal of chastity unless we ruthlessly cast aside all +the unnatural and empty forms of chastity. If chastity is merely a +fatiguing effort to emulate in the sexual sphere the exploits of +professional fasting men, an effort using up all the energies of the +organism and resulting in no achievement greater than the abstinence it +involves, then it is surely an unworthy ideal. If it is a feeble +submission to an external conventional law which there is no courage to +break, then it is not an ideal at all. If it is a rule of morality imposed +by one sex on the opposite sex, then it is an injustice and provocative of +revolt. If it is an abstinence from the usual forms of sexuality, replaced +by more abnormal or more secret forms, then it is simply an unreality +based on misconception. And if it is merely an external acceptance of +conventions without any further acceptance, even in act, then it is a +contemptible farce. These are the forms of chastity which during the past +two centuries many fine-souled men have vigorously rejected. + +The fact that chastity, or asceticism, is a real virtue, with fine uses, +becomes evident when we realize that it has flourished at all times, in +connection with all kinds of religions and the most various moral codes. +We find it pronounced among savages, and the special virtues of +savagery--hardness, endurance, and bravery--are intimately connected with +the cultivation of chastity and asceticism.[70] It is true that savages +seldom have any ideal of chastity in the degraded modern sense, as a state +of permanent abstinence from sexual relationships having a merit of its +own apart from any use. They esteem chastity for its values, magical or +real, as a method of self-control which contributes towards the attainment +of important ends. The ability to bear pain and restraint is nearly always +a main element in the initiation of youths at puberty. The custom of +refraining from sexual intercourse before expeditions of war and hunting, +and other serious concerns involving great muscular and mental strain, +whatever the motives assigned, is a sagacious method of economizing +energy. The extremely widespread habit of avoiding intercourse during +pregnancy and suckling, again, is an admirable precaution in sexual +hygiene which it is extremely difficult to obtain the observance of in +civilization. Savages, also, are perfectly well aware how valuable sexual +continence is, in combination with fasting and solitude, to acquire the +aptitude for abnormal spiritual powers. + + Thus C. Hill Tout (_Journal Anthropological Institute_, + Jan.-June, 1905, pp. 143-145) gives an interesting account of the + self-discipline undergone by those among the Salish Indians of + British Columbia, who seek to acquire shamanistic powers. The + psychic effects of such training on these men, says Hill Tout, + is undoubted. "It enables them to undertake and accomplish feats + of abnormal strength, agility, and endurance; and gives them at + times, besides a general exaltation of the senses, undoubted + clairvoyant and other supernormal mental and bodily powers." At + the other end of the world, as shown by the _Reports of the + Anthropological Expedition to Torres Straits_ (vol. v, p. 321), + closely analogous methods of obtaining supernatural powers are + also customary. + + There are fundamental psychological reasons for the wide + prevalence of asceticism and for the remarkable manner in which + it involves self-mortification, even acute physical suffering. + Such pain is an actual psychic stimulant, more especially in + slightly neurotic persons. This is well illustrated by a young + woman, a patient of Janet's, who suffered from mental depression + and was accustomed to find relief by slightly burning her hands + and feet. She herself clearly understood the nature of her + actions. "I feel," she said, "that I make an effort when I hold + my hands on the stove, or when I pour boiling water on my feet; + it is a violent act and it awakens me: I feel that it is really + done by myself and not by another.... To make a mental effort by + itself is too difficult for me; I have to supplement it by + physical efforts. I have not succeeded in any other way; that is + all: when I brace myself up to burn myself I make my mind freer, + lighter and more active for several days. Why do you speak of my + desire for mortification? My parents believe that, but it is + absurd. It would be a mortification if it brought any suffering, + but I enjoy this suffering, it gives me back my mind; it prevents + my thoughts from stopping: what would one not do to attain such + happiness?" (P. Janet, "The Pathogenesis of Some Impulsions," + _Journal of Abnormal Psychology_, April, 1906.) If we understand + this psychological process we may realize how it is that even in + the higher religions, however else they may differ, the practical + value of asceticism and mortification as the necessary door to + the most exalted religious state is almost universally + recognized, and with complete cheerfulness. "Asceticism and + ecstacy are inseparable," as Probst-Biraben remarks at the outset + of an interesting paper on Mahommedan mysticism ("L'Extase dans + le Mysticisme Musulman," _Revue Philosophique_, Nov., 1906). + Asceticism is the necessary ante-chamber to spiritual perfection. + +It thus happens that savage peoples largely base their often admirable +enforcement of asceticism not on the practical grounds that would justify +it, but on religious grounds that with the growth of intelligence fall +into discredit.[71] Even, however, when the scrupulous observances of +savages, whether in sexual or in non-sexual matters, are without any +obviously sound basis it cannot be said that they are entirely useless if +they tend to encourage self-control and the sense of reverence.[72] The +would-be intelligent and practical peoples who cast aside primitive +observances because they seem baseless or even ridiculous, need a still +finer practical sense and still greater intelligence in order to realize +that, though the reasons for the observances have been wrong, yet the +observances themselves may have been necessary methods of attaining +personal and social efficiency. It constantly happens in the course of +civilization that we have to revive old observances and furnish them with +new reasons. + + In considering the moral quality of chastity among savages, we + must carefully separate that chastity which among semi-primitive + peoples is exclusively imposed upon women. This has no moral + quality whatever, for it is not exercised as a useful discipline, + but merely enforced in order to heighten the economic and erotic + value of the women. Many authorities believe that the regard for + women as property furnishes the true reason for the widespread + insistence on virginity in brides. Thus A.B. Ellis, speaking of + the West Coast of Africa (_Yoruba-Speaking Peoples_, pp. 183 _et + seq._), says that girls of good class are betrothed as mere + children, and are carefully guarded from men, while girls of + lower class are seldom betrothed, and may lead any life they + choose. "In this custom of infant or child betrothals we probably + find the key to that curious regard for ante-nuptial chastity + found not only among the tribes of the Gold and Slave Coasts, but + also among many other uncivilized peoples in different parts of + the world." In a very different part of the world, in Northern + Siberia, "the Yakuts," Sieroshevski states (_Journal + Anthropological Institute_, Jan.-June, 1901, p. 96), "see + nothing immoral in illicit love, providing only that nobody + suffers material loss by it. It is true that parents will scold a + daughter if her conduct threatens to deprive them of their gain + from the bride-price; but if once they have lost hope of marrying + her off, or if the bride-price has been spent, they manifest + complete indifference to her conduct. Maidens who no longer + expect marriage are not restrained at all, if they observe + decorum it is only out of respect to custom." Westermarck + (_History of Human Marriage_, pp. 123 et seq.) also shows the + connection between the high estimates of virginity and the + conception of woman as property, and returning to the question in + his later work, _The Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_ + (vol. ii, Ch. XLII), after pointing out that "marriage by + purchase has thus raised the standard of female chastity," he + refers (p. 437) to the significant fact that the seduction of an + unmarried girl "is chiefly, if not exclusively, regarded as an + offense against the parents or family of the girl," and there is + no indication that it is ever held by savages that any wrong has + been done to the woman herself. Westermarck recognizes at the + same time that the preference given to virgins has also a + biological basis in the instinctive masculine feeling of jealousy + in regard to women who have had intercourse with other men, and + especially in the erotic charm for men of the emotional state of + shyness which accompanies virginity. (This point has been dealt + with in the discussion of Modesty in vol. i of these _Studies_.) + + It is scarcely necessary to add that the insistence on the + virginity of brides is by no means confined, as A.B. Ellis seems + to imply, to uncivilized peoples, nor is it necessary that + wife-purchase should always accompany it. The preference still + persists, not only by virtue of its natural biological basis, but + as a refinement and extension of the idea of woman as property, + among those civilized peoples who, like ourselves, inherit a form + of marriage to some extent based on wife-purchase. Under such + conditions a woman's chastity has an important social function to + perform, being, as Mrs. Mona Caird has put it (_The Morality of + Marriage_, 1897, p. 88), the watch-dog of man's property. The + fact that no element of ideal morality enters into the question + is shown by the usual absence of any demand for ante-nuptial + chastity in the husband. + + It must not be supposed that when, as is most usually the case, + there is no complete and permanent prohibition of extra-nuptial + intercourse, mere unrestrained license prevails. That has + probably never happened anywhere among uncontaminated savages. + The rule probably is that, as among the tribes at Torres Straits + (_Reports Cambridge Anthropological Expedition_, vol. v, p. 275), + there is no complete continence before marriage, but neither is + there any unbridled license. + + The example of Tahiti is instructive as regards the prevalence of + chastity among peoples of what we generally consider low grades + of civilization. Tahiti, according to all who have visited it, + from the earliest explorers down to that distinguished American + surgeon, the late Dr. Nicholas Senn, is an island possessing + qualities of natural beauty and climatic excellence, which it is + impossible to rate too highly. "I seemed to be transported into + the garden of Eden," said Bougainville in 1768. But, mainly under + the influence of the early English missionaries who held ideas of + theoretical morality totally alien to those of the inhabitants of + the islands, the Tahitians have become the stock example of a + population given over to licentiousness and all its awful + results. Thus, in his valuable _Polynesian Researches_ (second + edition, 1832, vol. i, Ch. IX) William Ellis says that the + Tahitians practiced "the worst pollutions of which it was + possible for man to be guilty," though not specifying them. When, + however, we carefully examine the narratives of the early + visitors to Tahiti, before the population became contaminated by + contact with Europeans, it becomes clear that this view needs + serious modification. "The great plenty of good and nourishing + food," wrote an early explorer, J.R. Forster (_Observations Made + on a Voyage Round the World_, 1778, pp. 231, 409, 422), "together + with the fine climate, the beauty and unreserved behavior of + their females, invite them powerfully to the enjoyments and + pleasures of love. They begin very early to abandon themselves to + the most libidinous scenes. Their songs, their dances, and + dramatic performances, breathe a spirit of luxury." Yet he is + over and over again impelled to set down facts which bear + testimony to the virtues of these people. Though rather + effeminate in build, they are athletic, he says. Moreover, in + their wars they fight with great bravery and valor. They are, for + the rest, hospitable. He remarks that they treat their married + women with great respect, and that women generally are nearly the + equals of men, both in intelligence and in social position; he + gives a charming description of the women. "In short, their + character," Forster concludes, "is as amiable as that of any + nation that ever came unimproved out of the hands of Nature," and + he remarks that, as was felt by the South Sea peoples generally, + "whenever we came to this happy island we could evidently + perceive the opulence and happiness of its inhabitants." It is + noteworthy also, that, notwithstanding the high importance which + the Tahitians attached to the erotic side of life, they were not + deficient in regard for chastity. When Cook, who visited Tahiti + many times, was among "this benevolent humane" people, he noted + their esteem for chastity, and found that not only were betrothed + girls strictly guarded before marriage, but that men also who had + refrained from sexual intercourse for some time before marriage + were believed to pass at death immediately into the abode of the + blessed. "Their behavior, on all occasions, seems to indicate a + great openness and generosity of disposition. I never saw them, + in any misfortune, labor under the appearance of anxiety, after + the critical moment was past. Neither does care ever seem to + wrinkle their brow. On the contrary, even the approach of death + does not appear to alter their usual vivacity" (_Third Voyage of + Discovery_, 1776-1780). Turnbull visited Tahiti at a later period + (_A Voyage Round the World in 1800_, etc., pp. 374-5), but while + finding all sorts of vices among them, he is yet compelled to + admit their virtues: "Their manner of addressing strangers, from + the king to the meanest subject, is courteous and affable in the + extreme.... They certainly live amongst each other in more + harmony than is usual amongst Europeans. During the whole time I + was amongst them I never saw such a thing as a battle.... I never + remember to have seen an Otaheitean out of temper. They jest upon + each other with greater freedom than the Europeans, but these + jests are never taken in ill part.... With regard to food, it is, + I believe, an invariable law in Otaheite that whatever is + possessed by one is common to all." Thus we see that even among a + people who are commonly referred to as the supreme example of a + nation given up to uncontrolled licentiousness, the claims of + chastity were admitted, and many other virtues vigorously + flourished. The Tahitians were brave, hospitable, + self-controlled, courteous, considerate to the needs of others, + chivalrous to women, even appreciative of the advantages of + sexual restraint, to an extent which has rarely, if ever, been + known among those Christian nations which have looked down upon + them as abandoned to unspeakable vices. + +As we turn from savages towards peoples in the barbarous and civilized +stages we find a general tendency for chastity, in so far as it is a +common possession of the common people, to be less regarded, or to be +retained only as a traditional convention no longer strictly observed. The +old grounds for chastity in primitive religions and _tabu_ have decayed +and no new grounds have been generally established. "Although the progress +of civilization," wrote Gibbon long ago, "has undoubtedly contributed to +assuage the fiercer passions of human nature, it seems to have been less +favorable to the virtue of chastity," and Westermarck concludes that +"irregular connections between the sexes have, on the whole, exhibited a +tendency to increase along with the progress of civilization." + +The main difference in the social function of chastity as we pass from +savagery to higher stages of culture seems to be that it ceases to exist +as a general hygienic measure or a general ceremonial observance, and, for +the most part, becomes confined to special philosophic or religious sects +which cultivate it to an extreme degree in a more or less professional +way. This state of things is well illustrated by the Roman Empire during +the early centuries of the Christian era.[73] Christianity itself was at +first one of these sects enamored of the ideal of chastity; but by its +superior vitality it replaced all the others and finally imposed its +ideals, though by no means its primitive practices, on European society +generally. + +Chastity manifested itself in primitive Christianity in two different +though not necessarily opposed ways. On the one hand it took a stern and +practical form in vigorous men and women who, after being brought up in a +society permitting a high degree of sexual indulgence, suddenly found +themselves convinced of the sin of such indulgence. The battle with the +society they had been born into, and with their own old impulses and +habits, became so severe that they often found themselves compelled to +retire from the world altogether. Thus it was that the parched solitudes +of Egypt were peopled with hermits largely occupied with the problem of +subduing their own flesh. Their pre-occupation, and indeed the +pre-occupation of much early Christian literature, with sexual matters, +may be said to be vastly greater than was the case with the pagan society +they had left. Paganism accepted sexual indulgence and was then able to +dismiss it, so that in classic literature we find very little insistence +on sexual details except in writers like Martial, Juvenal and Petronius +who introduce them mainly for satirical ends. But the Christians could not +thus escape from the obsession of sex; it was ever with them. We catch +interesting glimpses of their struggles, for the most part barren +struggles, in the Epistles of St. Jerome, who had himself been an athlete +in these ascetic contests. + + "Oh, how many times," wrote St. Jerome to Eustochium, the virgin + to whom he addressed one of the longest and most interesting of + his letters, "when in the desert, in that vast solitude which, + burnt up by the heart of the sun, offers but a horrible dwelling + to monks, I imagined myself among the delights of Rome! I was + alone, for my soul was full of bitterness. My limbs were covered + by a wretched sack and my skin was as black as an Ethiopian's. + Every day I wept and groaned, and if I was unwillingly overcome + by sleep my lean body lay on the bare earth. I say nothing of my + food and drink, for in the desert even invalids have no drink but + cold water, and cooked food is regarded as a luxury. Well, I, + who, out of fear of hell, had condemned myself to this prison, + companion of scorpions and wild beasts, often seemed in + imagination among bands of girls. My face was pale with fasting + and my mind within my frigid body was burning with desire; the + fires of lust would still flare up in a body that already seemed + to be dead. Then, deprived of all help, I threw myself at the + feet of Jesus, washing them with my tears and drying them with my + hair, subjugating my rebellious flesh by long fasts. I remember + that more than once I passed the night uttering cries and + striking my breast until God sent me peace." "Our century," wrote + St. Chrysostom in his _Discourse to Those Who Keep Virgins in + Their Houses_, "has seen many men who have bound their bodies + with chains, clothed themselves in sacks, retired to the summits + of mountains where they have lived in constant vigil and fasting, + giving the example of the most austere discipline and forbidding + all women to cross the thresholds of their humble dwellings; and + yet, in spite of all the severities they have exercised on + themselves, it was with difficulty they could repress the fury of + their passions." Hilarion, says Jerome, saw visions of naked + women when he lay down on his solitary couch and delicious meats + when he sat down to his frugal table. Such experiences rendered + the early saints very scrupulous. "They used to say," we are told + in an interesting history of the Egyptian anchorites, Palladius's + _Paradise of the Holy Fathers_, belonging to the fourth century + (A.W. Budge, _The Paradise_, vol. ii, p. 129), "that Abbâ Isaac + went out and found the footprint of a woman on the road, and he + thought about it in his mind and destroyed it saying, 'If a + brother seeth it he may fall.'" Similarly, according to the rules + of St. Cæsarius of Aries for nuns, no male clothing was to be + taken into the convent for the purpose of washing or mending. + Even in old age, a certain anxiety about chastity still remained. + One of the brothers, we are told in _The Paradise_ (p. 132) said + to Abbâ Zeno, "Behold thou hast grown old, how is the matter of + fornication?" The venerable saint replied, "It knocketh, but it + passeth on." + + As the centuries went by the same strenuous anxiety to guard + chastity still remained, and the old struggle constantly + reappeared (see, e.g., Migne's _Dictionnaire d'Ascétisme_, art. + "Démon, Tentation du"). Some saints, it is true, like Luigi di + Gonzaga, were so angelically natured that they never felt the + sting of sexual desire. These seem to have been the exception. + St. Benedict and St. Francis experienced the difficulty of + subduing the flesh. St. Magdalena de Pozzi, in order to dispel + sexual desires, would roll on thorny bushes till the blood came. + Some saints kept a special cask of cold water in their cells to + stand in (Lea, _Sacerdotal Celibacy_, vol. i, p. 124). On the + other hand, the Blessed Angela de Fulginio tells us in her + _Visiones_ (cap. XIX) that, until forbidden by her confessor, she + would place hot coals in her secret parts, hoping by material + fire to extinguish the fire of concupiscence. St. Aldhelm, the + holy Bishop of Sherborne, in the eighth century, also adopted a + homeopathic method of treatment, though of a more literal kind, + for William of Malmsbury states that when tempted by the flesh he + would have women to sit and lie by him until he grew calm again; + the method proved very successful, for the reason, it was + thought, that the Devil felt he had been made a fool of. + + In time the Catholic practice and theory of asceticism became + more formalized and elaborated, and its beneficial effects were + held to extend beyond the individual himself. "Asceticism from + the Christian point of view," writes Brénier de Montmorand in an + interesting study ("Ascétisme et Mysticisme," _Revue + Philosophique_, March, 1904) "is nothing else than all the + therapeutic measures making for moral purification. The Christian + ascetic is an athlete struggling to transform his corrupt nature + and make a road to God through the obstacles due to his passions + and the world. He is not working in his own interests alone, + but--by virtue of the reversibility of merit which compensates + that of solidarity in error--for the good and for the salvation + of the whole of society." + +This is the aspect of early Christian asceticism most often emphasized. +But there is another aspect which may be less familiar, but has been by no +means less important. Primitive Christian chastity was on one side a +strenuous discipline. On another side it was a romance, and this indeed +was its most specifically Christian side, for athletic asceticism has been +associated with the most various religious and philosophic beliefs. If, +indeed, it had not possessed the charm of a new sensation, of a delicious +freedom, of an unknown adventure, it would never have conquered the +European world. There are only a few in that world who have in them the +stuff of moral athletes; there are many who respond to the attraction of +romance. + +The Christians rejected the grosser forms of sexual indulgence, but in +doing so they entered with a more delicate ardor into the more refined +forms of sexual intimacy. They cultivated a relationship of brothers and +sisters to each other, they kissed one another; at one time, in the +spiritual orgy of baptism, they were not ashamed to adopt complete +nakedness.[74] + +A very instructive picture of the forms which chastity assumed among the +early Christians is given us in the treatise of Chrysostom _Against Those +who Keep Virgins in their Houses_. Our fathers, Chrysostom begins, only +knew two forms of sexual intimacy, marriage and fornication. Now a third +form has appeared: men introduce young girls into their houses and keep +them there permanently, respecting their virginity. "What," Chrysostom +asks, "is the reason? It seems to me that life in common with a woman is +sweet, even outside conjugal union and fleshly commerce. That is my +feeling; and perhaps it is not my feeling alone; it may also be that of +these men. They would not hold their honor so cheap nor give rise to such +scandals if this pleasure were not violent and tyrannical.... That there +should really be a pleasure in this which produces a love more ardent than +conjugal union may surprise you at first. But when I give you the proofs +you will agree that it is so." The absence of restraint to desire in +marriage, he continues, often leads to speedy disgust, and even apart from +this, sexual intercourse, pregnancy, delivery, lactation, the bringing up +of children, and all the pains and anxieties that accompany these things +soon destroy youth and dull the point of pleasure. The virgin is free from +these burdens. She retains her vigor and youthfulness, and even at the age +of forty may rival the young nubile girl. "A double ardor thus burns in +the heart of him who lives with her, and the gratification of desire never +extinguishes the bright flame which ever continues to increase in +strength." Chrysostom describes minutely all the little cares and +attentions which the modern girls of his time required, and which these +men delighted to expend on their virginal sweethearts whether in public or +in private. He cannot help thinking, however, that the man who lavishes +kisses and caresses on a woman whose virginity he retains is putting +himself somewhat in the position of Tantalus. But this new refinement of +tender chastity, which came as a delicious discovery to the early +Christians who had resolutely thrust away the licentiousness of the pagan +world, was deeply rooted, as we discover from the frequency with which the +grave Fathers of the Church, apprehensive of scandal, felt called upon to +reprove it, though their condemnation is sometimes not without a trace of +secret sympathy.[75] + +There was one form in which the new Christian chastity flourished +exuberantly and unchecked: it conquered literature. The most charming, +and, we may be sure, the most popular literature of the early Church lay +in the innumerable romances of erotic chastity--to some extent, it may +well be, founded on fact--which are embodied to-day in the _Acta +Sanctorum_. We can see in even the most simple and non-miraculous early +Christian records of the martyrdom of women that the writers were fully +aware of the delicate charm of the heroine who, like Perpetua at Carthage, +tossed by wild cattle in the arena, rises to gather her torn garment +around her and to put up her disheveled hair.[76] It was an easy step to +the stories of romantic adventure. Among these delightful stories I may +refer especially to the legend of Thekla, which has been placed, +incorrectly it may be, as early as the first century, "The Bride and +Bridegroom of India" in _Judas Thomas's Acts_, "The Virgin of Antioch" as +narrated by St. Ambrose, the history of "Achilleus and Nereus," "Mygdonia +and Karish," and "Two Lovers of Auvergne" as told by Gregory of Tours. +Early Christian literature abounds in the stories of lovers who had indeed +preserved their chastity, and had yet discovered the most exquisite +secrets of love. + + Thekla's day is the twenty-third of September. There is a very + good Syriac version (by Lipsius and others regarded as more + primitive than the Greek version) of the _Acts of Paul and + Thekla_ (see, e.g., Wright's _Apocryphal Acts_). These _Acts_ + belong to the latter part of the second century. The story is + that Thekla, refusing to yield to the passion of the high priest + of Syria, was put, naked but for a girdle (_subligaculum_) into + the arena on the back of a lioness, which licked her feet and + fought for her against the other beasts, dying in her defense. + The other beasts, however, did her no harm, and she was finally + released. A queen loaded her with money, she modified her dress + to look like a man, travelled to meet Paul, and lived to old age. + Sir W.M. Ramsay has written an interesting study of these _Acts_ + (_The Church in the Roman Empire_, Ch. XVI). He is of opinion + that the _Acts_ are based on a first century document, and is + able to disentangle many elements of truth from the story. He + states that it is the only evidence we possess of the ideas and + actions of women during the first century in Asia Minor, where + their position was so high and their influence so great. Thekla + represents the assertion of woman's rights, and she administered + the rite of baptism, though in the existing versions of the + _Acts_ these features are toned down or eliminated. + + Some of the most typical of these early Christian romances are + described as Gnostical in origin, with something of the germs of + Manichæan dualism which were held in the rich and complex matrix + of Gnosticism, while the spirit of these romances is also largely + Montanist, with the combined chastity and ardor, the pronounced + feminine tone due to its origin in Asia Minor, which marked + Montanism. It cannot be denied, however, that they largely passed + into the main stream of Christian tradition, and form an + essential and important part of that tradition. (Renan, in his + _Marc-Aurèle_, Chs. IX and XV, insists on the immense debt of + Christianity to Gnostic and Montanist contributions). A + characteristic example is the story of "The Betrothed of India" + in _Judas Thomas's Acts_ (Wright's _Apocryphal Acts_). Judas + Thomas was sold by his master Jesus to an Indian merchant who + required a carpenter to go with him to India. On disembarking at + the city of Sandaruk they heard the sounds of music and singing, + and learnt that it was the wedding-feast of the King's daughter, + which all must attend, rich and poor, slaves and freemen, + strangers and citizens. Judas Thomas went, with his new master, + to the banquet and reclined with a garland of myrtle placed on + his head. When a Hebrew flute-player came and stood over him and + played, he sang the songs of Christ, and it was seen that he was + more beautiful than all that were there and the King sent for him + to bless the young couple in the bridal chamber. And when all + were gone out and the door of the bridal chamber closed, the + bridegroom approached the bride, and saw, as it were, Judas + Thomas still talking with her. But it was our Lord who said to + him, "I am not Judas, but his brother." And our Lord sat down on + the bed beside the young people and began to say to them: + "Remember, my children, what my brother spake with you, and know + to whom he committed you, and know that if ye preserve yourselves + from this filthy intercourse ye become pure temples, and are + saved from afflictions manifest and hidden, and from the heavy + care of children, the end whereof is bitter sorrow. For their + sakes ye will become oppressors and robbers, and ye will be + grievously tortured for their injuries. For children are the + cause of many pains; either the King falls upon them or a demon + lays hold of them, or paralysis befalls them. And if they be + healthy they come to ill, either by adultery, or theft, or + fornication, or covetousness, or vain-glory. But if ye will be + persuaded by me, and keep yourselves purely unto God, ye shall + have living children to whom not one of these blemishes and hurts + cometh nigh; and ye shall be without care and without grief and + without sorrow, and ye shall hope for the time when ye shall see + the true wedding-feast." The young couple were persuaded, and + refrained from lust, and our Lord vanished. And in the morning, + when it was dawn, the King had the table furnished early and + brought in before the bridegroom and bride. And he found them + sitting the one opposite the other, and the face of the bride was + uncovered and the bridegroom was very cheerful. The mother of the + bride saith to her: "Why art thou sitting thus, and art not + ashamed, but art as if, lo, thou wert married a long time, and + for many a day?" And her father, too, said; "Is it thy great love + for thy husband that prevents thee from even veiling thyself?" + And the bride answered and said: "Truly, my father, I am in great + love, and am praying to my Lord that I may continue in this love + which I have experienced this night. I am not veiled, because the + veil of corruption is taken from me, and I am not ashamed, + because the deed of shame has been removed far from me, and I am + cheerful and gay, and despise this deed of corruption and the + joys of this wedding-feast, because I am invited to the true + wedding-feast. I have not had intercourse with a husband, the end + whereof is bitter repentance, because I am betrothed to the true + Husband." The bridegroom answered also in the same spirit, very + naturally to the dismay of the King, who sent for the sorcerer + whom he had asked to bless his unlucky daughter. But Judas Thomas + had already left the city and at his inn the King's stewards + found only the flute-player, sitting and weeping because he had + not taken her with him. She was glad, however, when she heard + what had happened, and hastened to the young couple, and lived + with them ever afterwards. The King also was finally reconciled, + and all ended chastely, but happily. + + In these same _Judas Thomas's Acts_, which are not later than the + fourth century, we find (eighth act) the story of Mygdonia and + Karish. Mygdonia, the wife of Karish, is converted by Thomas and + flees from her husband, naked save for the curtain of the chamber + door which she has wrapped around her, to her old nurse. With the + nurse she goes to Thomas, who pours holy oil over her head, + bidding the nurse to anoint her all over with it; then a cloth is + put round her loins and he baptizes her; then she is clothed and + he gives her the sacrament. The young rapture of chastity grows + lyrical at times, and Judas Thomas breaks out: "Purity is the + athlete who is not overcome. Purity is the truth that blencheth + not. Purity is worthy before God of being to Him a familiar + handmaiden. Purity is the messenger of concord which bringeth the + tidings of peace." + + Another romance of chastity is furnished by the episode of + Drusiana in _The History of the Apostles_ traditionally + attributed to Abdias, Bishop of Babylon (Bk. v, Ch. IV, _et + seq._). Drusiana is the wife of Andronicus, and is so pious that + she will not have intercourse with him. The youth Callimachus + falls madly in love with her, and his amorous attempts involve + many exciting adventures, but the chastity of Drusiana is finally + triumphant. + + A characteristic example of the literature we are here concerned + with is St. Ambrose's story of "The Virgin in the Brothel" + (narrated in his _De Virginibus_, Migne's edition of Ambrose's + Works, vols. iii-iv, p. 211). A certain virgin, St. Ambrose tells + us, who lately lived at Antioch, was condemned either to + sacrifice to the gods or to go to the brothel. She chose the + latter alternative. But the first man who came in to her was a + Christian soldier who called her "sister," and bade her have no + fear. He proposed that they should exchange clothes. This was + done and she escaped, while the soldier was led away to death. At + the place of execution, however, she ran up and exclaimed that it + was not death she feared but shame. He, however, maintained that + he had been condemned to death in her place. Finally the crown of + martyrdom for which they contended was adjudged to both. + + We constantly observe in the early documents of this romantic + literature of chastity that chastity is insisted on by no means + chiefly because of its rewards after death, nor even because the + virgin who devotes herself to it secures in Christ an ever-young + lover whose golden-haired beauty is sometimes emphasized. Its + chief charm is represented as lying in its own joy and freedom + and the security it involves from all the troubles, + inconveniences and bondages of matrimony. This early Christian + movement of romantic chastity was clearly, in large measure, a + revolt of women against men and marriage. This is well brought + out in the instructive story, supposed to be of third century + origin, of the eunuchs Achilleus and Nereus, as narrated in the + _Acta Sanctorum_, May 12th. Achilleus and Nereus were Christian + eunuchs of the bedchamber to Domitia, a virgin of noble birth, + related to the Emperor Domitian and betrothed to Aurelian, son + of a Consul. One day, as their mistress was putting on her jewels + and her purple garments embroidered with gold, they began in turn + to talk to her about all the joys and advantages of virginity, as + compared to marriage with a mere man. The conversation is + developed at great length and with much eloquence. Domitia was + finally persuaded. She suffered much from Aurelian in + consequence, and when he obtained her banishment to an island she + went thither with Achilleus and Nereus, who were put to death. + Incidentally, the death of Felicula, another heroine of chastity, + is described. When elevated on the rack because she would not + marry, she constantly refused to deny Jesus, whom she called her + lover. "Ego non nego amatorem meum!" + + A special department of this literature is concerned with stories + of the conversions or the penitence of courtesans. St. + Martinianus, for instance (Feb. 13), was tempted by the courtesan + Zoe, but converted her. The story of St. Margaret of Cortona + (Feb. 22), a penitent courtesan, is late, for she belongs to the + thirteenth century. The most delightful document in this + literature is probably the latest, the fourteenth century Italian + devotional romance called _The Life of Saint Mary Magdalen_, + commonly associated with the name of Frate Domenico Cavalca. (It + has been translated into English). It is the delicately and + deliciously told romance of the chaste and passionate love of the + sweet sinner, Mary Magdalene, for her beloved Master. + + As time went on the insistence on the joys of chastity in this + life became less marked, and chastity is more and more regarded + as a state only to be fully rewarded in a future life. Even, + however, in Gregory of Tours's charming story of "The Two Lovers + of Auvergne," in which this attitude is clear, the pleasures of + chaste love in this life are brought out as clearly as in any of + the early romances (_Historia Francorum_, lib. i, cap. XLII). Two + senators of Auvergne each had an only child, and they betrothed + them to each other. When the wedding day came and the young + couple were placed in bed, the bride turned to the wall and wept + bitterly. The bridegroom implored her to tell him what was the + matter, and, turning towards him, she said that if she were to + weep all her days she could never wash away her grief for she had + resolved to give her little body immaculate to Christ, untouched + by men, and now instead of immortal roses she had only had on her + brow faded roses, which deformed rather than adorned it, and + instead of the dowry of Paradise which Christ had promised her + she had become the consort of a merely mortal man. She deplored + her sad fate at considerable length and with much gentle + eloquence. At length the bridegroom, overcome by her sweet words, + felt that eternal life had shone before him like a great light, + and declared that if she wished to abstain from carnal desires he + was of the same mind. She was grateful, and with clasped hands + they fell asleep. For many years they thus lived together, + chastely sharing the same bed. At length she died and was buried, + her lover restoring her immaculate to the hands of Christ. Soon + afterwards he died also, and was placed in a separate tomb. Then + a miracle happened which made manifest the magnitude of this + chaste love, for the two bodies were found mysteriously placed + together. To this day, Gregory concludes (writing in the sixth + century), the people of the place call them "The Two Lovers." + + Although Renan (_Marc-Aurèle_, Ch. XV) briefly called attention + to the existence of this copious early Christian literature + setting forth the romance of chastity, it seems as yet to have + received little or no study. It is, however, of considerable + importance, not merely for its own sake, but on account of its + psychological significance in making clear the nature of the + motive forces which made chastity easy and charming to the people + of the early Christian world, even when it involved complete + abstinence from sexual intercourse. The early Church + anathematized the eroticism of the Pagan world, and exorcized it + in the most effectual way by setting up a new and more exquisite + eroticism of its own. + +During the Middle Ages the primitive freshness of Christian chastity began +to lose its charm. No more romances of chastity were written, and in +actual life men no longer sought daring adventures in the field of +chastity. So far as the old ideals survived at all it was in the secular +field of chivalry. The last notable figure to emulate the achievements of +the early Christians was Robert of Arbrissel in Normandy. + + Robert of Arbrissel, who founded, in the eleventh century, the + famous and distinguished Order of Fontevrault for women, was a + Breton. This Celtic origin is doubtless significant, for it may + explain his unfailing ardor and gaiety, and his enthusiastic + veneration for womanhood. Even those of his friends who + deprecated what they considered his scandalous conduct bear + testimony to his unfailing and cheerful temperament, his + alertness in action, his readiness for any deed of humanity, and + his entire freedom from severity. He attracted immense crowds of + people of all conditions, especially women, including + prostitutes, and his influence over women was great. Once he went + into a brothel to warm his feet, and, incidentally, converted all + the women there. "Who are you?" asked one of them, "I have been + here twenty-five years and nobody has ever come here to talk + about God." Robert's relation with his nuns at Fontevrault was + very intimate, and he would often sleep with them. This is set + forth precisely in letters written by friends of his, bishops and + abbots, one of whom remarks that Robert had "discovered a new + but fruitless form of martyrdom." A royal abbess of Fontevrault + in the seventeenth century, pretending that the venerated founder + of the order could not possibly have been guilty of such + scandalous conduct, and that the letters must therefore be + spurious, had the originals destroyed, so far as possible. The + Bollandists, in an unscholarly and incomplete account of the + matter (_Acta Sanctorum_, Feb. 25), adopted this view. J. von + Walter, however, in a recent and thorough study of Robert of + Arbrissel (_Die Ersten Wanderprediger Frankreichs_, Theil I), + shows that there is no reason whatever to doubt the authentic and + reliable character of the impugned letters. + +The early Christian legends of chastity had, however, their successors. +_Aucassin et Nicolette_, which was probably written in Northern France +towards the end of the twelfth century, is above all the descendant of the +stories in the _Acta Sanctorum_ and elsewhere. It embodied their spirit +and carried it forward, uniting their delicate feeling for chastity and +purity with the ideal of monogamic love. _Aucassin et Nicolette_ was the +death-knell of the primitive Christian romance of chastity. It was the +discovery that the chaste refinements of delicacy and devotion were +possible within the strictly normal sphere of sexual love. + +There were at least two causes which tended to extinguish the primitive +Christian attraction to chastity, even apart from the influence of the +Church authorities in repressing its romantic manifestations. In the first +place, the submergence of the old pagan world, with its practice and, to +some extent, ideal of sexual indulgence, removed the foil which had given +grace and delicacy to the tender freedom of the young Christians. In the +second place, the austerities which the early Christians had gladly +practised for the sake of their soul's health, were robbed of their charm +and spontaneity by being made a formal part of codes of punishment for +sin, first in the Penitentials and afterwards at the discretion of +confessors. This, it may be added, was rendered the more necessary because +the ideal of Christian chastity was no longer largely the possession of +refined people who had been rendered immune to Pagan license by being +brought up in its midst, and even themselves steeped in it. It was clearly +from the first a serious matter for the violent North Africans to maintain +the ideal of chastity, and when Christianity spread to Northern Europe it +seemed almost a hopeless task to acclimatize its ideals among the wild +Germans. Hereafter it became necessary for celibacy to be imposed on the +regular clergy by the stern force of ecclesiastical authority, while +voluntary celibacy was only kept alive by a succession of religious +enthusiasts perpetually founding new Orders. An asceticism thus enforced +could not always be accompanied by the ardent exaltation necessary to +maintain it, and in its artificial efforts at self-preservation it +frequently fell from its insecure heights to the depths of unrestrained +license.[77] This fatality of all hazardous efforts to overpass humanity's +normal limits begun to be realized after the Middle Ages were over by +clear-sighted thinkers. "Qui veut faire l'ange," said Pascal, pungently +summing up this view of the matter, "fait la bête." That had often been +illustrated in the history of the Church. + + The Penitentials began to come into use in the seventh century, + and became of wide prevalence and authority during the ninth and + tenth centuries. They were bodies of law, partly spiritual and + partly secular, and were thrown into the form of catalogues of + offences with the exact measure of penance prescribed for each + offence. They represented the introduction of social order among + untamed barbarians, and were codes of criminal law much more than + part of a system of sacramental confession and penance. In France + and Spain, where order on a Christian basis already existed, they + were little needed. They had their origin in Ireland and England, + and especially flourished in Germany; Charlemagne supported them + (see, e.g., Lea, _History of Auricular Confession_, vol. ii, p. + 96, also Ch. XVII; Hugh Williams, edition of Gildas, Part II, + Appendix 3; the chief Penitentials are reproduced in + Wasserschleben's _Bussordnungen_). + + In 1216 the Lateran Council, under Innocent III, made confession + obligatory. The priestly prerogative of regulating the amount of + penance according to circumstances, with greater flexibility than + the rigid Penitentials admitted, was first absolutely asserted by + Peter of Poitiers. Then Alain de Lille threw aside the + Penitentials as obsolete, and declared that the priest himself + must inquire into the circumstances of each sin and weigh + precisely its guilt (Lea, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 171). + + Long before this period, however, the ideals of chastity, so far + as they involved any considerable degree of continence, although + they had become firmly hardened into the conventional traditions + and ideals of the Christian Church, had ceased to have any great + charm or force for the people living in Christendom. Among the + Northern barbarians, with different traditions of a more vigorous + and natural order behind them, the demands of sex were often + frankly exhibited. The monk Ordericus Vitalis, in the eleventh + century, notes what he calls the "lasciviousness" of the wives of + the Norman conquerors of England who, when left alone at home, + sent messages that if their husbands failed to return speedily + they would take new ones. The celibacy of the clergy was only + established with the very greatest difficulty, and when it was + established, priests became unchaste. Archbishop Odo of Rouen, in + the thirteenth century, recorded in the diary of his diocesan + visitations that there was one unchaste priest in every five + parishes, and even as regards the Italy of the same period the + friar Salimbene in his remarkable autobiography shows how little + chastity was regarded in the religious life. Chastity could now + only be maintained by force, usually the moral force of + ecclesiastical authority, which was itself undermined by + unchastity, but sometimes even physical force. It was in the + thirteenth century, in the opinion of some, that the girdle of + chastity (_cingula castitatis_) first begins to appear, but the + chief authority, Caufeynon (_La Ceinture de Chasteté_, 1904) + believes it only dates from the Renaissance (Schultz, _Das + Höfische Leben zur Zeit der Minnesänger_, vol. i, p. 595; Dufour, + _Histoire de la Prostitution_, vol. v, p. 272; Krauss, + _Anthropophyteia_, vol. iii, p. 247). In the sixteenth century + convents were liable to become almost brothels, as we learn on + the unimpeachable authority of Burchard, a Pope's secretary, in + his _Diarium_, edited by Thuasne who brings together additional + authorities for this statement in a footnote (vol. ii, p. 79); + that they remained so in the eighteenth century we see clearly in + the pages of Casanova's _Mémoires_, and in many other documents + of the period. + +The Renaissance and the rise of humanism undoubtedly affected the feeling +towards asceticism and chastity. On the one hand a new and ancient +sanction was found for the disregard of virtues which men began to look +upon as merely monkish, and on the other hand the finer spirits affected +by the new movement began to realize that chastity might be better +cultivated and observed by those who were free to do as they would than by +those who were under the compulsion of priestly authority. That is the +feeling that prevails in Montaigne, and that is the idea of Rabelais when +he made it the only rule of his Abbey of Thelème: "Fay ce que vouldras." + + A little later this doctrine was repeated in varying tones by + many writers more or less tinged by the culture brought into + fashion by the Renaissance. "As long as Danae was free," remarks + Ferrand in his sixteenth century treatise, _De la Maladie + d'Amour_, "she was chaste." And Sir Kenelm Digby, the latest + representative of the Renaissance spirit, insists in his _Private + Memoirs_ that the liberty which Lycurgus, "the wisest human + law-maker that ever was," gave to women to communicate their + bodies to men to whom they were drawn by noble affection, and the + hope of generous offspring, was the true cause why "real chastity + flourished in Sparta more than in any other part of the world." + +In Protestant countries the ascetic ideal of chastity was still further +discredited by the Reformation movement which was in considerable part a +revolt against compulsory celibacy. Religion was thus no longer placed on +the side of chastity. In the eighteenth century, if not earlier, the +authority of Nature also was commonly invoked against chastity. It has +thus happened that during the past two centuries serious opinion +concerning chastity has only been partially favorable to it. It began to +be felt that an unhappy and injurious mistake had been perpetrated by +attempting to maintain a lofty ideal which encouraged hypocrisy. "The +human race would gain much," as Sénancour wrote early in the nineteenth +century in his remarkable book on love, "if virtue were made less +laborious. The merit would not be so great, but what is the use of an +elevation which can rarely be sustained?"[78] + +There can be no doubt that the undue discredit into which the idea of +chastity began to fall from the eighteenth century onwards was largely +due to the existence of that merely external and conventional physical +chastity which was arbitrarily enforced so far as it could be +enforced,--and is indeed in some degree still enforced, nominally or +really,--upon all respectable women outside marriage. The conception of +the physical virtue of virginity had degraded the conception of the +spiritual virtue of chastity. A mere routine, it was felt, prescribed to a +whole sex, whether they would or not, could never possess the beauty and +charm of a virtue. At the same time it began to be realized that, as a +matter of fact, the state of compulsory virginity is not only not a state +especially favorable to the cultivation of real virtues, but that it is +bound up with qualities which are no longer regarded as of high value.[79] + + "How arbitrary, artificial, contrary to Nature, is the life now + imposed upon women in this matter of chastity!" wrote James + Hinton forty years ago. "Think of that line: 'A woman who + deliberates is lost.' We _make_ danger, making all womanhood hang + upon a point like this, and surrounding it with unnatural and + preternatural dangers. There is a wanton unreason embodied in the + life of woman now; the present 'virtue' is a morbid unhealthy + plant. Nature and God never poised the life of a woman upon such + a needle's point. The whole modern idea of chastity has in it + sensual exaggeration, surely, in part, remaining to us from other + times, with what was good in it in great part gone." + + "The whole grace of virginity," wrote another philosopher, + Guyau, "is ignorance. Virginity, like certain fruits, can only + be preserved by a process of desiccation." + + Mérimée pointed out the same desiccating influence of virginity. + In a letter dated 1859 he wrote: "I think that nowadays people + attach far too much importance to chastity. Not that I deny that + chastity is a virtue, but there are degrees in virtues just as + there are in vices. It seems to be absurd that a woman should be + banished from society for having had a lover, while a woman who + is miserly, double-faced and spiteful goes everywhere. The + morality of this age is assuredly not that which is taught in the + Gospel. In my opinion it is better to love too much than not + enough. Nowadays dry hearts are stuck up on a pinnacle" (_Revue + des Deux Mondes_, April, 1896). + + Dr. H. Paul has developed an allied point. She writes: "There are + girls who, even as children, have prostituted themselves by + masturbation and lascivious thoughts. The purity of their souls + has long been lost and nothing remains unknown to them, but--they + have preserved their hymens! That is for the sake of the future + husband. Let no one dare to doubt their innocence with that + unimpeachable evidence! And if another girl, who has passed her + childhood in complete purity, now, with awakened senses and warm + impetuous womanliness, gives herself to a man in love or even + only in passion, they all stand up and scream that she is + 'dishonored!' And, not least, the prostituted girl with the + hymen. It is she indeed who screams loudest and throws the + biggest stones. Yet the 'dishonored' woman, who is sound and + wholesome, need not fear to tell what she has done to the man who + desires her in marriage, speaking as one human being to another. + She has no need to blush, she has exercised her human rights, and + no reasonable man will on that account esteem her the less" (Dr. + H. Paul, "Die Ueberschätzung der Jungfernschaft," _Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, Bd. ii, p. 14, 1907). + + In a similar spirit writes F. Erhard (_Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, Bd. i, p. 408): "Virginity in one sense has its + worth, but in the ordinary sense it is greatly overestimated. + Apart from the fact that a girl who possesses it may yet be + thoroughly perverted, this over-estimation of virginity leads to + the girl who is without it being despised, and has further + resulted in the development of a special industry for the + preparation, by means of a prudishly cloistral education, of + girls who will bring to their husbands the peculiar dainty of a + bride who knows nothing about anything. Naturally, this can only + be achieved at the expense of any rational education. What the + undeveloped little goose may turn into, no man can foresee." + + Freud (_Sexual-Probleme_, March, 1908) also points out the evil + results of the education for marriage which is given to girls on + the basis of this ideal of virginity. "Education undertakes the + task of repressing the girl's sensuality until the time of + betrothal. It not only forbids sexual relations and sets a high + premium on innocence, but it also withdraws the ripening womanly + individuality from temptation, maintaining a state of ignorance + concerning the practical side of the part she is intended to play + in life, and enduring no stirring of love which cannot lead to + marriage. The result is that when she is suddenly permitted to + fall in love by the authority of her elders, the girl cannot + bring her psychic disposition to bear, and goes into marriage + uncertain of her own feelings. As a consequence of this + artificial retardation of the function of love she brings nothing + but deception to the husband who has set all his desires upon + her, and manifests frigidity in her physical relations with him." + + Sénancour (_De l'Amour_, vol. i, p. 285) even believes that, when + it is possible to leave out of consideration the question of + offspring, not only will the law of chastity become equal for the + two sexes, but there will be a tendency for the situation of the + sexes to be, to some extent, changed. "Continence becomes a + counsel rather than a precept, and it is in women that the + voluptuous inclination will be regarded with most indulgence. Man + is made for work; he only meets pleasure in passing; he must be + content that women should occupy themselves with it more than he. + It is men whom it exhausts, and men must always, in part, + restrain their desires." + +As, however, we liberate ourselves from the bondage of a compulsory +physical chastity, it becomes possible to rehabilitate chastity as a +virtue. At the present day it can no longer be said that there is on the +part of thinkers and moralists any active hostility to the idea of +chastity; there is, on the contrary, a tendency to recognize the value of +chastity. But this recognition has been accompanied by a return to the +older and sounder conception of chastity. The preservation of a rigid +sexual abstinence, an empty virginity, can only be regarded as a +pseudo-chastity. The only positive virtue which Aristotle could have +recognized in this field was a temperance involving restraint of the lower +impulses, a wise exercise and not a non-exercise.[80] The best thinkers of +the Christian Church adopted the same conception; St. Basil in his +important monastic rules laid no weight on self-discipline as an end in +itself, but regarded it as an instrument for enabling the spirit to gain +power over the flesh. St. Augustine declared that continence is only +excellent when practised in the faith of the highest good,[81] and he +regarded chastity as "an orderly movement of the soul subordinating lower +things to higher things, and specially to be manifested in conjugal +relationships"; Thomas Aquinas, defining chastity in much the same way, +defined impurity as the enjoyment of sexual pleasure not according to +right reason, whether as regards the object or the conditions.[82] But for +a time the voices of the great moralists were unheard. The virtue of +chastity was swamped in the popular Christian passion for the annihilation +of the flesh, and that view was, in the sixteenth century, finally +consecrated by the Council of Trent, which formally pronounced an anathema +upon anyone who should declare that the state of virginity and celibacy +was not better than the state of matrimony. Nowadays the pseudo-chastity +that was of value on the simple ground that any kind of continence is of +higher spiritual worth than any kind of sexual relationship belongs to the +past, except for those who adhere to ancient ascetic creeds. The mystic +value of virginity has gone; it seems only to arouse in the modern man's +mind the idea of a piquancy craved by the hardened rake;[83] it is men who +have themselves long passed the age of innocence who attach so much +importance to the innocence of their brides. The conception of life-long +continence as an ideal has also gone; at the best it is regarded as a mere +matter of personal preference. And the conventional simulation of +universal chastity, at the bidding of respectability, is coming to be +regarded as a hindrance rather than a help to the cultivation of any real +chastity.[84] + +The chastity that is regarded by the moralist of to-day as a virtue has +its worth by no means in its abstinence. It is not, in St. Theresa's +words, the virtue of the tortoise which withdraws its limbs under its +carapace. It is a virtue because it is a discipline in self-control, +because it helps to fortify the character and will, and because it is +directly favorable to the cultivation of the most beautiful, exalted, and +effective sexual life. So viewed, chastity may be opposed to the demands +of debased mediæval Catholicism, but it is in harmony with the demands of +our civilized life to-day, and by no means at variance with the +requirements of Nature. + +There is always an analogy between the instinct of reproduction and the +instinct of nutrition. In the matter of eating it is the influence of +science, of physiology, which has finally put aside an exaggerated +asceticism, and made eating "pure." The same process, as James Hinton well +pointed out, has been made possible in the sexual relationships; "science +has in its hands the key to purity."[85] + +Many influences have, however, worked together to favor an insistence on +chastity. There has, in the first place, been an inevitable reaction +against the sexual facility which had come to be regarded as natural. Such +facility was found to have no moral value, for it tended to relaxation of +moral fibre and was unfavorable to the finest sexual satisfaction. It +could not even claim to be natural in any broad sense of the word, for, in +Nature generally, sexual gratification tends to be rare and difficult.[86] +Courtship is arduous and long, the season of love is strictly delimited, +pregnancy interrupts sexual relationships. Even among savages, so long as +they have been untainted by civilization, virility is usually maintained +by a fine asceticism; the endurance of hardship, self-control and +restraint, tempered by rare orgies, constitute a discipline which covers +the sexual as well as every other department of savage life. To preserve +the same virility in civilized life, it may well be felt, we must +deliberately cultivate a virtue which under savage conditions of life is +natural.[87] + +The influence of Nietzsche, direct and indirect, has been on the side of +the virtue of chastity in its modern sense. The command: "Be hard," as +Nietzsche used it, was not so much an injunction to an unfeeling +indifference towards others as an appeal for a more strenuous attitude +towards one's self, the cultivation of a self-control able to gather up +and hold in the forces of the soul for expenditure on deliberately +accepted ends. "A relative chastity," he wrote, "a fundamental and wise +foresight in the face of erotic things, even in thought, is part of a fine +reasonableness in life, even in richly endowed and complete natures."[88] +In this matter Nietzsche is a typical representative of the modern +movement for the restoration of chastity to its proper place as a real and +beneficial virtue, and not a mere empty convention. Such a movement could +not fail to make itself felt, for all that favors facility and luxurious +softness in sexual matters is quickly felt to degrade character as well as +to diminish the finest erotic satisfaction. For erotic satisfaction, in +its highest planes, is only possible when we have secured for the sexual +impulse a high degree of what Colin Scott calls "irradiation," that is to +say a wide diffusion through the whole of the psychic organism. And that +can only be attained by placing impediments in the way of the swift and +direct gratification of sexual desire, by compelling it to increase its +force, to take long circuits, to charge the whole organism so highly that +the final climax of gratified love is not the trivial detumescence of a +petty desire but the immense consummation of a longing in which the whole +soul as well as the whole body has its part. "Only the chaste can be +really obscene," said Huysmans. And on a higher plane, only the chaste can +really love. + + "Physical purity," remarks Hans Menjago ("Die Ueberschätzung der + Physischen Reinheit," _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, vol. ii, + Part VIII) "was originally valued as a sign of greater strength + of will and firmness of character, and it marked a rise above + primitive conditions. This purity was difficult to preserve in + those unsure days; it was rare and unusual. From this rarity rose + the superstition of supernatural power residing in the virgin. + But this has no meaning as soon as such purity becomes general + and a specially conspicuous degree of firmness of character is no + longer needed to maintain it.... Physical purity can only possess + value when it is the result of individual strength of character, + and not when it is the result of compulsory rules of morality." + + Konrad Höller, who has given special attention to the sexual + question in schools, remarks in relation to physical exercise: + "The greatest advantage of physical exercises, however, is not + the development of the active and passive strength of the body + and its skill, but the establishment and fortification of the + authority of the will over the body and its needs, so much given + up to indolence. He who has learnt to endure and overcome, for + the sake of a definite aim, hunger and thirst and fatigue, will + be the better able to withstand sexual impulses and the + temptation to gratify them, when better insight and æsthetic + feeling have made clear to him, as one used to maintain authority + over his body, that to yield would be injurious or disgraceful" + (K. Höller, "Die Aufgabe der Volksschule," _Sexualpädagogik_, p. + 70). Professor Schäfenacker (id., p. 102), who also emphasizes + the importance of self-control and self-restraint, thinks a youth + must bear in mind his future mission, as citizen and father of a + family. + + A subtle and penetrative thinker of to-day, Jules de Gaultier, + writing on morals without reference to this specific question, + has discussed what new internal inhibitory motives we can appeal + to in replacing the old external inhibition of authority and + belief which is now decayed. He answers that the state of feeling + on which old faiths were based still persists. "May not," he + asks, "the desire for a thing that we love and wish for + beneficently replace the belief that a thing is by divine will, + or in the nature of things? Will not the presence of a bridle on + the frenzy of instinct reveal itself as a useful attitude adopted + by instinct itself for its own conservation, as a symptom of the + force and health of instinct? Is not empire over oneself, the + power of regulating one's acts, a mark of superiority and a + motive for self-esteem? Will not this joy of pride have the same + authority in preserving the instincts as was once possessed by + religious fear and the pretended imperatives of reason?" (Jules + de Gaultier, _La Dépendance de la Morale et l'Indépendance des + Moeurs_, p. 153.) + + H.G. Wells (in _A Modern Utopia_), pointing out the importance of + chastity, though rejecting celibacy, invokes, like Jules de + Gaultier, the motive of pride. "Civilization has developed far + more rapidly than man has modified. Under the unnatural + perfection of security, liberty, and abundance our civilization + has attained, the normal untrained human being is disposed to + excess in almost every direction; he tends to eat too much and + too elaborately, to drink too much, to become lazy faster than + his work can be reduced, to waste his interest upon displays, and + to make love too much and too elaborately. He gets out of + training, and concentrates upon egoistic or erotic broodings. Our + founders organized motives from all sorts of sources, but I think + the chief force to give men self-control is pride. Pride may not + be the noblest thing in the soul, but it is the best king there, + for all that. They looked to it to keep a man clean and sound and + sane. In this matter, as in all matters of natural desire, they + held no appetite must be glutted, no appetite must have + artificial whets, and also and equally that no appetite should be + starved. A man must come from the table satisfied, but not + replete. And, in the matter of love, a straight and clean desire + for a clean and straight fellow-creature was our founders' ideal. + They enjoined marriage between equals as the duty to the race, + and they framed directions of the precisest sort to prevent that + uxorious inseparableness, that connubiality, that sometimes + reduces a couple of people to something jointly less than + either." + + With regard to chastity as an element of erotic satisfaction, + Edward Carpenter writes (_Love's Coming of Age_, p. 11): "There + is a kind of illusion about physical desire similar to that which + a child suffers from when, seeing a beautiful flower, it + instantly snatches the same, and destroys in a few moments the + form and fragrance which attracted it. He only gets the full + glory who holds himself back a little, and truly possesses, who + is willing, if need be, not to possess. He is indeed a master of + life who, accepting the grosser desires as they come to his body, + and not refusing them, knows how to transform them at will into + the most rare and fragrant flowers of human emotion." + +Beyond its functions in building up character, in heightening and +ennobling the erotic life, and in subserving the adequate fulfilment of +family and social duties, chastity has a more special value for those who +cultivate the arts. We may not always be inclined to believe the writers +who have declared that their verse alone is wanton, but their lives +chaste. It is certainly true, however, that a relationship of this kind +tends to occur. The stuff of the sexual life, as Nietzsche says, is the +stuff of art; if it is expended in one channel it is lost for the other. +The masters of all the more intensely emotional arts have frequently +cultivated a high degree of chastity. This is notably the case as regards +music; one thinks of Mozart,[89] of Beethoven, of Schubert, and many +lesser men. In the case of poets and novelists chastity may usually seem +to be less prevalent but it is frequently well-marked, and is not seldom +disguised by the resounding reverberations which even the slightest +love-episode often exerts on the poetic organism. Goethe's life seems, at +a first glance, to be a long series of continuous love-episodes. Yet when +we remember that it was the very long life of a man whose vigor remained +until the end, that his attachments long and profoundly affected his +emotional life and his work, and that with most of the women he has +immortalized he never had actual sexual relationships at all, and when we +realize, moreover, that, throughout, he accomplished an almost +inconceivably vast amount of work, we shall probably conclude that sexual +indulgence had a very much smaller part in Goethe's life than in that of +many an average man on whom it leaves no obvious emotional or intellectual +trace whatever. Sterne, again, declared that he must always have a +Dulcinea dancing in his head, yet the amount of his intimate relations +with women appears to have been small. Balzac spent his life toiling at +his desk and carrying on during many years a love correspondence with a +woman he scarcely ever saw and at the end only spent a few months of +married life with. The like experience has befallen many artistic +creators. For, in the words of Landor, "absence is the invisible and +incorporeal mother of ideal beauty." + +We do well to remember that, while the auto-erotic manifestations through +the brain are of infinite variety and importance, the brain and the +sexual organs are yet the great rivals in using up bodily energy, and that +there is an antagonism between extreme brain vigor and extreme sexual +vigor, even although they may sometimes both appear at different periods +in the same individual.[90] In this sense there is no paradox in the +saying of Ramon Correa that potency is impotence and impotence potency, +for a high degree of energy, whether in athletics or in intellect or in +sexual activity, is unfavorable to the display of energy in other +directions. Every high degree of potency has its related impotencies. + + It may be added that we may find a curiously inconsistent proof + of the excessive importance attached to sexual function by a + society which systematically tries to depreciate sex, in the + disgrace which is attributed to the lack of "virile" potency. + Although civilized life offers immense scope for the activities + of sexually impotent persons, the impotent man is made to feel + that, while he need not be greatly concerned if he suffers from + nervous disturbances of digestion, if he should suffer just as + innocently from nervous disturbances of the sexual impulse, it is + almost a crime. A striking example of this was shown, a few years + ago, when it was plausibly suggested that Carlyle's relations + with his wife might best be explained by supposing that he + suffered from some trouble of sexual potency. At once admirers + rushed forward to "defend" Carlyle from this "disgraceful" + charge; they were more shocked than if it had been alleged that + he was a syphilitic. Yet impotence is, at the most, an infirmity, + whether due to some congenital anatomical defect or to a + disturbance of nervous balance in the delicate sexual mechanism, + such as is apt to occur in men of abnormally sensitive + temperament. It is no more disgraceful to suffer from it than + from dyspepsia, with which, indeed, it may be associated. Many + men of genius and high moral character have been sexually + deformed. This was the case with Cowper (though this significant + fact is suppressed by his biographers); Ruskin was divorced for a + reason of this kind; and J.S. Mill, it is said, was sexually of + little more than infantile development. + +Up to this point I have been considering the quality of chastity and the +quality of asceticism in their most general sense and without any attempt +at precise differentiation.[91] But if we are to accept these as modern +virtues, valid to-day, it is necessary that we should be somewhat more +precise in defining them. It seems most convenient, and most strictly +accordant also with etymology, if we agree to mean by asceticism or +_ascesis_, the athlete quality of self-discipline, controlling, by no +means necessarily for indefinitely prolonged periods, the gratification of +the sexual impulse. By chastity, which is primarily the quality of purity, +and secondarily that of holiness, rather than of abstinence, we may best +understand a due proportion between erotic claims and the other claims of +life. "Chastity," as Ellen Key well says, "is harmony between body and +soul in relation to love." Thus comprehended, asceticism is the virtue of +control that leads up to erotic gratification, and chastity is the virtue +which exerts its harmonizing influence in the erotic life itself. + +It will be seen that asceticism by no means necessarily involves perpetual +continence. Properly understood, asceticism is a discipline, a training, +which has reference to an end not itself. If it is compulsorily perpetual, +whether at the dictates of a religious dogma, or as a mere fetish, it is +no longer on a natural basis, and it is no longer moral, for the restraint +of a man who has spent his whole life in a prison is of no value for life. +If it is to be natural and to be moral asceticism must have an end outside +itself, it must subserve the ends of vital activity, which cannot be +subserved by a person who is engaged in a perpetual struggle with his own +natural instincts. A man may, indeed, as a matter of taste or preference, +live his whole life in sexual abstinence, freely and easily, but in that +case he is not an ascetic, and his abstinence is neither a subject for +applause nor for criticism. + +In the same way chastity, far from involving sexual abstinence, only has +its value when it is brought within the erotic sphere. A purity that is +ignorance, when the age of childish innocence is once passed, is mere +stupidity; it is nearer to vice than to virtue. Nor is purity consonant +with effort and struggle; in that respect it differs from asceticism. "We +conquer the bondage of sex," Rosa Mayreder says, "by acceptance, not by +denials, and men can only do this with the help of women." The would-be +chastity of cold calculation is equally unbeautiful and unreal, and +without any sort of value. A true and worthy chastity can only be +supported by an ardent ideal, whether, as among the early Christians, this +is the erotic ideal of a new romance, or, as among ourselves, a more +humanly erotic ideal. "Only erotic idealism," says Ellen Key, "can arouse +enthusiasm for chastity." Chastity in a healthily developed person can +thus be beautifully exercised only in the actual erotic life; in part it +is the natural instinct of dignity and temperance; in part it is the art +of touching the things of sex with hands that remember their aptness for +all the fine ends of life. Upon the doorway of entrance to the inmost +sanctuary of love there is thus the same inscription as on the doorway to +the Epidaurian Sanctuary of Aesculapius: "None but the pure shall enter +here." + + It will be seen that the definition of chastity remains somewhat + lacking in precision. That is inevitable. We cannot grasp purity + tightly, for, like snow, it will merely melt in our hands. + "Purity itself forbids too minute a system of rules for the + observance of purity," well says Sidgwick (_Methods of Ethics_, + Bk. iii, Ch. IX). Elsewhere (op. cit., Bk. iii, Ch. XI) he + attempts to answer the question: What sexual relations are + essentially impure? and concludes that no answer is possible. + "There appears to be no distinct principle, having any claim to + self-evidence, upon which the question can be answered so as to + command general assent." Even what is called "Free Love," he + adds, "in so far as it is earnestly advocated as a means to a + completer harmony of sentiment between men and women, cannot be + condemned as impure, for it seems paradoxical to distinguish + purity from impurity merely by less rapidity of transition." + + Moll, from the standpoint of medical psychology, reaches the same + conclusion as Sidgwick from that of ethics. In a report on the + "Value of Chastity for Men," published as an appendix to the + third edition (1899) of his _Konträre Sexualempfindung_, the + distinguished Berlin physician discusses the matter with much + vigorous common sense, insisting that "chaste and unchaste are + _relative ideas_." We must not, he states, as is so often done, + identify "chaste" with "sexually abstinent." He adds that we are + not justified in describing all extra-marital sexual intercourse + as unchaste, for, if we do so, we shall be compelled to regard + nearly all men, and some very estimable women, as unchaste. He + rightly insists that in this matter we must apply the same rule + to women as to men, and he points out that even when it involves + what may be technically adultery sexual intercourse is not + necessarily unchaste. He takes the case of a girl who, at + eighteen, when still mentally immature, is married to a man with + whom she finds it impossible to live and a separation + consequently occurs, although a divorce may be impossible to + obtain. If she now falls passionately in love with a man her love + may be entirely chaste, though it involves what is technically + adultery. + +In thus understanding asceticism and chastity, and their beneficial +functions in life, we see that they occupy a place midway between the +artificially exaggerated position they once held and that to which they +were degraded by the inevitable reaction of total indifference or actual +hostility which followed. Asceticism and chastity are not rigid +categorical imperatives; they are useful means to desirable ends; they are +wise and beautiful arts. They demand our estimation, but not our +over-estimation. For in over-estimating them, it is too often forgotten, +we over-estimate the sexual instinct. The instinct of sex is indeed +extremely important. Yet it has not that all-embracing and supereminent +importance which some, even of those who fight against it, are accustomed +to believe. That artificially magnified conception of the sexual impulse +is fortified by the artificial emphasis placed upon asceticism. We may +learn the real place of the sexual impulse in learning how we may +reasonably and naturally view the restraints on that impulse. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[69] For Blake and for Shelley, as well as, it may be added, for Hinton, +chastity, as Todhunter remarks in his _Study of Shelley_, is "a type of +submission to the actual, a renunciation of the infinite, and is therefore +hated by them. The chaste man, i.e., the man of prudence and self-control, +is the man who has lost the nakedness of his primitive innocence." + +[70] For evidence of the practices of savages in this matter, see Appendix +_A_ to the third volume of these _Studies_, "The Sexual Instinct in +Savages." Cf. also Chs. IV and VII of Westermarck's _History of Human +Marriage_, and also Chs. XXXVIII and XLI of the same author's _Origin and +Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. ii; Frazer's _Golden Bough_ contains +much bearing on this subject, as also Crawley's _Mystic Rose_. + +[71] See, e.g., Westermarck, _Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_, +vol. ii, pp. 412 et seq. + +[72] Thus an old Maori declared, a few years ago, that the decline of his +race has been entirely due to the loss of the ancient religious faith in +the _tabu_. "For," said he (I quote from an Auckland newspaper), "in the +olden-time our _tapu_ ramified the whole social system. The head, the +hair, spots where apparitions appeared, places which the _tohungas_ +proclaimed as sacred, we have forgotten and disregarded. Who nowadays +thinks of the sacredness of the head? See when the kettle boils, the young +man jumps up, whips the cap off his head, and uses it for a kettle-holder. +Who nowadays but looks on with indifference when the barber of the +village, if he be near the fire, shakes the loose hair off his cloth into +it, and the joke and the laughter goes on as if no sacred operation had +just been concluded. Food is consumed on places which, in bygone days, it +dared not even be carried over." + +[73] Thus, long before Christian monks arose, the ascetic life of the +cloister on very similar lines existed in Egypt in the worship of Serapis +(Dill, _Roman Society_, p. 79). + +[74] At night, in the baptistry, with lamps dimly burning, the women were +stripped even of their tunics, plunged three times in the pool, then +anointed, dressed in white, and kissed. + +[75] Thus Jerome, in his letter to Eustochium, refers to those couples who +"share the same room, often even the same bed, and call us suspicious if +we draw any conclusions," while Cyprian (_Epistola_, 86) is unable to +approve of those men he hears of, one a deacon, who live in familiar +intercourse with virgins, even sleeping in the same bed with them, for, he +declares, the feminine sex is weak and youth is wanton. + +[76] Perpetua (_Acta Sanctorum_, March 7) is termed by Hort and Mayor +"that fairest flower in the garden of post-Apostolic Christendom." She was +not, however, a virgin, but a young mother with a baby at her breast. + +[77] The strength of early Christian asceticism lay in its spontaneous and +voluntary character. When, in the ninth century, the Carlovingians +attempted to enforce monastic and clerical celibacy, the result was a +great outburst of unchastity and crime; nunneries became brothels, nuns +were frequently guilty of infanticide, monks committed unspeakable +abominations, the regular clergy formed incestuous relations with their +nearest female relatives (Lea, _History of Sacerdotal Celibacy_, vol. i, +pp, 155 et seq.). + +[78] Sénancour, _De l'Amour_, vol. ii, p. 233. Islam has placed much less +stress on chastity than Christianity, but practically, it would appear, +there is often more regard for chastity under Mohammedan rule than under +Christian rule. Thus it is stated by "Viator" (_Fortnightly Review_, Dec., +1908) that formerly, under Turkish Moslem rule, it was impossible to buy +the virtue of women in Bosnia, but that now, under the Christian rule of +Austria, it is everywhere possible to buy women near the Austrian +frontier. + +[79] The basis of this feeling was strengthened when it was shown by +scholars that the physical virtue of "virginity" had been masquerading +under a false name. To remain a virgin seems to have meant at the first, +among peoples of early Aryan culture, by no means to take a vow of +chastity, but to refuse to submit to the yoke of patriarchal marriage. The +women who preferred to stand outside marriage were "virgins," even though +mothers of large families, and Æschylus speaks of the Amazons as +"virgins," while in Greek the child of an unmarried girl was always "the +virgin's son." The history of Artemis, the most primitive of Greek +deities, is instructive from this point of view. She was originally only +virginal in the sense that she rejected marriage, being the goddess of a +nomadic and matriarchal hunting people who had not yet adopted marriage, +and she was the goddess of childbirth, worshipped with orgiastic dances +and phallic emblems. It was by a late transformation that Artemis became +the goddess of chastity (Farnell, _Cults of the Greek States_, vol. ii, +pp. 442 et seq.; Sir W.M. Ramsay, _Cities of Phrygia_, vol. i, p. 96; Paul +Lafargue, "Les Mythes Historiques," _Revue des Idées_, Dec., 1904). + +[80] See, e.g., Nicomachean Ethics, Bk. iii, Ch. XIII. + +[81] _De Civitate Dei_, lib. xv, cap. XX. A little further on (lib. xvi, +cap. XXV) he refers to Abraham as a man able to use women as a man should, +his wife temperately, his concubine compliantly, neither immoderately. + +[82] _Summa_, Migne's edition, vol. iii, qu. 154, art. I. + +[83] See the Study of Modesty in the first volume of these _Studies_. + +[84] The majority of chaste youths, remarks an acute critic of modern life +(Hellpach, _Nervosität und Kultur_, p. 175), are merely actuated by +traditional principles, or by shyness, fear of venereal infections, lack +of self-confidence, want of money, very seldom by any consideration for a +future wife, and that indeed would be a tragi-comic error, for a woman +lays no importance on intact masculinity. Moreover, he adds, the chaste +man is unable to choose a wife wisely, and it is among teachers and +clergymen--the chastest class--that most unhappy marriages are made. +Milton had already made this fact an argument for facility of divorce. + +[85] "In eating," said Hinton, "we have achieved the task of combining +pleasure with an absence of 'lust.' The problem for man and woman is so to +use and possess the sexual passion as to make it the minister to higher +things, with no restraint on it but that. It is essentially connected with +things of the spiritual order, and would naturally revolve round them. To +think of it as merely bodily is a mistake." + +[86] See "Analysis of the Sexual Impulse," and Appendix, "The Sexual +Instinct in Savages," in vol. iii of these _Studies_. + +[87] I have elsewhere discussed more at length the need in modern +civilized life of a natural and sincere asceticism (see _Affirmations_, +1898) "St. Francis and Others." + +[88] _Der Wille zur Macht_, p. 392. + +[89] At the age of twenty-five, when he had already produced much fine +work, Mozart wrote in his letters that he had never touched a woman, +though he longed for love and marriage. He could not afford to marry, he +would not seduce an innocent girl, a venial relation was repulsive to him. + +[90] Reibmayr, _Die Entwicklungsgeschichte des Talentes und Genies._, Bd. +i, p. 437. + +[91] We may exclude altogether, it is scarcely necessary to repeat, the +quality of virginity--that is to say, the possession of an intact +hymen--since this is a merely physical quality with no necessary ethical +relationships. The demand for virginity in women is, for the most part, +either the demand for a better marketable article, or for a more powerful +stimulant to masculine desire. Virginity involves no moral qualities in +its possessor. Chastity and asceticism, on the other hand, are meaningless +terms, except as demands made by the spirit on itself or on the body it +controls. + + + + +CHAPTER VI. + +THE PROBLEM OF SEXUAL ABSTINENCE. + +The Influence of Tradition--The Theological Conception of Lust--Tendency +of These Influences to Degrade Sexual Morality--Their Result in Creating +the Problem of Sexual Abstinence--The Protests Against Sexual +Abstinence--Sexual Abstinence and Genius--Sexual Abstinence in Women--The +Advocates of Sexual Abstinence--Intermediate Attitude--Unsatisfactory +Nature of the Whole Discussion--Criticism of the Conception of Sexual +Abstinence--Sexual Abstinence as Compared to Abstinence from Food--No +Complete Analogy--The Morality of Sexual Abstinence Entirely Negative--Is +It the Physician's Duty to Advise Extra-Conjugal Sexual +Intercourse?--Opinions of Those Who Affirm or Deny This Duty--The +Conclusion Against Such Advice--The Physician Bound by the Social and +Moral Ideas of His Age--The Physician as Reformer--Sexual Abstinence and +Sexual Hygiene--Alcohol--The Influence of Physical and Mental +Exercise--The Inadequacy of Sexual Hygiene in This Field--The Unreal +Nature of the Conception of Sexual Abstinence--The Necessity of Replacing +It by a More Positive Ideal. + + +When we look at the matter from a purely abstract or even purely +biological point of view, it might seem that in deciding that asceticism +and chastity are of high value for the personal life we have said all that +is necessary to say. That, however, is very far from being the case. We +soon realize here, as at every point in the practical application of +sexual psychology, that it is not sufficient to determine the abstractly +right course along biological lines. We have to harmonize our biological +demands with social demands. We are ruled not only by natural instincts +but by inherited traditions, that in the far past were solidly based on +intelligible grounds, and that even still, by the mere fact of their +existence, exert a force which we cannot and ought not to ignore. + +In discussing the valuation of the sexual impulse we found that we had +good ground for making a very high estimate of love. In discussing +chastity and asceticism we found that they also are highly to be valued. +And we found that, so far from any contradiction being here involved, +love and chastity are intertwined in all their finest developments, and +that there is thus a perfect harmony in apparent opposition. But when we +come to consider the matter in detail, in its particular personal +applications, we find that a new factor asserts itself. We find that our +inherited social and religious traditions exert a pressure, all on one +side, which makes it impossible to place the relations of love and +chastity simply on the basis of biology and reason. We are confronted at +the outset by our traditions. On the one side these traditions have +weighted the word "lust"--considered as expressing all the manifestations +of the sexual impulse which are outside marriage or which fail to have +marriage as their direct and ostentatious end--with deprecatory and +sinister meanings. And on the other side these traditions have created the +problem of "sexual abstinence," which has nothing to do with either +asceticism or chastity as these have been defined in the previous chapter, +but merely with the purely negative pressure on the sexual impulse, +exerted, independently of the individual's wishes, by his religious and +social environment. + +The theological conception of "lust," or "libido," as sin, followed +logically the early Christian conception of "the flesh," and became +inevitable as soon as that conception was firmly established. Not only, +indeed, had early Christian ideals a degrading influence on the estimation +of sexual desire _per se_, but they tended to depreciate generally the +dignity of the sexual relationship. If a man made sexual advances to a +woman outside marriage, and thus brought her within the despised circle of +"lust," he was injuring her because he was impairing her religious and +moral value.[92] The only way he could repair the damage done was by +paying her money or by entering into a forced and therefore probably +unfortunate marriage with her. That is to say that sexual relationships +were, by the ecclesiastical traditions, placed on a pecuniary basis, on +the same level as prostitution. By its well-meant intentions to support +the theological morality which had developed on an ascetic basis, the +Church was thus really undermining even that form of sexual relationship +which it sanctified. + + Gregory the Great ordered that the seducer of a virgin shall + marry her, or, in case of refusal, be severely punished + corporally and shut up in a monastery to perform penance. + According to other ecclesiastical rules, the seducer of a virgin, + though held to no responsibility by the civil forum, was required + to marry her, or to find a husband and furnish a dowry for her. + Such rules had their good side, and were especially equitable + when seduction had been accomplished by deceit. But they largely + tended in practice to subordinate all questions of sexual + morality to a money question. The reparation to the woman, also, + largely became necessary because the ecclesiastical conception of + lust caused her value to be depreciated by contact with lust, and + the reparation might be said to constitute a part of penance. + Aquinas held that lust, in however slight a degree, is a mortal + sin, and most of the more influential theologians took a view + nearly or quite as rigid. Some, however, held that a certain + degree of delectation is possible in these matters without mortal + sin, or asserted, for instance, that to feel the touch of a soft + and warm hand is not mortal sin so long as no sexual feeling is + thereby aroused. Others, however, held that such distinctions are + impossible, and that all pleasures of this kind are sinful. Tomás + Sanchez endeavored at much length to establish rules for the + complicated problems of delectation that thus arose, but he was + constrained to admit that no rules are really possible, and that + such matters must be left to the judgment of a prudent man. At + that point casuistry dissolves and the modern point of view + emerges (see, e.g., Lea, _History of Auricular Confession_, vol. + ii, pp. 57, 115, 246, etc.). + +Even to-day the influence of the old traditions of the Church still +unconsciously survives among us. That is inevitable as regards religious +teachers, but it is found also in men of science, even in Protestant +countries. The result is that quite contradictory dogmas are found side by +side, even in the same writer. On the one hand, the manifestations of the +sexual impulse are emphatically condemned as both unnecessary and evil; on +the other hand, marriage, which is fundamentally (whatever else it may +also be) a manifestation of the sexual impulse, receives equally emphatic +approval as the only proper and moral form of living.[93] There can be no +reasonable doubt whatever that it is to the surviving and pervading +influence of the ancient traditional theological conception of _libido_ +that we must largely attribute the sharp difference of opinions among +physicians on the question of sexual abstinence and the otherwise +unnecessary acrimony with which these opinions have sometimes been stated. + +On the one side, we find the emphatic statement that sexual intercourse is +necessary and that health cannot be maintained unless the sexual +activities are regularly exercised. + +"All parts of the body which are developed for a definite use are kept in +health, and in the enjoyment of fair growth and of long youth, by the +fulfilment of that use, and by their appropriate exercise in the +employment to which they are accustomed." In that statement, which occurs +in the great Hippocratic treatise "On the Joints," we have the classic +expression of the doctrine which in ever varying forms has been taught by +all those who have protested against sexual abstinence. When we come down +to the sixteenth century outbreak of Protestantism we find that Luther's +revolt against Catholicism was in part a protest against the teaching of +sexual abstinence. "He to whom the gift of continence is not given," he +said in his _Table Talk_, "will not become chaste by fasting and vigils. +For my own part I was not excessively tormented [though elsewhere he +speaks of the great fires of lust by which he had been troubled], but all +the same the more I macerated myself the more I burnt." And three hundred +years later, Bebel, the would-be nineteenth century Luther of a different +Protestantism, took the same attitude towards sexual abstinence, while +Hinton the physician and philosopher, living in a land of rigid sexual +conventionalism and prudery, and moved by keen sympathy for the sufferings +he saw around him, would break into passionate sarcasm when confronted by +the doctrine of sexual abstinence. "There are innumerable ills--terrible +destructions, madness even, the ruin of lives--for which the embrace of +man and woman would be a remedy. No one thinks of questioning it. +Terrible evils and a remedy in a delight and joy! And man has chosen so to +muddle his life that he must say: 'There, that would be a remedy, but I +cannot use it. I _must be virtuous!_'" + + If we confine ourselves to modern times and to fairly precise + medical statements, we find in Schurig's _Spermatologia_ (1720, + pp. 274 et seq.), not only a discussion of the advantages of + moderate sexual intercourse in a number of disorders, as + witnessed by famous authorities, but also a list of + results--including anorexia, insanity, impotence, epilepsy, even + death--which were believed to have been due to sexual abstinence. + This extreme view of the possible evils of sexual abstinence + seems to have been part of the Renaissance traditions of medicine + stiffened by a certain opposition between religion and science. + It was still rigorously stated by Lallemand early in the + nineteenth century. Subsequently, the medical statements of the + evil results of sexual abstinence became more temperate and + measured, though still often pronounced. Thus Gyurkovechky + believes that these results may be as serious as those of sexual + excess. Krafft-Ebing showed that sexual abstinence could produce + a state of general nervous excitement (_Jahrbuch für + Psychiatrie_, Bd. viii, Heft 1 and 2). Schrenck-Notzing regards + sexual abstinence as a cause of extreme sexual hyperæsthesia and + of various perversions (in a chapter on sexual abstinence in his + _Kriminalpsychologische und Psychopathologische Studien_, 1902, + pp. 174-178). He records in illustration the case of a man of + thirty-six who had masturbated in moderation as a boy, but + abandoned the practice entirely, on moral grounds, twenty years + ago, and has never had sexual intercourse, feeling proud to enter + marriage a chaste man, but now for years has suffered greatly + from extreme sexual hyperæsthesia and concentration of thought on + sexual subjects, notwithstanding a strong will and the resolve + not to masturbate or indulge in illicit intercourse. In another + case a vigorous and healthy man, not inverted, and with strong + sexual desires, who remained abstinent up to marriage, suffers + from psychic impotence, and his wife remains a virgin + notwithstanding all her affection and caresses. Ord considered + that sexual abstinence might produce many minor evils. "Most of + us," he wrote (_British Medical Journal_, Aug. 2, 1884) "have, no + doubt, been consulted by men, chaste in act, who are tormented by + sexual excitement. They tell one stories of long-continued local + excitement, followed by intense muscular weariness, or by severe + aching pain in the back and legs. In some I have had complaints + of swelling and stiffness in the legs, and of pains in the + joints, particularly in the knees;" he gives the case of a man + who suffered after prolonged chastity from inflammatory + conditions of knees and was only cured by marriage. Pearce + Gould, it may be added, finds that "excessive ungratified sexual + desire" is one of the causes of acute orchitis. Remondino ("Some + Observations on Continence as a Factor in Health and Disease," + _Pacific Medical Journal_, Jan., 1900) records the case of a + gentleman of nearly seventy who, during the prolonged illness of + his wife, suffered from frequent and extreme priapism, causing + insomnia. He was very certain that his troubles were not due to + his continence, but all treatment failed and there were no + spontaneous emissions. At last Remondino advised him to, as he + expresses it, "imitate Solomon." He did so, and all the symptoms + at once disappeared. This case is of special interest, because + the symptoms were not accompanied by any conscious sexual desire. + It is no longer generally believed that sexual abstinence tends + to produce insanity, and the occasional cases in which prolonged + and intense sexual desire in young women is followed by insanity + will usually be found to occur on a basis of hereditary + degeneration. It is held by many authorities, however, that minor + mental troubles, of a more or less vague character, as well as + neurasthenia and hysteria, are by no means infrequently due to + sexual abstinence. Thus Freud, who has carefully studied + angstneurosis, the obsession of anxiety, finds that it is a + result of sexual abstinence, and may indeed be considered as a + vicarious form of such abstinence (Freud, _Sammlung Kleiner + Schriften zur Neurosenlehre_, 1906, pp. 76 et seq.). + + The whole subject of sexual abstinence has been discussed at + length by Nyström, of Stockholm, in _Das Geschlechtsleben und + seine Gesetze_, Ch. III. He concludes that it is desirable that + continence should be preserved as long as possible in order to + strengthen the physical health and to develop the intelligence + and character. The doctrine of permanent sexual abstinence, + however, he regards as entirely false, except in the case of a + small number of religious or philosophic persons. "Complete + abstinence during a long period of years cannot be borne without + producing serious results both on the body and the mind.... + Certainly, a young man should repress his sexual impulses as long + as possible and avoid everything that may artificially act as a + sexual stimulant. If, however, he has done so, and still suffers + from unsatisfied normal sexual desires, and if he sees no + possibility of marriage within a reasonable time, no one should + dare to say that he is committing a sin if, with mutual + understanding, he enters into sexual relations with a woman + friend, or forms temporary sexual relationships, provided, that + is, that he takes the honorable precaution of begetting no + children, unless his partner is entirely willing to become a + mother, and he is prepared to accept all the responsibilities of + fatherhood." In an article of later date ("Die Einwirkung der + Sexuellen Abstinenz auf die Gesundheit," _Sexual-Probleme_, July, + 1908) Nyström vigorously sums up his views. He includes among the + results of sexual abstinence orchitis, frequent involuntary + seminal emissions, impotence, neurasthenia, depression, and a + great variety of nervous disturbances of vaguer character, + involving diminished power of work, limited enjoyment of life, + sleeplessness, nervousness, and pre-occupation with sexual + desires and imaginations. More especially there is heightened + sexual irritability with erections, or even seminal emissions on + the slightest occasion, as on gazing at an attractive woman or in + social intercourse with her, or in the presence of works of art + representing naked figures. Nyström has had the opportunity of + investigating and recording ninety cases of persons who have + presented these and similar symptoms as the result, he believes, + of sexual abstinence. He has published some of these cases + (_Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft_, Oct., 1908), but it may be + added that Rohleder ("Die Abstinentia Sexualis," ib., Nov., 1908) + has criticized these cases, and doubts whether any of them are + conclusive. Rohleder believes that the bad results of sexual + abstinence are never permanent, and also that no anatomically + pathological states (such as orchitis) can be thereby produced. + But he considers, nevertheless, that even incomplete and + temporary sexual abstinence may produce fairly serious results, + and especially neurasthenic disturbances of various kinds, such + as nervous irritability, anxiety, depression, disinclination for + work; also diurnal emissions, premature ejaculations, and even a + state approaching satyriasis; and in women hysteria, + hystero-epilepsy, and nymphomaniacal manifestations; all these + symptoms may, however, he believes, be cured when the abstinence + ceases. + + Many advocates of sexual abstinence have attached importance to + the fact that men of great genius have apparently been completely + continent throughout life. This is certainly true (see _ante_, p. + 173). But this fact can scarcely be invoked as an argument in + favor of the advantages of sexual abstinence among the ordinary + population. J.F. Scott selects Jesus, Newton, Beethoven, and Kant + as "men of vigor and mental acumen who have lived chastely as + bachelors." It cannot, however, be said that Dr. Scott has been + happy in the four figures whom he has been able to select from + the whole history of human genius as examples of life-long sexual + abstinence. We know little with absolute certainty of Jesus, and + even if we reject the diagnosis which Professor Binet-Sanglé (in + his _Folie de Jesus_) has built up from a minute study of the + Gospels, there are many reasons why we should refrain from + emphasizing the example of his sexual abstinence; Newton, apart + from his stupendous genius in a special field, was an incomplete + and unsatisfactory human being who ultimately reached a condition + very like insanity; Beethoven was a thoroughly morbid and + diseased man, who led an intensely unhappy existence; Kant, from + first to last, was a feeble valetudinarian. It would probably be + difficult to find a healthy normal man who would voluntarily + accept the life led by any of these four, even as the price of + their fame. J.A. Godfrey (_Science of Sex_, pp. 139-147) + discusses at length the question whether sexual abstinence is + favorable to ordinary intellectual vigor, deciding that it is + not, and that we cannot argue from the occasional sexual + abstinence of men of genius, who are often abnormally + constituted, and physically below the average, to the normally + developed man. Sexual abstinence, it may be added, is by no means + always a favorable sign, even in men who stand intellectually + above the average. "I have not obtained the impression," remarks + Freud (_Sexual-Probleme_, March, 1908), "that sexual abstinence + is helpful to energetic and independent men of action or original + thinkers, to courageous liberators or reformers. The sexual + conduct of a man is often symbolic of his whole method of + reaction in the world. The man who energetically grasps the + object of his sexual desire may be trusted to show a similarly + relentless energy in the pursuit of other aims." + +Many, though not all, who deny that prolonged sexual abstinence is +harmless, include women in this statement. There are some authorities +indeed who believe that, whether or not any conscious sexual desire is +present, sexual abstinence is less easily tolerated by women than by +men.[94] + + Cabanis, in his famous and pioneering work, _Rapports du Physique + et du Moral_, said in 1802, that women not only bear sexual + excess more easily than men, but sexual privations with more + difficulty, and a cautious and experienced observer of to-day, + Löwenfeld (_Sexualleben und Nervenleiden_, 1899, p. 53), while + not considering that normal women bear sexual abstinence less + easily than men, adds that this is not the case with women of + neuropathic disposition, who suffer much more from this cause, + and either masturbate when sexual intercourse is impossible or + fall into hystero-neurasthenic states. Busch stated (_Das + Geschlechtsleben des Weibes_, 1839, vol. i, pp. 69, 71) that not + only is the working of the sexual functions in the organism + stronger in women than in men, but that the bad results of sexual + abstinence are more marked in women. Sir Benjamin Brodie said + long ago that the evils of continence to women are perhaps + greater than those of incontinence, and to-day Hammer (_Die + Gesundheitlichen Gefahren der Geschlechtlichen Enthaltsamkeit_, + 1904) states that, so far as reasons of health are concerned, + sexual abstinence is no more to be recommended to women than to + men. Nyström is of the same opinion, though he thinks that women + bear sexual abstinence better than men, and has discussed this + special question at length in a section of his _Geschlechtsleben + und seine Gesetze_. He agrees with the experienced Erb that a + large number of completely chaste women of high character, and + possessing distinguished qualities of mind and heart, are more or + less disordered through their sexual abstinence; this is + specially often the case with women married to impotent men, + though it is frequently not until they approach the age of + thirty, Nyström remarks, that women definitely realize their + sexual needs. + + A great many women who are healthy, chaste, and modest, feel at + times such powerful sexual desire that they can scarcely resist + the temptation to go into the street and solicit the first man + they meet. Not a few such women, often of good breeding, do + actually offer themselves to men with whom they may have perhaps + only the slightest acquaintance. Routh records such cases + (_British Gynæcological Journal_, Feb., 1887), and most men have + met with them at some time. When a woman of high moral character + and strong passions is subjected for a very long period to the + perpetual strain of such sexual craving, especially if combined + with love for a definite individual, a chain of evil results, + physical and moral, may be set up, and numerous distinguished + physicians have recorded such cases, which terminated at once in + complete recovery as soon as the passion was gratified. Lauvergne + long since described a case. A fairly typical case of this kind + was reported in detail by Brachet (_De l'Hypochondrie_, p. 69) + and embodied by Griesinger in his classic work on "Mental + Pathology." It concerned a healthy married lady, twenty-six years + old, having three children. A visiting acquaintance completely + gained her affections, but she strenuously resisted the seducing + influence, and concealed the violent passion that he had aroused + in her. Various serious symptoms, physical and mental, slowly + began to appear, and she developed what seemed to be signs of + consumption. Six months' stay in the south of France produced no + improvement, either in the bodily or mental symptoms. On + returning home she became still worse. Then she again met the + object of her passion, succumbed, abandoned her husband and + children, and fled with him. Six months later she was scarcely + recognizable; beauty, freshness and plumpness had taken the place + of emaciation; while the symptoms of consumption and all other + troubles had entirely disappeared. A somewhat similar case is + recorded by Camill Lederer, of Vienna (_Monatsschrift für + Harnkrankheiten und Sexuelle Hygiene_, 1906, Heft 3). A widow, a + few months after her husband's death, began to cough, with + symptoms of bronchial catarrh, but no definite signs of lung + disease. Treatment and change of climate proved entirely + unavailing to effect a cure. Two years later, as no signs of + disease had appeared in the lungs, though the symptoms continued, + she married again. Within a very few weeks all symptoms had + disappeared, and she was entirely fresh and well. + + Numerous distinguished gynæcologists have recorded their belief + that sexual excitement is a remedy for various disorders of the + sexual system in women, and that abstinence is a cause of such + disorders. Matthews Duncan said that sexual excitement is the + only remedy for amenorrhoea; "the only emmenagogue medicine that + I know of," he wrote (_Medical Times_, Feb. 2, 1884), "is not to + be found in the Pharmacopoeia: it is erotic excitement. Of the + value of erotic excitement there is no doubt." Anstie, in his + work on _Neuralgia_, refers to the beneficial effect of sexual + intercourse on dysmenorrhoea, remarking that the necessity of the + full natural exercise of the sexual function is shown by the + great improvement in such cases after marriage, and especially + after childbirth. (It may be remarked that not all authorities + find dysmenorrhoea benefited by marriage, and some consider that + the disease is often thereby aggravated; see, e.g., Wythe Cook, + _American Journal Obstetrics_, Dec., 1893.) The distinguished + gynæcologist, Tilt, at a somewhat earlier date (_On Uterine and + Ovarian Inflammation_, 1862, p. 309), insisted on the evil + results of sexual abstinence in producing ovarian irritation, and + perhaps subacute ovaritis, remarking that this was specially + pronounced in young widows, and in prostitutes placed in + penitentiaries. Intense desire, he pointed out, determines + organic movements resembling those required for the gratification + of the desire. These burning desires, which can only be quenched + by their legitimate satisfaction, are still further heightened by + the erotic influence of thoughts, books, pictures, music, which + are often even more sexually stimulating than social intercourse + with men, but the excitement thus produced is not relieved by + that natural collapse which should follow a state of vital + turgescence. After referring to the biological facts which show + the effect of psychic influences on the formative powers of the + ovario-uterine organs in animals, Tilt continues: "I may fairly + infer that similar incitements on the mind of females may have a + stimulating effect on the organs of ovulation. I have frequently + known menstruation to be irregular, profuse, or abnormal in type + during courtship in women in whom nothing similar had previously + occurred, and that this protracted the treatment of chronic + ovaritis and of uterine inflammation." Bonnifield, of Cincinnati + (_Medical Standard_, Dec., 1896), considers that unsatisfied + sexual desire is an important cause of catarrhal endometritis. It + is well known that uterine fibroids bear a definite relation to + organic sexual activity, and that sexual abstinence, more + especially the long-continued deprivation of pregnancy, is a very + important cause of the disease. This is well shown by an analysis + by A.E. Giles (_Lancet_, March 2, 1907) of one hundred and fifty + cases. As many as fifty-six of these cases, more than a third, + were unmarried women, though nearly all were over thirty years of + age. Of the ninety-four married women, thirty-four had never been + pregnant; of those who had been pregnant, thirty-six had not been + so for at least ten years. Thus eighty-four per cent, had either + not been pregnant at all, or had had no pregnancy for at least + ten years. It is, therefore, evident that deprivation of sexual + function, whether or not involving abstinence from sexual + intercourse, is an important cause of uterine fibroid tumors. + Balls-Headley, of Victoria (_Evolution of the Diseases of Women_, + 1894, and "Etiology of Diseases of Female Genital Organs," + Allbutt and Playfair, _System of Gynæcology_,) believes that + unsatisfied sexual desire is a factor in very many disorders of + the sexual organs in women. "My views," he writes in a private + letter, "are founded on a really special gynæcological practice + of twenty years, during which I have myself taken about seven + thousand most careful records. The normal woman is sexually + well-formed and her sexual feelings require satisfaction in the + direction of the production of the next generation, but under the + restrictive and now especially abnormal conditions of + civilization some women undergo hereditary atrophy, and the + uterus and sexual feelings are feeble; in others of good average + local development the feeling is in restraint; in others the + feelings, as well as the organs, are strong, and if normal use be + withheld evils ensue. Bearing in mind these varieties of + congenital development in relation to the respective condition of + virginity, or sterile or parous married life, the mode of + occurrence and of progress of disease grows on the physician's + mind, and there is no more occasion for bewilderment than to the + mathematician studying conic sections, when his knowledge has + grown from the basis of the science. The problem is suggested: + Has a crowd of unassociated diseases fallen as through a sieve on + woman, or have these affections almost necessarily ensued from + the circumstances of her unnatural environment?" It may be added + that Kisch (_Sexual Life of Woman_), while protesting against any + exaggerated estimate of the effects of sexual abstinence, + considers that in women it may result, not only in numerous local + disorders, but also in nervous disturbance, hysteria, and even + insanity, while in neurasthenic women "regulated sexual + intercourse has an actively beneficial effect which is often + striking." + + It is important to remark that the evil results of sexual + abstinence in women, in the opinion of many of those who insist + upon their importance, are by no means merely due to unsatisfied + sexual desire. They may be pronounced even when the woman herself + has not the slightest consciousness of sexual needs. This was + clearly pointed out forty years ago by the sagacious Anstie (_op. + cit._) In women, especially, he remarks, "a certain restless + hyperactivity of mind, and perhaps of body also, seems to be the + expression of Nature's unconscious resentment of the _neglect of + sexual functions_." Such women, he adds, have kept themselves + free from masturbation "at the expense of a perpetual and almost + fierce activity of mind and muscle." Anstie had found that some + of the worst cases of the form of nervosity and neurasthenia + which he termed "spinal irritation," often accompanied by + irritable stomach and anæmia, get well on marriage. "There can be + no question," he continues, "that a very large proportion of + these cases in single women (who form by far the greater number + of subjects of spinal irritation) are due to this conscious or + unconscious irritation kept up by an unsatisfied sexual want. It + is certain that very many young persons (women more especially) + are tormented by the irritability of the sexual organs without + having the least consciousness of sexual desire, and present the + sad spectacle of a _vie manquée_ without ever knowing the true + source of the misery which incapacitates them for all the active + duties of life. It is a singular fact that in occasional + instances one may even see two sisters, inheriting the same kind + of nervous organization, both tormented with the symptoms of + spinal irritation and both probably suffering from repressed + sexual functions, but of whom one shall be pure-minded and + entirely unconscious of the real source of her troubles, while + the other is a victim to conscious and fruitless sexual + irritation." In this matter Anstie may be regarded as a + forerunner of Freud, who has developed with great subtlety and + analytic power the doctrine of the transformation of repressed + sexual instinct in women into morbid forms. He considers that the + nervosity of to-day is largely due to the injurious action on the + sexual life of that repression of natural instincts on which our + civilization is built up. (Perhaps the clearest brief statement + of Freud's views on the matter is to be found in a very + suggestive article, "Die 'Kulturelle' Sexualmoral und die Moderne + Nervosität," in _Sexual-Probleme_, March, 1908, reprinted in the + second series of Freud's _Sammlung Kleiner Schriften zur + Neurosenlehre_, 1909). We possess the aptitude, he says, of + sublimating and transforming our sexual activities into other + activities of a psychically related character, but non-sexual. + This process cannot, however, be carried out to an unlimited + extent any more than can the conversion of heat into mechanical + work in our machines. A certain amount of direct sexual + satisfaction is for most organizations indispensable, and the + renunciation of this individually varying amount is punished by + manifestations which we are compelled to regard as morbid. The + process of sublimation, under the influence of civilization, + leads both to sexual perversions and to psycho-neuroses. These + two conditions are closely related, as Freud views the process of + their development; they stand to each other as positive and + negative, sexual perversions being the positive pole and + psycho-neuroses the negative. It often happens, he remarks, that + a brother may be sexually perverse, while his sister, with a + weaker sexual temperament, is a neurotic whose symptoms are a + transformation of her brother's perversion; while in many + families the men are immoral, the women pure and refined but + highly nervous. In the case of women who have no defect of sexual + impulse there is yet the same pressure of civilized morality + pushing them into neurotic states. It is a terribly serious + injustice, Freud remarks, that the civilized standard of sexual + life is the same for all persons, because though some, by their + organization, may easily accept it, for others it involves the + most difficult psychic sacrifices. The unmarried girl, who has + become nervously weak, cannot be advised to seek relief in + marriage, for she must be strong in order to "bear" marriage, + while we urge a man on no account to marry a girl who is not + strong. The married woman who has experienced the deceptions of + marriage has usually no way of relief left but by abandoning her + virtue. "The more strenuously she has been educated, and the more + completely she has been subjected to the demands of civilization, + the more she fears this way of escape, and in the conflict + between her desires and her sense of duty, she also seeks + refuge--in neurosis. Nothing protects her virtue so surely as + disease." Taking a still wider view of the influence of the + narrow "civilized" conception of sexual morality on women, Freud + finds that it is not limited to the production of neurotic + conditions; it affects the whole intellectual aptitude of women. + Their education denies them any occupation with sexual problems, + although such problems are so full of interest to them, for it + inculcates the ancient prejudice that any curiosity in such + matters is unwomanly and a proof of wicked inclinations. They are + thus terrified from thinking, and knowledge is deprived of worth. + The prohibition to think extends, automatically and inevitably, + far beyond the sexual sphere. "I do not believe," Freud + concludes, "that there is any opposition between intellectual + work and sexual activity such as was supposed by Möbius. I am of + opinion that the unquestionable fact of the intellectual + inferiority of so many women is due to the inhibition of thought + imposed upon them for the purpose of sexual repression." + + It is only of recent years that this problem has been realized + and faced, though solitary thinkers, like Hinton, have been + keenly conscious of its existence; for "sorrowing virtue," as + Mrs. Ella Wheeler Wilcox puts it, "is more ashamed of its woes + than unhappy sin, because the world has tears for the latter and + only ridicule for the former." "It is an almost cynical trait of + our age," Hellpach wrote a few years ago, "that it is constantly + discussing the theme of prostitution, of police control, of the + age of consent, of the 'white slavery,' and passes over the moral + struggle of woman's soul without an attempt to answer her burning + questions." + +On the other hand we find medical writers not only asserting with much +moral fervor that sexual intercourse outside marriage is always and +altogether unnecessary, but declaring, moreover, the harmlessness or even +the advantages of sexual abstinence. + + Ribbing, the Swedish professor, in his _Hygiène Sexuelle_, + advocates sexual abstinence outside marriage, and asserts its + harmlessness. Gilles de la Tourette, Féré, and Augagneur in + France agree. In Germany Fürbringer (Senator and Kaminer, _Health + and Disease in Relation to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 228) asserts + that continence is possible and necessary, though admitting that + it may, however, mean serious mischief in exceptional cases. + Eulenburg (_Sexuale Neuropathie_, p. 14) doubts whether anyone, + who otherwise lived a reasonable life, ever became ill, or more + precisely neurasthenic, through sexual abstinence. Hegar, + replying to the arguments of Bebel in his well-known book on + women, denies that sexual abstinence can ever produce satyriasis + or nymphomania. Näcke, who has frequently discussed the problem + of sexual abstinence (e.g., _Archiv für Kriminal-Anthropologie_, + 1903, Heft 1, and _Sexual-Probleme_, June, 1908), maintains that + sexual abstinence can, at most, produce rare and slight + unfavorable results, and that it is no more likely to produce + insanity, even in predisposed individuals, than are the opposite + extremes of sexual excess and masturbation. He adds that, so far + as his own observations are concerned, the patients in asylums + suffer scarcely at all from their compulsory sexual abstinence. + + It is in England, however, that the virtues of sexual abstinence + have been most loudly and emphatically proclaimed, sometimes + indeed with considerable lack of cautious qualification. Acton, + in his _Reproductive Organs_, sets forth the traditional English + view, as well as Beale in his _Morality and the Moral Question_. + A more distinguished representative of the same view was Paget, + who, in his lecture on "Sexual Hypochondriasis," coupled sexual + intercourse with "theft or lying." Sir William Gowers (_Syphilis + and the Nervous System_, 1892, p. 126) also proclaims the + advantages of "unbroken chastity," more especially as a method of + avoiding syphilis. He is not hopeful, however, even as regards + his own remedy, for he adds: "We can trace small ground for hope + that the disease will thus be materially reduced." He would + still, however, preach chastity to the individual, and he does so + with all the ascetic ardor of a mediæval monk. "With all the + force that any knowledge I possess, and any authority I have, can + give, I assert that no man ever yet was in the slightest degree + or way the worse for continence or better for incontinence. From + the latter all are worse morally; a clear majority are worse + physically; and in no small number the result is, and ever will + be, utter physical shipwreck on one of the many rocks, sharp, + jagged-edged, which beset the way, or on one of the many beds of + festering slime which no care can possibly avoid." In America the + same view widely prevails, and Dr. J.F. Scott, in his + _Sexual-Instinct_ (second edition, 1908, Ch. III), argues very + vigorously and at great length in favor of sexual abstinence. He + will not even admit that there are two sides to the question, + though if that were the case, the length and the energy of his + arguments would be unnecessary. + + Among medical authorities who have discussed the question of + sexual abstinence at length it is not, indeed, usually possible + to find such unqualified opinions in its favor as those I have + quoted. There can be no doubt, however, that a large proportion + of physicians, not excluding prominent and distinguished + authorities, when casually confronted with the question whether + sexual abstinence is harmless, will at once adopt the obvious + path of least resistance and reply: Yes. In only a few cases will + they even make any qualification of this affirmative answer. This + tendency is very well illustrated by an inquiry made by Dr. + Ludwig Jacobsohn, of St. Petersburgh ("Die Sexuelle + Enthaltsamkeit im Lichte der Medizin," _St. Petersburger + Medicinische Wochenschrift_, March 17, 1907). He wrote to over + two hundred distinguished Russian and German professors of + physiology, neurology, psychiatry, etc., asking them if they + regarded sexual abstinence as harmless. The majority returned no + answer; eleven Russian and twenty-eight Germans replied, but four + of them merely said that "they had no personal experience," etc.; + there thus remained thirty-five. Of these E. Pflüger, of Bonn, + was skeptical of the advantage of any propaganda of abstinence: + "if all the authorities in the world declared the harmlessness of + abstinence that would have no influence on youth. Forces are here + in play that break through all obstacles." The harmlessness of + abstinence was affirmed by Kräpelin, Cramer, Gärtner, Tuczek, + Schottelius, Gaffky, Finkler, Selenew, Lassar, Seifert, Gruber; + the last, however, added that he knew very few abstinent young + men, and himself only considered abstinence good before full + development, and intercourse not dangerous in moderation even + before then. Brieger knew cases of abstinence without harmful + results, but himself thought that no general opinion could be + given. Jürgensen said that abstinence _in itself_ is not harmful, + but that in some cases intercourse exerts a more beneficial + influence. Hoffmann said that abstinence is harmless, adding that + though it certainly leads to masturbation, that is better than + gonorrhoea, to say nothing of syphilis, and is easily kept within + bounds. Strümpell replied that sexual abstinence is harmless, and + indirectly useful as preserving from the risk of venereal + disease, but that sexual intercourse, being normal, is always + more desirable. Hensen said that abstinence is not to be + unconditionally approved. Rumpf replied that abstinence was not + harmful for most before the age of thirty, but after that age + there was a tendency to mental obsessions, and marriage should + take place at twenty-five. Leyden also considered abstinence + harmless until towards thirty, when it leads to psychic + anomalies, especially states of anxiety, and a certain + affectation. Hein replied that abstinence is harmless for most, + but in some leads to hysterical manifestations and indirectly to + bad results from masturbation, while for the normal man + abstinence cannot be directly beneficial, since intercourse is + natural. Grützner thought that abstinence is almost never + harmful. Nescheda said it is harmless in itself, but harmful in + so far as it leads to unnatural modes of gratification. Neisser + believes that more prolonged abstinence than is now usual would + be beneficial, but admitted the sexual excitations of our + civilization; he added that of course he saw no harm for healthy + men in intercourse. Hoche replied that abstinence is quite + harmless in normal persons, but not always so in abnormal + persons. Weber thought it had a useful influence in increasing + will-power. Tarnowsky said it is good in early manhood, but + likely to be unfavorable after twenty-five. Orlow replied that, + especially in youth, it is harmless, and a man should be as + chaste as his wife. Popow said that abstinence is good at all + ages and preserves the energy. Blumenau said that in adult age + abstinence is neither normal nor beneficial, and generally leads + to masturbation, though not generally to nervous disorders; but + that even masturbation is better than syphilis. Tschiriew saw no + harm in abstinence up to thirty, and thought sexual weakness more + likely to follow excess than abstinence. Tschish regarded + abstinence as beneficial rather than harmful up to twenty-five or + twenty-eight, but thought it difficult to decide after that age + when nervous alterations seem to be caused. Darkschewitcz + regarded abstinence as harmless up to twenty-five. Fränkel said + it was harmless for most, but that for a considerable proportion + of people intercourse is a necessity. Erb's opinion is regarded + by Jacobsohn as standing alone; he placed the age below which + abstinence is harmless at twenty; after that age he regarded it + as injurious to health, seriously impeding work and capacity, + while in neurotic persons it leads to still more serious results. + Jacobsohn concludes that the general opinion of those answering + the inquiry may thus be expressed: "Youth should be abstinent. + Abstinence can in no way injure them; on the contrary, it is + beneficial. If our young people will remain abstinent and avoid + extra-conjugal intercourse they will maintain a high ideal of + love and preserve themselves from venereal diseases." + + The harmlessness of sexual abstinence was likewise affirmed in + America in a resolution passed by the American Medical + Association in 1906. The proposition thus formally accepted was + thus worded: "Continence is not incompatible with health." It + ought to be generally realized that abstract propositions of this + kind are worthless, because they mean nothing. Every sane person, + when confronted by the demand to boldly affirm or deny the + proposition, "Continence is not incompatible with health," is + bound to affirm it. He might firmly believe that continence is + incompatible with the health of most people, and that prolonged + continence is incompatible with anyone's health, and yet, if he + is to be honest in the use of language, it would be impossible + for him to deny the vague and abstract proposition that + "Continence is not incompatible with health." Such propositions + are therefore not only without value, but actually misleading. + + It is obvious that the more extreme and unqualified opinions in + favor of sexual abstinence are based not on medical, but on what + the writers regard as moral considerations. Moreover, as the same + writers are usually equally emphatic in regard to the advantages + of sexual intercourse in marriage, it is clear that they have + committed themselves to a contradiction. The same act, as Näcke + rightly points out, cannot become good or bad according as it is + performed in or out of marriage. There is no magic efficacy in a + few words pronounced by a priest or a government official. + + Remondino (loc. cit.) remarks that the authorities who have + committed themselves to declarations in favor of the + unconditional advantages of sexual abstinence tend to fall into + three errors: (1) they generalize unduly, instead of considering + each case individually, on its own merits; (2) they fail to + realize that human nature is influenced by highly mixed and + complex motives and cannot be assumed to be amenable only to + motives of abstract morality; (3) they ignore the great army of + masturbators and sexual perverts who make no complaint of sexual + suffering, but by maintaining a rigid sexual abstinence, so far + as normal relationships are concerned, gradually drift into + currents whence there is no return. + +Between those who unconditionally affirm or deny the harmlessness of +sexual abstinence we find an intermediate party of authorities whose +opinions are more qualified. Many of those who occupy this more guarded +position are men whose opinions carry much weight, and it is probable that +with them rather than with the more extreme advocates on either side the +greater measure of reason lies. So complex a question as this cannot be +adequately investigated merely in the abstract, and settled by an +unqualified negative or affirmative. It is a matter in which every case +requires its own special and personal consideration. + + "Where there is such a marked opposition of opinion truth is not + exclusively on one side," remarks Löwenfeld (_Sexualleben und + Nervenleiden_, second edition, p. 40). Sexual abstinence is + certainly often injurious to neuropathic persons. (This is now + believed by a large number of authorities, and was perhaps first + decisively stated by Krafft-Ebing, "Ueber Neurosen durch + Abstinenz," _Jahrbuch für Psychiatrie_, 1889, p. 1). Löwenfeld + finds no special proclivity to neurasthenia among the Catholic + clergy, and when it does occur, there is no reason to suppose a + sexual causation. "In healthy and not hereditarily neuropathic + men complete abstinence is possible without injury to the nervous + system." Injurious effects, he continues, when they appear, + seldom occur until between twenty-four and thirty-six years of + age, and even then are not usually serious enough to lead to a + visit to a doctor, consisting mainly in frequency of nocturnal + emissions, pain in testes or rectum, hyperæsthesia in the + presence of women or of sexual ideas. If, however, conditions + arise which specially stimulate the sexual emotions, neurasthenia + may be produced. Löwenfeld agrees with Freud and Gattel that the + neurosis of anxiety tends to occur in the abstinent, careful + examination showing that the abstinence is a factor in its + production in both sexes. It is common among young women married + to much older men, often appearing during the first years of + marriage. Under special circumstances, therefore, abstinence can + be injurious, but on the whole the difficulties due to such + abstinence are not severe, and they only exceptionally call forth + actual disturbance in the nervous or psychic spheres. Moll takes + a similar temperate and discriminating view. He regards sexual + abstinence before marriage as the ideal, but points out that we + must avoid any doctrinal extremes in preaching sexual abstinence, + for such preaching will merely lead to hypocrisy. Intercourse + with prostitutes, and the tendency to change a woman like a + garment, induce loss of sensitiveness to the spiritual and + personal element in woman, while the dangers of sexual abstinence + must no more be exaggerated than the dangers of sexual + intercourse (Moll, _Libido Sexualis_, 1898, vol. i, p. 848; id., + _Konträre Sexualempfindung_, 1899, p. 588). Bloch also (in a + chapter on the question of sexual abstinence in his _Sexualleben + unserer Zeit_, 1908) takes a similar standpoint. He advocates + abstention during early life and temporary abstention in adult + life, such abstention being valuable, not only for the + conservation and transformation of energy, but also to emphasize + the fact that life contains other matters to strive for beyond + the ends of sex. Redlich (_Medizinische Klinik_, 1908, No. 7) + also, in a careful study of the medical aspects of the question, + takes an intermediate standpoint in relation to the relative + advantages and disadvantages of sexual abstinence. "We may say + that sexual abstinence is not a condition which must, under all + circumstances and at any price, be avoided, though it is true + that for the majority of healthy adult persons regular sexual + intercourse is advantageous, and sometimes is even to be + recommended." + + It may be added that from the standpoint of Christian religious + morality this same attitude, between the extremes of either + party, recognizing the advantages of sexual abstinence, but not + insisting that they shall be purchased at any price, has also + found representation. Thus, in England, an Anglican clergyman, + the Rev. H. Northcote (_Christianity and Sex Problems_, pp. 58, + 60) deals temperately and sympathetically with the difficulties + of sexual abstinence, and is by no means convinced that such + abstinence is always an unmixed advantage; while in Germany a + Catholic priest, Karl Jentsch (_Sexualethik, Sexualjustiz, + Sexualpolizei_, 1900) sets himself to oppose the rigorous and + unqualified assertions of Ribbing in favor of sexual abstinence. + Jentsch thus expresses what he conceives ought to be the attitude + of fathers, of public opinion, of the State and the Church + towards the young man in this matter: "Endeavor to be abstinent + until marriage. Many succeed in this. If you can succeed, it is + good. But, if you cannot succeed, it is unnecessary to cast + reproaches on yourself and to regard yourself as a scoundrel or a + lost sinner. Provided that you do not abandon yourself to mere + enjoyment or wantonness, but are content with what is necessary + to restore your peace of mind, self-possession, and cheerful + capacity for work, and also that you observe the precautions + which physicians or experienced friends impress upon you." + +When we thus analyze and investigate the the three main streams of expert +opinions in regard to this question of sexual abstinence--the opinions in +favor of it, the opinions in opposition to it, and the opinions which take +an intermediate course--we can scarcely fail to conclude how +unsatisfactory the whole discussion is. The state of "sexual abstinence" +is a completely vague and indefinite state. The indefinite and even +meaningless character of the expression "sexual abstinence" is shown by +the frequency with which those who argue about it assume that it can, may, +or even must, involve masturbation. That fact alone largely deprives it of +value as morality and altogether as abstinence. At this point, indeed, we +reach the most fundamental criticism to which the conception of "sexual +abstinence" lies open. Rohleder, an experienced physician and a recognized +authority on questions of sexual pathology, has submitted the current +views on "sexual abstinence" to a searching criticism in a lengthy and +important paper.[95] He denies altogether that strict sexual abstinence +exists at all. "Sexual abstinence," he points out, in any strict scenes of +the term, must involve abstinence not merely from sexual intercourse but +from auto-erotic manifestations, from masturbation, from homosexual acts, +from all sexually perverse practices. It must further involve a permanent +abstention from indulgence in erotic imaginations and voluptuous reverie. +When, however, it is possible thus to render the whole psychic field a +_tabula rasa_ so far as sexual activity is concerned--and if it fails to +be so constantly and consistently there is no strict sexual +abstinence--then, Rohleder points out, we have to consider whether we are +not in presence of a case of sexual anæsthesia, of _anaphrodisia +sexualis_. That is a question which is rarely, if ever, faced by those who +discuss sexual abstinence. It is, however, an extremely pertinent +question, because, as Rohleder insists, if sexual anæsthesia exists the +question of sexual abstinence falls to the ground, for we can only +"abstain" from actions that are in our power. Complete sexual anæsthesia +is, however, so rare a state that it may be practically left out of +consideration, and as the sexual impulse, if it exists, must by +physiological necessity sometimes become active in some shape--even if +only, according to Freud's view, by transformation into some morbid +neurotic condition--we reach the conclusion that "sexual abstinence" is +strictly impossible. Rohleder has met with a few cases in which there +seemed to him no escape from the conclusion that sexual abstinence +existed, but in all of these he subsequently found that he was mistaken, +usually owing to the practice of masturbation, which he believes to be +extremely common and very frequently accompanied by a persistent attempt +to deceive the physician concerning its existence. The only kind of +"sexual abstinence" that exists is a partial and temporary abstinence. +Instead of saying, as some say, "Permanent abstinence is unnatural and +cannot exist without physical and mental injury," we ought to say, +Rohleder believes, "Permanent abstinence is unnatural and has never +existed." + +It is impossible not to feel as we contemplate this chaotic mass of +opinions, that the whole discussion is revolving round a purely negative +idea, and that fundamental fact is responsible for what at first seem to +be startling conflicts of statement. If indeed we were to eliminate what +is commonly regarded as the religious and moral aspect of the matter--an +aspect, be it remembered, which has no bearing on the essential natural +facts of the question--we cannot fail to perceive that these ostentatious +differences of conviction would be reduced within very narrow and trifling +limits. + +We cannot strictly coordinate the impulse of reproduction with the impulse +of nutrition. There are very important differences between them, more +especially the fundamental difference that while the satisfaction of the +one impulse is absolutely necessary both to the life of the individual and +of the race, the satisfaction of the other is absolutely necessary only to +the life of the race. But when we reduce this question to one of "sexual +abstinence" we are obviously placing it on the same basis as that of +abstinence from food, that is to say at the very opposite pole to which we +place it when (as in the previous chapter) we consider it from the point +of view of asceticism and chastity. It thus comes about that on this +negative basis there really is an interesting analogy between nutritive +abstinence, though necessarily only maintained incompletely and for a +short time, and sexual abstinence, maintained more completely and for a +longer time. A patient of Janet's seems to bring out clearly this +resemblance. Nadia, whom Janet was able to study during five years, was a +young woman of twenty-seven, healthy and intelligent, not suffering from +hysteria nor from anorexia, for she had a normal appetite. But she had an +idea; she was anxious to be slim and to attain this end she cut down her +meals to the smallest size, merely a little soup and a few eggs. She +suffered much from the abstinence she thus imposed on herself, and was +always hungry, though sometimes her hunger was masked by the inevitable +stomach trouble caused by so long a persistence in this _régime_. At +times, indeed, she had been so hungry that she had devoured greedily +whatever she could lay her hands on, and not infrequently she could not +resist the temptation to eat a few biscuits in secret. Such actions caused +her horrible remorse, but, all the same, she would be guilty of them +again. She realized the great efforts demanded by her way of life, and +indeed looked upon herself as a heroine for resisting so long. +"Sometimes," she told Janet, "I passed whole hours in thinking about food, +I was so hungry. I swallowed my saliva, I bit my handkerchief, I rolled +on the ground, I wanted to eat so badly. I searched books for descriptions +of meals and feasts, I tried to deceive my hunger by imagining that I too +was enjoying all these good things. I was really famished, and in spite of +a few weaknesses for biscuits I know that I showed much courage."[96] +Nadia's motive idea, that she wished to be slim, corresponds to the +abstinent man's idea that he wishes to be "moral," and only differs from +it by having the advantage of being somewhat more positive and personal, +for the idea of the person who wishes to avoid sexual indulgence because +it is "not right" is often not merely negative but impersonal and imposed +by the social and religious environment. Nadia's occasional outbursts of +reckless greediness correspond to the sudden impulses to resort to +prostitution, and her secret weaknesses for biscuits, followed by keen +remorse, to lapses into the habit of masturbation. Her fits of struggling +and rolling on the ground are precisely like the outbursts of futile +desire which occasionally occur to young abstinent men and women in health +and strength. The absorption in thoughts about meals and in literary +descriptions of meals is clearly analogous to the abstinent man's +absorption in wanton thoughts and erotic books. Finally, Nadia's +conviction that she is a heroine corresponds exactly to the attitude of +self-righteousness which often marks the sexually abstinent. + +If we turn to Freud's penetrating and suggestive study of the problem of +sexual abstinence in relation to "civilized" sexual morality, we find +that, though he makes no reference to the analogy with abstinence from +food, his words would for the most part have an equal application to both +cases. "The task of subduing so powerful an instinct as the sexual +impulse, otherwise than by giving it satisfaction," he writes, "is one +which may employ the whole strength of a man. Subjugation through +sublimation, by guiding the sexual forces into higher civilizational +paths, may succeed with a minority, and even with these only for a time, +least easily during the years of ardent youthful energy. Most others +become neurotic or otherwise come to grief. Experience shows that the +majority of people constituting our society are constitutionally unequal +to the task of abstinence. We say, indeed, that the struggle with this +powerful impulse and the emphasis the struggle involves on the ethical and +æsthetic forces in the soul's life 'steels' the character, and for a few +favorably organized natures this is true; it must also be acknowledged +that the differentiation of individual character so marked in our time +only becomes possible through sexual limitations. But in by far the +majority of cases the struggle with sensuality uses up the available +energy of character, and this at the very time when the young man needs +all his strength in order to win his place in the world."[97] + +When we have put the problem on this negative basis of abstinence it is +difficult to see how we can dispute the justice of Freud's conclusions. +They hold good equally for abstinence from food and abstinence from sexual +love. When we have placed the problem on a more positive basis, and are +able to invoke the more active and fruitful motives of asceticism and +chastity this unfortunate fight against a natural impulse is abolished. If +chastity is an ideal of the harmonious play of all the organic impulses of +the soul and body, if asceticism, properly understood, is the athletic +striving for a worthy object which causes, for the time, an indifference +to the gratification of sexual impulses, we are on wholesome and natural +ground, and there is no waste of energy in fruitless striving for a +negative end, whether imposed artificially from without, as it usually is, +or voluntarily chosen by the individual himself. + +For there is really no complete analogy between sexual desire and hunger, +between abstinence from sexual relations and abstinence from food. When we +put them both on the basis of abstinence we put them on a basis which +covers the impulse for food but only half covers the impulse for sexual +love. We confer no pleasure and no service on our food when we eat it. But +the half of sexual love, perhaps the most important and ennobling half, +lies in what we give and not in what we take. To reduce this question to +the low level of abstinence, is not only to centre it in a merely negative +denial but to make it a solely self-regarding question. Instead of asking: +How can I bring joy and strength to another? we only ask: How can I +preserve my empty virtue? + +Therefore it is that from whatever aspect we consider the +question,--whether in view of the flagrant contradiction between the +authorities who have discussed this question, or of the illegitimate +mingling here of moral and physiological considerations, or of the merely +negative and indeed unnatural character of the "virtue" thus set up, or of +the failure involved to grasp the ennoblingly altruistic and mutual side +of sexual love,--from whatever aspect we approach the problem of "sexual +abstinence" we ought only to agree to do so under protest. + +If we thus decide to approach it, and if we have reached the +conviction--which, in view of all the evidence we can scarcely +escape--that, while sexual abstinence in so far as it may be recognized as +possible is not incompatible with health, there are yet many adults for +whom it is harmful, and a very much larger number for whom when prolonged +it is undesirable, we encounter a serious problem. It is a problem which +confronts any person, and especially the physician, who may be called upon +to give professional advice to his fellows on this matter. If sexual +relationships are sometimes desirable for unmarried persons, or for +married persons who, for any reason, are debarred from conjugal union, is +a physician justified in recommending such sexual relationships to his +patient? This is a question that has frequently been debated and decided +in opposing senses. + + Various distinguished physicians, especially in Germany, have + proclaimed the duty of the doctor to recommend sexual intercourse + to his patient whenever he considers it desirable. Gyurkovechky, + for instance, has fully discussed this question, and answered it + in the affirmative. Nyström (_Sexual-Probleme_, July, 1908, p. + 413) states that it is the physician's duty, in some cases of + sexual weakness, when all other methods of treatment have failed, + to recommend sexual intercourse as the best remedy. Dr. Max + Marcuse stands out as a conspicuous advocate of the unconditional + duty of the physician to advocate sexual intercourse in some + cases, both to men and to women, and has on many occasions argued + in this sense (e.g., _Darf der Arzt zum Ausserehelichen + Geschlechtsverkehr raten?_ 1904). Marcuse is strongly of opinion + that a physician who, allowing himself to be influenced by moral, + sociological, or other considerations, neglects to recommend + sexual intercourse when he considers it desirable for the + patient's health, is unworthy of his profession, and should + either give up medicine or send his patients to other doctors. + This attitude, though not usually so emphatically stated, seems + to be widely accepted. Lederer goes even further when he states + (_Monatsschrift für Harnkrankheiten und Sexuelle Hygiene_, 1906, + Heft 3) that it is the physician's duty in the case of a woman + who is suffering from her husband's impotence, to advise her to + have intercourse with another man, adding that "whether she does + so with her husband's consent is no affair of the physician's, + for he is not the guardian of morality, but the guardian of + health." The physicians who publicly take this attitude are, + however, a small minority. In England, so far as I am aware, no + physician of eminence has openly proclaimed the duty of the + doctor to advise sexual intercourse outside marriage, although, + it is scarcely necessary to add, in England, as elsewhere, it + happens that doctors, including women doctors, from time to time + privately point out to their unmarried and even married patients, + that sexual intercourse would probably be beneficial. + + The duty of the physician to recommend sexual intercourse has + been denied as emphatically as it has been affirmed. Thus + Eulenburg (_Sexuale Neuropathie_, p. 43), would by no means + advise extra-conjugal relations to his patient; "such advice is + quite outside the physician's competence." It is, of course, + denied by those who regard sexual abstinence as always harmless, + if not beneficial. But it is also denied by many who consider + that, under some circumstances, sexual intercourse would do good. + + Moll has especially, and on many occasions, discussed the duty of + the physician in relation to the question of advising sexual + intercourse outside marriage (e.g., in his comprehensive work, + _Aerztliche Ethik_, 1902; also _Zeitschrift für Aerztliche + Fortbildung_, 1905, Nos. 12-15; _Mutterschutz_, 1905, Heft 3; + _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, vol. ii, Heft 8). At the outset + Moll had been disposed to assert the right of the physician to + recommend sexual intercourse under some circumstances; "so long + as marriage is unduly delayed and sexual intercourse outside + marriage exists," he wrote (_Die Conträre Sexualempfindung_, + second edition, p. 287), "so long, I think, we may use such + intercourse therapeutically, provided that the rights of no third + person (husband or wife) are injured." In all his later writings, + however, Moll ranges himself clearly and decisively on the + opposite side. He considers that the physician has no right to + overlook the possible results of his advice in inflicting + venereal disease, or, in the case of a woman, pregnancy, on his + patient, and he believes that these serious results are far more + likely to happen than is always admitted by those who defend the + legitimacy of such advice. Nor will Moll admit that the physician + is entitled to overlook the moral aspects of the question. A + physician may know that a poor man could obtain many things good + for his health by stealing, but he cannot advise him to steal. + Moll takes the case of a Catholic priest who is suffering from + neurasthenia due to sexual abstinence. Even although the + physician feels certain that the priest may be able to avoid all + the risks of disease as well as of publicity, he is not entitled + to urge him to sexual intercourse. He has to remember that in + thus causing a priest to break his vows of chastity he may induce + a mental conflict and a bitter remorse which may lead to the + worst results, even on his patient's physical health. Similar + results, Moll remarks, may follow such advice when given to a + married man or woman, to say nothing of possible divorce + proceedings and accompanying evils. + + Rohleder (_Vorlesungen über Geschlechtstrieb und Gesamtes + Geschlechtsleben der Menschen_) adopts a somewhat qualified + attitude in this matter. As a general rule he is decidedly + against recommending sexual intercourse outside marriage to those + who are suffering from partial or temporary abstinence (the only + form of abstinence he recognizes), partly on the ground that the + evils of abstinence are not serious or permanent, and partly + because the patient is fairly certain to exercise his own + judgment in the matter. But in some classes of cases he + recommends such intercourse, and notably to bisexual persons, on + the ground that he is thus preserving his patient from the + criminal risks of homosexual practices. + +It seems to me that there should be no doubt whatever as to the correct +professional attitude of the physician in relation to this question of +advice concerning sexual intercourse. The physician is never entitled to +advise his patient to adopt sexual intercourse outside marriage nor any +method of relief which is commonly regarded as illegitimate. It is said +that the physician has nothing to do with considerations of conventional +morality. If he considers that champagne would be good for a poor patient +he ought to recommend him to take champagne; he is not called upon to +consider whether the patient will beg, borrow, or steal the champagne. +But, after all, even if that be admitted, it must still be said that the +physician knows that the champagne, however obtained, is not likely to be +poisonous. When, however, he prescribes sexual intercourse, with the same +lofty indifference to practical considerations, he has no such knowledge. +In giving such a prescription the physician has in fact not the slightest +knowledge of what he may be prescribing. He may be giving his patient a +venereal disease; he may be giving the anxieties and responsibilities of +an illegitimate child; the prescriber is quite in the dark. He is in the +same position as if he had prescribed a quack medicine of which the +composition was unknown to him, with the added disadvantage that the +medicine may turn out to be far more potently explosive than is the case +with the usually innocuous patent medicine. The utmost that a physician +can properly permit himself to do is to put the case impartially before +his patient and to present to him all the risks. The solution must be for +the patient himself to work out, as best he can, for it involves social +and other considerations which, while they are indeed by no means outside +the sphere of medicine, are certainly entirely outside the control of the +individual private practitioner of medicine. + + Moll also is of opinion that this impartial presentation of the + case for and against sexual intercourse corresponds to the + physician's duty in the matter. It is, indeed, a duty which can + scarcely be escaped by the physician in many cases. Moll points + out that it can by no means be assimilated, as some have + supposed, with the recommendation of sexual intercourse. It is, + on the contrary, he remarks, much more analogous to the + physician's duty in reference to operations. He puts before the + patient the nature of the operation, its advantages and its + risks, but he leaves it to the patient's judgment to accept or + reject the operation. Lewitt also (_Geschlechtliche + Enthaltsamkeit und Gesundheitsstörungen_, 1905), after discussing + the various opinions on this question, comes to the conclusion + that the physician, if he thinks that intercourse outside + marriage might be beneficial, should explain the difficulties and + leave the patient himself to decide. + +There is another reason why, having regard to the prevailing moral +opinions at all events among the middle classes, a physician should +refrain from advising extra-conjugal intercourse: he places himself in a +false relation to his social environment. He is recommending a remedy the +nature of which he could not publicly avow, and so destroying the public +confidence in himself. The only physician who is morally entitled to +advise his patients to enter into extra-conjugal relationships is one who +openly acknowledges that he is prepared to give such advice. The doctor +who is openly working for social reform has perhaps won the moral right to +give advice in accordance with the tendency of his public activity, but +even then his advice may be very dubiously judicious, and he would be +better advised to confine his efforts at social reform to his public +activities. The voice of the physician, as Professor Max Flesch of +Frankfort observes, is more and more heard in the development and new +growth of social institutions; he is a natural leaders in such movements, +and proposals for reform properly come from him. "But," as Flesch +continues, "publicly to accept the excellence of existing institutions and +in the privacy of the consulting-room to give advice which assumes the +imperfection of those institutions is illogical and confusing. It is the +physician's business to give advice which is in accordance with the +interests of the community as a whole, and those interests require that +sexual relationships should be entered into between healthy men and women +who are able and willing to accept the results of their union. That should +be the physician's rule of conduct. Only so can he become, what to-day he +is often proclaimed to be, the leader of the nation."[98] This view is +not, as we see, entirely in accord with that which assumes that the +physician's duty is solely and entirely to his patient, without regard to +the bearing of his advice on social conduct. The patient's interests are +primary, but they are not entitled to be placed in antagonism to the +interests of society. The advice given by the wise physician must always +be in harmony with the social and moral tone of his age. Thus it is that +the tendency among the younger generation of physicians to-day to take an +active interest in raising that tone and in promoting social reform--a +tendency which exists not only in Germany where such interests have long +been acute, but also in so conservative a land as England--is full of +promise for the future. + +The physician is usually content to consider his duty to his patient in +relationship to sexual abstinence as sufficiently fulfilled when he +attempts to allay sexual hyperæsthesia by medical or hygienic treatment. +It can scarcely be claimed, however, that the results of such treatment +are usually satisfactory, and sometimes indeed the treatment has a result +which is the reverse of that intended. The difficulty generally is that in +order to be efficacious the treatment must be carried to an extreme which +exhausts or inhibits not only the genital activities alone but the +activities of the whole organism, and short of that it may prove a +stimulant rather than a sedative. It is difficult and usually impossible +to separate out a man's sexual activities and bring influence to bear on +these activities alone. Sexual activity is so closely intertwined with the +other organic activities, erotic exuberance is so much a flower which is +rooted in the whole organism, that the blow which crushes it may strike +down the whole man. The bromides are universally recognized as powerful +sexual sedatives, but their influence in this respect only makes itself +felt when they have dulled all the finest energies of the organism. +Physical exercise is universally recommended to sexually hyperæsthetic +patients. Yet most people, men and women, find that physical exercise is a +positive stimulus to sexual activity. This is notably so as regards +walking, and exuberantly energetic young women who are troubled by the +irritant activity of their healthy sexual emotions sometimes spend a large +part of their time in the vain attempt to lull their activity by long +walks. Physical exercise only proves efficacious in this respect when it +is carried to an extent which produces general exhaustion. Then indeed the +sexual activity is lulled; but so are all the mental and physical +activities. It is undoubtedly true that exercises and games of all sorts +for young people of both sexes have a sexually hygienic as well as a +generally hygienic influence which is undoubtedly beneficial. They are, on +all grounds, to be preferred to prolonged sedentary occupations. But it is +idle to suppose that games and exercises will suppress the sexual +impulses, for in so far as they favor health, they favor all the impulses +that are the result of health. The most that can be expected is that they +may tend to restrain the manifestations of sex by dispersing the energy +they generate. + +There are many physical rules and precautions which are advocated, not +without reason, as tending to inhibit or diminish sexual activity. The +avoidance of heat and the cultivation of cold is one of the most important +of these. Hot climates, a close atmosphere, heavy bed-clothing, hot baths, +all tend powerfully to excite the sexual system, for that system is a +peripheral sensory organ, and whatever stimulates the skin generally, +stimulates the sexual system.[99] Cold, which contracts the skin, also +deadens the sexual feelings, a fact which the ascetics of old knew and +acted upon. The garments and the posture of the body are not without +influence. Constriction or pressure in the neighborhood of the sexual +region, even tight corsets, as well as internal pressure, as from a +distended bladder, are sources of sexual irritation. Sleeping on the back, +which congests the spinal centres, also acts in the same way, as has long +been known by those who attend to sexual hygiene; thus it is stated that +in the Franciscan order it is prohibited to lie on the back. Food and +drink are, further, powerful sexual stimulants. This is true even of the +simplest and most wholesome nourishment, but it is more especially true of +flesh meat, and, above all, of alcohol in its stronger forms such as +spirits, liqueurs, sparkling and heavy wines, and even many English beers. +This has always been clearly realized by those who cultivate asceticism, +and it is one of the powerful reasons why alcohol should not be given in +early youth. As St. Jerome wrote, when telling Eustochium that she must +avoid wine like poison, "wine and youth are the two fires of lust. Why +add oil to the flame?"[100] Idleness, again, especially when combined with +rich living, promotes sexual activity, as Burton sets forth at length in +his _Anatomy of Melancholy_, and constant occupation, on the other hand, +concentrates the wandering activities. + +Mental exercise, like physical exercise, has sometimes been advocated as a +method of calming sexual excitement, but it seems to be equally equivocal +in its action. If it is profoundly interesting and exciting it may stir up +rather than lull the sexual emotions. If it arouses little interest it is +unable to exert any kind of influence. This is true even of mathematical +occupations which have been advocated by various authorities, including +Broussais, as aids to sexual hygiene.[101] "I have tried mechanical mental +work," a lady writes, "such as solving arithmetical or algebraic problems, +but it does no good; in fact it seems only to increase the excitement." "I +studied and especially turned my attention to mathematics," a clergyman +writes, "with a view to check my sexual tendencies. To a certain extent I +was successful. But at the approach of an old friend, a voice or a touch, +these tendencies came back again with renewed strength. I found +mathematics, however, the best thing on the whole to take off my attention +from women, better than religious exercises which I tried when younger +(twenty-two to thirty)." At the best, however, such devices are of merely +temporary efficacy. + +It is easier to avoid arousing the sexual impulses than to impose silence +on them by hygienic measures when once they are aroused. It is, +therefore, in childhood and youth that all these measures may be most +reasonably observed in order to avoid any premature sexual excitement. In +one group of stolidly normal children influences that might be expected to +act sexually pass away unperceived. At the other extreme, another group of +children are so neurotically and precociously sensitive that no +precautions will preserve them from such influences. But between these +groups there is another, probably much the largest, who resist slight +sexual suggestions but may succumb to stronger or longer influences, and +on these the cares of sexual hygiene may profitably be bestowed.[102] + +After puberty, when the spontaneous and inner voice of sex may at any +moment suddenly make itself heard, all hygienic precautions are liable to +be flung to the winds, and even the youth or maiden most anxious to retain +the ideals of chastity can often do little but wait till the storm has +passed. It sometimes happens that a prolonged period of sexual storm and +stress occurs soon after puberty, and then dies away although there has +been little or no sexual gratification, to be succeeded by a period of +comparative calm. It must be remembered that in many, and perhaps most, +individuals, men and women, the sexual appetite, unlike hunger or thirst, +can after a prolonged struggle, be reduced to a more or less quiescent +state which, far from injuring, may even benefit the physical and psychic +vigor generally. This may happen whether or not sexual gratification has +been obtained. If there has never been any such gratification, the +struggle is less severe and sooner over, unless the individual is of +highly erotic temperament. If there has been gratification, if the mind +is filled not merely with desires but with joyous experience to which the +body also has grown accustomed, then the struggle is longer and more +painfully absorbing. The succeeding relief, however, if it comes, is +sometimes more complete and is more likely to be associated with a state +of psychic health. For the fundamental experiences of life, under normal +conditions, bring not only intellectual sanity, but emotional +pacification. A conquest of the sexual appetites which has never at any +period involved a gratification of these appetites seldom produces results +that commend themselves as rich and beautiful. + +In these combats there are, however, no permanent conquests. For a very +large number of people, indeed, though there may be emotional changes and +fluctuations dependent on a variety of circumstances, there can scarcely +be said to be any conquest at all. They are either always yielding to the +impulses that assail them, or always resisting those impulses, in the +first case with remorse, in the second with dissatisfaction. In either +case much of their lives, at the time when life is most vigorous, is +wasted. With women, if they happen to be of strong passions and reckless +impulses to abandonment, the results may be highly enervating, if not +disastrous to the general psychic life. It is to this cause, indeed, that +some have been inclined to attribute the frequent mediocrity of women's +work in artistic and intellectual fields. Women of intellectual force are +frequently if not generally women of strong passions, and if they resist +the tendency to merge themselves in the duties of maternity their lives +are often wasted in emotional conflict and their psychic natures +impoverished.[103] + + The extent to which sexual abstinence and the struggles it + involves may hamper and absorb the individual throughout life is + well illustrated in the following case. A lady, vigorous, robust, + and generally healthy, of great intelligence and high character, + has reached middle life without marrying, or ever having sexual + relationships. She was an only child, and when between three and + four years of age, a playmate some six years older, initiated her + into the habit of playing with her sexual parts. She was, + however, at this age quite devoid of sexual feelings, and the + habit dropped naturally, without any bad effects, as soon as she + left the neighborhood of this girl a year or so later. Her health + was good and even brilliant, and she developed vigorously at + puberty. At the age of sixteen, however, a mental shock caused + menstruation to diminish in amount during some years, and + simultaneously with this diminution persistent sexual excitement + appeared spontaneously, for the first time. She regarded such + feelings as abnormal and unhealthy, and exerted all her powers of + self-control in resisting them. But will power had no effect in + diminishing the feelings. There was constant and imperious + excitement, with the sense of vibration, tension, pressure, + dilatation and tickling, accompanied, it may be, by some ovarian + congestion, for she felt that on the left side there was a + network of sexual nerves, and retroversion of the uterus was + detected some years later. Her life was strenuous with many + duties, but no occupation could be pursued without this + undercurrent of sexual hyperæsthesia involving perpetual + self-control. This continued more or less acutely for many years, + when menstruation suddenly stopped altogether, much before the + usual period of the climacteric. At the same time the sexual + excitement ceased, and she became calm, peaceful, and happy. + Diminished menstruation was associated with sexual excitement, + but abundant menstruation and its complete absence were both + accompanied by the relief of excitement. This lasted for two + years. Then, for the treatment of a trifling degree of anæmia, + she was subjected to a long, and, in her case, injudicious course + of hypodermic injections of strychnia. From that time, five years + ago, up to the present, there has been constant sexual + excitement, and she has always to be on guard lest she should be + overtaken by a sexual spasm. Her torture is increased by the fact + that her traditions make it impossible for her (except under very + exceptional circumstances) to allude to the cause of her + sufferings. "A woman is handicapped," she writes. "She may never + speak to anyone on such a subject. She must live her tragedy + alone, smiling as much as she can under the strain of her + terrible burden." To add to her trouble, two years ago, she felt + impelled to resort to masturbation, and has done so about once a + month since; this not only brings no real relief, and leaves + irritability, wakefulness, and dark marks under the eyes, but is + a cause of remorse to her, for she regards masturbation as + entirely abnormal and unnatural. She has tried to gain benefit, + not merely by the usual methods of physical hygiene, but by + suggestion, Christian Science, etc., but all in vain. "I may + say," she writes, "that it is the most passionate desire of my + heart to be freed from this bondage, that I may relax the + terrible years-long tension of resistance, and be happy in my own + way. If I had this affliction once a month, once a week, even + twice a week, to stand against it would be child's play. I should + scorn to resort to unnatural means, however moderately. But + self-control itself has its revenges, and I sometimes feel as if + it is no longer to be borne." + +Thus while it is an immense benefit in physical and psychic development if +the eruption of the disturbing sexual emotions can be delayed until +puberty or adolescence, and while it is a very great advantage, after that +eruption has occurred, to be able to gain control of these emotions, to +crush altogether the sexual nature would be a barren, if not, indeed, a +perilous victory, bringing with it no satisfaction. "If I had only had +three weeks' happiness," said a woman, "I would not quarrel with Fate, but +to have one's whole life so absolutely empty is horrible." If such vacuous +self-restraint may, by courtesy, be termed a virtue, it is but a negative +virtue. The persons who achieve it, as the result of congenitally feeble +sexual aptitudes, merely (as Gyurkovechky, Fürbringer, and Löwenfeld have +all alike remarked) made a virtue of their weakness. Many others, whose +instincts were less weak, when they disdainfully put to flight the desires +of sex in early life, have found that in later life that foe returns in +tenfold force and perhaps in unnatural shapes.[104] + +The conception of "sexual abstinence" is, we see, an entirely false and +artificial conception. It is not only ill-adjusted to the hygienic facts +of the case but it fails even to invoke any genuinely moral motive, for it +is exclusively self-regarding and self-centred. It only becomes genuinely +moral, and truly inspiring, when we transform it into the altruistic +virtue of self-sacrifice. When we have done so we see that the element of +abstinence in it ceases to be essential, "Self-sacrifice," writes the +author of a thoughtful book on the sexual life, "is acknowledged to be the +basis of virtue; the noblest instances of self-sacrifice are those +dictated by sexual affection. Sympathy is the secret of altruism; nowhere +is sympathy more real and complete than in love. Courage, both moral and +physical, the love of truth and honor, the spirit of enterprise, and the +admiration of moral worth, are all inspired by love as by nothing else in +human nature. Celibacy denies itself that inspiration or restricts its +influence, according to the measure of its denial of sexual intimacy. Thus +the deliberate adoption of a consistently celibate life implies the +narrowing down of emotional and moral experience to a degree which is, +from the broad scientific standpoint, unjustified by any of the advantages +piously supposed to accrue from it."[105] + +In a sane natural order all the impulses are centred in the fulfilment of +needs and not in their denial. Moreover, in this special matter of sex, it +is inevitable that the needs of others, and not merely the needs of the +individual himself, should determine action. It is more especially the +needs of the female which are the determining factor; for those needs are +more various, complex and elusive, and in his attentiveness to their +gratification the male finds a source of endless erotic satisfaction. It +might be thought that the introduction of an altruistic motive here is +merely the claim of theoretical morality insisting that there shall be a +firm curb on animal instinct. But, as we have again and again seen +throughout the long course of these _Studies_, it is not so. The animal +instinct itself makes this demand. It is a biological law that rules +throughout the zoölogical world and has involved the universality of +courtship. In man it is only modified because in man sexual needs are not +entirely concentrated in reproduction, but more or less penetrate the +whole of life. + +While from the point of view of society, as from that of Nature, the end +and object of the sexual impulse is procreation, and nothing beyond +procreation, that is by no means true for the individual, whose main +object it must be to fulfil himself harmoniously with that due regard for +others which the art of living demands. Even if sexual relationships had +no connection with procreation whatever--as some Central Australian tribes +believe--they would still be justifiable, and are, indeed, an +indispensable aid to the best moral development of the individual, for it +is only in so intimate a relationship as that of sex that the finest +graces and aptitudes of life have full scope. Even the saints cannot +forego the sexual side of life. The best and most accomplished saints from +Jerome to Tolstoy--even the exquisite Francis of Assisi--had stored up in +their past all the experiences that go to the complete realization of +life, and if it were not so they would have been the less saints. + +The element of positive virtue thus only enters when the control of the +sexual impulse has passed beyond the stage of rigid and sterile abstinence +and has become not merely a deliberate refusal of what is evil in sex, but +a deliberate acceptance of what is good. It is only at that moment that +such control becomes a real part of the great art of living. For the art +of living, like any other art, is not compatible with rigidity, but lies +in the weaving of a perpetual harmony between refusing and accepting, +between giving and taking.[106] + +The future, it is clear, belongs ultimately to those who are slowly +building up sounder traditions into the structure of life. The "problem of +sexual abstinence" will more and more sink into insignificance. There +remain the great solid fact of love, the great solid fact of chastity. +Those are eternal. Between them there is nothing but harmony. The +development of one involves the development of the other. + +It has been necessary to treat seriously this problem of "sexual +abstinence" because we have behind us the traditions of two thousand years +based on certain ideals of sexual law and sexual license, together with +the long effort to build up practices more or less conditioned by those +ideals. We cannot immediately escape from these traditions even when we +question their validity for ourselves. We have not only to recognize their +existence, but also to accept the fact that for some time to come they +must still to a considerable extent control the thoughts and even in some +degree the actions of existing communities. + +It is undoubtedly deplorable. It involves the introduction of an +artificiality into a real natural order. Love is real and positive; +chastity is real and positive. But sexual abstinence is unreal and +negative, in the strict sense perhaps impossible. The underlying feelings +of all those who have emphasized its importance is that a physiological +process can be good or bad according as it is or is not carried out under +certain arbitrary external conditions, which render it licit or illicit. +An act of sexual intercourse under the name of "marriage" is beneficial; +the very same act, under the name of "incontinence," is pernicious. No +physiological process, and still less any spiritual process, can bear such +restriction. It is as much as to say that a meal becomes good or bad, +digestible or indigestible, according as a grace is or is not pronounced +before the eating of it. + +It is deplorable because, such a conception being essentially unreal, an +element of unreality is thus introduced into a matter of the gravest +concern alike to the individual and to society. Artificial disputes have +been introduced where no matter of real dispute need exist. A contest has +been carried on marked by all the ferocity which marks contests about +metaphysical or pseudo-metaphysical differences having no concrete basis +in the actual world. As will happen in such cases, there has, after all, +been no real difference between the disputants because the point they +quarreled over was unreal. In truth each side was right and each side was +wrong. + +It is necessary, we see, that the balance should be held even. An absolute +license is bad; an absolute abstinence--even though some by nature or +circumstances are urgently called to adopt it--is also bad. They are both +alike away from the gracious equilibrium of Nature. And the force, we see, +which naturally holds this balance even is the biological fact that the +act of sexual union is the satisfaction of the erotic needs, not of one +person, but of two persons. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[92] This view was an ambiguous improvement on the view, universally +prevalent, as Westermarck has shown, among primitive peoples, that the +sexual act involves indignity to a woman or depreciation of her only in so +far as she is the property of another person who is the really injured +party. + +[93] This implicit contradiction has been acutely pointed out from the +religious side by the Rev. H. Northcote, _Christianity and Sex Problems_, +p. 53. + +[94] It has already been necessary to discuss this point briefly in "The +Sexual Impulse in Women," vol. iii of these _Studies_. + +[95] "Die Abstinentia Sexualis," _Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft_, +Nov., 1908. + +[96] P. Janet, "La Maladie du Scrupule," _Revue Philosophique_, May, 1901. + +[97] S. Freud, _Sexual-Probleme_, March, 1908. As Adele Schreiber also +points out (_Mutterschutz_, Jan., 1907, p. 30), it is not enough to prove +that abstinence is not dangerous; we have to remember that the spiritual +and physical energy used up in repressing this mighty instinct often +reduces a joyous and energetic nature to a weary and faded shadow. +Similarly, Helene Stöcker (_Die Liebe und die Frauen_, p. 105) says: "The +question whether abstinence is harmful is, to say the truth, a ridiculous +question. One needs to be no nervous specialist to know, as a matter of +course, that a life of happy love and marriage is the healthy life, and +its complete absence cannot fail to lead to severe psychic depression, +even if no direct physiological disturbances can be demonstrated." + +[98] Max Flesch, "Ehe, Hygine und Sexuelle Moral," _Mutterschutz_, 1905, +Heft 7. + +[99] See the Section on Touch in the fourth volume of these _Studies_. + +[100] "I have had two years' close experience and connexion with the +Trappists," wrote Dr. Butterfield, of Natal (_British Medical Journal_, +Sept. 15, 1906, p. 668), "both as medical attendant and as being a +Catholic in creed myself. I have studied them and investigated their life, +habits and diet, and though I should be very backward in adopting it +myself, as not suited to me individually, the great bulk of them are in +absolute ideal health and strength, seldom ailing, capable of vast work, +mental and physical. Their life is very simple and very regular. A +healthier body of men and women, with perfect equanimity of temper--this +latter I lay great stress on--it would be difficult to find. Health beams +in their eyes and countenance and actions. Only in sickness or prolonged +journeys are they allowed any strong foods--meats, eggs, etc.--or any +alcohol." + +[101] Féré, _L'Instinct Sexuel_, second edition, p. 332. + +[102] Rural life, as we have seen when discussing its relation to sexual +precocity, _is_ on one side the reverse of a safeguard against sexual +influences. But, on the other hand, in so far as it involves hard work and +simple living under conditions that are not nervously stimulating, it is +favorable to a considerably delayed sexual activity in youth and to a +relative continence. Ammon, in the course of his anthropological +investigations of Baden conscripts, found that sexual intercourse was rare +in the country before twenty, and even sexual emissions during sleep rare +before nineteen or twenty. It is said, also, he repeats, that no one has a +right to run after girls who does not yet carry a gun, and the elder lads +sometimes brutally ill-treat any younger boy found going about with a +girl. No doubt this is often preliminary to much license later. + +[103] The numerical preponderance which celibate women teachers have now +gained in the American school system has caused much misgiving among many +sagacious observers, and is said to be unsatisfactory in its results on +the pupils of both sexes. A distinguished authority, Professor McKeen +Cattell ("The School and the Family," _Popular Science Monthly_, Jan., +1909), referring to this preponderance of "devitalized and unsexed +spinsters," goes so far as to say that "the ultimate result of letting the +celibate female be the usual teacher has been such as to make it a +question whether it would not be an advantage to the country if the whole +school plant could be scrapped." + +[104] Corre (_Les Criminels_, p. 351) mentions that of thirteen priests +convicted of crime, six were guilty of sexual attempts on children, and of +eighty-three convicted lay teachers, forty-eight had committed similar +offenses. This was at a time when lay teachers were in practice almost +compelled to live a celibate life; altered conditions have greatly +diminished this class of offense among them. Without going so far as +crime, many moral and religious men, clergymen and others, who have led +severely abstinent lives in youth, sometimes experience in middle age or +later the eruption of almost uncontrollable sexual impulses, normal or +abnormal. In women such manifestations are apt to take the form of +obsessional thoughts of sexual character, as e.g., the case +(_Comptes-Rendus Congrès International de Médecine_, Moscow, 1897, vol. +iv, p. 27) of a chaste woman who was compelled to think about and look at +the sexual organs of men. + +[105] J.A. Godfrey, _The Science of Sex_, p. 138. + +[106] See, e.g., Havelock Ellis, "St. Francis and Others," _Affirmations_. + + + + +CHAPTER VII. + +PROSTITUTION. + +I. _The Orgy:_--The Religious Origin of the Orgy--The Feast of +Fools--Recognition of the Orgy by the Greeks and Romans--The Orgy Among +Savages--The Drama--The Object Subserved by the Orgy. + +II. _The Origin and Development of Prostitution:_--The Definition of +Prostitution--Prostitution Among Savages--The Conditions Under Which +Professional Prostitution Arises--Sacred Prostitution--The Rite of +Mylitta--The Practice of Prostitution to Obtain a Marriage Portion--The +Rise of Secular Prostitution in Greece--Prostitution in the East--India, +China, Japan, etc.--Prostitution in Rome--The Influence of Christianity on +Prostitution--The Effort to Combat Prostitution--The Mediæval Brothel--The +Appearance of the Courtesan--Tullia D'Aragona--Veronica Franco--Ninon de +Lenclos--Later Attempts to Eradicate Prostitution--The Regulation of +Prostitution--Its Futility Becoming Recognized. + +III. _The Causes of Prostitution:_--Prostitution as a Part of the Marriage +System--The Complex Causation of Prostitution--The Motives Assigned by +Prostitutes--(1) Economic Factor of Prostitution--Poverty Seldom the Chief +Motive for Prostitution--But Economic Pressure Exerts a Real +Influence--The Large Proportion of Prostitutes Recruited from Domestic +Service--Significance of This Fact--(2) The Biological Factor of +Prostitution--The So-called Born-Prostitute--Alleged Identity with the +Born-Criminal--The Sexual Instinct in Prostitutes--The Physical and +Psychic Characters of Prostitutes--(3) Moral Necessity as a Factor in the +Existence of Prostitution--The Moral Advocates of Prostitution--The Moral +Attitude of Christianity Towards Prostitution--The Attitude of +Protestantism--Recent Advocates of the Moral Necessity of +Prostitution--(4) Civilizational Value as a Factor of Prostitution--The +Influence of Urban Life--The Craving for Excitement--Why Servant-girls +so Often Turn to Prostitution--The Small Part Played by +Seduction--Prostitutes Come Largely from the Country--The Appeal of +Civilization Attracts Women to Prostitution--The Corresponding Attraction +Felt by Men--The Prostitute as Artist and Leader of Fashion--The Charm of +Vulgarity. + +IV. _The Present Social Attitude Towards Prostitution:_--The Decay of the +Brothel--The Tendency to the Humanization of Prostitution--The Monetary +Aspects of Prostitution--The Geisha--The Hetaira--The Moral Revolt +Against Prostitution--Squalid Vice Based on Luxurious Virtue--The Ordinary +Attitude Towards Prostitutes--Its Cruelty Absurd--The Need of Reforming +Prostitution--The Need of Reforming Marriage--These These Two Needs +Closely Correlated--The Dynamic Relationships Involved. + + +_I. The Orgy_. + +Traditional morality, religion, and established convention combine to +promote not only the extreme of rigid abstinence but also that of reckless +license. They preach and idealize the one extreme; they drive those who +cannot accept it to adopt the opposite extreme. In the great ages of +religion it even happens that the severity of the rule of abstinence is +more or less deliberately tempered by the permission for occasional +outbursts of license. We thus have the orgy, which flourished in mediæval +days and is, indeed, in its largest sense, a universal manifestation, +having a function to fulfil in every orderly and laborious civilization, +built up on natural energies that are bound by more or less inevitable +restraints. + +The consideration of the orgy, it may be said, lifts us beyond the merely +sexual sphere, into a higher and wider region which belongs to religion. +The Greek _orgeia_ referred originally to ritual things done with a +religious purpose, though later, when dances of Bacchanals and the like +lost their sacred and inspiring character, the idea was fostered by +Christianity that such things were immoral.[107] Yet Christianity was +itself in its origin an orgy of the higher spiritual activities released +from the uncongenial servitude of classic civilization, a great festival +of the poor and the humble, of the slave and the sinner. And when, with +the necessity for orderly social organization, Christianity had ceased to +be this it still recognized, as Paganism had done, the need for an +occasional orgy. It appears that in 743 at a Synod held in Hainault +reference was made to the February debauch (_de Spurcalibus in februario_) +as a pagan practice; yet it was precisely this pagan festival which was +embodied in the accepted customs of the Christian Church as the chief orgy +of the ecclesiastical year, the great Carnival prefixed to the long fast +of Lent. The celebration on Shrove Tuesday and the previous Sunday +constituted a Christian Bacchanalian festival in which all classes joined. +The greatest freedom and activity of physical movement was encouraged; +"some go about naked without shame, some crawl on all fours, some on +stilts, some imitate animals."[108] As time went on the Carnival lost its +most strongly marked Bacchanalian features, but it still retains its +essential character as a permitted and temporary relaxation of the tension +of customary restraints and conventions. The Mediæval Feast of Fools--a +New Year's Revel well established by the twelfth century, mainly in +France--presented an expressive picture of a Christian orgy in its extreme +form, for here the most sacred ceremonies of the Church became the subject +of fantastic parody. The Church, according to Nietzsche's saying, like all +wise legislators, recognized that where great impulses and habits have to +be cultivated, intercalary days must be appointed in which these impulses +and habits may be denied, and so learn to hunger anew.[109] The clergy +took the leading part in these folk-festivals, for to the men of that age, +as Méray remarks, "the temple offered the complete notes of the human +gamut; they found there the teaching of all duties, the consolation of all +sorrows, the satisfaction of all joys. The sacred festivals of mediæval +Christianity were not a survival from Roman times; they leapt from the +very heart of Christian society."[110] But, as Méray admits, all great and +vigorous peoples, of the East and the West, have found it necessary +sometimes to play with their sacred things. + +Among the Greeks and Romans this need is everywhere visible, not only in +their comedy and their literature generally, but in everyday life. As +Nietzsche truly remarks (in his _Geburt der Tragödie_) the Greeks +recognized all natural impulses, even those that are seemingly unworthy, +and safeguarded them from working mischief by providing channels into +which, on special days and in special rites, the surplus of wild energy +might harmlessly flow. Plutarch, the last and most influential of the +Greek moralists, well says, when advocating festivals (in his essay "On +the Training of Children"), that "even in bows and harps we loosen their +strings that we may bend and wind them up again." Seneca, perhaps the most +influential of Roman if not of European moralists, even recommended +occasional drunkenness. "Sometimes," he wrote in his _De Tranquillilate_, +"we ought to come even to the point of intoxication, not for the purpose +of drowning ourselves but of sinking ourselves deep in wine. For it washes +away cares and raises our spirits from the lowest depths. The inventor of +wine is called _Liber_ because he frees the soul from the servitude of +care, releases it from slavery, quickens it, and makes it bolder for all +undertakings." The Romans were a sterner and more serious people than the +Greeks, but on that very account they recognized the necessity of +occasionally relaxing their moral fibres in order to preserve their tone, +and encouraged the prevalence of festivals which were marked by much more +abandonment than those of Greece. When these festivals began to lose +their moral sanction and to fall into decay the decadence of Rome had +begun. + +All over the world, and not excepting the most primitive savages--for even +savage life is built up on systematic constraints which sometimes need +relaxation--the principle of the orgy is recognized and accepted. Thus +Spencer and Gillen describe[111] the Nathagura or fire-ceremony of the +Warramunga tribe of Central Australia, a festival taken part in by both +sexes, in which all the ordinary rules of social life are broken, a kind +of Saturnalia in which, however, there is no sexual license, for sexual +license is, it need scarcely be said, no essential part of the orgy, even +when the orgy lightens the burden of sexual constraints. In a widely +different part of the world, in British Columbia, the Salish Indians, +according to Hill Tout,[112] believed that, long before the whites came, +their ancestors observed a Sabbath or seventh day ceremony for dancing and +praying, assembling at sunrise and dancing till noon. The Sabbath, or +periodically recurring orgy,--not a day of tension and constraint but a +festival of joy, a rest from all the duties of everyday life,--has, as we +know, formed an essential part of many of the orderly ancient +civilizations on which our own has been built;[113] it is highly probable +that the stability of these ancient civilizations was intimately +associated with their recognition of the need of a Sabbath orgy. Such +festivals are, indeed, as Crawley observes, processes of purification and +reinvigoration, the effort to put off "the old man" and put on "the new +man," to enter with fresh energy on the path of everyday life.[114] + +The orgy is an institution which by no means has its significance only for +the past. On the contrary, the high tension, the rigid routine, the gray +monotony of modern life insistently call for moments of organic relief, +though the precise form that that orgiastic relief takes must necessarily +change with other social changes. As Wilhelm von Humboldt said, "just as +men need suffering in order to become strong so they need joy in order to +become good." Charles Wagner, insisting more recently (in his _Jeunesse_) +on the same need of joy in our modern life, regrets that dancing in the +old, free, and natural manner has gone out of fashion or become +unwholesome. Dancing is indeed the most fundamental and primitive form of +the orgy, and that which most completely and healthfully fulfils its +object. For while it is undoubtedly, as we see even among animals, a +process by which sexual tumescence is accomplished,[115] it by no means +necessarily becomes focused in sexual detumescence but it may itself +become a detumescent discharge of accumulated energy. It was on this +account that, at all events in former days, the clergy in Spain, on moral +grounds, openly encouraged the national passion for dancing. Among +cultured people in modern times, the orgy tends to take on a purely +cerebral form, which is less wholesome because it fails to lead to +harmonious discharge along motor channels. In these comparatively passive +forms, however, the orgy tends to become more and more pronounced under +the conditions of civilization. Aristotle's famous statement concerning +the function of tragedy as "purgation" seems to be a recognition of the +beneficial effects of the orgy.[116] Wagner's music-dramas appeal +powerfully to this need; the theatre, now as ever, fulfils a great +function of the same kind, inherited from the ancient days when it was the +ordered expression of a sexual festival.[117] The theatre, indeed, tends +at the present time to assume a larger importance and to approximate to +the more serious dramatic performances of classic days by being +transferred to the day-time and the open-air. France has especially taken +the initiative in these performances, analogous to the Dionysiac festivals +of antiquity and the Mysteries and Moralities of the Middle Ages. The +movement began some years ago at Orange. In 1907 there were, in France, as +many as thirty open-air theatres ("Théâtres de la Nature," "Théâtres du +Soleil," etc.,) while it is in Marseilles that the first formal open-air +theatre has been erected since classic days.[118] In England, likewise, +there has been a great extension of popular interest in dramatic +performances, and the newly instituted Pageants, carried out and taken +part in by the population of the region commemorated in the Pageant, are +festivals of the same character. In England, however, at the present time, +the real popular orgiastic festivals are the Bank holidays, with which may +be associated the more occasional celebrations, "Maffekings," etc., often +called out by comparatively insignificant national events but still +adequate to arouse orgiastic emotions as genuine as those of antiquity, +though they are lacking in beauty and religious consecration. It is easy +indeed for the narrowly austere person to view such manifestations with a +supercilious smile, but in the eyes of the moralist and the philosopher +these orgiastic festivals exert a salutary and preservative function. In +every age of dull and monotonous routine--and all civilization involves +such routine--many natural impulses and functions tend to become +suppressed, atrophied, or perverted. They need these moments of joyous +exercise and expression, moments in which they may not necessarily attain +their full activity but in which they will at all events be able, as +Cyples expresses it, to rehearse their great possibilities.[119] + + +_II. The Origin and Development of Prostitution_. + +The more refined forms of the orgy flourish in civilization, although on +account of their mainly cerebral character they are not the most +beneficent or the most effective. The more primitive and muscular forms of +the orgy tend, on the other hand, under the influence of civilization, to +fall into discredit and to be so far as possible suppressed altogether. It +is partly in this way that civilization encourages prostitution. For the +orgy in its primitive forms, forbidden to show itself openly and +reputably, seeks the darkness, and allying itself with a fundamental +instinct to which civilized society offers no complete legitimate +satisfaction, it firmly entrenches itself in the very centre of civilized +life, and thereby constitutes a problem of immense difficulty and +importance.[120] + +It is commonly said that prostitution has existed always and everywhere. +That statement is far from correct. A kind of amateur prostitution is +occasionally found among savages, but usually it is only when barbarism is +fully developed and is already approaching the stage of civilization that +well developed prostitution is found. It exists in a systematic form in +every civilization. + +What is prostitution? There has been considerable discussion as to the +correct definition of prostitution.[121] The Roman Ulpian said that a +prostitute was one who openly abandons her body to a number of men without +choice, for money.[122] Not all modern definitions have been so +satisfactory. It is sometimes said a prostitute is a woman who gives +herself to numerous men. To be sound, however, a definition must be +applicable to both sexes alike and we should certainly hesitate to +describe a man who had sexual intercourse with many women as a prostitute. +The idea of venality, the intention to sell the favors of the body, is +essential to the conception of prostitution. Thus Guyot defines a +prostitute as "any person for whom sexual relationships are subordinated +to gain."[123] It is not, however, adequate to define a prostitute simply +as a woman who sells her body. That is done every day by women who become +wives in order to gain a home and a livelihood, yet, immoral as this +conduct may be from any high ethical standpoint, it would be inconvenient +and even misleading to call it prostitution.[124] It is better, therefore, +to define a prostitute as a woman who temporarily sells her sexual favors +to various persons. Thus, according to Wharton's _Law-lexicon_ a +prostitute is "a woman who indiscriminately consorts with men for hire"; +Bonger states that "those women are prostitutes who sell their bodies for +the exercise of sexual acts and make of this a profession";[125] Richard +again states that "a prostitute is a woman who publicly gives herself to +the first comer in return for a pecuniary remuneration."[126] As, finally, +the prevalence of homosexuality has led to the existence of male +prostitutes, the definition must be put in a form irrespective of sex, and +we may, therefore, say that a prostitute is a person who makes it a +profession to gratify the lust of various persons of the opposite sex or +the same sex. + + It is essential that the act of prostitution should be habitually + performed with "various persons." A woman who gains her living by + being mistress to a man, to whom she is faithful, is not a + prostitute, although she often becomes one afterwards, and may + have been one before. The exact point at which a woman begins to + be a prostitute is a question of considerable importance in + countries in which prostitutes are subject to registration. Thus + in Berlin, not long ago, a girl who was mistress to a rich + cavalry officer and supported by him, during the illness of the + officer accidentally met a man whom she had formerly known, and + once or twice invited him to see her, receiving from him presents + in money. This somehow came to the knowledge of the police, and + she was arrested and sentenced to one day's imprisonment as an + unregistered prostitute. On appeal, however, the sentence was + annulled. Liszt, in his _Strafrecht_, lays it down that a girl + who obtains whole or part of her income from "fixed + relationships" is not practicing unchastity for gain in the sense + of the German law (_Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Jahrgang 1, + Heft 9, p. 345). + +It is not altogether easy to explain the origin of the systematized +professional prostitution with the existence of which we are familiar in +civilization. The amateur kind of prostitution which has sometimes been +noted among primitive peoples--the fact, that is, that a man may give a +woman a present in seeking to persuade her to allow him to have +intercourse with her--is really not prostitution as we understand it. The +present in such a case is merely part of a kind of courtship leading to a +temporary relationship. The woman more or less retains her social position +and is not forced to make an avocation of selling herself because +henceforth no other career is possible to her. When Cook came to New +Zealand his men found that the women were not impregnable, "but the terms +and manner of compliance were as decent as those in marriage among us," +and according "to their notions the agreement was as innocent." The +consent of the woman's friends was necessary, and when the preliminaries +were settled it was also necessary to treat this "Juliet of a night" with +"the same delicacy as is here required with the wife for life, and the +lover who presumed to take any liberties by which this was violated was +sure to be disappointed."[127] In some of the Melanesian Islands, it is +said that women would sometimes become prostitutes, or on account of their +bad conduct be forced to become prostitutes for a time; they were not, +however, particularly despised, and when they had in this way accumulated +a certain amount of property they could marry well, after which it would +not be proper to refer to their former career.[128] + +When prostitution first arises among a primitive people it sometimes +happens that little or no stigma is attached to it for the reason that the +community has not yet become accustomed to attach any special value to the +presence of virginity. Schurtz quotes from the old Arabic geographer +Al-Bekri some interesting remarks about the Slavs: "The women of the +Slavs, after they have married, are faithful to their husbands. If, +however, a young girl falls in love with a man she goes to him and +satisfies her passion. And if a man marries and finds his wife a virgin he +says to her: 'If you were worth anything men would have loved you, and you +would have chosen one who would have taken away your virginity.' Then he +drives her away and renounces her." It is a feeling of this kind which, +among some peoples, leads a girl to be proud of the presents she has +received from her lovers and to preserve them as a dowry for her marriage, +knowing that her value will thus be still further heightened. Even among +the Southern Slavs of modern Europe, who have preserved much of the +primitive sexual freedom, this freedom, as Krauss, who has minutely +studied the manners and customs of these peoples, declares, is +fundamentally different from vice, licentiousness, or immodesty.[129] + +Prostitution tends to arise, as Schurtz has pointed out, in every society +in which early marriage is difficult and intercourse outside marriage is +socially disapproved. "Venal women everywhere appear as soon as the free +sexual intercourse of young people is repressed, without the necessary +consequences being impeded by unusually early marriages."[130] The +repression of sexual intimacies outside marriage is a phenomenon of +civilization, but it is not itself by any means a measure of a people's +general level, and may, therefore, begin to appear at an early period. But +it is important to remember that the primitive and rudimentary forms of +prostitution, when they occur, are merely temporary, and +frequently--though not invariably--involve no degrading influence on the +woman in public estimation, sometimes indeed increasing her value as a +wife. The woman who sells herself for money purely as a professional +matter, without any thought of love or passion, and who, by virtue of her +profession, belongs to a pariah class definitely and rigidly excluded from +the main body of her sex, is a phenomenon which can seldom be found except +in developed civilization. It is altogether incorrect to speak of +prostitutes as a mere survival from primitive times. + +On the whole, while among savages sexual relationships are sometimes free +before marriage, as well as on the occasion of special festivals, they are +rarely truly promiscuous and still more rarely venal. When savage women +nowadays sell themselves, or are sold by their husbands, it has usually +been found that we are concerned with the contamination of European +civilization. + +The definite ways in which professional prostitution may arise are no +doubt many.[131] We may assent to the general principle, laid down by +Schurtz, that whenever the free union of young people is impeded under +conditions in which early marriage is also difficult prostitution must +certainly arise. There are, however, different ways in which this +principle may take shape. So far as our western civilization is +concerned--the civilization, that is to say, which has its cradle in the +Mediterranean basin--it would seem that the origin of prostitution is to +be found primarily in a religious custom, religion, the great conserver of +social traditions, preserving in a transformed shape a primitive freedom +that was passing out of general social life.[132] The typical example is +that recorded by Herodotus, in the fifth century before Christ, at the +temple of Mylitta, the Babylonian Venus, where every woman once in her +life had to come and give herself to the first stranger who threw a coin +in her lap, in worship of the goddess. The money could not be refused, +however small the amount, but it was given as an offertory to the temple, +and the woman, having followed the man and thus made oblation to Mylitta, +returned home and lived chastely ever afterwards.[133] Very similar +customs existed in other parts of Western Asia, in North Africa, in Cyprus +and other islands of the Eastern Mediterranean, and also in Greece, where +the Temple of Aphrodite on the fort at Corinth possessed over a thousand +hierodules, dedicated to the service of the goddess, from time to time, as +Strabo states, by those who desired to make thank-offering for mercies +vouchsafed to them. Pindar refers to the hospitable young Corinthian women +ministrants whose thoughts often turn towards Ourania Aphrodite[134] in +whose temple they burned incense; and Athenæus mentions the importance +that was attached to the prayers of the Corinthian prostitutes in any +national calamity.[135] + +We seem here to be in the presence, not merely of a religiously preserved +survival of a greater sexual freedom formerly existing,[136] but of a +specialized and ritualized development of that primitive cult of the +generative forces of Nature which involves the belief that all natural +fruitfulness is associated with, and promoted by, acts of human sexual +intercourse which thus acquire a religious significance. At a later stage +acts of sexual intercourse having a religious significance become +specialized and localized in temples, and by a rational transition of +ideas it becomes believed that such acts of sexual intercourse in the +service of the god, or with persons devoted to the god's service, brought +benefits to the individual who performed them, more especially, if a +woman, by insuring her fertility. Among primitive peoples generally this +conception is embodied mainly in seasonal festivals, but among the peoples +of Western Asia who had ceased to be primitive, and among whom traditional +priestly and hieratic influences had acquired very great influence, the +earlier generative cult had thus, it seems probable, naturally changed +its form in becoming attached to the temples.[137] + + The theory that religious prostitution developed, as a general + rule, out of the belief that the generative activity of human + beings possessed a mysterious and sacred influence in promoting + the fertility of Nature generally seems to have been first set + forth by Mannhardt in his _Antike Wald- und Feldkulte_ (pp. 283 + et seq.). It is supported by Dr. F.S. Krauss ("Beischlafausübung + als Kulthandlung," _Anthropophyteia_, vol. iii, p. 20), who + refers to the significant fact that in Baruch's time, at a period + long anterior to Herodotus, sacred prostitution took place under + the trees. Dr. J.G. Frazer has more especially developed this + conception of the origin of sacred prostitution in his _Adonis, + Attis, Osiris_. He thus summarizes his lengthy discussion: "We + may conclude that a great Mother Goddess, the personification of + all the reproductive energies of nature, was worshipped under + different names, but with a substantial similarity of myth and + ritual by many peoples of western Asia; that associated with her + was a lover, or rather series of lovers, divine yet mortal, with + whom she mated year by year, their commerce being deemed + essential to the propagation of animals and plants, each in their + several kind; and further, that the fabulous union of the divine + pair was simulated, and, as it were, multiplied on earth by the + real, though temporary, union of the human sexes at the sanctuary + of the goddess for the sake of thereby ensuring the fruitfulness + of the ground and the increase of man and beast. In course of + time, as the institution of individual marriage grew in favor, + and the old communism fell more and more into discredit, the + revival of the ancient practice, even for a single occasion in a + woman's life, became ever more repugnant to the moral sense of + the people, and accordingly they resorted to various expedients + for evading in practice the obligation which they still + acknowledged in theory.... But while the majority of women thus + contrived to observe the form of religion without sacrificing + their virtue, it was still thought necessary to the general + welfare that a certain number of them should discharge the old + obligation in the old way. These became prostitutes, either for + life or for a term of years, at one of the temples: dedicated to + the service of religion, they were invested with a sacred + character, and their vocation, far from being deemed infamous, + was probably long regarded by the laity as an exercise of more + than common virtue, and rewarded with a tribute of mixed wonder, + reverence, and pity, not unlike that which in some parts of the + world is still paid to women who seek to honor their Creator in a + different way by renouncing the natural functions of their sex + and the tenderest relations of humanity" (J.G. Frazer, _Adonis, + Attis, Osiris_, 1907, pp. 23 et seq.). + + It is difficult to resist the conclusion that this theory + represents the central and primitive idea which led to the + development of sacred prostitution. It seems equally clear, + however, that as time went on, and especially as temple cults + developed and priestly influence increased, this fundamental and + primitive idea tended to become modified, and even transformed. + The primitive conception became specialized in the belief that + religious benefits, and especially the gift of fruitfulness, were + gained _by the worshipper_, who thus sought the goddess's favor + by an act of unchastity which might be presumed to be agreeable + to an unchaste deity. The rite of Mylitta, as described by + Herodotus, was a late development of this kind in an ancient + civilization, and the benefit sought was evidently for the + worshipper herself. This has been pointed out by Dr. Westermarck, + who remarks that the words spoken to the woman by her partner as + he gives her the coin--"May the goddess be auspicious to + thee!"--themselves indicate that the object of the act was to + insure her fertility, and he refers also to the fact that + strangers frequently had a semi-supernatural character, and their + benefits a specially efficacious character (Westermarck, _Origin + and Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. ii, p. 446). It may be + added that the rite of Mylitta thus became analogous with another + Mediterranean rite, in which the act of simulating intercourse + with the representative of a god, or his image, ensured a woman's + fertility. This is the rite practiced by the Egyptians of Mendes, + in which a woman went through the ceremony of simulated + intercourse with the sacred goat, regarded as the representative + of a deity of Pan-like character (Herodotus, Bk. ii, Ch. XLVI; + and see Dulaure, _Des Divinités Génératrices_, Ch. II; cf. vol. v + of these _Studies_, "Erotic Symbolism," Sect. IV). This rite was + maintained by Roman women, in connection with the statues of + Priapus, to a very much later date, and St. Augustine mentions + how Roman matrons placed the young bride on the erect member of + Priapus (_De Civitate Dei_, Bk. iii, Ch. IX). The idea evidently + running through this whole group of phenomena is that the deity, + or the representative or even mere image of the deity, is able, + through a real or simulated act of intercourse, to confer on the + worshipper a portion of its own exalted generative activity. + +At a later period, in Corinth, prostitutes were still the priestesses of +Venus, more or less loosely attached to her temples, and so long as that +was the case they enjoyed a considerable degree of esteem. At this stage, +however, we realize that religious prostitution was developing a +utilitarian side. These temples flourished chiefly in sea-coast towns, in +islands, in large cities to which many strangers and sailors came. The +priestesses of Cyprus burnt incense on her altars and invoked her sacred +aid, but at the same time Pindar addresses them as "young girls who +welcome all strangers and give them hospitality." Side by side with the +religious significance of the act of generation the needs of men far from +home were already beginning to be definitely recognized. The Babylonian +woman had gone to the temple of Mylitta to fulfil a personal religious +duty; the Corinthian priestess had begun to act as an avowed minister to +the sexual needs of men in strange cities. + +The custom which Herodotus noted in Lydia of young girls prostituting +themselves in order to acquire a marriage portion which they may dispose +of as they think fit (Bk. I, Ch. 93) may very well have developed (as +Frazer also believes) out of religious prostitution; we can indeed trace +its evolution in Cyprus where eventually, at the period when Justinian +visited the island, the money given by strangers to the women was no +longer placed on the altar but put into a chest to form marriage-portions +for them. It is a custom to be found in Japan and various other parts of +the world, notably among the Ouled-Nail of Algeria,[138] and is not +necessarily always based on religious prostitution; but it obviously +cannot exist except among peoples who see nothing very derogatory in free +sexual intercourse for the purpose of obtaining money, so that the custom +of Mylitta furnished a natural basis for it.[139] + +As a more spiritual conception of religion developed, and as the growth of +civilization tended to deprive sexual intercourse of its sacred halo, +religious prostitution in Greece was slowly abolished, though on the +coasts of Asia Minor both religious prostitution and prostitution for the +purpose of obtaining a marriage portion persisted to the time of +Constantine, who put an end to these ancient customs.[140] Superstition +was on the side of the old religious prostitution; it was believed that +women who had never sacrificed to Aphrodite became consumed by lust, and +according to the legend recorded by Ovid--a legend which seems to point to +a certain antagonism between sacred and secular prostitution--this was the +case with the women who first became public prostitutes. The decay of +religious prostitution, doubtless combined with the cravings always born +of the growth of civilization, led up to the first establishment, +attributed by legend to Solon, of a public brothel, a purely secular +establishment for a purely secular end: the safeguarding of the virtue of +the general population and the increase of the public revenue. With that +institution the evolution of prostitution, and of the modern marriage +system of which it forms part, was completed. The Athenian _dikterion_ is +the modern brothel; the _dikteriade_ is the modern state-regulated +prostitute. The free _hetairæ_, indeed, subsequently arose, educated women +having no taint of the _dikterion_, but they likewise had no official part +in public worship.[141] The primitive conception of the sanctity of sexual +intercourse in the divine service had been utterly lost. + + A fairly typical example of the conditions existing among savages + is to be found in the South Sea Island of Rotuma, where + "prostitution for money or gifts was quite unknown." Adultery + after marriage was also unknown. But there was great freedom in + the formation of sexual relationships before marriage (J. Stanley + Gardiner, _Journal Anthropological Institute_, February, 1898, p. + 409). Much the same is said of the Bantu Ba mbola of Africa (_op. + cit._, July-December, 1905, p. 410). + + Among the early Cymri of Wales, representing a more advanced + social stage, prostitution appears to have been not absolutely + unknown, but public prostitution was punished by loss of valuable + privileges (R.B. Holt, "Marriage Laws and Customs of the Cymri," + _Journal Anthropological Institute_, August-November, 1898, pp. + 161-163). + + Prostitution was practically unknown in Burmah, and regarded as + shameful before the coming of the English and the example of the + modern Hindus. The missionaries have unintentionally, but + inevitably, favored the growth of prostitution by condemning free + unions (_Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, November, 1903, p. + 720). The English brought prostitution to India. "That was not + specially the fault of the English," said a Brahmin to Jules + Bois, "it is the crime of your civilization. We have never had + prostitutes. I mean by that horrible word the brutalized servants + of the gross desire of the passerby. We had, and we have, castes + of singers and dancers who are married to trees--yes, to + trees--by touching ceremonies which date from Vedic times; our + priests bless them and receive much money from them. They do not + refuse themselves to those who love them and please them. Kings + have made them rich. They represent all the arts; they are the + visible beauty of the universe" (Jules Bois, _Visions de l'Inde_, + p. 55). + + Religious prostitutes, it may be added, "the servants of the + god," are connected with temples in Southern India and the + Deccan. They are devoted to their sacred calling from their + earliest years, and it is their chief business to dance before + the image of the god, to whom they are married (though in Upper + India professional dancing girls are married to inanimate + objects), but they are also trained in arousing and assuaging the + desires of devotees who come on pilgrimage to the shrine. For the + betrothal rites by which, in India, sacred prostitutes are + consecrated, see, e.g., A. Van Gennep, _Rites de Passage_, p. + 142. + + In many parts of Western Asia, where barbarism had reached a high + stage of development, prostitution was not unknown, though + usually disapproved. The Hebrews knew it, and the historical + Biblical references to prostitutes imply little reprobation. + Jephtha was the son of a prostitute, brought up with the + legitimate children, and the story of Tamar is instructive. But + the legal codes were extremely severe on Jewish maidens who + became prostitutes (the offense was quite tolerable in strange + women), while Hebrew moralists exercised their invectives against + prostitution; it is sufficient to refer to a well-known passage + in the Book of Proverbs (see art. "Harlot," by Cheyne, in the + _Encyclopædia Biblica_). Mahomed also severely condemned + prostitution, though somewhat more tolerant to it in slave + women; according to Haleby, however, prostitution was practically + unknown in Islam during the first centuries after the Prophet's + time. + + The Persian adherents of the somewhat ascetic _Zendavesta_ also + knew prostitution, and regarded it with repulsion: "It is the + Gahi [the courtesan, as an incarnation of the female demon, + Gahi], O Spitama Zarathustra! who mixes in her the seed of the + faithful and the unfaithful, of the worshipper of Mazda and the + worshipper of the Dævas, of the wicked and the righteous. Her + look dries up one-third of the mighty floods that run from the + mountains, O Zarathustra; her look withers one-third of the + beautiful, golden-hued, growing plants, O Zarathustra; her look + withers one-third of the strength of Spenta Armaiti [the earth]; + and her touch withers in the faithful one-third of his good + thoughts, of his good words, of his good deeds, one-third of his + strength, of his victorious power, of his holiness. Verily I say + unto thee, O Spitama Zarathustra! such creatures ought to be + killed even more than gliding snakes, than howling wolves, than + the she-wolf that falls upon the fold, or than the she-frog that + falls upon the waters with her thousandfold brood" (_Zend-Avesta, + the Vendidad_, translated by James Darmesteter, Farfad XVIII). + + In practice, however, prostitution is well established in the + modern East. Thus in the Tartar-Turcoman region houses of + prostitution lying outside the paths frequented by Christians + have been described by a writer who appears to be well informed + ("Orientalische Prostitution," _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, + 1907, Bd. ii, Heft 1). These houses are not regarded as immoral + or forbidden, but as places in which the visitor will find a + woman who gives him for a few hours the illusion of being in his + own home, with the pleasure of enjoying her songs, dances, and + recitations, and finally her body. Payment is made at the door, + and no subsequent question of money arises; the visitor is + henceforth among friends, almost as if in his own family. He + treats the prostitute almost as if she were his wife, and no + indecorum or coarseness of speech occurs. "There is no obscenity + in the Oriental brothel." At the same time there is no artificial + pretence of innocence. + + In Eastern Asia, among the peoples of Mongolian stock, especially + in China, we find prostitution firmly established and organized + on a practical business basis. Prostitution is here accepted and + viewed with no serious disfavor, but the prostitute herself is, + nevertheless, treated with contempt. Young children are + frequently sold to be trained to a life of prostitution, educated + accordingly, and kept shut up from the world. Young widows + (remarriage being disapproved) frequently also slide into a life + of prostitution. Chinese prostitutes often end through opium and + the ravages of syphilis (see, e.g., Coltman's _The Chinese_, + 1900, Ch. VII). In ancient China, it is said prostitutes were a + superior class and occupied a position somewhat similar to that + of the _hetairæ_ in Greece. Even in modern China, however, where + they are very numerous, and the flower boats, in which in towns + by the sea they usually live, very luxurious, it is chiefly for + entertainment, according to some writers, that they are resorted + to. Tschang Ki Tong, military attaché in Paris (as quoted by + Ploss and Bartels), describes the flower boat as less analogous + to a European brothel than to a _café chantant_; the young + Chinaman comes here for music, for tea, for agreeable + conversation with the flower-maidens, who are by no means + necessarily called upon to minister to the lust of their + visitors. + + In Japan, the prostitute's lot is not so degraded as in China. + The greater refinement of Japanese civilization allows the + prostitute to retain a higher degree of self-respect. She is + sometimes regarded with pity, but less often with contempt. She + may associate openly with men, ultimately be married, even to men + of good social class, and rank as a respectable woman. "In riding + from Tokio to Yokohama, the past winter," Coltman observes (_op. + cit._, p. 113), "I saw a party of four young men and three quite + pretty and gaily-painted prostitutes, in the same car, who were + having a glorious time. They had two or three bottles of various + liquors, oranges, and fancy cakes, and they ate, drank and sang, + besides playing jokes on each other and frolicking like so many + kittens. You may travel the whole length of the Chinese Empire + and never witness such a scene." Yet the history of Japanese + prostitutes (which has been written in an interesting and + well-informed book, _The Nightless City_, by an English student + of sociology who remains anonymous) shows that prostitution in + Japan has not only been severely regulated, but very widely + looked down upon, and that Japanese prostitutes have often had to + suffer greatly; they were at one time practically slaves and + often treated with much hardship. They are free now, and any + condition approaching slavery is strictly prohibited and guarded + against. It would seem, however, that the palmiest days of + Japanese prostitution lay some centuries back. Up to the middle + of the eighteenth century Japanese prostitutes were highly + accomplished in singing, dancing, music, etc. Towards this + period, however, they seem to have declined in social + consideration and to have ceased to be well educated. Yet even + to-day, says Matignon ("La Prostitution au Japon," _Archives + d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, October, 1906), less infamy attaches + to prostitution in Japan than in Europe, while at the same time + there is less immorality in Japan than in Europe. Though + prostitution is organized like the postal or telegraph service, + there is also much clandestine prostitution. The prostitution + quarters are clean, beautiful and well-kept, but the Japanese + prostitutes have lost much of their native good taste in costume + by trying to imitate European fashions. It was when prostitution + began to decline two centuries ago, that the geishas first + appeared and were organized in such a way that they should not, + if possible, compete as prostitutes with the recognized and + licensed inhabitants of the Yoshiwara, as the quarter is called + to which prostitutes are confined. The geishas, of course, are + not prostitutes, though their virtue may not always be + impregnable, and in social position they correspond to actresses + in Europe. + + In Korea, at all events before Korea fell into the hands of the + Japanese, it would seem that there was no distinction between the + class of dancing girls and prostitutes. "Among the courtesans," + Angus Hamilton states, "the mental abilities are trained and + developed with a view to making them brilliant and entertaining + companions. These 'leaves of sunlight' are called _gisaing_, and + correspond to the geishas of Japan. Officially, they are attached + to a department of government, and are controlled by a bureau of + their own, in common with the Court musicians. They are supported + from the national treasury, and they are in evidence at official + dinners and all palace entertainments. They read and recite; they + dance and sing; they become accomplished artists and musicians. + They dress with exceptional taste; they move with exceeding + grace; they are delicate in appearance, very frail and very + human, very tender, sympathetic, and imaginative." But though + they are certainly the prettiest women in Korea, move in the + highest society, and might become concubines of the Emperor, they + are not allowed to marry men of good class (Angus Hamilton, + _Korea_, p. 52). + +The history of European prostitution, as of so many other modern +institutions, may properly be said to begin in Rome. Here at the outset we +already find that inconsistently mixed attitude towards prostitution which +to-day is still preserved. In Greece it was in many respects different. +Greece was nearer to the days of religious prostitution, and the sincerity +and refinement of Greek civilization made it possible for the better kind +of prostitute to exert, and often be worthy to exert, an influence in all +departments of life which she has never been able to exercise since, +except perhaps occasionally, in a much slighter degree, in France. The +course, vigorous, practical Roman was quite ready to tolerate the +prostitute, but he was not prepared to carry that toleration to its +logical results; he never felt bound to harmonize inconsistent facts of +life. Cicero, a moralist of no mean order, without expressing approval of +prostitution, yet could not understand how anyone should wish to prohibit +youths from commerce with prostitutes, such severity being out of harmony +with all the customs of the past or the present.[142] But the superior +class of Roman prostitutes, the _bonæ mulieres_, had no such dignified +position as the Greek _hetairæ_. Their influence was indeed immense, but +it was confined, as it is in the case of their European successors to-day, +to fashions, customs, and arts. There was always a certain moral rigidity +in the Roman which prevented him from yielding far in this direction. He +encouraged brothels, but he only entered them with covered head and face +concealed in his cloak. In the same way, while he tolerated the +prostitute, beyond a certain point he sharply curtailed her privileges. +Not only was she deprived of all influence in the higher concerns of life, +but she might not even wear the _vitta_ or the _stola_; she could indeed +go almost naked if she pleased, but she must not ape the emblems of the +respectable Roman matron.[143] + +The rise of Christianity to political power produced on the whole less +change of policy than might have been anticipated. The Christian rulers +had to deal practically as best they might with a very mixed, turbulent, +and semi-pagan world. The leading fathers of the Church were inclined to +tolerate prostitution for the avoidance of greater evils, and Christian +emperors, like their pagan predecessors, were willing to derive a tax from +prostitution. The right of prostitution to exist was, however, no longer +so unquestionably recognized as in pagan days, and from time to time some +vigorous ruler sought to repress prostitution by severe enactments. The +younger Theodosius and Valentinian definitely ordained that there should +be no more brothels and that anyone giving shelter to a prostitute should +be punished. Justinian confirmed that measure and ordered that all panders +were to be exiled on pain of death. These enactments were quite vain. But +during a thousand years they were repeated again and again in various +parts of Europe, and invariably with the same fruitless or worse than +fruitless results. Theodoric, king of the Visigoths, punished with death +those who promoted prostitution, and Recared, a Catholic king of the same +people in the sixth century, prohibited prostitution altogether and +ordered that a prostitute, when found, should receive three hundred +strokes of the whip and be driven out of the city. Charlemagne, as well as +Genserich in Carthage, and later Frederick Barbarossa in Germany, made +severe laws against prostitution which were all of no effect, for even if +they seemed to be effective for the time the reaction was all the greater +afterwards.[144] + +It is in France that the most persistent efforts have been made to combat +prostitution. Most notable of all were the efforts of the King and Saint, +Louis IX. In 1254 St. Louis ordained that prostitutes should be driven out +altogether and deprived of all their money and goods, even to their +mantles and gowns. In 1256 he repeated this ordinance and in 1269, before +setting out for the Crusades, he ordered the destruction of all places of +prostitution. The repetition of those decrees shows how ineffectual they +were. They even made matters worse, for prostitutes were forced to mingle +with the general population and their influence was thus extended. St. +Louis was unable to put down prostitution even in his own camp in the +East, and it existed outside his own tent. His legislation, however, was +frequently imitated by subsequent rulers of France, even to the middle of +the seventeenth century, always with the same ineffectual and worse +results. In 1560 an edict of Charles IX abolished brothels, but the number +of prostitutes was thereby increased rather than diminished, while many +new kinds of brothels appeared in unsuspected shapes and were more +dangerous than the more recognized brothels which had been +suppressed.[145] In spite of all such legislation, or because of it, there +has been no country in which prostitution has played a more conspicuous +part.[146] + +At Mantua, so great was the repulsion aroused by prostitutes that they +were compelled to buy in the markets any fruit or bread that had been +soiled by the mere touch of their hands. It was so also in Avignon in +1243. In Catalonia they could not sit at the same table as a lady or a +knight or kiss any honorable person.[147] Even in Venice, the paradise of +prostitution, numerous and severe regulations were passed against it, and +it was long before the Venetian rulers resigned themselves to its +toleration and regulation.[148] + +The last vigorous attempt to uproot prostitution in Europe was that of +Maria Theresa at Vienna in the middle of the eighteenth century. Although +of such recent date it may be mentioned here because it was mediæval alike +in its conception and methods. Its object indeed, was to suppress not only +prostitution, but fornication generally, and the means adopted were fines, +imprisonment, whipping and torture. The supposed causes of fornication +were also dealt with severely; short dresses were prohibited; billiard +rooms and cafés were inspected; no waitresses were allowed, and when +discovered, a waitress was liable to be handcuffed and carried off by the +police. The Chastity Commission, under which these measures were +rigorously carried out, was, apparently, established in 1751 and was +quietly abolished by the Emperor Joseph II, in the early years of his +reign. It was the general opinion that this severe legislation was really +ineffective, and that it caused much more serious evils than it +cured.[149] It is certain in any case that, for a long time past, +illegitimacy has been more prevalent in Vienna than in any other great +European capital. + +Yet the attitude towards prostitutes was always mixed and inconsistent at +different places or different times, or even at the same time and place. +Dufour has aptly compared their position to that of the mediæval Jews; +they were continually persecuted, ecclesiastically, civilly, and socially, +yet all classes were glad to have recourse to them and it was impossible +to do without them. In some countries, including England in the fourteenth +century, a special costume was imposed on prostitutes as a mark of +infamy.[150] Yet in many respects no infamy whatever attached to +prostitution. High placed officials could claim payment of their expenses +incurred in visiting prostitutes when traveling on public business. +Prostitution sometimes played an official part in festivities and +receptions accorded by great cities to royal guests, and the brothel might +form an important part of the city's hospitality. When the Emperor +Sigismund came to Ulm in 1434 the streets were illuminated at such times +as he or his suite desired to visit the common brothel. Brothels under +municipal protection are found in the thirteenth century in Augsburg, in +Vienna, in Hamburg.[151] In France the best known _abbayes_ of prostitutes +were those of Toulouse and Montpellier.[152] Durkheim is of opinion that +in the early middle ages, before this period, free love and marriage were +less severely differentiated. It was the rise of the middle class, he +considers, anxious to protect their wives and daughters, which led to a +regulated and publicly recognized attempt to direct debauchery into a +separate channel, brought under control.[153] These brothels constituted a +kind of public service, the directors of them being regarded almost as +public officials, bound to keep a certain number of prostitutes, to charge +according to a fixed tariff, and not to receive into their houses girls +belonging to the neighborhood. The institutions of this kind lasted for +three centuries. It was, in part, perhaps, the impetus of the new +Protestant movement, but mainly the terrible devastation produced by the +introduction of syphilis from America at the end of the fifteenth century +which, as Burckhardt and others have pointed out, led to the decline of +the mediæval brothels.[154] + +The superior modern prostitute, the "courtesan" who had no connection with +the brothel, seems to have been the outcome of the Renaissance and made +her appearance in Italy at the end of the fifteenth century. "Courtesan" +or "cortegiana" meant a lady following the court, and the term began at +this time to be applied to a superior prostitute observing a certain +degree of decorum and restraint.[155] In the papal court of Alexander +Borgia the courtesan flourished even when her conduct was not altogether +dignified. Burchard, the faithful and unimpeachable chronicler of this +court, describes in his diary how, one evening, in October, 1501, the Pope +sent for fifty courtesans to be brought to his chamber; after supper, in +the presence of Cæsar Borgia and his young sister Lucrezia, they danced +with the servitors and others who were present, at first clothed, +afterwards naked. The candlesticks with lighted candles were then placed +upon the floor and chestnuts thrown among them, to be gathered by the +women crawling between the candlesticks on their hands and feet. Finally a +number of prizes were brought forth to be awarded to those men "qui +pluries dictos meretrices carnaliter agnoscerent," the victor in the +contest being decided according to the judgment of the spectators.[156] +This scene, enacted publicly in the Apostolic palace and serenely set +forth by the impartial secretary, is at once a notable episode in the +history of modern prostitution and one of the most illuminating +illustrations we possess of the paganism of the Renaissance. + + Before the term "courtesan" came into repute, prostitutes were + even in Italy commonly called "sinners," _peccatrice_. The + change, Graf remarks in a very interesting study of the + Renaissance prostitute ("Una Cortigiana fra Mille," _Attraverso + il Cinquecento_, pp. 217-351), "reveals a profound alteration in + ideas and in life;" a term that suggested infamy gave place to + one that suggested approval, and even honor, for the courts of + the Renaissance period represented the finest culture of the + time. The best of these courtesans seem to have been not + altogether unworthy of the honor they received. We can detect + this in their letters. There is a chapter on the letters of + Renaissance prostitutes, especially those of Camilla de Pisa + which are marked by genuine passion, in Lothar Schmidt's + _Frauenbriefe der Renaissance_. The famous Imperia, called by a + Pope in the early years of the sixteenth century "nobilissimum + Romæ scortum," knew Latin and could write Italian verse. Other + courtesans knew Italian and Latin poetry by heart, while they + were accomplished in music, dancing, and speech. We are reminded + of ancient Greece, and Graf, discussing how far the Renaissance + courtesans resembled the hetairæ, finds a very considerable + likeness, especially in culture and influence, though with some + differences due to the antagonism between religion and + prostitution at the later period. + + The most distinguished figure in every respect among the + courtesans of that time was certainly Tullia D'Aragona. She was + probably the daughter of Cardinal D'Aragona (an illegitimate + scion of the Spanish royal family) by a Ferrarese courtesan who + became his mistress. Tullia has gained a high reputation by her + verse. Her best sonnet is addressed to a youth of twenty, whom + she passionately loved, but who did not return her love. Her + _Guerrino Meschino_, a translation from the Spanish, is a very + pure and chaste work. She was a woman of refined instincts and + aspirations, and once at least she abandoned her life of + prostitution. She was held in high esteem and respect. When, in + 1546, Cosimo, Duke of Florence, ordered all prostitutes to wear a + yellow veil or handkerchief as a public badge of their + profession, Tullia appealed to the Duchess, a Spanish lady of + high character, and received permission to dispense with this + badge on account of her "rara scienzia di poesia et filosofia." + She dedicated her _Rime_ to the Duchess. Tullia D'Aragona was + very beautiful, with yellow hair, and remarkably large and bright + eyes, which dominated those who came near her. She was of proud + bearing and inspired unusual respect (G. Biagi, "Un' Etera + Romana," _Nuova Antologia_, vol. iv, 1886, pp. 655-711; S. + Bongi, _Rivista critica della Letteratura Italiana_, 1886, IV, p. + 186). + + Tullia D'Aragona was clearly not a courtesan at heart. Perhaps + the most typical example of the Renaissance courtesan at her best + is furnished by Veronica Franco, born in 1546 at Venice, of + middle class family and in early life married to a doctor. Of her + also it has been said that, while by profession a prostitute, she + was by inclination a poet. But she appears to have been well + content with her profession, and never ashamed of it. Her life + and character have been studied by Arturo Graf, and more slightly + in a little book by Tassini. She was highly cultured, and knew + several languages; she also sang well and played on many + instruments. In one of her letters she advises a youth who was + madly in love with her that if he wishes to obtain her favors he + must leave off importuning her and devote himself tranquilly to + study. "You know well," she adds, "that all those who claim to be + able to gain my love, and who are extremely dear to me, are + strenuous in studious discipline.... If my fortune allowed it I + would spend all my time quietly in the academies of virtuous + men." The Diotimas and Aspasias of antiquity, as Graf comments, + would not have demanded so much of their lovers. In her poems it + is possible to trace some of her love histories, and she often + shows herself torn by jealousy at the thought that perhaps + another woman may approach her beloved. Once she fell in love + with an ecclesiastic, possibly a bishop, with whom she had no + relationships, and after a long absence, which healed her love, + she and he became sincere friends. Once she was visited by Henry + III of France, who took away her portrait, while on her part she + promised to dedicate a book to him; she so far fulfilled this as + to address some sonnets to him and a letter; "neither did the + King feel ashamed of his intimacy with the courtesan," remarks + Graf, "nor did she suspect that he would feel ashamed of it." + When Montaigne passed through Venice she sent him a little book + of hers, as we learn from his _Journal_, though they do not + appear to have met. Tintoret was one of her many distinguished + friends, and she was a strenuous advocate of the high qualities + of modern, as compared with ancient, art. Her friendships were + affectionate, and she even seems to have had various grand ladies + among her friends. She was, however, so far from being ashamed of + her profession of courtesan that in one of her poems she affirms + she has been taught by Apollo other arts besides those he is + usually regarded as teaching: + + "Cosi dolce e gustevole divento, + Quando mi trovo con persona in letto + Da cui amata e gradita mi sento." + + In a certain _catalogo_ of the prices of Venetian courtesans + Veronica is assigned only 2 scudi for her favors, while the + courtesan to whom the catalogue is dedicated is set down at 25 + scudi. Graf thinks there may be some mistake or malice here, and + an Italian gentleman of the time states that she required not + less than 50 scudi from those to whom she was willing to accord + what Montaigne called the "negotiation entière." + + In regard to this matter it may be mentioned that, as stated by + Bandello, it was the custom for a Venetian prostitute to have six + or seven gentlemen at a time as her lovers. Each was entitled to + come to sup and sleep with her on one night of the week, leaving + her days free. They paid her so much per month, but she always + definitely reserved the right to receive a stranger passing + through Venice, if she wished, changing the time of her + appointment with her lover for the night. The high and special + prices which we find recorded are, of course, those demanded from + the casual distinguished stranger who came to Venice as, once in + the sixteenth century, Montaigne came. + + In 1580 (when not more than thirty-four) Veronica confessed to + the Holy Office that she had had six children. In the same year + she formed the design of founding a home, which should not be a + monastery, where prostitutes who wished to abandon their mode of + life could find a refuge with their children, if they had any. + This seems to have led to the establishment of a Casa del + Soccorso. In 1591 she died of fever, reconciled with God and + blessed by many unfortunates. She had a good heart and a sound + intellect, and was the last of the great Renaissance courtesans + who revived Greek hetairism (Graf, _Attraverso il Cinquecento_, + pp. 217-351). Even in sixteenth century Venice, however, it will + be seen, Veronica Franco seems to have been not altogether at + peace in the career of a courtesan. She was clearly not adapted + for ordinary marriage, yet under the most favorable conditions + that the modern world has ever offered it may still be doubted + whether a prostitute's career can offer complete satisfaction to + a woman of large heart and brain. + + Ninon de Lenclos, who is frequently called "the last of the great + courtesans," may seem an exception to the general rule as to the + inability of a woman of good heart, high character, and fine + intelligence to find satisfaction in a prostitute's life. But it + is a total misconception alike of Ninon de Lenclos's temperament + and her career to regard her as in any true sense a prostitute at + all. A knowledge of even the barest outlines of her life ought to + prevent such a mistake. Born early in the seventeenth century, + she was of good family on both sides; her mother was a woman of + severe life, but her father, a gentleman of Touraine, inspired + her with his own Epicurean philosophy as well as his love of + music. She was extremely well educated. At the age of sixteen or + seventeen she had her first lover, the noble and valiant Gaspard + de Coligny; he was followed for half a century by a long + succession of other lovers, sometimes more than one at a time; + three years was the longest period during which she was faithful + to one lover. Her attractions lasted so long that, it is said, + three generations of Sévignés were among her lovers. Tallemant + des Réaux enables us to study in detail her _liaisons_. + + It is not, however, the abundance of lovers which makes a woman a + prostitute, but the nature of her relationships with them. + Sainte-Beuve, in an otherwise admirable study of Ninon de Lenclos + (_Causeries du Lundi_, vol. iv), seems to reckon her among the + courtesans. But no woman is a prostitute unless she uses men as a + source of pecuniary gain. Not only is there no evidence that this + was the case with Ninon, but all the evidence excludes such a + relationship. "It required much skill," said Voltaire, "and a + great deal of love on her part, to induce her to accept + presents." Tallemant, indeed, says that she sometimes took money + from her lovers, but this statement probably involves nothing + beyond what is contained in Voltaire's remark, and, in any case, + Tallemant's gossip, though usually well-informed, was not always + reliable. All are agreed as to her extreme disinterestedness. + + When we hear precisely of Ninon de Lenclos in connection with + money, it is not as receiving a gift, but only as repaying a debt + to an old lover, or restoring a large sum left with her for safe + keeping when the owner was exiled. Such incidents are far from + suggesting the professional prostitute of any age; they are + rather the relationships which might exist between men friends. + Ninon de Lenclos's character was in many respects far from + perfect, but she combined many masculine virtues, and especially + probity, with a temperament which, on the whole, was certainly + feminine; she hated hypocrisy, and she was never influenced by + pecuniary considerations. She was, moreover, never reckless, but + always retained a certain self-restraint and temperance, even in + eating and drinking, and, we are told, she never drank wine. She + was, as Sainte-Beuve has remarked, the first to realize that + there must be the same virtues for men and for women, and that it + is absurd to reduce all feminine virtues to one. "Our sex has + been burdened with all the frivolities," she wrote, "and men have + reserved to themselves the essential qualities: I have made + myself a man." She sometimes dressed as a man when riding (see, + e.g., _Correspondence Authentique_ of Ninon de Lenclos, with a + good introduction by Emile Colombey). Consciously or not, she + represented a new feminine idea at a period when--as we may see + in many forgotten novels written by the women of that time--ideas + were beginning to emerge in the feminine sphere. She was the + first, and doubtless, from one point of view, the most extreme + representative of a small and distinguished group of French women + among whom Georges Sand is the finest personality. + + Thus it is idle to attempt to adorn the history of prostitution + with the name of Ninon de Lenclos. A debauched old prostitute + would never, like Ninon towards the end of her long life, have + been able to retain or to conquer the affection and the esteem + of many of the best men and women of her time; even to the + austere Saint-Simon it seemed that there reigned in her little + court a decorum which the greatest princesses cannot achieve. She + was not a prostitute, but a woman of unique personality with a + little streak of genius in it. That she was inimitable we need + not perhaps greatly regret. In her old age, in 1699, her old + friend and former lover, Saint-Evremond, wrote to her, with only + a little exaggeration, that there were few princesses and few + saints who would not leave their courts and their cloisters to + change places with her. "If I had known beforehand what my life + would be I would have hanged myself," was her oft-quoted answer. + It is, indeed, a solitary phrase that slips in, perhaps as the + expression of a momentary mood; one may make too much of it. More + truly characteristic is the fine saying in which her Epicurean + philosophy seems to stretch out towards Nietzsche: "La joie de + l'esprit en marque la force." + +The frank acceptance of prostitution by the spiritual or even the temporal +power has since the Renaissance become more and more exceptional. The +opposite extreme of attempting to uproot prostitution has also in practice +been altogether abandoned. Sporadic attempts have indeed been made, here +and there, to put down prostitution with a strong hand even in quite +modern times. It is now, however, realized that in such a case the remedy +is worse than the disease. + + In 1860 a Mayor of Portsmouth felt it his duty to attempt to + suppress prostitution. "In the early part of his mayoralty," + according to a witness before the Select Committee on the + Contagious Diseases Acts (p. 393), "there was an order passed + that every beerhouse-keeper and licensed victualer in the borough + known to harbor these women would be dealt with, and probably + lose his license. On a given day about three hundred or four + hundred of these forlorn outcasts were bundled wholesale into the + streets, and they formed up in a large body, many of them with + only a shift and a petticoat on, and with a lot of drunken men + and boys with a fife and fiddle they paraded the streets for + several days. They marched in a body to the workhouse, but for + many reasons they were refused admittance.... These women + wandered about for two or three days shelterless, and it was felt + that the remedy was very much worse than the disease, and the + women were allowed to go back to their former places." + + Similar experiments have been made even more recently in America. + "In Pittsburg, Pennsylvania, in 1891, the houses of prostitutes + were closed, the inmates turned out upon the streets, and were + refused lodging and even food by the citizens of that place. A + wave of popular remonstrance, all over the country, at the + outrage on humanity, created a reaction which resulted in a last + condition by no means better than the first." In the same year + also a similar incident occurred in New York with the same + unfortunate results (Isidore Dyer, "The Municipal Control of + Prostitution in the United States," report presented to the + Brussels International Conference in 1899). + +There grew up instead the tendency to regulate prostitution, to give it a +semi-official toleration which enabled the authorities to exercise a +control over it, and to guard as far as possible against its evil by +medical and police inspection. The new brothel system differed from the +ancient mediæval houses of prostitution in important respects; it involved +a routine of medical inspection and it endeavored to suppress any rivalry +by unlicensed prostitutes outside. Bernard Mandeville, the author of the +_Fable of the Bees_, and an acute thinker, was a pioneer in the advocacy +of this system. In 1724, in his _Modest Defense of Publick Stews_, he +argues that "the encouraging of public whoring will not only prevent most +of the mischievous effects of this vice, but even lessen the quantity of +whoring in general, and reduce it to the narrowest bounds which it can +possibly be contained in." He proposed to discourage private prostitution +by giving special privileges and immunities to brothels by Act of +Parliament. His scheme involved the erection of one hundred brothels in a +special quarter of the city, to contain two thousand prostitutes and one +hundred matrons of ability and experience with physicians and surgeons, as +well as commissioners to oversee the whole. Mandeville was regarded merely +as a cynic or worse, and his scheme was ignored or treated with contempt. +It was left to the genius of Napoleon, eighty years later, to establish +the system of "maisons de tolérance," which had so great an influence over +modern European practice during a large part of the last century and even +still in its numerous survivals forms the subject of widely divergent +opinions. + +On the whole, however, it must be said that the system of registering, +examining, and regularizing prostitutes now belongs to the past. Many +great battles have been fought over this question; the most important is +that which raged for many years in England over the Contagious Diseases +Acts, and is embodied in the 600 pages of a Report by a Select Committee +on these Acts issued in 1882. The majority of the members of the Committee +reported favorably to the Acts which were, notwithstanding, repealed in +1886, since which date no serious attempt has been made in England to +establish them again. + +At the present time, although the old system still stands in many +countries with the inert stolidity of established institutions, it no +longer commands general approval. As Paul and Victor Margueritte have +truly stated, in the course of an acute examination of the phenomena of +state-regulated prostitution as found in Paris, the system is "barbarous +to start with and almost inefficacious as well." The expert is every day +more clearly demonstrating its inefficacy while the psychologist and the +sociologist are constantly becoming more convinced that it is barbarous. + +It can indeed by no means be said that any unanimity has been attained. It +is obviously so urgently necessary to combat the flood of disease and +misery which proceeds directly from the spread of syphilis and gonorrhoea, +and indirectly from the prostitution which is the chief propagator of +these diseases, that we cannot be surprised that many should eagerly catch +at any system which seems to promise a palliation of the evils. At the +present time, however, it is those best acquainted with the operation of +the system of control who have most clearly realized that the supposed +palliation is for the most part illusory,[157] and in any case attained at +the cost of the artificial production of other evils. In France, where the +system of the registration and control of prostitutes has been +established for over a century,[158] and where consequently its +advantages, if such there are, should be clearly realized, it meets with +almost impassioned opposition from able men belonging to every section of +the community. In Germany the opposition to regularized control has long +been led by well-equipped experts, headed by Blaschko of Berlin. Precisely +the same conclusions are being reached in America. Gottheil, of New York, +finds that the municipal control of prostitution is "neither successful +nor desirable." Heidingsfeld concludes that the regulation and control +system in force in Cincinnati has done little good and much harm; under +the system among the private patients in his own clinic the proportion of +cases of both syphilis and gonorrhoea has increased; "suppression of +prostitutes is impossible and control is impracticable."[159] + + It is in Germany that the attempt to regulate prostitution still + remains most persistent, with results that in Germany itself are + regarded as unfortunate. Thus the German law inflicts a penalty + on householders who permit illegitimate sexual intercourse in + their houses. This is meant to strike the unlicensed prostitute, + but it really encourages prostitution, for a decent youth and + girl who decide to form a relationship which later may develop + into marriage, and which is not illegal (for extra-marital sexual + intercourse _per se_ is not in Germany, as it is by the + antiquated laws of several American States, a punishable + offense), are subjected to so much trouble and annoyance by the + suspicious police that it is much easier for the girl to become a + prostitute and put herself under the protection of the police. + The law was largely directed against those who live on the + profits of prostitution. But in practice it works out + differently. The prostitute simply has to pay extravagantly high + rents, so that her landlord really lives on the fruits of her + trade, while she has to carry on her business with increased + activity and on a larger scale in order to cover her heavy + expenses (P. Hausmeister, "Zur Analyse der Prostitution," + _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, vol. ii, 1907, p. 294). + + In Italy, opinion on this matter is much divided. The regulation + of prostitution has been successively adopted, abandoned, and + readopted. In Switzerland, the land of governmental experiments, + various plans are tried in different cantons. In some there is + no attempt to interfere with prostitution, except under special + circumstances; in others all prostitution, and even fornication + generally, is punishable; in Geneva only native prostitutes are + permitted to practice; in Zurich, since 1897, prostitution is + prohibited, but care is taken to put no difficulties in the path + of free sexual relationships which are not for gain. With these + different regulations, morals in Switzerland generally are said + to be much on the same level as elsewhere (Moreau-Christophe, _Du + Problème de la Misère_, vol. iii, p. 259). The same conclusion + holds good of London. A disinterested observer, Félix Remo (_La + Vie Galante en Angleterre_, 1888, p. 237), concluded that, + notwithstanding its free trade in prostitution, its alcoholic + excesses, its vices of all kinds, "London is one of the most + moral capitals in Europe." The movement towards freedom in this + matter has been evidenced in recent years by the abandonment of + the system of regulation by Denmark in 1906. + +Even the most ardent advocates of the registration of prostitutes +recognize that not only is the tendency of civilization opposed rather +than favorable to the system, but that in the numerous countries where the +system persists registered prostitutes are losing ground in the struggle +against clandestine prostitutes. Even in France, the classic land of +police-controlled prostitutes, the "maisons de tolérance" have long been +steadily decreasing in number, by no means because prostitution is +decreasing but because low-class _brasseries_ and small _cafés-chantants_, +which are really unlicensed brothels, are taking their place.[160] + +The wholesale regularization of prostitution in civilized centres is +nowadays, indeed, advocated by few, if any, of the authorities who belong +to the newer school. It is at most claimed as desirable in certain places +under special circumstances.[161] Even those who would still be glad to +see prostitution thoroughly in the control of the police now recognize +that experience shows this to be impossible. As many girls begin their +career as prostitutes at a very early age, a sound system of regulation +should be prepared to enroll as permanent prostitutes even girls who are +little more than children. That, however, is a logical conclusion against +which the moral sense, and even the common sense, of a community +instinctively revolts. In Paris girls may not be inscribed as prostitutes +until they have reached the age of sixteen and some consider even that age +too low.[162] Moreover, whenever she becomes diseased, or grows tired of +her position, the registered woman may always slip out of the hands of the +police and establish herself elsewhere as a clandestine prostitute. Every +rigid attempt to keep prostitution within the police ring leads to +offensive interference with the actions and the freedom of respectable +women which cannot fail to be intolerable in any free community. Even in a +city like London, where prostitution is relatively free, the supervision +of the police has led to scandalous police charges against women who have +done nothing whatever which should legitimately arouse suspicion of their +behavior. The escape of the infected woman from the police cordon has, it +is obvious, an effect in raising the apparent level of health of +registered women, and the police statistics are still further fallaciously +improved by the fact that the inmates of brothels are older on the average +than clandestine prostitutes and have become immune to disease.[163] These +facts are now becoming fairly obvious and well recognized. The state +regulation of prostitution is undesirable, on moral grounds for the +oft-emphasized reason that it is only applied to one sex, and on practical +grounds because it is ineffective. Society allows the police to harass the +prostitute with petty persecutions under the guise of charges of +"solicitation," "disorderly conduct," etc., but it is no longer convinced +that she ought to be under the absolute control of the police. + +The problem of prostitution, when we look at it narrowly, seems to be in +the same position to-day as at any time in the course of the past three +thousand years. In order, however, to comprehend the real significance of +prostitution, and to attain a reasonable attitude towards it, we must look +at it from a broader point of view; we must consider not only its +evolution and history, but its causes and its relation to the wider +aspects of modern social life. When we thus view the problem from a +broader standpoint we shall find that there is no conflict between the +claims of ethics and those of social hygiene, and that the coördinated +activity of both is involved in the progressive refinement and +purification of civilized sexual relationships. + + +_III. The Causes of Prostitution._ + +The history of the rise and development of prostitution enables us to see +that prostitution is not an accident of our marriage system, but an +essential constituent which appears concurrently with its other essential +constituents. The gradual development of the family on a patriarchal and +largely monogamic basis rendered it more and more difficult for a woman to +dispose of her own person. She belongs in the first place to her father, +whose interest it was to guard her carefully until a husband appeared who +could afford to purchase her. In the enhancement of her value the new idea +of the market value of virginity gradually developed, and where a "virgin" +had previously meant a woman who was free to do as she would with her own +body its meaning was now reversed and it came to mean a woman who was +precluded from having intercourse with men. When she was transferred from +her father to a husband, she was still guarded with the same care; +husband and father alike found their interest in preserving their women +from unmarried men. The situation thus produced resulted in the existence +of a large body of young men who were not yet rich enough to obtain wives, +and a large number of young women, not yet chosen as wives, and many of +whom could never expect to become wives. At such a point in social +evolution prostitution is clearly inevitable; it is not so much the +indispensable concomitant of marriage as an essential part of the whole +system. Some of the superfluous or neglected women, utilizing their money +value and perhaps at the same time reviving traditions of an earlier +freedom, find their social function in selling their favors to gratify the +temporary desires of the men who have not yet been able to acquire wives. +Thus every link in the chain of the marriage system is firmly welded and +the complete circle formed. + +But while the history of the rise and development of prostitution shows us +how indestructible and essential an element prostitution is of the +marriage system which has long prevailed in Europe--under very varied +racial, political, social, and religious conditions--it yet fails to +supply us in every respect with the data necessary to reach a definite +attitude towards prostitution to-day. In order to understand the place of +prostitution in our existing system, it is necessary that we should +analyze the chief factors of prostitution. We may most conveniently learn +to understand these if we consider prostitution, in order, under four +aspects. These are: (1) _economic_ necessity; (2) _biological_ +predisposition; (3) _moral_ advantages; and (4) what may be called its +_civilizational_ value. + +While these four factors of prostitution seem to me those that here +chiefly concern us, it is scarcely necessary to point out that many other +causes contribute to produce and modify prostitution. Prostitutes +themselves often seek to lead other girls to adopt the same paths; +recruits must be found for brothels, whence we have the "white slave +trade," which is now being energetically combated in many parts of the +world; while all the forms of seduction towards this life are favored and +often predisposed to by alcoholism. It will generally be found that +several causes have combined to push a girl into the career of +prostitution. + + The ways in which various factors of environment and suggestion + unite to lead a girl into the paths of prostitution are indicated + in the following statement in which a correspondent has set forth + his own conclusions on this matter as a man of the world: "I have + had a somewhat varied experience among loose women, and can say, + without hesitation, that not more than 1 per cent, of the women I + have known could be regarded as educated. This indicates that + almost invariably they are of humble origin, and the terrible + cases of overcrowding that are daily brought to light suggest + that at very early ages the sense of modesty becomes extinct, and + long before puberty a familiarity with things sexual takes place. + As soon as they are old enough these girls are seduced by their + sweethearts; the familiarity with which they regard sexual + matters removes the restraint which surrounds a girl whose early + life has been spent in decent surroundings. Later they go to work + in factories and shops; if pretty and attractive, they consort + with managers and foremen. Then the love of finery, which forms + so large a part of the feminine character, tempts the girl to + become the 'kept' woman of some man of means. A remarkable thing + in this connection is the fact that they rarely enjoy excitement + with their protectors, preferring rather the coarser embraces of + some man nearer their own station in life, very often a soldier. + I have not known many women who were seduced and deserted, though + this is a fiction much affected by prostitutes. Barmaids supply a + considerable number to the ranks of prostitution, largely on + account of their addiction to drink; drunkenness invariably leads + to laxness of moral restraint in women. Another potent factor in + the production of prostitutes lies in the flare of finery + flaunted by some friend who has adopted the life. A girl, working + hard to live, sees some friend, perhaps making a call in the + street where the hard-working girl lives, clothed in finery, + while she herself can hardly get enough to eat. She has a + conversation with her finely-clad friend who tells her how easily + she can earn money, explaining what a vital asset the sexual + organs are, and soon another one is added to the ranks." + + There is some interest in considering the reasons assigned for + prostitutes entering their career. In some countries this has + been estimated by those who come closely into official or other + contact with prostitutes. In other countries, it is the rule for + girls, before they are registered as prostitutes, to state the + reasons for which they desire to enter the career. + + Parent-Duchâtelet, whose work on prostitutes in Paris is still an + authority, presented the first estimate of this kind. He found + that of over five thousand prostitutes, 1441 were influenced by + poverty, 1425 by seduction of lovers who had abandoned them, + 1255 by the loss of parents from death or other cause. By such an + estimate, nearly the whole number are accounted for by + wretchedness, that is by economic causes, alone + (Parent-Duchâtelet, _De la Prostitution_, 1857, vol. i, p. 107). + + In Brussels during a period of twenty years (1865-1884) 3505 + women were inscribed as prostitutes. The causes they assigned for + desiring to take to this career present a different picture from + that shown by Parent-Duchâtelet, but perhaps a more reliable one, + although there are some marked and curious discrepancies. Out of + the 3505, 1523 explained that extreme poverty was the cause of + their degradation; 1118 frankly confessed that their sexual + passions were the cause; 420 attributed their fall to evil + company; 316 said they were disgusted and weary of their work, + because the toil was so arduous and the pay so small; 101 had + been abandoned by their lovers; 10 had quarrelled with their + parents; 7 were abandoned by their husbands; 4 did not agree with + their guardians; 3 had family quarrels; 2 were compelled to + prostitute themselves by their husbands, and 1 by her parents + (_Lancet_, June 28, 1890, p. 1442). + + In London, Merrick found that of 16,022 prostitutes who passed + through his hands during the years he was chaplain at Millbank + prison, 5061 voluntarily left home or situation for "a life of + pleasure;" 3363 assigned poverty as the cause; 3154 were + "seduced" and drifted on to the street; 1636 were betrayed by + promises of marriage and abandoned by lover and relations. On the + whole, Merrick states, 4790, or nearly one-third of the whole + number, may be said to owe the adoption of their career directly + to men, 11,232 to other causes. He adds that of those pleading + poverty a large number were indolent and incapable (G.P. Merrick, + _Work Among the Fallen_, p. 38). + + Logan, an English city missionary with an extensive acquaintance + with prostitutes, divided them into the following groups: (1) + One-fourth of the girls are servants, especially in public + houses, beer shops, etc., and thus led into the life; (2) + one-fourth come from factories, etc.; (3) nearly one-fourth are + recruited by procuresses who visit country towns, markets, etc.; + (4) a final group includes, on the one hand, those who are + induced to become prostitutes by destitution, or indolence, or a + bad temper, which unfits them for ordinary avocations, and, on + the other hand, those who have been seduced by a false promise of + marriage (W. Logan, _The Great Social Evil_, 1871, p. 53). + + In America Sanger has reported the results of inquiries made of + two thousand New York prostitutes as to the causes which induced + them to take up their avocation: + + Destitution 525 + Inclination 513 + Seduced and abandoned 258 + Drink and desire for drink 181 + Ill-treatment by parents, relations, or husbands 164 + As an easy life 124 + Bad company 84 + Persuaded by prostitutes 71 + Too idle to work 29 + Violated 27 + Seduced on emigrant ship 16 + Seduced in emigrant boarding homes 8 + ----- + 2,000 + + (Sanger, _History of Prostitution_, p. 488.) + + In America, again, more recently, Professor Woods Hutchinson put + himself into communication with some thirty representative men in + various great metropolitan centres, and thus summarizes the + answers as regards the etiology of prostitution: + + Per cent. + + Love of display, luxury and idleness 42.1 + Bad family surroundings 23.8 + Seduction in which they were innocent victims 11.3 + Lack of employment 9.4 + Heredity 7.8 + Primary sexual appetite 5.6 + + (Woods Hutchinson, "The Economics of Prostitution," _American + Gynæcologic and Obstetric Journal_, September, 1895; _Id., The + Gospel According to Darwin_, p. 194.) + + In Italy, in 1881, among 10,422 inscribed prostitutes from the + age of seventeen upwards, the causes of prostitution were + classified as follows: + + Vice and depravity 2,752 + Death of parents, husband, etc. 2,139 + Seduction by lover 1,653 + Seduction by employer 927 + Abandoned by parents, husband, etc. 794 + Love of luxury 698 + Incitement by lover or other persons outside + family 666 + Incitement by parents or husband 400 + To support parents or children 393 + + (Ferriani, _Minorenni Delinquenti_, p. 193.) The reasons + assigned by Russian prostitutes for taking up their career are + (according to Federow) as follows: + + 38.5 per cent. insufficient wages. + 21. per cent. desire for amusement. + 14. per cent. loss of place. + 9.5 per cent. persuasion by women friends. + 6.5 per cent. loss of habit of work. + 5.5 per cent. chagrin, and to punish lover. + .5 per cent. drunkenness. + + (Summarized in _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Nov. 15, + 1901.) + +1. _The Economic Causation of Prostitution_.--Writers on prostitution +frequently assert that economic conditions lie at the root of prostitution +and that its chief cause is poverty, while prostitutes themselves often +declare that the difficulty of earning a livelihood in other ways was a +main cause in inducing them to adopt this career. "Of all the causes of +prostitution," Parent-Duchâtelet wrote a century ago, "particularly in +Paris, and probably in all large cities, none is more active than lack of +work and the misery which is the inevitable result of insufficient wages." +In England, also, to a large extent, Sherwell states, "morals fluctuate +with trade."[164] It is equally so in Berlin where the number of +registered prostitutes increases during bad years.[165] It is so also in +America. It is the same in Japan; "the cause of causes is poverty."[166] + +Thus the broad and general statement that prostitution is largely or +mainly an economic phenomenon, due to the low wages of women or to sudden +depressions in trade, is everywhere made by investigators. It must, +however, be added that these general statements are considerably qualified +in the light of the detailed investigations made by careful inquirers. +Thus Ströhmberg, who minutely investigated 462 prostitutes, found that +only one assigned destitution as the reason for adopting her career, and +on investigation this was found to be an impudent lie.[167] Hammer found +that of ninety registered German prostitutes not one had entered on the +career out of want or to support a child, while some went on the street +while in the possession of money, or without wishing to be paid.[168] +Pastor Buschmann, of the Teltow Magdalene Home in Berlin, finds that it is +not want but indifference to moral considerations which leads girls to +become prostitutes. In Germany, before a girl is put on the police +register, due care is always taken to give her a chance of entering a Home +and getting work; in Berlin, in the course of ten years, only two +girls--out of thousands--were willing to take advantage of this +opportunity. The difficulty experienced by English Rescue Homes in finding +girls who are willing to be "rescued" is notorious. The same difficulty is +found in other cities, even where entirely different conditions prevail; +thus it is found in Madrid, according to Bernaldo de Quirós and Llanas +Aguilaniedo, that the prostitutes who enter the Homes, notwithstanding all +the devotion of the nuns, on leaving at once return to their old life. +While the economic factor in prostitution undoubtedly exists, the undue +frequency and emphasis with which it is put forward and accepted is +clearly due, in part to ignorance of the real facts, in part to the fact +that such an assumption appeals to those whose weakness it is to explain +all social phenomena by economic causes, and in part to its obvious +plausibility.[169] + +Prostitutes are mainly recruited from the ranks of factory girls, domestic +servants, shop girls, and waitresses. In some of these occupations it is +difficult to obtain employment all the year round. In this way many +milliners, dressmakers and tailoresses become prostitutes when business is +slack, and return to business when the season begins. Sometimes the +regular work of the day is supplemented concurrently by prostitution in +the street in the evening. It is said, possibly with some truth, that +amateur prostitution of this kind is extremely prevalent in England, as it +is not checked by the precautions which, in countries where prostitution +is regulated, the clandestine prostitute must adopt in order to avoid +registration. Certain public lavatories and dressing-rooms in central +London are said to be used by the girls for putting on, and finally +washing off before going home, the customary paint.[170] It is certain +that in England a large proportion of parents belonging to the working and +even lower middle class ranks are unacquainted with the nature of the +lives led by their own daughters. It must be added, also, that +occasionally this conduct of the daughter is winked at or encouraged by +the parents; thus a correspondent writes that he "knows some towns in +England where prostitution is not regarded as anything disgraceful, and +can remember many cases where the mother's house has been used by the +daughter with the mother's knowledge." + +Acton, in a well-informed book on London prostitution, written in the +middle of the last century, said that prostitution is "a transitory stage, +through which an untold number of British women are ever on their +passage."[171] This statement was strenuously denied at the time by many +earnest moralists who refused to admit that it was possible for a woman +who had sunk into so deep a pit of degradation ever to climb out again, +respectably safe and sound. Yet it is certainly true as regards a +considerable proportion of women, not only in England, but in other +countries also. Thus Parent-Duchâtelet, the greatest authority on French +prostitution, stated that "prostitution is for the majority only a +transitory stage; it is quitted usually during the first year; very few +prostitutes continue until extinction." It is difficult, however, to +ascertain precisely of how large a proportion this is true; there are no +data which would serve as a basis for exact estimation,[172] and it is +impossible to expect that respectable married women would admit that they +had ever been "on the streets"; they would not, perhaps, always admit it +even to themselves. + + The following case, though noted down over twenty years ago, is + fairly typical of a certain class, among the lower ranks of + prostitution, in which the economic factor counts for much, but + in which we ought not too hastily to assume that it is the sole + factor. + + Widow, aged thirty, with two children. Works in an umbrella + manufactory in the East End of London, earning eighteen shillings + a week by hard work, and increasing her income by occasionally + going out on the streets in the evenings. She haunts a quiet side + street which is one of the approaches to a large city railway + terminus. She is a comfortable, almost matronly-looking woman, + quietly dressed in a way that is only noticeable from the skirts + being rather short. If spoken to she may remark that she is + "waiting for a lady friend," talks in an affected way about the + weather, and parenthetically introduces her offers. She will + either lead a man into one of the silent neighboring lanes filled + with warehouses, or will take him home with her. She is willing + to accept any sum the man may be willing or able to give; + occasionally it is a sovereign, sometimes it is only a sixpence; + on an average she earns a few shillings in an evening. She had + only been in London for ten months; before that she lived in + Newcastle. She did not go on the streets there; "circumstances + alter cases," she sagely remarks. Though not speaking well of + the police, she says they do not interfere with her as they do + with some of the girls. She never gives them money, but hints + that it is sometimes necessary to gratify their desires in order + to keep on good terms with them. + +It must always be remembered, for it is sometimes forgotten by socialists +and social reformers, that while the pressure of poverty exerts a markedly +modifying influence on prostitution, in that it increases the ranks of the +women who thereby seek a livelihood and may thus be properly regarded as a +factor of prostitution, no practicable raising of the rate of women's +wages could possibly serve, directly and alone, to abolish prostitution. +De Molinari, an economist, after remarking that "prostitution is an +industry" and that if other competing industries can offer women +sufficiently high pecuniary inducements they will not be so frequently +attracted to prostitution, proceeds to point out that that by no means +settles the question. "Like every other industry prostitution is governed +by the demand of the need to which it responds. As long as that need and +that demand persist, they will provoke an offer. It is the need and the +demand that we must act on, and perhaps science will furnish us the means +to do so."[173] In what way Molinari expects science to diminish the +demand for prostitutes, however, is not clearly brought out. + +Not only have we to admit that no practicable rise in the rate of wages +paid to women in ordinary industries can possibly compete with the wages +which fairly attractive women of quite ordinary ability can earn by +prostitution,[174] but we have also to realize that a rise in general +prosperity--which alone can render a rise of women's wages healthy and +normal--involves a rise in the wages of prostitution, and an increase in +the number of prostitutes. So that if good wages is to be regarded as the +antagonist of prostitution, we can only say that it more than gives back +with one hand what it takes with the other. To so marked a degree is this +the case that Després in a detailed moral and demographic study of the +distribution of prostitution in France comes to the conclusion that we +must reverse the ancient doctrine that "poverty engenders prostitution" +since prostitution regularly increases with wealth,[175] and as a +département rises in wealth and prosperity, so the number both of its +inscribed and its free prostitutes rises also. There is indeed a fallacy +here, for while it is true, as Després argues, that wealth demands +prostitution, it is also true that a wealthy community involves the +extreme of poverty as well as of riches and that it is among the poorer +elements that prostitution chiefly finds its recruits. The ancient dictum +that "poverty engenders prostitution" still stands, but it is complicated +and qualified by the complex conditions of civilization. Bonger, in his +able discussion of the economic side of the question, has realized the +wide and deep basis of prostitution when he reaches the conclusion that it +is "on the one hand the inevitable complement of the existing legal +monogamy, and on the other hand the result of the bad conditions in which +many young girls grow up, the result of the physical and psychical +wretchedness in which the women of the people live, and the consequence +also of the inferior position of women in our actual society."[176] A +narrowly economic consideration of prostitution can by no means bring us +to the root of the matter. + + One circumstance alone should have sufficed to indicate that the + inability of many women to secure "a living wage," is far from + being the most fundamental cause of prostitution: a large + proportion of prostitutes come from the ranks of domestic + service. Of all the great groups of female workers, domestic + servants are the freest from economic anxieties; they do not pay + for food or for lodging; they often live as well as their + mistresses, and in a large proportion of cases they have fewer + money anxieties than their mistresses. Moreover, they supply an + almost universal demand, so that there is never any need for even + very moderately competent servants to be in want of work. They + constitute, it is true, a very large body which could not fail to + supply a certain contingent of recruits to prostitution. But when + we see that domestic service is the chief reservoir from which + prostitutes are drawn, it should be clear that the craving for + food and shelter is by no means the chief cause of prostitution. + + It may be added that, although the significance of this + predominance of servants among prostitutes is seldom realized by + those who fancy that to remove poverty is to abolish + prostitution, it has not been ignored by the more thoughtful + students of social questions. Thus Sherwell, while pointing out + truly that, to a large extent, "morals fluctuate with trade," + adds that, against the importance of the economic factor, it is a + suggestive and in every way impressive fact that the majority of + the girls who frequent the West End of London (88 per cent., + according to the Salvation Army's Registers) are drawn from + domestic service where the economic struggle is not severely felt + (Arthur Sherwell, _Life in West London_, Ch. V, "Prostitution"). + + It is at the same time worthy of note that by the conditions of + their lives servants, more than any other class, resemble + prostitutes (Bernaldo de Quirós and Llanas Aguilaniedo have + pointed this out in _La Mala Vida en Madrid_, p. 240). Like + prostitutes, they are a class of women apart; they are not + entitled to the considerations and the little courtesies usually + paid to other women; in some countries they are even registered, + like prostitutes; it is scarcely surprising that when they suffer + from so many of the disadvantages of the prostitute, they should + sometimes desire to possess also some of her advantages. Lily + Braun (_Frauenfrage_, pp. 389 et seq.) has set forth in detail + these unfavorable conditions of domestic labor as they bear on + the tendency of servant-girls to become prostitutes. R. de + Ryckère, in his important work, _La Servante Criminelle_ (1907, + pp. 460 et seq.; cf., the same author's article, "La Criminalité + Ancillaire," _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, July and + December, 1906), has studied the psychology of the servant-girl. + He finds that she is specially marked by lack of foresight, + vanity, lack of invention, tendency to imitation, and mobility of + mind. These are characters which ally her to the prostitute. De + Ryckère estimates the proportion of former servants among + prostitutes generally as fifty per cent., and adds that what is + called the "white slavery" here finds its most complacent and + docile victims. He remarks, however, that the servant prostitute + is, on the whole, not so much immoral as non-moral. + + In Paris Parent-Duchâtelet found that, in proportion to their + number, servants furnished the largest contingent to + prostitution, and his editors also found that they head the list + (Parent-Duchâtelet, edition 1857, vol. i, p. 83). Among + clandestine prostitutes at Paris, Commenge has more recently + found that former servants constitute forty per cent. In Bordeaux + Jeannel (_De le Prostitution Publique_, p. 102) also found that + in 1860 forty per cent, of prostitutes had been servants, + seamstresses coming next with thirty-seven per cent. + + In Germany and Austria it has long been recognized that domestic + service furnishes the chief number of recruits to prostitution. + Lippert, in Germany, and Gross-Hoffinger, in Austria, pointed out + this predominance of maid-servants and its significance before + the middle of the nineteenth century, and more recently Blaschko + has stated ("Hygiene der Syphilis" in Weyl's _Handbuch der + Hygiene_, Bd. ii, p. 40) that among Berlin prostitutes in 1898 + maid-servants stand at the head with fifty-one per cent. + Baumgarten has stated that in Vienna the proportion of servants + is fifty-eight per cent. + + In England, according to the Report of a Select Committee of the + Lords on the laws for the protection of children, sixty per cent, + of prostitutes have been servants. F. Remo, in his _Vie Galante + en Angleterre_, states the proportion as eighty per cent. It + would appear to be even higher as regards the West End of London. + Taking London as a whole the extensive statistics of Merrick + (_Work Among the Fallen_), chaplain of the Millbank Prison, + showed that out of 14,790 prostitutes, 5823, or about forty per + cent., had previously been servants, laundresses coming next, and + then dressmakers; classifying his data somewhat more summarily + and roughly, Merrick found that the proportion of servants was + fifty-three per cent. + + In America, among two thousand prostitutes, Sanger states that + forty-three per cent, had been servants, dressmakers coming next, + but at a long interval, with six per cent. (Sanger, _History of + Prostitution_, p. 524). Among Philadelphia prostitutes, Goodchild + states that "domestics are probably in largest proportion," + although some recruits may be found from almost any occupation. + + It is the same in other countries. In Italy, according to Tammeo + (_La Prostituzione_, p. 100), servants come first among + prostitutes with a proportion of twenty-eight per cent., followed + by the group of dressmakers, tailoresses and milliners, seventeen + per cent. In Sardinia, A Mantegazza states, most prostitutes are + servants from the country. In Russia, according to Fiaux, the + proportion is forty-five per cent. In Madrid, according to Eslava + (as quoted by Bernaldo de Quirós and Llanas Aguilaniedo (_La Mala + Vida, en Madrid_, p. 239)), servants come at the head of + registered prostitutes with twenty-seven per cent.--almost the + same proportion as in Italy--and are followed by dressmakers. In + Sweden, according to Welander (_Monatshefte für Praktische + Dermatologie_, 1899, p. 477) among 2541 inscribed prostitutes, + 1586 (or sixty-two per cent.) were domestic servants; at a long + interval followed 210 seamstresses, then 168 factory workers, + etc. + +2. _The Biological Factor of Prostitution_.--Economic considerations, as +we see, have a highly important modificatory influence on prostitution, +although it is by no means correct to assert that they form its main +cause. There is another question which has exercised many investigators: +To what extent are prostitutes predestined to this career by organic +constitution? It is generally admitted that economic and other conditions +are an exciting cause of prostitution; in how far are those who succumb +predisposed by the possession of abnormal personal characteristics? Some +inquirers have argued that this predisposition is so marked that +prostitution may fairly be regarded as a feminine equivalent for +criminality, and that in a family in which the men instinctively turn to +crime, the women instinctively turn to prostitution. Others have as +strenuously denied this conclusion. + + Lombroso has more especially advocated the doctrine that + prostitution is the vicarious equivalent of criminality. In this + he was developing the results reached, in the important study of + the Jukes family, by Dugdale, who found that "there where the + brothers commit crime, the sisters adopt prostitution;" the fines + and imprisonments of the women of the family were not for + violations of the right of property, but mainly for offences + against public decency. "The psychological as well as anatomical + identity of the criminal and the born prostitute," Lombroso and + Ferrero concluded, "could not be more complete: both are + identical with the moral insane, and therefore, according to the + axiom, equal to each other. There is the same lack of moral + sense, the same hardness of heart, the same precocious taste for + evil, the same indifference to social infamy, the same + volatility, love of idleness, and lack of foresight, the same + taste for facile pleasures, for the orgy and for alcohol, the + same, or almost the same, vanity. Prostitution is only the + feminine side of criminality. And so true is it that prostitution + and criminality are two analogous, or, so to say, parallel, + phenomena, that at their extremes they meet. The prostitute is, + therefore, psychologically a criminal: if she commits no offenses + it is because her physical weakness, her small intelligence, the + facility of acquiring what she wants by more easy methods, + dispenses her from the necessity of crime, and on these very + grounds prostitution represents the specific form of feminine + criminality." The authors add that "prostitution is, in a certain + sense, socially useful as an outlet for masculine sexuality and a + preventive of crime" (Lombroso and Ferrero, _La Donna + Delinquente_, 1893, p. 571). + + Those who have opposed this view have taken various grounds, and + by no means always understood the position they are attacking. + Thus W. Fischer (in _Die Prostitution_) vigorously argues that + prostitution is not an inoffensive equivalent of criminality, but + a factor of criminality. Féré, again (in _Dégénérescence et + Criminalité_), asserts that criminality and prostitution are not + equivalent, but identical. "Prostitutes and criminals," he holds, + "have as a common character their unproductiveness, and + consequently they are both anti-social. Prostitution thus + constitutes a form of criminality." The essential character of + criminals is not, however, their unproductiveness, for that they + share with a considerable proportion of the wealthiest of the + upper classes; it must be added, also, that the prostitute, + unlike the criminal, is exercising an activity for which there is + a demand, for which she is willingly paid, and for which she has + to work (it has sometimes been noted that the prostitute looks + down on the thief, who "does not work"); she is carrying on a + profession, and is neither more nor less productive than those + who carry on many more reputable professions. Aschaffenburg, also + believing himself in opposition to Lombroso, argues, somewhat + differently from Féré, that prostitution is not indeed, as Féré + said, a form of criminality, but that it is too frequently united + with criminality to be regarded as an equivalent. Mönkemöller has + more recently supported the same view. Here, however, as usual, + there is a wide difference of opinion as to the proportion of + prostitutes of whom this is true. It is recognized by all + investigators to be true of a certain number, but while + Baumgarten, from an examination of eight thousand prostitutes, + only found a minute proportion who were criminals, Ströhmberg + found that among 462 prostitutes there were as many as 175 + thieves. From another side, Morasso (as quoted in _Archivio di + Psichiatria_, 1896, fasc. I), on the strength of his own + investigations, is more clearly in opposition to Lombroso, since + he protests altogether against any purely degenerative view of + prostitutes which would in any way assimilate them with + criminals. + +The question of the sexuality of prostitutes, which has a certain bearing +on the question of their tendency to degeneration, has been settled by +different writers in different senses. While some, like Morasso, assert +that sexual impulse is a main cause inducing women to adopt a prostitute's +career, others assert that prostitutes are usually almost devoid of sexual +impulse. Lombroso refers to the prevalence of sexual frigidity among +prostitutes.[177] In London, Merrick, speaking from a knowledge of over +16,000 prostitutes, states that he has met with "only a very few cases" +in which gross sexual desire has been the motive to adopt a life of +prostitution. In Paris, Raciborski had stated at a much earlier period +that "among prostitutes one finds very few who are prompted to libertinage +by sexual ardor."[178] Commenge, again, a careful student of the Parisian +prostitute, cannot admit that sexual desire is to be classed among the +serious causes of prostitution. "I have made inquiries of thousands of +women on this point," he states, "and only a very small number have told +me that they were driven to prostitution for the satisfaction of sexual +needs. Although girls who give themselves to prostitution are often +lacking in frankness, on this point, I believe, they have no wish to +deceive. When they have sexual needs they do not conceal them, but, on the +contrary, show a certain _amour-propre_ in acknowledging them, as a +sufficient sort of justification for their life; so that if only a very +small minority avow this motive the reason is that for the great majority +it has no existence." + +There can be no doubt that the statements made regarding the sexual +frigidity of prostitutes are often much too unqualified. This is in part +certainly due to the fact that they are usually made by those who speak +from a knowledge of old prostitutes whose habitual familiarity with normal +sexual intercourse in its least attractive aspects has resulted in +complete indifference to such intercourse, so far as their clients are +concerned.[179] It may be stated with truth that to the woman of deep +passions the ephemeral and superficial relationships of prostitution can +offer no temptation. And it may be added that the majority of prostitutes +begin their career at a very early age, long before the somewhat late +period at which in women the tendency for passion to become strong, has +yet arrived.[180] It may also be said that an indifference to sexual +relationships, a tendency to attach no personal value to them, is often a +predisposing cause in the adoption of a prostitute's career; the general +mental shallowness of prostitutes may well be accompanied by shallowness +of physical emotion. On the other hand, many prostitutes, at all events +early in their careers, appear to show a marked degree of sensuality, and +to women of coarse sexual fibre the career of prostitution has not been +without attractions from this point of view; the gratification of physical +desire is known to act as a motive in some cases and is clearly indicated +in others.[181] This is scarcely surprising when we remember that +prostitutes are in a very large proportion of cases remarkably robust and +healthy persons in general respects.[182] They withstand without +difficulty the risks of their profession, and though under its influence +the manifestations of sexual feeling can scarcely fail to become modified +or perverted in course of time, that is no proof of the original absence +of sexual sensibility. It is not even a proof of its loss, for the real +sexual nature of the normal prostitute, and her possibilities of sexual +ardor, are chiefly manifested, not in her professional relations with her +clients, but in her relations with her "fancy boy" or "bully."[183] It is +quite true that the conditions of her life often make it practically +advantageous to the prostitute to have attached to her a man who is +devoted to her interests and will defend them if necessary, but that is +only a secondary, occasional, and subsidiary advantage of the "fancy boy," +so far as prostitutes generally are concerned. She is attracted to him +primarily because he appeals to her personally and she wants him for +herself. The motive of her attachment is, above all, erotic, in the full +sense, involving not merely sexual relations but possession and common +interests, a permanent and intimate life led together. "You know that what +one does in the way of business cannot fill one's heart," said a German +prostitute; "Why should we not have a husband like other women? I, too, +need love. If that were not so we should not want a bully." And he, on his +part, reciprocates this feeling and is by no means merely moved by +self-interest.[184] + + One of my correspondents, who has had much experience of + prostitutes, not only in Britain, but also in Germany, France, + Belgium and Holland, has found that the normal manifestations of + sexual feeling are much more common in British than in + continental prostitutes. "I should say," he writes, "that in + normal coitus foreign women are generally unconscious of sexual + excitement. I don't think I have ever known a foreign woman who + had any semblance of orgasm. British women, on the other hand, if + a man is moderately kind, and shows that he has some feelings + beyond mere sensual gratification, often abandon themselves to + the wildest delights of sexual excitement. Of course in this + life, as in others, there is keen competition, and a woman, to + vie with her competitors, must please her gentlemen friends; but + a man of the world can always distinguish between real and + simulated passion." (It is possible, however, that he may be most + successful in arousing the feelings of his own fellow-country + women.) On the other hand, this writer finds that the foreign + women are more anxious to provide for the enjoyment of their + temporary consorts and to ascertain what pleases them. "The + foreigner seems to make it the business of her life to discover + some abnormal mode of sexual gratification for her consort." For + their own pleasure also foreign prostitutes frequently ask for + _cunnilinctus_, in preference to normal coitus, while anal coitus + is also common. The difference evidently is that the British + women, when they seek gratification, find it in normal coitus, + while the foreign women prefer more abnormal methods. There is, + however, one class of British prostitutes which this + correspondent finds to be an exception to the general rule: the + class of those who are recruited from the lower walks of the + stage. "Such women are generally more licentious--that is to say, + more acquainted with the bizarre in sexualism--than girls who + come from shops or bars; they show a knowledge of _fellatio_, and + even anal coitus, and during menstruation frequently suggest + inter-mammary coitus." + +On the whole it would appear that prostitutes, though not usually impelled +to their life by motives of sensuality, on entering and during the early +part of their career possess a fairly average amount of sexual impulse, +with variations in both directions of excess and deficiency as well as of +perversion. At a somewhat later period it is useless to attempt to measure +the sexual impulse of prostitutes by the amount of pleasure they take in +the professional performance of sexual intercourse. It is necessary to +ascertain whether they possess sexual instincts which are gratified in +other ways. In a large proportion of cases this is found to be so. +Masturbation, especially, is extremely common among prostitutes +everywhere; however prevalent it may be among women who have no other +means of obtaining sexual gratification it is admitted by all to be still +more prevalent among prostitutes, indeed almost universal.[185] + +Homosexuality, though not so common as masturbation, is very frequently +found among prostitutes--in France, it would seem, more frequently than in +England--and it may indeed be said that it occurs more often among +prostitutes than among any other class of women. It is favored by the +acquired distaste for normal coitus due to professional intercourse with +men, which leads homosexual relationships to be regarded as pure and ideal +by comparison. It would appear also that in a considerable proportion of +cases prostitutes present a congenital condition of sexual inversion, such +a condition, with an accompanying indifference to intercourse with men, +being a predisposing cause of the adoption of a prostitute's career. +Kurella even regards prostitutes as constituting a sub-variety of +congenital inverts. Anna Rüling in Germany states that about twenty per +cent. prostitutes are homosexual; when asked what induced them to become +prostitutes, more than one inverted woman of the street has replied to her +that it was purely a matter of business, sexual feeling not coming into +the question except with a friend of the same sex.[186] + +The occurrence of congenital inversion among prostitutes--although we need +not regard prostitutes as necessarily degenerate as a class--suggests the +question whether we are likely to find an unusually large number of +physical and other anomalies among them. It cannot be said that there is +unanimity of opinion on this point. For some authorities prostitutes are +merely normal ordinary women of low social rank, if indeed their instincts +are not even a little superior to those of the class in which they were +born. Other investigators find among them so large a proportion of +individuals deviating from the normal that they are inclined to place +prostitutes generally among one or other of the abnormal classes.[187] + + Baumgarten, in Vienna, from a knowledge of over 8000 prostitutes, + concluded that only a very minute proportion are either criminal + or psychopathic in temperament or organization (_Archiv für + Kriminal-Anthropologie_, vol. xi, 1902). It is not clear, + however, that Baumgarten carried out any detailed and precise + investigations. Mr. Lane, a London police magistrate, has stated + as the result of his own observation, that prostitution is "at + once a symptom and outcome of the same deteriorated physique and + decadent moral fibre which determine the manufacture of male + tramps, petty thieves, and professional beggars, of whom the + prostitute is in general the female analogue" (_Ethnological + Journal_, April, 1905, p. 41). This estimate is doubtless correct + as regards a considerable proportion of the women, often + enfeebled by drink, who pass through the police courts, but it + could scarcely be applied without qualification to prostitutes + generally. + + Morasso (_Archivio di Psichiatria_, 1896, fasc. I) has protested + against a purely degenerative view of prostitutes on the strength + of his own observations. There is, he states, a category of + prostitutes, unknown to scientific inquirers, which he calls that + of the _prostitute di alto bordo_. Among these the signs of + degeneration, physical or moral, are not to be found in greater + number than among women who do not belong to prostitution. They + reveal all sorts of characters, some of them showing great + refinement, and are chiefly marked off by the possession of an + unusual degree of sexual appetite. Even among the more degraded + group of the _bassa prostituzione_, he asserts, we find a + predominance of sexual, as well as professional, characters, + rather than the signs of degeneration. It is sufficient to quote + one more testimony, as set down many years ago by a woman of high + intelligence and character, Mrs. Craik, the novelist: "The women + who fall are by no means the worst of their station," she wrote. + "I have heard it affirmed by more than one lady--by one in + particular whose experience was as large as her benevolence--that + many of them are of the very best, refined, intelligent, + truthful, and affectionate. 'I don't know how it is,' she would + say, 'whether their very superiority makes them dissatisfied with + their own rank--such brutes or clowns as laboring men often + are!--so that they fall easier victims to the rank above them; or + whether, though this theory will shock many people, other virtues + can exist and flourish entirely distinct from, and after the + loss of, that which we are accustomed to believe the + indispensable prime virtue of our sex--chastity. I cannot explain + it; I can only say that it is so, that some of my most promising + village girls have been the first to come to harm; and some of + the best and most faithful servants I ever had, have been girls + who have fallen into shame, and who, had I not gone to the rescue + and put them in the way to do well, would infallibly have become + "lost women"'" (_A Woman's Thoughts About Women_, 1858, p. 291). + Various writers have insisted on the good moral qualities of + prostitutes. Thus in France, Despine first enumerates their vices + as (1) greediness and love of drink, (2) lying, (3) anger, (4) + want of order and untidiness, (5) mobility of character, (6) need + of movement, (7) tendency to homosexuality; and then proceeds to + detail their good qualities: their maternal and filial affection, + their charity to each other; and their refusal to denounce each + other; while they are frequently religious, sometimes modest, and + generally very honest (Despine, _Psychologie Naturelle_, vol. + iii, pp. 207 et seq.; as regards Sicilian prostitutes, cf. + Callari, _Archivio di Psichiatria_, fasc. IV, 1903). The charity + towards each other, often manifested in distress, is largely + neutralized by a tendency to professional suspicion and jealousy + of each other. + + Lombroso believes that the basis of prostitution must be found in + moral idiocy. If by moral idiocy we are to understand a condition + at all closely allied with insanity, this assertion is dubious. + There seems no clear relationship between prostitution and + insanity, and Tammeo has shown (_La Prostituzione_, p. 76) that + the frequency of prostitutes in the various Italian provinces is + in inverse ratio to the frequency of insane persons; as insanity + increases, prostitution decreases. But if we mean a minor degree + of moral imbecility--that is to say, a bluntness of perception + for the ordinary moral considerations of civilization which, + while it is largely due to the hardening influence of an + unfavorable early environment, may also rest on a congenital + predisposition--there can be no doubt that moral imbecility of + slight degree is very frequently found among prostitutes. It + would be plausible, doubtless, to say that every woman who gives + her virginity in exchange for an inadequate return is an + imbecile. If she gives herself for love, she has, at the worst, + made a foolish mistake, such as the young and inexperienced may + at any time make. But if she deliberately proposes to sell + herself, and does so for nothing or next to nothing, the case is + altered. The experiences of Commenge in Paris are instructive on + this point. "For many young girls," he writes, "modesty has no + existence, they experience no emotion in showing themselves + completely undressed, they abandon themselves to any chance + individual whom they will never see again. They attach no + importance to their virginity; they are deflowered under the + strangest conditions, without the least thought or care about the + act they are accomplishing. No sentiment, no calculation, pushes + them into a man's arms. They let themselves go without reflexion + and without motive, in an almost animal manner, from indifference + and without pleasure." He was acquainted with forty-five girls + between the ages of twelve and seventeen who were deflowered by + chance strangers whom they never met again; they lost their + virginity, in Dumas's phrase, as they lost their milk-teeth, and + could give no plausible account of the loss. A girl of fifteen, + mentioned by Commenge, living with her parents who supplied all + her wants, lost her virginity by casually meeting a man who + offered her two francs if she would go with him; she did so + without demur and soon begun to accost men on her own account. A + girl of fourteen, also living comfortably with her parents, + sacrificed her virginity at a fair in return for a glass of beer, + and henceforth begun to associate with prostitutes. Another girl + of the same age, at a local fête, wishing to go round on the + hobby horse, spontaneously offered herself to the man directing + the machinery for the pleasure of a ride. Yet another girl, of + fifteen, at another fête, offered her virginity in return for the + same momentary joy (Commenge, _Prostitution Clandestine_, 1897, + pp. 101 et seq.). In the United States, Dr. W. Travis Gibb, + examining physician to the New York Society for the Prevention of + Cruelty to Children, bears similar testimony to the fact that in + a fairly large proportion of "rape" cases the child is the + willing victim. "It is horribly pathetic," he says (_Medical + Record_, April 20, 1907), "to learn how far a nickel or a quarter + will go towards purchasing the virtue of these children." + + In estimating the tendency of prostitutes to display congenital + physical anomalies, the crudest and most obvious test, though not + a precise or satisfactory one, is the general impression produced + by the face. In France, when nearly 1000 prostitutes were divided + into five groups from the point of view of their looks, only from + seven to fourteen per cent, were found to belong to the first + group, or that of those who could be said to possess youth and + beauty (Jeannel, _De la Prostitution Publique_, 1860, p. 168). + Woods Hutchinson, again, judging from an extensive acquaintance + with London, Paris, Vienna, New York, Philadelphia, and Chicago, + asserts that a handsome or even attractive-looking prostitute, is + rare, and that the general average of beauty is lower than in any + other class of women. "Whatever other evils," he remarks, "the + fatal power of beauty may be responsible for, it has nothing to + do with prostitution" (Woods Hutchinson, "The Economics of + Prostitution," _American Gynæcological and Obstetric Journal_, + September, 1895). It must, of course, be borne in mind that these + estimates are liable to be vitiated through being based chiefly + on the inspection of women who most obviously belong to the class + of prostitutes and have already been coarsened by their + profession. + + If we may conclude--and the fact is probably undisputed--that + beautiful, agreeable, and harmoniously formed faces are rare + rather than common among prostitutes, we may certainly say that + minute examination will reveal a large number of physical + abnormalities. One of the earliest important physical + investigations of prostitutes was that of Dr. Pauline Tarnowsky + in Russia (first published in the _Vratch_ in 1887, and + afterwards as _Etudes anthropométriques sur les Prostituées et + les Voleuses_). She examined fifty St. Petersburg prostitutes who + had been inmates of a brothel for not less than two years, and + also fifty peasant women of, so far as possible, the same age and + mental development. She found that (1) the prostitute showed + shorter anterior-posterior and transverse diameters of skull; (2) + a proportion equal to eighty-four per cent. showed various signs + of physical degeneration (irregular skull, asymmetry of face, + anomalies of hard palate, teeth, ears, etc.). This tendency to + anomaly among the prostitutes was to some extent explained when + it was found that about four-fifths of them had parents who were + habitual drunkards, and nearly one-fifth were the last survivors + of large families; such families have been often produced by + degenerate parents. + + The frequency of hereditary degeneration has been noted by + Bonhoeffer among German prostitutes. He investigated 190 Breslau + prostitutes in prison, and therefore of a more abnormal class + than ordinary prostitutes, and found that 102 were hereditarily + degenerate, and mostly with one or both parents who were + drunkards; 53 also showed feeble-mindedness (_Zeitschrift für die + Gesamte Strafwissenschaft_, Bd. xxiii, p. 106). + + The most detailed examinations of ordinary non-criminal + prostitutes, both anthropometrically and as regards the + prevalence of anomalies, have been made in Italy, though not on a + sufficiently large number of subjects to yield absolutely + decisive results. Thus Fornasari made a detailed examination of + sixty prostitutes belonging chiefly to Emilia and Venice, and + also of twenty-seven others belonging to Bologna, the latter + group being compared with a third group of twenty normal women + belonging to Bologna (_Archivio di Psichiatria_, 1892, fasc. VI). + The prostitutes were found to be of lower type than the normal + individuals, having smaller heads and larger faces. As the author + himself points out, his subjects were not sufficiently numerous + to justify far-reaching generalizations, but it may be worth + while to summarize some of his results. At equal heights the + prostitutes showed greater weight; at equal ages they were of + shorter stature than other women, not only of well-to-do, but of + the poor class: height of face, bi-zygomatic diameter (though not + the distance between zygomas), the distance from chin to external + auditory meatus, and the size of the jaw were all greater in the + prostitutes; the hands were longer and broader, compared to the + palm, than in ordinary women; the foot also was longer in + prostitutes, and the thigh, as compared to the calf, was larger. + It is noteworthy that in most particulars, and especially in + regard to head measurements, the variations were much greater + among the prostitutes than among the other women examined; this + is to some extent, though not entirely, to be accounted for by + the slightly greater number of the former. + + Ardu (in the same number of the _Archivio_) gave the result of + observations (undertaken at Lombroso's suggestion) as to the + frequency of abnormalities among prostitutes. The subjects were + seventy-four in number and belonged to Professor Giovannini's + _Clinica Sifilopatica_ at Turin. The abnormalities investigated + were virile distribution of hair on pubes, chest, and limbs, + hypertrichosis on forehead, left-handedness, atrophy of nipple, + and tattooing (which was only found once). Combining Ardu's + observations with another series of observations on fifty-five + prostitutes examined by Lombroso, it is found that virile + disposition of hair is found in fifteen per cent. as against six + per cent. in normal women; some degree of hypertrichosis in + eighteen per cent.; left-handedness in eleven per cent. (but in + normal women as high as twelve per cent. according to Gallia); + and atrophy of nipple in twelve per cent. + + Giuffrida-Ruggeri, again (_Atti della, Società Romana di + Antropologia_, 1897, p. 216), on examining eighty-two prostitutes + found anomalies in the following order of decreasing frequency: + tendency of eyebrows to meet, lack of cranial symmetry, + depression at root of nose, defective development of calves, + hypertrichosis and other anomalies of hair, adherent or absent + lobule, prominent zigoma, prominent forehead or frontal bones, + bad implantation of teeth, Darwinian tubercle of ear, thin + vertical lips. These signs are separately of little or no + importance, though together not without significance as an + indication of general anomaly. + + More recently Ascarilla, in an elaborate study (_Archivio di + Psichiatria_, 1906, fasc. VI, p. 812) of the finger prints of + prostitutes, comes to the conclusion that even in this respect + prostitutes tend to form a class showing morphological + inferiority to normal women. The patterns tend to show unusual + simplicity and uniformity, and the significance of this is + indicated by the fact that a similar uniformity is shown by the + finger prints of the insane and deaf-mutes (De Sanctis and + Toscano, _Atti Società Romana Antropologia_, vol. viii, 1901, + fasc. II). + + In Chicago Dr. Harriet Alexander, in conjunction with Dr. E.S. + Talbot and Dr. J.G. Kiernan, examined thirty prostitutes in the + Bridewell, or House of Correction; only the "obtuse" class of + professional prostitutes reach this institution, and it is not + therefore surprising that they were found to exhibit very marked + stigmata of degeneracy. In race nearly half of those examined + were Celtic Irish. In sixteen the zygomatic processes were + unequal and very prominent. Other facial asymmetries were common. + In three cases the heads were of Mongoloid type; sixteen were + epignathic, and eleven prognathic; five showed arrest of + development of face. Brachycephaly predominated (seventeen + cases); the rest were mesaticephalic; there were no + dolichocephals. Abnormalities in shape of the skull were + numerous, and twenty-nine had defective ears. Four were + demonstrably insane, and one was an epileptic (H.C.B. Alexander, + "Physical Abnormalities in Prostitutes," Chicago Academy of + Medicine, April, 1893; E.S. Talbot, _Degeneracy_, p. 320; _Id., + Irregularities of the Teeth_, fourth edition, p. 141). + +It would seem, on the whole, so far as the evidence at present goes, that +prostitutes are not quite normal representatives of the ranks into which +they were born. There has been a process of selection of individuals who +slightly deviate congenitally from the normal average and are, +correspondingly, slightly inapt for normal life.[188] The psychic +characteristics which accompany such deviation are not always necessarily +of an obviously unfavorable nature; the slightly neurotic girl of low +class birth--disinclined for hard work, through defective energy, and +perhaps greedy and selfish--may even seem to possess a refinement superior +to her station. While, however, there is a tendency to anomaly among +prostitutes, it must be clearly recognized that that tendency remains +slight so long as we consider impartially the whole class of prostitutes. +Those investigators who have reached the conclusion that prostitutes are a +highly degenerate and abnormal class have only observed special groups of +prostitutes, more especially those who are frequently found in prison. It +is not possible to form a just conception of prostitutes by studying them +only in prison, any more than it would be possible to form a just +conception of clergymen, doctors, or lawyers by studying them exclusively +in prison, and this remains true even although a much larger proportion of +prostitutes than of members of the more reputable professions pass through +prisons; that fact no doubt partly indicates the greater abnormality of +prostitutes. + +It has, of course, to be remembered that the special conditions of the +lives of prostitutes tend to cause in them the appearance of certain +professional characteristics which are entirely acquired and not +congenital. In that way we may account for the gradual modification of the +feminine secondary and tertiary sexual characters, and the appearance of +masculine characters, such as the frequent deep voice, etc.[189] But with +all due allowance for these acquired characters, it remains true that such +comparative investigations as have so far been made, although +inconclusive, seem to indicate that, even apart from the prevalence of +acquired anomalies, the professional selection of their avocation tends to +separate out from the general population of the same social class, +individuals who possess anthropometrical characters varying in a definite +direction. The observations thus made seem, in this way, to indicate that +prostitutes tend to be in weight over the average, though not in stature, +that in length of arm they are inferior though the hands are longer (this +has been found alike in Italy and Russia); they have smaller ankles and +larger calves, and still larger thighs in proportion to their large +calves. The estimated skull capacity and the skull circumference and +diameters are somewhat below the normal, not only when compared with +respectable women but also with thieves; there is a tendency to +brachycephaly (both in Italy and Russia); the cheek-bones are usually +prominent and the jaws developed; the hair is darker than in respectable +women though less so than in thieves; it is also unusually abundant, not +only on the head but also on the pudenda and elsewhere; the eyes have been +found to be decidedly darker than those of either respectable women or +criminals.[190] + +So far as the evidence goes it serves to indicate that prostitutes tend to +approximate to the type which, as was shown in the previous volume, there +is reason to regard as specially indicative of developed sexuality. It is, +however, unnecessary to discuss this question until our anthropometrical +knowledge of prostitutes is more extended and precise. + +3. _The Moral Justification of Prostitution_.--There are and always have +been moralists--many of them people whose opinions are deserving of the +most serious respect--who consider that, allowing for the need of +improved hygienic conditions, the existence of prostitution presents no +serious problem for solution. It is, at most, they say, a necessary evil, +and, at best, a beneficent institution, the bulwark of the home, the +inevitable reverse of which monogamy is the obverse. "The immoral guardian +of public morality," is the definition of prostitutes given by one writer, +who takes the humble view of the matter, and another, taking the loftier +ground, writes: "The prostitute fulfils a social mission. She is the +guardian of virginal modesty, the channel to carry off adulterous desire, +the protector of matrons who fear late maternity; it is her part to act as +the shield of the family." "Female Decii," said Balzac in his _Physiologie +du Mariage_ of prostitutes, "they sacrifice themselves for the republic +and make of their bodies a rampart for the protection of respectable +families." In the same way Schopenhauer called prostitutes "human +sacrifices on the altar of monogamy." Lecky, again, in an oft-quoted +passage of rhetoric,[191] may be said to combine both the higher and the +lower view of the prostitute's mission in human society, to which he even +seeks to give a hieratic character. "The supreme type of vice," he +declared, "she is ultimately the most efficient guardian of virtue. But +for her, the unchallenged purity of countless happy homes would be +polluted, and not a few who, in the pride of their untempted chastity, +think of her with an indignant shudder, would have known the agony of +remorse and of despair. On that one degraded and ignoble form are +concentrated the passions that might have filled the world with shame. She +remains, while creeds and civilizations rise and fall, the eternal +priestess of humanity, blasted for the sins of the people."[192] + +I am not aware that the Greeks were greatly concerned with the moral +justification of prostitution. They had not allowed it to assume very +offensive forms and for the most part they were content to accept it. The +Romans usually accepted it, too, but, we gather, not quite so easily. +There was an austerely serious, almost Puritanic, spirit in the Romans of +the old stock and they seem sometimes to have felt the need to assure +themselves that prostitution really was morally justifiable. It is +significant to note that they were accustomed to remember that Cato was +said to have expressed satisfaction on seeing a man emerge from a brothel, +for otherwise he might have gone to lie with his neighbor's wife.[193] + +The social necessity of prostitution is the most ancient of all the +arguments of moralists in favor of the toleration of prostitutes; and if +we accept the eternal validity of the marriage system with which +prostitution developed, and of the theoretical morality based on that +system, this is an exceedingly forcible, if not an unanswerable, argument. + +The advent of Christianity, with its special attitude towards the "flesh," +necessarily caused an enormous increase of attention to the moral aspects +of prostitution. When prostitution was not morally denounced, it became +clearly necessary to morally justify it; it was impossible for a Church, +whose ideals were more or less ascetic, to be benevolently indifferent in +such a matter. As a rule we seem to find throughout that while the more +independent and irresponsible divines take the side of denunciation, those +theologians who have had thrust upon them the grave responsibilities of +ecclesiastical statesmanship have rather tended towards the reluctant +moral justification of prostitution. Of this we have an example of the +first importance in St. Augustine, after St. Paul the chief builder of the +Christian Church. In a treatise written in 386 to justify the Divine +regulation of the world, we find him declaring that just as the +executioner, however repulsive he may be, occupies a necessary place in +society, so the prostitute and her like, however sordid and ugly and +wicked they may be, are equally necessary; remove prostitutes from human +affairs and you would pollute the world with lust: "Aufer meretrices de +rebus humanis, turbaveris omnia libidinibus."[194] Aquinas, the only +theological thinker of Christendom who can be named with Augustine, was of +the same mind with him on this question of prostitution. He maintained the +sinfulness of fornication but he accepted the necessity of prostitution as +a beneficial part of the social structure, comparing it to the sewers +which keep a palace pure.[195] "Prostitution in towns is like the sewer in +a palace; take away the sewers and the palace becomes an impure and +stinking place." Liguori, the most influential theologian of more modern +times, was of the like opinion. + +This wavering and semi-indulgent attitude towards prostitution was indeed +generally maintained by theologians. Some, following Augustine and +Aquinas, would permit prostitution for the avoidance of greater evils; +others were altogether opposed to it; others, again, would allow it in +towns but nowhere else. It was, however, universally held by theologians +that the prostitute has a right to her wages, and is not obliged to make +restitution.[196] The earlier Christian moralists found no difficulty in +maintaining that there is no sin in renting a house to a prostitute for +the purposes of her trade; absolution was always granted for this and +abstention not required.[197] Fornication, however, always remained a sin, +and from the twelfth century onwards the Church made a series of organized +attempts to reclaim prostitutes. All Catholic theologians hold that a +prostitute is bound to confess the sin of prostitution, and most, though +not all, theologians have believed that a man also must confess +intercourse with a prostitute. At the same time, while there was a certain +indulgence to the prostitute herself, the Church was always very severe on +those who lived on the profits of promoting prostitution, on the +_lenones_. Thus the Council of Elvira, which was ready to receive without +penance the prostitute who married, refused reconciliation, even at death, +to persons who had been guilty of _lenocinium_.[198] + +Protestantism, in this as in many other matters of sexual morality, having +abandoned the confessional, was usually able to escape the necessity for +any definite and responsible utterances concerning the moral status of +prostitution. When it expressed any opinion, or sought to initiate any +practical action, it naturally founded itself on the Biblical injunctions +against fornication, as expressed by St. Paul, and showed no mercy for +prostitutes and no toleration for prostitution. This attitude, which was +that of the Puritans, was the more easy since in Protestant countries, +with the exception of special districts at special periods--such as Geneva +and New England in the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries--theologians +have in these matters been called upon to furnish religious exhortation +rather than to carry out practical policies. The latter task they have +left to others, and a certain confusion and uncertainty has thus often +arisen in the lay Protestant mind. This attitude in a thoughtful and +serious writer, is well illustrated in England by Burton, writing a +century after the Reformation. He refers with mitigated approval to "our +Pseudo-Catholics," who are severe with adultery but indulgent to +fornication, being perhaps of Cato's mind that it should be encouraged to +avoid worse mischiefs at home, and who holds brothels "as necessary as +churches" and "have whole Colleges of Courtesans in their towns and +cities." "They hold it impossible," he continues, "for idle persons, +young, rich and lusty, so many servants, monks, friars, to live honest, +too tyrannical a burden to compel them to be chaste, and most unfit to +suffer poor men, younger brothers and soldiers at all to marry, as also +diseased persons, votaries, priests, servants. Therefore as well to keep +and ease the one as the other, they tolerate and wink at these kind of +brothel-houses and stews. Many probable arguments they have to prove the +lawfulness, the necessity, and a toleration of them, as of usery; and +without question in policy they are not to be contradicted, but altogether +in religion."[199] + +It was not until the beginning of the following century that the ancient +argument of St. Augustine for the moral justification of prostitution was +boldly and decisively stated in Protestant England, by Bernard Mandeville +in his _Fable of the Bees_, and at its first promulgation it seemed so +offensive to the public mind that the book was suppressed. "If courtesans +and strumpets were to be prosecuted with as much rigor as some silly +people would have it," Mandeville wrote, "what locks or bars would be +sufficient to preserve the honor of our wives and daughters?... It is +manifest that there is a necessity of sacrificing one part of womankind to +preserve the other, and prevent a filthiness of a more heinous nature. +From whence I think I may justly conclude that chastity may be supported +by incontinence, and the best of virtues want the assistance of the worst +of vices."[200] After Mandeville's time this view of prostitution began to +become common in Protestant as well as in other countries, though it was +not usually so clearly expressed. + + It may be of interest to gather together a few more modern + examples of statements brought forward for the moral + justification of prostitution. + + Thus in France Meusnier de Querlon, in his story of _Psaphion_, + written in the middle of the eighteenth century, puts into the + mouth of a Greek courtesan many interesting reflections + concerning the life and position of the prostitute. She defends + her profession with much skill, and argues that while men imagine + that prostitutes are merely the despised victims of their + pleasures, these would-be tyrants are really dupes who are + ministering to the needs of the women they trample beneath their + feet, and themselves equally deserve the contempt they bestow. + "We return disgust for disgust, as they must surely perceive. We + often abandon to them merely a statue, and while inflamed by + their own desires they consume themselves on insensible charms, + our tranquil coldness leisurely enjoys their sensibility. Then it + is we resume all our rights. A little hot blood has brought + these proud creatures to our feet, and rendered us mistresses of + their fate. On which side, I ask, is the advantage?" But all men, + she adds, are not so unjust towards the prostitute, and she + proceeds to pronounce a eulogy, not without a slight touch of + irony in it, of the utility, facility, and convenience of the + brothel. + + A large number of the modern writers on prostitution insist on + its socially beneficial character. Thus Charles Richard concludes + his book on the subject with the words: "The conduct of society + with regard to prostitution must proceed from the principle of + gratitude without false shame for its utility, and compassion for + the poor creatures at whose expense this is attained" (_La + Prostitution devant le Philosophe_, 1882, p. 171). "To make + marriage permanent is to make it difficult," an American medical + writer observes; "to make it difficult is to defer it; to defer + it is to maintain in the community an increasing number of + sexually perfect individuals, with normal, or, in cases where + repression is prolonged, excessive sexual appetites. The social + evil is the natural outcome of the physical nature of man, his + inherited impulses, and the artificial conditions under which he + is compelled to live" ("The Social Evil," _Medicine_, August and + September, 1906). Woods Hutchinson, while speaking with strong + disapproval of prostitution and regarding prostitutes as "the + worst specimens of the sex," yet regards prostitution as a social + agency of the highest value. "From a medico-economic point of + view I venture to claim it as one of the grand selective and + eliminative agencies of nature, and of highest value to the + community. It may be roughly characterized as a safety valve for + the institution of marriage" (_The Gospel According to Darwin_, + p. 193; cf. the same author's article on "The Economics of + Prostitution," summarized in _Boston Medical and Surgical + Journal_, November 21, 1895). Adolf Gerson, in a somewhat similar + spirit, argues ("Die Ursache der Prostitution," + _Sexual-Probleme_, September, 1908) that "prostitution is one of + the means used by Nature to limit the procreative activity of + men, and especially to postpone the period of sexual maturity." + Molinari considers that the social benefits of prostitution have + been manifested in various ways from the first; by sterilizing, + for instance, the more excessive manifestations of the sexual + impulse prostitution suppressed the necessity for the infanticide + of superfluous children, and led to the prohibition of that + primitive method of limiting the population (G. de Molinari, _La + Viriculture_, p. 45). In quite another way than that mentioned by + Molinari, prostitution has even in very recent times led to the + abandonment of infanticide. In the Chinese province of Ping-Yang, + Matignon states, it was usual not many years ago for poor parents + to kill forty per cent. of the girl children, or even all of + them, at birth, for they were too expensive to rear and brought + nothing in, since men who wished to marry could easily obtain a + wife in the neighboring province of Wenchu, where women were + very easy to obtain. Now, however, the line of steamships along + the coast makes it very easy for girls to reach the brothels of + Shang-Hai, where they can earn money for their families; the + custom of killing them has therefore died out (Matignon, + _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, 1896, p. 72). "Under + present conditions," writes Dr. F. Erhard ("Auch ein Wort zur + Ehereform," _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Jahrgang I, Heft 9), + "prostitution (in the broadest sense, including free + relationships) is necessary in order that young men may, in some + degree, learn to know women, for conventional conversation cannot + suffice for this; an exact knowledge of feminine thought and + action is, however, necessary for a proper choice, since it is + seldom possible to rely on the certainty of instinct. It is good + also that men should wear off their horns before marriage, for + the polygamous tendency will break through somewhere. + Prostitution will only spoil those men in whom there is not much + to spoil, and if the desire for marriage is thus lost, the man's + unbegotten children may have cause to thank him." Neisser, Näcke, + and many others, have pleaded for prostitution, and even for + brothels, as "necessary evils." + + It is scarcely necessary to add that many, among even the + strongest upholders of the moral advantages of prostitution, + believe that some improvement in method is still desirable. Thus + Bérault looks forward to a time when regulated brothels will + become less contemptible. Various improvements may, he thinks, in + the near future, "deprive them of the barbarous attributes which + mark them out for the opprobrium of the skeptical or ignorant + multitude, while their recognizable advantages will put an end to + the contempt aroused by their cynical aspect" (_La Maison de + Tolérance_, Thèse de Paris, 1904). + +4. _The Civilizational Value of Prostitution._--The moral argument for +prostitution is based on the belief that our marriage system is so +infinitely precious that an institution which serves as its buttress must +be kept in existence, however ugly or otherwise objectionable it may in +itself be. There is, however, another argument in support of prostitution +which scarcely receives the emphasis it deserves. I refer to its influence +in adding an element, in some form or another necessary, of gaiety and +variety to the ordered complexity of modern life, a relief from the +monotony of its mechanical routine, a distraction from its dull and +respectable monotony. This is distinct from the more specific function of +prostitution as an outlet for superfluous sexual energy, and may even +affect those who have little or no commerce with prostitutes. This +element may be said to constitute the civilizational value of +prostitution. + +It is not merely the general conditions of civilization, but more +specifically the conditions of urban life, which make this factor +insistent. Urban life imposes by the stress of competition a very severe +and exacting routine of dull work. At the same time it makes men and women +more sensitive to new impressions, more enamored of excitement and change. +It multiplies the opportunities of social intercourse; it decreases the +chances of detection of illegitimate intercourse while at the same time it +makes marriage more difficult, for, by heightening social ambitions and +increasing the expenses of living, it postpones the time when a home can +be created. Urban life delays marriage and yet renders the substitutes for +marriage more imperative.[201] + +There cannot be the slightest doubt that it is this motive--the effort to +supplement the imperfect opportunities for self-development offered by our +restrained, mechanical, and laborious civilization--which plays one of the +chief parts in inducing women to adopt, temporarily or permanently, a +prostitute's life. We have seen that the economic factor is not, as was +once supposed, by any means predominant in this choice. Nor, again, is +there any reason to suppose that an over-mastering sexual impulse is a +leading factor. But a large number of young women turn instinctively to a +life of prostitution because they are moved by an obscure impulse which +they can scarcely define to themselves or express, and are often ashamed +to confess. It is, therefore, surprising that this motive should find so +large a place even in the formal statistics of the factors of +prostitution. Merrick, in London, found that 5000, or nearly a third, of +the prostitutes he investigated, voluntarily gave up home or situation +"for a life of pleasure," and he puts this at the head of the causes of +prostitution.[202] In America Sanger found that "inclination" came almost +at the head of the causes of prostitution, while Woods Hutchinson found +"love of display, luxury and idleness" by far at the head. "Disgusted and +wearied with work" is the reason assigned by a large number of Belgian +girls when stating to the police their wish to be enrolled as prostitutes. +In Italy a similar motive is estimated to play an important part. In +Russia "desire for amusement" comes second among the causes of +prostitution. There can, I think, be little doubt that, as a thoughtful +student of London life has concluded, the problem of prostitution is "at +bottom a mad and irresistible craving for excitement, a serious and wilful +revolt against the monotony of commonplace ideals, and the uninspired +drudgery of everyday life."[203] It is this factor of prostitution, we may +reasonably conclude, which is mainly responsible for the fact, pointed out +by F. Schiller,[204] that with the development of civilization the supply +of prostitutes tends to outgrow the demand. + + Charles Booth seems to be of the same opinion, and quotes (_Life + and Labor of the People_, Third Series, vol. vii, p. 364) from a + Rescue Committee Report: "The popular idea is, that these women + are eager to leave a life of sin. The plain and simple truth is + that, for the most part, they have no desire at all to be + rescued. So many of these women do not, and will not, regard + prostitution as a sin. 'I am taken out to dinner and to some + place of amusement every night; why should I give it up?'" + Merrick, who found that five per cent. of 14,000 prostitutes who + passed through Millbank Prison, were accustomed to combine + religious observance with the practice of their profession, also + remarks in regard to their feelings about morality: "I am + convinced that there are many poor men and women who do not in + the least understand what is implied in the term 'immorality.' + Out of courtesy to you, they may assent to what you say, but they + do not comprehend your meaning when you talk of virtue or purity; + you are simply talking over their heads" (Merrick, op. cit., p. + 28). The same attitude may be found among prostitutes everywhere. + In Italy Ferriani mentions a girl of fifteen who, when accused of + indecency with a man in a public garden, denied with tears and + much indignation. He finally induced her to confess, and then + asked her: "Why did you try to make me believe you were a good + girl?" She hesitated, smiled, and said: "Because _they say_ girls + ought not to do what I do, but ought to work. But I am what I am, + and it is no concern of theirs." This attitude is often more than + an instinctive feeling; in intelligent prostitutes it frequently + becomes a reasoned conviction. "I can bear everything, if so it + must be," wrote the author of the _Tagebuch einer Verlorenen_ (p. + 291), "even serious and honorable contempt, but I cannot bear + scorn. Contempt--yes, if it is justified. If a poor and pretty + girl with sick and bitter heart stands alone in life, cast off, + with temptations and seductions offering on every side, and, in + spite of that, out of inner conviction she chooses the grey and + monotonous path of renunciation and middle-class morality, I + recognize in that girl a personality, who has a certain + justification in looking down with contemptuous pity on weaker + girls. But those geese who, under the eyes of their shepherds and + life-long owners, have always been pastured in smooth green + fields, have certainly no right to laugh scornfully at others who + have not been so fortunate." Nor must it be supposed that there + is necessarily any sophistry in the prostitute's justification of + herself. Some of our best thinkers and observers have reached a + conclusion that is not dissimilar. "The actual conditions of + society are opposed to any high moral feeling in women," Marro + observes (_La Pubertà_, p. 462), "for between those who sell + themselves to prostitution and those who sell themselves to + marriage, the only difference is in price and duration of the + contract." + +We have already seen how very large a part in prostitution is furnished by +those who have left domestic service to adopt this life (_ante_ p. 264). +It is not difficult to find in this fact evidence of the kind of impulse +which impels a woman to adopt the career of prostitution. "The servant, in +our society of equality," wrote Goncourt, recalling somewhat earlier days +when she was often admitted to a place in the family life, "has become +nothing but a paid pariah, a machine for doing household work, and is no +longer allowed to share the employer's human life."[205] And in England, +even half a century ago, we already find the same statements concerning +the servant's position: "domestic service is a complete slavery," with +early hours and late hours, and constant running up and down stairs till +her legs are swollen; "an amount of ingenuity appears too often to be +exercised, worthy of a better cause, in obtaining the largest possible +amount of labor out of the domestic machine"; in addition she is "a kind +of lightning conductor," to receive the ill-temper and morbid feelings of +her mistress and the young ladies; so that, as some have said, "I felt so +miserable I did not care what became of me, I wished I was dead."[206] The +servant is deprived of all human relationships; she must not betray the +existence of any simple impulse, or natural need. At the same time she +lives on the fringe of luxury; she is surrounded by the tantalizing +visions of pleasure and amusement for which her fresh young nature +craves.[207] It is not surprising that, repelled by unrelieved drudgery +and attracted by idle luxury, she should take the plunge which will alone +enable her to enjoy the glittering aspects of civilization which seem so +desirable to her.[208] + + It is sometimes stated that the prevalence of prostitution among + girls who were formerly servants is due to the immense numbers of + servants who are seduced by their masters or the young men of the + family, and are thus forced on to the streets. Undoubtedly in a + certain proportion of cases, perhaps sometimes a fairly + considerable proportion, this is a decisive factor in the matter, + but it scarcely seems to be the chief factor. The existence of + relationships between servants and masters, it must be + remembered, by no means necessarily implies seduction. In a + large number of cases the servant in a household is, in sexual + matters, the teacher rather than the pupil. (In "The Sexual + Impulse in Women," in the third volume of these _Studies_, I have + discussed the part played by servants as sexual initiators of the + young boys in the households in which they are placed.) The more + precise statistics of the causes of prostitution seldom assign + seduction as the main determining factor in more than about + twenty per cent. of cases, though this is obviously one of the + most easily avowable motives (see _ante_, p. 256). Seduction by + any kind of employer constitutes only a proportion (usually less + than half) even of these cases. The special case of seduction of + servants by masters can thus play no very considerable part as a + factor of prostitution. + + The statistics of the parentage of illegitimate children have + some bearing on this question. In a series of 180 unmarried + mothers assisted by the Berlin Bund für Mutterschutz, particulars + are given of the occupations both of the mothers, and, as far as + possible, of the fathers. The former were one-third + servant-girls, and the great majority of the remainder assistants + in trades or girls carrying on work at home. At the head of the + fathers (among 120 cases) came artisans (33), followed by + tradespeople (22); only a small proportion (20 to 25) could be + described as "gentlemen," and even this proportion loses some of + its significance when it is pointed out that some of the girls + were also of the middle-class; in nineteen cases the fathers were + married men (_Mutterschutz_, January, 1907, p. 45). + + Most authorities in most countries are of opinion that girls who + eventually (usually between the ages of fifteen and twenty) + become prostitutes have lost their virginity at an early age, and + in the great majority of cases through men of their own class. + "The girl of the people falls by the people," stated Reuss in + France (_La Prostitution_, p. 41). "It is her like, workers like + herself, who have the first fruits of her beauty and virginity. + The man of the world who covers her with gold and jewels only has + their leavings." Martineau, again (_De la Prostitution + Clandestine_, 1885), showed that prostitutes are usually + deflowered by men of their own class. And Jeannel, in Bordeaux, + found reason for believing that it is not chiefly their masters + who lead servants astray; they often go into service because they + have been seduced in the country, while lazy, greedy, and + unintelligent girls are sent from the country into the town to + service. In Edinburgh, W. Tait (_Magdalenism_, 1842) found that + soldiers more than any other class in the community are the + seducers of women, the Highlanders being especially notorious in + this respect. Soldiers have this reputation everywhere, and in + Germany especially it is constantly found that the presence of + the soldiery in a country district, as at the annual manoeuvres, + is the cause of unchastity and illegitimate births; it is so also + in Austria, where, long ago, Gross-Hoffinger stated that + soldiers were responsible for at least a third of all + illegitimate births, a share out of all proportion to their + numbers. In Italy, Marro, investigating the occasion of the loss + of virginity in twenty-two prostitutes, found that ten gave + themselves more or less spontaneously to lovers or masters, ten + yielded in the expectation of marriage, and two were outraged + (_La Pubertà_, p. 461). The loss of virginity, Marro adds, though + it may not be the direct cause of prostitution, often leads on to + it. "When a door has once been broken in," a prostitute said to + him, "it is difficult to keep it closed." In Sardinia, as A. + Mantegazza and Ciuffo found, prostitutes are very largely + servants from the country who have already been deflowered by men + of their own class. + +This civilizational factor of prostitution, the influence of luxury and +excitement and refinement in attracting the girl of the people, as the +flame attracts the moth, is indicated by the fact that it is the +country-dwellers who chiefly succumb to the fascination. The girls whose +adolescent explosive and orgiastic impulses, sometimes increased by a +slight congenital lack of nervous balance, have been latent in the dull +monotony of country life and heightened by the spectacle of luxury acting +on the unrelieved drudgery of town life, find at last their complete +gratification in the career of a prostitute. To the town girl, born and +bred in the town, this career has not usually much attraction, unless she +has been brought up from the first in an environment that predisposes her +to adopt it. She is familiar from childhood with the excitements of urban +civilization and they do not intoxicate her; she is, moreover, more shrewd +to take care of herself than the country girl, and too well acquainted +with the real facts of the prostitute's life to be very anxious to adopt +her career. Beyond this, also, it is probable that the stocks she belongs +to possess a native or acquired power of resistance to unbalancing +influences which has enabled them to survive in urban life. She has become +immune to the poisons of that life.[209] + + In all great cities a large proportion, if not the majority, of + the inhabitants have usually been born outside the city (in + London only about fifty per cent. of heads of households are + definitely reported as born in London); and it is not therefore + surprising that prostitutes also should often be outsiders. Still + it remains a significant fact that so typically urban a + phenomenon as prostitution should be so largely recruited from + the country. This is everywhere the case. Merrick enumerates the + regions from which came some 14,000 prostitutes who passed + through Millbank Prison. Middlesex, Kent, Surrey, Essex and Devon + are the counties that stand at the head, and Merrick estimates + that the contingent of London from the four counties which make + up London was 7000, or one-half of the whole; military towns like + Colchester and naval ports like Plymouth supply many prostitutes + to London; Ireland furnished many more than Scotland, and Germany + far more than any other European country, France being scarcely + represented at all (Merrick, _Work Among the Fallen_, 1890, pp. + 14-18). It is, of course, possible that the proportions among + those who pass through a prison do not accurately represent the + proportions among prostitutes generally. The registers of the + London Salvation Army Rescue Home show that sixty per cent. of + the girls and women come from the provinces (A. Sherwell, _Life + in West London_, Ch. V). This is exactly the same proportion as + Tait found among prostitutes generally, half a century earlier, + in Edinburgh. Sanger found that of 2000 prostitutes in New York + as many as 1238 were born abroad (706 in Ireland), while of the + remaining 762 only half were born in the State of New York, and + clearly (though the exact figures are not given) a still smaller + proportion in New York City. Prostitutes come from the + North--where the climate is uncongenial, and manufacturing and + sedentary occupations prevail--much more than from the South; + thus Maine, a cold bleak maritime State, sent twenty-four of + these prostitutes to New York, while equidistant Virginia, which + at the same rate should have sent seventy-two, only sent nine; + there was a similar difference between Rhode Island and Maryland + (Sanger, _History of Prostitution_, p. 452). It is instructive to + see here the influence of a dreary climate and monotonous labor + in stimulating the appetite for a "life of pleasure." In France, + as shown by a map in Parent-Duchâtelet's work (vol. i, pp. 37-64, + 1857), if the country is divided into five zones, on the whole + running east and west, there is a steady and progressive decrease + in the number of prostitutes each zone sends to Paris, as we + descend southwards. Little more than a third seem to belong to + Paris, and, as in America, it is the serious and hard-working + North, with its relatively cold climate, which furnishes the + largest contingent; even in old France, Dufour remarks (_op. + cit._, vol. iv, Ch. XV), prostitution, as the _fabliaux_ and + _romans_ show, was less infamous in the _langue d'oil_ than in + the _langue d'oc_, so that they were doubtless rare in the + South. At a later period Reuss states (_La Prostitution_, p. 12) + that "nearly all the prostitutes of Paris come from the + provinces." Jeannel found that of one thousand Bordeaux + prostitutes only forty-six belonged to the city itself, and + Potton (Appendix to Parent-Duchâtelet, vol. ii, p. 446) states + that of nearly four thousand Lyons prostitutes only 376 belonged + to Lyons. In Vienna, in 1873, Schrank remarks that of over 1500 + prostitutes only 615 were born in Vienna. The general rule, it + will be seen, though the variations are wide, is that little more + than a third of a city's prostitutes are children of the city. + + It is interesting to note that this tendency of the prostitute to + reach cities from afar, this migratory tendency--which they + nowadays share with waiters--is no merely modern phenomenon. + "There are few cities in Lombardy, or France, or Gaul," wrote St. + Boniface nearly twelve centuries ago, "in which there is not an + adulteress or prostitute of the English nation," and the Saint + attributes this to the custom of going on pilgrimage to foreign + shrines. At the present time there is no marked English element + among Continental prostitutes. Thus in Paris, according to Reuss + (_La Prostitution_, p. 12), the foreign prostitutes in decreasing + order are Belgian, German (Alsace-Lorraine), Swiss (especially + Geneva), Italian, Spanish, and only then English. Connoisseurs in + this matter say, indeed, that the English prostitute, as compared + with her Continental (and especially French) sister, fails to + show to advantage, being usually grasping as regards money and + deficient in charm. + +It is the appeal of civilization, though not of what is finest and best in +civilization, which more than any other motive, calls women to the career +of a prostitute. It is now necessary to point out that for the man also, +the same appeal makes itself felt in the person of the prostitute. The +common and ignorant assumption that prostitution exists to satisfy the +gross sensuality of the young unmarried man, and that if he is taught to +bridle gross sexual impulse or induced to marry early the prostitute must +be idle, is altogether incorrect. If all men married when quite young, not +only would the remedy be worse than the disease--a point which it would be +out of place to discuss here--but the remedy would not cure the disease. +The prostitute is something more than a channel to drain off superfluous +sexual energy, and her attraction by no means ceases when men are married, +for a large number of the men who visit prostitutes, if not the majority, +are married. And alike whether they are married or unmarried the motive +is not one of uncomplicated lust. + + In England, a well-informed writer remarks that "the value of + marriage as a moral agent is evidenced by the fact that all the + better-class prostitutes in London are almost entirely supported + by married men," while in Germany, as stated in the interesting + series of reminiscences by a former prostitute, Hedwig Hard's + _Beichte einer Gefallenen_, (p. 208), the majority of the men who + visit prostitutes are married. The estimate is probably + excessive. Neisser states that only twenty-five per cent. of + cases of gonorrhoea occur in married men. This indication is + probably misleading in the opposite direction, as the married + would be less reckless than the young and unmarried. As regards + the motives which lead married men to prostitutes, Hedwig Hard + narrates from her own experiences an incident which is + instructive and no doubt typical. In the town in which she lived + quietly as a prostitute a man of the best social class was + introduced by a friend, and visited her habitually. She had often + seen and admired his wife, who was one of the beauties of the + place, and had two charming children; husband and wife seemed + devoted to each other, and every one envied their happiness. He + was a man of intellect and culture who encouraged Hedwig's love + of books; she became greatly attached to him, and one day + ventured to ask him how he could leave his lovely and charming + wife to come to one who was not worthy to tie her shoe-lace. + "Yes, my child," he answered, "but all her beauty and culture + brings nothing to my heart. She is cold, cold as ice, proper, + and, above all, phlegmatic. Pampered and spoilt, she lives only + for herself; we are two good comrades, and nothing more. If, for + instance, I come back from the club in the evening and go to her + bed, perhaps a little excited, she becomes nervous and she thinks + it improper to wake her. If I kiss her she defends herself, and + tells me that I smell horribly of cigars and wine. And if perhaps + I attempt more, she jumps out of bed, bristles up as though I + were assaulting her, and threatens to throw herself out of the + window if I touch her. So, for the sake of peace, I leave her + alone and come to you." There can be no doubt whatever that this + is the experience of many married men who would be well content + to find the sweetheart as well as the friend in their wives. But + the wives, from a variety of causes, have proved incapable of + becoming the sexual mates of their husbands. And the husbands, + without being carried away by any impulse of strong passion or + any desire for infidelity, seek abroad what they cannot find at + home. + + This is not the only reason why married men visit prostitutes. + Even men who are happily married to women in all chief respects + fitted to them, are apt to find, after some years of married + life, a mysterious craving for variety. They are not tired of + their wives, they have not the least wish or intention to abandon + them, they will not, if they can help it, give them the slightest + pain. But from time to time they are led by an almost + irresistible and involuntary impulse to seek a temporary intimacy + with women to whom nothing would persuade them to join themselves + permanently. Pepys, whose _Diary_, in addition to its other + claims upon us, is a psychological document of unique importance, + furnishes a very characteristic example of this kind of impulse. + He had married a young and charming wife, to whom he is greatly + attached, and he lives happily with her, save for a few + occasional domestic quarrels soon healed by kisses; his love is + witnessed by his jealousy, a jealousy which, as he admits, is + quite unreasonable, for she is a faithful and devoted wife. Yet a + few years after marriage, and in the midst of a life of strenuous + official activity, Pepys cannot resist the temptation to seek the + temporary favors of other women, seldom prostitutes, but nearly + always women of low social class--shop women, workmen's wives, + superior servant-girls. Often he is content to invite them to a + quiet ale-house, and to take a few trivial liberties. Sometimes + they absolutely refuse to allow more than this; when that happens + he frequently thanks Almighty God (as he makes his entry in his + _Diary_ at night) that he has been saved from temptation and from + loss of time and money; in any case, he is apt to vow that it + shall never occur again. It always does occur again. Pepys is + quite sincere with himself; he makes no attempt at justification + or excuse; he knows that he has yielded to a temptation; it is an + impulse that comes over him at intervals, an impulse that he + seems unable long to resist. Throughout it all he remains an + estimable and diligent official, and in most respects a tolerably + virtuous man, with a genuine dislike of loose people and loose + talk. The attitude of Pepys is brought out with incomparable + simplicity and sincerity because he is setting down these things + for his own eyes only, but his case is substantially that of a + vast number of other men, perhaps indeed of the typical _homme + moyen sensuel_ (see Pepys, _Diary_, ed. Wheatley; e.g., vol. iv, + passim). + + There is a third class of married men, less considerable in + number but not unimportant, who are impelled to visit + prostitutes: the class of sexually perverted men. There are a + great many reasons why such men may desire to be married, and in + some cases they marry women with whom they find it possible to + obtain the particular form of sexual gratification they crave. + But in a large proportion of cases this is not possible. The + conventionally bred woman often cannot bring herself to humor + even some quite innocent fetishistic whim of her husband's, for + it is too alien to her feelings and too incomprehensible to her + ideas, even though she may be genuinely in love with him; in many + cases the husband would not venture to ask, and scarcely even + wish, that his wife should lend herself to play the fantastic or + possibly degrading part his desires demand. In such a case he + turns naturally to the prostitute, the only woman whose business + it is to fulfil his peculiar needs. Marriage has brought no + relief to these men, and they constitute a noteworthy proportion + of a prostitute's clients in every great city. The most ordinary + prostitute of any experience can supply cases from among her own + visitors to illustrate a treatise of psychopathic sexuality. It + may suffice here to quote a passage from the confessions of a + young London (Strand) prostitute as written down from her lips by + a friend to whom I am indebted for the document; I have merely + turned a few colloquial terms into more technical forms. After + describing how, when she was still a child of thirteen in the + country, a rich old gentleman would frequently come and exhibit + himself before her and other girls, and was eventually arrested + and imprisoned, she spoke of the perversities she had met with + since she had become a prostitute. She knew a young man, about + twenty-five, generally dressed in a sporting style, who always + came with a pair of live pigeons, which he brought in a basket. + She and the girl with whom she lived had to undress and take the + pigeons and wring their necks; he would stand in front of them, + and as the necks were wrung orgasm occurred. Once a man met her + in the street and asked her if he might come with her and lick + her boots. She agreed, and he took her to a hotel, paid half a + guinea for a room, and, when she sat down, got under the table + and licked her boots, which were covered with mud; he did nothing + more. Then there were some things, she said, that were too dirty + to repeat; well, one man came home with her and her friend and + made them urinate into his mouth. She also had stories of + flagellation, generally of men who whipped the girls, more rarely + of men who liked to be whipped by them. One man, who brought a + new birch every time, liked to whip her friend until he drew + blood. She knew another man who would do nothing but smack her + nates violently. Now all these things, which come into the + ordinary day's work of the prostitute, are rooted in deep and + almost irresistible impulses (as will be clear to any reader of + the discussion of Erotic Symbolism in the previous volume of + these _Studies_). They must find some outlet. But it is only the + prostitute who can be relied upon, through her interests and + training, to overcome the natural repulsion to such actions, and + gratify desires which, without gratification, might take on other + and more dangerous forms. + +Although Woods Hutchinson quotes with approval the declaration of a +friend, "Out of thousands I have never seen one with good table manners," +there is still a real sense in which the prostitute represents, however +inadequately, the attraction of civilization. "There was no house in +which I could habitually see a lady's face and hear a lady's voice," wrote +the novelist Anthony Trollope in his _Autobiography_, concerning his early +life in London. "No allurement to decent respectability came in my way. It +seems to me that in such circumstances the temptations of loose life will +almost certainly prevail with a young man. The temptation at any rate +prevailed with me." In every great city, it has been said, there are +thousands of men who have no right to call any woman but a barmaid by her +Christian name.[210] All the brilliant fever of civilization pulses round +them in the streets but their lips never touch it. It is the prostitute +who incarnates this fascination of the city, far better than the virginal +woman, even if intimacy with her were within reach. The prostitute +represents it because she herself feels it, because she has even +sacrificed her woman's honor in the effort to identify herself with it. +She has unbridled feminine instincts, she is a mistress of the feminine +arts of adornment, she can speak to him concerning the mysteries of +womanhood and the luxuries of sex with an immediate freedom and knowledge +the innocent maiden cloistered in her home would be incapable of. She +appeals to him by no means only because she can gratify the lower desires +of sex, but also because she is, in her way, an artist, an expert in the +art of feminine exploitation, a leader of feminine fashions. For she is +this, and there are, as Simmel has stated in his _Philosophie der Mode_, +good psychological reasons why she always should be this. Her uncertain +social position makes all that is conventional and established hateful to +her, while her temperament makes perpetual novelty delightful. In new +fashions she finds "an æsthetic form of that instinct of destruction which +seems peculiar to all pariah existences, in so far as they are not +completely enslaved in spirit." + + "However surprising it may seem to some," a modern writer + remarks, "prostitutes must be put on the same level as artists. + Both use their gifts and talents for the joy and pleasure of + others, and, as a rule, for payment. What is the essential + difference between a singer who gives pleasure to hearers by her + throat and a prostitute who gives pleasure to those who seek her + by another part of her body? All art works on the senses." He + refers to the significant fact that actors, and especially + actresses, were formerly regarded much as prostitutes are now (R. + Hellmann, _Ueber Geschlechtsfreiheit_, pp. 245-252). + + Bernaldo de Quirós and Llanas Aguilaniedo (_La Mala Vida en + Madrid_, p. 242) trace the same influence still lower in the + social scale. They are describing the more squalid kind of _café + chantant_, in which, in Spain and elsewhere, the most vicious and + degenerate feminine creatures become waitresses (and occasionally + singers and dancers), playing the part of amiable and + distinguished _hetairæ_ to the public of carmen and shop-boys who + frequent these resorts. "Dressed with what seems to the youth + irreproachable taste, with hair elaborately prepared, and clean + face adorned with flowers or trinkets, affable and at times + haughty, superior in charm and in finery to the other women he is + able to know, the waitresses become the most elevated example of + the _femme galante_ whom he is able to contemplate and talk to, + the courtesan of his sphere." + +But while to the simple, ignorant, and hungry youth the prostitute appeals +as the embodiment of many of the refinements and perversities of +civilization, on many more complex and civilized men she exerts an +attraction of an almost reverse kind. She appeals by her fresh and natural +coarseness, her frank familiarity with the crudest facts of life; and so +lifts them for a moment out of the withering atmosphere of artificial +thought and unreal sentiment in which so many civilized persons are +compelled to spend the greater part of their lives. They feel in the words +which the royal friend of a woman of this temperament is said to have used +in explaining her incomprehensible influence over him: "She is so +splendidly vulgar!" + + In illustration of this aspect of the appeal of prostitution, I + may quote a passage in which the novelist, Hermant, in his + _Confession d'un Enfant d'Hier_ (Lettre VII), has set down the + reasons which may lead the super-refined child of a cultured age, + yet by no means radically or completely vicious, to find + satisfaction in commerce with prostitutes: "As long as my heart + was not touched the object of my satisfaction was completely + indifferent to me. I was, moreover, a great lover of absolute + liberty, which is only possible in the circle of these anonymous + creatures and in their reserved dwelling. There everything became + permissible. With other women, however low we may seek them, + certain convenances must be observed, a kind of protocol. To + these one can say everything: one is protected by incognito and + assured that nothing will be divulged. I profited by this + freedom, which suited my age, but with a perverse fancy which was + not characteristic of my years. I scarcely know where I found + what I said to them, for it was the opposite of my tastes, which + were simple, and, if I may venture to say so, classic. It is true + that, in matters of love, unrestrained naturalism always tends to + perversion, a fact that can only seem paradoxical at first sight. + Primitive peoples have many traits in common with degenerates. It + was, however, only in words that I was unbridled; and that was + the only occasion on which I can recollect seriously lying. But + that necessity, which I then experienced, of expelling a lower + depth of ignoble instincts, seems to me characteristic and + humiliating. I may add that even in the midst of these + dissipations I retained a certain reserve. The contacts to which + I exposed myself failed to soil me; nothing was left when I had + crossed the threshold. I have always retained, from that forcible + and indifferent commerce, the habit of attributing no consequence + to the action of the flesh. The amorous function, which religion + and morality have surrounded with mystery or seasoned with sin, + seems to me a function like any other, a little vile, but + agreeable, and one to which the usual epilogue is too long.... + This kind of companionship only lasted for a short time." This + analysis of the attitude of a certain common type of civilized + modern man seems to be just, but it may perhaps occur to some + readers that a commerce which led to "the action of the flesh" + being regarded as of no consequence can scarcely be said to have + left no taint. + + In a somewhat similar manner, Henri de Régnier, in his novel, + _Les Rencontres de Monsieur Bréot_ (p. 50), represents Bercaillé + as deliberately preferring to take his pleasures with + servant-girls rather than with ladies, for pleasure was, to his + mind, a kind of service, which could well be accommodated with + the services they are accustomed to give; and then they are + robust and agreeable, they possess the _naïveté_ which is always + charming in the common people, and they are not apt to be + repelled by those little accidents which might offend the + fastidious sensibilities of delicately bred ladies. + + Bloch, who has especially emphasized this side of the appeal of + prostitution (_Das Sexualleben unserer Zeit_, pp. 359-362), + refers to the delicate and sensitive young Danish writer, J.P. + Jakobsen, who seems to have acutely felt the contrast between the + higher and more habitual impulses, and the occasional outburst of + what he felt to be lower instincts; in his _Niels Lyhne_ he + describes the kind of double life in which a man is true for a + fortnight to the god he worships, and is then overcome by other + powers which madly bear him in their grip towards what he feels + to be humiliating, perverse, and filthy. "At such moments," Bloch + remarks, "the man is another being. The 'two souls' in the breast + become a reality. Is that the famous scholar, the lofty idealist, + the fine-souled æsthetician, the artist who has given us so many + splendid and pure works in poetry and painting? We no longer + recognize him, for at such moments another being has come to the + surface, another nature is moving within him, and with the power + of an elementary force is impelling him towards things at which + his 'upper consciousness,' the civilized man within him, would + shudder." Bloch believes that we are here concerned with a kind + of normal masculine masochism, which prostitution serves to + gratify. + + +_IV. The Present Social Attitude Towards Prostitution._ + +We have now surveyed the complex fact of prostitution in some of its most +various and typical aspects, seeking to realise, intelligently and +sympathetically, the fundamental part it plays as an elementary +constituent of our marriage system. Finally we have to consider the +grounds on which prostitution now appears to a large and growing number of +persons not only an unsatisfactory method of sexual gratification but a +radically bad method. + +The movement of antagonism towards prostitution manifests itself most +conspicuously, as might beforehand have been anticipated, by a feeling of +repugnance towards the most ancient and typical, once the most credited +and best established prostitutional manifestation, the brothel. The growth +of this repugnance is not confined to one or two countries but is +international, and may thus be regarded as corresponding to a real +tendency in our civilization. It is equally pronounced in prostitutes +themselves and in the people who are their clients. The distaste on the +one side increases the distaste on the other. Since only the most helpless +or the most stupid prostitutes are nowadays willing to accept the +servitude of the brothel, the brothel-keeper is forced to resort to +extraordinary methods for entrapping victims, and even to take part in +that cosmopolitan trade in "white slaves" which exists solely to feed +brothels.[211] This state of things has a natural reaction in prejudicing +the clients of prostitution against an institution which is going out of +fashion and out of credit. An even more fundamental antipathy is +engendered by the fact that the brothel fails to respond to the high +degree of personal freedom and variety which civilization produces, and +always demands even when it fails to produce. On one side the prostitute +is disinclined to enter into a slavery which usually fails even to bring +her any reward; on the other side her client feels it as part of the +fascination of prostitution under civilized conditions that he shall enjoy +a freedom and choice the brothel cannot provide.[212] Thus it comes about +that brothels which once contained nearly all the women who made it a +business to minister to the sexual needs of men, now contain only a +decreasing minority, and that the transformation of cloistered +prostitution into free prostitution is approved by many social reformers +as a gain to the cause of morality.[213] + +The decay of brothels, whether as cause or as effect, has been associated +with a vast increase of prostitution outside brothels. But the repugnance +to brothels in many essential respects also applies to prostitution +generally, and, as we shall see, it is exerting a profoundly modifying +influence on that prostitution. + +The changing feeling in regard to prostitution seems to express itself +mainly in two ways. On the one hand there are those who, without desiring +to abolish prostitution, resent the abnegation which accompanies it, and +are disgusted by its sordid aspects. They may have no moral scruples +against prostitution, and they know no reason why a woman should not +freely do as she will with her own person. But they believe that, if +prostitution is necessary, the relationships of men with prostitutes +should be humane and agreeable to each party, and not degrading to either. +It must be remembered that under the conditions of civilized urban life, +the discipline of work is often too severe, and the excitements of urban +existence too constant, to render an abandonment to orgy a desirable +recreation. The gross form of orgy appeals, not to the town-dweller but to +the peasant, and to the sailor or soldier who reaches the town after long +periods of dreary routine and emotional abstinence. It is a mistake, even, +to suppose that the attraction of prostitution is inevitably associated +with the fulfilment of the sexual act. So far is this from being the case +that the most attractive prostitute may be a woman who, possessing few +sexual needs of her own, desires to please by the charm of her +personality; these are among those who most often find good husbands. +There are many men who are even well content merely to have a few hours' +free intimacy with an agreeable woman, without any further favor, although +that may be open to them. For a very large number of men under urban +conditions of existence the prostitute is ceasing to be the degraded +instrument of a moment's lustful desire; they seek an agreeable human +person with whom they may find relaxation from the daily stress or routine +of life. When an act of prostitution is thus put on a humane basis, +although it by no means thereby becomes conducive to the best development +of either party, it at least ceases to be hopelessly degrading. Otherwise +it would not have been possible for religious prostitution to flourish for +so long in ancient days among honorable women of good birth on the shores +of the Mediterranean, even in regions like Lydia, where the position of +women was peculiarly high.[214] + +It is true that the monetary side of prostitution would still exist. But +it is possible to exaggerate its importance. It must be pointed out that, +though it is usual to speak of the prostitute as a woman who "sells +herself," this is rather a crude and inexact way of expressing, in its +typical form, the relationship of a prostitute to her client. A prostitute +is not a commodity with a market-price, like a loaf or a leg of mutton. +She is much more on a level with people belonging to the professional +classes, who accept fees in return for services rendered; the amount of +the fee varies, on the one hand in accordance with professional standing, +on the other hand in accordance with the client's means, and under special +circumstances may be graciously dispensed with altogether. Prostitution +places on a venal basis intimate relationships which ought to spring up +from natural love, and in so doing degrades them. But strictly speaking +there is in such a case no "sale." To speak of a prostitute "selling +herself" is scarcely even a pardonable rhetorical exaggeration; it is both +inexact and unjust.[215] + + This tendency in an advanced civilization towards the + humanization of prostitution is the reverse process, we may note, + to that which takes place at an earlier stage of civilization + when the ancient conception of the religious dignity of + prostitution begins to fall into disrepute. When men cease to + reverence women who are prostitutes in the service of a goddess + they set up in their place prostitutes who are merely abject + slaves, flattering themselves that they are thereby working in + the cause of "progress" and "morality." On the shores of the + Mediterranean this process took place more than two thousand + years ago, and is associated with the name of Solon. To-day we + may see the same process going on in India. In some parts of + India (as at Jejuri, near Poonah) first born girls are dedicated + to Khandoba or other gods; they are married to the god and termed + _muralis_. They serve in the temple, sweep it, and wash the holy + vessels, also they dance, sing and prostitute themselves. They + are forbidden to marry, and they live in the homes of their + parents, brothers, or sisters; being consecrated to religious + service, they are untouched by degradation. Nowadays, however, + Indian "reformers," in the name of "civilization and science," + seek to persuade the _muralis_ that they are "plunged in a career + of degradation." No doubt in time the would-be moralists will + drive the _muralis_ out of their temples and their homes, deprive + them of all self-respect, and convert them into wretched + outcasts, all in the cause of "science and civilization" (see, + e.g., an article by Mrs. Kashibai Deodhar, _The New Reformer_, + October, 1907). So it is that early reformers create for the + reformers of a later day the task of humanizing prostitution + afresh. + + There can be no doubt that this more humane conception of + prostitution is to-day beginning to be realized in the actual + civilized life of Europe. Thus in writing of prostitution in + Paris, Dr. Robert Michels ("Erotische Streifzüge," + _Mutterschutz_, 1906, Heft 9, p. 368) remarks: "While in Germany + the prostitute is generally considered as an 'outcast' creature, + and treated accordingly, an instrument of masculine lust to be + used and thrown away, and whom one would under no circumstances + recognize in public, in France the prostitute plays in many + respects the part which once give significance and fame to the + _hetairæ_ of Athens." And after describing the consideration and + respect which the Parisian prostitute is often able to require of + her friends, and the non-sexual relation of comradeship which she + can enter into with other men, the writer continues: "A girl who + certainly yields herself for money, but by no means for the first + comer's money, and who, in addition to her 'business friends,' + feels the need of, so to say, non-sexual companions with whom she + can associate in a free comrade-like way, and by whom she is + treated and valued as a free human being, is not wholly lost for + the moral worth of humanity." All prostitution is bad, Michels + concludes, but we should have reason to congratulate ourselves if + love-relationships of this Parisian species represented the + lowest known form of extra-conjugal sexuality. (As bearing on the + relative consideration accorded to prostitutes I may mention that + a Paris prostitute remarked to a friend of mine that Englishmen + would ask her questions which no Frenchman would venture to ask.) + + It is not, however, only in Paris, although here more markedly + and prominently, that this humanizing change in prostitution is + beginning to make itself felt. It is manifested, for instance, in + the greater openness of a man's sexual life. "While he formerly + slinked into a brothel in a remote street," Dr. Willy Hellpach + remarks (_Nervosität und Kultur_, p. 169), "he now walks abroad + with his 'liaison,' visiting the theatres and cafés, without + indeed any anxiety to meet his acquaintances, but with no + embarrassment on that point. The thing is becoming more + commonplace, more--natural." It is also, Hellpach proceeds to + point out, thus becoming more moral also, and much unwholesome + prudery and pruriency is being done away with. + + In England, where change is slow, this tendency to the + humanization of prostitution may be less pronounced. But it + certainly exists. In the middle of the last century Lecky wrote + (_History of European Morals_, vol. ii, p. 285) that habitual + prostitution "is in no other European country so hopelessly + vicious or so irrevocable." That statement, which was also made + by Parent-Duchâtelet and other foreign observers, is fully + confirmed by the evidence on record. But it is a statement which + would hardly be made to-day, except perhaps, in reference to + special confined areas of our cities. It is the same in America, + and we may doubtless find this tendency reflected in the report + on _The Social Evil_ (1902), drawn up by a committee in New York, + who gave it (p. 176) as one of their chief recommendations that + prostitution should no longer be regarded as a crime, in which + light, one gathers, it had formerly been regarded in New York. + That may seem but a small step in the path of humanization, but + it is in the right direction. + + It is by no means only in lands of European civilization that we + may trace with developing culture the refinement and humanization + of the slighter bonds of relationship with women. In Japan + exactly the same demands led, several centuries ago, to the + appearance of the geisha. In the course of an interesting and + precise study of the geisha Mr. R.T. Farrer remarks (_Nineteenth + Century_, April, 1904): "The geisha is in no sense necessarily a + courtesan. She is a woman educated to attract; perfected from her + childhood in all the intricacies of Japanese literature; + practiced in wit and repartee; inured to the rapid give-and-take + of conversation on every topic, human and divine. From her + earliest youth she is broken into an inviolable charm of manner + incomprehensible to the finest European, yet she is almost + invariably a blossom of the lower classes, with dumpy claws, and + squat, ugly nails. Her education, physical and moral, is far + harder than that of the _ballerina_, and her success is achieved + only after years of struggle and a bitter agony of torture.... + And the geisha's social position may be compared with that of the + European actress. The Geisha-house offers prizes as desirable as + any of the Western stage. A great geisha with twenty nobles + sitting round her, contending for her laughter, and kept in + constant check by the flashing bodkin of her wit, holds a + position no less high and famous than that of Sarah Bernhardt in + her prime. She is equally sought, equally flattered, quite as + madly adored, that quiet little elderly plain girl in dull blue. + But she is prized thus primarily for her tongue, whose power only + ripens fully as her physical charms decline. She demands vast + sums for her owners, and even so often appears and dances only at + her own pleasure. Few, if any, Westerners ever see a really + famous geisha. She is too great to come before a European, except + for an august or imperial command. Finally she may, and + frequently does, marry into exalted places. In all this there is + not the slightest necessity for any illicit relation." + + In some respects the position of the ancient Greek _hetaira_ was + more analogous to that of the Japanese _geisha_ than to that of + the prostitute in the strict sense. For the Greeks, indeed, the + _hetaira_, was not strictly a _porne_ or prostitute at all. The + name meant friend or companion, and the woman to whom the name + was applied held an honorable position, which could not be + accorded to the mere prostitute. Athenæus (Bk. xiii, Chs. + XXVIII-XXX) brings together passages showing that the _hetaira_ + could be regarded as an independent citizen, pure, simple, and + virtuous, altogether distinct from the common crew of + prostitutes, though these might ape her name. The _hetairæ_ "were + almost the only Greek women," says Donaldson (_Woman_, p. 59), + "who exhibited what was best and noblest in women's nature." This + fact renders it more intelligible why a woman of such + intellectual distinction as Aspasia should have been a _hetaira_. + There seems little doubt as to her intellectual distinction. + "Æschines, in his dialogue entitled 'Aspasia,'" writes Gomperz, + the historian of Greek philosophy (_Greek Thinkers_, vol. iii, + pp. 124 and 343), "puts in the mouth of that distinguished woman + an incisive criticism of the mode of life traditional for her + sex. It would be exceedingly strange," Gomperz adds, in arguing + that an inference may thus be drawn concerning the historical + Aspasia, "if three authors--Plato, Xenophon and Æschines--had + agreed in fictitiously enduing the companion of Pericles with + what we might very reasonably have expected her to possess--a + highly cultivated mind and intellectual influence." It is even + possible that the movement for woman's right which, as we dimly + divine through the pages of Aristophanes, took place in Athens in + the fourth century B.C., was led by _hetairæ_. According to Ivo + Bruns (_Frauenemancipation in Athen_, 1900, p. 19) "the most + certain information which we possess concerning Aspasia bears a + strong resemblance to the picture which Euripides and + Aristophanes present to us of the leaders of the woman movement." + It was the existence of this movement which made Plato's ideas on + the community of women appear far less absurd than they do to us. + It may perhaps be thought by some that this movement represented + on a higher plane that love of distruction, or, as we should + better say, that spirit of revolt and aspiration, which Simmel + finds to mark the intellectual and artistic activity of those who + are unclassed or dubiously classed in the social hierarchy. Ninon + de Lenclos, as we have seen, was not strictly a courtesan, but + she was a pioneer in the assertion of woman's rights. Aphra Behn + who, a little later in England, occupied a similarly dubious + social position, was likewise a pioneer in generous humanitarian + aspirations, which have since been adopted in the world at + large. + + These refinements of prostitution may be said to be chiefly the + outcome of the late and more developed stages in civilization. As + Schurtz has put it (_Altersklassen und Männerbünde_, p. 191): + "The cheerful, skilful and artistically accomplished _hetaira_ + frequently stands as an ideal figure in opposition to the + intellectually uncultivated wife banished to the interior of the + house. The courtesan of the Italian Renaissance, Japanese + geishas, Chinese flower-girls, and Indian bayaderas, all show + some not unnoble features, the breath of a free artistic + existence. They have achieved--with, it is true, the sacrifice of + their highest worth--an independence from the oppressive rule of + man and of household duties, and a part of the feminine endowment + which is so often crippled comes in them to brilliant + development. Prostitution in its best form may thus offer a path + by which these feminine characteristics may exert a certain + influence on the development of civilization. We may also believe + that the artistic activity of women is in some measure able to + offer a counterpoise to the otherwise less pleasant results of + sexual abandonment, preventing the coarsening and destruction of + the emotional life; in his _Magda_ Sudermann has described a type + of woman who, from the standpoint of strict morality, is open to + condemnation, but in her art finds a foothold, the strength of + which even ill-will must unwillingly recognize." In his _Sex and + Character_, Weininger has developed in a more extreme and + extravagant manner the conception of the prostitute as a + fundamental and essential part of life, a permanent feminine + type. + +There are others, apparently in increasing numbers, who approach the +problem of prostitution not from an æsthetic standpoint but from a moral +standpoint. This moral attitude is not, however, that conventionalized +morality of Cato and St. Augustine and Lecky, set forth in previous pages, +according to which the prostitute in the street must be accepted as the +guardian of the wife in the home. These moralists reject indeed the claim +of that belief to be considered moral at all. They hold that it is not +morally possible that the honor of some women shall be purchaseable at the +price of the dishonor of other women, because at such a price virtue loses +all moral worth. When they read that, as Goncourt stated, "the most +luxurious articles of women's _trousseaux_, the bridal chemises of girls +with dowries of six hundred thousand francs, are made in the prison of +Clairvaux,"[216] they see the symbol of the intimate dependence of our +luxurious virtue on our squalid vice. And while they accept the +historical and sociological evidence which shows that prostitution is an +inevitable part of the marriage system which still survives among us, they +ask whether it is not possible so to modify our marriage system that it +shall not be necessary to divide feminine humanity into "disreputable" +women, who make sacrifices which it is dishonorable to make, and +"respectable" women, who take sacrifices which it cannot be less +dishonorable to accept. + + Prostitutes, a distinguished man of science has said (Duclaux, + _L'Hygiène Sociale_, p. 243), "have become things which the + public uses when it wants them, and throws on the dungheap when + it has made them vile. In its pharisaism it even has the + insolence to treat their trade as shameful, as though it were not + just as shameful to buy as to sell in this market." Bloch + (_Sexualleben unserer Zeit_, Ch. XV) insists that prostitution + must be ennobled, and that only so can it be even diminished. + Isidore Dyer, of New Orleans, also argues that we cannot check + prostitution unless we create "in the minds of men and women a + spirit of tolerance instead of intolerance of fallen women." This + point may be illustrated by a remark by the prostitute author of + the _Tagebuch einer Verlorenen_. "If the profession of yielding + the body ceased to be a shameful one," she wrote, "the army of + 'unfortunates' would diminish by four-fifths--I will even say + nine-tenths. Myself, for example! How gladly would I take a + situation as companion or governess!" "One of two things," wrote + the eminent sociologist Tarde ("La Morale Sexuelle," _Archives + d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, January, 1907), "either prostitution + will disappear through continuing to be dishonorable and will be + replaced by some other institution which will better remedy the + defects of monogamous marriage, or it will survive by becoming + respectable, that is to say, by making itself respected, whether + liked or disliked." Tarde thought this might perhaps come about + by a better organization of prostitutes, a more careful selection + among those who desired admission to their ranks and the + cultivation of professional virtues which would raise their moral + level. "If courtesans fulfil a need," Balzac had already said in + his _Physiologie du Mariage_, "they must become an institution." + +This moral attitude is supported and enforced by the inevitable democratic +tendency of civilization which, although it by no means destroys the idea +of class, undermines that idea as the mark of fundamental human +distinctions and renders it superficial. Prostitution no longer makes a +woman a slave; it ought not to make her even a pariah: "My body is my +own," said the young German prostitute of to-day, "and what I do with it +is nobody else's concern." When the prostitute was literally a slave moral +duty towards her was by no means necessarily identical with moral duty +towards the free woman. But when, even in the same family, the prostitute +may be separated by a great and impassable social gulf from her married +sister, it becomes possible to see, and in the opinion of many +imperatively necessary to see, that a readjustment of moral values is +required. For thousands of years prostitution has been defended on the +ground that the prostitute is necessary to ensure the "purity of women." +In a democratic age it begins to be realized that prostitutes also are +women. + +The developing sense of a fundamental human equality underlying the +surface divisions of class tends to make the usual attitude towards the +prostitute, the attitude of her clients even more than that of society +generally, seem painfully cruel. The callous and coarsely frivolous tone +of so many young men about prostitutes, it has been said, is "simply +cruelty of a peculiarly brutal kind," not to be discerned in any other +relation of life.[217] And if this attitude is cruel even in speech it is +still more cruel in action, whatever attempts may be made to disguise its +cruelty. + + Canon Lyttelton's remarks may be taken to refer chiefly to young + men of the upper middle class. Concerning what is perhaps the + usual attitude of lower middle class people towards prostitution, + I may quote from a remarkable communication which has reached me + from Australia: "What are the views of a young man brought up in + a middle-class Christian English family on prostitutes? Take my + father, for instance. He first mentioned prostitutes to me, if I + remember rightly, when speaking of his life before marriage. And + he spoke of them as he would speak of a horse he had hired, paid + for, and dismissed from his mind when it had rendered him + service. Although my mother was so kind and good she spoke of + abandoned women with disgust and scorn as of some unclean animal. + As it flatters vanity and pride to be able with good countenance + and universal consent to look down on something, I soon grasped + the situation and adopted an attitude which is, in the main, that + of most middle-class Christian Englishmen towards prostitutes. + But as puberty develops this attitude has to be accommodated with + the wish to make use of this scum, these moral lepers. The + ordinary young man, who likes a spice of immorality and has it + when in town, and thinks it is not likely to come to his mother's + or sisters' ears, does not get over his arrogance and disgust or + abate them in the least. He takes them with him, more or less + disguised, to the brothel, and they color his thoughts and + actions all the time he is sleeping with prostitutes, or kissing + them, or passing his hands over them, as he would over a mare, + getting as much as he can for his money. To tell the truth, on + the whole, that was my attitude too. But if anyone had asked me + for the smallest reason for this attitude, for this feeling of + superiority, pride, _hauteur_, and prejudice, I should, like any + other 'respectable' young man, have been entirely at a loss, and + could only have gaped foolishly." + +From the modern moral standpoint which now concerns us, not only is the +cruelty involved in the dishonor of the prostitute absurd, but not less +absurd, and often not less cruel, seems the honor bestowed on the +respectable women on the other side of the social gulf. It is well +recognized that men sometimes go to prostitutes to gratify the excitement +aroused by fondling their betrothed.[218] As the emotional and physical +results of ungratified excitement are not infrequently more serious in +women than in men, the betrothed women in these cases are equally +justified in seeking relief from other men, and the vicious circle of +absurdity might thus be completed. + +From the point of view of the modern moralist there is another +consideration which was altogether overlooked in the conventional and +traditional morality we have inherited, and was indeed practically +non-existent in the ancient days when that morality was still a living +reality. Women are no longer divided only into the two groups of wives who +are to be honored, and prostitutes who are the dishonored guardians of +that honor; there is a large third class of women who are neither wives +nor prostitutes. For this group of the unmarried virtuous the traditional +morality had no place at all; it simply ignored them. But the new +moralist, who is learning to recognize both the claims of the individual +and the claims of society, begins to ask whether on the one hand these +women are not entitled to the satisfaction of their affectional and +emotional impulses if they so desire, and on the other hand whether, since +a high civilization involves a diminished birthrate, the community is not +entitled to encourage every healthy and able-bodied woman to contribute to +maintain the birthrate when she so desires. + +All the considerations briefly indicated in the preceding pages--the +fundamental sense of human equality generated by our civilization, the +repugnance to cruelty which accompanies the refinement of urban life, the +ugly contrast of extremes which shock our developing democratic +tendencies, the growing sense of the rights of the individual to authority +over his own person, the no less strongly emphasized right of the +community to the best that the individual can yield--all these +considerations are every day more strongly influencing the modern moralist +to assume towards the prostitute an attitude altogether different from +that of the morality which we derived from Cato and Augustine. He sees the +question in a larger and more dynamic manner. Instead of declaring that it +is well worth while to tolerate and at the same time to condemn the +prostitute, in order to preserve the sanctity of the wife in her home, he +is not only more inclined to regard each as the proper guardian of her own +moral freedom, but he is less certain about the time-honored position of +the prostitute, and moreover, by no means sure that the wife in the home +may not be fully as much in need of rescuing as the prostitute in the +street; he is prepared to consider whether reform in this matter is not +most likely to take place in the shape of a fairer apportionment of sexual +privileges and sexual duties to women generally, with an inevitably +resultant elevation in the sexual lives of men also. + + The revolt of many serious reformers against the injustice and + degradation now involved by our system of prostitution is so + profound that some have declared themselves ready to accept any + revolution of ideas which would bring about a more wholesome + transmutation of moral values. "Better indeed were a saturnalia + of _free_ men and women," exclaims Edward Carpenter (_Love's + Coming of Age_, p. 62), "than the spectacle which, as it is, our + great cities present at night." + + Even those who would be quite content with as conservative a + treatment as possible of social institutions still cannot fail to + realize that prostitution is unsatisfactory, unless we are + content to make very humble claims of the sexual act. "The act of + prostitution," Godfrey declares (_The Science of Sex_, p. 202), + "may be physiologically complete, but it is complete in no other + sense. All the moral and intellectual factors which combine with + physical desire to form the perfect sexual attraction are absent. + All the higher elements of love--admiration, respect, honor, and + self-sacrificing devotion--are as foreign to prostitution as to + the egoistic act of masturbation. The principal drawbacks to the + morality of the act lie in its associations more than in the act + itself. Any affectional quality which a more or less promiscuous + connection might possess is at once destroyed by the intrusion of + the monetary element. In the resulting degradation the woman has + the largest share, since it makes her a pariah and involves her + in all the hardening and depraving influences of social + ostracism. But her degradation only serves to render her + influence on her partners more demoralizing. Prostitution," he + concludes, "has a strong tendency towards emphasizing the + naturally selfish attitude of men towards women, and encouraging + them in the delusion, born of unregulated passions, that the + sexual act itself is the aim and end of the sex life. + Prostitution can therefore make no claim to afford even a + temporary solution to the sex problem. It fulfils only that + mission which has made it a 'necessary evil'--the mission of + palliative to the physical rigors of celibacy and monogamy. It + does so at the cost of a considerable amount of physical and + moral deterioration, much of which is undoubtedly due to the + action of society in completing the degradation of the prostitute + by persistent ostracism. Prostitution was not so great an evil + when it was not thought so great, yet even at its best it was a + real evil, a melancholy and sordid travesty of sincere and + natural passional relations. It is an evil which we are bound to + have with us so long as celibacy is a custom and monogamy a law." + It is the wife as well as the prostitute who is degraded by a + system which makes venal love possible. "The time has gone past," + the same writer remarks elsewhere (p. 195) "when a mere ceremony + can really sanctify what is base and transform lust and greed + into the sincerity of sexual affection. If, to enter into sexual + connections with a man for a solely material end is a disgrace to + humanity, it is a disgrace under the marriage bond just as much + as apart from the hypocritical blessing of the church or the law. + If the public prostitute is a being who deserves to be treated as + a pariah, it is hopelessly irrational to withhold every sort of + moral opprobrium from the woman who leads a similar life under a + different set of external circumstances. Either the prostitute + wife must come under the moral ban, or there must be an end to + the complete ostracism under which the prostitute labors." + + The thinker who more clearly and fundamentally than others, and + first of all, realized the dynamical relationships of + prostitution, as dependent upon a change in the other social + relationships of life, was James Hinton. More than thirty years + ago, in fragmentary writings that still remain unpublished, since + he never worked them into an orderly form, Hinton gave vigorous + and often passionate expression to this fundamental idea. It may + be worth while to quote a few brief passages from Hinton's MSS.: + "I feel that the laws of force should hold also amid the waves of + human passion, that the relations of mechanics are true, and will + rule also in human life.... There is a tension, a crushing of the + soul, by our modern life, and it is ready for a sudden spring to + a different order in which the forces shall rearrange themselves. + It is a dynamical question presented in moral terms.... Keeping a + portion of the woman population without prospect of marriage + means having prostitutes, that is women as instruments of man's + mere sensuality, and this means the killing, in many of them, of + all pure love or capacity of it. This is the fact we have to + face.... To-day I saw a young woman whose life was being consumed + by her want of love, a case of threatened utter misery: now see + the price at which we purchase her ill-health; for her ill-health + we pay the crushing of another girl into hell. We give that for + it; her wretchedness of soul and body are bought by prostitution; + we have prostitutes made for that.... We devote some women + recklessly to perdition to make a hothouse Heaven for the + rest.... One wears herself out in vainly trying to endure + pleasures she is not strong enough to enjoy, while other women + are perishing for lack of these very pleasures. If marriage is + this, is it not embodied lust? The happy Christian homes are the + true dark places of the earth.... Prostitution for man, restraint + for woman--they are two sides of the same thing, and both are + denials of love, like luxury and asceticism. The mountains of + restraint must be used to fill up the abysses of luxury." + + Some of Hinton's views were set forth by a writer intimately + acquainted with him in a pamphlet entitled _The Future of + Marriage: An Eirenicon for a Question of To-day_, by a + Respectable Woman (1885). "When once the conviction is forced + home upon the 'good' women," the writer remarks, "that their + place of honor and privilege rests upon the degradation of others + as its basis, they will never rest till they have either + abandoned it or sought for it some other pedestal. If our + inflexible marriage system has for its essential condition the + existence side by side with it of prostitution, then one of two + things follows: either prostitution must be shown to be + compatible with the well-being, moral and physical, of the women + who practice it, or our marriage system must be condemned. If it + was clearly put before anyone, he could not seriously assert that + to be 'virtue' which could only be practiced at the expense of + another's vice.... Whilst the laws of physics are becoming so + universally recognized that no one dreams of attempting to + annihilate a particle of matter, or of force, yet we do not + instinctively apply the same conception to moral forces, but + think and act as if we could simply do away with an evil, while + leaving unchanged that which gives it its strength. This is the + only view of the social problem which can give us hope. That + prostitution should simply cease, leaving everything else as it + is, would be disastrous if it were possible. But it is not + possible. The weakness of all existing efforts to put down + prostitution is that they are directed against it as an isolated + thing, whereas it is only one of the symptoms proceeding from a + common disease." + + Ellen Key, who during recent years has been the chief apostle of + a gospel of sexual morality based on the needs of women as the + mothers of the race, has, in a somewhat similar spirit, denounced + alike prostitution and rigid marriage, declaring (in her _Essays + on Love and Marriage_) that "the development of erotic personal + consciousness is as much hindered by socially regulated + 'morality' as by socially regulated 'immorality,'" and that "the + two lowest and socially sanctioned expressions of sexual dualism, + rigid marriage and prostitution, will gradually become + impossible, because with the conquest of the idea of erotic unity + they will no longer correspond to human needs." + +We may sum up the present situation as regards prostitution by saying that +on the one hand there is a tendency for its elevation, in association with +the growing humanity and refinement of civilization, characteristics which +must inevitably tend to mark more and more both those women who become +prostitutes and those men who seek them; on the other hand, but perhaps +through the same dynamic force, there is a tendency towards the slow +elimination of prostitution by the successful competition of higher and +purer methods of sexual relationship freed from pecuniary considerations. +This refinement and humanization, this competition by better forms of +sexual love, are indeed an essential part of progress as civilization +becomes more truly sound, wholesome, and sincere. + +This moral change cannot, it seems probable, fail to be accompanied by the +realization that the facts of human life are more important than the +forms. For all changes from lower to higher social forms, from savagery to +civilization, are accompanied--in so far as they are vital changes--by a +slow and painful groping towards the truth that it is only in natural +relations that sanity and sanctity can be found, for, as Nietzsche said, +the "return" to Nature should rather be called the "ascent." Only so can +we achieve the final elimination from our hearts of that clinging +tradition that there is any impurity or dishonor in acts of love for which +the reasonable, and not merely the conventional, conditions have been +fulfilled. For it is vain to attempt to cleanse our laws, or even our +by-laws, until we have first cleansed our hearts. + +It would be out of place here to push further the statement of the moral +question as it is to-day beginning to shape itself in the sphere of sex. +In a psychological discussion we are only concerned to set down the actual +attitude of the moralist, and of civilization. The practical outcome of +that attitude must be left to moralists and sociologists and the community +generally to work out. + +Our inquiry has also, it may be hoped, incidentally tended to show that in +practically dealing with the question of prostitution it is pre-eminently +necessary to remember the warning which, as regards many other social +problems, has been embodied by Herbert Spencer in his famous illustration +of the bent iron plate. In trying to make the bent plate smooth, it is +useless, Spencer pointed out, to hammer directly on the buckled up part; +if we do so we merely find that we have made matters worse; our hammering, +to be effective, must be around, and not directly on, the offensive +elevation we wish to reduce; only so can the iron plate be hammered +smooth.[219] But this elementary law has not been understood by +moralists. The plain, practical, common-sense reformer, as he fancied +himself to be--from the time of Charlemagne onwards--has over and over +again brought his heavy fist directly down on to the evil of prostitution +and has always made matters worse. It is only by wisely working outside +and around the evil that we can hope to lessen it effectually. By aiming +to develop and raise the relationships of men to women, and of women to +women, by modifying our notions of sexual relationships, and by +introducing a saner and truer conception of womanhood and of the +responsibilities of women as well as of men, by attaining, socially as +well as economically, a higher level of human living--it is only by such +methods as these that we can reasonably expect to see any diminution and +alleviation of the evil of prostitution. So long as we are incapable of +such methods we must be content with the prostitution we deserve, learning +to treat it with the pity, and the respect, which so intimate a failure of +our civilization is entitled to. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[107] See, e.g., Cheetham's Hulsean Lectures, _The Mysteries, Pagan and +Christian_, pp. 123, 136. + +[108] Hormayr's _Taschenbuch_, 1835, p. 255. Hagelstange, in a chapter on +mediæval festivals in his _Süddeutsches Bauernleben im Mittelalter_, shows +how, in these Christian orgies which were really of pagan origin, the +German people reacted with tremendous and boisterous energy against the +laborious and monotonous existence of everyday life. + +[109] This was clearly realized by the more intelligent upholders of the +Feast of Fools. Austere persons wished to abolish this Feast, and in a +remarkable petition sent up to the Theological Faculty of Paris (and +quoted by Flogel, _Geschichte des Grotesk-Komischen_, fourth edition, p. +204) the case for the Feast is thus presented: "We do this according to +ancient custom, in order that folly, which is second nature to man and +seems to be inborn, may at least once a year have free outlet. Wine casks +would burst if we failed sometimes to remove the bung and let in air. Now +we are all ill-bound casks and barrels which would let out the wine of +wisdom if by constant devotion and fear of God we allowed it to ferment. +We must let in air so that it may not be spoilt. Thus on some days we give +ourselves up to sport, so that with the greater zeal we may afterwards +return to the worship of God." The Feast of Fools was not suppressed until +the middle of the sixteenth century, and relics of it persisted (as at +Aix) till near the end of the eighteenth century. + +[110] A Méray, _La Vie au Temps des Libres Prêcheurs_, vol. ii, Ch. X. A +good and scholarly account of the Feast of Fools is given by E.K. +Chambers, _The Mediæval Stage_, Ch. XIII. It is true that the Church and +the early Fathers often anathematized the theatre. But Gregory of +Nazianzen wished to found a Christian theatre; the Mediæval Mysteries were +certainly under the protection of the clergy; and St. Thomas Aquinas, the +greatest of the schoolmen, only condemns the theatre with cautious +qualifications. + +[111] Spencer and Gillen, _Northern Tribes of Central Australia_, Ch. XII. + +[112] _Journal Anthropological Institute_, July-Dec., 1904, p. 329. + +[113] Westermarck (_Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. ii, +pp. 283-9) shows how widespread is the custom of setting apart a +periodical rest day. + +[114] A.E. Crawley, _The Mystic Rose_, pp. 273 et seq., Crawley brings +into association with this function of great festivals the custom, found +in some parts of the world, of exchanging wives at these times. "It has +nothing whatever to do with the marriage system, except as breaking it for +a season, women of forbidden degree being lent, on the same grounds as +conventions and ordinary relations are broken at festivals of the +Saturnalia type, the object being to change life and start afresh, by +exchanging every thing one can, while the very act of exchange coincides +with the other desire, to weld the community together" (Ib., p. 479). + +[115] See "The Analysis of the Sexual Impulse" in vol. iii of these +_Studies_. + +[116] G. Murray, _Ancient Greek Literature_, p. 211. + +[117] The Greek drama probably arose out of a folk-festival of more or +less sexual character, and it is even possible that the mediæval drama had +a somewhat similar origin (see Donaldson, _The Greek Theatre_; Gilbert +Murray, loc. cit.; Karl Pearson, _The Chances of Death_, vol. ii, pp. +135-6, 280 et seq.). + +[118] R. Canudo, "Les Chorèges Français," _Mercure de France_, May 1, +1907, p. 180. + +[119] "This is, in fact," Cyples declares (_The Process of Human +Experience_, p. 743), "Art's great function--to rehearse within us greater +egoistic possibilities, to habituate us to larger actualizations of +personality in a rudimentary manner," and so to arouse, "aimlessly but +splendidly, the sheer as yet unfulfilled possibilities within us." + +[120] Even when monotonous labor is intellectual, it is not thereby +protected against degrading orgiastic reactions. Prof. L. Gurlitt shows +(_Die Neue Generation_, January, 1909, pp. 31-6) how the strenuous, +unremitting intellectual work of Prussian seminaries leads among both +teachers and scholars to the worst forms of the orgy. + +[121] Rabutaux discusses various definitions of prostitution, _De la +Prostitution en Europe_, pp. 119 et seq. For the origin of the names to +designate the prostitute, see Schrader, _Reallexicon_, art. +"Beischläferin." + +[122] _Digest_, lib. xxiii, tit. ii, p. 43. If she only gave herself to +one or two persons, though for money, it was not prostitution. + +[123] Guyot, _La Prostitution_, p. 8. The element of venality is +essential, and religious writers (like Robert Wardlaw, D.D., of Edinburgh, +in his _Lectures on Female Prostitution_, 1842, p. 14) who define +prostitution as "the illicit intercourse of the sexes," and synonymous +with theological "fornication," fall into an absurd confusion. + +[124] "Such marriages are sometimes stigmatized as 'legalized +prostitution,'" remarks Sidgwick (_Methods of Ethics_, Bk. iii, Ch. XI), +"but the phrase is felt to be extravagant and paradoxical." + +[125] Bonger, _Criminalité et Conditions Economiques_, p. 378. Bonger +believes that the act of prostitution is "intrinsically equal to that of a +man or woman who contracts a marriage for economical reasons." + +[126] E. Richard, _La Prostitution à Paris_, 1890, p. 44. It may be +questioned whether publicity or notoriety should form an essential part of +the definition; it seems, however, to be involved, or the prostitute +cannot obtain clients. Reuss states that she must, in addition, be +absolutely without means of subsistence; that is certainly not essential. +Nor is it necessary, as the _Digest_ insisted, that the act should be +performed "without pleasure;" that may be as it will, without affecting +the prostitutional nature of the act. + +[127] Hawkesworth, _Account of the Voyages_, etc., 1775, vol. ii, p. 254. + +[128] R.W. Codrington, _The Melanesians_, p. 235. + +[129] F.S. Krauss, _Romanische Forschungen_, 1903, p. 290. + +[130] H. Schurtz, _Altersklassen und Männerbünde_, 1902, p. 190. In this +work Schurtz brings together (pp. 189-201) some examples of the germs of +prostitution among primitive peoples. Many facts and references are given +by Westermarck (_History of Human Marriage_, pp. 66 et seq., and _Origin +and Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. ii, pp. 441 _et seq._). + +[131] Bachofen (more especially in his _Mutterrecht_ and _Sage von +Tanaquil_) argued that even religious prostitution sprang from the +resistance of primitive instincts to the individualization of love. Cf. +Robertson Smith, _Religion of Semites_, second edition, p. 59. + +[132] Whatever the reason may be, there can be no doubt that there is a +widespread tendency for religion and prostitution to be associated; it is +possibly to some extent a special case of that general connection between +the religious and sexual impulses which has been discussed elsewhere +(Appendix C to vol. i of these _Studies_). Thus A.B. Ellis, in his book on +_The Ewe-speaking Peoples of West Africa_ (pp. 124, 141) states that here +women dedicated to a god become promiscuous prostitutes. W.G. Sumner +(_Folkways_, Ch. XVI) brings together many facts concerning the wide +distribution of religious prostitution. + +[133] Herodotus, Bk. I, Ch. CXCIX; Baruch, Ch. VI, p. 43. Modern scholars +confirm the statements of Herodotus from the study of Babylonian +literature, though inclined to deny that religious prostitution occupied +so large a place as he gives it. A tablet of the Gilgamash epic, according +to Morris Jastrow, refers to prostitutes as attendants of the goddess +Ishtar in the city Uruk (or Erech), which was thus a centre, and perhaps +the chief centre, of the rites described by Herodotus (Morris Jastrow, +_The Religion of Babylonia and Assyria_, 1898, p. 475). Ishtar was the +goddess of fertility, the great mother goddess, and the prostitutes were +priestesses, attached to her worship, who took part in ceremonies intended +to symbolize fertility. These priestesses of Ishtar were known by the +general name Kadishtu, "the holy ones" (op. cit., pp. 485, 660). + +[134] It is usual among modern writers to associate Aphrodite Pandemos, +rather than Ourania, with venal or promiscuous sexuality, but this is a +complete mistake, for the Aphrodite Pandemos was purely political and had +no sexual significance. The mistake was introduced, perhaps intentionally, +by Plato. It has been suggested that that arch-juggler, who disliked +democratic ideas, purposely sought to pervert and vulgarize the conception +of Aphrodite Pandemos (Farnell, _Cults of Greek States_, vol. ii, p. 660). + +[135] Athenæus, Bk. xiii, cap. XXXII. It appears that the only other +Hellenic community where the temple cult involved unchastity was a city of +the Locri Epizephyrii (Farnell, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 636). + +[136] I do not say an earlier "promiscuity," for the theory of a primitive +sexual promiscuity is now widely discredited, though there can be no +reasonable doubt that the early prevalence of mother-right was more +favorable to the sexual freedom of women than the later patriarchal +system. Thus in very early Egyptian days a woman could give her favors to +any man she chose by sending him her garment, even if she were married. In +time the growth of the rights of men led to this being regarded as +criminal, but the priestesses of Amen retained the privilege to the last, +as being under divine protection (Flinders Petrie, _Egyptian Tales_, pp. +10, 48). + +[137] It should be added that Farnell ("The Position of Women in Ancient +Religion," _Archiv für Religionswissenschaft_, 1904, p. 88) seeks to +explain the religious prostitution of Babylonia as a special religious +modification of the custom of destroying virginity before marriage in +order to safeguard the husband from the mystic dangers of defloration. +E.S. Hartland, also ("Concerning the Rite at the Temple of Mylitta," +_Anthropological Essays Presented to E.B. Tyler_, p. 189), suggests that +this was a puberty rite connected with ceremonial defloration. This theory +is not, however, generally accepted by Semitic scholars. + +[138] The girls of this tribe, who are remarkably pretty, after spending +two or three years in thus amassing a little dowry, return home to marry, +and are said to make model wives and mothers. They are described by +Bertherand in Parent-Duchâtelet, _La Prostitution à Paris_, vol. ii, p. +539. + +[139] In Abyssinia (according to Fiaschi, _British Medical Journal_, March +13, 1897), where prostitution has always been held in high esteem, the +prostitutes, who are now subject to medical examination twice a week, +still attach no disgrace to their profession, and easily find husbands +afterwards. Potter (_Sohrab and Rustem_, pp. 168 et seq.) gives references +as regards peoples, widely dispersed in the Old World and the New, among +whom the young women have practiced prostitution to obtain a dowry. + +[140] At Tralles, in Lydia, even in the second century A.D., as Sir W.M. +Ramsay notes (_Cities of Phrygia_, vol. i, pp. 94, 115), sacred +prostitution was still an honorable practice for women of good birth who +"felt themselves called upon to live the divine life under the influence +of divine inspiration." + +[141] The gradual secularization of prostitution from its earlier +religious form has been traced by various writers (see, e.g., Dupouey, _La +Prostitution dans l'Antiquité_). The earliest complimentary reference to +the _Hetaira_ in literature is to be found, according to Benecke +(_Antimachus of Colophon_, p. 36), in Bacchylides. + +[142] Cicero, _Oratio prô Coelio_, Cap. XX. + +[143] Pierre Dufour, _Histoire de la Prostitution_, vol. ii, Chs. XIX-XX. +The real author of this well-known history of prostitution, which, though +not scholarly in its methods, brings together a great mass of interesting +information, is said to be Paul Lacroix. + +[144] Rabutaux, in his _Histoire de la Prostitution en Europe_, describes +many attempts to suppress prostitution; cf. Dufour, _op. cit._, vol. iii. + +[145] Dufour, op. cit., vol. vi, Ch. XLI. It was in the reign of the +homosexual Henry III that the tolerance of brothels was established. + +[146] In the eighteenth century, especially, houses of prostitution in +Paris attained to an astonishing degree of elaboration and prosperity. +Owing to the constant watchful attention of the police a vast amount of +detailed information concerning these establishments was accumulated, and +during recent years much of it has been published. A summary of this +literature will be found in Dühren's _Neue Forshungen über den Marquis de +Sade und seine Zeit_, 1904, pp. 97 et seq. + +[147] Rabutaux, op. cit., p. 54. + +[148] Calza has written the history of Venetian prostitution; and some of +the documents he found have been reproduced by Mantegazza, _Gli Amori +degli Uomimi_, cap. XIV. At the beginning of the seventeenth century, a +comparatively late period, Coryat visited Venice, and in his _Crudities_ +gives a full and interesting account of its courtesans, who then numbered, +he says, at least 20,000; the revenue they brought into the State +maintained a dozen galleys. + +[149] J. Schrank, _Die Prostitution in Wien_, Bd. I, pp. 152-206. + +[150] U. Robert, _Les Signes d'Infamie au Moyen Age_, Ch. IV. + +[151] Rudeck (_Geschichte der öffentlichen Sittlichkeit in Deutschland_, +pp. 26-36) gives many details concerning the important part played by +prostitutes and brothels in mediæval German life. + +[152] They are described by Rabutaux, op. cit., pp. 90 _et seq._ + +[153] _L'Année Sociologique_, seventh year, 1904, p. 440. + +[154] Bloch, _Der Ursprung der Syphilis_. As regards the German +"Frauenhausen" see Max Bauer, _Das Geschlechtsleben in der Deutschen +Vergangenheit_, pp. 133-214. In Paris, Dufour states (op. cit., vol. v, +Ch. XXXIV), brothels under the ordinances of St. Louis had many rights +which they lost at last in 1560, when they became merely tolerated houses, +without statutes, special costumes, or confinement to special streets. + +[155] "Cortegiana, hoc est meretrix honesta," wrote Burchard, the Pope's +Secretary, at the beginning of the sixteenth century, _Diarium_, ed. +Thuasne, vol. ii, p. 442; other authorities are quoted by Thuasne in a +note. + +[156] Burchard, _Diarium_, vol. iii, p. 167. Thuasne quotes other +authorities in confirmation. + +[157] The example of Holland, where some large cities have adopted the +regulation of prostitution and others have not, is instructive as regards +the illusory nature of the advantages of regulation. In 1883 Dr. Després +brought forward figures, supplied by Dutch officials, showing that in +Rotterdam, where prostitution was regulated, both prostitution and +venereal diseases were more prevalent than in Amsterdam, a city without +regulation (A. Després, _La Prostitution en France_, p. 122). + +[158] It was in 1802 that the medical inspection of prostitutes in Paris +brothels was introduced, though not until 1825 fully established and made +general. + +[159] M.L. Heidingsfeld, "The Control of Prostitution," _Journal American +Medical Association_, January 30, 1904. + +[160] See, e.g., G. Bérault, _La Maison de Tolérance_, Thèse de Paris, +1904. + +[161] Thus the circumstances of the English army in India are of a special +character. A number of statements (from the reports of committees, +official publications, etc.) regarding the good influence of regulation in +reducing venereal diseases in India are brought together by +Surgeon-Colonel F.H. Welch, "The Prevention of Syphilis," _Lancet_, August +12, 1899. The system has been abolished, but only as the result of a +popular outcry and not on the question of its merits. + +[162] Thus Richard, who accepts regulation and was instructed to report on +it for the Paris Municipal Council, would not have girls inscribed as +professional prostitutes until they are of age and able to realize what +they are binding themselves to (E. Richard, _La Prostitution à Paris_, p. +147). But at that age a large proportion of prostitutes have been +practicing their profession for years. + +[163] In Germany, where the cure of infected prostitutes under regulation +is nearly everywhere compulsory, usually at the cost of the community, it +is found that 18 is the average age at which they are affected by +syphilis; the average age of prostitutes in brothels is higher than that +of those outside, and a much larger proportion have therefore become +immune to disease (Blaschko, "Hygiene der Syphilis," in Weyl's _Handbuch +der Hygiene_, Bd. ii, p. 62, 1900). + +[164] A. Sherwell, _Life in West London_, 1897, Ch. V. + +[165] Bonger brings together statistics illustrating this point, op. cit., +pp. 402-6. + +[166] _The Nightless City_, p. 125. + +[167] Ströhmberg, as quoted by Aschaffenburg, _Das Verbrechen_, 1903, p. +77. + +[168] _Monatsschrift für Harnkrankheiten und Sexuelle Hygiene_, 1906. Heft +10, p. 460. But this cause is undoubtedly effective in some cases of +unmarried women in Germany unable to get work (see article by Sister +Henrietta Arendt, Police-Assistant at Stuttgart, _Sexual-Probleme_, +December, 1908). + +[169] Thus, for instance, we find Irma von Troll-Borostyáni saying in her +book, _Im Freien Reich_ (p. 176): "Go and ask these unfortunate creatures +if they willingly and freely devoted themselves to vice. And nearly all of +them will tell you a story of need and destitution, of hunger and lack of +work, which compelled them to it, or else of love and seduction and the +fear of the discovery of their false step which drove them out of their +homes, helpless and forsaken, into the pool of vice from which there is +hardly any salvation." It is, of course, quite true that the prostitute is +frequently ready to tell such stories to philanthropic persons who expect +to hear them, and sometimes even put the words into her mouth. + +[170] C. Booth, _Life and Labour_, final volume, p. 125. Similarly in +Sweden, Kullberg states that girls of thirteen to seventeen, living at +home with their parents in comfortable circumstances, have often been +found on the streets. + +[171] W. Acton, _Prostitution_, 1870, pp. 39, 49. + +[172] In Lyons, according to Potton, of 3884 prostitutes, 3194 abandoned, +or apparently abandoned, their profession; in Paris a very large number +became servants, dressmakers, or tailoresses, occupations which, in many +cases, doubtless, they had exercised before (Parent-Duchâtelet, _De la +Prostitution_, 1857, vol. i, p. 584; vol. ii, p. 451). Sloggett (quoted by +Acton) stated that at Davenport, 250 of the 1775 prostitutes there +married. It is well known that prostitutes occasionally marry extremely +well. It was remarked nearly a century ago that marriages of prostitutes +to rich men were especially frequent in England, and usually turned out +well; the same seems to be true still. In their own social rank they not +infrequently marry cabmen and policemen, the two classes of men with whom +they are brought most closely in contact in the streets. As regards +Germany, C.K. Schneider (_Die Prostituirte und die Gesellschaft_), states +that young prostitutes take up all sorts of occupations and situations, +sometimes, if they have saved a little money, establishing a business, +while old prostitutes become procuresses, brothel-keepers, lavatory women, +and so on. Not a few prostitutes marry, he adds, but the proportion among +inscribed German prostitutes is very small, less than 2 per cent. + +[173] G. de Molinari, _La Viriculture_, 1897, p. 155. + +[174] Reuss and other writers have reproduced typical extracts from the +private account books of prostitutes, showing the high rate of their +earnings. Even in the common brothels, in Philadelphia (according to +Goodchild, "The Social Evil in Philadelphia," _Arena_, March, 1896), girls +earn twenty dollars or more a week, which is far more than they could earn +in any other occupation open to them. + +[175] A. Després, _La Prostitution en France_, 1883. + +[176] Bonger, _Criminalité et Conditions Economiques_, 1905, pp. 378-414. + +[177] _La Donna Delinquente_, p. 401. + +[178] Raciborski, _Traité de l'Impuissance_, p. 20. It may be added that +Bergh, a leading authority on the anatomical peculiarities of the external +female sexual organs, who believe that strong development of the external +genital organs accompanies libidinous tendencies, has not found such +development to be common among prostitutes. + +[179] Hammer, who has had much opportunity of studying the psychology of +prostitutes, remarks that he has seen no reason to suspect sexual coldness +(_Monatsschrift für Harnkrankheiten und Sexuelle Hygiene_, 1906, Heft 2, +p. 85), although, as he has elsewhere stated, he is of opinion that +indolence, rather than excess of sensuality, is the chief cause of +prostitution. + +[180] See "The Sexual Impulse in Women," in the third volume of these +_Studies_. + +[181] Tait stated that in Edinburgh many married women living with their +husbands in comfortable circumstances, and having children, were found to +be acting as prostitutes, that is, in the regular habit of making +assignations with strangers (W. Tait, _Magdalenism in Edinburgh_, 1842, p. +16). + +[182] Janke brings together opinions to this effect, _Die Willkürliche +Hervorbringen des Geschlechts_, p. 275. "If we compare a prostitute of +thirty-five with her respectable sister," Acton remarked (_Prostitution_, +1870, p. 39), "we seldom find that the constitutional ravages often +thought to be necessary consequences of prostitution exceed those +attributable to the cares of a family and the heart-wearing struggles of +virtuous labor." + +[183] Hirschfeld states (_Wesen der Liebe_, p. 35) that the desire for +intercourse with a sympathetic person is heightened, and not decreased, by +a professional act of coitus. + +[184] This has been clearly shown by Hans Ostwald (from whom I take the +above-quoted observation of a prostitute), one of the best authorities on +prostitute life and character; see, e.g., his article, "Die erotischen +Beziehungen zwischen Dirne und Zuhälter," _Sexual-Probleme_, June, 1908. +In the subsequent number of the same periodical (July, 1908, p. 393) Dr. +Max Marcuse supports Ostwald's experiences, and says that the letters of +prostitutes and their bullies are love-letters exactly like those of +respectable people of the same class, and with the same elements of love +and jealousy; these relationships, he remarks, often prove very enduring. +The prostitute author of the _Tagebuch einer Verlorenen_ (p. 147) also has +some remarks on the prostitute's relations to her bully, stating that it +is simply the natural relationship of a girl to her lover. + +[185] Thus Moraglia found that among 180 prostitutes in North Italian +brothels, and among 23 elegant Italian and foreign cocottes, every one +admitted that she masturbated, preferably by friction of the clitoris; 113 +of them, the majority, declared that they preferred solitary or mutual +masturbation to normal coitus. Hammer states (_Zehn Lebensläufe Berliner +Kontrollmädchen_ in Ostwald's series of "Grosstadt Dokumente," 1905) that +when in hospital all but three or four of sixty prostitutes masturbate, +and those who do not are laughed at by the rest. + +[186] _Jahrbuch für Sexuelle Zwischenstufen_, Jahrgang VII, 1905, p. 148; +"Sexual Inversion," vol. ii of these _Studies_, Ch. IV. Hammer found that +of twenty-five prostitutes in a reformatory as many as twenty-three were +homosexual, or, on good grounds, suspected to be such. Hirschfeld +(_Berlins Drittes Geschlecht_, p. 65) mentions that prostitutes sometimes +accost better-class women who, from their man-like air, they take to be +homosexual; from persons of their own sex prostitutes will accept a +smaller remuneration, and sometimes refuse payment altogether. + +[187] With prostitution, as with criminality, it is of course difficult to +disentangle the element of heredity from that of environment, even when we +have good grounds for believing that the factor of heredity here, as +throughout the whole of life, cannot fail to carry much weight. It is +certain, in any case, that prostitution frequently runs in families. "It +has often been my experience," writes a former prostitute (Hedwig Hard, +_Beichte einer Gefallenen_, p. 156) "that when in a family a girl enters +this path, her sister soon afterwards follows her: I have met with +innumerable cases; sometimes three sisters will all be on the register, +and I knew a case of four sisters, whose mother, a midwife, had been in +prison, and the father drank. In this case, all four sisters, who were +very beautiful, married, one at least very happily, to a rich doctor who +took her out of the brothel at sixteen and educated her." + +[188] This fact is not contradicted by the undoubted fact that prostitutes +are by no means always contented with the life they choose. + +[189] This point has been discussed by Bloch, _Sexualleben unserer Zeit_, +Ch. XIII. + +[190] Various series of observations are summarized by Lombroso and +Ferrero, _La Donna Delinquente_, 1893, Part III, cap. IV. + +[191] _History of European Morals_, vol. iii, p. 283. + +[192] Similarly Lord Morley has written (_Diderot_, vol. ii, p. 20): "The +purity of the family, so lovely and dear as it is, has still only been +secured hitherto by retaining a vast and dolorous host of female outcasts +... upon whose heads, as upon the scapegoat of the Hebrew ordinance, we +put all the iniquities of the children of the house, and all their +transgressions in all their sins, and then banish them with maledictions +into the foul outer wilderness and the land not inhabited." + +[193] Horace, _Satires_, lib. i, 2. + +[194] Augustine, _De Ordine_, Bk. II, Ch. IV. + +[195] _De Regimine Principum_ (_Opuscula XX_), lib. iv, cap. XIV. I am +indebted to the Rev. H. Northcote for the reference to the precise place +where this statement occurs; it is usually quoted more vaguely. + +[196] Lea, _History of Auricular Confession_, vol. ii, p. 69. There was +even, it seems, an eccentric decision of the Salamanca theologians that a +nun might so receive money, "licite et valide." + +[197] Lea, op. cit., vol. ii, pp. 263, 399. + +[198] Rabutaux, _De la Prostitution en Europe_, pp. 22 et seq. + +[199] Burton, _Anatomy of Melancholy_, Part III, Sect. III, Mem. IV, Subs. +II. + +[200] B. Mandeville, _Remarks to Fable of the Bees_, 1714, pp. 93-9; cf. +P. Sakmann, _Bernard de Mandeville_, pp. 101-4. + +[201] These conditions favor temporary free unions, but they also favor +prostitution. The reason is, according to Adolf Gerson (_Sexual-Probleme_, +September, 1908), that the woman of good class will not have free unions. +Partly moved by moral traditions, and partly by the feeling that a man +should be legally her property, she will not give herself out of love to a +man; and he therefore turns to the lower-class woman who gives herself for +money. + +[202] Many girls, said Ellice Hopkins, get into mischief merely because +they have in them an element of the "black kitten," which must frolic and +play, but has no desire to get into danger. "Do you not think it a little +hard," she added, "that men should have dug by the side of her foolish +dancing feet a bottomless pit, and that she cannot have her jump and fun +in safety, and put on her fine feathers like the silly bird-witted thing +she is, without a single false step dashing her over the brink, and +leaving her with the very womanhood dashed out of her?" + +[203] A. Sherwell, _Life in West London_, 1897, Ch. V. + +[204] As quoted by Bloch, _Sexualleben Unserer Zeit_, p. 358. In Berlin +during recent years the number of prostitutes has increased at nearly +double the rate at which the general population has increased. It is no +doubt probable that the supply tends to increase the demand. + +[205] Goncourt, _Journal_, vol. iii, p. 49. + +[206] Vanderkiste, _The Dens of London_, 1854, p. 242. + +[207] Bonger (_Criminalité et Conditions Economiques_, p. 406) refers to +the prevalence of prostitution among dressmakers and milliners, as well as +among servants, as showing the influence of contact with luxury, and adds +that the rich women, who look down on prostitution, do not always realize +that they are themselves an important factor of prostitution, both by +their luxury and their idleness; while they do not seem to be aware that +they would themselves act in the same way if placed under the same +conditions. + +[208] H. Lippert, in his book on prostitution in Hamburg, laid much stress +on the craving for dress and adornment as a factor of prostitution, and +Bloch (_Das Sexualleben unsurer Zeit_, p. 372) considers that this factor +is usually underestimated, and that it exerts an especially powerful +influence on servants. + +[209] Since this was written the influence of several generations of +town-life in immunizing a stock to the evils of that life (though without +reference to prostitution) has been set forth by Reibmayr, _Die +Entwicklungsgeschichte des Talentes und Genies_, 1908, vol. ii, pp. 73 _et +seq._ + +[210] In France this intimacy is embodied in the delicious privilege of +_tutoiement_. "The mystery of _tutoiement!_" exclaims Ernest La Jennesse +in _L'Holocauste:_ "Barriers broken down, veils drawn away, and the ease +of existence! At a time when I was very lonely, and trying to grow +accustomed to Paris and to misfortune, I would go miles--on foot, +naturally--to see a girl cousin and an aunt, merely to have something to +_tutoyer_. Sometimes they were not at home, and I had to come back with my +_tu_, my thirst for confidence and familiarity and brotherliness." + +[211] For some facts and references to the extensive literature concerning +this trade, see, e.g., Bloch, _Das Sexualleben Unserer Zeit_, pp. 374-376; +also K.M. Baer, _Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft_, Sept., 1908; +Paulucci de Calboli, _Nuova Antologia_, April, 1902. + +[212] These considerations do not, it is true, apply to many kinds of +sexual perverts who form an important proportion of the clients of +brothels. These can frequently find what they crave inside a brothel much +more easily than outside. + +[213] Thus Charles Booth, in his great work on _Life and Labor in London_, +final volume (p. 128), recommends that "houses of accommodation," instead +of being hunted out, should be tolerated as a step towards the suppression +of brothels. + +[214] "Towns like Woolwich, Aldershot, Portsmouth, Plymouth," it has been +said, "abound with wretched, filthy monsters that bear no resemblance to +women; but it is drink, scorn, brutality and disease which have reduced +them to this state, not the mere fact of associating with men." + +[215] "The contract of prostitution in the opinion of prostitutes +themselves," Bernaldo de Quirós and Llanas Aguilaniedo remark (_La Mala +Vida en Madrid_, p. 254), "cannot be assimilated to a sale, nor to a +contract of work, nor to any other form of barter recognized by the civil +law. They consider that in these pacts there always enters an element +which makes it much more like a gift in a matter in which no payment could +be adequate. 'A woman's body is without price' is an axiom of +prostitution. The money placed in the hands of her who procures the +satisfaction of sexual desire is not the price of the act, but an offering +which the priestess of Venus applies to her maintenance." To the Spaniard, +it is true, every transaction which resembles trade is repugnant, but the +principle underlying this feeling holds good of prostitution generally. + +[216] _Journal des Goncourt_, vol. iii; this was in 1866. + +[217] Rev. the Hon. C. Lyttelton, _Training of the Young in Laws of Sex_, +p. 42. + +[218] See, e.g., R.W. Taylor, _Treatise on Sexual Disorders_, 1897, pp. +74-5. Georg Hirth (_Wege zur Heimat_, 1909, p. 619) narrates the case of a +young officer who, being excited by the caresses of his betrothed and +having too much respect for her to go further than this, and too much +respect for himself to resort to masturbation, knew nothing better than to +go to a prostitute. Syphilis developed a few days after the wedding. Hirth +adds, briefly, that the results were terrible. + +[219] It is an oft-quoted passage, but can scarcely be quoted too often: +"You see that this wrought-iron plate is not quite flat: it sticks up a +little, here towards the left--'cockles,' as we say. How shall we flatten +it? Obviously, you reply, by hitting down on the part that is prominent. +Well, here is a hammer, and I give the plate a blow as you advise. Harder, +you say. Still no effect. Another stroke? Well, there is one, and another, +and another. The prominence remains, you see: the evil is as great as +ever--greater, indeed. But that is not all. Look at the warp which the +plate has got near the opposite edge. Where it was flat before it is now +curved. A pretty bungle we have made of it. Instead of curing the original +defect we have produced a second. Had we asked an artisan practiced in +'planishing,' as it is called, he would have told us that no good was to +be done, but only mischief, by hitting down on the projecting part. He +would have taught us how to give variously-directed and specially-adjusted +blows with a hammer elsewhere: so attacking the evil, not by direct, but +by indirect actions. The required process is less simple than you thought. +Even a sheet of metal is not to be successfully dealt with after those +common-sense methods in which you have so much confidence. What, then, +shall we say about a society?... Is humanity more readily straightened +than an iron plate?" (_The Study of Sociology_, p. 270.) + + + + +CHAPTER VIII. + +THE CONQUEST OF THE VENEREAL DISEASES. + +The Significance of the Venereal Diseases--The History of Syphilis--The +Problem of Its Origin--The Social Gravity of Syphilis--The Social Dangers +of Gonorrhoea--The Modern Change in the Methods of Combating +Venereal Diseases--Causes of the Decay of the System of Police +Regulation--Necessity of Facing the Facts--The Innocent Victims of +Venereal Diseases--Diseases Not Crimes--The Principle of Notification--The +Scandinavian System--Gratuitous Treatment--Punishment for Transmitting +Venereal Diseases--Sexual Education in Relation to Venereal +Diseases--Lectures, Etc.--Discussion in Novels and on the Stage--The +"Disgusting" Not the "Immoral." + + +It may, perhaps, excite surprise that in the preceding discussion of +prostitution scarcely a word has been said of venereal diseases. In the +eyes of many people, the question of prostitution is simply the question +of syphilis. But from the psychological point of view with which we are +directly concerned, as from the moral point of view with which we cannot +fail to be indirectly concerned, the question of the diseases which may +be, and so frequently are, associated with prostitution cannot be placed +in the first line of significance. The two questions, however intimately +they may be mingled, are fundamentally distinct. Not only would venereal +diseases still persist even though prostitution had absolutely ceased, +but, on the other hand, when we have brought syphilis under the same +control as we have brought the somewhat analogous disease of leprosy, the +problem of prostitution would still remain. + +Yet, even from the standpoint which we here occupy, it is scarcely +possible to ignore the question of venereal disease, for the psychological +and moral aspects of prostitution, and even the whole question of the +sexual relationships, are, to some extent, affected by the existence of +the serious diseases which are specially liable to be propagated by sexual +intercourse. + +Fournier, one of the leading authorities on this subject, has well said +that syphilis, alcoholism, and tuberculosis are the three modern plagues. +At a much earlier period (1851) Schopenhauer in _Parerga und Paralipomena_ +had expressed the opinion that the two things which mark modern social +life, in distinction from that of antiquity, and to the advantage of the +latter, are the knightly principle of honor and venereal disease; +together, he added, they have poisoned life, and introduced a hostile and +even diabolical element into the relations of the sexes, which has +indirectly affected all other social relationships.[220] It is like a +merchandise, says Havelburg, of syphilis, which civilization has +everywhere carried, so that only a very few remote districts of the globe +(as in Central Africa and Central Brazil) are to-day free from it.[221] + +It is undoubtedly true that in the older civilized countries the +manifestations of syphilis, though still severe and a cause of physical +deterioration in the individual and the race, are less severe than they +were even a generation ago.[222] This is partly the result of earlier and +better treatment, partly, it is possible, the result also of the +syphilization of the race, some degree of immunity having now become an +inherited possession, although it must be remembered that an attack of +syphilis does not necessarily confer immunity from the actual attack of +the disease even in the same individual. But it must be added that, even +though it has become less severe, syphilis, in the opinion of many, is +nevertheless still spreading, even in the chief centres of civilization; +this has been noted alike in Paris and in London.[223] + +According to the belief which is now tending to prevail, syphilis was +brought to Europe at the end of the fifteenth century by the first +discoverers of America. In Seville, the chief European port for America, +it was known as the Indian disease, but when Charles VIII and his army +first brought it to Italy in 1495, although this connection with the +French was only accidental, it was called the Gallic disease, "a monstrous +disease," said Cataneus, "never seen in previous centuries and altogether +unknown in the world." + +The synonyms of syphilis were at first almost innumerable. It was in his +Latin poem _Syphilis sive Morbus Gallicus_, written before 1521 and +published at Verona in 1530, that Fracastorus finally gave the disease its +now universally accepted name, inventing a romantic myth to account for +its origin. + + Although the weight of authoritative opinion now seems to incline + towards the belief that syphilis was brought to Europe from + America, on the discovery of the New World, it is only within + quite recent years that that belief has gained ground, and it + scarcely even yet seems certain that what the Spaniards brought + back from America was really a disease absolutely new to the Old + World, and not a more virulent form of an old disease of which + the manifestations had become benign. Buret, for instance (_Le + Syphilis Aujourd'hui et chez les Anciens_, 1890), who some years + ago reached "the deep conviction that syphilis dates from the + creation of man," and believed, from a minute study of classic + authors, that syphilis existed in Rome under the Cæsars, was of + opinion that it has broken out at different places and at + different times, in epidemic bursts exhibiting different + combinations of its manifold symptoms, so that it passed + unnoticed at ordinary times, and at the times of its more intense + manifestation was looked upon as a hitherto unknown disease. It + was thus regarded in classic times, he considers, as coming from + Egypt, though he looked upon its real home as Asia. Leopold Glück + has likewise quoted (_Archiv für Dermatologie und Syphilis_, + January, 1899) passages from the medical epigrams of a sixteenth + century physician, Gabriel Ayala, declaring that syphilis is not + really a new disease, though popularly supposed to be so, but an + old disease which has broken out with hitherto unknown violence. + There is, however, no conclusive reason for believing that + syphilis was known at all in classic antiquity. A.V. Notthaft + ("Die Legende von der Althertums-syphilis," in the Rindfleisch + _Festschrift_, 1907, pp. 377-592) has critically investigated the + passages in classic authors which were supposed by Rosenbaum, + Buret, Proksch and others to refer to syphilis. It is quite + true, Notthaft admits, that many of these passages might possibly + refer to syphilis, and one or two would even better fit syphilis + than any other disease. But, on the whole, they furnish no proof + at all, and no syphilologist, he concludes, has ever succeeded in + demonstrating that syphilis was known in antiquity. That belief + is a legend. The most damning argument against it, Notthaft + points out, is the fact that, although in antiquity there were + great physicians who were keen observers, not one of them gives + any description of the primary, secondary, tertiary, and + congenital forms of this disease. China is frequently mentioned + as the original home of syphilis, but this belief is also quite + without basis, and the Japanese physician, Okamura, has shown + (_Monatsschrift für praktische Dermatologie_, vol. xxviii, pp. + 296 et seq.) that Chinese records reveal nothing relating to + syphilis earlier than the sixteenth century. At the Paris Academy + of Medicine in 1900 photographs from Egypt were exhibited by + Fouquet of human remains which date from B.C. 2400, showing bone + lesions which seemed to be clearly syphilitic; Fournier, however, + one of the greatest of authorities, considered that the diagnosis + of syphilis could not be maintained until other conditions liable + to produce somewhat similar bone lesions had been eliminated + (_British Medical Journal_, September 29, 1900, p. 946). In + Florida and various regions of Central America, in undoubtedly + pre-Columbian burial places, diseased bones have been found which + good authorities have declared could not be anything else than + syphilitic (e.g., _British Medical Journal_, November 20, 1897, + p. 1487), though it may be noted that so recently as 1899 the + cautious Virchow stated that pre-Columbian syphilis in America + was still for him an open question (_Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, + Heft 2 and 3, 1899, p. 216). From another side, Seler, the + distinguished authority on Mexican antiquity, shows (_Zeitschrift + für Ethnologie_, 1895, Heft 5, p. 449) that the ancient Mexicans + were acquainted with a disease which, as they described it, might + well have been syphilis. It is obvious, however, that while the + difficulty of demonstrating syphilitic diseased bones in America + is as great as in Europe, the demonstration, however complete, + would not suffice to show that the disease had not already an + existence also in the Old World. The plausible theory of Ayala + that fifteenth century syphilis was a virulent recrudescence of + an ancient disease has frequently been revived in more modern + times. Thus J. Knott ("The Origin of Syphilis," _New York Medical + Journal_, October 31, 1908) suggests that though not new in + fifteenth century Europe, it was then imported afresh in a form + rendered more aggravated by coming from an exotic race, as is + believed often to be the case. + + It was in the eighteenth century that Jean Astruc began the + rehabilitation of the belief that syphilis is really a + comparatively modern disease of American origin, and since then + various authorities of weight have given their adherence to this + view. It is to the energy and learning of Dr. Iwan Bloch, of + Berlin (the first volume of whose important work, _Der Ursprung + der Syphilis_, was published in 1901) that we owe the fullest + statement of the evidence in favor of the American origin of + syphilis. Bloch regards Ruy Diaz de Isla, a distinguished Spanish + physician, as the weightiest witness for the Indian origin of the + disease, and concludes that it was brought to Europe by + Columbus's men from Central America, more precisely from the + Island of Haiti, to Spain in 1493 and 1494, and immediately + afterwards was spread by the armies of Charles VIII in an + epidemic fashion over Italy and the other countries of Europe. + + It may be added that even if we have to accept the theory that + the central regions of America constitute the place of origin of + European syphilis, we still have to recognize that syphilis has + spread in the North American continent very much more slowly and + partially than it has in Europe, and even at the present day + there are American Indian tribes among whom it is unknown. + Holder, on the basis of his own experiences among Indian tribes, + as well as of wide inquiries among agency physicians, prepared a + table showing that among some thirty tribes and groups of tribes, + eighteen were almost or entirely free from venereal disease, + while among thirteen it was very prevalent. Almost without + exception, the tribes where syphilis is rare or unknown refuse + sexual intercourse with strangers, while those among whom such + disease is prevalent are morally lax. It is the whites who are + the source of infection among these tribes (A.B. Holder, "Gynecic + Notes Among the American Indians," _American Journal of + Obstetrics_, 1892, No. 1). + +Syphilis is only one, certainly the most important, of a group of three +entirely distinct "venereal diseases" which have only been distinguished +in recent times, and so far as their precise nature and causation are +concerned, are indeed only to-day beginning to be understood, although two +of them were certainly known in antiquity. It is but seventy years ago +since Ricord, the great French syphilologist, following Bassereau, first +taught the complete independence of syphilis both from gonorrhoea +and soft chancre, at the same time expounding clearly the three stages, +primary, secondary and tertiary, through which syphilitic manifestations +tend to pass, while the full extent of tertiary syphilitic symptoms is +scarcely yet grasped, and it is only to-day beginning to be generally +realized that two of the most prevalent and serious diseases of the brain +and nervous system--general paralysis and tabes dorsalis or locomotor +ataxia--have their predominant though not sole and exclusive cause in the +invasion of the syphilitic poison many years before. In 1879 a new stage +of more precise knowledge of the venereal diseases began with Neisser's +discovery of the gonococcus which is the specific cause of gonorrhoea. +This was followed a few years later by the discovery by Ducrey and Unna of +the bacillus of soft chancre, the least important of the venereal diseases +because exclusively local in its effects. Finally, in 1905--after +Metchnikoff had prepared the way by succeeding in carrying syphilis from +man to monkey, and Lassar, by inoculation, from monkey to monkey--Fritz +Schaudinn made his great discovery of the protozoal _Spirochoeta +pallida_ (since sometimes called _Treponema pallidum_), which is now +generally regarded as the cause of syphilis, and thus revealed the final +hiding place of one of the most dangerous and insidious foes of +humanity.[224] + +There is no more subtle poison than that of syphilis. It is not, like +smallpox or typhoid, a disease which produces a brief and sudden storm, a +violent struggle with the forces of life, in which it tends, even without +treatment, provided the organism is healthy, to succumb, leaving little or +no traces of its ravages behind. It penetrates ever deeper and deeper into +the organism, with the passage of time leading to ever new manifestations, +and no tissue is safe from its attack. And so subtle is this all-pervading +poison that though its outward manifestations are amenable to prolonged +treatment, it is often difficult to say that the poison has been finally +killed out.[225] + +The immense importance of syphilis, and the chief reason why it is +necessary to consider it here, lies in the fact that its results are not +confined to the individual himself, nor even to the persons to whom he may +impart it by the contagion due to contact in or out of sexual +relationships: it affects the offspring, and it affects the power to +produce offspring. It attacks men and women at the centre of life, as the +progenitors of the coming race, inflicting either sterility or the +tendency to aborted and diseased products of conception. The father alone +can perhaps transmit syphilis to his child, even though the mother escapes +infection, and the child born of syphilitic parents may come into the +world apparently healthy only to reveal its syphilitic origin after a +period of months or even years. Thus syphilis is probably a main cause of +the enfeeblement of the race.[226] + +Alike in the individual and in his offspring syphilis shows its +deteriorating effects on all the structures of the body, but especially on +the brain and nervous system. There are, as has been pointed out by Mott, +a leading authority in this matter,[227] five ways in which syphilis +affects the brain and nervous system: (1) by moral shock; (2) by the +effects of the poison in producing anæmia and impaired general nutrition; +(3) by causing inflammation of the membranes and tissues of the brain; (4) +by producing arterial degeneration, leading on to brain-softening, +paralysis, and dementia; (5) as a main cause of the para-syphilitic +affections of general paralysis and tabes dorsalis. + +It is only within recent years that medical men have recognized the +preponderant part played by acquired or inherited syphilis in producing +general paralysis, which so largely helps to fill lunatic asylums, and +tabes dorsalis which is the most important disease of the spinal cord. +Even to-day it can scarcely be said that there is complete agreement as +to the supreme importance of the factor of syphilis in these diseases. +There can, however, be little doubt that in about ninety-five per cent. at +least of cases of general paralysis syphilis is present.[228] + +Syphilis is not indeed by itself an adequate cause of general paralysis +for among many savage peoples syphilis is very common while general +paralysis is very rare. It is, as Krafft-Ebing was accustomed to say, +syphilization and civilization working together which produce general +paralysis, perhaps in many cases, there is reason for thinking, on a +nervous soil that is hereditarily degenerated to some extent; this is +shown by the abnormal prevalence of congenital stigmata of degeneration +found in general paralytics by Näcke and others. "Paralyticus nascitur +atque fit," according to the dictum of Obersteiner. Once undermined by +syphilis, the deteriorated brain is unable to resist the jars and strains +of civilized life, and the result is general paralysis, truly described as +"one of the most terrible scourges of modern times." In 1902 the +Psychological Section of the British Medical Association, embodying the +most competent English authority on this question, unanimously passed a +resolution recommending that the attention of the Legislature and other +public bodies should be called to the necessity for immediate action in +view of the fact that "general paralysis, a very grave and frequent form +of brain disease, together with other varieties of insanity, is largely +due to syphilis, and is therefore preventable." Yet not a single step has +yet been taken in this direction. + +The dangers of syphilis lie not alone in its potency and its persistence +but also in its prevalence. It is difficult to state the exact incidence +of syphilis, but a great many partial investigations have been made in +various countries, and it would appear that from five to twenty per cent. +of the population in European countries is syphilitic, while about fifteen +per cent. of the syphilitic cases die from causes directly or indirectly +due to the disease.[229] In France generally, Fournier estimates that +seventeen per cent. of the whole population have had syphilis, and at +Toulouse, Audry considers that eighteen per cent. of all his patients are +syphilitic. In Copenhagen, where notification is obligatory, over four per +cent. of the population are said to be syphilitic. In America a committee +of the Medical Society of New York, appointed to investigate the question, +reported as the result of exhaustive inquiry that in the city of New York +not less than a quarter of a million of cases of venereal disease occurred +every year, and a leading New York dermatologist has stated that among the +better class families he knows intimately at least one-third of the sons +have had syphilis. In Germany eight hundred thousand cases of venereal +disease are by one authority estimated to occur yearly, and in the larger +universities twenty-five per cent. of the students are infected every +term, venereal disease being, however, specially common among students. +The yearly number of men invalided in the German army by venereal diseases +equals a third of the total number wounded in the Franco-Prussian war. Yet +the German army stands fairly high as regards freedom from venereal +disease when compared with the British army which is more syphilized than +any other European army.[230] The British army, however, being +professional and not national, is less representative of the people than +is the case in countries where some form of conscription prevails. At one +London hospital it could be ascertained that ten per cent. of the patients +had had syphilis; this probably means a real proportion of about fifteen +per cent., a high though not extremely high ratio. Yet it is obvious that +even if the ratio is really lower than this the national loss in life and +health, in defective procreation and racial deterioration, must be +enormous and practically incalculable. Even in cash the venereal budget is +comparable in amount to the general budget of a great nation. Stritch +estimates that the cost to the British nation of venereal diseases in the +army, navy and Government departments alone, amounts annually to +£3,000,000, and when allowance is made for superannuations and sick-leave +indirectly occasioned through these diseases, though not appearing in the +returns as such, the more accurate estimate of the cost to the nation is +stated to be £7,000,000. The adoption of simple hygienic measures for the +prevention and the speedy cure of venereal diseases will be not only +indirectly but even directly a source of immense wealth to the nation. + +Syphilis is the most obviously and conspicuously appalling of the venereal +diseases. Yet it is less frequent and in some respects less dangerously +insidious than the other chief venereal disease, gonorrhoea.[231] +At one time the serious nature of gonorrhoea, especially in women, was +little realized. Men accepted it with a light heart as a trivial accident; +women ignored it. This failure to realize the gravity of gonorrhoea, even +sometimes on the part of the medical profession--so that it has been +popularly looked upon, in Grandin's words, as of little more significance +than a cold in the nose--has led to a reaction on the part of some towards +an opposite extreme, and the risks and dangers of gonorrhoea have been +even unduly magnified. This is notably the case as regards sterility. The +inflammatory results of gonorrhoea are indubitably a potent cause of +sterility in both sexes; some authorities have stated that not only eighty +per cent. of the deaths from inflammatory diseases of the pelvic organs +and the majority of the cases of chronic invalidism in women, but ninety +per cent. of involuntary sterile marriages, are due to gonorrhoea. +Neisser, a great authority, ascribes to this disease without doubt fifty +per cent, of such marriages. Even this estimate is in the experience of +some observers excessive. It is fully proved that the great majority of +men who have had gonorrhoea, even if they marry within two years of being +infected, fail to convey the disease to their wives, and even of the women +infected by their husbands more than half have children. This is, for +instance, the result of Erb's experience, and Kisch speaks still more +strongly in the same sense. Bumm, again, although regarding gonorrhoea as +one of the two chief causes of sterility in women, finds that it is not +the most frequent cause, being only responsible for about one-third of the +cases; the other two-thirds are due to developmental faults in the genital +organs. Dunning in America has reached results which are fairly concordant +with Bumm's. + +With regard to another of the terrible results of gonorrhoea, the part it +plays in producing life-long blindness from infection of the eyes at +birth, there has long been no sort of doubt. The Committee of the +Ophthalmological Society in 1884, reported that thirty to forty-one per +cent. of the inmates of four asylums for the blind in England owed their +blindness to this cause.[232] In German asylums Reinhard found that thirty +per cent. lost their sight from the same cause. The total number of +persons blind from gonorrhoeal infection from their mothers at birth is +enormous. The British Royal Commission on the Condition of the Blind +estimated there were about seven thousand persons in the United Kingdom +alone (or twenty-two per cent. of the blind persons in the country) who +became blind as the result of this disease, and Mookerji stated in his +address on Ophthalmalogy at the Indian Medical Congress of 1894 that in +Bengal alone there were six hundred thousand totally blind beggars, forty +per cent. of whom lost their sight at birth through maternal gonorrhoea; +and this refers to the beggar class alone. + +Although gonorrhoea is liable to produce many and various calamities,[233] +there can be no doubt that the majority of gonorrhoeal persons escape +either suffering or inflicting any very serious injury. The special reason +why gonorrhoea has become so peculiarly serious a scourge is its extreme +prevalence. It is difficult to estimate the proportion of men and women in +the general population who have had gonorrhoea, and the estimates vary +within wide limits. They are often set too high. Erb, of Heidelberg, +anxious to disprove exaggerated estimates of the prevalence of gonorrhoea, +went over the records of two thousand two hundred patients in his private +practice (excluding all hospital patients) and found the proportion of +those who had suffered from gonorrhoea was 48.5 per cent. + +Among the working classes the disease is much less prevalent than among +higher-class people. In a Berlin Industrial Sick Club, 412 per 10,000 men +and 69 per 10,000 women had gonorrhoea in a year; taking a series of years +the Club showed a steady increase in the number of men, and decrease in +the number of women, with venereal infection; this seems to indicate that +the laboring classes are beginning to have intercourse more with +prostitutes and less with respectable girls.[234] In America Wood Ruggles +has given (as had Noggerath previously, for New York), the prevalence of +gonorrhoea among adult males as from 75 to 80 per cent.; Tenney places it +much lower, 20 per cent. for males and 5 per cent. for females. In +England, a writer in the _Lancet_, some years ago,[235] found as the +result of experience and inquiries that 75 per cent. adult males have had +gonorrhoea once, 40 per cent. twice, 15 per cent. three or more times. +According to Dulberg about twenty per cent. of new cases occur in married +men of good social class, the disease being comparatively rare among +married men of the working class in England. + +Gonorrhoea in its prevalence is thus only second to measles and in the +gravity of its results scarcely second to tuberculosis. "And yet," as +Grandin remarks in comparing gonorrhoea to tuberculosis, "witness the +activity of the crusade against the latter and the criminal apathy +displayed when the former is concerned."[236] The public must learn to +understand, another writer remarks, that "gonorrhoea is a pest that +concerns its highest interests and most sacred relations as much as do +smallpox, cholera, diphtheria, or tuberculosis."[237] + +It cannot fairly be said that no attempts have been made to beat back the +flood of venereal disease. On the contrary, such attempts have been made +from the first. But they have never been effectual;[238] they have never +been modified to changed condition; at the present day they are +hopelessly unscientific and entirely opposed alike to the social and the +individual demands of modern peoples. At the various conferences on this +question which have been held during recent years the only generally +accepted conclusion which has emerged is that all the existing systems +of interference or non-interference with prostitution are +unsatisfactory.[239] + +The character of prostitution has changed and the methods of dealing with +it must change. Brothels, and the systems of official regulation which +grew up with special reference to brothels, are alike out of date; they +have about them a mediæval atmosphere, an antiquated spirit, which now +render them unattractive and suspected. The conspicuously distinctive +brothel is falling into disrepute; the liveried prostitute absolutely +under municipal control can scarcely be said to exist. Prostitution tends +to become more diffused, more intimately mingled with social life +generally, less easily distinguished as a definitely separable part of +life. We can nowadays only influence it by methods of permeation which +bear upon the whole of our social life. + + The objection to the regulation of prostitution is still of slow + growth, but it is steadily developing everywhere, and may be + traced equally in scientific opinion and in popular feeling. In + France the municipalities of some of the largest cities have + either suppressed the system of regulation entirely or shown + their disapproval of it, while an inquiry among several hundred + medical men showed that less than one-third were in favor of + maintaining regulation (_Die Neue Generation_, June, 1909, p. + 244). In Germany, where there is in some respects more patient + endurance of interference with the liberty of the individual than + in France, England, or America, various elaborate systems for + organizing prostitution and dealing with venereal disease + continue to be maintained, but they cannot be completely carried + out, and it is generally admitted that in any case they could not + accomplish the objects sought. Thus in Saxony no brothels are + officially tolerated, though as a matter of fact they + nevertheless exist. Here, as in many other parts of Germany, most + minute and extensive regulations are framed for the use of + prostitutes. Thus at Leipzig they must not sit on the benches in + public promenades, nor go to picture galleries, or theatres, or + concerts, or restaurants, nor look out of their windows, nor + stare about them in the street, nor smile, nor wink, etc., etc. + In fact, a German prostitute who possesses the heroic + self-control to carry out conscientiously all the self-denying + ordinances officially decreed for her guidance would seem to be + entitled to a Government pension for life. + + Two methods of dealing with prostitution prevail in Germany. In + some cities public houses of prostitution are tolerated (though + not licensed); in other cities prostitution is "free," though + "secret." Hamburg is the most important city where houses of + prostitution are tolerated and segregated. But, it is stated, + "everywhere, by far the larger proportion of the prostitutes + belong to the so-called 'secret' class." In Hamburg, alone, are + suspected men, when accused of infecting women, officially + examined; men of every social class must obey a summons of this + kind, which is issued secretly, and if diseased, they are bound + to go under treatment, if necessary under compulsory treatment in + the city hospital, until no longer dangerous to the community. + + In Germany it is only when a woman has been repeatedly observed + to act suspiciously in the streets that she is quietly warned; if + the warning is disregarded she is invited to give her name and + address to the police, and interviewed. It is not until these + methods fail that she is officially inscribed as a prostitute. + The inscribed women, in some cities at all events, contribute to + a sick benefit fund which pays their expenses when in hospital. + The hesitation of the police to inscribe a woman on the official + list is legitimate and inevitable, for no other course would be + tolerated; yet the majority of prostitutes begin their careers + very young, and as they tend to become infected very early after + their careers begin, it is obvious that this delay contributes to + render the system of regulation ineffective. In Berlin, where + there are no officially recognized brothels, there are some six + thousand inscribed prostitutes, but it is estimated that there + are over sixty thousand prostitutes who are not inscribed. (The + foregoing facts are taken from a series of papers describing + personal investigations in Germany made by Dr. F. Bierhoff, of + New York, "Police Methods for the Sanitary Control of + Prostitution," _New York Medical Journal_, August, 1907.) The + estimation of the amount of clandestine prostitution can indeed + never be much more than guesswork; exactly the same figure of + sixty thousand is commonly brought forward as the probable number + of prostitutes not only in Berlin, but also in London and in New + York. It is absolutely impossible to say whether it is under or + over the real number, for secret prostitution is quite + intangible. Even if the facts were miraculously revealed there + would still remain the difficulty of deciding what is and what is + not prostitution. The avowed and public prostitute is linked by + various gradations on the one side to the respectable girl living + at home who seeks some little relief from the oppression of her + respectability, and on the other hand to the married woman who + has married for the sake of a home. In any case, however, it is + very certain that public prostitutes living entirely on the + earnings of prostitution form but a small proportion of the vast + army of women who may be said, in a wide sense of the word, to be + prostitutes, i.e., who use their attractiveness to obtain from + men not love alone, but money or goods. + +"The struggle against syphilis is only possible if we agree to regard its +victims as unfortunate and not as guilty.... We must give up the prejudice +which has led to the creation of the term 'shameful diseases,' and which +commands silence concerning this scourge of the family and of humanity." +In these words of Duclaux, the distinguished successor of Pasteur at the +Pasteur Institute, in his noble and admirable work _L'Hygiène Sociale_, we +have indicated to us, I am convinced, the only road by which we can +approach the rational and successful treatment of the great social problem +of venereal disease. + + The supreme importance of this key to the solution of a problem + which has often seemed insoluble is to-day beginning to become + recognized in all quarters, and in every country. Thus a + distinguished German authority, Professor Finger (_Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, Bd. i, Heft 5) declares that venereal disease must + not be regarded as the well-merited punishment for a debauched + life, but as an unhappy accident. It seems to be in France, + however, that this truth has been proclaimed with most courage + and humanity, and not alone by the followers of science and + medicine, but by many who might well be excused from interfering + with so difficult and ungrateful a task. Thus the brothers, Paul + and Victor Margueritte, who occupy a brilliant and honorable + place in contemporary French letters, have distinguished + themselves by advocating a more humane attitude towards + prostitutes, and a more modern method of dealing with the + question of venereal disease. "The true method of prevention is + that which makes it clear to all that syphilis is not a + mysterious and terrible thing, the penalty of the sin of the + flesh, a sort of shameful evil branded by Catholic malediction, + but an ordinary disease which may be treated and cured." It may + be remarked that the aversion to acknowledge venereal disease is + at least as marked in France as in any other country; "maladies + honteuses" is a consecrated French term, just as "loathsome + disease" is in English; "in the hospital," says Landret, "it + requires much trouble to obtain an avowal of gonorrhoea, + and we may esteem ourselves happy if the patient acknowledges the + fact of having had syphilis." + +No evils can be combated until they are recognized, simply and frankly, +and honestly discussed. It is a significant and even symbolic fact that +the bacteria of disease rarely flourish when they are open to the free +currents of pure air. Obscurity, disguise, concealment furnish the best +conditions for their vigor and diffusion, and these favoring conditions we +have for centuries past accorded to venereal diseases. It was not always +so, as indeed the survival of the word 'venereal' itself in this +connection, with its reference to a goddess, alone suffices to show. Even +the name "syphilis" itself, taken from a romantic poem in which +Fracastorus sought a mythological origin for the disease, bears witness to +the same fact. The romantic attitude is indeed as much out of date as that +of hypocritical and shamefaced obscurantism. We need to face these +diseases in the same simple, direct, and courageous way which has already +been adopted successfully in the ease of smallpox, a disease which, of +old, men thought analogous to syphilis and which was indeed once almost as +terrible in its ravages. + +At this point, however, we encounter those who say that it is unnecessary +to show any sort of recognition of venereal diseases, and immoral to do +anything that might seem to involve indulgence to those who suffer from +such diseases; they have got what they deserve and may well be left to +perish. Those who take this attitude place themselves so far outside the +pale of civilization--to say nothing of morality or religion--that they +might well be disregarded. The progress of the race, the development of +humanity, in fact and in feeling, has consisted in the elimination of an +attitude which it is an insult to primitive peoples to term savage. Yet +it is an attitude which should not be ignored for it still carries weight +with many who are too weak to withstand those who juggle with fine moral +phrases. I have even seen in a medical quarter the statement that venereal +disease cannot be put on the same level with other infectious diseases +because it is "the result of voluntary action." But all the diseases, +indeed all the accidents and misfortunes of suffering human beings, are +equally the involuntary results of voluntary actions. The man who is run +over in crossing the street, the family poisoned by unwholesome food, the +mother who catches the disease of the child she is nursing, all these +suffer as the involuntary result of the voluntary act of gratifying some +fundamental human instinct--the instinct of activity, the instinct of +nutrition, the instinct of affection. The instinct of sex is as +fundamental as any of these, and the involuntary evils which may follow +the voluntary act of gratifying it stand on exactly the same level. This +is the essential fact: a human being in following the human instincts +implanted within him has stumbled and fallen. Any person who sees, not +this essential fact but merely some subsidiary aspect of it, reveals a +mind that is twisted and perverted; he has no claim to arrest our +attention. + +But even if we were to adopt the standpoint of the would-be moralist, and +to agree that everyone must be left to suffer his deserts, it is far +indeed from being the fact that all those who contract venereal diseases +are in any sense receiving their deserts. In a large number of cases the +disease has been inflicted on them in the most absolutely involuntary +manner. This is, of course, true in the case of the vast number of infants +who are infected at conception or at birth. But it is also true in a +scarcely less absolute manner of a large proportion of persons infected in +later life. + +_Syphilis insontium_, or syphilis of the innocent, as it is commonly +called, may be said to fall into five groups: (1) the vast army of +congenitally syphilitic infants who inherit the disease from father or +mother; (2) the constantly occurring cases of syphilis contracted, in the +course of their professional duties, by doctors, midwives and wet-nurses; +(3) infection as a result of affection, as in simple kissing; (4) +accidental infection from casual contacts and from using in common the +objects and utensils of daily life, such as cups, towels, razors, knives +(as in ritual circumcision), etc; (5) the infection of wives by their +husbands.[240] + +Hereditary congenital syphilis belongs to the ordinary pathology of the +disease and is a chief element in its social danger since it is +responsible for an enormous infantile mortality.[241] The risks of +extragenital infection in the professional activity of doctors, midwives +and wet-nurses is also universally recognized. In the case of wet-nurses +infected by their employers' syphilitic infants at their breast, the +penalty inflicted on the innocent is peculiarly harsh and unnecessary. The +influence of infected low-class midwives is notably dangerous, for they +may inflict widespread injury in ignorance; thus the case has been +recorded of a midwife, whose finger became infected in the course of her +duties, and directly or indirectly contaminated one hundred persons. +Kissing is an extremely common source of syphilitic infection, and of all +extragenital regions the mouth is by far the most frequent seat of primary +syphilitic sores. In some cases, it is true, especially in prostitutes, +this is the result of abnormal sexual contacts. But in the majority of +cases it is the result of ordinary and slight kisses as between young +children, between parents and children, between lovers and friends and +acquaintances. Fairly typical examples, which have been reported, are +those of a child, kissed by a prostitute, who became infected and +subsequently infected its mother and grandmother; of a young French bride +contaminated on her wedding-day by one of the guests who, according to +French custom, kissed her on the cheek after the ceremony; of an American +girl who, returning from a ball, kissed, at parting, the young man who had +accompanied her home, thus acquiring the disease which she not long +afterwards imparted in the same way to her mother and three sisters. The +ignorant and unthinking are apt to ridicule those who point out the +serious risks of miscellaneous kissing. But it remains nevertheless true +that people who are not intimate enough to know the state of each other's +health are not intimate enough to kiss each other. Infection by the use of +domestic utensils, linen, etc., while comparatively rare among the better +social classes, is extremely common among the lower classes and among the +less civilized nations; in Russia, according to Tarnowsky, the chief +authority, seventy per cent. of all cases of syphilis in the rural +districts are due to this cause and to ordinary kissing, and a special +conference in St. Petersburg in 1897, for the consideration of the methods +of dealing with venereal disease, recorded its opinion to the same effect; +much the same seems to be true regarding Bosnia and various parts of the +Balkan peninsula where syphilis is extremely prevalent among the +peasantry. As regards the last group, according to Bulkley in America, +fifty per cent. of women generally contract syphilis innocently, chiefly +from their husbands, while Fournier states that in France seventy-five per +cent. of married women with syphilis have been infected by their husbands, +most frequently (seventy per cent.) by husbands who were themselves +infected before marriage and supposed that they were cured. Among men the +proportion of syphilitics who have been accidentally infected, though less +than among women, is still very considerable; it is stated to be at least +ten per cent., and possibly it is a much larger proportion of cases. The +scrupulous moralist who is anxious that all should have their deserts +cannot fail to be still more anxious to prevent the innocent from +suffering in place of the guilty. But it is absolutely impossible for him +to combine these two aims; syphilis cannot be at the same time perpetuated +for the guilty and abolished for the innocent. + + I have been taking only syphilis into account, but nearly all + that is said of the accidental infection of syphilis applies with + equal or greater force to gonorrhoea, for though gonorrhoea does + not enter into the system by so many channels as syphilis, it is + a more common as well as a more subtle and elusive disease. + + The literature of Syphilis Insontium is extremely extensive. + There is a bibliography at the end of Duncan Bulkley's _Syphilis + in the Innocent_, and a comprehensive summary of the question in + a Leipzig Inaugural Dissertation by F. Moses, _Zur Kasuistik der + Extragenitalen Syphilis-infektion_, 1904. + +Even, however, when we have put aside the vast number of venereally +infected people who may be said to be, in the narrowest and most +conventionally moral sense, "innocent" victims of the diseases they have +contracted, there is still much to be said on this question. It must be +remembered that the majority of those who contract venereal diseases by +illegitimate sexual intercourse are young. They are youths, ignorant of +life, scarcely yet escaped from home, still undeveloped, incompletely +educated, and easily duped by women; in many cases they have met, as they +thought, a "nice" girl, not indeed strictly virtuous but, it seemed to +them, above all suspicion of disease, though in reality she was a +clandestine prostitute. Or they are young girls who have indeed ceased to +be absolutely chaste, but have not yet lost all their innocence, and who +do not consider themselves, and are not by others considered, prostitutes; +that indeed, is one of the rocks on which the system of police regulation +of prostitution comes to grief, for the police cannot catch the prostitute +at a sufficiently early stage. Of women who become syphilitic, according +to Fournier, twenty per cent. are infected before they are nineteen; in +hospitals the proportion is as high as forty per cent.; and of men fifteen +per cent. cases occur between eleven and twenty-one years of age. The age +of maximum frequency of infection is for women twenty years (in the rural +population eighteen), and for men twenty-three years. In Germany Erb +finds that as many as eighty-five per cent men with gonorrhoea +contracted the disease between the ages of sixteen and twenty-five, a very +small percentage being infected after thirty. These young things for the +most part fell into a trap which Nature had baited with her most +fascinating lure; they were usually ignorant; not seldom they were +deceived by an attractive personality; often they were overcome by +passion; frequently all prudence and reserve had been lost in the fumes of +wine. From a truly moral point of view they were scarcely less innocent +than children. + + "I ask," says Duclaux, "whether when a young man, or a young + girl, abandon themselves to a dangerous caress society has done + what it can to warn them. Perhaps its intentions were good, but + when the need came for precise knowledge a silly prudery has held + it back, and it has left its children without _viaticum_.... I + will go further, and proclaim that in a large number of cases the + husbands who contaminate their wives are innocent. No one is + responsible for the evil which he commits without knowing it and + without willing it." I may recall the suggestive fact, already + referred to, that the majority of husbands who infect their wives + contracted the disease before marriage. They entered on marriage + believing that their disease was cured, and that they had broken + with their past. Doctors have sometimes (and quacks frequently) + contributed to this result by too sanguine an estimate of the + period necessary to destroy the poison. So great an authority as + Fournier formerly believed that the syphilitic could safely be + allowed to marry three or four years after the date of infection, + but now, with increased experience, he extends the period to four + or five years. It is undoubtedly true that, especially when + treatment has been thorough and prompt, the diseased + constitution, in a majority of cases, can be brought under + complete control in a shorter period than this, but there is + always a certain proportion of cases in which the powers of + infection persist for many years, and even when the syphilitic + husband is no longer capable of infecting his wife he may still + perhaps be in a condition to effect a disastrous influence on the + offspring. + +In nearly all these cases there was more or less ignorance--which is but +another word for innocence as we commonly understand innocence--and when +at last, after the event, the facts are more or less bluntly explained to +the victim he frequently exclaims: "Nobody told me!" It is this fact which +condemns the pseudo-moralist. If he had seen to it that mothers began to +explain the facts of sex to their little boys and girls from childhood, if +he had (as Dr. Joseph Price urges) taught the risks of venereal disease in +the Sunday-school, if he had plainly preached on the relations of the +sexes from the pulpit, if he had seen to it that every youth at the +beginning of adolescence received some simple technical instruction from +his family doctor concerning sexual health and sexual disease--then, +though there would still remain the need of pity for those who strayed +from a path that must always be difficult to walk in, the would-be +moralist at all events would in some measure be exculpated. But he has +seldom indeed lifted a finger to do any of these things. + +Even those who may be unwilling to abandon an attitude of private moral +intolerance towards the victims of venereal diseases may still do well to +remember that since the public manifestation of their intolerance is +mischievous, and at the best useless, it is necessary for them to restrain +it in the interests of society. They would not be the less free to order +their own personal conduct in the strictest accordance with their superior +moral rigidity; and that after all is for them the main thing. But for the +sake of society it is necessary for them to adopt what they may consider +the convention of a purely hygienic attitude towards these diseases. The +erring are inevitably frightened by an attitude of moral reprobation into +methods of concealment, and these produce an endless chain of social evils +which can only be dissipated by openness. As Duclaux has so earnestly +insisted, it is impossible to grapple successfully with venereal disease +unless we consent not to introduce our prejudices, or even our morals and +religion, into the question, but treat it purely and simply as a sanitary +question. And if the pseudo-moralist still has difficulty in coöperating +towards the healing of this social sore he may be reminded that he +himself--like every one of us little though we may know it--has certainly +had a great army of syphilitic and gonorrhoeal persons among his own +ancestors during the past four centuries. We are all bound together, and +it is absurd, even when it is not inhuman, to cast contempt on our own +flesh and blood. + +I have discussed rather fully the attitude of those who plead morality as +a reason for ignoring the social necessity of combating venereal disease, +because although there may not be many who seriously and understandingly +adopt so anti-social and inhuman an attitude there are certainly many who +are glad at need of the existence of so fine an excuse for their moral +indifference or their mental indolence.[242] When they are confronted by +this great and difficult problem they find it easy to offer the remedy of +conventional morality, although they are well aware that on a large scale +that remedy has long been proved to be ineffectual. They ostentatiously +affect to proffer the useless thick end of the wedge at a point where it +is only possible with much skill and prudence to insinuate the thin +working end. + +The general acceptance of the fact that syphilis and gonorrhoea +are diseases, and not necessarily crimes or sins, is the condition for any +practical attempt to deal with this question from the sanitary point of +view which is now taking the place of the antiquated and ineffective +police point of view. The Scandinavian countries of Europe have been the +pioneers in practical modern hygienic methods of dealing with venereal +disease. There are several reasons why this has come about. All the +problems of sex--of sexual love as well as of sexual disease--have long +been prominent in these countries, and an impatience with prudish +hypocrisy seems here to have been more pronounced than elsewhere; we see +this spirit, for instance, emphatically embodied in the plays of Ibsen, +and to some extent in Björnson's works. The fearless and energetic temper +of the people impels them to deal practically with sexual difficulties, +while their strong instincts of independence render them averse to the +bureaucratic police methods which have flourished in Germany and France. +The Scandinavians have thus been the natural pioneers of the methods of +combating venereal diseases which are now becoming generally recognized +to be the methods of the future, and they have fully organized the system +of putting venereal diseases under the ordinary law and dealing with them +as with other contagious diseases. + +The first step in dealing with a contagious disease is to apply to it the +recognized principles of notification. Every new application of the +principle, it is true, meets with opposition. It is without practical +result, it is an unwarranted inquisition into the affairs of the +individual, it is a new tax on the busy medical practitioner, etc. +Certainly notification by itself will not arrest the progress of any +infectious disease. But it is an essential element in every attempt to +deal with the prevention of disease. Unless we know precisely the exact +incidence, local variations, and temporary fluctuations of a disease we +are entirely in the dark and can only beat about at random. All progress +in public hygiene has been accompanied by the increased notification of +disease, and most authorities are agreed that such notification must be +still further extended, any slight inconvenience thus caused to +individuals being of trifling importance compared to the great public +interests at stake. It is true that so great an authority as Neisser has +expressed doubt concerning the extension of notification to gonorrhoea; +the diagnosis cannot be infallible, and the patients often give false +names. These objections, however, seem trivial; diagnosis can very seldom +be infallible (though in this field no one has done so much for exact +diagnosis as Neisser himself), and names are not necessary for +notification, and are not indeed required in the form of compulsory +notification of venereal disease which existed a few years ago in Norway. + +The principle of the compulsory notification of venereal diseases seems to +have been first established in Prussia, where it dates from 1835. The +system here, however, is only partial, not being obligatory in all cases +but only when in the doctor's opinion secrecy might be harmful to the +patient himself or to the community; it is only obligatory when the +patient is a soldier. This method of notification is indeed on a wrong +basis, it is not part of a comprehensive sanitary system but merely an +auxiliary to police methods of dealing with prostitution. According to +the Scandinavian system, notification, though not an essential part of +this system, rests on an entirely different basis. + +The Scandinavian plan in a modified form has lately been established in +Denmark. This little country, so closely adjoining Germany, for some time +followed in this matter the example of its great neighbor and adopted the +police regulation of prostitution and venereal disease. The more +fundamental Scandinavian affinities of Denmark were, however, eventually +asserted, and in 1906, the system of regulation was entirely abandoned and +Denmark resolved to rely on thorough and systematic application of the +sanitary principle already accepted in the country, although something of +German influence still persists in the strict regulation of the streets +and the penalties imposed upon brothel-keepers, leaving prostitution +itself free. The decisive feature of the present system is, however, that +the sanitary authorities are now exclusively medical. Everyone, whatever +his social or financial position, is entitled to the free treatment of +venereal disease. Whether he avails himself of it or not, he is in any +case bound to undergo treatment. Every diseased person is thus, so far as +it can be achieved, in a doctor's hands. All doctors have their +instructions in regard to such cases, they have not only to inform their +patients that they cannot marry so long as risks of infection are +estimated to be present, but that they are liable for the expenses of +treatment, as well as the dangers suffered, by any persons whom they may +infect. Although it has not been possible to make the system at every +point thoroughly operative, its general success is indicated by the entire +reliance now placed on it, and the abandonment of the police regulation of +prostitution. A system very similar to that of Denmark was established +some years previously in Norway. The principle of the treatment of +venereal disease at the public expense exists also in Sweden as well as in +Finland, where treatment is compulsory.[243] + +It can scarcely be said that the principle of notification has yet been +properly applied on a large scale to venereal diseases. But it is +constantly becoming more widely advocated, more especially in England and +the United States,[244] where national temperament and political +traditions render the system of the police regulation of prostitution +impossible--even if it were more effective than it practically is--and +where the system of dealing with venereal disease on the basis of public +health has to be recognized as not only the best but the only possible +system.[245] + +In association with this, it is necessary, as is also becoming ever more +widely recognized, that there should be the most ample facilities for the +gratuitous treatment of venereal diseases; the general establishment of +free dispensaries, open in the evenings, is especially necessary, for many +can only seek advice and help at this time. It is largely to the +systematic introduction of facilities for gratuitous treatment that the +enormous reduction in venereal disease in Sweden, Norway, and Bosnia is +attributed. It is the absence of the facilities for treatment, the implied +feeling that the victims of venereal disease are not sufferers but merely +offenders not entitled to care, that has in the past operated so +disastrously in artificially promoting the dissemination of preventable +diseases which might be brought under control. + +If we dispense with the paternal methods of police regulation, if we rely +on the general principles of medical hygiene, and for the rest allow the +responsibility for his own good or bad actions to rest on the individual +himself, there is a further step, already fully recognized in principle, +which we cannot neglect to take: We must look on every person as +accountable for the venereal diseases he transmits. So long as we refuse +to recognize venereal diseases as on the same level as other infectious +diseases, and so long as we offer no full and fair facilities for their +treatment, it is unjust to bring the individual to account for spreading +them. But if we publicly recognize the danger of infectious venereal +diseases, and if we leave freedom to the individual, we must inevitably +declare, with Duclaux, that every man or woman must be held responsible +for the diseases he or she communicates. + +According to the Oldenburg Code of 1814 it was a punishable offence for a +venereally diseased person to have sexual intercourse with a healthy +person, whether or not infection resulted. In Germany to-day, however, +there is no law of this kind, although eminent German legal authorities, +notably Von Liszt, are of opinion that a paragraph should be added to the +Code declaring that sexual intercourse on the part of a person who knows +that he is diseased should be punishable by imprisonment for a period not +exceeding two years, the law not to be applied as between married couples +except on the application of one of the parties. At the present time in +Germany the transmission of venereal disease is only punishable as a +special case of the infliction of bodily injury.[246] In this matter +Germany is behind most of the Scandinavian countries where individual +responsibility for venereal infection is well recognized and actively +enforced. + +In France, though the law is not definite and satisfactory, actions for +the transmission of syphilis are successfully brought before the courts. +Opinion seems to be more decisively in favor of punishment for this +offense than it is in Germany. In 1883 Després discussed the matter and +considered the objections. Few may avail themselves of the law, he +remarks, but all would be rendered more cautious by the fear of infringing +it; while the difficulties of tracing and proving infection are not +greater, he points out, than those of tracing and proving paternity in the +case of illegitimate children. Després would punish with imprisonment for +not more than two years any person, knowing himself to be diseased, who +transmitted a venereal disease, and would merely fine those who +communicated the contagion by imprudence, not realizing that they were +diseased.[247] The question has more recently been discussed by Aurientis +in a Paris thesis. He states that the present French law as regards the +transmission of sexual diseases is not clearly established and is +difficult to act upon, but it is certainly just that those who have been +contaminated and injured in this way should easily be able to obtain +reparation. Although it is admitted in principle that the communication of +syphilis is an offence even under common law he is in agreement with those +who would treat it as a special offence, making a new and more practical +law.[248] Heavy damages are even at the present time obtained in the +French courts from men who have infected young women in sexual +intercourse, and also from the doctors as well as the mothers of +syphilitic infants who have infected the foster-mothers they were +entrusted to. Although the French Penal Code forbids in general the +disclosure of professional secrets, it is the duty of the medical +practitioner to warn the foster-mother in such a case of the danger she is +incurring, but without naming the disease; if he neglects to give this +warning he may be held liable. + +In England, as well as in the United States, the law is more +unsatisfactory and more helpless, in relation to this class of offences, +than it is in France. The mischievous and barbarous notion, already dealt +with, according to which venereal disease is the result of illicit +intercourse and should be tolerated as a just visitation of God, seems +still to flourish in these countries with fatal persistency. In England +the communication of venereal disease by illicit intercourse is not an +actionable wrong if the act of intercourse has been voluntary, even +although there has been wilful and intentional concealment of the disease. +_Ex turpi causâ non oritur actio_, it is sententiously said; for there is +much dormitative virtue in a Latin maxim. No legal offence has still been +committed if a husband contaminates his wife, or a wife her husband.[249] +The "freedom" enjoyed in this matter by England and the United States is +well illustrated by an American case quoted by Dr. Isidore Dyer, of New +Orleans, in his report to the Brussels Conference on the Prevention of +Venereal Diseases, in 1899: "A patient with primary syphilis refused even +charitable treatment and carried a book wherein she kept the number of men +she had inoculated. When I first saw her she declared the number had +reached two hundred and nineteen and that she would not be treated until +she had had revenge on five hundred men." In a community where the most +elementary rules of justice prevailed facilities would exist to enable +this woman to obtain damages from the man who had injured her or even to +secure his conviction to a term of imprisonment. In obtaining some +indemnity for the wrong done her, and securing the "revenge" she craved, +she would at the same time have conferred a benefit on society. She is +shut out from any action against the one person who injured her; but as a +sort of compensation she is allowed to become a radiating focus of +disease, to shorten many lives, to cause many deaths, to pile up +incalculable damages; and in so doing she is to-day perfectly within her +legal rights. A community which encourages this state of things is not +only immoral but stupid. + +There seems, however, to be a growing body of influential opinion, both in +England and in the United States, in favor of making the transmission of +venereal disease an offence punishable by heavy fine or by +imprisonment.[250] In any enactment no stress should be put on the +infection being conveyed "knowingly." Any formal limitation of this kind +is unnecessary, as in such a case the Court always takes into account the +offender's ignorance or mere negligence, and it is mischievous because it +tends to render an enactment ineffective and to put a premium on +ignorance; the husbands who infect their wives with gonorrhoea +immediately after marriage have usually done so from ignorance, and it +should be at least necessary for them to prove that they have been +fortified in their ignorance by medical advice. It is sometimes said that +the existing law could be utilized for bringing actions of this kind, and +that no greater facilities should be offered for fear of increasing +attempts at blackmail. The inutility of the law at present for this +purpose is shown by the fact that it seldom or never happens that any +attempt is made to utilize it, while not only are there a number of +existing punishable offences which form the subject of attempts at +blackmail, but blackmail can still be demanded even in regard to +disreputable actions that are not legally punishable at all. Moreover, the +attempt to levy blackmail is itself an offence always sternly dealt with +in the courts. + +It is possible to trace the beginning of a recognition that the +transmission of a venereal disease is a matter of which legal cognizance +may be taken in the English law courts. It is now well settled that the +infection of a wife by her husband may be held to constitute the legal +cruelty which, according to the present law, must be proved, in addition +to adultery, before a wife can obtain divorce from her husband. In 1777 +Restif de la Bretonne proposed in his _Gynographes_ that the communication +of a venereal disease should itself be an adequate ground for divorce; +this, however, is not at present generally accepted.[251] + +It is sometimes said that it is very well to make the individual legally +responsible for the venereal disease he communicates, but that the +difficulties of bringing that responsibility home would still remain. And +those who admit these difficulties frequently reply that at the worst we +should have in our hands a means of educating responsibility; the man who +deliberately ran the risk of transmitting such infection would be made to +feel that he was no longer fairly within his legal rights but had done a +bad action. We are thus led on finally to what is now becoming generally +recognized as the chief and central method of combating venereal disease, +if we are to accept the principle of individual responsibility as ruling +in this sphere of life. Organized sanitary and medical precautions, and +proper legal protection for those who have been injured, are inoperative +without the educative influence of elementary hygienic instruction placed +in the possession of every young man and woman. In a sphere that is +necessarily so intimate medical organization and legal resort can never be +all-sufficing; knowledge is needed at every step in every individual to +guide and even to awaken that sense of personal moral responsibility which +must here always rule. Wherever the importance of these questions is +becoming acutely realized--and notably at the Congresses of the German +Society for Combating Venereal Disease--the problem is resolving itself +mainly into one of education.[252] And although opinion and practice in +this matter are to-day more advanced in Germany than elsewhere the +conviction of this necessity is becoming scarcely less pronounced in all +other civilized countries, in England and America as much as in France and +the Scandinavian lands. + +A knowledge of the risks of disease by sexual intercourse, both in and out +of marriage,--and indeed, apart from sexual intercourse altogether,--is a +further stage of that sexual education which, as we have already seen, +must begin, so far as the elements are concerned, at a very early age. +Youths and girls should be taught, as the distinguished Austrian +economist, Anton von Menger wrote, shortly before his death, in his +excellent little book, _Neue Sittenlehre_, that the production of children +is a crime when the parents are syphilitic or otherwise incompetent +through transmissible chronic diseases. Information about venereal disease +should not indeed be given until after puberty is well established. It is +unnecessary and undesirable to impart medical knowledge to young boys and +girls and to warn them against risks they are yet little liable to be +exposed to. It is when the age of strong sexual instinct, actual or +potential, begins that the risks, under some circumstances, of yielding to +it, need to be clearly present to the mind. No one who reflects on the +actual facts of life ought to doubt that it is in the highest degree +desirable that every adolescent youth and girl ought to receive some +elementary instruction in the general facts of venereal disease, +tuberculosis, and alcoholism. These three "plagues of civilization" are so +widespread, so subtle and manifold in their operation, that everyone comes +in contact with them during life, and that everyone is liable to suffer, +even before he is aware, perhaps hopelessly and forever, from the results +of that contact. Vague declamation about immorality and vaguer warnings +against it have no effect and possess no meaning, while rhetorical +exaggeration is unnecessary. A very simple and concise statement of the +actual facts concerning the evils that beset life is quite sufficient and +adequate, and quite essential. To ignore this need is only possible to +those who take a dangerously frivolous view of life. + +It is the young woman as much as the youth who needs this enlightenment. +There are still some persons so ill-informed as to believe that though it +may be necessary to instruct the youth it is best to leave his sister +unsullied, as they consider it, by a knowledge of the facts of life. This +is the very reverse of the truth. It is desirable indeed that all should +be acquainted with facts so vital to humanity, even although not +themselves personally concerned. But the girl is even more concerned than +the youth. A man has the matter more within his own grasp, and if he so +chooses he may avoid all the grosser risks of contact with venereal +disease. But it is not so with the woman. Whatever her own purity, she +cannot be sure that she may not have to guard against the possibility of +disease in her future husband as well as in those to whom she may entrust +her child. It is a possibility which the educated woman, so far from +being dispensed from, is more liable to encounter than is the +working-class woman, for venereal disease is less prevalent among the poor +than the rich.[253] The careful physician, even when his patient is a +minister of religion, considers it his duty to inquire if he has had +syphilis, and the clergyman of most severely correct life recognizes the +need of such inquiry and may perhaps smile, but seldom feels himself +insulted. The relationship between husband and wife is even much more +intimate and important than that between doctor and patient, and a woman +is not dispensed from the necessity of such inquiry concerning her future +husband by the conviction that the reply must surely be satisfactory. +Moreover, it may well be in some cases that, if she is adequately +enlightened, she may be the means of saving him, before it is too late, +from the guilt of premature marriage and its fateful consequences, so +deserving to earn his everlasting gratitude. Even if she fails in winning +that, she still has her duty to herself and to the future race which her +children will help to form. + + In most countries there is a growing feeling in favor of the + enlightenment of young women equally with young men as regards + venereal diseases. Thus in Germany Max Flesch, in his + _Prostitution und Frauenkrankheiten_, considers that at the end + of their school days all girls should receive instruction + concerning the grave physical and social dangers to which women + are exposed in life. In France Duclaux (in his _L'Hygiène + Sociale_) is emphatic that women must be taught. "Already," he + states, "doctors who by custom have been made, in spite of + themselves, the husband's accomplices, will tell you of the + ironical gaze they sometimes encounter when they seek to lead a + wife astray concerning the causes of her ills. The day is + approaching of a revolt against the social lie which has made so + many victims, and you will be obliged to teach women what they + need to know in order to guard themselves against you." It is the + same in America. Reform in this field, Isidore Dyer declares, + must emblazon on its flag the motto, "Knowledge is Health," as + well of mind as of body, for women as well as for men. In a + discussion introduced by Denslow Lewis at the annual meeting of + the American Medical Association in 1901 on the limitation of + venereal diseases (_Medico-Legal Journal_, June and September, + 1903), there was a fairly general agreement among all the + speakers that almost or quite the chief method of prevention lay + in education, the education of women as much as of men. + "Education lies at the bottom of the whole thing," declared one + speaker (Seneca Egbert, of Philadelphia), "and we will never gain + much headway until every young man, and every young woman, even + before she falls in love and becomes engaged, knows what these + diseases are, and what it will mean if she marries a man who has + contracted them." "Educate father and mother, and they will + educate their sons and daughters," exclaims Egbert Grandin, more + especially in regard to gonorrhoea (_Medical Record_, May 26, + 1906); "I lay stress on the daughter because she becomes the + chief sufferer from inoculation, and it is her right to know that + she should protect herself against the gonorrhoeic as well as + against the alcoholic." + +We must fully face the fact that it is the woman herself who must be +accounted responsible, as much as a man, for securing the right conditions +of a marriage she proposes to enter into. In practice, at the outset, that +responsibility may no doubt be in part delegated to parents or guardians. +It is unreasonable that any false delicacy should be felt about this +matter on either side. Questions of money and of income are discussed +before marriage, and as public opinion grows sounder none will question +the necessity of discussing the still more serious question of health, +alike that of the prospective bridegroom and of the bride. An incalculable +amount of disease and marital unhappiness would be prevented if before an +engagement was finally concluded each party placed himself or herself in +the hands of a physician and authorized him to report to the other party. +Such a report would extend far beyond venereal disease. If its necessity +became generally recognized it would put an end to much fraud which now +takes place when entering the marriage bond. It constantly happens at +present that one party or the other conceals the existence of some serious +disease or disability which is speedily discovered after marriage, +sometimes with a painful and alarming shock--as when a man discovers his +wife in an epileptic fit on the wedding night--and always with the bitter +and abiding sense of having been duped. There can be no reasonable doubt +that such concealment is an adequate cause of divorce. Sir Thomas More +doubtless sought to guard against such frauds when he ordained in his +_Utopia_ that each party should before marriage be shown naked to the +other. The quaint ceremony he describes was based on a reasonable idea, +for it is ludicrous, if it were not often tragic in its results, that any +person should be asked to undertake to embrace for life a person whom he +or she has not so much as seen. + +It may be necessary to point out that every movement in this direction +must be the spontaneous action of individuals directing their own lives +according to the rules of an enlightened conscience, and cannot be +initiated by the dictation of the community as a whole enforcing its +commands by law. In these matters law can only come in at the end, not at +the beginning. In the essential matters of marriage and procreation laws +are primarily made in the brains and consciences of individuals for their +own guidance. Unless such laws are already embodied in the actual practice +of the great majority of the community it is useless for parliaments to +enact them by statute. They will be ineffective or else they will be worse +than ineffective by producing undesigned mischiefs. We can only go to the +root of the matter by insisting on education in moral responsibility and +instruction, in matters of fact. + +The question arises as to the best person to impart this instruction. As +we have seen there can be little doubt that before puberty the parents, +and especially the mother, are the proper instructors of their children in +esoteric knowledge. But after puberty the case is altered. The boy and the +girl are becoming less amenable to parental influence, there is greater +shyness on both sides, and the parents rarely possess the more technical +knowledge that is now required. At this stage it seems that the assistance +of the physician, of the family doctor if he has the proper qualities for +the task, should be called in. The plan usually adopted, and now widely +carried out, is that of lectures setting forth the main facts concerning +venereal diseases, their dangers, and allied topics.[254] This method is +quite excellent. Such lectures should be delivered at intervals by medical +lecturers at all urban, educational, manufacturing, military, and naval +centres, wherever indeed a large number of young persons are gathered +together. It should be the business of the central educational authority +either to carry them out or to enforce on those controlling or employing +young persons the duty of providing such lectures. The lectures should be +free to all who have attained the age of sixteen. + + In Germany the principle of instruction by lectures concerning + venereal diseases seems to have become established, at all events + so far as young men are concerned, and such lectures are + constantly becoming more usual. In 1907 the Minister of Education + established courses of lectures by doctors on sexual hygiene and + venereal diseases for higher schools and educational + institutions, though attendance was not made compulsory. The + courses now frequently given by medical men to the higher classes + in German secondary schools on the general principles of sexual + anatomy and physiology nearly always include sexual hygiene with + special reference to venereal diseases (see, e.g., + _Sexualpädagogik_, pp. 131-153). In Austria, also, lectures on + personal hygiene and the dangers of venereal disease are + delivered to students about to leave the gymnasium for the + university; and the working men's clubs have instituted regular + courses of lectures on the same subjects delivered by physicians. + In France many distinguished men, both inside and outside the + medical profession, are working for the cause of the instruction + of the young in sexual hygiene, though they have to contend + against a more obstinate degree of prejudice and prudery on the + part of the middle class than is to be found in the Germanic + lands. The Commission Extraparlementaire du Régime des Moeurs, + with the conjunction of Augagneur, Alfred Fournier, Yves Guyot, + Gide, and other distinguished professors, teachers, etc., has + lately pronounced in favor of the official establishment of + instruction in sexual hygiene, to be given in the highest classes + at the lycées, or in the earliest class at higher educational + colleges; such instruction, it is argued, would not only furnish + needed enlightenment, but also educate the sense of moral + responsibility. There is in France, also, an active and + distinguished though unofficial Société Française de Prophylaxie + Sanitaire et Morale, which delivers public lectures on sexual + hygiene. Fournier, Pinard, Burlureaux and other eminent + physicians have written pamphlets on this subject for popular + distribution (see, e.g., _Le Progrès Médical_ of September, + 1907). In England and the United States very little has yet been + done in this direction, but in the United States, at all events, + opinion in favor of action is rapidly growing (see, e.g., W.A. + Funk, "The Venereal Peril," _Medical Record_, April 13, 1907). + The American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis (based on + the parent society founded in Paris in 1900 by Fournier) was + established in New York in 1905. There are similar societies in + Chicago and Philadelphia. The main object is to study venereal + diseases and to work toward their social control. Doctors, + laymen, and women are members. Lectures and short talks are now + given under the auspices of these societies to small groups of + young women in social settlements, and in other ways, with + encouraging success; it is found to be an excellent method of + reaching the young women of the working classes. Both men and + women physicians take part in the lectures (Clement Cleveland, + Presidential Address on "Prophylaxis of Venereal Diseases," + _Transactions American Gynecological Society_, Philadelphia, vol. + xxxii, 1907). + + An important auxiliary method of carrying out the task of sexual + hygiene, and at the same time of spreading useful enlightenment, + is furnished by the method of giving to every syphilitic patient + in clinics where such cases are treated a card of instruction for + his guidance in hygienic matters, together with a warning of the + risks of marriage within four or five years after infection, and + in no case without medical advice. Such printed instruction, in + clear, simple, and incisive language, should be put into the + hands of every syphilitic patient as a matter of routine, and it + might be as well to have a corresponding card for gonorrhoeal + patients. This plan has already been introduced at some + hospitals, and it is so simple and unobjectionable a precaution + that it will, no doubt, be generally adopted. In some countries + this measure is carried out on a wider scale. Thus in Austria, as + the result of a movement in which several university professors + have taken an active part, leaflets and circulars, explaining + briefly the chief symptoms of venereal diseases and warning + against quacks and secret remedies, are circulated among young + laborers and factory hands, matriculating students, and scholars + who are leaving trade schools. + + In France, where great social questions are sometimes faced with + a more chivalrous daring than elsewhere, the dangers of syphilis, + and the social position of the prostitute, have alike been dealt + with by distinguished novelists and dramatists. Huysmans + inaugurated this movement with his first novel, _Marthe_, which + was immediately suppressed by the police. Shortly afterwards + Edmond de Goncourt published _La Fille Elisa_, the first notable + novel of the kind by a distinguished author. It was written with + much reticence, and was not indeed a work of high artistic + value, but it boldly faced a great social problem and clearly set + forth the evils of the common attitude towards prostitution. It + was dramatized and played by Antoine at the Théâtre Libre, but + when, in 1891, Antoine wished to produce it at the + Porte-Saint-Martin Theatre, the censor interfered and prohibited + the play on account of its "contexture générale." The Minister of + Education defended this decision on the ground that there was + much in the play that might arouse repugnance and disgust. + "Repugnance here is more moral than attraction," exclaimed M. + Paul Déroulède, and the newspapers criticized a censure which + permitted on the stage all the trivial indecencies which favor + prostitution, but cannot tolerate any attack on prostitution. In + more recent years the brothers Margueritte, both in novels and in + journalism, have largely devoted their distinguished abilities + and high literary skill to the courageous and enlightened + advocacy of many social reforms. Victor Margueritte, in his + _Prostituée_ (1907)--a novel which has attracted wide attention + and been translated into various languages--has sought to + represent the condition of women in our actual society, and more + especially the condition of the prostitute under what he regards + as the odious and iniquitous system still prevailing. The book is + a faithful picture of the real facts, thanks to the assistance + the author received from the Paris Préfecture of Police, and + largely for that reason is not altogether a satisfactory work of + art, but it vividly and poignantly represents the cruelty, + indifference, and hypocrisy so often shown by men towards women, + and is a book which, on that account, cannot be too widely read. + One of the most notable of modern plays is Brieux's _Les Avariés_ + (1902). This distinguished dramatist, himself a medical man, + dedicates his play to Fournier, the greatest of syphilographers. + "I think with you," he writes here, "that syphilis will lose much + of its danger when it is possible to speak openly of an evil + which is neither a shame nor a punishment, and when those who + suffer from it, knowing what evils they may propagate, will + better understand their duties towards others and towards + themselves." The story developed in the drama is the old and + typical story of the young man who has spent his bachelor days in + what he considers a discrete and regular manner, having only had + two mistresses, neither of them prostitutes, but at the end of + this period, at a gay supper at which he bids farewell to his + bachelor life, he commits a fatal indiscretion and becomes + infected by syphilis; his marriage is approaching and he goes to + a distinguished specialist who warns him that treatment takes + time, and that marriage is impossible for several years; he finds + a quack, however, who undertakes to cure him in six months; at + the end of the time he marries; a syphilitic child is born; the + wife discovers the state of things and forsakes her home to + return to her parents; her indignant father, a deputy in + Parliament, arrives in Paris; the last word is with the great + specialist who brings finally some degree of peace and hope into + the family. The chief morals Brieux points out are that it is the + duty of the bride's parents before marriage to ascertain the + bridegroom's health; that the bridegroom should have a doctor's + certificate; that at every marriage the part of the doctors is at + least as important as that of the lawyers. Even if it were a less + accomplished work of art than it is, _Les Avariés_ is a play + which, from the social and educative point of view alone, all who + have reached the age of adolescence should be compelled to see. + + Another aspect of the same problem has been presented in _Plus + Fort que le Mal_, a book written in dramatic form (though not as + a properly constituted play intended for the stage) by a + distinguished French medical author who here adopts the name of + Espy de Metz. The author (who is not, however, pleading _pro + domo_) calls for a more sympathetic attitude towards those who + suffer from syphilis, and though he writes with much less + dramatic skill than Brieux, and scarcely presents his moral in so + unequivocal a form, his work is a notable contribution to the + dramatic literature of syphilis. + + It will probably be some time before these questions, poignant as + they are from the dramatic point of view, and vitally important + from the social point of view, are introduced on the English or + the American stage. It is a remarkable fact that, notwithstanding + the Puritanic elements which still exist in Anglo-Saxon thought + and feeling generally, the Puritanic aspect of life has never + received embodiment in the English or American drama. On the + English stage it is never permitted to hint at the tragic side of + wantonness; vice must always be made seductive, even though a + _deus ex machina_ causes it to collapse at the end of the + performance. As Mr. Bernard Shaw has said, the English theatrical + method by no means banishes vice; it merely consents that it + shall be made attractive; its charms are advertised and its + penalties suppressed. "Now, it is futile to plead that the stage + is not the proper place for the representation and discussion of + illegal operations, incest, and venereal disease. If the stage is + the proper place for the exhibition and discussion of seduction, + adultery, promiscuity, and prostitution, it must be thrown open + to all the consequences of these things, or it will demoralize + the nation." + + The impulse to insist that vice shall always be made attractive + is not really, notwithstanding appearances, a vicious impulse. It + arises from a mental confusion, a common psychic tendency, which + is by no means confined to Anglo-Saxon lands, and is even more + well marked among the better educated in the merely literary + sense, than among the worse educated people. The æsthetic is + confused with the moral, and what arouses disgust is thus + regarded as immoral. In France the novels of Zola, the most + pedestrianally moralistic of writers, were for a long time + supposed to be immoral because they were often disgusting. The + same feeling is still more widespread in England. If a + prostitute is brought on the stage, and she is pretty, + well-dressed, seductive, she may gaily sail through the play and + every one is satisfied. But if she were not particularly pretty, + well-dressed, or seductive, if it were made plain that she was + diseased and was reckless in infecting others with that disease, + if it were hinted that she could on occasion be foul-mouthed, if, + in short, a picture were shown from life--then we should hear + that the unfortunate dramatist had committed something that was + "disgusting" and "immoral." Disgusting it might be, but, on that + very account, it would be moral. There is a distinction here that + the psychologist cannot too often point out or the moralist too + often emphasize. + +It is not for the physician to complicate and confuse his own task as +teacher by mixing it up with considerations which belong to the spiritual +sphere. But in carrying out impartially his own special work of +enlightenment he will always do well to remember that there is in the +adolescent mind, as it has been necessary to point out in a previous +chapter, a spontaneous force working on the side of sexual hygiene. Those +who believe that the adolescent mind is merely bent on sensual indulgence +are not less false and mischievous in their influence than are those who +think it possible and desirable for adolescents to be preserved in sheer +sexual ignorance. However concealed, suppressed, or deformed--usually by +the misplaced and premature zeal of foolish parents and teachers--there +arise at puberty ideal impulses which, even though they may be rooted in +sex, yet in their scope transcend sex. These are capable of becoming far +more potent guides of the physical sex impulse than are merely material or +even hygienic considerations. + +It is time to summarize and conclude this discussion of the prevention of +venereal disease, which, though it may seem to the superficial observer to +be merely a medical and sanitary question outside the psychologist's +sphere, is yet seen on closer view to be intimately related even to the +most spiritual conception of the sexual relationships. Not only are +venereal diseases the foes to the finer development of the race, but we +cannot attain to any wholesome and beautiful vision of the relationships +of sex so long as such relationships are liable at every moment to be +corrupted and undermined at their source. We cannot yet precisely measure +the interval which must elapse before, so far as Europe at least is +concerned, syphilis and gonorrhoea are sent to that limbo of monstrous old +dead diseases to which plague and leprosy have gone and smallpox is +already drawing near. But society is beginning to realize that into this +field also must be brought the weapons of light and air, the sword and the +breastplate with which all diseases can alone be attacked. As we have +seen, there are four methods by which in the more enlightened countries +venereal disease is now beginning to be combated.[255] (1) By proclaiming +openly that the venereal diseases are diseases like any other disease, +although more subtle and terrible than most, which may attack anyone from +the unborn baby to its grandmother, and that they are not, more than other +diseases, the shameful penalties of sin, from which relief is only to be +sought, if at all, by stealth, but human calamities; (2) by adopting +methods of securing official information concerning the extent, +distribution, and variation of venereal disease, through the already +recognized plan of notification and otherwise, and by providing such +facilities for treatment, especially for free treatment, as may be found +necessary; (3) by training the individual sense of moral responsibility, +so that every member of the community may realize that to inflict a +serious disease on another person, even only as a result of reckless +negligence, is a more serious offence than if he or she had used the knife +or the gun or poison as the method of attack, and that it is necessary to +introduce special legal provision in every country to assist the recovery +of damages for such injuries and to inflict penalties by loss of liberty +or otherwise; (4) by the spread of hygienic knowledge, so that all +adolescents, youths and girls alike, may be furnished at the outset of +adult life with an equipment of information which will assist them to +avoid the grosser risks of contamination and enable them to recognize and +avoid danger at the earliest stages. + +A few years ago, when no method of combating venereal disease was known +except that system of police regulation which is now in its decadence, it +would have been impossible to bring forward such considerations as these; +they would have seemed Utopian. To-day they are not only recognizable as +practical, but they are being actually put into practice, although, it is +true, with very varying energy and insight in different countries. Yet it +is certain that in the competition of nationalities, as Max von Niessen +has well said, "that country will best take a leading place in the march +of civilization which has the foresight and courage to introduce and carry +through those practical movements of sexual hygiene which have so wide and +significant a bearing on its own future, and that of the human race +generally."[256] + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[220] It is probable that Schopenhauer felt a more than merely speculative +interest in this matter. Bloch has shown good reason for believing that +Schopenhauer himself contracted syphilis in 1813, and that this was a +factor in constituting his conception of the world and in confirming his +constitutional pessimism (_Medizinische Klinik_, Nos. 25 and 26, 1906). + +[221] Havelburg, in Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation +to Marriage_, vol. i, pp. 186-189. + +[222] This is the very definite opinion of Lowndes after an experience of +fifty-four years in the treatment of venereal diseases in Liverpool +(_British Medical Journal_, Feb. 9, 1907, p. 334). It is further indicated +by the fact (if it is a real fact) that since 1876 there has been a +decline of both the infantile and general mortality from syphilis in +England. + +[223] "There is no doubt whatever that syphilis is on the increase in +London, judging from hospital work alone," says Pernet (_British Medical +Journal_, March 30, 1907). Syphilis was evidently very prevalent, however, +a century or two ago, and there is no ground for asserting positively that +it is more prevalent to-day. + +[224] See, e.g., A. Neisser, _Die experimentelle Syphilisforschung_, 1906, +and E. Hoffmann (who was associated with Schaudinn's discovery), _Die +Aetiologie der Syphilis_, 1906; D'Arcy Power, _A System of Syphilis_, +1908, etc.; F.W. Mott, "Pathology of Syphilis in the Light of Modern +Research," _British Medical Journal_, February 20, 1909; also, _Archives +of Neurology and Psychiatry_, vol. iv, 1909. + +[225] There is some difference of opinion on this point, and though it +seems probable that early and thorough treatment usually cures the disease +in a few years and renders further complications highly improbable, it is +not possible, even under the most favorable circumstances, to speak with +absolute certainty as to the future. + +[226] "That syphilis has been, and is, one of the chief causes of physical +degeneration in England cannot be denied, and it is a fact that is +acknowledged on all sides," writes Lieutenant-Colonel Lambkin, the medical +officer in command of the London Military Hospital for Venereal Diseases. +"To grapple with the treatment of syphilis among the civil population of +England ought to be the chief object of those interested in that most +burning question, the physical degeneration of our race" (_British Medical +Journal_, August 19, 1905). + +[227] F.W. Mott, "Syphilis as a Cause of Insanity," _British Medical +Journal_, October 18, 1902. + +[228] It can seldom be proved in more than eighty per cent. of cases, but +in twenty per cent. of old syphilitic cases it is commonly impossible to +find traces of the disease or to obtain a history of it. Crocker found +that it was only in eighty per cent. of cases of absolutely certain +syphilitic skin diseases that he could obtain a history of syphilitic +infection, and Mott found exactly the same percentage in absolutely +certain syphilitic lesions of the brain; Mott believes (e.g., "Syphilis in +Relation to the Nervous System," _British Medical Journal_, January 4, +1908) that syphilis is the essential cause of general paralysis and tabes. + +[229] Audry. _La Semaine Médicale_, June 26, 1907. When Europeans carry +syphilis to lands inhabited by people of lower race, the results are often +very much worse than this. Thus Lambkin, as a result of a special mission +to investigate syphilis in Uganda, found that in some districts as many as +ninety per cent, of the people suffer from syphilis, and fifty to sixty +per cent, of the infant mortality is due to this cause. These people are +Baganda, a highly intelligent, powerful, and well-organized tribe before +they received, in the gift of syphilis, the full benefit of civilization +and Christianity, which (Lambkin points out) has been largely the cause of +the spread of the disease by breaking down social customs and emancipating +the women. Christianity is powerful enough to break down the old morality, +but not powerful enough to build up a new morality (_British Medical +Journal_, October 3, 1908, p. 1037). + +[230] Even within the limits of the English army it is found In India +(H.C. French, _Syphilis in the Army_, 1907) that venereal disease is ten +times more frequent among British troops than among Native troops. Outside +of national armies it is found, by admission to hospital and death rates, +that the United States stands far away at the head for frequency of +venereal disease, being followed by Great Britain, then France and +Austria-Hungary, Russia, and Germany. + +[231] There is no dispute concerning the antiquity of gonorrhoea in the +Old World as there is regarding syphilis. The disease was certainly known +at a very remote period. Even Esarhaddon, the famous King of Assyria, +referred to in the Old Testament, was treated by the priests for a +disorder which, as described in the cuneiform documents of the time, could +only have been gonorrhoea. The disease was also well known to the ancient +Egyptians, and evidently common, for they recorded many prescriptions for +its treatment (Oefele, "Gonorrhoe 1350 vor Christi Geburt," _Monatshefte +für Praktische Dermatologie_, 1899, p. 260). + +[232] Cf. Memorandum by Sydney Stephenson, Report of Ophthalmia Neonatorum +Committee, _British Medical Journal_, May 8, 1909. + +[233] The extent of these evils is set forth, e.g., in a comprehensive +essay by Taylor, _American Journal Obstetrics_, January, 1908. + +[234] Neisser brings together figures bearing on the prevalence of +gonorrhoea in Germany, Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in +Relation to Marriage_, vol. ii, pp. 486-492. + +[235] _Lancet_, September 23, 1882. As regards women, Dr. Frances Ivens +(_British Medical Journal_, June 19, 1909) has found at Liverpool that 14 +per cent. of gynæcological cases revealed the presence of gonorrhoea. They +were mostly poor respectable married women. This is probably a high +proportion, as Liverpool is a busy seaport, but it is less than Sänger's +estimate of 18 per cent. + +[236] E.H. Grandin, _Medical Record_, May 26, 1906. + +[237] E.W. Cushing, "Sociological Aspects of Gonorrhoea," _Transactions +American Gynecological Society_, vol. xxii, 1897. + +[238] It is only in very small communities ruled by an autocratic power +with absolute authority to control conditions and to examine persons of +both sexes that reglementation becomes in any degree effectual. This is +well shown by Dr. W.E. Harwood, who describes the system he organized in +the mines of the Minnesota Iron Company (_Journal American Medical +Association_, December 22, 1906). The women in the brothels on the +company's estate were of the lowest class, and disease was very prevalent. +Careful examination of the women was established, and control of the men, +who, immediately on becoming diseased, were bound to declare by what woman +they had been infected. The woman was responsible for the medical bill of +the man she infected, and even for his board, if incapacitated, and the +women were compelled to maintain a fund for their own hospital expenses +when required. In this way venereal disease, though not entirely uprooted, +was very greatly diminished. + +[239] A clear and comprehensive statement of the present position of the +question is given by Iwan Bloch, _Das Sexualleben Unserer Zeit_, Chs. +XIII-XV. How ineffectual the system of police regulation is, even in +Germany, where police interference is tolerated to so marked a degree, may +be illustrated by the case of Mannheim. Here the regulation of +prostitution is very severe and thorough, yet a careful inquiry in 1905 +among the doctors of Mannheim (ninety-two of whom sent in detailed +returns) showed that of six hundred cases of venereal disease in men, +nearly half had been contracted from prostitutes. About half the remaining +cases (nearly a quarter of the whole) were due to waitresses and +bar-maids; then followed servant-girls (Lion and Loeb, in +_Sexualpädagogik_, the Proceedings of the Third German Congress for +Combating Venereal Diseases, 1907, p. 295). + +[240] A sixth less numerous class might be added of the young girls, often +no more than children, who have been practically raped by men who believe +that intercourse with a virgin is a cure for obstinate venereal disease. +In America this belief is frequently held by Italians, Chinese, negroes, +etc. W. Travis Gibb, Examining Physician of the New York Society for the +Prevention of Cruelty to Children, has examined over 900 raped children +(only a small proportion, he states, of the cases actually occurring), and +finds that thirteen per cent have venereal diseases. A fairly large +proportion of these cases, among girls from twelve to sixteen, are, he +states, willing victims. Dr. Flora Pollack, also, of the Johns Hopkins +Hospital Dispensary, estimates that in Baltimore alone from 800 to 1,000 +children between the ages of one and fifteen are venereally infected every +year. The largest number, she finds, is at the age of six, and the chief +cause appears to be, not lust, but superstition. + +[241] For a discussion of inherited syphilis, see, e.g., Clement Lucas, +_Lancet_, February 1, 1908. + +[242] Much harm has been done in some countries by the foolish and +mischievous practice of friendly societies and sick clubs of ignoring +venereal diseases, and not according free medical aid or sick pay to those +members who suffer from them. This practice prevailed, for instance, in +Vienna until 1907, when a more humane and enlightened policy was +inaugurated, venereal diseases being placed on the same level as other +diseases. + +[243] Active measures against venereal disease were introduced in Sweden +early in the last century, and compulsory and gratuitous treatment +established. Compulsory notification was introduced many years ago in +Norway, and by 1907 there was a great diminution in the prevalence of +venereal diseases; there is compulsory treatment. + +[244] See, e.g., Morrow, _Social Diseases and Marriage_, Ch. XXXVII. + +[245] A committee of the Medical Society of New York, appointed in 1902 to +consider this question, reported in favor of notification without giving +names and addresses, and Dr. C.R. Drysdale, who took an active part in the +Brussels International Conference of 1899, advocated a similar plan in +England, _British Medical Journal_, February 3, 1900. + +[246] Thus in Munich, in 1908, a man who had given gonorrhoea to a +servant-girl was sent to prison for ten months on this ground. The state +of German opinion to-day on this subject is summarized by Bloch, +_Sexualleben unserer Zeit_, p. 424. + +[247] A. Després, _La Prostitution à Paris_, p. 191. + +[248] F. Aurientis, _Etude Medico-légale sur la jurisprudence actuelle à +propos de la Transmission des Maladies Venériennes_, Thèse de Paris, 1906. + +[249] In England at present "a husband knowingly and wilfully infecting +his wife with the venereal disease, cannot be convicted criminally, either +under a charge of assault or of inflicting grievous bodily harm" (N. +Geary, _The Law of Marriage_, p. 479). This was decided in 1888 in the +case of _R. v. Clarence_ by nine judges to four judges in the Court for +the Consideration of Crown Cases Reserved. + +[250] Modern democratic sentiment is opposed to the sequestration of a +prostitute merely because she is diseased. But there can be no reasonable +doubt whatever that if a diseased prostitute infects another person, and +is unable to pay the very heavy damages which should be demanded in such a +case, she ought to be secluded and subjected to treatment. That is +necessary in the interests of the community. But it is also necessary, to +avoid placing a premium on the commission of an offence which would ensure +gratuitous treatment and provision for a prostitute without means, that +she should be furnished with facilities for treatment in any case. + +[251] It has, however, been decided by the Paris Court of Appeal that for +a husband to marry when knowingly suffering from a venereal disease and to +communicate that disease to his wife is a sufficient cause for divorce +(_Semaine Médicale_, May, 1896). + +[252] The large volume, entitled _Sexualpädagogik_, containing the +Proceedings of the Third of these Congresses, almost ignores the special +subject of venereal disease, and is devoted to the questions involved by +the general sexual education of the young, which, as many of the speakers +maintained, must begin with the child at his mother's knee. + +[253] "Workmen, soldiers, and so on," Neisser remarks (Senator and +Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation to Marriage_, vol. ii, p. 485), +"can more easily find non-prostitute girls of their own class willing to +enter into amorous relations with them which result in sexual intercourse, +and they are therefore less exposed to the danger of infection than those +men who have recourse almost exclusively to prostitutes" (see also Bloch, +_Sexualleben unserer Zeit_, p. 437). + +[254] The character and extent of such lectures are fully discussed in the +Proceedings of the Third Congress of the German Society for Combating +Venereal Diseases, _Sexualpädagogik_, 1907. + +[255] I leave out of account, as beyond the scope of the present work, the +auxiliary aids to the suppression of venereal diseases furnished by the +promising new methods, only now beginning to be understood, of treating or +even aborting such diseases (see, e.g., Metchnikoff, _The New Hygiene_, +1906). + +[256] Max von Niessen, "Herr Doktor, darf ich heiraten?" _Mutterschutz_, +1906, p. 352. + + + + +CHAPTER IX. + +SEXUAL MORALITY. + +Prostitution in Relation to Our Marriage System--Marriage and +Morality--The Definition of the Term "Morality"--Theoretical Morality--Its +Division Into Traditional Morality and Ideal Morality--Practical +Morality--Practical Morality Based on Custom--The Only Subject of +Scientific Ethics--The Reaction Between Theoretical and Practical +Morality--Sexual Morality in the Past an Application of Economic +Morality--The Combined Rigidity and Laxity of This Morality--The +Growth of a Specific Sexual Morality and the Evolution of Moral +Ideals--Manifestations of Sexual Morality--Disregard of the Forms of +Marriage--Trial Marriage--Marriage After Conception of Child--Phenomena in +Germany, Anglo-Saxon Countries, Russia, etc.--The Status of Woman--The +Historical Tendency Favoring Moral Equality of Women with Men--The Theory +of the Matriarchate--Mother-Descent--Women in Babylonia--Egypt--Rome--The +Eighteenth and Nineteenth Centuries--The Historical Tendency +Favoring Moral Inequality of Woman--The Ambiguous Influence of +Christianity--Influence of Teutonic Custom and Feudalism--Chivalry--Woman +in England--The Sale of Wives--The Vanishing Subjection of +Woman--Inaptitude of the Modern Man to Domineer--The Growth of Moral +Responsibility in Women--The Concomitant Development of Economic +Independence--The Increase of Women Who Work--Invasion of the Modern +Industrial Field by Women--In How Far This Is Socially Justifiable--The +Sexual Responsibility of Women and Its Consequences--The Alleged Moral +Inferiority of Women--The "Self-Sacrifice" of Women--Society Not Concerned +with Sexual Relationships--Procreation the Sole Sexual Concern of the +State--The Supreme Importance of Maternity. + + +It has been necessary to deal fully with the phenomena of prostitution +because, however aloof we may personally choose to hold ourselves from +those phenomena, they really bring us to the heart of the sexual question +in so far as it constitutes a social problem. If we look at prostitution +from the outside, as an objective phenomenon, as a question of social +dynamics, it is seen to be not a merely accidental and eliminable incident +of our present marriage system but an integral part of it, without which +it would fall to pieces. This will probably be fairly clear to all who +have followed the preceding exposition of prostitutional phenomena. There +is, however, more than this to be said. Not only is prostitution to-day, +as it has been for more than two thousand years, the buttress of our +marriage system, but if we look at marriage, not from the outside as a +formal institution, but from the inside with relation to the motives that +constitute it, we find that marriage in a large proportion of cases is +itself in certain respects a form of prostitution. This has been +emphasized so often and from so many widely different standpoints that it +may seem hardly necessary to labor the point here. But the point is one of +extreme importance in relation to the question of sexual morality. Our +social conditions are unfavorable to the development of a high moral +feeling in woman. The difference between the woman who sells herself in +prostitution and the woman who sells herself in marriage, according to the +saying of Marro already quoted, "is only a difference in price and +duration of the contract." Or, as Forel puts it, marriage is "a more +fashionable form of prostitution," that is to say, a mode of obtaining, or +disposing of, for monetary considerations, a sexual commodity. Marriage +is, indeed, not merely a more fashionable form of prostitution, it is a +form sanctified by law and religion, and the question of morality is not +allowed to intrude. Morality may be outraged with impunity provided that +law and religion have been invoked. The essential principle of +prostitution is thus legalized and sanctified among us. That is why it is +so difficult to arouse any serious indignation, or to maintain any +reasoned objections, against our prostitution considered by itself. The +most plausible ground is that of those[257] who, bringing marriage down to +the level of prostitution, maintain that the prostitute is a "blackleg" +who is accepting less than the "market rate of wages," i.e., marriage, for +the sexual services she renders. But even this low ground is quite unsafe. +The prostitute is really paid extremely well considering how little she +gives in return; the wife is really paid extremely badly considering how +much she often gives, and how much she necessarily gives up. For the sake +of the advantage of economic dependence on her husband, she must give up, +as Ellen Key observes, those rights over her children, her property, her +work, and her own person which she enjoys as an unmarried woman, even, it +may be added, as a prostitute. The prostitute never signs away the right +over her own person, as the wife is compelled to do; the prostitute, +unlike the wife, retains her freedom and her personal rights, although +these may not often be of much worth. It is the wife rather than the +prostitute who is the "blackleg." + + It is by no means only during recent years that our marriage + system has been arraigned before the bar of morals. Forty years + ago James Hinton exhausted the vocabulary of denunciation in + describing the immorality and selfish licentiousness which our + marriage system covers with the cloak of legality and sanctity. + "There is an unsoundness in our marriage relations," Hinton + wrote. "Not only practically are they dreadful, but they do not + answer to feelings and convictions far too widespread to be + wisely ignored. Take the case of women of marked eminence + consenting to be a married man's mistress; of pure and simple + girls saying they cannot see why they should have a marriage by + law; of a lady saying that if she were in love she would not have + any legal tie; of its being necessary--or thought so by good and + wise men--to keep one sex in bitter and often fatal ignorance. + These things (and how many more) show some deep unsoundness in + the marriage relations. This must be probed and searched to the + bottom." + + At an earlier date, in 1847, Gross-Hoffinger, in his _Die + Schicksale der Frauen und die Prostitution_--a remarkable book + which Bloch, with little exaggeration, describes as possessing an + epoch-marking significance--vigorously showed that the problem of + prostitution is in reality the problem of marriage, and that we + can only reform away prostitution by reforming marriage, regarded + as a compulsory institution resting on an antiquated economic + basis. Gross-Hoffinger was a pioneering precursor of Ellen Key. + + More than a century and a half earlier a man of very different + type scathingly analyzed the morality of his time, with a brutal + frankness, indeed, that seemed to his contemporaries a + revoltingly cynical attitude towards their sacred institutions, + and they felt that nothing was left to them save to burn his + books. Describing modern marriage in his _Fable of the Bees_ + (1714, p. 64), and what that marriage might legally cover, + Mandeville wrote: "The fine gentleman I spoke of need not + practice any greater self-denial than the savage, and the latter + acted more according to the laws of nature and sincerity than the + first. The man that gratifies his appetite after the manner the + custom of the country allows of, has no censure to fear. If he + is hotter than goats or bulls, as soon as the ceremony is over, + let him sate and fatigue himself with joy and ecstasies of + pleasure, raise and indulge his appetite by turns, as + extravagantly as his strength and manhood will give him leave. He + may, with safety, laugh at the wise men that should reprove him: + all the women and above nine in ten of the men are of his side; + nay, he has the liberty of valuing himself upon the fury of his + unbridled passions, and the more he wallows in lust and strains + every faculty to be abandonedly voluptuous, the sooner he shall + have the good-will and gain the affection of the women, not the + young, vain, and lascivious only, but the prudent, grave, and + most sober matrons." + + Thus the charge brought against our marriage system from the + point of view of morality is that it subordinates the sexual + relationship to considerations of money and of lust. That is + precisely the essence of prostitution. + +The only legitimately moral end of marriage--whether we regard it from the +wider biological standpoint or from the narrower standpoint of human +society--is as a sexual selection, effected in accordance with the laws of +sexual selection, and having as its direct object a united life of +complete mutual love and as its indirect object the procreation of the +race. Unless procreation forms part of the object of marriage, society has +nothing whatever to do with it and has no right to make its voice heard. +But if procreation is one of the ends of marriage, then it is imperative +from the biological and social points of view that no influences outside +the proper natural influence of sexual selection should be permitted to +affect the choice of conjugal partners, for in so far as wholesome sexual +selection is interfered with the offspring is likely to be injured and the +interests of the race affected. + + It must, of course, be clearly understood that the idea of + marriage as a form of sexual union based not on biological but on + economic considerations, is very ancient, and is sometimes found + in societies that are almost primitive. Whenever, however, + marriage on a purely property basis, and without due regard to + sexual selection, has occurred among comparatively primitive and + vigorous peoples, it has been largely deprived of its evil + results by the recognition of its merely economic character, and + by the absence of any desire to suppress, even nominally, other + sexual relationships on a more natural basis which were outside + this artificial form of marriage. Polygamy especially tended to + conciliate unions on an economic basis with unions on a natural + sexual basis. Our modern marriage system has, however, acquired + an artificial rigidity which excludes the possibility of this + natural safeguard and compensation. Whatever its real moral + content may be, a modern marriage is always "legal" and "sacred." + We are indeed so accustomed to economic forms of marriage that, + as Sidgwick truly observed (_Method of Ethics_, Bk. ii, Ch. XI), + when they are spoken of as "legalized prostitution" it constantly + happens that "the phrase is felt to be extravagant and + paradoxical." + +A man who marries for money or for ambition is departing from the +biological and moral ends of marriage. A woman who sells herself for life +is morally on the same level as one who sells herself for a night. The +fact that the payment seems larger, that in return for rendering certain +domestic services and certain personal complacencies--services and +complacencies in which she may be quite inexpert--she will secure an +almshouse in which she will be fed and clothed and sheltered for life +makes no difference in the moral aspect of her case. The moral +responsibility is, it need scarcely be said, at least as much the man's as +the woman's. It is largely due to the ignorance and even the indifference +of men, who often know little or nothing of the nature of women and the +art of love. The unintelligence with which even men who might, one thinks, +be not without experience, select as a mate, a woman who, however fine and +charming she may be, possesses none of the qualities which her wooer +really craves, is a perpetual marvel. To refrain from testing and proving +the temper and quality of the woman he desires for a mate is no doubt an +amiable trait of humility on a man's part. But it is certain that a man +should never be content with less than the best of what a woman's soul and +body have to give, however unworthy he may feel himself of such a +possession. This demand, it must be remarked, is in the highest interests +of the woman herself. A woman can offer to a man what is a part at all +events of the secret of the universe. The woman degrades herself who sinks +to the level of a candidate for an asylum for the destitute. + +Our discussion of the psychic facts of sex has thus, it will be seen, +brought us up to the question of morality. Over and over again, in +setting forth the phenomena of prostitution, it has been necessary to use +the word "moral." That word, however, is vague and even, it may be, +misleading because it has several senses. So far, it has been left to the +intelligent reader, as he will not fail to perceive, to decide from the +context in what sense the word was used. But at the present point, before +we proceed to discuss sexual psychology in relation to marriage, it is +necessary, in order to avoid ambiguity, to remind the reader what +precisely are the chief main senses in which the word "morality" is +commonly used. + +The morality with which ethical treatises are concerned is _theoretical +morality_. It is concerned with what people "ought"--or what is "right" +for them--to do. Socrates in the Platonic dialogues was concerned with +such theoretical morality: what "ought" people to seek in their actions? +The great bulk of ethical literature, until recent times one may say the +whole of it, is concerned with that question. Such theoretical morality +is, as Sidgwick said, a study rather than a science, for science can only +be based on what is, not on what ought to be. + +Even within the sphere of theoretical morality there are two very +different kinds of morality, so different indeed that sometimes each +regards the other as even inimical or at best only by courtesy, with yet a +shade of contempt, "moral." These two kinds of theoretical morality are +_traditional morality_ and _ideal morality_. Traditional morality is +founded on the long established practices of a community and possesses the +stability of all theoretical ideas based in the past social life and +surrounding every individual born into the community from his earliest +years. It becomes the voice of conscience which speaks automatically in +favor of all the rules that are thus firmly fixed, even when the +individual himself no longer accepts them. Many persons, for example, who +were brought up in childhood to the Puritanical observance of Sunday, will +recall how, long after they had ceased to believe that such observances +were "right," they yet in the violation of them heard the protest of the +automatically aroused voice of "conscience," that is to say the expression +within the individual of customary rules which have indeed now ceased to +be his own but were those of the community in which he was brought up. + +Ideal morality, on the other hand, refers not to the past of the community +but to its future. It is based not on the old social actions that are +becoming antiquated, and perhaps even anti-social in their tendency, but +on new social actions that are as yet only practiced by a small though +growing minority of the community. Nietzsche in modern times has been a +conspicuous champion of ideal morality, the heroic morality of the +pioneer, of the individual of the coming community, against traditional +morality, or, as he called it, herd-morality, the morality of the crowd. +These two moralities are necessarily opposed to each other, but, we have +to remember, they are both equally sound and equally indispensable, not +only to those who accept them but to the community which they both +contribute to hold in vital theoretical balance. We have seen them both, +for instance, applied to the question of prostitution; traditional +morality defends prostitution, not for its own sake, but for the sake of +the marriage system which it regards as sufficiently precious to be worth +a sacrifice, while ideal morality refuses to accept the necessity of +prostitution, and looks forward to progressive changes in the marriage +system which will modify and diminish prostitution. + +But altogether outside theoretical morality, or the question of what +people "ought" to do, there remains _practical morality_, or the question +of what, as a matter of fact, people actually do. This is the really +fundamental and essential morality. Latin _mores_ and Greek aethos both +refer to _custom_, to the things that are, and not to the things that +"ought" to be, except in the indirect and secondary sense that whatever +the members of the community, in the mass, actually do, is the thing that +they feel they ought to do. In the first place, however, a moral act was +not done because it was felt that it ought to be done, but for reasons of +a much deeper and more instinctive character.[258] It was not first done +because it was felt it ought to be done, but it was felt it "ought" to be +done because it had actually become the custom to do it. + +The actions of a community are determined by the vital needs of a +community under the special circumstances of its culture, time, and land. +When it is the general custom for children to kill their aged parents that +custom is always found to be the best not only for the community but even +for the old people themselves, who desire it; the action is both +practically moral and theoretically moral.[259] And when, as among +ourselves, the aged are kept alive, that action is also both practically +and theoretically moral; it is in no wise dependent on any law or rule +opposed to the taking of life, for we glory in the taking of life under +the patriotic name of "war," and are fairly indifferent to it when +involved by the demands of our industrial system; but the killing of the +aged no longer subserves any social need and their preservation ministers +to our civilized emotional needs. The killing of a man is indeed +notoriously an act which differs widely in its moral value at different +periods and in different countries. It was quite moral in England two +centuries ago and less, to kill a man for trifling offences against +property, for such punishment commended itself as desirable to the general +sense of the educated community. To-day it would be regarded as highly +immoral. We are even yet only beginning to doubt the morality of +condemning to death and imprisoning for life an unmarried girl who +destroyed her infant at birth, solely actuated, against all her natural +impulses, by the primitive instinct of self-defense. It cannot be said +that we have yet begun to doubt the morality of killing men in war, though +we no longer approve of killing women and children, or even non-combatants +generally. Every age or land has its own morality. + +"Custom, in the strict sense of the word," well says Westermarck, +"involves a moral rule.... Society is the school in which men learn to +distinguish between right and wrong. The headmaster is custom."[260] +Custom is not only the basis of morality but also of law. "Custom is +law."[261] The field of theoretical morality has been found so fascinating +a playground for clever philosophers that there has sometimes been a +danger of forgetting that, after all, it is not theoretical morality but +practical morality, the question of what men in the mass of a community +actually do, which constitutes the real stuff of morals.[262] If we define +more precisely what we mean by morals, on the practical side, we may say +that it is constituted by those customs which the great majority of the +members of a community regard as conducive to the welfare of the community +at some particular time and place. It is for this reason--i.e., because it +is a question of what is and not of merely what some think ought to +be--that practical morals form the proper subject of science. "If the word +'ethics' is to be used as the name for a science," Westermarck says, "the +object of that science can only be to study the moral consciousness as a +fact."[263] + + Lecky's _History of European Morals_ is a study in practical + rather than in theoretical morals. Dr. Westermarck's great work, + _The Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_, is a more modern + example of the objectively scientific discussion of morals, + although this is not perhaps clearly brought out by the title. It + is essentially a description of the actual historical facts of + what has been, and not of what "ought" to be. Mr. L.T. Hobhouse's + _Morals in Evolution_, published almost at the same time, is + similarly a work which, while professedly dealing with ideas, + i.e., with rules and regulations, and indeed disclaiming the task + of being "the history of conduct," yet limits itself to those + rules which are "in fact, the normal conduct of the average man" + (vol. i, p. 26). In other words, it is essentially a history of + practical morality, and not of theoretical morality. One of the + most subtle and suggestive of living thinkers, M. Jules de + Gaultier, in several of his books, and notably in _La Dépendance + de la Morale et l'Indépendance des Moeurs_ (1907), has analyzed + the conception of morals in a somewhat similar sense. "Phenomena + relative to conduct," as he puts it (op. cit., p. 58), "are given + in experience like other phenomena, so that morality, or the + totality of the laws which at any given moment of historic + evolution are applied to human practice, is dependent on + customs." I may also refer to the masterly exposition of this + aspect of morality in Lévy-Bruhl's _La Morale et la Science des + Moeurs_ (there is an English translation). + +Practical morality is thus the solid natural fact which forms the +biological basis of theoretical morality, whether traditional or ideal. +The excessive fear, so widespread among us, lest we should injure morality +is misplaced. We cannot hurt morals though we can hurt ourselves. Morals +is based on nature and can at the most only be modified. As Crawley +rightly insists,[264] even the categorical imperatives of our moral +traditions, so far from being, as is often popularly supposed, attempts to +suppress Nature, arise in the desire to assist Nature; they are simply an +attempt at the rigid formulation of natural impulses. The evil of them +only lies in the fact that, like all things that become rigid and dead, +they tend to persist beyond the period when they were a beneficial vital +reaction to the environment. They thus provoke new forms of ideal +morality; and practical morals develops new structures, in accordance with +new vital relationships, to replace older and desiccated traditions. + +There is clearly an intimate relationship between theoretical morals and +practical morals or morality proper. For not only is theoretical morality +the outcome in consciousness of realized practices embodied in the +general life of the community, but, having thus become conscious, it +reacts on those practices and tends to support them or, by its own +spontaneous growth, to modify them. This action is diverse, according as +we are dealing with one or the other of the strongly marked divisions of +theoretical morality: traditional and posterior morality, retarding the +vital growth of moral practice, or ideal and anterior morality, +stimulating the vital growth of moral practice. Practical morality, or +morals proper, may be said to stand between these two divisions of +theoretical morality. Practice is perpetually following after anterior +theoretical morality, in so far of course as ideal morality really is +anterior and not, as so often happens, astray up a blind alley. Posterior +or traditional morality always follows after practice. The result is that +while the actual morality, in practice at any time or place, is always +closely related to theoretical morality, it can never exactly correspond +to either of its forms. It always fails to catch up with ideal morality; +it is always outgrowing traditional morality. + +It has been necessary at this point to formulate definitely the three +chief forms in which the word "moral" is used, although under one shape or +another they cannot but be familiar to the reader. In the discussion of +prostitution it has indeed been easily possible to follow the usual custom +of allowing the special sense in which the word was used to be determined +by the context. But now, when we are, for the moment, directly concerned +with the specific question of the evolution of sexual morality, it is +necessary to be more precise in formulating the terms we use. In this +chapter, except when it is otherwise stated, we are concerned primarily +with morals proper, with actual conduct as it develops among the masses of +a community, and only secondarily with anterior morality or with posterior +morality. + +Sexual morality, like all other kinds of morality, is necessarily +constituted by inherited traditions modified by new adaptations to the +changing social environment. If the influence of tradition becomes unduly +pronounced the moral life tends to decay and lose its vital adaptability. +If adaptability becomes too facile the moral life tends to become unstable +and to lose authority. It is only by a reasonable synthesis of structure +and function--of what is called the traditional with what is called the +ideal--that the moral life can retain its authority without losing its +reality. Many, even among those who call themselves moralists, have found +this hard to understand. In a vain desire for an impossible logicality +they have over-emphasized either the ideal influence on practical morals +or, still more frequently, the traditional influence, which has appealed +to them because of the impressive authority its _dicta_ seem to convey. +The results in the sphere we are here concerned with have often been +unfortunate, for no social impulse is so rebellious to decayed traditions, +so volcanically eruptive, as that of sex. + +We are accustomed to identify our present marriage system with "morality" +in the abstract, and for many people, perhaps for most, it is difficult to +realize that the slow and insensible movement which is always affecting +social life at the present time, as at every other time, is profoundly +affecting our sexual morality. A transference of values is constantly +taking place; what was once the very standard of morality becomes immoral, +what was once without question immoral becomes a new standard. Such a +process is almost as bewildering as for the European world two thousand +years ago was the great struggle between the Roman city and the Christian +Church, when it became necessary to realize that what Marcus Aurelius, the +great pattern of morality, had sought to crush as without question +immoral,[265] was becoming regarded as the supreme standard of morality. +The classic world considered love and pity and self-sacrifice as little +better than weakness and sometimes worse; the Christian world not only +regarded them as moralities but incarnated them in a god. Our sexual +morality has likewise disregarded natural human emotions, and is incapable +of understanding those who declare that to retain unduly traditional laws +that are opposed to the vital needs of human societies is not a morality +but an immorality. + +The reason why the gradual evolution of moral ideals, which is always +taking place, tends in the sexual sphere, at all events among ourselves, +to reach a stage in which there seems to be an opposition between +different standards lies in the fact that as yet we really have no +specific sexual morality at all.[266] That may seem surprising at first to +one who reflects on the immense weight which is usually attached to +"sexual morality." And it is undoubtedly true that we have a morality +which we apply to the sphere of sex. But that morality is one which +belongs mainly to the sphere of property and was very largely developed on +a property basis. All the historians of morals in general, and of marriage +in particular, have set forth this fact, and illustrated it with a wealth +of historical material. We have as yet no generally recognized sexual +morality which has been based on the specific sexual facts of life. That +becomes clear at once when we realize the central fact that the sexual +relationship is based on love, at the very least on sexual desire, and +that that basis is so deep as to be even physiological, for in the absence +of such sexual desire it is physiologically impossible for a man to effect +intercourse with a woman. Any specific sexual morality must be based on +that fact. But our so-called "sexual morality," so far from being based on +that fact, attempts to ignore it altogether. It makes contracts, it +arranges sexual relationships beforehand, it offers to guarantee +permanency of sexual inclinations. It introduces, that is, considerations +of a kind that is perfectly sound in the economic sphere to which such +considerations rightly belong, but ridiculously incongruous in the sphere +of sex to which they have solemnly been applied. The economic +relationships of life, in the large sense, are, as we shall see, extremely +important in the evolution of any sound sexual morality, but they belong +to the conditions of its development and do not constitute its basis.[267] + + The fact that, from the legal point of view, marriage is + primarily an arrangement for securing the rights of property and + inheritance is well illustrated by the English divorce law + to-day. According to this law, if a woman has sexual intercourse + with any man beside her husband, he is entitled to divorce her; + if, however, the husband has intercourse with another woman + beside his wife, she is not entitled to a divorce; that is only + accorded if, in addition, he has also been cruel to her, or + deserted her, and from any standpoint of ideal morality such a + law is obviously unjust, and it has now been discarded in nearly + all civilized lands except England. + + But from the standpoint of property and inheritance it is quite + intelligible, and on that ground it is still supported by the + majority of Englishmen. If the wife has intercourse with other + men there is a risk that the husband's property will be inherited + by a child who is not his own. But the sexual intercourse of the + husband with other women is followed by no such risk. The + infidelity of the wife is a serious offence against property; the + infidelity of the husband is no offence against property, and + cannot possibly, therefore, be regarded as a ground for divorce + from our legal point of view. The fact that his adultery + complicated by cruelty is such a ground, is simply a concession + to modern feeling. Yet, as Helena Stöcker truly points out + ("Verschiedenheit im Liebesleben des Weibes und des Mannes," + _Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft_, Dec., 1908), a married man + who has an unacknowledged child with a woman outside of marriage, + has committed an act as seriously anti-social as a married woman + who has a child without acknowledging that the father is not her + husband. In the first case, the husband, and in the second case, + the wife, have placed an undue amount of responsibility on + another person. (The same point is brought forward by the author + of _The Question of English Divorce_, p. 56.) + + I insist here on the economic element in our sexual morality, + because that is the element which has given it a kind of + stability and become established in law. But if we take a wider + view of our sexual morality, we cannot ignore the ancient element + of asceticism, which has given religious passion and sanction to + it. Our sexual morality is thus, in reality, a bastard born of + the union of property-morality with primitive ascetic morality, + neither in true relationship to the vital facts of the sexual + life. It is, indeed, the property element which, with a few + inconsistencies, has become finally the main concern of our law, + but the ascetic element (with, in the past, a wavering + relationship to law) has had an important part in moulding + popular sentiment and in creating an attitude of reprobation + towards sexual intercourse _per se_, although such intercourse is + regarded as an essential part of the property-based and + religiously sanctified institution of legal marriage. + + The glorification of virginity led by imperceptible stages to the + formulation of "fornication" as a deadly sin, and finally as an + actual secular "crime." It is sometimes stated that it was not + until the Council of Trent that the Church formally anathematized + those who held that the state of marriage was higher than that of + virginity, but the opinion had been more or less formally held + from almost the earliest ages of Christianity, and is clear in + the epistles of Paul. All the theologians agree that fornication + is a mortal sin. Caramuel, indeed, the distinguished Spanish + theologian, who made unusual concessions to the demands of reason + and nature, held that fornication is only evil because it is + forbidden, but Innocent XI formally condemned that proposition. + Fornication as a mortal sin became gradually secularized into + fornication as a crime. Fornication was a crime in France even as + late as the eighteenth century, as Tarde found in his historical + investigations of criminal procedure in Périgord; adultery was + also a crime and severely punished quite independently of any + complaint from either of the parties (Tarde, "Archéologie + Criminelle en Périgord," _Archives de l'Anthropologie + Criminelle_, Nov. 15, 1898). + + The Puritans of the Commonwealth days in England (like the + Puritans of Geneva) followed the Catholic example and adopted + ecclesiastical offences against chastity into the secular law. By + an Act passed in 1653 fornication became punishable by three + months' imprisonment inflicted on both parties. By the same Act + the adultery of a wife (nothing is said of a husband) was made + felony, both for her and her partner in guilt, and therefore + punishable by death (Scobell, _Acts and Ordinances_, p. 121). + +The action of a pseudo-morality, such as our sexual morality has been, is +double-edged. On the one side it induces a secret and shamefaced laxity, +on the other it upholds a rigid and uninspiring theoretical code which so +few can consistently follow that theoretical morality is thereby degraded +into a more or less empty form. "The human race would gain much," said the +wise Sénancour, "if virtue were made less laborious. The merit would not +be so great, but what is the use of an elevation which can rarely be +sustained?"[268] At present, as a more recent moralist, Ellen Key, puts +it, we only have an immorality which favors vice and makes virtue +irrealizable, and, as she exclaims with pardonable extravagance, to preach +a sounder morality to the young, without at the same time condemning the +society which encourages the prevailing immorality, is "worse than folly, +it is crime." + +It is on the lines along which Sénancour a century ago and Ellen Key +to-day are great pioneers that the new forms of anterior or ideal +theoretical morality are now moving, in advance, according to the general +tendency in morals, of traditional morality and even of practice. + +There is one great modern movement of a definite kind which will serve to +show how clearly sexual morality is to-day moving towards a new +standpoint. This is the changing attitude of the bulk of the community +towards both State marriage and religious marriage, and the growing +tendency to disallow State interference with sexual relationships, apart +from the production of children. + +There has no doubt always been a tendency among the masses of the +population in Europe to dispense with the official sanction of sexual +relationships until such relationships have been well established and the +hope of offspring has become justifiable. This tendency has been +crystallized into recognized customs among numberless rural communities +little touched either by the disturbing influences of the outside world or +the controlling influences of theological Christian conceptions. But at +the present day this tendency is not confined to the more primitive and +isolated communities of Europe among whom, on the contrary, it has tended +to die out. It is an unquestionable fact, says Professor Bruno Meyer, that +far more than the half of sexual intercourse now takes place outside legal +marriage.[269] It is among the intelligent classes and in prosperous and +progressive communities that this movement is chiefly marked. We see +throughout the world the practical common sense of the people shaping +itself in the direction which has been pioneered by the ideal moralists +who invariably precede the new growth of practical morality. + +The voluntary childless marriages of to-day have served to show the +possibility of such unions outside legal marriage, and such free unions +are becoming, as Mrs. Parsons points out, "a progressive substitute for +marriage."[270] The gradual but steady rise in the age for entering on +legal marriage also points in the same direction, though it indicates not +merely an increase of free unions but an increase of all forms of normal +and abnormal sexuality outside marriage. Thus in England and Wales, in +1906, only 43 per 1,000 husbands and 146 per 1,000 wives were under age, +while the average age for husbands was 28.6 years and for wives 26.4 +years. For men the age has gone up some eight months during the past forty +years, for women more than this. In the large cities, like London, where +the possibilities of extra-matrimonial relationships are greater, the age +for legal marriage is higher than in the country. + + If we are to regard the age of legal marriage as, on the whole, + the age at which the population enters into sexual unions, it is + undoubtedly too late. Beyer, a leading German neurologist, finds + that there are evils alike in early and in late marriage, and + comes to the conclusion that in temperate zones the best age for + women to marry is the twenty-first year, and for men the + twenty-fifth year. + + Yet, under bad economic conditions and with a rigid marriage law, + early marriages are in every respect disastrous. They are among + the poor a sign of destitution. The very poorest marry first, and + they do so through the feeling that their condition cannot be + worse. (Dr. Michael Ryan brought together much interesting + evidence concerning the causes of early marriage in Ireland in + his _Philosophy of Marriage_, 1837, pp. 58-72). Among the poor, + therefore, early marriage is always a misfortune. "Many good + people," says Mr. Thomas Holmes, Secretary of the Howard + Association and missionary at police courts (in an interview, + _Daily Chronicle_, Sept. 8, 1906), "advise boys and girls to get + married in order to prevent what they call a 'disgrace.' This I + consider to be absolutely wicked, and it leads to far greater + evils than it can possibly avert." + + Early marriages are one of the commonest causes both of + prostitution and divorce. They lead to prostitution in + innumerable cases, even when no outward separation takes place. + The fact that they lead to divorce is shown by the significant + circumstance that in England, although only 146 per 1,000 women + are under twenty-one at marriage, of the wives concerned in + divorce cases, 280 per 1,000 were under twenty-one at marriage, + and this discrepancy is even greater than it appears, for in the + well-to-do class, which can alone afford the luxury of divorce, + the normal age at marriage is much higher than for the population + generally. Inexperience, as was long ago pointed out by Milton + (who had learnt this lesson to his cost), leads to shipwreck in + marriage. "They who have lived most loosely," he wrote, "prove + most successful in their matches, because their wild affections, + unsettling at will, have been so many divorces to teach them + experience." + + Miss Clapperton, referring to the educated classes, advocates + very early marriage, even during student life, which might then + be to some extent carried on side by side (_Scientific + Meliorism_, Ch. XVII). Ellen Key, also, advocates early marriage. + But she wisely adds that it involves the necessity for easy + divorce. That, indeed, is the only condition which can render + early marriage generally desirable. Young people--unless they + possess very simple and inert natures--can neither foretell the + course of their own development and their own strongest needs, + nor estimate accurately the nature and quality of another + personality. A marriage formed at an early age very speedily + ceases to be a marriage in anything but name. Sometimes a young + girl applies for a separation from her husband even on the very + day after marriage. + +The more or less permanent free unions formed among us in Europe are +usually to be regarded merely as trial-marriages. That is to say they are +a precaution rendered desirable both by uncertainty as to either the +harmony or the fruitfulness of union until actual experiment has been +made, and by the practical impossibility of otherwise rectifying any +mistake in consequence of the antiquated rigidity of most European divorce +laws. Such trial marriages are therefore demanded by prudence and caution, +and as foresight increases with the development of civilization, and +constantly grows among us, we may expect that there will be a parallel +development in the frequency of trial marriage and in the social attitude +towards such unions. The only alternative--that a radical reform in +European marriage laws should render the divorce of a legal marriage as +economical and as convenient as the divorce of a free marriage--cannot yet +be expected, for law always lags behind public opinion and public +practice. + +If, however, we take a wider historical view, we find that we are in +presence of a phenomenon which, though favored by modern conditions, is +very ancient and widespread, dating, so far as Europe is concerned, from +the time when the Church first sought to impose ecclesiastical marriage, +so that it is practically a continuation of the ancient European custom of +private marriage. + + Trial-marriages pass by imperceptible gradations into the group + of courtship customs which, while allowing the young couple to + spend the night together, in a position of more or less intimacy, + exclude, as a rule, actual sexual intercourse. Night-courtship + flourishes in stable and well-knit European communities not + liable to disorganization by contact with strangers. It seems to + be specially common in Teutonic and Celtic lands, and is known by + various names, as _Probenächte, fensterln, Kiltgang, + hand-fasting, bundling, sitting-up, courting on the bed, etc_. It + is well known in Wales; it is found in various English counties + as in Cheshire; it existed in eighteenth century Ireland + (according to Richard Twiss's _Travels_); in New England it was + known as _tarrying_; in Holland it is called _questing_. In + Norway, where it is called _night-running_, on account of the + long distance between the homesteads, I am told that it is + generally practiced, though the clergy preach against it; the + young girl puts on several extra skirts and goes to bed, and the + young man enters by door or window and goes to bed with her; they + talk all night, and are not bound to marry unless it should + happen that the girl becomes pregnant. + + Rhys and Brynmor-Jones (_Welsh People_, pp. 582-4) have an + interesting passage on this night-courtship with numerous + references. As regards Germany see, e.g., Rudeck, _Geschichte der + öffentlichen Sittlichkeit_, pp. 146-154. With reference to + trial-marriage generally many facts and references are given by + M.A. Potter (_Sohrab and Rustem_, pp. 129-137). + + The custom of free marriage unions, usually rendered legal before + or after the birth of children, seems to be fairly common in + many, or perhaps all, rural parts of England. The union is made + legal, if found satisfactory, even when there is no prospect of + children. In some counties it is said to be almost a universal + practice for the women to have sexual relationships before legal + marriage; sometimes she marries the first man whom she tries; + sometimes she tries several before finding the man who suits her. + Such marriages necessarily, on the whole, turn out better than + marriages in which the woman, knowing nothing of what awaits her + and having no other experiences for comparison, is liable to be + disillusioned or to feel that she "might have done better." Even + when legal recognition is not sought until after the birth of + children, it by no means follows that any moral deterioration is + involved. Thus in some parts of Staffordshire where it is the + custom of the women to have a child before marriage, + notwithstanding this "corruption," we are told (Burton, _City of + the Saints_, Appendix IV), the women are "very good neighbors, + excellent, hard-working, and affectionate wives and mothers." + + "The lower social classes, especially peasants," remarks Dr. + Ehrhard ("Auch Ein Wort zur Ehereform," _Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, Jahrgang I, Heft 10), "know better than we that + the marriage bed is the foundation of marriage. On that account + they have retained the primitive custom of trial-marriage which, + in the Middle Ages, was still practiced even in the best circles. + It has the further advantage that the marriage is not concluded + until it has shown itself to be fruitful. Trial-marriage assumes, + of course, that virginity is not valued beyond its true worth." + With regard to this point it may be mentioned that in many parts + of the world a woman is more highly esteemed if she has had + intercourse before marriage (see, e.g., Potter, op. cit., pp. 163 + et seq.). While virginity is one of the sexual attractions a + woman may possess, an attraction that is based on a natural + instinct (see "The Evolution of Modesty," in vol. i of these + _Studies_), yet an exaggerated attention to virginity can only be + regarded as a sexual perversion, allied to _paidophilia_, the + sexual attraction to children. + + In very small coördinated communities the primitive custom of + trial-marriage tends to decay when there is a great invasion of + strangers who have not been brought up to the custom (which seems + to them indistinguishable from the license of prostitution), and + who fail to undertake the obligations which trial-marriage + involves. This is what happened in the case of the so-called + "island custom" of Portland, which lasted well on into the + nineteenth century; according to this custom a woman before + marriage lived with her lover until pregnant and then married + him; she was always strictly faithful to him while living with + him, but if no pregnancy occurred the couple might decide that + they were not meant for each other, and break off relations. The + result was that for a long period of years no illegitimate + children were born, and few marriages were childless. But when + the Portland stone trade was developed, the workmen imported from + London took advantage of the "island custom," but refused to + fulfil the obligation of marriage when pregnancy occurred. The + custom consequently fell into disuse (see, e.g., translator's + note to Bloch's _Sexual Life of Our Time_, p. 237, and the + quotation there given from Hutchins, _History and Antiquities of + Dorset_, vol. ii, p. 820). + + It is, however, by no means only in rural districts, but in great + cities also that marriages are at the outset free unions. Thus in + Paris Després stated more than thirty years ago (_La Prostitution + à Paris_, p. 137) that in an average arrondissement nine out of + ten legal marriages are the consolidation of a free union; + though, while that was an average, in a few arrondissements it + was only three out of ten. Much the same conditions prevail in + Paris to-day; at least half the marriages, it is stated, are of + this kind. + + In Teutonic lands the custom of free unions is very ancient and + well-established. Thus in Sweden, Ellen Key states (_Liebe und + Ehe_, p. 123), the majority of the population begin married life + in this way. The arrangement is found to be beneficial, and + "marital fidelity is as great as pre-marital freedom is + unbounded." In Denmark, also, a large number of children are + conceived before the unions of the parents are legalized (Rubin + and Westergaard, quoted by Gaedeken, _Archives d'Anthropologie + Criminelle_, Feb. 15, 1909). + + In Germany not only is the proportion of illegitimate births very + high, since in Berlin it is 17 per cent., and in some towns very + much higher, but ante-nuptial conceptions take place in nearly + half the marriages, and sometimes in the majority. Thus in Berlin + more than 40 per cent, of all legitimate firstborn children are + conceived before marriage, while in some rural provinces (where + the proportion of illegitimate births is lower) the percentage of + marriages following ante-nuptial conceptions is much higher than + in Berlin. The conditions in rural Germany have been especially + investigated by a committee of Lutheran pastors, and were set + forth a few years ago in two volumes, _Die Geschlecht-sittlich + Verhältnisse im Deutschen Reiche_, which are full of instruction + concerning German sexual morality. In Hanover, it is said in this + work, the majority of authorities state that intercourse before + marriage is the rule. At the very least, a _probe_, or trial, is + regarded as a matter-of-course preliminary to a marriage, since + no one wishes "to buy a pig in a poke." In Saxony, likewise, we + are told, it is seldom that a girl fails to have intercourse + before marriage, or that her first child is not born, or at all + events conceived, outside marriage. This is justified as a proper + proving of a bride before taking her for good. "One does not buy + even a penny pipe without trying it," a German pastor was + informed. Around Stettin, in twelve districts (nearly half the + whole), sexual intercourse before marriage is a recognized + custom, and in the remainder, if not exactly a custom, it is very + common, and is not severely or even at all condemned by public + opinion. In some districts marriage immediately follows + pregnancy. In the Dantzig neighborhood, again, according to the + Lutheran Committee, intercourse before marriage occurs in more + than half the cases, but marriage by no means always follows + pregnancy. Nearly all the girls who go as servants have lovers, + and country people in engaging servants sometimes tell them that + at evening and night they may do as they like. This state of + things is found to be favorable to conjugal fidelity. The German + peasant girl, as another authority remarks (E.H. Meyer, _Deutsche + Volkskunde_, 1898, pp. 154, 164), has her own room; she may + receive her lover; it is no great shame if she gives herself to + him. The number of women who enter legal marriage still virgins + is not large (this refers more especially to Baden), but public + opinion protects them, and such opinion is unfavorable to the + disregard of the responsibilities involved by sexual + relationships. The German woman is less chaste before marriage + than her French or Italian sister. But, Meyer adds, she is + probably more faithful after marriage than they are. + + It is assumed by many that this state of German morality as it + exists to-day is a new phenomenon, and the sign of a rapid + national degeneration. That is by no means the case. In this + connection we may accept the evidence of Catholic priests, who, + by the experience of the confessional, are enabled to speak with + authority. An old Bavarian priest thus writes (_Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, 1907, Bd. ii, Heft I): "At Moral Congresses we + hear laudation of 'the good old times' when, faith and morality + prevailed among the people. Whether that is correct is another + question. As a young priest I heard of as many and as serious + sins as I now hear of as an old man. The morality of the people + is not greater nor is it less. The error is the belief that + immorality goes out of the towns and poisons the country. People + talk as though the country were a pure Paradise of innocence. I + will by no means call our country people immoral, but from an + experience of many years I can say that in sexual respects there + is no difference between town and country. I have learnt to know + more than a hundred different parishes, and in the most various + localities, in the mountain and in the plain, on poor land and on + rich land. But everywhere I find the same morals and lack of + morals. There are everywhere the same men, though in the country + there are often better Christians than in the towns." + + If, however, we go much farther back than the memories of a + living man it seems highly probable that the sexual customs of + the German people of the present day are not substantially + different--though it may well be that at different periods + different circumstances have accentuated them--from what they + were in the dawn of Teutonic history. This is the opinion of one + of the profoundest students of Indo-Germanic origins. In his + _Reallexicon_ (art. "Keuschheit") O. Schrader points out that the + oft-quoted Tacitus, strictly considered, can only be taken to + prove that women were chaste after marriage, and that no + prostitution existed. There can be no doubt, he adds, and the + earliest historical evidence shows, that women in ancient Germany + were not chaste before marriage. This fact has been disguised by + the tendency of the old classic writers to idealize the Northern + peoples. + + Thus we have to realize that the conception of "German virtue," + which has been rendered so familiar to the world by a long + succession of German writers, by no means involves any special + devotion to the virtue of chastity. Tacitus, indeed, in the + passage more often quoted in Germany than any other passage in + classic literature, while correctly emphasizing the late puberty + of the Germans and their brutal punishment of conjugal infidelity + on the part of the wife, seemed to imply that they were also + chaste. But we have always to remark that Tacitus wrote as a + satirizing moralist as well as a historian, and that, as he + declaimed concerning the virtues of the German barbarians, he had + one eye on the Roman gallery whose vices he desired to lash. Much + the same perplexing confusion has been created by Gildas, who, in + describing the results of the Saxon Conquest of Britain, wrote as + a preacher as well as a historian, and the same moral purpose (as + Dill has pointed out) distorts Salvian's picture of the vices of + fifth century Gaul. (I may add that some of the evidence in favor + of the sexual freedom involved by early Teutonic faiths and + customs is brought together in the study of "Sexual Periodicity" + in the first volume of these _Studies_; cf. also, Rudeck, + _Geschichte der öffentlichen Sittlichkeit in Deutschland_, 1897, + pp. 146 et seq.). + + The freedom and tolerance of Russian sexual customs is fairly + well-known. As a Russian correspondent writes to me, "the + liberalism of Russian manners enables youths and girls to enjoy + complete independence. They visit each other alone, they walk out + alone, and they return home at any hour they please. They have a + liberty of movement as complete as that of grown-up persons; some + avail themselves of it to discuss politics and others to make + love. They are able also to procure any books they please; thus + on the table of a college girl I knew I saw the _Elements of + Social Science_, then prohibited in Russia; this girl lived with + her aunt, but she had her own room, which only her friends were + allowed to enter: her aunt or other relations never entered it. + Naturally, she went out and came back at what hours she pleased. + Many other college girls enjoy the same freedom in their + families. It is very different in Italy, where girls have no + freedom of movement, and can neither go out alone nor receive + gentlemen alone, and where, unlike Russia, a girl who has sexual + intercourse outside marriage is really 'lost' and 'dishonored'" + (cf. _Sexual-Probleme_, Aug., 1908, p. 506). + + It would appear that freedom of sexual relationships in + Russia--apart from the influence of ancient custom--has largely + been rendered necessary by the difficulty of divorce. Married + couples, who were unable to secure divorce, separated and found + new partners without legal marriage. In 1907, however, an attempt + was made to remedy this defect in the law; a liberal divorce law + has been introduced, mutual consent with separation for a period + of over a year being recognized as adequate ground for divorce + (Beiblatt to _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Bd. ii, Heft 5, p. + 145). + + During recent years there has developed among educated young men + and women in Russia a movement of sexual license, which, though + it is doubtless supported by the old traditions of sexual + freedom, must by no means be confused with that freedom, since it + is directly due to causes of an entirely different order. The + strenuous revolutionary efforts made during the last years of the + past century to attain political freedom absorbed the younger and + more energetic section of the educated classes, involved a high + degree of mental tension, and were accompanied by a tendency to + asceticism. The prospect of death was constantly before their + eyes, and any pre-occupation with sexual matters would have been + felt as out of harmony with the spirit of revolution. But during + the present century revolutionary activity has largely ceased. It + has been, to a considerable extent, replaced by a movement of + interest in sexual problems and of indulgence in sexual + unrestraint, often taking on a somewhat licentious and sensual + character. "Free love" unions have been formed by the students of + both sexes for the cultivation of these tendencies. A novel, + Artzibascheff's _Ssanin_, has had great influence in promoting + these tendencies. It is not likely that this movement, in its + more extravagant forms, will be of long duration. (For some + account of this movement, see, e.g., Werner Daya, "Die Sexuelle + Bewegung in Russland," _Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft_, + Aug., 1908; also, "Les Associations Erotiques en Russe," _Journal + du Droit International Privé_, Jan., 1909, fully summarized in + _Revue des Idées_, Feb., 1909.) + + The movement of sexual freedom in Russia lies much deeper, + however, than this fashion of sensual license; it is found in + remote and uncontaminated parts of the country, and is connected + with very ancient customs. + + There is considerable interest in realizing the existence of + long-continued sexual freedom--by some incorrectly termed + "immorality," for what is in accordance with the customs or + _mores_ of a people cannot be immoral--among peoples so virile + and robust, so eminently capable of splendid achievements, as the + Germans and the Russians. There is, however, a perhaps even + greater interest in tracing the development of the same tendency + among new prosperous and highly progressive communities who have + either not inherited the custom of sexual freedom or are now only + reviving it. We may, for instance, take the case of Australia and + New Zealand. This development may not, indeed, be altogether + recent. The frankness of sexual freedom in Australia and the + tolerance in regard to it were conspicuous thirty years ago to + those who came from England to live in the Southern continent, + and were doubtless equally visible at an earlier date. It seems, + however, to have developed with the increase of self-conscious + civilization. "After careful inquiry," says the Rev. H. + Northcote, who has lived for many years in the Southern + hemisphere (_Christianity and Sex Problems_, Ch. VIII), "the + writer finds sufficient evidence that of recent years intercourse + out of wedlock has tended towards an actual increase in parts of + Australia." Coghlan, the chief authority on Australian + statistics, states more precisely in his _Childbirth in New South + Wales_, published a few years ago: "The prevalence of births of + ante-nuptial conception--a matter hitherto little understood--has + now been completely investigated. In New South Wales, during six + years, there were 13,366 marriages, in respect of which there was + ante-nuptial conception, and, as the total number of marriages + was 49,641, at least twenty-seven marriages in a hundred followed + conception. During the same period the illegitimate births + numbered 14,779; there were, therefore, 28,145 cases of + conception amongst unmarried women; in 13,366 instances marriage + preceded the birth of the child, so that the children were + legitimatized in rather more than forty-seven cases out of one + hundred. A study of the figures of births of ante-nuptial + conception makes it obvious that in a very large number of + instances pre-marital intercourse is not an anticipation of + marriage already arranged, but that the marriages are forced upon + the parties, and would not be entered into were it not for the + condition of the woman" (cf. Powys, _Biometrika_, vol. i, 1901-2, + p. 30). That marriage should be, as Coghlan puts it, "forced upon + the parties," is not, of course, desirable in the general moral + interests, and it is also a sign of imperfect moral + responsibility in the parties themselves. + + The existence of such a state of things, in a young country + belonging to a part of the world where the general level of + prosperity, intelligence, morality and social responsibility may + perhaps be said to be higher than in any other region inhabited + by people of white race, is a fact of the very first significance + when we are attempting to forecast the direction in which + civilized morality is moving. + +It is sometimes said, or at least implied, that in this movement women are +taking only a passive part, and that the initiative lies with men who are +probably animated by a desire to escape the responsibilities of marriage. +This is very far from being the case. + + The active part taken by German girls in sexual matters is + referred to again and again by the Lutheran pastors in their + elaborate and detailed report. Of the Dantzig district it is said + "the young girls give themselves to the youths, or even seduce + them." The military manoeuvres are frequently a source of + unchastity in rural districts. "The fault is not merely with the + soldiers, but chiefly with the girls, who become half mad as soon + as they see a soldier," it is reported from the Dresden district. + And in summarizing conditions in East Germany the report states: + "In sexual wantonness girls are not behind the young men; they + allow themselves to be seduced only too willingly; even grown-up + girls often go with half-grown youths, and girls frequently give + themselves to several men, one after the other. It is by no means + always the youth who effects the seduction, it is very frequently + the girls who entice the youth to sexual intercourse; they do not + always wait till the men come to their rooms, but will go to the + men's rooms and await them in their beds. With this inclination + to sexual intercourse, it is not surprising that many believe + that after sixteen no girl is a virgin. Unchastity among the + rural laboring classes is universal, and equally pronounced in + both sexes" (op. cit., vol. i, 218). + + Among women of the educated classes the conditions are somewhat + different. Restraints, both internal and external, are very much + greater. Virginity, at all events in its physical fact, is + retained, for the most part, till long past girlhood, and when it + is lost that loss is concealed with a scrupulous care and + prudence unknown to the working-classes. Yet the fundamental + tendencies remain the same. So far as England is concerned, + Geoffrey Mortimer quite truly writes (_Chapters on Human Love_, + 1898, p. 117) that the two groups of (1) women who live in + constant secret association with a single lover, and (2) women + who give themselves to men, without fear, from the force of their + passions, are "much larger than is generally supposed. In all + classes of society there are women who are only virgins by + repute. Many have borne children without being even suspected of + cohabitation; but the majority adopt methods of preventing + conception. A doctor in a small provincial town declared to me + that such irregular intimacies were the rule, and not by any + means the exception in his district." As regards Germany, a lady + doctor, Frau Adams-Lehmann, states in a volume of the + Transactions of the German Society for Combating Venereal Disease + (_Sexualpädagogik_, p. 271): "I can say that during consultation + hours I see very few virgins over thirty. These women," she adds, + "are sensible, courageous and natural, often the best of their + sex; and we ought to give them our moral support. They are + working towards a new age." + +It is frequently stated that the pronounced tendency witnessed at the +present time to dispense as long as possible with the formal ceremony of +binding marriage is unfortunate because it places women in a +disadvantageous position. In so far as the social environment in which she +lives views with disapproval sexual relationship without formal marriage, +the statement is obviously to that extent true, though it must be +remarked, on the other hand, that when social opinion strongly favors +legal marriage it acts as a compelling force in the direction of +legitimating free unions. But if the absence of the formal marriage bond +constituted a real and intrinsic disadvantage to women in sexual relations +they would not show themselves so increasingly ready to dispense with it. +And, as a matter of fact, those who are intimately acquainted with the +facts declare that the absence of formal marriage tends to give increased +consideration to women and is even favorable to fidelity and to the +prolongation of the union. This seems to be true as regards people of the +most different social classes and even of different races. It is probably +based on fundamental psychological facts, for the sense of compulsion +always tends to produce a movement of exasperation and revolt. We are not +here concerned with the question as to how far formal marriage also is +based on natural facts; that is a question which will come up for +discussion at a later stage. + + The advantage for women of free sexual unions over compulsory + marriage is well recognized in the case of the working classes of + London, among whom sexual relationships before marriage are not + unusual, and are indulgently regarded. It is, for instance, + clearly asserted in the monumental work of C. Booth, _Life and + Labour of the People_. "It is even said of rough laborers," we + read, for instance, in the final volume of this work (p. 41), + "that they behave best if not married to the woman with whom they + live." The evidence on this point is often the more impressive + because brought forward by people who are very far indeed from + being anxious to base any general conclusions on it. Thus in the + same volume a clergyman is quoted as saying: "These people manage + to live together fairly peaceably so long as they are not + married, but if they marry it always seems to lead to blows and + rows." + + It may be said that in such a case we witness not so much the + operation of a natural law as the influences of a great centre of + civilization exerting its moralizing effects even on those who + stand outside the legally recognized institution of marriage. + That contention may, however, be thrust aside. We find exactly + the same tendency in Jamaica where the population is largely + colored, and the stress of a high civilization can scarcely be + said to exist. Legal marriage is here discarded to an even + greater extent than in London, for little care is taken to + legitimate children by marriage. It was found by a committee + appointed to inquire into the marriage laws of Jamaica, that + three out of every five births are illegitimate, that is to say + that legal illegitimacy has ceased to be immoral, having become + the recognized custom of the majority of the inhabitants. There + is no social feeling against illegitimacy. The men approve of the + decay of legal marriage, because they say the women work better + in the house when they are not married; the women approve of it, + because they say that men are more faithful when not bound by + legal marriage. This has been well brought out by W.P. + Livingstone in his interesting book, _Black Jamaica_ (1899). The + people recognize, he tells us (p. 210), that "faithful living + together constitutes marriage;" they say that they are "married + but not parsoned." One reason against legal marriage is that they + are disinclined to incur the expense of the official sanction. + (In Venezuela, it may be added, where also the majority of births + take place outside official marriage, the chief reason is stated + to be, not moral laxity, but the same disinclination to pay the + expenses of legal weddings.) Frequently in later life, sometimes + when they have grown up sons and daughters, couples go through + the official ceremony. (In Abyssinia, also, it is stated by + Hugues Le Roux, where the people are Christian and marriage is + indissoluble and the ceremony expensive, it is not usual for + married couples to make their unions legal until old age is + coming on, _Sexual-Probleme_, April, 1908, p. 217.) It is + significant that this condition of things in Jamaica, as + elsewhere, is associated with the superiority of women. "The + women of the peasant class," remarks Livingstone (p. 212), "are + still practically independent of the men, and are frequently + their superiors, both in physical and mental capacity." They + refuse to bind themselves to a man who may turn out to be good + for nothing, a burden instead of a help and protection. So long + as the unions are free they are likely to be permanent. If made + legal, the risk is that they will become intolerable, and cease + by one of the parties leaving the other. "The necessity for + mutual kindness and forbearance establishes a condition that is + the best guarantee of permanency" (p. 214). It is said, however, + that under the influence of religious and social pressure the + people are becoming more anxious to adopt "respectable" ideas of + sexual relationships, though it seems evident, in view of + Livingstone's statement, that such respectability is likely to + involve a decrease of real morality. Livingstone points out, + however, one serious defect in the present conditions which makes + it easy for immoral men to escape paternal responsibilities, and + this is the absence of legal provision for the registration of + the father's name on birth certificates (p. 256). In every + country where the majority of births are illegitimate it is an + obvious social necessity that the names of both parents should be + duly registered on all birth certificates. It has been an + unpardonable failure on the part of the Jamaican Government to + neglect the simple measure needed to give "each child born in the + country a legal father" (p. 258). + +We thus see that we have to-day reached a position in which--partly owing +to economic causes and partly to causes which are more deeply rooted in +the tendencies involved by civilization--women are more often detached +than of old from legal sexual relationship with men and both sexes are +less inclined than in earlier stages of civilization to sacrifice their +own independence even when they form such relationships. "I never heard of +a woman over sixteen years of age who, prior to the breakdown of +aboriginal customs after the coming of the whites, had not a husband," +wrote Curr of the Australian Blacks.[271] Even as regards some parts of +Europe, it is still possible to-day to make almost the same statement. But +in all the richer, more energetic, and progressive countries very +different conditions prevail. Marriage is late and a certain proportion of +men, and a still larger proportion of women (who exceed the men in the +general population) never marry at all.[272] + +Before we consider the fateful significance of this fact of the growing +proportion of adult unmarried women whose sexual relationships are +unrecognized by the state and largely unrecognized altogether, it may be +well to glance summarily at the two historical streams of tendency, both +still in action among us, which affect the status of women, the one +favoring the social equality of the sexes, the other favoring the social +subjection of women. It is not difficult to trace these two streams both +in conduct and opinion, in practical morality and in theoretical morality. + +At one time it was widely held that in early states of society, before the +establishment of the patriarchal stage which places women under the +protection of men, a matriarchal stage prevailed in which women possessed +supreme power.[273] Bachofen, half a century ago, was the great champion +of this view. He found a typical example of a matriarchal state among the +ancient Lycians of Asia Minor with whom, Herodotus stated, the child takes +the name of the mother, and follows her status, not that of the +father.[274] Such peoples, Bachofen believed, were gynæcocratic; power was +in the hands of women. It can no longer be said that this opinion, in the +form held by Bachofen, meets with any considerable support. As to the +widespread prevalence of descent through the mother, there is no doubt +whatever that it has prevailed very widely. But such descent through the +mother, it has become recognized, by no means necessarily involves the +power of the mother, and mother-descent may even be combined with a +patriarchal system.[275] There has even been a tendency to run to the +opposite extreme from Bachofen and to deny that mother-descent conferred +any special claim for consideration on women. That, however, seems +scarcely in accordance with the evidence and even in the absence of +evidence could scarcely be regarded as probable. It would seem that we may +fairly take as a type of the matriarchal family that based on the _ambil +anak_ marriage of Sumatra, in which the husband lives in the wife's +family, paying nothing and occupying a subordinate position. The example +of the Lycians is here in point, for although, as reported by Herodotus, +there is nothing to show that there was anything of the nature of a +gynæcocracy in Lycia, we know that women in all these regions of Asia +Minor enjoyed high consideration and influence, traces of which may be +detected in the early literature and history of Christianity. A decisive +and better known example of the favorable influence of mother-descent on +the status of woman is afforded by the _beena_ marriage of early Arabia. +Under such a system the wife is not only preserved from the subjection +involved by purchase, which always casts upon her some shadow of the +inferiority belonging to property, but she herself is the owner of the +tent and the household property, and enjoys the dignity always involved by +the possession of property and the ability to free herself from her +husband.[276] + +It is also impossible to avoid connecting the primitive tendency to +mother-descent, and the emphasis it involved on maternal rather than +paternal generative energy, with the tendency to place the goddess rather +than the god in the forefront of primitive pantheons, a tendency which +cannot possibly fail to reflect honor on the sex to which the supreme +deity belongs, and which may be connected with the large part which +primitive women often play in the functions of religion. Thus, according +to traditions common to all the central tribes of Australia, the woman +formerly took a much greater share in the performance of sacred ceremonies +which are now regarded as coming almost exclusively within the masculine +province, and in at least one tribe which seems to retain ancient +practices the women still actually take part in these ceremonies.[277] It +seems to have been much the same in Europe. We observe, too, both in the +Celtic pantheon and among Mediterranean peoples, that while all the +ancient divinities have receded into the dim background yet the goddesses +loom larger than the gods.[278] In Ireland, where ancient custom and +tradition have always been very tenaciously preserved, women retained a +very high position, and much freedom both before and after marriage. +"Every woman," it was said, "is to go the way she willeth freely," and +after marriage she enjoyed a better position and greater freedom of +divorce than was afforded either by the Christian Church or the English +common law.[279] There is less difficulty in recognizing that +mother-descent was peculiarly favorable to the high status of women when +we realize that even under very unfavorable conditions women have been +able to exert great pressure on the men and to resist successfully the +attempts to tyrannize over them.[280] + +If we consider the status of woman in the great empires of antiquity we +find on the whole that in their early stage, the stage of growth, as well +as in their final stage, the stage of fruition, women tend to occupy a +favorable position, while in their middle stage, usually the stage of +predominating military organization on a patriarchal basis, women occupy a +less favorable position. This cyclic movement seems to be almost a natural +law of the development of great social groups. It was apparently well +marked in the very stable and orderly growth of Babylonia. In the earliest +times a Babylonian woman had complete independence and equal rights with +her brothers and her husband; later (as shown by the code of Hamurabi) a +woman's rights, though not her duties, were more circumscribed; in the +still later Neo-Babylonian periods, she again acquired equal rights with +her husband.[281] + +In Egypt the position of women stood highest at the end, but it seems to +have been high throughout the whole of the long course of Egyptian +history, and continuously improving, while the fact that little regard was +paid to prenuptial chastity and that marriage contracts placed no stress +on virginity indicate the absence of the conception of women as property. +More than three thousand five hundred years ago men and women were +recognized as equal in Egypt. The high position of the Egyptian woman is +significantly indicated by the fact that her child was never illegitimate; +illegitimacy was not recognized even in the case of a slave woman's +child.[282] "It is the glory of Egyptian morality," says Amélineau, "to +have been the first to express the Dignity of Woman."[283] The idea of +marital authority was altogether unknown in Egypt. There can be no doubt +that the high status of woman in two civilizations so stable, so vital, so +long-lived, and so influential on human culture as Babylonia and Egypt, is +a fact of much significance. + + Among the Jews there seems to have been no intermediate stage of + subordination of women, but instead a gradual progress throughout + from complete subjection of the woman as wife to ever greater + freedom. At first the husband could repudiate his wife at will + without cause. (This was not an extension of patriarchal + authority, but a purely marital authority.) The restrictions on + this authority gradually increased, and begin to be observable + already in the Book of Deuteronomy. The Mishnah went further and + forbade divorce whenever the wife's condition inspired pity (as + in insanity, captivity, etc.). By A.D. 1025, divorce was no + longer possible except for legitimate reasons or by the wife's + consent. At the same time, the wife also began to acquire the + right of divorce in the form of compelling the husband to + repudiate her on penalty of punishment in case of refusal. On + divorce the wife became an independent woman in her own right, + and was permitted to carry off the dowry which her husband gave + her on marriage. Thus, notwithstanding Jewish respect for the + letter of the law, the flexible jurisprudence of the Rabbis, in + harmony with the growth of culture, accorded an ever-growing + measure of sexual justice and equality to women (D.W. Amram, _The + Jewish Law of Divorce_). + + Among the Arabs the tendency of progress has also been favorable + to women in many respects, especially as regards inheritance. + Before Mahommed, in accordance with the system prevailing at + Medina, women had little or no right of inheritance. The + legislation of the Koran modified this rule, without entirely + abolishing it, and placed women in a much better position. This + is attributed largely to the fact that Mahommed belonged not to + Medina, but to Mecca, where traces of matriarchal custom still + survived (W. Marçais, _Des Parents et des Alliés Successibles en + Droit Musulman_). + + It may be pointed out--for it is not always realized--that even + that stage of civilization--when it occurs--which involves the + subordination and subjection of woman and her rights really has + its origin in the need for the protection of women, and is + sometimes even a sign of the acquirement of new privileges by + women. They are, as it were, locked up, not in order to deprive + them of their rights, but in order to guard those rights. In the + later more stable phase of civilization, when women are no longer + exposed to the same dangers, this motive is forgotten and the + guardianship of woman and her rights seems, and indeed has really + become, a hardship rather than an advantage. + +Of the status of women at Rome in the earliest periods we know little or +nothing; the patriarchal system was already firmly established when Roman +history begins to become clear and it involved unusually strict +subordination of the woman to her father first and then to her husband. +But nothing is more certain than that the status of women in Rome rose +with the rise of civilization, exactly in the same way as in Babylonia and +in Egypt. In the case of Rome, however, the growing refinement of +civilization, and the expansion of the Empire, were associated with the +magnificent development of the system of Roman law, which in its final +forms consecrated the position of women. In the last days of the Republic +women already began to attain the same legal level as men, and later the +great Antonine jurisconsults, guided by their theory of natural law, +reached the conception of the equality of the sexes as a principle of the +code of equity. The patriarchal subordination of women fell into complete +discredit, and this continued until, in the days of Justinian, under the +influence of Christianity, the position of women began to suffer.[284] In +the best days the older forms of Roman marriage gave place to a form +(apparently old but not hitherto considered reputable) which amounted in +law to a temporary deposit of the woman by her family. She was independent +of her husband (more especially as she came to him with her own dowry) and +only nominally dependent on her family. Marriage was a private contract, +accompanied by a religious ceremony if desired, and being a contract it +could be dissolved, for any reason, in the presence of competent +witnesses and with due legal forms, after the advice of the family council +had been taken. Consent was the essence of this marriage and no shame, +therefore, attached to its dissolution. Nor had it any evil effect either +on the happiness or the morals of Roman women.[285] Such a system is +obviously more in harmony with modern civilized feeling than any system +that has ever been set up in Christendom. + +In Rome, also, it is clear that this system was not a mere legal invention +but the natural outgrowth of an enlightened public feeling in favor of the +equality of men and women, often even in the field of sexual morality. +Plautus, who makes the old slave Syra ask why there is not the same law in +this respect for the husband as for the wife,[286] had preceded the legist +Ulpian who wrote: "It seems to be very unjust that a man demands chastity +of his wife while he himself shows no example of it."[287] Such demands +lie deeper than social legislation, but the fact that these questions +presented themselves to typical Roman men indicates the general attitude +towards women. In the final stage of Roman society the bond of the +patriarchal system so far as women were concerned dwindled to a mere +thread binding them to their fathers and leaving them quite free face to +face with their husbands. "The Roman matron of the Empire," says Hobhouse, +"was more fully her own mistress than the married woman of any earlier +civilization, with the possible exception of a certain period of Egyptian +history, and, it must be added, than the wife of any later civilization +down to our own generation."[288] + + On the strength of the statements of two satirical writers, + Juvenal and Tacitus, it has been supposed by many that Roman + women of the late period were given up to license. It is, + however, idle to seek in satirists any balanced picture of a + great civilization. Hobhouse (loc. cit., p. 216) concludes that + on the whole, Roman women worthily retained the position of their + husbands' companions, counsellors and friends which they had + held when an austere system placed them legally in his power. + Most authorities seem now to be of this opinion, though at an + earlier period Friedländer expressed himself more dubiously. Thus + Dill, in his judicious _Roman Society_ (p. 163), states that the + Roman woman's position, both in law and in fact, rose during the + Empire; without being less virtuous or respected, she became far + more accomplished and attractive; with fewer restraints she had + greater charm and influence, even in public affairs, and was more + and more the equal of her husband. "In the last age of the + Western Empire there is no deterioration in the position and + influence of women." Principal Donaldson, also, in his valuable + historical sketch, _Woman_, considers (p. 113) that there was no + degradation of morals in the Roman Empire; "the licentiousness of + Pagan Rome is nothing to the licentiousness of Christian Africa, + Rome, and Gaul, if we can put any reliance on the description of + Salvian." Salvian's description of Christendom is probably + exaggerated and one-sided, but exactly the same may be said in an + even greater degree of the descriptions of ancient Rome left by + clever Pagan satirists and ascetic Christian preachers. + +It thus becomes necessary to leap over considerably more than a thousand +years before we reach a stage of civilization in any degree approaching in +height the final stage of Roman society. In the eighteenth and nineteenth +centuries, at first in France, then in England, we find once more the +moral and legal movement tending towards the equalization of women with +men. We find also a long series of pioneers of that movement foreshadowing +its developments: Mary Astor, "Sophia, a Lady of Quality," Ségur, Mrs. +Wheeler, and very notably Mary Wollstonecraft in _A Vindication of the +Rights of Woman_, and John Stuart Mill in _The Subjection of Women_.[289] + +The main European stream of influences in this matter within historical +times has involved, we can scarcely doubt when we take into consideration +its complex phenomena as a whole, the maintenance of an inequality to the +disadvantage of women. The fine legacy of Roman law to Europe was indeed +favorable to women, but that legacy was dispersed and for the most part +lost in the more predominating influence of tenacious Teutonic custom +associated with the vigorously organized Christian Church. Notwithstanding +that the facts do not all point in the same direction, and that there is +consequently some difference of opinion, it seems evident that on the +whole both Teutonic custom and Christian religion were unfavorable to the +equality of women with men. Teutonic custom in this matter was determined +by two decisive factors: (1) the existence of marriage by purchase which +although, as Crawley has pointed out, it by no means necessarily involves +the degradation of women, certainly tends to place them in an inferior +position, and (2) pre-occupation with war which is always accompanied by a +depreciation of peaceful and feminine occupations and an indifference to +love. Christianity was at its origin favorable to women because it +liberated and glorified the most essentially feminine emotions, but when +it became an established and organized religion with definitely ascetic +ideals, its whole emotional tone grew unfavorable to women. It had from +the first excluded them from any priestly function. It now regarded them +as the special representatives of the despised element of sex in +life.[290] The eccentric Tertullian had once declared that woman was +_janua Diaboli_; nearly seven hundred years later, even the gentle and +philosophic Anselm wrote: _Femina fax est Satanæ_.[291] + + Thus among the Franks, with whom the practice of monogamy + prevailed, a woman was never free; she could not buy or sell or + inherit without the permission of those to whom she belonged. She + passed into the possession of her husband by acquisition, and + when he fixed the wedding day he gave her parents coins of small + money as _arrha_, and the day after the wedding she received from + him a present, the _morgengabe_. A widow belonged to her parents + again (Bedollière, _Histoire de Moeurs des Français_, + vol. i, p. 180). It is true that the Salic law ordained a + pecuniary fine for touching a woman, even for squeezing her + finger, but it is clear that the offence thus committed was an + offence against property, and by no means against the sanctity of + a woman's personality. The primitive German husband could sell + his children, and sometimes his wife, even into slavery. In the + eleventh century cases of wife-selling are still heard of, though + no longer recognized by law. + + The traditions of Christianity were more favorable to sexual + equality than were Teutonic customs, but in becoming amalgamated + with those customs they added their own special contribution as + to woman's impurity. This spiritual inferiority of woman was + significantly shown by the restrictions sometimes placed on women + in church, and even in the right to enter a church; in some + places they were compelled to remain in the narthex, even in + non-monastic churches (see for these rules, Smith and Cheetham, + _Dictionary of Christian Antiquities_, art. "Sexes, Separation + of"). + + By attempting to desexualize the idea of man and to oversexualize + the idea of woman, Christianity necessarily degraded the position + of woman and the conception of womanhood. As Donaldson well + remarks, in pointing this out (op. cit., p. 182), "I may define + man as a male human being and woman as a female human being.... + What the early Christians did was to strike the 'male' out of the + definition of man, and 'human being' out of the definition of + woman." Religion generally appears to be a powerfully depressing + influence on the position of woman notwithstanding the appeal + which it makes to woman. Westermarck considers, indeed (_Origin + and Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. i, p. 669), that + religion "has probably been the most persistent cause of the + wife's subjection to her husband's rule." + + It is sometimes said that the Christian tendency to place women + in an inferior spiritual position went so far that a church + council formally denied that women have souls. This foolish story + has indeed been repeated in a parrot-like fashion by a number of + writers. The source of the story is probably to be found in the + fact, recorded by Gregory of Tours, in his history (lib. viii, + cap. XX), that at the Council of Mâcon, in 585, a bishop was in + doubt as to whether the term "man" included woman, but was + convinced by the other members of the Council that it did. The + same difficulty has presented itself to lawyers in more modern + times, and has not always been resolved so favorably to woman as + by the Christian Council of Mâcon. + + The low estimate of women that prevailed even in the early Church + is admitted by Christian scholars. "We cannot but notice," writes + Meyrick (art. "Marriage," Smith and Cheetham, _Dictionary of + Christian Antiquities_), "even in the greatest of the Christian + fathers a lamentably low estimate of woman, and consequently of + the marriage relationship. Even St. Augustine can see no + justification for marriage, except in a grave desire deliberately + adopted of having children; and in accordance with this view, all + married intercourse, except for this single purpose, is harshly + condemned. If marriage is sought after for the sake of children, + it is justifiable; if entered into as a _remedium_ to avoid worse + evils, it is pardonable; the idea of the mutual society, help, + and comfort that the one ought to have of the other, both in + prosperity and adversity, hardly existed, and could hardly yet + exist." + + From the woman's point of view, Lily Braun, in her important work + on the woman question (_Die Frauenfrage_, 1901, pp. 28 et seq.) + concludes that, in so far as Christianity was favorable to women, + we must see that favorable influence in the placing of women on + the same moral level as men, as illustrated in the saying of + Jesus, "Let him who is without sin amongst you cast the first + stone," implying that each sex owes the same fidelity. It + reached, she adds, no further than this. "Christianity, which + women accepted as a deliverance with so much enthusiasm, and died + for as martyrs, has not fulfilled their hopes." + + Even as regards the moral equality of the sexes in marriage, the + position of Christian authorities was sometimes equivocal. One of + the greatest of the Fathers, St. Basil, in the latter half of the + fourth century, distinguished between adultery and fornication as + committed by a married man; if with a married woman, it was + adultery; if with an unmarried woman, it was merely fornication. + In the former case, a wife should not receive her husband back; + in the latter case, she should (art. "Adultery," Smith and + Cheetham, _Dictionary of Christian Antiquities_). Such a + decision, by attaching supreme importance to a distinction which + could make no difference to the wife, involved a failure to + recognize her moral personality. Many of the Fathers in the + Western Church, however, like Jerome, Augustine, and Ambrose, + could see no reason why the moral law should not be the same for + the husband as for the wife, but as late Roman feeling both on + the legal and popular side was already approximating to that + view, the influence of Christianity was scarcely required to + attain it. It ultimately received formal sanction in the Roman + Canon Law, which decreed that adultery is equally committed by + either conjugal party in two degrees: (1) _simplex_, of the + married with the unmarried, and (2) _duplex_, of the married with + the married. + + It can scarcely be said, however, that Christianity succeeded in + attaining the inclusion of this view of the moral equality of the + sexes into actual practical morality. It was accepted in theory; + it was not followed in practice. W.G. Sumner, discussing this + question (_Folkways_, pp. 359-361), concludes: "Why are these + views not in the _mores?_ Undoubtedly it is because they are + dogmatic in form, invented or imposed by theological authority or + philosophical speculation. They do not grow out of the experience + of life, and cannot be verified by it. The reasons are in + ultimate physiological facts, by virtue of which one is a woman + and the other is a man." There is, however, more to be said on + this point later. + +It was probably, however, not so much the Church as Teutonic customs and +the development of the feudal system, with the masculine and military +ideals it fostered, that was chiefly decisive in fixing the inferior +position of women in the mediæval world. Even the ideas of chivalry, which +have often been supposed to be peculiarly favorable to women, so far as +they affected women seem to have been of little practical significance. + + In his great work on chivalry Gautier brings forward much + evidence to show that the feudal spirit, like the military spirit + always and everywhere, on the whole involved at bottom a disdain + for women, even though it occasionally idealized them. "Go into + your painted and gilded rooms," we read in _Renaus de Montauban_, + "sit in the shade, make yourselves comfortable, drink, eat, work + tapestry, dye silk, but remember that you must not occupy + yourselves with our affairs. Our business is to strike with the + steel sword. Silence!" And if the woman insists she is struck on + the face till the blood comes. The husband had a legal right to + beat his wife, not only for adultery, but even for contradicting + him. Women were not, however, entirely without power, and in a + thirteenth century collection of _Coutumes_, it is set down that + a husband must only beat his wife reasonably, _resnablement_. (As + regards the husband's right to chastise his wife, see also + Hobhouse, _Morals in Evolution_, vol. i, p. 234. In England it + was not until the reign of Charles II, from which so many modern + movements date, that the husband was deprived of this legal + right.) + + In the eyes of a feudal knight, it may be added, the beauty of a + horse competed, often successfully, with the beauty of a woman. + In _Girbers de Metz_, two knights, Garin and his cousin Girbert, + ride by a window at which sits a beautiful girl with the face of + a rose and the white flesh of a lily. "Look, cousin Girbert, + look! By Saint Mary, a beautiful woman!" "Ah," Girbert replies, + "a beautiful beast is my horse!" "I have never seen anything so + charming as that young girl with her fresh color and her dark + eyes," says Garin. "I know no steed to compare with mine," + retorts Girbert. When the men were thus absorbed in the things + that pertain to war, it is not surprising that amorous advances + were left to young girls to make. "In all the _chansons de + geste_," Gautier remarks, "it is the young girls who make the + advances, often with effrontery," though, he adds, wives are + represented as more virtuous (L. Gautier, _La Chevalerie_, pp. + 236-8, 348-50). + + In England Pollock and Maitland (_History of English Law_, vol. + ii, p. 437) do not believe that a life-long tutela of women ever + existed as among other Teutonic peoples. "From the Conquest + onwards," Hobhouse states (op. cit., vol. i, p. 224), "the + unmarried English woman, on attaining her majority, becomes + fully equipped with all legal and civil rights, as much a legal + personality as the Babylonian woman had been three thousand years + before." But the developed English law more than made up for any + privileges thus accorded to the unmarried by the inconsistent + manner in which it swathed up the wife in endless folds of + irresponsibility, except when she committed the supreme offence + of injuring her lord and master. The English wife, as Hobhouse + continues (loc. cit.) was, if not her husband's slave, at any + rate his liege subject; if she killed him it was "petty treason," + the revolt of a subject against a sovereign in a miniature + kingdom, and a more serious offence than murder. Murder she could + not commit in his presence, for her personality was merged in + him; he was responsible for most of her crimes and offences (it + was that fact which gave him the right to chastise her), and he + could not even enter into a contract with her, for that would be + entering into a contract with himself. "The very being and legal + existence of a woman is suspended during marriage," said + Blackstone, "or at least is incorporated and consolidated into + that of her husband, under whose wing, protection and cover she + performs everything. So great a favorite," he added, "is the + female sex of the laws of England." "The strength of woman," says + Hobhouse, interpreting the sense of the English law, "was her + weakness. She conquered by yielding. Her gentleness had to be + guarded from the turmoil of the world, her fragrance to be kept + sweet and fresh, away from the dust and the smoke of battle. + Hence her need of a champion and guardian." + + In France the wife of the mediæval and Renaissance periods + occupied much the same position in her husband's house. He was + her absolute master and lord, the head and soul of "the feminine + and feeble creature" who owed to him "perfect love and + obedience." She was his chief servant, the eldest of his + children, his wife and subject; she signed herself "your humble + obedient daughter and friend," when she wrote to him. The + historian, De Maulde la Clavière, who has brought together + evidence on this point in his _Femmes de la Renaissance_, remarks + that even though the husband enjoyed this lofty and superior + position in marriage, it was still generally he, and not the + wife, who complained of the hardships of marriage. + +Law and custom assumed that a woman should be more or less under the +protection of a man, and even the ideals of fine womanhood which arose in +this society, during feudal and later times, were necessarily tinged by +the same conception. It involved the inequality of women as compared with +men, but under the social conditions of a feudal society such inequality +was to woman's advantage. Masculine force was the determining factor in +life and it was necessary that every woman should have a portion of this +force on her side. This sound and reasonable idea naturally tended to +persist even after the growth of civilization rendered force a much less +decisive factor in social life. In England in Queen Elizabeth's time no +woman must be masterless, although the feminine subjects of Queen +Elizabeth had in their sovereign the object lesson of a woman who could +play a very brilliant and effective part in life and yet remain absolutely +masterless. Still later, in the eighteenth century, even so fine a +moralist as Shaftesbury, in his _Characteristics_, refers to lovers of +married women as invaders of property. If such conceptions still ruled +even in the best minds, it is not surprising that in the same century, +even in the following century, they were carried out into practice by less +educated people who frankly bought and sold women. + + Schrader, in his _Reallexicon_ (art. "Brautkauf"), points out + that, originally, the purchase of a wife was the purchase of her + person, and not merely of the right of protecting her. The + original conception probably persisted long in Great Britain on + account of its remoteness from the centres of civilization. In + the eleventh century Gregory VII desired Lanfranc to stop the + sale of wives in Scotland and elsewhere in the island of the + English (Pike, _History of Crime in England_, vol. i, p. 99). The + practice never quite died out, however, in remote country + districts. + + Such transactions have taken place even in London. Thus in the + _Annual Register_ for 1767 (p. 99) we read: "About three weeks + ago a bricklayer's laborer at Marylebone sold a woman, whom he + had cohabited with for several years, to a fellow-workman for a + quarter guinea and a gallon of beer. The workman went off with + the purchase, and she has since had the good fortune to have a + legacy of £200, and some plate, left her by a deceased uncle in + Devonshire. The parties were married last Friday." + + The Rev. J. Edward Vaux (_Church Folk-lore_, second edition, p. + 146) narrates two authentic cases in which women had been bought + by their husbands in open market in the nineteenth century. In + one case the wife, with her own full consent, was brought to + market with a halter round her neck, sold for half a crown, and + led to her new home, twelve miles off by the new husband who had + purchased her; in the other case a publican bought another man's + wife for a two-gallon jar of gin. + + It is the same conception of woman as property which, even to the + present, has caused the retention in many legal codes of clauses + rendering a man liable to pay pecuniary damages to a woman, + previously a virgin, whom he has intercourse with and + subsequently forsakes (Natalie Fuchs, "Die Jungfernschaft im + Recht und Sitte," _Sexual-Probleme_, Feb., 1908). The woman is + "dishonored" by sexual intercourse, depreciated in her market + value, exactly as a new garment becomes "second-hand," even if it + has but once been worn. A man, on the other hand, would disdain + the idea that his personal value could be diminished by any + number of acts of sexual intercourse. + + This fact has even led some to advocate the "abolition of + physical virginity." Thus the German authoress of _Una + Poenitentium_ (1907), considering that the protection of a woman + is by no means so well secured by a little piece of membrane as + by the presence of a true and watchful soul inside, advocates the + operation of removal of the hymen in childhood. It is undoubtedly + true that the undue importance attached to the hymen has led to a + false conception of feminine "honor," and to an unwholesome + conception of feminine purity. + +Custom and law are slowly changing in harmony with changed social +conditions which no longer demand the subjection of women either in their +own interests or in the interests of the community. Concomitantly with +these changes a different ideal of womanly personality is developing. It +is true that the ancient ideal of the lordship of the husband over the +wife is still more or less consciously affirmed around us. The husband +frequently dictates to the wife what avocations she may not pursue, what +places she may not visit, what people she may not know, what books she may +not read. He assumes to control her, even in personal matters having no +direct concern with himself, by virtue of the old masculine prerogative of +force which placed a woman under the hand, as the ancient patriarchal +legists termed it, of a man. It is, however, becoming more and more widely +recognized that such a part is not suited to the modern man. The modern +man, as Rosa Mayreder has pointed out in a thoughtful essay,[292] is no +longer equipped to play this domineering part in relation to his wife. The +"noble savage," leading a wild life on mountain and in forest, hunting +dangerous beasts and scalping enemies when necessary, may occasionally +bring his club gently and effectively on to the head of his wife, even, it +may be, with grateful appreciation on her part.[293] But the modern man, +who for the most part spends his days tamely at a desk, who has been +trained to endure silently the insults and humiliations which superior +officials or patronizing clients may inflict upon him, this typical modern +man is no longer able to assume effectually the part of the "noble savage" +when he returns to his home. He is indeed so unfitted for the part that +his wife resents his attempts to play it. He is gradually recognizing +this, even apart from any consciousness of the general trend of +civilization. The modern man of ideas recognizes that, as a matter of +principle, his wife is entitled to equality with himself; the modern man +of the world feels that it would be both ridiculous and inconvenient not +to accord his wife much the same kind of freedom which he himself +possesses. And, moreover, while the modern man has to some extent acquired +feminine qualities, the modern woman has to a corresponding extent +acquired masculine qualities. + +Brief and summary as the preceding discussion has necessarily been, it +will have served to bring us face to face with the central fact in the +sexual morality which the growth of civilization has at the present day +rendered inevitable: personal responsibility. "The responsible human +being, man or woman, is the centre of modern ethics as of modern law;" +that is the conclusion reached by Hobhouse in his discussion of the +evolution of human morality.[294] The movement which is taking place among +us to liberate sexual relationships from an excessive bondage to fixed and +arbitrary regulations would have been impossible and mischievous but for +the concomitant growth of a sense of personal responsibility in the +members of the community. It could not indeed have subsisted for a single +year without degenerating into license and disorder. Freedom in sexual +relations involves mutual trust and that can only rest on a basis of +personal responsibility. Where there can be no reliance on personal +responsibility there can be no freedom. In most fields of moral action +this sense of personal responsibility is acquired at a fairly early stage +of social progress. Sexual morality is the last field of morality to be +brought within the sphere of personal responsibility. The community +imposes the most varied, complicated, and artificial codes of sexual +morality on its members, especially its feminine members, and, naturally +enough, it is always very suspicious of their ability to observe these +codes, and is careful to allow them, so far as possible, no personal +responsibility in the matter. But a training in restraint, when carried +through a long series of generations, is the best preparation for freedom. +The law laid on the earlier generations, as old theology stated the +matter, has been the schoolmaster to bring the later generations to +Christ; or, as new science expresses exactly the same idea, the later +generations have become immunized and have finally acquired a certain +degree of protection against the virus which would have destroyed the +earlier generations. + + The process by which a people acquires the sense of personal + responsibility is slow, and perhaps it cannot be adequately + acquired at all by races lacking a high grade of nervous + organization. This is especially the case as regards sexual + morality, and has often been illustrated on the contact of a + higher with a lower civilization. It has constantly happened that + missionaries--entirely against their own wishes, it need not be + said--by overthrowing the strict moral system they have found + established, and by substituting the freedom of European customs + among people entirely unprepared for such freedom, have exerted + the most disastrous effects on morality. This has been the case + among the formerly well-organized and highly moral Baganda of + Central Africa, as recorded in an official report by Colonel + Lambkin (_British Medical Journal_, Oct. 3, 1908). + + As regards Polynesia, also, R.L. Stevenson, in his interesting + book, _In the South Seas_ (Ch. V), pointed out that, while before + the coming of the whites the Polynesians were, on the whole, + chaste, and the young carefully watched, now it is far otherwise. + + Even in Fiji, where, according to Lord Stanmore--who was High + Commissioner of the Pacific, and an independent + critic--missionary effort has been "wonderfully successful," + where all own at least nominal allegiance to Christianity, which + has much modified life and character, yet chastity has suffered. + This was shown by a Royal Commission on the condition of the + native races in Fiji. Mr. Fitchett, commenting on this report + (Australasian _Review of Reviews_, Oct., 1897) remarks: "Not a + few witnesses examined by the commission declare that the moral + advance in Fiji is of a curiously patchy type. The abolition of + polygamy, for example, they say, has not told at every point in + favor of women. The woman is the toiler in Fiji; and when the + support of the husband was distributed over four wives, the + burden on each wife was less than it is now, when it has to be + carried by one. In heathen times female chastity was guarded by + the club; a faithless wife, an unmarried mother, was summarily + put to death. Christianity has abolished club-law, and purely + moral restraints, or the terror of the penalties of the next + world, do not, to the limited imagination of the Fijian, quite + take its place. So the standard of Fijian chastity is + distressingly low." + + It must always be remembered that when the highly organized + primitive system of mixed spiritual and physical restraints is + removed, chastity becomes more delicately and unstably poised. + The controlling power of personal responsibility, valuable and + essential as it is, cannot permanently and unremittingly restrain + the volcanic forces of the passion of love even in high + civilizations. "No perfection of moral constitution in a woman," + Hinlon has well said, "no power of will, no wish and resolution + to be 'good,' no force of religion or control of custom, can + secure what is called the virtue of woman. The emotion of + absolute devotion with which some man may inspire her will sweep + them all away. Society, in choosing to erect itself on that + basis, chooses inevitable disorder, and so long as it continues + to choose it will continue to have that result." + +It is necessary to insist for a while on this personal responsibility in +matters of sexual morality, in the form in which it is making itself felt +among us, and to search out its implications. The most important of these +is undoubtedly economic independence. That is indeed so important that +moral responsibility in any fine sense can scarcely be said to have any +existence in its absence. Moral responsibility and economic independence +are indeed really identical; they are but two sides of the same social +fact. The responsible person is the person who is able to answer for his +actions and, if need be, to pay for them. The economically dependent +person can accept a criminal responsibility; he can, with an empty purse, +go to prison or to death. But in the ordinary sphere of everyday morality +that large penalty is not required of him; if he goes against the wishes +of his family or his friends or his parish, they may turn their backs on +him but they cannot usually demand against him the last penalties of the +law. He can exert his own personal responsibility, he can freely choose to +go his own way and to maintain himself in it before his fellowmen on one +condition, that he is able to pay for it. His personal responsibility has +little or no meaning except in so far as it is also economic independence. + +In civilized societies as they attain maturity, the women tend to acquire +a greater and greater degree alike of moral responsibility and economic +independence. Any freedom and seeming equality of women, even when it +actually assumes the air of superiority, which is not so based, is unreal. +It is only on sufferance; it is the freedom accorded to the child, because +it asks for it so prettily or may scream if it is refused. This is merely +parasitism.[295] The basis of economic independence ensures a more real +freedom. Even in societies which by law and custom hold women in strict +subordination, the woman who happens to be placed in possession of +property enjoys a high degree alike of independence and of +responsibility.[296] The growth of a high civilization seems indeed to be +so closely identified with the economic freedom and independence of women +that it is difficult to say which is cause and which effect. Herodotus, in +his fascinating account of Egypt, a land which he regarded as admirable +beyond all other lands, noted with surprise that, totally unlike the +fashion of Greece, women left the men at home to the management of the +loom and went to market to transact the business of commerce.[297] It is +the economic factor in social life which secures the moral responsibility +of women and which chiefly determines the position of the wife in relation +to her husband.[298] In this respect in its late stages civilization +returns to the same point it had occupied at the beginning, when, as has +already been noted, we find greater equality with men and at the same time +greater economic independence.[299] + +In all the leading modern civilized countries, for a century past, custom +and law have combined to give an ever greater economic independence to +women. In some respects England took the lead by inaugurating the great +industrial movement which slowly swept women into its ranks,[300] and made +inevitable the legal changes which, by 1882, insured to a married woman +the possession of her own earnings. The same movement, with its same +consequences, is going on elsewhere. In the United States, just as in +England, there is a vast army of five million women, rapidly increasing, +who earn their own living, and their position in relation to men workers +is even better than in England. In France from twenty-five to seventy-five +per cent. of the workers in most of the chief industries--the liberal +professions, commerce, agriculture, factory industries--are women, and in +some of the very largest, such as home industries and textile industries, +more women are employed than men. In Japan, it is said, three-fifths of +the factory workers are women, and all the textile industries are in the +hands of women.[301] This movement is the outward expression of the modern +conception of personal rights, personal moral worth, and personal +responsibility, which, as Hobhouse has remarked, has compelled women to +take their lives into their own hands, and has at the same time rendered +the ancient marriage laws an anachronism, and the ancient ideals of +feminine innocence shrouded from the world a mere piece of false +sentiment.[302] + + There can be no doubt that the entrance of women into the field + of industrial work, in rivalry with men and under somewhat the + same conditions as men, raises serious questions of another + order. The general tendency of civilization towards the economic + independence and the moral responsibility of women is + unquestionable. But it is by no means absolutely clear that it is + best for women, and, therefore, for the community, that women + should exercise all the ordinary avocations and professions of + men on the same level as men. Not only have the conditions of the + avocations and professions developed in accordance with the + special aptitudes of men, but the fact that the sexual processes + by which the race is propagated demand an incomparably greater + expenditure of time and energy on the part of women than of men, + precludes women in the mass from devoting themselves so + exclusively as men to industrial work. For some biologists, + indeed, it seems clear that outside the home and the school women + should not work at all. "Any nation that works its women is + damned," says Woods Hutchinson (_The Gospel According to Darwin_, + p. 199). That view is extreme. Yet from the economic side, also, + Hobson, in summing up this question, regards the tendency of + machine-industry to drive women away from the home as "a tendency + antagonistic to civilization." The neglect of the home, he + states, is, "on the whole, the worst injury modern industry has + inflicted on our lives, and it is difficult to see how it can be + compensated by any increase of material products. Factory life + for women, save in extremely rare cases, saps the physical and + moral health of the family. The exigencies of factory life are + inconsistent with the position of a good mother, a good wife, or + the maker of a home. Save in extreme circumstances, no increase + of the family wage can balance these losses, whose values stand + upon a higher qualitative level" (J.A. Hobson, _Evolution of + Modern Capitalism_, Ch. XII; cf. what has been said in Ch. I of + the present volume). It is now beginning to be recognized that + the early pioneers of the "woman's movement" in working to remove + the "subjection of woman" were still dominated by the old ideals + of that subjection, according to which the masculine is in all + main respects the superior sex. Whatever was good for man, they + thought, must be equally good for woman. That has been the source + of all that was unbalanced and unstable, sometimes both a little + pathetic and a little absurd, in the old "woman's movement." + There was a failure to perceive that, first of all, women must + claim their right to their own womanhood as mothers of the race, + and thereby the supreme law-givers in the sphere of sex and the + large part of life dependent on sex. This special position of + woman seems likely to require a readjustment of economic + conditions to their needs, though it is not likely that such + readjustment would be permitted to affect their independence or + their responsibility. We have had, as Madame Juliette Adam has + put it, the rights of men sacrificing women, followed by the + rights of women sacrificing the child; that must be followed by + the rights of the child reconstituting the family. It has already + been necessary to touch on this point in the first chapter of + this volume, and it will again be necessary in the last chapter. + +The question as to the method by which the economic independence of women +will be completely insured, and the part which the community may be +expected to take in insuring it, on the ground of woman's special +child-bearing functions, is from the present point of view subsidiary. +There can be no doubt, however, as to the reality of the movement in that +direction, whatever doubt there may be as to the final adjustment of the +details. It is only necessary in this place to touch on some of the +general and more obvious respects in which the growth of woman's +responsibility is affecting sexual morality. + +The first and most obvious way in which the sense of moral responsibility +works is in an insistence on reality in the relationships of sex. Moral +irresponsibility has too often combined with economic dependence to induce +a woman to treat the sexual event in her life which is biologically of +most fateful gravity as a merely gay and trivial event, at the most an +event which has given her a triumph over her rivals and over the superior +male, who, on his part, willingly condescends, for the moment, to assume +the part of the vanquished. "Gallantry to the ladies," we are told of the +hero of the greatest and most typical of English novels, "was among his +principles of honor, and he held it as much incumbent on him to accept a +challenge to love as if it had been a challenge to fight;" he heroically +goes home for the night with a lady of title he meets at a masquerade, +though at the time very much in love with the girl whom he eventually +marries.[303] The woman whose power lies only in her charms, and who is +free to allow the burden of responsibility to fall on a man's +shoulder,[304] could lightly play the seducing part, and thereby exert +independence and authority in the only shapes open to her. The man on his +part, introducing the misplaced idea of "honor" into the field from which +the natural idea of responsibility has been banished, is prepared to +descend at the lady's bidding into the arena, according to the old legend, +and rescue the glove, even though he afterwards flings it contemptuously +in her face. The ancient conception of gallantry, which Tom Jones so well +embodies, is the direct outcome of a system involving the moral +irresponsibility and economic dependence of women, and is as opposed to +the conceptions, prevailing in the earlier and later civilized stages, of +approximate sexual equality as it is to the biological traditions of +natural courtship in the world generally. + +In controlling her own sexual life, and in realizing that her +responsibility for such control can no longer be shifted on to the +shoulders of the other sex, women will also indirectly affect the sexual +lives of men, much as men already affect the sexual lives of women. In +what ways that influence will in the main be exerted it is still premature +to say. According to some, just as formerly men bought their wives and +demanded prenuptial virginity in the article thus purchased, so nowadays, +among the better classes, women are able to buy their husbands, and in +their turn are disposed to demand continence.[305] That, however, is too +simple-minded a way of viewing the question. It is enough to refer to the +fact that women are not attracted to virginal innocence in men and that +they frequently have good ground for viewing such innocence with +suspicion.[306] Yet it may well be believed that women will more and more +prefer to exert a certain discrimination in the approval of their +husbands' past lives. However instinctively a woman may desire that her +husband shall be initiated in the art of making love to her, she may often +well doubt whether the finest initiation is to be secured from the average +prostitute. Prostitution, as we have seen, is ultimately as incompatible +with complete sexual responsibility as is the patriarchal marriage system +with which it has been so closely associated. It is an arrangement mainly +determined by the demands of men, to whatever extent it may have +incidentally subserved various needs of women. Men arranged that one group +of women should be set apart to minister exclusively to their sexual +necessities, while another group should be brought up in asceticism as +candidates for the privilege of ministering to their household and family +necessities. That this has been in many respects a most excellent +arrangement is sufficiently proved by the fact that it has nourished for +so long a period, notwithstanding the influences that are antagonistic to +it. But it is obviously only possible during a certain stage of +civilization and in association with a certain social organization. It is +not completely congruous with a democratic stage of civilization involving +the economic independence and the sexual responsibility of both sexes +alike in all social classes. It is possible that women may begin to +realize this fact earlier than men. + +It is also believed by many that women will realize that a high degree of +moral responsibility is not easily compatible with the practice of +dissimulation and that economic independence will deprive deceit--which is +always the resort of the weak--of whatever moral justification it may +possess. Here, however, it is necessary to speak with caution or we may be +unjust to women. It must be remarked that in the sphere of sex men also +are often the weak, and are therefore apt to resort to the refuge of the +weak. With the recognition of that fact we may also recognize that +deception in women has been the cause of much of the age-long blunders of +the masculine mind in the contemplation of feminine ways. Men have +constantly committed the double error of overlooking the dissimulation of +women and of over-estimating it. This fact has always served to render +more difficult still the inevitably difficult course of women through the +devious path of sexual behavior. Pepys, who represents so vividly and so +frankly the vices and virtues of the ordinary masculine mind, tells how +one day when he called to see Mrs. Martin her sister Doll went out for a +bottle of wine and came back indignant because a Dutchman had pulled her +into a stable and tumbled and tossed her. Pepys having been himself often +permitted to take liberties with her, it seemed to him that her +indignation with the Dutchman was "the best instance of woman's falseness +in the world."[307] He assumes without question that a woman who has +accorded the privilege of familiarity to a man she knows and, one hopes, +respects, would be prepared to accept complacently the brutal attentions +of the first drunken stranger she meets in the street. + +It was the assumption of woman's falseness which led the ultra-masculine +Pepys into a sufficiently absurd error. At this point, indeed, we +encounter what has seemed to some a serious obstacle to the full moral +responsibility of women. Dissimulation, Lombroso and Ferrero argue, is in +woman "almost physiological," and they give various grounds for this +conclusion.[308] The theologians, on their side, have reached a similar +conclusion. "A confessor must not immediately believe a woman's words," +says Father Gury, "for women are habitually inclined to lie."[309] This +tendency, which seems to be commonly believed to affect women as a sex, +however free from it a vast number of individual women are, may be said, +and with truth, to be largely the result of the subjection of women and +therefore likely to disappear as that subjection disappears. In so far, +however, as it is "almost physiological," and based on radical feminine +characters, such as modesty, affectability, and sympathy, which have an +organic basis in the feminine constitution and can therefore never +altogether be changed, feminine dissimulation seems scarcely likely to +disappear. The utmost that can be expected is that it should be held in +check by the developed sense of moral responsibility, and, being reduced +to its simply natural proportions, become recognizably intelligible. + + It is unnecessary to remark that there can be no question here as + to any inherent moral superiority of one sex over the other. The + answer to that question was well stated many years ago by one of + the most subtle moralists of love. "Taken altogether," concluded + Sénancour (_De l'Amour_, vol. ii, p. 85), "we have no reason to + assert the moral superiority of either sex. Both sexes, with + their errors and their good intentions, very equally fulfil the + ends of nature. We may well believe that in either of the two + divisions of the human species the sum of evil and that of good + are about equal. If, for instance, as regards love, we oppose the + visibly licentious conduct of men to the apparent reserve of + women, it would be a vain valuation, for the number of faults + committed by women with men is necessarily the same as that of + men with women. There exist among us fewer scrupulous men than + perfectly honest women, but it is easy to see how the balance is + restored. If this question of the moral preëminence of one sex + over the other were not insoluble it would still remain very + complicated with reference to the whole of the species, or even + the whole of a nation, and any dispute here seems idle." + + This conclusion is in accordance with the general compensatory + and complementary relationship of women to men (see, e.g., + Havelock Ellis, _Man and Woman_, fourth edition, especially pp. + 448 et seq.). + + In a recent symposium on the question whether women are morally + inferior to men, with special reference to aptitude for loyalty + (_La Revue_, Jan. 1, 1909), to which various distinguished French + men and women contributed their opinions, some declared that + women are usually superior; others regarded it as a question of + difference rather than of superiority or inferiority; all were + agreed that when they enjoy the same independence as men, women + are quite as loyal as men. + +It is undoubtedly true that--partly as a result of ancient traditions and +education, partly of genuine feminine characteristics--many women are +diffident as to their right to moral responsibility and unwilling to +assume it. And an attempt is made to justify their attitude by asserting +that woman's part in life is naturally that of self-sacrifice, or, to put +the statement in a somewhat more technical form, that women are naturally +masochistic; and that there is, as Krafft-Ebing argues, a natural "sexual +subjection" of woman. It is by no means clear that this statement is +absolutely true, and if it were true it would not serve to abolish the +moral responsibility of women. + + Bloch (_Beiträge zur Ætiologie der Psychopathia Sexualis_, Part + II, p. 178), in agreement with Eulenburg, energetically denies + that there is any such natural "sexual subjection" of women, + regarding it as artificially produced, the result of the socially + inferior position of women, and arguing that such subjection is + in much higher degree a physiological characteristic of men than + of women. (It has been necessary to discuss this question in + dealing with "Love and Pain" in the third volume of these + _Studies_.) It seems certainly clear that the notion that women + are especially prone to self-sacrifice has little biological + validity. Self-sacrifice by compulsion, whether physical or moral + compulsion, is not worthy of the name; when it is deliberate it + is simply the sacrifice of a lesser good for the sake of a + greater good. Doubtless a man who eats a good dinner may be said + to "sacrifice" his hunger. Even within the sphere of traditional + morality a woman who sacrifices her "honor" for the sake of her + love to a man has, by her "sacrifice," gained something that she + values more. "What a triumph it is to a woman," a woman has said, + "to give pleasure to a man she loves!" And in a morality on a + sound biological basis no "sacrifice" is here called for. It may + rather be said that the biological laws of courtship + fundamentally demand self-sacrifice of the male rather than of + the female. Thus the lioness, according to Gérard the + lion-hunter, gives herself to the most vigorous of her lion + wooers; she encourages them to fight among themselves for + superiority, lying on her belly to gaze at the combat and lashing + her tail with delight. Every female is wooed by many males, but + she only accepts one; it is not the female who is called upon for + erotic self-sacrifice, but the male. That is indeed part of the + divine compensation of Nature, for since the heavier part of the + burden of sex rests on the female, it is fitting that she should + be less called upon for renunciation. + +It thus seems probable that the increase of moral responsibility may tend +to make a woman's conduct more intelligible to others;[310] it will in any +case certainly tend to make it less the concern of others. This is +emphatically the case as regards the relations of sex. In the past men +have been invited to excel in many forms of virtue; only one virtue has +been open to women. That is no longer possible. To place upon a woman the +main responsibility for her own sexual conduct is to deprive that conduct +of its conspicuously public character as a virtue or a vice. Sexual union, +for a woman as much as for a man, is a physiological fact; it may also be +a spiritual fact; but it is not a social act. It is, on the contrary, an +act which, beyond all other acts, demands retirement and mystery for its +accomplishment. That indeed is a general human, almost zoölogical, fact. +Moreover, this demand of mystery is more especially made by woman in +virtue of her greater modesty which, we have found reason to believe, has +a biological basis. It is not until a child is born or conceived that the +community has any right to interest itself in the sexual acts of its +members. The sexual act is of no more concern to the community than any +other private physiological act. It is an impertinence, if not an outrage, +to seek to inquire into it. But the birth of a child is a social act. Not +what goes into the womb but what comes out of it concerns society. The +community is invited to receive a new citizen. It is entitled to demand +that that citizen shall be worthy of a place in its midst and that he +shall be properly introduced by a responsible father and a responsible +mother. The whole of sexual morality, as Ellen Key has said, revolves +round the child. + +At this final point in our discussion of sexual morality we may perhaps be +able to realize the immensity of the change which has been involved by the +development in women of moral responsibility. So long as responsibility +was denied to women, so long as a father or a husband, backed up by the +community, held himself responsible for a woman's sexual behavior, for +her "virtue," it was necessary that the whole of sexual morality should +revolve around the entrance to the vagina. It became absolutely essential +to the maintenance of morality that all eyes in the community should be +constantly directed on to that point, and the whole marriage law had to be +adjusted accordingly. That is no longer possible. When a woman assumes her +own moral responsibility, in sexual as in other matters, it becomes not +only intolerable but meaningless for the community to pry into her most +intimate physiological or spiritual acts. She is herself directly +responsible to society as soon as she performs a social act, and not +before. + +In relation to the fact of maternity the realization of all that is +involved in the new moral responsibility of women is especially +significant. Under a system of morality by which a man is left free to +accept the responsibility for his sexual acts while a woman is not equally +free to do the like, a premium is placed on sexual acts which have no end +in procreation, and a penalty is placed on the acts which lead to +procreation. The reason is that it is the former class of acts in which +men find chief gratification; it is the latter class in which women find +chief gratification. For the tragic part of the old sexual morality in its +bearing on women was that while it made men alone morally responsible for +sexual acts in which both a man and a woman took part, women were rendered +both socially and legally incapable of availing themselves of the fact of +masculine responsibility unless they had fulfilled conditions which men +had laid down for them, and yet refrained from imposing upon themselves. +The act of sexual intercourse, being the sexual act in which men found +chief pleasure, was under all circumstances an act of little social +gravity; the act of bringing a child into the world, which is for women +the most massively gratifying of all sexual acts, was counted a crime +unless the mother had before fulfilled the conditions demanded by man. +That was perhaps the most unfortunate and certainly the most unnatural of +the results of the patriarchal regulation of society. It has never existed +in any great State where women have possessed some degree of regulative +power. + + It has, of course, been said by abstract theorists that women + have the matter in their own hands. They must never love a man + until they have safely locked him up in the legal bonds of + matrimony. Such an argument is absolutely futile, for it ignores + the fact that, while love and even monogamy are natural, legal + marriage is merely an external form, with a very feeble power of + subjugating natural impulses, except when those impulses are + weak, and no power at all of subjugating them permanently. + Civilization involves the growth of foresight, and of + self-control in both sexes; but it is foolish to attempt to place + on these fine and ultimate outgrowths of civilization a strain + which they could never bear. How foolish it is has been shown, + once and for all, by Lea in his admirable _History of Sacerdotal + Celibacy_. + + Moreover, when we compare the respective aptitudes of men and + women in this particular region, it must be remembered that men + possess a greater power of forethought and self-control than + women, notwithstanding the modesty and reserve of women. The + sexual sphere is immensely larger in women, so that when its + activity is once aroused it is much more difficult to master or + control. (The reasons were set out in detail in the discussion of + "The Sexual Impulse in Women" in volume iii of these _Studies_.) + It is, therefore, unfair to women, and unduly favors men, when + too heavy a premium is placed on forethought and self-restraint + in sexual matters. Since women play the predominant part in the + sexual field their natural demands, rather than those of men, + must furnish the standard. + +With the realization of the moral responsibility of women the natural +relations of life spring back to their due biological adjustment. +Motherhood is restored to its natural sacredness. It becomes the concern +of the woman herself, and not of society nor of any individual, to +determine the conditions under which the child shall be conceived. Society +is entitled to require that the father shall in every case acknowledge the +fact of his paternity, but it must leave the chief responsibility for all +the circumstances of child-production to the mother. That is the point of +view which is now gaining ground in all civilized lands both in theory and +in practice.[311] + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[257] E.g., E. Belfort Bax, _Outspoken Essays_, p. 6. + +[258] Such reasons are connected with communal welfare. "All immoral acts +result in communal unhappiness, all moral acts in communal happiness," as +Prof. A. Mathews remarks, "Science and Morality," _Popular Science +Monthly_, March, 1909. + +[259] See Westermarck, _Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. +i, pp. 386-390, 522. + +[260] Westermarck, _Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_, pp. 9, +159; also the whole of Ch. VII. Actions that are in accordance with custom +call forth public approval, actions that are opposed to custom call forth +public resentment, and Westermarck powerfully argues that such approval +and such resentment are the foundation of moral judgments. + +[261] This is well recognized by legal writers (e.g., E.A. Schroeder, _Das +Recht in der Geschlechtlichen Ordnung_, p. 5). + +[262] W.G. Sumner (_Folkways_, p. 418) even considers it desirable to +change the form of the word in order to emphasize the real and fundamental +meaning of morals, and proposes the word _mores_ to indicate "popular +usages and traditions conducive to societal reform." "'Immoral,'" he +points out, "never means anything but contrary to the _mores_ of the time +and place." There is, however, no need whatever to abolish or to +supplement the good old ancient word "morality," so long as we clearly +realize that, on the practical side, it means essentially custom. + +[263] Westermarck, op. cit., vol. i, p. 19. + +[264] See, e.g., "Exogamy and the Mating of Cousins," in _Essays Presented +to E.B. Tylor_, 1907, p. 53. "In many departments of primitive life we +find a naïve desire to, as it were, assist Nature, to affirm what is +normal, and later to confirm it by the categorical imperative of custom +and law. This tendency still flourishes in our civilized communities, and, +as the worship of the normal, is often a deadly foe to the abnormal and +eccentric, and too often paralyzes originality." + +[265] The spirit of Christianity, as illustrated by Paulinus, in his +_Epistle XXV_, was from the Roman point of view, as Dill remarks (_Roman +Society_, p. 11), "a renunciation, not only of citizenship, but of all the +hard-won fruits of civilization and social life." + +[266] It thus happens that, as Lecky said in his _History of European +Morals_, "of all the departments of ethics the questions concerning the +relations of the sexes and the proper position of woman are those upon the +future of which there rests the greatest uncertainty." Some progress has +perhaps been made since these words were written, but they still hold true +for the majority of people. + +[267] Concerning economic marriage as a vestigial survival, see, e.g., +Bloch, _The Sexual Life of Our Time_, p. 212. + +[268] Sénancour, _De l'Amour_, vol. ii, p. 233. The author of _The +Question of English Divorce_ attributes the absence of any widespread +feeling against sexual license to the absurd rigidity of the law. + +[269] Bruno Meyer, "Etwas von Positiver Sexualreform," _Sexual-Probleme_, +Nov., 1908. + +[270] Elsie Clews Parsons, _The Family_, p. 351. Dr. Parsons rightly +thinks such unions a social evil when they check the development of +personality. + +[271] For evidence regarding the general absence of celibacy among both +savage and barbarous peoples, see, e.g., Westermarck, _History of Human +Marriage_, Ch. VII. + +[272] There are, for instance, two millions of unmarried women in France, +while in Belgium 30 per cent, of the women, and in Germany sometimes even +50 per cent, are unmarried. + +[273] Such a position would not be biologically unreasonable, in view of +the greatly preponderant part played by the female in the sexual process +which insures the conservation of the race. "If the sexual instinct is +regarded solely from the physical side," says D.W.H. Busch (_Das +Geschlechtsleben des Weibes_, 1839, vol. i, p. 201), "the woman cannot be +regarded as the property of the man, but with equal and greater reason the +man may be regarded as the property of the woman." + +[274] Herodotus, Bk. i, Ch. CLXXIII. + +[275] That power and relationship are entirely distinct was pointed out +many years ago by L. von Dargun, _Mutterrecht und Vaterrecht_, 1892. +Westermarck (_Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. i, p. 655), +who is inclined to think that Steinmetz has not proved conclusively that +mother-descent involves less authority of husband over wife, makes the +important qualification that the husband's authority is impaired when he +lives among his wife's kinsfolk. + +[276] Robertson Smith, _Kinship and Marriage in Early Arabia_; J.G. Frazer +has pointed out (_Academy_, March 27, 1886) that the partially Semitic +peoples on the North frontier of Abyssinia, not subjected to the +revolutionary processes of Islam, preserve a system closely resembling +_beena_ marriage, as well as some traces of the opposite system, by +Robertson Smith called _ba'al_ marriage, in which the wife is acquired by +purchase and becomes a piece of property. + +[277] Spencer and Gillen, _Northern Tribes of Central Australia_, p. 358. + +[278] Rhys and Brynmor-Jones, _The Welsh People_, pp. 55-6; cf. Rhys, +_Celtic Heathendom_, p. 93. + +[279] Rhys and Brynmor-Jones, op. cit., p. 214. + +[280] Crawley (_The Mystic Rose_, p. 41 et seq.) gives numerous instances. + +[281] Revillout, "La Femme dans l'Antiquité," _Journal Asiatique_, 1906, +vol. vii, p. 57. See, also, Victor Marx, _Beiträge zur Assyriologie_, +1899, Bd. iv, Heft 1. + +[282] Donaldson, _Woman_, pp. 196, 241 et seq. Nietzold, (_Die Ehe in_ +"_Agypten_," p. 17), thinks the statement of Diodorus that no children +were illegitimate, needs qualification, but that certainly the +illegitimate child in Egypt was at no social disadvantage. + +[283] Amélineau, _La Morale Egyptienne_, p. 194; Hobhouse, _Morals in +Evolution_, vol. i, p. 187; Flinders Petrie, _Religion and Conscience in +Ancient Egypt_, pp. 131 et seq. + +[284] Maine, _Ancient Law_, Ch. V. + +[285] Donaldson, _Woman_, pp. 109, 120. + +[286] _Mercator_, iv, 5. + +[287] Digest XLVIII, 13, 5. + +[288] Hobhouse, _Morals in Evolution_, vol. i, p. 213. + +[289] For an account of the work of some of the less known of these +pioneers, see a series of articles by Harriet McIlquham in the +_Westminster Review_, especially Nov., 1898, and Nov., 1903. + +[290] The influence of Christianity on the position of women has been well +discussed by Lecky, _History of European Morals_, vol. ii, pp. 316 et +seq., and more recently by Donaldson, _Woman_, Bk. iii. + +[291] Migne, _Patrologia_, vol. clviii, p. 680. + +[292] Rosa Mayreder, "Einiges über die Starke Faust," _Zur Kritik der +Weiblichkeit_, 1905. + +[293] Rasmussen (_People of the Polar North_, p. 56), describes a +ferocious quarrel between husband and wife, who each in turn knocked the +other down. "Somewhat later, when I peeped in, they were lying +affectionately asleep, with their arms around each other." + +[294] Hobhouse, _Morals in Evolution_, vol. ii, p. 367. Dr. Stöcker, in +_Die Liebe und die Frauen_, also insists on the significance of this +factor of personal responsibility. + +[295] Olive Schreiner has especially emphasized the evils of parasitism +for women. "The increased wealth of the male," she remarks ("The Woman's +Movement of Our Day," _Harper's Bazaar_, Jan., 1902), "no more of +necessity benefits and raises the female upon whom he expends it, than the +increased wealth of his mistress necessarily benefits, mentally or +physically, a poodle, because she can then give him a down cushion in +place of one of feathers, and chicken in place of beef." Olive Schreiner +believes that feminine parasitism is a danger which really threatens +society at the present time, and that if not averted "the whole body of +females in civilized societies must sink into a state of more or less +absolute dependence." + +[296] In Rome and in Japan, Hobhouse notes (op. cit., vol. i, pp. 169, +176), the patriarchal system reached its fullest extension, yet the laws +of both these countries placed the husband in a position of practical +subjugation to a rich wife. + +[297] Herodotus, Bk. ii, Ch. XXXV. Herodotus noted that it was the woman +and not the man on whom the responsibility for supporting aged parents +rested. That alone involved a very high economic position of women. It is +not surprising that to some observers, as to Diodorus Siculus, it seemed +that the Egyptian woman was mistress over her husband. + +[298] Hobhouse (loc. cit.), Hale, and also Grosse, believe that good +economic position of a people involves high position of women. Westermarck +(_Moral Ideas_, vol. i, p. 661), here in agreement with Olive Schreiner, +thinks this statement cannot be accepted without modification, though +agreeing that agricultural life has a good effect on woman's position, +because they themselves become actively engaged in it. A good economic +position has no real effect in raising woman's position, unless women +themselves take a real and not merely parasitic part in it. + +[299] Westermarck (_Moral Ideas_, vol. i, Ch. XXVI, vol. ii, p. 29) gives +numerous references with regard to the considerable proprietary and other +privileges of women among savages which tend to be lost at a somewhat +higher stage of culture. + +[300] The steady rise in the proportion of women among English workers in +machine industries began in 1851. There are now, it is estimated, three +and a half million women employed in industrial occupations, beside a +million and a half domestic servants. (See for details, James Haslam, in a +series of papers in the _Englishwoman_ 1909.) + +[301] See, e.g., J.A. Hobson, _The Evolution of Modern Capitalism_, second +edition, 1907, Ch. XII, "Women in Modern Industry." + +[302] Hobhouse, op. cit., vol. i, p. 228. + +[303] Fielding, _Tom Jones_, Bk. iii, Ch. VII. + +[304] Even the Church to some extent adopted this allotment of the +responsibility, and "solicitation," i.e., the sin of a confessor in +seducing his female penitent, is constantly treated as exclusively the +confessor's sin. + +[305] Adolf Gerson, _Sexual-Probleme_, Sept., 1908, p. 547. + +[306] It has already been necessary to refer to the unfortunate results +which may follow the ignorance of husbands (see, e.g., "The Sexual Impulse +in Women," vol. iii of these _Studies_), and will be necessary again in +Ch. XI of the present volume. + +[307] Pepys, _Diary_, ed. Wheatley, vol. vii, p. 10. + +[308] Lombroso and Ferrero, _La Donna Delinquente_; cf. Havelock Ellis, +_Man and Woman_, fourth edition, p. 196. + +[309] Gury, _Théologie Morale_, art. 381. + +[310] "Men will not learn what women are," remarks Rosa Mayreder (_Zur +Kritik der Weiblichkeit_, p. 199), "until they have left off prescribing +what they ought to be." + +[311] It has been set out, for instance, by Professor Wahrmund in _Ehe und +Eherecht_, 1908. I need scarcely refer again to the writings of Ellen Key, +which may be said to be almost epoch-making in their significance, +especially (in German translation) _Ueber Liebe und Ehe_ (also French +translation), and (in English translation, Putnam, 1909), the valuable, +though less important work, _The Century of the Child_. See also Edward +Carpenter, _Love's Coming of Age_; Forel, _Die Sexuelle Frage_ (English +translation, abridged, _The Sexual Question_, Rebman, 1908); Bloch, +_Sexualleben unsere Zeit_ (English translation, _The Sexual Life of Our +Time_, Rebman, 1908); Helene Stöcker, _Die Liebe und die Frauen_, 1906; +and Paul Lapie, _La Femme dans la Famille_, 1908. + + + + +CHAPTER X. + +MARRIAGE. + +The Definition of Marriage--Marriage Among Animals--The Predominance of +Monogamy--The Question of Group Marriage--Monogamy a Natural Fact, Not +Based on Human Law--The Tendency to Place the Form of Marriage Above the +Fact of Marriage--The History of Marriage--Marriage in Ancient +Rome--Germanic Influence on Marriage--Bride-Sale--The Ring--The Influence +of Christianity on Marriage--The Great Extent of This Influence--The +Sacrament of Matrimony--Origin and Growth of the Sacramental +Conception--The Church Made Marriage a Public Act--Canon Law--Its Sound +Core--Its Development--Its Confusions and Absurdities--Peculiarities of +English Marriage Law--Influence of the Reformation on Marriage--The +Protestant Conception of Marriage as a Secular Contract--The Puritan +Reform of Marriage--Milton as the Pioneer of Marriage Reform--His Views on +Divorce--The Backward Position of England in Marriage Reform--Criticism of +the English Divorce Law--Traditions of the Canon Law Still Persistent--The +Question of Damages for Adultery--Collusion as a Bar to +Divorce--Divorce in France, Germany, Austria, Russia, etc.--The United +States--Impossibility of Deciding by Statute the Causes for +Divorce--Divorce by Mutual Consent--Its Origin and Development--Impeded by +the Traditions of Canon Law--Wilhelm von Humboldt--Modern Pioneer +Advocates of Divorce by Mutual Consent--The Arguments Against Facility of +Divorce--The Interests of the Children--The Protection of Women--The +Present Tendency of the Divorce Movement--Marriage Not a Contract--The +Proposal of Marriage for a Term of Years--Legal Disabilities and +Disadvantages in the Position of the Husband and the Wife--Marriage Not a +Contract But a Fact--Only the Non-Essentials of Marriage, Not the +Essentials, a Proper Matter for Contract--The Legal Recognition of +Marriage as a Fact Without Any Ceremony--Contracts of the Person Opposed +to Modern Tendencies--The Factor of Moral Responsibility--Marriage as an +Ethical Sacrament--Personal Responsibility Involves Freedom--Freedom the +Best Guarantee of Stability--False Ideas of Individualism--Modern Tendency +of Marriage--With the Birth of a Child Marriage Ceases to be a Private +Concern--Every Child Must Have a Legal Father and Mother--How This Can be +Effected--The Firm Basis of Monogamy--The Question of Marriage +Variations--Such Variations Not Inimical to Monogamy--The Most Common +Variations--The Flexibility of Marriage Holds Variations in +Check--Marriage Variations _versus_ Prostitution--Marriage on a Reasonable +and Humane Basis--Summary and Conclusion. + + +The discussion in the previous chapter of the nature of sexual morality, +with the brief sketch it involved of the direction in which that morality +is moving, has necessarily left many points vague. It may still be asked +what definite and precise forms sexual unions are tending to take among +us, and what relation these unions bear to the religious, social, and +legal traditions we have inherited. These are matters about which a very +considerable amount of uncertainty seems to prevail, for it is not unusual +to hear revolutionary or eccentric opinions concerning them. + +Sexual union, involving the cohabitation, temporary or permanent, of two +or more persons, and having for one of its chief ends the production and +care of offspring, is commonly termed marriage. The group so constituted +forms a family. This is the sense in which the words "marriage" and the +"family" are most properly used, whether we speak of animals or of Man. +There is thus seen to be room for variation as regards both the time +during which the union lasts, and the number of individuals who form it, +the chief factor in the determination of these points being the interests +of the offspring. In actual practice, however, sexual unions, not only in +Man but among the higher animals, tend to last beyond the needs of the +offspring of a single season, while the fact that in most species the +numbers of males and females are approximately equal makes it inevitable +that both among animals and in Man the family is produced by a single +sexual couple, that is to say that monogamy is, with however many +exceptions, necessarily the fundamental rule. + +It will thus be seen that marriage centres in the child, and has at the +outset no reason for existence apart from the welfare of the offspring. +Among those animals of lowly organization which are able to provide for +themselves from the beginning of existence there is no family and no need +for marriage. Among human races, when sexual unions are not followed by +offspring, there may be other reasons for the continuance of the union +but they are not reasons in which either Nature or society is in the +slightest degree directly concerned. The marriage which grew up among +animals by heredity on the basis of natural selection, and which has been +continued by the lower human races through custom and tradition, by the +more civilized races through the superimposed regulative influence of +legal institutions, has been marriage for the sake of the offspring.[312] +Even in civilized races among whom the proportion of sterile marriages is +large, marriage tends to be so constituted as always to assume the +procreation of children and to involve the permanence required by such +procreation. + + Among birds, which from the point of view of erotic development + stand at the head of the animal world, monogamy frequently + prevails (according to some estimates among 90 per cent.), and + unions tend to be permanent; there is an approximation to the + same condition among some of the higher mammals, especially the + anthropoid apes; thus among gorillas and oran-utans permanent + monogamic marriages take place, the young sometimes remaining + with the parents to the age of six, while any approach to loose + behavior on the part of the wife is severely punished by the + husband. The variations that occur are often simply matters of + adaptation to circumstances; thus, according to J.G. Millais + (_Natural History of British Ducks_, pp. 8, 63), the Shoveler + duck, though normally monogamic, will become polyandric when + males are in excess, the two males being in constant and amicable + attendance on the female without signs of jealousy; among the + monogamic mallards, similarly, polygyny and polyandry may also + occur. See also R.W. Shufeldt, "Mating Among Birds," _American + Naturalist_, March, 1907; for mammal marriages, a valuable paper + by Robert Müller, "Säugethierehen," _Sexual-Probleme_, Jan., + 1909, and as regards the general prevalence of monogamy, Woods + Hutchinson, "Animal Marriage," _Contemporary Review_, Oct., 1904, + and Sept., 1905. + + There has long been a dispute among the historians of marriage as + to the first form of human marriage. Some assume a primitive + promiscuity gradually modified in the direction of monogamy; + others argue that man began where the anthropoid apes left off, + and that monogamy has prevailed, on the whole, throughout. Both + these opposed views, in an extreme form, seem untenable, and the + truth appears to lie midway. It has been shown by various + writers, and notably Westermarck (_History of Human Marriage_, + Chs. IV-VI), that there is no sound evidence in favor of + primitive promiscuity, and that at the present day there are few, + if any, savage peoples living in genuine unrestricted sexual + promiscuity. This theory of a primitive promiscuity seems to have + been suggested, as J.A. Godfrey has pointed out (_Science of + Sex_, p. 112), by the existence in civilized societies of + promiscuous prostitution, though this kind of promiscuity was + really the result, rather than the origin, of marriage. On the + other hand, it can scarcely be said that there is any convincing + evidence of primitive strict monogamy beyond the assumption that + early man continued the sexual habits of the anthropoid apes. It + would seem probable, however, that the great forward step + involved in passing from ape to man was associated with a change + in sexual habits involving the temporary adoption of a more + complex system than monogamy. It is difficult to see in what + other social field than that of sex primitive man could find + exercise for the developing intellectual and moral aptitudes, the + subtle distinctions and moral restraints, which the strict + monogamy practiced by animals could afford no scope for. It is + also equally difficult to see on what basis other than that of a + more closely associated sexual system the combined and harmonious + efforts needed for social progress could have developed. It is + probable that at least one of the motives for exogamy, or + marriage outside the group, is (as was probably first pointed out + by St. Augustine in his _De Civitate Dei_) the need of creating a + larger social circle, and so facilitating social activities and + progress. Exactly the same end is effected by a complex marriage + system binding a large number of people together by common + interests. The strictly small and confined monogamic family, + however excellently it subserved the interests of the offspring, + contained no promise of a wider social progress. We see this + among both ants and bees, who of all animals, have attained the + highest social organization; their progress was only possible + through a profound modification of the systems of sexual + relationship. As Espinas said many years ago (in his suggestive + work, _Des Sociétés Animales_): "The cohesion of the family and + the probabilities for the birth of societies are inverse." Or, as + Schurtz more recently pointed out, although individual marriage + has prevailed more or less from the first, early social + institutions, early ideas and early religion involved sexual + customs which modified a strict monogamy. + + The most primitive form of complex human marriage which has yet + been demonstrated as still in existence is what is called + group-marriage, in which all the women of one class are regarded + as the actual, or at all events potential, wives of all the men + in another class. This has been observed among some central + Australian tribes, a people as primitive and as secluded from + external influence as could well be found, and there is evidence + to show that it was formerly more widespread among them. "In the + Urabunna tribe, for example," say Spencer and Gillen, "a group of + men actually do have, continually and as a normal condition, + marital relations with a group of women. This state of affairs + has nothing whatever to do with polygamy any more than it has + with polyandry. It is simply a question of a group of men and a + group of women who may lawfully have what we call marital + relations. There is nothing whatever abnormal about it, and, in + all probability, this system of what has been called group + marriage, serving as it does to bind more or less closely + together groups of individuals who are mutually interested in one + another's welfare, has been one of the most powerful agents in + the early stages of the upward development of the human race" + (Spencer and Gillen, _Northern Tribes of Central Australia_, p. + 74; cf. A.W. Howitt, _The Native Tribes of South-East + Australia_). Group-marriage, with female descent, as found in + Australia, tends to become transformed by various stages of + progress into individual marriage with descent in the male line, + a survival of group-marriage perhaps persisting in the + much-discussed _jus primæ noctis_. (It should be added that Mr. + N.W. Thomas, in his book on _Kinship and Marriage in Australia_, + 1908, concludes that group-marriage in Australia has not been + demonstrated, and that Professor Westermarck, in his _Origin and + Development of the Moral Ideas_, as in his previous _History of + Human Marriage_, maintains a skeptical opinion in regard to + group-marriage generally; he thinks the Urabunna custom may have + developed out of ordinary individual marriage, and regards the + group-marriage theory as "the residuary legatee of the old theory + of promiscuity." Durkheim also believes that the Australian + marriage system is not primitive, "Organisation Matrimoniale + Australienne," _L'Année Sociologique_, eighth year, 1905). With + the attainment of a certain level of social progress it is easy + to see that a wide and complicated system of sexual relationships + ceases to have its value, and a more or less qualified monogamy + tends to prevail as more in harmony with the claims of social + stability and executive masculine energy. + + The best historical discussion of marriage is still probably + Westermarck's _History of Human Marriage_, though at some points + it now needs to be corrected or supplemented; among more recent + books dealing with primitive sexual conceptions may be specially + mentioned Crawley's _Mystic Rose_, while the facts concerning the + transformation of marriage among the higher human races are set + forth in G.E. Howard's _History of Matrimonial Institutions_ (3 + vols.), which contains copious bibliographical references. There + is an admirably compact, but clear and comprehensive, sketch of + the development of modern marriage in Pollock and Maitland, + _History of English Law_, vol. ii. + +It is necessary to make allowance for variations, thereby shunning the +extreme theorists who insist on moulding all facts to their theories, but +we may conclude that--as the approximately equal number of the sexes +indicates--in the human species, as among many of the higher animals, a +more or less permanent monogamy has on the whole tended to prevail. That +is a fact of great significance in its implications. For we have to +realize that we are here in the presence of a natural fact. Sexual +relationships, in human as in animal societies, follow a natural law, +oscillating on each side of the norm, and there is no place for the theory +that that law was imposed artificially. If all artificial "laws" could be +abolished the natural order of the sexual relationships would continue to +subsist substantially as at present. Virtue, said Cicero, is but Nature +carried out to the utmost. Or, as Holbach put it, arguing that our +institutions tend whither Nature tends, "art is only Nature acting by the +help of the instruments she has herself made." Shakespeare had already +seen much the same truth when he said that the art which adds to Nature +"is an art that Nature makes." Law and religion have buttressed monogamy; +it is not based on them but on the needs and customs of mankind, and these +constitute its completely adequate sanctions.[313] Or, as Cope put it, +marriage is not the creation of law but the law is its creation.[314] +Crawley, again, throughout his study of primitive sex relationships, +emphasizes the fact that our formal marriage system is not, as so many +religious and moral writers once supposed, a forcible repression of +natural impulses, but merely the rigid crystallization of those natural +impulses, which in a more fluid form have been in human nature from the +first. Our conventional forms, we must believe, have not introduced any +elements of value, while in some respects they have been mischievous. + + It is necessary to bear in mind that the conclusion that + monogamic marriage is natural, and represents an order which is + in harmony with the instincts of the majority of people, by no + means involves agreement with the details of any particular legal + system of monogamy. Monogamic marriage is a natural biological + fact, alike in many animals and in man. But no system of legal + regulation is a natural biological fact. When a highly esteemed + alienist, Dr. Clouston, writes (_The Hygiene of Mind_, p. 245) + "there is only one natural mode of gratifying sexual _nisus_ and + reproductive instinct, that of marriage," the statement requires + considerable exegesis before it can be accepted, or even receive + an intelligible meaning, and if we are to understand by + "marriage" the particular form and implications of the English + marriage law, or even of the somewhat more enlightened Scotch + law, the statement is absolutely false. There is a world of + difference, as J.A. Godfrey remarks (_The Science of Sex_, 1901, + p. 278), between natural monogamous marriage and our legal + system; "the former is the outward expression of the best that + lies in the sexuality of man; the latter is a creation in which + religious and moral superstitions have played a most important + part, not always to the benefit of individual and social health." + + We must, therefore, guard against the tendency to think that + there is anything rigid or formal in the natural order of + monogamy. Some sociologists would even limit the naturalness of + monogamy still further. Thus Tarde ("La Morale Sexuelle," + _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Jan., 1907), while + accepting as natural under present conditions the tendency for + monogamy, mitigated by more or less clandestine concubinage, to + prevail over all other forms of marriage, considers that this is + not due to any irresistible influence, but merely to the fact + that this kind of marriage is practiced by the majority of + people, including the most civilized. + + With the acceptance of the tendency to monogamy we are not at the + end of sexual morality, but only at the beginning. It is not + monogamy that is the main thing, but the kind of lives that + people lead in monogamy. The mere acceptance of a monogamic rule + carries us but a little way. That is a fact which cannot fail to + impress itself on those who approach the questions of sex from + the psychological side. + +If monogamy is thus firmly based it is unreasonable to fear, or to hope +for, any radical modification in the institution of marriage, regarded, +not under its temporary religious and legal aspects but as an order which +appeared on the earth even earlier than man. Monogamy is the most natural +expression of an impulse which cannot, as a rule, be so adequately +realized in full fruition under conditions involving a less prolonged +period of mutual communion and intimacy. Variations, regarded as +inevitable oscillations around the norm, are also natural, but union in +couples must always be the rule because the numbers of the sexes are +always approximately equal, while the needs of the emotional life, even +apart from the needs of offspring, demand that such unions based on mutual +attraction should be so far as possible permanent. + + It must here again be repeated that it is the reality, and not + the form or the permanence of the marriage union, which is its + essential and valuable part. It is not the legal or religious + formality which sanctifies marriage, it is the reality of the + marriage which sanctifies the form. Fielding has satirized in + Nightingale, Tom Jones's friend, the shallow-brained view of + connubial society which degrades the reality of marriage to exalt + the form. Nightingale has the greatest difficulty in marrying a + girl with whom he has already had sexual relations, although he + is the only man who has had relations with her. To Jones's + arguments he replies: "Common-sense warrants all you say, but yet + you well know that the opinion of the world is so contrary to it, + that were I to marry a whore, though my own, I should be ashamed + of ever showing my face again." It cannot be said that Fielding's + satire is even yet out of date. Thus in Prussia, according to + Adele Schreiber ("Heirathsbeschränkungen," _Die Neue Generation_, + Feb., 1909), it seems to be still practically impossible for a + military officer to marry the mother of his own illegitimate + child. + + The glorification of the form at the expense of the reality of + marriage has even been attempted in poetry by Tennyson in the + least inspired of his works, _The Idylls of the King_. In + "Lancelot and Elaine" and "Guinevere" (as Julia Magruder points + out, _North American Review_, April, 1905) Guinevere is married + to King Arthur, whom she has never seen, when already in love + with Lancelot, so that the "marriage" was merely a ceremony, and + not a real marriage (cf., May Child, "The Weird of Sir Lancelot," + _North American Review_, Dec., 1908). + +It may seem to some that so conservative an estimate of the tendencies of +civilization in matters of sexual love is due to a timid adherence to mere +tradition. That is not the case. We have to recognize that marriage is +firmly held in position by the pressure of two opposing forces. There are +two currents in the stream of our civilization: one that moves towards an +ever greater social order and cohesion, the other that moves towards an +ever greater individual freedom. There is real harmony underlying the +apparent opposition of these two tendencies, and each is indeed the +indispensable complement of the other. There can be no real freedom for +the individual in the things that concern that individual alone unless +there is a coherent order in the things that concern him as a social unit. +Marriage in one of its aspects only concerns the two individuals involved; +in another of its aspects it chiefly concerns society. The two forces +cannot combine to act destructively on marriage, for the one counteracts +the other. They combine to support monogamy, in all essentials, on its +immemorial basis. + +It must be added that in the circumstances of monogamy that are not +essential there always has been, and always must be, perpetual +transformation. All traditional institutions, however firmly founded on +natural impulses, are always growing dead and rigid at some points and +putting forth vitally new growths at other points. It is the effort to +maintain their vitality, and to preserve their elastic adjustment to the +environment, which involves this process of transformation in +non-essentials. + +The only way in which we can fruitfully approach the question of the value +of the transformations now taking place in our marriage-system is by +considering the history of that system in the past. In that way we learn +the real significance of the marriage-system, and we understand what +transformations are, or are not, associated with a fine civilization. When +we are acquainted with the changes of the past we are enabled to face more +confidently the changes of the present. + +The history of the marriage-system of modern civilized peoples begins in +the later days of the Roman Empire at the time when the foundations were +being laid of that Roman law which has exerted so large an influence in +Christendom. Reference has already been made[315] to the significant fact +that in late Rome women had acquired a position of nearly complete +independence in relation to their husbands, while the patriarchal +authority still exerted over them by their fathers had become, for the +most part, almost nominal. This high status of women was associated, as it +naturally tends to be, with a high degree of freedom in the marriage +system. Roman law had no power of intervening in the formation of +marriages and there were no legal forms of marriage. The Romans recognized +that marriage is a fact and not a mere legal form; in marriage by _usus_ +there was no ceremony at all; it was constituted by the mere fact of +living together for a whole year; yet such marriage was regarded as just +as legal and complete as if it had been inaugurated by the sacred rite of +_confarreatio_. Marriage was a matter of simple private agreement in which +the man and the woman approached each other on a footing of equality. The +wife retained full control of her own property; the barbarity of admitting +an action for restitution of conjugal rights was impossible, divorce was a +private transaction to which the wife was as fully entitled as the +husband, and it required no inquisitorial intervention of magistrate or +court; Augustus ordained, indeed, that a public declaration was necessary, +but the divorce itself was a private legal act of the two persons +concerned.[316] It is interesting to note this enlightened conception of +marriage prevailing in the greatest and most masterful Empire which has +ever dominated the world, at the period not indeed of its greatest +force,--for the maximum of force and the maximum of expansion, the bud and +the full flower, are necessarily incompatible,--but at the period of its +fullest development. In the chaos that followed the dissolution of the +Empire Roman law remained as a precious legacy to the new developing +nations, but its influence was inextricably mingled with that of +Christianity, which, though not at the first anxious to set up marriage +laws of its own, gradually revealed a growing ascetic feeling hostile +alike to the dignity of the married woman and the freedom of marriage and +divorce.[317] With that influence was combined the influence, introduced +through the Bible, of the barbaric Jewish marriage-system conferring on +the husband rights in marriage and divorce which were totally denied to +the wife; this was an influence which gained still greater force at the +Reformation when the authority once accorded to the Church was largely +transformed to the Bible. Finally, there was in a great part of Europe, +including the most energetic and expansive parts, the influence of the +Germans, an influence still more primitive than that of the Jews, +involving the conception of the wife as almost her husband's chattel, and +marriage as a purchase. All these influences clashed and often appeared +side by side, though they could not be harmonized. The result was that the +fifteen hundred years that followed the complete conquest of Christianity +represent on the whole the most degraded condition to which the marriage +system has ever been known to fall for so long a period during the whole +course of human history. + +At first indeed the beneficent influence of Rome continued in some degree +to prevail and even exhibited new developments. In the time of the +Christian Emperors freedom of divorce by mutual consent was alternately +maintained, and abolished.[318] We even find the wise and far-seeing +provision of the law enacting that a contract of the two parties never to +separate could have no legal validity. Justinian's prohibition of divorce +by consent led to much domestic unhappiness, and even crime, which appears +to be the reason why it was immediately abrogated by his successor, +Theodosius, still maintaining the late Roman tradition of the moral +equality of the sexes, allowed the wife equally with the husband to obtain +a divorce for adultery; that is a point we have not yet attained in +England to-day. + +It seems to be admitted on all sides that it was largely the fatal +influence of the irruption of the barbarous Germans which degraded, when +it failed to sweep away, the noble conception of the equality of women +with men, and the dignity and freedom of marriage, slowly moulded by the +organizing genius of the Roman into a great tradition which still retains +a supreme value. The influence of Christianity had at the first no +degrading influence of this kind; for the ascetic ideal was not yet +predominant, priests married as a matter of course, and there was no +difficulty in accepting the marriage order established in the secular +world; it was even possible to add to it a new vitality and freedom. But +the Germans, with all the primitively acquisitive and combative instincts +of untamed savages, went far beyond even the early Romans in the +subjection of their wives; they allowed indeed to their unmarried girls a +large measure of indulgence and even sexual freedom,--just as the +Christians also reverenced their virgins,[319]--but the German marriage +system placed the wife, as compared to the wife of the Roman Empire, in a +condition little better than that of a domestic slave. In one form or +another, under one disguise or another, the system of wife-purchase +prevailed among the Germans, and, whenever that system is influential, +even when the wife is honored her privileges are diminished.[320] Among +the Teutonic peoples generally, as among the early English, marriage was +indeed a private transaction but it took the form of a sale of the bride +by the father, or other legal guardian, to the bridegroom. The _beweddung_ +was a real contract of sale.[321] "Sale-marriage" was the most usual form +of marriage. The ring, indeed, probably was not in origin, as some have +supposed, a mark of servitude, but rather a form of bride-price, or +_arrha_, that is to say, earnest money on the contract of marriage and so +the symbol of it.[322] At first a sign of the bride's purchase, it was not +till later that the ring acquired the significance of subjection to the +bridegroom, and that significance, later in the Middle Ages, was further +emphasized by other ceremonies. Thus in England the York and Sarum manuals +in some of their forms direct the bride, after the delivery of the ring, +to fall at her husband's feet, and sometimes to kiss his right foot. In +Russia, also, the bride kissed her husband's feet. At a later period, in +France, this custom was attenuated, and it became customary for the bride +to let the ring fall in front of the altar and then stoop at her husband's +feet to pick it up.[323] Feudalism carried on, and by its military +character exaggerated, these Teutonic influences. A fief was land held on +condition of military service, and the nature of its influence on marriage +is implied in that fact. The woman was given with the fief and her own +will counted for nothing.[324] + +The Christian Church in the beginning accepted the forms of marriage +already existing in those countries in which it found itself, the Roman +forms in the lands of Latin tradition and the German forms in Teutonic +lands. It merely demanded (as it also demanded for other civil contracts, +such as an ordinary sale) that they should be hallowed by priestly +benediction. But the marriage was recognized by the Church even in the +absence of such benediction. There was no special religious marriage +service, either in the East or the West, earlier than the sixth century. +It was simply the custom for the married couple, after the secular +ceremonies were completed, to attend the church, listen to the ordinary +service and take the sacrament. A special marriage service was developed +slowly, and it was no part of the real marriage. During the tenth century +(at all events in Italy and France) it was beginning to become customary +to celebrate the first part of the real nuptials, still a purely temporal +act, outside the church door. Soon this was followed by the regular +bride-mass, directly applicable to the occasion, inside the church. By the +twelfth century the priest directed the ceremony, now involving an +imposing ritual, which began outside the church and ended with the bridal +mass inside. By the thirteenth century, the priest, superseding the +guardians of the young couple, himself officiated through the whole +ceremony. Up to that time marriage had been a purely private business +transaction. Thus, after more than a millennium of Christianity, not by +law but by the slow growth of custom, ecclesiastical marriage was +established.[325] + +It was undoubtedly an event of very great importance not merely for the +Church but for the whole history of European marriage even down to to-day. +The whole of our public method of celebrating marriage to-day is based on +that of the Catholic Church as established in the twelfth century and +formulated in the Canon law. Even the publication of banns has its origin +here, and the fact that in our modern civil marriage the public ceremony +takes place in an office and not in a Church may disguise but cannot +alter the fact that it is the direct and unquestionable descendant of the +public ecclesiastical ceremony which embodied the slow and subtle +triumph--so slow and subtle that its history is difficult to trace--of +Christian priests over the private affairs of men and women. Before they +set themselves to this task marriage everywhere was the private business +of the persons concerned; when they had completed their task,--and it was +not absolutely complete until the Council of Trent,--a private marriage +had become a sin and almost a crime.[326] + +It may seem a matter for surprise that the Church which, as we know, had +shown an ever greater tendency to reverence virginity and to cast +contumely on the sexual relationship, should yet, parallel with that +movement and with the growing influence of asceticism, have shown so great +an anxiety to capture marriage and to confer on it a public, dignified, +and religious character. There was, however, no contradiction. The factors +that were constituting European marriage, taken as a whole, were indeed of +very diverse characters and often involved unreconciled contradictions. +But so far as the central efforts of the ecclesiastical legislators were +concerned, there was a definite and intelligible point of view. The very +depreciation of the sexual instinct involved the necessity, since the +instinct could not be uprooted, of constituting for it a legitimate +channel, so that ecclesiastical matrimony was, it has been said, +"analogous to a license to sell intoxicating liquors."[327] Moreover, +matrimony exhibited the power of the Church to confer on the license a +dignity and distinction which would clearly separate it from the general +stream of lust. Sexual enjoyment is impure, the faithful cannot partake of +it until it has been purified by the ministrations of the Church. The +solemnization of marriage was the necessary result of the sanctification +of virginity. It became necessary to sanctify marriage also, and hence +was developed the indissoluble sacrament of matrimony. The conception of +marriage as a religious sacrament, a conception of far-reaching influence, +is the great contribution of the Catholic Church to the history of +marriage. + + It is important to remember that, while Christianity brought the + idea of marriage as a sacrament into the main stream of the + institutional history of Europe, that idea was merely developed, + not invented, by the Church. It is an ancient and even primitive + idea. The Jews believed that marriage is a magico-religious bond, + having in it something mystical resembling a sacrament, and that + idea, says Durkheim (_L'Année Sociologique_, eighth year, 1905, + p. 419), is perhaps very archaic, and hangs on to the generally + magic character of sex relations. "The mere act of union," + Crawley remarks (_The Mystic Rose_, p. 318) concerning savages, + "is potentially a marriage ceremony of the sacramental kind.... + One may even credit the earliest animistic men with some such + vague conception before any ceremony became crystallized." The + essence of a marriage ceremony, the same writer continues, "is + the 'joining together' of a man and a woman; in the words of our + English service, 'for this cause shall a man leave his father and + mother and shall be joined unto his wife; and they two shall be + one flesh.' At the other side of the world, amongst the Orang + Benuas, these words are pronounced by an elder, when a marriage + is solemnized: 'Listen all ye that are present; those that were + distant are now brought together; those that were separated are + now united.' Marriage ceremonies in all stages of culture may be + called religious with as much propriety as any ceremony whatever. + Those who were separated are now joined together, those who were + mutually taboo now break the taboo." Thus marriage ceremonies + prevent sin and neutralize danger. + + The Catholic conception of marriage was, it is clear, in + essentials precisely the primitive conception. Christianity drew + the sacramental idea from the archaic traditions in popular + consciousness, and its own ecclesiastical contribution lay in + slowly giving that idea a formal and rigid shape, and in + declaring it indissoluble. As among savages, it was in the act of + consent that the essence of the sacrament lay; the intervention + of the priest was not, in principle, necessary to give marriage + its religiously binding character. The essence of the sacrament + was mutual acceptance of each other by the man and the woman, as + husband and wife, and technically the priest who presided at the + ceremony was simply a witness of the sacrament. The essential + fact being thus the mental act of consent, the sacrament of + matrimony had the peculiar character of being without any outward + and visible sign. Perhaps it was this fact, instinctively felt + as a weakness, which led to the immense emphasis on the + indissolubility of the sacrament of matrimony, already + established by St. Augustine. The Canonists brought forward + various arguments to account for that indissolubility, and a + frequent argument has always been the Scriptural application of + the term "one flesh" to married couples; but the favorite + argument of the Canonists was that matrimony represents the union + of Christ with the Church; that is indissoluble, and therefore + its image must be indissoluble (Esmein, op. cit., vol. i, p. 64). + In part, also, one may well believe, the idea of the + indissolubility of marriage suggested itself to the + ecclesiastical mind by a natural association of ideas: the vow of + virginity in monasticism was indissoluble; ought not the vow of + sexual relationship in matrimony to be similarly indissoluble? It + appears that it was not until 1164, in Peter Lombard's + _Sentences_, that clear and formal recognition is found of + matrimony as one of the seven sacraments (Howard, op. cit., vol. + i, p. 333). + +The Church, however, had not only made marriage a religious act; it had +also made it a public act. The officiating priest, who had now become the +arbiter of marriage, was bound by all the injunctions and prohibitions of +the Church, and he could not allow himself to bend to the inclinations and +interests of individual couples or their guardians. It was inevitable that +in this matter, as in other similar matters, a code of ecclesiastical +regulations should be gradually developed for his guidance. This need of +the Church, due to its growing control of the world's affairs, was the +origin of Canon law. With the development of Canon law the whole field of +the regulation of the sexual relationships, and the control of its +aberrations, became an exclusively ecclesiastical matter. The secular law +could take no more direct cognizance of adultery than of fornication or +masturbation; bigamy, incest, and sodomy were not temporal crimes; the +Church was supreme in the whole sphere of sex. + +It was during the twelfth century that Canon law developed, and Gratian +was the master mind who first moulded it. He belonged to the Bolognese +school of jurisprudence which had inherited the sane traditions of Roman +law. The Canons which Gratian compiled were, however, no more the mere +result of legal traditions than they were the outcome of cloistered +theological speculation. They were the result of a response to the +practical needs of the day before those needs had had time to form a +foundation for fine-spun subtleties. At a somewhat later period, before +the close of the century, the Italian jurists were vanquished by the +Gallic theologians of Paris as represented by Peter Lombard. The result +was the introduction of mischievous complexities which went far to rob +Canon law alike of its certainty and its adaptation to human necessities. + +Notwithstanding, however, all the parasitic accretions which swiftly began +to form around the Canon law and to entangle its practical activity, that +legislation embodied--predominantly at the outset and more obscurely +throughout its whole period of vital activity--a sound core of real value. +The Canon law recognized at the outset that the essential fact of marriage +is the actual sexual union, accomplished with the intention of +inaugurating a permanent relationship. The _copula carnalis_, the making +of two "one flesh," according to the Scriptural phrase, a mystic symbol of +the union of the Church to Christ, was the essence of marriage, and the +mutual consent of the couple alone sufficed to constitute marriage, even +without any religious benediction, or without any ceremony at all. The +formless and unblessed union was still a real and binding marriage if the +two parties had willed it so to be.[328] + + Whatever hard things may be said about the Canon law, it must + never be forgotten that it carried through the Middle Ages until + the middle of the sixteenth century the great truth that the + essence of marriage lies not in rites and forms, but in the + mutual consent of the two persons who marry each other. When the + Catholic Church, in its growing rigidity, lost that conception, + it was taken up by the Protestants and Puritans in their first + stage of ardent vital activity, though it was more or less + dropped as they fell back into a state of subservience to forms. + It continued to be maintained by moralists and poets. Thus George + Chapman, the dramatist, who was both moralist and poet, in _The + Gentleman Usher_ (1606), represents the riteless marriage of his + hero and heroine, which the latter thus introduces:-- + + "May not we now + Our contract make and marry before Heaven? + Are not the laws of God and Nature more + Than formal laws of men? Are outward rites + More virtuous than the very substance is + Of holy nuptials solemnized within? + .... The eternal acts of our pure souls + Knit us with God, the soul of all the world, + He shall be priest to us; and with such rites + As we can here devise we will express + And strongly ratify our hearts' true vows, + Which no external violence shall dissolve." + + And to-day, Ellen Key, the distinguished prophet of marriage + reform, declares at the end of her _Liebe und Ehe_ that the true + marriage law contains only the paragraph: "They who love each + other are husband and wife." + +The establishment of marriage on this sound and naturalistic basis had the +further excellent result that it placed the man and the woman, who could +thus constitute marriage by their consent in entire disregard of the +wishes of their parents or families, on the same moral level. Here the +Church was following alike the later Romans and the early Christians like +Lactantius and Jerome who had declared that what was licit for a man was +licit for a woman. The Penitentials also attempted to set up this same +moral law for both sexes. The Canonists finally allowed a certain +supremacy to the husband, though, on the other hand, they sometimes seemed +to assign even the chief part in marriage to the wife, and the attempt was +made to derive the word _matrimonium_ from _matris munium_, thereby +declaring the maternal function to be the essential fact of marriage.[329] + +The sound elements in the Canon law conception of marriage were, however, +from a very early period largely if not altogether neutralized by the +verbal subtleties by which they were overlaid, and even by its own +fundamental original defects. Even in the thirteenth century it began to +be possible to attach a superior force to marriage verbally formed _per +verba de præsenti_ than to one constituted by sexual union, while so many +impediments to marriage were set up that it became difficult to know what +marriages were valid, an important point since a marriage even innocently +contracted within the prohibited degrees was only a putative marriage. The +most serious and the most profoundly unnatural feature of this +ecclesiastical conception of marriage was the flagrant contradiction +between the extreme facility with which the gate of marriage was flung +open to the young couple, even if they were little more than children, and +the extreme rigor with which it was locked and bolted when they were +inside. That is still the defect of the marriage system we have inherited +from the Church, but in the hands of the Canonists it was emphasized both +on the side of its facility for entrance and of its difficulty for +exit.[330] Alike from the standpoint of reason and of humanity the gate +that is easy of ingress must be easy of egress; or if the exit is +necessarily difficult then extreme care must be taken in admission. But +neither of these necessary precautions was possible to the Canonists. +Matrimony was a sacrament and all must be welcome to a sacrament, the more +so since otherwise they may be thrust into the mortal sin of fornication. +On the other side, since matrimony was a sacrament, when once truly +formed, beyond the permissible power of verbal quibbles to invalidate, it +could never be abrogated. The very institution that, in the view of the +Church, had been set up as a bulwark against license became itself an +instrument for artificially creating license. So that the net result of +the Canon law in the long run was the production of a state of things +which--in the eyes of a large part of Christendom--more than neutralized +the soundness of its original conception.[331] + + In England, where from the ninth century, marriage was generally + accepted by the ecclesiastical and temporal powers as + indissoluble, Canon law was, in the main, established as in the + rest of Christendom. There were, however, certain points in which + Canon law was not accepted by the law of England. By English law + a ceremony before a priest was necessary to the validity of a + marriage, though in Scotland the Canon law doctrine was accepted + that simple consent of the parties, even exchanged secretly, + sufficed to constitute marriage. Again, the issue of a void + marriage contracted in innocence, and the issue of persons who + subsequently marry each other, are legitimate by Canon law, but + not by the common law of England (Geary, _Marriage and Family + Relations_, p. 3; Pollock and Maitland, loc. cit.). The Canonists + regarded the disabilities attaching to bastardy as a punishment + inflicted on the offending parents, and considered, therefore, + that no burden should fall on the children when there had been a + ceremony in good faith on the part of one at least of the + parents. In this respect the English law is less reasonable and + humane. It was at the Council of Merton, in 1236, that the barons + of England rejected the proposal to make the laws of England + harmonize with the Canon law, that is, with the ecclesiastical + law of Christendom generally, in allowing children born before + wedlock to be legitimated by subsequent marriage. Grosseteste + poured forth his eloquence and his arguments in favor of the + change, but in vain, and the law of England has ever since stood + alone in this respect (Freeman, "Merton Priory," _English Towns + and Districts_). The proposal was rejected in the famous formula, + "Nolumus leges Angliæ mutare," a formula which merely stood for + an unreasonable and inhumane obstinacy. + + In the United States, while by common law subsequent marriage + fails to legitimate children born before marriage, in many of the + States the subsequent marriage of the parents effects by statute + the legitimacy of the child, sometimes (as in Maine) + automatically, more usually (as in Massachusetts) through special + acknowledgment by the father. + +The appearance of Luther and the Reformation involved the decay of the +Canon law system so far as Europe as a whole was concerned. It was for +many reasons impossible for the Protestant reformers to retain formally +either the Catholic conception of matrimony or the precariously elaborate +legal structure which the Church had built up on that conception. It can +scarcely be said, indeed, that the Protestant attitude towards the +Catholic idea of matrimony was altogether a clear, logical, or consistent +attitude. It was a revolt, an emotional impulse, rather than a matter of +reasoned principle. In its inevitable necessity, under the circumstances +of the rise of Protestantism, lies its justification, and, on the whole, +its wholesome soundness. It took the form, which may seem strange in a +religious movement, of proclaiming that marriage is not a religious but a +secular matter. Marriage is, said Luther, "a worldly thing," and Calvin +put it on the same level as house-building, farming, or shoe-making. But +while this secularization of marriage represents the general and final +drift of Protestantism, the leaders of Protestantism were themselves not +altogether confident and clear-sighted in the matter. Even Luther was a +little confused on this point; sometimes he seems to call marriage "a +sacrament," sometimes "a temporal business," to be left to the state.[332] +It was the latter view which tended to prevail. But at first there was a +period of confusion, if not of chaos, in the minds of the Reformers; not +only were they not always convinced in their own minds; they were at +variance with each other, especially on the very practical question of +divorce. Luther on the whole belonged to the more rigid party, including +Calvin and Beza, which would grant divorce only for adultery and malicious +desertion; some, including many of the early English Protestants, were in +favor of allowing the husband to divorce for adultery but not the wife. +Another party, including Zwingli, were influenced by Erasmus in a more +liberal direction, and--moving towards the standpoint of Roman Imperial +legislation--admitted various causes of divorce. Some, like Bucer, +anticipating Milton, would even allow divorce when the husband was unable +to love his wife. At the beginning some of the Reformers adopted the +principle of self-divorce, as it prevailed among the Jews and was accepted +by some early Church Councils. In this way Luther held that the cause for +the divorce itself effected the divorce without any judicial decree, +though a magisterial permission was needed for remarriage. This question +of remarriage, and the treatment of the adulterer, were also matters of +dispute. The remarriage of the innocent party was generally accepted; in +England it began in the middle of the sixteenth century, was pronounced +valid by the Archbishop of Canterbury, and confirmed by Parliament. Many +Reformers were opposed, however, to the remarriage of the adulterous +party. Beust, Beza, and Melancthon would have him hanged and so settle the +question of remarriage; Luther and Calvin would like to kill him, but +since the civil rulers were slack in adopting that measure they allowed +him to remarry, if possible in some other part of the country.[333] + +The final outcome was that Protestantism framed a conception of marriage +mainly on the legal and economic factor--a factor not ignored but strictly +subordinated by the Canonists--and regarded it as essentially a contract. +In so doing they were on the negative side effecting a real progress, for +they broke the power of an antiquated and artificial system, but on the +positive side they were merely returning to a conception which prevails in +barbarous societies, and is most pronounced when marriage is most +assimilable to purchase. The steps taken by Protestantism involved a +considerable change in the nature of marriage, but not necessarily any +great changes in its form. Marriage was no longer a sacrament, but it was +still a public and not a private function and was still, however +inconsistently, solemnized in Church. And as Protestantism had no rival +code to set up, both in Germany and England it fell back on the general +principles of Canon law, modifying them to suit its own special attitude +and needs.[334] It was the later Puritanic movement, first in the +Netherlands (1580), then in England (1653), and afterwards in New England, +which introduced a serious and coherent conception of Protestant marriage, +and began to establish it on a civil base. + + The English Reformers under Edward VI and his enlightened + advisers, including Archbishop Cranmer, took liberal views of + marriage, and were prepared to carry through many admirable + reforms. The early death of that King exerted a profound + influence on the legal history of English marriage. The Catholic + reaction under Queen Mary killed off the more radical Reformers, + while the subsequent accession of Queen Elizabeth, whose attitude + towards marriage was grudging, illiberal, and old-fashioned, + approximating to that of her father, Henry VIII (as witnessed, + for instance, in her decided opposition to the marriage of the + clergy), permanently affected English marriage law. It became + less liberal than that of other Protestant countries, and closer + to that of Catholic countries. + + The reform of marriage attempted by the Puritans began in England + in 1644, when an Act was passed asserting "marriage to be no + sacrament, nor peculiar to the Church of God, but common to + mankind and of public interest to every Commonwealth." The Act + added, notwithstanding, that it was expedient marriage should be + solemnized by "a lawful minister of the Word." The more radical + Act of 1653 swept away this provision, and made marriage purely + secular. The banns were to be published (by registrars specially + appointed) in the Church, or (if the parties desired) the + market-place. The marriage was to be performed by a Justice of + the Peace; the age of consent to marriage for a man was made + sixteen, for a woman fourteen (Scobell's _Acts and Ordinances_, + pp. 86, 236). The Restoration abolished this sensible Act, and + reintroduced Canon-law traditions, but the Puritan conception of + marriage was carried over to America, where it took root and + flourished. + +It was out of Puritanism, moreover, as represented by Milton, that the +first genuinely modern though as yet still imperfect conception of the +marriage relationship was destined to emerge. The early Reformers in this +matter acted mainly from an obscure instinct of natural revolt in an +environment of plebeian materialism. The Puritans were moved by their +feeling for simplicity and civil order as the conditions for religious +freedom. Milton, in his _Doctrine and Discipline of Divorce_, published in +1643, when he was thirty-five years of age, proclaimed the supremacy of +the substance of marriage over the form of it, and the spiritual autonomy +of the individual in the regulation of that form. He had grasped the +meaning of that conception of personal responsibility which is the +foundation of sexual relationships as they are beginning to appear to men +to-day. If Milton had left behind him only his writings on marriage and +divorce they would have sufficed to stamp him with the seal of genius. +Christendom had to wait a century and a half before another man of genius +of the first rank, Wilhelm von Humboldt, spoke out with equal authority +and clearness in favor of free marriage and free divorce. + + It is to the honor of Milton, and one of his chief claims on our + gratitude, that he is the first great protagonist in Christendom + of the doctrine that marriage is a private matter, and that, + therefore, it should be freely dissoluble by mutual consent, or + even at the desire of one of the parties. We owe to him, says + Howard, "the boldest defence of the liberty of divorce which had + yet appeared. If taken in the abstract, and applied to both sexes + alike, it is perhaps the strongest defence which can be made + through an appeal to mere authority;" though his arguments, being + based on reason and experience, are often ill sustained by his + authority; he is really speaking the language of the modern + social reformer, and Milton's writings on this subject are now + sometimes ranked in importance above all his other work (Masson, + _Life of Milton_, vol. iii; Howard, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 86, + vol. iii, p. 251; C.B. Wheeler, "Milton's Doctrine and Discipline + of Divorce," _Nineteenth Century_, Jan., 1907). + + Marriage, said Milton, "is not a mere carnal coition, but a human + society; where that cannot be had there can be no true marriage" + (_Doctrine of Divorce_, Bk. i, Ch. XIII); it is "a covenant, the + very being whereof consists not in a forced cohabitation, and + counterfeit performance of duties, but in unfeigned love and + peace" (Ib., Ch. VI). Any marriage that is less than this is "an + idol, nothing in the world." The weak point in Milton's + presentation of the matter is that he never explicitly accords to + the wife the same power of initiative in marriage and divorce as + to the husband. There is, however, nothing in his argument to + prevent its equal application to the wife, an application which, + while never asserting he never denies; and it has been pointed + out that he assumes that women are the equals of men and demands + from them intellectual and spiritual companionship; however ready + Milton may have been to grant complete equality of divorce to the + wife, it would have been impossible for a seventeenth century + Puritan to have obtained any hearing for such a doctrine; his + arguments would have been received with, if that were possible, + even more neglect than they actually met. (Milton's scornful + sonnet concerning the reception of his book is well known.) + + Milton insists that in the conventional Christian marriage + exclusive importance is attached to carnal connection. So long as + that connection is possible, no matter what antipathy may exist + between the couple, no matter how mistaken they may have been + "through any error, concealment, or misadventure," no matter if + it is impossible for them to "live in any union or contentment + all their days," yet the marriage still holds good, the two must + "fadge together" (op. cit., Bk. i). It is the Canon law, he says, + which is at fault, "doubtless by the policy of the devil," for + the Canon law leads to licentiousness (op. cit.). It is, he + argues, the absence of reasonable liberty which causes license, + and it is the men who desire to retain the privileges of license + who oppose the introduction of reasonable liberty. + + The just ground for divorce is "indisposition, unfitness, or + contrariety of mind, arising from a cause in nature unchangeable, + hindering, and ever likely to hinder, the main benefits of + conjugal society, which are solace and peace." Without the "deep + and serious verity" of mutual love, wedlock is "nothing but the + empty husks of a mere outside matrimony," a mere hypocrisy, and + must be dissolved (op. cit.). + + Milton goes beyond the usual Puritan standpoint, and not only + rejects courts and magistrates, but approves of self-divorce; for + divorce cannot rightly belong to any civil or earthly power, + since "ofttimes the causes of seeking divorce reside so deeply in + the radical and innocent affections of nature, as is not within + the diocese of law to tamper with." He adds that, for the + prevention of injustice, special points may be referred to the + magistrate, who should not, however, in any case, be able to + forbid divorce (op. cit., Bk. ii, Ch. XXI). Speaking from a + standpoint which we have not even yet attained, he protests + against the absurdity of "authorizing a judicial court to toss + about and divulge the unaccountable and secret reason of + disaffection between man and wife." + + In modern times Hinton was accustomed to compare the marriage law + to the law of the Sabbath as broken by Jesus. We find exactly the + same comparison in Milton. The Sabbath, he believes, was made for + God. "Yet when the good of man comes into the scales, we have + that voice of infinite goodness and benignity, that 'Sabbath was + made for man and not man for Sabbath.' What thing ever was made + more for man alone, and less for God, than marriage?" (_op. + cit._, Bk. i, Ch. XI). "If man be lord of the Sabbath, can he be + less than lord of marriage?" + +Milton, in this matter as in others, stood outside the currents of his +age. His conception of marriage made no more impression on contemporary +life than his _Paradise Lost_. Even his own Puritan party who had passed +the Act of 1653 had strangely failed to transfer divorce and nullity cases +to the temporal courts, which would at least have been a step on the right +road. The Puritan influence was transferred to America and constituted the +leaven which still works in producing the liberal though too minutely +detailed divorce laws of many States. The American secular marriage +procedure followed that set up by the English Commonwealth, and the dictum +of the great Quaker, George Fox, "We marry none, but are witnesses of +it,"[335] (which was really the sound kernel in the Canon law) is regarded +as the spirit of the marriage law of the conservative but liberal State of +Pennsylvania, where, as recently as 1885, a statute was passed expressly +authorizing a man and woman to solemnize their own marriage.[336] + +In England itself the reforms in marriage law effected by the Puritans +were at the Restoration largely submerged. For two and a half centuries +longer the English spiritual courts administered what was substantially +the old Canon law. Divorce had, indeed, become more difficult than before +the Reformation, and the married woman's lot was in consequence harder. +From the sixteenth century to the second half of the nineteenth, English +marriage law was peculiarly harsh and rigid, much less liberal than that +of any other Protestant country. Divorce was unknown to the ordinary +English law, and a special act of Parliament, at enormous expense, was +necessary to procure it in individual cases.[337] There was even an +attitude of self-righteousness in the maintenance of this system. It was +regarded as moral. There was complete failure to realize that nothing is +more immoral than the existence of unreal sexual unions, not only from +the point of view of theoretical but also of practical morality, for no +community could tolerate a majority of such unions.[338] In 1857 an act +for reforming the system was at last passed with great difficulty. It was +a somewhat incoherent and make-shift measure, and was avowedly put forward +only as a step towards further reform; but it still substantially governs +English procedure, and in the eyes of many has set a permanent standard of +morality. The spirit of blind conservatism,--_Nolumus leges Angliæ +mutare_,--which in this sphere had reasserted itself after the vital +movement of Reform and Puritanism, still persists. In questions of +marriage and divorce English legislation and English public feeling are +behind alike both the Latin land of France and the Puritanically moulded +land of the United States. + + The author of an able and temperate essay on _The Question of + English Divorce_, summing up the characteristics of the English + divorce law, concludes that it is: (1) unequal, (2) immoral, (3) + contradictory, (4) illogical, (5) uncertain, and (6) unsuited to + present requirements. It was only grudgingly introduced in a + bill, presented to Parliament in 1857, which was stubbornly + resisted during a whole session, not only on religious grounds by + the opponents of divorce, but also by the friends of divorce, who + desired a more liberal measure. It dealt with the sexes + unequally, granting the husband but not the wife divorce for + adultery alone. In introducing the bill the Attorney-General + apologized for this defect, stating that the measure was not + intended to be final, but merely as a step towards further + legislation. That was more than half a century ago, but the + further step has not yet been taken. Incomplete and + unsatisfactory as the measure was, it seems to have been regarded + by many as revolutionary and dangerous in the highest degree. The + author of an article on "Modern Divorce" in the _Universal + Review_ for July, 1859, while approving in principle of the + establishment of a special Divorce Court, yet declared that the + new court was "tending to destroy marriage as a social + institution and to sap female chastity," and that "everyone now + is a husband and wife at will." "No one," he adds, "can now + justly quibble at a deficiency of matrimonial vomitories." + + Yet, according to this law, it is not even possible for a wife to + obtain a divorce for her husband's adultery, unless he is also + cruel or deserts her. At first "cruelty" meant physical cruelty + and of a serious kind. But in course of time the meaning of the + word was extended to pain inflicted on the mind, and now coldness + and neglect may almost of themselves constitute cruelty, though + the English court has sometimes had the greatest hesitation in + accepting the most atrocious forms of refined cruelty, because it + involved no "physical" element. "The time may very reasonably be + looked forward to, however," a legal writer has stated + (Montmorency, "The Changing Status of a Married Woman," _Law + Quarterly Review_, April, 1897), "when almost any act of + misconduct will, in itself, be considered to convey such mental + agony to the innocent party as to constitute the cruelty + requisite under the Act of 1857." (The question of cruelty is + fully discussed in J.R. Bishop's _Commentaries on Marriage, + Divorce and Separation_, 1891, vol. i, Ch. XLIX; cf. Howard, op. + cit., vol. ii, p. 111). + + There can be little doubt, however, that cruelty alone is a + reasonable cause for divorce. In many American States, where the + facilities for divorce are much greater than in England, cruelty + is recognized as itself sufficient cause, whether the wife or the + husband is the complainant. The acts of cruelty alleged have + sometimes been seemingly very trivial. Thus divorces have been + pronounced in America on the ground of the "cruel and inhuman + conduct" of a wife who failed to sew her husband's buttons on, or + because a wife "struck plaintiff a violent blow with her bustle," + or because a husband does not cut his toe-nails, or because + "during our whole married life my husband has never offered to + take me out riding. This has been a source of great mental + suffering and injury." In many other cases, it must be added, the + cruelty inflicted by the husband, even by the wife--for though + usually, it is not always, the husband who is the brute--is of an + atrocious and heart-rending character (_Report on Marriage and + Divorce in the United States_, issued by Hon. Carroll D. Wright, + Commissioner of Labor, 1889). But even in many of the apparently + trivial cases--as of a husband who will not wash, and a wife who + is constantly evincing a hasty temper--it must be admitted that + circumstances which, in the more ordinary relationships of life + may be tolerated, become intolerable in the intimate relationship + of sexual union. As a matter of fact, it has been found by + careful investigation that the American courts weigh well the + cases that come before them, and are not careless in the granting + of decrees of divorce. + + In 1859 an exaggerated importance was attached to the gross + reasons for divorce, to the neglect of subtle but equally fatal + impediments to the continuance of marriage. This was pointed out + by Gladstone, who was opposed to making adultery a cause of + divorce at all. "We have many causes," he said, "more fatal to + the great obligation of marriage, as disease, idiocy, crime + involving punishment for life." Nowadays we are beginning to + recognize not only such causes as these, but others of a far more + intimate character which, as Milton long ago realized, cannot be + embodied in statutes, or pleaded in law courts. The matrimonial + bond is not merely a physical union, and we have to learn that, + as the author of _The Question of English Divorce_ (p. 49) + remarks, "other than physical divergencies are, in fact, by far + the most important of the originating causes of matrimonial + disaster." + + In England and Wales more husbands than wives petition for + divorce, the wives who petition being about 40 per cent, of the + whole. Divorces are increasing, though the number is not large, + in 1907 about 1,300, of whom less than half remarried. The + inadequacy of the divorce law is shown by the fact that during + the same year about 7,000 orders for judicial separation were + issued by magistrates. These separation orders not only do not + give the right to remarry, but they make it impossible to obtain + divorce. They are, in effect, an official permission to form + relationships outside State marriage. + + In the United States during the years 1887-1906 nearly 40 per + cent, of the divorces granted were for "desertion," which is + variously interpreted in different States, and must often mean a + separation by mutual consent. Of the remainder, 19 per cent, were + for unfaithfulness, and the same proportion for cruelty; but + while the divorces granted to husbands for the infidelity of + their wives are nearly three times as great proportionately as + those granted to wives for their husband's adultery, with regard + to cruelty it is the reverse, wives obtaining 27 per cent, of + their divorces on that ground and husbands only 10 per cent. + + In Prussia divorce is increasing. In 1907 there were eight + thousand divorces, the cause in half the cases being adultery, + and in about a thousand cases malicious desertion. In cases of + desertion the husbands were the guilty parties nearly twice as + often as the wives, in cases of adultery only a fifth to an + eighth part. + +There cannot be the slightest doubt that the difficulty, the confusion, +the inconsistency, and the flagrant indecency which surround divorce and +the methods of securing it are due solely and entirely to the subtle +persistence of traditions based, on the one hand, on the Canon law +doctrines of the indissolubility of marriage and the sin of sexual +intercourse outside marriage, and, on the other hand, on the primitive +idea of marriage as a contract which economically subordinates the wife to +the husband and renders her person, or at all events her guardianship, his +property. It is only when we realize how deeply these traditions have +become embedded in the religious, legal, social and sentimental life of +Europe that we can understand how it is that barbaric notions of marriage +and divorce can to-day subsist in a stage of civilization which has, in +many respects, advanced beyond such notions. + +The Canon law conception of the abstract religious sanctity of matrimony, +when transferred to the moral sphere, makes a breach of the marriage +relationship seem a public wrong; the conception of the contractive +subordination of the wife makes such a breach on her part, and even, by +transference of ideas, on his part, seem a private wrong. These two ideas +of wrong incoherently flourish side by side in the vulgar mind, even +to-day. + +The economic subordination of the wife as a species of property +significantly comes into view when we find that a husband can claim, and +often secure, large sums of money from the man who sexually approaches his +property, by such trespass damaging it in its master's eyes.[339] To a +psychologist it would be obvious that a husband who has lacked the skill +so to gain and to hold his wife's love and respect that it is not +perfectly easy and natural to her to reject the advances of any other man +owes at least as much damages to her as she or her partner owes to him; +while if the failure is really on her side, if she is so incapable of +responding to love and trust and so easy a prey to an outsider, then +surely the husband, far from wishing for any money compensation, should +consider himself more than fully compensated by being delivered from the +necessity of supporting such a woman. In the absence of any false +traditions that would be obvious. It might not, indeed, be unreasonable +that a husband should pay heavily in order to free himself from a wife +whom, evidently, he has made a serious mistake in choosing. But to ordain +that a man should actually be indemnified because he has shown himself +incapable of winning a woman's love is an idea that could not occur in a +civilized society that was not twisted by inherited prejudice.[340] Yet as +matters are to-day there are civilized countries in which it is legally +possible for a husband to enter a prayer for damages against his wife's +paramour in combination with either a petition for judicial separation or +for dissolution of wedlock. In this way adultery is not a crime but a +private injury.[341] + +At the same time, however, the influence of Canon law comes inconsistently +to the surface and asserts that a breach of matrimony is a public wrong, a +sin transformed by the State into something almost or quite like a crime. +This is clearly indicated by the fact that in some countries the adulterer +is liable to imprisonment, a liability scarcely nowadays carried into +practice. But exactly the same idea is beautifully illustrated by the +doctrine of "collusion," which, in theory, is still strictly observed in +many countries. According to the doctrine of "collusion" the conditions +necessary to make the divorce possible must on no account be secured by +mutual agreement. In practice it is impossible to prevent more or less +collusion, but if proved in court it constitutes an absolute impediment to +the granting of a divorce, however just and imperative the demand for +divorce may be. + + The English Divorce Act of 1857 refused divorce when there was + collusion, as well as when there was any countercharge against + the petitioner, and the Matrimonial Causes Act of 1860 provided + the machinery for guaranteeing these bars to divorce. This + question of collusion is discussed by G.P. Bishop (op. cit., + vol. ii, Ch. IX). "However just a cause may be," Bishop remarks, + "if parties collude in its management, so that in real fact both + parties are plaintiffs, while by the record the one appears as + plaintiff and the other as defendant, it cannot go forward. All + conduct of this sort, disturbing to the course of justice, falls + within the general idea of fraud on the court. Such is the + doctrine in principle everywhere." + +It is quite evident that from the social or the moral point of view, it is +best that when a husband and wife can no longer live together, they should +part amicably, and in harmonious agreement effect all the arrangements +rendered necessary by their separation. The law ridiculously forbids them +to do so, and declares that they must not part at all unless they are +willing to part as enemies. In order to reach a still lower depth of +absurdity and immorality the law goes on to say that if as a matter of +fact they have succeeded in becoming enemies to each other to such an +extent that each has wrongs to plead against the other party they cannot +be divorced at all![342] That is to say that when a married couple have +reached a degree of separation which makes it imperatively necessary, not +merely in their own interests but in the moral interests of society, that +they should be separated and their relations to other parties concerned +regularized, then they must on no account be separated. + +It is clear how these provisions of the law are totally opposed to the +demands of reason and morality. Yet at the same time it is equally clear +how no efforts of the lawyers, however skilful or humane those efforts may +be, can bring the present law into harmony with the demands of modern +civilization. It is not the lawyers who are at fault; they have done +their best, and, in England, it is entirely owing to the skilful and +cautious way in which the judges have so far as possible pressed the law +into harmony with modern needs, that our antiquated divorce laws have +survived at all. It is the system which is wrong. That system is the +illegitimate outgrowth of the Canon law which grew up around conceptions +long since dead. It involves the placing of the person who imperils the +theoretical indissolubility of the matrimonial bond in the position of a +criminal, now that he can no longer be publicly condemned as a sinner. To +aid and abet that criminal is itself an offence, and the aider and abettor +of the criminal must, therefore, be inconsequently punished by the curious +method of refraining from punishing the criminal. We do not openly assert +that the defendant in a divorce case is a criminal; that would be to +render the absurdity of it too obvious, and, moreover, would be hardly +consistent with the permission to claim damages which is based on a +different idea. We hover uncertainly between two conceptions of divorce, +both of them bad, each inconsistent with the other, and neither of them +capable of being pushed to its logical conclusions. + +The result is that if a perfectly virtuous married couple comes forward to +claim divorce, they are told that it is out of the question, for in such a +case there must be a "defendant." They are to be punished for their +virtue. If each commits adultery and they again come forward to claim +divorce, they are told that it is still out of the question, for there +must be a "plaintiff." Before they were punished for their virtue; now +they are to be punished in exactly the same way for their lack of it. The +couple must humor the law by adopting a course of action which may be +utterly repugnant to both. If only the wife alone will commit adultery, if +only the husband will commit adultery and also inflict some act of cruelty +upon his wife, if the innocent party will descend to the degradation of +employing detectives and hunting up witnesses, the law is at their feet +and hastens to accord to both parties the permission to remarry. Provided, +of course, that the parties have arranged this without "collusion." That +is to say that our law, with its ecclesiastical traditions behind it, +says to the wife: Be a sinner, or to the husband: Be a sinner and a +criminal--then we will do all you wish. The law puts a premium on sin and +on crime. In order to pile absurdity on absurdity it claims that this is +done in the cause of "public morality." To those who accept this point of +view it seems that the sweeping away of divorce laws would undermine the +bases of morality. Yet there can be little doubt that the sooner such +"morality" is undermined, and indeed utterly destroyed, the better it will +be for true morality. + + There is an influential movement in England for the reform of + divorce, on the grounds that the present law is unjust, + illogical, and immoral, represented by the Divorce Law Reform + Union. Even the former president of the Divorce Court, Lord + Gorell, declared from the bench in 1906 that the English law + produces deplorable results, and is "full of inconsistencies, + anomalies and inequalities, amounting almost to absurdities." The + points in the law which have aroused most protest, as being most + behind the law of other nations, are the great expense of + divorce, the inequality of the sexes, the failure to grant + divorces for desertion and in cases of hopeless insanity, and the + failure of separation orders to enable the separated parties to + marry again. Separation orders are granted by magistrates for + cruelty, adultery, and desertion. This "separation" is really the + direct descendant of the Canon law divorce _a mensa et thoro_, + and the inability to marry which it involves is merely a survival + of the Canon law tradition. At the present time + magistrates--exercising their discretion, it is admitted, in a + careful and prudent manner--issue some 7,000 separation orders + annually, so that every year the population is increased by + 14,000 individuals mostly in the age of sexual vigor, and some + little more than children, who are forbidden by law to form legal + marriages. They contribute powerfully to the great forward + movement which, as was shown in the previous chapter, marks the + morality of our age. But it is highly undesirable that free + marriages should be formed, helplessly, by couples who have no + choice in the matter, for it is unlikely that under such + circumstances any high level of personal responsibility can be + reached. The matter could be easily remedied by dropping + altogether a Canon law tradition which no longer has any vitality + or meaning, and giving to the magistrate's separation order the + force of a decree of divorce. + + New Zealand and the Australian colonies, led by Victoria in 1889, + have passed divorce laws which, while more or less framed on the + English model, represent a distinct advance. Thus in New Zealand + the grounds for divorce are adultery on either side, wilful + desertion, habitual drunkenness, and conviction to imprisonment + for a term of years. + +It is natural that an Englishman should feel acutely sensitive to this +blot in the law of England and desire the speedy disappearance of a system +so open to scathing sarcasm. It is natural that every humane person should +grow impatient of the spectacle of so many blighted lives, of so much +misery inflicted on innocent persons--and on persons who even when +technically guilty are often the victims of unnatural circumstances--by +the persistence of a mediæval system of ecclesiastical tyranny and +inquisitorial insolence into an age when sexual relationships are becoming +regarded as the sacred secret of the persons intimately concerned, and +when more and more we rely on the responsibility of the individual in +making and maintaining such relationships. + +When, however, we refrain from concentrating our attention on particular +countries and embrace the general movement of civilization in the matter +of divorce during recent times, there cannot be the slightest doubt as to +the direction of that movement. England was a pioneer in the movement half +a century ago, and to-day every civilized country is moving in the same +direction. France broke with the old ecclesiastical tradition of the +indissolubility of matrimony in 1885 by a divorce law in some respects +very reasonable. The wife may obtain a divorce on an equality with the +husband (though she is liable to imprisonment for adultery), the +co-respondent occupies a very subordinate position in adultery charges, +and facility is offered for divorce on the ground of simple _injures +graves_ (excluding as far as possible mere incompatibility of temper), +while the judge has the power, which he often successfully exerts, to +effect a reconciliation in private or to grant a decree without public +trial. The influence of France has doubtless been influential in moulding +the divorce laws of the other Latin countries. + +In Prussia an enlightened divorce law formerly prevailed by which it was +possible for a couple to separate without scandal when it was clearly +shown that they could not live together in agreement. But the German Code +of 1900 introduced provisions as regards divorce which--while in some +respects more liberal than those of the English law, especially by +permitting divorce for desertion and insanity--are, on the whole, +retrograde as compared with the earlier Prussian law and place the matter +on a cruder and more brutal basis. For two years after the Code came into +operations the number of divorces sank; after that the public and the +courts adapted themselves to the new provisions (more especially one which +allowed divorce for serious neglect of conjugal duties) and the number of +divorces began to increase with great rapidity. "But," remarks Hirschfeld, +"how painful it has now become to read divorce cases! One side abuses the +other, makes accusations of the grossest character, employs detectives to +obtain the necessary proofs of 'dishonorable and immoral conduct,' +whereas, before, both parties realized that they had been deceived in each +other, that they failed to suit each other, and that they could no longer +live together. Thus we see that the narrowing of individual responsibility +in sexual matters has not only had no practical effect, but leads to +injurious results of a serious kind."[343] In England a similar state of +things has prevailed ever since divorce was established, but it seems to +have become too familiar to excite either pain or disgust. Yet, as Adner +has pointed out,[344] it has moved in a direction contrary to the general +tendency of civilization, not only by increasing the inquisitorial +authority of public courts but by emphasizing merely external causes of +divorce and abolishing the more subtle internal causes which constantly +grow in importance with the refinement of civilization. + +In Austria until recent years, Canon law ruled absolutely, and matrimony +was indissoluble, as it still remains for the Catholic population. The +results as regards matrimonial happiness were in the highest degree +deplorable. Half a century ago Gross-Hoffinger investigated the marital +happiness of 100 Viennese couples of all social classes, without choice of +cases, and presented the results in detail. He found that 48 couples were +positively unhappy, only 16 were undoubtedly happy, and even among these +there was only one case in which happiness resulted from mutual +faithfulness, happiness in the other cases being only attained by setting +aside the question of fidelity.[345] This picture, it is to be hoped, no +longer remains true. There is an influential Austrian Marriage Reform +Association, publishing a journal called _Die Fessel_, or The Fetter. "One +was chained to another," we are told. "In certain circumstances this must +have been the worst and most torturing penalty of all. The most bizarre +and repulsive couplings took place. There were, it is true, many +affectionate companionships of the chain. But there were many more which +inflicted an eternity of suffering upon one of the pair." This quotation, +it must be added, has nothing to do with what the Canonists, borrowing the +technical term for a prisoner's shackles, suggestively termed the +_vinculum matrimonii_; it was written many years ago concerning the +galleys of the old French convict system. It is, however, recalled to +one's mind by the title which the Austrian Marriage Reform Association has +given to its official organ. + +Russia, where the marriage laws are arranged by the Holy Synod aided by +jurists, stands almost alone among the great countries in the reasonable +simplicity of its divorce provisions. Before 1907 divorce was very +difficult to obtain in Russia, but in that year it became possible for a +married couple to separate by mutual consent and after living apart for a +year to become thereby entitled to a divorce enabling them to remarry. +This provision is in accordance with the humane conception of the sexual +relationship which has always tended to prevail in Russia, whither, it +must be remembered, the stern and unnatural ideals of compulsory celibacy +cherished by the Western Church never completely penetrated; the clergy of +the Eastern Church are married, though the marriage must take place before +they enter the priesthood, and they could not sympathize with the +anti-sexual tone of the marriage regulations laid down by the celibate +clergy of the west. + +Switzerland, again, which has been regarded as the political laboratory +of Europe, also stands apart in the liberality of its divorce legislation. +A renewable divorce for two years may be obtained in Switzerland when +there are "circumstances which seriously affect the maintenance of the +conjugal tie." To the Grand Duchy of Luxembourg, finally, belongs the +honor of having firmly maintained throughout the great principle of +divorce by mutual consent under legal conditions, as established by +Napoleon in his Code of 1803. The smaller countries generally are in +advance of the large in matters of divorce law. The Norwegian law is +liberal. The new Roumanian Code permits divorce by mutual consent, +provided both parents grant equal shares of their property to the +children. The little principality of Monaco has recently introduced the +reasonable provision of granting divorce for, among other causes, +alcoholism, syphilis, and epilepsy, so protecting the future race. + +Outside Europe the most instructive example of the tendency of divorce is +undoubtedly furnished by the United States of America. The divorce laws of +the States are mainly on a Puritanic basis, and they retain not only the +Puritanic love of individual freedom but the Puritanic precisianism.[346] +In some States, notably Iowa, the statute-makers have been constantly +engaged in adopting, changing, abrogating and re-enacting the provisions +of their divorce laws, and Howard has shown how much confusion and +awkwardness arise by such perpetual legislative fiddling over small +details. + +This restless precisianism has somewhat disguised the generally broad and +liberal tendency of marriage law in America, and has encouraged foreign +criticism of American social institutions. As a matter of fact the +prevalence of divorce in America is enormously exaggerated. The proportion +of divorced persons in the population appears to be less than one per +cent., and, contrary to a frequent assertion, it is by no means the rule +for divorced persons to remarry immediately. Taking into account the +special conditions of life in the United States the prevalence of divorce +is small and its character by no means reveals a low grade morality. An +impartial and competent critic of the American people, Professor +Münsterberg, remarks that the real ground which mainly leads to divorce in +the United States--not the mere legal pretexts made compulsory by the +precisianism of the law--is the highly ethical objection to continuing +externally in a marriage which has ceased to be spiritually congenial. "It +is the women especially," he says, "and generally the very best women, who +prefer to take the step, with all the hardships which it involves, to +prolonging a marriage which is spiritually hypocritical and immoral."[347] + +The people of the United States, above all others, cherish ideals of +individualism; they are also the people among whom, above all others, +there is the greatest amount of what Reibmayr calls "blood-chaos." Under +such circumstances the difficulties of conjugal life are necessarily at a +maximum, and marriage union is liable to subtle impediments which must +forever elude the statute-book.[348] There can be little doubt that the +practical sagacity of the American people will enable them sooner or later +to recognize this fact, and that finally fulfilling the Puritanic drift of +their divorce legislation--as foreshadowed in its outcome by Milton--they +will agree to trust their own citizens with the responsibility of deciding +so private a matter as their conjugal relationships, with, of course, +authority in the courts to see that no injustice is committed. It is, +indeed, surprising that the American people, usually intolerant of State +interference, should in this matter so long have tolerated such +interference in so private a matter. + +The movement of divorce is not confined to Christendom; it is a mark of +modern civilization. In Japan the proportion of divorces is higher than in +any other country, not excluding the United States.[349] The most vigorous +and progressive countries are those that insist most firmly on the purity +of sexual unions. In the United States it was pointed out many years ago +that divorce is most prevalent where the standard of education and +morality is highest. It was the New England States, with strong Puritanic +traditions of moral freedom, which took the lead in granting facility to +divorce. The divorce movement is not, as some have foolishly supposed, a +movement making for immorality.[350] Immorality is the inevitable +accompaniment of indissoluble marriage; the emphasis on the sanctity of a +merely formal union discourages the growth of moral responsibility as +regards the hypothetically unholy unions which grow up beneath its shadow. +To insist, on the other hand, by establishing facility of divorce, that +sexual unions shall be real, is to work in the cause of morality. The +lands in which divorce by mutual consent has prevailed longest are +probably among the most, and not the least, moral of lands. + +Surprise has been expressed that although divorce by mutual consent +commended itself as an obviously just and reasonable measure two thousand +years ago to the legally-minded Romans that solution has even yet been so +rarely attained by modern states.[351] Wherever society is established on +a solidly organized basis and the claims of reason and humanity receive +due consideration--even when the general level of civilization is not in +every respect high--there we find a tendency to divorce by mutual consent. + + In Japan, according to the new Civil Code, much as in ancient + Rome, marriage is effected by giving notice of the fact to the + registrar in the presence of two witnesses, and with the consent + (in the case of young couples) of the heads of their families. + There may be a ceremony, but it is not demanded by the law. + Divorce is effected in exactly the same way, by simply having the + registration cancelled, provided both husband and wife are over + twenty-five years of age. For younger couples unhappily married, + and for cases in which mutual consent cannot be obtained, + judicial divorce exists. This is granted for various specific + causes, of which the most important is "grave insult, such as to + render living together unbearable" (Ernest W. Clement, "The New + Woman in Japan," _American Journal Sociology_, March, 1903). Such + a system, like so much else achieved by Japanese organization, + seems reasonable, guarded, and effective. + + In the very different and far more ancient marriage system of + China, divorce by mutual consent is equally well-established. + Such divorce by mutual consent takes place for incompatibility of + temperament, or when both husband and wife desire it. There are, + however, various antiquated and peculiar provisions in the + Chinese marriage laws, and divorce is compulsory for the wife's + adultery or serious physical injuries inflicted by either party + on the other. (The marriage laws of China are fully set forth by + Paul d'Enjoy, _La Revue_, Sept. 1, 1905.) + + Among the Eskimo (who, as readers of Nansen's fascinating books + on their morals will know, are in some respects a highly + socialized people) the sexes are absolutely equal, marriages are + perfectly free, and separation is equally free. The result is + that there are no uncongenial unions, and that no unpleasant word + is heard between man and wife (Stefánsson, _Harper's Magazine_, + Nov., 1908). + + Among the ancient Welsh, women, both before and after marriage, + enjoyed great freedom, far more than was afforded either by + Christianity or the English Common law. "Practically either + husband or wife could separate when either one or both chose" + (Rhys and Brynmor-Jones, _The Welsh People_, p. 214). It was so + also in ancient Ireland. Women held a very high position, and the + marriage tie was very free, so as to be practically, it would + appear, dissoluble by mutual consent. So far as the Brehon laws + show, says Ginnell (_The Brehon Laws_, p. 212), "the marriage + relation was extremely loose, and divorce was as easy, and could + be obtained on as slight ground, as is now the case in some of + the States of the American Union. It appears to have been + obtained more easily by the wife than by the husband. When + obtained on her petition, she took away with her all the property + she had brought her husband, all her husband had settled upon + her on their marriage, and in addition so much of her husband's + property as her industry appeared to have entitled her to." + + Even in early French history we find that divorce by mutual + consent was very common. It was sufficient to prepare in + duplicate a formal document to this effect: "Since between N. and + his wife there is discord instead of charity according to God, + and that in consequence it is impossible for them to live + together, it has pleased both to separate, and they have + accordingly done so." Each of the parties was thus free either to + retire into a cloister or to contract another union (E. de la + Bedollière, _Histoire des Moeurs des Français_, vol. i, p. 317). + Such a practice, however it might accord with the germinal + principle of consent embodied in the Canon law, was far too + opposed to the ecclesiastical doctrine of the sacramental + indissolubility of matrimony to be permanently allowed, and it + was completely crushed out. + +The fact that we so rarely find divorce by mutual consent in Christendom +until the beginning of the nineteenth century, that then it required a man +of stupendous and revolutionary genius like Napoleon to reintroduce it, +and that even he was unable to do so effectually, is clearly due to the +immense victory which the ascetic spirit of Christianity, as firmly +embodied in the Canon law, had gained over the souls and bodies of men. So +subjugated were European traditions and institutions by this spirit that +even the volcanic emotional uprising of the Reformation, as we have seen, +could not shake it off. When Protestant States naturally resumed the +control of secular affairs which had been absorbed by the Church, and +rescued from ecclesiastical hands those things which belonged to the +sphere of the individual conscience, it might have seemed that marriage +and divorce would have been among the first concerns to be thus +transferred. Yet, as we know, England was about as much enslaved to the +spirit and even the letter of Canon law in the nineteenth as in the +fourteenth century, and even to-day English law, though no longer +supported by the feeling of the masses, clings to the same traditions. + +There seems to be little doubt, however, that the modern movement for +divorce must inevitably tend to reach the goal of separation by the will +of both parties, or, under proper conditions and restrictions, by the +will of one party. It now requires the will of two persons to form a +marriage; law insists on that condition.[352] It is logical as well as +just that law should take the next step involved by the historical +evolution of marriage, and equally insist that it requires the will of two +persons to maintain a marriage. This solution is, without doubt, the only +way of deliverance from the crudities, the indecencies, the inextricable +complexities which are introduced into law by the vain attempt to foresee +in detail all the possibilities of conjugal disharmony which may arise +under the conditions of modern civilization. It is, moreover, we may rest +assured, the only solution which the growing modern sense of personal +responsibility in sexual matters traced in the previous chapter--the +responsibility of women as well as of men--will be content to accept. + + The subtle and complex character of the sexual relationships in a + high civilization and the unhappy results of their State + regulation were well expressed by Wilhelm von Humboldt in his + _Ideen zu einen Versuch die Grenzen der Wirksamkeit des Staates + zu bestimmen_, so long ago as 1792. "A union so closely allied + with the very nature of the respective individuals must be + attended with the most hurtful consequences when the State + attempts to regulate it by law, or, through the force of its + institutions, to make it repose on anything save simple + inclination. When we remember, moreover, that the State can only + contemplate the final results of such regulations on the race, we + shall be still more ready to admit the justice of this + conclusion. It may reasonably be argued that a solicitude for the + race only conducts to the same results as the highest solicitude + for the most beautiful development of the inner man. For, after + careful observation, it has been found that the uninterrupted + union of one man with one woman is most beneficial to the race, + and it is likewise undeniable that no other union springs from + true, natural, harmonious love. And further, it may be observed, + that such love leads to the same results as those very relations + which law and custom tend to establish. The radical error seems + to be that the law commands; whereas such a relation cannot mould + itself according to external arrangements, but depends wholly on + inclination; and wherever coercion or guidance comes into + collision with inclination, they divert it still farther from the + proper path. Wherefore it appears to me that the State should not + only loosen the bonds in this instance and leave ampler freedom + to the citizen, but that it should entirely withdraw its active + solicitude from the institution of marriage, and, both generally + and in its particular modifications, should rather leave it + wholly to the free choice of the individuals, and the various + contracts they may enter into with respect to it. I should not be + deterred from the adoption of this principle by the fear that all + family relations might be disturbed, for, although such a fear + might be justified by considerations of particular circumstances + and localities, it could not fairly be entertained in an inquiry + into the nature of men and States in general. For experience + frequently convinces us that just where law has imposed no + fetters, morality most surely binds; the idea of external + coercion is one entirely foreign to an institution which, like + marriage, reposes only on inclination and an inward sense of + duty; and the results of such coercive institutions do not at all + correspond to the intentions in which they originate." + + A long succession of distinguished thinkers--moralists, + sociologists, political reformers--have maintained the social + advantages of divorce by mutual consent, or, under guarded + circumstances, at the wish of one party. Mutual consent was the + corner-stone of Milton's conception of marriage. Montesquieu said + that true divorce must be the result of mutual consent and based + on the impossibility of living together. Sénancour seems to agree + with Montesquieu. Lord Morley (_Diderot_, vol. ii, Ch. I), + echoing and approving the conclusions of Diderot's _Supplément au + Voyage de Bougainville_ (1772), adds that the separation of + husband and wife is "a transaction in itself perfectly natural + and blameless, and often not only laudable, but a duty." Bloch + (_Sexual Life of Our Time_, p. 240), with many other writers, + emphasizes the truth of Shelley's saying, that the freedom of + marriage is the guarantee of its durability. (That the facts of + life point in the same direction has been shown in the previous + chapter.) The learned Caspari (_Die Soziale Frage über die + Freiheit der Ehe_), while disclaiming any prevision of the + future, declares that if sexual relationships are to remain or to + become moral, there must be an easier dissolution of marriage. + Howard, at the conclusion of his exhaustive history of + matrimonial institutions (vol. iii p. 220), though he himself + believes that marriage is peculiarly in need of regulation by + law, is yet constrained to admit that it is perfectly clear to + the student of history that the modern divorce movement is "but a + part of the mighty movement for social liberation which has been + gaining in volume and strength since the Reformation." Similarly + the cautious and judicial Westermarck concludes the chapter on + marriage of his _Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_ (vol. + ii, p. 398) with the statement that "when both husband and wife + desire to separate, it seems to many enlightened minds that the + State has no right to prevent them from dissolving the marriage + contract, provided the children are properly cared for; and that, + for the children, also, it is better to have the supervision of + one parent only than of two who cannot agree." + + In France the leaders of the movement of social reform seem to be + almost, or quite, unanimous in believing that the next step in + regard to divorce is the establishment of divorce by mutual + consent. This was, for instance, the result reached in a + symposium to which thirty-one distinguished men and women + contributed. All were in favor of divorce by mutual consent; the + only exception was Madame Adam, who said she had reached a state + of skepticism with regard to political and social forms, but + admitted that for nearly half a century she had been a strong + advocate of divorce. A large number of the contributors were in + favor of divorce at the desire of one party only (_La Revue_, + March 1, 1901). In other countries, also, there is a growing + recognition that this solution of the question, with due + precautions to avoid any abuses to which it might otherwise be + liable, is the proper and inevitable solution. + + As to the exact method by which divorce by mutual consent should + be effected, opinions differ, and the matter is likely to be + differently arranged in different countries. The Japanese plan + seems simple and judicious (see _ante_, p. 461). Paul and Victor + Margueritte (_Quelques Idées_, pp. 3 et seq.), while realizing + that the conflict of feeling in the matter of personal + associations involves decisions which are entirely outside the + competence of legal tribunals, recognize that such tribunals are + necessary in order to deal with the property of divorced persons, + and also, in the last resort, with the question of the care of + the children. They should not act in public. These writers + propose that each party should choose a representative, and that + these two should choose a third; and that this tribunal should + privately investigate, and if they agreed should register the + divorce, which should take place six or twelve months later, or + three years later, if only desired by one of the parties. Dr. + Shufeldt ("Psychopathia Sexualis and Divorce") proposes that a + divorce-court judge should conduct, alone, the hearing of any + cases of marital discord, the husband and wife appearing directly + before him, without counsel, though with their witnesses, if + necessary; should medical experts be required the judge alone + would be empowered to call them. + +When we realize that the long delay in the acceptance of so just and +natural a basis of divorce is due to an artificial tension created by the +pressure of the dead hand of Canon law--a tension confined exclusively to +Christendom--we may also realize that with the final disappearance of that +tension the just and natural order in this relationship will spring back +the more swiftly because that relief has been so long delayed. "Nature +abhors a vacuum nowhere more than in a marriage," Ellen Key remarks in the +language of antiquated physical metaphor; the vacuum will somehow be +filled, and if it cannot be filled in a natural and orderly manner it will +be filled in an unnatural and disorderly manner. It is the business of +society to see that no laws stand in the way of the establishment of +natural order. + +Reform upon a reasonable basis has been made difficult by the unfortunate +retention of the idea of delinquency. With the traditions of the Canonists +at the back of our heads we have somehow persuaded ourselves that there +cannot be a divorce unless there is a delinquent, a real serious +delinquent who, if he had his deserts, would be imprisoned and consigned +to infamy. But in the marriage relationship, as in all other +relationships, it is only in a very small number of cases that one party +stands towards the other as a criminal, even a defendant. This is often +obvious in the early stages of conjugal alienation. But it remains true in +the end. The wife commits adultery and the husband as a matter of course +assumes the position of plaintiff. But we do not inquire how it is that he +has not so won her love that her adultery is out of the question; such +inquiry might lead to the conclusion that the real defendant is the +husband. And similarly when the husband is accused of brutal cruelty the +law takes no heed to inquire whether in the infliction of less brutal but +not less poignant wounds, the wife also should not be made defendant. +There are a few cases, but only a few, in which the relationship of +plaintiff and defendant is not a totally false and artificial +relationship, an immoral legal fiction. In most cases, if the truth were +fully known, husband and wife should come side by side to the divorce +court and declare: "We are both in the wrong: we have not been able to +fulfil our engagements to each other; we have erred in choosing each +other." The long reports of the case in open court, the mutual +recriminations, the detectives, the servant girls and other witnesses, the +infamous inquisition into intimate secrets--all these things, which no +necessity could ever justify, are altogether unnecessary. + +It is said by some that if there were no impediments to divorce a man +might be married in succession to half a dozen women. These simple-minded +or ignorant persons do not seem to be aware that even when marriage is +absolutely indissoluble a man can, and frequently does, carry on sexual +relationships not merely successively, but, if he chooses, even +simultaneously, with half a dozen women. There is, however, this important +difference that, in the one case, the man is encouraged by the law to +believe that he need only treat at most one of the six women with anything +approaching to justice and humanity; in the other case the law insists +that he shall fairly and openly fulfil his obligations towards all the six +women. It is a very important difference, and there ought to be no +question as to which state of things is moral and which immoral. It is no +concern of the State to inquire into the number of persons with whom a man +or a woman chooses to have sexual relationships; it is a private matter +which may indeed affect their own finer spiritual development but which it +is impertinent for the State to pry into. It is, however, the concern of +the State, in its own collective interest and that of its members, to see +that no injustice is done. + +But what about the children? That is necessarily a very important +question. The question of the arrangements made for the children in cases +of divorce is always one to which the State must give its regulative +attention, for it is only when there are children that the State has any +real concern in the matter. + +At one time it was even supposed by some that the existence of children +was a serious argument against facility of divorce. A more reasonable view +is now generally taken. It is, in the first place, recognized that a very +large proportion of couples seeking divorce have no children. In England +the proportion is about forty per cent.; in some other countries it is +doubtless larger still. But even when there are children no one who +realizes what the conditions are in families where the parents ought to be +but are not divorced can have any doubt that usually those conditions are +extremely bad for the children. The tension between the parents absorbs +energy which should be devoted to the children. The spectacle of the +grievances or quarrels of their parents is demoralizing for the children, +and usually fatal to any respect towards them. At the best it is +injuriously distressing to the children. One effective parent, there +cannot be the slightest doubt, is far better for a child than two +ineffective parents. There is a further point, often overlooked, for +consideration here. Two people when living together at variance--one of +them perhaps, it is not rarely the case, nervously abnormal or +diseased--are not fitted to become parents, nor in the best condition for +procreation. It is, therefore, not merely an act of justice to the +individual, but a measure called for in the interests of the State, that +new citizens should not be brought into the community through such +defective channels.[353] From this point of view all the interests of the +State are on the side of facility of divorce. + +There is a final argument which is often brought forward against facility +of divorce. Marriage, it is said, is for the protection of women; +facilitate divorce and women are robbed of that protection. It is obvious +that this argument has little application as against divorce by mutual +consent. Certainly it is necessary that divorce should only be arranged +under conditions which in each individual case have received the approval +of the law as just. But it must always be remembered that the essential +fact of marriage is not naturally, and should never artificially be made, +an economic question. It is possible--that is a question which society +will have to consider--that a woman should be paid for being a mother on +the ground that she is rearing new citizens for the State. But neither the +State nor her husband nor anyone else ought to pay her for exercising +conjugal rights. The fact that such an argument can be brought forward +shows how far we are from the sound biological attitude towards sexual +relationships. Equally unsound is the notion that the virgin bride brings +her husband at marriage an important capital which is consumed in the +first act of intercourse and can never be recovered. That is a notion +which has survived into civilization, but it belongs to barbarism and not +to civilization. So far as it has any validity it lies within a sphere of +erotic perversity which cannot be taken into consideration in an +estimation of moral values. For most men, however, in any case, whether +they realize it or not, the woman who has been initiated into the +mysteries of love has a higher erotic value than the virgin, and there +need be no anxiety on this ground concerning the wife who has lost her +virginity. It is probably a significant fact that this anxiety for the +protection of women by the limitation of divorce is chiefly brought +forward by men and not by women themselves. A woman at marriage is +deprived by society and the law of her own name. She has been deprived +until recently of the right to her own earnings. She is deprived of the +most intimate rights in her own person. She is deprived under some +circumstances of her own child, against whom she may have committed no +offence whatever. It is perhaps scarcely surprising that she is not +greatly appreciative of the protection afforded her by the withholding of +the right to divorce her husband. "Ah, no, no protection!" a brilliant +French woman has written. "We have been protected long enough. The only +protection to grant women is to cease protecting them."[354] As a matter +of fact the divorce movement appears to develop, on the whole, with that +development of woman's moral responsibility traced in the previous +chapter, and where divorce is freest women occupy the highest position. + +We cannot fail to realize as we grasp the nature and direction of the +modern movement of divorce that the final tendency of that movement is to +efface itself. Necessary as the Divorce Court has been as the inevitable +corollary of an impossible ecclesiastical conception of marriage, no +institution is now more hideous, more alien to the instinctive feelings +generated by a fine civilization, and more opposed to the dignity of +womanhood.[355] Its disappearance and its substitution by private +arrangements, effected on their contractive sides, especially if there are +children to provide for, under legal and if necessary judicial +supervision, is, and always has been, the natural result of the attainment +of a reasonably high stage of civilization. The Divorce Court has merely +been a phase in the history of modern marriage, and a phase that has +really been repugnant to all concerned in it. There is no need to view the +project of its ultimate disappearance with anything but satisfaction. It +was merely the outcome of an artificial conception of marriage. It is time +to return to the consideration of that conception. + +We have seen that when the Catholic development of the archaic conception +of marriage as a sacrament, slowly elaborated and fossilized by the +ingenuity of the Canonists, was at last nominally dethroned, though not +destroyed, by the movement associated with the Reformation, it was +replaced by the conception of marriage as a contract. This conception of +marriage as a contract still enjoys a considerable amount of credit +amongst us. + +There must always be contractive elements, implicit or explicit, in a +marriage; that was well recognized even by the Canonists. But when we +treat marriage as all contract, and nothing but contract, we have to +realize that we have set up a very peculiar form of contract, not +voidable, like other contracts, by the agreement of the parties to it, but +dissoluble as a sort of punishment of delinquency rather than by the +voluntary annulment of a bond.[356] When the Protestant Reformers seized +on the idea of marriage as a contract they were not influenced by any +reasoned analysis of the special characteristics of a contract; they were +merely anxious to secure a plausible ground, already admitted even by the +Canonists to cover certain aspects of the matrimonial union, on which they +could declare that marriage is a secular and not an ecclesiastical matter, +a civil bond and not a sacramental process.[357] + +Like so much else in the Protestant revolt, the strength of this attitude +lay in the fact that it was a protest, based on its negative side on +reasonable and natural grounds. But while Protestantism was right in its +attempt--for it was only an attempt--to deny the authority of Canon law, +that attempt was altogether unsatisfactory on the positive side. As a +matter of fact marriage is not a true contract and no attempt has ever +been made to convert it into a true contract. + + Various writers have treated marriage as an actual contract or + argued that it ought to be converted into a true contract. Mrs. + Mona Caird, for instance ("The Morality of Marriage," + _Fortnightly Review_, 1890), believes that when marriage becomes + really a contract "a couple would draw up their agreement, or + depute the task to their friends, as is now generally done as + regards marriage settlements. They agree to live together on such + and such terms, making certain stipulations within the limits of + the code." The State, she holds, should, however, demand an + interval of time between notice of divorce and the divorce + itself, if still desired when that interval has passed. + Similarly, in the United States Dr. Shufeldt ("Needed Revision of + the Laws of Marriage and Divorce," _Medico-Legal Journal_, Dec., + 1897) insists that marriage must be entirely put into the hands + of the legal profession and "made a civil contract, explicit in + detail, and defining terms of divorce, in the event that a + dissolution of the contract is subsequently desired." He adds + that medical certificates of freedom from hereditary and acquired + disease should be required, and properly regulated probationary + marriages also be instituted. + + In France, a deputy of the Chamber was, in 1891, so convinced + that marriage is a contract, like any other contract, that he + declared that "to perform music at the celebration of a marriage + is as ridiculous as it would be to send for a tenor to a notary's + to celebrate a sale of timber." He was of quite different mind + from Pepys, who, a couple of centuries earlier, had been equally + indignant at the absence of music from a wedding, which, he said, + made it like a coupling of dog and bitch. + + A frequent demand of those who insist that marriage must be + regarded as a contract is marriage contracted for a term of + years. Marriages could be contracted for a term of five years or + less in old Japan, and it is said that they were rarely or never + dissolved at the end of the term. Goethe, in his + _Wahlverwandtschaften_ (Part I, Ch. X) incidentally introduced a + proposal for marriages for a term of five years and attached much + moral significance to the prolongation of the marriage beyond + that term without external compulsion. (Bloch considers that + Goethe had probably heard of the Japanese custom, _Sexual Life of + Our Time_, p. 241.) Professor E.D. Cope ("The Marriage Problem," + _Open Court_, Nov. 15 and 22, 1888), likewise, in order to remove + matrimony from the domain of caprice and to permit full and fair + trial, advocated "a system of civil marriage contracts which + shall run for a definite time. These contracts should be of the + same value and effect as the existing marriage contract. The time + limits should be increased rapidly, so as to prevent women of + mature years being deprived of support. The first contract ought + not to run for less than five years, so as to give ample + opportunity for acquaintance, and for the recovery from temporary + disagreements." This first contract, Cope held, should be + terminable at the wish of either party; the second contract, for + ten or fifteen years, should only be terminable at the wish of + both parties, and the third should be permanent and indissoluble. + George Meredith, the distinguished novelist, also, more recently, + threw out the suggestion that marriages should be contracted for + a term of years. + + It can scarcely be said that marriages for a term of years + constitute a very satisfactory solution of the difficulties at + present encountered. They would not commend themselves to young + lovers, who believe that their love is eternal, nor, so long as + the union proves satisfactory, is there any need to introduce the + disturbing idea of a legal termination of the contract. On the + other hand, if the union proves unhappy, it is not reasonable to + insist on the continuation for ten or even five years of an empty + form which corresponds to no real marriage union. Even if + marriage is placed on the most prosaic contractive basis it is a + mistake, and indeed an impossibility, to pre-ordain the length of + its duration. The system of fixing the duration of marriage + beforehand for a term of years involves exactly the same + principle as the system of fixing it beforehand for life. It is + open to the same objection that it is incompatible with any + vital relationship. As the demand for vital reality and + effectiveness in social relationships grows, this fact is + increasingly felt. We see exactly the same change among us in + regard to the system of inflicting fixed sentences of + imprisonment on criminals. To send a man to prison for five years + or for life, without any regard to the unknown problem of the + vital reaction of imprisonment on the man--a reaction which will + be different in every individual case--is slowly coming to be + regarded as an absurdity. + +If marriage were really placed on the basis of a contract, not only would +that contract be voidable at the will of the two parties concerned, +without any question of delinquency coming into the question, but those +parties would at the outset themselves determine the conditions regulating +the contract. But nothing could be more unlike our actual marriage. The +two parties are bidden to accept each other as husband and wife; they are +not invited to make a contract; they are not even told that, little as +they may know it, they have in fact made a very complicated and elaborate +contract that was framed on lines laid down, for a large part, thousands +of years before they were born. Unless they have studied law they are +totally ignorant, also, that this contract contains clauses which under +some circumstances may be fatal to either of them. All that happens is +that a young couple, perhaps little more than children, momentarily dazed +by emotion, are hurried before the clergyman or the civil registrar of +marriages, to bind themselves together for life, knowing nothing of the +world and scarcely more of each other, knowing nothing also of the +marriage laws, not even perhaps so much as that there are any marriage +laws, never realizing that--as has been truly said--from the place they +are entering beneath a garland of flowers there is, on this side of death, +no exit except through the trapdoor of a sewer.[358] + + When a woman marries she gives up the right to her own person. + Thus, according to the law of England, a man "cannot be guilty of + a rape upon his lawful wife." Stephen, who, in the first edition + of his _Digest of Criminal Law_, thought that under some + circumstances a man might be indicted for rape upon his wife, in + the last edition withdrew that opinion. A man may rape a + prostitute, but he cannot rape his wife. Having once given her + consent to sexual intercourse by the act of marrying a man, she + has given it forever, whatever new circumstances may arise, and + he has no need to ask her consent to sexual intercourse, not even + if he is knowingly suffering at the time from a venereal disease + (see, e.g., an article on "Sex Bias," _Westminster Review_, + March, 1888). + + The duty of the wife to allow "conjugal rights" to her husband is + another aspect of her legal subjection to him. Even in the + nineteenth century a Suffolk lady of good family was imprisoned + in Ipswich Goal for many years and fed on bread and water, though + suffering from various diseases, till she died, simply because + she continued to disregard the decree requiring her to render + conjugal rights to her husband. This state of things was partly + reformed by the Matrimonial Causes Bill of 1884, and that bill + was passed, not to protect women, but men, against punishment for + refusal to restore conjugal rights. Undoubtedly, the modern + tendency, although it has progressed very slowly, is against + applying compulsion to either husband or wife to yield "conjugal + rights;" and since the Jackson case it is not possible in England + for a husband to use force in attempting to compel his wife to + live with him. This tendency is still more marked in the United + States; thus the Iowa Supreme Court, a few years ago, decided + that excessive demands for coitus constituted cruelty of a degree + justifying divorce (J.G. Kiernan, _Alienist and Neurologist_, + Nov. 1906, p. 466). + + The slender tenure of the wife over her person is not confined to + the sexual sphere, but even extends to her right to life. In + England, if a wife kills her husband, it was formerly the very + serious offence of "petit treason," and it is still murder. But, + if a husband kills his wife and is able to plead her adultery and + his jealousy, it is only manslaughter. (In France, where jealousy + is regarded with extreme indulgence, even a wife who kills her + husband is often acquitted.) + + It must not, however, be supposed that all the legal inequalities + involved by marriage are in favor of the husband. A large number + of injustices are also inflicted on the husband. The husband, for + instance, is legally responsible for the libels uttered by his + wife, and he is equally responsible civilly for the frauds she + commits, even if she is living apart from him. (This was, for + instance, held by an English judge in 1908; "he could only say he + regretted it, for it seems a hard case. But it was the law.") + Belfort Bax has, in recent years, especially insisted on the + hardships inflicted by English law in such ways as these. There + can be no doubt that marriage, as at present constituted, + inflicts serious wrongs on the husband as well as on the wife. + +Marriage is, therefore, not only not a contract in the true sense,[359] +but in the only sense in which it is a contract it is a contract of an +exceedingly bad kind. When the Canonists superseded the old conception of +marriage as a contract of purchase by their sacramental marriage, they +were in many respects effecting a real progress, and the return to the +idea of a contract, as soon as its temporary value as a protest has +ceased, proves altogether out of harmony with any advanced stage of +civilization. It was revived in days before the revolt against slavery had +been inaugurated. Personal contracts are out of harmony with our modern +civilization and our ideas of individual liberty. A man can no longer +contract himself as a slave nor sell his wife. Yet marriage, regarded as a +contract, is of precisely the same class as those transactions.[360] In +every high stage of civilization this fact is clearly recognized, and +young couples are not even allowed to contract themselves out in marriage +unconditionally. We see this, for instance, in the wise legislation of the +Romans. Even under the Christian Emperors that sound principle was +maintained and the lawyer Paulus wrote:[361] "Marriage was so free, +according to ancient opinion, that even agreements between the parties not +to separate from one another could have no validity." In so far as the +essence and not any accidental circumstance of the marital relationships +is made a contract, it is a contract of a nature which the two parties +concerned are not competent to make. Biologically and psychologically it +cannot be valid, and with the growth of a humane civilization it is +explicitly declared to be legally invalid. + +For, there can be no doubt about it, the intimate and essential fact of +marriage--the relationship of sexual intercourse--is not and cannot be a +contract. It is not a contract but a fact; it cannot be effected by any +mere act of will on the part of the parties concerned; it cannot be +maintained by any mere act of will. To will such a contract is merely to +perform a worse than indecorous farce. Certainly many of the circumstances +of marriage are properly the subject of contract, to be voluntarily and +deliberately made by the parties to the contract. But the essential fact +of marriage--a love strong enough to render the most intimate of +relationships possible and desirable through an indefinite number of +years--cannot be made a matter for contract. Alike from the physical point +of view, and the psychical point of view, no binding contract--and a +contract is worthless if it is not binding--can possibly be made. And the +making of such pseudo-contracts concerning the future of a marriage, +before it has even been ascertained that the marriage can ever become a +fact at all, is not only impossible but absurd. + +It is of course true that this impossibility, this absurdity, are never +visible to the contracting parties. They have applied to the question all +the very restricted tests that are conventionally permitted to them, and +the satisfactory results of these tests, together with the consciousness +of possessing an immense and apparently inexhaustible fund of loving +emotion, seem to them adequate to the fulfilment of the contract +throughout life, if not indeed eternity. + +As a child of seven I chanced to be in a semi-tropical island of the +Pacific supplied with fruit, especially grapes, from the mainland, and a +dusky market woman always presented a large bunch of grapes to the little +English stranger. But a day came when the proffered bunch was firmly +refused; the superabundance of grapes had produced a reaction of disgust. +A space of nearly forty years was needed to overcome the repugnance to +grapes thus acquired. Yet there can be no doubt that if at the age of six +that little boy had been asked to sign a contract binding him to accept +grapes every day, to keep them always near him, to eat them and to enjoy +them every day, he would have signed that contract as joyously as any +radiant bridegroom or demure bride signs the register in the vestry. But +is a complex man or woman, with unknown capacities for changing or +deteriorating, and with incalculable aptitudes for inflicting torture and +arousing loathing, is such a creature more easy to be bound to than an +exquisite fruit? All the countries of the world in which the subtle +influence of the Canon law of Christendom still makes itself felt, have +not yet grasped a general truth which is well within the practical +experience of a child of seven.[362] + + The notion that such a relationship as that of marriage can rest + on so fragile a basis as a pre-ordained contract has naturally + never prevailed widely in its extreme form, and has been unknown + altogether in many parts of the world. The Romans, as we know, + explicitly rejected it, and even at a comparatively early period + recognized the legality of marriage by _usus_, thus declaring in + effect that marriage must be a fact, and not a mere undertaking. + There has been a widespread legal tendency, especially where the + traditions of Roman law have retained any influence, to regard + the cohabitation of marriage as the essential fact of the + relationship. It was an old rule even under the Catholic Church + that marriage may be presumed from cohabitation (see, e.g., + Zacchia, _Questionum Medico-legalium Opus_, edition of 1688, vol. + iii, p. 234). Even in England cohabitation is already one of the + presumptions in favor of the existence of marriage (though not + necessarily by itself regarded as sufficient), provided the woman + is of unblemished character, and does not appear to be a common + prostitute (Nevill Geary, _The Law of Marriage_, Ch. III). If, + however, according to Lord Watson's judicial statement in the + Dysart Peerage case, a man takes his mistress to a hotel or goes + with her to a baby-linen shop and speaks of her as his wife, it + is to be presumed that he is acting for the sake of decency, and + this furnishes no evidence of marriage. In Scotland the + presumption of marriage arises on much slighter grounds than in + England. This may be connected with the ancient and deep-rooted + custom in Scotland of marriage by exchange of consent (Geary, op. + cit. Ch. XVIII; cf., Howard, _Matrimonial Institutions_, vol. i, + p. 316). + + In the Bredalbane case (Campbell _v._ Campbell, 1867), which was + of great importance because it involved the succession to the + vast estates of the Marquis of Bredalbane, the House of Lords + decided than even an adulterous connection may, on ceasing to be + adulterous, become matrimonial by the simple consent of the + parties, as evidenced by habit and repute, without any need for + the matrimonial character of the connection to be indicated by + any public act, nor any necessity to prove the specific period + when the consent was interchanged. This decision has been + confirmed in the Dysart case (Geary, loc. cit.; cf. C.G. + Garrison, "Limits of Divorce," _Contemporary Review_, Feb., + 1894). Similarly, as decided by Justice Kekewich in the Wagstaff + case in 1907, if a man leaves money to his "widow," on condition + that she never marries again, although he has never been married + to her, and though she has been legally married to another man, + the testator's intentions must be upheld. Garrison, in his + valuable discussion of this aspect of legal marriage (_loc. + cit._), forcibly insists that by English law marriage is a fact + and not a contract, and that where "conduct characterized by + connubial purpose and constancy" exists, there marriage legally + exists, marriage being simply "a name for an existing fact." + + In the United States, marriage "by habit and repute" similarly + exists, and in some States has even been confirmed and extended + by statute (J.P. Bishop, _Commentaries_, vol. i, Ch. XV). + "Whatever the form of the ceremony, and even if all ceremony was + dispensed with," said Judge Cooley, of Michigan, in 1875 (in an + opinion accepted as authoritative by the Federal courts), "if the + parties agreed presently to take each other for husband and wife, + and from that time lived together professedly in that relation, + proof of these facts would be sufficient.... This has been the + settled doctrine of the American courts." (Howard, op. cit., vol. + iii, pp. 177 et seq. Twenty-three States sanction common-law + marriage, while eighteen repudiate, or are inclined to repudiate, + any informal agreement.) + + This legal recognition by the highest judicial authorities, alike + in Great Britain and the United States, that marriage is + essentially a fact, and that no evidence of any form or ceremony + of marriage is required for the most complete legal recognition + of marriage, undoubtedly carries with it highly important + implications. It became clear that the reform of marriage is + possible even without change in the law, and that honorable + sexual relationships, even when entered into without any legal + forms, are already entitled to full legal recognition and + protection. There are, however, it need scarcely be added here, + other considerations which render reform along these lines + incomplete. + +It thus tends to come about that with the growth of civilization the +conception of marriage as a contract falls more and more into discredit. +It is realized, on the one hand, that personal contracts are out of +harmony with our general and social attitude, for if we reject the idea of +a human being contracting himself as a slave, how much more we should +reject the idea of entering by contract into the still more intimate +relationship of a husband or a wife; on the other hand it is felt that the +idea of pre-ordained contracts on a matter over which the individual +himself has no control is quite unreal and when any strict rules of equity +prevail, necessarily invalid. It is true that we still constantly find +writers sententiously asserting their notions of the duties or the +privileges involved by the "contract" of marriage, with no more attempt to +analyze the meaning of the term "contract" in this connection than the +Protestant Reformers made, but it can scarcely be said that these writers +have yet reached the alphabet of the subject they dogmatize about. + +The transference of marriage from the Church to the State which, in the +lands where it first occurred, we owe to Protestantism and, in the +English-speaking lands, especially to Puritanism, while a necessary stage, +had the unfortunate result of secularizing the sexual relationships. That +is to say, it ignored the transcendent element in love which is really the +essential part of such relationships, and it concentrated attention on +those formal and accidental parts of marriage which can alone be dealt +with in a rigid and precise manner, and can alone properly form the +subject of contracts. The Canon law, fantastic and impossible as it became +in many of its developments, at least insisted on the natural and actual +fact of marriage as, above all, a bodily union, while, at the same time, +it regarded that union as no mere secular business contract but a sacred +and exalted function, a divine fact, and the symbol of the most divine +fact in the world. We are returning to-day to the Canonist's conception of +marriage on a higher and freer plane, bringing back the exalted conception +of the Canon law, yet retaining the individualism which the Puritan +wrongly thought he could secure on the basis of mere secularization, +while, further, we recognize that the whole process belongs to the private +sphere of moral responsibility. As Hobhouse has well said, in tracing the +evolutionary history of the modern conception of marriage, the sacramental +idea of marriage has again emerged but on a higher plane; "from being a +sacrament in the magical, it has become one in the ethical, sense." We are +thus tending towards, though we have not yet legally achieved, marriage +made and maintained by consent, "a union between two free and responsible +persons in which the equal rights of both are maintained."[363] + + It is supposed by some that to look upon sexual union as a + sacrament is necessarily to accept the ancient Catholic view, + embodied in the Canon law, that matrimony is indissoluble. That + is, however, a mistake. Even the Canonists themselves were never + able to put forward any coherent and consistent ground for the + indissolubility of matrimony which could commend itself + rationally, while Luther and Milton and Wilhelm von Humboldt, who + maintained the religious and sacred nature of sexual + union--though they were cautious about using the term sacrament + on account of its ecclesiastical implications--so far from + believing that its sanctity involved indissolubility, argued in + the reverse sense. This point of view may be defended even from a + strictly Protestant standpoint. "I take it," Mr. G.C. Maberly + says, "that the Prayer Book definition of a sacrament, 'the + outward and visible sign of an inward and spiritual grace,' is + generally accepted. In marriage the legal and physical unions are + the outward and visible signs, while the inward and spiritual + grace is the God-given love that makes the union of heart and + soul: and it is precisely because I take this view of marriage + that I consider the legal and physical union should be dissolved + whenever the spiritual union of unselfish, divine love and + affection has ceased. It seems to me that the sacramental view of + marriage compels us to say that those who continue the legal or + physical union when the spiritual union has ceased, are--to quote + again from the Prayer Book words applied to those who take the + outward sign of another sacrament when the inward and spiritual + grace is not present--'eating and drinking their own damnation.'" + +If from the point we have now reached we look back at the question of +divorce we see that, as the modern aspects of the marriage relationship +becomes more clearly realized by the community, that question will be +immensely simplified. Since marriage is not a mere contract but a fact of +conduct, and even a sacred fact, the free participation of both parties is +needed to maintain it. To introduce the idea of delinquency and punishment +into divorce, to foster mutual recrimination, to publish to the world the +secrets of the heart or the senses, is not only immoral, it is altogether +out of place. In the question as to when a marriage has ceased to be a +marriage the two parties concerned can alone be the supreme judges; the +State, if the State is called in, can but register the sentence they +pronounce, merely seeing to it that no injustice is involved in the +carrying out of that sentence.[364] + +In discussing in the previous chapter the direction in which sexual +morality tends to develop with the development of civilization we came to +the conclusion that in its main lines it involved, above all, personal +responsibility. A relationship fixed among savage peoples by social custom +which none dare break, and in a higher stage of culture by formal laws +which must be observed in the letter even if broken in the spirit, becomes +gradually transferred to the sphere of individual moral responsibility. +Such a transference is necessarily meaningless, and indeed impossible, +unless the increasing stringency of the moral bond is accompanied by the +decreasing stringency of the formal bond. It is only by the process of +loosening the artificial restraints that the natural restraints can exert +their full control. That process takes place in two ways, in part on the +basis of the indifference to formal marriage which has marked the masses +of the population everywhere and doubtless stretches back to the tenth +century before the domination of ecclesiastical matrimony began, and +partly by the progressive modification of marriage laws which were made +necessary by the needs of the propertied classes anxious to secure the +State recognition of their unions. The whole process is necessarily a +gradual and indeed imperceptible process. It is impossible to fix +definitely the dates of the stages by which the Church effected the +immense revolution by which it grasped, and eventually transferred to the +State, the complete control of marriage, for that revolution was effected +without the intervention of any law. It will be equally difficult to +perceive the transference of the control of marriage from the State to +the individuals concerned, and the more difficult because, as we shall +see, although the essential and intimately personal fact of marriage is +not a proper matter for State control, there are certain aspects of +marriage which touch the interests of the community so closely that the +State is bound to insist on their registration and to take an interest in +their settlement. + +The result of dissolving the formal stringency of the marriage +relationship, it is sometimes said, would be a tendency to an immoral +laxity. Those who make this statement overlook the fact that laxity tends +to reach a maximum as a result of stringency, and that where the merely +external authority of a rigid marriage law prevails, there the extreme +excesses of license most flourish. It is also undoubtedly true, and for +the same reason, that any sudden removal of restraints necessarily +involves a reaction to the opposite extreme of license; a slave is not +changed at a stroke into an autonomous freeman. Yet we have to remember +that the marriage order existed for millenniums before any attempt was +made to mould it into arbitrary shapes by human legislation. Such +legislation, we have seen, was indeed the effort of the human spirit to +affirm more emphatically the demands of its own instincts.[365] But its +final result is to choke and impede rather than to further the instincts +which inspired it. Its gradual disappearance allows the natural order free +and proper scope. + + The great truth that compulsion is not really a force on the side + of virtue, but on the side of vice, had been clearly realized by + the genius of Rabelais, when he said of his ideal social state, + the Abbey of Thelema, that there was but one clause in its rule: + Fay ce que vouldras. "Because," said Rabelais (Bk. i, Ch. VII), + "men that are free, well-born, well-bred, and conversant in + honest companies, have naturally an instinct and spur that + prompts them unto virtuous actions and withdraws them from vice. + These same men, when by base subjection and constraint they are + brought under and kept down, turn aside from that noble + disposition by which they freely were inclined to virtue, to + shake off and break that bond of servitude." So that when a man + and a woman who had lived under the rule of Thelema married each + other, Rabelais tells us, their mutual love lasted undiminished + to the day of their death. + + When the loss of autonomous freedom fails to lead to licentious + rebellion it incurs the opposite risk and tends to become a + flabby reliance on an external support. The artificial support of + marriage by State regulation then resembles the artificial + support of the body furnished by corset-wearing. The reasons for + and against adopting artificial support are the same in one case + as the other. Corsets really give a feeling of support; they + really furnish without trouble a fairly satisfactory appearance + of decorum; they are a real protection against various accidents. + But the price at which they furnish these advantages is serious, + and the advantages themselves only exist under unnatural + conditions. The corset cramps the form and the healthy + development of the organs; it enfeebles the voluntary muscular + system; it is incompatible with perfect grace and beauty; it + diminishes the sum of active energy. It exerts, in short, the + same kind of influence on physical responsibility as formal + marriage on moral responsibility. + + It is too often forgotten, and must therefore be repeated, that + married people do not remain together because of any religious or + legal tie; that tie is merely the historical outcome of their + natural tendency to remain together, a tendency which is itself + far older than history. "Love would exist in the world to-day, + just as pure and just as enduring," says Shufeldt (_Medico-Legal + Journal_, Dec., 1897), "had man never invented 'marriage.' Truly + affined mates would have remained faithful to each other as long + as life lasted. It is only when men attempt to improve upon + nature that crime, disease, and unhappiness step in." "The + abolition of marriage in the form now practiced," wrote Godwin + more than a century ago (_Political Justice_, second edition, + 1796, vol. i, p. 248), "will be attended with no evils. We are + apt to represent it to ourselves as the harbinger of brutal lust + and depravity. But it really happens in this, as in other cases, + that the positive laws which are made to restrain our vices + irritate and multiply them." And Professor Lester Ward, in + insisting on the strength of the monogamic sentiment in modern + society, truly remarks (_International Journal of Ethics_, Oct., + 1896) that the rebellion against rigid marriage bonds "is, in + reality, due to the very strengthening of the true bonds of + conjugal affection, coupled with a rational and altogether proper + determination on the part of individuals to accept, in so + important a matter, nothing less than the genuine article." "If + by a single stroke," says Professor Woods Hutchinson + (_Contemporary Review_, Sept., 1905), "all marriage ties now in + existence were struck off or declared illegal, eight-tenths of + all couples would be remarried within forty eight hours, and + seven-tenths could not be kept asunder with bayonets." An + experiment of this kind on a small scale was witnessed in 1909 in + an English village in Buckinghamshire. It was found that the + parish church had never been licensed for marriages, and that in + consequence all the people who had gone through the ceremony of + marriage in that church during the previous half century had + never been legally married. Yet, so far as could be ascertained, + not a single couple thus released from the legal compulsion of + marriage took advantage of the freedom bestowed. In the face of + such a fact it is obviously impossible to attach any moral value + to the form of marriage. + +It is certainly inevitable that during a period of transition the natural +order is to some extent disturbed by the persistence, even though in a +weakened form, of external bonds which are beginning to be consciously +realized as inimical to the authoritative control of individual moral +responsibility. We can clearly trace this at the present time. A sensitive +anxiety to escape from external constraint induces an under-valuation of +the significance of personal constraint in the relationship of marriage. +Everyone is probably familiar with cases in which a couple will live +together through long years without entering the legal bond of marriage, +notwithstanding difficulties in their mutual relationship which would have +long since caused a separation or a divorce had they been legally married. +When the inherent difficulties of the marital relationship are complicated +by the difficulties due to external constraint, the development of +individual moral responsibility cuts two ways, and leads to results that +are not entirely satisfactory. This has been seen in the United States of +America and attention has often been called to it by thoughtful American +observers. It is, naturally, noted especially in women because it is in +women that the new growth of personal freedom and moral responsibility has +chiefly made itself felt. The first stirring of these new impulses, +especially when associated, as it often is, with inexperience and +ignorance, leads to impatience with the natural order, to a demand for +impossible conditions of existence, and to an inaptitude not only for the +arbitrary bondage of law but even for the wholesome and necessary bonds of +human social life. It is always a hard lesson for the young and idealistic +that in order to command Nature we must obey her; it can only be learnt +through contact with life and by the attainment of full human growth. + + Dr. Felix Adler (in an address before the Society of Ethical + Culture of New York, Nov. 17, 1889) called attention to what he + regarded as the most deep-rooted cause of an undue prevalence of + divorce in America. "The false idea of individual liberty is + largely held in America," and when applied to family life it + often leads to an impatience with these duties which the + individual is either born into or has voluntarily accepted. "I am + constrained to think that the prevalence of divorce is to be + ascribed in no small degree to the influence of democratic + ideas--that is, of false democratic ideas--and our hope lies in + advancing towards a higher and truer democracy." A more recent + American writer, this time a woman, Anna A. Rogers ("Why American + Marriages Fail," _Atlantic Monthly_, Sept., 1907) speaks in the + same sense, though perhaps in too unqualified a manner. She + states that the frequency of divorce in America is due to three + causes: (1) woman's failure to realize that marriage is her work + in the world; (2) her growing individualism; (3) her lost art of + giving, replaced by a highly developed receptive faculty. The + American woman, this writer states, in discovering her own + individuality has not yet learnt how to manage it; it is still + "largely a useless, uneasy factor, vouchsafing her very little + more peace than it does those in her immediate surcharged + vicinity." Her circumstances tend to make of her "a curious + anomalous hybrid; a cross between a magnificent, rather + unmannerly boy, and a spoiled, exacting _demi-mondaine_, who + sincerely loves in this world herself alone." She has not yet + learnt that woman's supreme work in the world can only be + attained through the voluntary acceptance of the restraints of + marriage. The same writer points out that the fault is not alone + with American women, but also with American men. Their idolatry + of their women is largely responsible for that intolerance and + selfishness which causes so many divorces; "American women are, + as a whole, pampered and worshipped out of all reason." But the + men, who lend themselves to this, do not feel that they can treat + their wives with the same comradeship as the French treat their + wives, nor seek their advice with the same reliance; the American + woman is placed on an unreal pedestal. Yet another American + writer, Rafford Pyke ("Husbands and Wives," _Cosmopolitan_, + 1902), points out that only a small proportion of American + marriages are really unhappy, these being chiefly among the more + cultured classes, in which the movement of expansion in women's + interests and lives is taking place; it is more often the wife + than the husband who is disappointed in marriage, and this is + largely due to her inability to merge, not necessarily + subordinate, her individuality in an equal union with his. + "Marriage to-day is becoming more and more dependent for its + success upon the adjustment of conditions that are psychical. + Whereas in former generations it was sufficient that the union + should involve physical reciprocity, in this age of ours the + union must involve a psychic reciprocity as well. And whereas, + heretofore, the community of interest was attained with ease, it + is now becoming far more difficult because of the tendency to + discourage a woman who marries from merging her separate + individuality in her husband's. Yet, unless she does this, how + can she have a complete and perfect interest in the life + together, and, for that matter, how can he have such an interest + either?" + + Professor Münsterberg, the distinguished psychologist, in his + frank but appreciative study of American institutions, _The + Americans_, taking a broader outlook, points out that the + influence of women on morals in America has not been in every + respect satisfactory, in so far as it has tended to encourage + shallowness and superficiality. "The American woman who has + scarcely a shred of education," he remarks (p. 587), "looks in + vain for any subject on which she has not firm convictions + already at hand.... The arrogance of this feminine lack of + knowledge is the symptom of a profound trait in the feminine + soul, and points to dangers springing from the domination of + women in the intellectual life.... And in no other civilized land + are ethical conceptions so worm-eaten by superstitions." + +We have seen that the modern tendency as regards marriage is towards its +recognition as a voluntary union entered into by two free, equal, and +morally responsible persons, and that that union is rather of the nature +of an ethical sacrament than of a contract, so that in its essence as a +physical and spiritual bond it is outside the sphere of the State's +action. It has been necessary to labor that point before we approach what +may seem to many not only a different but even a totally opposed aspect of +marriage. If the marriage union itself cannot be a matter for contract, it +naturally leads to a fact which must necessarily be a matter for implicit +or explicit contract, a matter, moreover, in which the community at large +has a real and proper interest: that is the fact of procreation.[366] + +The ancient Egyptians--among whom matrimonial institutions were so elastic +and the position of woman so high--recognized a provisional and slight +marriage bond for the purpose of testing fecundity.[367] Among ourselves +the law makes no such paternal provision, leaving to young couples +themselves the responsibility of making any tests, a permission, we know, +they largely avail themselves of, usually entering the legal bonds of +marriage, however, before the birth of their child. That legal bond is a +recognition that the introduction of a new individual into the community +is not, like sexual union, a mere personal fact, but a social fact, a fact +in which the State cannot fail to be concerned. And the more we +investigate the tendency of the modern marriage movement the more we shall +realize that its attitude of freedom, of individual moral responsibility, +in the formation of sexual relationships, is compensated by an attitude of +stringency, of strict social oversight, in the matter of procreation. Two +people who form an erotic relationship are bound, when they reach the +conviction that their relationship is a real marriage, having its natural +end in procreation, to subscribe to a contract which, though it may leave +themselves personally free, must yet bind them both to their duties +towards their children.[368] + +The necessity for such an undertaking is double, even apart from the fact +that it is in the highest interests of the parents themselves. It is +required in the interests of the child. It is required in the interests of +the State. A child can be bred, and well-bred, by one effective parent. +But to equip a child adequately for its entrance into life both parents +are usually needed. The State on its side--that is to say, the community +of which parents and child alike form part--is bound to know who these +persons are who have become sponsors for a new individual now introduced +into its midst. The most Individualistic State, the most Socialistic +State, are alike bound, if faithful to the interests, both biological and +economic, of their constituent members generally, to insist on the full +legal and recognized parentage of the father and mother of every child. +That is clearly demanded in the interests of the child; it is clearly +demanded also in the interests of the State. + +The barrier which in Christendom has opposed itself to the natural +recognition of this fact, so injuring alike the child and the State, has +clearly been the rigidity of the marriage system, more especially as +moulded by the Canon law. The Canonists attributed a truly immense +importance to the _copula carnalis_, as they technically termed it. They +centred marriage strictly in the vagina; they were not greatly concerned +about either the presence or the absence of the child. The vagina, as we +know, has not always proved a very firm centre for the support of +marriage, and that centre is now being gradually transferred to the child. +If we turn from the Canonists to the writings of a modern like Ellen Key, +who so accurately represents much that is most characteristic and +essential in the late tendencies of marriage development, we seem to have +entered a new world, even a newly illuminated world. For "in the new +sexual morality, as in Corregio's _Notte_, the light emanates from the +child."[369] + +No doubt this change is largely a matter of sentiment, of, as we sometimes +say, mere sentiment, although there is nothing so powerful in human +affairs as sentiment, and the revolution effected by Jesus, the later +revolution effected by Rousseau, were mainly revolutions in sentiment. But +the change is also a matter of the growing recognition of interests and +rights, and as such it manifests itself in law. We can scarcely doubt that +we are approaching a time when it will be generally understood that the +entrance into the world of every child, without exception, should be +preceded by the formation of a marriage contract which, while in no way +binding the father and mother to any duties, or any privileges, towards +each other, binds them both towards their child and at the same time +ensures their responsibility towards the State. It is impossible for the +State to obtain more than this, but it should be impossible for it to +demand less. A contract of such a kind "marries" the father and mother so +far as the parentage of the individual child is concerned, and in no other +respect; it is a contract which leaves entirely unaffected their past, +present, or future relations towards other persons, otherwise it would be +impossible to enforce it. In all parts of the world this elementary demand +of social morality is slowly beginning to be recognized, and as it affects +hundreds of thousands of infants[370] who are yearly branded as +"illegitimate" through no act of their own, no one can say that the +recognition has come too soon. As yet, indeed, it seems nowhere to be +complete. + + Most attempts or proposals for the avoidance of illegitimate + births are concerned with the legalizing of unions of a less + binding degree than the present legal marriage. Such unions would + serve to counteract other evils. Thus an English writer, who has + devoted much study to sex questions, writes in a private letter: + "The best remedy for the licentiousness of celibate men and the + mental and physical troubles of continence in woman would be + found in a recognized honorable system of free unions and + trial-marriages, in which preventive intercourse is practiced + until the lovers were old enough to become parents, and possessed + of sufficient means to support a family. The prospect of a + loveless existence for young men and women of ardent natures is + intolerable and as terrible as the prospect of painful illness + and death. But I think the old order must change ere long." + + In Teutonic countries there is a strongly marked current of + feeling in the direction of establishing legal unions of a lower + degree than marriage. They exist in Sweden, as also in Norway + where by a recent law the illegitimate child is entitled to the + same rights in relation to both parents as the legitimate child, + bearing the father's name and inheriting his property (_Die Neue + Generation_, July, 1909, p. 303). In France the well-known judge, + Magnard, so honorably distinguished for his attitude towards + cases of infanticide by young mothers, has said: "I heartily wish + that alongside the institution of marriage as it now exists we + had a free union constituted by simple declaration before a + magistrate and conferring almost the same family rights as + ordinary marriage." This wish has been widely echoed. + + In China, although polygamy in the strict sense cannot properly + be said to exist, the interests of the child, the woman, and the + State are alike safeguarded by enabling a man to enter into a + kind of secondary marriage with the mother of his child. "Thanks + to this system," Paul d'Enjoy states (_La Revue_, Sept., 1905), + "which allows the husband to marry the woman he desires, without + being prevented by previous and undissolved unions, it is only + right to remark that there are no seduced and abandoned girls, + except such as no law could save from what is really innate + depravity; and that there are no illegitimate children except + those whose mothers are unhappily nearer to animals by their + senses than to human beings by their reason and dignity." + + The new civil code of Japan, which is in many respects so + advanced, allows an illegitimate child to be "recognized" by + giving notice to the registrar; when a married man so recognizes + a child, it appears, the child may be adopted by the wife as her + own, though not actually rendered legitimate. This state of + things represents a transition stage; it can scarcely be said to + recognize the rights of the "recognized" child's mother. Japan, + it may be added, has adopted the principle of the automatic + legitimation by marriage of the children born to the couple + before marriage. + + In Australia, where women possess a larger share than elsewhere + in making and administering the laws, some attention is beginning + to be given to the rights of illegitimate children. Thus in South + Australia, paternity may be proved before birth, and the father + (by magistrate's order) provides lodging for one month before and + after birth, as well as nurse, doctor, and clothing, furnishing + security that he will do so; after birth, at the magistrate's + decision, he pays a weekly sum for the child's maintenance. An + "illegitimate" mother may also be kept in a public institution at + the public expense for six months to enable her to become + attached to her child. + + Such provisions are developed from the widely recognized right of + the unmarried woman to claim support for her child from its + father. In France, indeed, and in the legal codes which follow + the French example, it is not legally permitted to inquire into + the paternity of an illegitimate child. Such a law is, needless + to say, alike unjust to the mother, to the child, and to the + State. In Austria, the law goes to the opposite, though certainly + more reasonable, extreme, and permits even the mother who has had + several lovers to select for herself which she chooses to make + responsible for her child. The German code adopts an intermediate + course, and comes only to the aid of the unmarried mother who has + one lover. In all such cases, however, the aid given is + pecuniary only; it insures the mother no recognition or respect, + and (as Wahrmund has truly said in his _Ehe und Eherecht_) it is + still necessary to insist on "the unconditional sanctity of + motherhood, which is entitled, under whatever circumstances it + arises, to the respect and protection of society." + + It must be added that, from the social point of view, it is not + the sexual union which requires legal recognition, but the child + which is the product of that union. It would, moreover, be + hopeless to attempt to legalize all sexual connection, but it is + comparatively easy to legalize all children. + +There has been much discussion in the past concerning the particular form +which marriage ought to take. Many theorists have exercised their +ingenuity in inventing and preaching new and unusual marriage-arrangements +as panaceas for social ills; while others have exerted even greater energy +in denouncing all such proposals as subversive of the foundations of human +society. We may regard all such discussions, on the one side or the other, +as idle. + +In the first place marriage customs are far too fundamental, far too +intimately blended with the primary substance of human and indeed animal +society, to be in the slightest degree shaken by the theories or the +practices of mere individuals, or even groups of individuals. +Monogamy--the more or less prolonged cohabitation of two individuals of +opposite sex--has been the prevailing type of sexual relationship among +the higher vertebrates and through the greater part of human history. This +is admitted even by those who believe (without any sound evidence) that +man has passed through a stage of sexual promiscuity. There have been +tendencies to variation in one direction or another, but at the lowest +stages and the highest stages, so far as can be seen, monogamy represents +the prevailing rule. + +It must be said also, in the second place, that the natural prevalence of +monogamy as the normal type of sexual relationship by no means excludes +variations. Indeed it assumes them. "There is nothing precise in Nature," +according to Diderot's saying. The line of Nature is a curve that +oscillates from side to side of the norm. Such oscillations inevitably +occur in harmony with changes in environmental conditions, and, no doubt, +with peculiarities of personal disposition. So long as no arbitrary and +merely external attempt is made to force Nature, the vital order is +harmoniously maintained. Among certain species of ducks when males are in +excess polyandric families are constituted, the two males attending their +female partner without jealousy, but when the sexes again become equal in +number the monogamic order is restored. The natural human deviations from +the monogamic order seem to be generally of this character, and largely +conditioned by the social and economic environment. The most common +variation, and that which most clearly possesses a biological foundation, +is the tendency to polygyny, which is found at all stages of culture, +even, in an unrecognized and more or less promiscuous shape, in the +highest civilization.[371] It must be remembered, however, that recognized +polygyny is not the rule even where it prevails; it is merely permissive; +there is never a sufficient excess of women to allow more than a few of +the richer and more influential persons to have more than one wife.[372] + +It has further to be borne in mind that a certain elasticity of the formal +side of marriage while, on the one side, it permits variations from the +general monogamic order, where such are healthful or needed to restore a +balance in natural conditions, on the other hand restrains such variations +in so far as they are due to the disturbing influence of artificial +constraint. Much of the polygyny, and polyandry also, which prevails among +us to-day is an altogether artificial and unnatural form of polygamy. +Marriages which on a more natural basis would be dissolved cannot legally +be dissolved, and consequently the parties to them, instead of changing +their partners and so preserving the natural monogamic order, take on +other additional partners and so introduce an unnatural polygamy. There +will always be variations from the monogamic order and civilization is +certainly not hostile to sexual variation. Whether we reckon these +variations as legitimate or illegitimate, they will still take place; of +that we may be certain. The path of social wisdom seems to lie on the one +hand in making the marriage relationship flexible enough to reduce to a +minimum these deviations--not because such deviations are intrinsically +bad but because they ought not to be forced into existence--and on the +other hand in according to these deviations when they occur such a measure +of recognition as will deprive them of injurious influence and enable +justice to be done to all the parties concerned. We too often forget that +our failure to recognize such variations merely means that we accord in +such cases an illegitimate permission to perpetrate injustice. In those +parts of the world in which polygyny is recognized as a permissible +variation a man is legally held to his natural obligations towards all his +sexual mates and towards the children he has by those mates. In no part of +the world is polygyny so prevalent as in Christendom; in no part of the +world is it so easy for a man to escape the obligations incurred by +polygyny. We imagine that if we refuse to recognize the fact of polygyny, +we may refuse to recognize any obligations incurred by polygyny. By +enabling a man to escape so easily from the obligations of his polygamous +relationships we encourage him, if he is unscrupulous, to enter into them; +we place a premium on the immorality we loftily condemn.[373] Our polygyny +has no legal existence, and therefore its obligations can have no legal +existence. The ostrich, it was once imagined, hides its head in the sand +and attempts to annihilate facts by refusing to look at them; but there is +only one known animal which adopts this course of action, and it is called +Man. + +Monogamy, in the fundamental biological sense, represents the natural +order into which the majority of sexual facts will always naturally fall +because it is the relationship which most adequately corresponds to all +the physical and spiritual facts involved. But if we realize that sexual +relationships primarily concern only the persons who enter into those +relationships, and if we further realize that the interest of society in +such relationships is confined to the children which they produce, we +shall also realize that to fix by law the number of women with whom a man +shall have sexual relationships, and the number of men with whom a woman +shall unite herself, is more unreasonable than it would be to fix by law +the number of children they shall produce. The State has a right to +declare whether it needs few citizens or many; but in attempting to +regulate the sexual relationships of its members the State attempts an +impossible task and is at the same time guilty of an impertinence. + + There is always a tendency, at certain stages of civilization, to + insist on a merely formal and external uniformity, and a + corresponding failure to see not only that such uniformity is + unreal, but also that it has an injurious effect, in so far as it + checks beneficial variations. The tendency is by no means + confined to the sexual sphere. In England there is, for instance, + a tendency to make building laws which enjoin, in regard to + places of human habitation, all sorts of provisions that on the + whole are fairly beneficial, but which in practice act + injuriously, because they render many simple and excellent human + habitations absolutely illegal, merely because such habitations + fail to conform to regulations which, under some circumstances, + are not only unnecessary, but mischievous. + + Variation is a fact that will exist whether we will or no; it can + only become healthful if we recognize and allow for it. We may + even have to recognize that it is a more marked tendency in + civilization than in more primitive social stages. Thus Gerson + argues (_Sexual-Probleme_, Sept., 1908, p. 538) that just as the + civilized man cannot be content with the coarse and monotonous + food which satisfies the peasant, so it is in sexual matters; the + peasant youth and girl in their sexual relationships are nearly + always monogamous, but civilized people, with their more + versatile and sensitive tastes, are apt to crave for variety. + Sénancour (_De l'Amour_, vol. ii, "Du Partage," p. 127) seems to + admit the possibility of marriage variations, as of sharing a + wife, provided nothing is done to cause rivalry, or to impair the + soul's candor. Lecky, near the end of his _History of European + Morals_, declared his belief that, while the permanent union of + two persons is the normal and prevailing type of marriage, it by + no means follows that, in the interests of society, it should be + the only form. Remy de Gourmont similarly (_Physique de l'Amour_, + p. 186), while stating that the couple is the natural form of + marriage and its prolonged continuance a condition of human + superiority, adds that the permanence of the union can only be + achieved with difficulty. So, also, Professor W. Thomas (_Sex and + Society_, 1907, p. 193), while regarding monogamy as subserving + social needs, adds: "Speaking from the biological standpoint + monogamy does not, as a rule, answer to the conditions of highest + stimulation, since here the problematical and elusive elements + disappear to some extent, and the object of attention has grown + so familiar in consciousness that the emotional reactions are + qualified. This is the fundamental explanation of the fact that + married men and women frequently become interested in others than + their partners in matrimony." + + Pepys, whose unconscious self-dissection admirably illustrates so + many psychological tendencies, clearly shows how--by a logic of + feeling deeper than any intellectual logic--the devotion to + monogamy subsists side by side with an irresistible passion for + sexual variety. With his constantly recurring wayward attraction + to a long series of women he retains throughout a deep and + unchanging affection for his charming young wife. In the privacy + of his _Diary_ he frequently refers to her in terms of endearment + which cannot be feigned; he enjoys her society; he is very + particular about her dress; he delights in her progress in music, + and spends much money on her training; he is absurdly jealous + when he finds her in the society of a man. His subsidiary + relationships with other women recur irresistibly, but he has no + wish either to make them very permanent or to allow them to + engross him unduly. Pepys represents a common type of civilized + "monogamist" who is perfectly sincere and extremely convinced in + his advocacy of monogamy, as he understands it, but at the same + time believes and acts on the belief that monogamy by no means + excludes the need for sexual variation. Lord Morley's statement + (_Diderot_, vol. ii, p. 20) that "man is instinctively + polygamous," can by no means be accepted, but if we interpret it + as meaning that man is an instinctively monogamous animal with a + concomitant desire for sexual variation, there is much evidence + in its favor. + + Women must be as free as men to mould their own amatory life. + Many consider, however, that such freedom on the part of women + will be, and ought to be, exercised within narrower limits (see, + e.g., Bloch, _Sexual Life of Our Time_, Ch. X). In part this + limitation is considered due to the greater absorption of a woman + in the task of breeding and rearing her child, and in part to a + less range of psychic activities. A man, as G. Hirth puts it, + expressing this view of the matter (_Wege zur Liebe_, p. 342), + "has not only room in his intellectual horizon for very various + interests, but his power of erotic expansion is much greater and + more differentiated than that of women, although he may lack the + intimacy and depth of a woman's devotion." + + It may be argued that, since variations in the sexual order will + inevitably take place, whether or not they are recognized or + authorized, no harm is likely to be done by using the weight of + social and legal authority on the side of that form which is + generally regarded as the best, and, so far as possible, covering + the other forms with infamy. There are many obvious defects in + such an attitude, apart from the supremely important fact that to + cast infamy on sexual relationships is to exert a despicable + cruelty on women, who are inevitably the chief sufferers. Not the + least is the injustice and the hampering of vital energy which it + inflicts on the better and more scrupulous people to the + advantage of the worse and less scrupulous. This always happens + when authority exerts its power in favor of a form. When, in the + thirteenth century, Alexander III--one of the greatest and most + effective potentates who ever ruled Christendom--was consulted by + the Bishop of Exeter concerning subdeacons who persisted in + marrying, the Pope directed him to inquire into the lives and + characters of the offenders; if they were of regular habits and + staid morality, they were to be forcibly separated and the wives + driven out; if they were men of notoriously disorderly character, + they were to be permitted to retain their wives, if they so + desired (Lea, _History of Sacerdotal Celibacy_, third edition, + vol. i, p. 396). It was an astute policy, and was carried out by + the same Pope elsewhere, but it is easy to see that it was + altogether opposed to morality in every sense of the term. It + destroyed the happiness and the efficiency of the best men; it + left the worst men absolutely free. To-day we are quite willing + to recognize the evil result of this policy; it was dictated by a + Pope and carried out seven hundred years ago. Yet in England we + carry out exactly the same policy to-day by means of our + separation orders, which are scattered broadcast among the + population. None of the couples thus separated--and never + disciplined to celibacy as are the Catholic clergy of to-day--may + marry again; we, in effect, bid the more scrupulous among them to + become celibates, and to the less scrupulous we grant permission + to do as they like. This process is carried on by virtue of the + collective inertia of the community, and when it is supported by + arguments, if that ever happens, they are of an antiquarian + character which can only call forth a pitying smile. + + It may be added that there is a further reason why the custom of + branding sexual variations from the norm as "immoral" is not so + harmless as some affect to believe: such variations appear to be + not uncommon among men and women of superlative ability whose + powers are needed unimpeded in the service of mankind. To attempt + to fit such persons into the narrow moulds which suit the + majority is not only an injustice to them as individuals, but it + is an offence against society, which may fairly claim that its + best members shall not be hampered in its service. The notion + that the person whose sexual needs differ from those of the + average is necessarily a socially bad person, is a notion + unsupported by facts. Every case must be judged on its own + merits. + +Undoubtedly the most common variation from normal monogamy has in all +stages of human culture been polygyny or the sexual union of one man with +more than one woman. It has sometimes been socially and legally +recognized, and sometimes unrecognized, but in either case it has not +failed to occur. Polyandry, or the union of a woman with more than one +man, has been comparatively rare and for intelligible reasons: men have +most usually been in a better position, economically and legally, to +organize a household with themselves as the centre; a woman is, unlike a +man, by nature and often by custom unfitted for intercourse for +considerable periods at a time; a woman, moreover, has her thoughts and +affections more concentrated on her children. Apart from this the +biological masculine traditions point to polygyny much more than the +feminine traditions point to polyandry. Although it is true that a woman +can undergo a much greater amount of sexual intercourse than a man, it +also remains true that the phenomena of courtship in nature have made it +the duty of the male to be alert in offering his sexual attention to the +female, whose part it has been to suspend her choice coyly until she is +sure of her preference. Polygynic conditions have also proved +advantageous, as they have permitted the most vigorous and successful +members of a community to have the largest number of mates and so to +transmit their own superior qualities. + + "Polygamy," writes Woods Hutchinson (_Contemporary Review_, Oct., + 1904), though he recognizes the advantages of monogamy, "as a + racial institution, among animals as among men, has many solid + and weighty considerations in its favor, and has resulted in + both human and pre-human times, in the production of a very high + type of both individual and social development." He points out + that it promotes intelligence, coöperation, and division of + labor, while the keen competition for women weeds out the weaker + and less attractive males. + + Among our European ancestors, alike among Germans and Celts, + polygyny and other sexual forms existed as occasional variations. + Tacitus noted polygyny in Germany, and Cæsar found in Britain + that brothers would hold their wives in common, the children + being reckoned to the man to whom the woman had been first given + in marriage (see, e.g., Traill's _Social England_, vol. i, p. + 103, for a discussion of this point). The husband's assistant, + also, who might be called in to impregnate the wife when the + husband was impotent, existed in Germany, and was indeed a + general Indo-Germanic institution (Schrader, _Reallexicon_, art. + "Zeugungshelfer"). The corresponding institution of the concubine + has been still more deeply rooted and widespread. Up to + comparatively modern times, indeed, in accordance with the + traditions of Roman law, the concubine held a recognized and + honorable position, below that of a wife but with definite legal + rights, though it was not always, or indeed usually, legal for a + married man to have a concubine. In ancient Wales, as well as in + Rome, the concubine was accepted and never despised (R.B. Holt, + "Marriage Laws of the Cymri," _Journal Anthropological + Institute_, Aug. and Nov., 1898, p. 155). The fact that when a + concubine entered the house of a married man her dignity and + legal position were less than those of the wife preserved + domestic peace and safeguarded the wife's interests. (A Korean + husband cannot take a concubine under his roof without his wife's + permission, but she rarely objects, and seems to enjoy the + companionship, says Louise Jordan Miln, _Quaint Korea_, 1895, p. + 92.) In old Europe, we must remember, as Dufour points out in + speaking of the time of Charlemagne (_Histoire de la + Prostitution_, vol. iii, p. 226), "concubine" was an honorable + term; the concubine was by no means a mistress, and she could be + accused of adultery just the same as a wife. In England, late in + the thirteenth century, Bracton speaks of the _concubina + legitima_ as entitled to certain rights and considerations, and + it was the same in other parts of Europe, sometimes for several + centuries later (see Lea, _History of Sacerdotal Celibacy_, vol. + i, p. 230). The early Christian Church was frequently inclined to + recognize the concubine, at all events if attached to an + unmarried man, for we may trace in the Church "the wish to look + upon every permanent union of man or woman as possessing the + character of a marriage in the eyes of God, and, therefore, in + the judgment of the Church" (art. "Concubinage," Smith and + Cheetham, _Dictionary of Christian Antiquities_). This was the + feeling of St. Augustine (who had himself, before his conversion, + had a concubine who was apparently a Christian), and the Council + of Toledo admitted an unmarried man who was faithful to a + concubine. As the law of the Catholic Church grew more and more + rigid, it necessarily lost touch with human needs. It was not so + in the early Church during the great ages of its vital growth. In + those ages even the strenuous general rule of monogamy was + relaxed when such relaxation seemed reasonable. This was so, for + instance, in the case of sexual impotency. Thus early in the + eighth century Gregory II, writing to Boniface, the apostle of + Germany, in answer to a question by the latter, replies that when + a wife is incapable from physical infirmity from fulfilling her + marital duties it is permissible for the husband to take a second + wife, though he must not withdraw maintenance from the first. A + little later Archbishop Egbert of York, in his _Dialogus de + Institutione Ecclesiastica_, though more cautiously, admits that + when one of two married persons is infirm the other, with the + permission of the infirm one, may marry again, but the infirm one + is not allowed to marry again during the other's life. Impotency + at the time of marriage, of course, made the marriage void + without the intervention of any ecclesiastical law. But Aquinas, + and later theologians, allow that an excessive disgust for a wife + justifies a man in regarding himself as impotent in relation to + her. These rules are, of course, quite distinct from the + permissions to break the marriage laws granted to kings and + princes; such permissions do not count as evidence of the + Church's rules, for, as the Council of Constantinople prudently + decided in 809, "Divine law can do nothing against Kings" (art. + "Bigamy," _Dictionary of Christian Antiquities_). The law of + monogamy was also relaxed in cases of enforced or voluntary + desertion. Thus the Council of Vermerie (752) enacted that if a + wife will not accompany her husband when he is compelled to + follow his lord into another land, he may marry again, provided + he sees no hope of returning. Theodore of Canterbury (688), + again, pronounces that if a wife is carried away by the enemy and + her husband cannot redeem her, he may marry again after an + interval of a year, or, if there is a chance of redeeming her, + after an interval of five years; the wife may do the same. Such + rules, though not general, show, as Meyrick points out (art. + "Marriage," _Dictionary of Christian Antiquities_), a willingness + "to meet particular cases as they arise." + + As the Canon law grew rigid and the Catholic Church lost its + vital adaptibility, sexual variations ceased to be recognized + within its sphere. We have to wait for the Reformation for any + further movement. Many of the early Protestant Reformers, + especially in Germany, were prepared to admit a considerable + degree of vital flexibility in sexual relationships. Thus Luther + advised married women with impotent husbands, in cases where + there was no wish or opportunity for divorce, to have sexual + relations with another man, by preference the husband's brother; + the children were to be reckoned to the husband ("Die Sexuelle + Frage bei Luther," _Mutterschutz_, Sept., 1908). + + In England the Puritan spirit, which so largely occupied itself + with the reform of marriage, could not fail to be concerned with + the question of sexual variations, and from time to time we find + the proposal to legalize polygyny. Thus, in 1658, "A Person of + Quality" published in London a small pamphlet dedicated to the + Lord Protector, entitled _A Remedy for Uncleanness_. It was in + the form of a number of queries, asking why we should not admit + polygamy for the avoidance of adultery and infanticide. The + writer inquires whether it may not "stand with a gracious spirit, + and be every way consistent with the principles of a man fearing + God and loving holiness, to have more women than one to his + proper use.... He that takes another man's ox or ass is doubtless + a transgressor; but he that puts himself out of the occasion of + that temptation by keeping of his own seems to be a right honest + and well-meaning man." + + More than a century later (1780), an able, learned, and + distinguished London clergyman of high character (who had been a + lawyer before entering the Church), the Rev. Martin Madan, also + advocated polygamy in a book called _Thelyphthora; or, a Treatise + on Female Ruin_. Madan had been brought into close contact with + prostitution through a chaplaincy at the Lock Hospital, and, like + the Puritan advocate of polygamy, he came to the conclusion that + only by the reform of marriage is it possible to work against + prostitution and the evils of sexual intercourse outside + marriage. His remarkable book aroused much controversy and strong + feeling against the author, so that he found it desirable to + leave London and settle in the country. Projects of marriage + reform have never since come from the Church, but from + philosophers and moralists, though not rarely from writers of + definitely religious character. Sénancour, who was so delicate + and sensitive a moralist in the sexual sphere, introduced a + temperate discussion of polygamy into his _De l'Amour_ (vol. ii, + pp. 117-126). It seemed to him to be neither positively contrary + nor positively conformed to the general tendency of our present + conventions, and he concluded that "the method of conciliation, + in part, would be no longer to require that the union of a man + and a woman should only cease with the death of one of them." + Cope, the biologist, expressed a somewhat more decided opinion. + Under some circumstances, if all three parties agreed, he saw no + objection to polygyny or polyandry. "There are some cases of + hardship," he said, "which such permission would remedy. Such, + for instance, would be the case where the man or woman had become + the victim of a chronic disease; or, when either party should be + childless, and in other contingencies that could be imagined." + There would be no compulsion in any direction, and full + responsibility as at present. Such cases could only arise + exceptionally, and would not call for social antagonism. For the + most part, Cope remarks, "the best way to deal with polygamy is + to let it alone" (E.D. Cope, "The Marriage Problem," _Open + Court_, Nov. 15 and 22, 1888). In England, Dr. John Chapman, the + editor of the _Westminster Review_, and a close associate of the + leaders of the Radical movement in the Victorian period, was + opposed to State dictation as regards the form of marriage, and + believed that a certain amount of sexual variation would be + socially beneficial. Thus he wrote in 1884 (in a private letter): + "I think that as human beings become less selfish polygamy [i.e., + polygyny], and even polyandry, in an ennobled form, will become + increasingly frequent." + + James Hinton, who, a few years earlier, had devoted much thought + and attention to the sexual question, and regarded it as indeed + the greatest of moral problems, was strongly in favor of a more + vital flexibility of marriage regulations, an adaptation to human + needs such as the early Christian Church admitted. Marriage, he + declared, must be "subordinated to service," since marriage, like + the Sabbath, is made for man and not man for marriage. Thus in + case of one partner becoming insane he would permit the other + partner to marry again, the claim of the insane partner, in case + of recovery, still remaining valid. That would be a form of + polygamy, but Hinton was careful to point out that by "polygamy" + he meant "less a particular marriage-order than such an order as + best serves good, and which therefore must be essentially + variable. Monogamy may be good, even the only good order, if of + free choice; but a _law_ for it is another thing. The sexual + relationship must be a _natural_ thing. The true social life will + not be any fixed and definite relationship, as of monogamy, + polygamy, or anything else, but a perfect subordination of every + sexual relationship whatever to reason and human good." + + Ellen Key, who is an enthusiastic advocate of monogamy, and who + believes that the civilized development of personal love removes + all danger of the growth of polygamy, still admits the existence + of variations. She has in mind such solutions of difficult + problems as Goethe had before him when he proposed at first in + his _Stella_ to represent the force of affection and tender + memories as too strong to admit of the rupture of an old bond in + the presence of a new bond. The problem of sexual variation, she + remarks, however (_Liebe und Ethik_, p. 12), has changed its form + under modern conditions; it is no longer a struggle between the + demand of society for a rigid marriage-order and the demand of + the individual for sexual satisfaction, but it has become the + problem of harmonizing the ennoblement of the race with + heightened requirements of erotic happiness. She also points out + that the existence of a partner who requires the other partner's + care as a nurse or as an intellectual companion by no means + deprives that other partner of the right to fatherhood or + motherhood, and that such rights must be safeguarded (Ellen Key, + _Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, pp. 166-168). + + A prominent and extreme advocate of polygyny, not as a simple + rare variation, but as a marriage order superior to monogamy, is + to be found at the present day in Professor Christian von + Ehrenfels of Prague (see, e.g., his _Sexualethik_, 1908; "Die + Postulate des Lebens," _Sexual-Probleme_, Oct., 1908; and letter + to Ellen Key in her _Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 466). Ehrenfels + believes that the number of men inapt for satisfactory + reproduction is much larger than that of women, and that + therefore when these are left out of account, a polygynic + marriage order becomes necessary. He calls this + "reproduction-marriage" (Zeugungsehe), and considers that it will + entirely replace the present marriage order, to which it is + morally superior. It would be based on private contracts. + Ehrenfels holds that women would offer no objection, as a woman, + he believes, attaches less importance to a man as a wooer than as + the father of her child. Ehrenfels's doctrine has been seriously + attacked from many sides, and his proposals are not in the line + of our progress. Any radical modification of the existing + monogamic order is not to be expected, even if it were generally + recognized, which cannot be said to be the case, that it is + desirable. The question of sexual variations, it must be + remembered, is not a question of introducing an entirely new form + of marriage, but only of recognizing the rights of individuals, + in exceptional cases, to adopt such aberrant forms, and of + recognizing the corresponding duties of such individuals to + accept the responsibilities of any aberrant marriage forms they + may find it best to adopt. So far as the question of sexual + variations is more than this, it is, as Hinton argued, a + dynamical method of working towards the abolition of the perilous + and dangerous promiscuity of prostitution. A rigid marriage order + involves prostitution; a flexible marriage order largely--though + not, it may be, entirely--renders prostitution unnecessary. The + democratic morality of the present day, so far as the indications + at present go, is opposed to the encouragement of a _quasi_-slave + class, with diminished social rights, such as prostitutes always + constitute in a more or less marked degree. It is fairly evident, + also, that the rapidly growing influence of medical hygiene is on + the same side. We may, therefore, reasonably expect in the future + a slow though steady increase in the recognition, and even the + extension, of those variations of the monogamic order which have, + in reality, never ceased to exist. + +It is lamentable that at this period of the world's history, nearly two +thousand years after the wise legislators of Rome had completed their +work, it should still be necessary to conclude that we are to-day only +beginning to place marriage on a reasonable and humane basis. I have +repeatedly pointed out how largely the Canon law has been responsible for +this arrest of development. One may say, indeed, that the whole attitude +of the Church, after it had once acquired complete worldly dominance, +must be held responsible. In the earlier centuries the attitude of +Christianity was, on the whole, admirable. It held aloft great ideals but +it refrained from enforcing those ideals at all costs; thus its ideals +remained genuine and could not degenerate into mere hypocritical empty +forms; much flexibility was allowed when it seemed to be for human good +and made for the avoidance of evil and injustice. But when the Church +attained temporal power, and when that power was concentrated in the hands +of Popes who subordinated moral and religious interests to political +interests, all the claims of reason and humanity were flung to the winds. +The ideal was no more a fact than it was before, but it was now treated as +a fact. Human relationships remained what they were before, as complicated +and as various, but henceforth one rigid pattern, admirable as an ideal +but worse than empty as a form, was arbitrarily set up, and all deviations +from it treated either as non-existent or damnable. The vitality was +crushed out of the most central human institutions, and they are only +to-day beginning to lift their heads afresh. + +If--to sum up--we consider the course which the regulation of marriage has +run during the Christian era, the only period which immediately concerns +us, it is not difficult to trace the main outlines. Marriage began as a +private arrangement, which the Church, without being able to control, was +willing to bless, as it also blessed many other secular affairs of men, +making no undue attempt to limit its natural flexibility to human needs. +Gradually and imperceptibly, however, without the medium of any law, +Christianity gained the complete control of marriage, coördinated it with +its already evolved conceptions of the evil of lust, of the virtue of +chastity, of the mortal sin of fornication, and, having through the +influence of these dominating conceptions limited the flexibility of +marriage in every possible direction, it placed it on a lofty but narrow +pedestal as the sacrament of matrimony. For reasons which by no means lay +in the nature of the sexual relationships, but which probably seemed +cogent to sacerdotal legislators who assimilated it to ordination, +matrimony was declared indissoluble. Nothing was so easy to enter as the +gate of matrimony, but, after the manner of a mouse-trap, it opened +inwards and not outwards; once in there was no way out alive. The Church's +regulation of marriage while, like the celibacy of the clergy, it was a +success from the point of view of ecclesiastical politics, and even at +first from the point of view of civilization, for it at least introduced +order into a chaotic society, was in the long run a failure from the point +of view of society and morals. On the one hand it drifted into absurd +subtleties and quibbles; on the other, not being based on either reason or +humanity, it had none of that vital adaptability to the needs of life, +which early Christianity, while holding aloft austere ideals, still +largely retained. On the side of tradition this code of marriage law +became awkward and impracticable; on the biological side it was hopelessly +false. The way was thus prepared for the Protestant reintroduction of the +conception of marriage as a contract, that conception being, however, +brought forward less on its merits than as a protest against the +difficulties and absurdities of the Catholic Canon law. The contractive +view, which still largely persists even to-day, speedily took over much of +the Canon law doctrines of marriage, becoming in practice a kind of +reformed and secularized Canon law. It was somewhat more adapted to modern +needs, but it retained much of the rigidity of the Catholic marriage +without its sacramental character, and it never made any attempt to become +more than nominally contractive. It has been of the nature of an +incongruous compromise and has represented a transitional phase towards +free private marriage. We can recognize that phase in the tendency, well +marked in all civilized lands, to an ever increasing flexibility of +marriage. The idea, and even the fact, of marriage by consent and divorce +by failure of that consent, which we are now approaching, has never indeed +been quite extinct. In the Latin countries it has survived with the +tradition of Roman law; in the English-speaking countries it is bound up +with the spirit of Puritanism which insists that in the things that +concern the individual alone the individual himself shall be the supreme +judge. That doctrine as applied to marriage was in England magnificently +asserted by the genius of Milton, and in America it has been a leaven +which is still working in marriage legislation towards an inevitable goal +which is scarcely yet in sight. The marriage system of the future, as it +moves along its present course, will resemble the old Christian system in +that it will recognize the sacred and sacramental character of the sexual +relationship, and it will resemble the civil conception in that it will +insist that marriage, so far as it involves procreation, shall be publicly +registered by the State. But in opposition to the Church it will recognize +that marriage, in so far as it is purely a sexual relationship, is a +private matter the conditions of which must be left to the persons who +alone are concerned in it; and in opposition to the civil theory it will +recognize that marriage is in its essence a fact and not a contract, +though it may give rise to contracts, so long as such contracts do not +touch that essential fact. And in one respect it will go beyond either the +ecclesiastical conception or the civil conception. Man has in recent times +gained control of his own procreative powers, and that control involves a +shifting of the centre of gravity of marriage, in so far as marriage is an +affair of the State, from the vagina to the child which is the fruit of +the womb. Marriage as a state institution will centre, not around the +sexual relationship, but around the child which is the outcome of that +relationship. In so far as marriage is an inviolable public contract it +will be of such a nature that it will be capable of automatically covering +with its protection every child that is born into the world, so that every +child may possess a legal mother and a legal father. On the one side, +therefore, marriage is tending to become less stringent; on the other side +it is tending to become more stringent. On the personal side it is a +sacred and intimate relationship with which the State has no concern; on +the social side it is the assumption of the responsible public sponsorship +of a new member of the State. Some among us are working to further one of +these aspects of marriage, some to further the other aspect. Both are +indispensable to establish a perfect harmony. It is necessary to hold the +two aspects of marriage apart, in order to do equal justice to the +individual and to society, but in so far as marriage approaches its ideal +state those two aspects become one. + +We have now completed the discussion of marriage as it presents itself to +the modern man born in what in mediæval days was called Christendom. It is +not an easy subject to discuss. It is indeed a very difficult subject, and +only after many years is it possible to detect the main drift of its +apparently opposing and confused currents when one is oneself in the midst +of them. To an Englishman it is, perhaps, peculiarly difficult, for the +Englishman is nothing if not insular; in that fact lie whatever virtues he +possesses, as well as their reverse sides.[374] + +Yet it is worth while to attempt to climb to a height from which we can +view the stream of social tendency in its true proportions and estimate +its direction. It is necessary to do so if we value our mental peace in an +age when men's minds are agitated by many petty movements which have +nothing to do with their great temporal interests, to say nothing of their +eternal interests. When we have attained a wide vision of the solid +biological facts of life, when we have grasped the great historical +streams of tradition,--which together make up the map of human +affairs,--we can face serenely the little social transitions which take +place in our own age, as they have taken place in every age. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[312] Rosenthal, of Breslau, from the legal side, goes so far as to argue +("Grundfragen des Eheproblems," _Die Neue Generation_, Dec., 1908), that +the intention of procreation is essential to the conception of legal +marriage. + +[313] J.A. Godfrey, _Science of Sex_, p. 119. + +[314] E.D. Cope, "The Marriage Problem," _Open Court_, Nov., 1888. + +[315] See _ante_, p. 395. + +[316] Wächter, _Eheschiedungen_, pp. 95 et seq.; Esmein, _Marriage en +Droit Canonique_, vol. i, p. 6; Howard, _History of Matrimonial +Institutions_, vol. ii, p. 15. Howard (in agreement with Lecky) considers +that the freedom of divorce was only abused by a small section of the +Roman population, and that such abuse, so far as it existed, was not the +cause of any decline of Roman morals. + +[317] The opinions of the Christian Fathers were very varied, and they +were sometimes doubtful about them; see, e.g., the opinions collected by +Cranmer and enumerated by Burnet, _History of Reformation_ (ed. Nares), +vol. ii, p. 91. + +[318] Constantine, the first Christian Emperor, enacted a strict and +peculiar divorce law (allowing a wife to divorce her husband only when he +was a homicide, a poisoner, or a violator of sepulchres), which could not +be maintained. In 497, therefore, Anastasius decreed divorce by mutual +consent. This was abolished by Justinian, who only allowed divorce for +various specified causes, among them, however, including the husband's +adultery. These restrictions proved unworkable, and Justinian's successor +and nephew, Justin, restored divorce by mutual consent. Finally, in 870, +Leo the Philosopher returned to Justinian's enactment (see, e.g., Smith +and Cheetham, _Dictionary of Christian Antiquities_, arts. "Adultery" and +"Marriage"). + +[319] The element of reverence in the early German attitude towards women +and the privileges which even the married woman enjoyed, so far as Tacitus +can be considered a reliable guide, seem to have been the surviving +vestiges of an earlier social state on a more matriarchal basis. They are +most distinct at the dawn of German history. From the first, however, +though divorce by mutual consent seems to have been possible, German +custom was pitiless to the married woman who was unfaithful, sterile, or +otherwise offended, though for some time after the introduction of +Christianity it was no offence for the German husband to commit adultery +(Westermarck, _Origin of the Moral Ideas_, vol. ii, p. 453). + +[320] "This form of marriage," says Hobhouse (op. cit., vol. i, p. 156), +"is intimately associated with the extension of marital power." Cf. +Howard, op. cit., vol. i, p. 231. The very subordinate position of the +mediæval German woman is set forth by Hagelstange, _Süddeutsches +Bauernleben in Mittelalter_, 1898, pp. 70 et seq. + +[321] Howard, op. cit., vol. i, p. 259; Smith and Cheetham, _Dictionary of +Christian Antiquities_, art. _Arrhæ_. It would appear, however, that the +"bride-sale," of which Tacitus speaks, was not strictly the sale of a +chattel nor of a slave-girl, but the sale of the _mund_ or protectorship +over the girl. It is true the distinction may not always have been clear +to those who took part in the transaction. Similarly the Anglo-Saxon +betrothal was not so much a payment of the bride's price to her kinsmen, +although as a matter of fact, they might make a profit out of the +transaction, as a covenant stipulating for the bride's honorable treatment +as wife and widow. Reminiscences of this, remark Pollock and Maitland (op. +cit., vol. ii, p. 364), may be found in "that curious cabinet of +antiquities, the marriage ritual of the English Church." + +[322] Howard, op. cit., vol. i, pp. 278-281, 386. The _Arrha_ crept into +Roman and Byzantine law during the sixth century. + +[323] J. Wickham Legg, _Ecclesiological Essays_, p. 189. It may be added +that the idea of the subordination of the wife to the husband appeared in +the Christian Church at a somewhat early period, and no doubt +independently of Germanic influences; St. Augustine said (Sermo XXXVII, +cap. vi) that a good _materfamilias_ must not be ashamed to call herself +her husband's servant (_ancilla_). + +[324] See, e.g., L. Gautier, _La Chevalerie_, Ch. IX. + +[325] Howard, op. cit., vol. i, pp. 293 et seq.; Esmein, _op. cit._, vol. +i, pp. 25 et seq.; Smith and Cheetham, _Dictionary of Christian +Antiquities_ art. "Contract of Marriage." + +[326] Any later changes in Catholic Canon law have merely been in the +direction of making matrimony still narrower and still more remote from +the practice of the world. By a papal decree of 1907, civil marriages and +marriages in non-Catholic places of worship are declared to be not only +sinful and unlawful (which they were before), but actually null and void. + +[327] E.S.P. Haynes, _Our Divorce Law_, p. 3. + +[328] It was the Council of Trent, in the sixteenth century, which made +ecclesiastical rites essential to binding marriage; but even then +fifty-six prelates voted against that decision. + +[329] Esmein, op. cit., vol. i, p. 91. + +[330] It is sometimes said that the Catholic Church is able to diminish +the evils of its doctrine of the indissolubility of marriage by the number +of impediments to marriage it admits, thus affording free scope for +dispensations from marriage. This scarcely seems to be the case. Dr. P.J. +Hayes, who speaks with authority as Chancellor of the Catholic Archdiocese +of New York, states ("Impediments to Marriage in the Catholic Church," +_North American Review_, May, 1905) that even in so modern and so mixed a +community as this there are few applications for dispensations on account +of impediments; there are 15,000 Catholic marriages per annum in New York +City, but scarcely five per annum are questioned as to validity, and these +chiefly on the ground of bigamy. + +[331] The Canonists, say Pollock and Maitland (loc. cit.), "made a +capricious mess of the marriage law." "Seldom," says Howard (_op. cit._, +vol i, p. 340), "have mere theory and subtle quibbling had more disastrous +consequences in practical life than in the case of the distinction between +_sponsalia de præsenti_ and _de futuro_." + +[332] Howard, op. cit., vol. i, pp. 386 et seq. On the whole, however, +Luther's opinion was that marriage, though a sacred and mysterious thing, +is not a sacrament; his various statements on the matter are brought +together by Strampff, _Luther über die Ehe_, pp. 204-214. + +[333] Howard, op. cit., vol. ii, pp. 61 et seq. + +[334] Probably as a result of the somewhat confused and incoherent +attitude of the Reformers, the Canon law of marriage, in a modified form, +really persisted in Protestant countries to a greater extent than in +Catholic countries; in France, especially, it has been much more +profoundly modified (Esmein, op. cit., vol. i, p. 33). + +[335] The Quaker conception of marriage is still vitally influential. +"Why," says Mrs. Besant (_Marriage_, p. 19), "should not we take a leaf +out of the Quaker's book, and substitute for the present legal forms of +marriage a simple declaration publicly made?" + +[336] Howard, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 456. The actual practice in +Pennsylvania appears, however, to differ little from that usual in the +other States. + +[337] Howard, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 109. "It is, indeed, wonderful," +Howard remarks, "that a great nation, priding herself on a love of equity +and social liberty, should thus for five generations tolerate an invidious +indulgence, rather than frankly and courageously to free herself from the +shackles of an ecclesiastical tradition." + +[338] "The enforced continuance of an unsuccessful union is perhaps the +most immoral thing which a civilized society ever countenanced, far less +encouraged," says Godfrey (_Science of Sex_, p. 123). "The morality of a +union is dependent upon mutual desire, and a union dictated by any other +cause is outside the moral pale, however custom may sanction it, or +religion and law condone it." + +[339] Adultery in most savage and barbarous societies is regarded, in the +words of Westermarck, as "an illegitimate appropriation of the exclusive +claims which the husband has acquired by the purchase of his wife, as an +offence against property;" the seducer is, therefore, punished as a thief, +by fine, mutilation, even death (_Origin of the Moral Ideas_, vol. ii, pp. +447 et seq.; id., _History of Human Marriage_, p. 121). Among some peoples +it is the seducer who alone suffers, and not the wife. + +[340] It is sometimes said in defence of the claim for damages for +seducing a wife that women are often weak and unable to resist masculine +advances, so that the law ought to press heavily on the man who takes +advantage of that weakness. This argument seems a little antiquated. The +law is beginning to accept the responsibility even of married women in +other respects, and can scarcely refuse to accept it for the control of +her own person. Moreover, if it is so natural for the woman to yield, it +is scarcely legitimate to punish the man with whom she has performed that +natural act. It must further be said that if a wife's adultery is only an +irresponsible feminine weakness, a most undue brutality is inflicted on +her by publicly demanding her pecuniary price from her lover. If, indeed, +we accept this argument, we ought to reintroduce the mediæval girdle of +chastity. + +[341] Howard, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 114. + +[342] This rule is, in England, by no means a dead letter. Thus, in 1907, +a wife who had left her home, leaving a letter stating that her husband +was not the father of her child, subsequently brought an action for +divorce, which, as the husband made no defence, she obtained. But, the +King's Proctor having learnt the facts, the decree was rescinded. Then the +husband brought an action for divorce, but could not obtain it, having +already admitted his own adultery by leaving the previous case undefended. +He took the matter up to the Court of Appeal, but his petition was +dismissed, the Court being of opinion that "to grant relief in such a case +was not in the interest of public morality." The safest way in England to +render what is legally termed marriage absolutely indissoluble is for both +parties to commit adultery. + +[343] Magnus Hirschfeld, _Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft_, Oct., 1908. + +[344] H. Adner, "Die Richterliche Beurteilung der 'Zerrütteten' Ehe," +_Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Bd. ii, Teil 8. + +[345] Gross-Hoffinger, _Die Schichsale der Frauen und die Prostitution_, +1847; Bloch presents a full summary of the results of this inquiry in an +_Appendix_ to Ch. X of his _Sexual Life of Our Times_. + +[346] Divorce in the United States is fully discussed by Howard, op. cit., +vol. iii. + +[347] H. Münsterberg, _The Americans_, p. 575. Similarly, Dr. Felix Adler, +in a study of "The Ethics of Divorce" (_The Ethical Record_, 1890, p. +200), although not himself an admirer of divorce, believes that the first +cause of the frequency of divorce in the United States is the high +position of women. + +[348] In an important article, with illustrative cases, on "The +Neuro-psychical Element in Conjugal Aversion" (_Journal of Nervous and +Mental Diseases_, Sept., 1892) Smith Baker refers to the cases in which "a +man may find himself progressively becoming antipathetic, through +recognition of the comparatively less developed personality of the one to +whom he happens to be married. Marrying, perhaps, before he has learned to +accurately judge of character and its tendencies, he awakens to the fact +that he is honorably bound to live all his physiological life with, not a +real companion, but a mere counterfeit." The cases are still more +numerous, the same writer observes, in which the sexual appetite of the +wife fails to reveal itself except as the result of education and +practice. "This sort of natural-unnatural condition is the source of much +disappointment, and of intense suffering on the part of the woman as well +as of family dissatisfaction." Yet such causes for divorce are far too +complex to be stated in statute-books, and far too intimate to be pleaded +in courts of justice. + +[349] Ten years ago, if not still, the United States came fourth in order +of frequency of divorce, after Japan, Denmark, and Switzerland. + +[350] Lecky, the historian of European morals, has pointed out (_Democracy +and Liberty_, vol. ii, p. 172) the close connection generally between +facility of divorce and a high standard of sexual morality. + +[351] So, e.g., Hobhouse, _Morals in Evolution_, vol. i, p. 237. + +[352] In England this step was taken in the reign of Henry VII, when the +forcible marriage of women against their will was forbidden by statute (3 +Henry VII, c. 2). Even in the middle of the seventeenth century, however, +the question of forcible marriage had again to be dealt with (_Inderwick_, +Interregnum, pp. 40 et seq.). + +[353] Woods Hutchinson (_Contemporary Review_, Sept., 1905) argues that +when there is epilepsy, insanity, moral perversion, habitual drunkenness, +or criminal conduct of any kind, divorce, for the sake of the next +generation, should be not permissive but compulsory. Mere divorce, +however, would not suffice to attain the ends desired. + +[354] Similarly in Germany, Wanda von Sacher-Masoch, who had suffered much +from marriage, whatever her own defects of character may have been, writes +at the end of _Meine Lebensbeichte_ that "as long as women have not the +courage to regulate, without State-interference or Church-interference, +relationships which concern themselves alone, they will not be free." In +place of this old decayed system of marriage so opposed to our modern +thoughts and feelings, she would have private contracts made by a lawyer. +In England, at a much earlier period, Charles Kingsley, who was an ardent +friend to women's movements, and whose feeling for womanhood amounted +almost to worship, wrote to J.S. Mill: "There will never be a good world +for women until the last remnant of the Canon law is civilized off the +earth." + +[355] "No fouler institution was ever invented," declared Auberon Herbert +many years ago, expressing, before its time, a feeling which has since +become more common; "and its existence drags on, to our deep shame, +because we have not the courage frankly to say that the sexual relations +of husband and wife, or those who live together, concern their own selves, +and do not concern the prying, gloating, self-righteous, and intensely +untruthful world outside." + +[356] Hobhouse, op. cit. vol. i, p. 237. + +[357] The same conception of marriage as a contract still persists to some +extent also in the United States, whither it was carried by the early +Protestants and Puritans. No definition of marriage is indeed usually laid +down by the States, but, Howard says (op. cit., vol. ii, p. 395), "in +effect matrimony is treated as a relation partaking of the nature of both +status and contract." + +[358] This point of view has been vigorously set forth by Paul and Victor +Margueritte, _Quelques Idées_. + +[359] I may remark that this was pointed out, and its consequences +vigorously argued, many years ago by C.G. Garrison, "Limits of Divorce," +_Contemporary Review_, Feb., 1894. "It may safely be asserted," he +concludes, "that marriage presents not one attribute or incident of +anything remotely resembling a contract, either in form, remedy, +procedure, or result; but that in all these aspects, on the contrary, it +is fatally hostile to the principles and practices of that division of the +rights of persons." Marriage is not contract, but conduct. + +[360] See, e.g., P. and V. Margueritte, op. cit. + +[361] As quoted by Howard, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 29. + +[362] Ellen Key similarly (_Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 343) remarks that to +talk of "the duty of life-long fidelity" is much the same as to talk of +"the duty of life-long health." A man may promise, she adds, to do his +best to preserve his life, or his love; he cannot unconditionally +undertake to preserve them. + +[363] Hobhouse, op. cit., vol. 1, pp. 159, 237-9; cf. P. and V. +Margueritte, _Quelques Idées_. + +[364] "Divorce," as Garrison puts it ("Limits of Divorce," _Contemporary +Review_, Feb., 1894), "is the judicial announcement that conduct once +connubial in character and purpose, has lost these qualities.... Divorce +is a question of fact, and not a license to break a promise." + +[365] See, _ante_, p. 425. + +[366] It has been necessary to discuss reproduction in the first chapter +of the present volume, and it will again be necessary in the concluding +chapter. Here we are only concerned with procreation as an element of +marriage. + +[367] Nietzold, _Die Ehe in Ægypten zur Ptolemäisch-römischen Zeit_, 1903, +p. 3. This bond also accorded rights to any children that might be born +during its existence. + +[368] See, e.g., Ellen Key, _Mutter und Kind_, p. 21. The necessity for +the combination of greater freedom of sexual relationships with greater +stringency of parental relationships was clearly realized at an earlier +period by another able woman writer, Miss J.H. Clapperton, in her notable +book, _Scientific Meliorism_, published in 1885. "Legal changes," she +wrote (p. 320), "are required in two directions, viz., towards greater +freedom as to marriage and greater strictness as to parentage. The +marriage union is essentially a private matter with which society has no +call and no right to interfere. Childbirth, on the contrary, is a public +event. It touches the interests of the whole nation." + +[369] Ellen Key, _Liebe und Ehe_, p. 168; cf. the same author's _Century +of the Child_. + +[370] In Germany alone 180,000 "illegitimate" children are born every +year, and the number is rapidly increasing; in England it is only 40,000 +per annum, the strong feeling which often exists against such births in +England (as also in France) leading to the wide adoption of methods for +preventing conception. + +[371] "Where are real monogamists to be found?" asked Schopenhauer in his +essay, "Ueber die Weibe." And James Hinton was wont to ask: "What is the +meaning of maintaining monogamy? Is there any chance of getting it, I +should like to know? Do you call English life monogamous?" + +[372] "Almost everywhere," says Westermarck of polygyny (which he +discusses fully in Chs. XX-XXII of his _History of Human Marriage_) "it is +confined to the smaller part of the people, the vast majority being +monogamous." Maurice Gregory (_Contemporary Review_, Sept., 1906) gives +statistics showing that nearly everywhere the tendency is towards equality +in number of the sexes. + +[373] In a polygamous land a man is of course as much bound by his +obligations to his second wife as to his first. Among ourselves the man's +"second wife" is degraded with the name of "mistress," and the worse he +treats her and her children the more his "morality" is approved, just as +the Catholic Church, when struggling to establish sacerdotal celibacy, +approved more highly the priest who had illegitimate relations with women +than the priest who decently and openly married. If his neglect induces a +married man's mistress to make known her relationship to him the man is +justified in prosecuting her, and his counsel, assured of general +sympathy, will state in court that "this woman has even been so wicked as +to write to the prosecutor's wife!" + +[374] Howard, in his judicial _History of Matrimonial Institutions_ (vol. +ii. pp. 96 et seq.), cannot refrain from drawing attention to the almost +insanely wild character of the language used in England not so many years +ago by those who opposed marriage with a deceased wife's sister, and he +contrasts it with the much more reasonable attitude of the Catholic +Church. "Pictures have been drawn," he remarks, "of the moral anarchy such +marriages must produce, which are read by American, Colonial, and +Continental observers with a bewilderment that is not unmixed with +disgust, and are, indeed, a curious illustration of the extreme insularity +of the English mind." So recently as A.D. 1908 a bill was brought into the +British House of Lords proposing that desertion without cause for two +years shall be a ground for divorce, a reasonable and humane measure which +is law in most parts of the civilized world. The Lord Chancellor (Lord +Loreburn), a Liberal, and in the sphere of politics an enlightened and +sagacious leader, declared that such a proposal was "absolutely +impossible." The House rejected the proposal by 61 votes to 2. Even the +marriage decrees of the Council of Trent were not affirmed by such an +overwhelming majority. In matters of marriage legislation England has +scarcely yet emerged from the Middle Ages. + + + + +CHAPTER XI. + +THE ART OF LOVE. + +Marriage Not Only for Procreation--Theologians on the _Sacramentum +Solationis_--Importance of the _Art of Love_--The Basis of Stability in +Marriage and the Condition for Right Procreation--The Art of Love the +Bulwark Against Divorce--The Unity of Love and Marriage a Principle of +Modern Morality--Christianity and the Art of Love--Ovid--The Art of Love +Among Primitive Peoples--Sexual Initiation in Africa and Elsewhere--The +Tendency to Spontaneous Development of the Art of Love in Early +Life--Flirtation--Sexual Ignorance in Women--The Husband's Place in Sexual +Initiation--Sexual Ignorance in Men--The Husband's Education for +Marriage--The Injury Done by the Ignorance of Husbands--The Physical and +Mental Results of Unskilful Coitus--Women Understand the Art of Love +Better Than Men--Ancient and Modern Opinions Concerning Frequency of +Coitus--Variation in Sexual Capacity--The Sexual Appetite--The Art of Love +Based on the Biological Facts of Courtship--The Art of Pleasing Women--The +Lover Compared to the Musician--The Proposal as a Part of +Courtship--Divination in the Art of Love--The Importance of the +Preliminaries in Courtship--The Unskilful Husband Frequently the Cause of +the Frigid Wife--The Difficulty of Courtship--Simultaneous Orgasm--The +Evils of Incomplete Gratification in Women--Coitus Interruptus--Coitus +Reservatus--The Human Method of Coitus--Variations in Coitus--Posture in +Coitus--The Best Time for Coitus--The Influence of Coitus in Marriage--The +Advantages of Absence in Marriage--The Risks of Absence--Jealousy--The +Primitive Function of Jealousy--Its Predominance Among Animals, Savages, +etc., and in Pathological States--An Anti-Social Emotion--Jealousy +Incompatible with the Progress of Civilization--The Possibility of Loving +More Than One Person at a Time--Platonic Friendship--The Conditions Which +Make It Possible--The Maternal Element in Woman's Love--The Final +Development of Conjugal Love--The Problem of Love One of the Greatest of +Social Questions. + + +It will be clear from the preceding discussion that there are two elements +in every marriage so far as that marriage is complete. On the one hand +marriage is a union prompted by mutual love and only sustainable as a +reality, apart from its mere formal side, by the cultivation of such love. +On the other hand marriage is a method for propagating the race and +having its end in offspring. In the first aspect its aim is erotic, in the +second parental. Both these ends have long been generally recognized. We +find them set forth, for instance, in the marriage service of the Church +of England, where it is stated that marriage exists both for "the mutual +society, help and comfort that the one ought to have of the other," and +also for "the procreation of children." Without the factor of mutual love +the proper conditions for procreation cannot exist; without the factor of +procreation the sexual union, however beautiful and sacred a relationship +it may in itself be, remains, in essence, a private relationship, +incomplete as a marriage and without public significance. It becomes +necessary, therefore, to supplement the preceding discussion of marriage +in its general outlines by a final and more intimate consideration of +marriage in its essence, as embracing the art of love and the science of +procreation. + + There has already been occasion from time to time to refer to + those who, starting from various points of view, have sought to + limit the scope of marriage and to suppress one or other of its + elements. (See e.g., _ante_, p. 135.) + + In modern times the tendency has been to exclude the factor of + procreation, and to regard the relationship of marriage as + exclusively lying in the relationship of the two parties to each + other. Apart from the fact, which it is unnecessary again to call + attention to, that, from the public and social point of view, a + marriage without children, however important to the two persons + concerned, is a relationship without any public significance, it + must further be said that, in the absence of children, even the + personal erotic life itself is apt to suffer, for in the normal + erotic life, especially in women, sexual love tends to grow into + parental love. Moreover, the full development of mutual love and + dependence is with difficulty attained, and there is absence of + that closest of bonds, the mutual coöperation of two persons in + producing a new person. The perfect and complete marriage in its + full development is a trinity. + + Those who seek to eliminate the erotic factor from marriage as + unessential, or at all events as only permissible when strictly + subordinated to the end of procreation, have made themselves + heard from time to time at various periods. Even the ancients, + Greeks and Romans alike, in their more severe moments advocated + the elimination of the erotic element from marriage, and its + confinement to extra-marital relationships, that is so far as men + were concerned; for the erotic needs of married women they had no + provision to make. Montaigne, soaked in classic traditions, has + admirably set forth the reasons for eliminating the erotic + interest from marriage: "One does not marry for oneself, whatever + may be said; a man marries as much, or more, for his posterity, + for his family; the usage and interest of marriage touch our race + beyond ourselves.... Thus it is a kind of incest to employ, in + this venerable and sacred parentage, the efforts and the + extravagances of amorous license" (_Essais_, Bk. i, Ch. XXIX; Bk. + iii, Ch. V). This point of view easily commended itself to the + early Christians, who, however, deliberately overlooked its + reverse side, the establishment of erotic interests outside + marriage. "To have intercourse except for procreation," said + Clement of Alexandria (_Pædagogus_, Bk. ii, Ch. X), "is to do + injury to Nature." While, however, that statement is quite true + of the lower animals, it is not true of man, and especially not + true of civilized man, whose erotic needs are far more developed, + and far more intimately associated with the finest and highest + part of the organism, than is the case among animals generally. + For the animal, sexual desire, except when called forth by the + conditions involved by procreative necessities, has no existence. + It is far otherwise in man, for whom, even when the question of + procreation is altogether excluded, sexual love is still an + insistent need, and even a condition of the finest spiritual + development. The Catholic Church, therefore, while regarding with + admiration a continence in marriage which excluded sexual + relations except for the end of procreation, has followed St. + Augustine in treating intercourse apart from procreation with + considerable indulgence, as only a venial sin. Here, however, the + Church was inclined to draw the line, and it appears that in 1679 + Innocent XI condemned the proposition that "the conjugal act, + practiced for pleasure alone, is exempt even from venial sin." + + Protestant theologians have been inclined to go further, and + therein they found some authority even in Catholic writers. John + à Lasco, the Catholic Bishop who became a Protestant and settled + in England during Edward VI's reign, was following many mediæval + theologians when he recognized the _sacramentum solationis_, in + addition to _proles_, as an element of marriage. Cranmer, in his + marriage service of 1549, stated that "mutual help and comfort," + as well as procreation, enter into the object of marriage + (Wickham Legg, _Ecclesiological Essays_, p. 204; Howard, + _Matrimonial Institutions_, vol. i, p. 398). Modern theologians + speak still more distinctly. "The sexual act," says Northcote + (_Christianity and Sex Problems_, p. 55), "is a love act. Duly + regulated, it conduces to the ethical welfare of the individual + and promotes his efficiency as a social unit. The act itself and + its surrounding emotions stimulate within the organism the + powerful movements of a vast psychic life." At an earlier period + also, Schleiermacher, in his _Letters on Lucinde_, had pointed + out the great significance of love for the spiritual development + of the individual. + + Edward Carpenter truly remarks, in _Love's Coming of Age_, that + sexual love is not only needed for physical creation, but also + for spiritual creation. Bloch, again, in discussing this question + (_The Sexual Life of Our Time_, Ch. VI) concludes that "love and + the sexual embrace have not only an end in procreation, they + constitute an end in themselves, and are necessary for the life, + development, and inner growth of the individual himself." + +It is argued by some, who admit mutual love as a constituent part of +marriage, that such love, once recognized at the outset, may be taken for +granted, and requires no further discussion; there is, they believe, no +art of love to be either learnt or taught; it comes by nature. Nothing +could be further from the truth, most of all as regards civilized man. +Even the elementary fact of coitus needs to be taught. No one could take a +more austerely Puritanic view of sexual affairs than Sir James Paget, and +yet Paget (in his lecture on "Sexual Hypochondriasis") declared that +"Ignorance about sexual affairs seems to be a notable characteristic of +the more civilized part of the human race. Among ourselves it is certain +that the method of copulating needs to be taught, and that they to whom it +is not taught remain quite ignorant about it." Gallard, again, remarks +similarly (in his _Clinique des Maladies des Femmes_) that young people, +like Daphnis in Longus's pastoral, need a beautiful Lycenion to give them +a solid education, practical as well as theoretical, in these matters, and +he considers that mothers should instruct their daughters at marriage, and +fathers their sons. Philosophers have from time to time recognized the +gravity of these questions and have discoursed concerning them; thus +Epicurus, as Plutarch tells us,[375] would discuss with his disciples +various sexual matters, such as the proper time for coitus; but then, as +now, there were obscurantists who would leave even the central facts of +life to the hazards of chance or ignorance, and these presumed to blame +the philosopher. + +There is, however, much more to be learnt in these matters than the mere +elementary facts of sexual intercourse. The art of love certainly includes +such primary facts of sexual hygiene, but it involves also the whole +erotic discipline of marriage, and that is why its significance is so +great, for the welfare and happiness of the individual, for the stability +of sexual unions, and indirectly for the race, since the art of love is +ultimately the art of attaining the right conditions for procreation. + +"It seems extremely probable," wrote Professor E.D. Cope,[376] "that if +this subject could be properly understood, and become, in the details of +its practical conduct, a part of a written social science, the monogamic +marriage might attain a far more general success than is often found in +actual life." There can be no doubt whatever that this is the case. In the +great majority of marriages success depends exclusively upon the knowledge +of the art of love possessed by the two persons who enter into it. A +life-long monogamic union may, indeed, persist in the absence of the +slightest inborn or acquired art of love, out of religious resignation or +sheer stupidity. But that attitude is now becoming less common. As we have +seen in the previous chapter, divorces are becoming more frequent and more +easily obtainable in every civilized country. This is a tendency of +civilization; it is the result of a demand that marriage should be a real +relationship, and that when it ceases to be real as a relationship it +should also cease as a form. That is an inevitable tendency, involved in +our growing democratization, for the democracy seems to care more for +realities than for forms, however venerable. We cannot fight against it; +and we should be wrong to fight against it even if we could. + +Yet while we are bound to aid the tendency to divorce, and to insist that +a valid marriage needs the wills of two persons to maintain it, it is +difficult for anyone to argue that divorce is in itself desirable. It is +always a confession of failure. Two persons, who, if they have been moved +in the slightest degree by the normal and regular impulse of sexual +selection, at the outset regarded each other as lovable, have, on one +side or the other or on both, proved not lovable. There has been a failure +in the fundamental art of love. If we are to counterbalance facility of +divorce our only sound course is to increase the stability of marriage, +and that is only possible by cultivating the art of love, the primal +foundation of marriage. + +It is by no means unnecessary to emphasize this point. There are still +many persons who have failed to realize it. There are even people who seem +to imagine that it is unimportant whether or not pleasure is present in +the sexual act. "I do not believe mutual pleasure in the sexual act has +any particular bearing on the happiness of life," once remarked Dr. Howard +A. Kelly.[377] Such a statement means--if indeed it means anything--that +the marriage tie has no "particular bearing" on human happiness; it means +that the way must be freely opened to adultery and divorce. Even the most +perverse ascetic of the Middle Ages scarcely ventured to make a statement +so flagrantly opposed to the experiences of humanity, and the fact that a +distinguished gynecologist of the twentieth century can make it, with +almost the air of stating a truism, is ample justification for the +emphasis which it has nowadays become necessary to place on the art of +love. "Uxor enim dignitatis nomen est, non voluptatis," was indeed an +ancient Pagan dictum. But it is not in harmony with modern ideas. It was +not even altogether in harmony with Christianity. For our modern morality, +as Ellen Key well says, the unity of love and marriage is a fundamental +principle.[378] + +The neglect of the art of love has not been a universal phenomenon; it is +more especially characteristic of Christendom. The spirit of ancient Rome +undoubtedly predisposed Europe to such a neglect, for with their rough +cultivation of the military virtues and their inaptitude for the finer +aspects of civilization the Romans were willing to regard love as a +permissible indulgence, but they were not, as a people, prepared to +cultivate it as an art. Their poets do not, in this matter, represent the +moral feeling of their best people. It is indeed a highly significant +fact that Ovid, the most distinguished Latin poet who concerned himself +much with the art of love, associated that art not so much with morality +as with immorality. As he viewed it, the art of love was less the art of +retaining a woman in her home than the art of winning her away from it; it +was the adulterer's art rather than the husband's art. Such a conception +would be impossible out of Europe, but it proved very favorable to the +growth of the Christian attitude towards the art of love. + + Love as an art, as well as a passion, seems to have received + considerable study in antiquity, though the results of that study + have perished. Cadmus Milesius, says Suidas, wrote fourteen great + volumes on the passion of love, but they are not now to be found. + Rohde (_Das Griechische Roman_, p. 55) has a brief section on the + Greek philosophic writers on love. Bloch (_Beiträge zur + Psychopathia Sexualis_, Teil I, p. 191) enumerates the ancient + women writers who dealt with the art of love. Montaigne + (_Essais_, liv. ii, Ch. V) gives a list of ancient classical lost + books on love. Burton (_Anatomy of Melancholy_, Bell's edition, + vol. iii, p. 2) also gives a list of lost books on love. Burton + himself dealt at length with the manifold signs of love and its + grievous symptoms. Boissier de Sauvages, early in the eighteenth + century, published a Latin thesis, _De Amore_, discussing love + somewhat in the same spirit as Burton, as a psychic disease to be + treated and cured. + + The breath of Christian asceticism had passed over love; it was + no longer, as in classic days, an art to be cultivated, but only + a malady to be cured. The true inheritor of the classic spirit in + this, as in many other matters, was not the Christian world, but + the world of Islam. _The Perfumed Garden_ of the Sheik Nefzaoui + was probably written in the city of Tunis early in the sixteenth + century by an author who belonged to the south of Tunis. Its + opening invocation clearly indicates that it departs widely from + the conception of love as a disease: "Praise be to God who has + placed man's greatest pleasures in the natural parts of woman, + and has destined the natural parts of man to afford the greatest + enjoyments to woman." The Arabic book, _El Ktab_, or "The Secret + Laws of Love," is a modern work, by Omer Haleby Abu Othmân, who + was born in Algiers of a Moorish mother and a Turkish father. + +For Christianity the permission to yield to the sexual impulse at all was +merely a concession to human weakness, an indulgence only possible when it +was carefully hedged and guarded on every side. Almost from the first the +Christians began to cultivate the art of virginity, and they could not so +dislocate their point of view as to approve of the art of love. All their +passionate adoration in the sphere of sex went out towards chastity. +Possessed by such ideals, they could only tolerate human love at all by +giving to one special form of it a religious sacramental character, and +even that sacramental halo imparted to love a quasi-ascetic character +which precluded the idea of regarding love as an art.[379] Love gained a +religious element but it lost a moral element, since, outside +Christianity, the art of love is part of the foundation of sexual +morality, wherever such morality in any degree exists. In Christendom love +in marriage was left to shift for itself as best it might; the art of love +was a dubious art which was held to indicate a certain commerce with +immorality and even indeed to be itself immoral. That feeling was +doubtless strengthened by the fact that Ovid was the most conspicuous +master in literature of the art of love. His literary reputation--far +greater than it now seems to us[380]--gave distinction to his position as +the author of the chief extant text-book of the art of love. With Humanism +and the Renaissance and the consequent realization that Christianity had +overlooked one side of life, Ovid's _Ars Amatoria_ was placed on a +pedestal it had not occupied before or since. It represented a step +forward in civilization; it revealed love not as a mere animal instinct or +a mere pledged duty, but as a complex, humane, and refined relationship +which demanded cultivation; "_arte regendus amor_." Boccaccio made a wise +teacher put Ovid's _Ars Amatoria_ into the hands of the young. In an age +still oppressed by the mediæval spirit, it was a much needed text-book, +but it possessed the fatal defect, as a text-book, of presenting the +erotic claims of the individual as divorced from the claims of good social +order. It never succeeded in establishing itself as a generally accepted +manual of love, and in the eyes of many it served to stamp the subject it +dealt with as one that lies outside the limits of good morals. + +When, however, we take a wider survey, and inquire into the discipline for +life that is imparted to the young in many parts of the world, we shall +frequently find that the art of love, understood in varying ways, is an +essential part of that discipline. Summary, though generally adequate, as +are the educational methods of primitive peoples, they not seldom include +a training in those arts which render a woman agreeable to a man and a man +agreeable to a woman in the relationship of marriage, and it is often more +or less dimly realized that courtship is not a mere preliminary to +marriage, but a biologically essential part of the marriage relationship +throughout. + + Sexual initiation is carried out very thoroughly in Azimba land, + Central Africa. H. Crawford Angus, the first European to visit + the Azimba people, lived among them for a year, and has described + the Chensamwali, or initiation ceremony, of girls. "At the first + sign of menstruation in a young girl, she is taught the mysteries + of womanhood, and is shown the different positions for sexual + intercourse. The vagina is handled freely, and if not previously + enlarged (which may have taken place at the harvest festival when + a boy and girl are allowed to 'keep house' during the day-time by + themselves, and when quasi-intercourse takes place) it is now + enlarged by means of a horn or corn-cob, which is inserted and + secured in place by bands of bark cloth. When all signs [of + menstruation] have passed, a public announcement of a dance is + given to the women in the village. At this dance no men are + allowed to be present, and it was only with a great deal of + trouble that I managed to witness it. The girl to be 'danced' is + led back from the bush to her mother's hut where she is kept in + solitude to the morning of the dance. On that morning she is + placed on the ground in a sitting position, while the dancers + form a ring around her. Several songs are then sung with + reference to the genital organs. The girl is then stripped and + made to go through the mimic performance of sexual intercourse, + and if the movements are not enacted properly, as is often the + case when the girl is timid and bashful, one of the older women + will take her place and show her how she is to perform. Many + songs about the relation between men and women are sung, and the + girl is instructed as to all her duties when she becomes a wife. + She is also instructed that during the time of her menstruation + she is unclean, and that during her monthly period she must close + her vulva with a pad of fibre used for the purpose. The object of + the dance is to inculcate to the girl the knowledge of married + life. The girl is taught to be faithful to her husband and to try + to bear children, and she is also taught the various arts and + methods of making herself seductive and pleasing to her husband, + and of thus retaining him in her power." (H. Crawford Angus, "The + Chensamwali," _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1898, Heft 6, p. + 479). + + In Abyssinia, as well as on the Zanzibar coast, according to + Stecker (quoted by Ploss-Bartels, _Das Weib_, Section 119) young + girls are educated in buttock movements which increase their + charm in coitus. These movements, of a rotatory character, are + called Duk-Duk. To be ignorant of Duk-Duk is a great disgrace to + a girl. Among the Swahili women of Zanzibar, indeed, a complete + artistic system of hip-movements is cultivated, to be displayed + in coitus. It prevails more especially on the coast, and a + Swahili woman is not counted a "lady" (bibi) unless she is + acquainted with this art. From sixty to eighty young women + practice this buttock dance together for some eight hours a day, + laying aside all clothing, and singing the while. The public are + not admitted. The dance, which is a kind of imitation of coitus, + has been described by Zache ("Sitten und Gebräuche der Suaheli," + _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1899, Heft 2-3, p. 72). The more + accomplished dancers excite general admiration. During the latter + part of this initiation various feats are imposed, to test the + girl's skill and self-control. For instance, she must dance up to + a fire and remove from the midst of the fire a vessel full of + water to the brim, without spilling it. At the end of three + months the training is over, and the girl goes home in festival + attire. She is now eligible for marriage. Similar customs are + said to prevail in the Dutch East Indies and elsewhere. + + The Hebrews had erotic dances, which were doubtless related to + the art of love in marriage, and among the Greeks, and their + disciples the Romans, the conception of love as an art which + needs training, skill, and cultivation, was still extant. That + conception was crushed by Christianity which, although it + sanctified the institution of matrimony, degraded that sexual + love which is normally the content of marriage. + + In 1176 the question was brought before a Court of Love by a + baron and lady of Champagne, whether love is compatible with + marriage. "No," said the baron, "I admire and respect the sweet + intimacy of married couples, but I cannot call it love. Love + desires obstacles, mystery, stolen favors. Now husbands and wives + boldly avow their relationship; they possess each other without + contradiction and without reserve. It cannot then be love that + they experience." And after mature deliberation the ladies of the + Court of Love adopted the baron's conclusions (E. de la + Bedollière, _Histoire des Moeurs des Français_, vol. iii, p. + 334). There was undoubtedly an element of truth in the baron's + arguments. Yet it may well be doubted whether in any + non-Christian country it would ever have been possible to obtain + acceptance for the doctrine that love and marriage are + incompatible. This doctrine was, however, as Ribot points out in + his _Logique des Sentiments_, inevitable, when, as among the + medieval nobility, marriage was merely a political or domestic + treaty and could not, therefore, be a method of moral elevation. + + "Why is it," asked Rétif de la Bretonne, towards the end of the + eighteenth century, "that girls who have no morals are more + seductive and more loveable than honest women? It is because, + like the Greek courtesans to whom grace and voluptuousness were + taught, they have studied the art of pleasing. Among the foolish + detractors of my _Contemporaines_, not one guessed the + philosophic aim of nearly everyone of these tales, which is to + suggest to honest women the ways of making themselves loved. I + should like to see the institution of initiations, such as those + of the ancients.... To-day the happiness of the human species is + abandoned to chance; all the experience of women is individual, + like that of animals; it is lost with those women who, being + naturally amiable, might have taught others to become so. + Prostitutes alone make a superficial study of it, and the lessons + they receive are, for the most part, as harmful as those of + respectable Greek and Roman matrons were holy and honorable, only + tending to wantonness, to the exhaustion alike of the purse and + of the physical faculties, while the aim of the ancient matrons + was the union of husband and wife and their mutual attachment + through pleasure. The Christian religion annihilated the + Mysteries as infamous, but we may regard that annihilation as one + of the wrongs done by Christianity to humanity, as the work of + men with little enlightenment and bitter zeal, dangerous puritans + who were the natural enemies of marriage" (Rétif de la Bretonne, + _Monsieur Nicolas_, reprint of 1883, vol. x, pp. 160-3). It may + be added that Dühren (Dr. Iwan Bloch) regards Rétif as "a master + in the _Ars Amandi_," and discusses him from this point of view + in his _Rétif de la Bretonne_ (pp. 362-371). + +Whether or not Christianity is to be held responsible, it cannot be +doubted that throughout Christendom there has been a lamentable failure to +recognize the supreme importance, not only erotically but morally, of the +art of love. Even in the great revival of sexual enlightenment now taking +place around us there is rarely even the faintest recognition that in +sexual enlightenment the one thing essentially necessary is a knowledge of +the art of love. For the most part, sexual instruction as at present +understood, is purely negative, a mere string of thou-shalt-nots. If that +failure were due to the conscious and deliberate recognition that while +the art of love must be based on physiological and psychological +knowledge, it is far too subtle, too complex, too personal, to be +formulated in lectures and manuals, it would be reasonable and sound. But +it seems to rest entirely on ignorance, indifference, or worse. + +Love-making is indeed, like other arts, an art that is partly natural--"an +art that nature makes"--and therefore it is a natural subject for learning +and exercising in play. Children left to themselves tend, both playfully +and seriously, to practice love, alike on the physical and the psychic +sides.[381] But this play is on its physical side sternly repressed by +their elders, when discovered, and on its psychic side laughed at. Among +the well-bred classes it is usually starved out at an early age. + +After puberty, if not before, there is another form in which the art of +love is largely experimented and practised, especially in England and +America, the form of flirtation. In its elementary manifestations flirting +is entirely natural and normal; we may trace it even in animals; it is +simply the beginning of courtship, at the early stage when courtship may +yet, if desired, be broken off. Under modern civilized conditions, +however, flirtation is often more than this. These conditions make +marriage difficult; they make love and its engagements too serious a +matter to be entered on lightly; they make actual sexual intercourse +dangerous as well as disreputable. Flirtation adapts itself to these +conditions. Instead of being merely the preliminary stage of normal +courtship, it is developed into a form of sexual gratification as complete +as due observation of the conditions already mentioned will allow. In +Germany, and especially in France where it is held in great abhorrence, +this is the only form of flirtation known; it is regarded as an +exportation from the United States and is denominated "flirtage." Its +practical outcome is held to be the "demi-vierge," who knows and has +experienced the joys of sex while yet retaining her hymen intact. + + This degenerate form of flirtation, cultivated not as a part of + courtship, but for its own sake, has been well described by Forel + (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, pp. 97-101). He defines it as including + "all those expressions of the sexual instinct of one individual + towards another individual which excite the other's sexual + instinct, coitus being always excepted." In the beginning it may + be merely a provocative look or a simple apparently unintentional + touch or contact; and by slight gradations it may pass on to + caresses, kisses, embraces, and even extend to pressure or + friction of the sexual parts, sometimes leading to orgasm. Thus, + Forel mentions, a sensuous woman by the pressure of her garments + in dancing can produce ejaculation in her partner. Most usually + the process is that voluptuous contact and revery which, in + English slang, is called "spooning." From first to last there + need not be any explicit explanations, proposals, or declarations + on either side, and neither party is committed to any + relationship with the other beyond the period devoted to + flirtage. In one form, however, flirtage consists entirely in the + excitement of a conversation devoted to erotic and indecorous + topics. Either the man or the woman may take the active part in + flirtage, but in a woman more refinement and skill is required to + play the active part without repelling the man or injuring her + reputation. Indeed, much the same is true of men also, for women, + while they often like flirting, usually prefer its more refined + forms. There are infinite forms of flirtage, and while as a + preliminary part of courtship, it has its normal place and + justification, Forel concludes that "as an end in itself, and + never passing beyond itself, it is a phenomenon of degeneration." + + From the French point of view, flirtage and flirtation generally + have been discussed by Madame Bentzon ("Family Life in America," + _Forum_, March, 1896) who, however, fails to realize the natural + basis of flirtation in courtship. She regards it as a sin against + the law "Thou shalt not play with love," for it ought to have the + excuse of an irresistible passion, but she thinks it is + comparatively inoffensive in America (though still a + deteriorating influence on the women) on account of the + temperament, education, and habits of the people. It must, + however, be remembered that play has a proper relationship to all + vital activities, and that a reasonable criticism of flirtation + is concerned rather with its normal limitations than with its + right to exist (see the observations on the natural basis of + coquetry and the ends it subserves in "The Evolution of Modesty" + in volume i of these _Studies_). + +While flirtation in its natural form--though not in the perverted form of +"flirtage"--has sound justification, alike as a method of testing a lover +and of acquiring some small part of the art of love, it remains an +altogether inadequate preparation for love. This is sufficiently shown by +the frequent inaptitude for the art of love, and even for the mere +physical act of love, so frequently manifested both by men and women in +the very countries where flirtation most flourishes. + +This ignorance, not merely of the art of love but even of the physical +facts of sexual love, is marked not only in women, especially women of the +middle class, but also in men, for the civilized man, as Fritsch long ago +remarked, often knows less of the facts of the sexual life than a +milkmaid. It shows itself differently, however, in the two sexes. + +Among women sexual ignorance ranges from complete innocence of the fact +that it involves any intimate bodily relationship at all to +misapprehensions of the most various kind; some think that the +relationship consists in lying side by side, many that intercourse takes +place at the navel, not a few that the act occupies the whole night. It +has been necessary in a previous chapter to discuss the general evils of +sexual ignorance; it is here necessary to refer to its more special evils +as regards the relationship of marriage. Girls are educated with the vague +idea that they will marry,--quite correctly, for the majority of them do +marry,--but the idea that they must be educated for the career that will +naturally fall to their lot is an idea which as yet has never seemed to +occur to the teachers of girls. Their heads are crammed to stupidity with +the knowledge of facts which it is no one's concern to know, but the +supremely important training for life they are totally unable to teach. +Women are trained for nearly every avocation under the sun; for the +supreme avocation of wifehood and motherhood they are never trained at +all! + +It may be said, and with truth, that the present incompetent training of +girls is likely to continue so long as the mothers of girls are content to +demand nothing better. It may also be said, with even greater truth, that +there is much that concerns the knowledge of sexual relationships which +the mother herself may most properly impart to her daughter. It may +further be asserted, most unanswerably, that the art of love, with which +we are here more especially concerned, can only be learnt by actual +experience, an experience which our social traditions make it difficult +for a virtuous girl to acquire with credit. Without here attempting to +apportion the share of blame which falls to each cause, it remains +unfortunate that a woman should so often enter marriage with the worst +possible equipment of prejudices and misapprehensions, even when she +believes, as often happens, that she knows all about it. Even with the +best equipment, a woman, under present conditions, enters marriage at a +disadvantage. She awakes to the full realization of love more slowly than +a man, and, on the average, at a later age, so that her experiences of the +life of sex before marriage have usually been of a much more restricted +kind than her husband's.[382] So that even with the best preparation, it +often happens that it is not until several years after marriage that a +woman clearly realizes her own sexual needs and adequately estimates her +husband's ability to satisfy those needs. We cannot over-estimate the +personal and social importance of a complete preparation for marriage, and +the greater the difficulties placed in the way of divorce the more weight +necessarily attaches to that preparation.[383] + + Everyone is probably acquainted with many cases of the extreme + ignorance of women on entering marriage. The following case + concerning a woman of twenty-seven, who had been asked in + marriage, is somewhat extreme, but not very exceptional. "She did + not feel sure of her affection and she asked a woman cousin + concerning the meaning of love. This cousin lent her Ellis + Ethelmer's pamphlet, _The Human Flower_. She learnt from this + that men desired the body of a woman, and this so appalled her + that she was quite ill for several days. The next time her lover + attempted a caress she told him that it was 'lust.' Since then + she has read George Moore's _Sister Teresa_, and the knowledge + that 'women can be as bad as men' has made her sad." The + "Histories" contained in the Appendices to previous volumes of + these _Studies_ reveal numerous instances of the deplorable + ignorance of young girls concerning the most central facts of the + sexual life. It is not surprising, under such circumstances, that + marriage leads to disillusionment or repulsion. + + It is commonly said that the duty of initiating the wife into the + privileges and obligations of marriage properly belongs to the + husband. Apart, however, altogether from the fact that it is + unjust to a woman to compel her to bind herself in marriage + before she has fully realized what marriage means, it must also + be said that there are many things necessary for women to know + that it is unreasonable to expect a husband to explain. This is, + for instance, notably the case as regards the more fatiguing and + exhausting effects of coitus on a man as compared with a woman. + The inexperienced bride cannot know beforehand that the + frequently repeated orgasms which render her vigorous and radiant + exert a depressing effect on her husband, and his masculine pride + induces him to attempt to conceal that fact. The bride, in her + innocence, is unconscious that her pleasure is bought at her + husband's expense, and that what is not excess to her, may be a + serious excess to him. The woman who knows (notably, for + instance, a widow who remarries) is careful to guard her + husband's health in this respect, by restraining her own ardor, + for she realizes that a man is not willing to admit that he is + incapable of satisfying his wife's desires. (G. Hirth has also + pointed out how important it is that women should know before + marriage the natural limits of masculine potency, _Wege zur + Liebe_, p. 571.) + +The ignorance of women of all that concerns the art of love, and their +total lack of preparation for the natural facts of the sexual life, would +perhaps be of less evil augury for marriage if it were always compensated +by the knowledge, skill, and considerateness of the husband. But that is +by no means always the case. Within the ordinary range we find, at all +events in England, the large group of men whose knowledge of women before +marriage has been mainly confined to prostitutes, and the important and +not inconsiderable group of men who have had no intimate intercourse with +women, their sexual experiences having been confined to masturbation or +other auto-erotic manifestations, and to flirtation. Certainly the man of +sensitive and intelligent temperament, whatever his training or lack of +training, may succeed with patience and consideration in overcoming all +the difficulties placed in the way of love by the mixture of ignorances +and prejudices which so often in woman takes the place of an education for +the erotic part of her life. But it cannot be said that either of these +two groups of men has been well equipped for the task. The training and +experience which a man receives from a prostitute, even under fairly +favorable conditions, scarcely form the right preparation for approaching +a woman of his own class who has no intimate erotic experiences.[384] The +frequent result is that he is liable to waver between two opposite courses +of action, both of them mistaken. On the one hand, he may treat his bride +as a prostitute, or as a novice to be speedily moulded into the sexual +shape he is most accustomed to, thus running the risk either of perverting +or of disgusting her. On the other hand, realizing that the purity and +dignity of his bride place her in an altogether different class from the +women he has previously known, he may go to the opposite extreme of +treating her with an exaggerated respect, and so fail either to arouse or +to gratify her erotic needs. It is difficult to say which of these two +courses of action is the more unfortunate; the result of both, however, is +frequently found to be that a nominal marriage never becomes a real +marriage.[385] + +Yet there can be no doubt whatever that the other group of men, the men +who enter marriage without any erotic experiences, run even greater risks. +These are often the best of men, both as regards personal character and +mental power. It is indeed astonishing to find how ignorant, both +practically and theoretically, very able and highly educated men may be +concerning sexual matters. + + "Complete abstinence during youth," says Freud (_Sexual-Probleme_, + March, 1908), "is not the best preparation for marriage in + a young man. Women divine this and prefer those of their + wooers who have already proved themselves to be men with + other women." Ellen Key, referring to the demand sometimes made + by women for purity in men (_Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 96), asks + whether women realize the effect of their admiration of the + experienced and confident man who knows women, on the shy and + hesitating youth, "who perhaps has been struggling hard for his + erotic purity, in the hope that a woman's happy smile will be the + reward of his conquest, and who is condemned to see how that + woman looks down on him with lofty compassion and gazes with + admiration at the leopard's spots." When the lover, in Laura + Marholm's _Was war es_? says to the heroine, "I have never yet + touched a woman," the girl "turns from him with horror, and it + seemed to her that a cold shudder went through her, a chilling + deception." The same feeling is manifested in an exaggerated form + in the passion often experienced by vigorous girls of eighteen to + twenty-four for old roués. (This has been discussed by Forel, + _Die Sexuelle Frage_, pp. 217 et seq.) + + Other factors may enter in a woman's preference for the man who + has conquered other women. Even the most religious and moral + young woman, Valera remarks (_Doña Luz_, p. 205), likes to marry + a man who has loved many women; it gives a greater value to his + choice of her; it also offers her an opportunity of converting + him to higher ideals. No doubt when the inexperienced man meets + in marriage the equally inexperienced woman they often succeed in + adapting themselves to each other and a permanent _modus vivendi_ + is constituted. But it is by no means so always. If the wife is + taught by instinct or experience she is apt to resent the + awkwardness and helplessness of her husband in the art of love. + Even if she is ignorant she may be permanently alienated and + become chronically frigid, through the brutal inconsiderateness + of her ignorant husband in carrying out what he conceives to be + his marital duties. (It has already been necessary to touch on + this point in discussing "The Sexual Impulse in Women" in vol. + iii of these _Studies_.) Sometimes, indeed, serious physical + injury has been inflicted on the bride owing to this ignorance of + the husband. + + "I take it that most men have had pre-matrimonial + sex-relationships," a correspondent writes. "But I have known one + man at least who, up till the age of twenty, had not even a + rudimentary idea of sex matters. At twenty-nine, a few months + before marriage, he came to ask me how coitus was performed, and + displayed an ignorance that I could not believe to exist in the + mind of an otherwise intelligent man. He had evidently no + instinct to guide him, as the brutes have, and his reason was + unable to supply the necessary knowledge. It is very curious that + man should lose this instinctive knowledge. I have known another + man almost equally ignorant. He also came to me for advice in + marital duties. Both of these men masturbated, and they were + normally passionate." Such cases are not so very rare. Usually, + however, a certain amount of information has been acquired from + some for the most part unsatisfactory source, and the ignorance + is only partial, though not on that account less dangerous. + + Balzac has compared the average husband to an orang-utan trying + to play the violin. "Love, as we instinctively feel, is the most + melodious of harmonies. Woman is a delicious instrument of + pleasure, but it is necessary to know its quivering strings, + study the pose of it, its timid keyboard, the changing and + capricious fingering. How many orangs--men, I mean, marry without + knowing what a woman is!... Nearly all men marry in the most + profound ignorance of women and of love" (Balzac, _Physiologie du + Mariage_, Meditation VII). + + Neugebauer (_Monatsschrift für Geburtshülfe_, 1889, Bk. ix, pp. + 221 et seq.) has collected over one hundred and fifty cases of + injury to women in coitus inflicted by the penis. The causes were + brutality, drunkenness of one or both parties, unusual position + in coitus, disproportion of the organs, pathological conditions + of the woman's organs (Cf. R.W. Taylor, _Practical Treatise on + Sexual Disorders_, Ch. XXXV). Blumreich also discusses the + injuries produced by violent coitus (Senator and Kaminer, _Health + and Disease in Relation to Marriage_, vol. ii, pp. 770-779). C.M. + Green (_Boston Medical and Surgical Journal_, 13 Ap., 1893) + records two cases of rupture of vagina by sexual intercourse in + newly-married ladies, without evidence of any great violence. + Mylott (_British Medical Journal_, Sept. 16, 1899) records a + similar case occurring on the wedding night. The amount of force + sometimes exerted in coitus is evidenced by the cases, occurring + from time to time, in which intercourse takes place by the + urethra. + + Eulenburg finds (_Sexuale Neuropathie_, p. 69) that vaginismus, a + condition of spasmodic contraction of the vulva and exaggerated + sensibility on the attempt to effect coitus, is due to forcible + and unskilful attempts at the first coitus. Adler (_Die + Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes_, p. 160) also + believes that the scarred remains of the hymen, together with + painful memories of a violent first coitus, are the most frequent + cause of vaginismus. + + The occasional cases, however, of physical injury or of + pathological condition produced by violent coitus at the + beginning of marriage constitute but a very small portion of the + evidence which witnesses to the evil results of the prevalent + ignorance regarding the art of love. As regards Germany, + Fürbringer writes (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in + Relation to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 215): "I am perfectly satisfied + that the number of young married women who have a lasting painful + recollection of their first sexual intercourse exceeds by far the + number of those who venture to consult a doctor." As regards + England, the following experience is instructive: A lady asked + six married women in succession, privately, on the same day + concerning their bridal experiences. To all, sexual intercourse + had come as a shock; two had been absolutely ignorant about + sexual matters; the others had thought they knew what coitus was, + but were none the less shocked. These women were of the middle + class, perhaps above the average in intelligence; one was a + doctor. + + Breuer and Freud, in their _Studien über Hysterie_ (p. 216), + pointed out that the bridal night is practically often a rape, + and that it sometimes leads to hysteria, which is not cured until + satisfying sexual relationships are established. Even when there + is no violence, Kisch (_Sexual Life of Woman_, Part II) regards + awkward and inexperienced coitus, leading to incomplete + excitement of the wife, as the chief cause of dyspareunia, or + absence of sexual gratification, although gross disproportion in + the size of the male and female organs, or disease in either + party, may lead to the same result. Dyspareunia, Kisch adds, is + astonishingly frequent, though sometimes women complain of it + without justification in order to arouse sympathy for themselves + as sacrifices on the altar of marriage; the constant sign is + absence of ejaculation on the woman's part. Kisch also observes + that wedding night deflorations are often really rapes. One young + bride, known to him, was so ignorant of the physical side of + love, and so overwhelmed by her husband's first attempt at + intercourse, that she fled from the house in the night, and + nothing would ever persuade her to return to her husband. (It is + worth noting that by Canon law, under such circumstances, the + Church might hold the marriage invalid. See Thomas Slater's + _Moral Theology_, vol. ii, p. 318, and a case in point, both + quoted by Rev. C.J. Shebbeare, "Marriage Law in the Church of + England," _Nineteenth Century_, Aug., 1909, p. 263.) Kisch + considers, also, that wedding tours are a mistake; since the + fatigue, the excitement, the long journeys, sight-seeing, false + modesty, bad hotel arrangements, often combine to affect the + bride unfavorably and produce the germs of serious illness. This + is undoubtedly the case. + + The extreme psychic importance of the manner in which the act of + defloration is accomplished is strongly emphasized by Adler. He + regards it as a frequent cause of permanent sexual anæsthesia. + "This first moment in which the man's individuality attains its + full rights often decides the whole of life. The unskilled, + over-excited husband can then implant the seed of feminine + insensibility, and by continued awkwardness and coarseness + develop it into permanent anæsthesia. The man who takes + possession of his rights with reckless brutal masculine force + merely causes his wife anxiety and pain, and with every + repetition of the act increases her repulsion.... A large + proportion of cold-natured women represent a sacrifice by men, + due either to unconscious awkwardness, or, occasionally, to + conscious brutality towards the tender plant which should have + been cherished with peculiar art and love, but has been robbed of + the splendor of its development. All her life long, a wistful and + trembling woman will preserve the recollection of a brutal + wedding night, and, often enough, it remains a perpetual source + of inhibition every time that the husband seeks anew to gratify + his desires without adapting himself to his wife's desires for + love" (O. Adler, _Die Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung des + Weibes_, pp. 159 et seq., 181 et seq.). "I have seen an honest + woman shudder with horror at her husband's approach," wrote + Diderot long ago in his essay "Sur les Femmes"; "I have seen her + plunge in the bath and feel herself never sufficiently washed + from the stain of duty." The same may still be said of a vast + army of women, victims of a pernicious system of morality which + has taught them false ideas of "conjugal duty" and has failed to + teach their husbands the art of love. + +Women, when their fine natural instincts have not been hopelessly +perverted by the pruderies and prejudices which are so diligently +instilled into them, understand the art of love more readily than men. +Even when little more than children they can often completely take the cue +that is given to them. Much more than is the case with men, at all events +under civilized conditions, the art of love is with them an art that +Nature makes. They always know more of love, as Montaigne long since said, +than men can teach them, for it is a discipline that is born in their +blood.[386] + + The extensive inquiries of Sanford Bell (loc. cit.) show that the + emotions of sex-love may appear as early as the third year. It + must also be remembered that, both physically and psychically, + girls are more precocious, more mature, than boys (see, e.g., + Havelock Ellis, _Man and Woman_, fourth edition, pp. 34 _et + seq._, 200, etc.). Thus, by the time she has reached the age of + puberty a girl has had time to become an accomplished mistress of + the minor arts of love. That the age of puberty is for girls the + age of love seems to be widely recognized by the popular mind. + Thus in a popular song of Bresse a girl sings:-- + + "J'ai calculé mon âge, + J'ai quatorze à quinze ans. + Ne suis-je pas dans l'âge + D'y avoir un amant?" + + This matter of the sexual precocity of girls has an important + bearing on the question of the "age of consent," or the age at + which it should be legal for a girl to consent to sexual + intercourse. Until within the last twenty-five years there has + been a tendency to set a very low age (even as low as ten) as the + age above which a man commits no offence in having sexual + intercourse with a girl. In recent years there has been a + tendency to run to the opposite and equally unfortunate extreme + of raising it to a very late age. In England, by the Criminal Law + Amendment Act of 1885, the age of consent was raised to sixteen + (this clause of the bill being carried in the House of Commons by + a majority of 108). This seems to be the reasonable age at which + the limit should be set and its extreme high limit in temperate + climates. It is the age recognized by the Italian Criminal Code, + and in many other parts of the civilized world. Gladstone, + however, was in favor of raising it to eighteen, and Howard, in + discussing this question as regards the United States + (_Matrimonial Institutions_, vol. iii, pp. 195-203), thinks it + ought everywhere to be raised to twenty-one, so coinciding with + the age of legal majority at which a woman can enter into + business or political relations. There has been, during recent + years, a wide limit of variation in the legislation of the + different American States on this point, the differences of the + two limits being as much as eight years, and in some important + States the act of intercourse with a girl under eighteen is + declared to be "rape," and punishable with imprisonment for life. + + Such enactments as these, however, it must be recognized, are + arbitrary, artificial, and unnatural. They do not rest on a sound + biological basis, and cannot be enforced by the common sense of + the community. There is no proper analogy between the age of + legal majority which is fixed, approximately, with reference to + the ability to comprehend abstract matters of intelligence, and + the age of sexual maturity which occurs much earlier, both + physically and psychically, and is determined in women by a very + precise biological event: the completion of puberty in the onset + of menstruation. Among peoples living under natural conditions in + all parts of the world it is recognized that a girl becomes + sexually a woman at puberty; at that epoch she receives her + initiation into adult life and becomes a wife and a mother. To + declare that the act of intercourse with a woman who, by the + natural instinct of mankind generally, is regarded as old enough + for all the duties of womanhood, is a criminal act of rape, + punishable by imprisonment for life, can only be considered an + abuse of language, and, what is worse, an abuse of law, even if + we leave all psychological and moral considerations out of the + question, for it deprives the conception of rape of all that + renders it naturally and properly revolting. + + The sound view in this question is clearly the view that it is + the girl's puberty which constitutes the criterion of the man's + criminality in sexually approaching her. In the temperate regions + of Europe and North America the average age of the appearance of + menstruation, the critical moment in the establishment of + complete puberty, is fifteen (see, e.g., Havelock Ellis, _Man and + Woman_, Ch. XI; the facts are set forth at length in Kisch's + _Sexual Life of Woman_, 1909). Therefore it is reasonable that + the act of an adult man in having sexual connection with a girl + under sixteen, with or without her consent, should properly be a + criminal act, severely punishable. In those lands where the + average age of puberty is higher or lower, the age of consent + should be raised or lowered accordingly. (Bruno Meyer, arguing + against any attempt to raise the age of consent above sixteen, + considers that the proper age of consent is generally fourteen, + for, as he rightly insists, the line of division is between the + ripe and the unripe personality, and while the latter should be + strictly preserved from the sphere of sexuality, only voluntary, + not compulsory, influence should be brought to bear on the + former. _Sexual-Probleme_, Ap., 1909.) + + If we take into our view the wider considerations of psychology, + morality, and law, we shall find ample justification for this + point of view. We have to remember that a girl, during all the + years of ordinary school life, is always more advanced, both + physically and psychically, than a boy of the same age, and we + have to recognize that this precocity covers her sexual + development; for even though it is true, on the average, that + active sexual desire is not usually aroused in women until a + somewhat later age, there is also truth in the observation of Mr. + Thomas Hardy (_New Review_, June, 1894): "It has never struck me + that the spider is invariably male and the fly invariably + female." Even, therefore, when sexual intercourse takes place + between a girl and a youth somewhat older than herself, she is + likely to be the more mature, the more self-possessed, and the + more responsible of the two, and often the one who has taken the + more active part in initiating the act. (This point has been + discussed in "The Sexual Impulse in Women" in vol. iii of these + _Studies_.) It must also be remembered that when a girl has once + reached the age of puberty, and put on all the manner and habits + as well as the physical development of a woman, it is no longer + possible for a man always to estimate her age. It is easy to see + that a girl has not yet reached the age of puberty; it is + impossible to tell whether a mature woman is under or over + eighteen; it is therefore, to say the least, unjust to make her + male partner's fate for life depend on the recognition of a + distinction which has no basis in nature. Such considerations + are, indeed, so obvious that there is no chance of carrying out + thoroughly in practice the doctrine that a man should be + imprisoned for life for having intercourse with a girl who is + over the age of sixteen. It is better, from the legal point of + view, to cast the net less widely and to be quite sure that it is + adapted to catch the real and conscious offender, who may be + punished without offending the common sense of the community. + (Cf. Bloch, _The Sexual Life of Our Time_, Ch. XXIV; he considers + that the "age of consent" should begin with the completion of the + sixteenth year.) + + It may be necessary to add that the establishment of the "age of + consent" on this basis by no means implies that intercourse with + girls but little over sixteen should be encouraged, or even + socially and morally tolerated. Here, however, we are not in the + sphere of law. It is the natural tendency of the well-born and + well-nurtured girl under civilized conditions to hold herself in + reserve, and the pressure whereby that tendency is maintained and + furthered must be supplied by the whole of her environment, + primarily by the intelligent reflection of the girl herself when + she has reached the age of adolescence. To foster in a young + woman who has long passed the epoch of puberty the notion that + she has no responsibility in the guardianship of her own body and + soul is out of harmony with modern feeling, as well as + unfavorable to the training of women for the world. The States + which have been induced to adopt the high limit of the age of + consent have, indeed, thereby made an abject confession of their + inability to maintain a decent moral level by more legitimate + means; they may profitably serve as a warning rather than as an + example. + +The knowledge of women cannot, however, replace, the ignorance of men, +but, on the contrary, merely serves to reveal it. For in the art of love +the man must necessarily take the initiative. It is he who must first +unseal the mystery of the intimacies and audacities which the woman's +heart may hold. The risk of meeting with even the shadow of contempt or +disgust is too serious to allow a woman, even a wife, to reveal the +secrets of love to a man who has not shown himself to be an +initiate.[387] Numberless are the jovial and contented husbands who have +never suspected, and will never know, that their wives carry about with +them, sometimes with silent resentment, the ache of mysterious _tabus_. +The feeling that there are delicious privacies and privileges which she +has never been asked to take, or forced to accept, often erotically +divorces a wife from a husband who never realizes what he has missed.[388] +The case of such husbands is all the harder because, for the most part, +all that they have done is the result of the morality that has been +preached to them. They have been taught from boyhood to be strenuous and +manly and clean-minded, to seek by all means to put out of their minds the +thought of women or the longing for sensuous indulgence. They have been +told on all sides that only in marriage is it right or even safe to +approach women. They have acquired the notion that sexual indulgence and +all that appertains to it is something low and degrading, at the worst a +mere natural necessity, at the best a duty to be accomplished in a direct, +honorable and straight-forward manner. No one seems to have told them that +love is an art, and that to gain real possession of a woman's soul and +body is a task that requires the whole of a man's best skill and insight. +It may well be that when a man learns his lesson too late he is inclined +to turn ferociously on the society that by its conspiracy of +pseudo-morality has done its best to ruin his life, and that of his wife. +In some of these cases husband or wife or both are finally attracted to a +third person, and a divorce enables them to start afresh with better +experience under happier auspices. But as things are at present that is a +sad and serious process, for many impossible. They are happier, as Milton +pointed out, whose trials of love before marriage "have been so many +divorces to teach them experience." + +The general ignorance concerning the art of love may be gauged by the fact +that perhaps the question in this matter most frequently asked is the +crude question how often sexual intercourse should take place. That is a +question, indeed, which has occupied the founders of religion, the +law-givers, and the philosophers of mankind, from the earliest times.[389] +Zoroaster said it should be once in every nine days. The laws of Manes +allowed intercourse during fourteen days of the month, but a famous +ancient Hindu physician, Susruta, prescribed it six times a month, except +during the heat of summer when it should be once a month, while other +Hindu authorities say three or four times a month. Solon's requirement of +the citizen that intercourse should take place three times a month fairly +agrees with Zoroaster's. Mohammed, in the Koran, decrees intercourse once +a week. The Jewish Talmud is more discriminating, and distinguishes +between different classes of people; on the vigorous and healthy young +man, not compelled to work hard, once a day is imposed, on the ordinary +working man twice a week, on learned men once a week. Luther considered +twice a week the proper frequency of intercourse. + +It will be observed that, as we might expect, these estimates tend to +allow a greater interval in the earlier ages when erotic stimulation was +probably less and erotic erethism probably rare, and to involve an +increased frequency as we approach modern civilization. It will also be +observed that variation occurs within fairly narrow limits. This is +probably due to the fact that these law-givers were in all cases men. +Women law-givers would certainly have shown a much greater tendency to +variation, since the variations of the sexual impulse are greater in +women.[390] Thus Zenobia required the approach of her husband once a +month, provided that impregnation had not taken place the previous month, +while another queen went very far to the other extreme, for we are told +that the Queen of Aragon, after mature deliberation, ordained six times a +day as the proper rule in a legitimate marriage.[391] + + It may be remarked, in passing, that the estimates of the proper + frequency of sexual intercourse may always be taken to assume + that there is a cessation during the menstrual period. This is + especially the case as regards early periods of culture when + intercourse at this time is usually regarded as either dangerous + or sinful, or both. (This point has been discussed in the + "Phenomena of Periodicity" in volume i of these _Studies_.) Under + civilized conditions the inhibition is due to æsthetic reasons, + the wife, even if she desires intercourse, feeling a repugnance + to be approached at a time when she regards herself as + "disgusting," and the husband easily sharing this attitude. It + may, however, be pointed out that the æsthetic objection is very + largely the result of the superstitious horror of water which is + still widely felt at this time, and would, to some extent, + disappear if a more scrupulous cleanliness were observed. It + remains a good general rule to abstain from sexual intercourse + during the menstrual period, but in some cases there may be + adequate reason for breaking it. This is so when desire is + specially strong at this time, or when intercourse is physically + difficult at other times but easier during the relaxation of the + parts caused by menstruation. It must be remembered also that the + time when the menstrual flow is beginning to cease is probably, + more than any other period of the month, the biologically proper + time for sexual intercourse, since not only is intercourse + easiest then, and also most gratifying to the female, but it + affords the most favorable opportunity for securing + fertilization. + + Schurig long since brought together evidence (_Parthenologia_, + pp. 302 et seq.) showing that coitus is most easy during + menstruation. Some of the Catholic theologians (like Sanchez, and + later, Liguori), going against the popular opinion, have + distinctly permitted intercourse during menstruation, though many + earlier theologians regarded it as a mortal sin. From the + medical side, Kossmann (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease + in Relation to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 249) advocates coitus not + only at the end of menstruation, but even during the latter part + of the period, as being the time when women most usually need it, + the marked disagreeableness of temper often shown by women at + this time, he says, being connected with the suppression, + demanded by custom, of a natural desire. "It is almost always + during menstruation that the first clouds appear on the + matrimonial horizon." + +In modern times the physiologists and physicians who have expressed any +opinion on this subject have usually come very near to Luther's dictum. +Haller said that intercourse should not be much more frequent than twice a +week.[392] Acton said once a week, and so also Hammond, even for healthy +men between the ages of twenty-five and forty.[393] Fürbringer only +slightly exceeds this estimate by advocating from fifty to one hundred +single acts in the year.[394] Forel advises two or three times a week for +a man in the prime of manhood, but he adds that for some healthy and +vigorous men once a month appears to be excess.[395] Mantegazza, in his +_Hygiene of Love_, also states that, for a man between twenty and thirty, +two or three times a week represents the proper amount of intercourse, and +between the ages of thirty and forty-five, twice a week. Guyot recommends +every three days.[396] + +It seems, however, quite unnecessary to lay down any general rules +regarding the frequency of coitus. Individual desire and individual +aptitude, even within the limits of health, vary enormously. Moreover, if +we recognize that the restraint of desire is sometimes desirable, and +often necessary for prolonged periods, it is as well to refrain from any +appearance of asserting the necessity of sexual intercourse at frequent +and regular intervals. The question is chiefly of importance in order to +guard against excess, or even against the attempt to live habitually close +to the threshold of excess. Many authorities are, therefore, careful to +point out that it is inadvisable to be too definite. Thus Erb, while +remarking that, for some, Luther's dictum represents the extreme maximum, +adds that others can go far beyond that amount with impunity, and he +considers that such variations are congenital.[397] Ribbing, again, while +expressing general agreement with Luther's rule, protests against any +attempt to lay down laws for everyone, and is inclined to say that as +often as one likes is a safe rule, so long as there are no bad +after-effects.[398] + + It seems to be generally agreed that bad effects from excess in + coitus, when they do occur, are rare in women (see, e.g., + Hammond, _Sexual Impotence_, p. 127). Occasionally, however, evil + effects occur in women. (The case, possibly to be mentioned in + this connection, has been recorded of a man whose three wives all + became insane after marriage, _Journal of Mental Science_, Jan., + 1879, p. 611.) In cases of sexual excess great physical + exhaustion, with suspicion and delusions, is often observed. + Hutchinson has recorded three cases of temporary blindness, all + in men, the result of sexual excess after marriage (_Archives of + Surgery_, Jan., 1893). The old medical authors attributed many + evil results to excess in coitus. Thus Schurig (_Spermatologia_, + 1720, pp. 260 et seq.) brings together cases of insanity, + apoplexy, syncope, epilepsy, loss of memory, blindness, baldness, + unilateral perspiration, gout, and death attributed to this + cause; of death many cases are given, some in women, but one may + easily perceive that _post_ was often mistaken for _propter_. + +There is, however, another consideration which can scarcely escape the +reader of the present work. Nearly all the estimates of the desirable +frequence of coitus are framed to suit the supposed physiological needs of +the husband,[399] and they appear usually to be framed in the same spirit +of exclusive attention to those needs as though the physiological needs of +the evacuation of the bowels or the bladder were in question. But sexual +needs are the needs of two persons, of the husband and of the wife. It is +not enough to ascertain the needs of the husband; it is also necessary to +ascertain the needs of the wife. The resultant must be a harmonious +adjustment of these two groups of needs. That consideration alone, in +conjunction with the wide variations of individual needs, suffices to +render any definite rules of very trifling value. + + It is important to remember the wide limits of variation in + sexual capacity, as well as the fact that such variations in + either direction may be healthy and normal, though undoubtedly + when they become extreme variations may have a pathological + significance. In one case, for instance, a man has intercourse + once a month and finds this sufficient; he has no nocturnal + emissions nor any strong desires in the interval; yet he leads an + idle and luxurious life and is not restrained by any moral or + religious scruples; if he much exceeds the frequency which suits + him he suffers from ill-health, though otherwise quite healthy + except for a weak digestion. At the other extreme, a happily + married couple, between forty-five and fifty, much attached to + each other, had engaged in sexual intercourse every night for + twenty years, except during the menstrual period and advanced + pregnancy, which had only occurred once; they are hearty, + full-blooded, intellectual people, fond of good living, and they + attribute their affection and constancy to this frequent + indulgence in coitus; the only child, a girl, is not strong, + though fairly healthy. + + The cases are numerous in which, on special occasions, it is + possible for people who are passionately attached to each other + to repeat the act of coitus, or at all events the orgasm, an + inordinate number of times within a few hours. This usually + occurs at the beginning of an intimacy or after a long + separation. Thus in one case a newly-married woman experienced + the orgasm fourteen times in one night, her husband in the same + period experiencing it seven times. In another case a woman who + had lived a chaste life, when sexual relationships finally began, + once experienced orgasm fourteen or fifteen times to her + partner's three times. In a case which, I have been assured may + be accepted as authentic, a young wife of highly erotic, very + erethic, slightly abnormal temperament, after a month's absence + from her husband, was excited twenty-six times within an hour and + a quarter; her husband, a much older man, having two orgasms + during this period; the wife admitted that she felt a "complete + wreck" after this, but it is evident that if this case may be + regarded as authentic the orgasms were of extremely slight + intensity. A young woman, newly married to a physically robust + man, once had intercourse with him eight times in two hours, + orgasm occurring each time in both parties. Guttceit (_Dreissig + Jahre Praxis_, vol. ii. p. 311), in Russia, knew many cases in + which young men of twenty-two to twenty-eight had intercourse + more than ten times in one night, though after the fourth time + there is seldom any semen. He had known some men who had + masturbated in early boyhood, and began to consort with women at + fifteen, yet remained sexually vigorous in old age, while he knew + others who began intercourse late and were losing force at forty. + Mantegazza, who knew a man who had intercourse fourteen times in + one day, remarks that the stories of the old Italian novelists + show that twelve times was regarded as a rare exception. + Burchard, Alexander VI's secretary, states that the Florentine + Ambassador's son, in Rome in 1489, "knew a girl seven times in + one hour" (J. Burchard, _Diarium_, ed. Thuasne, vol. i, p. 329). + Olivier, Charlemagne's knight, boasted, according to legend, that + he could show his virile power one hundred times in one night, if + allowed to sleep with the Emperor of Constantinople's daughter; + he was allowed to try, it is said, and succeeded thirty times + (Schultz, _Das Höfische Leben_, vol. i, p. 581). + + It will be seen that whenever the sexual act is repeated + frequently within a short time it is very rarely indeed that the + husband can keep pace with the wife. It is true that the woman's + sexual energy is aroused more slowly and with more difficulty + than the man's, but as it becomes aroused its momentum increases. + The man, whose energy is easily aroused, is easily exhausted; the + woman has often scarcely attained her energy until after the + first orgasm is over. It is sometimes a surprise to a young + husband, happily married, to find that the act of sexual + intercourse which completely satisfies him has only served to + arouse his wife's ardor. Very many women feel that the repetition + of the act several times in succession is needed to, as they may + express it, "clear the system," and, far from producing + sleepiness and fatigue, it renders them bright and lively. + + The young and vigorous woman, who has lived a chaste life, + sometimes feels when she commences sexual relationships as though + she really required several husbands, and needed intercourse at + least once a day, though later when she becomes adjusted to + married life she reaches the conclusion that her desires are not + abnormally excessive. The husband has to adjust himself to his + wife's needs, through his sexual force when he possesses it, and, + if not, through his skill and consideration. The rare men who + possess a genital potency which they can exert to the + gratification of women without injury to themselves have been, by + Professor Benedikt, termed "sexual athletes," and he remarks that + such men easily dominate women. He rightly regards Casanova as + the type of the sexual athlete (_Archives d'Anthropologie + Criminelle_, Jan., 1896). Näcke reports the case of a man whom he + regards as a sexual athlete, who throughout his life had + intercourse once or twice daily with his wife, or if she was + unwilling, with another woman, until he became insane at the age + of seventy-five (_Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft_, Aug., + 1908, p. 507). This should probably, however, be regarded rather + as a case of morbid hyperæsthesia than of sexual athleticism. + +At this stage we reach the fundamental elements of the art of love. We +have seen that many moral practices and moral theories which have been +widely current in Christendom have developed traditions, still by no means +extinct among us, which were profoundly antagonistic to the art of love. +The idea grew up of "marital duties," of "conjugal rights."[400] The +husband had the right and the duty to perform sexual intercourse with his +wife, whatever her wishes in the matter might be, while the wife had the +duty and the right (the duty in her case being usually put first) to +submit to such intercourse, which she was frequently taught to regard as +something low and merely physical, an unpleasant and almost degrading +necessity which she would do well to put out of her thoughts as speedily +as possible. It is not surprising that such an attitude towards marriage +has been highly favorable to conjugal unhappiness, more especially that of +the wife,[401] and it has tended to promote adultery and divorce. We might +have been more surprised had it been otherwise. + +The art of love is based on the fundamental natural fact of courtship; and +courtship is the effort of the male to make himself acceptable to the +female.[402] "The art of love," said Vatsyayana, one of the greatest of +authorities, "is the art of pleasing women." "A man must never permit +himself a pleasure with his wife," said Balzac in his _Physiologie du +Mariage_, "which he has not the skill first to make her desire." The whole +art of love is there. Women, naturally and instinctively, seek to make +themselves desirable to men, even to men whom they are supremely +indifferent to, and the woman who is in love with a man, by an equally +natural instinct, seeks to shape herself to the measure which individually +pleases him. This tendency is not really modified by the fundamental fact +that in these matters it is only the arts that Nature makes which are +truly effective. It is finally by what he is that a man arouses a woman's +deepest emotions of sympathy or of antipathy, and he is often pleasing her +more by displaying his fitness to play a great part in the world outside +than by any acquired accomplishments in the arts of courtship. When, +however, the serious and intimate play of physical love begins, the +woman's part is, even biologically, on the surface the more passive +part.[403] She is, on the physical side, inevitably the instrument in +love; it must be his hand and his bow which evoke the music. + +In speaking of the art of love, however, it is impossible to disentangle +completely the spiritual from the physical. The very attempt to do so is, +indeed, a fatal mistake. The man who can only perceive the physical side +of the sexual relationship is, as Hinton was accustomed to say, on a level +with the man who, in listening to a sonata of Beethoven on the violin, is +only conscious of the physical fact that a horse's tail is being scraped +against a sheep's entrails. + + The image of the musical instrument constantly recurs to those + who write of the art of love. Balzac's comparison of the + unskilful husband to the orang-utan attempting to play the violin + has already been quoted. Dr. Jules Guyot, in his serious and + admirable little book, _Bréviaire de l'Amour Expérimental_, falls + on to the same comparison: "There are an immense number of + ignorant, selfish, and brutal men who give themselves no trouble + to study the instrument which God has confided to them, and do + not so much as suspect that it is necessary to study it in order + to draw out its slightest chords.... Every direct contact, even + with the clitoris, every attempt at coitus [when the feminine + organism is not aroused], exercises a painful sensation, an + instinctive repulsion, a feeling of disgust and aversion. Any + man, any husband, who is ignorant of this fact, is ridiculous and + contemptible. Any man, any husband, who, knowing it, dares to + disregard it, has committed an outrage.... In the final + combination of man and woman, the positive element, the husband, + has the initiative and the responsibility for the conjugal life. + He is the minstrel who will produce harmony or cacophony by his + hand and his bow. The wife, from this point of view, is really + the many-stringed instrument who will give out harmonious or + discordant sounds, according as she is well or ill handled" + (Guyot, _Bréviaire_, pp. 99, 115, 138). + + That such love corresponds to the woman's need there cannot be + any doubt. All developed women desire to be loved, says Ellen + Key, not "en mâle" but "en artiste" (_Liebe und Ehe_, p. 92). + "Only a man of whom she feels that he has also the artist's joy + in her, and who shows this joy through his timid and delicate + touch on her soul as on her body, can keep the woman of to-day. + She will only belong to a man who continues to long for her even + when he holds her locked in his arms. And when such a woman + breaks out: 'You want me, but you cannot caress me, you cannot + tell what I want,' then that man is judged." Love is indeed, as + Remy de Gourmont remarks, a delicate art, for which, as for + painting or music, only some are apt. + +It must not be supposed that the demand on the lover and husband to +approach a woman in the same spirit, with the same consideration and +skilful touch, as a musician takes up his instrument is merely a demand +made by modern women who are probably neurotic or hysterical. No reader of +these _Studies_ who has followed the discussions of courtship and of +sexual selection in previous volumes can fail to realize that--although we +have sought to befool ourselves by giving an illegitimate connotation to +the word "brutal"--consideration and respect for the female is all but +universal in the sexual relationships of the animals below man; it is only +at the furthest remove from the "brutes," among civilized men, that sexual +"brutality" is at all common, and even there it is chiefly the result of +ignorance. If we go as low as the insects, who have been disciplined by +no family life, and are generally counted as careless and wanton, we may +sometimes find this attitude towards the female fully developed, and the +extreme consideration of the male for the female whom yet he holds firmly +beneath him, the tender preliminaries, the extremely gradual approach to +the supreme sexual act, may well furnish an admirable lesson. + +This greater difficulty and delay on the part of women in responding to +the erotic excitation of courtship is really very fundamental and--as has +so often been necessary to point out in previous volumes of these +_Studies_--it covers the whole of woman's erotic life, from the earliest +age when coyness and modesty develop. A woman's love develops much more +slowly than a man's for a much longer period. There is real psychological +significance in the fact that a man's desire for a woman tends to arise +spontaneously, while a woman's desire for a man tends only to be aroused +gradually, in the measure of her complexly developing relationship to him. +Hence her sexual emotion is often less abstract, more intimately +associated with the individual lover in whom it is centred. "The way to my +senses is through my heart," wrote Mary Wollstonecraft to her lover Imlay, +"but, forgive me! I think there is sometimes a shorter cut to yours." She +spoke for the best, if not for the largest part, of her sex. A man often +reaches the full limit of his physical capacity for love at a single step, +and it would appear that his psychic limits are often not more difficult +to reach. This is the solid fact underlying the more hazardous statement, +so often made, that woman is monogamic and man polygamic. + + On the more physical side, Guttceit states that a month after + marriage not more than two women out of ten have experienced the + full pleasure of sexual intercourse, and it may not be for six + months, a year, or even till after the birth of several children, + that a woman experiences the full enjoyment of the physical + relationship, and even then only with a man she completely loves, + so that the conditions of sexual gratification are much more + complex in women than in men. Similarly, on the psychic side, + Ellen Key remarks (_Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 111): "It is + certainly true that a woman desires sexual gratification from a + man. But while in her this desire not seldom only appears after + she has begun to love a man enough to give her life for him, a + man often desires to possess a woman physically before he loves + her enough to give even his little finger for her. The fact that + love in a woman mostly goes from the soul to the senses and often + fails to reach them, and that in a man it mostly goes from the + senses to the soul and frequently never reaches that goal--this + is of all the existing differences between men and women that + which causes most torture to both." It will, of course, be + apparent to the reader of the fourth volume of these _Studies_ on + "Sexual Selection in Man" that the method of stating the + difference which has commended itself to Mary Wollstonecraft, + Ellen Key, and others, is not strictly correct, and the chastest + woman, after, for example, taking too hot a bath, may find that + her heart is not the only path through which her senses may be + affected. The senses are the only channels to the external world + which we possess, and love must come through these channels or + not at all. The difference, however, seems to be a real one, if + we translate it to mean that, as we have seen reason to believe + in previous volumes of these _Studies_, there are in women (1) + preferential sensory paths of sexual stimuli, such as, + apparently, a predominence of tactile and auditory paths as + compared with men; (2) a more massive, complex, and delicately + poised sexual mechanism; and, as a result of this, (3) eventually + a greater amount of nervous and cerebral sexual irradiation. + + It must be remembered, at the same time, that while this + distinction represents a real tendency in sexual differentiation, + with an organic and not merely traditional basis, it has about it + nothing whatever that is absolute. There are a vast number of + women whose sexual facility, again by natural tendency and not + merely by acquired habits, is as marked as that of any man, if + not more so. In the sexual field, as we have seen in a previous + volume (_Analysis of the Sexual Impulse_), the range of + variability is greater in women than in men. + +The fact that love is an art, a method of drawing music from an +instrument, and not the mere commission of an act by mutual consent, makes +any verbal agreement to love of little moment. If love were a matter of +contract, of simple intellectual consent, of question and answer, it would +never have come into the world at all. Love appeared as art from the +first, and the subsequent developments of the summary methods of reason +and speech cannot abolish that fundamental fact. This is scarcely realized +by those ill-advised lovers who consider that the first step in +courtship--and perhaps even the whole of courtship--is for a man to ask a +woman to be his wife. That is so far from being the case that it +constantly happens that the premature exhibition of so large a demand at +once and for ever damns all the wooer's chances. It is lamentable, no +doubt, that so grave and fateful a matter as that of marriage should so +often be decided without calm deliberation and reasonable forethought. But +sexual relationships can never, and should never, be merely a matter of +cold calculation. When a woman is suddenly confronted by the demand that +she should yield herself up as a wife to a man who has not yet succeeded +in gaining her affections she will not fail to find--provided she is +lifted above the cold-hearted motives of self-interest--that there are +many sound reasons why she should not do so. And having thus squarely +faced the question in cool blood and decided it, she will henceforth, +probably, meet that wooer with a tunic of steel enclosing her breast. + + "Love must be _revealed_ by acts and not _betrayed_ by words. I + regard as abnormal the extraordinary method of a hasty avowal + beforehand; for that represents not the direct but the reflex + path of transmission. However sweet and normal the avowal may be + when once reciprocity has been realized, as a method of conquest + I consider it dangerous and likely to produce the reverse of the + result desired." I take these wise words from a thoughtful "Essai + sur l'Amour" (_Archives de Psychologie_, 1904) by a + non-psychological Swiss writer who is recording his own + experiences, and who insists much on the predominance of the + spiritual and mental element in love. + + It is worthy of note that this recognition that direct speech is + out of place in courtship must not be regarded as a refinement of + civilization. Among primitive peoples everywhere it is perfectly + well recognized that the offer of love, and its acceptance or its + refusal, must be made by actions symbolically, and not by the + crude method of question and answer. Among the Indians of + Paraguay, who allow much sexual freedom to their women, but never + buy or sell love, Mantegazza states (_Rio de la Plata e + Tenerife_, 1867, p. 225) that a girl of the people will come to + your door or window and timidly, with a confused air, ask you, in + the Guarani tongue, for a drink of water. But she will smile if + you innocently offer her water. Among the Tarahumari Indians of + Mexico, with whom the initiative in courting belongs to the + women, the girl takes the first step through her parents, then + she throws small pebbles at the young man; if he throws them back + the matter is concluded (Carl Lumholtz, _Scribner's Magazine_, + Sept., 1894, p. 299). In many parts of the world it is the woman + who chooses her husband (see, e.g., M.A. Potter, _Sohrab and + Rustem_, pp. 169 et seq.), and she very frequently adopts a + symbolical method of proposal. Except when the commercial element + predominates in marriage, a similar method is frequently adopted + by men also in making proposals of marriage. + +It is not only at the beginning of courtship that the act of love has +little room for formal declarations, for the demands and the avowals that +can be clearly defined in speech. The same rule holds even in the most +intimate relationships of old lovers, throughout the married life. The +permanent element in modesty, which survives every sexual initiation to +become intertwined with all the exquisite impudicities of love, combines +with a true erotic instinct to rebel against formal demands, against +verbal affirmations or denials. Love's requests cannot be made in words, +nor truthfully answered in words: a fine divination is still needed as +long as love lasts. + + The fact that the needs of love cannot be expressed but must be + divined has long been recognized by those who have written of the + art of love, alike by writers within and without the European + Christian traditions. Thus Zacchia, in his great medico-legal + treatise, points out that a husband must be attentive to the + signs of sexual desire in his wife. "Women," he says, "when + sexual desire arises within them are accustomed to ask their + husbands questions on matters of love; they flatter and caress + them; they allow some part of their body to be uncovered as if by + accident; their breasts appear to swell; they show unusual + alacrity; they blush; their eyes are bright; and if they + experience unusual ardor they stammer, talk beside the mark, and + are scarcely mistress of themselves. At the same time their + private parts become hot and swell. All these signs should + convince a husband, however inattentive he may be, that his wife + craves for satisfaction" (_Zacchiæ Quæstionum Medico-legalium + Opus_, lib. vii, tit. iii, quæst. I; vol. ii, p. 624 in ed. of + 1688). + + The old Hindu erotic writers attributed great importance alike to + the man's attentiveness to the woman's erotic needs, and to his + skill and consideration in all the preliminaries of the sexual + act. He must do all that he can to procure her pleasure, says + Vatsyayana. When she is on her bed and perhaps absorbed in + conversation, he gently unfastens the knot of her lower garment. + If she protests he closes her mouth with kisses. Some authors, + Vatsyayana remarks, hold that the lover should begin by sucking + the nipples of her breasts. When erection occurs he touches her + with his hands, softly caressing the various parts of her body. + He should always press those parts of her body towards which she + turns her eyes. If she is shy, and it is the first time, he will + place his hands between her thighs which she will instinctively + press together. If she is young he will put his hands on her + breasts, and she will no doubt cover them with her own. If she is + mature he will do all that may seem fitting and agreeable to both + parties. Then he will take her hair and her chin between his + fingers and kiss them. If she is very young she will blush and + close her eyes. By the way in which she receives his caresses he + will divine what pleases her most in union. The signs of her + enjoyment are that her body becomes limp, her eyes close, she + loses all timidity, and takes part in the movements which bring + her most closely to him. If, on the other hand, she feels no + pleasure, she strikes the bed with her hands, will not allow the + man to continue, is sullen, even bites or kicks, and continues + the movements of coitus when the man has finished. In such cases, + Vatsyayana adds, it is his duty to rub the vulva with his hand + before union until it is moist, and he should perform the same + movements afterwards if his own orgasm has occurred first. + + With regard to Indian erotic art generally, and more especially + Vatsyayana, who appears to have lived some sixteen hundred years + ago, information will be found in Valentino, "L'Hygiène conjugale + chez les Hindous," _Archives Générales de Médecine_, Ap. 25, + 1905; Iwan Bloch, "Indische Medizin," Puschmann's _Handbuch der + Geschichte der Medizin_, vol. i; Heimann and Stephan, "Beiträge + zur Ehehygiene nach der Lehren des Kamasutram," _Zeitschaft für + Sexualwissenschaft_, Sept., 1908; also a review of Richard + Schmidt's German translation of the _Kamashastra_ of Vatsyayana + in _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1902, Heft 2. There has long + existed an English translation of this work. In the lengthy + preface to the French translation Lamairesse points out the + superiority of Indian erotic art to that of the Latin poets by + its loftier spirit, and greater purity and idealism. It is + throughout marked by respect for women, and its spirit is + expressed in the well-known proverb: "Thou shalt not strike a + woman even with a flower." See also Margaret Noble's _Web of + Indian Life_, especially Ch. III, "On the Hindu Woman as Wife," + and Ch. IV, "Love Strong as Death." + + The advice given to husbands by Guyot (_Bréviaire de l'Amour + Expérimental_, p. 422) closely conforms to that given, under very + different social conditions, by Zacchia and Vatsyayana. "In a + state of sexual need and desire the woman's lips are firm and + vibrant, the breasts are swollen, and the nipples erect. The + intelligent husband cannot be deceived by these signs. If they do + not exist, it is his part to provoke them by his kisses and + caresses, and if, in spite of his tender and delicate + excitations, the lips show no heat and the breasts no swelling, + and especially if the nipples are disagreeably irritated by + slight suction, he must arrest his transports and abstain from + all contact with the organs of generation, for he would certainly + find them in a state of exhaustion and disposed to repulsion. If, + on the contrary, the accessory organs are animated, or become + animated beneath his caresses, he must extend them to the + generative organs, and especially to the clitoris, which beneath + his touch will become full of appetite and ardor." + + The importance of the preliminary titillation of the sexual + organs has been emphasized by a long succession alike of erotic + writers and physicians, from Ovid (_Ars Amatoria_ end of Bk. II) + onwards. Eulenburg (_Die Sexuale Neuropathie_, p. 79) considers + that titillation is sometimes necessary, and Adler, likewise + insisting on the preliminaries of psychic and physical courtship + (_Die Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes_, p. 188), + observes that the man who is gifted with insight and skill in + these matters possesses a charm which will draw sparks of + sensibility from the coldest feminine heart. The advice of the + physician is at one in this matter with the maxims of the erotic + artist and with the needs of the loving woman. In making love + there must be no haste, wrote Ovid:-- + + "Crede mihi, non est Veneris properanda voluptas, + Sed sensim tarda prolicienda mora." + + "Husbands, like spoiled children," a woman has written, "too + often miss the pleasure which might otherwise be theirs, by + clamoring for it at the wrong time. The man who thinks this + prolonged courtship previous to the act of sex union wearisome, + has never given it a trial. It is the approach to the marital + embrace, as well as the embrace itself, which constitutes the + charm of the relation between the sexes." + + It not seldom happens, remarks Adler (op. cit., p. 186), that the + insensibility of the wife must be treated--in the husband. And + Guyot, bringing forward the same point, writes (op. cit., p. + 130): "If by a delay of tender study the husband has understood + his young bride, if he is able to realize for her the ineffable + happiness and dreams of youth, he will be beloved forever; he + will be her master and sovereign lord. If he has failed to + understand her he will fatigue and exhaust himself in vain + efforts, and finally class her among the indifferent and cold + women. She will be his wife by duty, the mother of his children. + He will take his pleasure elsewhere, for man is ever in pursuit + of the woman who experiences the genesic spasm. Thus the vague + and unintelligent search for a half who can unite in that + delirious finale is the chief cause of all conjugal dissolutions. + In such a case a man resembles a bad musician who changes his + violin in the hope that a new instrument will bring the melody he + is unable to play." + +The fact that there is thus an art in love, and that sexual intercourse is +not a mere physical act to be executed by force of muscles, may help to +explain why it is that in so many parts of the world defloration is not +immediately effected on marriage.[404] No doubt religious or magic reasons +may also intervene here, but, as so often happens, they harmonize with the +biological process. This is the case even among uncivilized peoples who +marry early. The need for delay and considerate skill is far greater when, +as among ourselves, a woman's marriage is delayed long past the +establishment of puberty to a period when it is more difficult to break +down the psychic and perhaps even physical barriers of personality. + +It has to be added that the art of love in the act of courtship is not +confined to the preliminaries to the single act of coitus. In a sense the +life of love is a continuous courtship with a constant progression. The +establishment of physical intercourse is but the beginning of it. This is +especially true of women. "The consummation of love," says Sénancour,[405] +"which is often the end of love with man is only the beginning of love +with woman, a test of trust, a gage of future pleasure, a sort of +engagement for an intimacy to come." "A woman's soul and body," says +another writer,[406] "are not given at one stroke at a given moment; but +only slowly, little by little, through many stages, are both delivered to +the beloved. Instead of abandoning the young woman to the bridegroom on +the wedding night, as an entrapped mouse is flung to the cat to be +devoured, it would be better to let the young bridal couple live side by +side, like two friends and comrades, until they gradually learn how to +develop and use their sexual consciousness." The conventional wedding is +out of place as a preliminary to the consummation of marriage, if only on +the ground that it is impossible to say at what stage in the endless +process of courtship it ought to take place. + +A woman, unlike a man, is prepared by Nature, to play a skilful part in +the art of love. The man's part in courtship, which is that of the male +throughout the zoölogical series, may be difficult and hazardous, but it +is in a straight line, fairly simple and direct. The woman's part, having +to follow at the same moment two quite different impulses, is necessarily +always in a zigzag or a curve. That is to say that at every erotic moment +her action is the resultant of the combined force of her desire (conscious +or unconscious) and her modesty. She must sail through a tortuous channel +with Scylla on the one side and Charybdis on the other, and to avoid +either danger too anxiously may mean risking shipwreck on the other side. +She must be impenetrable to all the world, but it must be an +impenetrability not too obscure for the divination of the right man. Her +speech must be honest, but yet on no account tell everything; her actions +must be the outcome of her impulses, and on that very account be capable +of two interpretations. It is only in the last resort of complete intimacy +that she can become the perfect woman, + + "Whose speech Truth knows not from her thought, + Nor Love her body from her soul." + +For many a woman the conditions for that final erotic avatar--"that +splendid shamelessness which," as Rafford Pyke says, "is the finest thing +in perfect love"--never present themselves at all. She is compelled to be +to the end of her erotic life, what she must always be at the beginning, a +complex and duplex personality, naturally artful. Therewith she is better +prepared than man to play her part in the art of love. + +The man's part in the art of love is, however, by no means easy. That is +not always realized by the women who complain of his lack of skill in +playing it. Although a man has not to cultivate the same natural duplicity +as a woman, it is necessary that he should possess a considerable power of +divination. He is not well prepared for that, because the traditional +masculine virtue is force rather than insight. The male's work in the +world, we are told, is domination, and it is by such domination that the +female is attracted. There is an element of truth in that doctrine, an +element of truth which may well lead astray the man who too exclusively +relies upon it in the art of love. Violence is bad in every art, and in +the erotic art the female desires to be won to love and not to be ordered +to love. That is fundamental. We sometimes see the matter so stated as if +the objection to force and domination in love constituted some quite new +and revolutionary demand of the "modern woman." That is, it need scarcely +be said, the result of ignorance. The art of love, being an art that +Nature makes, is the same now as in essentials it has always been,[407] +and it was well established before woman came into existence. That it has +not always been very skilfully played is another matter. And, so far as +the man is concerned, it is this very tradition of masculine predominance +which has contributed to the difficulty of playing it skilfully. The woman +admires the male's force; she even wishes herself to be forced to the +things that she altogether desires; and yet she revolts from any exertion +of force outside that narrow circle, either before the boundary of it is +reached or after the boundary is passed. Thus the man's position is really +more difficult than the women who complain of his awkwardness in love are +always ready to admit. He must cultivate force, not only in the world but +even for display in the erotic field; he must be able to divine the +moments when, in love, force is no longer force because his own will is +his partner's will; he must, at the same time, hold himself in complete +restraint lest he should fall into the fatal error of yielding to his own +impulse of domination; and all this at the very moment when his emotions +are least under control. We need scarcely be surprised that of the myriads +who embark on the sea of love, so few women, so very few men, come safely +into port. + +It may still seem to some that in dwelling on the laws that guide the +erotic life, if that life is to be healthy and complete, we have wandered +away from the consideration of the sexual instinct in its relationship to +society. It may therefore be desirable to return to first principles and +to point out that we are still clinging to the fundamental facts of the +personal and social life. Marriage, as we have seen reason to believe, is +a great social institution; procreation, which is, on the public side, its +supreme function, is a great social end. But marriage and procreation are +both based on the erotic life. If the erotic life is not sound, then +marriage is broken up, practically if not always formally, and the process +of procreation is carried out under unfavorable conditions or not at all. + +This social and personal importance of the erotic life, though, under the +influence of a false morality and an equally false modesty, it has +sometimes been allowed to fall into the background in stages of artificial +civilization, has always been clearly realized by those peoples who have +vitally grasped the relationships of life. Among most uncivilized races +there appear to be few or no "sexually frigid" women. It is little to the +credit of our own "civilization" that it should be possible for physicians +to-day to assert, even with the faintest plausibility, that there are some +25 per cent. of women who may thus be described. + +The whole sexual structure of the world is built up on the general fact +that the intimate contact of the male and female who have chosen each +other is mutually pleasurable. Below this general fact is the more +specific fact that in the normal accomplishment of the act of sexual +consummation the two partners experience the acute gratification of +simultaneous orgasm. Herein, it has been said, lies the secret of love. It +is the very basis of love, the condition of the healthy exercise of the +sexual functions, and, in many cases, it seems probable, the condition +also of fertilization. + + Even savages in a very low degree of culture are sometimes + patient and considerate in evoking and waiting for the signs of + sexual desire in their females. (I may refer to the significant + case of the Caroline Islanders, as described by Kubary in his + ethnographic study of that people and quoted in volume iv of + these _Studies_, "Sexual Selection in Man," Sect. III.) In + Catholic days theological influence worked wholesomely in the + same direction, although the theologians were so keen to detect + the mortal sin of lust. It is true that the Catholic insistence + on the desirability of simultaneous orgasm was largely due to the + mistaken notion that to secure conception it was necessary that + there should be "insemination" on the part of the wife as well as + of the husband, but that was not the sole source of the + theological view. Thus Zacchia discusses whether a man ought to + continue with his wife until she has the orgasm and feels + satisfied, and he decides that that is the husband's duty; + otherwise the wife falls into danger either of experiencing the + orgasm during sleep, or, more probably, by self-excitation, "for + many women, when their desires have not been satisfied by coitus, + place one thigh on the other, pressing and rubbing them together + until the orgasm occurs, in the belief that if they abstain from + using the hands they have committed no sin." Some theologians, he + adds, favor that belief, notably Hurtado de Mendoza and Sanchez, + and he further quotes the opinion of the latter that women who + have not been satisfied in coitus are liable to become hysterical + or melancholic (_Zacchiæ Quæstionum Medico-legalium Opus_, lib. + vii, tit. iii, quæst. VI). In the same spirit some theologians + seem to have permitted _irrumatio_ (without ejaculation), so long + as it is only the preliminary to the normal sexual act. + + Nowadays physicians have fully confirmed the belief of Sanchez. + It is well recognized that women in whom, from whatever cause, + acute sexual excitement occurs with frequency without being + followed by the due natural relief of orgasm are liable to + various nervous and congestive symptoms which diminish their + vital effectiveness, and very possibly lead to a breakdown in + health. Kisch has described, as a cardiac neurosis of sexual + origin, a pathological tachycardia which is an exaggeration of + the physiological quick heart of sexual excitement. J. Inglis + Parsons (_British Medical Journal_, Oct. 22, 1904, p. 1062) + refers to the ovarian pain produced by strong unsatisfied sexual + excitement, often in vigorous unmarried women, and sometimes a + cause of great distress. An experienced Austrian gynæcologist + told Hirth (_Wege zur Heimat_, p. 613) that of every hundred + women who come to him with uterine troubles seventy suffered from + congestion of the womb, which he regarded as due to incomplete + coitus. + + It is frequently stated that the evil of incomplete gratification + and absence of orgasm in women is chiefly due to male withdrawal, + that is to say _coitus interruptus_, in which the penis is + hastily withdrawn as soon as involuntary ejaculation is + impending; and it is sometimes said that the same widely + prevalent practice is also productive of slight or serious + results in the male (see, e.g., L.B. Bangs, _Transactions New + York Academy of Medicine_, vol. ix, 1893; D.S. Booth, "Coitus + Interruptus and Coitus Reservatus as Causes of Profound Neurosis + and Psychosis," _Alienist and Neurologist_, Nov., 1906; also, + _Alienist and Neurologist_, Oct., 1897, p. 588). + + It is undoubtedly true that coitus interruptus, since it involves + sudden withdrawal on the part of the man without reference to the + stage of sexual excitation which his partner may have reached, + cannot fail to produce frequently an injurious nervous effect on + the woman, though the injurious effect on the man, who obtains + ejaculation, is little or none. But the practice is so widespread + that it cannot be regarded as necessarily involving this evil + result. There can, I am assured, be no doubt whatever that + Blumreich is justified in his statement (Senator and Kaminer, + _Health and Disease in Relation to Marriage_, vol. ii, p. 783) + that "interrupted coitus is injurious to the genital system of + those women only who are disturbed in their sensation of delight + by this form of cohabitation, in whom the orgasm is not produced, + and who continue for hours subsequently to be tormented by + feelings of an unsatisfied desire." Equally injurious effects + follow in normal coitus when the man's orgasm occurs too soon. + "These phenomena, therefore," he concludes, "are not + characteristic of interrupted coitus, but consequences of an + imperfectly concluded sexual cohabitation as such." Kisch, + likewise, in his elaborate and authoritative work on _The Sexual + Life of Woman_, also states that the question of the evil results + of _coitus interruptus_ in women is simply a question of whether + or not they receive sexual satisfaction. (Cf. also Fürbringer, + _Health and Disease in Relation to Marriage_, vol. i, pp. 232 _et + seq._) This is clearly the most reasonable view to take + concerning what is the simplest, the most widespread, and + certainly the most ancient of the methods of preventing + conception. In the Book of Genesis we find it practiced by Onan, + and to come down to modern times, in the sixteenth century it + seems to have been familiar to French ladies, who, according to + Brantôme, enjoined it on their lovers. + + Coitus reservatus,--in which intercourse is maintained even for + very long periods, during which the woman may have orgasm several + times while the man succeeds in holding back orgasm,--so far from + being injurious to the woman, is probably the form of coitus + which gives her the maximum of gratification and relief. For most + men, however, it seems probable that this self-control over the + processes leading to the involuntary act of detumescence is + difficult to acquire, while in weak, nervous, and erethic persons + it is impossible. It is, however, a desirable condition for + completely adequate coitus, and in the East this is fully + recognized, and the aptitude carefully cultivated. Thus W.D. + Sutherland states ("Einiges über das Alltagsleben und die + Volksmedizin unter den Bauern Britischostindiens," _Münchener + Medizinische Wochenschrift_, No. 12, 1906) that the Hindu smokes + and talks during intercourse in order to delay orgasm, and + sometimes applies an opium paste to the glans of the penis for + the same purpose. (See also vol. iii of these _Studies_, "The + Sexual Impulse in Women.") Some authorities have, indeed, stated + that the prolongation of the act of coitus is injurious in its + effect on the male. Thus R.W. Taylor (_Practical Treatise on + Sexual Disorders_, third ed., p. 121) states that it tends to + cause atonic impotence, and Löwenfeld (_Sexualleben und + Nervenleiden_, p. 74) thinks that the swift and unimpeded + culmination of the sexual act is necessary in order to preserve + the vigor of the reflex reactions. This is probably true of + extreme and often repeated cases of indefinite prolongation of + pronounced erection without detumescence, but it is not true + within fairly wide limits in the case of healthy persons. + Prolonged _coitus reservatus_ was a practice of the complex + marriage system of the Oneida community, and I was assured by the + late Noyes Miller, who had spent the greater part of his life in + the community, that the practice had no sort of evil result. + _Coitus reservatus_ was erected into a principle in the Oneida + community. Every man in the community was theoretically the + husband of every woman, but every man was not free to have + children with every woman. Sexual initiation took place soon + after puberty in the case of boys, some years later in the case + of girls, by a much older person of the opposite sex. In + intercourse the male inserted his penis into the vagina and + retained it there for even an hour without emission, though + orgasm took place in the woman. There was usually no emission in + the case of the man, even after withdrawal, and he felt no need + of emission. The social feeling of the community was a force on + the side of this practice, the careless, unskilful men being + avoided by women, while the general romantic sentiment of + affection for all the women in the community was also a force. + Masturbation was unknown, and no irregular relations took place + with persons outside the community. The practice was maintained + for thirty years, and was finally abandoned, not on its demerits, + but in deference to the opinions of the outside world. Mr. Miller + admitted that the practice became more difficult in ordinary + marriage, which favors a more mechanical habit of intercourse. + The information received from Mr. Miller is supplemented in a + pamphlet entitled _Male Continence_ (the name given to _coitus + reservatus_ in the community), written in 1872 by the founder, + John Humphrey Noyes. The practice is based, he says, on the fact + that sexual intercourse consists of two acts, a social and a + propagative, and that if propagation is to be scientific there + must be no confusion of these two acts, and procreation must + never be involuntary. It was in 1844, he states, that this idea + occurred to him as a result of a resolve to abstain from sexual + intercourse in consequence of his wife's delicate health and + inability to bear healthy children, and in his own case he found + the practice "a great deliverance. It made a happy household." He + points out that the chief members of the Oneida community + "belonged to the most respectable families in Vermont, had been + educated in the best schools of New England morality and + refinement, and were, by the ordinary standards, irreproachable + in their conduct so far as sexual matters are concerned, till + they deliberately commenced, in 1846, the experiment of a new + state of society, on principles which they had been long maturing + and were prepared to defend before the World." In relation to + male continence, therefore, Noyes thought the community might + fairly be considered "the Committee of Providence to test its + value in actual life." He states that a careful medical + comparison of the statistics of the community had shown that the + rate of nervous disease in the community was considerably below + the average outside, and that only two cases of nervous disorder + had occurred which could be traced with any probability to a + misuse of male continence. This has been confirmed by Van de + Warker, who studied forty-two women of the community without + finding any undue prevalence of reproductive diseases, nor could + he find any diseased condition attributable to the sexual habits + of the community (cf. C. Reed, _Text-Book of Gynecology_, 1901, + p. 9). + + Noyes believed that "male continence" had never previously been a + definitely recognized practice based on theory, though there + might have been occasional approximation to it. This is probably + true if the coitus is _reservatus_ in the full sense, with + complete absence of emission. Prolonged coitus, however, + permitting the woman to have orgasm more than once, while the man + has none, has long been recognized. Thus in the seventeenth + century Zacchia discussed whether such a practice is legitimate + (_Zacchiæ Quæstionum Opus_, ed. of 1688, lib. vii, tit. iii, + quæst. VI). In modern times it is occasionally practiced, without + any theory, and is always appreciated by the woman, while it + appears to have no bad effect on the man. In such a case it will + happen that the act of coitus may last for an hour and a quarter + or even longer, the maximum of the woman's pleasure not being + reached until three-quarters of an hour have passed; during this + period the woman will experience orgasm some four or five times, + the man only at the end. It may occasionally happen that a little + later the woman again experiences desire, and intercourse begins + afresh in the same way. But after that she is satisfied, and + there is no recurrence of desire. + + It may be desirable at this point to refer briefly to the chief + variations in the method of effecting coitus in their + relationship to the art of love and the attainment of adequate + and satisfying detumescence. + + The primary and essential characteristic of the specifically + human method of coitus is the fact that it takes place face to + face. The fact that in what is usually considered the typically + normal method of coitus the woman lies supine and the man above + her is secondary. Psychically, this front-to-front attitude + represents a great advance over the quadrupedal method. The two + partners reveal to each other the most important, the most + beautiful, the most expressive sides of themselves, and thus + multiply the mutual pleasure and harmony of the intimate act of + union. Moreover, this face-to-face attitude possesses a great + significance, in the fact that it is the outward sign that the + human couple has outgrown the animal sexual attitude of the + hunter seizing his prey in the act of flight, and content to + enjoy it in that attitude, from behind. The human male may be + said to retain the same attitude, but the female has turned + round; she has faced her partner and approached him, and so + symbolizes her deliberate consent to the act of union. + + The human variations in the exercise of coitus, both individual + and national, are, however, extremely numerous. "To be quite + frank," says Fürbringer (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease + in Relation to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 213), "I can hardly think of + any combination which does not figure among my case-notes as + having been practiced by my patients." We must not too hastily + conclude that such variations are due to vicious training. That + is far from being the case. They often occur naturally and + spontaneously. Freud has properly pointed out (in the second + series of his _Beiträge zur Neurosenlehre_, "Bruchstück" etc.) + that we must not be too shocked even when the idea of _fellatio_ + spontaneously presents itself to a woman, for that idea has a + harmless origin in the resemblance between the penis and the + nipple. Similarly, it may be added, the desire for + _cunnilinctus_, which seems to be much more often latently + present in women than is the desire for its performance in men, + has a natural analogy in the pleasure of suckling, a pleasure + which is itself indeed often erotically tinged (see vol. iv of + these _Studies_, "Sexual Selection in Man," Touch, Sect. III). + + Every variation in this matter, remarks Remy de Gourmont + (_Physique de l'Amour_, p. 264) partakes of the sin of luxury, + and some of the theologians have indeed considered any position + in coitus but that which is usually called normal in Europe as a + mortal sin. Other theologians, however, regarded such variations + as only venial sins, provided ejaculation took place in the + vagina, just as some theologians would permit _irrumatio_ as a + preliminary to coitus, provided there was no ejaculation. Aquinas + took a serious view of the deviations from normal intercourse; + Sanchez was more indulgent, especially in view of his doctrine, + derived from the Greek and Arabic natural philosophers, that the + womb can attract the sperm, so that the natural end may be + attained even in unusual positions. + + Whatever difference of opinion there may have been among ancient + theologians, it is well recognized by modern physicians that + variations from the ordinary method of coitus are desirable in + special cases. Thus Kisch points out (_Sterilität des Weibes_, p. + 107) that in some cases it is only possible for the woman to + experience sexual excitement when coitus takes place in the + lateral position, or in the _a posteriori_ position, or when the + usual position is reversed; and in his _Sexual Life of Woman_, + also, Kisch recommends several variations of position for coitus. + Adler points out (op. cit., pp. 151, 186) the value of the same + positions in some cases, and remarks that such variations often + call forth latent sexual feelings as by a charm. Such cases are + indeed, by no means infrequent, the advantage of the unusual + position being due either to physical or psychic causes, and the + discovery of the right variation is sometimes found in a merely + playful attempt. It has occasionally happened, also, that when + intercourse has habitually taken place in an abnormal position, + no satisfaction is experienced by the woman until the normal + position is adopted. The only fairly common variation of coitus + which meets with unqualified disapproval is that in the erect + posture. (See e.g., Hammond, op. cit. pp. 257 et seq.) + + Lucretius specially recommended the quadrupedal variation of + coitus (Bk. iv, 1258), and Ovid describes (end of Bk. iii of the + _Ars Amatoria_) what he regards as agreeable variations, giving + the preference, as the easiest and simplest method, to that in + which the woman lies half supine on her side. Perhaps, however, + the variation which is nearest to the normal attitude and which + has most often and most completely commended itself is that + apparently known to Arabic erotic writers as _dok el arz_, in + which the man is seated and his partner is astride his thighs, + embracing his body with her legs and his neck with her arms, + while he embraces her waist; this is stated in the Arabic + _Perfumed Garden_ to be the method preferred by most women. + + The other most usual variation is the inverse normal position in + which the man is supine, and the woman adapts herself to this + position, which permits of several modifications obviously + advantageous, especially when the man is much larger than his + partner. The Christian as well as the Mahommedan theologians + appear, indeed, to have been generally opposed to this superior + position of the female, apparently, it would seem, because they + regarded the literal subjection of the male which it involves as + symbolic of a moral subjection. The testimony of many people + to-day, however, is decidedly in favor of this position, more + especially as regards the woman, since it enables her to obtain a + better adjustment and greater control of the process, and so + frequently to secure sexual satisfaction which she may find + difficult or impossible in the normal position. + + The theologians seem to have been less unfavorably disposed to + the position normal among quadrupeds, _a posteriori_, though the + old Penitentials were inclined to treat it severely, the + Penitential of Angers prescribing forty days penance, and + Egbert's three years, if practiced habitually. (It is discussed + by J. Petermann, "Venus Aversa," _Sexual-Probleme_, Feb., 1909). + There are good reasons why in many cases this position should be + desirable, more especially from the point of view of women, who + indeed not infrequently prefer it. It must be always remembered, + as has already been pointed out, that in the progress from + anthropoid to man it is the female, not the male, whose method of + coitus has been revolutionized. While, however, the obverse human + position represents a psychic advance, there has never been a + complete physical readjustment of the female organs to the + obverse method. More especially, in Adler's opinion (op. cit., + pp. 117-119), the position of the clitoris is such that, as a + rule, it is more easily excited by coitus from behind than from + in front. A more recent writer, Klotz, in his book, _Der Mensch + ein Vierfüssler_ (1908), even takes the too extreme position that + the quadrupedal method of coitus, being the only method that + insures due contact with the clitoris, is the natural human + method. It must, however, be admitted that the posterior mode of + coitus is not only a widespread, but a very important variation, + in either of its two most important forms: the Pompeiian method, + in which the woman bends forwards and the man approaches behind, + or the method described by Boccaccio, in which the man is supine + and the woman astride. + + _Fellatio_ and _cunnilinctus_, while they are not strictly + methods of coitus, in so far as they do not involve the + penetration of the penis into the vagina, are very widespread as + preliminaries, or as vicarious forms of coitus, alike among + civilized and uncivilized peoples. Thus, in India, I am told that + _fellatio_ is almost universal in households, and regarded as a + natural duty towards the paterfamilias. As regards _cunnilinctus_ + Max Dessoir has stated (_Allgemeine Zeitschrift für Psychiatrie_, + 1894, Heft 5) that the superior Berlin prostitutes say that about + a quarter of their clients desire to exercise this, and that in + France and Italy the proportion is higher; the number of women + who find _cunnilinctus_ agreeable is without doubt much greater. + Intercourse _per anum_ must also be regarded as a vicarious form + of coitus. It appears to be not uncommon, especially among the + lower social classes, and while most often due to the wish to + avoid conception, it is also sometimes practiced as a sexual + aberration, at the wish either of the man or the woman, the anus + being to some extent an erogenous zone. + + The ethnic variations in method of coitus were briefly discussed + in volume v of these _Studies_, "The Mechanism of Detumescence," + Section II. In all civilized countries, from the earliest times, + writers on the erotic art have formally and systematically set + forth the different positions for coitus. The earliest writing of + this kind now extant seems to be an Egyptian papyrus preserved at + Turin of the date B.C. 1300; in this, fourteen different + positions are represented. The Indians, according to Iwan Bloch, + recognize altogether forty-eight different positions; the _Ananga + Ranga_ describes thirty-two main forms. The Mohammedan _Perfumed + Garden_ describes forty forms, as well as six different kinds of + movement during coitus. The Eastern books of this kind are, on + the whole, superior to those that have been produced by the + Western world, not only by their greater thoroughness, but by the + higher spirit by which they have often been inspired. + + The ancient Greek erotic writings, now all lost, in which the + modes of coitus were described, were nearly all attributed to + women. According to a legend recorded by Suidas, the earliest + writer of this kind was Astyanassa, the maid of Helen of Troy. + Elephantis, the poetess, is supposed to have enumerated nine + different postures. Numerous women of later date wrote on these + subjects, and one book is attributed to Polycrates, the sophist. + + Aretino--who wrote after the influence of Christianity had + degraded erotic matters perilously near to that region of + pornography from which they are only to-day beginning to be + rescued--in his _Sonnetti Lussuriosi_ described twenty-six + different methods of coitus, each one accompanied by an + illustrative design by Giulio Romano, the chief among Raphael's + pupils. Veniero, in his _Puttana Errante_, described thirty-two + positions. More recently Forberg, the chief modern authority, has + enumerated ninety positions, but, it is said, only forty-eight + can, even on the most liberal estimate, be regarded as coming + within the range of normal variation. + + The disgrace which has overtaken the sexual act, and rendered it + a deed of darkness, is doubtless largely responsible for the fact + that the chief time for its consummation among modern civilized + peoples is the darkness of the early night in stuffy bedrooms + when the fatigue of the day's labors is struggling with the + artificial stimulation produced by heavy meals and alcoholic + drinks. This habit is partly responsible for the indifference or + even disgust with which women sometimes view coitus. + + Many more primitive peoples are wiser. The New Guinea Papuans of + Astrolabe Bay, according to Vahness (_Zeitschrift für + Ethnologie_, 1900, Heft 5, p. 414), though it must be remembered + that the association of the sexual act with darkness is much + older than Christianity, and connected with early religious + notions (cf. Hesiod, _Works and Days_, Bk. II), always have + sexual intercourse in the open air. The hard-working women of the + Gebvuka and Buru Islands, again, are too tired for coitus at + night; it is carried out in the day time under the trees, and the + Serang Islanders also have coitus in the woods (Ploss and + Bartels, Das _Weib_, Bk. i, Ch. XVII). + + It is obviously impracticable to follow these examples in modern + cities, even if avocation and climate permitted. It is also + agreed that sexual intercourse should be followed by repose. + There seems to be little doubt, however, that the early morning + and the daylight are a more favorable time than the early night. + Conception should take place in the light, said Michelet + (_L'Amour_, p. 153); sexual intercourse in the darkness of night + is an act committed with a mere female animal; in the day-time it + is union with a loving and beloved individual person. + + This has been widely recognized. The Greeks, as we gather from + Aristophanes in the _Archarnians_, regarded sunrise as the + appropriate time for coitus. The South Slavs also say that dawn + is the time for coitus. Many modern authorities have urged the + advantages of early morning coitus. Morning, said Roubaud + (_Traité de l'Impuissance_, pp. 151-3) is the time for coitus, + and even if desire is greater in the evening, pleasure is greater + in the morning. Osiander also advised early morning coitus, and + Venette, in an earlier century, discussing "at what hour a man + should amorously embrace his wife" (_La Génération de l'Homme_, + Part II, Ch. V), while thinking it is best to follow inclination, + remarks that "a beautiful woman looks better by sunlight than by + candlelight." A few authorities, like Burdach, have been content + to accept the custom of night coitus, and Busch (_Das + Geschlechtsleben des Weibes_, vol. i, p. 214) was inclined to + think the darkness of night the most "natural" time, while + Fürbringer (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation + to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 217) thinks that early morning is + "occasionally" the best time. + + To some, on the other hand, the exercise of sexual intercourse in + the sunlight and the open air seems so important that they are + inclined to elevate it to the rank of a religious exercise. I + quote from a communication on this point received from Australia: + "This shameful thing that must not be spoken of or done (except + in the dark) will some day, I believe, become the one religious + ceremony of the human race, in the spring. (Oh, what springs!) + People will have become very sane, well-bred, aristocratic (all + of them aristocrats), and on the whole opposed to rites and + superstitions, for they will have a perfect knowledge of the + past. The coition of lovers in the springtime will be the one + religious ceremony they will allow themselves. I have a vision + sometimes of the holy scene, but I am afraid it is too beautiful + to describe. 'The intercourse of the sexes, I have dreamed, is + ineffably beautiful, too fair to be remembered,' wrote the chaste + Thoreau. Verily human beauty, joy, and love will reach their + divinest height during those inaugural days of springtide + coupling. When the world is one Paradise, the consummation of the + lovers, the youngest and most beautiful, will take place in + certain sacred valleys in sight of thousands assembled to witness + it. For days it will take place in these valleys where the sun + will rise on a dream of passionate voices, of clinging human + forms, of flowers and waters, and the purple and gold of the + sunrise are reflected on hills illumined with pansies. [I know + not if the writer recalled George Chapman's "Enamelled pansies + used at nuptials still"], and repeated on golden human flesh and + human hair. In these sacred valleys the subtle perfume of the + pansies will mingle with the divine fragrance of healthy naked + young women and men in the spring coupling. You and I shall not + see that, but we may help to make it possible." This rhapsody (an + unconscious repetition of Saint-Lambert's at Mlle. Quinault's + table in the eighteenth century) serves to illustrate the revolt + which tends to take place against the unnatural and artificial + degradation of the sexual act. + + In some parts of the world it has seemed perfectly natural and + reasonable that so great and significant an act as that of coitus + should be consecrated to the divinity, and hence arose the custom + of prayer before sexual intercourse. Thus Zoroaster ordained that + a married couple should pray before coitus, and after the act + they should say together: "O, Sapondomad, I trust this seed to + thee, preserve it for me, for it is a man." In the Gorong + Archipelago it is customary also for husband and wife to pray + together before the sexual act (Ploss and Bartels, _Das Weib_, + Bd. i, Ch. XVII). The civilized man, however, has come to regard + his stomach as the most important of his organs, and he utters + his conventional grace, not before love, but only before food. + Even the degraded ritual vestiges of the religious recognition of + coitus are difficult to find in Europe. We may perhaps detect it + among the Spaniards, with their tenacious instinct for ritual, in + the solemn etiquette with which, in the seventeenth century, it + was customary, according to Madame d'Aulnoy, for the King to + enter the bedchamber of the Queen: "He has on his slippers, his + black mantle over his shoulder, his shield on one arm, a bottle + hanging by a cord over the other arm (this bottle is not to drink + from, but for a quite opposite purpose, which you will guess). + With all this the King must also have his great sword in one hand + and a dark lantern in the other. In this way he must enter, + alone, the Queen's chamber" (Madame d'Aulnoy, _Relation du Voyage + d'Espagne_, 1692, vol. iii, p. 221). + +In discussing the art of love it is necessary to give a primary place to +the central fact of coitus, on account of the ignorance that widely +prevails concerning it, and the unfortunate prejudices which in their +fungous broods flourish in the noisome obscurity around it. The traditions +of the Christian Church, which overspread the whole of Europe, and set up +for worship a Divine Virgin and her Divine Son, both of whom it +elaborately disengaged from personal contact with sexuality effectually +crushed any attempt to find a sacred and avowable ideal in married love. +Even the Church's own efforts to elevate matrimony were negatived by its +own ideals. That influence depresses our civilization even to-day. When +Walt Whitman wrote his "Children of Adam" he was giving imperfect +expression to conceptions of the religious nature of sexual love which +have existed wholesomely and naturally in all parts of the world, but had +not yet penetrated the darkness of Christendom where they still seemed +strange and new, if not terrible. And the refusal to recognize the +solemnity of sex had involved the placing of a pall of blackness and +disrepute on the supreme sexual act itself. It was shut out from the +sunshine and excluded from the sphere of worship. + +The sexual act is important from the point of view of erotic art, not only +from the ignorance and prejudices which surround it, but also because it +has a real value even in regard to the psychic side of married life. +"These organs," according to the oft-quoted saying of the old French +physician, Ambrose Paré, "make peace in the household." How this comes +about we see illustrated from time to time in Pepys's Diary. At the same +time, it is scarcely necessary to say, after all that has gone before, +that this ancient source of domestic peace tends to be indefinitely +complicated by the infinite variety in erotic needs, which become ever +more pronounced with the growth of civilization.[408] + +The art of love is, indeed, only beginning with the establishment of +sexual intercourse. In the adjustment of that relationship all the forces +of nature are so strongly engaged that under completely favorable +conditions--which indeed very rarely occur in our civilization--the +knowledge of the art and a possible skill in its exercise come almost of +themselves. The real test of the artist in love is in the skill to carry +it beyond the period when the interests of nature, having been really or +seemingly secured, begin to slacken. The whole art of love, it has been +well said, lies in forever finding something new in the same person. The +art of love is even more the art of retaining love than of arousing it. +Otherwise it tends to degenerate towards the Shakespearian lust, + + "Past reason hunted, and no sooner had, + Past reason hated," + +though it must be remembered that even from the most strictly natural +point of view the transitions of passion are not normally towards +repulsion but towards affection.[409] + +The young man and woman who are brought into the complete unrestraint of +marriage after a prolonged and unnatural separation, during which desire +and the satisfactions of desire have been artificially disconnected, are +certainly not under the best conditions for learning the art of love. They +are tempted by reckless and promiscuous indulgence in the intimacies of +marriage to fling carelessly aside all the reasons that make that art +worth learning. "There are married people," as Ellen Key remarks, "who +might have loved each other all their lives if they had not been +compelled, every day and all the year, to direct their habits, wills, and +inclinations towards each other." + +All the tendencies of our civilized life are, in personal matters, towards +individualism; they involve the specialization, and they ensure the +sacredness, of personal habits and even peculiarities. This individualism +cannot be broken down suddenly at the arbitrary dictation of a tradition, +or even by the force of passion from which the restraints have been +removed. Out of deference to the conventions and prejudices of their +friends, or out of the reckless abandonment of young love, or merely out +of a fear of hurting each other's feelings, young couples have often +plunged prematurely into an unbroken intimacy which is even more +disastrous to the permanency of marriage than the failure ever to reach a +complete intimacy at all. That is one of the chief reasons why most +writers on the moral hygiene of marriage nowadays recommend separate beds +for the married couple, if possible separate bedrooms, and even sometimes, +with Ellen Key, see no objection to their living in separate houses. +Certainly the happiest marriages have often involved the closest and most +unbroken intimacy, in persons peculiarly fitted for such intimacy. It is +far from true that, as Bloch has affirmed, familiarity is fatal to love. +It is deadly to a love that has no roots, but it is the nourishment of the +deeply-rooted love. Yet it remains true that absence is needed to maintain +the keen freshness and fine idealism of love. "Absence," as Landor said, +"is the invisible and incorporeal mother of ideal beauty." The married +lovers who are only able to meet for comparatively brief periods between +long absences have often experienced in these meetings a life-long +succession of honeymoons.[410] + +There can be no question that as presence has its risks for love, so also +has absence. Absence like presence, in the end, if too prolonged, effaces +the memory of love, and absence, further, by the multiplied points of +contact with the world which it frequently involves, introduces the +problem of jealousy, although, it must be added, it is difficult indeed to +secure a degree of association which excludes jealousy or even the +opportunities for motives of jealousy. The problem of jealousy is so +fundamental in the art of love that it is necessary at this point to +devote to it a brief discussion. + +Jealousy is based on fundamental instincts which are visible at the +beginning of animal life. Descartes defined jealousy as "a kind of fear +related to a desire to preserve a possession." Every impulse of +acquisition in the animal world is stimulated into greater activity by the +presence of a rival who may snatch beforehand the coveted object. This +seems to be a fundamental fact in the animal world; it has been a +life-conserving tendency, for, it has been said, an animal that stood +aside while its fellows were gorging themselves with food, and experienced +nothing but pure satisfaction in the spectacle, would speedily perish. But +in this fact we have the natural basis of jealousy.[411] + +It is in reference to food that this impulse appears first and most +conspicuously among animals. It is a well-known fact that association +with other animals induces an animal to eat much more than when kept by +himself. He ceases to eat from hunger but eats, as it has been put, in +order to preserve his food from rivals in the only strong box he knows. +The same feeling is transferred among animals to the field of sex. And +further in the relations of dogs and other domesticated animals to their +masters the emotion of jealousy is often very keenly marked.[412] + +Jealousy is an emotion which is at its maximum among animals, among +savages,[413] among children,[414] in the senile, in the degenerate, and +very specially in chronic alcoholics.[415] It is worthy of note that the +supreme artists and masters of the human heart who have most consummately +represented the tragedy of jealousy clearly recognized that it is either +atavistic or pathological; Shakespeare made his Othello a barbarian, and +Tolstoy made the Pozdnischeff of his _Kreutzer Sonata_ a lunatic. It is an +anti-social emotion, though it has been maintained by some that it has +been the cause of chastity and fidelity. Gesell, for instance, while +admitting its anti-social character and accumulating quotations in +evidence of the torture and disaster it occasions, seems to think that it +still ought to be encouraged in order to foster sexual virtues. Very +decided opinions have been expressed in the opposite sense. Jealousy, like +other shadows, says Ellen Key, belongs only to the dawn and the setting of +love, and a man should feel that it is a miracle, and not his right, if +the sun stands still at the zenith.[416] + +Even therefore if jealousy has been a beneficial influence at the +beginning of civilization, as well as among animals,--as may probably be +admitted, though on the whole it seems rather to be the by-product of a +beneficial influence than such an influence itself,--it is still by no +means clear that it therefore becomes a desirable emotion in more advanced +stages of civilization. There are many primitive emotions, like anger and +fear, which we do not think it desirable to encourage in complex civilized +societies but rather seek to restrain and control, and even if we are +inclined to attribute an original value to jealousy, it seems to be among +these emotions that it ought to be placed. + + Miss Clapperton, in discussing this problem (_Scientific + Meliorism_, pp. 129-137), follows Darwin (_Descent of Man_, Part + I, Ch. IV) in thinking that jealousy led to "the inculcation of + female virtue," but she adds that it has also been a cause of + woman's subjection, and now needs to be eliminated. "To rid + ourselves as rapidly as may be of jealousy is essential; + otherwise the great movement in favor of equality of sex will + necessarily meet with checks and grave obstruction." + + Ribot (_La Logique des Sentiments_, pp. 75 et seq.; _Essai sur + les Passions_, pp. 91, 175), while stating that subjectively the + estimate of jealousy must differ in accordance with the ideal of + life held, considers that objectively we must incline to an + unfavorable estimate "Even a brief passion is a rupture in the + normal life; it is an abnormal, if not a pathological state, an + excrescence, a parasitism." + + Forel (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, Ch. V) speaks very strongly in the + same sense, and considers that it is necessary to eliminate + jealousy by non-procreation of the jealous. Jealousy is, he + declares, "the worst and unfortunately the most deeply-rooted of + the 'irradiations,' or, better, the 'contrast-reactions,' of + sexual love inherited from our animal ancestors. An old German + saying, 'Eifersucht ist eine Leidenschaft die mit Eifer sucht was + Leider schafft,' says by no means too much.... Jealousy is a + heritage of animality and barbarism; I would recall this to those + who, under the name of 'injured honor,' attempt to justify it and + place it on a high pedestal. An unfaithful husband is ten times + more to be wished for a woman than a jealous husband.... We often + hear of 'justifiable jealousy.' I believe, however, that there is + no justifiable jealousy; it is always atavistic or else + pathological; at the best it is nothing more than a brutal + animal stupidity. A man who, by nature, that is by his hereditary + constitution, is jealous is certain to poison his own life and + that of his wife. Such men ought on no account to marry. Both + education and selection should work together to eliminate + jealousy as far as possible from the human brain." + + Eric Gillard in an article on "Jealousy" (_Free Review_, Sept., + 1896), in opposition to those who believe that jealousy "makes + the home," declares that, on the contrary, it is the chief force + that unmakes the home. "So long as egotism waters it with the + tears of sentiment and shields it from the cold blasts of + scientific inquiry, so long will it thrive. But the time will + come when it will be burned in the Garden of Love as a noxious + weed. Its mephitic influence in society is too palpable to be + overlooked. It turns homes that might be sanctuaries of love into + hells of discord and hate; it causes suicides, and it drives + thousands to drink, reckless excesses, and madness. Makes the + home! One of your married men friends sees a probable seducer in + every man who smiles at his wife; another is jealous of his + wife's women acquaintances; a third is wounded because his wife + shows so much attention to the children. Some of the women you + know display jealousy of every other woman, of their husband's + acquaintances, and some, of his very dog. You must be completely + monopolized or you do not thoroughly love. You must admire no one + but the person with whom you have immured yourself for life. Old + friendships must be dissolved, new friendships must not be + formed, for fear of invoking the beautiful emotion that 'makes + the home.'" + +Even if jealousy in matters of sex could be admitted to be an emotion +working on the side of civilized progress, it must still be pointed out +that it merely acts externally; it can have little or no real influence; +the jealous person seldom makes himself more lovable by his jealousy and +frequently much less lovable. The main effect of his jealousy is to +increase, and not seldom to excite, the causes for jealousy, and at the +same time to encourage hypocrisy. + + All the circumstances, accompaniments, and results of domestic + jealousy in their completely typical form, are well illustrated + by a very serious episode in the history of the Pepys household, + and have been fully and faithfully set down by the great diarist. + The offence--an embrace of his wife's lady-help, as she might now + be termed--was a slight one, but, as Pepys himself admits, quite + inexcusable. He is writing, being in his thirty-sixth year, on + the 25th of Oct., 1668 (Lord's Day). "After supper, to have my + hair combed by Deb, which occasioned the greatest sorrow to me + that ever I knew in this world, for my wife, coming up suddenly, + did find me embracing the girl.... I was at a wonderful loss upon + it, and the girl also, and I endeavored to put it off, but my + wife was struck mute and grew angry.... Heartily afflicted for + this folly of mine.... So ends this month," he writes a few days + later, "with some quiet to my mind, though not perfect, after the + greatest falling out with my poor wife, and through my folly with + the girl, that ever I had, and I have reason to be sorry and + ashamed of it, and more to be troubled for the poor girl's sake. + Sixth November. Up, and presently my wife up with me, which she + professedly now do every day to dress me, that I may not see + Willet [Deb], and do eye me, whether I cast my eye upon her, or + no, and do keep me from going into the room where she is. Ninth + November. Up, and I did, by a little note which I flung to Deb, + advise her that I did continue to deny that ever I kissed her, + and so she might govern herself. The truth is that I did + adventure upon God's pardoning me this lie, knowing how heavy a + thing it would be for me, to the ruin of the poor girl, and next + knowing that if my wife should know all it would be impossible + for her ever to be at peace with me again, and so our whole lives + would be uncomfortable. The girl read, and as I bid her returned + me the note, flinging it to me in passing by." Next day, however, + he is "mightily troubled," for his wife has obtained a confession + from the girl of the kissing. For some nights Mr. and Mrs. Pepys + are both sleepless, with much weeping on either side. Deb gets + another place, leaving on the 14th of November, and Pepys is + never able to see her before she leaves the house, his wife + keeping him always under her eye. It is evident that Pepys now + feels strongly attracted to Deb, though there is no evidence of + this before she became the subject of the quarrel. On the 13th of + November, hearing she was to leave next day, he writes: "The + truth is I have a good mind to have the maidenhead of this girl." + He was, however, the "more troubled to see how my wife is by this + means likely forever to have her hand over me, and that I shall + forever be a slave to her--that is to say, only in matters of + pleasure." At the same time his love for his wife was by no means + diminished, nor hers for him. "I must here remark," he says, + "that I have lain with my moher [i.e., _muger_, wife] as a + husband more times since this falling out than in, I believe, + twelve months before. And with more pleasure to her than in all + the time of our marriage before." The next day was Sunday. On + Monday Pepys at once begins to make inquiries which will put him + on the track of Deb. On the 18th he finds her. She gets up into + the coach with him, and he kisses her and takes liberties with + her, at the same time advising her "to have a care of her honor + and to fear God," allowing no one else to do what he has done; he + also tells her how she can find him if she desires. Pepys now + feels that everything is settled satisfactorily, and his heart + is full of joy. But his joy is short-lived, for Mrs. Pepys + discovers this interview with Deb on the following day. Pepys + denies it at first, then confesses, and there is a more furious + scene than ever. Pepys is now really alarmed, for his wife + threatens to leave him; he definitely abandons Deb, and with + prayers to God resolves never to do the like again. Mrs. Pepys is + not satisfied, however, till she makes her husband write a letter + to Deb, telling her that she is little better than a whore, and + that he hates her, though Deb is spared this, not by any + stratagem of Pepys, but by the considerateness of the friend to + whom the letter was entrusted for delivery. Moreover, Mrs. Pepys + arranges with her husband that, in future, whenever he goes + abroad he shall be accompanied everywhere by his clerk. We see + that Mrs. Pepys plays with what appears to be triumphant skill + and success the part of the jealous and avenging wife, and digs + her little French heels remorselessly into her prostrate husband + and her rival. Unfortunately, we do not know what the final + outcome was, for a little later, owing to trouble with his + eyesight, Pepys was compelled to bring his Diary to an end. It is + evident, however, when we survey the whole of this perhaps + typical episode, that neither husband nor wife were in the + slightest degree prepared for the commonplace position into which + they were thrown; that each of them appears in a painful, + undignified, and humiliating light; that as a result of it the + husband acquires almost a genuine and strong affection for the + girl who is the cause of the quarrel; and finally that, even + though he is compelled, for the time at all events, to yield to + his wife, he remains at the end exactly what he was at the + beginning. Nor had husband or wife the very slightest wish to + leave each other; the bond of marriage remained firm, but it had + been degraded by insincerity on one side and the jealous endeavor + on the other to secure fidelity by compulsion. + +Apart altogether, however, from the question of its effectiveness, or even +of the misery that it causes to all concerned, it is evident that jealousy +is incompatible with all the tendencies of civilization. We have seen that +a certain degree of variation is involved in the sexual relationship, as +in all other relationships, and unless we are to continue to perpetuate +many evils and injustices, that fact has to be faced and recognized. We +have also seen that the line of our advance involves a constant increase +in moral responsibility and self-government, and that, in its turn, +implies not only a high degree of sincerity but also the recognition that +no person has any right, or indeed any power, to control the emotions and +actions of another person. If our sun of love stands still at midday, +according to Ellen Key's phrase, that is a miracle to be greeted with awe +and gratitude, and by no means a right to be demanded. The claim of +jealousy falls with the claim of conjugal rights. + + It is quite possible, Bloch remarks (_The Sexual Life of Our + Time_, Ch. X), to love more than one person at the same time, + with nearly equal tenderness, and to be honestly able to assure + each of the passion felt for her or him. Bloch adds that the vast + psychic differentiation involved by modern civilization increases + the possibility of this double love, for it is difficult for + anyone to find his complement in a single person, and that this + applies to women as well as to men. + + Georg Hirth likewise points out (_Wege zur Heimat_, pp. 543-552) + that it is important to remember that women, as well as men, can + love two persons at the same time. Men flatter themselves, he + remarks, with the prejudice that the female heart, or rather + brain, can only hold one man at a time, and that if there is a + second man it is by a kind of prostitution. Nearly all erotic + writers, poets, and novelists, even physicians and psychologists, + belong to this class, he says; they look on a woman as property, + and of course two men cannot "possess" a woman. (Regarding + novelists, however, the remark may be interpolated that there are + many exceptions, and Thomas Hardy, for instance, frequently + represents a woman as more or less in love with two men at the + same time.) As against this desire to depreciate women's psychic + capacity, Hirth maintains that a woman is not necessarily obliged + to be untrue to one man because she has conceived a passion for + another man. "Today," Hirth truly declares, "only love and + justice can count as honorable motives in marriage. The modern + man accords to the beloved wife and life-companion the same + freedom which he himself took before marriage, and perhaps still + takes in marriage. If she makes no use of it, as is to be + hoped--so much the better! But let there be no lies, no + deception; the indispensable foundation of modern marriage is + boundless sincerity and friendship, the deepest trust, + affectionate devotion, and consideration. This is the best + safeguard against adultery.... Let him, however, who is, + nevertheless, overtaken by the outbreak of it console himself + with the undoubted fact that of two real lovers the most + noble-minded and deep-seeing _friend_ will always have the + preference." These wise words cannot be too deeply meditated. The + policy of jealousy is only successful--when it is successful--in + the hands of the man who counts the external husk of love more + precious than the kernel. + +It seems to some that the recognition of variations in sexual +relationships, of the tendency of the monogamic to overpass its +self-imposed bounds, is at best a sad necessity, and a lamentable fall +from a high ideal. That, however, is the reverse of the truth. The great +evil of monogamy, and its most seriously weak point, is its tendency to +self-concentration at the expense of the outer world. The devil always +comes to a man in the shape of his wife and children, said Hinton. The +family is a great social influence in so far as it is the best instrument +for creating children who will make the future citizens; but in a certain +sense the family is an anti-social influence, for it tends to absorb +unduly the energy that is needed for the invigoration of society. It is +possible, indeed, that that fact led to the modification of the monogamic +system in early developing periods of human history, when social expansion +and cohesion were the primary necessities. The family too often tends to +resemble, as someone has said, the secluded collection of grubs sometimes +revealed in their narrow home when we casually raise a flat stone in our +gardens. Great as are the problems of love, and great as should be our +attention to them, it must always be remembered that love is not a little +circle that is complete in itself. It is the nature of love to irradiate. +Just as family life exists mainly for the social end of breeding the +future race, so family love has its social ends in the extension of +sympathy and affection to those outside it, and even in ends that go +beyond love altogether.[417] + +The question is debated from time to time as to how far it is possible for +men and women to have intimate friendships with each other outside the +erotic sphere.[418] There can be no doubt whatever that it is perfectly +possible for a man and a woman to experience for each other a friendship +which never intrudes into the sexual sphere. As a rule, however, this only +happens under special conditions, and those are generally conditions which +exclude the closest and most intimate friendship. If, as we have seen, +love may be defined as a synthesis of lust and friendship, friendship +inevitably enters into the erotic sphere. Just as sexual emotion tends to +merge into friendship, so friendship between persons of opposite sex, if +young, healthy, and attractive, tends to involve sexual emotion. The two +feelings are too closely allied for an artificial barrier to be +permanently placed between them without protest. Men who offer a woman +friendship usually find that it is not received with much satisfaction +except as the first installment of a warmer emotion, and women who offer +friendship to a man usually find that he responds with an offer of love; +very often the "friendship" is from the first simply love or flirtation +masquerading under another name. + + "In the long run," a woman writes (in a letter published in + _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Bd. i, Heft 7), "the senses become + discontented at their complete exclusion. And I believe that a + man can only come into the closest mutual association with a + woman by whom, consciously or unconsciously, he is physically + attracted. He cannot enter into the closest psychic intercourse + with a woman with whom he could not imagine himself in physical + intercourse. His prevailing wish is for the possession of a + woman, of the whole woman, her soul as well as her body. And a + woman also cannot imagine an intimate relation to a man in which + the heart and the body, as well as the mind, are not involved. + (Naturally I am thinking of people with sound nerves and healthy + blood.) Can a woman carry on a Platonic relation with a man from + year to year without the thought sometimes coming to her: 'Why + does he never kiss me? Have I no charm for him?' And in the most + concealed corner of her heart will it not happen that she uses + that word 'kiss' in the more comprehensive sense in which the + French sometimes employ it?" There is undoubtedly an element of + truth in this statement. The frontier between erotic love and + friendship is vague, and an intimate psychic intercourse that is + sternly debarred from ever manifesting itself in a caress, or + other physical manifestation of tender intimacy, tends to be + constrained, and arouses unspoken and unspeakable thoughts and + desires which are fatal to any complete friendship. + +Undoubtedly the only perfect "Platonic friendships" are those which have +been reached through the portal of a preliminary erotic intimacy. In such +a case bad lovers, when they have resolutely traversed the erotic stage, +may become exceedingly good friends. A satisfactory friendship is +possible between brother and sister because they have been physically +intimate in childhood, and all erotic curiosities are absent. The most +admirable "Platonic friendship" may often be attained by husband and wife +in whom sympathy and affection and common interests have outlived passion. +In nearly all the most famous friendships of distinguished men and +women--as we know in some cases and divine in others--an hour's passion, +in Sainte-Beuve's words, has served as the golden key to unlock the most +precious and intimate secrets of friendship.[419] + +The friendships that have been entered through the erotic portal possess +an intimacy and retain a spiritually erotic character which could not be +attained on the basis of a normal friendship between persons of the same +sex. This is true in a far higher degree of the ultimate relationship, +under fortunate circumstances, of husband and wife in the years after +passion has become impossible. They have ceased to be passionate lovers +but they have not become mere friends and comrades. More especially their +relationship takes on elements borrowed from the attitude of child to +parent, of parent to child. Everyone from his first years retains +something of the child which cannot be revealed to all the world; everyone +acquires something of the guardian paternal or maternal spirit. Husband +and wife are each child to the other, and are indeed parent and child by +turn. And here still the woman retains a certain erotic supremacy, for she +is to the last more of a child than it is ever easy for the man to be, and +much more essentially a mother than he is a father. + + Groos (_Der Æsthetische Genuss_, p. 249) has pointed out that + "love" is really made up of both sexual instinct and parental + instinct. + + "So-called happy marriages," says Professor W. Thomas (_Sex and + Society_, p. 246), "represent an equilibrium reached through an + extension of the maternal interest of the woman to the man, + whereby she looks after his personal needs as she does after + those of the children--cherishing him, in fact, as a child--or + in an extension to woman on the part of man of the nurture and + affection which is in his nature to give to pets and all helpless + (and preferably dumb) creatures." + + "When the devotion in the tie between mother and son," a woman + writes, "is added to the relation of husband and wife, the union + of marriage is raised to the high and beautiful dignity it + deserves, and can attain in this world. It comprehends sympathy, + love, and perfect understanding, even of the faults and + weaknesses of both sides." "The foundation of every true woman's + love," another woman writes, "is a mother's tenderness. He whom + she loves is a child of larger growth, although she may at the + same time have a deep respect for him." (See also, for similar + opinion of another woman of distinguished intellectual ability, + footnote at beginning of "The Psychic State in Pregnancy" in + volume v of these _Studies_.) + + It is on the basis of these elemental human facts that the + permanently seductive and inspiring relationships of sex are + developed, and not by the emergence of personalities who combine + impossibly exalted characteristics. "The task is extremely + difficult," says Kisch in his _Sexual Life of Woman_, "but a + clever and virtuous modern wife must endeavor to combine in her + single personality the sensuous attractiveness of an Aspasia, the + chastity of a Lucrece, and the intellectual greatness of a + Cornelia." And in an earlier century we are told in the novel of + _La Tia Fingida_, which has sometimes been attributed to + Cervantes, that "a woman should be an angel in the street, a + saint in church, beautiful at the window, honest in the house, + and a demon in bed." The demands made of men by women, on the + other hand, have been almost too lofty to bear definite + formulation at all. "Ninety-nine out of a hundred loving women," + says Helene Stöcker, "certainly believe that if a thousand other + men have behaved ignobly, and forsaken, ill-used, and deceived + the woman they love, the man they love is an exception, marked + out from all other men; that is the reason they love him." It may + be doubted, however, if the great lovers have ever stood very far + above the ordinary level of humanity by their possession of + perfection. They have been human, and their art of love has not + always excluded the possession of human frailties; perfection, + indeed, even if it could be found, would furnish a bad soil for + love to strike deep roots in. + +It is only when we realize the highly complex nature of the elements which +make up erotic love that we can understand how it is that that love can +constitute so tremendous a revelation and exert so profound an influence +even in men of the greatest genius and intellect and in the sphere of +their most spiritual activity. It is not merely passion, nor any conscious +skill in the erotic art,--important as these may be,--that would serve to +account for Goethe's relationship to Frau von Stein, or Wagner's to +Mathilde Wesendonck, or that of Robert and Elizabeth Browning to each +other.[420] + +It may now be clear to the reader why it has been necessary in a +discussion of the sexual impulse in its relationship to society to deal +with the art of love. It is true that there is nothing so intimately +private and personal as the erotic affairs of the individual. Yet it is +equally true that these affairs lie at the basis of the social life, and +furnish the conditions--good or bad as the case may be--of that +procreative act which is a supreme concern of the State. It is because the +question of love is of such purely private interest that it tends to be +submerged in the question of breed. We have to realize, not only that the +question of love subserves the question of breed, but also that love has a +proper, a necessary, even a socially wholesome claim, to stand by itself +and to be regarded for its own worth. + + In the profoundly suggestive study of love which the + distinguished sociologist Tarde left behind at his death + (_Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, loc. cit.), there are + some interesting remarks on this point: "Society," he says, "has + been far more, and more intelligently, preoccupied with the + problem of answering the 'question of breed' than the 'question + of love.' The first problem fills all our civil and commercial + codes. The second problem has never been clearly stated, or + looked in the face, not even in antiquity, still less since the + coming of Christianity, for merely to offer the solutions of + marriage and prostitution is manifestly inadequate. Statesmen + have only seen the side on which it touches population. Hence + the marriage laws. Sterile love they profess to disdain. Yet it + is evident that, though born as the serf of generation, love + tends by civilization to be freed from it. In place of a simple + method of procreation it has become an end, it has created itself + a title, a royal title. Our gardens cultivate flowers that are + all the more charming because they are sterile; why is the double + corolla of love held more infamous than the sterilized flowers of + our gardens?" Tarde replies that the reason is that our + politicians are merely ambitious persons thirsting for power and + wealth, and even when they are lovers they are Don Juans rather + than Virgils. "The future," he continues, "is to the Virgilians, + because if the ambition of power, the regal wealth of American or + European millionarism, once seemed nobler, love now more and more + attracts to itself the best and highest parts of the soul, where + lies the hidden ferment of all that is greatest in science and + art, and more and more those studious and artist souls multiply + who, intent on their peaceful activities, hold in horror the + business men and the politicians, and will one day succeed in + driving them back. That assuredly will be the great and capital + revolution of humanity, an active psychological revolution: the + recognized preponderance of the meditative and contemplative, the + lover's side of the human soul, over the feverish, expansive, + rapacious, and ambitious side. And then it will be understood + that one of the greatest of social problems, perhaps the most + arduous of all, has been the problem of love." + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[375] _Quæstionum Convivalium_, lib. iii, quæstio 6. + +[376] E.D. Cope, "The Marriage Problem," _Open Court_, Nov. 1888. + +[377] Columbus meeting of the American Medical Association, 1900. + +[378] Ellen Key, _Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 24. + +[379] In an admirable article on Friedrich Schlegel's _Lucinde_ +(_Mutterschutz_, 1906, Heft 5), Heinrich Meyer-Benfey, in pointing out +that the Catholic sacramental conception of marriage licensed love, but +failed to elevate it, regards _Lucinde_, with all its defects, as the +first expression of the unity of the senses and the soul, and, as such, +the basis of the new ethics of love. It must, however, be said that four +hundred years earlier Pontano had expressed this same erotic unity far +more robustly and wholesomely than Schlegel, though the Latin verse in +which he wrote, fresh and vital as it is, remained without influence. +Pontano's _Carmina_, including the "De Amore Conjugali," have at length +been reprinted in a scholarly edition by Soldati. + +[380] From the thirteenth to the seventeenth centuries Ovid was, in +reality, the most popular and influential classic poet. His works played a +large part in moulding Renaissance literature, not least in England, where +Marlowe translated his _Amores_, and Shakespeare, during the early years +of his literary activity, was greatly indebted to him (see, e.g., Sidney +Lee, "Ovid and Shakespeare's Sonnets," _Quarterly Review_, Ap., 1909). + +[381] This has already been discussed in Chapter II. + +[382] By the age of twenty-five, as G. Hirth remarks (_Wege zur Heimat_, +p. 541), an energetic and sexually disposed man in a large city has, for +the most part, already had relations with some twenty-five women, perhaps +even as many as fifty, while a well-bred and cultivated woman at that age +is still only beginning to realize the slowly summating excitations of +sex. + +[383] In his study of "Conjugal Aversion" (_Journal Nervous and Mental +Disease_, Sept., 1892) Smith Baker points out the value of adequate sexual +knowledge before marriage in lessening the risks of such aversion. + +[384] "It may be said to the honor of men," Adler truly remarks (op. cit., +p. 182), "that it is perhaps not often their conscious brutality that is +at fault in this matter, but merely lack of skill and lack of +understanding. The husband who is not specially endowed by nature and +experience for psychic intercourse with women, is not likely, through his +earlier intercourse with Venus vulgivaga, to bring into marriage any +useful knowledge, psychic or physical." + +[385] "The first night," writes a correspondent concerning his marriage, +"she found the act very painful and was frightened and surprised at the +size of my penis, and at my suddenly getting on her. We had talked very +openly about sex things before marriage, and it never occurred to me that +she was ignorant of the details of the act. I imagined it would disgust +her to talk about these things; but I now see I should have explained +things to her. Before marrying I had come to the conclusion that the +respect owed to one's wife was incompatible with any talk that might seem +indecent, and also I had made a resolve not to subject her to what I +thought then were dirty tricks, even to be naked and to have her naked. In +fact, I was the victim of mock modesty; it was an artificial reaction from +the life I had been living before marriage. Now it seems to me to be +natural, if you love a woman, to do whatever occurs to you and to her. If +I had not felt it wrong to encourage such acts between us, there might +have been established a sexual sympathy which would have bound me more +closely to her." + +[386] Montaigne, _Essais_, Bk. iii, Ch. V. It is a significant fact that, +even in the matter of information, women, notwithstanding much ignorance +and inexperience, are often better equipped for marriage than men. As +Fürbringer remarks (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation +to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 212), although the wife is usually more chaste at +marriage than the husband, yet "she is generally the better informed +partner in matters pertaining to the married state, in spite of occasional +astonishing confessions." + +[387] "She never loses her self-respect nor my respect for her," a man +writes in a letter, "simply because we are desperately in love with one +another, and everything we do--some of which the lowest prostitute might +refuse to do--seems but one attempt after another to translate our passion +into action. I never realized before, not that to the pure all things are +pure, indeed, but that to the lover nothing is indecent. Yes, I have +always felt it, to love her is a liberal education." It is obviously only +the existence of such an attitude as this that can enable a pure woman to +be passionate. + +[388] "To be really understood," as Rafford Pyke well says, "to say what +she likes, to utter her innermost thoughts in her own way, to cast aside +the traditional conventions that gall her and repress her, to have someone +near her with whom she can be quite frank, and yet to know that not a +syllable of what she says will be misinterpreted or mistaken, but rather +felt just as she feels it all--how wonderfully sweet is this to every +woman, and how few men are there who can give it to her!" + +[389] In more recent times it has been discussed in relation to the +frequency of spontaneous nocturnal emissions. See "The Phenomena of Sexual +Periodicity," Sect. II, in volume i of these _Studies_, and cf. Mr. +Perry-Coste's remarks on "The Annual Rhythm," in Appendix B of the same +volume. + +[390] See "The Sexual Impulse in Women," vol. iii of these _Studies_. + +[391] Zenobia's practice is referred to by Gibbon, _Decline and Fall_, ed. +Bury, vol. i, p. 302. The Queen of Aragon's decision is recorded by the +Montpellier jurist, Nicolas Bohier (Boerius) in his _Decisiones_, etc., +ed. of 1579, p. 563; it is referred to by Montaigne, _Essais_, Bk. iii, +Ch. V. + +[392] Haller, _Elementa Physiologiæ_, 1778, vol. vii, p. 57. + +[393] Hammond, _Sexual Impotence_, p. 129. + +[394] Fürbringer, Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation to +Marriage_, vol. i, p. 221. + +[395] Forel, _Die Sexuelle Frage_, p. 80. + +[396] Guyot, _Bréviaire de l'Amour Expérimental_, p. 144. + +[397] Erb, Ziemssen's _Handbuch_, Bd. xi, ii, p. 148. Guttceit also +considered that the very wide variations found are congenital and natural. +It may be added that some believe that there are racial variations. Thus +it has been stated that the genital force of the Englishman is low, and +that of the Frenchman (especially Provençal, Languedocian, and Gascon) +high, while Löwenfeld believes that the Germanic race excels the French in +aptitude to repeat the sex act frequently. It is probable that little +weight attaches to these opinions, and that the chief differences are +individual rather than racial. + +[398] Ribbing, _L'Hygiène Sexualle_, p. 75. Kisch, in his _Sexual Life of +Woman_, expresses the same opinion. + +[399] Mohammed, who often displayed a consideration for women very rare in +the founders of religions, is an exception. His prescription of once a +week represented the right of the wife, quite independently of the number +of wives a man might possess. + +[400] How fragile the claim of "conjugal rights" is, may be sufficiently +proved by the fact that it is now considered by many that the very term +"conjugal rights" arose merely by a mistake for "conjugal rites." Before +1733, when legal proceedings were in Latin, the term used was _obsequies_, +and "rights," instead of "rites," seems to have been merely a typesetter's +error (see _Notes and Queries_, May 16, 1891; May 6, 1899). This +explanation, it should be added, only applies to the consecrated term, for +there can be no doubt that the underlying idea has an existence quite +independent of the term. + +[401] "In most marriages that are not happy," it is said in Rafford Pyke's +thoughtful paper on "Husbands and Wives" (_Cosmopolitan_, 1902), "it is +the wife rather than the husband who is oftenest disappointed." + +[402] See "Analysis of the Sexual Impulse," in vol. iii of these +_Studies_. + +[403] It is well recognized by erotic writers, however, that women may +sometimes take a comparatively active part. Thus Vatsyayana says that +sometimes the woman may take the man's position, and with flowers in her +hair and smiles mixed with sighs and bent head, caressing him and pressing +her breasts against him, say: "You have been my conqueror; it is my turn +to make you cry for mercy." + +[404] Thus among the Swahili it is on the third day after marriage that +the bridegroom is allowed, by custom, to complete defloration, according +to Zache, _Zeitschrift für Ethnologie_, 1899, II-III, p. 84. + +[405] _De l'Amour_, vol. ii, p. 57. + +[406] Robert Michels, "Brautstandsmoral," _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, +Jahrgang I, Heft 12. + +[407] I may refer once more to the facts brought together in volume iii of +these _Studies_, "The Analysis of the Sexual Impulse." + +[408] This has been pointed out, for instance, by Rutgers, "Sexuelle +Differenzierung," _Die Neue Generation_, Dec., 1908. + +[409] Thus, among the Eskimo, who practice temporary wife-exchange, +Rasmussen states that "a man generally discovers that his own wife is, in +spite of all, the best." + +[410] "I have always held with the late Professor Laycock," remarks +Clouston (_Hygiene of Mind_, p. 214), "who was a very subtle student of +human nature, that a married couple need not be always together to be +happy, and that in fact reasonable absences and partings tend towards +ultimate and closer union." That the prolongation of passion is only +compatible with absence scarcely needs pointing out; as Mary +Wollstonecraft long since said (_Rights of Woman_, original ed., p. 61), +it is only in absence or in misfortune that passion is durable. It may be +added, however, that in her love-letters to Imlay she wrote: "I have ever +declared that two people who mean to live together ought not to be long +separated." + +[411] "Viewed broadly," says Arnold L. Gesell, in his interesting study of +"Jealousy" (_American Journal of Psychology_, Oct., 1906), "jealousy seems +such a necessary psychological accompaniment to biological behavior, +amidst competitive struggle, that one is tempted to consider it +genetically among the oldest of the emotions, synonymous almost with the +will to live, and to make it scarcely less fundamental than fear or anger. +In fact, jealousy readily passes into anger, and is itself a brand of +fear.... In sociability and mutual aid we see the other side of the +shield; but jealousy, however anti-social it may be, retains a function in +zoölogical economy: viz., to conserve the individual as against the group. +It is Nature's great corrective for the purely social emotions." + +[412] Many illustrations are brought together in Gesell's study of +"Jealousy." + +[413] Jealousy among lower races may be disguised or modified by tribal +customs. Thus Rasmussen (_People of the Polar North_, p. 65) says in +reference to the Eskimo custom of wife-exchange: "A man once told me that +he only beat his wife when she would not receive other men. She would have +nothing to do with anyone but him--and that was her only failing!" +Rasmussen elsewhere shows that the Eskimo are capable of extreme jealousy. + +[414] See, e.g., Moll, _Sexualleben des Kindes_, p. 158; cf., Gesell's +"Study of Jealousy." + +[415] Jealousy is notoriously common among drunkards. As K. Birnbaum +points out ("Das Sexualleben der Alkokolisten," _Sexual-Probleme_, Jan., +1909), this jealousy is, in most cases, more or less well-founded, for the +wife, disgusted with her husband, naturally seeks sympathy and +companionship elsewhere. Alcoholic jealousy, however, goes far beyond its +basis of support in fact, and is entangled with delusions and +hallucinations. (See e.g., G. Dumas, "La Logique d'un Dément," _Revue +Philosophique_, Feb., 1908; also Stefanowski, "Morbid Jealousy," _Alienist +and Neurologist_, July, 1893.) + +[416] Ellen Key, _Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 335. + +[417] Schrempf points out ("Von Stella zu Klärchen," _Mutterschutz_, 1906, +Heft 7, p. 264) that Goethe strove to show in _Egmont_ that a woman is +repelled by the love of a man who knows nothing beyond his love to her, +and that it is easy for her to devote herself to the man whose aims lie in +the larger world beyond herself. There is profound truth in this view. + +[418] A discussion on "Platonic friendship" of this kind by several +writers, mostly women, whose opinions were nearly equally divided, may be +found, for instance, in the _Lady's Realm_, March, 1900. + +[419] There are no doubt important exceptions. Thus Mérimée's famous +friendship with Mlle. Jenny Dacquin, enshrined in the _Lettres à une +Inconnue_, was perhaps Platonic throughout on Mérimée's side, Mlle. +Dacquin adapting herself to his attitude. Cf. A. Lefebvre, _La Célèbre +Inconnue de Mérimée_, 1908. + +[420] The love-letters of all these distinguished persons have been +published. Rosa Mayreder (_Zur Kritik der Weiblichkeit_, pp. 229 _et +seq._) discusses the question of the humble and absolute manner in which +even men of the most masculine and impetuous genius abandon themselves to +the inspiration of the beloved woman. The case of the Brownings, who have +been termed "the hero and heroine of the most wonderful love-story that +the world knows of," is specially notable; (Ellen Key has written of the +Brownings from this point of view in _Menschen_, and reference may be made +to an article on the Brownings' love-letters in the _Edinburgh Review_, +April, 1899). It is scarcely necessary to add that an erotic relationship +may mean very much to persons of high intellectual ability, even when its +issue is not happy; of Mary Wollstonecraft, one of the most intellectually +distinguished of women, it may be said that the letters which enshrine her +love to the worthless Imlay are among the most passionate and pathetic +love-letters in English. + + + + +CHAPTER XII. + +THE SCIENCE OF PROCREATION. + +The Relationship of the Science of Procreation to the Art of Love--Sexual +Desire and Sexual Pleasure as the Conditions of Conception--Reproduction +Formerly Left to Caprice and Lust--The Question of Procreation as a +Religious Question--The Creed of Eugenics--Ellen Key and Sir Francis +Galton--Our Debt to Posterity--The Problem of Replacing Natural +Selection--The Origin and Development of Eugenics--The General Acceptance +of Eugenical Principles To-day--The Two Channels by Which Eugenical +Principles are Becoming Embodied in Practice--The Sense of Sexual +Responsibility in Women--The Rejection of Compulsory Motherhood--The +Privilege of Voluntary Motherhood--Causes of the Degradation of +Motherhood--The Control of Conception--Now Practiced by the Majority of +the Population in Civilized Countries--The Fallacy of "Racial +Suicide"--Are Large Families a Stigma of Degeneration?--Procreative +Control the Outcome of Natural and Civilized Progress--The Growth of +Neo-Malthusian Beliefs and Practices--Facultative Sterility as Distinct +from Neo-Malthusianism--The Medical and Hygienic Necessity of Control of +Conception--Preventive Methods--Abortion--The New Doctrine of the Duty to +Practice Abortion--How Far is this Justifiable?--Castration as a Method of +Controlling Procreation--Negative Eugenics and Positive Eugenics--The +Question of Certificates for Marriage--The Inadequacy of Eugenics by Act +of Parliament--The Quickening of the Social Conscience in Regard to +Heredity--Limitations to the Endowment of Motherhood--The Conditions +Favorable to Procreation--Sterility--The Question of Artificial +Fecundation--The Best Age of Procreation--The Question of Early +Motherhood--The Best Time for Procreation--The Completion of the Divine +Cycle of Life. + + +We have seen that the art of love has an independent and amply justifiable +right to existence apart, altogether, from procreation. Even if we still +believed--as all men must once have believed and some Central Australians +yet believe[421]--that sexual intercourse has no essential connection with +the propagation of the race it would have full right to existence. In its +finer manifestations as an art it is required in civilization for the full +development of the individual, and it is equally required for that +stability of relationships which is nearly everywhere regarded as a demand +of social morality. + +When we now turn to the second great constitutional factor of marriage, +procreation, the first point we encounter is that the art of love here +also has its place. In ancient times the sexual congruence of any man with +any woman was supposed to be so much a matter of course that all questions +of love and of the art of love could be left out of consideration. The +propagative act might, it was thought, be performed as impersonally, as +perfunctorily, as the early Christian Fathers imagined it had been +performed in Paradise. That view is no longer acceptable. It fails to +commend itself to men, and still less to women. We know that in +civilization at all events--and it is often indeed the same among +savages--erethism is not always easy between two persons selected at +random, nor even when they are more specially selected. And we also know, +on the authority of very distinguished gynæcologists, that it is not in +very many cases sufficient even to effect coitus, it is also necessary to +excite orgasm, if conception is to be achieved. + + Many primitive peoples, as well as the theologians of the Middle + Ages, have believed that sexual excitement on the woman's part is + necessary to conception, though they have sometimes mixed up that + belief with false science and mere superstition. The belief + itself is supported by some of the most cautious and experienced + modern gynæcologists. Thus, Matthews Duncan (in his lectures on + _Sterility in Women_) argued that the absence of sexual desire in + women, and the absence of pleasure in the sexual act, are + powerful influences making for sterility. He brought forward a + table based on his case-books, showing that of nearly four + hundred sterile women, only about one-fourth experienced sexual + desire, while less than half experienced pleasure in the sexual + act. In the absence, however, of a corresponding table concerning + fertile women, nothing is hereby absolutely proved, and, at most, + only a probability established. + + Kisch, more recently (in his _Sexual Life of Woman_), has dealt + fully with this question, and reaches the conclusion that it is + "extremely probable" that the active erotic participation of the + woman in coitus is an important link in the chain of conditions + producing conception. It acts, he remarks, in either or both of + two ways, by causing reflex changes in the cervical secretions, + and so facilitating the passage of the spermatozoa, and by + causing reflex erectile changes in the cervix itself, with slight + descent of the uterus, so rendering the entrance of the semen + easier. Kisch refers to the analogous fact that the first + occurrence of menstruation is favored by sexual excitement. + + Some authorities go so far as to assert that, until voluptuous + excitement occurs in women, no impregnation is possible. This + statement seems too extreme. It is true that the occurrence of + impregnation during sleep, or in anæsthesia, cannot be opposed to + it, for we know that the unconsciousness of these states by no + means prevents the occurrence of complete sexual excitement. We + cannot fail, however, to connect the fact that impregnation + frequently fails to occur for months and even years after + marriage, with the fact that sexual pleasure in coitus on the + wife's part also frequently fails to occur for a similar period. + +"Of all human instincts," Pinard has said,[422] "that of reproduction is +the only one which remains in the primitive condition and has received no +education. We procreate to-day as they procreated in the Stone Age. The +most important act in the life of man, the sublimest of all acts since it +is that of his reproduction, man accomplishes to-day with as much +carelessness as in the age of the cave-man." And though Pinard himself, as +the founder of puericulture, has greatly contributed to call attention to +the vast destinies that hang on the act of procreation, there still +remains a lamentable amount of truth in this statement. "Future +generations," writes Westermarck in his great history of moral ideas,[423] +"will probably with a kind of horror look back at a period when the most +important, and in its consequences the most far-reaching, function which +has fallen to the lot of man was entirely left to individual caprice and +lust." + +We are told in his _Table Talk_, that the great Luther was accustomed to +say that God's way of making man was very foolish ("sehr närrisch"), and +that if God had deigned to take him into His counsel he would have +strongly advised Him to make the whole human race, as He made Adam, "out +of earth." And certainly if applied to the careless and reckless manner in +which procreation in Luther's day, as still for the most part in our own, +was usually carried out there was sound common sense in the Reformer's +remarks. If that is the way procreation is to be carried on, it would be +better to create and mould every human being afresh out of the earth; in +that way we could at all events eliminate evil heredity. It was, however, +unjust to place the responsibility on God. It is men and women who breed +the people that make the world good or bad. They seek to put the evils of +society on to something outside themselves. They see how large a +proportion of human beings are defective, ill-conditioned, anti-social, +incapable of leading a whole and beautiful human life. In old theological +language it was often said that such were "children of the Devil," and +Luther himself was often ready enough to attribute the evil of the world +to the direct interposition of the Devil. Yet these ill-conditioned people +who clog the wheels of society are, after all, in reality the children of +Man. The only Devil whom we can justly invoke in this matter is Man. + +The command "Be fruitful and multiply," which the ancient Hebrews put into +the mouth of their tribal God, was, as Crackanthorpe points out,[424] a +command supposed to have been uttered when there were only eight persons +in the world. If the time should ever again occur when the inhabitants of +the world could be counted on one's fingers, such an injunction, as +Crackanthorpe truly observes, would again be reasonable. But we have to +remember that to-day humanity has spawned itself over the world in +hundreds and even thousands of millions of creatures, a large proportion +of whom, as is but too obvious, ought never to have been born at all, and +the voice of Jehovah is now making itself heard through the leaders of +mankind in a very different sense. + +It is not surprising that as this fact tends to become generally +recognized, the question of the procreation of the race should gain a new +significance, and even tend to take on the character of a new religious +movement. Mere morality can never lead us to concern ourselves with the +future of the race, and in the days of old, men used to protest against +the tendency to subordinate the interests of religion to the claims of +"mere morality." There was a sound natural instinct underlying that +protest, so often and so vigorously made by Christianity, and again +revived to-day in a more intelligent form. The claim of the race is the +claim of religion. We have to beware lest we subordinate that claim to our +moralities. Moralities are, indeed, an inevitable part of our social order +from which we cannot escape; every community must have its _mores_. But we +are not entitled to make a fetich of our morality, sacrificing to it the +highest interests entrusted to us. The nations which have done so have +already signed their own death-warrant.[425] From this point of view, the +whole of Christianity, rightly considered, with its profound conviction of +the necessity for forethought and preparation for the life hereafter, has +been a preparation for eugenics, a schoolmaster to discipline within us a +higher ideal than itself taught, and we cannot therefore be surprised at +the solidity of the basis on which eugenical conceptions of life are +developing. + + The most distinguished pioneers of the new movement of devotion + to the creation of the race seem independently to have realized + its religious character. This attitude is equally marked in Ellen + Key and Francis Galton. In her _Century of the Child_ (English + translation, 1909), Ellen Key entirely identifies herself with + the eugenic movement. "It is only a question of time," she + elsewhere writes (_Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 445), "when the + attitude of society towards a sexual union will depend not on the + form of the union, but on the value of the children created. Men + and women will then devote the same religious earnestness to the + psychic and physical perfectioning of this sexual task as + Christians have devoted to the salvation of their souls." + + Sir Francis Galton, writing a few years later, but without doubt + independently, in 1905, on "Restrictions in Marriage," and + "Eugenics as a Factor in Religion" (_Sociological Papers_ of the + Sociological Society, vol. ii, pp. 13, 53), remarks: "Religious + precepts, founded on the ethics and practice of older days, + require to be reinterpreted, to make them conform to the needs of + progressive nations. Ours are already so far behind modern + requirements that much of our practice and our profession cannot + be reconciled without illegitimate casuistry. It seems to me + that few things are more needed by us in England than a revision + of our religion, to adapt it to the intelligence and needs of + this present time.... Evolution is a grand phantasmagoria, but it + assumes an infinitely more interesting aspect under the knowledge + that the intelligent action of the human will is, in some small + measure, capable of guiding its course. Man has the power of + doing this largely, so far as the evolution of humanity is + concerned; he has already affected the quality and distribution + of organic life so widely that the changes on the surface of the + earth, merely through his disforestings and agriculture, would be + recognizable from a distance as great as that of the moon. + Eugenics is a virile creed, full of hopefulness, and appealing to + many of the noblest feelings of our nature." + + As will always happen in every great movement, a few fanatics + have carried into absurdity the belief in the supreme religious + importance of procreation. Love, apart from procreation, writes + one of these fanatics, Vacher de Lapouge, in the spirit of some + of the early Christian Fathers (see _ante_ p. 509), is an + aberration comparable to sadism and sodomy. Procreation is the + only thing that matters, and it must become "a legally prescribed + social duty" only to be exercised by carefully selected persons, + and forbidden to others, who must, by necessity, be deprived of + the power of procreation, while abortion and infanticide must, + under some circumstances, become compulsory. Romantic love will + disappear by a process of selection, as also will all religion + except a new form of phallic worship (G. Vacher de Lapouge, "Die + Crisis der Sexuellen Moral," _Politisch Anthropologische Revue_, + No. 8, 1908). It is sufficient to point out that love is, and + always must be, the natural portal to generation. Such excesses + of procreative fanaticism cannot fail to occur, and they render + the more necessary the emphasis which has here been placed on the + art of love. + +"What has posterity done for me that I should do anything for posterity?" +a cynic is said to have asked. The answer is very simple. The human race +has done everything for him. All that he is, and can be, is its creation; +all that he can do is the result of its laboriously accumulated +traditions. It is only by working towards the creation of a still better +posterity, that he can repay the good gifts which the human race has +brought him.[426] Just as, within the limits of this present life, many +who have received benefits and kindnesses they can never repay to the +actual givers, find a pleasure in vicariously repaying the like to +others, so the heritage we have received from our ascendents we can never +repay, save by handing it on in a better form to our descendants. + +It is undoubtedly true that the growth of eugenical ideals has not been, +for the most part, due to religious feeling. It has been chiefly the +outcome of a very gradual, but very comprehensive, movement towards social +amelioration, which has been going on for more than a century, and which +has involved a progressive effort towards the betterment of all the +conditions of life. The ideals of this movement were proclaimed in the +eighteenth century, they began to find expression early in the nineteenth +century, in the initiation of the modern system of sanitation, in the +growth of factory legislation, in all the movements which have been borne +onwards by socialism hand in hand with individualism. The inevitable +tendency has been slowly towards the root of the matter; it began to be +seen that comparatively little can be effected by improving the conditions +of life of adults; attention began to be concentrated on the child, on the +infant, on the embryo in its mother's womb, and this resulted in the +fruitful movement of puericulture inspired by Pinard, and finally the +problem is brought to its source at the point of procreation, and the +regulation of sexual selection between stocks and between individuals as +the prime condition of life. Here we have the science of eugenics which +Sir Francis Galton has done so much to make a definite, vital, and +practical study, and which in its wider bearings he defines as "the +science which deals with those social eugenics that influence, mentally or +physically, the racial qualities of future generations." In its largest +aspect, eugenics is, as Galton has elsewhere said, man's attempt "to +replace Natural Selection by other processes that are more merciful and +not less effective." + + In the last chapter of his _Memories of My Life_ (1908), on "Race + Improvement," Sir Francis Galton sets forth the origin and + development of his conception of the science of eugenics. The + term, "eugenics," he first used in 1884, in his _Human Faculty_, + but the conception dates from 1865, and even earlier. Galton has + more recently discussed the problems of eugenics in papers read + before the Sociological Society (_Sociological Papers_, vols. i + and ii, 1905), in the Herbert Spencer Lecture on "Probability the + Foundation of Eugenics," (1907), and elsewhere. Galton's numerous + memoirs on this subject have now been published in a collected + form by the Eugenics Education Society, which was established in + 1907, to further and to popularize the eugenical attitude towards + social questions; _The Eugenics Review_ is published by this + Society. On the more strictly scientific side, eugenic studies + are carried on in the Eugenics Laboratory of the University of + London, established by Sir Francis Galton, and now working in + connection with Professor Karl Pearson's biometric laboratory, in + University College. Much of Professor Pearson's statistical work + in this and allied directions, is the elaboration of ideas and + suggestions thrown out by Galton. See, e.g., Karl Pearson's + Robert Boyle Lecture, "The Scope and Importance to the State of + the Science of National Eugenics" (1907). _Biometrika_, edited by + Karl Pearson in association with other workers, contains numerous + statistical memoirs on eugenics. In Germany, the _Archiv für + Rassen und Gesellschafts-biologie_, and the + _Politisch-Anthropologische Revue_, are largely occupied with + various aspects of such subjects, and in America, _The Popular + Science Monthly_ from time to time, publishes articles which have + a bearing on eugenics. + +At one time there was a tendency to scoff, or to laugh, at the eugenic +movement. It was regarded as an attempt to breed men as men breed animals, +and it was thought a sufficiently easy task to sweep away this new +movement with the remark that love laughs at bolts and bars. It is now +beginning to be better understood. None but fanatics dream of abolishing +love in order to effect pairing by rule. It is merely a question of +limiting the possible number of mates from whom each may select a partner, +and that, we must remember, has always been done even by savages, for, as +it has been said, "eugenics is the oldest of the sciences." The question +has merely been transformed. Instead of being limited mechanically by +caste, we begin to see that the choice of sexual mates must be limited +intelligently by actual fitness. Promiscuous marriages have never been the +rule; the possibility of choice has always been narrow, and the most +primitive peoples have exerted the most marked self-restraint. It is not +so merely among remote races but among our own European ancestors. +Throughout the whole period of Catholic supremacy the Canon law +multiplied the impediments to matrimony, as by ordaining that +consanguinity to the fourth degree (third cousins), as well as spiritual +relationship, is an impediment, and by such arbitrary prohibitions limited +the range of possible mates at least as much as it would be limited by the +more reasonable dictates of eugenic considerations. + +At the present day it may be said that the principle of the voluntary +control of procreation, not for the selfish ends of the individual, but in +order to extinguish disease, to limit human misery, and to raise the +general level of humanity by substituting the ideal of quality for the +vulgar ideal of mere quantity, is now generally accepted, alike by medical +pathologists, embryologists and neurologists, and by sociologists and +moralists. + + It would be easy to multiply quotations from distinguished + authorities on this point. Thus, Metchnikoff points out (_Essais + Optimistes_, p. 419) that orthobiosis seems to involve the + limitation of offspring in the fight against disease. Ballantyne + concludes his great treatise on _Antenanal Pathology_ with the + statement that "Eugenics" or well-begetting, is one of the + world's most pressing problems. Dr. Louise Robinovitch, the + editor of the _Journal of Mental Pathology_, in a brilliant and + thoughtful paper, read before the Rome Congress of Psychology in + 1905, well spoke in the same sense: "Nations have not yet + elevated the energy of genesic function to the dignity of an + energy. Other energies known to us, even of the meanest grade, + have long since been wisely utilized, and their activities based + on the principle of the strictest possible economy. This economic + utilization has been brought about, not through any enforcement + of legislative restrictions, but through steadily progressive + human intelligence. Economic handling of genesic function will, + like the economic function of other energies, come about through + a steady and progressive intellectual development of nations." + "There are circumstances," says C.H. Hughes, ("Restricted + Procreation," _Alienist and Neurologist_, May, 1908), "under + which the propagation of a human life may be as gravely criminal + as the taking of a life already begun." + + From the general biological, as well as from the sociological + side, the acceptance of the same standpoint is constantly + becoming more general, for it is recognized as the inevitable + outcome of movements which have long been in progress. + + "Already," wrote Haycraft (_Darwinism and Race Progress_, p. + 160), referring to the law for the prevention of cruelty to + children, "public opinion has expressed itself in the public + rule that a man and woman, in begetting a child, must take upon + themselves the obligation and responsibility of seeing that that + child is not subjected to cruelty and hardship. It is but one + step more to say that a man and a woman shall be under obligation + not to produce children, when it is certain that, from their want + of physique, they will have to undergo suffering, and will keep + up but an unequal struggle with their fellows." Professor J. + Arthur Thomson, in his volume on _Heredity_ (1908), vigorously + and temperately pleads (p. 528) for rational methods of eugenics, + as specially demanded in an age like our own, when the unfit have + been given a better chance of reproduction than they have ever + been given in any other age. Bateson, again, referring to the + growing knowledge of heredity, remarks (_Mendel's Principles of + Heredity_, 1909, p. 305): "Genetic knowledge must certainly lead + to new conceptions of justice, and it is by no means impossible + that, in the light of such knowledge, public opinion will welcome + measures likely to do more for the extinction of the criminal and + the degenerate than has been accomplished by ages of penal + enactment." Adolescent youths and girls, said Anton von Menger, + in his last book, the pregnant _Neue Sittenlehre_ (1905), must be + taught that the production of children, under certain + circumstances, is a crime; they must also be taught the voluntary + restraint of conception, even in health; such teaching, Menger + rightly added, is a necessary preliminary to any legislation in + this direction. + + Of recent years, many books and articles have been devoted to the + advocacy of eugenic methods. Mention may be made, for instance, + of _Population and Progress_ (1907), by Montague Crackanthorpe, + President of the Eugenics Education Society. See also, Havelock + Ellis, "Eugenics and St. Valentine," _Nineteenth Century and + After_, May, 1906. It may be mentioned that nearly thirty years + ago, Miss J.H. Clapperton, in her _Scientific Meliorism_ (1885, + Ch. XVII), pointed out that the voluntary restraint of + procreation by Neo-Malthusian methods, apart from merely + prudential motives, there clearly recognized, is "a new key to + the social position," and a necessary condition for "national + regeneration." Professor Karl Pearson's _Groundwork of Eugenics_, + (1909) is, perhaps, the best brief introduction to the subject. + Mention may also be made of Dr. Saleeby's _Parenthood and Race + Culture_ (1909), written in a popular and enthusiastic manner. + + How widely the general principles of eugenics are now accepted as + the sound method of raising the level of the human race, was well + shown at a meeting of the Sociological Society, in 1905, when, + after Sir Francis Galton had read papers on the question, the + meeting heard the opinions of numerous sociologists, economists, + biologists, and well-known thinkers in various lands, who were + present, or who had sent communications. Some twenty-one + expressed more or less unqualified approval, and only three or + four had objections to offer, mostly on matters of detail + (_Sociological Papers_, published by the Sociological Society, + vol. ii, 1905). + +If we ask by what channels this impulse towards the control of procreation +for the elevation of the race is expressing itself in practical life, we +shall scarcely fail to find that there are at least two such channels: (1) +the growing sense of sexual responsibility among women as well as men, and +(2) the conquest of procreative control which has been achieved in recent +years, by the general adoption of methods for the prevention of +conception. + +It has already been necessary in a previous chapter to discuss the +far-reaching significance of woman's personal responsibility as an element +in the modification of the sexual life of modern communities. Here it need +only be pointed out that the autonomous authority of a woman over her own +person, in the sexual sphere, involves on her part a consent to the act of +procreation which must be deliberate. We are apt to think that this is a +new and almost revolutionary demand; it is, however, undoubtedly a +natural, ancient, and recognized privilege of women that they should not +be mothers without their own consent. Even in the Islamic world of the +_Arabian Nights_, we find that high praise is accorded to the "virtue and +courage" of the woman who, having been ravished in her sleep, exposed, and +abandoned on the highway, the infant that was the fruit of this +involuntary union, "not wishing," she said, "to take the responsibility +before Allah of a child that had been born without my consent."[427] The +approval with which this story is narrated clearly shows that to the +public of Islam it seemed entirely just and humane that a woman should not +have a child, except by her own deliberate will. We have been accustomed +to say in later days that the State needs children, and that it is the +business and the duty of women to supply them. But the State has no more +right than the individual to ravish a woman against her will. We are +beginning to realize that if the State wants children it must make it +agreeable to women to produce them, as under natural and equitable +conditions it cannot fail to be. "The women will solve the question of +mankind," said Ibsen in one of his rare and pregnant private utterances, +"and they will do it as mothers." But it is unthinkable that any question +should ever be solved by a helpless, unwilling, and involuntary act which +has not even attained to the dignity of animal joy. + + It is sometimes supposed, and even assumed, that the demand of + women that motherhood must never be compulsory, means that they + are unwilling to be mothers on any terms. In a few cases that may + be so, but it is certainly not the case as regards the majority + of sane and healthy women in any country. On the contrary, this + demand is usually associated with the desire to glorify + motherhood, if not, indeed, even with the thought of extending + motherhood to many who are to-day shut out from it. "It seems to + me," wrote Lady Henry Somerset, some years ago ("The Welcome + Child," _Arena_, April, 1895), "that life will be dearer and + nobler the more we recognize that there is no indelicacy in the + climax and crown of creative power, but, rather, that it is the + highest glory of the race. But if voluntary motherhood is the + crown of the race, involuntary compulsory motherhood is the very + opposite.... Only when both man and woman have learned that the + most sacred of all functions given to women must be exercised by + the free will alone, can children be born into the world who have + in them the joyous desire to live, who claim that sweetest + privilege of childhood, the certainty that they can expand in the + sunshine of the love which is their due." Ellen Key, similarly, + while pointing out (_Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, pp. 14, 265) that the + tyranny of the old Protestant religious spirit which enjoined on + women unlimited submission to joyless motherhood within "the + whited sepulchre of marriage" is now being broken, exalts the + privileges of voluntary motherhood, while admitting that there + may be a few exceptional cases in which women may withdraw + themselves from motherhood for the sake of the other demands of + their personality, though, "as a general rule, the woman who + refuses motherhood in order to serve humanity, is like a soldier + who prepares himself on the eve of battle for the forthcoming + struggle by opening his veins." Helene Stöcker, likewise, reckons + motherhood as one of the demands, one of the growing demands + indeed, which women now make. "If, to-day," she says (in the + Preface to _Liebe und die Frauen_, 1906), "all the good things of + life are claimed even for women--intellectual training, pecuniary + independence, a happy vocation in life, a respected social + position--and at the same time, as equally matter-of-course, and + equally necessary, marriage and child, that demand no longer + sounds, as it sounded a few years ago, the voice of a preacher in + the wilderness." + + The degradation to which motherhood has, in the eyes of many, + fallen, is due partly to the tendency to deprive women of any + voice in the question, and partly to what H.G. Wells calls + (_Socialism and the Family_, 1906) "the monstrous absurdity of + women discharging their supreme social function, bearing and + rearing children, in their spare time, as it were, while they + 'earn their living' by contributing some half mechanical element + to some trivial industrial product." It would be impracticable, + and even undesirable, to insist that married women should not be + allowed to work, for a work in the world is good for all. It is + estimated that over thirty per cent. of the women workers in + England are married or widows (James Haslam, _Englishwoman_, + June, 1909), and in Lancashire factories alone, in 1901, there + were 120,000 married women employed. But it would be easily + possible for the State to arrange, in its own interests, that a + woman's work at a trade should always give way to her work as a + mother. It is the more undesirable that married women should be + prohibited from working at a profession, since there are some + professions for which a married woman, or, rather, a mother, is + better equipped than an unmarried woman. This is notably the case + as regards teaching, and it would be a good policy to allow + married women teachers special privileges in the shape of + increased free time and leave of absence. While in many fields of + knowledge an unmarried woman may be a most excellent teacher, it + is highly undesirable that children, and especially girls, should + be brought exclusively under the educational influence of + unmarried teachers. + +The second great channel through which the impulse towards the control of +procreation for the elevation of the race is entering into practical life +is by the general adoption, by the educated classes of all countries--and +it must be remembered that, in this matter at all events, all classes are +gradually beginning to become educated--of methods for the prevention of +conception except when conception is deliberately desired. It is no longer +permissible to discuss the validity of this control, for it is an +accomplished fact and has become a part of our modern morality. "If a +course of conduct is habitually and deliberately pursued by vast +multitudes of otherwise well-conducted people, forming probably a majority +of the whole educated class of the nation," as Sidney Webb rightly puts +it, "we must assume that it does not conflict with their actual code of +morality."[428] + + There cannot be any doubt that, so far as England is concerned, + the prevention of conception is practiced, from prudential or + other motives, by the vast majority of the educated classes. This + fact is well within the knowledge of all who are intimately + acquainted with the facts of English family life. Thus, Dr. A.W. + Thomas writes (_British Medical Journal_, Oct. 20, 1906, p. + 1066): "From my experience as a general practitioner, I have no + hesitation in saying that ninety per cent. of young married + couples of the comfortably-off classes use preventives." As a + matter of fact, this rough estimate appears to be rather under + than over the mark. In the very able paper already quoted, in + which Sidney Webb shows that "the decline in the birthrate + appears to be much greater in those sections of the population + which give proofs of thrift and foresight," that this decline is + "principally, if not entirely, the result of deliberate + volition," and that "a volitional regulation of the marriage + state is now ubiquitous throughout England and Wales, among, + apparently, a large majority of the population," the results are + brought forward of a detailed inquiry carried out by the Fabian + Society. This inquiry covered 316 families, selected at random + from all parts of Great Britain, and belonging to all sections of + the middle class. The results are carefully analyzed, and it is + found that seventy-four families were unlimited, and two hundred + and forty-two voluntarily limited. When, however, the decade + 1890-99 is taken by itself as the typical period, it is found + that of 120 marriages, 107 were limited, and only thirteen + unlimited, while of these thirteen, five were childless at the + date of the return. In this decade, therefore, only seven + unlimited fertile marriages are reported, out of a total of 120. + + What is true of Great Britain is true of all other civilized + countries, in the highest degree true of the most civilized + countries, and it finds expression in the well-known phenomenon + of the decline of the birthrate. In modern times, this movement + of decline began in France, producing a slow but steady + diminution in the annual number of births, and in France the + movement seems now to be almost, or quite, arrested. But it has + since taken place in all other progressive countries, notably in + the United States, in Canada, in Australia, and in New Zealand, + as well as in Germany, Austro-Hungary, Italy, Spain, Switzerland, + Belgium, Holland, Denmark, Sweden, and Norway. In England, it has + been continuous since 1877. Of the great countries, Russia is + the only one in which it has not yet taken place, and among the + masses of the Russian population we find less education, more + poverty, a higher deathrate, and a greater amount of disease, + than in any other great, or even small, civilized country. + + It is sometimes said, indeed, that the decline of the birthrate + is not entirely due to the voluntary control of procreation. It + is undoubtedly true that certain other elements, common under + civilized conditions, such as the postponement of marriage in + women to a comparatively late age, tend to diminish the size of + the family. But when all such allowances have been made, the + decline is still found to be real and large. This has been shown, + for instance, by the statistical analyses made by Arthur + Newsholme and T.H.C. Stevenson, and by G. Yule, both published in + _Journal Royal Statistical Society_, April, 1906. + + Some have supposed that, since the Catholic Church forbids + incomplete sexual intercourse, this movement for the control of + procreation will involve a relatively much greater increase among + Catholic than among non-Catholic populations. This, however, is + only correct under certain conditions. It is quite true that in + Ireland there has been no fall in the birthrate, and that the + fall is but little marked in those Lancashire towns which possess + a large Irish element. But in Belgium, Italy, Spain, and other + mainly Catholic countries, the decline in the birthrate is duly + taking place. What has happened is that the Church--always alive + to sexual questions--has realized the importance of the modern + movement, and has adapted herself to it, by proclaiming to her + more ignorant and uneducated children that incomplete intercourse + is a deadly sin, while at the same time refraining from making + inquiries into this matter among her more educated members. The + question was definitely brought up for Papal judgment, in 1842, + by Bishop Bouvier of Le Mans, who stated the matter very clearly, + representing to the Pope (Gregory XVI) that the prevention of + conception was becoming very common, and that to treat it as a + deadly sin merely resulted in driving the penitent away from + confession. After mature consideration, the Curia Sacra + Poenitentiaria replied by pointing out, as regards the common + method of withdrawal before emission, that since it was due to + the wrong act of the man, the woman who has been forced by her + husband to consent to it, has committed no sin. Further, the + Bishop was reminded of the wise dictum of Liguori, "the most + learned and experienced man in these matters," that the confessor + is not usually called upon to make inquiry upon so delicate a + matter as the _debitum conjugale_, and, if his opinion is not + asked, he should be silent (Bouvier, _Dissertatio in sextum + Decalogi præceptum; supplementum ad Tractatum de Matrimonio_. + 1849, pp. 179-182; quoted by Hans Ferdy, _Sexual-Probleme_, Aug., + 1908, p. 498). We see, therefore, that, among Catholic as well as + among non-Catholic populations, the adoption of preventive + methods of conception follows progress and civilization, and + that the general practice of such methods by Catholics (with the + tacit consent of the Church) is merely a matter of time. + +From time to time many energetic persons have noisily demanded that a stop +should be put to the decline of the birthrate, for, they argue, it means +"race suicide." It is now beginning to be realized, however, that this +outcry was a foolish and mischievous mistake. It is impossible to walk +through the streets of any great city, full of vast numbers of persons +who, obviously, ought never to have been born, without recognizing that +the birthrate is as yet very far above its normal and healthy limit. The +greatest States have often been the smallest so far as mere number of +citizens is concerned, for it is quality not quantity that counts. And +while it is true that the increase of the best types of citizens can only +enrich a State, it is now becoming intolerable that a nation should +increase by the mere dumping down of procreative refuse in its midst. It +is beginning to be realized that this process not only depreciates the +quality of a people but imposes on a State an inordinate financial burden. + + It is now well recognized that large families are associated with + degeneracy, and, in the widest sense, with abnormality of every + kind. Thus, it is undoubtedly true that men of genius tend to + belong to very large families, though it may be pointed out to + those who fear an alarming decrease of genius from the tendency + to the limitation of the family, that the position in the family + most often occupied by the child of genius is the firstborn. (See + Havelock Ellis, _A Study of British Genius_, pp. 115-120). The + insane, the idiotic, imbecile, and weak-minded, the criminal, the + epileptic, the hysterical, the neurasthenic, the tubercular, all, + it would appear, tend to belong to large families (see e.g., + Havelock Ellis, op. cit., p. 110; Toulouse, _Les Causes de la + Folie_, p. 91; Harriet Alexander, "Malthusianism and Degeneracy," + _Alienist and Neurologist_, Jan., 1901). It has, indeed, been + shown by Heron, Pearson, and Goring, that not only the + eldest-born, but also the second-born, are specially liable to + suffer from pathological defect (insanity, criminality, + tuberculosis). There is, however, it would seem, a fallacy in the + common interpretation of this fact. According to Van den Velden + (as quoted in _Sexual-Probleme_, May, 1909, p. 381), this + tendency is fully counterbalanced by the rising mortality of + children from the firstborn onward. The greater pathological + tendency of the earlier children is thus simply the result of a + less stringent selection by death. So far as they show any really + greater pathological tendency, apart from this fallacy, it is + perhaps due to premature marriage. There is another fallacy in + the frequent statement that the children in small families are + more feeble than those in large families. We have to distinguish + between a naturally small family, and an artificially small + family. A family which is small merely as the result of the + feeble procreative energy of the parents, is likely to be a + feeble family; a family which is small as the result of the + deliberate control of the parents, shows, of course, no such + tendency. + + These considerations, it will be seen, do not modify the tendency + of the large family to be degenerate. We may connect this + phenomenon with the disposition, often shown by nervously unsound + and abnormal persons, to believe that they have a special + aptitude to procreate fine children. "I believe that everyone has + a special vocation," said a man to Marro (_La Pubertà_, p. 459); + "I find that it is my vocation to beget superior children." He + begat four,--an epileptic, a lunatic, a dipsomaniac, and a + valetudinarian,--and himself died insane. Most people have come + across somewhat similar, though perhaps less marked, cases of + this delusion. In a matter of such fateful gravity to other human + beings, no one can safely rely on his own unsupported + impressions. + +The demand of national efficiency thus corresponds with the demand of +developing humanitarianism, which, having begun by attempting to +ameliorate the conditions of life, has gradually begun to realize that it +is necessary to go deeper and to ameliorate life itself. For while it is +undoubtedly true that much may be done by acting systematically on the +conditions of life, the more searching analysis of evil environmental +conditions only serves to show that in large parts they are based in the +human organism itself and were not only pre-natal, but pre-conceptional, +being involved in the quality of the parental or ancestral organisms. + +Putting aside, however, all humanitarian considerations, the serious error +of attempting to stem the progress of civilization in the direction of +procreative control could never have occurred if the general tendencies of +zoölogical evolution had been understood, even in their elements. All +zoölogical progress is from the more prolific to the less prolific; the +higher the species the less fruitful are its individual members. The same +tendency is found within the limits of the human species, though not in an +invariable straight line; the growth of civilization involves a +diminution in fertility. This is by no means a new phenomenon; ancient +Rome and later Geneva, "the Protestant Rome," bear witness to it; no doubt +it has occurred in every high centre of moral and intellectual culture, +although the data for measuring the tendency no longer exist. When we take +a sufficiently wide and intelligent survey, we realize that the tendency +of a community to slacken its natural rate of increase is an essential +phenomenon of all advanced civilization. The more intelligent nations have +manifested the tendency first, and in each nation the more educated +classes have taken the lead, but it is only a matter of time to bring all +civilized nations, and all social classes in each nation, into line.[429] +This movement, we have to remember--in opposition to the ignorant outcry +of certain would-be moralists and politicians--is a beneficent movement. +It means a greater regard to the quality than to the quantity of the +increase; it involves the possibility of combating successfully the evils +of high mortality, disease, overcrowding, and all the manifold misfortunes +which inevitably accompany a too exuberant birthrate. For it is only in a +community which increases slowly that it is possible to secure the +adequate economic adjustment and environmental modifications necessary for +a sane and wholesome civic and personal life.[430] If those persons who +raise the cry of "race suicide" in face of the decline of the birthrate +really had the knowledge and intelligence to realize the manifold evils +which they are invoking they would deserve to be treated as criminals. + +On the practical side a knowledge of the possibility of preventing +conception has, doubtless, never been quite extinct in civilization and +even in lower stages of culture, though it has mostly been utilized for +ends of personal convenience or practiced in obedience to conventional +social rules which demanded chastity, and has only of recent times been +made subservient to the larger interests of society and the elevation of +the race. The theoretical basis of the control of procreation, on its +social and economic, as distinct from its eugenic, aspects, may be said to +date from Malthus's famous _Essay on Population_, first published in 1798, +an epoch-marking book,--though its central thesis is not susceptible of +actual demonstration,--since it not only served as the starting-point of +the modern humanitarian movement for the control of procreation, but also +furnished to Darwin (and independently to Wallace also) the fruitful idea +which was finally developed into the great evolutionary theory of natural +selection. + +Malthus, however, was very far from suggesting that the control of +procreation, which he advocated for the benefit of mankind, should be +exercised by the introduction of preventive methods into sexual +intercourse. He believed that civilization involved an increased power of +self-control, which would make it possible to refrain altogether from +sexual intercourse, when such self-restraint was demanded in the interests +of humanity. Later thinkers realized, however, that, while it is +undoubtedly true that civilization involves greater forethought and +greater self-control, we cannot anticipate that those qualities should be +developed to the extent demanded by Malthus, especially when the impulse +to be controlled is of so powerful and explosive a nature. + +James Mill was the pioneer in advocating Neo-Malthusian methods, though he +spoke cautiously. In 1818, in the article "Colony" in the supplement to +the _Encyclopædia Britannica_, after remarking that the means of checking +the unrestricted increase of the population constitutes "the most +important practical problem to which the wisdom of the politician and +moralist can be applied," he continued: "If the superstitions of the +nursery were discarded, and the principle of utility kept steadily in +view, a solution might not be very difficult to be found." Four years +later, James Mill's friend, the Radical reformer, Francis Place, more +distinctly expressed the thought that was evidently in Mill's mind. After +enumerating the facts concerning the necessity of self-control in +procreation and the evils of early marriage, which he thinks ought to be +clearly taught, Place continues: "If a hundredth, perhaps a thousandth +part of the pains were taken to teach these truths, that are taken to +teach dogmas, a great change for the better might, in no considerable +space of time, be expected to take place in the appearance and the habits +of the people. If, above all, it were once clearly understood that it was +not disreputable for married persons to avail themselves of such +precautionary means as would, without being injurious to health, or +destructive of female delicacy, prevent conception, a sufficient check +might at once be given to the increase of population beyond the means of +subsistence; vice and misery, to a prodigious extent, might be removed +from society, and the object of Mr. Malthus, Mr. Godwin, and of every +philanthropic person, be promoted, by the increase of comfort, of +intelligence, and of moral conduct, in the mass of the population. The +course recommended will, I am fully persuaded, at some period be pursued +by the people even if left to themselves."[431] + +It was not long before Place's prophetic words began to be realized, and +in another half century the movement was affecting the birthrate of all +civilized lands, though it can scarcely yet be said that justice has been +done to the pioneers who promoted it in the face of much persecution from +the ignorant and superstitious public whom they sought to benefit. In +1831, Robert Dale Owen, the son of Robert Owen, published his _Moral +Physiology_, setting forth the methods of preventing conception. A little +later the brothers George and Charles Drysdale (born 1825 and 1829), two +ardent and unwearying philanthropists, devoted much of their energy to the +propagation of Neo-Malthusian principles. George Drysdale, in 1854, +published his _Elements of Social Science_, which during many years had +an enormous circulation all over Europe in eight different languages. It +was by no means in every respect a scientific or sound work, but it +certainly had great influence, and it came into the hands of many who +never saw any other work on sexual topics. Although the Neo-Malthusian +propagandists of those days often met with much obloquy, their cause was +triumphantly vindicated in 1876, when Charles Bradlaugh and Mrs. Besant, +having been prosecuted for disseminating Neo-Malthusian pamphlets, the +charge was dismissed, the Lord Chief Justice declaring that so ill-advised +and injudicious a charge had probably never before been made in a court of +justice. This trial, even by its mere publicity and apart from its issue, +gave an enormous impetus to the Neo-Malthusian movement. It is well known +that the steady decline in the English birthrate begun in 1877, the year +following the trial. There could be no more brilliant illustration of the +fact, that what used to be called "the instruments of Providence" are +indeed unconscious instruments in bringing about great ends which they +themselves were far from either intending or desiring. + + In 1877, Dr. C.R. Drysdale founded the Malthusian League, and + edited a periodical, _The Malthusian_, aided throughout by his + wife, Dr. Alice Drysdale Vickery. He died in 1907. (The noble and + pioneering work of the Drysdales has not yet been adequately + recognized in their own country; an appreciative and + well-informed article by Dr. Hermann Rohleder, "Dr. C.R. + Drysdale, Der Hauptvortreter der Neumalthusianische Lehre," + appeared in the _Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft_, March, + 1908). There are now societies and periodicals in all civilized + countries for the propagation of Neo-Malthusian principles, as + they are still commonly called, though it would be desirable to + avoid the use of Malthus's name in this connection. In the + medical profession, the advocacy of preventive methods of sexual + intercourse, not on social, but on medical and hygienic grounds, + began same thirty years ago, though in France, at an earlier + date, Raciborski advocated the method of avoiding the + neighborhood of menstruation. In Germany, Dr. Mensinga, the + gynæcologist, is the most prominent advocate, on medical and + hygienic grounds, of what he terms "facultative sterility," which + he first put forward about 1889. In Russia, about the same time, + artificial sterility was first openly advocated by the + distinguished gynæcologist, Professor Ott, at the St. Petersburg + Obstetric and Gynæcological Society. Such medical + recommendations, in particular cases, are now becoming common. + + There are certain cases in which a person ought not to marry at + all; this is so, for instance, when there has been an attack of + insanity; it can never be said with certainty that a person who + has had one attack of insanity will not have another, and persons + who have had such attacks ought not, as Blandford says (Lumleian + Lectures on Insanity, _British Medical Journal_, April 20, 1895), + "to inflict on their partner for life, the anxiety, and even + danger, of another attack." There are other and numerous cases in + which marriage may be permitted, or may have already taken place, + under more favorable circumstances, but where it is, or has + become, highly desirable that there should be no children. This + is the case when a first attack of insanity occurs after + marriage, the more urgently if the affected party is the wife, + and especially if the disease takes the form of puerperal mania. + "What can be more lamentable," asks Blandford (loc. cit.), "than + to see a woman break down in childbed, recover, break down again + with the next child, and so on, for six, seven, or eight + children, the recovery between each being less and less, until + she is almost a chronic maniac?" It has been found, moreover, by + Tredgold (_Lancet_, May 17, 1902), that among children born to + insane mothers, the mortality is twice as great as the ordinary + infantile mortality, in even the poorest districts. In cases of + unions between persons with tuberculous antecedents, also, it is + held by many (e.g., by Massalongo, in discussing tuberculosis and + marriage at the Tuberculosis Congress, at Naples, in 1900) that + every precaution should be taken to make the marriage childless. + In a third class of cases, it is necessary to limit the children + to one or two; this happens in some forms of heart disease, in + which pregnancy has a progressively deteriorating effect on the + heart (Kisch, _Therapeutische Monatsheft_, Feb., 1898, and + _Sexual Life of Woman_; Vinay, _Lyon Medical_, Jan. 8, 1889); in + some cases of heart disease, however, it is possible that, though + there is no reason for prohibiting marriage, it is desirable for + a woman not to have any children (J.F. Blacker, "Heart Disease in + Relation to Pregnancy," _British Medical Journal_, May 25, 1907). + + In all such cases, the recommendation of preventive methods of + intercourse is obviously an indispensable aid to the physician in + emphasizing the supremacy of hygienic precautions. In the absence + of such methods, he can never be sure that his warnings will be + heard, and even the observance of his advice would be attended + with various undesirable results. It sometimes happens that a + married couple agree, even before marriage, to live together + without sexual relations, but, for various reasons, it is seldom + found possible or convenient to maintain this resolution for a + long period. + +It is the recognition of these and similar considerations which has +led--though only within recent years--on the one hand, as we have seen, to +the embodiment of the control of procreation into the practical morality +of all civilized nations, and, on the other hand, to the assertion, now +perhaps without exception, by all medical authorities on matters of sex +that the use of the methods of preventing conception is under certain +circumstances urgently necessary and quite harmless.[432] It arouses a +smile to-day when we find that less than a century ago it was possible for +an able and esteemed medical author to declare that the use of "various +abominable means" to prevent conception is "based upon a most presumptuous +doubt in the conservative power of the Creator."[433] + +The adaptation of theory to practice is not yet complete, and we could not +expect that it should be so, for, as we have seen, there is always an +antagonism between practical morality and traditional morality. From time +to time flagrant illustrations of this antagonism occur.[434] Even in +England, which played a pioneering part in the control of procreation, +attempts are still made--sometimes in quarters where we have a right to +expect a better knowledge--to cast discredit on a movement which, since +it has conquered alike scientific approval and popular practice, it is now +idle to call in question. + +It would be out of place to discuss here the various methods which are +used for the control of procreation, or their respective merits and +defects. It is sufficient to say that the condom or protective sheath, +which seems to be the most ancient of all methods of preventing +conception, after withdrawal, is now regarded by nearly all authorities +as, when properly used, the safest, the most convenient, and the most +harmless method.[435] This is the opinion of Krafft-Ebing, of Moll, of +Schrenck-Notzing, of Löwenfeld, of Forel, of Kisch, of Fürbringer, to +mention only a few of the most distinguished medical authorities.[436] + + There is some interest in attempting to trace the origin and + history of the condom, though it seems impossible to do so with + any precision. It is probable that, in a rudimentary form, such + an appliance is of great antiquity. In China and Japan, it would + appear, rounds of oiled silk paper are used to cover the mouth of + the womb, at all events, by prostitutes. This seems the simplest + and most obvious mechanical method of preventing conception, and + may have suggested the application of a sheath to the penis as a + more effectual method. In Europe, it is in the middle of the + sixteenth century, in Italy, that we first seem to hear of such + appliances, in the shape of linen sheaths, adapted to the shape + of the penis; Fallopius recommended the use of such an appliance. + Improvements in the manufacture were gradually devised; the cæcum + of the lamb was employed, and afterwards, isinglass. It appears + that a considerable improvement in the manufacture took place in + the seventeenth or eighteenth century, and this improvement was + generally associated with England. The appliance thus became + known as the English cape or mantle, the "capote anglaise," or + the "redingote anglaise," and, under the latter name, is referred + to by Casanova, in the middle of the eighteenth century + (Casanova, _Mémoires_, ed. Garnier, vol. iv, p. 464); Casanova + never seems, however, to have used these redingotes himself, not + caring, he said, "to shut myself up in a piece of dead skin in + order to prove that I am perfectly alive." These capotes--then + made of goldbeaters' skin--were, also, it appears, known at an + earlier period to Mme. de Sévigné, who did not regard them with + favor, for, in one of her letters, she refers to them as + "cuirasses contre la volupté et toiles d'arraignée contre le + mal." The name, "condom," dates from the eighteenth century, + first appearing in France, and is generally considered to be that + of an English physician, or surgeon, who invented, or, rather, + improved the appliance. Condom is not, however, an English name, + but there is an English name, Condon, of which "condom" may well + be a corruption. This supposition is strengthened by the fact + that the word sometimes actually was written "condon." Thus, in + lines quoted by Bachaumont, in his _Diary_ (Dec. 15, 1773), and + supposed to be addressed to a former ballet dancer who had become + a prostitute, I find:-- + + "Du _condon_ cependant, vous connaissez l'usage, + * * * * * + "Le _condon_, c'est la loi, ma fille, et les prophètes!" + + The difficulty remains, however, of discovering any Englishman of + the name of Condon, who can plausibly be associated with the + condom; doubtless he took no care to put the matter on record, + never suspecting the fame that would accrue to his invention, or + the immortality that awaited his name. I find no mention of any + Condon in the records of the College of Physicians, and at the + College of Surgeons, also, where, indeed, the old lists are very + imperfect, Mr. Victor Plarr, the librarian, after kindly making a + search, has assured me that there is no record of the name. Other + varying explanations of the name have been offered, with more or + less assurance, though usually without any proofs. Thus, Hyrtl + (_Handbuch der Topographischen Anatomic_, 7th ed., vol. ii, p. + 212) states that the condom was originally called gondom, from + the name of the English discoverer, a Cavalier of Charles II's + Court, who first prepared it from the amnion of the sheep; Gondom + is, however, no more an English name than Condom. There happens + to be a French town, in Gascony, called Condom, and Bloch + suggests, without any evidence, that this furnished the name; if + so, however, it is improbable that it would have been unknown in + France. Finally, Hans Ferdy considers that it is derived from + "condus"--that which preserves--and, in accordance with his + theory, he terms the condom a condus. + + The early history of the condom is briefly discussed by various + writers, as by Proksch, _Die Vorbauung der Venerischen + Krankheiten_, p. 48; Bloch, _Sexual Life of Our Time_, Chs. XV + and XXVIII; Cabanès, _Indiscretions de l'Histoire_, p. 121, etc. + +The control of procreation by the prevention of conception has, we have +seen, become a part of the morality of civilized peoples. There is another +method, not indeed for preventing conception, but for limiting offspring, +which is of much more ancient appearance in the world, though it has at +different times been very differently viewed and still arouses widely +opposing opinions. This is the method of abortion. + +While the practice of abortion has by no means, like the practice of +preventing conception, become accepted in civilization, it scarcely +appears to excite profound repulsion in a large proportion of the +population of civilized countries. The majority of women, not excluding +educated and highly moral women, who become pregnant against their wish +contemplate the possibility of procuring abortion without the slightest +twinge of conscience, and often are not even aware of the usual +professional attitude of the Church, the law, and medicine regarding +abortion. Probably all doctors have encountered this fact, and even so +distinguished and correct a medico-legist as Brouardel stated[437] that he +had been not infrequently solicited to procure abortion, for themselves or +their wet-nurses, by ladies who looked on it as a perfectly natural thing, +and had not the least suspicion that the law regarded the deed as a crime. + +It is not, therefore, surprising that abortion is exceedingly common in +all civilized and progressive countries. It cannot, indeed, unfortunately, +be said that abortion has been conducted in accordance with eugenic +considerations, nor has it often been so much as advocated from the +eugenic standpoint. But in numerous classes of cases of undesired +pregnancy, occurring in women of character and energy, not accustomed to +submit tamely to conditions they may not have sought, and in any case +consider undesirable, abortion is frequently resorted to. It is usual to +regard the United States as a land in which the practice especially +flourishes, and certainly a land in which the ideal of chastity for +unmarried women, of freedom for married women, of independence for all, is +actively followed cannot fail to be favorable to the practice of abortion. +But the way in which the prevalence of abortion is proclaimed in the +United States is probably in large part due to the honesty of the +Americans in setting forth, and endeavoring to correct, what, rightly or +wrongly, they regard as social defects, and may not indicate any real +pre-eminence in the practice. Comparative statistics are difficult, and it +is certainly true that abortion is extremely common in England, in France, +and in Germany. It is probable that any national differences may be +accounted for by differences in general social habits and ideals. Thus in +Germany, where considerable sexual freedom is permitted to unmarried women +and married women are very domesticated, abortion may be less frequent +than in France where purity is stringently demanded from the young girl, +while the married woman demands freedom for work and for pleasure. But +such national differences, if they exist, are tending to be levelled down, +and charges of criminal abortion are constantly becoming more common in +Germany; though this increase, again, may be merely due to greater zeal in +pursuing the offence. + + Brouardel (op. cit., p. 39) quotes the opinion that, in New York, + only one in every thousand abortions is discovered. Dr. J.F. + Scott (_The Sexual Instinct_, Ch. VIII), who is himself strongly + opposed to the practice, considers that in America, the custom of + procuring abortion has to-day reached "such vast proportions as + to be almost beyond belief," while "countless thousands" of cases + are never reported. "It has increased so rapidly in our day and + generation," Scott states, "that it has created surprise and + alarm in the minds of all conscientious persons who are informed + of the extent to which it is carried." (The assumption that those + who approve of abortion are necessarily not "conscientious + persons" is, as we shall see, mistaken.) The change has taken + place since 1840. The Michigan Special Committee on Criminal + Abortion reported in 1881 that, from correspondence with nearly + one hundred physicians, it appeared that there came to the + knowledge of the profession seventeen abortions to every one + hundred pregnancies; to these, the committee believe, may be + added as many more that never came to the physician's knowledge. + The committee further quoted, though without endorsement, the + opinion of a physician who believed that a change is now coming + over public feeling in regard to the abortionist, who is + beginning to be regarded in America as a useful member of + society, and even a benefactor. + + In England, also, there appears to have been a marked increase of + abortion during recent years, perhaps specially marked among the + poor and hard-working classes. A writer in the _British Medical + Journal_ (April 9, 1904, p. 865) finds that abortion is + "wholesale and systematic," and gives four cases occurring in his + practice during four months, in which women either attempted to + produce abortion, or requested him to do so; they were married + women, usually with large families, and in delicate health, and + were willing to endure any suffering, if they might be saved from + further child-bearing. Abortion is frequently effected, or + attempted, by taking "Female Pills," which contain small portions + of lead, and are thus liable to produce very serious symptoms, + whether or not they induce abortion. Professor Arthur Hall, of + Sheffield, who has especially studied this use of lead ("The + Increasing Use of Lead as an Abortifacient," _British Medical + Journal_, March 18, 1905), finds that the practice has lately + become very common in the English Midlands, and is gradually, it + appears, widening its circle. It occurs chiefly among married + women with families, belonging to the working class, and it tends + to become specially prevalent during periods of trade depression + (cf. G. Newman, _Infant Mortality_, p. 81). Women of better + social class resort to professional abortionists, and sometimes + go over to Paris. + + In France, also, and especially in Paris, there has been a great + increase during recent years in the practice of abortion. (See + e.g., a discussion at the Paris Société de Médecine Légale, + _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, May, 1907.) Doléris has + shown (_Bulletin de la Société d'Obstétrique_, Feb., 1905) that + in the Paris Maternités the percentage of abortions in + pregnancies doubled between 1898 and 1904, and Doléris estimates + that about half of these abortions were artificially induced. In + France, abortion is mainly carried on by professional + abortionists. One of these, Mme. Thomas, who was condemned to + penal servitude, in 1891, acknowledged performing 10,000 + abortions during eight years; her charge for the operation was + two francs and upwards. She was a peasant's daughter, brought up + in the home of her uncle, a doctor, whose medical and obstetrical + books she had devoured (A. Hamon, _La France en 1891_, pp. + 629-631). French public opinion is lenient to abortion, + especially to women who perform the operation on themselves; not + many cases are brought into court, and of these, forty per cent. + are acquitted (Eugène Bausset, _L'Avortement Criminel_, Thèse de + Paris, 1907). The professional abortionist is, however, usually + sent to prison. + + In Germany, also, abortion appears to have greatly increased + during recent years, and the yearly number of cases of criminal + abortion brought into the courts was, in 1903, more than double + as many as in 1885. (See, also, Elisabeth Zanzinger, _Geschlecht + und Gesellschaft_, Bd. II, Heft 5; and _Sexual-Probleme_, Jan., + 1908, p. 23.) + +In view of these facts it is not surprising that the induction of abortion +has been permitted and even encouraged in many civilizations. Its +unqualified condemnation is only found in Christendom, and is due to +theoretical notions. In Turkey, under ordinary circumstances, there is no +punishment for abortion. In the classic civilization of Greece and Rome, +likewise, abortion was permitted though with certain qualifications and +conditions. Plato admitted the mother's right to decide on abortion but +said that the question should be settled as early as possible in +pregnancy. Aristotle, who approved of abortion, was of the same opinion. +Zeno and the Stoics regarded the foetus as the fruit of the womb, the soul +being acquired at birth; this was in accordance with Roman law which +decreed that the foetus only became a human being at birth.[438] Among the +Romans abortion became very common, but, in accordance with the +patriarchal basis of early Roman institutions, it was the father, not the +mother, who had the right to exercise it. Christianity introduced a new +circle of ideas based on the importance of the soul, on its immortality, +and the necessity of baptism as a method of salvation from the results of +inherited sin. We already see this new attitude in St. Augustine who, +discussing whether embryos that died in the womb will rise at the +resurrection, says "I make bold neither to affirm nor to deny, although I +fail to see why, if they are not excluded from the number of the dead, +they should not attain to the resurrection of the dead."[439] The +criminality of abortion was, however, speedily established, and the early +Christian Emperors, in agreement with the Church, edicted many fantastic +and extreme penalties against abortion. This tendency continued under +ecclesiastical influence, unrestrained, until the humanitarian movement of +the eighteenth century, when Beccaria, Voltaire, Rousseau and other great +reformers succeeded in turning the tide of public opinion against the +barbarity of the laws, and the penalty of death for abortion was finally +abolished.[440] + +Medical science and practice at the present day--although it can scarcely +be said that it speaks with an absolutely unanimous voice--on the whole +occupies a position midway between that of the classic lawyers and that of +the later Christian ecclesiastics. It is, on the whole, in favor of +sacrificing the foetus whenever the interests of the mother demand such a +sacrifice. General medical opinion is not, however, prepared at present to +go further, and is distinctly disinclined to aid the parents in exerting +an unqualified control over the foetus in the womb, nor is it yet disposed +to practice abortion on eugenic grounds. It is obvious, indeed, that +medicine cannot in this matter take the initiative, for it is the primary +duty of medicine to save life. Society itself must assume the +responsibility of protecting the race. + + Dr. S. Macvie ("Mother _versus_ Child," _Transactions Edinburgh + Obstetrical Society_, vol. xxiv, 1899) elaborately discusses the + respective values of the foetus and the adult on the basis of + life-expectancy, and concludes that the foetus is merely + "a parasite performing no function whatever," and that "unless + the life-expectancy of the child covers the years in which its + potentiality is converted into actuality, the relative values of + the maternal and foetal life will be that of actual as against + potential." This statement seems fairly sound. Ballantyne + (_Manual of Antenatal Pathology: The Foetus_, p. 459) + endeavors to make the statement more precise by saying that "the + mother's life has a value, because she is what she is, while the + foetus only has a possible value, on account of what it may + become." + + Durlacher, among others, has discussed, in careful and cautious + detail, the various conditions in which the physician should, or + should not, induce abortion in the interests of the mother ("Der + Künstliche Abort," _Wiener Klinik_, Aug. and Sept., 1906); so + also, Eugen Wilhelm ("Die Abtreibung und das Recht des Arztes zur + Vernichtung der Leibesfrucht," _Sexual-Probleme_, May and June, + 1909). Wilhelm further discusses whether it is desirable to alter + the laws in order to give the physician greater freedom in + deciding on abortion. He concludes that this is not necessary, + and might even act injuriously, by unduly hampering medical + freedom. Any change in the law should merely be, he considers, in + the direction of asserting that the destruction of the foetus is + not abortion in the legal sense, provided it is indicated by the + rules of medical science. With reference to the timidity of some + medical men in inducing abortion, Wilhelm remarks that, even in + the present state of the law, the physician who conscientiously + effects abortion, in accordance with his best knowledge, even if + mistakenly, may consider himself safe from all legal penalties, + and that he is much more likely to come in conflict with the law + if it can be proved that death followed as a result of his + neglect to induce abortion. + + Pinard, who has discussed the right to control the foetal + life (_Annales de Gynécologie_, vols. lii and liii, 1899 and + 1900), inspired by his enthusiastic propaganda for the salvation + of infant life, is led to the unwarranted conclusion that no one + has the rights of life and death over the foetus; "the infant's + right to his life is an imprescriptible and sacred right, which + no power can take from him." There is a mistake here, unless + Pinard deliberately desires to place himself, like Tolstoy, in + opposition to current civilized morality. So far from the infant + having any "imprescriptible right to life," even the adult has, + in human societies, no such inalienable right, and very much less + the foetus, which is not strictly a human being at all. We assume + the right of terminating the lives of those individuals whose + anti-social conduct makes them dangerous, and, in war, we + deliberately terminate, amid general applause and enthusiasm, the + lives of men who have been specially selected for this purpose on + account of their physical and general efficiency. It would be + absurdly inconsistent to say that we have no rights over the + lives of creatures that have, as yet, no part in human society at + all, and are not so much as born. We are here in presence of a + vestige of ancient theological dogma, and there can be little + doubt that, on the theoretical side at all events, the + "imprescriptible right" of the embryo will go the same way as the + "imprescriptible right" of the spermatozöon. Both rights are + indeed "imprescriptible." + +Of recent years a new, and, it must be admitted, somewhat unexpected, +aspect of this question of abortion has been revealed. Hitherto it has +been a question entirely in the hands of men, first, following the Roman +traditions, in the hands of Christian ecclesiastics, and later, in those +of the professional castes. Yet the question is in reality very largely, +and indeed mainly, a woman's question, and now, more especially in +Germany, it has been actively taken up by women. The Gräfin Gisela +Streitberg occupies the pioneering place in this movement with her book +_Das Recht zur Beiseitigung Keimenden Lebens_, and was speedily followed, +from 1897 onwards, by a number of distinguished women who occupy a +prominent place in the German woman's movement, among others Helene +Stöcker, Oda Olberg, Elisabeth Zanzinger, Camilla Jellinek. All these +writers insist that the foetus is not yet an independent human being, and +that every woman, by virtue of the right over her own body, is entitled to +decide whether it shall become an independent human being. At the Woman's +Congress held in the autumn of 1905, a resolution was passed demanding +that abortion should only be punishable when effected by another person +against the wish of the pregnant women herself.[441] The acceptance of +this resolution by a representative assembly is interesting proof of the +interest now taken by women in the question, and of the strenuous attitude +they are tending to assume. + + Elisabeth Zanzinger ("Verbrechen gegen die Leibesfrucht," + _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Bd. II, Heft 5, 1907) ably and + energetically condemns the law which makes abortion a crime. "A + woman herself is the only legitimate possessor of her own body + and her own health.... Just as it is a woman's private right, and + most intimate concern, to present her virginity as her best gift + to the chosen of her heart, so it is certainly a pregnant woman's + own private concern if, for reasons which seem good to her, she + decides to destroy the results of her action." A woman who + destroys the embryo which might become a burden to the community, + or is likely to be an inferior member of society, this writer + urges, is doing a service to the community, which ought to reward + her, perhaps by granting her special privileges as regards the + upbringing of her other children. Oda Olberg, in a thoughtful + paper ("Ueber den Juristischen Schutz des Keimenden Lebens," _Die + Neue Generation_, June, 1908), endeavors to make clear all that + is involved in the effort to protect the developing embryo + against the organism that carries it, to protect a creature, that + is, against itself and its own instincts. She considers that most + of the women who terminate their pregnancies artificially would + only have produced undesirables, for the normal, healthy, robust + woman has no desire to effect abortion. "There are women who are + psychically sterile, without being physically so, and who possess + nothing of motherhood but the ability to bring forth. These, when + they abort, are simply correcting a failure of Nature." Some of + them, she remarks, by going on to term, become guilty of the far + worse offence of infanticide. As for the women who desire + abortion merely from motives of vanity, or convenience, Oda + Olberg points out that the circles in which these motives rule + are quite able to limit their children without having to resort + to abortion. She concludes that society must protect the young + life in every way, by social hygiene, by laws for the protection + of the workers, by spreading a new morality on the basis of the + laws of heredity. But we need no law to protect the young + creature against its own mother, for a thousand natural forces + are urging the mother to protect her own child, and we may be + sure that she will not disobey these forces without very good + reasons. Camilla Jellinek, again (_Die Strafrechtsreform_, etc., + Heidelberg, 1909), in a powerful and well-informed address before + the Associated German Frauenvereine, at Breslau, argues in the + same sense. + + The lawyers very speedily came to the assistance of the women in + this matter, the more readily, no doubt, since the traditions of + the greatest and most influential body of law already pointed, on + one side at all events, in the same direction. It may, indeed, be + claimed that it was from the side of law--and in Italy, the + classic land of legal reform--that this new movement first begun. + In 1888, Balestrini published, at Turin, his _Aborto, + Infanticidio ed Esposizione d'Infante_, in which he argued that + the penalty should be removed from abortion. It was a very able + and learned book, inspired by large ideas and a humanitarian + spirit, but though its importance is now recognized, it cannot be + said that it attracted much attention on publication. + + It is especially in Germany that, during recent years, lawyers + have followed women reformers, by advocating, more or less + completely, the abolition of the punishment for abortion. So + distinguished an authority as Von Liszt, in a private letter to + Camilla Jellinek (op. cit.), states that he regards the + punishment of abortion as "very doubtful," though he considers + its complete abolition impracticable; he thinks abortion might be + permitted during the early months of pregnancy, thus bringing + about a return of the old view. Hans Gross states his opinion + (_Archiv für Kriminal-Anthropologie_, Bd. XII, p. 345) that the + time is not far distant when abortion will no longer be punished. + Radbruch and Von Lilienthal speak in the same sense. Weinberg has + advocated a change in the law (_Mutterschutz_, 1905, Heft 8), + and Kurt Hiller (_Die Neue Generation_, April, 1909), also from + the legal side, argues that abortion should only be punishable + when effected by a married woman, without the knowledge and + consent of her husband. + +The medical profession, which took the first step in modern times in the +authorization of abortion, has not at present taken any further step. It +has been content to lay down the principle that when the interests of the +mother are opposed to those of the foetus, it is the latter which must be +sacrificed. It has hesitated to take the further step of placing abortion +on the eugenic basis, and of claiming the right to insist on abortion +whenever the medical and hygienic interests of society demand such a step. +This attitude is perfectly intelligible. Medicine has in the past been +chiefly identified with the saving of lives, even of worthless and worse +than worthless lives; "Keep everything alive! Keep everything alive!" +nervously cried Sir James Paget. Medicine has confined itself to the +humble task of attempting to cure evils, and is only to-day beginning to +undertake the larger and nobler task of preventing them. + + "The step from killing the child in the womb to murdering a + person when out of the womb, is a dangerously narrow one," sagely + remarks a recent medical author, probably speaking for many + others, who somehow succeed in blinding themselves to the fact + that this "dangerously narrow step" has been taken by mankind, + only too freely, for thousands of years past, long before + abortion was known in the world. + + Here and there, however, medical authors of repute have advocated + the further extension of abortion, with precautions, and under + proper supervision, as an aid to eugenic progress. Thus, + Professor Max Flesch (_Die Neue Generation_, April, 1909) is in + favor of a change in the law permitting abortion (provided it is + carried out by the physician) in special cases, as when the + mother's pregnancy has been due to force, when she has been + abandoned, or when, in the interests of the community, it is + desirable to prevent the propagation of insane, criminal, + alcoholic, or tuberculous persons. + + In France, a medical man, Dr. Jean Darricarrère, has written a + remarkable novel, _Le Droit d'Avortement_ (1906), which advocates + the thesis that a woman always possesses a complete right to + abortion, and is the supreme judge as to whether she will or not + undergo the pain and risks of childbirth. The question is, here, + however, obviously placed not on medical, but on humanitarian and + feminist grounds. + +We have seen that, alike on the side of practice and of theory, a great +change has taken place during recent years in the attitude towards +abortion. It must, however, clearly be recognized that, unlike the control +of procreation by methods for preventing conception, facultative abortion +has not yet been embodied in our current social morality. If it is +permissible to interpolate a personal opinion, I may say that to me it +seems that our morality is here fairly reasonable.[442] I am decidedly of +opinion that an unrestricted permission for women to practice abortion in +their own interests, or even for communities to practice it in the +interests of the race, would be to reach beyond the stage of civilization +we have at present attained. As Ellen Key very forcibly argues, a +civilization which permits, without protest, the barbarous slaughter of +its carefully selected adults in war has not yet won the right to destroy +deliberately even its most inferior vital products in the womb. A +civilization guilty of so reckless a waste of life cannot safely be +entrusted with this judicial function. The blind and aimless anxiety to +cherish the most hopeless and degraded forms of life, even of unborn life, +may well be a weakness, and since it often leads to incalculable +suffering, even a crime. But as yet there is an impenetrable barrier +against progress in this direction. Before we are entitled to take life +deliberately for the sake of purifying life, we must learn how to preserve +it by abolishing such destructive influences--war, disease, bad industrial +conditions--as are easily within our social power as civilized +nations.[443] + +There is, further, another consideration which seems to me to carry +weight. The progress of civilization is in the direction of greater +foresight, of greater prevention, of a diminished need for struggling with +the reckless lack of prevision. The necessity for abortion is precisely +one of those results of reckless action which civilization tends to +diminish. While we may admit that in a sounder state of civilization a few +cases might still occur when the induction of abortion would be desirable, +it seems probable that the number of such cases will decrease rather than +increase. In order to do away with the need for abortion, and to +counteract the propaganda in its favor, our main reliance must be placed, +on the one hand, on increased foresight in the determination of conception +and increased knowledge of the means for preventing conception,[444] and +on the other hand, on a better provision by the State for the care of +pregnant women, married and unmarried alike, and a practical recognition +of the qualified mother's claim on society.[445] There can be little doubt +that, in many a charge of criminal abortion, the real offence lies at the +door of those who have failed to exercise their social and professional +duty of making known the more natural and harmless methods for preventing +conception, or else by their social attitude have made the pregnant +woman's position intolerable. By active social reform in these two +directions, the new movement in favor of abortion may be kept in check, +and it may even be found that by stimulating such reform that movement has +been beneficial. + +We have seen that the deliberate restraint of conception has become a part +of our civilized morality, and that the practice and theory of facultative +abortion has gained a footing among us. There remains a third and yet more +radical method of controlling procreation, the method of preventing the +possibility of procreation altogether by the performance of castration or +other slighter operation having a like inhibitory effect on reproduction. +The other two methods only effect a single act of union or its results, +but castration affects all subsequent acts of sexual union and usually +destroys the procreative power permanently. + +Castration for various social and other purposes is an ancient and +widespread practice, carried out on men and on animals. There has, +however, been on the whole a certain prejudice against it when applied to +men. Many peoples have attached a very sacred value to the integrity of +the sexual organs. Among some primitive peoples the removal of these +organs has been regarded as a peculiarly ferocious insult, only to be +carried out in moments of great excitement, as after a battle. Medicine +has been opposed to any interference with the sexual organs. The oath +taken by the Greek physicians appears to prohibit castration: "I will not +cut."[446] In modern times a great change has taken place, the castration +of both men and women is commonly performed in diseased conditions; the +same operation is sometimes advocated and occasionally performed in the +hope that it may remove strong and abnormal sexual impulses. And during +recent years castration has been invoked in the cause of negative +eugenics, to a greater extent, indeed, on account of its more radical +character, than either the prevention of conception or abortion. + +The movement in favor of castration appears to have begun in the United +States, where various experiments have been made in embodying it in law. +It was first advocated merely as a punishment for criminals, and +especially sexual offenders, by Hammond, Everts, Lydston and others. From +this point of view, however, it seems to be unsatisfactory and perhaps +illegitimate. In many cases castration is no punishment at all, and indeed +a positive benefit. In other cases, when inflicted against the subject's +will, it may produce very disturbing mental effects, leading in already +degenerate or unbalanced persons to insanity, criminality, and anti-social +tendencies generally, much more dangerous than the original state. +Eugenic considerations, which were later brought forward, constitute a +much sounder argument for castration; in this case the castration is +carried out, by no means in order to inflict a barbarous and degrading +punishment, but, with the subject's consent, in order to protect the +community from the risk of useless or mischievous members. + + The fact that castration can no longer be properly considered a + punishment, is shown by the possibility of deliberately seeking + the operation simply for the sake of convenience, as a preferable + and most effective substitute for the adoption of preventive + methods in sexual intercourse. I am only at present acquainted + with one case in which this course has been adopted. This subject + is a medical man (of Puritan New England ancestry) with whose + sexual history, which is quite normal, I have been acquainted for + a long time past. His present age is thirty-nine. A few years + since, having a sufficiently large family, he adopted preventive + methods of intercourse. The subsequent events I narrate in his + own words: "The trouble, forethought, etc., rendered necessary by + preventive measures, grew more and more irksome to me as the + years passed by, and finally, I laid the matter before another + physician, and on his assurances, and after mature deliberation + with my wife, was operated on some time since, and rendered + sterile by having the vas deferens on each side exposed through a + slit in the scrotum, then tied in two places with silk and + severed between the ligatures. This was done under cocaine + infiltrative anæsthesia, and was not so extremely painful, though + what pain there was (dragging the cord out through the slit, + etc.) seemed very hard to endure. I was not out of my office a + single day, nor seriously disturbed in any way. In six days all + stitches in the scrotum were removed, and in three weeks I + abandoned the suspensory bandage that had been rendered necessary + by the extreme sensitiveness of the testicles and cord. + + "The operation has proved a most complete success in every way. + Sexual functions are _absolutely unaffected in any way + whatsoever_. There is no sense of discomfort or uneasiness in the + sexual tract, and what seems strangest of all to me, is the fact + that the semen, so far as one can judge by ordinary means of + observation, is undiminished in quantity and unchanged in + character. (Of course, the microscope would reveal its fatal + lack.) + + "My wife is delighted at having fear banished from our love, and, + taken all in all, it certainly seems as if life would mean more + to us both. Incidentally, the health of both of us seems better + than usual, particularly so in my wife's case, and this she + attributes to a soothing influence that is attained by allowing + the seminal fluid to be deposited in a perfectly normal manner, + and remain in contact with the vaginal secretions until it + naturally passes off. + + "This operation being comparatively new, and, as yet, not often + done on others than the insane, criminal, etc., I thought it + might be of interest to you. If I shed even the faintest ray of + light on this greatest of all human problems ... I shall be glad + indeed." + + Such a case, with its so far satisfactory issue, certainly + deserves to be placed on record, though it may well be that at + present it will not be widely imitated. + +The earliest advocacy of castration, which I have met with as a part of +negative eugenics, for the specific "purpose of prophylaxis as applied to +race improvement and the protection of society," is by Dr. F.E. Daniel, of +Texas, and dates from 1893.[447] Daniel mixed up, however, somewhat +inextricably, castration as a method of purifying the race, a method which +can be carried out with the concurrence of the individual operated on, +with castration as a punishment, to be inflicted for rape, sodomy, +bestiality, pederasty and even habitual masturbation, the method of its +performance, moreover, to be the extremely barbarous and primitive method +of total ablation of the sexual organs. In more recent years somewhat more +equitable, practical, and scientific methods of castration have been +advocated, not involving the removal of the sexual glands or organs, and +not as a punishment, but simply for the sake of protecting the community +and the race from the burden of probably unproductive and possibly +dangerous members. Näcke has, from 1899 onwards, repeatedly urged the +social advantages of this measure.[448] The propagation of the inferior +elements of society, Näcke insists, brings unhappiness into the family and +is a source of great expense to the State. He regards castration as the +only effective method of prevention, and concludes that it is, therefore, +our duty to adopt it, just as we have adopted vaccination, taking care to +secure the consent of the subject himself or his guardian, of the civil +authorities, and, if necessary, of a committee of experts. Professor +Angelo Zuccarelli of Naples has also, from 1899 onwards, emphasized the +importance of castration in the sterilization of the epileptic, the insane +of various classes, the alcoholic, the tuberculous, and instinctive +criminals, the choice of cases for operation to be made by a commission of +experts who would examine school-children, candidates for public +employments, or persons about to marry.[449] This movement rapidly gained +ground, and in 1905 at the annual meeting of Swiss alienists it was +unanimously agreed that the sterilization of the insane is desirable, and +that it is necessary that the question should be legally regulated. It is +in Switzerland, indeed, that the first steps have been taken in Europe to +carry out castration as a measure of social prophylaxis. The sixteenth +yearly report (1907) of the Cantonal asylum at Wil describes four cases of +castration, two in men and two in women, performed--with the permission of +the patients and the civil authorities--for social reasons; both women had +previously had illegitimate children who were a burden on the community, +and all four patients were sexually abnormal; the operation enabled the +patients to be liberated and to work, and the results were considered in +every respect satisfactory to all concerned.[450] + + The introduction of castration as a method of negative eugenics + has been facilitated by the use of new methods of performing it + without risk, and without actual removal of the testes or + ovaries. For men, there is the simple method of vasectomy, as + recommended by Näcke and many others. For women, there is the + corresponding, and almost equally simple and harmless method of + Kehrer, by section and ligation of the Fallopian tubes through + the vagina, as recommended by Kisch, or Rose's very similar + procedure, easily carried out in a few minutes by an experienced + hand, as recommended by Zuccarelli. + + It has been found that repeated exposure to the X-rays produces + sterility in both sexes, alike in animals and men, and X-ray + workers have to adopt various precautions to avoid suffering from + this effect. It has been suggested that the application of the + X-rays would be a good substitute for castration; it appears that + the effects of the application are only likely to last a few + years, which, in some doubtful cases, might be an advantage. (See + _British Medical Journal_, Aug. 13, 1904; ib., March 11, 1905; + ib., July 6, 1907.) + +It is scarcely possible, it seems to me, to view castration as a method of +negative eugenics with great enthusiasm. The recklessness, moreover, with +which it is sometimes proposed to apply it by law--owing no doubt to the +fact that it is not so obviously repulsive as the less radical procedure +of abortion--ought to render us very cautious. We must, too, dismiss the +idea of castration as a punishment; as such it is not merely barbarous but +degrading and is unlikely to have a beneficial effect. As a method of +negative eugenics it should never be carried out except with the subject's +consent. The fact that in some cases it might be necessary to enforce +seclusion in the absence of castration would doubtless be a fact exerting +influence in favor of such consent; but the consent is essential if the +subject of the operation is to be safeguarded from degradation. A man who +has been degraded and embittered by an enforced castration might not be +dangerous to posterity, but might very easily become a dangerous member of +the society in which he actually lived. With due precautions and +safeguards, castration may doubtless play a certain part in the elevation +and improvement of the race.[451] + +The methods we have been considering, in so far as they limit the +procreative powers of the less healthy and efficient stocks in a +community, are methods of eugenics. It must not, however, be supposed that +they are the whole of eugenics, or indeed that they are in any way +essential to a eugenic scheme. Eugenics is concerned with the whole of the +agencies which elevate and improve the human breed; abortion and +castration are methods which may be used to this end, but they are not +methods of which everyone approves, nor is it always clear that the ends +they effect would not better be attained by other methods; in any case +they are methods of negative eugenics. There remains the field of positive +eugenics, which is concerned, not with the elimination of the inferior +stocks but with ascertaining which are the superior stocks and with +furthering their procreative power. + +While the necessity of refraining from procreation is no longer a bar to +marriage, the question of whether two persons ought to marry each other +still remains in the majority of cases a serious question from the +standpoint of positive as well as of negative eugenics, for the normal +marriage cannot fail to involve children, as, indeed, its chief and most +desirable end. We have to consider not merely what are the stocks or the +individuals that are unfit to breed, but also what are these stocks or +individuals that are most fit to breed, and under what conditions +procreation may best be effected. The present imperfection of our +knowledge on these questions emphasizes the need for care and caution in +approaching their consideration. + + It may be fitting, at this point, to refer to the experiment of + the Oneida Community in establishing a system of scientific + propagation, under the guidance of a man whose ability and + distinction as a pioneer are only to-day beginning to be + adequately recognized. John Humphrey Noyes was too far ahead of + his own day to be recognized at his true worth; at the most, he + was regarded as the sagacious and successful founder of a sect, + and his attempts to apply eugenics to life only aroused ridicule + and persecution, so that he was, unfortunately, compelled by + outside pressure to bring a most instructive experiment to a + premature end. His aim and principle are set forth in an _Essay + on Scientific Propagation_, printed some forty years ago, which + discusses problems that are only now beginning to attract the + attention of the practical man, as within the range of social + politics. When Noyes turned his vigorous and practical mind to + the question of eugenics, that question was exclusively in the + hands of scientific men, who felt all the natural timidity of the + scientific man towards the realization of his proposals, and who + were not prepared to depart a hair's breadth from the + conventional customs of their time. The experiment of Noyes, at + Oneida, marked a new stage in the history of eugenics; whatever + might be the value of the experiment--and a first experiment + cannot well be final--with Noyes the questions of eugenics passed + beyond the purely academic stage in which, from the time of + Plato, they had peacefully reposed. "It is becoming clear," Noyes + states at the outset, "that the foundations of scientific society + are to be laid in the scientific propagation of human beings." In + doing this, we must attend to two things: blood (or heredity) and + training; and he puts blood first. In that, he was at one with + the most recent biometrical eugenists of to-day ("the nation has + for years been putting its money on 'Environment,' when + 'Heredity' wins in a canter," as Karl Pearson prefers to put it), + and at the same time revealed the breadth of his vision in + comparison with the ordinary social reformer, who, in that day, + was usually a fanatical believer in the influence of training and + surroundings. Noyes sets forth the position of Darwin on the + principles of breeding, and the step beyond Darwin, which had + been taken by Galton. He then remarks that, when Galton comes to + the point where it is necessary to advance from theory to the + duties the theory suggests, he "subsides into the meekest + conservatism." (It must be remembered that this was written at an + early stage in Galton's work.) This conclusion was entirely + opposed to Noyes' practical and religious temperament. "Duty is + plain; we say we ought to do it--we want to do it; but we cannot. + The law of God urges us on; but the law of society holds us back. + The boldest course is the safest. Let us take an honest and + steady look at the law. It is only in the timidity of ignorance + that the duty seems impracticable." Noyes anticipated Galton in + regarding eugenics as a matter of religion. + + Noyes proposed to term the work of modern science in propagation + "Stirpiculture," in which he has sometimes been followed by + others. He considered that it is the business of the + stirpiculturist to keep in view both quantity and quality of + stocks, and he held that, without diminishing quantity, it was + possible to raise the quality by exercising a very stringent + discrimination in selecting males. At this point, Noyes has been + supported in recent years by Karl Pearson and others, who have + shown that only a relatively small portion of a population is + needed to produce the next generation, and that, in fact, twelve + per cent. of one generation in man produces fifty per cent. of + the next generation. What we need to ensure is that this small + reproducing section of the population shall be the best adapted + for the purpose. "The _quantity_ of production will be in direct + proportion to the number of fertile females," as Noyes saw the + question, "and the _value_ produced, so far as it depends on + selection, will be nearly in inverse proportion to the number of + fertilizing males." In this matter, Noyes anticipated Ehrenfels. + The two principles to be held in mind were, "Breed from the + best," and "Breed in-and-in," with a cautious and occasional + introduction of new strains. (It may be noted that Reibmayr, in + his recent _Entwicklungsgeschichte des Genics und Talentes_, + argues that the superior races, and superior individuals, in the + human species, have been produced by an unconscious adherence to + exactly these principles.) "By segregating superior families, and + by breeding these in-and-in, superior varieties of human beings + might be produced, which would be comparable to the thoroughbreds + in all the domestic races." He illustrates this by the early + history of the Jews. + + Noyes finally criticises the present method, or lack of method, + in matters of propagation. Our marriage system, he states, + "leaves mating to be determined by a general scramble." By + ignoring, also, the great difference between the sexes in + reproductive power, it "restricts each man, whatever may be his + potency and his value, to the amount of production of which one + woman, chosen blindly, may be capable." Moreover, he continues, + "practically it discriminates against the best, and in favor of + the worst; for, while the good man will be limited by his + conscience to what the law allows, the bad man, free from moral + check, will distribute his seed beyond the legal limits, as + widely as he dares." "We are safe every way in saying that there + is no possibility of carrying the two precepts of scientific + propagation into an institution which pretends to no + discrimination, allows no suppression, gives no more liberty to + the best than to the worst, and which, in fact, must inevitably + discriminate the wrong way, so long as the inferior classes are + most prolific and least amenable to the admonitions of science + and morality." In modifying our sexual institutions, Noyes + insists there are two essential points to remember: the + preservation of liberty, and the preservation of the home. There + must be no compulsion about human scientific propagation; it must + be autonomous, directed by self-government, "by the free choice + of those who love science well enough to 'make themselves eunuchs + for the Kingdom of Heaven's sake.'" The home, also, must be + preserved, since "marriage is the best thing for man as he is;" + but it is necessary to enlarge the home, for, "if all could learn + to love other children than their own, there would be nothing to + hinder scientific propagation in the midst of homes far better + than any that now exist." + + This memorable pamphlet contains no exposition of the precise + measures adopted by the Oneida Community to carry out these + principles. The two essential points were, as we know, "male + continence" (see _ante_ p. 553), and the enlarged family, in + which all the men were the actual or potential mates of all the + women, but no union for propagation took place, except as the + result of reason and deliberate resolve. "The community," says + H.J. Seymour, one of the original members (_The Oneida + Community_, 1894, p. 5), "was a _family_, as distinctly separated + from surrounding society as ordinary households. The tie that + bound it together was as permanent, and at least as sacred, as + that of marriage. Every man's care, and the whole of the common + property, was pledged for the maintenance and protection of the + women, and the support and education of the children." It is not + probable that the Oneida Community presented in detail the model + to which human society generally will conform. But even at the + lowest estimate, its success showed, as Lord Morely has pointed + out (_Diderot_, vol. ii, p. 19), "how modifiable are some of + these facts of existing human character which are vulgarly deemed + to be ultimate and ineradicable," and that "the discipline of the + appetites and affections of sex," on which the future of + civilization largely rests, is very far from an impossibility. + + In many respects, the Oneida Community was ahead of its + time,--and even of ours,--but it is interesting to note that, in + the matter of the control of conception, our marriage system has + come into line with the theory and practice of Oneida; it cannot, + indeed, be said that we always control conception in accordance + with eugenic principles, but the fact that such control has now + become a generally accepted habit of civilization, to some extent + deprives Noyes' criticism of our marriage system of the force it + possessed half a century ago. Another change in our customs--the + advocacy, and even the practice, of abortion and + castration--would not have met with his approval; he was strongly + opposed to both, and with the high moral level that ruled his + community, neither was necessary to the maintenance of the + stirpiculture that prevailed. + + The Oneida Community endured for the space of one generation, and + came to an end in 1879, by no means through a recognition of + failure, but by a wise deference to external pressure. Its + members, many of them highly educated, continued to cherish the + memory of the practices and ideals of the Community. Noyes Miller + (the author of _The Strike of a Sex_, and _Zugassant's + Discovery_) to the last, looked with quiet confidence to the time + when, as he anticipated, the great discovery of Noyes would be + accepted and adopted by the world at large. Another member of the + Community (Henry J. Seymour) wrote of the Community long + afterwards that "It was an anticipation and imperfect miniature + of the Kingdom of Heaven on earth." + +Perhaps the commonest type of proposal or attempt to improve the +biological level of the race is by the exclusion of certain classes of +degenerates from marriage, or by the encouragement of better classes of +the community to marry. This seems to be, at present, the most popular +form of eugenics, and in so far as it is not effected by compulsion but is +the outcome of a voluntary resolve to treat the question of the creation +of the race with the jealous care and guardianship which so tremendously +serious, so godlike, a task involves, it has much to be said in its favor +and nothing against it. + +But it is quite another matter when the attempt is made to regulate such +an institution as marriage by law. In the first place we do not yet know +enough about the principles of heredity and the transmissibility of +pathological states to enable us to formulate sound legislative proposals +on this basis. Even so comparatively simple a matter as the relationship +of tuberculosis to heredity can scarcely be said to be a matter of common +agreement, even if it can yet be claimed that we possess adequate material +on which to attain a common agreement. Supposing, moreover, that our +knowledge on all these questions were far more advanced than it is, we +still should not have attained a position in which we could lay down +general propositions regarding the desirability or the undesirability of +certain classes of persons procreating. The question is necessarily an +individual question, and it can only be decided when all the circumstances +of the individual case have been fairly passed in review. + +The objection to any legislative and compulsory regulation of the right to +marry is, however, much more fundamental than the consideration that our +knowledge is at present inadequate. It lies in the extraordinary +confusion, in the minds of those who advocate such legislation, between +legal marriage and procreation. The persons who fall into such confusion +have not yet learnt the alphabet of the subject they presume to dictate +about, and are no more competent to legislate than a child who cannot tell +A from B is competent to read. + +Marriage, in so far as it is the partnership for mutual help and +consolation of two people who in such partnership are free, if they +please, to exercise sexual union, is an elementary right of every person +who is able to reason, who is guilty of no fraud or concealment, and who +is not likely to injure the partner selected, for in that case society is +entitled to interfere by virtue of its duty to protect its members. But +the right to marry, thus understood, in no way involves the right to +procreate. For while marriage _per se_ only affects the two individuals +concerned, and in no way affects the State, procreation, on the other +hand, primarily affects the community which is ultimately made up of +procreated persons, and only secondarily affects the two individuals who +are the instruments of procreation. So that just as the individual couple +has the first right in the question of marriage, the State has the first +right in the question of procreation. The State is just as incompetent to +lay down the law about marriage as the individual is to lay down the law +about procreation. + +That, however, is only one-half of the folly committed by those who would +select the candidates for matrimony by statute. Let us suppose--as is not +indeed easy to suppose--that a community will meekly accept the abstract +prohibitions of the statute book and quietly go home again when the +registrar of marriages informs them that they are shut out from legal +matrimony by the new table of prohibited degrees. An explicit prohibition +to procreate within marriage is an implicit permission to procreate +outside marriage. Thus the undesirable procreation, instead of being +carried out under the least dangerous conditions, is carried out under the +most dangerous conditions, and the net result to the community is not a +gain but a loss. + +What seems usually to happen, in the presence of a formal legislative +prohibition against the marriage of a particular class, is a combination +of various evils. In part the law becomes a dead letter, in part it is +evaded by skill and fraud, in part it is obeyed to give rise to worse +evils. This happened, for instance, in the Terek district of the Caucasus +where, on the demand of a medical committee, priests were prohibited from +marrying persons among whose relatives or ancestry any cases of leprosy +had occurred. So much and such various mischief was caused by this order +that it was speedily withdrawn.[452] + +If we remember that the Catholic Church was occupied for more than a +thousand years in the attempt to impose the prohibition of marriage on its +priesthood,--an educated and trained body of men, who had every spiritual +and worldly motive to accept the prohibition, and were, moreover, brought +up to regard asceticism as the best ideal in life,[453]--we may realize +how absurd it is to attempt to gain the same end by mere casual +prohibitions issued to untrained people with no motives to obey such +prohibitions, and no ideals of celibacy. + +The hopelessness and even absurdity of effecting the eugenic improvement +of the race by merely placing on the statute book prohibitions to certain +classes of people to enter the legal bonds of matrimony as at present +constituted, reveals the weakness of those who undervalue the eugenic +importance of environment. Those who affirm that heredity is everything +and environment nothing seem strangely to forget that it is precisely the +lower classes--those who are most subjected to the influence of bad +environment--who procreate most copiously, most recklessly, and most +disastrously. The restraint of procreation, and a concomitant regard for +heredity, increase _pari passu_ with improvement of the environment and +rise in social well-being. If even already it can be said that probably +fifty per cent. of sexual intercourse--perhaps the most procreatively +productive moiety--takes place outside legal marriage, it becomes obvious +that statutory prohibition to the unfit classes to refrain from legal +marriage merely involves their joining the procreating classes outside +legal matrimony. It is also clear that if we are to neglect the factor of +environment, and leave the lower social classes to the ignorance and +recklessness which are the result of such environment, the only practical +method of eugenics left open is that by castration and abortion. But this +method--if applied on a wholesale scale as it would need to be[454] and +without reference to the consent of the individual--is entirely opposed +to modern democratic feeling. Thus those short-sighted eugenists who +overlook the importance of environment are overlooking the only practical +channel through which their aims can be realized. Attention to procreation +and attention to environment are not, as some have supposed, antagonistic, +but they play harmoniously into each other's hands. The care for +environment leads to a restraint on reckless procreation, and the +restraint of procreation leads to improved environment. + +Legislation on marriage, to be effectual, must be enacted in the home, in +the school, in the doctor's consulting room. Force is helpless here; it is +education that is needed, not merely instruction, but the education of the +conscience and will, and the training of the emotions. + +Legal action may come in to further this process of education, though it +cannot replace it. Thus it is very desirable that when there has been a +concealment of serious disease by a party to a marriage such concealment +should be a ground for divorce. Epilepsy may be taken as typical of the +diseases which should be a bar to procreation, and their concealment +equivalent to an annulment of marriage.[455] In the United States the +Supreme Court of Errors of Connecticut laid it down in 1906 that the +Superior Court has the power to pass a decree of divorce when one of the +parties has concealed the existence of epilepsy. This weighty deliverence, +it has been well said,[456] marks a forward step in human progress. There +are many other seriously pathological conditions in which divorce should +be pronounced, or indeed, occur automatically, except when procreation has +been renounced, for in that case the State is no longer concerned in the +relationship, except to punish any fraud committed by concealment. + + The demand that a medical certificate of health should be + compulsory on marriage, has been especially made in France. In + 1858, Diday, of Lyons, proposed, indeed, that all persons, + without exception, should be compelled to possess a certificate + of health and disease, a kind of sanitary passport. In 1872, + Bertillon (Art. "Demographic," _Dictionnaire Encyclopédique des + Sciences Médicales_) advocated the registration, at marriage, of + the chief anthropological and pathological traits of the + contracting parties (height, weight, color of hair and eyes, + muscular force, size of head, condition of vision, hearing, etc., + deformities and defects, etc.), not so much, however, for the end + of preventing undesirable marriages, as to facilitate the study + and comparison of human groups at particular periods. Subsequent + demands, of a more limited and partial character, for legal + medical certificates as a condition of marriage, have been made + by Fournier (_Syphilis et Mariage_, 1890), Cazalis (_Le Science + et le Mariage_, 1890), and Jullien (_Blenorrhagie et Mariage_, + 1898). In Austria, Haskovec, of Prague ("Contrat Matrimonial et + L'Hygiène Publique," _Comptes-rendus Congrès International de + Médecine_, Lisbon, 1906, Section VII, p. 600), argues that, on + marriage, a medical certificate should be presented, showing that + the subject is exempt from tuberculosis, alcoholism, syphilis, + gonorrhoea, severe mental, or nervous, or other degenerative + state, likely to be injurious to the other partner, or to the + offspring. In America, Rosenberg and Aronstam argue that every + candidate for marriage, male or female, should undergo a strict + examination by a competent board of medical examiners, concerning + (1) Family and Past History (syphilis, consumption, alcoholism, + nervous, and mental diseases), and (2) Status Presens (thorough + examination of all the organs); if satisfactory, a certificate of + matrimonial eligibility would then be granted. It is pointed out + that a measure of this kind would render unnecessary the acts + passed by some States for the punishment by fine, or + imprisonment, of the concealment of disease. Ellen Key also + considers (_Liebe und Ehe_, p. 436) that each party at marriage + should produce a certificate of health. "It seems to me just as + necessary," she remarks, elsewhere (_Century of the Child_, Ch. + I), "to demand medical testimony concerning capacity for + marriage, as concerning capacity for military service. In the one + case, it is a matter of giving life; in the other, of taking it, + although certainly the latter occasion has hitherto been + considered as much the more serious." + + The certificate, as usually advocated, would be a private but + necessary legitimation of the marriage in the eyes of the civil + and religious authorities. Such a step, being required for the + protection alike of the conjugal partner and of posterity, would + involve a new legal organization of the matrimonial contract. + That such demands are so frequently made, is a significant sign + of the growth of moral consciousness in the community, and it is + good that the public should be made acquainted with the urgent + need for them. But it is highly undesirable that they should, at + present, or, perhaps, ever, be embodied in legal codes. What is + needed is the cultivation of the feeling of individual + responsibility, and the development of social antagonism towards + those individuals who fail to recognize their responsibility. It + is the reality of marriage, and not its mere legal forms, that it + is necessary to act upon. + +The voluntary method is the only sound way of approach in this matter. +Duclaux considered that the candidate for marriage should possess a +certificate of health in much the same way as the candidate for life +assurance, the question of professional secrecy, as well as that of +compulsion, no more coming into one question than into the other. There is +no reason why such certificates, of an entirely voluntary character, +should not become customary among those persons who are sufficiently +enlightened to realize all the grave personal, family, and social issues +involved in marriage. The system of eugenic certification, as originated +and developed by Galton, will constitute a valuable instrument for raising +the moral consciousness in this matter. Galton's eugenic certificates +would deal mainly with the natural virtues of superior hereditary +breed--"the public recognition of a natural nobility"--but they would +include the question of personal health and personal aptitude.[457] + +To demand compulsory certificates of health at marriage is indeed to begin +at the wrong end. It would not only lead to evasions and antagonisms but +would probably call forth a reaction. It is first necessary to create an +enthusiasm for health, a moral conscience in matters of procreation, +together with, on the scientific side, a general habit of registering the +anthropological, psychological, and pathological data concerning the +individual, from birth onwards, altogether apart from marriage. The +earlier demands of Diday and Bertillon were thus not only on a sounder but +also a more practicable basis. If such records were kept from birth for +every child, there would be no need for special examination at marriage, +and many incidental ends would be gained. There is difficulty at present +in obtaining such records from the moment of birth, and, so far as I am +aware, no attempts have yet been made to establish their systematic +registration. But it is quite possible to begin at the beginning of school +life, and this is now done at many schools and colleges in England, +America, and elsewhere, more especially as regards anthropological, +physiological, and psychological data, each child being submitted to a +thorough and searching anthropometric examination, and thus furnished with +a systematic statement of his physical condition.[458] This examination +needs to be standardized and generalized, and repeated at fixed intervals. +"Every individual child," as is truly stated by Dr. Dukes, the Physician +to Rugby School, "on his entrance to a public school should be as +carefully and as thoroughly examined as if it were for life insurance." If +this procedure were general from an early age, there would be no hardship +in the production of the record at marriage, and no opportunity for fraud. +The _dossier_ of each person might well be registered by the State, as +wills already are, and, as in the case of wills, become freely open to +students when a century had elapsed. Until this has been done during +several centuries our knowledge of eugenics will remain rudimentary. + + There can be little doubt that the eugenic attitude towards + marriage, and the responsibility of the individual for the future + of the race, is becoming more recognized. It is constantly + happening that persons, about to marry, approach the physician in + a state of serious anxiety on this point. Urquhart, indeed + (_Journal of Mental Science_, April, 1907, p. 277), believes that + marriages are seldom broken off on this ground; this seems, + however, too pessimistic a view, and even when the marriage is + not broken off the resolve is often made to avoid procreation. + Clouston, who emphasizes (_Hygiene of the Mind_, p. 74) the + importance of "inquiries by each of the parties to the + life-contract, by their parents and their doctors, as to + heredity, temperament, and health," is more hopeful of the + results than Urquhart. "I have been very much impressed, of late + years," he writes (_Journal of Mental Science_, Oct., 1907, p. + 710), "with the way in which this subject is taking possession of + intelligent people, by the number of times one is consulted by + young men and young women, proposing to marry, or by their + fathers or mothers. I used to have the feeling in the back of my + mind, when I was consulted, that it did not matter what I said, + it would not make any difference. But it is making a difference; + and I, and others, could tell of scores of marriages which were + put off in consequence of psychiatric medical advice." + + Ellen Key, also, refers to the growing tendency among both men + and women, to be influenced by eugenic consideration in forming + partnerships for life (_Century of the Child_, Ch. I). The + recognition of the eugenic attitude towards marriage, the + quickening of the social and individual conscience in matters of + heredity, as also the systematic introduction of certification + and registration, will be furthered by the growing tendency to + the socialization of medicine, and, indeed, in its absence would + be impossible. (See e.g., Havelock Ellis, _The Nationalization of + Health_.) The growth of the State Medical Organization of Health + is steady and continuous, and is constantly covering a larger + field. The day of the private practitioner of medicine--who was + treated, as Duclaux (_L'Hygiène Sociale_, p. 263) put it, "like a + grocer, whose shop the customer may enter and leave as he + pleases, and when he pleases"--will, doubtless, soon be over. It + is now beginning to be felt that health is far too serious a + matter, not only from the individual but also from the social + point of view, to be left to private caprice. There is, indeed, a + tendency, in some quarters, to fear that some day society may + rush to the opposite extreme, and bow before medicine with the + same unreasoning deference that it once bowed before theology. + That danger is still very remote, nor is it likely, indeed, that + medicine will ever claim any authority of this kind. The spirit + of medicine has, notoriously, been rather towards the assertion + of scepticism than of dogma, and the fanatics in this field will + always be in a hopelessly small minority. + +The general introduction of authentic personal records covering all +essential data--hereditary, anthropometric and pathological--cannot fail +to be a force on the side of positive as well as of negative eugenics, for +it would tend to promote the procreation of the fit as well as restrict +that of the unfit, without any legislative compulsion. With the growth of +education a regard for such records as a preliminary to marriage would +become as much a matter of course as once was the regard to the +restrictions imposed by Canon law, and as still is a regard to money or to +caste. A woman can usually refrain from marrying a man with no money and +no prospects; a man may be passionately in love with a woman of lower +class than himself but he seldom marries her. It needs but a clear general +perception of all that is involved in heredity and health to make eugenic +considerations equally influential. + +A discriminating regard to the quality of offspring will act beneficially +on the side of positive eugenics by substituting the pernicious tendency +to put a premium on excess of childbirth by the more rational method of +putting a premium on the quality of the child. It has been one of the most +unfortunate results of the mania for protesting against that decline of +the birthrate which is always and everywhere the result of civilization, +that there has been a tendency to offer special social or pecuniary +advantages to the parents of large families. Since large families tend to +be degenerate, and to become a tax on the community, since rapid +pregnancies in succession are not only a serious drain on the strength of +the mother but are now known to depreciate seriously the quality of the +offspring, and since, moreover, it is in large families that disease and +mortality chiefly prevail, all the interests of the community are against +the placing of any premium on large families, even in the case of parents +of good stock. The interests of the State are bound up not with the +quantity but with the quality of its citizens, and the premium should be +placed not on the families that reach a certain size but on the individual +children that reach a certain standard; the attainment of this standard +could well be based on observations made from birth to the fifth year. A +premium on this basis would be as beneficial to a State as that on the +merely numerical basis is pernicious. + +This consideration applies with still greater force to the proposals for +the "systematic endowment of motherhood" of which we hear more and more. +So moderate and judicious a social reformer as Mr. Sidney Webb writes: "We +shall have to face the problem of the systematic endowment of motherhood, +and place this most indispensable of all professions upon an honorable +economic basis. At present it is ignored as an occupation, unremunerated, +and in no way honored by the State."[459] True as this statement is, it +must always be remembered that an indispensable preliminary to any +proposal for the endowment of motherhood by the State is a clear +conception of the kind of motherhood which the State requires. To endow +the reckless and indiscriminate motherhood which we see around us, to +encourage, that is, by State aid, the production of citizens a large +proportion of whom the State, if it dared, would like to destroy as unfit, +is too ridiculous a proposal to deserve discussion.[460] The only sound +reason, indeed, for the endowment of motherhood is that it would enable +the State, in its own interests, to further the natural selection of the +fit. + +As to the positive qualities which the State is entitled to endow in its +encouragement of motherhood, it is still too early to speak with complete +assurance. Negative eugenics tends to be ahead of positive eugenics; it is +easier to detect bad stocks than to be quite sure of good stocks. Both on +the scientific side and on the social side, however, we are beginning to +attain a clearer realization of the end to be attained and a more precise +knowledge of the methods of attaining it.[461] + +Even when we have gained a fairly clear conception of the stocks and the +individuals which we are justified in encouraging to undertake the task of +producing fit citizens for the State, the problems of procreation are by +no means at an end. Before we can so much as inquire what are the +conditions under which selected individuals may best procreate, there is +still the initial question to be decided whether those individuals are +both fertile and potent, for this is not guaranteed by the fact that they +belong to good stocks, nor is even the fact that a man and a woman are +fertile with other persons any positive proof that they will be fertile +with each other. Among the large masses of the population who do not seek +to make their unions legal until those unions have proved fertile, this +difficulty is settled in a simple and practical manner. The question is, +however, a serious and hazardous one, in the present state of the marriage +law in most countries, for those classes which are accustomed to bind +themselves in legal marriage without any knowledge of their potency and +fertility with each other. The matter is mostly left to chance, and as +legal marriage cannot usually be dissolved on the ground that there are no +offspring, even although procreation is commonly declared to be the chief +end of marriage, the question assumes much gravity. The ordinary range of +sterility is from seven to fifteen per cent. of all marriages, and in a +very large proportion of these it is a source of great concern. This could +be avoided, in some measure, by examination before marriage, and almost +altogether by ordaining that, as it is only through offspring that a +marriage has any concern for the State, a legal marriage could be +dissolved, after a certain period, at the will of either of the parties, +in the absence of such offspring. + + It was formerly supposed that when a union proved infertile, it + was the wife who was at fault. That belief is long since + exploded, but, even yet, a man is generally far more concerned + about his potency, that is, his ability to perform the mechanical + act of coitus, than about his fertility, that is, his ability to + produce living spermatozoa, though the latter condition is a much + more common source of sterility. "Any man," says Arthur Cooper + (_British Medical Journal_, May 11, 1907), "who has any sexual + defect or malformation, or who has suffered from any disease or + injury of the genito-urinary organs, even though comparatively + trivial or one-sided, and although his copulative power may be + unimpaired, should be looked upon as possibly sterile, until some + sort of evidence to the contrary has been obtained." In case of a + sterile marriage, the possible cause should first be investigated + in the husband, for it is comparatively easy to examine the + semen, and to ascertain if it contains active spermatozoa. + Prinzing, in a comprehensive study of sterile marriages ("Die + Sterilen Ehen," _Zeitschrift für Sozialwissenschaft_, 1904, Heft + 1 and 2), states that in two-fifths of sterile marriages the man + is at fault; one-third of such marriages are the result of + venereal diseases in the husband himself, or transmitted to the + wife. Gonorrhoea is not now considered so important a cause of + sterility as it was a few years ago; Schenk makes it responsible + for only about thirteen per cent. sterile marriages (cf. Kisch, + _The Sexual Life of Woman_). Pinkus (_Archiv für Gynäkologie_, + 1907) found that of nearly five hundred cases in which he + examined both partners, in 24.4 per cent. cases, the sterility + was directly due to the husband, and in 15.8 per cent. cases, + indirectly due, because caused by gonorrhoea with which he had + infected his wife. + + When sterility is due to a defect in the husband's spermatozoa, + and is not discovered, as it usually might be, before marriage, + the question of impregnating the wife by other methods has + occasionally arisen. Divorce on the ground of sterility is not + possible, and, even if it were, the couple, although they wish to + have a child, have not usually any wish to separate. Under these + circumstances, in order to secure the desired end, without + departing from widely accepted rules of morality, the attempt is + occasionally made to effect artificial fecundation by injecting + the semen from a healthy male. Attempts have been made to effect + artificial fecundation by various distinguished men, from John + Hunter to Schwalbe, but it is nearly always very difficult to + effect, and often impossible. This is easy to account for, if we + recall what has already been pointed out (_ante_ p. 577) + concerning the influence of erotic excitement in the woman in + securing conception; it is obviously a serious task for even the + most susceptible woman to evoke erotic enthusiasm _à propos_ of a + medical syringe. Schwalbe, for instance, records a case + (_Deutsche Medizinisches Wochenschrift_, Aug., 1908, p. 510) in + which,--in consequence of the husband's sterility and the wife's + anxiety, with her husband's consent, to be impregnated by the + semen of another man,--he made repeated careful attempts to + effect artificial fecundation; these attempts were, however, + fruitless, and the three parties concerned finally resigned + themselves to the natural method of intercourse, which was + successful. In another case, recorded by Schwalbe, in which the + husband was impotent but not sterile, six attempts were made to + effect artificial fecundation, and further efforts abandoned on + account of the disgust of all concerned. + + Opinion, on the whole, has been opposed to the practice of + artificial fecundation, even apart from the question of the + probabilities of success. Thus, in France, where there is a + considerable literature on the subject, the Paris Medical + Faculty, in 1885, after some hesitation, refused Gérard's thesis + on the history of artificial fecundation, afterwards published + independently. In 1883, the Bordeaux legal tribunal declared that + artificial fecundation was illegitimate, and a social danger. In + 1897, the Holy See also pronounced that the practice is unlawful + ("Artificial Fecundation before the Inquisition," _British + Medical Journal_, March 5, 1898). Apart, altogether, from this + attitude of medicine, law, and Church, it would certainly seem + that those who desire offspring would do well, as a rule, to + adopt the natural method, which is also the best, or else to + abandon to others the task of procreation, for which they are not + adequately equipped. + +When we have ascertained that two individuals both belong to sound and +healthy stocks, and, further, that they are themselves both apt for +procreation, it still remains to consider the conditions under which they +may best effect procreation.[462] There arises, for instance, the +question, often asked, What is the best age for procreation? + +The considerations which weigh in answering this question are of two +different orders, physiological, and social or moral. That is to say, that +it is necessary, on the one hand, that physical maturity should have been +fully attained, and the sexual cells completely developed; while, on the +other hand, it is necessary that the man shall have become able to support +a family, and that both partners shall have received a training in life +adequate to undertake the responsibilities and anxieties involved in the +rearing of children. While there have been variations at different times, +it scarcely appears that, on the whole, the general opinion as to the best +age for procreation has greatly varied in Europe during many centuries. +Hesiod indeed said that a woman should marry about fifteen and a man about +thirty,[463] but obstetricians have usually concluded that, in the +interests alike of the parents and their offspring, the procreative life +should not begin in women before twenty and in men before +twenty-five.[464] After thirty in women and after thirty-five or forty in +men it seems probable that the best conditions for procreation begin to +decline.[465] At the present time, in England and several other civilized +countries, the tendency has been for the age of marriage to fall at an +increasingly late age, on the average some years later than that usually +fixed as the most favorable age for the commencement of the procreative +life. But, on the whole, the average seldom departs widely from the +accepted standard, and there seems no good reason why we should desire to +modify this general tendency. + + At the same time, it by no means follows that wide variations, + under special circumstances, may not only be permissible, but + desirable. The male is capable of procreating, in some cases, + from about the age of thirteen until far beyond eighty, and at + this advanced age, the offspring, even if not notable for great + physical robustness, may possess high intellectual qualities. + (See e.g., Havelock Ellis, _A Study of British Genius_, pp. 120 + et seq.) The range of the procreative age in women begins earlier + (sometimes at eight), though it usually ceases by fifty, or + earlier, in only rare cases continuing to sixty or beyond. Cases + have been reported of pregnancy, or childbirth, at the age of + fifty-nine (e.g., _Lancet_, Aug. 5, 1905, p. 419). Lepage + (_Comptes-rendus Société d'Obstétrique de Paris_, Oct., 1903) + reports a case of a primipara of fifty-seven; the child was + stillborn. Kisch (_Sexual Life of Woman_, Part II) refers to + cases of pregnancy in elderly women, and various references are + given in _British Medical Journal_, Aug. 8, 1903, p. 325. + + Of more importance is the question of early pregnancy. Several + investigators have devoted their attention to this question. + Thus, Spitta (in a Marburg Inaugural Dissertation, 1895) reviewed + the clinical history of 260 labors in primiparæ of 18 and under, + as observed at the Marburg Maternity. He found that the general + health during pregnancy was not below the average of pregnant + women, while the mortality of the child at birth and during the + following weeks was not high, and the mortality of the mother was + by no means high. Picard (in a Paris thesis, 1903) has studied + childbirth in thirty-eight mothers below the age of sixteen. He + found that, although the pelvis is certainly not yet fully + developed in very young girls, the joints and bones are much more + yielding than in the adult, so that parturition, far from being + more difficult, is usually rapid and easy. The process of labor + itself, is essentially normal in these cases, and, even when + abnormalities occur (low insertion of the placenta is a common + anomaly) it is remarkable that the patients do not suffer from + them in the way common among older women. The average weight of + the child was three kilogrammes, or about 6 pounds, 9 ounces; it + sometimes required special care during the first few days after + birth, perhaps because labor in these cases is sometimes slow. + The recovery of the mother was, in every case, absolutely normal, + and the fact that these young mothers become pregnant again more + readily than primiparæ of a more mature age, further contributes + to show that childbirth below the age of sixteen is in no way + injurious to the mother. Gache (_Annales de Gynécologie et + d'Obstétrique_, Dec., 1904) has attended ninety-one labors of + mothers under seventeen, in the Rawson Hospital, Buenos Ayres; + they were of so-called Latin race, mostly Spanish or Italian. + Gache found that these young mothers were by no means more + exposed than others to abortion or to other complications of + pregnancy. Except in four cases of slightly contracted pelvis, + delivery was normal, though rather longer than in older + primiparæ. Damage to the soft parts was, however, rare, and, when + it occurred, in every case rapidly healed. The average weight of + the child was 3,039 grammes, or nearly 6¾ pounds. It may be noted + that most observers find that very early pregnancies occur in + women who begin to menstruate at an unusually early age, that is, + some years before the early pregnancy occurs. + + It is clear, however, that young mothers do remarkably well, + while there is no doubt whatever that they bear unusually fine + infants. Kleinwächter, indeed, found that the younger the mother, + the bigger the child. It is not only physically that the children + of young mothers are superior. Marro has found (_Pubertà_, p. + 257) that the children of mothers under 21 are superior to those + of older mothers both in conduct and intelligence, provided the + fathers are not too old or too young. The detailed records of + individual cases confirm these results, both as regards mother + and child. Thus, Milner (_Lancet_, June 7, 1902) records a case + of pregnancy in a girl of fourteen; the labor pains were very + mild, and delivery was easy. E.B. Wales, of New Jersey, has + recorded the history (reproduced in _Medical Reprints_, Sept. 15, + 1890) of a colored girl who became pregnant at the age of eleven. + She was of medium size, rather tall and slender, but well + developed, and began to menstruate at the age of ten. She was in + good health and spirits during pregnancy, and able to work. + Delivery was easy and natural, not notably prolonged, and + apparently not unduly painful, for there were no moans or + agitation. The child was a fine, healthy boy, weighing not less + than eleven pounds. Mother and child both did well, and there was + a great flow of milk. Whiteside Robertson (_British Medical + Journal_, Jan. 18, 1902) has recorded a case of pregnancy at the + age of thirteen, in a Colonial girl of British origin in Cape + Colony, which is notable from other points of view. During + pregnancy, she was anæmic, and appeared to be of poor development + and doubtfully normal pelvic conformation. Yet delivery took + place naturally, at full term, without difficulty or injury, and + the lying-in period was in every way satisfactory. The baby was + well-proportioned, and weighed 7½ pounds. "I have rarely seen a + primipara enjoy easier labor," concluded Robertson, "and I have + never seen one look forward to the happy realization of + motherhood with greater satisfaction." + + The facts brought forward by obstetricians concerning the good + results of early pregnancy, as regards both mother and child, + have not yet received the attention they deserve. They are, + however, confirmed by many general tendencies which are now + fairly well recognized. The significant fact is known, for + instance, that in mothers over thirty, the proportion of + abortions and miscarriages is twice as great as in mothers + between the ages of fifteen and twenty, who also are superior in + this respect to mothers between the ages of twenty and thirty + (_Statistischer Jahrbuch_, Budapest, 1905). It was, again, proved + by Matthews Duncan, in his Goulstonian lecture, that the chances + of sterility in a woman increase with increase of age. It has, + further, been shown (Kisch, _Sexual Life of Woman_, Part II) that + the older a woman at marriage, the greater the average interval + before the first delivery, a tendency which seems to indicate + that it is the very young woman who is in the condition most apt + for procreation; Kisch is not, indeed, inclined to think that + this applies to women below twenty, but the fact, observed by + other obstetricians, that mothers under eighteen tend to become + pregnant again at an unusually short interval, goes far to + neutralize the exception made by Kisch. It may also be pointed + out that, among children of very young mothers, the sexes are + more nearly equal in number than is the case with older mothers. + This would seem to indicate that we are here in presence of a + normal equilibrium which will decrease as the age of the mother + is progressively disturbed in an abnormal direction. + + The facility of parturition at an early age, it may be noted, + corresponds to an equal facility in physical sexual intercourse, + a fact that is often overlooked. In Russia, where marriage still + takes place early, it was formerly common when the woman was only + twelve or thirteen, and Guttceit (_Dreissig Jahre Praxis_, vol. + i, p. 324) says that he was assured by women who married at this + age that the first coitus presented no especial difficulties. + + There is undoubtedly, at the present time, a considerable amount + of prejudice against early motherhood. In part, this is due to a + failure to realize that women are sexually much more precocious + than men, physically as well as psychically (see _ante_ p. 35). + The difference is about five years. This difference has been + virtually recognized for thousands of years, in the ancient + belief that the age of election for procreation is about twenty, + or less, for women, but about twenty-five for men; and it has + more lately been affirmed by the discovery that, while the male + is never capable of generation before thirteen, the female may, + in occasional instances, become pregnant at eight. (Some of the + recorded examples are quoted by Kisch.) In part, also, there is + an objection to the assumption of responsibilities so serious as + those of motherhood by a young girl, and there is the very + reasonable feeling that the obligations of a permanent marriage + tie ought not to be undertaken at an early age. On the other + hand, apart from the physical advantages, as regards both mother + and infant, on the side of early pregnancies, it is an advantage + for the child to have a young mother, who can devote herself + sympathetically and unreservedly to its interests, instead of + presenting the pathetic spectacle we so often witness in the + middle-aged woman who turns to motherhood when her youth and + mental flexibility are gone, and her habits and tastes have + settled into other grooves; it has sometimes been a great + blessing even to the very greatest men, like Goethe, to have had + a youthful mother. It would also, in many cases, be a great + advantage for the woman herself if she could bring her + procreative life to an end well before the age of twenty-five, so + that she could then, unhampered by child-bearing and mature in + experience, be free to enter on such wider activities in the + world as she might be fitted for. + + Such an arrangement of the procreative life of women would, + obviously, only be a variation, and would probably be unsuited + for the majority. Every case must be judged on its own merits. + The best age for procreation will probably continue to be + regarded as being, for most women, around the age of twenty. But + at a time like the present, when there is an unfortunate + tendency for motherhood to be unduly delayed, it becomes + necessary to insist on the advantages, in many cases, of early + motherhood. + +There are other conditions favorable or unfavorable to procreation which +it is now unnecessary to discuss in detail, since they have already been +incidentally dealt with in previous volumes of these _Studies_. There is, +for instance, the question of the time of year and the time of the +menstrual cycle which may most properly be selected for procreation.[466] +The best period is probably that when sexual desire is strongest, which is +the period when conception would appear, as a matter of fact, most often +to occur. This would be in spring or early summer,[467] and immediately +after (or shortly before) the menstrual period. The Chinese have observed +that the last day of menstruation and the two following +days--corresponding to the period of oestrus--constitute the most +favorable time for fecundation, and Bossi, of Genoa, has found that the +great majority of successes in both natural and artificial fecundation +occur at this period.[468] Soranus, as well as the Talmud, assigned the +period about menstruation as the best for impregnation, and Susruta, the +Indian physician, said that at this time pregnancy most readily occurs +because then the mouth of the womb is open, like the flower of the +water-lily to the sunshine. + +We have now at last reached the point from which we started, the moment of +conception, and the child again lies in its mother's womb. There remains +no more to be said. The divine cycle of life is completed. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[421] Spencer and Gillen, _Northern Tribes of Central Australia_, p. 330. + +[422] Academy of Medicine of Paris, March 31, 1908. + +[423] _The Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. ii, p. 405. + +[424] _Population and Progress_, p. 41. + +[425] Cf. Reibmayr, _Entwicklungsgeschichte des Talentes und Genics_, Bd. +II, p. 31. + +[426] "The debt that we owe to those who have gone before us," says +Haycraft (_Darwinism and Race Progress_, p. 160), "we can only repay to +those who come after us." + +[427] Mardrus, _Les Mille Nuits_, vol. xvi, p. 158. + +[428] Sidney Webb, _Popular Science Monthly_, 1906, p. 526 (previously +published in the _London Times_, Oct. 11, 16, 1906). In Ch. IX of the +present volume it has already been necessary to discuss the meaning of the +term, "morality." + +[429] Thus, in Paris, in 1906, in the rich quarters, the birthrate per +1,000 inhabitants was 19.09; in well-to-do quarters, 22.51; and in poor +quarters, 29.70. Here we see that, while the birthrate falls and rises +with social class, even among the poor and least restrained class the +birthrate is still but little above the general average for England, where +prevention is widespread, and very considerably lower than the average +(now rapidly falling) in Germany. It is evident that even among the poor +class there is a process of leveling up to the higher classes in this +matter. + +[430] I have developed these points more in detail in two articles in the +_Independent Review_, November, 1903, and April, 1904. See also, Bushee, +"The Declining Birthrate and Its Causes," _Popular Science Monthly_, Aug., +1903. + +[431] Francis Place, _Illustrations and Proofs of the Principle of +Population_, 1822, p. 165. + +[432] See, e.g., a weighty chapter in the _Sexualleben und Nervenleiden_ +of Löwenfeld, one of the most judicious authorities on sexual pathology. +Twenty-five years ago, as many will remember, the medical student was +usually taught that preventive methods of intercourse led to all sorts of +serious results. At that time, however, reckless and undesirable methods +of prevention seem to have been more prevalent than now. + +[433] Michael Ryan, _Philosophy of Marriage_, p. 9. To enable "the +conservative power of the Creator" to exert itself on the myriads of +germinal human beings secreted during his life-time by even one man, would +require a world full of women, while the corresponding problem as regards +a woman is altogether too difficult to cope with. The process by which +life has been built up, far from being a process of universal +conservation, has been a process of stringent selection and vast +destruction; the progress effected by civilization merely lies in making +this blind process intelligent. + +[434] Thus, in Belgium, in 1908 (_Sexual-Probleme_, Feb., 1909, p. 136), a +physician (Dr. Mascaux) who had been prominent in promoting a knowledge of +preventive methods of conception, was condemned to three months +imprisonment for "offense against morality!" In such a case, Dr. Helene +Stöcker comments (_Die Neue Generation_, Jan., 1909, p. 7), "morality" is +another name for ignorance, timidity, hypocrisy, prudery, coarseness, and +lack of conscience. It must be remembered, however, in explanation of this +iniquitous judgment, that for some years past the clerical party has been +politically predominant in Belgium. + +[435] It has been objected that the condom cannot be used by the very +poorest, on account of its cost, but Hans Ferdy, in a detailed paper +(_Sexual-Probleme_, Dec., 1908), shows that the use of the condom can be +brought within the means of the very poorest, if care is taken to preserve +it under water when not in use. Nyström (_Sexual Probleme_, Nov., 1908, p. +736) has issued a leaflet for the benefit of his patients and others, +recommending the condom, and explaining its use. + +[436] Thus, Kisch, in his _Sexual Life of Woman_, after discussing fully +the various methods of prevention, decides in favor of the condom. +Fürbringer similarly (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation +to Marriage_, vol. i, pp. 232 et seq.) concludes that the condom is +"relatively the most perfect anti-conceptual remedy." Forel (_Die Sexuelle +Frage_, pp. 457 et seq.) also discusses the question at length; any +æsthetic objection to the condom, Forel adds (p. 544), is due to the fact +that we are not accustomed to it; "eye-glasses are not specially æsthetic, +but the poetry of life does not suffer excessively from their use, which, +in many cases, cannot be dispensed with." + +[437] _L'Avortement_, p. 43. + +[438] There are some disputed points in Roman law and practice concerning +abortion; they are discussed in Balestrini's valuable book, _Aborto_, pp. +30 et seq. + +[439] Augustine, _De Civitate Dei_, Bk. XXII, Ch. XIII. + +[440] The development of opinion and law concerning abortion has been +traced by Eugène Bausset, _L'Avortement Criminel_, Thèse de Paris, 1907. +For a summary of the practices of different peoples regarding abortion, +see W.G. Sumner, _Folkways_, Ch. VIII. + +[441] _Die Neue Generation_, May, 1908, p. 192. It may be added that in +England the attachment of any penalty at all to abortion, practiced in the +early months of pregnancy (before "quickening" has taken place), is merely +a modern innovation. + +[442] Even Balestrini, who is opposed to the punishment of abortion, is no +advocate of it. "Whenever abortion becomes a social custom," he remarks +(op. cit., p. 191), "it is the external manifestation of a people's +decadence, and far too deeply rooted to be cured by the mere attempt to +suppress the external manifestation." + +[443] Cf. Ellen Key, _Century of the Child_, Ch. I. Hirth (_Wege zur +Heimat_, p. 526) is likewise opposed to the encouragement of abortion, +though he would not actually punish the pregnant woman who induces +abortion. I would especially call attention to an able and cogent article +by Anna Pappritz ("Die Vernichtung des Keimenden Lebens," +_Sexual-Probleme_, July, 1909) who argues that the woman is not the sole +guardian of the embryo she bears, and that it is not in the interests of +society, nor even in her own interests, that she should be free to destroy +it at will. Anna Pappritz admits that the present barbarous laws in regard +to abortion must be modified, but maintains that they should not be +abolished. She proposes (1) a greatly reduced punishment for abortion; (2) +this punishment to be extended to the father, whether married or unmarried +(a provision already carried out in Norway, both for abortion and +infanticide); (3) permission to the physician to effect abortion when +there is good reason to suspect hereditary degeneration, as well as when +the woman has been impregnated by force. + +[444] Cf. Dr. Max Hirsch, _Sexual-Probleme_, Jan., 1908, p. 23. + +[445] Bausset (op. cit.) sets forth various social measures for the care +of pregnant and child-bearing women, which would tend to lessen criminal +abortion. + +[446] Gomperz, _Greek Thinkers_, vol. i, p. 564. + +[447] F.E. Daniel, President of the State Medical Association of Texas, +"Should Insane Criminals or Sexual Perverts be Allowed to Procreate?" +_Medico-legal Journal_, Dec., 1893; id., "The Cause and Prevention of +Rape," _Texas Medical Journal_, May, 1904. + +[448] P. Näcke, "Die Kastration bei gewissen Klassen von Degenerirten als +ein Wirksamer Socialer Schutz," _Archiv für Kriminal-Anthropologie_, Bd. +III, 1899, p. 58; id. "Kastration in Gewissen Fällen von +Geisteskrankheit," _Psychiatrisch-Neurologische Wochenschrift_, 1905, No. +29. + +[449] Angelo Zuccarelli, "Asessualizzazione o sterilizzazione dei +Degenerati," _L'Anomalo_, 1898-99, No. 6; id., "Sur la nécessité et sur +les Moyens d'empêcher la Réproduction des Hommes les plus Dégénérés," +International Congress Criminal Anthropology, Amsterdam, 1901. + +[450] Näcke, _Neurologisches Centralblatt_, March 1, 1909. The +original account of these operations is reproduced in the +_Psychiatrisch-Neurologische Wochenschrift_, No. 2, 1909, with an +approving comment by the editor, Dr. Bresler. As regards castration in +America, see Flood, "Castration of Idiot Children," _American Journal +Psychology_, Jan., 1899; also, _Alienist and Neurologist_, Aug., 1909, p. +348. + +[451] It is probable that castration may prove especially advantageous in +the case of the feeble-minded. "In Somersetshire," says Tredgold ("The +Feeble-Mind as a Social Danger," _Eugenics Review_, July, 1909), "I found +that out of a total number of 167 feeble-minded women, nearly two-fifths +(61) had given birth to children, for the most part illegitimate. +Moreover, it is not uncommon, but, rather the rule, for these poor girls +to be admitted into the workhouse maternity wards again and again, and the +average number of offspring to each one of them is probably three or four, +although even six is not uncommon." In his work on _Mental Deficiency_ +(pp. 288-292) the same author shows that propagation by the mentally +deficient is, in England, "both a terrible and extensive evil." + +[452] This example is brought forward by Ledermann, "Skin Diseases and +Marriage," in Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation to +Marriage_. + +[453] I may here again refer to Lea's instructive _History of Sacerdotal +Celibacy_. + +[454] In England, 35,000 applicants for admission to the navy are annually +rejected, and although the physical requirements for enlistment in the +army are nowadays extremely moderate, it is estimated by General Maurice +that at least sixty per cent. of recruits and would-be recruits are +dismissed as unfit. (See e.g., William Coates, "The Duty of the Medical +Profession in the Prevention of National Deterioration," _British Medical +Journal_, May 1, 1909.) It can scarcely be claimed that men who are not +good enough for the army are good enough for the great task of creating +the future race. + +[455] The recognition of epilepsy as a bar to procreation is not recent. +There is said to be a record in the archives of the town of Luçon in which +epilepsy was adjudged to be a valid reason for the cancellation of a +betrothal (_British Medical Journal_, Feb. 14, 1903, p. 383). + +[456] _British Medical Journal_, April 14, 1906. In California and some +other States, it appears that deceit regarding health is a ground for the +annulment of marriage. + +[457] Sir F. Galton, _Inquiries Into Human Faculty_, Everyman's Library +edition, pp. 211 et seq.; cf. Galton's collected _Essays in Eugenics_, +recently published by the Eugenics Education Society. + +[458] For some account of the methods and results of the work in schools, +see Bertram C.A. Windle, "Anthropometric Work in Schools," _Medical +Magazine_, Feb., 1894. + +[459] The most notable steps in this direction have been taken in Germany. +For an account of the experiment at Karlsruhe, see _Die Neue Generation_, +Dec., 1908. + +[460] Wiethknudsen (as quoted in _Sexual-Probleme_, Dec., 1908, p. 837) +speaks strongly, but not too strongly, concerning the folly of any +indiscriminate endowment of procreation. + +[461] On the scientific side, in addition to the fruitful methods of +statistical biometrics, which have already been mentioned, much promise +attaches to work along the lines initiated by Mendel; see W. Bateson, +_Mendel's Principles of Heredity_, 1909; also, W.H. Lock, _Recent Progress +in the Study of Variation, Heredity, and Evolution_, and R.C. Punnett, +_Mendelism_, 1907 (American edition, with interesting preface by Gaylord +Wilshire, from the Socialistic point of view, 1909). + +[462] The study of the right conditions for procreation is very ancient. +In modern times we find that even the very first French medical book in +the vulgar tongue, the _Régime du Corps_, written by Alebrand of Florence +(who was physician to the King of France), in 1256, is largely devoted to +this matter, concerning which it gives much sound advice. See J.B. +Soalhat, _Les Idées de Maistre Alebrand de Florence sur la Puériculture_, +Thèse de Paris, 1908. + +[463] Hesiod, _Works and Days_, II, 690-700. + +[464] This has long been the accepted opinion of medical authorities, as +may be judged by the statements brought together two centuries ago by +Schurig, _Parthenologia_, pp. 22-25. + +[465] The statement that, on the average, the best age for procreation in +men is before, rather than after, forty, by no means assumes the existence +of any "critical" age in men analogous to the menopause in women. This is +sometimes asserted, but there is no agreement in regard to it. Restif de +la Bretonne (_Monsieur Nicolas_, vol. x, p. 176) said that at the age of +forty delicacy of sentiment begins to go. Fürbringer believes (Senator and +Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 222) +that there is a decisive turn in a man's life in the sixth decade, or the +middle of the fifth, when desire and potency diminish. J.F. Sutherland +also states (_Comptes-rendus Congrès International de Médecine_, 1900, +Section de Psychiatrie, p. 471) that there is, in men, about the +fifty-fifth year, a change analogous to the menopause in women, but only +in a certain proportion of men. It would appear that in most men the +decline of sexual feeling and potency is very gradual, and at first +manifests itself in increased power of control. + +[466] See, in vol. i, the study of "The Phenomena of Sexual Periodicity." + +[467] Among animals, also, spring litters are often said to be the best. + +[468] Bossi's results are summarized in _Archives d'Anthropologie +Criminelle_, Sept., 1891. Alebrand of Florence, the French King's +physician in the thirteenth century, also advised intercourse a day after +the end of menstruation. + + + + +POSTSCRIPT. + + +"The work that I was born to do is done," a great poet wrote when at last +he had completed his task. And although I am not entitled to sing any +_Nunc dimittis_, I am well aware that the task that has occupied the best +part of my life can have left few years and little strength for any work +that comes after. It is more than thirty years ago since the first resolve +to write the work now here concluded began to shape itself, still dimly +though insistently; the period of study and preparation occupied over +fifteen years, ending with the publication of _Man and Woman_, put forward +as a prolegomenon to the main work which, in the writing and publication, +has occupied the fifteen subsequent years. + +It was perhaps fortunate for my peace that I failed at the outset to +foresee all the perils that beset my path. I knew indeed that those who +investigate severely and intimately any subject which men are accustomed +to pass by on the other side lay themselves open to misunderstanding and +even obloquy. But I supposed that a secluded student who approached vital +social problems with precaution, making no direct appeal to the general +public, but only to the public's teachers, and who wrapped up the results +of his inquiries in technically written volumes open to few, I supposed +that such a student was at all events secure from any gross form of attack +on the part of the police or the government under whose protection he +imagined that he lived. That proved to be a mistake. When only one volume +of these _Studies_ had been written and published in England, a +prosecution, instigated by the government, put an end to the sale of that +volume in England, and led me to resolve that the subsequent volumes +should not be published in my own country. I do not complain. I am +grateful for the early and generous sympathy with which my work was +received in Germany and the United States, and I recognize that it has had +a wider circulation, both in English and the other chief languages of the +world, than would have been possible by the modest method of issue which +the government of my own country induced me to abandon. Nor has the effort +to crush my work resulted in any change in that work by so much as a +single word. With help, or without it, I have followed my own path to the +end. + +For it so happens that I come on both sides of my house from stocks of +Englishmen who, nearly three hundred years ago, had encountered just these +same difficulties and dangers before. In the seventeenth century, indeed, +the battle was around the problem of religion, as to-day it is around the +problem of sex. Since I have of late years realized this analogy I have +often thought of certain admirable and obscure men who were driven out, +robbed, and persecuted, some by the Church because the spirit of +Puritanism moved within them, some by the Puritans because they clung to +the ideals of the Church, yet both alike quiet and unflinching, both alike +fighting for causes of freedom or of order in a field which has now for +ever been won. That victory has often seemed of good augury to the perhaps +degenerate child of these men who has to-day sought to maintain the causes +of freedom and of order in another field. + +It sometimes seems, indeed, a hopeless task to move the pressure of inert +prejudices which are at no point so obstinate as this of sex. It may help +to restore the serenity of our optimism if we would more clearly realize +that in a very few generations all these prejudices will have perished and +be forgotten. He who follows in the steps of Nature after a law that was +not made by man, and is above and beyond man, has time as well as eternity +on his side, and can afford to be both patient and fearless. Men die, but +the ideas they seek to kill live. Our books may be thrown to the flames, +but in the next generation those flames become human souls. The +transformation is effected by the doctor in his consulting room, by the +teacher in the school, the preacher in the pulpit, the journalist in the +press. It is a transformation that is going on, slowly but surely, around +us. + +I am well aware that many will not feel able to accept the estimate of the +sexual situation as here set forth, more especially in the final volume. +Some will consider that estimate too conservative, others too +revolutionary. For there are always some who passionately seek to hold +fast to the past; there are always others who passionately seek to snatch +at what they imagine to be the future. But the wise man, standing midway +between both parties and sympathizing with each, knows that we are ever in +the stage of transition. The present is in every age merely the shifting +point at which past and future meet, and we can have no quarrel with +either. There can be no world without traditions; neither can there be any +life without movement. As Heracleitus knew at the outset of modern +philosophy, we cannot bathe twice in the same stream, though, as we know +to-day, the stream still flows in an unending circle. There is never a +moment when the new dawn is not breaking over the earth, and never a +moment when the sunset ceases to die. It is well to greet serenely even +the first glimmer of the dawn when we see it, not hastening towards it +with undue speed, nor leaving the sunset without gratitude for the dying +light that once was dawn. + +In the moral world we are ourselves the light-bearers, and the cosmic +process is in us made flesh. For a brief space it is granted to us, if we +will, to enlighten the darkness that surrounds our path. As in the ancient +torch-race, which seemed to Lucretius to be the symbol of all life, we +press forward torch in hand along the course. Soon from behind comes the +runner who will outpace us. All our skill lies in giving into his hand the +living torch, bright and unflickering, as we ourselves disappear in the +darkness. + +HAVELOCK ELLIS. + + + + +INDEX OF AUTHORS. + +Abdias +Achery +Acton +Adam, Mme. +Adler, Felix +Adler, O. +Adner +Aguilaniedo +Alebrand +Alexander, Dr. H. +Alexandre, Alcide +Allée, A. +Allen, L.M. +Allen, Mary W. +Ambrose, St. +Amélineau +Ammon +Amram, D.W. +Angela de Fulginio +Angus, H.C. +Anstie +Aquinas +Ardu +Arendt, Henrietta +Aretino +Aristotle +Aronstam +Ascarilla +Aschaffenburg +Astengo +Astor, Mary +Astruc +Athanasius +Athenæus +Audry +Augagneur +Augustine, St. +Aurientis +Ayala + +Bacchimont +Bachaumont +Badley, J.H. +Baelz +Baer, K.M. +Baker, Smith +Balestrini +Ballantyne, Dr. +Ballantyne, Miss H. +Balls-Headley +Balzac +Bangs, L.B. +Bartels, Max +Basedow +Basil, St. +Bateson +Baumgarten +Bausset +Bax, Belfort +Bazan, Emilia Pardo +Beadnell, C.M. +Beddoes +Bedollière +Bell, Sanford +Benecke +Benedikt +Bentzon, Mme. +Bérault, G. +Berg, Leo +Bernard, St. +Berry, F. +Bertherand +Bertillon +Besant, Mrs. +Beza +Bierhoff +Birnbaum +Bishop, G.P. +Bishop, Mrs. +Blacker +Blake, William +Blandford +Blaschko +Bloch, Iwan +Bluhm, Agnes +Blumreich +Boccaccio +Bohier +Bois, Jules +Boissier, de Sauvages +Bollinger +Bölsche +Bonger +Bongi, S. +Bonhoeffer +Boniface, St. +Bonnifield +Bonstetten +Booth, C. +Booth, D.S. +Bossi +Bouchacourt +Bougainville +Bourget +Bouvier +Boyle, F. +Brachet +Braun, Lily +Brénier de Montmorand +Brénot, H. +Breuer +Brieux +Brinton +Brouardel +Brougham Lord +Brown, Dr. Charlotte +Bruns, Ivo +Brynmor-Jones +Bucer +Budge, A.W. +Buffon +Bulkley, D. +Büller +Bumm +Bunge +Burchard +Burdach +Buret +Burnet +Burton, Sir R. +Burton, Robert +Busch +Bushee +Butler, G. +Butterfield +Byers + +Cabanis +Caird, Mona +Callari +Calvin +Calza +Canudo +Capitaine +Caron +Carpenter, Edward +Casanova +Caspari +Cataneus +Cattell, J. McKeen +Caufeynon +Cazalis +Chaignon +Chambers, E.K. +Chambers, W.G. +Chapman, G. +Chapman, J. +Cheetham +Cheng, Mme. +Cheyne +Child, May +Chotzen, M. +Chrysostom +Cicero +Ciuffo +Clapperton, Miss +Clappier +Clarke +Clement of Alexandria +Clement E. +Cleveland, C. +Clouston +Coates, W. +Codrington, R.W. +Coghlan +Colombey +Coltman +Commenge +Cook, G.W. +Cook, Capt. J. +Cooper, A. +Cope, E.D. +Correa, Roman +Coryat +Crackanthorpe +Cranmer +Crawley, A.E. +Crocker +Curr +Gushing, W. +Cyples + +Daniel, F.E. +Dareste +Dargun +Darmesteter, J. +Darricarrère +Darwin +Daudet, A. +D'Aulnoy, Mme. +Daya, W. +Debreyne +D'Enjoy, Paul +Dens +Deodhar, Mrs. Kashibai +Descartes +Despine +Després +Dessoir, Max +Diaz de Isla +Diday +Diderot +Digby, Sir K. +Dill +Dluska, Mme. +Dodd, Catherine +Doléris +Donaldson, Principal +Donnay +Drysdale, C.R. +Drysdale, G. +Duclaux +Dühren, _see_ Bloch, Iwan. +Dufour, P. +Dukes +Dulaure +Dulberg +Dumas, G. +Duncan, Matthews +Dunnett +Dunning +Dupouey +Durkheim +Durlacher +Dyer, I. + +Edgar, J. 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Adney + +Zacchia +Zache +Zanzinger, E. +Zeno +Zoroaster +Zuccarelli + + + + +INDEX OF SUBJECTS. + +Abortion, + arguments against + modern advocates of + the practice of +Abstinence, + alleged evil results of + alleged good results of + as a preparation for marriage + criticism of conception of + intermediate views of + moral results of + sexual, in relation to chastity + the problems of +Abyssinia, + prostitution in + sexual initiation in +Achilleus and Nereus, + legend of +Adultery +Africa, + chastity on West Coast of +Alcohol, + as a sexual stimulant + in pregnancy + in relation to the orgy +Alexander VI and courtesans +Ambil anak Marriage +America, + divorce in + marriage in + prostitution in +American Indians, + appreciate asceticism + sexual initiation among + their Sabbath orgies + words for love among +Aphrodite Pandemos +Art in relation to sexual impulse +Asceticism among early Christians + appreciated by savages + definition of + in religion + later degeneracy of + value of +Ascetics, + attitude towards sex of mediæval +Aspasia +Athletics for women +Aucassin et Nicolette +Australia, + marriage system in + saturnalian festivals in + sexual initiation in +Auvergne, + story of the Two Lovers of +Azimba Land, + sexual initiation in + +Babies, + children's theories on the origin of +Babylonia, + high status of women in + religious prostitution in +Bawenda, + sexual initiation among +Beena marriage +Beethoven +Behn, Aphra +Belgium, + prostitution in +Bestial, + human sexual impulse not +Bible in relation to sexual education +Biometrics +Birth, + civilized tendency to premature +Birthrate, + decline of +Blindness in relation to gonorrhoea +Botany in sexual education +Bredalbane case +Breed _versus_ nurture +Bride-price +Brothel, + decay of + in ancient Rome + in the East + mediæval + modern defence of + modern regulation of + origin of +Bundling +Burmah, + prostitution in + +Canon law, + defects of + its importance + origin of + persistence of its traditions + sound kernel of +Carlyle +Carnival, + origin of +Castration, + modern developments of + the practice of +Chastity among early Christians + definition of + girdle of + in modern Fiji + in what sense a virtue + modern attitude towards + Protestant attitude towards + romantic literature of + the function of +Child, + as foundation of marriage + characteristics of eldest born + its need of two parents +Childhood, + sexual activity in + sexual teaching in +China, + divorce in + prostitution in +Chivalry on position of women, + influence of +Christianity, + attitude towards chastity + attitude towards lust + attitude towards nakedness + failed to recognize importance of art of love + its influence on position of women + on marriage + mixed attitude towards sexual impulse + towards prostitution + towards seduction +Civilization and prostitution + and the sexual impulse +Coitus, + _a posteriori_ + best time for + during pregnancy + ethnic variations in + excess in + injuries due to unskilful + _interruptus_ + morbid horror of + needs to be taught + prayer before + proper frequency of + religious significance of + _reservatus_ +Collusion, + doctrine of +Conception, + conditions of + prevention of +Concubine +Condom +Conjugal rights or rites +Consent, + age of +Consultation de Nourrisson +Contract, + marriage as a +Corinth, + prostitution at +Country life and sexuality +Courtesan, + origin of term +Courtship, + the art of +Criminality in relation to prostitution +Cyprus, + prostitution at + +Dancing, + hygienic value of + as an orgy +D'Aragona, Tullia +Divorce, + by mutual consent + causes for + in ancient Rome + in ancient Wales + in China + in England + in France + in Germany + in Japan + in Russia + in Switzerland + in United States + Milton's views on + modern tendency of + Protestant attitude towards + question of damages for + reform of + tendency of legislation regarding + transmission of venereal disease as a cause for +Drama, + modern function of the +Dysmenorrhoea + +Economic factor, + of marriage + of prostitution +Education in matters of sex + for women +Egypt, + high status of women in +Eldest born child, + characteristics of +England, + marriage in + prostitution in +Erotic element in marriage +Eskimo, + divorce among + sexual initiation among +Eugenics + false ideas of + foundation by Galton + importance of environment in relation to + in relation to castration + Noyes a pioneer in + positive + wide acceptance of principle of +Excretory centers as affecting estimate of sexual impulse +Exogamy, + origin of + +Families and degeneracy, + large +Father in relation to family +Fecundation, + artificial +Festivals, + seasonal +Fidus +Fiji, + chastity in +Flirtation +Fools, Feast of +Fornication, + theological doctrine of +France, + divorce in + prostitution in +Franco, Veronica + +Gallantry, + the ancient conception of +Geisha, the +General paralysis and syphilis +Genius, + in relation to chastity + in relation to love +Germany, + divorce in + marriage in + prostitution in +Gestation, + length of +Girdle of chastity +Girls, + interest in sex matters + masculine ideals of +Girls, + sex education of + their need of sexual knowledge +Gnostic elements in early Christian literature +Goddesses in forefront of primitive pantheons +Gonorrhoea, + nature and results of + _And see_ Venereal Diseases. +Goutte de Lait +Greeks, + origin of their drama + prudery among + rarity of ideal sexual love among + their attitude towards nakedness + their conception of the orgy + their erotic writings +Group-marriage +Gynæcocracy, + alleged primitive + +Hetairæ +Hindu attitude towards sex +Holland, + prostitution in +Homosexuality among prostitutes +Huddersfield scheme +Hysteria + +Ideals of girls, + masculine +Illegitimacy + in Germany +Imperia +Impotency in popular estimation +Impurity, + disastrous results of teaching feminine + early Christian views of +India, + story of The Betrothed of + sacred prostitution in +Individualism and Socialism +Infantile mortality + in relation to suckling by mother + in relation to syphilis +Infantile sexuality +Insanity and prostitution +Intellectual work in relation to sexual activity in men + in women +Ireland, + divorce in + high status of women in ancient +Italy, + prostitution in + +Jamaica, + results of free sexual unions in +Japan, + attitude towards love in + automatic legitimation of children in + divorce in + prostitution in +Jealousy +Jesus +Jews, + as parents + prostitution among ancient + status of women among +Judas Thomas's Acts + +Kadishtu +Kant +Korea, + prostitution in + +Lactation +Lectures on sexual hygiene +Lenclos, Ninon de +Love an essential part of marriage + art of + definition of + difficulties of art of + for more than one person + future development of + how far an illusion + in childhood + in relation to chastity + inevitable mystery of + its value for life + testimonies to immense importance of +Lust, + in relation to love + theological conception of +Lydian prostitution + +Mahommedanism and prostitution + and sanctity of sex + its regard for chastity +Male continence +Malthus +Mammary activity in infancy +Manuals of sexual hygiene +Maoris, + results of loss of old faith among +Marriage, + advantages of early + ambil anak + and prostitution + as a contract + as a fact + as a sacrament + as an ethical sacrament + beena + by capture + certificates for + criticism of + evolution of + for a term of years + from legal point of view + in early Christian times + in old English law + in relation to eugenics + in relation to morals + in Rome + independent of forms + inferior forms of + love as a factor of + modern tendencies in regard to + objections to early + objects of + procreation as a factor of + Protestant attitude towards + trial + variations in order of +Masturbation among prostitutes + anxiety of boys about + in relation to sexual abstinence +Matriarchy, + alleged primitive +Matrilineal descent +Mendelism +Mendes, + the rite at +Menstruation, + brought on by sexual excitement + coitus during + hygiene of + instruction regarding +Missionaries' attempt to impose European customs +Modesty consistent with nakedness +Monogamy +Montanist element in early Christian literature +Morality, + meaning of the term +Motherhood, + early age of + endowment of +Mothers, + duty to instruct daughters + duty to suckle infant + responsibility for their own procreative acts + schools for + the sexual teachers of children +Mylitta, + prostitution at temple of +Mystery in matters of sex, evil of + +Nakedness, + an alleged sexual stimulant + as a prime tonic of life + consistent with modesty + educational value of + hygienic value of + in literature and art + in mediæval Europe + in relation to sexual education + its moral value + its spiritual value + modern attitude towards +Neo-Malthusianism +Neurasthenia, + sexual +Newton +New Zealand, + result of decay of _tapu_ in + sexual freedom in ancient +Night-courtship customs +Notification of Births Act + venereal diseases +Nurture _versus_ breed +Nutrition compared to reproduction + +Obscenity, + early Christian views of +Orgy, + among savages + in classic times + in mediæval Christianity + its religious origin + modern need of +Oneida Community +Ouled-Nail prostitution +Ovarian irritation +Ovid + +Penitentials, the +Physician, + alleged duty to prescribe sexual intercourse + as a social reformer + his place in sexual hygiene +Platonic friendship +Poetry in relation to sexual impulse +Polygamy +Precocity, + sexual +Pregnancy, + among primitive peoples + coitus during + early + hygiene of +Premature birth +Procreation, + best age for + best season for + control of + its place in marriage + methods of control of + the science of +Promiscuity, + theory of primitive +Prostitutes, + as artists + as guardians of the home + at the Renaissance + attitudes towards bully + in Austria + in classic times + in France + in Italy + injustice of social attitude towards + number of servants who become + psychic and physical characteristics + tendency to homosexuality + their motives for adopting avocation + their sexual temperament + under Christianity +Prostitution, + among savages + as affected by Christianity + as an equivalent of criminality + causes of + civilizational value of + decay of State regulation of + definition of + economic factor of + essentially unsatisfactory nature of + in modern times + in relation to marriage + in the East + moral justification of + need for humanizing + on the stage + origin and development of + present social attitude towards + regulation of + religious + rise of secular + to acquire marriage portion +Protestantism, + attitude towards prostitution +Prudery in ancient times +Puberty, + initiation at, among savages + sexual education at + sexual hygiene at +Puericulture +Puritans, + attitude towards unchastity + towards marriage + +Quaker conception of marriage + +Rape, + cannot be committed by husband on wife + wedding night often a +Religious prostitution +Renaissance, + prostitutes at the +Reproduction compared to nutrition +Responsibility in matters of sex, + personal +Rest, + during pregnancy, importance of + during menstruation +Ring, + origin of wedding +Robert of Arbrissel +Romantic literature of chastity + love, late origin of +Rome, + attitude towards nakedness in ancient + conception of the orgy in + marriage in + prostitution in + status of women in +Russia, + divorce in + sexual freedom in + +Sabbath orgy +Sacrament, + marriage as a +Sacred prostitution +Sale-marriage +Savages, + prostitution among + rarity of love among + sexual education among +Scandinavian method of dealing with venereal diseases +School, + its place in sexual education +Schools for mothers +Seduction, + early Church's attitude towards +Servants frequently become prostitutes +Sexual abstinence +Sexual anæsthesia, + a cause of +Sexual education + among savages + and coitus + and nakedness +Sexual hygiene and art + and literature + and religion + at puberty + at school + in childhood + in relation to sexual abstinence +Sexual innocence, + value of +Sexual morality +Sexual neurasthenia +Sexual physiology in education +Sexual precocity +Shakespeare in relation to sexual education +Slavs, + sexual freedom among +Socialism and individualism +Spain, + prostitution in +Stage, + prostitution on the +State, + its interest in children + nurseries +Sterility in relation to gonorrhoea +Stirpiculture + causes of +Stork legend of origin of babies +Suckling in relation to puericulture +Swahili, + sexual education among +Switzerland, + divorce in + prostitution in +Syphilis, + its prevalence + nature and results of + of the innocent + questions of the origin of + _And see_ Venereal Diseases. + +Tahiti, + chastity and unchastity in old +Teachers and sexual hygiene +Teutonic custom, + influence on position of women + influence on marriage +Theatre, + as a beneficial form of the orgy + early Christian attitude towards +Thekla, + legend of +Town life and sexuality +Trappists, + régime of +Trent, Council of +Trial-marriage + +Urban life and sexuality +Uterine fibroids + +Vaginismus +Vasectomy +Venereal diseases, + conquest of the + free treatment of + need of enlightenment concerning + notification of + personal responsibility for + punishment for transmission of +Venice, + prostitution in +Virgin, + intercourse with as a cure for syphilis + original meaning of the term +Virginity, + why valued + +Wagner's music dramas +Wales, + divorce in ancient +White slavery +Wife-purchase among ancient Germans + in modern times +Woman movement +Women, + alleged tendency to dissimulation + among the Jews + and sexual abstinence + erotic characteristics of + ignorance of art of love + in Arabia + in Babylonia + in Egypt + in modern Europe + in relation to divorce + in relation to free sexual unions + in Rome + inequality before the law + moral equality with men + must not be compulsory mothers + not attracted to innocent men + position as affected by Teutonic custom + procreative age of + their high status in ancient Ireland + their need of economic independence + their need of personal responsibility + their need of sexual knowledge + understand love better than men + +Yakuts, + attitude towards virginity +Yuman Indians, + sexual initiation among + +Zoölogy and sexual education + + + +***END OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, +VOLUME 6 (OF 6)*** + + +******* This file should be named 13615-8.txt or 13615-8.zip ******* + + +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: +https://www.gutenberg.org/dirs/1/3/6/1/13615 + + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at <a href = "https://www.gutenberg.org">www.gutenberg.org</a></pre> +<p>Title: Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 6 (of 6)</p> +<p>Author: Havelock Ellis</p> +<p>Release Date: October 8, 2004 [eBook #13615]</p> +<p>Language: English</p> +<p>Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1</p> +<p>***START OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, VOLUME 6 (OF 6)***</p> +<br><br><h3>E-text prepared by Juliet Sutherland<br> + and the Project Gutenberg Online Distributed Proofreading Team<br> + (https://www.pgdp.net)</h3><br><br> +<hr class="pg" noshade> +<br> +<br> +<br> +<a name='6_Page_iii'></a> + +<h1>STUDIES<br /> +<br /> +IN THE<br /> +<br /> +PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX</h1> +<br /> +<h2>VOLUME VI</h2> +<br /> +<h3>SEX IN RELATION TO SOCIETY</h3> +<br /> +<br /> +<h3>BY</h3> +<br /> +<h2>HAVELOCK ELLIS</h2> +<br /> +<h5>1927</h5><br /> +<hr class="full" /> +<br> +<a name='6_PREFACE'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_iv'></a><a name='6_Page_v'></a>PREFACE.</h2> + +<p>In the previous five volumes of these <i>Studies</i>, I have dealt mainly with +the sexual impulse in relation to its object, leaving out of account the +external persons and the environmental influences which yet may powerfully +affect that impulse and its gratification. We cannot afford, however, to +pass unnoticed this relationship of the sexual impulse to third persons +and to the community at large with all its anciently established +traditions. We have to consider sex in relation to society.</p> + +<p>In so doing, it will be possible to discuss more summarily than in +preceding volumes the manifold and important problems that are presented +to us. In considering the more special questions of sexual psychology we +entered a neglected field and it was necessary to expend an analytic care +and precision which at many points had never been expended before on these +questions. But when we reach the relationships of sex to society we have +for the most part no such neglect to encounter. The subject of every +chapter in the present volume could easily form, and often has formed, the +topic of a volume, and the literature of many of these subjects is already +extremely voluminous. It must therefore be our main object here not to +accumulate details but to place each subject by turn, as clearly and +succinctly as may be, in relation to those fundamental principles of +sexual psychology which—so far as the data at present admit—have been +set forth in the preceding volumes.</p> + +<p>It may seem to some, indeed, that in this exposition I should have +confined myself to the present, and not included so wide a sweep of the +course of human history and the traditions of the race. It may especially +seem that I have laid too great a stress on the influence of Christianity +in moulding sexual ideals and establishing sexual institutions. That, I am +convinced, is an <a name='6_Page_vi'></a>error. It is because it is so frequently made that the +movements of progress among us—movements that can never at any period of +social history cease—are by many so seriously misunderstood. We cannot +escape from our traditions. There never has been, and never can be, any +"age of reason." The most ardent co-called "free-thinker," who casts aside +as he imagines the authority of the Christian past, is still held by that +past. If its traditions are not absolutely in his blood, they are +ingrained in the texture of all the social institutions into which he was +born and they affect even his modes of thinking. The latest modifications +of our institutions are inevitably influenced by the past form of those +institutions. We cannot realize where we are, nor whither we are moving, +unless we know whence we came. We cannot understand the significance of +the changes around us, nor face them with cheerful confidence, unless we +are acquainted with the drift of the great movements that stir all +civilization in never-ending cycles.</p> + +<p>In discussing sexual questions which are very largely matters of social +hygiene we shall thus still be preserving the psychological point of view. +Such a point of view in relation to these matters is not only legitimate +but necessary. Discussions of social hygiene that are purely medical or +purely juridical or purely moral or purely theological not only lead to +conclusions that are often entirely opposed to each other but they +obviously fail to possess complete applicability to the complex human +personality. The main task before us must be to ascertain what best +expresses, and what best satisfies, the totality of the impulses and ideas +of civilized men and women. So that while we must constantly bear in mind +medical, legal, and moral demands—which all correspond in some respects +to some individual or social need—the main thing is to satisfy the +demands of the whole human person.</p> + +<p>It is necessary to emphasize this point of view because it <a name='6_Page_vii'></a>would seem +that no error is more common among writers on the hygienic and moral +problems of sex than the neglect of the psychological standpoint. They may +take, for instance, the side of sexual restraint, or the side of sexual +unrestraint, but they fail to realize that so narrow a basis is inadequate +for the needs of complex human beings. From the wider psychological +standpoint we recognize that we have to conciliate opposing impulses that +are both alike founded on the human psychic organism.</p> + +<p>In the preceding volumes of these <i>Studies</i> I have sought to refrain from +the expression of any personal opinion and to maintain, so far as +possible, a strictly objective attitude. In this endeavor, I trust, I have +been successful if I may judge from the fact that I have received the +sympathy and approval of all kinds of people, not less of the +rationalistic free-thinker than of the orthodox believer, of those who +accept, as well as of those who reject, our most current standards of +morality. This is as it should be, for whatever our criteria of the worth +of feelings and of conduct, it must always be of use to us to know what +exactly are the feelings of people and how those feelings tend to affect +their conduct. In the present volume, however, where social traditions +necessarily come in for consideration and where we have to discuss the +growth of those traditions in the past and their probable evolution in the +future, I am not sanguine that the objectivity of my attitude will be +equally clear to the reader. I have here to set down not only what people +actually feel and do but what I think they are tending to feel and do. +That is a matter of estimation only, however widely and however cautiously +it is approached; it cannot be a matter of absolute demonstration. I trust +that those who have followed me in the past will bear with me still, even +if it is impossible for them always to accept the conclusions I have +myself reached.</p> + +<p>HAVELOCK ELLIS.</p> + +<p>Carbis Bay, Cornwall, England.</p> + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_CONTENTS'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_viii'></a><a name='6_Page_ix'></a>CONTENTS.</h2> + +<h4><a href='#6_PREFACE'>PREFACE.</a></h4> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#6_CHAPTER_I'>CHAPTER I.—THE MOTHER AND HER CHILD.</a></h4> +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Child's Right to Choose Its Ancestry—How This is Effected—The Mother +the Child's Supreme Parent—Motherhood and the Woman Movement—The Immense +Importance of Motherhood—Infant Mortality and Its Causes—The Chief Cause +in the Mother—The Need of Rest During Pregnancy—Frequency of Premature +Birth—The Function of the State—Recent Advance in Puericulture—The +Question of Coitus During Pregnancy—The Need of Rest During +Lactation—The Mother's Duty to Suckle Her Child—The Economic +Question—The Duty of the State—Recent Progress in the Protection of the +Mother—The Fallacy of State Nurseries.</p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#6_CHAPTER_II'>CHAPTER II.—SEXUAL EDUCATION.</a></h4> +<div class='blkquot'><p>Nurture Necessary as Well as Breed—Precocious Manifestations of the +Sexual Impulse—Are they to be Regarded as Normal?—The Sexual Play of +Children—The Emotion of Love in Childhood—Are Town Children More +Precocious Sexually Than Country Children?—Children's Ideas Concerning +the Origin of Babies—Need for Beginning the Sexual Education of Children +in Early Years—The Importance of Early Training in Responsibility—Evil +of the Old Doctrine of Silence in Matters of Sex—The Evil Magnified When +Applied to Girls—The Mother the Natural and Best Teacher—The Morbid +Influence of Artificial Mystery in Sex Matters—Books on Sexual +Enlightenment of the Young—Nature of the Mother's Task—Sexual Education +in the School—The Value of Botany—Zoölogy—Sexual Education After +Puberty—The Necessity of Counteracting Quack Literature—Danger of +Neglecting to Prepare for the First Onset of Menstruation—The Right +Attitude Towards Woman's Sexual Life—The Vital Necessity of the Hygiene +of Menstruation During Adolescence—Such Hygiene Compatible with the +Educational and Social Equality of the Sexes—The Invalidism of Women +Mainly Due to Hygienic<a name='6_Page_x'></a> Neglect—Good Influence of Physical Training on +Women and Bad Influence of Athletics—The Evils of Emotional +Suppression—Need of Teaching the Dignity of Sex—Influence of These +Factors on a Woman's Fate in Marriage—Lectures and Addresses on Sexual +Hygiene—The Doctor's Part in Sexual Education—Pubertal Initiation Into +the Ideal World—The Place of the Religious and Ethical Teacher—The +Initiation Rites of Savages Into Manhood and Womanhood—The Sexual +Influence of Literature—The Sexual Influence of Art.</p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#6_CHAPTER_III'>CHAPTER III.—SEXUAL EDUCATION AND NAKEDNESS.</a></h4> +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Greek Attitude Towards Nakedness—How the Romans Modified That +Attitude—The Influence of Christianity—Nakedness in Mediæval +Times—Evolution of the Horror of Nakedness—Concomitant Change in the +Conception of Nakedness—Prudery—The Romantic Movement—Rise of a New +Feeling in Regard to Nakedness—The Hygienic Aspect of Nakedness—How +Children May Be Accustomed to Nakedness—Nakedness Not Inimical to +Modesty—The Instinct of Physical Pride—The Value of Nakedness in +Education—The Æsthetic Value of Nakedness—The Human Body as One of the +Prime Tonics of Life—How Nakedness May Be Cultivated—The Moral Value of +Nakedness.</p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#6_CHAPTER_IV'>CHAPTER IV.—</a></h4> +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Conception of Sexual Love—The Attitude of Mediæval Asceticism—St. +Bernard and St. Odo of Cluny—The Ascetic Insistence on the Proximity of +the Sexual and Excretory Centres—Love as a Sacrament of Nature—The Idea +of the Impurity of Sex in Primitive Religions Generally—Theories of the +Origin of This Idea—The Anti-Ascetic Element in the Bible and Early +Christianity—Clement of Alexandria—St. Augustine's Attitude—The +Recognition of the Sacredness of the Body by Tertullian, Rufinus and +Athanasius—The Reformation—The Sexual Instinct Regarded as Beastly—The +Human Sexual Instinct Not Animal-like—Lust and Love—The Definition of +Love—Love and Names for Love Unknown in Some Parts of the World—Romantic +Love of Late Development in the White Race—The Mystery of Sexual +Desire—Whether Love is a Delusion—The Spiritual as Well as the Physical +Structure of the World in Part Built up on Sexual Love The Testimony of +Men of Intellect to the Supremacy of Love.</p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#6_CHAPTER_V'>CHAPTER V.—THE FUNCTION OF CHASTITY.</a></h4> +<div class='blkquot'><p>Chastity Essential to the Dignity of Love—The Eighteenth Century Revolt +Against the Ideal of Chastity—Unnatural Forms of Chastity—The +Psychological Basis of Asceticism—Asceticism and Chastity as Savage +Virtues—The Significance of Tahiti—Chastity Among Barbarous +Peoples—Chastity Among the Early Christians—Struggles of the Saints with +the Flesh—The Romance of Christian Chastity—Its Decay in Mediæval +Times—<i>Aucassin et Nicolette</i> and the New Romance of Chaste Love—The +Unchastity of the Northern Barbarians—The Penitentials—Influence of the +Renaissance and the Reformation—The Revolt Against Virginity as a +Virtue—The Modern Conception of Chastity as a Virtue—The Influences That +Favor the Virtue of Chastity—Chastity as a Discipline—The Value of +Chastity for the Artist—Potency and Impotence in Popular Estimation—The +Correct Definitions of Asceticism and Chastity.</p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#6_CHAPTER_VI'>CHAPTER VI.—THE PROBLEM OF SEXUAL ABSTINENCE.</a></h4> +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Influence of Tradition—The Theological Conception of Lust—Tendency +of These Influences to Degrade Sexual Morality—Their Result in Creating +the Problem of Sexual Abstinence—The Protests Against Sexual +Abstinence—Sexual Abstinence and Genius—Sexual Abstinence in Women—The +Advocates of Sexual Abstinence—Intermediate Attitude—Unsatisfactory +Nature of the Whole Discussion—Criticism of the Conception of Sexual +Abstinence—Sexual Abstinence as Compared to Abstinence from Food—No +Complete Analogy—The Morality of Sexual Abstinence Entirely Negative—Is +It the Physician's Duty to Advise Extra-Conjugal Sexual +Intercourse?—Opinions of Those Who Affirm or Deny This Duty—The +Conclusion Against Such Advice—The Physician Bound by the Social and +Moral Ideas of His Age—The Physician as Reformer—Sexual Abstinence and +Sexual Hygiene—Alcohol—The Influence of Physical and Mental +Exercise—The Inadequacy of Sexual Hygiene in This Field—The Unreal +Nature of the Conception of Sexual Abstinence—The Necessity of Replacing +It by a More Positive Ideal.</p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#6_CHAPTER_VII'>CHAPTER VII.—PROSTITUTION.</a></h4> +<h5><a href='#6_I'>I.</a></h5> +<div class='blkquot'><p><i>The Orgy:</i>—The Religious Origin of the Orgy—The Feast of +Fools—Recognition of the Orgy by the Greeks and Romans—The<a name='6_Page_xii'></a> Orgy Among +Savages—The Drama—The Object Subserved by the Orgy.</p></div> + +<h5><a href='#6_II'>II.</a></h5> +<div class='blkquot'><p><i>The Origin and Development of Prostitution:</i>—The Definition of +Prostitution—Prostitution Among Savages—The Conditions Under Which +Professional Prostitution Arises—Sacred Prostitution—The Rite of +Mylitta—The Practice of Prostitution to Obtain a Marriage Portion—The +Rise of Secular Prostitution in Greece—Prostitution in the East—India, +China, Japan, etc.—Prostitution in Rome—The Influence of Christianity on +Prostitution—The Effort to Combat Prostitution—The Mediæval Brothel—The +Appearance of the Courtesan—Tullia D'Aragona—Veronica Franco—Ninon de +Lenclos—Later Attempts to Eradicate Prostitution—The Regulation of +Prostitution—Its Futility Becoming Recognized.</p></div> + +<h5><a href='#6_III'>III.</a></h5> +<div class='blkquot'><p><i>The Causes of Prostitution:</i>—Prostitution as a Part of the Marriage +System—The Complex Causation of Prostitution—The Motives Assigned by +Prostitutes—(1) Economic Factor of Prostitution—Poverty Seldom the Chief +Motive for Prostitution—But Economic Pressure Exerts a Real +Influence—The Large Proportion of Prostitutes Recruited from Domestic +Service—Significance of This Fact—(2) The Biological Factor of +Prostitution—The So-called Born-Prostitute—Alleged Identity with the +Born-Criminal—The Sexual Instinct in Prostitutes—The Physical and +Psychic Characters of Prostitutes—(3) Moral Necessity as a Factor in the +Existence of Prostitution—The Moral Advocates of Prostitution—The +Moral Attitude of Christianity Towards Prostitution—The Attitude +of Protestantism—Recent Advocates of the Moral Necessity +of Prostitution—(4) Civilizational Value as a Factor of +Prostitution—The Influence of Urban Life—The Craving for Excitement—Why +Servant-girls so Often Turn to Prostitution—The Small Part Played by +Seduction—Prostitutes Come Largely from the Country—The Appeal of +Civilization Attracts Women to Prostitution—The Corresponding Attraction +Felt by Men—The Prostitute as Artist and Leader of Fashion—The Charm of +Vulgarity.</p></div> +<h5><a href='#6_IV'>IV.</a></h5> +<div class='blkquot'><p><i>The Present Social Attitude Towards Prostitution:</i>—The Decay of the +Brothel—The Tendency to the Humanization of Prostitution—The Monetary +Aspects of Prostitution—The Geisha—The Hetaira—The Moral Revolt Against +Prostitution—Squalid Vice Based on Luxurious Virtue—The Ordinary +Attitude Towards Prostitutes—Its Cruelty Absurd—The Need of Reforming +Prostitution—The Need of Reforming Marriage—These Two Needs Closely +Correlated—The Dynamic Relationships Involved.</p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#6_CHAPTER_VIII'>CHAPTER VIII.—THE CONQUEST OF THE VENEREAL DISEASES.</a></h4> +<a name='6_Page_xiii'></a> +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Significance of the Venereal Diseases—The History of Syphilis—The +Problem of Its Origin—The Social Gravity of Syphilis—The Social Dangers +of Gonorrhœa—The Modern Change in the Methods of Combating +Venereal Diseases—Causes of the Decay of the System of Police +Regulation—Necessity of Facing the Facts—The Innocent Victims of +Venereal Diseases—Diseases Not Crimes—The Principle of Notification—The +Scandinavian System—Gratuitous Treatment—Punishment For Transmitting +Venereal Diseases—Sexual Education in Relation to Venereal +Diseases—Lectures, Etc.—Discussion in Novels and on the Stage—The +"Disgusting" Not the "Immoral".</p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#6_CHAPTER_IX'>CHAPTER IX.—SEXUAL MORALITY.</a></h4> +<div class='blkquot'><p>Prostitution in Relation to Our Marriage System—Marriage and +Morality—The Definition of the Term "Morality"—Theoretical Morality—Its +Division Into Traditional Morality and Ideal Morality—Practical +Morality—Practical Morality Based on Custom—The Only Subject of +Scientific Ethics—The Reaction Between Theoretical and Practical +Morality—Sexual Morality in the Past an Application of Economic +Morality—The Combined Rigidity and Laxity of This Morality—The +Growth of a Specific Sexual Morality and the Evolution of Moral +Ideals—Manifestations of Sexual Morality—Disregard of the Forms of +Marriage—Trial Marriage—Marriage After Conception of Child—Phenomena in +Germany, Anglo-Saxon Countries, Russia, etc.—The Status of Woman—The +Historical Tendency Favoring Moral Equality of Women with Men—The Theory +of the Matriarchate—Mother-Descent—Women in Babylonia—Egypt—Rome—The +Eighteenth and Nineteenth Centuries—The Historical Tendency +Favoring Moral Inequality of Woman—The Ambiguous Influence of +Christianity—Influence of Teutonic Custom and Feudalism—Chivalry—Woman +in England—The Sale of Wives—The Vanishing Subjection of +Woman—Inaptitude of the Modern Man to Domineer—The Growth of Moral +Responsibility in Women—The Concomitant Development of Economic +Independence—The Increase of Women Who Work—Invasion of the Modern +Industrial Field by Women—In How Far This Is Socially Justifiable—The +Sexual Responsibility of Women and Its Consequences—The Alleged Moral +Inferiority of Women—The "Self-Sacrifice"<a name='6_Page_xiv'></a> of Women—Society Not +Concerned with Sexual Relationships—Procreation the Sole Sexual Concern +of the State—The Supreme Importance of Maternity.</p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#6_CHAPTER_X'>CHAPTER X.—MARRIAGE.</a></h4> +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Definition of Marriage—Marriage Among Animals—The Predominance of +Monogamy—The Question of Group Marriage—Monogamy a Natural Fact, Not +Based on Human Law—The Tendency to Place the Form of Marriage Above the +Fact of Marriage—The History of Marriage—Marriage in Ancient +Rome—Germanic Influence on Marriage—Bride-Sale—The Ring—The Influence +of Christianity on Marriage—The Great Extent of this Influence—The +Sacrament of Matrimony—Origin and Growth of the Sacramental +Conception—The Church Made Marriage a Public Act—Canon Law—Its Sound +Core—Its Development—Its Confusions and Absurdities—Peculiarities of +English Marriage Law—Influence of the Reformation on Marriage—The +Protestant Conception of Marriage as a Secular Contract—The Puritan +Reform of Marriage—Milton as the Pioneer of Marriage Reform—His Views on +Divorce—The Backward Position of England in Marriage Reform—Criticism of +the English Divorce Law—Traditions of the Canon Law Still +Persistent—The Question of Damages for Adultery—Collusion as a Bar to +Divorce—Divorce in France, Germany, Austria, Russia, etc.—The United +States—Impossibility of Deciding by Statute the Causes for +Divorce—Divorce by Mutual Consent—Its Origin and Development—Impeded by +the Traditions of Canon Law—Wilhelm von Humboldt—Modern Pioneer +Advocates of Divorce by Mutual Consent—The Arguments Against Facility of +Divorce—The Interests of the Children—The Protection of Women—The +Present Tendency of the Divorce Movement—Marriage Not a Contract—The +Proposal of Marriage for a Term of Years—Legal Disabilities and +Disadvantages in the Position of the Husband and the Wife—Marriage Not a +Contract But a Fact—Only the Non-Essentials of Marriage, Not the +Essentials, a Proper Matter for Contract—The Legal Recognition of +Marriage as a Fact Without Any Ceremony—Contracts of the Person Opposed +to Modern Tendencies—The Factor of Moral Responsibility—Marriage as an +Ethical Sacrament—Personal Responsibility Involves Freedom—Freedom the +Best Guarantee of Stability—False Ideas of Individualism—Modern Tendency +of Marriage—With the Birth of a Child Marriage<a name='6_Page_xv'></a> Ceases to be a Private +Concern—Every Child Must Have a Legal Father and Mother—How This Can be +Effected—The Firm Basis of Monogamy—The Question of Marriage +Variations—Such Variations Not Inimical to Monogamy—The Most Common +Variations—The Flexibility of Marriage Holds Variations in +Check—Marriage Variations <i>versus</i> Prostitution—Marriage on a Reasonable +and Humane Basis—Summary and Conclusion.</p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#6_CHAPTER_XI'>CHAPTER XI.—THE ART OF LOVE.</a></h4> +<div class='blkquot'><p>Marriage Not Only for Procreation—Theologians on the <i>Sacramentum +Solationis</i>—Importance of the <i>Art of Love</i>—The Basis of Stability in +Marriage and the Condition for Right Procreation—The Art of Love the +Bulwark Against Divorce—The Unity of Love and Marriage a Principle of +Modern Morality—Christianity and the Art of Love—Ovid—The Art of Love +Among Primitive Peoples—Sexual Initiation in Africa and Elsewhere—The +Tendency to Spontaneous Development of the Art of Love in Early +Life—Flirtation—Sexual Ignorance in Women—The Husband's Place in Sexual +Initiation—Sexual Ignorance in Men—The Husband's Education for +Marriage—The Injury Done by the Ignorance of Husbands—The Physical and +Mental Results of Unskilful Coitus—Women Understand the Art of Love +Better Than Men—Ancient and Modern Opinions Concerning Frequency of +Coitus—Variation in Sexual Capacity—The Sexual Appetite—The Art of Love +Based on the Biological Facts of Courtship—The Art of Pleasing Women—The +Lover Compared to the Musician—The Proposal as a Part of +Courtship—Divination in the Art of Love—The Importance of the +Preliminaries in Courtship—The Unskilful Husband Frequently the Cause of +the Frigid Wife—The Difficulty of Courtship—Simultaneous Orgasm—The +Evils of Incomplete Gratification in Women—Coitus Interruptus—Coitus +Reservatus—The Human Method of Coitus—Variations in Coitus—Posture in +Coitus—The Best Time for Coitus—The Influence of Coitus in Marriage—The +Advantages of Absence in Marriage—The Risks of Absence—Jealousy—The +Primitive Function of Jealousy—Its Predominance Among Animals, Savages, +etc, and in Pathological States—An Anti-Social Emotion—Jealousy +Incompatible With the Progress of Civilization—The Possibility of Loving +More Than One Person at a Time—Platonic Friendship—The Conditions Which +Make It Possible—The Maternal<a name='6_Page_xvi'></a> Element in Woman's Love—The Final +Development of Conjugal Love—The Problem of Love One of the Greatest Of +Social Questions.</p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#6_CHAPTER_XII'>CHAPTER XII.—THE SCIENCE OF PROCREATION.</a></h4> +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Relationship of the Science of Procreation to the Art of Love—Sexual +Desire and Sexual Pleasure as the Conditions of Conception—Reproduction +Formerly Left to Caprice and Lust—The Question of Procreation as a +Religious Question—The Creed of Eugenics—Ellen Key and Sir Francis +Galton—Our Debt to Posterity—The Problem of Replacing Natural +Selection—The Origin and Development of Eugenics—The General Acceptance +of Eugenical Principles To-day—The Two Channels by Which Eugenical +Principles are Becoming Embodied in Practice—The Sense of Sexual +Responsibility in Women—The Rejection of Compulsory Motherhood—The +Privilege of Voluntary Motherhood—Causes of the Degradation of +Motherhood—The Control of Conception—Now Practiced by the Majority of +the Population in Civilized Countries—The Fallacy of "Racial +Suicide"—Are Large Families a Stigma of Degeneration?—Procreative +Control the Outcome of Natural and Civilized Progress—The Growth of +Neo-Malthusian Beliefs and Practices—Facultative Sterility as Distinct +from Neo-Malthusianism—The Medical and Hygienic Necessity of Control of +Conception—Preventive Methods—Abortion—The New Doctrine of the Duty to +Practice Abortion—How Far is this Justifiable?—Castration as a Method of +Controlling Procreation—Negative Eugenics and Positive Eugenics—The +Question of Certificates for Marriage—The Inadequacy of Eugenics by Act +of Parliament—The Quickening of the Social Conscience in Regard to +Heredity—Limitations to the Endowment of Motherhood—The Conditions +Favorable to Procreation—Sterility—The Question of Artificial +Fecundation—The Best Age of Procreation—The Question of Early +Motherhood—The Best Time for Procreation—The Completion of the Divine +Cycle of Life.</p></div> +<br /> +<h4><a href='#6_POSTSCRIPT'>POSTSCRIPT.</a></h4> + +<h4><a href='#6_INDEX_OF_AUTHORS'>INDEX OF AUTHORS.</a></h4> +<h4><a href='#6_INDEX_OF_SUBJECTS'>INDEX OF SUBJECTS.</a></h4> +<br /> + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_CHAPTER_I'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_1'></a>CHAPTER I.</h2> + +<h3>THE MOTHER AND HER CHILD.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Child's Right to Choose Its Ancestry—How This is Effected—The Mother +the Child's Supreme Parent—Motherhood and the Woman Movement—The Immense +Importance of Motherhood—Infant Mortality and Its Causes—The Chief Cause +in the Mother—The Need of Rest During Pregnancy—Frequency of Premature +Birth—The Function of the State—Recent Advance in Puericulture—The +Question of Coitus During Pregnancy—The Need of Rest During +Lactation—The Mother's Duty to Suckle Her Child—The Economic +Question—The Duty of the State—Recent Progress in the Protection of the +Mother—The Fallacy of State Nurseries.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>A man's sexual nature, like all else that is most essential in him, is +rooted in a soil that was formed very long before his birth. In this, as +in every other respect, he draws the elements of his life from his +ancestors, however new the recombination may be and however greatly it may +be modified by subsequent conditions. A man's destiny stands not in the +future but in the past. That, rightly considered, is the most vital of all +vital facts. Every child thus has a right to choose his own ancestors. +Naturally he can only do this vicariously, through his parents. It is the +most serious and sacred duty of the future father to choose one half of +the ancestral and hereditary character of his future child; it is the most +serious and sacred duty of the future mother to make a similar choice.<a name='6_FNanchor_1'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_1'><sup>[1]</sup></a> +In choosing each other they have between them chosen the whole ancestry of +their child. They have determined the stars that will rule his fate.</p> + +<p>In the past that fateful determination has usually been made helplessly, +ignorantly, almost unconsciously. It has either <a name='6_Page_2'></a>been guided by an +instinct which, on the whole, has worked out fairly well, or controlled by +economic interests of the results of which so much cannot be said, or left +to the risks of lower than bestial chances which can produce nothing but +evil. In the future we cannot but have faith—for all the hope of humanity +must rest on that faith—that a new guiding impulse, reinforcing natural +instinct and becoming in time an inseparable accompaniment of it, will +lead civilized man on his racial course. Just as in the past the race has, +on the whole, been moulded by a natural, and in part sexual, selection, +that was unconscious of itself and ignorant of the ends it made towards, +so in the future the race will be moulded by deliberate selection, the +creative energy of Nature becoming self-conscious in the civilized brain +of man. This is not a faith which has its source in a vague hope. The +problems of the individual life are linked on to the fate of the racial +life, and again and again we shall find as we ponder the individual +questions we are here concerned with, that at all points they ultimately +converge towards this same racial end.</p> + +<p>Since we have here, therefore, to follow out the sexual relationships of +the individual as they bear on society, it will be convenient at this +point to put aside the questions of ancestry and to accept the individual +as, with hereditary constitution already determined, he lies in his +mother's womb.</p> + +<p>It is the mother who is the child's supreme parent. At various points in +zoölogical evolution it has seemed possible that the functions that we now +know as those of maternity would be largely and even equally shared by the +male parent. Nature has tried various experiments in this direction, among +the fishes, for instance, and even among birds. But reasonable and +excellent as these experiments were, and though they were sufficiently +sound to secure their perpetuation unto this day, it remains true that it +was not along these lines that Man was destined to emerge. Among all the +mammal predecessors of Man, the male is an imposing and important figure +in the early days of courtship, but after conception has once been secured +the mother plays the chief part in the racial life. The male must be +content to forage <a name='6_Page_3'></a>abroad and stand on guard when at home in the +ante-chamber of the family. When she has once been impregnated the female +animal angrily rejects the caresses she had welcomed so coquettishly +before, and even in Man the place of the father at the birth of his child +is not a notably dignified or comfortable one. Nature accords the male but +a secondary and comparatively humble place in the home, the breeding-place +of the race; he may compensate himself if he will, by seeking adventure +and renown in the world outside. The mother is the child's supreme parent, +and during the period from conception to birth the hygiene of the future +man can only be affected by influences which work through her.</p> + +<p>Fundamental and elementary as is the fact of the predominant position of +the mother in relation to the life of the race, incontestable as it must +seem to all those who have traversed the volumes of these <i>Studies</i> up to +the present point, it must be admitted that it has sometimes been +forgotten or ignored. In the great ages of humanity it has indeed been +accepted as a central and sacred fact. In classic Rome at one period the +house of the pregnant woman was adorned with garlands, and in Athens it +was an inviolable sanctuary where even the criminal might find shelter. +Even amid the mixed influences of the exuberantly vital times which +preceded the outburst of the Renaissance, the ideally beautiful woman, as +pictures still show, was the pregnant woman. But it has not always been +so. At the present time, for instance, there can be no doubt that we are +but beginning to emerge from a period during which this fact was often +disputed and denied, both in theory and in practice, even by women +themselves. This was notably the case both in England and America, and it +is probably owing in large part to the unfortunate infatuation which led +women in these lands to follow after masculine ideals that at the present +moment the inspirations of progress in women's movements come mainly +to-day from the women of other lands. Motherhood and the future of the +race were systematically belittled. Paternity is but a mere incident, it +was argued, in man's life: why should maternity be more than a mere +incident <a name='6_Page_4'></a>in woman's life? In England, by a curiously perverted form of +sexual attraction, women were so fascinated by the glamour that surrounded +men that they desired to suppress or forget all the facts of organic +constitution which made them unlike men, counting their glory as their +shame, and sought the same education as men, the same occupations as men, +even the same sports. As we know, there was at the origin an element of +rightness in this impulse.<a name='6_FNanchor_2'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_2'><sup>[2]</sup></a> It was absolutely right in so far as it was +a claim for freedom from artificial restriction, and a demand for economic +independence. But it became mischievous and absurd when it developed into +a passion for doing, in all respects, the same things as men do; how +mischievous and how absurd we may realize if we imagine men developing a +passion to imitate the ways and avocations of women. Freedom is only good +when it is a freedom to follow the laws of one's own nature; it ceases to +be freedom when it becomes a slavish attempt to imitate others, and would +be disastrous if it could be successful.<a name='6_FNanchor_3'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_3'><sup>[3]</sup></a></p> + +<p>At the present day this movement on the theoretical side has ceased to +possess any representatives who exert serious influence. Yet its practical +results are still prominently exhibited in England and the other countries +in which it has been felt. Infantile mortality is enormous, and in England +at all events is only beginning to show a tendency to diminish; motherhood +is without dignity, and the vitality of mothers is speedily crushed, so +<a name='6_Page_5'></a>that often they cannot so much as suckle their infants; ignorant +girl-mothers give their infants potatoes and gin; on every hand we are +told of the evidence of degeneracy in the race, or if not in the race, at +all events, in the young individuals of to-day.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It would be out of place, and would lead us too far, to discuss + here these various practical outcomes of the foolish attempt to + belittle the immense racial importance of motherhood. It is + enough here to touch on the one point of the excess of infantile + mortality.</p> + +<p> In England—which is not from the social point of view in a very + much worse condition than most countries, for in Austria and + Russia the infant mortality is higher still, though in Australia + and New Zealand much lower, but still excessive—more than + one-fourth of the total number of deaths every year is of infants + under one year of age. In the opinion of medical officers of + health who are in the best position to form an opinion, about + one-half of this mortality, roughly speaking, is absolutely + preventable. Moreover, it is doubtful whether there is any real + movement of decrease in this mortality; during the past half + century it has sometimes slightly risen and sometimes slightly + fallen, and though during the past few years the general movement + of mortality for children under five in England and Wales has + shown a tendency to decrease, in London (according to J. F. J. + Sykes, although Sir Shirley Murphy has attempted to minimize the + significance of these figures) the infantile mortality rate for + the first three months of life actually rose from 69 per 1,000 in + the period 1888-1892 to 75 per 1,000 in the period 1898-1901. + (This refers, it must be remembered, to the period before the + introduction of the Notification of Births Act.) In any case, + although the general mortality shows a marked tendency to + improvement there is certainly no adequately corresponding + improvement in the infantile mortality. This is scarcely + surprising, when we realize that there has been no change for the + better, but rather for the worse, in the conditions under which + our infants are born and reared. Thus William Hall, who has had + an intimate knowledge extending over fifty-six years of the slums + of Leeds, and has weighed and measured many thousands of slum + children, besides examining over 120,000 boys and girls as to + their fitness for factory labor, states (<i>British Medical + Journal</i>, October 14, 1905) that "fifty years ago the slum mother + was much more sober, cleanly, domestic, and motherly than she is + to-day; she was herself better nourished and she almost always + suckled her children, and after weaning they received more + nutritious bone-making food, and she was able to prepare more + wholesome food at home." The system of compulsory education has + had an unfortunate influence in exerting a strain on the parents + and worsening the conditions of the home. For, excellent <a name='6_Page_6'></a>as + education is in itself, it is not the primary need of life, and + has been made compulsory before the more essential things of life + have been made equally compulsory. How absolutely unnecessary + this great mortality is may be shown, without evoking the good + example of Australia and New Zealand, by merely comparing small + English towns; thus while in Guildford the infantile death rate + is 65 per thousand, in Burslem it is 205 per thousand.</p> + +<p> It is sometimes said that infantile mortality is an economic + question, and that with improvement in wages it would cease. This + is only true to a limited extent and under certain conditions. In + Australia there is no grinding poverty, but the deaths of infants + under one year of age are still between 80 and 90 per thousand, + and one-third of this mortality, according to Hooper (<i>British + Medical Journal</i>, 1908, vol. ii, p. 289), being due to the + ignorance of mothers and the dislike to suckling, is easily + preventable. The employment of married women greatly diminishes + the poverty of a family, but nothing can be worse for the welfare + of the woman as mother, or for the welfare of her child. Reid, + the medical officer of health for Staffordshire, where there are + two large centres of artisan population with identical health + conditions, has shown that in the northern centre, where a very + large number of women are engaged in factories, still-births are + three times as frequent as in the southern centre, where there + are practically no trade employments for women; the frequency of + abnormalities is also in the same ratio. The superiority of + Jewish over Christian children, again, and their lower infantile + mortality, seem to be entirely due to the fact that Jewesses are + better mothers. "The Jewish children in the slums," says William + Hall (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, October 14, 1905), speaking from + wide and accurate knowledge, "were superior in weight, in teeth, + and in general bodily development, and they seemed less + susceptible to infectious disease. Yet these Jews were + overcrowded, they took little exercise, and their unsanitary + environment was obvious. The fact was, their children were much + better nourished. The pregnant Jewess was more cared for, and no + doubt supplied better nutriment to the fœtus. After the + children were born 90 per cent. received breast-milk, and during + later childhood they were abundantly fed on bone-making material; + eggs and oil, fish, fresh vegetables, and fruit entered largely + into their diet." G. Newman, in his important and comprehensive + book on <i>Infant Mortality</i>, emphasizes the conclusion that "first + of all we need a higher standard of physical motherhood." The + problem of infantile mortality, he declares (page 259), is not + one of sanitation alone, or housing, or indeed of poverty as + such, "<i>but is mainly a question of motherhood</i>."</p></div> + +<p>The fundamental need of the pregnant woman is <i>rest</i>. Without a large +degree of maternal rest there can be no <a name='6_Page_7'></a>puericulture.<a name='6_FNanchor_4'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_4'><sup>[4]</sup></a> The task of +creating a man needs the whole of a woman's best energies, more especially +during the three months before birth. It cannot be subordinated to the tax +on strength involved by manual or mental labor, or even strenuous social +duties and amusements. The numerous experiments and observations which +have been made during recent years in Maternity Hospitals, more especially +in France, have shown conclusively that not only the present and future +well-being of the mother and the ease of her confinement, but the fate of +the child, are immensely influenced by rest during the last month of +pregnancy. "Every working woman is entitled to rest during the last three +months of her pregnancy." This formula was adopted by the International +Congress of Hygiene in 1900, but it cannot be practically carried out +except by the coöperation of the whole community. For it is not enough to +say that a woman ought to rest during pregnancy; it is the business of the +community to ensure that that rest is duly secured. The woman herself, and +her employer, we may be certain, will do their best to cheat the +community, but it is the community which suffers, both economically and +morally, when a woman casts her inferior children into the world, and in +its own interests the community is forced to control both employer and +employed. We can no longer allow it to be said, in Bouchacourt's words, +that "to-day the dregs of the human species—the blind, the deaf-mute, the +degenerate, the nervous, the vicious, the idiotic, the imbecile, the +cretins and epileptics—are better protected than pregnant women."<a name='6_FNanchor_5'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_5'><sup>[5]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Pinard, who must always be honored as one of the founders of + eugenics, has, together with his pupils, done much to prepare the + way <a name='6_Page_8'></a>for the acceptance of this simple but important principle by + making clear the grounds on which it is based. From prolonged + observations on the pregnant women of all classes Pinard has + shown conclusively that women who rest during pregnancy have + finer children than women who do not rest. Apart from the more + general evils of work during pregnancy, Pinard found that during + the later months it had a tendency to press the uterus down into + the pelvis, and so cause the premature birth of undeveloped + children, while labor was rendered more difficult and dangerous + (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Pinard, <i>Gazette des Hôpitaux</i>, Nov. 28, 1895, Id., + <i>Annales de Gynécologie</i>, Aug., 1898).</p> + +<p> Letourneux has studied the question whether repose during + pregnancy is necessary for women whose professional work is only + slightly fatiguing. He investigated 732 successive confinements + at the Clinique Baudelocque in Paris. He found that 137 women + engaged in fatiguing occupations (servants, cooks, etc.) and not + resting during pregnancy, produced children with an average + weight of 3,081 grammes; 115 women engaged in only slightly + fatiguing occupations (dressmakers, milliners, etc.) and also not + resting during pregnancy, had children with an average weight of + 3,130 grammes, a slight but significant difference, in view of + the fact that the women of the first group were large and robust, + while those of the second group were of slight and elegant build. + Again, comparing groups of women who rested during pregnancy, it + was found that the women accustomed to fatiguing work had + children with an average weight of 3,319 grammes, while those + accustomed to less fatiguing work had children with an average + weight of 3,318 grammes. The difference between repose and + non-repose is thus considerable, while it also enables robust + women exercising a fatiguing occupation to catch up, though not + to surpass, the frailer women exercising a less fatiguing + occupation. We see, too, that even in the comparatively + unfatiguing occupations of milliners, etc., rest during pregnancy + still remains important, and cannot safely be dispensed with. + "Society," Letourneux concludes, "must guarantee rest to women + not well off during a part of pregnancy. It will be repaid the + cost of doing so by the increased vigor of the children thus + produced" (Letourneux, <i>De l'Influence de la Profession de la + Mère sur le Poids de l'Enfant</i>, Thèse de Paris, 1897).</p> + +<p> Dr. Dweira-Bernson (<i>Revue Pratique d'Obstétrique et de + Pédiatrie</i>, 1903, p. 370), compared four groups of pregnant women + (servants with light work, servants with heavy work, farm girls, + dressmakers) who rested for three months before confinement with + four groups similarly composed who took no rest before + confinement. In every group he found that the difference in the + average weight of the child was markedly in favor of the women + who rested, and it was notable that the greatest difference was + found in the case of the farm girls who were probably the most + robust and also the hardest worked.</p><a name='6_Page_9'></a> + +<p> The usual time of gestation ranges between 274 and 280 days (or + 280 to 290 days from the last menstrual period), and occasionally + a few days longer, though there is dispute as to the length of + the extreme limit, which some authorities would extend to 300 + days, or even to 320 days (Pinard, in Richet's <i>Dictionnaire de + Physiologie</i>, vol. vii, pp. 150-162; Taylor, <i>Medical + Jurisprudence</i>, fifth edition, pp. 44, 98 <i>et seq.</i>; L. M. Allen, + "Prolonged Gestation," <i>American Journal Obstetrics</i>, April, + 1907). It is possible, as Müller suggested in 1898 in a Thèse de + Nancy, that civilization tends to shorten the period of + gestation, and that in earlier ages it was longer than it is now. + Such a tendency to premature birth under the exciting nervous + influences of civilization would thus correspond, as Bouchacourt + has pointed out (<i>La Grossesse</i>, p. 113), to the similar effect + of domestication in animals. The robust countrywoman becomes + transformed into the more graceful, but also more fragile, town + woman who needs a degree of care and hygiene which the + countrywoman with her more resistant nervous system can to some + extent dispense with, although even she, as we see, suffers in + the person of her child, and probably in her own person, from the + effects of work during pregnancy. The serious nature of this + civilized tendency to premature birth—of which lack of rest in + pregnancy is, however, only one of several important causes—is + shown by the fact that Séropian (<i>Fréquence Comparée des Causes + de l'Accouchement Prémature</i>, Thèse de Paris, 1907) found that + about one-third of French births (32.28 per cent.) are to a + greater or less extent premature. Pregnancy is not a morbid + condition; on the contrary, a pregnant woman is at the climax of + her most normal physiological life, but owing to the tension thus + involved she is specially liable to suffer from any slight shock + or strain.</p> + +<p> It must be remarked that the increased tendency to premature + birth, while in part it may be due to general tendencies of + civilization, is also in part due to very definite and + preventable causes. Syphilis, alcoholism, and attempts to produce + abortion are among the not uncommon causes of premature birth + (see, <i>e.g.</i>, G. F. McCleary, "The Influence of Antenatal + Conditions on Infantile Mortality," <i>British Medical Journal</i>, + Aug. 13, 1904).</p> + +<p> Premature birth ought to be avoided, because the child born too + early is insufficiently equipped for the task before him. + Astengo, dealing with nearly 19,000 cases at the Lariboisière + Hospital in Paris and the Maternité, found, that reckoning from + the date of the last menstruation, there is a direct relation + between the weight of the infant at birth and the length of the + pregnancy. The longer the pregnancy, the finer the child + (Astengo, <i>Rapport du Poids des Enfants à la Durée de la + Grossesse</i>, Thèse de Paris, 1905).</p> + +<p> The frequency of premature birth is probably as great in England + as in France. Ballantyne states (<i>Manual of Antenatal Pathology; + The<a name='6_Page_10'></a> Fœtus</i>, p. 456) that for practical purposes the + frequency of premature labors in maternity hospitals may be put + at 20 per cent., but that if all infants weighing less than 3,000 + grammes are to be regarded as premature, it rises to 41.5 per + cent. That premature birth is increasing in England seems to be + indicated by the fact that during the past twenty-five years + there has been a steady rise in the mortality rate from premature + birth. McCleary, who discusses this point and considers the + increase real, concludes that "it would appear that there has + been a diminution in the quality as well as in the quantity of + our output of babies" (see also a discussion, introduced by + Dawson Williams, on "Physical Deterioration," <i>British Medical + Journal</i>, Oct. 14, 1905).</p> + +<p> It need scarcely be pointed out that not only is immaturity a + cause of deterioration in the infants that survive, but that it + alone serves enormously to decrease the number of infants that + are able to survive. Thus G. Newman states (<i>loc. cit.</i>) that in + most large English urban districts immaturity is the chief cause + of infant mortality, furnishing about 30 per cent. of the infant + deaths; even in London (Islington) Alfred Harris (<i>British + Medical Journal</i>, Dec. 14, 1907) finds that it is responsible for + nearly 17 per cent. of the infantile deaths. It is estimated by + Newman that about half of the mothers of infants dying of + immaturity suffer from marked ill-health and poor physique; they + are not, therefore, fitted to be mothers.</p> + +<p> Rest during pregnancy is a very powerful agent in preventing + premature birth. Thus Dr. Sarraute-Lourié has compared 1,550 + pregnant women at the Asile Michelet who rested before + confinement with 1,550 women confined at the Hôpital Lariboisière + who had enjoyed no such period of rest. She found that the + average duration of pregnancy was at least twenty days shorter in + the latter group (Mme. Sarraute-Lourié, <i>De l'Influence du Repos + sur la Durée de la Gestation</i>, Thèse de Paris, 1899).</p> + +<p> Leyboff has insisted on the absolute necessity of rest during + pregnancy, as well for the sake of the woman herself as the + burden she carries, and shows the evil results which follow when + rest is neglected. Railway traveling, horse-riding, bicycling, + and sea-voyages are also, Leyboff believes, liable to be + injurious to the course of pregnancy. Leyboff recognizes the + difficulties which procreating women are placed under by present + industrial conditions, and concludes that "it is urgently + necessary to prevent women, by law, from working during the last + three months of pregnancy; that in every district there should be + a maternity fund; that during this enforced rest a woman should + receive the same salary as during work." He adds that the + children of unmarried mothers should be cared for by the State, + that there should be an eight-hours' day for all workers, and + that no children under sixteen should be allowed to work (E. + Leyboff, <i>L'Hygiène de la Grossesse</i>, Thèse de Paris, 1905).</p><a name='6_Page_11'></a> + +<p> Perruc states that at least two months' rest before confinement + should be made compulsory, and that during this period the woman + should receive an indemnity regulated by the State. He is of + opinion that it should take the form of compulsory assurance, to + which the worker, the employer, and the State alike contributed + (Perruc, <i>Assistance aux Femmes Enceintes</i>, Thèse de Paris, + 1905).</p> + +<p> It is probable that during the earlier months of pregnancy, work, + if not excessively heavy and exhausting, has little or no bad + effect; thus Bacchimont (<i>Documents pour servir a l'Histoire de + la Puériculture Intra-utérine</i>, Thèse de Paris, 1898) found that, + while there was a great gain in the weight of children of mothers + who had rested for three months, there was no corresponding gain + in the children of those mothers who had rested for longer + periods. It is during the last three months that freedom, repose, + the cessation of the obligatory routine of employment become + necessary. This is the opinion of Pinard, the chief authority on + this matter. Many, however, fearing that economic and industrial + conditions render so long a period of rest too difficult of + practical attainment, are, with Clappier and G. Newman, content + to demand two months as a minimum; Salvat only asks for one + month's rest before confinement, the woman, whether married or + not, receiving a pecuniary indemnity during this period, with + medical care and drugs free. Ballantyne (<i>Manual of Antenatal + Pathology: The Fœtus</i>, p. 475), as well as Niven, also + asks only for one month's compulsory rest during pregnancy, with + indemnity. Arthur Helme, however, taking a more comprehensive + view of all the factors involved, concludes in a valuable paper + on "The Unborn Child: Its Care and Its Rights" (<i>British Medical + Journal</i>, Aug. 24, 1907), "The important thing would be to + prohibit pregnant women from going to work at all, and it is as + important from the standpoint of the child that this prohibition + should include the early as the late months of pregnancy."</p> + +<p> In England little progress has yet been made as regards this + question of rest during pregnancy, even as regards the education + of public opinion. Sir William Sinclair, Professor of Obstetrics + at the Victoria University of Manchester, has published (1907) <i>A + Plea for Establishing Municipal Maternity Homes</i>. Ballantyne, a + great British authority on the embryology of the child, has + published a "Plea for a Pre-Maternity Hospital" (<i>British Medical + Journal</i>, April 6, 1901), has since given an important lecture on + the subject (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, Jan. 11, 1908), and has + further discussed the matter in his <i>Manual of Ante-Natal + Pathology: The Fœtus</i> (Ch. XXVII); he is, however, more + interested in the establishment of hospitals for the diseases of + pregnancy than in the wider and more fundamental question of rest + for all pregnant women. In England there are, indeed, a few + institutions which receive unmarried women, with a record of good + conduct, who are pregnant for the <a name='6_Page_12'></a>first time, for, as + Bouchacourt remarks, ancient British prejudices are opposed to + any mercy being shown to women who are recidivists in committing + the crime of conception.</p> + +<p> At present, indeed, it is only in France that the urgent need of + rest during the latter months of pregnancy has been clearly + realized, and any serious and official attempts made to provide + for it. In an interesting Paris thesis (<i>De la Puériculture avant + le Naissance</i>, 1907) Clappier has brought together much + information bearing on the efforts now being made to deal + practically with this question. There are many <i>Asiles</i> in Paris + for pregnant women. One of the best is the Asile Michelet, + founded in 1893 by the Assistance Publique de Paris. This is a + sanatorium for pregnant women who have reached a period of seven + and a half months. It is nominally restricted to the admission of + French women who have been domiciled for a year in Paris, but, in + practice, it appears that women from all parts of France are + received. They are employed in light and occasional work for the + institution, being paid for this work, and are also occupied in + making clothes for the expected baby. Married and unmarried women + are admitted alike, all women being equal from the point of view + of motherhood, and indeed the majority of the women who come to + the Asile Michelet are unmarried, some being girls who have even + trudged on foot from Brittany and other remote parts of France, + to seek concealment from their friends in the hospitable + seclusion of these refuges in the great city. It is not the least + advantage of these institutions that they shield unmarried + mothers and their offspring from the manifold evils to which they + are exposed, and thus tend to decrease crime and suffering. In + addition to the maternity refuges, there are institutions in + France for assisting with help and advice those pregnant women + who prefer to remain at home, but are thus enabled to avoid the + necessity for undue domestic labor.</p> + +<p> There ought to be no manner of doubt that when, as is the case + to-day in our own and some other supposedly civilized countries, + motherhood outside marriage is accounted as almost a crime, there + is the very greatest need for adequate provision for unmarried + women who are about to become mothers, enabling them to receive + shelter and care in secrecy, and to preserve their self-respect + and social position. This is necessary not only in the interests + of humanity and public economy, but also, as is too often + forgotten, in the interests of morality, for it is certain that + by the neglect to furnish adequate provision of this nature women + are driven to infanticide and prostitution. In earlier, more + humane days, the general provision for the secret reception and + care of illegitimate infants was undoubtedly most beneficial. The + suppression of the mediæval method, which in France took place + gradually between 1833 and 1862, led to a great increase in + infanticide and abortion, and was a direct encouragement to crime + and immorality. In 1887 the<a name='6_Page_13'></a> Conseil Général of the Seine sought + to replace the prevailing neglect of this matter by the adoption + of more enlightened ideas and founded a <i>bureau secret + d'admission</i> for pregnant women. Since then both the abandonment + of infants and infanticide have greatly diminished, though they + are increasing in those parts of France which possess no + facilities of this kind. It is widely held that the State should + unify the arrangements for assuring secret maternity, and should, + in its own interests, undertake the expense. In 1904 French law + ensured the protection of unmarried mothers by guaranteeing their + secret, but it failed to organize the general establishment of + secret maternities, and has left to doctors the pioneering part + in this great and humane public work (A. Maillard-Brune, + <i>Refuges, Maternités, Bureaux d'Admission Secrets, comme Moyens + Préservatives des Infanticide</i>, Thèse de Paris, 1908). It is not + among the least benefits of the falling birth rate that it has + helped to stimulate this beneficent movement.</p></div> + +<p>The development of an industrial system which subordinates the human body +and the human soul to the thirst for gold, has, for a time, dismissed from +social consideration the interests of the race and even of the individual, +but it must be remembered that this has not been always and everywhere so. +Although in some parts of the world the women of savage peoples work up to +the time of confinement, it must be remarked that the conditions of work +in savage life do not resemble the strenuous and continuous labor of +modern factories. In many parts of the world, however, women are not +allowed to work hard during pregnancy and every consideration is shown to +them. This is so, for instance, among the Pueblo Indians, and among the +Indians of Mexico. Similar care is taken in the Carolines and the Gilbert +Islands and in many other regions all over the world. In some places, +women are secluded during pregnancy, and in others are compelled to +observe many more or less excellent rules. It is true that the assigned +cause for these rules is frequently the fear of evil spirits, but they +nevertheless often preserve a hygienic value. In many parts of the world +the discovery of pregnancy is the sign for a festival of more or less +ritual character, and much good advice is given to the expectant mother. +The modern Musselmans are careful to guard the health of their women when +pregnant, <a name='6_Page_14'></a>and so are the Chinese.<a name='6_FNanchor_6'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_6'><sup>[6]</sup></a> Even in Europe, in the thirteenth +century, as Clappier notes, industrial corporations sometimes had regard +to this matter, and would not allow women to work during pregnancy. In +Iceland, where much of the primitive life of Scandinavian Europe is still +preserved, great precautions are taken with pregnant women. They must lead +a quiet life, avoid tight garments, be moderate in eating and drinking, +take no alcohol, be safeguarded from all shocks, while their husbands and +all others who surround them must treat them with consideration, save them +from worry and always bear with them patiently.<a name='6_FNanchor_7'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_7'><sup>[7]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is necessary to emphasize this point because we have to realize that +the modern movement for surrounding the pregnant woman with tenderness and +care, so far from being the mere outcome of civilized softness and +degeneracy, is, in all probability, the return on a higher plane to the +sane practice of those races which laid the foundations of human +greatness.</p> + +<p>While rest is the cardinal virtue imposed on a woman during the later +months of pregnancy, there are other points in her regimen that are far +from unimportant in their bearing on the fate of the child. One of these +is the question of the mother's use of alcohol. Undoubtedly alcohol has +been a cause of much fanaticism. But the declamatory extravagance of +anti-alcoholists must not blind us to the fact that the evils of alcohol +<a name='6_Page_15'></a>are real. On the reproductive process especially, on the mammary glands, +and on the child, alcohol has an arresting and degenerative influence +without any compensatory advantages. It has been proved by experiments on +animals and observations on the human subject that alcohol taken by the +pregnant woman passes freely from the maternal circulation to the foœtal +circulation. Féré has further shown that, by injecting alcohol and +aldehydes into hen's eggs during incubation, it is possible to cause +arrest of development and malformation in the chick.<a name='6_FNanchor_8'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_8'><sup>[8]</sup></a> The woman who is +bearing her child in her womb or suckling it at her breast would do well +to remember that the alcohol which may be harmless to herself is little +better than poison to the immature being who derives nourishment from her +blood. She should confine herself to the very lightest of alcoholic +beverages in very moderate amounts and would do better still to abandon +these entirely and drink milk instead. She is now the sole source of the +child's life and she cannot be too scrupulous in creating around it an +atmosphere of purity and health. No after-influence can ever compensate +for mistakes made at this time.<a name='6_FNanchor_9'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_9'><sup>[9]</sup></a></p> + +<p>What is true of alcohol is equally true of other potent drugs and poisons, +which should all be avoided so far as possible during pregnancy because of +the harmful influence they may directly exert on the embryo. Hygiene is +better than drugs, and care should be exercised in diet, which should by +no means be excessive. It is a mistake to suppose that the pregnant woman +needs considerably more food than usual, and there is much reason to +<a name='6_Page_16'></a>believe not only that a rich meat diet tends to cause sterility but that +it is also unfavorable to the development of the child in the womb.<a name='6_FNanchor_10'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_10'><sup>[10]</sup></a></p> + +<p>How far, if at all, it is often asked, should sexual intercourse be +continued after fecundation has been clearly ascertained? This has not +always been found an easy question to answer, for in the human couple many +considerations combine to complicate the answer. Even the Catholic +theologians have not been entirely in agreement on this point. Clement of +Alexandria said that when the seed had been sown the field must be left +till harvest. But it may be concluded that, as a rule, the Church was +inclined to regard intercourse during pregnancy as at most a venial sin, +provided there was no danger of abortion. Augustine, Gregory the Great, +Aquinas, Dens, for instance, seem to be of this mind; for a few, indeed, +it is no sin at all.<a name='6_FNanchor_11'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_11'><sup>[11]</sup></a> Among animals the rule is simple and uniform; as +soon as the female is impregnated at the period of œstrus she +absolutely rejects all advance of the male until, after birth and +lactation are over, another period of œstrus occurs. Among +savages the tendency is less uniform, and sexual abstinence, when it +occurs during pregnancy, tends to become less a natural instinct than a +ritual observance, or a custom now chiefly supported by superstitions. +Among many primitive peoples abstinence during the whole of pregnancy is +enjoined because it is believed that the semen would kill the fœtus.<a name='6_FNanchor_12'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_12'><sup>[12]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Talmud is unfavorable to coitus during pregnancy, and the + Koran prohibits it during the whole of the period, as well as + during suckling. Among the Hindus, on the other hand, intercourse + is continued up to the last fortnight of pregnancy, and it is + even believed that the injected semen helps to nourish the embryo + (W. D. Sutherland,<a name='6_Page_17'></a> "Ueber das Alltagsleben und die Volksmedizin + unter den Bauern Britischostindiens," <i>Münchener Medizinische + Wochenschrift</i>, Nos. 12 and 13, 1906). The great Indian physician + Susruta, however, was opposed to coitus during pregnancy, and the + Chinese are emphatically on the same side.</p></div> + +<p>As men have emerged from barbarism in the direction of civilization, the +animal instinct of refusal after impregnation has been completely lost in +women, while at the same time both sexes tend to become indifferent to +those ritual restraints which at an earlier period were almost as binding +as instinct. Sexual intercourse thus came to be practiced after +impregnation, much the same as before, as part of ordinary "marital +rights," though sometimes there has remained a faint suspicion, reflected +in the hesitating attitude of the Catholic Church already alluded to, that +such intercourse may be a sinful indulgence. Morality is, however, called +in to fortify this indulgence. If the husband is shut out from marital +intercourse at this time, it is argued, he will seek extra-marital +intercourse, as indeed in some parts of the world it is recognized that he +legitimately may; therefore the interests of the wife, anxious to retain +her husband's fidelity, and the interests of Christian morality, anxious +to uphold the institution of monogamy, combine to permit the continuation +of coitus during pregnancy. The custom has been furthered by the fact +that, in civilized women at all events, coitus during pregnancy is usually +not less agreeable than at other times and by some women is felt indeed to +be even more agreeable.<a name='6_FNanchor_13'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_13'><sup>[13]</sup></a> There is also the further consideration, for +those couples who have sought to prevent conception, that now intercourse +may be enjoyed with impunity. From a higher point of view such intercourse +may also be justified, for if, as all the finer moralists of the sexual +impulse now believe, love has its value not only in so far as it induces +procreation but also in so far as it aids individual <a name='6_Page_18'></a>development and the +mutual good and harmony of the united couple, it becomes morally right +during pregnancy.</p> + +<p>From an early period, however, great authorities have declared themselves +in opposition to the custom of practicing coitus during pregnancy. At the +end of the first century, Soranus, the first of great gynæcologists, +stated, in his treatise on the diseases of women, that sexual intercourse +is injurious throughout pregnancy, because of the movement imparted to the +uterus, and especially injurious during the latter months. For more than +sixteen hundred years the question, having fallen into the hands of the +theologians, seems to have been neglected on the medical side until in +1721 a distinguished French obstetrician, Mauriceau, stated that no +pregnant woman should have intercourse during the last two months and that +no woman subject to miscarriage should have intercourse at all during +pregnancy. For more than a century, however, Mauriceau remained a pioneer +with few or no followers. It would be inconvenient, the opinion went, even +if it were necessary, to forbid intercourse during pregnancy.<a name='6_FNanchor_14'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_14'><sup>[14]</sup></a></p> + +<p>During recent years, nevertheless, there has been an increasingly strong +tendency among obstetricians to speak decisively concerning intercourse +during pregnancy, either by condemning it altogether or by enjoining great +prudence. It is highly probable that, in accordance with the classical +experiments of Dareste on chicken embryos, shocks and disturbances to the +human embryo may also produce injurious effects on growth. The disturbance +due to coitus in the early stages of pregnancy may thus tend to produce +malformation. When such conditions are found in the children of perfectly +healthy, vigorous, and generally temperate parents who have indulged +recklessly in coitus <a name='6_Page_19'></a>during the early stages of pregnancy it is possible +that such coitus has acted on the embryo in the same way as shocks and +intoxications are known to act on the embryo of lower organisms. However +this may be, it is quite certain that in predisposed women, coitus during +pregnancy causes premature birth; it sometimes happens that labor pains +begin a few minutes after the act.<a name='6_FNanchor_15'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_15'><sup>[15]</sup></a> The natural instinct of animals +refuses to allow intercourse during pregnancy; the ritual observance of +primitive peoples very frequently points in the same direction; the voice +of medical science, so far as it speaks at all, is beginning to utter the +same warning, and before long will probably be in a position to do so on +the basis of more solid and coherent evidence.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Pinard, the greatest of authorities on puericulture, asserts that + there must be complete cessation of sexual intercourse during the + whole of pregnancy, and in his consulting room at the Clinique + Baudelocque he has placed a large placard with an "Important + Notice" to this effect. Féré was strongly of opinion that sexual + relations during pregnancy, especially when recklessly carried + out, play an important part in the causation of nervous troubles + in children who are of sound heredity and otherwise free from all + morbid infection during gestation and development; he recorded in + detail a case which he considered conclusive ("L'Influence de + l'Incontinence Sexuelle pendant la Gestation sur la Descendance," + <i>Archives de Neurologie</i>, April, 1905). Bouchacourt discusses the + subject fully (<i>La Grossesse</i>, pp. 177-214), and thinks that + sexual intercourse during pregnancy should be avoided as much as + possible. Fürbringer (Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health and Disease in + Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. i, p. 226) recommends abstinence from + the sixth or seventh month, and throughout the whole of pregnancy + where there is any tendency to miscarriage, while in all cases + much care and gentleness should be exercised.</p> + +<p> The whole subject has been investigated in a Paris Thesis by H. + Brénot (<i>De L'Influence de la Copulation pendant la Grossesse</i>, + 1903); he concludes that sexual relations are dangerous + throughout pregnancy, frequently provoking premature confinement + or abortion, and that they are more dangerous in primiparæ than + in multiparæ.</p></div><a name='6_Page_20'></a> + +<p>Nearly everything that has been said of the hygiene of pregnancy, and the +need for rest, applies also to the period immediately following the birth +of the child. Rest and hygiene on the mother's part continue to be +necessary alike in her own interests and in the child's. This need has +indeed been more generally and more practically recognized than the need +for rest during pregnancy. The laws of several countries make compulsory a +period of rest from employment after confinement, and in some countries +they seek to provide for the remuneration of the mother during this +enforced rest. In no country, indeed, is the principle carried out so +thoroughly and for so long a period as is desirable. But it is the right +principle, and embodies the germ which, in the future, will be developed. +There can be little doubt that whatever are the matters, and they are +certainly many, which may be safely left to the discretion of the +individual, the care of the mother and her child is not among them. That +is a matter which, more than any other, concerns the community as a whole, +and the community cannot afford to be slack in asserting its authority +over it. The State needs healthy men and women, and by any negligence in +attending to this need it inflicts serious charges of all sorts upon +itself, and at the same time dangerously impairs its efficiency in the +world. Nations have begun to recognize the desirability of education, but +they have scarcely yet begun to realize that the nationalization of health +is even more important than the nationalization of education. If it were +necessary to choose between the task of getting children educated and the +task of getting them well-born and healthy it would be better to abandon +education. There have been many great peoples who never dreamed of +national systems of education; there has been no great people without the +art of producing healthy and vigorous children.</p> + +<p>This matter becomes of peculiar importance in great industrial states like +England, the United States, and Germany, because in such states a tacit +conspiracy tends to grow up to subordinate national ends to individual +ends, and practically to work for the deterioration of the race. In +England, for instance, this tendency has become peculiarly well marked +with <a name='6_Page_21'></a>disastrous results. The interest of the employed woman tends to +become one with that of her employer; between them they combine to crush +the interests of the child who represents the race, and to defeat the laws +made in the interests of the race which are those of the community as a +whole. The employed woman wishes to earn as much wages as she can and with +as little interruption as she can; in gratifying that wish she is, at the +same time, acting in the interests of the employer, who carefully avoids +thwarting her.</p> + +<p>This impulse on the employed woman's part is by no means always and +entirely the result of poverty, and would not, therefore, be removed by +raising her wages. Long before marriage, when little more than a child, +she has usually gone out to work, and work has become a second nature. She +has mastered her work, she enjoys a certain position and what to her are +high wages; she is among her friends and companions; the noise and bustle +and excitement of the work-room or the factory have become an agreeable +stimulant which she can no longer do without. On the other hand, her home +means nothing to her; she only returns there to sleep, leaving it next +morning at day-break or earlier; she is ignorant even of the simplest +domestic arts; she moves about in her own home like a strange and awkward +child. The mere act of marriage cannot change this state of things; +however willing she may be at marriage to become a domesticated wife, she +is destitute alike of the inclination or the skill for domesticity. Even +in spite of herself she is driven back to the work-shop, to the one place +where she feels really at home.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In Germany women are not allowed to work for four weeks after + confinement, nor during the following two weeks except by medical + certificate. The obligatory insurance against disease which + covers women at confinement assures them an indemnity at this + time equivalent to a large part of their wages. Married and + unmarried mothers benefit alike. The Austrian law is founded on + the same model. This measure has led to a very great decrease in + infantile mortality, and, therefore, a great increase in health + among those who survive. It is, however, regarded as very + inadequate, and there is a movement in Germany for extending the + time, for applying the system to a larger number of women, and + for making it still more definitely compulsory.</p><a name='6_Page_22'></a> + +<p> In Switzerland it has been illegal since 1877 for any woman to be + received into a factory after confinement, unless she has rested + in all for eight weeks, six weeks at least of this period being + after confinement. Since 1898 Swiss working women have been + protected by law from exercising hard work during pregnancy, and + from various other influences likely to be injurious. But this + law is evaded in practice, because it provides no compensatory + indemnity for the woman. An attempt, in 1899, to amend the law by + providing for such indemnity was rejected by the people.</p> + +<p> In Belgium and Holland there are laws against women working + immediately after confinement, but no indemnity is provided, so + that employers and employed combine to evade the law. In France + there is no such law, although its necessity has often been + emphatically asserted (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Salvat, <i>La Dépopulation de + la France</i>, Thèse de Lyon, 1903).</p> + +<p> In England it is illegal to employ a woman "knowingly" in a + work-shop within four weeks of the birth of her child, but no + provision is made by the law for the compensation of the woman + who is thus required to sacrifice herself to the interests of the + State. The woman evades the law in tacit collusion with her + employers, who can always avoid "knowing" that a birth has taken + place, and so escape all responsibility for the mother's + employment. Thus the factory inspectors are unable to take + action, and the law becomes a dead letter; in 1906 only one + prosecution for this offense could be brought into court. By the + insertion of this "knowingly" a premium is placed on ignorance. + The unwisdom of thus beforehand placing a premium on ignorance + has always been more or less clearly recognized by the framers of + legal codes even as far back as the days of the Ten Commandments + and the laws of Hamurabi. It is the business of the Court, of + those who administer the law, to make allowance for ignorance + where such allowance is fairly called for; it is not for the + law-maker to make smooth the path of the law-breaker. There are + evidently law-makers nowadays so scrupulous, or so simple-minded, + that they would be prepared to exact that no pickpocket should be + prosecuted if he was able to declare on oath that he had no + "knowledge" that the purse he had taken belonged to the person he + extracted it from.</p> + +<p> The annual reports of the English factory inspectors serve to + bring ridicule on this law, which looks so wisely humane and yet + means nothing, but have so far been powerless to effect any + change. These reports show, moreover, that the difficulty is + increasing in magnitude. Thus Miss Martindale, a factory + inspector, states that in all the towns she visits, from a quiet + cathedral city to a large manufacturing town, the employment of + married women is rapidly increasing; they have worked in mills or + factories all their lives and are quite unaccustomed to cooking, + housework and the rearing of children, so that after marriage, + <a name='6_Page_23'></a>even when not compelled by poverty, they prefer to go on working + as before. Miss Vines, another factory inspector, repeats the + remark of a woman worker in a factory. "I do not need to work, + but I do not like staying at home," while another woman said, "I + would rather be at work a hundred times than at home. I get lost + at home" (<i>Annual Report Chief Inspector of Factories and + Workshops for 1906</i>, pp. 325, etc.).</p> + +<p> It may be added that not only is the English law enjoining four + weeks' rest on the mother after childbirth practically + inoperative, but the period itself is absurdly inadequate. As a + rest for the mother it is indeed sufficient, but the State is + still more interested in the child than in its mother, and the + child needs the mother's chief care for a much longer period than + four weeks. Helme advocates the State prohibition of women's work + for at least six months after confinement. Where nurseries are + attached to factories, enabling the mother to suckle her infant + in intervals of work, the period may doubtless be shortened.</p> + +<p> It is important to remember that it is by no means only the women + in factories who are induced to work as usual during the whole + period of pregnancy, and to return to work immediately after the + brief rest of confinement. The Research Committee of the + Christian Social Union (London Branch) undertook, in 1905, an + inquiry into the employment of women after childbirth. Women in + factories and workshops were excluded from the inquiry which only + had reference to women engaged in household duties, in home + industries, and in casual work. It was found that the majority + carry on their employment right up to the time of confinement and + resume it from ten to fourteen days later. The infantile death + rate for the children of women engaged only in household duties + was greatly lower than that for the children of the other women, + while, as ever, the hand-fed infants had a vastly higher death + rate than the breast-fed infants (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, Oct. + 24, 1908, p. 1297).</p> + +<p> In the great French gun and armour-plate works at Creuzot (Saône + et Loire) the salaries of expectant mothers among the employees + are raised; arrangements are made for giving them proper advice + and medical attendance; they are not allowed to work after the + middle of pregnancy or to return to work after confinement + without a medical certificate of fitness. The results are said to + be excellent, not only on the health of the mothers, but in the + diminution of premature births, the decrease of infantile deaths, + and the general prevalence of breast-feeding. It would probably + be hopeless to expect many employers in Anglo-Saxon lands to + adopt this policy. They are too "practical," they know how small + is the money-value of human lives. With us it is necessary for + the State to intervene.</p> + +<p> There can be no doubt that, on the whole, modern civilized + communities are beginning to realize that under the social and + economic <a name='6_Page_24'></a>conditions now tending more and more to prevail, they + must in their own interests insure that the mother's best energy + and vitality are devoted to the child, both before and after its + birth. They are also realizing that they cannot carry out their + duty in this respect unless they make adequate provision for the + mothers who are thus compelled to renounce their employment in + order to devote themselves to their children. We here reach a + point at which Individualism is at one with Socialism. The + individualist cannot fail to see that it is at all cost necessary + to remove social conditions which crush out all individuality; + the Socialist cannot fail to see that a society which neglects to + introduce order at this central and vital point, the production + of the individual, must speedily perish.</p></div> + +<p>It is involved in the proper fulfilment of a mother's relationship to her +infant child that, provided she is healthy, she should suckle it. Of +recent years this question has become a matter of serious gravity. In the +middle of the eighteenth century, when the upper-class women of France had +grown disinclined to suckle their own children, Rousseau raised so loud +and eloquent a protest that it became once more the fashion for a woman to +fulfil her natural duties. At the present time, when the same evil is +found once more, and in a far more serious form, for now it is not the +small upper-class but the great lower-class that is concerned, the +eloquence of a Rousseau would be powerless, for it is not fashion so much +as convenience, and especially an intractable economic factor, that is +chiefly concerned. Not the least urgent reason for putting women, and +especially mothers, upon a sounder economic basis, is the necessity of +enabling them to suckle their children.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>No woman is sound, healthy, and complete unless she possesses + breasts that are beautiful enough to hold the promise of being + functional when the time for their exercise arrives, and nipples + that can give suck. The gravity of this question to-day is shown + by the frequency with which women are lacking in this essential + element of womanhood, and the young man of to-day, it has been + said, often in taking a wife, "actually marries but part of a + woman, the other part being exhibited in the chemist's shop + window, in the shape of a glass feeding-bottle." Blacker found + among a thousand patients from the maternity department of + University College Hospital that thirty-nine had never suckled at + all, seven hundred and forty-seven had suckled all their + children, and <a name='6_Page_25'></a>two hundred and fourteen had suckled only some. + The chief reason given for not suckling was absence or + insufficiency of milk; other reasons being inability or + disinclination to suckle, and refusal of the child to take the + breast (Blacker, <i>Medical Chronicle</i>, Feb., 1900). These results + among the London poor are certainly very much better than could + be found in many manufacturing towns where women work after + marriage. In the other large countries of Europe equally + unsatisfactory results are found. In Paris Madame Dluska has + shown that of 209 women who came for their confinement to the + Clinique Baudelocque, only 74 suckled their children; of the 135 + who did not suckle, 35 were prevented by pathological causes or + absence of milk, 100 by the necessities of their work. Even those + who suckled could seldom continue more than seven months on + account of the physiological strain of work (Dluska, + <i>Contribution à l'Etude de l'Allaitement Maternel</i>, Thèse de + Paris, 1894). Many statistics have been gathered in the German + countries. Thus Wiedow (<i>Centralblatt für Gynäkologie</i>, No. 29, + 1895) found that of 525 women at the Freiburg Maternity only half + could suckle thoroughly during the first two weeks; imperfect + nipples were noted in 49 cases, and it was found that the + development of the nipple bore a direct relation to the value of + the breast as a secretory organ. At Munich Escherich and Büller + found that nearly 60 per cent. of women of the lower class were + unable to suckle their children, and at Stuttgart three-quarters + of the child-bearing women were in this condition.</p></div> + +<p>The reasons why children should be suckled at their mothers' breasts are +larger than some may be inclined to believe. In the first place the +psychological reason is one of no mean importance. The breast with its +exquisitely sensitive nipple, vibrating in harmony with the sexual organs, +furnishes the normal mechanism by which maternal love is developed. No +doubt the woman who never suckles her child may love it, but such love is +liable to remain defective on the fundamental and instinctive side. In +some women, indeed, whom we may hesitate to call abnormal, maternal love +fails to awaken at all until brought into action through this mechanism by +the act of suckling.</p> + +<p>A more generally recognized and certainly fundamental reason for suckling +the child is that the milk of the mother, provided she is reasonably +healthy, is the infant's only ideally fit food. There are some people +whose confidence in science leads them to believe that it is possible to +manufacture foods that are <a name='6_Page_26'></a>as good or better than mother's milk; they +fancy that the milk which is best for the calf is equally best for so +different an animal as the baby. These are delusions. The infant's best +food is that elaborated in his own mother's body. All other foods are more +or less possible substitutes, which require trouble to prepare properly +and are, moreover, exposed to various risks from which the mother's milk +is free.</p> + +<p>A further reason, especially among the poor, against the use of any +artificial foods is that it accustoms those around the child to try +experiments with its feeding and to fancy that any kind of food they eat +themselves may be good for the infant. It thus happens that bread and +potatoes, brandy and gin, are thrust into infants' mouths. With the infant +that is given the breast it is easier to make plain that, except by the +doctor's orders, nothing else must be given.</p> + +<p>An additional reason why the mother should suckle her child is the close +and frequent association with the child thus involved. Not only is the +child better cared for in all respects, but the mother is not deprived of +the discipline of such care, and is also enabled from the outset to learn +and to understand the child's nature.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The inability to suckle acquires great significance if we realize + that it is associated, probably in a large measure as a direct + cause, with infantile mortality. The mortality of + artificially-fed infants during the first year of life is seldom + less than double that of the breast-fed, sometimes it is as much + as three times that of the breast-fed, or even more; thus at + Derby 51.7 per cent. of hand-fed infants die under the age of + twelve months, but only 8.6 per cent. of breast-fed infants. + Those who survive are by no means free from suffering. At the end + of the first year they are found to weigh about 25 per cent. less + than the breast-fed, and to be much shorter; they are more liable + to tuberculosis and rickets, with all the evil results that flow + from these diseases; and there is some reason to believe that the + development of their teeth is injuriously affected. The + degenerate character of the artificially-fed is well indicated by + the fact that of 40,000 children who were brought for treatment + to the Children's Hospital in Munich, 86 per cent. had been + brought up by hand, and the few who had been suckled had usually + only had the breast for a short time. The evil influence persists + even up to adult life. In some parts of France where the + wet-nurse industry <a name='6_Page_27'></a>flourishes so greatly that nearly all the + children are brought up by hand, it has been found that the + percentage of rejected conscripts is nearly double that for + France generally. Corresponding results have been found by + Friedjung in a large German athletic association. Among 155 + members, 65 per cent. were found on inquiry to have been + breast-fed as infants (for an average of six months); but among + the best athletes the percentage of breast-fed rose to 72 per + cent. (for an average period of nine or ten months), while for + the group of 56 who stood lowest in athletic power the percentage + of breast-fed fell to 57 (for an average of only three months).</p> + +<p> The advantages for an infant of being suckled by its mother are + greater than can be accounted for by the mere fact of being + suckled rather than hand-fed. This has been shown by Vitrey (<i>De + la Mortalité Infantile</i>, Thèse de Lyon, 1907), who found from the + statistics of the Hôtel-Dieu at Lyons, that infants suckled by + their mothers have a mortality of only 12 per cent., but if + suckled by strangers, the mortality rises to 33 per cent. It may + be added that, while suckling is essential to the complete + well-being of the child, it is highly desirable for the sake of + the mother's health also. (Some important statistics are + summarized in a paper on "Infantile Mortality" in <i>British + Medical Journal</i>, Nov. 2, 1907), while the various aspects of + suckling have been thoroughly discussed by Bollinger, "Ueber + Säuglings-Sterblichkeit und die Erbliche functionelle Atrophie + der menschlichen Milchdrüse" (<i>Correspondenzblatt Deutschen + Gesellschaft Anthropologie</i>, Oct., 1899).</p> + +<p> It appears that in Sweden, in the middle of the eighteenth + century, it was a punishable offense for a woman to give her baby + the bottle when she was able to suckle it. In recent years Prof. + Anton von Menger, of Vienna, has argued (in his <i>Burgerliche + Recht und die Besitzlosen Klassen</i>) that the future generation + has the right to make this claim, and he proposes that every + mother shall be legally bound to suckle her child unless her + inability to do so has been certified by a physician. E. A. + Schroeder (<i>Das Recht in der Geschlechtlichen Ordnung</i>, 1893, p. + 346) also argued that a mother should be legally bound to suckle + her infant for at least nine months, unless solid grounds could + be shown to the contrary, and this demand, which seems reasonable + and natural, since it is a mother's privilege as well as her duty + to suckle her infant when able to do so, has been insistently + made by others also. It has been supported from the legal side by + Weinberg (<i>Mutterschutz</i>, Sept., 1907). In France the Loi Roussel + forbids a woman to act as a wet-nurse until her child is seven + months old, and this has had an excellent effect in lowering + infantile mortality (A. Allée, <i>Puériculture et la Loi Roussel</i>, + Thèse de Paris, 1908). In some parts of Germany manufacturers are + compelled to set up a suckling-room in the factory, where mothers + can give the breast to the child in the intervals of work. The + <a name='6_Page_28'></a>control and upkeep of these rooms, with provision of doctors and + nurses, is undertaken by the municipality (<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, + Sept., 1908, p. 573).</p></div> + +<p>As things are to-day in modern industrial countries the righting of these +wrongs cannot be left to Nature, that is, to the ignorant and untrained +impulses of persons who live in a whirl of artificial life where the voice +of instinct is drowned. The mother, we are accustomed to think, may be +trusted to see to the welfare of her child, and it is unnecessary, or even +"immoral," to come to her assistance. Yet there are few things, I think, +more pathetic than the sight of a young Lancashire mother who works in the +mills, when she has to stay at home to nurse her sick child. She is used +to rise before day-break to go to the mill; she has scarcely seen her +child by the light of the sun, she knows nothing of its necessities, the +hands that are so skilful to catch the loom cannot soothe the child. The +mother gazes down at it in vague, awkward, speechless misery. It is not a +sight one can ever forget.</p> + +<p>It is France that is taking the lead in the initiation of the scientific +and practical movements for the care of the young child before and after +birth, and it is in France that we may find the germs of nearly all the +methods now becoming adopted for arresting infantile mortality. The +village system of Villiers-le-Duc, near Dijon in the Côte d'Or, has proved +a germ of this fruitful kind. Here every pregnant woman not able to secure +the right conditions for her own life and that of the child she is +bearing, is able to claim the assistance of the village authorities; she +is entitled, without payment, to the attendance of a doctor and midwife +and to one franc a day during her confinement. The measures adopted in +this village have practically abolished both maternal and infantile +mortality. A few years ago Dr. Samson Moore, the medical officer of health +for Huddersfield, heard of this village, and Mr. Benjamin Broadbent, the +Mayor of Huddersfield, visited Villiers-le-Duc. It was resolved to +initiate in Huddersfield a movement for combating infant mortality. +Henceforth arose what is known as the Huddersfield scheme, a scheme which +has been fruitful in splendid results. The points <a name='6_Page_29'></a>of the Huddersfield +scheme are: (1) compulsory notification of births within forty-eight +hours; (2) the appointment of lady assistant medical officers of help to +visit the home, inquire, advise, and assist; (3) the organized aid of +voluntary lady workers in subordination to the municipal part of the +scheme; (4) appeal to the medical officer of help when the baby, not being +under medical care, fails to thrive. The infantile mortality of +Huddersfield has been very greatly reduced by this scheme.<a name='6_FNanchor_16'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_16'><sup>[16]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Huddersfield scheme may be said to be the origin of the + English Notification of Births Act, which came into operation in + 1908. This Act represents, in England, the national inauguration + of a scheme for the betterment of the race, the ultimate results + of which it is impossible to foresee. When this Act comes into + universal action every baby of the land will be entitled—legally + and not by individual caprice or philanthropic condescension—to + medical attention from the day of birth, and every mother will + have at hand the counsel of an educated woman in touch with the + municipal authorities. There could be no greater triumph for + medical science, for national efficiency, and the cause of + humanity generally. Even on the lower financial plane, it is easy + to see that an enormous saving of public and private money will + thus be effected. The Act is adoptive, and not compulsory. This + was a wise precaution, for an Act of this kind cannot be + effectual unless it is carried out thoroughly by the community + adopting it, and it will not be adopted until a community has + clearly realized its advantages and the methods of attaining + them.</p> + +<p> An important adjunct of this organization is the School for + Mothers. Such schools, which are now beginning to spring up + everywhere, may be said to have their origins in the + <i>Consultations de Nourrissons</i> (with their offshoot the <i>Goutte + de Lait</i>), established by Professor Budin in 1892, which have + spread all over France and been widely influential for good. At + the <i>Consultations</i> infants are examined and weighed weekly, and + the mothers advised and encouraged to suckle their children. The + <i>Gouttes</i> are practically milk dispensaries where infants for + whom breast-feeding is impossible are fed with milk under medical + supervision. Schools for Mothers represent an enlargement of the + same scheme, covering a variety of subjects which it is necessary + for a mother to know. Some of the first of these schools were + established at Bonn, at the Bavarian town of Weissenberg, and in + Ghent. At some of the<a name='6_Page_30'></a> Schools for Mothers, and notably at Ghent + (described by Mrs. Bertrand Russell in the <i>Nineteenth Century</i>, + 1906), the important step has been taken of giving training to + young girls from fourteen to eighteen; they receive instruction + in infant anatomy and physiology, in the preparation of + sterilized milk, in weighing children, in taking temperatures and + making charts, in managing crêches, and after two years are able + to earn a salary. In various parts of England, schools for young + mothers and girls on these lines are now being established, first + in London, under the auspices of Dr. F. J. Sykes, Medical Officer + of Health for St. Pancreas (see, <i>e.g.</i>, <i>A School For Mothers</i>, + 1908, describing an establishment of this kind at Somers Town, + with a preface by Sir Thomas Barlow; an account of recent + attempts to improve the care of infants in London will also be + found in the <i>Lancet</i>, Sept. 26, 1908). It may be added that some + English municipalities have established depôts for supplying + mothers cheaply with good milk. Such depôts are, however, likely + to be more mischievous than beneficial if they promote the + substitution of hand-feeding for suckling. They should never be + established except in connection with Schools for Mothers, where + an educational influence may be exerted, and no mother should be + supplied with milk unless she presents a medical certificate + showing that she is unable to nourish her child (Byers, "Medical + Women and Public Health Questions," <i>British Medical Journal</i>, + Oct. 6, 1906). It is noteworthy that in England the local + authorities will shortly be empowered by law to establish Schools + for Mothers.</p> + +<p> The great benefits produced by these institutions in France, both + in diminishing the infant mortality and in promoting the + education of mothers and their pride and interest in their + children, have been set forth in two Paris theses by G. Chaignon + (<i>Organisation des Consultations de Nourrissons à la Campagne</i>, + 1908), and Alcide Alexandre (<i>Consultation de Nourrissons et + Goutte de Lait d'Arques</i>, 1908).</p> + +<p> The movement is now spreading throughout Europe, and an + International Union has been formed, including all the + institutions specially founded for the protection of child life + and the promotion of puericulture. The permanent committee is in + Brussels, and a Congress of Infant Protection (<i>Goutte de Lait</i>) + is held every two years.</p></div> + +<p>It will be seen that all the movements now being set in action for the +improvement of the race through the child and the child's mother, +recognize the intimacy of the relation between the mother and her child +and are designed to aid her, even if necessary by the exercise of some +pressure, in performing her natural functions in relation to her child. To +the theoretical philanthropist, eager to reform the world on paper, +nothing seems <a name='6_Page_31'></a>simpler than to cure the present evils of child-rearing by +setting up State nurseries which are at once to relieve mothers of +everything connected with the production of the men of the future beyond +the pleasure—if such it happens to be—of conceiving them and the trouble +of bearing them, and at the same time to rear them up independently of the +home, in a wholesome, economical, and scientific manner.<a name='6_FNanchor_17'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_17'><sup>[17]</sup></a> Nothing seems +simpler, but from the fundamental psychological standpoint nothing is +falser. The idea of a State which is outside the community is but a +survival in another form of that antiquated notion which compelled Louis +XIV to declare "L'Etat c'est moi!" A State which admits that the +individuals composing it are incompetent to perform their own most sacred +and intimate functions, and takes upon itself to perform them instead, +attempts a task which would be undesirable, even if it were possible of +achievement. It must always be remembered that a State which proposes to +relieve its constituent members of their natural functions and +responsibilities attempts something quite different from the State which +seeks to aid its members to fulfil their own biological and social +functions more adequately. A State which enables its mothers to rest when +they are child-bearing is engaged in a reasonable task; a State which +takes over its mothers' children is reducing philanthropy to absurdity. It +is easy to realize this if we consider the inevitable course of +circumstances under a system of "State-nurseries." The child would be +removed from its natural mother at the earliest age, but some one has to +perform the mother's duties; the substitute must therefore be properly +trained for such duties; and in exercising them under favorable +circumstances a maternal relationship is developed between the child and +the "mother," who doubtless possesses natural maternal instincts but has +no natural <a name='6_Page_32'></a>maternal bond to the child she is mothering. Such a +relationship tends to become on both sides practically and emotionally the +real relationship. We very often have opportunity of seeing how +unsatisfactory such a relationship becomes. The artificial mother is +deprived of a child she had begun to feel her own; the child's emotional +relationships are upset, split and distorted; the real mother has the +bitterness of feeling that for her child she is not the real mother. Would +it not have been much better for all if the State had encouraged the vast +army of women it had trained for the position of mothering other women's +children, to have, instead, children of their own? The women who are +incapable of mothering their own children could then be trained to refrain +from bearing them.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Ellen Key (in her <i>Century of the Child</i>, and elsewhere) has + advocated for all young women a year of compulsory "service," + analogous to the compulsory military service imposed in most + countries on young men. During this period the girl would be + trained in rational housekeeping, in the principles of hygiene, + in the care of the sick, and especially in the care of infants + and all that concerns the physical and psychic development of + children. The principle of this proposal has since been widely + accepted. Marie von Schmid (in her <i>Mutterdienst</i>, 1907) goes so + far as to advocate a general training of young women in such + duties, carried on in a kind of enlarged and improved midwifery + school. The service would last a year, and the young woman would + then be for three years in the reserves, and liable to be called + up for duty. There is certainly much to be said for such a + proposal, considerably more than is to be said for compulsory + military service. For while it is very doubtful whether a man + will ever be called on to fight, most women are liable to be + called on to exercise household duties or to look after children, + whether for themselves or for other people.</p></div> + +<hr /> + +<a name='6_Footnote_1'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_1'>[1]</a><div class='note'><p> It is not, of course, always literally true that each parent +supplies exactly half the heredity, for, as we see among animals +generally, the offspring may sometimes approach more nearly to one parent, +sometimes to the other, while among plants, as De Vries and others have +shown, the heredity may be still more unequally divided.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_2'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_2'>[2]</a><div class='note'><p> It should scarcely be necessary to say that to assert that +motherhood is a woman's supreme function is by no means to assert that her +activities should be confined to the home. That is an opinion which may +now be regarded as almost extinct even among those who most glorify the +function of woman as mother. As Friedrich Naumann and others have very +truly pointed out, a woman is not adequately equipped to fulfil her +functions as mother and trainer of children unless she has lived in the +world and exercised a vocation.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_3'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_3'>[3]</a><div class='note'><p> "Were the capacities of the brain and the heart equal in the +sexes," Lily Braun (<i>Die Frauenfrage</i>, page 207) well says, "the entry of +women into public life would be of no value to humanity, and would even +lead to a still wilder competition. Only the recognition that the entire +nature of woman is different from that of man, that it signifies a new +vivifying principle in human life, makes the women's movement, in spite of +the misconception of its enemies and its friends, a social revolution" +(see also Havelock Ellis, <i>Man and Woman</i>, fourth edition, 1904, +especially Ch. XVIII).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_4'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_4'>[4]</a><div class='note'><p> The word "puericulture" was invented by Dr. Caron in 1866 to +signify the culture of children after birth. It was Pinard, the +distinguished French obstetrician, who, in 1895, gave it a larger and +truer significance by applying it to include the culture of children +before birth. It is now defined as "the science which has for its end the +search for the knowledge relative to the reproduction, the preservation, +and the amelioration of the human race" (Péchin, <i>La Puériculture avant la +Naissance</i>, Thèse de Paris, 1908).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_5'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_5'>[5]</a><div class='note'><p> In <i>La Grossesse</i> (pp. 450 <i>et seq.</i>) Bouchacourt has +discussed the problems of puericulture at some length.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_6'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_6'>[6]</a><div class='note'><p> The importance of antenatal puericulture was fully recognized +in China a thousand years ago. Thus Madame Cheng wrote at that time +concerning the education of the child: "Even before birth his education +may begin; and, therefore, the prospective mother of old, when lying down, +lay straight; when sitting down, sat upright; and when standing, stood +erect. She would not taste strange flavors, nor have anything to do with +spiritualism; if her food were not cut straight she would not eat it, and +if her mat were not set straight, she would not sit upon it. She would not +look at any objectionable sight, nor listen to any objectionable sound, +nor utter any rude word, nor handle any impure thing. At night she studied +some canonical work, by day she occupied herself with ceremonies and +music. Therefore, her sons were upright and eminent for their talents and +virtues; such was the result of antenatal training" (H. A. Giles, "Woman in +Chinese Literature," <i>Nineteenth Century</i>, Nov., 1904).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_7'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_7'>[7]</a><div class='note'><p> Max Bartels, "Isländischer Brauch," etc., <i>Zeitschrift für +Ethnologie</i>, 1900, p. 65. A summary of the customs of various peoples in +regard to pregnancy is given by Ploss and Bartels, <i>Das Weib</i>, Sect. +XXIX.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_8'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_8'>[8]</a><div class='note'><p> On the influence of alcohol during pregnancy on the embryo, +see, <i>e.g.</i>, G. Newman, <i>Infant Mortality</i>, pp. 72-77. W. C. Sullivan +(<i>Alcoholism</i>, 1906, Ch. XI), summarizes the evidence showing that alcohol +is a factor in human degeneration.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_9'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_9'>[9]</a><div class='note'><p> There is even reason to believe that the alcoholism of the +mother's father may impair her ability as a mother. Bunge (<i>Die Zunehmende +Unfähigkeit der Frauen ihre Kinder zu Stillen</i>, fifth edition, 1907), from +an investigation extending over 2,000 families, finds that chronic +alcoholic poisoning in the father is the chief cause of the daughter's +inability to suckle, this inability not usually being recovered in +subsequent generations. Bunge has, however, been opposed by Dr. Agnes +Bluhm, "Die Stillungsnot," <i>Zeitschrift für Soziale Medizin</i>, 1908 (fully +summarized by herself in <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Jan., 1909).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_10'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_10'>[10]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, T. Arthur Helme, "The Unborn Child," <i>British +Medical Journal</i>, Aug. 24, 1907. Nutrition should, of course, be adequate. +Noel Paton has shown (<i>Lancet</i>, July 4, 1903) that defective nutrition of +the pregnant woman diminishes the weight of the offspring.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_11'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_11'>[11]</a><div class='note'><p> Debreyne, <i>Mœchialogie</i>, p. 277. And from the +Protestant side see Northcote (<i>Christianity and Sex Problems</i>, Ch. IX), +who permits sexual intercourse during pregnancy.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_12'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_12'>[12]</a><div class='note'><p> See Appendix A to the third volume of these <i>Studies</i>; also +Ploss and Bartels, <i>loc. cit.</i></p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_13'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_13'>[13]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus one lady writes: "I have only had one child, but I may +say that during pregnancy the desire for union was much stronger, for the +whole time, than at any other period." Bouchacourt (<i>La Grossesse</i>, pp. +180-183) states that, as a rule, sexual desire is not diminished by +pregnancy, and is occasionally increased.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_14'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_14'>[14]</a><div class='note'><p> This "inconvenience" remains to-day a stumbling-block with +many excellent authorities. "Except when there is a tendency to +miscarriage," says Kossmann (Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health and Disease in +Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. i, p. 257), "we must be very guarded in +ordering abstinence from intercourse during pregnancy," and Ballantyne +(<i>The Fœtus</i>, p. 475) cautiously remarks that the question is +difficult to decide. Forel also (<i>Die Sexuelle Frage</i>, fourth edition, p. +81), who is not prepared to advocate complete sexual abstinence during a +normal pregnancy, admits that it is a rather difficult question.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_15'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_15'>[15]</a><div class='note'><p> This point is discussed, for instance, by Séropian in a +Paris Thesis (<i>Fréquence comparée des Causes de l'Accouchement Prémature</i>, +1907); he concludes that coitus during pregnancy is a more frequent cause +of premature confinement than is commonly supposed, especially in +primiparæ, and markedly so by the ninth month.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_16'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_16'>[16]</a><div class='note'><p> "Infantile Mortality: The Huddersfield Scheme," <i>British +Medical Journal</i>, Dec., 1907; Samson Moore, "Infant Mortality," <i>ib.</i>, +August 29, 1908.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_17'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_17'>[17]</a><div class='note'><p> Ellen Key has admirably dealt with proposals of this kind +(as put forth by C. P. Stetson) in her Essays "On Love and Marriage." In +opposition to such proposals Ellen Key suggests that such women as have +been properly trained for maternal duties and are unable entirely to +support themselves while exercising them should be subsidized by the State +during the child's first three years of life. It may be added that in +Leipzig the plan of subsidizing mothers who (under proper medical and +other supervision) suckle their infants has already been introduced.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_CHAPTER_II'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_33'></a>CHAPTER II.</h2> + +<h3>SEXUAL EDUCATION.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Nurture Necessary as Well as Breed—Precocious Manifestations of the +Sexual Impulse—Are They to be Regarded as Normal?—The Sexual Play of +Children—The Emotion of Love in Childhood—Are Town Children More +Precocious Sexually Than Country Children?—Children's Ideas Concerning +the Origin of Babies—Need for Beginning the Sexual Education of Children +in Early Years—The Importance of Early Training in Responsibility—Evil +of the Old Doctrine of Silence in Matters of Sex—The Evil Magnified When +Applied to Girls—The Mother the Natural and Best Teacher—The Morbid +Influence of Artificial Mystery in Sex Matters—Books on Sexual +Enlightenment of the Young—Nature of the Mother's Task—Sexual Education +in the School—The Value of Botany—Zoölogy—Sexual Education After +Puberty—The Necessity of Counteracting Quack Literature—Danger of +Neglecting to Prepare for the First Onset of Menstruation—The Right +Attitude Towards Woman's Sexual Life—The Vital Necessity of the Hygiene +of Menstruation During Adolescence—Such Hygiene Compatible with the +Educational and Social Equality of the Sexes—The Invalidism of Women +Mainly Due to Hygienic Neglect—Good Influence of Physical Training on +Women and Bad Influence of Athletics—The Evils of Emotional +Suppression—Need of Teaching the Dignity of Sex—Influence of These +Factors on a Woman's Fate in Marriage—Lectures and Addresses on Sexual +Hygiene—The Doctor's Part in Sexual Education—Pubertal Initiation Into +the Ideal World—The Place of the Religious and Ethical Teacher—The +Initiation Rites of Savages Into Manhood and Womanhood—The Sexual +Influence of Literature—The Sexual Influence of Art.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>It may seem to some that in attaching weight to the ancestry, the +parentage, the conception, the gestation, even the first infancy, of the +child we are wandering away from the sphere of the psychology of sex. That +is far from being the case. We are, on the contrary, going to the root of +sex. All our growing knowledge tends to show that, equally with his +physical nature, the child's psychic nature is based on breed and nurture, +on the quality of the stocks he belongs to, and on the care taken at the +<a name='6_Page_34'></a>early moments when care counts for most, to preserve the fine quality of +those stocks.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It must, of course, be remembered that the influences of both + breed and nurture are alike influential on the fate of the + individual. The influence of nurture is so obvious that few are + likely to under-rate it. The influence of breed, however, is less + obvious, and we may still meet with persons so ill informed, and + perhaps so prejudiced, as to deny it altogether. The growth of + our knowledge in this matter, by showing how subtle and + penetrative is the influence of heredity, cannot fail to dispel + this mischievous notion. No sound civilization is possible except + in a community which in the mass is not only well-nurtured but + well-bred. And in no part of life so much as in the sexual + relationships is the influence of good breeding more decisive. An + instructive illustration may be gleaned from the minute and + precise history of his early life furnished to me by a highly + cultured Russian gentleman. He was brought up in childhood with + his own brothers and sisters and a little girl of the same age + who had been adopted from infancy, the child of a prostitute who + had died soon after the infant's birth. The adopted child was + treated as one of the family, and all the children supposed that + she was a real sister. Yet from early years she developed + instincts unlike those of the children with whom she was + nurtured; she lied, she was cruel, she loved to make mischief, + and she developed precociously vicious sexual impulses; though + carefully educated, she adopted the occupation of her mother, and + at the age of twenty-two was exiled to Siberia for robbery and + attempt to murder. The child of a chance father and a prostitute + mother is not fatally devoted to ruin; but such a child is + ill-bred, and that fact, in some cases, may neutralize all the + influences of good nurture.</p></div> + +<p>When we reach the period of infancy we have already passed beyond the +foundations and potentialities of the sexual life; we are in some cases +witnessing its actual beginnings. It is a well-established fact that +auto-erotic manifestations may sometimes be observed even in infants of +less than twelve months. We are not now called upon to discuss the +disputable point as to how far such manifestations at this age can be +called normal.<a name='6_FNanchor_18'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_18'><sup>[18]</sup></a> A slight degree of menstrual and mammary activity +sometimes <a name='6_Page_35'></a>occurs at birth.<a name='6_FNanchor_19'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_19'><sup>[19]</sup></a> It seems clear that nervous and psychic +sexual activity has its first springs at this early period, and as the +years go by an increasing number of individuals join the stream until at +puberty practically all are carried along in the great current.</p> + +<p>While, therefore, it is possibly, even probably, true that the soundest +and healthiest individuals show no definite signs of nervous and psychic +sexuality in childhood, such manifestations are still sufficiently +frequent to make it impossible to say that sexual hygiene may be +completely ignored until puberty is approaching.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Precocious physical development occurs as a somewhat rare + variation. W. Roger Williams ("Precocious Sexual Development with + Abstracts of over One Hundred Cases," <i>British Gynæcological + Journal</i>, May, 1902) has furnished an important contribution to + the knowledge of this anomaly which is much commoner in girls + than in boys. Roger Williams's cases include only twenty boys to + eighty girls, and precocity is not only more frequent but more + pronounced in girls, who have been known to conceive at eight, + while thirteen is stated to be the earliest age at which boys + have proved able to beget children. This, it may be remarked, is + also the earliest age at which spermatozoa are found in the + seminal fluid of boys; before that age the ejaculations contain + no spermatozoa, and, as Fürbringer and Moll have found, they may + even be absent at sixteen, or later. In female children + precocious sexual development is less commonly associated with + general increase of bodily development than in boys. (An + individual case of early sexual development in a girl of five has + been completely described and figured in the <i>Zeitschrift für + Ethnologie</i>, 1896, Heft 4, p. 262.)</p> + +<p> Precocious sexual impulses are generally vague, occasional, and + more or less innocent. A case of rare and pronounced character, + in which a child, a boy, from the age of two had been sexually + attracted to girls and women, and directed all his thoughts and + actions to sexual attempts on them, has been described by Herbert + Rich, of Detroit (<i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, Nov., 1905). + General evidence from the literature of the subject as to sexual + precocity, its frequency and significance, has been brought + together by L. M. Terman ("A Study in Precocity," <i>American + Journal Psychology</i>, April, 1905).</p><a name='6_Page_36'></a> + +<p> The erections that are liable to occur in male infants have + usually no sexual significance, though, as Moll remarks, they may + acquire it by attracting the child's attention; they are merely + reflex. It is believed by some, however, and notably by Freud, + that certain manifestations of infant activity, especially + thumb-sucking, are of sexual causation, and that the sexual + impulse constantly manifests itself at a very early age. The + belief that the sexual instinct is absent in childhood, Freud + regards as a serious error, so easy to correct by observation + that he wonders how it can have arisen. "In reality," he remarks, + "the new-born infant brings sexuality with it into the world, + sexual sensations accompany it through the days of lactation and + childhood, and very few children can fail to experience sexual + activities and feelings before the period of puberty" (Freud, + "Zur Sexuellen Aufklärung der Kinder," <i>Soziale Medizin und + Hygiene</i>, Bd. ii, 1907; <i>cf.</i>, for details, the same author's + <i>Drei Abhandlungen zur Sexualtheorie</i>, 1905). Moll, on the other + hand, considers that Freud's views on sexuality in infancy are + exaggerations which must be decisively rejected, though he admits + that it is difficult, if not impossible, to differentiate the + feelings in childhood (Moll, <i>Das Sexualleben des Kindes</i>, p. + 154). Moll believes also that psycho-sexual manifestations + appearing after the age of eight are not pathological; children + who are weakly or of bad heredity are not seldom sexually + precocious, but, on the other hand, Moll has known children of + eight or nine with strongly developed sexual impulses, who yet + become finely developed men.</p> + +<p> Rudimentary sexual activities in childhood, accompanied by sexual + feelings, must indeed—when they are not too pronounced or too + premature—be regarded as coming within the normal sphere, though + when they occur in children of bad heredity they are not without + serious risks. But in healthy children, after the age of seven or + eight, they tend to produce no evil results, and are strictly of + the nature of play. Play, both in animals and men, as Groos has + shown with marvelous wealth of illustration, is a beneficent + process of education; the young creature is thereby preparing + itself for the exercise of those functions which in later life it + must carry out more completely and more seriously. In his <i>Spiele + der Menschen</i>, Groos applies this idea to the sexual play of + children, and brings forward quotations from literature in + evidence. Keller, in his "Romeo und Juliet auf dem Dorfe," has + given an admirably truthful picture of these childish + love-relationships. Emil Schultze-Malkowsky (<i>Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft</i>, Bd. ii, p. 370) reproduces some scenes from the + life of a little girl of seven clearly illustrating the exact + nature of the sexual manifestation at this age.</p> + +<p> A kind of rudimentary sexual intercourse between children, as + Bloch has remarked (<i>Beiträge</i>, etc., Bd. ii, p. 254), occurs in + many parts of the world, and is recognized by their elders as + play. This is, for <a name='6_Page_37'></a>instance, the case among the Bawenda of the + Transvaal (<i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1896, Heft 4, p. 364), + and among the Papuans of Kaiser-Wilhelms-Land, with the approval + of the parents, although much reticence is observed (<i>id.</i>, 1889, + Heft 1, p. 16). Godard (<i>Egypte et Palestine</i>, 1867, p. 105) + noted the sexual play of the boys and girls in Cairo. In New + Mexico W. A. Hammond (<i>Sexual Impotence</i>, p. 107) has seen boys + and girls attempting a playful sexual conjunction with the + encouragement of men and women, and in New York he has seen boys + and girls of three and four doing the same in the presence of + their parents, with only a laughing rebuke. "Playing at pa and + ma" is indeed extremely common among children in genuine + innocence, and with a complete absence of viciousness; and is by + no means confined to children of low social class. Moll remarks + on its frequency (<i>Libido Sexualis</i>, Bd. i, p. 277), and the + committee of evangelical pastors, in their investigation of + German rural morality (<i>Die Geschlechtliche-sittliche + Verhältnisse</i>, Bd. i, p. 102) found that children who are not yet + of school age make attempts at coitus. The sexual play of + children is by no means confined to father and mother games; + frequently there are games of school with the climax in exposure + and smackings, and occasionally there are games of being doctors + and making examinations. Thus a young English woman says: "Of + course, when we were at school [at the age of twelve and earlier] + we used to play with one another, several of us girls; we used to + go into a field and pretend we were doctors and had to examine + one another, and then we used to pull up one another's clothes + and feel each other."</p> + +<p> These games do not necessarily involve the coöperation of the + sexual impulse, and still less have they any element of love. But + emotions of love, scarcely if at all distinguishable from adult + sexual love, frequently appear at equally early ages. They are of + the nature of play, in so far as play is a preparation for the + activities of later life, though, unlike the games, they are not + felt as play. Ramdohr, more than a century ago (<i>Venus Urania</i>, + 1798), referred to the frequent love of little boys for women. + More usually the love is felt towards individuals of the opposite + or the same sex who are not widely different in age, though + usually older. The most comprehensive study of the matter has + been made by Sanford Bell in America on a basis of as many as + 2,300 cases (S. Bell, "A Preliminary Study of the Emotion of Love + Between the Sexes," <i>American Journal Psychology</i>, July, 1902). + Bell finds that the presence of the emotion between three and + eight years of age is shown by such actions as hugging, kissing, + lifting each other, scuffling, sitting close to each other, + confessions to each other and to others, talking about each other + when apart, seeking each other and excluding the rest, grief at + separation, giving gifts, showing special courtesies to each + other, making sacrifices for each other, exhibiting jealousy. The + girls are, on the <a name='6_Page_38'></a>whole, more aggressive than the boys, and less + anxious to keep the matter secret. After the age of eight, the + girls increase in modesty and the boys become still more + secretive. The physical sensations are not usually located in the + sexual organs; erection of the penis and hyperæmia of the female + sexual parts Bell regards as marking undue precocity. But there + is diffused vascular and nervous tumescence and a state of + exaltation comparable, though not equal, to that experienced in + adolescent and adult age. On the whole, as Bell soundly + concludes, "love between children of opposite sex bears much the + same relation to that between adults as the flower does to the + fruit, and has about as little of physical sexuality in it as an + apple-blossom has of the apple that develops from it." Moll also + (<i>op. cit.</i> p. 76) considers that kissing and other similar + superficial contacts, which he denominates the phenomena of + contrectation, constitute most frequently the first and sole + manifestation of the sexual impulse in childhood.</p> + +<p> It is often stated that it is easier for children to preserve + their sexual innocence in the country than in the town, and that + only in cities is sexuality rampant and conspicuous. This is by + no means true, and in some respects it is the reverse of the + truth. Certainly, hard work, a natural and simple life, and a + lack of alert intelligence often combine to keep the rural lad + chaste in thought and act until the period of adolescence is + completed. Ammon, for instance, states, though without giving + definite evidence, that this is common among the Baden + conscripts. Certainly, also, all the multiple sensory excitements + of urban life tend to arouse the nervous and cerebral + excitability of the young at a comparatively early age in the + sexual as in other fields, and promote premature desires and + curiosities. But, on the other hand, urban life offers the young + no gratification for their desires and curiosities. The publicity + of a city, the universal surveillance, the studied decorum of a + population conscious that it is continually exposed to the gaze + of strangers, combine to spread a veil over the esoteric side of + life, which, even when at last it fails to conceal from the young + the urban stimuli of that life, effectually conceals, for the + most part, the gratifications of those stimuli. In the country, + however, these restraints do not exist in any corresponding + degree; animals render the elemental facts of sexual life clear + to all; there is less need or regard for decorum; speech is + plainer; supervision is impossible, and the amplest opportunities + for sexual intimacy are at hand. If the city may perhaps be said + to favor unchastity of thought in the young, the country may + certainly be said to favor unchastity of act.</p> + +<p> The elaborate investigations of the Committee of Lutheran pastors + into sexual morality (<i>Die Geschlechtich-sittliche Verhältnisse + im Deutschen Reiche</i>), published a few years ago, demonstrate + amply the sexual freedom in rural Germany, and Moll, who is + decidedly of opinion <a name='6_Page_39'></a>that the country enjoys no relative freedom + from sexuality, states (<i>op. cit.</i>, pp. 137-139, 239) that even + the circulation of obscene books and pictures among + school-children seems to be more frequent in small towns and the + country than in large cities. In Russia, where it might be + thought that urban and rural conditions offered less contrast + than in many countries, the same difference has been observed. "I + do not know," a Russian correspondent writes, "whether Zola in + <i>La Terre</i> correctly describes the life of French villages. But + the ways of a Russian village, where I passed part of my + childhood, fairly resemble those described by Zola. In the life + of the rural population into which I was plunged everything was + impregnated with erotism. One was surrounded by animal lubricity + in all its immodesty. Contrary to the generally received opinion, + I believe that a child may preserve his sexual innocence more + easily in a town than in the country. There are, no doubt, many + exceptions to this rule. But the functions of the sexual life are + generally more concealed in the towns than in the fields. Modesty + (whether or not of the merely superficial and exterior kind) is + more developed among urban populations. In speaking of sexual + things in the towns people veil their thought more; even the + lower class in towns employ more restraint, more euphemisms, than + peasants. Thus in the towns a child may easily fail to comprehend + when risky subjects are talked of in his presence. It may be said + that the corruption of towns, though more concealed, is all the + deeper. Maybe, but that concealment preserves children from it. + The town child sees prostitutes in the street every day without + distinguishing them from other people. In the country he would + every day hear it stated in the crudest terms that such and such + a girl has been found at night in a barn or a ditch making love + with such and such a youth, or that the servant girl slips every + night into the coachman's bed, the facts of sexual intercourse, + pregnancy, and childbirth being spoken of in the plainest terms. + In towns the child's attention is solicited by a thousand + different objects; in the country, except fieldwork, which fails + to interest him, he hears only of the reproduction of animals and + the erotic exploits of girls and youths. When we say that the + urban environment is more exciting we are thinking of adults, but + the things which excite the adult have usually no erotic effect + on the child, who cannot, however, long remain asexual when he + sees the great peasant girls, as ardent as mares in heat, + abandoning themselves to the arms of robust youths. He cannot + fail to remark these frank manifestations of sexuality, though + the subtle and perverse refinements of the town would escape his + notice. I know that in the countries of exaggerated prudery there + is much hidden corruption, more, one is sometimes inclined to + think, than in less hypocritical countries. But I believe that + that is a false impression, and am persuaded that precisely + because of all these little concealments which excite the + malicious <a name='6_Page_40'></a>amusement of foreigners, there are really many more + young people in England who remain chaste than in the countries + which treat sexual relations more frankly. At all events, if I + have known Englishmen who were very debauched and very refined in + vice, I have also known young men of the same nation, over + twenty, who were as innocent as children, but never a young + Frenchman, Italian, or Spaniard of whom this could be said." + There is undoubtedly truth in this statement, though it must be + remembered that, excellent as chastity is, if it is based on mere + ignorance, its possessor is exposed to terrible dangers.</p></div> + +<p>The question of sexual hygiene, more especially in its special aspect of +sexual enlightenment, is not, however, dependent on the fact that in some +children the psychic and nervous manifestation of sex appears at an +earlier age than in others. It rests upon the larger general fact that in +all children the activity of intelligence begins to work at a very early +age, and that this activity tends to manifest itself in an inquisitive +desire to know many elementary facts of life which are really dependent on +sex. The primary and most universal of these desires is the desire to know +where children come from. No question could be more natural; the question +of origins is necessarily a fundamental one in childish philosophies as, +in more ultimate shapes, it is in adult philosophies. Most children, +either guided by the statements, usually the misstatements, of their +elders, or by their own intelligence working amid such indications as are +open to them, are in possession of a theory of the origin of babies.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Stanley Hall ("Contents of Children's Minds on Entering School," + <i>Pedagogical Seminary</i>, June, 1891) has collected some of the + beliefs of young children as to the origin of babies. "God makes + babies in heaven, though the Holy Mother and even Santa Claus + make some. He lets them down and drops them, and the women or + doctors catch them, or He leaves them on the sidewalk, or brings + them down a wooden ladder backwards and pulls it up again, or + mamma or the doctor or the nurse go up and fetch them, sometimes + in a balloon, or they fly down and lose off their wings in some + place or other and forget it, and jump down to Jesus, who gives + them around. They were also often said to be found in + flour-barrels, and the flour sticks ever so long, you know, or + they grew in cabbages, or God puts them in water, perhaps in the + sewer, and the doctor gets them out and takes them to sick folks + that want them, <a name='6_Page_41'></a>or the milkman brings them early in the morning; + they are dug out of the ground, or bought at the baby store."</p> + +<p> In England and America the inquisitive child is often told that + the baby was found in the garden, under a gooseberry bush or + elsewhere; or more commonly it is said, with what is doubtless + felt to be a nearer approach to the truth, that the doctor + brought it. In Germany the common story told to children is that + the stork brings the baby. Various theories, mostly based on + folk-lore, have been put forward to explain this story, but none + of them seem quite convincing (see, <i>e.g.</i>, G. Herman, + "Sexual-Mythen," <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, vol. i, Heft 5, + 1906, p. 176, and P. Näcke, <i>Neurologische Centralblatt</i>, No. 17, + 1907). Näcke thinks there is some plausibility in Professor + Petermann's suggestion that a frog writhing in a stork's bill + resembles a tiny human creature.</p> + +<p> In Iceland, according to Max Bartels ("Isländischer Brauch und + Volksglaube," etc., <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1900, Heft 2 + and 3) we find a transition between the natural and the fanciful + in the stories told to children of the origin of babies (the + stork is here precluded, for it only extends to the southern + border of Scandinavian lands). In North Iceland it is said that + God made the baby and the mother bore it, and on that account is + now ill. In the northwest it is said that God made the baby and + gave it to the mother. Elsewhere it is said that God sent the + baby and the midwife brought it, the mother only being in bed to + be near the baby (which is seldom placed in a cradle). It is also + sometimes said that a lamb or a bird brought the baby. Again it + is said to have entered during the night through the window. + Sometimes, however, the child is told that the baby came out of + the mother's breasts, or from below her breasts, and that is why + she is not well.</p> + +<p> Even when children learn that babies come out of the mother's + body this knowledge often remains very vague and inaccurate. It + very commonly happens, for instance, in all civilized countries + that the navel is regarded as the baby's point of exit from the + body. This is a natural conclusion, since the navel is seemingly + a channel into the body, and a channel for which there is no + obvious use, while the pudendal cleft would not suggest itself to + girls (and still less to boys) as the gate of birth, since it + already appears to be monopolized by the urinary excretion. This + belief concerning the navel is sometimes preserved through the + whole period of adolescence, especially in girls of the so-called + educated class, who are too well-bred to discuss the matter with + their married friends, and believe indeed that they are already + sufficiently well informed. At this age the belief may not be + altogether harmless, in so far as it leads to the real gate of + sex being left unguarded. In Elsass where girls commonly believe, + and are taught, that babies come through the navel, popular + folk-tales are current (<i>Anthropophyteia</i>, vol.<a name='6_Page_42'></a> iii, p. 89) + which represent the mistakes resulting from this belief as + leading to the loss of virginity.</p> + +<p> Freud, who believes that children give little credit to the stork + fable and similar stories invented for their mystification, has + made an interesting psychological investigation into the real + theories which children themselves, as the result of observation + and thought, reach concerning the sexual facts of life (S. Freud, + "Ueber Infantile Sexualtheorien," <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Dec., 1908). + Such theories, he remarks, correspond to the brilliant, but + defective hypotheses which primitive peoples arrive at concerning + the nature and origin of the world. There are three theories, + which, as Freud quite truly concludes, are very commonly formed + by children. The first, and the most widely disseminated, is that + there is no real anatomical difference between boys and girls; if + the boy notices that his little sister has no obvious penis he + even concludes that it is because she is too young, and the + little girl herself takes the same view. The fact that in early + life the clitoris is relatively larger and more penis-like helps + to confirm this view which Freud connects with the tendency in + later life to erotic dream of women furnished with a penis. This + theory, as Freud also remarks, favors the growth of homosexuality + when its germs are present. The second theory is the fæcal theory + of the origin of babies. The child, who perhaps thinks his mother + has a penis, and is in any case ignorant of the vagina, concludes + that the baby is brought into the world by an action analogous to + the action of the bowels. The third theory, which is perhaps less + prevalent than the others, Freud terms the sadistic theory of + coitus. The child realizes that his father must have taken some + sort of part in his production. The theory that sexual + intercourse consists in violence has in it a trace of truth, but + seems to be arrived at rather obscurely. The child's own sexual + feelings are often aroused for the first time when wrestling or + struggling with a companion; he may see his mother, also, + resisting more or less playfully a sudden caress from his father, + and if a real quarrel takes place, the impression may be + fortified. As to what the state of marriage consists in, Freud + finds that it is usually regarded as a state which abolishes + modesty; the most prevalent theory being that marriage means that + people can make water before each other, while another common + childish theory is that marriage is when people can show each + other their private parts.</p></div> + +<p>Thus it is that at a very early stage of the child's life we are brought +face to face with the question how we may most wisely begin his initiation +into the knowledge of the great central facts of sex. It is perhaps a +little late in the day to regard it as a question, but so it is among us, +although three thousand five <a name='6_Page_43'></a>hundred years ago, the Egyptian father spoke +to his child: "I have given you a mother who has carried you within her, a +heavy burden, for your sake, and without resting on me. When at last you +were born, she indeed submitted herself to the yoke, for during three +years were her nipples in your mouth. Your excrements never turned her +stomach, nor made her say, 'What am I doing?' When you were sent to school +she went regularly every day to carry the household bread and beer to your +master. When in your turn you marry and have a child, bring up your child +as your mother brought you up."<a name='6_FNanchor_20'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_20'><sup>[20]</sup></a></p> + +<p>I take it for granted, however, that—whatever doubt there may be as to +the how or the when—no doubt is any longer possible as to the absolute +necessity of taking deliberate and active part in this sexual initiation, +instead of leaving it to the chance revelation of ignorant and perhaps +vicious companions or servants. It is becoming more and more widely felt +that the risks of ignorant innocence are too great.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"All the love and solicitude parental yearning can bestow," + writes Dr. G. F. Butler, of Chicago (<i>Love and its Affinities</i>, + 1899, p. 83), "all that the most refined religious influence can + offer, all that the most cultivated associations can accomplish, + in one fatal moment may be obliterated. There is no room for + ethical reasoning, indeed oftentimes no consciousness of wrong, + but only Margaret's 'Es war so süss'." The same writer adds (as + had been previously remarked by Mrs. Craik and others) that among + church members it is the finer and more sensitive organizations + that are the most susceptible to sexual emotions. So far as boys + are concerned, we leave instruction in matters of sex, the most + sacred and central fact in the world, as Canon Lyttelton remarks, + to "dirty-minded school-boys, grooms, garden-boys, anyone, in + short, who at an early age may be sufficiently defiled and + sufficiently reckless to talk of them." And, so far as girls are + concerned, as Balzac long ago remarked, "a mother may bring up + her daughter severely, and cover her beneath her wings for + seventeen years; but a servant-girl can destroy that long work by + a word, even by a gesture."</p> + +<p> The great part played by servant-girls of the lower class in the + sexual initiation of the children of the middle class has been + illustrated in dealing with "The Sexual Impulse in Women" in vol. + iii, of these<a name='6_Page_44'></a> <i>Studies</i>, and need not now be further discussed. + I would only here say a word, in passing, on the other side. + Often as servant-girls take this part, we must not go so far as + to say that it is the case with the majority. As regards Germany, + Dr. Alfred Kind has lately put on record his experience: "I have + <i>never</i>, in youth, heard a bad or improper word on + sex-relationships from a servant-girl, although servant-girls + followed one another in our house like sunshine and showers in + April, and there was always a relation of comradeship between us + children and the servants." As regards England, I can add that my + own youthful experiences correspond to Dr. Kind's. This is not + surprising, for one may say that in the ordinary well-conditioned + girl, though her virtue may not be developed to heroic + proportions, there is yet usually a natural respect for the + innocence of children, a natural sexual indifference to them, and + a natural expectation that the male should take the active part + when a sexual situation arises.</p></div> + +<p>It is also beginning to be felt that, especially as regards women, +ignorant innocence is not merely too fragile a possession to be worth +preservation, but that it is positively mischievous, since it involves the +lack of necessary knowledge. "It is little short of criminal," writes Dr. +F. M. Goodchild,<a name='6_FNanchor_21'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_21'><sup>[21]</sup></a> "to send our young people into the midst of the +excitements and temptations of a great city with no more preparation than +if they were going to live in Paradise." In the case of women, ignorance +has the further disadvantage that it deprives them of the knowledge +necessary for intelligent sympathy with other women. The unsympathetic +attitude of women towards women is often largely due to sheer ignorance of +the facts of life. "Why," writes in a private letter a married lady who +keenly realizes this, "are women brought up with such a profound ignorance +of their own and especially other women's natures? They do not know half +as much about other women as a man of the most average capacity learns in +his day's march." We try to make up for our failure to educate women in +the essential matters of sex by imposing upon the police and other +guardians of public order the duty of protecting women and morals. But, as +Moll insists, the real problem of chastity lies, not in the multiplication +of laws <a name='6_Page_45'></a>and policemen, but largely in women's knowledge of the dangers of +sex and in the cultivation of their sense of responsibility.<a name='6_FNanchor_22'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_22'><sup>[22]</sup></a> We are +always making laws for the protection of children and setting the police +on guard. But laws and the police, whether their activities are good or +bad, are in either case alike ineffectual. They can for the most part only +be invoked when the damage is already done. We have to learn to go to the +root of the matter. We have to teach children to be a law to themselves. +We have to give them that knowledge which will enable them to guard their +own personalities.<a name='6_FNanchor_23'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_23'><sup>[23]</sup></a> There is an authentic story of a lady who had +learned to swim, much to the horror of her clergyman, who thought that +swimming was unfeminine. "But," she said, "suppose I was drowning." "In +that case," he replied, "you ought to wait until a man comes along and +saves you." There we have the two methods of salvation which have been +preached to women, the old method and the new. In no sea have women been +more often in danger of drowning than that of sex. There ought to be no +question as to which is the better method of salvation.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is difficult nowadays to find any serious arguments against + the desirability of early sexual enlightenment, and it is almost + with amusement that we read how the novelist Alphonse Daudet, + when asked his opinion of such enlightenment, protested—in a + spirit certainly common among the men of his time—that it was + unnecessary, because boys could learn everything from the streets + and the newspapers, while "as to young girls—no! I would teach + them none of the truths of physiology. I can only see + disadvantages in such a proceeding. These truths are ugly, + disillusioning, sure to shock, to frighten, to disgust the mind, + the nature, of a girl." It is as much as to say that there is no + need to supply sources of pure water when there are puddles in + the street that anyone can drink of. A contemporary of Daudet's, + who possessed a far finer spiritual insight, Coventry Patmore, + the poet, in the essay on "Ancient and Modern Ideas of Purity" in + his beautiful book, <i>Religio Poetæ</i>, had already finely protested + against that "disease of impurity"<a name='6_Page_46'></a> which comes of "our modern + undivine silences" for which Daudet pleaded. And Metchnikoff, + more recently, from the scientific side, speaking especially as + regards women, declares that knowledge is so indispensable for + moral conduct that "ignorance must be counted the most immoral of + acts" (<i>Essais Optimistes</i>, p. 420).</p> + +<p> The distinguished Belgian novelist, Camille Lemonnier, in his + <i>L'Homme en Amour</i>, deals with the question of the sexual + education of the young by presenting the history of a young man, + brought up under the influence of the conventional and + hypocritical views which teach that nudity and sex are shameful + and disgusting things. In this way he passes by the opportunities + of innocent and natural love, to become hopelessly enslaved at + last to a sensual woman who treats him merely as the instrument + of her pleasure, the last of a long succession of lovers. The + book is a powerful plea for a sane, wholesome, and natural + education in matters of sex. It was, however, prosecuted at + Bruges, in 1901, though the trial finally ended in acquittal. + Such a verdict is in harmony with the general tendency of feeling + at the present time.</p> + +<p> The old ideas, expressed by Daudet, that the facts of sex are + ugly and disillusioning, and that they shock the mind of the + young, are both alike entirely false. As Canon Lyttelton remarks, + in urging that the laws of the transmission of life should be + taught to children by the mother: "The way they receive it with + native reverence, truthfulness of understanding and guileless + delicacy, is nothing short of a revelation of the never-ceasing + beauty of nature. People sometimes speak of the indescribable + beauty of children's innocence. But I venture to say that no one + quite knows what it is who has foregone the privilege of being + the first to set before them the true meaning of life and birth + and the mystery of their own being. Not only do we fail to build + up sound knowledge in them, but we put away from ourselves the + chance of learning something that must be divine." In the same + way, Edward Carpenter, stating that it is easy and natural for + the child to learn from the first its physical relation to its + mother, remarks (<i>Love's Coming of Age</i>, p. 9): "A child at the + age of puberty, with the unfolding of its far-down emotional and + sexual nature, is eminently capable of the most sensitive, + affectional and serene appreciation of what <i>sex</i> means + (generally more so as things are to-day, than its worldling + parent or guardian); and can absorb the teaching, if + sympathetically given, without any shock or disturbance to its + sense of shame—that sense which is so natural and valuable a + safeguard of early youth."</p> + +<p> How widespread, even some years ago, had become the conviction + that the sexual facts of life should be taught to girls as well + as boys, was shown when the opinions of a very miscellaneous + assortment of more or less prominent persons were sought on the + question ("The Tree of Knowledge," <i>New Review</i>, June, 1894). A + small minority of two only<a name='6_Page_47'></a> (Rabbi Adler and Mrs. Lynn Lynton) + were against such knowledge, while among the majority in favor of + it were Mme. Adam, Thomas Hardy, Sir Walter Besant, Björnson, + Hall Caine, Sarah Grand, Nordau, Lady Henry Somerset, Baroness + von Suttner, and Miss Willard. The leaders of the woman's + movement are, of course, in favor of such knowledge. Thus a + meeting of the Bund für Mutterschutz at Berlin, in 1905, almost + unanimously passed a resolution declaring that the early sexual + enlightenment of children in the facts of the sexual life is + urgently necessary (<i>Mutterschutz</i>, 1905, Heft 2, p. 91). It may + be added that medical opinion has long approved of this + enlightenment. Thus in England it was editorially stated in the + <i>British Medical Journal</i> some years ago (June 9, 1894): "Most + medical men of an age to beget confidence in such affairs will be + able to recall instances in which an ignorance, which would have + been ludicrous if it had not been so sad, has been displayed on + matters regarding which every woman entering on married life + ought to have been accurately informed. There can, we think, be + little doubt that much unhappiness and a great deal of illness + would be prevented if young people of both sexes possessed a + little accurate knowledge regarding the sexual relations, and + were well impressed with the profound importance of selecting + healthy mates. Knowledge need not necessarily be nasty, but even + if it were, it certainly is not comparable in that respect with + the imaginings of ignorance." In America, also, where at an + annual meeting of the American Medical Association, Dr. Denslow + Lewis, of Chicago, eloquently urged the need of teaching sexual + hygiene to youths and girls, all the subsequent nine speakers, + some of them physicians of worldwide fame, expressed their + essential agreement (<i>Medico-Legal Journal</i>, June-Sept., 1903). + Howard, again, at the end of his elaborate <i>History of + Matrimonial Institutions</i> (vol. iii, p. 257) asserts the + necessity for education in matters of sex, as going to the root + of the marriage problem. "In the future educational programme," + he remarks, "sex questions must hold an honorable place."</p></div> + +<p>While, however, it is now widely recognized that children are entitled to +sexual enlightenment, it cannot be said that this belief is widely put +into practice. Many persons, who are fully persuaded that children should +sooner or later be enlightened concerning the sexual sources of life, are +somewhat nervously anxious as to the precise age at which this +enlightenment should begin. Their latent feeling seems to be that sex is +an evil, and enlightenment concerning sex also an evil, however necessary, +and that the chief point is to ascertain the latest moment to which we can +safely postpone this necessary evil. Such an <a name='6_Page_48'></a>attitude is, however, +altogether wrong-headed. The child's desire for knowledge concerning the +origin of himself is a perfectly natural, honest, and harmless desire, so +long as it is not perverted by being thwarted. A child of four may ask +questions on this matter, simply and spontaneously. As soon as the +questions are put, certainly as soon as they become at all insistent, they +should be answered, in the same simple and spontaneous spirit, truthfully, +though according to the measure of the child's intelligence and his +capacity and desire for knowledge. This period should not, and, if these +indications are followed, naturally would not, in any case, be delayed +beyond the sixth year. After that age even the most carefully guarded +child is liable to contaminating communications from outside. Moll points +out that the sexual enlightenment of girls in its various stages ought to +be always a little ahead of that of boys, and as the development of girls +up to the pubertal age is more precocious than that of boys, this demand +is reasonable.</p> + +<p>If the elements of sexual education are to be imparted in early childhood, +it is quite clear who ought to be the teacher. There should be no question +that this privilege belongs by every right to the mother. Except where a +child is artificially separated from his chief parent it is indeed only +the mother who has any natural opportunity of receiving and responding to +these questions. It is unnecessary for her to take any initiative in the +matter. The inevitable awakening of the child's intelligence and the +evolution of his boundless curiosity furnish her love and skill with all +opportunities for guiding her child's thoughts and knowledge. Nor is it +necessary for her to possess the slightest technical information at this +stage. It is only essential that she should have the most absolute faith +in the purity and dignity of her physical relationship to her child, and +be able to speak of it with frankness and tenderness. When that essential +condition is fulfilled every mother has all the knowledge that her young +child needs.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Among the best authorities, both men and women, in all the + countries where this matter is attracting attention, there seems + now to be unanimity of opinion in favor of the elementary facts + of the baby's relationship <a name='6_Page_49'></a>to its mother being explained to the + child by the mother as soon as the child begins to ask questions. + Thus in Germany Moll has repeatedly argued in this sense; he + insists that sexual enlightenment should be mainly a private and + individual matter; that in schools there should be no general and + personal warnings about masturbation, etc. (though at a later age + he approves of instruction in regard to venereal diseases), but + that the mother is the proper person to impart intimate knowledge + to the child, and that any age is suitable for the commencement + of such enlightenment, provided it is put into a form fitted for + the age (Moll, <i>op. cit.</i>, p. 264).</p> + +<p> At the Mannheim meeting of the Congress of the German Society for + Combating Venereal Disease, when the question of sexual + enlightenment formed the sole subject of discussion, the opinion + in favor of early teaching by the mother prevailed. "It is the + mother who must, in the first place, be made responsible for the + child's clear understanding of sexual things, so often lacking," + said Frau Krukenberg ("Die Aufgabe der Mutter," + <i>Sexualpädagogik</i>, p. 13), while Max Enderlin, a teacher, said on + the same occasion ("Die Sexuelle Frage in die Volksschule," + <i>id.</i>, p. 35): "It is the mother who has to give the child his + first explanations, for it is to his mother that he first + naturally comes with his questions." In England, Canon Lyttelton, + who is distinguished among the heads of public schools not least + by his clear and admirable statements on these questions, states + (<i>Mothers and Sons</i>, p. 99) that the mother's part in the sexual + enlightenment and sexual guardianship of her son is of paramount + importance, and should begin at the earliest years. J. H. Badley, + another schoolmaster ("The Sex Difficulty," <i>Broad Views</i>, June, + 1904), also states that the mother's part comes first. Northcote + (<i>Christianity and Sex Problems</i>, p. 25) believes that the duty + of the parents is primary in this matter, the family doctor and + the schoolmaster coming in at a later stage. In America, Dr. Mary + Wood Allen, who occupies a prominent and influential position in + women's social movements, urges (in <i>Child-Confidence Rewarded</i>, + and other pamphlets) that a mother should begin to tell her child + these things as soon as he begins to ask questions, the age of + four not being too young, and explains how this may be done, + giving examples of its happy results in promoting a sweet + confidence between the child and his mother.</p></div> + +<p>If, as a few believe should be the case, the first initiation is delayed +to the tenth year or even later, there is the difficulty that it is no +longer so easy to talk simply and naturally about such things; the mother +is beginning to feel too shy to speak for the first time about these +difficult subjects to a son or a daughter who is nearly as big as herself. +She feels that she can only do it <a name='6_Page_50'></a>awkwardly and ineffectively, and she +probably decides not to do it at all. Thus an atmosphere of mystery is +created with all the embarrassing and perverting influences which mystery +encourages.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>There can be no doubt that, more especially in highly intelligent + children with vague and unspecialized yet insistent sexual + impulses, the artificial mystery with which sex is too often + clothed not only accentuates the natural curiosity but also tends + to favor the morbid intensity and even prurience of the sexual + impulse. This has long been recognized. Dr. Beddoes wrote at the + beginning of the nineteenth century: "It is in vain that we + dissemble to ourselves the eagerness with which children of + either sex seek to satisfy themselves concerning the conformation + of the other. No degree of reserve in the heads of families, no + contrivances, no care to put books of one description out of + sight and to garble others, has perhaps, with any one set of + children, succeeded in preventing or stifling this kind of + curiosity. No part of the history of human thought would perhaps + be more singular than the stratagems devised by young people in + different situations to make themselves masters or witnesses of + the secret. And every discovery, due to their own inquiries, can + but be so much oil poured upon an imagination in flames" (T. + Beddoes, <i>Hygeia</i>, 1802, vol. iii, p. 59). Kaan, again, in one of + the earliest books on morbid sexuality, sets down mystery as one + of the causes of <i>psychopathia sexualis</i>. Marro (<i>La Pubertà</i>, p. + 299) points out how the veil of mystery thrown over sexual + matters merely serves to concentrate attention on them. The + distinguished Dutch writer Multatuli, in one of his letters + (quoted with approval by Freud), remarks on the dangers of hiding + things from boys and girls in a veil of mystery, pointing out + that this must only heighten the curiosity of children, and so + far from keeping them pure, which mere ignorance can never do, + heats and perverts their imaginations. Mrs. Mary Wood Allen, + also, warns the mother (<i>op. cit.</i>, p. 5) against the danger of + allowing any air of embarrassing mystery to creep over these + things. "If the instructor feels any embarrassment in answering + the queries of the child, he is not fitted to be the teacher, for + the feeling of embarrassment will, in some subtle way, + communicate itself to the child, and he will experience an + indefinable sense of offended delicacy which is both unnecessary + and undesirable. Purification of one's own thought is, then, the + first step towards teaching the truth purely. Why," she adds, "is + death, the gateway out of life, any more dignified or pathetic + than birth, the gateway into life? Or why is the taking of + earthly life a more awful fact than the giving of life?" Mrs. + Ennis Richmond, in a book of advice to mothers which contains + many wise and true things, says: "I want to insist, more strongly + than upon anything else, that it is the <i>secrecy</i> that <a name='6_Page_51'></a>surrounds + certain parts of the body and their functions that gives them + their danger in the child's thought. Little children, from + earliest years, are taught to think of these parts of their body + as mysterious, and not only so, but that they are mysterious + because they are unclean. Children have not even a name for them. + If you have to speak to your child, you allude to them + mysteriously and in a half-whisper as 'that little part of you + that you don't speak of,' or words to that effect. Before + everything it is important that your child should have a good + working name for these parts of his body, and for their + functions, and that he should be taught to use and to hear the + names, and that as naturally and openly as though he or you were + speaking of his head or his foot. Convention has, for various + reasons, made it impossible to speak in this way in public. But + you can, at any rate, break through this in the nursery. There + this rule of convention has no advantage, and many a serious + disadvantage. It is easy to say to a child, the first time he + makes an 'awkward' remark in public: 'Look here, laddie, you may + say what you like to me or to daddy, but, for some reason or + other, one does not talk about these' (only say <i>what</i> things) + 'in public.' Only let your child make the remark in public + <i>before</i> you speak (never mind the shock to your caller's + feelings), don't warn him against doing so" (Ennis Richmond, + <i>Boyhood</i>, p. 60). Sex must always be a mystery, but, as Mrs. + Richmond rightly says, "the real and true mysteries of generation + and birth are very different from the vulgar secretiveness with + which custom surrounds them."</p> + +<p> The question as to the precise names to be given to the more + private bodily parts and functions is sometimes a little + difficult to solve. Every mother will naturally follow her own + instincts, and probably her own traditions, in this matter. I + have elsewhere pointed out (in the study of "The Evolution of + Modesty") how widespread and instinctive is the tendency to adopt + constantly new euphemisms in this field. The ancient and simple + words, which in England a great poet like Chaucer could still use + rightly and naturally, are so often dropped in the mud by the + vulgar that there is an instinctive hesitation nowadays in + applying them to beautiful uses. They are, however, + unquestionably the best, and, in their origin, the most dignified + and expressive words. Many persons are of opinion that on this + account they should be rescued from the mud, and their sacredness + taught to children. A medical friend writes that he always taught + his son that the vulgar sex names are really beautiful words of + ancient origin, and that when we understand them aright we cannot + possibly see in them any motive for low jesting. They are simple, + serious and solemn words, connoting the most central facts of + life, and only to ignorant and plebeian vulgarity can they cause + obscene mirth. An American man of science, who has privately and + anonymously printed some pamphlets on sex questions, also takes + this <a name='6_Page_52'></a>view, and consistently and methodically uses the ancient + and simple words. I am of opinion that this is the ideal to be + sought, but that there are obvious difficulties at present in the + way of attaining it. In any case, however, the mother should be + in possession of a very precise vocabulary for all the bodily + parts and acts which it concerns her children to know.</p></div> + +<p>It is sometimes said that at this early age children should not be told, +even in a simple and elementary form, the real facts of their origin but +should, instead, hear a fairy-tale having in it perhaps some kind of +symbolic truth. This contention may be absolutely rejected, without +thereby, in any degree, denying the important place which fairy-tales hold +in the imagination of young children. Fairy-tales have a real value to the +child; they are a mental food he needs, if he is not to be spiritually +starved; to deprive him of fairy-tales at this age is to do him a wrong +which can never be made up at any subsequent age. But not only are sex +matters too vital even in childhood to be safely made matter for a +fairy-tale, but the real facts are themselves as wonderful as any +fairy-tale, and appeal to the child's imagination with as much force as a +fairy-tale.</p> + +<p>Even, however, if there were no other reasons against telling children +fairy-tales of sex instead of the real facts, there is one reason which +ought to be decisive with every mother who values her influence over her +child. He will very quickly discover, either by information from others or +by his own natural intelligence, that the fairy-tale, that was told him in +reply to a question about a simple matter of fact, was a lie. With that +discovery his mother's influence over him in all such matters vanishes for +ever, for not only has a child a horror of being duped, but he is +extremely sensitive about any rebuff of this kind, and never repeats what +he has been made to feel was a mistake to be ashamed of. He will not +trouble his mother with any more questions on this matter; he will not +confide in her; he will himself learn the art of telling "fairy-tales" +about sex matters. He had turned to his mother in trust; she had not +responded with equal trust, and she must suffer the punishment, as +Henriette Fürth puts it, of seeing "the love and trust of her son <a name='6_Page_53'></a>stolen +from her by the first boy he makes friends with in the street." When, as +sometimes happens (Moll mentions a case), a mother goes on repeating these +silly stories to a girl or boy of seven who is secretly well-informed, she +only degrades herself in her child's eyes. It is this fatal mistake, so +often made by mothers, which at first leads them to imagine that their +children are so innocent, and in later years causes them many hours of +bitterness because they realize they do not possess their children's +trust. In the matter of trust it is for the mother to take the first step; +the children who do not trust their mothers are, for the most part, merely +remembering the lesson they learned at their mother's knee.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The number of little books and pamphlets dealing with the + question of the sexual enlightenment of the young—whether + intended to be read by the young or offering guidance to mothers + and teachers in the task of imparting knowledge—has become very + large indeed during recent years in America, England, and + especially Germany, where there has been of late an enormous + production of such literature. The late Ben Elmy, writing under + the pseudonym of "Ellis Ethelmer," published two booklets, <i>Baby + Buds</i>, and <i>The Human Flower</i> (issued by Mrs. Wolstenholme Elmy, + Buxton House, Congleton), which state the facts in a simple and + delicate manner, though the author was not a notably reliable + guide on the scientific aspects of these questions. A charming + conversation between a mother and child, from a French source, is + reprinted by Edward Carpenter at the end of his <i>Love's Coming of + Age. How We Are Born</i>, by Mrs. N. J. (apparently a Russian lady + writing in English), prefaced by J. H. Badley, is satisfactory. + Mention may also be made of <i>The Wonder of Life</i>, by Mary Tudor + Pole. Margaret Morley's <i>Song of Life</i>, an American book, which I + have not seen, has been highly praised. Most of these books are + intended for quite young children, and while they explain more or + less clearly the origin of babies, nearly always starting with + the facts of plant life, they touch very slightly, if at all, on + the relations of the sexes.</p> + +<p> Mrs. Ennis Richmond's books, largely addressed to mothers, deal + with these questions in a very sane, direct, and admirable + manner, and Canon Lyttelton's books, discussing such questions + generally, are also excellent. Most of the books now to be + mentioned are intended to be read by boys and girls who have + reached the age of puberty. They refer more or less precisely to + sexual relationships, and they usually touch on masturbation. + <i>The Story of Life</i>, written by a very accomplished woman, the + late Ellice Hopkins, is somewhat vague, and introduces too <a name='6_Page_54'></a>many + exalted religious ideas. Arthur Trewby's <i>Healthy Boyhood</i> is a + little book of wholesome tendency; it deals specially with + masturbation. <i>A Talk with Boys About Themselves</i> and <i>A Talk + with Girls About Themselves</i>, both by Edward Bruce Kirk (the + latter book written in conjunction with a lady) deal with general + as well as sexual hygiene. There could be no better book to put + into the hands of a boy or girl at puberty than M. A. Warren's + <i>Almost Fourteen</i>, written by an American school teacher in 1892. + It was a most charming and delicately written book, which could + not have offended the innocence of the most sensitive maiden. + Nothing, however, is sacred to prurience, and it was easy for the + prurient to capture the law and obtain (in 1897) legal + condemnation of this book as "obscene." Anything which sexually + excites a prurient mind is, it is true, "obscene" for that mind, + for, as Mr. Theodore Schroeder remarks, obscenity is "the + contribution of the reading mind," but we need such books as this + in order to diminish the number of prurient minds, and the + condemnation of so entirely admirable a book makes, not for + morality, but for immorality. I am told that the book was + subsequently issued anew with most of its best portions omitted, + and it is stated by Schroeder (<i>Liberty of Speech and Press + Essential to Purity Propaganda</i>, p. 34) that the author was + compelled to resign his position as a public school principal. + Maria Lischnewska's <i>Geschlechtliche Belehrung der Kinder</i> + (reprinted from <i>Mutterschutz</i>, 1905, Heft 4 and 5) is a most + admirable and thorough discussion of the whole question of sexual + education, though the writer is more interested in the teacher's + share in this question than in the mother's. Suggestions to + mothers are contained in Hugo Salus, <i>Wo kommen die Kinder her?</i>, + E. Stiehl, <i>Eine Mutterpflicht</i>, and many other books. Dr. Alfred + Kind strongly recommends Ludwig Gurlitt's <i>Der Verkehr mit meinem + Kindern</i>, more especially in its combination of sexual education + with artistic education. Many similar books are referred to by + Bloch, in his <i>Sexual Life of Our Time</i>, Ch. xxvi.</p> + +<p> I have enumerated the names of these little books because they + are frequently issued in a semi-private manner, and are seldom + easy to procure or to hear of. The propagation of such books + seems to be felt to be almost a disgraceful action, only to be + performed by stealth. And such a feeling seems not unnatural when + we see, as in the case of the author of <i>Almost Fourteen</i>, that a + nominally civilized country, instead of loading with honors a man + who has worked for its moral and physical welfare, seeks so far + as it can to ruin him.</p> + +<p> I may add that while it would usually be very helpful to a mother + to be acquainted with a few of the booklets I have named, she + would do well, in actually talking to her children, to rely + mainly on her own knowledge and inspiration.</p></div><a name='6_Page_55'></a> + +<p>The sexual education which it is the mother's duty and privilege to +initiate during her child's early years cannot and ought not to be +technical. It is not of the nature of formal instruction but is a private +and intimate initiation. No doubt the mother must herself be taught.<a name='6_FNanchor_24'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_24'><sup>[24]</sup></a> +But the education she needs is mainly an education in love and insight. +The actual facts which she requires to use at this early stage are very +simple. Her main task is to make clear the child's own intimate relations +to herself and to show that all young things have a similar intimate +relation to their mothers; in generalizing on this point the egg is the +simplest and most fundamental type to explain the origin of the individual +life, for the idea of the egg—in its widest sense as the seed—not only +has its truth for the human creature but may be applied throughout the +animal and vegetable world. In this explanation the child's physical +relationship to his father is not necessarily at first involved; it may be +left to a further stage or until the child's questions lead up to it.</p> + +<p>Apart from his interest in his origin, the child is also interested in his +sexual, or as they seem to him exclusively, his excretory organs, and in +those of other people, his sisters and parents. On these points, at this +age, his mother may simply and naturally satisfy his simple and natural +curiosity, calling things by precise names, whether the names used are +common or uncommon being a matter in regard to which she may exercise her +judgment and taste. In this manner the mother will, indirectly, be able to +safeguard her child at the outset against the prudish and prurient notions +alike which he will encounter later. She will also without unnatural +stress be able to lead the child into a reverential attitude towards his +own organs and so exert an influence against any undesirable tampering +with them. In talking with him about the origin of life and about his own +body and functions, in however elementary a fashion, she will have +initiated him both in sexual knowledge and in sexual hygiene.</p> +<a name='6_Page_56'></a> +<p>The mother who establishes a relationship of confidence with her child +during these first years will probably, if she possesses any measure of +wisdom and tact, be able to preserve it even after the epoch of puberty +into the difficult years of adolescence. But as an educator in the +narrower sense her functions will, in most cases, end at or before +puberty. A somewhat more technical and completely impersonal acquaintance +with the essential facts of sex then becomes desirable, and this would +usually be supplied by the school.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The great though capricious educator, Basedow, to some extent a + pupil of Rousseau, was an early pioneer in both the theory and + the practice of giving school children instruction in the facts + of the sexual life, from the age of ten onwards. He insists much + on this subject in his great treatise, the <i>Elementarwerk</i> + (1770-1774). The questions of children are to be answered + truthfully, he states, and they must be taught never to jest at + anything so sacred and serious as the sexual relations. They are + to be shown pictures of childbirth, and the dangers of sexual + irregularities are to be clearly expounded to them at the outset. + Boys are to be taken to hospitals to see the results of venereal + disease. Basedow is aware that many parents and teachers will be + shocked at his insistence on these things in his books and in his + practical pedagogic work, but such people, he declares, ought to + be shocked at the Bible (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Pinloche, <i>La Rèforme de + l'Education en Allemagne au dixhuitième siècle: Basedow et le + Philanthropinisme</i>, pp. 125, 256, 260, 272). Basedow was too far + ahead of his own time, and even of ours, to exert much influence + in this matter, and he had few immediate imitators.</p> + +<p> Somewhat later than Basedow, a distinguished English physician, + Thomas Beddoes, worked on somewhat the same lines, seeking to + promote sexual knowledge by lectures and demonstrations. In his + remarkable book, <i>Hygeia</i>, published in 1802 (vol. i, Essay IV) + he sets forth the absurdity of the conventional requirement that + "discretion and ignorance should lodge in the same bosom," and + deals at length with the question of masturbation and the need of + sexual education. He insists on the great importance of lectures + on natural history which, he had found, could be given with + perfect propriety to a mixed audience. His experiences had shown + that botany, the amphibia, the hen and her eggs, human anatomy, + even disease and sometimes the sight of it, are salutary from + this point of view. He thinks it is a happy thing for a child to + gain his first knowledge of sexual difference from anatomical + subjects, the dignity of death being a noble prelude to the + knowledge of sex and <a name='6_Page_57'></a>depriving it forever of morbid prurience. + It is scarcely necessary to remark that this method of teaching + children the elements of sexual anatomy in the <i>post-mortem</i> room + has not found many advocates or followers; it is undesirable, for + it fails to take into account the sensitiveness of children to + such impressions, and it is unnecessary, for it is just as easy + to teach the dignity of life as the dignity of death.</p> + +<p> The duty of the school to impart education in matters of sex to + children has in recent years been vigorously and ably advocated + by Maria Lischnewska (<i>op. cit.</i>), who speaks with thirty years' + experience as a teacher and an intimate acquaintance with + children and their home life. She argues that among the mass of + the population to-day, while in the home-life there is every + opportunity for coarse familiarity with sexual matters, there is + no opportunity for a pure and enlightened introduction to them, + parents being for the most part both morally and intellectually + incapable of aiding their children here. That the school should + assume the leading part in this task is, she believes, in + accordance with the whole tendency of modern civilized life. She + would have the instruction graduated in such a manner that during + the fifth or sixth year of school life the pupil would receive + instruction, with the aid of diagrams, concerning the sexual + organs and functions of the higher mammals, the bull and cow + being selected by preference. The facts of gestation would of + course be included. When this stage was reached it would be easy + to pass on to the human species with the statement: "Just in the + same way as the calf develops in the cow so the child develops in + the mother's body."</p> + +<p> It is difficult not to recognize the force of Maria Lischnewska's + argument, and it seems highly probable that, as she asserts, the + instruction proposed lies in the course of our present path of + progress. Such instruction would be formal, unemotional, and + impersonal; it would be given not as specific instruction in + matters of sex, but simply as a part of natural history. It would + supplement, so far as mere knowledge is concerned, the + information the child had already received from its mother. But + it would by no means supplant or replace the personal and + intimate relationship of confidence between mother and child. + That is always to be aimed at, and though it may not be possible + among the ill-educated masses of to-day, nothing else will + adequately take its place.</p></div> + +<p>There can be no doubt, however, that while in the future the school will +most probably be regarded as the proper place in which to teach the +elements of physiology—and not as at present a merely emasculated and +effeminated physiology—the introduction of such reformed teaching is as +yet impracticable in many communities. A coarse and ill-bred community +moves in a <a name='6_Page_58'></a>vicious circle. Its members are brought up to believe that sex +matters are filthy, and when they become adults they protest violently +against their children being taught this filthy knowledge. The teacher's +task is thus rendered at the best difficult, and under democratic +conditions impossible. We cannot, therefore, hope for any immediate +introduction of sexual physiology into schools, even in the unobtrusive +form in which alone it could properly be introduced, that is to say as a +natural and inevitable part of general physiology.</p> + +<p>This objection to animal physiology by no means applies, however, to +botany. There can be little doubt that botany is of all the natural +sciences that which best admits of this incidental instruction in the +fundamental facts of sex, when we are concerned with children below the +age of puberty. There are at least two reasons why this should be so. In +the first place botany really presents the beginnings of sex, in their +most naked and essential forms; it makes clear the nature, origin, and +significance of sex. In the second place, in dealing with plants the facts +of sex can be stated to children of either sex or any age quite plainly +and nakedly without any reserve, for no one nowadays regards the botanical +facts of sex as in any way offensive. The expounder of sex in plants also +has on his side the advantage of being able to assert, without question, +the entire beauty of the sexual process. He is not confronted by the +ignorance, bad education, and false associations which have made it so +difficult either to see or to show the beauty of sex in animals. From the +sex-life of plants to the sex-life of the lower animals there is, however, +but a step which the teacher, according to his discretion, may take.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>An early educational authority, Salzmann, in 1785 advocated the + sexual enlightenment of children by first teaching them botany, + to be followed by zoölogy. In modern times the method of + imparting sex knowledge to children by means, in the first place, + of botany, has been generally advocated, and from the most + various quarters. Thus Marro (<i>La Pubertà</i>, p. 300) recommends + this plan. J. Hudrey-Menos ("La Question du Sexe dans + l'Education," <i>Revue Socialiste</i>, June, 1895), gives the same + advice. Rudolf Sommer, in a paper entitled "Mädchenerziehung oder + Menschenbildung?" (<i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, Jahrgang<a name='6_Page_59'></a> I, + Heft 3) recommends that the first introduction of sex knowledge + to children should be made by talking to them on simple natural + history subjects; "there are endless opportunities," he remarks, + "over a fairy-tale, or a walk, or a fruit, or an egg, the sowing + of seed or the nest-building of birds." Canon Lyttelton + (<i>Training of the Young in Laws of Sex</i>, pp. 74 <i>et seq.</i>) + advises a somewhat similar method, though laying chief stress on + personal confidence between the child and his mother; "reference + is made to the animal world just so far as the child's knowledge + extends, so as to prevent the new facts from being viewed in + isolation, but the main emphasis is laid on his feeling for his + mother and the instinct which exists in nearly all children of + reverence due to the maternal relation;" he adds that, however + difficult the subject may seem, the essential facts of paternity + must also be explained to boys and girls alike. Keyes, again + (<i>New York Medical Journal</i>, Feb. 10, 1906), advocates teaching + children from an early age the sexual facts of plant life and + also concerning insects and other lower animals, and so gradually + leading up to human beings, the matter being thus robbed of its + unwholesome mystery. Mrs. Ennis Richmond (<i>Boyhood</i>, p. 62) + recommends that children should be sent to spend some of their + time upon a farm, so that they may not only become acquainted + with the general facts of the natural world, but also with the + sexual lives of animals, learning things which it is difficult to + teach verbally. Karina Karin ("Wie erzieht man ein Kind zür + wissenden Keuschheit?" <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, Jahrgang I, + Heft 4), reproducing some of her talks with her nine-year old + son, from the time that he first asked her where children came + from, shows how she began with telling him about flowers, to pass + on to fish and birds, and finally to the facts of human + pregnancy, showing him pictures from an obstetrical manual of the + child in its mother's body. It may be added that the advisability + of beginning the sex teaching of children with the facts of + botany was repeatedly emphasized by various speakers at the + special meeting of the German Congress for Combating Venereal + Disease devoted to the subject of sexual instruction + (<i>Sexualpädagogik</i>, especially pp. 36, 47, 76).</p></div> + +<p>The transition from botany to the elementary zoölogy of the lower animals, +to human anatomy and physiology, and to the science of anthropology based +on these, is simple and natural. It is not likely to be taken in detail +until the age of puberty. Sex enters into all these subjects and should +not be artificially excluded from them in the education of either boys or +girls. The text-books from which the sexual system is entirely omitted +ought no longer to be tolerated. The nature and secretion of the +<a name='6_Page_60'></a>testicles, the meaning of the ovaries and of menstruation, as well as the +significance of metabolism and the urinary excretion, should be clear in +their main lines to all boys and girls who have reached the age of +puberty.</p> + +<p>At puberty there arises a new and powerful reason why boys and girls +should receive definite instruction in matters of sex. Before that age it +is possible for the foolish parent to imagine that a child may be +preserved in ignorant innocence.<a name='6_FNanchor_25'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_25'><sup>[25]</sup></a> At puberty that belief is obviously +no longer possible. The efflorescence of puberty with the development of +the sexual organs, the appearance of hair in unfamiliar places, the +general related organic changes, the spontaneous and perhaps alarming +occurrence in boys of seminal emissions, and in girls of menstruation, the +unaccustomed and sometimes acute recognition of sexual desire accompanied +by new sensations in the sexual organs and leading perhaps to +masturbation; all these arouse, as we cannot fail to realize, a new +anxiety in the boy's or girl's mind, and a new curiosity, all the more +acute in many cases because it is carefully concealed as too private, and +even too shameful, to speak of to anyone. In boys, especially if of +sensitive temperament, the suffering thus caused may be keen and +prolonged.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>A doctor of philosophy, prominent in his profession, wrote to + Stanley Hall (<i>Adolescence</i>, vol. i, p. 452): "My entire youth, + from six to eighteen, was made miserable from lack of knowledge + that any one who knew anything of the nature of puberty might + have given; this long sense of defect, dread of operation, shame + and worry, has left an indelible mark." There are certainly many + men who could say the same. Lancaster ("Psychology and Pedagogy + of Adolescence," <i>Pedagogical Seminary</i>, July, 1897, pp. 123-5) + speaks strongly regarding the evils of ignorance of sexual + hygiene, and the terrible fact that millions of youths are always + in the hands of quacks who dupe them into the belief that they + are on the road to an awful destiny merely because they have + occasional emissions during sleep. "This is not a light matter," + Lancaster declares. "It strikes at the very foundation of our + inmost life. It deals with the reproductory part of our natures, + and must have a deep hereditary influence. It is a natural result + of the foolish false modesty shown regarding all sex instruction. + Every boy should be taught the <a name='6_Page_61'></a>simple physiological facts before + his life is forever blighted by this cause." Lancaster has had in + his hands one thousand letters, mostly written by young people, + who were usually normal, and addressed to quacks who were duping + them. From time to time the suicides of youths from this cause + are reported, and in many mysterious suicides this has + undoubtedly been the real cause. "Week after week," writes the + <i>British Medical Journal</i> in an editorial ("Dangerous Quack + Literature: The Moral of a Recent Suicide," Oct. 1, 1892), "we + receive despairing letters from those victims of foul birds of + prey who have obtained their first hold on those they rob, + torture and often ruin, by advertisements inserted by newspapers + of a respectable, nay, even of a valuable and respected, + character." It is added that the wealthy proprietors of such + newspapers, often enjoying a reputation for benevolence, even + when the matter is brought before them, refuse to interfere as + they would thereby lose a source of income, and a censorship of + advertisements is proposed. This, however, is difficult, and + would be quite unnecessary if youths received proper + enlightenment from their natural guardians.</p> + +<p> Masturbation, and the fear that by an occasional and perhaps + outgrown practice of masturbation they have sometimes done + themselves irreparable injury, is a common source of anxiety to + boys. It has long been a question whether a boy should be warned + against masturbation. At a meeting of the Section of Psychology + of the British Medical Association some years ago, four speakers, + including the President (Dr. Blandford), were decidedly in favor + of parents warning their children against masturbation, while + three speakers were decidedly against that course, mainly on the + ground that it was possible to pass through even a public school + life without hearing of masturbation, and also that the warning + against masturbation might encourage the practice. It is, + however, becoming more and more clearly realized that ignorance, + even if it can be maintained, is a perilous possession, while the + teaching that consists, as it should, in a loving mother's + counsel to the child from his earliest years to treat his sexual + parts with care and respect, can only lead to masturbation in the + child who is already irresistibly impelled to it. Most of the sex + manuals for boys touch on masturbation, sometimes exaggerating + its dangers; such exaggeration should be avoided, for it leads to + far worse evils than those it attempts to prevent. It seems + undesirable that any warnings about masturbation should form part + of school instruction, unless under very special circumstances. + The sexual instruction imparted in the school on sexual as on + other subjects should be absolutely impersonal and objective.</p> + +<p> At this point we approach one of the difficulties in the way of + sexual enlightenment: the ignorance or unwisdom of the would-be + teachers. This difficulty at present exists both in the home and + the <a name='6_Page_62'></a>school, while it destroys the value of many manuals written + for the sexual instruction of the young. The mother, who ought to + be the child's confidant and guide in matters of sexual + education, and could naturally be so if left to her own healthy + instincts, has usually been brought up in false traditions which + it requires a high degree of intelligence and character to escape + from; the school-teacher, even if only called upon to give + instruction in natural history, is oppressed by the same + traditions, and by false shame concerning the whole subject of + sex; the writer of manuals on sex has often only freed himself + from these bonds in order to advocate dogmatic, unscientific, and + sometimes mischievous opinions which have been evolved in entire + ignorance of the real facts. As Moll says (Das <i>Sexualleben des + Kindes</i>, p. 276), necessary as sexual enlightenment is, we cannot + help feeling a little skeptical as to its results so long as + those who ought to enlighten are themselves often in need of + enlightenment. He refers also to the fact that even among + competent authorities there is difference of opinion concerning + important matters, as, for instance, whether masturbation is + physiological at the first development of the sexual impulse and + how far sexual abstinence is beneficial. But it is evident that + the difficulties due to false tradition and ignorance will + diminish as sound traditions and better knowledge become more + widely diffused.</p></div> + +<p>The girl at puberty is usually less keenly and definitely conscious of her +sexual nature than the boy. But the risks she runs from sexual ignorance, +though for the most part different, are more subtle and less easy to +repair. She is often extremely inquisitive concerning these matters; the +thoughts of adolescent girls, and often their conversation among +themselves, revolve much around sexual and allied mysteries. Even in the +matter of conscious sexual impulse the girl is often not so widely +different from her brother, nor so much less likely to escape the +contamination of evil communications, so that the scruples of foolish and +ignorant persons who dread to "sully her purity" by proper instruction are +exceedingly misplaced.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Conversations dealing with the important mysteries of human + nature, Obici and Marchesini were told by ladies who had formerly + been pupils in Italian Normal Schools, are the order of the day + in schools and colleges, and specially circle around procreation, + the most difficult mystery of all. In England, even in the best + and most modern colleges, in which games and physical exercise + are much cultivated, I am told that "the majority of the girls + are entirely ignorant of all sexual matters, and understand + nothing whatever about them. But they do wonder <a name='6_Page_63'></a>about them, and + talk about them constantly" (see Appendix D, "The School + Friendships of Girls," in the second volume of these <i>Studies</i>). + "The restricted life and fettered mind of girls," wrote a + well-known physician some years ago (J. Milner Fothergill, + <i>Adolescence</i>, 1880, pp. 20, 22) "leave them with less to + actively occupy their thoughts than is the case with boys. They + are studiously taught concealment, and a girl may be a perfect + model of outward decorum and yet have a very filthy mind. The + prudishness with which she is brought up leaves her no + alternative but to view her passions from the nasty side of human + nature. All healthy thought on the subject is vigorously + repressed. Everything is done to darken her mind and foul her + imagination by throwing her back on her own thoughts and a + literature with which she is ashamed to own acquaintance. It is + opposed to a girl's best interests to prevent her from having + fair and just conceptions about herself and her nature. Many a + fair young girl is irredeemably ruined on the very threshold of + life, herself and her family disgraced, from ignorance as much as + from vice. When the moment of temptation comes she falls without + any palpable resistance; she has no trained educated power of + resistance within herself; her whole future hangs, not upon + herself, but upon the perfection of the social safeguards by + which she is hedged and surrounded." Under the free social order + of America to-day much the same results are found. In an + instructive article ("Why Girls Go Wrong," <i>Ladies' Home + Journal</i>, Jan., 1907) B. B. Lindsey, who, as Judge of the Juvenile + Court of Denver, is able to speak with authority, brings forward + ample evidence on this head. Both girls and boys, he has found, + sometimes possess manuscript books in which they had written down + the crudest sexual things. These children were often sweet-faced, + pleasant, refined and intelligent, and they had respectable + parents; but no one had ever spoken to them of sex matters, + except the worst of their school-fellows or some coarse-minded + and reckless adult. By careful inquiry Lindsey found that only in + one in twenty cases had the parents ever spoken to the children + of sexual subjects. In nearly every case the children + acknowledged that it was not from their parents, but in the + street or from older companions, that they learnt the facts of + sex. The parents usually imagined that their children were + absolutely ignorant of these matters, and were astonished to + realize their mistake; "parents do not know their children, nor + have they the least idea of what their children know, or what + their children talk about and do when away from them." The + parents guilty of this neglect to instruct their children, are, + Lindsey declares, traitors to their children. From his own + experience he judges that nine-tenths of the girls who "go + wrong," whether or not they sink in the world, do so owing to the + inattention of their parents, and that in the case of most + prostitutes the mischief is really done before the age of twelve; + "every wayward girl<a name='6_Page_64'></a> I have talked to has assured me of this + truth." He considers that nine-tenths of school-boys and + school-girls, in town or country, are very inquisitive regarding + matters of sex, and, to his own amazement, he has found that in + the girls this is as marked as in the boys.</p></div> + +<p>It is the business of the girl's mother, at least as much as of the boy's, +to watch over her child from the earliest years and to win her confidence +in all the intimate and personal matters of sex. With these aspects the +school cannot properly meddle. But in matters of physical sexual hygiene, +notably menstruation, in regard to which all girls stand on the same +level, it is certainly the duty of the teacher to take an actively +watchful part, and, moreover, to direct the general work of education +accordingly, and to ensure that the pupil shall rest whenever that may +seem to be desirable. This is part of the very elements of the education +of girls. To disregard it should disqualify a teacher from taking further +share in educational work. Yet it is constantly and persistently +neglected. A large number of girls have not even been prepared by their +mothers or teachers for the first onset of the menstrual flow, sometimes +with disastrous results both to their bodily and mental health.<a name='6_FNanchor_26'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_26'><sup>[26]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"I know of no large girl's school," wrote a distinguished + gynæcologist, Sir W. S. Playfair ("Education and Training of Girls + at Puberty," <i>British Medical Journal</i>, Dec. 7, 1895), "in which + the absolute distinction which exists between boys and girls as + regards the dominant menstrual function is systematically cared + for and attended to. Indeed, the feeling of all schoolmistresses + is distinctly antagonistic to such an admission. The contention + is that there is no real difference between an adolescent male + and female, that what is good for one is good for the other, and + that such as there is is due to the evil customs of the past + which have denied to women the ambitions and advantages open to + men, and that this will disappear when a happier era is + inaugurated. If this be so, how comes it that while every + practical physician of experience has seen many cases of anæmia + and chlorosis in girls, accompanied by amenorrhæa or menorrhagia, + headaches, palpitations, emaciation, and all the familiar + accompaniments of breakdown, an analogous condition in a + school-boy is so rare that it may well be doubted if it is ever + seen at all?"</p><a name='6_Page_65'></a> + +<p> It is, however, only the excuses for this almost criminal + negligence, as it ought to be considered, which are new; the + negligence itself is ancient. Half a century earlier, before the + new era of feminine education, another distinguished + gynæcologist, Tilt (<i>Elements of Health and Principles of Female + Hygiene</i>, 1852, p. 18) stated that from a statistical inquiry + regarding the onset of menstruation in nearly one thousand women + he found that "25 per cent. were totally unprepared for its + appearance; that thirteen out of the twenty-five were much + frightened, screamed, or went into hysterical fits; and that six + out of the thirteen thought themselves wounded and washed with + cold water. Of those frightened ... the general health was + seriously impaired."</p> + +<p> Engelmann, after stating that his experience in America was + similar to Tilt's in England, continues ("The Health of the + American Girl," <i>Transactions of the Southern Surgical and + Gynæcological Society</i>, 1890): "To innumerable women has fright, + nervous and emotional excitement, exposure to cold, brought + injury at puberty. What more natural than that the anxious girl, + surprised by the sudden and unexpected loss of the precious + life-fluid, should seek to check the bleeding wound—as she + supposes? For this purpose the use of cold washes and + applications is common, some even seek to stop the flow by a cold + bath, as was done by a now careful mother, who long lay at the + point of death from the result of such indiscretion, and but + slowly, by years of care, regained her health. The terrible + warning has not been lost, and mindful of her own experience she + has taught her children a lesson which but few are fortunate + enough to learn—the individual care during periods of functional + activity which is needful for the preservation of woman's + health."</p> + +<p> In a study of one hundred and twenty-five American high school + girls Dr. Helen Kennedy refers to the "modesty" which makes it + impossible even for mothers and daughters to speak to each other + concerning the menstrual functions. "Thirty-six girls in this + high school passed into womanhood with no knowledge whatever, + from a proper source, of all that makes them women. Thirty-nine + were probably not much wiser, for they stated that they had + received some instruction, but had not talked freely on the + matter. From the fact that the curious girl did not talk freely + on what naturally interested her, it is possible she was put off + with a few words as to personal care, and a reprimand for her + curiosity. Less than half of the girls felt free to talk with + their mothers of this most important matter!" (Helen Kennedy, + "Effects of High School Work upon Girls During Adolescence," + <i>Pedagogical Seminary</i>, June, 1896.)</p> + +<p> The same state of things probably also prevails in other + countries. Thus, as regards France, Edmond de Goncourt in + <i>Chérie</i> (pp. 137-139) described the terror of his young heroine + at the appearance of the first <a name='6_Page_66'></a>menstrual period for which she + had never been prepared. He adds: "It is very seldom, indeed, + that women speak of this eventuality. Mothers fear to warn their + daughters, elder sisters dislike confidences with their younger + sisters, governesses are generally mute with girls who have no + mothers or sisters."</p> + +<p> Sometimes this leads to suicide or to attempts at suicide. Thus a + few years ago the case was reported in the French newspapers of a + young girl of fifteen, who threw herself into the Seine at + Saint-Ouen. She was rescued, and on being brought before the + police commissioner said that she had been attacked by an + "unknown disease" which had driven her to despair. Discreet + inquiry revealed that the mysterious malady was one common to all + women, and the girl was restored to her insufficiently punished + parents.</p></div> + +<p>Half a century ago the sexual life of girls was ignored by their parents +and teachers from reasons of prudishness; at the present time, when quite +different ideas prevail regarding feminine education, it is ignored on the +ground that girls should be as independent of their physiological sexual +life as boys are. The fact that this mischievous neglect has prevailed +equally under such different conditions indicates clearly that the varying +reasons assigned for it are merely the cloaks of ignorance. With the +growth of knowledge we may reasonably hope that one of the chief evils +which at present undermine in early life not only healthy motherhood but +healthy womanhood generally, may be gradually eliminated. The data now +being accumulated show not only the extreme prevalence of painful, +disordered, and absent menstruation in adolescent girls and young women, +but also the great and sometimes permanent evils inflicted upon even +healthy girls when at the beginning of sexual life they are subjected to +severe strain of any kind. Medical authorities, whichever sex they belong +to, may now be said to be almost or quite unanimous on this point. Some +years ago, indeed, Dr. Mary Putnam Jacobi, in a very able book, <i>The +Question of Rest for Women</i>, concluded that "ordinarily healthy" women may +disregard the menstrual period, but she admitted that forty-six per cent, +of women are not "ordinarily healthy," and a minority which comes so near +to being a majority can by no means be dismissed as a negligible quantity. +Girls themselves, indeed, <a name='6_Page_67'></a>carried away by the ardor of their pursuit of +work or amusement, are usually recklessly and ignorantly indifferent to +the serious risks they run. But the opinions of teachers are now tending +to agree with medical opinion in recognizing the importance of care and +rest during the years of adolescence, and teachers are even prepared to +admit that a year's rest from hard work during the period that a girl's +sexual life is becoming established, while it may ensure her health and +vigor, is not even a disadvantage from the educational point of view. With +the growth of knowledge and the decay of ancient prejudices, we may +reasonably hope that women will be emancipated from the traditions of a +false civilization, which have forced her to regard her glory as her +shame,—though it has never been so among robust primitive peoples,—and +it is encouraging to find that so distinguished an educator as Principal +Stanley Hall looks forward with confidence to such a time. In his +exhaustive work on <i>Adolescence</i> he writes: "Instead of shame of this +function girls should be taught the greatest reverence for it, and should +help it to normality by regularly stepping aside at stated times for a few +years till it is well established and normal. To higher beings that looked +down upon human life as we do upon flowers, these would be the most +interesting and beautiful hours of blossoming. With more self-knowledge +women will have more self-respect at this time. Savagery reveres this +state and it gives to women a mystic awe. The time may come when we must +even change the divisions of the year for women, leaving to man his week +and giving to her the same number of Sabbaths per year, but in groups of +four successive days per month. When woman asserts her true physiological +rights she will begin here, and will glory in what, in an age of +ignorance, man made her think to be her shame. The pathos about the +leaders of woman's so-called emancipation, is that they, even more than +those they would persuade, accept man's estimate of this state."<a name='6_FNanchor_27'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_27'><sup>[27]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_68'></a> +<p>These wise words cannot be too deeply pondered. The pathos of the +situation has indeed been—at all events in the past for to-day a more +enlightened generation is growing up—that the very leaders of the woman's +movement have often betrayed the cause of women. They have adopted the +ideals of men, they have urged women to become second-rate men, they have +declared that the healthy natural woman disregards the presence of her +menstrual functions. This is the very reverse of the truth. "They claim," +remarks Engelmann, "that woman in her natural state is the physical equal +of man, and constantly point to the primitive woman, the female of savage +peoples, as an example of this supposed axiom. Do they know how well this +same savage is aware of the weakness of woman and her susceptibility at +certain periods of her life? And with what care he protects her from harm +at these periods? I believe not. The importance of surrounding women with +certain precautions during the height of these great functional waves of +her existence was appreciated by all peoples living in an approximately +natural state, by all races at all times; and among their comparatively +few religious customs this one, affording rest to women, was most +persistently adhered to." It is among the white races alone that the +sexual invalidism of women prevails, and it is the white races alone, +which, outgrowing the religious ideas with which the menstrual seclusion +of women was associated, have flung away that beneficent seclusion itself, +throwing away the baby with the bath in an almost literal sense.<a name='6_FNanchor_28'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_28'><sup>[28]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In Germany Tobler has investigated the menstrual histories of + over one thousand women (<i>Monatsschrift für Geburtshülfe und + Gynäkologie</i>, July, 1905). He finds that in the great majority of + women at <a name='6_Page_69'></a>the present day menstruation is associated with + distinct deterioration of the general health, and diminution of + functional energy. In 26 per cent. local pain, general malaise, + and mental and nervous anomalies coexisted; in larger proportion + come the cases in which local pain, general weak health or + psychic abnormality was experienced alone at this period. In 16 + per cent. only none of these symptoms were experienced. In a very + small separate group the physical and mental functions were + stronger during this period, but in half of these cases there was + distinct disturbance during the intermenstrual period. Tobler + concludes that, while menstruation itself is physiological, all + these disturbances are pathological.</p> + +<p> As far as England is concerned, at a discussion of normal and + painful menstruation at a meeting of the British Association of + Registered Medical Women on the 7th of July, 1908, it was stated + by Miss Bentham that 50 per cent. of girls in good position + suffered from painful menstruation. Mrs. Dunnett said it usually + occurred between the ages of twenty-four and thirty, being + frequently due to neglect to rest during menstruation in the + earlier years, and Mrs. Grainger Evans had found that this + condition was very common among elementary school teachers who + had worked hard for examinations during early girlhood.</p> + +<p> In America various investigations have been carried out, showing + the prevalence of disturbance in the sexual health of school + girls and young women. Thus Dr. Helen P. Kennedy obtained + elaborate data concerning the menstrual life of one hundred and + twenty-five high school girls of the average age of eighteen + ("Effect of High School Work upon Girls During Adolescence," + <i>Pedagogical Seminary</i>, June, 1896). Only twenty-eight felt no + pain during the period; half the total number experienced + disagreeable symptoms before the period (such as headache, + malaise, irritability of temper), while forty-four complained of + other symptoms besides pain during the period (especially + headache and great weakness). Jane Kelley Sabine (quoted in + <i>Boston Medical and Surgical Journal</i>, Sept. 15, 1904) found in + New England schools among two thousand girls that 75 per cent. + had menstrual troubles, 90 per cent. had leucorrhœa and + ovarian neuralgia, and 60 per cent. had to give up work for two + days during each month. These results seem more than usually + unfavorable, but are significant, as they cover a large number of + cases. The conditions in the Pacific States are not much better. + Dr. Mary Ritter (in a paper read before the California State + Medical Society in 1903) stated that of 660 Freshmen girls at the + University of California, 67 per cent. were subject to menstrual + disorders, 27 per cent. to headaches, 30 per cent. to backaches, + 29 per cent. were habitually constipated, 16 per cent. had + abnormal heart sounds; only 23 per cent. were free from + functional disturbances. Dr. Helen MacMurchey, in an interesting + paper on "Physiological Phenomena Preceding or Accompanying + Menstruation"<a name='6_Page_70'></a> (<i>Lancet</i>, Oct. 5, 1901), by inquiries among one + hundred medical women, nurses, and women teachers in Toronto + concerning the presence or absence of twenty-one different + abnormal menstrual phenomena, found that between 50 and 60 per + cent. admitted that they were liable at this time to disturbed + sleep, to headache, to mental depression, to digestive + disturbance, or to disturbance of the special senses, while about + 25 to 50 per cent. were liable to neuralgia, to vertigo, to + excessive nervous energy, to defective nervous and muscular + power, to cutaneous hyperæsthesia, to vasomotor disturbances, to + constipation, to diarrhœa, to increased urination, to + cutaneous eruption, to increased liability to take cold, or to + irritating watery discharges before or after the menstrual + discharge. This inquiry is of much interest, because it clearly + brings out the marked prevalence at menstruation of conditions + which, though not necessarily of any gravity, yet definitely + indicate decreased power of resistance to morbid influences and + diminished efficiency for work.</p> + +<p> How serious an impediment menstrual troubles are to a woman is + indicated by the fact that the women who achieve success and fame + seem seldom to be greatly affected by them. To that we may, in + part, attribute the frequency with which leaders of the women's + movement have treated menstruation as a thing of no importance in + a woman's life. Adele Gerhard, and Helene Simon, also, in their + valuable and impartial work, <i>Mutterschaft und Geistige Arbeit</i> + (p. 312), failed to find, in their inquiries among women of + distinguished ability, that menstruation was regarded as + seriously disturbing to work.</p> + +<p> Of late the suggestion that adolescent girls shall not only rest + from work during two days of the menstrual period, but have an + entire holiday from school during the first year of sexual life, + has frequently been put forward, both from the medical and the + educational side. At the meeting of the Association of Registered + Medical Women, already referred to, Miss Sturge spoke of the good + results obtained in a school where, during the first two years + after puberty, the girls were kept in bed for the first two days + of each menstrual period. Some years ago Dr. G. W. Cook ("Some + Disorders of Menstruation," <i>American Journal of Obstetrics</i>, + April, 1896), after giving cases in point, wrote: "It is my + deliberate conviction that no girl should be confined at study + during the year of her puberty, but she should live an outdoor + life." In an article on "Alumna's Children," by "An Alumna" + (<i>Popular Science Monthly</i>, May, 1904), dealing with the sexual + invalidism of American women and the severe strain of motherhood + upon them, the author, though she is by no means hostile to + education, which is not, she declares, at fault, pleads for rest + for the pubertal girl. "If the brain claims her whole vitality, + how can there be any proper development? Just as very young + children should give all their strength for some years <a name='6_Page_71'></a>solely to + physical growth before the brain is allowed to make any + considerable demands, so at this critical period in the life of + the woman nothing should obstruct the right of way of this + important system. A year at the least should be made especially + easy for her, with neither mental nor nervous strain; and + throughout the rest of her school days she should have her + periodical day of rest, free from any study or overexertion." In + another article on the same subject in the same journal ("The + Health of American Girls," Sept., 1907), Nellie Comins Whitaker + advocates a similar course. "I am coming to be convinced, + somewhat against my wish, that there are many cases when the girl + ought to be taken out of school entirely for some months or for a + year <i>at the period of puberty</i>." She adds that the chief + obstacle in the way is the girl's own likes and dislikes, and the + ignorance of her mother who has been accustomed to think that + pain is a woman's natural lot.</p> + +<p> Such a period of rest from mental strain, while it would fortify + the organism in its resistance to any reasonable strain later, + need by no means be lost for education in the wider sense of the + word, for the education required in classrooms is but a small + part of the education required for life. Nor should it by any + means be reserved merely for the sickly and delicate girl. The + tragic part of the present neglect to give girls a really sound + and fitting education is that the best and finest girls are + thereby so often ruined. Even the English policeman, who + admittedly belongs in physical vigor and nervous balance to the + flower of the population, is unable to bear the strain of his + life, and is said to be worn out in twenty-five years. It is + equally foolish to submit the finest flowers of girlhood to a + strain which is admittedly too severe.</p></div> + +<p>It seems to be clear that the main factor in the common sexual and general +invalidism of girls and young women is bad hygiene, in the first place +consisting in neglect of the menstrual functions and in the second place +in faulty habits generally. In all the more essential matters that concern +the hygiene of the body the traditions of girls—and this seems to be more +especially the case in the Anglo-Saxon countries—are inferior to those of +youths. Women are much more inclined than men to subordinate these things +to what seems to them some more urgent interest or fancy of the moment; +they are trained to wear awkward and constricting garments, they are +indifferent to regular and substantial meals, preferring innutritious and +indigestible foods and drinks; they are apt to disregard the demands of +the bowels and the bladder out of laziness or <a name='6_Page_72'></a>modesty; they are even +indifferent to physical cleanliness.<a name='6_FNanchor_29'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_29'><sup>[29]</sup></a> In a great number of minor ways, +which separately may seem to be of little importance, they play into the +hands of an environment which, not always having been adequately adjusted +to their special needs, would exert a considerable stress and strain even +if they carefully sought to guard themselves against it. It has been found +in an American Women's College in which about half the scholars wore +corsets and half not, that nearly all the honors and prizes went to the +non-corset-wearers. McBride, in bringing forward this fact, pertinently +remarks, "If the wearing of a single style of dress will make this +difference in the lives of young women, and that, too, in their most +vigorous and resistive period, how much difference will a score of +unhealthy habits make, if persisted in for a life-time?"<a name='6_FNanchor_30'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_30'><sup>[30]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"It seems evident," A. E. Giles concludes ("Some Points of + Preventive Treatment in the Diseases of Women," <i>The Hospital</i>, + April 10, 1897) "that dysmenorrhœa might be to a large + extent prevented by attention to general health and education. + Short hours of work, especially <a name='6_Page_73'></a>of standing; plenty of outdoor + exercise—tennis, boating, cycling, gymnastics, and walking for + those who cannot afford these; regularity of meals and food of + the proper quality—not the incessant tea and bread and butter + with variation of pastry; the avoidance of overexertion and + prolonged fatigue; these are some of the principal things which + require attention. Let girls pursue their study, but more + leisurely; they will arrive at the same goal, but a little + later." The benefit of allowing free movement and exercise to the + whole body is undoubtedly very great, both as regards the sexual + and general physical health and the mental balance; in order to + insure this it is necessary to avoid heavy and constricting + garments, more especially around the chest, for it is in + respiratory power and chest expansion more than in any other + respect that girls fall behind boys (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Havelock Ellis, + <i>Man and Woman</i>, Ch. IX). In old days the great obstacle to the + free exercise of girls lay in an ideal of feminine behavior which + involved a prim restraint on every natural movement of the body. + At the present day that ideal is not so fervently preached as of + old, but its traditional influence still to some extent persists, + while there is the further difficulty that adequate time and + opportunity and encouragement are by no means generally afforded + to girls for the cultivation and training of the romping + instincts which are really a serious part of education, for it is + by such free exercise of the whole body that the neuro-muscular + system, the basis of all vital activity, is built up. The neglect + of such education is to-day clearly visible in the structure of + our women. Dr. F. May Dickinson Berry, Medical Examiner to the + Technical Education Board of the London County Council, found + (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, May 28, 1904) among over 1,500 girls, + who represent the flower of the schools, since they had obtained + scholarships enabling them to proceed to higher grade schools, + that 22 per cent, presented some degree, not always pronounced, + of lateral curvature of the spine, though such cases were very + rare among the boys. In the same way among a very similar class + of select girls at the Chicago Normal School, Miss Lura Sanborn + (<i>Doctors' Magazine</i>, Dec., 1900) found 17 per cent, with spinal + curvature, in some cases of a very pronounced degree. There is no + reason why a girl should not have as straight a back as a boy, + and the cause can only lie in the defective muscular development + which was found in most of the cases, sometimes accompanied by + anæmia. Here and there nowadays, among the better social classes, + there is ample provision for the development of muscular power in + girls, but in any generalized way there is no adequate + opportunity for such exercise, and among the working class, above + all, in the section of it which touches the lower middle class, + although their lives are destined to be filled with a constant + strain on the neuro-muscular system from work at home or in + shops, etc., there is usually a minimum of healthy exercise and + physical development. Dr. W. A. B.<a name='6_Page_74'></a> Sellman, of Baltimore ("Causes + of Painful Menstruation in Unmarried Women," <i>American Journal + Obstetrics</i>, Nov., 1907), emphasizes the admirable results + obtained by moderate physical exercise for young women, and in + training them to care for their bodies and to rest their nervous + systems, while Dr. Charlotte Brown, of San Francisco, rightly + insists on the establishment in all towns and villages alike of + outdoor gymnastic fields for women and girls, and of a building, + in connection with every large school, for training in physical, + manual, and domestic science. The provision of special + playgrounds is necessary where the exercising of girls is so + unfamiliar as to cause an embarrassing amount of attention from + the opposite sex, though when it is an immemorial custom it can + be carried out on the village green without attracting the + slightest attention, as I have seen in Spain, where one cannot + fail to connect it with the physical vigor of the women. In boys' + schools games are not only encouraged, but made compulsory; but + this is by no means a universal rule in girls' schools. It is not + necessary, and is indeed highly undesirable, that the games + adopted should be those of boys. In England especially, where the + movements of women are so often marked by awkwardness, angularity + and lack of grace, it is essential that nothing should be done to + emphasize these characteristics, for where vigor involves + violence we are in the presence of a lack of due neuro-muscular + coördination. Swimming, when possible, and especially some forms + of dancing, are admirably adapted to develop the bodily movements + of women both vigorously and harmoniously (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Havelock + Ellis, <i>Man and Woman</i>, Ch. VII). At the International Congress + of School Hygiene in 1907 (see, <i>e.g.</i>, <i>British Medical + Journal</i>, Aug. 24, 1907) Dr. L. H. Gulick, formerly Director of + Physical Training in the Public Schools of New York City, stated + that after many experiments it had been found in the New York + elementary and high schools that folk-dancing constituted the + very best exercise for girls. "The dances selected involved many + contractions of the large muscular masses of the body and had + therefore a great effect on respiration, circulation and + nutrition. Such movements, moreover, when done as dances, could + be carried on three or four times as long without producing + fatigue as formal gymnastics. Many folk-dances were imitative, + sowing and reaping dance, dances expressing trade movements (the + shoemaker's dance), others illustrating attack and defense, or + the pursuit of game. Such neuro-muscular movements were racially + old and fitted in with man's expressive life, and if it were + accepted that the folk-dances really expressed an epitome of + man's neuro-muscular history, as distinguished from mere + permutation of movements, the folk-dance combinations should be + preferred on these biological grounds to the unselected, or even + the physiologically selected. From the æsthetic point of view the + sense of beauty as shown in dancing was far commoner than the + power to sing, paint or model."</p></div><a name='6_Page_75'></a> + +<p>It must always be remembered that in realizing the especial demands of +woman's nature, we do not commit ourselves to the belief that higher +education is unfitted for a woman. That question may now be regarded as +settled. There is therefore no longer any need for the feverish anxiety of +the early leaders of feminine education to prove that girls can be +educated exactly as if they were boys, and yield at least as good +educational results. At the present time, indeed, that anxiety is not only +unnecessary but mischievous. It is now more necessary to show that women +have special needs just as men have special needs, and that it is as bad +for women, and therefore, for the world, to force them to accept the +special laws and limitations of men as it would be bad for men, and +therefore, for the world, to force men to accept the special laws and +limitations of women. Each sex must seek to reach the goal by following +the laws of its own nature, even although it remains desirable that, both +in the school and in the world, they should work so far as possible side +by side. The great fact to be remembered always is that, not only are +women, in physical size and physical texture, slighter and finer than men, +but that to an extent altogether unknown among men, their centre of +gravity is apt to be deflected by the series of rhythmic sexual curves on +which they are always living. They are thus more delicately poised and any +kind of stress or strain—cerebral, nervous, or muscular—is more likely +to produce serious disturbance and requires an accurate adjustment to +their special needs.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The fact that it is stress and strain in general, and not + necessarily educational studies, that are injurious to adolescent + women, is sufficiently proved, if proof is necessary, by the fact + that sexual arrest, and physical or nervous breakdown, occur with + extreme frequency in girls who work in shops or mills, even in + girls who have never been to school at all. Even excesses in + athletics—which now not infrequently occur as a reaction against + woman's indifference to physical exercise—are bad. Cycling is + beneficial for women who can ride without pain or discomfort, + and, according to Watkins, it is even beneficial in many diseased + and disordered pelvic conditions, but excessive cycling is evil + in its results on women, more especially by inducing rigidity of + the perineum to an extent which may even prevent childbirth and + necessitate operation. I may add that the same objection applies + to much horse-riding.<a name='6_Page_76'></a> In the same way everything which causes + shocks to the body is apt to be dangerous to women, since in the + womb they possess a delicately poised organ which varies in + weight at different times, and it would, for instance, be + impossible to commend football as a game for girls. "I do not + believe," wrote Miss H. Ballantine, Director of Vassar College + Gymnasium, to Prof. W. Thomas (<i>Sex and Society</i>, p. 22) "women + can ever, no matter what the training, approach men in their + physical achievements; and," she wisely adds, "I see no reason + why they should." There seem, indeed, as has already been + indicated, to be reasons why they should not, especially if they + look forward to becoming mothers. I have noticed that women who + have lived a very robust and athletic outdoor life, so far from + always having the easy confinements which we might anticipate, + sometimes have very seriously difficult times, imperilling the + life of the child. On making this observation to a distinguished + obstetrician, the late Dr. Engelmann, who was an ardent advocate + of physical exercise for women (in <i>e.g.</i> his presidential + address, "The Health of the American Girl," <i>Transactions + Southern Surgical and Gynæcological Association</i>, 1890), he + replied that he had himself made the same observation, and that + instructors in physical training, both in America and England, + had also told him of such cases among their pupils. "I hold," he + wrote, "precisely the opinion you express [as to the unfavorable + influence of muscular development in women]. <i>Athletics</i>, <i>i.e.</i>, + overdone physical training, causes the girl's system to + approximate to the masculine; this is so whether due to sport or + necessity. The woman who indulges in it approximates to the male + in her attributes; this is marked in diminished sexual intensity, + and in increased difficulty of childbirth, with, in time, + lessened fecundity. Healthy habits improve, but masculine + muscular development diminishes, womanly qualities, although it + is true that the peasant and the laboring woman have easy labor. + I have never advocated muscular development for girls, only + physical training, but have perhaps said too much for it and + praised it too unguardedly. In schools and colleges, so far, + however, it is insufficient rather than too much; only the + wealthy have too much golf and athletic sports. I am collecting + new material, but from what I already have seen I am impressed + with the truth of what you say. I am studying the point, and + shall elaborate the explanation." Any publication on this subject + was, however, prevented by Engelmann's death a few years later.</p></div> + +<p>A proper recognition of the special nature of woman, of her peculiar needs +and her dignity, has a significance beyond its importance in education and +hygiene. The traditions and training to which she is subjected in this +matter have a subtle and <a name='6_Page_77'></a>far-reaching significance, according as they are +good or evil. If she is taught, implicitly or explicitly, contempt for the +characteristics of her own sex, she naturally develops masculine ideals +which may permanently discolor her vision of life and distort her +practical activities; it has been found that as many as fifty per cent. of +American school girls have masculine ideals, while fifteen per cent. +American and no fewer than thirty-four per cent. English school girls +wished to be men, though scarcely any boys wished to be women.<a name='6_FNanchor_31'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_31'><sup>[31]</sup></a> With +the same tendency may be connected that neglect to cultivate the emotions, +which, by a mischievously extravagant but inevitable reaction from the +opposite extreme, has sometimes marked the modern training of women. In +the finely developed woman, intelligence is interpenetrated with emotion. +If there is an exaggerated and isolated culture of intelligence a tendency +shows itself to disharmony which breaks up the character or impairs its +completeness. In this connection Reibmayr has remarked that the American +woman may serve as a warning.<a name='6_FNanchor_32'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_32'><sup>[32]</sup></a> Within the emotional sphere itself, it +may be added, there is a tendency to disharmony in women owing to the +contradictory nature of the feelings which are traditionally impressed +upon her, a contradiction which dates back indeed to the identification of +sacredness and impurity at the dawn of civilization. "Every girl and +woman," wrote Hellmann, in a pioneering book which pushed a sound +principle to eccentric extremes, "is taught to regard her sexual parts as +a precious and sacred spot, only to be approached by a husband or in +special circumstances a doctor. She is, at the same time, taught to regard +this spot as a kind of water-closet which she ought to be extremely +ashamed to possess, and the mere mention of which should cause a painful +blush."<a name='6_FNanchor_33'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_33'><sup>[33]</sup></a> The average <a name='6_Page_78'></a>unthinking woman accepts the incongruity of this +opposition without question, and grows accustomed to adapt herself to each +of the incompatibles according to circumstances. The more thoughtful woman +works out a private theory of her own. But in very many cases this +mischievous opposition exerts a subtly perverting influence on the whole +outlook towards Nature and life. In a few cases, also, in women of +sensitive temperament, it even undermines and ruins the psychic +personality.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Thus Boris Sidis has recorded a case illustrating the disastrous + results of inculcating on a morbidly sensitive girl the doctrine + of the impurity of women. She was educated in a convent. "While + there she was impressed with the belief that woman is a vessel of + vice and impurity. This seemed to have been imbued in her by one + of the nuns who was very holy and practiced self-mortification. + With the onset of her periods, and with the observation of the + same in the other girls, this doctrine of female impurity was all + the stronger impressed on her sensitive mind." It lapsed, + however, from conscious memory and only came to the foreground in + subsequent years with the exhaustion and fatigue of prolonged + office work. Then she married. Now "she has an extreme abhorrence + of women. Woman, to the patient, is impurity, filth, the very + incarnation of degradation and vice. The house wash must not be + given to a laundry where women work. Nothing must be picked up in + the street, not even the most valuable object, perchance it might + have been dropped by a woman" (Boris Sidis, "Studies in + Psychopathology," <i>Boston Medical and Surgical Journal</i>, April 4, + 1907). That is the logical outcome of much of the traditional + teaching which is given to girls. Fortunately, the healthy mind + offers a natural resistance to its complete acceptation, yet it + usually, in some degree, persists and exerts a mischievous + influence.</p></div> + +<p>It is, however, not only in her relations to herself and to her sex that a +girl's thoughts and feelings tend to be distorted by the ignorance or the +false traditions by which she is so often carefully surrounded. Her +happiness in marriage, her whole future career, is put in peril. The +innocent young woman must always risk much in entering the door of +indissoluble marriage; she knows nothing truly of her husband, she knows +nothing of the great laws of love, she knows nothing of her own +possibilities, and, worse still, she is even ignorant of her ignorance. +She runs the risk of losing the game while she is still only beginning to +learn <a name='6_Page_79'></a>it. To some extent that is quite inevitable if we are to insist +that a woman should bind herself to marry a man before she has experienced +the nature of the forces that marriage may unloose in her. A young girl +believes she possesses a certain character; she arranges her future in +accordance with that character; she marries. Then, in a considerable +proportion of cases (five out of six, according to the novelist Bourget), +within a year or even a week, she finds she was completely mistaken in +herself and in the man she has married; she discovers within her another +self, and that self detests the man to whom she is bound. That is a +possible fate against which only the woman who has already been aroused to +love is entitled to regard herself as fairly protected.</p> + +<p>There is, however, a certain kind of protection which it is possible to +afford the bride, even without departing from our most conventional +conceptions of marriage. We can at least insist that she shall be +accurately informed as to the exact nature of her physical relations to +her future husband and be safeguarded from the shocks or the disillusions +which marriage might otherwise bring. Notwithstanding the decay of +prejudices, it is probable that even to-day the majority of women of the +so-called educated class marry with only the vaguest and most inaccurate +notions, picked up more or less clandestinely, concerning the nature of +the sexual relationships. So highly intelligent a woman as Madame Adam has +stated that she believed herself bound to marry a man who had kissed her +on the mouth, imagining that to be the supreme act of sexual union,<a name='6_FNanchor_34'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_34'><sup>[34]</sup></a> +and it has frequently happened that women have married sexually inverted +persons of their own sex, not always knowingly, but believing them to be +men, and never discovering their mistake; it is not long indeed since in +America three women were thus successively married to the same woman, none +of them apparently ever finding out the real sex of the "husband." "The +civilized girl," as Edward Carpenter remarks, "is led to the<a name='6_Page_80'></a> 'altar' +often in uttermost ignorance and misunderstanding of the sacrificial rites +about to be consummated." Certainly more rapes have been effected in +marriage than outside it.<a name='6_FNanchor_35'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_35'><sup>[35]</sup></a> The girl is full of vague and romantic faith +in the promises of love, often heightened by the ecstasies depicted in +sentimental novels from which every touch of wholesome reality has been +carefully omitted. "All the candor of faith is there," as Sénancour puts +it in his book <i>De l'Amour</i>, "the desires of inexperience, the needs of a +new life, the hopes of an upright heart. She has all the faculties of +love, she must love; she has all the means of pleasure, she must be loved. +Everything expresses love and demands love: this hand formed for sweet +caresses, an eye whose resources are unknown if it must not say that it +consents to be loved, a bosom which is motionless and useless without +love, and will fade without having been worshipped; these feelings that +are so vast, so tender, so voluptuous, the ambition of the heart, the +heroism of passion! She needs must follow the delicious rule which the law +of the world has dictated. That intoxicating part, which she knows so +well, which everything recalls, which the day inspires and the night +commands, what young, sensitive, loving woman can imagine that she shall +not play it?" But when the actual drama of love begins to unroll before +her, and she realizes the true nature of the "intoxicating part" she has +to play, then, it has often happened, the case is altered; she finds +herself altogether unprepared, and is overcome with terror and alarm. All +the felicity of her married life may then hang on a few chances, her +husband's skill and consideration, her own presence of mind. Hirschfeld +records the case of an innocent young girl of seventeen—in this case, it +eventually proved, an invert—who was persuaded to marry but on +discovering what marriage meant energetically resisted her husband's +sexual approaches. He <a name='6_Page_81'></a>appealed to her mother to explain to her daughter +the nature of "wifely duties." But the young wife replied to her mother's +expostulations, "If that is my wifely duty then it was your parental duty +to have told me beforehand, for, if I had known, I should never have +married." The husband in this case, much in love with his wife, sought for +eight years to over-persuade her, but in vain, and a separation finally +took place.<a name='6_FNanchor_36'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_36'><sup>[36]</sup></a> That, no doubt, is an extreme case, but how many innocent +young inverted girls never realize their true nature until after marriage, +and how many perfectly normal girls are so shocked by the too sudden +initiation of marriage that their beautiful early dreams of love never +develop slowly and wholesomely into the acceptance of its still more +beautiful realities?</p> + +<p>Before the age of puberty it would seem that the sexual initiation of the +child—apart from such scientific information as would form part of school +courses in botany and zoölogy—should be the exclusive privilege of the +mother, or whomever it may be to whom the mother's duties are delegated. +At puberty more authoritative and precise advice is desirable than the +mother may be able or willing to give. It is at this age that she should +put into her son's or daughter's hands some one or other of the very +numerous manuals to which reference has already been made (page 53), +expounding the physical and moral aspects of the sexual life and the +principles of sexual hygiene. The boy or girl is already, we may take it, +acquainted with the facts of motherhood, and the origin of babies, as well +as, more or less precisely, with the father's part in their procreation. +Whatever manual is now placed in his or her hands should at least deal +<a name='6_Page_82'></a>summarily, but definitely, with the sexual relationship, and should also +comment, warningly but in no alarmist spirit, with the chief auto-erotic +phenomena, and by no means exclusively with masturbation. Nothing but good +can come of the use of such a manual, if it has been wisely selected; it +will supplant what the mother has already done, what the teacher may still +be doing, and what later may be done by private interview with a doctor. +It has indeed been argued that the boy or girl to whom such literature is +presented will merely make it an opportunity for morbid revelry and +sensual enjoyment. It can well be believed that this may sometimes happen +with boys or girls from whom all sexual facts have always been +mysteriously veiled, and that when at last they find the opportunity of +gratifying their long-repressed and perfectly natural curiosity they are +overcome by the excitement of the event. It could not happen to children +who have been naturally and wholesomely brought up. At a later age, during +adolescence, there is doubtless great advantage in the plan, now +frequently adopted, especially in Germany, of giving lectures, addresses, +or quiet talks to young people of each sex separately. The speaker is +usually a specially selected teacher, a doctor or other qualified person +who may be brought in for this special purpose.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Stanley Hall, after remarking that sexual education should be + chiefly from fathers to sons and from mothers to daughters, adds: + "It may be that in the future this kind of initiation will again + become an art, and experts will tell us with more confidence how + to do our duty to the manifold exigencies, types and stages of + youth, and instead of feeling baffled and defeated, we shall see + that this age and theme is the supreme opening for the highest + pedagogy to do its best and most transforming work, as well as + being the greatest of all opportunities for the teacher of + religion" (Stanley Hall, <i>Adolescence</i>, vol. i, p. 469). "At + Williams College, Harvard, Johns Hopkins and Clark," the same + distinguished teacher observes (<i>ib.</i>, p. 465), "I have made it a + duty in my departmental teaching to speak very briefly, but + plainly to young men under my instruction, personally if I deemed + it wise, and often, though here only in general terms, before + student bodies, and I believe I have nowhere done more good, but + it is a painful duty. It requires tact and some degree of hard + and strenuous common sense rather than technical knowledge."</p><a name='6_Page_83'></a> + +<p> It is scarcely necessary to say that the ordinary teacher of + either sex is quite incompetent to speak of sexual hygiene. It is + a task to which all, or some, teachers must be trained. A + beginning in this direction has been made in Germany by the + delivery to teachers of courses of lectures on sexual hygiene in + education. In Prussia the first attempt was made in Breslau when + the central school authorities requested Dr. Martin Chotzen to + deliver such a course to one hundred and fifty teachers who took + the greatest interest in the lectures, which covered the anatomy + of the sexual organs, the development of the sexual instinct, its + chief perversions, venereal diseases, and the importance of the + cultivation of self-control. In <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i> + (Bd. i, Heft 7) Dr. Fritz Reuther gives the substance of lectures + which he has delivered to a class of young teachers; they cover + much the same ground as Chotzen's.</p> + +<p> There is no evidence that in England the Minister of Education + has yet taken any steps to insure the delivery of lectures on + sexual hygiene to the pupils who are about to leave school. In + Prussia, however, the Ministry of Education has taken an active + interest in this matter, and such lectures are beginning to be + commonly delivered, though attendance at them is not usually + obligatory. Some years ago (in 1900), when it was proposed to + deliver a series of lectures on sexual hygiene to the advanced + pupils in Berlin schools, under the auspices of a society for the + improvement of morals, the municipal authorities withdrew their + permission to use the classrooms, on the ground that "such + lectures would be extremely dangerous to the moral sense of an + audience of the young." The same objection has been made by + municipal officials in France. In Germany, at all events, + however, opinion is rapidly growing more enlightened. In England + little or no progress has yet been made, but in America steps are + being taken in this direction, as by the Chicago Society for + Social Hygiene. It must, indeed, be said that those who oppose + the sexual enlightenment of youth in large cities are directly + allying themselves, whether or not they know it, with the + influences that make for vice and immorality.</p> + +<p> Such lectures are also given to girls on leaving school, not only + girls of the well-to-do, but also those of the poor class, who + need them fully as much, and in some respects more. Thus Dr. A. + Heidenhain has published a lecture (<i>Sexuelle Belehrung der aus + den Volksschule entlassenen Mädchen</i>, 1907), accompanied by + anatomical tables, which he has delivered to girls about to leave + school, and which is intended to be put into their hands at this + time. Salvat, in a Lyons thesis (<i>La Dépopulation de la France</i>, + 1903), insists that the hygiene of pregnancy and the care of + infants should form part of the subject of such lectures. These + subjects might well be left, however, to a somewhat later period.</p></div><a name='6_Page_84'></a> + +<p>Something is clearly needed beyond lectures on these matters. It should be +the business of the parents or other guardians of every adolescent youth +and girl to arrange that, once at least at this period of life, there +should be a private, personal interview with a medical man to afford an +opportunity for a friendly and confidential talk concerning the main +points of sexual hygiene. The family doctor would be the best for this +duty because he would be familiar with the personal temperament of the +youth and the family tendencies.<a name='6_FNanchor_37'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_37'><sup>[37]</sup></a> In the case of girls a woman doctor +would often be preferred. Sex is properly a mystery; and to the unspoilt +youth, it is instinctively so; except in an abstract and technical form it +cannot properly form the subject of lectures. In a private and +individualized conversation between the novice in life and the expert, it +is possible to say many necessary things that could not be said in public, +and it is possible, moreover, for the youth to ask questions which shyness +and reserve make it impossible to put to parents, while the convenient +opportunity of putting them naturally to the expert otherwise seldom or +never occurs. Most youths have their own special ignorances, their own +special difficulties, difficulties and ignorances that could sometimes be +resolved by a word. Yet it by no means infrequently happens that they +carry them far on into adult life because they have lacked the +opportunity, or the skill and assurance to create the opportunity, of +obtaining enlightenment.</p> + +<p>It must be clearly understood that these talks are of medical, hygienic, +and physiological character; they are not to be used for retailing moral +platitudes. To make them that would be a fatal mistake. The young are +often very hostile to merely conventional moral maxims, and suspect their +hollowness, not always without reason. The end to be aimed at here is +enlightenment.<a name='6_Page_85'></a> Certainly knowledge can never be immoral, but nothing is +gained by jumbling up knowledge and morality together.</p> + +<p>In emphasizing the nature of the physician's task in this matter as purely +and simply that of wise practical enlightenment, nothing is implied +against the advantages, and indeed the immense value in sexual hygiene, of +the moral, religious, ideal elements of life. It is not the primary +business of the physician to inspire these, but they have a very intimate +relation with the sexual life, and every boy and girl at puberty, and +never before puberty, should be granted the privilege—and not the duty or +the task—of initiation into those elements of the world's life which are, +at the same time, natural functions of the adolescent soul. Here, however, +is the sphere of the religious or ethical teacher. At puberty he has his +great opportunity, the greatest he can ever obtain. The flower of sex that +blossoms in the body at puberty has its spiritual counterpart which at the +same moment blossoms in the soul. The churches from of old have recognized +the religious significance of this moment, for it is this period of life +that they have appointed as the time of confirmation and similar rites. +With the progress of the ages, it is true, such rites become merely formal +and apparently meaningless fossils. But they have a meaning nevertheless, +and are capable of being again vitalized. Nor in their spirit and essence +should they be confined to those who accept supernaturally revealed +religion. They concern all ethical teachers, who must realize that it is +at puberty that they are called upon to inspire or to fortify the great +ideal aspirations which at this period tend spontaneously to arise in the +youth's or maiden's soul.<a name='6_FNanchor_38'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_38'><sup>[38]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The age of puberty, I have said, marks the period at which this new kind +of sexual initiation is called for. Before puberty, although the psychic +emotion of love frequently develops, as well as sometimes physical sexual +emotions that are mostly vague and diffused, definite and localized sexual +sensations are rare. For the normal boy or girl love is usually an +unspecialized emotion; it is in Guyau's words "a state in which the body +has <a name='6_Page_86'></a>but the smallest place." At the first rising of the sun of sex the +boy or girl sees, as Blake said he saw at sunrise, not a round yellow body +emerging above the horizon, or any other physical manifestation, but a +great company of singing angels. With the definite eruption of physical +sexual manifestation and desire, whether at puberty or later in +adolescence, a new turbulent disturbing influence appears. Against the +force of this influence, mere intellectual enlightenment, or even loving +maternal counsel—the agencies we have so far been concerned with—may be +powerless. In gaining control of it we must find our auxiliary in the fact +that puberty is the efflorescence not only of a new physical but a new +psychic force. The ideal world naturally unfolds itself to the boy or girl +at puberty. The magic of beauty, the instinct of modesty, the naturalness +of self-restraint, the idea of unselfish love, the meaning of duty, the +feeling for art and poetry, the craving for religious conceptions and +emotions—all these things awake spontaneously in the unspoiled boy or +girl at puberty. I say "unspoiled," for if these things have been thrust +on the child before puberty when they have yet no meaning for him—as is +unfortunately far too often done, more especially as regards religious +notions—then it is but too likely that he will fail to react properly at +that moment of his development when he would otherwise naturally respond +to them. Under natural conditions this is the period for spiritual +initiation. Now, and not before, is the time for the religious or ethical +teacher as the case may be—for all religions and ethical systems may +equally adapt themselves to this task—to take the boy or girl in hand, +not with any special and obtrusive reference to the sexual impulses but +for the purpose of assisting the development and manifestation of this +psychic puberty, of indirectly aiding the young soul to escape from sexual +dangers by harnessing his chariot to a star that may help to save it from +sticking fast in any miry ruts of the flesh.</p> + +<p>Such an initiation, it is important to remark, is more than an +introduction to the sphere of religious sentiment. It is an initiation +into manhood, it must involve a recognition of the masculine even more +than of the feminine virtues. This has <a name='6_Page_87'></a>been well understood by the finest +primitive races. They constantly give their boys and girls an initiation +at puberty; it is an initiation that involves not merely education in the +ordinary sense, but a stern discipline of the character, feats of +endurance, the trial of character, the testing of the muscles of the soul +as much as of the body.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Ceremonies of initiation into manhood at puberty—involving + physical and mental discipline, as well as instruction, lasting + for weeks or months, and never identical for both sexes—are + common among savages in all parts of the world. They nearly + always involve the endurance of a certain amount of pain and + hardship, a wise measure of training which the softness of + civilization has too foolishly allowed to drop, for the ability + to endure hardness is an essential condition of all real manhood. + It is as a corrective to this tendency to flabbiness in modern + education that the teaching of Nietzsche is so invaluable.</p> + +<p> The initiation of boys among the natives of Torres Straits has + been elaborately described by A. C. Haddon (<i>Reports + Anthropological Expedition to Torres Straits</i>, vol. v, Chs. VII + and XII). It lasts a month, involves much severe training and + power of endurance, and includes admirable moral instruction. + Haddon remarks that it formed "a very good discipline," and adds, + "it is not easy to conceive of a more effectual means for a rapid + training."</p> + +<p> Among the aborigines of Victoria, Australia, the initiatory + ceremonies, as described by R. H. Mathews ("Some Initiation + Ceremonies," <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1905, Heft 6), last + for seven months, and constitute an admirable discipline. The + boys are taken away by the elders of the tribe, subjected to many + trials of patience and endurance of pain and discomfort, + sometimes involving even the swallowing of urine and excrement, + brought into contact with strange tribes, taught the laws and + folk-lore, and at the end meetings are held at which betrothals + are arranged.</p> + +<p> Among the northern tribes of Central Australia the initiation + ceremonies involve circumcision and urethral subincision, as well + as hard manual labor and hardships. The initiation of girls into + womanhood is accompanied by cutting open of the vagina. These + ceremonies have been described by Spencer and Gillen (<i>Northern + Tribes of Central Australia</i>, Ch. XI). Among various peoples in + British East Africa (including the Masai) pubertal initiation is + a great ceremonial event extending over a period of many months, + and it includes circumcision in boys, and in girls + clitoridectomy, as well as, among some tribes, removal of the + nymphæ. A girl who winces or cries out during the operation is + disgraced among the women and expelled from the settlement.<a name='6_Page_88'></a> When + the ceremony has been satisfactorily completed the boy or girl is + marriageable (C. Marsh Beadnell, "Circumcision and Clitoridectomy + as Practiced by the Natives of British East Africa," <i>British + Medical Journal</i>, April 29, 1905).</p> + +<p> Initiation among the African Bawenda, as described by a + missionary, is in three stages: (1) A stage of instruction and + discipline during which the traditions and sacred things of the + tribe are revealed, the art of warfare taught, self-restraint and + endurance borne; then the youths are counted as full-grown. (2) + In the next stage the art of dancing is practiced, by each sex + separately, during the day. (3) In the final stage, which is that + of complete sexual initiation, the two sexes dance together by + night; the scene, in the opinion of the good missionary, "does + not bear description;" the initiated are now complete adults, + with all the privileges and responsibilities of adults (Rev. E. + Gottschling, "The Bawenda," <i>Journal Anthropological + Institution</i>, July to Dec., 1905, p. 372. <i>Cf.</i>, an interesting + account of the Bawenda Tondo schools by another missionary, + Wessmann, <i>The Bawenda</i>, pp. 60 <i>et seq.</i>).</p> + +<p> The initiation of girls in Azimba Land, Central Africa, has been + fully and interestingly described by H. Crawford Angus ("The + Chensamwali' or Initiation Ceremony of Girls," <i>Zeitschrift für + Ethnologie</i>, 1898, Heft 6). At the first sign of menstruation the + girl is taken by her mother out of the village to a grass hut + prepared for her where only the women are allowed to visit her. + At the end of menstruation she is taken to a secluded spot and + the women dance round her, no men being present. It was only with + much difficulty that Angus was enabled to witness the ceremony. + The girl is then informed in regard to the hygiene of + menstruation. "Many songs about the relations between men and + women are sung, and the girl is instructed as to all her duties + when she becomes a wife.... The girl is taught to be faithful to + her husband, and to try and bear children. The whole matter is + looked upon as a matter of course, and not as a thing to be + ashamed of or to hide, and being thus openly treated of and no + secrecy made about it, you find in this tribe that the women are + very virtuous, because the subject of married life has no glamour + for them. When a woman is pregnant she is again danced; this time + all the dancers are naked, and she is taught how to behave and + what to do when the time of her delivery arrives."</p> + +<p> Among the Yuman Indians of California, as described by Horatio + Rust ("A Puberty Ceremony of the Mission Indians," <i>American + Anthropologist</i>, Jan. to March, 1906, p. 28) the girls are at + puberty prepared for marriage by a ceremony. They are wrapped in + blankets and placed in a warm pit, where they lie looking very + happy as they peer out through their covers. For four days and + nights they lie here (occasionally going away for food), while + the old women of the tribe dance and <a name='6_Page_89'></a>sing round the pit + constantly. At times the old women throw silver coins among the + crowd to teach the girls to be generous. They also give away + cloth and wheat, to teach them to be kind to the old and needy; + and they sow wild seeds broadcast over the girls to cause them to + be prolific. Finally, all strangers are ordered away, garlands + are placed on the girls' heads, and they are led to a hillside + and shown the large and sacred stone, symbolical of the female + organs of generation and resembling them, which is said to + protect women. Then grain is thrown over all present, and the + ceremony is over.</p> + +<p> The Thlinkeet Eskimo women were long noted for their fine + qualities. At puberty they were secluded, sometimes for a whole + year, being kept in darkness, suffering, and filth. Yet defective + and unsatisfactory as this initiation was, "Langsdorf suggests," + says Bancroft (<i>Native Races of Pacific</i>, vol. i, p. 110), + referring to the virtues of the Thlinkeet woman, "that it may be + during this period of confinement that the foundation of her + influence is laid; that in modest reserve and meditation her + character is strengthened, and she comes forth cleansed in mind + as well as body."</p></div> + +<p>We have lost these ancient and invaluable rites of initiation into manhood +and womanhood, with their inestimable moral benefits; at the most we have +merely preserved the shells of initiation in which the core has decayed. +In time, we cannot doubt, they will be revived in modern forms. At present +the spiritual initiation of youths and maidens is left to the chances of +some happy accident, and usually it is of a purely cerebral character +which cannot be perfectly wholesome, and is at the best absurdly +incomplete.</p> + +<p>This cerebral initiation commonly occurs to the youth through the medium +of literature. The influence of literature in sexual education thus +extends, in an incalculable degree, beyond the narrow sphere of manuals on +sexual hygiene, however admirable and desirable these may be. The greater +part of literature is more or less distinctly penetrated by erotic and +auto-erotic conceptions and impulses; nearly all imaginative literature +proceeds from the root of sex to flower in visions of beauty and ecstasy. +The Divine Comedy of Dante is herein the immortal type of the poet's +evolution. The youth becomes acquainted with the imaginative +representations of love before he becomes acquainted with the reality of +love, so that, as Leo Berg puts it,<a name='6_Page_90'></a> "the way to love among civilized +peoples passes through imagination." All literature is thus, to the +adolescent soul, a part of sexual education.<a name='6_FNanchor_39'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_39'><sup>[39]</sup></a> It depends, to some +extent, though fortunately not entirely, on the judgment of those in +authority over the young soul whether the literature to which the youth or +girl is admitted is or is not of the large and humanizing order.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>All great literature touches nakedly and sanely on the central + facts of sex. It is always consoling to remember this in an age + of petty pruderies. And it is a satisfaction to know that it + would not be possible to emasculate the literature of the great + ages, however desirable it might seem to the men of more + degenerate ages, or to close the avenues to that literature + against the young. All our religious and literary traditions + serve to fortify the position of the Bible and of Shakespeare. + "So many men and women," writes a correspondent, a literary man, + "gain sexual ideas in childhood from reading the Old Testament, + that the Bible may be called an erotic text-book. Most persons of + either sex with whom I have conversed on the subject, say that + the Books of Moses, and the stories of Amnon and Tamar, Lot and + his daughters, Potiphar's wife and Joseph, etc., caused + speculation and curiosity, and gave them information of the + sexual relationship. A boy and girl of fifteen, both friends of + the writer, and now over thirty years of age, used to find out + erotic passages in the Bible on Sunday mornings, while in a + Dissenting chapel, and pass their Bibles to one another, with + their fingers on the portions that interested them." In the same + way many a young woman has borrowed Shakespeare in order to read + the glowing erotic poetry of <i>Venus and Adonis</i>, which her + friends have told her about.</p> + +<p> The Bible, it may be remarked, is not in every respect, a model + introduction for the young mind to the questions of sex. But even + its frank acceptance, as of divine origin, of sexual rules so + unlike those that are nominally our own, such as polygamy and + concubinage, helps to enlarge the vision of the youthful mind by + showing that the rules surrounding the child are not those + everywhere and always valid, while the nakedness and realism of + the Bible cannot but be a wholesome and tonic corrective to + conventional pruderies.</p> + +<p> We must, indeed, always protest against the absurd confusion + <a name='6_Page_91'></a>whereby nakedness of speech is regarded as equivalent to + immorality, and not the less because it is often adopted even in + what are regarded as intellectual quarters. When in the House of + Lords, in the last century, the question of the exclusion of + Byron's statue from Westminster Abbey was under discussion, Lord + Brougham "denied that Shakespeare was more moral than Byron. He + could, on the contrary, point out in a single page of Shakespeare + more grossness than was to be found in all Lord Byron's works." + The conclusion Brougham thus reached, that Byron is an + incomparably more moral writer than Shakespeare, ought to have + been a sufficient <i>reductio ad absurdum</i> of his argument, but it + does not appear that anyone pointed out the vulgar confusion into + which he had fallen.</p> + +<p> It may be said that the special attractiveness which the + nakedness of great literature sometimes possesses for young minds + is unwholesome. But it must be remembered that the peculiar + interest of this element is merely due to the fact that elsewhere + there is an inveterate and abnormal concealment. It must also be + said that the statements of the great writers about natural + things are never degrading, nor even erotically exciting to the + young, and what Emilia Pardo Bazan tells of herself and her + delight when a child in the historical books of the Old + Testament, that the crude passages in them failed to send the + faintest cloud of trouble across her young imagination, is + equally true of most children. It is necessary, indeed, that + these naked and serious things should be left standing, even if + only to counterbalance the lewdly comic efforts to besmirch love + and sex, which are visible to all in every low-class bookseller's + shop window.</p> + +<p> This point of view was vigorously championed by the speakers on + sexual education at the Third Congress of the German Gesellschaft + zur Bekämpfung der Geschlechtskrankheiten in 1907. Thus Enderlin, + speaking as a headmaster, protested against the custom of + bowdlerizing poems and folk-songs for the use of children, and + thus robbing them of the finest introduction to purified sexual + impulses and the highest sphere of emotion, while at the same + time they are recklessly exposed to the "psychic infection" of + the vulgar comic papers everywhere exposed for sale. "So long as + children are too young to respond to erotic poetry it cannot hurt + them; when they are old enough to respond it can only benefit + them by opening to them the highest and purest channels of human + emotion" (<i>Sexualpädagogik</i>, p. 60). Professor Schäfenacker + (<i>id.</i>, p. 98) expresses himself in the same sense, and remarks + that "the method of removing from school-books all those passages + which, in the opinion of short-sighted and narrow-hearted + schoolmasters, are unsuited for youth, must be decisively + condemned." Every healthy boy and girl who has reached the age of + puberty may be safely allowed to ramble in any good library, + however varied its contents. So far from needing <a name='6_Page_92'></a>guidance they + will usually show a much more refined taste than their elders. At + this age, when the emotions are still virginal and sensitive, the + things that are realistic, ugly, or morbid, jar on the young + spirit and are cast aside, though in adult life, with the + coarsening of mental texture which comes of years and experience, + this repugnance, doubtless by an equally sound and natural + instinct, may become much less acute.</p> + +<p> Ellen Key in Ch. VI of her <i>Century of the Child</i> well summarizes + the reasons against the practice of selecting for children books + that are "suitable" for them, a practice which she considers one + of the follies of modern education. The child should be free to + read all great literature, and will himself instinctively put + aside the things he is not yet ripe for. His cooler senses are + undisturbed by scenes that his elders find too exciting, while + even at a later stage it is not the nakedness of great + literature, but much more the method of the modern novel, which + is likely to stain the imagination, falsify reality and injure + taste. It is concealment which misleads and coarsens, producing a + state of mind in which even the Bible becomes a stimulus to the + senses. The writings of the great masters yield the imaginative + food which the child craves, and the erotic moment in them is too + brief to be overheating. It is the more necessary, Ellen Key + remarks, for children to be introduced to great literature, since + they often have little opportunity to occupy themselves with it + in later life. Many years earlier Ruskin, in <i>Sesame and Lilies</i>, + had eloquently urged that even young girls should be allowed to + range freely in libraries.</p></div> + +<p>What has been said about literature applies equally to art. Art, as well +as literature, and in the same indirect way, can be made a valuable aid in +the task of sexual enlightenment and sexual hygiene. Modern art may, +indeed, for the most part, be ignored from this point of view, but +children cannot be too early familiarized with the representations of the +nude in ancient sculpture and in the paintings of the old masters of the +Italian school. In this way they may be immunized, as Enderlin expresses +it, against those representations of the nude which make an appeal to the +baser instincts. Early familiarity with nudity in art is at the same time +an aid to the attainment of a proper attitude towards purity in nature. +"He who has once learnt," as Höller remarks, "to enjoy peacefully +nakedness in art, will be able to look on nakedness in nature as on a work +of art."</p><a name='6_Page_93'></a> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Casts of classic nude statues and reproductions of the pictures + of the old Venetian and other Italian masters may fittingly be + used to adorn schoolrooms, not so much as objects of instruction + as things of beauty with which the child cannot too early become + familiarized. In Italy it is said to be usual for school classes + to be taken by their teachers to the art museums with good + results; such visits form part of the official scheme of + education.</p> + +<p> There can be no doubt that such early familiarity with the beauty + of nudity in classic art is widely needed among all social + classes and in many countries. It is to this defect of our + education that we must attribute the occasional, and indeed in + America and England frequent, occurrence of such incidents as + petitions and protests against the exhibition of nude statuary in + art museums, the display of pictures so inoffensive as Leighton's + "Bath of Psyche" in shop windows, and the demand for the draping + of the naked personifications of abstract virtues in + architectural street decoration. So imperfect is still the + education of the multitude that in these matters the ill-bred + fanatic of pruriency usually gains his will. Such a state of + things cannot but have an unwholesome reaction on the moral + atmosphere of the community in which it is possible. Even from + the religious point of view, prurient prudery is not justifiable. + Northcote has very temperately and sensibly discussed the + question of the nude in art from the standpoint of Christian + morality. He points out that not only is the nude in art not to + be condemned without qualification, and that the nude is by no + means necessarily the erotic, but he also adds that even erotic + art, in its best and purest manifestations, only arouses emotions + that are the legitimate object of man's aspirations. It would be + impossible even to represent Biblical stories adequately on + canvas or in marble if erotic art were to be tabooed (Rev. H. + Northcote, <i>Christianity and Sex Problems</i>, Ch. XIV).</p> + +<p> Early familiarity with the nude in classic and early Italian art + should be combined at puberty with an equal familiarity with + photographs of beautiful and naturally developed nude models. In + former years books containing such pictures in a suitable and + attractive manner to place before the young were difficult to + procure. Now this difficulty no longer exists. Dr. C. H. Stratz, + of The Hague, has been the pioneer in this matter, and in a + series of beautiful books (notably in <i>Der Körper des Kindes, Die + Schönheit des Weiblichen Körpers</i> and <i>Die Rassenschönheit des + Weibes</i>, all published by Enke in Stuttgart), he has brought + together a large number of admirably selected photographs of nude + but entirely chaste figures. More recently Dr. Shufeldt, of + Washington (who dedicates his work to Stratz), has published his + <i>Studies of the Human Form</i> in which, in the same spirit, he has + brought together the results of his own studies of the naked + human form during many years. It is necessary to correct the + impressions received from <a name='6_Page_94'></a>classic sources by good photographic + illustrations on account of the false conventions prevailing in + classic works, though those conventions were not necessarily + false for the artists who originated them. The omission of the + pudendal hair, in representations of the nude was, for instance, + quite natural for the people of countries still under Oriental + influence are accustomed to remove the hair from the body. If, + however, under quite different conditions, we perpetuate that + artistic convention to-day, we put ourselves into a perverse + relation to nature. There is ample evidence of this. "There is + one convention so ancient, so necessary, so universal," writes + Mr. Frederic Harrison (<i>Nineteenth Century and After</i>, Aug., + 1907), "that its deliberate defiance to-day may arouse the bile + of the least squeamish of men and should make women withdraw at + once." If boys and girls were brought up at their mother's knees + in familiarity with pictures of beautiful and natural nakedness, + it would be impossible for anyone to write such silly and + shameful words as these.</p> + +<p> There can be no doubt that among ourselves the simple and direct + attitude of the child towards nakedness is so early crushed out + of him that intelligent education is necessary in order that he + may be enabled to discern what is and what is not obscene. To the + plough-boy and the country servant-girl all nakedness, including + that of Greek statuary, is alike shameful or lustful. "I have a + picture of women like that," said a countryman with a grin, as he + pointed to a photograph of one of Tintoret's most beautiful + groups, "smoking cigarettes." And the mass of people in most + northern countries have still passed little beyond this stage of + discernment; in ability to distinguish between the beautiful and + the obscene they are still on the level of the plough-boy and the + servant-girl.</p></div> + +<hr /> + +<a name='6_Footnote_18'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_18'>[18]</a><div class='note'><p> These manifestations have been dealt with in the study of +Autoerotism in vol. i of the present <i>Studies</i>. It may be added that the +sexual life of the child has been exhaustively investigated by Moll, <i>Das +Sexualleben des Kindes</i>, 1909.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_19'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_19'>[19]</a><div class='note'><p> This genital efflorescence in the sexual glands and breasts +at birth or in early infancy has been discussed in a Paris thesis, by +Camille Renouf (<i>La Crise Génital et les Manifestations Connexes chez le +Fœtus et le Nouveau-né</i>, 1905); he is unable to offer a +satisfactory explanation of these phenomena.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_20'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_20'>[20]</a><div class='note'><p> Amélineau, <i>La Morale des Egyptiens</i>, p. 64.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_21'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_21'>[21]</a><div class='note'><p> "The Social Evil in Philadelphia," <i>Arena</i>, March, 1896.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_22'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_22'>[22]</a><div class='note'><p> Moll, <i>Konträre Sexualempfindung</i>, third edition, p. 592.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_23'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_23'>[23]</a><div class='note'><p> This powerlessness of the law and the police is well +recognized by lawyers familiar with the matter. Thus F. Werthauer +(<i>Sittlichkeitsdelikte der Grosstadt</i>, 1907) insists throughout on the +importance of parents and teachers imparting to children from their early +years a progressively increasing knowledge of sexual matters.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_24'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_24'>[24]</a><div class='note'><p> "Parents must be taught how to impart information," remarks +E. L. Keyes ("Education upon Sexual Matters," <i>New York Medical Journal</i>, +Feb. 10, 1906), "and this teaching of the parent should begin when he is +himself a child."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_25'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_25'>[25]</a><div class='note'><p> Moll (<i>op. cit.</i>, p. 224) argues well how impossible it is +to preserve children from sights and influence connected with the sexual +life.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_26'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_26'>[26]</a><div class='note'><p> Girls are not even prepared, in many cases, for the +appearance of the pubic hair. This unexpected growth of hair frequently +causes young girls much secret worry, and often they carefully cut it +off.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_27'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_27'>[27]</a><div class='note'><p> G. S. Hall, <i>Adolescence</i>, vol. i, p. 511. Many years ago, in +1875, the late Dr. Clarke, in his <i>Sex in Education</i>, advised menstrual +rest for girls, and thereby aroused a violent opposition which would +certainly not be found nowadays, when the special risks of womanhood are +becoming more clearly understood.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_28'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_28'>[28]</a><div class='note'><p> For a summary of the physical and mental phenomena of the +menstrual period, see Havelock Ellis: <i>Man and Woman</i>, Ch. XI. The +primitive conception of menstruation is briefly discussed in Appendix A to +the first volume of these <i>Studies</i>, and more elaborately by J. G. Frazer +in <i>The Golden Bough</i>. A large collection of facts with regard to the +menstrual seclusion of women throughout the world will be found in Ploss +and Bartels, <i>Das Weib</i>. The pubertal seclusion of girls at Torres Straits +has been especially studied by Seligmann, <i>Reports Anthropological +Expedition to Torres Straits</i>, vol. v, Ch. VI.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_29'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_29'>[29]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus Miss Lura Sanborn, Director of Physical Training at the +Chicago Normal School, found that a bath once a fortnight was not unusual. +At the menstrual period especially there is still a superstitious dread of +water. Girls should always be taught that at this period, above all, +cleanliness is imperatively necessary. There should be a tepid hip bath +night and morning, and a vaginal douche (which should never be cold) is +always advantageous, both for comfort as well as cleanliness. There is not +the slightest reason to dread water during menstruation. This point was +discussed a few years ago in the <i>British Medical Journal</i> with complete +unanimity of opinion. A distinguished American obstetrician, also, Dr. J. +Clifton Edgar, after a careful study of opinion and practice in this +matter ("Bathing During the Menstrual Period," <i>American Journal +Obstetrics</i>, Sept., 1900), concludes that it is possible and beneficial to +take cold baths (though not sea-baths) during the period, provided due +precautions are observed, and that there are no sudden changes of habits. +Such a course should not be indiscriminately adopted, but there can be no +doubt that in sturdy peasant women who are inured to it early in life even +prolonged immersion in the sea in fishing has no evil results, and is even +beneficial. Houzel (<i>Annales de Gynécologie</i>, Dec., 1894) has published +statistics of the menstrual life of 123 fisherwomen on the French coast. +They were accustomed to shrimp for hours at a time in the sea, often to +above the waist, and then walk about in their wet clothes selling the +shrimps. They all insisted that their menstruation was easier when they +were actively at work. Their periods are notably regular, and their +fertility is high.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_30'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_30'>[30]</a><div class='note'><p> J. H. McBride, "The Life and Health of Our Girls in Relation +to Their Future," <i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, Feb., 1904.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_31'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_31'>[31]</a><div class='note'><p> W. G. Chambers, "The Evolution of Ideals," <i>Pedagogical +Seminary</i>, March, 1903; Catherine Dodd, "School Children's Ideals," +<i>National Review</i>, Feb. and Dec., 1900, and June, 1901. No German girls +acknowledged a wish to be men; they said it would be wicked. Among Flemish +girls, however, Varendonck found at Ghent (<i>Archives de Psychologie</i>, +July, 1908) that 26 per cent. had men as their ideals.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_32'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_32'>[32]</a><div class='note'><p> A. Reibmayr, <i>Die Entwicklungsgeschichte des Talentes und +Genies</i>, 1908, Bd. i, p. 70.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_33'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_33'>[33]</a><div class='note'><p> R. Hellmann, <i>Ueber Geschlechtsfreiheit</i>, p. 14.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_34'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_34'>[34]</a><div class='note'><p> This belief seems frequent among young girls in Continental +Europe. It forms the subject of one of Marcel Prevost's <i>Lettres de +Femmes</i>. In Austria, according to Freud, it is not uncommon, exclusively +among girls.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_35'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_35'>[35]</a><div class='note'><p> Yet, according to English law, rape is a crime which it is +impossible for a husband to commit on his wife (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Nevill Geary, +<i>The Law of Marriage</i>, Ch. XV, Sect. V). The performance of the marriage +ceremony, however, even if it necessarily involved a clear explanation of +marital privileges, cannot be regarded as adequate justification for an +act of sexual intercourse performed with violence or without the wife's +consent.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_36'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_36'>[36]</a><div class='note'><p> Hirschfeld, <i>Jahrbuch für Sexuelle Zwischenstufen</i>, 1903, p. +88. It may be added that a horror of coitus is not necessarily due to bad +education, and may also occur in hereditarily degenerate women, whose +ancestors have shown similar or allied mental peculiarities. A case of +such "functional impotence" has been reported in a young Italian wife of +twenty-one, who was otherwise healthy, and strongly attached to her +husband. The marriage was annulled on the ground that "rudimentary sexual +or emotional paranoia, which renders a wife invincibly refractory to +sexual union, notwithstanding the integrity of the sexual organs, +constitutes psychic functional impotence" (<i>Archivio di Psichiatria</i>, +1906, fasc. vi, p. 806).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_37'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_37'>[37]</a><div class='note'><p> The reasonableness of this step is so obvious that it should +scarcely need insistence. "The instruction of school-boys and school-girls +is most adequately effected by an elderly doctor," Näcke remarks, +"sometimes perhaps the school-doctor." "I strongly advocate," says +Clouston (<i>The Hygiene of Mind</i>, p. 249), "that the family doctor, guided +by the parent and the teacher, is by far the best instructor and monitor." +Moll is of the same opinion.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_38'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_38'>[38]</a><div class='note'><p> I have further developed this argument in "Religion and the +Child," <i>Nineteenth Century and After</i>, 1907.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_39'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_39'>[39]</a><div class='note'><p> The intimate relation of art and poetry to the sexual +impulse has been realized in a fragmentary way by many who have not +attained to any wide vision of auto-erotic activity in life. "Poetry is +necessarily related to the sexual function," says Metchnikoff (<i>Essais +Optimistes</i>, p. 352), who also quotes with approval the statement of +Möbius (previously made by Ferrero and many others) that "artistic +aptitudes must probably be considered as secondary sexual characters."</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_CHAPTER_III'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_95'></a>CHAPTER III.</h2> + +<h3>SEXUAL EDUCATION AND NAKEDNESS.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Greek Attitude Towards Nakedness—How the Romans Modified That +Attitude—The Influence of Christianity—Nakedness in Mediæval +Times—Evolution of the Horror of Nakedness—Concomitant Change in the +Conception of Nakedness—Prudery—The Romantic Movement—Rise of a New +Feeling in Regard to Nakedness—The Hygienic Aspect of Nakedness—How +Children May Be Accustomed to Nakedness—Nakedness Not Inimical to +Modesty—The Instinct of Physical Pride—The Value of Nakedness in +Education—The Æsthetic Value of Nakedness—The Human Body as One of the +Prime Tonics of Life—How Nakedness May Be Cultivated—The Moral Value of +Nakedness.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>The discussion of the value of nakedness in art leads us on to the allied +question of nakedness in nature. What is the psychological influence of +familiarity with nakedness? How far should children be made familiar with +the naked body? This is a question in regard to which different opinions +have been held in different ages, and during recent years a remarkable +change has begun to come over the minds of practical educationalists in +regard to it.</p> + +<p>In Sparta, in Chios, and elsewhere in Greece, women at one time practiced +gymnastic feats and dances in nakedness, together with the men, or in +their presence.<a name='6_FNanchor_40'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_40'><sup>[40]</sup></a> Plato in his <i>Republic</i> approved of such customs and +said that the ridicule of those who laughed at them was but "unripe fruit +plucked from the tree of knowledge." On many questions Plato's opinions +changed, but not on this. In the <i>Laws</i>, which are the last outcome of his +philosophic reflection in old age, he still advocates (Bk. viii) a similar +co-education of the sexes and their coöperation in all the works of life, +in part with a view to blunt the over-keen edge of <a name='6_Page_96'></a>sexual appetite; with +the same object he advocated the association together of youths and girls +without constraint in costumes which offered no concealment to the form.</p> + +<p>It is noteworthy that the Romans, a coarser-grained people than the Greeks +and in our narrow modern sense more "moral," showed no perception of the +moralizing and refining influence of nakedness. Nudity to them was merely +a licentious indulgence, to be treated with contempt even when it was +enjoyed. It was confined to the stage, and clamored for by the populace. +In the Floralia, especially, the crowd seem to have claimed it as their +right that the actors should play naked, probably, it has been thought, as +a survival of a folk-ritual. But the Romans, though they were eager to run +to the theatre, felt nothing but disdain for the performers. "Flagitii +principium est, nudare inter cives corpora." So thought old Ennius, as +reported by Cicero, and that remained the genuine Roman feeling to the +last. "Quanta perversitas!" as Tertullian exclaimed. "Artem magnificant, +artificem notant."<a name='6_FNanchor_41'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_41'><sup>[41]</sup></a> In this matter the Romans, although they aroused +the horror of the Christians, were yet in reality laying the foundation of +Christian morality.</p> + +<p>Christianity, which found so many of Plato's opinions congenial, would +have nothing to do with his view of nakedness and failed to recognize its +psychological correctness. The reason was simple, and indeed +simple-minded. The Church was passionately eager to fight against what it +called "the flesh," and thus fell into the error of confusing the +subjective question of sexual desire with the objective spectacle of the +naked form. "The flesh" is evil; therefore, "the flesh" must be hidden. +And they hid it, without understanding that in so doing they had not +suppressed the craving for the human form, but, on the contrary, had +heightened it by imparting to it the additional fascination of a forbidden +mystery.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Burton, in his <i>Anatomy of Melancholy</i> (Part III, Sect II, Mem. + II, Subs. IV), referring to the recommendations of Plato, adds: + "But <i>Eusebius</i> and <i>Theodoret</i> worthily lash him for it; and + well they might:<a name='6_Page_97'></a> for as one saith, the very sight of naked + parts, <i>causeth enormous, exceeding concupiscences, and stirs up + both men and women to burning lust</i>." Yet, as Burton himself adds + further on in the same section of his work (Mem. V, Subs. III), + without protest, "some are of opinion, that to see a woman naked, + is able of itself to alter his affection; and it is worthy of + consideration, saith <i>Montaigne</i>, the Frenchman, in his Essays, + that the skilfullest masters of amorous dalliance appoint for a + remedy of venereous passions, a full survey of the body."</p> + +<p> There ought to be no question regarding the fact that it is the + adorned, the partially concealed body, and not the absolutely + naked body, which acts as a sexual excitant. I have brought + together some evidence on this point in the study of "The + Evolution of Modesty." "In Madagascar, West Africa, and the + Cape," says G. F. Scott Elliot (<i>A Naturalist in Mid-Africa</i>, p. + 36), "I have always found the same rule. Chastity varies + inversely as the amount of clothing." It is now indeed generally + held that one of the chief primary objects of ornament and + clothing was the stimulation of sexual desire, and artists' + models are well aware that when they are completely unclothed, + they are most safe from undesired masculine advances. "A favorite + model of mine told me," remarks Dr. Shufeldt (<i>Medical Brief</i>, + Oct., 1904), the distinguished author of <i>Studies of the Human + Form</i>, "that it was her practice to disrobe as soon after + entering the artist's studio as possible, for, as men are not + always responsible for their emotions, she felt that she was far + less likely to arouse or excite them when entirely nude than when + only semi-draped." This fact is, indeed, quite familiar to + artists' models. If the conquest of sexual desire were the first + and last consideration of life it would be more reasonable to + prohibit clothing than to prohibit nakedness.</p></div> + +<p>When Christianity absorbed the whole of the European world this strict +avoidance of even the sight of "the flesh," although nominally accepted by +all as the desirable ideal, could only be carried out, thoroughly and +completely, in the cloister. In the practice of the world outside, +although the original Christian ideals remained influential, various pagan +and primitive traditions in favor of nakedness still persisted, and were, +to some extent, allowed to manifest themselves, alike in ordinary custom +and on special occasions.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>How widespread is the occasional or habitual practice of + nakedness in the world generally, and how entirely concordant it + is with even a most sensitive modesty, has been set forth in "The + Evolution of Modesty," in vol. i of these <i>Studies</i>.</p><a name='6_Page_98'></a> + +<p> Even during the Christian era the impulse to adopt nudity, often + with the feeling that it was an especially sacred practice, has + persisted. The Adamites of the second century, who read and + prayed naked, and celebrated the sacrament naked, according to + the statement quoted by St. Augustine, seem to have caused little + scandal so long as they only practiced nudity in their sacred + ceremonies. The German Brethren of the Free Spirit, in the + thirteenth century, combined so much chastity with promiscuous + nakedness that orthodox Catholics believed they were assisted by + the Devil. The French Picards, at a much later date, insisted on + public nakedness, believing that God had sent their leader into + the world as a new Adam to reestablish the law of Nature; they + were persecuted and were finally exterminated by the Hussites.</p> + +<p> In daily life, however, a considerable degree of nakedness was + tolerated during mediæval times. This was notably so in the + public baths, frequented by men and women together. Thus Alwin + Schultz remarks (in his <i>Höfische Leben zur Zeit der + Minnesänger</i>), that the women of the aristocratic classes, though + not the men, were often naked in these baths except for a hat and + a necklace.</p> + +<p> It is sometimes stated that in the mediæval religious plays Adam + and Eve were absolutely naked. Chambers doubts this, and thinks + they wore flesh-colored tights, or were, as in a later play of + this kind, "apparelled in white leather" (E. K. Chambers, <i>The + Mediæval Stage</i>, vol. i, p. 5). It may be so, but the public + exposure even of the sexual organs was permitted, and that in + aristocratic houses, for John of Salisbury (in a passage quoted + by Buckle, <i>Commonplace Book</i>, 541) protests against this custom.</p> + +<p> The women of the feminist sixteenth century in France, as R. de + Maulde la Clavière remarks (<i>Revue de l'Art</i>, Jan., 1898), had no + scruple in recompensing their adorers by admitting them to their + toilette, or even their bath. Late in the century they became + still less prudish, and many well-known ladies allowed themselves + to be painted naked down to the waist, as we see in the portrait + of "Gabrielle d'Estrées au Bain" at Chantilly. Many of these + pictures, however, are certainly not real portraits.</p> + +<p> Even in the middle of the seventeenth century in England + nakedness was not prohibited in public, for Pepys tells us that + on July 29, 1667, a Quaker came into Westminster Hall, crying, + "Repent! Repent!" being in a state of nakedness, except that he + was "very civilly tied about the privities to avoid scandal." + (This was doubtless Solomon Eccles, who was accustomed to go + about in this costume, both before and after the Restoration. He + had been a distinguished musician, and, though eccentric, was + apparently not insane.)</p> + +<p> In a chapter, "De la Nudité," and in the appendices of his book, + <i>De l'Amour</i> (vol. i, p. 221), Sénancour gives instances of the + occasional <a name='6_Page_99'></a>practice of nudity in Europe, and adds some + interesting remarks of his own; so, also, Dulaure (<i>Des Divinités + Génératrices</i>, Ch. XV). It would appear, as a rule, that though + complete nudity was allowed in other respects, it was usual to + cover the sexual parts.</p></div> + +<p>The movement of revolt against nakedness never became completely +victorious until the nineteenth century. That century represented the +triumph of all the forces that banned public nakedness everywhere and +altogether. If, as Pudor insists, nakedness is aristocratic and the +slavery of clothes a plebeian characteristic imposed on the lower classes +by an upper class who reserved to themselves the privilege of physical +culture, we may perhaps connect this with the outburst of democratic +plebeianism which, as Nietzsche pointed out, reached its climax in the +nineteenth century. It is in any case certainly interesting to observe +that by this time the movement had entirely changed its character. It had +become general, but at the same time its foundation had been undermined. +It had largely lost its religious and moral character, and instead was +regarded as a matter of convention. The nineteenth century man who +encountered the spectacle of white limbs flashing in the sunlight no +longer felt like the mediæval ascetic that he was risking the salvation of +his immortal soul or even courting the depravation of his morals; he +merely felt that it was "indecent" or, in extreme cases, "disgusting." +That is to say he regarded the matter as simply a question of conventional +etiquette, at the worst, of taste, of æsthetics. In thus bringing down his +repugnance to nakedness to so low a plane he had indeed rendered it +generally acceptable, but at the same time he had deprived it of high +sanction. His profound horror of nakedness was out of relation to the +frivolous grounds on which he based it.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>We must not, however, under-rate the tenacity with which this + horror of nakedness was held. Nothing illustrates more vividly + the deeply ingrained hatred which the nineteenth century felt of + nakedness than the ferocity—there is no other word for it—with + which Christian missionaries to savages all over the world, even + in the tropics, insisted on their converts adopting the + conventional clothing of Northern Europe. Travellers' narratives + abound in references to the emphasis placed by <a name='6_Page_100'></a>missionaries on + this change of custom, which was both injurious to the health of + the people and degrading to their dignity. It is sufficient to + quote one authoritative witness, Lord Stanmore, formerly Governor + of Fiji, who read a long paper to the Anglican Missionary + Conference in 1894 on the subject of "Undue Introduction of + Western Ways." "In the centre of the village," he remarked in + quoting a typical case (and referring not to Fiji but to Tonga), + "is the church, a wooden barn-like building. If the day be + Sunday, we shall find the native minister arrayed in a + greenish-black swallow-tail coat, a neckcloth, once white, and a + pair of spectacles, which he probably does not need, preaching to + a congregation, the male portion of which is dressed in much the + same manner as himself, while the women are dizened out in old + battered hats or bonnets, and shapeless gowns like bathing + dresses, or it may be in crinolines of an early type. Chiefs of + influence and women of high birth, who in their native dress + would look, and do look, the ladies and gentlemen they are, are, + by their Sunday finery, given the appearance of attendants upon + Jack-in-the-Green. If a visit be paid to the houses of the town, + after the morning's work of the people is over, the family will + be found sitting on chairs, listless and uncomfortable, in a room + full of litter. In the houses of the superior native clergy there + will be a yet greater aping of the manners of the West. There + will be chairs covered with hideous antimacassars, tasteless + round worsted-work mats for absent flower jars, and a lot of ugly + cheap and vulgar china chimney ornaments, which, there being no + fireplace, and consequently no chimney-piece, are set out in + order on a rickety deal table. The whole life of these village + folk is one piece of unreal acting. They are continually asking + themselves whether they are incurring any of the penalties + entailed by infraction of the long table of prohibitions, and + whether they are living up to the foreign garments they wear. + Their faces have, for the most part, an expression of sullen + discontent, they move about silently and joylessly, rebels in + heart to the restrictive code on them, but which they fear to + cast off, partly from a vague apprehension of possible secular + results, and partly because they suppose they will cease to be + good Christians if they do so. They have good ground for their + dissatisfaction. At the time when I visited the villages I have + specially in my eye, it was punishable by fine and imprisonment + to wear native clothing, punishable by fine and imprisonment to + wear long hair or a garland of flowers; punishable by fine or + imprisonment to wrestle or to play at ball; punishable by fine + and imprisonment to build a native-fashioned house; punishable + not to wear shirt and trousers, and in certain localities coat + and shoes also; and, in addition to laws enforcing a strictly + puritanical observation of the Sabbath, it was punishable by fine + and imprisonment to bathe on Sundays. In some other places + bathing on Sunday was punishable by flogging; and <a name='6_Page_101'></a>to my + knowledge women have been flogged for no other offense. Men in + such circumstances are ripe for revolt, and sometimes the revolt + comes."</p> + +<p> An obvious result of reducing the feeling about nakedness to an + unreasoning but imperative convention is the tendency to + prudishness. This, as we know, is a form of pseudo-modesty which, + being a convention, and not a natural feeling, is capable of + unlimited extension. It is by no means confined to modern times + or to Christian Europe. The ancient Hebrews were not entirely + free from prudishness, and we find in the Old Testament that by a + curious euphemism the sexual organs are sometimes referred to as + "the feet." The Turks are capable of prudishness. So, indeed, + were even the ancient Greeks. "Dion the philosopher tells us," + remarks Clement of Alexandria (<i>Stromates</i>, Bk. IV, Ch. XIX) + "that a certain woman, Lysidica, through excess of modesty, + bathed in her clothes, and that Philotera, when she was to enter + the bath, gradually drew back her tunic as the water covered her + naked parts; and then rising by degrees, put it on." Mincing + prudes were found among the early Christians, and their ways are + graphically described by St. Jerome in one of his letters to + Eustochium: "These women," he says, "speak between their teeth or + with the edge of the lips, and with a lisping tongue, only half + pronouncing their words, because they regard as gross whatever is + natural. Such as these," declares Jerome, the scholar in him + overcoming the ascetic, "corrupt even language." Whenever a new + and artificial "modesty" is imposed upon savages prudery tends to + arise. Haddon describes this among the natives of Torres Straits, + where even the children now suffer from exaggerated prudishness, + though formerly absolutely naked and unashamed (<i>Cambridge + Anthropological Expedition to Torres Straits</i>, vol. v, p. 271).</p></div> + +<p>The nineteenth century, which witnessed the triumph of timidity and +prudery in this matter, also produced the first fruitful germ of new +conceptions of nakedness. To some extent these were embodied in the great +Romantic movement. Rousseau, indeed, had placed no special insistence on +nakedness as an element of the return to Nature which he preached so +influentially. A new feeling in this matter emerged, however, with +characteristic extravagance, in some of the episodes of the Revolution, +while in Germany in the pioneering <i>Lucinde</i> of Friedrich Schlegel, a +characteristic figure in the Romantic movement, a still unfamiliar +conception of the body was set forth in a serious and earnest spirit.</p> + +<p>In England, Blake with his strange and flaming genius, <a name='6_Page_102'></a>proclaimed a +mystical gospel which involved the spiritual glorification of the body and +contempt for the civilized worship of clothes ("As to a modern man," he +wrote, "stripped from his load of clothing he is like a dead corpse"); +while, later, in America, Thoreau and Whitman and Burroughs asserted, +still more definitely, a not dissimilar message concerning the need of +returning to Nature.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>We find the importance of the sight of the body—though very + narrowly, for the avoidance of fraud in the preliminaries of + marriage—set forth as early as the sixteenth century by Sir + Thomas More in his <i>Utopia</i>, which is so rich in new and fruitful + ideas. In Utopia, according to Sir Thomas More, before marriage, + a staid and honest matron "showeth the woman, be she maid or + widow, naked to the wooer. And likewise a sage and discreet man + exhibiteth the wooer naked to the woman. At this custom we + laughed and disallowed it as foolish. But they, on their part, do + greatly wonder at the folly of all other nations which, in buying + a colt where a little money is in hazard, be so chary and + circumspect that though he be almost all bare, yet they will not + buy him unless the saddle and all the harness be taken off, lest + under these coverings be hid some gall or sore. And yet, in + choosing a wife, which shall be either pleasure or displeasure to + them all their life after, they be so reckless that all the + residue of the woman's body being covered with clothes, they + estimate her scarcely by one handsbreadth (for they can see no + more but her face) and so join her to them, not without great + jeopardy of evil agreeing together, if anything in her body + afterward should chance to offend or mislike them. Verily, so + foul deformity may be hid under these coverings that it may quite + alienate and take away the man's mind from his wife, when it + shall not be lawful for their bodies to be separate again. If + such deformity happen by any chance after the marriage is + consummate and finished, well, there is no remedy but patience. + But it were well done that a law were made whereby all such + deceits were eschewed and avoided beforehand."</p> + +<p> The clear conception of what may be called the spiritual value of + nakedness—by no means from More's point of view, but as a part + of natural hygiene in the widest sense, and as a high and special + aspect of the purifying and ennobling function of beauty—is of + much later date. It is not clearly expressed until the time of + the Romantic movement at the beginning of the nineteenth century. + We have it admirably set forth in Sénancour's <i>De l'Amour</i> (first + edition, 1806; fourth and enlarged edition, 1834), which still + remains one of the best books on the morality of love. After + remarking that nakedness by no means abolishes modesty, he + proceeds to advocate occasional partial or complete <a name='6_Page_103'></a>nudity. "Let + us suppose," he remarks, somewhat in the spirit of Plato, "a + country in which at certain general festivals the women should be + absolutely free to be nearly or even quite naked. Swimming, + waltzing, walking, those who thought good to do so might remain + unclothed in the presence of men. No doubt the illusions of love + would be little known, and passion would see a diminution of its + transports. But is it passion that in general ennobles human + affairs? We need honest attachments and delicate delights, and + all these we may obtain while still preserving our + common-sense.... Such nakedness would demand corresponding + institutions, strong and simple, and a great respect for those + conventions which belong to all times" (Sénancour, <i>De l'Amour</i>, + vol. i, p. 314).</p> + +<p> From that time onwards references to the value and desirability + of nakedness become more and more frequent in all civilized + countries, sometimes mingled with sarcastic allusions to the + false conventions we have inherited in this matter. Thus Thoreau + writes in his journal on June 12, 1852, as he looks at boys + bathing in the river: "The color of their bodies in the sun at a + distance is pleasing. I hear the sound of their sport borne over + the water. As yet we have not man in Nature. What a singular fact + for an angel visitant to this earth to carry back in his + note-book, that men were forbidden to expose their bodies under + the severest penalties."</p> + +<p> Iwan Bloch, in Chapter VII of his <i>Sexual Life of Our Time</i>, + discusses this question of nakedness from the modern point of + view, and concludes: "A natural conception of nakedness: that is + the watchword of the future. All the hygienic, æsthetic, and + moral efforts of our time are pointing in that direction."</p> + +<p> Stratz, as befits one who has worked so strenuously in the cause + of human health and beauty, admirably sets forth the stage which + we have now attained in this matter. After pointing out (<i>Die + Frauenkleidung</i>, third edition, 1904, p. 30) that, in opposition + to the pagan world which worshipped naked gods, Christianity + developed the idea that nakedness was merely sexual, and + therefore immoral, he proceeds: "But over all glimmered on the + heavenly heights of the Cross, the naked body of the Saviour. + Under that protection there has gradually disengaged itself from + the confusion of ideas a new transfigured form of nakedness made + free after long struggle. I would call this <i>artistic nakedness</i>, + for as it was immortalized by the old Greeks through art, so also + among us it has been awakened to new life by art. Artistic + nakedness is, in its nature, much higher than either the natural + or the sensual conception of nakedness. The simple child of + Nature sees in nakedness nothing at all; the clothed man sees in + the uncovered body only a sensual irritation. But at the highest + standpoint man consciously returns to Nature, and recognizes that + under the manifold coverings of human <a name='6_Page_104'></a>fabrication there is + hidden the most splendid creature that God has created. One may + stand in silent, worshipping wonder before the sight; another may + be impelled to imitate and show to his fellow-man what in that + holy moment he has seen. But both enjoy the spectacle of human + beauty with full consciousness and enlightened purity of + thought."</p></div> + +<p>It was not, however, so much on these more spiritual sides, but on the +side of hygiene, that the nineteenth century furnished its chief practical +contribution to the new attitude towards nakedness.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Lord Monboddo, the Scotch judge, who was a pioneer in regard to + many modern ideas, had already in the eighteenth century realized + the hygienic value of "air-baths," and he invented that now + familiar name. "Lord Monboddo," says Boswell, in 1777 (<i>Life of + Johnson</i>, edited by Hill, vol. iii, p. 168) "told me that he + awaked every morning at four, and then for his health got up and + walked in his room naked, with the window open, which he called + taking <i>an air-bath</i>." It is said also, I know not on what + authority, that he made his beautiful daughters take an air-bath + naked on the terrace every morning. Another distinguished man of + the same century, Benjamin Franklin, used sometimes to work naked + in his study on hygienic grounds, and, it is recorded, once + affrighted a servant-girl by opening the door in an absent-minded + moment, thus unattired.</p> + +<p> Rikli seems to have been the apostle of air-baths and sun-baths + regarded as a systematic method. He established light-and + air-baths over half a century ago at Trieste and elsewhere in + Austria. His motto was: "Light, Truth, and Freedom are the motive + forces towards the highest development of physical and moral + health." Man is not a fish, he declared; light and air are the + first conditions of a highly organized life. Solaria for the + treatment of a number of different disordered conditions are now + commonly established, and most systems of natural therapeutics + attach prime importance to light and air, while in medicine + generally it is beginning to be recognized that such influences + can by no means be neglected. Dr. Fernand Sandoz, in his + <i>Introduction à la Thérapeutique Naturiste par les agents + Physiques et Dietétiques</i> (1907) sets forth such methods + comprehensively. In Germany sun-baths have become widely common; + thus Lenkei (in a paper summarized in <i>British Medical Journal</i>, + Oct. 31, 1908) prescribes them with much benefit in tuberculosis, + rheumatic conditions, obesity, anæmia, neurasthenia, etc. He + considers that their peculiar value lies in the action of light. + Professor J. N. Hyde, of Chicago, even believes ("Light-Hunger in + the Production of Psoriasis," <i>British Medical Journal</i>, Oct. 6, + 1906), that <a name='6_Page_105'></a>psoriasis is caused by deficiency of sunlight, and + is best cured by the application of light. This belief, which has + not, however, been generally accepted in its unqualified form, he + ingeniously supports by the fact that psoriasis tends to appear + on the most exposed parts of the body, which may be held to + naturally receive and require the maximum of light, and by the + absence of the disease in hot countries and among negroes.</p> + +<p> The hygienic value of nakedness is indicated by the robust health + of the savages throughout the world who go naked. The vigor of + the Irish, also, has been connected with the fact that (as Fynes + Moryson's <i>Itinerary</i> shows) both sexes, even among persons of + high social class, were accustomed to go naked except for a + mantle, especially in more remote parts of the country, as late + as the seventeenth century. Where-ever primitive races abandon + nakedness for clothing, at once the tendency to disease, + mortality, and degeneracy notably increases, though it must be + remembered that the use of clothing is commonly accompanied by + the introduction of other bad habits. "Nakedness is the only + condition universal among vigorous and healthy savages; at every + other point perhaps they differ," remarks Frederick Boyle in a + paper ("Savages and Clothes," <i>Monthly Review</i>, Sept., 1905) in + which he brings together much evidence concerning the hygienic + advantages of the natural human state in which man is "all face."</p> + +<p> It is in Germany that a return towards nakedness has been most + ably and thoroughly advocated, notably by Dr. H. Pudor in his + <i>Nackt-Cultur</i>, and by R. Ungewitter in <i>Die Nacktheit</i> (first + published in 1905), a book which has had a very large circulation + in many editions. These writers enthusiastically advocate + nakedness, not only on hygienic, but on moral and artistic + grounds. Pudor insists more especially that "nakedness, both in + gymnastics and in sport, is a method of cure and a method of + regeneration;" he advocates co-education in this culture of + nakedness. Although he makes large claims for + nakedness—believing that all the nations which have disregarded + these claims have rapidly become decadent—Pudor is less hopeful + than Ungewitter of any speedy victory over the prejudices opposed + to the culture of nakedness. He considers that the immediate task + is education, and that a practical commencement may best be made + with the foot which is specially in need of hygiene and exercise; + a large part of the first volume of his book is devoted to the + foot.</p></div> + +<p>As the matter is to-day viewed by those educationalists who are equally +alive to sanitary and sexual considerations, the claims of nakedness, so +far as concerns the young, are regarded as part alike of physical and +moral hygiene. The free contact of the naked body with air and water and +light makes for the health of <a name='6_Page_106'></a>the body; familiarity with the sight of the +body abolishes petty pruriencies, trains the sense of beauty, and makes +for the health of the soul. This double aspect of the matter has +undoubtedly weighed greatly with those teachers who now approve of customs +which, a few years ago, would have been hastily dismissed as "indecent." +There is still a wide difference of opinion as to the limits to which the +practice of nakedness may be carried, and also as to the age when it +should begin to be restricted. The fact that the adult generation of +to-day grew up under the influence of the old horror of nakedness is an +inevitable check on any revolutionary changes in these matters.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Maria Lischnewska, one of the ablest advocates of the methodical + enlightenment of children in matters of sex (<i>op. cit.</i>), clearly + realizes that a sane attitude towards the body lies at the root + of a sound education for life. She finds that the chief objection + encountered in such education, as applied in the higher classes + of schools, is "the horror of the civilized man at his own body." + She shows that there can be no doubt that those who are engaged + in the difficult task of working towards the abolition of that + superstitious horror have taken up a moral task of the first + importance.</p> + +<p> Walter Gerhard, in a thoughtful and sensible paper on the + educational question ("Ein Kapitel zur Erziehungsfrage," + <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, vol. i, Heft 2), points out that + it is the adult who needs education in this matter—as in so many + other matters of sexual enlightenment—considerably more than the + child. Parents educate their children from the earliest years in + prudery, and vainly flatter themselves that they have thereby + promoted their modesty and morality. He records his own early + life in a tropical land and accustomed to nakedness from the + first. "It was not till I came to Germany when nearly twenty that + I learnt that the human body is indecent, and that it must not be + shown because that 'would arouse bad impulses.' It was not till + the human body was entirely withdrawn from my sight and after I + was constantly told that there was something improper behind + clothes, that I was able to understand this.... Until then I had + not known that a naked body, by the mere fact of being naked, + could arouse erotic feelings. I had known erotic feelings, but + they had not arisen from the sight of the naked body, but + gradually blossomed from the union of our souls." And he draws + the final moral that, if only for the sake of our children, we + must learn to educate ourselves.</p> + +<p> Forel (<i>Die Sexuelle Frage</i>, p. 140), speaking in entirely the + same sense as Gerhard, remarks that prudery may be either caused + or cured <a name='6_Page_107'></a>in children. It may be caused by undue anxiety in + covering their bodies and hiding from them the bodies of others. + It may be cured by making them realize that there is nothing in + the body that is unnatural and that we need be ashamed of, and by + encouraging bathing of the sexes in common. He points out (p. + 512) the advantages of allowing children to be acquainted with + the adult forms which they will themselves some day assume, and + condemns the conduct of those foolish persons who assume that + children already possess the adult's erotic feelings about the + body. That is so far from being the case that children are + frequently unable to distinguish the sex of other children apart + from their clothes.</p> + +<p> At the Mannheim Congress of the German Society for Combating + Venereal Diseases, specially devoted to sexual hygiene, the + speakers constantly referred to the necessity of promoting + familiarity with the naked body. Thus Eulenburg and Julian + Marcuse (<i>Sexualpädagogik</i>, p. 264) emphasize the importance of + air-baths, not only for the sake of the physical health of the + young, but in the interests of rational sexual training. Höller, + a teacher, speaking at the same congress (<i>op. cit.</i>, p. 85), + after insisting on familiarity with the nude in art and + literature, and protesting against the bowdlerising of poems for + the young, continues: "By bathing-drawers ordinances no soul was + ever yet saved from moral ruin. One who has learnt to enjoy + peacefully the naked in art is only stirred by the naked in + nature as by a work of art." Enderlin, another teacher, speaking + in the same sense (p. 58), points out that nakedness cannot act + sexually or immorally on the child, since the sexual impulse has + not yet become pronounced, and the earlier he is introduced to + the naked in nature and in art, as a matter of course, the less + likely are the sexual feelings to be developed precociously. The + child thus, indeed, becomes immune to impure influences, so that + later, when representations of the nude are brought before him + for the object of provoking his wantonness, they are powerless to + injure him. It is important, Enderlin adds, for familiarity with + the nude in art to be learnt at school, for most of us, as + Siebert remarks, have to learn purity through art.</p> + +<p> Nakedness in bathing, remarks Bölsche in his <i>Liebesleben in der + Natur</i> (vol. iii, pp. 139 <i>et seq.</i>), we already in some measure + possess; we need it in physical exercises, at first for the sexes + separately; then, when we have grown accustomed to the idea, + occasionally for both sexes together. We need to acquire the + capacity to see the bodies of individuals of the other sex with + such self-control and such natural instinct that they become + non-erotic to us and can be gazed at without erotic feeling. Art, + he says, shows that this is possible in civilization. Science, he + adds, comes to the aid of the same view.</p> + +<p> Ungewitter (<i>Die Nacktheit</i>, p. 57) also advocates boys and girls + <a name='6_Page_108'></a>engaging in play and gymnastics together, entirely naked in + air-baths. "In this way," he believes, "the gymnasium would + become a school of morality, in which young growing things would + be able to retain their purity as long as possible through + becoming naturally accustomed to each other. At the same time + their bodies would be hardened and developed, and the perception + of beautiful and natural forms awakened." To those who have any + "moral" doubts on the matter, he mentions the custom in remote + country districts of boys and girls bathing together quite naked + and without any sexual consciousness. Rudolf Sommer, similarly, + in an excellent article entitled "Mädchenerziehung oder + Menschenbildung?" (<i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, Bd. i, Heft 3) + advises that children should be made accustomed to each other's + nakedness from an early age in the family life of the house or + the garden, in games, and especially in bathing; he remarks that + parents having children of only one sex should cultivate for + their children's sake intimate relations with a family having + children of like age of the opposite sex, so that they may grow + up together.</p></div> + +<p>It is scarcely necessary to add that the cultivation of nakedness must +always be conciliated with respect for the natural instincts of modesty. +If the practice of nakedness led the young to experience a diminished +reverence for their own or others' personalities the advantages of it +would be too dearly bought. This is, in part, a matter of wholesome +instinct, in part of wise training. We now know that the absence of +clothes has little relation with the absence of modesty, such relation as +there is being of the inverse order, for the savage races which go naked +are usually more modest than those which wear clothes. The saying quoted +by Herodotus in the early Greek world that "A woman takes off her modesty +with her shift" was a favorite text of the Christian Fathers. But +Plutarch, who was also a moralist, had already protested against it at the +close of the Greek world: "By no means," he declared, "she who is modest +clothes herself with modesty when she lays aside her tunic." "A woman may +be naked," as Mrs. Bishop, the traveller, remarked to Dr. Baelz, in Japan, +"and yet behave like a lady."<a name='6_FNanchor_42'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_42'><sup>[42]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The question is complicated among ourselves because established +<a name='6_Page_109'></a>traditions of rigid concealment have fostered a pruriency which is an +offensive insult to naked modesty. In many lands the women who are +accustomed to be almost or quite naked in the presence of their own people +cover themselves as soon as they become conscious of the lustful +inquisitive eyes of Europeans. Stratz refers to the prevalence of this +impulse of offended modesty in Japan, and mentions that he himself failed +to arouse it simply because he was a physician, and, moreover, had long +lived in another land (Java) where also the custom of nakedness +prevails.<a name='6_FNanchor_43'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_43'><sup>[43]</sup></a> So long as this unnatural prurience exists a free +unqualified nakedness is rendered difficult.</p> + +<p>Modesty is not, however, the only natural impulse which has to be +considered in relation to the custom of nakedness. It seems probable that +in cultivating the practice of nakedness we are not merely carrying out a +moral and hygienic prescription but allowing legitimate scope to an +instinct which at some periods of life, especially in adolescence, is +spontaneous and natural, even, it may be, wholesomely based in the +traditions of the race in sexual selection. Our rigid conventions make it +impossible for us to discover the laws of nature in this matter by +stifling them at the outset. It may well be that there is a rhythmic +harmony and concordance between impulses of modesty and impulses of +ostentation, though we have done our best to disguise the natural law by +our stupid and perverse by-laws.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Stanley Hall, who emphasizes the importance of nakedness, remarks + that at puberty we have much reason to assume that in a state of + nature there is a certain instinctive pride and ostentation that + accompanies the new local development, and quotes the observation + of Dr. Seerley that the impulse to conceal the sexual organs is + especially marked in young men who are underdeveloped, but not + evident in those who are developed beyond the average. Stanley + Hall (<i>Adolescence</i>, vol. ii, p. 97), also refers to the + frequency with which not only "virtuous young men, but even + women, rather glory in occasions when they can display the beauty + of their forms without reserve, not only to themselves and to + loved ones, but even to others with proper pretexts."</p> + +<p> Many have doubtless noted this tendency, especially in women, and + <a name='6_Page_110'></a>chiefly in those who are conscious of beautiful physical + development. Madame Céline Renooz believes that the tendency + corresponds to a really deep-rooted instinct in women, little or + not at all manifested in men who have consequently sought to + impose artificially on women their own masculine conceptions of + modesty. "In the actual life of the young girl to-day there is a + moment when, by a secret atavism, she feels the pride of her sex, + the intuition of her moral superiority and cannot understand why + she must hide its cause. At this moment, wavering between the + laws of Nature and social conventions, she scarcely knows if + nakedness should, or should not, affright her. A sort of confused + atavistic memory recalls to her a period before clothing was + known, and reveals to her as a paradisaical ideal the customs of + that human epoch" (Céline Renooz, <i>Psychologie Comparée de + l'Homme et de la Femme</i>, pp. 85-87). Perhaps this was obscurely + felt by the German girl (mentioned in Kalbeck's <i>Life of + Brahms</i>), who said: "One enjoys music twice as much + <i>décolletée</i>."</p></div> + +<p>From the point of view with which we are here essentially concerned there +are three ways in which the cultivation of nakedness—so far as it is +permitted by the slow education of public opinion—tends to exert an +influence: (1) It is an important element in the sexual hygiene of the +young, introducing a wholesome knowledge and incuriosity into a sphere +once given up to prudery and pruriency. (2) The effect of nakedness is +beneficial on those of more mature age, also, in so far as it tends to +cultivate the sense of beauty and to furnish the tonic and consoling +influences of natural vigor and grace. (3) The custom of nakedness, in its +inception at all events, has a dynamic psychological influence also on +morals, an influence exerted in the substitution of a strenuous and +positive morality for the merely negative and timid morality which has +ruled in this sphere.</p> + +<p>Perhaps there are not many adults who realize the intense and secret +absorption of thought in the minds of many boys and some girls concerning +the problem of the physical conformation of the other sex, and the time, +patience, and intellectual energy which they are willing to expend on the +solution of this problem. This is mostly effected in secret, but not +seldom the secret impulse manifests itself with a sudden violence which in +the blind eyes of the law is reckoned as crime. A German lawyer, Dr. +Werthauer, has lately stated that if there were a due degree <a name='6_Page_111'></a>of +familiarity with the natural organs and functions of the opposite sex +ninety per cent. of the indecent acts of youths with girl children would +disappear, for in most cases these are not assaults but merely the +innocent, though uncontrollable, outcome of a repressed natural curiosity. +It is quite true that not a few children boldly enlist each others' +coöperation in the settlement of the question and resolve it to their +mutual satisfaction. But even this is not altogether satisfactory, for the +end is not attained openly and wholesomely, with a due subordination of +the specifically sexual, but with a consciousness of wrong-doing and an +exclusive attentiveness to the merely physical fact which tend directly to +develop sexual excitement. When familiarity with the naked body of the +other sex is gained openly and with no consciousness of indecorum, in the +course of work and of play, in exercise or gymnastics, in running or in +bathing, from a child's earliest years, no unwholesome results accompany +the knowledge of the essential facts of physical conformation thus +naturally acquired. The prurience and prudery which have poisoned sexual +life in the past are alike rendered impossible.</p> + +<p>Nakedness has, however, a hygienic value, as well as a spiritual +significance, far beyond its influences in allaying the natural +inquisitiveness of the young or acting as a preventative of morbid +emotion. It is an inspiration to adults who have long outgrown any +youthful curiosities. The vision of the essential and eternal human form, +the nearest thing to us in all the world, with its vigor and its beauty +and its grace, is one of the prime tonics of life. "The power of a woman's +body," said James Hinton, "is no more bodily than the power of music is a +power of atmospheric vibrations." It is more than all the beautiful and +stimulating things of the world, than flowers or stars or the sea. History +and legend and myth reveal to us the sacred and awful influence of +nakedness, for, as Stanley Hall says, nakedness has always been "a +talisman of wondrous power with gods and men." How sorely men crave for +the spectacle of the human body—even to-day after generations have +inculcated the notion that it is an indecorous and even disgusting +spectacle—is <a name='6_Page_112'></a>witnessed by the eagerness with which they seek after the +spectacle of even its imperfect and meretricious forms, although these +certainly possess a heady and stimulating quality which can never be found +in the pathetic simplicity of naked beauty. It was another spectacle when +the queens of ancient Madagascar at the annual Fandroon, or feast of the +bath, laid aside their royal robes and while their subjects crowded the +palace courtyard, descended the marble steps to the bath in complete +nakedness. When we make our conventions of clothing rigid we at once +spread a feast for lust and deny ourselves one of the prime tonics of +life.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"I was feeling in despair and walking despondently along a + Melbourne street," writes the Australian author of a yet + unpublished autobiography, "when three children came running out + of a lane and crossed the road in full daylight. The beauty and + texture of their legs in the open air filled me with joy, so that + I forgot all my troubles whilst looking at them. It was a bright + revelation, an unexpected glimpse of Paradise, and I have never + ceased to thank the happy combination of shape, pure blood, and + fine skin of these poverty-stricken children, for the wind seemed + to quicken their golden beauty, and I retained the rosy vision of + their natural young limbs, so much more divine than those always + under cover. Another occasion when naked young limbs made me + forget all my gloom and despondency was on my first visit to + Adelaide. I came on a naked boy leaning on the railing near the + Baths, and the beauty of his face, torso, fair young limbs and + exquisite feet filled me with joy and renewed hope. The tears + came to my eyes, and I said to myself, 'While there is beauty in + the world I will continue to struggle,'"</p> + +<p> We must, as Bölsche declares (<i>loc. cit.</i>), accustom ourselves to + gaze on the naked human body exactly as we gaze at a beautiful + flower, not merely with the pity with which the doctor looks at + the body, but with joy in its strength and health and beauty. For + a flower, as Bölsche truly adds, is not merely "naked body," it + is the most sacred region of the body, the sexual organs of the + plant.</p> + +<p> "For girls to dance naked," said Hinton, "is the only truly pure + form of dancing, and in due time it must therefore come about. + This is certain: girls will dance naked and men will be pure + enough to gaze on them." It has already been so in Greece, he + elsewhere remarks, as it is to-day in Japan (as more recently + described by Stratz). It is nearly forty years since these + prophetic words were written, but Hinton himself would probably + have been surprised at the progress which has <a name='6_Page_113'></a>already been made + slowly (for all true progress must be slow) towards this goal. + Even on the stage new and more natural traditions are beginning + to prevail in Europe. It is not many years since an English + actress regarded as a calumny the statement that she appeared on + the stage bare-foot, and brought an action for libel, winning + substantial damages. Such a result would scarcely be possible + to-day. The movement in which Isadora Duncan was a pioneer has + led to a partial disuse among dancers of the offensive device of + tights, and it is no longer considered indecorous to show many + parts of the body which it was formerly usual to cover.</p> + +<p> It should, however, be added at the same time that, while + dancers, in so far as they are genuine artists, are entitled to + determine the conditions most favorable to their art, nothing + whatever is gained for the cause of a wholesome culture of + nakedness by the "living statues" and "living pictures" which + have obtained an international vogue during recent years. These + may be legitimate as variety performances, but they have nothing + whatever to do with either Nature or art. Dr. Pudor, writing as + one of the earliest apostles of the culture of nakedness, has + energetically protested against these performances + (<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Dec., 1908, p. 828). He rightly points out + that nakedness, to be wholesome, requires the open air, the + meadows, the sunlight, and that nakedness at night, in a music + hall, by artificial light, in the presence of spectators who are + themselves clothed, has no element of morality about it. Attempts + have here and there been quietly made to cultivate a certain + amount of mutual nakedness as between the sexes on remote country + excursions. It is significant to find a record of such an + experiment in Ungewitter's <i>Die Nacktheit</i>. In this case a party + of people, men and women, would regularly every Sunday seek + remote spots in woods or meadows where they would settle down, + picnic, and enjoy games. "They made themselves as comfortable as + possible, the men laying aside their coats, waistcoats, boots and + socks; the women their blouses, skirts, shoes and stockings. + Gradually, as the moral conception of nakedness developed in + their minds, more and more clothing fell away, until the men wore + nothing but bathing-drawers and the women only their chemises. In + this 'costume' games were carried out in common, and a regular + camp-life led. The ladies (some of whom were unmarried) would + then lie in hammocks and we men on the grass, and the intercourse + was delightful. We felt as members of one family, and behaved + accordingly. In an entirely natural and unembarrassed way we gave + ourselves up entirely to the liberating feelings aroused by this + light- and air-bath, and passed these splendid hours in joyous + singing and dancing, in wantonly childish fashion, freed from the + burden of a false civilization. It was, of course, necessary to + seek spots as remote as possible from high-roads, for fear of + being disturbed. At the same time we by <a name='6_Page_114'></a>no means failed in + natural modesty and consideration towards one another. Children, + who can be entirely naked, may be allowed to take part in such + meetings of adults, and will thus be brought up free from morbid + prudery" (R. Ungewitter, <i>Die Nacktheit</i>, p. 58).</p> + +<p> No doubt it may be said that the ideal in this matter is the + possibility of permitting complete nakedness. This may be + admitted, and it is undoubtedly true that our rigid police + regulations do much to artificially foster a concealment in this + matter which is not based on any natural instinct. Dr. Shufeldt + narrates in his <i>Studies of the Human Form</i> that once in the + course of a photographic expedition in the woods he came upon two + boys, naked except for bathing-drawers, engaged in getting water + lilies from a pond. He found them a good subject for his camera, + but they could not be induced to remove their drawers, by no + means out of either modesty or mock-modesty, but simply because + they feared they might possibly be caught and arrested. We have + to recognize that at the present day the general popular + sentiment is not yet sufficiently educated to allow of public + disregard for the convention of covering the sexual centres, and + all attempts to extend the bounds of nakedness must show a due + regard for this requirement. As concerns women, Valentin Lehr, of + Freiburg, in Breisgau, has invented a costume (figured in + Ungewitter's <i>Die Nacktheit</i>) which is suitable for either public + water-baths or air-baths, because it meets the demand of those + whose minimum requirement is that the chief sexual centres of the + body should be covered in public, while it is otherwise fairly + unobjectionable. It consists of two pieces, made of porous + material, one covering the breasts with a band over the + shoulders, and the other covering the abdomen below the navel and + drawn between the legs. This minimal costume, while neither ideal + nor æsthetic, adequately covers the sexual regions of the body, + while leaving the arms, waist, hips, and legs entirely free.</p></div> + +<p>There finally remains the moral aspect of nakedness. Although this has +been emphasized by many during the past half century it is still +unfamiliar to the majority. The human body can never be a little thing. +The wise educator may see to it that boys and girls are brought up in a +natural and wholesome familiarity with each other, but a certain terror +and beauty must always attach to the spectacle of the body, a mixed +attraction and repulsion. Because it has this force it naturally calls out +the virtue of those who take part in the spectacle, and makes impossible +any soft compliance to emotion. Even if we admit that the spectacle of +nakedness is a challenge to passion it is still <a name='6_Page_115'></a>a challenge that calls +out the ennobling qualities of self-control. It is but a poor sort of +virtue that lies in fleeing into the desert from things that we fear may +have in them a temptation. We have to learn that it is even worse to +attempt to create a desert around us in the midst of civilization. We +cannot dispense with passions if we would; reason, as Holbach said, is the +art of choosing the right passions, and education the art of sowing and +cultivating them in human hearts. The spectacle of nakedness has its moral +value in teaching us to learn to enjoy what we do not possess, a lesson +which is an essential part of the training for any kind of fine social +life. The child has to learn to look at flowers and not pluck them; the +man has to learn to look at a woman's beauty and not desire to possess it. +The joyous conquest over that "erotic kleptomania," as Ellen Key has well +said, reveals the blossoming of a fine civilization. We fancy the conquest +is difficult, even impossibly difficult. But it is not so. This impulse, +like other human impulses, tends under natural conditions to develop +temperately and wholesomely. We artificially press a stupid and brutal +hand on it, and it is driven into the two unnatural extremes of repression +and license, one extreme as foul as the other.</p> + +<p>To those who have been bred under bad conditions, it may indeed seem +hopeless to attempt to rise to the level of the Greeks and the other finer +tempered peoples of antiquity in realizing the moral, as well as the +pedagogic, hygienic, and æsthetic advantages<a name='6_FNanchor_44'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_44'><sup>[44]</sup></a> of admitting into life +the spectacle of the naked human <a name='6_Page_116'></a>body. But unless we do we hopelessly +fetter ourselves in our march along the road of civilization, we deprive +ourselves at once of a source of moral strength and of joyous inspiration. +Just as Wesley once asked why the devil should have all the best tunes, so +to-day men are beginning to ask why the human body, the most divine melody +at its finest moments that creation has yielded, should be allowed to +become the perquisite of those who lust for the obscene. And some are, +further, convinced that by enlisting it on the side of purity and strength +they are raising the most powerful of all bulwarks against the invasion of +a vicious conception of life and the consequent degradation of sex. These +are considerations which we cannot longer afford to neglect, however great +the opposition they arouse among the unthinking.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"Folk are afraid of such things rousing the passions," Edward + Carpenter remarks. "No doubt the things may act that way. But + why, we may ask, should people be afraid of rousing passions + which, after all, are the great driving forces of human life?" It + is true, the same writer continues, our conventional moral + formulæ are no longer strong enough to control passion + adequately, and that we are generating steam in a boiler that is + cankered with rust. "The cure is not to cut off the passions, or + to be weakly afraid of them, but to find a new, sound, healthy + engine of general morality and common sense within which they + will work" (Edward Carpenter, <i>Albany Review</i>, Sept., 1907).</p> + +<p> So far as I am aware, however, it was James Hinton who chiefly + sought to make clear the possibility of a positive morality on + the basis of nakedness, beauty, and sexual influence, regarded as + dynamic forces which, when suppressed, make for corruption and + when wisely used serve to inspire and ennoble life. He worked out + his thoughts on this matter in MSS., written from about 1870 to + his death two years later, which, never having been prepared for + publication, remain in a fragmentary state and have not been + published. I quote a few brief characteristic passages: "Is not," + he wrote, "the Hindu refusal to see a woman eating strangely like + ours to see one naked? The real sensuality of the thought is + visibly identical.... Suppose, because they are delicious to eat, + pineapples were forbidden to be seen, except in pictures, and + about that there was something dubious. Suppose no one might have + sight of a pineapple unless he were rich enough to purchase one + for his particular eating, the sight and the eating being so + indissolubly joined. What lustfulness would surround them, what + constant pruriency, what stealing!... Miss —— told us of her + Syrian adventures, and how she went into a wood-carver's shop and + he <a name='6_Page_117'></a>would not look at her; and how she took up a tool and worked, + till at last he looked, and they both burst out laughing. Will it + not be even so with our looking at women altogether? There will + come a <i>work</i>—and at last we shall look up and both burst out + laughing.... When men see truly what is amiss, and act with + reason and forethought in respect to the sexual relations, will + they not insist on the enjoyment of women's beauty by youths, and + from the earliest age, that the first feeling may be of beauty? + Will they not say, 'We must not allow the false purity, we must + have the true.' The false has been tried, and it is not good + enough; the power purely to enjoy beauty must be gained; + attempting to do with less is fatal. Every instructor of youth + shall say: 'This beauty of woman, God's chief work of beauty, it + is good you see it; it is a pleasure that serves good; all beauty + serves it, and above all this, for its office is to make you + pure. Come to it as you come to daily bread, or pure air, or the + cleansing bath: this is pure to you if you be pure, it will aid + you in your effort to be so. But if any of you are impure, and + make of it the feeder of impurity, then you should be ashamed and + pray; it is not for you our life can be ordered; it is for men + and not for beasts.' This must come when men open their eyes, and + act coolly and with reason and forethought, and not in mere panic + in respect to the sexual passion in its moral relations."</p></div> + +<hr /> + +<a name='6_Footnote_40'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_40'>[40]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus Athenæus (Bk. xiii, Ch. XX) says: "In the Island of +Chios it is a beautiful sight to go to the gymnasia and the race-courses, +and to see the young men wrestling naked with the maidens who are also +naked."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_41'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_41'>[41]</a><div class='note'><p> Augustine (<i>De civitate Dei</i>, lib. ii, cap. XIII) refers to +the same point, contrasting the Romans with the Greeks who honored their +actors.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_42'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_42'>[42]</a><div class='note'><p> See "The Evolution of Modesty" in the first volume of these +<i>Studies</i>, where this question of the relationship of nakedness to modesty +is fully discussed.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_43'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_43'>[43]</a><div class='note'><p> C. H. Stratz, <i>Die Körperformen in Kunst und Leben der +Japaner</i>, Second edition, Ch. III; <i>id.</i>, <i>Frauenkleidung</i>, Third edition, +pp. 22, 30.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_44'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_44'>[44]</a><div class='note'><p> I have not considered it in place here to emphasize the +æsthetic influence of familiarity with nakedness. The most æsthetic +nations (notably the Greeks and the Japanese) have been those that +preserved a certain degree of familiarity with the naked body. "In all +arts," Maeterlinck remarks, "civilized peoples have approached or departed +from pure beauty according as they approached or departed from the habit +of nakedness." Ungewitter insists on the advantage to the artist of being +able to study the naked body in movement, and it may be worth mentioning +that Fidus (Hugo Höppener), the German artist of to-day who has exerted +great influence by his fresh, powerful and yet reverent delineation of the +naked human form in all its varying aspects, attributes his inspiration +and vision to the fact that, as a pupil of Diefenbach, he was accustomed +with his companions to work naked in the solitudes outside Munich which +they frequented (F. Enzensberger, "Fidus," <i>Deutsche Kultur</i>, Aug., +1906).</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_CHAPTER_IV'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_118'></a>CHAPTER IV.</h2> + +<h3>THE VALUATION OF SEXUAL LOVE.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Conception of Sexual Love—The Attitude of Mediæval Asceticism—St. +Bernard and St. Odo of Cluny—The Ascetic Insistence on the Proximity of +the Sexual and Excretory Centres—Love as a Sacrament of Nature—The Idea +of the Impurity of Sex in Primitive Religions Generally—Theories of the +Origin of This Idea—The Anti-Ascetic Element in the Bible and Early +Christianity—Clement of Alexandria—St. Augustine's Attitude—The +Recognition of the Sacredness of the Body by Tertullian, Rufinus and +Athanasius—The Reformation—The Sexual Instinct regarded as Beastly—The +Human Sexual Instinct Not Animal-like—Lust and Love—The Definition of +Love—Love and Names for Love Unknown in Some Parts of the World—Romantic +Love of Late Development in the White Race—The Mystery of Sexual +Desire—Whether Love is a Delusion—The Spiritual as Well as the Physical +Structure of the World in Part Built up on Sexual Love—The Testimony of +Men of Intellect to the Supremacy of Love.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>It will be seen that the preceding discussion of nakedness has a +significance beyond what it appeared to possess at the outset. The +hygienic value, physically and mentally, of familiarity with nakedness +during the early years of life, however considerable it may be, is not the +only value which such familiarity possesses. Beyond its æsthetic value, +also, there lies in it a moral value, a source of dynamic energy. And now, +taking a still further step, we may say that it has a spiritual value in +relation to our whole conception of the sexual impulse. Our attitude +towards the naked human body is the test of our attitude towards the +instinct of sex. If our own and our fellows' bodies seem to us +intrinsically shameful or disgusting, nothing will ever really ennoble or +purify our conceptions of sexual love. Love craves the flesh, and if the +flesh is shameful the lover must be shameful. "Se la cosa amata è vile," +as Leonardo da Vinci profoundly said, "l'amante se fa vile." However +illogical it may have been, there really was a justification for the old +Christian identification of the flesh with the sexual instinct. They stand +or fall <a name='6_Page_119'></a>together; we cannot degrade the one and exalt the other. As our +feelings towards nakedness are, so will be our feelings towards love.</p> + +<p>"Man is nothing else than fetid sperm, a sack of dung, the food of +worms.... You have never seen a viler dung-hill." Such was the outcome of +St. Bernard's cloistered <i>Meditationes Piissimæ</i>.<a name='6_FNanchor_45'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_45'><sup>[45]</sup></a> Sometimes, indeed, +these mediæval monks would admit that the skin possessed a certain +superficial beauty, but they only made that admission in order to +emphasize the hideousness of the body when deprived of this film of +loveliness, and strained all their perverse intellectual acumen, and their +ferocious irony, as they eagerly pointed the finger of mockery at every +detail of what seemed to them the pitiful figure of man. St. Odo of +Cluny—charming saint as he was and a pioneer in his appreciation of the +wild beauty of the Alps he had often traversed—was yet an adept in this +art of reviling the beauty of the human body. That beauty only lies in the +skin, he insists; if we could see beneath the skin women would arouse +nothing but nausea. Their adornments are but blood and mucus and bile. If +we refuse to touch dung and phlegm even with a fingertip, how can we +desire to embrace a sack of dung?<a name='6_FNanchor_46'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_46'><sup>[46]</sup></a> The mediæval monks of the more +contemplative order, indeed, often found here a delectable field of +meditation, and the Christian world generally was content to accept their +opinions in more or less diluted versions, or at all events never made any +definite protest against them.</p> +<a name='6_Page_120'></a> +<p>Even men of science accepted these conceptions and are, indeed, only now +beginning to emancipate themselves from such ancient superstitions. R. de +Graef in the Preface to his famous treatise on the generative organs of +women, <i>De Mulierum Organis Generatione Inservientibus</i>, dedicated to +Cosmo III de Medici in 1672, considered it necessary to apologize for the +subject of his work. Even a century later, Linnæus in his great work, <i>The +System of Nature</i>, dismissed as "abominable" the exact study of the female +genitals, although he admitted the scientific interest of such +investigations. And if men of science have found it difficult to attain an +objective vision of women we cannot be surprised that medieval and still +more ancient conceptions have often been subtly mingled with the views of +philosophical and semi-philosophical writers.<a name='6_FNanchor_47'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_47'><sup>[47]</sup></a></p> + +<p>We may regard as a special variety of the ascetic view of sex,—for the +ascetics, as we see, freely but not quite legitimately, based their +asceticism largely on æsthetic considerations,—that insistence on the +proximity of the sexual to the excretory centres which found expression in +the early Church in Augustine's depreciatory assertion: "Inter fæces et +urinam nascimur," and still persists among many who by no means always +associate it with religious asceticism.<a name='6_FNanchor_48'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_48'><sup>[48]</sup></a> "As a result of what +ridiculous economy, and of what Mephistophilian irony," asks Tarde,<a name='6_FNanchor_49'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_49'><sup>[49]</sup></a> +"has Nature imagined that a function so lofty, so worthy of the poetic and +philosophical hymns which have celebrated it, only deserved to have its +exclusive organ shared with that of the vilest corporal functions?"</p> + +<p>It may, however, be pointed out that this view of the matter, however +unconsciously, is itself the outcome of the ascetic depreciation of the +body. From a scientific point of view, the <a name='6_Page_121'></a>metabolic processes of the +body from one end to the other, whether regarded chemically or +psychologically, are all interwoven and all of equal dignity. We cannot +separate out any particular chemical or biological process and declare: +This is vile. Even what we call excrement still stores up the stuff of our +lives. Eating has to some persons seemed a disgusting process. But yet it +has been possible to say, with Thoreau, that "the gods have really +intended that men should feed divinely, as themselves, on their own nectar +and ambrosia.... I have felt that eating became a sacrament, a method of +communion, an ecstatic exercise, and a sitting at the communion table of +the world."</p> + +<p>The sacraments of Nature are in this way everywhere woven into the texture +of men's and women's bodies. Lips good to kiss with are indeed first of +all chiefly good to eat and drink with. So accumulated and overlapped have +the centres of force become in the long course of development, that the +mucous membranes of the natural orifices, through the sensitiveness gained +in their own offices, all become agents to thrill the soul in the contact +of love; it is idle to discriminate high or low, pure or impure; all alike +are sanctified already by the extreme unction of Nature. The nose receives +the breath of life; the vagina receives the water of life. Ultimately the +worth and loveliness of life must be measured by the worth and loveliness +for us of the instruments of life. The swelling breasts are such divinely +gracious insignia of womanhood because of the potential child that hangs +at them and sucks; the large curves of the hips are so voluptuous because +of the potential child they clasp within them; there can be no division +here, we cannot cut the roots from the tree. The supreme function of +manhood—the handing on of the lamp of life to future races—is carried +on, it is true, by the same instrument that is the daily conduit of the +bladder. It has been said in scorn that we are born between urine and +excrement; it may be said, in reverence, that the passage through this +channel of birth is a sacrament of Nature's more sacred and significant +than men could ever invent.</p> + +<p>These relationships have been sometimes perceived and their meaning +realized by a sort of mystical intuition. We catch <a name='6_Page_122'></a>glimpses of such an +insight now and again, first among the poets and later among the +physicians of the Renaissance. In 1664 Rolfincius, in his <i>Ordo et Methods +Generationi Partium etc.</i>, at the outset of the second Part devoted to the +sexual organs of women, sets forth what ancient writers have said of the +Eleusinian and other mysteries and the devotion and purity demanded of +those who approached these sacred rites. It is so also with us, he +continues, in the rites of scientific investigation. "We also operate with +sacred things. The organs of sex are to be held among sacred things. They +who approach these altars must come with devout minds. Let the profane +stand without, and the doors be closed." In those days, even for science, +faith and intuition were alone possible. It is only of recent years that +the histologist's microscope and the physiological chemist's test-tube +have furnished them with a rational basis. It is no longer possible to cut +Nature in two and assert that here she is pure and there impure.<a name='6_FNanchor_50'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_50'><sup>[50]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>There thus appears to be no adequate ground for agreeing with + those who consider that the proximity of the generative and + excretory centres is "a stupid bungle of Nature's." An + association which is so ancient and primitive in Nature can only + seem repulsive to those whose feelings have become morbidly + unnatural. It may further be remarked that the anus, which is the + more æsthetically unattractive of the excretory centres, is + comparatively remote from the sexual centre, and that, as R. + Hellmann remarked many years ago in discussing this question + (<i>Ueber Geschlechtsfreiheit</i>, p. 82): "In the first place, + freshly voided urine has nothing specially unpleasant about it, + and in the second place, even if it had, we might reflect that a + rosy mouth by no means loses its charm merely because it fails to + invite a kiss at the moment when its possessor is vomiting."</p> + +<p> A clergyman writes suggesting that we may go further and find a + positive advantage in this proximity: "I am glad that you do not + agree with the man who considered that Nature had bungled by + using the genitals for urinary purposes; apart from teleological + or theological grounds I could not follow that line of reasoning. + I think there is no need for disgust concerning the urinary + organs, though I feel that the <a name='6_Page_123'></a>anus can never be attractive to + the normal mind; but the anus is quite separate from the + genitals. I would suggest that the proximity serves a good end in + making the organs more or less secret except at times of sexual + emotion or to those in love. The result is some degree of + repulsion at ordinary times and a strong attraction at times of + sexual activity. Hence, the ordinary guarding of the parts, from + fear of creating disgust, greatly increases their attractiveness + at other times when sexual emotion is paramount. Further, the + feeling of disgust itself is merely the result of habit and + sentiment, however useful it may be, and according to Scripture + everything is clean and good. The ascetic feeling of repulsion, + if we go back to origin, is due to other than Christian + influence. Christianity came out of Judaism which had no sense of + the impurity of marriage, for 'unclean' in the Old Testament + simply means 'sacred.' The ascetic side of the religion of + Christianity is no part of the religion of Christ as it came from + the hands of its Founder, and the modern feeling on this matter + is a lingering remnant of the heresy of the Manichæans." I may + add, however, that, as Northcote points out (<i>Christianity and + Sex Problems</i>, p. 14), side by side in the Old Testament with the + frank recognition of sexuality, there is a circle of ideas + revealing the feeling of impurity in sex and of shame in + connection with it. Christianity inherited this mixed feeling. It + has really been a widespread and almost universal feeling among + the ancient and primitive peoples that there is something impure + and sinful in the things of sex, so that those who would lead a + religious life must avoid sexual relationships; even in India + celibacy has commanded respect (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Westermarck, + <i>Marriage</i>, pp. 150 <i>et seq.</i>). As to the original foundation of + this notion—which it is unnecessary to discuss more fully + here—many theories have been put forward; St. Augustine, in his + <i>De Civitate Dei</i>, sets forth the ingenious idea that the penis, + being liable to spontaneous movements and erections that are not + under the control of the will, is a shameful organ and involves + the whole sphere of sex in its shame. Westermarck argues that + among nearly all peoples there is a feeling against sexual + relationship with members of the same family or household, and as + sex was thus banished from the sphere of domestic life a notion + of its general impurity arose; Northcote points out that from the + first it has been necessary to seek concealment for sexual + intercourse, because at that moment the couple would be a prey to + hostile attacks, and that it was by an easy transition that sex + came to be regarded as a thing that ought to be concealed, and, + therefore, a sinful thing. (Diderot, in his <i>Supplément au Voyage + de Bougainville</i>, had already referred to this motive for + seclusion as "the only natural element in modesty.") Crawley has + devoted a large part of his suggestive work, <i>The Mystic Rose</i>, + to showing that, to savage man, sex is a perilous, dangerous, and + enfeebling element in life, and, therefore, sinful.</p></div><a name='6_Page_124'></a> + +<p>It would, however, be a mistake to think that such men as St. Bernard and +St. Odo of Cluny, admirably as they represented the ascetic and even the +general Christian views of their own time, are to be regarded as +altogether typical exponents of the genuine and primitive Christian view. +So far as I have been able to discover, during the first thousand years of +Christianity we do not find this concentrated intellectual and emotional +ferocity of attack on the body; it only developed at the moment when, with +Pope Gregory VII, mediæval Christianity reached the climax of its conquest +over the souls of European men, in the establishment of the celibacy of +the secular clergy, and the growth of the great cloistered communities of +monks in severely regulated and secluded orders.<a name='6_FNanchor_51'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_51'><sup>[51]</sup></a> Before that the +teachers of asceticism were more concerned to exhort to chastity and +modesty than to direct a deliberate and systematic attack on the whole +body; they concentrated their attention rather on spiritual virtues than +on physical imperfections. And if we go back to the Gospels we find little +of the mediæval ascetic spirit in the reported sayings and doings of +Jesus, which may rather indeed be said to reveal, on the whole, +notwithstanding their underlying asceticism, a certain tenderness and +indulgence to the body, while even Paul, though not tender towards the +body, exhorts to reverence towards it as a temple of the Holy Spirit.</p> + +<p>We cannot expect to find the Fathers of the Church sympathetic towards the +spectacle of the naked human body, for their position was based on a +revolt against paganism, and paganism had cultivated the body. Nakedness +had been more especially associated with the public bath, the gymnasium, +and the theatre; in profoundly disapproving of these pagan institutions +Christianity <a name='6_Page_125'></a>discouraged nakedness. The fact that familiarity with +nakedness was favorable, rather than opposed, to the chastity to which it +attached so much importance, the Church—though indeed at one moment it +accepted nakedness in the rite of baptism—was for the most part unable to +see if it was indeed a fact which the special conditions of decadent +classic life had tended to disguise. But in their decided preference for +the dressed over the naked human body the early Christians frequently +hesitated to take the further step of asserting that the body is a focus +of impurity and that the physical organs of sex are a device of the devil. +On the contrary, indeed, some of the most distinguished of the Fathers, +especially those of the Eastern Church who had felt the vivifying breath +of Greek thought, occasionally expressed themselves on the subject of +Nature, sex, and the body in a spirit which would have won the approval of +Goethe or Whitman.</p> + +<p>Clement of Alexandria, with all the eccentricities of his over-subtle +intellect, was yet the most genuinely Greek of all the Fathers, and it is +not surprising that the dying ray of classic light reflected from his mind +shed some illumination over this question of sex. He protested, for +instance, against that prudery which, as the sun of the classic world set, +had begun to overshadow life. "We should not be ashamed to name," he +declared, "what God has not been ashamed to create."<a name='6_FNanchor_52'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_52'><sup>[52]</sup></a> It was a +memorable declaration because, while it accepted the old classic feeling +of no shame in the presence of nature, it put that feeling on a new and +religious basis harmonious to Christianity. Throughout, though not always +quite consistently, Clement defends the body and the functions of sex +against those who treated them with contempt. And as the cause of sex is +the cause of women he always strongly asserts the dignity of women, and +also proclaims the holiness of marriage, a state which he sometimes places +above that of virginity.<a name='6_FNanchor_53'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_53'><sup>[53]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Unfortunately, it must be said, St. Augustine—another<a name='6_Page_126'></a> North African, but +of Roman Carthage and not of Greek Alexandria—thought that he had a +convincing answer to the kind of argument which Clement presented, and so +great was the force of his passionate and potent genius that he was able +in the end to make his answer prevail. For Augustine sin was hereditary, +and sin had its special seat and symbol in the sexual organs; the fact of +sin has modified the original divine act of creation, and we cannot treat +sex and its organs as though there had been no inherited sin. Our sexual +organs, he declares, have become shameful because, through sin, they are +now moved by lust. At the same time Augustine by no means takes up the +mediæval ascetic position of contemptuous hatred towards the body. Nothing +can be further from Odo of Cluny than Augustine's enthusiasm about the +body, even about the exquisite harmony of the parts beneath the skin. "I +believe it may be concluded," he even says, "that in the creation of the +human body beauty was more regarded than necessity. In truth, necessity is +a transitory thing, and the time is coming when we shall be able to enjoy +one another's beauty without any lust."<a name='6_FNanchor_54'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_54'><sup>[54]</sup></a> Even in the sphere of sex he +would be willing to admit purity and beauty, apart from the inherited +influence of Adam's sin. In Paradise, he says, had Paradise continued, the +act of generation would have been as simple and free from shame as the act +of the hand in scattering seed on to the earth. "Sexual conjugation would +have been under the control of the will without any sexual desire. The +semen would be injected into the vagina in as simple a manner as the +menstrual fluid is now ejected. There would not have been any words which +could be called obscene, but all that might be said of these members would +have been as pure as what is said of the other parts of the body."<a name='6_FNanchor_55'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_55'><sup>[55]</sup></a> +That, however, for Augustine, is what <a name='6_Page_127'></a>might have been in Paradise where, +as he believed, sexual desire had no existence. As things are, he held, we +are right to be ashamed, we do well to blush. And it was natural that, as +Clement of Alexandria mentions, many heretics should have gone further on +this road and believed that while God made man down to the navel, the rest +was made by another power; such heretics have their descendants among us +even to-day.</p> + +<p>Alike in the Eastern and Western Churches, however, both before and after +Augustine, though not so often after, great Fathers and teachers have +uttered opinions which recall those of Clement rather than of Augustine. +We cannot lay very much weight on the utterance of the extravagant and +often contradictory Tertullian, but it is worth noting that, while he +declared that woman is the gate of hell, he also said that we must +approach Nature with reverence and not with blushes. "Natura veneranda +est, non erubescenda." "No Christian author," it has indeed been said, +"has so energetically spoken against the heretical contempt of the body as +Tertullian. Soul and body, according to Tertullian, are in the closest +association. The soul is the life-principle of the body, but there is no +activity of the soul which is not manifested and conditioned by the +flesh."<a name='6_FNanchor_56'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_56'><sup>[56]</sup></a> More weight attaches to Rufinus Tyrannius, the friend and +fellow-student of St. Jerome, in the fourth century, who wrote a +commentary on the Apostles' Creed, which was greatly esteemed by the early +and mediæval Church, and is indeed still valued even to-day. Here, in +answer to those who declared that there was obscenity in the fact of +Christ's birth through the sexual organs of a woman, Rufinus replies that +God created the sexual organs, and that "it is not Nature but merely human +opinion which teaches that these parts are obscene. For the rest, all the +parts of the body are made from the same clay, whatever differences there +may be in their uses and functions."<a name='6_FNanchor_57'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_57'><sup>[57]</sup></a> He looks at the matter, we see, +piously <a name='6_Page_128'></a>indeed, but naturally and simply, like Clement, and not, like +Augustine, through the distorting medium of a theological system. +Athanasius, in the Eastern Church, spoke in the same sense as Rufinus in +the Western Church. A certain monk named Amun had been much grieved by the +occurrence of seminal emissions during sleep, and he wrote to Athanasius +to inquire if such emissions are a sin. In the letter he wrote in reply, +Athanasius seeks to reassure Amun. "All things," he tells him, "are pure +to the pure. For what, I ask, dear and pious friend, can there be sinful +or naturally impure in excrement? Man is the handwork of God. There is +certainly nothing in us that is impure."<a name='6_FNanchor_58'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_58'><sup>[58]</sup></a> We feel as we read these +utterances that the seeds of prudery and pruriency are already alive in +the popular mind, but yet we see also that some of the most distinguished +thinkers of the early Christian Church, in striking contrast to the more +morbid and narrow-minded mediæval ascetics, clearly stood aside from the +popular movement. On the whole, they were submerged because Christianity, +like Buddhism, had in it from the first a germ that lent itself to ascetic +renunciation, and the sexual life is always the first impulse to be +sacrificed to the passion for renunciation. But there were other germs +also in Christianity, and Luther, who in his own plebeian way asserted the +rights of the body, although he broke with mediæval asceticism, by no +means thereby cast himself off from the traditions of the early Christian +Church.</p> + +<p>I have thought it worth while to bring forward this evidence, although I +am perfectly well aware that the facts of Nature gain no additional +support from the authority of the Fathers or even of the Bible. Nature and +humanity existed before the Bible and would continue to exist although the +Bible should be forgotten. But the attitude of Christianity on this point +has so often been unreservedly condemned that it seems as well to point +out that at its finest moments, when it was a young and growing power in +the world, the utterances of Christianity were often at one with those of +Nature and reason. There are many, it may be added, who find it a matter +of consolation that in following the natural <a name='6_Page_129'></a>and rational path in this +matter they are not thereby altogether breaking with the religious +traditions of their race.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is scarcely necessary to remark that when we turn from + Christianity to the other great world-religions, we do not + usually meet with so ambiguous an attitude towards sex. The + Mahommedans were as emphatic in asserting the sanctity of sex as + they were in asserting physical cleanliness; they were prepared + to carry the functions of sex into the future life, and were + never worried, as Luther and so many other Christians have been, + concerning the lack of occupation in Heaven. In India, although + India is the home of the most extreme forms of religious + asceticism, sexual love has been sanctified and divinized to a + greater extent than in any other part of the world. "It seems + never to have entered into the heads of the Hindu legislators," + said Sir William Jones long since (<i>Works</i>, vol. ii, p. 311), + "that anything natural could be offensively obscene, a + singularity which pervades all their writings, but is no proof of + the depravity of their morals." The sexual act has often had a + religious significance in India, and the minutest details of the + sexual life and its variations are discussed in Indian erotic + treatises in a spirit of gravity, while nowhere else have the + anatomical and physiological sexual characters of women been + studied with such minute and adoring reverence. "Love in India, + both as regards theory and practice," remarks Richard Schmidt + (<i>Beiträge zur Indischen Erotik</i>, p. 2) "possesses an importance + which it is impossible for us even to conceive."</p></div> + +<p>In Protestant countries the influence of the Reformation, by +rehabilitating sex as natural, indirectly tended to substitute in popular +feeling towards sex the opprobrium of sinfulness by the opprobrium of +animality. Henceforth the sexual impulse must be disguised or adorned to +become respectably human. This may be illustrated by a passage in Pepys's +<i>Diary</i> in the seventeenth century. On the morning after the wedding day +it was customary to call up new married couples by music; the absence of +this music on one occasion (in 1667) seemed to Pepys "as if they had +married like dog and bitch." We no longer insist on the music, but the +same feeling still exists in the craving for other disguises and +adornments for the sexual impulse. We do not always realize that love +brings its own sanctity with it.</p> + +<p>Nowadays indeed, whenever the repugnance to the sexual side of life +manifests itself, the assertion nearly always made is <a name='6_Page_130'></a>not so much that it +is "sinful" as that it is "beastly." It is regarded as that part of man +which most closely allies him to the lower animals. It should scarcely be +necessary to point out that this is a mistake. On whichever side, indeed, +we approach it, the implication that sex in man and animals is identical +cannot be borne out. From the point of view of those who accept this +identity it would be much more correct to say that men are inferior, +rather than on a level with animals, for in animals under natural +conditions the sexual instinct is strictly subordinated to reproduction +and very little susceptible to deviation, so that from the standpoint of +those who wish to minimize sex, animals are nearer to the ideal, and such +persons must say with Woods Hutchinson: "Take it altogether, our animal +ancestors have quite as good reason to be ashamed of us as we of them." +But if we look at the matter from a wider biological standpoint of +development, our conclusion must be very different.</p> + +<p>So far from being animal-like, the human impulses of sex are among the +least animal-like acquisitions of man. The human sphere of sex differs +from the animal sphere of sex to a singularly great extent.<a name='6_FNanchor_59'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_59'><sup>[59]</sup></a> Breathing +is an animal function and here we cannot compete with birds; locomotion is +an animal function and here we cannot equal quadrupeds; we have made no +notable advance in our circulatory, digestive, renal, or hepatic +functions. Even as regards vision and hearing, there are many animals that +are more keen-sighted than man, and many that are capable of hearing +sounds that to him are inaudible. But there are no animals in whom the +sexual instinct is so sensitive, so highly developed, so varied in its +manifestations, so constantly alert, so capable of irradiating the highest +and remotest parts of the organism. The sexual activities of man and woman +belong not to that lower part of our nature which degrades us to the level +of the "brute," but to the higher part which raises us towards all the +finest activities and ideals we are capable of. It is true that it is +chiefly in the mouths of a few ignorant and ill-bred women <a name='6_Page_131'></a>that we find +sex referred to as "bestial" or "the animal part of our nature."<a name='6_FNanchor_60'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_60'><sup>[60]</sup></a> But +since women are the mothers and teachers of the human race this is a piece +of ignorance and ill-breeding which cannot be too swiftly eradicated.</p> + +<p>There are some who seem to think that they have held the balance evenly, +and finally stated the matter, if they admit that sexual love may be +either beautiful or disgusting, and that either view is equally normal and +legitimate. "Listen in turn," Tarde remarks, "to two men who, one cold, +the other ardent, one chaste, the other in love, both equally educated and +large-minded, are estimating the same thing: one judges as disgusting, +odious, revolting, and bestial what the other judges to be delicious, +exquisite, ineffable, divine. What, for one, is in Christian phraseology, +an unforgivable sin, is, for the other, the state of true grace. Acts that +for one seem a sad and occasional necessity, stains that must be carefully +effaced by long intervals of continence, are for the other the golden +nails from which all the rest of conduct and existence is suspended, the +things that alone give human life its value."<a name='6_FNanchor_61'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_61'><sup>[61]</sup></a> Yet we may well doubt +whether both these persons are "equally well-educated and broad-minded." +The savage feels that sex is perilous, and he is right. But the person who +feels that the sexual impulse is bad, or even low and vulgar, is an +absurdity in the universe, an anomaly. He is like those persons in our +insane asylums, who feel that the instinct of nutrition is evil and so +proceed to starve themselves. They are alike spiritual outcasts in the +universe whose children they are. It is another matter when a man declares +that, personally, in his own case, he cherishes an ascetic ideal which +leads him to restrain, so far as possible, either or both impulses. The +man, who is sanely ascetic seeks a discipline which aids the ideal he has +personally set before himself. He may still remain theoretically in +harmony with the universe to which he belongs. But to <a name='6_Page_132'></a>pour contempt on +the sexual life, to throw the veil of "impurity" over it, is, as Nietzsche +declared, the unpardonable sin against the Holy Ghost of Life.</p> + +<p>There are many who seek to conciliate prejudice and reason in their +valuation of sex by drawing a sharp distinction between "lust" and "love," +rejecting the one and accepting the other. It is quite proper to make such +a distinction, but the manner in which it is made will by no means usually +bear examination. We have to define what we mean by "lust" and what we +mean by "love," and this is not easy if they are regarded as mutually +exclusive. It is sometimes said that "lust" must be understood as meaning +a reckless indulgence of the sexual impulse without regard to other +considerations. So understood, we are quite safe in rejecting it. But that +is an entirely arbitrary definition of the word. "Lust" is really a very +ambiguous term; it is a good word that has changed its moral values, and +therefore we need to define it very carefully before we venture to use it. +Properly speaking, "lust" is an entirely colorless word<a name='6_FNanchor_62'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_62'><sup>[62]</sup></a> and merely +means desire in general and sexual desire in particular; it corresponds to +"hunger" or "thirst"; to use it in an offensive sense is much the same as +though we should always assume that the word "hungry" had the offensive +meaning of "greedy." The result has been that sensitive minds indignantly +reject the term "lust" in connection with love.<a name='6_FNanchor_63'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_63'><sup>[63]</sup></a> In the early use of +our language, "lust," "lusty," and "lustful" conveyed the sense of +wholesome and normal sexual vigor; now, with the partial exception of +"lusty," they have been so completely degraded to a lower sense that +although it would be very convenient to restore them to their <a name='6_Page_133'></a>original +and proper place, which still remains vacant, the attempt at such a +restoration scarcely seems a hopeful task. We have so deeply poisoned the +springs of feeling in these matters with mediæval ascetic crudities that +all our words of sex tend soon to become bespattered with filth; we may +pick them up from the mud into which they have fallen and seek to purify +them, but to many eyes they will still seem dirty. One result of this +tendency is that we have no simple, precise, natural word for the love of +the sexes, and are compelled to fall back on the general term, which is so +extensive in its range that in English and French and most of the other +leading languages of Europe, it is equally correct to "love" God or to +"love" eating.</p> + +<p>Love, in the sexual sense, is, summarily considered, a synthesis of lust +(in the primitive and uncolored sense of sexual emotion) and friendship. +It is incorrect to apply the term "love" in the sexual sense to elementary +and uncomplicated sexual desire; it is equally incorrect to apply it to +any variety or combination of varieties of friendship. There can be no +sexual love without lust; but, on the other hand, until the currents of +lust in the organism have been so irradiated as to affect other parts of +the psychic organism—at the least the affections and the social +feelings—it is not yet sexual love. Lust, the specific sexual impulse, is +indeed the primary and essential element in this synthesis, for it alone +is adequate to the end of reproduction, not only in animals but in men. +But it is not until lust is expanded and irradiated that it develops into +the exquisite and enthralling flower of love. We may call to mind what +happens among plants: on the one hand we have the lower organisms in which +sex is carried on summarily and cryptogamically, never shedding any shower +of gorgeous blossoms on the world, and on the other hand the higher plants +among whom sex has become phanersgamous and expanded enormously into form +and color and fragrance.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>While "lust" is, of course, known all over the world, and there + are everywhere words to designate it, "love" is not universally + known, and in many languages there are no words for "love." The + failures to find love are often remarkable and unexpected. We may + find it where we <a name='6_Page_134'></a>least expect it. Sexual desire became idealized + (as Sergi has pointed out) even by some animals, especially + birds, for when a bird pines to death for the loss of its mate + this cannot be due to the uncomplicated instinct of sex, but must + involve the interweaving of that instinct with the other elements + of life to a degree which is rare even among the most civilized + men. Some savage races seem to have no fundamental notion of + love, and (like the American Nahuas) no primary word for it, + while, on the other hand, in Quichua, the language of the ancient + Peruvians, there are nearly six hundred combinations of the verb + <i>munay</i>, to love. Among some peoples love seems to be confined to + the women. Letourneau (<i>L'Evolution Littéraire</i>, p. 529) points + out that in various parts of the world women have taken a leading + part in creating erotic poetry. It may be mentioned in this + connection that suicide from erotic motives among primitive + peoples occurs chiefly among women (<i>Zeitschrift für + Sozialwissenschaft</i>, 1899, p. 578). Not a few savages possess + love-poems, as, for instance, the Suahali (Velten, in his <i>Prosa + und Poesie der Suahali</i>, devotes a section to love-poems + reproduced in the Suahali language). D. G. Brinton, in an + interesting paper on "The Conception of Love in Some American + Languages" (<i>Proceedings American Philosophical Society</i>, vol. + xxiii, p. 546, 1886) states that the words for love in these + languages reveal four main ways of expressing the conception: (1) + inarticulate cries of emotion; (2) assertions of sameness or + similarity; (3) assertions of conjunction or union; (4) + assertions of a wish, desire, a longing. Brinton adds that "these + same notions are those which underlie the majority of the words + of love in the great Aryan family of languages." The remarkable + fact emerges, however, that the peoples of Aryan tongue were slow + in developing their conception of sexual love. Brinton remarks + that the American Mayas must be placed above the peoples of early + Aryan culture, in that they possessed a radical word for the joy + of love which was in significance purely psychical, referring + strictly to a mental state, and neither to similarity nor desire. + Even the Greeks were late in developing any ideal of sexual love. + This has been well brought out by E. F. M. Benecke in his + <i>Antimachus of Colophon and the Position of Women in Greek + Poetry</i>, a book which contains some hazardous assertions, but is + highly instructive from the present point of view. The Greek + lyric poets wrote practically no love poems at all to women + before Anacreon, and his were only written in old age. True love + for the Greeks was nearly always homosexual. The Ionian lyric + poets of early Greece regarded woman as only an instrument of + pleasure and the founder of the family. Theognis compares + marriage to cattle-breeding; Alcman, when he wishes to be + complimentary to the Spartan girls, speaks of them as his "female + boy-friends." Æschylus makes even a father assume that his + daughters will misbehave if left to themselves. There is no + sexual love in Sophocles, <a name='6_Page_135'></a>and in Euripides it is only the women + who fall in love. Benecke concludes (p. 67) that in Greece sexual + love, down to a comparatively later period, was looked down on, + and held to be unworthy of public discussion and representation. + It was in Magna Græcia rather than in Greece itself that men took + interest in women, and it was not until the Alexandrian period, + and notably in Asclepiades, Benecke maintains, that the love of + women was regarded as a matter of life and death. Thereafter the + conception of sexual love, in its romantic aspects, appears in + European life. With the Celtic story of Tristram, as Gaston Paris + remarks, it finally appears in the Christian European world of + poetry as the chief point in human life, the great motive force + of conduct.</p> + +<p> Romantic love failed, however, to penetrate the masses in Europe. + In the sixteenth century, or whenever it was that the ballad of + "Glasgerion" was written, we see it is assumed that a churl's + relation to his mistress is confined to the mere act of sexual + intercourse; he fails to kiss her on arriving or departing; it is + only the knight, the man of upper class, who would think of + offering that tender civility. And at the present day in, for + instance, the region between East Friesland and the Alps, Bloch + states (<i>Sexualleben unserer Zeit</i>, p. 29), following E. H. Meyer, + that the word "love" is unknown among the masses, and only its + coarse counterpart recognized.</p> + +<p> On the other side of the world, in Japan, sexual love seems to be + in as great disrepute as it was in ancient Greece; thus Miss + Tsuda, a Japanese head-mistress, and herself a Christian, remarks + (as quoted by Mrs. Eraser in <i>World's Work and Play</i>, Dec., + 1906): "That word 'love' has been hitherto a word unknown among + our girls, in the foreign sense. Duty, submission, + kindness—these were the sentiments which a girl was expected to + bring to the husband who had been chosen for her—and many happy, + harmonious marriages were the result. Now, your dear sentimental + foreign women say to our girls: 'It is wicked to marry without + love; the obedience to parents in such a case is an outrage + against nature and Christianity. If you love a man you must + sacrifice everything to marry him.'"</p> + +<p> When, however, love is fully developed it becomes an enormously + extended, highly complex emotion, and lust, even in the best + sense of that word, becomes merely a coördinated element among + many other elements. Herbert Spencer, in an interesting passage + of his <i>Principles of Psychology</i> (Part IV, Ch. VIII), has + analyzed love into as many as nine distinct and important + elements: (1) the physical impulse of sex; (2) the feeling for + beauty; (3) affection; (4) admiration and respect; (5) love of + approbation; (6) self-esteem; (7) proprietary feeling; (8) + extended liberty of action from the absence of personal barriers; + (9) exaltation of the sympathies. "This passion," he concludes, + "fuses into one immense aggregate most of the elementary + excitations of which we are capable."</p></div><a name='6_Page_136'></a> + +<p>It is scarcely necessary to say that to define sexual love, or even to +analyze its components, is by no means to explain its mystery. We seek to +satisfy our intelligence by means of a coherent picture of love, but the +gulf between that picture and the emotional reality must always be +incommensurable and impassable. "There is no word more often pronounced +than that of love," wrote Bonstetten many years ago, "yet there is no +subject more mysterious. Of that which touches us most nearly we know +least. We measure the march of the stars and we do not know how we love." +And however expert we have become in detecting and analyzing the causes, +the concomitants, and the results of love, we must still make the same +confession to-day. We may, as some have done, attempt to explain love as a +form of hunger and thirst, or as a force analogous to electricity, or as a +kind of magnetism, or as a variety of chemical affinity, or as a vital +tropism, but these explanations are nothing more than ways of expressing +to ourselves the magnitude of the phenomenon we are in the presence of.</p> + +<p>What has always baffled men in the contemplation of sexual love is the +seeming inadequacy of its cause, the immense discrepancy between the +necessarily circumscribed region of mucous membrane which is the final +goal of such love and the sea of world-embracing emotions to which it +seems as the door, so that, as Remy de Gourmont has said, "the mucous +membranes, by an ineffable mystery, enclose in their obscure folds all the +riches of the infinite." It is a mystery before which the thinker and the +artist are alike overcome. Donnay, in his play <i>L'Escalade</i>, makes a cold +and stern man of science, who regards love as a mere mental disorder which +can be cured like other disorders, at last fall desperately in love +himself. He forces his way into the girl's room, by a ladder, at dead of +night, and breaks into a long and passionate speech: "Everything that +touches you becomes to me mysterious and sacred. Ah! to think that a thing +so well known as a woman's body, which sculptors have modelled, which +poets have sung of, which men of science like myself have dissected, that +such a thing should suddenly become an unknown mystery and an infinite joy +merely because it is the body of one <a name='6_Page_137'></a>particular woman—what insanity! And +yet that is what I feel."<a name='6_FNanchor_64'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_64'><sup>[64]</sup></a></p> + +<p>That love is a natural insanity, a temporary delusion which the individual +is compelled to suffer for the sake of the race, is indeed an explanation +that has suggested itself to many who have been baffled by this mystery. +That, as we know, was the explanation offered by Schopenhauer. When a +youth and a girl fall into each other's arms in the ecstacy of love they +imagine that they are seeking their own happiness. But it is not so, said +Schopenhauer; they are deluded by the genius of the race into the belief +that they are seeking a personal end in order that they may be induced to +effect a far greater impersonal end: the creation of the future race. The +intensity of their passion is not the measure of the personal happiness +they will secure but the measure of their aptitude for producing +offspring. In accepting passion and renouncing the counsels of cautious +prudence the youth and the girl are really sacrificing their chances of +selfish happiness and fulfilling the larger ends of Nature. As +Schopenhauer saw the matter, there was here no vulgar illusion. The lovers +thought that they were reaching towards a boundlessly immense personal +happiness; they were probably deceived. But they were deceived not because +the reality was less than their imagination, but because it was more; +instead of pursuing, as they thought, a merely personal end they were +carrying on the creative work of the world, a task better left undone, as +Schopenhauer viewed it, but a task whose magnitude he fully +recognized.<a name='6_FNanchor_65'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_65'><sup>[65]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It must be remembered that in the lower sense of deception, love may be, +and frequently is, a delusion. A man may deceive himself, or be deceived +by the object of his attraction, concerning <a name='6_Page_138'></a>the qualities that she +possesses or fails to possess. In first love, occurring in youth, such +deception is perhaps entirely normal, and in certain suggestible and +inflammable types of people it is peculiarly apt to occur. This kind of +deception, although far more frequent and conspicuous in matters of +love—and more serious because of the tightness of the marriage bond—is +liable to occur in any relation of life. For most people, however, and +those not the least sane or the least wise, the memory of the exaltation +of love, even when the period of that exaltation is over, still remains +as, at the least, the memory of one of the most real and essential facts +of life.<a name='6_FNanchor_66'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_66'><sup>[66]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Some writers seem to confuse the liability in matters of love to + deception or disappointment with the larger question of a + metaphysical illusion in Schopenhauer's sense. To some extent + this confusion perhaps exists in the discussion of love by + Renouvier and Prat in <i>La Nouvelle Monadologie</i> (pp. 216 <i>et + seq.</i>). In considering whether love is or is not a delusion, they + answer that it is or is not according as we are, or are not, + dominated by selfishness and injustice. "It was not an essential + error which presided over the creation of the <i>idol</i>, for the + idol is only what in all things the <i>ideal</i> is. But to realize + the ideal in love two persons are needed, and therein is the + great difficulty. We are never justified," they conclude, "in + casting contempt on our love, or even on its object, for if it is + true that we have not gained possession of the sovereign beauty + of the world it is equally true that we have not attained a + degree of perfection that would have entitled us justly to claim + so great a prize." And perhaps most of us, it may be added, must + admit in the end, if we are honest with ourselves, that the + prizes of love we have gained in the world, whatever their flaws, + are far greater than we deserved.</p></div> + +<p>We may well agree that in a certain sense not love alone but all the +passions and desires of men are illusions. In that sense <a name='6_Page_139'></a>the Gospel of +Buddha is justified, and we may recognize the inspiration of Shakespeare +(in the <i>Tempest</i>) and of Calderon (in <i>La Vida es Sueño</i>), who felt that +ultimately the whole world is an insubstantial dream. But short of that +large and ultimate vision we cannot accept illusion; we cannot admit that +love is a delusion in some special and peculiar sense that men's other +cravings and aspirations escape. On the contrary, it is the most solid of +realities. All the progressive forms of life are built up on the +attraction of sex. If we admit the action of sexual selection—as we can +scarcely fail to do if we purge it from its unessential +accretions<a name='6_FNanchor_67'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_67'><sup>[67]</sup></a>—love has moulded the precise shape and color, the +essential beauty, alike of animal and human life.</p> + +<p>If we further reflect that, as many investigators believe, not only the +physical structure of life but also its spiritual structure—our social +feelings, our morality, our religion, our poetry and art—are, in some +degree at least, also built up on the impulse of sex, and would have been, +if not non-existent, certainly altogether different had other than sexual +methods of propagation prevailed in the world, we may easily realize that +we can only fall into confusion by dismissing love as a delusion. The +whole edifice of life topples down, for as the idealist Schiller long +since said, it is entirely built up on hunger and on love. To look upon +love as in any special sense a delusion is merely to fall into the trap of +a shallow cynicism. Love is only a delusion in so far as the whole of life +is a delusion, and if we accept the fact of life it is unphilosophical to +refuse to accept the fact of love.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is unnecessary here to magnify the functions of love in the + world; it is sufficient to investigate its workings in its own + proper sphere. It may, however, be worth while to quote a few + expressions of thinkers, belonging to various schools, who have + pointed out what seemed to them the far-ranging significance of + the sexual emotions for the moral life. "The passions are the + heavenly fire which gives life to the moral world," wrote + Helvétius long since in <i>De l'Esprit</i>. "The activity of the mind + depends on the activity of the passions, and it is at the period + of the passions, from the age of twenty-five to thirty-five <a name='6_Page_140'></a>or + forty that men are capable of the greatest efforts of virtue or + of genius." "What touches sex," wrote Zola, "touches the centre + of social life." Even our regard for the praise and blame of + others has a sexual origin, Professor Thomas argues + (<i>Psychological Review</i>, Jan., 1904, pp. 61-67), and it is love + which is the source of susceptibility generally and of the + altruistic side of life. "The appearance of sex," Professor Woods + Hutchinson attempts to show ("Love as a Factor in Evolution," + <i>Monist</i>, 1898), "the development of maleness and femaleness, was + not only the birthplace of affection, the well-spring of all + morality, but an enormous economic advantage to the race and an + absolute necessity of progress. In it first we find any conscious + longing for or active impulse toward a fellow creature." "Were + man robbed of the instinct of procreation, and of all that + spiritually springs therefrom," exclaimed Maudsley in his + <i>Physiology of Mind</i>, "that moment would all poetry, and perhaps + also his whole moral sense, be obliterated from his life." "One + seems to oneself transfigured, stronger, richer, more complete; + one <i>is</i> more complete," says Nietzsche (<i>Der Wille zur Macht</i>, + p. 389), "we find here art as an organic function: we find it + inlaid in the most angelic instinct of 'love:' we find it as the + greatest stimulant of life.... It is not merely that it changes + the feeling of values: the lover <i>is</i> worth more, is stronger. In + animals this condition produces new weapons, pigments, colors, + and forms, above all new movements, new rhythms, a new seductive + music. It is not otherwise in man.... Even in art the door is + opened to him. If we subtract from lyrical work in words and + sounds the suggestions of that intestinal fever, what is left + over in poetry and music? <i>L'Art pour l'art</i> perhaps, the + quacking virtuosity of cold frogs who perish in their marsh. All + the rest is created by love."</p> + +<p> It would be easy to multiply citations tending to show how many + diverse thinkers have come to the conclusion that sexual love + (including therewith parental and especially maternal love) is + the source of the chief manifestations of life. How far they are + justified in that conclusion, it is not our business now to + inquire.</p></div> + +<p>It is undoubtedly true that, as we have seen when discussing the erratic +and imperfect distribution of the conception of love, and even of words +for love, over the world, by no means all people are equally apt for +experiencing, even at any time in their lives, the emotions of sexual +exaltation. The difference between the knight and the churl still +subsists, and both may sometimes be found in all social strata. Even the +refinements of sexual enjoyment, it is unnecessary to insist, quite +commonly remain on <a name='6_Page_141'></a>a merely physical basis, and have little effect on the +intellectual and emotional nature.<a name='6_FNanchor_68'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_68'><sup>[68]</sup></a> But this is not the case with the +people who have most powerfully influenced the course of the world's +thought and feeling. The personal reality of love, its importance for the +individual life, are facts that have been testified to by some of the +greatest thinkers, after lives devoted to the attainment of intellectual +labor. The experience of Renan, who toward the end of his life set down in +his remarkable drama <i>L'Abbesse de Jouarre</i>, his conviction that, even +from the point of view of chastity, love is, after all, the supreme thing +in the world, is far from standing alone. "Love has always appeared as an +inferior mode of human music, ambition as the superior mode," wrote Tarde, +the distinguished sociologist, at the end of his life. "But will it always +be thus? Are there not reasons for thinking that the future perhaps +reserves for us the ineffable surprise of an inversion of that secular +order?" Laplace, half an hour before his death, took up a volume of his +own <i>Mécanique Celeste</i>, and said: "All that is only trifles, there is +nothing true but love." Comte, who had spent his life in building up a +Positive Philosophy which should be absolutely real, found (as indeed it +may be said the great English Positivist Mill also found) the culmination +of all his ideals in a woman, who was, he said, Egeria and Beatrice and +Laura in one, and he wrote: "There is nothing real in the world but love. +One grows tired of thinking, and even of acting; one never grows tired of +loving, nor of saying so. In the worst tortures of affection I have never +ceased to feel that the essential of happiness is that the heart should be +worthily filled—even with pain, yes, even with pain, the bitterest pain." +And Sophie Kowalewsky, after intellectual achievements which have placed +her among the most distinguished of her sex, pathetically wrote: "Why can +no one love me? I could give more than most women, and yet the most +insignificant women are loved and I am not." Love, they all seem to say, +is <a name='6_Page_142'></a>the one thing that is supremely worth while. The greatest and most +brilliant of the world's intellectual giants, in their moments of final +insight, thus reach the habitual level of the humble and almost anonymous +persons, cloistered from the world, who wrote <i>The Imitation of Christ</i> or +<i>The Letters of a Portuguese Nun</i>. And how many others!</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='6_Footnote_45'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_45'>[45]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Meditationes Piissimæ de Cognitione Humanæ Conditionis</i>, +Migne's <i>Patrologia</i>, vol. clxxiv, p. 489, cap. III, "De Dignitate Animæ +et Vilitate Corporis." It may be worth while to quote more at length the +vigorous language of the original. "Si diligenter consideres quid per os +et nares cæterosque corporis meatus egrediatur, vilius sterquilinum +numquam vidisti.... Attende, homo, quid fuisti ante ortum, et quid es ab +ortu usque ad occasum, atque quid eris post hanc vitam. Profecto fuit +quand non eras: postea de vili materia factus, et vilissimo panno +involutus, menstruali sanguine in utero materno fuisti nutritus, et tunica +tua fuit pellis secundina. Nihil aliud est homo quam sperma fetidum, +saccus stercorum, cibus vermium.... Quid superbis, pulvis et cinis, cujus +conceptus cula, nasci miseria, vivere pœna, mori angustia?"</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_46'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_46'>[46]</a><div class='note'><p> See (in Mignes' edition) <i>S. Odonis abbatis Cluniacensis +Collationes</i>, lib. ii, cap. IX.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_47'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_47'>[47]</a><div class='note'><p> Dühren (<i>Neue Forshungen über die Marquis de Sade</i>, pp. 432 +<i>et seq.</i>) shows how the ascetic view of woman's body persisted, for +instance, in Schopenhauer and De Sade.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_48'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_48'>[48]</a><div class='note'><p> In "The Evolution of Modesty," in the first volume of these +<i>Studies</i>, and again in the fifth volume in discussing urolagnia in the +study of "Erotic Symbolism," the mutual reactions of the sexual and +excretory centres were fully dealt with.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_49'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_49'>[49]</a><div class='note'><p> "La Morale Sexuelle," <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, +Jan., 1907.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_50'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_50'>[50]</a><div class='note'><p> The above passage, now slightly modified, originally formed +an unpublished part of an essay on Walt Whitman in <i>The New Spirit</i>, first +issued in 1889.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_51'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_51'>[51]</a><div class='note'><p> Even in the ninth century, however, when the monastic +movement was rapidly developing, there were some who withstood the +tendencies of the new ascetics. Thus, in 850, Ratramnus, the monk of +Corbie, wrote a treatise (<i>Liber de eo quod Christus ex Virgine natus +est</i>) to prove that Mary really gave birth to Jesus through her sexual +organs, and not, as some high-strung persons were beginning to think could +alone be possible, through the more conventionally decent breasts. The +sexual organs were sanctified. "Spiritus sanctus ... et thalamum tanto +dignum sponso sanctificavit et portam" (Achery, <i>Spicilegium</i>, vol. i, p. +55).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_52'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_52'>[52]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Pædagogus</i>, lib. ii, cap. X. Elsewhere (<i>id.</i>, lib. ii, Ch. +VI) he makes a more detailed statement to the same effect.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_53'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_53'>[53]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, Wilhelm Capitaine, <i>Die Moral des Clemens von +Alexandrien</i>, pp. 112 <i>et seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_54'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_54'>[54]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>De Civitate Dei</i>, lib. xxii, cap. XXIV. "There is no need," +he says again (<i>id.</i>, lib. xiv, cap. V) "that in our sins and vices we +accuse the nature of the flesh to the injury of the Creator, for in its +own kind and degree the flesh is good."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_55'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_55'>[55]</a><div class='note'><p> St. Augustine, <i>De Civitate Dei</i>, lib. xiv, cap. XXIII-XXVI. +Chrysostom and Gregory, of Nyssa, thought that in Paradise human beings +would have multiplied by special creation, but such is not the accepted +Catholic doctrine.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_56'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_56'>[56]</a><div class='note'><p> W. Capitaine, <i>Die Moral des Clemens von Alexandrien</i>, pp. +112 <i>et seq.</i> Without the body, Tertullian declared, there could be no +virginity and no salvation. The soul itself is corporeal. He carries, +indeed, his idea of the omnipresence of the body to the absurd.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_57'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_57'>[57]</a><div class='note'><p> Rufinus, <i>Commentarius in Symbolum Apostolorum</i>, cap. XII.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_58'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_58'>[58]</a><div class='note'><p> Migne, <i>Patrologia Græca</i>, vol. xxvi, pp. 1170 <i>et seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_59'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_59'>[59]</a><div class='note'><p> Even in physical conformation the human sexual organs, when +compared with those of the lower animals, show marked differences (see +"The Mechanism of Detumescence," in the fifth volume of these <i>Studies</i>).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_60'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_60'>[60]</a><div class='note'><p> It may perhaps be as well to point out, with Forel (<i>Die +Sexuelle Frage</i>, p. 208), that the word "bestial" is generally used quite +incorrectly in this connection. Indeed, not only for the higher, but also +for the lower manifestation of the sexual impulse, it would usually be +more correct to use instead the qualification "human."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_61'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_61'>[61]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Loc. cit.</i>, <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, Jan., +1907.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_62'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_62'>[62]</a><div class='note'><p> It has, however, become colored and suspect from an early +period in the history of Christianity. St. Augustine (<i>De Civitate Dei</i>, +lib. xiv, cap. XV), while admitting that libido or lust is merely the +generic name for all desire, adds that, as specially applied to the sexual +appetite, it is justly and properly mixed up with ideas of shame.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_63'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_63'>[63]</a><div class='note'><p> Hinton well illustrates this feeling. "We call by the name +of lust," he declares in his MSS., "the most simple and natural desires. +We might as well term hunger and thirst 'lust' as so call sex-passion, +when expressing simply Nature's prompting. We miscall it 'lust,' cruelly +libelling those to whom we ascribe it, and introduce absolute disorder. +For, by foolishly confounding Nature's demands with lust, we insist upon +restraint upon her."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_64'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_64'>[64]</a><div class='note'><p> Several centuries earlier another French writer, the +distinguished physician, A. Laurentius (Des Laurens) in his <i>Historia +Anatomica Humani Corporis</i> (lib. viii, Quæstio vii) had likewise puzzled +over "the incredible desire of coitus," and asked how it was that "that +divine animal, full of reason and judgment, which we call Man, should be +attracted to those obscene parts of women, soiled with filth, which are +placed, like a sewer, in the lowest part of the body." It is noteworthy +that, from the first, and equally among men of religion, men of science, +and men of letters, the mystery of this problem has peculiarly appealed to +the French mind.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_65'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_65'>[65]</a><div class='note'><p> Schopenhauer, <i>Die Welt als Wille und Vorstellung</i>, vol. ii, +pp. 608 <i>et seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_66'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_66'>[66]</a><div class='note'><p> "Perhaps there is scarcely a man," wrote Malthus, a +clergyman as well as one of the profoundest thinkers of his day (<i>Essay on +the Principle of Population</i>, 1798, Ch. XI), "who has once experienced the +genuine delight of virtuous love, however great his intellectual pleasures +may have been, that does not look back to the period as the sunny spot in +his whole life, where his imagination loves to bask, which he recollects +and contemplates with the fondest regrets, and which he would most wish to +live over again. The superiority of intellectual to sexual pleasures +consists rather in their filling up more time, in their having a larger +range, and in their being less liable to satiate, than in their being more +real and essential."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_67'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_67'>[67]</a><div class='note'><p> The whole argument of the fourth volume of these <i>Studies</i>, +on "Sexual Selection in Man," points in this direction.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_68'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_68'>[68]</a><div class='note'><p> "Perhaps most average men," Forel remarks (<i>Die Sexuelle +Frage</i>, p. 307), "are but slightly receptive to the intoxication of love; +they are at most on the level of the <i>gourmet</i>, which is by no means +necessarily an immoral plane, but is certainly not that of poetry."</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_CHAPTER_V'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_143'></a>CHAPTER V.</h2> + +<h3>THE FUNCTION OF CHASTITY.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Chastity Essential to the Dignity of Love—The Eighteenth Century Revolt +Against the Ideal of Chastity—Unnatural Forms of Chastity—The +Psychological Basis of Asceticism—Asceticism and Chastity as Savage +Virtues—The Significance of Tahiti—Chastity Among Barbarous +Peoples—Chastity Among the Early Christians—Struggles of the Saints with +the Flesh—The Romance of Christian Chastity—Its Decay in Mediæval +Times—<i>Aucassin et Nicolette</i> and the new Romance of Chaste Love—The +Unchastity of the Northern Barbarians—The Penitentials—Influence of the +Renaissance and the Reformation—The Revolt Against Virginity as a +Virtue—The Modern Conception of Chastity as a Virtue—The Influences That +Favor the Virtue of Chastity—Chastity as a Discipline—The Value of +Chastity for the Artist—Potency and Impotence in Popular Estimation—The +Correct Definitions of Asceticism and Chastity.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>The supreme importance of chastity, and even of asceticism, has never at +any time, or in any greatly vital human society, altogether failed of +recognition. Sometimes chastity has been exalted in human estimation, +sometimes it has been debased; it has frequently changed the nature of its +manifestations; but it has always been there. It is even a part of the +beautiful vision of all Nature. "The glory of the world is seen only by a +chaste mind," said Thoreau with his fine extravagance. "To whomsoever this +fact is not an awful but beautiful mystery there are no flowers in +Nature." Without chastity it is impossible to maintain the dignity of +sexual love. The society in which its estimation sinks to a minimum is in +the last stages of degeneration. Chastity has for sexual love an +importance which it can never lose, least of all to-day.</p> + +<p>It is quite true that during the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries many +men of high moral and intellectual distinction pronounced very decidedly +their condemnation of the ideal of chastity. The great Buffon refused to +recognize chastity as an <a name='6_Page_144'></a>ideal and referred scornfully to "that kind of +insanity which has turned a girl's virginity into a thing with a real +existence," while William Morris, in his downright manner, once declared +at a meeting of the Fellowship of the New Life, that asceticism is "the +most disgusting vice that afflicted human nature." Blake, though he seems +always to have been a strictly moral man in the most conventional sense, +felt nothing but contempt for chastity, and sometimes confers a kind of +religious solemnity on the idea of unchastity. Shelley, who may have been +unwise in sexual matters but can scarcely be called unchaste, also often +seems to associate religion and morality, not with chastity, but with +unchastity, and much the same may be said of James Hinton.<a name='6_FNanchor_69'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_69'><sup>[69]</sup></a></p> + +<p>But all these men—with other men of high character who have pronounced +similar opinions—were reacting against false, decayed, and conventional +forms of chastity. They were not rebelling against an ideal; they were +seeking to set up an ideal in a place where they realized that a +mischievous pretense was masquerading as a moral reality.</p> + +<p>We cannot accept an ideal of chastity unless we ruthlessly cast aside all +the unnatural and empty forms of chastity. If chastity is merely a +fatiguing effort to emulate in the sexual sphere the exploits of +professional fasting men, an effort using up all the energies of the +organism and resulting in no achievement greater than the abstinence it +involves, then it is surely an unworthy ideal. If it is a feeble +submission to an external conventional law which there is no courage to +break, then it is not an ideal at all. If it is a rule of morality imposed +by one sex on the opposite sex, then it is an injustice and provocative of +revolt. If it is an abstinence from the usual forms of sexuality, replaced +by more abnormal or more secret forms, then it is simply an unreality +based on misconception. And if it is merely an external acceptance of +conventions without any further <a name='6_Page_145'></a>acceptance, even in act, then it is a +contemptible farce. These are the forms of chastity which during the past +two centuries many fine-souled men have vigorously rejected.</p> + +<p>The fact that chastity, or asceticism, is a real virtue, with fine uses, +becomes evident when we realize that it has flourished at all times, in +connection with all kinds of religions and the most various moral codes. +We find it pronounced among savages, and the special virtues of +savagery—hardness, endurance, and bravery—are intimately connected with +the cultivation of chastity and asceticism.<a name='6_FNanchor_70'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_70'><sup>[70]</sup></a> It is true that savages +seldom have any ideal of chastity in the degraded modern sense, as a state +of permanent abstinence from sexual relationships having a merit of its +own apart from any use. They esteem chastity for its values, magical or +real, as a method of self-control which contributes towards the attainment +of important ends. The ability to bear pain and restraint is nearly always +a main element in the initiation of youths at puberty. The custom of +refraining from sexual intercourse before expeditions of war and hunting, +and other serious concerns involving great muscular and mental strain, +whatever the motives assigned, is a sagacious method of economizing +energy. The extremely widespread habit of avoiding intercourse during +pregnancy and suckling, again, is an admirable precaution in sexual +hygiene which it is extremely difficult to obtain the observance of in +civilization. Savages, also, are perfectly well aware how valuable sexual +continence is, in combination with fasting and solitude, to acquire the +aptitude for abnormal spiritual powers.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Thus C. Hill Tout (<i>Journal Anthropological Institute</i>, + Jan.-June, 1905, pp. 143-145) gives an interesting account of the + self-discipline undergone by those among the Salish Indians of + British Columbia, who seek to acquire shamanistic powers. The + psychic effects of such training <a name='6_Page_146'></a>on these men, says Hill Tout, + is undoubted. "It enables them to undertake and accomplish feats + of abnormal strength, agility, and endurance; and gives them at + times, besides a general exaltation of the senses, undoubted + clairvoyant and other supernormal mental and bodily powers." At + the other end of the world, as shown by the <i>Reports of the + Anthropological Expedition to Torres Straits</i> (vol. v, p. 321), + closely analogous methods of obtaining supernatural powers are + also customary.</p> + +<p> There are fundamental psychological reasons for the wide + prevalence of asceticism and for the remarkable manner in which + it involves self-mortification, even acute physical suffering. + Such pain is an actual psychic stimulant, more especially in + slightly neurotic persons. This is well illustrated by a young + woman, a patient of Janet's, who suffered from mental depression + and was accustomed to find relief by slightly burning her hands + and feet. She herself clearly understood the nature of her + actions. "I feel," she said, "that I make an effort when I hold + my hands on the stove, or when I pour boiling water on my feet; + it is a violent act and it awakens me: I feel that it is really + done by myself and not by another.... To make a mental effort by + itself is too difficult for me; I have to supplement it by + physical efforts. I have not succeeded in any other way; that is + all: when I brace myself up to burn myself I make my mind freer, + lighter and more active for several days. Why do you speak of my + desire for mortification? My parents believe that, but it is + absurd. It would be a mortification if it brought any suffering, + but I enjoy this suffering, it gives me back my mind; it prevents + my thoughts from stopping: what would one not do to attain such + happiness?" (P. Janet, "The Pathogenesis of Some Impulsions," + <i>Journal of Abnormal Psychology</i>, April, 1906.) If we understand + this psychological process we may realize how it is that even in + the higher religions, however else they may differ, the practical + value of asceticism and mortification as the necessary door to + the most exalted religious state is almost universally + recognized, and with complete cheerfulness. "Asceticism and + ecstacy are inseparable," as Probst-Biraben remarks at the outset + of an interesting paper on Mahommedan mysticism ("L'Extase dans + le Mysticisme Musulman," <i>Revue Philosophique</i>, Nov., 1906). + Asceticism is the necessary ante-chamber to spiritual perfection.</p></div> + +<p>It thus happens that savage peoples largely base their often admirable +enforcement of asceticism not on the practical grounds that would justify +it, but on religious grounds that with the growth of intelligence fall +into discredit.<a name='6_FNanchor_71'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_71'><sup>[71]</sup></a> Even, however, when <a name='6_Page_147'></a>the scrupulous observances of +savages, whether in sexual or in non-sexual matters, are without any +obviously sound basis it cannot be said that they are entirely useless if +they tend to encourage self-control and the sense of reverence.<a name='6_FNanchor_72'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_72'><sup>[72]</sup></a> The +would-be intelligent and practical peoples who cast aside primitive +observances because they seem baseless or even ridiculous, need a still +finer practical sense and still greater intelligence in order to realize +that, though the reasons for the observances have been wrong, yet the +observances themselves may have been necessary methods of attaining +personal and social efficiency. It constantly happens in the course of +civilization that we have to revive old observances and furnish them with +new reasons.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In considering the moral quality of chastity among savages, we + must carefully separate that chastity which among semi-primitive + peoples is exclusively imposed upon women. This has no moral + quality whatever, for it is not exercised as a useful discipline, + but merely enforced in order to heighten the economic and erotic + value of the women. Many authorities believe that the regard for + women as property furnishes the true reason for the widespread + insistence on virginity in brides. Thus A. B. Ellis, speaking of + the West Coast of Africa (<i>Yoruba-Speaking Peoples</i>, pp. 183 <i>et + seq.</i>), says that girls of good class are betrothed as mere + children, and are carefully guarded from men, while girls of + lower class are seldom betrothed, and may lead any life they + choose. "In this custom of infant or child betrothals we probably + find the key to that curious regard for ante-nuptial chastity + found not only among the tribes of the Gold and Slave Coasts, but + also among many other uncivilized peoples in different parts of + the world." In a very different part of the world, in Northern + Siberia, "the Yakuts," Sieroshevski states (<i>Journal + Anthropological Institute</i>, Jan.-June, 1901, <a name='6_Page_148'></a>p. 96), "see + nothing immoral in illicit love, providing only that nobody + suffers material loss by it. It is true that parents will scold a + daughter if her conduct threatens to deprive them of their gain + from the bride-price; but if once they have lost hope of marrying + her off, or if the bride-price has been spent, they manifest + complete indifference to her conduct. Maidens who no longer + expect marriage are not restrained at all, if they observe + decorum it is only out of respect to custom." Westermarck + (<i>History of Human Marriage</i>, pp. 123 <i>et seq.</i>) also shows the + connection between the high estimates of virginity and the + conception of woman as property, and returning to the question in + his later work, <i>The Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas</i> + (vol. ii, Ch. XLII), after pointing out that "marriage by + purchase has thus raised the standard of female chastity," he + refers (p. 437) to the significant fact that the seduction of an + unmarried girl "is chiefly, if not exclusively, regarded as an + offense against the parents or family of the girl," and there is + no indication that it is ever held by savages that any wrong has + been done to the woman herself. Westermarck recognizes at the + same time that the preference given to virgins has also a + biological basis in the instinctive masculine feeling of jealousy + in regard to women who have had intercourse with other men, and + especially in the erotic charm for men of the emotional state of + shyness which accompanies virginity. (This point has been dealt + with in the discussion of Modesty in vol. i of these <i>Studies</i>.)</p> + +<p> It is scarcely necessary to add that the insistence on the + virginity of brides is by no means confined, as A. B. Ellis seems + to imply, to uncivilized peoples, nor is it necessary that + wife-purchase should always accompany it. The preference still + persists, not only by virtue of its natural biological basis, but + as a refinement and extension of the idea of woman as property, + among those civilized peoples who, like ourselves, inherit a form + of marriage to some extent based on wife-purchase. Under such + conditions a woman's chastity has an important social function to + perform, being, as Mrs. Mona Caird has put it (<i>The Morality of + Marriage</i>, 1897, p. 88), the watch-dog of man's property. The + fact that no element of ideal morality enters into the question + is shown by the usual absence of any demand for ante-nuptial + chastity in the husband.</p> + +<p> It must not be supposed that when, as is most usually the case, + there is no complete and permanent prohibition of extra-nuptial + intercourse, mere unrestrained license prevails. That has + probably never happened anywhere among uncontaminated savages. + The rule probably is that, as among the tribes at Torres Straits + (<i>Reports Cambridge Anthropological Expedition</i>, vol. v, p. 275), + there is no complete continence before marriage, but neither is + there any unbridled license.</p> + +<p> The example of Tahiti is instructive as regards the prevalence of + chastity among peoples of what we generally consider low grades + of <a name='6_Page_149'></a>civilization. Tahiti, according to all who have visited it, + from the earliest explorers down to that distinguished American + surgeon, the late Dr. Nicholas Senn, is an island possessing + qualities of natural beauty and climatic excellence, which it is + impossible to rate too highly. "I seemed to be transported into + the garden of Eden," said Bougainville in 1768. But, mainly under + the influence of the early English missionaries who held ideas of + theoretical morality totally alien to those of the inhabitants of + the islands, the Tahitians have become the stock example of a + population given over to licentiousness and all its awful + results. Thus, in his valuable <i>Polynesian Researches</i> (second + edition, 1832, vol. i, Ch. IX) William Ellis says that the + Tahitians practiced "the worst pollutions of which it was + possible for man to be guilty," though not specifying them. When, + however, we carefully examine the narratives of the early + visitors to Tahiti, before the population became contaminated by + contact with Europeans, it becomes clear that this view needs + serious modification. "The great plenty of good and nourishing + food," wrote an early explorer, J. R. Forster (<i>Observations Made + on a Voyage Round the World</i>, 1778, pp. 231, 409, 422), "together + with the fine climate, the beauty and unreserved behavior of + their females, invite them powerfully to the enjoyments and + pleasures of love. They begin very early to abandon themselves to + the most libidinous scenes. Their songs, their dances, and + dramatic performances, breathe a spirit of luxury." Yet he is + over and over again impelled to set down facts which bear + testimony to the virtues of these people. Though rather + effeminate in build, they are athletic, he says. Moreover, in + their wars they fight with great bravery and valor. They are, for + the rest, hospitable. He remarks that they treat their married + women with great respect, and that women generally are nearly the + equals of men, both in intelligence and in social position; he + gives a charming description of the women. "In short, their + character," Forster concludes, "is as amiable as that of any + nation that ever came unimproved out of the hands of Nature," and + he remarks that, as was felt by the South Sea peoples generally, + "whenever we came to this happy island we could evidently + perceive the opulence and happiness of its inhabitants." It is + noteworthy also, that, notwithstanding the high importance which + the Tahitians attached to the erotic side of life, they were not + deficient in regard for chastity. When Cook, who visited Tahiti + many times, was among "this benevolent humane" people, he noted + their esteem for chastity, and found that not only were betrothed + girls strictly guarded before marriage, but that men also who had + refrained from sexual intercourse for some time before marriage + were believed to pass at death immediately into the abode of the + blessed. "Their behavior, on all occasions, seems to indicate a + great openness and generosity of disposition. I never saw them, + in any misfortune, labor under the appearance of anxiety, after + the critical moment <a name='6_Page_150'></a>was past. Neither does care ever seem to + wrinkle their brow. On the contrary, even the approach of death + does not appear to alter their usual vivacity" (<i>Third Voyage of + Discovery</i>, 1776-1780). Turnbull visited Tahiti at a later period + (<i>A Voyage Round the World in 1800</i>, etc., pp. 374-5), but while + finding all sorts of vices among them, he is yet compelled to + admit their virtues: "Their manner of addressing strangers, from + the king to the meanest subject, is courteous and affable in the + extreme.... They certainly live amongst each other in more + harmony than is usual amongst Europeans. During the whole time I + was amongst them I never saw such a thing as a battle.... I never + remember to have seen an Otaheitean out of temper. They jest upon + each other with greater freedom than the Europeans, but these + jests are never taken in ill part.... With regard to food, it is, + I believe, an invariable law in Otaheite that whatever is + possessed by one is common to all." Thus we see that even among a + people who are commonly referred to as the supreme example of a + nation given up to uncontrolled licentiousness, the claims of + chastity were admitted, and many other virtues vigorously + flourished. The Tahitians were brave, hospitable, + self-controlled, courteous, considerate to the needs of others, + chivalrous to women, even appreciative of the advantages of + sexual restraint, to an extent which has rarely, if ever, been + known among those Christian nations which have looked down upon + them as abandoned to unspeakable vices.</p></div> + +<p>As we turn from savages towards peoples in the barbarous and civilized +stages we find a general tendency for chastity, in so far as it is a +common possession of the common people, to be less regarded, or to be +retained only as a traditional convention no longer strictly observed. The +old grounds for chastity in primitive religions and <i>tabu</i> have decayed +and no new grounds have been generally established. "Although the progress +of civilization," wrote Gibbon long ago, "has undoubtedly contributed to +assuage the fiercer passions of human nature, it seems to have been less +favorable to the virtue of chastity," and Westermarck concludes that +"irregular connections between the sexes have, on the whole, exhibited a +tendency to increase along with the progress of civilization."</p> + +<p>The main difference in the social function of chastity as we pass from +savagery to higher stages of culture seems to be that it ceases to exist +as a general hygienic measure or a general ceremonial observance, and, for +the most part, becomes confined <a name='6_Page_151'></a>to special philosophic or religious sects +which cultivate it to an extreme degree in a more or less professional +way. This state of things is well illustrated by the Roman Empire during +the early centuries of the Christian era.<a name='6_FNanchor_73'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_73'><sup>[73]</sup></a> Christianity itself was at +first one of these sects enamored of the ideal of chastity; but by its +superior vitality it replaced all the others and finally imposed its +ideals, though by no means its primitive practices, on European society +generally.</p> + +<p>Chastity manifested itself in primitive Christianity in two different +though not necessarily opposed ways. On the one hand it took a stern and +practical form in vigorous men and women who, after being brought up in a +society permitting a high degree of sexual indulgence, suddenly found +themselves convinced of the sin of such indulgence. The battle with the +society they had been born into, and with their own old impulses and +habits, became so severe that they often found themselves compelled to +retire from the world altogether. Thus it was that the parched solitudes +of Egypt were peopled with hermits largely occupied with the problem of +subduing their own flesh. Their pre-occupation, and indeed the +pre-occupation of much early Christian literature, with sexual matters, may +be said to be vastly greater than was the case with the pagan society they +had left. Paganism accepted sexual indulgence and was then able to dismiss +it, so that in classic literature we find very little insistence on sexual +details except in writers like Martial, Juvenal and Petronius who +introduce them mainly for satirical ends. But the Christians could not +thus escape from the obsession of sex; it was ever with them. We catch +interesting glimpses of their struggles, for the most part barren +struggles, in the Epistles of St. Jerome, who had himself been an athlete +in these ascetic contests.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"Oh, how many times," wrote St. Jerome to Eustochium, the virgin + to whom he addressed one of the longest and most interesting of + his letters, "when in the desert, in that vast solitude which, + burnt up <a name='6_Page_152'></a>by the heart of the sun, offers but a horrible dwelling + to monks, I imagined myself among the delights of Rome! I was + alone, for my soul was full of bitterness. My limbs were covered + by a wretched sack and my skin was as black as an Ethiopian's. + Every day I wept and groaned, and if I was unwillingly overcome + by sleep my lean body lay on the bare earth. I say nothing of my + food and drink, for in the desert even invalids have no drink but + cold water, and cooked food is regarded as a luxury. Well, I, + who, out of fear of hell, had condemned myself to this prison, + companion of scorpions and wild beasts, often seemed in + imagination among bands of girls. My face was pale with fasting + and my mind within my frigid body was burning with desire; the + fires of lust would still flare up in a body that already seemed + to be dead. Then, deprived of all help, I threw myself at the + feet of Jesus, washing them with my tears and drying them with my + hair, subjugating my rebellious flesh by long fasts. I remember + that more than once I passed the night uttering cries and + striking my breast until God sent me peace." "Our century," wrote + St. Chrysostom in his <i>Discourse to Those Who Keep Virgins in + Their Houses</i>, "has seen many men who have bound their bodies + with chains, clothed themselves in sacks, retired to the summits + of mountains where they have lived in constant vigil and fasting, + giving the example of the most austere discipline and forbidding + all women to cross the thresholds of their humble dwellings; and + yet, in spite of all the severities they have exercised on + themselves, it was with difficulty they could repress the fury of + their passions." Hilarion, says Jerome, saw visions of naked + women when he lay down on his solitary couch and delicious meats + when he sat down to his frugal table. Such experiences rendered + the early saints very scrupulous. "They used to say," we are told + in an interesting history of the Egyptian anchorites, Palladius's + <i>Paradise of the Holy Fathers</i>, belonging to the fourth century + (A. W. Budge, <i>The Paradise</i>, vol. ii, p. 129), "that Abbâ Isaac + went out and found the footprint of a woman on the road, and he + thought about it in his mind and destroyed it saying, 'If a + brother seeth it he may fall.'" Similarly, according to the rules + of St. Cæsarius of Aries for nuns, no male clothing was to be + taken into the convent for the purpose of washing or mending. + Even in old age, a certain anxiety about chastity still remained. + One of the brothers, we are told in <i>The Paradise</i> (p. 132) said + to Abbâ Zeno, "Behold thou hast grown old, how is the matter of + fornication?" The venerable saint replied, "It knocketh, but it + passeth on."</p> + +<p> As the centuries went by the same strenuous anxiety to guard + chastity still remained, and the old struggle constantly + reappeared (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Migne's <i>Dictionnaire d'Ascétisme</i>, art. + "Démon, Tentation du"). Some saints, it is true, like Luigi di + Gonzaga, were so angelically natured that they never felt the + sting of sexual desire. These seem to have been the exception. + St. Benedict and St. Francis experienced the difficulty of + <a name='6_Page_153'></a>subduing the flesh. St. Magdalena de Pozzi, in order to dispel + sexual desires, would roll on thorny bushes till the blood came. + Some saints kept a special cask of cold water in their cells to + stand in (Lea, <i>Sacerdotal Celibacy</i>, vol. i, p. 124). On the + other hand, the Blessed Angela de Fulginio tells us in her + <i>Visiones</i> (cap. XIX) that, until forbidden by her confessor, she + would place hot coals in her secret parts, hoping by material + fire to extinguish the fire of concupiscence. St. Aldhelm, the + holy Bishop of Sherborne, in the eighth century, also adopted a + homeopathic method of treatment, though of a more literal kind, + for William of Malmsbury states that when tempted by the flesh he + would have women to sit and lie by him until he grew calm again; + the method proved very successful, for the reason, it was + thought, that the Devil felt he had been made a fool of.</p> + +<p> In time the Catholic practice and theory of asceticism became + more formalized and elaborated, and its beneficial effects were + held to extend beyond the individual himself. "Asceticism from + the Christian point of view," writes Brénier de Montmorand in an + interesting study ("Ascétisme et Mysticisme," <i>Revue + Philosophique</i>, March, 1904) "is nothing else than all the + therapeutic measures making for moral purification. The Christian + ascetic is an athlete struggling to transform his corrupt nature + and make a road to God through the obstacles due to his passions + and the world. He is not working in his own interests alone, + but—by virtue of the reversibility of merit which compensates + that of solidarity in error—for the good and for the salvation + of the whole of society."</p></div> + +<p>This is the aspect of early Christian asceticism most often emphasized. +But there is another aspect which may be less familiar, but has been by no +means less important. Primitive Christian chastity was on one side a +strenuous discipline. On another side it was a romance, and this indeed +was its most specifically Christian side, for athletic asceticism has been +associated with the most various religious and philosophic beliefs. If, +indeed, it had not possessed the charm of a new sensation, of a delicious +freedom, of an unknown adventure, it would never have conquered the +European world. There are only a few in that world who have in them the +stuff of moral athletes; there are many who respond to the attraction of +romance.</p> + +<p>The Christians rejected the grosser forms of sexual indulgence, but in +doing so they entered with a more delicate ardor into the more refined +forms of sexual intimacy. They cultivated <a name='6_Page_154'></a>a relationship of brothers and +sisters to each other, they kissed one another; at one time, in the +spiritual orgy of baptism, they were not ashamed to adopt complete +nakedness.<a name='6_FNanchor_74'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_74'><sup>[74]</sup></a></p> + +<p>A very instructive picture of the forms which chastity assumed among the +early Christians is given us in the treatise of Chrysostom <i>Against Those +who Keep Virgins in their Houses</i>. Our fathers, Chrysostom begins, only +knew two forms of sexual intimacy, marriage and fornication. Now a third +form has appeared: men introduce young girls into their houses and keep +them there permanently, respecting their virginity. "What," Chrysostom +asks, "is the reason? It seems to me that life in common with a woman is +sweet, even outside conjugal union and fleshly commerce. That is my +feeling; and perhaps it is not my feeling alone; it may also be that of +these men. They would not hold their honor so cheap nor give rise to such +scandals if this pleasure were not violent and tyrannical.... That there +should really be a pleasure in this which produces a love more ardent than +conjugal union may surprise you at first. But when I give you the proofs +you will agree that it is so." The absence of restraint to desire in +marriage, he continues, often leads to speedy disgust, and even apart from +this, sexual intercourse, pregnancy, delivery, lactation, the bringing up +of children, and all the pains and anxieties that accompany these things +soon destroy youth and dull the point of pleasure. The virgin is free from +these burdens. She retains her vigor and youthfulness, and even at the age +of forty may rival the young nubile girl. "A double ardor thus burns in +the heart of him who lives with her, and the gratification of desire never +extinguishes the bright flame which ever continues to increase in +strength." Chrysostom describes minutely all the little cares and +attentions which the modern girls of his time required, and which these +men delighted to expend on their virginal sweethearts whether in public or +in private. He cannot help thinking, however, that the man who lavishes +kisses and caresses on a woman whose virginity he retains <a name='6_Page_155'></a>is putting +himself somewhat in the position of Tantalus. But this new refinement of +tender chastity, which came as a delicious discovery to the early +Christians who had resolutely thrust away the licentiousness of the pagan +world, was deeply rooted, as we discover from the frequency with which the +grave Fathers of the Church, apprehensive of scandal, felt called upon to +reprove it, though their condemnation is sometimes not without a trace of +secret sympathy.<a name='6_FNanchor_75'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_75'><sup>[75]</sup></a></p> + +<p>There was one form in which the new Christian chastity flourished +exuberantly and unchecked: it conquered literature. The most charming, +and, we may be sure, the most popular literature of the early Church lay +in the innumerable romances of erotic chastity—to some extent, it may +well be, founded on fact—which are embodied to-day in the <i>Acta +Sanctorum</i>. We can see in even the most simple and non-miraculous early +Christian records of the martyrdom of women that the writers were fully +aware of the delicate charm of the heroine who, like Perpetua at Carthage, +tossed by wild cattle in the arena, rises to gather her torn garment +around her and to put up her disheveled hair.<a name='6_FNanchor_76'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_76'><sup>[76]</sup></a> It was an easy step to +the stories of romantic adventure. Among these delightful stories I may +refer especially to the legend of Thekla, which has been placed, +incorrectly it may be, as early as the first century, "The Bride and +Bridegroom of India" in <i>Judas Thomas's Acts</i>, "The Virgin of Antioch" as +narrated by St. Ambrose, the history of "Achilleus and Nereus," "Mygdonia +and Karish," and "Two Lovers of Auvergne" as told by Gregory of Tours. +Early Christian literature abounds in the stories of lovers who had indeed +preserved their chastity, and had yet discovered the most exquisite +secrets of love.</p> +<a name='6_Page_156'></a> +<div class='blkquot'><p>Thekla's day is the twenty-third of September. There is a very + good Syriac version (by Lipsius and others regarded as more + primitive than the Greek version) of the <i>Acts of Paul and + Thekla</i> (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Wright's <i>Apocryphal Acts</i>). These <i>Acts</i> + belong to the latter part of the second century. The story is + that Thekla, refusing to yield to the passion of the high priest + of Syria, was put, naked but for a girdle (<i>subligaculum</i>) into + the arena on the back of a lioness, which licked her feet and + fought for her against the other beasts, dying in her defense. + The other beasts, however, did her no harm, and she was finally + released. A queen loaded her with money, she modified her dress + to look like a man, travelled to meet Paul, and lived to old age. + Sir W. M. Ramsay has written an interesting study of these <i>Acts</i> + (<i>The Church in the Roman Empire</i>, Ch. XVI). He is of opinion + that the <i>Acts</i> are based on a first century document, and is + able to disentangle many elements of truth from the story. He + states that it is the only evidence we possess of the ideas and + actions of women during the first century in Asia Minor, where + their position was so high and their influence so great. Thekla + represents the assertion of woman's rights, and she administered + the rite of baptism, though in the existing versions of the + <i>Acts</i> these features are toned down or eliminated.</p> + +<p> Some of the most typical of these early Christian romances are + described as Gnostical in origin, with something of the germs of + Manichæan dualism which were held in the rich and complex matrix + of Gnosticism, while the spirit of these romances is also largely + Montanist, with the combined chastity and ardor, the pronounced + feminine tone due to its origin in Asia Minor, which marked + Montanism. It cannot be denied, however, that they largely passed + into the main stream of Christian tradition, and form an + essential and important part of that tradition. (Renan, in his + <i>Marc-Aurèle</i>, Chs. IX and XV, insists on the immense debt of + Christianity to Gnostic and Montanist contributions). A + characteristic example is the story of "The Betrothed of India" + in <i>Judas Thomas's Acts</i> (Wright's <i>Apocryphal Acts</i>). Judas + Thomas was sold by his master Jesus to an Indian merchant who + required a carpenter to go with him to India. On disembarking at + the city of Sandaruk they heard the sounds of music and singing, + and learnt that it was the wedding-feast of the King's daughter, + which all must attend, rich and poor, slaves and freemen, + strangers and citizens. Judas Thomas went, with his new master, + to the banquet and reclined with a garland of myrtle placed on + his head. When a Hebrew flute-player came and stood over him and + played, he sang the songs of Christ, and it was seen that he was + more beautiful than all that were there and the King sent for him + to bless the young couple in the bridal chamber. And when all + were gone out and the door of the bridal chamber closed, the + bridegroom approached the bride, and saw, as it were, Judas<a name='6_Page_157'></a> + Thomas still talking with her. But it was our Lord who said to + him, "I am not Judas, but his brother." And our Lord sat down on + the bed beside the young people and began to say to them: + "Remember, my children, what my brother spake with you, and know + to whom he committed you, and know that if ye preserve yourselves + from this filthy intercourse ye become pure temples, and are + saved from afflictions manifest and hidden, and from the heavy + care of children, the end whereof is bitter sorrow. For their + sakes ye will become oppressors and robbers, and ye will be + grievously tortured for their injuries. For children are the + cause of many pains; either the King falls upon them or a demon + lays hold of them, or paralysis befalls them. And if they be + healthy they come to ill, either by adultery, or theft, or + fornication, or covetousness, or vain-glory. But if ye will be + persuaded by me, and keep yourselves purely unto God, ye shall + have living children to whom not one of these blemishes and hurts + cometh nigh; and ye shall be without care and without grief and + without sorrow, and ye shall hope for the time when ye shall see + the true wedding-feast." The young couple were persuaded, and + refrained from lust, and our Lord vanished. And in the morning, + when it was dawn, the King had the table furnished early and + brought in before the bridegroom and bride. And he found them + sitting the one opposite the other, and the face of the bride was + uncovered and the bridegroom was very cheerful. The mother of the + bride saith to her: "Why art thou sitting thus, and art not + ashamed, but art as if, lo, thou wert married a long time, and + for many a day?" And her father, too, said; "Is it thy great love + for thy husband that prevents thee from even veiling thyself?" + And the bride answered and said: "Truly, my father, I am in great + love, and am praying to my Lord that I may continue in this love + which I have experienced this night. I am not veiled, because the + veil of corruption is taken from me, and I am not ashamed, + because the deed of shame has been removed far from me, and I am + cheerful and gay, and despise this deed of corruption and the + joys of this wedding-feast, because I am invited to the true + wedding-feast. I have not had intercourse with a husband, the end + whereof is bitter repentance, because I am betrothed to the true + Husband." The bridegroom answered also in the same spirit, very + naturally to the dismay of the King, who sent for the sorcerer + whom he had asked to bless his unlucky daughter. But Judas Thomas + had already left the city and at his inn the King's stewards + found only the flute-player, sitting and weeping because he had + not taken her with him. She was glad, however, when she heard + what had happened, and hastened to the young couple, and lived + with them ever afterwards. The King also was finally reconciled, + and all ended chastely, but happily.</p> + +<p> In these same <i>Judas Thomas's Acts</i>, which are not later than the + fourth century, we find (eighth act) the story of Mygdonia and + Karish.<a name='6_Page_158'></a> Mygdonia, the wife of Karish, is converted by Thomas and + flees from her husband, naked save for the curtain of the chamber + door which she has wrapped around her, to her old nurse. With the + nurse she goes to Thomas, who pours holy oil over her head, + bidding the nurse to anoint her all over with it; then a cloth is + put round her loins and he baptizes her; then she is clothed and + he gives her the sacrament. The young rapture of chastity grows + lyrical at times, and Judas Thomas breaks out: "Purity is the + athlete who is not overcome. Purity is the truth that blencheth + not. Purity is worthy before God of being to Him a familiar + handmaiden. Purity is the messenger of concord which bringeth the + tidings of peace."</p> + +<p> Another romance of chastity is furnished by the episode of + Drusiana in <i>The History of the Apostles</i> traditionally + attributed to Abdias, Bishop of Babylon (Bk. v, Ch. IV, <i>et + seq.</i>). Drusiana is the wife of Andronicus, and is so pious that + she will not have intercourse with him. The youth Callimachus + falls madly in love with her, and his amorous attempts involve + many exciting adventures, but the chastity of Drusiana is finally + triumphant.</p> + +<p> A characteristic example of the literature we are here concerned + with is St. Ambrose's story of "The Virgin in the Brothel" + (narrated in his <i>De Virginibus</i>, Migne's edition of Ambrose's + Works, vols. iii-iv, p. 211). A certain virgin, St. Ambrose tells + us, who lately lived at Antioch, was condemned either to + sacrifice to the gods or to go to the brothel. She chose the + latter alternative. But the first man who came in to her was a + Christian soldier who called her "sister," and bade her have no + fear. He proposed that they should exchange clothes. This was + done and she escaped, while the soldier was led away to death. At + the place of execution, however, she ran up and exclaimed that it + was not death she feared but shame. He, however, maintained that + he had been condemned to death in her place. Finally the crown of + martyrdom for which they contended was adjudged to both.</p> + +<p> We constantly observe in the early documents of this romantic + literature of chastity that chastity is insisted on by no means + chiefly because of its rewards after death, nor even because the + virgin who devotes herself to it secures in Christ an ever-young + lover whose golden-haired beauty is sometimes emphasized. Its + chief charm is represented as lying in its own joy and freedom + and the security it involves from all the troubles, + inconveniences and bondages of matrimony. This early Christian + movement of romantic chastity was clearly, in large measure, a + revolt of women against men and marriage. This is well brought + out in the instructive story, supposed to be of third century + origin, of the eunuchs Achilleus and Nereus, as narrated in the + <i>Acta Sanctorum</i>, May 12th. Achilleus and Nereus were Christian + eunuchs of the bedchamber to Domitia, a virgin of noble birth, + related to the Emperor Domitian <a name='6_Page_159'></a>and betrothed to Aurelian, son + of a Consul. One day, as their mistress was putting on her jewels + and her purple garments embroidered with gold, they began in turn + to talk to her about all the joys and advantages of virginity, as + compared to marriage with a mere man. The conversation is + developed at great length and with much eloquence. Domitia was + finally persuaded. She suffered much from Aurelian in + consequence, and when he obtained her banishment to an island she + went thither with Achilleus and Nereus, who were put to death. + Incidentally, the death of Felicula, another heroine of chastity, + is described. When elevated on the rack because she would not + marry, she constantly refused to deny Jesus, whom she called her + lover. "Ego non nego amatorem meum!"</p> + +<p> A special department of this literature is concerned with stories + of the conversions or the penitence of courtesans. St. + Martinianus, for instance (Feb. 13), was tempted by the courtesan + Zoe, but converted her. The story of St. Margaret of Cortona + (Feb. 22), a penitent courtesan, is late, for she belongs to the + thirteenth century. The most delightful document in this + literature is probably the latest, the fourteenth century Italian + devotional romance called <i>The Life of Saint Mary Magdalen</i>, + commonly associated with the name of Frate Domenico Cavalca. (It + has been translated into English). It is the delicately and + deliciously told romance of the chaste and passionate love of the + sweet sinner, Mary Magdalene, for her beloved Master.</p> + +<p> As time went on the insistence on the joys of chastity in this + life became less marked, and chastity is more and more regarded + as a state only to be fully rewarded in a future life. Even, + however, in Gregory of Tours's charming story of "The Two Lovers + of Auvergne," in which this attitude is clear, the pleasures of + chaste love in this life are brought out as clearly as in any of + the early romances (<i>Historia Francorum</i>, lib. i, cap. XLII). Two + senators of Auvergne each had an only child, and they betrothed + them to each other. When the wedding day came and the young + couple were placed in bed, the bride turned to the wall and wept + bitterly. The bridegroom implored her to tell him what was the + matter, and, turning towards him, she said that if she were to + weep all her days she could never wash away her grief for she had + resolved to give her little body immaculate to Christ, untouched + by men, and now instead of immortal roses she had only had on her + brow faded roses, which deformed rather than adorned it, and + instead of the dowry of Paradise which Christ had promised her + she had become the consort of a merely mortal man. She deplored + her sad fate at considerable length and with much gentle + eloquence. At length the bridegroom, overcome by her sweet words, + felt that eternal life had shone before him like a great light, + and declared that if she wished to abstain from carnal desires he + was of the same mind. She was grateful, and with clasped <a name='6_Page_160'></a>hands + they fell asleep. For many years they thus lived together, + chastely sharing the same bed. At length she died and was buried, + her lover restoring her immaculate to the hands of Christ. Soon + afterwards he died also, and was placed in a separate tomb. Then + a miracle happened which made manifest the magnitude of this + chaste love, for the two bodies were found mysteriously placed + together. To this day, Gregory concludes (writing in the sixth + century), the people of the place call them "The Two Lovers."</p> + +<p> Although Renan (<i>Marc-Aurèle</i>, Ch. XV) briefly called attention + to the existence of this copious early Christian literature + setting forth the romance of chastity, it seems as yet to have + received little or no study. It is, however, of considerable + importance, not merely for its own sake, but on account of its + psychological significance in making clear the nature of the + motive forces which made chastity easy and charming to the people + of the early Christian world, even when it involved complete + abstinence from sexual intercourse. The early Church + anathematized the eroticism of the Pagan world, and exorcized it + in the most effectual way by setting up a new and more exquisite + eroticism of its own.</p></div> + +<p>During the Middle Ages the primitive freshness of Christian chastity began +to lose its charm. No more romances of chastity were written, and in +actual life men no longer sought daring adventures in the field of +chastity. So far as the old ideals survived at all it was in the secular +field of chivalry. The last notable figure to emulate the achievements of +the early Christians was Robert of Arbrissel in Normandy.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Robert of Arbrissel, who founded, in the eleventh century, the + famous and distinguished Order of Fontevrault for women, was a + Breton. This Celtic origin is doubtless significant, for it may + explain his unfailing ardor and gaiety, and his enthusiastic + veneration for womanhood. Even those of his friends who + deprecated what they considered his scandalous conduct bear + testimony to his unfailing and cheerful temperament, his + alertness in action, his readiness for any deed of humanity, and + his entire freedom from severity. He attracted immense crowds of + people of all conditions, especially women, including + prostitutes, and his influence over women was great. Once he went + into a brothel to warm his feet, and, incidentally, converted all + the women there. "Who are you?" asked one of them, "I have been + here twenty-five years and nobody has ever come here to talk + about God." Robert's relation with his nuns at Fontevrault was + very intimate, and he would often sleep with them. This is set + forth precisely in letters written by friends of his, bishops and + abbots, one of whom remarks that Robert had "discovered a new + <a name='6_Page_161'></a>but fruitless form of martyrdom." A royal abbess of Fontevrault + in the seventeenth century, pretending that the venerated founder + of the order could not possibly have been guilty of such + scandalous conduct, and that the letters must therefore be + spurious, had the originals destroyed, so far as possible. The + Bollandists, in an unscholarly and incomplete account of the + matter (<i>Acta Sanctorum</i>, Feb. 25), adopted this view. J. von + Walter, however, in a recent and thorough study of Robert of + Arbrissel (<i>Die Ersten Wanderprediger Frankreichs</i>, Theil I), + shows that there is no reason whatever to doubt the authentic and + reliable character of the impugned letters.</p></div> + +<p>The early Christian legends of chastity had, however, their successors. +<i>Aucassin et Nicolette</i>, which was probably written in Northern France +towards the end of the twelfth century, is above all the descendant of the +stories in the <i>Acta Sanctorum</i> and elsewhere. It embodied their spirit +and carried it forward, uniting their delicate feeling for chastity and +purity with the ideal of monogamic love. <i>Aucassin et Nicolette</i> was the +death-knell of the primitive Christian romance of chastity. It was the +discovery that the chaste refinements of delicacy and devotion were +possible within the strictly normal sphere of sexual love.</p> + +<p>There were at least two causes which tended to extinguish the primitive +Christian attraction to chastity, even apart from the influence of the +Church authorities in repressing its romantic manifestations. In the first +place, the submergence of the old pagan world, with its practice and, to +some extent, ideal of sexual indulgence, removed the foil which had given +grace and delicacy to the tender freedom of the young Christians. In the +second place, the austerities which the early Christians had gladly +practised for the sake of their soul's health, were robbed of their charm +and spontaneity by being made a formal part of codes of punishment for +sin, first in the Penitentials and afterwards at the discretion of +confessors. This, it may be added, was rendered the more necessary because +the ideal of Christian chastity was no longer largely the possession of +refined people who had been rendered immune to Pagan license by being +brought up in its midst, and even themselves steeped in it. It was clearly +from the first a serious matter for the violent North Africans to maintain +the ideal of chastity, and when Christianity <a name='6_Page_162'></a>spread to Northern Europe it +seemed almost a hopeless task to acclimatize its ideals among the wild +Germans. Hereafter it became necessary for celibacy to be imposed on the +regular clergy by the stern force of ecclesiastical authority, while +voluntary celibacy was only kept alive by a succession of religious +enthusiasts perpetually founding new Orders. An asceticism thus enforced +could not always be accompanied by the ardent exaltation necessary to +maintain it, and in its artificial efforts at self-preservation it +frequently fell from its insecure heights to the depths of unrestrained +license.<a name='6_FNanchor_77'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_77'><sup>[77]</sup></a> This fatality of all hazardous efforts to overpass humanity's +normal limits begun to be realized after the Middle Ages were over by +clear-sighted thinkers. "Qui veut faire l'ange," said Pascal, pungently +summing up this view of the matter, "fait la bête." That had often been +illustrated in the history of the Church.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Penitentials began to come into use in the seventh century, + and became of wide prevalence and authority during the ninth and + tenth centuries. They were bodies of law, partly spiritual and + partly secular, and were thrown into the form of catalogues of + offences with the exact measure of penance prescribed for each + offence. They represented the introduction of social order among + untamed barbarians, and were codes of criminal law much more than + part of a system of sacramental confession and penance. In France + and Spain, where order on a Christian basis already existed, they + were little needed. They had their origin in Ireland and England, + and especially flourished in Germany; Charlemagne supported them + (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Lea, <i>History of Auricular Confession</i>, vol. ii, p. + 96, also Ch. XVII; Hugh Williams, edition of Gildas, Part II, + Appendix 3; the chief Penitentials are reproduced in + Wasserschleben's <i>Bussordnungen</i>).</p> + +<p> In 1216 the Lateran Council, under Innocent III, made confession + obligatory. The priestly prerogative of regulating the amount of + penance according to circumstances, with greater flexibility than + the rigid Penitentials admitted, was first absolutely asserted by + Peter of Poitiers.<a name='6_Page_163'></a> Then Alain de Lille threw aside the + Penitentials as obsolete, and declared that the priest himself + must inquire into the circumstances of each sin and weigh + precisely its guilt (Lea, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. ii, p. 171).</p> + +<p> Long before this period, however, the ideals of chastity, so far + as they involved any considerable degree of continence, although + they had become firmly hardened into the conventional traditions + and ideals of the Christian Church, had ceased to have any great + charm or force for the people living in Christendom. Among the + Northern barbarians, with different traditions of a more vigorous + and natural order behind them, the demands of sex were often + frankly exhibited. The monk Ordericus Vitalis, in the eleventh + century, notes what he calls the "lasciviousness" of the wives of + the Norman conquerors of England who, when left alone at home, + sent messages that if their husbands failed to return speedily + they would take new ones. The celibacy of the clergy was only + established with the very greatest difficulty, and when it was + established, priests became unchaste. Archbishop Odo of Rouen, in + the thirteenth century, recorded in the diary of his diocesan + visitations that there was one unchaste priest in every five + parishes, and even as regards the Italy of the same period the + friar Salimbene in his remarkable autobiography shows how little + chastity was regarded in the religious life. Chastity could now + only be maintained by force, usually the moral force of + ecclesiastical authority, which was itself undermined by + unchastity, but sometimes even physical force. It was in the + thirteenth century, in the opinion of some, that the girdle of + chastity (<i>cingula castitatis</i>) first begins to appear, but the + chief authority, Caufeynon (<i>La Ceinture de Chasteté</i>, 1904) + believes it only dates from the Renaissance (Schultz, <i>Das + Höfische Leben zur Zeit der Minnesänger</i>, vol. i, p. 595; Dufour, + <i>Histoire de la Prostitution</i>, vol. v, p. 272; Krauss, + <i>Anthropophyteia</i>, vol. iii, p. 247). In the sixteenth century + convents were liable to become almost brothels, as we learn on + the unimpeachable authority of Burchard, a Pope's secretary, in + his <i>Diarium</i>, edited by Thuasne who brings together additional + authorities for this statement in a footnote (vol. ii, p. 79); + that they remained so in the eighteenth century we see clearly in + the pages of Casanova's <i>Mémoires</i>, and in many other documents + of the period.</p></div> + +<p>The Renaissance and the rise of humanism undoubtedly affected the feeling +towards asceticism and chastity. On the one hand a new and ancient +sanction was found for the disregard of virtues which men began to look +upon as merely monkish, and on the other hand the finer spirits affected +by the new movement began to realize that chastity might be better +cultivated and observed by those who were free to do as they would than by +<a name='6_Page_164'></a>those who were under the compulsion of priestly authority. That is the +feeling that prevails in Montaigne, and that is the idea of Rabelais when +he made it the only rule of his Abbey of Thelème: "Fay ce que vouldras."</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>A little later this doctrine was repeated in varying tones by + many writers more or less tinged by the culture brought into + fashion by the Renaissance. "As long as Danae was free," remarks + Ferrand in his sixteenth century treatise, <i>De la Maladie + d'Amour</i>, "she was chaste." And Sir Kenelm Digby, the latest + representative of the Renaissance spirit, insists in his <i>Private + Memoirs</i> that the liberty which Lycurgus, "the wisest human + law-maker that ever was," gave to women to communicate their + bodies to men to whom they were drawn by noble affection, and the + hope of generous offspring, was the true cause why "real chastity + flourished in Sparta more than in any other part of the world."</p></div> + +<p>In Protestant countries the ascetic ideal of chastity was still further +discredited by the Reformation movement which was in considerable part a +revolt against compulsory celibacy. Religion was thus no longer placed on +the side of chastity. In the eighteenth century, if not earlier, the +authority of Nature also was commonly invoked against chastity. It has +thus happened that during the past two centuries serious opinion +concerning chastity has only been partially favorable to it. It began to +be felt that an unhappy and injurious mistake had been perpetrated by +attempting to maintain a lofty ideal which encouraged hypocrisy. "The +human race would gain much," as Sénancour wrote early in the nineteenth +century in his remarkable book on love, "if virtue were made less +laborious. The merit would not be so great, but what is the use of an +elevation which can rarely be sustained?"<a name='6_FNanchor_78'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_78'><sup>[78]</sup></a></p> + +<p>There can be no doubt that the undue discredit into which the idea of +chastity began to fall from the eighteenth century <a name='6_Page_165'></a>onwards was largely +due to the existence of that merely external and conventional physical +chastity which was arbitrarily enforced so far as it could be +enforced,—and is indeed in some degree still enforced, nominally or +really,—upon all respectable women outside marriage. The conception of +the physical virtue of virginity had degraded the conception of the +spiritual virtue of chastity. A mere routine, it was felt, prescribed to a +whole sex, whether they would or not, could never possess the beauty and +charm of a virtue. At the same time it began to be realized that, as a +matter of fact, the state of compulsory virginity is not only not a state +especially favorable to the cultivation of real virtues, but that it is +bound up with qualities which are no longer regarded as of high value.<a name='6_FNanchor_79'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_79'><sup>[79]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"How arbitrary, artificial, contrary to Nature, is the life now + imposed upon women in this matter of chastity!" wrote James + Hinton forty years ago. "Think of that line: 'A woman who + deliberates is lost.' We <i>make</i> danger, making all womanhood hang + upon a point like this, and surrounding it with unnatural and + preternatural dangers. There is a wanton unreason embodied in the + life of woman now; the present 'virtue' is a morbid unhealthy + plant. Nature and God never poised the life of a woman upon such + a needle's point. The whole modern idea of chastity has in it + sensual exaggeration, surely, in part, remaining to us from other + times, with what was good in it in great part gone."</p> + +<p> "The whole grace of virginity," wrote another philosopher, + Guyau,<a name='6_Page_166'></a> "is ignorance. Virginity, like certain fruits, can only + be preserved by a process of desiccation."</p> + +<p> Mérimée pointed out the same desiccating influence of virginity. + In a letter dated 1859 he wrote: "I think that nowadays people + attach far too much importance to chastity. Not that I deny that + chastity is a virtue, but there are degrees in virtues just as + there are in vices. It seems to be absurd that a woman should be + banished from society for having had a lover, while a woman who + is miserly, double-faced and spiteful goes everywhere. The + morality of this age is assuredly not that which is taught in the + Gospel. In my opinion it is better to love too much than not + enough. Nowadays dry hearts are stuck up on a pinnacle" (<i>Revue + des Deux Mondes</i>, April, 1896).</p> + +<p> Dr. H. Paul has developed an allied point. She writes: "There are + girls who, even as children, have prostituted themselves by + masturbation and lascivious thoughts. The purity of their souls + has long been lost and nothing remains unknown to them, but—they + have preserved their hymens! That is for the sake of the future + husband. Let no one dare to doubt their innocence with that + unimpeachable evidence! And if another girl, who has passed her + childhood in complete purity, now, with awakened senses and warm + impetuous womanliness, gives herself to a man in love or even + only in passion, they all stand up and scream that she is + 'dishonored!' And, not least, the prostituted girl with the + hymen. It is she indeed who screams loudest and throws the + biggest stones. Yet the 'dishonored' woman, who is sound and + wholesome, need not fear to tell what she has done to the man who + desires her in marriage, speaking as one human being to another. + She has no need to blush, she has exercised her human rights, and + no reasonable man will on that account esteem her the less" (Dr. + H. Paul, "Die Ueberschätzung der Jungfernschaft," <i>Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft</i>, Bd. ii, p. 14, 1907).</p> + +<p> In a similar spirit writes F. Erhard (<i>Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft</i>, Bd. i, p. 408): "Virginity in one sense has its + worth, but in the ordinary sense it is greatly overestimated. + Apart from the fact that a girl who possesses it may yet be + thoroughly perverted, this over-estimation of virginity leads to + the girl who is without it being despised, and has further + resulted in the development of a special industry for the + preparation, by means of a prudishly cloistral education, of + girls who will bring to their husbands the peculiar dainty of a + bride who knows nothing about anything. Naturally, this can only + be achieved at the expense of any rational education. What the + undeveloped little goose may turn into, no man can foresee."</p> + +<p> Freud (<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, March, 1908) also points out the evil + results of the education for marriage which is given to girls on + the basis of this ideal of virginity. "Education undertakes the + task of repressing the girl's sensuality until the time of + betrothal. It not only <a name='6_Page_167'></a>forbids sexual relations and sets a high + premium on innocence, but it also withdraws the ripening womanly + individuality from temptation, maintaining a state of ignorance + concerning the practical side of the part she is intended to play + in life, and enduring no stirring of love which cannot lead to + marriage. The result is that when she is suddenly permitted to + fall in love by the authority of her elders, the girl cannot + bring her psychic disposition to bear, and goes into marriage + uncertain of her own feelings. As a consequence of this + artificial retardation of the function of love she brings nothing + but deception to the husband who has set all his desires upon + her, and manifests frigidity in her physical relations with him."</p> + +<p> Sénancour (<i>De l'Amour</i>, vol. i, p. 285) even believes that, when + it is possible to leave out of consideration the question of + offspring, not only will the law of chastity become equal for the + two sexes, but there will be a tendency for the situation of the + sexes to be, to some extent, changed. "Continence becomes a + counsel rather than a precept, and it is in women that the + voluptuous inclination will be regarded with most indulgence. Man + is made for work; he only meets pleasure in passing; he must be + content that women should occupy themselves with it more than he. + It is men whom it exhausts, and men must always, in part, + restrain their desires."</p></div> + +<p>As, however, we liberate ourselves from the bondage of a compulsory +physical chastity, it becomes possible to rehabilitate chastity as a +virtue. At the present day it can no longer be said that there is on the +part of thinkers and moralists any active hostility to the idea of +chastity; there is, on the contrary, a tendency to recognize the value of +chastity. But this recognition has been accompanied by a return to the +older and sounder conception of chastity. The preservation of a rigid +sexual abstinence, an empty virginity, can only be regarded as a +pseudo-chastity. The only positive virtue which Aristotle could have +recognized in this field was a temperance involving restraint of the lower +impulses, a wise exercise and not a non-exercise.<a name='6_FNanchor_80'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_80'><sup>[80]</sup></a> The best thinkers of +the Christian Church adopted the same conception; St. Basil in his +important monastic rules laid no weight on self-discipline as an end in +itself, but regarded it as an instrument for enabling the spirit to gain +power over the flesh. St. Augustine declared that continence is only +excellent when practised <a name='6_Page_168'></a>in the faith of the highest good,<a name='6_FNanchor_81'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_81'><sup>[81]</sup></a> and he +regarded chastity as "an orderly movement of the soul subordinating lower +things to higher things, and specially to be manifested in conjugal +relationships"; Thomas Aquinas, defining chastity in much the same way, +defined impurity as the enjoyment of sexual pleasure not according to +right reason, whether as regards the object or the conditions.<a name='6_FNanchor_82'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_82'><sup>[82]</sup></a> But for +a time the voices of the great moralists were unheard. The virtue of +chastity was swamped in the popular Christian passion for the annihilation +of the flesh, and that view was, in the sixteenth century, finally +consecrated by the Council of Trent, which formally pronounced an anathema +upon anyone who should declare that the state of virginity and celibacy +was not better than the state of matrimony. Nowadays the pseudo-chastity +that was of value on the simple ground that any kind of continence is of +higher spiritual worth than any kind of sexual relationship belongs to the +past, except for those who adhere to ancient ascetic creeds. The mystic +value of virginity has gone; it seems only to arouse in the modern man's +mind the idea of a piquancy craved by the hardened rake;<a name='6_FNanchor_83'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_83'><sup>[83]</sup></a> it is men who +have themselves long passed the age of innocence who attach so much +importance to the innocence of their brides. The conception of life-long +continence as an ideal has also gone; at the best it is regarded as a mere +matter of personal preference. And the conventional simulation of +universal chastity, at the bidding of respectability, is coming to be +regarded as a hindrance rather than a help to the cultivation of any real +chastity.<a name='6_FNanchor_84'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_84'><sup>[84]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_169'></a> +<p>The chastity that is regarded by the moralist of to-day as a virtue has +its worth by no means in its abstinence. It is not, in St. Theresa's +words, the virtue of the tortoise which withdraws its limbs under its +carapace. It is a virtue because it is a discipline in self-control, +because it helps to fortify the character and will, and because it is +directly favorable to the cultivation of the most beautiful, exalted, and +effective sexual life. So viewed, chastity may be opposed to the demands +of debased mediæval Catholicism, but it is in harmony with the demands of +our civilized life to-day, and by no means at variance with the +requirements of Nature.</p> + +<p>There is always an analogy between the instinct of reproduction and the +instinct of nutrition. In the matter of eating it is the influence of +science, of physiology, which has finally put aside an exaggerated +asceticism, and made eating "pure." The same process, as James Hinton well +pointed out, has been made possible in the sexual relationships; "science +has in its hands the key to purity."<a name='6_FNanchor_85'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_85'><sup>[85]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Many influences have, however, worked together to favor an insistence on +chastity. There has, in the first place, been an inevitable reaction +against the sexual facility which had come to be regarded as natural. Such +facility was found to have no moral value, for it tended to relaxation of +moral fibre and was unfavorable to the finest sexual satisfaction. It +could not even claim to be natural in any broad sense of the word, for, in +Nature generally, sexual gratification tends to be rare and difficult.<a name='6_FNanchor_86'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_86'><sup>[86]</sup></a> +Courtship is arduous and long, the season of love is strictly delimited, +pregnancy interrupts sexual relationships. Even among savages, so long as +they have been untainted by civilization, virility is usually maintained +by a fine asceticism; the <a name='6_Page_170'></a>endurance of hardship, self-control and +restraint, tempered by rare orgies, constitute a discipline which covers +the sexual as well as every other department of savage life. To preserve +the same virility in civilized life, it may well be felt, we must +deliberately cultivate a virtue which under savage conditions of life is +natural.<a name='6_FNanchor_87'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_87'><sup>[87]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The influence of Nietzsche, direct and indirect, has been on the side of +the virtue of chastity in its modern sense. The command: "Be hard," as +Nietzsche used it, was not so much an injunction to an unfeeling +indifference towards others as an appeal for a more strenuous attitude +towards one's self, the cultivation of a self-control able to gather up +and hold in the forces of the soul for expenditure on deliberately +accepted ends. "A relative chastity," he wrote, "a fundamental and wise +foresight in the face of erotic things, even in thought, is part of a fine +reasonableness in life, even in richly endowed and complete natures."<a name='6_FNanchor_88'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_88'><sup>[88]</sup></a> +In this matter Nietzsche is a typical representative of the modern +movement for the restoration of chastity to its proper place as a real and +beneficial virtue, and not a mere empty convention. Such a movement could +not fail to make itself felt, for all that favors facility and luxurious +softness in sexual matters is quickly felt to degrade character as well as +to diminish the finest erotic satisfaction. For erotic satisfaction, in +its highest planes, is only possible when we have secured for the sexual +impulse a high degree of what Colin Scott calls "irradiation," that is to +say a wide diffusion through the whole of the psychic organism. And that +can only be attained by placing impediments in the way of the swift and +direct gratification of sexual desire, by compelling it to increase its +force, to take long circuits, to charge the whole organism so highly that +the final climax of gratified love is not the trivial detumescence of a +petty desire but the immense consummation of a longing in which the whole +soul as well as the whole body has its part. "Only the <a name='6_Page_171'></a>chaste can be +really obscene," said Huysmans. And on a higher plane, only the chaste can +really love.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"Physical purity," remarks Hans Menjago ("Die Ueberschätzung der + Physischen Reinheit," <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, vol. ii, + Part VIII) "was originally valued as a sign of greater strength + of will and firmness of character, and it marked a rise above + primitive conditions. This purity was difficult to preserve in + those unsure days; it was rare and unusual. From this rarity rose + the superstition of supernatural power residing in the virgin. + But this has no meaning as soon as such purity becomes general + and a specially conspicuous degree of firmness of character is no + longer needed to maintain it.... Physical purity can only possess + value when it is the result of individual strength of character, + and not when it is the result of compulsory rules of morality."</p> + +<p> Konrad Höller, who has given special attention to the sexual + question in schools, remarks in relation to physical exercise: + "The greatest advantage of physical exercises, however, is not + the development of the active and passive strength of the body + and its skill, but the establishment and fortification of the + authority of the will over the body and its needs, so much given + up to indolence. He who has learnt to endure and overcome, for + the sake of a definite aim, hunger and thirst and fatigue, will + be the better able to withstand sexual impulses and the + temptation to gratify them, when better insight and æsthetic + feeling have made clear to him, as one used to maintain authority + over his body, that to yield would be injurious or disgraceful" + (K. Höller, "Die Aufgabe der Volksschule," <i>Sexualpädagogik</i>, p. + 70). Professor Schäfenacker (<i>id.</i>, p. 102), who also emphasizes + the importance of self-control and self-restraint, thinks a youth + must bear in mind his future mission, as citizen and father of a + family.</p> + +<p> A subtle and penetrative thinker of to-day, Jules de Gaultier, + writing on morals without reference to this specific question, + has discussed what new internal inhibitory motives we can appeal + to in replacing the old external inhibition of authority and + belief which is now decayed. He answers that the state of feeling + on which old faiths were based still persists. "May not," he + asks, "the desire for a thing that we love and wish for + beneficently replace the belief that a thing is by divine will, + or in the nature of things? Will not the presence of a bridle on + the frenzy of instinct reveal itself as a useful attitude adopted + by instinct itself for its own conservation, as a symptom of the + force and health of instinct? Is not empire over oneself, the + power of regulating one's acts, a mark of superiority and a + motive for self-esteem? Will not this joy of pride have the same + authority in preserving the <a name='6_Page_172'></a>instincts as was once possessed by + religious fear and the pretended imperatives of reason?" (Jules + de Gaultier, <i>La Dépendance de la Morale et l'Indépendance des + Mœurs</i>, p. 153.)</p> + +<p> H. G. Wells (in <i>A Modern Utopia</i>), pointing out the importance of + chastity, though rejecting celibacy, invokes, like Jules de + Gaultier, the motive of pride. "Civilization has developed far + more rapidly than man has modified. Under the unnatural + perfection of security, liberty, and abundance our civilization + has attained, the normal untrained human being is disposed to + excess in almost every direction; he tends to eat too much and + too elaborately, to drink too much, to become lazy faster than + his work can be reduced, to waste his interest upon displays, and + to make love too much and too elaborately. He gets out of + training, and concentrates upon egoistic or erotic broodings. Our + founders organized motives from all sorts of sources, but I think + the chief force to give men self-control is pride. Pride may not + be the noblest thing in the soul, but it is the best king there, + for all that. They looked to it to keep a man clean and sound and + sane. In this matter, as in all matters of natural desire, they + held no appetite must be glutted, no appetite must have + artificial whets, and also and equally that no appetite should be + starved. A man must come from the table satisfied, but not + replete. And, in the matter of love, a straight and clean desire + for a clean and straight fellow-creature was our founders' ideal. + They enjoined marriage between equals as the duty to the race, + and they framed directions of the precisest sort to prevent that + uxorious inseparableness, that connubiality, that sometimes + reduces a couple of people to something jointly less than + either."</p> + +<p> With regard to chastity as an element of erotic satisfaction, + Edward Carpenter writes (<i>Love's Coming of Age</i>, p. 11): "There + is a kind of illusion about physical desire similar to that which + a child suffers from when, seeing a beautiful flower, it + instantly snatches the same, and destroys in a few moments the + form and fragrance which attracted it. He only gets the full + glory who holds himself back a little, and truly possesses, who + is willing, if need be, not to possess. He is indeed a master of + life who, accepting the grosser desires as they come to his body, + and not refusing them, knows how to transform them at will into + the most rare and fragrant flowers of human emotion."</p></div> + +<p>Beyond its functions in building up character, in heightening and +ennobling the erotic life, and in subserving the adequate fulfilment of +family and social duties, chastity has a more special value for those who +cultivate the arts. We may not always be inclined to believe the writers +who have declared that their verse alone is wanton, but their lives +chaste. It is certainly true, however, <a name='6_Page_173'></a>that a relationship of this kind +tends to occur. The stuff of the sexual life, as Nietzsche says, is the +stuff of art; if it is expended in one channel it is lost for the other. +The masters of all the more intensely emotional arts have frequently +cultivated a high degree of chastity. This is notably the case as regards +music; one thinks of Mozart,<a name='6_FNanchor_89'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_89'><sup>[89]</sup></a> of Beethoven, of Schubert, and many +lesser men. In the case of poets and novelists chastity may usually seem +to be less prevalent but it is frequently well-marked, and is not seldom +disguised by the resounding reverberations which even the slightest +love-episode often exerts on the poetic organism. Goethe's life seems, at +a first glance, to be a long series of continuous love-episodes. Yet when +we remember that it was the very long life of a man whose vigor remained +until the end, that his attachments long and profoundly affected his +emotional life and his work, and that with most of the women he has +immortalized he never had actual sexual relationships at all, and when we +realize, moreover, that, throughout, he accomplished an almost +inconceivably vast amount of work, we shall probably conclude that sexual +indulgence had a very much smaller part in Goethe's life than in that of +many an average man on whom it leaves no obvious emotional or intellectual +trace whatever. Sterne, again, declared that he must always have a +Dulcinea dancing in his head, yet the amount of his intimate relations +with women appears to have been small. Balzac spent his life toiling at +his desk and carrying on during many years a love correspondence with a +woman he scarcely ever saw and at the end only spent a few months of +married life with. The like experience has befallen many artistic +creators. For, in the words of Landor, "absence is the invisible and +incorporeal mother of ideal beauty."</p> + +<p>We do well to remember that, while the auto-erotic manifestations through +the brain are of infinite variety and importance, <a name='6_Page_174'></a>the brain and the +sexual organs are yet the great rivals in using up bodily energy, and that +there is an antagonism between extreme brain vigor and extreme sexual +vigor, even although they may sometimes both appear at different periods +in the same individual.<a name='6_FNanchor_90'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_90'><sup>[90]</sup></a> In this sense there is no paradox in the +saying of Ramon Correa that potency is impotence and impotence potency, +for a high degree of energy, whether in athletics or in intellect or in +sexual activity, is unfavorable to the display of energy in other +directions. Every high degree of potency has its related impotencies.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It may be added that we may find a curiously inconsistent proof + of the excessive importance attached to sexual function by a + society which systematically tries to depreciate sex, in the + disgrace which is attributed to the lack of "virile" potency. + Although civilized life offers immense scope for the activities + of sexually impotent persons, the impotent man is made to feel + that, while he need not be greatly concerned if he suffers from + nervous disturbances of digestion, if he should suffer just as + innocently from nervous disturbances of the sexual impulse, it is + almost a crime. A striking example of this was shown, a few years + ago, when it was plausibly suggested that Carlyle's relations + with his wife might best be explained by supposing that he + suffered from some trouble of sexual potency. At once admirers + rushed forward to "defend" Carlyle from this "disgraceful" + charge; they were more shocked than if it had been alleged that + he was a syphilitic. Yet impotence is, at the most, an infirmity, + whether due to some congenital anatomical defect or to a + disturbance of nervous balance in the delicate sexual mechanism, + such as is apt to occur in men of abnormally sensitive + temperament. It is no more disgraceful to suffer from it than + from dyspepsia, with which, indeed, it may be associated. Many + men of genius and high moral character have been sexually + deformed. This was the case with Cowper (though this significant + fact is suppressed by his biographers); Ruskin was divorced for a + reason of this kind; and J. S. Mill, it is said, was sexually of + little more than infantile development.</p></div> + +<p>Up to this point I have been considering the quality of chastity and the +quality of asceticism in their most general sense <a name='6_Page_175'></a>and without any attempt +at precise differentiation.<a name='6_FNanchor_91'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_91'><sup>[91]</sup></a> But if we are to accept these as modern +virtues, valid to-day, it is necessary that we should be somewhat more +precise in defining them. It seems most convenient, and most strictly +accordant also with etymology, if we agree to mean by asceticism or +<i>ascesis</i>, the athlete quality of self-discipline, controlling, by no +means necessarily for indefinitely prolonged periods, the gratification of +the sexual impulse. By chastity, which is primarily the quality of purity, +and secondarily that of holiness, rather than of abstinence, we may best +understand a due proportion between erotic claims and the other claims of +life. "Chastity," as Ellen Key well says, "is harmony between body and +soul in relation to love." Thus comprehended, asceticism is the virtue of +control that leads up to erotic gratification, and chastity is the virtue +which exerts its harmonizing influence in the erotic life itself.</p> + +<p>It will be seen that asceticism by no means necessarily involves perpetual +continence. Properly understood, asceticism is a discipline, a training, +which has reference to an end not itself. If it is compulsorily perpetual, +whether at the dictates of a religious dogma, or as a mere fetish, it is +no longer on a natural basis, and it is no longer moral, for the restraint +of a man who has spent his whole life in a prison is of no value for life. +If it is to be natural and to be moral asceticism must have an end outside +itself, it must subserve the ends of vital activity, which cannot be +subserved by a person who is engaged in a perpetual struggle with his own +natural instincts. A man may, indeed, as a matter of taste or preference, +live his whole life in sexual abstinence, freely and easily, but in that +case he is not an ascetic, and his abstinence is neither a subject for +applause nor for criticism.</p> +<a name='6_Page_176'></a> +<p>In the same way chastity, far from involving sexual abstinence, only has +its value when it is brought within the erotic sphere. A purity that is +ignorance, when the age of childish innocence is once passed, is mere +stupidity; it is nearer to vice than to virtue. Nor is purity consonant +with effort and struggle; in that respect it differs from asceticism. "We +conquer the bondage of sex," Rosa Mayreder says, "by acceptance, not by +denials, and men can only do this with the help of women." The would-be +chastity of cold calculation is equally unbeautiful and unreal, and +without any sort of value. A true and worthy chastity can only be +supported by an ardent ideal, whether, as among the early Christians, this +is the erotic ideal of a new romance, or, as among ourselves, a more +humanly erotic ideal. "Only erotic idealism," says Ellen Key, "can arouse +enthusiasm for chastity." Chastity in a healthily developed person can +thus be beautifully exercised only in the actual erotic life; in part it +is the natural instinct of dignity and temperance; in part it is the art +of touching the things of sex with hands that remember their aptness for +all the fine ends of life. Upon the doorway of entrance to the inmost +sanctuary of love there is thus the same inscription as on the doorway to +the Epidaurian Sanctuary of Aesculapius: "None but the pure shall enter +here."</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It will be seen that the definition of chastity remains somewhat + lacking in precision. That is inevitable. We cannot grasp purity + tightly, for, like snow, it will merely melt in our hands. + "Purity itself forbids too minute a system of rules for the + observance of purity," well says Sidgwick (<i>Methods of Ethics</i>, + Bk. iii, Ch. IX). Elsewhere (<i>op. cit.</i>, Bk. iii, Ch. XI) he + attempts to answer the question: What sexual relations are + essentially impure? and concludes that no answer is possible. + "There appears to be no distinct principle, having any claim to + self-evidence, upon which the question can be answered so as to + command general assent." Even what is called "Free Love," he + adds, "in so far as it is earnestly advocated as a means to a + completer harmony of sentiment between men and women, cannot be + condemned as impure, for it seems paradoxical to distinguish + purity from impurity merely by less rapidity of transition."</p> + +<p> Moll, from the standpoint of medical psychology, reaches the same + conclusion as Sidgwick from that of ethics. In a report on the + "Value of Chastity for Men," published as an appendix to the + third edition<a name='6_Page_177'></a> (1899) of his <i>Konträre Sexualempfindung</i>, the + distinguished Berlin physician discusses the matter with much + vigorous common sense, insisting that "chaste and unchaste are + <i>relative ideas</i>." We must not, he states, as is so often done, + identify "chaste" with "sexually abstinent." He adds that we are + not justified in describing all extra-marital sexual intercourse + as unchaste, for, if we do so, we shall be compelled to regard + nearly all men, and some very estimable women, as unchaste. He + rightly insists that in this matter we must apply the same rule + to women as to men, and he points out that even when it involves + what may be technically adultery sexual intercourse is not + necessarily unchaste. He takes the case of a girl who, at + eighteen, when still mentally immature, is married to a man with + whom she finds it impossible to live and a separation + consequently occurs, although a divorce may be impossible to + obtain. If she now falls passionately in love with a man her love + may be entirely chaste, though it involves what is technically + adultery.</p></div> + +<p>In thus understanding asceticism and chastity, and their beneficial +functions in life, we see that they occupy a place midway between the +artificially exaggerated position they once held and that to which they +were degraded by the inevitable reaction of total indifference or actual +hostility which followed. Asceticism and chastity are not rigid +categorical imperatives; they are useful means to desirable ends; they are +wise and beautiful arts. They demand our estimation, but not our +over-estimation. For in over-estimating them, it is too often forgotten, +we over-estimate the sexual instinct. The instinct of sex is indeed +extremely important. Yet it has not that all-embracing and supereminent +importance which some, even of those who fight against it, are accustomed +to believe. That artificially magnified conception of the sexual impulse +is fortified by the artificial emphasis placed upon asceticism. We may +learn the real place of the sexual impulse in learning how we may +reasonably and naturally view the restraints on that impulse.</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='6_Footnote_69'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_69'>[69]</a><div class='note'><p> For Blake and for Shelley, as well as, it may be added, for +Hinton, chastity, as Todhunter remarks in his <i>Study of Shelley</i>, is "a +type of submission to the actual, a renunciation of the infinite, and is +therefore hated by them. The chaste man, <i>i.e.</i>, the man of prudence and +self-control, is the man who has lost the nakedness of his primitive +innocence."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_70'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_70'>[70]</a><div class='note'><p> For evidence of the practices of savages in this matter, see +Appendix <i>A</i> to the third volume of these <i>Studies</i>, "The Sexual Instinct +in Savages." <i>Cf.</i> also Chs. IV and VII of Westermarck's <i>History of Human +Marriage</i>, and also Chs. XXXVIII and XLI of the same author's <i>Origin and +Development of the Moral Ideas</i>, vol. ii; Frazer's <i>Golden Bough</i> contains +much bearing on this subject, as also Crawley's <i>Mystic Rose</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_71'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_71'>[71]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, Westermarck, <i>Origin and Development of the +Moral Ideas</i>, vol. ii, pp. 412 <i>et seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_72'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_72'>[72]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus an old Maori declared, a few years ago, that the +decline of his race has been entirely due to the loss of the ancient +religious faith in the <i>tabu</i>. "For," said he (I quote from an Auckland +newspaper), "in the olden-time our <i>tapu</i> ramified the whole social +system. The head, the hair, spots where apparitions appeared, places which +the <i>tohungas</i> proclaimed as sacred, we have forgotten and disregarded. +Who nowadays thinks of the sacredness of the head? See when the kettle +boils, the young man jumps up, whips the cap off his head, and uses it for +a kettle-holder. Who nowadays but looks on with indifference when the +barber of the village, if he be near the fire, shakes the loose hair off +his cloth into it, and the joke and the laughter goes on as if no sacred +operation had just been concluded. Food is consumed on places which, in +bygone days, it dared not even be carried over."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_73'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_73'>[73]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus, long before Christian monks arose, the ascetic life of +the cloister on very similar lines existed in Egypt in the worship of +Serapis (Dill, <i>Roman Society</i>, p. 79).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_74'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_74'>[74]</a><div class='note'><p> At night, in the baptistry, with lamps dimly burning, the +women were stripped even of their tunics, plunged three times in the pool, +then anointed, dressed in white, and kissed.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_75'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_75'>[75]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus Jerome, in his letter to Eustochium, refers to those +couples who "share the same room, often even the same bed, and call us +suspicious if we draw any conclusions," while Cyprian (<i>Epistola</i>, 86) is +unable to approve of those men he hears of, one a deacon, who live in +familiar intercourse with virgins, even sleeping in the same bed with +them, for, he declares, the feminine sex is weak and youth is wanton.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_76'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_76'>[76]</a><div class='note'><p> Perpetua (<i>Acta Sanctorum</i>, March 7) is termed by Hort and +Mayor "that fairest flower in the garden of post-Apostolic Christendom." +She was not, however, a virgin, but a young mother with a baby at her +breast.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_77'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_77'>[77]</a><div class='note'><p> The strength of early Christian asceticism lay in its +spontaneous and voluntary character. When, in the ninth century, the +Carlovingians attempted to enforce monastic and clerical celibacy, the +result was a great outburst of unchastity and crime; nunneries became +brothels, nuns were frequently guilty of infanticide, monks committed +unspeakable abominations, the regular clergy formed incestuous relations +with their nearest female relatives (Lea, <i>History of Sacerdotal +Celibacy</i>, vol. i, pp, 155 <i>et seq.</i>).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_78'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_78'>[78]</a><div class='note'><p> Sénancour, <i>De l'Amour</i>, vol. ii, p. 233. Islam has placed +much less stress on chastity than Christianity, but practically, it would +appear, there is often more regard for chastity under Mohammedan rule than +under Christian rule. Thus it is stated by "Viator" (<i>Fortnightly Review</i>, +Dec., 1908) that formerly, under Turkish Moslem rule, it was impossible to +buy the virtue of women in Bosnia, but that now, under the Christian rule +of Austria, it is everywhere possible to buy women near the Austrian +frontier.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_79'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_79'>[79]</a><div class='note'><p> The basis of this feeling was strengthened when it was shown +by scholars that the physical virtue of "virginity" had been masquerading +under a false name. To remain a virgin seems to have meant at the first, +among peoples of early Aryan culture, by no means to take a vow of +chastity, but to refuse to submit to the yoke of patriarchal marriage. The +women who preferred to stand outside marriage were "virgins," even though +mothers of large families, and Æschylus speaks of the Amazons as +"virgins," while in Greek the child of an unmarried girl was always "the +virgin's son." The history of Artemis, the most primitive of Greek +deities, is instructive from this point of view. She was originally only +virginal in the sense that she rejected marriage, being the goddess of a +nomadic and matriarchal hunting people who had not yet adopted marriage, +and she was the goddess of childbirth, worshipped with orgiastic dances +and phallic emblems. It was by a late transformation that Artemis became +the goddess of chastity (Farnell, <i>Cults of the Greek States</i>, vol. ii, +pp. 442 <i>et seq.</i>; Sir W. M. Ramsay, <i>Cities of Phrygia</i>, vol. i, p. 96; +Paul Lafargue, "Les Mythes Historiques," <i>Revue des Idées</i>, Dec., 1904).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_80'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_80'>[80]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, Nicomachean Ethics, Bk. iii, Ch. XIII.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_81'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_81'>[81]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>De Civitate Dei</i>, lib. xv, cap. XX. A little further on +(lib. xvi, cap. XXV) he refers to Abraham as a man able to use women as a +man should, his wife temperately, his concubine compliantly, neither +immoderately.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_82'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_82'>[82]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Summa</i>, Migne's edition, vol. iii, qu. 154, art. I.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_83'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_83'>[83]</a><div class='note'><p> See the Study of Modesty in the first volume of these +<i>Studies</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_84'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_84'>[84]</a><div class='note'><p> The majority of chaste youths, remarks an acute critic of +modern life (Hellpach, <i>Nervosität und Kultur</i>, p. 175), are merely +actuated by traditional principles, or by shyness, fear of venereal +infections, lack of self-confidence, want of money, very seldom by any +consideration for a future wife, and that indeed would be a tragi-comic +error, for a woman lays no importance on intact masculinity. Moreover, he +adds, the chaste man is unable to choose a wife wisely, and it is among +teachers and clergymen—the chastest class—that most unhappy marriages +are made. Milton had already made this fact an argument for facility of +divorce.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_85'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_85'>[85]</a><div class='note'><p> "In eating," said Hinton, "we have achieved the task of +combining pleasure with an absence of 'lust.' The problem for man and +woman is so to use and possess the sexual passion as to make it the +minister to higher things, with no restraint on it but that. It is +essentially connected with things of the spiritual order, and would +naturally revolve round them. To think of it as merely bodily is a +mistake."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_86'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_86'>[86]</a><div class='note'><p> See "Analysis of the Sexual Impulse," and Appendix, "The +Sexual Instinct in Savages," in vol. iii of these <i>Studies</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_87'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_87'>[87]</a><div class='note'><p> I have elsewhere discussed more at length the need in modern +civilized life of a natural and sincere asceticism (see <i>Affirmations</i>, +1898) "St. Francis and Others."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_88'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_88'>[88]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Der Wille zur Macht</i>, p. 392.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_89'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_89'>[89]</a><div class='note'><p> At the age of twenty-five, when he had already produced much +fine work, Mozart wrote in his letters that he had never touched a woman, +though he longed for love and marriage. He could not afford to marry, he +would not seduce an innocent girl, a venial relation was repulsive to +him.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_90'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_90'>[90]</a><div class='note'><p> Reibmayr, <i>Die Entwicklungsgeschichte des Talentes und +Genies.</i>, Bd. i, p. 437.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_91'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_91'>[91]</a><div class='note'><p> We may exclude altogether, it is scarcely necessary to +repeat, the quality of virginity—that is to say, the possession of an +intact hymen—since this is a merely physical quality with no necessary +ethical relationships. The demand for virginity in women is, for the most +part, either the demand for a better marketable article, or for a more +powerful stimulant to masculine desire. Virginity involves no moral +qualities in its possessor. Chastity and asceticism, on the other hand, +are meaningless terms, except as demands made by the spirit on itself or +on the body it controls.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_CHAPTER_VI'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_178'></a>CHAPTER VI.</h2> + +<h3>THE PROBLEM OF SEXUAL ABSTINENCE.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Influence of Tradition—The Theological Conception of Lust—Tendency +of These Influences to Degrade Sexual Morality—Their Result in Creating +the Problem of Sexual Abstinence—The Protests Against Sexual +Abstinence—Sexual Abstinence and Genius—Sexual Abstinence in Women—The +Advocates of Sexual Abstinence—Intermediate Attitude—Unsatisfactory +Nature of the Whole Discussion—Criticism of the Conception of Sexual +Abstinence—Sexual Abstinence as Compared to Abstinence from Food—No +Complete Analogy—The Morality of Sexual Abstinence Entirely Negative—Is +It the Physician's Duty to Advise Extra-Conjugal Sexual +Intercourse?—Opinions of Those Who Affirm or Deny This Duty—The +Conclusion Against Such Advice—The Physician Bound by the Social and +Moral Ideas of His Age—The Physician as Reformer—Sexual Abstinence and +Sexual Hygiene—Alcohol—The Influence of Physical and Mental +Exercise—The Inadequacy of Sexual Hygiene in This Field—The Unreal +Nature of the Conception of Sexual Abstinence—The Necessity of Replacing +It by a More Positive Ideal.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>When we look at the matter from a purely abstract or even purely +biological point of view, it might seem that in deciding that asceticism +and chastity are of high value for the personal life we have said all that +is necessary to say. That, however, is very far from being the case. We +soon realize here, as at every point in the practical application of +sexual psychology, that it is not sufficient to determine the abstractly +right course along biological lines. We have to harmonize our biological +demands with social demands. We are ruled not only by natural instincts +but by inherited traditions, that in the far past were solidly based on +intelligible grounds, and that even still, by the mere fact of their +existence, exert a force which we cannot and ought not to ignore.</p> + +<p>In discussing the valuation of the sexual impulse we found that we had +good ground for making a very high estimate of love. In discussing +chastity and asceticism we found that they also are highly to be valued. +And we found that, so far from any <a name='6_Page_179'></a>contradiction being here involved, +love and chastity are intertwined in all their finest developments, and +that there is thus a perfect harmony in apparent opposition. But when we +come to consider the matter in detail, in its particular personal +applications, we find that a new factor asserts itself. We find that our +inherited social and religious traditions exert a pressure, all on one +side, which makes it impossible to place the relations of love and +chastity simply on the basis of biology and reason. We are confronted at +the outset by our traditions. On the one side these traditions have +weighted the word "lust"—considered as expressing all the manifestations +of the sexual impulse which are outside marriage or which fail to have +marriage as their direct and ostentatious end—with deprecatory and +sinister meanings. And on the other side these traditions have created the +problem of "sexual abstinence," which has nothing to do with either +asceticism or chastity as these have been defined in the previous chapter, +but merely with the purely negative pressure on the sexual impulse, +exerted, independently of the individual's wishes, by his religious and +social environment.</p> + +<p>The theological conception of "lust," or "libido," as sin, followed +logically the early Christian conception of "the flesh," and became +inevitable as soon as that conception was firmly established. Not only, +indeed, had early Christian ideals a degrading influence on the estimation +of sexual desire <i>per se</i>, but they tended to depreciate generally the +dignity of the sexual relationship. If a man made sexual advances to a +woman outside marriage, and thus brought her within the despised circle of +"lust," he was injuring her because he was impairing her religious and +moral value.<a name='6_FNanchor_92'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_92'><sup>[92]</sup></a> The only way he could repair the damage done was by +paying her money or by entering into a forced and therefore probably +unfortunate marriage with her. That is to say that sexual relationships +were, by the ecclesiastical traditions, <a name='6_Page_180'></a>placed on a pecuniary basis, on +the same level as prostitution. By its well-meant intentions to support +the theological morality which had developed on an ascetic basis, the +Church was thus really undermining even that form of sexual relationship +which it sanctified.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Gregory the Great ordered that the seducer of a virgin shall + marry her, or, in case of refusal, be severely punished + corporally and shut up in a monastery to perform penance. + According to other ecclesiastical rules, the seducer of a virgin, + though held to no responsibility by the civil forum, was required + to marry her, or to find a husband and furnish a dowry for her. + Such rules had their good side, and were especially equitable + when seduction had been accomplished by deceit. But they largely + tended in practice to subordinate all questions of sexual + morality to a money question. The reparation to the woman, also, + largely became necessary because the ecclesiastical conception of + lust caused her value to be depreciated by contact with lust, and + the reparation might be said to constitute a part of penance. + Aquinas held that lust, in however slight a degree, is a mortal + sin, and most of the more influential theologians took a view + nearly or quite as rigid. Some, however, held that a certain + degree of delectation is possible in these matters without mortal + sin, or asserted, for instance, that to feel the touch of a soft + and warm hand is not mortal sin so long as no sexual feeling is + thereby aroused. Others, however, held that such distinctions are + impossible, and that all pleasures of this kind are sinful. Tomás + Sanchez endeavored at much length to establish rules for the + complicated problems of delectation that thus arose, but he was + constrained to admit that no rules are really possible, and that + such matters must be left to the judgment of a prudent man. At + that point casuistry dissolves and the modern point of view + emerges (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Lea, <i>History of Auricular Confession</i>, + vol. ii, pp. 57, 115, 246, etc.).</p></div> + +<p>Even to-day the influence of the old traditions of the Church still +unconsciously survives among us. That is inevitable as regards religious +teachers, but it is found also in men of science, even in Protestant +countries. The result is that quite contradictory dogmas are found side by +side, even in the same writer. On the one hand, the manifestations of the +sexual impulse are emphatically condemned as both unnecessary and evil; on +the other hand, marriage, which is fundamentally (whatever else it may +also be) a manifestation of the sexual impulse, receives equally emphatic +approval as the only proper and moral form of <a name='6_Page_181'></a>living.<a name='6_FNanchor_93'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_93'><sup>[93]</sup></a> There can be no +reasonable doubt whatever that it is to the surviving and pervading +influence of the ancient traditional theological conception of <i>libido</i> +that we must largely attribute the sharp difference of opinions among +physicians on the question of sexual abstinence and the otherwise +unnecessary acrimony with which these opinions have sometimes been stated.</p> + +<p>On the one side, we find the emphatic statement that sexual intercourse is +necessary and that health cannot be maintained unless the sexual +activities are regularly exercised.</p> + +<p>"All parts of the body which are developed for a definite use are kept in +health, and in the enjoyment of fair growth and of long youth, by the +fulfilment of that use, and by their appropriate exercise in the +employment to which they are accustomed." In that statement, which occurs +in the great Hippocratic treatise "On the Joints," we have the classic +expression of the doctrine which in ever varying forms has been taught by +all those who have protested against sexual abstinence. When we come down +to the sixteenth century outbreak of Protestantism we find that Luther's +revolt against Catholicism was in part a protest against the teaching of +sexual abstinence. "He to whom the gift of continence is not given," he +said in his <i>Table Talk</i>, "will not become chaste by fasting and vigils. +For my own part I was not excessively tormented [though elsewhere he +speaks of the great fires of lust by which he had been troubled], but all +the same the more I macerated myself the more I burnt." And three hundred +years later, Bebel, the would-be nineteenth century Luther of a different +Protestantism, took the same attitude towards sexual abstinence, while +Hinton the physician and philosopher, living in a land of rigid sexual +conventionalism and prudery, and moved by keen sympathy for the sufferings +he saw around him, would break into passionate sarcasm when confronted by +the doctrine of sexual abstinence. "There are innumerable ills—terrible +destructions, madness even, the ruin of lives—for which the embrace of +man and woman would be a remedy. No one thinks of <a name='6_Page_182'></a>questioning it. +Terrible evils and a remedy in a delight and joy! And man has chosen so to +muddle his life that he must say: 'There, that would be a remedy, but I +cannot use it. I <i>must be virtuous!</i>'"</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>If we confine ourselves to modern times and to fairly precise + medical statements, we find in Schurig's <i>Spermatologia</i> (1720, + pp. 274 <i>et seq.</i>), not only a discussion of the advantages of + moderate sexual intercourse in a number of disorders, as + witnessed by famous authorities, but also a list of + results—including anorexia, insanity, impotence, epilepsy, even + death—which were believed to have been due to sexual abstinence. + This extreme view of the possible evils of sexual abstinence + seems to have been part of the Renaissance traditions of medicine + stiffened by a certain opposition between religion and science. + It was still rigorously stated by Lallemand early in the + nineteenth century. Subsequently, the medical statements of the + evil results of sexual abstinence became more temperate and + measured, though still often pronounced. Thus Gyurkovechky + believes that these results may be as serious as those of sexual + excess. Krafft-Ebing showed that sexual abstinence could produce + a state of general nervous excitement (<i>Jahrbuch für + Psychiatrie</i>, Bd. viii, Heft 1 and 2). Schrenck-Notzing regards + sexual abstinence as a cause of extreme sexual hyperæsthesia and + of various perversions (in a chapter on sexual abstinence in his + <i>Kriminalpsychologische und Psychopathologische Studien</i>, 1902, + pp. 174-178). He records in illustration the case of a man of + thirty-six who had masturbated in moderation as a boy, but + abandoned the practice entirely, on moral grounds, twenty years + ago, and has never had sexual intercourse, feeling proud to enter + marriage a chaste man, but now for years has suffered greatly + from extreme sexual hyperæsthesia and concentration of thought on + sexual subjects, notwithstanding a strong will and the resolve + not to masturbate or indulge in illicit intercourse. In another + case a vigorous and healthy man, not inverted, and with strong + sexual desires, who remained abstinent up to marriage, suffers + from psychic impotence, and his wife remains a virgin + notwithstanding all her affection and caresses. Ord considered + that sexual abstinence might produce many minor evils. "Most of + us," he wrote (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, Aug. 2, 1884) "have, no + doubt, been consulted by men, chaste in act, who are tormented by + sexual excitement. They tell one stories of long-continued local + excitement, followed by intense muscular weariness, or by severe + aching pain in the back and legs. In some I have had complaints + of swelling and stiffness in the legs, and of pains in the + joints, particularly in the knees;" he gives the case of a man + who suffered after prolonged chastity from inflammatory + conditions of knees and was only cured by marriage.<a name='6_Page_183'></a> Pearce + Gould, it may be added, finds that "excessive ungratified sexual + desire" is one of the causes of acute orchitis. Remondino ("Some + Observations on Continence as a Factor in Health and Disease," + <i>Pacific Medical Journal</i>, Jan., 1900) records the case of a + gentleman of nearly seventy who, during the prolonged illness of + his wife, suffered from frequent and extreme priapism, causing + insomnia. He was very certain that his troubles were not due to + his continence, but all treatment failed and there were no + spontaneous emissions. At last Remondino advised him to, as he + expresses it, "imitate Solomon." He did so, and all the symptoms + at once disappeared. This case is of special interest, because + the symptoms were not accompanied by any conscious sexual desire. + It is no longer generally believed that sexual abstinence tends + to produce insanity, and the occasional cases in which prolonged + and intense sexual desire in young women is followed by insanity + will usually be found to occur on a basis of hereditary + degeneration. It is held by many authorities, however, that minor + mental troubles, of a more or less vague character, as well as + neurasthenia and hysteria, are by no means infrequently due to + sexual abstinence. Thus Freud, who has carefully studied + angstneurosis, the obsession of anxiety, finds that it is a + result of sexual abstinence, and may indeed be considered as a + vicarious form of such abstinence (Freud, <i>Sammlung Kleiner + Schriften zur Neurosenlehre</i>, 1906, pp. 76 <i>et seq.</i>).</p> + +<p> The whole subject of sexual abstinence has been discussed at + length by Nyström, of Stockholm, in <i>Das Geschlechtsleben und + seine Gesetze</i>, Ch. III. He concludes that it is desirable that + continence should be preserved as long as possible in order to + strengthen the physical health and to develop the intelligence + and character. The doctrine of permanent sexual abstinence, + however, he regards as entirely false, except in the case of a + small number of religious or philosophic persons. "Complete + abstinence during a long period of years cannot be borne without + producing serious results both on the body and the mind.... + Certainly, a young man should repress his sexual impulses as long + as possible and avoid everything that may artificially act as a + sexual stimulant. If, however, he has done so, and still suffers + from unsatisfied normal sexual desires, and if he sees no + possibility of marriage within a reasonable time, no one should + dare to say that he is committing a sin if, with mutual + understanding, he enters into sexual relations with a woman + friend, or forms temporary sexual relationships, provided, that + is, that he takes the honorable precaution of begetting no + children, unless his partner is entirely willing to become a + mother, and he is prepared to accept all the responsibilities of + fatherhood." In an article of later date ("Die Einwirkung der + Sexuellen Abstinenz auf die Gesundheit," <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, July, + 1908) Nyström vigorously sums up his views. He includes among the + results of sexual abstinence orchitis, <a name='6_Page_184'></a>frequent involuntary + seminal emissions, impotence, neurasthenia, depression, and a + great variety of nervous disturbances of vaguer character, + involving diminished power of work, limited enjoyment of life, + sleeplessness, nervousness, and pre-occupation with sexual desires + and imaginations. More especially there is heightened sexual + irritability with erections, or even seminal emissions on the + slightest occasion, as on gazing at an attractive woman or in + social intercourse with her, or in the presence of works of art + representing naked figures. Nyström has had the opportunity of + investigating and recording ninety cases of persons who have + presented these and similar symptoms as the result, he believes, + of sexual abstinence. He has published some of these cases + (<i>Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft</i>, Oct., 1908), but it may be + added that Rohleder ("Die Abstinentia Sexualis," <i>ib.</i>, Nov., + 1908) has criticized these cases, and doubts whether any of them + are conclusive. Rohleder believes that the bad results of sexual + abstinence are never permanent, and also that no anatomically + pathological states (such as orchitis) can be thereby produced. + But he considers, nevertheless, that even incomplete and + temporary sexual abstinence may produce fairly serious results, + and especially neurasthenic disturbances of various kinds, such + as nervous irritability, anxiety, depression, disinclination for + work; also diurnal emissions, premature ejaculations, and even a + state approaching satyriasis; and in women hysteria, + hystero-epilepsy, and nymphomaniacal manifestations; all these + symptoms may, however, he believes, be cured when the abstinence + ceases.</p> + +<p> Many advocates of sexual abstinence have attached importance to + the fact that men of great genius have apparently been completely + continent throughout life. This is certainly true (see <i>ante</i>, p. + 173). But this fact can scarcely be invoked as an argument in + favor of the advantages of sexual abstinence among the ordinary + population. J. F. Scott selects Jesus, Newton, Beethoven, and Kant + as "men of vigor and mental acumen who have lived chastely as + bachelors." It cannot, however, be said that Dr. Scott has been + happy in the four figures whom he has been able to select from + the whole history of human genius as examples of life-long sexual + abstinence. We know little with absolute certainty of Jesus, and + even if we reject the diagnosis which Professor Binet-Sanglé (in + his <i>Folie de Jesus</i>) has built up from a minute study of the + Gospels, there are many reasons why we should refrain from + emphasizing the example of his sexual abstinence; Newton, apart + from his stupendous genius in a special field, was an incomplete + and unsatisfactory human being who ultimately reached a condition + very like insanity; Beethoven was a thoroughly morbid and + diseased man, who led an intensely unhappy existence; Kant, from + first to last, was a feeble valetudinarian. It would probably be + difficult to find a healthy normal man who would voluntarily + accept the life led by any of these four, even as the price <a name='6_Page_185'></a>of + their fame. J. A. Godfrey (<i>Science of Sex</i>, pp. 139-147) + discusses at length the question whether sexual abstinence is + favorable to ordinary intellectual vigor, deciding that it is + not, and that we cannot argue from the occasional sexual + abstinence of men of genius, who are often abnormally + constituted, and physically below the average, to the normally + developed man. Sexual abstinence, it may be added, is by no means + always a favorable sign, even in men who stand intellectually + above the average. "I have not obtained the impression," remarks + Freud (<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, March, 1908), "that sexual abstinence + is helpful to energetic and independent men of action or original + thinkers, to courageous liberators or reformers. The sexual + conduct of a man is often symbolic of his whole method of + reaction in the world. The man who energetically grasps the + object of his sexual desire may be trusted to show a similarly + relentless energy in the pursuit of other aims."</p></div> + +<p>Many, though not all, who deny that prolonged sexual abstinence is +harmless, include women in this statement. There are some authorities +indeed who believe that, whether or not any conscious sexual desire is +present, sexual abstinence is less easily tolerated by women than by +men.<a name='6_FNanchor_94'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_94'><sup>[94]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Cabanis, in his famous and pioneering work, <i>Rapports du Physique + et du Moral</i>, said in 1802, that women not only bear sexual + excess more easily than men, but sexual privations with more + difficulty, and a cautious and experienced observer of to-day, + Löwenfeld (<i>Sexualleben und Nervenleiden</i>, 1899, p. 53), while + not considering that normal women bear sexual abstinence less + easily than men, adds that this is not the case with women of + neuropathic disposition, who suffer much more from this cause, + and either masturbate when sexual intercourse is impossible or + fall into hystero-neurasthenic states. Busch stated (<i>Das + Geschlechtsleben des Weibes</i>, 1839, vol. i, pp. 69, 71) that not + only is the working of the sexual functions in the organism + stronger in women than in men, but that the bad results of sexual + abstinence are more marked in women. Sir Benjamin Brodie said + long ago that the evils of continence to women are perhaps + greater than those of incontinence, and to-day Hammer (<i>Die + Gesundheitlichen Gefahren der Geschlechtlichen Enthaltsamkeit</i>, + 1904) states that, so far as reasons of health are concerned, + sexual abstinence is no more to be recommended to women than to + men. Nyström is of the same opinion, though he thinks that women + bear sexual abstinence better than men, and has discussed this + special question at length in a section of his <i>Geschlechtsleben + und seine Gesetze</i>. He agrees with the <a name='6_Page_186'></a>experienced Erb that a + large number of completely chaste women of high character, and + possessing distinguished qualities of mind and heart, are more or + less disordered through their sexual abstinence; this is + specially often the case with women married to impotent men, + though it is frequently not until they approach the age of + thirty, Nyström remarks, that women definitely realize their + sexual needs.</p> + +<p> A great many women who are healthy, chaste, and modest, feel at + times such powerful sexual desire that they can scarcely resist + the temptation to go into the street and solicit the first man + they meet. Not a few such women, often of good breeding, do + actually offer themselves to men with whom they may have perhaps + only the slightest acquaintance. Routh records such cases + (<i>British Gynæcological Journal</i>, Feb., 1887), and most men have + met with them at some time. When a woman of high moral character + and strong passions is subjected for a very long period to the + perpetual strain of such sexual craving, especially if combined + with love for a definite individual, a chain of evil results, + physical and moral, may be set up, and numerous distinguished + physicians have recorded such cases, which terminated at once in + complete recovery as soon as the passion was gratified. Lauvergne + long since described a case. A fairly typical case of this kind + was reported in detail by Brachet (<i>De l'Hypochondrie</i>, p. 69) + and embodied by Griesinger in his classic work on "Mental + Pathology." It concerned a healthy married lady, twenty-six years + old, having three children. A visiting acquaintance completely + gained her affections, but she strenuously resisted the seducing + influence, and concealed the violent passion that he had aroused + in her. Various serious symptoms, physical and mental, slowly + began to appear, and she developed what seemed to be signs of + consumption. Six months' stay in the south of France produced no + improvement, either in the bodily or mental symptoms. On + returning home she became still worse. Then she again met the + object of her passion, succumbed, abandoned her husband and + children, and fled with him. Six months later she was scarcely + recognizable; beauty, freshness and plumpness had taken the place + of emaciation; while the symptoms of consumption and all other + troubles had entirely disappeared. A somewhat similar case is + recorded by Camill Lederer, of Vienna (<i>Monatsschrift für + Harnkrankheiten und Sexuelle Hygiene</i>, 1906, Heft 3). A widow, a + few months after her husband's death, began to cough, with + symptoms of bronchial catarrh, but no definite signs of lung + disease. Treatment and change of climate proved entirely + unavailing to effect a cure. Two years later, as no signs of + disease had appeared in the lungs, though the symptoms continued, + she married again. Within a very few weeks all symptoms had + disappeared, and she was entirely fresh and well.</p> + +<p> Numerous distinguished gynæcologists have recorded their belief + <a name='6_Page_187'></a>that sexual excitement is a remedy for various disorders of the + sexual system in women, and that abstinence is a cause of such + disorders. Matthews Duncan said that sexual excitement is the + only remedy for amenorrhœa; "the only emmenagogue + medicine that I know of," he wrote (<i>Medical Times</i>, Feb. 2, + 1884), "is not to be found in the Pharmacopœia: it is + erotic excitement. Of the value of erotic excitement there is no + doubt." Anstie, in his work on <i>Neuralgia</i>, refers to the + beneficial effect of sexual intercourse on dysmenorrhœa, + remarking that the necessity of the full natural exercise of the + sexual function is shown by the great improvement in such cases + after marriage, and especially after childbirth. (It may be + remarked that not all authorities find dysmenorrhœa + benefited by marriage, and some consider that the disease is + often thereby aggravated; see, <i>e.g.</i>, Wythe Cook, <i>American + Journal Obstetrics</i>, Dec., 1893.) The distinguished gynæcologist, + Tilt, at a somewhat earlier date (<i>On Uterine and Ovarian + Inflammation</i>, 1862, p. 309), insisted on the evil results of + sexual abstinence in producing ovarian irritation, and perhaps + subacute ovaritis, remarking that this was specially pronounced + in young widows, and in prostitutes placed in penitentiaries. + Intense desire, he pointed out, determines organic movements + resembling those required for the gratification of the desire. + These burning desires, which can only be quenched by their + legitimate satisfaction, are still further heightened by the + erotic influence of thoughts, books, pictures, music, which are + often even more sexually stimulating than social intercourse with + men, but the excitement thus produced is not relieved by that + natural collapse which should follow a state of vital + turgescence. After referring to the biological facts which show + the effect of psychic influences on the formative powers of the + ovario-uterine organs in animals, Tilt continues: "I may fairly + infer that similar incitements on the mind of females may have a + stimulating effect on the organs of ovulation. I have frequently + known menstruation to be irregular, profuse, or abnormal in type + during courtship in women in whom nothing similar had previously + occurred, and that this protracted the treatment of chronic + ovaritis and of uterine inflammation." Bonnifield, of Cincinnati + (<i>Medical Standard</i>, Dec., 1896), considers that unsatisfied + sexual desire is an important cause of catarrhal endometritis. It + is well known that uterine fibroids bear a definite relation to + organic sexual activity, and that sexual abstinence, more + especially the long-continued deprivation of pregnancy, is a very + important cause of the disease. This is well shown by an analysis + by A. E. Giles (<i>Lancet</i>, March 2, 1907) of one hundred and fifty + cases. As many as fifty-six of these cases, more than a third, + were unmarried women, though nearly all were over thirty years of + age. Of the ninety-four married women, thirty-four had never been + pregnant; of those who had been pregnant, thirty-six had not been + so for at least ten years. Thus eighty-four per <a name='6_Page_188'></a>cent, had either + not been pregnant at all, or had had no pregnancy for at least + ten years. It is, therefore, evident that deprivation of sexual + function, whether or not involving abstinence from sexual + intercourse, is an important cause of uterine fibroid tumors. + Balls-Headley, of Victoria (<i>Evolution of the Diseases of Women</i>, + 1894, and "Etiology of Diseases of Female Genital Organs," + Allbutt and Playfair, <i>System of Gynæcology</i>,) believes that + unsatisfied sexual desire is a factor in very many disorders of + the sexual organs in women. "My views," he writes in a private + letter, "are founded on a really special gynæcological practice + of twenty years, during which I have myself taken about seven + thousand most careful records. The normal woman is sexually + well-formed and her sexual feelings require satisfaction in the + direction of the production of the next generation, but under the + restrictive and now especially abnormal conditions of + civilization some women undergo hereditary atrophy, and the + uterus and sexual feelings are feeble; in others of good average + local development the feeling is in restraint; in others the + feelings, as well as the organs, are strong, and if normal use be + withheld evils ensue. Bearing in mind these varieties of + congenital development in relation to the respective condition of + virginity, or sterile or parous married life, the mode of + occurrence and of progress of disease grows on the physician's + mind, and there is no more occasion for bewilderment than to the + mathematician studying conic sections, when his knowledge has + grown from the basis of the science. The problem is suggested: + Has a crowd of unassociated diseases fallen as through a sieve on + woman, or have these affections almost necessarily ensued from + the circumstances of her unnatural environment?" It may be added + that Kisch (<i>Sexual Life of Woman</i>), while protesting against any + exaggerated estimate of the effects of sexual abstinence, + considers that in women it may result, not only in numerous local + disorders, but also in nervous disturbance, hysteria, and even + insanity, while in neurasthenic women "regulated sexual + intercourse has an actively beneficial effect which is often + striking."</p> + +<p> It is important to remark that the evil results of sexual + abstinence in women, in the opinion of many of those who insist + upon their importance, are by no means merely due to unsatisfied + sexual desire. They may be pronounced even when the woman herself + has not the slightest consciousness of sexual needs. This was + clearly pointed out forty years ago by the sagacious Anstie (<i>op. + cit.</i>) In women, especially, he remarks, "a certain restless + hyperactivity of mind, and perhaps of body also, seems to be the + expression of Nature's unconscious resentment of the <i>neglect of + sexual functions</i>." Such women, he adds, have kept themselves + free from masturbation "at the expense of a perpetual and almost + fierce activity of mind and muscle." Anstie had found that some + of the worst cases of the form of nervosity and neurasthenia + which he termed<a name='6_Page_189'></a> "spinal irritation," often accompanied by + irritable stomach and anæmia, get well on marriage. "There can be + no question," he continues, "that a very large proportion of + these cases in single women (who form by far the greater number + of subjects of spinal irritation) are due to this conscious or + unconscious irritation kept up by an unsatisfied sexual want. It + is certain that very many young persons (women more especially) + are tormented by the irritability of the sexual organs without + having the least consciousness of sexual desire, and present the + sad spectacle of a <i>vie manquée</i> without ever knowing the true + source of the misery which incapacitates them for all the active + duties of life. It is a singular fact that in occasional + instances one may even see two sisters, inheriting the same kind + of nervous organization, both tormented with the symptoms of + spinal irritation and both probably suffering from repressed + sexual functions, but of whom one shall be pure-minded and + entirely unconscious of the real source of her troubles, while + the other is a victim to conscious and fruitless sexual + irritation." In this matter Anstie may be regarded as a + forerunner of Freud, who has developed with great subtlety and + analytic power the doctrine of the transformation of repressed + sexual instinct in women into morbid forms. He considers that the + nervosity of to-day is largely due to the injurious action on the + sexual life of that repression of natural instincts on which our + civilization is built up. (Perhaps the clearest brief statement + of Freud's views on the matter is to be found in a very + suggestive article, "Die 'Kulturelle' Sexualmoral und die Moderne + Nervosität," in <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, March, 1908, reprinted in the + second series of Freud's <i>Sammlung Kleiner Schriften zur + Neurosenlehre</i>, 1909). We possess the aptitude, he says, of + sublimating and transforming our sexual activities into other + activities of a psychically related character, but non-sexual. + This process cannot, however, be carried out to an unlimited + extent any more than can the conversion of heat into mechanical + work in our machines. A certain amount of direct sexual + satisfaction is for most organizations indispensable, and the + renunciation of this individually varying amount is punished by + manifestations which we are compelled to regard as morbid. The + process of sublimation, under the influence of civilization, + leads both to sexual perversions and to psycho-neuroses. These + two conditions are closely related, as Freud views the process of + their development; they stand to each other as positive and + negative, sexual perversions being the positive pole and + psycho-neuroses the negative. It often happens, he remarks, that + a brother may be sexually perverse, while his sister, with a + weaker sexual temperament, is a neurotic whose symptoms are a + transformation of her brother's perversion; while in many + families the men are immoral, the women pure and refined but + highly nervous. In the case of women who have no defect of sexual + impulse there is yet the same pressure of civilized <a name='6_Page_190'></a>morality + pushing them into neurotic states. It is a terribly serious + injustice, Freud remarks, that the civilized standard of sexual + life is the same for all persons, because though some, by their + organization, may easily accept it, for others it involves the + most difficult psychic sacrifices. The unmarried girl, who has + become nervously weak, cannot be advised to seek relief in + marriage, for she must be strong in order to "bear" marriage, + while we urge a man on no account to marry a girl who is not + strong. The married woman who has experienced the deceptions of + marriage has usually no way of relief left but by abandoning her + virtue. "The more strenuously she has been educated, and the more + completely she has been subjected to the demands of civilization, + the more she fears this way of escape, and in the conflict + between her desires and her sense of duty, she also seeks + refuge—in neurosis. Nothing protects her virtue so surely as + disease." Taking a still wider view of the influence of the + narrow "civilized" conception of sexual morality on women, Freud + finds that it is not limited to the production of neurotic + conditions; it affects the whole intellectual aptitude of women. + Their education denies them any occupation with sexual problems, + although such problems are so full of interest to them, for it + inculcates the ancient prejudice that any curiosity in such + matters is unwomanly and a proof of wicked inclinations. They are + thus terrified from thinking, and knowledge is deprived of worth. + The prohibition to think extends, automatically and inevitably, + far beyond the sexual sphere. "I do not believe," Freud + concludes, "that there is any opposition between intellectual + work and sexual activity such as was supposed by Möbius. I am of + opinion that the unquestionable fact of the intellectual + inferiority of so many women is due to the inhibition of thought + imposed upon them for the purpose of sexual repression."</p> + +<p> It is only of recent years that this problem has been realized + and faced, though solitary thinkers, like Hinton, have been + keenly conscious of its existence; for "sorrowing virtue," as + Mrs. Ella Wheeler Wilcox puts it, "is more ashamed of its woes + than unhappy sin, because the world has tears for the latter and + only ridicule for the former." "It is an almost cynical trait of + our age," Hellpach wrote a few years ago, "that it is constantly + discussing the theme of prostitution, of police control, of the + age of consent, of the 'white slavery,' and passes over the moral + struggle of woman's soul without an attempt to answer her burning + questions."</p></div> + +<p>On the other hand we find medical writers not only asserting with much +moral fervor that sexual intercourse outside marriage is always and +altogether unnecessary, but declaring, moreover, the harmlessness or even +the advantages of sexual abstinence.</p><a name='6_Page_191'></a> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Ribbing, the Swedish professor, in his <i>Hygiène Sexuelle</i>, + advocates sexual abstinence outside marriage, and asserts its + harmlessness. Gilles de la Tourette, Féré, and Augagneur in + France agree. In Germany Fürbringer (Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health + and Disease in Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. i, p. 228) asserts + that continence is possible and necessary, though admitting that + it may, however, mean serious mischief in exceptional cases. + Eulenburg (<i>Sexuale Neuropathie</i>, p. 14) doubts whether anyone, + who otherwise lived a reasonable life, ever became ill, or more + precisely neurasthenic, through sexual abstinence. Hegar, + replying to the arguments of Bebel in his well-known book on + women, denies that sexual abstinence can ever produce satyriasis + or nymphomania. Näcke, who has frequently discussed the problem + of sexual abstinence (<i>e.g.</i>, <i>Archiv für + Kriminal-Anthropologie</i>, 1903, Heft 1, and <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, + June, 1908), maintains that sexual abstinence can, at most, + produce rare and slight unfavorable results, and that it is no + more likely to produce insanity, even in predisposed individuals, + than are the opposite extremes of sexual excess and masturbation. + He adds that, so far as his own observations are concerned, the + patients in asylums suffer scarcely at all from their compulsory + sexual abstinence.</p> + +<p> It is in England, however, that the virtues of sexual abstinence + have been most loudly and emphatically proclaimed, sometimes + indeed with considerable lack of cautious qualification. Acton, + in his <i>Reproductive Organs</i>, sets forth the traditional English + view, as well as Beale in his <i>Morality and the Moral Question</i>. + A more distinguished representative of the same view was Paget, + who, in his lecture on "Sexual Hypochondriasis," coupled sexual + intercourse with "theft or lying." Sir William Gowers (<i>Syphilis + and the Nervous System</i>, 1892, p. 126) also proclaims the + advantages of "unbroken chastity," more especially as a method of + avoiding syphilis. He is not hopeful, however, even as regards + his own remedy, for he adds: "We can trace small ground for hope + that the disease will thus be materially reduced." He would + still, however, preach chastity to the individual, and he does so + with all the ascetic ardor of a mediæval monk. "With all the + force that any knowledge I possess, and any authority I have, can + give, I assert that no man ever yet was in the slightest degree + or way the worse for continence or better for incontinence. From + the latter all are worse morally; a clear majority are worse + physically; and in no small number the result is, and ever will + be, utter physical shipwreck on one of the many rocks, sharp, + jagged-edged, which beset the way, or on one of the many beds of + festering slime which no care can possibly avoid." In America the + same view widely prevails, and Dr. J. F. Scott, in his + <i>Sexual-Instinct</i> (second edition, 1908, Ch. III), argues very + vigorously and at great length in favor of sexual abstinence. He + will not even admit that there <a name='6_Page_192'></a>are two sides to the question, + though if that were the case, the length and the energy of his + arguments would be unnecessary.</p> + +<p> Among medical authorities who have discussed the question of + sexual abstinence at length it is not, indeed, usually possible + to find such unqualified opinions in its favor as those I have + quoted. There can be no doubt, however, that a large proportion + of physicians, not excluding prominent and distinguished + authorities, when casually confronted with the question whether + sexual abstinence is harmless, will at once adopt the obvious + path of least resistance and reply: Yes. In only a few cases will + they even make any qualification of this affirmative answer. This + tendency is very well illustrated by an inquiry made by Dr. + Ludwig Jacobsohn, of St. Petersburgh ("Die Sexuelle + Enthaltsamkeit im Lichte der Medizin," <i>St. Petersburger + Medicinische Wochenschrift</i>, March 17, 1907). He wrote to over + two hundred distinguished Russian and German professors of + physiology, neurology, psychiatry, etc., asking them if they + regarded sexual abstinence as harmless. The majority returned no + answer; eleven Russian and twenty-eight Germans replied, but four + of them merely said that "they had no personal experience," etc.; + there thus remained thirty-five. Of these E. Pflüger, of Bonn, + was skeptical of the advantage of any propaganda of abstinence: + "if all the authorities in the world declared the harmlessness of + abstinence that would have no influence on youth. Forces are here + in play that break through all obstacles." The harmlessness of + abstinence was affirmed by Kräpelin, Cramer, Gärtner, Tuczek, + Schottelius, Gaffky, Finkler, Selenew, Lassar, Seifert, Gruber; + the last, however, added that he knew very few abstinent young + men, and himself only considered abstinence good before full + development, and intercourse not dangerous in moderation even + before then. Brieger knew cases of abstinence without harmful + results, but himself thought that no general opinion could be + given. Jürgensen said that abstinence <i>in itself</i> is not harmful, + but that in some cases intercourse exerts a more beneficial + influence. Hoffmann said that abstinence is harmless, adding that + though it certainly leads to masturbation, that is better than + gonorrhœa, to say nothing of syphilis, and is easily + kept within bounds. Strümpell replied that sexual abstinence is + harmless, and indirectly useful as preserving from the risk of + venereal disease, but that sexual intercourse, being normal, is + always more desirable. Hensen said that abstinence is not to be + unconditionally approved. Rumpf replied that abstinence was not + harmful for most before the age of thirty, but after that age + there was a tendency to mental obsessions, and marriage should + take place at twenty-five. Leyden also considered abstinence + harmless until towards thirty, when it leads to psychic + anomalies, especially states of anxiety, and a certain + affectation. Hein replied that abstinence is harmless for most, + but in some leads to hysterical manifestations and indirectly to + <a name='6_Page_193'></a>bad results from masturbation, while for the normal man + abstinence cannot be directly beneficial, since intercourse is + natural. Grützner thought that abstinence is almost never + harmful. Nescheda said it is harmless in itself, but harmful in + so far as it leads to unnatural modes of gratification. Neisser + believes that more prolonged abstinence than is now usual would + be beneficial, but admitted the sexual excitations of our + civilization; he added that of course he saw no harm for healthy + men in intercourse. Hoche replied that abstinence is quite + harmless in normal persons, but not always so in abnormal + persons. Weber thought it had a useful influence in increasing + will-power. Tarnowsky said it is good in early manhood, but + likely to be unfavorable after twenty-five. Orlow replied that, + especially in youth, it is harmless, and a man should be as + chaste as his wife. Popow said that abstinence is good at all + ages and preserves the energy. Blumenau said that in adult age + abstinence is neither normal nor beneficial, and generally leads + to masturbation, though not generally to nervous disorders; but + that even masturbation is better than syphilis. Tschiriew saw no + harm in abstinence up to thirty, and thought sexual weakness more + likely to follow excess than abstinence. Tschish regarded + abstinence as beneficial rather than harmful up to twenty-five or + twenty-eight, but thought it difficult to decide after that age + when nervous alterations seem to be caused. Darkschewitcz + regarded abstinence as harmless up to twenty-five. Fränkel said + it was harmless for most, but that for a considerable proportion + of people intercourse is a necessity. Erb's opinion is regarded + by Jacobsohn as standing alone; he placed the age below which + abstinence is harmless at twenty; after that age he regarded it + as injurious to health, seriously impeding work and capacity, + while in neurotic persons it leads to still more serious results. + Jacobsohn concludes that the general opinion of those answering + the inquiry may thus be expressed: "Youth should be abstinent. + Abstinence can in no way injure them; on the contrary, it is + beneficial. If our young people will remain abstinent and avoid + extra-conjugal intercourse they will maintain a high ideal of + love and preserve themselves from venereal diseases."</p> + +<p> The harmlessness of sexual abstinence was likewise affirmed in + America in a resolution passed by the American Medical + Association in 1906. The proposition thus formally accepted was + thus worded: "Continence is not incompatible with health." It + ought to be generally realized that abstract propositions of this + kind are worthless, because they mean nothing. Every sane person, + when confronted by the demand to boldly affirm or deny the + proposition, "Continence is not incompatible with health," is + bound to affirm it. He might firmly believe that continence is + incompatible with the health of most people, and that prolonged + continence is incompatible with anyone's health, and yet, if he + is to be honest in the use of language, it would be impossible + for him <a name='6_Page_194'></a>to deny the vague and abstract proposition that + "Continence is not incompatible with health." Such propositions + are therefore not only without value, but actually misleading.</p> + +<p> It is obvious that the more extreme and unqualified opinions in + favor of sexual abstinence are based not on medical, but on what + the writers regard as moral considerations. Moreover, as the same + writers are usually equally emphatic in regard to the advantages + of sexual intercourse in marriage, it is clear that they have + committed themselves to a contradiction. The same act, as Näcke + rightly points out, cannot become good or bad according as it is + performed in or out of marriage. There is no magic efficacy in a + few words pronounced by a priest or a government official.</p> + +<p> Remondino (<i>loc. cit.</i>) remarks that the authorities who have + committed themselves to declarations in favor of the + unconditional advantages of sexual abstinence tend to fall into + three errors: (1) they generalize unduly, instead of considering + each case individually, on its own merits; (2) they fail to + realize that human nature is influenced by highly mixed and + complex motives and cannot be assumed to be amenable only to + motives of abstract morality; (3) they ignore the great army of + masturbators and sexual perverts who make no complaint of sexual + suffering, but by maintaining a rigid sexual abstinence, so far + as normal relationships are concerned, gradually drift into + currents whence there is no return.</p></div> + +<p>Between those who unconditionally affirm or deny the harmlessness of +sexual abstinence we find an intermediate party of authorities whose +opinions are more qualified. Many of those who occupy this more guarded +position are men whose opinions carry much weight, and it is probable that +with them rather than with the more extreme advocates on either side the +greater measure of reason lies. So complex a question as this cannot be +adequately investigated merely in the abstract, and settled by an +unqualified negative or affirmative. It is a matter in which every case +requires its own special and personal consideration.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"Where there is such a marked opposition of opinion truth is not + exclusively on one side," remarks Löwenfeld (<i>Sexualleben und + Nervenleiden</i>, second edition, p. 40). Sexual abstinence is + certainly often injurious to neuropathic persons. (This is now + believed by a large number of authorities, and was perhaps first + decisively stated by Krafft-Ebing, "Ueber Neurosen durch + Abstinenz," <i>Jahrbuch für Psychiatrie</i>, 1889, p. 1). Löwenfeld + finds no special proclivity to neurasthenia <a name='6_Page_195'></a>among the Catholic + clergy, and when it does occur, there is no reason to suppose a + sexual causation. "In healthy and not hereditarily neuropathic + men complete abstinence is possible without injury to the nervous + system." Injurious effects, he continues, when they appear, + seldom occur until between twenty-four and thirty-six years of + age, and even then are not usually serious enough to lead to a + visit to a doctor, consisting mainly in frequency of nocturnal + emissions, pain in testes or rectum, hyperæsthesia in the + presence of women or of sexual ideas. If, however, conditions + arise which specially stimulate the sexual emotions, neurasthenia + may be produced. Löwenfeld agrees with Freud and Gattel that the + neurosis of anxiety tends to occur in the abstinent, careful + examination showing that the abstinence is a factor in its + production in both sexes. It is common among young women married + to much older men, often appearing during the first years of + marriage. Under special circumstances, therefore, abstinence can + be injurious, but on the whole the difficulties due to such + abstinence are not severe, and they only exceptionally call forth + actual disturbance in the nervous or psychic spheres. Moll takes + a similar temperate and discriminating view. He regards sexual + abstinence before marriage as the ideal, but points out that we + must avoid any doctrinal extremes in preaching sexual abstinence, + for such preaching will merely lead to hypocrisy. Intercourse + with prostitutes, and the tendency to change a woman like a + garment, induce loss of sensitiveness to the spiritual and + personal element in woman, while the dangers of sexual abstinence + must no more be exaggerated than the dangers of sexual + intercourse (Moll, <i>Libido Sexualis</i>, 1898, vol. i, p. 848; + <i>id.</i>, <i>Konträre Sexualempfindung</i>, 1899, p. 588). Bloch also (in + a chapter on the question of sexual abstinence in his + <i>Sexualleben unserer Zeit</i>, 1908) takes a similar standpoint. He + advocates abstention during early life and temporary abstention + in adult life, such abstention being valuable, not only for the + conservation and transformation of energy, but also to emphasize + the fact that life contains other matters to strive for beyond + the ends of sex. Redlich (<i>Medizinische Klinik</i>, 1908, No. 7) + also, in a careful study of the medical aspects of the question, + takes an intermediate standpoint in relation to the relative + advantages and disadvantages of sexual abstinence. "We may say + that sexual abstinence is not a condition which must, under all + circumstances and at any price, be avoided, though it is true + that for the majority of healthy adult persons regular sexual + intercourse is advantageous, and sometimes is even to be + recommended."</p> + +<p> It may be added that from the standpoint of Christian religious + morality this same attitude, between the extremes of either + party, recognizing the advantages of sexual abstinence, but not + insisting that they shall be purchased at any price, has also + found representation.<a name='6_Page_196'></a> Thus, in England, an Anglican clergyman, + the Rev. H. Northcote (<i>Christianity and Sex Problems</i>, pp. 58, + 60) deals temperately and sympathetically with the difficulties + of sexual abstinence, and is by no means convinced that such + abstinence is always an unmixed advantage; while in Germany a + Catholic priest, Karl Jentsch (<i>Sexualethik, Sexualjustiz, + Sexualpolizei</i>, 1900) sets himself to oppose the rigorous and + unqualified assertions of Ribbing in favor of sexual abstinence. + Jentsch thus expresses what he conceives ought to be the attitude + of fathers, of public opinion, of the State and the Church + towards the young man in this matter: "Endeavor to be abstinent + until marriage. Many succeed in this. If you can succeed, it is + good. But, if you cannot succeed, it is unnecessary to cast + reproaches on yourself and to regard yourself as a scoundrel or a + lost sinner. Provided that you do not abandon yourself to mere + enjoyment or wantonness, but are content with what is necessary + to restore your peace of mind, self-possession, and cheerful + capacity for work, and also that you observe the precautions + which physicians or experienced friends impress upon you."</p></div> + +<p>When we thus analyze and investigate the the three main streams of expert +opinions in regard to this question of sexual abstinence—the opinions in +favor of it, the opinions in opposition to it, and the opinions which take +an intermediate course—we can scarcely fail to conclude how +unsatisfactory the whole discussion is. The state of "sexual abstinence" +is a completely vague and indefinite state. The indefinite and even +meaningless character of the expression "sexual abstinence" is shown by +the frequency with which those who argue about it assume that it can, may, +or even must, involve masturbation. That fact alone largely deprives it of +value as morality and altogether as abstinence. At this point, indeed, we +reach the most fundamental criticism to which the conception of "sexual +abstinence" lies open. Rohleder, an experienced physician and a recognized +authority on questions of sexual pathology, has submitted the current +views on "sexual abstinence" to a searching criticism in a lengthy and +important paper.<a name='6_FNanchor_95'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_95'><sup>[95]</sup></a> He denies altogether that strict sexual abstinence +exists at all. "Sexual abstinence," he points out, in any strict scenes of +the term, must involve abstinence not merely from sexual intercourse but +from auto-erotic manifestations, from masturbation, <a name='6_Page_197'></a>from homosexual acts, +from all sexually perverse practices. It must further involve a permanent +abstention from indulgence in erotic imaginations and voluptuous reverie. +When, however, it is possible thus to render the whole psychic field a +<i>tabula rasa</i> so far as sexual activity is concerned—and if it fails to +be so constantly and consistently there is no strict sexual +abstinence—then, Rohleder points out, we have to consider whether we are +not in presence of a case of sexual anæsthesia, of <i>anaphrodisia +sexualis</i>. That is a question which is rarely, if ever, faced by those who +discuss sexual abstinence. It is, however, an extremely pertinent +question, because, as Rohleder insists, if sexual anæsthesia exists the +question of sexual abstinence falls to the ground, for we can only +"abstain" from actions that are in our power. Complete sexual anæsthesia +is, however, so rare a state that it may be practically left out of +consideration, and as the sexual impulse, if it exists, must by +physiological necessity sometimes become active in some shape—even if +only, according to Freud's view, by transformation into some morbid +neurotic condition—we reach the conclusion that "sexual abstinence" is +strictly impossible. Rohleder has met with a few cases in which there +seemed to him no escape from the conclusion that sexual abstinence +existed, but in all of these he subsequently found that he was mistaken, +usually owing to the practice of masturbation, which he believes to be +extremely common and very frequently accompanied by a persistent attempt +to deceive the physician concerning its existence. The only kind of +"sexual abstinence" that exists is a partial and temporary abstinence. +Instead of saying, as some say, "Permanent abstinence is unnatural and +cannot exist without physical and mental injury," we ought to say, +Rohleder believes, "Permanent abstinence is unnatural and has never +existed."</p> + +<p>It is impossible not to feel as we contemplate this chaotic mass of +opinions, that the whole discussion is revolving round a purely negative +idea, and that fundamental fact is responsible for what at first seem to +be startling conflicts of statement. If indeed we were to eliminate what +is commonly regarded as the religious and moral aspect of the matter—an +aspect, be it <a name='6_Page_198'></a>remembered, which has no bearing on the essential natural +facts of the question—we cannot fail to perceive that these ostentatious +differences of conviction would be reduced within very narrow and trifling +limits.</p> + +<p>We cannot strictly coordinate the impulse of reproduction with the impulse +of nutrition. There are very important differences between them, more +especially the fundamental difference that while the satisfaction of the +one impulse is absolutely necessary both to the life of the individual and +of the race, the satisfaction of the other is absolutely necessary only to +the life of the race. But when we reduce this question to one of "sexual +abstinence" we are obviously placing it on the same basis as that of +abstinence from food, that is to say at the very opposite pole to which we +place it when (as in the previous chapter) we consider it from the point +of view of asceticism and chastity. It thus comes about that on this +negative basis there really is an interesting analogy between nutritive +abstinence, though necessarily only maintained incompletely and for a +short time, and sexual abstinence, maintained more completely and for a +longer time. A patient of Janet's seems to bring out clearly this +resemblance. Nadia, whom Janet was able to study during five years, was a +young woman of twenty-seven, healthy and intelligent, not suffering from +hysteria nor from anorexia, for she had a normal appetite. But she had an +idea; she was anxious to be slim and to attain this end she cut down her +meals to the smallest size, merely a little soup and a few eggs. She +suffered much from the abstinence she thus imposed on herself, and was +always hungry, though sometimes her hunger was masked by the inevitable +stomach trouble caused by so long a persistence in this <i>régime</i>. At +times, indeed, she had been so hungry that she had devoured greedily +whatever she could lay her hands on, and not infrequently she could not +resist the temptation to eat a few biscuits in secret. Such actions caused +her horrible remorse, but, all the same, she would be guilty of them +again. She realized the great efforts demanded by her way of life, and +indeed looked upon herself as a heroine for resisting so long. +"Sometimes," she told Janet, "I passed whole hours in thinking about food, +I was so <a name='6_Page_199'></a>hungry. I swallowed my saliva, I bit my handkerchief, I rolled +on the ground, I wanted to eat so badly. I searched books for descriptions +of meals and feasts, I tried to deceive my hunger by imagining that I too +was enjoying all these good things. I was really famished, and in spite of +a few weaknesses for biscuits I know that I showed much courage."<a name='6_FNanchor_96'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_96'><sup>[96]</sup></a> +Nadia's motive idea, that she wished to be slim, corresponds to the +abstinent man's idea that he wishes to be "moral," and only differs from +it by having the advantage of being somewhat more positive and personal, +for the idea of the person who wishes to avoid sexual indulgence because +it is "not right" is often not merely negative but impersonal and imposed +by the social and religious environment. Nadia's occasional outbursts of +reckless greediness correspond to the sudden impulses to resort to +prostitution, and her secret weaknesses for biscuits, followed by keen +remorse, to lapses into the habit of masturbation. Her fits of struggling +and rolling on the ground are precisely like the outbursts of futile +desire which occasionally occur to young abstinent men and women in health +and strength. The absorption in thoughts about meals and in literary +descriptions of meals is clearly analogous to the abstinent man's +absorption in wanton thoughts and erotic books. Finally, Nadia's +conviction that she is a heroine corresponds exactly to the attitude of +self-righteousness which often marks the sexually abstinent.</p> + +<p>If we turn to Freud's penetrating and suggestive study of the problem of +sexual abstinence in relation to "civilized" sexual morality, we find +that, though he makes no reference to the analogy with abstinence from +food, his words would for the most part have an equal application to both +cases. "The task of subduing so powerful an instinct as the sexual +impulse, otherwise than by giving it satisfaction," he writes, "is one +which may employ the whole strength of a man. Subjugation through +sublimation, by guiding the sexual forces into higher civilizational +paths, may succeed with a minority, and even with these only for a time, +least easily during the years of ardent youthful energy.<a name='6_Page_200'></a> Most others +become neurotic or otherwise come to grief. Experience shows that the +majority of people constituting our society are constitutionally unequal +to the task of abstinence. We say, indeed, that the struggle with this +powerful impulse and the emphasis the struggle involves on the ethical and +æsthetic forces in the soul's life 'steels' the character, and for a few +favorably organized natures this is true; it must also be acknowledged +that the differentiation of individual character so marked in our time +only becomes possible through sexual limitations. But in by far the +majority of cases the struggle with sensuality uses up the available +energy of character, and this at the very time when the young man needs +all his strength in order to win his place in the world."<a name='6_FNanchor_97'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_97'><sup>[97]</sup></a></p> + +<p>When we have put the problem on this negative basis of abstinence it is +difficult to see how we can dispute the justice of Freud's conclusions. +They hold good equally for abstinence from food and abstinence from sexual +love. When we have placed the problem on a more positive basis, and are +able to invoke the more active and fruitful motives of asceticism and +chastity this unfortunate fight against a natural impulse is abolished. If +chastity is an ideal of the harmonious play of all the organic impulses of +the soul and body, if asceticism, properly understood, is the athletic +striving for a worthy object which causes, for the time, an indifference +to the gratification of sexual impulses, we are on wholesome and natural +ground, and there is no waste of energy in fruitless striving for a +negative end, whether imposed artificially from without, as it usually is, +or voluntarily chosen by the individual himself.</p><a name='6_Page_201'></a> + +<p>For there is really no complete analogy between sexual desire and hunger, +between abstinence from sexual relations and abstinence from food. When we +put them both on the basis of abstinence we put them on a basis which +covers the impulse for food but only half covers the impulse for sexual +love. We confer no pleasure and no service on our food when we eat it. But +the half of sexual love, perhaps the most important and ennobling half, +lies in what we give and not in what we take. To reduce this question to +the low level of abstinence, is not only to centre it in a merely negative +denial but to make it a solely self-regarding question. Instead of asking: +How can I bring joy and strength to another? we only ask: How can I +preserve my empty virtue?</p> + +<p>Therefore it is that from whatever aspect we consider the +question,—whether in view of the flagrant contradiction between the +authorities who have discussed this question, or of the illegitimate +mingling here of moral and physiological considerations, or of the merely +negative and indeed unnatural character of the "virtue" thus set up, or of +the failure involved to grasp the ennoblingly altruistic and mutual side +of sexual love,—from whatever aspect we approach the problem of "sexual +abstinence" we ought only to agree to do so under protest.</p> + +<p>If we thus decide to approach it, and if we have reached the +conviction—which, in view of all the evidence we can scarcely +escape—that, while sexual abstinence in so far as it may be recognized as +possible is not incompatible with health, there are yet many adults for +whom it is harmful, and a very much larger number for whom when prolonged +it is undesirable, we encounter a serious problem. It is a problem which +confronts any person, and especially the physician, who may be called upon +to give professional advice to his fellows on this matter. If sexual +relationships are sometimes desirable for unmarried persons, or for +married persons who, for any reason, are debarred from conjugal union, is +a physician justified in recommending such sexual relationships to his +patient? This is a question that has frequently been debated and decided +in opposing senses.</p><a name='6_Page_202'></a> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Various distinguished physicians, especially in Germany, have + proclaimed the duty of the doctor to recommend sexual intercourse + to his patient whenever he considers it desirable. Gyurkovechky, + for instance, has fully discussed this question, and answered it + in the affirmative. Nyström (<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, July, 1908, p. + 413) states that it is the physician's duty, in some cases of + sexual weakness, when all other methods of treatment have failed, + to recommend sexual intercourse as the best remedy. Dr. Max + Marcuse stands out as a conspicuous advocate of the unconditional + duty of the physician to advocate sexual intercourse in some + cases, both to men and to women, and has on many occasions argued + in this sense (<i>e.g.</i>, <i>Darf der Arzt zum Ausserehelichen + Geschlechtsverkehr raten?</i> 1904). Marcuse is strongly of opinion + that a physician who, allowing himself to be influenced by moral, + sociological, or other considerations, neglects to recommend + sexual intercourse when he considers it desirable for the + patient's health, is unworthy of his profession, and should + either give up medicine or send his patients to other doctors. + This attitude, though not usually so emphatically stated, seems + to be widely accepted. Lederer goes even further when he states + (<i>Monatsschrift für Harnkrankheiten und Sexuelle Hygiene</i>, 1906, + Heft 3) that it is the physician's duty in the case of a woman + who is suffering from her husband's impotence, to advise her to + have intercourse with another man, adding that "whether she does + so with her husband's consent is no affair of the physician's, + for he is not the guardian of morality, but the guardian of + health." The physicians who publicly take this attitude are, + however, a small minority. In England, so far as I am aware, no + physician of eminence has openly proclaimed the duty of the + doctor to advise sexual intercourse outside marriage, although, + it is scarcely necessary to add, in England, as elsewhere, it + happens that doctors, including women doctors, from time to time + privately point out to their unmarried and even married patients, + that sexual intercourse would probably be beneficial.</p> + +<p> The duty of the physician to recommend sexual intercourse has + been denied as emphatically as it has been affirmed. Thus + Eulenburg (<i>Sexuale Neuropathie</i>, p. 43), would by no means + advise extra-conjugal relations to his patient; "such advice is + quite outside the physician's competence." It is, of course, + denied by those who regard sexual abstinence as always harmless, + if not beneficial. But it is also denied by many who consider + that, under some circumstances, sexual intercourse would do good.</p> + +<p> Moll has especially, and on many occasions, discussed the duty of + the physician in relation to the question of advising sexual + intercourse outside marriage (<i>e.g.</i>, in his comprehensive work, + <i>Aerztliche Ethik</i>, 1902; also <i>Zeitschrift für Aerztliche + Fortbildung</i>, 1905, Nos. 12-15;<a name='6_Page_203'></a> <i>Mutterschutz</i>, 1905, Heft 3; + <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, vol. ii, Heft 8). At the outset + Moll had been disposed to assert the right of the physician to + recommend sexual intercourse under some circumstances; "so long + as marriage is unduly delayed and sexual intercourse outside + marriage exists," he wrote (<i>Die Conträre Sexualempfindung</i>, + second edition, p. 287), "so long, I think, we may use such + intercourse therapeutically, provided that the rights of no third + person (husband or wife) are injured." In all his later writings, + however, Moll ranges himself clearly and decisively on the + opposite side. He considers that the physician has no right to + overlook the possible results of his advice in inflicting + venereal disease, or, in the case of a woman, pregnancy, on his + patient, and he believes that these serious results are far more + likely to happen than is always admitted by those who defend the + legitimacy of such advice. Nor will Moll admit that the physician + is entitled to overlook the moral aspects of the question. A + physician may know that a poor man could obtain many things good + for his health by stealing, but he cannot advise him to steal. + Moll takes the case of a Catholic priest who is suffering from + neurasthenia due to sexual abstinence. Even although the + physician feels certain that the priest may be able to avoid all + the risks of disease as well as of publicity, he is not entitled + to urge him to sexual intercourse. He has to remember that in + thus causing a priest to break his vows of chastity he may induce + a mental conflict and a bitter remorse which may lead to the + worst results, even on his patient's physical health. Similar + results, Moll remarks, may follow such advice when given to a + married man or woman, to say nothing of possible divorce + proceedings and accompanying evils.</p> + +<p> Rohleder (<i>Vorlesungen über Geschlechtstrieb und Gesamtes + Geschlechtsleben der Menschen</i>) adopts a somewhat qualified + attitude in this matter. As a general rule he is decidedly + against recommending sexual intercourse outside marriage to those + who are suffering from partial or temporary abstinence (the only + form of abstinence he recognizes), partly on the ground that the + evils of abstinence are not serious or permanent, and partly + because the patient is fairly certain to exercise his own + judgment in the matter. But in some classes of cases he + recommends such intercourse, and notably to bisexual persons, on + the ground that he is thus preserving his patient from the + criminal risks of homosexual practices.</p></div> + +<p>It seems to me that there should be no doubt whatever as to the correct +professional attitude of the physician in relation to this question of +advice concerning sexual intercourse. The physician is never entitled to +advise his patient to adopt sexual <a name='6_Page_204'></a>intercourse outside marriage nor any +method of relief which is commonly regarded as illegitimate. It is said +that the physician has nothing to do with considerations of conventional +morality. If he considers that champagne would be good for a poor patient +he ought to recommend him to take champagne; he is not called upon to +consider whether the patient will beg, borrow, or steal the champagne. +But, after all, even if that be admitted, it must still be said that the +physician knows that the champagne, however obtained, is not likely to be +poisonous. When, however, he prescribes sexual intercourse, with the same +lofty indifference to practical considerations, he has no such knowledge. +In giving such a prescription the physician has in fact not the slightest +knowledge of what he may be prescribing. He may be giving his patient a +venereal disease; he may be giving the anxieties and responsibilities of +an illegitimate child; the prescriber is quite in the dark. He is in the +same position as if he had prescribed a quack medicine of which the +composition was unknown to him, with the added disadvantage that the +medicine may turn out to be far more potently explosive than is the case +with the usually innocuous patent medicine. The utmost that a physician +can properly permit himself to do is to put the case impartially before +his patient and to present to him all the risks. The solution must be for +the patient himself to work out, as best he can, for it involves social +and other considerations which, while they are indeed by no means outside +the sphere of medicine, are certainly entirely outside the control of the +individual private practitioner of medicine.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Moll also is of opinion that this impartial presentation of the + case for and against sexual intercourse corresponds to the + physician's duty in the matter. It is, indeed, a duty which can + scarcely be escaped by the physician in many cases. Moll points + out that it can by no means be assimilated, as some have + supposed, with the recommendation of sexual intercourse. It is, + on the contrary, he remarks, much more analogous to the + physician's duty in reference to operations. He puts before the + patient the nature of the operation, its advantages and its + risks, but he leaves it to the patient's judgment to accept or + reject the operation. Lewitt also (<i>Geschlechtliche + Enthaltsamkeit und Gesundheitsstörungen</i>, 1905), after discussing + the various opinions on this <a name='6_Page_205'></a>question, comes to the conclusion + that the physician, if he thinks that intercourse outside + marriage might be beneficial, should explain the difficulties and + leave the patient himself to decide.</p></div> + +<p>There is another reason why, having regard to the prevailing moral +opinions at all events among the middle classes, a physician should +refrain from advising extra-conjugal intercourse: he places himself in a +false relation to his social environment. He is recommending a remedy the +nature of which he could not publicly avow, and so destroying the public +confidence in himself. The only physician who is morally entitled to +advise his patients to enter into extra-conjugal relationships is one who +openly acknowledges that he is prepared to give such advice. The doctor +who is openly working for social reform has perhaps won the moral right to +give advice in accordance with the tendency of his public activity, but +even then his advice may be very dubiously judicious, and he would be +better advised to confine his efforts at social reform to his public +activities. The voice of the physician, as Professor Max Flesch of +Frankfort observes, is more and more heard in the development and new +growth of social institutions; he is a natural leaders in such movements, +and proposals for reform properly come from him. "But," as Flesch +continues, "publicly to accept the excellence of existing institutions and +in the privacy of the consulting-room to give advice which assumes the +imperfection of those institutions is illogical and confusing. It is the +physician's business to give advice which is in accordance with the +interests of the community as a whole, and those interests require that +sexual relationships should be entered into between healthy men and women +who are able and willing to accept the results of their union. That should +be the physician's rule of conduct. Only so can he become, what to-day he +is often proclaimed to be, the leader of the nation."<a name='6_FNanchor_98'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_98'><sup>[98]</sup></a> This view is +not, as we see, entirely in accord with that which assumes that the +physician's duty is solely and entirely to his patient, without regard to +the bearing of his advice on social conduct. The patient's interests are +primary, but they are not entitled to be <a name='6_Page_206'></a>placed in antagonism to the +interests of society. The advice given by the wise physician must always +be in harmony with the social and moral tone of his age. Thus it is that +the tendency among the younger generation of physicians to-day to take an +active interest in raising that tone and in promoting social reform—a +tendency which exists not only in Germany where such interests have long +been acute, but also in so conservative a land as England—is full of +promise for the future.</p> + +<p>The physician is usually content to consider his duty to his patient in +relationship to sexual abstinence as sufficiently fulfilled when he +attempts to allay sexual hyperæsthesia by medical or hygienic treatment. +It can scarcely be claimed, however, that the results of such treatment +are usually satisfactory, and sometimes indeed the treatment has a result +which is the reverse of that intended. The difficulty generally is that in +order to be efficacious the treatment must be carried to an extreme which +exhausts or inhibits not only the genital activities alone but the +activities of the whole organism, and short of that it may prove a +stimulant rather than a sedative. It is difficult and usually impossible +to separate out a man's sexual activities and bring influence to bear on +these activities alone. Sexual activity is so closely intertwined with the +other organic activities, erotic exuberance is so much a flower which is +rooted in the whole organism, that the blow which crushes it may strike +down the whole man. The bromides are universally recognized as powerful +sexual sedatives, but their influence in this respect only makes itself +felt when they have dulled all the finest energies of the organism. +Physical exercise is universally recommended to sexually hyperæsthetic +patients. Yet most people, men and women, find that physical exercise is a +positive stimulus to sexual activity. This is notably so as regards +walking, and exuberantly energetic young women who are troubled by the +irritant activity of their healthy sexual emotions sometimes spend a large +part of their time in the vain attempt to lull their activity by long +walks. Physical exercise only proves efficacious in this respect when it +is carried to an extent which produces general exhaustion. Then indeed the +sexual activity is lulled; but so are all the mental and <a name='6_Page_207'></a>physical +activities. It is undoubtedly true that exercises and games of all sorts +for young people of both sexes have a sexually hygienic as well as a +generally hygienic influence which is undoubtedly beneficial. They are, on +all grounds, to be preferred to prolonged sedentary occupations. But it is +idle to suppose that games and exercises will suppress the sexual +impulses, for in so far as they favor health, they favor all the impulses +that are the result of health. The most that can be expected is that they +may tend to restrain the manifestations of sex by dispersing the energy +they generate.</p> + +<p>There are many physical rules and precautions which are advocated, not +without reason, as tending to inhibit or diminish sexual activity. The +avoidance of heat and the cultivation of cold is one of the most important +of these. Hot climates, a close atmosphere, heavy bed-clothing, hot baths, +all tend powerfully to excite the sexual system, for that system is a +peripheral sensory organ, and whatever stimulates the skin generally, +stimulates the sexual system.<a name='6_FNanchor_99'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_99'><sup>[99]</sup></a> Cold, which contracts the skin, also +deadens the sexual feelings, a fact which the ascetics of old knew and +acted upon. The garments and the posture of the body are not without +influence. Constriction or pressure in the neighborhood of the sexual +region, even tight corsets, as well as internal pressure, as from a +distended bladder, are sources of sexual irritation. Sleeping on the back, +which congests the spinal centres, also acts in the same way, as has long +been known by those who attend to sexual hygiene; thus it is stated that +in the Franciscan order it is prohibited to lie on the back. Food and +drink are, further, powerful sexual stimulants. This is true even of the +simplest and most wholesome nourishment, but it is more especially true of +flesh meat, and, above all, of alcohol in its stronger forms such as +spirits, liqueurs, sparkling and heavy wines, and even many English beers. +This has always been clearly realized by those who cultivate asceticism, +and it is one of the powerful reasons why alcohol should not be given in +early youth. As St. Jerome wrote, when telling Eustochium that she must +avoid wine like poison, "wine and youth are the <a name='6_Page_208'></a>two fires of lust. Why +add oil to the flame?"<a name='6_FNanchor_100'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_100'><sup>[100]</sup></a> Idleness, again, especially when combined with +rich living, promotes sexual activity, as Burton sets forth at length in +his <i>Anatomy of Melancholy</i>, and constant occupation, on the other hand, +concentrates the wandering activities.</p> + +<p>Mental exercise, like physical exercise, has sometimes been advocated as a +method of calming sexual excitement, but it seems to be equally equivocal +in its action. If it is profoundly interesting and exciting it may stir up +rather than lull the sexual emotions. If it arouses little interest it is +unable to exert any kind of influence. This is true even of mathematical +occupations which have been advocated by various authorities, including +Broussais, as aids to sexual hygiene.<a name='6_FNanchor_101'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_101'><sup>[101]</sup></a> "I have tried mechanical mental +work," a lady writes, "such as solving arithmetical or algebraic problems, +but it does no good; in fact it seems only to increase the excitement." "I +studied and especially turned my attention to mathematics," a clergyman +writes, "with a view to check my sexual tendencies. To a certain extent I +was successful. But at the approach of an old friend, a voice or a touch, +these tendencies came back again with renewed strength. I found +mathematics, however, the best thing on the whole to take off my attention +from women, better than religious exercises which I tried when younger +(twenty-two to thirty)." At the best, however, such devices are of merely +temporary efficacy.</p> + +<p>It is easier to avoid arousing the sexual impulses than to impose silence +on them by hygienic measures when once they are <a name='6_Page_209'></a>aroused. It is, +therefore, in childhood and youth that all these measures may be most +reasonably observed in order to avoid any premature sexual excitement. In +one group of stolidly normal children influences that might be expected to +act sexually pass away unperceived. At the other extreme, another group of +children are so neurotically and precociously sensitive that no +precautions will preserve them from such influences. But between these +groups there is another, probably much the largest, who resist slight +sexual suggestions but may succumb to stronger or longer influences, and +on these the cares of sexual hygiene may profitably be bestowed.<a name='6_FNanchor_102'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_102'><sup>[102]</sup></a></p> + +<p>After puberty, when the spontaneous and inner voice of sex may at any +moment suddenly make itself heard, all hygienic precautions are liable to +be flung to the winds, and even the youth or maiden most anxious to retain +the ideals of chastity can often do little but wait till the storm has +passed. It sometimes happens that a prolonged period of sexual storm and +stress occurs soon after puberty, and then dies away although there has +been little or no sexual gratification, to be succeeded by a period of +comparative calm. It must be remembered that in many, and perhaps most, +individuals, men and women, the sexual appetite, unlike hunger or thirst, +can after a prolonged struggle, be reduced to a more or less quiescent +state which, far from injuring, may even benefit the physical and psychic +vigor generally. This may happen whether or not sexual gratification has +been obtained. If there has never been any such gratification, the +struggle is less severe and sooner over, unless the individual is of +highly erotic <a name='6_Page_210'></a>temperament. If there has been gratification, if the mind +is filled not merely with desires but with joyous experience to which the +body also has grown accustomed, then the struggle is longer and more +painfully absorbing. The succeeding relief, however, if it comes, is +sometimes more complete and is more likely to be associated with a state +of psychic health. For the fundamental experiences of life, under normal +conditions, bring not only intellectual sanity, but emotional +pacification. A conquest of the sexual appetites which has never at any +period involved a gratification of these appetites seldom produces results +that commend themselves as rich and beautiful.</p> + +<p>In these combats there are, however, no permanent conquests. For a very +large number of people, indeed, though there may be emotional changes and +fluctuations dependent on a variety of circumstances, there can scarcely +be said to be any conquest at all. They are either always yielding to the +impulses that assail them, or always resisting those impulses, in the +first case with remorse, in the second with dissatisfaction. In either +case much of their lives, at the time when life is most vigorous, is +wasted. With women, if they happen to be of strong passions and reckless +impulses to abandonment, the results may be highly enervating, if not +disastrous to the general psychic life. It is to this cause, indeed, that +some have been inclined to attribute the frequent mediocrity of women's +work in artistic and intellectual fields. Women of intellectual force are +frequently if not generally women of strong passions, and if they resist +the tendency to merge themselves in the duties of maternity their lives +are often wasted in emotional conflict and their psychic natures +impoverished.<a name='6_FNanchor_103'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_103'><sup>[103]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_211'></a> +<div class='blkquot'><p>The extent to which sexual abstinence and the struggles it + involves may hamper and absorb the individual throughout life is + well illustrated in the following case. A lady, vigorous, robust, + and generally healthy, of great intelligence and high character, + has reached middle life without marrying, or ever having sexual + relationships. She was an only child, and when between three and + four years of age, a playmate some six years older, initiated her + into the habit of playing with her sexual parts. She was, + however, at this age quite devoid of sexual feelings, and the + habit dropped naturally, without any bad effects, as soon as she + left the neighborhood of this girl a year or so later. Her health + was good and even brilliant, and she developed vigorously at + puberty. At the age of sixteen, however, a mental shock caused + menstruation to diminish in amount during some years, and + simultaneously with this diminution persistent sexual excitement + appeared spontaneously, for the first time. She regarded such + feelings as abnormal and unhealthy, and exerted all her powers of + self-control in resisting them. But will power had no effect in + diminishing the feelings. There was constant and imperious + excitement, with the sense of vibration, tension, pressure, + dilatation and tickling, accompanied, it may be, by some ovarian + congestion, for she felt that on the left side there was a + network of sexual nerves, and retroversion of the uterus was + detected some years later. Her life was strenuous with many + duties, but no occupation could be pursued without this + undercurrent of sexual hyperæsthesia involving perpetual + self-control. This continued more or less acutely for many years, + when menstruation suddenly stopped altogether, much before the + usual period of the climacteric. At the same time the sexual + excitement ceased, and she became calm, peaceful, and happy. + Diminished menstruation was associated with sexual excitement, + but abundant menstruation and its complete absence were both + accompanied by the relief of excitement. This lasted for two + years. Then, for the treatment of a trifling degree of anæmia, + she was subjected to a long, and, in her case, injudicious course + of hypodermic injections of strychnia. From that time, five years + ago, up to the present, there has been constant sexual + excitement, and she has always to be on guard lest she should be + overtaken by a sexual spasm. Her torture is increased by the fact + that her traditions make it impossible for her (except under very + exceptional circumstances) to allude to the cause of her + sufferings. "A woman is handicapped," she writes. "She may never + speak to anyone on such a subject. She must live her tragedy + alone, smiling as much as she can under the strain of her + terrible burden." To add to her trouble, two years ago, she felt + impelled to resort to masturbation, and has done so about once a + month since; this not only brings no real relief, and leaves + irritability, wakefulness, and dark marks under the eyes, but is + a cause of remorse to her, for she regards masturbation as + <a name='6_Page_212'></a>entirely abnormal and unnatural. She has tried to gain benefit, + not merely by the usual methods of physical hygiene, but by + suggestion, Christian Science, etc., but all in vain. "I may + say," she writes, "that it is the most passionate desire of my + heart to be freed from this bondage, that I may relax the + terrible years-long tension of resistance, and be happy in my own + way. If I had this affliction once a month, once a week, even + twice a week, to stand against it would be child's play. I should + scorn to resort to unnatural means, however moderately. But + self-control itself has its revenges, and I sometimes feel as if + it is no longer to be borne."</p></div> + +<p>Thus while it is an immense benefit in physical and psychic development if +the eruption of the disturbing sexual emotions can be delayed until +puberty or adolescence, and while it is a very great advantage, after that +eruption has occurred, to be able to gain control of these emotions, to +crush altogether the sexual nature would be a barren, if not, indeed, a +perilous victory, bringing with it no satisfaction. "If I had only had +three weeks' happiness," said a woman, "I would not quarrel with Fate, but +to have one's whole life so absolutely empty is horrible." If such vacuous +self-restraint may, by courtesy, be termed a virtue, it is but a negative +virtue. The persons who achieve it, as the result of congenitally feeble +sexual aptitudes, merely (as Gyurkovechky, Fürbringer, and Löwenfeld have +all alike remarked) made a virtue of their weakness. Many others, whose +instincts were less weak, when they disdainfully put to flight the desires +of sex in early life, have found that in later life that foe returns in +tenfold force and perhaps in unnatural shapes.<a name='6_FNanchor_104'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_104'><sup>[104]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_213'></a> +<p>The conception of "sexual abstinence" is, we see, an entirely false and +artificial conception. It is not only ill-adjusted to the hygienic facts +of the case but it fails even to invoke any genuinely moral motive, for it +is exclusively self-regarding and self-centred. It only becomes genuinely +moral, and truly inspiring, when we transform it into the altruistic +virtue of self-sacrifice. When we have done so we see that the element of +abstinence in it ceases to be essential, "Self-sacrifice," writes the +author of a thoughtful book on the sexual life, "is acknowledged to be the +basis of virtue; the noblest instances of self-sacrifice are those +dictated by sexual affection. Sympathy is the secret of altruism; nowhere +is sympathy more real and complete than in love. Courage, both moral and +physical, the love of truth and honor, the spirit of enterprise, and the +admiration of moral worth, are all inspired by love as by nothing else in +human nature. Celibacy denies itself that inspiration or restricts its +influence, according to the measure of its denial of sexual intimacy. Thus +the deliberate adoption of a consistently celibate life implies the +narrowing down of emotional and moral experience to a degree which is, +from the broad scientific standpoint, unjustified by any of the advantages +piously supposed to accrue from it."<a name='6_FNanchor_105'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_105'><sup>[105]</sup></a></p> + +<p>In a sane natural order all the impulses are centred in the fulfilment of +needs and not in their denial. Moreover, in this special matter of sex, it +is inevitable that the needs of others, and not merely the needs of the +individual himself, should determine action. It is more especially the +needs of the female which are the determining factor; for those needs are +more various, complex and elusive, and in his attentiveness to their +gratification the male finds a source of endless erotic satisfaction. It +might be thought that the introduction of an altruistic motive here is +merely the claim of theoretical morality insisting that there shall be a +firm curb on animal instinct. But, as we have again and again seen +throughout the long course of these <i>Studies</i>, it is not so. The animal +instinct itself makes this demand. It is a <a name='6_Page_214'></a>biological law that rules +throughout the zoölogical world and has involved the universality of +courtship. In man it is only modified because in man sexual needs are not +entirely concentrated in reproduction, but more or less penetrate the +whole of life.</p> + +<p>While from the point of view of society, as from that of Nature, the end +and object of the sexual impulse is procreation, and nothing beyond +procreation, that is by no means true for the individual, whose main +object it must be to fulfil himself harmoniously with that due regard for +others which the art of living demands. Even if sexual relationships had +no connection with procreation whatever—as some Central Australian tribes +believe—they would still be justifiable, and are, indeed, an +indispensable aid to the best moral development of the individual, for it +is only in so intimate a relationship as that of sex that the finest +graces and aptitudes of life have full scope. Even the saints cannot +forego the sexual side of life. The best and most accomplished saints from +Jerome to Tolstoy—even the exquisite Francis of Assisi—had stored up in +their past all the experiences that go to the complete realization of +life, and if it were not so they would have been the less saints.</p> + +<p>The element of positive virtue thus only enters when the control of the +sexual impulse has passed beyond the stage of rigid and sterile abstinence +and has become not merely a deliberate refusal of what is evil in sex, but +a deliberate acceptance of what is good. It is only at that moment that +such control becomes a real part of the great art of living. For the art +of living, like any other art, is not compatible with rigidity, but lies +in the weaving of a perpetual harmony between refusing and accepting, +between giving and taking.<a name='6_FNanchor_106'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_106'><sup>[106]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The future, it is clear, belongs ultimately to those who are slowly +building up sounder traditions into the structure of life. The "problem of +sexual abstinence" will more and more sink into insignificance. There +remain the great solid fact of love, the great solid fact of chastity. +Those are eternal. Between them <a name='6_Page_215'></a>there is nothing but harmony. The +development of one involves the development of the other.</p> + +<p>It has been necessary to treat seriously this problem of "sexual +abstinence" because we have behind us the traditions of two thousand years +based on certain ideals of sexual law and sexual license, together with +the long effort to build up practices more or less conditioned by those +ideals. We cannot immediately escape from these traditions even when we +question their validity for ourselves. We have not only to recognize their +existence, but also to accept the fact that for some time to come they +must still to a considerable extent control the thoughts and even in some +degree the actions of existing communities.</p> + +<p>It is undoubtedly deplorable. It involves the introduction of an +artificiality into a real natural order. Love is real and positive; +chastity is real and positive. But sexual abstinence is unreal and +negative, in the strict sense perhaps impossible. The underlying feelings +of all those who have emphasized its importance is that a physiological +process can be good or bad according as it is or is not carried out under +certain arbitrary external conditions, which render it licit or illicit. +An act of sexual intercourse under the name of "marriage" is beneficial; +the very same act, under the name of "incontinence," is pernicious. No +physiological process, and still less any spiritual process, can bear such +restriction. It is as much as to say that a meal becomes good or bad, +digestible or indigestible, according as a grace is or is not pronounced +before the eating of it.</p> + +<p>It is deplorable because, such a conception being essentially unreal, an +element of unreality is thus introduced into a matter of the gravest +concern alike to the individual and to society. Artificial disputes have +been introduced where no matter of real dispute need exist. A contest has +been carried on marked by all the ferocity which marks contests about +metaphysical or pseudo-metaphysical differences having no concrete basis +in the actual world. As will happen in such cases, there has, after all, +been no real difference between the disputants because the point they +quarreled over was unreal. In truth each side was right and each side was +wrong.</p><a name='6_Page_216'></a> + +<p>It is necessary, we see, that the balance should be held even. An absolute +license is bad; an absolute abstinence—even though some by nature or +circumstances are urgently called to adopt it—is also bad. They are both +alike away from the gracious equilibrium of Nature. And the force, we see, +which naturally holds this balance even is the biological fact that the +act of sexual union is the satisfaction of the erotic needs, not of one +person, but of two persons.</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='6_Footnote_92'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_92'>[92]</a><div class='note'><p> This view was an ambiguous improvement on the view, +universally prevalent, as Westermarck has shown, among primitive peoples, +that the sexual act involves indignity to a woman or depreciation of her +only in so far as she is the property of another person who is the really +injured party.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_93'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_93'>[93]</a><div class='note'><p> This implicit contradiction has been acutely pointed out +from the religious side by the Rev. H. Northcote, <i>Christianity and Sex +Problems</i>, p. 53.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_94'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_94'>[94]</a><div class='note'><p> It has already been necessary to discuss this point briefly +in "The Sexual Impulse in Women," vol. iii of these <i>Studies</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_95'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_95'>[95]</a><div class='note'><p> "Die Abstinentia Sexualis," <i>Zeitschrift für +Sexualwissenschaft</i>, Nov., 1908.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_96'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_96'>[96]</a><div class='note'><p> P. Janet, "La Maladie du Scrupule," <i>Revue Philosophique</i>, +May, 1901.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_97'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_97'>[97]</a><div class='note'><p> S. Freud, <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, March, 1908. As Adele Schreiber +also points out (<i>Mutterschutz</i>, Jan., 1907, p. 30), it is not enough to +prove that abstinence is not dangerous; we have to remember that the +spiritual and physical energy used up in repressing this mighty instinct +often reduces a joyous and energetic nature to a weary and faded shadow. +Similarly, Helene Stöcker (<i>Die Liebe und die Frauen</i>, p. 105) says: "The +question whether abstinence is harmful is, to say the truth, a ridiculous +question. One needs to be no nervous specialist to know, as a matter of +course, that a life of happy love and marriage is the healthy life, and +its complete absence cannot fail to lead to severe psychic depression, +even if no direct physiological disturbances can be demonstrated."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_98'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_98'>[98]</a><div class='note'><p> Max Flesch, "Ehe, Hygine und Sexuelle Moral," +<i>Mutterschutz</i>, 1905, Heft 7.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_99'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_99'>[99]</a><div class='note'><p> See the Section on Touch in the fourth volume of these +<i>Studies</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_100'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_100'>[100]</a><div class='note'><p> "I have had two years' close experience and connexion with +the Trappists," wrote Dr. Butterfield, of Natal (<i>British Medical +Journal</i>, Sept. 15, 1906, p. 668), "both as medical attendant and as being +a Catholic in creed myself. I have studied them and investigated their +life, habits and diet, and though I should be very backward in adopting it +myself, as not suited to me individually, the great bulk of them are in +absolute ideal health and strength, seldom ailing, capable of vast work, +mental and physical. Their life is very simple and very regular. A +healthier body of men and women, with perfect equanimity of temper—this +latter I lay great stress on—it would be difficult to find. Health beams +in their eyes and countenance and actions. Only in sickness or prolonged +journeys are they allowed any strong foods—meats, eggs, etc.—or any +alcohol."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_101'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_101'>[101]</a><div class='note'><p> Féré, <i>L'Instinct Sexuel</i>, second edition, p. 332.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_102'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_102'>[102]</a><div class='note'><p> Rural life, as we have seen when discussing its relation to +sexual precocity, <i>is</i> on one side the reverse of a safeguard against +sexual influences. But, on the other hand, in so far as it involves hard +work and simple living under conditions that are not nervously +stimulating, it is favorable to a considerably delayed sexual activity in +youth and to a relative continence. Ammon, in the course of his +anthropological investigations of Baden conscripts, found that sexual +intercourse was rare in the country before twenty, and even sexual +emissions during sleep rare before nineteen or twenty. It is said, also, +he repeats, that no one has a right to run after girls who does not yet +carry a gun, and the elder lads sometimes brutally ill-treat any younger +boy found going about with a girl. No doubt this is often preliminary to +much license later.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_103'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_103'>[103]</a><div class='note'><p> The numerical preponderance which celibate women teachers +have now gained in the American school system has caused much misgiving +among many sagacious observers, and is said to be unsatisfactory in its +results on the pupils of both sexes. A distinguished authority, Professor +McKeen Cattell ("The School and the Family," <i>Popular Science Monthly</i>, +Jan., 1909), referring to this preponderance of "devitalized and unsexed +spinsters," goes so far as to say that "the ultimate result of letting the +celibate female be the usual teacher has been such as to make it a +question whether it would not be an advantage to the country if the whole +school plant could be scrapped."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_104'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_104'>[104]</a><div class='note'><p> Corre (<i>Les Criminels</i>, p. 351) mentions that of thirteen +priests convicted of crime, six were guilty of sexual attempts on +children, and of eighty-three convicted lay teachers, forty-eight had +committed similar offenses. This was at a time when lay teachers were in +practice almost compelled to live a celibate life; altered conditions have +greatly diminished this class of offense among them. Without going so far +as crime, many moral and religious men, clergymen and others, who have led +severely abstinent lives in youth, sometimes experience in middle age or +later the eruption of almost uncontrollable sexual impulses, normal or +abnormal. In women such manifestations are apt to take the form of +obsessional thoughts of sexual character, as <i>e.g.</i>, the case +(<i>Comptes-Rendus Congrès International de Médecine</i>, Moscow, 1897, vol. +iv, p. 27) of a chaste woman who was compelled to think about and look at +the sexual organs of men.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_105'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_105'>[105]</a><div class='note'><p> J. A. Godfrey, <i>The Science of Sex</i>, p. 138.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_106'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_106'>[106]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, Havelock Ellis, "St. Francis and Others," +<i>Affirmations</i>.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_CHAPTER_VII'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_217'></a>CHAPTER VII.</h2> + +<h3>PROSTITUTION.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>I. <i>The Orgy:</i>—The Religious Origin of the Orgy—The Feast of +Fools—Recognition of the Orgy by the Greeks and Romans—The Orgy Among +Savages—The Drama—The Object Subserved by the Orgy.</p></div> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>II. <i>The Origin and Development of Prostitution:</i>—The Definition of +Prostitution—Prostitution Among Savages—The Conditions Under Which +Professional Prostitution Arises—Sacred Prostitution—The Rite of +Mylitta—The Practice of Prostitution to Obtain a Marriage Portion—The +Rise of Secular Prostitution in Greece—Prostitution in the East—India, +China, Japan, etc.—Prostitution in Rome—The Influence of Christianity on +Prostitution—The Effort to Combat Prostitution—The Mediæval Brothel—The +Appearance of the Courtesan—Tullia D'Aragona—Veronica Franco—Ninon de +Lenclos—Later Attempts to Eradicate Prostitution—The Regulation of +Prostitution—Its Futility Becoming Recognized.</p></div> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>III. <i>The Causes of Prostitution:</i>—Prostitution as a Part of the Marriage +System—The Complex Causation of Prostitution—The Motives Assigned by +Prostitutes—(1) Economic Factor of Prostitution—Poverty Seldom the Chief +Motive for Prostitution—But Economic Pressure Exerts a Real +Influence—The Large Proportion of Prostitutes Recruited from Domestic +Service—Significance of This Fact—(2) The Biological Factor of +Prostitution—The So-called Born-Prostitute—Alleged Identity with the +Born-Criminal—The Sexual Instinct in Prostitutes—The Physical and +Psychic Characters of Prostitutes—(3) Moral Necessity as a Factor in the +Existence of Prostitution—The Moral Advocates of Prostitution—The +Moral Attitude of Christianity Towards Prostitution—The Attitude +of Protestantism—Recent Advocates of the Moral Necessity +of Prostitution—(4) Civilizational Value as a Factor of +Prostitution—The Influence of Urban Life—The Craving for Excitement—Why +Servant-girls so Often Turn to Prostitution—The Small Part Played by +Seduction—Prostitutes Come Largely from the Country—The Appeal of +Civilization Attracts Women to Prostitution—The Corresponding Attraction +Felt by Men—The Prostitute as Artist and Leader of Fashion—The Charm of +Vulgarity.</p></div> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>IV. <i>The Present Social Attitude Towards Prostitution:</i>—The Decay of the +Brothel—The Tendency to the Humanization of Prostitution—The Monetary +Aspects of Prostitution—The Geisha—The Hetaira—The<a name='6_Page_218'></a> Moral Revolt +Against Prostitution—Squalid Vice Based on Luxurious Virtue—The Ordinary +Attitude Towards Prostitutes—Its Cruelty Absurd—The Need of Reforming +Prostitution—The Need of Reforming Marriage—These These Two Needs +Closely Correlated—The Dynamic Relationships Involved.</p></div> +<br /> +<hr /> +<a name='6_I'></a><h4>I. The Orgy.</h4> + +<p>Traditional morality, religion, and established convention combine to +promote not only the extreme of rigid abstinence but also that of reckless +license. They preach and idealize the one extreme; they drive those who +cannot accept it to adopt the opposite extreme. In the great ages of +religion it even happens that the severity of the rule of abstinence is +more or less deliberately tempered by the permission for occasional +outbursts of license. We thus have the orgy, which flourished in mediæval +days and is, indeed, in its largest sense, a universal manifestation, +having a function to fulfil in every orderly and laborious civilization, +built up on natural energies that are bound by more or less inevitable +restraints.</p> + +<p>The consideration of the orgy, it may be said, lifts us beyond the merely +sexual sphere, into a higher and wider region which belongs to religion. +The Greek <i>orgeia</i> referred originally to ritual things done with a +religious purpose, though later, when dances of Bacchanals and the like +lost their sacred and inspiring character, the idea was fostered by +Christianity that such things were immoral.<a name='6_FNanchor_107'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_107'><sup>[107]</sup></a> Yet Christianity was +itself in its origin an orgy of the higher spiritual activities released +from the uncongenial servitude of classic civilization, a great festival +of the poor and the humble, of the slave and the sinner. And when, with +the necessity for orderly social organization, Christianity had ceased to +be this it still recognized, as Paganism had done, the need for an +occasional orgy. It appears that in 743 at a Synod held in Hainault +reference was made to the February debauch (<i>de Spurcalibus in februario</i>) +as a pagan practice; yet it was precisely this pagan festival which was +embodied in the accepted customs of the Christian Church as the chief orgy +of the ecclesiastical <a name='6_Page_219'></a>year, the great Carnival prefixed to the long fast +of Lent. The celebration on Shrove Tuesday and the previous Sunday +constituted a Christian Bacchanalian festival in which all classes joined. +The greatest freedom and activity of physical movement was encouraged; +"some go about naked without shame, some crawl on all fours, some on +stilts, some imitate animals."<a name='6_FNanchor_108'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_108'><sup>[108]</sup></a> As time went on the Carnival lost its +most strongly marked Bacchanalian features, but it still retains its +essential character as a permitted and temporary relaxation of the tension +of customary restraints and conventions. The Mediæval Feast of Fools—a +New Year's Revel well established by the twelfth century, mainly in +France—presented an expressive picture of a Christian orgy in its extreme +form, for here the most sacred ceremonies of the Church became the subject +of fantastic parody. The Church, according to Nietzsche's saying, like all +wise legislators, recognized that where great impulses and habits have to +be cultivated, intercalary days must be appointed in which these impulses +and habits may be denied, and so learn to hunger anew.<a name='6_FNanchor_109'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_109'><sup>[109]</sup></a> The clergy +took the leading part in these folk-festivals, for to the men of that age, +as Méray remarks, "the temple offered the complete notes of the human +gamut; they found there the teaching of all duties, the consolation of all +sorrows, the satisfaction <a name='6_Page_220'></a>of all joys. The sacred festivals of mediæval +Christianity were not a survival from Roman times; they leapt from the +very heart of Christian society."<a name='6_FNanchor_110'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_110'><sup>[110]</sup></a> But, as Méray admits, all great and +vigorous peoples, of the East and the West, have found it necessary +sometimes to play with their sacred things.</p> + +<p>Among the Greeks and Romans this need is everywhere visible, not only in +their comedy and their literature generally, but in everyday life. As +Nietzsche truly remarks (in his <i>Geburt der Tragödie</i>) the Greeks +recognized all natural impulses, even those that are seemingly unworthy, +and safeguarded them from working mischief by providing channels into +which, on special days and in special rites, the surplus of wild energy +might harmlessly flow. Plutarch, the last and most influential of the +Greek moralists, well says, when advocating festivals (in his essay "On +the Training of Children"), that "even in bows and harps we loosen their +strings that we may bend and wind them up again." Seneca, perhaps the most +influential of Roman if not of European moralists, even recommended +occasional drunkenness. "Sometimes," he wrote in his <i>De Tranquillilate</i>, +"we ought to come even to the point of intoxication, not for the purpose +of drowning ourselves but of sinking ourselves deep in wine. For it washes +away cares and raises our spirits from the lowest depths. The inventor of +wine is called <i>Liber</i> because he frees the soul from the servitude of +care, releases it from slavery, quickens it, and makes it bolder for all +undertakings." The Romans were a sterner and more serious people than the +Greeks, but on that very account they recognized the necessity of +occasionally relaxing their moral fibres in order to preserve their tone, +and encouraged the prevalence of festivals which were marked by much more +abandonment than those of Greece. When these <a name='6_Page_221'></a>festivals began to lose +their moral sanction and to fall into decay the decadence of Rome had +begun.</p> + +<p>All over the world, and not excepting the most primitive savages—for even +savage life is built up on systematic constraints which sometimes need +relaxation—the principle of the orgy is recognized and accepted. Thus +Spencer and Gillen describe<a name='6_FNanchor_111'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_111'><sup>[111]</sup></a> the Nathagura or fire-ceremony of the +Warramunga tribe of Central Australia, a festival taken part in by both +sexes, in which all the ordinary rules of social life are broken, a kind +of Saturnalia in which, however, there is no sexual license, for sexual +license is, it need scarcely be said, no essential part of the orgy, even +when the orgy lightens the burden of sexual constraints. In a widely +different part of the world, in British Columbia, the Salish Indians, +according to Hill Tout,<a name='6_FNanchor_112'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_112'><sup>[112]</sup></a> believed that, long before the whites came, +their ancestors observed a Sabbath or seventh day ceremony for dancing and +praying, assembling at sunrise and dancing till noon. The Sabbath, or +periodically recurring orgy,—not a day of tension and constraint but a +festival of joy, a rest from all the duties of everyday life,—has, as we +know, formed an essential part of many of the orderly ancient +civilizations on which our own has been built;<a name='6_FNanchor_113'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_113'><sup>[113]</sup></a> it is highly probable +that the stability of these ancient civilizations was intimately +associated with their recognition of the need of a Sabbath orgy. Such +festivals are, indeed, as Crawley observes, processes of purification and +reinvigoration, the effort to put off "the old man" and put on "the new +man," to enter with fresh energy on the path of everyday life.<a name='6_FNanchor_114'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_114'><sup>[114]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_222'></a> +<p>The orgy is an institution which by no means has its significance only for +the past. On the contrary, the high tension, the rigid routine, the gray +monotony of modern life insistently call for moments of organic relief, +though the precise form that that orgiastic relief takes must necessarily +change with other social changes. As Wilhelm von Humboldt said, "just as +men need suffering in order to become strong so they need joy in order to +become good." Charles Wagner, insisting more recently (in his <i>Jeunesse</i>) +on the same need of joy in our modern life, regrets that dancing in the +old, free, and natural manner has gone out of fashion or become +unwholesome. Dancing is indeed the most fundamental and primitive form of +the orgy, and that which most completely and healthfully fulfils its +object. For while it is undoubtedly, as we see even among animals, a +process by which sexual tumescence is accomplished,<a name='6_FNanchor_115'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_115'><sup>[115]</sup></a> it by no means +necessarily becomes focused in sexual detumescence but it may itself +become a detumescent discharge of accumulated energy. It was on this +account that, at all events in former days, the clergy in Spain, on moral +grounds, openly encouraged the national passion for dancing. Among +cultured people in modern times, the orgy tends to take on a purely +cerebral form, which is less wholesome because it fails to lead to +harmonious discharge along motor channels. In these comparatively passive +forms, however, the orgy tends to become more and more pronounced under +the conditions of civilization. Aristotle's famous statement concerning +the function of tragedy as "purgation" seems to be a recognition of the +beneficial effects of the orgy.<a name='6_FNanchor_116'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_116'><sup>[116]</sup></a> Wagner's music-dramas appeal +powerfully to this need; the theatre, now as ever, fulfils a great +function of the same kind, inherited from the ancient days when it was the +ordered expression of a sexual festival.<a name='6_FNanchor_117'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_117'><sup>[117]</sup></a><a name='6_Page_223'></a> The theatre, indeed, tends +at the present time to assume a larger importance and to approximate to +the more serious dramatic performances of classic days by being +transferred to the day-time and the open-air. France has especially taken +the initiative in these performances, analogous to the Dionysiac festivals +of antiquity and the Mysteries and Moralities of the Middle Ages. The +movement began some years ago at Orange. In 1907 there were, in France, as +many as thirty open-air theatres ("Théâtres de la Nature," "Théâtres du +Soleil," etc.,) while it is in Marseilles that the first formal open-air +theatre has been erected since classic days.<a name='6_FNanchor_118'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_118'><sup>[118]</sup></a> In England, likewise, +there has been a great extension of popular interest in dramatic +performances, and the newly instituted Pageants, carried out and taken +part in by the population of the region commemorated in the Pageant, are +festivals of the same character. In England, however, at the present time, +the real popular orgiastic festivals are the Bank holidays, with which may +be associated the more occasional celebrations, "Maffekings," etc., often +called out by comparatively insignificant national events but still +adequate to arouse orgiastic emotions as genuine as those of antiquity, +though they are lacking in beauty and religious consecration. It is easy +indeed for the narrowly austere person to view such manifestations with a +supercilious smile, but in the eyes of the moralist and the philosopher +these orgiastic festivals exert a salutary and preservative function. In +every age of dull and monotonous routine—and all civilization involves +such routine—many natural impulses and functions tend to become +suppressed, atrophied, or perverted. They need these moments of joyous +exercise and expression, moments in which they may not necessarily attain +their full activity but in which they will at all events be able, as +Cyples expresses it, to rehearse their great possibilities.<a name='6_FNanchor_119'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_119'><sup>[119]</sup></a></p> +<br /><a name='6_Page_224'></a> +<hr /> + +<a name='6_II'></a><h4>II. The Origin and Development of Prostitution.</h4> + +<p>The more refined forms of the orgy flourish in civilization, although on +account of their mainly cerebral character they are not the most +beneficent or the most effective. The more primitive and muscular forms of +the orgy tend, on the other hand, under the influence of civilization, to +fall into discredit and to be so far as possible suppressed altogether. It +is partly in this way that civilization encourages prostitution. For the +orgy in its primitive forms, forbidden to show itself openly and +reputably, seeks the darkness, and allying itself with a fundamental +instinct to which civilized society offers no complete legitimate +satisfaction, it firmly entrenches itself in the very centre of civilized +life, and thereby constitutes a problem of immense difficulty and +importance.<a name='6_FNanchor_120'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_120'><sup>[120]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is commonly said that prostitution has existed always and everywhere. +That statement is far from correct. A kind of amateur prostitution is +occasionally found among savages, but usually it is only when barbarism is +fully developed and is already approaching the stage of civilization that +well developed prostitution is found. It exists in a systematic form in +every civilization.</p> + +<p>What is prostitution? There has been considerable discussion as to the +correct definition of prostitution.<a name='6_FNanchor_121'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_121'><sup>[121]</sup></a> The Roman Ulpian said that a +prostitute was one who openly abandons her body to a number of men without +choice, for money.<a name='6_FNanchor_122'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_122'><sup>[122]</sup></a> Not all modern definitions have been so +satisfactory. It is sometimes said a prostitute is a woman who gives +herself to numerous men. To be sound, however, a definition must be +applicable to both <a name='6_Page_225'></a>sexes alike and we should certainly hesitate to +describe a man who had sexual intercourse with many women as a prostitute. +The idea of venality, the intention to sell the favors of the body, is +essential to the conception of prostitution. Thus Guyot defines a +prostitute as "any person for whom sexual relationships are subordinated +to gain."<a name='6_FNanchor_123'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_123'><sup>[123]</sup></a> It is not, however, adequate to define a prostitute simply +as a woman who sells her body. That is done every day by women who become +wives in order to gain a home and a livelihood, yet, immoral as this +conduct may be from any high ethical standpoint, it would be inconvenient +and even misleading to call it prostitution.<a name='6_FNanchor_124'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_124'><sup>[124]</sup></a> It is better, therefore, +to define a prostitute as a woman who temporarily sells her sexual favors +to various persons. Thus, according to Wharton's <i>Law-lexicon</i> a +prostitute is "a woman who indiscriminately consorts with men for hire"; +Bonger states that "those women are prostitutes who sell their bodies for +the exercise of sexual acts and make of this a profession";<a name='6_FNanchor_125'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_125'><sup>[125]</sup></a> Richard +again states that "a prostitute is a woman who publicly gives herself to +the first comer in return for a pecuniary remuneration."<a name='6_FNanchor_126'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_126'><sup>[126]</sup></a> As, finally, +the prevalence of homosexuality has led to the existence of male +prostitutes, the definition must be put in a form irrespective of sex, and +we may, therefore, say that a prostitute is a person who makes it a +profession <a name='6_Page_226'></a>to gratify the lust of various persons of the opposite sex or +the same sex.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is essential that the act of prostitution should be habitually + performed with "various persons." A woman who gains her living by + being mistress to a man, to whom she is faithful, is not a + prostitute, although she often becomes one afterwards, and may + have been one before. The exact point at which a woman begins to + be a prostitute is a question of considerable importance in + countries in which prostitutes are subject to registration. Thus + in Berlin, not long ago, a girl who was mistress to a rich + cavalry officer and supported by him, during the illness of the + officer accidentally met a man whom she had formerly known, and + once or twice invited him to see her, receiving from him presents + in money. This somehow came to the knowledge of the police, and + she was arrested and sentenced to one day's imprisonment as an + unregistered prostitute. On appeal, however, the sentence was + annulled. Liszt, in his <i>Strafrecht</i>, lays it down that a girl + who obtains whole or part of her income from "fixed + relationships" is not practicing unchastity for gain in the sense + of the German law (<i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, Jahrgang 1, + Heft 9, p. 345).</p></div> + +<p>It is not altogether easy to explain the origin of the systematized +professional prostitution with the existence of which we are familiar in +civilization. The amateur kind of prostitution which has sometimes been +noted among primitive peoples—the fact, that is, that a man may give a +woman a present in seeking to persuade her to allow him to have +intercourse with her—is really not prostitution as we understand it. The +present in such a case is merely part of a kind of courtship leading to a +temporary relationship. The woman more or less retains her social position +and is not forced to make an avocation of selling herself because +henceforth no other career is possible to her. When Cook came to New +Zealand his men found that the women were not impregnable, "but the terms +and manner of compliance were as decent as those in marriage among us," +and according "to their notions the agreement was as innocent." The +consent of the woman's friends was necessary, and when the preliminaries +were settled it was also necessary to treat this "Juliet of a night" with +"the same delicacy as is here required with the wife for life, and the +lover who presumed to take any liberties by which this was <a name='6_Page_227'></a>violated was +sure to be disappointed."<a name='6_FNanchor_127'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_127'><sup>[127]</sup></a> In some of the Melanesian Islands, it is +said that women would sometimes become prostitutes, or on account of their +bad conduct be forced to become prostitutes for a time; they were not, +however, particularly despised, and when they had in this way accumulated +a certain amount of property they could marry well, after which it would +not be proper to refer to their former career.<a name='6_FNanchor_128'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_128'><sup>[128]</sup></a></p> + +<p>When prostitution first arises among a primitive people it sometimes +happens that little or no stigma is attached to it for the reason that the +community has not yet become accustomed to attach any special value to the +presence of virginity. Schurtz quotes from the old Arabic geographer +Al-Bekri some interesting remarks about the Slavs: "The women of the +Slavs, after they have married, are faithful to their husbands. If, +however, a young girl falls in love with a man she goes to him and +satisfies her passion. And if a man marries and finds his wife a virgin he +says to her: 'If you were worth anything men would have loved you, and you +would have chosen one who would have taken away your virginity.' Then he +drives her away and renounces her." It is a feeling of this kind which, +among some peoples, leads a girl to be proud of the presents she has +received from her lovers and to preserve them as a dowry for her marriage, +knowing that her value will thus be still further heightened. Even among +the Southern Slavs of modern Europe, who have preserved much of the +primitive sexual freedom, this freedom, as Krauss, who has minutely +studied the manners and customs of these peoples, declares, is +fundamentally different from vice, licentiousness, or immodesty.<a name='6_FNanchor_129'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_129'><sup>[129]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Prostitution tends to arise, as Schurtz has pointed out, in every society +in which early marriage is difficult and intercourse outside marriage is +socially disapproved. "Venal women everywhere appear as soon as the free +sexual intercourse of young people is repressed, without the necessary +consequences being <a name='6_Page_228'></a>impeded by unusually early marriages."<a name='6_FNanchor_130'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_130'><sup>[130]</sup></a> The +repression of sexual intimacies outside marriage is a phenomenon of +civilization, but it is not itself by any means a measure of a people's +general level, and may, therefore, begin to appear at an early period. But +it is important to remember that the primitive and rudimentary forms of +prostitution, when they occur, are merely temporary, and +frequently—though not invariably—involve no degrading influence on the +woman in public estimation, sometimes indeed increasing her value as a +wife. The woman who sells herself for money purely as a professional +matter, without any thought of love or passion, and who, by virtue of her +profession, belongs to a pariah class definitely and rigidly excluded from +the main body of her sex, is a phenomenon which can seldom be found except +in developed civilization. It is altogether incorrect to speak of +prostitutes as a mere survival from primitive times.</p> + +<p>On the whole, while among savages sexual relationships are sometimes free +before marriage, as well as on the occasion of special festivals, they are +rarely truly promiscuous and still more rarely venal. When savage women +nowadays sell themselves, or are sold by their husbands, it has usually +been found that we are concerned with the contamination of European +civilization.</p> + +<p>The definite ways in which professional prostitution may arise are no +doubt many.<a name='6_FNanchor_131'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_131'><sup>[131]</sup></a> We may assent to the general principle, laid down by +Schurtz, that whenever the free union of young people is impeded under +conditions in which early marriage is also difficult prostitution must +certainly arise. There are, however, different ways in which this +principle may take shape. So far as our western civilization is +concerned—the civilization, that <a name='6_Page_229'></a>is to say, which has its cradle in the +Mediterranean basin—it would seem that the origin of prostitution is to +be found primarily in a religious custom, religion, the great conserver of +social traditions, preserving in a transformed shape a primitive freedom +that was passing out of general social life.<a name='6_FNanchor_132'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_132'><sup>[132]</sup></a> The typical example is +that recorded by Herodotus, in the fifth century before Christ, at the +temple of Mylitta, the Babylonian Venus, where every woman once in her +life had to come and give herself to the first stranger who threw a coin +in her lap, in worship of the goddess. The money could not be refused, +however small the amount, but it was given as an offertory to the temple, +and the woman, having followed the man and thus made oblation to Mylitta, +returned home and lived chastely ever afterwards.<a name='6_FNanchor_133'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_133'><sup>[133]</sup></a> Very similar +customs existed in other parts of Western Asia, in North Africa, in Cyprus +and other islands of the Eastern Mediterranean, and also in Greece, where +the Temple of Aphrodite on the fort at Corinth possessed over a thousand +hierodules, dedicated to the service of the goddess, from time to time, as +Strabo states, by those who desired to make thank-offering for mercies +vouchsafed to them. Pindar refers to the hospitable young Corinthian women +ministrants whose thoughts often turn towards Ourania<a name='6_Page_230'></a> Aphrodite<a name='6_FNanchor_134'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_134'><sup>[134]</sup></a> in +whose temple they burned incense; and Athenæus mentions the importance +that was attached to the prayers of the Corinthian prostitutes in any +national calamity.<a name='6_FNanchor_135'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_135'><sup>[135]</sup></a></p> + +<p>We seem here to be in the presence, not merely of a religiously preserved +survival of a greater sexual freedom formerly existing,<a name='6_FNanchor_136'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_136'><sup>[136]</sup></a> but of a +specialized and ritualized development of that primitive cult of the +generative forces of Nature which involves the belief that all natural +fruitfulness is associated with, and promoted by, acts of human sexual +intercourse which thus acquire a religious significance. At a later stage +acts of sexual intercourse having a religious significance become +specialized and localized in temples, and by a rational transition of +ideas it becomes believed that such acts of sexual intercourse in the +service of the god, or with persons devoted to the god's service, brought +benefits to the individual who performed them, more especially, if a +woman, by insuring her fertility. Among primitive peoples generally this +conception is embodied mainly in seasonal festivals, but among the peoples +of Western Asia who had ceased to be primitive, and among whom traditional +priestly and hieratic influences had acquired very great influence, the +earlier <a name='6_Page_231'></a>generative cult had thus, it seems probable, naturally changed +its form in becoming attached to the temples.<a name='6_FNanchor_137'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_137'><sup>[137]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The theory that religious prostitution developed, as a general + rule, out of the belief that the generative activity of human + beings possessed a mysterious and sacred influence in promoting + the fertility of Nature generally seems to have been first set + forth by Mannhardt in his <i>Antike Wald- und Feldkulte</i> (pp. 283 + <i>et seq.</i>). It is supported by Dr. F. S. Krauss + ("Beischlafausübung als Kulthandlung," <i>Anthropophyteia</i>, vol. + iii, p. 20), who refers to the significant fact that in Baruch's + time, at a period long anterior to Herodotus, sacred prostitution + took place under the trees. Dr. J. G. Frazer has more especially + developed this conception of the origin of sacred prostitution in + his <i>Adonis, Attis, Osiris</i>. He thus summarizes his lengthy + discussion: "We may conclude that a great Mother Goddess, the + personification of all the reproductive energies of nature, was + worshipped under different names, but with a substantial + similarity of myth and ritual by many peoples of western Asia; + that associated with her was a lover, or rather series of lovers, + divine yet mortal, with whom she mated year by year, their + commerce being deemed essential to the propagation of animals and + plants, each in their several kind; and further, that the + fabulous union of the divine pair was simulated, and, as it were, + multiplied on earth by the real, though temporary, union of the + human sexes at the sanctuary of the goddess for the sake of + thereby ensuring the fruitfulness of the ground and the increase + of man and beast. In course of time, as the institution of + individual marriage grew in favor, and the old communism fell + more and more into discredit, the revival of the ancient + practice, even for a single occasion in a woman's life, became + ever more repugnant to the moral sense of the people, and + accordingly they resorted to various expedients for evading in + practice the obligation which they still acknowledged in + theory.... But while the majority of women thus contrived to + observe the form of religion without sacrificing their virtue, it + was still thought necessary to the general welfare that a certain + number of them should discharge the old obligation in the old + way. These became prostitutes, either for life or for a term of + years, at one of the temples: dedicated to the service of + religion, they were invested with a sacred <a name='6_Page_232'></a>character, and their + vocation, far from being deemed infamous, was probably long + regarded by the laity as an exercise of more than common virtue, + and rewarded with a tribute of mixed wonder, reverence, and pity, + not unlike that which in some parts of the world is still paid to + women who seek to honor their Creator in a different way by + renouncing the natural functions of their sex and the tenderest + relations of humanity" (J. G. Frazer, <i>Adonis, Attis, Osiris</i>, + 1907, pp. 23 <i>et seq.</i>).</p> + +<p> It is difficult to resist the conclusion that this theory + represents the central and primitive idea which led to the + development of sacred prostitution. It seems equally clear, + however, that as time went on, and especially as temple cults + developed and priestly influence increased, this fundamental and + primitive idea tended to become modified, and even transformed. + The primitive conception became specialized in the belief that + religious benefits, and especially the gift of fruitfulness, were + gained <i>by the worshipper</i>, who thus sought the goddess's favor + by an act of unchastity which might be presumed to be agreeable + to an unchaste deity. The rite of Mylitta, as described by + Herodotus, was a late development of this kind in an ancient + civilization, and the benefit sought was evidently for the + worshipper herself. This has been pointed out by Dr. Westermarck, + who remarks that the words spoken to the woman by her partner as + he gives her the coin—"May the goddess be auspicious to + thee!"—themselves indicate that the object of the act was to + insure her fertility, and he refers also to the fact that + strangers frequently had a semi-supernatural character, and their + benefits a specially efficacious character (Westermarck, <i>Origin + and Development of the Moral Ideas</i>, vol. ii, p. 446). It may be + added that the rite of Mylitta thus became analogous with another + Mediterranean rite, in which the act of simulating intercourse + with the representative of a god, or his image, ensured a woman's + fertility. This is the rite practiced by the Egyptians of Mendes, + in which a woman went through the ceremony of simulated + intercourse with the sacred goat, regarded as the representative + of a deity of Pan-like character (Herodotus, Bk. ii, Ch. XLVI; + and see Dulaure, <i>Des Divinités Génératrices</i>, Ch. II; <i>cf.</i> vol. + v of these <i>Studies</i>, "Erotic Symbolism," Sect. IV). This rite + was maintained by Roman women, in connection with the statues of + Priapus, to a very much later date, and St. Augustine mentions + how Roman matrons placed the young bride on the erect member of + Priapus (<i>De Civitate Dei</i>, Bk. iii, Ch. IX). The idea evidently + running through this whole group of phenomena is that the deity, + or the representative or even mere image of the deity, is able, + through a real or simulated act of intercourse, to confer on the + worshipper a portion of its own exalted generative activity.</p></div> + +<p>At a later period, in Corinth, prostitutes were still the priestesses of +Venus, more or less loosely attached to her <a name='6_Page_233'></a>temples, and so long as that +was the case they enjoyed a considerable degree of esteem. At this stage, +however, we realize that religious prostitution was developing a +utilitarian side. These temples flourished chiefly in sea-coast towns, in +islands, in large cities to which many strangers and sailors came. The +priestesses of Cyprus burnt incense on her altars and invoked her sacred +aid, but at the same time Pindar addresses them as "young girls who +welcome all strangers and give them hospitality." Side by side with the +religious significance of the act of generation the needs of men far from +home were already beginning to be definitely recognized. The Babylonian +woman had gone to the temple of Mylitta to fulfil a personal religious +duty; the Corinthian priestess had begun to act as an avowed minister to +the sexual needs of men in strange cities.</p> + +<p>The custom which Herodotus noted in Lydia of young girls prostituting +themselves in order to acquire a marriage portion which they may dispose +of as they think fit (Bk. I, Ch. 93) may very well have developed (as +Frazer also believes) out of religious prostitution; we can indeed trace +its evolution in Cyprus where eventually, at the period when Justinian +visited the island, the money given by strangers to the women was no +longer placed on the altar but put into a chest to form marriage-portions +for them. It is a custom to be found in Japan and various other parts of +the world, notably among the Ouled-Nail of Algeria,<a name='6_FNanchor_138'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_138'><sup>[138]</sup></a> and is not +necessarily always based on religious prostitution; but it obviously +cannot exist except among peoples who see nothing very derogatory in free +sexual intercourse for the purpose of obtaining money, so that the custom +of Mylitta furnished a natural basis for it.<a name='6_FNanchor_139'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_139'><sup>[139]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_234'></a> +<p>As a more spiritual conception of religion developed, and as the growth of +civilization tended to deprive sexual intercourse of its sacred halo, +religious prostitution in Greece was slowly abolished, though on the +coasts of Asia Minor both religious prostitution and prostitution for the +purpose of obtaining a marriage portion persisted to the time of +Constantine, who put an end to these ancient customs.<a name='6_FNanchor_140'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_140'><sup>[140]</sup></a> Superstition +was on the side of the old religious prostitution; it was believed that +women who had never sacrificed to Aphrodite became consumed by lust, and +according to the legend recorded by Ovid—a legend which seems to point to +a certain antagonism between sacred and secular prostitution—this was the +case with the women who first became public prostitutes. The decay of +religious prostitution, doubtless combined with the cravings always born +of the growth of civilization, led up to the first establishment, +attributed by legend to Solon, of a public brothel, a purely secular +establishment for a purely secular end: the safeguarding of the virtue of +the general population and the increase of the public revenue. With that +institution the evolution of prostitution, and of the modern marriage +system of which it forms part, was completed. The Athenian <i>dikterion</i> is +the modern brothel; the <i>dikteriade</i> is the modern state-regulated +prostitute. The free <i>hetairæ</i>, indeed, subsequently arose, educated women +having no taint of the <i>dikterion</i>, but they likewise had no official part +in public worship.<a name='6_FNanchor_141'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_141'><sup>[141]</sup></a> The primitive conception of the sanctity of sexual +intercourse in the divine service had been utterly lost.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>A fairly typical example of the conditions existing among savages + is to be found in the South Sea Island of Rotuma, where + "prostitution for money or gifts was quite unknown." Adultery + after marriage was <a name='6_Page_235'></a>also unknown. But there was great freedom in + the formation of sexual relationships before marriage (J. Stanley + Gardiner, <i>Journal Anthropological Institute</i>, February, 1898, p. + 409). Much the same is said of the Bantu Ba mbola of Africa (<i>op. + cit.</i>, July-December, 1905, p. 410).</p> + +<p> Among the early Cymri of Wales, representing a more advanced + social stage, prostitution appears to have been not absolutely + unknown, but public prostitution was punished by loss of valuable + privileges (R. B. Holt, "Marriage Laws and Customs of the Cymri," + <i>Journal Anthropological Institute</i>, August-November, 1898, pp. + 161-163).</p> + +<p> Prostitution was practically unknown in Burmah, and regarded as + shameful before the coming of the English and the example of the + modern Hindus. The missionaries have unintentionally, but + inevitably, favored the growth of prostitution by condemning free + unions (<i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, November, 1903, p. + 720). The English brought prostitution to India. "That was not + specially the fault of the English," said a Brahmin to Jules + Bois, "it is the crime of your civilization. We have never had + prostitutes. I mean by that horrible word the brutalized servants + of the gross desire of the passerby. We had, and we have, castes + of singers and dancers who are married to trees—yes, to + trees—by touching ceremonies which date from Vedic times; our + priests bless them and receive much money from them. They do not + refuse themselves to those who love them and please them. Kings + have made them rich. They represent all the arts; they are the + visible beauty of the universe" (Jules Bois, <i>Visions de l'Inde</i>, + p. 55).</p> + +<p> Religious prostitutes, it may be added, "the servants of the + god," are connected with temples in Southern India and the + Deccan. They are devoted to their sacred calling from their + earliest years, and it is their chief business to dance before + the image of the god, to whom they are married (though in Upper + India professional dancing girls are married to inanimate + objects), but they are also trained in arousing and assuaging the + desires of devotees who come on pilgrimage to the shrine. For the + betrothal rites by which, in India, sacred prostitutes are + consecrated, see, <i>e.g.</i>, A. Van Gennep, <i>Rites de Passage</i>, p. + 142.</p> + +<p> In many parts of Western Asia, where barbarism had reached a high + stage of development, prostitution was not unknown, though + usually disapproved. The Hebrews knew it, and the historical + Biblical references to prostitutes imply little reprobation. + Jephtha was the son of a prostitute, brought up with the + legitimate children, and the story of Tamar is instructive. But + the legal codes were extremely severe on Jewish maidens who + became prostitutes (the offense was quite tolerable in strange + women), while Hebrew moralists exercised their invectives against + prostitution; it is sufficient to refer to a well-known passage + in the Book of Proverbs (see art. "Harlot," by Cheyne, in the + <i>Encyclopædia Biblica</i>). Mahomed also severely condemned + prostitution, though somewhat <a name='6_Page_236'></a>more tolerant to it in slave + women; according to Haleby, however, prostitution was practically + unknown in Islam during the first centuries after the Prophet's + time.</p> + +<p> The Persian adherents of the somewhat ascetic <i>Zendavesta</i> also + knew prostitution, and regarded it with repulsion: "It is the + Gahi [the courtesan, as an incarnation of the female demon, + Gahi], O Spitama Zarathustra! who mixes in her the seed of the + faithful and the unfaithful, of the worshipper of Mazda and the + worshipper of the Dævas, of the wicked and the righteous. Her + look dries up one-third of the mighty floods that run from the + mountains, O Zarathustra; her look withers one-third of the + beautiful, golden-hued, growing plants, O Zarathustra; her look + withers one-third of the strength of Spenta Armaiti [the earth]; + and her touch withers in the faithful one-third of his good + thoughts, of his good words, of his good deeds, one-third of his + strength, of his victorious power, of his holiness. Verily I say + unto thee, O Spitama Zarathustra! such creatures ought to be + killed even more than gliding snakes, than howling wolves, than + the she-wolf that falls upon the fold, or than the she-frog that + falls upon the waters with her thousandfold brood" (<i>Zend-Avesta, + the Vendidad</i>, translated by James Darmesteter, Farfad XVIII).</p> + +<p> In practice, however, prostitution is well established in the + modern East. Thus in the Tartar-Turcoman region houses of + prostitution lying outside the paths frequented by Christians + have been described by a writer who appears to be well informed + ("Orientalische Prostitution," <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, + 1907, Bd. ii, Heft 1). These houses are not regarded as immoral + or forbidden, but as places in which the visitor will find a + woman who gives him for a few hours the illusion of being in his + own home, with the pleasure of enjoying her songs, dances, and + recitations, and finally her body. Payment is made at the door, + and no subsequent question of money arises; the visitor is + henceforth among friends, almost as if in his own family. He + treats the prostitute almost as if she were his wife, and no + indecorum or coarseness of speech occurs. "There is no obscenity + in the Oriental brothel." At the same time there is no artificial + pretence of innocence.</p> + +<p> In Eastern Asia, among the peoples of Mongolian stock, especially + in China, we find prostitution firmly established and organized + on a practical business basis. Prostitution is here accepted and + viewed with no serious disfavor, but the prostitute herself is, + nevertheless, treated with contempt. Young children are + frequently sold to be trained to a life of prostitution, educated + accordingly, and kept shut up from the world. Young widows + (remarriage being disapproved) frequently also slide into a life + of prostitution. Chinese prostitutes often end through opium and + the ravages of syphilis (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Coltman's <i>The Chinese</i>, + 1900, Ch. VII). In ancient China, it is said prostitutes were a + superior <a name='6_Page_237'></a>class and occupied a position somewhat similar to that + of the <i>hetairæ</i> in Greece. Even in modern China, however, where + they are very numerous, and the flower boats, in which in towns + by the sea they usually live, very luxurious, it is chiefly for + entertainment, according to some writers, that they are resorted + to. Tschang Ki Tong, military attaché in Paris (as quoted by + Ploss and Bartels), describes the flower boat as less analogous + to a European brothel than to a <i>café chantant</i>; the young + Chinaman comes here for music, for tea, for agreeable + conversation with the flower-maidens, who are by no means + necessarily called upon to minister to the lust of their + visitors.</p> + +<p> In Japan, the prostitute's lot is not so degraded as in China. + The greater refinement of Japanese civilization allows the + prostitute to retain a higher degree of self-respect. She is + sometimes regarded with pity, but less often with contempt. She + may associate openly with men, ultimately be married, even to men + of good social class, and rank as a respectable woman. "In riding + from Tokio to Yokohama, the past winter," Coltman observes (<i>op. + cit.</i>, p. 113), "I saw a party of four young men and three quite + pretty and gaily-painted prostitutes, in the same car, who were + having a glorious time. They had two or three bottles of various + liquors, oranges, and fancy cakes, and they ate, drank and sang, + besides playing jokes on each other and frolicking like so many + kittens. You may travel the whole length of the Chinese Empire + and never witness such a scene." Yet the history of Japanese + prostitutes (which has been written in an interesting and + well-informed book, <i>The Nightless City</i>, by an English student + of sociology who remains anonymous) shows that prostitution in + Japan has not only been severely regulated, but very widely + looked down upon, and that Japanese prostitutes have often had to + suffer greatly; they were at one time practically slaves and + often treated with much hardship. They are free now, and any + condition approaching slavery is strictly prohibited and guarded + against. It would seem, however, that the palmiest days of + Japanese prostitution lay some centuries back. Up to the middle + of the eighteenth century Japanese prostitutes were highly + accomplished in singing, dancing, music, etc. Towards this + period, however, they seem to have declined in social + consideration and to have ceased to be well educated. Yet even + to-day, says Matignon ("La Prostitution au Japon," <i>Archives + d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, October, 1906), less infamy attaches + to prostitution in Japan than in Europe, while at the same time + there is less immorality in Japan than in Europe. Though + prostitution is organized like the postal or telegraph service, + there is also much clandestine prostitution. The prostitution + quarters are clean, beautiful and well-kept, but the Japanese + prostitutes have lost much of their native good taste in costume + by trying to imitate European fashions. It was when prostitution + began to decline two centuries ago, that the geishas first + appeared and were <a name='6_Page_238'></a>organized in such a way that they should not, + if possible, compete as prostitutes with the recognized and + licensed inhabitants of the Yoshiwara, as the quarter is called + to which prostitutes are confined. The geishas, of course, are + not prostitutes, though their virtue may not always be + impregnable, and in social position they correspond to actresses + in Europe.</p> + +<p> In Korea, at all events before Korea fell into the hands of the + Japanese, it would seem that there was no distinction between the + class of dancing girls and prostitutes. "Among the courtesans," + Angus Hamilton states, "the mental abilities are trained and + developed with a view to making them brilliant and entertaining + companions. These 'leaves of sunlight' are called <i>gisaing</i>, and + correspond to the geishas of Japan. Officially, they are attached + to a department of government, and are controlled by a bureau of + their own, in common with the Court musicians. They are supported + from the national treasury, and they are in evidence at official + dinners and all palace entertainments. They read and recite; they + dance and sing; they become accomplished artists and musicians. + They dress with exceptional taste; they move with exceeding + grace; they are delicate in appearance, very frail and very + human, very tender, sympathetic, and imaginative." But though + they are certainly the prettiest women in Korea, move in the + highest society, and might become concubines of the Emperor, they + are not allowed to marry men of good class (Angus Hamilton, + <i>Korea</i>, p. 52).</p></div> + +<p>The history of European prostitution, as of so many other modern +institutions, may properly be said to begin in Rome. Here at the outset we +already find that inconsistently mixed attitude towards prostitution which +to-day is still preserved. In Greece it was in many respects different. +Greece was nearer to the days of religious prostitution, and the sincerity +and refinement of Greek civilization made it possible for the better kind +of prostitute to exert, and often be worthy to exert, an influence in all +departments of life which she has never been able to exercise since, +except perhaps occasionally, in a much slighter degree, in France. The +course, vigorous, practical Roman was quite ready to tolerate the +prostitute, but he was not prepared to carry that toleration to its +logical results; he never felt bound to harmonize inconsistent facts of +life. Cicero, a moralist of no mean order, without expressing approval of +prostitution, yet could not understand how anyone should wish to prohibit +youths from commerce <a name='6_Page_239'></a>with prostitutes, such severity being out of harmony +with all the customs of the past or the present.<a name='6_FNanchor_142'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_142'><sup>[142]</sup></a> But the superior +class of Roman prostitutes, the <i>bonæ mulieres</i>, had no such dignified +position as the Greek <i>hetairæ</i>. Their influence was indeed immense, but +it was confined, as it is in the case of their European successors to-day, +to fashions, customs, and arts. There was always a certain moral rigidity +in the Roman which prevented him from yielding far in this direction. He +encouraged brothels, but he only entered them with covered head and face +concealed in his cloak. In the same way, while he tolerated the +prostitute, beyond a certain point he sharply curtailed her privileges. +Not only was she deprived of all influence in the higher concerns of life, +but she might not even wear the <i>vitta</i> or the <i>stola</i>; she could indeed +go almost naked if she pleased, but she must not ape the emblems of the +respectable Roman matron.<a name='6_FNanchor_143'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_143'><sup>[143]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The rise of Christianity to political power produced on the whole less +change of policy than might have been anticipated. The Christian rulers +had to deal practically as best they might with a very mixed, turbulent, +and semi-pagan world. The leading fathers of the Church were inclined to +tolerate prostitution for the avoidance of greater evils, and Christian +emperors, like their pagan predecessors, were willing to derive a tax from +prostitution. The right of prostitution to exist was, however, no longer +so unquestionably recognized as in pagan days, and from time to time some +vigorous ruler sought to repress prostitution by severe enactments. The +younger Theodosius and Valentinian definitely ordained that there should +be no more brothels and that anyone giving shelter to a prostitute should +be punished. Justinian confirmed that measure and ordered that all panders +were to be exiled on pain of death. These enactments were quite vain. But +during a thousand years they were repeated again and again in various +parts of Europe, and invariably with the same fruitless or worse than +fruitless results. Theodoric, king of the<a name='6_Page_240'></a> Visigoths, punished with death +those who promoted prostitution, and Recared, a Catholic king of the same +people in the sixth century, prohibited prostitution altogether and +ordered that a prostitute, when found, should receive three hundred +strokes of the whip and be driven out of the city. Charlemagne, as well as +Genserich in Carthage, and later Frederick Barbarossa in Germany, made +severe laws against prostitution which were all of no effect, for even if +they seemed to be effective for the time the reaction was all the greater +afterwards.<a name='6_FNanchor_144'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_144'><sup>[144]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is in France that the most persistent efforts have been made to combat +prostitution. Most notable of all were the efforts of the King and Saint, +Louis IX. In 1254 St. Louis ordained that prostitutes should be driven out +altogether and deprived of all their money and goods, even to their +mantles and gowns. In 1256 he repeated this ordinance and in 1269, before +setting out for the Crusades, he ordered the destruction of all places of +prostitution. The repetition of those decrees shows how ineffectual they +were. They even made matters worse, for prostitutes were forced to mingle +with the general population and their influence was thus extended. St. +Louis was unable to put down prostitution even in his own camp in the +East, and it existed outside his own tent. His legislation, however, was +frequently imitated by subsequent rulers of France, even to the middle of +the seventeenth century, always with the same ineffectual and worse +results. In 1560 an edict of Charles IX abolished brothels, but the number +of prostitutes was thereby increased rather than diminished, while many +new kinds of brothels appeared in unsuspected shapes and were more +dangerous than the more recognized brothels which had been +suppressed.<a name='6_FNanchor_145'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_145'><sup>[145]</sup></a> In spite of all such legislation, or because of it, there +has been no country in which prostitution has played a more conspicuous +part.<a name='6_FNanchor_146'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_146'><sup>[146]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_241'></a> +<p>At Mantua, so great was the repulsion aroused by prostitutes that they +were compelled to buy in the markets any fruit or bread that had been +soiled by the mere touch of their hands. It was so also in Avignon in +1243. In Catalonia they could not sit at the same table as a lady or a +knight or kiss any honorable person.<a name='6_FNanchor_147'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_147'><sup>[147]</sup></a> Even in Venice, the paradise of +prostitution, numerous and severe regulations were passed against it, and +it was long before the Venetian rulers resigned themselves to its +toleration and regulation.<a name='6_FNanchor_148'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_148'><sup>[148]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The last vigorous attempt to uproot prostitution in Europe was that of +Maria Theresa at Vienna in the middle of the eighteenth century. Although +of such recent date it may be mentioned here because it was mediæval alike +in its conception and methods. Its object indeed, was to suppress not only +prostitution, but fornication generally, and the means adopted were fines, +imprisonment, whipping and torture. The supposed causes of fornication +were also dealt with severely; short dresses were prohibited; billiard +rooms and cafés were inspected; no waitresses were allowed, and when +discovered, a waitress was liable to be handcuffed and carried off by the +police. The Chastity Commission, under which these measures were +rigorously carried out, was, apparently, established in 1751 and was +quietly abolished by the Emperor Joseph II, in the early years of his +reign. It was the general opinion that this severe legislation was really +ineffective, and that it caused much more serious evils than it +cured.<a name='6_FNanchor_149'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_149'><sup>[149]</sup></a> It is certain in any case that, for a long time <a name='6_Page_242'></a>past, +illegitimacy has been more prevalent in Vienna than in any other great +European capital.</p> + +<p>Yet the attitude towards prostitutes was always mixed and inconsistent at +different places or different times, or even at the same time and place. +Dufour has aptly compared their position to that of the mediæval Jews; +they were continually persecuted, ecclesiastically, civilly, and socially, +yet all classes were glad to have recourse to them and it was impossible +to do without them. In some countries, including England in the fourteenth +century, a special costume was imposed on prostitutes as a mark of +infamy.<a name='6_FNanchor_150'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_150'><sup>[150]</sup></a> Yet in many respects no infamy whatever attached to +prostitution. High placed officials could claim payment of their expenses +incurred in visiting prostitutes when traveling on public business. +Prostitution sometimes played an official part in festivities and +receptions accorded by great cities to royal guests, and the brothel might +form an important part of the city's hospitality. When the Emperor +Sigismund came to Ulm in 1434 the streets were illuminated at such times +as he or his suite desired to visit the common brothel. Brothels under +municipal protection are found in the thirteenth century in Augsburg, in +Vienna, in Hamburg.<a name='6_FNanchor_151'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_151'><sup>[151]</sup></a> In France the best known <i>abbayes</i> of prostitutes +were those of Toulouse and Montpellier.<a name='6_FNanchor_152'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_152'><sup>[152]</sup></a> Durkheim is of opinion that +in the early middle ages, before this period, free love and marriage were +less severely differentiated. It was the rise of the middle class, he +considers, anxious to protect their wives and daughters, which led to a +regulated and publicly recognized attempt to direct debauchery into a +separate channel, brought under control.<a name='6_FNanchor_153'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_153'><sup>[153]</sup></a> These brothels constituted a +kind of public service, the directors of them being regarded almost as +public officials, bound to keep a certain number of prostitutes, to charge +according to a fixed tariff, and not to receive into their houses girls +belonging to the neighborhood. The institutions of <a name='6_Page_243'></a>this kind lasted for +three centuries. It was, in part, perhaps, the impetus of the new +Protestant movement, but mainly the terrible devastation produced by the +introduction of syphilis from America at the end of the fifteenth century +which, as Burckhardt and others have pointed out, led to the decline of +the mediæval brothels.<a name='6_FNanchor_154'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_154'><sup>[154]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The superior modern prostitute, the "courtesan" who had no connection with +the brothel, seems to have been the outcome of the Renaissance and made +her appearance in Italy at the end of the fifteenth century. "Courtesan" +or "cortegiana" meant a lady following the court, and the term began at +this time to be applied to a superior prostitute observing a certain +degree of decorum and restraint.<a name='6_FNanchor_155'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_155'><sup>[155]</sup></a> In the papal court of Alexander +Borgia the courtesan flourished even when her conduct was not altogether +dignified. Burchard, the faithful and unimpeachable chronicler of this +court, describes in his diary how, one evening, in October, 1501, the Pope +sent for fifty courtesans to be brought to his chamber; after supper, in +the presence of Cæsar Borgia and his young sister Lucrezia, they danced +with the servitors and others who were present, at first clothed, +afterwards naked. The candlesticks with lighted candles were then placed +upon the floor and chestnuts thrown among them, to be gathered by the +women crawling between the candlesticks on their hands and feet. Finally a +number of prizes were brought forth to be awarded to those men "qui +pluries dictos meretrices carnaliter agnoscerent," the victor in the +contest being decided according to the judgment of the spectators.<a name='6_FNanchor_156'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_156'><sup>[156]</sup></a> +This scene, enacted publicly in the Apostolic <a name='6_Page_244'></a>palace and serenely set +forth by the impartial secretary, is at once a notable episode in the +history of modern prostitution and one of the most illuminating +illustrations we possess of the paganism of the Renaissance.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Before the term "courtesan" came into repute, prostitutes were + even in Italy commonly called "sinners," <i>peccatrice</i>. The + change, Graf remarks in a very interesting study of the + Renaissance prostitute ("Una Cortigiana fra Mille," <i>Attraverso + il Cinquecento</i>, pp. 217-351), "reveals a profound alteration in + ideas and in life;" a term that suggested infamy gave place to + one that suggested approval, and even honor, for the courts of + the Renaissance period represented the finest culture of the + time. The best of these courtesans seem to have been not + altogether unworthy of the honor they received. We can detect + this in their letters. There is a chapter on the letters of + Renaissance prostitutes, especially those of Camilla de Pisa + which are marked by genuine passion, in Lothar Schmidt's + <i>Frauenbriefe der Renaissance</i>. The famous Imperia, called by a + Pope in the early years of the sixteenth century "nobilissimum + Romæ scortum," knew Latin and could write Italian verse. Other + courtesans knew Italian and Latin poetry by heart, while they + were accomplished in music, dancing, and speech. We are reminded + of ancient Greece, and Graf, discussing how far the Renaissance + courtesans resembled the hetairæ, finds a very considerable + likeness, especially in culture and influence, though with some + differences due to the antagonism between religion and + prostitution at the later period.</p> + +<p> The most distinguished figure in every respect among the + courtesans of that time was certainly Tullia D'Aragona. She was + probably the daughter of Cardinal D'Aragona (an illegitimate + scion of the Spanish royal family) by a Ferrarese courtesan who + became his mistress. Tullia has gained a high reputation by her + verse. Her best sonnet is addressed to a youth of twenty, whom + she passionately loved, but who did not return her love. Her + <i>Guerrino Meschino</i>, a translation from the Spanish, is a very + pure and chaste work. She was a woman of refined instincts and + aspirations, and once at least she abandoned her life of + prostitution. She was held in high esteem and respect. When, in + 1546, Cosimo, Duke of Florence, ordered all prostitutes to wear a + yellow veil or handkerchief as a public badge of their + profession, Tullia appealed to the Duchess, a Spanish lady of + high character, and received permission to dispense with this + badge on account of her "rara scienzia di poesia et filosofia." + She dedicated her <i>Rime</i> to the Duchess. Tullia D'Aragona was + very beautiful, with yellow hair, and remarkably large and bright + eyes, which dominated those who came near her. She was of proud + bearing and inspired unusual respect (G. Biagi, "Un' Etera + Romana,"<a name='6_Page_245'></a> <i>Nuova Antologia</i>, vol. iv, 1886, pp. 655-711; S. + Bongi, <i>Rivista critica della Letteratura Italiana</i>, 1886, IV, p. + 186).</p> + +<p> Tullia D'Aragona was clearly not a courtesan at heart. Perhaps + the most typical example of the Renaissance courtesan at her best + is furnished by Veronica Franco, born in 1546 at Venice, of + middle class family and in early life married to a doctor. Of her + also it has been said that, while by profession a prostitute, she + was by inclination a poet. But she appears to have been well + content with her profession, and never ashamed of it. Her life + and character have been studied by Arturo Graf, and more slightly + in a little book by Tassini. She was highly cultured, and knew + several languages; she also sang well and played on many + instruments. In one of her letters she advises a youth who was + madly in love with her that if he wishes to obtain her favors he + must leave off importuning her and devote himself tranquilly to + study. "You know well," she adds, "that all those who claim to be + able to gain my love, and who are extremely dear to me, are + strenuous in studious discipline.... If my fortune allowed it I + would spend all my time quietly in the academies of virtuous + men." The Diotimas and Aspasias of antiquity, as Graf comments, + would not have demanded so much of their lovers. In her poems it + is possible to trace some of her love histories, and she often + shows herself torn by jealousy at the thought that perhaps + another woman may approach her beloved. Once she fell in love + with an ecclesiastic, possibly a bishop, with whom she had no + relationships, and after a long absence, which healed her love, + she and he became sincere friends. Once she was visited by Henry + III of France, who took away her portrait, while on her part she + promised to dedicate a book to him; she so far fulfilled this as + to address some sonnets to him and a letter; "neither did the + King feel ashamed of his intimacy with the courtesan," remarks + Graf, "nor did she suspect that he would feel ashamed of it." + When Montaigne passed through Venice she sent him a little book + of hers, as we learn from his <i>Journal</i>, though they do not + appear to have met. Tintoret was one of her many distinguished + friends, and she was a strenuous advocate of the high qualities + of modern, as compared with ancient, art. Her friendships were + affectionate, and she even seems to have had various grand ladies + among her friends. She was, however, so far from being ashamed of + her profession of courtesan that in one of her poems she affirms + she has been taught by Apollo other arts besides those he is + usually regarded as teaching:</p></div> + +<div class='poem'><div class='stanza'> +<span class='i5'>"Cosi dolce e gustevole divento,<br /></span> +<span class='i5'>Quando mi trovo con persona in letto<br /></span> +<span class='i5'>Da cui amata e gradita mi sento."<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In a certain <i>catalogo</i> of the prices of Venetian courtesans + Veronica is assigned only 2 scudi for her favors, while the + courtesan to whom the <a name='6_Page_246'></a>catalogue is dedicated is set down at 25 + scudi. Graf thinks there may be some mistake or malice here, and + an Italian gentleman of the time states that she required not + less than 50 scudi from those to whom she was willing to accord + what Montaigne called the "negotiation entière."</p> + +<p> In regard to this matter it may be mentioned that, as stated by + Bandello, it was the custom for a Venetian prostitute to have six + or seven gentlemen at a time as her lovers. Each was entitled to + come to sup and sleep with her on one night of the week, leaving + her days free. They paid her so much per month, but she always + definitely reserved the right to receive a stranger passing + through Venice, if she wished, changing the time of her + appointment with her lover for the night. The high and special + prices which we find recorded are, of course, those demanded from + the casual distinguished stranger who came to Venice as, once in + the sixteenth century, Montaigne came.</p> + +<p> In 1580 (when not more than thirty-four) Veronica confessed to + the Holy Office that she had had six children. In the same year + she formed the design of founding a home, which should not be a + monastery, where prostitutes who wished to abandon their mode of + life could find a refuge with their children, if they had any. + This seems to have led to the establishment of a Casa del + Soccorso. In 1591 she died of fever, reconciled with God and + blessed by many unfortunates. She had a good heart and a sound + intellect, and was the last of the great Renaissance courtesans + who revived Greek hetairism (Graf, <i>Attraverso il Cinquecento</i>, + pp. 217-351). Even in sixteenth century Venice, however, it will + be seen, Veronica Franco seems to have been not altogether at + peace in the career of a courtesan. She was clearly not adapted + for ordinary marriage, yet under the most favorable conditions + that the modern world has ever offered it may still be doubted + whether a prostitute's career can offer complete satisfaction to + a woman of large heart and brain.</p> + +<p> Ninon de Lenclos, who is frequently called "the last of the great + courtesans," may seem an exception to the general rule as to the + inability of a woman of good heart, high character, and fine + intelligence to find satisfaction in a prostitute's life. But it + is a total misconception alike of Ninon de Lenclos's temperament + and her career to regard her as in any true sense a prostitute at + all. A knowledge of even the barest outlines of her life ought to + prevent such a mistake. Born early in the seventeenth century, + she was of good family on both sides; her mother was a woman of + severe life, but her father, a gentleman of Touraine, inspired + her with his own Epicurean philosophy as well as his love of + music. She was extremely well educated. At the age of sixteen or + seventeen she had her first lover, the noble and valiant Gaspard + de Coligny; he was followed for half a century by a long + succession of other lovers, sometimes more than one at a time; + three years was the longest period during which she was faithful + to one lover. Her attractions <a name='6_Page_247'></a>lasted so long that, it is said, + three generations of Sévignés were among her lovers. Tallemant + des Réaux enables us to study in detail her <i>liaisons</i>.</p> + +<p> It is not, however, the abundance of lovers which makes a woman a + prostitute, but the nature of her relationships with them. + Sainte-Beuve, in an otherwise admirable study of Ninon de Lenclos + (<i>Causeries du Lundi</i>, vol. iv), seems to reckon her among the + courtesans. But no woman is a prostitute unless she uses men as a + source of pecuniary gain. Not only is there no evidence that this + was the case with Ninon, but all the evidence excludes such a + relationship. "It required much skill," said Voltaire, "and a + great deal of love on her part, to induce her to accept + presents." Tallemant, indeed, says that she sometimes took money + from her lovers, but this statement probably involves nothing + beyond what is contained in Voltaire's remark, and, in any case, + Tallemant's gossip, though usually well-informed, was not always + reliable. All are agreed as to her extreme disinterestedness.</p> + +<p> When we hear precisely of Ninon de Lenclos in connection with + money, it is not as receiving a gift, but only as repaying a debt + to an old lover, or restoring a large sum left with her for safe + keeping when the owner was exiled. Such incidents are far from + suggesting the professional prostitute of any age; they are + rather the relationships which might exist between men friends. + Ninon de Lenclos's character was in many respects far from + perfect, but she combined many masculine virtues, and especially + probity, with a temperament which, on the whole, was certainly + feminine; she hated hypocrisy, and she was never influenced by + pecuniary considerations. She was, moreover, never reckless, but + always retained a certain self-restraint and temperance, even in + eating and drinking, and, we are told, she never drank wine. She + was, as Sainte-Beuve has remarked, the first to realize that + there must be the same virtues for men and for women, and that it + is absurd to reduce all feminine virtues to one. "Our sex has + been burdened with all the frivolities," she wrote, "and men have + reserved to themselves the essential qualities: I have made + myself a man." She sometimes dressed as a man when riding (see, + <i>e.g.</i>, <i>Correspondence Authentique</i> of Ninon de Lenclos, with a + good introduction by Emile Colombey). Consciously or not, she + represented a new feminine idea at a period when—as we may see + in many forgotten novels written by the women of that time—ideas + were beginning to emerge in the feminine sphere. She was the + first, and doubtless, from one point of view, the most extreme + representative of a small and distinguished group of French women + among whom Georges Sand is the finest personality.</p> + +<p> Thus it is idle to attempt to adorn the history of prostitution + with the name of Ninon de Lenclos. A debauched old prostitute + would never, like Ninon towards the end of her long life, have + been able to retain or <a name='6_Page_248'></a>to conquer the affection and the esteem + of many of the best men and women of her time; even to the + austere Saint-Simon it seemed that there reigned in her little + court a decorum which the greatest princesses cannot achieve. She + was not a prostitute, but a woman of unique personality with a + little streak of genius in it. That she was inimitable we need + not perhaps greatly regret. In her old age, in 1699, her old + friend and former lover, Saint-Evremond, wrote to her, with only + a little exaggeration, that there were few princesses and few + saints who would not leave their courts and their cloisters to + change places with her. "If I had known beforehand what my life + would be I would have hanged myself," was her oft-quoted answer. + It is, indeed, a solitary phrase that slips in, perhaps as the + expression of a momentary mood; one may make too much of it. More + truly characteristic is the fine saying in which her Epicurean + philosophy seems to stretch out towards Nietzsche: "La joie de + l'esprit en marque la force."</p></div> + +<p>The frank acceptance of prostitution by the spiritual or even the temporal +power has since the Renaissance become more and more exceptional. The +opposite extreme of attempting to uproot prostitution has also in practice +been altogether abandoned. Sporadic attempts have indeed been made, here +and there, to put down prostitution with a strong hand even in quite +modern times. It is now, however, realized that in such a case the remedy +is worse than the disease.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In 1860 a Mayor of Portsmouth felt it his duty to attempt to + suppress prostitution. "In the early part of his mayoralty," + according to a witness before the Select Committee on the + Contagious Diseases Acts (p. 393), "there was an order passed + that every beerhouse-keeper and licensed victualer in the borough + known to harbor these women would be dealt with, and probably + lose his license. On a given day about three hundred or four + hundred of these forlorn outcasts were bundled wholesale into the + streets, and they formed up in a large body, many of them with + only a shift and a petticoat on, and with a lot of drunken men + and boys with a fife and fiddle they paraded the streets for + several days. They marched in a body to the workhouse, but for + many reasons they were refused admittance.... These women + wandered about for two or three days shelterless, and it was felt + that the remedy was very much worse than the disease, and the + women were allowed to go back to their former places."</p> + +<p> Similar experiments have been made even more recently in America. + "In Pittsburg, Pennsylvania, in 1891, the houses of prostitutes + were <a name='6_Page_249'></a>closed, the inmates turned out upon the streets, and were + refused lodging and even food by the citizens of that place. A + wave of popular remonstrance, all over the country, at the + outrage on humanity, created a reaction which resulted in a last + condition by no means better than the first." In the same year + also a similar incident occurred in New York with the same + unfortunate results (Isidore Dyer, "The Municipal Control of + Prostitution in the United States," report presented to the + Brussels International Conference in 1899).</p></div> + +<p>There grew up instead the tendency to regulate prostitution, to give it a +semi-official toleration which enabled the authorities to exercise a +control over it, and to guard as far as possible against its evil by +medical and police inspection. The new brothel system differed from the +ancient mediæval houses of prostitution in important respects; it involved +a routine of medical inspection and it endeavored to suppress any rivalry +by unlicensed prostitutes outside. Bernard Mandeville, the author of the +<i>Fable of the Bees</i>, and an acute thinker, was a pioneer in the advocacy +of this system. In 1724, in his <i>Modest Defense of Publick Stews</i>, he +argues that "the encouraging of public whoring will not only prevent most +of the mischievous effects of this vice, but even lessen the quantity of +whoring in general, and reduce it to the narrowest bounds which it can +possibly be contained in." He proposed to discourage private prostitution +by giving special privileges and immunities to brothels by Act of +Parliament. His scheme involved the erection of one hundred brothels in a +special quarter of the city, to contain two thousand prostitutes and one +hundred matrons of ability and experience with physicians and surgeons, as +well as commissioners to oversee the whole. Mandeville was regarded merely +as a cynic or worse, and his scheme was ignored or treated with contempt. +It was left to the genius of Napoleon, eighty years later, to establish +the system of "maisons de tolérance," which had so great an influence over +modern European practice during a large part of the last century and even +still in its numerous survivals forms the subject of widely divergent +opinions.</p> + +<p>On the whole, however, it must be said that the system of registering, +examining, and regularizing prostitutes now belongs <a name='6_Page_250'></a>to the past. Many +great battles have been fought over this question; the most important is +that which raged for many years in England over the Contagious Diseases +Acts, and is embodied in the 600 pages of a Report by a Select Committee +on these Acts issued in 1882. The majority of the members of the Committee +reported favorably to the Acts which were, notwithstanding, repealed in +1886, since which date no serious attempt has been made in England to +establish them again.</p> + +<p>At the present time, although the old system still stands in many +countries with the inert stolidity of established institutions, it no +longer commands general approval. As Paul and Victor Margueritte have +truly stated, in the course of an acute examination of the phenomena of +state-regulated prostitution as found in Paris, the system is "barbarous +to start with and almost inefficacious as well." The expert is every day +more clearly demonstrating its inefficacy while the psychologist and the +sociologist are constantly becoming more convinced that it is barbarous.</p> + +<p>It can indeed by no means be said that any unanimity has been attained. It +is obviously so urgently necessary to combat the flood of disease and +misery which proceeds directly from the spread of syphilis and gonorrhœa, +and indirectly from the prostitution which is the chief propagator +of these diseases, that we cannot be surprised that many should eagerly +catch at any system which seems to promise a palliation of the evils. At +the present time, however, it is those best acquainted with the operation +of the system of control who have most clearly realized that the supposed +palliation is for the most part illusory,<a name='6_FNanchor_157'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_157'><sup>[157]</sup></a> and in any case attained at +the cost of the artificial production of other evils. In France, where the +system of the registration and control of <a name='6_Page_251'></a>prostitutes has been +established for over a century,<a name='6_FNanchor_158'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_158'><sup>[158]</sup></a> and where consequently its +advantages, if such there are, should be clearly realized, it meets with +almost impassioned opposition from able men belonging to every section of +the community. In Germany the opposition to regularized control has long +been led by well-equipped experts, headed by Blaschko of Berlin. Precisely +the same conclusions are being reached in America. Gottheil, of New York, +finds that the municipal control of prostitution is "neither successful +nor desirable." Heidingsfeld concludes that the regulation and control +system in force in Cincinnati has done little good and much harm; under +the system among the private patients in his own clinic the proportion of +cases of both syphilis and gonorrhœa has increased; "suppression +of prostitutes is impossible and control is impracticable."<a name='6_FNanchor_159'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_159'><sup>[159]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is in Germany that the attempt to regulate prostitution still + remains most persistent, with results that in Germany itself are + regarded as unfortunate. Thus the German law inflicts a penalty + on householders who permit illegitimate sexual intercourse in + their houses. This is meant to strike the unlicensed prostitute, + but it really encourages prostitution, for a decent youth and + girl who decide to form a relationship which later may develop + into marriage, and which is not illegal (for extra-marital sexual + intercourse <i>per se</i> is not in Germany, as it is by the + antiquated laws of several American States, a punishable + offense), are subjected to so much trouble and annoyance by the + suspicious police that it is much easier for the girl to become a + prostitute and put herself under the protection of the police. + The law was largely directed against those who live on the + profits of prostitution. But in practice it works out + differently. The prostitute simply has to pay extravagantly high + rents, so that her landlord really lives on the fruits of her + trade, while she has to carry on her business with increased + activity and on a larger scale in order to cover her heavy + expenses (P. Hausmeister, "Zur Analyse der Prostitution," + <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, vol. ii, 1907, p. 294).</p> + +<p> In Italy, opinion on this matter is much divided. The regulation + of prostitution has been successively adopted, abandoned, and + readopted. In Switzerland, the land of governmental experiments, + various plans are <a name='6_Page_252'></a>tried in different cantons. In some there is + no attempt to interfere with prostitution, except under special + circumstances; in others all prostitution, and even fornication + generally, is punishable; in Geneva only native prostitutes are + permitted to practice; in Zurich, since 1897, prostitution is + prohibited, but care is taken to put no difficulties in the path + of free sexual relationships which are not for gain. With these + different regulations, morals in Switzerland generally are said + to be much on the same level as elsewhere (Moreau-Christophe, <i>Du + Problème de la Misère</i>, vol. iii, p. 259). The same conclusion + holds good of London. A disinterested observer, Félix Remo (<i>La + Vie Galante en Angleterre</i>, 1888, p. 237), concluded that, + notwithstanding its free trade in prostitution, its alcoholic + excesses, its vices of all kinds, "London is one of the most + moral capitals in Europe." The movement towards freedom in this + matter has been evidenced in recent years by the abandonment of + the system of regulation by Denmark in 1906.</p></div> + +<p>Even the most ardent advocates of the registration of prostitutes +recognize that not only is the tendency of civilization opposed rather +than favorable to the system, but that in the numerous countries where the +system persists registered prostitutes are losing ground in the struggle +against clandestine prostitutes. Even in France, the classic land of +police-controlled prostitutes, the "maisons de tolérance" have long been +steadily decreasing in number, by no means because prostitution is +decreasing but because low-class <i>brasseries</i> and small <i>cafés-chantants</i>, +which are really unlicensed brothels, are taking their place.<a name='6_FNanchor_160'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_160'><sup>[160]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The wholesale regularization of prostitution in civilized centres is +nowadays, indeed, advocated by few, if any, of the authorities who belong +to the newer school. It is at most claimed as desirable in certain places +under special circumstances.<a name='6_FNanchor_161'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_161'><sup>[161]</sup></a> Even those who would still be glad to +see prostitution thoroughly <a name='6_Page_253'></a>in the control of the police now recognize +that experience shows this to be impossible. As many girls begin their +career as prostitutes at a very early age, a sound system of regulation +should be prepared to enroll as permanent prostitutes even girls who are +little more than children. That, however, is a logical conclusion against +which the moral sense, and even the common sense, of a community +instinctively revolts. In Paris girls may not be inscribed as prostitutes +until they have reached the age of sixteen and some consider even that age +too low.<a name='6_FNanchor_162'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_162'><sup>[162]</sup></a> Moreover, whenever she becomes diseased, or grows tired of +her position, the registered woman may always slip out of the hands of the +police and establish herself elsewhere as a clandestine prostitute. Every +rigid attempt to keep prostitution within the police ring leads to +offensive interference with the actions and the freedom of respectable +women which cannot fail to be intolerable in any free community. Even in a +city like London, where prostitution is relatively free, the supervision +of the police has led to scandalous police charges against women who have +done nothing whatever which should legitimately arouse suspicion of their +behavior. The escape of the infected woman from the police cordon has, it +is obvious, an effect in raising the apparent level of health of +registered women, and the police statistics are still further fallaciously +improved by the fact that the inmates of brothels are older on the average +than clandestine prostitutes and have become immune to disease.<a name='6_FNanchor_163'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_163'><sup>[163]</sup></a> These +facts are now becoming fairly obvious and well recognized. The state +regulation of prostitution <a name='6_Page_254'></a>is undesirable, on moral grounds for the +oft-emphasized reason that it is only applied to one sex, and on practical +grounds because it is ineffective. Society allows the police to harass the +prostitute with petty persecutions under the guise of charges of +"solicitation," "disorderly conduct," etc., but it is no longer convinced +that she ought to be under the absolute control of the police.</p> + +<p>The problem of prostitution, when we look at it narrowly, seems to be in +the same position to-day as at any time in the course of the past three +thousand years. In order, however, to comprehend the real significance of +prostitution, and to attain a reasonable attitude towards it, we must look +at it from a broader point of view; we must consider not only its +evolution and history, but its causes and its relation to the wider +aspects of modern social life. When we thus view the problem from a +broader standpoint we shall find that there is no conflict between the +claims of ethics and those of social hygiene, and that the coördinated +activity of both is involved in the progressive refinement and +purification of civilized sexual relationships.</p> +<br /> +<hr /> + +<a name='6_III'></a><h4>III. The Causes of Prostitution.</h4> + +<p>The history of the rise and development of prostitution enables us to see +that prostitution is not an accident of our marriage system, but an +essential constituent which appears concurrently with its other essential +constituents. The gradual development of the family on a patriarchal and +largely monogamic basis rendered it more and more difficult for a woman to +dispose of her own person. She belongs in the first place to her father, +whose interest it was to guard her carefully until a husband appeared who +could afford to purchase her. In the enhancement of her value the new idea +of the market value of virginity gradually developed, and where a "virgin" +had previously meant a woman who was free to do as she would with her own +body its meaning was now reversed and it came to mean a woman who was +precluded from having intercourse with men. When she was transferred from +her father to a husband, she <a name='6_Page_255'></a>was still guarded with the same care; +husband and father alike found their interest in preserving their women +from unmarried men. The situation thus produced resulted in the existence +of a large body of young men who were not yet rich enough to obtain wives, +and a large number of young women, not yet chosen as wives, and many of +whom could never expect to become wives. At such a point in social +evolution prostitution is clearly inevitable; it is not so much the +indispensable concomitant of marriage as an essential part of the whole +system. Some of the superfluous or neglected women, utilizing their money +value and perhaps at the same time reviving traditions of an earlier +freedom, find their social function in selling their favors to gratify the +temporary desires of the men who have not yet been able to acquire wives. +Thus every link in the chain of the marriage system is firmly welded and +the complete circle formed.</p> + +<p>But while the history of the rise and development of prostitution shows us +how indestructible and essential an element prostitution is of the +marriage system which has long prevailed in Europe—under very varied +racial, political, social, and religious conditions—it yet fails to +supply us in every respect with the data necessary to reach a definite +attitude towards prostitution to-day. In order to understand the place of +prostitution in our existing system, it is necessary that we should +analyze the chief factors of prostitution. We may most conveniently learn +to understand these if we consider prostitution, in order, under four +aspects. These are: (1) <i>economic</i> necessity; (2) <i>biological</i> +predisposition; (3) <i>moral</i> advantages; and (4) what may be called its +<i>civilizational</i> value.</p> + +<p>While these four factors of prostitution seem to me those that here +chiefly concern us, it is scarcely necessary to point out that many other +causes contribute to produce and modify prostitution. Prostitutes +themselves often seek to lead other girls to adopt the same paths; +recruits must be found for brothels, whence we have the "white slave +trade," which is now being energetically combated in many parts of the +world; while all the forms of seduction towards this life are favored and +often predisposed to by alcoholism. It will generally be found that +several <a name='6_Page_256'></a>causes have combined to push a girl into the career of +prostitution.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The ways in which various factors of environment and suggestion + unite to lead a girl into the paths of prostitution are indicated + in the following statement in which a correspondent has set forth + his own conclusions on this matter as a man of the world: "I have + had a somewhat varied experience among loose women, and can say, + without hesitation, that not more than 1 per cent, of the women I + have known could be regarded as educated. This indicates that + almost invariably they are of humble origin, and the terrible + cases of overcrowding that are daily brought to light suggest + that at very early ages the sense of modesty becomes extinct, and + long before puberty a familiarity with things sexual takes place. + As soon as they are old enough these girls are seduced by their + sweethearts; the familiarity with which they regard sexual + matters removes the restraint which surrounds a girl whose early + life has been spent in decent surroundings. Later they go to work + in factories and shops; if pretty and attractive, they consort + with managers and foremen. Then the love of finery, which forms + so large a part of the feminine character, tempts the girl to + become the 'kept' woman of some man of means. A remarkable thing + in this connection is the fact that they rarely enjoy excitement + with their protectors, preferring rather the coarser embraces of + some man nearer their own station in life, very often a soldier. + I have not known many women who were seduced and deserted, though + this is a fiction much affected by prostitutes. Barmaids supply a + considerable number to the ranks of prostitution, largely on + account of their addiction to drink; drunkenness invariably leads + to laxness of moral restraint in women. Another potent factor in + the production of prostitutes lies in the flare of finery + flaunted by some friend who has adopted the life. A girl, working + hard to live, sees some friend, perhaps making a call in the + street where the hard-working girl lives, clothed in finery, + while she herself can hardly get enough to eat. She has a + conversation with her finely-clad friend who tells her how easily + she can earn money, explaining what a vital asset the sexual + organs are, and soon another one is added to the ranks."</p> + +<p> There is some interest in considering the reasons assigned for + prostitutes entering their career. In some countries this has + been estimated by those who come closely into official or other + contact with prostitutes. In other countries, it is the rule for + girls, before they are registered as prostitutes, to state the + reasons for which they desire to enter the career.</p> + +<p> Parent-Duchâtelet, whose work on prostitutes in Paris is still an + authority, presented the first estimate of this kind. He found + that of over five thousand prostitutes, 1441 were influenced by + poverty, 1425 by <a name='6_Page_257'></a>seduction of lovers who had abandoned them, + 1255 by the loss of parents from death or other cause. By such an + estimate, nearly the whole number are accounted for by + wretchedness, that is by economic causes, alone + (Parent-Duchâtelet, <i>De la Prostitution</i>, 1857, vol. i, p. 107).</p> + +<p> In Brussels during a period of twenty years (1865-1884) 3505 + women were inscribed as prostitutes. The causes they assigned for + desiring to take to this career present a different picture from + that shown by Parent-Duchâtelet, but perhaps a more reliable one, + although there are some marked and curious discrepancies. Out of + the 3505, 1523 explained that extreme poverty was the cause of + their degradation; 1118 frankly confessed that their sexual + passions were the cause; 420 attributed their fall to evil + company; 316 said they were disgusted and weary of their work, + because the toil was so arduous and the pay so small; 101 had + been abandoned by their lovers; 10 had quarrelled with their + parents; 7 were abandoned by their husbands; 4 did not agree with + their guardians; 3 had family quarrels; 2 were compelled to + prostitute themselves by their husbands, and 1 by her parents + (<i>Lancet</i>, June 28, 1890, p. 1442).</p> + +<p> In London, Merrick found that of 16,022 prostitutes who passed + through his hands during the years he was chaplain at Millbank + prison, 5061 voluntarily left home or situation for "a life of + pleasure;" 3363 assigned poverty as the cause; 3154 were + "seduced" and drifted on to the street; 1636 were betrayed by + promises of marriage and abandoned by lover and relations. On the + whole, Merrick states, 4790, or nearly one-third of the whole + number, may be said to owe the adoption of their career directly + to men, 11,232 to other causes. He adds that of those pleading + poverty a large number were indolent and incapable (G. P. Merrick, + <i>Work Among the Fallen</i>, p. 38).</p> + +<p> Logan, an English city missionary with an extensive acquaintance + with prostitutes, divided them into the following groups: (1) + One-fourth of the girls are servants, especially in public + houses, beer shops, etc., and thus led into the life; (2) + one-fourth come from factories, etc.; (3) nearly one-fourth are + recruited by procuresses who visit country towns, markets, etc.; + (4) a final group includes, on the one hand, those who are + induced to become prostitutes by destitution, or indolence, or a + bad temper, which unfits them for ordinary avocations, and, on + the other hand, those who have been seduced by a false promise of + marriage (W. Logan, <i>The Great Social Evil</i>, 1871, p. 53).</p> + +<p> In America Sanger has reported the results of inquiries made of + two thousand New York prostitutes as to the causes which induced + them to take up their avocation:</p></div><a name='6_Page_258'></a> + +<pre> + Destitution 525 + Inclination 513 + Seduced and abandoned 258 + Drink and desire for drink 181 + Ill-treatment by parents, relations, or husbands 164 + As an easy life 124 + Bad company 84 + Persuaded by prostitutes 71 + Too idle to work 29 + Violated 27 + Seduced on emigrant ship 16 + Seduced in emigrant boarding homes 8 + ----- + 2,000</pre> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>(Sanger, <i>History of Prostitution</i>, p. 488.) + +<p> In America, again, more recently, Professor Woods Hutchinson put + himself into communication with some thirty representative men in + various great metropolitan centres, and thus summarizes the + answers as regards the etiology of prostitution:</p></div> + +<pre> + Per cent. + + Love of display, luxury and idleness 42.1 + Bad family surroundings 23.8 + Seduction in which they were innocent victims 11.3 + Lack of employment 9.4 + Heredity 7.8 + Primary sexual appetite 5.6</pre> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>(Woods Hutchinson, "The Economics of Prostitution," <i>American + Gynæcologic and Obstetric Journal</i>, September, 1895; <i>Id., The + Gospel According to Darwin</i>, p. 194.)</p> + +<p> In Italy, in 1881, among 10,422 inscribed prostitutes from the + age of seventeen upwards, the causes of prostitution were + classified as follows:</p></div> + +<pre> + Vice and depravity 2,752 + Death of parents, husband, etc. 2,139 + Seduction by lover 1,653 + Seduction by employer 927 + Abandoned by parents, husband, etc. 794 + Love of luxury 698 + Incitement by lover or other persons outside + family 666 + Incitement by parents or husband 400 + To support parents or children 393</pre> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>(Ferriani, <i>Minorenni Delinquenti</i>, p. 193.) The reasons<a name='6_Page_259'></a> + assigned by Russian prostitutes for taking up their career are + (according to Federow) as follows:</p></div> + +<pre> + 38.5 per cent. insufficient wages. + 21. per cent. desire for amusement. + 14. per cent. loss of place. + 9.5 per cent. persuasion by women friends. + 6.5 per cent. loss of habit of work. + 5.5 per cent. chagrin, and to punish lover. + .5 per cent. drunkenness.</pre> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>(Summarized in <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, Nov. 15, + 1901.)</p></div> + +<p>1. <i>The Economic Causation of Prostitution</i>.—Writers on prostitution +frequently assert that economic conditions lie at the root of prostitution +and that its chief cause is poverty, while prostitutes themselves often +declare that the difficulty of earning a livelihood in other ways was a +main cause in inducing them to adopt this career. "Of all the causes of +prostitution," Parent-Duchâtelet wrote a century ago, "particularly in +Paris, and probably in all large cities, none is more active than lack of +work and the misery which is the inevitable result of insufficient wages." +In England, also, to a large extent, Sherwell states, "morals fluctuate +with trade."<a name='6_FNanchor_164'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_164'><sup>[164]</sup></a> It is equally so in Berlin where the number of +registered prostitutes increases during bad years.<a name='6_FNanchor_165'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_165'><sup>[165]</sup></a> It is so also in +America. It is the same in Japan; "the cause of causes is poverty."<a name='6_FNanchor_166'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_166'><sup>[166]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Thus the broad and general statement that prostitution is largely or +mainly an economic phenomenon, due to the low wages of women or to sudden +depressions in trade, is everywhere made by investigators. It must, +however, be added that these general statements are considerably qualified +in the light of the detailed investigations made by careful inquirers. +Thus Ströhmberg, who minutely investigated 462 prostitutes, found that +only one assigned destitution as the reason for adopting her career, and +on investigation this was found to be an impudent lie.<a name='6_FNanchor_167'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_167'><sup>[167]</sup></a> Hammer <a name='6_Page_260'></a>found +that of ninety registered German prostitutes not one had entered on the +career out of want or to support a child, while some went on the street +while in the possession of money, or without wishing to be paid.<a name='6_FNanchor_168'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_168'><sup>[168]</sup></a> +Pastor Buschmann, of the Teltow Magdalene Home in Berlin, finds that it is +not want but indifference to moral considerations which leads girls to +become prostitutes. In Germany, before a girl is put on the police +register, due care is always taken to give her a chance of entering a Home +and getting work; in Berlin, in the course of ten years, only two +girls—out of thousands—were willing to take advantage of this +opportunity. The difficulty experienced by English Rescue Homes in finding +girls who are willing to be "rescued" is notorious. The same difficulty is +found in other cities, even where entirely different conditions prevail; +thus it is found in Madrid, according to Bernaldo de Quirós and Llanas +Aguilaniedo, that the prostitutes who enter the Homes, notwithstanding all +the devotion of the nuns, on leaving at once return to their old life. +While the economic factor in prostitution undoubtedly exists, the undue +frequency and emphasis with which it is put forward and accepted is +clearly due, in part to ignorance of the real facts, in part to the fact +that such an assumption appeals to those whose weakness it is to explain +all social phenomena by economic causes, and in part to its obvious +plausibility.<a name='6_FNanchor_169'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_169'><sup>[169]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Prostitutes are mainly recruited from the ranks of factory girls, domestic +servants, shop girls, and waitresses. In some <a name='6_Page_261'></a>of these occupations it is +difficult to obtain employment all the year round. In this way many +milliners, dressmakers and tailoresses become prostitutes when business is +slack, and return to business when the season begins. Sometimes the +regular work of the day is supplemented concurrently by prostitution in +the street in the evening. It is said, possibly with some truth, that +amateur prostitution of this kind is extremely prevalent in England, as it +is not checked by the precautions which, in countries where prostitution +is regulated, the clandestine prostitute must adopt in order to avoid +registration. Certain public lavatories and dressing-rooms in central +London are said to be used by the girls for putting on, and finally +washing off before going home, the customary paint.<a name='6_FNanchor_170'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_170'><sup>[170]</sup></a> It is certain +that in England a large proportion of parents belonging to the working and +even lower middle class ranks are unacquainted with the nature of the +lives led by their own daughters. It must be added, also, that +occasionally this conduct of the daughter is winked at or encouraged by +the parents; thus a correspondent writes that he "knows some towns in +England where prostitution is not regarded as anything disgraceful, and +can remember many cases where the mother's house has been used by the +daughter with the mother's knowledge."</p> + +<p>Acton, in a well-informed book on London prostitution, written in the +middle of the last century, said that prostitution is "a transitory stage, +through which an untold number of British women are ever on their +passage."<a name='6_FNanchor_171'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_171'><sup>[171]</sup></a> This statement was strenuously denied at the time by many +earnest moralists who refused to admit that it was possible for a woman +who had sunk into so deep a pit of degradation ever to climb out again, +respectably safe and sound. Yet it is certainly true as regards a +considerable proportion of women, not only in England, but in other +countries also. Thus Parent-Duchâtelet, the greatest authority on French +prostitution, stated that "prostitution is for the majority only a +transitory stage; it is quitted usually during the first year; very <a name='6_Page_262'></a>few +prostitutes continue until extinction." It is difficult, however, to +ascertain precisely of how large a proportion this is true; there are no +data which would serve as a basis for exact estimation,<a name='6_FNanchor_172'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_172'><sup>[172]</sup></a> and it is +impossible to expect that respectable married women would admit that they +had ever been "on the streets"; they would not, perhaps, always admit it +even to themselves.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The following case, though noted down over twenty years ago, is + fairly typical of a certain class, among the lower ranks of + prostitution, in which the economic factor counts for much, but + in which we ought not too hastily to assume that it is the sole + factor.</p> + +<p> Widow, aged thirty, with two children. Works in an umbrella + manufactory in the East End of London, earning eighteen shillings + a week by hard work, and increasing her income by occasionally + going out on the streets in the evenings. She haunts a quiet side + street which is one of the approaches to a large city railway + terminus. She is a comfortable, almost matronly-looking woman, + quietly dressed in a way that is only noticeable from the skirts + being rather short. If spoken to she may remark that she is + "waiting for a lady friend," talks in an affected way about the + weather, and parenthetically introduces her offers. She will + either lead a man into one of the silent neighboring lanes filled + with warehouses, or will take him home with her. She is willing + to accept any sum the man may be willing or able to give; + occasionally it is a sovereign, sometimes it is only a sixpence; + on an average she earns a few shillings in an evening. She had + only been in London for ten months; before that she lived in + Newcastle. She did not go on the streets there; "circumstances + alter cases," she sagely remarks. Though <a name='6_Page_263'></a>not speaking well of + the police, she says they do not interfere with her as they do + with some of the girls. She never gives them money, but hints + that it is sometimes necessary to gratify their desires in order + to keep on good terms with them.</p></div> + +<p>It must always be remembered, for it is sometimes forgotten by socialists +and social reformers, that while the pressure of poverty exerts a markedly +modifying influence on prostitution, in that it increases the ranks of the +women who thereby seek a livelihood and may thus be properly regarded as a +factor of prostitution, no practicable raising of the rate of women's +wages could possibly serve, directly and alone, to abolish prostitution. +De Molinari, an economist, after remarking that "prostitution is an +industry" and that if other competing industries can offer women +sufficiently high pecuniary inducements they will not be so frequently +attracted to prostitution, proceeds to point out that that by no means +settles the question. "Like every other industry prostitution is governed +by the demand of the need to which it responds. As long as that need and +that demand persist, they will provoke an offer. It is the need and the +demand that we must act on, and perhaps science will furnish us the means +to do so."<a name='6_FNanchor_173'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_173'><sup>[173]</sup></a> In what way Molinari expects science to diminish the +demand for prostitutes, however, is not clearly brought out.</p> + +<p>Not only have we to admit that no practicable rise in the rate of wages +paid to women in ordinary industries can possibly compete with the wages +which fairly attractive women of quite ordinary ability can earn by +prostitution,<a name='6_FNanchor_174'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_174'><sup>[174]</sup></a> but we have also to realize that a rise in general +prosperity—which alone can render a rise of women's wages healthy and +normal—involves a rise in the wages of prostitution, and an increase in +the number of prostitutes. So that if good wages is to be regarded as the +antagonist of prostitution, we can only say that it more than <a name='6_Page_264'></a>gives back +with one hand what it takes with the other. To so marked a degree is this +the case that Després in a detailed moral and demographic study of the +distribution of prostitution in France comes to the conclusion that we +must reverse the ancient doctrine that "poverty engenders prostitution" +since prostitution regularly increases with wealth,<a name='6_FNanchor_175'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_175'><sup>[175]</sup></a> and as a +département rises in wealth and prosperity, so the number both of its +inscribed and its free prostitutes rises also. There is indeed a fallacy +here, for while it is true, as Després argues, that wealth demands +prostitution, it is also true that a wealthy community involves the +extreme of poverty as well as of riches and that it is among the poorer +elements that prostitution chiefly finds its recruits. The ancient dictum +that "poverty engenders prostitution" still stands, but it is complicated +and qualified by the complex conditions of civilization. Bonger, in his +able discussion of the economic side of the question, has realized the +wide and deep basis of prostitution when he reaches the conclusion that it +is "on the one hand the inevitable complement of the existing legal +monogamy, and on the other hand the result of the bad conditions in which +many young girls grow up, the result of the physical and psychical +wretchedness in which the women of the people live, and the consequence +also of the inferior position of women in our actual society."<a name='6_FNanchor_176'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_176'><sup>[176]</sup></a> A +narrowly economic consideration of prostitution can by no means bring us +to the root of the matter.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>One circumstance alone should have sufficed to indicate that the + inability of many women to secure "a living wage," is far from + being the most fundamental cause of prostitution: a large + proportion of prostitutes come from the ranks of domestic + service. Of all the great groups of female workers, domestic + servants are the freest from economic anxieties; they do not pay + for food or for lodging; they often live as well as their + mistresses, and in a large proportion of cases they have fewer + money anxieties than their mistresses. Moreover, they supply an + almost universal demand, so that there is never any need for even + very moderately competent servants to be in want of work. They + constitute, it is true, a very large body which could not fail to + supply a certain contingent of recruits to prostitution. But when + we see that domestic <a name='6_Page_265'></a>service is the chief reservoir from which + prostitutes are drawn, it should be clear that the craving for + food and shelter is by no means the chief cause of prostitution.</p> + +<p> It may be added that, although the significance of this + predominance of servants among prostitutes is seldom realized by + those who fancy that to remove poverty is to abolish + prostitution, it has not been ignored by the more thoughtful + students of social questions. Thus Sherwell, while pointing out + truly that, to a large extent, "morals fluctuate with trade," + adds that, against the importance of the economic factor, it is a + suggestive and in every way impressive fact that the majority of + the girls who frequent the West End of London (88 per cent., + according to the Salvation Army's Registers) are drawn from + domestic service where the economic struggle is not severely felt + (Arthur Sherwell, <i>Life in West London</i>, Ch. V, "Prostitution").</p> + +<p> It is at the same time worthy of note that by the conditions of + their lives servants, more than any other class, resemble + prostitutes (Bernaldo de Quirós and Llanas Aguilaniedo have + pointed this out in <i>La Mala Vida en Madrid</i>, p. 240). Like + prostitutes, they are a class of women apart; they are not + entitled to the considerations and the little courtesies usually + paid to other women; in some countries they are even registered, + like prostitutes; it is scarcely surprising that when they suffer + from so many of the disadvantages of the prostitute, they should + sometimes desire to possess also some of her advantages. Lily + Braun (<i>Frauenfrage</i>, pp. 389 <i>et seq.</i>) has set forth in detail + these unfavorable conditions of domestic labor as they bear on + the tendency of servant-girls to become prostitutes. R. de + Ryckère, in his important work, <i>La Servante Criminelle</i> (1907, + pp. 460 <i>et seq.</i>; <i>cf.</i>, the same author's article, "La + Criminalité Ancillaire," <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, + July and December, 1906), has studied the psychology of the + servant-girl. He finds that she is specially marked by lack of + foresight, vanity, lack of invention, tendency to imitation, and + mobility of mind. These are characters which ally her to the + prostitute. De Ryckère estimates the proportion of former + servants among prostitutes generally as fifty per cent., and adds + that what is called the "white slavery" here finds its most + complacent and docile victims. He remarks, however, that the + servant prostitute is, on the whole, not so much immoral as + non-moral.</p> + +<p> In Paris Parent-Duchâtelet found that, in proportion to their + number, servants furnished the largest contingent to + prostitution, and his editors also found that they head the list + (Parent-Duchâtelet, edition 1857, vol. i, p. 83). Among + clandestine prostitutes at Paris, Commenge has more recently + found that former servants constitute forty per cent. In Bordeaux + Jeannel (<i>De le Prostitution Publique</i>, p. 102) also found that + in 1860 forty per cent, of prostitutes had been servants, + seamstresses coming next with thirty-seven per cent.</p><a name='6_Page_266'></a> + +<p> In Germany and Austria it has long been recognized that domestic + service furnishes the chief number of recruits to prostitution. + Lippert, in Germany, and Gross-Hoffinger, in Austria, pointed out + this predominance of maid-servants and its significance before + the middle of the nineteenth century, and more recently Blaschko + has stated ("Hygiene der Syphilis" in Weyl's <i>Handbuch der + Hygiene</i>, Bd. ii, p. 40) that among Berlin prostitutes in 1898 + maid-servants stand at the head with fifty-one per cent. + Baumgarten has stated that in Vienna the proportion of servants + is fifty-eight per cent.</p> + +<p> In England, according to the Report of a Select Committee of the + Lords on the laws for the protection of children, sixty per cent, + of prostitutes have been servants. F. Remo, in his <i>Vie Galante + en Angleterre</i>, states the proportion as eighty per cent. It + would appear to be even higher as regards the West End of London. + Taking London as a whole the extensive statistics of Merrick + (<i>Work Among the Fallen</i>), chaplain of the Millbank Prison, + showed that out of 14,790 prostitutes, 5823, or about forty per + cent., had previously been servants, laundresses coming next, and + then dressmakers; classifying his data somewhat more summarily + and roughly, Merrick found that the proportion of servants was + fifty-three per cent.</p> + +<p> In America, among two thousand prostitutes, Sanger states that + forty-three per cent, had been servants, dressmakers coming next, + but at a long interval, with six per cent. (Sanger, <i>History of + Prostitution</i>, p. 524). Among Philadelphia prostitutes, Goodchild + states that "domestics are probably in largest proportion," + although some recruits may be found from almost any occupation.</p> + +<p> It is the same in other countries. In Italy, according to Tammeo + (<i>La Prostituzione</i>, p. 100), servants come first among + prostitutes with a proportion of twenty-eight per cent., followed + by the group of dressmakers, tailoresses and milliners, seventeen + per cent. In Sardinia, A Mantegazza states, most prostitutes are + servants from the country. In Russia, according to Fiaux, the + proportion is forty-five per cent. In Madrid, according to Eslava + (as quoted by Bernaldo de Quirós and Llanas Aguilaniedo (<i>La Mala + Vida, en Madrid</i>, p. 239)), servants come at the head of + registered prostitutes with twenty-seven per cent.—almost the + same proportion as in Italy—and are followed by dressmakers. In + Sweden, according to Welander (<i>Monatshefte für Praktische + Dermatologie</i>, 1899, p. 477) among 2541 inscribed prostitutes, + 1586 (or sixty-two per cent.) were domestic servants; at a long + interval followed 210 seamstresses, then 168 factory workers, + etc.</p></div> + +<p>2. <i>The Biological Factor of Prostitution</i>.—Economic considerations, as +we see, have a highly important modificatory <a name='6_Page_267'></a>influence on prostitution, +although it is by no means correct to assert that they form its main +cause. There is another question which has exercised many investigators: +To what extent are prostitutes predestined to this career by organic +constitution? It is generally admitted that economic and other conditions +are an exciting cause of prostitution; in how far are those who succumb +predisposed by the possession of abnormal personal characteristics? Some +inquirers have argued that this predisposition is so marked that +prostitution may fairly be regarded as a feminine equivalent for +criminality, and that in a family in which the men instinctively turn to +crime, the women instinctively turn to prostitution. Others have as +strenuously denied this conclusion.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Lombroso has more especially advocated the doctrine that + prostitution is the vicarious equivalent of criminality. In this + he was developing the results reached, in the important study of + the Jukes family, by Dugdale, who found that "there where the + brothers commit crime, the sisters adopt prostitution;" the fines + and imprisonments of the women of the family were not for + violations of the right of property, but mainly for offences + against public decency. "The psychological as well as anatomical + identity of the criminal and the born prostitute," Lombroso and + Ferrero concluded, "could not be more complete: both are + identical with the moral insane, and therefore, according to the + axiom, equal to each other. There is the same lack of moral + sense, the same hardness of heart, the same precocious taste for + evil, the same indifference to social infamy, the same + volatility, love of idleness, and lack of foresight, the same + taste for facile pleasures, for the orgy and for alcohol, the + same, or almost the same, vanity. Prostitution is only the + feminine side of criminality. And so true is it that prostitution + and criminality are two analogous, or, so to say, parallel, + phenomena, that at their extremes they meet. The prostitute is, + therefore, psychologically a criminal: if she commits no offenses + it is because her physical weakness, her small intelligence, the + facility of acquiring what she wants by more easy methods, + dispenses her from the necessity of crime, and on these very + grounds prostitution represents the specific form of feminine + criminality." The authors add that "prostitution is, in a certain + sense, socially useful as an outlet for masculine sexuality and a + preventive of crime" (Lombroso and Ferrero, <i>La Donna + Delinquente</i>, 1893, p. 571).</p> + +<p> Those who have opposed this view have taken various grounds, and + by no means always understood the position they are attacking. + Thus<a name='6_Page_268'></a> W. Fischer (in <i>Die Prostitution</i>) vigorously argues that + prostitution is not an inoffensive equivalent of criminality, but + a factor of criminality. Féré, again (in <i>Dégénérescence et + Criminalité</i>), asserts that criminality and prostitution are not + equivalent, but identical. "Prostitutes and criminals," he holds, + "have as a common character their unproductiveness, and + consequently they are both anti-social. Prostitution thus + constitutes a form of criminality." The essential character of + criminals is not, however, their unproductiveness, for that they + share with a considerable proportion of the wealthiest of the + upper classes; it must be added, also, that the prostitute, + unlike the criminal, is exercising an activity for which there is + a demand, for which she is willingly paid, and for which she has + to work (it has sometimes been noted that the prostitute looks + down on the thief, who "does not work"); she is carrying on a + profession, and is neither more nor less productive than those + who carry on many more reputable professions. Aschaffenburg, also + believing himself in opposition to Lombroso, argues, somewhat + differently from Féré, that prostitution is not indeed, as Féré + said, a form of criminality, but that it is too frequently united + with criminality to be regarded as an equivalent. Mönkemöller has + more recently supported the same view. Here, however, as usual, + there is a wide difference of opinion as to the proportion of + prostitutes of whom this is true. It is recognized by all + investigators to be true of a certain number, but while + Baumgarten, from an examination of eight thousand prostitutes, + only found a minute proportion who were criminals, Ströhmberg + found that among 462 prostitutes there were as many as 175 + thieves. From another side, Morasso (as quoted in <i>Archivio di + Psichiatria</i>, 1896, fasc. I), on the strength of his own + investigations, is more clearly in opposition to Lombroso, since + he protests altogether against any purely degenerative view of + prostitutes which would in any way assimilate them with + criminals.</p></div> + +<p>The question of the sexuality of prostitutes, which has a certain bearing +on the question of their tendency to degeneration, has been settled by +different writers in different senses. While some, like Morasso, assert +that sexual impulse is a main cause inducing women to adopt a prostitute's +career, others assert that prostitutes are usually almost devoid of sexual +impulse. Lombroso refers to the prevalence of sexual frigidity among +prostitutes.<a name='6_FNanchor_177'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_177'><sup>[177]</sup></a> In London, Merrick, speaking from a knowledge of over +16,000 prostitutes, states that he has met with "only a very <a name='6_Page_269'></a>few cases" +in which gross sexual desire has been the motive to adopt a life of +prostitution. In Paris, Raciborski had stated at a much earlier period +that "among prostitutes one finds very few who are prompted to libertinage +by sexual ardor."<a name='6_FNanchor_178'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_178'><sup>[178]</sup></a> Commenge, again, a careful student of the Parisian +prostitute, cannot admit that sexual desire is to be classed among the +serious causes of prostitution. "I have made inquiries of thousands of +women on this point," he states, "and only a very small number have told +me that they were driven to prostitution for the satisfaction of sexual +needs. Although girls who give themselves to prostitution are often +lacking in frankness, on this point, I believe, they have no wish to +deceive. When they have sexual needs they do not conceal them, but, on the +contrary, show a certain <i>amour-propre</i> in acknowledging them, as a +sufficient sort of justification for their life; so that if only a very +small minority avow this motive the reason is that for the great majority +it has no existence."</p> + +<p>There can be no doubt that the statements made regarding the sexual +frigidity of prostitutes are often much too unqualified. This is in part +certainly due to the fact that they are usually made by those who speak +from a knowledge of old prostitutes whose habitual familiarity with normal +sexual intercourse in its least attractive aspects has resulted in +complete indifference to such intercourse, so far as their clients are +concerned.<a name='6_FNanchor_179'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_179'><sup>[179]</sup></a> It may be stated with truth that to the woman of deep +passions the ephemeral and superficial relationships of prostitution can +offer no temptation. And it may be added that the majority of prostitutes +begin their career at a very early age, long before the somewhat late +period at which in women the tendency for passion to <a name='6_Page_270'></a>become strong, has +yet arrived.<a name='6_FNanchor_180'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_180'><sup>[180]</sup></a> It may also be said that an indifference to sexual +relationships, a tendency to attach no personal value to them, is often a +predisposing cause in the adoption of a prostitute's career; the general +mental shallowness of prostitutes may well be accompanied by shallowness +of physical emotion. On the other hand, many prostitutes, at all events +early in their careers, appear to show a marked degree of sensuality, and +to women of coarse sexual fibre the career of prostitution has not been +without attractions from this point of view; the gratification of physical +desire is known to act as a motive in some cases and is clearly indicated +in others.<a name='6_FNanchor_181'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_181'><sup>[181]</sup></a> This is scarcely surprising when we remember that +prostitutes are in a very large proportion of cases remarkably robust and +healthy persons in general respects.<a name='6_FNanchor_182'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_182'><sup>[182]</sup></a> They withstand without +difficulty the risks of their profession, and though under its influence +the manifestations of sexual feeling can scarcely fail to become modified +or perverted in course of time, that is no proof of the original absence +of sexual sensibility. It is not even a proof of its loss, for the real +sexual nature of the normal prostitute, and her possibilities of sexual +ardor, are chiefly manifested, not in her professional relations with her +clients, but in her relations with her "fancy boy" or "bully."<a name='6_FNanchor_183'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_183'><sup>[183]</sup></a> It is +quite true that the conditions of her life often make it practically +advantageous to the prostitute to have attached to her a man who is +devoted to her interests <a name='6_Page_271'></a>and will defend them if necessary, but that is +only a secondary, occasional, and subsidiary advantage of the "fancy boy," +so far as prostitutes generally are concerned. She is attracted to him +primarily because he appeals to her personally and she wants him for +herself. The motive of her attachment is, above all, erotic, in the full +sense, involving not merely sexual relations but possession and common +interests, a permanent and intimate life led together. "You know that what +one does in the way of business cannot fill one's heart," said a German +prostitute; "Why should we not have a husband like other women? I, too, +need love. If that were not so we should not want a bully." And he, on his +part, reciprocates this feeling and is by no means merely moved by +self-interest.<a name='6_FNanchor_184'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_184'><sup>[184]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>One of my correspondents, who has had much experience of + prostitutes, not only in Britain, but also in Germany, France, + Belgium and Holland, has found that the normal manifestations of + sexual feeling are much more common in British than in + continental prostitutes. "I should say," he writes, "that in + normal coitus foreign women are generally unconscious of sexual + excitement. I don't think I have ever known a foreign woman who + had any semblance of orgasm. British women, on the other hand, if + a man is moderately kind, and shows that he has some feelings + beyond mere sensual gratification, often abandon themselves to + the wildest delights of sexual excitement. Of course in this + life, as in others, there is keen competition, and a woman, to + vie with her competitors, must please her gentlemen friends; but + a man of the world can always distinguish between real and + simulated passion." (It is possible, however, that he may be most + successful in arousing the feelings of his own fellow-country + women.) On the other hand, this writer finds that the foreign + women are more anxious to provide for the enjoyment of their + temporary consorts and to ascertain what pleases <a name='6_Page_272'></a>them. "The + foreigner seems to make it the business of her life to discover + some abnormal mode of sexual gratification for her consort." For + their own pleasure also foreign prostitutes frequently ask for + <i>cunnilinctus</i>, in preference to normal coitus, while anal coitus + is also common. The difference evidently is that the British + women, when they seek gratification, find it in normal coitus, + while the foreign women prefer more abnormal methods. There is, + however, one class of British prostitutes which this + correspondent finds to be an exception to the general rule: the + class of those who are recruited from the lower walks of the + stage. "Such women are generally more licentious—that is to say, + more acquainted with the bizarre in sexualism—than girls who + come from shops or bars; they show a knowledge of <i>fellatio</i>, and + even anal coitus, and during menstruation frequently suggest + inter-mammary coitus."</p></div> + +<p>On the whole it would appear that prostitutes, though not usually impelled +to their life by motives of sensuality, on entering and during the early +part of their career possess a fairly average amount of sexual impulse, +with variations in both directions of excess and deficiency as well as of +perversion. At a somewhat later period it is useless to attempt to measure +the sexual impulse of prostitutes by the amount of pleasure they take in +the professional performance of sexual intercourse. It is necessary to +ascertain whether they possess sexual instincts which are gratified in +other ways. In a large proportion of cases this is found to be so. +Masturbation, especially, is extremely common among prostitutes +everywhere; however prevalent it may be among women who have no other +means of obtaining sexual gratification it is admitted by all to be still +more prevalent among prostitutes, indeed almost universal.<a name='6_FNanchor_185'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_185'><sup>[185]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Homosexuality, though not so common as masturbation, is very frequently +found among prostitutes—in France, it would seem, more frequently than in +England—and it may indeed be <a name='6_Page_273'></a>said that it occurs more often among +prostitutes than among any other class of women. It is favored by the +acquired distaste for normal coitus due to professional intercourse with +men, which leads homosexual relationships to be regarded as pure and ideal +by comparison. It would appear also that in a considerable proportion of +cases prostitutes present a congenital condition of sexual inversion, such +a condition, with an accompanying indifference to intercourse with men, +being a predisposing cause of the adoption of a prostitute's career. +Kurella even regards prostitutes as constituting a sub-variety of +congenital inverts. Anna Rüling in Germany states that about twenty per +cent. prostitutes are homosexual; when asked what induced them to become +prostitutes, more than one inverted woman of the street has replied to her +that it was purely a matter of business, sexual feeling not coming into +the question except with a friend of the same sex.<a name='6_FNanchor_186'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_186'><sup>[186]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The occurrence of congenital inversion among prostitutes—although we need +not regard prostitutes as necessarily degenerate as a class—suggests the +question whether we are likely to find an unusually large number of +physical and other anomalies among them. It cannot be said that there is +unanimity of opinion on this point. For some authorities prostitutes are +merely normal ordinary women of low social rank, if indeed their instincts +are not even a little superior to those of the class in which they were +born. Other investigators find among them so large a proportion of +individuals deviating from the normal that they are inclined to place +prostitutes generally among one or other of the abnormal classes.<a name='6_FNanchor_187'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_187'><sup>[187]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_274'></a> +<div class='blkquot'><p>Baumgarten, in Vienna, from a knowledge of over 8000 prostitutes, + concluded that only a very minute proportion are either criminal + or psychopathic in temperament or organization (<i>Archiv für + Kriminal-Anthropologie</i>, vol. xi, 1902). It is not clear, + however, that Baumgarten carried out any detailed and precise + investigations. Mr. Lane, a London police magistrate, has stated + as the result of his own observation, that prostitution is "at + once a symptom and outcome of the same deteriorated physique and + decadent moral fibre which determine the manufacture of male + tramps, petty thieves, and professional beggars, of whom the + prostitute is in general the female analogue" (<i>Ethnological + Journal</i>, April, 1905, p. 41). This estimate is doubtless correct + as regards a considerable proportion of the women, often + enfeebled by drink, who pass through the police courts, but it + could scarcely be applied without qualification to prostitutes + generally.</p> + +<p> Morasso (<i>Archivio di Psichiatria</i>, 1896, fasc. I) has protested + against a purely degenerative view of prostitutes on the strength + of his own observations. There is, he states, a category of + prostitutes, unknown to scientific inquirers, which he calls that + of the <i>prostitute di alto bordo</i>. Among these the signs of + degeneration, physical or moral, are not to be found in greater + number than among women who do not belong to prostitution. They + reveal all sorts of characters, some of them showing great + refinement, and are chiefly marked off by the possession of an + unusual degree of sexual appetite. Even among the more degraded + group of the <i>bassa prostituzione</i>, he asserts, we find a + predominance of sexual, as well as professional, characters, + rather than the signs of degeneration. It is sufficient to quote + one more testimony, as set down many years ago by a woman of high + intelligence and character, Mrs. Craik, the novelist: "The women + who fall are by no means the worst of their station," she wrote. + "I have heard it affirmed by more than one lady—by one in + particular whose experience was as large as her benevolence—that + many of them are of the very best, refined, intelligent, + truthful, and affectionate. 'I don't know how it is,' she would + say, 'whether their very superiority makes them dissatisfied with + their own rank—such brutes or clowns as laboring men often + are!—so that they fall easier victims to the rank above them; or + whether, though this theory will shock many people, other virtues + can exist and flourish entirely distinct <a name='6_Page_275'></a>from, and after the + loss of, that which we are accustomed to believe the + indispensable prime virtue of our sex—chastity. I cannot explain + it; I can only say that it is so, that some of my most promising + village girls have been the first to come to harm; and some of + the best and most faithful servants I ever had, have been girls + who have fallen into shame, and who, had I not gone to the rescue + and put them in the way to do well, would infallibly have become + "lost women"'" (<i>A Woman's Thoughts About Women</i>, 1858, p. 291). + Various writers have insisted on the good moral qualities of + prostitutes. Thus in France, Despine first enumerates their vices + as (1) greediness and love of drink, (2) lying, (3) anger, (4) + want of order and untidiness, (5) mobility of character, (6) need + of movement, (7) tendency to homosexuality; and then proceeds to + detail their good qualities: their maternal and filial affection, + their charity to each other; and their refusal to denounce each + other; while they are frequently religious, sometimes modest, and + generally very honest (Despine, <i>Psychologie Naturelle</i>, vol. + iii, pp. 207 <i>et seq.</i>; as regards Sicilian prostitutes, <i>cf.</i> + Callari, <i>Archivio di Psichiatria</i>, fasc. IV, 1903). The charity + towards each other, often manifested in distress, is largely + neutralized by a tendency to professional suspicion and jealousy + of each other.</p> + +<p> Lombroso believes that the basis of prostitution must be found in + moral idiocy. If by moral idiocy we are to understand a condition + at all closely allied with insanity, this assertion is dubious. + There seems no clear relationship between prostitution and + insanity, and Tammeo has shown (<i>La Prostituzione</i>, p. 76) that + the frequency of prostitutes in the various Italian provinces is + in inverse ratio to the frequency of insane persons; as insanity + increases, prostitution decreases. But if we mean a minor degree + of moral imbecility—that is to say, a bluntness of perception + for the ordinary moral considerations of civilization which, + while it is largely due to the hardening influence of an + unfavorable early environment, may also rest on a congenital + predisposition—there can be no doubt that moral imbecility of + slight degree is very frequently found among prostitutes. It + would be plausible, doubtless, to say that every woman who gives + her virginity in exchange for an inadequate return is an + imbecile. If she gives herself for love, she has, at the worst, + made a foolish mistake, such as the young and inexperienced may + at any time make. But if she deliberately proposes to sell + herself, and does so for nothing or next to nothing, the case is + altered. The experiences of Commenge in Paris are instructive on + this point. "For many young girls," he writes, "modesty has no + existence, they experience no emotion in showing themselves + completely undressed, they abandon themselves to any chance + individual whom they will never see again. They attach no + importance to their virginity; they are deflowered under the + strangest conditions, without the least thought or care about the + act they are <a name='6_Page_276'></a>accomplishing. No sentiment, no calculation, pushes + them into a man's arms. They let themselves go without reflexion + and without motive, in an almost animal manner, from indifference + and without pleasure." He was acquainted with forty-five girls + between the ages of twelve and seventeen who were deflowered by + chance strangers whom they never met again; they lost their + virginity, in Dumas's phrase, as they lost their milk-teeth, and + could give no plausible account of the loss. A girl of fifteen, + mentioned by Commenge, living with her parents who supplied all + her wants, lost her virginity by casually meeting a man who + offered her two francs if she would go with him; she did so + without demur and soon begun to accost men on her own account. A + girl of fourteen, also living comfortably with her parents, + sacrificed her virginity at a fair in return for a glass of beer, + and henceforth begun to associate with prostitutes. Another girl + of the same age, at a local fête, wishing to go round on the + hobby horse, spontaneously offered herself to the man directing + the machinery for the pleasure of a ride. Yet another girl, of + fifteen, at another fête, offered her virginity in return for the + same momentary joy (Commenge, <i>Prostitution Clandestine</i>, 1897, + pp. 101 <i>et seq.</i>). In the United States, Dr. W. Travis Gibb, + examining physician to the New York Society for the Prevention of + Cruelty to Children, bears similar testimony to the fact that in + a fairly large proportion of "rape" cases the child is the + willing victim. "It is horribly pathetic," he says (<i>Medical + Record</i>, April 20, 1907), "to learn how far a nickel or a quarter + will go towards purchasing the virtue of these children."</p> + +<p> In estimating the tendency of prostitutes to display congenital + physical anomalies, the crudest and most obvious test, though not + a precise or satisfactory one, is the general impression produced + by the face. In France, when nearly 1000 prostitutes were divided + into five groups from the point of view of their looks, only from + seven to fourteen per cent, were found to belong to the first + group, or that of those who could be said to possess youth and + beauty (Jeannel, <i>De la Prostitution Publique</i>, 1860, p. 168). + Woods Hutchinson, again, judging from an extensive acquaintance + with London, Paris, Vienna, New York, Philadelphia, and Chicago, + asserts that a handsome or even attractive-looking prostitute, is + rare, and that the general average of beauty is lower than in any + other class of women. "Whatever other evils," he remarks, "the + fatal power of beauty may be responsible for, it has nothing to + do with prostitution" (Woods Hutchinson, "The Economics of + Prostitution," <i>American Gynæcological and Obstetric Journal</i>, + September, 1895). It must, of course, be borne in mind that these + estimates are liable to be vitiated through being based chiefly + on the inspection of women who most obviously belong to the class + of prostitutes and have already been coarsened by their + profession.</p> + +<p> If we may conclude—and the fact is probably undisputed—that + <a name='6_Page_277'></a>beautiful, agreeable, and harmoniously formed faces are rare + rather than common among prostitutes, we may certainly say that + minute examination will reveal a large number of physical + abnormalities. One of the earliest important physical + investigations of prostitutes was that of Dr. Pauline Tarnowsky + in Russia (first published in the <i>Vratch</i> in 1887, and + afterwards as <i>Etudes anthropométriques sur les Prostituées et + les Voleuses</i>). She examined fifty St. Petersburg prostitutes who + had been inmates of a brothel for not less than two years, and + also fifty peasant women of, so far as possible, the same age and + mental development. She found that (1) the prostitute showed + shorter anterior-posterior and transverse diameters of skull; (2) + a proportion equal to eighty-four per cent. showed various signs + of physical degeneration (irregular skull, asymmetry of face, + anomalies of hard palate, teeth, ears, etc.). This tendency to + anomaly among the prostitutes was to some extent explained when + it was found that about four-fifths of them had parents who were + habitual drunkards, and nearly one-fifth were the last survivors + of large families; such families have been often produced by + degenerate parents.</p> + +<p> The frequency of hereditary degeneration has been noted by + Bonhoeffer among German prostitutes. He investigated 190 Breslau + prostitutes in prison, and therefore of a more abnormal class + than ordinary prostitutes, and found that 102 were hereditarily + degenerate, and mostly with one or both parents who were + drunkards; 53 also showed feeble-mindedness (<i>Zeitschrift für die + Gesamte Strafwissenschaft</i>, Bd. xxiii, p. 106).</p> + +<p> The most detailed examinations of ordinary non-criminal + prostitutes, both anthropometrically and as regards the + prevalence of anomalies, have been made in Italy, though not on a + sufficiently large number of subjects to yield absolutely + decisive results. Thus Fornasari made a detailed examination of + sixty prostitutes belonging chiefly to Emilia and Venice, and + also of twenty-seven others belonging to Bologna, the latter + group being compared with a third group of twenty normal women + belonging to Bologna (<i>Archivio di Psichiatria</i>, 1892, fasc. VI). + The prostitutes were found to be of lower type than the normal + individuals, having smaller heads and larger faces. As the author + himself points out, his subjects were not sufficiently numerous + to justify far-reaching generalizations, but it may be worth + while to summarize some of his results. At equal heights the + prostitutes showed greater weight; at equal ages they were of + shorter stature than other women, not only of well-to-do, but of + the poor class: height of face, bi-zygomatic diameter (though not + the distance between zygomas), the distance from chin to external + auditory meatus, and the size of the jaw were all greater in the + prostitutes; the hands were longer and broader, compared to the + palm, than in ordinary women; the foot also was longer in + prostitutes, and the thigh, as compared to the calf, was larger. + It is noteworthy that in <a name='6_Page_278'></a>most particulars, and especially in + regard to head measurements, the variations were much greater + among the prostitutes than among the other women examined; this + is to some extent, though not entirely, to be accounted for by + the slightly greater number of the former.</p> + +<p> Ardu (in the same number of the <i>Archivio</i>) gave the result of + observations (undertaken at Lombroso's suggestion) as to the + frequency of abnormalities among prostitutes. The subjects were + seventy-four in number and belonged to Professor Giovannini's + <i>Clinica Sifilopatica</i> at Turin. The abnormalities investigated + were virile distribution of hair on pubes, chest, and limbs, + hypertrichosis on forehead, left-handedness, atrophy of nipple, + and tattooing (which was only found once). Combining Ardu's + observations with another series of observations on fifty-five + prostitutes examined by Lombroso, it is found that virile + disposition of hair is found in fifteen per cent. as against six + per cent. in normal women; some degree of hypertrichosis in + eighteen per cent.; left-handedness in eleven per cent. (but in + normal women as high as twelve per cent. according to Gallia); + and atrophy of nipple in twelve per cent.</p> + +<p> Giuffrida-Ruggeri, again (<i>Atti della, Società Romana di + Antropologia</i>, 1897, p. 216), on examining eighty-two prostitutes + found anomalies in the following order of decreasing frequency: + tendency of eyebrows to meet, lack of cranial symmetry, + depression at root of nose, defective development of calves, + hypertrichosis and other anomalies of hair, adherent or absent + lobule, prominent zigoma, prominent forehead or frontal bones, + bad implantation of teeth, Darwinian tubercle of ear, thin + vertical lips. These signs are separately of little or no + importance, though together not without significance as an + indication of general anomaly.</p> + +<p> More recently Ascarilla, in an elaborate study (<i>Archivio di + Psichiatria</i>, 1906, fasc. VI, p. 812) of the finger prints of + prostitutes, comes to the conclusion that even in this respect + prostitutes tend to form a class showing morphological + inferiority to normal women. The patterns tend to show unusual + simplicity and uniformity, and the significance of this is + indicated by the fact that a similar uniformity is shown by the + finger prints of the insane and deaf-mutes (De Sanctis and + Toscano, <i>Atti Società Romana Antropologia</i>, vol. viii, 1901, + fasc. II).</p> + +<p> In Chicago Dr. Harriet Alexander, in conjunction with Dr. E. S. + Talbot and Dr. J. G. Kiernan, examined thirty prostitutes in the + Bridewell, or House of Correction; only the "obtuse" class of + professional prostitutes reach this institution, and it is not + therefore surprising that they were found to exhibit very marked + stigmata of degeneracy. In race nearly half of those examined + were Celtic Irish. In sixteen the zygomatic processes were + unequal and very prominent. Other facial asymmetries were common. + In three cases the heads were of Mongoloid type; sixteen were + epignathic, and eleven prognathic; five showed arrest <a name='6_Page_279'></a>of + development of face. Brachycephaly predominated (seventeen + cases); the rest were mesaticephalic; there were no + dolichocephals. Abnormalities in shape of the skull were + numerous, and twenty-nine had defective ears. Four were + demonstrably insane, and one was an epileptic (H. C. B. Alexander, + "Physical Abnormalities in Prostitutes," Chicago Academy of + Medicine, April, 1893; E. S. Talbot, <i>Degeneracy</i>, p. 320; <i>Id., + Irregularities of the Teeth</i>, fourth edition, p. 141).</p></div> + +<p>It would seem, on the whole, so far as the evidence at present goes, that +prostitutes are not quite normal representatives of the ranks into which +they were born. There has been a process of selection of individuals who +slightly deviate congenitally from the normal average and are, +correspondingly, slightly inapt for normal life.<a name='6_FNanchor_188'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_188'><sup>[188]</sup></a> The psychic +characteristics which accompany such deviation are not always necessarily +of an obviously unfavorable nature; the slightly neurotic girl of low +class birth—disinclined for hard work, through defective energy, and +perhaps greedy and selfish—may even seem to possess a refinement superior +to her station. While, however, there is a tendency to anomaly among +prostitutes, it must be clearly recognized that that tendency remains +slight so long as we consider impartially the whole class of prostitutes. +Those investigators who have reached the conclusion that prostitutes are a +highly degenerate and abnormal class have only observed special groups of +prostitutes, more especially those who are frequently found in prison. It +is not possible to form a just conception of prostitutes by studying them +only in prison, any more than it would be possible to form a just +conception of clergymen, doctors, or lawyers by studying them exclusively +in prison, and this remains true even although a much larger proportion of +prostitutes than of members of the more reputable professions pass through +prisons; that fact no doubt partly indicates the greater abnormality of +prostitutes.</p> + +<p>It has, of course, to be remembered that the special conditions of the +lives of prostitutes tend to cause in them the appearance of certain +professional characteristics which are entirely acquired and not +congenital. In that way we may account for the gradual modification of the +feminine secondary and tertiary <a name='6_Page_280'></a>sexual characters, and the appearance of +masculine characters, such as the frequent deep voice, etc.<a name='6_FNanchor_189'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_189'><sup>[189]</sup></a> But with +all due allowance for these acquired characters, it remains true that such +comparative investigations as have so far been made, although +inconclusive, seem to indicate that, even apart from the prevalence of +acquired anomalies, the professional selection of their avocation tends to +separate out from the general population of the same social class, +individuals who possess anthropometrical characters varying in a definite +direction. The observations thus made seem, in this way, to indicate that +prostitutes tend to be in weight over the average, though not in stature, +that in length of arm they are inferior though the hands are longer (this +has been found alike in Italy and Russia); they have smaller ankles and +larger calves, and still larger thighs in proportion to their large +calves. The estimated skull capacity and the skull circumference and +diameters are somewhat below the normal, not only when compared with +respectable women but also with thieves; there is a tendency to +brachycephaly (both in Italy and Russia); the cheek-bones are usually +prominent and the jaws developed; the hair is darker than in respectable +women though less so than in thieves; it is also unusually abundant, not +only on the head but also on the pudenda and elsewhere; the eyes have been +found to be decidedly darker than those of either respectable women or +criminals.<a name='6_FNanchor_190'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_190'><sup>[190]</sup></a></p> + +<p>So far as the evidence goes it serves to indicate that prostitutes tend to +approximate to the type which, as was shown in the previous volume, there +is reason to regard as specially indicative of developed sexuality. It is, +however, unnecessary to discuss this question until our anthropometrical +knowledge of prostitutes is more extended and precise.</p> + +<p>3. <i>The Moral Justification of Prostitution</i>.—There are and always have +been moralists—many of them people whose opinions are deserving of the +most serious respect—who consider that, <a name='6_Page_281'></a>allowing for the need of +improved hygienic conditions, the existence of prostitution presents no +serious problem for solution. It is, at most, they say, a necessary evil, +and, at best, a beneficent institution, the bulwark of the home, the +inevitable reverse of which monogamy is the obverse. "The immoral guardian +of public morality," is the definition of prostitutes given by one writer, +who takes the humble view of the matter, and another, taking the loftier +ground, writes: "The prostitute fulfils a social mission. She is the +guardian of virginal modesty, the channel to carry off adulterous desire, +the protector of matrons who fear late maternity; it is her part to act as +the shield of the family." "Female Decii," said Balzac in his <i>Physiologie +du Mariage</i> of prostitutes, "they sacrifice themselves for the republic +and make of their bodies a rampart for the protection of respectable +families." In the same way Schopenhauer called prostitutes "human +sacrifices on the altar of monogamy." Lecky, again, in an oft-quoted +passage of rhetoric,<a name='6_FNanchor_191'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_191'><sup>[191]</sup></a> may be said to combine both the higher and the +lower view of the prostitute's mission in human society, to which he even +seeks to give a hieratic character. "The supreme type of vice," he +declared, "she is ultimately the most efficient guardian of virtue. But +for her, the unchallenged purity of countless happy homes would be +polluted, and not a few who, in the pride of their untempted chastity, +think of her with an indignant shudder, would have known the agony of +remorse and of despair. On that one degraded and ignoble form are +concentrated the passions that might have filled the world with shame. She +remains, while creeds and civilizations rise and fall, the eternal +priestess of humanity, blasted for the sins of the people."<a name='6_FNanchor_192'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_192'><sup>[192]</sup></a></p> + +<p>I am not aware that the Greeks were greatly concerned with <a name='6_Page_282'></a>the moral +justification of prostitution. They had not allowed it to assume very +offensive forms and for the most part they were content to accept it. The +Romans usually accepted it, too, but, we gather, not quite so easily. +There was an austerely serious, almost Puritanic, spirit in the Romans of +the old stock and they seem sometimes to have felt the need to assure +themselves that prostitution really was morally justifiable. It is +significant to note that they were accustomed to remember that Cato was +said to have expressed satisfaction on seeing a man emerge from a brothel, +for otherwise he might have gone to lie with his neighbor's wife.<a name='6_FNanchor_193'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_193'><sup>[193]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The social necessity of prostitution is the most ancient of all the +arguments of moralists in favor of the toleration of prostitutes; and if +we accept the eternal validity of the marriage system with which +prostitution developed, and of the theoretical morality based on that +system, this is an exceedingly forcible, if not an unanswerable, argument.</p> + +<p>The advent of Christianity, with its special attitude towards the "flesh," +necessarily caused an enormous increase of attention to the moral aspects +of prostitution. When prostitution was not morally denounced, it became +clearly necessary to morally justify it; it was impossible for a Church, +whose ideals were more or less ascetic, to be benevolently indifferent in +such a matter. As a rule we seem to find throughout that while the more +independent and irresponsible divines take the side of denunciation, those +theologians who have had thrust upon them the grave responsibilities of +ecclesiastical statesmanship have rather tended towards the reluctant +moral justification of prostitution. Of this we have an example of the +first importance in St. Augustine, after St. Paul the chief builder of the +Christian Church. In a treatise written in 386 to justify the Divine +regulation of the world, we find him declaring that just as the +executioner, however repulsive he may be, occupies a necessary place in +society, so the prostitute and her like, however sordid and ugly and +wicked they may be, are equally necessary; remove <a name='6_Page_283'></a>prostitutes from human +affairs and you would pollute the world with lust: "Aufer meretrices de +rebus humanis, turbaveris omnia libidinibus."<a name='6_FNanchor_194'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_194'><sup>[194]</sup></a> Aquinas, the only +theological thinker of Christendom who can be named with Augustine, was of +the same mind with him on this question of prostitution. He maintained the +sinfulness of fornication but he accepted the necessity of prostitution as +a beneficial part of the social structure, comparing it to the sewers +which keep a palace pure.<a name='6_FNanchor_195'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_195'><sup>[195]</sup></a> "Prostitution in towns is like the sewer in +a palace; take away the sewers and the palace becomes an impure and +stinking place." Liguori, the most influential theologian of more modern +times, was of the like opinion.</p> + +<p>This wavering and semi-indulgent attitude towards prostitution was indeed +generally maintained by theologians. Some, following Augustine and +Aquinas, would permit prostitution for the avoidance of greater evils; +others were altogether opposed to it; others, again, would allow it in +towns but nowhere else. It was, however, universally held by theologians +that the prostitute has a right to her wages, and is not obliged to make +restitution.<a name='6_FNanchor_196'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_196'><sup>[196]</sup></a> The earlier Christian moralists found no difficulty in +maintaining that there is no sin in renting a house to a prostitute for +the purposes of her trade; absolution was always granted for this and +abstention not required.<a name='6_FNanchor_197'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_197'><sup>[197]</sup></a> Fornication, however, always remained a sin, +and from the twelfth century onwards the Church made a series of organized +attempts to reclaim prostitutes. All Catholic theologians hold that a +prostitute is bound to confess the sin of prostitution, and most, though +not all, theologians have believed that a man also must confess +intercourse with a prostitute. At the same time, while there was a certain +indulgence to the prostitute herself, the Church was always very severe on +those <a name='6_Page_284'></a>who lived on the profits of promoting prostitution, on the +<i>lenones</i>. Thus the Council of Elvira, which was ready to receive without +penance the prostitute who married, refused reconciliation, even at death, +to persons who had been guilty of <i>lenocinium</i>.<a name='6_FNanchor_198'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_198'><sup>[198]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Protestantism, in this as in many other matters of sexual morality, having +abandoned the confessional, was usually able to escape the necessity for +any definite and responsible utterances concerning the moral status of +prostitution. When it expressed any opinion, or sought to initiate any +practical action, it naturally founded itself on the Biblical injunctions +against fornication, as expressed by St. Paul, and showed no mercy for +prostitutes and no toleration for prostitution. This attitude, which was +that of the Puritans, was the more easy since in Protestant countries, +with the exception of special districts at special periods—such as Geneva +and New England in the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries—theologians +have in these matters been called upon to furnish religious exhortation +rather than to carry out practical policies. The latter task they have +left to others, and a certain confusion and uncertainty has thus often +arisen in the lay Protestant mind. This attitude in a thoughtful and +serious writer, is well illustrated in England by Burton, writing a +century after the Reformation. He refers with mitigated approval to "our +Pseudo-Catholics," who are severe with adultery but indulgent to +fornication, being perhaps of Cato's mind that it should be encouraged to +avoid worse mischiefs at home, and who holds brothels "as necessary as +churches" and "have whole Colleges of Courtesans in their towns and +cities." "They hold it impossible," he continues, "for idle persons, +young, rich and lusty, so many servants, monks, friars, to live honest, +too tyrannical a burden to compel them to be chaste, and most unfit to +suffer poor men, younger brothers and soldiers at all to marry, as also +diseased persons, votaries, priests, servants. Therefore as well to keep +and ease the one as the other, they tolerate and wink at these kind of +brothel-houses and stews. Many probable arguments they have to prove the +lawfulness, the necessity, and a <a name='6_Page_285'></a>toleration of them, as of usery; and +without question in policy they are not to be contradicted, but altogether +in religion."<a name='6_FNanchor_199'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_199'><sup>[199]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It was not until the beginning of the following century that the ancient +argument of St. Augustine for the moral justification of prostitution was +boldly and decisively stated in Protestant England, by Bernard Mandeville +in his <i>Fable of the Bees</i>, and at its first promulgation it seemed so +offensive to the public mind that the book was suppressed. "If courtesans +and strumpets were to be prosecuted with as much rigor as some silly +people would have it," Mandeville wrote, "what locks or bars would be +sufficient to preserve the honor of our wives and daughters?... It is +manifest that there is a necessity of sacrificing one part of womankind to +preserve the other, and prevent a filthiness of a more heinous nature. +From whence I think I may justly conclude that chastity may be supported +by incontinence, and the best of virtues want the assistance of the worst +of vices."<a name='6_FNanchor_200'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_200'><sup>[200]</sup></a> After Mandeville's time this view of prostitution began to +become common in Protestant as well as in other countries, though it was +not usually so clearly expressed.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It may be of interest to gather together a few more modern + examples of statements brought forward for the moral + justification of prostitution.</p> + +<p> Thus in France Meusnier de Querlon, in his story of <i>Psaphion</i>, + written in the middle of the eighteenth century, puts into the + mouth of a Greek courtesan many interesting reflections + concerning the life and position of the prostitute. She defends + her profession with much skill, and argues that while men imagine + that prostitutes are merely the despised victims of their + pleasures, these would-be tyrants are really dupes who are + ministering to the needs of the women they trample beneath their + feet, and themselves equally deserve the contempt they bestow. + "We return disgust for disgust, as they must surely perceive. We + often abandon to them merely a statue, and while inflamed by + their own desires they consume themselves on insensible charms, + our tranquil coldness leisurely enjoys their sensibility. Then it + is we resume all our <a name='6_Page_286'></a>rights. A little hot blood has brought + these proud creatures to our feet, and rendered us mistresses of + their fate. On which side, I ask, is the advantage?" But all men, + she adds, are not so unjust towards the prostitute, and she + proceeds to pronounce a eulogy, not without a slight touch of + irony in it, of the utility, facility, and convenience of the + brothel.</p> + +<p> A large number of the modern writers on prostitution insist on + its socially beneficial character. Thus Charles Richard concludes + his book on the subject with the words: "The conduct of society + with regard to prostitution must proceed from the principle of + gratitude without false shame for its utility, and compassion for + the poor creatures at whose expense this is attained" (<i>La + Prostitution devant le Philosophe</i>, 1882, p. 171). "To make + marriage permanent is to make it difficult," an American medical + writer observes; "to make it difficult is to defer it; to defer + it is to maintain in the community an increasing number of + sexually perfect individuals, with normal, or, in cases where + repression is prolonged, excessive sexual appetites. The social + evil is the natural outcome of the physical nature of man, his + inherited impulses, and the artificial conditions under which he + is compelled to live" ("The Social Evil," <i>Medicine</i>, August and + September, 1906). Woods Hutchinson, while speaking with strong + disapproval of prostitution and regarding prostitutes as "the + worst specimens of the sex," yet regards prostitution as a social + agency of the highest value. "From a medico-economic point of + view I venture to claim it as one of the grand selective and + eliminative agencies of nature, and of highest value to the + community. It may be roughly characterized as a safety valve for + the institution of marriage" (<i>The Gospel According to Darwin</i>, + p. 193; <i>cf.</i> the same author's article on "The Economics of + Prostitution," summarized in <i>Boston Medical and Surgical + Journal</i>, November 21, 1895). Adolf Gerson, in a somewhat similar + spirit, argues ("Die Ursache der Prostitution," + <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, September, 1908) that "prostitution is one of + the means used by Nature to limit the procreative activity of + men, and especially to postpone the period of sexual maturity." + Molinari considers that the social benefits of prostitution have + been manifested in various ways from the first; by sterilizing, + for instance, the more excessive manifestations of the sexual + impulse prostitution suppressed the necessity for the infanticide + of superfluous children, and led to the prohibition of that + primitive method of limiting the population (G. de Molinari, <i>La + Viriculture</i>, p. 45). In quite another way than that mentioned by + Molinari, prostitution has even in very recent times led to the + abandonment of infanticide. In the Chinese province of Ping-Yang, + Matignon states, it was usual not many years ago for poor parents + to kill forty per cent. of the girl children, or even all of + them, at birth, for they were too expensive to rear and brought + nothing in, since men who wished to marry could easily obtain a + wife <a name='6_Page_287'></a>in the neighboring province of Wenchu, where women were + very easy to obtain. Now, however, the line of steamships along + the coast makes it very easy for girls to reach the brothels of + Shang-Hai, where they can earn money for their families; the + custom of killing them has therefore died out (Matignon, + <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, 1896, p. 72). "Under + present conditions," writes Dr. F. Erhard ("Auch ein Wort zur + Ehereform," <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, Jahrgang I, Heft 9), + "prostitution (in the broadest sense, including free + relationships) is necessary in order that young men may, in some + degree, learn to know women, for conventional conversation cannot + suffice for this; an exact knowledge of feminine thought and + action is, however, necessary for a proper choice, since it is + seldom possible to rely on the certainty of instinct. It is good + also that men should wear off their horns before marriage, for + the polygamous tendency will break through somewhere. + Prostitution will only spoil those men in whom there is not much + to spoil, and if the desire for marriage is thus lost, the man's + unbegotten children may have cause to thank him." Neisser, Näcke, + and many others, have pleaded for prostitution, and even for + brothels, as "necessary evils."</p> + +<p> It is scarcely necessary to add that many, among even the + strongest upholders of the moral advantages of prostitution, + believe that some improvement in method is still desirable. Thus + Bérault looks forward to a time when regulated brothels will + become less contemptible. Various improvements may, he thinks, in + the near future, "deprive them of the barbarous attributes which + mark them out for the opprobrium of the skeptical or ignorant + multitude, while their recognizable advantages will put an end to + the contempt aroused by their cynical aspect" (<i>La Maison de + Tolérance</i>, Thèse de Paris, 1904).</p></div> + +<p>4. <i>The Civilizational Value of Prostitution.</i>—The moral argument for +prostitution is based on the belief that our marriage system is so +infinitely precious that an institution which serves as its buttress must +be kept in existence, however ugly or otherwise objectionable it may in +itself be. There is, however, another argument in support of prostitution +which scarcely receives the emphasis it deserves. I refer to its influence +in adding an element, in some form or another necessary, of gaiety and +variety to the ordered complexity of modern life, a relief from the +monotony of its mechanical routine, a distraction from its dull and +respectable monotony. This is distinct from the more specific function of +prostitution as an outlet for superfluous sexual energy, and may even +affect those who have <a name='6_Page_288'></a>little or no commerce with prostitutes. This +element may be said to constitute the civilizational value of +prostitution.</p> + +<p>It is not merely the general conditions of civilization, but more +specifically the conditions of urban life, which make this factor +insistent. Urban life imposes by the stress of competition a very severe +and exacting routine of dull work. At the same time it makes men and women +more sensitive to new impressions, more enamored of excitement and change. +It multiplies the opportunities of social intercourse; it decreases the +chances of detection of illegitimate intercourse while at the same time it +makes marriage more difficult, for, by heightening social ambitions and +increasing the expenses of living, it postpones the time when a home can +be created. Urban life delays marriage and yet renders the substitutes for +marriage more imperative.<a name='6_FNanchor_201'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_201'><sup>[201]</sup></a></p> + +<p>There cannot be the slightest doubt that it is this motive—the effort to +supplement the imperfect opportunities for self-development offered by our +restrained, mechanical, and laborious civilization—which plays one of the +chief parts in inducing women to adopt, temporarily or permanently, a +prostitute's life. We have seen that the economic factor is not, as was +once supposed, by any means predominant in this choice. Nor, again, is +there any reason to suppose that an over-mastering sexual impulse is a +leading factor. But a large number of young women turn instinctively to a +life of prostitution because they are moved by an obscure impulse which +they can scarcely define to themselves or express, and are often ashamed +to confess. It is, therefore, surprising that this motive should find so +large a place even in the formal statistics of the factors of +prostitution. Merrick, in London, found that 5000, or nearly a third, of +the prostitutes he investigated, voluntarily gave up home or situation +"for a life of pleasure," and he puts this at the head of the causes of +<a name='6_Page_289'></a>prostitution.<a name='6_FNanchor_202'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_202'><sup>[202]</sup></a> In America Sanger found that "inclination" came almost +at the head of the causes of prostitution, while Woods Hutchinson found +"love of display, luxury and idleness" by far at the head. "Disgusted and +wearied with work" is the reason assigned by a large number of Belgian +girls when stating to the police their wish to be enrolled as prostitutes. +In Italy a similar motive is estimated to play an important part. In +Russia "desire for amusement" comes second among the causes of +prostitution. There can, I think, be little doubt that, as a thoughtful +student of London life has concluded, the problem of prostitution is "at +bottom a mad and irresistible craving for excitement, a serious and wilful +revolt against the monotony of commonplace ideals, and the uninspired +drudgery of everyday life."<a name='6_FNanchor_203'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_203'><sup>[203]</sup></a> It is this factor of prostitution, we may +reasonably conclude, which is mainly responsible for the fact, pointed out +by F. Schiller,<a name='6_FNanchor_204'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_204'><sup>[204]</sup></a> that with the development of civilization the supply +of prostitutes tends to outgrow the demand.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Charles Booth seems to be of the same opinion, and quotes (<i>Life + and Labor of the People</i>, Third Series, vol. vii, p. 364) from a + Rescue Committee Report: "The popular idea is, that these women + are eager to leave a life of sin. The plain and simple truth is + that, for the most part, they have no desire at all to be + rescued. So many of these women do not, and will not, regard + prostitution as a sin. 'I am taken out to dinner and to some + place of amusement every night; why should I give it up?'" + Merrick, who found that five per cent. of 14,000 prostitutes who + passed through Millbank Prison, were accustomed to combine + religious observance with the practice of their profession, also + remarks in regard to their feelings about morality: "I am + convinced that there are many poor men and women who do not in + the least understand what is <a name='6_Page_290'></a>implied in the term 'immorality.' + Out of courtesy to you, they may assent to what you say, but they + do not comprehend your meaning when you talk of virtue or purity; + you are simply talking over their heads" (Merrick, <i>op. cit.</i>, p. + 28). The same attitude may be found among prostitutes everywhere. + In Italy Ferriani mentions a girl of fifteen who, when accused of + indecency with a man in a public garden, denied with tears and + much indignation. He finally induced her to confess, and then + asked her: "Why did you try to make me believe you were a good + girl?" She hesitated, smiled, and said: "Because <i>they say</i> girls + ought not to do what I do, but ought to work. But I am what I am, + and it is no concern of theirs." This attitude is often more than + an instinctive feeling; in intelligent prostitutes it frequently + becomes a reasoned conviction. "I can bear everything, if so it + must be," wrote the author of the <i>Tagebuch einer Verlorenen</i> (p. + 291), "even serious and honorable contempt, but I cannot bear + scorn. Contempt—yes, if it is justified. If a poor and pretty + girl with sick and bitter heart stands alone in life, cast off, + with temptations and seductions offering on every side, and, in + spite of that, out of inner conviction she chooses the grey and + monotonous path of renunciation and middle-class morality, I + recognize in that girl a personality, who has a certain + justification in looking down with contemptuous pity on weaker + girls. But those geese who, under the eyes of their shepherds and + life-long owners, have always been pastured in smooth green + fields, have certainly no right to laugh scornfully at others who + have not been so fortunate." Nor must it be supposed that there + is necessarily any sophistry in the prostitute's justification of + herself. Some of our best thinkers and observers have reached a + conclusion that is not dissimilar. "The actual conditions of + society are opposed to any high moral feeling in women," Marro + observes (<i>La Pubertà</i>, p. 462), "for between those who sell + themselves to prostitution and those who sell themselves to + marriage, the only difference is in price and duration of the + contract."</p></div> + +<p>We have already seen how very large a part in prostitution is furnished by +those who have left domestic service to adopt this life (<i>ante</i> p. 264). +It is not difficult to find in this fact evidence of the kind of impulse +which impels a woman to adopt the career of prostitution. "The servant, in +our society of equality," wrote Goncourt, recalling somewhat earlier days +when she was often admitted to a place in the family life, "has become +nothing but a paid pariah, a machine for doing household work, and is no +longer allowed to share the employer's human life."<a name='6_FNanchor_205'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_205'><sup>[205]</sup></a> And in England, +<a name='6_Page_291'></a>even half a century ago, we already find the same statements concerning +the servant's position: "domestic service is a complete slavery," with +early hours and late hours, and constant running up and down stairs till +her legs are swollen; "an amount of ingenuity appears too often to be +exercised, worthy of a better cause, in obtaining the largest possible +amount of labor out of the domestic machine"; in addition she is "a kind +of lightning conductor," to receive the ill-temper and morbid feelings of +her mistress and the young ladies; so that, as some have said, "I felt so +miserable I did not care what became of me, I wished I was dead."<a name='6_FNanchor_206'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_206'><sup>[206]</sup></a> The +servant is deprived of all human relationships; she must not betray the +existence of any simple impulse, or natural need. At the same time she +lives on the fringe of luxury; she is surrounded by the tantalizing +visions of pleasure and amusement for which her fresh young nature +craves.<a name='6_FNanchor_207'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_207'><sup>[207]</sup></a> It is not surprising that, repelled by unrelieved drudgery +and attracted by idle luxury, she should take the plunge which will alone +enable her to enjoy the glittering aspects of civilization which seem so +desirable to her.<a name='6_FNanchor_208'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_208'><sup>[208]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is sometimes stated that the prevalence of prostitution among + girls who were formerly servants is due to the immense numbers of + servants who are seduced by their masters or the young men of the + family, and are thus forced on to the streets. Undoubtedly in a + certain proportion of cases, perhaps sometimes a fairly + considerable proportion, this is a decisive factor in the matter, + but it scarcely seems to be the chief factor. The existence of + relationships between servants and masters, it must be + remembered, by no means necessarily implies seduction.<a name='6_Page_292'></a> In a + large number of cases the servant in a household is, in sexual + matters, the teacher rather than the pupil. (In "The Sexual + Impulse in Women," in the third volume of these <i>Studies</i>, I have + discussed the part played by servants as sexual initiators of the + young boys in the households in which they are placed.) The more + precise statistics of the causes of prostitution seldom assign + seduction as the main determining factor in more than about + twenty per cent. of cases, though this is obviously one of the + most easily avowable motives (see <i>ante</i>, p. 256). Seduction by + any kind of employer constitutes only a proportion (usually less + than half) even of these cases. The special case of seduction of + servants by masters can thus play no very considerable part as a + factor of prostitution.</p> + +<p> The statistics of the parentage of illegitimate children have + some bearing on this question. In a series of 180 unmarried + mothers assisted by the Berlin Bund für Mutterschutz, particulars + are given of the occupations both of the mothers, and, as far as + possible, of the fathers. The former were one-third + servant-girls, and the great majority of the remainder assistants + in trades or girls carrying on work at home. At the head of the + fathers (among 120 cases) came artisans (33), followed by + tradespeople (22); only a small proportion (20 to 25) could be + described as "gentlemen," and even this proportion loses some of + its significance when it is pointed out that some of the girls + were also of the middle-class; in nineteen cases the fathers were + married men (<i>Mutterschutz</i>, January, 1907, p. 45).</p> + +<p> Most authorities in most countries are of opinion that girls who + eventually (usually between the ages of fifteen and twenty) + become prostitutes have lost their virginity at an early age, and + in the great majority of cases through men of their own class. + "The girl of the people falls by the people," stated Reuss in + France (<i>La Prostitution</i>, p. 41). "It is her like, workers like + herself, who have the first fruits of her beauty and virginity. + The man of the world who covers her with gold and jewels only has + their leavings." Martineau, again (<i>De la Prostitution + Clandestine</i>, 1885), showed that prostitutes are usually + deflowered by men of their own class. And Jeannel, in Bordeaux, + found reason for believing that it is not chiefly their masters + who lead servants astray; they often go into service because they + have been seduced in the country, while lazy, greedy, and + unintelligent girls are sent from the country into the town to + service. In Edinburgh, W. Tait (<i>Magdalenism</i>, 1842) found that + soldiers more than any other class in the community are the + seducers of women, the Highlanders being especially notorious in + this respect. Soldiers have this reputation everywhere, and in + Germany especially it is constantly found that the presence of + the soldiery in a country district, as at the annual manœuvres, + is the cause of unchastity and illegitimate births; it is + so also in Austria, where, long ago,<a name='6_Page_293'></a> Gross-Hoffinger stated that + soldiers were responsible for at least a third of all + illegitimate births, a share out of all proportion to their + numbers. In Italy, Marro, investigating the occasion of the loss + of virginity in twenty-two prostitutes, found that ten gave + themselves more or less spontaneously to lovers or masters, ten + yielded in the expectation of marriage, and two were outraged + (<i>La Pubertà</i>, p. 461). The loss of virginity, Marro adds, though + it may not be the direct cause of prostitution, often leads on to + it. "When a door has once been broken in," a prostitute said to + him, "it is difficult to keep it closed." In Sardinia, as A. + Mantegazza and Ciuffo found, prostitutes are very largely + servants from the country who have already been deflowered by men + of their own class.</p></div> + +<p>This civilizational factor of prostitution, the influence of luxury and +excitement and refinement in attracting the girl of the people, as the +flame attracts the moth, is indicated by the fact that it is the +country-dwellers who chiefly succumb to the fascination. The girls whose +adolescent explosive and orgiastic impulses, sometimes increased by a +slight congenital lack of nervous balance, have been latent in the dull +monotony of country life and heightened by the spectacle of luxury acting +on the unrelieved drudgery of town life, find at last their complete +gratification in the career of a prostitute. To the town girl, born and +bred in the town, this career has not usually much attraction, unless she +has been brought up from the first in an environment that predisposes her +to adopt it. She is familiar from childhood with the excitements of urban +civilization and they do not intoxicate her; she is, moreover, more shrewd +to take care of herself than the country girl, and too well acquainted +with the real facts of the prostitute's life to be very anxious to adopt +her career. Beyond this, also, it is probable that the stocks she belongs +to possess a native or acquired power of resistance to unbalancing +influences which has enabled them to survive in urban life. She has become +immune to the poisons of that life.<a name='6_FNanchor_209'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_209'><sup>[209]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_294'></a> +<div class='blkquot'><p>In all great cities a large proportion, if not the majority, of + the inhabitants have usually been born outside the city (in + London only about fifty per cent. of heads of households are + definitely reported as born in London); and it is not therefore + surprising that prostitutes also should often be outsiders. Still + it remains a significant fact that so typically urban a + phenomenon as prostitution should be so largely recruited from + the country. This is everywhere the case. Merrick enumerates the + regions from which came some 14,000 prostitutes who passed + through Millbank Prison. Middlesex, Kent, Surrey, Essex and Devon + are the counties that stand at the head, and Merrick estimates + that the contingent of London from the four counties which make + up London was 7000, or one-half of the whole; military towns like + Colchester and naval ports like Plymouth supply many prostitutes + to London; Ireland furnished many more than Scotland, and Germany + far more than any other European country, France being scarcely + represented at all (Merrick, <i>Work Among the Fallen</i>, 1890, pp. + 14-18). It is, of course, possible that the proportions among + those who pass through a prison do not accurately represent the + proportions among prostitutes generally. The registers of the + London Salvation Army Rescue Home show that sixty per cent. of + the girls and women come from the provinces (A. Sherwell, <i>Life + in West London</i>, Ch. V). This is exactly the same proportion as + Tait found among prostitutes generally, half a century earlier, + in Edinburgh. Sanger found that of 2000 prostitutes in New York + as many as 1238 were born abroad (706 in Ireland), while of the + remaining 762 only half were born in the State of New York, and + clearly (though the exact figures are not given) a still smaller + proportion in New York City. Prostitutes come from the + North—where the climate is uncongenial, and manufacturing and + sedentary occupations prevail—much more than from the South; + thus Maine, a cold bleak maritime State, sent twenty-four of + these prostitutes to New York, while equidistant Virginia, which + at the same rate should have sent seventy-two, only sent nine; + there was a similar difference between Rhode Island and Maryland + (Sanger, <i>History of Prostitution</i>, p. 452). It is instructive to + see here the influence of a dreary climate and monotonous labor + in stimulating the appetite for a "life of pleasure." In France, + as shown by a map in Parent-Duchâtelet's work (vol. i, pp. 37-64, + 1857), if the country is divided into five zones, on the whole + running east and west, there is a steady and progressive decrease + in the number of prostitutes each zone sends to Paris, as we + descend southwards. Little more than a third seem to belong to + Paris, and, as in America, it is the serious and hard-working + North, with its relatively cold climate, which furnishes the + largest contingent; even in old France, Dufour remarks (<i>op. + cit.</i>, vol. iv, Ch. XV), prostitution, as the <i>fabliaux</i> and + <i>romans</i> show, was less infamous in the <i>langue d'oil</i> than in + the <i>langue d'oc</i>, so that they were <a name='6_Page_295'></a>doubtless rare in the + South. At a later period Reuss states (<i>La Prostitution</i>, p. 12) + that "nearly all the prostitutes of Paris come from the + provinces." Jeannel found that of one thousand Bordeaux + prostitutes only forty-six belonged to the city itself, and + Potton (Appendix to Parent-Duchâtelet, vol. ii, p. 446) states + that of nearly four thousand Lyons prostitutes only 376 belonged + to Lyons. In Vienna, in 1873, Schrank remarks that of over 1500 + prostitutes only 615 were born in Vienna. The general rule, it + will be seen, though the variations are wide, is that little more + than a third of a city's prostitutes are children of the city.</p> + +<p> It is interesting to note that this tendency of the prostitute to + reach cities from afar, this migratory tendency—which they + nowadays share with waiters—is no merely modern phenomenon. + "There are few cities in Lombardy, or France, or Gaul," wrote St. + Boniface nearly twelve centuries ago, "in which there is not an + adulteress or prostitute of the English nation," and the Saint + attributes this to the custom of going on pilgrimage to foreign + shrines. At the present time there is no marked English element + among Continental prostitutes. Thus in Paris, according to Reuss + (<i>La Prostitution</i>, p. 12), the foreign prostitutes in decreasing + order are Belgian, German (Alsace-Lorraine), Swiss (especially + Geneva), Italian, Spanish, and only then English. Connoisseurs in + this matter say, indeed, that the English prostitute, as compared + with her Continental (and especially French) sister, fails to + show to advantage, being usually grasping as regards money and + deficient in charm.</p></div> + +<p>It is the appeal of civilization, though not of what is finest and best in +civilization, which more than any other motive, calls women to the career +of a prostitute. It is now necessary to point out that for the man also, +the same appeal makes itself felt in the person of the prostitute. The +common and ignorant assumption that prostitution exists to satisfy the +gross sensuality of the young unmarried man, and that if he is taught to +bridle gross sexual impulse or induced to marry early the prostitute must +be idle, is altogether incorrect. If all men married when quite young, not +only would the remedy be worse than the disease—a point which it would be +out of place to discuss here—but the remedy would not cure the disease. +The prostitute is something more than a channel to drain off superfluous +sexual energy, and her attraction by no means ceases when men are married, +for a large number of the men who visit prostitutes, if not the majority, +<a name='6_Page_296'></a>are married. And alike whether they are married or unmarried the motive +is not one of uncomplicated lust.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In England, a well-informed writer remarks that "the value of + marriage as a moral agent is evidenced by the fact that all the + better-class prostitutes in London are almost entirely supported + by married men," while in Germany, as stated in the interesting + series of reminiscences by a former prostitute, Hedwig Hard's + <i>Beichte einer Gefallenen</i>, (p. 208), the majority of the men who + visit prostitutes are married. The estimate is probably + excessive. Neisser states that only twenty-five per cent. of + cases of gonorrhœa occur in married men. This indication + is probably misleading in the opposite direction, as the married + would be less reckless than the young and unmarried. As regards + the motives which lead married men to prostitutes, Hedwig Hard + narrates from her own experiences an incident which is + instructive and no doubt typical. In the town in which she lived + quietly as a prostitute a man of the best social class was + introduced by a friend, and visited her habitually. She had often + seen and admired his wife, who was one of the beauties of the + place, and had two charming children; husband and wife seemed + devoted to each other, and every one envied their happiness. He + was a man of intellect and culture who encouraged Hedwig's love + of books; she became greatly attached to him, and one day + ventured to ask him how he could leave his lovely and charming + wife to come to one who was not worthy to tie her shoe-lace. + "Yes, my child," he answered, "but all her beauty and culture + brings nothing to my heart. She is cold, cold as ice, proper, + and, above all, phlegmatic. Pampered and spoilt, she lives only + for herself; we are two good comrades, and nothing more. If, for + instance, I come back from the club in the evening and go to her + bed, perhaps a little excited, she becomes nervous and she thinks + it improper to wake her. If I kiss her she defends herself, and + tells me that I smell horribly of cigars and wine. And if perhaps + I attempt more, she jumps out of bed, bristles up as though I + were assaulting her, and threatens to throw herself out of the + window if I touch her. So, for the sake of peace, I leave her + alone and come to you." There can be no doubt whatever that this + is the experience of many married men who would be well content + to find the sweetheart as well as the friend in their wives. But + the wives, from a variety of causes, have proved incapable of + becoming the sexual mates of their husbands. And the husbands, + without being carried away by any impulse of strong passion or + any desire for infidelity, seek abroad what they cannot find at + home.</p> + +<p> This is not the only reason why married men visit prostitutes. + Even men who are happily married to women in all chief respects + fitted to them, are apt to find, after some years of married + life, a mysterious <a name='6_Page_297'></a>craving for variety. They are not tired of + their wives, they have not the least wish or intention to abandon + them, they will not, if they can help it, give them the slightest + pain. But from time to time they are led by an almost + irresistible and involuntary impulse to seek a temporary intimacy + with women to whom nothing would persuade them to join themselves + permanently. Pepys, whose <i>Diary</i>, in addition to its other + claims upon us, is a psychological document of unique importance, + furnishes a very characteristic example of this kind of impulse. + He had married a young and charming wife, to whom he is greatly + attached, and he lives happily with her, save for a few + occasional domestic quarrels soon healed by kisses; his love is + witnessed by his jealousy, a jealousy which, as he admits, is + quite unreasonable, for she is a faithful and devoted wife. Yet a + few years after marriage, and in the midst of a life of strenuous + official activity, Pepys cannot resist the temptation to seek the + temporary favors of other women, seldom prostitutes, but nearly + always women of low social class—shop women, workmen's wives, + superior servant-girls. Often he is content to invite them to a + quiet ale-house, and to take a few trivial liberties. Sometimes + they absolutely refuse to allow more than this; when that happens + he frequently thanks Almighty God (as he makes his entry in his + <i>Diary</i> at night) that he has been saved from temptation and from + loss of time and money; in any case, he is apt to vow that it + shall never occur again. It always does occur again. Pepys is + quite sincere with himself; he makes no attempt at justification + or excuse; he knows that he has yielded to a temptation; it is an + impulse that comes over him at intervals, an impulse that he + seems unable long to resist. Throughout it all he remains an + estimable and diligent official, and in most respects a tolerably + virtuous man, with a genuine dislike of loose people and loose + talk. The attitude of Pepys is brought out with incomparable + simplicity and sincerity because he is setting down these things + for his own eyes only, but his case is substantially that of a + vast number of other men, perhaps indeed of the typical <i>homme + moyen sensuel</i> (see Pepys, <i>Diary</i>, ed. Wheatley; <i>e.g.</i>, vol. + iv, passim).</p> + +<p> There is a third class of married men, less considerable in + number but not unimportant, who are impelled to visit + prostitutes: the class of sexually perverted men. There are a + great many reasons why such men may desire to be married, and in + some cases they marry women with whom they find it possible to + obtain the particular form of sexual gratification they crave. + But in a large proportion of cases this is not possible. The + conventionally bred woman often cannot bring herself to humor + even some quite innocent fetishistic whim of her husband's, for + it is too alien to her feelings and too incomprehensible to her + ideas, even though she may be genuinely in love with him; in many + cases the husband would not venture to ask, and scarcely even + wish, that his wife <a name='6_Page_298'></a>should lend herself to play the fantastic or + possibly degrading part his desires demand. In such a case he + turns naturally to the prostitute, the only woman whose business + it is to fulfil his peculiar needs. Marriage has brought no + relief to these men, and they constitute a noteworthy proportion + of a prostitute's clients in every great city. The most ordinary + prostitute of any experience can supply cases from among her own + visitors to illustrate a treatise of psychopathic sexuality. It + may suffice here to quote a passage from the confessions of a + young London (Strand) prostitute as written down from her lips by + a friend to whom I am indebted for the document; I have merely + turned a few colloquial terms into more technical forms. After + describing how, when she was still a child of thirteen in the + country, a rich old gentleman would frequently come and exhibit + himself before her and other girls, and was eventually arrested + and imprisoned, she spoke of the perversities she had met with + since she had become a prostitute. She knew a young man, about + twenty-five, generally dressed in a sporting style, who always + came with a pair of live pigeons, which he brought in a basket. + She and the girl with whom she lived had to undress and take the + pigeons and wring their necks; he would stand in front of them, + and as the necks were wrung orgasm occurred. Once a man met her + in the street and asked her if he might come with her and lick + her boots. She agreed, and he took her to a hotel, paid half a + guinea for a room, and, when she sat down, got under the table + and licked her boots, which were covered with mud; he did nothing + more. Then there were some things, she said, that were too dirty + to repeat; well, one man came home with her and her friend and + made them urinate into his mouth. She also had stories of + flagellation, generally of men who whipped the girls, more rarely + of men who liked to be whipped by them. One man, who brought a + new birch every time, liked to whip her friend until he drew + blood. She knew another man who would do nothing but smack her + nates violently. Now all these things, which come into the + ordinary day's work of the prostitute, are rooted in deep and + almost irresistible impulses (as will be clear to any reader of + the discussion of Erotic Symbolism in the previous volume of + these <i>Studies</i>). They must find some outlet. But it is only the + prostitute who can be relied upon, through her interests and + training, to overcome the natural repulsion to such actions, and + gratify desires which, without gratification, might take on other + and more dangerous forms.</p></div> + +<p>Although Woods Hutchinson quotes with approval the declaration of a +friend, "Out of thousands I have never seen one with good table manners," +there is still a real sense in which the prostitute represents, however +inadequately, the attraction of <a name='6_Page_299'></a>civilization. "There was no house in +which I could habitually see a lady's face and hear a lady's voice," wrote +the novelist Anthony Trollope in his <i>Autobiography</i>, concerning his early +life in London. "No allurement to decent respectability came in my way. It +seems to me that in such circumstances the temptations of loose life will +almost certainly prevail with a young man. The temptation at any rate +prevailed with me." In every great city, it has been said, there are +thousands of men who have no right to call any woman but a barmaid by her +Christian name.<a name='6_FNanchor_210'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_210'><sup>[210]</sup></a> All the brilliant fever of civilization pulses round +them in the streets but their lips never touch it. It is the prostitute +who incarnates this fascination of the city, far better than the virginal +woman, even if intimacy with her were within reach. The prostitute +represents it because she herself feels it, because she has even +sacrificed her woman's honor in the effort to identify herself with it. +She has unbridled feminine instincts, she is a mistress of the feminine +arts of adornment, she can speak to him concerning the mysteries of +womanhood and the luxuries of sex with an immediate freedom and knowledge +the innocent maiden cloistered in her home would be incapable of. She +appeals to him by no means only because she can gratify the lower desires +of sex, but also because she is, in her way, an artist, an expert in the +art of feminine exploitation, a leader of feminine fashions. For she is +this, and there are, as Simmel has stated in his <i>Philosophie der Mode</i>, +good psychological reasons why she always should be this. Her uncertain +social position makes all that is conventional and established hateful to +her, while her temperament makes perpetual novelty delightful. In new +fashions she finds "an æsthetic form of that instinct of destruction which +seems peculiar to all pariah existences, in so far as they are not +completely enslaved in spirit."</p> +<a name='6_Page_300'></a> +<div class='blkquot'><p>"However surprising it may seem to some," a modern writer + remarks, "prostitutes must be put on the same level as artists. + Both use their gifts and talents for the joy and pleasure of + others, and, as a rule, for payment. What is the essential + difference between a singer who gives pleasure to hearers by her + throat and a prostitute who gives pleasure to those who seek her + by another part of her body? All art works on the senses." He + refers to the significant fact that actors, and especially + actresses, were formerly regarded much as prostitutes are now (R. + Hellmann, <i>Ueber Geschlechtsfreiheit</i>, pp. 245-252).</p> + +<p> Bernaldo de Quirós and Llanas Aguilaniedo (<i>La Mala Vida en + Madrid</i>, p. 242) trace the same influence still lower in the + social scale. They are describing the more squalid kind of <i>café + chantant</i>, in which, in Spain and elsewhere, the most vicious and + degenerate feminine creatures become waitresses (and occasionally + singers and dancers), playing the part of amiable and + distinguished <i>hetairæ</i> to the public of carmen and shop-boys who + frequent these resorts. "Dressed with what seems to the youth + irreproachable taste, with hair elaborately prepared, and clean + face adorned with flowers or trinkets, affable and at times + haughty, superior in charm and in finery to the other women he is + able to know, the waitresses become the most elevated example of + the <i>femme galante</i> whom he is able to contemplate and talk to, + the courtesan of his sphere."</p></div> + +<p>But while to the simple, ignorant, and hungry youth the prostitute appeals +as the embodiment of many of the refinements and perversities of +civilization, on many more complex and civilized men she exerts an +attraction of an almost reverse kind. She appeals by her fresh and natural +coarseness, her frank familiarity with the crudest facts of life; and so +lifts them for a moment out of the withering atmosphere of artificial +thought and unreal sentiment in which so many civilized persons are +compelled to spend the greater part of their lives. They feel in the words +which the royal friend of a woman of this temperament is said to have used +in explaining her incomprehensible influence over him: "She is so +splendidly vulgar!"</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In illustration of this aspect of the appeal of prostitution, I + may quote a passage in which the novelist, Hermant, in his + <i>Confession d'un Enfant d'Hier</i> (Lettre VII), has set down the + reasons which may lead the super-refined child of a cultured age, + yet by no means radically or completely vicious, to find + satisfaction in commerce with prostitutes: "As long as my heart + was not touched the object of my satisfaction was completely + indifferent to me. I was, moreover, a great lover of absolute + <a name='6_Page_301'></a>liberty, which is only possible in the circle of these anonymous + creatures and in their reserved dwelling. There everything became + permissible. With other women, however low we may seek them, + certain convenances must be observed, a kind of protocol. To + these one can say everything: one is protected by incognito and + assured that nothing will be divulged. I profited by this + freedom, which suited my age, but with a perverse fancy which was + not characteristic of my years. I scarcely know where I found + what I said to them, for it was the opposite of my tastes, which + were simple, and, if I may venture to say so, classic. It is true + that, in matters of love, unrestrained naturalism always tends to + perversion, a fact that can only seem paradoxical at first sight. + Primitive peoples have many traits in common with degenerates. It + was, however, only in words that I was unbridled; and that was + the only occasion on which I can recollect seriously lying. But + that necessity, which I then experienced, of expelling a lower + depth of ignoble instincts, seems to me characteristic and + humiliating. I may add that even in the midst of these + dissipations I retained a certain reserve. The contacts to which + I exposed myself failed to soil me; nothing was left when I had + crossed the threshold. I have always retained, from that forcible + and indifferent commerce, the habit of attributing no consequence + to the action of the flesh. The amorous function, which religion + and morality have surrounded with mystery or seasoned with sin, + seems to me a function like any other, a little vile, but + agreeable, and one to which the usual epilogue is too long.... + This kind of companionship only lasted for a short time." This + analysis of the attitude of a certain common type of civilized + modern man seems to be just, but it may perhaps occur to some + readers that a commerce which led to "the action of the flesh" + being regarded as of no consequence can scarcely be said to have + left no taint.</p> + +<p> In a somewhat similar manner, Henri de Régnier, in his novel, + <i>Les Rencontres de Monsieur Bréot</i> (p. 50), represents Bercaillé + as deliberately preferring to take his pleasures with + servant-girls rather than with ladies, for pleasure was, to his + mind, a kind of service, which could well be accommodated with + the services they are accustomed to give; and then they are + robust and agreeable, they possess the <i>naïveté</i> which is always + charming in the common people, and they are not apt to be + repelled by those little accidents which might offend the + fastidious sensibilities of delicately bred ladies.</p> + +<p> Bloch, who has especially emphasized this side of the appeal of + prostitution (<i>Das Sexualleben unserer Zeit</i>, pp. 359-362), + refers to the delicate and sensitive young Danish writer, J. P. + Jakobsen, who seems to have acutely felt the contrast between the + higher and more habitual impulses, and the occasional outburst of + what he felt to be lower instincts; in his <i>Niels Lyhne</i> he + describes the kind of double life in which a man is true for a + fortnight to the god he worships, and is then <a name='6_Page_302'></a>overcome by other + powers which madly bear him in their grip towards what he feels + to be humiliating, perverse, and filthy. "At such moments," Bloch + remarks, "the man is another being. The 'two souls' in the breast + become a reality. Is that the famous scholar, the lofty idealist, + the fine-souled æsthetician, the artist who has given us so many + splendid and pure works in poetry and painting? We no longer + recognize him, for at such moments another being has come to the + surface, another nature is moving within him, and with the power + of an elementary force is impelling him towards things at which + his 'upper consciousness,' the civilized man within him, would + shudder." Bloch believes that we are here concerned with a kind + of normal masculine masochism, which prostitution serves to + gratify.</p></div> +<br /> +<hr /> +<a name='6_IV'></a><h4>IV. The Present Social Attitude Towards Prostitution.</h4> + +<p>We have now surveyed the complex fact of prostitution in some of its most +various and typical aspects, seeking to realise, intelligently and +sympathetically, the fundamental part it plays as an elementary +constituent of our marriage system. Finally we have to consider the +grounds on which prostitution now appears to a large and growing number of +persons not only an unsatisfactory method of sexual gratification but a +radically bad method.</p> + +<p>The movement of antagonism towards prostitution manifests itself most +conspicuously, as might beforehand have been anticipated, by a feeling of +repugnance towards the most ancient and typical, once the most credited +and best established prostitutional manifestation, the brothel. The growth +of this repugnance is not confined to one or two countries but is +international, and may thus be regarded as corresponding to a real +tendency in our civilization. It is equally pronounced in prostitutes +themselves and in the people who are their clients. The distaste on the +one side increases the distaste on the other. Since only the most helpless +or the most stupid prostitutes are nowadays willing to accept the +servitude of the brothel, the brothel-keeper is forced to resort to +extraordinary methods for entrapping victims, and even to take part in +that cosmopolitan trade in "white slaves"<a name='6_Page_303'></a> which exists solely to feed +brothels.<a name='6_FNanchor_211'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_211'><sup>[211]</sup></a> This state of things has a natural reaction in prejudicing +the clients of prostitution against an institution which is going out of +fashion and out of credit. An even more fundamental antipathy is +engendered by the fact that the brothel fails to respond to the high +degree of personal freedom and variety which civilization produces, and +always demands even when it fails to produce. On one side the prostitute +is disinclined to enter into a slavery which usually fails even to bring +her any reward; on the other side her client feels it as part of the +fascination of prostitution under civilized conditions that he shall enjoy +a freedom and choice the brothel cannot provide.<a name='6_FNanchor_212'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_212'><sup>[212]</sup></a> Thus it comes about +that brothels which once contained nearly all the women who made it a +business to minister to the sexual needs of men, now contain only a +decreasing minority, and that the transformation of cloistered +prostitution into free prostitution is approved by many social reformers +as a gain to the cause of morality.<a name='6_FNanchor_213'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_213'><sup>[213]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The decay of brothels, whether as cause or as effect, has been associated +with a vast increase of prostitution outside brothels. But the repugnance +to brothels in many essential respects also applies to prostitution +generally, and, as we shall see, it is exerting a profoundly modifying +influence on that prostitution.</p> + +<p>The changing feeling in regard to prostitution seems to express itself +mainly in two ways. On the one hand there are those who, without desiring +to abolish prostitution, resent the abnegation which accompanies it, and +are disgusted by its sordid aspects. They may have no moral scruples +against prostitution, <a name='6_Page_304'></a>and they know no reason why a woman should not +freely do as she will with her own person. But they believe that, if +prostitution is necessary, the relationships of men with prostitutes +should be humane and agreeable to each party, and not degrading to either. +It must be remembered that under the conditions of civilized urban life, +the discipline of work is often too severe, and the excitements of urban +existence too constant, to render an abandonment to orgy a desirable +recreation. The gross form of orgy appeals, not to the town-dweller but to +the peasant, and to the sailor or soldier who reaches the town after long +periods of dreary routine and emotional abstinence. It is a mistake, even, +to suppose that the attraction of prostitution is inevitably associated +with the fulfilment of the sexual act. So far is this from being the case +that the most attractive prostitute may be a woman who, possessing few +sexual needs of her own, desires to please by the charm of her +personality; these are among those who most often find good husbands. +There are many men who are even well content merely to have a few hours' +free intimacy with an agreeable woman, without any further favor, although +that may be open to them. For a very large number of men under urban +conditions of existence the prostitute is ceasing to be the degraded +instrument of a moment's lustful desire; they seek an agreeable human +person with whom they may find relaxation from the daily stress or routine +of life. When an act of prostitution is thus put on a humane basis, +although it by no means thereby becomes conducive to the best development +of either party, it at least ceases to be hopelessly degrading. Otherwise +it would not have been possible for religious prostitution to flourish for +so long in ancient days among honorable women of good birth on the shores +of the Mediterranean, even in regions like Lydia, where the position of +women was peculiarly high.<a name='6_FNanchor_214'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_214'><sup>[214]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is true that the monetary side of prostitution would still exist. But +it is possible to exaggerate its importance. It must <a name='6_Page_305'></a>be pointed out that, +though it is usual to speak of the prostitute as a woman who "sells +herself," this is rather a crude and inexact way of expressing, in its +typical form, the relationship of a prostitute to her client. A prostitute +is not a commodity with a market-price, like a loaf or a leg of mutton. +She is much more on a level with people belonging to the professional +classes, who accept fees in return for services rendered; the amount of +the fee varies, on the one hand in accordance with professional standing, +on the other hand in accordance with the client's means, and under special +circumstances may be graciously dispensed with altogether. Prostitution +places on a venal basis intimate relationships which ought to spring up +from natural love, and in so doing degrades them. But strictly speaking +there is in such a case no "sale." To speak of a prostitute "selling +herself" is scarcely even a pardonable rhetorical exaggeration; it is both +inexact and unjust.<a name='6_FNanchor_215'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_215'><sup>[215]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>This tendency in an advanced civilization towards the + humanization of prostitution is the reverse process, we may note, + to that which takes place at an earlier stage of civilization + when the ancient conception of the religious dignity of + prostitution begins to fall into disrepute. When men cease to + reverence women who are prostitutes in the service of a goddess + they set up in their place prostitutes who are merely abject + slaves, flattering themselves that they are thereby working in + the cause of "progress" and "morality." On the shores of the + Mediterranean this process took place more than two thousand + years ago, and is associated with the name of Solon. To-day we + may see the same process going on in India. In some parts of + India (as at Jejuri, near Poonah) first born girls are dedicated + to Khandoba or other gods; they are married to the god and termed + <i>muralis</i>. They serve in the temple, sweep it, and wash <a name='6_Page_306'></a>the holy + vessels, also they dance, sing and prostitute themselves. They + are forbidden to marry, and they live in the homes of their + parents, brothers, or sisters; being consecrated to religious + service, they are untouched by degradation. Nowadays, however, + Indian "reformers," in the name of "civilization and science," + seek to persuade the <i>muralis</i> that they are "plunged in a career + of degradation." No doubt in time the would-be moralists will + drive the <i>muralis</i> out of their temples and their homes, deprive + them of all self-respect, and convert them into wretched + outcasts, all in the cause of "science and civilization" (see, + <i>e.g.</i>, an article by Mrs. Kashibai Deodhar, <i>The New Reformer</i>, + October, 1907). So it is that early reformers create for the + reformers of a later day the task of humanizing prostitution + afresh.</p> + +<p> There can be no doubt that this more humane conception of + prostitution is to-day beginning to be realized in the actual + civilized life of Europe. Thus in writing of prostitution in + Paris, Dr. Robert Michels ("Erotische Streifzüge," + <i>Mutterschutz</i>, 1906, Heft 9, p. 368) remarks: "While in Germany + the prostitute is generally considered as an 'outcast' creature, + and treated accordingly, an instrument of masculine lust to be + used and thrown away, and whom one would under no circumstances + recognize in public, in France the prostitute plays in many + respects the part which once give significance and fame to the + <i>hetairæ</i> of Athens." And after describing the consideration and + respect which the Parisian prostitute is often able to require of + her friends, and the non-sexual relation of comradeship which she + can enter into with other men, the writer continues: "A girl who + certainly yields herself for money, but by no means for the first + comer's money, and who, in addition to her 'business friends,' + feels the need of, so to say, non-sexual companions with whom she + can associate in a free comrade-like way, and by whom she is + treated and valued as a free human being, is not wholly lost for + the moral worth of humanity." All prostitution is bad, Michels + concludes, but we should have reason to congratulate ourselves if + love-relationships of this Parisian species represented the + lowest known form of extra-conjugal sexuality. (As bearing on the + relative consideration accorded to prostitutes I may mention that + a Paris prostitute remarked to a friend of mine that Englishmen + would ask her questions which no Frenchman would venture to ask.)</p> + +<p> It is not, however, only in Paris, although here more markedly + and prominently, that this humanizing change in prostitution is + beginning to make itself felt. It is manifested, for instance, in + the greater openness of a man's sexual life. "While he formerly + slinked into a brothel in a remote street," Dr. Willy Hellpach + remarks (<i>Nervosität und Kultur</i>, p. 169), "he now walks abroad + with his 'liaison,' visiting the theatres and cafés, without + indeed any anxiety to meet his acquaintances, but with no + embarrassment on that point. The thing is becoming more + commonplace, <a name='6_Page_307'></a>more—natural." It is also, Hellpach proceeds to + point out, thus becoming more moral also, and much unwholesome + prudery and pruriency is being done away with.</p> + +<p> In England, where change is slow, this tendency to the + humanization of prostitution may be less pronounced. But it + certainly exists. In the middle of the last century Lecky wrote + (<i>History of European Morals</i>, vol. ii, p. 285) that habitual + prostitution "is in no other European country so hopelessly + vicious or so irrevocable." That statement, which was also made + by Parent-Duchâtelet and other foreign observers, is fully + confirmed by the evidence on record. But it is a statement which + would hardly be made to-day, except perhaps, in reference to + special confined areas of our cities. It is the same in America, + and we may doubtless find this tendency reflected in the report + on <i>The Social Evil</i> (1902), drawn up by a committee in New York, + who gave it (p. 176) as one of their chief recommendations that + prostitution should no longer be regarded as a crime, in which + light, one gathers, it had formerly been regarded in New York. + That may seem but a small step in the path of humanization, but + it is in the right direction.</p> + +<p> It is by no means only in lands of European civilization that we + may trace with developing culture the refinement and humanization + of the slighter bonds of relationship with women. In Japan + exactly the same demands led, several centuries ago, to the + appearance of the geisha. In the course of an interesting and + precise study of the geisha Mr. R. T. Farrer remarks (<i>Nineteenth + Century</i>, April, 1904): "The geisha is in no sense necessarily a + courtesan. She is a woman educated to attract; perfected from her + childhood in all the intricacies of Japanese literature; + practiced in wit and repartee; inured to the rapid give-and-take + of conversation on every topic, human and divine. From her + earliest youth she is broken into an inviolable charm of manner + incomprehensible to the finest European, yet she is almost + invariably a blossom of the lower classes, with dumpy claws, and + squat, ugly nails. Her education, physical and moral, is far + harder than that of the <i>ballerina</i>, and her success is achieved + only after years of struggle and a bitter agony of torture.... + And the geisha's social position may be compared with that of the + European actress. The Geisha-house offers prizes as desirable as + any of the Western stage. A great geisha with twenty nobles + sitting round her, contending for her laughter, and kept in + constant check by the flashing bodkin of her wit, holds a + position no less high and famous than that of Sarah Bernhardt in + her prime. She is equally sought, equally flattered, quite as + madly adored, that quiet little elderly plain girl in dull blue. + But she is prized thus primarily for her tongue, whose power only + ripens fully as her physical charms decline. She demands vast + sums for her owners, and even so often appears and dances only at + her own pleasure. Few, if any, Westerners ever see a <a name='6_Page_308'></a>really + famous geisha. She is too great to come before a European, except + for an august or imperial command. Finally she may, and + frequently does, marry into exalted places. In all this there is + not the slightest necessity for any illicit relation."</p> + +<p> In some respects the position of the ancient Greek <i>hetaira</i> was + more analogous to that of the Japanese <i>geisha</i> than to that of + the prostitute in the strict sense. For the Greeks, indeed, the + <i>hetaira</i>, was not strictly a <i>porne</i> or prostitute at all. The + name meant friend or companion, and the woman to whom the name + was applied held an honorable position, which could not be + accorded to the mere prostitute. Athenæus (Bk. xiii, Chs. + XXVIII-XXX) brings together passages showing that the <i>hetaira</i> + could be regarded as an independent citizen, pure, simple, and + virtuous, altogether distinct from the common crew of + prostitutes, though these might ape her name. The <i>hetairæ</i> "were + almost the only Greek women," says Donaldson (<i>Woman</i>, p. 59), + "who exhibited what was best and noblest in women's nature." This + fact renders it more intelligible why a woman of such + intellectual distinction as Aspasia should have been a <i>hetaira</i>. + There seems little doubt as to her intellectual distinction. + "Æschines, in his dialogue entitled 'Aspasia,'" writes Gomperz, + the historian of Greek philosophy (<i>Greek Thinkers</i>, vol. iii, + pp. 124 and 343), "puts in the mouth of that distinguished woman + an incisive criticism of the mode of life traditional for her + sex. It would be exceedingly strange," Gomperz adds, in arguing + that an inference may thus be drawn concerning the historical + Aspasia, "if three authors—Plato, Xenophon and Æschines—had + agreed in fictitiously enduing the companion of Pericles with + what we might very reasonably have expected her to possess—a + highly cultivated mind and intellectual influence." It is even + possible that the movement for woman's right which, as we dimly + divine through the pages of Aristophanes, took place in Athens in + the fourth century B. C., was led by <i>hetairæ</i>. According to Ivo + Bruns (<i>Frauenemancipation in Athen</i>, 1900, p. 19) "the most + certain information which we possess concerning Aspasia bears a + strong resemblance to the picture which Euripides and + Aristophanes present to us of the leaders of the woman movement." + It was the existence of this movement which made Plato's ideas on + the community of women appear far less absurd than they do to us. + It may perhaps be thought by some that this movement represented + on a higher plane that love of distruction, or, as we should + better say, that spirit of revolt and aspiration, which Simmel + finds to mark the intellectual and artistic activity of those who + are unclassed or dubiously classed in the social hierarchy. Ninon + de Lenclos, as we have seen, was not strictly a courtesan, but + she was a pioneer in the assertion of woman's rights. Aphra Behn + who, a little later in England, occupied a similarly dubious + social position, was likewise a pioneer in generous humanitarian + aspirations, which have since been adopted in the world at + large.</p><a name='6_Page_309'></a> + +<p> These refinements of prostitution may be said to be chiefly the + outcome of the late and more developed stages in civilization. As + Schurtz has put it (<i>Altersklassen und Männerbünde</i>, p. 191): + "The cheerful, skilful and artistically accomplished <i>hetaira</i> + frequently stands as an ideal figure in opposition to the + intellectually uncultivated wife banished to the interior of the + house. The courtesan of the Italian Renaissance, Japanese + geishas, Chinese flower-girls, and Indian bayaderas, all show + some not unnoble features, the breath of a free artistic + existence. They have achieved—with, it is true, the sacrifice of + their highest worth—an independence from the oppressive rule of + man and of household duties, and a part of the feminine endowment + which is so often crippled comes in them to brilliant + development. Prostitution in its best form may thus offer a path + by which these feminine characteristics may exert a certain + influence on the development of civilization. We may also believe + that the artistic activity of women is in some measure able to + offer a counterpoise to the otherwise less pleasant results of + sexual abandonment, preventing the coarsening and destruction of + the emotional life; in his <i>Magda</i> Sudermann has described a type + of woman who, from the standpoint of strict morality, is open to + condemnation, but in her art finds a foothold, the strength of + which even ill-will must unwillingly recognize." In his <i>Sex and + Character</i>, Weininger has developed in a more extreme and + extravagant manner the conception of the prostitute as a + fundamental and essential part of life, a permanent feminine + type.</p></div> + +<p>There are others, apparently in increasing numbers, who approach the +problem of prostitution not from an æsthetic standpoint but from a moral +standpoint. This moral attitude is not, however, that conventionalized +morality of Cato and St. Augustine and Lecky, set forth in previous pages, +according to which the prostitute in the street must be accepted as the +guardian of the wife in the home. These moralists reject indeed the claim +of that belief to be considered moral at all. They hold that it is not +morally possible that the honor of some women shall be purchaseable at the +price of the dishonor of other women, because at such a price virtue loses +all moral worth. When they read that, as Goncourt stated, "the most +luxurious articles of women's <i>trousseaux</i>, the bridal chemises of girls +with dowries of six hundred thousand francs, are made in the prison of +Clairvaux,"<a name='6_FNanchor_216'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_216'><sup>[216]</sup></a> they see the symbol of the intimate dependence of our +luxurious <a name='6_Page_310'></a>virtue on our squalid vice. And while they accept the +historical and sociological evidence which shows that prostitution is an +inevitable part of the marriage system which still survives among us, they +ask whether it is not possible so to modify our marriage system that it +shall not be necessary to divide feminine humanity into "disreputable" +women, who make sacrifices which it is dishonorable to make, and +"respectable" women, who take sacrifices which it cannot be less +dishonorable to accept.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Prostitutes, a distinguished man of science has said (Duclaux, + <i>L'Hygiène Sociale</i>, p. 243), "have become things which the + public uses when it wants them, and throws on the dungheap when + it has made them vile. In its pharisaism it even has the + insolence to treat their trade as shameful, as though it were not + just as shameful to buy as to sell in this market." Bloch + (<i>Sexualleben unserer Zeit</i>, Ch. XV) insists that prostitution + must be ennobled, and that only so can it be even diminished. + Isidore Dyer, of New Orleans, also argues that we cannot check + prostitution unless we create "in the minds of men and women a + spirit of tolerance instead of intolerance of fallen women." This + point may be illustrated by a remark by the prostitute author of + the <i>Tagebuch einer Verlorenen</i>. "If the profession of yielding + the body ceased to be a shameful one," she wrote, "the army of + 'unfortunates' would diminish by four-fifths—I will even say + nine-tenths. Myself, for example! How gladly would I take a + situation as companion or governess!" "One of two things," wrote + the eminent sociologist Tarde ("La Morale Sexuelle," <i>Archives + d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, January, 1907), "either prostitution + will disappear through continuing to be dishonorable and will be + replaced by some other institution which will better remedy the + defects of monogamous marriage, or it will survive by becoming + respectable, that is to say, by making itself respected, whether + liked or disliked." Tarde thought this might perhaps come about + by a better organization of prostitutes, a more careful selection + among those who desired admission to their ranks and the + cultivation of professional virtues which would raise their moral + level. "If courtesans fulfil a need," Balzac had already said in + his <i>Physiologie du Mariage</i>, "they must become an institution."</p></div> + +<p>This moral attitude is supported and enforced by the inevitable democratic +tendency of civilization which, although it by no means destroys the idea +of class, undermines that idea as the mark of fundamental human +distinctions and renders it superficial. Prostitution no longer makes a +woman a slave; it ought not to make her even a pariah: "My body is my +own," said <a name='6_Page_311'></a>the young German prostitute of to-day, "and what I do with it +is nobody else's concern." When the prostitute was literally a slave moral +duty towards her was by no means necessarily identical with moral duty +towards the free woman. But when, even in the same family, the prostitute +may be separated by a great and impassable social gulf from her married +sister, it becomes possible to see, and in the opinion of many +imperatively necessary to see, that a readjustment of moral values is +required. For thousands of years prostitution has been defended on the +ground that the prostitute is necessary to ensure the "purity of women." +In a democratic age it begins to be realized that prostitutes also are +women.</p> + +<p>The developing sense of a fundamental human equality underlying the +surface divisions of class tends to make the usual attitude towards the +prostitute, the attitude of her clients even more than that of society +generally, seem painfully cruel. The callous and coarsely frivolous tone +of so many young men about prostitutes, it has been said, is "simply +cruelty of a peculiarly brutal kind," not to be discerned in any other +relation of life.<a name='6_FNanchor_217'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_217'><sup>[217]</sup></a> And if this attitude is cruel even in speech it is +still more cruel in action, whatever attempts may be made to disguise its +cruelty.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Canon Lyttelton's remarks may be taken to refer chiefly to young + men of the upper middle class. Concerning what is perhaps the + usual attitude of lower middle class people towards prostitution, + I may quote from a remarkable communication which has reached me + from Australia: "What are the views of a young man brought up in + a middle-class Christian English family on prostitutes? Take my + father, for instance. He first mentioned prostitutes to me, if I + remember rightly, when speaking of his life before marriage. And + he spoke of them as he would speak of a horse he had hired, paid + for, and dismissed from his mind when it had rendered him + service. Although my mother was so kind and good she spoke of + abandoned women with disgust and scorn as of some unclean animal. + As it flatters vanity and pride to be able with good countenance + and universal consent to look down on something, I soon grasped + the situation and adopted an attitude which is, in the main, that + of most <a name='6_Page_312'></a>middle-class Christian Englishmen towards prostitutes. + But as puberty develops this attitude has to be accommodated with + the wish to make use of this scum, these moral lepers. The + ordinary young man, who likes a spice of immorality and has it + when in town, and thinks it is not likely to come to his mother's + or sisters' ears, does not get over his arrogance and disgust or + abate them in the least. He takes them with him, more or less + disguised, to the brothel, and they color his thoughts and + actions all the time he is sleeping with prostitutes, or kissing + them, or passing his hands over them, as he would over a mare, + getting as much as he can for his money. To tell the truth, on + the whole, that was my attitude too. But if anyone had asked me + for the smallest reason for this attitude, for this feeling of + superiority, pride, <i>hauteur</i>, and prejudice, I should, like any + other 'respectable' young man, have been entirely at a loss, and + could only have gaped foolishly."</p></div> + +<p>From the modern moral standpoint which now concerns us, not only is the +cruelty involved in the dishonor of the prostitute absurd, but not less +absurd, and often not less cruel, seems the honor bestowed on the +respectable women on the other side of the social gulf. It is well +recognized that men sometimes go to prostitutes to gratify the excitement +aroused by fondling their betrothed.<a name='6_FNanchor_218'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_218'><sup>[218]</sup></a> As the emotional and physical +results of ungratified excitement are not infrequently more serious in +women than in men, the betrothed women in these cases are equally +justified in seeking relief from other men, and the vicious circle of +absurdity might thus be completed.</p> + +<p>From the point of view of the modern moralist there is another +consideration which was altogether overlooked in the conventional and +traditional morality we have inherited, and was indeed practically +non-existent in the ancient days when that morality was still a living +reality. Women are no longer divided only into the two groups of wives who +are to be honored, and prostitutes who are the dishonored guardians of +that honor; there is a large third class of women who are neither wives +nor prostitutes.<a name='6_Page_313'></a> For this group of the unmarried virtuous the traditional +morality had no place at all; it simply ignored them. But the new +moralist, who is learning to recognize both the claims of the individual +and the claims of society, begins to ask whether on the one hand these +women are not entitled to the satisfaction of their affectional and +emotional impulses if they so desire, and on the other hand whether, since +a high civilization involves a diminished birthrate, the community is not +entitled to encourage every healthy and able-bodied woman to contribute to +maintain the birthrate when she so desires.</p> + +<p>All the considerations briefly indicated in the preceding pages—the +fundamental sense of human equality generated by our civilization, the +repugnance to cruelty which accompanies the refinement of urban life, the +ugly contrast of extremes which shock our developing democratic +tendencies, the growing sense of the rights of the individual to authority +over his own person, the no less strongly emphasized right of the +community to the best that the individual can yield—all these +considerations are every day more strongly influencing the modern moralist +to assume towards the prostitute an attitude altogether different from +that of the morality which we derived from Cato and Augustine. He sees the +question in a larger and more dynamic manner. Instead of declaring that it +is well worth while to tolerate and at the same time to condemn the +prostitute, in order to preserve the sanctity of the wife in her home, he +is not only more inclined to regard each as the proper guardian of her own +moral freedom, but he is less certain about the time-honored position of +the prostitute, and moreover, by no means sure that the wife in the home +may not be fully as much in need of rescuing as the prostitute in the +street; he is prepared to consider whether reform in this matter is not +most likely to take place in the shape of a fairer apportionment of sexual +privileges and sexual duties to women generally, with an inevitably +resultant elevation in the sexual lives of men also.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The revolt of many serious reformers against the injustice and + degradation now involved by our system of prostitution is so + profound that some have declared themselves ready to accept any + revolution of <a name='6_Page_314'></a>ideas which would bring about a more wholesome + transmutation of moral values. "Better indeed were a saturnalia + of <i>free</i> men and women," exclaims Edward Carpenter (<i>Love's + Coming of Age</i>, p. 62), "than the spectacle which, as it is, our + great cities present at night."</p> + +<p> Even those who would be quite content with as conservative a + treatment as possible of social institutions still cannot fail to + realize that prostitution is unsatisfactory, unless we are + content to make very humble claims of the sexual act. "The act of + prostitution," Godfrey declares (<i>The Science of Sex</i>, p. 202), + "may be physiologically complete, but it is complete in no other + sense. All the moral and intellectual factors which combine with + physical desire to form the perfect sexual attraction are absent. + All the higher elements of love—admiration, respect, honor, and + self-sacrificing devotion—are as foreign to prostitution as to + the egoistic act of masturbation. The principal drawbacks to the + morality of the act lie in its associations more than in the act + itself. Any affectional quality which a more or less promiscuous + connection might possess is at once destroyed by the intrusion of + the monetary element. In the resulting degradation the woman has + the largest share, since it makes her a pariah and involves her + in all the hardening and depraving influences of social + ostracism. But her degradation only serves to render her + influence on her partners more demoralizing. Prostitution," he + concludes, "has a strong tendency towards emphasizing the + naturally selfish attitude of men towards women, and encouraging + them in the delusion, born of unregulated passions, that the + sexual act itself is the aim and end of the sex life. + Prostitution can therefore make no claim to afford even a + temporary solution to the sex problem. It fulfils only that + mission which has made it a 'necessary evil'—the mission of + palliative to the physical rigors of celibacy and monogamy. It + does so at the cost of a considerable amount of physical and + moral deterioration, much of which is undoubtedly due to the + action of society in completing the degradation of the prostitute + by persistent ostracism. Prostitution was not so great an evil + when it was not thought so great, yet even at its best it was a + real evil, a melancholy and sordid travesty of sincere and + natural passional relations. It is an evil which we are bound to + have with us so long as celibacy is a custom and monogamy a law." + It is the wife as well as the prostitute who is degraded by a + system which makes venal love possible. "The time has gone past," + the same writer remarks elsewhere (p. 195) "when a mere ceremony + can really sanctify what is base and transform lust and greed + into the sincerity of sexual affection. If, to enter into sexual + connections with a man for a solely material end is a disgrace to + humanity, it is a disgrace under the marriage bond just as much + as apart from the hypocritical blessing of the church or the law. + If the public prostitute is a being who deserves to be treated as + a pariah, it is hopelessly irrational to withhold every sort <a name='6_Page_315'></a>of + moral opprobrium from the woman who leads a similar life under a + different set of external circumstances. Either the prostitute + wife must come under the moral ban, or there must be an end to + the complete ostracism under which the prostitute labors."</p> + +<p> The thinker who more clearly and fundamentally than others, and + first of all, realized the dynamical relationships of + prostitution, as dependent upon a change in the other social + relationships of life, was James Hinton. More than thirty years + ago, in fragmentary writings that still remain unpublished, since + he never worked them into an orderly form, Hinton gave vigorous + and often passionate expression to this fundamental idea. It may + be worth while to quote a few brief passages from Hinton's MSS.: + "I feel that the laws of force should hold also amid the waves of + human passion, that the relations of mechanics are true, and will + rule also in human life.... There is a tension, a crushing of the + soul, by our modern life, and it is ready for a sudden spring to + a different order in which the forces shall rearrange themselves. + It is a dynamical question presented in moral terms.... Keeping a + portion of the woman population without prospect of marriage + means having prostitutes, that is women as instruments of man's + mere sensuality, and this means the killing, in many of them, of + all pure love or capacity of it. This is the fact we have to + face.... To-day I saw a young woman whose life was being consumed + by her want of love, a case of threatened utter misery: now see + the price at which we purchase her ill-health; for her ill-health + we pay the crushing of another girl into hell. We give that for + it; her wretchedness of soul and body are bought by prostitution; + we have prostitutes made for that.... We devote some women + recklessly to perdition to make a hothouse Heaven for the + rest.... One wears herself out in vainly trying to endure + pleasures she is not strong enough to enjoy, while other women + are perishing for lack of these very pleasures. If marriage is + this, is it not embodied lust? The happy Christian homes are the + true dark places of the earth.... Prostitution for man, restraint + for woman—they are two sides of the same thing, and both are + denials of love, like luxury and asceticism. The mountains of + restraint must be used to fill up the abysses of luxury."</p> + +<p> Some of Hinton's views were set forth by a writer intimately + acquainted with him in a pamphlet entitled <i>The Future of + Marriage: An Eirenicon for a Question of To-day</i>, by a + Respectable Woman (1885). "When once the conviction is forced + home upon the 'good' women," the writer remarks, "that their + place of honor and privilege rests upon the degradation of others + as its basis, they will never rest till they have either + abandoned it or sought for it some other pedestal. If our + inflexible marriage system has for its essential condition the + existence side by side with it of prostitution, then one of two + things follows: either prostitution <a name='6_Page_316'></a>must be shown to be + compatible with the well-being, moral and physical, of the women + who practice it, or our marriage system must be condemned. If it + was clearly put before anyone, he could not seriously assert that + to be 'virtue' which could only be practiced at the expense of + another's vice.... Whilst the laws of physics are becoming so + universally recognized that no one dreams of attempting to + annihilate a particle of matter, or of force, yet we do not + instinctively apply the same conception to moral forces, but + think and act as if we could simply do away with an evil, while + leaving unchanged that which gives it its strength. This is the + only view of the social problem which can give us hope. That + prostitution should simply cease, leaving everything else as it + is, would be disastrous if it were possible. But it is not + possible. The weakness of all existing efforts to put down + prostitution is that they are directed against it as an isolated + thing, whereas it is only one of the symptoms proceeding from a + common disease."</p> + +<p> Ellen Key, who during recent years has been the chief apostle of + a gospel of sexual morality based on the needs of women as the + mothers of the race, has, in a somewhat similar spirit, denounced + alike prostitution and rigid marriage, declaring (in her <i>Essays + on Love and Marriage</i>) that "the development of erotic personal + consciousness is as much hindered by socially regulated + 'morality' as by socially regulated 'immorality,'" and that "the + two lowest and socially sanctioned expressions of sexual dualism, + rigid marriage and prostitution, will gradually become + impossible, because with the conquest of the idea of erotic unity + they will no longer correspond to human needs."</p></div> + +<p>We may sum up the present situation as regards prostitution by saying that +on the one hand there is a tendency for its elevation, in association with +the growing humanity and refinement of civilization, characteristics which +must inevitably tend to mark more and more both those women who become +prostitutes and those men who seek them; on the other hand, but perhaps +through the same dynamic force, there is a tendency towards the slow +elimination of prostitution by the successful competition of higher and +purer methods of sexual relationship freed from pecuniary considerations. +This refinement and humanization, this competition by better forms of +sexual love, are indeed an essential part of progress as civilization +becomes more truly sound, wholesome, and sincere.</p> + +<p>This moral change cannot, it seems probable, fail to be accompanied by the +realization that the facts of human life are <a name='6_Page_317'></a>more important than the +forms. For all changes from lower to higher social forms, from savagery to +civilization, are accompanied—in so far as they are vital changes—by a +slow and painful groping towards the truth that it is only in natural +relations that sanity and sanctity can be found, for, as Nietzsche said, +the "return" to Nature should rather be called the "ascent." Only so can +we achieve the final elimination from our hearts of that clinging +tradition that there is any impurity or dishonor in acts of love for which +the reasonable, and not merely the conventional, conditions have been +fulfilled. For it is vain to attempt to cleanse our laws, or even our +by-laws, until we have first cleansed our hearts.</p> + +<p>It would be out of place here to push further the statement of the moral +question as it is to-day beginning to shape itself in the sphere of sex. +In a psychological discussion we are only concerned to set down the actual +attitude of the moralist, and of civilization. The practical outcome of +that attitude must be left to moralists and sociologists and the community +generally to work out.</p> + +<p>Our inquiry has also, it may be hoped, incidentally tended to show that in +practically dealing with the question of prostitution it is pre-eminently +necessary to remember the warning which, as regards many other social +problems, has been embodied by Herbert Spencer in his famous illustration +of the bent iron plate. In trying to make the bent plate smooth, it is +useless, Spencer pointed out, to hammer directly on the buckled up part; +if we do so we merely find that we have made matters worse; our hammering, +to be effective, must be around, and not directly on, the offensive +elevation we wish to reduce; only so can the iron plate be hammered +smooth.<a name='6_FNanchor_219'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_219'><sup>[219]</sup></a> But this elementary <a name='6_Page_318'></a>law has not been understood by +moralists. The plain, practical, common-sense reformer, as he fancied +himself to be—from the time of Charlemagne onwards—has over and over +again brought his heavy fist directly down on to the evil of prostitution +and has always made matters worse. It is only by wisely working outside +and around the evil that we can hope to lessen it effectually. By aiming +to develop and raise the relationships of men to women, and of women to +women, by modifying our notions of sexual relationships, and by +introducing a saner and truer conception of womanhood and of the +responsibilities of women as well as of men, by attaining, socially as +well as economically, a higher level of human living—it is only by such +methods as these that we can reasonably expect to see any diminution and +alleviation of the evil of prostitution. So long as we are incapable of +such methods we must be content with the prostitution we deserve, learning +to treat it with the pity, and the respect, which so intimate a failure of +our civilization is entitled to.</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='6_Footnote_107'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_107'>[107]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, Cheetham's Hulsean Lectures, <i>The Mysteries, +Pagan and Christian</i>, pp. 123, 136.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_108'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_108'>[108]</a><div class='note'><p> Hormayr's <i>Taschenbuch</i>, 1835, p. 255. Hagelstange, in a +chapter on mediæval festivals in his <i>Süddeutsches Bauernleben im +Mittelalter</i>, shows how, in these Christian orgies which were really of +pagan origin, the German people reacted with tremendous and boisterous +energy against the laborious and monotonous existence of everyday life.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_109'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_109'>[109]</a><div class='note'><p> This was clearly realized by the more intelligent upholders +of the Feast of Fools. Austere persons wished to abolish this Feast, and +in a remarkable petition sent up to the Theological Faculty of Paris (and +quoted by Flogel, <i>Geschichte des Grotesk-Komischen</i>, fourth edition, p. +204) the case for the Feast is thus presented: "We do this according to +ancient custom, in order that folly, which is second nature to man and +seems to be inborn, may at least once a year have free outlet. Wine casks +would burst if we failed sometimes to remove the bung and let in air. Now +we are all ill-bound casks and barrels which would let out the wine of +wisdom if by constant devotion and fear of God we allowed it to ferment. +We must let in air so that it may not be spoilt. Thus on some days we give +ourselves up to sport, so that with the greater zeal we may afterwards +return to the worship of God." The Feast of Fools was not suppressed until +the middle of the sixteenth century, and relics of it persisted (as at +Aix) till near the end of the eighteenth century.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_110'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_110'>[110]</a><div class='note'><p> A Méray, <i>La Vie au Temps des Libres Prêcheurs</i>, vol. ii, +Ch. X. A good and scholarly account of the Feast of Fools is given by E. K. +Chambers, <i>The Mediæval Stage</i>, Ch. XIII. It is true that the Church and +the early Fathers often anathematized the theatre. But Gregory of +Nazianzen wished to found a Christian theatre; the Mediæval Mysteries were +certainly under the protection of the clergy; and St. Thomas Aquinas, the +greatest of the schoolmen, only condemns the theatre with cautious +qualifications.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_111'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_111'>[111]</a><div class='note'><p> Spencer and Gillen, <i>Northern Tribes of Central Australia</i>, +Ch. XII.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_112'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_112'>[112]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Journal Anthropological Institute</i>, July-Dec., 1904, p. +329.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_113'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_113'>[113]</a><div class='note'><p> Westermarck (<i>Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas</i>, +vol. ii, pp. 283-9) shows how widespread is the custom of setting apart a +periodical rest day.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_114'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_114'>[114]</a><div class='note'><p> A. E. Crawley, <i>The Mystic Rose</i>, pp. 273 <i>et seq.</i>, Crawley +brings into association with this function of great festivals the custom, +found in some parts of the world, of exchanging wives at these times. "It +has nothing whatever to do with the marriage system, except as breaking it +for a season, women of forbidden degree being lent, on the same grounds as +conventions and ordinary relations are broken at festivals of the +Saturnalia type, the object being to change life and start afresh, by +exchanging every thing one can, while the very act of exchange coincides +with the other desire, to weld the community together" (<i>Ib.</i>, p. 479).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_115'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_115'>[115]</a><div class='note'><p> See "The Analysis of the Sexual Impulse" in vol. iii of +these <i>Studies</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_116'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_116'>[116]</a><div class='note'><p> G. Murray, <i>Ancient Greek Literature</i>, p. 211.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_117'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_117'>[117]</a><div class='note'><p> The Greek drama probably arose out of a folk-festival of +more or less sexual character, and it is even possible that the mediæval +drama had a somewhat similar origin (see Donaldson, <i>The Greek Theatre</i>; +Gilbert Murray, <i>loc. cit.</i>; Karl Pearson, <i>The Chances of Death</i>, vol. +ii, pp. 135-6, 280 <i>et seq.</i>).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_118'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_118'>[118]</a><div class='note'><p> R. Canudo, "Les Chorèges Français," <i>Mercure de France</i>, +May 1, 1907, p. 180.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_119'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_119'>[119]</a><div class='note'><p> "This is, in fact," Cyples declares (<i>The Process of Human +Experience</i>, p. 743), "Art's great function—to rehearse within us greater +egoistic possibilities, to habituate us to larger actualizations of +personality in a rudimentary manner," and so to arouse, "aimlessly but +splendidly, the sheer as yet unfulfilled possibilities within us."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_120'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_120'>[120]</a><div class='note'><p> Even when monotonous labor is intellectual, it is not +thereby protected against degrading orgiastic reactions. Prof. L. Gurlitt +shows (<i>Die Neue Generation</i>, January, 1909, pp. 31-6) how the strenuous, +unremitting intellectual work of Prussian seminaries leads among both +teachers and scholars to the worst forms of the orgy.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_121'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_121'>[121]</a><div class='note'><p> Rabutaux discusses various definitions of prostitution, <i>De +la Prostitution en Europe</i>, pp. 119 <i>et seq.</i> For the origin of the names +to designate the prostitute, see Schrader, <i>Reallexicon</i>, art. +"Beischläferin."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_122'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_122'>[122]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Digest</i>, lib. xxiii, tit. ii, p. 43. If she only gave +herself to one or two persons, though for money, it was not prostitution.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_123'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_123'>[123]</a><div class='note'><p> Guyot, <i>La Prostitution</i>, p. 8. The element of venality is +essential, and religious writers (like Robert Wardlaw, D. D., of Edinburgh, +in his <i>Lectures on Female Prostitution</i>, 1842, p. 14) who define +prostitution as "the illicit intercourse of the sexes," and synonymous +with theological "fornication," fall into an absurd confusion.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_124'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_124'>[124]</a><div class='note'><p> "Such marriages are sometimes stigmatized as 'legalized +prostitution,'" remarks Sidgwick (<i>Methods of Ethics</i>, Bk. iii, Ch. XI), +"but the phrase is felt to be extravagant and paradoxical."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_125'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_125'>[125]</a><div class='note'><p> Bonger, <i>Criminalité et Conditions Economiques</i>, p. 378. +Bonger believes that the act of prostitution is "intrinsically equal to +that of a man or woman who contracts a marriage for economical reasons."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_126'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_126'>[126]</a><div class='note'><p> E. Richard, <i>La Prostitution à Paris</i>, 1890, p. 44. It may +be questioned whether publicity or notoriety should form an essential part +of the definition; it seems, however, to be involved, or the prostitute +cannot obtain clients. Reuss states that she must, in addition, be +absolutely without means of subsistence; that is certainly not essential. +Nor is it necessary, as the <i>Digest</i> insisted, that the act should be +performed "without pleasure;" that may be as it will, without affecting +the prostitutional nature of the act.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_127'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_127'>[127]</a><div class='note'><p> Hawkesworth, <i>Account of the Voyages</i>, etc., 1775, vol. ii, +p. 254.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_128'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_128'>[128]</a><div class='note'><p> R. W. Codrington, <i>The Melanesians</i>, p. 235.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_129'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_129'>[129]</a><div class='note'><p> F. S. Krauss, <i>Romanische Forschungen</i>, 1903, p. 290.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_130'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_130'>[130]</a><div class='note'><p> H. Schurtz, <i>Altersklassen und Männerbünde</i>, 1902, p. 190. +In this work Schurtz brings together (pp. 189-201) some examples of the +germs of prostitution among primitive peoples. Many facts and references +are given by Westermarck (<i>History of Human Marriage</i>, pp. 66 <i>et seq.</i>, +and <i>Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas</i>, vol. ii, pp. 441 <i>et +seq.</i>).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_131'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_131'>[131]</a><div class='note'><p> Bachofen (more especially in his <i>Mutterrecht</i> and <i>Sage +von Tanaquil</i>) argued that even religious prostitution sprang from the +resistance of primitive instincts to the individualization of love. <i>Cf.</i> +Robertson Smith, <i>Religion of Semites</i>, second edition, p. 59.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_132'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_132'>[132]</a><div class='note'><p> Whatever the reason may be, there can be no doubt that +there is a widespread tendency for religion and prostitution to be +associated; it is possibly to some extent a special case of that general +connection between the religious and sexual impulses which has been +discussed elsewhere (Appendix C to vol. i of these <i>Studies</i>). Thus A. B. +Ellis, in his book on <i>The Ewe-speaking Peoples of West Africa</i> (pp. 124, +141) states that here women dedicated to a god become promiscuous +prostitutes. W. G. Sumner (<i>Folkways</i>, Ch. XVI) brings together many facts +concerning the wide distribution of religious prostitution.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_133'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_133'>[133]</a><div class='note'><p> Herodotus, Bk. I, Ch. CXCIX; Baruch, Ch. VI, p. 43. Modern +scholars confirm the statements of Herodotus from the study of Babylonian +literature, though inclined to deny that religious prostitution occupied +so large a place as he gives it. A tablet of the Gilgamash epic, according +to Morris Jastrow, refers to prostitutes as attendants of the goddess +Ishtar in the city Uruk (or Erech), which was thus a centre, and perhaps +the chief centre, of the rites described by Herodotus (Morris Jastrow, +<i>The Religion of Babylonia and Assyria</i>, 1898, p. 475). Ishtar was the +goddess of fertility, the great mother goddess, and the prostitutes were +priestesses, attached to her worship, who took part in ceremonies intended +to symbolize fertility. These priestesses of Ishtar were known by the +general name Kadishtu, "the holy ones" (<i>op. cit.</i>, pp. 485, 660).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_134'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_134'>[134]</a><div class='note'><p> It is usual among modern writers to associate Aphrodite +Pandemos, rather than Ourania, with venal or promiscuous sexuality, but +this is a complete mistake, for the Aphrodite Pandemos was purely +political and had no sexual significance. The mistake was introduced, +perhaps intentionally, by Plato. It has been suggested that that +arch-juggler, who disliked democratic ideas, purposely sought to pervert +and vulgarize the conception of Aphrodite Pandemos (Farnell, <i>Cults of +Greek States</i>, vol. ii, p. 660).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_135'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_135'>[135]</a><div class='note'><p> Athenæus, Bk. xiii, cap. XXXII. It appears that the only +other Hellenic community where the temple cult involved unchastity was a +city of the Locri Epizephyrii (Farnell, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. ii, p. 636).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_136'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_136'>[136]</a><div class='note'><p> I do not say an earlier "promiscuity," for the theory of a +primitive sexual promiscuity is now widely discredited, though there can +be no reasonable doubt that the early prevalence of mother-right was more +favorable to the sexual freedom of women than the later patriarchal +system. Thus in very early Egyptian days a woman could give her favors to +any man she chose by sending him her garment, even if she were married. In +time the growth of the rights of men led to this being regarded as +criminal, but the priestesses of Amen retained the privilege to the last, +as being under divine protection (Flinders Petrie, <i>Egyptian Tales</i>, pp. +10, 48).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_137'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_137'>[137]</a><div class='note'><p> It should be added that Farnell ("The Position of Women in +Ancient Religion," <i>Archiv für Religionswissenschaft</i>, 1904, p. 88) seeks +to explain the religious prostitution of Babylonia as a special religious +modification of the custom of destroying virginity before marriage in +order to safeguard the husband from the mystic dangers of defloration. +E. S. Hartland, also ("Concerning the Rite at the Temple of Mylitta," +<i>Anthropological Essays Presented to E. B. Tyler</i>, p. 189), suggests that +this was a puberty rite connected with ceremonial defloration. This theory +is not, however, generally accepted by Semitic scholars.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_138'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_138'>[138]</a><div class='note'><p> The girls of this tribe, who are remarkably pretty, after +spending two or three years in thus amassing a little dowry, return home +to marry, and are said to make model wives and mothers. They are described +by Bertherand in Parent-Duchâtelet, <i>La Prostitution à Paris</i>, vol. ii, p. +539.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_139'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_139'>[139]</a><div class='note'><p> In Abyssinia (according to Fiaschi, <i>British Medical +Journal</i>, March 13, 1897), where prostitution has always been held in high +esteem, the prostitutes, who are now subject to medical examination twice +a week, still attach no disgrace to their profession, and easily find +husbands afterwards. Potter (<i>Sohrab and Rustem</i>, pp. 168 <i>et seq.</i>) gives +references as regards peoples, widely dispersed in the Old World and the +New, among whom the young women have practiced prostitution to obtain a +dowry.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_140'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_140'>[140]</a><div class='note'><p> At Tralles, in Lydia, even in the second century A.D., as +Sir W. M. Ramsay notes (<i>Cities of Phrygia</i>, vol. i, pp. 94, 115), sacred +prostitution was still an honorable practice for women of good birth who +"felt themselves called upon to live the divine life under the influence +of divine inspiration."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_141'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_141'>[141]</a><div class='note'><p> The gradual secularization of prostitution from its earlier +religious form has been traced by various writers (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Dupouey, +<i>La Prostitution dans l'Antiquité</i>). The earliest complimentary reference +to the <i>Hetaira</i> in literature is to be found, according to Benecke +(<i>Antimachus of Colophon</i>, p. 36), in Bacchylides.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_142'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_142'>[142]</a><div class='note'><p> Cicero, <i>Oratio prô Coelio</i>, Cap. XX.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_143'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_143'>[143]</a><div class='note'><p> Pierre Dufour, <i>Histoire de la Prostitution</i>, vol. ii, Chs. +XIX-XX. The real author of this well-known history of prostitution, which, +though not scholarly in its methods, brings together a great mass of +interesting information, is said to be Paul Lacroix.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_144'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_144'>[144]</a><div class='note'><p> Rabutaux, in his <i>Histoire de la Prostitution en Europe</i>, +describes many attempts to suppress prostitution; <i>cf.</i> Dufour, <i>op. +cit.</i>, vol. iii.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_145'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_145'>[145]</a><div class='note'><p> Dufour, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. vi, Ch. XLI. It was in the reign +of the homosexual Henry III that the tolerance of brothels was +established.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_146'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_146'>[146]</a><div class='note'><p> In the eighteenth century, especially, houses of +prostitution in Paris attained to an astonishing degree of elaboration and +prosperity. Owing to the constant watchful attention of the police a vast +amount of detailed information concerning these establishments was +accumulated, and during recent years much of it has been published. A +summary of this literature will be found in Dühren's <i>Neue Forshungen über +den Marquis de Sade und seine Zeit</i>, 1904, pp. 97 <i>et seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_147'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_147'>[147]</a><div class='note'><p> Rabutaux, <i>op. cit.</i>, p. 54.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_148'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_148'>[148]</a><div class='note'><p> Calza has written the history of Venetian prostitution; and +some of the documents he found have been reproduced by Mantegazza, <i>Gli +Amori degli Uomimi</i>, cap. XIV. At the beginning of the seventeenth +century, a comparatively late period, Coryat visited Venice, and in his +<i>Crudities</i> gives a full and interesting account of its courtesans, who +then numbered, he says, at least 20,000; the revenue they brought into the +State maintained a dozen galleys.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_149'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_149'>[149]</a><div class='note'><p> J. Schrank, <i>Die Prostitution in Wien</i>, Bd. I, pp. +152-206.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_150'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_150'>[150]</a><div class='note'><p> U. Robert, <i>Les Signes d'Infamie au Moyen Age</i>, Ch. IV.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_151'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_151'>[151]</a><div class='note'><p> Rudeck (<i>Geschichte der öffentlichen Sittlichkeit in +Deutschland</i>, pp. 26-36) gives many details concerning the important part +played by prostitutes and brothels in mediæval German life.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_152'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_152'>[152]</a><div class='note'><p> They are described by Rabutaux, <i>op. cit.</i>, pp. 90 <i>et +seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_153'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_153'>[153]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>L'Année Sociologique</i>, seventh year, 1904, p. 440.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_154'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_154'>[154]</a><div class='note'><p> Bloch, <i>Der Ursprung der Syphilis</i>. As regards the German +"Frauenhausen" see Max Bauer, <i>Das Geschlechtsleben in der Deutschen +Vergangenheit</i>, pp. 133-214. In Paris, Dufour states (<i>op. cit.</i>, vol. v, +Ch. XXXIV), brothels under the ordinances of St. Louis had many rights +which they lost at last in 1560, when they became merely tolerated houses, +without statutes, special costumes, or confinement to special streets.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_155'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_155'>[155]</a><div class='note'><p> "Cortegiana, hoc est meretrix honesta," wrote Burchard, the +Pope's Secretary, at the beginning of the sixteenth century, <i>Diarium</i>, +ed. Thuasne, vol. ii, p. 442; other authorities are quoted by Thuasne in a +note.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_156'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_156'>[156]</a><div class='note'><p> Burchard, <i>Diarium</i>, vol. iii, p. 167. Thuasne quotes other +authorities in confirmation.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_157'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_157'>[157]</a><div class='note'><p> The example of Holland, where some large cities have +adopted the regulation of prostitution and others have not, is instructive +as regards the illusory nature of the advantages of regulation. In 1883 +Dr. Després brought forward figures, supplied by Dutch officials, showing +that in Rotterdam, where prostitution was regulated, both prostitution and +venereal diseases were more prevalent than in Amsterdam, a city without +regulation (A. Després, <i>La Prostitution en France</i>, p. 122).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_158'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_158'>[158]</a><div class='note'><p> It was in 1802 that the medical inspection of prostitutes +in Paris brothels was introduced, though not until 1825 fully established +and made general.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_159'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_159'>[159]</a><div class='note'><p> M. L. Heidingsfeld, "The Control of Prostitution," <i>Journal +American Medical Association</i>, January 30, 1904.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_160'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_160'>[160]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, G. Bérault, <i>La Maison de Tolérance</i>, Thèse de +Paris, 1904.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_161'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_161'>[161]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus the circumstances of the English army in India are of +a special character. A number of statements (from the reports of +committees, official publications, etc.) regarding the good influence of +regulation in reducing venereal diseases in India are brought together by +Surgeon-Colonel F. H. Welch, "The Prevention of Syphilis," <i>Lancet</i>, August +12, 1899. The system has been abolished, but only as the result of a +popular outcry and not on the question of its merits.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_162'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_162'>[162]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus Richard, who accepts regulation and was instructed to +report on it for the Paris Municipal Council, would not have girls +inscribed as professional prostitutes until they are of age and able to +realize what they are binding themselves to (E. Richard, <i>La Prostitution +à Paris</i>, p. 147). But at that age a large proportion of prostitutes have +been practicing their profession for years.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_163'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_163'>[163]</a><div class='note'><p> In Germany, where the cure of infected prostitutes under +regulation is nearly everywhere compulsory, usually at the cost of the +community, it is found that 18 is the average age at which they are +affected by syphilis; the average age of prostitutes in brothels is higher +than that of those outside, and a much larger proportion have therefore +become immune to disease (Blaschko, "Hygiene der Syphilis," in Weyl's +<i>Handbuch der Hygiene</i>, Bd. ii, p. 62, 1900).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_164'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_164'>[164]</a><div class='note'><p> A. Sherwell, <i>Life in West London</i>, 1897, Ch. V.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_165'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_165'>[165]</a><div class='note'><p> Bonger brings together statistics illustrating this point, +<i>op. cit.</i>, pp. 402-6.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_166'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_166'>[166]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>The Nightless City</i>, p. 125.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_167'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_167'>[167]</a><div class='note'><p> Ströhmberg, as quoted by Aschaffenburg, <i>Das Verbrechen</i>, +1903, p. 77.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_168'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_168'>[168]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Monatsschrift für Harnkrankheiten und Sexuelle Hygiene</i>, +1906. Heft 10, p. 460. But this cause is undoubtedly effective in some +cases of unmarried women in Germany unable to get work (see article by +Sister Henrietta Arendt, Police-Assistant at Stuttgart, <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, +December, 1908).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_169'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_169'>[169]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus, for instance, we find Irma von Troll-Borostyáni +saying in her book, <i>Im Freien Reich</i> (p. 176): "Go and ask these +unfortunate creatures if they willingly and freely devoted themselves to +vice. And nearly all of them will tell you a story of need and +destitution, of hunger and lack of work, which compelled them to it, or +else of love and seduction and the fear of the discovery of their false +step which drove them out of their homes, helpless and forsaken, into the +pool of vice from which there is hardly any salvation." It is, of course, +quite true that the prostitute is frequently ready to tell such stories to +philanthropic persons who expect to hear them, and sometimes even put the +words into her mouth.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_170'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_170'>[170]</a><div class='note'><p> C. Booth, <i>Life and Labour</i>, final volume, p. 125. +Similarly in Sweden, Kullberg states that girls of thirteen to seventeen, +living at home with their parents in comfortable circumstances, have often +been found on the streets.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_171'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_171'>[171]</a><div class='note'><p> W. Acton, <i>Prostitution</i>, 1870, pp. 39, 49.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_172'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_172'>[172]</a><div class='note'><p> In Lyons, according to Potton, of 3884 prostitutes, 3194 +abandoned, or apparently abandoned, their profession; in Paris a very +large number became servants, dressmakers, or tailoresses, occupations +which, in many cases, doubtless, they had exercised before +(Parent-Duchâtelet, <i>De la Prostitution</i>, 1857, vol. i, p. 584; vol. ii, +p. 451). Sloggett (quoted by Acton) stated that at Davenport, 250 of the +1775 prostitutes there married. It is well known that prostitutes +occasionally marry extremely well. It was remarked nearly a century ago +that marriages of prostitutes to rich men were especially frequent in +England, and usually turned out well; the same seems to be true still. In +their own social rank they not infrequently marry cabmen and policemen, +the two classes of men with whom they are brought most closely in contact +in the streets. As regards Germany, C. K. Schneider (<i>Die Prostituirte und +die Gesellschaft</i>), states that young prostitutes take up all sorts of +occupations and situations, sometimes, if they have saved a little money, +establishing a business, while old prostitutes become procuresses, +brothel-keepers, lavatory women, and so on. Not a few prostitutes marry, +he adds, but the proportion among inscribed German prostitutes is very +small, less than 2 per cent.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_173'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_173'>[173]</a><div class='note'><p> G. de Molinari, <i>La Viriculture</i>, 1897, p. 155.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_174'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_174'>[174]</a><div class='note'><p> Reuss and other writers have reproduced typical extracts +from the private account books of prostitutes, showing the high rate of +their earnings. Even in the common brothels, in Philadelphia (according to +Goodchild, "The Social Evil in Philadelphia," <i>Arena</i>, March, 1896), girls +earn twenty dollars or more a week, which is far more than they could earn +in any other occupation open to them.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_175'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_175'>[175]</a><div class='note'><p> A. Després, <i>La Prostitution en France</i>, 1883.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_176'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_176'>[176]</a><div class='note'><p> Bonger, <i>Criminalité et Conditions Economiques</i>, 1905, pp. +378-414.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_177'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_177'>[177]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>La Donna Delinquente</i>, p. 401.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_178'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_178'>[178]</a><div class='note'><p> Raciborski, <i>Traité de l'Impuissance</i>, p. 20. It may be +added that Bergh, a leading authority on the anatomical peculiarities of +the external female sexual organs, who believe that strong development of +the external genital organs accompanies libidinous tendencies, has not +found such development to be common among prostitutes.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_179'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_179'>[179]</a><div class='note'><p> Hammer, who has had much opportunity of studying the +psychology of prostitutes, remarks that he has seen no reason to suspect +sexual coldness (<i>Monatsschrift für Harnkrankheiten und Sexuelle Hygiene</i>, +1906, Heft 2, p. 85), although, as he has elsewhere stated, he is of +opinion that indolence, rather than excess of sensuality, is the chief +cause of prostitution.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_180'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_180'>[180]</a><div class='note'><p> See "The Sexual Impulse in Women," in the third volume of +these <i>Studies</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_181'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_181'>[181]</a><div class='note'><p> Tait stated that in Edinburgh many married women living +with their husbands in comfortable circumstances, and having children, +were found to be acting as prostitutes, that is, in the regular habit of +making assignations with strangers (W. Tait, <i>Magdalenism in Edinburgh</i>, +1842, p. 16).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_182'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_182'>[182]</a><div class='note'><p> Janke brings together opinions to this effect, <i>Die +Willkürliche Hervorbringen des Geschlechts</i>, p. 275. "If we compare a +prostitute of thirty-five with her respectable sister," Acton remarked +(<i>Prostitution</i>, 1870, p. 39), "we seldom find that the constitutional +ravages often thought to be necessary consequences of prostitution exceed +those attributable to the cares of a family and the heart-wearing +struggles of virtuous labor."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_183'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_183'>[183]</a><div class='note'><p> Hirschfeld states (<i>Wesen der Liebe</i>, p. 35) that the +desire for intercourse with a sympathetic person is heightened, and not +decreased, by a professional act of coitus.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_184'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_184'>[184]</a><div class='note'><p> This has been clearly shown by Hans Ostwald (from whom I +take the above-quoted observation of a prostitute), one of the best +authorities on prostitute life and character; see, <i>e.g.</i>, his article, +"Die erotischen Beziehungen zwischen Dirne und Zuhälter," +<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, June, 1908. In the subsequent number of the same +periodical (July, 1908, p. 393) Dr. Max Marcuse supports Ostwald's +experiences, and says that the letters of prostitutes and their bullies +are love-letters exactly like those of respectable people of the same +class, and with the same elements of love and jealousy; these +relationships, he remarks, often prove very enduring. The prostitute +author of the <i>Tagebuch einer Verlorenen</i> (p. 147) also has some remarks +on the prostitute's relations to her bully, stating that it is simply the +natural relationship of a girl to her lover.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_185'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_185'>[185]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus Moraglia found that among 180 prostitutes in North +Italian brothels, and among 23 elegant Italian and foreign cocottes, every +one admitted that she masturbated, preferably by friction of the clitoris; +113 of them, the majority, declared that they preferred solitary or mutual +masturbation to normal coitus. Hammer states (<i>Zehn Lebensläufe Berliner +Kontrollmädchen</i> in Ostwald's series of "Grosstadt Dokumente," 1905) that +when in hospital all but three or four of sixty prostitutes masturbate, +and those who do not are laughed at by the rest.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_186'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_186'>[186]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Jahrbuch für Sexuelle Zwischenstufen</i>, Jahrgang VII, 1905, +p. 148; "Sexual Inversion," vol. ii of these <i>Studies</i>, Ch. IV. Hammer +found that of twenty-five prostitutes in a reformatory as many as +twenty-three were homosexual, or, on good grounds, suspected to be such. +Hirschfeld (<i>Berlins Drittes Geschlecht</i>, p. 65) mentions that prostitutes +sometimes accost better-class women who, from their man-like air, they +take to be homosexual; from persons of their own sex prostitutes will +accept a smaller remuneration, and sometimes refuse payment altogether.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_187'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_187'>[187]</a><div class='note'><p> With prostitution, as with criminality, it is of course +difficult to disentangle the element of heredity from that of environment, +even when we have good grounds for believing that the factor of heredity +here, as throughout the whole of life, cannot fail to carry much weight. +It is certain, in any case, that prostitution frequently runs in families. +"It has often been my experience," writes a former prostitute (Hedwig +Hard, <i>Beichte einer Gefallenen</i>, p. 156) "that when in a family a girl +enters this path, her sister soon afterwards follows her: I have met with +innumerable cases; sometimes three sisters will all be on the register, +and I knew a case of four sisters, whose mother, a midwife, had been in +prison, and the father drank. In this case, all four sisters, who were +very beautiful, married, one at least very happily, to a rich doctor who +took her out of the brothel at sixteen and educated her."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_188'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_188'>[188]</a><div class='note'><p> This fact is not contradicted by the undoubted fact that +prostitutes are by no means always contented with the life they choose.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_189'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_189'>[189]</a><div class='note'><p> This point has been discussed by Bloch, <i>Sexualleben +unserer Zeit</i>, Ch. XIII.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_190'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_190'>[190]</a><div class='note'><p> Various series of observations are summarized by Lombroso +and Ferrero, <i>La Donna Delinquente</i>, 1893, Part III, cap. IV.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_191'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_191'>[191]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>History of European Morals</i>, vol. iii, p. 283.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_192'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_192'>[192]</a><div class='note'><p> Similarly Lord Morley has written (<i>Diderot</i>, vol. ii, p. +20): "The purity of the family, so lovely and dear as it is, has still +only been secured hitherto by retaining a vast and dolorous host of female +outcasts ... upon whose heads, as upon the scapegoat of the Hebrew +ordinance, we put all the iniquities of the children of the house, and all +their transgressions in all their sins, and then banish them with +maledictions into the foul outer wilderness and the land not inhabited."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_193'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_193'>[193]</a><div class='note'><p> Horace, <i>Satires</i>, lib. i, 2.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_194'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_194'>[194]</a><div class='note'><p> Augustine, <i>De Ordine</i>, Bk. II, Ch. IV.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_195'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_195'>[195]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>De Regimine Principum</i> (<i>Opuscula XX</i>), lib. iv, cap. XIV. +I am indebted to the Rev. H. Northcote for the reference to the precise +place where this statement occurs; it is usually quoted more vaguely.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_196'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_196'>[196]</a><div class='note'><p> Lea, <i>History of Auricular Confession</i>, vol. ii, p. 69. +There was even, it seems, an eccentric decision of the Salamanca +theologians that a nun might so receive money, "licite et valide."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_197'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_197'>[197]</a><div class='note'><p> Lea, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. ii, pp. 263, 399.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_198'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_198'>[198]</a><div class='note'><p> Rabutaux, <i>De la Prostitution en Europe</i>, pp. 22 <i>et seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_199'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_199'>[199]</a><div class='note'><p> Burton, <i>Anatomy of Melancholy</i>, Part III, Sect. III, Mem. +IV, Subs. II.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_200'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_200'>[200]</a><div class='note'><p> B. Mandeville, <i>Remarks to Fable of the Bees</i>, 1714, pp. +93-9; <i>cf.</i> P. Sakmann, <i>Bernard de Mandeville</i>, pp. 101-4.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_201'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_201'>[201]</a><div class='note'><p> These conditions favor temporary free unions, but they also +favor prostitution. The reason is, according to Adolf Gerson +(<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, September, 1908), that the woman of good class will +not have free unions. Partly moved by moral traditions, and partly by the +feeling that a man should be legally her property, she will not give +herself out of love to a man; and he therefore turns to the lower-class +woman who gives herself for money.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_202'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_202'>[202]</a><div class='note'><p> Many girls, said Ellice Hopkins, get into mischief merely +because they have in them an element of the "black kitten," which must +frolic and play, but has no desire to get into danger. "Do you not think +it a little hard," she added, "that men should have dug by the side of her +foolish dancing feet a bottomless pit, and that she cannot have her jump +and fun in safety, and put on her fine feathers like the silly bird-witted +thing she is, without a single false step dashing her over the brink, and +leaving her with the very womanhood dashed out of her?"</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_203'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_203'>[203]</a><div class='note'><p> A. Sherwell, <i>Life in West London</i>, 1897, Ch. V.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_204'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_204'>[204]</a><div class='note'><p> As quoted by Bloch, <i>Sexualleben Unserer Zeit</i>, p. 358. In +Berlin during recent years the number of prostitutes has increased at +nearly double the rate at which the general population has increased. It +is no doubt probable that the supply tends to increase the demand.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_205'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_205'>[205]</a><div class='note'><p> Goncourt, <i>Journal</i>, vol. iii, p. 49.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_206'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_206'>[206]</a><div class='note'><p> Vanderkiste, <i>The Dens of London</i>, 1854, p. 242.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_207'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_207'>[207]</a><div class='note'><p> Bonger (<i>Criminalité et Conditions Economiques</i>, p. 406) +refers to the prevalence of prostitution among dressmakers and milliners, +as well as among servants, as showing the influence of contact with +luxury, and adds that the rich women, who look down on prostitution, do +not always realize that they are themselves an important factor of +prostitution, both by their luxury and their idleness; while they do not +seem to be aware that they would themselves act in the same way if placed +under the same conditions.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_208'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_208'>[208]</a><div class='note'><p> H. Lippert, in his book on prostitution in Hamburg, laid +much stress on the craving for dress and adornment as a factor of +prostitution, and Bloch (<i>Das Sexualleben unsurer Zeit</i>, p. 372) considers +that this factor is usually underestimated, and that it exerts an +especially powerful influence on servants.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_209'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_209'>[209]</a><div class='note'><p> Since this was written the influence of several generations +of town-life in immunizing a stock to the evils of that life (though +without reference to prostitution) has been set forth by Reibmayr, <i>Die +Entwicklungsgeschichte des Talentes und Genies</i>, 1908, vol. ii, pp. 73 <i>et +seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_210'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_210'>[210]</a><div class='note'><p> In France this intimacy is embodied in the delicious +privilege of <i>tutoiement</i>. "The mystery of <i>tutoiement!</i>" exclaims Ernest +La Jennesse in <i>L'Holocauste:</i> "Barriers broken down, veils drawn away, +and the ease of existence! At a time when I was very lonely, and trying to +grow accustomed to Paris and to misfortune, I would go miles—on foot, +naturally—to see a girl cousin and an aunt, merely to have something to +<i>tutoyer</i>. Sometimes they were not at home, and I had to come back with my +<i>tu</i>, my thirst for confidence and familiarity and brotherliness."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_211'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_211'>[211]</a><div class='note'><p> For some facts and references to the extensive literature +concerning this trade, see, <i>e.g.</i>, Bloch, <i>Das Sexualleben Unserer Zeit</i>, +pp. 374-376; also K. M. Baer, <i>Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft</i>, Sept., +1908; Paulucci de Calboli, <i>Nuova Antologia</i>, April, 1902.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_212'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_212'>[212]</a><div class='note'><p> These considerations do not, it is true, apply to many +kinds of sexual perverts who form an important proportion of the clients +of brothels. These can frequently find what they crave inside a brothel +much more easily than outside.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_213'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_213'>[213]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus Charles Booth, in his great work on <i>Life and Labor in +London</i>, final volume (p. 128), recommends that "houses of accommodation," +instead of being hunted out, should be tolerated as a step towards the +suppression of brothels.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_214'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_214'>[214]</a><div class='note'><p> "Towns like Woolwich, Aldershot, Portsmouth, Plymouth," it +has been said, "abound with wretched, filthy monsters that bear no +resemblance to women; but it is drink, scorn, brutality and disease which +have reduced them to this state, not the mere fact of associating with +men."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_215'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_215'>[215]</a><div class='note'><p> "The contract of prostitution in the opinion of prostitutes +themselves," Bernaldo de Quirós and Llanas Aguilaniedo remark (<i>La Mala +Vida en Madrid</i>, p. 254), "cannot be assimilated to a sale, nor to a +contract of work, nor to any other form of barter recognized by the civil +law. They consider that in these pacts there always enters an element +which makes it much more like a gift in a matter in which no payment could +be adequate. 'A woman's body is without price' is an axiom of +prostitution. The money placed in the hands of her who procures the +satisfaction of sexual desire is not the price of the act, but an offering +which the priestess of Venus applies to her maintenance." To the Spaniard, +it is true, every transaction which resembles trade is repugnant, but the +principle underlying this feeling holds good of prostitution generally.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_216'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_216'>[216]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Journal des Goncourt</i>, vol. iii; this was in 1866.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_217'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_217'>[217]</a><div class='note'><p> Rev. the Hon. C. Lyttelton, <i>Training of the Young in Laws +of Sex</i>, p. 42.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_218'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_218'>[218]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, R. W. Taylor, <i>Treatise on Sexual Disorders</i>, +1897, pp. 74-5. Georg Hirth (<i>Wege zur Heimat</i>, 1909, p. 619) narrates the +case of a young officer who, being excited by the caresses of his +betrothed and having too much respect for her to go further than this, and +too much respect for himself to resort to masturbation, knew nothing +better than to go to a prostitute. Syphilis developed a few days after the +wedding. Hirth adds, briefly, that the results were terrible.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_219'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_219'>[219]</a><div class='note'><p> It is an oft-quoted passage, but can scarcely be quoted too +often: "You see that this wrought-iron plate is not quite flat: it sticks +up a little, here towards the left—'cockles,' as we say. How shall we +flatten it? Obviously, you reply, by hitting down on the part that is +prominent. Well, here is a hammer, and I give the plate a blow as you +advise. Harder, you say. Still no effect. Another stroke? Well, there is +one, and another, and another. The prominence remains, you see: the evil +is as great as ever—greater, indeed. But that is not all. Look at the +warp which the plate has got near the opposite edge. Where it was flat +before it is now curved. A pretty bungle we have made of it. Instead of +curing the original defect we have produced a second. Had we asked an +artisan practiced in 'planishing,' as it is called, he would have told us +that no good was to be done, but only mischief, by hitting down on the +projecting part. He would have taught us how to give variously-directed +and specially-adjusted blows with a hammer elsewhere: so attacking the +evil, not by direct, but by indirect actions. The required process is less +simple than you thought. Even a sheet of metal is not to be successfully +dealt with after those common-sense methods in which you have so much +confidence. What, then, shall we say about a society?... Is humanity more +readily straightened than an iron plate?" (<i>The Study of Sociology</i>, p. +270.)</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_CHAPTER_VIII'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_319'></a>CHAPTER VIII.</h2> + +<h3>THE CONQUEST OF THE VENEREAL DISEASES.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Significance of the Venereal Diseases—The History of Syphilis—The +Problem of Its Origin—The Social Gravity of Syphilis—The Social Dangers +of Gonorrhœa—The Modern Change in the Methods of Combating +Venereal Diseases—Causes of the Decay of the System of Police +Regulation—Necessity of Facing the Facts—The Innocent Victims of +Venereal Diseases—Diseases Not Crimes—The Principle of Notification—The +Scandinavian System—Gratuitous Treatment—Punishment for Transmitting +Venereal Diseases—Sexual Education in Relation to Venereal +Diseases—Lectures, Etc.—Discussion in Novels and on the Stage—The +"Disgusting" Not the "Immoral."</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>It may, perhaps, excite surprise that in the preceding discussion of +prostitution scarcely a word has been said of venereal diseases. In the +eyes of many people, the question of prostitution is simply the question +of syphilis. But from the psychological point of view with which we are +directly concerned, as from the moral point of view with which we cannot +fail to be indirectly concerned, the question of the diseases which may +be, and so frequently are, associated with prostitution cannot be placed +in the first line of significance. The two questions, however intimately +they may be mingled, are fundamentally distinct. Not only would venereal +diseases still persist even though prostitution had absolutely ceased, +but, on the other hand, when we have brought syphilis under the same +control as we have brought the somewhat analogous disease of leprosy, the +problem of prostitution would still remain.</p> + +<p>Yet, even from the standpoint which we here occupy, it is scarcely +possible to ignore the question of venereal disease, for the psychological +and moral aspects of prostitution, and even the whole question of the +sexual relationships, are, to some extent, affected by the existence of +the serious diseases which are specially liable to be propagated by sexual +intercourse.</p> + +<p>Fournier, one of the leading authorities on this subject, has well said +that syphilis, alcoholism, and tuberculosis are the three <a name='6_Page_320'></a>modern plagues. +At a much earlier period (1851) Schopenhauer in <i>Parerga und Paralipomena</i> +had expressed the opinion that the two things which mark modern social +life, in distinction from that of antiquity, and to the advantage of the +latter, are the knightly principle of honor and venereal disease; +together, he added, they have poisoned life, and introduced a hostile and +even diabolical element into the relations of the sexes, which has +indirectly affected all other social relationships.<a name='6_FNanchor_220'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_220'><sup>[220]</sup></a> It is like a +merchandise, says Havelburg, of syphilis, which civilization has +everywhere carried, so that only a very few remote districts of the globe +(as in Central Africa and Central Brazil) are to-day free from it.<a name='6_FNanchor_221'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_221'><sup>[221]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is undoubtedly true that in the older civilized countries the +manifestations of syphilis, though still severe and a cause of physical +deterioration in the individual and the race, are less severe than they +were even a generation ago.<a name='6_FNanchor_222'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_222'><sup>[222]</sup></a> This is partly the result of earlier and +better treatment, partly, it is possible, the result also of the +syphilization of the race, some degree of immunity having now become an +inherited possession, although it must be remembered that an attack of +syphilis does not necessarily confer immunity from the actual attack of +the disease even in the same individual. But it must be added that, even +though it has become less severe, syphilis, in the opinion of many, is +nevertheless still spreading, even in the chief centres of civilization; +this has been noted alike in Paris and in London.<a name='6_FNanchor_223'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_223'><sup>[223]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_321'></a> +<p>According to the belief which is now tending to prevail, syphilis was +brought to Europe at the end of the fifteenth century by the first +discoverers of America. In Seville, the chief European port for America, +it was known as the Indian disease, but when Charles VIII and his army +first brought it to Italy in 1495, although this connection with the +French was only accidental, it was called the Gallic disease, "a monstrous +disease," said Cataneus, "never seen in previous centuries and altogether +unknown in the world."</p> + +<p>The synonyms of syphilis were at first almost innumerable. It was in his +Latin poem <i>Syphilis sive Morbus Gallicus</i>, written before 1521 and +published at Verona in 1530, that Fracastorus finally gave the disease its +now universally accepted name, inventing a romantic myth to account for +its origin.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Although the weight of authoritative opinion now seems to incline + towards the belief that syphilis was brought to Europe from + America, on the discovery of the New World, it is only within + quite recent years that that belief has gained ground, and it + scarcely even yet seems certain that what the Spaniards brought + back from America was really a disease absolutely new to the Old + World, and not a more virulent form of an old disease of which + the manifestations had become benign. Buret, for instance (<i>Le + Syphilis Aujourd'hui et chez les Anciens</i>, 1890), who some years + ago reached "the deep conviction that syphilis dates from the + creation of man," and believed, from a minute study of classic + authors, that syphilis existed in Rome under the Cæsars, was of + opinion that it has broken out at different places and at + different times, in epidemic bursts exhibiting different + combinations of its manifold symptoms, so that it passed + unnoticed at ordinary times, and at the times of its more intense + manifestation was looked upon as a hitherto unknown disease. It + was thus regarded in classic times, he considers, as coming from + Egypt, though he looked upon its real home as Asia. Leopold Glück + has likewise quoted (<i>Archiv für Dermatologie und Syphilis</i>, + January, 1899) passages from the medical epigrams of a sixteenth + century physician, Gabriel Ayala, declaring that syphilis is not + really a new disease, though popularly supposed to be so, but an + old disease which has broken out with hitherto unknown violence. + There is, however, no conclusive reason for believing that + syphilis was known at all in classic antiquity. A. V. Notthaft + ("Die Legende von der Althertums-syphilis," in the Rindfleisch + <i>Festschrift</i>, 1907, pp. 377-592) has critically investigated the + passages in classic authors which were supposed by Rosenbaum, + Buret,<a name='6_Page_322'></a> Proksch and others to refer to syphilis. It is quite + true, Notthaft admits, that many of these passages might possibly + refer to syphilis, and one or two would even better fit syphilis + than any other disease. But, on the whole, they furnish no proof + at all, and no syphilologist, he concludes, has ever succeeded in + demonstrating that syphilis was known in antiquity. That belief + is a legend. The most damning argument against it, Notthaft + points out, is the fact that, although in antiquity there were + great physicians who were keen observers, not one of them gives + any description of the primary, secondary, tertiary, and + congenital forms of this disease. China is frequently mentioned + as the original home of syphilis, but this belief is also quite + without basis, and the Japanese physician, Okamura, has shown + (<i>Monatsschrift für praktische Dermatologie</i>, vol. xxviii, pp. + 296 <i>et seq.</i>) that Chinese records reveal nothing relating to + syphilis earlier than the sixteenth century. At the Paris Academy + of Medicine in 1900 photographs from Egypt were exhibited by + Fouquet of human remains which date from B.C. 2400, showing bone + lesions which seemed to be clearly syphilitic; Fournier, however, + one of the greatest of authorities, considered that the diagnosis + of syphilis could not be maintained until other conditions liable + to produce somewhat similar bone lesions had been eliminated + (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, September 29, 1900, p. 946). In + Florida and various regions of Central America, in undoubtedly + pre-Columbian burial places, diseased bones have been found which + good authorities have declared could not be anything else than + syphilitic (<i>e.g.</i>, <i>British Medical Journal</i>, November 20, 1897, + p. 1487), though it may be noted that so recently as 1899 the + cautious Virchow stated that pre-Columbian syphilis in America + was still for him an open question (<i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, + Heft 2 and 3, 1899, p. 216). From another side, Seler, the + distinguished authority on Mexican antiquity, shows (<i>Zeitschrift + für Ethnologie</i>, 1895, Heft 5, p. 449) that the ancient Mexicans + were acquainted with a disease which, as they described it, might + well have been syphilis. It is obvious, however, that while the + difficulty of demonstrating syphilitic diseased bones in America + is as great as in Europe, the demonstration, however complete, + would not suffice to show that the disease had not already an + existence also in the Old World. The plausible theory of Ayala + that fifteenth century syphilis was a virulent recrudescence of + an ancient disease has frequently been revived in more modern + times. Thus J. Knott ("The Origin of Syphilis," <i>New York Medical + Journal</i>, October 31, 1908) suggests that though not new in + fifteenth century Europe, it was then imported afresh in a form + rendered more aggravated by coming from an exotic race, as is + believed often to be the case.</p> + +<p> It was in the eighteenth century that Jean Astruc began the + rehabilitation of the belief that syphilis is really a + comparatively modern disease of American origin, and since then + various authorities of <a name='6_Page_323'></a>weight have given their adherence to this + view. It is to the energy and learning of Dr. Iwan Bloch, of + Berlin (the first volume of whose important work, <i>Der Ursprung + der Syphilis</i>, was published in 1901) that we owe the fullest + statement of the evidence in favor of the American origin of + syphilis. Bloch regards Ruy Diaz de Isla, a distinguished Spanish + physician, as the weightiest witness for the Indian origin of the + disease, and concludes that it was brought to Europe by + Columbus's men from Central America, more precisely from the + Island of Haiti, to Spain in 1493 and 1494, and immediately + afterwards was spread by the armies of Charles VIII in an + epidemic fashion over Italy and the other countries of Europe.</p> + +<p> It may be added that even if we have to accept the theory that + the central regions of America constitute the place of origin of + European syphilis, we still have to recognize that syphilis has + spread in the North American continent very much more slowly and + partially than it has in Europe, and even at the present day + there are American Indian tribes among whom it is unknown. + Holder, on the basis of his own experiences among Indian tribes, + as well as of wide inquiries among agency physicians, prepared a + table showing that among some thirty tribes and groups of tribes, + eighteen were almost or entirely free from venereal disease, + while among thirteen it was very prevalent. Almost without + exception, the tribes where syphilis is rare or unknown refuse + sexual intercourse with strangers, while those among whom such + disease is prevalent are morally lax. It is the whites who are + the source of infection among these tribes (A. B. Holder, "Gynecic + Notes Among the American Indians," <i>American Journal of + Obstetrics</i>, 1892, No. 1).</p></div> + +<p>Syphilis is only one, certainly the most important, of a group of three +entirely distinct "venereal diseases" which have only been distinguished +in recent times, and so far as their precise nature and causation are +concerned, are indeed only to-day beginning to be understood, although two +of them were certainly known in antiquity. It is but seventy years ago +since Ricord, the great French syphilologist, following Bassereau, first +taught the complete independence of syphilis both from gonorrhœa +and soft chancre, at the same time expounding clearly the three stages, +primary, secondary and tertiary, through which syphilitic manifestations +tend to pass, while the full extent of tertiary syphilitic symptoms is +scarcely yet grasped, and it is only to-day beginning to be generally +realized that two of the most prevalent and serious diseases of the brain +and nervous system—general paralysis and <a name='6_Page_324'></a>tabes dorsalis or locomotor +ataxia—have their predominant though not sole and exclusive cause in the +invasion of the syphilitic poison many years before. In 1879 a new stage +of more precise knowledge of the venereal diseases began with Neisser's +discovery of the gonococcus which is the specific cause of gonorrhœa. +This was followed a few years later by the discovery by Ducrey and +Unna of the bacillus of soft chancre, the least important of the venereal +diseases because exclusively local in its effects. Finally, in 1905—after +Metchnikoff had prepared the way by succeeding in carrying syphilis from +man to monkey, and Lassar, by inoculation, from monkey to monkey—Fritz +Schaudinn made his great discovery of the protozoal <i>Spirochœta +pallida</i> (since sometimes called <i>Treponema pallidum</i>), which is now +generally regarded as the cause of syphilis, and thus revealed the final +hiding place of one of the most dangerous and insidious foes of +humanity.<a name='6_FNanchor_224'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_224'><sup>[224]</sup></a></p> + +<p>There is no more subtle poison than that of syphilis. It is not, like +smallpox or typhoid, a disease which produces a brief and sudden storm, a +violent struggle with the forces of life, in which it tends, even without +treatment, provided the organism is healthy, to succumb, leaving little or +no traces of its ravages behind. It penetrates ever deeper and deeper into +the organism, with the passage of time leading to ever new manifestations, +and no tissue is safe from its attack. And so subtle is this all-pervading +poison that though its outward manifestations are amenable to prolonged +treatment, it is often difficult to say that the poison has been finally +killed out.<a name='6_FNanchor_225'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_225'><sup>[225]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The immense importance of syphilis, and the chief reason <a name='6_Page_325'></a>why it is +necessary to consider it here, lies in the fact that its results are not +confined to the individual himself, nor even to the persons to whom he may +impart it by the contagion due to contact in or out of sexual +relationships: it affects the offspring, and it affects the power to +produce offspring. It attacks men and women at the centre of life, as the +progenitors of the coming race, inflicting either sterility or the +tendency to aborted and diseased products of conception. The father alone +can perhaps transmit syphilis to his child, even though the mother escapes +infection, and the child born of syphilitic parents may come into the +world apparently healthy only to reveal its syphilitic origin after a +period of months or even years. Thus syphilis is probably a main cause of +the enfeeblement of the race.<a name='6_FNanchor_226'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_226'><sup>[226]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Alike in the individual and in his offspring syphilis shows its +deteriorating effects on all the structures of the body, but especially on +the brain and nervous system. There are, as has been pointed out by Mott, +a leading authority in this matter,<a name='6_FNanchor_227'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_227'><sup>[227]</sup></a> five ways in which syphilis +affects the brain and nervous system: (1) by moral shock; (2) by the +effects of the poison in producing anæmia and impaired general nutrition; +(3) by causing inflammation of the membranes and tissues of the brain; (4) +by producing arterial degeneration, leading on to brain-softening, +paralysis, and dementia; (5) as a main cause of the para-syphilitic +affections of general paralysis and tabes dorsalis.</p> + +<p>It is only within recent years that medical men have recognized the +preponderant part played by acquired or inherited syphilis in producing +general paralysis, which so largely helps to fill lunatic asylums, and +tabes dorsalis which is the most important disease of the spinal cord. +Even to-day it can scarcely <a name='6_Page_326'></a>be said that there is complete agreement as +to the supreme importance of the factor of syphilis in these diseases. +There can, however, be little doubt that in about ninety-five per cent. at +least of cases of general paralysis syphilis is present.<a name='6_FNanchor_228'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_228'><sup>[228]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Syphilis is not indeed by itself an adequate cause of general paralysis +for among many savage peoples syphilis is very common while general +paralysis is very rare. It is, as Krafft-Ebing was accustomed to say, +syphilization and civilization working together which produce general +paralysis, perhaps in many cases, there is reason for thinking, on a +nervous soil that is hereditarily degenerated to some extent; this is +shown by the abnormal prevalence of congenital stigmata of degeneration +found in general paralytics by Näcke and others. "Paralyticus nascitur +atque fit," according to the dictum of Obersteiner. Once undermined by +syphilis, the deteriorated brain is unable to resist the jars and strains +of civilized life, and the result is general paralysis, truly described as +"one of the most terrible scourges of modern times." In 1902 the +Psychological Section of the British Medical Association, embodying the +most competent English authority on this question, unanimously passed a +resolution recommending that the attention of the Legislature and other +public bodies should be called to the necessity for immediate action in +view of the fact that "general paralysis, a very grave and frequent form +of brain disease, together with other varieties of insanity, is largely +due to syphilis, and is therefore preventable." Yet not a single step has +yet been taken in this direction.</p> + +<p>The dangers of syphilis lie not alone in its potency and its persistence +but also in its prevalence. It is difficult to state the exact incidence +of syphilis, but a great many partial investigations have been made in +various countries, and it would appear that <a name='6_Page_327'></a>from five to twenty per cent. +of the population in European countries is syphilitic, while about fifteen +per cent. of the syphilitic cases die from causes directly or indirectly +due to the disease.<a name='6_FNanchor_229'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_229'><sup>[229]</sup></a> In France generally, Fournier estimates that +seventeen per cent. of the whole population have had syphilis, and at +Toulouse, Audry considers that eighteen per cent. of all his patients are +syphilitic. In Copenhagen, where notification is obligatory, over four per +cent. of the population are said to be syphilitic. In America a committee +of the Medical Society of New York, appointed to investigate the question, +reported as the result of exhaustive inquiry that in the city of New York +not less than a quarter of a million of cases of venereal disease occurred +every year, and a leading New York dermatologist has stated that among the +better class families he knows intimately at least one-third of the sons +have had syphilis. In Germany eight hundred thousand cases of venereal +disease are by one authority estimated to occur yearly, and in the larger +universities twenty-five per cent. of the students are infected every +term, venereal disease being, however, specially common among students. +The yearly number of men invalided in the German army by venereal diseases +equals a third of the total number wounded in the Franco-Prussian war. Yet +the German army stands fairly high as regards freedom from venereal +disease when compared with the British army which is more syphilized than +any other European army.<a name='6_FNanchor_230'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_230'><sup>[230]</sup></a> The British army, however, being +professional and not <a name='6_Page_328'></a>national, is less representative of the people than +is the case in countries where some form of conscription prevails. At one +London hospital it could be ascertained that ten per cent. of the patients +had had syphilis; this probably means a real proportion of about fifteen +per cent., a high though not extremely high ratio. Yet it is obvious that +even if the ratio is really lower than this the national loss in life and +health, in defective procreation and racial deterioration, must be +enormous and practically incalculable. Even in cash the venereal budget is +comparable in amount to the general budget of a great nation. Stritch +estimates that the cost to the British nation of venereal diseases in the +army, navy and Government departments alone, amounts annually to +£3,000,000, and when allowance is made for superannuations and sick-leave +indirectly occasioned through these diseases, though not appearing in the +returns as such, the more accurate estimate of the cost to the nation is +stated to be £7,000,000. The adoption of simple hygienic measures for the +prevention and the speedy cure of venereal diseases will be not only +indirectly but even directly a source of immense wealth to the nation.</p> + +<p>Syphilis is the most obviously and conspicuously appalling of the venereal +diseases. Yet it is less frequent and in some respects less dangerously +insidious than the other chief venereal disease, gonorrhœa.<a name='6_FNanchor_231'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_231'><sup>[231]</sup></a> +At one time the serious nature of gonorrhœa, especially in women, +was little realized. Men accepted it with a light heart as a trivial +accident; women ignored it. This failure to realize the gravity of +gonorrhœa, <a name='6_Page_329'></a>even sometimes on the part of the medical +profession—so that it has been popularly looked upon, in Grandin's words, +as of little more significance than a cold in the nose—has led to a +reaction on the part of some towards an opposite extreme, and the risks +and dangers of gonorrhœa have been even unduly magnified. This is +notably the case as regards sterility. The inflammatory results of +gonorrhœa are indubitably a potent cause of sterility in both +sexes; some authorities have stated that not only eighty per cent. of the +deaths from inflammatory diseases of the pelvic organs and the majority of +the cases of chronic invalidism in women, but ninety per cent. of +involuntary sterile marriages, are due to gonorrhœa. Neisser, a +great authority, ascribes to this disease without doubt fifty per cent, of +such marriages. Even this estimate is in the experience of some observers +excessive. It is fully proved that the great majority of men who have had +gonorrhœa, even if they marry within two years of being infected, +fail to convey the disease to their wives, and even of the women infected +by their husbands more than half have children. This is, for instance, the +result of Erb's experience, and Kisch speaks still more strongly in the +same sense. Bumm, again, although regarding gonorrhœa as one of +the two chief causes of sterility in women, finds that it is not the most +frequent cause, being only responsible for about one-third of the cases; +the other two-thirds are due to developmental faults in the genital +organs. Dunning in America has reached results which are fairly concordant +with Bumm's.</p> + +<p>With regard to another of the terrible results of gonorrhœa, the +part it plays in producing life-long blindness from infection of the eyes +at birth, there has long been no sort of doubt. The Committee of the +Ophthalmological Society in 1884, reported that thirty to forty-one per +cent. of the inmates of four asylums for the blind in England owed their +blindness to this cause.<a name='6_FNanchor_232'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_232'><sup>[232]</sup></a> In German asylums Reinhard found that thirty +per cent. lost their sight from the same cause. The total number of +persons blind from gonorrhœal infection from their mothers at +birth is <a name='6_Page_330'></a>enormous. The British Royal Commission on the Condition of the +Blind estimated there were about seven thousand persons in the United +Kingdom alone (or twenty-two per cent. of the blind persons in the +country) who became blind as the result of this disease, and Mookerji +stated in his address on Ophthalmalogy at the Indian Medical Congress of +1894 that in Bengal alone there were six hundred thousand totally blind +beggars, forty per cent. of whom lost their sight at birth through +maternal gonorrhœa; and this refers to the beggar class alone.</p> + +<p>Although gonorrhœa is liable to produce many and various +calamities,<a name='6_FNanchor_233'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_233'><sup>[233]</sup></a> +there can be no doubt that the majority of gonorrhœal +persons escape either suffering or inflicting any very serious +injury. The special reason why gonorrhœa has become so peculiarly +serious a scourge is its extreme prevalence. It is difficult to estimate +the proportion of men and women in the general population who have had +gonorrhœa, and the estimates vary within wide limits. They are +often set too high. Erb, of Heidelberg, anxious to disprove exaggerated +estimates of the prevalence of gonorrhœa, went over the records +of two thousand two hundred patients in his private practice (excluding +all hospital patients) and found the proportion of those who had suffered +from gonorrhœa was 48.5 per cent.</p> + +<p>Among the working classes the disease is much less prevalent than among +higher-class people. In a Berlin Industrial Sick Club, 412 per 10,000 men +and 69 per 10,000 women had gonorrhœa in a year; taking a series +of years the Club showed a steady increase in the number of men, and +decrease in the number of women, with venereal infection; this seems to +indicate that the laboring classes are beginning to have intercourse more +with prostitutes and less with respectable girls.<a name='6_FNanchor_234'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_234'><sup>[234]</sup></a> In America Wood +Ruggles has given (as had Noggerath previously, for New York), the +prevalence of gonorrhœa among adult males as from 75 to 80 per +cent.; Tenney places it much lower, 20 per cent. for males <a name='6_Page_331'></a>and 5 per +cent. for females. In England, a writer in the <i>Lancet</i>, some years +ago,<a name='6_FNanchor_235'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_235'><sup>[235]</sup></a> found as the result of experience and inquiries that 75 per +cent. adult males have had gonorrhœa once, 40 per cent. twice, 15 +per cent. three or more times. According to Dulberg about twenty per cent. +of new cases occur in married men of good social class, the disease being +comparatively rare among married men of the working class in England.</p> + +<p>Gonorrhœa in its prevalence is thus only second to measles and in +the gravity of its results scarcely second to tuberculosis. "And yet," as +Grandin remarks in comparing gonorrhœa to tuberculosis, "witness +the activity of the crusade against the latter and the criminal apathy +displayed when the former is concerned."<a name='6_FNanchor_236'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_236'><sup>[236]</sup></a> The public must learn to +understand, another writer remarks, that "gonorrhœa is a pest +that concerns its highest interests and most sacred relations as much as +do smallpox, cholera, diphtheria, or tuberculosis."<a name='6_FNanchor_237'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_237'><sup>[237]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It cannot fairly be said that no attempts have been made to beat back the +flood of venereal disease. On the contrary, such attempts have been made +from the first. But they have never been effectual;<a name='6_FNanchor_238'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_238'><sup>[238]</sup></a> they have never +been modified to changed condition; <a name='6_Page_332'></a>at the present day they are +hopelessly unscientific and entirely opposed alike to the social and the +individual demands of modern peoples. At the various conferences on this +question which have been held during recent years the only generally +accepted conclusion which has emerged is that all the existing +systems of interference or non-interference with prostitution are +unsatisfactory.<a name='6_FNanchor_239'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_239'><sup>[239]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The character of prostitution has changed and the methods of dealing with +it must change. Brothels, and the systems of official regulation which +grew up with special reference to brothels, are alike out of date; they +have about them a mediæval atmosphere, an antiquated spirit, which now +render them unattractive and suspected. The conspicuously distinctive +brothel is falling into disrepute; the liveried prostitute absolutely +under municipal control can scarcely be said to exist. Prostitution tends +to become more diffused, more intimately mingled with social life +generally, less easily distinguished as a definitely separable part of +life. We can nowadays only influence it by methods of permeation which +bear upon the whole of our social life.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The objection to the regulation of prostitution is still of slow + growth, but it is steadily developing everywhere, and may be + traced equally in scientific opinion and in popular feeling. In + France the municipalities of some of the largest cities have + either suppressed the system of regulation entirely or shown + their disapproval of it, while an inquiry among several hundred + medical men showed that less than one-third were in favor of + maintaining regulation (<i>Die Neue Generation</i>, June, 1909, p. + 244). In Germany, where there is in some respects more <a name='6_Page_333'></a>patient + endurance of interference with the liberty of the individual than + in France, England, or America, various elaborate systems for + organizing prostitution and dealing with venereal disease + continue to be maintained, but they cannot be completely carried + out, and it is generally admitted that in any case they could not + accomplish the objects sought. Thus in Saxony no brothels are + officially tolerated, though as a matter of fact they + nevertheless exist. Here, as in many other parts of Germany, most + minute and extensive regulations are framed for the use of + prostitutes. Thus at Leipzig they must not sit on the benches in + public promenades, nor go to picture galleries, or theatres, or + concerts, or restaurants, nor look out of their windows, nor + stare about them in the street, nor smile, nor wink, etc., etc. + In fact, a German prostitute who possesses the heroic + self-control to carry out conscientiously all the self-denying + ordinances officially decreed for her guidance would seem to be + entitled to a Government pension for life.</p> + +<p> Two methods of dealing with prostitution prevail in Germany. In + some cities public houses of prostitution are tolerated (though + not licensed); in other cities prostitution is "free," though + "secret." Hamburg is the most important city where houses of + prostitution are tolerated and segregated. But, it is stated, + "everywhere, by far the larger proportion of the prostitutes + belong to the so-called 'secret' class." In Hamburg, alone, are + suspected men, when accused of infecting women, officially + examined; men of every social class must obey a summons of this + kind, which is issued secretly, and if diseased, they are bound + to go under treatment, if necessary under compulsory treatment in + the city hospital, until no longer dangerous to the community.</p> + +<p> In Germany it is only when a woman has been repeatedly observed + to act suspiciously in the streets that she is quietly warned; if + the warning is disregarded she is invited to give her name and + address to the police, and interviewed. It is not until these + methods fail that she is officially inscribed as a prostitute. + The inscribed women, in some cities at all events, contribute to + a sick benefit fund which pays their expenses when in hospital. + The hesitation of the police to inscribe a woman on the official + list is legitimate and inevitable, for no other course would be + tolerated; yet the majority of prostitutes begin their careers + very young, and as they tend to become infected very early after + their careers begin, it is obvious that this delay contributes to + render the system of regulation ineffective. In Berlin, where + there are no officially recognized brothels, there are some six + thousand inscribed prostitutes, but it is estimated that there + are over sixty thousand prostitutes who are not inscribed. (The + foregoing facts are taken from a series of papers describing + personal investigations in Germany made by Dr. F. Bierhoff, of + New York, "Police Methods for the Sanitary Control of + Prostitution," <i>New York Medical Journal</i>, August, 1907.) The + estimation <a name='6_Page_334'></a>of the amount of clandestine prostitution can indeed + never be much more than guesswork; exactly the same figure of + sixty thousand is commonly brought forward as the probable number + of prostitutes not only in Berlin, but also in London and in New + York. It is absolutely impossible to say whether it is under or + over the real number, for secret prostitution is quite + intangible. Even if the facts were miraculously revealed there + would still remain the difficulty of deciding what is and what is + not prostitution. The avowed and public prostitute is linked by + various gradations on the one side to the respectable girl living + at home who seeks some little relief from the oppression of her + respectability, and on the other hand to the married woman who + has married for the sake of a home. In any case, however, it is + very certain that public prostitutes living entirely on the + earnings of prostitution form but a small proportion of the vast + army of women who may be said, in a wide sense of the word, to be + prostitutes, <i>i.e.</i>, who use their attractiveness to obtain from + men not love alone, but money or goods.</p></div> + +<p>"The struggle against syphilis is only possible if we agree to regard its +victims as unfortunate and not as guilty.... We must give up the prejudice +which has led to the creation of the term 'shameful diseases,' and which +commands silence concerning this scourge of the family and of humanity." +In these words of Duclaux, the distinguished successor of Pasteur at the +Pasteur Institute, in his noble and admirable work <i>L'Hygiène Sociale</i>, we +have indicated to us, I am convinced, the only road by which we can +approach the rational and successful treatment of the great social problem +of venereal disease.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The supreme importance of this key to the solution of a problem + which has often seemed insoluble is to-day beginning to become + recognized in all quarters, and in every country. Thus a + distinguished German authority, Professor Finger (<i>Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft</i>, Bd. i, Heft 5) declares that venereal disease must + not be regarded as the well-merited punishment for a debauched + life, but as an unhappy accident. It seems to be in France, + however, that this truth has been proclaimed with most courage + and humanity, and not alone by the followers of science and + medicine, but by many who might well be excused from interfering + with so difficult and ungrateful a task. Thus the brothers, Paul + and Victor Margueritte, who occupy a brilliant and honorable + place in contemporary French letters, have distinguished + themselves by advocating a more humane attitude towards + prostitutes, and a more modern method of dealing with the + question of venereal <a name='6_Page_335'></a>disease. "The true method of prevention is + that which makes it clear to all that syphilis is not a + mysterious and terrible thing, the penalty of the sin of the + flesh, a sort of shameful evil branded by Catholic malediction, + but an ordinary disease which may be treated and cured." It may + be remarked that the aversion to acknowledge venereal disease is + at least as marked in France as in any other country; "maladies + honteuses" is a consecrated French term, just as "loathsome + disease" is in English; "in the hospital," says Landret, "it + requires much trouble to obtain an avowal of gonorrhœa, + and we may esteem ourselves happy if the patient acknowledges the + fact of having had syphilis."</p></div> + +<p>No evils can be combated until they are recognized, simply and frankly, +and honestly discussed. It is a significant and even symbolic fact that +the bacteria of disease rarely flourish when they are open to the free +currents of pure air. Obscurity, disguise, concealment furnish the best +conditions for their vigor and diffusion, and these favoring conditions we +have for centuries past accorded to venereal diseases. It was not always +so, as indeed the survival of the word 'venereal' itself in this +connection, with its reference to a goddess, alone suffices to show. Even +the name "syphilis" itself, taken from a romantic poem in which +Fracastorus sought a mythological origin for the disease, bears witness to +the same fact. The romantic attitude is indeed as much out of date as that +of hypocritical and shamefaced obscurantism. We need to face these +diseases in the same simple, direct, and courageous way which has already +been adopted successfully in the ease of smallpox, a disease which, of +old, men thought analogous to syphilis and which was indeed once almost as +terrible in its ravages.</p> + +<p>At this point, however, we encounter those who say that it is unnecessary +to show any sort of recognition of venereal diseases, and immoral to do +anything that might seem to involve indulgence to those who suffer from +such diseases; they have got what they deserve and may well be left to +perish. Those who take this attitude place themselves so far outside the +pale of civilization—to say nothing of morality or religion—that they +might well be disregarded. The progress of the race, the development of +humanity, in fact and in feeling, has consisted in the elimination of an +attitude which it is an insult to primitive peoples to term <a name='6_Page_336'></a>savage. Yet +it is an attitude which should not be ignored for it still carries weight +with many who are too weak to withstand those who juggle with fine moral +phrases. I have even seen in a medical quarter the statement that venereal +disease cannot be put on the same level with other infectious diseases +because it is "the result of voluntary action." But all the diseases, +indeed all the accidents and misfortunes of suffering human beings, are +equally the involuntary results of voluntary actions. The man who is run +over in crossing the street, the family poisoned by unwholesome food, the +mother who catches the disease of the child she is nursing, all these +suffer as the involuntary result of the voluntary act of gratifying some +fundamental human instinct—the instinct of activity, the instinct of +nutrition, the instinct of affection. The instinct of sex is as +fundamental as any of these, and the involuntary evils which may follow +the voluntary act of gratifying it stand on exactly the same level. This +is the essential fact: a human being in following the human instincts +implanted within him has stumbled and fallen. Any person who sees, not +this essential fact but merely some subsidiary aspect of it, reveals a +mind that is twisted and perverted; he has no claim to arrest our +attention.</p> + +<p>But even if we were to adopt the standpoint of the would-be moralist, and +to agree that everyone must be left to suffer his deserts, it is far +indeed from being the fact that all those who contract venereal diseases +are in any sense receiving their deserts. In a large number of cases the +disease has been inflicted on them in the most absolutely involuntary +manner. This is, of course, true in the case of the vast number of infants +who are infected at conception or at birth. But it is also true in a +scarcely less absolute manner of a large proportion of persons infected in +later life.</p> + +<p><i>Syphilis insontium</i>, or syphilis of the innocent, as it is commonly +called, may be said to fall into five groups: (1) the vast army of +congenitally syphilitic infants who inherit the disease from father or +mother; (2) the constantly occurring cases of syphilis contracted, in the +course of their professional duties, by doctors, midwives and wet-nurses; +(3) infection as a result of <a name='6_Page_337'></a>affection, as in simple kissing; (4) +accidental infection from casual contacts and from using in common the +objects and utensils of daily life, such as cups, towels, razors, knives +(as in ritual circumcision), etc; (5) the infection of wives by their +husbands.<a name='6_FNanchor_240'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_240'><sup>[240]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Hereditary congenital syphilis belongs to the ordinary pathology of the +disease and is a chief element in its social danger since it is +responsible for an enormous infantile mortality.<a name='6_FNanchor_241'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_241'><sup>[241]</sup></a> The risks of +extragenital infection in the professional activity of doctors, midwives +and wet-nurses is also universally recognized. In the case of wet-nurses +infected by their employers' syphilitic infants at their breast, the +penalty inflicted on the innocent is peculiarly harsh and unnecessary. The +influence of infected low-class midwives is notably dangerous, for they +may inflict widespread injury in ignorance; thus the case has been +recorded of a midwife, whose finger became infected in the course of her +duties, and directly or indirectly contaminated one hundred persons. +Kissing is an extremely common source of syphilitic infection, and of all +extragenital regions the mouth is by far the most frequent seat of primary +syphilitic sores. In some cases, it is true, especially in prostitutes, +this is the result of abnormal sexual contacts. But in the majority of +cases it is the result of ordinary and slight kisses as between young +children, between parents and children, between lovers and friends and +acquaintances.<a name='6_Page_338'></a> Fairly typical examples, which have been reported, are +those of a child, kissed by a prostitute, who became infected and +subsequently infected its mother and grandmother; of a young French bride +contaminated on her wedding-day by one of the guests who, according to +French custom, kissed her on the cheek after the ceremony; of an American +girl who, returning from a ball, kissed, at parting, the young man who had +accompanied her home, thus acquiring the disease which she not long +afterwards imparted in the same way to her mother and three sisters. The +ignorant and unthinking are apt to ridicule those who point out the +serious risks of miscellaneous kissing. But it remains nevertheless true +that people who are not intimate enough to know the state of each other's +health are not intimate enough to kiss each other. Infection by the use of +domestic utensils, linen, etc., while comparatively rare among the better +social classes, is extremely common among the lower classes and among the +less civilized nations; in Russia, according to Tarnowsky, the chief +authority, seventy per cent. of all cases of syphilis in the rural +districts are due to this cause and to ordinary kissing, and a special +conference in St. Petersburg in 1897, for the consideration of the methods +of dealing with venereal disease, recorded its opinion to the same effect; +much the same seems to be true regarding Bosnia and various parts of the +Balkan peninsula where syphilis is extremely prevalent among the +peasantry. As regards the last group, according to Bulkley in America, +fifty per cent. of women generally contract syphilis innocently, chiefly +from their husbands, while Fournier states that in France seventy-five per +cent. of married women with syphilis have been infected by their husbands, +most frequently (seventy per cent.) by husbands who were themselves +infected before marriage and supposed that they were cured. Among men the +proportion of syphilitics who have been accidentally infected, though less +than among women, is still very considerable; it is stated to be at least +ten per cent., and possibly it is a much larger proportion of cases. The +scrupulous moralist who is anxious that all should have their deserts +cannot fail to be still more anxious to prevent the innocent from +suffering in place of the guilty. But it is <a name='6_Page_339'></a>absolutely impossible for him +to combine these two aims; syphilis cannot be at the same time perpetuated +for the guilty and abolished for the innocent.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>I have been taking only syphilis into account, but nearly all + that is said of the accidental infection of syphilis applies with + equal or greater force to gonorrhœa, for though + gonorrhœa does not enter into the system by so many + channels as syphilis, it is a more common as well as a more + subtle and elusive disease.</p> + +<p> The literature of Syphilis Insontium is extremely extensive. + There is a bibliography at the end of Duncan Bulkley's <i>Syphilis + in the Innocent</i>, and a comprehensive summary of the question in + a Leipzig Inaugural Dissertation by F. Moses, <i>Zur Kasuistik der + Extragenitalen Syphilis-infektion</i>, 1904.</p></div> + +<p>Even, however, when we have put aside the vast number of venereally +infected people who may be said to be, in the narrowest and most +conventionally moral sense, "innocent" victims of the diseases they have +contracted, there is still much to be said on this question. It must be +remembered that the majority of those who contract venereal diseases by +illegitimate sexual intercourse are young. They are youths, ignorant of +life, scarcely yet escaped from home, still undeveloped, incompletely +educated, and easily duped by women; in many cases they have met, as they +thought, a "nice" girl, not indeed strictly virtuous but, it seemed to +them, above all suspicion of disease, though in reality she was a +clandestine prostitute. Or they are young girls who have indeed ceased to +be absolutely chaste, but have not yet lost all their innocence, and who +do not consider themselves, and are not by others considered, prostitutes; +that indeed, is one of the rocks on which the system of police regulation +of prostitution comes to grief, for the police cannot catch the prostitute +at a sufficiently early stage. Of women who become syphilitic, according +to Fournier, twenty per cent. are infected before they are nineteen; in +hospitals the proportion is as high as forty per cent.; and of men fifteen +per cent. cases occur between eleven and twenty-one years of age. The age +of maximum frequency of infection is for women twenty years (in the rural +population eighteen), and for men twenty-three years. In Germany Erb +<a name='6_Page_340'></a>finds that as many as eighty-five per cent men with gonorrhœa +contracted the disease between the ages of sixteen and twenty-five, a very +small percentage being infected after thirty. These young things for the +most part fell into a trap which Nature had baited with her most +fascinating lure; they were usually ignorant; not seldom they were +deceived by an attractive personality; often they were overcome by +passion; frequently all prudence and reserve had been lost in the fumes of +wine. From a truly moral point of view they were scarcely less innocent +than children.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"I ask," says Duclaux, "whether when a young man, or a young + girl, abandon themselves to a dangerous caress society has done + what it can to warn them. Perhaps its intentions were good, but + when the need came for precise knowledge a silly prudery has held + it back, and it has left its children without <i>viaticum</i>.... I + will go further, and proclaim that in a large number of cases the + husbands who contaminate their wives are innocent. No one is + responsible for the evil which he commits without knowing it and + without willing it." I may recall the suggestive fact, already + referred to, that the majority of husbands who infect their wives + contracted the disease before marriage. They entered on marriage + believing that their disease was cured, and that they had broken + with their past. Doctors have sometimes (and quacks frequently) + contributed to this result by too sanguine an estimate of the + period necessary to destroy the poison. So great an authority as + Fournier formerly believed that the syphilitic could safely be + allowed to marry three or four years after the date of infection, + but now, with increased experience, he extends the period to four + or five years. It is undoubtedly true that, especially when + treatment has been thorough and prompt, the diseased + constitution, in a majority of cases, can be brought under + complete control in a shorter period than this, but there is + always a certain proportion of cases in which the powers of + infection persist for many years, and even when the syphilitic + husband is no longer capable of infecting his wife he may still + perhaps be in a condition to effect a disastrous influence on the + offspring.</p></div> + +<p>In nearly all these cases there was more or less ignorance—which is but +another word for innocence as we commonly understand innocence—and when +at last, after the event, the facts are more or less bluntly explained to +the victim he frequently exclaims: "Nobody told me!" It is this fact which +condemns the <a name='6_Page_341'></a>pseudo-moralist. If he had seen to it that mothers began to +explain the facts of sex to their little boys and girls from childhood, if +he had (as Dr. Joseph Price urges) taught the risks of venereal disease in +the Sunday-school, if he had plainly preached on the relations of the +sexes from the pulpit, if he had seen to it that every youth at the +beginning of adolescence received some simple technical instruction from +his family doctor concerning sexual health and sexual disease—then, +though there would still remain the need of pity for those who strayed +from a path that must always be difficult to walk in, the would-be +moralist at all events would in some measure be exculpated. But he has +seldom indeed lifted a finger to do any of these things.</p> + +<p>Even those who may be unwilling to abandon an attitude of private moral +intolerance towards the victims of venereal diseases may still do well to +remember that since the public manifestation of their intolerance is +mischievous, and at the best useless, it is necessary for them to restrain +it in the interests of society. They would not be the less free to order +their own personal conduct in the strictest accordance with their superior +moral rigidity; and that after all is for them the main thing. But for the +sake of society it is necessary for them to adopt what they may consider +the convention of a purely hygienic attitude towards these diseases. The +erring are inevitably frightened by an attitude of moral reprobation into +methods of concealment, and these produce an endless chain of social evils +which can only be dissipated by openness. As Duclaux has so earnestly +insisted, it is impossible to grapple successfully with venereal disease +unless we consent not to introduce our prejudices, or even our morals and +religion, into the question, but treat it purely and simply as a sanitary +question. And if the pseudo-moralist still has difficulty in coöperating +towards the healing of this social sore he may be reminded that he +himself—like every one of us little though we may know it—has certainly +had a great army of syphilitic and gonorrhœal persons among his +own ancestors during the past four centuries. We are all bound together, +and it is absurd, even when it is not inhuman, to cast contempt on our own +flesh and blood.</p> + +<p>I have discussed rather fully the attitude of those who plead <a name='6_Page_342'></a>morality as +a reason for ignoring the social necessity of combating venereal disease, +because although there may not be many who seriously and understandingly +adopt so anti-social and inhuman an attitude there are certainly many who +are glad at need of the existence of so fine an excuse for their moral +indifference or their mental indolence.<a name='6_FNanchor_242'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_242'><sup>[242]</sup></a> When they are confronted by +this great and difficult problem they find it easy to offer the remedy of +conventional morality, although they are well aware that on a large scale +that remedy has long been proved to be ineffectual. They ostentatiously +affect to proffer the useless thick end of the wedge at a point where it +is only possible with much skill and prudence to insinuate the thin +working end.</p> + +<p>The general acceptance of the fact that syphilis and gonorrhœa +are diseases, and not necessarily crimes or sins, is the condition for any +practical attempt to deal with this question from the sanitary point of +view which is now taking the place of the antiquated and ineffective +police point of view. The Scandinavian countries of Europe have been the +pioneers in practical modern hygienic methods of dealing with venereal +disease. There are several reasons why this has come about. All the +problems of sex—of sexual love as well as of sexual disease—have long +been prominent in these countries, and an impatience with prudish +hypocrisy seems here to have been more pronounced than elsewhere; we see +this spirit, for instance, emphatically embodied in the plays of Ibsen, +and to some extent in Björnson's works. The fearless and energetic temper +of the people impels them to deal practically with sexual difficulties, +while their strong instincts of independence render them averse to the +bureaucratic police methods which have flourished in Germany and France. +The Scandinavians have thus been the natural pioneers of the methods of +combating venereal diseases which are now becoming <a name='6_Page_343'></a>generally recognized +to be the methods of the future, and they have fully organized the system +of putting venereal diseases under the ordinary law and dealing with them +as with other contagious diseases.</p> + +<p>The first step in dealing with a contagious disease is to apply to it the +recognized principles of notification. Every new application of the +principle, it is true, meets with opposition. It is without practical +result, it is an unwarranted inquisition into the affairs of the +individual, it is a new tax on the busy medical practitioner, etc. +Certainly notification by itself will not arrest the progress of any +infectious disease. But it is an essential element in every attempt to +deal with the prevention of disease. Unless we know precisely the exact +incidence, local variations, and temporary fluctuations of a disease we +are entirely in the dark and can only beat about at random. All progress +in public hygiene has been accompanied by the increased notification of +disease, and most authorities are agreed that such notification must be +still further extended, any slight inconvenience thus caused to +individuals being of trifling importance compared to the great public +interests at stake. It is true that so great an authority as Neisser has +expressed doubt concerning the extension of notification to gonorrhœa; +the diagnosis cannot be infallible, and the patients often give +false names. These objections, however, seem trivial; diagnosis can very +seldom be infallible (though in this field no one has done so much for +exact diagnosis as Neisser himself), and names are not necessary for +notification, and are not indeed required in the form of compulsory +notification of venereal disease which existed a few years ago in Norway.</p> + +<p>The principle of the compulsory notification of venereal diseases seems to +have been first established in Prussia, where it dates from 1835. The +system here, however, is only partial, not being obligatory in all cases +but only when in the doctor's opinion secrecy might be harmful to the +patient himself or to the community; it is only obligatory when the +patient is a soldier. This method of notification is indeed on a wrong +basis, it is not part of a comprehensive sanitary system but merely an +auxiliary to police methods of dealing with prostitution. According to +the<a name='6_Page_344'></a> Scandinavian system, notification, though not an essential part of +this system, rests on an entirely different basis.</p> + +<p>The Scandinavian plan in a modified form has lately been established in +Denmark. This little country, so closely adjoining Germany, for some time +followed in this matter the example of its great neighbor and adopted the +police regulation of prostitution and venereal disease. The more +fundamental Scandinavian affinities of Denmark were, however, eventually +asserted, and in 1906, the system of regulation was entirely abandoned and +Denmark resolved to rely on thorough and systematic application of the +sanitary principle already accepted in the country, although something of +German influence still persists in the strict regulation of the streets +and the penalties imposed upon brothel-keepers, leaving prostitution +itself free. The decisive feature of the present system is, however, that +the sanitary authorities are now exclusively medical. Everyone, whatever +his social or financial position, is entitled to the free treatment of +venereal disease. Whether he avails himself of it or not, he is in any +case bound to undergo treatment. Every diseased person is thus, so far as +it can be achieved, in a doctor's hands. All doctors have their +instructions in regard to such cases, they have not only to inform their +patients that they cannot marry so long as risks of infection are +estimated to be present, but that they are liable for the expenses of +treatment, as well as the dangers suffered, by any persons whom they may +infect. Although it has not been possible to make the system at every +point thoroughly operative, its general success is indicated by the entire +reliance now placed on it, and the abandonment of the police regulation of +prostitution. A system very similar to that of Denmark was established +some years previously in Norway. The principle of the treatment of +venereal disease at the public expense exists also in Sweden as well as in +Finland, where treatment is compulsory.<a name='6_FNanchor_243'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_243'><sup>[243]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_345'></a> +<p>It can scarcely be said that the principle of notification has yet been +properly applied on a large scale to venereal diseases. But it is +constantly becoming more widely advocated, more especially in England and +the United States,<a name='6_FNanchor_244'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_244'><sup>[244]</sup></a> where national temperament and political +traditions render the system of the police regulation of prostitution +impossible—even if it were more effective than it practically is—and +where the system of dealing with venereal disease on the basis of public +health has to be recognized as not only the best but the only possible +system.<a name='6_FNanchor_245'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_245'><sup>[245]</sup></a></p> + +<p>In association with this, it is necessary, as is also becoming ever more +widely recognized, that there should be the most ample facilities for the +gratuitous treatment of venereal diseases; the general establishment of +free dispensaries, open in the evenings, is especially necessary, for many +can only seek advice and help at this time. It is largely to the +systematic introduction of facilities for gratuitous treatment that the +enormous reduction in venereal disease in Sweden, Norway, and Bosnia is +attributed. It is the absence of the facilities for treatment, the implied +feeling that the victims of venereal disease are not sufferers but merely +offenders not entitled to care, that has in the past operated so +disastrously in artificially promoting the dissemination of preventable +diseases which might be brought under control.</p> + +<p>If we dispense with the paternal methods of police regulation, if we rely +on the general principles of medical hygiene, and for the rest allow the +responsibility for his own good or bad actions to rest on the individual +himself, there is a further step, already fully recognized in principle, +which we cannot neglect to take: We must look on every person as +accountable for the venereal diseases he transmits. So long as we refuse +to recognize venereal diseases as on the same level as other infectious +diseases, and so long as we offer no full and fair facilities for their +treatment, <a name='6_Page_346'></a>it is unjust to bring the individual to account for spreading +them. But if we publicly recognize the danger of infectious venereal +diseases, and if we leave freedom to the individual, we must inevitably +declare, with Duclaux, that every man or woman must be held responsible +for the diseases he or she communicates.</p> + +<p>According to the Oldenburg Code of 1814 it was a punishable offence for a +venereally diseased person to have sexual intercourse with a healthy +person, whether or not infection resulted. In Germany to-day, however, +there is no law of this kind, although eminent German legal authorities, +notably Von Liszt, are of opinion that a paragraph should be added to the +Code declaring that sexual intercourse on the part of a person who knows +that he is diseased should be punishable by imprisonment for a period not +exceeding two years, the law not to be applied as between married couples +except on the application of one of the parties. At the present time in +Germany the transmission of venereal disease is only punishable as a +special case of the infliction of bodily injury.<a name='6_FNanchor_246'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_246'><sup>[246]</sup></a> In this matter +Germany is behind most of the Scandinavian countries where individual +responsibility for venereal infection is well recognized and actively +enforced.</p> + +<p>In France, though the law is not definite and satisfactory, actions for +the transmission of syphilis are successfully brought before the courts. +Opinion seems to be more decisively in favor of punishment for this +offense than it is in Germany. In 1883 Després discussed the matter and +considered the objections. Few may avail themselves of the law, he +remarks, but all would be rendered more cautious by the fear of infringing +it; while the difficulties of tracing and proving infection are not +greater, he points out, than those of tracing and proving paternity in the +case of illegitimate children. Després would punish with imprisonment for +not more than two years any person, knowing himself to be diseased, who +transmitted a venereal disease, and would <a name='6_Page_347'></a>merely fine those who +communicated the contagion by imprudence, not realizing that they were +diseased.<a name='6_FNanchor_247'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_247'><sup>[247]</sup></a> The question has more recently been discussed by Aurientis +in a Paris thesis. He states that the present French law as regards the +transmission of sexual diseases is not clearly established and is +difficult to act upon, but it is certainly just that those who have been +contaminated and injured in this way should easily be able to obtain +reparation. Although it is admitted in principle that the communication of +syphilis is an offence even under common law he is in agreement with those +who would treat it as a special offence, making a new and more practical +law.<a name='6_FNanchor_248'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_248'><sup>[248]</sup></a> Heavy damages are even at the present time obtained in the +French courts from men who have infected young women in sexual +intercourse, and also from the doctors as well as the mothers of +syphilitic infants who have infected the foster-mothers they were +entrusted to. Although the French Penal Code forbids in general the +disclosure of professional secrets, it is the duty of the medical +practitioner to warn the foster-mother in such a case of the danger she is +incurring, but without naming the disease; if he neglects to give this +warning he may be held liable.</p> + +<p>In England, as well as in the United States, the law is more +unsatisfactory and more helpless, in relation to this class of offences, +than it is in France. The mischievous and barbarous notion, already dealt +with, according to which venereal disease is the result of illicit +intercourse and should be tolerated as a just visitation of God, seems +still to flourish in these countries with fatal persistency. In England +the communication of venereal disease by illicit intercourse is not an +actionable wrong if the act of intercourse has been voluntary, even +although there has been wilful and intentional concealment of the disease. +<i>Ex turpi causâ non oritur actio</i>, it is sententiously said; for there is +much dormitative virtue in a Latin maxim. No legal offence has still been +committed if a husband contaminates his wife, or a <a name='6_Page_348'></a>wife her husband.<a name='6_FNanchor_249'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_249'><sup>[249]</sup></a> +The "freedom" enjoyed in this matter by England and the United States is +well illustrated by an American case quoted by Dr. Isidore Dyer, of New +Orleans, in his report to the Brussels Conference on the Prevention of +Venereal Diseases, in 1899: "A patient with primary syphilis refused even +charitable treatment and carried a book wherein she kept the number of men +she had inoculated. When I first saw her she declared the number had +reached two hundred and nineteen and that she would not be treated until +she had had revenge on five hundred men." In a community where the most +elementary rules of justice prevailed facilities would exist to enable +this woman to obtain damages from the man who had injured her or even to +secure his conviction to a term of imprisonment. In obtaining some +indemnity for the wrong done her, and securing the "revenge" she craved, +she would at the same time have conferred a benefit on society. She is +shut out from any action against the one person who injured her; but as a +sort of compensation she is allowed to become a radiating focus of +disease, to shorten many lives, to cause many deaths, to pile up +incalculable damages; and in so doing she is to-day perfectly within her +legal rights. A community which encourages this state of things is not +only immoral but stupid.</p> + +<p>There seems, however, to be a growing body of influential opinion, both in +England and in the United States, in favor of making the transmission of +venereal disease an offence punishable by heavy fine or by +imprisonment.<a name='6_FNanchor_250'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_250'><sup>[250]</sup></a> In any enactment no stress <a name='6_Page_349'></a>should be put on the +infection being conveyed "knowingly." Any formal limitation of this kind +is unnecessary, as in such a case the Court always takes into account the +offender's ignorance or mere negligence, and it is mischievous because it +tends to render an enactment ineffective and to put a premium on +ignorance; the husbands who infect their wives with gonorrhœa +immediately after marriage have usually done so from ignorance, and it +should be at least necessary for them to prove that they have been +fortified in their ignorance by medical advice. It is sometimes said that +the existing law could be utilized for bringing actions of this kind, and +that no greater facilities should be offered for fear of increasing +attempts at blackmail. The inutility of the law at present for this +purpose is shown by the fact that it seldom or never happens that any +attempt is made to utilize it, while not only are there a number of +existing punishable offences which form the subject of attempts at +blackmail, but blackmail can still be demanded even in regard to +disreputable actions that are not legally punishable at all. Moreover, the +attempt to levy blackmail is itself an offence always sternly dealt with +in the courts.</p> + +<p>It is possible to trace the beginning of a recognition that the +transmission of a venereal disease is a matter of which legal cognizance +may be taken in the English law courts. It is now well settled that the +infection of a wife by her husband may be held to constitute the legal +cruelty which, according to the present law, must be proved, in addition +to adultery, before a wife can obtain divorce from her husband. In 1777 +Restif de la Bretonne proposed in his <i>Gynographes</i> that the communication +of a venereal disease should itself be an adequate ground for divorce; +this, however, is not at present generally accepted.<a name='6_FNanchor_251'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_251'><sup>[251]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is sometimes said that it is very well to make the individual legally +responsible for the venereal disease he communicates, but that the +difficulties of bringing that responsibility <a name='6_Page_350'></a>home would still remain. And +those who admit these difficulties frequently reply that at the worst we +should have in our hands a means of educating responsibility; the man who +deliberately ran the risk of transmitting such infection would be made to +feel that he was no longer fairly within his legal rights but had done a +bad action. We are thus led on finally to what is now becoming generally +recognized as the chief and central method of combating venereal disease, +if we are to accept the principle of individual responsibility as ruling +in this sphere of life. Organized sanitary and medical precautions, and +proper legal protection for those who have been injured, are inoperative +without the educative influence of elementary hygienic instruction placed +in the possession of every young man and woman. In a sphere that is +necessarily so intimate medical organization and legal resort can never be +all-sufficing; knowledge is needed at every step in every individual to +guide and even to awaken that sense of personal moral responsibility which +must here always rule. Wherever the importance of these questions is +becoming acutely realized—and notably at the Congresses of the German +Society for Combating Venereal Disease—the problem is resolving itself +mainly into one of education.<a name='6_FNanchor_252'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_252'><sup>[252]</sup></a> And although opinion and practice in +this matter are to-day more advanced in Germany than elsewhere the +conviction of this necessity is becoming scarcely less pronounced in all +other civilized countries, in England and America as much as in France and +the Scandinavian lands.</p> + +<p>A knowledge of the risks of disease by sexual intercourse, both in and out +of marriage,—and indeed, apart from sexual intercourse altogether,—is a +further stage of that sexual education which, as we have already seen, +must begin, so far as the elements are concerned, at a very early age. +Youths and girls should be taught, as the distinguished Austrian +economist, Anton von Menger wrote, shortly before his death, in his +excellent little book, <i>Neue Sittenlehre</i>, that the production of children +is a crime when <a name='6_Page_351'></a>the parents are syphilitic or otherwise incompetent +through transmissible chronic diseases. Information about venereal disease +should not indeed be given until after puberty is well established. It is +unnecessary and undesirable to impart medical knowledge to young boys and +girls and to warn them against risks they are yet little liable to be +exposed to. It is when the age of strong sexual instinct, actual or +potential, begins that the risks, under some circumstances, of yielding to +it, need to be clearly present to the mind. No one who reflects on the +actual facts of life ought to doubt that it is in the highest degree +desirable that every adolescent youth and girl ought to receive some +elementary instruction in the general facts of venereal disease, +tuberculosis, and alcoholism. These three "plagues of civilization" are so +widespread, so subtle and manifold in their operation, that everyone +comes in contact with them during life, and that everyone is liable to +suffer, even before he is aware, perhaps hopelessly and forever, from the +results of that contact. Vague declamation about immorality and vaguer +warnings against it have no effect and possess no meaning, while +rhetorical exaggeration is unnecessary. A very simple and concise +statement of the actual facts concerning the evils that beset life is +quite sufficient and adequate, and quite essential. To ignore this need is +only possible to those who take a dangerously frivolous view of life.</p> + +<p>It is the young woman as much as the youth who needs this enlightenment. +There are still some persons so ill-informed as to believe that though it +may be necessary to instruct the youth it is best to leave his sister +unsullied, as they consider it, by a knowledge of the facts of life. This +is the very reverse of the truth. It is desirable indeed that all should +be acquainted with facts so vital to humanity, even although not +themselves personally concerned. But the girl is even more concerned than +the youth. A man has the matter more within his own grasp, and if he so +chooses he may avoid all the grosser risks of contact with venereal +disease. But it is not so with the woman. Whatever her own purity, she +cannot be sure that she may not have to guard against the possibility of +disease in her future husband as well as in those to whom she may entrust +her child. It is a <a name='6_Page_352'></a>possibility which the educated woman, so far from +being dispensed from, is more liable to encounter than is the +working-class woman, for venereal disease is less prevalent among the poor +than the rich.<a name='6_FNanchor_253'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_253'><sup>[253]</sup></a> The careful physician, even when his patient is a +minister of religion, considers it his duty to inquire if he has had +syphilis, and the clergyman of most severely correct life recognizes the +need of such inquiry and may perhaps smile, but seldom feels himself +insulted. The relationship between husband and wife is even much more +intimate and important than that between doctor and patient, and a woman +is not dispensed from the necessity of such inquiry concerning her future +husband by the conviction that the reply must surely be satisfactory. +Moreover, it may well be in some cases that, if she is adequately +enlightened, she may be the means of saving him, before it is too late, +from the guilt of premature marriage and its fateful consequences, so +deserving to earn his everlasting gratitude. Even if she fails in winning +that, she still has her duty to herself and to the future race which her +children will help to form.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In most countries there is a growing feeling in favor of the + enlightenment of young women equally with young men as regards + venereal diseases. Thus in Germany Max Flesch, in his + <i>Prostitution und Frauenkrankheiten</i>, considers that at the end + of their school days all girls should receive instruction + concerning the grave physical and social dangers to which women + are exposed in life. In France Duclaux (in his <i>L'Hygiène + Sociale</i>) is emphatic that women must be taught. "Already," he + states, "doctors who by custom have been made, in spite of + themselves, the husband's accomplices, will tell you of the + ironical gaze they sometimes encounter when they seek to lead a + wife astray concerning the causes of her ills. The day is + approaching of a revolt against the social lie which has made so + many victims, and you will be obliged to teach women what they + need to know in order to guard themselves against you." It is the + same in America. Reform in this field, Isidore<a name='6_Page_353'></a> Dyer declares, + must emblazon on its flag the motto, "Knowledge is Health," as + well of mind as of body, for women as well as for men. In a + discussion introduced by Denslow Lewis at the annual meeting of + the American Medical Association in 1901 on the limitation of + venereal diseases (<i>Medico-Legal Journal</i>, June and September, + 1903), there was a fairly general agreement among all the + speakers that almost or quite the chief method of prevention lay + in education, the education of women as much as of men. + "Education lies at the bottom of the whole thing," declared one + speaker (Seneca Egbert, of Philadelphia), "and we will never gain + much headway until every young man, and every young woman, even + before she falls in love and becomes engaged, knows what these + diseases are, and what it will mean if she marries a man who has + contracted them." "Educate father and mother, and they will + educate their sons and daughters," exclaims Egbert Grandin, more + especially in regard to gonorrhœa (<i>Medical Record</i>, May + 26, 1906); "I lay stress on the daughter because she becomes the + chief sufferer from inoculation, and it is her right to know that + she should protect herself against the gonorrhœic as + well as against the alcoholic."</p></div> + +<p>We must fully face the fact that it is the woman herself who must be +accounted responsible, as much as a man, for securing the right conditions +of a marriage she proposes to enter into. In practice, at the outset, that +responsibility may no doubt be in part delegated to parents or guardians. +It is unreasonable that any false delicacy should be felt about this +matter on either side. Questions of money and of income are discussed +before marriage, and as public opinion grows sounder none will question +the necessity of discussing the still more serious question of health, +alike that of the prospective bridegroom and of the bride. An incalculable +amount of disease and marital unhappiness would be prevented if before an +engagement was finally concluded each party placed himself or herself in +the hands of a physician and authorized him to report to the other party. +Such a report would extend far beyond venereal disease. If its necessity +became generally recognized it would put an end to much fraud which now +takes place when entering the marriage bond. It constantly happens at +present that one party or the other conceals the existence of some serious +disease or disability which is speedily discovered after marriage, +sometimes with a painful and alarming shock—as when a man discovers his +wife in an epileptic fit on <a name='6_Page_354'></a>the wedding night—and always with the bitter +and abiding sense of having been duped. There can be no reasonable doubt +that such concealment is an adequate cause of divorce. Sir Thomas More +doubtless sought to guard against such frauds when he ordained in his +<i>Utopia</i> that each party should before marriage be shown naked to the +other. The quaint ceremony he describes was based on a reasonable idea, +for it is ludicrous, if it were not often tragic in its results, that any +person should be asked to undertake to embrace for life a person whom he +or she has not so much as seen.</p> + +<p>It may be necessary to point out that every movement in this direction +must be the spontaneous action of individuals directing their own lives +according to the rules of an enlightened conscience, and cannot be +initiated by the dictation of the community as a whole enforcing its +commands by law. In these matters law can only come in at the end, not at +the beginning. In the essential matters of marriage and procreation laws +are primarily made in the brains and consciences of individuals for their +own guidance. Unless such laws are already embodied in the actual practice +of the great majority of the community it is useless for parliaments to +enact them by statute. They will be ineffective or else they will be worse +than ineffective by producing undesigned mischiefs. We can only go to the +root of the matter by insisting on education in moral responsibility and +instruction, in matters of fact.</p> + +<p>The question arises as to the best person to impart this instruction. As +we have seen there can be little doubt that before puberty the parents, +and especially the mother, are the proper instructors of their children in +esoteric knowledge. But after puberty the case is altered. The boy and the +girl are becoming less amenable to parental influence, there is greater +shyness on both sides, and the parents rarely possess the more technical +knowledge that is now required. At this stage it seems that the assistance +of the physician, of the family doctor if he has the proper qualities for +the task, should be called in. The plan usually adopted, and now widely +carried out, is that of lectures setting forth the main facts concerning +venereal diseases, their <a name='6_Page_355'></a>dangers, and allied topics.<a name='6_FNanchor_254'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_254'><sup>[254]</sup></a> This method is +quite excellent. Such lectures should be delivered at intervals by medical +lecturers at all urban, educational, manufacturing, military, and naval +centres, wherever indeed a large number of young persons are gathered +together. It should be the business of the central educational authority +either to carry them out or to enforce on those controlling or employing +young persons the duty of providing such lectures. The lectures should be +free to all who have attained the age of sixteen.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In Germany the principle of instruction by lectures concerning + venereal diseases seems to have become established, at all events + so far as young men are concerned, and such lectures are + constantly becoming more usual. In 1907 the Minister of Education + established courses of lectures by doctors on sexual hygiene and + venereal diseases for higher schools and educational + institutions, though attendance was not made compulsory. The + courses now frequently given by medical men to the higher classes + in German secondary schools on the general principles of sexual + anatomy and physiology nearly always include sexual hygiene with + special reference to venereal diseases (see, <i>e.g.</i>, + <i>Sexualpädagogik</i>, pp. 131-153). In Austria, also, lectures on + personal hygiene and the dangers of venereal disease are + delivered to students about to leave the gymnasium for the + university; and the working men's clubs have instituted regular + courses of lectures on the same subjects delivered by physicians. + In France many distinguished men, both inside and outside the + medical profession, are working for the cause of the instruction + of the young in sexual hygiene, though they have to contend + against a more obstinate degree of prejudice and prudery on the + part of the middle class than is to be found in the Germanic + lands. The Commission Extraparlementaire du Régime des Mœurs, + with the conjunction of Augagneur, Alfred Fournier, Yves + Guyot, Gide, and other distinguished professors, teachers, etc., + has lately pronounced in favor of the official establishment of + instruction in sexual hygiene, to be given in the highest classes + at the lycées, or in the earliest class at higher educational + colleges; such instruction, it is argued, would not only furnish + needed enlightenment, but also educate the sense of moral + responsibility. There is in France, also, an active and + distinguished though unofficial Société Française de Prophylaxie + Sanitaire et Morale, which delivers public lectures on sexual + hygiene. Fournier, Pinard, Burlureaux and other <a name='6_Page_356'></a>eminent + physicians have written pamphlets on this subject for popular + distribution (see, <i>e.g.</i>, <i>Le Progrès Médical</i> of September, + 1907). In England and the United States very little has yet been + done in this direction, but in the United States, at all events, + opinion in favor of action is rapidly growing (see, <i>e.g.</i>, W. A. + Funk, "The Venereal Peril," <i>Medical Record</i>, April 13, 1907). + The American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis (based on + the parent society founded in Paris in 1900 by Fournier) was + established in New York in 1905. There are similar societies in + Chicago and Philadelphia. The main object is to study venereal + diseases and to work toward their social control. Doctors, + laymen, and women are members. Lectures and short talks are now + given under the auspices of these societies to small groups of + young women in social settlements, and in other ways, with + encouraging success; it is found to be an excellent method of + reaching the young women of the working classes. Both men and + women physicians take part in the lectures (Clement Cleveland, + Presidential Address on "Prophylaxis of Venereal Diseases," + <i>Transactions American Gynecological Society</i>, Philadelphia, vol. + xxxii, 1907).</p> + +<p> An important auxiliary method of carrying out the task of sexual + hygiene, and at the same time of spreading useful enlightenment, + is furnished by the method of giving to every syphilitic patient + in clinics where such cases are treated a card of instruction for + his guidance in hygienic matters, together with a warning of the + risks of marriage within four or five years after infection, and + in no case without medical advice. Such printed instruction, in + clear, simple, and incisive language, should be put into the + hands of every syphilitic patient as a matter of routine, and it + might be as well to have a corresponding card for gonorrhœal + patients. This plan has already been introduced at some + hospitals, and it is so simple and unobjectionable a precaution + that it will, no doubt, be generally adopted. In some countries + this measure is carried out on a wider scale. Thus in Austria, as + the result of a movement in which several university professors + have taken an active part, leaflets and circulars, explaining + briefly the chief symptoms of venereal diseases and warning + against quacks and secret remedies, are circulated among young + laborers and factory hands, matriculating students, and scholars + who are leaving trade schools.</p> + +<p> In France, where great social questions are sometimes faced with + a more chivalrous daring than elsewhere, the dangers of syphilis, + and the social position of the prostitute, have alike been dealt + with by distinguished novelists and dramatists. Huysmans + inaugurated this movement with his first novel, <i>Marthe</i>, which + was immediately suppressed by the police. Shortly afterwards + Edmond de Goncourt published <i>La Fille Elisa</i>, the first notable + novel of the kind by a distinguished author. It was written with + much reticence, and was not indeed a work of high <a name='6_Page_357'></a>artistic + value, but it boldly faced a great social problem and clearly set + forth the evils of the common attitude towards prostitution. It + was dramatized and played by Antoine at the Théâtre Libre, but + when, in 1891, Antoine wished to produce it at the + Porte-Saint-Martin Theatre, the censor interfered and prohibited + the play on account of its "contexture générale." The Minister of + Education defended this decision on the ground that there was + much in the play that might arouse repugnance and disgust. + "Repugnance here is more moral than attraction," exclaimed M. + Paul Déroulède, and the newspapers criticized a censure which + permitted on the stage all the trivial indecencies which favor + prostitution, but cannot tolerate any attack on prostitution. In + more recent years the brothers Margueritte, both in novels and in + journalism, have largely devoted their distinguished abilities + and high literary skill to the courageous and enlightened + advocacy of many social reforms. Victor Margueritte, in his + <i>Prostituée</i> (1907)—a novel which has attracted wide attention + and been translated into various languages—has sought to + represent the condition of women in our actual society, and more + especially the condition of the prostitute under what he regards + as the odious and iniquitous system still prevailing. The book is + a faithful picture of the real facts, thanks to the assistance + the author received from the Paris Préfecture of Police, and + largely for that reason is not altogether a satisfactory work of + art, but it vividly and poignantly represents the cruelty, + indifference, and hypocrisy so often shown by men towards women, + and is a book which, on that account, cannot be too widely read. + One of the most notable of modern plays is Brieux's <i>Les Avariés</i> + (1902). This distinguished dramatist, himself a medical man, + dedicates his play to Fournier, the greatest of syphilographers. + "I think with you," he writes here, "that syphilis will lose much + of its danger when it is possible to speak openly of an evil + which is neither a shame nor a punishment, and when those who + suffer from it, knowing what evils they may propagate, will + better understand their duties towards others and towards + themselves." The story developed in the drama is the old and + typical story of the young man who has spent his bachelor days in + what he considers a discrete and regular manner, having only had + two mistresses, neither of them prostitutes, but at the end of + this period, at a gay supper at which he bids farewell to his + bachelor life, he commits a fatal indiscretion and becomes + infected by syphilis; his marriage is approaching and he goes to + a distinguished specialist who warns him that treatment takes + time, and that marriage is impossible for several years; he finds + a quack, however, who undertakes to cure him in six months; at + the end of the time he marries; a syphilitic child is born; the + wife discovers the state of things and forsakes her home to + return to her parents; her indignant father, a deputy in + Parliament, arrives in Paris; the last word is with the great + specialist who <a name='6_Page_358'></a>brings finally some degree of peace and hope into + the family. The chief morals Brieux points out are that it is the + duty of the bride's parents before marriage to ascertain the + bridegroom's health; that the bridegroom should have a doctor's + certificate; that at every marriage the part of the doctors is at + least as important as that of the lawyers. Even if it were a less + accomplished work of art than it is, <i>Les Avariés</i> is a play + which, from the social and educative point of view alone, all who + have reached the age of adolescence should be compelled to see.</p> + +<p> Another aspect of the same problem has been presented in <i>Plus + Fort que le Mal</i>, a book written in dramatic form (though not as + a properly constituted play intended for the stage) by a + distinguished French medical author who here adopts the name of + Espy de Metz. The author (who is not, however, pleading <i>pro + domo</i>) calls for a more sympathetic attitude towards those who + suffer from syphilis, and though he writes with much less + dramatic skill than Brieux, and scarcely presents his moral in so + unequivocal a form, his work is a notable contribution to the + dramatic literature of syphilis.</p> + +<p> It will probably be some time before these questions, poignant as + they are from the dramatic point of view, and vitally important + from the social point of view, are introduced on the English or + the American stage. It is a remarkable fact that, notwithstanding + the Puritanic elements which still exist in Anglo-Saxon thought + and feeling generally, the Puritanic aspect of life has never + received embodiment in the English or American drama. On the + English stage it is never permitted to hint at the tragic side of + wantonness; vice must always be made seductive, even though a + <i>deus ex machina</i> causes it to collapse at the end of the + performance. As Mr. Bernard Shaw has said, the English theatrical + method by no means banishes vice; it merely consents that it + shall be made attractive; its charms are advertised and its + penalties suppressed. "Now, it is futile to plead that the stage + is not the proper place for the representation and discussion of + illegal operations, incest, and venereal disease. If the stage is + the proper place for the exhibition and discussion of seduction, + adultery, promiscuity, and prostitution, it must be thrown open + to all the consequences of these things, or it will demoralize + the nation."</p> + +<p> The impulse to insist that vice shall always be made attractive + is not really, notwithstanding appearances, a vicious impulse. It + arises from a mental confusion, a common psychic tendency, which + is by no means confined to Anglo-Saxon lands, and is even more + well marked among the better educated in the merely literary + sense, than among the worse educated people. The æsthetic is + confused with the moral, and what arouses disgust is thus + regarded as immoral. In France the novels of Zola, the most + pedestrianally moralistic of writers, were for a long time + supposed to be immoral because they were often disgusting. The + <a name='6_Page_359'></a>same feeling is still more widespread in England. If a + prostitute is brought on the stage, and she is pretty, + well-dressed, seductive, she may gaily sail through the play and + every one is satisfied. But if she were not particularly pretty, + well-dressed, or seductive, if it were made plain that she was + diseased and was reckless in infecting others with that disease, + if it were hinted that she could on occasion be foul-mouthed, if, + in short, a picture were shown from life—then we should hear + that the unfortunate dramatist had committed something that was + "disgusting" and "immoral." Disgusting it might be, but, on that + very account, it would be moral. There is a distinction here that + the psychologist cannot too often point out or the moralist too + often emphasize.</p></div> + +<p>It is not for the physician to complicate and confuse his own task as +teacher by mixing it up with considerations which belong to the spiritual +sphere. But in carrying out impartially his own special work of +enlightenment he will always do well to remember that there is in the +adolescent mind, as it has been necessary to point out in a previous +chapter, a spontaneous force working on the side of sexual hygiene. Those +who believe that the adolescent mind is merely bent on sensual indulgence +are not less false and mischievous in their influence than are those who +think it possible and desirable for adolescents to be preserved in sheer +sexual ignorance. However concealed, suppressed, or deformed—usually by +the misplaced and premature zeal of foolish parents and teachers—there +arise at puberty ideal impulses which, even though they may be rooted in +sex, yet in their scope transcend sex. These are capable of becoming far +more potent guides of the physical sex impulse than are merely material or +even hygienic considerations.</p> + +<p>It is time to summarize and conclude this discussion of the prevention of +venereal disease, which, though it may seem to the superficial observer to +be merely a medical and sanitary question outside the psychologist's +sphere, is yet seen on closer view to be intimately related even to the +most spiritual conception of the sexual relationships. Not only are +venereal diseases the foes to the finer development of the race, but we +cannot attain to any wholesome and beautiful vision of the relationships +of sex so long as such relationships are liable at every moment to be +corrupted and undermined at their source. We cannot yet precisely <a name='6_Page_360'></a>measure +the interval which must elapse before, so far as Europe at least is +concerned, syphilis and gonorrhœa are sent to that limbo of +monstrous old dead diseases to which plague and leprosy have gone and +smallpox is already drawing near. But society is beginning to realize +that into this field also must be brought the weapons of light and air, +the sword and the breastplate with which all diseases can alone be +attacked. As we have seen, there are four methods by which in the more +enlightened countries venereal disease is now beginning to be +combated.<a name='6_FNanchor_255'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_255'><sup>[255]</sup></a> (1) By proclaiming openly that the venereal diseases are +diseases like any other disease, although more subtle and terrible than +most, which may attack anyone from the unborn baby to its grandmother, and +that they are not, more than other diseases, the shameful penalties of +sin, from which relief is only to be sought, if at all, by stealth, but +human calamities; (2) by adopting methods of securing official information +concerning the extent, distribution, and variation of venereal disease, +through the already recognized plan of notification and otherwise, and by +providing such facilities for treatment, especially for free treatment, as +may be found necessary; (3) by training the individual sense of moral +responsibility, so that every member of the community may realize that to +inflict a serious disease on another person, even only as a result of +reckless negligence, is a more serious offence than if he or she had used +the knife or the gun or poison as the method of attack, and that it is +necessary to introduce special legal provision in every country to assist +the recovery of damages for such injuries and to inflict penalties by loss +of liberty or otherwise; (4) by the spread of hygienic knowledge, so that +all adolescents, youths and girls alike, may be furnished at the outset of +adult life with an equipment of information which will assist them to +avoid the grosser risks of contamination and enable them to recognize and +avoid danger at the earliest stages.</p> +<a name='6_Page_361'></a> +<p>A few years ago, when no method of combating venereal disease was known +except that system of police regulation which is now in its decadence, it +would have been impossible to bring forward such considerations as these; +they would have seemed Utopian. To-day they are not only recognizable as +practical, but they are being actually put into practice, although, it is +true, with very varying energy and insight in different countries. Yet it +is certain that in the competition of nationalities, as Max von Niessen +has well said, "that country will best take a leading place in the march +of civilization which has the foresight and courage to introduce and carry +through those practical movements of sexual hygiene which have so wide and +significant a bearing on its own future, and that of the human race +generally."<a name='6_FNanchor_256'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_256'><sup>[256]</sup></a></p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='6_Footnote_220'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_220'>[220]</a><div class='note'><p> It is probable that Schopenhauer felt a more than merely +speculative interest in this matter. Bloch has shown good reason for +believing that Schopenhauer himself contracted syphilis in 1813, and that +this was a factor in constituting his conception of the world and in +confirming his constitutional pessimism (<i>Medizinische Klinik</i>, Nos. 25 +and 26, 1906).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_221'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_221'>[221]</a><div class='note'><p> Havelburg, in Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health and Disease in +Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. i, pp. 186-189.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_222'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_222'>[222]</a><div class='note'><p> This is the very definite opinion of Lowndes after an +experience of fifty-four years in the treatment of venereal diseases in +Liverpool (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, Feb. 9, 1907, p. 334). It is further +indicated by the fact (if it is a real fact) that since 1876 there has +been a decline of both the infantile and general mortality from syphilis +in England.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_223'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_223'>[223]</a><div class='note'><p> "There is no doubt whatever that syphilis is on the +increase in London, judging from hospital work alone," says Pernet +(<i>British Medical Journal</i>, March 30, 1907). Syphilis was evidently very +prevalent, however, a century or two ago, and there is no ground for +asserting positively that it is more prevalent to-day.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_224'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_224'>[224]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, A. Neisser, <i>Die experimentelle +Syphilisforschung</i>, 1906, and E. Hoffmann (who was associated with +Schaudinn's discovery), <i>Die Aetiologie der Syphilis</i>, 1906; D'Arcy Power, +<i>A System of Syphilis</i>, 1908, etc.; F. W. Mott, "Pathology of Syphilis in +the Light of Modern Research," <i>British Medical Journal</i>, February 20, +1909; also, <i>Archives of Neurology and Psychiatry</i>, vol. iv, 1909.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_225'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_225'>[225]</a><div class='note'><p> There is some difference of opinion on this point, and +though it seems probable that early and thorough treatment usually cures +the disease in a few years and renders further complications highly +improbable, it is not possible, even under the most favorable +circumstances, to speak with absolute certainty as to the future.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_226'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_226'>[226]</a><div class='note'><p> "That syphilis has been, and is, one of the chief causes of +physical degeneration in England cannot be denied, and it is a fact that +is acknowledged on all sides," writes Lieutenant-Colonel Lambkin, the +medical officer in command of the London Military Hospital for Venereal +Diseases. "To grapple with the treatment of syphilis among the civil +population of England ought to be the chief object of those interested in +that most burning question, the physical degeneration of our race" +(<i>British Medical Journal</i>, August 19, 1905).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_227'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_227'>[227]</a><div class='note'><p> F. W. Mott, "Syphilis as a Cause of Insanity," <i>British +Medical Journal</i>, October 18, 1902.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_228'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_228'>[228]</a><div class='note'><p> It can seldom be proved in more than eighty per cent. of +cases, but in twenty per cent. of old syphilitic cases it is commonly +impossible to find traces of the disease or to obtain a history of it. +Crocker found that it was only in eighty per cent. of cases of absolutely +certain syphilitic skin diseases that he could obtain a history of +syphilitic infection, and Mott found exactly the same percentage in +absolutely certain syphilitic lesions of the brain; Mott believes (<i>e.g.</i>, +"Syphilis in Relation to the Nervous System," <i>British Medical Journal</i>, +January 4, 1908) that syphilis is the essential cause of general paralysis +and tabes.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_229'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_229'>[229]</a><div class='note'><p> Audry. <i>La Semaine Médicale</i>, June 26, 1907. When Europeans +carry syphilis to lands inhabited by people of lower race, the results are +often very much worse than this. Thus Lambkin, as a result of a special +mission to investigate syphilis in Uganda, found that in some districts as +many as ninety per cent, of the people suffer from syphilis, and fifty to +sixty per cent, of the infant mortality is due to this cause. These people +are Baganda, a highly intelligent, powerful, and well-organized tribe +before they received, in the gift of syphilis, the full benefit of +civilization and Christianity, which (Lambkin points out) has been largely +the cause of the spread of the disease by breaking down social customs and +emancipating the women. Christianity is powerful enough to break down the +old morality, but not powerful enough to build up a new morality (<i>British +Medical Journal</i>, October 3, 1908, p. 1037).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_230'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_230'>[230]</a><div class='note'><p> Even within the limits of the English army it is found In +India (H. C. French, <i>Syphilis in the Army</i>, 1907) that venereal disease is +ten times more frequent among British troops than among Native troops. +Outside of national armies it is found, by admission to hospital and death +rates, that the United States stands far away at the head for frequency of +venereal disease, being followed by Great Britain, then France and +Austria-Hungary, Russia, and Germany.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_231'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_231'>[231]</a><div class='note'><p> There is no +dispute concerning the antiquity of gonorrhœa +in the Old World as there is regarding syphilis. The disease was +certainly known at a very remote period. Even Esarhaddon, the famous King +of Assyria, referred to in the Old Testament, was treated by the priests +for a disorder which, as described in the cuneiform documents of the time, +could only have been gonorrhœa. The disease was also well known +to the ancient Egyptians, and evidently common, for they recorded many +prescriptions for its treatment (Oefele, "Gonorrhoe 1350 vor Christi +Geburt," <i>Monatshefte für Praktische Dermatologie</i>, 1899, p. 260).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_232'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_232'>[232]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Cf.</i> Memorandum by Sydney Stephenson, Report of Ophthalmia +Neonatorum Committee, <i>British Medical Journal</i>, May 8, 1909.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_233'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_233'>[233]</a><div class='note'><p> The extent of these evils is set forth, <i>e.g.</i>, in a +comprehensive essay by Taylor, <i>American Journal Obstetrics</i>, January, +1908.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_234'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_234'>[234]</a><div class='note'><p> Neisser brings together figures bearing on the prevalence +of gonorrhœa in Germany, Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health and Disease +in Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. ii, pp. 486-492.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_235'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_235'>[235]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Lancet</i>, September 23, 1882. As regards women, Dr. Frances +Ivens (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, June 19, 1909) has found at Liverpool +that 14 per cent. of gynæcological cases revealed the presence of +gonorrhœa. They were mostly poor respectable married women. This +is probably a high proportion, as Liverpool is a busy seaport, but it is +less than Sänger's estimate of 18 per cent.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_236'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_236'>[236]</a><div class='note'><p> E. H. Grandin, <i>Medical Record</i>, May 26, 1906.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_237'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_237'>[237]</a><div class='note'><p> E. W. Cushing, "Sociological +Aspects of Gonorrhœa," +<i>Transactions American Gynecological Society</i>, vol. xxii, 1897.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_238'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_238'>[238]</a><div class='note'><p> It is only in very small communities ruled by an autocratic +power with absolute authority to control conditions and to examine persons +of both sexes that reglementation becomes in any degree effectual. This is +well shown by Dr. W. E. Harwood, who describes the system he organized in +the mines of the Minnesota Iron Company (<i>Journal American Medical +Association</i>, December 22, 1906). The women in the brothels on the +company's estate were of the lowest class, and disease was very prevalent. +Careful examination of the women was established, and control of the men, +who, immediately on becoming diseased, were bound to declare by what woman +they had been infected. The woman was responsible for the medical bill of +the man she infected, and even for his board, if incapacitated, and the +women were compelled to maintain a fund for their own hospital expenses +when required. In this way venereal disease, though not entirely uprooted, +was very greatly diminished.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_239'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_239'>[239]</a><div class='note'><p> A clear and comprehensive statement of the present position +of the question is given by Iwan Bloch, <i>Das Sexualleben Unserer Zeit</i>, +Chs. XIII-XV. How ineffectual the system of police regulation is, even in +Germany, where police interference is tolerated to so marked a degree, may +be illustrated by the case of Mannheim. Here the regulation of +prostitution is very severe and thorough, yet a careful inquiry in 1905 +among the doctors of Mannheim (ninety-two of whom sent in detailed +returns) showed that of six hundred cases of venereal disease in men, +nearly half had been contracted from prostitutes. About half the remaining +cases (nearly a quarter of the whole) were due to waitresses and +bar-maids; then followed servant-girls (Lion and Loeb, in +<i>Sexualpädagogik</i>, the Proceedings of the Third German Congress for +Combating Venereal Diseases, 1907, p. 295).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_240'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_240'>[240]</a><div class='note'><p> A sixth less numerous class might be added of the young +girls, often no more than children, who have been practically raped by men +who believe that intercourse with a virgin is a cure for obstinate +venereal disease. In America this belief is frequently held by Italians, +Chinese, negroes, etc. W. Travis Gibb, Examining Physician of the New York +Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children, has examined over 900 +raped children (only a small proportion, he states, of the cases actually +occurring), and finds that thirteen per cent have venereal diseases. A +fairly large proportion of these cases, among girls from twelve to +sixteen, are, he states, willing victims. Dr. Flora Pollack, also, of the +Johns Hopkins Hospital Dispensary, estimates that in Baltimore alone from +800 to 1,000 children between the ages of one and fifteen are venereally +infected every year. The largest number, she finds, is at the age of six, +and the chief cause appears to be, not lust, but superstition.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_241'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_241'>[241]</a><div class='note'><p> For a discussion of inherited syphilis, see, <i>e.g.</i>, +Clement Lucas, <i>Lancet</i>, February 1, 1908.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_242'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_242'>[242]</a><div class='note'><p> Much harm has been done in some countries by the foolish +and mischievous practice of friendly societies and sick clubs of ignoring +venereal diseases, and not according free medical aid or sick pay to those +members who suffer from them. This practice prevailed, for instance, in +Vienna until 1907, when a more humane and enlightened policy was +inaugurated, venereal diseases being placed on the same level as other +diseases.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_243'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_243'>[243]</a><div class='note'><p> Active measures against venereal disease were introduced in +Sweden early in the last century, and compulsory and gratuitous treatment +established. Compulsory notification was introduced many years ago in +Norway, and by 1907 there was a great diminution in the prevalence of +venereal diseases; there is compulsory treatment.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_244'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_244'>[244]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, Morrow, <i>Social Diseases and Marriage</i>, Ch. +XXXVII.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_245'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_245'>[245]</a><div class='note'><p> A committee of the Medical Society of New York, appointed +in 1902 to consider this question, reported in favor of notification +without giving names and addresses, and Dr. C. R. Drysdale, who took an +active part in the Brussels International Conference of 1899, advocated a +similar plan in England, <i>British Medical Journal</i>, February 3, 1900.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_246'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_246'>[246]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus in Munich, +in 1908, a man who had given gonorrhœa +to a servant-girl was sent to prison for ten months on this +ground. The state of German opinion to-day on this subject is summarized +by Bloch, <i>Sexualleben unserer Zeit</i>, p. 424.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_247'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_247'>[247]</a><div class='note'><p> A. Després, <i>La Prostitution à Paris</i>, p. 191.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_248'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_248'>[248]</a><div class='note'><p> F. Aurientis, <i>Etude Medico-légale sur la jurisprudence +actuelle à propos de la Transmission des Maladies Venériennes</i>, Thèse de +Paris, 1906.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_249'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_249'>[249]</a><div class='note'><p> In England at present "a husband knowingly and wilfully +infecting his wife with the venereal disease, cannot be convicted +criminally, either under a charge of assault or of inflicting grievous +bodily harm" (N. Geary, <i>The Law of Marriage</i>, p. 479). This was decided +in 1888 in the case of <i>R. v. Clarence</i> by nine judges to four judges in +the Court for the Consideration of Crown Cases Reserved.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_250'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_250'>[250]</a><div class='note'><p> Modern democratic sentiment is opposed to the sequestration +of a prostitute merely because she is diseased. But there can be no +reasonable doubt whatever that if a diseased prostitute infects another +person, and is unable to pay the very heavy damages which should be +demanded in such a case, she ought to be secluded and subjected to +treatment. That is necessary in the interests of the community. But it is +also necessary, to avoid placing a premium on the commission of an offence +which would ensure gratuitous treatment and provision for a prostitute +without means, that she should be furnished with facilities for treatment +in any case.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_251'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_251'>[251]</a><div class='note'><p> It has, however, been decided by the Paris Court of Appeal +that for a husband to marry when knowingly suffering from a venereal +disease and to communicate that disease to his wife is a sufficient cause +for divorce (<i>Semaine Médicale</i>, May, 1896).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_252'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_252'>[252]</a><div class='note'><p> The large volume, entitled <i>Sexualpädagogik</i>, containing +the Proceedings of the Third of these Congresses, almost ignores the +special subject of venereal disease, and is devoted to the questions +involved by the general sexual education of the young, which, as many of +the speakers maintained, must begin with the child at his mother's knee.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_253'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_253'>[253]</a><div class='note'><p> "Workmen, soldiers, and so on," Neisser remarks (Senator +and Kaminer, <i>Health and Disease in Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. ii, p. +485), "can more easily find non-prostitute girls of their own class +willing to enter into amorous relations with them which result in sexual +intercourse, and they are therefore less exposed to the danger of +infection than those men who have recourse almost exclusively to +prostitutes" (see also Bloch, <i>Sexualleben unserer Zeit</i>, p. 437).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_254'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_254'>[254]</a><div class='note'><p> The character and extent of such lectures are fully +discussed in the Proceedings of the Third Congress of the German Society +for Combating Venereal Diseases, <i>Sexualpädagogik</i>, 1907.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_255'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_255'>[255]</a><div class='note'><p> I leave out of account, as beyond the scope of the present +work, the auxiliary aids to the suppression of venereal diseases furnished +by the promising new methods, only now beginning to be understood, of +treating or even aborting such diseases (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Metchnikoff, <i>The +New Hygiene</i>, 1906).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_256'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_256'>[256]</a><div class='note'><p> Max von Niessen, "Herr Doktor, darf ich heiraten?" +<i>Mutterschutz</i>, 1906, p. 352.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_CHAPTER_IX'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_362'></a>CHAPTER IX.</h2> + +<h3>SEXUAL MORALITY.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Prostitution in Relation to Our Marriage System—Marriage and +Morality—The Definition of the Term "Morality"—Theoretical Morality—Its +Division Into Traditional Morality and Ideal Morality—Practical +Morality—Practical Morality Based on Custom—The Only Subject of +Scientific Ethics—The Reaction Between Theoretical and Practical +Morality—Sexual Morality in the Past an Application of Economic +Morality—The Combined Rigidity and Laxity of This Morality—The +Growth of a Specific Sexual Morality and the Evolution of Moral +Ideals—Manifestations of Sexual Morality—Disregard of the Forms of +Marriage—Trial Marriage—Marriage After Conception of Child—Phenomena in +Germany, Anglo-Saxon Countries, Russia, etc.—The Status of Woman—The +Historical Tendency Favoring Moral Equality of Women with Men—The Theory +of the Matriarchate—Mother-Descent—Women in Babylonia—Egypt—Rome—The +Eighteenth and Nineteenth Centuries—The Historical Tendency +Favoring Moral Inequality of Woman—The Ambiguous Influence of +Christianity—Influence of Teutonic Custom and Feudalism—Chivalry—Woman +in England—The Sale of Wives—The Vanishing Subjection of +Woman—Inaptitude of the Modern Man to Domineer—The Growth of Moral +Responsibility in Women—The Concomitant Development of Economic +Independence—The Increase of Women Who Work—Invasion of the Modern +Industrial Field by Women—In How Far This Is Socially Justifiable—The +Sexual Responsibility of Women and Its Consequences—The Alleged Moral +Inferiority of Women—The "Self-Sacrifice" of Women—Society Not Concerned +with Sexual Relationships—Procreation the Sole Sexual Concern of the +State—The Supreme Importance of Maternity.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>It has been necessary to deal fully with the phenomena of prostitution +because, however aloof we may personally choose to hold ourselves from +those phenomena, they really bring us to the heart of the sexual question +in so far as it constitutes a social problem. If we look at prostitution +from the outside, as an objective phenomenon, as a question of social +dynamics, it is seen to be not a merely accidental and eliminable incident +of our present marriage system but an integral part of it, without which +it would fall to pieces. This will probably be fairly clear to all who +have followed the preceding exposition of prostitutional <a name='6_Page_363'></a>phenomena. There +is, however, more than this to be said. Not only is prostitution to-day, +as it has been for more than two thousand years, the buttress of our +marriage system, but if we look at marriage, not from the outside as a +formal institution, but from the inside with relation to the motives that +constitute it, we find that marriage in a large proportion of cases is +itself in certain respects a form of prostitution. This has been +emphasized so often and from so many widely different standpoints that it +may seem hardly necessary to labor the point here. But the point is one of +extreme importance in relation to the question of sexual morality. Our +social conditions are unfavorable to the development of a high moral +feeling in woman. The difference between the woman who sells herself in +prostitution and the woman who sells herself in marriage, according to the +saying of Marro already quoted, "is only a difference in price and +duration of the contract." Or, as Forel puts it, marriage is "a more +fashionable form of prostitution," that is to say, a mode of obtaining, or +disposing of, for monetary considerations, a sexual commodity. Marriage +is, indeed, not merely a more fashionable form of prostitution, it is a +form sanctified by law and religion, and the question of morality is not +allowed to intrude. Morality may be outraged with impunity provided that +law and religion have been invoked. The essential principle of +prostitution is thus legalized and sanctified among us. That is why it is +so difficult to arouse any serious indignation, or to maintain any +reasoned objections, against our prostitution considered by itself. The +most plausible ground is that of those<a name='6_FNanchor_257'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_257'><sup>[257]</sup></a> who, bringing marriage down to +the level of prostitution, maintain that the prostitute is a "blackleg" +who is accepting less than the "market rate of wages," <i>i.e.</i>, marriage, +for the sexual services she renders. But even this low ground is quite +unsafe. The prostitute is really paid extremely well considering how +little she gives in return; the wife is really paid extremely badly +considering how much she often gives, and how much she necessarily gives +up. For the sake of the advantage of economic dependence on her <a name='6_Page_364'></a>husband, +she must give up, as Ellen Key observes, those rights over her children, +her property, her work, and her own person which she enjoys as an +unmarried woman, even, it may be added, as a prostitute. The prostitute +never signs away the right over her own person, as the wife is compelled +to do; the prostitute, unlike the wife, retains her freedom and her +personal rights, although these may not often be of much worth. It is the +wife rather than the prostitute who is the "blackleg."</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is by no means only during recent years that our marriage + system has been arraigned before the bar of morals. Forty years + ago James Hinton exhausted the vocabulary of denunciation in + describing the immorality and selfish licentiousness which our + marriage system covers with the cloak of legality and sanctity. + "There is an unsoundness in our marriage relations," Hinton + wrote. "Not only practically are they dreadful, but they do not + answer to feelings and convictions far too widespread to be + wisely ignored. Take the case of women of marked eminence + consenting to be a married man's mistress; of pure and simple + girls saying they cannot see why they should have a marriage by + law; of a lady saying that if she were in love she would not have + any legal tie; of its being necessary—or thought so by good and + wise men—to keep one sex in bitter and often fatal ignorance. + These things (and how many more) show some deep unsoundness in + the marriage relations. This must be probed and searched to the + bottom."</p> + +<p> At an earlier date, in 1847, Gross-Hoffinger, in his <i>Die + Schicksale der Frauen und die Prostitution</i>—a remarkable book + which Bloch, with little exaggeration, describes as possessing an + epoch-marking significance—vigorously showed that the problem of + prostitution is in reality the problem of marriage, and that we + can only reform away prostitution by reforming marriage, regarded + as a compulsory institution resting on an antiquated economic + basis. Gross-Hoffinger was a pioneering precursor of Ellen Key.</p> + +<p> More than a century and a half earlier a man of very different + type scathingly analyzed the morality of his time, with a brutal + frankness, indeed, that seemed to his contemporaries a + revoltingly cynical attitude towards their sacred institutions, + and they felt that nothing was left to them save to burn his + books. Describing modern marriage in his <i>Fable of the Bees</i> + (1714, p. 64), and what that marriage might legally cover, + Mandeville wrote: "The fine gentleman I spoke of need not + practice any greater self-denial than the savage, and the latter + acted more according to the laws of nature and sincerity than the + first. The man that gratifies his appetite after the manner the + custom of the country <a name='6_Page_365'></a>allows of, has no censure to fear. If he + is hotter than goats or bulls, as soon as the ceremony is over, + let him sate and fatigue himself with joy and ecstasies of + pleasure, raise and indulge his appetite by turns, as + extravagantly as his strength and manhood will give him leave. He + may, with safety, laugh at the wise men that should reprove him: + all the women and above nine in ten of the men are of his side; + nay, he has the liberty of valuing himself upon the fury of his + unbridled passions, and the more he wallows in lust and strains + every faculty to be abandonedly voluptuous, the sooner he shall + have the good-will and gain the affection of the women, not the + young, vain, and lascivious only, but the prudent, grave, and + most sober matrons."</p> + +<p> Thus the charge brought against our marriage system from the + point of view of morality is that it subordinates the sexual + relationship to considerations of money and of lust. That is + precisely the essence of prostitution.</p></div> + +<p>The only legitimately moral end of marriage—whether we regard it from the +wider biological standpoint or from the narrower standpoint of human +society—is as a sexual selection, effected in accordance with the laws of +sexual selection, and having as its direct object a united life of +complete mutual love and as its indirect object the procreation of the +race. Unless procreation forms part of the object of marriage, society has +nothing whatever to do with it and has no right to make its voice heard. +But if procreation is one of the ends of marriage, then it is imperative +from the biological and social points of view that no influences outside +the proper natural influence of sexual selection should be permitted to +affect the choice of conjugal partners, for in so far as wholesome sexual +selection is interfered with the offspring is likely to be injured and the +interests of the race affected.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It must, of course, be clearly understood that the idea of + marriage as a form of sexual union based not on biological but on + economic considerations, is very ancient, and is sometimes found + in societies that are almost primitive. Whenever, however, + marriage on a purely property basis, and without due regard to + sexual selection, has occurred among comparatively primitive and + vigorous peoples, it has been largely deprived of its evil + results by the recognition of its merely economic character, and + by the absence of any desire to suppress, even nominally, other + sexual relationships on a more natural basis which were outside + this artificial form of marriage. Polygamy especially tended to + conciliate <a name='6_Page_366'></a>unions on an economic basis with unions on a natural + sexual basis. Our modern marriage system has, however, acquired + an artificial rigidity which excludes the possibility of this + natural safeguard and compensation. Whatever its real moral + content may be, a modern marriage is always "legal" and "sacred." + We are indeed so accustomed to economic forms of marriage that, + as Sidgwick truly observed (<i>Method of Ethics</i>, Bk. ii, Ch. XI), + when they are spoken of as "legalized prostitution" it constantly + happens that "the phrase is felt to be extravagant and + paradoxical."</p></div> + +<p>A man who marries for money or for ambition is departing from the +biological and moral ends of marriage. A woman who sells herself for life +is morally on the same level as one who sells herself for a night. The +fact that the payment seems larger, that in return for rendering certain +domestic services and certain personal complacencies—services and +complacencies in which she may be quite inexpert—she will secure an +almshouse in which she will be fed and clothed and sheltered for life +makes no difference in the moral aspect of her case. The moral +responsibility is, it need scarcely be said, at least as much the man's as +the woman's. It is largely due to the ignorance and even the indifference +of men, who often know little or nothing of the nature of women and the +art of love. The unintelligence with which even men who might, one thinks, +be not without experience, select as a mate, a woman who, however fine and +charming she may be, possesses none of the qualities which her wooer +really craves, is a perpetual marvel. To refrain from testing and proving +the temper and quality of the woman he desires for a mate is no doubt an +amiable trait of humility on a man's part. But it is certain that a man +should never be content with less than the best of what a woman's soul and +body have to give, however unworthy he may feel himself of such a +possession. This demand, it must be remarked, is in the highest interests +of the woman herself. A woman can offer to a man what is a part at all +events of the secret of the universe. The woman degrades herself who sinks +to the level of a candidate for an asylum for the destitute.</p> + +<p>Our discussion of the psychic facts of sex has thus, it will be seen, +brought us up to the question of morality. Over and <a name='6_Page_367'></a>over again, in +setting forth the phenomena of prostitution, it has been necessary to use +the word "moral." That word, however, is vague and even, it may be, +misleading because it has several senses. So far, it has been left to the +intelligent reader, as he will not fail to perceive, to decide from the +context in what sense the word was used. But at the present point, before +we proceed to discuss sexual psychology in relation to marriage, it is +necessary, in order to avoid ambiguity, to remind the reader what +precisely are the chief main senses in which the word "morality" is +commonly used.</p> + +<p>The morality with which ethical treatises are concerned is <i>theoretical +morality</i>. It is concerned with what people "ought"—or what is "right" +for them—to do. Socrates in the Platonic dialogues was concerned with +such theoretical morality: what "ought" people to seek in their actions? +The great bulk of ethical literature, until recent times one may say the +whole of it, is concerned with that question. Such theoretical morality +is, as Sidgwick said, a study rather than a science, for science can only +be based on what is, not on what ought to be.</p> + +<p>Even within the sphere of theoretical morality there are two very +different kinds of morality, so different indeed that sometimes each +regards the other as even inimical or at best only by courtesy, with yet a +shade of contempt, "moral." These two kinds of theoretical morality are +<i>traditional morality</i> and <i>ideal morality</i>. Traditional morality is +founded on the long established practices of a community and possesses the +stability of all theoretical ideas based in the past social life and +surrounding every individual born into the community from his earliest +years. It becomes the voice of conscience which speaks automatically in +favor of all the rules that are thus firmly fixed, even when the +individual himself no longer accepts them. Many persons, for example, who +were brought up in childhood to the Puritanical observance of Sunday, will +recall how, long after they had ceased to believe that such observances +were "right," they yet in the violation of them heard the protest of the +automatically aroused voice of "conscience," that is to say the expression +within the individual of customary rules which have indeed now <a name='6_Page_368'></a>ceased to +be his own but were those of the community in which he was brought up.</p> + +<p>Ideal morality, on the other hand, refers not to the past of the community +but to its future. It is based not on the old social actions that are +becoming antiquated, and perhaps even anti-social in their tendency, but +on new social actions that are as yet only practiced by a small though +growing minority of the community. Nietzsche in modern times has been a +conspicuous champion of ideal morality, the heroic morality of the +pioneer, of the individual of the coming community, against traditional +morality, or, as he called it, herd-morality, the morality of the crowd. +These two moralities are necessarily opposed to each other, but, we have +to remember, they are both equally sound and equally indispensable, not +only to those who accept them but to the community which they both +contribute to hold in vital theoretical balance. We have seen them both, +for instance, applied to the question of prostitution; traditional +morality defends prostitution, not for its own sake, but for the sake of +the marriage system which it regards as sufficiently precious to be worth +a sacrifice, while ideal morality refuses to accept the necessity of +prostitution, and looks forward to progressive changes in the marriage +system which will modify and diminish prostitution.</p> + +<p>But altogether outside theoretical morality, or the question of what +people "ought" to do, there remains <i>practical morality</i>, or the question +of what, as a matter of fact, people actually do. This is the really +fundamental and essential morality. Latin <i>mores</i> and Greek ἠθος +both refer to <i>custom</i>, to the things that are, and not to the +things that "ought" to be, except in the indirect and secondary sense that +whatever the members of the community, in the mass, actually do, is the +thing that they feel they ought to do. In the first place, however, a +moral act was not done because it was felt that it ought to be done, but +for reasons of a much deeper and more instinctive character.<a name='6_FNanchor_258'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_258'><sup>[258]</sup></a> It <a name='6_Page_369'></a>was +not first done because it was felt it ought to be done, but it was felt it +"ought" to be done because it had actually become the custom to do it.</p> + +<p>The actions of a community are determined by the vital needs of a +community under the special circumstances of its culture, time, and land. +When it is the general custom for children to kill their aged parents that +custom is always found to be the best not only for the community but even +for the old people themselves, who desire it; the action is both +practically moral and theoretically moral.<a name='6_FNanchor_259'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_259'><sup>[259]</sup></a> And when, as among +ourselves, the aged are kept alive, that action is also both practically +and theoretically moral; it is in no wise dependent on any law or rule +opposed to the taking of life, for we glory in the taking of life under +the patriotic name of "war," and are fairly indifferent to it when +involved by the demands of our industrial system; but the killing of the +aged no longer subserves any social need and their preservation ministers +to our civilized emotional needs. The killing of a man is indeed +notoriously an act which differs widely in its moral value at different +periods and in different countries. It was quite moral in England two +centuries ago and less, to kill a man for trifling offences against +property, for such punishment commended itself as desirable to the general +sense of the educated community. To-day it would be regarded as highly +immoral. We are even yet only beginning to doubt the morality of +condemning to death and imprisoning for life an unmarried girl who +destroyed her infant at birth, solely actuated, against all her natural +impulses, by the primitive instinct of self-defense. It cannot be said +that we have yet begun to doubt the morality of killing men in war, though +we no longer approve of killing women and children, or even non-combatants +generally. Every age or land has its own morality.</p> + +<p>"Custom, in the strict sense of the word," well says Westermarck, +"involves a moral rule.... Society is the school in which men learn to +distinguish between right and wrong.<a name='6_Page_370'></a> The headmaster is custom."<a name='6_FNanchor_260'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_260'><sup>[260]</sup></a> +Custom is not only the basis of morality but also of law. "Custom is +law."<a name='6_FNanchor_261'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_261'><sup>[261]</sup></a> The field of theoretical morality has been found so fascinating +a playground for clever philosophers that there has sometimes been a +danger of forgetting that, after all, it is not theoretical morality but +practical morality, the question of what men in the mass of a community +actually do, which constitutes the real stuff of morals.<a name='6_FNanchor_262'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_262'><sup>[262]</sup></a> If we define +more precisely what we mean by morals, on the practical side, we may say +that it is constituted by those customs which the great majority of the +members of a community regard as conducive to the welfare of the community +at some particular time and place. It is for this reason—<i>i.e.</i>, because +it is a question of what is and not of merely what some think ought to +be—that practical morals form the proper subject of science. "If the word +'ethics' is to be used as the name for a science," Westermarck says, "the +object of that science can only be to study the moral consciousness as a +fact."<a name='6_FNanchor_263'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_263'><sup>[263]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Lecky's <i>History of European Morals</i> is a study in practical + rather than in theoretical morals. Dr. Westermarck's great work, + <i>The Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas</i>, is a more modern + example of the objectively scientific discussion of morals, + although this is not perhaps clearly brought out by the title. It + is essentially a description of the actual historical facts of + what has been, and not of what "ought" to be. Mr. L. T. Hobhouse's + <i>Morals in Evolution</i>, published almost at the same time, is + similarly a work which, while professedly dealing with ideas,<a name='6_Page_371'></a> + <i>i.e.</i>, with rules and regulations, and indeed disclaiming the + task of being "the history of conduct," yet limits itself to + those rules which are "in fact, the normal conduct of the average + man" (vol. i, p. 26). In other words, it is essentially a history + of practical morality, and not of theoretical morality. One of + the most subtle and suggestive of living thinkers, M. Jules de + Gaultier, in several of his books, and notably in <i>La Dépendance + de la Morale et l'Indépendance des Mœurs</i> (1907), has + analyzed the conception of morals in a somewhat similar sense. + "Phenomena relative to conduct," as he puts it (<i>op. cit.</i>, p. + 58), "are given in experience like other phenomena, so that + morality, or the totality of the laws which at any given moment + of historic evolution are applied to human practice, is dependent + on customs." I may also refer to the masterly exposition of this + aspect of morality in Lévy-Bruhl's <i>La Morale et la Science des + Mœurs</i> (there is an English translation).</p></div> + +<p>Practical morality is thus the solid natural fact which forms the +biological basis of theoretical morality, whether traditional or ideal. +The excessive fear, so widespread among us, lest we should injure morality +is misplaced. We cannot hurt morals though we can hurt ourselves. Morals +is based on nature and can at the most only be modified. As Crawley +rightly insists,<a name='6_FNanchor_264'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_264'><sup>[264]</sup></a> even the categorical imperatives of our moral +traditions, so far from being, as is often popularly supposed, attempts to +suppress Nature, arise in the desire to assist Nature; they are simply an +attempt at the rigid formulation of natural impulses. The evil of them +only lies in the fact that, like all things that become rigid and dead, +they tend to persist beyond the period when they were a beneficial vital +reaction to the environment. They thus provoke new forms of ideal +morality; and practical morals develops new structures, in accordance with +new vital relationships, to replace older and desiccated traditions.</p> + +<p>There is clearly an intimate relationship between theoretical morals and +practical morals or morality proper. For not only is theoretical morality +the outcome in consciousness of realized <a name='6_Page_372'></a>practices embodied in the +general life of the community, but, having thus become conscious, it +reacts on those practices and tends to support them or, by its own +spontaneous growth, to modify them. This action is diverse, according as +we are dealing with one or the other of the strongly marked divisions of +theoretical morality: traditional and posterior morality, retarding the +vital growth of moral practice, or ideal and anterior morality, +stimulating the vital growth of moral practice. Practical morality, or +morals proper, may be said to stand between these two divisions of +theoretical morality. Practice is perpetually following after anterior +theoretical morality, in so far of course as ideal morality really is +anterior and not, as so often happens, astray up a blind alley. Posterior +or traditional morality always follows after practice. The result is that +while the actual morality, in practice at any time or place, is always +closely related to theoretical morality, it can never exactly correspond +to either of its forms. It always fails to catch up with ideal morality; +it is always outgrowing traditional morality.</p> + +<p>It has been necessary at this point to formulate definitely the three +chief forms in which the word "moral" is used, although under one shape or +another they cannot but be familiar to the reader. In the discussion of +prostitution it has indeed been easily possible to follow the usual custom +of allowing the special sense in which the word was used to be determined +by the context. But now, when we are, for the moment, directly concerned +with the specific question of the evolution of sexual morality, it is +necessary to be more precise in formulating the terms we use. In this +chapter, except when it is otherwise stated, we are concerned primarily +with morals proper, with actual conduct as it develops among the masses of +a community, and only secondarily with anterior morality or with posterior +morality.</p> + +<p>Sexual morality, like all other kinds of morality, is necessarily +constituted by inherited traditions modified by new adaptations to the +changing social environment. If the influence of tradition becomes unduly +pronounced the moral life tends to decay and lose its vital adaptability. +If adaptability becomes too facile the moral life tends to become unstable +and to lose <a name='6_Page_373'></a>authority. It is only by a reasonable synthesis of structure +and function—of what is called the traditional with what is called the +ideal—that the moral life can retain its authority without losing its +reality. Many, even among those who call themselves moralists, have found +this hard to understand. In a vain desire for an impossible logicality +they have over-emphasized either the ideal influence on practical morals +or, still more frequently, the traditional influence, which has appealed +to them because of the impressive authority its <i>dicta</i> seem to convey. +The results in the sphere we are here concerned with have often been +unfortunate, for no social impulse is so rebellious to decayed traditions, +so volcanically eruptive, as that of sex.</p> + +<p>We are accustomed to identify our present marriage system with "morality" +in the abstract, and for many people, perhaps for most, it is difficult to +realize that the slow and insensible movement which is always affecting +social life at the present time, as at every other time, is profoundly +affecting our sexual morality. A transference of values is constantly +taking place; what was once the very standard of morality becomes immoral, +what was once without question immoral becomes a new standard. Such a +process is almost as bewildering as for the European world two thousand +years ago was the great struggle between the Roman city and the Christian +Church, when it became necessary to realize that what Marcus Aurelius, the +great pattern of morality, had sought to crush as without question +immoral,<a name='6_FNanchor_265'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_265'><sup>[265]</sup></a> was becoming regarded as the supreme standard of morality. +The classic world considered love and pity and self-sacrifice as little +better than weakness and sometimes worse; the Christian world not only +regarded them as moralities but incarnated them in a god. Our sexual +morality has likewise disregarded natural human emotions, and is incapable +of understanding those who declare that to retain unduly traditional laws +that are opposed to the vital needs of human societies is not a morality +but an immorality.</p> +<a name='6_Page_374'></a> +<p>The reason why the gradual evolution of moral ideals, which is always +taking place, tends in the sexual sphere, at all events among ourselves, +to reach a stage in which there seems to be an opposition between +different standards lies in the fact that as yet we really have no +specific sexual morality at all.<a name='6_FNanchor_266'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_266'><sup>[266]</sup></a> That may seem surprising at first to +one who reflects on the immense weight which is usually attached to +"sexual morality." And it is undoubtedly true that we have a morality +which we apply to the sphere of sex. But that morality is one which +belongs mainly to the sphere of property and was very largely developed on +a property basis. All the historians of morals in general, and of marriage +in particular, have set forth this fact, and illustrated it with a wealth +of historical material. We have as yet no generally recognized sexual +morality which has been based on the specific sexual facts of life. That +becomes clear at once when we realize the central fact that the sexual +relationship is based on love, at the very least on sexual desire, and +that that basis is so deep as to be even physiological, for in the absence +of such sexual desire it is physiologically impossible for a man to effect +intercourse with a woman. Any specific sexual morality must be based on +that fact. But our so-called "sexual morality," so far from being based on +that fact, attempts to ignore it altogether. It makes contracts, it +arranges sexual relationships beforehand, it offers to guarantee +permanency of sexual inclinations. It introduces, that is, considerations +of a kind that is perfectly sound in the economic sphere to which such +considerations rightly belong, but ridiculously incongruous in the sphere +of sex to which they have solemnly been applied. The economic +relationships of life, in the large sense, are, as we shall see, extremely +important in the evolution of any sound sexual morality, but they belong +to the conditions of its development and do not constitute its basis.<a name='6_FNanchor_267'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_267'><sup>[267]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_375'></a> +<div class='blkquot'><p>The fact that, from the legal point of view, marriage is + primarily an arrangement for securing the rights of property and + inheritance is well illustrated by the English divorce law + to-day. According to this law, if a woman has sexual intercourse + with any man beside her husband, he is entitled to divorce her; + if, however, the husband has intercourse with another woman + beside his wife, she is not entitled to a divorce; that is only + accorded if, in addition, he has also been cruel to her, or + deserted her, and from any standpoint of ideal morality such a + law is obviously unjust, and it has now been discarded in nearly + all civilized lands except England.</p> + +<p> But from the standpoint of property and inheritance it is quite + intelligible, and on that ground it is still supported by the + majority of Englishmen. If the wife has intercourse with other + men there is a risk that the husband's property will be inherited + by a child who is not his own. But the sexual intercourse of the + husband with other women is followed by no such risk. The + infidelity of the wife is a serious offence against property; the + infidelity of the husband is no offence against property, and + cannot possibly, therefore, be regarded as a ground for divorce + from our legal point of view. The fact that his adultery + complicated by cruelty is such a ground, is simply a concession + to modern feeling. Yet, as Helena Stöcker truly points out + ("Verschiedenheit im Liebesleben des Weibes und des Mannes," + <i>Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft</i>, Dec., 1908), a married man + who has an unacknowledged child with a woman outside of marriage, + has committed an act as seriously anti-social as a married woman + who has a child without acknowledging that the father is not her + husband. In the first case, the husband, and in the second case, + the wife, have placed an undue amount of responsibility on + another person. (The same point is brought forward by the author + of <i>The Question of English Divorce</i>, p. 56.)</p> + +<p> I insist here on the economic element in our sexual morality, + because that is the element which has given it a kind of + stability and become established in law. But if we take a wider + view of our sexual morality, we cannot ignore the ancient element + of asceticism, which has given religious passion and sanction to + it. Our sexual morality is thus, in reality, a bastard born of + the union of property-morality with primitive ascetic morality, + neither in true relationship to the vital facts of the sexual + life. It is, indeed, the property element which, with a few + inconsistencies, has become finally the main concern of our law, + but the ascetic element (with, in the past, a wavering + relationship to law) has had an important part in moulding + popular sentiment and in creating an attitude of reprobation + towards sexual intercourse <i>per se</i>, although such intercourse is + regarded as an essential part of the property-based and + religiously sanctified institution of legal marriage.</p> + +<p> The glorification of virginity led by imperceptible stages to the + <a name='6_Page_376'></a>formulation of "fornication" as a deadly sin, and finally as an + actual secular "crime." It is sometimes stated that it was not + until the Council of Trent that the Church formally anathematized + those who held that the state of marriage was higher than that of + virginity, but the opinion had been more or less formally held + from almost the earliest ages of Christianity, and is clear in + the epistles of Paul. All the theologians agree that fornication + is a mortal sin. Caramuel, indeed, the distinguished Spanish + theologian, who made unusual concessions to the demands of reason + and nature, held that fornication is only evil because it is + forbidden, but Innocent XI formally condemned that proposition. + Fornication as a mortal sin became gradually secularized into + fornication as a crime. Fornication was a crime in France even as + late as the eighteenth century, as Tarde found in his historical + investigations of criminal procedure in Périgord; adultery was + also a crime and severely punished quite independently of any + complaint from either of the parties (Tarde, "Archéologie + Criminelle en Périgord," <i>Archives de l'Anthropologie + Criminelle</i>, Nov. 15, 1898).</p> + +<p> The Puritans of the Commonwealth days in England (like the + Puritans of Geneva) followed the Catholic example and adopted + ecclesiastical offences against chastity into the secular law. By + an Act passed in 1653 fornication became punishable by three + months' imprisonment inflicted on both parties. By the same Act + the adultery of a wife (nothing is said of a husband) was made + felony, both for her and her partner in guilt, and therefore + punishable by death (Scobell, <i>Acts and Ordinances</i>, p. 121).</p></div> + +<p>The action of a pseudo-morality, such as our sexual morality has been, is +double-edged. On the one side it induces a secret and shamefaced laxity, +on the other it upholds a rigid and uninspiring theoretical code which so +few can consistently follow that theoretical morality is thereby degraded +into a more or less empty form. "The human race would gain much," said the +wise Sénancour, "if virtue were made less laborious. The merit would not +be so great, but what is the use of an elevation which can rarely be +sustained?"<a name='6_FNanchor_268'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_268'><sup>[268]</sup></a> At present, as a more recent moralist, Ellen Key, puts +it, we only have an immorality which favors vice and makes virtue +irrealizable, and, as she exclaims with pardonable extravagance, to preach +a sounder morality to the young, <a name='6_Page_377'></a>without at the same time condemning the +society which encourages the prevailing immorality, is "worse than folly, +it is crime."</p> + +<p>It is on the lines along which Sénancour a century ago and Ellen Key +to-day are great pioneers that the new forms of anterior or ideal +theoretical morality are now moving, in advance, according to the general +tendency in morals, of traditional morality and even of practice.</p> + +<p>There is one great modern movement of a definite kind which will serve to +show how clearly sexual morality is to-day moving towards a new +standpoint. This is the changing attitude of the bulk of the community +towards both State marriage and religious marriage, and the growing +tendency to disallow State interference with sexual relationships, apart +from the production of children.</p> + +<p>There has no doubt always been a tendency among the masses of the +population in Europe to dispense with the official sanction of sexual +relationships until such relationships have been well established and the +hope of offspring has become justifiable. This tendency has been +crystallized into recognized customs among numberless rural communities +little touched either by the disturbing influences of the outside world or +the controlling influences of theological Christian conceptions. But at +the present day this tendency is not confined to the more primitive and +isolated communities of Europe among whom, on the contrary, it has tended +to die out. It is an unquestionable fact, says Professor Bruno Meyer, that +far more than the half of sexual intercourse now takes place outside legal +marriage.<a name='6_FNanchor_269'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_269'><sup>[269]</sup></a> It is among the intelligent classes and in prosperous and +progressive communities that this movement is chiefly marked. We see +throughout the world the practical common sense of the people shaping +itself in the direction which has been pioneered by the ideal moralists +who invariably precede the new growth of practical morality.</p> + +<p>The voluntary childless marriages of to-day have served to show the +possibility of such unions outside legal marriage, and <a name='6_Page_378'></a>such free unions +are becoming, as Mrs. Parsons points out, "a progressive substitute for +marriage."<a name='6_FNanchor_270'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_270'><sup>[270]</sup></a> The gradual but steady rise in the age for entering on +legal marriage also points in the same direction, though it indicates not +merely an increase of free unions but an increase of all forms of normal +and abnormal sexuality outside marriage. Thus in England and Wales, in +1906, only 43 per 1,000 husbands and 146 per 1,000 wives were under age, +while the average age for husbands was 28.6 years and for wives 26.4 +years. For men the age has gone up some eight months during the past forty +years, for women more than this. In the large cities, like London, where +the possibilities of extra-matrimonial relationships are greater, the age +for legal marriage is higher than in the country.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>If we are to regard the age of legal marriage as, on the whole, + the age at which the population enters into sexual unions, it is + undoubtedly too late. Beyer, a leading German neurologist, finds + that there are evils alike in early and in late marriage, and + comes to the conclusion that in temperate zones the best age for + women to marry is the twenty-first year, and for men the + twenty-fifth year.</p> + +<p> Yet, under bad economic conditions and with a rigid marriage law, + early marriages are in every respect disastrous. They are among + the poor a sign of destitution. The very poorest marry first, and + they do so through the feeling that their condition cannot be + worse. (Dr. Michael Ryan brought together much interesting + evidence concerning the causes of early marriage in Ireland in + his <i>Philosophy of Marriage</i>, 1837, pp. 58-72). Among the poor, + therefore, early marriage is always a misfortune. "Many good + people," says Mr. Thomas Holmes, Secretary of the Howard + Association and missionary at police courts (in an interview, + <i>Daily Chronicle</i>, Sept. 8, 1906), "advise boys and girls to get + married in order to prevent what they call a 'disgrace.' This I + consider to be absolutely wicked, and it leads to far greater + evils than it can possibly avert."</p> + +<p> Early marriages are one of the commonest causes both of + prostitution and divorce. They lead to prostitution in + innumerable cases, even when no outward separation takes place. + The fact that they lead to divorce is shown by the significant + circumstance that in England, although only 146 per 1,000 women + are under twenty-one at marriage, <a name='6_Page_379'></a>of the wives concerned in + divorce cases, 280 per 1,000 were under twenty-one at marriage, + and this discrepancy is even greater than it appears, for in the + well-to-do class, which can alone afford the luxury of divorce, + the normal age at marriage is much higher than for the population + generally. Inexperience, as was long ago pointed out by Milton + (who had learnt this lesson to his cost), leads to shipwreck in + marriage. "They who have lived most loosely," he wrote, "prove + most successful in their matches, because their wild affections, + unsettling at will, have been so many divorces to teach them + experience."</p> + +<p> Miss Clapperton, referring to the educated classes, advocates + very early marriage, even during student life, which might then + be to some extent carried on side by side (<i>Scientific + Meliorism</i>, Ch. XVII). Ellen Key, also, advocates early marriage. + But she wisely adds that it involves the necessity for easy + divorce. That, indeed, is the only condition which can render + early marriage generally desirable. Young people—unless they + possess very simple and inert natures—can neither foretell the + course of their own development and their own strongest needs, + nor estimate accurately the nature and quality of another + personality. A marriage formed at an early age very speedily + ceases to be a marriage in anything but name. Sometimes a young + girl applies for a separation from her husband even on the very + day after marriage.</p></div> + +<p>The more or less permanent free unions formed among us in Europe are +usually to be regarded merely as trial-marriages. That is to say they are +a precaution rendered desirable both by uncertainty as to either the +harmony or the fruitfulness of union until actual experiment has been +made, and by the practical impossibility of otherwise rectifying any +mistake in consequence of the antiquated rigidity of most European divorce +laws. Such trial marriages are therefore demanded by prudence and caution, +and as foresight increases with the development of civilization, and +constantly grows among us, we may expect that there will be a parallel +development in the frequency of trial marriage and in the social attitude +towards such unions. The only alternative—that a radical reform in +European marriage laws should render the divorce of a legal marriage as +economical and as convenient as the divorce of a free marriage—cannot yet +be expected, for law always lags behind public opinion and public +practice.</p> + +<p>If, however, we take a wider historical view, we find that we are in +presence of a phenomenon which, though favored by <a name='6_Page_380'></a>modern conditions, is +very ancient and widespread, dating, so far as Europe is concerned, from +the time when the Church first sought to impose ecclesiastical marriage, +so that it is practically a continuation of the ancient European custom of +private marriage.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Trial-marriages pass by imperceptible gradations into the group + of courtship customs which, while allowing the young couple to + spend the night together, in a position of more or less intimacy, + exclude, as a rule, actual sexual intercourse. Night-courtship + flourishes in stable and well-knit European communities not + liable to disorganization by contact with strangers. It seems to + be specially common in Teutonic and Celtic lands, and is known by + various names, as <i>Probenächte, fensterln, Kiltgang, + hand-fasting, bundling, sitting-up, courting on the bed, etc</i>. It + is well known in Wales; it is found in various English counties + as in Cheshire; it existed in eighteenth century Ireland + (according to Richard Twiss's <i>Travels</i>); in New England it was + known as <i>tarrying</i>; in Holland it is called <i>questing</i>. In + Norway, where it is called <i>night-running</i>, on account of the + long distance between the homesteads, I am told that it is + generally practiced, though the clergy preach against it; the + young girl puts on several extra skirts and goes to bed, and the + young man enters by door or window and goes to bed with her; they + talk all night, and are not bound to marry unless it should + happen that the girl becomes pregnant.</p> + +<p> Rhys and Brynmor-Jones (<i>Welsh People</i>, pp. 582-4) have an + interesting passage on this night-courtship with numerous + references. As regards Germany see, <i>e.g.</i>, Rudeck, <i>Geschichte + der öffentlichen Sittlichkeit</i>, pp. 146-154. With reference to + trial-marriage generally many facts and references are given by + M. A. Potter (<i>Sohrab and Rustem</i>, pp. 129-137).</p> + +<p> The custom of free marriage unions, usually rendered legal before + or after the birth of children, seems to be fairly common in + many, or perhaps all, rural parts of England. The union is made + legal, if found satisfactory, even when there is no prospect of + children. In some counties it is said to be almost a universal + practice for the women to have sexual relationships before legal + marriage; sometimes she marries the first man whom she tries; + sometimes she tries several before finding the man who suits her. + Such marriages necessarily, on the whole, turn out better than + marriages in which the woman, knowing nothing of what awaits her + and having no other experiences for comparison, is liable to be + disillusioned or to feel that she "might have done better." Even + when legal recognition is not sought until after the birth of + children, it by no means follows that any moral deterioration is + involved. Thus in <a name='6_Page_381'></a>some parts of Staffordshire where it is the + custom of the women to have a child before marriage, + notwithstanding this "corruption," we are told (Burton, <i>City of + the Saints</i>, Appendix IV), the women are "very good neighbors, + excellent, hard-working, and affectionate wives and mothers."</p> + +<p> "The lower social classes, especially peasants," remarks Dr. + Ehrhard ("Auch Ein Wort zur Ehereform," <i>Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft</i>, Jahrgang I, Heft 10), "know better than we that + the marriage bed is the foundation of marriage. On that account + they have retained the primitive custom of trial-marriage which, + in the Middle Ages, was still practiced even in the best circles. + It has the further advantage that the marriage is not concluded + until it has shown itself to be fruitful. Trial-marriage assumes, + of course, that virginity is not valued beyond its true worth." + With regard to this point it may be mentioned that in many parts + of the world a woman is more highly esteemed if she has had + intercourse before marriage (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Potter, <i>op. cit.</i>, pp. + 163 <i>et seq.</i>). While virginity is one of the sexual attractions + a woman may possess, an attraction that is based on a natural + instinct (see "The Evolution of Modesty," in vol. i of these + <i>Studies</i>), yet an exaggerated attention to virginity can only be + regarded as a sexual perversion, allied to <i>paidophilia</i>, the + sexual attraction to children.</p> + +<p> In very small coördinated communities the primitive custom of + trial-marriage tends to decay when there is a great invasion of + strangers who have not been brought up to the custom (which seems + to them indistinguishable from the license of prostitution), and + who fail to undertake the obligations which trial-marriage + involves. This is what happened in the case of the so-called + "island custom" of Portland, which lasted well on into the + nineteenth century; according to this custom a woman before + marriage lived with her lover until pregnant and then married + him; she was always strictly faithful to him while living with + him, but if no pregnancy occurred the couple might decide that + they were not meant for each other, and break off relations. The + result was that for a long period of years no illegitimate + children were born, and few marriages were childless. But when + the Portland stone trade was developed, the workmen imported from + London took advantage of the "island custom," but refused to + fulfil the obligation of marriage when pregnancy occurred. The + custom consequently fell into disuse (see, <i>e.g.</i>, translator's + note to Bloch's <i>Sexual Life of Our Time</i>, p. 237, and the + quotation there given from Hutchins, <i>History and Antiquities of + Dorset</i>, vol. ii, p. 820).</p> + +<p> It is, however, by no means only in rural districts, but in great + cities also that marriages are at the outset free unions. Thus in + Paris Després stated more than thirty years ago (<i>La Prostitution + à Paris</i>, p. 137) that in an average arrondissement nine out of + ten legal marriages are the consolidation of a free union; + though, while that was an average, <a name='6_Page_382'></a>in a few arrondissements it + was only three out of ten. Much the same conditions prevail in + Paris to-day; at least half the marriages, it is stated, are of + this kind.</p> + +<p> In Teutonic lands the custom of free unions is very ancient and + well-established. Thus in Sweden, Ellen Key states (<i>Liebe und + Ehe</i>, p. 123), the majority of the population begin married life + in this way. The arrangement is found to be beneficial, and + "marital fidelity is as great as pre-marital freedom is + unbounded." In Denmark, also, a large number of children are + conceived before the unions of the parents are legalized (Rubin + and Westergaard, quoted by Gaedeken, <i>Archives d'Anthropologie + Criminelle</i>, Feb. 15, 1909).</p> + +<p> In Germany not only is the proportion of illegitimate births very + high, since in Berlin it is 17 per cent., and in some towns very + much higher, but ante-nuptial conceptions take place in nearly + half the marriages, and sometimes in the majority. Thus in Berlin + more than 40 per cent, of all legitimate firstborn children are + conceived before marriage, while in some rural provinces (where + the proportion of illegitimate births is lower) the percentage of + marriages following ante-nuptial conceptions is much higher than + in Berlin. The conditions in rural Germany have been especially + investigated by a committee of Lutheran pastors, and were set + forth a few years ago in two volumes, <i>Die Geschlecht-sittlich + Verhältnisse im Deutschen Reiche</i>, which are full of instruction + concerning German sexual morality. In Hanover, it is said in this + work, the majority of authorities state that intercourse before + marriage is the rule. At the very least, a <i>probe</i>, or trial, is + regarded as a matter-of-course preliminary to a marriage, since + no one wishes "to buy a pig in a poke." In Saxony, likewise, we + are told, it is seldom that a girl fails to have intercourse + before marriage, or that her first child is not born, or at all + events conceived, outside marriage. This is justified as a proper + proving of a bride before taking her for good. "One does not buy + even a penny pipe without trying it," a German pastor was + informed. Around Stettin, in twelve districts (nearly half the + whole), sexual intercourse before marriage is a recognized + custom, and in the remainder, if not exactly a custom, it is very + common, and is not severely or even at all condemned by public + opinion. In some districts marriage immediately follows + pregnancy. In the Dantzig neighborhood, again, according to the + Lutheran Committee, intercourse before marriage occurs in more + than half the cases, but marriage by no means always follows + pregnancy. Nearly all the girls who go as servants have lovers, + and country people in engaging servants sometimes tell them that + at evening and night they may do as they like. This state of + things is found to be favorable to conjugal fidelity. The German + peasant girl, as another authority remarks (E. H. Meyer, <i>Deutsche + Volkskunde</i>, 1898, pp. 154, 164), has her own room; she may + receive her lover; it is no great <a name='6_Page_383'></a>shame if she gives herself to + him. The number of women who enter legal marriage still virgins + is not large (this refers more especially to Baden), but public + opinion protects them, and such opinion is unfavorable to the + disregard of the responsibilities involved by sexual + relationships. The German woman is less chaste before marriage + than her French or Italian sister. But, Meyer adds, she is + probably more faithful after marriage than they are.</p> + +<p> It is assumed by many that this state of German morality as it + exists to-day is a new phenomenon, and the sign of a rapid + national degeneration. That is by no means the case. In this + connection we may accept the evidence of Catholic priests, who, + by the experience of the confessional, are enabled to speak with + authority. An old Bavarian priest thus writes (<i>Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft</i>, 1907, Bd. ii, Heft I): "At Moral Congresses we + hear laudation of 'the good old times' when, faith and morality + prevailed among the people. Whether that is correct is another + question. As a young priest I heard of as many and as serious + sins as I now hear of as an old man. The morality of the people + is not greater nor is it less. The error is the belief that + immorality goes out of the towns and poisons the country. People + talk as though the country were a pure Paradise of innocence. I + will by no means call our country people immoral, but from an + experience of many years I can say that in sexual respects there + is no difference between town and country. I have learnt to know + more than a hundred different parishes, and in the most various + localities, in the mountain and in the plain, on poor land and on + rich land. But everywhere I find the same morals and lack of + morals. There are everywhere the same men, though in the country + there are often better Christians than in the towns."</p> + +<p> If, however, we go much farther back than the memories of a + living man it seems highly probable that the sexual customs of + the German people of the present day are not substantially + different—though it may well be that at different periods + different circumstances have accentuated them—from what they + were in the dawn of Teutonic history. This is the opinion of one + of the profoundest students of Indo-Germanic origins. In his + <i>Reallexicon</i> (art. "Keuschheit") O. Schrader points out that the + oft-quoted Tacitus, strictly considered, can only be taken to + prove that women were chaste after marriage, and that no + prostitution existed. There can be no doubt, he adds, and the + earliest historical evidence shows, that women in ancient Germany + were not chaste before marriage. This fact has been disguised by + the tendency of the old classic writers to idealize the Northern + peoples.</p> + +<p> Thus we have to realize that the conception of "German virtue," + which has been rendered so familiar to the world by a long + succession of German writers, by no means involves any special + devotion to the virtue of chastity. Tacitus, indeed, in the + passage more often quoted in<a name='6_Page_384'></a> Germany than any other passage in + classic literature, while correctly emphasizing the late puberty + of the Germans and their brutal punishment of conjugal infidelity + on the part of the wife, seemed to imply that they were also + chaste. But we have always to remark that Tacitus wrote as a + satirizing moralist as well as a historian, and that, as he + declaimed concerning the virtues of the German barbarians, he had + one eye on the Roman gallery whose vices he desired to lash. Much + the same perplexing confusion has been created by Gildas, who, in + describing the results of the Saxon Conquest of Britain, wrote as + a preacher as well as a historian, and the same moral purpose (as + Dill has pointed out) distorts Salvian's picture of the vices of + fifth century Gaul. (I may add that some of the evidence in favor + of the sexual freedom involved by early Teutonic faiths and + customs is brought together in the study of "Sexual Periodicity" + in the first volume of these <i>Studies</i>; <i>cf.</i> also, Rudeck, + <i>Geschichte der öffentlichen Sittlichkeit in Deutschland</i>, 1897, + pp. 146 <i>et seq.</i>).</p> + +<p> The freedom and tolerance of Russian sexual customs is fairly + well-known. As a Russian correspondent writes to me, "the + liberalism of Russian manners enables youths and girls to enjoy + complete independence. They visit each other alone, they walk out + alone, and they return home at any hour they please. They have a + liberty of movement as complete as that of grown-up persons; some + avail themselves of it to discuss politics and others to make + love. They are able also to procure any books they please; thus + on the table of a college girl I knew I saw the <i>Elements of + Social Science</i>, then prohibited in Russia; this girl lived with + her aunt, but she had her own room, which only her friends were + allowed to enter: her aunt or other relations never entered it. + Naturally, she went out and came back at what hours she pleased. + Many other college girls enjoy the same freedom in their + families. It is very different in Italy, where girls have no + freedom of movement, and can neither go out alone nor receive + gentlemen alone, and where, unlike Russia, a girl who has sexual + intercourse outside marriage is really 'lost' and 'dishonored'" + (<i>cf.</i> <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Aug., 1908, p. 506).</p> + +<p> It would appear that freedom of sexual relationships in + Russia—apart from the influence of ancient custom—has largely + been rendered necessary by the difficulty of divorce. Married + couples, who were unable to secure divorce, separated and found + new partners without legal marriage. In 1907, however, an attempt + was made to remedy this defect in the law; a liberal divorce law + has been introduced, mutual consent with separation for a period + of over a year being recognized as adequate ground for divorce + (Beiblatt to <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, Bd. ii, Heft 5, p. + 145).</p> + +<p> During recent years there has developed among educated young men + and women in Russia a movement of sexual license, which, though + it <a name='6_Page_385'></a>is doubtless supported by the old traditions of sexual + freedom, must by no means be confused with that freedom, since it + is directly due to causes of an entirely different order. The + strenuous revolutionary efforts made during the last years of the + past century to attain political freedom absorbed the younger and + more energetic section of the educated classes, involved a high + degree of mental tension, and were accompanied by a tendency to + asceticism. The prospect of death was constantly before their + eyes, and any pre-occupation with sexual matters would have been + felt as out of harmony with the spirit of revolution. But during + the present century revolutionary activity has largely ceased. It + has been, to a considerable extent, replaced by a movement of + interest in sexual problems and of indulgence in sexual + unrestraint, often taking on a somewhat licentious and sensual + character. "Free love" unions have been formed by the students of + both sexes for the cultivation of these tendencies. A novel, + Artzibascheff's <i>Ssanin</i>, has had great influence in promoting + these tendencies. It is not likely that this movement, in its + more extravagant forms, will be of long duration. (For some + account of this movement, see, <i>e.g.</i>, Werner Daya, "Die Sexuelle + Bewegung in Russland," <i>Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft</i>, + Aug., 1908; also, "Les Associations Erotiques en Russe," <i>Journal + du Droit International Privé</i>, Jan., 1909, fully summarized in + <i>Revue des Idées</i>, Feb., 1909.)</p> + +<p> The movement of sexual freedom in Russia lies much deeper, + however, than this fashion of sensual license; it is found in + remote and uncontaminated parts of the country, and is connected + with very ancient customs.</p> + +<p> There is considerable interest in realizing the existence of + long-continued sexual freedom—by some incorrectly termed + "immorality," for what is in accordance with the customs or + <i>mores</i> of a people cannot be immoral—among peoples so virile + and robust, so eminently capable of splendid achievements, as the + Germans and the Russians. There is, however, a perhaps even + greater interest in tracing the development of the same tendency + among new prosperous and highly progressive communities who have + either not inherited the custom of sexual freedom or are now only + reviving it. We may, for instance, take the case of Australia and + New Zealand. This development may not, indeed, be altogether + recent. The frankness of sexual freedom in Australia and the + tolerance in regard to it were conspicuous thirty years ago to + those who came from England to live in the Southern continent, + and were doubtless equally visible at an earlier date. It seems, + however, to have developed with the increase of self-conscious + civilization. "After careful inquiry," says the Rev. H. + Northcote, who has lived for many years in the Southern + hemisphere (<i>Christianity and Sex Problems</i>, Ch. VIII), "the + writer finds sufficient evidence that of recent years intercourse + out of wedlock has tended towards an actual increase in parts of + Australia." Coghlan, the <a name='6_Page_386'></a>chief authority on Australian + statistics, states more precisely in his <i>Childbirth in New South + Wales</i>, published a few years ago: "The prevalence of births of + ante-nuptial conception—a matter hitherto little understood—has + now been completely investigated. In New South Wales, during six + years, there were 13,366 marriages, in respect of which there was + ante-nuptial conception, and, as the total number of marriages + was 49,641, at least twenty-seven marriages in a hundred followed + conception. During the same period the illegitimate births + numbered 14,779; there were, therefore, 28,145 cases of + conception amongst unmarried women; in 13,366 instances marriage + preceded the birth of the child, so that the children were + legitimatized in rather more than forty-seven cases out of one + hundred. A study of the figures of births of ante-nuptial + conception makes it obvious that in a very large number of + instances pre-marital intercourse is not an anticipation of + marriage already arranged, but that the marriages are forced upon + the parties, and would not be entered into were it not for the + condition of the woman" (<i>cf.</i> Powys, <i>Biometrika</i>, vol. i, + 1901-2, p. 30). That marriage should be, as Coghlan puts it, + "forced upon the parties," is not, of course, desirable in the + general moral interests, and it is also a sign of imperfect moral + responsibility in the parties themselves.</p> + +<p> The existence of such a state of things, in a young country + belonging to a part of the world where the general level of + prosperity, intelligence, morality and social responsibility may + perhaps be said to be higher than in any other region inhabited + by people of white race, is a fact of the very first significance + when we are attempting to forecast the direction in which + civilized morality is moving.</p></div> + +<p>It is sometimes said, or at least implied, that in this movement women are +taking only a passive part, and that the initiative lies with men who are +probably animated by a desire to escape the responsibilities of marriage. +This is very far from being the case.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The active part taken by German girls in sexual matters is + referred to again and again by the Lutheran pastors in their + elaborate and detailed report. Of the Dantzig district it is said + "the young girls give themselves to the youths, or even seduce + them." The military manœuvres are frequently a source of + unchastity in rural districts. "The fault is not merely with the + soldiers, but chiefly with the girls, who become half mad as soon + as they see a soldier," it is reported from the Dresden district. + And in summarizing conditions in East Germany the report states: + "In sexual wantonness girls are not behind the young men; they + allow themselves to be seduced only too willingly; even grown-up + girls <a name='6_Page_387'></a>often go with half-grown youths, and girls frequently give + themselves to several men, one after the other. It is by no means + always the youth who effects the seduction, it is very frequently + the girls who entice the youth to sexual intercourse; they do not + always wait till the men come to their rooms, but will go to the + men's rooms and await them in their beds. With this inclination + to sexual intercourse, it is not surprising that many believe + that after sixteen no girl is a virgin. Unchastity among the + rural laboring classes is universal, and equally pronounced in + both sexes" (<i>op. cit.</i>, vol. i, 218).</p> + +<p> Among women of the educated classes the conditions are somewhat + different. Restraints, both internal and external, are very much + greater. Virginity, at all events in its physical fact, is + retained, for the most part, till long past girlhood, and when it + is lost that loss is concealed with a scrupulous care and + prudence unknown to the working-classes. Yet the fundamental + tendencies remain the same. So far as England is concerned, + Geoffrey Mortimer quite truly writes (<i>Chapters on Human Love</i>, + 1898, p. 117) that the two groups of (1) women who live in + constant secret association with a single lover, and (2) women + who give themselves to men, without fear, from the force of their + passions, are "much larger than is generally supposed. In all + classes of society there are women who are only virgins by + repute. Many have borne children without being even suspected of + cohabitation; but the majority adopt methods of preventing + conception. A doctor in a small provincial town declared to me + that such irregular intimacies were the rule, and not by any + means the exception in his district." As regards Germany, a lady + doctor, Frau Adams-Lehmann, states in a volume of the + Transactions of the German Society for Combating Venereal Disease + (<i>Sexualpädagogik</i>, p. 271): "I can say that during consultation + hours I see very few virgins over thirty. These women," she adds, + "are sensible, courageous and natural, often the best of their + sex; and we ought to give them our moral support. They are + working towards a new age."</p></div> + +<p>It is frequently stated that the pronounced tendency witnessed at the +present time to dispense as long as possible with the formal ceremony of +binding marriage is unfortunate because it places women in a +disadvantageous position. In so far as the social environment in which she +lives views with disapproval sexual relationship without formal marriage, +the statement is obviously to that extent true, though it must be +remarked, on the other hand, that when social opinion strongly favors +legal marriage it acts as a compelling force in the direction of +legitimating free unions. But if the absence of the formal marriage <a name='6_Page_388'></a>bond +constituted a real and intrinsic disadvantage to women in sexual relations +they would not show themselves so increasingly ready to dispense with it. +And, as a matter of fact, those who are intimately acquainted with the +facts declare that the absence of formal marriage tends to give increased +consideration to women and is even favorable to fidelity and to the +prolongation of the union. This seems to be true as regards people of the +most different social classes and even of different races. It is probably +based on fundamental psychological facts, for the sense of compulsion +always tends to produce a movement of exasperation and revolt. We are not +here concerned with the question as to how far formal marriage also is +based on natural facts; that is a question which will come up for +discussion at a later stage.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The advantage for women of free sexual unions over compulsory + marriage is well recognized in the case of the working classes of + London, among whom sexual relationships before marriage are not + unusual, and are indulgently regarded. It is, for instance, + clearly asserted in the monumental work of C. Booth, <i>Life and + Labour of the People</i>. "It is even said of rough laborers," we + read, for instance, in the final volume of this work (p. 41), + "that they behave best if not married to the woman with whom they + live." The evidence on this point is often the more impressive + because brought forward by people who are very far indeed from + being anxious to base any general conclusions on it. Thus in the + same volume a clergyman is quoted as saying: "These people manage + to live together fairly peaceably so long as they are not + married, but if they marry it always seems to lead to blows and + rows."</p> + +<p> It may be said that in such a case we witness not so much the + operation of a natural law as the influences of a great centre of + civilization exerting its moralizing effects even on those who + stand outside the legally recognized institution of marriage. + That contention may, however, be thrust aside. We find exactly + the same tendency in Jamaica where the population is largely + colored, and the stress of a high civilization can scarcely be + said to exist. Legal marriage is here discarded to an even + greater extent than in London, for little care is taken to + legitimate children by marriage. It was found by a committee + appointed to inquire into the marriage laws of Jamaica, that + three out of every five births are illegitimate, that is to say + that legal illegitimacy has ceased to be immoral, having become + the recognized custom of the majority of the inhabitants. There + is no social feeling against illegitimacy. The men approve of the + decay of legal marriage, because they <a name='6_Page_389'></a>say the women work better + in the house when they are not married; the women approve of it, + because they say that men are more faithful when not bound by + legal marriage. This has been well brought out by W. P. + Livingstone in his interesting book, <i>Black Jamaica</i> (1899). The + people recognize, he tells us (p. 210), that "faithful living + together constitutes marriage;" they say that they are "married + but not parsoned." One reason against legal marriage is that they + are disinclined to incur the expense of the official sanction. + (In Venezuela, it may be added, where also the majority of births + take place outside official marriage, the chief reason is stated + to be, not moral laxity, but the same disinclination to pay the + expenses of legal weddings.) Frequently in later life, sometimes + when they have grown up sons and daughters, couples go through + the official ceremony. (In Abyssinia, also, it is stated by + Hugues Le Roux, where the people are Christian and marriage is + indissoluble and the ceremony expensive, it is not usual for + married couples to make their unions legal until old age is + coming on, <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, April, 1908, p. 217.) It is + significant that this condition of things in Jamaica, as + elsewhere, is associated with the superiority of women. "The + women of the peasant class," remarks Livingstone (p. 212), "are + still practically independent of the men, and are frequently + their superiors, both in physical and mental capacity." They + refuse to bind themselves to a man who may turn out to be good + for nothing, a burden instead of a help and protection. So long + as the unions are free they are likely to be permanent. If made + legal, the risk is that they will become intolerable, and cease + by one of the parties leaving the other. "The necessity for + mutual kindness and forbearance establishes a condition that is + the best guarantee of permanency" (p. 214). It is said, however, + that under the influence of religious and social pressure the + people are becoming more anxious to adopt "respectable" ideas of + sexual relationships, though it seems evident, in view of + Livingstone's statement, that such respectability is likely to + involve a decrease of real morality. Livingstone points out, + however, one serious defect in the present conditions which makes + it easy for immoral men to escape paternal responsibilities, and + this is the absence of legal provision for the registration of + the father's name on birth certificates (p. 256). In every + country where the majority of births are illegitimate it is an + obvious social necessity that the names of both parents should be + duly registered on all birth certificates. It has been an + unpardonable failure on the part of the Jamaican Government to + neglect the simple measure needed to give "each child born in the + country a legal father" (p. 258).</p></div> + +<p>We thus see that we have to-day reached a position in which—partly owing +to economic causes and partly to causes which are <a name='6_Page_390'></a>more deeply rooted in +the tendencies involved by civilization—women are more often detached +than of old from legal sexual relationship with men and both sexes are +less inclined than in earlier stages of civilization to sacrifice their +own independence even when they form such relationships. "I never heard of +a woman over sixteen years of age who, prior to the breakdown of +aboriginal customs after the coming of the whites, had not a husband," +wrote Curr of the Australian Blacks.<a name='6_FNanchor_271'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_271'><sup>[271]</sup></a> Even as regards some parts of +Europe, it is still possible to-day to make almost the same statement. But +in all the richer, more energetic, and progressive countries very +different conditions prevail. Marriage is late and a certain proportion of +men, and a still larger proportion of women (who exceed the men in the +general population) never marry at all.<a name='6_FNanchor_272'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_272'><sup>[272]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Before we consider the fateful significance of this fact of the growing +proportion of adult unmarried women whose sexual relationships are +unrecognized by the state and largely unrecognized altogether, it may be +well to glance summarily at the two historical streams of tendency, both +still in action among us, which affect the status of women, the one +favoring the social equality of the sexes, the other favoring the social +subjection of women. It is not difficult to trace these two streams both +in conduct and opinion, in practical morality and in theoretical morality.</p> + +<p>At one time it was widely held that in early states of society, before the +establishment of the patriarchal stage which places women under the +protection of men, a matriarchal stage prevailed in which women possessed +supreme power.<a name='6_FNanchor_273'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_273'><sup>[273]</sup></a> Bachofen, half a <a name='6_Page_391'></a>century ago, was the great champion +of this view. He found a typical example of a matriarchal state among the +ancient Lycians of Asia Minor with whom, Herodotus stated, the child takes +the name of the mother, and follows her status, not that of the +father.<a name='6_FNanchor_274'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_274'><sup>[274]</sup></a> Such peoples, Bachofen believed, were gynæcocratic; power was +in the hands of women. It can no longer be said that this opinion, in the +form held by Bachofen, meets with any considerable support. As to the +widespread prevalence of descent through the mother, there is no doubt +whatever that it has prevailed very widely. But such descent through the +mother, it has become recognized, by no means necessarily involves the +power of the mother, and mother-descent may even be combined with a +patriarchal system.<a name='6_FNanchor_275'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_275'><sup>[275]</sup></a> There has even been a tendency to run to the +opposite extreme from Bachofen and to deny that mother-descent conferred +any special claim for consideration on women. That, however, seems +scarcely in accordance with the evidence and even in the absence of +evidence could scarcely be regarded as probable. It would seem that we may +fairly take as a type of the matriarchal family that based on the <i>ambil +anak</i> marriage of Sumatra, in which the husband lives in the wife's +family, paying nothing and occupying a subordinate position. The example +of the Lycians is here in point, for although, as reported by Herodotus, +there is nothing to show that there was anything of the nature of a +gynæcocracy in Lycia, we know that women in all these regions of Asia +Minor enjoyed high consideration and influence, traces of which may be +detected in the early literature and history of Christianity. A decisive +and better known example of the favorable influence of mother-descent on +the status of woman is afforded by the <i>beena</i> marriage of early Arabia. +Under such a system the wife is not only preserved <a name='6_Page_392'></a>from the subjection +involved by purchase, which always casts upon her some shadow of the +inferiority belonging to property, but she herself is the owner of the +tent and the household property, and enjoys the dignity always involved by +the possession of property and the ability to free herself from her +husband.<a name='6_FNanchor_276'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_276'><sup>[276]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is also impossible to avoid connecting the primitive tendency to +mother-descent, and the emphasis it involved on maternal rather than +paternal generative energy, with the tendency to place the goddess rather +than the god in the forefront of primitive pantheons, a tendency which +cannot possibly fail to reflect honor on the sex to which the supreme +deity belongs, and which may be connected with the large part which +primitive women often play in the functions of religion. Thus, according +to traditions common to all the central tribes of Australia, the woman +formerly took a much greater share in the performance of sacred ceremonies +which are now regarded as coming almost exclusively within the masculine +province, and in at least one tribe which seems to retain ancient +practices the women still actually take part in these ceremonies.<a name='6_FNanchor_277'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_277'><sup>[277]</sup></a> It +seems to have been much the same in Europe. We observe, too, both in the +Celtic pantheon and among Mediterranean peoples, that while all the +ancient divinities have receded into the dim background yet the goddesses +loom larger than the gods.<a name='6_FNanchor_278'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_278'><sup>[278]</sup></a> In Ireland, where ancient custom and +tradition have always been very tenaciously preserved, women retained a +very high position, and much freedom both before and after marriage. +"Every woman," it was said, "is to go the way she willeth freely," and +after marriage she enjoyed a better position and greater freedom of +divorce than was afforded <a name='6_Page_393'></a>either by the Christian Church or the English +common law.<a name='6_FNanchor_279'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_279'><sup>[279]</sup></a> There is less difficulty in recognizing that +mother-descent was peculiarly favorable to the high status of women when +we realize that even under very unfavorable conditions women have been +able to exert great pressure on the men and to resist successfully the +attempts to tyrannize over them.<a name='6_FNanchor_280'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_280'><sup>[280]</sup></a></p> + +<p>If we consider the status of woman in the great empires of antiquity we +find on the whole that in their early stage, the stage of growth, as well +as in their final stage, the stage of fruition, women tend to occupy a +favorable position, while in their middle stage, usually the stage of +predominating military organization on a patriarchal basis, women occupy a +less favorable position. This cyclic movement seems to be almost a natural +law of the development of great social groups. It was apparently well +marked in the very stable and orderly growth of Babylonia. In the earliest +times a Babylonian woman had complete independence and equal rights with +her brothers and her husband; later (as shown by the code of Hamurabi) a +woman's rights, though not her duties, were more circumscribed; in the +still later Neo-Babylonian periods, she again acquired equal rights with +her husband.<a name='6_FNanchor_281'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_281'><sup>[281]</sup></a></p> + +<p>In Egypt the position of women stood highest at the end, but it seems to +have been high throughout the whole of the long course of Egyptian +history, and continuously improving, while the fact that little regard was +paid to prenuptial chastity and that marriage contracts placed no stress +on virginity indicate the absence of the conception of women as property. +More than three thousand five hundred years ago men and women were +recognized as equal in Egypt. The high position of the Egyptian woman is +significantly indicated by the fact that her child was never illegitimate; +illegitimacy was not recognized even in the <a name='6_Page_394'></a>case of a slave woman's +child.<a name='6_FNanchor_282'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_282'><sup>[282]</sup></a> "It is the glory of Egyptian morality," says Amélineau, "to +have been the first to express the Dignity of Woman."<a name='6_FNanchor_283'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_283'><sup>[283]</sup></a> The idea of +marital authority was altogether unknown in Egypt. There can be no doubt +that the high status of woman in two civilizations so stable, so vital, so +long-lived, and so influential on human culture as Babylonia and Egypt, is +a fact of much significance.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Among the Jews there seems to have been no intermediate stage of + subordination of women, but instead a gradual progress throughout + from complete subjection of the woman as wife to ever greater + freedom. At first the husband could repudiate his wife at will + without cause. (This was not an extension of patriarchal + authority, but a purely marital authority.) The restrictions on + this authority gradually increased, and begin to be observable + already in the Book of Deuteronomy. The Mishnah went further and + forbade divorce whenever the wife's condition inspired pity (as + in insanity, captivity, etc.). By A.D. 1025, divorce was no + longer possible except for legitimate reasons or by the wife's + consent. At the same time, the wife also began to acquire the + right of divorce in the form of compelling the husband to + repudiate her on penalty of punishment in case of refusal. On + divorce the wife became an independent woman in her own right, + and was permitted to carry off the dowry which her husband gave + her on marriage. Thus, notwithstanding Jewish respect for the + letter of the law, the flexible jurisprudence of the Rabbis, in + harmony with the growth of culture, accorded an ever-growing + measure of sexual justice and equality to women (D. W. Amram, <i>The + Jewish Law of Divorce</i>).</p> + +<p> Among the Arabs the tendency of progress has also been favorable + to women in many respects, especially as regards inheritance. + Before Mahommed, in accordance with the system prevailing at + Medina, women had little or no right of inheritance. The + legislation of the Koran modified this rule, without entirely + abolishing it, and placed women in a much better position. This + is attributed largely to the fact that Mahommed belonged not to + Medina, but to Mecca, where traces of matriarchal custom still + survived (W. Marçais, <i>Des Parents et des Alliés Successibles en + Droit Musulman</i>).</p><a name='6_Page_395'></a> + +<p> It may be pointed out—for it is not always realized—that even + that stage of civilization—when it occurs—which involves the + subordination and subjection of woman and her rights really has + its origin in the need for the protection of women, and is + sometimes even a sign of the acquirement of new privileges by + women. They are, as it were, locked up, not in order to deprive + them of their rights, but in order to guard those rights. In the + later more stable phase of civilization, when women are no longer + exposed to the same dangers, this motive is forgotten and the + guardianship of woman and her rights seems, and indeed has really + become, a hardship rather than an advantage.</p></div> + +<p>Of the status of women at Rome in the earliest periods we know little or +nothing; the patriarchal system was already firmly established when Roman +history begins to become clear and it involved unusually strict +subordination of the woman to her father first and then to her husband. +But nothing is more certain than that the status of women in Rome rose +with the rise of civilization, exactly in the same way as in Babylonia and +in Egypt. In the case of Rome, however, the growing refinement of +civilization, and the expansion of the Empire, were associated with the +magnificent development of the system of Roman law, which in its final +forms consecrated the position of women. In the last days of the Republic +women already began to attain the same legal level as men, and later the +great Antonine jurisconsults, guided by their theory of natural law, +reached the conception of the equality of the sexes as a principle of the +code of equity. The patriarchal subordination of women fell into complete +discredit, and this continued until, in the days of Justinian, under the +influence of Christianity, the position of women began to suffer.<a name='6_FNanchor_284'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_284'><sup>[284]</sup></a> In +the best days the older forms of Roman marriage gave place to a form +(apparently old but not hitherto considered reputable) which amounted in +law to a temporary deposit of the woman by her family. She was independent +of her husband (more especially as she came to him with her own dowry) and +only nominally dependent on her family. Marriage was a private contract, +accompanied by a religious ceremony if desired, and being a contract it +could be <a name='6_Page_396'></a>dissolved, for any reason, in the presence of competent +witnesses and with due legal forms, after the advice of the family council +had been taken. Consent was the essence of this marriage and no shame, +therefore, attached to its dissolution. Nor had it any evil effect either +on the happiness or the morals of Roman women.<a name='6_FNanchor_285'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_285'><sup>[285]</sup></a> Such a system is +obviously more in harmony with modern civilized feeling than any system +that has ever been set up in Christendom.</p> + +<p>In Rome, also, it is clear that this system was not a mere legal invention +but the natural outgrowth of an enlightened public feeling in favor of the +equality of men and women, often even in the field of sexual morality. +Plautus, who makes the old slave Syra ask why there is not the same law in +this respect for the husband as for the wife,<a name='6_FNanchor_286'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_286'><sup>[286]</sup></a> had preceded the legist +Ulpian who wrote: "It seems to be very unjust that a man demands chastity +of his wife while he himself shows no example of it."<a name='6_FNanchor_287'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_287'><sup>[287]</sup></a> Such demands +lie deeper than social legislation, but the fact that these questions +presented themselves to typical Roman men indicates the general attitude +towards women. In the final stage of Roman society the bond of the +patriarchal system so far as women were concerned dwindled to a mere +thread binding them to their fathers and leaving them quite free face to +face with their husbands. "The Roman matron of the Empire," says Hobhouse, +"was more fully her own mistress than the married woman of any earlier +civilization, with the possible exception of a certain period of Egyptian +history, and, it must be added, than the wife of any later civilization +down to our own generation."<a name='6_FNanchor_288'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_288'><sup>[288]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>On the strength of the statements of two satirical writers, + Juvenal and Tacitus, it has been supposed by many that Roman + women of the late period were given up to license. It is, + however, idle to seek in satirists any balanced picture of a + great civilization. Hobhouse (<i>loc. cit.</i>, p. 216) concludes that + on the whole, Roman women worthily retained the position of their + husbands' companions, counsellors and <a name='6_Page_397'></a>friends which they had + held when an austere system placed them legally in his power. + Most authorities seem now to be of this opinion, though at an + earlier period Friedländer expressed himself more dubiously. Thus + Dill, in his judicious <i>Roman Society</i> (p. 163), states that the + Roman woman's position, both in law and in fact, rose during the + Empire; without being less virtuous or respected, she became far + more accomplished and attractive; with fewer restraints she had + greater charm and influence, even in public affairs, and was more + and more the equal of her husband. "In the last age of the + Western Empire there is no deterioration in the position and + influence of women." Principal Donaldson, also, in his valuable + historical sketch, <i>Woman</i>, considers (p. 113) that there was no + degradation of morals in the Roman Empire; "the licentiousness of + Pagan Rome is nothing to the licentiousness of Christian Africa, + Rome, and Gaul, if we can put any reliance on the description of + Salvian." Salvian's description of Christendom is probably + exaggerated and one-sided, but exactly the same may be said in an + even greater degree of the descriptions of ancient Rome left by + clever Pagan satirists and ascetic Christian preachers.</p></div> + +<p>It thus becomes necessary to leap over considerably more than a thousand +years before we reach a stage of civilization in any degree approaching in +height the final stage of Roman society. In the eighteenth and nineteenth +centuries, at first in France, then in England, we find once more the +moral and legal movement tending towards the equalization of women with +men. We find also a long series of pioneers of that movement foreshadowing +its developments: Mary Astor, "Sophia, a Lady of Quality," Ségur, Mrs. +Wheeler, and very notably Mary Wollstonecraft in <i>A Vindication of the +Rights of Woman</i>, and John Stuart Mill in <i>The Subjection of Women</i>.<a name='6_FNanchor_289'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_289'><sup>[289]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The main European stream of influences in this matter within historical +times has involved, we can scarcely doubt when we take into consideration +its complex phenomena as a whole, the maintenance of an inequality to the +disadvantage of women. The fine legacy of Roman law to Europe was indeed +favorable to women, but that legacy was dispersed and for the most part +lost in the more predominating influence of tenacious Teutonic <a name='6_Page_398'></a>custom +associated with the vigorously organized Christian Church. Notwithstanding +that the facts do not all point in the same direction, and that there is +consequently some difference of opinion, it seems evident that on the +whole both Teutonic custom and Christian religion were unfavorable to the +equality of women with men. Teutonic custom in this matter was determined +by two decisive factors: (1) the existence of marriage by purchase which +although, as Crawley has pointed out, it by no means necessarily involves +the degradation of women, certainly tends to place them in an inferior +position, and (2) pre-occupation with war which is always accompanied by a +depreciation of peaceful and feminine occupations and an indifference to +love. Christianity was at its origin favorable to women because it +liberated and glorified the most essentially feminine emotions, but when +it became an established and organized religion with definitely ascetic +ideals, its whole emotional tone grew unfavorable to women. It had from +the first excluded them from any priestly function. It now regarded them +as the special representatives of the despised element of sex in +life.<a name='6_FNanchor_290'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_290'><sup>[290]</sup></a> The eccentric Tertullian had once declared that woman was +<i>janua Diaboli</i>; nearly seven hundred years later, even the gentle and +philosophic Anselm wrote: <i>Femina fax est Satanæ</i>.<a name='6_FNanchor_291'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_291'><sup>[291]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Thus among the Franks, with whom the practice of monogamy + prevailed, a woman was never free; she could not buy or sell or + inherit without the permission of those to whom she belonged. She + passed into the possession of her husband by acquisition, and + when he fixed the wedding day he gave her parents coins of small + money as <i>arrha</i>, and the day after the wedding she received from + him a present, the <i>morgengabe</i>. A widow belonged to her parents + again (Bedollière, <i>Histoire de Mœurs des Français</i>, + vol. i, p. 180). It is true that the Salic law ordained a + pecuniary fine for touching a woman, even for squeezing her + finger, but it is clear that the offence thus committed was an + offence against property, and by no means against the sanctity of + a woman's personality. The primitive German husband could sell + his children, and <a name='6_Page_399'></a>sometimes his wife, even into slavery. In the + eleventh century cases of wife-selling are still heard of, though + no longer recognized by law.</p> + +<p> The traditions of Christianity were more favorable to sexual + equality than were Teutonic customs, but in becoming amalgamated + with those customs they added their own special contribution as + to woman's impurity. This spiritual inferiority of woman was + significantly shown by the restrictions sometimes placed on women + in church, and even in the right to enter a church; in some + places they were compelled to remain in the narthex, even in + non-monastic churches (see for these rules, Smith and Cheetham, + <i>Dictionary of Christian Antiquities</i>, art. "Sexes, Separation + of").</p> + +<p> By attempting to desexualize the idea of man and to oversexualize + the idea of woman, Christianity necessarily degraded the position + of woman and the conception of womanhood. As Donaldson well + remarks, in pointing this out (<i>op. cit.</i>, p. 182), "I may define + man as a male human being and woman as a female human being.... + What the early Christians did was to strike the 'male' out of the + definition of man, and 'human being' out of the definition of + woman." Religion generally appears to be a powerfully depressing + influence on the position of woman notwithstanding the appeal + which it makes to woman. Westermarck considers, indeed (<i>Origin + and Development of the Moral Ideas</i>, vol. i, p. 669), that + religion "has probably been the most persistent cause of the + wife's subjection to her husband's rule."</p> + +<p> It is sometimes said that the Christian tendency to place women + in an inferior spiritual position went so far that a church + council formally denied that women have souls. This foolish story + has indeed been repeated in a parrot-like fashion by a number of + writers. The source of the story is probably to be found in the + fact, recorded by Gregory of Tours, in his history (lib. viii, + cap. XX), that at the Council of Mâcon, in 585, a bishop was in + doubt as to whether the term "man" included woman, but was + convinced by the other members of the Council that it did. The + same difficulty has presented itself to lawyers in more modern + times, and has not always been resolved so favorably to woman as + by the Christian Council of Mâcon.</p> + +<p> The low estimate of women that prevailed even in the early Church + is admitted by Christian scholars. "We cannot but notice," writes + Meyrick (art. "Marriage," Smith and Cheetham, <i>Dictionary of + Christian Antiquities</i>), "even in the greatest of the Christian + fathers a lamentably low estimate of woman, and consequently of + the marriage relationship. Even St. Augustine can see no + justification for marriage, except in a grave desire deliberately + adopted of having children; and in accordance with this view, all + married intercourse, except for this single purpose, is harshly + condemned. If marriage is sought after for the sake of children, + it is justifiable; if entered into as a <i>remedium</i> to avoid worse + evils, it <a name='6_Page_400'></a>is pardonable; the idea of the mutual society, help, + and comfort that the one ought to have of the other, both in + prosperity and adversity, hardly existed, and could hardly yet + exist."</p> + +<p> From the woman's point of view, Lily Braun, in her important work + on the woman question (<i>Die Frauenfrage</i>, 1901, pp. 28 <i>et seq.</i>) + concludes that, in so far as Christianity was favorable to women, + we must see that favorable influence in the placing of women on + the same moral level as men, as illustrated in the saying of + Jesus, "Let him who is without sin amongst you cast the first + stone," implying that each sex owes the same fidelity. It + reached, she adds, no further than this. "Christianity, which + women accepted as a deliverance with so much enthusiasm, and died + for as martyrs, has not fulfilled their hopes."</p> + +<p> Even as regards the moral equality of the sexes in marriage, the + position of Christian authorities was sometimes equivocal. One of + the greatest of the Fathers, St. Basil, in the latter half of the + fourth century, distinguished between adultery and fornication as + committed by a married man; if with a married woman, it was + adultery; if with an unmarried woman, it was merely fornication. + In the former case, a wife should not receive her husband back; + in the latter case, she should (art. "Adultery," Smith and + Cheetham, <i>Dictionary of Christian Antiquities</i>). Such a + decision, by attaching supreme importance to a distinction which + could make no difference to the wife, involved a failure to + recognize her moral personality. Many of the Fathers in the + Western Church, however, like Jerome, Augustine, and Ambrose, + could see no reason why the moral law should not be the same for + the husband as for the wife, but as late Roman feeling both on + the legal and popular side was already approximating to that + view, the influence of Christianity was scarcely required to + attain it. It ultimately received formal sanction in the Roman + Canon Law, which decreed that adultery is equally committed by + either conjugal party in two degrees: (1) <i>simplex</i>, of the + married with the unmarried, and (2) <i>duplex</i>, of the married with + the married.</p> + +<p> It can scarcely be said, however, that Christianity succeeded in + attaining the inclusion of this view of the moral equality of the + sexes into actual practical morality. It was accepted in theory; + it was not followed in practice. W. G. Sumner, discussing this + question (<i>Folkways</i>, pp. 359-361), concludes: "Why are these + views not in the <i>mores?</i> Undoubtedly it is because they are + dogmatic in form, invented or imposed by theological authority or + philosophical speculation. They do not grow out of the experience + of life, and cannot be verified by it. The reasons are in + ultimate physiological facts, by virtue of which one is a woman + and the other is a man." There is, however, more to be said on + this point later.</p></div><a name='6_Page_401'></a> + +<p>It was probably, however, not so much the Church as Teutonic customs and +the development of the feudal system, with the masculine and military +ideals it fostered, that was chiefly decisive in fixing the inferior +position of women in the mediæval world. Even the ideas of chivalry, which +have often been supposed to be peculiarly favorable to women, so far as +they affected women seem to have been of little practical significance.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In his great work on chivalry Gautier brings forward much + evidence to show that the feudal spirit, like the military spirit + always and everywhere, on the whole involved at bottom a disdain + for women, even though it occasionally idealized them. "Go into + your painted and gilded rooms," we read in <i>Renaus de Montauban</i>, + "sit in the shade, make yourselves comfortable, drink, eat, work + tapestry, dye silk, but remember that you must not occupy + yourselves with our affairs. Our business is to strike with the + steel sword. Silence!" And if the woman insists she is struck on + the face till the blood comes. The husband had a legal right to + beat his wife, not only for adultery, but even for contradicting + him. Women were not, however, entirely without power, and in a + thirteenth century collection of <i>Coutumes</i>, it is set down that + a husband must only beat his wife reasonably, <i>resnablement</i>. (As + regards the husband's right to chastise his wife, see also + Hobhouse, <i>Morals in Evolution</i>, vol. i, p. 234. In England it + was not until the reign of Charles II, from which so many modern + movements date, that the husband was deprived of this legal + right.)</p> + +<p> In the eyes of a feudal knight, it may be added, the beauty of a + horse competed, often successfully, with the beauty of a woman. + In <i>Girbers de Metz</i>, two knights, Garin and his cousin Girbert, + ride by a window at which sits a beautiful girl with the face of + a rose and the white flesh of a lily. "Look, cousin Girbert, + look! By Saint Mary, a beautiful woman!" "Ah," Girbert replies, + "a beautiful beast is my horse!" "I have never seen anything so + charming as that young girl with her fresh color and her dark + eyes," says Garin. "I know no steed to compare with mine," + retorts Girbert. When the men were thus absorbed in the things + that pertain to war, it is not surprising that amorous advances + were left to young girls to make. "In all the <i>chansons de + geste</i>," Gautier remarks, "it is the young girls who make the + advances, often with effrontery," though, he adds, wives are + represented as more virtuous (L. Gautier, <i>La Chevalerie</i>, pp. + 236-8, 348-50).</p> + +<p> In England Pollock and Maitland (<i>History of English Law</i>, vol. + ii, p. 437) do not believe that a life-long tutela of women ever + existed as among other Teutonic peoples. "From the Conquest + onwards," Hobhouse states (<i>op. cit.</i>, vol. i, p. 224), "the + unmarried English woman, on attaining <a name='6_Page_402'></a>her majority, becomes + fully equipped with all legal and civil rights, as much a legal + personality as the Babylonian woman had been three thousand years + before." But the developed English law more than made up for any + privileges thus accorded to the unmarried by the inconsistent + manner in which it swathed up the wife in endless folds of + irresponsibility, except when she committed the supreme offence + of injuring her lord and master. The English wife, as Hobhouse + continues (<i>loc. cit.</i>) was, if not her husband's slave, at any + rate his liege subject; if she killed him it was "petty treason," + the revolt of a subject against a sovereign in a miniature + kingdom, and a more serious offence than murder. Murder she could + not commit in his presence, for her personality was merged in + him; he was responsible for most of her crimes and offences (it + was that fact which gave him the right to chastise her), and he + could not even enter into a contract with her, for that would be + entering into a contract with himself. "The very being and legal + existence of a woman is suspended during marriage," said + Blackstone, "or at least is incorporated and consolidated into + that of her husband, under whose wing, protection and cover she + performs everything. So great a favorite," he added, "is the + female sex of the laws of England." "The strength of woman," says + Hobhouse, interpreting the sense of the English law, "was her + weakness. She conquered by yielding. Her gentleness had to be + guarded from the turmoil of the world, her fragrance to be kept + sweet and fresh, away from the dust and the smoke of battle. + Hence her need of a champion and guardian."</p> + +<p> In France the wife of the mediæval and Renaissance periods + occupied much the same position in her husband's house. He was + her absolute master and lord, the head and soul of "the feminine + and feeble creature" who owed to him "perfect love and + obedience." She was his chief servant, the eldest of his + children, his wife and subject; she signed herself "your humble + obedient daughter and friend," when she wrote to him. The + historian, De Maulde la Clavière, who has brought together + evidence on this point in his <i>Femmes de la Renaissance</i>, remarks + that even though the husband enjoyed this lofty and superior + position in marriage, it was still generally he, and not the + wife, who complained of the hardships of marriage.</p></div> + +<p>Law and custom assumed that a woman should be more or less under the +protection of a man, and even the ideals of fine womanhood which arose in +this society, during feudal and later times, were necessarily tinged by +the same conception. It involved the inequality of women as compared with +men, but under the social conditions of a feudal society such inequality +was to woman's advantage. Masculine force was the determining <a name='6_Page_403'></a>factor in +life and it was necessary that every woman should have a portion of this +force on her side. This sound and reasonable idea naturally tended to +persist even after the growth of civilization rendered force a much less +decisive factor in social life. In England in Queen Elizabeth's time no +woman must be masterless, although the feminine subjects of Queen +Elizabeth had in their sovereign the object lesson of a woman who could +play a very brilliant and effective part in life and yet remain absolutely +masterless. Still later, in the eighteenth century, even so fine a +moralist as Shaftesbury, in his <i>Characteristics</i>, refers to lovers of +married women as invaders of property. If such conceptions still ruled +even in the best minds, it is not surprising that in the same century, +even in the following century, they were carried out into practice by less +educated people who frankly bought and sold women.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Schrader, in his <i>Reallexicon</i> (art. "Brautkauf"), points out + that, originally, the purchase of a wife was the purchase of her + person, and not merely of the right of protecting her. The + original conception probably persisted long in Great Britain on + account of its remoteness from the centres of civilization. In + the eleventh century Gregory VII desired Lanfranc to stop the + sale of wives in Scotland and elsewhere in the island of the + English (Pike, <i>History of Crime in England</i>, vol. i, p. 99). The + practice never quite died out, however, in remote country + districts.</p> + +<p> Such transactions have taken place even in London. Thus in the + <i>Annual Register</i> for 1767 (p. 99) we read: "About three weeks + ago a bricklayer's laborer at Marylebone sold a woman, whom he + had cohabited with for several years, to a fellow-workman for a + quarter guinea and a gallon of beer. The workman went off with + the purchase, and she has since had the good fortune to have a + legacy of £200, and some plate, left her by a deceased uncle in + Devonshire. The parties were married last Friday."</p> + +<p> The Rev. J. Edward Vaux (<i>Church Folk-lore</i>, second edition, p. + 146) narrates two authentic cases in which women had been bought + by their husbands in open market in the nineteenth century. In + one case the wife, with her own full consent, was brought to + market with a halter round her neck, sold for half a crown, and + led to her new home, twelve miles off by the new husband who had + purchased her; in the other case a publican bought another man's + wife for a two-gallon jar of gin.</p> + +<p> It is the same conception of woman as property which, even to the + present, has caused the retention in many legal codes of clauses + rendering <a name='6_Page_404'></a>a man liable to pay pecuniary damages to a woman, + previously a virgin, whom he has intercourse with and + subsequently forsakes (Natalie Fuchs, "Die Jungfernschaft im + Recht und Sitte," <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Feb., 1908). The woman is + "dishonored" by sexual intercourse, depreciated in her market + value, exactly as a new garment becomes "second-hand," even if it + has but once been worn. A man, on the other hand, would disdain + the idea that his personal value could be diminished by any + number of acts of sexual intercourse.</p> + +<p> This fact has even led some to advocate the "abolition of + physical virginity." Thus the German authoress of <i>Una + Poenitentium</i> (1907), considering that the protection of a woman + is by no means so well secured by a little piece of membrane as + by the presence of a true and watchful soul inside, advocates the + operation of removal of the hymen in childhood. It is undoubtedly + true that the undue importance attached to the hymen has led to a + false conception of feminine "honor," and to an unwholesome + conception of feminine purity.</p></div> + +<p>Custom and law are slowly changing in harmony with changed social +conditions which no longer demand the subjection of women either in their +own interests or in the interests of the community. Concomitantly with +these changes a different ideal of womanly personality is developing. It +is true that the ancient ideal of the lordship of the husband over the +wife is still more or less consciously affirmed around us. The husband +frequently dictates to the wife what avocations she may not pursue, what +places she may not visit, what people she may not know, what books she may +not read. He assumes to control her, even in personal matters having no +direct concern with himself, by virtue of the old masculine prerogative of +force which placed a woman under the hand, as the ancient patriarchal +legists termed it, of a man. It is, however, becoming more and more widely +recognized that such a part is not suited to the modern man. The modern +man, as Rosa Mayreder has pointed out in a thoughtful essay,<a name='6_FNanchor_292'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_292'><sup>[292]</sup></a> is no +longer equipped to play this domineering part in relation to his wife. The +"noble savage," leading a wild life on mountain and in forest, hunting +dangerous beasts and scalping enemies when necessary, may occasionally +bring his club gently and effectively on to the head of his wife, even, it +may be, with <a name='6_Page_405'></a>grateful appreciation on her part.<a name='6_FNanchor_293'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_293'><sup>[293]</sup></a> But the modern man, +who for the most part spends his days tamely at a desk, who has been +trained to endure silently the insults and humiliations which superior +officials or patronizing clients may inflict upon him, this typical modern +man is no longer able to assume effectually the part of the "noble savage" +when he returns to his home. He is indeed so unfitted for the part that +his wife resents his attempts to play it. He is gradually recognizing +this, even apart from any consciousness of the general trend of +civilization. The modern man of ideas recognizes that, as a matter of +principle, his wife is entitled to equality with himself; the modern man +of the world feels that it would be both ridiculous and inconvenient not +to accord his wife much the same kind of freedom which he himself +possesses. And, moreover, while the modern man has to some extent acquired +feminine qualities, the modern woman has to a corresponding extent +acquired masculine qualities.</p> + +<p>Brief and summary as the preceding discussion has necessarily been, it +will have served to bring us face to face with the central fact in the +sexual morality which the growth of civilization has at the present day +rendered inevitable: personal responsibility. "The responsible human +being, man or woman, is the centre of modern ethics as of modern law;" +that is the conclusion reached by Hobhouse in his discussion of the +evolution of human morality.<a name='6_FNanchor_294'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_294'><sup>[294]</sup></a> The movement which is taking place among +us to liberate sexual relationships from an excessive bondage to fixed and +arbitrary regulations would have been impossible and mischievous but for +the concomitant growth of a sense of personal responsibility in the +members of the community. It could not indeed have subsisted for a single +year without degenerating into license and disorder. Freedom in sexual +relations involves <a name='6_Page_406'></a>mutual trust and that can only rest on a basis of +personal responsibility. Where there can be no reliance on personal +responsibility there can be no freedom. In most fields of moral action +this sense of personal responsibility is acquired at a fairly early stage +of social progress. Sexual morality is the last field of morality to be +brought within the sphere of personal responsibility. The community +imposes the most varied, complicated, and artificial codes of sexual +morality on its members, especially its feminine members, and, naturally +enough, it is always very suspicious of their ability to observe these +codes, and is careful to allow them, so far as possible, no personal +responsibility in the matter. But a training in restraint, when carried +through a long series of generations, is the best preparation for freedom. +The law laid on the earlier generations, as old theology stated the +matter, has been the schoolmaster to bring the later generations to +Christ; or, as new science expresses exactly the same idea, the later +generations have become immunized and have finally acquired a certain +degree of protection against the virus which would have destroyed the +earlier generations.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The process by which a people acquires the sense of personal + responsibility is slow, and perhaps it cannot be adequately + acquired at all by races lacking a high grade of nervous + organization. This is especially the case as regards sexual + morality, and has often been illustrated on the contact of a + higher with a lower civilization. It has constantly happened that + missionaries—entirely against their own wishes, it need not be + said—by overthrowing the strict moral system they have found + established, and by substituting the freedom of European customs + among people entirely unprepared for such freedom, have exerted + the most disastrous effects on morality. This has been the case + among the formerly well-organized and highly moral Baganda of + Central Africa, as recorded in an official report by Colonel + Lambkin (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, Oct. 3, 1908).</p> + +<p> As regards Polynesia, also, R. L. Stevenson, in his interesting + book, <i>In the South Seas</i> (Ch. V), pointed out that, while before + the coming of the whites the Polynesians were, on the whole, + chaste, and the young carefully watched, now it is far otherwise.</p> + +<p> Even in Fiji, where, according to Lord Stanmore—who was High + Commissioner of the Pacific, and an independent + critic—missionary effort has been "wonderfully successful," + where all own at least nominal allegiance to Christianity, which + has much modified life and character, <a name='6_Page_407'></a>yet chastity has suffered. + This was shown by a Royal Commission on the condition of the + native races in Fiji. Mr. Fitchett, commenting on this report + (Australasian <i>Review of Reviews</i>, Oct., 1897) remarks: "Not a + few witnesses examined by the commission declare that the moral + advance in Fiji is of a curiously patchy type. The abolition of + polygamy, for example, they say, has not told at every point in + favor of women. The woman is the toiler in Fiji; and when the + support of the husband was distributed over four wives, the + burden on each wife was less than it is now, when it has to be + carried by one. In heathen times female chastity was guarded by + the club; a faithless wife, an unmarried mother, was summarily + put to death. Christianity has abolished club-law, and purely + moral restraints, or the terror of the penalties of the next + world, do not, to the limited imagination of the Fijian, quite + take its place. So the standard of Fijian chastity is + distressingly low."</p> + +<p> It must always be remembered that when the highly organized + primitive system of mixed spiritual and physical restraints is + removed, chastity becomes more delicately and unstably poised. + The controlling power of personal responsibility, valuable and + essential as it is, cannot permanently and unremittingly restrain + the volcanic forces of the passion of love even in high + civilizations. "No perfection of moral constitution in a woman," + Hinlon has well said, "no power of will, no wish and resolution + to be 'good,' no force of religion or control of custom, can + secure what is called the virtue of woman. The emotion of + absolute devotion with which some man may inspire her will sweep + them all away. Society, in choosing to erect itself on that + basis, chooses inevitable disorder, and so long as it continues + to choose it will continue to have that result."</p></div> + +<p>It is necessary to insist for a while on this personal responsibility in +matters of sexual morality, in the form in which it is making itself felt +among us, and to search out its implications. The most important of these +is undoubtedly economic independence. That is indeed so important that +moral responsibility in any fine sense can scarcely be said to have any +existence in its absence. Moral responsibility and economic independence +are indeed really identical; they are but two sides of the same social +fact. The responsible person is the person who is able to answer for his +actions and, if need be, to pay for them. The economically dependent +person can accept a criminal responsibility; he can, with an empty purse, +go to prison or to death. But in the ordinary sphere of everyday morality +that large penalty is not required of him; if he goes against the wishes +of his family or <a name='6_Page_408'></a>his friends or his parish, they may turn their backs on +him but they cannot usually demand against him the last penalties of the +law. He can exert his own personal responsibility, he can freely choose to +go his own way and to maintain himself in it before his fellowmen on one +condition, that he is able to pay for it. His personal responsibility has +little or no meaning except in so far as it is also economic independence.</p> + +<p>In civilized societies as they attain maturity, the women tend to acquire +a greater and greater degree alike of moral responsibility and economic +independence. Any freedom and seeming equality of women, even when it +actually assumes the air of superiority, which is not so based, is unreal. +It is only on sufferance; it is the freedom accorded to the child, because +it asks for it so prettily or may scream if it is refused. This is merely +parasitism.<a name='6_FNanchor_295'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_295'><sup>[295]</sup></a> The basis of economic independence ensures a more real +freedom. Even in societies which by law and custom hold women in strict +subordination, the woman who happens to be placed in possession of +property enjoys a high degree alike of independence and of +responsibility.<a name='6_FNanchor_296'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_296'><sup>[296]</sup></a> The growth of a high civilization seems indeed to be +so closely identified with the economic freedom and independence of women +that it is difficult to say which is cause and which effect. Herodotus, in +his fascinating account of Egypt, a land which he regarded as admirable +beyond all other lands, noted with surprise that, totally unlike the +fashion of Greece, women left the men at home to the management of the +loom and went to market to transact the <a name='6_Page_409'></a>business of commerce.<a name='6_FNanchor_297'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_297'><sup>[297]</sup></a> It is +the economic factor in social life which secures the moral responsibility +of women and which chiefly determines the position of the wife in relation +to her husband.<a name='6_FNanchor_298'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_298'><sup>[298]</sup></a> In this respect in its late stages civilization +returns to the same point it had occupied at the beginning, when, as has +already been noted, we find greater equality with men and at the same time +greater economic independence.<a name='6_FNanchor_299'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_299'><sup>[299]</sup></a></p> + +<p>In all the leading modern civilized countries, for a century past, custom +and law have combined to give an ever greater economic independence to +women. In some respects England took the lead by inaugurating the great +industrial movement which slowly swept women into its ranks,<a name='6_FNanchor_300'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_300'><sup>[300]</sup></a> and made +inevitable the legal changes which, by 1882, insured to a married woman +the possession of her own earnings. The same movement, with its same +consequences, is going on elsewhere. In the United States, just as in +England, there is a vast army of five million women, rapidly increasing, +who earn their own living, and their position in relation to men workers +is even better than in England. In France from twenty-five to seventy-five +per cent. of the workers in most of the chief industries—the liberal +professions, <a name='6_Page_410'></a>commerce, agriculture, factory industries—are women, and in +some of the very largest, such as home industries and textile industries, +more women are employed than men. In Japan, it is said, three-fifths of +the factory workers are women, and all the textile industries are in the +hands of women.<a name='6_FNanchor_301'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_301'><sup>[301]</sup></a> This movement is the outward expression of the modern +conception of personal rights, personal moral worth, and personal +responsibility, which, as Hobhouse has remarked, has compelled women to +take their lives into their own hands, and has at the same time rendered +the ancient marriage laws an anachronism, and the ancient ideals of +feminine innocence shrouded from the world a mere piece of false +sentiment.<a name='6_FNanchor_302'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_302'><sup>[302]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>There can be no doubt that the entrance of women into the field + of industrial work, in rivalry with men and under somewhat the + same conditions as men, raises serious questions of another + order. The general tendency of civilization towards the economic + independence and the moral responsibility of women is + unquestionable. But it is by no means absolutely clear that it is + best for women, and, therefore, for the community, that women + should exercise all the ordinary avocations and professions of + men on the same level as men. Not only have the conditions of the + avocations and professions developed in accordance with the + special aptitudes of men, but the fact that the sexual processes + by which the race is propagated demand an incomparably greater + expenditure of time and energy on the part of women than of men, + precludes women in the mass from devoting themselves so + exclusively as men to industrial work. For some biologists, + indeed, it seems clear that outside the home and the school women + should not work at all. "Any nation that works its women is + damned," says Woods Hutchinson (<i>The Gospel According to Darwin</i>, + p. 199). That view is extreme. Yet from the economic side, also, + Hobson, in summing up this question, regards the tendency of + machine-industry to drive women away from the home as "a tendency + antagonistic to civilization." The neglect of the home, he + states, is, "on the whole, the worst injury modern industry has + inflicted on our lives, and it is difficult to see how it can be + compensated by any increase of material products. Factory life + for women, save in extremely rare cases, saps the physical and + moral health of the family. The exigencies of factory life are + inconsistent with the position of a good mother, a good <a name='6_Page_411'></a>wife, or + the maker of a home. Save in extreme circumstances, no increase + of the family wage can balance these losses, whose values stand + upon a higher qualitative level" (J. A. Hobson, <i>Evolution of + Modern Capitalism</i>, Ch. XII; <i>cf.</i> what has been said in Ch. I of + the present volume). It is now beginning to be recognized that + the early pioneers of the "woman's movement" in working to remove + the "subjection of woman" were still dominated by the old ideals + of that subjection, according to which the masculine is in all + main respects the superior sex. Whatever was good for man, they + thought, must be equally good for woman. That has been the source + of all that was unbalanced and unstable, sometimes both a little + pathetic and a little absurd, in the old "woman's movement." + There was a failure to perceive that, first of all, women must + claim their right to their own womanhood as mothers of the race, + and thereby the supreme law-givers in the sphere of sex and the + large part of life dependent on sex. This special position of + woman seems likely to require a readjustment of economic + conditions to their needs, though it is not likely that such + readjustment would be permitted to affect their independence or + their responsibility. We have had, as Madame Juliette Adam has + put it, the rights of men sacrificing women, followed by the + rights of women sacrificing the child; that must be followed by + the rights of the child reconstituting the family. It has already + been necessary to touch on this point in the first chapter of + this volume, and it will again be necessary in the last chapter.</p></div> + +<p>The question as to the method by which the economic independence of women +will be completely insured, and the part which the community may be +expected to take in insuring it, on the ground of woman's special +child-bearing functions, is from the present point of view subsidiary. +There can be no doubt, however, as to the reality of the movement in that +direction, whatever doubt there may be as to the final adjustment of the +details. It is only necessary in this place to touch on some of the +general and more obvious respects in which the growth of woman's +responsibility is affecting sexual morality.</p> + +<p>The first and most obvious way in which the sense of moral responsibility +works is in an insistence on reality in the relationships of sex. Moral +irresponsibility has too often combined with economic dependence to induce +a woman to treat the sexual event in her life which is biologically of +most fateful gravity as a merely gay and trivial event, at the most an +event which has given her a triumph over her rivals and over the <a name='6_Page_412'></a>superior +male, who, on his part, willingly condescends, for the moment, to assume +the part of the vanquished. "Gallantry to the ladies," we are told of the +hero of the greatest and most typical of English novels, "was among his +principles of honor, and he held it as much incumbent on him to accept a +challenge to love as if it had been a challenge to fight;" he heroically +goes home for the night with a lady of title he meets at a masquerade, +though at the time very much in love with the girl whom he eventually +marries.<a name='6_FNanchor_303'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_303'><sup>[303]</sup></a> The woman whose power lies only in her charms, and who is +free to allow the burden of responsibility to fall on a man's +shoulder,<a name='6_FNanchor_304'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_304'><sup>[304]</sup></a> could lightly play the seducing part, and thereby exert +independence and authority in the only shapes open to her. The man on his +part, introducing the misplaced idea of "honor" into the field from which +the natural idea of responsibility has been banished, is prepared to +descend at the lady's bidding into the arena, according to the old legend, +and rescue the glove, even though he afterwards flings it contemptuously +in her face. The ancient conception of gallantry, which Tom Jones so well +embodies, is the direct outcome of a system involving the moral +irresponsibility and economic dependence of women, and is as opposed to +the conceptions, prevailing in the earlier and later civilized stages, of +approximate sexual equality as it is to the biological traditions of +natural courtship in the world generally.</p> + +<p>In controlling her own sexual life, and in realizing that her +responsibility for such control can no longer be shifted on to the +shoulders of the other sex, women will also indirectly affect the sexual +lives of men, much as men already affect the sexual lives of women. In +what ways that influence will in the main be exerted it is still premature +to say. According to some, just as formerly men bought their wives and +demanded prenuptial virginity in the article thus purchased, so nowadays, +among the better classes, women are able to buy their husbands, <a name='6_Page_413'></a>and in +their turn are disposed to demand continence.<a name='6_FNanchor_305'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_305'><sup>[305]</sup></a> That, however, is too +simple-minded a way of viewing the question. It is enough to refer to the +fact that women are not attracted to virginal innocence in men and that +they frequently have good ground for viewing such innocence with +suspicion.<a name='6_FNanchor_306'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_306'><sup>[306]</sup></a> Yet it may well be believed that women will more and more +prefer to exert a certain discrimination in the approval of their +husbands' past lives. However instinctively a woman may desire that her +husband shall be initiated in the art of making love to her, she may often +well doubt whether the finest initiation is to be secured from the average +prostitute. Prostitution, as we have seen, is ultimately as incompatible +with complete sexual responsibility as is the patriarchal marriage system +with which it has been so closely associated. It is an arrangement mainly +determined by the demands of men, to whatever extent it may have +incidentally subserved various needs of women. Men arranged that one group +of women should be set apart to minister exclusively to their sexual +necessities, while another group should be brought up in asceticism as +candidates for the privilege of ministering to their household and family +necessities. That this has been in many respects a most excellent +arrangement is sufficiently proved by the fact that it has nourished for +so long a period, notwithstanding the influences that are antagonistic to +it. But it is obviously only possible during a certain stage of +civilization and in association with a certain social organization. It is +not completely congruous with a democratic stage of civilization involving +the economic independence and the sexual responsibility of both sexes +alike in all social classes. It is possible that women may begin to +realize this fact earlier than men.</p> + +<p>It is also believed by many that women will realize that a high degree of +moral responsibility is not easily compatible with the practice of +dissimulation and that economic independence will deprive deceit—which is +always the resort of the weak—of <a name='6_Page_414'></a>whatever moral justification it may +possess. Here, however, it is necessary to speak with caution or we may be +unjust to women. It must be remarked that in the sphere of sex men also +are often the weak, and are therefore apt to resort to the refuge of the +weak. With the recognition of that fact we may also recognize that +deception in women has been the cause of much of the age-long blunders of +the masculine mind in the contemplation of feminine ways. Men have +constantly committed the double error of overlooking the dissimulation of +women and of over-estimating it. This fact has always served to render +more difficult still the inevitably difficult course of women through the +devious path of sexual behavior. Pepys, who represents so vividly and so +frankly the vices and virtues of the ordinary masculine mind, tells how +one day when he called to see Mrs. Martin her sister Doll went out for a +bottle of wine and came back indignant because a Dutchman had pulled her +into a stable and tumbled and tossed her. Pepys having been himself often +permitted to take liberties with her, it seemed to him that her +indignation with the Dutchman was "the best instance of woman's falseness +in the world."<a name='6_FNanchor_307'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_307'><sup>[307]</sup></a> He assumes without question that a woman who has +accorded the privilege of familiarity to a man she knows and, one hopes, +respects, would be prepared to accept complacently the brutal attentions +of the first drunken stranger she meets in the street.</p> + +<p>It was the assumption of woman's falseness which led the ultra-masculine +Pepys into a sufficiently absurd error. At this point, indeed, we +encounter what has seemed to some a serious obstacle to the full moral +responsibility of women. Dissimulation, Lombroso and Ferrero argue, is in +woman "almost physiological," and they give various grounds for this +conclusion.<a name='6_FNanchor_308'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_308'><sup>[308]</sup></a> The theologians, on their side, have reached a similar +conclusion. "A confessor must not immediately believe a woman's words," +says Father Gury, "for women are habitually inclined to lie."<a name='6_FNanchor_309'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_309'><sup>[309]</sup></a><a name='6_Page_415'></a> This +tendency, which seems to be commonly believed to affect women as a sex, +however free from it a vast number of individual women are, may be said, +and with truth, to be largely the result of the subjection of women and +therefore likely to disappear as that subjection disappears. In so far, +however, as it is "almost physiological," and based on radical feminine +characters, such as modesty, affectability, and sympathy, which have an +organic basis in the feminine constitution and can therefore never +altogether be changed, feminine dissimulation seems scarcely likely to +disappear. The utmost that can be expected is that it should be held in +check by the developed sense of moral responsibility, and, being reduced +to its simply natural proportions, become recognizably intelligible.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is unnecessary to remark that there can be no question here as + to any inherent moral superiority of one sex over the other. The + answer to that question was well stated many years ago by one of + the most subtle moralists of love. "Taken altogether," concluded + Sénancour (<i>De l'Amour</i>, vol. ii, p. 85), "we have no reason to + assert the moral superiority of either sex. Both sexes, with + their errors and their good intentions, very equally fulfil the + ends of nature. We may well believe that in either of the two + divisions of the human species the sum of evil and that of good + are about equal. If, for instance, as regards love, we oppose the + visibly licentious conduct of men to the apparent reserve of + women, it would be a vain valuation, for the number of faults + committed by women with men is necessarily the same as that of + men with women. There exist among us fewer scrupulous men than + perfectly honest women, but it is easy to see how the balance is + restored. If this question of the moral preëminence of one sex + over the other were not insoluble it would still remain very + complicated with reference to the whole of the species, or even + the whole of a nation, and any dispute here seems idle."</p> + +<p> This conclusion is in accordance with the general compensatory + and complementary relationship of women to men (see, <i>e.g.</i>, + Havelock Ellis, <i>Man and Woman</i>, fourth edition, especially pp. + 448 <i>et seq.</i>).</p> + +<p> In a recent symposium on the question whether women are morally + inferior to men, with special reference to aptitude for loyalty + (<i>La Revue</i>, Jan. 1, 1909), to which various distinguished French + men and women contributed their opinions, some declared that + women are usually superior; others regarded it as a question of + difference rather than of superiority or inferiority; all were + agreed that when they enjoy the same independence as men, women + are quite as loyal as men.</p></div><a name='6_Page_416'></a> + +<p>It is undoubtedly true that—partly as a result of ancient traditions and +education, partly of genuine feminine characteristics—many women are +diffident as to their right to moral responsibility and unwilling to +assume it. And an attempt is made to justify their attitude by asserting +that woman's part in life is naturally that of self-sacrifice, or, to put +the statement in a somewhat more technical form, that women are naturally +masochistic; and that there is, as Krafft-Ebing argues, a natural "sexual +subjection" of woman. It is by no means clear that this statement is +absolutely true, and if it were true it would not serve to abolish the +moral responsibility of women.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Bloch (<i>Beiträge zur Ætiologie der Psychopathia Sexualis</i>, Part + II, p. 178), in agreement with Eulenburg, energetically denies + that there is any such natural "sexual subjection" of women, + regarding it as artificially produced, the result of the socially + inferior position of women, and arguing that such subjection is + in much higher degree a physiological characteristic of men than + of women. (It has been necessary to discuss this question in + dealing with "Love and Pain" in the third volume of these + <i>Studies</i>.) It seems certainly clear that the notion that women + are especially prone to self-sacrifice has little biological + validity. Self-sacrifice by compulsion, whether physical or moral + compulsion, is not worthy of the name; when it is deliberate it + is simply the sacrifice of a lesser good for the sake of a + greater good. Doubtless a man who eats a good dinner may be said + to "sacrifice" his hunger. Even within the sphere of traditional + morality a woman who sacrifices her "honor" for the sake of her + love to a man has, by her "sacrifice," gained something that she + values more. "What a triumph it is to a woman," a woman has said, + "to give pleasure to a man she loves!" And in a morality on a + sound biological basis no "sacrifice" is here called for. It may + rather be said that the biological laws of courtship + fundamentally demand self-sacrifice of the male rather than of + the female. Thus the lioness, according to Gérard the + lion-hunter, gives herself to the most vigorous of her lion + wooers; she encourages them to fight among themselves for + superiority, lying on her belly to gaze at the combat and lashing + her tail with delight. Every female is wooed by many males, but + she only accepts one; it is not the female who is called upon for + erotic self-sacrifice, but the male. That is indeed part of the + divine compensation of Nature, for since the heavier part of the + burden of sex rests on the female, it is fitting that she should + be less called upon for renunciation.</p></div><a name='6_Page_417'></a> + +<p>It thus seems probable that the increase of moral responsibility may tend +to make a woman's conduct more intelligible to others;<a name='6_FNanchor_310'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_310'><sup>[310]</sup></a> it will in any +case certainly tend to make it less the concern of others. This is +emphatically the case as regards the relations of sex. In the past men +have been invited to excel in many forms of virtue; only one virtue has +been open to women. That is no longer possible. To place upon a woman the +main responsibility for her own sexual conduct is to deprive that conduct +of its conspicuously public character as a virtue or a vice. Sexual union, +for a woman as much as for a man, is a physiological fact; it may also be +a spiritual fact; but it is not a social act. It is, on the contrary, an +act which, beyond all other acts, demands retirement and mystery for its +accomplishment. That indeed is a general human, almost zoölogical, fact. +Moreover, this demand of mystery is more especially made by woman in +virtue of her greater modesty which, we have found reason to believe, has +a biological basis. It is not until a child is born or conceived that the +community has any right to interest itself in the sexual acts of its +members. The sexual act is of no more concern to the community than any +other private physiological act. It is an impertinence, if not an outrage, +to seek to inquire into it. But the birth of a child is a social act. Not +what goes into the womb but what comes out of it concerns society. The +community is invited to receive a new citizen. It is entitled to demand +that that citizen shall be worthy of a place in its midst and that he +shall be properly introduced by a responsible father and a responsible +mother. The whole of sexual morality, as Ellen Key has said, revolves +round the child.</p> + +<p>At this final point in our discussion of sexual morality we may perhaps be +able to realize the immensity of the change which has been involved by the +development in women of moral responsibility. So long as responsibility +was denied to women, so long as a father or a husband, backed up by the +community, held himself <a name='6_Page_418'></a>responsible for a woman's sexual behavior, for +her "virtue," it was necessary that the whole of sexual morality should +revolve around the entrance to the vagina. It became absolutely essential +to the maintenance of morality that all eyes in the community should be +constantly directed on to that point, and the whole marriage law had to be +adjusted accordingly. That is no longer possible. When a woman assumes her +own moral responsibility, in sexual as in other matters, it becomes not +only intolerable but meaningless for the community to pry into her most +intimate physiological or spiritual acts. She is herself directly +responsible to society as soon as she performs a social act, and not +before.</p> + +<p>In relation to the fact of maternity the realization of all that is +involved in the new moral responsibility of women is especially +significant. Under a system of morality by which a man is left free to +accept the responsibility for his sexual acts while a woman is not equally +free to do the like, a premium is placed on sexual acts which have no end +in procreation, and a penalty is placed on the acts which lead to +procreation. The reason is that it is the former class of acts in which +men find chief gratification; it is the latter class in which women find +chief gratification. For the tragic part of the old sexual morality in its +bearing on women was that while it made men alone morally responsible for +sexual acts in which both a man and a woman took part, women were rendered +both socially and legally incapable of availing themselves of the fact of +masculine responsibility unless they had fulfilled conditions which men +had laid down for them, and yet refrained from imposing upon themselves. +The act of sexual intercourse, being the sexual act in which men found +chief pleasure, was under all circumstances an act of little social +gravity; the act of bringing a child into the world, which is for women +the most massively gratifying of all sexual acts, was counted a crime +unless the mother had before fulfilled the conditions demanded by man. +That was perhaps the most unfortunate and certainly the most unnatural of +the results of the patriarchal regulation of society. It has never existed +in any great State where women have possessed some degree of regulative +power.</p><a name='6_Page_419'></a> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It has, of course, been said by abstract theorists that women + have the matter in their own hands. They must never love a man + until they have safely locked him up in the legal bonds of + matrimony. Such an argument is absolutely futile, for it ignores + the fact that, while love and even monogamy are natural, legal + marriage is merely an external form, with a very feeble power of + subjugating natural impulses, except when those impulses are + weak, and no power at all of subjugating them permanently. + Civilization involves the growth of foresight, and of + self-control in both sexes; but it is foolish to attempt to place + on these fine and ultimate outgrowths of civilization a strain + which they could never bear. How foolish it is has been shown, + once and for all, by Lea in his admirable <i>History of Sacerdotal + Celibacy</i>.</p> + +<p> Moreover, when we compare the respective aptitudes of men and + women in this particular region, it must be remembered that men + possess a greater power of forethought and self-control than + women, notwithstanding the modesty and reserve of women. The + sexual sphere is immensely larger in women, so that when its + activity is once aroused it is much more difficult to master or + control. (The reasons were set out in detail in the discussion of + "The Sexual Impulse in Women" in volume iii of these <i>Studies</i>.) + It is, therefore, unfair to women, and unduly favors men, when + too heavy a premium is placed on forethought and self-restraint + in sexual matters. Since women play the predominant part in the + sexual field their natural demands, rather than those of men, + must furnish the standard.</p></div> + +<p>With the realization of the moral responsibility of women the natural +relations of life spring back to their due biological adjustment. +Motherhood is restored to its natural sacredness. It becomes the concern +of the woman herself, and not of society nor of any individual, to +determine the conditions under which the child shall be conceived. Society +is entitled to require that the father shall in every case acknowledge the +fact of his paternity, but it must leave the chief responsibility for all +the circumstances of child-production to the mother. That is the point of +view which is now gaining ground in all civilized lands both in theory and +in practice.<a name='6_FNanchor_311'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_311'><sup>[311]</sup></a></p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='6_Footnote_257'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_257'>[257]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>E.g.</i>, E. Belfort Bax, <i>Outspoken Essays</i>, p. 6.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_258'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_258'>[258]</a><div class='note'><p> Such reasons are connected with communal welfare. "All +immoral acts result in communal unhappiness, all moral acts in communal +happiness," as Prof. A. Mathews remarks, "Science and Morality," <i>Popular +Science Monthly</i>, March, 1909.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_259'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_259'>[259]</a><div class='note'><p> See Westermarck, <i>Origin and Development of the Moral +Ideas</i>, vol. i, pp. 386-390, 522.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_260'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_260'>[260]</a><div class='note'><p> Westermarck, <i>Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas</i>, +pp. 9, 159; also the whole of Ch. VII. Actions that are in accordance with +custom call forth public approval, actions that are opposed to custom call +forth public resentment, and Westermarck powerfully argues that such +approval and such resentment are the foundation of moral judgments.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_261'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_261'>[261]</a><div class='note'><p> This is well recognized by legal writers (<i>e.g.</i>, E. A. +Schroeder, <i>Das Recht in der Geschlechtlichen Ordnung</i>, p. 5).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_262'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_262'>[262]</a><div class='note'><p> W. G. Sumner (<i>Folkways</i>, p. 418) even considers it +desirable to change the form of the word in order to emphasize the real +and fundamental meaning of morals, and proposes the word <i>mores</i> to +indicate "popular usages and traditions conducive to societal reform." +"'Immoral,'" he points out, "never means anything but contrary to the +<i>mores</i> of the time and place." There is, however, no need whatever to +abolish or to supplement the good old ancient word "morality," so long as +we clearly realize that, on the practical side, it means essentially +custom.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_263'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_263'>[263]</a><div class='note'><p> Westermarck, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. i, p. 19.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_264'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_264'>[264]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, "Exogamy and the Mating of Cousins," in +<i>Essays Presented to E. B. Tylor</i>, 1907, p. 53. "In many departments of +primitive life we find a naïve desire to, as it were, assist Nature, to +affirm what is normal, and later to confirm it by the categorical +imperative of custom and law. This tendency still flourishes in our +civilized communities, and, as the worship of the normal, is often a +deadly foe to the abnormal and eccentric, and too often paralyzes +originality."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_265'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_265'>[265]</a><div class='note'><p> The spirit of Christianity, as illustrated by Paulinus, in +his <i>Epistle XXV</i>, was from the Roman point of view, as Dill remarks +(<i>Roman Society</i>, p. 11), "a renunciation, not only of citizenship, but of +all the hard-won fruits of civilization and social life."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_266'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_266'>[266]</a><div class='note'><p> It thus happens that, as Lecky said in his <i>History of +European Morals</i>, "of all the departments of ethics the questions +concerning the relations of the sexes and the proper position of woman are +those upon the future of which there rests the greatest uncertainty." Some +progress has perhaps been made since these words were written, but they +still hold true for the majority of people.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_267'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_267'>[267]</a><div class='note'><p> Concerning economic marriage as a vestigial survival, see, +<i>e.g.</i>, Bloch, <i>The Sexual Life of Our Time</i>, p. 212.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_268'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_268'>[268]</a><div class='note'><p> Sénancour, <i>De l'Amour</i>, vol. ii, p. 233. The author of +<i>The Question of English Divorce</i> attributes the absence of any widespread +feeling against sexual license to the absurd rigidity of the law.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_269'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_269'>[269]</a><div class='note'><p> Bruno Meyer, "Etwas von Positiver Sexualreform," +<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Nov., 1908.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_270'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_270'>[270]</a><div class='note'><p> Elsie Clews Parsons, <i>The Family</i>, p. 351. Dr. Parsons +rightly thinks such unions a social evil when they check the development +of personality.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_271'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_271'>[271]</a><div class='note'><p> For evidence regarding the general absence of celibacy +among both savage and barbarous peoples, see, <i>e.g.</i>, Westermarck, +<i>History of Human Marriage</i>, Ch. VII.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_272'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_272'>[272]</a><div class='note'><p> There are, for instance, two millions of unmarried women in +France, while in Belgium 30 per cent, of the women, and in Germany +sometimes even 50 per cent, are unmarried.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_273'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_273'>[273]</a><div class='note'><p> Such a position would not be biologically unreasonable, in +view of the greatly preponderant part played by the female in the sexual +process which insures the conservation of the race. "If the sexual +instinct is regarded solely from the physical side," says D. W. H. Busch +(<i>Das Geschlechtsleben des Weibes</i>, 1839, vol. i, p. 201), "the woman +cannot be regarded as the property of the man, but with equal and greater +reason the man may be regarded as the property of the woman."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_274'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_274'>[274]</a><div class='note'><p> Herodotus, Bk. i, Ch. CLXXIII.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_275'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_275'>[275]</a><div class='note'><p> That power and relationship are entirely distinct was +pointed out many years ago by L. von Dargun, <i>Mutterrecht und Vaterrecht</i>, +1892. Westermarck (<i>Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas</i>, vol. i, p. +655), who is inclined to think that Steinmetz has not proved conclusively +that mother-descent involves less authority of husband over wife, makes +the important qualification that the husband's authority is impaired when +he lives among his wife's kinsfolk.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_276'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_276'>[276]</a><div class='note'><p> Robertson Smith, <i>Kinship and Marriage in Early Arabia</i>; +J. G. Frazer has pointed out (<i>Academy</i>, March 27, 1886) that the partially +Semitic peoples on the North frontier of Abyssinia, not subjected to the +revolutionary processes of Islam, preserve a system closely resembling +<i>beena</i> marriage, as well as some traces of the opposite system, by +Robertson Smith called <i>ba'al</i> marriage, in which the wife is acquired by +purchase and becomes a piece of property.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_277'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_277'>[277]</a><div class='note'><p> Spencer and Gillen, <i>Northern Tribes of Central Australia</i>, +p. 358.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_278'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_278'>[278]</a><div class='note'><p> Rhys and Brynmor-Jones, <i>The Welsh People</i>, pp. 55-6; <i>cf.</i> +Rhys, <i>Celtic Heathendom</i>, p. 93.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_279'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_279'>[279]</a><div class='note'><p> Rhys and Brynmor-Jones, <i>op. cit.</i>, p. 214.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_280'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_280'>[280]</a><div class='note'><p> Crawley (<i>The Mystic Rose</i>, p. 41 <i>et seq.</i>) gives numerous +instances.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_281'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_281'>[281]</a><div class='note'><p> Revillout, "La Femme dans l'Antiquité," <i>Journal +Asiatique</i>, 1906, vol. vii, p. 57. See, also, Victor Marx, <i>Beiträge zur +Assyriologie</i>, 1899, Bd. iv, Heft 1.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_282'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_282'>[282]</a><div class='note'><p> Donaldson, <i>Woman</i>, pp. 196, 241 <i>et seq.</i> Nietzold, (<i>Die +Ehe in</i> "<i>Agypten</i>," p. 17), thinks the statement of Diodorus that no +children were illegitimate, needs qualification, but that certainly the +illegitimate child in Egypt was at no social disadvantage.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_283'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_283'>[283]</a><div class='note'><p> Amélineau, <i>La Morale Egyptienne</i>, p. 194; Hobhouse, +<i>Morals in Evolution</i>, vol. i, p. 187; Flinders Petrie, <i>Religion and +Conscience in Ancient Egypt</i>, pp. 131 <i>et seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_284'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_284'>[284]</a><div class='note'><p> Maine, <i>Ancient Law</i>, Ch. V.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_285'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_285'>[285]</a><div class='note'><p> Donaldson, <i>Woman</i>, pp. 109, 120.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_286'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_286'>[286]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Mercator</i>, iv, 5.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_287'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_287'>[287]</a><div class='note'><p> Digest XLVIII, 13, 5.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_288'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_288'>[288]</a><div class='note'><p> Hobhouse, <i>Morals in Evolution</i>, vol. i, p. 213.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_289'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_289'>[289]</a><div class='note'><p> For an account of the work of some of the less known of +these pioneers, see a series of articles by Harriet McIlquham in the +<i>Westminster Review</i>, especially Nov., 1898, and Nov., 1903.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_290'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_290'>[290]</a><div class='note'><p> The influence of Christianity on the position of women has +been well discussed by Lecky, <i>History of European Morals</i>, vol. ii, pp. +316 <i>et seq.</i>, and more recently by Donaldson, <i>Woman</i>, Bk. iii.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_291'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_291'>[291]</a><div class='note'><p> Migne, <i>Patrologia</i>, vol. clviii, p. 680.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_292'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_292'>[292]</a><div class='note'><p> Rosa Mayreder, "Einiges über die Starke Faust," <i>Zur Kritik +der Weiblichkeit</i>, 1905.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_293'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_293'>[293]</a><div class='note'><p> Rasmussen (<i>People of the Polar North</i>, p. 56), describes a +ferocious quarrel between husband and wife, who each in turn knocked the +other down. "Somewhat later, when I peeped in, they were lying +affectionately asleep, with their arms around each other."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_294'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_294'>[294]</a><div class='note'><p> Hobhouse, <i>Morals in Evolution</i>, vol. ii, p. 367. Dr. +Stöcker, in <i>Die Liebe und die Frauen</i>, also insists on the significance +of this factor of personal responsibility.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_295'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_295'>[295]</a><div class='note'><p> Olive Schreiner has especially emphasized the evils of +parasitism for women. "The increased wealth of the male," she remarks +("The Woman's Movement of Our Day," <i>Harper's Bazaar</i>, Jan., 1902), "no +more of necessity benefits and raises the female upon whom he expends it, +than the increased wealth of his mistress necessarily benefits, mentally +or physically, a poodle, because she can then give him a down cushion in +place of one of feathers, and chicken in place of beef." Olive Schreiner +believes that feminine parasitism is a danger which really threatens +society at the present time, and that if not averted "the whole body of +females in civilized societies must sink into a state of more or less +absolute dependence."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_296'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_296'>[296]</a><div class='note'><p> In Rome and in Japan, Hobhouse notes (<i>op. cit.</i>, vol. i, +pp. 169, 176), the patriarchal system reached its fullest extension, yet +the laws of both these countries placed the husband in a position of +practical subjugation to a rich wife.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_297'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_297'>[297]</a><div class='note'><p> Herodotus, Bk. ii, Ch. XXXV. Herodotus noted that it was +the woman and not the man on whom the responsibility for supporting aged +parents rested. That alone involved a very high economic position of +women. It is not surprising that to some observers, as to Diodorus +Siculus, it seemed that the Egyptian woman was mistress over her husband.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_298'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_298'>[298]</a><div class='note'><p> Hobhouse (<i>loc. cit.</i>), Hale, and also Grosse, believe that +good economic position of a people involves high position of women. +Westermarck (<i>Moral Ideas</i>, vol. i, p. 661), here in agreement with Olive +Schreiner, thinks this statement cannot be accepted without modification, +though agreeing that agricultural life has a good effect on woman's +position, because they themselves become actively engaged in it. A good +economic position has no real effect in raising woman's position, unless +women themselves take a real and not merely parasitic part in it.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_299'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_299'>[299]</a><div class='note'><p> Westermarck (<i>Moral Ideas</i>, vol. i, Ch. XXVI, vol. ii, p. +29) gives numerous references with regard to the considerable proprietary +and other privileges of women among savages which tend to be lost at a +somewhat higher stage of culture.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_300'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_300'>[300]</a><div class='note'><p> The steady rise in the proportion of women among English +workers in machine industries began in 1851. There are now, it is +estimated, three and a half million women employed in industrial +occupations, beside a million and a half domestic servants. (See for +details, James Haslam, in a series of papers in the <i>Englishwoman</i> 1909.)</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_301'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_301'>[301]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, J. A. Hobson, <i>The Evolution of Modern +Capitalism</i>, second edition, 1907, Ch. XII, "Women in Modern Industry."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_302'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_302'>[302]</a><div class='note'><p> Hobhouse, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. i, p. 228.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_303'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_303'>[303]</a><div class='note'><p> Fielding, <i>Tom Jones</i>, Bk. iii, Ch. VII.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_304'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_304'>[304]</a><div class='note'><p> Even the Church to some extent adopted this allotment of +the responsibility, and "solicitation," <i>i.e.</i>, the sin of a confessor in +seducing his female penitent, is constantly treated as exclusively the +confessor's sin.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_305'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_305'>[305]</a><div class='note'><p> Adolf Gerson, <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Sept., 1908, p. 547.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_306'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_306'>[306]</a><div class='note'><p> It has already been necessary to refer to the unfortunate +results which may follow the ignorance of husbands (see, <i>e.g.</i>, "The +Sexual Impulse in Women," vol. iii of these <i>Studies</i>), and will be +necessary again in Ch. XI of the present volume.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_307'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_307'>[307]</a><div class='note'><p> Pepys, <i>Diary</i>, ed. Wheatley, vol. vii, p. 10.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_308'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_308'>[308]</a><div class='note'><p> Lombroso and Ferrero, <i>La Donna Delinquente</i>; <i>cf.</i> +Havelock Ellis, <i>Man and Woman</i>, fourth edition, p. 196.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_309'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_309'>[309]</a><div class='note'><p> Gury, <i>Théologie Morale</i>, art. 381.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_310'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_310'>[310]</a><div class='note'><p> "Men will not learn what women are," remarks Rosa Mayreder +(<i>Zur Kritik der Weiblichkeit</i>, p. 199), "until they have left off +prescribing what they ought to be."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_311'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_311'>[311]</a><div class='note'><p> It has been set out, for instance, by Professor Wahrmund in +<i>Ehe und Eherecht</i>, 1908. I need scarcely refer again to the writings of +Ellen Key, which may be said to be almost epoch-making in their +significance, especially (in German translation) <i>Ueber Liebe und Ehe</i> +(also French translation), and (in English translation, Putnam, 1909), the +valuable, though less important work, <i>The Century of the Child</i>. See also +Edward Carpenter, <i>Love's Coming of Age</i>; Forel, <i>Die Sexuelle Frage</i> +(English translation, abridged, <i>The Sexual Question</i>, Rebman, 1908); +Bloch, <i>Sexualleben unsere Zeit</i> (English translation, <i>The Sexual Life of +Our Time</i>, Rebman, 1908); Helene Stöcker, <i>Die Liebe und die Frauen</i>, +1906; and Paul Lapie, <i>La Femme dans la Famille</i>, 1908.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_CHAPTER_X'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_420'></a>CHAPTER X.</h2> + +<h3>MARRIAGE.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Definition of Marriage—Marriage Among Animals—The Predominance of +Monogamy—The Question of Group Marriage—Monogamy a Natural Fact, Not +Based on Human Law—The Tendency to Place the Form of Marriage Above the +Fact of Marriage—The History of Marriage—Marriage in Ancient +Rome—Germanic Influence on Marriage—Bride-Sale—The Ring—The Influence +of Christianity on Marriage—The Great Extent of This Influence—The +Sacrament of Matrimony—Origin and Growth of the Sacramental +Conception—The Church Made Marriage a Public Act—Canon Law—Its Sound +Core—Its Development—Its Confusions and Absurdities—Peculiarities of +English Marriage Law—Influence of the Reformation on Marriage—The +Protestant Conception of Marriage as a Secular Contract—The Puritan +Reform of Marriage—Milton as the Pioneer of Marriage Reform—His Views on +Divorce—The Backward Position of England in Marriage Reform—Criticism +of the English Divorce Law—Traditions of the Canon Law Still +Persistent—The Question of Damages for Adultery—Collusion as a Bar to +Divorce—Divorce in France, Germany, Austria, Russia, etc.—The United +States—Impossibility of Deciding by Statute the Causes for +Divorce—Divorce by Mutual Consent—Its Origin and Development—Impeded by +the Traditions of Canon Law—Wilhelm von Humboldt—Modern Pioneer +Advocates of Divorce by Mutual Consent—The Arguments Against Facility of +Divorce—The Interests of the Children—The Protection of Women—The +Present Tendency of the Divorce Movement—Marriage Not a Contract—The +Proposal of Marriage for a Term of Years—Legal Disabilities and +Disadvantages in the Position of the Husband and the Wife—Marriage Not a +Contract But a Fact—Only the Non-Essentials of Marriage, Not the +Essentials, a Proper Matter for Contract—The Legal Recognition of +Marriage as a Fact Without Any Ceremony—Contracts of the Person Opposed +to Modern Tendencies—The Factor of Moral Responsibility—Marriage as an +Ethical Sacrament—Personal Responsibility Involves Freedom—Freedom the +Best Guarantee of Stability—False Ideas of Individualism—Modern Tendency +of Marriage—With the Birth of a Child Marriage Ceases to be a Private +Concern—Every Child Must Have a Legal Father and Mother—How This Can be +Effected—The Firm Basis of Monogamy—The Question of Marriage +Variations—Such Variations<a name='6_Page_421'></a> Not Inimical to Monogamy—The Most Common +Variations—The Flexibility of Marriage Holds Variations in +Check—Marriage Variations <i>versus</i> Prostitution—Marriage on a Reasonable +and Humane Basis—Summary and Conclusion.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>The discussion in the previous chapter of the nature of sexual morality, +with the brief sketch it involved of the direction in which that morality +is moving, has necessarily left many points vague. It may still be asked +what definite and precise forms sexual unions are tending to take among +us, and what relation these unions bear to the religious, social, and +legal traditions we have inherited. These are matters about which a very +considerable amount of uncertainty seems to prevail, for it is not unusual +to hear revolutionary or eccentric opinions concerning them.</p> + +<p>Sexual union, involving the cohabitation, temporary or permanent, of two +or more persons, and having for one of its chief ends the production and +care of offspring, is commonly termed marriage. The group so constituted +forms a family. This is the sense in which the words "marriage" and the +"family" are most properly used, whether we speak of animals or of Man. +There is thus seen to be room for variation as regards both the time +during which the union lasts, and the number of individuals who form it, +the chief factor in the determination of these points being the interests +of the offspring. In actual practice, however, sexual unions, not only in +Man but among the higher animals, tend to last beyond the needs of the +offspring of a single season, while the fact that in most species the +numbers of males and females are approximately equal makes it inevitable +that both among animals and in Man the family is produced by a single +sexual couple, that is to say that monogamy is, with however many +exceptions, necessarily the fundamental rule.</p> + +<p>It will thus be seen that marriage centres in the child, and has at the +outset no reason for existence apart from the welfare of the offspring. +Among those animals of lowly organization which are able to provide for +themselves from the beginning of existence there is no family and no need +for marriage. Among human races, when sexual unions are not followed by +offspring, <a name='6_Page_422'></a>there may be other reasons for the continuance of the union +but they are not reasons in which either Nature or society is in the +slightest degree directly concerned. The marriage which grew up among +animals by heredity on the basis of natural selection, and which has been +continued by the lower human races through custom and tradition, by the +more civilized races through the superimposed regulative influence of +legal institutions, has been marriage for the sake of the offspring.<a name='6_FNanchor_312'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_312'><sup>[312]</sup></a> +Even in civilized races among whom the proportion of sterile marriages is +large, marriage tends to be so constituted as always to assume the +procreation of children and to involve the permanence required by such +procreation.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Among birds, which from the point of view of erotic development + stand at the head of the animal world, monogamy frequently + prevails (according to some estimates among 90 per cent.), and + unions tend to be permanent; there is an approximation to the + same condition among some of the higher mammals, especially the + anthropoid apes; thus among gorillas and oran-utans permanent + monogamic marriages take place, the young sometimes remaining + with the parents to the age of six, while any approach to loose + behavior on the part of the wife is severely punished by the + husband. The variations that occur are often simply matters of + adaptation to circumstances; thus, according to J. G. Millais + (<i>Natural History of British Ducks</i>, pp. 8, 63), the Shoveler + duck, though normally monogamic, will become polyandric when + males are in excess, the two males being in constant and amicable + attendance on the female without signs of jealousy; among the + monogamic mallards, similarly, polygyny and polyandry may also + occur. See also R. W. Shufeldt, "Mating Among Birds," <i>American + Naturalist</i>, March, 1907; for mammal marriages, a valuable paper + by Robert Müller, "Säugethierehen," <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Jan., + 1909, and as regards the general prevalence of monogamy, Woods + Hutchinson, "Animal Marriage," <i>Contemporary Review</i>, Oct., 1904, + and Sept., 1905.</p> + +<p> There has long been a dispute among the historians of marriage as + to the first form of human marriage. Some assume a primitive + promiscuity gradually modified in the direction of monogamy; + others argue that man began where the anthropoid apes left off, + and that monogamy has prevailed, on the whole, throughout. Both + these opposed views, in <a name='6_Page_423'></a>an extreme form, seem untenable, and the + truth appears to lie midway. It has been shown by various + writers, and notably Westermarck (<i>History of Human Marriage</i>, + Chs. IV-VI), that there is no sound evidence in favor of + primitive promiscuity, and that at the present day there are few, + if any, savage peoples living in genuine unrestricted sexual + promiscuity. This theory of a primitive promiscuity seems to have + been suggested, as J. A. Godfrey has pointed out (<i>Science of + Sex</i>, p. 112), by the existence in civilized societies of + promiscuous prostitution, though this kind of promiscuity was + really the result, rather than the origin, of marriage. On the + other hand, it can scarcely be said that there is any convincing + evidence of primitive strict monogamy beyond the assumption that + early man continued the sexual habits of the anthropoid apes. It + would seem probable, however, that the great forward step + involved in passing from ape to man was associated with a change + in sexual habits involving the temporary adoption of a more + complex system than monogamy. It is difficult to see in what + other social field than that of sex primitive man could find + exercise for the developing intellectual and moral aptitudes, the + subtle distinctions and moral restraints, which the strict + monogamy practiced by animals could afford no scope for. It is + also equally difficult to see on what basis other than that of a + more closely associated sexual system the combined and harmonious + efforts needed for social progress could have developed. It is + probable that at least one of the motives for exogamy, or + marriage outside the group, is (as was probably first pointed out + by St. Augustine in his <i>De Civitate Dei</i>) the need of creating a + larger social circle, and so facilitating social activities and + progress. Exactly the same end is effected by a complex marriage + system binding a large number of people together by common + interests. The strictly small and confined monogamic family, + however excellently it subserved the interests of the offspring, + contained no promise of a wider social progress. We see this + among both ants and bees, who of all animals, have attained the + highest social organization; their progress was only possible + through a profound modification of the systems of sexual + relationship. As Espinas said many years ago (in his suggestive + work, <i>Des Sociétés Animales</i>): "The cohesion of the family and + the probabilities for the birth of societies are inverse." Or, as + Schurtz more recently pointed out, although individual marriage + has prevailed more or less from the first, early social + institutions, early ideas and early religion involved sexual + customs which modified a strict monogamy.</p> + +<p> The most primitive form of complex human marriage which has yet + been demonstrated as still in existence is what is called + group-marriage, in which all the women of one class are regarded + as the actual, or at all events potential, wives of all the men + in another class. This has been observed among some central + Australian tribes, a people as primitive and <a name='6_Page_424'></a>as secluded from + external influence as could well be found, and there is evidence + to show that it was formerly more widespread among them. "In the + Urabunna tribe, for example," say Spencer and Gillen, "a group of + men actually do have, continually and as a normal condition, + marital relations with a group of women. This state of affairs + has nothing whatever to do with polygamy any more than it has + with polyandry. It is simply a question of a group of men and a + group of women who may lawfully have what we call marital + relations. There is nothing whatever abnormal about it, and, in + all probability, this system of what has been called group + marriage, serving as it does to bind more or less closely + together groups of individuals who are mutually interested in one + another's welfare, has been one of the most powerful agents in + the early stages of the upward development of the human race" + (Spencer and Gillen, <i>Northern Tribes of Central Australia</i>, p. + 74; <i>cf.</i> A. W. Howitt, <i>The Native Tribes of South-East + Australia</i>). Group-marriage, with female descent, as found in + Australia, tends to become transformed by various stages of + progress into individual marriage with descent in the male line, + a survival of group-marriage perhaps persisting in the + much-discussed <i>jus primæ noctis</i>. (It should be added that Mr. + N. W. Thomas, in his book on <i>Kinship and Marriage in Australia</i>, + 1908, concludes that group-marriage in Australia has not been + demonstrated, and that Professor Westermarck, in his <i>Origin and + Development of the Moral Ideas</i>, as in his previous <i>History of + Human Marriage</i>, maintains a skeptical opinion in regard to + group-marriage generally; he thinks the Urabunna custom may have + developed out of ordinary individual marriage, and regards the + group-marriage theory as "the residuary legatee of the old theory + of promiscuity." Durkheim also believes that the Australian + marriage system is not primitive, "Organisation Matrimoniale + Australienne," <i>L'Année Sociologique</i>, eighth year, 1905). With + the attainment of a certain level of social progress it is easy + to see that a wide and complicated system of sexual relationships + ceases to have its value, and a more or less qualified monogamy + tends to prevail as more in harmony with the claims of social + stability and executive masculine energy.</p> + +<p> The best historical discussion of marriage is still probably + Westermarck's <i>History of Human Marriage</i>, though at some points + it now needs to be corrected or supplemented; among more recent + books dealing with primitive sexual conceptions may be specially + mentioned Crawley's <i>Mystic Rose</i>, while the facts concerning the + transformation of marriage among the higher human races are set + forth in G. E. Howard's <i>History of Matrimonial Institutions</i> (3 + vols.), which contains copious bibliographical references. There + is an admirably compact, but clear and comprehensive, sketch of + the development of modern marriage in Pollock and Maitland, + <i>History of English Law</i>, vol. ii.</p></div><a name='6_Page_425'></a> + +<p>It is necessary to make allowance for variations, thereby shunning the +extreme theorists who insist on moulding all facts to their theories, but +we may conclude that—as the approximately equal number of the sexes +indicates—in the human species, as among many of the higher animals, a +more or less permanent monogamy has on the whole tended to prevail. That +is a fact of great significance in its implications. For we have to +realize that we are here in the presence of a natural fact. Sexual +relationships, in human as in animal societies, follow a natural law, +oscillating on each side of the norm, and there is no place for the theory +that that law was imposed artificially. If all artificial "laws" could be +abolished the natural order of the sexual relationships would continue to +subsist substantially as at present. Virtue, said Cicero, is but Nature +carried out to the utmost. Or, as Holbach put it, arguing that our +institutions tend whither Nature tends, "art is only Nature acting by the +help of the instruments she has herself made." Shakespeare had already +seen much the same truth when he said that the art which adds to Nature +"is an art that Nature makes." Law and religion have buttressed monogamy; +it is not based on them but on the needs and customs of mankind, and these +constitute its completely adequate sanctions.<a name='6_FNanchor_313'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_313'><sup>[313]</sup></a> Or, as Cope put it, +marriage is not the creation of law but the law is its creation.<a name='6_FNanchor_314'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_314'><sup>[314]</sup></a> +Crawley, again, throughout his study of primitive sex relationships, +emphasizes the fact that our formal marriage system is not, as so many +religious and moral writers once supposed, a forcible repression of +natural impulses, but merely the rigid crystallization of those natural +impulses, which in a more fluid form have been in human nature from the +first. Our conventional forms, we must believe, have not introduced any +elements of value, while in some respects they have been mischievous.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is necessary to bear in mind that the conclusion that + monogamic marriage is natural, and represents an order which is + in harmony with the instincts of the majority of people, by no + means involves agreement with the details of any particular legal + system of monogamy. Monogamic <a name='6_Page_426'></a>marriage is a natural biological + fact, alike in many animals and in man. But no system of legal + regulation is a natural biological fact. When a highly esteemed + alienist, Dr. Clouston, writes (<i>The Hygiene of Mind</i>, p. 245) + "there is only one natural mode of gratifying sexual <i>nisus</i> and + reproductive instinct, that of marriage," the statement requires + considerable exegesis before it can be accepted, or even receive + an intelligible meaning, and if we are to understand by + "marriage" the particular form and implications of the English + marriage law, or even of the somewhat more enlightened Scotch + law, the statement is absolutely false. There is a world of + difference, as J. A. Godfrey remarks (<i>The Science of Sex</i>, 1901, + p. 278), between natural monogamous marriage and our legal + system; "the former is the outward expression of the best that + lies in the sexuality of man; the latter is a creation in which + religious and moral superstitions have played a most important + part, not always to the benefit of individual and social health."</p> + +<p> We must, therefore, guard against the tendency to think that + there is anything rigid or formal in the natural order of + monogamy. Some sociologists would even limit the naturalness of + monogamy still further. Thus Tarde ("La Morale Sexuelle," + <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, Jan., 1907), while + accepting as natural under present conditions the tendency for + monogamy, mitigated by more or less clandestine concubinage, to + prevail over all other forms of marriage, considers that this is + not due to any irresistible influence, but merely to the fact + that this kind of marriage is practiced by the majority of + people, including the most civilized.</p> + +<p> With the acceptance of the tendency to monogamy we are not at the + end of sexual morality, but only at the beginning. It is not + monogamy that is the main thing, but the kind of lives that + people lead in monogamy. The mere acceptance of a monogamic rule + carries us but a little way. That is a fact which cannot fail to + impress itself on those who approach the questions of sex from + the psychological side.</p></div> + +<p>If monogamy is thus firmly based it is unreasonable to fear, or to hope +for, any radical modification in the institution of marriage, regarded, +not under its temporary religious and legal aspects but as an order which +appeared on the earth even earlier than man. Monogamy is the most natural +expression of an impulse which cannot, as a rule, be so adequately +realized in full fruition under conditions involving a less prolonged +period of mutual communion and intimacy. Variations, regarded as +inevitable oscillations around the norm, are also natural, but union in +couples must always be the rule because the numbers of <a name='6_Page_427'></a>the sexes are +always approximately equal, while the needs of the emotional life, even +apart from the needs of offspring, demand that such unions based on mutual +attraction should be so far as possible permanent.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It must here again be repeated that it is the reality, and not + the form or the permanence of the marriage union, which is its + essential and valuable part. It is not the legal or religious + formality which sanctifies marriage, it is the reality of the + marriage which sanctifies the form. Fielding has satirized in + Nightingale, Tom Jones's friend, the shallow-brained view of + connubial society which degrades the reality of marriage to exalt + the form. Nightingale has the greatest difficulty in marrying a + girl with whom he has already had sexual relations, although he + is the only man who has had relations with her. To Jones's + arguments he replies: "Common-sense warrants all you say, but yet + you well know that the opinion of the world is so contrary to it, + that were I to marry a whore, though my own, I should be ashamed + of ever showing my face again." It cannot be said that Fielding's + satire is even yet out of date. Thus in Prussia, according to + Adele Schreiber ("Heirathsbeschränkungen," <i>Die Neue Generation</i>, + Feb., 1909), it seems to be still practically impossible for a + military officer to marry the mother of his own illegitimate + child.</p> + +<p> The glorification of the form at the expense of the reality of + marriage has even been attempted in poetry by Tennyson in the + least inspired of his works, <i>The Idylls of the King</i>. In + "Lancelot and Elaine" and "Guinevere" (as Julia Magruder points + out, <i>North American Review</i>, April, 1905) Guinevere is married + to King Arthur, whom she has never seen, when already in love + with Lancelot, so that the "marriage" was merely a ceremony, and + not a real marriage (<i>cf.</i>, May Child, "The Weird of Sir + Lancelot," <i>North American Review</i>, Dec., 1908).</p></div> + +<p>It may seem to some that so conservative an estimate of the tendencies of +civilization in matters of sexual love is due to a timid adherence to mere +tradition. That is not the case. We have to recognize that marriage is +firmly held in position by the pressure of two opposing forces. There are +two currents in the stream of our civilization: one that moves towards an +ever greater social order and cohesion, the other that moves towards an +ever greater individual freedom. There is real harmony underlying the +apparent opposition of these two tendencies, and each is indeed the +indispensable complement of the other. There <a name='6_Page_428'></a>can be no real freedom for +the individual in the things that concern that individual alone unless +there is a coherent order in the things that concern him as a social unit. +Marriage in one of its aspects only concerns the two individuals involved; +in another of its aspects it chiefly concerns society. The two forces +cannot combine to act destructively on marriage, for the one counteracts +the other. They combine to support monogamy, in all essentials, on its +immemorial basis.</p> + +<p>It must be added that in the circumstances of monogamy that are not +essential there always has been, and always must be, perpetual +transformation. All traditional institutions, however firmly founded on +natural impulses, are always growing dead and rigid at some points and +putting forth vitally new growths at other points. It is the effort to +maintain their vitality, and to preserve their elastic adjustment to the +environment, which involves this process of transformation in +non-essentials.</p> + +<p>The only way in which we can fruitfully approach the question of the value +of the transformations now taking place in our marriage-system is by +considering the history of that system in the past. In that way we learn +the real significance of the marriage-system, and we understand what +transformations are, or are not, associated with a fine civilization. When +we are acquainted with the changes of the past we are enabled to face more +confidently the changes of the present.</p> + +<p>The history of the marriage-system of modern civilized peoples begins in +the later days of the Roman Empire at the time when the foundations were +being laid of that Roman law which has exerted so large an influence in +Christendom. Reference has already been made<a name='6_FNanchor_315'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_315'><sup>[315]</sup></a> to the significant fact +that in late Rome women had acquired a position of nearly complete +independence in relation to their husbands, while the patriarchal +authority still exerted over them by their fathers had become, for the +most part, almost nominal. This high status of women was associated, as it +naturally tends to be, with a high degree of freedom in the marriage +system. Roman law had no power of <a name='6_Page_429'></a>intervening in the formation of +marriages and there were no legal forms of marriage. The Romans recognized +that marriage is a fact and not a mere legal form; in marriage by <i>usus</i> +there was no ceremony at all; it was constituted by the mere fact of +living together for a whole year; yet such marriage was regarded as just +as legal and complete as if it had been inaugurated by the sacred rite of +<i>confarreatio</i>. Marriage was a matter of simple private agreement in which +the man and the woman approached each other on a footing of equality. The +wife retained full control of her own property; the barbarity of admitting +an action for restitution of conjugal rights was impossible, divorce was a +private transaction to which the wife was as fully entitled as the +husband, and it required no inquisitorial intervention of magistrate or +court; Augustus ordained, indeed, that a public declaration was necessary, +but the divorce itself was a private legal act of the two persons +concerned.<a name='6_FNanchor_316'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_316'><sup>[316]</sup></a> It is interesting to note this enlightened conception of +marriage prevailing in the greatest and most masterful Empire which has +ever dominated the world, at the period not indeed of its greatest +force,—for the maximum of force and the maximum of expansion, the bud and +the full flower, are necessarily incompatible,—but at the period of its +fullest development. In the chaos that followed the dissolution of the +Empire Roman law remained as a precious legacy to the new developing +nations, but its influence was inextricably mingled with that of +Christianity, which, though not at the first anxious to set up marriage +laws of its own, gradually revealed a growing ascetic feeling hostile +alike to the dignity of the married woman and the freedom of marriage and +divorce.<a name='6_FNanchor_317'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_317'><sup>[317]</sup></a> With that influence was combined the influence, introduced +through the<a name='6_Page_430'></a> Bible, of the barbaric Jewish marriage-system conferring on +the husband rights in marriage and divorce which were totally denied to +the wife; this was an influence which gained still greater force at the +Reformation when the authority once accorded to the Church was largely +transformed to the Bible. Finally, there was in a great part of Europe, +including the most energetic and expansive parts, the influence of the +Germans, an influence still more primitive than that of the Jews, +involving the conception of the wife as almost her husband's chattel, and +marriage as a purchase. All these influences clashed and often appeared +side by side, though they could not be harmonized. The result was that the +fifteen hundred years that followed the complete conquest of Christianity +represent on the whole the most degraded condition to which the marriage +system has ever been known to fall for so long a period during the whole +course of human history.</p> + +<p>At first indeed the beneficent influence of Rome continued in some degree +to prevail and even exhibited new developments. In the time of the +Christian Emperors freedom of divorce by mutual consent was alternately +maintained, and abolished.<a name='6_FNanchor_318'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_318'><sup>[318]</sup></a> We even find the wise and far-seeing +provision of the law enacting that a contract of the two parties never to +separate could have no legal validity. Justinian's prohibition of divorce +by consent led to much domestic unhappiness, and even crime, which appears +to be the reason why it was immediately abrogated by his successor, +Theodosius, still maintaining the late Roman tradition of the moral +equality of the sexes, allowed the wife equally with the husband to obtain +a divorce for adultery; that is a point we have not yet attained in +England to-day.</p> +<a name='6_Page_431'></a> +<p>It seems to be admitted on all sides that it was largely the fatal +influence of the irruption of the barbarous Germans which degraded, when +it failed to sweep away, the noble conception of the equality of women +with men, and the dignity and freedom of marriage, slowly moulded by the +organizing genius of the Roman into a great tradition which still retains +a supreme value. The influence of Christianity had at the first no +degrading influence of this kind; for the ascetic ideal was not yet +predominant, priests married as a matter of course, and there was no +difficulty in accepting the marriage order established in the secular +world; it was even possible to add to it a new vitality and freedom. But +the Germans, with all the primitively acquisitive and combative instincts +of untamed savages, went far beyond even the early Romans in the +subjection of their wives; they allowed indeed to their unmarried girls a +large measure of indulgence and even sexual freedom,—just as the +Christians also reverenced their virgins,<a name='6_FNanchor_319'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_319'><sup>[319]</sup></a>—but the German marriage +system placed the wife, as compared to the wife of the Roman Empire, in a +condition little better than that of a domestic slave. In one form or +another, under one disguise or another, the system of wife-purchase +prevailed among the Germans, and, whenever that system is influential, +even when the wife is honored her privileges are diminished.<a name='6_FNanchor_320'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_320'><sup>[320]</sup></a> Among +the Teutonic peoples generally, as among the early English, marriage was +indeed a private transaction but it took the form of a sale of the bride +by the father, or other legal guardian, to the bridegroom. The <i>beweddung</i> +was a <a name='6_Page_432'></a>real contract of sale.<a name='6_FNanchor_321'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_321'><sup>[321]</sup></a> "Sale-marriage" was the most usual form +of marriage. The ring, indeed, probably was not in origin, as some have +supposed, a mark of servitude, but rather a form of bride-price, or +<i>arrha</i>, that is to say, earnest money on the contract of marriage and so +the symbol of it.<a name='6_FNanchor_322'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_322'><sup>[322]</sup></a> At first a sign of the bride's purchase, it was not +till later that the ring acquired the significance of subjection to the +bridegroom, and that significance, later in the Middle Ages, was further +emphasized by other ceremonies. Thus in England the York and Sarum manuals +in some of their forms direct the bride, after the delivery of the ring, +to fall at her husband's feet, and sometimes to kiss his right foot. In +Russia, also, the bride kissed her husband's feet. At a later period, in +France, this custom was attenuated, and it became customary for the bride +to let the ring fall in front of the altar and then stoop at her husband's +feet to pick it up.<a name='6_FNanchor_323'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_323'><sup>[323]</sup></a> Feudalism carried on, and by its military +character exaggerated, these Teutonic influences. A fief was land held on +condition of military service, and the nature of its influence on marriage +is implied in that fact. The woman was given with the fief and her own +will counted for nothing.<a name='6_FNanchor_324'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_324'><sup>[324]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The Christian Church in the beginning accepted the forms <a name='6_Page_433'></a>of marriage +already existing in those countries in which it found itself, the Roman +forms in the lands of Latin tradition and the German forms in Teutonic +lands. It merely demanded (as it also demanded for other civil contracts, +such as an ordinary sale) that they should be hallowed by priestly +benediction. But the marriage was recognized by the Church even in the +absence of such benediction. There was no special religious marriage +service, either in the East or the West, earlier than the sixth century. +It was simply the custom for the married couple, after the secular +ceremonies were completed, to attend the church, listen to the ordinary +service and take the sacrament. A special marriage service was developed +slowly, and it was no part of the real marriage. During the tenth century +(at all events in Italy and France) it was beginning to become customary +to celebrate the first part of the real nuptials, still a purely temporal +act, outside the church door. Soon this was followed by the regular +bride-mass, directly applicable to the occasion, inside the church. By the +twelfth century the priest directed the ceremony, now involving an +imposing ritual, which began outside the church and ended with the bridal +mass inside. By the thirteenth century, the priest, superseding the +guardians of the young couple, himself officiated through the whole +ceremony. Up to that time marriage had been a purely private business +transaction. Thus, after more than a millennium of Christianity, not by +law but by the slow growth of custom, ecclesiastical marriage was +established.<a name='6_FNanchor_325'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_325'><sup>[325]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It was undoubtedly an event of very great importance not merely for the +Church but for the whole history of European marriage even down to to-day. +The whole of our public method of celebrating marriage to-day is based on +that of the Catholic Church as established in the twelfth century and +formulated in the Canon law. Even the publication of banns has its origin +here, and the fact that in our modern civil marriage the public ceremony +takes place in an office and not in a Church may disguise <a name='6_Page_434'></a>but cannot +alter the fact that it is the direct and unquestionable descendant of the +public ecclesiastical ceremony which embodied the slow and subtle +triumph—so slow and subtle that its history is difficult to trace—of +Christian priests over the private affairs of men and women. Before they +set themselves to this task marriage everywhere was the private business +of the persons concerned; when they had completed their task,—and it was +not absolutely complete until the Council of Trent,—a private marriage +had become a sin and almost a crime.<a name='6_FNanchor_326'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_326'><sup>[326]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It may seem a matter for surprise that the Church which, as we know, had +shown an ever greater tendency to reverence virginity and to cast +contumely on the sexual relationship, should yet, parallel with that +movement and with the growing influence of asceticism, have shown so great +an anxiety to capture marriage and to confer on it a public, dignified, +and religious character. There was, however, no contradiction. The factors +that were constituting European marriage, taken as a whole, were indeed of +very diverse characters and often involved unreconciled contradictions. +But so far as the central efforts of the ecclesiastical legislators were +concerned, there was a definite and intelligible point of view. The very +depreciation of the sexual instinct involved the necessity, since the +instinct could not be uprooted, of constituting for it a legitimate +channel, so that ecclesiastical matrimony was, it has been said, +"analogous to a license to sell intoxicating liquors."<a name='6_FNanchor_327'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_327'><sup>[327]</sup></a> Moreover, +matrimony exhibited the power of the Church to confer on the license a +dignity and distinction which would clearly separate it from the general +stream of lust. Sexual enjoyment is impure, the faithful cannot partake of +it until it has been purified by the ministrations of the Church. The +solemnization of marriage was the necessary result of the sanctification +of virginity. It became necessary <a name='6_Page_435'></a>to sanctify marriage also, and hence +was developed the indissoluble sacrament of matrimony. The conception of +marriage as a religious sacrament, a conception of far-reaching influence, +is the great contribution of the Catholic Church to the history of +marriage.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is important to remember that, while Christianity brought the + idea of marriage as a sacrament into the main stream of the + institutional history of Europe, that idea was merely developed, + not invented, by the Church. It is an ancient and even primitive + idea. The Jews believed that marriage is a magico-religious bond, + having in it something mystical resembling a sacrament, and that + idea, says Durkheim (<i>L'Année Sociologique</i>, eighth year, 1905, + p. 419), is perhaps very archaic, and hangs on to the generally + magic character of sex relations. "The mere act of union," Crawley + remarks (<i>The Mystic Rose</i>, p. 318) concerning savages, "is + potentially a marriage ceremony of the sacramental kind.... One + may even credit the earliest animistic men with some such vague + conception before any ceremony became crystallized." The essence + of a marriage ceremony, the same writer continues, "is the + 'joining together' of a man and a woman; in the words of our + English service, 'for this cause shall a man leave his father and + mother and shall be joined unto his wife; and they two shall be + one flesh.' At the other side of the world, amongst the Orang + Benuas, these words are pronounced by an elder, when a marriage + is solemnized: 'Listen all ye that are present; those that were + distant are now brought together; those that were separated are + now united.' Marriage ceremonies in all stages of culture may be + called religious with as much propriety as any ceremony whatever. + Those who were separated are now joined together, those who were + mutually taboo now break the taboo." Thus marriage ceremonies + prevent sin and neutralize danger.</p> + +<p> The Catholic conception of marriage was, it is clear, in + essentials precisely the primitive conception. Christianity drew + the sacramental idea from the archaic traditions in popular + consciousness, and its own ecclesiastical contribution lay in + slowly giving that idea a formal and rigid shape, and in + declaring it indissoluble. As among savages, it was in the act of + consent that the essence of the sacrament lay; the intervention + of the priest was not, in principle, necessary to give marriage + its religiously binding character. The essence of the sacrament + was mutual acceptance of each other by the man and the woman, as + husband and wife, and technically the priest who presided at the + ceremony was simply a witness of the sacrament. The essential + fact being thus the mental act of consent, the sacrament of + matrimony had the peculiar character of being without any outward + and visible sign. Perhaps it <a name='6_Page_436'></a>was this fact, instinctively felt + as a weakness, which led to the immense emphasis on the + indissolubility of the sacrament of matrimony, already + established by St. Augustine. The Canonists brought forward + various arguments to account for that indissolubility, and a + frequent argument has always been the Scriptural application of + the term "one flesh" to married couples; but the favorite + argument of the Canonists was that matrimony represents the union + of Christ with the Church; that is indissoluble, and therefore + its image must be indissoluble (Esmein, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. i, p. + 64). In part, also, one may well believe, the idea of the + indissolubility of marriage suggested itself to the + ecclesiastical mind by a natural association of ideas: the vow of + virginity in monasticism was indissoluble; ought not the vow of + sexual relationship in matrimony to be similarly indissoluble? It + appears that it was not until 1164, in Peter Lombard's + <i>Sentences</i>, that clear and formal recognition is found of + matrimony as one of the seven sacraments (Howard, <i>op. cit.</i>, + vol. i, p. 333).</p></div> + +<p>The Church, however, had not only made marriage a religious act; it had +also made it a public act. The officiating priest, who had now become the +arbiter of marriage, was bound by all the injunctions and prohibitions of +the Church, and he could not allow himself to bend to the inclinations and +interests of individual couples or their guardians. It was inevitable that +in this matter, as in other similar matters, a code of ecclesiastical +regulations should be gradually developed for his guidance. This need of +the Church, due to its growing control of the world's affairs, was the +origin of Canon law. With the development of Canon law the whole field of +the regulation of the sexual relationships, and the control of its +aberrations, became an exclusively ecclesiastical matter. The secular law +could take no more direct cognizance of adultery than of fornication or +masturbation; bigamy, incest, and sodomy were not temporal crimes; the +Church was supreme in the whole sphere of sex.</p> + +<p>It was during the twelfth century that Canon law developed, and Gratian +was the master mind who first moulded it. He belonged to the Bolognese +school of jurisprudence which had inherited the sane traditions of Roman +law. The Canons which Gratian compiled were, however, no more the mere +result of legal traditions than they were the outcome of cloistered +theological speculation. They were the result of a response to the +<a name='6_Page_437'></a>practical needs of the day before those needs had had time to form a +foundation for fine-spun subtleties. At a somewhat later period, before +the close of the century, the Italian jurists were vanquished by the +Gallic theologians of Paris as represented by Peter Lombard. The result +was the introduction of mischievous complexities which went far to rob +Canon law alike of its certainty and its adaptation to human necessities.</p> + +<p>Notwithstanding, however, all the parasitic accretions which swiftly began +to form around the Canon law and to entangle its practical activity, that +legislation embodied—predominantly at the outset and more obscurely +throughout its whole period of vital activity—a sound core of real value. +The Canon law recognized at the outset that the essential fact of marriage +is the actual sexual union, accomplished with the intention of +inaugurating a permanent relationship. The <i>copula carnalis</i>, the making +of two "one flesh," according to the Scriptural phrase, a mystic symbol of +the union of the Church to Christ, was the essence of marriage, and the +mutual consent of the couple alone sufficed to constitute marriage, even +without any religious benediction, or without any ceremony at all. The +formless and unblessed union was still a real and binding marriage if the +two parties had willed it so to be.<a name='6_FNanchor_328'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_328'><sup>[328]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Whatever hard things may be said about the Canon law, it must + never be forgotten that it carried through the Middle Ages until + the middle of the sixteenth century the great truth that the + essence of marriage lies not in rites and forms, but in the + mutual consent of the two persons who marry each other. When the + Catholic Church, in its growing rigidity, lost that conception, + it was taken up by the Protestants and Puritans in their first + stage of ardent vital activity, though it was more or less + dropped as they fell back into a state of subservience to forms. + It continued to be maintained by moralists and poets. Thus George + Chapman, the dramatist, who was both moralist and poet, in <i>The + Gentleman Usher</i> (1606), represents the riteless marriage of his + hero and heroine, which the latter thus introduces:—</p></div><a name='6_Page_438'></a> + +<div class='poem'><div class='stanza'> +<span class='i12'>"May not we now<br /></span> +<span class='i4'>Our contract make and marry before Heaven?<br /></span> +<span class='i4'>Are not the laws of God and Nature more<br /></span> +<span class='i4'>Than formal laws of men? Are outward rites<br /></span> +<span class='i4'>More virtuous than the very substance is<br /></span> +<span class='i4'>Of holy nuptials solemnized within?<br /></span> +<span class='i4'>.... The eternal acts of our pure souls<br /></span> +<span class='i4'>Knit us with God, the soul of all the world,<br /></span> +<span class='i4'>He shall be priest to us; and with such rites<br /></span> +<span class='i4'>As we can here devise we will express<br /></span> +<span class='i4'>And strongly ratify our hearts' true vows,<br /></span> +<span class='i4'>Which no external violence shall dissolve."<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>And to-day, Ellen Key, the distinguished prophet of marriage + reform, declares at the end of her <i>Liebe und Ehe</i> that the true + marriage law contains only the paragraph: "They who love each + other are husband and wife."</p></div> + +<p>The establishment of marriage on this sound and naturalistic basis had the +further excellent result that it placed the man and the woman, who could +thus constitute marriage by their consent in entire disregard of the +wishes of their parents or families, on the same moral level. Here the +Church was following alike the later Romans and the early Christians like +Lactantius and Jerome who had declared that what was licit for a man was +licit for a woman. The Penitentials also attempted to set up this same +moral law for both sexes. The Canonists finally allowed a certain +supremacy to the husband, though, on the other hand, they sometimes seemed +to assign even the chief part in marriage to the wife, and the attempt was +made to derive the word <i>matrimonium</i> from <i>matris munium</i>, thereby +declaring the maternal function to be the essential fact of marriage.<a name='6_FNanchor_329'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_329'><sup>[329]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The sound elements in the Canon law conception of marriage were, however, +from a very early period largely if not altogether neutralized by the +verbal subtleties by which they were overlaid, and even by its own +fundamental original defects. Even in the thirteenth century it began to +be possible to attach a superior force to marriage verbally formed <i>per +verba de præsenti</i> than to <a name='6_Page_439'></a>one constituted by sexual union, while so many +impediments to marriage were set up that it became difficult to know what +marriages were valid, an important point since a marriage even innocently +contracted within the prohibited degrees was only a putative marriage. The +most serious and the most profoundly unnatural feature of this +ecclesiastical conception of marriage was the flagrant contradiction +between the extreme facility with which the gate of marriage was flung +open to the young couple, even if they were little more than children, and +the extreme rigor with which it was locked and bolted when they were +inside. That is still the defect of the marriage system we have inherited +from the Church, but in the hands of the Canonists it was emphasized both +on the side of its facility for entrance and of its difficulty for +exit.<a name='6_FNanchor_330'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_330'><sup>[330]</sup></a> Alike from the standpoint of reason and of humanity the gate +that is easy of ingress must be easy of egress; or if the exit is +necessarily difficult then extreme care must be taken in admission. But +neither of these necessary precautions was possible to the Canonists. +Matrimony was a sacrament and all must be welcome to a sacrament, the more +so since otherwise they may be thrust into the mortal sin of fornication. +On the other side, since matrimony was a sacrament, when once truly +formed, beyond the permissible power of verbal quibbles to invalidate, it +could never be abrogated. The very institution that, in the view of the +Church, had been set up as a bulwark against license became itself an +instrument for artificially creating license. So that the net result of +the Canon law in the long run was the production of a state of things +which—in the <a name='6_Page_440'></a>eyes of a large part of Christendom—more than neutralized +the soundness of its original conception.<a name='6_FNanchor_331'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_331'><sup>[331]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In England, where from the ninth century, marriage was generally + accepted by the ecclesiastical and temporal powers as + indissoluble, Canon law was, in the main, established as in the + rest of Christendom. There were, however, certain points in which + Canon law was not accepted by the law of England. By English law + a ceremony before a priest was necessary to the validity of a + marriage, though in Scotland the Canon law doctrine was accepted + that simple consent of the parties, even exchanged secretly, + sufficed to constitute marriage. Again, the issue of a void + marriage contracted in innocence, and the issue of persons who + subsequently marry each other, are legitimate by Canon law, but + not by the common law of England (Geary, <i>Marriage and Family + Relations</i>, p. 3; Pollock and Maitland, <i>loc. cit.</i>). The + Canonists regarded the disabilities attaching to bastardy as a + punishment inflicted on the offending parents, and considered, + therefore, that no burden should fall on the children when there + had been a ceremony in good faith on the part of one at least of + the parents. In this respect the English law is less reasonable + and humane. It was at the Council of Merton, in 1236, that the + barons of England rejected the proposal to make the laws of + England harmonize with the Canon law, that is, with the + ecclesiastical law of Christendom generally, in allowing children + born before wedlock to be legitimated by subsequent marriage. + Grosseteste poured forth his eloquence and his arguments in favor + of the change, but in vain, and the law of England has ever since + stood alone in this respect (Freeman, "Merton Priory," <i>English + Towns and Districts</i>). The proposal was rejected in the famous + formula, "Nolumus leges Angliæ mutare," a formula which merely + stood for an unreasonable and inhumane obstinacy.</p> + +<p> In the United States, while by common law subsequent marriage + fails to legitimate children born before marriage, in many of the + States the subsequent marriage of the parents effects by statute + the legitimacy of the child, sometimes (as in Maine) + automatically, more usually (as in Massachusetts) through special + acknowledgment by the father.</p></div> + +<p>The appearance of Luther and the Reformation involved the decay of the +Canon law system so far as Europe as a whole was concerned. It was for +many reasons impossible for the<a name='6_Page_441'></a> Protestant reformers to retain formally +either the Catholic conception of matrimony or the precariously elaborate +legal structure which the Church had built up on that conception. It can +scarcely be said, indeed, that the Protestant attitude towards the +Catholic idea of matrimony was altogether a clear, logical, or consistent +attitude. It was a revolt, an emotional impulse, rather than a matter of +reasoned principle. In its inevitable necessity, under the circumstances +of the rise of Protestantism, lies its justification, and, on the whole, +its wholesome soundness. It took the form, which may seem strange in a +religious movement, of proclaiming that marriage is not a religious but a +secular matter. Marriage is, said Luther, "a worldly thing," and Calvin +put it on the same level as house-building, farming, or shoe-making. But +while this secularization of marriage represents the general and final +drift of Protestantism, the leaders of Protestantism were themselves not +altogether confident and clear-sighted in the matter. Even Luther was a +little confused on this point; sometimes he seems to call marriage "a +sacrament," sometimes "a temporal business," to be left to the state.<a name='6_FNanchor_332'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_332'><sup>[332]</sup></a> +It was the latter view which tended to prevail. But at first there was a +period of confusion, if not of chaos, in the minds of the Reformers; not +only were they not always convinced in their own minds; they were at +variance with each other, especially on the very practical question of +divorce. Luther on the whole belonged to the more rigid party, including +Calvin and Beza, which would grant divorce only for adultery and malicious +desertion; some, including many of the early English Protestants, were in +favor of allowing the husband to divorce for adultery but not the wife. +Another party, including Zwingli, were influenced by Erasmus in a more +liberal direction, and—moving towards the standpoint of Roman Imperial +legislation—admitted various causes of divorce. Some, like Bucer, +anticipating Milton, would even allow divorce when the husband was unable +to love his wife.<a name='6_Page_442'></a> At the beginning some of the Reformers adopted the +principle of self-divorce, as it prevailed among the Jews and was accepted +by some early Church Councils. In this way Luther held that the cause for +the divorce itself effected the divorce without any judicial decree, +though a magisterial permission was needed for remarriage. This question +of remarriage, and the treatment of the adulterer, were also matters of +dispute. The remarriage of the innocent party was generally accepted; in +England it began in the middle of the sixteenth century, was pronounced +valid by the Archbishop of Canterbury, and confirmed by Parliament. Many +Reformers were opposed, however, to the remarriage of the adulterous +party. Beust, Beza, and Melancthon would have him hanged and so settle the +question of remarriage; Luther and Calvin would like to kill him, but +since the civil rulers were slack in adopting that measure they allowed +him to remarry, if possible in some other part of the country.<a name='6_FNanchor_333'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_333'><sup>[333]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The final outcome was that Protestantism framed a conception of marriage +mainly on the legal and economic factor—a factor not ignored but strictly +subordinated by the Canonists—and regarded it as essentially a contract. +In so doing they were on the negative side effecting a real progress, for +they broke the power of an antiquated and artificial system, but on the +positive side they were merely returning to a conception which prevails in +barbarous societies, and is most pronounced when marriage is most +assimilable to purchase. The steps taken by Protestantism involved a +considerable change in the nature of marriage, but not necessarily any +great changes in its form. Marriage was no longer a sacrament, but it was +still a public and not a private function and was still, however +inconsistently, solemnized in Church. And as Protestantism had no rival +code to set up, both in Germany and England it fell back on the general +principles of Canon law, modifying them to suit its own special attitude +and needs.<a name='6_FNanchor_334'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_334'><sup>[334]</sup></a> It was the later Puritanic movement, first in the<a name='6_Page_443'></a> +Netherlands (1580), then in England (1653), and afterwards in New England, +which introduced a serious and coherent conception of Protestant marriage, +and began to establish it on a civil base.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The English Reformers under Edward VI and his enlightened + advisers, including Archbishop Cranmer, took liberal views of + marriage, and were prepared to carry through many admirable + reforms. The early death of that King exerted a profound + influence on the legal history of English marriage. The Catholic + reaction under Queen Mary killed off the more radical Reformers, + while the subsequent accession of Queen Elizabeth, whose attitude + towards marriage was grudging, illiberal, and old-fashioned, + approximating to that of her father, Henry VIII (as witnessed, + for instance, in her decided opposition to the marriage of the + clergy), permanently affected English marriage law. It became + less liberal than that of other Protestant countries, and closer + to that of Catholic countries.</p> + +<p> The reform of marriage attempted by the Puritans began in England + in 1644, when an Act was passed asserting "marriage to be no + sacrament, nor peculiar to the Church of God, but common to + mankind and of public interest to every Commonwealth." The Act + added, notwithstanding, that it was expedient marriage should be + solemnized by "a lawful minister of the Word." The more radical + Act of 1653 swept away this provision, and made marriage purely + secular. The banns were to be published (by registrars specially + appointed) in the Church, or (if the parties desired) the + market-place. The marriage was to be performed by a Justice of + the Peace; the age of consent to marriage for a man was made + sixteen, for a woman fourteen (Scobell's <i>Acts and Ordinances</i>, + pp. 86, 236). The Restoration abolished this sensible Act, and + reintroduced Canon-law traditions, but the Puritan conception of + marriage was carried over to America, where it took root and + flourished.</p></div> + +<p>It was out of Puritanism, moreover, as represented by Milton, that the +first genuinely modern though as yet still imperfect conception of the +marriage relationship was destined to emerge. The early Reformers in this +matter acted mainly from an obscure instinct of natural revolt in an +environment of plebeian materialism. The Puritans were moved by their +feeling for simplicity and civil order as the conditions for religious +freedom. Milton, in his <i>Doctrine and Discipline of Divorce</i>, published in +1643, when he was thirty-five years of age, proclaimed the supremacy of +the substance of marriage over the form of it, <a name='6_Page_444'></a>and the spiritual autonomy +of the individual in the regulation of that form. He had grasped the +meaning of that conception of personal responsibility which is the +foundation of sexual relationships as they are beginning to appear to men +to-day. If Milton had left behind him only his writings on marriage and +divorce they would have sufficed to stamp him with the seal of genius. +Christendom had to wait a century and a half before another man of genius +of the first rank, Wilhelm von Humboldt, spoke out with equal authority +and clearness in favor of free marriage and free divorce.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is to the honor of Milton, and one of his chief claims on our + gratitude, that he is the first great protagonist in Christendom + of the doctrine that marriage is a private matter, and that, + therefore, it should be freely dissoluble by mutual consent, or + even at the desire of one of the parties. We owe to him, says + Howard, "the boldest defence of the liberty of divorce which had + yet appeared. If taken in the abstract, and applied to both sexes + alike, it is perhaps the strongest defence which can be made + through an appeal to mere authority;" though his arguments, being + based on reason and experience, are often ill sustained by his + authority; he is really speaking the language of the modern + social reformer, and Milton's writings on this subject are now + sometimes ranked in importance above all his other work (Masson, + <i>Life of Milton</i>, vol. iii; Howard, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. ii, p. 86, + vol. iii, p. 251; C. B. Wheeler, "Milton's Doctrine and Discipline + of Divorce," <i>Nineteenth Century</i>, Jan., 1907).</p> + +<p> Marriage, said Milton, "is not a mere carnal coition, but a human + society; where that cannot be had there can be no true marriage" + (<i>Doctrine of Divorce</i>, Bk. i, Ch. XIII); it is "a covenant, the + very being whereof consists not in a forced cohabitation, and + counterfeit performance of duties, but in unfeigned love and + peace" (<i>Ib.</i>, Ch. VI). Any marriage that is less than this is + "an idol, nothing in the world." The weak point in Milton's + presentation of the matter is that he never explicitly accords to + the wife the same power of initiative in marriage and divorce as + to the husband. There is, however, nothing in his argument to + prevent its equal application to the wife, an application which, + while never asserting he never denies; and it has been pointed + out that he assumes that women are the equals of men and demands + from them intellectual and spiritual companionship; however ready + Milton may have been to grant complete equality of divorce to the + wife, it would have been impossible for a seventeenth century + Puritan to have obtained any hearing for such a doctrine; his + arguments would have been received with, if that were possible, + even more neglect than they actually met.<a name='6_Page_445'></a> (Milton's scornful + sonnet concerning the reception of his book is well known.)</p> + +<p> Milton insists that in the conventional Christian marriage + exclusive importance is attached to carnal connection. So long as + that connection is possible, no matter what antipathy may exist + between the couple, no matter how mistaken they may have been + "through any error, concealment, or misadventure," no matter if + it is impossible for them to "live in any union or contentment + all their days," yet the marriage still holds good, the two must + "fadge together" (<i>op. cit.</i>, Bk. i). It is the Canon law, he + says, which is at fault, "doubtless by the policy of the devil," + for the Canon law leads to licentiousness (<i>op. cit.</i>). It is, he + argues, the absence of reasonable liberty which causes license, + and it is the men who desire to retain the privileges of license + who oppose the introduction of reasonable liberty.</p> + +<p> The just ground for divorce is "indisposition, unfitness, or + contrariety of mind, arising from a cause in nature unchangeable, + hindering, and ever likely to hinder, the main benefits of + conjugal society, which are solace and peace." Without the "deep + and serious verity" of mutual love, wedlock is "nothing but the + empty husks of a mere outside matrimony," a mere hypocrisy, and + must be dissolved (<i>op. cit.</i>).</p> + +<p> Milton goes beyond the usual Puritan standpoint, and not only + rejects courts and magistrates, but approves of self-divorce; for + divorce cannot rightly belong to any civil or earthly power, + since "ofttimes the causes of seeking divorce reside so deeply in + the radical and innocent affections of nature, as is not within + the diocese of law to tamper with." He adds that, for the + prevention of injustice, special points may be referred to the + magistrate, who should not, however, in any case, be able to + forbid divorce (<i>op. cit.</i>, Bk. ii, Ch. XXI). Speaking from a + standpoint which we have not even yet attained, he protests + against the absurdity of "authorizing a judicial court to toss + about and divulge the unaccountable and secret reason of + disaffection between man and wife."</p> + +<p> In modern times Hinton was accustomed to compare the marriage law + to the law of the Sabbath as broken by Jesus. We find exactly the + same comparison in Milton. The Sabbath, he believes, was made for + God. "Yet when the good of man comes into the scales, we have + that voice of infinite goodness and benignity, that 'Sabbath was + made for man and not man for Sabbath.' What thing ever was made + more for man alone, and less for God, than marriage?" (<i>op. + cit.</i>, Bk. i, Ch. XI). "If man be lord of the Sabbath, can he be + less than lord of marriage?"</p></div> + +<p>Milton, in this matter as in others, stood outside the currents of his +age. His conception of marriage made no more impression on contemporary +life than his <i>Paradise Lost</i>. Even his <a name='6_Page_446'></a>own Puritan party who had passed +the Act of 1653 had strangely failed to transfer divorce and nullity cases +to the temporal courts, which would at least have been a step on the right +road. The Puritan influence was transferred to America and constituted the +leaven which still works in producing the liberal though too minutely +detailed divorce laws of many States. The American secular marriage +procedure followed that set up by the English Commonwealth, and the dictum +of the great Quaker, George Fox, "We marry none, but are witnesses of +it,"<a name='6_FNanchor_335'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_335'><sup>[335]</sup></a> (which was really the sound kernel in the Canon law) is regarded +as the spirit of the marriage law of the conservative but liberal State of +Pennsylvania, where, as recently as 1885, a statute was passed expressly +authorizing a man and woman to solemnize their own marriage.<a name='6_FNanchor_336'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_336'><sup>[336]</sup></a></p> + +<p>In England itself the reforms in marriage law effected by the Puritans +were at the Restoration largely submerged. For two and a half centuries +longer the English spiritual courts administered what was substantially +the old Canon law. Divorce had, indeed, become more difficult than before +the Reformation, and the married woman's lot was in consequence harder. +From the sixteenth century to the second half of the nineteenth, English +marriage law was peculiarly harsh and rigid, much less liberal than that +of any other Protestant country. Divorce was unknown to the ordinary +English law, and a special act of Parliament, at enormous expense, was +necessary to procure it in individual cases.<a name='6_FNanchor_337'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_337'><sup>[337]</sup></a> There was even an +attitude of self-righteousness in the maintenance of this system. It was +regarded as moral. There was complete failure to realize that nothing is +more immoral than the existence of unreal sexual unions, not <a name='6_Page_447'></a>only from +the point of view of theoretical but also of practical morality, for no +community could tolerate a majority of such unions.<a name='6_FNanchor_338'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_338'><sup>[338]</sup></a> In 1857 an act +for reforming the system was at last passed with great difficulty. It was +a somewhat incoherent and make-shift measure, and was avowedly put forward +only as a step towards further reform; but it still substantially governs +English procedure, and in the eyes of many has set a permanent standard of +morality. The spirit of blind conservatism,—<i>Nolumus leges Angliæ +mutare</i>,—which in this sphere had reasserted itself after the vital +movement of Reform and Puritanism, still persists. In questions of +marriage and divorce English legislation and English public feeling are +behind alike both the Latin land of France and the Puritanically moulded +land of the United States.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The author of an able and temperate essay on <i>The Question of + English Divorce</i>, summing up the characteristics of the English + divorce law, concludes that it is: (1) unequal, (2) immoral, (3) + contradictory, (4) illogical, (5) uncertain, and (6) unsuited to + present requirements. It was only grudgingly introduced in a + bill, presented to Parliament in 1857, which was stubbornly + resisted during a whole session, not only on religious grounds by + the opponents of divorce, but also by the friends of divorce, who + desired a more liberal measure. It dealt with the sexes + unequally, granting the husband but not the wife divorce for + adultery alone. In introducing the bill the Attorney-General + apologized for this defect, stating that the measure was not + intended to be final, but merely as a step towards further + legislation. That was more than half a century ago, but the + further step has not yet been taken. Incomplete and + unsatisfactory as the measure was, it seems to have been regarded + by many as revolutionary and dangerous in the highest degree. The + author of an article on "Modern Divorce" in the <i>Universal + Review</i> for July, 1859, while approving in principle of the + establishment of a special Divorce Court, yet declared that the + new court was "tending to destroy marriage as a social + institution and to sap female chastity," and that "everyone now + is a husband and wife at will." "No one," he adds, "can now + justly quibble at a deficiency of matrimonial vomitories."</p><a name='6_Page_448'></a> + +<p> Yet, according to this law, it is not even possible for a wife to + obtain a divorce for her husband's adultery, unless he is also + cruel or deserts her. At first "cruelty" meant physical cruelty + and of a serious kind. But in course of time the meaning of the + word was extended to pain inflicted on the mind, and now coldness + and neglect may almost of themselves constitute cruelty, though + the English court has sometimes had the greatest hesitation in + accepting the most atrocious forms of refined cruelty, because it + involved no "physical" element. "The time may very reasonably be + looked forward to, however," a legal writer has stated + (Montmorency, "The Changing Status of a Married Woman," <i>Law + Quarterly Review</i>, April, 1897), "when almost any act of + misconduct will, in itself, be considered to convey such mental + agony to the innocent party as to constitute the cruelty + requisite under the Act of 1857." (The question of cruelty is + fully discussed in J. R. Bishop's <i>Commentaries on Marriage, + Divorce and Separation</i>, 1891, vol. i, Ch. XLIX; <i>cf.</i> Howard, + <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. ii, p. 111).</p> + +<p> There can be little doubt, however, that cruelty alone is a + reasonable cause for divorce. In many American States, where the + facilities for divorce are much greater than in England, cruelty + is recognized as itself sufficient cause, whether the wife or the + husband is the complainant. The acts of cruelty alleged have + sometimes been seemingly very trivial. Thus divorces have been + pronounced in America on the ground of the "cruel and inhuman + conduct" of a wife who failed to sew her husband's buttons on, or + because a wife "struck plaintiff a violent blow with her bustle," + or because a husband does not cut his toe-nails, or because + "during our whole married life my husband has never offered to + take me out riding. This has been a source of great mental + suffering and injury." In many other cases, it must be added, the + cruelty inflicted by the husband, even by the wife—for though + usually, it is not always, the husband who is the brute—is of an + atrocious and heart-rending character (<i>Report on Marriage and + Divorce in the United States</i>, issued by Hon. Carroll D. Wright, + Commissioner of Labor, 1889). But even in many of the apparently + trivial cases—as of a husband who will not wash, and a wife who + is constantly evincing a hasty temper—it must be admitted that + circumstances which, in the more ordinary relationships of life + may be tolerated, become intolerable in the intimate relationship + of sexual union. As a matter of fact, it has been found by + careful investigation that the American courts weigh well the + cases that come before them, and are not careless in the granting + of decrees of divorce.</p> + +<p> In 1859 an exaggerated importance was attached to the gross + reasons for divorce, to the neglect of subtle but equally fatal + impediments to the continuance of marriage. This was pointed out + by Gladstone, who was opposed to making adultery a cause of + divorce at all. "We have many causes," he said, "more fatal to + the great obligation of marriage, <a name='6_Page_449'></a>as disease, idiocy, crime + involving punishment for life." Nowadays we are beginning to + recognize not only such causes as these, but others of a far more + intimate character which, as Milton long ago realized, cannot be + embodied in statutes, or pleaded in law courts. The matrimonial + bond is not merely a physical union, and we have to learn that, + as the author of <i>The Question of English Divorce</i> (p. 49) + remarks, "other than physical divergencies are, in fact, by far + the most important of the originating causes of matrimonial + disaster."</p> + +<p> In England and Wales more husbands than wives petition for + divorce, the wives who petition being about 40 per cent, of the + whole. Divorces are increasing, though the number is not large, + in 1907 about 1,300, of whom less than half remarried. The + inadequacy of the divorce law is shown by the fact that during + the same year about 7,000 orders for judicial separation were + issued by magistrates. These separation orders not only do not + give the right to remarry, but they make it impossible to obtain + divorce. They are, in effect, an official permission to form + relationships outside State marriage.</p> + +<p> In the United States during the years 1887-1906 nearly 40 per + cent, of the divorces granted were for "desertion," which is + variously interpreted in different States, and must often mean a + separation by mutual consent. Of the remainder, 19 per cent, were + for unfaithfulness, and the same proportion for cruelty; but + while the divorces granted to husbands for the infidelity of + their wives are nearly three times as great proportionately as + those granted to wives for their husband's adultery, with regard + to cruelty it is the reverse, wives obtaining 27 per cent, of + their divorces on that ground and husbands only 10 per cent.</p> + +<p> In Prussia divorce is increasing. In 1907 there were eight + thousand divorces, the cause in half the cases being adultery, + and in about a thousand cases malicious desertion. In cases of + desertion the husbands were the guilty parties nearly twice as + often as the wives, in cases of adultery only a fifth to an + eighth part.</p></div> + +<p>There cannot be the slightest doubt that the difficulty, the confusion, +the inconsistency, and the flagrant indecency which surround divorce and +the methods of securing it are due solely and entirely to the subtle +persistence of traditions based, on the one hand, on the Canon law +doctrines of the indissolubility of marriage and the sin of sexual +intercourse outside marriage, and, on the other hand, on the primitive +idea of marriage as a contract which economically subordinates the wife to +the husband and renders her person, or at all events her guardianship, his +property. It is only when we realize how deeply these traditions have +<a name='6_Page_450'></a>become embedded in the religious, legal, social and sentimental life of +Europe that we can understand how it is that barbaric notions of marriage +and divorce can to-day subsist in a stage of civilization which has, in +many respects, advanced beyond such notions.</p> + +<p>The Canon law conception of the abstract religious sanctity of matrimony, +when transferred to the moral sphere, makes a breach of the marriage +relationship seem a public wrong; the conception of the contractive +subordination of the wife makes such a breach on her part, and even, by +transference of ideas, on his part, seem a private wrong. These two ideas +of wrong incoherently flourish side by side in the vulgar mind, even +to-day.</p> + +<p>The economic subordination of the wife as a species of property +significantly comes into view when we find that a husband can claim, and +often secure, large sums of money from the man who sexually approaches his +property, by such trespass damaging it in its master's eyes.<a name='6_FNanchor_339'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_339'><sup>[339]</sup></a> To a +psychologist it would be obvious that a husband who has lacked the skill +so to gain and to hold his wife's love and respect that it is not +perfectly easy and natural to her to reject the advances of any other man +owes at least as much damages to her as she or her partner owes to him; +while if the failure is really on her side, if she is so incapable of +responding to love and trust and so easy a prey to an outsider, then +surely the husband, far from wishing for any money compensation, should +consider himself more than fully compensated by being delivered from the +necessity of supporting such a woman. In the absence of any false +traditions that would be obvious. It might not, indeed, be unreasonable +that a husband should pay heavily in order to free himself from a wife +whom, evidently, he has made a serious mistake in choosing. But to ordain +that a man should actually be indemnified because he has <a name='6_Page_451'></a>shown himself +incapable of winning a woman's love is an idea that could not occur in a +civilized society that was not twisted by inherited prejudice.<a name='6_FNanchor_340'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_340'><sup>[340]</sup></a> Yet as +matters are to-day there are civilized countries in which it is legally +possible for a husband to enter a prayer for damages against his wife's +paramour in combination with either a petition for judicial separation or +for dissolution of wedlock. In this way adultery is not a crime but a +private injury.<a name='6_FNanchor_341'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_341'><sup>[341]</sup></a></p> + +<p>At the same time, however, the influence of Canon law comes inconsistently +to the surface and asserts that a breach of matrimony is a public wrong, a +sin transformed by the State into something almost or quite like a crime. +This is clearly indicated by the fact that in some countries the adulterer +is liable to imprisonment, a liability scarcely nowadays carried into +practice. But exactly the same idea is beautifully illustrated by the +doctrine of "collusion," which, in theory, is still strictly observed in +many countries. According to the doctrine of "collusion" the conditions +necessary to make the divorce possible must on no account be secured by +mutual agreement. In practice it is impossible to prevent more or less +collusion, but if proved in court it constitutes an absolute impediment to +the granting of a divorce, however just and imperative the demand for +divorce may be.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The English Divorce Act of 1857 refused divorce when there was + collusion, as well as when there was any countercharge against + the petitioner, and the Matrimonial Causes Act of 1860 provided + the machinery for guaranteeing these bars to divorce. This + question of collusion is <a name='6_Page_452'></a>discussed by G. P. Bishop (<i>op. cit.</i>, + vol. ii, Ch. IX). "However just a cause may be," Bishop remarks, + "if parties collude in its management, so that in real fact both + parties are plaintiffs, while by the record the one appears as + plaintiff and the other as defendant, it cannot go forward. All + conduct of this sort, disturbing to the course of justice, falls + within the general idea of fraud on the court. Such is the + doctrine in principle everywhere."</p></div> + +<p>It is quite evident that from the social or the moral point of view, it is +best that when a husband and wife can no longer live together, they should +part amicably, and in harmonious agreement effect all the arrangements +rendered necessary by their separation. The law ridiculously forbids them +to do so, and declares that they must not part at all unless they are +willing to part as enemies. In order to reach a still lower depth of +absurdity and immorality the law goes on to say that if as a matter of +fact they have succeeded in becoming enemies to each other to such an +extent that each has wrongs to plead against the other party they cannot +be divorced at all!<a name='6_FNanchor_342'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_342'><sup>[342]</sup></a> That is to say that when a married couple have +reached a degree of separation which makes it imperatively necessary, not +merely in their own interests but in the moral interests of society, that +they should be separated and their relations to other parties concerned +regularized, then they must on no account be separated.</p> + +<p>It is clear how these provisions of the law are totally opposed to the +demands of reason and morality. Yet at the same time it is equally clear +how no efforts of the lawyers, however skilful or humane those efforts may +be, can bring the present law into harmony with the demands of modern +civilization. It is not <a name='6_Page_453'></a>the lawyers who are at fault; they have done +their best, and, in England, it is entirely owing to the skilful and +cautious way in which the judges have so far as possible pressed the law +into harmony with modern needs, that our antiquated divorce laws have +survived at all. It is the system which is wrong. That system is the +illegitimate outgrowth of the Canon law which grew up around conceptions +long since dead. It involves the placing of the person who imperils the +theoretical indissolubility of the matrimonial bond in the position of a +criminal, now that he can no longer be publicly condemned as a sinner. To +aid and abet that criminal is itself an offence, and the aider and abettor +of the criminal must, therefore, be inconsequently punished by the curious +method of refraining from punishing the criminal. We do not openly assert +that the defendant in a divorce case is a criminal; that would be to +render the absurdity of it too obvious, and, moreover, would be hardly +consistent with the permission to claim damages which is based on a +different idea. We hover uncertainly between two conceptions of divorce, +both of them bad, each inconsistent with the other, and neither of them +capable of being pushed to its logical conclusions.</p> + +<p>The result is that if a perfectly virtuous married couple comes forward to +claim divorce, they are told that it is out of the question, for in such a +case there must be a "defendant." They are to be punished for their +virtue. If each commits adultery and they again come forward to claim +divorce, they are told that it is still out of the question, for there +must be a "plaintiff." Before they were punished for their virtue; now +they are to be punished in exactly the same way for their lack of it. The +couple must humor the law by adopting a course of action which may be +utterly repugnant to both. If only the wife alone will commit adultery, if +only the husband will commit adultery and also inflict some act of cruelty +upon his wife, if the innocent party will descend to the degradation of +employing detectives and hunting up witnesses, the law is at their feet +and hastens to accord to both parties the permission to remarry. Provided, +of course, that the parties have arranged this without "collusion." That +is to say that our law, with its ecclesiastical <a name='6_Page_454'></a>traditions behind it, +says to the wife: Be a sinner, or to the husband: Be a sinner and a +criminal—then we will do all you wish. The law puts a premium on sin and +on crime. In order to pile absurdity on absurdity it claims that this is +done in the cause of "public morality." To those who accept this point of +view it seems that the sweeping away of divorce laws would undermine the +bases of morality. Yet there can be little doubt that the sooner such +"morality" is undermined, and indeed utterly destroyed, the better it will +be for true morality.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>There is an influential movement in England for the reform of + divorce, on the grounds that the present law is unjust, + illogical, and immoral, represented by the Divorce Law Reform + Union. Even the former president of the Divorce Court, Lord + Gorell, declared from the bench in 1906 that the English law + produces deplorable results, and is "full of inconsistencies, + anomalies and inequalities, amounting almost to absurdities." The + points in the law which have aroused most protest, as being most + behind the law of other nations, are the great expense of + divorce, the inequality of the sexes, the failure to grant + divorces for desertion and in cases of hopeless insanity, and the + failure of separation orders to enable the separated parties to + marry again. Separation orders are granted by magistrates for + cruelty, adultery, and desertion. This "separation" is really the + direct descendant of the Canon law divorce <i>a mensa et thoro</i>, + and the inability to marry which it involves is merely a survival + of the Canon law tradition. At the present time + magistrates—exercising their discretion, it is admitted, in a + careful and prudent manner—issue some 7,000 separation orders + annually, so that every year the population is increased by + 14,000 individuals mostly in the age of sexual vigor, and some + little more than children, who are forbidden by law to form legal + marriages. They contribute powerfully to the great forward + movement which, as was shown in the previous chapter, marks the + morality of our age. But it is highly undesirable that free + marriages should be formed, helplessly, by couples who have no + choice in the matter, for it is unlikely that under such + circumstances any high level of personal responsibility can be + reached. The matter could be easily remedied by dropping + altogether a Canon law tradition which no longer has any vitality + or meaning, and giving to the magistrate's separation order the + force of a decree of divorce.</p> + +<p> New Zealand and the Australian colonies, led by Victoria in 1889, + have passed divorce laws which, while more or less framed on the + English model, represent a distinct advance. Thus in New Zealand + the grounds for divorce are adultery on either side, wilful + desertion, habitual drunkenness, and conviction to imprisonment + for a term of years.</p></div><a name='6_Page_455'></a> + +<p>It is natural that an Englishman should feel acutely sensitive to this +blot in the law of England and desire the speedy disappearance of a system +so open to scathing sarcasm. It is natural that every humane person should +grow impatient of the spectacle of so many blighted lives, of so much +misery inflicted on innocent persons—and on persons who even when +technically guilty are often the victims of unnatural circumstances—by +the persistence of a mediæval system of ecclesiastical tyranny and +inquisitorial insolence into an age when sexual relationships are becoming +regarded as the sacred secret of the persons intimately concerned, and +when more and more we rely on the responsibility of the individual in +making and maintaining such relationships.</p> + +<p>When, however, we refrain from concentrating our attention on particular +countries and embrace the general movement of civilization in the matter +of divorce during recent times, there cannot be the slightest doubt as to +the direction of that movement. England was a pioneer in the movement half +a century ago, and to-day every civilized country is moving in the same +direction. France broke with the old ecclesiastical tradition of the +indissolubility of matrimony in 1885 by a divorce law in some respects +very reasonable. The wife may obtain a divorce on an equality with the +husband (though she is liable to imprisonment for adultery), the +co-respondent occupies a very subordinate position in adultery charges, +and facility is offered for divorce on the ground of simple <i>injures +graves</i> (excluding as far as possible mere incompatibility of temper), +while the judge has the power, which he often successfully exerts, to +effect a reconciliation in private or to grant a decree without public +trial. The influence of France has doubtless been influential in moulding +the divorce laws of the other Latin countries.</p> + +<p>In Prussia an enlightened divorce law formerly prevailed by which it was +possible for a couple to separate without scandal when it was clearly +shown that they could not live together in agreement. But the German Code +of 1900 introduced provisions as regards divorce which—while in some +respects more liberal than those of the English law, especially by +permitting <a name='6_Page_456'></a>divorce for desertion and insanity—are, on the whole, +retrograde as compared with the earlier Prussian law and place the matter +on a cruder and more brutal basis. For two years after the Code came into +operations the number of divorces sank; after that the public and the +courts adapted themselves to the new provisions (more especially one which +allowed divorce for serious neglect of conjugal duties) and the number of +divorces began to increase with great rapidity. "But," remarks Hirschfeld, +"how painful it has now become to read divorce cases! One side abuses the +other, makes accusations of the grossest character, employs detectives to +obtain the necessary proofs of 'dishonorable and immoral conduct,' +whereas, before, both parties realized that they had been deceived in each +other, that they failed to suit each other, and that they could no longer +live together. Thus we see that the narrowing of individual responsibility +in sexual matters has not only had no practical effect, but leads to +injurious results of a serious kind."<a name='6_FNanchor_343'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_343'><sup>[343]</sup></a> In England a similar state of +things has prevailed ever since divorce was established, but it seems to +have become too familiar to excite either pain or disgust. Yet, as Adner +has pointed out,<a name='6_FNanchor_344'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_344'><sup>[344]</sup></a> it has moved in a direction contrary to the general +tendency of civilization, not only by increasing the inquisitorial +authority of public courts but by emphasizing merely external causes of +divorce and abolishing the more subtle internal causes which constantly +grow in importance with the refinement of civilization.</p> + +<p>In Austria until recent years, Canon law ruled absolutely, and matrimony +was indissoluble, as it still remains for the Catholic population. The +results as regards matrimonial happiness were in the highest degree +deplorable. Half a century ago Gross-Hoffinger investigated the marital +happiness of 100 Viennese couples of all social classes, without choice of +cases, and presented the results in detail. He found that 48 couples were +positively unhappy, only 16 were undoubtedly happy, and even among these +there was only one case in which happiness resulted <a name='6_Page_457'></a>from mutual +faithfulness, happiness in the other cases being only attained by setting +aside the question of fidelity.<a name='6_FNanchor_345'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_345'><sup>[345]</sup></a> This picture, it is to be hoped, no +longer remains true. There is an influential Austrian Marriage Reform +Association, publishing a journal called <i>Die Fessel</i>, or The Fetter. "One +was chained to another," we are told. "In certain circumstances this must +have been the worst and most torturing penalty of all. The most bizarre +and repulsive couplings took place. There were, it is true, many +affectionate companionships of the chain. But there were many more which +inflicted an eternity of suffering upon one of the pair." This quotation, +it must be added, has nothing to do with what the Canonists, borrowing the +technical term for a prisoner's shackles, suggestively termed the +<i>vinculum matrimonii</i>; it was written many years ago concerning the +galleys of the old French convict system. It is, however, recalled to +one's mind by the title which the Austrian Marriage Reform Association has +given to its official organ.</p> + +<p>Russia, where the marriage laws are arranged by the Holy Synod aided by +jurists, stands almost alone among the great countries in the reasonable +simplicity of its divorce provisions. Before 1907 divorce was very +difficult to obtain in Russia, but in that year it became possible for a +married couple to separate by mutual consent and after living apart for a +year to become thereby entitled to a divorce enabling them to remarry. +This provision is in accordance with the humane conception of the sexual +relationship which has always tended to prevail in Russia, whither, it +must be remembered, the stern and unnatural ideals of compulsory celibacy +cherished by the Western Church never completely penetrated; the clergy of +the Eastern Church are married, though the marriage must take place before +they enter the priesthood, and they could not sympathize with the +anti-sexual tone of the marriage regulations laid down by the celibate +clergy of the west.</p> + +<p>Switzerland, again, which has been regarded as the political <a name='6_Page_458'></a>laboratory +of Europe, also stands apart in the liberality of its divorce legislation. +A renewable divorce for two years may be obtained in Switzerland when +there are "circumstances which seriously affect the maintenance of the +conjugal tie." To the Grand Duchy of Luxembourg, finally, belongs the +honor of having firmly maintained throughout the great principle of +divorce by mutual consent under legal conditions, as established by +Napoleon in his Code of 1803. The smaller countries generally are in +advance of the large in matters of divorce law. The Norwegian law is +liberal. The new Roumanian Code permits divorce by mutual consent, +provided both parents grant equal shares of their property to the +children. The little principality of Monaco has recently introduced the +reasonable provision of granting divorce for, among other causes, +alcoholism, syphilis, and epilepsy, so protecting the future race.</p> + +<p>Outside Europe the most instructive example of the tendency of divorce is +undoubtedly furnished by the United States of America. The divorce laws of +the States are mainly on a Puritanic basis, and they retain not only the +Puritanic love of individual freedom but the Puritanic precisianism.<a name='6_FNanchor_346'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_346'><sup>[346]</sup></a> +In some States, notably Iowa, the statute-makers have been constantly +engaged in adopting, changing, abrogating and re-enacting the provisions +of their divorce laws, and Howard has shown how much confusion and +awkwardness arise by such perpetual legislative fiddling over small +details.</p> + +<p>This restless precisianism has somewhat disguised the generally broad and +liberal tendency of marriage law in America, and has encouraged foreign +criticism of American social institutions. As a matter of fact the +prevalence of divorce in America is enormously exaggerated. The proportion +of divorced persons in the population appears to be less than one per +cent., and, contrary to a frequent assertion, it is by no means the rule +for divorced persons to remarry immediately. Taking into account the +special conditions of life in the United States the prevalence of divorce +is small and its character by no means reveals a low <a name='6_Page_459'></a>grade morality. An +impartial and competent critic of the American people, Professor +Münsterberg, remarks that the real ground which mainly leads to divorce in +the United States—not the mere legal pretexts made compulsory by the +precisianism of the law—is the highly ethical objection to continuing +externally in a marriage which has ceased to be spiritually congenial. "It +is the women especially," he says, "and generally the very best women, who +prefer to take the step, with all the hardships which it involves, to +prolonging a marriage which is spiritually hypocritical and immoral."<a name='6_FNanchor_347'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_347'><sup>[347]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The people of the United States, above all others, cherish ideals of +individualism; they are also the people among whom, above all others, +there is the greatest amount of what Reibmayr calls "blood-chaos." Under +such circumstances the difficulties of conjugal life are necessarily at a +maximum, and marriage union is liable to subtle impediments which must +forever elude the statute-book.<a name='6_FNanchor_348'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_348'><sup>[348]</sup></a> There can be little doubt that the +practical sagacity of the American people will enable them sooner or later +to recognize this fact, and that finally fulfilling the Puritanic drift of +their divorce legislation—as foreshadowed in its outcome by Milton—they +will agree to trust their own citizens with the responsibility of deciding +so private a matter as their conjugal <a name='6_Page_460'></a>relationships, with, of course, +authority in the courts to see that no injustice is committed. It is, +indeed, surprising that the American people, usually intolerant of State +interference, should in this matter so long have tolerated such +interference in so private a matter.</p> + +<p>The movement of divorce is not confined to Christendom; it is a mark of +modern civilization. In Japan the proportion of divorces is higher than in +any other country, not excluding the United States.<a name='6_FNanchor_349'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_349'><sup>[349]</sup></a> The most vigorous +and progressive countries are those that insist most firmly on the purity +of sexual unions. In the United States it was pointed out many years ago +that divorce is most prevalent where the standard of education and +morality is highest. It was the New England States, with strong Puritanic +traditions of moral freedom, which took the lead in granting facility to +divorce. The divorce movement is not, as some have foolishly supposed, a +movement making for immorality.<a name='6_FNanchor_350'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_350'><sup>[350]</sup></a> Immorality is the inevitable +accompaniment of indissoluble marriage; the emphasis on the sanctity of a +merely formal union discourages the growth of moral responsibility as +regards the hypothetically unholy unions which grow up beneath its shadow. +To insist, on the other hand, by establishing facility of divorce, that +sexual unions shall be real, is to work in the cause of morality. The +lands in which divorce by mutual consent has prevailed longest are +probably among the most, and not the least, moral of lands.</p> + +<p>Surprise has been expressed that although divorce by mutual consent +commended itself as an obviously just and reasonable measure two thousand +years ago to the legally-minded Romans that solution has even yet been so +rarely attained by modern states.<a name='6_FNanchor_351'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_351'><sup>[351]</sup></a> Wherever society is established on +a solidly organized basis and the claims of reason and humanity receive +due consideration—even when the general level of civilization is not <a name='6_Page_461'></a>in +every respect high—there we find a tendency to divorce by mutual consent.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In Japan, according to the new Civil Code, much as in ancient + Rome, marriage is effected by giving notice of the fact to the + registrar in the presence of two witnesses, and with the consent + (in the case of young couples) of the heads of their families. + There may be a ceremony, but it is not demanded by the law. + Divorce is effected in exactly the same way, by simply having the + registration cancelled, provided both husband and wife are over + twenty-five years of age. For younger couples unhappily married, + and for cases in which mutual consent cannot be obtained, + judicial divorce exists. This is granted for various specific + causes, of which the most important is "grave insult, such as to + render living together unbearable" (Ernest W. Clement, "The New + Woman in Japan," <i>American Journal Sociology</i>, March, 1903). Such + a system, like so much else achieved by Japanese organization, + seems reasonable, guarded, and effective.</p> + +<p> In the very different and far more ancient marriage system of + China, divorce by mutual consent is equally well-established. + Such divorce by mutual consent takes place for incompatibility of + temperament, or when both husband and wife desire it. There are, + however, various antiquated and peculiar provisions in the + Chinese marriage laws, and divorce is compulsory for the wife's + adultery or serious physical injuries inflicted by either party + on the other. (The marriage laws of China are fully set forth by + Paul d'Enjoy, <i>La Revue</i>, Sept. 1, 1905.)</p> + +<p> Among the Eskimo (who, as readers of Nansen's fascinating books + on their morals will know, are in some respects a highly + socialized people) the sexes are absolutely equal, marriages are + perfectly free, and separation is equally free. The result is + that there are no uncongenial unions, and that no unpleasant word + is heard between man and wife (Stefánsson, <i>Harper's Magazine</i>, + Nov., 1908).</p> + +<p> Among the ancient Welsh, women, both before and after marriage, + enjoyed great freedom, far more than was afforded either by + Christianity or the English Common law. "Practically either + husband or wife could separate when either one or both chose" + (Rhys and Brynmor-Jones, <i>The Welsh People</i>, p. 214). It was so + also in ancient Ireland. Women held a very high position, and the + marriage tie was very free, so as to be practically, it would + appear, dissoluble by mutual consent. So far as the Brehon laws + show, says Ginnell (<i>The Brehon Laws</i>, p. 212), "the marriage + relation was extremely loose, and divorce was as easy, and could + be obtained on as slight ground, as is now the case in some of + the States of the American Union. It appears to have been + obtained more easily by the wife than by the husband. When + obtained on her petition, she took away with her all the property + she had brought her husband, all <a name='6_Page_462'></a>her husband had settled upon + her on their marriage, and in addition so much of her husband's + property as her industry appeared to have entitled her to."</p> + +<p> Even in early French history we find that divorce by mutual + consent was very common. It was sufficient to prepare in + duplicate a formal document to this effect: "Since between N. and + his wife there is discord instead of charity according to God, + and that in consequence it is impossible for them to live + together, it has pleased both to separate, and they have + accordingly done so." Each of the parties was thus free either to + retire into a cloister or to contract another union (E. de la + Bedollière, <i>Histoire des Mœurs des Français</i>, vol. i, + p. 317). Such a practice, however it might accord with the + germinal principle of consent embodied in the Canon law, was far + too opposed to the ecclesiastical doctrine of the sacramental + indissolubility of matrimony to be permanently allowed, and it + was completely crushed out.</p></div> + +<p>The fact that we so rarely find divorce by mutual consent in Christendom +until the beginning of the nineteenth century, that then it required a man +of stupendous and revolutionary genius like Napoleon to reintroduce it, +and that even he was unable to do so effectually, is clearly due to the +immense victory which the ascetic spirit of Christianity, as firmly +embodied in the Canon law, had gained over the souls and bodies of men. So +subjugated were European traditions and institutions by this spirit that +even the volcanic emotional uprising of the Reformation, as we have seen, +could not shake it off. When Protestant States naturally resumed the +control of secular affairs which had been absorbed by the Church, and +rescued from ecclesiastical hands those things which belonged to the +sphere of the individual conscience, it might have seemed that marriage +and divorce would have been among the first concerns to be thus +transferred. Yet, as we know, England was about as much enslaved to the +spirit and even the letter of Canon law in the nineteenth as in the +fourteenth century, and even to-day English law, though no longer +supported by the feeling of the masses, clings to the same traditions.</p> + +<p>There seems to be little doubt, however, that the modern movement for +divorce must inevitably tend to reach the goal of separation by the will +of both parties, or, under proper conditions <a name='6_Page_463'></a>and restrictions, by the +will of one party. It now requires the will of two persons to form a +marriage; law insists on that condition.<a name='6_FNanchor_352'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_352'><sup>[352]</sup></a> It is logical as well as +just that law should take the next step involved by the historical +evolution of marriage, and equally insist that it requires the will of two +persons to maintain a marriage. This solution is, without doubt, the only +way of deliverance from the crudities, the indecencies, the inextricable +complexities which are introduced into law by the vain attempt to foresee +in detail all the possibilities of conjugal disharmony which may arise +under the conditions of modern civilization. It is, moreover, we may rest +assured, the only solution which the growing modern sense of personal +responsibility in sexual matters traced in the previous chapter—the +responsibility of women as well as of men—will be content to accept.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The subtle and complex character of the sexual relationships in a + high civilization and the unhappy results of their State + regulation were well expressed by Wilhelm von Humboldt in his + <i>Ideen zu einen Versuch die Grenzen der Wirksamkeit des Staates + zu bestimmen</i>, so long ago as 1792. "A union so closely allied + with the very nature of the respective individuals must be + attended with the most hurtful consequences when the State + attempts to regulate it by law, or, through the force of its + institutions, to make it repose on anything save simple + inclination. When we remember, moreover, that the State can only + contemplate the final results of such regulations on the race, we + shall be still more ready to admit the justice of this + conclusion. It may reasonably be argued that a solicitude for the + race only conducts to the same results as the highest solicitude + for the most beautiful development of the inner man. For, after + careful observation, it has been found that the uninterrupted + union of one man with one woman is most beneficial to the race, + and it is likewise undeniable that no other union springs from + true, natural, harmonious love. And further, it may be observed, + that such love leads to the same results as those very relations + which law and custom tend to establish. The radical error seems + to be that the law commands; whereas such a relation cannot mould + itself according to external arrangements, but depends wholly on + inclination; and wherever coercion <a name='6_Page_464'></a>or guidance comes into + collision with inclination, they divert it still farther from the + proper path. Wherefore it appears to me that the State should not + only loosen the bonds in this instance and leave ampler freedom + to the citizen, but that it should entirely withdraw its active + solicitude from the institution of marriage, and, both generally + and in its particular modifications, should rather leave it + wholly to the free choice of the individuals, and the various + contracts they may enter into with respect to it. I should not be + deterred from the adoption of this principle by the fear that all + family relations might be disturbed, for, although such a fear + might be justified by considerations of particular circumstances + and localities, it could not fairly be entertained in an inquiry + into the nature of men and States in general. For experience + frequently convinces us that just where law has imposed no + fetters, morality most surely binds; the idea of external + coercion is one entirely foreign to an institution which, like + marriage, reposes only on inclination and an inward sense of + duty; and the results of such coercive institutions do not at all + correspond to the intentions in which they originate."</p> + +<p> A long succession of distinguished thinkers—moralists, + sociologists, political reformers—have maintained the social + advantages of divorce by mutual consent, or, under guarded + circumstances, at the wish of one party. Mutual consent was the + corner-stone of Milton's conception of marriage. Montesquieu said + that true divorce must be the result of mutual consent and based + on the impossibility of living together. Sénancour seems to agree + with Montesquieu. Lord Morley (<i>Diderot</i>, vol. ii, Ch. I), + echoing and approving the conclusions of Diderot's <i>Supplément au + Voyage de Bougainville</i> (1772), adds that the separation of + husband and wife is "a transaction in itself perfectly natural + and blameless, and often not only laudable, but a duty." Bloch + (<i>Sexual Life of Our Time</i>, p. 240), with many other writers, + emphasizes the truth of Shelley's saying, that the freedom of + marriage is the guarantee of its durability. (That the facts of + life point in the same direction has been shown in the previous + chapter.) The learned Caspari (<i>Die Soziale Frage über die + Freiheit der Ehe</i>), while disclaiming any prevision of the + future, declares that if sexual relationships are to remain or to + become moral, there must be an easier dissolution of marriage. + Howard, at the conclusion of his exhaustive history of + matrimonial institutions (vol. iii p. 220), though he himself + believes that marriage is peculiarly in need of regulation by + law, is yet constrained to admit that it is perfectly clear to + the student of history that the modern divorce movement is "but a + part of the mighty movement for social liberation which has been + gaining in volume and strength since the Reformation." Similarly + the cautious and judicial Westermarck concludes the chapter on + marriage of his <i>Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas</i> (vol. + ii, p. 398) with the <a name='6_Page_465'></a>statement that "when both husband and wife + desire to separate, it seems to many enlightened minds that the + State has no right to prevent them from dissolving the marriage + contract, provided the children are properly cared for; and that, + for the children, also, it is better to have the supervision of + one parent only than of two who cannot agree."</p> + +<p> In France the leaders of the movement of social reform seem to be + almost, or quite, unanimous in believing that the next step in + regard to divorce is the establishment of divorce by mutual + consent. This was, for instance, the result reached in a + symposium to which thirty-one distinguished men and women + contributed. All were in favor of divorce by mutual consent; the + only exception was Madame Adam, who said she had reached a state + of skepticism with regard to political and social forms, but + admitted that for nearly half a century she had been a strong + advocate of divorce. A large number of the contributors were in + favor of divorce at the desire of one party only (<i>La Revue</i>, + March 1, 1901). In other countries, also, there is a growing + recognition that this solution of the question, with due + precautions to avoid any abuses to which it might otherwise be + liable, is the proper and inevitable solution.</p> + +<p> As to the exact method by which divorce by mutual consent should + be effected, opinions differ, and the matter is likely to be + differently arranged in different countries. The Japanese plan + seems simple and judicious (see <i>ante</i>, p. 461). Paul and Victor + Margueritte (<i>Quelques Idées</i>, pp. 3 <i>et seq.</i>), while realizing + that the conflict of feeling in the matter of personal + associations involves decisions which are entirely outside the + competence of legal tribunals, recognize that such tribunals are + necessary in order to deal with the property of divorced persons, + and also, in the last resort, with the question of the care of + the children. They should not act in public. These writers + propose that each party should choose a representative, and that + these two should choose a third; and that this tribunal should + privately investigate, and if they agreed should register the + divorce, which should take place six or twelve months later, or + three years later, if only desired by one of the parties. Dr. + Shufeldt ("Psychopathia Sexualis and Divorce") proposes that a + divorce-court judge should conduct, alone, the hearing of any + cases of marital discord, the husband and wife appearing directly + before him, without counsel, though with their witnesses, if + necessary; should medical experts be required the judge alone + would be empowered to call them.</p></div> + +<p>When we realize that the long delay in the acceptance of so just and +natural a basis of divorce is due to an artificial tension created by the +pressure of the dead hand of Canon law—a tension confined exclusively to +Christendom—we may also realize that with the final disappearance of that +tension the just and natural <a name='6_Page_466'></a>order in this relationship will spring back +the more swiftly because that relief has been so long delayed. "Nature +abhors a vacuum nowhere more than in a marriage," Ellen Key remarks in the +language of antiquated physical metaphor; the vacuum will somehow be +filled, and if it cannot be filled in a natural and orderly manner it will +be filled in an unnatural and disorderly manner. It is the business of +society to see that no laws stand in the way of the establishment of +natural order.</p> + +<p>Reform upon a reasonable basis has been made difficult by the unfortunate +retention of the idea of delinquency. With the traditions of the Canonists +at the back of our heads we have somehow persuaded ourselves that there +cannot be a divorce unless there is a delinquent, a real serious +delinquent who, if he had his deserts, would be imprisoned and consigned +to infamy. But in the marriage relationship, as in all other +relationships, it is only in a very small number of cases that one party +stands towards the other as a criminal, even a defendant. This is often +obvious in the early stages of conjugal alienation. But it remains true in +the end. The wife commits adultery and the husband as a matter of course +assumes the position of plaintiff. But we do not inquire how it is that he +has not so won her love that her adultery is out of the question; such +inquiry might lead to the conclusion that the real defendant is the +husband. And similarly when the husband is accused of brutal cruelty the +law takes no heed to inquire whether in the infliction of less brutal but +not less poignant wounds, the wife also should not be made defendant. +There are a few cases, but only a few, in which the relationship of +plaintiff and defendant is not a totally false and artificial +relationship, an immoral legal fiction. In most cases, if the truth were +fully known, husband and wife should come side by side to the divorce +court and declare: "We are both in the wrong: we have not been able to +fulfil our engagements to each other; we have erred in choosing each +other." The long reports of the case in open court, the mutual +recriminations, the detectives, the servant girls and other witnesses, the +infamous inquisition into intimate secrets—all these things, which no +necessity could ever justify, are altogether unnecessary.</p><a name='6_Page_467'></a> + +<p>It is said by some that if there were no impediments to divorce a man +might be married in succession to half a dozen women. These simple-minded +or ignorant persons do not seem to be aware that even when marriage is +absolutely indissoluble a man can, and frequently does, carry on sexual +relationships not merely successively, but, if he chooses, even +simultaneously, with half a dozen women. There is, however, this important +difference that, in the one case, the man is encouraged by the law to +believe that he need only treat at most one of the six women with anything +approaching to justice and humanity; in the other case the law insists +that he shall fairly and openly fulfil his obligations towards all the six +women. It is a very important difference, and there ought to be no +question as to which state of things is moral and which immoral. It is no +concern of the State to inquire into the number of persons with whom a man +or a woman chooses to have sexual relationships; it is a private matter +which may indeed affect their own finer spiritual development but which it +is impertinent for the State to pry into. It is, however, the concern of +the State, in its own collective interest and that of its members, to see +that no injustice is done.</p> + +<p>But what about the children? That is necessarily a very important +question. The question of the arrangements made for the children in cases +of divorce is always one to which the State must give its regulative +attention, for it is only when there are children that the State has any +real concern in the matter.</p> + +<p>At one time it was even supposed by some that the existence of children +was a serious argument against facility of divorce. A more reasonable view +is now generally taken. It is, in the first place, recognized that a very +large proportion of couples seeking divorce have no children. In England +the proportion is about forty per cent.; in some other countries it is +doubtless larger still. But even when there are children no one who +realizes what the conditions are in families where the parents ought to be +but are not divorced can have any doubt that usually those conditions are +extremely bad for the children. The tension between the parents absorbs +energy which should be devoted to the children. The spectacle of the +grievances or quarrels <a name='6_Page_468'></a>of their parents is demoralizing for the children, +and usually fatal to any respect towards them. At the best it is +injuriously distressing to the children. One effective parent, there +cannot be the slightest doubt, is far better for a child than two +ineffective parents. There is a further point, often overlooked, for +consideration here. Two people when living together at variance—one of +them perhaps, it is not rarely the case, nervously abnormal or +diseased—are not fitted to become parents, nor in the best condition for +procreation. It is, therefore, not merely an act of justice to the +individual, but a measure called for in the interests of the State, that +new citizens should not be brought into the community through such +defective channels.<a name='6_FNanchor_353'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_353'><sup>[353]</sup></a> From this point of view all the interests of the +State are on the side of facility of divorce.</p> + +<p>There is a final argument which is often brought forward against facility +of divorce. Marriage, it is said, is for the protection of women; +facilitate divorce and women are robbed of that protection. It is obvious +that this argument has little application as against divorce by mutual +consent. Certainly it is necessary that divorce should only be arranged +under conditions which in each individual case have received the approval +of the law as just. But it must always be remembered that the essential +fact of marriage is not naturally, and should never artificially be made, +an economic question. It is possible—that is a question which society +will have to consider—that a woman should be paid for being a mother on +the ground that she is rearing new citizens for the State. But neither the +State nor her husband nor anyone else ought to pay her for exercising +conjugal rights. The fact that such an argument can be brought forward +shows how far we are from the sound biological attitude towards sexual +relationships. Equally unsound is the notion that the virgin bride brings +her husband at marriage an important capital which is consumed in the +first act of intercourse and can never be <a name='6_Page_469'></a>recovered. That is a notion +which has survived into civilization, but it belongs to barbarism and not +to civilization. So far as it has any validity it lies within a sphere of +erotic perversity which cannot be taken into consideration in an +estimation of moral values. For most men, however, in any case, whether +they realize it or not, the woman who has been initiated into the +mysteries of love has a higher erotic value than the virgin, and there +need be no anxiety on this ground concerning the wife who has lost her +virginity. It is probably a significant fact that this anxiety for the +protection of women by the limitation of divorce is chiefly brought +forward by men and not by women themselves. A woman at marriage is +deprived by society and the law of her own name. She has been deprived +until recently of the right to her own earnings. She is deprived of the +most intimate rights in her own person. She is deprived under some +circumstances of her own child, against whom she may have committed no +offence whatever. It is perhaps scarcely surprising that she is not +greatly appreciative of the protection afforded her by the withholding of +the right to divorce her husband. "Ah, no, no protection!" a brilliant +French woman has written. "We have been protected long enough. The only +protection to grant women is to cease protecting them."<a name='6_FNanchor_354'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_354'><sup>[354]</sup></a> As a matter +of fact the divorce movement appears to develop, on the whole, with that +development of woman's moral responsibility traced in the previous +chapter, and where divorce is freest women occupy the highest position.</p> + +<p>We cannot fail to realize as we grasp the nature and direction of the +modern movement of divorce that the final tendency of that movement is to +efface itself. Necessary as the Divorce<a name='6_Page_470'></a> Court has been as the inevitable +corollary of an impossible ecclesiastical conception of marriage, no +institution is now more hideous, more alien to the instinctive feelings +generated by a fine civilization, and more opposed to the dignity of +womanhood.<a name='6_FNanchor_355'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_355'><sup>[355]</sup></a> Its disappearance and its substitution by private +arrangements, effected on their contractive sides, especially if there are +children to provide for, under legal and if necessary judicial +supervision, is, and always has been, the natural result of the attainment +of a reasonably high stage of civilization. The Divorce Court has merely +been a phase in the history of modern marriage, and a phase that has +really been repugnant to all concerned in it. There is no need to view the +project of its ultimate disappearance with anything but satisfaction. It +was merely the outcome of an artificial conception of marriage. It is time +to return to the consideration of that conception.</p> + +<p>We have seen that when the Catholic development of the archaic conception +of marriage as a sacrament, slowly elaborated and fossilized by the +ingenuity of the Canonists, was at last nominally dethroned, though not +destroyed, by the movement associated with the Reformation, it was +replaced by the conception of marriage as a contract. This conception of +marriage as a contract still enjoys a considerable amount of credit +amongst us.</p> + +<p>There must always be contractive elements, implicit or explicit, in a +marriage; that was well recognized even by the Canonists. But when we +treat marriage as all contract, and nothing but contract, we have to +realize that we have set up a very peculiar form of contract, not +voidable, like other contracts, by the agreement of the parties to it, but +dissoluble as a sort of punishment of delinquency rather than by the +voluntary annulment of a bond.<a name='6_FNanchor_356'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_356'><sup>[356]</sup></a> When the Protestant Reformers seized +on the <a name='6_Page_471'></a>idea of marriage as a contract they were not influenced by any +reasoned analysis of the special characteristics of a contract; they were +merely anxious to secure a plausible ground, already admitted even by the +Canonists to cover certain aspects of the matrimonial union, on which they +could declare that marriage is a secular and not an ecclesiastical matter, +a civil bond and not a sacramental process.<a name='6_FNanchor_357'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_357'><sup>[357]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Like so much else in the Protestant revolt, the strength of this attitude +lay in the fact that it was a protest, based on its negative side on +reasonable and natural grounds. But while Protestantism was right in its +attempt—for it was only an attempt—to deny the authority of Canon law, +that attempt was altogether unsatisfactory on the positive side. As a +matter of fact marriage is not a true contract and no attempt has ever +been made to convert it into a true contract.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Various writers have treated marriage as an actual contract or + argued that it ought to be converted into a true contract. Mrs. + Mona Caird, for instance ("The Morality of Marriage," + <i>Fortnightly Review</i>, 1890), believes that when marriage becomes + really a contract "a couple would draw up their agreement, or + depute the task to their friends, as is now generally done as + regards marriage settlements. They agree to live together on such + and such terms, making certain stipulations within the limits of + the code." The State, she holds, should, however, demand an + interval of time between notice of divorce and the divorce + itself, if still desired when that interval has passed. + Similarly, in the United States Dr. Shufeldt ("Needed Revision of + the Laws of Marriage and Divorce," <i>Medico-Legal Journal</i>, Dec., + 1897) insists that marriage must be entirely put into the hands + of the legal profession and "made a civil contract, explicit in + detail, and defining terms of divorce, in the event that a + dissolution of the contract is subsequently desired." He adds + that medical certificates of freedom from hereditary and acquired + disease should be required, and properly regulated probationary + marriages also be instituted.</p><a name='6_Page_472'></a> + +<p> In France, a deputy of the Chamber was, in 1891, so convinced + that marriage is a contract, like any other contract, that he + declared that "to perform music at the celebration of a marriage + is as ridiculous as it would be to send for a tenor to a notary's + to celebrate a sale of timber." He was of quite different mind + from Pepys, who, a couple of centuries earlier, had been equally + indignant at the absence of music from a wedding, which, he said, + made it like a coupling of dog and bitch.</p> + +<p> A frequent demand of those who insist that marriage must be + regarded as a contract is marriage contracted for a term of + years. Marriages could be contracted for a term of five years or + less in old Japan, and it is said that they were rarely or never + dissolved at the end of the term. Goethe, in his + <i>Wahlverwandtschaften</i> (Part I, Ch. X) incidentally introduced a + proposal for marriages for a term of five years and attached much + moral significance to the prolongation of the marriage beyond + that term without external compulsion. (Bloch considers that + Goethe had probably heard of the Japanese custom, <i>Sexual Life of + Our Time</i>, p. 241.) Professor E. D. Cope ("The Marriage Problem," + <i>Open Court</i>, Nov. 15 and 22, 1888), likewise, in order to remove + matrimony from the domain of caprice and to permit full and fair + trial, advocated "a system of civil marriage contracts which + shall run for a definite time. These contracts should be of the + same value and effect as the existing marriage contract. The time + limits should be increased rapidly, so as to prevent women of + mature years being deprived of support. The first contract ought + not to run for less than five years, so as to give ample + opportunity for acquaintance, and for the recovery from temporary + disagreements." This first contract, Cope held, should be + terminable at the wish of either party; the second contract, for + ten or fifteen years, should only be terminable at the wish of + both parties, and the third should be permanent and indissoluble. + George Meredith, the distinguished novelist, also, more recently, + threw out the suggestion that marriages should be contracted for + a term of years.</p> + +<p> It can scarcely be said that marriages for a term of years + constitute a very satisfactory solution of the difficulties at + present encountered. They would not commend themselves to young + lovers, who believe that their love is eternal, nor, so long as + the union proves satisfactory, is there any need to introduce the + disturbing idea of a legal termination of the contract. On the + other hand, if the union proves unhappy, it is not reasonable to + insist on the continuation for ten or even five years of an empty + form which corresponds to no real marriage union. Even if + marriage is placed on the most prosaic contractive basis it is a + mistake, and indeed an impossibility, to pre-ordain the length of + its duration. The system of fixing the duration of marriage + beforehand for a term of years involves exactly the same + principle as the system of fixing it beforehand for life. It is + open to the same objection that it is incompatible <a name='6_Page_473'></a>with any + vital relationship. As the demand for vital reality and + effectiveness in social relationships grows, this fact is + increasingly felt. We see exactly the same change among us in + regard to the system of inflicting fixed sentences of + imprisonment on criminals. To send a man to prison for five years + or for life, without any regard to the unknown problem of the + vital reaction of imprisonment on the man—a reaction which will + be different in every individual case—is slowly coming to be + regarded as an absurdity.</p></div> + +<p>If marriage were really placed on the basis of a contract, not only would +that contract be voidable at the will of the two parties concerned, +without any question of delinquency coming into the question, but those +parties would at the outset themselves determine the conditions regulating +the contract. But nothing could be more unlike our actual marriage. The +two parties are bidden to accept each other as husband and wife; they are +not invited to make a contract; they are not even told that, little as +they may know it, they have in fact made a very complicated and elaborate +contract that was framed on lines laid down, for a large part, thousands +of years before they were born. Unless they have studied law they are +totally ignorant, also, that this contract contains clauses which under +some circumstances may be fatal to either of them. All that happens is +that a young couple, perhaps little more than children, momentarily dazed +by emotion, are hurried before the clergyman or the civil registrar of +marriages, to bind themselves together for life, knowing nothing of the +world and scarcely more of each other, knowing nothing also of the +marriage laws, not even perhaps so much as that there are any marriage +laws, never realizing that—as has been truly said—from the place they +are entering beneath a garland of flowers there is, on this side of death, +no exit except through the trapdoor of a sewer.<a name='6_FNanchor_358'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_358'><sup>[358]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>When a woman marries she gives up the right to her own person. + Thus, according to the law of England, a man "cannot be guilty of + a rape upon his lawful wife." Stephen, who, in the first edition + of his<a name='6_Page_474'></a> <i>Digest of Criminal Law</i>, thought that under some + circumstances a man might be indicted for rape upon his wife, in + the last edition withdrew that opinion. A man may rape a + prostitute, but he cannot rape his wife. Having once given her + consent to sexual intercourse by the act of marrying a man, she + has given it forever, whatever new circumstances may arise, and + he has no need to ask her consent to sexual intercourse, not even + if he is knowingly suffering at the time from a venereal disease + (see, <i>e.g.</i>, an article on "Sex Bias," <i>Westminster Review</i>, + March, 1888).</p> + +<p> The duty of the wife to allow "conjugal rights" to her husband is + another aspect of her legal subjection to him. Even in the + nineteenth century a Suffolk lady of good family was imprisoned + in Ipswich Goal for many years and fed on bread and water, though + suffering from various diseases, till she died, simply because + she continued to disregard the decree requiring her to render + conjugal rights to her husband. This state of things was partly + reformed by the Matrimonial Causes Bill of 1884, and that bill + was passed, not to protect women, but men, against punishment for + refusal to restore conjugal rights. Undoubtedly, the modern + tendency, although it has progressed very slowly, is against + applying compulsion to either husband or wife to yield "conjugal + rights;" and since the Jackson case it is not possible in England + for a husband to use force in attempting to compel his wife to + live with him. This tendency is still more marked in the United + States; thus the Iowa Supreme Court, a few years ago, decided + that excessive demands for coitus constituted cruelty of a degree + justifying divorce (J. G. Kiernan, <i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, + Nov. 1906, p. 466).</p> + +<p> The slender tenure of the wife over her person is not confined to + the sexual sphere, but even extends to her right to life. In + England, if a wife kills her husband, it was formerly the very + serious offence of "petit treason," and it is still murder. But, + if a husband kills his wife and is able to plead her adultery and + his jealousy, it is only manslaughter. (In France, where jealousy + is regarded with extreme indulgence, even a wife who kills her + husband is often acquitted.)</p> + +<p> It must not, however, be supposed that all the legal inequalities + involved by marriage are in favor of the husband. A large number + of injustices are also inflicted on the husband. The husband, for + instance, is legally responsible for the libels uttered by his + wife, and he is equally responsible civilly for the frauds she + commits, even if she is living apart from him. (This was, for + instance, held by an English judge in 1908; "he could only say he + regretted it, for it seems a hard case. But it was the law.") + Belfort Bax has, in recent years, especially insisted on the + hardships inflicted by English law in such ways as these. There + can be no doubt that marriage, as at present constituted, + inflicts serious wrongs on the husband as well as on the wife.</p></div><a name='6_Page_475'></a> + +<p>Marriage is, therefore, not only not a contract in the true sense,<a name='6_FNanchor_359'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_359'><sup>[359]</sup></a> +but in the only sense in which it is a contract it is a contract of an +exceedingly bad kind. When the Canonists superseded the old conception of +marriage as a contract of purchase by their sacramental marriage, they +were in many respects effecting a real progress, and the return to the +idea of a contract, as soon as its temporary value as a protest has +ceased, proves altogether out of harmony with any advanced stage of +civilization. It was revived in days before the revolt against slavery had +been inaugurated. Personal contracts are out of harmony with our modern +civilization and our ideas of individual liberty. A man can no longer +contract himself as a slave nor sell his wife. Yet marriage, regarded as a +contract, is of precisely the same class as those transactions.<a name='6_FNanchor_360'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_360'><sup>[360]</sup></a> In +every high stage of civilization this fact is clearly recognized, and +young couples are not even allowed to contract themselves out in marriage +unconditionally. We see this, for instance, in the wise legislation of the +Romans. Even under the Christian Emperors that sound principle was +maintained and the lawyer Paulus wrote:<a name='6_FNanchor_361'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_361'><sup>[361]</sup></a> "Marriage was so free, +according to ancient opinion, that even agreements between the parties not +to separate from one another could have no validity." In so far as the +essence and not any accidental circumstance of the marital relationships +is made a contract, it is a contract of a nature which the two parties +concerned are not competent to make. Biologically and psychologically it +cannot be valid, and with the growth of a humane civilization it is +explicitly declared to be legally invalid.</p> + +<p>For, there can be no doubt about it, the intimate and essential fact of +marriage—the relationship of sexual intercourse—is <a name='6_Page_476'></a>not and cannot be a +contract. It is not a contract but a fact; it cannot be effected by any +mere act of will on the part of the parties concerned; it cannot be +maintained by any mere act of will. To will such a contract is merely to +perform a worse than indecorous farce. Certainly many of the circumstances +of marriage are properly the subject of contract, to be voluntarily and +deliberately made by the parties to the contract. But the essential fact +of marriage—a love strong enough to render the most intimate of +relationships possible and desirable through an indefinite number of +years—cannot be made a matter for contract. Alike from the physical point +of view, and the psychical point of view, no binding contract—and a +contract is worthless if it is not binding—can possibly be made. And the +making of such pseudo-contracts concerning the future of a marriage, +before it has even been ascertained that the marriage can ever become a +fact at all, is not only impossible but absurd.</p> + +<p>It is of course true that this impossibility, this absurdity, are never +visible to the contracting parties. They have applied to the question all +the very restricted tests that are conventionally permitted to them, and +the satisfactory results of these tests, together with the consciousness +of possessing an immense and apparently inexhaustible fund of loving +emotion, seem to them adequate to the fulfilment of the contract +throughout life, if not indeed eternity.</p> + +<p>As a child of seven I chanced to be in a semi-tropical island of the +Pacific supplied with fruit, especially grapes, from the mainland, and a +dusky market woman always presented a large bunch of grapes to the little +English stranger. But a day came when the proffered bunch was firmly +refused; the superabundance of grapes had produced a reaction of disgust. +A space of nearly forty years was needed to overcome the repugnance to +grapes thus acquired. Yet there can be no doubt that if at the age of six +that little boy had been asked to sign a contract binding him to accept +grapes every day, to keep them always near him, to eat them and to enjoy +them every day, he would have signed that contract as joyously as any +radiant bridegroom or demure bride signs the register in the vestry. But +is a complex <a name='6_Page_477'></a>man or woman, with unknown capacities for changing or +deteriorating, and with incalculable aptitudes for inflicting torture and +arousing loathing, is such a creature more easy to be bound to than an +exquisite fruit? All the countries of the world in which the subtle +influence of the Canon law of Christendom still makes itself felt, have +not yet grasped a general truth which is well within the practical +experience of a child of seven.<a name='6_FNanchor_362'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_362'><sup>[362]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The notion that such a relationship as that of marriage can rest + on so fragile a basis as a pre-ordained contract has naturally + never prevailed widely in its extreme form, and has been unknown + altogether in many parts of the world. The Romans, as we know, + explicitly rejected it, and even at a comparatively early period + recognized the legality of marriage by <i>usus</i>, thus declaring in + effect that marriage must be a fact, and not a mere undertaking. + There has been a widespread legal tendency, especially where the + traditions of Roman law have retained any influence, to regard + the cohabitation of marriage as the essential fact of the + relationship. It was an old rule even under the Catholic Church + that marriage may be presumed from cohabitation (see, <i>e.g.</i>, + Zacchia, <i>Questionum Medico-legalium Opus</i>, edition of 1688, vol. + iii, p. 234). Even in England cohabitation is already one of the + presumptions in favor of the existence of marriage (though not + necessarily by itself regarded as sufficient), provided the woman + is of unblemished character, and does not appear to be a common + prostitute (Nevill Geary, <i>The Law of Marriage</i>, Ch. III). If, + however, according to Lord Watson's judicial statement in the + Dysart Peerage case, a man takes his mistress to a hotel or goes + with her to a baby-linen shop and speaks of her as his wife, it + is to be presumed that he is acting for the sake of decency, and + this furnishes no evidence of marriage. In Scotland the + presumption of marriage arises on much slighter grounds than in + England. This may be connected with the ancient and deep-rooted + custom in Scotland of marriage by exchange of consent (Geary, + <i>op. cit.</i> Ch. XVIII; <i>cf.</i>, Howard, <i>Matrimonial Institutions</i>, + vol. i, p. 316).</p> + +<p> In the Bredalbane case (Campbell <i>v.</i> Campbell, 1867), which was + of great importance because it involved the succession to the + vast estates of the Marquis of Bredalbane, the House of Lords + decided than even an adulterous connection may, on ceasing to be + adulterous, become matrimonial <a name='6_Page_478'></a>by the simple consent of the + parties, as evidenced by habit and repute, without any need for + the matrimonial character of the connection to be indicated by + any public act, nor any necessity to prove the specific period + when the consent was interchanged. This decision has been + confirmed in the Dysart case (Geary, <i>loc. cit.</i>; <i>cf.</i> C. G. + Garrison, "Limits of Divorce," <i>Contemporary Review</i>, Feb., + 1894). Similarly, as decided by Justice Kekewich in the Wagstaff + case in 1907, if a man leaves money to his "widow," on condition + that she never marries again, although he has never been married + to her, and though she has been legally married to another man, + the testator's intentions must be upheld. Garrison, in his + valuable discussion of this aspect of legal marriage (<i>loc. + cit.</i>), forcibly insists that by English law marriage is a fact + and not a contract, and that where "conduct characterized by + connubial purpose and constancy" exists, there marriage legally + exists, marriage being simply "a name for an existing fact."</p> + +<p> In the United States, marriage "by habit and repute" similarly + exists, and in some States has even been confirmed and extended + by statute (J. P. Bishop, <i>Commentaries</i>, vol. i, Ch. XV). + "Whatever the form of the ceremony, and even if all ceremony was + dispensed with," said Judge Cooley, of Michigan, in 1875 (in an + opinion accepted as authoritative by the Federal courts), "if the + parties agreed presently to take each other for husband and wife, + and from that time lived together professedly in that relation, + proof of these facts would be sufficient.... This has been the + settled doctrine of the American courts." (Howard, <i>op. cit.</i>, + vol. iii, pp. 177 <i>et seq.</i> Twenty-three States sanction + common-law marriage, while eighteen repudiate, or are inclined to + repudiate, any informal agreement.)</p> + +<p> This legal recognition by the highest judicial authorities, alike + in Great Britain and the United States, that marriage is + essentially a fact, and that no evidence of any form or ceremony + of marriage is required for the most complete legal recognition + of marriage, undoubtedly carries with it highly important + implications. It became clear that the reform of marriage is + possible even without change in the law, and that honorable + sexual relationships, even when entered into without any legal + forms, are already entitled to full legal recognition and + protection. There are, however, it need scarcely be added here, + other considerations which render reform along these lines + incomplete.</p></div> + +<p>It thus tends to come about that with the growth of civilization the +conception of marriage as a contract falls more and more into discredit. +It is realized, on the one hand, that personal contracts are out of +harmony with our general and social attitude, for if we reject the idea of +a human being contracting himself <a name='6_Page_479'></a>as a slave, how much more we should +reject the idea of entering by contract into the still more intimate +relationship of a husband or a wife; on the other hand it is felt that the +idea of pre-ordained contracts on a matter over which the individual +himself has no control is quite unreal and when any strict rules of equity +prevail, necessarily invalid. It is true that we still constantly find +writers sententiously asserting their notions of the duties or the +privileges involved by the "contract" of marriage, with no more attempt to +analyze the meaning of the term "contract" in this connection than the +Protestant Reformers made, but it can scarcely be said that these writers +have yet reached the alphabet of the subject they dogmatize about.</p> + +<p>The transference of marriage from the Church to the State which, in the +lands where it first occurred, we owe to Protestantism and, in the +English-speaking lands, especially to Puritanism, while a necessary stage, +had the unfortunate result of secularizing the sexual relationships. That +is to say, it ignored the transcendent element in love which is really the +essential part of such relationships, and it concentrated attention on +those formal and accidental parts of marriage which can alone be dealt +with in a rigid and precise manner, and can alone properly form the +subject of contracts. The Canon law, fantastic and impossible as it became +in many of its developments, at least insisted on the natural and actual +fact of marriage as, above all, a bodily union, while, at the same time, +it regarded that union as no mere secular business contract but a sacred +and exalted function, a divine fact, and the symbol of the most divine +fact in the world. We are returning to-day to the Canonist's conception of +marriage on a higher and freer plane, bringing back the exalted conception +of the Canon law, yet retaining the individualism which the Puritan +wrongly thought he could secure on the basis of mere secularization, +while, further, we recognize that the whole process belongs to the private +sphere of moral responsibility. As Hobhouse has well said, in tracing the +evolutionary history of the modern conception of marriage, the sacramental +idea of marriage has again emerged but on a higher plane; "from being a +sacrament in the magical, it has become one in the ethical, sense." We are +thus <a name='6_Page_480'></a>tending towards, though we have not yet legally achieved, marriage +made and maintained by consent, "a union between two free and responsible +persons in which the equal rights of both are maintained."<a name='6_FNanchor_363'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_363'><sup>[363]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is supposed by some that to look upon sexual union as a + sacrament is necessarily to accept the ancient Catholic view, + embodied in the Canon law, that matrimony is indissoluble. That + is, however, a mistake. Even the Canonists themselves were never + able to put forward any coherent and consistent ground for the + indissolubility of matrimony which could commend itself + rationally, while Luther and Milton and Wilhelm von Humboldt, who + maintained the religious and sacred nature of sexual + union—though they were cautious about using the term sacrament + on account of its ecclesiastical implications—so far from + believing that its sanctity involved indissolubility, argued in + the reverse sense. This point of view may be defended even from a + strictly Protestant standpoint. "I take it," Mr. G. C. Maberly + says, "that the Prayer Book definition of a sacrament, 'the + outward and visible sign of an inward and spiritual grace,' is + generally accepted. In marriage the legal and physical unions are + the outward and visible signs, while the inward and spiritual + grace is the God-given love that makes the union of heart and + soul: and it is precisely because I take this view of marriage + that I consider the legal and physical union should be dissolved + whenever the spiritual union of unselfish, divine love and + affection has ceased. It seems to me that the sacramental view of + marriage compels us to say that those who continue the legal or + physical union when the spiritual union has ceased, are—to quote + again from the Prayer Book words applied to those who take the + outward sign of another sacrament when the inward and spiritual + grace is not present—'eating and drinking their own damnation.'"</p></div> + +<p>If from the point we have now reached we look back at the question of +divorce we see that, as the modern aspects of the marriage relationship +becomes more clearly realized by the community, that question will be +immensely simplified. Since marriage is not a mere contract but a fact of +conduct, and even a sacred fact, the free participation of both parties is +needed to maintain it. To introduce the idea of delinquency and punishment +into divorce, to foster mutual recrimination, to publish to <a name='6_Page_481'></a>the world the +secrets of the heart or the senses, is not only immoral, it is altogether +out of place. In the question as to when a marriage has ceased to be a +marriage the two parties concerned can alone be the supreme judges; the +State, if the State is called in, can but register the sentence they +pronounce, merely seeing to it that no injustice is involved in the +carrying out of that sentence.<a name='6_FNanchor_364'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_364'><sup>[364]</sup></a></p> + +<p>In discussing in the previous chapter the direction in which sexual +morality tends to develop with the development of civilization we came to +the conclusion that in its main lines it involved, above all, personal +responsibility. A relationship fixed among savage peoples by social custom +which none dare break, and in a higher stage of culture by formal laws +which must be observed in the letter even if broken in the spirit, becomes +gradually transferred to the sphere of individual moral responsibility. +Such a transference is necessarily meaningless, and indeed impossible, +unless the increasing stringency of the moral bond is accompanied by the +decreasing stringency of the formal bond. It is only by the process of +loosening the artificial restraints that the natural restraints can exert +their full control. That process takes place in two ways, in part on the +basis of the indifference to formal marriage which has marked the masses +of the population everywhere and doubtless stretches back to the tenth +century before the domination of ecclesiastical matrimony began, and +partly by the progressive modification of marriage laws which were made +necessary by the needs of the propertied classes anxious to secure the +State recognition of their unions. The whole process is necessarily a +gradual and indeed imperceptible process. It is impossible to fix +definitely the dates of the stages by which the Church effected the +immense revolution by which it grasped, and eventually transferred to the +State, the complete control of marriage, for that revolution was effected +without the intervention of any law. It will be equally difficult to +perceive the transference <a name='6_Page_482'></a>of the control of marriage from the State to +the individuals concerned, and the more difficult because, as we shall +see, although the essential and intimately personal fact of marriage is +not a proper matter for State control, there are certain aspects of +marriage which touch the interests of the community so closely that the +State is bound to insist on their registration and to take an interest in +their settlement.</p> + +<p>The result of dissolving the formal stringency of the marriage +relationship, it is sometimes said, would be a tendency to an immoral +laxity. Those who make this statement overlook the fact that laxity tends +to reach a maximum as a result of stringency, and that where the merely +external authority of a rigid marriage law prevails, there the extreme +excesses of license most flourish. It is also undoubtedly true, and for +the same reason, that any sudden removal of restraints necessarily +involves a reaction to the opposite extreme of license; a slave is not +changed at a stroke into an autonomous freeman. Yet we have to remember +that the marriage order existed for millenniums before any attempt was +made to mould it into arbitrary shapes by human legislation. Such +legislation, we have seen, was indeed the effort of the human spirit to +affirm more emphatically the demands of its own instincts.<a name='6_FNanchor_365'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_365'><sup>[365]</sup></a> But its +final result is to choke and impede rather than to further the instincts +which inspired it. Its gradual disappearance allows the natural order free +and proper scope.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The great truth that compulsion is not really a force on the side + of virtue, but on the side of vice, had been clearly realized by + the genius of Rabelais, when he said of his ideal social state, + the Abbey of Thelema, that there was but one clause in its rule: + Fay ce que vouldras. "Because," said Rabelais (Bk. i, Ch. VII), + "men that are free, well-born, well-bred, and conversant in + honest companies, have naturally an instinct and spur that + prompts them unto virtuous actions and withdraws them from vice. + These same men, when by base subjection and constraint they are + brought under and kept down, turn aside from that noble + disposition by which they freely were inclined to virtue, to + shake off and break that bond of servitude." So that when a man + and a woman who had lived under the rule of Thelema married each + other,<a name='6_Page_483'></a> Rabelais tells us, their mutual love lasted undiminished + to the day of their death.</p> + +<p> When the loss of autonomous freedom fails to lead to licentious + rebellion it incurs the opposite risk and tends to become a + flabby reliance on an external support. The artificial support of + marriage by State regulation then resembles the artificial + support of the body furnished by corset-wearing. The reasons for + and against adopting artificial support are the same in one case + as the other. Corsets really give a feeling of support; they + really furnish without trouble a fairly satisfactory appearance + of decorum; they are a real protection against various accidents. + But the price at which they furnish these advantages is serious, + and the advantages themselves only exist under unnatural + conditions. The corset cramps the form and the healthy + development of the organs; it enfeebles the voluntary muscular + system; it is incompatible with perfect grace and beauty; it + diminishes the sum of active energy. It exerts, in short, the + same kind of influence on physical responsibility as formal + marriage on moral responsibility.</p> + +<p> It is too often forgotten, and must therefore be repeated, that + married people do not remain together because of any religious or + legal tie; that tie is merely the historical outcome of their + natural tendency to remain together, a tendency which is itself + far older than history. "Love would exist in the world to-day, + just as pure and just as enduring," says Shufeldt (<i>Medico-Legal + Journal</i>, Dec., 1897), "had man never invented 'marriage.' Truly + affined mates would have remained faithful to each other as long + as life lasted. It is only when men attempt to improve upon + nature that crime, disease, and unhappiness step in." "The + abolition of marriage in the form now practiced," wrote Godwin + more than a century ago (<i>Political Justice</i>, second edition, + 1796, vol. i, p. 248), "will be attended with no evils. We are + apt to represent it to ourselves as the harbinger of brutal lust + and depravity. But it really happens in this, as in other cases, + that the positive laws which are made to restrain our vices + irritate and multiply them." And Professor Lester Ward, in + insisting on the strength of the monogamic sentiment in modern + society, truly remarks (<i>International Journal of Ethics</i>, Oct., + 1896) that the rebellion against rigid marriage bonds "is, in + reality, due to the very strengthening of the true bonds of + conjugal affection, coupled with a rational and altogether proper + determination on the part of individuals to accept, in so + important a matter, nothing less than the genuine article." "If + by a single stroke," says Professor Woods Hutchinson + (<i>Contemporary Review</i>, Sept., 1905), "all marriage ties now in + existence were struck off or declared illegal, eight-tenths of + all couples would be remarried within forty eight hours, and + seven-tenths could not be kept asunder with bayonets." An + experiment of this kind on a small scale was witnessed in 1909 in + an English village <a name='6_Page_484'></a>in Buckinghamshire. It was found that the + parish church had never been licensed for marriages, and that in + consequence all the people who had gone through the ceremony of + marriage in that church during the previous half century had + never been legally married. Yet, so far as could be ascertained, + not a single couple thus released from the legal compulsion of + marriage took advantage of the freedom bestowed. In the face of + such a fact it is obviously impossible to attach any moral value + to the form of marriage.</p></div> + +<p>It is certainly inevitable that during a period of transition the natural +order is to some extent disturbed by the persistence, even though in a +weakened form, of external bonds which are beginning to be consciously +realized as inimical to the authoritative control of individual moral +responsibility. We can clearly trace this at the present time. A sensitive +anxiety to escape from external constraint induces an under-valuation of +the significance of personal constraint in the relationship of marriage. +Everyone is probably familiar with cases in which a couple will live +together through long years without entering the legal bond of marriage, +notwithstanding difficulties in their mutual relationship which would have +long since caused a separation or a divorce had they been legally married. +When the inherent difficulties of the marital relationship are complicated +by the difficulties due to external constraint, the development of +individual moral responsibility cuts two ways, and leads to results that +are not entirely satisfactory. This has been seen in the United States of +America and attention has often been called to it by thoughtful American +observers. It is, naturally, noted especially in women because it is in +women that the new growth of personal freedom and moral responsibility has +chiefly made itself felt. The first stirring of these new impulses, +especially when associated, as it often is, with inexperience and +ignorance, leads to impatience with the natural order, to a demand for +impossible conditions of existence, and to an inaptitude not only for the +arbitrary bondage of law but even for the wholesome and necessary bonds of +human social life. It is always a hard lesson for the young and idealistic +that in order to command Nature we must obey her; it can only be learnt +through contact with life and by the attainment of full human growth.</p><a name='6_Page_485'></a> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Dr. Felix Adler (in an address before the Society of Ethical + Culture of New York, Nov. 17, 1889) called attention to what he + regarded as the most deep-rooted cause of an undue prevalence of + divorce in America. "The false idea of individual liberty is + largely held in America," and when applied to family life it + often leads to an impatience with these duties which the + individual is either born into or has voluntarily accepted. "I am + constrained to think that the prevalence of divorce is to be + ascribed in no small degree to the influence of democratic + ideas—that is, of false democratic ideas—and our hope lies in + advancing towards a higher and truer democracy." A more recent + American writer, this time a woman, Anna A. Rogers ("Why American + Marriages Fail," <i>Atlantic Monthly</i>, Sept., 1907) speaks in the + same sense, though perhaps in too unqualified a manner. She + states that the frequency of divorce in America is due to three + causes: (1) woman's failure to realize that marriage is her work + in the world; (2) her growing individualism; (3) her lost art of + giving, replaced by a highly developed receptive faculty. The + American woman, this writer states, in discovering her own + individuality has not yet learnt how to manage it; it is still + "largely a useless, uneasy factor, vouchsafing her very little + more peace than it does those in her immediate surcharged + vicinity." Her circumstances tend to make of her "a curious + anomalous hybrid; a cross between a magnificent, rather + unmannerly boy, and a spoiled, exacting <i>demi-mondaine</i>, who + sincerely loves in this world herself alone." She has not yet + learnt that woman's supreme work in the world can only be + attained through the voluntary acceptance of the restraints of + marriage. The same writer points out that the fault is not alone + with American women, but also with American men. Their idolatry + of their women is largely responsible for that intolerance and + selfishness which causes so many divorces; "American women are, + as a whole, pampered and worshipped out of all reason." But the + men, who lend themselves to this, do not feel that they can treat + their wives with the same comradeship as the French treat their + wives, nor seek their advice with the same reliance; the American + woman is placed on an unreal pedestal. Yet another American + writer, Rafford Pyke ("Husbands and Wives," <i>Cosmopolitan</i>, + 1902), points out that only a small proportion of American + marriages are really unhappy, these being chiefly among the more + cultured classes, in which the movement of expansion in women's + interests and lives is taking place; it is more often the wife + than the husband who is disappointed in marriage, and this is + largely due to her inability to merge, not necessarily + subordinate, her individuality in an equal union with his. + "Marriage to-day is becoming more and more dependent for its + success upon the adjustment of conditions that are psychical. + Whereas in former generations it was sufficient that the union + should involve physical reciprocity, in this age of ours <a name='6_Page_486'></a>the + union must involve a psychic reciprocity as well. And whereas, + heretofore, the community of interest was attained with ease, it + is now becoming far more difficult because of the tendency to + discourage a woman who marries from merging her separate + individuality in her husband's. Yet, unless she does this, how + can she have a complete and perfect interest in the life + together, and, for that matter, how can he have such an interest + either?"</p> + +<p> Professor Münsterberg, the distinguished psychologist, in his + frank but appreciative study of American institutions, <i>The + Americans</i>, taking a broader outlook, points out that the + influence of women on morals in America has not been in every + respect satisfactory, in so far as it has tended to encourage + shallowness and superficiality. "The American woman who has + scarcely a shred of education," he remarks (p. 587), "looks in + vain for any subject on which she has not firm convictions + already at hand.... The arrogance of this feminine lack of + knowledge is the symptom of a profound trait in the feminine + soul, and points to dangers springing from the domination of + women in the intellectual life.... And in no other civilized land + are ethical conceptions so worm-eaten by superstitions."</p></div> + +<p>We have seen that the modern tendency as regards marriage is towards its +recognition as a voluntary union entered into by two free, equal, and +morally responsible persons, and that that union is rather of the nature +of an ethical sacrament than of a contract, so that in its essence as a +physical and spiritual bond it is outside the sphere of the State's +action. It has been necessary to labor that point before we approach what +may seem to many not only a different but even a totally opposed aspect of +marriage. If the marriage union itself cannot be a matter for contract, it +naturally leads to a fact which must necessarily be a matter for implicit +or explicit contract, a matter, moreover, in which the community at large +has a real and proper interest: that is the fact of procreation.<a name='6_FNanchor_366'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_366'><sup>[366]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The ancient Egyptians—among whom matrimonial institutions were so elastic +and the position of woman so high—recognized a provisional and slight +marriage bond for the purpose of <a name='6_Page_487'></a>testing fecundity.<a name='6_FNanchor_367'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_367'><sup>[367]</sup></a> Among ourselves +the law makes no such paternal provision, leaving to young couples +themselves the responsibility of making any tests, a permission, we know, +they largely avail themselves of, usually entering the legal bonds of +marriage, however, before the birth of their child. That legal bond is a +recognition that the introduction of a new individual into the community +is not, like sexual union, a mere personal fact, but a social fact, a fact +in which the State cannot fail to be concerned. And the more we +investigate the tendency of the modern marriage movement the more we shall +realize that its attitude of freedom, of individual moral responsibility, +in the formation of sexual relationships, is compensated by an attitude of +stringency, of strict social oversight, in the matter of procreation. Two +people who form an erotic relationship are bound, when they reach the +conviction that their relationship is a real marriage, having its natural +end in procreation, to subscribe to a contract which, though it may leave +themselves personally free, must yet bind them both to their duties +towards their children.<a name='6_FNanchor_368'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_368'><sup>[368]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The necessity for such an undertaking is double, even apart from the fact +that it is in the highest interests of the parents themselves. It is +required in the interests of the child. It is required in the interests of +the State. A child can be bred, and well-bred, by one effective parent. +But to equip a child adequately for its entrance into life both parents +are usually needed. The State on its side—that is to say, the community +of which parents and child alike form part—is bound to know who these +persons are who have become sponsors for a new individual <a name='6_Page_488'></a>now introduced +into its midst. The most Individualistic State, the most Socialistic +State, are alike bound, if faithful to the interests, both biological and +economic, of their constituent members generally, to insist on the full +legal and recognized parentage of the father and mother of every child. +That is clearly demanded in the interests of the child; it is clearly +demanded also in the interests of the State.</p> + +<p>The barrier which in Christendom has opposed itself to the natural +recognition of this fact, so injuring alike the child and the State, has +clearly been the rigidity of the marriage system, more especially as +moulded by the Canon law. The Canonists attributed a truly immense +importance to the <i>copula carnalis</i>, as they technically termed it. They +centred marriage strictly in the vagina; they were not greatly concerned +about either the presence or the absence of the child. The vagina, as we +know, has not always proved a very firm centre for the support of +marriage, and that centre is now being gradually transferred to the child. +If we turn from the Canonists to the writings of a modern like Ellen Key, +who so accurately represents much that is most characteristic and +essential in the late tendencies of marriage development, we seem to have +entered a new world, even a newly illuminated world. For "in the new +sexual morality, as in Corregio's <i>Notte</i>, the light emanates from the +child."<a name='6_FNanchor_369'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_369'><sup>[369]</sup></a></p> + +<p>No doubt this change is largely a matter of sentiment, of, as we sometimes +say, mere sentiment, although there is nothing so powerful in human +affairs as sentiment, and the revolution effected by Jesus, the later +revolution effected by Rousseau, were mainly revolutions in sentiment. But +the change is also a matter of the growing recognition of interests and +rights, and as such it manifests itself in law. We can scarcely doubt that +we are approaching a time when it will be generally understood that the +entrance into the world of every child, without exception, should be +preceded by the formation of a marriage contract which, while in no way +binding the father and mother to any duties, or any privileges, towards +each other, binds them both towards <a name='6_Page_489'></a>their child and at the same time +ensures their responsibility towards the State. It is impossible for the +State to obtain more than this, but it should be impossible for it to +demand less. A contract of such a kind "marries" the father and mother so +far as the parentage of the individual child is concerned, and in no other +respect; it is a contract which leaves entirely unaffected their past, +present, or future relations towards other persons, otherwise it would be +impossible to enforce it. In all parts of the world this elementary demand +of social morality is slowly beginning to be recognized, and as it affects +hundreds of thousands of infants<a name='6_FNanchor_370'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_370'><sup>[370]</sup></a> who are yearly branded as +"illegitimate" through no act of their own, no one can say that the +recognition has come too soon. As yet, indeed, it seems nowhere to be +complete.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Most attempts or proposals for the avoidance of illegitimate + births are concerned with the legalizing of unions of a less + binding degree than the present legal marriage. Such unions would + serve to counteract other evils. Thus an English writer, who has + devoted much study to sex questions, writes in a private letter: + "The best remedy for the licentiousness of celibate men and the + mental and physical troubles of continence in woman would be + found in a recognized honorable system of free unions and + trial-marriages, in which preventive intercourse is practiced + until the lovers were old enough to become parents, and possessed + of sufficient means to support a family. The prospect of a + loveless existence for young men and women of ardent natures is + intolerable and as terrible as the prospect of painful illness + and death. But I think the old order must change ere long."</p> + +<p> In Teutonic countries there is a strongly marked current of + feeling in the direction of establishing legal unions of a lower + degree than marriage. They exist in Sweden, as also in Norway + where by a recent law the illegitimate child is entitled to the + same rights in relation to both parents as the legitimate child, + bearing the father's name and inheriting his property (<i>Die Neue + Generation</i>, July, 1909, p. 303). In France the well-known judge, + Magnard, so honorably distinguished for his attitude towards + cases of infanticide by young mothers, has said: "I heartily wish + that alongside the institution of marriage as it now exists <a name='6_Page_490'></a>we + had a free union constituted by simple declaration before a + magistrate and conferring almost the same family rights as + ordinary marriage." This wish has been widely echoed.</p> + +<p> In China, although polygamy in the strict sense cannot properly + be said to exist, the interests of the child, the woman, and the + State are alike safeguarded by enabling a man to enter into a + kind of secondary marriage with the mother of his child. "Thanks + to this system," Paul d'Enjoy states (<i>La Revue</i>, Sept., 1905), + "which allows the husband to marry the woman he desires, without + being prevented by previous and undissolved unions, it is only + right to remark that there are no seduced and abandoned girls, + except such as no law could save from what is really innate + depravity; and that there are no illegitimate children except + those whose mothers are unhappily nearer to animals by their + senses than to human beings by their reason and dignity."</p> + +<p> The new civil code of Japan, which is in many respects so + advanced, allows an illegitimate child to be "recognized" by + giving notice to the registrar; when a married man so recognizes + a child, it appears, the child may be adopted by the wife as her + own, though not actually rendered legitimate. This state of + things represents a transition stage; it can scarcely be said to + recognize the rights of the "recognized" child's mother. Japan, + it may be added, has adopted the principle of the automatic + legitimation by marriage of the children born to the couple + before marriage.</p> + +<p> In Australia, where women possess a larger share than elsewhere + in making and administering the laws, some attention is beginning + to be given to the rights of illegitimate children. Thus in South + Australia, paternity may be proved before birth, and the father + (by magistrate's order) provides lodging for one month before and + after birth, as well as nurse, doctor, and clothing, furnishing + security that he will do so; after birth, at the magistrate's + decision, he pays a weekly sum for the child's maintenance. An + "illegitimate" mother may also be kept in a public institution at + the public expense for six months to enable her to become + attached to her child.</p> + +<p> Such provisions are developed from the widely recognized right of + the unmarried woman to claim support for her child from its + father. In France, indeed, and in the legal codes which follow + the French example, it is not legally permitted to inquire into + the paternity of an illegitimate child. Such a law is, needless + to say, alike unjust to the mother, to the child, and to the + State. In Austria, the law goes to the opposite, though certainly + more reasonable, extreme, and permits even the mother who has had + several lovers to select for herself which she chooses to make + responsible for her child. The German code adopts an intermediate + course, and comes only to the aid of the unmarried mother who has + one lover. In all such cases, however, the aid given is + <a name='6_Page_491'></a>pecuniary only; it insures the mother no recognition or respect, + and (as Wahrmund has truly said in his <i>Ehe und Eherecht</i>) it is + still necessary to insist on "the unconditional sanctity of + motherhood, which is entitled, under whatever circumstances it + arises, to the respect and protection of society."</p> + +<p> It must be added that, from the social point of view, it is not + the sexual union which requires legal recognition, but the child + which is the product of that union. It would, moreover, be + hopeless to attempt to legalize all sexual connection, but it is + comparatively easy to legalize all children.</p></div> + +<p>There has been much discussion in the past concerning the particular form +which marriage ought to take. Many theorists have exercised their +ingenuity in inventing and preaching new and unusual marriage-arrangements +as panaceas for social ills; while others have exerted even greater energy +in denouncing all such proposals as subversive of the foundations of human +society. We may regard all such discussions, on the one side or the other, +as idle.</p> + +<p>In the first place marriage customs are far too fundamental, far too +intimately blended with the primary substance of human and indeed animal +society, to be in the slightest degree shaken by the theories or the +practices of mere individuals, or even groups of individuals. +Monogamy—the more or less prolonged cohabitation of two individuals of +opposite sex—has been the prevailing type of sexual relationship among +the higher vertebrates and through the greater part of human history. This +is admitted even by those who believe (without any sound evidence) that +man has passed through a stage of sexual promiscuity. There have been +tendencies to variation in one direction or another, but at the lowest +stages and the highest stages, so far as can be seen, monogamy represents +the prevailing rule.</p> + +<p>It must be said also, in the second place, that the natural prevalence of +monogamy as the normal type of sexual relationship by no means excludes +variations. Indeed it assumes them. "There is nothing precise in Nature," +according to Diderot's saying. The line of Nature is a curve that +oscillates from side to side of the norm. Such oscillations inevitably +occur in harmony with changes in environmental conditions, and, no <a name='6_Page_492'></a>doubt, +with peculiarities of personal disposition. So long as no arbitrary and +merely external attempt is made to force Nature, the vital order is +harmoniously maintained. Among certain species of ducks when males are in +excess polyandric families are constituted, the two males attending their +female partner without jealousy, but when the sexes again become equal in +number the monogamic order is restored. The natural human deviations from +the monogamic order seem to be generally of this character, and largely +conditioned by the social and economic environment. The most common +variation, and that which most clearly possesses a biological foundation, +is the tendency to polygyny, which is found at all stages of culture, +even, in an unrecognized and more or less promiscuous shape, in the +highest civilization.<a name='6_FNanchor_371'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_371'><sup>[371]</sup></a> It must be remembered, however, that recognized +polygyny is not the rule even where it prevails; it is merely permissive; +there is never a sufficient excess of women to allow more than a few of +the richer and more influential persons to have more than one wife.<a name='6_FNanchor_372'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_372'><sup>[372]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It has further to be borne in mind that a certain elasticity of the formal +side of marriage while, on the one side, it permits variations from the +general monogamic order, where such are healthful or needed to restore a +balance in natural conditions, on the other hand restrains such variations +in so far as they are due to the disturbing influence of artificial +constraint. Much of the polygyny, and polyandry also, which prevails among +us to-day is an altogether artificial and unnatural form of polygamy. +Marriages which on a more natural basis would be dissolved cannot legally +be dissolved, and consequently the parties to them, <a name='6_Page_493'></a>instead of changing +their partners and so preserving the natural monogamic order, take on +other additional partners and so introduce an unnatural polygamy. There +will always be variations from the monogamic order and civilization is +certainly not hostile to sexual variation. Whether we reckon these +variations as legitimate or illegitimate, they will still take place; of +that we may be certain. The path of social wisdom seems to lie on the one +hand in making the marriage relationship flexible enough to reduce to a +minimum these deviations—not because such deviations are intrinsically +bad but because they ought not to be forced into existence—and on the +other hand in according to these deviations when they occur such a measure +of recognition as will deprive them of injurious influence and enable +justice to be done to all the parties concerned. We too often forget that +our failure to recognize such variations merely means that we accord in +such cases an illegitimate permission to perpetrate injustice. In those +parts of the world in which polygyny is recognized as a permissible +variation a man is legally held to his natural obligations towards all his +sexual mates and towards the children he has by those mates. In no part of +the world is polygyny so prevalent as in Christendom; in no part of the +world is it so easy for a man to escape the obligations incurred by +polygyny. We imagine that if we refuse to recognize the fact of polygyny, +we may refuse to recognize any obligations incurred by polygyny. By +enabling a man to escape so easily from the obligations of his polygamous +relationships we encourage him, if he is unscrupulous, to enter into them; +we place a premium on the immorality we loftily condemn.<a name='6_FNanchor_373'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_373'><sup>[373]</sup></a> Our polygyny +has no legal existence, and therefore its obligations can have no legal +existence.<a name='6_Page_494'></a> The ostrich, it was once imagined, hides its head in the sand +and attempts to annihilate facts by refusing to look at them; but there is +only one known animal which adopts this course of action, and it is called +Man.</p> + +<p>Monogamy, in the fundamental biological sense, represents the natural +order into which the majority of sexual facts will always naturally fall +because it is the relationship which most adequately corresponds to all +the physical and spiritual facts involved. But if we realize that sexual +relationships primarily concern only the persons who enter into those +relationships, and if we further realize that the interest of society in +such relationships is confined to the children which they produce, we +shall also realize that to fix by law the number of women with whom a man +shall have sexual relationships, and the number of men with whom a woman +shall unite herself, is more unreasonable than it would be to fix by law +the number of children they shall produce. The State has a right to +declare whether it needs few citizens or many; but in attempting to +regulate the sexual relationships of its members the State attempts an +impossible task and is at the same time guilty of an impertinence.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>There is always a tendency, at certain stages of civilization, to + insist on a merely formal and external uniformity, and a + corresponding failure to see not only that such uniformity is + unreal, but also that it has an injurious effect, in so far as it + checks beneficial variations. The tendency is by no means + confined to the sexual sphere. In England there is, for instance, + a tendency to make building laws which enjoin, in regard to + places of human habitation, all sorts of provisions that on the + whole are fairly beneficial, but which in practice act + injuriously, because they render many simple and excellent human + habitations absolutely illegal, merely because such habitations + fail to conform to regulations which, under some circumstances, + are not only unnecessary, but mischievous.</p> + +<p> Variation is a fact that will exist whether we will or no; it can + only become healthful if we recognize and allow for it. We may + even have to recognize that it is a more marked tendency in + civilization than in more primitive social stages. Thus Gerson + argues (<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Sept., 1908, p. 538) that just as the + civilized man cannot be content with the coarse and monotonous + food which satisfies the peasant, so it is in sexual matters; the + peasant youth and girl in their sexual relationships <a name='6_Page_495'></a>are nearly + always monogamous, but civilized people, with their more + versatile and sensitive tastes, are apt to crave for variety. + Sénancour (<i>De l'Amour</i>, vol. ii, "Du Partage," p. 127) seems to + admit the possibility of marriage variations, as of sharing a + wife, provided nothing is done to cause rivalry, or to impair the + soul's candor. Lecky, near the end of his <i>History of European + Morals</i>, declared his belief that, while the permanent union of + two persons is the normal and prevailing type of marriage, it by + no means follows that, in the interests of society, it should be + the only form. Remy de Gourmont similarly (<i>Physique de l'Amour</i>, + p. 186), while stating that the couple is the natural form of + marriage and its prolonged continuance a condition of human + superiority, adds that the permanence of the union can only be + achieved with difficulty. So, also, Professor W. Thomas (<i>Sex and + Society</i>, 1907, p. 193), while regarding monogamy as subserving + social needs, adds: "Speaking from the biological standpoint + monogamy does not, as a rule, answer to the conditions of highest + stimulation, since here the problematical and elusive elements + disappear to some extent, and the object of attention has grown + so familiar in consciousness that the emotional reactions are + qualified. This is the fundamental explanation of the fact that + married men and women frequently become interested in others than + their partners in matrimony."</p> + +<p> Pepys, whose unconscious self-dissection admirably illustrates so + many psychological tendencies, clearly shows how—by a logic of + feeling deeper than any intellectual logic—the devotion to + monogamy subsists side by side with an irresistible passion for + sexual variety. With his constantly recurring wayward attraction + to a long series of women he retains throughout a deep and + unchanging affection for his charming young wife. In the privacy + of his <i>Diary</i> he frequently refers to her in terms of endearment + which cannot be feigned; he enjoys her society; he is very + particular about her dress; he delights in her progress in music, + and spends much money on her training; he is absurdly jealous + when he finds her in the society of a man. His subsidiary + relationships with other women recur irresistibly, but he has no + wish either to make them very permanent or to allow them to + engross him unduly. Pepys represents a common type of civilized + "monogamist" who is perfectly sincere and extremely convinced in + his advocacy of monogamy, as he understands it, but at the same + time believes and acts on the belief that monogamy by no means + excludes the need for sexual variation. Lord Morley's statement + (<i>Diderot</i>, vol. ii, p. 20) that "man is instinctively + polygamous," can by no means be accepted, but if we interpret it + as meaning that man is an instinctively monogamous animal with a + concomitant desire for sexual variation, there is much evidence + in its favor.</p> + +<p> Women must be as free as men to mould their own amatory life. + Many consider, however, that such freedom on the part of women + will <a name='6_Page_496'></a>be, and ought to be, exercised within narrower limits (see, + <i>e.g.</i>, Bloch, <i>Sexual Life of Our Time</i>, Ch. X). In part this + limitation is considered due to the greater absorption of a woman + in the task of breeding and rearing her child, and in part to a + less range of psychic activities. A man, as G. Hirth puts it, + expressing this view of the matter (<i>Wege zur Liebe</i>, p. 342), + "has not only room in his intellectual horizon for very various + interests, but his power of erotic expansion is much greater and + more differentiated than that of women, although he may lack the + intimacy and depth of a woman's devotion."</p> + +<p> It may be argued that, since variations in the sexual order will + inevitably take place, whether or not they are recognized or + authorized, no harm is likely to be done by using the weight of + social and legal authority on the side of that form which is + generally regarded as the best, and, so far as possible, covering + the other forms with infamy. There are many obvious defects in + such an attitude, apart from the supremely important fact that to + cast infamy on sexual relationships is to exert a despicable + cruelty on women, who are inevitably the chief sufferers. Not the + least is the injustice and the hampering of vital energy which it + inflicts on the better and more scrupulous people to the + advantage of the worse and less scrupulous. This always happens + when authority exerts its power in favor of a form. When, in the + thirteenth century, Alexander III—one of the greatest and most + effective potentates who ever ruled Christendom—was consulted by + the Bishop of Exeter concerning subdeacons who persisted in + marrying, the Pope directed him to inquire into the lives and + characters of the offenders; if they were of regular habits and + staid morality, they were to be forcibly separated and the wives + driven out; if they were men of notoriously disorderly character, + they were to be permitted to retain their wives, if they so + desired (Lea, <i>History of Sacerdotal Celibacy</i>, third edition, + vol. i, p. 396). It was an astute policy, and was carried out by + the same Pope elsewhere, but it is easy to see that it was + altogether opposed to morality in every sense of the term. It + destroyed the happiness and the efficiency of the best men; it + left the worst men absolutely free. To-day we are quite willing + to recognize the evil result of this policy; it was dictated by a + Pope and carried out seven hundred years ago. Yet in England we + carry out exactly the same policy to-day by means of our + separation orders, which are scattered broadcast among the + population. None of the couples thus separated—and never + disciplined to celibacy as are the Catholic clergy of to-day—may + marry again; we, in effect, bid the more scrupulous among them to + become celibates, and to the less scrupulous we grant permission + to do as they like. This process is carried on by virtue of the + collective inertia of the community, and when it is supported by + arguments, if that ever happens, they are of an antiquarian + character which can only call forth a pitying smile.</p><a name='6_Page_497'></a> + +<p> It may be added that there is a further reason why the custom of + branding sexual variations from the norm as "immoral" is not so + harmless as some affect to believe: such variations appear to be + not uncommon among men and women of superlative ability whose + powers are needed unimpeded in the service of mankind. To attempt + to fit such persons into the narrow moulds which suit the + majority is not only an injustice to them as individuals, but it + is an offence against society, which may fairly claim that its + best members shall not be hampered in its service. The notion + that the person whose sexual needs differ from those of the + average is necessarily a socially bad person, is a notion + unsupported by facts. Every case must be judged on its own + merits.</p></div> + +<p>Undoubtedly the most common variation from normal monogamy has in all +stages of human culture been polygyny or the sexual union of one man with +more than one woman. It has sometimes been socially and legally +recognized, and sometimes unrecognized, but in either case it has not +failed to occur. Polyandry, or the union of a woman with more than one +man, has been comparatively rare and for intelligible reasons: men have +most usually been in a better position, economically and legally, to +organize a household with themselves as the centre; a woman is, unlike a +man, by nature and often by custom unfitted for intercourse for +considerable periods at a time; a woman, moreover, has her thoughts and +affections more concentrated on her children. Apart from this the +biological masculine traditions point to polygyny much more than the +feminine traditions point to polyandry. Although it is true that a woman +can undergo a much greater amount of sexual intercourse than a man, it +also remains true that the phenomena of courtship in nature have made it +the duty of the male to be alert in offering his sexual attention to the +female, whose part it has been to suspend her choice coyly until she is +sure of her preference. Polygynic conditions have also proved +advantageous, as they have permitted the most vigorous and successful +members of a community to have the largest number of mates and so to +transmit their own superior qualities.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"Polygamy," writes Woods Hutchinson (<i>Contemporary Review</i>, Oct., + 1904), though he recognizes the advantages of monogamy, "as a + racial institution, among animals as among men, has many solid + and <a name='6_Page_498'></a>weighty considerations in its favor, and has resulted in + both human and pre-human times, in the production of a very high + type of both individual and social development." He points out + that it promotes intelligence, coöperation, and division of + labor, while the keen competition for women weeds out the weaker + and less attractive males.</p> + +<p> Among our European ancestors, alike among Germans and Celts, + polygyny and other sexual forms existed as occasional variations. + Tacitus noted polygyny in Germany, and Cæsar found in Britain + that brothers would hold their wives in common, the children + being reckoned to the man to whom the woman had been first given + in marriage (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Traill's <i>Social England</i>, vol. i, p. + 103, for a discussion of this point). The husband's assistant, + also, who might be called in to impregnate the wife when the + husband was impotent, existed in Germany, and was indeed a + general Indo-Germanic institution (Schrader, <i>Reallexicon</i>, art. + "Zeugungshelfer"). The corresponding institution of the concubine + has been still more deeply rooted and widespread. Up to + comparatively modern times, indeed, in accordance with the + traditions of Roman law, the concubine held a recognized and + honorable position, below that of a wife but with definite legal + rights, though it was not always, or indeed usually, legal for a + married man to have a concubine. In ancient Wales, as well as in + Rome, the concubine was accepted and never despised (R. B. Holt, + "Marriage Laws of the Cymri," <i>Journal Anthropological + Institute</i>, Aug. and Nov., 1898, p. 155). The fact that when a + concubine entered the house of a married man her dignity and + legal position were less than those of the wife preserved + domestic peace and safeguarded the wife's interests. (A Korean + husband cannot take a concubine under his roof without his wife's + permission, but she rarely objects, and seems to enjoy the + companionship, says Louise Jordan Miln, <i>Quaint Korea</i>, 1895, p. + 92.) In old Europe, we must remember, as Dufour points out in + speaking of the time of Charlemagne (<i>Histoire de la + Prostitution</i>, vol. iii, p. 226), "concubine" was an honorable + term; the concubine was by no means a mistress, and she could be + accused of adultery just the same as a wife. In England, late in + the thirteenth century, Bracton speaks of the <i>concubina + legitima</i> as entitled to certain rights and considerations, and + it was the same in other parts of Europe, sometimes for several + centuries later (see Lea, <i>History of Sacerdotal Celibacy</i>, vol. + i, p. 230). The early Christian Church was frequently inclined to + recognize the concubine, at all events if attached to an + unmarried man, for we may trace in the Church "the wish to look + upon every permanent union of man or woman as possessing the + character of a marriage in the eyes of God, and, therefore, in + the judgment of the Church" (art. "Concubinage," Smith and + Cheetham, <i>Dictionary of Christian Antiquities</i>). This was the + feeling of St. Augustine (who had himself, before his conversion, + had a concubine who was apparently a Christian), and <a name='6_Page_499'></a>the Council + of Toledo admitted an unmarried man who was faithful to a + concubine. As the law of the Catholic Church grew more and more + rigid, it necessarily lost touch with human needs. It was not so + in the early Church during the great ages of its vital growth. In + those ages even the strenuous general rule of monogamy was + relaxed when such relaxation seemed reasonable. This was so, for + instance, in the case of sexual impotency. Thus early in the + eighth century Gregory II, writing to Boniface, the apostle of + Germany, in answer to a question by the latter, replies that when + a wife is incapable from physical infirmity from fulfilling her + marital duties it is permissible for the husband to take a second + wife, though he must not withdraw maintenance from the first. A + little later Archbishop Egbert of York, in his <i>Dialogus de + Institutione Ecclesiastica</i>, though more cautiously, admits that + when one of two married persons is infirm the other, with the + permission of the infirm one, may marry again, but the infirm one + is not allowed to marry again during the other's life. Impotency + at the time of marriage, of course, made the marriage void + without the intervention of any ecclesiastical law. But Aquinas, + and later theologians, allow that an excessive disgust for a wife + justifies a man in regarding himself as impotent in relation to + her. These rules are, of course, quite distinct from the + permissions to break the marriage laws granted to kings and + princes; such permissions do not count as evidence of the + Church's rules, for, as the Council of Constantinople prudently + decided in 809, "Divine law can do nothing against Kings" (art. + "Bigamy," <i>Dictionary of Christian Antiquities</i>). The law of + monogamy was also relaxed in cases of enforced or voluntary + desertion. Thus the Council of Vermerie (752) enacted that if a + wife will not accompany her husband when he is compelled to + follow his lord into another land, he may marry again, provided + he sees no hope of returning. Theodore of Canterbury (688), + again, pronounces that if a wife is carried away by the enemy and + her husband cannot redeem her, he may marry again after an + interval of a year, or, if there is a chance of redeeming her, + after an interval of five years; the wife may do the same. Such + rules, though not general, show, as Meyrick points out (art. + "Marriage," <i>Dictionary of Christian Antiquities</i>), a willingness + "to meet particular cases as they arise."</p> + +<p> As the Canon law grew rigid and the Catholic Church lost its + vital adaptibility, sexual variations ceased to be recognized + within its sphere. We have to wait for the Reformation for any + further movement. Many of the early Protestant Reformers, + especially in Germany, were prepared to admit a considerable + degree of vital flexibility in sexual relationships. Thus Luther + advised married women with impotent husbands, in cases where + there was no wish or opportunity for divorce, to have sexual + relations with another man, by preference the husband's brother; + the children were to be reckoned to the husband ("Die Sexuelle + Frage bei Luther," <i>Mutterschutz</i>, Sept., 1908).</p><a name='6_Page_500'></a> + +<p> In England the Puritan spirit, which so largely occupied itself + with the reform of marriage, could not fail to be concerned with + the question of sexual variations, and from time to time we find + the proposal to legalize polygyny. Thus, in 1658, "A Person of + Quality" published in London a small pamphlet dedicated to the + Lord Protector, entitled <i>A Remedy for Uncleanness</i>. It was in + the form of a number of queries, asking why we should not admit + polygamy for the avoidance of adultery and infanticide. The + writer inquires whether it may not "stand with a gracious spirit, + and be every way consistent with the principles of a man fearing + God and loving holiness, to have more women than one to his + proper use.... He that takes another man's ox or ass is doubtless + a transgressor; but he that puts himself out of the occasion of + that temptation by keeping of his own seems to be a right honest + and well-meaning man."</p> + +<p> More than a century later (1780), an able, learned, and + distinguished London clergyman of high character (who had been a + lawyer before entering the Church), the Rev. Martin Madan, also + advocated polygamy in a book called <i>Thelyphthora; or, a Treatise + on Female Ruin</i>. Madan had been brought into close contact with + prostitution through a chaplaincy at the Lock Hospital, and, like + the Puritan advocate of polygamy, he came to the conclusion that + only by the reform of marriage is it possible to work against + prostitution and the evils of sexual intercourse outside + marriage. His remarkable book aroused much controversy and strong + feeling against the author, so that he found it desirable to + leave London and settle in the country. Projects of marriage + reform have never since come from the Church, but from + philosophers and moralists, though not rarely from writers of + definitely religious character. Sénancour, who was so delicate + and sensitive a moralist in the sexual sphere, introduced a + temperate discussion of polygamy into his <i>De l'Amour</i> (vol. ii, + pp. 117-126). It seemed to him to be neither positively contrary + nor positively conformed to the general tendency of our present + conventions, and he concluded that "the method of conciliation, + in part, would be no longer to require that the union of a man + and a woman should only cease with the death of one of them." + Cope, the biologist, expressed a somewhat more decided opinion. + Under some circumstances, if all three parties agreed, he saw no + objection to polygyny or polyandry. "There are some cases of + hardship," he said, "which such permission would remedy. Such, + for instance, would be the case where the man or woman had become + the victim of a chronic disease; or, when either party should be + childless, and in other contingencies that could be imagined." + There would be no compulsion in any direction, and full + responsibility as at present. Such cases could only arise + exceptionally, and would not call for social antagonism. For the + most part, Cope remarks, "the best way to deal with polygamy is + to let it alone" (E. D.<a name='6_Page_501'></a> Cope, "The Marriage Problem," <i>Open + Court</i>, Nov. 15 and 22, 1888). In England, Dr. John Chapman, the + editor of the <i>Westminster Review</i>, and a close associate of the + leaders of the Radical movement in the Victorian period, was + opposed to State dictation as regards the form of marriage, and + believed that a certain amount of sexual variation would be + socially beneficial. Thus he wrote in 1884 (in a private letter): + "I think that as human beings become less selfish polygamy + [<i>i.e.</i>, polygyny], and even polyandry, in an ennobled form, will + become increasingly frequent."</p> + +<p> James Hinton, who, a few years earlier, had devoted much thought + and attention to the sexual question, and regarded it as indeed + the greatest of moral problems, was strongly in favor of a more + vital flexibility of marriage regulations, an adaptation to human + needs such as the early Christian Church admitted. Marriage, he + declared, must be "subordinated to service," since marriage, like + the Sabbath, is made for man and not man for marriage. Thus in + case of one partner becoming insane he would permit the other + partner to marry again, the claim of the insane partner, in case + of recovery, still remaining valid. That would be a form of + polygamy, but Hinton was careful to point out that by "polygamy" + he meant "less a particular marriage-order than such an order as + best serves good, and which therefore must be essentially + variable. Monogamy may be good, even the only good order, if of + free choice; but a <i>law</i> for it is another thing. The sexual + relationship must be a <i>natural</i> thing. The true social life will + not be any fixed and definite relationship, as of monogamy, + polygamy, or anything else, but a perfect subordination of every + sexual relationship whatever to reason and human good."</p> + +<p> Ellen Key, who is an enthusiastic advocate of monogamy, and who + believes that the civilized development of personal love removes + all danger of the growth of polygamy, still admits the existence + of variations. She has in mind such solutions of difficult + problems as Goethe had before him when he proposed at first in + his <i>Stella</i> to represent the force of affection and tender + memories as too strong to admit of the rupture of an old bond in + the presence of a new bond. The problem of sexual variation, she + remarks, however (<i>Liebe und Ethik</i>, p. 12), has changed its form + under modern conditions; it is no longer a struggle between the + demand of society for a rigid marriage-order and the demand of + the individual for sexual satisfaction, but it has become the + problem of harmonizing the ennoblement of the race with + heightened requirements of erotic happiness. She also points out + that the existence of a partner who requires the other partner's + care as a nurse or as an intellectual companion by no means + deprives that other partner of the right to fatherhood or + motherhood, and that such rights must be safeguarded (Ellen Key, + <i>Ueber Liebe und Ehe</i>, pp. 166-168).</p> + +<p> A prominent and extreme advocate of polygyny, not as a simple + <a name='6_Page_502'></a>rare variation, but as a marriage order superior to monogamy, is + to be found at the present day in Professor Christian von + Ehrenfels of Prague (see, <i>e.g.</i>, his <i>Sexualethik</i>, 1908; "Die + Postulate des Lebens," <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Oct., 1908; and letter + to Ellen Key in her <i>Ueber Liebe und Ehe</i>, p. 466). Ehrenfels + believes that the number of men inapt for satisfactory + reproduction is much larger than that of women, and that + therefore when these are left out of account, a polygynic + marriage order becomes necessary. He calls this + "reproduction-marriage" (Zeugungsehe), and considers that it will + entirely replace the present marriage order, to which it is + morally superior. It would be based on private contracts. + Ehrenfels holds that women would offer no objection, as a woman, + he believes, attaches less importance to a man as a wooer than as + the father of her child. Ehrenfels's doctrine has been seriously + attacked from many sides, and his proposals are not in the line + of our progress. Any radical modification of the existing + monogamic order is not to be expected, even if it were generally + recognized, which cannot be said to be the case, that it is + desirable. The question of sexual variations, it must be + remembered, is not a question of introducing an entirely new form + of marriage, but only of recognizing the rights of individuals, + in exceptional cases, to adopt such aberrant forms, and of + recognizing the corresponding duties of such individuals to + accept the responsibilities of any aberrant marriage forms they + may find it best to adopt. So far as the question of sexual + variations is more than this, it is, as Hinton argued, a + dynamical method of working towards the abolition of the perilous + and dangerous promiscuity of prostitution. A rigid marriage order + involves prostitution; a flexible marriage order largely—though + not, it may be, entirely—renders prostitution unnecessary. The + democratic morality of the present day, so far as the indications + at present go, is opposed to the encouragement of a <i>quasi</i>-slave + class, with diminished social rights, such as prostitutes always + constitute in a more or less marked degree. It is fairly evident, + also, that the rapidly growing influence of medical hygiene is on + the same side. We may, therefore, reasonably expect in the future + a slow though steady increase in the recognition, and even the + extension, of those variations of the monogamic order which have, + in reality, never ceased to exist.</p></div> + +<p>It is lamentable that at this period of the world's history, nearly two +thousand years after the wise legislators of Rome had completed their +work, it should still be necessary to conclude that we are to-day only +beginning to place marriage on a reasonable and humane basis. I have +repeatedly pointed out how largely the Canon law has been responsible for +this arrest of development. One may say, indeed, that the whole attitude +of the Church, after <a name='6_Page_503'></a>it had once acquired complete worldly dominance, +must be held responsible. In the earlier centuries the attitude of +Christianity was, on the whole, admirable. It held aloft great ideals but +it refrained from enforcing those ideals at all costs; thus its ideals +remained genuine and could not degenerate into mere hypocritical empty +forms; much flexibility was allowed when it seemed to be for human good +and made for the avoidance of evil and injustice. But when the Church +attained temporal power, and when that power was concentrated in the hands +of Popes who subordinated moral and religious interests to political +interests, all the claims of reason and humanity were flung to the winds. +The ideal was no more a fact than it was before, but it was now treated as +a fact. Human relationships remained what they were before, as complicated +and as various, but henceforth one rigid pattern, admirable as an ideal +but worse than empty as a form, was arbitrarily set up, and all deviations +from it treated either as non-existent or damnable. The vitality was +crushed out of the most central human institutions, and they are only +to-day beginning to lift their heads afresh.</p> + +<p>If—to sum up—we consider the course which the regulation of marriage has +run during the Christian era, the only period which immediately concerns +us, it is not difficult to trace the main outlines. Marriage began as a +private arrangement, which the Church, without being able to control, was +willing to bless, as it also blessed many other secular affairs of men, +making no undue attempt to limit its natural flexibility to human needs. +Gradually and imperceptibly, however, without the medium of any law, +Christianity gained the complete control of marriage, coördinated it with +its already evolved conceptions of the evil of lust, of the virtue of +chastity, of the mortal sin of fornication, and, having through the +influence of these dominating conceptions limited the flexibility of +marriage in every possible direction, it placed it on a lofty but narrow +pedestal as the sacrament of matrimony. For reasons which by no means lay +in the nature of the sexual relationships, but which probably seemed +cogent to sacerdotal legislators who assimilated it to ordination, +matrimony was declared indissoluble. Nothing was so easy to enter as the +<a name='6_Page_504'></a>gate of matrimony, but, after the manner of a mouse-trap, it opened +inwards and not outwards; once in there was no way out alive. The Church's +regulation of marriage while, like the celibacy of the clergy, it was a +success from the point of view of ecclesiastical politics, and even at +first from the point of view of civilization, for it at least introduced +order into a chaotic society, was in the long run a failure from the point +of view of society and morals. On the one hand it drifted into absurd +subtleties and quibbles; on the other, not being based on either reason or +humanity, it had none of that vital adaptability to the needs of life, +which early Christianity, while holding aloft austere ideals, still +largely retained. On the side of tradition this code of marriage law +became awkward and impracticable; on the biological side it was hopelessly +false. The way was thus prepared for the Protestant reintroduction of the +conception of marriage as a contract, that conception being, however, +brought forward less on its merits than as a protest against the +difficulties and absurdities of the Catholic Canon law. The contractive +view, which still largely persists even to-day, speedily took over much of +the Canon law doctrines of marriage, becoming in practice a kind of +reformed and secularized Canon law. It was somewhat more adapted to modern +needs, but it retained much of the rigidity of the Catholic marriage +without its sacramental character, and it never made any attempt to become +more than nominally contractive. It has been of the nature of an +incongruous compromise and has represented a transitional phase towards +free private marriage. We can recognize that phase in the tendency, well +marked in all civilized lands, to an ever increasing flexibility of +marriage. The idea, and even the fact, of marriage by consent and divorce +by failure of that consent, which we are now approaching, has never indeed +been quite extinct. In the Latin countries it has survived with the +tradition of Roman law; in the English-speaking countries it is bound up +with the spirit of Puritanism which insists that in the things that +concern the individual alone the individual himself shall be the supreme +judge. That doctrine as applied to marriage was in England magnificently +asserted by the genius of Milton, and in America <a name='6_Page_505'></a>it has been a leaven +which is still working in marriage legislation towards an inevitable goal +which is scarcely yet in sight. The marriage system of the future, as it +moves along its present course, will resemble the old Christian system in +that it will recognize the sacred and sacramental character of the sexual +relationship, and it will resemble the civil conception in that it will +insist that marriage, so far as it involves procreation, shall be publicly +registered by the State. But in opposition to the Church it will recognize +that marriage, in so far as it is purely a sexual relationship, is a +private matter the conditions of which must be left to the persons who +alone are concerned in it; and in opposition to the civil theory it will +recognize that marriage is in its essence a fact and not a contract, +though it may give rise to contracts, so long as such contracts do not +touch that essential fact. And in one respect it will go beyond either the +ecclesiastical conception or the civil conception. Man has in recent times +gained control of his own procreative powers, and that control involves a +shifting of the centre of gravity of marriage, in so far as marriage is an +affair of the State, from the vagina to the child which is the fruit of +the womb. Marriage as a state institution will centre, not around the +sexual relationship, but around the child which is the outcome of that +relationship. In so far as marriage is an inviolable public contract it +will be of such a nature that it will be capable of automatically covering +with its protection every child that is born into the world, so that every +child may possess a legal mother and a legal father. On the one side, +therefore, marriage is tending to become less stringent; on the other side +it is tending to become more stringent. On the personal side it is a +sacred and intimate relationship with which the State has no concern; on +the social side it is the assumption of the responsible public sponsorship +of a new member of the State. Some among us are working to further one of +these aspects of marriage, some to further the other aspect. Both are +indispensable to establish a perfect harmony. It is necessary to hold the +two aspects of marriage apart, in order to do equal justice to the +individual and to society, but in so far as marriage approaches its ideal +state those two aspects become one.</p><a name='6_Page_506'></a> + +<p>We have now completed the discussion of marriage as it presents itself to +the modern man born in what in mediæval days was called Christendom. It is +not an easy subject to discuss. It is indeed a very difficult subject, and +only after many years is it possible to detect the main drift of its +apparently opposing and confused currents when one is oneself in the midst +of them. To an Englishman it is, perhaps, peculiarly difficult, for the +Englishman is nothing if not insular; in that fact lie whatever virtues he +possesses, as well as their reverse sides.<a name='6_FNanchor_374'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_374'><sup>[374]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Yet it is worth while to attempt to climb to a height from which we can +view the stream of social tendency in its true proportions and estimate +its direction. It is necessary to do so if we value our mental peace in an +age when men's minds are agitated by many petty movements which have +nothing to do with their great temporal interests, to say nothing of their +eternal interests. When we have attained a wide vision of the solid +biological facts of life, when we have grasped the great historical +streams of tradition,—which together make up the map of human +affairs,—we can face serenely the little social transitions which take +place in our own age, as they have taken place in every age.</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='6_Footnote_312'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_312'>[312]</a><div class='note'><p> Rosenthal, of Breslau, from the legal side, goes so far as +to argue ("Grundfragen des Eheproblems," <i>Die Neue Generation</i>, Dec., +1908), that the intention of procreation is essential to the conception of +legal marriage.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_313'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_313'>[313]</a><div class='note'><p> J. A. Godfrey, <i>Science of Sex</i>, p. 119.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_314'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_314'>[314]</a><div class='note'><p> E. D. Cope, "The Marriage Problem," <i>Open Court</i>, Nov., +1888.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_315'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_315'>[315]</a><div class='note'><p> See <i>ante</i>, p. 395.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_316'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_316'>[316]</a><div class='note'><p> Wächter, <i>Eheschiedungen</i>, pp. 95 <i>et seq.</i>; Esmein, +<i>Marriage en Droit Canonique</i>, vol. i, p. 6; Howard, <i>History of +Matrimonial Institutions</i>, vol. ii, p. 15. Howard (in agreement with +Lecky) considers that the freedom of divorce was only abused by a small +section of the Roman population, and that such abuse, so far as it +existed, was not the cause of any decline of Roman morals.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_317'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_317'>[317]</a><div class='note'><p> The opinions of the Christian Fathers were very varied, and +they were sometimes doubtful about them; see, <i>e.g.</i>, the opinions +collected by Cranmer and enumerated by Burnet, <i>History of Reformation</i> +(ed. Nares), vol. ii, p. 91.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_318'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_318'>[318]</a><div class='note'><p> Constantine, the first Christian Emperor, enacted a strict +and peculiar divorce law (allowing a wife to divorce her husband only when +he was a homicide, a poisoner, or a violator of sepulchres), which could +not be maintained. In 497, therefore, Anastasius decreed divorce by mutual +consent. This was abolished by Justinian, who only allowed divorce for +various specified causes, among them, however, including the husband's +adultery. These restrictions proved unworkable, and Justinian's successor +and nephew, Justin, restored divorce by mutual consent. Finally, in 870, +Leo the Philosopher returned to Justinian's enactment (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Smith +and Cheetham, <i>Dictionary of Christian Antiquities</i>, arts. "Adultery" and +"Marriage").</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_319'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_319'>[319]</a><div class='note'><p> The element of reverence in the early German attitude +towards women and the privileges which even the married woman enjoyed, so +far as Tacitus can be considered a reliable guide, seem to have been the +surviving vestiges of an earlier social state on a more matriarchal basis. +They are most distinct at the dawn of German history. From the first, +however, though divorce by mutual consent seems to have been possible, +German custom was pitiless to the married woman who was unfaithful, +sterile, or otherwise offended, though for some time after the +introduction of Christianity it was no offence for the German husband to +commit adultery (Westermarck, <i>Origin of the Moral Ideas</i>, vol. ii, p. +453).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_320'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_320'>[320]</a><div class='note'><p> "This form of marriage," says Hobhouse (<i>op. cit.</i>, vol. i, +p. 156), "is intimately associated with the extension of marital power." +<i>Cf.</i> Howard, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. i, p. 231. The very subordinate position of +the mediæval German woman is set forth by Hagelstange, <i>Süddeutsches +Bauernleben in Mittelalter</i>, 1898, pp. 70 <i>et seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_321'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_321'>[321]</a><div class='note'><p> Howard, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. i, p. 259; Smith and Cheetham, +<i>Dictionary of Christian Antiquities</i>, art. <i>Arrhæ</i>. It would appear, +however, that the "bride-sale," of which Tacitus speaks, was not strictly +the sale of a chattel nor of a slave-girl, but the sale of the <i>mund</i> or +protectorship over the girl. It is true the distinction may not always +have been clear to those who took part in the transaction. Similarly the +Anglo-Saxon betrothal was not so much a payment of the bride's price to +her kinsmen, although as a matter of fact, they might make a profit out of +the transaction, as a covenant stipulating for the bride's honorable +treatment as wife and widow. Reminiscences of this, remark Pollock and +Maitland (<i>op. cit.</i>, vol. ii, p. 364), may be found in "that curious +cabinet of antiquities, the marriage ritual of the English Church."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_322'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_322'>[322]</a><div class='note'><p> Howard, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. i, pp. 278-281, 386. The <i>Arrha</i> +crept into Roman and Byzantine law during the sixth century.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_323'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_323'>[323]</a><div class='note'><p> J. Wickham Legg, <i>Ecclesiological Essays</i>, p. 189. It may +be added that the idea of the subordination of the wife to the husband +appeared in the Christian Church at a somewhat early period, and no doubt +independently of Germanic influences; St. Augustine said (Sermo XXXVII, +cap. vi) that a good <i>materfamilias</i> must not be ashamed to call herself +her husband's servant (<i>ancilla</i>).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_324'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_324'>[324]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, L. Gautier, <i>La Chevalerie</i>, Ch. IX.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_325'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_325'>[325]</a><div class='note'><p> Howard, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. i, pp. 293 <i>et seq.</i>; Esmein, <i>op. +cit.</i>, vol. i, pp. 25 <i>et seq.</i>; Smith and Cheetham, <i>Dictionary of +Christian Antiquities</i> art. "Contract of Marriage."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_326'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_326'>[326]</a><div class='note'><p> Any later changes in Catholic Canon law have merely been in +the direction of making matrimony still narrower and still more remote +from the practice of the world. By a papal decree of 1907, civil marriages +and marriages in non-Catholic places of worship are declared to be not +only sinful and unlawful (which they were before), but actually null and +void.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_327'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_327'>[327]</a><div class='note'><p> E. S. P. Haynes, <i>Our Divorce Law</i>, p. 3.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_328'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_328'>[328]</a><div class='note'><p> It was the Council of Trent, in the sixteenth century, +which made ecclesiastical rites essential to binding marriage; but even +then fifty-six prelates voted against that decision.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_329'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_329'>[329]</a><div class='note'><p> Esmein, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. i, p. 91.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_330'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_330'>[330]</a><div class='note'><p> It is sometimes said that the Catholic Church is able to +diminish the evils of its doctrine of the indissolubility of marriage by +the number of impediments to marriage it admits, thus affording free scope +for dispensations from marriage. This scarcely seems to be the case. Dr. +P. J. Hayes, who speaks with authority as Chancellor of the Catholic +Archdiocese of New York, states ("Impediments to Marriage in the Catholic +Church," <i>North American Review</i>, May, 1905) that even in so modern and so +mixed a community as this there are few applications for dispensations on +account of impediments; there are 15,000 Catholic marriages per annum in +New York City, but scarcely five per annum are questioned as to validity, +and these chiefly on the ground of bigamy.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_331'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_331'>[331]</a><div class='note'><p> The Canonists, say Pollock and Maitland (<i>loc. cit.</i>), +"made a capricious mess of the marriage law." "Seldom," says Howard (<i>op. +cit.</i>, vol i, p. 340), "have mere theory and subtle quibbling had more +disastrous consequences in practical life than in the case of the +distinction between <i>sponsalia de præsenti</i> and <i>de futuro</i>."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_332'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_332'>[332]</a><div class='note'><p> Howard, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. i, pp. 386 <i>et seq.</i> On the whole, +however, Luther's opinion was that marriage, though a sacred and +mysterious thing, is not a sacrament; his various statements on the matter +are brought together by Strampff, <i>Luther über die Ehe</i>, pp. 204-214.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_333'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_333'>[333]</a><div class='note'><p> Howard, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. ii, pp. 61 <i>et seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_334'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_334'>[334]</a><div class='note'><p> Probably as a result of the somewhat confused and +incoherent attitude of the Reformers, the Canon law of marriage, in a +modified form, really persisted in Protestant countries to a greater +extent than in Catholic countries; in France, especially, it has been much +more profoundly modified (Esmein, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. i, p. 33).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_335'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_335'>[335]</a><div class='note'><p> The Quaker conception of marriage is still vitally +influential. "Why," says Mrs. Besant (<i>Marriage</i>, p. 19), "should not we +take a leaf out of the Quaker's book, and substitute for the present legal +forms of marriage a simple declaration publicly made?"</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_336'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_336'>[336]</a><div class='note'><p> Howard, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. ii, p. 456. The actual practice in +Pennsylvania appears, however, to differ little from that usual in the +other States.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_337'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_337'>[337]</a><div class='note'><p> Howard, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. ii, p. 109. "It is, indeed, +wonderful," Howard remarks, "that a great nation, priding herself on a +love of equity and social liberty, should thus for five generations +tolerate an invidious indulgence, rather than frankly and courageously to +free herself from the shackles of an ecclesiastical tradition."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_338'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_338'>[338]</a><div class='note'><p> "The enforced continuance of an unsuccessful union is +perhaps the most immoral thing which a civilized society ever +countenanced, far less encouraged," says Godfrey (<i>Science of Sex</i>, p. +123). "The morality of a union is dependent upon mutual desire, and a +union dictated by any other cause is outside the moral pale, however +custom may sanction it, or religion and law condone it."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_339'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_339'>[339]</a><div class='note'><p> Adultery in most savage and barbarous societies is +regarded, in the words of Westermarck, as "an illegitimate appropriation +of the exclusive claims which the husband has acquired by the purchase of +his wife, as an offence against property;" the seducer is, therefore, +punished as a thief, by fine, mutilation, even death (<i>Origin of the Moral +Ideas</i>, vol. ii, pp. 447 <i>et seq.</i>; <i>id.</i>, <i>History of Human Marriage</i>, p. +121). Among some peoples it is the seducer who alone suffers, and not the +wife.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_340'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_340'>[340]</a><div class='note'><p> It is sometimes said in defence of the claim for damages +for seducing a wife that women are often weak and unable to resist +masculine advances, so that the law ought to press heavily on the man who +takes advantage of that weakness. This argument seems a little antiquated. +The law is beginning to accept the responsibility even of married women in +other respects, and can scarcely refuse to accept it for the control of +her own person. Moreover, if it is so natural for the woman to yield, it +is scarcely legitimate to punish the man with whom she has performed that +natural act. It must further be said that if a wife's adultery is only an +irresponsible feminine weakness, a most undue brutality is inflicted on +her by publicly demanding her pecuniary price from her lover. If, indeed, +we accept this argument, we ought to reintroduce the mediæval girdle of +chastity.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_341'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_341'>[341]</a><div class='note'><p> Howard, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. ii, p. 114.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_342'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_342'>[342]</a><div class='note'><p> This rule is, in England, by no means a dead letter. Thus, +in 1907, a wife who had left her home, leaving a letter stating that her +husband was not the father of her child, subsequently brought an action +for divorce, which, as the husband made no defence, she obtained. But, the +King's Proctor having learnt the facts, the decree was rescinded. Then the +husband brought an action for divorce, but could not obtain it, having +already admitted his own adultery by leaving the previous case undefended. +He took the matter up to the Court of Appeal, but his petition was +dismissed, the Court being of opinion that "to grant relief in such a case +was not in the interest of public morality." The safest way in England to +render what is legally termed marriage absolutely indissoluble is for both +parties to commit adultery.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_343'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_343'>[343]</a><div class='note'><p> Magnus Hirschfeld, <i>Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft</i>, +Oct., 1908.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_344'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_344'>[344]</a><div class='note'><p> H. Adner, "Die Richterliche Beurteilung der 'Zerrütteten' +Ehe," <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, Bd. ii, Teil 8.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_345'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_345'>[345]</a><div class='note'><p> Gross-Hoffinger, <i>Die Schichsale der Frauen und die +Prostitution</i>, 1847; Bloch presents a full summary of the results of this +inquiry in an <i>Appendix</i> to Ch. X of his <i>Sexual Life of Our Times</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_346'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_346'>[346]</a><div class='note'><p> Divorce in the United States is fully discussed by Howard, +<i>op. cit.</i>, vol. iii.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_347'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_347'>[347]</a><div class='note'><p> H. Münsterberg, <i>The Americans</i>, p. 575. Similarly, Dr. +Felix Adler, in a study of "The Ethics of Divorce" (<i>The Ethical Record</i>, +1890, p. 200), although not himself an admirer of divorce, believes that +the first cause of the frequency of divorce in the United States is the +high position of women.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_348'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_348'>[348]</a><div class='note'><p> In an important article, with illustrative cases, on "The +Neuro-psychical Element in Conjugal Aversion" (<i>Journal of Nervous and +Mental Diseases</i>, Sept., 1892) Smith Baker refers to the cases in which "a +man may find himself progressively becoming antipathetic, through +recognition of the comparatively less developed personality of the one to +whom he happens to be married. Marrying, perhaps, before he has learned to +accurately judge of character and its tendencies, he awakens to the fact +that he is honorably bound to live all his physiological life with, not a +real companion, but a mere counterfeit." The cases are still more +numerous, the same writer observes, in which the sexual appetite of the +wife fails to reveal itself except as the result of education and +practice. "This sort of natural-unnatural condition is the source of much +disappointment, and of intense suffering on the part of the woman as well +as of family dissatisfaction." Yet such causes for divorce are far too +complex to be stated in statute-books, and far too intimate to be pleaded +in courts of justice.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_349'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_349'>[349]</a><div class='note'><p> Ten years ago, if not still, the United States came fourth +in order of frequency of divorce, after Japan, Denmark, and Switzerland.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_350'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_350'>[350]</a><div class='note'><p> Lecky, the historian of European morals, has pointed out +(<i>Democracy and Liberty</i>, vol. ii, p. 172) the close connection generally +between facility of divorce and a high standard of sexual morality.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_351'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_351'>[351]</a><div class='note'><p> So, <i>e.g.</i>, Hobhouse, <i>Morals in Evolution</i>, vol. i, p. +237.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_352'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_352'>[352]</a><div class='note'><p> In England this step was taken in the reign of Henry VII, +when the forcible marriage of women against their will was forbidden by +statute (3 Henry VII, c. 2). Even in the middle of the seventeenth +century, however, the question of forcible marriage had again to be dealt +with (<i>Inderwick</i>, Interregnum, pp. 40 <i>et seq.</i>).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_353'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_353'>[353]</a><div class='note'><p> Woods Hutchinson (<i>Contemporary Review</i>, Sept., 1905) +argues that when there is epilepsy, insanity, moral perversion, habitual +drunkenness, or criminal conduct of any kind, divorce, for the sake of the +next generation, should be not permissive but compulsory. Mere divorce, +however, would not suffice to attain the ends desired.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_354'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_354'>[354]</a><div class='note'><p> Similarly in Germany, Wanda von Sacher-Masoch, who had +suffered much from marriage, whatever her own defects of character may +have been, writes at the end of <i>Meine Lebensbeichte</i> that "as long as +women have not the courage to regulate, without State-interference or +Church-interference, relationships which concern themselves alone, they +will not be free." In place of this old decayed system of marriage so +opposed to our modern thoughts and feelings, she would have private +contracts made by a lawyer. In England, at a much earlier period, Charles +Kingsley, who was an ardent friend to women's movements, and whose feeling +for womanhood amounted almost to worship, wrote to J. S. Mill: "There will +never be a good world for women until the last remnant of the Canon law is +civilized off the earth."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_355'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_355'>[355]</a><div class='note'><p> "No fouler institution was ever invented," declared Auberon +Herbert many years ago, expressing, before its time, a feeling which has +since become more common; "and its existence drags on, to our deep shame, +because we have not the courage frankly to say that the sexual relations +of husband and wife, or those who live together, concern their own selves, +and do not concern the prying, gloating, self-righteous, and intensely +untruthful world outside."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_356'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_356'>[356]</a><div class='note'><p> Hobhouse, <i>op. cit.</i> vol. i, p. 237.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_357'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_357'>[357]</a><div class='note'><p> The same conception of marriage as a contract still +persists to some extent also in the United States, whither it was carried +by the early Protestants and Puritans. No definition of marriage is indeed +usually laid down by the States, but, Howard says (<i>op. cit.</i>, vol. ii, p. +395), "in effect matrimony is treated as a relation partaking of the +nature of both status and contract."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_358'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_358'>[358]</a><div class='note'><p> This point of view has been vigorously set forth by Paul +and Victor Margueritte, <i>Quelques Idées</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_359'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_359'>[359]</a><div class='note'><p> I may remark that this was pointed out, and its +consequences vigorously argued, many years ago by C. G. Garrison, "Limits +of Divorce," <i>Contemporary Review</i>, Feb., 1894. "It may safely be +asserted," he concludes, "that marriage presents not one attribute or +incident of anything remotely resembling a contract, either in form, +remedy, procedure, or result; but that in all these aspects, on the +contrary, it is fatally hostile to the principles and practices of that +division of the rights of persons." Marriage is not contract, but +conduct.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_360'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_360'>[360]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, P. and V. Margueritte, <i>op. cit.</i></p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_361'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_361'>[361]</a><div class='note'><p> As quoted by Howard, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. ii, p. 29.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_362'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_362'>[362]</a><div class='note'><p> Ellen Key similarly (<i>Ueber Liebe und Ehe</i>, p. 343) remarks +that to talk of "the duty of life-long fidelity" is much the same as to +talk of "the duty of life-long health." A man may promise, she adds, to do +his best to preserve his life, or his love; he cannot unconditionally +undertake to preserve them.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_363'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_363'>[363]</a><div class='note'><p> Hobhouse, <i>op. cit.</i>, vol. 1, pp. 159, 237-9; <i>cf.</i> P. and +V. Margueritte, <i>Quelques Idées</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_364'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_364'>[364]</a><div class='note'><p> "Divorce," as Garrison puts it ("Limits of Divorce," +<i>Contemporary Review</i>, Feb., 1894), "is the judicial announcement that +conduct once connubial in character and purpose, has lost these +qualities.... Divorce is a question of fact, and not a license to break a +promise."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_365'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_365'>[365]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>ante</i>, p. 425.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_366'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_366'>[366]</a><div class='note'><p> It has been necessary to discuss reproduction in the first +chapter of the present volume, and it will again be necessary in the +concluding chapter. Here we are only concerned with procreation as an +element of marriage.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_367'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_367'>[367]</a><div class='note'><p> Nietzold, <i>Die Ehe in Ægypten zur Ptolemäisch-römischen +Zeit</i>, 1903, p. 3. This bond also accorded rights to any children that +might be born during its existence.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_368'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_368'>[368]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, Ellen Key, <i>Mutter und Kind</i>, p. 21. The +necessity for the combination of greater freedom of sexual relationships +with greater stringency of parental relationships was clearly realized at +an earlier period by another able woman writer, Miss J. H. Clapperton, in +her notable book, <i>Scientific Meliorism</i>, published in 1885. "Legal +changes," she wrote (p. 320), "are required in two directions, viz., +towards greater freedom as to marriage and greater strictness as to +parentage. The marriage union is essentially a private matter with which +society has no call and no right to interfere. Childbirth, on the +contrary, is a public event. It touches the interests of the whole +nation."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_369'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_369'>[369]</a><div class='note'><p> Ellen Key, <i>Liebe und Ehe</i>, p. 168; <i>cf.</i> the same author's +<i>Century of the Child</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_370'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_370'>[370]</a><div class='note'><p> In Germany alone 180,000 "illegitimate" children are born +every year, and the number is rapidly increasing; in England it is only +40,000 per annum, the strong feeling which often exists against such +births in England (as also in France) leading to the wide adoption of +methods for preventing conception.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_371'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_371'>[371]</a><div class='note'><p> "Where are real monogamists to be found?" asked +Schopenhauer in his essay, "Ueber die Weibe." And James Hinton was wont to +ask: "What is the meaning of maintaining monogamy? Is there any chance of +getting it, I should like to know? Do you call English life monogamous?"</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_372'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_372'>[372]</a><div class='note'><p> "Almost everywhere," says Westermarck of polygyny (which he +discusses fully in Chs. XX-XXII of his <i>History of Human Marriage</i>) "it is +confined to the smaller part of the people, the vast majority being +monogamous." Maurice Gregory (<i>Contemporary Review</i>, Sept., 1906) gives +statistics showing that nearly everywhere the tendency is towards equality +in number of the sexes.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_373'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_373'>[373]</a><div class='note'><p> In a polygamous land a man is of course as much bound by +his obligations to his second wife as to his first. Among ourselves the +man's "second wife" is degraded with the name of "mistress," and the worse +he treats her and her children the more his "morality" is approved, just +as the Catholic Church, when struggling to establish sacerdotal celibacy, +approved more highly the priest who had illegitimate relations with women +than the priest who decently and openly married. If his neglect induces a +married man's mistress to make known her relationship to him the man is +justified in prosecuting her, and his counsel, assured of general +sympathy, will state in court that "this woman has even been so wicked as +to write to the prosecutor's wife!"</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_374'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_374'>[374]</a><div class='note'><p> Howard, in his judicial <i>History of Matrimonial +Institutions</i> (vol. ii. pp. 96 <i>et seq.</i>), cannot refrain from drawing +attention to the almost insanely wild character of the language used in +England not so many years ago by those who opposed marriage with a +deceased wife's sister, and he contrasts it with the much more reasonable +attitude of the Catholic Church. "Pictures have been drawn," he remarks, +"of the moral anarchy such marriages must produce, which are read by +American, Colonial, and Continental observers with a bewilderment that is +not unmixed with disgust, and are, indeed, a curious illustration of the +extreme insularity of the English mind." So recently as A.D. 1908 a bill +was brought into the British House of Lords proposing that desertion +without cause for two years shall be a ground for divorce, a reasonable +and humane measure which is law in most parts of the civilized world. The +Lord Chancellor (Lord Loreburn), a Liberal, and in the sphere of politics +an enlightened and sagacious leader, declared that such a proposal was +"absolutely impossible." The House rejected the proposal by 61 votes to 2. +Even the marriage decrees of the Council of Trent were not affirmed by +such an overwhelming majority. In matters of marriage legislation England +has scarcely yet emerged from the Middle Ages.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_CHAPTER_XI'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_507'></a>CHAPTER XI.</h2> + +<h3>THE ART OF LOVE.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Marriage Not Only for Procreation—Theologians on the <i>Sacramentum +Solationis</i>—Importance of the <i>Art of Love</i>—The Basis of Stability in +Marriage and the Condition for Right Procreation—The Art of Love the +Bulwark Against Divorce—The Unity of Love and Marriage a Principle of +Modern Morality—Christianity and the Art of Love—Ovid—The Art of Love +Among Primitive Peoples—Sexual Initiation in Africa and Elsewhere—The +Tendency to Spontaneous Development of the Art of Love in Early +Life—Flirtation—Sexual Ignorance in Women—The Husband's Place in Sexual +Initiation—Sexual Ignorance in Men—The Husband's Education for +Marriage—The Injury Done by the Ignorance of Husbands—The Physical and +Mental Results of Unskilful Coitus—Women Understand the Art of Love +Better Than Men—Ancient and Modern Opinions Concerning Frequency of +Coitus—Variation in Sexual Capacity—The Sexual Appetite—The Art of Love +Based on the Biological Facts of Courtship—The Art of Pleasing Women—The +Lover Compared to the Musician—The Proposal as a Part of +Courtship—Divination in the Art of Love—The Importance of the +Preliminaries in Courtship—The Unskilful Husband Frequently the Cause of +the Frigid Wife—The Difficulty of Courtship—Simultaneous Orgasm—The +Evils of Incomplete Gratification in Women—Coitus Interruptus—Coitus +Reservatus—The Human Method of Coitus—Variations in Coitus—Posture in +Coitus—The Best Time for Coitus—The Influence of Coitus in Marriage—The +Advantages of Absence in Marriage—The Risks of Absence—Jealousy—The +Primitive Function of Jealousy—Its Predominance Among Animals, Savages, +etc., and in Pathological States—An Anti-Social Emotion—Jealousy +Incompatible with the Progress of Civilization—The Possibility of Loving +More Than One Person at a Time—Platonic Friendship—The Conditions Which +Make It Possible—The Maternal Element in Woman's Love—The Final +Development of Conjugal Love—The Problem of Love One of the Greatest of +Social Questions.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>It will be clear from the preceding discussion that there are two elements +in every marriage so far as that marriage is complete. On the one hand +marriage is a union prompted by mutual love and only sustainable as a +reality, apart from its mere formal side, by the cultivation of such love. +On the other <a name='6_Page_508'></a>hand marriage is a method for propagating the race and +having its end in offspring. In the first aspect its aim is erotic, in the +second parental. Both these ends have long been generally recognized. We +find them set forth, for instance, in the marriage service of the Church +of England, where it is stated that marriage exists both for "the mutual +society, help and comfort that the one ought to have of the other," and +also for "the procreation of children." Without the factor of mutual love +the proper conditions for procreation cannot exist; without the factor of +procreation the sexual union, however beautiful and sacred a relationship +it may in itself be, remains, in essence, a private relationship, +incomplete as a marriage and without public significance. It becomes +necessary, therefore, to supplement the preceding discussion of marriage +in its general outlines by a final and more intimate consideration of +marriage in its essence, as embracing the art of love and the science of +procreation.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>There has already been occasion from time to time to refer to + those who, starting from various points of view, have sought to + limit the scope of marriage and to suppress one or other of its + elements. (See <i>e.g.</i>, <i>ante</i>, p. 135.)</p> + +<p> In modern times the tendency has been to exclude the factor of + procreation, and to regard the relationship of marriage as + exclusively lying in the relationship of the two parties to each + other. Apart from the fact, which it is unnecessary again to call + attention to, that, from the public and social point of view, a + marriage without children, however important to the two persons + concerned, is a relationship without any public significance, it + must further be said that, in the absence of children, even the + personal erotic life itself is apt to suffer, for in the normal + erotic life, especially in women, sexual love tends to grow into + parental love. Moreover, the full development of mutual love and + dependence is with difficulty attained, and there is absence of + that closest of bonds, the mutual coöperation of two persons in + producing a new person. The perfect and complete marriage in its + full development is a trinity.</p> + +<p> Those who seek to eliminate the erotic factor from marriage as + unessential, or at all events as only permissible when strictly + subordinated to the end of procreation, have made themselves + heard from time to time at various periods. Even the ancients, + Greeks and Romans alike, in their more severe moments advocated + the elimination of the <a name='6_Page_509'></a>erotic element from marriage, and its + confinement to extra-marital relationships, that is so far as men + were concerned; for the erotic needs of married women they had no + provision to make. Montaigne, soaked in classic traditions, has + admirably set forth the reasons for eliminating the erotic + interest from marriage: "One does not marry for oneself, whatever + may be said; a man marries as much, or more, for his posterity, + for his family; the usage and interest of marriage touch our race + beyond ourselves.... Thus it is a kind of incest to employ, in + this venerable and sacred parentage, the efforts and the + extravagances of amorous license" (<i>Essais</i>, Bk. i, Ch. XXIX; Bk. + iii, Ch. V). This point of view easily commended itself to the + early Christians, who, however, deliberately overlooked its + reverse side, the establishment of erotic interests outside + marriage. "To have intercourse except for procreation," said + Clement of Alexandria (<i>Pædagogus</i>, Bk. ii, Ch. X), "is to do + injury to Nature." While, however, that statement is quite true + of the lower animals, it is not true of man, and especially not + true of civilized man, whose erotic needs are far more developed, + and far more intimately associated with the finest and highest + part of the organism, than is the case among animals generally. + For the animal, sexual desire, except when called forth by the + conditions involved by procreative necessities, has no existence. + It is far otherwise in man, for whom, even when the question of + procreation is altogether excluded, sexual love is still an + insistent need, and even a condition of the finest spiritual + development. The Catholic Church, therefore, while regarding with + admiration a continence in marriage which excluded sexual + relations except for the end of procreation, has followed St. + Augustine in treating intercourse apart from procreation with + considerable indulgence, as only a venial sin. Here, however, the + Church was inclined to draw the line, and it appears that in 1679 + Innocent XI condemned the proposition that "the conjugal act, + practiced for pleasure alone, is exempt even from venial sin."</p> + +<p> Protestant theologians have been inclined to go further, and + therein they found some authority even in Catholic writers. John + à Lasco, the Catholic Bishop who became a Protestant and settled + in England during Edward VI's reign, was following many mediæval + theologians when he recognized the <i>sacramentum solationis</i>, in + addition to <i>proles</i>, as an element of marriage. Cranmer, in his + marriage service of 1549, stated that "mutual help and comfort," + as well as procreation, enter into the object of marriage + (Wickham Legg, <i>Ecclesiological Essays</i>, p. 204; Howard, + <i>Matrimonial Institutions</i>, vol. i, p. 398). Modern theologians + speak still more distinctly. "The sexual act," says Northcote + (<i>Christianity and Sex Problems</i>, p. 55), "is a love act. Duly + regulated, it conduces to the ethical welfare of the individual + and promotes his efficiency as a social unit. The act itself and + its surrounding emotions stimulate within the organism the + powerful movements of a vast psychic <a name='6_Page_510'></a>life." At an earlier period + also, Schleiermacher, in his <i>Letters on Lucinde</i>, had pointed + out the great significance of love for the spiritual development + of the individual.</p> + +<p> Edward Carpenter truly remarks, in <i>Love's Coming of Age</i>, that + sexual love is not only needed for physical creation, but also + for spiritual creation. Bloch, again, in discussing this question + (<i>The Sexual Life of Our Time</i>, Ch. VI) concludes that "love and + the sexual embrace have not only an end in procreation, they + constitute an end in themselves, and are necessary for the life, + development, and inner growth of the individual himself."</p></div> + +<p>It is argued by some, who admit mutual love as a constituent part of +marriage, that such love, once recognized at the outset, may be taken for +granted, and requires no further discussion; there is, they believe, no +art of love to be either learnt or taught; it comes by nature. Nothing +could be further from the truth, most of all as regards civilized man. +Even the elementary fact of coitus needs to be taught. No one could take a +more austerely Puritanic view of sexual affairs than Sir James Paget, and +yet Paget (in his lecture on "Sexual Hypochondriasis") declared that +"Ignorance about sexual affairs seems to be a notable characteristic of +the more civilized part of the human race. Among ourselves it is certain +that the method of copulating needs to be taught, and that they to whom it +is not taught remain quite ignorant about it." Gallard, again, remarks +similarly (in his <i>Clinique des Maladies des Femmes</i>) that young people, +like Daphnis in Longus's pastoral, need a beautiful Lycenion to give them +a solid education, practical as well as theoretical, in these matters, and +he considers that mothers should instruct their daughters at marriage, and +fathers their sons. Philosophers have from time to time recognized the +gravity of these questions and have discoursed concerning them; thus +Epicurus, as Plutarch tells us,<a name='6_FNanchor_375'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_375'><sup>[375]</sup></a> would discuss with his disciples +various sexual matters, such as the proper time for coitus; but then, as +now, there were obscurantists who would leave even the central facts of +life to the hazards of chance or ignorance, and these presumed to blame +the philosopher.</p> +<a name='6_Page_511'></a> +<p>There is, however, much more to be learnt in these matters than the mere +elementary facts of sexual intercourse. The art of love certainly includes +such primary facts of sexual hygiene, but it involves also the whole +erotic discipline of marriage, and that is why its significance is so +great, for the welfare and happiness of the individual, for the stability +of sexual unions, and indirectly for the race, since the art of love is +ultimately the art of attaining the right conditions for procreation.</p> + +<p>"It seems extremely probable," wrote Professor E. D. Cope,<a name='6_FNanchor_376'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_376'><sup>[376]</sup></a> "that if +this subject could be properly understood, and become, in the details of +its practical conduct, a part of a written social science, the monogamic +marriage might attain a far more general success than is often found in +actual life." There can be no doubt whatever that this is the case. In the +great majority of marriages success depends exclusively upon the knowledge +of the art of love possessed by the two persons who enter into it. A +life-long monogamic union may, indeed, persist in the absence of the +slightest inborn or acquired art of love, out of religious resignation or +sheer stupidity. But that attitude is now becoming less common. As we have +seen in the previous chapter, divorces are becoming more frequent and more +easily obtainable in every civilized country. This is a tendency of +civilization; it is the result of a demand that marriage should be a real +relationship, and that when it ceases to be real as a relationship it +should also cease as a form. That is an inevitable tendency, involved in +our growing democratization, for the democracy seems to care more for +realities than for forms, however venerable. We cannot fight against it; +and we should be wrong to fight against it even if we could.</p> + +<p>Yet while we are bound to aid the tendency to divorce, and to insist that +a valid marriage needs the wills of two persons to maintain it, it is +difficult for anyone to argue that divorce is in itself desirable. It is +always a confession of failure. Two persons, who, if they have been moved +in the slightest degree by the normal and regular impulse of sexual +selection, at the outset <a name='6_Page_512'></a>regarded each other as lovable, have, on one +side or the other or on both, proved not lovable. There has been a failure +in the fundamental art of love. If we are to counterbalance facility of +divorce our only sound course is to increase the stability of marriage, +and that is only possible by cultivating the art of love, the primal +foundation of marriage.</p> + +<p>It is by no means unnecessary to emphasize this point. There are still +many persons who have failed to realize it. There are even people who seem +to imagine that it is unimportant whether or not pleasure is present in +the sexual act. "I do not believe mutual pleasure in the sexual act has +any particular bearing on the happiness of life," once remarked Dr. Howard +A. Kelly.<a name='6_FNanchor_377'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_377'><sup>[377]</sup></a> Such a statement means—if indeed it means anything—that +the marriage tie has no "particular bearing" on human happiness; it means +that the way must be freely opened to adultery and divorce. Even the most +perverse ascetic of the Middle Ages scarcely ventured to make a statement +so flagrantly opposed to the experiences of humanity, and the fact that a +distinguished gynecologist of the twentieth century can make it, with +almost the air of stating a truism, is ample justification for the +emphasis which it has nowadays become necessary to place on the art of +love. "Uxor enim dignitatis nomen est, non voluptatis," was indeed an +ancient Pagan dictum. But it is not in harmony with modern ideas. It was +not even altogether in harmony with Christianity. For our modern morality, +as Ellen Key well says, the unity of love and marriage is a fundamental +principle.<a name='6_FNanchor_378'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_378'><sup>[378]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The neglect of the art of love has not been a universal phenomenon; it is +more especially characteristic of Christendom. The spirit of ancient Rome +undoubtedly predisposed Europe to such a neglect, for with their rough +cultivation of the military virtues and their inaptitude for the finer +aspects of civilization the Romans were willing to regard love as a +permissible indulgence, but they were not, as a people, prepared to +cultivate it as an art. Their poets do not, in this matter, represent the +<a name='6_Page_513'></a>moral feeling of their best people. It is indeed a highly significant +fact that Ovid, the most distinguished Latin poet who concerned himself +much with the art of love, associated that art not so much with morality +as with immorality. As he viewed it, the art of love was less the art of +retaining a woman in her home than the art of winning her away from it; it +was the adulterer's art rather than the husband's art. Such a conception +would be impossible out of Europe, but it proved very favorable to the +growth of the Christian attitude towards the art of love.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Love as an art, as well as a passion, seems to have received + considerable study in antiquity, though the results of that study + have perished. Cadmus Milesius, says Suidas, wrote fourteen great + volumes on the passion of love, but they are not now to be found. + Rohde (<i>Das Griechische Roman</i>, p. 55) has a brief section on the + Greek philosophic writers on love. Bloch (<i>Beiträge zur + Psychopathia Sexualis</i>, Teil I, p. 191) enumerates the ancient + women writers who dealt with the art of love. Montaigne + (<i>Essais</i>, liv. ii, Ch. V) gives a list of ancient classical lost + books on love. Burton (<i>Anatomy of Melancholy</i>, Bell's edition, + vol. iii, p. 2) also gives a list of lost books on love. Burton + himself dealt at length with the manifold signs of love and its + grievous symptoms. Boissier de Sauvages, early in the eighteenth + century, published a Latin thesis, <i>De Amore</i>, discussing love + somewhat in the same spirit as Burton, as a psychic disease to be + treated and cured.</p> + +<p> The breath of Christian asceticism had passed over love; it was + no longer, as in classic days, an art to be cultivated, but only + a malady to be cured. The true inheritor of the classic spirit in + this, as in many other matters, was not the Christian world, but + the world of Islam. <i>The Perfumed Garden</i> of the Sheik Nefzaoui + was probably written in the city of Tunis early in the sixteenth + century by an author who belonged to the south of Tunis. Its + opening invocation clearly indicates that it departs widely from + the conception of love as a disease: "Praise be to God who has + placed man's greatest pleasures in the natural parts of woman, + and has destined the natural parts of man to afford the greatest + enjoyments to woman." The Arabic book, <i>El Ktab</i>, or "The Secret + Laws of Love," is a modern work, by Omer Haleby Abu Othmân, who + was born in Algiers of a Moorish mother and a Turkish father.</p></div> + +<p>For Christianity the permission to yield to the sexual impulse at all was +merely a concession to human weakness, an indulgence only possible when it +was carefully hedged and guarded on every side. Almost from the first the +Christians began to cultivate the art of virginity, and they could not so +<a name='6_Page_514'></a>dislocate their point of view as to approve of the art of love. All their +passionate adoration in the sphere of sex went out towards chastity. +Possessed by such ideals, they could only tolerate human love at all by +giving to one special form of it a religious sacramental character, and +even that sacramental halo imparted to love a quasi-ascetic character +which precluded the idea of regarding love as an art.<a name='6_FNanchor_379'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_379'><sup>[379]</sup></a> Love gained a +religious element but it lost a moral element, since, outside +Christianity, the art of love is part of the foundation of sexual +morality, wherever such morality in any degree exists. In Christendom love +in marriage was left to shift for itself as best it might; the art of love +was a dubious art which was held to indicate a certain commerce with +immorality and even indeed to be itself immoral. That feeling was +doubtless strengthened by the fact that Ovid was the most conspicuous +master in literature of the art of love. His literary reputation—far +greater than it now seems to us<a name='6_FNanchor_380'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_380'><sup>[380]</sup></a>—gave distinction to his position as +the author of the chief extant text-book of the art of love. With Humanism +and the Renaissance and the consequent realization that Christianity had +overlooked one side of life, Ovid's <i>Ars Amatoria</i> was placed on a +pedestal it had not occupied before or since. It represented a step +forward in civilization; it revealed love not as a mere animal instinct or +a mere pledged duty, but as a complex, humane, and refined relationship +which demanded cultivation; "<i>arte regendus amor</i>." Boccaccio made a <a name='6_Page_515'></a>wise +teacher put Ovid's <i>Ars Amatoria</i> into the hands of the young. In an age +still oppressed by the mediæval spirit, it was a much needed text-book, +but it possessed the fatal defect, as a text-book, of presenting the erotic +claims of the individual as divorced from the claims of good social order. +It never succeeded in establishing itself as a generally accepted manual +of love, and in the eyes of many it served to stamp the subject it dealt +with as one that lies outside the limits of good morals.</p> + +<p>When, however, we take a wider survey, and inquire into the discipline for +life that is imparted to the young in many parts of the world, we shall +frequently find that the art of love, understood in varying ways, is an +essential part of that discipline. Summary, though generally adequate, as +are the educational methods of primitive peoples, they not seldom include +a training in those arts which render a woman agreeable to a man and a man +agreeable to a woman in the relationship of marriage, and it is often more +or less dimly realized that courtship is not a mere preliminary to +marriage, but a biologically essential part of the marriage relationship +throughout.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Sexual initiation is carried out very thoroughly in Azimba land, + Central Africa. H. Crawford Angus, the first European to visit + the Azimba people, lived among them for a year, and has described + the Chensamwali, or initiation ceremony, of girls. "At the first + sign of menstruation in a young girl, she is taught the mysteries + of womanhood, and is shown the different positions for sexual + intercourse. The vagina is handled freely, and if not previously + enlarged (which may have taken place at the harvest festival when + a boy and girl are allowed to 'keep house' during the day-time by + themselves, and when quasi-intercourse takes place) it is now + enlarged by means of a horn or corn-cob, which is inserted and + secured in place by bands of bark cloth. When all signs [of + menstruation] have passed, a public announcement of a dance is + given to the women in the village. At this dance no men are + allowed to be present, and it was only with a great deal of + trouble that I managed to witness it. The girl to be 'danced' is + led back from the bush to her mother's hut where she is kept in + solitude to the morning of the dance. On that morning she is + placed on the ground in a sitting position, while the dancers + form a ring around her. Several songs are then sung with + reference to the genital organs. The girl is then stripped and + made to go through the mimic performance of sexual intercourse, + and if the movements are not enacted properly, as is often the + case when the girl is <a name='6_Page_516'></a>timid and bashful, one of the older women + will take her place and show her how she is to perform. Many + songs about the relation between men and women are sung, and the + girl is instructed as to all her duties when she becomes a wife. + She is also instructed that during the time of her menstruation + she is unclean, and that during her monthly period she must close + her vulva with a pad of fibre used for the purpose. The object of + the dance is to inculcate to the girl the knowledge of married + life. The girl is taught to be faithful to her husband and to try + to bear children, and she is also taught the various arts and + methods of making herself seductive and pleasing to her husband, + and of thus retaining him in her power." (H. Crawford Angus, "The + Chensamwali," <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1898, Heft 6, p. + 479).</p> + +<p> In Abyssinia, as well as on the Zanzibar coast, according to + Stecker (quoted by Ploss-Bartels, <i>Das Weib</i>, Section 119) young + girls are educated in buttock movements which increase their + charm in coitus. These movements, of a rotatory character, are + called Duk-Duk. To be ignorant of Duk-Duk is a great disgrace to + a girl. Among the Swahili women of Zanzibar, indeed, a complete + artistic system of hip-movements is cultivated, to be displayed + in coitus. It prevails more especially on the coast, and a + Swahili woman is not counted a "lady" (bibi) unless she is + acquainted with this art. From sixty to eighty young women + practice this buttock dance together for some eight hours a day, + laying aside all clothing, and singing the while. The public are + not admitted. The dance, which is a kind of imitation of coitus, + has been described by Zache ("Sitten und Gebräuche der Suaheli," + <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1899, Heft 2-3, p. 72). The more + accomplished dancers excite general admiration. During the latter + part of this initiation various feats are imposed, to test the + girl's skill and self-control. For instance, she must dance up to + a fire and remove from the midst of the fire a vessel full of + water to the brim, without spilling it. At the end of three + months the training is over, and the girl goes home in festival + attire. She is now eligible for marriage. Similar customs are + said to prevail in the Dutch East Indies and elsewhere.</p> + +<p> The Hebrews had erotic dances, which were doubtless related to + the art of love in marriage, and among the Greeks, and their + disciples the Romans, the conception of love as an art which + needs training, skill, and cultivation, was still extant. That + conception was crushed by Christianity which, although it + sanctified the institution of matrimony, degraded that sexual + love which is normally the content of marriage.</p> + +<p> In 1176 the question was brought before a Court of Love by a + baron and lady of Champagne, whether love is compatible with + marriage. "No," said the baron, "I admire and respect the sweet + intimacy of married couples, but I cannot call it love. Love + desires obstacles, mystery, stolen favors. Now husbands and wives + boldly avow their relationship; <a name='6_Page_517'></a>they possess each other without + contradiction and without reserve. It cannot then be love that + they experience." And after mature deliberation the ladies of the + Court of Love adopted the baron's conclusions (E. de la + Bedollière, <i>Histoire des Mœurs des Français</i>, vol. iii, + p. 334). There was undoubtedly an element of truth in the baron's + arguments. Yet it may well be doubted whether in any + non-Christian country it would ever have been possible to obtain + acceptance for the doctrine that love and marriage are + incompatible. This doctrine was, however, as Ribot points out in + his <i>Logique des Sentiments</i>, inevitable, when, as among the + medieval nobility, marriage was merely a political or domestic + treaty and could not, therefore, be a method of moral elevation.</p> + +<p> "Why is it," asked Rétif de la Bretonne, towards the end of the + eighteenth century, "that girls who have no morals are more + seductive and more loveable than honest women? It is because, + like the Greek courtesans to whom grace and voluptuousness were + taught, they have studied the art of pleasing. Among the foolish + detractors of my <i>Contemporaines</i>, not one guessed the + philosophic aim of nearly everyone of these tales, which is to + suggest to honest women the ways of making themselves loved. I + should like to see the institution of initiations, such as those + of the ancients.... To-day the happiness of the human species is + abandoned to chance; all the experience of women is individual, + like that of animals; it is lost with those women who, being + naturally amiable, might have taught others to become so. + Prostitutes alone make a superficial study of it, and the lessons + they receive are, for the most part, as harmful as those of + respectable Greek and Roman matrons were holy and honorable, only + tending to wantonness, to the exhaustion alike of the purse and + of the physical faculties, while the aim of the ancient matrons + was the union of husband and wife and their mutual attachment + through pleasure. The Christian religion annihilated the + Mysteries as infamous, but we may regard that annihilation as one + of the wrongs done by Christianity to humanity, as the work of + men with little enlightenment and bitter zeal, dangerous puritans + who were the natural enemies of marriage" (Rétif de la Bretonne, + <i>Monsieur Nicolas</i>, reprint of 1883, vol. x, pp. 160-3). It may + be added that Dühren (Dr. Iwan Bloch) regards Rétif as "a master + in the <i>Ars Amandi</i>," and discusses him from this point of view + in his <i>Rétif de la Bretonne</i> (pp. 362-371).</p></div> + +<p>Whether or not Christianity is to be held responsible, it cannot be +doubted that throughout Christendom there has been a lamentable failure to +recognize the supreme importance, not only erotically but morally, of the +art of love. Even in the great revival of sexual enlightenment now taking +place around us there <a name='6_Page_518'></a>is rarely even the faintest recognition that in +sexual enlightenment the one thing essentially necessary is a knowledge of +the art of love. For the most part, sexual instruction as at present +understood, is purely negative, a mere string of thou-shalt-nots. If that +failure were due to the conscious and deliberate recognition that while +the art of love must be based on physiological and psychological +knowledge, it is far too subtle, too complex, too personal, to be +formulated in lectures and manuals, it would be reasonable and sound. But +it seems to rest entirely on ignorance, indifference, or worse.</p> + +<p>Love-making is indeed, like other arts, an art that is partly natural—"an +art that nature makes"—and therefore it is a natural subject for learning +and exercising in play. Children left to themselves tend, both playfully +and seriously, to practice love, alike on the physical and the psychic +sides.<a name='6_FNanchor_381'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_381'><sup>[381]</sup></a> But this play is on its physical side sternly repressed by +their elders, when discovered, and on its psychic side laughed at. Among +the well-bred classes it is usually starved out at an early age.</p> + +<p>After puberty, if not before, there is another form in which the art of +love is largely experimented and practised, especially in England and +America, the form of flirtation. In its elementary manifestations flirting +is entirely natural and normal; we may trace it even in animals; it is +simply the beginning of courtship, at the early stage when courtship may +yet, if desired, be broken off. Under modern civilized conditions, +however, flirtation is often more than this. These conditions make +marriage difficult; they make love and its engagements too serious a +matter to be entered on lightly; they make actual sexual intercourse +dangerous as well as disreputable. Flirtation adapts itself to these +conditions. Instead of being merely the preliminary stage of normal +courtship, it is developed into a form of sexual gratification as complete +as due observation of the conditions already mentioned will allow. In +Germany, and especially in France where it is held in great abhorrence, +this is the only form of flirtation known; it is regarded as an +exportation from <a name='6_Page_519'></a>the United States and is denominated "flirtage." Its +practical outcome is held to be the "demi-vierge," who knows and has +experienced the joys of sex while yet retaining her hymen intact.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>This degenerate form of flirtation, cultivated not as a part of + courtship, but for its own sake, has been well described by Forel + (<i>Die Sexuelle Frage</i>, pp. 97-101). He defines it as including + "all those expressions of the sexual instinct of one individual + towards another individual which excite the other's sexual + instinct, coitus being always excepted." In the beginning it may + be merely a provocative look or a simple apparently unintentional + touch or contact; and by slight gradations it may pass on to + caresses, kisses, embraces, and even extend to pressure or + friction of the sexual parts, sometimes leading to orgasm. Thus, + Forel mentions, a sensuous woman by the pressure of her garments + in dancing can produce ejaculation in her partner. Most usually + the process is that voluptuous contact and revery which, in + English slang, is called "spooning." From first to last there + need not be any explicit explanations, proposals, or declarations + on either side, and neither party is committed to any + relationship with the other beyond the period devoted to + flirtage. In one form, however, flirtage consists entirely in the + excitement of a conversation devoted to erotic and indecorous + topics. Either the man or the woman may take the active part in + flirtage, but in a woman more refinement and skill is required to + play the active part without repelling the man or injuring her + reputation. Indeed, much the same is true of men also, for women, + while they often like flirting, usually prefer its more refined + forms. There are infinite forms of flirtage, and while as a + preliminary part of courtship, it has its normal place and + justification, Forel concludes that "as an end in itself, and + never passing beyond itself, it is a phenomenon of degeneration."</p> + +<p> From the French point of view, flirtage and flirtation generally + have been discussed by Madame Bentzon ("Family Life in America," + <i>Forum</i>, March, 1896) who, however, fails to realize the natural + basis of flirtation in courtship. She regards it as a sin against + the law "Thou shalt not play with love," for it ought to have the + excuse of an irresistible passion, but she thinks it is + comparatively inoffensive in America (though still a + deteriorating influence on the women) on account of the + temperament, education, and habits of the people. It must, + however, be remembered that play has a proper relationship to all + vital activities, and that a reasonable criticism of flirtation + is concerned rather with its normal limitations than with its + right to exist (see the observations on the natural basis of + coquetry and the ends it subserves in "The Evolution of Modesty" + in volume i of these <i>Studies</i>).</p></div><a name='6_Page_520'></a> + +<p>While flirtation in its natural form—though not in the perverted form of +"flirtage"—has sound justification, alike as a method of testing a lover +and of acquiring some small part of the art of love, it remains an +altogether inadequate preparation for love. This is sufficiently shown by +the frequent inaptitude for the art of love, and even for the mere +physical act of love, so frequently manifested both by men and women in +the very countries where flirtation most flourishes.</p> + +<p>This ignorance, not merely of the art of love but even of the physical +facts of sexual love, is marked not only in women, especially women of the +middle class, but also in men, for the civilized man, as Fritsch long ago +remarked, often knows less of the facts of the sexual life than a +milkmaid. It shows itself differently, however, in the two sexes.</p> + +<p>Among women sexual ignorance ranges from complete innocence of the fact +that it involves any intimate bodily relationship at all to +misapprehensions of the most various kind; some think that the +relationship consists in lying side by side, many that intercourse takes +place at the navel, not a few that the act occupies the whole night. It +has been necessary in a previous chapter to discuss the general evils of +sexual ignorance; it is here necessary to refer to its more special evils +as regards the relationship of marriage. Girls are educated with the vague +idea that they will marry,—quite correctly, for the majority of them do +marry,—but the idea that they must be educated for the career that will +naturally fall to their lot is an idea which as yet has never seemed to +occur to the teachers of girls. Their heads are crammed to stupidity with +the knowledge of facts which it is no one's concern to know, but the +supremely important training for life they are totally unable to teach. +Women are trained for nearly every avocation under the sun; for the +supreme avocation of wifehood and motherhood they are never trained at +all!</p> + +<p>It may be said, and with truth, that the present incompetent training of +girls is likely to continue so long as the mothers of girls are content to +demand nothing better. It may also be said, with even greater truth, that +there is much that concerns the <a name='6_Page_521'></a>knowledge of sexual relationships which +the mother herself may most properly impart to her daughter. It may +further be asserted, most unanswerably, that the art of love, with which +we are here more especially concerned, can only be learnt by actual +experience, an experience which our social traditions make it difficult +for a virtuous girl to acquire with credit. Without here attempting to +apportion the share of blame which falls to each cause, it remains +unfortunate that a woman should so often enter marriage with the worst +possible equipment of prejudices and misapprehensions, even when she +believes, as often happens, that she knows all about it. Even with the +best equipment, a woman, under present conditions, enters marriage at a +disadvantage. She awakes to the full realization of love more slowly than +a man, and, on the average, at a later age, so that her experiences of the +life of sex before marriage have usually been of a much more restricted +kind than her husband's.<a name='6_FNanchor_382'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_382'><sup>[382]</sup></a> So that even with the best preparation, it +often happens that it is not until several years after marriage that a +woman clearly realizes her own sexual needs and adequately estimates her +husband's ability to satisfy those needs. We cannot over-estimate the +personal and social importance of a complete preparation for marriage, and +the greater the difficulties placed in the way of divorce the more weight +necessarily attaches to that preparation.<a name='6_FNanchor_383'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_383'><sup>[383]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Everyone is probably acquainted with many cases of the extreme + ignorance of women on entering marriage. The following case + concerning a woman of twenty-seven, who had been asked in + marriage, is somewhat extreme, but not very exceptional. "She did + not feel sure of her affection and she asked a woman cousin + concerning the meaning of love. This cousin lent her Ellis + Ethelmer's pamphlet, <i>The Human Flower</i>. She learnt from this + that men desired the body of a woman, and this <a name='6_Page_522'></a>so appalled her + that she was quite ill for several days. The next time her lover + attempted a caress she told him that it was 'lust.' Since then + she has read George Moore's <i>Sister Teresa</i>, and the knowledge + that 'women can be as bad as men' has made her sad." The + "Histories" contained in the Appendices to previous volumes of + these <i>Studies</i> reveal numerous instances of the deplorable + ignorance of young girls concerning the most central facts of the + sexual life. It is not surprising, under such circumstances, that + marriage leads to disillusionment or repulsion.</p> + +<p> It is commonly said that the duty of initiating the wife into the + privileges and obligations of marriage properly belongs to the + husband. Apart, however, altogether from the fact that it is + unjust to a woman to compel her to bind herself in marriage + before she has fully realized what marriage means, it must also + be said that there are many things necessary for women to know + that it is unreasonable to expect a husband to explain. This is, + for instance, notably the case as regards the more fatiguing and + exhausting effects of coitus on a man as compared with a woman. + The inexperienced bride cannot know beforehand that the + frequently repeated orgasms which render her vigorous and radiant + exert a depressing effect on her husband, and his masculine pride + induces him to attempt to conceal that fact. The bride, in her + innocence, is unconscious that her pleasure is bought at her + husband's expense, and that what is not excess to her, may be a + serious excess to him. The woman who knows (notably, for + instance, a widow who remarries) is careful to guard her + husband's health in this respect, by restraining her own ardor, + for she realizes that a man is not willing to admit that he is + incapable of satisfying his wife's desires. (G. Hirth has also + pointed out how important it is that women should know before + marriage the natural limits of masculine potency, <i>Wege zur + Liebe</i>, p. 571.)</p></div> + +<p>The ignorance of women of all that concerns the art of love, and their +total lack of preparation for the natural facts of the sexual life, would +perhaps be of less evil augury for marriage if it were always compensated +by the knowledge, skill, and considerateness of the husband. But that is +by no means always the case. Within the ordinary range we find, at all +events in England, the large group of men whose knowledge of women before +marriage has been mainly confined to prostitutes, and the important and +not inconsiderable group of men who have had no intimate intercourse with +women, their sexual experiences having been confined to masturbation or +other auto-erotic manifestations, and to flirtation. Certainly the man of +sensitive and intelligent temperament, whatever his training or lack of +training, <a name='6_Page_523'></a>may succeed with patience and consideration in overcoming all +the difficulties placed in the way of love by the mixture of ignorances +and prejudices which so often in woman takes the place of an education for +the erotic part of her life. But it cannot be said that either of these +two groups of men has been well equipped for the task. The training and +experience which a man receives from a prostitute, even under fairly +favorable conditions, scarcely form the right preparation for approaching +a woman of his own class who has no intimate erotic experiences.<a name='6_FNanchor_384'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_384'><sup>[384]</sup></a> The +frequent result is that he is liable to waver between two opposite courses +of action, both of them mistaken. On the one hand, he may treat his bride +as a prostitute, or as a novice to be speedily moulded into the sexual +shape he is most accustomed to, thus running the risk either of perverting +or of disgusting her. On the other hand, realizing that the purity and +dignity of his bride place her in an altogether different class from the +women he has previously known, he may go to the opposite extreme of +treating her with an exaggerated respect, and so fail either to arouse or +to gratify her erotic needs. It is difficult to say which of these two +courses of action is the more unfortunate; the result of both, however, is +frequently found to be that a nominal marriage never becomes a real +marriage.<a name='6_FNanchor_385'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_385'><sup>[385]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_524'></a> +<p>Yet there can be no doubt whatever that the other group of men, the men +who enter marriage without any erotic experiences, run even greater risks. +These are often the best of men, both as regards personal character and +mental power. It is indeed astonishing to find how ignorant, both +practically and theoretically, very able and highly educated men may be +concerning sexual matters.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"Complete abstinence during youth," says Freud + (<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, March, 1908), "is not the best preparation + for marriage in a young man. Women divine this and prefer those + of their wooers who have already proved themselves to be men with + other women." Ellen Key, referring to the demand sometimes made + by women for purity in men (<i>Ueber Liebe und Ehe</i>, p. 96), asks + whether women realize the effect of their admiration of the + experienced and confident man who knows women, on the shy and + hesitating youth, "who perhaps has been struggling hard for his + erotic purity, in the hope that a woman's happy smile will be the + reward of his conquest, and who is condemned to see how that + woman looks down on him with lofty compassion and gazes with + admiration at the leopard's spots." When the lover, in Laura + Marholm's <i>Was war es</i>? says to the heroine, "I have never yet + touched a woman," the girl "turns from him with horror, and it + seemed to her that a cold shudder went through her, a chilling + deception." The same feeling is manifested in an exaggerated form + in the passion often experienced by vigorous girls of eighteen to + twenty-four for old roués. (This has been discussed by Forel, + <i>Die Sexuelle Frage</i>, pp. 217 <i>et seq.</i>)</p> + +<p> Other factors may enter in a woman's preference for the man who + has conquered other women. Even the most religious and moral + young woman, Valera remarks (<i>Doña Luz</i>, p. 205), likes to marry + a man who has loved many women; it gives a greater value to his + choice of her; it also offers her an opportunity of converting + him to higher ideals. No doubt when the inexperienced man meets + in marriage the equally inexperienced woman they often succeed in + adapting themselves to each other and a permanent <i>modus vivendi</i> + is constituted. But it is by no means so always. If the wife is + taught by instinct or experience she is apt to resent the + awkwardness and helplessness of her husband in the art of love. + Even if she is ignorant she may be permanently alienated and + become chronically frigid, through the brutal inconsiderateness + of her ignorant husband in carrying out what he conceives to be + his marital duties. (It has already been necessary to touch on + this point in discussing "The Sexual Impulse in Women" in vol. + iii of these <i>Studies</i>.) Sometimes, indeed, serious physical + injury has been inflicted on the bride owing to this ignorance of + the husband.</p><a name='6_Page_525'></a> + +<p> "I take it that most men have had pre-matrimonial + sex-relationships," a correspondent writes. "But I have known one + man at least who, up till the age of twenty, had not even a + rudimentary idea of sex matters. At twenty-nine, a few months + before marriage, he came to ask me how coitus was performed, and + displayed an ignorance that I could not believe to exist in the + mind of an otherwise intelligent man. He had evidently no + instinct to guide him, as the brutes have, and his reason was + unable to supply the necessary knowledge. It is very curious that + man should lose this instinctive knowledge. I have known another + man almost equally ignorant. He also came to me for advice in + marital duties. Both of these men masturbated, and they were + normally passionate." Such cases are not so very rare. Usually, + however, a certain amount of information has been acquired from + some for the most part unsatisfactory source, and the ignorance + is only partial, though not on that account less dangerous.</p> + +<p> Balzac has compared the average husband to an orang-utan trying + to play the violin. "Love, as we instinctively feel, is the most + melodious of harmonies. Woman is a delicious instrument of + pleasure, but it is necessary to know its quivering strings, + study the pose of it, its timid keyboard, the changing and + capricious fingering. How many orangs—men, I mean, marry without + knowing what a woman is!... Nearly all men marry in the most + profound ignorance of women and of love" (Balzac, <i>Physiologie du + Mariage</i>, Meditation VII).</p> + +<p> Neugebauer (<i>Monatsschrift für Geburtshülfe</i>, 1889, Bk. ix, pp. + 221 <i>et seq.</i>) has collected over one hundred and fifty cases of + injury to women in coitus inflicted by the penis. The causes were + brutality, drunkenness of one or both parties, unusual position + in coitus, disproportion of the organs, pathological conditions + of the woman's organs (<i>Cf.</i> R. W. Taylor, <i>Practical Treatise on + Sexual Disorders</i>, Ch. XXXV). Blumreich also discusses the + injuries produced by violent coitus (Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health + and Disease in Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. ii, pp. 770-779). C. M. + Green (<i>Boston Medical and Surgical Journal</i>, 13 Ap., 1893) + records two cases of rupture of vagina by sexual intercourse in + newly-married ladies, without evidence of any great violence. + Mylott (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, Sept. 16, 1899) records a + similar case occurring on the wedding night. The amount of force + sometimes exerted in coitus is evidenced by the cases, occurring + from time to time, in which intercourse takes place by the + urethra.</p> + +<p> Eulenburg finds (<i>Sexuale Neuropathie</i>, p. 69) that vaginismus, a + condition of spasmodic contraction of the vulva and exaggerated + sensibility on the attempt to effect coitus, is due to forcible + and unskilful attempts at the first coitus. Adler (<i>Die + Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes</i>, p. 160) also + believes that the scarred remains of the hymen, together with + painful memories of a violent first coitus, are the most frequent + cause of vaginismus.</p><a name='6_Page_526'></a> + +<p> The occasional cases, however, of physical injury or of + pathological condition produced by violent coitus at the + beginning of marriage constitute but a very small portion of the + evidence which witnesses to the evil results of the prevalent + ignorance regarding the art of love. As regards Germany, + Fürbringer writes (Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health and Disease in + Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. i, p. 215): "I am perfectly satisfied + that the number of young married women who have a lasting painful + recollection of their first sexual intercourse exceeds by far the + number of those who venture to consult a doctor." As regards + England, the following experience is instructive: A lady asked + six married women in succession, privately, on the same day + concerning their bridal experiences. To all, sexual intercourse + had come as a shock; two had been absolutely ignorant about + sexual matters; the others had thought they knew what coitus was, + but were none the less shocked. These women were of the middle + class, perhaps above the average in intelligence; one was a + doctor.</p> + +<p> Breuer and Freud, in their <i>Studien über Hysterie</i> (p. 216), + pointed out that the bridal night is practically often a rape, + and that it sometimes leads to hysteria, which is not cured until + satisfying sexual relationships are established. Even when there + is no violence, Kisch (<i>Sexual Life of Woman</i>, Part II) regards + awkward and inexperienced coitus, leading to incomplete + excitement of the wife, as the chief cause of dyspareunia, or + absence of sexual gratification, although gross disproportion in + the size of the male and female organs, or disease in either + party, may lead to the same result. Dyspareunia, Kisch adds, is + astonishingly frequent, though sometimes women complain of it + without justification in order to arouse sympathy for themselves + as sacrifices on the altar of marriage; the constant sign is + absence of ejaculation on the woman's part. Kisch also observes + that wedding night deflorations are often really rapes. One young + bride, known to him, was so ignorant of the physical side of + love, and so overwhelmed by her husband's first attempt at + intercourse, that she fled from the house in the night, and + nothing would ever persuade her to return to her husband. (It is + worth noting that by Canon law, under such circumstances, the + Church might hold the marriage invalid. See Thomas Slater's + <i>Moral Theology</i>, vol. ii, p. 318, and a case in point, both + quoted by Rev. C. J. Shebbeare, "Marriage Law in the Church of + England," <i>Nineteenth Century</i>, Aug., 1909, p. 263.) Kisch + considers, also, that wedding tours are a mistake; since the + fatigue, the excitement, the long journeys, sight-seeing, false + modesty, bad hotel arrangements, often combine to affect the + bride unfavorably and produce the germs of serious illness. This + is undoubtedly the case.</p> + +<p> The extreme psychic importance of the manner in which the act of + defloration is accomplished is strongly emphasized by Adler. He + regards it as a frequent cause of permanent sexual anæsthesia. + "This first <a name='6_Page_527'></a>moment in which the man's individuality attains its + full rights often decides the whole of life. The unskilled, + over-excited husband can then implant the seed of feminine + insensibility, and by continued awkwardness and coarseness + develop it into permanent anæsthesia. The man who takes + possession of his rights with reckless brutal masculine force + merely causes his wife anxiety and pain, and with every + repetition of the act increases her repulsion.... A large + proportion of cold-natured women represent a sacrifice by men, + due either to unconscious awkwardness, or, occasionally, to + conscious brutality towards the tender plant which should have + been cherished with peculiar art and love, but has been robbed of + the splendor of its development. All her life long, a wistful and + trembling woman will preserve the recollection of a brutal + wedding night, and, often enough, it remains a perpetual source + of inhibition every time that the husband seeks anew to gratify + his desires without adapting himself to his wife's desires for + love" (O. Adler, <i>Die Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung des + Weibes</i>, pp. 159 <i>et seq.</i>, 181 <i>et seq.</i>). "I have seen an + honest woman shudder with horror at her husband's approach," + wrote Diderot long ago in his essay "Sur les Femmes"; "I have + seen her plunge in the bath and feel herself never sufficiently + washed from the stain of duty." The same may still be said of a + vast army of women, victims of a pernicious system of morality + which has taught them false ideas of "conjugal duty" and has + failed to teach their husbands the art of love.</p></div> + +<p>Women, when their fine natural instincts have not been hopelessly +perverted by the pruderies and prejudices which are so diligently +instilled into them, understand the art of love more readily than men. +Even when little more than children they can often completely take the cue +that is given to them. Much more than is the case with men, at all events +under civilized conditions, the art of love is with them an art that +Nature makes. They always know more of love, as Montaigne long since said, +than men can teach them, for it is a discipline that is born in their +blood.<a name='6_FNanchor_386'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_386'><sup>[386]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_528'></a> +<div class='blkquot'><p>The extensive inquiries of Sanford Bell (<i>loc. cit.</i>) show that + the emotions of sex-love may appear as early as the third year. + It must also be remembered that, both physically and psychically, + girls are more precocious, more mature, than boys (see, <i>e.g.</i>, + Havelock Ellis, <i>Man and Woman</i>, fourth edition, pp. 34 <i>et + seq.</i>, 200, etc.). Thus, by the time she has reached the age of + puberty a girl has had time to become an accomplished mistress of + the minor arts of love. That the age of puberty is for girls the + age of love seems to be widely recognized by the popular mind. + Thus in a popular song of Bresse a girl sings:—</p></div> + +<div class='poem'><div class='stanza'> +<span class='i5'>"J'ai calculé mon âge,<br /></span> +<span class='i5'>J'ai quatorze à quinze ans.<br /></span> +<span class='i5'>Ne suis-je pas dans l'âge<br /></span> +<span class='i5'>D'y avoir un amant?"<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>This matter of the sexual precocity of girls has an important + bearing on the question of the "age of consent," or the age at + which it should be legal for a girl to consent to sexual + intercourse. Until within the last twenty-five years there has + been a tendency to set a very low age (even as low as ten) as the + age above which a man commits no offence in having sexual + intercourse with a girl. In recent years there has been a + tendency to run to the opposite and equally unfortunate extreme + of raising it to a very late age. In England, by the Criminal Law + Amendment Act of 1885, the age of consent was raised to sixteen + (this clause of the bill being carried in the House of Commons by + a majority of 108). This seems to be the reasonable age at which + the limit should be set and its extreme high limit in temperate + climates. It is the age recognized by the Italian Criminal Code, + and in many other parts of the civilized world. Gladstone, + however, was in favor of raising it to eighteen, and Howard, in + discussing this question as regards the United States + (<i>Matrimonial Institutions</i>, vol. iii, pp. 195-203), thinks it + ought everywhere to be raised to twenty-one, so coinciding with + the age of legal majority at which a woman can enter into + business or political relations. There has been, during recent + years, a wide limit of variation in the legislation of the + different American States on this point, the differences of the + two limits being as much as eight years, and in some important + States the act of intercourse with a girl under eighteen is + declared to be "rape," and punishable with imprisonment for life.</p> + +<p> Such enactments as these, however, it must be recognized, are + arbitrary, artificial, and unnatural. They do not rest on a sound + biological basis, and cannot be enforced by the common sense of + the community. There is no proper analogy between the age of + legal majority which is fixed, approximately, with reference to + the ability to comprehend abstract matters of intelligence, and + the age of sexual maturity which occurs much earlier, both + physically and psychically, and is determined in <a name='6_Page_529'></a>women by a very + precise biological event: the completion of puberty in the onset + of menstruation. Among peoples living under natural conditions in + all parts of the world it is recognized that a girl becomes + sexually a woman at puberty; at that epoch she receives her + initiation into adult life and becomes a wife and a mother. To + declare that the act of intercourse with a woman who, by the + natural instinct of mankind generally, is regarded as old enough + for all the duties of womanhood, is a criminal act of rape, + punishable by imprisonment for life, can only be considered an + abuse of language, and, what is worse, an abuse of law, even if + we leave all psychological and moral considerations out of the + question, for it deprives the conception of rape of all that + renders it naturally and properly revolting.</p> + +<p> The sound view in this question is clearly the view that it is + the girl's puberty which constitutes the criterion of the man's + criminality in sexually approaching her. In the temperate regions + of Europe and North America the average age of the appearance of + menstruation, the critical moment in the establishment of + complete puberty, is fifteen (see, <i>e.g.</i>, Havelock Ellis, <i>Man + and Woman</i>, Ch. XI; the facts are set forth at length in Kisch's + <i>Sexual Life of Woman</i>, 1909). Therefore it is reasonable that + the act of an adult man in having sexual connection with a girl + under sixteen, with or without her consent, should properly be a + criminal act, severely punishable. In those lands where the + average age of puberty is higher or lower, the age of consent + should be raised or lowered accordingly. (Bruno Meyer, arguing + against any attempt to raise the age of consent above sixteen, + considers that the proper age of consent is generally fourteen, + for, as he rightly insists, the line of division is between the + ripe and the unripe personality, and while the latter should be + strictly preserved from the sphere of sexuality, only voluntary, + not compulsory, influence should be brought to bear on the + former. <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Ap., 1909.)</p> + +<p> If we take into our view the wider considerations of psychology, + morality, and law, we shall find ample justification for this + point of view. We have to remember that a girl, during all the + years of ordinary school life, is always more advanced, both + physically and psychically, than a boy of the same age, and we + have to recognize that this precocity covers her sexual + development; for even though it is true, on the average, that + active sexual desire is not usually aroused in women until a + somewhat later age, there is also truth in the observation of Mr. + Thomas Hardy (<i>New Review</i>, June, 1894): "It has never struck me + that the spider is invariably male and the fly invariably + female." Even, therefore, when sexual intercourse takes place + between a girl and a youth somewhat older than herself, she is + likely to be the more mature, the more self-possessed, and the + more responsible of the two, and often the one who has taken the + more active part in initiating the act. (This point has <a name='6_Page_530'></a>been + discussed in "The Sexual Impulse in Women" in vol. iii of these + <i>Studies</i>.) It must also be remembered that when a girl has once + reached the age of puberty, and put on all the manner and habits + as well as the physical development of a woman, it is no longer + possible for a man always to estimate her age. It is easy to see + that a girl has not yet reached the age of puberty; it is + impossible to tell whether a mature woman is under or over + eighteen; it is therefore, to say the least, unjust to make her + male partner's fate for life depend on the recognition of a + distinction which has no basis in nature. Such considerations + are, indeed, so obvious that there is no chance of carrying out + thoroughly in practice the doctrine that a man should be + imprisoned for life for having intercourse with a girl who is + over the age of sixteen. It is better, from the legal point of + view, to cast the net less widely and to be quite sure that it is + adapted to catch the real and conscious offender, who may be + punished without offending the common sense of the community. + (<i>Cf.</i> Bloch, <i>The Sexual Life of Our Time</i>, Ch. XXIV; he + considers that the "age of consent" should begin with the + completion of the sixteenth year.)</p> + +<p> It may be necessary to add that the establishment of the "age of + consent" on this basis by no means implies that intercourse with + girls but little over sixteen should be encouraged, or even + socially and morally tolerated. Here, however, we are not in the + sphere of law. It is the natural tendency of the well-born and + well-nurtured girl under civilized conditions to hold herself in + reserve, and the pressure whereby that tendency is maintained and + furthered must be supplied by the whole of her environment, + primarily by the intelligent reflection of the girl herself when + she has reached the age of adolescence. To foster in a young + woman who has long passed the epoch of puberty the notion that + she has no responsibility in the guardianship of her own body and + soul is out of harmony with modern feeling, as well as + unfavorable to the training of women for the world. The States + which have been induced to adopt the high limit of the age of + consent have, indeed, thereby made an abject confession of their + inability to maintain a decent moral level by more legitimate + means; they may profitably serve as a warning rather than as an + example.</p></div> + +<p>The knowledge of women cannot, however, replace, the ignorance of men, +but, on the contrary, merely serves to reveal it. For in the art of love +the man must necessarily take the initiative. It is he who must first +unseal the mystery of the intimacies and audacities which the woman's +heart may hold. The risk of meeting with even the shadow of contempt or +disgust is too serious to allow a woman, even a wife, to reveal the +secrets of love to a <a name='6_Page_531'></a>man who has not shown himself to be an +initiate.<a name='6_FNanchor_387'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_387'><sup>[387]</sup></a> Numberless are the jovial and contented husbands who have +never suspected, and will never know, that their wives carry about with +them, sometimes with silent resentment, the ache of mysterious <i>tabus</i>. +The feeling that there are delicious privacies and privileges which she +has never been asked to take, or forced to accept, often erotically +divorces a wife from a husband who never realizes what he has missed.<a name='6_FNanchor_388'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_388'><sup>[388]</sup></a> +The case of such husbands is all the harder because, for the most part, +all that they have done is the result of the morality that has been +preached to them. They have been taught from boyhood to be strenuous and +manly and clean-minded, to seek by all means to put out of their minds the +thought of women or the longing for sensuous indulgence. They have been +told on all sides that only in marriage is it right or even safe to +approach women. They have acquired the notion that sexual indulgence and +all that appertains to it is something low and degrading, at the worst a +mere natural necessity, at the best a duty to be accomplished in a direct, +honorable and straight-forward manner. No one seems to have told them that +love is an art, and that to gain real possession of a woman's soul and +body is a task that requires the whole of a man's best skill and insight. +It may well be that when a man learns his lesson too late he is inclined +to turn ferociously on the society that by its conspiracy of +pseudo-morality has done its best to ruin his life, and that of his wife. +In some of these cases husband or wife or both are <a name='6_Page_532'></a>finally attracted to a +third person, and a divorce enables them to start afresh with better +experience under happier auspices. But as things are at present that is a +sad and serious process, for many impossible. They are happier, as Milton +pointed out, whose trials of love before marriage "have been so many +divorces to teach them experience."</p> + +<p>The general ignorance concerning the art of love may be gauged by the fact +that perhaps the question in this matter most frequently asked is the +crude question how often sexual intercourse should take place. That is a +question, indeed, which has occupied the founders of religion, the +law-givers, and the philosophers of mankind, from the earliest times.<a name='6_FNanchor_389'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_389'><sup>[389]</sup></a> +Zoroaster said it should be once in every nine days. The laws of Manes +allowed intercourse during fourteen days of the month, but a famous +ancient Hindu physician, Susruta, prescribed it six times a month, except +during the heat of summer when it should be once a month, while other +Hindu authorities say three or four times a month. Solon's requirement of +the citizen that intercourse should take place three times a month fairly +agrees with Zoroaster's. Mohammed, in the Koran, decrees intercourse once +a week. The Jewish Talmud is more discriminating, and distinguishes +between different classes of people; on the vigorous and healthy young +man, not compelled to work hard, once a day is imposed, on the ordinary +working man twice a week, on learned men once a week. Luther considered +twice a week the proper frequency of intercourse.</p> + +<p>It will be observed that, as we might expect, these estimates tend to +allow a greater interval in the earlier ages when erotic stimulation was +probably less and erotic erethism probably rare, and to involve an +increased frequency as we approach modern civilization. It will also be +observed that variation occurs within fairly narrow limits. This is +probably due to the fact that these law-givers were in all cases men. +Women law-givers would <a name='6_Page_533'></a>certainly have shown a much greater tendency to +variation, since the variations of the sexual impulse are greater in +women.<a name='6_FNanchor_390'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_390'><sup>[390]</sup></a> Thus Zenobia required the approach of her husband once a +month, provided that impregnation had not taken place the previous month, +while another queen went very far to the other extreme, for we are told +that the Queen of Aragon, after mature deliberation, ordained six times a +day as the proper rule in a legitimate marriage.<a name='6_FNanchor_391'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_391'><sup>[391]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It may be remarked, in passing, that the estimates of the proper + frequency of sexual intercourse may always be taken to assume + that there is a cessation during the menstrual period. This is + especially the case as regards early periods of culture when + intercourse at this time is usually regarded as either dangerous + or sinful, or both. (This point has been discussed in the + "Phenomena of Periodicity" in volume i of these <i>Studies</i>.) Under + civilized conditions the inhibition is due to æsthetic reasons, + the wife, even if she desires intercourse, feeling a repugnance + to be approached at a time when she regards herself as + "disgusting," and the husband easily sharing this attitude. It + may, however, be pointed out that the æsthetic objection is very + largely the result of the superstitious horror of water which is + still widely felt at this time, and would, to some extent, + disappear if a more scrupulous cleanliness were observed. It + remains a good general rule to abstain from sexual intercourse + during the menstrual period, but in some cases there may be + adequate reason for breaking it. This is so when desire is + specially strong at this time, or when intercourse is physically + difficult at other times but easier during the relaxation of the + parts caused by menstruation. It must be remembered also that the + time when the menstrual flow is beginning to cease is probably, + more than any other period of the month, the biologically proper + time for sexual intercourse, since not only is intercourse + easiest then, and also most gratifying to the female, but it + affords the most favorable opportunity for securing + fertilization.</p> + +<p> Schurig long since brought together evidence (<i>Parthenologia</i>, + pp. 302 <i>et seq.</i>) showing that coitus is most easy during + menstruation. Some of the Catholic theologians (like Sanchez, and + later, Liguori), going against the popular opinion, have + distinctly permitted intercourse during menstruation, though many + earlier theologians regarded it as a mortal <a name='6_Page_534'></a>sin. From the + medical side, Kossmann (Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health and Disease + in Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. i, p. 249) advocates coitus not + only at the end of menstruation, but even during the latter part + of the period, as being the time when women most usually need it, + the marked disagreeableness of temper often shown by women at + this time, he says, being connected with the suppression, + demanded by custom, of a natural desire. "It is almost always + during menstruation that the first clouds appear on the + matrimonial horizon."</p></div> + +<p>In modern times the physiologists and physicians who have expressed any +opinion on this subject have usually come very near to Luther's dictum. +Haller said that intercourse should not be much more frequent than twice a +week.<a name='6_FNanchor_392'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_392'><sup>[392]</sup></a> Acton said once a week, and so also Hammond, even for healthy +men between the ages of twenty-five and forty.<a name='6_FNanchor_393'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_393'><sup>[393]</sup></a> Fürbringer only +slightly exceeds this estimate by advocating from fifty to one hundred +single acts in the year.<a name='6_FNanchor_394'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_394'><sup>[394]</sup></a> Forel advises two or three times a week for +a man in the prime of manhood, but he adds that for some healthy and +vigorous men once a month appears to be excess.<a name='6_FNanchor_395'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_395'><sup>[395]</sup></a> Mantegazza, in his +<i>Hygiene of Love</i>, also states that, for a man between twenty and thirty, +two or three times a week represents the proper amount of intercourse, and +between the ages of thirty and forty-five, twice a week. Guyot recommends +every three days.<a name='6_FNanchor_396'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_396'><sup>[396]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It seems, however, quite unnecessary to lay down any general rules +regarding the frequency of coitus. Individual desire and individual +aptitude, even within the limits of health, vary enormously. Moreover, if +we recognize that the restraint of desire is sometimes desirable, and +often necessary for prolonged periods, it is as well to refrain from any +appearance of asserting the necessity of sexual intercourse at frequent +and regular intervals. The question is chiefly of importance in order to +guard against excess, or even against the attempt to live habitually close +to the threshold of excess. Many authorities are, therefore, careful to +point out that it is inadvisable to be too definite.<a name='6_Page_535'></a> Thus Erb, while +remarking that, for some, Luther's dictum represents the extreme maximum, +adds that others can go far beyond that amount with impunity, and he +considers that such variations are congenital.<a name='6_FNanchor_397'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_397'><sup>[397]</sup></a> Ribbing, again, while +expressing general agreement with Luther's rule, protests against any +attempt to lay down laws for everyone, and is inclined to say that as +often as one likes is a safe rule, so long as there are no bad +after-effects.<a name='6_FNanchor_398'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_398'><sup>[398]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It seems to be generally agreed that bad effects from excess in + coitus, when they do occur, are rare in women (see, <i>e.g.</i>, + Hammond, <i>Sexual Impotence</i>, p. 127). Occasionally, however, evil + effects occur in women. (The case, possibly to be mentioned in + this connection, has been recorded of a man whose three wives all + became insane after marriage, <i>Journal of Mental Science</i>, Jan., + 1879, p. 611.) In cases of sexual excess great physical + exhaustion, with suspicion and delusions, is often observed. + Hutchinson has recorded three cases of temporary blindness, all + in men, the result of sexual excess after marriage (<i>Archives of + Surgery</i>, Jan., 1893). The old medical authors attributed many + evil results to excess in coitus. Thus Schurig (<i>Spermatologia</i>, + 1720, pp. 260 <i>et seq.</i>) brings together cases of insanity, + apoplexy, syncope, epilepsy, loss of memory, blindness, baldness, + unilateral perspiration, gout, and death attributed to this + cause; of death many cases are given, some in women, but one may + easily perceive that <i>post</i> was often mistaken for <i>propter</i>.</p></div> + +<p>There is, however, another consideration which can scarcely escape the +reader of the present work. Nearly all the estimates of the desirable +frequence of coitus are framed to suit the supposed physiological needs of +the husband,<a name='6_FNanchor_399'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_399'><sup>[399]</sup></a> and they appear <a name='6_Page_536'></a>usually to be framed in the same spirit +of exclusive attention to those needs as though the physiological needs of +the evacuation of the bowels or the bladder were in question. But sexual +needs are the needs of two persons, of the husband and of the wife. It is +not enough to ascertain the needs of the husband; it is also necessary to +ascertain the needs of the wife. The resultant must be a harmonious +adjustment of these two groups of needs. That consideration alone, in +conjunction with the wide variations of individual needs, suffices to +render any definite rules of very trifling value.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is important to remember the wide limits of variation in + sexual capacity, as well as the fact that such variations in + either direction may be healthy and normal, though undoubtedly + when they become extreme variations may have a pathological + significance. In one case, for instance, a man has intercourse + once a month and finds this sufficient; he has no nocturnal + emissions nor any strong desires in the interval; yet he leads an + idle and luxurious life and is not restrained by any moral or + religious scruples; if he much exceeds the frequency which suits + him he suffers from ill-health, though otherwise quite healthy + except for a weak digestion. At the other extreme, a happily + married couple, between forty-five and fifty, much attached to + each other, had engaged in sexual intercourse every night for + twenty years, except during the menstrual period and advanced + pregnancy, which had only occurred once; they are hearty, + full-blooded, intellectual people, fond of good living, and they + attribute their affection and constancy to this frequent + indulgence in coitus; the only child, a girl, is not strong, + though fairly healthy.</p> + +<p> The cases are numerous in which, on special occasions, it is + possible for people who are passionately attached to each other + to repeat the act of coitus, or at all events the orgasm, an + inordinate number of times within a few hours. This usually + occurs at the beginning of an intimacy or after a long + separation. Thus in one case a newly-married woman experienced + the orgasm fourteen times in one night, her husband in the same + period experiencing it seven times. In another case a woman who + had lived a chaste life, when sexual relationships finally began, + once experienced orgasm fourteen or fifteen times to her + partner's three times. In a case which, I have been assured may + be accepted as authentic, a young wife of highly erotic, very + erethic, slightly abnormal temperament, after a month's absence + from her husband, was excited twenty-six times within an hour and + a quarter; her husband, a much older man, having two orgasms + during this period; the wife admitted that she felt a "complete + wreck" after this, but it is evident that if this case may <a name='6_Page_537'></a>be + regarded as authentic the orgasms were of extremely slight + intensity. A young woman, newly married to a physically robust + man, once had intercourse with him eight times in two hours, + orgasm occurring each time in both parties. Guttceit (<i>Dreissig + Jahre Praxis</i>, vol. ii. p. 311), in Russia, knew many cases in + which young men of twenty-two to twenty-eight had intercourse + more than ten times in one night, though after the fourth time + there is seldom any semen. He had known some men who had + masturbated in early boyhood, and began to consort with women at + fifteen, yet remained sexually vigorous in old age, while he knew + others who began intercourse late and were losing force at forty. + Mantegazza, who knew a man who had intercourse fourteen times in + one day, remarks that the stories of the old Italian novelists + show that twelve times was regarded as a rare exception. + Burchard, Alexander VI's secretary, states that the Florentine + Ambassador's son, in Rome in 1489, "knew a girl seven times in + one hour" (J. Burchard, <i>Diarium</i>, ed. Thuasne, vol. i, p. 329). + Olivier, Charlemagne's knight, boasted, according to legend, that + he could show his virile power one hundred times in one night, if + allowed to sleep with the Emperor of Constantinople's daughter; + he was allowed to try, it is said, and succeeded thirty times + (Schultz, <i>Das Höfische Leben</i>, vol. i, p. 581).</p> + +<p> It will be seen that whenever the sexual act is repeated + frequently within a short time it is very rarely indeed that the + husband can keep pace with the wife. It is true that the woman's + sexual energy is aroused more slowly and with more difficulty + than the man's, but as it becomes aroused its momentum increases. + The man, whose energy is easily aroused, is easily exhausted; the + woman has often scarcely attained her energy until after the + first orgasm is over. It is sometimes a surprise to a young + husband, happily married, to find that the act of sexual + intercourse which completely satisfies him has only served to + arouse his wife's ardor. Very many women feel that the repetition + of the act several times in succession is needed to, as they may + express it, "clear the system," and, far from producing + sleepiness and fatigue, it renders them bright and lively.</p> + +<p> The young and vigorous woman, who has lived a chaste life, + sometimes feels when she commences sexual relationships as though + she really required several husbands, and needed intercourse at + least once a day, though later when she becomes adjusted to + married life she reaches the conclusion that her desires are not + abnormally excessive. The husband has to adjust himself to his + wife's needs, through his sexual force when he possesses it, and, + if not, through his skill and consideration. The rare men who + possess a genital potency which they can exert to the + gratification of women without injury to themselves have been, by + Professor Benedikt, termed "sexual athletes," and he remarks that + such men easily dominate women. He rightly regards Casanova as + the type of the <a name='6_Page_538'></a>sexual athlete (<i>Archives d'Anthropologie + Criminelle</i>, Jan., 1896). Näcke reports the case of a man whom he + regards as a sexual athlete, who throughout his life had + intercourse once or twice daily with his wife, or if she was + unwilling, with another woman, until he became insane at the age + of seventy-five (<i>Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft</i>, Aug., + 1908, p. 507). This should probably, however, be regarded rather + as a case of morbid hyperæsthesia than of sexual athleticism.</p></div> + +<p>At this stage we reach the fundamental elements of the art of love. We +have seen that many moral practices and moral theories which have been +widely current in Christendom have developed traditions, still by no means +extinct among us, which were profoundly antagonistic to the art of love. +The idea grew up of "marital duties," of "conjugal rights."<a name='6_FNanchor_400'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_400'><sup>[400]</sup></a> The +husband had the right and the duty to perform sexual intercourse with his +wife, whatever her wishes in the matter might be, while the wife had the +duty and the right (the duty in her case being usually put first) to +submit to such intercourse, which she was frequently taught to regard as +something low and merely physical, an unpleasant and almost degrading +necessity which she would do well to put out of her thoughts as speedily +as possible. It is not surprising that such an attitude towards marriage +has been highly favorable to conjugal unhappiness, more especially that of +the wife,<a name='6_FNanchor_401'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_401'><sup>[401]</sup></a> and it has tended to promote adultery and divorce. We might +have been more surprised had it been otherwise.</p> + +<p>The art of love is based on the fundamental natural fact of courtship; and +courtship is the effort of the male to make himself acceptable to the +female.<a name='6_FNanchor_402'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_402'><sup>[402]</sup></a> "The art of love," said Vatsyayana, one of the greatest of +authorities, "is the art of pleasing <a name='6_Page_539'></a>women." "A man must never permit +himself a pleasure with his wife," said Balzac in his <i>Physiologie du +Mariage</i>, "which he has not the skill first to make her desire." The whole +art of love is there. Women, naturally and instinctively, seek to make +themselves desirable to men, even to men whom they are supremely +indifferent to, and the woman who is in love with a man, by an equally +natural instinct, seeks to shape herself to the measure which individually +pleases him. This tendency is not really modified by the fundamental fact +that in these matters it is only the arts that Nature makes which are +truly effective. It is finally by what he is that a man arouses a woman's +deepest emotions of sympathy or of antipathy, and he is often pleasing her +more by displaying his fitness to play a great part in the world outside +than by any acquired accomplishments in the arts of courtship. When, +however, the serious and intimate play of physical love begins, the +woman's part is, even biologically, on the surface the more passive +part.<a name='6_FNanchor_403'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_403'><sup>[403]</sup></a> She is, on the physical side, inevitably the instrument in +love; it must be his hand and his bow which evoke the music.</p> + +<p>In speaking of the art of love, however, it is impossible to disentangle +completely the spiritual from the physical. The very attempt to do so is, +indeed, a fatal mistake. The man who can only perceive the physical side +of the sexual relationship is, as Hinton was accustomed to say, on a level +with the man who, in listening to a sonata of Beethoven on the violin, is +only conscious of the physical fact that a horse's tail is being scraped +against a sheep's entrails.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The image of the musical instrument constantly recurs to those + who write of the art of love. Balzac's comparison of the + unskilful husband to the orang-utan attempting to play the violin + has already been quoted. Dr. Jules Guyot, in his serious and + admirable little book, <i>Bréviaire de l'Amour Expérimental</i>, falls + on to the same comparison: "There are an <a name='6_Page_540'></a>immense number of + ignorant, selfish, and brutal men who give themselves no trouble + to study the instrument which God has confided to them, and do + not so much as suspect that it is necessary to study it in order + to draw out its slightest chords.... Every direct contact, even + with the clitoris, every attempt at coitus [when the feminine + organism is not aroused], exercises a painful sensation, an + instinctive repulsion, a feeling of disgust and aversion. Any + man, any husband, who is ignorant of this fact, is ridiculous and + contemptible. Any man, any husband, who, knowing it, dares to + disregard it, has committed an outrage.... In the final + combination of man and woman, the positive element, the husband, + has the initiative and the responsibility for the conjugal life. + He is the minstrel who will produce harmony or cacophony by his + hand and his bow. The wife, from this point of view, is really + the many-stringed instrument who will give out harmonious or + discordant sounds, according as she is well or ill handled" + (Guyot, <i>Bréviaire</i>, pp. 99, 115, 138).</p> + +<p> That such love corresponds to the woman's need there cannot be + any doubt. All developed women desire to be loved, says Ellen + Key, not "en mâle" but "en artiste" (<i>Liebe und Ehe</i>, p. 92). + "Only a man of whom she feels that he has also the artist's joy + in her, and who shows this joy through his timid and delicate + touch on her soul as on her body, can keep the woman of to-day. + She will only belong to a man who continues to long for her even + when he holds her locked in his arms. And when such a woman + breaks out: 'You want me, but you cannot caress me, you cannot + tell what I want,' then that man is judged." Love is indeed, as + Remy de Gourmont remarks, a delicate art, for which, as for + painting or music, only some are apt.</p></div> + +<p>It must not be supposed that the demand on the lover and husband to +approach a woman in the same spirit, with the same consideration and +skilful touch, as a musician takes up his instrument is merely a demand +made by modern women who are probably neurotic or hysterical. No reader of +these <i>Studies</i> who has followed the discussions of courtship and of +sexual selection in previous volumes can fail to realize that—although we +have sought to befool ourselves by giving an illegitimate connotation to +the word "brutal"—consideration and respect for the female is all but +universal in the sexual relationships of the animals below man; it is only +at the furthest remove from the "brutes," among civilized men, that sexual +"brutality" is at all common, and even there it is chiefly the result of +ignorance. If we go <a name='6_Page_541'></a>as low as the insects, who have been disciplined by +no family life, and are generally counted as careless and wanton, we may +sometimes find this attitude towards the female fully developed, and the +extreme consideration of the male for the female whom yet he holds firmly +beneath him, the tender preliminaries, the extremely gradual approach to +the supreme sexual act, may well furnish an admirable lesson.</p> + +<p>This greater difficulty and delay on the part of women in responding to +the erotic excitation of courtship is really very fundamental and—as has +so often been necessary to point out in previous volumes of these +<i>Studies</i>—it covers the whole of woman's erotic life, from the earliest +age when coyness and modesty develop. A woman's love develops much more +slowly than a man's for a much longer period. There is real psychological +significance in the fact that a man's desire for a woman tends to arise +spontaneously, while a woman's desire for a man tends only to be aroused +gradually, in the measure of her complexly developing relationship to him. +Hence her sexual emotion is often less abstract, more intimately +associated with the individual lover in whom it is centred. "The way to my +senses is through my heart," wrote Mary Wollstonecraft to her lover Imlay, +"but, forgive me! I think there is sometimes a shorter cut to yours." She +spoke for the best, if not for the largest part, of her sex. A man often +reaches the full limit of his physical capacity for love at a single step, +and it would appear that his psychic limits are often not more difficult +to reach. This is the solid fact underlying the more hazardous statement, +so often made, that woman is monogamic and man polygamic.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>On the more physical side, Guttceit states that a month after + marriage not more than two women out of ten have experienced the + full pleasure of sexual intercourse, and it may not be for six + months, a year, or even till after the birth of several children, + that a woman experiences the full enjoyment of the physical + relationship, and even then only with a man she completely loves, + so that the conditions of sexual gratification are much more + complex in women than in men. Similarly, on the psychic side, + Ellen Key remarks (<i>Ueber Liebe und Ehe</i>, p. 111): "It is + certainly true that a woman desires sexual gratification from a + man. But while in her this desire not seldom only appears after + she has begun <a name='6_Page_542'></a>to love a man enough to give her life for him, a + man often desires to possess a woman physically before he loves + her enough to give even his little finger for her. The fact that + love in a woman mostly goes from the soul to the senses and often + fails to reach them, and that in a man it mostly goes from the + senses to the soul and frequently never reaches that goal—this + is of all the existing differences between men and women that + which causes most torture to both." It will, of course, be + apparent to the reader of the fourth volume of these <i>Studies</i> on + "Sexual Selection in Man" that the method of stating the + difference which has commended itself to Mary Wollstonecraft, + Ellen Key, and others, is not strictly correct, and the chastest + woman, after, for example, taking too hot a bath, may find that + her heart is not the only path through which her senses may be + affected. The senses are the only channels to the external world + which we possess, and love must come through these channels or + not at all. The difference, however, seems to be a real one, if + we translate it to mean that, as we have seen reason to believe + in previous volumes of these <i>Studies</i>, there are in women (1) + preferential sensory paths of sexual stimuli, such as, + apparently, a predominence of tactile and auditory paths as + compared with men; (2) a more massive, complex, and delicately + poised sexual mechanism; and, as a result of this, (3) eventually + a greater amount of nervous and cerebral sexual irradiation.</p> + +<p> It must be remembered, at the same time, that while this + distinction represents a real tendency in sexual differentiation, + with an organic and not merely traditional basis, it has about it + nothing whatever that is absolute. There are a vast number of + women whose sexual facility, again by natural tendency and not + merely by acquired habits, is as marked as that of any man, if + not more so. In the sexual field, as we have seen in a previous + volume (<i>Analysis of the Sexual Impulse</i>), the range of + variability is greater in women than in men.</p></div> + +<p>The fact that love is an art, a method of drawing music from an +instrument, and not the mere commission of an act by mutual consent, makes +any verbal agreement to love of little moment. If love were a matter of +contract, of simple intellectual consent, of question and answer, it would +never have come into the world at all. Love appeared as art from the +first, and the subsequent developments of the summary methods of reason +and speech cannot abolish that fundamental fact. This is scarcely realized +by those ill-advised lovers who consider that the first step in +courtship—and perhaps even the whole of courtship—is for a man to ask a +woman to be his wife. That is so far from being the case that it +constantly happens that the premature exhibition of so <a name='6_Page_543'></a>large a demand at +once and for ever damns all the wooer's chances. It is lamentable, no +doubt, that so grave and fateful a matter as that of marriage should so +often be decided without calm deliberation and reasonable forethought. But +sexual relationships can never, and should never, be merely a matter of +cold calculation. When a woman is suddenly confronted by the demand that +she should yield herself up as a wife to a man who has not yet succeeded +in gaining her affections she will not fail to find—provided she is +lifted above the cold-hearted motives of self-interest—that there are +many sound reasons why she should not do so. And having thus squarely +faced the question in cool blood and decided it, she will henceforth, +probably, meet that wooer with a tunic of steel enclosing her breast.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"Love must be <i>revealed</i> by acts and not <i>betrayed</i> by words. I + regard as abnormal the extraordinary method of a hasty avowal + beforehand; for that represents not the direct but the reflex + path of transmission. However sweet and normal the avowal may be + when once reciprocity has been realized, as a method of conquest + I consider it dangerous and likely to produce the reverse of the + result desired." I take these wise words from a thoughtful "Essai + sur l'Amour" (<i>Archives de Psychologie</i>, 1904) by a + non-psychological Swiss writer who is recording his own + experiences, and who insists much on the predominance of the + spiritual and mental element in love.</p> + +<p> It is worthy of note that this recognition that direct speech is + out of place in courtship must not be regarded as a refinement of + civilization. Among primitive peoples everywhere it is perfectly + well recognized that the offer of love, and its acceptance or its + refusal, must be made by actions symbolically, and not by the + crude method of question and answer. Among the Indians of + Paraguay, who allow much sexual freedom to their women, but never + buy or sell love, Mantegazza states (<i>Rio de la Plata e + Tenerife</i>, 1867, p. 225) that a girl of the people will come to + your door or window and timidly, with a confused air, ask you, in + the Guarani tongue, for a drink of water. But she will smile if + you innocently offer her water. Among the Tarahumari Indians of + Mexico, with whom the initiative in courting belongs to the + women, the girl takes the first step through her parents, then + she throws small pebbles at the young man; if he throws them back + the matter is concluded (Carl Lumholtz, <i>Scribner's Magazine</i>, + Sept., 1894, p. 299). In many parts of the world it is the woman + who chooses her husband (see, <i>e.g.</i>, M. A. Potter, <i>Sohrab and + Rustem</i>, pp. 169 <i>et seq.</i>), and she very <a name='6_Page_544'></a>frequently adopts a + symbolical method of proposal. Except when the commercial element + predominates in marriage, a similar method is frequently adopted + by men also in making proposals of marriage.</p></div> + +<p>It is not only at the beginning of courtship that the act of love has +little room for formal declarations, for the demands and the avowals that +can be clearly defined in speech. The same rule holds even in the most +intimate relationships of old lovers, throughout the married life. The +permanent element in modesty, which survives every sexual initiation to +become intertwined with all the exquisite impudicities of love, combines +with a true erotic instinct to rebel against formal demands, against +verbal affirmations or denials. Love's requests cannot be made in words, +nor truthfully answered in words: a fine divination is still needed as +long as love lasts.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The fact that the needs of love cannot be expressed but must be + divined has long been recognized by those who have written of the + art of love, alike by writers within and without the European + Christian traditions. Thus Zacchia, in his great medico-legal + treatise, points out that a husband must be attentive to the + signs of sexual desire in his wife. "Women," he says, "when + sexual desire arises within them are accustomed to ask their + husbands questions on matters of love; they flatter and caress + them; they allow some part of their body to be uncovered as if by + accident; their breasts appear to swell; they show unusual + alacrity; they blush; their eyes are bright; and if they + experience unusual ardor they stammer, talk beside the mark, and + are scarcely mistress of themselves. At the same time their + private parts become hot and swell. All these signs should + convince a husband, however inattentive he may be, that his wife + craves for satisfaction" (<i>Zacchiæ Quæstionum Medico-legalium + Opus</i>, lib. vii, tit. iii, quæst. I; vol. ii, p. 624 in ed. of + 1688).</p> + +<p> The old Hindu erotic writers attributed great importance alike to + the man's attentiveness to the woman's erotic needs, and to his + skill and consideration in all the preliminaries of the sexual + act. He must do all that he can to procure her pleasure, says + Vatsyayana. When she is on her bed and perhaps absorbed in + conversation, he gently unfastens the knot of her lower garment. + If she protests he closes her mouth with kisses. Some authors, + Vatsyayana remarks, hold that the lover should begin by sucking + the nipples of her breasts. When erection occurs he touches her + with his hands, softly caressing the various parts of her body. + He should always press those parts of her body towards which she + turns her eyes. If she is shy, and it is the first time, he will + place his <a name='6_Page_545'></a>hands between her thighs which she will instinctively + press together. If she is young he will put his hands on her + breasts, and she will no doubt cover them with her own. If she is + mature he will do all that may seem fitting and agreeable to both + parties. Then he will take her hair and her chin between his + fingers and kiss them. If she is very young she will blush and + close her eyes. By the way in which she receives his caresses he + will divine what pleases her most in union. The signs of her + enjoyment are that her body becomes limp, her eyes close, she + loses all timidity, and takes part in the movements which bring + her most closely to him. If, on the other hand, she feels no + pleasure, she strikes the bed with her hands, will not allow the + man to continue, is sullen, even bites or kicks, and continues + the movements of coitus when the man has finished. In such cases, + Vatsyayana adds, it is his duty to rub the vulva with his hand + before union until it is moist, and he should perform the same + movements afterwards if his own orgasm has occurred first.</p> + +<p> With regard to Indian erotic art generally, and more especially + Vatsyayana, who appears to have lived some sixteen hundred years + ago, information will be found in Valentino, "L'Hygiène conjugale + chez les Hindous," <i>Archives Générales de Médecine</i>, Ap. 25, + 1905; Iwan Bloch, "Indische Medizin," Puschmann's <i>Handbuch der + Geschichte der Medizin</i>, vol. i; Heimann and Stephan, "Beiträge + zur Ehehygiene nach der Lehren des Kamasutram," <i>Zeitschaft für + Sexualwissenschaft</i>, Sept., 1908; also a review of Richard + Schmidt's German translation of the <i>Kamashastra</i> of Vatsyayana + in <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1902, Heft 2. There has long + existed an English translation of this work. In the lengthy + preface to the French translation Lamairesse points out the + superiority of Indian erotic art to that of the Latin poets by + its loftier spirit, and greater purity and idealism. It is + throughout marked by respect for women, and its spirit is + expressed in the well-known proverb: "Thou shalt not strike a + woman even with a flower." See also Margaret Noble's <i>Web of + Indian Life</i>, especially Ch. III, "On the Hindu Woman as Wife," + and Ch. IV, "Love Strong as Death."</p> + +<p> The advice given to husbands by Guyot (<i>Bréviaire de l'Amour + Expérimental</i>, p. 422) closely conforms to that given, under very + different social conditions, by Zacchia and Vatsyayana. "In a + state of sexual need and desire the woman's lips are firm and + vibrant, the breasts are swollen, and the nipples erect. The + intelligent husband cannot be deceived by these signs. If they do + not exist, it is his part to provoke them by his kisses and + caresses, and if, in spite of his tender and delicate + excitations, the lips show no heat and the breasts no swelling, + and especially if the nipples are disagreeably irritated by + slight suction, he must arrest his transports and abstain from + all contact with the organs of generation, for he would certainly + find them in a state of exhaustion and disposed to repulsion. If, + on the contrary, the accessory organs are animated, or <a name='6_Page_546'></a>become + animated beneath his caresses, he must extend them to the + generative organs, and especially to the clitoris, which beneath + his touch will become full of appetite and ardor."</p> + +<p> The importance of the preliminary titillation of the sexual + organs has been emphasized by a long succession alike of erotic + writers and physicians, from Ovid (<i>Ars Amatoria</i> end of Bk. II) + onwards. Eulenburg (<i>Die Sexuale Neuropathie</i>, p. 79) considers + that titillation is sometimes necessary, and Adler, likewise + insisting on the preliminaries of psychic and physical courtship + (<i>Die Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes</i>, p. 188), + observes that the man who is gifted with insight and skill in + these matters possesses a charm which will draw sparks of + sensibility from the coldest feminine heart. The advice of the + physician is at one in this matter with the maxims of the erotic + artist and with the needs of the loving woman. In making love + there must be no haste, wrote Ovid:—</p></div> + +<div class='poem'><div class='stanza'> +<span class='i5'>"Crede mihi, non est Veneris properanda voluptas,<br /></span> +<span class='i5'>Sed sensim tarda prolicienda mora."<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"Husbands, like spoiled children," a woman has written, "too + often miss the pleasure which might otherwise be theirs, by + clamoring for it at the wrong time. The man who thinks this + prolonged courtship previous to the act of sex union wearisome, + has never given it a trial. It is the approach to the marital + embrace, as well as the embrace itself, which constitutes the + charm of the relation between the sexes."</p> + +<p> It not seldom happens, remarks Adler (<i>op. cit.</i>, p. 186), that + the insensibility of the wife must be treated—in the husband. + And Guyot, bringing forward the same point, writes (<i>op. cit.</i>, + p. 130): "If by a delay of tender study the husband has + understood his young bride, if he is able to realize for her the + ineffable happiness and dreams of youth, he will be beloved + forever; he will be her master and sovereign lord. If he has + failed to understand her he will fatigue and exhaust himself in + vain efforts, and finally class her among the indifferent and + cold women. She will be his wife by duty, the mother of his + children. He will take his pleasure elsewhere, for man is ever in + pursuit of the woman who experiences the genesic spasm. Thus the + vague and unintelligent search for a half who can unite in that + delirious finale is the chief cause of all conjugal dissolutions. + In such a case a man resembles a bad musician who changes his + violin in the hope that a new instrument will bring the melody he + is unable to play."</p></div> + +<p>The fact that there is thus an art in love, and that sexual intercourse is +not a mere physical act to be executed by force of muscles, may help to +explain why it is that in so many parts of the <a name='6_Page_547'></a>world defloration is not +immediately effected on marriage.<a name='6_FNanchor_404'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_404'><sup>[404]</sup></a> No doubt religious or magic reasons +may also intervene here, but, as so often happens, they harmonize with the +biological process. This is the case even among uncivilized peoples who +marry early. The need for delay and considerate skill is far greater when, +as among ourselves, a woman's marriage is delayed long past the +establishment of puberty to a period when it is more difficult to break +down the psychic and perhaps even physical barriers of personality.</p> + +<p>It has to be added that the art of love in the act of courtship is not +confined to the preliminaries to the single act of coitus. In a sense the +life of love is a continuous courtship with a constant progression. The +establishment of physical intercourse is but the beginning of it. This is +especially true of women. "The consummation of love," says Sénancour,<a name='6_FNanchor_405'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_405'><sup>[405]</sup></a> +"which is often the end of love with man is only the beginning of love +with woman, a test of trust, a gage of future pleasure, a sort of +engagement for an intimacy to come." "A woman's soul and body," says +another writer,<a name='6_FNanchor_406'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_406'><sup>[406]</sup></a> "are not given at one stroke at a given moment; but +only slowly, little by little, through many stages, are both delivered to +the beloved. Instead of abandoning the young woman to the bridegroom on +the wedding night, as an entrapped mouse is flung to the cat to be +devoured, it would be better to let the young bridal couple live side by +side, like two friends and comrades, until they gradually learn how to +develop and use their sexual consciousness." The conventional wedding is +out of place as a preliminary to the consummation of marriage, if only on +the ground that it is impossible to say at what stage in the endless +process of courtship it ought to take place.</p> + +<p>A woman, unlike a man, is prepared by Nature, to play a skilful part in +the art of love. The man's part in courtship, which is that of the male +throughout the zoölogical series, may be <a name='6_Page_548'></a>difficult and hazardous, but it +is in a straight line, fairly simple and direct. The woman's part, having +to follow at the same moment two quite different impulses, is necessarily +always in a zigzag or a curve. That is to say that at every erotic moment +her action is the resultant of the combined force of her desire (conscious +or unconscious) and her modesty. She must sail through a tortuous channel +with Scylla on the one side and Charybdis on the other, and to avoid +either danger too anxiously may mean risking shipwreck on the other side. +She must be impenetrable to all the world, but it must be an +impenetrability not too obscure for the divination of the right man. Her +speech must be honest, but yet on no account tell everything; her actions +must be the outcome of her impulses, and on that very account be capable +of two interpretations. It is only in the last resort of complete intimacy +that she can become the perfect woman,</p> + +<span style='margin-left: 2em;'>"Whose speech Truth knows not from her thought,</span><br /> +<span style='margin-left: 4em;'>Nor Love her body from her soul."</span><br /> + +<p>For many a woman the conditions for that final erotic avatar—"that +splendid shamelessness which," as Rafford Pyke says, "is the finest thing +in perfect love"—never present themselves at all. She is compelled to be +to the end of her erotic life, what she must always be at the beginning, a +complex and duplex personality, naturally artful. Therewith she is better +prepared than man to play her part in the art of love.</p> + +<p>The man's part in the art of love is, however, by no means easy. That is +not always realized by the women who complain of his lack of skill in +playing it. Although a man has not to cultivate the same natural duplicity +as a woman, it is necessary that he should possess a considerable power of +divination. He is not well prepared for that, because the traditional +masculine virtue is force rather than insight. The male's work in the +world, we are told, is domination, and it is by such domination that the +female is attracted. There is an element of truth in that doctrine, an +element of truth which may well lead astray the man who too exclusively +relies upon it in the art of love. Violence is bad in every art, and in +the erotic art the female desires to be <a name='6_Page_549'></a>won to love and not to be ordered +to love. That is fundamental. We sometimes see the matter so stated as if +the objection to force and domination in love constituted some quite new +and revolutionary demand of the "modern woman." That is, it need scarcely +be said, the result of ignorance. The art of love, being an art that +Nature makes, is the same now as in essentials it has always been,<a name='6_FNanchor_407'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_407'><sup>[407]</sup></a> +and it was well established before woman came into existence. That it has +not always been very skilfully played is another matter. And, so far as +the man is concerned, it is this very tradition of masculine predominance +which has contributed to the difficulty of playing it skilfully. The woman +admires the male's force; she even wishes herself to be forced to the +things that she altogether desires; and yet she revolts from any exertion +of force outside that narrow circle, either before the boundary of it is +reached or after the boundary is passed. Thus the man's position is really +more difficult than the women who complain of his awkwardness in love are +always ready to admit. He must cultivate force, not only in the world but +even for display in the erotic field; he must be able to divine the +moments when, in love, force is no longer force because his own will is +his partner's will; he must, at the same time, hold himself in complete +restraint lest he should fall into the fatal error of yielding to his own +impulse of domination; and all this at the very moment when his emotions +are least under control. We need scarcely be surprised that of the myriads +who embark on the sea of love, so few women, so very few men, come safely +into port.</p> + +<p>It may still seem to some that in dwelling on the laws that guide the +erotic life, if that life is to be healthy and complete, we have wandered +away from the consideration of the sexual instinct in its relationship to +society. It may therefore be desirable to return to first principles and +to point out that we are still clinging to the fundamental facts of the +personal and social life. Marriage, as we have seen reason to believe, is +a great social institution; procreation, which is, on the public side, its +supreme function, is a great social end. But marriage and procreation <a name='6_Page_550'></a>are +both based on the erotic life. If the erotic life is not sound, then +marriage is broken up, practically if not always formally, and the process +of procreation is carried out under unfavorable conditions or not at all.</p> + +<p>This social and personal importance of the erotic life, though, under the +influence of a false morality and an equally false modesty, it has +sometimes been allowed to fall into the background in stages of artificial +civilization, has always been clearly realized by those peoples who have +vitally grasped the relationships of life. Among most uncivilized races +there appear to be few or no "sexually frigid" women. It is little to the +credit of our own "civilization" that it should be possible for physicians +to-day to assert, even with the faintest plausibility, that there are some +25 per cent. of women who may thus be described.</p> + +<p>The whole sexual structure of the world is built up on the general fact +that the intimate contact of the male and female who have chosen each +other is mutually pleasurable. Below this general fact is the more +specific fact that in the normal accomplishment of the act of sexual +consummation the two partners experience the acute gratification of +simultaneous orgasm. Herein, it has been said, lies the secret of love. It +is the very basis of love, the condition of the healthy exercise of the +sexual functions, and, in many cases, it seems probable, the condition +also of fertilization.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Even savages in a very low degree of culture are sometimes + patient and considerate in evoking and waiting for the signs of + sexual desire in their females. (I may refer to the significant + case of the Caroline Islanders, as described by Kubary in his + ethnographic study of that people and quoted in volume iv of + these <i>Studies</i>, "Sexual Selection in Man," Sect. III.) In + Catholic days theological influence worked wholesomely in the + same direction, although the theologians were so keen to detect + the mortal sin of lust. It is true that the Catholic insistence + on the desirability of simultaneous orgasm was largely due to the + mistaken notion that to secure conception it was necessary that + there should be "insemination" on the part of the wife as well as + of the husband, but that was not the sole source of the + theological view. Thus Zacchia discusses whether a man ought to + continue with his wife until she has the orgasm and feels + satisfied, and he decides that that is the husband's duty; + otherwise <a name='6_Page_551'></a>the wife falls into danger either of experiencing the + orgasm during sleep, or, more probably, by self-excitation, "for + many women, when their desires have not been satisfied by coitus, + place one thigh on the other, pressing and rubbing them together + until the orgasm occurs, in the belief that if they abstain from + using the hands they have committed no sin." Some theologians, he + adds, favor that belief, notably Hurtado de Mendoza and Sanchez, + and he further quotes the opinion of the latter that women who + have not been satisfied in coitus are liable to become hysterical + or melancholic (<i>Zacchiæ Quæstionum Medico-legalium Opus</i>, lib. + vii, tit. iii, quæst. VI). In the same spirit some theologians + seem to have permitted <i>irrumatio</i> (without ejaculation), so long + as it is only the preliminary to the normal sexual act.</p> + +<p> Nowadays physicians have fully confirmed the belief of Sanchez. + It is well recognized that women in whom, from whatever cause, + acute sexual excitement occurs with frequency without being + followed by the due natural relief of orgasm are liable to + various nervous and congestive symptoms which diminish their + vital effectiveness, and very possibly lead to a breakdown in + health. Kisch has described, as a cardiac neurosis of sexual + origin, a pathological tachycardia which is an exaggeration of + the physiological quick heart of sexual excitement. J. Inglis + Parsons (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, Oct. 22, 1904, p. 1062) + refers to the ovarian pain produced by strong unsatisfied sexual + excitement, often in vigorous unmarried women, and sometimes a + cause of great distress. An experienced Austrian gynæcologist + told Hirth (<i>Wege zur Heimat</i>, p. 613) that of every hundred + women who come to him with uterine troubles seventy suffered from + congestion of the womb, which he regarded as due to incomplete + coitus.</p> + +<p> It is frequently stated that the evil of incomplete gratification + and absence of orgasm in women is chiefly due to male withdrawal, + that is to say <i>coitus interruptus</i>, in which the penis is + hastily withdrawn as soon as involuntary ejaculation is + impending; and it is sometimes said that the same widely + prevalent practice is also productive of slight or serious + results in the male (see, <i>e.g.</i>, L. B. Bangs, <i>Transactions New + York Academy of Medicine</i>, vol. ix, 1893; D. S. Booth, "Coitus + Interruptus and Coitus Reservatus as Causes of Profound Neurosis + and Psychosis," <i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, Nov., 1906; also, + <i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, Oct., 1897, p. 588).</p> + +<p> It is undoubtedly true that coitus interruptus, since it involves + sudden withdrawal on the part of the man without reference to the + stage of sexual excitation which his partner may have reached, + cannot fail to produce frequently an injurious nervous effect on + the woman, though the injurious effect on the man, who obtains + ejaculation, is little or none. But the practice is so widespread + that it cannot be regarded as necessarily involving this evil + result. There can, I am assured, be no doubt <a name='6_Page_552'></a>whatever that + Blumreich is justified in his statement (Senator and Kaminer, + <i>Health and Disease in Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. ii, p. 783) + that "interrupted coitus is injurious to the genital system of + those women only who are disturbed in their sensation of delight + by this form of cohabitation, in whom the orgasm is not produced, + and who continue for hours subsequently to be tormented by + feelings of an unsatisfied desire." Equally injurious effects + follow in normal coitus when the man's orgasm occurs too soon. + "These phenomena, therefore," he concludes, "are not + characteristic of interrupted coitus, but consequences of an + imperfectly concluded sexual cohabitation as such." Kisch, + likewise, in his elaborate and authoritative work on <i>The Sexual + Life of Woman</i>, also states that the question of the evil results + of <i>coitus interruptus</i> in women is simply a question of whether + or not they receive sexual satisfaction. (<i>Cf.</i> also Fürbringer, + <i>Health and Disease in Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. i, pp. 232 <i>et + seq.</i>) This is clearly the most reasonable view to take + concerning what is the simplest, the most widespread, and + certainly the most ancient of the methods of preventing + conception. In the Book of Genesis we find it practiced by Onan, + and to come down to modern times, in the sixteenth century it + seems to have been familiar to French ladies, who, according to + Brantôme, enjoined it on their lovers.</p> + +<p> Coitus reservatus,—in which intercourse is maintained even for + very long periods, during which the woman may have orgasm several + times while the man succeeds in holding back orgasm,—so far from + being injurious to the woman, is probably the form of coitus + which gives her the maximum of gratification and relief. For most + men, however, it seems probable that this self-control over the + processes leading to the involuntary act of detumescence is + difficult to acquire, while in weak, nervous, and erethic persons + it is impossible. It is, however, a desirable condition for + completely adequate coitus, and in the East this is fully + recognized, and the aptitude carefully cultivated. Thus W. D. + Sutherland states ("Einiges über das Alltagsleben und die + Volksmedizin unter den Bauern Britischostindiens," <i>Münchener + Medizinische Wochenschrift</i>, No. 12, 1906) that the Hindu smokes + and talks during intercourse in order to delay orgasm, and + sometimes applies an opium paste to the glans of the penis for + the same purpose. (See also vol. iii of these <i>Studies</i>, "The + Sexual Impulse in Women.") Some authorities have, indeed, stated + that the prolongation of the act of coitus is injurious in its + effect on the male. Thus R. W. Taylor (<i>Practical Treatise on + Sexual Disorders</i>, third ed., p. 121) states that it tends to + cause atonic impotence, and Löwenfeld (<i>Sexualleben und + Nervenleiden</i>, p. 74) thinks that the swift and unimpeded + culmination of the sexual act is necessary in order to preserve + the vigor of the reflex reactions. This is probably true of + extreme and often repeated cases of indefinite prolongation of + pronounced erection without detumescence, but it is not true + within fairly <a name='6_Page_553'></a>wide limits in the case of healthy persons. + Prolonged <i>coitus reservatus</i> was a practice of the complex + marriage system of the Oneida community, and I was assured by the + late Noyes Miller, who had spent the greater part of his life in + the community, that the practice had no sort of evil result. + <i>Coitus reservatus</i> was erected into a principle in the Oneida + community. Every man in the community was theoretically the + husband of every woman, but every man was not free to have + children with every woman. Sexual initiation took place soon + after puberty in the case of boys, some years later in the case + of girls, by a much older person of the opposite sex. In + intercourse the male inserted his penis into the vagina and + retained it there for even an hour without emission, though + orgasm took place in the woman. There was usually no emission in + the case of the man, even after withdrawal, and he felt no need + of emission. The social feeling of the community was a force on + the side of this practice, the careless, unskilful men being + avoided by women, while the general romantic sentiment of + affection for all the women in the community was also a force. + Masturbation was unknown, and no irregular relations took place + with persons outside the community. The practice was maintained + for thirty years, and was finally abandoned, not on its demerits, + but in deference to the opinions of the outside world. Mr. Miller + admitted that the practice became more difficult in ordinary + marriage, which favors a more mechanical habit of intercourse. + The information received from Mr. Miller is supplemented in a + pamphlet entitled <i>Male Continence</i> (the name given to <i>coitus + reservatus</i> in the community), written in 1872 by the founder, + John Humphrey Noyes. The practice is based, he says, on the fact + that sexual intercourse consists of two acts, a social and a + propagative, and that if propagation is to be scientific there + must be no confusion of these two acts, and procreation must + never be involuntary. It was in 1844, he states, that this idea + occurred to him as a result of a resolve to abstain from sexual + intercourse in consequence of his wife's delicate health and + inability to bear healthy children, and in his own case he found + the practice "a great deliverance. It made a happy household." He + points out that the chief members of the Oneida community + "belonged to the most respectable families in Vermont, had been + educated in the best schools of New England morality and + refinement, and were, by the ordinary standards, irreproachable + in their conduct so far as sexual matters are concerned, till + they deliberately commenced, in 1846, the experiment of a new + state of society, on principles which they had been long maturing + and were prepared to defend before the World." In relation to + male continence, therefore, Noyes thought the community might + fairly be considered "the Committee of Providence to test its + value in actual life." He states that a careful medical + comparison of the statistics of the community had shown that the + rate of nervous disease in the community was considerably below + the <a name='6_Page_554'></a>average outside, and that only two cases of nervous disorder + had occurred which could be traced with any probability to a + misuse of male continence. This has been confirmed by Van de + Warker, who studied forty-two women of the community without + finding any undue prevalence of reproductive diseases, nor could + he find any diseased condition attributable to the sexual habits + of the community (<i>cf.</i> C. Reed, <i>Text-Book of Gynecology</i>, 1901, + p. 9).</p> + +<p> Noyes believed that "male continence" had never previously been a + definitely recognized practice based on theory, though there + might have been occasional approximation to it. This is probably + true if the coitus is <i>reservatus</i> in the full sense, with + complete absence of emission. Prolonged coitus, however, + permitting the woman to have orgasm more than once, while the man + has none, has long been recognized. Thus in the seventeenth + century Zacchia discussed whether such a practice is legitimate + (<i>Zacchiæ Quæstionum Opus</i>, ed. of 1688, lib. vii, tit. iii, + quæst. VI). In modern times it is occasionally practiced, without + any theory, and is always appreciated by the woman, while it + appears to have no bad effect on the man. In such a case it will + happen that the act of coitus may last for an hour and a quarter + or even longer, the maximum of the woman's pleasure not being + reached until three-quarters of an hour have passed; during this + period the woman will experience orgasm some four or five times, + the man only at the end. It may occasionally happen that a little + later the woman again experiences desire, and intercourse begins + afresh in the same way. But after that she is satisfied, and + there is no recurrence of desire.</p> + +<p> It may be desirable at this point to refer briefly to the chief + variations in the method of effecting coitus in their + relationship to the art of love and the attainment of adequate + and satisfying detumescence.</p> + +<p> The primary and essential characteristic of the specifically + human method of coitus is the fact that it takes place face to + face. The fact that in what is usually considered the typically + normal method of coitus the woman lies supine and the man above + her is secondary. Psychically, this front-to-front attitude + represents a great advance over the quadrupedal method. The two + partners reveal to each other the most important, the most + beautiful, the most expressive sides of themselves, and thus + multiply the mutual pleasure and harmony of the intimate act of + union. Moreover, this face-to-face attitude possesses a great + significance, in the fact that it is the outward sign that the + human couple has outgrown the animal sexual attitude of the + hunter seizing his prey in the act of flight, and content to + enjoy it in that attitude, from behind. The human male may be + said to retain the same attitude, but the female has turned + round; she has faced her partner and approached him, and so + symbolizes her deliberate consent to the act of union.</p> + +<p> The human variations in the exercise of coitus, both individual + and <a name='6_Page_555'></a>national, are, however, extremely numerous. "To be quite + frank," says Fürbringer (Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health and Disease + in Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. i, p. 213), "I can hardly think of + any combination which does not figure among my case-notes as + having been practiced by my patients." We must not too hastily + conclude that such variations are due to vicious training. That + is far from being the case. They often occur naturally and + spontaneously. Freud has properly pointed out (in the second + series of his <i>Beiträge zur Neurosenlehre</i>, "Bruchstück" etc.) + that we must not be too shocked even when the idea of <i>fellatio</i> + spontaneously presents itself to a woman, for that idea has a + harmless origin in the resemblance between the penis and the + nipple. Similarly, it may be added, the desire for + <i>cunnilinctus</i>, which seems to be much more often latently + present in women than is the desire for its performance in men, + has a natural analogy in the pleasure of suckling, a pleasure + which is itself indeed often erotically tinged (see vol. iv of + these <i>Studies</i>, "Sexual Selection in Man," Touch, Sect. III).</p> + +<p> Every variation in this matter, remarks Remy de Gourmont + (<i>Physique de l'Amour</i>, p. 264) partakes of the sin of luxury, + and some of the theologians have indeed considered any position + in coitus but that which is usually called normal in Europe as a + mortal sin. Other theologians, however, regarded such variations + as only venial sins, provided ejaculation took place in the + vagina, just as some theologians would permit <i>irrumatio</i> as a + preliminary to coitus, provided there was no ejaculation. Aquinas + took a serious view of the deviations from normal intercourse; + Sanchez was more indulgent, especially in view of his doctrine, + derived from the Greek and Arabic natural philosophers, that the + womb can attract the sperm, so that the natural end may be + attained even in unusual positions.</p> + +<p> Whatever difference of opinion there may have been among ancient + theologians, it is well recognized by modern physicians that + variations from the ordinary method of coitus are desirable in + special cases. Thus Kisch points out (<i>Sterilität des Weibes</i>, p. + 107) that in some cases it is only possible for the woman to + experience sexual excitement when coitus takes place in the + lateral position, or in the <i>a posteriori</i> position, or when the + usual position is reversed; and in his <i>Sexual Life of Woman</i>, + also, Kisch recommends several variations of position for coitus. + Adler points out (<i>op. cit.</i>, pp. 151, 186) the value of the same + positions in some cases, and remarks that such variations often + call forth latent sexual feelings as by a charm. Such cases are + indeed, by no means infrequent, the advantage of the unusual + position being due either to physical or psychic causes, and the + discovery of the right variation is sometimes found in a merely + playful attempt. It has occasionally happened, also, that when + intercourse has habitually taken place in an abnormal position, + no satisfaction is experienced by the woman until the normal + position is <a name='6_Page_556'></a>adopted. The only fairly common variation of coitus + which meets with unqualified disapproval is that in the erect + posture. (See <i>e.g.</i>, Hammond, <i>op. cit.</i> pp. 257 <i>et seq.</i>)</p> + +<p> Lucretius specially recommended the quadrupedal variation of + coitus (Bk. iv, 1258), and Ovid describes (end of Bk. iii of the + <i>Ars Amatoria</i>) what he regards as agreeable variations, giving + the preference, as the easiest and simplest method, to that in + which the woman lies half supine on her side. Perhaps, however, + the variation which is nearest to the normal attitude and which + has most often and most completely commended itself is that + apparently known to Arabic erotic writers as <i>dok el arz</i>, in + which the man is seated and his partner is astride his thighs, + embracing his body with her legs and his neck with her arms, + while he embraces her waist; this is stated in the Arabic + <i>Perfumed Garden</i> to be the method preferred by most women.</p> + +<p> The other most usual variation is the inverse normal position in + which the man is supine, and the woman adapts herself to this + position, which permits of several modifications obviously + advantageous, especially when the man is much larger than his + partner. The Christian as well as the Mahommedan theologians + appear, indeed, to have been generally opposed to this superior + position of the female, apparently, it would seem, because they + regarded the literal subjection of the male which it involves as + symbolic of a moral subjection. The testimony of many people + to-day, however, is decidedly in favor of this position, more + especially as regards the woman, since it enables her to obtain a + better adjustment and greater control of the process, and so + frequently to secure sexual satisfaction which she may find + difficult or impossible in the normal position.</p> + +<p> The theologians seem to have been less unfavorably disposed to + the position normal among quadrupeds, <i>a posteriori</i>, though the + old Penitentials were inclined to treat it severely, the + Penitential of Angers prescribing forty days penance, and + Egbert's three years, if practiced habitually. (It is discussed + by J. Petermann, "Venus Aversa," <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Feb., 1909). + There are good reasons why in many cases this position should be + desirable, more especially from the point of view of women, who + indeed not infrequently prefer it. It must be always remembered, + as has already been pointed out, that in the progress from + anthropoid to man it is the female, not the male, whose method of + coitus has been revolutionized. While, however, the obverse human + position represents a psychic advance, there has never been a + complete physical readjustment of the female organs to the + obverse method. More especially, in Adler's opinion (<i>op. cit.</i>, + pp. 117-119), the position of the clitoris is such that, as a + rule, it is more easily excited by coitus from behind than from + in front. A more recent writer, Klotz, in his book, <i>Der Mensch + ein Vierfüssler</i> (1908), even takes the too extreme position that + the quadrupedal <a name='6_Page_557'></a>method of coitus, being the only method that + insures due contact with the clitoris, is the natural human + method. It must, however, be admitted that the posterior mode of + coitus is not only a widespread, but a very important variation, + in either of its two most important forms: the Pompeiian method, + in which the woman bends forwards and the man approaches behind, + or the method described by Boccaccio, in which the man is supine + and the woman astride.</p> + +<p> <i>Fellatio</i> and <i>cunnilinctus</i>, while they are not strictly + methods of coitus, in so far as they do not involve the + penetration of the penis into the vagina, are very widespread as + preliminaries, or as vicarious forms of coitus, alike among + civilized and uncivilized peoples. Thus, in India, I am told that + <i>fellatio</i> is almost universal in households, and regarded as a + natural duty towards the paterfamilias. As regards <i>cunnilinctus</i> + Max Dessoir has stated (<i>Allgemeine Zeitschrift für Psychiatrie</i>, + 1894, Heft 5) that the superior Berlin prostitutes say that about + a quarter of their clients desire to exercise this, and that in + France and Italy the proportion is higher; the number of women + who find <i>cunnilinctus</i> agreeable is without doubt much greater. + Intercourse <i>per anum</i> must also be regarded as a vicarious form + of coitus. It appears to be not uncommon, especially among the + lower social classes, and while most often due to the wish to + avoid conception, it is also sometimes practiced as a sexual + aberration, at the wish either of the man or the woman, the anus + being to some extent an erogenous zone.</p> + +<p> The ethnic variations in method of coitus were briefly discussed + in volume v of these <i>Studies</i>, "The Mechanism of Detumescence," + Section II. In all civilized countries, from the earliest times, + writers on the erotic art have formally and systematically set + forth the different positions for coitus. The earliest writing of + this kind now extant seems to be an Egyptian papyrus preserved at + Turin of the date B.C. 1300; in this, fourteen different + positions are represented. The Indians, according to Iwan Bloch, + recognize altogether forty-eight different positions; the <i>Ananga + Ranga</i> describes thirty-two main forms. The Mohammedan <i>Perfumed + Garden</i> describes forty forms, as well as six different kinds of + movement during coitus. The Eastern books of this kind are, on + the whole, superior to those that have been produced by the + Western world, not only by their greater thoroughness, but by the + higher spirit by which they have often been inspired.</p> + +<p> The ancient Greek erotic writings, now all lost, in which the + modes of coitus were described, were nearly all attributed to + women. According to a legend recorded by Suidas, the earliest + writer of this kind was Astyanassa, the maid of Helen of Troy. + Elephantis, the poetess, is supposed to have enumerated nine + different postures. Numerous women of later date wrote on these + subjects, and one book is attributed to Polycrates, the sophist.</p><a name='6_Page_558'></a> + +<p> Aretino—who wrote after the influence of Christianity had + degraded erotic matters perilously near to that region of + pornography from which they are only to-day beginning to be + rescued—in his <i>Sonnetti Lussuriosi</i> described twenty-six + different methods of coitus, each one accompanied by an + illustrative design by Giulio Romano, the chief among Raphael's + pupils. Veniero, in his <i>Puttana Errante</i>, described thirty-two + positions. More recently Forberg, the chief modern authority, has + enumerated ninety positions, but, it is said, only forty-eight + can, even on the most liberal estimate, be regarded as coming + within the range of normal variation.</p> + +<p> The disgrace which has overtaken the sexual act, and rendered it + a deed of darkness, is doubtless largely responsible for the fact + that the chief time for its consummation among modern civilized + peoples is the darkness of the early night in stuffy bedrooms + when the fatigue of the day's labors is struggling with the + artificial stimulation produced by heavy meals and alcoholic + drinks. This habit is partly responsible for the indifference or + even disgust with which women sometimes view coitus.</p> + +<p> Many more primitive peoples are wiser. The New Guinea Papuans of + Astrolabe Bay, according to Vahness (<i>Zeitschrift für + Ethnologie</i>, 1900, Heft 5, p. 414), though it must be remembered + that the association of the sexual act with darkness is much + older than Christianity, and connected with early religious + notions (<i>cf.</i> Hesiod, <i>Works and Days</i>, Bk. II), always have + sexual intercourse in the open air. The hard-working women of the + Gebvuka and Buru Islands, again, are too tired for coitus at + night; it is carried out in the day time under the trees, and the + Serang Islanders also have coitus in the woods (Ploss and + Bartels, Das <i>Weib</i>, Bk. i, Ch. XVII).</p> + +<p> It is obviously impracticable to follow these examples in modern + cities, even if avocation and climate permitted. It is also + agreed that sexual intercourse should be followed by repose. + There seems to be little doubt, however, that the early morning + and the daylight are a more favorable time than the early night. + Conception should take place in the light, said Michelet + (<i>L'Amour</i>, p. 153); sexual intercourse in the darkness of night + is an act committed with a mere female animal; in the day-time it + is union with a loving and beloved individual person.</p> + +<p> This has been widely recognized. The Greeks, as we gather from + Aristophanes in the <i>Archarnians</i>, regarded sunrise as the + appropriate time for coitus. The South Slavs also say that dawn + is the time for coitus. Many modern authorities have urged the + advantages of early morning coitus. Morning, said Roubaud + (<i>Traité de l'Impuissance</i>, pp. 151-3) is the time for coitus, + and even if desire is greater in the evening, pleasure is greater + in the morning. Osiander also advised early morning coitus, and + Venette, in an earlier century, discussing "at what hour <a name='6_Page_559'></a>a man + should amorously embrace his wife" (<i>La Génération de l'Homme</i>, + Part II, Ch. V), while thinking it is best to follow inclination, + remarks that "a beautiful woman looks better by sunlight than by + candlelight." A few authorities, like Burdach, have been content + to accept the custom of night coitus, and Busch (<i>Das + Geschlechtsleben des Weibes</i>, vol. i, p. 214) was inclined to + think the darkness of night the most "natural" time, while + Fürbringer (Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health and Disease in Relation + to Marriage</i>, vol. i, p. 217) thinks that early morning is + "occasionally" the best time.</p> + +<p> To some, on the other hand, the exercise of sexual intercourse in + the sunlight and the open air seems so important that they are + inclined to elevate it to the rank of a religious exercise. I + quote from a communication on this point received from Australia: + "This shameful thing that must not be spoken of or done (except + in the dark) will some day, I believe, become the one religious + ceremony of the human race, in the spring. (Oh, what springs!) + People will have become very sane, well-bred, aristocratic (all + of them aristocrats), and on the whole opposed to rites and + superstitions, for they will have a perfect knowledge of the + past. The coition of lovers in the springtime will be the one + religious ceremony they will allow themselves. I have a vision + sometimes of the holy scene, but I am afraid it is too beautiful + to describe. 'The intercourse of the sexes, I have dreamed, is + ineffably beautiful, too fair to be remembered,' wrote the chaste + Thoreau. Verily human beauty, joy, and love will reach their + divinest height during those inaugural days of springtide + coupling. When the world is one Paradise, the consummation of the + lovers, the youngest and most beautiful, will take place in + certain sacred valleys in sight of thousands assembled to witness + it. For days it will take place in these valleys where the sun + will rise on a dream of passionate voices, of clinging human + forms, of flowers and waters, and the purple and gold of the + sunrise are reflected on hills illumined with pansies. [I know + not if the writer recalled George Chapman's "Enamelled pansies + used at nuptials still"], and repeated on golden human flesh and + human hair. In these sacred valleys the subtle perfume of the + pansies will mingle with the divine fragrance of healthy naked + young women and men in the spring coupling. You and I shall not + see that, but we may help to make it possible." This rhapsody (an + unconscious repetition of Saint-Lambert's at Mlle. Quinault's + table in the eighteenth century) serves to illustrate the revolt + which tends to take place against the unnatural and artificial + degradation of the sexual act.</p> + +<p> In some parts of the world it has seemed perfectly natural and + reasonable that so great and significant an act as that of coitus + should be consecrated to the divinity, and hence arose the custom + of prayer before sexual intercourse. Thus Zoroaster ordained that + a married <a name='6_Page_560'></a>couple should pray before coitus, and after the act + they should say together: "O, Sapondomad, I trust this seed to + thee, preserve it for me, for it is a man." In the Gorong + Archipelago it is customary also for husband and wife to pray + together before the sexual act (Ploss and Bartels, <i>Das Weib</i>, + Bd. i, Ch. XVII). The civilized man, however, has come to regard + his stomach as the most important of his organs, and he utters + his conventional grace, not before love, but only before food. + Even the degraded ritual vestiges of the religious recognition of + coitus are difficult to find in Europe. We may perhaps detect it + among the Spaniards, with their tenacious instinct for ritual, in + the solemn etiquette with which, in the seventeenth century, it + was customary, according to Madame d'Aulnoy, for the King to + enter the bedchamber of the Queen: "He has on his slippers, his + black mantle over his shoulder, his shield on one arm, a bottle + hanging by a cord over the other arm (this bottle is not to drink + from, but for a quite opposite purpose, which you will guess). + With all this the King must also have his great sword in one hand + and a dark lantern in the other. In this way he must enter, + alone, the Queen's chamber" (Madame d'Aulnoy, <i>Relation du Voyage + d'Espagne</i>, 1692, vol. iii, p. 221).</p></div> + +<p>In discussing the art of love it is necessary to give a primary place to +the central fact of coitus, on account of the ignorance that widely +prevails concerning it, and the unfortunate prejudices which in their +fungous broods flourish in the noisome obscurity around it. The traditions +of the Christian Church, which overspread the whole of Europe, and set up +for worship a Divine Virgin and her Divine Son, both of whom it +elaborately disengaged from personal contact with sexuality effectually +crushed any attempt to find a sacred and avowable ideal in married love. +Even the Church's own efforts to elevate matrimony were negatived by its +own ideals. That influence depresses our civilization even to-day. When +Walt Whitman wrote his "Children of Adam" he was giving imperfect +expression to conceptions of the religious nature of sexual love which +have existed wholesomely and naturally in all parts of the world, but had +not yet penetrated the darkness of Christendom where they still seemed +strange and new, if not terrible. And the refusal to recognize the +solemnity of sex had involved the placing of a pall of blackness and +disrepute on the supreme sexual act itself. It was shut out from the +sunshine and excluded from the sphere of worship.</p><a name='6_Page_561'></a> + +<p>The sexual act is important from the point of view of erotic art, not only +from the ignorance and prejudices which surround it, but also because it +has a real value even in regard to the psychic side of married life. +"These organs," according to the oft-quoted saying of the old French +physician, Ambrose Paré, "make peace in the household." How this comes +about we see illustrated from time to time in Pepys's Diary. At the same +time, it is scarcely necessary to say, after all that has gone before, +that this ancient source of domestic peace tends to be indefinitely +complicated by the infinite variety in erotic needs, which become ever +more pronounced with the growth of civilization.<a name='6_FNanchor_408'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_408'><sup>[408]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The art of love is, indeed, only beginning with the establishment of +sexual intercourse. In the adjustment of that relationship all the forces +of nature are so strongly engaged that under completely favorable +conditions—which indeed very rarely occur in our civilization—the +knowledge of the art and a possible skill in its exercise come almost of +themselves. The real test of the artist in love is in the skill to carry +it beyond the period when the interests of nature, having been really or +seemingly secured, begin to slacken. The whole art of love, it has been +well said, lies in forever finding something new in the same person. The +art of love is even more the art of retaining love than of arousing it. +Otherwise it tends to degenerate towards the Shakespearian lust,</p> + +<span style='margin-left: 2em;'>"Past reason hunted, and no sooner had,</span><br /> +<span style='margin-left: 4em;'>Past reason hated,"</span><br /> + +<p>though it must be remembered that even from the most strictly natural +point of view the transitions of passion are not normally towards +repulsion but towards affection.<a name='6_FNanchor_409'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_409'><sup>[409]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The young man and woman who are brought into the complete unrestraint of +marriage after a prolonged and unnatural separation, during which desire +and the satisfactions of desire <a name='6_Page_562'></a>have been artificially disconnected, are +certainly not under the best conditions for learning the art of love. They +are tempted by reckless and promiscuous indulgence in the intimacies of +marriage to fling carelessly aside all the reasons that make that art +worth learning. "There are married people," as Ellen Key remarks, "who +might have loved each other all their lives if they had not been +compelled, every day and all the year, to direct their habits, wills, and +inclinations towards each other."</p> + +<p>All the tendencies of our civilized life are, in personal matters, towards +individualism; they involve the specialization, and they ensure the +sacredness, of personal habits and even peculiarities. This individualism +cannot be broken down suddenly at the arbitrary dictation of a tradition, +or even by the force of passion from which the restraints have been +removed. Out of deference to the conventions and prejudices of their +friends, or out of the reckless abandonment of young love, or merely out +of a fear of hurting each other's feelings, young couples have often +plunged prematurely into an unbroken intimacy which is even more +disastrous to the permanency of marriage than the failure ever to reach a +complete intimacy at all. That is one of the chief reasons why most +writers on the moral hygiene of marriage nowadays recommend separate beds +for the married couple, if possible separate bedrooms, and even sometimes, +with Ellen Key, see no objection to their living in separate houses. +Certainly the happiest marriages have often involved the closest and most +unbroken intimacy, in persons peculiarly fitted for such intimacy. It is +far from true that, as Bloch has affirmed, familiarity is fatal to love. +It is deadly to a love that has no roots, but it is the nourishment of the +deeply-rooted love. Yet it remains true that absence is needed to maintain +the keen freshness and fine idealism of love. "Absence," as Landor said, +"is the invisible and incorporeal mother of ideal beauty." The married +lovers who are only able to meet for comparatively brief periods between +long absences have often experienced in these meetings a life-long +succession of honeymoons.<a name='6_FNanchor_410'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_410'><sup>[410]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_563'></a> +<p>There can be no question that as presence has its risks for love, so also +has absence. Absence like presence, in the end, if too prolonged, effaces +the memory of love, and absence, further, by the multiplied points of +contact with the world which it frequently involves, introduces the +problem of jealousy, although, it must be added, it is difficult indeed to +secure a degree of association which excludes jealousy or even the +opportunities for motives of jealousy. The problem of jealousy is so +fundamental in the art of love that it is necessary at this point to +devote to it a brief discussion.</p> + +<p>Jealousy is based on fundamental instincts which are visible at the +beginning of animal life. Descartes defined jealousy as "a kind of fear +related to a desire to preserve a possession." Every impulse of +acquisition in the animal world is stimulated into greater activity by the +presence of a rival who may snatch beforehand the coveted object. This +seems to be a fundamental fact in the animal world; it has been a +life-conserving tendency, for, it has been said, an animal that stood +aside while its fellows were gorging themselves with food, and experienced +nothing but pure satisfaction in the spectacle, would speedily perish. But +in this fact we have the natural basis of jealousy.<a name='6_FNanchor_411'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_411'><sup>[411]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It is in reference to food that this impulse appears first and most +conspicuously among animals. It is a well-known fact that <a name='6_Page_564'></a>association +with other animals induces an animal to eat much more than when kept by +himself. He ceases to eat from hunger but eats, as it has been put, in +order to preserve his food from rivals in the only strong box he knows. +The same feeling is transferred among animals to the field of sex. And +further in the relations of dogs and other domesticated animals to their +masters the emotion of jealousy is often very keenly marked.<a name='6_FNanchor_412'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_412'><sup>[412]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Jealousy is an emotion which is at its maximum among animals, among +savages,<a name='6_FNanchor_413'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_413'><sup>[413]</sup></a> among children,<a name='6_FNanchor_414'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_414'><sup>[414]</sup></a> in the senile, in the degenerate, and +very specially in chronic alcoholics.<a name='6_FNanchor_415'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_415'><sup>[415]</sup></a> It is worthy of note that the +supreme artists and masters of the human heart who have most consummately +represented the tragedy of jealousy clearly recognized that it is either +atavistic or pathological; Shakespeare made his Othello a barbarian, and +Tolstoy made the Pozdnischeff of his <i>Kreutzer Sonata</i> a lunatic. It is an +anti-social emotion, though it has been maintained by some that it has +been the cause of chastity and fidelity. Gesell, for instance, while +admitting its anti-social character and accumulating quotations in +evidence of the torture and disaster it occasions, seems to think that it +still ought to be encouraged in order to foster sexual virtues. Very +decided opinions have been expressed in the opposite sense. Jealousy, like +other shadows, says Ellen Key, belongs only to the dawn and the setting of +love, <a name='6_Page_565'></a>and a man should feel that it is a miracle, and not his right, if +the sun stands still at the zenith.<a name='6_FNanchor_416'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_416'><sup>[416]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Even therefore if jealousy has been a beneficial influence at the +beginning of civilization, as well as among animals,—as may probably be +admitted, though on the whole it seems rather to be the by-product of a +beneficial influence than such an influence itself,—it is still by no +means clear that it therefore becomes a desirable emotion in more advanced +stages of civilization. There are many primitive emotions, like anger and +fear, which we do not think it desirable to encourage in complex civilized +societies but rather seek to restrain and control, and even if we are +inclined to attribute an original value to jealousy, it seems to be among +these emotions that it ought to be placed.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Miss Clapperton, in discussing this problem (<i>Scientific + Meliorism</i>, pp. 129-137), follows Darwin (<i>Descent of Man</i>, Part + I, Ch. IV) in thinking that jealousy led to "the inculcation of + female virtue," but she adds that it has also been a cause of + woman's subjection, and now needs to be eliminated. "To rid + ourselves as rapidly as may be of jealousy is essential; + otherwise the great movement in favor of equality of sex will + necessarily meet with checks and grave obstruction."</p> + +<p> Ribot (<i>La Logique des Sentiments</i>, pp. 75 <i>et seq.</i>; <i>Essai sur + les Passions</i>, pp. 91, 175), while stating that subjectively the + estimate of jealousy must differ in accordance with the ideal of + life held, considers that objectively we must incline to an + unfavorable estimate "Even a brief passion is a rupture in the + normal life; it is an abnormal, if not a pathological state, an + excrescence, a parasitism."</p> + +<p> Forel (<i>Die Sexuelle Frage</i>, Ch. V) speaks very strongly in the + same sense, and considers that it is necessary to eliminate + jealousy by non-procreation of the jealous. Jealousy is, he + declares, "the worst and unfortunately the most deeply-rooted of + the 'irradiations,' or, better, the 'contrast-reactions,' of + sexual love inherited from our animal ancestors. An old German + saying, 'Eifersucht ist eine Leidenschaft die mit Eifer sucht was + Leider schafft,' says by no means too much.... Jealousy is a + heritage of animality and barbarism; I would recall this to those + who, under the name of 'injured honor,' attempt to justify it and + place it on a high pedestal. An unfaithful husband is ten times + more to be wished for a woman than a jealous husband.... We often + hear of 'justifiable jealousy.' I believe, however, that there is + no justifiable jealousy; it is always atavistic or else + pathological; at the <a name='6_Page_566'></a>best it is nothing more than a brutal + animal stupidity. A man who, by nature, that is by his hereditary + constitution, is jealous is certain to poison his own life and + that of his wife. Such men ought on no account to marry. Both + education and selection should work together to eliminate + jealousy as far as possible from the human brain."</p> + +<p> Eric Gillard in an article on "Jealousy" (<i>Free Review</i>, Sept., + 1896), in opposition to those who believe that jealousy "makes + the home," declares that, on the contrary, it is the chief force + that unmakes the home. "So long as egotism waters it with the + tears of sentiment and shields it from the cold blasts of + scientific inquiry, so long will it thrive. But the time will + come when it will be burned in the Garden of Love as a noxious + weed. Its mephitic influence in society is too palpable to be + overlooked. It turns homes that might be sanctuaries of love into + hells of discord and hate; it causes suicides, and it drives + thousands to drink, reckless excesses, and madness. Makes the + home! One of your married men friends sees a probable seducer in + every man who smiles at his wife; another is jealous of his + wife's women acquaintances; a third is wounded because his wife + shows so much attention to the children. Some of the women you + know display jealousy of every other woman, of their husband's + acquaintances, and some, of his very dog. You must be completely + monopolized or you do not thoroughly love. You must admire no one + but the person with whom you have immured yourself for life. Old + friendships must be dissolved, new friendships must not be + formed, for fear of invoking the beautiful emotion that 'makes + the home.'"</p></div> + +<p>Even if jealousy in matters of sex could be admitted to be an emotion +working on the side of civilized progress, it must still be pointed out +that it merely acts externally; it can have little or no real influence; +the jealous person seldom makes himself more lovable by his jealousy and +frequently much less lovable. The main effect of his jealousy is to +increase, and not seldom to excite, the causes for jealousy, and at the +same time to encourage hypocrisy.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>All the circumstances, accompaniments, and results of domestic + jealousy in their completely typical form, are well illustrated + by a very serious episode in the history of the Pepys household, + and have been fully and faithfully set down by the great diarist. + The offence—an embrace of his wife's lady-help, as she might now + be termed—was a slight one, but, as Pepys himself admits, quite + inexcusable. He is writing, being in his thirty-sixth year, on + the 25th of Oct., 1668 (Lord's Day). "After supper, to have my + hair combed by Deb, which occasioned <a name='6_Page_567'></a>the greatest sorrow to me + that ever I knew in this world, for my wife, coming up suddenly, + did find me embracing the girl.... I was at a wonderful loss upon + it, and the girl also, and I endeavored to put it off, but my + wife was struck mute and grew angry.... Heartily afflicted for + this folly of mine.... So ends this month," he writes a few days + later, "with some quiet to my mind, though not perfect, after the + greatest falling out with my poor wife, and through my folly with + the girl, that ever I had, and I have reason to be sorry and + ashamed of it, and more to be troubled for the poor girl's sake. + Sixth November. Up, and presently my wife up with me, which she + professedly now do every day to dress me, that I may not see + Willet [Deb], and do eye me, whether I cast my eye upon her, or + no, and do keep me from going into the room where she is. Ninth + November. Up, and I did, by a little note which I flung to Deb, + advise her that I did continue to deny that ever I kissed her, + and so she might govern herself. The truth is that I did + adventure upon God's pardoning me this lie, knowing how heavy a + thing it would be for me, to the ruin of the poor girl, and next + knowing that if my wife should know all it would be impossible + for her ever to be at peace with me again, and so our whole lives + would be uncomfortable. The girl read, and as I bid her returned + me the note, flinging it to me in passing by." Next day, however, + he is "mightily troubled," for his wife has obtained a confession + from the girl of the kissing. For some nights Mr. and Mrs. Pepys + are both sleepless, with much weeping on either side. Deb gets + another place, leaving on the 14th of November, and Pepys is + never able to see her before she leaves the house, his wife + keeping him always under her eye. It is evident that Pepys now + feels strongly attracted to Deb, though there is no evidence of + this before she became the subject of the quarrel. On the 13th of + November, hearing she was to leave next day, he writes: "The + truth is I have a good mind to have the maidenhead of this girl." + He was, however, the "more troubled to see how my wife is by this + means likely forever to have her hand over me, and that I shall + forever be a slave to her—that is to say, only in matters of + pleasure." At the same time his love for his wife was by no means + diminished, nor hers for him. "I must here remark," he says, + "that I have lain with my moher [<i>i.e.</i>, <i>muger</i>, wife] as a + husband more times since this falling out than in, I believe, + twelve months before. And with more pleasure to her than in all + the time of our marriage before." The next day was Sunday. On + Monday Pepys at once begins to make inquiries which will put him + on the track of Deb. On the 18th he finds her. She gets up into + the coach with him, and he kisses her and takes liberties with + her, at the same time advising her "to have a care of her honor + and to fear God," allowing no one else to do what he has done; he + also tells her how she can find him if she desires. Pepys now + feels that everything <a name='6_Page_568'></a>is settled satisfactorily, and his heart + is full of joy. But his joy is short-lived, for Mrs. Pepys + discovers this interview with Deb on the following day. Pepys + denies it at first, then confesses, and there is a more furious + scene than ever. Pepys is now really alarmed, for his wife + threatens to leave him; he definitely abandons Deb, and with + prayers to God resolves never to do the like again. Mrs. Pepys is + not satisfied, however, till she makes her husband write a letter + to Deb, telling her that she is little better than a whore, and + that he hates her, though Deb is spared this, not by any + stratagem of Pepys, but by the considerateness of the friend to + whom the letter was entrusted for delivery. Moreover, Mrs. Pepys + arranges with her husband that, in future, whenever he goes + abroad he shall be accompanied everywhere by his clerk. We see + that Mrs. Pepys plays with what appears to be triumphant skill + and success the part of the jealous and avenging wife, and digs + her little French heels remorselessly into her prostrate husband + and her rival. Unfortunately, we do not know what the final + outcome was, for a little later, owing to trouble with his + eyesight, Pepys was compelled to bring his Diary to an end. It is + evident, however, when we survey the whole of this perhaps + typical episode, that neither husband nor wife were in the + slightest degree prepared for the commonplace position into which + they were thrown; that each of them appears in a painful, + undignified, and humiliating light; that as a result of it the + husband acquires almost a genuine and strong affection for the + girl who is the cause of the quarrel; and finally that, even + though he is compelled, for the time at all events, to yield to + his wife, he remains at the end exactly what he was at the + beginning. Nor had husband or wife the very slightest wish to + leave each other; the bond of marriage remained firm, but it had + been degraded by insincerity on one side and the jealous endeavor + on the other to secure fidelity by compulsion.</p></div> + +<p>Apart altogether, however, from the question of its effectiveness, or even +of the misery that it causes to all concerned, it is evident that jealousy +is incompatible with all the tendencies of civilization. We have seen that +a certain degree of variation is involved in the sexual relationship, as +in all other relationships, and unless we are to continue to perpetuate +many evils and injustices, that fact has to be faced and recognized. We +have also seen that the line of our advance involves a constant increase +in moral responsibility and self-government, and that, in its turn, +implies not only a high degree of sincerity but also the recognition that +no person has any right, or indeed any power, to control the emotions and +actions of another person. If our sun of <a name='6_Page_569'></a>love stands still at midday, +according to Ellen Key's phrase, that is a miracle to be greeted with awe +and gratitude, and by no means a right to be demanded. The claim of +jealousy falls with the claim of conjugal rights.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is quite possible, Bloch remarks (<i>The Sexual Life of Our + Time</i>, Ch. X), to love more than one person at the same time, + with nearly equal tenderness, and to be honestly able to assure + each of the passion felt for her or him. Bloch adds that the vast + psychic differentiation involved by modern civilization increases + the possibility of this double love, for it is difficult for + anyone to find his complement in a single person, and that this + applies to women as well as to men.</p> + +<p> Georg Hirth likewise points out (<i>Wege zur Heimat</i>, pp. 543-552) + that it is important to remember that women, as well as men, can + love two persons at the same time. Men flatter themselves, he + remarks, with the prejudice that the female heart, or rather + brain, can only hold one man at a time, and that if there is a + second man it is by a kind of prostitution. Nearly all erotic + writers, poets, and novelists, even physicians and psychologists, + belong to this class, he says; they look on a woman as property, + and of course two men cannot "possess" a woman. (Regarding + novelists, however, the remark may be interpolated that there are + many exceptions, and Thomas Hardy, for instance, frequently + represents a woman as more or less in love with two men at the + same time.) As against this desire to depreciate women's psychic + capacity, Hirth maintains that a woman is not necessarily obliged + to be untrue to one man because she has conceived a passion for + another man. "Today," Hirth truly declares, "only love and + justice can count as honorable motives in marriage. The modern + man accords to the beloved wife and life-companion the same + freedom which he himself took before marriage, and perhaps still + takes in marriage. If she makes no use of it, as is to be + hoped—so much the better! But let there be no lies, no + deception; the indispensable foundation of modern marriage is + boundless sincerity and friendship, the deepest trust, + affectionate devotion, and consideration. This is the best + safeguard against adultery.... Let him, however, who is, + nevertheless, overtaken by the outbreak of it console himself + with the undoubted fact that of two real lovers the most + noble-minded and deep-seeing <i>friend</i> will always have the + preference." These wise words cannot be too deeply meditated. The + policy of jealousy is only successful—when it is successful—in + the hands of the man who counts the external husk of love more + precious than the kernel.</p></div> + +<p>It seems to some that the recognition of variations in sexual +relationships, of the tendency of the monogamic to overpass its +<a name='6_Page_570'></a>self-imposed bounds, is at best a sad necessity, and a lamentable fall +from a high ideal. That, however, is the reverse of the truth. The great +evil of monogamy, and its most seriously weak point, is its tendency to +self-concentration at the expense of the outer world. The devil always +comes to a man in the shape of his wife and children, said Hinton. The +family is a great social influence in so far as it is the best instrument +for creating children who will make the future citizens; but in a certain +sense the family is an anti-social influence, for it tends to absorb +unduly the energy that is needed for the invigoration of society. It is +possible, indeed, that that fact led to the modification of the monogamic +system in early developing periods of human history, when social expansion +and cohesion were the primary necessities. The family too often tends to +resemble, as someone has said, the secluded collection of grubs sometimes +revealed in their narrow home when we casually raise a flat stone in our +gardens. Great as are the problems of love, and great as should be our +attention to them, it must always be remembered that love is not a little +circle that is complete in itself. It is the nature of love to irradiate. +Just as family life exists mainly for the social end of breeding the +future race, so family love has its social ends in the extension of +sympathy and affection to those outside it, and even in ends that go +beyond love altogether.<a name='6_FNanchor_417'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_417'><sup>[417]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The question is debated from time to time as to how far it is possible for +men and women to have intimate friendships with each other outside the +erotic sphere.<a name='6_FNanchor_418'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_418'><sup>[418]</sup></a> There can be no doubt whatever that it is perfectly +possible for a man and a woman to experience for each other a friendship +which never intrudes into the sexual sphere. As a rule, however, this only +happens under special conditions, and those are generally conditions which +<a name='6_Page_571'></a>exclude the closest and most intimate friendship. If, as we have seen, +love may be defined as a synthesis of lust and friendship, friendship +inevitably enters into the erotic sphere. Just as sexual emotion tends to +merge into friendship, so friendship between persons of opposite sex, if +young, healthy, and attractive, tends to involve sexual emotion. The two +feelings are too closely allied for an artificial barrier to be +permanently placed between them without protest. Men who offer a woman +friendship usually find that it is not received with much satisfaction +except as the first installment of a warmer emotion, and women who offer +friendship to a man usually find that he responds with an offer of love; +very often the "friendship" is from the first simply love or flirtation +masquerading under another name.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"In the long run," a woman writes (in a letter published in + <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, Bd. i, Heft 7), "the senses become + discontented at their complete exclusion. And I believe that a + man can only come into the closest mutual association with a + woman by whom, consciously or unconsciously, he is physically + attracted. He cannot enter into the closest psychic intercourse + with a woman with whom he could not imagine himself in physical + intercourse. His prevailing wish is for the possession of a + woman, of the whole woman, her soul as well as her body. And a + woman also cannot imagine an intimate relation to a man in which + the heart and the body, as well as the mind, are not involved. + (Naturally I am thinking of people with sound nerves and healthy + blood.) Can a woman carry on a Platonic relation with a man from + year to year without the thought sometimes coming to her: 'Why + does he never kiss me? Have I no charm for him?' And in the most + concealed corner of her heart will it not happen that she uses + that word 'kiss' in the more comprehensive sense in which the + French sometimes employ it?" There is undoubtedly an element of + truth in this statement. The frontier between erotic love and + friendship is vague, and an intimate psychic intercourse that is + sternly debarred from ever manifesting itself in a caress, or + other physical manifestation of tender intimacy, tends to be + constrained, and arouses unspoken and unspeakable thoughts and + desires which are fatal to any complete friendship.</p></div> + +<p>Undoubtedly the only perfect "Platonic friendships" are those which have +been reached through the portal of a preliminary erotic intimacy. In such +a case bad lovers, when they have resolutely traversed the erotic stage, +may become exceedingly <a name='6_Page_572'></a>good friends. A satisfactory friendship is +possible between brother and sister because they have been physically +intimate in childhood, and all erotic curiosities are absent. The most +admirable "Platonic friendship" may often be attained by husband and wife +in whom sympathy and affection and common interests have outlived passion. +In nearly all the most famous friendships of distinguished men and +women—as we know in some cases and divine in others—an hour's passion, +in Sainte-Beuve's words, has served as the golden key to unlock the most +precious and intimate secrets of friendship.<a name='6_FNanchor_419'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_419'><sup>[419]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The friendships that have been entered through the erotic portal possess +an intimacy and retain a spiritually erotic character which could not be +attained on the basis of a normal friendship between persons of the same +sex. This is true in a far higher degree of the ultimate relationship, +under fortunate circumstances, of husband and wife in the years after +passion has become impossible. They have ceased to be passionate lovers +but they have not become mere friends and comrades. More especially their +relationship takes on elements borrowed from the attitude of child to +parent, of parent to child. Everyone from his first years retains +something of the child which cannot be revealed to all the world; everyone +acquires something of the guardian paternal or maternal spirit. Husband +and wife are each child to the other, and are indeed parent and child by +turn. And here still the woman retains a certain erotic supremacy, for she +is to the last more of a child than it is ever easy for the man to be, and +much more essentially a mother than he is a father.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Groos (<i>Der Æsthetische Genuss</i>, p. 249) has pointed out that + "love" is really made up of both sexual instinct and parental + instinct.</p> + +<p> "So-called happy marriages," says Professor W. Thomas (<i>Sex and + Society</i>, p. 246), "represent an equilibrium reached through an + extension of the maternal interest of the woman to the man, + whereby she looks after his personal needs as she does after + those of the children—cherishing <a name='6_Page_573'></a>him, in fact, as a child—or + in an extension to woman on the part of man of the nurture and + affection which is in his nature to give to pets and all helpless + (and preferably dumb) creatures."</p> + +<p> "When the devotion in the tie between mother and son," a woman + writes, "is added to the relation of husband and wife, the union + of marriage is raised to the high and beautiful dignity it + deserves, and can attain in this world. It comprehends sympathy, + love, and perfect understanding, even of the faults and + weaknesses of both sides." "The foundation of every true woman's + love," another woman writes, "is a mother's tenderness. He whom + she loves is a child of larger growth, although she may at the + same time have a deep respect for him." (See also, for similar + opinion of another woman of distinguished intellectual ability, + footnote at beginning of "The Psychic State in Pregnancy" in + volume v of these <i>Studies</i>.)</p> + +<p> It is on the basis of these elemental human facts that the + permanently seductive and inspiring relationships of sex are + developed, and not by the emergence of personalities who combine + impossibly exalted characteristics. "The task is extremely + difficult," says Kisch in his <i>Sexual Life of Woman</i>, "but a + clever and virtuous modern wife must endeavor to combine in her + single personality the sensuous attractiveness of an Aspasia, the + chastity of a Lucrece, and the intellectual greatness of a + Cornelia." And in an earlier century we are told in the novel of + <i>La Tia Fingida</i>, which has sometimes been attributed to + Cervantes, that "a woman should be an angel in the street, a + saint in church, beautiful at the window, honest in the house, + and a demon in bed." The demands made of men by women, on the + other hand, have been almost too lofty to bear definite + formulation at all. "Ninety-nine out of a hundred loving women," + says Helene Stöcker, "certainly believe that if a thousand other + men have behaved ignobly, and forsaken, ill-used, and deceived + the woman they love, the man they love is an exception, marked + out from all other men; that is the reason they love him." It may + be doubted, however, if the great lovers have ever stood very far + above the ordinary level of humanity by their possession of + perfection. They have been human, and their art of love has not + always excluded the possession of human frailties; perfection, + indeed, even if it could be found, would furnish a bad soil for + love to strike deep roots in.</p></div> + +<p>It is only when we realize the highly complex nature of the elements which +make up erotic love that we can understand how it is that that love can +constitute so tremendous a revelation and exert so profound an influence +even in men of the greatest genius and intellect and in the sphere of +their most spiritual activity. It is not merely passion, nor any conscious +skill in the erotic art,—important <a name='6_Page_574'></a>as these may be,—that would serve to +account for Goethe's relationship to Frau von Stein, or Wagner's to +Mathilde Wesendonck, or that of Robert and Elizabeth Browning to each +other.<a name='6_FNanchor_420'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_420'><sup>[420]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It may now be clear to the reader why it has been necessary in a +discussion of the sexual impulse in its relationship to society to deal +with the art of love. It is true that there is nothing so intimately +private and personal as the erotic affairs of the individual. Yet it is +equally true that these affairs lie at the basis of the social life, and +furnish the conditions—good or bad as the case may be—of that +procreative act which is a supreme concern of the State. It is because the +question of love is of such purely private interest that it tends to be +submerged in the question of breed. We have to realize, not only that the +question of love subserves the question of breed, but also that love has a +proper, a necessary, even a socially wholesome claim, to stand by itself +and to be regarded for its own worth.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In the profoundly suggestive study of love which the + distinguished sociologist Tarde left behind at his death + (<i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, <i>loc. cit.</i>), there are + some interesting remarks on this point: "Society," he says, "has + been far more, and more intelligently, preoccupied with the + problem of answering the 'question of breed' than the 'question + of love.' The first problem fills all our civil and commercial + codes. The second problem has never been clearly stated, or + looked in the face, not even in antiquity, still less since the + coming of Christianity, for merely to offer the solutions of + marriage and prostitution is manifestly inadequate. Statesmen + have only seen the side on which it <a name='6_Page_575'></a>touches population. Hence + the marriage laws. Sterile love they profess to disdain. Yet it + is evident that, though born as the serf of generation, love + tends by civilization to be freed from it. In place of a simple + method of procreation it has become an end, it has created itself + a title, a royal title. Our gardens cultivate flowers that are + all the more charming because they are sterile; why is the double + corolla of love held more infamous than the sterilized flowers of + our gardens?" Tarde replies that the reason is that our + politicians are merely ambitious persons thirsting for power and + wealth, and even when they are lovers they are Don Juans rather + than Virgils. "The future," he continues, "is to the Virgilians, + because if the ambition of power, the regal wealth of American or + European millionarism, once seemed nobler, love now more and more + attracts to itself the best and highest parts of the soul, where + lies the hidden ferment of all that is greatest in science and + art, and more and more those studious and artist souls multiply + who, intent on their peaceful activities, hold in horror the + business men and the politicians, and will one day succeed in + driving them back. That assuredly will be the great and capital + revolution of humanity, an active psychological revolution: the + recognized preponderance of the meditative and contemplative, the + lover's side of the human soul, over the feverish, expansive, + rapacious, and ambitious side. And then it will be understood + that one of the greatest of social problems, perhaps the most + arduous of all, has been the problem of love."</p></div> + +<hr /> + +<a name='6_Footnote_375'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_375'>[375]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Quæstionum Convivalium</i>, lib. iii, quæstio 6.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_376'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_376'>[376]</a><div class='note'><p> E. D. Cope, "The Marriage Problem," <i>Open Court</i>, Nov. +1888.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_377'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_377'>[377]</a><div class='note'><p> Columbus meeting of the American Medical Association, +1900.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_378'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_378'>[378]</a><div class='note'><p> Ellen Key, <i>Ueber Liebe und Ehe</i>, p. 24.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_379'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_379'>[379]</a><div class='note'><p> In an admirable article on Friedrich Schlegel's <i>Lucinde</i> +(<i>Mutterschutz</i>, 1906, Heft 5), Heinrich Meyer-Benfey, in pointing out +that the Catholic sacramental conception of marriage licensed love, but +failed to elevate it, regards <i>Lucinde</i>, with all its defects, as the +first expression of the unity of the senses and the soul, and, as such, +the basis of the new ethics of love. It must, however, be said that four +hundred years earlier Pontano had expressed this same erotic unity far +more robustly and wholesomely than Schlegel, though the Latin verse in +which he wrote, fresh and vital as it is, remained without influence. +Pontano's <i>Carmina</i>, including the "De Amore Conjugali," have at length +been reprinted in a scholarly edition by Soldati.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_380'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_380'>[380]</a><div class='note'><p> From the thirteenth to the seventeenth centuries Ovid was, +in reality, the most popular and influential classic poet. His works +played a large part in moulding Renaissance literature, not least in +England, where Marlowe translated his <i>Amores</i>, and Shakespeare, during +the early years of his literary activity, was greatly indebted to him +(see, <i>e.g.</i>, Sidney Lee, "Ovid and Shakespeare's Sonnets," <i>Quarterly +Review</i>, Ap., 1909).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_381'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_381'>[381]</a><div class='note'><p> This has already been discussed in Chapter II.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_382'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_382'>[382]</a><div class='note'><p> By the age of twenty-five, as G. Hirth remarks (<i>Wege zur +Heimat</i>, p. 541), an energetic and sexually disposed man in a large city +has, for the most part, already had relations with some twenty-five women, +perhaps even as many as fifty, while a well-bred and cultivated woman at +that age is still only beginning to realize the slowly summating +excitations of sex.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_383'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_383'>[383]</a><div class='note'><p> In his study of "Conjugal Aversion" (<i>Journal Nervous and +Mental Disease</i>, Sept., 1892) Smith Baker points out the value of adequate +sexual knowledge before marriage in lessening the risks of such aversion.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_384'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_384'>[384]</a><div class='note'><p> "It may be said to the honor of men," Adler truly remarks +(<i>op. cit.</i>, p. 182), "that it is perhaps not often their conscious +brutality that is at fault in this matter, but merely lack of skill and +lack of understanding. The husband who is not specially endowed by nature +and experience for psychic intercourse with women, is not likely, through +his earlier intercourse with Venus vulgivaga, to bring into marriage any +useful knowledge, psychic or physical."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_385'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_385'>[385]</a><div class='note'><p> "The first night," writes a correspondent concerning his +marriage, "she found the act very painful and was frightened and surprised +at the size of my penis, and at my suddenly getting on her. We had talked +very openly about sex things before marriage, and it never occurred to me +that she was ignorant of the details of the act. I imagined it would +disgust her to talk about these things; but I now see I should have +explained things to her. Before marrying I had come to the conclusion that +the respect owed to one's wife was incompatible with any talk that might +seem indecent, and also I had made a resolve not to subject her to what I +thought then were dirty tricks, even to be naked and to have her naked. In +fact, I was the victim of mock modesty; it was an artificial reaction from +the life I had been living before marriage. Now it seems to me to be +natural, if you love a woman, to do whatever occurs to you and to her. If +I had not felt it wrong to encourage such acts between us, there might +have been established a sexual sympathy which would have bound me more +closely to her."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_386'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_386'>[386]</a><div class='note'><p> Montaigne, <i>Essais</i>, Bk. iii, Ch. V. It is a significant +fact that, even in the matter of information, women, notwithstanding much +ignorance and inexperience, are often better equipped for marriage than +men. As Fürbringer remarks (Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health and Disease in +Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. i, p. 212), although the wife is usually more +chaste at marriage than the husband, yet "she is generally the better +informed partner in matters pertaining to the married state, in spite of +occasional astonishing confessions."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_387'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_387'>[387]</a><div class='note'><p> "She never loses her self-respect nor my respect for her," +a man writes in a letter, "simply because we are desperately in love with +one another, and everything we do—some of which the lowest prostitute +might refuse to do—seems but one attempt after another to translate our +passion into action. I never realized before, not that to the pure all +things are pure, indeed, but that to the lover nothing is indecent. Yes, I +have always felt it, to love her is a liberal education." It is obviously +only the existence of such an attitude as this that can enable a pure +woman to be passionate.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_388'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_388'>[388]</a><div class='note'><p> "To be really understood," as Rafford Pyke well says, "to +say what she likes, to utter her innermost thoughts in her own way, to +cast aside the traditional conventions that gall her and repress her, to +have someone near her with whom she can be quite frank, and yet to know +that not a syllable of what she says will be misinterpreted or mistaken, +but rather felt just as she feels it all—how wonderfully sweet is this to +every woman, and how few men are there who can give it to her!"</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_389'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_389'>[389]</a><div class='note'><p> In more recent times it has been discussed in relation to +the frequency of spontaneous nocturnal emissions. See "The Phenomena of +Sexual Periodicity," Sect. II, in volume i of these <i>Studies</i>, and <i>cf.</i> +Mr. Perry-Coste's remarks on "The Annual Rhythm," in Appendix B of the +same volume.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_390'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_390'>[390]</a><div class='note'><p> See "The Sexual Impulse in Women," vol. iii of these +<i>Studies</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_391'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_391'>[391]</a><div class='note'><p> Zenobia's practice is referred to by Gibbon, <i>Decline and +Fall</i>, ed. Bury, vol. i, p. 302. The Queen of Aragon's decision is +recorded by the Montpellier jurist, Nicolas Bohier (Boerius) in his +<i>Decisiones</i>, etc., ed. of 1579, p. 563; it is referred to by Montaigne, +<i>Essais</i>, Bk. iii, Ch. V.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_392'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_392'>[392]</a><div class='note'><p> Haller, <i>Elementa Physiologiæ</i>, 1778, vol. vii, p. 57.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_393'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_393'>[393]</a><div class='note'><p> Hammond, <i>Sexual Impotence</i>, p. 129.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_394'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_394'>[394]</a><div class='note'><p> Fürbringer, Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health and Disease in +Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. i, p. 221.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_395'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_395'>[395]</a><div class='note'><p> Forel, <i>Die Sexuelle Frage</i>, p. 80.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_396'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_396'>[396]</a><div class='note'><p> Guyot, <i>Bréviaire de l'Amour Expérimental</i>, p. 144.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_397'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_397'>[397]</a><div class='note'><p> Erb, Ziemssen's <i>Handbuch</i>, Bd. xi, ii, p. 148. Guttceit +also considered that the very wide variations found are congenital and +natural. It may be added that some believe that there are racial +variations. Thus it has been stated that the genital force of the +Englishman is low, and that of the Frenchman (especially Provençal, +Languedocian, and Gascon) high, while Löwenfeld believes that the Germanic +race excels the French in aptitude to repeat the sex act frequently. It is +probable that little weight attaches to these opinions, and that the chief +differences are individual rather than racial.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_398'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_398'>[398]</a><div class='note'><p> Ribbing, <i>L'Hygiène Sexualle</i>, p. 75. Kisch, in his <i>Sexual +Life of Woman</i>, expresses the same opinion.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_399'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_399'>[399]</a><div class='note'><p> Mohammed, who often displayed a consideration for women +very rare in the founders of religions, is an exception. His prescription +of once a week represented the right of the wife, quite independently of +the number of wives a man might possess.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_400'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_400'>[400]</a><div class='note'><p> How fragile the claim of "conjugal rights" is, may be +sufficiently proved by the fact that it is now considered by many that the +very term "conjugal rights" arose merely by a mistake for "conjugal +rites." Before 1733, when legal proceedings were in Latin, the term used +was <i>obsequies</i>, and "rights," instead of "rites," seems to have been +merely a typesetter's error (see <i>Notes and Queries</i>, May 16, 1891; May 6, +1899). This explanation, it should be added, only applies to the +consecrated term, for there can be no doubt that the underlying idea has +an existence quite independent of the term.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_401'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_401'>[401]</a><div class='note'><p> "In most marriages that are not happy," it is said in +Rafford Pyke's thoughtful paper on "Husbands and Wives" (<i>Cosmopolitan</i>, +1902), "it is the wife rather than the husband who is oftenest +disappointed."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_402'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_402'>[402]</a><div class='note'><p> See "Analysis of the Sexual Impulse," in vol. iii of these +<i>Studies</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_403'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_403'>[403]</a><div class='note'><p> It is well recognized by erotic writers, however, that +women may sometimes take a comparatively active part. Thus Vatsyayana says +that sometimes the woman may take the man's position, and with flowers in +her hair and smiles mixed with sighs and bent head, caressing him and +pressing her breasts against him, say: "You have been my conqueror; it is +my turn to make you cry for mercy."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_404'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_404'>[404]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus among the Swahili it is on the third day after +marriage that the bridegroom is allowed, by custom, to complete +defloration, according to Zache, <i>Zeitschrift für Ethnologie</i>, 1899, +II-III, p. 84.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_405'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_405'>[405]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>De l'Amour</i>, vol. ii, p. 57.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_406'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_406'>[406]</a><div class='note'><p> Robert Michels, "Brautstandsmoral," <i>Geschlecht und +Gesellschaft</i>, Jahrgang I, Heft 12.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_407'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_407'>[407]</a><div class='note'><p> I may refer once more to the facts brought together in +volume iii of these <i>Studies</i>, "The Analysis of the Sexual Impulse."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_408'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_408'>[408]</a><div class='note'><p> This has been pointed out, for instance, by Rutgers, +"Sexuelle Differenzierung," <i>Die Neue Generation</i>, Dec., 1908.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_409'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_409'>[409]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus, among the Eskimo, who practice temporary +wife-exchange, Rasmussen states that "a man generally discovers that his +own wife is, in spite of all, the best."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_410'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_410'>[410]</a><div class='note'><p> "I have always held with the late Professor Laycock," +remarks Clouston (<i>Hygiene of Mind</i>, p. 214), "who was a very subtle +student of human nature, that a married couple need not be always together +to be happy, and that in fact reasonable absences and partings tend +towards ultimate and closer union." That the prolongation of passion is +only compatible with absence scarcely needs pointing out; as Mary +Wollstonecraft long since said (<i>Rights of Woman</i>, original ed., p. 61), +it is only in absence or in misfortune that passion is durable. It may be +added, however, that in her love-letters to Imlay she wrote: "I have ever +declared that two people who mean to live together ought not to be long +separated."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_411'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_411'>[411]</a><div class='note'><p> "Viewed broadly," says Arnold L. Gesell, in his interesting +study of "Jealousy" (<i>American Journal of Psychology</i>, Oct., 1906), +"jealousy seems such a necessary psychological accompaniment to biological +behavior, amidst competitive struggle, that one is tempted to consider it +genetically among the oldest of the emotions, synonymous almost with the +will to live, and to make it scarcely less fundamental than fear or anger. +In fact, jealousy readily passes into anger, and is itself a brand of +fear.... In sociability and mutual aid we see the other side of the +shield; but jealousy, however anti-social it may be, retains a function in +zoölogical economy: viz., to conserve the individual as against the group. +It is Nature's great corrective for the purely social emotions."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_412'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_412'>[412]</a><div class='note'><p> Many illustrations are brought together in Gesell's study +of "Jealousy."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_413'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_413'>[413]</a><div class='note'><p> Jealousy among lower races may be disguised or modified by +tribal customs. Thus Rasmussen (<i>People of the Polar North</i>, p. 65) says +in reference to the Eskimo custom of wife-exchange: "A man once told me +that he only beat his wife when she would not receive other men. She would +have nothing to do with anyone but him—and that was her only failing!" +Rasmussen elsewhere shows that the Eskimo are capable of extreme +jealousy.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_414'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_414'>[414]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, Moll, <i>Sexualleben des Kindes</i>, p. 158; <i>cf.</i>, +Gesell's "Study of Jealousy."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_415'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_415'>[415]</a><div class='note'><p> Jealousy is notoriously common among drunkards. As K. +Birnbaum points out ("Das Sexualleben der Alkokolisten," +<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Jan., 1909), this jealousy is, in most cases, more or +less well-founded, for the wife, disgusted with her husband, naturally +seeks sympathy and companionship elsewhere. Alcoholic jealousy, however, +goes far beyond its basis of support in fact, and is entangled with +delusions and hallucinations. (See <i>e.g.</i>, G. Dumas, "La Logique d'un +Dément," <i>Revue Philosophique</i>, Feb., 1908; also Stefanowski, "Morbid +Jealousy," <i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, July, 1893.)</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_416'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_416'>[416]</a><div class='note'><p> Ellen Key, <i>Ueber Liebe und Ehe</i>, p. 335.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_417'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_417'>[417]</a><div class='note'><p> Schrempf points out ("Von Stella zu Klärchen," +<i>Mutterschutz</i>, 1906, Heft 7, p. 264) that Goethe strove to show in +<i>Egmont</i> that a woman is repelled by the love of a man who knows nothing +beyond his love to her, and that it is easy for her to devote herself to +the man whose aims lie in the larger world beyond herself. There is +profound truth in this view.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_418'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_418'>[418]</a><div class='note'><p> A discussion on "Platonic friendship" of this kind by +several writers, mostly women, whose opinions were nearly equally divided, +may be found, for instance, in the <i>Lady's Realm</i>, March, 1900.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_419'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_419'>[419]</a><div class='note'><p> There are no doubt important exceptions. Thus Mérimée's +famous friendship with Mlle. Jenny Dacquin, enshrined in the <i>Lettres à +une Inconnue</i>, was perhaps Platonic throughout on Mérimée's side, Mlle. +Dacquin adapting herself to his attitude. <i>Cf.</i> A. Lefebvre, <i>La Célèbre +Inconnue de Mérimée</i>, 1908.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_420'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_420'>[420]</a><div class='note'><p> The love-letters of all these distinguished persons have +been published. Rosa Mayreder (<i>Zur Kritik der Weiblichkeit</i>, pp. 229 <i>et +seq.</i>) discusses the question of the humble and absolute manner in which +even men of the most masculine and impetuous genius abandon themselves to +the inspiration of the beloved woman. The case of the Brownings, who have +been termed "the hero and heroine of the most wonderful love-story that +the world knows of," is specially notable; (Ellen Key has written of the +Brownings from this point of view in <i>Menschen</i>, and reference may be made +to an article on the Brownings' love-letters in the <i>Edinburgh Review</i>, +April, 1899). It is scarcely necessary to add that an erotic relationship +may mean very much to persons of high intellectual ability, even when its +issue is not happy; of Mary Wollstonecraft, one of the most intellectually +distinguished of women, it may be said that the letters which enshrine her +love to the worthless Imlay are among the most passionate and pathetic +love-letters in English.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_CHAPTER_XII'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_576'></a>CHAPTER XII.</h2> + +<h3>THE SCIENCE OF PROCREATION.</h3> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The Relationship of the Science of Procreation to the Art of Love—Sexual +Desire and Sexual Pleasure as the Conditions of Conception—Reproduction +Formerly Left to Caprice and Lust—The Question of Procreation as a +Religious Question—The Creed of Eugenics—Ellen Key and Sir Francis +Galton—Our Debt to Posterity—The Problem of Replacing Natural +Selection—The Origin and Development of Eugenics—The General Acceptance +of Eugenical Principles To-day—The Two Channels by Which Eugenical +Principles are Becoming Embodied in Practice—The Sense of Sexual +Responsibility in Women—The Rejection of Compulsory Motherhood—The +Privilege of Voluntary Motherhood—Causes of the Degradation of +Motherhood—The Control of Conception—Now Practiced by the Majority of +the Population in Civilized Countries—The Fallacy of "Racial +Suicide"—Are Large Families a Stigma of Degeneration?—Procreative +Control the Outcome of Natural and Civilized Progress—The Growth of +Neo-Malthusian Beliefs and Practices—Facultative Sterility as Distinct +from Neo-Malthusianism—The Medical and Hygienic Necessity of Control of +Conception—Preventive Methods—Abortion—The New Doctrine of the Duty to +Practice Abortion—How Far is this Justifiable?—Castration as a Method of +Controlling Procreation—Negative Eugenics and Positive Eugenics—The +Question of Certificates for Marriage—The Inadequacy of Eugenics by Act +of Parliament—The Quickening of the Social Conscience in Regard to +Heredity—Limitations to the Endowment of Motherhood—The Conditions +Favorable to Procreation—Sterility—The Question of Artificial +Fecundation—The Best Age of Procreation—The Question of Early +Motherhood—The Best Time for Procreation—The Completion of the Divine +Cycle of Life.</p></div> +<br /> + +<p>We have seen that the art of love has an independent and amply justifiable +right to existence apart, altogether, from procreation. Even if we still +believed—as all men must once have believed and some Central Australians +yet believe<a name='6_FNanchor_421'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_421'><sup>[421]</sup></a>—that sexual intercourse has no essential connection with +the propagation of the race it would have full right to existence. In its +finer manifestations as an art it is required in civilization for the full +<a name='6_Page_577'></a>development of the individual, and it is equally required for that +stability of relationships which is nearly everywhere regarded as a demand +of social morality.</p> + +<p>When we now turn to the second great constitutional factor of marriage, +procreation, the first point we encounter is that the art of love here +also has its place. In ancient times the sexual congruence of any man with +any woman was supposed to be so much a matter of course that all questions +of love and of the art of love could be left out of consideration. The +propagative act might, it was thought, be performed as impersonally, as +perfunctorily, as the early Christian Fathers imagined it had been +performed in Paradise. That view is no longer acceptable. It fails to +commend itself to men, and still less to women. We know that in +civilization at all events—and it is often indeed the same among +savages—erethism is not always easy between two persons selected at +random, nor even when they are more specially selected. And we also know, +on the authority of very distinguished gynæcologists, that it is not in +very many cases sufficient even to effect coitus, it is also necessary to +excite orgasm, if conception is to be achieved.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Many primitive peoples, as well as the theologians of the Middle + Ages, have believed that sexual excitement on the woman's part is + necessary to conception, though they have sometimes mixed up that + belief with false science and mere superstition. The belief + itself is supported by some of the most cautious and experienced + modern gynæcologists. Thus, Matthews Duncan (in his lectures on + <i>Sterility in Women</i>) argued that the absence of sexual desire in + women, and the absence of pleasure in the sexual act, are + powerful influences making for sterility. He brought forward a + table based on his case-books, showing that of nearly four + hundred sterile women, only about one-fourth experienced sexual + desire, while less than half experienced pleasure in the sexual + act. In the absence, however, of a corresponding table concerning + fertile women, nothing is hereby absolutely proved, and, at most, + only a probability established.</p> + +<p> Kisch, more recently (in his <i>Sexual Life of Woman</i>), has dealt + fully with this question, and reaches the conclusion that it is + "extremely probable" that the active erotic participation of the + woman in coitus is an important link in the chain of conditions + producing conception. It acts, he remarks, in either or both of + two ways, by causing reflex <a name='6_Page_578'></a>changes in the cervical secretions, + and so facilitating the passage of the spermatozoa, and by + causing reflex erectile changes in the cervix itself, with slight + descent of the uterus, so rendering the entrance of the semen + easier. Kisch refers to the analogous fact that the first + occurrence of menstruation is favored by sexual excitement.</p> + +<p> Some authorities go so far as to assert that, until voluptuous + excitement occurs in women, no impregnation is possible. This + statement seems too extreme. It is true that the occurrence of + impregnation during sleep, or in anæsthesia, cannot be opposed to + it, for we know that the unconsciousness of these states by no + means prevents the occurrence of complete sexual excitement. We + cannot fail, however, to connect the fact that impregnation + frequently fails to occur for months and even years after + marriage, with the fact that sexual pleasure in coitus on the + wife's part also frequently fails to occur for a similar period.</p></div> + +<p>"Of all human instincts," Pinard has said,<a name='6_FNanchor_422'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_422'><sup>[422]</sup></a> "that of reproduction is +the only one which remains in the primitive condition and has received no +education. We procreate to-day as they procreated in the Stone Age. The +most important act in the life of man, the sublimest of all acts since it +is that of his reproduction, man accomplishes to-day with as much +carelessness as in the age of the cave-man." And though Pinard himself, as +the founder of puericulture, has greatly contributed to call attention to +the vast destinies that hang on the act of procreation, there still +remains a lamentable amount of truth in this statement. "Future +generations," writes Westermarck in his great history of moral ideas,<a name='6_FNanchor_423'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_423'><sup>[423]</sup></a> +"will probably with a kind of horror look back at a period when the most +important, and in its consequences the most far-reaching, function which +has fallen to the lot of man was entirely left to individual caprice and +lust."</p> + +<p>We are told in his <i>Table Talk</i>, that the great Luther was accustomed to +say that God's way of making man was very foolish ("sehr närrisch"), and +that if God had deigned to take him into His counsel he would have +strongly advised Him to make the whole human race, as He made Adam, "out +of earth." And certainly if applied to the careless and reckless manner in +which procreation in Luther's day, as still for the most part in our <a name='6_Page_579'></a>own, +was usually carried out there was sound common sense in the Reformer's +remarks. If that is the way procreation is to be carried on, it would be +better to create and mould every human being afresh out of the earth; in +that way we could at all events eliminate evil heredity. It was, however, +unjust to place the responsibility on God. It is men and women who breed +the people that make the world good or bad. They seek to put the evils of +society on to something outside themselves. They see how large a +proportion of human beings are defective, ill-conditioned, anti-social, +incapable of leading a whole and beautiful human life. In old theological +language it was often said that such were "children of the Devil," and +Luther himself was often ready enough to attribute the evil of the world +to the direct interposition of the Devil. Yet these ill-conditioned people +who clog the wheels of society are, after all, in reality the children of +Man. The only Devil whom we can justly invoke in this matter is Man.</p> + +<p>The command "Be fruitful and multiply," which the ancient Hebrews put into +the mouth of their tribal God, was, as Crackanthorpe points out,<a name='6_FNanchor_424'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_424'><sup>[424]</sup></a> a +command supposed to have been uttered when there were only eight persons +in the world. If the time should ever again occur when the inhabitants of +the world could be counted on one's fingers, such an injunction, as +Crackanthorpe truly observes, would again be reasonable. But we have to +remember that to-day humanity has spawned itself over the world in +hundreds and even thousands of millions of creatures, a large proportion +of whom, as is but too obvious, ought never to have been born at all, and +the voice of Jehovah is now making itself heard through the leaders of +mankind in a very different sense.</p> + +<p>It is not surprising that as this fact tends to become generally +recognized, the question of the procreation of the race should gain a new +significance, and even tend to take on the character of a new religious +movement. Mere morality can never lead us to concern ourselves with the +future of the race, and in <a name='6_Page_580'></a>the days of old, men used to protest against +the tendency to subordinate the interests of religion to the claims of +"mere morality." There was a sound natural instinct underlying that +protest, so often and so vigorously made by Christianity, and again +revived to-day in a more intelligent form. The claim of the race is the +claim of religion. We have to beware lest we subordinate that claim to our +moralities. Moralities are, indeed, an inevitable part of our social order +from which we cannot escape; every community must have its <i>mores</i>. But we +are not entitled to make a fetich of our morality, sacrificing to it the +highest interests entrusted to us. The nations which have done so have +already signed their own death-warrant.<a name='6_FNanchor_425'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_425'><sup>[425]</sup></a> From this point of view, the +whole of Christianity, rightly considered, with its profound conviction of +the necessity for forethought and preparation for the life hereafter, has +been a preparation for eugenics, a schoolmaster to discipline within us a +higher ideal than itself taught, and we cannot therefore be surprised at +the solidity of the basis on which eugenical conceptions of life are +developing.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The most distinguished pioneers of the new movement of devotion + to the creation of the race seem independently to have realized + its religious character. This attitude is equally marked in Ellen + Key and Francis Galton. In her <i>Century of the Child</i> (English + translation, 1909), Ellen Key entirely identifies herself with + the eugenic movement. "It is only a question of time," she + elsewhere writes (<i>Ueber Liebe und Ehe</i>, p. 445), "when the + attitude of society towards a sexual union will depend not on the + form of the union, but on the value of the children created. Men + and women will then devote the same religious earnestness to the + psychic and physical perfectioning of this sexual task as + Christians have devoted to the salvation of their souls."</p> + +<p> Sir Francis Galton, writing a few years later, but without doubt + independently, in 1905, on "Restrictions in Marriage," and + "Eugenics as a Factor in Religion" (<i>Sociological Papers</i> of the + Sociological Society, vol. ii, pp. 13, 53), remarks: "Religious + precepts, founded on the ethics and practice of older days, + require to be reinterpreted, to make them conform to the needs of + progressive nations. Ours are already so far behind modern + requirements that much of our practice and our profession cannot + be reconciled without illegitimate casuistry. It seems <a name='6_Page_581'></a>to me + that few things are more needed by us in England than a revision + of our religion, to adapt it to the intelligence and needs of + this present time.... Evolution is a grand phantasmagoria, but it + assumes an infinitely more interesting aspect under the knowledge + that the intelligent action of the human will is, in some small + measure, capable of guiding its course. Man has the power of + doing this largely, so far as the evolution of humanity is + concerned; he has already affected the quality and distribution + of organic life so widely that the changes on the surface of the + earth, merely through his disforestings and agriculture, would be + recognizable from a distance as great as that of the moon. + Eugenics is a virile creed, full of hopefulness, and appealing to + many of the noblest feelings of our nature."</p> + +<p> As will always happen in every great movement, a few fanatics + have carried into absurdity the belief in the supreme religious + importance of procreation. Love, apart from procreation, writes + one of these fanatics, Vacher de Lapouge, in the spirit of some + of the early Christian Fathers (see <i>ante</i> p. 509), is an + aberration comparable to sadism and sodomy. Procreation is the + only thing that matters, and it must become "a legally prescribed + social duty" only to be exercised by carefully selected persons, + and forbidden to others, who must, by necessity, be deprived of + the power of procreation, while abortion and infanticide must, + under some circumstances, become compulsory. Romantic love will + disappear by a process of selection, as also will all religion + except a new form of phallic worship (G. Vacher de Lapouge, "Die + Crisis der Sexuellen Moral," <i>Politisch Anthropologische Revue</i>, + No. 8, 1908). It is sufficient to point out that love is, and + always must be, the natural portal to generation. Such excesses + of procreative fanaticism cannot fail to occur, and they render + the more necessary the emphasis which has here been placed on the + art of love.</p></div> + +<p>"What has posterity done for me that I should do anything for posterity?" +a cynic is said to have asked. The answer is very simple. The human race +has done everything for him. All that he is, and can be, is its creation; +all that he can do is the result of its laboriously accumulated +traditions. It is only by working towards the creation of a still better +posterity, that he can repay the good gifts which the human race has +brought him.<a name='6_FNanchor_426'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_426'><sup>[426]</sup></a> Just as, within the limits of this present life, many +who have received benefits and kindnesses they can never repay to the +<a name='6_Page_582'></a>actual givers, find a pleasure in vicariously repaying the like to +others, so the heritage we have received from our ascendents we can never +repay, save by handing it on in a better form to our descendants.</p> + +<p>It is undoubtedly true that the growth of eugenical ideals has not been, +for the most part, due to religious feeling. It has been chiefly the +outcome of a very gradual, but very comprehensive, movement towards social +amelioration, which has been going on for more than a century, and which +has involved a progressive effort towards the betterment of all the +conditions of life. The ideals of this movement were proclaimed in the +eighteenth century, they began to find expression early in the nineteenth +century, in the initiation of the modern system of sanitation, in the +growth of factory legislation, in all the movements which have been borne +onwards by socialism hand in hand with individualism. The inevitable +tendency has been slowly towards the root of the matter; it began to be +seen that comparatively little can be effected by improving the conditions +of life of adults; attention began to be concentrated on the child, on the +infant, on the embryo in its mother's womb, and this resulted in the +fruitful movement of puericulture inspired by Pinard, and finally the +problem is brought to its source at the point of procreation, and the +regulation of sexual selection between stocks and between individuals as +the prime condition of life. Here we have the science of eugenics which +Sir Francis Galton has done so much to make a definite, vital, and +practical study, and which in its wider bearings he defines as "the +science which deals with those social eugenics that influence, mentally or +physically, the racial qualities of future generations." In its largest +aspect, eugenics is, as Galton has elsewhere said, man's attempt "to +replace Natural Selection by other processes that are more merciful and +not less effective."</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In the last chapter of his <i>Memories of My Life</i> (1908), on "Race + Improvement," Sir Francis Galton sets forth the origin and + development of his conception of the science of eugenics. The + term, "eugenics," he first used in 1884, in his <i>Human Faculty</i>, + but the conception dates from 1865, and even earlier. Galton has + more recently discussed the <a name='6_Page_583'></a>problems of eugenics in papers read + before the Sociological Society (<i>Sociological Papers</i>, vols. i + and ii, 1905), in the Herbert Spencer Lecture on "Probability the + Foundation of Eugenics," (1907), and elsewhere. Galton's numerous + memoirs on this subject have now been published in a collected + form by the Eugenics Education Society, which was established in + 1907, to further and to popularize the eugenical attitude towards + social questions; <i>The Eugenics Review</i> is published by this + Society. On the more strictly scientific side, eugenic studies + are carried on in the Eugenics Laboratory of the University of + London, established by Sir Francis Galton, and now working in + connection with Professor Karl Pearson's biometric laboratory, in + University College. Much of Professor Pearson's statistical work + in this and allied directions, is the elaboration of ideas and + suggestions thrown out by Galton. See, <i>e.g.</i>, Karl Pearson's + Robert Boyle Lecture, "The Scope and Importance to the State of + the Science of National Eugenics" (1907). <i>Biometrika</i>, edited by + Karl Pearson in association with other workers, contains numerous + statistical memoirs on eugenics. In Germany, the <i>Archiv für + Rassen und Gesellschafts-biologie</i>, and the + <i>Politisch-Anthropologische Revue</i>, are largely occupied with + various aspects of such subjects, and in America, <i>The Popular + Science Monthly</i> from time to time, publishes articles which have + a bearing on eugenics.</p></div> + +<p>At one time there was a tendency to scoff, or to laugh, at the eugenic +movement. It was regarded as an attempt to breed men as men breed animals, +and it was thought a sufficiently easy task to sweep away this new +movement with the remark that love laughs at bolts and bars. It is now +beginning to be better understood. None but fanatics dream of abolishing +love in order to effect pairing by rule. It is merely a question of +limiting the possible number of mates from whom each may select a partner, +and that, we must remember, has always been done even by savages, for, as +it has been said, "eugenics is the oldest of the sciences." The question +has merely been transformed. Instead of being limited mechanically by +caste, we begin to see that the choice of sexual mates must be limited +intelligently by actual fitness. Promiscuous marriages have never been the +rule; the possibility of choice has always been narrow, and the most +primitive peoples have exerted the most marked self-restraint. It is not +so merely among remote races but among our own European ancestors. +Throughout the whole period of Catholic supremacy <a name='6_Page_584'></a>the Canon law +multiplied the impediments to matrimony, as by ordaining that +consanguinity to the fourth degree (third cousins), as well as spiritual +relationship, is an impediment, and by such arbitrary prohibitions limited +the range of possible mates at least as much as it would be limited by the +more reasonable dictates of eugenic considerations.</p> + +<p>At the present day it may be said that the principle of the voluntary +control of procreation, not for the selfish ends of the individual, but in +order to extinguish disease, to limit human misery, and to raise the +general level of humanity by substituting the ideal of quality for the +vulgar ideal of mere quantity, is now generally accepted, alike by medical +pathologists, embryologists and neurologists, and by sociologists and +moralists.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It would be easy to multiply quotations from distinguished + authorities on this point. Thus, Metchnikoff points out (<i>Essais + Optimistes</i>, p. 419) that orthobiosis seems to involve the + limitation of offspring in the fight against disease. Ballantyne + concludes his great treatise on <i>Antenanal Pathology</i> with the + statement that "Eugenics" or well-begetting, is one of the + world's most pressing problems. Dr. Louise Robinovitch, the + editor of the <i>Journal of Mental Pathology</i>, in a brilliant and + thoughtful paper, read before the Rome Congress of Psychology in + 1905, well spoke in the same sense: "Nations have not yet + elevated the energy of genesic function to the dignity of an + energy. Other energies known to us, even of the meanest grade, + have long since been wisely utilized, and their activities based + on the principle of the strictest possible economy. This economic + utilization has been brought about, not through any enforcement + of legislative restrictions, but through steadily progressive + human intelligence. Economic handling of genesic function will, + like the economic function of other energies, come about through + a steady and progressive intellectual development of nations." + "There are circumstances," says C. H. Hughes, ("Restricted + Procreation," <i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, May, 1908), "under + which the propagation of a human life may be as gravely criminal + as the taking of a life already begun."</p> + +<p> From the general biological, as well as from the sociological + side, the acceptance of the same standpoint is constantly + becoming more general, for it is recognized as the inevitable + outcome of movements which have long been in progress.</p> + +<p> "Already," wrote Haycraft (<i>Darwinism and Race Progress</i>, p. + 160), referring to the law for the prevention of cruelty to + children, "public <a name='6_Page_585'></a>opinion has expressed itself in the public + rule that a man and woman, in begetting a child, must take upon + themselves the obligation and responsibility of seeing that that + child is not subjected to cruelty and hardship. It is but one + step more to say that a man and a woman shall be under obligation + not to produce children, when it is certain that, from their want + of physique, they will have to undergo suffering, and will keep + up but an unequal struggle with their fellows." Professor J. + Arthur Thomson, in his volume on <i>Heredity</i> (1908), vigorously + and temperately pleads (p. 528) for rational methods of eugenics, + as specially demanded in an age like our own, when the unfit have + been given a better chance of reproduction than they have ever + been given in any other age. Bateson, again, referring to the + growing knowledge of heredity, remarks (<i>Mendel's Principles of + Heredity</i>, 1909, p. 305): "Genetic knowledge must certainly lead + to new conceptions of justice, and it is by no means impossible + that, in the light of such knowledge, public opinion will welcome + measures likely to do more for the extinction of the criminal and + the degenerate than has been accomplished by ages of penal + enactment." Adolescent youths and girls, said Anton von Menger, + in his last book, the pregnant <i>Neue Sittenlehre</i> (1905), must be + taught that the production of children, under certain + circumstances, is a crime; they must also be taught the voluntary + restraint of conception, even in health; such teaching, Menger + rightly added, is a necessary preliminary to any legislation in + this direction.</p> + +<p> Of recent years, many books and articles have been devoted to the + advocacy of eugenic methods. Mention may be made, for instance, + of <i>Population and Progress</i> (1907), by Montague Crackanthorpe, + President of the Eugenics Education Society. See also, Havelock + Ellis, "Eugenics and St. Valentine," <i>Nineteenth Century and + After</i>, May, 1906. It may be mentioned that nearly thirty years + ago, Miss J. H. Clapperton, in her <i>Scientific Meliorism</i> (1885, + Ch. XVII), pointed out that the voluntary restraint of + procreation by Neo-Malthusian methods, apart from merely + prudential motives, there clearly recognized, is "a new key to + the social position," and a necessary condition for "national + regeneration." Professor Karl Pearson's <i>Groundwork of Eugenics</i>, + (1909) is, perhaps, the best brief introduction to the subject. + Mention may also be made of Dr. Saleeby's <i>Parenthood and Race + Culture</i> (1909), written in a popular and enthusiastic manner.</p> + +<p> How widely the general principles of eugenics are now accepted as + the sound method of raising the level of the human race, was well + shown at a meeting of the Sociological Society, in 1905, when, + after Sir Francis Galton had read papers on the question, the + meeting heard the opinions of numerous sociologists, economists, + biologists, and well-known thinkers in various lands, who were + present, or who had sent communications. Some twenty-one + expressed more or less unqualified <a name='6_Page_586'></a>approval, and only three or + four had objections to offer, mostly on matters of detail + (<i>Sociological Papers</i>, published by the Sociological Society, + vol. ii, 1905).</p></div> + +<p>If we ask by what channels this impulse towards the control of procreation +for the elevation of the race is expressing itself in practical life, we +shall scarcely fail to find that there are at least two such channels: (1) +the growing sense of sexual responsibility among women as well as men, and +(2) the conquest of procreative control which has been achieved in recent +years, by the general adoption of methods for the prevention of +conception.</p> + +<p>It has already been necessary in a previous chapter to discuss the +far-reaching significance of woman's personal responsibility as an element +in the modification of the sexual life of modern communities. Here it need +only be pointed out that the autonomous authority of a woman over her own +person, in the sexual sphere, involves on her part a consent to the act of +procreation which must be deliberate. We are apt to think that this is a +new and almost revolutionary demand; it is, however, undoubtedly a +natural, ancient, and recognized privilege of women that they should not +be mothers without their own consent. Even in the Islamic world of the +<i>Arabian Nights</i>, we find that high praise is accorded to the "virtue and +courage" of the woman who, having been ravished in her sleep, exposed, and +abandoned on the highway, the infant that was the fruit of this +involuntary union, "not wishing," she said, "to take the responsibility +before Allah of a child that had been born without my consent."<a name='6_FNanchor_427'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_427'><sup>[427]</sup></a> The +approval with which this story is narrated clearly shows that to the +public of Islam it seemed entirely just and humane that a woman should not +have a child, except by her own deliberate will. We have been accustomed +to say in later days that the State needs children, and that it is the +business and the duty of women to supply them. But the State has no more +right than the individual to ravish a woman against her will. We are +beginning to realize that if the State wants children it <a name='6_Page_587'></a>must make it +agreeable to women to produce them, as under natural and equitable +conditions it cannot fail to be. "The women will solve the question of +mankind," said Ibsen in one of his rare and pregnant private utterances, +"and they will do it as mothers." But it is unthinkable that any question +should ever be solved by a helpless, unwilling, and involuntary act which +has not even attained to the dignity of animal joy.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is sometimes supposed, and even assumed, that the demand of + women that motherhood must never be compulsory, means that they + are unwilling to be mothers on any terms. In a few cases that may + be so, but it is certainly not the case as regards the majority + of sane and healthy women in any country. On the contrary, this + demand is usually associated with the desire to glorify + motherhood, if not, indeed, even with the thought of extending + motherhood to many who are to-day shut out from it. "It seems to + me," wrote Lady Henry Somerset, some years ago ("The Welcome + Child," <i>Arena</i>, April, 1895), "that life will be dearer and + nobler the more we recognize that there is no indelicacy in the + climax and crown of creative power, but, rather, that it is the + highest glory of the race. But if voluntary motherhood is the + crown of the race, involuntary compulsory motherhood is the very + opposite.... Only when both man and woman have learned that the + most sacred of all functions given to women must be exercised by + the free will alone, can children be born into the world who have + in them the joyous desire to live, who claim that sweetest + privilege of childhood, the certainty that they can expand in the + sunshine of the love which is their due." Ellen Key, similarly, + while pointing out (<i>Ueber Liebe und Ehe</i>, pp. 14, 265) that the + tyranny of the old Protestant religious spirit which enjoined on + women unlimited submission to joyless motherhood within "the + whited sepulchre of marriage" is now being broken, exalts the + privileges of voluntary motherhood, while admitting that there + may be a few exceptional cases in which women may withdraw + themselves from motherhood for the sake of the other demands of + their personality, though, "as a general rule, the woman who + refuses motherhood in order to serve humanity, is like a soldier + who prepares himself on the eve of battle for the forthcoming + struggle by opening his veins." Helene Stöcker, likewise, reckons + motherhood as one of the demands, one of the growing demands + indeed, which women now make. "If, to-day," she says (in the + Preface to <i>Liebe und die Frauen</i>, 1906), "all the good things of + life are claimed even for women—intellectual training, pecuniary + independence, a happy vocation in life, a respected social + position—and at the same time, as equally matter-of-course, <a name='6_Page_588'></a>and + equally necessary, marriage and child, that demand no longer + sounds, as it sounded a few years ago, the voice of a preacher in + the wilderness."</p> + +<p> The degradation to which motherhood has, in the eyes of many, + fallen, is due partly to the tendency to deprive women of any + voice in the question, and partly to what H. G. Wells calls + (<i>Socialism and the Family</i>, 1906) "the monstrous absurdity of + women discharging their supreme social function, bearing and + rearing children, in their spare time, as it were, while they + 'earn their living' by contributing some half mechanical element + to some trivial industrial product." It would be impracticable, + and even undesirable, to insist that married women should not be + allowed to work, for a work in the world is good for all. It is + estimated that over thirty per cent. of the women workers in + England are married or widows (James Haslam, <i>Englishwoman</i>, + June, 1909), and in Lancashire factories alone, in 1901, there + were 120,000 married women employed. But it would be easily + possible for the State to arrange, in its own interests, that a + woman's work at a trade should always give way to her work as a + mother. It is the more undesirable that married women should be + prohibited from working at a profession, since there are some + professions for which a married woman, or, rather, a mother, is + better equipped than an unmarried woman. This is notably the case + as regards teaching, and it would be a good policy to allow + married women teachers special privileges in the shape of + increased free time and leave of absence. While in many fields of + knowledge an unmarried woman may be a most excellent teacher, it + is highly undesirable that children, and especially girls, should + be brought exclusively under the educational influence of + unmarried teachers.</p></div> + +<p>The second great channel through which the impulse towards the control of +procreation for the elevation of the race is entering into practical life +is by the general adoption, by the educated classes of all countries—and +it must be remembered that, in this matter at all events, all classes are +gradually beginning to become educated—of methods for the prevention of +conception except when conception is deliberately desired. It is no longer +permissible to discuss the validity of this control, for it is an +accomplished fact and has become a part of our modern morality. "If a +course of conduct is habitually and deliberately pursued by vast +multitudes of otherwise well-conducted people, forming probably a majority +of the whole educated class of the nation,"<a name='6_Page_589'></a> as Sidney Webb rightly puts +it, "we must assume that it does not conflict with their actual code of +morality."<a name='6_FNanchor_428'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_428'><sup>[428]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>There cannot be any doubt that, so far as England is concerned, + the prevention of conception is practiced, from prudential or + other motives, by the vast majority of the educated classes. This + fact is well within the knowledge of all who are intimately + acquainted with the facts of English family life. Thus, Dr. A. W. + Thomas writes (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, Oct. 20, 1906, p. + 1066): "From my experience as a general practitioner, I have no + hesitation in saying that ninety per cent. of young married + couples of the comfortably-off classes use preventives." As a + matter of fact, this rough estimate appears to be rather under + than over the mark. In the very able paper already quoted, in + which Sidney Webb shows that "the decline in the birthrate + appears to be much greater in those sections of the population + which give proofs of thrift and foresight," that this decline is + "principally, if not entirely, the result of deliberate + volition," and that "a volitional regulation of the marriage + state is now ubiquitous throughout England and Wales, among, + apparently, a large majority of the population," the results are + brought forward of a detailed inquiry carried out by the Fabian + Society. This inquiry covered 316 families, selected at random + from all parts of Great Britain, and belonging to all sections of + the middle class. The results are carefully analyzed, and it is + found that seventy-four families were unlimited, and two hundred + and forty-two voluntarily limited. When, however, the decade + 1890-99 is taken by itself as the typical period, it is found + that of 120 marriages, 107 were limited, and only thirteen + unlimited, while of these thirteen, five were childless at the + date of the return. In this decade, therefore, only seven + unlimited fertile marriages are reported, out of a total of 120.</p> + +<p> What is true of Great Britain is true of all other civilized + countries, in the highest degree true of the most civilized + countries, and it finds expression in the well-known phenomenon + of the decline of the birthrate. In modern times, this movement + of decline began in France, producing a slow but steady + diminution in the annual number of births, and in France the + movement seems now to be almost, or quite, arrested. But it has + since taken place in all other progressive countries, notably in + the United States, in Canada, in Australia, and in New Zealand, + as well as in Germany, Austro-Hungary, Italy, Spain, Switzerland, + Belgium, Holland, Denmark, Sweden, and Norway. In England, it has + been continuous since 1877. Of the great countries,<a name='6_Page_590'></a> Russia is + the only one in which it has not yet taken place, and among the + masses of the Russian population we find less education, more + poverty, a higher deathrate, and a greater amount of disease, + than in any other great, or even small, civilized country.</p> + +<p> It is sometimes said, indeed, that the decline of the birthrate + is not entirely due to the voluntary control of procreation. It + is undoubtedly true that certain other elements, common under + civilized conditions, such as the postponement of marriage in + women to a comparatively late age, tend to diminish the size of + the family. But when all such allowances have been made, the + decline is still found to be real and large. This has been shown, + for instance, by the statistical analyses made by Arthur + Newsholme and T. H. C. Stevenson, and by G. Yule, both published in + <i>Journal Royal Statistical Society</i>, April, 1906.</p> + +<p> Some have supposed that, since the Catholic Church forbids + incomplete sexual intercourse, this movement for the control of + procreation will involve a relatively much greater increase among + Catholic than among non-Catholic populations. This, however, is + only correct under certain conditions. It is quite true that in + Ireland there has been no fall in the birthrate, and that the + fall is but little marked in those Lancashire towns which possess + a large Irish element. But in Belgium, Italy, Spain, and other + mainly Catholic countries, the decline in the birthrate is duly + taking place. What has happened is that the Church—always alive + to sexual questions—has realized the importance of the modern + movement, and has adapted herself to it, by proclaiming to her + more ignorant and uneducated children that incomplete intercourse + is a deadly sin, while at the same time refraining from making + inquiries into this matter among her more educated members. The + question was definitely brought up for Papal judgment, in 1842, + by Bishop Bouvier of Le Mans, who stated the matter very clearly, + representing to the Pope (Gregory XVI) that the prevention of + conception was becoming very common, and that to treat it as a + deadly sin merely resulted in driving the penitent away from + confession. After mature consideration, the Curia Sacra + Poenitentiaria replied by pointing out, as regards the common + method of withdrawal before emission, that since it was due to + the wrong act of the man, the woman who has been forced by her + husband to consent to it, has committed no sin. Further, the + Bishop was reminded of the wise dictum of Liguori, "the most + learned and experienced man in these matters," that the confessor + is not usually called upon to make inquiry upon so delicate a + matter as the <i>debitum conjugale</i>, and, if his opinion is not + asked, he should be silent (Bouvier, <i>Dissertatio in sextum + Decalogi præceptum; supplementum ad Tractatum de Matrimonio</i>. + 1849, pp. 179-182; quoted by Hans Ferdy, <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Aug., + 1908, p. 498). We see, therefore, that, among Catholic as well as + among non-Catholic populations, the adoption of preventive + <a name='6_Page_591'></a>methods of conception follows progress and civilization, and + that the general practice of such methods by Catholics (with the + tacit consent of the Church) is merely a matter of time.</p></div> + +<p>From time to time many energetic persons have noisily demanded that a stop +should be put to the decline of the birthrate, for, they argue, it means +"race suicide." It is now beginning to be realized, however, that this +outcry was a foolish and mischievous mistake. It is impossible to walk +through the streets of any great city, full of vast numbers of persons +who, obviously, ought never to have been born, without recognizing that +the birthrate is as yet very far above its normal and healthy limit. The +greatest States have often been the smallest so far as mere number of +citizens is concerned, for it is quality not quantity that counts. And +while it is true that the increase of the best types of citizens can only +enrich a State, it is now becoming intolerable that a nation should +increase by the mere dumping down of procreative refuse in its midst. It +is beginning to be realized that this process not only depreciates the +quality of a people but imposes on a State an inordinate financial burden.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It is now well recognized that large families are associated with + degeneracy, and, in the widest sense, with abnormality of every + kind. Thus, it is undoubtedly true that men of genius tend to + belong to very large families, though it may be pointed out to + those who fear an alarming decrease of genius from the tendency + to the limitation of the family, that the position in the family + most often occupied by the child of genius is the firstborn. (See + Havelock Ellis, <i>A Study of British Genius</i>, pp. 115-120). The + insane, the idiotic, imbecile, and weak-minded, the criminal, the + epileptic, the hysterical, the neurasthenic, the tubercular, all, + it would appear, tend to belong to large families (see <i>e.g.</i>, + Havelock Ellis, <i>op. cit.</i>, p. 110; Toulouse, <i>Les Causes de la + Folie</i>, p. 91; Harriet Alexander, "Malthusianism and Degeneracy," + <i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, Jan., 1901). It has, indeed, been + shown by Heron, Pearson, and Goring, that not only the + eldest-born, but also the second-born, are specially liable to + suffer from pathological defect (insanity, criminality, + tuberculosis). There is, however, it would seem, a fallacy in the + common interpretation of this fact. According to Van den Velden + (as quoted in <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, May, 1909, p. 381), this + tendency is fully counterbalanced by the rising mortality of + children from the firstborn onward. The greater pathological + tendency <a name='6_Page_592'></a>of the earlier children is thus simply the result of a + less stringent selection by death. So far as they show any really + greater pathological tendency, apart from this fallacy, it is + perhaps due to premature marriage. There is another fallacy in + the frequent statement that the children in small families are + more feeble than those in large families. We have to distinguish + between a naturally small family, and an artificially small + family. A family which is small merely as the result of the + feeble procreative energy of the parents, is likely to be a + feeble family; a family which is small as the result of the + deliberate control of the parents, shows, of course, no such + tendency.</p> + +<p> These considerations, it will be seen, do not modify the tendency + of the large family to be degenerate. We may connect this + phenomenon with the disposition, often shown by nervously unsound + and abnormal persons, to believe that they have a special + aptitude to procreate fine children. "I believe that everyone has + a special vocation," said a man to Marro (<i>La Pubertà</i>, p. 459); + "I find that it is my vocation to beget superior children." He + begat four,—an epileptic, a lunatic, a dipsomaniac, and a + valetudinarian,—and himself died insane. Most people have come + across somewhat similar, though perhaps less marked, cases of + this delusion. In a matter of such fateful gravity to other human + beings, no one can safely rely on his own unsupported + impressions.</p></div> + +<p>The demand of national efficiency thus corresponds with the demand of +developing humanitarianism, which, having begun by attempting to +ameliorate the conditions of life, has gradually begun to realize that it +is necessary to go deeper and to ameliorate life itself. For while it is +undoubtedly true that much may be done by acting systematically on the +conditions of life, the more searching analysis of evil environmental +conditions only serves to show that in large parts they are based in the +human organism itself and were not only pre-natal, but pre-conceptional, +being involved in the quality of the parental or ancestral organisms.</p> + +<p>Putting aside, however, all humanitarian considerations, the serious error +of attempting to stem the progress of civilization in the direction of +procreative control could never have occurred if the general tendencies of +zoölogical evolution had been understood, even in their elements. All +zoölogical progress is from the more prolific to the less prolific; the +higher the species the less fruitful are its individual members. The same +tendency is found within the limits of the human species, though not in an +<a name='6_Page_593'></a>invariable straight line; the growth of civilization involves a +diminution in fertility. This is by no means a new phenomenon; ancient +Rome and later Geneva, "the Protestant Rome," bear witness to it; no doubt +it has occurred in every high centre of moral and intellectual culture, +although the data for measuring the tendency no longer exist. When we take +a sufficiently wide and intelligent survey, we realize that the tendency +of a community to slacken its natural rate of increase is an essential +phenomenon of all advanced civilization. The more intelligent nations have +manifested the tendency first, and in each nation the more educated +classes have taken the lead, but it is only a matter of time to bring all +civilized nations, and all social classes in each nation, into line.<a name='6_FNanchor_429'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_429'><sup>[429]</sup></a> +This movement, we have to remember—in opposition to the ignorant outcry +of certain would-be moralists and politicians—is a beneficent movement. +It means a greater regard to the quality than to the quantity of the +increase; it involves the possibility of combating successfully the evils +of high mortality, disease, overcrowding, and all the manifold misfortunes +which inevitably accompany a too exuberant birthrate. For it is only in a +community which increases slowly that it is possible to secure the +adequate economic adjustment and environmental modifications necessary for +a sane and wholesome civic and personal life.<a name='6_FNanchor_430'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_430'><sup>[430]</sup></a> If those persons who +raise the cry of "race suicide" in face of the decline of the birthrate +really had the knowledge and intelligence to realize the manifold evils +which they are invoking they would deserve to be treated as criminals.</p> +<a name='6_Page_594'></a> +<p>On the practical side a knowledge of the possibility of preventing +conception has, doubtless, never been quite extinct in civilization and +even in lower stages of culture, though it has mostly been utilized for +ends of personal convenience or practiced in obedience to conventional +social rules which demanded chastity, and has only of recent times been +made subservient to the larger interests of society and the elevation of +the race. The theoretical basis of the control of procreation, on its +social and economic, as distinct from its eugenic, aspects, may be said to +date from Malthus's famous <i>Essay on Population</i>, first published in 1798, +an epoch-marking book,—though its central thesis is not susceptible of +actual demonstration,—since it not only served as the starting-point of +the modern humanitarian movement for the control of procreation, but also +furnished to Darwin (and independently to Wallace also) the fruitful idea +which was finally developed into the great evolutionary theory of natural +selection.</p> + +<p>Malthus, however, was very far from suggesting that the control of +procreation, which he advocated for the benefit of mankind, should be +exercised by the introduction of preventive methods into sexual +intercourse. He believed that civilization involved an increased power of +self-control, which would make it possible to refrain altogether from +sexual intercourse, when such self-restraint was demanded in the interests +of humanity. Later thinkers realized, however, that, while it is +undoubtedly true that civilization involves greater forethought and +greater self-control, we cannot anticipate that those qualities should be +developed to the extent demanded by Malthus, especially when the impulse +to be controlled is of so powerful and explosive a nature.</p> + +<p>James Mill was the pioneer in advocating Neo-Malthusian methods, though he +spoke cautiously. In 1818, in the article "Colony" in the supplement to +the <i>Encyclopædia Britannica</i>, after remarking that the means of checking +the unrestricted increase of the population constitutes "the most +important practical problem to which the wisdom of the politician and +moralist can be applied," he continued: "If the superstitions of the +nursery were discarded, and the principle of utility kept steadily <a name='6_Page_595'></a>in +view, a solution might not be very difficult to be found." Four years +later, James Mill's friend, the Radical reformer, Francis Place, more +distinctly expressed the thought that was evidently in Mill's mind. After +enumerating the facts concerning the necessity of self-control in +procreation and the evils of early marriage, which he thinks ought to be +clearly taught, Place continues: "If a hundredth, perhaps a thousandth +part of the pains were taken to teach these truths, that are taken to +teach dogmas, a great change for the better might, in no considerable +space of time, be expected to take place in the appearance and the habits +of the people. If, above all, it were once clearly understood that it was +not disreputable for married persons to avail themselves of such +precautionary means as would, without being injurious to health, or +destructive of female delicacy, prevent conception, a sufficient check +might at once be given to the increase of population beyond the means of +subsistence; vice and misery, to a prodigious extent, might be removed +from society, and the object of Mr. Malthus, Mr. Godwin, and of every +philanthropic person, be promoted, by the increase of comfort, of +intelligence, and of moral conduct, in the mass of the population. The +course recommended will, I am fully persuaded, at some period be pursued +by the people even if left to themselves."<a name='6_FNanchor_431'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_431'><sup>[431]</sup></a></p> + +<p>It was not long before Place's prophetic words began to be realized, and +in another half century the movement was affecting the birthrate of all +civilized lands, though it can scarcely yet be said that justice has been +done to the pioneers who promoted it in the face of much persecution from +the ignorant and superstitious public whom they sought to benefit. In +1831, Robert Dale Owen, the son of Robert Owen, published his <i>Moral +Physiology</i>, setting forth the methods of preventing conception. A little +later the brothers George and Charles Drysdale (born 1825 and 1829), two +ardent and unwearying philanthropists, devoted much of their energy to the +propagation of Neo-Malthusian principles. George Drysdale, in 1854, +published his<a name='6_Page_596'></a> <i>Elements of Social Science</i>, which during many years had +an enormous circulation all over Europe in eight different languages. It +was by no means in every respect a scientific or sound work, but it +certainly had great influence, and it came into the hands of many who +never saw any other work on sexual topics. Although the Neo-Malthusian +propagandists of those days often met with much obloquy, their cause was +triumphantly vindicated in 1876, when Charles Bradlaugh and Mrs. Besant, +having been prosecuted for disseminating Neo-Malthusian pamphlets, the +charge was dismissed, the Lord Chief Justice declaring that so ill-advised +and injudicious a charge had probably never before been made in a court of +justice. This trial, even by its mere publicity and apart from its issue, +gave an enormous impetus to the Neo-Malthusian movement. It is well known +that the steady decline in the English birthrate begun in 1877, the year +following the trial. There could be no more brilliant illustration of the +fact, that what used to be called "the instruments of Providence" are +indeed unconscious instruments in bringing about great ends which they +themselves were far from either intending or desiring.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>In 1877, Dr. C. R. Drysdale founded the Malthusian League, and + edited a periodical, <i>The Malthusian</i>, aided throughout by his + wife, Dr. Alice Drysdale Vickery. He died in 1907. (The noble and + pioneering work of the Drysdales has not yet been adequately + recognized in their own country; an appreciative and + well-informed article by Dr. Hermann Rohleder, "Dr. C. R. + Drysdale, Der Hauptvortreter der Neumalthusianische Lehre," + appeared in the <i>Zeitschrift für Sexualwissenschaft</i>, March, + 1908). There are now societies and periodicals in all civilized + countries for the propagation of Neo-Malthusian principles, as + they are still commonly called, though it would be desirable to + avoid the use of Malthus's name in this connection. In the + medical profession, the advocacy of preventive methods of sexual + intercourse, not on social, but on medical and hygienic grounds, + began same thirty years ago, though in France, at an earlier + date, Raciborski advocated the method of avoiding the + neighborhood of menstruation. In Germany, Dr. Mensinga, the + gynæcologist, is the most prominent advocate, on medical and + hygienic grounds, of what he terms "facultative sterility," which + he first put forward about 1889. In Russia, about the same time, + artificial sterility was first openly advocated by the + distinguished gynæcologist, Professor<a name='6_Page_597'></a> Ott, at the St. Petersburg + Obstetric and Gynæcological Society. Such medical + recommendations, in particular cases, are now becoming common.</p> + +<p> There are certain cases in which a person ought not to marry at + all; this is so, for instance, when there has been an attack of + insanity; it can never be said with certainty that a person who + has had one attack of insanity will not have another, and persons + who have had such attacks ought not, as Blandford says (Lumleian + Lectures on Insanity, <i>British Medical Journal</i>, April 20, 1895), + "to inflict on their partner for life, the anxiety, and even + danger, of another attack." There are other and numerous cases in + which marriage may be permitted, or may have already taken place, + under more favorable circumstances, but where it is, or has + become, highly desirable that there should be no children. This + is the case when a first attack of insanity occurs after + marriage, the more urgently if the affected party is the wife, + and especially if the disease takes the form of puerperal mania. + "What can be more lamentable," asks Blandford (<i>loc. cit.</i>), "than + to see a woman break down in childbed, recover, break down again + with the next child, and so on, for six, seven, or eight + children, the recovery between each being less and less, until + she is almost a chronic maniac?" It has been found, moreover, by + Tredgold (<i>Lancet</i>, May 17, 1902), that among children born to + insane mothers, the mortality is twice as great as the ordinary + infantile mortality, in even the poorest districts. In cases of + unions between persons with tuberculous antecedents, also, it is + held by many (<i>e.g.</i>, by Massalongo, in discussing tuberculosis + and marriage at the Tuberculosis Congress, at Naples, in 1900) + that every precaution should be taken to make the marriage + childless. In a third class of cases, it is necessary to limit + the children to one or two; this happens in some forms of heart + disease, in which pregnancy has a progressively deteriorating + effect on the heart (Kisch, <i>Therapeutische Monatsheft</i>, Feb., + 1898, and <i>Sexual Life of Woman</i>; Vinay, <i>Lyon Medical</i>, Jan. 8, + 1889); in some cases of heart disease, however, it is possible + that, though there is no reason for prohibiting marriage, it is + desirable for a woman not to have any children (J. F. Blacker, + "Heart Disease in Relation to Pregnancy," <i>British Medical + Journal</i>, May 25, 1907).</p> + +<p> In all such cases, the recommendation of preventive methods of + intercourse is obviously an indispensable aid to the physician in + emphasizing the supremacy of hygienic precautions. In the absence + of such methods, he can never be sure that his warnings will be + heard, and even the observance of his advice would be attended + with various undesirable results. It sometimes happens that a + married couple agree, even before marriage, to live together + without sexual relations, but, for various reasons, it is seldom + found possible or convenient to maintain this resolution for a + long period.</p></div><a name='6_Page_598'></a> + +<p>It is the recognition of these and similar considerations which has +led—though only within recent years—on the one hand, as we have seen, to +the embodiment of the control of procreation into the practical morality +of all civilized nations, and, on the other hand, to the assertion, now +perhaps without exception, by all medical authorities on matters of sex +that the use of the methods of preventing conception is under certain +circumstances urgently necessary and quite harmless.<a name='6_FNanchor_432'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_432'><sup>[432]</sup></a> It arouses a +smile to-day when we find that less than a century ago it was possible for +an able and esteemed medical author to declare that the use of "various +abominable means" to prevent conception is "based upon a most presumptuous +doubt in the conservative power of the Creator."<a name='6_FNanchor_433'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_433'><sup>[433]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The adaptation of theory to practice is not yet complete, and we could not +expect that it should be so, for, as we have seen, there is always an +antagonism between practical morality and traditional morality. From time +to time flagrant illustrations of this antagonism occur.<a name='6_FNanchor_434'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_434'><sup>[434]</sup></a> Even in +England, which played a pioneering part in the control of procreation, +attempts are still made—sometimes in quarters where we have a right to +expect a <a name='6_Page_599'></a>better knowledge—to cast discredit on a movement which, since +it has conquered alike scientific approval and popular practice, it is now +idle to call in question.</p> + +<p>It would be out of place to discuss here the various methods which are +used for the control of procreation, or their respective merits and +defects. It is sufficient to say that the condom or protective sheath, +which seems to be the most ancient of all methods of preventing +conception, after withdrawal, is now regarded by nearly all authorities +as, when properly used, the safest, the most convenient, and the most +harmless method.<a name='6_FNanchor_435'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_435'><sup>[435]</sup></a> This is the opinion of Krafft-Ebing, of Moll, of +Schrenck-Notzing, of Löwenfeld, of Forel, of Kisch, of Fürbringer, to +mention only a few of the most distinguished medical authorities.<a name='6_FNanchor_436'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_436'><sup>[436]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>There is some interest in attempting to trace the origin and + history of the condom, though it seems impossible to do so with + any precision. It is probable that, in a rudimentary form, such + an appliance is of great antiquity. In China and Japan, it would + appear, rounds of oiled silk paper are used to cover the mouth of + the womb, at all events, by prostitutes. This seems the simplest + and most obvious mechanical method of preventing conception, and + may have suggested the application of a sheath to the penis as a + more effectual method. In Europe, it is in the middle of the + sixteenth century, in Italy, that we first seem to hear of such + appliances, in the shape of linen sheaths, adapted to the shape + of the penis; Fallopius recommended the use of such an appliance. + Improvements in the manufacture were gradually devised; the cæcum + of the lamb was employed, and afterwards, isinglass. It appears + <a name='6_Page_600'></a>that a considerable improvement in the manufacture took place in + the seventeenth or eighteenth century, and this improvement was + generally associated with England. The appliance thus became + known as the English cape or mantle, the "capote anglaise," or + the "redingote anglaise," and, under the latter name, is referred + to by Casanova, in the middle of the eighteenth century + (Casanova, <i>Mémoires</i>, ed. Garnier, vol. iv, p. 464); Casanova + never seems, however, to have used these redingotes himself, not + caring, he said, "to shut myself up in a piece of dead skin in + order to prove that I am perfectly alive." These capotes—then + made of goldbeaters' skin—were, also, it appears, known at an + earlier period to Mme. de Sévigné, who did not regard them with + favor, for, in one of her letters, she refers to them as + "cuirasses contre la volupté et toiles d'arraignée contre le + mal." The name, "condom," dates from the eighteenth century, + first appearing in France, and is generally considered to be that + of an English physician, or surgeon, who invented, or, rather, + improved the appliance. Condom is not, however, an English name, + but there is an English name, Condon, of which "condom" may well + be a corruption. This supposition is strengthened by the fact + that the word sometimes actually was written "condon." Thus, in + lines quoted by Bachaumont, in his <i>Diary</i> (Dec. 15, 1773), and + supposed to be addressed to a former ballet dancer who had become + a prostitute, I find:—</p></div> + +<div class='poem'><div class='stanza'> +<span class='i5'>"Du <i>condon</i> cependant, vous connaissez l'usage,<br /></span> +</div></div> +<div class='poem'><div class='stanza'> +<span class='i5'>"Le <i>condon</i>, c'est la loi, ma fille, et les prophètes!"<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The difficulty remains, however, of discovering any Englishman of + the name of Condon, who can plausibly be associated with the + condom; doubtless he took no care to put the matter on record, + never suspecting the fame that would accrue to his invention, or + the immortality that awaited his name. I find no mention of any + Condon in the records of the College of Physicians, and at the + College of Surgeons, also, where, indeed, the old lists are very + imperfect, Mr. Victor Plarr, the librarian, after kindly making a + search, has assured me that there is no record of the name. Other + varying explanations of the name have been offered, with more or + less assurance, though usually without any proofs. Thus, Hyrtl + (<i>Handbuch der Topographischen Anatomic</i>, 7th ed., vol. ii, p. + 212) states that the condom was originally called gondom, from + the name of the English discoverer, a Cavalier of Charles II's + Court, who first prepared it from the amnion of the sheep; Gondom + is, however, no more an English name than Condom. There happens + to be a French town, in Gascony, called Condom, and Bloch + suggests, without any evidence, that this furnished the name; if + so, however, it is improbable that it would have been unknown in + France. Finally, Hans Ferdy <a name='6_Page_601'></a>considers that it is derived from + "condus"—that which preserves—and, in accordance with his + theory, he terms the condom a condus.</p> + +<p> The early history of the condom is briefly discussed by various + writers, as by Proksch, <i>Die Vorbauung der Venerischen + Krankheiten</i>, p. 48; Bloch, <i>Sexual Life of Our Time</i>, Chs. XV + and XXVIII; Cabanès, <i>Indiscretions de l'Histoire</i>, p. 121, etc.</p></div> + +<p>The control of procreation by the prevention of conception has, we have +seen, become a part of the morality of civilized peoples. There is another +method, not indeed for preventing conception, but for limiting offspring, +which is of much more ancient appearance in the world, though it has at +different times been very differently viewed and still arouses widely +opposing opinions. This is the method of abortion.</p> + +<p>While the practice of abortion has by no means, like the practice of +preventing conception, become accepted in civilization, it scarcely +appears to excite profound repulsion in a large proportion of the +population of civilized countries. The majority of women, not excluding +educated and highly moral women, who become pregnant against their wish +contemplate the possibility of procuring abortion without the slightest +twinge of conscience, and often are not even aware of the usual +professional attitude of the Church, the law, and medicine regarding +abortion. Probably all doctors have encountered this fact, and even so +distinguished and correct a medico-legist as Brouardel stated<a name='6_FNanchor_437'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_437'><sup>[437]</sup></a> that he +had been not infrequently solicited to procure abortion, for themselves or +their wet-nurses, by ladies who looked on it as a perfectly natural thing, +and had not the least suspicion that the law regarded the deed as a crime.</p> + +<p>It is not, therefore, surprising that abortion is exceedingly common in +all civilized and progressive countries. It cannot, indeed, unfortunately, +be said that abortion has been conducted in accordance with eugenic +considerations, nor has it often been so much as advocated from the +eugenic standpoint. But in numerous classes of cases of undesired +pregnancy, occurring in women of character and energy, not accustomed to +submit tamely to conditions they may not have sought, and in any case +<a name='6_Page_602'></a>consider undesirable, abortion is frequently resorted to. It is usual to +regard the United States as a land in which the practice especially +flourishes, and certainly a land in which the ideal of chastity for +unmarried women, of freedom for married women, of independence for all, is +actively followed cannot fail to be favorable to the practice of abortion. +But the way in which the prevalence of abortion is proclaimed in the +United States is probably in large part due to the honesty of the +Americans in setting forth, and endeavoring to correct, what, rightly or +wrongly, they regard as social defects, and may not indicate any real +pre-eminence in the practice. Comparative statistics are difficult, and it +is certainly true that abortion is extremely common in England, in France, +and in Germany. It is probable that any national differences may be +accounted for by differences in general social habits and ideals. Thus in +Germany, where considerable sexual freedom is permitted to unmarried women +and married women are very domesticated, abortion may be less frequent +than in France where purity is stringently demanded from the young girl, +while the married woman demands freedom for work and for pleasure. But +such national differences, if they exist, are tending to be levelled down, +and charges of criminal abortion are constantly becoming more common in +Germany; though this increase, again, may be merely due to greater zeal in +pursuing the offence.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Brouardel (<i>op. cit.</i>, p. 39) quotes the opinion that, in New + York, only one in every thousand abortions is discovered. Dr. + J. F. Scott (<i>The Sexual Instinct</i>, Ch. VIII), who is himself + strongly opposed to the practice, considers that in America, the + custom of procuring abortion has to-day reached "such vast + proportions as to be almost beyond belief," while "countless + thousands" of cases are never reported. "It has increased so + rapidly in our day and generation," Scott states, "that it has + created surprise and alarm in the minds of all conscientious + persons who are informed of the extent to which it is carried." + (The assumption that those who approve of abortion are + necessarily not "conscientious persons" is, as we shall see, + mistaken.) The change has taken place since 1840. The Michigan + Special Committee on Criminal Abortion reported in 1881 that, + from correspondence with nearly one hundred physicians, it + appeared that there came to the knowledge of <a name='6_Page_603'></a>the profession + seventeen abortions to every one hundred pregnancies; to these, + the committee believe, may be added as many more that never came + to the physician's knowledge. The committee further quoted, + though without endorsement, the opinion of a physician who + believed that a change is now coming over public feeling in + regard to the abortionist, who is beginning to be regarded in + America as a useful member of society, and even a benefactor.</p> + +<p> In England, also, there appears to have been a marked increase of + abortion during recent years, perhaps specially marked among the + poor and hard-working classes. A writer in the <i>British Medical + Journal</i> (April 9, 1904, p. 865) finds that abortion is + "wholesale and systematic," and gives four cases occurring in his + practice during four months, in which women either attempted to + produce abortion, or requested him to do so; they were married + women, usually with large families, and in delicate health, and + were willing to endure any suffering, if they might be saved from + further child-bearing. Abortion is frequently effected, or + attempted, by taking "Female Pills," which contain small portions + of lead, and are thus liable to produce very serious symptoms, + whether or not they induce abortion. Professor Arthur Hall, of + Sheffield, who has especially studied this use of lead ("The + Increasing Use of Lead as an Abortifacient," <i>British Medical + Journal</i>, March 18, 1905), finds that the practice has lately + become very common in the English Midlands, and is gradually, it + appears, widening its circle. It occurs chiefly among married + women with families, belonging to the working class, and it tends + to become specially prevalent during periods of trade depression + (<i>cf.</i> G. Newman, <i>Infant Mortality</i>, p. 81). Women of better + social class resort to professional abortionists, and sometimes + go over to Paris.</p> + +<p> In France, also, and especially in Paris, there has been a great + increase during recent years in the practice of abortion. (See + <i>e.g.</i>, a discussion at the Paris Société de Médecine Légale, + <i>Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle</i>, May, 1907.) Doléris has + shown (<i>Bulletin de la Société d'Obstétrique</i>, Feb., 1905) that + in the Paris Maternités the percentage of abortions in + pregnancies doubled between 1898 and 1904, and Doléris estimates + that about half of these abortions were artificially induced. In + France, abortion is mainly carried on by professional + abortionists. One of these, Mme. Thomas, who was condemned to + penal servitude, in 1891, acknowledged performing 10,000 + abortions during eight years; her charge for the operation was + two francs and upwards. She was a peasant's daughter, brought up + in the home of her uncle, a doctor, whose medical and obstetrical + books she had devoured (A. Hamon, <i>La France en 1891</i>, pp. + 629-631). French public opinion is lenient to abortion, + especially to women who perform the operation on themselves; not + many cases are brought into court, and of these, forty <a name='6_Page_604'></a>per cent. + are acquitted (Eugène Bausset, <i>L'Avortement Criminel</i>, Thèse de + Paris, 1907). The professional abortionist is, however, usually + sent to prison.</p> + +<p> In Germany, also, abortion appears to have greatly increased + during recent years, and the yearly number of cases of criminal + abortion brought into the courts was, in 1903, more than double + as many as in 1885. (See, also, Elisabeth Zanzinger, <i>Geschlecht + und Gesellschaft</i>, Bd. II, Heft 5; and <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Jan., + 1908, p. 23.)</p></div> + +<p>In view of these facts it is not surprising that the induction of abortion +has been permitted and even encouraged in many civilizations. Its +unqualified condemnation is only found in Christendom, and is due to +theoretical notions. In Turkey, under ordinary circumstances, there is no +punishment for abortion. In the classic civilization of Greece and Rome, +likewise, abortion was permitted though with certain qualifications and +conditions. Plato admitted the mother's right to decide on abortion but +said that the question should be settled as early as possible in +pregnancy. Aristotle, who approved of abortion, was of the same opinion. +Zeno and the Stoics regarded the fœtus as the fruit of the womb, +the soul being acquired at birth; this was in accordance with Roman law +which decreed that the fœtus only became a human being at +birth.<a name='6_FNanchor_438'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_438'><sup>[438]</sup></a> Among the Romans abortion became very common, but, in +accordance with the patriarchal basis of early Roman institutions, it was +the father, not the mother, who had the right to exercise it. Christianity +introduced a new circle of ideas based on the importance of the soul, on +its immortality, and the necessity of baptism as a method of salvation +from the results of inherited sin. We already see this new attitude in St. +Augustine who, discussing whether embryos that died in the womb will rise +at the resurrection, says "I make bold neither to affirm nor to deny, +although I fail to see why, if they are not excluded from the number of +the dead, they should not attain to the resurrection of the dead."<a name='6_FNanchor_439'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_439'><sup>[439]</sup></a> +The criminality of abortion was, however, speedily established, and the +early Christian<a name='6_Page_605'></a> Emperors, in agreement with the Church, edicted many +fantastic and extreme penalties against abortion. This tendency continued +under ecclesiastical influence, unrestrained, until the humanitarian +movement of the eighteenth century, when Beccaria, Voltaire, Rousseau and +other great reformers succeeded in turning the tide of public opinion +against the barbarity of the laws, and the penalty of death for abortion +was finally abolished.<a name='6_FNanchor_440'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_440'><sup>[440]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Medical science and practice at the present day—although it can scarcely +be said that it speaks with an absolutely unanimous voice—on the whole +occupies a position midway between that of the classic lawyers and that of +the later Christian ecclesiastics. It is, on the whole, in favor of +sacrificing the fœtus whenever the interests of the mother demand +such a sacrifice. General medical opinion is not, however, prepared at +present to go further, and is distinctly disinclined to aid the parents in +exerting an unqualified control over the fœtus in the womb, nor +is it yet disposed to practice abortion on eugenic grounds. It is obvious, +indeed, that medicine cannot in this matter take the initiative, for it is +the primary duty of medicine to save life. Society itself must assume the +responsibility of protecting the race.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Dr. S. Macvie ("Mother <i>versus</i> Child," <i>Transactions Edinburgh + Obstetrical Society</i>, vol. xxiv, 1899) elaborately discusses the + respective values of the fœtus and the adult on the + basis of life-expectancy, and concludes that the fœtus + is merely "a parasite performing no function whatever," and that + "unless the life-expectancy of the child covers the years in + which its potentiality is converted into actuality, the relative + values of the maternal and fœtal life will be that of + actual as against potential." This statement seems fairly sound. + Ballantyne (<i>Manual of Antenatal Pathology: The Fœtus</i>, + p. 459) endeavors to make the statement more precise by saying + that "the mother's life has a value, because she is what she is, + while the fœtus only has a possible value, on account of + what it may become."</p> + +<p> Durlacher, among others, has discussed, in careful and cautious + detail, the various conditions in which the physician should, or + should not, induce abortion in the interests of the mother ("Der + Künstliche<a name='6_Page_606'></a> Abort," <i>Wiener Klinik</i>, Aug. and Sept., 1906); so + also, Eugen Wilhelm ("Die Abtreibung und das Recht des Arztes zur + Vernichtung der Leibesfrucht," <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, May and June, + 1909). Wilhelm further discusses whether it is desirable to alter + the laws in order to give the physician greater freedom in + deciding on abortion. He concludes that this is not necessary, + and might even act injuriously, by unduly hampering medical + freedom. Any change in the law should merely be, he considers, in + the direction of asserting that the destruction of the fœtus + is not abortion in the legal sense, provided it is + indicated by the rules of medical science. With reference to the + timidity of some medical men in inducing abortion, Wilhelm + remarks that, even in the present state of the law, the physician + who conscientiously effects abortion, in accordance with his best + knowledge, even if mistakenly, may consider himself safe from all + legal penalties, and that he is much more likely to come in + conflict with the law if it can be proved that death followed as + a result of his neglect to induce abortion.</p> + +<p> Pinard, who has discussed the right to control the fœtal + life (<i>Annales de Gynécologie</i>, vols. lii and liii, 1899 and + 1900), inspired by his enthusiastic propaganda for the salvation + of infant life, is led to the unwarranted conclusion that no one + has the rights of life and death over the fœtus; "the + infant's right to his life is an imprescriptible and sacred + right, which no power can take from him." There is a mistake + here, unless Pinard deliberately desires to place himself, like + Tolstoy, in opposition to current civilized morality. So far from + the infant having any "imprescriptible right to life," even the + adult has, in human societies, no such inalienable right, and + very much less the fœtus, which is not strictly a human + being at all. We assume the right of terminating the lives of + those individuals whose anti-social conduct makes them dangerous, + and, in war, we deliberately terminate, amid general applause and + enthusiasm, the lives of men who have been specially selected for + this purpose on account of their physical and general efficiency. + It would be absurdly inconsistent to say that we have no rights + over the lives of creatures that have, as yet, no part in human + society at all, and are not so much as born. We are here in + presence of a vestige of ancient theological dogma, and there can + be little doubt that, on the theoretical side at all events, the + "imprescriptible right" of the embryo will go the same way as the + "imprescriptible right" of the spermatozöon. Both rights are + indeed "imprescriptible."</p></div> + +<p>Of recent years a new, and, it must be admitted, somewhat unexpected, +aspect of this question of abortion has been revealed. Hitherto it has +been a question entirely in the hands of men, first, following the Roman +traditions, in the hands of Christian <a name='6_Page_607'></a>ecclesiastics, and later, in those +of the professional castes. Yet the question is in reality very largely, +and indeed mainly, a woman's question, and now, more especially in +Germany, it has been actively taken up by women. The Gräfin Gisela +Streitberg occupies the pioneering place in this movement with her book +<i>Das Recht zur Beiseitigung Keimenden Lebens</i>, and was speedily followed, +from 1897 onwards, by a number of distinguished women who occupy a +prominent place in the German woman's movement, among others Helene +Stöcker, Oda Olberg, Elisabeth Zanzinger, Camilla Jellinek. All these +writers insist that the fœtus is not yet an independent human +being, and that every woman, by virtue of the right over her own body, is +entitled to decide whether it shall become an independent human being. At +the Woman's Congress held in the autumn of 1905, a resolution was passed +demanding that abortion should only be punishable when effected by another +person against the wish of the pregnant women herself.<a name='6_FNanchor_441'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_441'><sup>[441]</sup></a> The acceptance +of this resolution by a representative assembly is interesting proof of +the interest now taken by women in the question, and of the strenuous +attitude they are tending to assume.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>Elisabeth Zanzinger ("Verbrechen gegen die Leibesfrucht," + <i>Geschlecht und Gesellschaft</i>, Bd. II, Heft 5, 1907) ably and + energetically condemns the law which makes abortion a crime. "A + woman herself is the only legitimate possessor of her own body + and her own health.... Just as it is a woman's private right, and + most intimate concern, to present her virginity as her best gift + to the chosen of her heart, so it is certainly a pregnant woman's + own private concern if, for reasons which seem good to her, she + decides to destroy the results of her action." A woman who + destroys the embryo which might become a burden to the community, + or is likely to be an inferior member of society, this writer + urges, is doing a service to the community, which ought to reward + her, perhaps by granting her special privileges as regards the + upbringing of her other children. Oda Olberg, in a thoughtful + paper ("Ueber den Juristischen Schutz des Keimenden Lebens," <i>Die + Neue Generation</i>, June, 1908), endeavors to make clear all that + is involved <a name='6_Page_608'></a>in the effort to protect the developing embryo + against the organism that carries it, to protect a creature, that + is, against itself and its own instincts. She considers that most + of the women who terminate their pregnancies artificially would + only have produced undesirables, for the normal, healthy, robust + woman has no desire to effect abortion. "There are women who are + psychically sterile, without being physically so, and who possess + nothing of motherhood but the ability to bring forth. These, when + they abort, are simply correcting a failure of Nature." Some of + them, she remarks, by going on to term, become guilty of the far + worse offence of infanticide. As for the women who desire + abortion merely from motives of vanity, or convenience, Oda + Olberg points out that the circles in which these motives rule + are quite able to limit their children without having to resort + to abortion. She concludes that society must protect the young + life in every way, by social hygiene, by laws for the protection + of the workers, by spreading a new morality on the basis of the + laws of heredity. But we need no law to protect the young + creature against its own mother, for a thousand natural forces + are urging the mother to protect her own child, and we may be + sure that she will not disobey these forces without very good + reasons. Camilla Jellinek, again (<i>Die Strafrechtsreform</i>, etc., + Heidelberg, 1909), in a powerful and well-informed address before + the Associated German Frauenvereine, at Breslau, argues in the + same sense.</p> + +<p> The lawyers very speedily came to the assistance of the women in + this matter, the more readily, no doubt, since the traditions of + the greatest and most influential body of law already pointed, on + one side at all events, in the same direction. It may, indeed, be + claimed that it was from the side of law—and in Italy, the + classic land of legal reform—that this new movement first begun. + In 1888, Balestrini published, at Turin, his <i>Aborto, + Infanticidio ed Esposizione d'Infante</i>, in which he argued that + the penalty should be removed from abortion. It was a very able + and learned book, inspired by large ideas and a humanitarian + spirit, but though its importance is now recognized, it cannot be + said that it attracted much attention on publication.</p> + +<p> It is especially in Germany that, during recent years, lawyers + have followed women reformers, by advocating, more or less + completely, the abolition of the punishment for abortion. So + distinguished an authority as Von Liszt, in a private letter to + Camilla Jellinek (<i>op. cit.</i>), states that he regards the + punishment of abortion as "very doubtful," though he considers + its complete abolition impracticable; he thinks abortion might be + permitted during the early months of pregnancy, thus bringing + about a return of the old view. Hans Gross states his opinion + (<i>Archiv für Kriminal-Anthropologie</i>, Bd. XII, p. 345) that the + time is not far distant when abortion will no longer be punished. + Radbruch and Von Lilienthal speak in the same sense. Weinberg has + advocated a change <a name='6_Page_609'></a>in the law (<i>Mutterschutz</i>, 1905, Heft 8), + and Kurt Hiller (<i>Die Neue Generation</i>, April, 1909), also from + the legal side, argues that abortion should only be punishable + when effected by a married woman, without the knowledge and + consent of her husband.</p></div> + +<p>The medical profession, which took the first step in modern times in the +authorization of abortion, has not at present taken any further step. It +has been content to lay down the principle that when the interests of the +mother are opposed to those of the fœtus, it is the latter which +must be sacrificed. It has hesitated to take the further step of placing +abortion on the eugenic basis, and of claiming the right to insist on +abortion whenever the medical and hygienic interests of society demand +such a step. This attitude is perfectly intelligible. Medicine has in the +past been chiefly identified with the saving of lives, even of worthless +and worse than worthless lives; "Keep everything alive! Keep everything +alive!" nervously cried Sir James Paget. Medicine has confined itself to +the humble task of attempting to cure evils, and is only to-day beginning +to undertake the larger and nobler task of preventing them.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>"The step from killing the child in the womb to murdering a + person when out of the womb, is a dangerously narrow one," sagely + remarks a recent medical author, probably speaking for many + others, who somehow succeed in blinding themselves to the fact + that this "dangerously narrow step" has been taken by mankind, + only too freely, for thousands of years past, long before + abortion was known in the world.</p> + +<p> Here and there, however, medical authors of repute have advocated + the further extension of abortion, with precautions, and under + proper supervision, as an aid to eugenic progress. Thus, + Professor Max Flesch (<i>Die Neue Generation</i>, April, 1909) is in + favor of a change in the law permitting abortion (provided it is + carried out by the physician) in special cases, as when the + mother's pregnancy has been due to force, when she has been + abandoned, or when, in the interests of the community, it is + desirable to prevent the propagation of insane, criminal, + alcoholic, or tuberculous persons.</p> + +<p> In France, a medical man, Dr. Jean Darricarrère, has written a + remarkable novel, <i>Le Droit d'Avortement</i> (1906), which advocates + the thesis that a woman always possesses a complete right to + abortion, and is the supreme judge as to whether she will or not + undergo the pain and risks of childbirth. The question is, here, + however, obviously placed not on medical, but on humanitarian and + feminist grounds.</p></div><a name='6_Page_610'></a> + +<p>We have seen that, alike on the side of practice and of theory, a great +change has taken place during recent years in the attitude towards +abortion. It must, however, clearly be recognized that, unlike the control +of procreation by methods for preventing conception, facultative abortion +has not yet been embodied in our current social morality. If it is +permissible to interpolate a personal opinion, I may say that to me it +seems that our morality is here fairly reasonable.<a name='6_FNanchor_442'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_442'><sup>[442]</sup></a> I am decidedly of +opinion that an unrestricted permission for women to practice abortion in +their own interests, or even for communities to practice it in the +interests of the race, would be to reach beyond the stage of civilization +we have at present attained. As Ellen Key very forcibly argues, a +civilization which permits, without protest, the barbarous slaughter of +its carefully selected adults in war has not yet won the right to destroy +deliberately even its most inferior vital products in the womb. A +civilization guilty of so reckless a waste of life cannot safely be +entrusted with this judicial function. The blind and aimless anxiety to +cherish the most hopeless and degraded forms of life, even of unborn life, +may well be a weakness, and since it often leads to incalculable +suffering, even a crime. But as yet there is an impenetrable barrier +against progress in this direction. Before we are entitled to take life +deliberately for the sake of purifying life, we must learn how to preserve +it by abolishing such destructive influences—war, disease, bad industrial +conditions—as are easily within our social power as civilized +nations.<a name='6_FNanchor_443'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_443'><sup>[443]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_611'></a> +<p>There is, further, another consideration which seems to me to carry +weight. The progress of civilization is in the direction of greater +foresight, of greater prevention, of a diminished need for struggling with +the reckless lack of prevision. The necessity for abortion is precisely +one of those results of reckless action which civilization tends to +diminish. While we may admit that in a sounder state of civilization a few +cases might still occur when the induction of abortion would be desirable, +it seems probable that the number of such cases will decrease rather than +increase. In order to do away with the need for abortion, and to +counteract the propaganda in its favor, our main reliance must be placed, +on the one hand, on increased foresight in the determination of conception +and increased knowledge of the means for preventing conception,<a name='6_FNanchor_444'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_444'><sup>[444]</sup></a> and +on the other hand, on a better provision by the State for the care of +pregnant women, married and unmarried alike, and a practical recognition +of the qualified mother's claim on society.<a name='6_FNanchor_445'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_445'><sup>[445]</sup></a> There can be little doubt +that, in many a charge of criminal abortion, the real offence lies at the +door of those who have failed to exercise their social and professional +duty of making known the more natural and harmless methods for preventing +conception, or else by their social attitude have made the pregnant +woman's position intolerable. By active social reform in these two +directions, the new movement in favor of abortion may be kept in check, +and it may even be found that by stimulating such reform that movement has +been beneficial.</p> + +<p>We have seen that the deliberate restraint of conception has become a part +of our civilized morality, and that the practice and theory of facultative +abortion has gained a footing among us. There remains a third and yet more +radical method of controlling <a name='6_Page_612'></a>procreation, the method of preventing the +possibility of procreation altogether by the performance of castration or +other slighter operation having a like inhibitory effect on reproduction. +The other two methods only effect a single act of union or its results, +but castration affects all subsequent acts of sexual union and usually +destroys the procreative power permanently.</p> + +<p>Castration for various social and other purposes is an ancient and +widespread practice, carried out on men and on animals. There has, +however, been on the whole a certain prejudice against it when applied to +men. Many peoples have attached a very sacred value to the integrity of +the sexual organs. Among some primitive peoples the removal of these +organs has been regarded as a peculiarly ferocious insult, only to be +carried out in moments of great excitement, as after a battle. Medicine +has been opposed to any interference with the sexual organs. The oath +taken by the Greek physicians appears to prohibit castration: "I will not +cut."<a name='6_FNanchor_446'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_446'><sup>[446]</sup></a> In modern times a great change has taken place, the castration +of both men and women is commonly performed in diseased conditions; the +same operation is sometimes advocated and occasionally performed in the +hope that it may remove strong and abnormal sexual impulses. And during +recent years castration has been invoked in the cause of negative +eugenics, to a greater extent, indeed, on account of its more radical +character, than either the prevention of conception or abortion.</p> + +<p>The movement in favor of castration appears to have begun in the United +States, where various experiments have been made in embodying it in law. +It was first advocated merely as a punishment for criminals, and +especially sexual offenders, by Hammond, Everts, Lydston and others. From +this point of view, however, it seems to be unsatisfactory and perhaps +illegitimate. In many cases castration is no punishment at all, and indeed +a positive benefit. In other cases, when inflicted against the subject's +will, it may produce very disturbing mental effects, leading in already +degenerate or unbalanced persons to insanity, criminality, and anti-social +tendencies generally, much more <a name='6_Page_613'></a>dangerous than the original state. +Eugenic considerations, which were later brought forward, constitute a +much sounder argument for castration; in this case the castration is +carried out, by no means in order to inflict a barbarous and degrading +punishment, but, with the subject's consent, in order to protect the +community from the risk of useless or mischievous members.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The fact that castration can no longer be properly considered a + punishment, is shown by the possibility of deliberately seeking + the operation simply for the sake of convenience, as a preferable + and most effective substitute for the adoption of preventive + methods in sexual intercourse. I am only at present acquainted + with one case in which this course has been adopted. This subject + is a medical man (of Puritan New England ancestry) with whose + sexual history, which is quite normal, I have been acquainted for + a long time past. His present age is thirty-nine. A few years + since, having a sufficiently large family, he adopted preventive + methods of intercourse. The subsequent events I narrate in his + own words: "The trouble, forethought, etc., rendered necessary by + preventive measures, grew more and more irksome to me as the + years passed by, and finally, I laid the matter before another + physician, and on his assurances, and after mature deliberation + with my wife, was operated on some time since, and rendered + sterile by having the vas deferens on each side exposed through a + slit in the scrotum, then tied in two places with silk and + severed between the ligatures. This was done under cocaine + infiltrative anæsthesia, and was not so extremely painful, though + what pain there was (dragging the cord out through the slit, + etc.) seemed very hard to endure. I was not out of my office a + single day, nor seriously disturbed in any way. In six days all + stitches in the scrotum were removed, and in three weeks I + abandoned the suspensory bandage that had been rendered necessary + by the extreme sensitiveness of the testicles and cord.</p> + +<p> "The operation has proved a most complete success in every way. + Sexual functions are <i>absolutely unaffected in any way + whatsoever</i>. There is no sense of discomfort or uneasiness in the + sexual tract, and what seems strangest of all to me, is the fact + that the semen, so far as one can judge by ordinary means of + observation, is undiminished in quantity and unchanged in + character. (Of course, the microscope would reveal its fatal + lack.)</p> + +<p> "My wife is delighted at having fear banished from our love, and, + taken all in all, it certainly seems as if life would mean more + to us both. Incidentally, the health of both of us seems better + than usual, particularly so in my wife's case, and this she + attributes to a soothing influence that is attained by allowing + the seminal fluid to be deposited <a name='6_Page_614'></a>in a perfectly normal manner, + and remain in contact with the vaginal secretions until it + naturally passes off.</p> + +<p> "This operation being comparatively new, and, as yet, not often + done on others than the insane, criminal, etc., I thought it + might be of interest to you. If I shed even the faintest ray of + light on this greatest of all human problems ... I shall be glad + indeed."</p> + +<p> Such a case, with its so far satisfactory issue, certainly + deserves to be placed on record, though it may well be that at + present it will not be widely imitated.</p></div> + +<p>The earliest advocacy of castration, which I have met with as a part of +negative eugenics, for the specific "purpose of prophylaxis as applied to +race improvement and the protection of society," is by Dr. F. E. Daniel, of +Texas, and dates from 1893.<a name='6_FNanchor_447'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_447'><sup>[447]</sup></a> Daniel mixed up, however, somewhat +inextricably, castration as a method of purifying the race, a method which +can be carried out with the concurrence of the individual operated on, +with castration as a punishment, to be inflicted for rape, sodomy, +bestiality, pederasty and even habitual masturbation, the method of its +performance, moreover, to be the extremely barbarous and primitive method +of total ablation of the sexual organs. In more recent years somewhat more +equitable, practical, and scientific methods of castration have been +advocated, not involving the removal of the sexual glands or organs, and +not as a punishment, but simply for the sake of protecting the community +and the race from the burden of probably unproductive and possibly +dangerous members. Näcke has, from 1899 onwards, repeatedly urged the +social advantages of this measure.<a name='6_FNanchor_448'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_448'><sup>[448]</sup></a> The propagation of the inferior +elements of society, Näcke insists, brings unhappiness into the family and +is a source of great expense to the State. He regards castration as the +only effective method of prevention, and concludes that it is, therefore, +our duty to adopt it, just as <a name='6_Page_615'></a>we have adopted vaccination, taking care to +secure the consent of the subject himself or his guardian, of the civil +authorities, and, if necessary, of a committee of experts. Professor +Angelo Zuccarelli of Naples has also, from 1899 onwards, emphasized the +importance of castration in the sterilization of the epileptic, the insane +of various classes, the alcoholic, the tuberculous, and instinctive +criminals, the choice of cases for operation to be made by a commission of +experts who would examine school-children, candidates for public +employments, or persons about to marry.<a name='6_FNanchor_449'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_449'><sup>[449]</sup></a> This movement rapidly gained +ground, and in 1905 at the annual meeting of Swiss alienists it was +unanimously agreed that the sterilization of the insane is desirable, and +that it is necessary that the question should be legally regulated. It is +in Switzerland, indeed, that the first steps have been taken in Europe to +carry out castration as a measure of social prophylaxis. The sixteenth +yearly report (1907) of the Cantonal asylum at Wil describes four cases of +castration, two in men and two in women, performed—with the permission of +the patients and the civil authorities—for social reasons; both women had +previously had illegitimate children who were a burden on the community, +and all four patients were sexually abnormal; the operation enabled the +patients to be liberated and to work, and the results were considered in +every respect satisfactory to all concerned.<a name='6_FNanchor_450'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_450'><sup>[450]</sup></a></p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The introduction of castration as a method of negative eugenics + has been facilitated by the use of new methods of performing it + without risk, and without actual removal of the testes or + ovaries. For men, there is the simple method of vasectomy, as + recommended by Näcke and many others. For women, there is the + corresponding, and almost equally simple and harmless method of + Kehrer, by section and ligation of the Fallopian tubes through + the vagina, as recommended by<a name='6_Page_616'></a> Kisch, or Rose's very similar + procedure, easily carried out in a few minutes by an experienced + hand, as recommended by Zuccarelli.</p> + +<p> It has been found that repeated exposure to the X-rays produces + sterility in both sexes, alike in animals and men, and X-ray + workers have to adopt various precautions to avoid suffering from + this effect. It has been suggested that the application of the + X-rays would be a good substitute for castration; it appears that + the effects of the application are only likely to last a few + years, which, in some doubtful cases, might be an advantage. (See + <i>British Medical Journal</i>, Aug. 13, 1904; <i>ib.</i>, March 11, 1905; + <i>ib.</i>, July 6, 1907.)</p></div> + +<p>It is scarcely possible, it seems to me, to view castration as a method of +negative eugenics with great enthusiasm. The recklessness, moreover, with +which it is sometimes proposed to apply it by law—owing no doubt to the +fact that it is not so obviously repulsive as the less radical procedure +of abortion—ought to render us very cautious. We must, too, dismiss the +idea of castration as a punishment; as such it is not merely barbarous but +degrading and is unlikely to have a beneficial effect. As a method of +negative eugenics it should never be carried out except with the subject's +consent. The fact that in some cases it might be necessary to enforce +seclusion in the absence of castration would doubtless be a fact exerting +influence in favor of such consent; but the consent is essential if the +subject of the operation is to be safeguarded from degradation. A man who +has been degraded and embittered by an enforced castration might not be +dangerous to posterity, but might very easily become a dangerous member of +the society in which he actually lived. With due precautions and +safeguards, castration may doubtless play a certain part in the elevation +and improvement of the race.<a name='6_FNanchor_451'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_451'><sup>[451]</sup></a></p> + +<p>The methods we have been considering, in so far as they <a name='6_Page_617'></a>limit the +procreative powers of the less healthy and efficient stocks in a +community, are methods of eugenics. It must not, however, be supposed that +they are the whole of eugenics, or indeed that they are in any way +essential to a eugenic scheme. Eugenics is concerned with the whole of the +agencies which elevate and improve the human breed; abortion and +castration are methods which may be used to this end, but they are not +methods of which everyone approves, nor is it always clear that the ends +they effect would not better be attained by other methods; in any case +they are methods of negative eugenics. There remains the field of positive +eugenics, which is concerned, not with the elimination of the inferior +stocks but with ascertaining which are the superior stocks and with +furthering their procreative power.</p> + +<p>While the necessity of refraining from procreation is no longer a bar to +marriage, the question of whether two persons ought to marry each other +still remains in the majority of cases a serious question from the +standpoint of positive as well as of negative eugenics, for the normal +marriage cannot fail to involve children, as, indeed, its chief and most +desirable end. We have to consider not merely what are the stocks or the +individuals that are unfit to breed, but also what are these stocks or +individuals that are most fit to breed, and under what conditions +procreation may best be effected. The present imperfection of our +knowledge on these questions emphasizes the need for care and caution in +approaching their consideration.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It may be fitting, at this point, to refer to the experiment of + the Oneida Community in establishing a system of scientific + propagation, under the guidance of a man whose ability and + distinction as a pioneer are only to-day beginning to be + adequately recognized. John Humphrey Noyes was too far ahead of + his own day to be recognized at his true worth; at the most, he + was regarded as the sagacious and successful founder of a sect, + and his attempts to apply eugenics to life only aroused ridicule + and persecution, so that he was, unfortunately, compelled by + outside pressure to bring a most instructive experiment to a + premature end. His aim and principle are set forth in an <i>Essay + on Scientific Propagation</i>, printed some forty years ago, which + discusses problems that are only now beginning to attract the + attention of the practical man, as <a name='6_Page_618'></a>within the range of social + politics. When Noyes turned his vigorous and practical mind to + the question of eugenics, that question was exclusively in the + hands of scientific men, who felt all the natural timidity of the + scientific man towards the realization of his proposals, and who + were not prepared to depart a hair's breadth from the + conventional customs of their time. The experiment of Noyes, at + Oneida, marked a new stage in the history of eugenics; whatever + might be the value of the experiment—and a first experiment + cannot well be final—with Noyes the questions of eugenics passed + beyond the purely academic stage in which, from the time of + Plato, they had peacefully reposed. "It is becoming clear," Noyes + states at the outset, "that the foundations of scientific society + are to be laid in the scientific propagation of human beings." In + doing this, we must attend to two things: blood (or heredity) and + training; and he puts blood first. In that, he was at one with + the most recent biometrical eugenists of to-day ("the nation has + for years been putting its money on 'Environment,' when + 'Heredity' wins in a canter," as Karl Pearson prefers to put it), + and at the same time revealed the breadth of his vision in + comparison with the ordinary social reformer, who, in that day, + was usually a fanatical believer in the influence of training and + surroundings. Noyes sets forth the position of Darwin on the + principles of breeding, and the step beyond Darwin, which had + been taken by Galton. He then remarks that, when Galton comes to + the point where it is necessary to advance from theory to the + duties the theory suggests, he "subsides into the meekest + conservatism." (It must be remembered that this was written at an + early stage in Galton's work.) This conclusion was entirely + opposed to Noyes' practical and religious temperament. "Duty is + plain; we say we ought to do it—we want to do it; but we cannot. + The law of God urges us on; but the law of society holds us back. + The boldest course is the safest. Let us take an honest and + steady look at the law. It is only in the timidity of ignorance + that the duty seems impracticable." Noyes anticipated Galton in + regarding eugenics as a matter of religion.</p> + +<p> Noyes proposed to term the work of modern science in propagation + "Stirpiculture," in which he has sometimes been followed by + others. He considered that it is the business of the + stirpiculturist to keep in view both quantity and quality of + stocks, and he held that, without diminishing quantity, it was + possible to raise the quality by exercising a very stringent + discrimination in selecting males. At this point, Noyes has been + supported in recent years by Karl Pearson and others, who have + shown that only a relatively small portion of a population is + needed to produce the next generation, and that, in fact, twelve + per cent. of one generation in man produces fifty per cent. of + the next generation. What we need to ensure is that this small + reproducing section of the population shall be the best adapted + for the purpose. "The <i>quantity</i><a name='6_Page_619'></a> of production will be in direct + proportion to the number of fertile females," as Noyes saw the + question, "and the <i>value</i> produced, so far as it depends on + selection, will be nearly in inverse proportion to the number of + fertilizing males." In this matter, Noyes anticipated Ehrenfels. + The two principles to be held in mind were, "Breed from the + best," and "Breed in-and-in," with a cautious and occasional + introduction of new strains. (It may be noted that Reibmayr, in + his recent <i>Entwicklungsgeschichte des Genics und Talentes</i>, + argues that the superior races, and superior individuals, in the + human species, have been produced by an unconscious adherence to + exactly these principles.) "By segregating superior families, and + by breeding these in-and-in, superior varieties of human beings + might be produced, which would be comparable to the thoroughbreds + in all the domestic races." He illustrates this by the early + history of the Jews.</p> + +<p> Noyes finally criticises the present method, or lack of method, + in matters of propagation. Our marriage system, he states, + "leaves mating to be determined by a general scramble." By + ignoring, also, the great difference between the sexes in + reproductive power, it "restricts each man, whatever may be his + potency and his value, to the amount of production of which one + woman, chosen blindly, may be capable." Moreover, he continues, + "practically it discriminates against the best, and in favor of + the worst; for, while the good man will be limited by his + conscience to what the law allows, the bad man, free from moral + check, will distribute his seed beyond the legal limits, as + widely as he dares." "We are safe every way in saying that there + is no possibility of carrying the two precepts of scientific + propagation into an institution which pretends to no + discrimination, allows no suppression, gives no more liberty to + the best than to the worst, and which, in fact, must inevitably + discriminate the wrong way, so long as the inferior classes are + most prolific and least amenable to the admonitions of science + and morality." In modifying our sexual institutions, Noyes + insists there are two essential points to remember: the + preservation of liberty, and the preservation of the home. There + must be no compulsion about human scientific propagation; it must + be autonomous, directed by self-government, "by the free choice + of those who love science well enough to 'make themselves eunuchs + for the Kingdom of Heaven's sake.'" The home, also, must be + preserved, since "marriage is the best thing for man as he is;" + but it is necessary to enlarge the home, for, "if all could learn + to love other children than their own, there would be nothing to + hinder scientific propagation in the midst of homes far better + than any that now exist."</p> + +<p> This memorable pamphlet contains no exposition of the precise + measures adopted by the Oneida Community to carry out these + principles. The two essential points were, as we know, "male + continence"<a name='6_Page_620'></a> (see <i>ante</i> p. 553), and the enlarged family, in + which all the men were the actual or potential mates of all the + women, but no union for propagation took place, except as the + result of reason and deliberate resolve. "The community," says + H. J. Seymour, one of the original members (<i>The Oneida + Community</i>, 1894, p. 5), "was a <i>family</i>, as distinctly separated + from surrounding society as ordinary households. The tie that + bound it together was as permanent, and at least as sacred, as + that of marriage. Every man's care, and the whole of the common + property, was pledged for the maintenance and protection of the + women, and the support and education of the children." It is not + probable that the Oneida Community presented in detail the model + to which human society generally will conform. But even at the + lowest estimate, its success showed, as Lord Morely has pointed + out (<i>Diderot</i>, vol. ii, p. 19), "how modifiable are some of + these facts of existing human character which are vulgarly deemed + to be ultimate and ineradicable," and that "the discipline of the + appetites and affections of sex," on which the future of + civilization largely rests, is very far from an impossibility.</p> + +<p> In many respects, the Oneida Community was ahead of its + time,—and even of ours,—but it is interesting to note that, in + the matter of the control of conception, our marriage system has + come into line with the theory and practice of Oneida; it cannot, + indeed, be said that we always control conception in accordance + with eugenic principles, but the fact that such control has now + become a generally accepted habit of civilization, to some extent + deprives Noyes' criticism of our marriage system of the force it + possessed half a century ago. Another change in our customs—the + advocacy, and even the practice, of abortion and + castration—would not have met with his approval; he was strongly + opposed to both, and with the high moral level that ruled his + community, neither was necessary to the maintenance of the + stirpiculture that prevailed.</p> + +<p> The Oneida Community endured for the space of one generation, and + came to an end in 1879, by no means through a recognition of + failure, but by a wise deference to external pressure. Its + members, many of them highly educated, continued to cherish the + memory of the practices and ideals of the Community. Noyes Miller + (the author of <i>The Strike of a Sex</i>, and <i>Zugassant's + Discovery</i>) to the last, looked with quiet confidence to the time + when, as he anticipated, the great discovery of Noyes would be + accepted and adopted by the world at large. Another member of the + Community (Henry J. Seymour) wrote of the Community long + afterwards that "It was an anticipation and imperfect miniature + of the Kingdom of Heaven on earth."</p></div> + +<p>Perhaps the commonest type of proposal or attempt to improve the +biological level of the race is by the exclusion of <a name='6_Page_621'></a>certain classes of +degenerates from marriage, or by the encouragement of better classes of +the community to marry. This seems to be, at present, the most popular +form of eugenics, and in so far as it is not effected by compulsion but is +the outcome of a voluntary resolve to treat the question of the creation +of the race with the jealous care and guardianship which so tremendously +serious, so godlike, a task involves, it has much to be said in its favor +and nothing against it.</p> + +<p>But it is quite another matter when the attempt is made to regulate such +an institution as marriage by law. In the first place we do not yet know +enough about the principles of heredity and the transmissibility of +pathological states to enable us to formulate sound legislative proposals +on this basis. Even so comparatively simple a matter as the relationship +of tuberculosis to heredity can scarcely be said to be a matter of common +agreement, even if it can yet be claimed that we possess adequate material +on which to attain a common agreement. Supposing, moreover, that our +knowledge on all these questions were far more advanced than it is, we +still should not have attained a position in which we could lay down +general propositions regarding the desirability or the undesirability of +certain classes of persons procreating. The question is necessarily an +individual question, and it can only be decided when all the circumstances +of the individual case have been fairly passed in review.</p> + +<p>The objection to any legislative and compulsory regulation of the right to +marry is, however, much more fundamental than the consideration that our +knowledge is at present inadequate. It lies in the extraordinary +confusion, in the minds of those who advocate such legislation, between +legal marriage and procreation. The persons who fall into such confusion +have not yet learnt the alphabet of the subject they presume to dictate +about, and are no more competent to legislate than a child who cannot tell +A from B is competent to read.</p> + +<p>Marriage, in so far as it is the partnership for mutual help and +consolation of two people who in such partnership are free, if they +please, to exercise sexual union, is an elementary right of every person +who is able to reason, who is guilty of no fraud <a name='6_Page_622'></a>or concealment, and who +is not likely to injure the partner selected, for in that case society is +entitled to interfere by virtue of its duty to protect its members. But +the right to marry, thus understood, in no way involves the right to +procreate. For while marriage <i>per se</i> only affects the two individuals +concerned, and in no way affects the State, procreation, on the other +hand, primarily affects the community which is ultimately made up of +procreated persons, and only secondarily affects the two individuals who +are the instruments of procreation. So that just as the individual couple +has the first right in the question of marriage, the State has the first +right in the question of procreation. The State is just as incompetent to +lay down the law about marriage as the individual is to lay down the law +about procreation.</p> + +<p>That, however, is only one-half of the folly committed by those who would +select the candidates for matrimony by statute. Let us suppose—as is not +indeed easy to suppose—that a community will meekly accept the abstract +prohibitions of the statute book and quietly go home again when the +registrar of marriages informs them that they are shut out from legal +matrimony by the new table of prohibited degrees. An explicit prohibition +to procreate within marriage is an implicit permission to procreate +outside marriage. Thus the undesirable procreation, instead of being +carried out under the least dangerous conditions, is carried out under the +most dangerous conditions, and the net result to the community is not a +gain but a loss.</p> + +<p>What seems usually to happen, in the presence of a formal legislative +prohibition against the marriage of a particular class, is a combination +of various evils. In part the law becomes a dead letter, in part it is +evaded by skill and fraud, in part it is obeyed to give rise to worse +evils. This happened, for instance, in the Terek district of the Caucasus +where, on the demand of a medical committee, priests were prohibited from +marrying persons among whose relatives or ancestry any cases of leprosy +had occurred. So much and such various mischief was caused by this order +that it was speedily withdrawn.<a name='6_FNanchor_452'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_452'><sup>[452]</sup></a></p> +<a name='6_Page_623'></a> +<p>If we remember that the Catholic Church was occupied for more than a +thousand years in the attempt to impose the prohibition of marriage on its +priesthood,—an educated and trained body of men, who had every spiritual +and worldly motive to accept the prohibition, and were, moreover, brought +up to regard asceticism as the best ideal in life,<a name='6_FNanchor_453'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_453'><sup>[453]</sup></a>—we may realize +how absurd it is to attempt to gain the same end by mere casual +prohibitions issued to untrained people with no motives to obey such +prohibitions, and no ideals of celibacy.</p> + +<p>The hopelessness and even absurdity of effecting the eugenic improvement +of the race by merely placing on the statute book prohibitions to certain +classes of people to enter the legal bonds of matrimony as at present +constituted, reveals the weakness of those who undervalue the eugenic +importance of environment. Those who affirm that heredity is everything +and environment nothing seem strangely to forget that it is precisely the +lower classes—those who are most subjected to the influence of bad +environment—who procreate most copiously, most recklessly, and most +disastrously. The restraint of procreation, and a concomitant regard for +heredity, increase <i>pari passu</i> with improvement of the environment and +rise in social well-being. If even already it can be said that probably +fifty per cent. of sexual intercourse—perhaps the most procreatively +productive moiety—takes place outside legal marriage, it becomes obvious +that statutory prohibition to the unfit classes to refrain from legal +marriage merely involves their joining the procreating classes outside +legal matrimony. It is also clear that if we are to neglect the factor of +environment, and leave the lower social classes to the ignorance and +recklessness which are the result of such environment, the only practical +method of eugenics left open is that by castration and abortion. But this +method—if applied on a wholesale scale as it would need to be<a name='6_FNanchor_454'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_454'><sup>[454]</sup></a> and +without reference to <a name='6_Page_624'></a>the consent of the individual—is entirely opposed +to modern democratic feeling. Thus those short-sighted eugenists who +overlook the importance of environment are overlooking the only practical +channel through which their aims can be realized. Attention to procreation +and attention to environment are not, as some have supposed, antagonistic, +but they play harmoniously into each other's hands. The care for +environment leads to a restraint on reckless procreation, and the +restraint of procreation leads to improved environment.</p> + +<p>Legislation on marriage, to be effectual, must be enacted in the home, in +the school, in the doctor's consulting room. Force is helpless here; it is +education that is needed, not merely instruction, but the education of the +conscience and will, and the training of the emotions.</p> + +<p>Legal action may come in to further this process of education, though it +cannot replace it. Thus it is very desirable that when there has been a +concealment of serious disease by a party to a marriage such concealment +should be a ground for divorce. Epilepsy may be taken as typical of the +diseases which should be a bar to procreation, and their concealment +equivalent to an annulment of marriage.<a name='6_FNanchor_455'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_455'><sup>[455]</sup></a> In the United States the +Supreme Court of Errors of Connecticut laid it down in 1906 that the +Superior Court has the power to pass a decree of divorce when one of the +parties has concealed the existence of epilepsy. This weighty deliverence, +it has been well said,<a name='6_FNanchor_456'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_456'><sup>[456]</sup></a> marks a forward step in human progress. There +are many other seriously pathological conditions in which divorce should +be pronounced, or indeed, occur automatically, except when procreation has +been <a name='6_Page_625'></a>renounced, for in that case the State is no longer concerned in the +relationship, except to punish any fraud committed by concealment.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>The demand that a medical certificate of health should be + compulsory on marriage, has been especially made in France. In + 1858, Diday, of Lyons, proposed, indeed, that all persons, + without exception, should be compelled to possess a certificate + of health and disease, a kind of sanitary passport. In 1872, + Bertillon (Art. "Demographic," <i>Dictionnaire Encyclopédique des + Sciences Médicales</i>) advocated the registration, at marriage, of + the chief anthropological and pathological traits of the + contracting parties (height, weight, color of hair and eyes, + muscular force, size of head, condition of vision, hearing, etc., + deformities and defects, etc.), not so much, however, for the end + of preventing undesirable marriages, as to facilitate the study + and comparison of human groups at particular periods. Subsequent + demands, of a more limited and partial character, for legal + medical certificates as a condition of marriage, have been made + by Fournier (<i>Syphilis et Mariage</i>, 1890), Cazalis (<i>Le Science + et le Mariage</i>, 1890), and Jullien (<i>Blenorrhagie et Mariage</i>, + 1898). In Austria, Haskovec, of Prague ("Contrat Matrimonial et + L'Hygiène Publique," <i>Comptes-rendus Congrès International de + Médecine</i>, Lisbon, 1906, Section VII, p. 600), argues that, on + marriage, a medical certificate should be presented, showing that + the subject is exempt from tuberculosis, alcoholism, syphilis, + gonorrhœa, severe mental, or nervous, or other + degenerative state, likely to be injurious to the other partner, + or to the offspring. In America, Rosenberg and Aronstam argue + that every candidate for marriage, male or female, should undergo + a strict examination by a competent board of medical examiners, + concerning (1) Family and Past History (syphilis, consumption, + alcoholism, nervous, and mental diseases), and (2) Status Presens + (thorough examination of all the organs); if satisfactory, a + certificate of matrimonial eligibility would then be granted. It + is pointed out that a measure of this kind would render + unnecessary the acts passed by some States for the punishment by + fine, or imprisonment, of the concealment of disease. Ellen Key + also considers (<i>Liebe und Ehe</i>, p. 436) that each party at + marriage should produce a certificate of health. "It seems to me + just as necessary," she remarks, elsewhere (<i>Century of the + Child</i>, Ch. I), "to demand medical testimony concerning capacity + for marriage, as concerning capacity for military service. In the + one case, it is a matter of giving life; in the other, of taking + it, although certainly the latter occasion has hitherto been + considered as much the more serious."</p> + +<p> The certificate, as usually advocated, would be a private but + necessary legitimation of the marriage in the eyes of the civil + and <a name='6_Page_626'></a>religious authorities. Such a step, being required for the + protection alike of the conjugal partner and of posterity, would + involve a new legal organization of the matrimonial contract. + That such demands are so frequently made, is a significant sign + of the growth of moral consciousness in the community, and it is + good that the public should be made acquainted with the urgent + need for them. But it is highly undesirable that they should, at + present, or, perhaps, ever, be embodied in legal codes. What is + needed is the cultivation of the feeling of individual + responsibility, and the development of social antagonism towards + those individuals who fail to recognize their responsibility. It + is the reality of marriage, and not its mere legal forms, that it + is necessary to act upon.</p></div> + +<p>The voluntary method is the only sound way of approach in this matter. +Duclaux considered that the candidate for marriage should possess a +certificate of health in much the same way as the candidate for life +assurance, the question of professional secrecy, as well as that of +compulsion, no more coming into one question than into the other. There is +no reason why such certificates, of an entirely voluntary character, +should not become customary among those persons who are sufficiently +enlightened to realize all the grave personal, family, and social issues +involved in marriage. The system of eugenic certification, as originated +and developed by Galton, will constitute a valuable instrument for raising +the moral consciousness in this matter. Galton's eugenic certificates +would deal mainly with the natural virtues of superior hereditary +breed—"the public recognition of a natural nobility"—but they would +include the question of personal health and personal aptitude.<a name='6_FNanchor_457'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_457'><sup>[457]</sup></a></p> + +<p>To demand compulsory certificates of health at marriage is indeed to begin +at the wrong end. It would not only lead to evasions and antagonisms but +would probably call forth a reaction. It is first necessary to create an +enthusiasm for health, a moral conscience in matters of procreation, +together with, on the scientific side, a general habit of registering the +anthropological, psychological, and pathological data concerning <a name='6_Page_627'></a>the +individual, from birth onwards, altogether apart from marriage. The +earlier demands of Diday and Bertillon were thus not only on a sounder but +also a more practicable basis. If such records were kept from birth for +every child, there would be no need for special examination at marriage, +and many incidental ends would be gained. There is difficulty at present +in obtaining such records from the moment of birth, and, so far as I am +aware, no attempts have yet been made to establish their systematic +registration. But it is quite possible to begin at the beginning of school +life, and this is now done at many schools and colleges in England, +America, and elsewhere, more especially as regards anthropological, +physiological, and psychological data, each child being submitted to a +thorough and searching anthropometric examination, and thus furnished with +a systematic statement of his physical condition.<a name='6_FNanchor_458'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_458'><sup>[458]</sup></a> This examination +needs to be standardized and generalized, and repeated at fixed intervals. +"Every individual child," as is truly stated by Dr. Dukes, the Physician +to Rugby School, "on his entrance to a public school should be as +carefully and as thoroughly examined as if it were for life insurance." If +this procedure were general from an early age, there would be no hardship +in the production of the record at marriage, and no opportunity for fraud. +The <i>dossier</i> of each person might well be registered by the State, as +wills already are, and, as in the case of wills, become freely open to +students when a century had elapsed. Until this has been done during +several centuries our knowledge of eugenics will remain rudimentary.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>There can be little doubt that the eugenic attitude towards + marriage, and the responsibility of the individual for the future + of the race, is becoming more recognized. It is constantly + happening that persons, about to marry, approach the physician in + a state of serious anxiety on this point. Urquhart, indeed + (<i>Journal of Mental Science</i>, April, 1907, p. 277), believes that + marriages are seldom broken off on this ground; this seems, + however, too pessimistic a view, and even when the marriage is + not broken off the resolve is often made to avoid procreation.<a name='6_Page_628'></a> + Clouston, who emphasizes (<i>Hygiene of the Mind</i>, p. 74) the + importance of "inquiries by each of the parties to the + life-contract, by their parents and their doctors, as to + heredity, temperament, and health," is more hopeful of the + results than Urquhart. "I have been very much impressed, of late + years," he writes (<i>Journal of Mental Science</i>, Oct., 1907, p. + 710), "with the way in which this subject is taking possession of + intelligent people, by the number of times one is consulted by + young men and young women, proposing to marry, or by their + fathers or mothers. I used to have the feeling in the back of my + mind, when I was consulted, that it did not matter what I said, + it would not make any difference. But it is making a difference; + and I, and others, could tell of scores of marriages which were + put off in consequence of psychiatric medical advice."</p> + +<p> Ellen Key, also, refers to the growing tendency among both men + and women, to be influenced by eugenic consideration in forming + partnerships for life (<i>Century of the Child</i>, Ch. I). The + recognition of the eugenic attitude towards marriage, the + quickening of the social and individual conscience in matters of + heredity, as also the systematic introduction of certification + and registration, will be furthered by the growing tendency to + the socialization of medicine, and, indeed, in its absence would + be impossible. (See <i>e.g.</i>, Havelock Ellis, <i>The Nationalization + of Health</i>.) The growth of the State Medical Organization of + Health is steady and continuous, and is constantly covering a + larger field. The day of the private practitioner of + medicine—who was treated, as Duclaux (<i>L'Hygiène Sociale</i>, p. + 263) put it, "like a grocer, whose shop the customer may enter + and leave as he pleases, and when he pleases"—will, doubtless, + soon be over. It is now beginning to be felt that health is far + too serious a matter, not only from the individual but also from + the social point of view, to be left to private caprice. There + is, indeed, a tendency, in some quarters, to fear that some day + society may rush to the opposite extreme, and bow before medicine + with the same unreasoning deference that it once bowed before + theology. That danger is still very remote, nor is it likely, + indeed, that medicine will ever claim any authority of this kind. + The spirit of medicine has, notoriously, been rather towards the + assertion of scepticism than of dogma, and the fanatics in this + field will always be in a hopelessly small minority.</p></div> + +<p>The general introduction of authentic personal records covering all +essential data—hereditary, anthropometric and pathological—cannot fail +to be a force on the side of positive as well as of negative eugenics, for +it would tend to promote the procreation of the fit as well as restrict +that of the unfit, without any legislative compulsion. With the growth of +education <a name='6_Page_629'></a>a regard for such records as a preliminary to marriage would +become as much a matter of course as once was the regard to the +restrictions imposed by Canon law, and as still is a regard to money or to +caste. A woman can usually refrain from marrying a man with no money and +no prospects; a man may be passionately in love with a woman of lower +class than himself but he seldom marries her. It needs but a clear general +perception of all that is involved in heredity and health to make eugenic +considerations equally influential.</p> + +<p>A discriminating regard to the quality of offspring will act beneficially +on the side of positive eugenics by substituting the pernicious tendency +to put a premium on excess of childbirth by the more rational method of +putting a premium on the quality of the child. It has been one of the most +unfortunate results of the mania for protesting against that decline of +the birthrate which is always and everywhere the result of civilization, +that there has been a tendency to offer special social or pecuniary +advantages to the parents of large families. Since large families tend to +be degenerate, and to become a tax on the community, since rapid +pregnancies in succession are not only a serious drain on the strength of +the mother but are now known to depreciate seriously the quality of the +offspring, and since, moreover, it is in large families that disease and +mortality chiefly prevail, all the interests of the community are against +the placing of any premium on large families, even in the case of parents +of good stock. The interests of the State are bound up not with the +quantity but with the quality of its citizens, and the premium should be +placed not on the families that reach a certain size but on the individual +children that reach a certain standard; the attainment of this standard +could well be based on observations made from birth to the fifth year. A +premium on this basis would be as beneficial to a State as that on the +merely numerical basis is pernicious.</p> + +<p>This consideration applies with still greater force to the proposals for +the "systematic endowment of motherhood" of which we hear more and more. +So moderate and judicious a social reformer as Mr. Sidney Webb writes: "We +shall have to <a name='6_Page_630'></a>face the problem of the systematic endowment of motherhood, +and place this most indispensable of all professions upon an honorable +economic basis. At present it is ignored as an occupation, unremunerated, +and in no way honored by the State."<a name='6_FNanchor_459'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_459'><sup>[459]</sup></a> True as this statement is, it +must always be remembered that an indispensable preliminary to any +proposal for the endowment of motherhood by the State is a clear +conception of the kind of motherhood which the State requires. To endow +the reckless and indiscriminate motherhood which we see around us, to +encourage, that is, by State aid, the production of citizens a large +proportion of whom the State, if it dared, would like to destroy as unfit, +is too ridiculous a proposal to deserve discussion.<a name='6_FNanchor_460'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_460'><sup>[460]</sup></a> The only sound +reason, indeed, for the endowment of motherhood is that it would enable +the State, in its own interests, to further the natural selection of the +fit.</p> + +<p>As to the positive qualities which the State is entitled to endow in its +encouragement of motherhood, it is still too early to speak with complete +assurance. Negative eugenics tends to be ahead of positive eugenics; it is +easier to detect bad stocks than to be quite sure of good stocks. Both on +the scientific side and on the social side, however, we are beginning to +attain a clearer realization of the end to be attained and a more precise +knowledge of the methods of attaining it.<a name='6_FNanchor_461'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_461'><sup>[461]</sup></a></p> + +<p>Even when we have gained a fairly clear conception of the stocks and the +individuals which we are justified in encouraging to undertake the task of +producing fit citizens for the State, the problems of procreation are by +no means at an end. Before we <a name='6_Page_631'></a>can so much as inquire what are the +conditions under which selected individuals may best procreate, there is +still the initial question to be decided whether those individuals are +both fertile and potent, for this is not guaranteed by the fact that they +belong to good stocks, nor is even the fact that a man and a woman are +fertile with other persons any positive proof that they will be fertile +with each other. Among the large masses of the population who do not seek +to make their unions legal until those unions have proved fertile, this +difficulty is settled in a simple and practical manner. The question is, +however, a serious and hazardous one, in the present state of the marriage +law in most countries, for those classes which are accustomed to bind +themselves in legal marriage without any knowledge of their potency and +fertility with each other. The matter is mostly left to chance, and as +legal marriage cannot usually be dissolved on the ground that there are no +offspring, even although procreation is commonly declared to be the chief +end of marriage, the question assumes much gravity. The ordinary range of +sterility is from seven to fifteen per cent. of all marriages, and in a +very large proportion of these it is a source of great concern. This could +be avoided, in some measure, by examination before marriage, and almost +altogether by ordaining that, as it is only through offspring that a +marriage has any concern for the State, a legal marriage could be +dissolved, after a certain period, at the will of either of the parties, +in the absence of such offspring.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>It was formerly supposed that when a union proved infertile, it + was the wife who was at fault. That belief is long since + exploded, but, even yet, a man is generally far more concerned + about his potency, that is, his ability to perform the mechanical + act of coitus, than about his fertility, that is, his ability to + produce living spermatozoa, though the latter condition is a much + more common source of sterility. "Any man," says Arthur Cooper + (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, May 11, 1907), "who has any sexual + defect or malformation, or who has suffered from any disease or + injury of the genito-urinary organs, even though comparatively + trivial or one-sided, and although his copulative power may be + unimpaired, should be looked upon as possibly sterile, until some + sort of evidence to the contrary has been obtained." In case of a + sterile marriage, the possible cause should first be investigated + in the husband, <a name='6_Page_632'></a>for it is comparatively easy to examine the + semen, and to ascertain if it contains active spermatozoa. + Prinzing, in a comprehensive study of sterile marriages ("Die + Sterilen Ehen," <i>Zeitschrift für Sozialwissenschaft</i>, 1904, Heft + 1 and 2), states that in two-fifths of sterile marriages the man + is at fault; one-third of such marriages are the result of + venereal diseases in the husband himself, or transmitted to the + wife. Gonorrhœa is not now considered so important a + cause of sterility as it was a few years ago; Schenk makes it + responsible for only about thirteen per cent. sterile marriages + (<i>cf.</i> Kisch, <i>The Sexual Life of Woman</i>). Pinkus (<i>Archiv für + Gynäkologie</i>, 1907) found that of nearly five hundred cases in + which he examined both partners, in 24.4 per cent. cases, the + sterility was directly due to the husband, and in 15.8 per cent. + cases, indirectly due, because caused by gonorrhœa with + which he had infected his wife.</p> + +<p> When sterility is due to a defect in the husband's spermatozoa, + and is not discovered, as it usually might be, before marriage, + the question of impregnating the wife by other methods has + occasionally arisen. Divorce on the ground of sterility is not + possible, and, even if it were, the couple, although they wish to + have a child, have not usually any wish to separate. Under these + circumstances, in order to secure the desired end, without + departing from widely accepted rules of morality, the attempt is + occasionally made to effect artificial fecundation by injecting + the semen from a healthy male. Attempts have been made to effect + artificial fecundation by various distinguished men, from John + Hunter to Schwalbe, but it is nearly always very difficult to + effect, and often impossible. This is easy to account for, if we + recall what has already been pointed out (<i>ante</i> p. 577) + concerning the influence of erotic excitement in the woman in + securing conception; it is obviously a serious task for even the + most susceptible woman to evoke erotic enthusiasm <i>à propos</i> of a + medical syringe. Schwalbe, for instance, records a case + (<i>Deutsche Medizinisches Wochenschrift</i>, Aug., 1908, p. 510) in + which,—in consequence of the husband's sterility and the wife's + anxiety, with her husband's consent, to be impregnated by the + semen of another man,—he made repeated careful attempts to + effect artificial fecundation; these attempts were, however, + fruitless, and the three parties concerned finally resigned + themselves to the natural method of intercourse, which was + successful. In another case, recorded by Schwalbe, in which the + husband was impotent but not sterile, six attempts were made to + effect artificial fecundation, and further efforts abandoned on + account of the disgust of all concerned.</p> + +<p> Opinion, on the whole, has been opposed to the practice of + artificial fecundation, even apart from the question of the + probabilities of success. Thus, in France, where there is a + considerable literature on the subject, the Paris Medical + Faculty, in 1885, after some hesitation, refused<a name='6_Page_633'></a> Gérard's thesis + on the history of artificial fecundation, afterwards published + independently. In 1883, the Bordeaux legal tribunal declared that + artificial fecundation was illegitimate, and a social danger. In + 1897, the Holy See also pronounced that the practice is unlawful + ("Artificial Fecundation before the Inquisition," <i>British + Medical Journal</i>, March 5, 1898). Apart, altogether, from this + attitude of medicine, law, and Church, it would certainly seem + that those who desire offspring would do well, as a rule, to + adopt the natural method, which is also the best, or else to + abandon to others the task of procreation, for which they are not + adequately equipped.</p></div> + +<p>When we have ascertained that two individuals both belong to sound and +healthy stocks, and, further, that they are themselves both apt for +procreation, it still remains to consider the conditions under which they +may best effect procreation.<a name='6_FNanchor_462'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_462'><sup>[462]</sup></a> There arises, for instance, the +question, often asked, What is the best age for procreation?</p> + +<p>The considerations which weigh in answering this question are of two +different orders, physiological, and social or moral. That is to say, that +it is necessary, on the one hand, that physical maturity should have been +fully attained, and the sexual cells completely developed; while, on the +other hand, it is necessary that the man shall have become able to support +a family, and that both partners shall have received a training in life +adequate to undertake the responsibilities and anxieties involved in the +rearing of children. While there have been variations at different times, +it scarcely appears that, on the whole, the general opinion as to the best +age for procreation has greatly varied in Europe during many centuries. +Hesiod indeed said that a woman should marry about fifteen and a man about +thirty,<a name='6_FNanchor_463'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_463'><sup>[463]</sup></a> but obstetricians have usually concluded that, in the +interests alike of the parents and their offspring, the procreative life +should not <a name='6_Page_634'></a>begin in women before twenty and in men before +twenty-five.<a name='6_FNanchor_464'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_464'><sup>[464]</sup></a> After thirty in women and after thirty-five or forty in +men it seems probable that the best conditions for procreation begin to +decline.<a name='6_FNanchor_465'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_465'><sup>[465]</sup></a> At the present time, in England and several other civilized +countries, the tendency has been for the age of marriage to fall at an +increasingly late age, on the average some years later than that usually +fixed as the most favorable age for the commencement of the procreative +life. But, on the whole, the average seldom departs widely from the +accepted standard, and there seems no good reason why we should desire to +modify this general tendency.</p> + +<div class='blkquot'><p>At the same time, it by no means follows that wide variations, + under special circumstances, may not only be permissible, but + desirable. The male is capable of procreating, in some cases, + from about the age of thirteen until far beyond eighty, and at + this advanced age, the offspring, even if not notable for great + physical robustness, may possess high intellectual qualities. + (See <i>e.g.</i>, Havelock Ellis, <i>A Study of British Genius</i>, pp. 120 + <i>et seq.</i>) The range of the procreative age in women begins + earlier (sometimes at eight), though it usually ceases by fifty, + or earlier, in only rare cases continuing to sixty or beyond. + Cases have been reported of pregnancy, or childbirth, at the age + of fifty-nine (<i>e.g.</i>, <i>Lancet</i>, Aug. 5, 1905, p. 419). Lepage + (<i>Comptes-rendus Société d'Obstétrique de Paris</i>, Oct., 1903) + reports a case of a primipara of fifty-seven; the child was + stillborn. Kisch (<i>Sexual Life of Woman</i>, Part II)<a name='6_Page_635'></a> refers to + cases of pregnancy in elderly women, and various references are + given in <i>British Medical Journal</i>, Aug. 8, 1903, p. 325.</p> + +<p> Of more importance is the question of early pregnancy. Several + investigators have devoted their attention to this question. + Thus, Spitta (in a Marburg Inaugural Dissertation, 1895) reviewed + the clinical history of 260 labors in primiparæ of 18 and under, + as observed at the Marburg Maternity. He found that the general + health during pregnancy was not below the average of pregnant + women, while the mortality of the child at birth and during the + following weeks was not high, and the mortality of the mother was + by no means high. Picard (in a Paris thesis, 1903) has studied + childbirth in thirty-eight mothers below the age of sixteen. He + found that, although the pelvis is certainly not yet fully + developed in very young girls, the joints and bones are much more + yielding than in the adult, so that parturition, far from being + more difficult, is usually rapid and easy. The process of labor + itself, is essentially normal in these cases, and, even when + abnormalities occur (low insertion of the placenta is a common + anomaly) it is remarkable that the patients do not suffer from + them in the way common among older women. The average weight of + the child was three kilogrammes, or about 6 pounds, 9 ounces; it + sometimes required special care during the first few days after + birth, perhaps because labor in these cases is sometimes slow. + The recovery of the mother was, in every case, absolutely normal, + and the fact that these young mothers become pregnant again more + readily than primiparæ of a more mature age, further contributes + to show that childbirth below the age of sixteen is in no way + injurious to the mother. Gache (<i>Annales de Gynécologie et + d'Obstétrique</i>, Dec., 1904) has attended ninety-one labors of + mothers under seventeen, in the Rawson Hospital, Buenos Ayres; + they were of so-called Latin race, mostly Spanish or Italian. + Gache found that these young mothers were by no means more + exposed than others to abortion or to other complications of + pregnancy. Except in four cases of slightly contracted pelvis, + delivery was normal, though rather longer than in older + primiparæ. Damage to the soft parts was, however, rare, and, when + it occurred, in every case rapidly healed. The average weight of + the child was 3,039 grammes, or nearly 6¾ pounds. It may be noted + that most observers find that very early pregnancies occur in + women who begin to menstruate at an unusually early age, that is, + some years before the early pregnancy occurs.</p> + +<p> It is clear, however, that young mothers do remarkably well, + while there is no doubt whatever that they bear unusually fine + infants. Kleinwächter, indeed, found that the younger the mother, + the bigger the child. It is not only physically that the children + of young mothers are superior. Marro has found (<i>Pubertà</i>, p. + 257) that the children of mothers under 21 are superior to those + of older mothers both in conduct <a name='6_Page_636'></a>and intelligence, provided the + fathers are not too old or too young. The detailed records of + individual cases confirm these results, both as regards mother + and child. Thus, Milner (<i>Lancet</i>, June 7, 1902) records a case + of pregnancy in a girl of fourteen; the labor pains were very + mild, and delivery was easy. E. B. Wales, of New Jersey, has + recorded the history (reproduced in <i>Medical Reprints</i>, Sept. 15, + 1890) of a colored girl who became pregnant at the age of eleven. + She was of medium size, rather tall and slender, but well + developed, and began to menstruate at the age of ten. She was in + good health and spirits during pregnancy, and able to work. + Delivery was easy and natural, not notably prolonged, and + apparently not unduly painful, for there were no moans or + agitation. The child was a fine, healthy boy, weighing not less + than eleven pounds. Mother and child both did well, and there was + a great flow of milk. Whiteside Robertson (<i>British Medical + Journal</i>, Jan. 18, 1902) has recorded a case of pregnancy at the + age of thirteen, in a Colonial girl of British origin in Cape + Colony, which is notable from other points of view. During + pregnancy, she was anæmic, and appeared to be of poor development + and doubtfully normal pelvic conformation. Yet delivery took + place naturally, at full term, without difficulty or injury, and + the lying-in period was in every way satisfactory. The baby was + well-proportioned, and weighed 7½ pounds. "I have rarely seen a + primipara enjoy easier labor," concluded Robertson, "and I have + never seen one look forward to the happy realization of + motherhood with greater satisfaction."</p> + +<p> The facts brought forward by obstetricians concerning the good + results of early pregnancy, as regards both mother and child, + have not yet received the attention they deserve. They are, + however, confirmed by many general tendencies which are now + fairly well recognized. The significant fact is known, for + instance, that in mothers over thirty, the proportion of + abortions and miscarriages is twice as great as in mothers + between the ages of fifteen and twenty, who also are superior in + this respect to mothers between the ages of twenty and thirty + (<i>Statistischer Jahrbuch</i>, Budapest, 1905). It was, again, proved + by Matthews Duncan, in his Goulstonian lecture, that the chances + of sterility in a woman increase with increase of age. It has, + further, been shown (Kisch, <i>Sexual Life of Woman</i>, Part II) that + the older a woman at marriage, the greater the average interval + before the first delivery, a tendency which seems to indicate + that it is the very young woman who is in the condition most apt + for procreation; Kisch is not, indeed, inclined to think that + this applies to women below twenty, but the fact, observed by + other obstetricians, that mothers under eighteen tend to become + pregnant again at an unusually short interval, goes far to + neutralize the exception made by Kisch. It may also be pointed + out that, among children of very young mothers, the sexes are + more nearly equal in number <a name='6_Page_637'></a>than is the case with older mothers. + This would seem to indicate that we are here in presence of a + normal equilibrium which will decrease as the age of the mother + is progressively disturbed in an abnormal direction.</p> + +<p> The facility of parturition at an early age, it may be noted, + corresponds to an equal facility in physical sexual intercourse, + a fact that is often overlooked. In Russia, where marriage still + takes place early, it was formerly common when the woman was only + twelve or thirteen, and Guttceit (<i>Dreissig Jahre Praxis</i>, vol. + i, p. 324) says that he was assured by women who married at this + age that the first coitus presented no especial difficulties.</p> + +<p> There is undoubtedly, at the present time, a considerable amount + of prejudice against early motherhood. In part, this is due to a + failure to realize that women are sexually much more precocious + than men, physically as well as psychically (see <i>ante</i> p. 35). + The difference is about five years. This difference has been + virtually recognized for thousands of years, in the ancient + belief that the age of election for procreation is about twenty, + or less, for women, but about twenty-five for men; and it has + more lately been affirmed by the discovery that, while the male + is never capable of generation before thirteen, the female may, + in occasional instances, become pregnant at eight. (Some of the + recorded examples are quoted by Kisch.) In part, also, there is + an objection to the assumption of responsibilities so serious as + those of motherhood by a young girl, and there is the very + reasonable feeling that the obligations of a permanent marriage + tie ought not to be undertaken at an early age. On the other + hand, apart from the physical advantages, as regards both mother + and infant, on the side of early pregnancies, it is an advantage + for the child to have a young mother, who can devote herself + sympathetically and unreservedly to its interests, instead of + presenting the pathetic spectacle we so often witness in the + middle-aged woman who turns to motherhood when her youth and + mental flexibility are gone, and her habits and tastes have + settled into other grooves; it has sometimes been a great + blessing even to the very greatest men, like Goethe, to have had + a youthful mother. It would also, in many cases, be a great + advantage for the woman herself if she could bring her + procreative life to an end well before the age of twenty-five, so + that she could then, unhampered by child-bearing and mature in + experience, be free to enter on such wider activities in the + world as she might be fitted for.</p> + +<p> Such an arrangement of the procreative life of women would, + obviously, only be a variation, and would probably be unsuited + for the majority. Every case must be judged on its own merits. + The best age for procreation will probably continue to be + regarded as being, for most women, around the age of twenty. But + at a time like the present, when <a name='6_Page_638'></a>there is an unfortunate + tendency for motherhood to be unduly delayed, it becomes + necessary to insist on the advantages, in many cases, of early + motherhood.</p></div> + +<p>There are other conditions favorable or unfavorable to procreation which +it is now unnecessary to discuss in detail, since they have already been +incidentally dealt with in previous volumes of these <i>Studies</i>. There is, +for instance, the question of the time of year and the time of the +menstrual cycle which may most properly be selected for procreation.<a name='6_FNanchor_466'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_466'><sup>[466]</sup></a> +The best period is probably that when sexual desire is strongest, which is +the period when conception would appear, as a matter of fact, most often +to occur. This would be in spring or early summer,<a name='6_FNanchor_467'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_467'><sup>[467]</sup></a> and immediately +after (or shortly before) the menstrual period. The Chinese have observed +that the last day of menstruation and the two following +days—corresponding to the period of œstrus—constitute the most +favorable time for fecundation, and Bossi, of Genoa, has found that the +great majority of successes in both natural and artificial fecundation +occur at this period.<a name='6_FNanchor_468'></a><a href='#6_Footnote_468'><sup>[468]</sup></a> Soranus, as well as the Talmud, assigned the +period about menstruation as the best for impregnation, and Susruta, the +Indian physician, said that at this time pregnancy most readily occurs +because then the mouth of the womb is open, like the flower of the +water-lily to the sunshine.</p> + +<p>We have now at last reached the point from which we started, the moment of +conception, and the child again lies in its mother's womb. There remains +no more to be said. The divine cycle of life is completed.</p> + +<hr /> + +<a name='6_Footnote_421'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_421'>[421]</a><div class='note'><p> Spencer and Gillen, <i>Northern Tribes of Central Australia</i>, +p. 330.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_422'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_422'>[422]</a><div class='note'><p> Academy of Medicine of Paris, March 31, 1908.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_423'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_423'>[423]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>The Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas</i>, vol. ii, +p. 405.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_424'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_424'>[424]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Population and Progress</i>, p. 41.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_425'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_425'>[425]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Cf.</i> Reibmayr, <i>Entwicklungsgeschichte des Talentes und +Genics</i>, Bd. II, p. 31.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_426'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_426'>[426]</a><div class='note'><p> "The debt that we owe to those who have gone before us," +says Haycraft (<i>Darwinism and Race Progress</i>, p. 160), "we can only repay +to those who come after us."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_427'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_427'>[427]</a><div class='note'><p> Mardrus, <i>Les Mille Nuits</i>, vol. xvi, p. 158.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_428'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_428'>[428]</a><div class='note'><p> Sidney Webb, <i>Popular Science Monthly</i>, 1906, p. 526 +(previously published in the <i>London Times</i>, Oct. 11, 16, 1906). In Ch. IX +of the present volume it has already been necessary to discuss the meaning +of the term, "morality."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_429'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_429'>[429]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus, in Paris, in 1906, in the rich quarters, the +birthrate per 1,000 inhabitants was 19.09; in well-to-do quarters, 22.51; +and in poor quarters, 29.70. Here we see that, while the birthrate falls +and rises with social class, even among the poor and least restrained +class the birthrate is still but little above the general average for +England, where prevention is widespread, and very considerably lower than +the average (now rapidly falling) in Germany. It is evident that even +among the poor class there is a process of leveling up to the higher +classes in this matter.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_430'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_430'>[430]</a><div class='note'><p> I have developed these points more in detail in two +articles in the <i>Independent Review</i>, November, 1903, and April, 1904. See +also, Bushee, "The Declining Birthrate and Its Causes," <i>Popular Science +Monthly</i>, Aug., 1903.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_431'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_431'>[431]</a><div class='note'><p> Francis Place, <i>Illustrations and Proofs of the Principle +of Population</i>, 1822, p. 165.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_432'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_432'>[432]</a><div class='note'><p> See, <i>e.g.</i>, a weighty chapter in the <i>Sexualleben und +Nervenleiden</i> of Löwenfeld, one of the most judicious authorities on +sexual pathology. Twenty-five years ago, as many will remember, the +medical student was usually taught that preventive methods of intercourse +led to all sorts of serious results. At that time, however, reckless and +undesirable methods of prevention seem to have been more prevalent than +now.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_433'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_433'>[433]</a><div class='note'><p> Michael Ryan, <i>Philosophy of Marriage</i>, p. 9. To enable +"the conservative power of the Creator" to exert itself on the myriads of +germinal human beings secreted during his life-time by even one man, would +require a world full of women, while the corresponding problem as regards +a woman is altogether too difficult to cope with. The process by which +life has been built up, far from being a process of universal +conservation, has been a process of stringent selection and vast +destruction; the progress effected by civilization merely lies in making +this blind process intelligent.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_434'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_434'>[434]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus, in Belgium, in 1908 (<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Feb., 1909, +p. 136), a physician (Dr. Mascaux) who had been prominent in promoting a +knowledge of preventive methods of conception, was condemned to three +months imprisonment for "offense against morality!" In such a case, Dr. +Helene Stöcker comments (<i>Die Neue Generation</i>, Jan., 1909, p. 7), +"morality" is another name for ignorance, timidity, hypocrisy, prudery, +coarseness, and lack of conscience. It must be remembered, however, in +explanation of this iniquitous judgment, that for some years past the +clerical party has been politically predominant in Belgium.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_435'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_435'>[435]</a><div class='note'><p> It has been objected that the condom cannot be used by the +very poorest, on account of its cost, but Hans Ferdy, in a detailed paper +(<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Dec., 1908), shows that the use of the condom can be +brought within the means of the very poorest, if care is taken to preserve +it under water when not in use. Nyström (<i>Sexual Probleme</i>, Nov., 1908, p. +736) has issued a leaflet for the benefit of his patients and others, +recommending the condom, and explaining its use.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_436'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_436'>[436]</a><div class='note'><p> Thus, Kisch, in his <i>Sexual Life of Woman</i>, after +discussing fully the various methods of prevention, decides in favor of +the condom. Fürbringer similarly (Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health and Disease +in Relation to Marriage</i>, vol. i, pp. 232 <i>et seq.</i>) concludes that the +condom is "relatively the most perfect anti-conceptual remedy." Forel +(<i>Die Sexuelle Frage</i>, pp. 457 <i>et seq.</i>) also discusses the question at +length; any æsthetic objection to the condom, Forel adds (p. 544), is due +to the fact that we are not accustomed to it; "eye-glasses are not +specially æsthetic, but the poetry of life does not suffer excessively +from their use, which, in many cases, cannot be dispensed with."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_437'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_437'>[437]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>L'Avortement</i>, p. 43.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_438'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_438'>[438]</a><div class='note'><p> There are some disputed points in Roman law and practice +concerning abortion; they are discussed in Balestrini's valuable book, +<i>Aborto</i>, pp. 30 <i>et seq.</i></p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_439'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_439'>[439]</a><div class='note'><p> Augustine, <i>De Civitate Dei</i>, Bk. XXII, Ch. XIII.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_440'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_440'>[440]</a><div class='note'><p> The development of opinion and law concerning abortion has +been traced by Eugène Bausset, <i>L'Avortement Criminel</i>, Thèse de Paris, +1907. For a summary of the practices of different peoples regarding +abortion, see W. G. Sumner, <i>Folkways</i>, Ch. VIII.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_441'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_441'>[441]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Die Neue Generation</i>, May, 1908, p. 192. It may be added +that in England the attachment of any penalty at all to abortion, +practiced in the early months of pregnancy (before "quickening" has taken +place), is merely a modern innovation.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_442'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_442'>[442]</a><div class='note'><p> Even Balestrini, who is opposed to the punishment of +abortion, is no advocate of it. "Whenever abortion becomes a social +custom," he remarks (<i>op. cit.</i>, p. 191), "it is the external +manifestation of a people's decadence, and far too deeply rooted to be +cured by the mere attempt to suppress the external manifestation."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_443'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_443'>[443]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Cf.</i> Ellen Key, <i>Century of the Child</i>, Ch. I. Hirth +(<i>Wege zur Heimat</i>, p. 526) is likewise opposed to the encouragement of +abortion, though he would not actually punish the pregnant woman who +induces abortion. I would especially call attention to an able and cogent +article by Anna Pappritz ("Die Vernichtung des Keimenden Lebens," +<i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, July, 1909) who argues that the woman is not the sole +guardian of the embryo she bears, and that it is not in the interests of +society, nor even in her own interests, that she should be free to destroy +it at will. Anna Pappritz admits that the present barbarous laws in regard +to abortion must be modified, but maintains that they should not be +abolished. She proposes (1) a greatly reduced punishment for abortion; (2) +this punishment to be extended to the father, whether married or unmarried +(a provision already carried out in Norway, both for abortion and +infanticide); (3) permission to the physician to effect abortion when +there is good reason to suspect hereditary degeneration, as well as when +the woman has been impregnated by force.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_444'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_444'>[444]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>Cf.</i> Dr. Max Hirsch, <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Jan., 1908, p. +23.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_445'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_445'>[445]</a><div class='note'><p> Bausset (<i>op. cit.</i>) sets forth various social measures for +the care of pregnant and child-bearing women, which would tend to lessen +criminal abortion.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_446'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_446'>[446]</a><div class='note'><p> Gomperz, <i>Greek Thinkers</i>, vol. i, p. 564.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_447'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_447'>[447]</a><div class='note'><p> F. E. Daniel, President of the State Medical Association of +Texas, "Should Insane Criminals or Sexual Perverts be Allowed to +Procreate?" <i>Medico-legal Journal</i>, Dec., 1893; <i>id.</i>, "The Cause and +Prevention of Rape," <i>Texas Medical Journal</i>, May, 1904.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_448'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_448'>[448]</a><div class='note'><p> P. Näcke, "Die Kastration bei gewissen Klassen von +Degenerirten als ein Wirksamer Socialer Schutz," <i>Archiv für +Kriminal-Anthropologie</i>, Bd. III, 1899, p. 58; <i>id.</i> "Kastration in +Gewissen Fällen von Geisteskrankheit," <i>Psychiatrisch-Neurologische +Wochenschrift</i>, 1905, No. 29.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_449'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_449'>[449]</a><div class='note'><p> Angelo Zuccarelli, "Asessualizzazione o sterilizzazione dei +Degenerati," <i>L'Anomalo</i>, 1898-99, No. 6; <i>id.</i>, "Sur la nécessité et sur +les Moyens d'empêcher la Réproduction des Hommes les plus Dégénérés," +International Congress Criminal Anthropology, Amsterdam, 1901.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_450'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_450'>[450]</a><div class='note'><p> Näcke, <i>Neurologisches Centralblatt</i>, March 1, 1909. The +original account of these operations is reproduced in the +<i>Psychiatrisch-Neurologische Wochenschrift</i>, No. 2, 1909, with an +approving comment by the editor, Dr. Bresler. As regards castration in +America, see Flood, "Castration of Idiot Children," <i>American Journal +Psychology</i>, Jan., 1899; also, <i>Alienist and Neurologist</i>, Aug., 1909, p. +348.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_451'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_451'>[451]</a><div class='note'><p> It is probable that castration may prove especially +advantageous in the case of the feeble-minded. "In Somersetshire," says +Tredgold ("The Feeble-Mind as a Social Danger," <i>Eugenics Review</i>, July, +1909), "I found that out of a total number of 167 feeble-minded women, +nearly two-fifths (61) had given birth to children, for the most part +illegitimate. Moreover, it is not uncommon, but, rather the rule, for +these poor girls to be admitted into the workhouse maternity wards again +and again, and the average number of offspring to each one of them is +probably three or four, although even six is not uncommon." In his work on +<i>Mental Deficiency</i> (pp. 288-292) the same author shows that propagation +by the mentally deficient is, in England, "both a terrible and extensive +evil."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_452'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_452'>[452]</a><div class='note'><p> This example is brought forward by Ledermann, "Skin +Diseases and Marriage," in Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health and Disease in +Relation to Marriage</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_453'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_453'>[453]</a><div class='note'><p> I may here again refer to Lea's instructive <i>History of +Sacerdotal Celibacy</i>.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_454'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_454'>[454]</a><div class='note'><p> In England, 35,000 applicants for admission to the navy are +annually rejected, and although the physical requirements for enlistment +in the army are nowadays extremely moderate, it is estimated by General +Maurice that at least sixty per cent. of recruits and would-be recruits +are dismissed as unfit. (See <i>e.g.</i>, William Coates, "The Duty of the +Medical Profession in the Prevention of National Deterioration," <i>British +Medical Journal</i>, May 1, 1909.) It can scarcely be claimed that men who +are not good enough for the army are good enough for the great task of +creating the future race.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_455'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_455'>[455]</a><div class='note'><p> The recognition of epilepsy as a bar to procreation is not +recent. There is said to be a record in the archives of the town of Luçon +in which epilepsy was adjudged to be a valid reason for the cancellation +of a betrothal (<i>British Medical Journal</i>, Feb. 14, 1903, p. 383).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_456'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_456'>[456]</a><div class='note'><p> <i>British Medical Journal</i>, April 14, 1906. In California +and some other States, it appears that deceit regarding health is a ground +for the annulment of marriage.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_457'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_457'>[457]</a><div class='note'><p> Sir F. Galton, <i>Inquiries Into Human Faculty</i>, Everyman's +Library edition, pp. 211 <i>et seq.</i>; <i>cf.</i> Galton's collected <i>Essays in +Eugenics</i>, recently published by the Eugenics Education Society.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_458'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_458'>[458]</a><div class='note'><p> For some account of the methods and results of the work in +schools, see Bertram C. A. Windle, "Anthropometric Work in Schools," +<i>Medical Magazine</i>, Feb., 1894.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_459'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_459'>[459]</a><div class='note'><p> The most notable steps in this direction have been taken in +Germany. For an account of the experiment at Karlsruhe, see <i>Die Neue +Generation</i>, Dec., 1908.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_460'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_460'>[460]</a><div class='note'><p> Wiethknudsen (as quoted in <i>Sexual-Probleme</i>, Dec., 1908, +p. 837) speaks strongly, but not too strongly, concerning the folly of any +indiscriminate endowment of procreation.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_461'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_461'>[461]</a><div class='note'><p> On the scientific side, in addition to the fruitful methods +of statistical biometrics, which have already been mentioned, much promise +attaches to work along the lines initiated by Mendel; see W. Bateson, +<i>Mendel's Principles of Heredity</i>, 1909; also, W. H. Lock, <i>Recent Progress +in the Study of Variation, Heredity, and Evolution</i>, and R. C. Punnett, +<i>Mendelism</i>, 1907 (American edition, with interesting preface by Gaylord +Wilshire, from the Socialistic point of view, 1909).</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_462'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_462'>[462]</a><div class='note'><p> The study of the right conditions for procreation is very +ancient. In modern times we find that even the very first French medical +book in the vulgar tongue, the <i>Régime du Corps</i>, written by Alebrand of +Florence (who was physician to the King of France), in 1256, is largely +devoted to this matter, concerning which it gives much sound advice. See +J. B. Soalhat, <i>Les Idées de Maistre Alebrand de Florence sur la +Puériculture</i>, Thèse de Paris, 1908.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_463'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_463'>[463]</a><div class='note'><p> Hesiod, <i>Works and Days</i>, II, 690-700.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_464'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_464'>[464]</a><div class='note'><p> This has long been the accepted opinion of medical +authorities, as may be judged by the statements brought together two +centuries ago by Schurig, <i>Parthenologia</i>, pp. 22-25.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_465'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_465'>[465]</a><div class='note'><p> The statement that, on the average, the best age for +procreation in men is before, rather than after, forty, by no means +assumes the existence of any "critical" age in men analogous to the +menopause in women. This is sometimes asserted, but there is no agreement +in regard to it. Restif de la Bretonne (<i>Monsieur Nicolas</i>, vol. x, p. +176) said that at the age of forty delicacy of sentiment begins to go. +Fürbringer believes (Senator and Kaminer, <i>Health and Disease in Relation +to Marriage</i>, vol. i, p. 222) that there is a decisive turn in a man's +life in the sixth decade, or the middle of the fifth, when desire and +potency diminish. J. F. Sutherland also states (<i>Comptes-rendus Congrès +International de Médecine</i>, 1900, Section de Psychiatrie, p. 471) that +there is, in men, about the fifty-fifth year, a change analogous to the +menopause in women, but only in a certain proportion of men. It would +appear that in most men the decline of sexual feeling and potency is very +gradual, and at first manifests itself in increased power of control.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_466'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_466'>[466]</a><div class='note'><p> See, in vol. i, the study of "The Phenomena of Sexual +Periodicity."</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_467'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_467'>[467]</a><div class='note'><p> Among animals, also, spring litters are often said to be +the best.</p></div> + +<a name='6_Footnote_468'></a><a href='#6_FNanchor_468'>[468]</a><div class='note'><p> Bossi's results are summarized in <i>Archives d'Anthropologie +Criminelle</i>, Sept., 1891. Alebrand of Florence, the French King's +physician in the thirteenth century, also advised intercourse a day after +the end of menstruation.</p></div> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_POSTSCRIPT'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_639'></a>POSTSCRIPT.</h2> +<br /> + +<p>"The work that I was born to do is done," a great poet wrote when at last +he had completed his task. And although I am not entitled to sing any +<i>Nunc dimittis</i>, I am well aware that the task that has occupied the best +part of my life can have left few years and little strength for any work +that comes after. It is more than thirty years ago since the first resolve +to write the work now here concluded began to shape itself, still dimly +though insistently; the period of study and preparation occupied over +fifteen years, ending with the publication of <i>Man and Woman</i>, put forward +as a prolegomenon to the main work which, in the writing and publication, +has occupied the fifteen subsequent years.</p> + +<p>It was perhaps fortunate for my peace that I failed at the outset to +foresee all the perils that beset my path. I knew indeed that those who +investigate severely and intimately any subject which men are accustomed +to pass by on the other side lay themselves open to misunderstanding and +even obloquy. But I supposed that a secluded student who approached vital +social problems with precaution, making no direct appeal to the general +public, but only to the public's teachers, and who wrapped up the results +of his inquiries in technically written volumes open to few, I supposed +that such a student was at all events secure from any gross form of attack +on the part of the police or the government under whose protection he +imagined that he lived. That proved to be a mistake. When only one volume +of these <i>Studies</i> had been written and published in England, a +prosecution, <a name='6_Page_640'></a>instigated by the government, put an end to the sale of that +volume in England, and led me to resolve that the subsequent volumes +should not be published in my own country. I do not complain. I am +grateful for the early and generous sympathy with which my work was +received in Germany and the United States, and I recognize that it has had +a wider circulation, both in English and the other chief languages of the +world, than would have been possible by the modest method of issue which +the government of my own country induced me to abandon. Nor has the effort +to crush my work resulted in any change in that work by so much as a +single word. With help, or without it, I have followed my own path to the +end.</p> + +<p>For it so happens that I come on both sides of my house from stocks of +Englishmen who, nearly three hundred years ago, had encountered just these +same difficulties and dangers before. In the seventeenth century, indeed, +the battle was around the problem of religion, as to-day it is around the +problem of sex. Since I have of late years realized this analogy I have +often thought of certain admirable and obscure men who were driven out, +robbed, and persecuted, some by the Church because the spirit of +Puritanism moved within them, some by the Puritans because they clung to +the ideals of the Church, yet both alike quiet and unflinching, both alike +fighting for causes of freedom or of order in a field which has now for +ever been won. That victory has often seemed of good augury to the perhaps +degenerate child of these men who has to-day sought to maintain the causes +of freedom and of order in another field.</p> + +<p>It sometimes seems, indeed, a hopeless task to move the pressure of inert +prejudices which are at no point so <a name='6_Page_641'></a>obstinate as this of sex. It may help +to restore the serenity of our optimism if we would more clearly realize +that in a very few generations all these prejudices will have perished and +be forgotten. He who follows in the steps of Nature after a law that was +not made by man, and is above and beyond man, has time as well as eternity +on his side, and can afford to be both patient and fearless. Men die, but +the ideas they seek to kill live. Our books may be thrown to the flames, +but in the next generation those flames become human souls. The +transformation is effected by the doctor in his consulting room, by the +teacher in the school, the preacher in the pulpit, the journalist in the +press. It is a transformation that is going on, slowly but surely, around +us.</p> + +<p>I am well aware that many will not feel able to accept the estimate of the +sexual situation as here set forth, more especially in the final volume. +Some will consider that estimate too conservative, others too +revolutionary. For there are always some who passionately seek to hold +fast to the past; there are always others who passionately seek to snatch +at what they imagine to be the future. But the wise man, standing midway +between both parties and sympathizing with each, knows that we are ever in +the stage of transition. The present is in every age merely the shifting +point at which past and future meet, and we can have no quarrel with +either. There can be no world without traditions; neither can there be any +life without movement. As Heracleitus knew at the outset of modern +philosophy, we cannot bathe twice in the same stream, though, as we know +to-day, the stream still flows in an unending circle. There is never a +moment when the new dawn is not breaking over the earth, and never a +moment when the sunset ceases to die.<a name='6_Page_642'></a> It is well to greet serenely even +the first glimmer of the dawn when we see it, not hastening towards it +with undue speed, nor leaving the sunset without gratitude for the dying +light that once was dawn.</p> + +<p>In the moral world we are ourselves the light-bearers, and the cosmic +process is in us made flesh. For a brief space it is granted to us, if we +will, to enlighten the darkness that surrounds our path. As in the ancient +torch-race, which seemed to Lucretius to be the symbol of all life, we +press forward torch in hand along the course. Soon from behind comes the +runner who will outpace us. All our skill lies in giving into his hand the +living torch, bright and unflickering, as we ourselves disappear in the +darkness.</p> + +<p>HAVELOCK ELLIS.</p> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_INDEX_OF_AUTHORS'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_643'></a>INDEX OF AUTHORS.</h2> + + +<ul><li>Abdias, <a href='#6_Page_158'>158</a>.</li> +<li>Achery, <a href='#6_Page_24'>24</a>, <a href='#6_Page_270'>270</a>.</li> +<li>Acton, <a href='#6_Page_191'>191</a>, <a href='#6_Page_261'>261</a>, <a href='#6_Page_270'>270</a>.</li> +<li>Adam, Mme., <a href='#6_Page_79'>79</a>, <a href='#6_Page_411'>411</a>, <a href='#6_Page_465'>465</a>.</li> +<li>Adler, Felix, <a href='#6_Page_485'>485</a>.</li> +<li>Adler, O., <a href='#6_Page_523'>523</a>, <a href='#6_Page_525'>525</a>, <a href='#6_Page_527'>527</a>, <a href='#6_Page_546'>546</a>.</li> +<li>Adner, <a href='#6_Page_456'>456</a>.</li> +<li>Aguilaniedo, <a href='#6_Page_260'>260</a>, <a href='#6_Page_265'>265</a>, <a href='#6_Page_266'>266</a>, <a href='#6_Page_300'>300</a>, <a href='#6_Page_305'>305</a>.</li> +<li>Alebrand, <a href='#6_Page_633'>633</a>, <a href='#6_Page_638'>638</a>.</li> +<li>Alexander, Dr. H., <a href='#6_Page_278'>278</a>, <a href='#6_Page_591'>591</a>.</li> +<li>Alexandre, Alcide, <a href='#6_Page_30'>30</a>.</li> +<li>Allée, A., <a href='#6_Page_27'>27</a>.</li> +<li>Allen, L. M., <a href='#6_Page_9'>9</a>.</li> +<li>Allen, Mary W., <a href='#6_Page_49'>49</a>, <a href='#6_Page_50'>50</a>.</li> +<li>Ambrose, St., <a href='#6_Page_158'>158</a>.</li> +<li>Amélineau, <a href='#6_Page_43'>43</a>.</li> +<li>Ammon, <a href='#6_Page_209'>209</a>.</li> +<li>Amram, D. W., <a href='#6_Page_394'>394</a>.</li> +<li>Angela de Fulginio, <a href='#6_Page_153'>153</a>.</li> +<li>Angus, H. C., <a href='#6_Page_88'>88</a>, <a href='#6_Page_515'>515</a>.</li> +<li>Anstie, <a href='#6_Page_187'>187</a>, <a href='#6_Page_188'>188</a>, <a href='#6_Page_189'>189</a>.</li> +<li>Aquinas, <a href='#6_Page_16'>16</a>, <a href='#6_Page_168'>168</a>, <a href='#6_Page_180'>180</a>, <a href='#6_Page_220'>220</a>, <a href='#6_Page_283'>283</a>.</li> +<li>Ardu, <a href='#6_Page_278'>278</a>.</li> +<li>Arendt, Henrietta, <a href='#6_Page_260'>260</a>.</li> +<li>Aretino, <a href='#6_Page_558'>558</a>.</li> +<li>Aristotle, <a href='#6_Page_167'>167</a>, <a href='#6_Page_222'>222</a>, <a href='#6_Page_604'>604</a>.</li> +<li>Aronstam, <a href='#6_Page_625'>625</a>.</li> +<li>Ascarilla, <a href='#6_Page_278'>278</a>.</li> +<li>Aschaffenburg, <a href='#6_Page_259'>259</a>, <a href='#6_Page_268'>268</a>.</li> +<li>Astengo, <a href='#6_Page_9'>9</a>.</li> +<li>Astor, Mary, <a href='#6_Page_397'>397</a>.</li> +<li>Astruc, <a href='#6_Page_322'>322</a>.</li> +<li>Athanasius, <a href='#6_Page_128'>128</a>.</li> +<li>Athenæus, <a href='#6_Page_95'>95</a>, <a href='#6_Page_230'>230</a>.</li> +<li>Audry, <a href='#6_Page_327'>327</a>.</li> +<li>Augagneur, <a href='#6_Page_191'>191</a>.</li> +<li>Augustine, St., <a href='#6_Page_16'>16</a>, <a href='#6_Page_96'>96</a>, <a href='#6_Page_98'>98</a>, <a href='#6_Page_123'>123</a>, <a href='#6_Page_125'>125</a>, <a href='#6_Page_126'>126</a>, <a href='#6_Page_132'>132</a>, <a href='#6_Page_167'>167</a>, <a href='#6_Page_168'>168</a>, <a href='#6_Page_232'>232</a>, <a href='#6_Page_282'>282</a>, <a href='#6_Page_399'>399</a>, <a href='#6_Page_432'>432</a>, <a href='#6_Page_604'>604</a>.</li> +<li>Aurientis, <a href='#6_Page_347'>347</a>.</li> +<li>Ayala, <a href='#6_Page_322'>322</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Bacchimont, <a href='#6_Page_11'>11</a>.</li> +<li>Bachaumont, <a href='#6_Page_600'>600</a>.</li> +<li>Badley, J. H., <a href='#6_Page_49'>49</a>, <a href='#6_Page_53'>53</a>.</li> +<li>Baelz, <a href='#6_Page_108'>108</a>.</li> +<li>Baer, K. M., <a href='#6_Page_303'>303</a>.</li> +<li>Baker, Smith, <a href='#6_Page_459'>459</a>, <a href='#6_Page_521'>521</a>.</li> +<li>Balestrini, <a href='#6_Page_604'>604</a>, <a href='#6_Page_608'>608</a>, <a href='#6_Page_610'>610</a>.</li> +<li>Ballantyne, Dr., <a href='#6_Page_9'>9</a>, <a href='#6_Page_11'>11</a>, <a href='#6_Page_584'>584</a>, <a href='#6_Page_605'>605</a>.</li> +<li>Ballantyne, Miss H., <a href='#6_Page_76'>76</a>.</li> +<li>Balls-Headley, <a href='#6_Page_188'>188</a>.</li> +<li>Balzac, <a href='#6_Page_281'>281</a>, <a href='#6_Page_525'>525</a>, <a href='#6_Page_539'>539</a>.</li> +<li>Bangs, L. B., <a href='#6_Page_551'>551</a>.</li> +<li>Bartels, Max, <a href='#6_Page_14'>14</a>, <a href='#6_Page_41'>41</a>.</li> +<li>Basedow, <a href='#6_Page_56'>56</a>.</li> +<li>Basil, St., <a href='#6_Page_167'>167</a>.</li> +<li>Bateson, <a href='#6_Page_585'>585</a>, <a href='#6_Page_630'>630</a>.</li> +<li>Baumgarten, <a href='#6_Page_266'>266</a>, <a href='#6_Page_274'>274</a>.</li> +<li>Bausset, <a href='#6_Page_605'>605</a>, <a href='#6_Page_611'>611</a>.</li> +<li>Bax, Belfort, <a href='#6_Page_363'>363</a>, <a href='#6_Page_474'>474</a>.</li> +<li>Bazan, Emilia Pardo, <a href='#6_Page_91'>91</a>.</li> +<li>Beadnell, C. M., <a href='#6_Page_88'>88</a>.</li> +<li>Beddoes, <a href='#6_Page_50'>50</a>, <a href='#6_Page_56'>56</a>.</li> +<li>Bedollière, <a href='#6_Page_195'>195</a>, <a href='#6_Page_462'>462</a>, <a href='#6_Page_517'>517</a>.</li> +<li>Bell, Sanford, <a href='#6_Page_37'>37</a>, <a href='#6_Page_38'>38</a>, <a href='#6_Page_528'>528</a>.</li> +<li>Benecke, <a href='#6_Page_134'>134</a>, <a href='#6_Page_234'>234</a>.</li> +<li>Benedikt, <a href='#6_Page_537'>537</a>.</li> +<li>Bentzon, Mme., <a href='#6_Page_519'>519</a>.</li> +<li>Bérault, G., <a href='#6_Page_252'>252</a>, <a href='#6_Page_287'>287</a>.</li> +<li>Berg, Leo, <a href='#6_Page_89'>89</a>.</li> +<li>Bernard, St., <a href='#6_Page_119'>119</a>.</li> +<li>Berry, F., <a href='#6_Page_73'>73</a>.</li> +<li>Bertherand, <a href='#6_Page_233'>233</a>.</li> +<li>Bertillon, <a href='#6_Page_625'>625</a>.</li> +<li>Besant, Mrs., <a href='#6_Page_446'>446</a>.</li> +<li>Beza, <a href='#6_Page_441'>441</a>, <a href='#6_Page_442'>442</a>.</li> +<li>Bierhoff, <a href='#6_Page_333'>333</a>.</li> +<li>Birnbaum, <a href='#6_Page_564'>564</a>.</li> +<li>Bishop, G. P., <a href='#6_Page_448'>448</a>, <a href='#6_Page_452'>452</a>, <a href='#6_Page_478'>478</a>.</li> +<li>Bishop, Mrs., <a href='#6_Page_108'>108</a>.</li> +<li>Blacker, <a href='#6_Page_24'>24</a>, <a href='#6_Page_597'>597</a>.</li> +<li>Blake, William, <a href='#6_Page_86'>86</a>, <a href='#6_Page_101'>101</a>, <a href='#6_Page_144'>144</a>.</li> +<li>Blandford, <a href='#6_Page_61'>61</a>, <a href='#6_Page_597'>597</a>.</li> +<li>Blaschko, <a href='#6_Page_251'>251</a>, <a href='#6_Page_253'>253</a>, <a href='#6_Page_266'>266</a>.</li> +<li>Bloch, Iwan, +<ul><li> <a href='#6_Page_36'>36</a>, <a href='#6_Page_54'>54</a>, <a href='#6_Page_103'>103</a>, <a href='#6_Page_120'>120</a>, <a href='#6_Page_135'>135</a>, <a href='#6_Page_195'>195</a>, <a href='#6_Page_241'>241</a>, <a href='#6_Page_243'>243</a>, <a href='#6_Page_280'>280</a>, <a href='#6_Page_289'>289</a>, <a href='#6_Page_291'>291</a>, <a href='#6_Page_301'>301</a>, </li> +<li> <a href='#6_Page_303'>303</a>, <a href='#6_Page_310'>310</a>, <a href='#6_Page_320'>320</a>, <a href='#6_Page_323'>323</a>, <a href='#6_Page_332'>332</a>, <a href='#6_Page_352'>352</a>, <a href='#6_Page_374'>374</a>, <a href='#6_Page_381'>381</a>, <a href='#6_Page_416'>416</a>, <a href='#6_Page_457'>457</a>, <a href='#6_Page_464'>464</a>, <a href='#6_Page_496'>496</a>, <a href='#6_Page_510'>510</a>, </li> +<li> <a href='#6_Page_513'>513</a>, <a href='#6_Page_517'>517</a>, <a href='#6_Page_530'>530</a>, <a href='#6_Page_545'>545</a>, <a href='#6_Page_557'>557</a>, <a href='#6_Page_562'>562</a>, <a href='#6_Page_569'>569</a>, <a href='#6_Page_600'>600</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Bluhm, Agnes, <a href='#6_Page_15'>15</a>.</li> +<li>Blumreich, <a href='#6_Page_552'>552</a>.</li> +<li>Boccaccio, <a href='#6_Page_514'>514</a>.</li> +<li>Bohier, <a href='#6_Page_533'>533</a>.</li> +<li>Bois, Jules, <a href='#6_Page_235'>235</a>.</li> +<li>Boissier, de Sauvages, <a href='#6_Page_513'>513</a>.</li> +<li>Bollinger, <a href='#6_Page_27'>27</a>.</li> +<li>Bölsche, <a href='#6_Page_107'>107</a>.</li> +<li>Bonger, <a href='#6_Page_225'>225</a>, <a href='#6_Page_259'>259</a>, <a href='#6_Page_264'>264</a>, <a href='#6_Page_291'>291</a>.</li> +<li>Bongi, S., <a href='#6_Page_245'>245</a>.</li> +<li>Bonhoeffer, <a href='#6_Page_277'>277</a>.</li> +<li>Boniface, St., <a href='#6_Page_295'>295</a>.</li> +<li>Bonnifield, <a href='#6_Page_187'>187</a>.</li> +<li>Bonstetten, <a href='#6_Page_136'>136</a>.</li> +<li>Booth, C., <a href='#6_Page_261'>261</a>, <a href='#6_Page_289'>289</a>, <a href='#6_Page_303'>303</a>, <a href='#6_Page_388'>388</a>.</li> +<li>Booth, D. S., <a href='#6_Page_551'>551</a>.</li> +<li>Bossi, <a href='#6_Page_638'>638</a>.</li> +<li>Bouchacourt, <a href='#6_Page_7'>7</a>, <a href='#6_Page_9'>9</a>, <a href='#6_Page_17'>17</a>, <a href='#6_Page_19'>19</a>.</li> +<li>Bougainville, <a href='#6_Page_149'>149</a>.</li> +<li>Bourget, <a href='#6_Page_79'>79</a>.</li> +<li>Bouvier, <a href='#6_Page_590'>590</a>.</li> +<li>Boyle, F., <a href='#6_Page_105'>105</a>.</li> +<li>Brachet, <a href='#6_Page_186'>186</a>.</li> +<li>Braun, Lily, <a href='#6_Page_4'>4</a>, <a href='#6_Page_400'>400</a>.</li> +<li>Brénier de Montmorand, <a href='#6_Page_153'>153</a>.</li> +<li>Brénot, H., <a href='#6_Page_19'>19</a>.</li> +<li>Breuer, <a href='#6_Page_526'>526</a>.</li> +<li>Brieux, <a href='#6_Page_357'>357</a>.</li> +<li>Brinton, <a href='#6_Page_134'>134</a>.</li> +<li>Brouardel, <a href='#6_Page_601'>601</a>, <a href='#6_Page_602'>602</a>.</li> +<li>Brougham Lord, <a href='#6_Page_91'>91</a>.</li> +<li>Brown, Dr. Charlotte, <a href='#6_Page_74'>74</a>.</li> +<li>Bruns, Ivo, <a href='#6_Page_308'>308</a>.</li> +<li>Brynmor-Jones, <a href='#6_Page_380'>380</a>, <a href='#6_Page_392'>392</a>, <a href='#6_Page_461'>461</a>.</li> +<li>Bucer, <a href='#6_Page_441'>441</a>.</li> +<li>Budge, A. 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E., <a href='#6_Page_123'>123</a>, <a href='#6_Page_145'>145</a>, <a href='#6_Page_221'>221</a>, <a href='#6_Page_371'>371</a>, <a href='#6_Page_393'>393</a>, <a href='#6_Page_398'>398</a>, <a href='#6_Page_424'>424</a>, <a href='#6_Page_425'>425</a>, <a href='#6_Page_435'>435</a>.</li> +<li>Crocker, <a href='#6_Page_326'>326</a>.</li> +<li>Curr, <a href='#6_Page_390'>390</a>.</li> +<li>Gushing, W., <a href='#6_Page_331'>331</a>.</li> +<li>Cyples, <a href='#6_Page_223'>223</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Daniel, F. 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K., <a href='#6_Page_262'>262</a>.</li> +<li>Schopenhauer, <a href='#6_Page_137'>137</a>, <a href='#6_Page_281'>281</a>, <a href='#6_Page_320'>320</a>, <a href='#6_Page_492'>492</a>.</li> +<li>Schrader, O., <a href='#6_Page_383'>383</a>, <a href='#6_Page_403'>403</a>.</li> +<li>Schrank, <a href='#6_Page_241'>241</a>, <a href='#6_Page_295'>295</a>.</li> +<li>Schreiber, Adele, <a href='#6_Page_200'>200</a>, <a href='#6_Page_427'>427</a>.</li> +<li>Schreiner, Olive, <a href='#6_Page_408'>408</a>.</li> +<li>Schrempf, <a href='#6_Page_570'>570</a>.</li> +<li>Schrenck-Notzing, <a href='#6_Page_182'>182</a>, <a href='#6_Page_599'>599</a>.</li> +<li>Schroeder, E. A., <a href='#6_Page_27'>27</a>, <a href='#6_Page_370'>370</a>.</li> +<li>Schroeder, T., <a href='#6_Page_54'>54</a>, <a href='#6_Page_224'>224</a>, <a href='#6_Page_498'>498</a>.</li> +<li>Schultz, Alwyn, <a href='#6_Page_98'>98</a>, <a href='#6_Page_163'>163</a>, <a href='#6_Page_537'>537</a>.</li> +<li>Schultze-Malkowsky, E., <a href='#6_Page_36'>36</a>.</li> +<li>Schurig, <a href='#6_Page_182'>182</a>, <a href='#6_Page_533'>533</a>, <a href='#6_Page_535'>535</a>, <a href='#6_Page_634'>634</a>.</li> +<li>Schurtz, H., <a href='#6_Page_227'>227</a>, <a href='#6_Page_228'>228</a>, <a href='#6_Page_309'>309</a>.</li> +<li>Schwalbe, <a href='#6_Page_632'>632</a>.</li> +<li>Scott, Colin, <a href='#6_Page_170'>170</a>.</li> +<li>Scott, J. F., <a href='#6_Page_184'>184</a>, <a href='#6_Page_191'>191</a>, <a href='#6_Page_602'>602</a>.</li> +<li>Ségur, <a href='#6_Page_397'>397</a>.</li> +<li>Seligmann, <a href='#6_Page_68'>68</a>.</li> +<li>Sellman, W. A. B., <a href='#6_Page_74'>74</a>.</li> +<li>Sénancour, <a href='#6_Page_80'>80</a>, <a href='#6_Page_98'>98</a>, <a href='#6_Page_102'>102</a>, <a href='#6_Page_164'>164</a>, <a href='#6_Page_167'>167</a>, <a href='#6_Page_376'>376</a>, <a href='#6_Page_415'>415</a>, <a href='#6_Page_495'>495</a>, <a href='#6_Page_500'>500</a>, <a href='#6_Page_547'>547</a>.</li> +<li>Seneca, <a href='#6_Page_220'>220</a>.</li> +<li>Séropian, <a href='#6_Page_9'>9</a>, <a href='#6_Page_19'>19</a>.</li> +<li>Sévigné, Mme. de, <a href='#6_Page_600'>600</a>.</li> +<li>Seymour, H. J., <a href='#6_Page_620'>620</a>.</li> +<li>Shakespeare, <a href='#6_Page_564'>564</a>.</li> +<li>Shaw, G. B., <a href='#6_Page_358'>358</a>.</li> +<li>Shebbeare, Rev. C. J., <a href='#6_Page_526'>526</a>.</li> +<li>Shelley, <a href='#6_Page_144'>144</a>.</li> +<li>Sherwell, <a href='#6_Page_259'>259</a>, <a href='#6_Page_265'>265</a>, <a href='#6_Page_289'>289</a>, <a href='#6_Page_294'>294</a>.</li> +<li>Shufeldt, <a href='#6_Page_93'>93</a>, <a href='#6_Page_97'>97</a>, <a href='#6_Page_114'>114</a>, <a href='#6_Page_422'>422</a>, <a href='#6_Page_465'>465</a>, <a href='#6_Page_471'>471</a>, <a href='#6_Page_483'>483</a>.</li> +<li>Sidgwick, H., <a href='#6_Page_170'>170</a>, <a href='#6_Page_225'>225</a>, <a href='#6_Page_366'>366</a>, <a href='#6_Page_367'>367</a>.</li> +<li>Sidis, Boris, <a href='#6_Page_78'>78</a>.</li> +<li>Sieroshevski, <a href='#6_Page_147'>147</a>.</li> +<li>Simmel, <a href='#6_Page_299'>299</a>.</li> +<li>Simon, Helene, <a href='#6_Page_70'>70</a>.</li> +<li>Sinclair, Sir W., <a href='#6_Page_11'>11</a>.</li> +<li>Smith, Robertson, <a href='#6_Page_228'>228</a>, <a href='#6_Page_392'>392</a>.</li> +<li>Soalhat, <a href='#6_Page_633'>633</a>.</li> +<li>Somerset, Lady Henry, <a href='#6_Page_587'>587</a>.</li> +<li>Sommer, R., <a href='#6_Page_58'>58</a>, <a href='#6_Page_108'>108</a>.</li> +<li>Soranus, <a href='#6_Page_18'>18</a>, <a href='#6_Page_638'>638</a>.</li> +<li>Spencer, Baldwin, <a href='#6_Page_87'>87</a>, <a href='#6_Page_221'>221</a>, <a href='#6_Page_392'>392</a>, <a href='#6_Page_424'>424</a>, <a href='#6_Page_576'>576</a>.</li> +<li>Spencer, Herbert, <a href='#6_Page_135'>135</a>, <a href='#6_Page_317'>317</a>.</li> +<li>Spitta, <a href='#6_Page_635'>635</a>.</li> +<li>Stanmore, Lord, <a href='#6_Page_100'>100</a>, <a href='#6_Page_406'>406</a>.</li> +<li>Stefanowski, <a href='#6_Page_564'>564</a>.</li> +<li>Stefánsson, <a href='#6_Page_461'>461</a>.</li> +<li>Stevenson, R. L., <a href='#6_Page_406'>406</a>.</li> +<li>Stevenson, T. H. C., <a href='#6_Page_590'>590</a>.</li> +<li>Stöcker, Helene, <a href='#6_Page_200'>200</a>, <a href='#6_Page_375'>375</a>, <a href='#6_Page_405'>405</a>, <a href='#6_Page_419'>419</a>, <a href='#6_Page_573'>573</a>, <a href='#6_Page_587'>587</a>, <a href='#6_Page_598'>598</a>.</li> +<li>Strampff, <a href='#6_Page_441'>441</a>.</li> +<li>Stratz, C. H., <a href='#6_Page_93'>93</a>, <a href='#6_Page_103'>103</a>, <a href='#6_Page_109'>109</a>.</li> +<li>Streitberg, Gräfin, <a href='#6_Page_607'>607</a>.</li> +<li>Ströhmberg, <a href='#6_Page_259'>259</a>, <a href='#6_Page_268'>268</a>.</li> +<li>Sturge, Miss, <a href='#6_Page_70'>70</a>.</li> +<li>Suidas, <a href='#6_Page_557'>557</a>.</li> +<li>Sullivan, W. C., <a href='#6_Page_15'>15</a>.</li> +<li>Sumner, W. G., <a href='#6_Page_229'>229</a>, <a href='#6_Page_370'>370</a>, <a href='#6_Page_400'>400</a>, <a href='#6_Page_605'>605</a>.</li> +<li>Susruta, <a href='#6_Page_532'>532</a>, <a href='#6_Page_638'>638</a>.</li> +<li>Sutherland, J. F., <a href='#6_Page_634'>634</a>.</li> +<li>Sutherland, W. D., <a href='#6_Page_16'>16</a>, <a href='#6_Page_552'>552</a>.</li> +<li>Sykes, J. F. J., <a href='#6_Page_5'>5</a>, <a href='#6_Page_30'>30</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Tait, W., <a href='#6_Page_270'>270</a>, <a href='#6_Page_292'>292</a>, <a href='#6_Page_294'>294</a>.</li> +<li>Talbot, E. S., <a href='#6_Page_278'>278</a>.</li> +<li>Tammeo, <a href='#6_Page_275'>275</a>.</li> +<li>Tarde, <a href='#6_Page_120'>120</a>, <a href='#6_Page_131'>131</a>, <a href='#6_Page_141'>141</a>, <a href='#6_Page_310'>310</a>, <a href='#6_Page_376'>376</a>, <a href='#6_Page_426'>426</a>, <a href='#6_Page_574'>574</a>.</li> +<li>Tarnowsky, Pauline, <a href='#6_Page_277'>277</a>.</li> +<li>Taylor, R. W., <a href='#6_Page_312'>312</a>, <a href='#6_Page_525'>525</a>, <a href='#6_Page_552'>552</a>.</li> +<li>Tenney, <a href='#6_Page_330'>330</a>.</li> +<li>Tennyson, <a href='#6_Page_427'>427</a>.</li> +<li>Terman, L. M., <a href='#6_Page_35'>35</a>.</li> +<li>Tertullian, <a href='#6_Page_96'>96</a>, <a href='#6_Page_127'>127</a>.</li> +<li>Theresa, W., <a href='#6_Page_169'>169</a>.</li> +<li>Thomas, A. W., <a href='#6_Page_589'>589</a>.</li> +<li>Thomas, N. W., <a href='#6_Page_424'>424</a>.</li> +<li>Thomas, Prof. W., <a href='#6_Page_140'>140</a>, <a href='#6_Page_495'>495</a>, <a href='#6_Page_572'>572</a>.</li> +<li>Thomson, J. A., <a href='#6_Page_585'>585</a>.</li> +<li>Thoreau, <a href='#6_Page_103'>103</a>, <a href='#6_Page_143'>143</a>.</li> +<li>Thuasne, <a href='#6_Page_163'>163</a>, <a href='#6_Page_243'>243</a>.</li> +<li>Tilt, <a href='#6_Page_65'>65</a>, <a href='#6_Page_187'>187</a>.</li> +<li>Tobler, <a href='#6_Page_68'>68</a>.</li> +<li>Todhunter, <a href='#6_Page_144'>144</a>.</li> +<li>Tolstoy, <a href='#6_Page_564'>564</a>.</li> +<li>Tout, C. Hill, <a href='#6_Page_145'>145</a>.<a name='6_Page_649'></a></li> +<li>Traill, <a href='#6_Page_498'>498</a>.</li> +<li>Tredgold, <a href='#6_Page_597'>597</a>, <a href='#6_Page_616'>616</a>.</li> +<li>Trewby, <a href='#6_Page_54'>54</a>.</li> +<li>Troll-Borostyáni I. von, <a href='#6_Page_260'>260</a>.</li> +<li>Trollope, A., <a href='#6_Page_299'>299</a>.</li> +<li>Turnbull, <a href='#6_Page_150'>150</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Ulpian, <a href='#6_Page_224'>224</a>, <a href='#6_Page_396'>396</a>.</li> +<li>Ungewitter, <a href='#6_Page_105'>105</a>, <a href='#6_Page_107'>107</a>, <a href='#6_Page_112'>112</a>, <a href='#6_Page_114'>114</a>, <a href='#6_Page_115'>115</a>.</li> +<li>Unna, <a href='#6_Page_324'>324</a>.</li> +<li>Urquhart, <a href='#6_Page_627'>627</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Vacher de Lapouge, <a href='#6_Page_581'>581</a>.</li> +<li>Valentino, <a href='#6_Page_545'>545</a>.</li> +<li>Valera, <a href='#6_Page_524'>524</a>.</li> +<li>Vanderkiste, <a href='#6_Page_291'>291</a>.</li> +<li>Varendonck, <a href='#6_Page_77'>77</a>.</li> +<li>Vatsyayana, <a href='#6_Page_539'>539</a>, <a href='#6_Page_544'>544</a>.</li> +<li>Vaux, Rev. J. E., <a href='#6_Page_403'>403</a>.</li> +<li>Velden, Van den, <a href='#6_Page_591'>591</a>.</li> +<li>Velten, <a href='#6_Page_134'>134</a>.</li> +<li>Venette, <a href='#6_Page_558'>558</a>.</li> +<li>Veniero, <a href='#6_Page_558'>558</a>.</li> +<li>Vickery, A. Drysdale, <a href='#6_Page_596'>596</a>.</li> +<li>Vinay, <a href='#6_Page_597'>597</a>.</li> +<li>Vinci, L. de, <a href='#6_Page_118'>118</a>.</li> +<li>Vines, Miss, <a href='#6_Page_23'>23</a>.</li> +<li>Virchow, <a href='#6_Page_322'>322</a>.</li> +<li>Vitrey, <a href='#6_Page_27'>27</a>.</li> +<li>Voltaire, <a href='#6_Page_247'>247</a>.</li> +<li>Vries, de, <a href='#6_Page_1'>1</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Wächter, <a href='#6_Page_429'>429</a>.</li> +<li>Wagner, C., <a href='#6_Page_222'>222</a>.</li> +<li>Wahrmund, <a href='#6_Page_419'>419</a>, <a href='#6_Page_491'>491</a>.</li> +<li>Wales, E. B., <a href='#6_Page_636'>636</a>.</li> +<li>Walter, J. von, <a href='#6_Page_161'>161</a>.</li> +<li>Ward, Lester, <a href='#6_Page_483'>483</a>.</li> +<li>Wardlaw, R., <a href='#6_Page_225'>225</a>.</li> +<li>Warker, Van de, <a href='#6_Page_554'>554</a>.</li> +<li>Warren, M. A., <a href='#6_Page_54'>54</a>.</li> +<li>Wasserschleben, <a href='#6_Page_162'>162</a>.</li> +<li>Watkins, <a href='#6_Page_75'>75</a>.</li> +<li>Webb, Sidney, <a href='#6_Page_589'>589</a>, <a href='#6_Page_629'>629</a>.</li> +<li>Weinberg, <a href='#6_Page_608'>608</a>.</li> +<li>Weininger, <a href='#6_Page_309'>309</a>.</li> +<li>Welander, <a href='#6_Page_266'>266</a>.</li> +<li>Welch, F. H., <a href='#6_Page_252'>252</a>.</li> +<li>Wells, H. G., <a href='#6_Page_172'>172</a>, <a href='#6_Page_588'>588</a>.</li> +<li>Werthauer, <a href='#6_Page_45'>45</a>, <a href='#6_Page_110'>110</a>.</li> +<li>Wessmann, <a href='#6_Page_88'>88</a>.</li> +<li>Westermarck, +<ul><li> <a href='#6_Page_123'>123</a>, <a href='#6_Page_145'>145</a>, <a href='#6_Page_146'>146</a>, <a href='#6_Page_148'>148</a>, <a href='#6_Page_179'>179</a>, <a href='#6_Page_221'>221</a>, <a href='#6_Page_228'>228</a>, <a href='#6_Page_232'>232</a>, <a href='#6_Page_369'>369</a>, <a href='#6_Page_370'>370</a>, </li> +<li> <a href='#6_Page_390'>390</a>, <a href='#6_Page_391'>391</a>, <a href='#6_Page_399'>399</a>, <a href='#6_Page_409'>409</a>, <a href='#6_Page_423'>423</a>, <a href='#6_Page_431'>431</a>, <a href='#6_Page_450'>450</a>, <a href='#6_Page_464'>464</a>, <a href='#6_Page_492'>492</a>, <a href='#6_Page_575'>575</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Wharton, <a href='#6_Page_225'>225</a>.</li> +<li>Wheeler, C. B., <a href='#6_Page_444'>444</a>.</li> +<li>Wheeler, Mrs., <a href='#6_Page_397'>397</a>.</li> +<li>Whitaker, Nellie C., <a href='#6_Page_71'>71</a>.</li> +<li>Whitman, Walt, <a href='#6_Page_560'>560</a>.</li> +<li>Wiedow, <a href='#6_Page_25'>25</a>.</li> +<li>Wilcox, Ella W., <a href='#6_Page_190'>190</a>.</li> +<li>Wilhelm, <a href='#6_Page_606'>606</a>.</li> +<li>William of Malmsbury, <a href='#6_Page_153'>153</a>.</li> +<li>Williams, Dawson, <a href='#6_Page_10'>10</a>.</li> +<li>Williams, Hugh, <a href='#6_Page_162'>162</a>.</li> +<li>Williams, W. Roger, <a href='#6_Page_35'>35</a>.</li> +<li>Windle, C. A., <a href='#6_Page_627'>627</a>.</li> +<li>Wollstonecraft, M., <a href='#6_Page_541'>541</a>, <a href='#6_Page_563'>563</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Yule, G. Adney, <a href='#6_Page_590'>590</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Zacchia, <a href='#6_Page_477'>477</a>, <a href='#6_Page_544'>544</a>, <a href='#6_Page_550'>550</a>, <a href='#6_Page_554'>554</a>.</li> +<li>Zache, <a href='#6_Page_516'>516</a>, <a href='#6_Page_547'>547</a>.</li> +<li>Zanzinger, E., <a href='#6_Page_604'>604</a>, <a href='#6_Page_607'>607</a>.</li> +<li>Zeno, <a href='#6_Page_604'>604</a>.</li> +<li>Zoroaster, <a href='#6_Page_532'>532</a>, <a href='#6_Page_559'>559</a>.</li> +<li>Zuccarelli, <a href='#6_Page_615'>615</a>, 616.</li> +</ul> + + + +<hr class="full" /> +<a name='6_INDEX_OF_SUBJECTS'></a><h2><a name='6_Page_650'></a>INDEX OF SUBJECTS.</h2> + + +<ul><li>Abortion, +<ul><li> arguments against, <a href='#6_Page_611'>611</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> modern advocates of, <a href='#6_Page_606'>606</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> the practice of, <a href='#6_Page_601'>601</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Abstinence, +<ul><li> alleged evil results of, <a href='#6_Page_182'>182</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> alleged good results of, <a href='#6_Page_191'>191</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> as a preparation for marriage, <a href='#6_Page_524'>524</a>.</li> +<li> criticism of conception of, <a href='#6_Page_196'>196</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> intermediate views of, <a href='#6_Page_194'>194</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> moral results of, <a href='#6_Page_212'>212</a>.</li> +<li> sexual, in relation to chastity, <a href='#6_Page_169'>169</a>, <a href='#6_Page_177'>177</a>.</li> +<li> the problems of, <a href='#6_Page_178'>178</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Abyssinia, +<ul><li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_233'>233</a>.</li> +<li> sexual initiation in, <a href='#6_Page_516'>516</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Achilleus and Nereus, +<ul><li> legend of, <a href='#6_Page_158'>158</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Adultery, <a href='#6_Page_450'>450</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Africa, +<ul><li> chastity on West Coast of, <a href='#6_Page_147'>147</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Alcohol, +<ul><li> as a sexual stimulant, <a href='#6_Page_207'>207</a>.</li> +<li> in pregnancy, <a href='#6_Page_14'>14</a>.</li> +<li> in relation to the orgy, <a href='#6_Page_220'>220</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Alexander VI and courtesans, <a href='#6_Page_243'>243</a>.</li> +<li>Ambil anak Marriage, <a href='#6_Page_301'>301</a>.</li> +<li>America, +<ul><li> divorce in, <a href='#6_Page_458'>458</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_624'>624</a>.</li> +<li> marriage in, <a href='#6_Page_446'>446</a>, <a href='#6_Page_478'>478</a>, <a href='#6_Page_485'>485</a>.</li> +<li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_251'>251</a>, <a href='#6_Page_257'>257</a>, <a href='#6_Page_266'>266</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>American Indians, +<ul><li> appreciate asceticism, <a href='#6_Page_145'>145</a>.</li> +<li> sexual initiation among, <a href='#6_Page_88'>88</a>.</li> +<li> their Sabbath orgies, <a href='#6_Page_221'>221</a>.</li> +<li> words for love among, <a href='#6_Page_134'>134</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Aphrodite Pandemos, <a href='#6_Page_230'>230</a>.</li> +<li>Art in relation to sexual impulse, <a href='#6_Page_90'>90</a>, <a href='#6_Page_223'>223</a>.</li> +<li>Asceticism, +<ul><li> among early Christians, <a href='#6_Page_151'>151</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> appreciated by savages, <a href='#6_Page_145'>145</a>.</li> +<li> definition of, <a href='#6_Page_175'>175</a>.</li> +<li> in religion, <a href='#6_Page_146'>146</a>.</li> +<li> later degeneracy of, <a href='#6_Page_102'>102</a>.</li> +<li> value of, <a href='#6_Page_143'>143</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Ascetics, +<ul><li> attitude towards sex of mediæval, <a href='#6_Page_119'>119</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Aspasia, <a href='#6_Page_308'>308</a>.</li> +<li>Athletics for women, <a href='#6_Page_75'>75</a>.</li> +<li>Aucassin et Nicolette, <a href='#6_Page_161'>161</a>.</li> +<li>Australia, +<ul><li> marriage system in, <a href='#6_Page_424'>424</a>.</li> +<li> saturnalian festivals in, <a href='#6_Page_221'>221</a>.</li> +<li> sexual initiation in, <a href='#6_Page_87'>87</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Auvergne, +<ul><li> story of the Two Lovers of, <a href='#6_Page_159'>159</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Azimba Land, +<ul><li> sexual initiation in, <a href='#6_Page_88'>88</a>, <a href='#6_Page_515'>515</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Babies, +<ul><li> children's theories on the origin of, <a href='#6_Page_40'>40</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Babylonia, +<ul><li> high status of women in, <a href='#6_Page_393'>393</a>.</li> +<li> religious prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_229'>229</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Bawenda, +<ul><li> sexual initiation among, <a href='#6_Page_88'>88</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Beena marriage, <a href='#6_Page_391'>391</a>.</li> +<li>Beethoven, <a href='#6_Page_184'>184</a>.</li> +<li>Behn, Aphra, <a href='#6_Page_308'>308</a>.</li> +<li>Belgium, +<ul><li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_257'>257</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Bestial, +<ul><li> human sexual impulse not, <a href='#6_Page_130'>130</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Bible in relation to sexual education, <a href='#6_Page_90'>90</a>.</li> +<li>Biometrics, <a href='#6_Page_583'>583</a>, <a href='#6_Page_630'>630</a>.</li> +<li>Birth, +<ul><li> civilized tendency to premature, <a href='#6_Page_9'>9</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Birthrate, +<ul><li> decline of, <a href='#6_Page_589'>589</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Blindness in relation to gonorrhœa, <a href='#6_Page_329'>329</a>.</li> +<li>Botany in sexual education, <a href='#6_Page_58'>58</a>.</li> +<li>Bredalbane case, <a href='#6_Page_477'>477</a>.</li> +<li>Breed <i>versus</i> nurture, <a href='#6_Page_34'>34</a>.</li> +<li>Bride-price, <a href='#6_Page_432'>432</a>.</li> +<li>Brothel, +<ul><li> decay of, <a href='#6_Page_302'>302</a>, <a href='#6_Page_332'>332</a>.</li> +<li> in ancient Rome, <a href='#6_Page_239'>239</a>.</li> +<li> in the East, <a href='#6_Page_236'>236</a>.</li> +<li> mediæval, <a href='#6_Page_242'>242</a>.</li> +<li> modern defence of, <a href='#6_Page_287'>287</a>.</li> +<li> modern regulation of, <a href='#6_Page_249'>249</a>.</li> +<li> origin of, <a href='#6_Page_234'>234</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Bundling, <a href='#6_Page_380'>380</a>.</li> +<li>Burmah, +<ul><li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_235'>235</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Canon law, +<ul><li> defects of, <a href='#6_Page_438'>438</a>.</li> +<li> its importance, <a href='#6_Page_433'>433</a>.</li> +<li> origin of, <a href='#6_Page_436'>436</a>.</li> +<li> persistence of its traditions, <a href='#6_Page_449'>449</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> sound kernel of, <a href='#6_Page_479'>479</a>.<a name='6_Page_651'></a></li></ul></li> +<li>Carlyle, <a href='#6_Page_174'>174</a>.</li> +<li>Carnival, +<ul><li> origin of, <a href='#6_Page_218'>218</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Castration, +<ul><li> modern developments of, <a href='#6_Page_614'>614</a>.</li> +<li> the practice of, <a href='#6_Page_612'>612</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Chastity, +<ul><li> among early Christians, <a href='#6_Page_151'>151</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> definition of, <a href='#6_Page_175'>175</a>.</li> +<li> girdle of, <a href='#6_Page_163'>163</a>.</li> +<li> in modern Fiji, <a href='#6_Page_406'>406</a>.</li> +<li> in what sense a virtue, <a href='#6_Page_169'>169</a>.</li> +<li> modern attitude towards, <a href='#6_Page_167'>167</a>.</li> +<li> Protestant attitude towards, <a href='#6_Page_164'>164</a>.</li> +<li> romantic literature of, <a href='#6_Page_158'>158</a>.</li> +<li> the function of, <a href='#6_Page_143'>143</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Child, +<ul><li> as foundation of marriage, <a href='#6_Page_488'>488</a>, <a href='#6_Page_505'>505</a>.</li> +<li> characteristics of eldest born, <a href='#6_Page_591'>591</a>.</li> +<li> its need of two parents, <a href='#6_Page_487'>487</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Childhood, +<ul><li> sexual activity in, <a href='#6_Page_35'>35</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_209'>209</a>.</li> +<li> sexual teaching in, <a href='#6_Page_48'>48</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>China, +<ul><li> divorce in, <a href='#6_Page_461'>461</a>.</li> +<li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_236'>236</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Chivalry on position of women, +<ul><li> influence of, <a href='#6_Page_401'>401</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Christianity, +<ul><li> attitude towards chastity, <a href='#6_Page_151'>151</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> attitude towards lust, <a href='#6_Page_179'>179</a>.</li> +<li> attitude towards nakedness, <a href='#6_Page_96'>96</a>.</li> +<li> failed to recognize importance of art of love, <a href='#6_Page_517'>517</a>.</li> +<li> its influence on position of women, <a href='#6_Page_398'>398</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> on marriage, <a href='#6_Page_429'>429</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> mixed attitude towards sexual impulse, <a href='#6_Page_124'>124</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_513'>513</a>.</li> +<li> towards prostitution, <a href='#6_Page_282'>282</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> towards seduction, <a href='#6_Page_180'>180</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Civilization and prostitution, <a href='#6_Page_187'>187</a> <i>et seq.</i> +<ul><li> and the sexual impulse, <a href='#6_Page_199'>199</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Coitus, +<ul><li> <i>a posteriori</i>, <a href='#6_Page_556'>556</a>.</li> +<li> best time for, <a href='#6_Page_558'>558</a>.</li> +<li> during pregnancy, <a href='#6_Page_16'>16</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> ethnic variations in, <a href='#6_Page_557'>557</a>.</li> +<li> excess in, <a href='#6_Page_535'>535</a>.</li> +<li> injuries due to unskilful, <a href='#6_Page_525'>525</a>.</li> +<li> <i>interruptus</i>, <a href='#6_Page_551'>551</a>.</li> +<li> morbid horror of, <a href='#6_Page_81'>81</a>.</li> +<li> needs to be taught, <a href='#6_Page_510'>510</a>.</li> +<li> prayer before, <a href='#6_Page_559'>559</a>.</li> +<li> proper frequency of, <a href='#6_Page_533'>533</a>.</li> +<li> religious significance of, <a href='#6_Page_230'>230</a>, <a href='#6_Page_559'>559</a>.</li> +<li> <i>reservatus</i>, <a href='#6_Page_552'>552</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Collusion, +<ul><li> doctrine of, <a href='#6_Page_451'>451</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Conception, +<ul><li> conditions of, <a href='#6_Page_577'>577</a>.</li> +<li> prevention of, <a href='#6_Page_588'>588</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Concubine, <a href='#6_Page_498'>498</a>.</li> +<li>Condom, <a href='#6_Page_599'>599</a>.</li> +<li>Conjugal rights or rites, <a href='#6_Page_538'>538</a>.</li> +<li>Consent, +<ul><li> age of, <a href='#6_Page_528'>528</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Consultation de Nourrisson, <a href='#6_Page_29'>29</a>.</li> +<li>Contract, +<ul><li> marriage as a, <a href='#6_Page_470'>470</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Corinth, +<ul><li> prostitution at, <a href='#6_Page_229'>229</a>, <a href='#6_Page_232'>232</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Country life and sexuality, <a href='#6_Page_38'>38</a>.</li> +<li>Courtesan, +<ul><li> origin of term, <a href='#6_Page_243'>243</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Courtship, +<ul><li> the art of, <a href='#6_Page_538'>538</a>, <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Criminality in relation to prostitution, <a href='#6_Page_267'>267</a>.</li> +<li>Cyprus, +<ul><li> prostitution at, <a href='#6_Page_233'>233</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Dancing, +<ul><li> hygienic value of, <a href='#6_Page_74'>74</a>.</li> +<li> as an orgy, <a href='#6_Page_222'>222</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>D'Aragona, Tullia, <a href='#6_Page_244'>244</a>.</li> +<li>Divorce, +<ul><li> by mutual consent, <a href='#6_Page_463'>463</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> causes for, <a href='#6_Page_448'>448</a>.</li> +<li> in ancient Rome, <a href='#6_Page_429'>429</a>.</li> +<li> in ancient Wales, <a href='#6_Page_461'>461</a>.</li> +<li> in China, <a href='#6_Page_461'>461</a>.</li> +<li> in England, <a href='#6_Page_447'>447</a>.</li> +<li> in France, <a href='#6_Page_455'>455</a>, <a href='#6_Page_465'>465</a>.</li> +<li> in Germany, <a href='#6_Page_455'>455</a>.</li> +<li> in Japan, <a href='#6_Page_460'>460</a>.</li> +<li> in Russia, <a href='#6_Page_457'>457</a>.</li> +<li> in Switzerland, <a href='#6_Page_457'>457</a>.</li> +<li> in United States, <a href='#6_Page_458'>458</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_624'>624</a>.</li> +<li> Milton's views on, <a href='#6_Page_444'>444</a>.</li> +<li> modern tendency of, <a href='#6_Page_462'>462</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> Protestant attitude towards, <a href='#6_Page_441'>441</a>.</li> +<li> question of damages for, <a href='#6_Page_450'>450</a>.</li> +<li> reform of, <a href='#6_Page_454'>454</a>.</li> +<li> tendency of legislation regarding, <a href='#6_Page_624'>624</a>.</li> +<li> transmission of venereal disease as a cause for, <a href='#6_Page_349'>349</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Drama, +<ul><li> modern function of the, <a href='#6_Page_222'>222</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Dysmenorrhœa, <a href='#6_Page_187'>187</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Economic factor, +<ul><li> of marriage, <a href='#6_Page_375'>375</a>.</li> +<li> of prostitution, <a href='#6_Page_259'>259</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Education in matters of sex, <a href='#6_Page_33'>33</a> <i>et seq.</i> +<ul><li> for women, <a href='#6_Page_75'>75</a>.<a name='6_Page_652'></a></li></ul></li> +<li>Egypt, +<ul><li> high status of women in, <a href='#6_Page_393'>393</a>, <a href='#6_Page_408'>408</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Eldest born child, +<ul><li> characteristics of, <a href='#6_Page_591'>591</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>England, +<ul><li> marriage in, <a href='#6_Page_431'>431</a>, <a href='#6_Page_444'>444</a>.</li> +<li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_252'>252</a>, <a href='#6_Page_257'>257</a>, <a href='#6_Page_265'>265</a>, <a href='#6_Page_307'>307</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Erotic element in marriage, <a href='#6_Page_508'>508</a>.</li> +<li>Eskimo, +<ul><li> divorce among, <a href='#6_Page_461'>461</a>.</li> +<li> sexual initiation among, <a href='#6_Page_89'>89</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Eugenics, <a href='#6_Page_7'>7</a>. +<ul><li> false ideas of, <a href='#6_Page_583'>583</a>.</li> +<li> foundation by Galton, <a href='#6_Page_582'>582</a>.</li> +<li> importance of environment in relation to, <a href='#6_Page_623'>623</a>.</li> +<li> in relation to castration, <a href='#6_Page_614'>614</a>.</li> +<li> Noyes a pioneer in, <a href='#6_Page_618'>618</a>.</li> +<li> positive, <a href='#6_Page_621'>621</a>.</li> +<li> wide acceptance of principle of, <a href='#6_Page_584'>584</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Excretory centers as affecting estimate of sexual impulse, <a href='#6_Page_120'>120</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Exogamy, +<ul><li> origin of, <a href='#6_Page_423'>423</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Families and degeneracy, +<ul><li> large, <a href='#6_Page_591'>591</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Father in relation to family, <a href='#6_Page_2'>2</a>.</li> +<li>Fecundation, +<ul><li> artificial, <a href='#6_Page_632'>632</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Festivals, +<ul><li> seasonal, <a href='#6_Page_219'>219</a>, <a href='#6_Page_230'>230</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Fidus, <a href='#6_Page_115'>115</a>.</li> +<li>Fiji, +<ul><li> chastity in, <a href='#6_Page_406'>406</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Flirtation, <a href='#6_Page_518'>518</a>.</li> +<li>Fools, Feast of, <a href='#6_Page_219'>219</a>.</li> +<li>Fornication, +<ul><li> theological doctrine of, <a href='#6_Page_283'>283</a>, <a href='#6_Page_375'>375</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>France, +<ul><li> divorce in, <a href='#6_Page_455'>455</a>, <a href='#6_Page_465'>465</a>.</li> +<li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_240'>240</a>, <a href='#6_Page_250'>250</a>, <a href='#6_Page_253'>253</a>, <a href='#6_Page_256'>256</a>, <a href='#6_Page_265'>265</a>, <a href='#6_Page_306'>306</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Franco, Veronica, <a href='#6_Page_245'>245</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Gallantry, +<ul><li> the ancient conception of, <a href='#6_Page_412'>412</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Geisha, the, <a href='#6_Page_307'>307</a>.</li> +<li>General paralysis and syphilis, <a href='#6_Page_325'>325</a>.</li> +<li>Genius, +<ul><li> in relation to chastity, <a href='#6_Page_173'>173</a>, <a href='#6_Page_184'>184</a>.</li> +<li> in relation to love, <a href='#6_Page_574'>574</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Germany, +<ul><li> divorce in, <a href='#6_Page_455'>455</a>.</li> +<li> marriage in, <a href='#6_Page_431'>431</a>.</li> +<li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_251'>251</a>, <a href='#6_Page_253'>253</a>, <a href='#6_Page_333'>333</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Gestation, +<ul><li> length of, <a href='#6_Page_9'>9</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Girdle of chastity, <a href='#6_Page_163'>163</a>.</li> +<li>Girls, +<ul><li> interest in sex matters, <a href='#6_Page_62'>62</a>.</li> +<li> masculine ideals of, <a href='#6_Page_77'>77</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Girls, +<ul><li> sex education of, <a href='#6_Page_83'>83</a>.</li> +<li> their need of sexual knowledge, <a href='#6_Page_46'>46</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Gnostic elements in early Christian literature, <a href='#6_Page_156'>156</a>.</li> +<li>Goddesses in forefront of primitive pantheons, <a href='#6_Page_392'>392</a>.</li> +<li>Gonorrhœa, +<ul><li> nature and results of, <a href='#6_Page_328'>328</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> <i>And see</i> Venereal Diseases.</li></ul></li> +<li>Goutte de Lait, <a href='#6_Page_29'>29</a>.</li> +<li>Greeks, +<ul><li> origin of their drama, <a href='#6_Page_222'>222</a>.</li> +<li> prudery among, <a href='#6_Page_101'>101</a>.</li> +<li> rarity of ideal sexual love among, <a href='#6_Page_134'>134</a>.</li> +<li> their attitude towards nakedness, <a href='#6_Page_95'>95</a>.</li> +<li> their conception of the orgy, <a href='#6_Page_220'>220</a>.</li> +<li> their erotic writings, <a href='#6_Page_557'>557</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Group-marriage, <a href='#6_Page_423'>423</a>.</li> +<li>Gynæcocracy, +<ul><li> alleged primitive, <a href='#6_Page_390'>390</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Hetairæ, <a href='#6_Page_234'>234</a>, <a href='#6_Page_308'>308</a>.</li> +<li>Hindu attitude towards sex, <a href='#6_Page_129'>129</a>, <a href='#6_Page_544'>544</a>.</li> +<li>Holland, +<ul><li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_250'>250</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Homosexuality among prostitutes, <a href='#6_Page_272'>272</a>.</li> +<li>Huddersfield scheme, <a href='#6_Page_28'>28</a>.</li> +<li>Hysteria, <a href='#6_Page_183'>183</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Ideals, of girls, +<ul><li> masculine, <a href='#6_Page_77'>77</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Illegitimacy, <a href='#6_Page_292'>292</a>. +<ul><li> in Germany, <a href='#6_Page_382'>382</a>, <a href='#6_Page_489'>489</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Imperia, <a href='#6_Page_244'>244</a>.</li> +<li>Impotency in popular estimation, <a href='#6_Page_174'>174</a>.</li> +<li>Impurity, +<ul><li> disastrous results of teaching feminine, <a href='#6_Page_78'>78</a>.</li> +<li> early Christian views of, <a href='#6_Page_128'>128</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>India, +<ul><li> story of The Betrothed of, <a href='#6_Page_156'>156</a>.</li> +<li> sacred prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_235'>235</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Individualism and Socialism, <a href='#6_Page_24'>24</a>.</li> +<li>Infantile mortality, <a href='#6_Page_5'>5</a>. +<ul><li> in relation to suckling by mother, <a href='#6_Page_26'>26</a>.</li> +<li> in relation to syphilis, <a href='#6_Page_537'>537</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Infantile sexuality, <a href='#6_Page_36'>36</a>.</li> +<li>Insanity and prostitution, <a href='#6_Page_275'>275</a>.</li> +<li>Intellectual work in relation to sexual activity in men, <a href='#6_Page_185'>185</a>. +<ul><li> in women, <a href='#6_Page_190'>190</a>.<a name='6_Page_653'></a></li></ul></li> +<li>Ireland, +<ul><li> divorce in, <a href='#6_Page_461'>461</a>.</li> +<li> high status of women in ancient, <a href='#6_Page_392'>392</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Italy, +<ul><li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_241'>241</a>, <a href='#6_Page_251'>251</a>, <a href='#6_Page_258'>258</a>, <a href='#6_Page_266'>266</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Jamaica, +<ul><li> results of free sexual unions in, <a href='#6_Page_388'>388</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Japan, +<ul><li> attitude towards love in, <a href='#6_Page_135'>135</a>.</li> +<li> automatic legitimation of children in, <a href='#6_Page_490'>490</a>.</li> +<li> divorce in, <a href='#6_Page_460'>460</a>, <a href='#6_Page_461'>461</a>.</li> +<li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_233'>233</a>, <a href='#6_Page_237'>237</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Jealousy, <a href='#6_Page_563'>563</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Jesus, <a href='#6_Page_184'>184</a>.</li> +<li>Jews, +<ul><li> as parents, <a href='#6_Page_6'>6</a>.</li> +<li> prostitution among ancient, <a href='#6_Page_235'>235</a>.</li> +<li> status of women among, <a href='#6_Page_394'>394</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Judas Thomas's Acts, <a href='#6_Page_156'>156</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Kadishtu, <a href='#6_Page_229'>229</a>.</li> +<li>Kant, <a href='#6_Page_184'>184</a>.</li> +<li>Korea, +<ul><li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_238'>238</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Lactation, <a href='#6_Page_24'>24</a>.</li> +<li>Lectures on sexual hygiene, <a href='#6_Page_83'>83</a>.</li> +<li>Lenclos, Ninon de, <a href='#6_Page_246'>246</a>, <a href='#6_Page_308'>308</a>.</li> +<li>Love, +<ul><li> an essential part of marriage, <a href='#6_Page_508'>508</a>.</li> +<li> art of, <a href='#6_Page_507'>507</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> definition of, <a href='#6_Page_132'>132</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> difficulties of art of, <a href='#6_Page_530'>530</a>, <a href='#6_Page_547'>547</a>.</li> +<li> for more than one person, <a href='#6_Page_371'>371</a>.</li> +<li> future development of, <a href='#6_Page_574'>574</a>.</li> +<li> how far an illusion, <a href='#6_Page_137'>137</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> in childhood, <a href='#6_Page_36'>36</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_528'>528</a>.</li> +<li> in relation to chastity, <a href='#6_Page_172'>172</a>, <a href='#6_Page_176'>176</a>.</li> +<li> inevitable mystery of, <a href='#6_Page_136'>136</a>.</li> +<li> its value for life, <a href='#6_Page_115'>115</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> testimonies to immense importance of, <a href='#6_Page_139'>139</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Lust, +<ul><li> in relation to love, <a href='#6_Page_132'>132</a>.</li> +<li> theological conception of, <a href='#6_Page_179'>179</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Lydian prostitution, <a href='#6_Page_233'>233</a>, <a href='#6_Page_234'>234</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Mahommedanism +<ul><li> and prostitution, <a href='#6_Page_235'>235</a>.</li> +<li> and sanctity of sex, <a href='#6_Page_129'>129</a>.</li> +<li> its regard for chastity, <a href='#6_Page_164'>164</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Male continence, <a href='#6_Page_554'>554</a>.</li> +<li>Malthus, <a href='#6_Page_594'>594</a>.</li> +<li>Mammary activity in infancy, <a href='#6_Page_34'>34</a>.</li> +<li>Manuals of sexual hygiene, <a href='#6_Page_53'>53</a>, <a href='#6_Page_81'>81</a>.</li> +<li>Maoris, +<ul><li> results of loss of old faith among, <a href='#6_Page_147'>147</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Marriage, +<ul><li> advantages of early, <a href='#6_Page_379'>379</a>.</li> +<li> ambil anak, <a href='#6_Page_391'>391</a>.</li> +<li> and prostitution, <a href='#6_Page_225'>225</a>, <a href='#6_Page_296'>296</a>, <a href='#6_Page_363'>363</a>.</li> +<li> as a contract, <a href='#6_Page_470'>470</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> as a fact, <a href='#6_Page_477'>477</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> as a sacrament, <a href='#6_Page_435'>435</a>, <a href='#6_Page_479'>479</a>.</li> +<li> as an ethical sacrament, <a href='#6_Page_479'>479</a>.</li> +<li> beena, <a href='#6_Page_391'>391</a>.</li> +<li> by capture, <a href='#6_Page_148'>148</a>.</li> +<li> certificates for, <a href='#6_Page_622'>622</a>.</li> +<li> criticism of, <a href='#6_Page_364'>364</a>.</li> +<li> evolution of, <a href='#6_Page_421'>421</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> for a term of years, <a href='#6_Page_472'>472</a>.</li> +<li> from legal point of view, <a href='#6_Page_375'>375</a>.</li> +<li> in early Christian times, <a href='#6_Page_429'>429</a>, <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> in old English law, <a href='#6_Page_402'>402</a>.</li> +<li> in relation to eugenics, <a href='#6_Page_621'>621</a>.</li> +<li> in relation to morals, <a href='#6_Page_373'>373</a>.</li> +<li> in Rome, <a href='#6_Page_428'>428</a>.</li> +<li> independent of forms, <a href='#6_Page_480'>480</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> inferior forms of, <a href='#6_Page_489'>489</a>.</li> +<li> love as a factor of, <a href='#6_Page_508'>508</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> modern tendencies in regard to, <a href='#6_Page_377'>377</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> objections to early, <a href='#6_Page_37'>37</a>.</li> +<li> objects of, <a href='#6_Page_507'>507</a>.</li> +<li> procreation as a factor of, <a href='#6_Page_576'>576</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> Protestant attitude towards, <a href='#6_Page_440'>440</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> trial, <a href='#6_Page_379'>379</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> variations in order of, <a href='#6_Page_491'>491</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Masturbation, +<ul><li> among prostitutes, <a href='#6_Page_272'>272</a>.</li> +<li> anxiety of boys about, <a href='#6_Page_61'>61</a>.</li> +<li> in relation to sexual abstinence, <a href='#6_Page_196'>196</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Matriarchy, +<ul><li> alleged primitive, <a href='#6_Page_390'>390</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Matrilineal descent, <a href='#6_Page_391'>391</a>.</li> +<li>Mendelism, <a href='#6_Page_630'>630</a>.</li> +<li>Mendes, +<ul><li> the rite at, <a href='#6_Page_232'>232</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Menstruation, +<ul><li> brought on by sexual excitement, <a href='#6_Page_578'>578</a>.</li> +<li> coitus during, <a href='#6_Page_533'>533</a>.</li> +<li> hygiene of, <a href='#6_Page_68'>68</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> instruction regarding, <a href='#6_Page_64'>64</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Missionaries' attempt to impose European customs, <a href='#6_Page_99'>99</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Modesty consistent with nakedness, <a href='#6_Page_108'>108</a>.</li> +<li>Monogamy, <a href='#6_Page_421'>421</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_491'>491</a>.</li> +<li>Montanist element in early Christian literature, <a href='#6_Page_156'>156</a>.<a name='6_Page_654'></a></li> +<li>Morality, +<ul><li> meaning of the term, <a href='#6_Page_367'>367</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Motherhood, +<ul><li> early age of, <a href='#6_Page_634'>634</a>.</li> +<li> endowment of, <a href='#6_Page_630'>630</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Mothers, +<ul><li> duty to instruct daughters, <a href='#6_Page_64'>64</a>.</li> +<li> duty to suckle infant, <a href='#6_Page_24'>24</a>.</li> +<li> responsibility for their own procreative acts, <a href='#6_Page_586'>586</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> schools for, <a href='#6_Page_29'>29</a>.</li> +<li> the sexual teachers of children, <a href='#6_Page_48'>48</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Mylitta, +<ul><li> prostitution at temple of, <a href='#6_Page_229'>229</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Mystery in matters of sex, evil of, <a href='#6_Page_50'>50</a>, <a href='#6_Page_110'>110</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Nakedness, +<ul><li> an alleged sexual stimulant, <a href='#6_Page_97'>97</a>.</li> +<li> as a prime tonic of life, <a href='#6_Page_112'>112</a>.</li> +<li> consistent with modesty, <a href='#6_Page_108'>108</a>.</li> +<li> educational value of, <a href='#6_Page_106'>106</a>.</li> +<li> hygienic value of, <a href='#6_Page_104'>104</a>, <a href='#6_Page_111'>111</a>.</li> +<li> in literature and art, <a href='#6_Page_90'>90</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> in mediæval Europe, <a href='#6_Page_98'>98</a>.</li> +<li> in relation to sexual education, <a href='#6_Page_95'>95</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> its moral value, <a href='#6_Page_114'>114</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> its spiritual value, <a href='#6_Page_102'>102</a>.</li> +<li> modern attitude towards, <a href='#6_Page_101'>101</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Neo-Malthusianism, <a href='#6_Page_588'>588</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Neurasthenia, +<ul><li> sexual, <a href='#6_Page_183'>183</a>, <a href='#6_Page_189'>189</a>, <a href='#6_Page_203'>203</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Newton, <a href='#6_Page_184'>184</a>.</li> +<li>New Zealand, +<ul><li> result of decay of <i>tapu</i> in, <a href='#6_Page_147'>147</a>.</li> +<li> sexual freedom in ancient, <a href='#6_Page_226'>226</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Night-courtship customs, <a href='#6_Page_380'>380</a>.</li> +<li>Notification of Births Act, <a href='#6_Page_29'>29</a>. +<ul><li> venereal diseases, <a href='#6_Page_343'>343</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Nurture <i>versus</i> breed, <a href='#6_Page_34'>34</a>.</li> +<li>Nutrition compared to reproduction, <a href='#6_Page_169'>169</a>, <a href='#6_Page_198'>198</a>, <a href='#6_Page_201'>201</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Obscenity, +<ul><li> early Christian views of, <a href='#6_Page_126'>126</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Orgy, +<ul><li> among savages, <a href='#6_Page_221'>221</a>.</li> +<li> in classic times, <a href='#6_Page_220'>220</a>.</li> +<li> in mediæval Christianity, <a href='#6_Page_219'>219</a>.</li> +<li> its religious origin, <a href='#6_Page_218'>218</a>.</li> +<li> modern need of, <a href='#6_Page_222'>222</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Oneida Community, <a href='#6_Page_553'>553</a>, <a href='#6_Page_617'>617</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Ouled-Nail prostitution, <a href='#6_Page_233'>233</a>.</li> +<li>Ovarian irritation, <a href='#6_Page_187'>187</a>.</li> +<li>Ovid, <a href='#6_Page_514'>514</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Penitentials, the, <a href='#6_Page_162'>162</a>.</li> +<li>Physician, +<ul><li> alleged duty to prescribe sexual intercourse, <a href='#6_Page_201'>201</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> as a social reformer, <a href='#6_Page_205'>205</a>.</li> +<li> his place in sexual hygiene, <a href='#6_Page_84'>84</a>, <a href='#6_Page_354'>354</a>, <a href='#6_Page_359'>359</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Platonic friendship, <a href='#6_Page_571'>571</a>.</li> +<li>Poetry in relation to sexual impulse, <a href='#6_Page_90'>90</a>.</li> +<li>Polygamy, <a href='#6_Page_366'>366</a>, <a href='#6_Page_412'>412</a>, <a href='#6_Page_490'>490</a>, <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Precocity, +<ul><li> sexual, <a href='#6_Page_35'>35</a>, <a href='#6_Page_209'>209</a>, <a href='#6_Page_528'>528</a>, <a href='#6_Page_634'>634</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Pregnancy, +<ul><li> among primitive peoples, <a href='#6_Page_13'>13</a>.</li> +<li> coitus during, <a href='#6_Page_16'>16</a>.</li> +<li> early, <a href='#6_Page_634'>634</a>.</li> +<li> hygiene of, <a href='#6_Page_6'>6</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Premature birth, <a href='#6_Page_10'>10</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Procreation, +<ul><li> best age for, <a href='#6_Page_633'>633</a>.</li> +<li> best season for, <a href='#6_Page_638'>638</a>.</li> +<li> control of, <a href='#6_Page_578'>578</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> its place in marriage, <a href='#6_Page_365'>365</a>, <a href='#6_Page_508'>508</a>.</li> +<li> methods of control of, <a href='#6_Page_599'>599</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> the science of, <a href='#6_Page_576'>576</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Promiscuity, +<ul><li> theory of primitive, <a href='#6_Page_284'>284</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Prostitutes, +<ul><li> as artists, <a href='#6_Page_299'>299</a>.</li> +<li> as guardians of the home, <a href='#6_Page_281'>281</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> at the Renaissance, <a href='#6_Page_243'>243</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> attitudes towards bully, <a href='#6_Page_270'>270</a>.</li> +<li> in Austria, <a href='#6_Page_241'>241</a>.</li> +<li> in classic times, <a href='#6_Page_239'>239</a>.</li> +<li> in France, <a href='#6_Page_240'>240</a>.</li> +<li> in Italy, <a href='#6_Page_241'>241</a>.</li> +<li> injustice of social attitude towards, <a href='#6_Page_310'>310</a>.</li> +<li> number of servants who become, <a href='#6_Page_264'>264</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_290'>290</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> psychic and physical characteristics, <a href='#6_Page_274'>274</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> tendency to homosexuality, <a href='#6_Page_272'>272</a>.</li> +<li> their motives for adopting avocation, <a href='#6_Page_256'>256</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_288'>288</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> their sexual temperament, <a href='#6_Page_268'>268</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> under Christianity, <a href='#6_Page_240'>240</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Prostitution, +<ul><li> among savages, <a href='#6_Page_226'>226</a>, <a href='#6_Page_234'>234</a>.</li> +<li> as affected by Christianity, <a href='#6_Page_239'>239</a>.</li> +<li> as an equivalent of criminality, <a href='#6_Page_267'>267</a>.</li> +<li> causes of, <a href='#6_Page_254'>254</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> civilizational value of, <a href='#6_Page_289'>289</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> decay of State regulation of, <a href='#6_Page_250'>250</a>.<a name='6_Page_655'></a></li> +<li> definition of, <a href='#6_Page_224'>224</a>.</li> +<li> economic factor of, <a href='#6_Page_259'>259</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> essentially unsatisfactory nature of, <a href='#6_Page_313'>313</a>.</li> +<li> in modern times, <a href='#6_Page_248'>248</a>.</li> +<li> in relation to marriage, <a href='#6_Page_363'>363</a>.</li> +<li> in the East, <a href='#6_Page_235'>235</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> moral justification of, <a href='#6_Page_280'>280</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> need for humanizing, <a href='#6_Page_306'>306</a>.</li> +<li> on the stage, <a href='#6_Page_356'>356</a>.</li> +<li> origin and development of, <a href='#6_Page_224'>224</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> present social attitude towards, <a href='#6_Page_302'>302</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> regulation of, <a href='#6_Page_249'>249</a>, <a href='#6_Page_331'>331</a>, <a href='#6_Page_339'>339</a>.</li> +<li> religious, <a href='#6_Page_228'>228</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_235'>235</a>.</li> +<li> rise of secular, <a href='#6_Page_234'>234</a>.</li> +<li> to acquire marriage portion, <a href='#6_Page_233'>233</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Protestantism, +<ul><li> attitude towards prostitution, <a href='#6_Page_284'>284</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Prudery in ancient times, <a href='#6_Page_101'>101</a>.</li> +<li>Puberty, +<ul><li> initiation at, among savages, <a href='#6_Page_87'>87</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> sexual education at, <a href='#6_Page_60'>60</a>, <a href='#6_Page_85'>85</a>.</li> +<li> sexual hygiene at, <a href='#6_Page_209'>209</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Puericulture, <a href='#6_Page_7'>7</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Puritans, +<ul><li> attitude towards unchastity, <a href='#6_Page_376'>376</a>.</li> +<li> towards marriage, <a href='#6_Page_437'>437</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Quaker conception of marriage, <a href='#6_Page_446'>446</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Rape, +<ul><li> cannot be committed by husband on wife, <a href='#6_Page_80'>80</a>, <a href='#6_Page_473'>473</a>.</li> +<li> wedding night often a, <a href='#6_Page_526'>526</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Religious prostitution, <a href='#6_Page_228'>228</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_235'>235</a>.</li> +<li>Renaissance, +<ul><li> prostitutes at the, <a href='#6_Page_243'>243</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Reproduction compared to nutrition, <a href='#6_Page_169'>169</a>, <a href='#6_Page_198'>198</a>, <a href='#6_Page_201'>201</a>.</li> +<li>Responsibility in matters of sex, +<ul><li> personal, <a href='#6_Page_349'>349</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_405'>405</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_417'>417</a>, <a href='#6_Page_444'>444</a>, <a href='#6_Page_463'>463</a>, <a href='#6_Page_481'>481</a>, <a href='#6_Page_586'>586</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Rest, +<ul><li> during pregnancy, importance of, <a href='#6_Page_7'>7</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> during menstruation, <a href='#6_Page_67'>67</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Ring, +<ul><li> origin of wedding, <a href='#6_Page_432'>432</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Robert of Arbrissel, <a href='#6_Page_160'>160</a>.</li> +<li>Romantic literature of chastity, <a href='#6_Page_158'>158</a>. +<ul><li> love, late origin of, <a href='#6_Page_135'>135</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Rome, +<ul><li> attitude towards nakedness in ancient, <a href='#6_Page_96'>96</a>.</li> +<li> conception of the orgy in, <a href='#6_Page_220'>220</a>.</li> +<li> marriage in, <a href='#6_Page_428'>428</a>.</li> +<li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_238'>238</a>.</li> +<li> status of women in, <a href='#6_Page_395'>395</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Russia, +<ul><li> divorce in, <a href='#6_Page_457'>457</a>.</li> +<li> sexual freedom in, <a href='#6_Page_384'>384</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Sabbath orgy, <a href='#6_Page_221'>221</a>.</li> +<li>Sacrament, +<ul><li> marriage as a, <a href='#6_Page_435'>435</a>, <a href='#6_Page_479'>479</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Sacred prostitution, <a href='#6_Page_228'>228</a>, <a href='#6_Page_235'>235</a>.</li> +<li>Sale-marriage, <a href='#6_Page_432'>432</a>.</li> +<li>Savages, +<ul><li> prostitution among, <a href='#6_Page_226'>226</a>.</li> +<li> rarity of love among, <a href='#6_Page_134'>134</a>.</li> +<li> sexual education among, <a href='#6_Page_87'>87</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_515'>515</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Scandinavian method of dealing with venereal diseases, <a href='#6_Page_344'>344</a>.</li> +<li>School, +<ul><li> its place in sexual education, <a href='#6_Page_56'>56</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_83'>83</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Schools for mothers, <a href='#6_Page_29'>29</a>.</li> +<li>Seduction, +<ul><li> early Church's attitude towards, <a href='#6_Page_180'>180</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Servants frequently become prostitutes, <a href='#6_Page_264'>264</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_290'>290</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Sexual abstinence, <a href='#6_Page_169'>169</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Sexual anæsthesia, +<ul><li> a cause of, <a href='#6_Page_526'>526</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Sexual education, <a href='#6_Page_33'>33</a> <i>et seq.</i> +<ul><li> among savages, <a href='#6_Page_87'>87</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_515'>515</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> and coitus, <a href='#6_Page_510'>510</a>.</li> +<li> and nakedness, <a href='#6_Page_95'>95</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Sexual hygiene and art, <a href='#6_Page_92'>92</a>, <a href='#6_Page_223'>223</a>. +<ul><li> and literature, <a href='#6_Page_89'>89</a>.</li> +<li> and religion, <a href='#6_Page_85'>85</a>.</li> +<li> at puberty, <a href='#6_Page_209'>209</a>.</li> +<li> at school, <a href='#6_Page_56'>56</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> in childhood, <a href='#6_Page_40'>40</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> in relation to sexual abstinence, <a href='#6_Page_206'>206</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Sexual innocence, +<ul><li> value of, <a href='#6_Page_44'>44</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Sexual morality, <a href='#6_Page_362'>362</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Sexual neurasthenia, <a href='#6_Page_183'>183</a>, <a href='#6_Page_189'>189</a>, <a href='#6_Page_203'>203</a>.</li> +<li>Sexual physiology in education, <a href='#6_Page_57'>57</a>.</li> +<li>Sexual precocity, <a href='#6_Page_35'>35</a>, <a href='#6_Page_209'>209</a>, <a href='#6_Page_528'>528</a>, <a href='#6_Page_634'>634</a>.</li> +<li>Shakespeare in relation to sexual education, <a href='#6_Page_90'>90</a>.</li> +<li>Slavs, +<ul><li> sexual freedom among, <a href='#6_Page_227'>227</a>, <a href='#6_Page_384'>384</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Socialism and individualism, <a href='#6_Page_24'>24</a>.</li> +<li>Spain, +<ul><li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_266'>266</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Stage, +<ul><li> prostitution on the, <a href='#6_Page_356'>356</a>.<a name='6_Page_656'></a></li></ul></li> +<li>State, +<ul><li> its interest in children, <a href='#6_Page_22'>22</a>, <a href='#6_Page_488'>488</a>, <a href='#6_Page_505'>505</a>.</li> +<li> nurseries, <a href='#6_Page_31'>31</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Sterility in relation to gonorrhœa, <a href='#6_Page_329'>329</a>.</li> +<li>Stirpiculture, <a href='#6_Page_618'>618</a>. +<ul><li> causes of, <a href='#6_Page_631'>631</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Stork legend of origin of babies, <a href='#6_Page_41'>41</a>.</li> +<li>Suckling in relation to puericulture, <a href='#6_Page_24'>24</a>.</li> +<li>Swahili, +<ul><li> sexual education among, <a href='#6_Page_516'>516</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Switzerland, +<ul><li> divorce in, <a href='#6_Page_457'>457</a>.</li> +<li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_251'>251</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Syphilis, +<ul><li> its prevalence, <a href='#6_Page_326'>326</a>.</li> +<li> nature and results of, <a href='#6_Page_324'>324</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> of the innocent, <a href='#6_Page_336'>336</a>.</li> +<li> questions of the origin of, <a href='#6_Page_321'>321</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> <i>And see</i> Venereal Diseases.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Tahiti, +<ul><li> chastity and unchastity in old, <a href='#6_Page_148'>148</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Teachers and sexual hygiene, <a href='#6_Page_83'>83</a>.</li> +<li>Teutonic custom, +<ul><li> influence on position of women, <a href='#6_Page_401'>401</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> influence on marriage, <a href='#6_Page_431'>431</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Theatre, +<ul><li> as a beneficial form of the orgy, <a href='#6_Page_222'>222</a>.</li> +<li> early Christian attitude towards, <a href='#6_Page_220'>220</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Thekla, +<ul><li> legend of, <a href='#6_Page_156'>156</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Town life and sexuality, <a href='#6_Page_38'>38</a>, <a href='#6_Page_293'>293</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Trappists, +<ul><li> régime of, <a href='#6_Page_208'>208</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Trent, Council of, <a href='#6_Page_434'>434</a>, <a href='#6_Page_437'>437</a>.</li> +<li>Trial-marriage, <a href='#6_Page_379'>379</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Urban life and sexuality, <a href='#6_Page_38'>38</a>, <a href='#6_Page_293'>293</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Uterine fibroids, <a href='#6_Page_187'>187</a>.</li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Vaginismus, <a href='#6_Page_525'>525</a>.</li> +<li>Vasectomy, <a href='#6_Page_615'>615</a>.</li> +<li>Venereal diseases, +<ul><li> conquest of the, <a href='#6_Page_316'>316</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> free treatment of, <a href='#6_Page_345'>345</a>.</li> +<li> need of enlightenment concerning, <a href='#6_Page_350'>350</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> notification of, <a href='#6_Page_343'>343</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> personal responsibility for, <a href='#6_Page_349'>349</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> punishment for transmission of, <a href='#6_Page_345'>345</a> <i>et seq.</i></li></ul></li> +<li>Venice, +<ul><li> prostitution in, <a href='#6_Page_241'>241</a>, <a href='#6_Page_245'>245</a>, <a href='#6_Page_246'>246</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Virgin, +<ul><li> intercourse with as a cure for syphilis, <a href='#6_Page_337'>337</a>.</li> +<li> original meaning of the term, <a href='#6_Page_165'>165</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Virginity, +<ul><li> why valued, <a href='#6_Page_147'>147</a>, <a href='#6_Page_165'>165</a>, <a href='#6_Page_175'>175</a>, <a href='#6_Page_403'>403</a>, <a href='#6_Page_469'>469</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Wagner's music dramas, <a href='#6_Page_223'>223</a>.</li> +<li>Wales, +<ul><li> divorce in ancient, <a href='#6_Page_461'>461</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>White slavery, <a href='#6_Page_302'>302</a>.</li> +<li>Wife-purchase among ancient Germans, <a href='#6_Page_431'>431</a>. +<ul><li> in modern times, <a href='#6_Page_403'>403</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Woman movement, <a href='#6_Page_4'>4</a>, <a href='#6_Page_68'>68</a>, <a href='#6_Page_409'>409</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li>Women, +<ul><li> alleged tendency to dissimulation, <a href='#6_Page_412'>412</a>.</li> +<li> among the Jews, <a href='#6_Page_394'>394</a>.</li> +<li> and sexual abstinence, <a href='#6_Page_185'>185</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> erotic characteristics of, <a href='#6_Page_541'>541</a>.</li> +<li> ignorance of art of love, <a href='#6_Page_520'>520</a>.</li> +<li> in Arabia, <a href='#6_Page_394'>394</a>.</li> +<li> in Babylonia, <a href='#6_Page_393'>393</a>.</li> +<li> in Egypt, <a href='#6_Page_393'>393</a>, <a href='#6_Page_408'>408</a>.</li> +<li> in modern Europe, <a href='#6_Page_397'>397</a>.</li> +<li> in relation to divorce, <a href='#6_Page_468'>468</a>.</li> +<li> in relation to free sexual unions, <a href='#6_Page_386'>386</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> in Rome, <a href='#6_Page_395'>395</a>, <a href='#6_Page_428'>428</a>.</li> +<li> inequality before the law, <a href='#6_Page_473'>473</a>.</li> +<li> moral equality with men, <a href='#6_Page_438'>438</a>, <a href='#6_Page_495'>495</a>.</li> +<li> must not be compulsory mothers, <a href='#6_Page_586'>586</a>.</li> +<li> not attracted to innocent men, <a href='#6_Page_524'>524</a>.</li> +<li> position as affected by Teutonic custom, <a href='#6_Page_401'>401</a> <i>et seq.</i></li> +<li> procreative age of, <a href='#6_Page_634'>634</a>.</li> +<li> their high status in ancient Ireland, <a href='#6_Page_392'>392</a>.</li> +<li> their need of economic independence, <a href='#6_Page_407'>407</a>.</li> +<li> their need of personal responsibility, <a href='#6_Page_405'>405</a>, <a href='#6_Page_469'>469</a>.</li> +<li> their need of sexual knowledge, <a href='#6_Page_44'>44</a> <i>et seq.</i>, <a href='#6_Page_351'>351</a>.</li> +<li> understand love better than men, <a href='#6_Page_527'>527</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Yakuts, +<ul><li> attitude towards virginity, <a href='#6_Page_147'>147</a>.</li></ul></li> +<li>Yuman Indians, +<ul><li> sexual initiation among, <a href='#6_Page_88'>88</a>.</li></ul></li> +</ul> + + +<ul><li>Zoölogy and sexual education, <a href='#6_Page_59'>59</a>.</li> +</ul> +<br> +<br> +<hr class="pg" noshade> +<p>***END OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, VOLUME 6 (OF 6)***</p> +<p>******* This file should be named 13615-h.txt or 13615-h.zip *******</p> +<p>This and all associated files of various formats will 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + + + + +Title: Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 6 (of 6) + +Author: Havelock Ellis + +Release Date: October 8, 2004 [eBook #13615] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-646-US (US-ASCII) + + +***START OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, +VOLUME 6 (OF 6)*** + + +E-text prepared by Juliet Sutherland and the Project Gutenberg Online +Distributed Proofreading Team (https://www.pgdp.net) + + + +STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, VOLUME VI + + Sex in Relation to Society + +by + +HAVELOCK ELLIS + +1927 + + + + + + + +PREFACE. + +In the previous five volumes of these _Studies_, I have dealt mainly with +the sexual impulse in relation to its object, leaving out of account the +external persons and the environmental influences which yet may powerfully +affect that impulse and its gratification. We cannot afford, however, to +pass unnoticed this relationship of the sexual impulse to third persons +and to the community at large with all its anciently established +traditions. We have to consider sex in relation to society. + +In so doing, it will be possible to discuss more summarily than in +preceding volumes the manifold and important problems that are presented +to us. In considering the more special questions of sexual psychology we +entered a neglected field and it was necessary to expend an analytic care +and precision which at many points had never been expended before on these +questions. But when we reach the relationships of sex to society we have +for the most part no such neglect to encounter. The subject of every +chapter in the present volume could easily form, and often has formed, the +topic of a volume, and the literature of many of these subjects is already +extremely voluminous. It must therefore be our main object here not to +accumulate details but to place each subject by turn, as clearly and +succinctly as may be, in relation to those fundamental principles of +sexual psychology which--so far as the data at present admit--have been +set forth in the preceding volumes. + +It may seem to some, indeed, that in this exposition I should have +confined myself to the present, and not included so wide a sweep of the +course of human history and the traditions of the race. It may especially +seem that I have laid too great a stress on the influence of Christianity +in moulding sexual ideals and establishing sexual institutions. That, I am +convinced, is an error. It is because it is so frequently made that the +movements of progress among us--movements that can never at any period of +social history cease--are by many so seriously misunderstood. We cannot +escape from our traditions. There never has been, and never can be, any +"age of reason." The most ardent co-called "free-thinker," who casts aside +as he imagines the authority of the Christian past, is still held by that +past. If its traditions are not absolutely in his blood, they are +ingrained in the texture of all the social institutions into which he was +born and they affect even his modes of thinking. The latest modifications +of our institutions are inevitably influenced by the past form of those +institutions. We cannot realize where we are, nor whither we are moving, +unless we know whence we came. We cannot understand the significance of +the changes around us, nor face them with cheerful confidence, unless we +are acquainted with the drift of the great movements that stir all +civilization in never-ending cycles. + +In discussing sexual questions which are very largely matters of social +hygiene we shall thus still be preserving the psychological point of view. +Such a point of view in relation to these matters is not only legitimate +but necessary. Discussions of social hygiene that are purely medical or +purely juridical or purely moral or purely theological not only lead to +conclusions that are often entirely opposed to each other but they +obviously fail to possess complete applicability to the complex human +personality. The main task before us must be to ascertain what best +expresses, and what best satisfies, the totality of the impulses and ideas +of civilized men and women. So that while we must constantly bear in mind +medical, legal, and moral demands--which all correspond in some respects +to some individual or social need--the main thing is to satisfy the +demands of the whole human person. + +It is necessary to emphasize this point of view because it would seem +that no error is more common among writers on the hygienic and moral +problems of sex than the neglect of the psychological standpoint. They may +take, for instance, the side of sexual restraint, or the side of sexual +unrestraint, but they fail to realize that so narrow a basis is inadequate +for the needs of complex human beings. From the wider psychological +standpoint we recognize that we have to conciliate opposing impulses that +are both alike founded on the human psychic organism. + +In the preceding volumes of these _Studies_ I have sought to refrain from +the expression of any personal opinion and to maintain, so far as +possible, a strictly objective attitude. In this endeavor, I trust, I have +been successful if I may judge from the fact that I have received the +sympathy and approval of all kinds of people, not less of the +rationalistic free-thinker than of the orthodox believer, of those who +accept, as well as of those who reject, our most current standards of +morality. This is as it should be, for whatever our criteria of the worth +of feelings and of conduct, it must always be of use to us to know what +exactly are the feelings of people and how those feelings tend to affect +their conduct. In the present volume, however, where social traditions +necessarily come in for consideration and where we have to discuss the +growth of those traditions in the past and their probable evolution in the +future, I am not sanguine that the objectivity of my attitude will be +equally clear to the reader. I have here to set down not only what people +actually feel and do but what I think they are tending to feel and do. +That is a matter of estimation only, however widely and however cautiously +it is approached; it cannot be a matter of absolute demonstration. I trust +that those who have followed me in the past will bear with me still, even +if it is impossible for them always to accept the conclusions I have +myself reached. + +HAVELOCK ELLIS. + +Carbis Bay, Cornwall, England. + + + + +CONTENTS. + + +CHAPTER I. + +THE MOTHER AND HER CHILD. + +The Child's Right to Choose Its Ancestry--How This is Effected--The Mother +the Child's Supreme Parent--Motherhood and the Woman Movement--The Immense +Importance of Motherhood--Infant Mortality and Its Causes--The Chief Cause +in the Mother--The Need of Rest During Pregnancy--Frequency of Premature +Birth--The Function of the State--Recent Advance in Puericulture--The +Question of Coitus During Pregnancy--The Need of Rest During +Lactation--The Mother's Duty to Suckle Her Child--The Economic +Question--The Duty of the State--Recent Progress in the Protection of the +Mother--The Fallacy of State Nurseries. + + +CHAPTER II. + +SEXUAL EDUCATION. + +Nurture Necessary as Well as Breed--Precocious Manifestations of the +Sexual Impulse--Are they to be Regarded as Normal?--The Sexual Play of +Children--The Emotion of Love in Childhood--Are Town Children More +Precocious Sexually Than Country Children?--Children's Ideas Concerning +the Origin of Babies--Need for Beginning the Sexual Education of Children +in Early Years--The Importance of Early Training in Responsibility--Evil +of the Old Doctrine of Silence in Matters of Sex--The Evil Magnified When +Applied to Girls--The Mother the Natural and Best Teacher--The Morbid +Influence of Artificial Mystery in Sex Matters--Books on Sexual +Enlightenment of the Young--Nature of the Mother's Task--Sexual Education +in the School--The Value of Botany--Zooelogy--Sexual Education After +Puberty--The Necessity of Counteracting Quack Literature--Danger of +Neglecting to Prepare for the First Onset of Menstruation--The Right +Attitude Towards Woman's Sexual Life--The Vital Necessity of the Hygiene +of Menstruation During Adolescence--Such Hygiene Compatible with the +Educational and Social Equality of the Sexes--The Invalidism of Women +Mainly Due to Hygienic Neglect--Good Influence of Physical Training on +Women and Bad Influence of Athletics--The Evils of Emotional +Suppression--Need of Teaching the Dignity of Sex--Influence of These +Factors on a Woman's Fate in Marriage--Lectures and Addresses on Sexual +Hygiene--The Doctor's Part in Sexual Education--Pubertal Initiation Into +the Ideal World--The Place of the Religious and Ethical Teacher--The +Initiation Rites of Savages Into Manhood and Womanhood--The Sexual +Influence of Literature--The Sexual Influence of Art. + + +CHAPTER III. + +SEXUAL EDUCATION AND NAKEDNESS. + +The Greek Attitude Towards Nakedness--How the Romans Modified That +Attitude--The Influence of Christianity--Nakedness in Mediaeval +Times--Evolution of the Horror of Nakedness--Concomitant Change in the +Conception of Nakedness--Prudery--The Romantic Movement--Rise of a New +Feeling in Regard to Nakedness--The Hygienic Aspect of Nakedness--How +Children May Be Accustomed to Nakedness--Nakedness Not Inimical to +Modesty--The Instinct of Physical Pride--The Value of Nakedness in +Education--The AEsthetic Value of Nakedness--The Human Body as One of the +Prime Tonics of Life--How Nakedness May Be Cultivated--The Moral Value of +Nakedness. + + +CHAPTER IV. + +THE VALUATION OF SEXUAL LOVE. + +The Conception of Sexual Love--The Attitude of Mediaeval Asceticism--St. +Bernard and St. Odo of Cluny--The Ascetic Insistence on the Proximity of +the Sexual and Excretory Centres--Love as a Sacrament of Nature--The Idea +of the Impurity of Sex in Primitive Religions Generally--Theories of the +Origin of This Idea--The Anti-Ascetic Element in the Bible and Early +Christianity--Clement of Alexandria--St. Augustine's Attitude--The +Recognition of the Sacredness of the Body by Tertullian, Rufinus and +Athanasius--The Reformation--The Sexual Instinct Regarded as Beastly--The +Human Sexual Instinct Not Animal-like--Lust and Love--The Definition of +Love--Love and Names for Love Unknown in Some Parts of the World--Romantic +Love of Late Development in the White Race--The Mystery of Sexual +Desire--Whether Love is a Delusion--The Spiritual as Well as the Physical +Structure of the World in Part Built up on Sexual Love The Testimony of +Men of Intellect to the Supremacy of Love. + + +CHAPTER V. + +THE FUNCTION OF CHASTITY. + +Chastity Essential to the Dignity of Love--The Eighteenth Century Revolt +Against the Ideal of Chastity--Unnatural Forms of Chastity--The +Psychological Basis of Asceticism--Asceticism and Chastity as Savage +Virtues--The Significance of Tahiti--Chastity Among Barbarous +Peoples--Chastity Among the Early Christians--Struggles of the Saints with +the Flesh--The Romance of Christian Chastity--Its Decay in Mediaeval +Times--_Aucassin et Nicolette_ and the New Romance of Chaste Love--The +Unchastity of the Northern Barbarians--The Penitentials--Influence of the +Renaissance and the Reformation--The Revolt Against Virginity as a +Virtue--The Modern Conception of Chastity as a Virtue--The Influences That +Favor the Virtue of Chastity--Chastity as a Discipline--The Value of +Chastity for the Artist--Potency and Impotence in Popular Estimation--The +Correct Definitions of Asceticism and Chastity. + + +CHAPTER VI. + +THE PROBLEM OF SEXUAL ABSTINENCE. + +The Influence of Tradition--The Theological Conception of Lust--Tendency +of These Influences to Degrade Sexual Morality--Their Result in Creating +the Problem of Sexual Abstinence--The Protests Against Sexual +Abstinence--Sexual Abstinence and Genius--Sexual Abstinence in Women--The +Advocates of Sexual Abstinence--Intermediate Attitude--Unsatisfactory +Nature of the Whole Discussion--Criticism of the Conception of Sexual +Abstinence--Sexual Abstinence as Compared to Abstinence from Food--No +Complete Analogy--The Morality of Sexual Abstinence Entirely Negative--Is +It the Physician's Duty to Advise Extra-Conjugal Sexual +Intercourse?--Opinions of Those Who Affirm or Deny This Duty--The +Conclusion Against Such Advice--The Physician Bound by the Social and +Moral Ideas of His Age--The Physician as Reformer--Sexual Abstinence and +Sexual Hygiene--Alcohol--The Influence of Physical and Mental +Exercise--The Inadequacy of Sexual Hygiene in This Field--The Unreal +Nature of the Conception of Sexual Abstinence--The Necessity of Replacing +It by a More Positive Ideal. + + +CHAPTER VII. + +PROSTITUTION. + +I. _The Orgy:_--The Religious Origin of the Orgy--The Feast of +Fools--Recognition of the Orgy by the Greeks and Romans--The Orgy Among +Savages--The Drama--The Object Subserved by the Orgy. + +II. _The Origin and Development of Prostitution:_--The Definition of +Prostitution--Prostitution Among Savages--The Conditions Under Which +Professional Prostitution Arises--Sacred Prostitution--The Rite of +Mylitta--The Practice of Prostitution to Obtain a Marriage Portion--The +Rise of Secular Prostitution in Greece--Prostitution in the East--India, +China, Japan, etc.--Prostitution in Rome--The Influence of Christianity on +Prostitution--The Effort to Combat Prostitution--The Mediaeval Brothel--The +Appearance of the Courtesan--Tullia D'Aragona--Veronica Franco--Ninon de +Lenclos--Later Attempts to Eradicate Prostitution--The Regulation of +Prostitution--Its Futility Becoming Recognized. + +III. _The Causes of Prostitution:_--Prostitution as a Part of the Marriage +System--The Complex Causation of Prostitution--The Motives Assigned by +Prostitutes--(1) Economic Factor of Prostitution--Poverty Seldom the Chief +Motive for Prostitution--But Economic Pressure Exerts a Real +Influence--The Large Proportion of Prostitutes Recruited from Domestic +Service--Significance of This Fact--(2) The Biological Factor of +Prostitution--The So-called Born-Prostitute--Alleged Identity with the +Born-Criminal--The Sexual Instinct in Prostitutes--The Physical and +Psychic Characters of Prostitutes--(3) Moral Necessity as a Factor in the +Existence of Prostitution--The Moral Advocates of Prostitution--The Moral +Attitude of Christianity Towards Prostitution--The Attitude of +Protestantism--Recent Advocates of the Moral Necessity of +Prostitution--(4) Civilizational Value as a Factor of Prostitution--The +Influence of Urban Life--The Craving for Excitement--Why Servant-girls so +Often Turn to Prostitution--The Small Part Played by Seduction--Prostitutes +Come Largely from the Country--The Appeal of Civilization Attracts Women +to Prostitution--The Corresponding Attraction Felt by Men--The Prostitute +as Artist and Leader of Fashion--The Charm of Vulgarity. + +IV. _The Present Social Attitude Towards Prostitution:_--The Decay of the +Brothel--The Tendency to the Humanization of Prostitution--The Monetary +Aspects of Prostitution--The Geisha--The Hetaira--The Moral Revolt Against +Prostitution--Squalid Vice Based on Luxurious Virtue--The Ordinary +Attitude Towards Prostitutes--Its Cruelty Absurd--The Need of Reforming +Prostitution--The Need of Reforming Marriage--These Two Needs Closely +Correlated--The Dynamic Relationships Involved. + + +CHAPTER VIII. + +THE CONQUEST OF THE VENEREAL DISEASES. + +The Significance of the Venereal Diseases--The History of Syphilis--The +Problem of Its Origin--The Social Gravity of Syphilis--The Social Dangers +of Gonorrhoea--The Modern Change in the Methods of Combating Venereal +Diseases--Causes of the Decay of the System of Police Regulation--Necessity +of Facing the Facts--The Innocent Victims of Venereal Diseases--Diseases +Not Crimes--The Principle of Notification--The Scandinavian +System--Gratuitous Treatment--Punishment For Transmitting +Venereal Diseases--Sexual Education in Relation to Venereal +Diseases--Lectures, Etc.--Discussion in Novels and on the Stage--The +"Disgusting" Not the "Immoral". + + +CHAPTER IX. + +SEXUAL MORALITY. + +Prostitution in Relation to Our Marriage System--Marriage and +Morality--The Definition of the Term "Morality"--Theoretical Morality--Its +Division Into Traditional Morality and Ideal Morality--Practical +Morality--Practical Morality Based on Custom--The Only Subject of +Scientific Ethics--The Reaction Between Theoretical and Practical +Morality--Sexual Morality in the Past an Application of Economic +Morality--The Combined Rigidity and Laxity of This Morality--The +Growth of a Specific Sexual Morality and the Evolution of Moral +Ideals--Manifestations of Sexual Morality--Disregard of the Forms of +Marriage--Trial Marriage--Marriage After Conception of Child--Phenomena in +Germany, Anglo-Saxon Countries, Russia, etc.--The Status of Woman--The +Historical Tendency Favoring Moral Equality of Women with Men--The Theory +of the Matriarchate--Mother-Descent--Women in Babylonia--Egypt--Rome--The +Eighteenth and Nineteenth Centuries--The Historical Tendency +Favoring Moral Inequality of Woman--The Ambiguous Influence of +Christianity--Influence of Teutonic Custom and Feudalism--Chivalry--Woman +in England--The Sale of Wives--The Vanishing Subjection of +Woman--Inaptitude of the Modern Man to Domineer--The Growth of Moral +Responsibility in Women--The Concomitant Development of Economic +Independence--The Increase of Women Who Work--Invasion of the Modern +Industrial Field by Women--In How Far This Is Socially Justifiable--The +Sexual Responsibility of Women and Its Consequences--The Alleged Moral +Inferiority of Women--The "Self-Sacrifice" of Women--Society Not +Concerned with Sexual Relationships--Procreation the Sole Sexual Concern +of the State--The Supreme Importance of Maternity. + + +CHAPTER X. + +MARRIAGE. + +The Definition of Marriage--Marriage Among Animals--The Predominance of +Monogamy--The Question of Group Marriage--Monogamy a Natural Fact, Not +Based on Human Law--The Tendency to Place the Form of Marriage Above the +Fact of Marriage--The History of Marriage--Marriage in Ancient +Rome--Germanic Influence on Marriage--Bride-Sale--The Ring--The Influence +of Christianity on Marriage--The Great Extent of this Influence--The +Sacrament of Matrimony--Origin and Growth of the Sacramental +Conception--The Church Made Marriage a Public Act--Canon Law--Its Sound +Core--Its Development--Its Confusions and Absurdities--Peculiarities of +English Marriage Law--Influence of the Reformation on Marriage--The +Protestant Conception of Marriage as a Secular Contract--The Puritan +Reform of Marriage--Milton as the Pioneer of Marriage Reform--His Views on +Divorce--The Backward Position of England in Marriage Reform--Criticism of +the English Divorce Law--Traditions of the Canon Law Still Persistent--The +Question of Damages for Adultery--Collusion as a Bar to +Divorce--Divorce in France, Germany, Austria, Russia, etc.--The United +States--Impossibility of Deciding by Statute the Causes for +Divorce--Divorce by Mutual Consent--Its Origin and Development--Impeded by +the Traditions of Canon Law--Wilhelm von Humboldt--Modern Pioneer +Advocates of Divorce by Mutual Consent--The Arguments Against Facility of +Divorce--The Interests of the Children--The Protection of Women--The +Present Tendency of the Divorce Movement--Marriage Not a Contract--The +Proposal of Marriage for a Term of Years--Legal Disabilities and +Disadvantages in the Position of the Husband and the Wife--Marriage Not a +Contract But a Fact--Only the Non-Essentials of Marriage, Not the +Essentials, a Proper Matter for Contract--The Legal Recognition of +Marriage as a Fact Without Any Ceremony--Contracts of the Person Opposed +to Modern Tendencies--The Factor of Moral Responsibility--Marriage as an +Ethical Sacrament--Personal Responsibility Involves Freedom--Freedom the +Best Guarantee of Stability--False Ideas of Individualism--Modern Tendency +of Marriage--With the Birth of a Child Marriage Ceases to be a Private +Concern--Every Child Must Have a Legal Father and Mother--How This Can be +Effected--The Firm Basis of Monogamy--The Question of Marriage +Variations--Such Variations Not Inimical to Monogamy--The Most Common +Variations--The Flexibility of Marriage Holds Variations in +Check--Marriage Variations _versus_ Prostitution--Marriage on a Reasonable +and Humane Basis--Summary and Conclusion. + + +CHAPTER XI. + +THE ART OF LOVE. + +Marriage Not Only for Procreation--Theologians on the _Sacramentum +Solationis_--Importance of the _Art of Love_--The Basis of Stability in +Marriage and the Condition for Right Procreation--The Art of Love the +Bulwark Against Divorce--The Unity of Love and Marriage a Principle of +Modern Morality--Christianity and the Art of Love--Ovid--The Art of Love +Among Primitive Peoples--Sexual Initiation in Africa and Elsewhere--The +Tendency to Spontaneous Development of the Art of Love in Early +Life--Flirtation--Sexual Ignorance in Women--The Husband's Place in Sexual +Initiation--Sexual Ignorance in Men--The Husband's Education for +Marriage--The Injury Done by the Ignorance of Husbands--The Physical and +Mental Results of Unskilful Coitus--Women Understand the Art of Love +Better Than Men--Ancient and Modern Opinions Concerning Frequency of +Coitus--Variation in Sexual Capacity--The Sexual Appetite--The Art of Love +Based on the Biological Facts of Courtship--The Art of Pleasing Women--The +Lover Compared to the Musician--The Proposal as a Part of +Courtship--Divination in the Art of Love--The Importance of the +Preliminaries in Courtship--The Unskilful Husband Frequently the Cause of +the Frigid Wife--The Difficulty of Courtship--Simultaneous Orgasm--The +Evils of Incomplete Gratification in Women--Coitus Interruptus--Coitus +Reservatus--The Human Method of Coitus--Variations in Coitus--Posture in +Coitus--The Best Time for Coitus--The Influence of Coitus in Marriage--The +Advantages of Absence in Marriage--The Risks of Absence--Jealousy--The +Primitive Function of Jealousy--Its Predominance Among Animals, Savages, +etc, and in Pathological States--An Anti-Social Emotion--Jealousy +Incompatible With the Progress of Civilization--The Possibility of Loving +More Than One Person at a Time--Platonic Friendship--The Conditions Which +Make It Possible--The Maternal Element in Woman's Love--The Final +Development of Conjugal Love--The Problem of Love One of the Greatest Of +Social Questions. + + +CHAPTER XII. + +THE SCIENCE OF PROCREATION. + +The Relationship of the Science of Procreation to the Art of Love--Sexual +Desire and Sexual Pleasure as the Conditions of Conception--Reproduction +Formerly Left to Caprice and Lust--The Question of Procreation as a +Religious Question--The Creed of Eugenics--Ellen Key and Sir Francis +Galton--Our Debt to Posterity--The Problem of Replacing Natural +Selection--The Origin and Development of Eugenics--The General Acceptance +of Eugenical Principles To-day--The Two Channels by Which Eugenical +Principles are Becoming Embodied in Practice--The Sense of Sexual +Responsibility in Women--The Rejection of Compulsory Motherhood--The +Privilege of Voluntary Motherhood--Causes of the Degradation of +Motherhood--The Control of Conception--Now Practiced by the Majority of +the Population in Civilized Countries--The Fallacy of "Racial +Suicide"--Are Large Families a Stigma of Degeneration?--Procreative +Control the Outcome of Natural and Civilized Progress--The Growth of +Neo-Malthusian Beliefs and Practices--Facultative Sterility as Distinct +from Neo-Malthusianism--The Medical and Hygienic Necessity of Control of +Conception--Preventive Methods--Abortion--The New Doctrine of the Duty to +Practice Abortion--How Far is this Justifiable?--Castration as a Method of +Controlling Procreation--Negative Eugenics and Positive Eugenics--The +Question of Certificates for Marriage--The Inadequacy of Eugenics by Act +of Parliament--The Quickening of the Social Conscience in Regard to +Heredity--Limitations to the Endowment of Motherhood--The Conditions +Favorable to Procreation--Sterility--The Question of Artificial +Fecundation--The Best Age of Procreation--The Question of Early +Motherhood--The Best Time for Procreation--The Completion of the Divine +Cycle of Life. + + + + +CHAPTER I. + +THE MOTHER AND HER CHILD. + +The Child's Right to Choose Its Ancestry--How This is Effected--The Mother +the Child's Supreme Parent--Motherhood and the Woman Movement--The Immense +Importance of Motherhood--Infant Mortality and Its Causes--The Chief Cause +in the Mother--The Need of Rest During Pregnancy--Frequency of Premature +Birth--The Function of the State--Recent Advance in Puericulture--The +Question of Coitus During Pregnancy--The Need of Rest During +Lactation--The Mother's Duty to Suckle Her Child--The Economic +Question--The Duty of the State--Recent Progress in the Protection of the +Mother--The Fallacy of State Nurseries. + + +A man's sexual nature, like all else that is most essential in him, is +rooted in a soil that was formed very long before his birth. In this, as +in every other respect, he draws the elements of his life from his +ancestors, however new the recombination may be and however greatly it may +be modified by subsequent conditions. A man's destiny stands not in the +future but in the past. That, rightly considered, is the most vital of all +vital facts. Every child thus has a right to choose his own ancestors. +Naturally he can only do this vicariously, through his parents. It is the +most serious and sacred duty of the future father to choose one half of +the ancestral and hereditary character of his future child; it is the most +serious and sacred duty of the future mother to make a similar choice.[1] +In choosing each other they have between them chosen the whole ancestry of +their child. They have determined the stars that will rule his fate. + +In the past that fateful determination has usually been made helplessly, +ignorantly, almost unconsciously. It has either been guided by an +instinct which, on the whole, has worked out fairly well, or controlled by +economic interests of the results of which so much cannot be said, or left +to the risks of lower than bestial chances which can produce nothing but +evil. In the future we cannot but have faith--for all the hope of humanity +must rest on that faith--that a new guiding impulse, reinforcing natural +instinct and becoming in time an inseparable accompaniment of it, will +lead civilized man on his racial course. Just as in the past the race has, +on the whole, been moulded by a natural, and in part sexual, selection, +that was unconscious of itself and ignorant of the ends it made towards, +so in the future the race will be moulded by deliberate selection, the +creative energy of Nature becoming self-conscious in the civilized brain +of man. This is not a faith which has its source in a vague hope. The +problems of the individual life are linked on to the fate of the racial +life, and again and again we shall find as we ponder the individual +questions we are here concerned with, that at all points they ultimately +converge towards this same racial end. + +Since we have here, therefore, to follow out the sexual relationships of +the individual as they bear on society, it will be convenient at this +point to put aside the questions of ancestry and to accept the individual +as, with hereditary constitution already determined, he lies in his +mother's womb. + +It is the mother who is the child's supreme parent. At various points in +zooelogical evolution it has seemed possible that the functions that we now +know as those of maternity would be largely and even equally shared by the +male parent. Nature has tried various experiments in this direction, among +the fishes, for instance, and even among birds. But reasonable and +excellent as these experiments were, and though they were sufficiently +sound to secure their perpetuation unto this day, it remains true that it +was not along these lines that Man was destined to emerge. Among all the +mammal predecessors of Man, the male is an imposing and important figure +in the early days of courtship, but after conception has once been secured +the mother plays the chief part in the racial life. The male must be +content to forage abroad and stand on guard when at home in the +ante-chamber of the family. When she has once been impregnated the female +animal angrily rejects the caresses she had welcomed so coquettishly +before, and even in Man the place of the father at the birth of his child +is not a notably dignified or comfortable one. Nature accords the male but +a secondary and comparatively humble place in the home, the breeding-place +of the race; he may compensate himself if he will, by seeking adventure +and renown in the world outside. The mother is the child's supreme parent, +and during the period from conception to birth the hygiene of the future +man can only be affected by influences which work through her. + +Fundamental and elementary as is the fact of the predominant position of +the mother in relation to the life of the race, incontestable as it must +seem to all those who have traversed the volumes of these _Studies_ up to +the present point, it must be admitted that it has sometimes been +forgotten or ignored. In the great ages of humanity it has indeed been +accepted as a central and sacred fact. In classic Rome at one period the +house of the pregnant woman was adorned with garlands, and in Athens it +was an inviolable sanctuary where even the criminal might find shelter. +Even amid the mixed influences of the exuberantly vital times which +preceded the outburst of the Renaissance, the ideally beautiful woman, as +pictures still show, was the pregnant woman. But it has not always been +so. At the present time, for instance, there can be no doubt that we are +but beginning to emerge from a period during which this fact was often +disputed and denied, both in theory and in practice, even by women +themselves. This was notably the case both in England and America, and it +is probably owing in large part to the unfortunate infatuation which led +women in these lands to follow after masculine ideals that at the present +moment the inspirations of progress in women's movements come mainly +to-day from the women of other lands. Motherhood and the future of the +race were systematically belittled. Paternity is but a mere incident, it +was argued, in man's life: why should maternity be more than a mere +incident in woman's life? In England, by a curiously perverted form of +sexual attraction, women were so fascinated by the glamour that surrounded +men that they desired to suppress or forget all the facts of organic +constitution which made them unlike men, counting their glory as their +shame, and sought the same education as men, the same occupations as men, +even the same sports. As we know, there was at the origin an element of +rightness in this impulse.[2] It was absolutely right in so far as it was +a claim for freedom from artificial restriction, and a demand for economic +independence. But it became mischievous and absurd when it developed into +a passion for doing, in all respects, the same things as men do; how +mischievous and how absurd we may realize if we imagine men developing a +passion to imitate the ways and avocations of women. Freedom is only good +when it is a freedom to follow the laws of one's own nature; it ceases to +be freedom when it becomes a slavish attempt to imitate others, and would +be disastrous if it could be successful.[3] + +At the present day this movement on the theoretical side has ceased to +possess any representatives who exert serious influence. Yet its practical +results are still prominently exhibited in England and the other countries +in which it has been felt. Infantile mortality is enormous, and in England +at all events is only beginning to show a tendency to diminish; motherhood +is without dignity, and the vitality of mothers is speedily crushed, so +that often they cannot so much as suckle their infants; ignorant +girl-mothers give their infants potatoes and gin; on every hand we are +told of the evidence of degeneracy in the race, or if not in the race, at +all events, in the young individuals of to-day. + + It would be out of place, and would lead us too far, to discuss + here these various practical outcomes of the foolish attempt to + belittle the immense racial importance of motherhood. It is + enough here to touch on the one point of the excess of infantile + mortality. + + In England--which is not from the social point of view in a very + much worse condition than most countries, for in Austria and + Russia the infant mortality is higher still, though in Australia + and New Zealand much lower, but still excessive--more than + one-fourth of the total number of deaths every year is of infants + under one year of age. In the opinion of medical officers of + health who are in the best position to form an opinion, about + one-half of this mortality, roughly speaking, is absolutely + preventable. Moreover, it is doubtful whether there is any real + movement of decrease in this mortality; during the past half + century it has sometimes slightly risen and sometimes slightly + fallen, and though during the past few years the general movement + of mortality for children under five in England and Wales has + shown a tendency to decrease, in London (according to J.F.J. + Sykes, although Sir Shirley Murphy has attempted to minimize the + significance of these figures) the infantile mortality rate for + the first three months of life actually rose from 69 per 1,000 in + the period 1888-1892 to 75 per 1,000 in the period 1898-1901. + (This refers, it must be remembered, to the period before the + introduction of the Notification of Births Act.) In any case, + although the general mortality shows a marked tendency to + improvement there is certainly no adequately corresponding + improvement in the infantile mortality. This is scarcely + surprising, when we realize that there has been no change for the + better, but rather for the worse, in the conditions under which + our infants are born and reared. Thus William Hall, who has had + an intimate knowledge extending over fifty-six years of the slums + of Leeds, and has weighed and measured many thousands of slum + children, besides examining over 120,000 boys and girls as to + their fitness for factory labor, states (_British Medical + Journal_, October 14, 1905) that "fifty years ago the slum mother + was much more sober, cleanly, domestic, and motherly than she is + to-day; she was herself better nourished and she almost always + suckled her children, and after weaning they received more + nutritious bone-making food, and she was able to prepare more + wholesome food at home." The system of compulsory education has + had an unfortunate influence in exerting a strain on the parents + and worsening the conditions of the home. For, excellent as + education is in itself, it is not the primary need of life, and + has been made compulsory before the more essential things of life + have been made equally compulsory. How absolutely unnecessary + this great mortality is may be shown, without evoking the good + example of Australia and New Zealand, by merely comparing small + English towns; thus while in Guildford the infantile death rate + is 65 per thousand, in Burslem it is 205 per thousand. + + It is sometimes said that infantile mortality is an economic + question, and that with improvement in wages it would cease. This + is only true to a limited extent and under certain conditions. In + Australia there is no grinding poverty, but the deaths of infants + under one year of age are still between 80 and 90 per thousand, + and one-third of this mortality, according to Hooper (_British + Medical Journal_, 1908, vol. ii, p. 289), being due to the + ignorance of mothers and the dislike to suckling, is easily + preventable. The employment of married women greatly diminishes + the poverty of a family, but nothing can be worse for the welfare + of the woman as mother, or for the welfare of her child. Reid, + the medical officer of health for Staffordshire, where there are + two large centres of artisan population with identical health + conditions, has shown that in the northern centre, where a very + large number of women are engaged in factories, still-births are + three times as frequent as in the southern centre, where there + are practically no trade employments for women; the frequency of + abnormalities is also in the same ratio. The superiority of + Jewish over Christian children, again, and their lower infantile + mortality, seem to be entirely due to the fact that Jewesses are + better mothers. "The Jewish children in the slums," says William + Hall (_British Medical Journal_, October 14, 1905), speaking from + wide and accurate knowledge, "were superior in weight, in teeth, + and in general bodily development, and they seemed less + susceptible to infectious disease. Yet these Jews were + overcrowded, they took little exercise, and their unsanitary + environment was obvious. The fact was, their children were much + better nourished. The pregnant Jewess was more cared for, and no + doubt supplied better nutriment to the foetus. After the children + were born 90 per cent. received breast-milk, and during later + childhood they were abundantly fed on bone-making material; eggs + and oil, fish, fresh vegetables, and fruit entered largely into + their diet." G. Newman, in his important and comprehensive book + on _Infant Mortality_, emphasizes the conclusion that "first of + all we need a higher standard of physical motherhood." The + problem of infantile mortality, he declares (page 259), is not + one of sanitation alone, or housing, or indeed of poverty as + such, "_but is mainly a question of motherhood_." + +The fundamental need of the pregnant woman is _rest_. Without a large +degree of maternal rest there can be no puericulture.[4] The task of +creating a man needs the whole of a woman's best energies, more especially +during the three months before birth. It cannot be subordinated to the tax +on strength involved by manual or mental labor, or even strenuous social +duties and amusements. The numerous experiments and observations which +have been made during recent years in Maternity Hospitals, more especially +in France, have shown conclusively that not only the present and future +well-being of the mother and the ease of her confinement, but the fate of +the child, are immensely influenced by rest during the last month of +pregnancy. "Every working woman is entitled to rest during the last three +months of her pregnancy." This formula was adopted by the International +Congress of Hygiene in 1900, but it cannot be practically carried out +except by the cooeperation of the whole community. For it is not enough to +say that a woman ought to rest during pregnancy; it is the business of the +community to ensure that that rest is duly secured. The woman herself, and +her employer, we may be certain, will do their best to cheat the +community, but it is the community which suffers, both economically and +morally, when a woman casts her inferior children into the world, and in +its own interests the community is forced to control both employer and +employed. We can no longer allow it to be said, in Bouchacourt's words, +that "to-day the dregs of the human species--the blind, the deaf-mute, the +degenerate, the nervous, the vicious, the idiotic, the imbecile, the +cretins and epileptics--are better protected than pregnant women."[5] + + Pinard, who must always be honored as one of the founders of + eugenics, has, together with his pupils, done much to prepare the + way for the acceptance of this simple but important principle by + making clear the grounds on which it is based. From prolonged + observations on the pregnant women of all classes Pinard has + shown conclusively that women who rest during pregnancy have + finer children than women who do not rest. Apart from the more + general evils of work during pregnancy, Pinard found that during + the later months it had a tendency to press the uterus down into + the pelvis, and so cause the premature birth of undeveloped + children, while labor was rendered more difficult and dangerous + (see, e.g., Pinard, _Gazette des Hopitaux_, Nov. 28, 1895, Id., + _Annales de Gynecologie_, Aug., 1898). + + Letourneux has studied the question whether repose during + pregnancy is necessary for women whose professional work is only + slightly fatiguing. He investigated 732 successive confinements + at the Clinique Baudelocque in Paris. He found that 137 women + engaged in fatiguing occupations (servants, cooks, etc.) and not + resting during pregnancy, produced children with an average + weight of 3,081 grammes; 115 women engaged in only slightly + fatiguing occupations (dressmakers, milliners, etc.) and also not + resting during pregnancy, had children with an average weight of + 3,130 grammes, a slight but significant difference, in view of + the fact that the women of the first group were large and robust, + while those of the second group were of slight and elegant build. + Again, comparing groups of women who rested during pregnancy, it + was found that the women accustomed to fatiguing work had + children with an average weight of 3,319 grammes, while those + accustomed to less fatiguing work had children with an average + weight of 3,318 grammes. The difference between repose and + non-repose is thus considerable, while it also enables robust + women exercising a fatiguing occupation to catch up, though not + to surpass, the frailer women exercising a less fatiguing + occupation. We see, too, that even in the comparatively + unfatiguing occupations of milliners, etc., rest during pregnancy + still remains important, and cannot safely be dispensed with. + "Society," Letourneux concludes, "must guarantee rest to women + not well off during a part of pregnancy. It will be repaid the + cost of doing so by the increased vigor of the children thus + produced" (Letourneux, _De l'Influence de la Profession de la + Mere sur le Poids de l'Enfant_, These de Paris, 1897). + + Dr. Dweira-Bernson (_Revue Pratique d'Obstetrique et de + Pediatrie_, 1903, p. 370), compared four groups of pregnant women + (servants with light work, servants with heavy work, farm girls, + dressmakers) who rested for three months before confinement with + four groups similarly composed who took no rest before + confinement. In every group he found that the difference in the + average weight of the child was markedly in favor of the women + who rested, and it was notable that the greatest difference was + found in the case of the farm girls who were probably the most + robust and also the hardest worked. + + The usual time of gestation ranges between 274 and 280 days (or + 280 to 290 days from the last menstrual period), and occasionally + a few days longer, though there is dispute as to the length of + the extreme limit, which some authorities would extend to 300 + days, or even to 320 days (Pinard, in Richet's _Dictionnaire de + Physiologie_, vol. vii, pp. 150-162; Taylor, _Medical + Jurisprudence_, fifth edition, pp. 44, 98 et seq.; L.M. Allen, + "Prolonged Gestation," _American Journal Obstetrics_, April, + 1907). It is possible, as Mueller suggested in 1898 in a These de + Nancy, that civilization tends to shorten the period of + gestation, and that in earlier ages it was longer than it is now. + Such a tendency to premature birth under the exciting nervous + influences of civilization would thus correspond, as Bouchacourt + has pointed out (_La Grossesse_, p. 113), to the similar effect + of domestication in animals. The robust countrywoman becomes + transformed into the more graceful, but also more fragile, town + woman who needs a degree of care and hygiene which the + countrywoman with her more resistant nervous system can to some + extent dispense with, although even she, as we see, suffers in + the person of her child, and probably in her own person, from the + effects of work during pregnancy. The serious nature of this + civilized tendency to premature birth--of which lack of rest in + pregnancy is, however, only one of several important causes--is + shown by the fact that Seropian (_Frequence Comparee des Causes + de l'Accouchement Premature_, These de Paris, 1907) found that + about one-third of French births (32.28 per cent.) are to a + greater or less extent premature. Pregnancy is not a morbid + condition; on the contrary, a pregnant woman is at the climax of + her most normal physiological life, but owing to the tension thus + involved she is specially liable to suffer from any slight shock + or strain. + + It must be remarked that the increased tendency to premature + birth, while in part it may be due to general tendencies of + civilization, is also in part due to very definite and + preventable causes. Syphilis, alcoholism, and attempts to produce + abortion are among the not uncommon causes of premature birth + (see, e.g., G.F. McCleary, "The Influence of Antenatal Conditions + on Infantile Mortality," _British Medical Journal_, Aug. 13, + 1904). + + Premature birth ought to be avoided, because the child born too + early is insufficiently equipped for the task before him. + Astengo, dealing with nearly 19,000 cases at the Lariboisiere + Hospital in Paris and the Maternite, found, that reckoning from + the date of the last menstruation, there is a direct relation + between the weight of the infant at birth and the length of the + pregnancy. The longer the pregnancy, the finer the child + (Astengo, _Rapport du Poids des Enfants a la Duree de la + Grossesse_, These de Paris, 1905). + + The frequency of premature birth is probably as great in England + as in France. Ballantyne states (_Manual of Antenatal Pathology; + The Foetus_, p. 456) that for practical purposes the frequency + of premature labors in maternity hospitals may be put at 20 per + cent., but that if all infants weighing less than 3,000 grammes + are to be regarded as premature, it rises to 41.5 per cent. That + premature birth is increasing in England seems to be indicated by + the fact that during the past twenty-five years there has been a + steady rise in the mortality rate from premature birth. McCleary, + who discusses this point and considers the increase real, + concludes that "it would appear that there has been a diminution + in the quality as well as in the quantity of our output of + babies" (see also a discussion, introduced by Dawson Williams, on + "Physical Deterioration," _British Medical Journal_, Oct. 14, + 1905). + + It need scarcely be pointed out that not only is immaturity a + cause of deterioration in the infants that survive, but that it + alone serves enormously to decrease the number of infants that + are able to survive. Thus G. Newman states (loc. cit.) that in + most large English urban districts immaturity is the chief cause + of infant mortality, furnishing about 30 per cent. of the infant + deaths; even in London (Islington) Alfred Harris (_British + Medical Journal_, Dec. 14, 1907) finds that it is responsible for + nearly 17 per cent. of the infantile deaths. It is estimated by + Newman that about half of the mothers of infants dying of + immaturity suffer from marked ill-health and poor physique; they + are not, therefore, fitted to be mothers. + + Rest during pregnancy is a very powerful agent in preventing + premature birth. Thus Dr. Sarraute-Lourie has compared 1,550 + pregnant women at the Asile Michelet who rested before + confinement with 1,550 women confined at the Hopital Lariboisiere + who had enjoyed no such period of rest. She found that the + average duration of pregnancy was at least twenty days shorter in + the latter group (Mme. Sarraute-Lourie, _De l'Influence du Repos + sur la Duree de la Gestation_, These de Paris, 1899). + + Leyboff has insisted on the absolute necessity of rest during + pregnancy, as well for the sake of the woman herself as the + burden she carries, and shows the evil results which follow when + rest is neglected. Railway traveling, horse-riding, bicycling, + and sea-voyages are also, Leyboff believes, liable to be + injurious to the course of pregnancy. Leyboff recognizes the + difficulties which procreating women are placed under by present + industrial conditions, and concludes that "it is urgently + necessary to prevent women, by law, from working during the last + three months of pregnancy; that in every district there should be + a maternity fund; that during this enforced rest a woman should + receive the same salary as during work." He adds that the + children of unmarried mothers should be cared for by the State, + that there should be an eight-hours' day for all workers, and + that no children under sixteen should be allowed to work (E. + Leyboff, _L'Hygiene de la Grossesse_, These de Paris, 1905). + + Perruc states that at least two months' rest before confinement + should be made compulsory, and that during this period the woman + should receive an indemnity regulated by the State. He is of + opinion that it should take the form of compulsory assurance, to + which the worker, the employer, and the State alike contributed + (Perruc, _Assistance aux Femmes Enceintes_, These de Paris, + 1905). + + It is probable that during the earlier months of pregnancy, work, + if not excessively heavy and exhausting, has little or no bad + effect; thus Bacchimont (_Documents pour servir a l'Histoire de + la Puericulture Intra-uterine_, These de Paris, 1898) found that, + while there was a great gain in the weight of children of mothers + who had rested for three months, there was no corresponding gain + in the children of those mothers who had rested for longer + periods. It is during the last three months that freedom, repose, + the cessation of the obligatory routine of employment become + necessary. This is the opinion of Pinard, the chief authority on + this matter. Many, however, fearing that economic and industrial + conditions render so long a period of rest too difficult of + practical attainment, are, with Clappier and G. Newman, content + to demand two months as a minimum; Salvat only asks for one + month's rest before confinement, the woman, whether married or + not, receiving a pecuniary indemnity during this period, with + medical care and drugs free. Ballantyne (_Manual of Antenatal + Pathology: The Foetus_, p. 475), as well as Niven, also asks only + for one month's compulsory rest during pregnancy, with indemnity. + Arthur Helme, however, taking a more comprehensive view of all + the factors involved, concludes in a valuable paper on "The + Unborn Child: Its Care and Its Rights" (_British Medical + Journal_, Aug. 24, 1907), "The important thing would be to + prohibit pregnant women from going to work at all, and it is as + important from the standpoint of the child that this prohibition + should include the early as the late months of pregnancy." + + In England little progress has yet been made as regards this + question of rest during pregnancy, even as regards the education + of public opinion. Sir William Sinclair, Professor of Obstetrics + at the Victoria University of Manchester, has published (1907) _A + Plea for Establishing Municipal Maternity Homes_. Ballantyne, a + great British authority on the embryology of the child, has + published a "Plea for a Pre-Maternity Hospital" (_British Medical + Journal_, April 6, 1901), has since given an important lecture on + the subject (_British Medical Journal_, Jan. 11, 1908), and has + further discussed the matter in his _Manual of Ante-Natal + Pathology: The Foetus_ (Ch. XXVII); he is, however, more + interested in the establishment of hospitals for the diseases of + pregnancy than in the wider and more fundamental question of rest + for all pregnant women. In England there are, indeed, a few + institutions which receive unmarried women, with a record of good + conduct, who are pregnant for the first time, for, as + Bouchacourt remarks, ancient British prejudices are opposed to + any mercy being shown to women who are recidivists in committing + the crime of conception. + + At present, indeed, it is only in France that the urgent need of + rest during the latter months of pregnancy has been clearly + realized, and any serious and official attempts made to provide + for it. In an interesting Paris thesis (_De la Puericulture avant + le Naissance_, 1907) Clappier has brought together much + information bearing on the efforts now being made to deal + practically with this question. There are many _Asiles_ in Paris + for pregnant women. One of the best is the Asile Michelet, + founded in 1893 by the Assistance Publique de Paris. This is a + sanatorium for pregnant women who have reached a period of seven + and a half months. It is nominally restricted to the admission of + French women who have been domiciled for a year in Paris, but, in + practice, it appears that women from all parts of France are + received. They are employed in light and occasional work for the + institution, being paid for this work, and are also occupied in + making clothes for the expected baby. Married and unmarried women + are admitted alike, all women being equal from the point of view + of motherhood, and indeed the majority of the women who come to + the Asile Michelet are unmarried, some being girls who have even + trudged on foot from Brittany and other remote parts of France, + to seek concealment from their friends in the hospitable + seclusion of these refuges in the great city. It is not the least + advantage of these institutions that they shield unmarried + mothers and their offspring from the manifold evils to which they + are exposed, and thus tend to decrease crime and suffering. In + addition to the maternity refuges, there are institutions in + France for assisting with help and advice those pregnant women + who prefer to remain at home, but are thus enabled to avoid the + necessity for undue domestic labor. + + There ought to be no manner of doubt that when, as is the case + to-day in our own and some other supposedly civilized countries, + motherhood outside marriage is accounted as almost a crime, there + is the very greatest need for adequate provision for unmarried + women who are about to become mothers, enabling them to receive + shelter and care in secrecy, and to preserve their self-respect + and social position. This is necessary not only in the interests + of humanity and public economy, but also, as is too often + forgotten, in the interests of morality, for it is certain that + by the neglect to furnish adequate provision of this nature women + are driven to infanticide and prostitution. In earlier, more + humane days, the general provision for the secret reception and + care of illegitimate infants was undoubtedly most beneficial. The + suppression of the mediaeval method, which in France took place + gradually between 1833 and 1862, led to a great increase in + infanticide and abortion, and was a direct encouragement to crime + and immorality. In 1887 the Conseil General of the Seine sought + to replace the prevailing neglect of this matter by the adoption + of more enlightened ideas and founded a _bureau secret + d'admission_ for pregnant women. Since then both the abandonment + of infants and infanticide have greatly diminished, though they + are increasing in those parts of France which possess no + facilities of this kind. It is widely held that the State should + unify the arrangements for assuring secret maternity, and should, + in its own interests, undertake the expense. In 1904 French law + ensured the protection of unmarried mothers by guaranteeing their + secret, but it failed to organize the general establishment of + secret maternities, and has left to doctors the pioneering part + in this great and humane public work (A. Maillard-Brune, + _Refuges, Maternites, Bureaux d'Admission Secrets, comme Moyens + Preservatives des Infanticide_, These de Paris, 1908). It is not + among the least benefits of the falling birth rate that it has + helped to stimulate this beneficent movement. + +The development of an industrial system which subordinates the human body +and the human soul to the thirst for gold, has, for a time, dismissed from +social consideration the interests of the race and even of the individual, +but it must be remembered that this has not been always and everywhere so. +Although in some parts of the world the women of savage peoples work up to +the time of confinement, it must be remarked that the conditions of work +in savage life do not resemble the strenuous and continuous labor of +modern factories. In many parts of the world, however, women are not +allowed to work hard during pregnancy and every consideration is shown to +them. This is so, for instance, among the Pueblo Indians, and among the +Indians of Mexico. Similar care is taken in the Carolines and the Gilbert +Islands and in many other regions all over the world. In some places, +women are secluded during pregnancy, and in others are compelled to +observe many more or less excellent rules. It is true that the assigned +cause for these rules is frequently the fear of evil spirits, but they +nevertheless often preserve a hygienic value. In many parts of the world +the discovery of pregnancy is the sign for a festival of more or less +ritual character, and much good advice is given to the expectant mother. +The modern Musselmans are careful to guard the health of their women when +pregnant, and so are the Chinese.[6] Even in Europe, in the thirteenth +century, as Clappier notes, industrial corporations sometimes had regard +to this matter, and would not allow women to work during pregnancy. In +Iceland, where much of the primitive life of Scandinavian Europe is still +preserved, great precautions are taken with pregnant women. They must lead +a quiet life, avoid tight garments, be moderate in eating and drinking, +take no alcohol, be safeguarded from all shocks, while their husbands and +all others who surround them must treat them with consideration, save them +from worry and always bear with them patiently.[7] + +It is necessary to emphasize this point because we have to realize that +the modern movement for surrounding the pregnant woman with tenderness and +care, so far from being the mere outcome of civilized softness and +degeneracy, is, in all probability, the return on a higher plane to the +sane practice of those races which laid the foundations of human +greatness. + +While rest is the cardinal virtue imposed on a woman during the later +months of pregnancy, there are other points in her regimen that are far +from unimportant in their bearing on the fate of the child. One of these +is the question of the mother's use of alcohol. Undoubtedly alcohol has +been a cause of much fanaticism. But the declamatory extravagance of +anti-alcoholists must not blind us to the fact that the evils of alcohol +are real. On the reproductive process especially, on the mammary glands, +and on the child, alcohol has an arresting and degenerative influence +without any compensatory advantages. It has been proved by experiments on +animals and observations on the human subject that alcohol taken by the +pregnant woman passes freely from the maternal circulation to the foetal +circulation. Fere has further shown that, by injecting alcohol and +aldehydes into hen's eggs during incubation, it is possible to cause +arrest of development and malformation in the chick.[8] The woman who is +bearing her child in her womb or suckling it at her breast would do well +to remember that the alcohol which may be harmless to herself is little +better than poison to the immature being who derives nourishment from her +blood. She should confine herself to the very lightest of alcoholic +beverages in very moderate amounts and would do better still to abandon +these entirely and drink milk instead. She is now the sole source of the +child's life and she cannot be too scrupulous in creating around it an +atmosphere of purity and health. No after-influence can ever compensate +for mistakes made at this time.[9] + +What is true of alcohol is equally true of other potent drugs and poisons, +which should all be avoided so far as possible during pregnancy because of +the harmful influence they may directly exert on the embryo. Hygiene is +better than drugs, and care should be exercised in diet, which should by +no means be excessive. It is a mistake to suppose that the pregnant woman +needs considerably more food than usual, and there is much reason to +believe not only that a rich meat diet tends to cause sterility but that +it is also unfavorable to the development of the child in the womb.[10] + +How far, if at all, it is often asked, should sexual intercourse be +continued after fecundation has been clearly ascertained? This has not +always been found an easy question to answer, for in the human couple many +considerations combine to complicate the answer. Even the Catholic +theologians have not been entirely in agreement on this point. Clement of +Alexandria said that when the seed had been sown the field must be left +till harvest. But it may be concluded that, as a rule, the Church was +inclined to regard intercourse during pregnancy as at most a venial sin, +provided there was no danger of abortion. Augustine, Gregory the Great, +Aquinas, Dens, for instance, seem to be of this mind; for a few, indeed, +it is no sin at all.[11] Among animals the rule is simple and uniform; as +soon as the female is impregnated at the period of oestrus she absolutely +rejects all advance of the male until, after birth and lactation are over, +another period of oestrus occurs. Among savages the tendency is less +uniform, and sexual abstinence, when it occurs during pregnancy, tends to +become less a natural instinct than a ritual observance, or a custom now +chiefly supported by superstitions. Among many primitive peoples +abstinence during the whole of pregnancy is enjoined because it is +believed that the semen would kill the foetus.[12] + + The Talmud is unfavorable to coitus during pregnancy, and the + Koran prohibits it during the whole of the period, as well as + during suckling. Among the Hindus, on the other hand, intercourse + is continued up to the last fortnight of pregnancy, and it is + even believed that the injected semen helps to nourish the embryo + (W.D. Sutherland, "Ueber das Alltagsleben und die Volksmedizin + unter den Bauern Britischostindiens," _Muenchener Medizinische + Wochenschrift_, Nos. 12 and 13, 1906). The great Indian physician + Susruta, however, was opposed to coitus during pregnancy, and the + Chinese are emphatically on the same side. + +As men have emerged from barbarism in the direction of civilization, the +animal instinct of refusal after impregnation has been completely lost in +women, while at the same time both sexes tend to become indifferent to +those ritual restraints which at an earlier period were almost as binding +as instinct. Sexual intercourse thus came to be practiced after +impregnation, much the same as before, as part of ordinary "marital +rights," though sometimes there has remained a faint suspicion, reflected +in the hesitating attitude of the Catholic Church already alluded to, that +such intercourse may be a sinful indulgence. Morality is, however, called +in to fortify this indulgence. If the husband is shut out from marital +intercourse at this time, it is argued, he will seek extra-marital +intercourse, as indeed in some parts of the world it is recognized that he +legitimately may; therefore the interests of the wife, anxious to retain +her husband's fidelity, and the interests of Christian morality, anxious +to uphold the institution of monogamy, combine to permit the continuation +of coitus during pregnancy. The custom has been furthered by the fact +that, in civilized women at all events, coitus during pregnancy is usually +not less agreeable than at other times and by some women is felt indeed to +be even more agreeable.[13] There is also the further consideration, for +those couples who have sought to prevent conception, that now intercourse +may be enjoyed with impunity. From a higher point of view such intercourse +may also be justified, for if, as all the finer moralists of the sexual +impulse now believe, love has its value not only in so far as it induces +procreation but also in so far as it aids individual development and the +mutual good and harmony of the united couple, it becomes morally right +during pregnancy. + +From an early period, however, great authorities have declared themselves +in opposition to the custom of practicing coitus during pregnancy. At the +end of the first century, Soranus, the first of great gynaecologists, +stated, in his treatise on the diseases of women, that sexual intercourse +is injurious throughout pregnancy, because of the movement imparted to the +uterus, and especially injurious during the latter months. For more than +sixteen hundred years the question, having fallen into the hands of the +theologians, seems to have been neglected on the medical side until in +1721 a distinguished French obstetrician, Mauriceau, stated that no +pregnant woman should have intercourse during the last two months and that +no woman subject to miscarriage should have intercourse at all during +pregnancy. For more than a century, however, Mauriceau remained a pioneer +with few or no followers. It would be inconvenient, the opinion went, even +if it were necessary, to forbid intercourse during pregnancy.[14] + +During recent years, nevertheless, there has been an increasingly strong +tendency among obstetricians to speak decisively concerning intercourse +during pregnancy, either by condemning it altogether or by enjoining great +prudence. It is highly probable that, in accordance with the classical +experiments of Dareste on chicken embryos, shocks and disturbances to the +human embryo may also produce injurious effects on growth. The disturbance +due to coitus in the early stages of pregnancy may thus tend to produce +malformation. When such conditions are found in the children of perfectly +healthy, vigorous, and generally temperate parents who have indulged +recklessly in coitus during the early stages of pregnancy it is possible +that such coitus has acted on the embryo in the same way as shocks and +intoxications are known to act on the embryo of lower organisms. However +this may be, it is quite certain that in predisposed women, coitus during +pregnancy causes premature birth; it sometimes happens that labor pains +begin a few minutes after the act.[15] The natural instinct of animals +refuses to allow intercourse during pregnancy; the ritual observance of +primitive peoples very frequently points in the same direction; the voice +of medical science, so far as it speaks at all, is beginning to utter the +same warning, and before long will probably be in a position to do so on +the basis of more solid and coherent evidence. + + Pinard, the greatest of authorities on puericulture, asserts that + there must be complete cessation of sexual intercourse during the + whole of pregnancy, and in his consulting room at the Clinique + Baudelocque he has placed a large placard with an "Important + Notice" to this effect. Fere was strongly of opinion that sexual + relations during pregnancy, especially when recklessly carried + out, play an important part in the causation of nervous troubles + in children who are of sound heredity and otherwise free from all + morbid infection during gestation and development; he recorded in + detail a case which he considered conclusive ("L'Influence de + l'Incontinence Sexuelle pendant la Gestation sur la Descendance," + _Archives de Neurologie_, April, 1905). Bouchacourt discusses the + subject fully (_La Grossesse_, pp. 177-214), and thinks that + sexual intercourse during pregnancy should be avoided as much as + possible. Fuerbringer (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in + Relation to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 226) recommends abstinence from + the sixth or seventh month, and throughout the whole of pregnancy + where there is any tendency to miscarriage, while in all cases + much care and gentleness should be exercised. + + The whole subject has been investigated in a Paris Thesis by H. + Brenot (_De L'Influence de la Copulation pendant la Grossesse_, + 1903); he concludes that sexual relations are dangerous + throughout pregnancy, frequently provoking premature confinement + or abortion, and that they are more dangerous in primiparae than + in multiparae. + +Nearly everything that has been said of the hygiene of pregnancy, and the +need for rest, applies also to the period immediately following the birth +of the child. Rest and hygiene on the mother's part continue to be +necessary alike in her own interests and in the child's. This need has +indeed been more generally and more practically recognized than the need +for rest during pregnancy. The laws of several countries make compulsory a +period of rest from employment after confinement, and in some countries +they seek to provide for the remuneration of the mother during this +enforced rest. In no country, indeed, is the principle carried out so +thoroughly and for so long a period as is desirable. But it is the right +principle, and embodies the germ which, in the future, will be developed. +There can be little doubt that whatever are the matters, and they are +certainly many, which may be safely left to the discretion of the +individual, the care of the mother and her child is not among them. That +is a matter which, more than any other, concerns the community as a whole, +and the community cannot afford to be slack in asserting its authority +over it. The State needs healthy men and women, and by any negligence in +attending to this need it inflicts serious charges of all sorts upon +itself, and at the same time dangerously impairs its efficiency in the +world. Nations have begun to recognize the desirability of education, but +they have scarcely yet begun to realize that the nationalization of health +is even more important than the nationalization of education. If it were +necessary to choose between the task of getting children educated and the +task of getting them well-born and healthy it would be better to abandon +education. There have been many great peoples who never dreamed of +national systems of education; there has been no great people without the +art of producing healthy and vigorous children. + +This matter becomes of peculiar importance in great industrial states like +England, the United States, and Germany, because in such states a tacit +conspiracy tends to grow up to subordinate national ends to individual +ends, and practically to work for the deterioration of the race. In +England, for instance, this tendency has become peculiarly well marked +with disastrous results. The interest of the employed woman tends to +become one with that of her employer; between them they combine to crush +the interests of the child who represents the race, and to defeat the laws +made in the interests of the race which are those of the community as a +whole. The employed woman wishes to earn as much wages as she can and with +as little interruption as she can; in gratifying that wish she is, at the +same time, acting in the interests of the employer, who carefully avoids +thwarting her. + +This impulse on the employed woman's part is by no means always and +entirely the result of poverty, and would not, therefore, be removed by +raising her wages. Long before marriage, when little more than a child, +she has usually gone out to work, and work has become a second nature. She +has mastered her work, she enjoys a certain position and what to her are +high wages; she is among her friends and companions; the noise and bustle +and excitement of the work-room or the factory have become an agreeable +stimulant which she can no longer do without. On the other hand, her home +means nothing to her; she only returns there to sleep, leaving it next +morning at day-break or earlier; she is ignorant even of the simplest +domestic arts; she moves about in her own home like a strange and awkward +child. The mere act of marriage cannot change this state of things; +however willing she may be at marriage to become a domesticated wife, she +is destitute alike of the inclination or the skill for domesticity. Even +in spite of herself she is driven back to the work-shop, to the one place +where she feels really at home. + + In Germany women are not allowed to work for four weeks after + confinement, nor during the following two weeks except by medical + certificate. The obligatory insurance against disease which + covers women at confinement assures them an indemnity at this + time equivalent to a large part of their wages. Married and + unmarried mothers benefit alike. The Austrian law is founded on + the same model. This measure has led to a very great decrease in + infantile mortality, and, therefore, a great increase in health + among those who survive. It is, however, regarded as very + inadequate, and there is a movement in Germany for extending the + time, for applying the system to a larger number of women, and + for making it still more definitely compulsory. + + In Switzerland it has been illegal since 1877 for any woman to be + received into a factory after confinement, unless she has rested + in all for eight weeks, six weeks at least of this period being + after confinement. Since 1898 Swiss working women have been + protected by law from exercising hard work during pregnancy, and + from various other influences likely to be injurious. But this + law is evaded in practice, because it provides no compensatory + indemnity for the woman. An attempt, in 1899, to amend the law by + providing for such indemnity was rejected by the people. + + In Belgium and Holland there are laws against women working + immediately after confinement, but no indemnity is provided, so + that employers and employed combine to evade the law. In France + there is no such law, although its necessity has often been + emphatically asserted (see, e.g., Salvat, _La Depopulation de la + France_, These de Lyon, 1903). + + In England it is illegal to employ a woman "knowingly" in a + work-shop within four weeks of the birth of her child, but no + provision is made by the law for the compensation of the woman + who is thus required to sacrifice herself to the interests of the + State. The woman evades the law in tacit collusion with her + employers, who can always avoid "knowing" that a birth has taken + place, and so escape all responsibility for the mother's + employment. Thus the factory inspectors are unable to take + action, and the law becomes a dead letter; in 1906 only one + prosecution for this offense could be brought into court. By the + insertion of this "knowingly" a premium is placed on ignorance. + The unwisdom of thus beforehand placing a premium on ignorance + has always been more or less clearly recognized by the framers of + legal codes even as far back as the days of the Ten Commandments + and the laws of Hamurabi. It is the business of the Court, of + those who administer the law, to make allowance for ignorance + where such allowance is fairly called for; it is not for the + law-maker to make smooth the path of the law-breaker. There are + evidently law-makers nowadays so scrupulous, or so simple-minded, + that they would be prepared to exact that no pickpocket should be + prosecuted if he was able to declare on oath that he had no + "knowledge" that the purse he had taken belonged to the person he + extracted it from. + + The annual reports of the English factory inspectors serve to + bring ridicule on this law, which looks so wisely humane and yet + means nothing, but have so far been powerless to effect any + change. These reports show, moreover, that the difficulty is + increasing in magnitude. Thus Miss Martindale, a factory + inspector, states that in all the towns she visits, from a quiet + cathedral city to a large manufacturing town, the employment of + married women is rapidly increasing; they have worked in mills or + factories all their lives and are quite unaccustomed to cooking, + housework and the rearing of children, so that after marriage, + even when not compelled by poverty, they prefer to go on working + as before. Miss Vines, another factory inspector, repeats the + remark of a woman worker in a factory. "I do not need to work, + but I do not like staying at home," while another woman said, "I + would rather be at work a hundred times than at home. I get lost + at home" (_Annual Report Chief Inspector of Factories and + Workshops for 1906_, pp. 325, etc.). + + It may be added that not only is the English law enjoining four + weeks' rest on the mother after childbirth practically + inoperative, but the period itself is absurdly inadequate. As a + rest for the mother it is indeed sufficient, but the State is + still more interested in the child than in its mother, and the + child needs the mother's chief care for a much longer period than + four weeks. Helme advocates the State prohibition of women's work + for at least six months after confinement. Where nurseries are + attached to factories, enabling the mother to suckle her infant + in intervals of work, the period may doubtless be shortened. + + It is important to remember that it is by no means only the women + in factories who are induced to work as usual during the whole + period of pregnancy, and to return to work immediately after the + brief rest of confinement. The Research Committee of the + Christian Social Union (London Branch) undertook, in 1905, an + inquiry into the employment of women after childbirth. Women in + factories and workshops were excluded from the inquiry which only + had reference to women engaged in household duties, in home + industries, and in casual work. It was found that the majority + carry on their employment right up to the time of confinement and + resume it from ten to fourteen days later. The infantile death + rate for the children of women engaged only in household duties + was greatly lower than that for the children of the other women, + while, as ever, the hand-fed infants had a vastly higher death + rate than the breast-fed infants (_British Medical Journal_, Oct. + 24, 1908, p. 1297). + + In the great French gun and armour-plate works at Creuzot (Saone + et Loire) the salaries of expectant mothers among the employees + are raised; arrangements are made for giving them proper advice + and medical attendance; they are not allowed to work after the + middle of pregnancy or to return to work after confinement + without a medical certificate of fitness. The results are said to + be excellent, not only on the health of the mothers, but in the + diminution of premature births, the decrease of infantile deaths, + and the general prevalence of breast-feeding. It would probably + be hopeless to expect many employers in Anglo-Saxon lands to + adopt this policy. They are too "practical," they know how small + is the money-value of human lives. With us it is necessary for + the State to intervene. + + There can be no doubt that, on the whole, modern civilized + communities are beginning to realize that under the social and + economic conditions now tending more and more to prevail, they + must in their own interests insure that the mother's best energy + and vitality are devoted to the child, both before and after its + birth. They are also realizing that they cannot carry out their + duty in this respect unless they make adequate provision for the + mothers who are thus compelled to renounce their employment in + order to devote themselves to their children. We here reach a + point at which Individualism is at one with Socialism. The + individualist cannot fail to see that it is at all cost necessary + to remove social conditions which crush out all individuality; + the Socialist cannot fail to see that a society which neglects to + introduce order at this central and vital point, the production + of the individual, must speedily perish. + +It is involved in the proper fulfilment of a mother's relationship to her +infant child that, provided she is healthy, she should suckle it. Of +recent years this question has become a matter of serious gravity. In the +middle of the eighteenth century, when the upper-class women of France had +grown disinclined to suckle their own children, Rousseau raised so loud +and eloquent a protest that it became once more the fashion for a woman to +fulfil her natural duties. At the present time, when the same evil is +found once more, and in a far more serious form, for now it is not the +small upper-class but the great lower-class that is concerned, the +eloquence of a Rousseau would be powerless, for it is not fashion so much +as convenience, and especially an intractable economic factor, that is +chiefly concerned. Not the least urgent reason for putting women, and +especially mothers, upon a sounder economic basis, is the necessity of +enabling them to suckle their children. + + No woman is sound, healthy, and complete unless she possesses + breasts that are beautiful enough to hold the promise of being + functional when the time for their exercise arrives, and nipples + that can give suck. The gravity of this question to-day is shown + by the frequency with which women are lacking in this essential + element of womanhood, and the young man of to-day, it has been + said, often in taking a wife, "actually marries but part of a + woman, the other part being exhibited in the chemist's shop + window, in the shape of a glass feeding-bottle." Blacker found + among a thousand patients from the maternity department of + University College Hospital that thirty-nine had never suckled at + all, seven hundred and forty-seven had suckled all their + children, and two hundred and fourteen had suckled only some. + The chief reason given for not suckling was absence or + insufficiency of milk; other reasons being inability or + disinclination to suckle, and refusal of the child to take the + breast (Blacker, _Medical Chronicle_, Feb., 1900). These results + among the London poor are certainly very much better than could + be found in many manufacturing towns where women work after + marriage. In the other large countries of Europe equally + unsatisfactory results are found. In Paris Madame Dluska has + shown that of 209 women who came for their confinement to the + Clinique Baudelocque, only 74 suckled their children; of the 135 + who did not suckle, 35 were prevented by pathological causes or + absence of milk, 100 by the necessities of their work. Even those + who suckled could seldom continue more than seven months on + account of the physiological strain of work (Dluska, + _Contribution a l'Etude de l'Allaitement Maternel_, These de + Paris, 1894). Many statistics have been gathered in the German + countries. Thus Wiedow (_Centralblatt fuer Gynaekologie_, No. 29, + 1895) found that of 525 women at the Freiburg Maternity only half + could suckle thoroughly during the first two weeks; imperfect + nipples were noted in 49 cases, and it was found that the + development of the nipple bore a direct relation to the value of + the breast as a secretory organ. At Munich Escherich and Bueller + found that nearly 60 per cent. of women of the lower class were + unable to suckle their children, and at Stuttgart three-quarters + of the child-bearing women were in this condition. + +The reasons why children should be suckled at their mothers' breasts are +larger than some may be inclined to believe. In the first place the +psychological reason is one of no mean importance. The breast with its +exquisitely sensitive nipple, vibrating in harmony with the sexual organs, +furnishes the normal mechanism by which maternal love is developed. No +doubt the woman who never suckles her child may love it, but such love is +liable to remain defective on the fundamental and instinctive side. In +some women, indeed, whom we may hesitate to call abnormal, maternal love +fails to awaken at all until brought into action through this mechanism by +the act of suckling. + +A more generally recognized and certainly fundamental reason for suckling +the child is that the milk of the mother, provided she is reasonably +healthy, is the infant's only ideally fit food. There are some people +whose confidence in science leads them to believe that it is possible to +manufacture foods that are as good or better than mother's milk; they +fancy that the milk which is best for the calf is equally best for so +different an animal as the baby. These are delusions. The infant's best +food is that elaborated in his own mother's body. All other foods are more +or less possible substitutes, which require trouble to prepare properly +and are, moreover, exposed to various risks from which the mother's milk +is free. + +A further reason, especially among the poor, against the use of any +artificial foods is that it accustoms those around the child to try +experiments with its feeding and to fancy that any kind of food they eat +themselves may be good for the infant. It thus happens that bread and +potatoes, brandy and gin, are thrust into infants' mouths. With the infant +that is given the breast it is easier to make plain that, except by the +doctor's orders, nothing else must be given. + +An additional reason why the mother should suckle her child is the close +and frequent association with the child thus involved. Not only is the +child better cared for in all respects, but the mother is not deprived of +the discipline of such care, and is also enabled from the outset to learn +and to understand the child's nature. + + The inability to suckle acquires great significance if we realize + that it is associated, probably in a large measure as a direct + cause, with infantile mortality. The mortality of + artificially-fed infants during the first year of life is seldom + less than double that of the breast-fed, sometimes it is as much + as three times that of the breast-fed, or even more; thus at + Derby 51.7 per cent. of hand-fed infants die under the age of + twelve months, but only 8.6 per cent. of breast-fed infants. + Those who survive are by no means free from suffering. At the end + of the first year they are found to weigh about 25 per cent. less + than the breast-fed, and to be much shorter; they are more liable + to tuberculosis and rickets, with all the evil results that flow + from these diseases; and there is some reason to believe that the + development of their teeth is injuriously affected. The + degenerate character of the artificially-fed is well indicated by + the fact that of 40,000 children who were brought for treatment + to the Children's Hospital in Munich, 86 per cent. had been + brought up by hand, and the few who had been suckled had usually + only had the breast for a short time. The evil influence persists + even up to adult life. In some parts of France where the + wet-nurse industry flourishes so greatly that nearly all the + children are brought up by hand, it has been found that the + percentage of rejected conscripts is nearly double that for + France generally. Corresponding results have been found by + Friedjung in a large German athletic association. Among 155 + members, 65 per cent. were found on inquiry to have been + breast-fed as infants (for an average of six months); but among + the best athletes the percentage of breast-fed rose to 72 per + cent. (for an average period of nine or ten months), while for + the group of 56 who stood lowest in athletic power the percentage + of breast-fed fell to 57 (for an average of only three months). + + The advantages for an infant of being suckled by its mother are + greater than can be accounted for by the mere fact of being + suckled rather than hand-fed. This has been shown by Vitrey (_De + la Mortalite Infantile_, These de Lyon, 1907), who found from the + statistics of the Hotel-Dieu at Lyons, that infants suckled by + their mothers have a mortality of only 12 per cent., but if + suckled by strangers, the mortality rises to 33 per cent. It may + be added that, while suckling is essential to the complete + well-being of the child, it is highly desirable for the sake of + the mother's health also. (Some important statistics are + summarized in a paper on "Infantile Mortality" in _British + Medical Journal_, Nov. 2, 1907), while the various aspects of + suckling have been thoroughly discussed by Bollinger, "Ueber + Saeuglings-Sterblichkeit und die Erbliche functionelle Atrophie + der menschlichen Milchdruese" (_Correspondenzblatt Deutschen + Gesellschaft Anthropologie_, Oct., 1899). + + It appears that in Sweden, in the middle of the eighteenth + century, it was a punishable offense for a woman to give her baby + the bottle when she was able to suckle it. In recent years Prof. + Anton von Menger, of Vienna, has argued (in his _Burgerliche + Recht und die Besitzlosen Klassen_) that the future generation + has the right to make this claim, and he proposes that every + mother shall be legally bound to suckle her child unless her + inability to do so has been certified by a physician. E.A. + Schroeder (_Das Recht in der Geschlechtlichen Ordnung_, 1893, p. + 346) also argued that a mother should be legally bound to suckle + her infant for at least nine months, unless solid grounds could + be shown to the contrary, and this demand, which seems reasonable + and natural, since it is a mother's privilege as well as her duty + to suckle her infant when able to do so, has been insistently + made by others also. It has been supported from the legal side by + Weinberg (_Mutterschutz_, Sept., 1907). In France the Loi Roussel + forbids a woman to act as a wet-nurse until her child is seven + months old, and this has had an excellent effect in lowering + infantile mortality (A. Allee, _Puericulture et la Loi Roussel_, + These de Paris, 1908). In some parts of Germany manufacturers are + compelled to set up a suckling-room in the factory, where mothers + can give the breast to the child in the intervals of work. The + control and upkeep of these rooms, with provision of doctors and + nurses, is undertaken by the municipality (_Sexual-Probleme_, + Sept., 1908, p. 573). + +As things are to-day in modern industrial countries the righting of these +wrongs cannot be left to Nature, that is, to the ignorant and untrained +impulses of persons who live in a whirl of artificial life where the voice +of instinct is drowned. The mother, we are accustomed to think, may be +trusted to see to the welfare of her child, and it is unnecessary, or even +"immoral," to come to her assistance. Yet there are few things, I think, +more pathetic than the sight of a young Lancashire mother who works in the +mills, when she has to stay at home to nurse her sick child. She is used +to rise before day-break to go to the mill; she has scarcely seen her +child by the light of the sun, she knows nothing of its necessities, the +hands that are so skilful to catch the loom cannot soothe the child. The +mother gazes down at it in vague, awkward, speechless misery. It is not a +sight one can ever forget. + +It is France that is taking the lead in the initiation of the scientific +and practical movements for the care of the young child before and after +birth, and it is in France that we may find the germs of nearly all the +methods now becoming adopted for arresting infantile mortality. The +village system of Villiers-le-Duc, near Dijon in the Cote d'Or, has proved +a germ of this fruitful kind. Here every pregnant woman not able to secure +the right conditions for her own life and that of the child she is +bearing, is able to claim the assistance of the village authorities; she +is entitled, without payment, to the attendance of a doctor and midwife +and to one franc a day during her confinement. The measures adopted in +this village have practically abolished both maternal and infantile +mortality. A few years ago Dr. Samson Moore, the medical officer of health +for Huddersfield, heard of this village, and Mr. Benjamin Broadbent, the +Mayor of Huddersfield, visited Villiers-le-Duc. It was resolved to +initiate in Huddersfield a movement for combating infant mortality. +Henceforth arose what is known as the Huddersfield scheme, a scheme which +has been fruitful in splendid results. The points of the Huddersfield +scheme are: (1) compulsory notification of births within forty-eight +hours; (2) the appointment of lady assistant medical officers of help to +visit the home, inquire, advise, and assist; (3) the organized aid of +voluntary lady workers in subordination to the municipal part of the +scheme; (4) appeal to the medical officer of help when the baby, not being +under medical care, fails to thrive. The infantile mortality of +Huddersfield has been very greatly reduced by this scheme.[16] + + The Huddersfield scheme may be said to be the origin of the + English Notification of Births Act, which came into operation in + 1908. This Act represents, in England, the national inauguration + of a scheme for the betterment of the race, the ultimate results + of which it is impossible to foresee. When this Act comes into + universal action every baby of the land will be entitled--legally + and not by individual caprice or philanthropic condescension--to + medical attention from the day of birth, and every mother will + have at hand the counsel of an educated woman in touch with the + municipal authorities. There could be no greater triumph for + medical science, for national efficiency, and the cause of + humanity generally. Even on the lower financial plane, it is easy + to see that an enormous saving of public and private money will + thus be effected. The Act is adoptive, and not compulsory. This + was a wise precaution, for an Act of this kind cannot be + effectual unless it is carried out thoroughly by the community + adopting it, and it will not be adopted until a community has + clearly realized its advantages and the methods of attaining + them. + + An important adjunct of this organization is the School for + Mothers. Such schools, which are now beginning to spring up + everywhere, may be said to have their origins in the + _Consultations de Nourrissons_ (with their offshoot the _Goutte + de Lait_), established by Professor Budin in 1892, which have + spread all over France and been widely influential for good. At + the _Consultations_ infants are examined and weighed weekly, and + the mothers advised and encouraged to suckle their children. The + _Gouttes_ are practically milk dispensaries where infants for + whom breast-feeding is impossible are fed with milk under medical + supervision. Schools for Mothers represent an enlargement of the + same scheme, covering a variety of subjects which it is necessary + for a mother to know. Some of the first of these schools were + established at Bonn, at the Bavarian town of Weissenberg, and in + Ghent. At some of the Schools for Mothers, and notably at Ghent + (described by Mrs. Bertrand Russell in the _Nineteenth Century_, + 1906), the important step has been taken of giving training to + young girls from fourteen to eighteen; they receive instruction + in infant anatomy and physiology, in the preparation of + sterilized milk, in weighing children, in taking temperatures and + making charts, in managing creches, and after two years are able + to earn a salary. In various parts of England, schools for young + mothers and girls on these lines are now being established, first + in London, under the auspices of Dr. F.J. Sykes, Medical Officer + of Health for St. Pancreas (see, e.g., _A School For Mothers_, + 1908, describing an establishment of this kind at Somers Town, + with a preface by Sir Thomas Barlow; an account of recent + attempts to improve the care of infants in London will also be + found in the _Lancet_, Sept. 26, 1908). It may be added that some + English municipalities have established depots for supplying + mothers cheaply with good milk. Such depots are, however, likely + to be more mischievous than beneficial if they promote the + substitution of hand-feeding for suckling. They should never be + established except in connection with Schools for Mothers, where + an educational influence may be exerted, and no mother should be + supplied with milk unless she presents a medical certificate + showing that she is unable to nourish her child (Byers, "Medical + Women and Public Health Questions," _British Medical Journal_, + Oct. 6, 1906). It is noteworthy that in England the local + authorities will shortly be empowered by law to establish Schools + for Mothers. + + The great benefits produced by these institutions in France, both + in diminishing the infant mortality and in promoting the + education of mothers and their pride and interest in their + children, have been set forth in two Paris theses by G. Chaignon + (_Organisation des Consultations de Nourrissons a la Campagne_, + 1908), and Alcide Alexandre (_Consultation de Nourrissons et + Goutte de Lait d'Arques_, 1908). + + The movement is now spreading throughout Europe, and an + International Union has been formed, including all the + institutions specially founded for the protection of child life + and the promotion of puericulture. The permanent committee is in + Brussels, and a Congress of Infant Protection (_Goutte de Lait_) + is held every two years. + +It will be seen that all the movements now being set in action for the +improvement of the race through the child and the child's mother, +recognize the intimacy of the relation between the mother and her child +and are designed to aid her, even if necessary by the exercise of some +pressure, in performing her natural functions in relation to her child. To +the theoretical philanthropist, eager to reform the world on paper, +nothing seems simpler than to cure the present evils of child-rearing by +setting up State nurseries which are at once to relieve mothers of +everything connected with the production of the men of the future beyond +the pleasure--if such it happens to be--of conceiving them and the trouble +of bearing them, and at the same time to rear them up independently of the +home, in a wholesome, economical, and scientific manner.[17] Nothing seems +simpler, but from the fundamental psychological standpoint nothing is +falser. The idea of a State which is outside the community is but a +survival in another form of that antiquated notion which compelled Louis +XIV to declare "L'Etat c'est moi!" A State which admits that the +individuals composing it are incompetent to perform their own most sacred +and intimate functions, and takes upon itself to perform them instead, +attempts a task which would be undesirable, even if it were possible of +achievement. It must always be remembered that a State which proposes to +relieve its constituent members of their natural functions and +responsibilities attempts something quite different from the State which +seeks to aid its members to fulfil their own biological and social +functions more adequately. A State which enables its mothers to rest when +they are child-bearing is engaged in a reasonable task; a State which +takes over its mothers' children is reducing philanthropy to absurdity. It +is easy to realize this if we consider the inevitable course of +circumstances under a system of "State-nurseries." The child would be +removed from its natural mother at the earliest age, but some one has to +perform the mother's duties; the substitute must therefore be properly +trained for such duties; and in exercising them under favorable +circumstances a maternal relationship is developed between the child and +the "mother," who doubtless possesses natural maternal instincts but has +no natural maternal bond to the child she is mothering. Such a +relationship tends to become on both sides practically and emotionally the +real relationship. We very often have opportunity of seeing how +unsatisfactory such a relationship becomes. The artificial mother is +deprived of a child she had begun to feel her own; the child's emotional +relationships are upset, split and distorted; the real mother has the +bitterness of feeling that for her child she is not the real mother. Would +it not have been much better for all if the State had encouraged the vast +army of women it had trained for the position of mothering other women's +children, to have, instead, children of their own? The women who are +incapable of mothering their own children could then be trained to refrain +from bearing them. + + Ellen Key (in her _Century of the Child_, and elsewhere) has + advocated for all young women a year of compulsory "service," + analogous to the compulsory military service imposed in most + countries on young men. During this period the girl would be + trained in rational housekeeping, in the principles of hygiene, + in the care of the sick, and especially in the care of infants + and all that concerns the physical and psychic development of + children. The principle of this proposal has since been widely + accepted. Marie von Schmid (in her _Mutterdienst_, 1907) goes so + far as to advocate a general training of young women in such + duties, carried on in a kind of enlarged and improved midwifery + school. The service would last a year, and the young woman would + then be for three years in the reserves, and liable to be called + up for duty. There is certainly much to be said for such a + proposal, considerably more than is to be said for compulsory + military service. For while it is very doubtful whether a man + will ever be called on to fight, most women are liable to be + called on to exercise household duties or to look after children, + whether for themselves or for other people. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[1] It is not, of course, always literally true that each parent supplies +exactly half the heredity, for, as we see among animals generally, the +offspring may sometimes approach more nearly to one parent, sometimes to +the other, while among plants, as De Vries and others have shown, the +heredity may be still more unequally divided. + +[2] It should scarcely be necessary to say that to assert that motherhood +is a woman's supreme function is by no means to assert that her activities +should be confined to the home. That is an opinion which may now be +regarded as almost extinct even among those who most glorify the function +of woman as mother. As Friedrich Naumann and others have very truly +pointed out, a woman is not adequately equipped to fulfil her functions as +mother and trainer of children unless she has lived in the world and +exercised a vocation. + +[3] "Were the capacities of the brain and the heart equal in the sexes," +Lily Braun (_Die Frauenfrage_, page 207) well says, "the entry of women +into public life would be of no value to humanity, and would even lead to +a still wilder competition. Only the recognition that the entire nature of +woman is different from that of man, that it signifies a new vivifying +principle in human life, makes the women's movement, in spite of the +misconception of its enemies and its friends, a social revolution" (see +also Havelock Ellis, _Man and Woman_, fourth edition, 1904, especially Ch. +XVIII). + +[4] The word "puericulture" was invented by Dr. Caron in 1866 to signify +the culture of children after birth. It was Pinard, the distinguished +French obstetrician, who, in 1895, gave it a larger and truer significance +by applying it to include the culture of children before birth. It is now +defined as "the science which has for its end the search for the knowledge +relative to the reproduction, the preservation, and the amelioration of +the human race" (Pechin, _La Puericulture avant la Naissance_, These de +Paris, 1908). + +[5] In _La Grossesse_ (pp. 450 et seq.) Bouchacourt has discussed the +problems of puericulture at some length. + +[6] The importance of antenatal puericulture was fully recognized in China +a thousand years ago. Thus Madame Cheng wrote at that time concerning the +education of the child: "Even before birth his education may begin; and, +therefore, the prospective mother of old, when lying down, lay straight; +when sitting down, sat upright; and when standing, stood erect. She would +not taste strange flavors, nor have anything to do with spiritualism; if +her food were not cut straight she would not eat it, and if her mat were +not set straight, she would not sit upon it. She would not look at any +objectionable sight, nor listen to any objectionable sound, nor utter any +rude word, nor handle any impure thing. At night she studied some +canonical work, by day she occupied herself with ceremonies and music. +Therefore, her sons were upright and eminent for their talents and +virtues; such was the result of antenatal training" (H.A. Giles, "Woman in +Chinese Literature," _Nineteenth Century_, Nov., 1904). + +[7] Max Bartels, "Islaendischer Brauch," etc., _Zeitschrift fuer +Ethnologie_, 1900, p. 65. A summary of the customs of various peoples in +regard to pregnancy is given by Ploss and Bartels, _Das Weib_, Sect. XXIX. + +[8] On the influence of alcohol during pregnancy on the embryo, see, e.g., +G. Newman, _Infant Mortality_, pp. 72-77. W.C. Sullivan (_Alcoholism_, +1906, Ch. XI), summarizes the evidence showing that alcohol is a factor in +human degeneration. + +[9] There is even reason to believe that the alcoholism of the mother's +father may impair her ability as a mother. Bunge (_Die Zunehmende +Unfaehigkeit der Frauen ihre Kinder zu Stillen_, fifth edition, 1907), from +an investigation extending over 2,000 families, finds that chronic +alcoholic poisoning in the father is the chief cause of the daughter's +inability to suckle, this inability not usually being recovered in +subsequent generations. Bunge has, however, been opposed by Dr. Agnes +Bluhm, "Die Stillungsnot," _Zeitschrift fuer Soziale Medizin_, 1908 (fully +summarized by herself in _Sexual-Probleme_, Jan., 1909). + +[10] See, e.g., T. Arthur Helme, "The Unborn Child," _British Medical +Journal_, Aug. 24, 1907. Nutrition should, of course, be adequate. Noel +Paton has shown (_Lancet_, July 4, 1903) that defective nutrition of the +pregnant woman diminishes the weight of the offspring. + +[11] Debreyne, _Moechialogie_, p. 277. And from the Protestant side see +Northcote (_Christianity and Sex Problems_, Ch. IX), who permits sexual +intercourse during pregnancy. + +[12] See Appendix A to the third volume of these _Studies_; also Ploss and +Bartels, loc. cit. + +[13] Thus one lady writes: "I have only had one child, but I may say that +during pregnancy the desire for union was much stronger, for the whole +time, than at any other period." Bouchacourt (_La Grossesse_, pp. 180-183) +states that, as a rule, sexual desire is not diminished by pregnancy, and +is occasionally increased. + +[14] This "inconvenience" remains to-day a stumbling-block with many +excellent authorities. "Except when there is a tendency to miscarriage," +says Kossmann (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation to +Marriage_, vol. i, p. 257), "we must be very guarded in ordering +abstinence from intercourse during pregnancy," and Ballantyne (_The +Foetus_, p. 475) cautiously remarks that the question is difficult to +decide. Forel also (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, fourth edition, p. 81), who is +not prepared to advocate complete sexual abstinence during a normal +pregnancy, admits that it is a rather difficult question. + +[15] This point is discussed, for instance, by Seropian in a Paris Thesis +(_Frequence comparee des Causes de l'Accouchement Premature_, 1907); he +concludes that coitus during pregnancy is a more frequent cause of +premature confinement than is commonly supposed, especially in primiparae, +and markedly so by the ninth month. + +[16] "Infantile Mortality: The Huddersfield Scheme," _British Medical +Journal_, Dec., 1907; Samson Moore, "Infant Mortality," ib., August 29, +1908. + +[17] Ellen Key has admirably dealt with proposals of this kind (as put +forth by C.P. Stetson) in her Essays "On Love and Marriage." In opposition +to such proposals Ellen Key suggests that such women as have been properly +trained for maternal duties and are unable entirely to support themselves +while exercising them should be subsidized by the State during the child's +first three years of life. It may be added that in Leipzig the plan of +subsidizing mothers who (under proper medical and other supervision) +suckle their infants has already been introduced. + + + + +CHAPTER II. + +SEXUAL EDUCATION. + +Nurture Necessary as Well as Breed--Precocious Manifestations of the +Sexual Impulse--Are They to be Regarded as Normal?--The Sexual Play of +Children--The Emotion of Love in Childhood--Are Town Children More +Precocious Sexually Than Country Children?--Children's Ideas Concerning +the Origin of Babies--Need for Beginning the Sexual Education of Children +in Early Years--The Importance of Early Training in Responsibility--Evil +of the Old Doctrine of Silence in Matters of Sex--The Evil Magnified When +Applied to Girls--The Mother the Natural and Best Teacher--The Morbid +Influence of Artificial Mystery in Sex Matters--Books on Sexual +Enlightenment of the Young--Nature of the Mother's Task--Sexual Education +in the School--The Value of Botany--Zooelogy--Sexual Education After +Puberty--The Necessity of Counteracting Quack Literature--Danger of +Neglecting to Prepare for the First Onset of Menstruation--The Right +Attitude Towards Woman's Sexual Life--The Vital Necessity of the Hygiene +of Menstruation During Adolescence--Such Hygiene Compatible with the +Educational and Social Equality of the Sexes--The Invalidism of Women +Mainly Due to Hygienic Neglect--Good Influence of Physical Training on +Women and Bad Influence of Athletics--The Evils of Emotional +Suppression--Need of Teaching the Dignity of Sex--Influence of These +Factors on a Woman's Fate in Marriage--Lectures and Addresses on Sexual +Hygiene--The Doctor's Part in Sexual Education--Pubertal Initiation Into +the Ideal World--The Place of the Religious and Ethical Teacher--The +Initiation Rites of Savages Into Manhood and Womanhood--The Sexual +Influence of Literature--The Sexual Influence of Art. + + +It may seem to some that in attaching weight to the ancestry, the +parentage, the conception, the gestation, even the first infancy, of the +child we are wandering away from the sphere of the psychology of sex. That +is far from being the case. We are, on the contrary, going to the root of +sex. All our growing knowledge tends to show that, equally with his +physical nature, the child's psychic nature is based on breed and nurture, +on the quality of the stocks he belongs to, and on the care taken at the +early moments when care counts for most, to preserve the fine quality of +those stocks. + + It must, of course, be remembered that the influences of both + breed and nurture are alike influential on the fate of the + individual. The influence of nurture is so obvious that few are + likely to under-rate it. The influence of breed, however, is less + obvious, and we may still meet with persons so ill informed, and + perhaps so prejudiced, as to deny it altogether. The growth of + our knowledge in this matter, by showing how subtle and + penetrative is the influence of heredity, cannot fail to dispel + this mischievous notion. No sound civilization is possible except + in a community which in the mass is not only well-nurtured but + well-bred. And in no part of life so much as in the sexual + relationships is the influence of good breeding more decisive. An + instructive illustration may be gleaned from the minute and + precise history of his early life furnished to me by a highly + cultured Russian gentleman. He was brought up in childhood with + his own brothers and sisters and a little girl of the same age + who had been adopted from infancy, the child of a prostitute who + had died soon after the infant's birth. The adopted child was + treated as one of the family, and all the children supposed that + she was a real sister. Yet from early years she developed + instincts unlike those of the children with whom she was + nurtured; she lied, she was cruel, she loved to make mischief, + and she developed precociously vicious sexual impulses; though + carefully educated, she adopted the occupation of her mother, and + at the age of twenty-two was exiled to Siberia for robbery and + attempt to murder. The child of a chance father and a prostitute + mother is not fatally devoted to ruin; but such a child is + ill-bred, and that fact, in some cases, may neutralize all the + influences of good nurture. + +When we reach the period of infancy we have already passed beyond the +foundations and potentialities of the sexual life; we are in some cases +witnessing its actual beginnings. It is a well-established fact that +auto-erotic manifestations may sometimes be observed even in infants of +less than twelve months. We are not now called upon to discuss the +disputable point as to how far such manifestations at this age can be +called normal.[18] A slight degree of menstrual and mammary activity +sometimes occurs at birth.[19] It seems clear that nervous and psychic +sexual activity has its first springs at this early period, and as the +years go by an increasing number of individuals join the stream until at +puberty practically all are carried along in the great current. + +While, therefore, it is possibly, even probably, true that the soundest +and healthiest individuals show no definite signs of nervous and psychic +sexuality in childhood, such manifestations are still sufficiently +frequent to make it impossible to say that sexual hygiene may be +completely ignored until puberty is approaching. + + Precocious physical development occurs as a somewhat rare + variation. W. Roger Williams ("Precocious Sexual Development with + Abstracts of over One Hundred Cases," _British Gynaecological + Journal_, May, 1902) has furnished an important contribution to + the knowledge of this anomaly which is much commoner in girls + than in boys. Roger Williams's cases include only twenty boys to + eighty girls, and precocity is not only more frequent but more + pronounced in girls, who have been known to conceive at eight, + while thirteen is stated to be the earliest age at which boys + have proved able to beget children. This, it may be remarked, is + also the earliest age at which spermatozoa are found in the + seminal fluid of boys; before that age the ejaculations contain + no spermatozoa, and, as Fuerbringer and Moll have found, they may + even be absent at sixteen, or later. In female children + precocious sexual development is less commonly associated with + general increase of bodily development than in boys. (An + individual case of early sexual development in a girl of five has + been completely described and figured in the _Zeitschrift fuer + Ethnologie_, 1896, Heft 4, p. 262.) + + Precocious sexual impulses are generally vague, occasional, and + more or less innocent. A case of rare and pronounced character, + in which a child, a boy, from the age of two had been sexually + attracted to girls and women, and directed all his thoughts and + actions to sexual attempts on them, has been described by Herbert + Rich, of Detroit (_Alienist and Neurologist_, Nov., 1905). + General evidence from the literature of the subject as to sexual + precocity, its frequency and significance, has been brought + together by L.M. Terman ("A Study in Precocity," _American + Journal Psychology_, April, 1905). + + The erections that are liable to occur in male infants have + usually no sexual significance, though, as Moll remarks, they may + acquire it by attracting the child's attention; they are merely + reflex. It is believed by some, however, and notably by Freud, + that certain manifestations of infant activity, especially + thumb-sucking, are of sexual causation, and that the sexual + impulse constantly manifests itself at a very early age. The + belief that the sexual instinct is absent in childhood, Freud + regards as a serious error, so easy to correct by observation + that he wonders how it can have arisen. "In reality," he remarks, + "the new-born infant brings sexuality with it into the world, + sexual sensations accompany it through the days of lactation and + childhood, and very few children can fail to experience sexual + activities and feelings before the period of puberty" (Freud, + "Zur Sexuellen Aufklaerung der Kinder," _Soziale Medizin und + Hygiene_, Bd. ii, 1907; cf., for details, the same author's _Drei + Abhandlungen zur Sexualtheorie_, 1905). Moll, on the other hand, + considers that Freud's views on sexuality in infancy are + exaggerations which must be decisively rejected, though he admits + that it is difficult, if not impossible, to differentiate the + feelings in childhood (Moll, _Das Sexualleben des Kindes_, p. + 154). Moll believes also that psycho-sexual manifestations + appearing after the age of eight are not pathological; children + who are weakly or of bad heredity are not seldom sexually + precocious, but, on the other hand, Moll has known children of + eight or nine with strongly developed sexual impulses, who yet + become finely developed men. + + Rudimentary sexual activities in childhood, accompanied by sexual + feelings, must indeed--when they are not too pronounced or too + premature--be regarded as coming within the normal sphere, though + when they occur in children of bad heredity they are not without + serious risks. But in healthy children, after the age of seven or + eight, they tend to produce no evil results, and are strictly of + the nature of play. Play, both in animals and men, as Groos has + shown with marvelous wealth of illustration, is a beneficent + process of education; the young creature is thereby preparing + itself for the exercise of those functions which in later life it + must carry out more completely and more seriously. In his _Spiele + der Menschen_, Groos applies this idea to the sexual play of + children, and brings forward quotations from literature in + evidence. Keller, in his "Romeo und Juliet auf dem Dorfe," has + given an admirably truthful picture of these childish + love-relationships. Emil Schultze-Malkowsky (_Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, Bd. ii, p. 370) reproduces some scenes from the + life of a little girl of seven clearly illustrating the exact + nature of the sexual manifestation at this age. + + A kind of rudimentary sexual intercourse between children, as + Bloch has remarked (_Beitraege_, etc., Bd. ii, p. 254), occurs in + many parts of the world, and is recognized by their elders as + play. This is, for instance, the case among the Bawenda of the + Transvaal (_Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1896, Heft 4, p. 364), + and among the Papuans of Kaiser-Wilhelms-Land, with the approval + of the parents, although much reticence is observed (id., 1889, + Heft 1, p. 16). Godard (_Egypte et Palestine_, 1867, p. 105) + noted the sexual play of the boys and girls in Cairo. In New + Mexico W.A. Hammond (_Sexual Impotence_, p. 107) has seen boys + and girls attempting a playful sexual conjunction with the + encouragement of men and women, and in New York he has seen boys + and girls of three and four doing the same in the presence of + their parents, with only a laughing rebuke. "Playing at pa and + ma" is indeed extremely common among children in genuine + innocence, and with a complete absence of viciousness; and is by + no means confined to children of low social class. Moll remarks + on its frequency (_Libido Sexualis_, Bd. i, p. 277), and the + committee of evangelical pastors, in their investigation of + German rural morality (_Die Geschlechtliche-sittliche + Verhaeltnisse_, Bd. i, p. 102) found that children who are not yet + of school age make attempts at coitus. The sexual play of + children is by no means confined to father and mother games; + frequently there are games of school with the climax in exposure + and smackings, and occasionally there are games of being doctors + and making examinations. Thus a young English woman says: "Of + course, when we were at school [at the age of twelve and earlier] + we used to play with one another, several of us girls; we used to + go into a field and pretend we were doctors and had to examine + one another, and then we used to pull up one another's clothes + and feel each other." + + These games do not necessarily involve the cooeperation of the + sexual impulse, and still less have they any element of love. But + emotions of love, scarcely if at all distinguishable from adult + sexual love, frequently appear at equally early ages. They are of + the nature of play, in so far as play is a preparation for the + activities of later life, though, unlike the games, they are not + felt as play. Ramdohr, more than a century ago (_Venus Urania_, + 1798), referred to the frequent love of little boys for women. + More usually the love is felt towards individuals of the opposite + or the same sex who are not widely different in age, though + usually older. The most comprehensive study of the matter has + been made by Sanford Bell in America on a basis of as many as + 2,300 cases (S. Bell, "A Preliminary Study of the Emotion of Love + Between the Sexes," _American Journal Psychology_, July, 1902). + Bell finds that the presence of the emotion between three and + eight years of age is shown by such actions as hugging, kissing, + lifting each other, scuffling, sitting close to each other, + confessions to each other and to others, talking about each other + when apart, seeking each other and excluding the rest, grief at + separation, giving gifts, showing special courtesies to each + other, making sacrifices for each other, exhibiting jealousy. The + girls are, on the whole, more aggressive than the boys, and less + anxious to keep the matter secret. After the age of eight, the + girls increase in modesty and the boys become still more + secretive. The physical sensations are not usually located in the + sexual organs; erection of the penis and hyperaemia of the female + sexual parts Bell regards as marking undue precocity. But there + is diffused vascular and nervous tumescence and a state of + exaltation comparable, though not equal, to that experienced in + adolescent and adult age. On the whole, as Bell soundly + concludes, "love between children of opposite sex bears much the + same relation to that between adults as the flower does to the + fruit, and has about as little of physical sexuality in it as an + apple-blossom has of the apple that develops from it." Moll also + (op. cit. p. 76) considers that kissing and other similar + superficial contacts, which he denominates the phenomena of + contrectation, constitute most frequently the first and sole + manifestation of the sexual impulse in childhood. + + It is often stated that it is easier for children to preserve + their sexual innocence in the country than in the town, and that + only in cities is sexuality rampant and conspicuous. This is by + no means true, and in some respects it is the reverse of the + truth. Certainly, hard work, a natural and simple life, and a + lack of alert intelligence often combine to keep the rural lad + chaste in thought and act until the period of adolescence is + completed. Ammon, for instance, states, though without giving + definite evidence, that this is common among the Baden + conscripts. Certainly, also, all the multiple sensory excitements + of urban life tend to arouse the nervous and cerebral + excitability of the young at a comparatively early age in the + sexual as in other fields, and promote premature desires and + curiosities. But, on the other hand, urban life offers the young + no gratification for their desires and curiosities. The publicity + of a city, the universal surveillance, the studied decorum of a + population conscious that it is continually exposed to the gaze + of strangers, combine to spread a veil over the esoteric side of + life, which, even when at last it fails to conceal from the young + the urban stimuli of that life, effectually conceals, for the + most part, the gratifications of those stimuli. In the country, + however, these restraints do not exist in any corresponding + degree; animals render the elemental facts of sexual life clear + to all; there is less need or regard for decorum; speech is + plainer; supervision is impossible, and the amplest opportunities + for sexual intimacy are at hand. If the city may perhaps be said + to favor unchastity of thought in the young, the country may + certainly be said to favor unchastity of act. + + The elaborate investigations of the Committee of Lutheran pastors + into sexual morality (_Die Geschlechtich-sittliche Verhaeltnisse + im Deutschen Reiche_), published a few years ago, demonstrate + amply the sexual freedom in rural Germany, and Moll, who is + decidedly of opinion that the country enjoys no relative freedom + from sexuality, states (op. cit., pp. 137-139, 239) that even the + circulation of obscene books and pictures among school-children + seems to be more frequent in small towns and the country than in + large cities. In Russia, where it might be thought that urban and + rural conditions offered less contrast than in many countries, + the same difference has been observed. "I do not know," a Russian + correspondent writes, "whether Zola in _La Terre_ correctly + describes the life of French villages. But the ways of a Russian + village, where I passed part of my childhood, fairly resemble + those described by Zola. In the life of the rural population into + which I was plunged everything was impregnated with erotism. One + was surrounded by animal lubricity in all its immodesty. Contrary + to the generally received opinion, I believe that a child may + preserve his sexual innocence more easily in a town than in the + country. There are, no doubt, many exceptions to this rule. But + the functions of the sexual life are generally more concealed in + the towns than in the fields. Modesty (whether or not of the + merely superficial and exterior kind) is more developed among + urban populations. In speaking of sexual things in the towns + people veil their thought more; even the lower class in towns + employ more restraint, more euphemisms, than peasants. Thus in + the towns a child may easily fail to comprehend when risky + subjects are talked of in his presence. It may be said that the + corruption of towns, though more concealed, is all the deeper. + Maybe, but that concealment preserves children from it. The town + child sees prostitutes in the street every day without + distinguishing them from other people. In the country he would + every day hear it stated in the crudest terms that such and such + a girl has been found at night in a barn or a ditch making love + with such and such a youth, or that the servant girl slips every + night into the coachman's bed, the facts of sexual intercourse, + pregnancy, and childbirth being spoken of in the plainest terms. + In towns the child's attention is solicited by a thousand + different objects; in the country, except fieldwork, which fails + to interest him, he hears only of the reproduction of animals and + the erotic exploits of girls and youths. When we say that the + urban environment is more exciting we are thinking of adults, but + the things which excite the adult have usually no erotic effect + on the child, who cannot, however, long remain asexual when he + sees the great peasant girls, as ardent as mares in heat, + abandoning themselves to the arms of robust youths. He cannot + fail to remark these frank manifestations of sexuality, though + the subtle and perverse refinements of the town would escape his + notice. I know that in the countries of exaggerated prudery there + is much hidden corruption, more, one is sometimes inclined to + think, than in less hypocritical countries. But I believe that + that is a false impression, and am persuaded that precisely + because of all these little concealments which excite the + malicious amusement of foreigners, there are really many more + young people in England who remain chaste than in the countries + which treat sexual relations more frankly. At all events, if I + have known Englishmen who were very debauched and very refined in + vice, I have also known young men of the same nation, over + twenty, who were as innocent as children, but never a young + Frenchman, Italian, or Spaniard of whom this could be said." + There is undoubtedly truth in this statement, though it must be + remembered that, excellent as chastity is, if it is based on mere + ignorance, its possessor is exposed to terrible dangers. + +The question of sexual hygiene, more especially in its special aspect of +sexual enlightenment, is not, however, dependent on the fact that in some +children the psychic and nervous manifestation of sex appears at an +earlier age than in others. It rests upon the larger general fact that in +all children the activity of intelligence begins to work at a very early +age, and that this activity tends to manifest itself in an inquisitive +desire to know many elementary facts of life which are really dependent on +sex. The primary and most universal of these desires is the desire to know +where children come from. No question could be more natural; the question +of origins is necessarily a fundamental one in childish philosophies as, +in more ultimate shapes, it is in adult philosophies. Most children, +either guided by the statements, usually the misstatements, of their +elders, or by their own intelligence working amid such indications as are +open to them, are in possession of a theory of the origin of babies. + + Stanley Hall ("Contents of Children's Minds on Entering School," + _Pedagogical Seminary_, June, 1891) has collected some of the + beliefs of young children as to the origin of babies. "God makes + babies in heaven, though the Holy Mother and even Santa Claus + make some. He lets them down and drops them, and the women or + doctors catch them, or He leaves them on the sidewalk, or brings + them down a wooden ladder backwards and pulls it up again, or + mamma or the doctor or the nurse go up and fetch them, sometimes + in a balloon, or they fly down and lose off their wings in some + place or other and forget it, and jump down to Jesus, who gives + them around. They were also often said to be found in + flour-barrels, and the flour sticks ever so long, you know, or + they grew in cabbages, or God puts them in water, perhaps in the + sewer, and the doctor gets them out and takes them to sick folks + that want them, or the milkman brings them early in the morning; + they are dug out of the ground, or bought at the baby store." + + In England and America the inquisitive child is often told that + the baby was found in the garden, under a gooseberry bush or + elsewhere; or more commonly it is said, with what is doubtless + felt to be a nearer approach to the truth, that the doctor + brought it. In Germany the common story told to children is that + the stork brings the baby. Various theories, mostly based on + folk-lore, have been put forward to explain this story, but none + of them seem quite convincing (see, e.g., G. Herman, + "Sexual-Mythen," _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, vol. i, Heft 5, + 1906, p. 176, and P. Naecke, _Neurologische Centralblatt_, No. 17, + 1907). Naecke thinks there is some plausibility in Professor + Petermann's suggestion that a frog writhing in a stork's bill + resembles a tiny human creature. + + In Iceland, according to Max Bartels ("Islaendischer Brauch und + Volksglaube," etc., _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1900, Heft 2 + and 3) we find a transition between the natural and the fanciful + in the stories told to children of the origin of babies (the + stork is here precluded, for it only extends to the southern + border of Scandinavian lands). In North Iceland it is said that + God made the baby and the mother bore it, and on that account is + now ill. In the northwest it is said that God made the baby and + gave it to the mother. Elsewhere it is said that God sent the + baby and the midwife brought it, the mother only being in bed to + be near the baby (which is seldom placed in a cradle). It is also + sometimes said that a lamb or a bird brought the baby. Again it + is said to have entered during the night through the window. + Sometimes, however, the child is told that the baby came out of + the mother's breasts, or from below her breasts, and that is why + she is not well. + + Even when children learn that babies come out of the mother's + body this knowledge often remains very vague and inaccurate. It + very commonly happens, for instance, in all civilized countries + that the navel is regarded as the baby's point of exit from the + body. This is a natural conclusion, since the navel is seemingly + a channel into the body, and a channel for which there is no + obvious use, while the pudendal cleft would not suggest itself to + girls (and still less to boys) as the gate of birth, since it + already appears to be monopolized by the urinary excretion. This + belief concerning the navel is sometimes preserved through the + whole period of adolescence, especially in girls of the so-called + educated class, who are too well-bred to discuss the matter with + their married friends, and believe indeed that they are already + sufficiently well informed. At this age the belief may not be + altogether harmless, in so far as it leads to the real gate of + sex being left unguarded. In Elsass where girls commonly believe, + and are taught, that babies come through the navel, popular + folk-tales are current (_Anthropophyteia_, vol. iii, p. 89) + which represent the mistakes resulting from this belief as + leading to the loss of virginity. + + Freud, who believes that children give little credit to the stork + fable and similar stories invented for their mystification, has + made an interesting psychological investigation into the real + theories which children themselves, as the result of observation + and thought, reach concerning the sexual facts of life (S. Freud, + "Ueber Infantile Sexualtheorien," _Sexual-Probleme_, Dec., 1908). + Such theories, he remarks, correspond to the brilliant, but + defective hypotheses which primitive peoples arrive at concerning + the nature and origin of the world. There are three theories, + which, as Freud quite truly concludes, are very commonly formed + by children. The first, and the most widely disseminated, is that + there is no real anatomical difference between boys and girls; if + the boy notices that his little sister has no obvious penis he + even concludes that it is because she is too young, and the + little girl herself takes the same view. The fact that in early + life the clitoris is relatively larger and more penis-like helps + to confirm this view which Freud connects with the tendency in + later life to erotic dream of women furnished with a penis. This + theory, as Freud also remarks, favors the growth of homosexuality + when its germs are present. The second theory is the faecal theory + of the origin of babies. The child, who perhaps thinks his mother + has a penis, and is in any case ignorant of the vagina, concludes + that the baby is brought into the world by an action analogous to + the action of the bowels. The third theory, which is perhaps less + prevalent than the others, Freud terms the sadistic theory of + coitus. The child realizes that his father must have taken some + sort of part in his production. The theory that sexual + intercourse consists in violence has in it a trace of truth, but + seems to be arrived at rather obscurely. The child's own sexual + feelings are often aroused for the first time when wrestling or + struggling with a companion; he may see his mother, also, + resisting more or less playfully a sudden caress from his father, + and if a real quarrel takes place, the impression may be + fortified. As to what the state of marriage consists in, Freud + finds that it is usually regarded as a state which abolishes + modesty; the most prevalent theory being that marriage means that + people can make water before each other, while another common + childish theory is that marriage is when people can show each + other their private parts. + +Thus it is that at a very early stage of the child's life we are brought +face to face with the question how we may most wisely begin his initiation +into the knowledge of the great central facts of sex. It is perhaps a +little late in the day to regard it as a question, but so it is among us, +although three thousand five hundred years ago, the Egyptian father spoke +to his child: "I have given you a mother who has carried you within her, a +heavy burden, for your sake, and without resting on me. When at last you +were born, she indeed submitted herself to the yoke, for during three +years were her nipples in your mouth. Your excrements never turned her +stomach, nor made her say, 'What am I doing?' When you were sent to school +she went regularly every day to carry the household bread and beer to your +master. When in your turn you marry and have a child, bring up your child +as your mother brought you up."[20] + +I take it for granted, however, that--whatever doubt there may be as to +the how or the when--no doubt is any longer possible as to the absolute +necessity of taking deliberate and active part in this sexual initiation, +instead of leaving it to the chance revelation of ignorant and perhaps +vicious companions or servants. It is becoming more and more widely felt +that the risks of ignorant innocence are too great. + + "All the love and solicitude parental yearning can bestow," + writes Dr. G.F. Butler, of Chicago (_Love and its Affinities_, + 1899, p. 83), "all that the most refined religious influence can + offer, all that the most cultivated associations can accomplish, + in one fatal moment may be obliterated. There is no room for + ethical reasoning, indeed oftentimes no consciousness of wrong, + but only Margaret's 'Es war so suess'." The same writer adds (as + had been previously remarked by Mrs. Craik and others) that among + church members it is the finer and more sensitive organizations + that are the most susceptible to sexual emotions. So far as boys + are concerned, we leave instruction in matters of sex, the most + sacred and central fact in the world, as Canon Lyttelton remarks, + to "dirty-minded school-boys, grooms, garden-boys, anyone, in + short, who at an early age may be sufficiently defiled and + sufficiently reckless to talk of them." And, so far as girls are + concerned, as Balzac long ago remarked, "a mother may bring up + her daughter severely, and cover her beneath her wings for + seventeen years; but a servant-girl can destroy that long work by + a word, even by a gesture." + + The great part played by servant-girls of the lower class in the + sexual initiation of the children of the middle class has been + illustrated in dealing with "The Sexual Impulse in Women" in vol. + iii, of these _Studies_, and need not now be further discussed. + I would only here say a word, in passing, on the other side. + Often as servant-girls take this part, we must not go so far as + to say that it is the case with the majority. As regards Germany, + Dr. Alfred Kind has lately put on record his experience: "I have + _never_, in youth, heard a bad or improper word on + sex-relationships from a servant-girl, although servant-girls + followed one another in our house like sunshine and showers in + April, and there was always a relation of comradeship between us + children and the servants." As regards England, I can add that my + own youthful experiences correspond to Dr. Kind's. This is not + surprising, for one may say that in the ordinary well-conditioned + girl, though her virtue may not be developed to heroic + proportions, there is yet usually a natural respect for the + innocence of children, a natural sexual indifference to them, and + a natural expectation that the male should take the active part + when a sexual situation arises. + +It is also beginning to be felt that, especially as regards women, +ignorant innocence is not merely too fragile a possession to be worth +preservation, but that it is positively mischievous, since it involves the +lack of necessary knowledge. "It is little short of criminal," writes Dr. +F.M. Goodchild,[21] "to send our young people into the midst of the +excitements and temptations of a great city with no more preparation than +if they were going to live in Paradise." In the case of women, ignorance +has the further disadvantage that it deprives them of the knowledge +necessary for intelligent sympathy with other women. The unsympathetic +attitude of women towards women is often largely due to sheer ignorance of +the facts of life. "Why," writes in a private letter a married lady who +keenly realizes this, "are women brought up with such a profound ignorance +of their own and especially other women's natures? They do not know half +as much about other women as a man of the most average capacity learns in +his day's march." We try to make up for our failure to educate women in +the essential matters of sex by imposing upon the police and other +guardians of public order the duty of protecting women and morals. But, as +Moll insists, the real problem of chastity lies, not in the multiplication +of laws and policemen, but largely in women's knowledge of the dangers of +sex and in the cultivation of their sense of responsibility.[22] We are +always making laws for the protection of children and setting the police +on guard. But laws and the police, whether their activities are good or +bad, are in either case alike ineffectual. They can for the most part only +be invoked when the damage is already done. We have to learn to go to the +root of the matter. We have to teach children to be a law to themselves. +We have to give them that knowledge which will enable them to guard their +own personalities.[23] There is an authentic story of a lady who had +learned to swim, much to the horror of her clergyman, who thought that +swimming was unfeminine. "But," she said, "suppose I was drowning." "In +that case," he replied, "you ought to wait until a man comes along and +saves you." There we have the two methods of salvation which have been +preached to women, the old method and the new. In no sea have women been +more often in danger of drowning than that of sex. There ought to be no +question as to which is the better method of salvation. + + It is difficult nowadays to find any serious arguments against + the desirability of early sexual enlightenment, and it is almost + with amusement that we read how the novelist Alphonse Daudet, + when asked his opinion of such enlightenment, protested--in a + spirit certainly common among the men of his time--that it was + unnecessary, because boys could learn everything from the streets + and the newspapers, while "as to young girls--no! I would teach + them none of the truths of physiology. I can only see + disadvantages in such a proceeding. These truths are ugly, + disillusioning, sure to shock, to frighten, to disgust the mind, + the nature, of a girl." It is as much as to say that there is no + need to supply sources of pure water when there are puddles in + the street that anyone can drink of. A contemporary of Daudet's, + who possessed a far finer spiritual insight, Coventry Patmore, + the poet, in the essay on "Ancient and Modern Ideas of Purity" in + his beautiful book, _Religio Poetae_, had already finely protested + against that "disease of impurity" which comes of "our modern + undivine silences" for which Daudet pleaded. And Metchnikoff, + more recently, from the scientific side, speaking especially as + regards women, declares that knowledge is so indispensable for + moral conduct that "ignorance must be counted the most immoral of + acts" (_Essais Optimistes_, p. 420). + + The distinguished Belgian novelist, Camille Lemonnier, in his + _L'Homme en Amour_, deals with the question of the sexual + education of the young by presenting the history of a young man, + brought up under the influence of the conventional and + hypocritical views which teach that nudity and sex are shameful + and disgusting things. In this way he passes by the opportunities + of innocent and natural love, to become hopelessly enslaved at + last to a sensual woman who treats him merely as the instrument + of her pleasure, the last of a long succession of lovers. The + book is a powerful plea for a sane, wholesome, and natural + education in matters of sex. It was, however, prosecuted at + Bruges, in 1901, though the trial finally ended in acquittal. + Such a verdict is in harmony with the general tendency of feeling + at the present time. + + The old ideas, expressed by Daudet, that the facts of sex are + ugly and disillusioning, and that they shock the mind of the + young, are both alike entirely false. As Canon Lyttelton remarks, + in urging that the laws of the transmission of life should be + taught to children by the mother: "The way they receive it with + native reverence, truthfulness of understanding and guileless + delicacy, is nothing short of a revelation of the never-ceasing + beauty of nature. People sometimes speak of the indescribable + beauty of children's innocence. But I venture to say that no one + quite knows what it is who has foregone the privilege of being + the first to set before them the true meaning of life and birth + and the mystery of their own being. Not only do we fail to build + up sound knowledge in them, but we put away from ourselves the + chance of learning something that must be divine." In the same + way, Edward Carpenter, stating that it is easy and natural for + the child to learn from the first its physical relation to its + mother, remarks (_Love's Coming of Age_, p. 9): "A child at the + age of puberty, with the unfolding of its far-down emotional and + sexual nature, is eminently capable of the most sensitive, + affectional and serene appreciation of what _sex_ means + (generally more so as things are to-day, than its worldling + parent or guardian); and can absorb the teaching, if + sympathetically given, without any shock or disturbance to its + sense of shame--that sense which is so natural and valuable a + safeguard of early youth." + + How widespread, even some years ago, had become the conviction + that the sexual facts of life should be taught to girls as well + as boys, was shown when the opinions of a very miscellaneous + assortment of more or less prominent persons were sought on the + question ("The Tree of Knowledge," _New Review_, June, 1894). A + small minority of two only (Rabbi Adler and Mrs. Lynn Lynton) + were against such knowledge, while among the majority in favor of + it were Mme. Adam, Thomas Hardy, Sir Walter Besant, Bjoernson, + Hall Caine, Sarah Grand, Nordau, Lady Henry Somerset, Baroness + von Suttner, and Miss Willard. The leaders of the woman's + movement are, of course, in favor of such knowledge. Thus a + meeting of the Bund fuer Mutterschutz at Berlin, in 1905, almost + unanimously passed a resolution declaring that the early sexual + enlightenment of children in the facts of the sexual life is + urgently necessary (_Mutterschutz_, 1905, Heft 2, p. 91). It may + be added that medical opinion has long approved of this + enlightenment. Thus in England it was editorially stated in the + _British Medical Journal_ some years ago (June 9, 1894): "Most + medical men of an age to beget confidence in such affairs will be + able to recall instances in which an ignorance, which would have + been ludicrous if it had not been so sad, has been displayed on + matters regarding which every woman entering on married life + ought to have been accurately informed. There can, we think, be + little doubt that much unhappiness and a great deal of illness + would be prevented if young people of both sexes possessed a + little accurate knowledge regarding the sexual relations, and + were well impressed with the profound importance of selecting + healthy mates. Knowledge need not necessarily be nasty, but even + if it were, it certainly is not comparable in that respect with + the imaginings of ignorance." In America, also, where at an + annual meeting of the American Medical Association, Dr. Denslow + Lewis, of Chicago, eloquently urged the need of teaching sexual + hygiene to youths and girls, all the subsequent nine speakers, + some of them physicians of worldwide fame, expressed their + essential agreement (_Medico-Legal Journal_, June-Sept., 1903). + Howard, again, at the end of his elaborate _History of + Matrimonial Institutions_ (vol. iii, p. 257) asserts the + necessity for education in matters of sex, as going to the root + of the marriage problem. "In the future educational programme," + he remarks, "sex questions must hold an honorable place." + +While, however, it is now widely recognized that children are entitled to +sexual enlightenment, it cannot be said that this belief is widely put +into practice. Many persons, who are fully persuaded that children should +sooner or later be enlightened concerning the sexual sources of life, are +somewhat nervously anxious as to the precise age at which this +enlightenment should begin. Their latent feeling seems to be that sex is +an evil, and enlightenment concerning sex also an evil, however necessary, +and that the chief point is to ascertain the latest moment to which we can +safely postpone this necessary evil. Such an attitude is, however, +altogether wrong-headed. The child's desire for knowledge concerning the +origin of himself is a perfectly natural, honest, and harmless desire, so +long as it is not perverted by being thwarted. A child of four may ask +questions on this matter, simply and spontaneously. As soon as the +questions are put, certainly as soon as they become at all insistent, they +should be answered, in the same simple and spontaneous spirit, truthfully, +though according to the measure of the child's intelligence and his +capacity and desire for knowledge. This period should not, and, if these +indications are followed, naturally would not, in any case, be delayed +beyond the sixth year. After that age even the most carefully guarded +child is liable to contaminating communications from outside. Moll points +out that the sexual enlightenment of girls in its various stages ought to +be always a little ahead of that of boys, and as the development of girls +up to the pubertal age is more precocious than that of boys, this demand +is reasonable. + +If the elements of sexual education are to be imparted in early childhood, +it is quite clear who ought to be the teacher. There should be no question +that this privilege belongs by every right to the mother. Except where a +child is artificially separated from his chief parent it is indeed only +the mother who has any natural opportunity of receiving and responding to +these questions. It is unnecessary for her to take any initiative in the +matter. The inevitable awakening of the child's intelligence and the +evolution of his boundless curiosity furnish her love and skill with all +opportunities for guiding her child's thoughts and knowledge. Nor is it +necessary for her to possess the slightest technical information at this +stage. It is only essential that she should have the most absolute faith +in the purity and dignity of her physical relationship to her child, and +be able to speak of it with frankness and tenderness. When that essential +condition is fulfilled every mother has all the knowledge that her young +child needs. + + Among the best authorities, both men and women, in all the + countries where this matter is attracting attention, there seems + now to be unanimity of opinion in favor of the elementary facts + of the baby's relationship to its mother being explained to the + child by the mother as soon as the child begins to ask questions. + Thus in Germany Moll has repeatedly argued in this sense; he + insists that sexual enlightenment should be mainly a private and + individual matter; that in schools there should be no general and + personal warnings about masturbation, etc. (though at a later age + he approves of instruction in regard to venereal diseases), but + that the mother is the proper person to impart intimate knowledge + to the child, and that any age is suitable for the commencement + of such enlightenment, provided it is put into a form fitted for + the age (Moll, op. cit., p. 264). + + At the Mannheim meeting of the Congress of the German Society for + Combating Venereal Disease, when the question of sexual + enlightenment formed the sole subject of discussion, the opinion + in favor of early teaching by the mother prevailed. "It is the + mother who must, in the first place, be made responsible for the + child's clear understanding of sexual things, so often lacking," + said Frau Krukenberg ("Die Aufgabe der Mutter," + _Sexualpaedagogik_, p. 13), while Max Enderlin, a teacher, said on + the same occasion ("Die Sexuelle Frage in die Volksschule," id., + p. 35): "It is the mother who has to give the child his first + explanations, for it is to his mother that he first naturally + comes with his questions." In England, Canon Lyttelton, who is + distinguished among the heads of public schools not least by his + clear and admirable statements on these questions, states + (_Mothers and Sons_, p. 99) that the mother's part in the sexual + enlightenment and sexual guardianship of her son is of paramount + importance, and should begin at the earliest years. J.H. Badley, + another schoolmaster ("The Sex Difficulty," _Broad Views_, June, + 1904), also states that the mother's part comes first. Northcote + (_Christianity and Sex Problems_, p. 25) believes that the duty + of the parents is primary in this matter, the family doctor and + the schoolmaster coming in at a later stage. In America, Dr. Mary + Wood Allen, who occupies a prominent and influential position in + women's social movements, urges (in _Child-Confidence Rewarded_, + and other pamphlets) that a mother should begin to tell her child + these things as soon as he begins to ask questions, the age of + four not being too young, and explains how this may be done, + giving examples of its happy results in promoting a sweet + confidence between the child and his mother. + +If, as a few believe should be the case, the first initiation is delayed +to the tenth year or even later, there is the difficulty that it is no +longer so easy to talk simply and naturally about such things; the mother +is beginning to feel too shy to speak for the first time about these +difficult subjects to a son or a daughter who is nearly as big as herself. +She feels that she can only do it awkwardly and ineffectively, and she +probably decides not to do it at all. Thus an atmosphere of mystery is +created with all the embarrassing and perverting influences which mystery +encourages. + + There can be no doubt that, more especially in highly intelligent + children with vague and unspecialized yet insistent sexual + impulses, the artificial mystery with which sex is too often + clothed not only accentuates the natural curiosity but also tends + to favor the morbid intensity and even prurience of the sexual + impulse. This has long been recognized. Dr. Beddoes wrote at the + beginning of the nineteenth century: "It is in vain that we + dissemble to ourselves the eagerness with which children of + either sex seek to satisfy themselves concerning the conformation + of the other. No degree of reserve in the heads of families, no + contrivances, no care to put books of one description out of + sight and to garble others, has perhaps, with any one set of + children, succeeded in preventing or stifling this kind of + curiosity. No part of the history of human thought would perhaps + be more singular than the stratagems devised by young people in + different situations to make themselves masters or witnesses of + the secret. And every discovery, due to their own inquiries, can + but be so much oil poured upon an imagination in flames" (T. + Beddoes, _Hygeia_, 1802, vol. iii, p. 59). Kaan, again, in one of + the earliest books on morbid sexuality, sets down mystery as one + of the causes of _psychopathia sexualis_. Marro (_La Puberta_, p. + 299) points out how the veil of mystery thrown over sexual + matters merely serves to concentrate attention on them. The + distinguished Dutch writer Multatuli, in one of his letters + (quoted with approval by Freud), remarks on the dangers of hiding + things from boys and girls in a veil of mystery, pointing out + that this must only heighten the curiosity of children, and so + far from keeping them pure, which mere ignorance can never do, + heats and perverts their imaginations. Mrs. Mary Wood Allen, + also, warns the mother (op. cit., p. 5) against the danger of + allowing any air of embarrassing mystery to creep over these + things. "If the instructor feels any embarrassment in answering + the queries of the child, he is not fitted to be the teacher, for + the feeling of embarrassment will, in some subtle way, + communicate itself to the child, and he will experience an + indefinable sense of offended delicacy which is both unnecessary + and undesirable. Purification of one's own thought is, then, the + first step towards teaching the truth purely. Why," she adds, "is + death, the gateway out of life, any more dignified or pathetic + than birth, the gateway into life? Or why is the taking of + earthly life a more awful fact than the giving of life?" Mrs. + Ennis Richmond, in a book of advice to mothers which contains + many wise and true things, says: "I want to insist, more strongly + than upon anything else, that it is the _secrecy_ that surrounds + certain parts of the body and their functions that gives them + their danger in the child's thought. Little children, from + earliest years, are taught to think of these parts of their body + as mysterious, and not only so, but that they are mysterious + because they are unclean. Children have not even a name for them. + If you have to speak to your child, you allude to them + mysteriously and in a half-whisper as 'that little part of you + that you don't speak of,' or words to that effect. Before + everything it is important that your child should have a good + working name for these parts of his body, and for their + functions, and that he should be taught to use and to hear the + names, and that as naturally and openly as though he or you were + speaking of his head or his foot. Convention has, for various + reasons, made it impossible to speak in this way in public. But + you can, at any rate, break through this in the nursery. There + this rule of convention has no advantage, and many a serious + disadvantage. It is easy to say to a child, the first time he + makes an 'awkward' remark in public: 'Look here, laddie, you may + say what you like to me or to daddy, but, for some reason or + other, one does not talk about these' (only say _what_ things) + 'in public.' Only let your child make the remark in public + _before_ you speak (never mind the shock to your caller's + feelings), don't warn him against doing so" (Ennis Richmond, + _Boyhood_, p. 60). Sex must always be a mystery, but, as Mrs. + Richmond rightly says, "the real and true mysteries of generation + and birth are very different from the vulgar secretiveness with + which custom surrounds them." + + The question as to the precise names to be given to the more + private bodily parts and functions is sometimes a little + difficult to solve. Every mother will naturally follow her own + instincts, and probably her own traditions, in this matter. I + have elsewhere pointed out (in the study of "The Evolution of + Modesty") how widespread and instinctive is the tendency to adopt + constantly new euphemisms in this field. The ancient and simple + words, which in England a great poet like Chaucer could still use + rightly and naturally, are so often dropped in the mud by the + vulgar that there is an instinctive hesitation nowadays in + applying them to beautiful uses. They are, however, + unquestionably the best, and, in their origin, the most dignified + and expressive words. Many persons are of opinion that on this + account they should be rescued from the mud, and their sacredness + taught to children. A medical friend writes that he always taught + his son that the vulgar sex names are really beautiful words of + ancient origin, and that when we understand them aright we cannot + possibly see in them any motive for low jesting. They are simple, + serious and solemn words, connoting the most central facts of + life, and only to ignorant and plebeian vulgarity can they cause + obscene mirth. An American man of science, who has privately and + anonymously printed some pamphlets on sex questions, also takes + this view, and consistently and methodically uses the ancient + and simple words. I am of opinion that this is the ideal to be + sought, but that there are obvious difficulties at present in the + way of attaining it. In any case, however, the mother should be + in possession of a very precise vocabulary for all the bodily + parts and acts which it concerns her children to know. + +It is sometimes said that at this early age children should not be told, +even in a simple and elementary form, the real facts of their origin but +should, instead, hear a fairy-tale having in it perhaps some kind of +symbolic truth. This contention may be absolutely rejected, without +thereby, in any degree, denying the important place which fairy-tales hold +in the imagination of young children. Fairy-tales have a real value to the +child; they are a mental food he needs, if he is not to be spiritually +starved; to deprive him of fairy-tales at this age is to do him a wrong +which can never be made up at any subsequent age. But not only are sex +matters too vital even in childhood to be safely made matter for a +fairy-tale, but the real facts are themselves as wonderful as any +fairy-tale, and appeal to the child's imagination with as much force as a +fairy-tale. + +Even, however, if there were no other reasons against telling children +fairy-tales of sex instead of the real facts, there is one reason which +ought to be decisive with every mother who values her influence over her +child. He will very quickly discover, either by information from others or +by his own natural intelligence, that the fairy-tale, that was told him in +reply to a question about a simple matter of fact, was a lie. With that +discovery his mother's influence over him in all such matters vanishes for +ever, for not only has a child a horror of being duped, but he is +extremely sensitive about any rebuff of this kind, and never repeats what +he has been made to feel was a mistake to be ashamed of. He will not +trouble his mother with any more questions on this matter; he will not +confide in her; he will himself learn the art of telling "fairy-tales" +about sex matters. He had turned to his mother in trust; she had not +responded with equal trust, and she must suffer the punishment, as +Henriette Fuerth puts it, of seeing "the love and trust of her son stolen +from her by the first boy he makes friends with in the street." When, as +sometimes happens (Moll mentions a case), a mother goes on repeating these +silly stories to a girl or boy of seven who is secretly well-informed, she +only degrades herself in her child's eyes. It is this fatal mistake, so +often made by mothers, which at first leads them to imagine that their +children are so innocent, and in later years causes them many hours of +bitterness because they realize they do not possess their children's +trust. In the matter of trust it is for the mother to take the first step; +the children who do not trust their mothers are, for the most part, merely +remembering the lesson they learned at their mother's knee. + + The number of little books and pamphlets dealing with the + question of the sexual enlightenment of the young--whether + intended to be read by the young or offering guidance to mothers + and teachers in the task of imparting knowledge--has become very + large indeed during recent years in America, England, and + especially Germany, where there has been of late an enormous + production of such literature. The late Ben Elmy, writing under + the pseudonym of "Ellis Ethelmer," published two booklets, _Baby + Buds_, and _The Human Flower_ (issued by Mrs. Wolstenholme Elmy, + Buxton House, Congleton), which state the facts in a simple and + delicate manner, though the author was not a notably reliable + guide on the scientific aspects of these questions. A charming + conversation between a mother and child, from a French source, is + reprinted by Edward Carpenter at the end of his _Love's Coming of + Age. How We Are Born_, by Mrs. N.J. (apparently a Russian lady + writing in English), prefaced by J.H. Badley, is satisfactory. + Mention may also be made of _The Wonder of Life_, by Mary Tudor + Pole. Margaret Morley's _Song of Life_, an American book, which I + have not seen, has been highly praised. Most of these books are + intended for quite young children, and while they explain more or + less clearly the origin of babies, nearly always starting with + the facts of plant life, they touch very slightly, if at all, on + the relations of the sexes. + + Mrs. Ennis Richmond's books, largely addressed to mothers, deal + with these questions in a very sane, direct, and admirable + manner, and Canon Lyttelton's books, discussing such questions + generally, are also excellent. Most of the books now to be + mentioned are intended to be read by boys and girls who have + reached the age of puberty. They refer more or less precisely to + sexual relationships, and they usually touch on masturbation. + _The Story of Life_, written by a very accomplished woman, the + late Ellice Hopkins, is somewhat vague, and introduces too many + exalted religious ideas. Arthur Trewby's _Healthy Boyhood_ is a + little book of wholesome tendency; it deals specially with + masturbation. _A Talk with Boys About Themselves_ and _A Talk + with Girls About Themselves_, both by Edward Bruce Kirk (the + latter book written in conjunction with a lady) deal with general + as well as sexual hygiene. There could be no better book to put + into the hands of a boy or girl at puberty than M.A. Warren's + _Almost Fourteen_, written by an American school teacher in 1892. + It was a most charming and delicately written book, which could + not have offended the innocence of the most sensitive maiden. + Nothing, however, is sacred to prurience, and it was easy for the + prurient to capture the law and obtain (in 1897) legal + condemnation of this book as "obscene." Anything which sexually + excites a prurient mind is, it is true, "obscene" for that mind, + for, as Mr. Theodore Schroeder remarks, obscenity is "the + contribution of the reading mind," but we need such books as this + in order to diminish the number of prurient minds, and the + condemnation of so entirely admirable a book makes, not for + morality, but for immorality. I am told that the book was + subsequently issued anew with most of its best portions omitted, + and it is stated by Schroeder (_Liberty of Speech and Press + Essential to Purity Propaganda_, p. 34) that the author was + compelled to resign his position as a public school principal. + Maria Lischnewska's _Geschlechtliche Belehrung der Kinder_ + (reprinted from _Mutterschutz_, 1905, Heft 4 and 5) is a most + admirable and thorough discussion of the whole question of sexual + education, though the writer is more interested in the teacher's + share in this question than in the mother's. Suggestions to + mothers are contained in Hugo Salus, _Wo kommen die Kinder her?_, + E. Stiehl, _Eine Mutterpflicht_, and many other books. Dr. Alfred + Kind strongly recommends Ludwig Gurlitt's _Der Verkehr mit meinem + Kindern_, more especially in its combination of sexual education + with artistic education. Many similar books are referred to by + Bloch, in his _Sexual Life of Our Time_, Ch. xxvi. + + I have enumerated the names of these little books because they + are frequently issued in a semi-private manner, and are seldom + easy to procure or to hear of. The propagation of such books + seems to be felt to be almost a disgraceful action, only to be + performed by stealth. And such a feeling seems not unnatural when + we see, as in the case of the author of _Almost Fourteen_, that a + nominally civilized country, instead of loading with honors a man + who has worked for its moral and physical welfare, seeks so far + as it can to ruin him. + + I may add that while it would usually be very helpful to a mother + to be acquainted with a few of the booklets I have named, she + would do well, in actually talking to her children, to rely + mainly on her own knowledge and inspiration. + +The sexual education which it is the mother's duty and privilege to +initiate during her child's early years cannot and ought not to be +technical. It is not of the nature of formal instruction but is a private +and intimate initiation. No doubt the mother must herself be taught.[24] +But the education she needs is mainly an education in love and insight. +The actual facts which she requires to use at this early stage are very +simple. Her main task is to make clear the child's own intimate relations +to herself and to show that all young things have a similar intimate +relation to their mothers; in generalizing on this point the egg is the +simplest and most fundamental type to explain the origin of the individual +life, for the idea of the egg--in its widest sense as the seed--not only +has its truth for the human creature but may be applied throughout the +animal and vegetable world. In this explanation the child's physical +relationship to his father is not necessarily at first involved; it may be +left to a further stage or until the child's questions lead up to it. + +Apart from his interest in his origin, the child is also interested in his +sexual, or as they seem to him exclusively, his excretory organs, and in +those of other people, his sisters and parents. On these points, at this +age, his mother may simply and naturally satisfy his simple and natural +curiosity, calling things by precise names, whether the names used are +common or uncommon being a matter in regard to which she may exercise her +judgment and taste. In this manner the mother will, indirectly, be able to +safeguard her child at the outset against the prudish and prurient notions +alike which he will encounter later. She will also without unnatural +stress be able to lead the child into a reverential attitude towards his +own organs and so exert an influence against any undesirable tampering +with them. In talking with him about the origin of life and about his own +body and functions, in however elementary a fashion, she will have +initiated him both in sexual knowledge and in sexual hygiene. + +The mother who establishes a relationship of confidence with her child +during these first years will probably, if she possesses any measure of +wisdom and tact, be able to preserve it even after the epoch of puberty +into the difficult years of adolescence. But as an educator in the +narrower sense her functions will, in most cases, end at or before +puberty. A somewhat more technical and completely impersonal acquaintance +with the essential facts of sex then becomes desirable, and this would +usually be supplied by the school. + + The great though capricious educator, Basedow, to some extent a + pupil of Rousseau, was an early pioneer in both the theory and + the practice of giving school children instruction in the facts + of the sexual life, from the age of ten onwards. He insists much + on this subject in his great treatise, the _Elementarwerk_ + (1770-1774). The questions of children are to be answered + truthfully, he states, and they must be taught never to jest at + anything so sacred and serious as the sexual relations. They are + to be shown pictures of childbirth, and the dangers of sexual + irregularities are to be clearly expounded to them at the outset. + Boys are to be taken to hospitals to see the results of venereal + disease. Basedow is aware that many parents and teachers will be + shocked at his insistence on these things in his books and in his + practical pedagogic work, but such people, he declares, ought to + be shocked at the Bible (see, e.g., Pinloche, _La Reforme de + l'Education en Allemagne au dixhuitieme siecle: Basedow et le + Philanthropinisme_, pp. 125, 256, 260, 272). Basedow was too far + ahead of his own time, and even of ours, to exert much influence + in this matter, and he had few immediate imitators. + + Somewhat later than Basedow, a distinguished English physician, + Thomas Beddoes, worked on somewhat the same lines, seeking to + promote sexual knowledge by lectures and demonstrations. In his + remarkable book, _Hygeia_, published in 1802 (vol. i, Essay IV) + he sets forth the absurdity of the conventional requirement that + "discretion and ignorance should lodge in the same bosom," and + deals at length with the question of masturbation and the need of + sexual education. He insists on the great importance of lectures + on natural history which, he had found, could be given with + perfect propriety to a mixed audience. His experiences had shown + that botany, the amphibia, the hen and her eggs, human anatomy, + even disease and sometimes the sight of it, are salutary from + this point of view. He thinks it is a happy thing for a child to + gain his first knowledge of sexual difference from anatomical + subjects, the dignity of death being a noble prelude to the + knowledge of sex and depriving it forever of morbid prurience. + It is scarcely necessary to remark that this method of teaching + children the elements of sexual anatomy in the _post-mortem_ room + has not found many advocates or followers; it is undesirable, for + it fails to take into account the sensitiveness of children to + such impressions, and it is unnecessary, for it is just as easy + to teach the dignity of life as the dignity of death. + + The duty of the school to impart education in matters of sex to + children has in recent years been vigorously and ably advocated + by Maria Lischnewska (op. cit.), who speaks with thirty years' + experience as a teacher and an intimate acquaintance with + children and their home life. She argues that among the mass of + the population to-day, while in the home-life there is every + opportunity for coarse familiarity with sexual matters, there is + no opportunity for a pure and enlightened introduction to them, + parents being for the most part both morally and intellectually + incapable of aiding their children here. That the school should + assume the leading part in this task is, she believes, in + accordance with the whole tendency of modern civilized life. She + would have the instruction graduated in such a manner that during + the fifth or sixth year of school life the pupil would receive + instruction, with the aid of diagrams, concerning the sexual + organs and functions of the higher mammals, the bull and cow + being selected by preference. The facts of gestation would of + course be included. When this stage was reached it would be easy + to pass on to the human species with the statement: "Just in the + same way as the calf develops in the cow so the child develops in + the mother's body." + + It is difficult not to recognize the force of Maria Lischnewska's + argument, and it seems highly probable that, as she asserts, the + instruction proposed lies in the course of our present path of + progress. Such instruction would be formal, unemotional, and + impersonal; it would be given not as specific instruction in + matters of sex, but simply as a part of natural history. It would + supplement, so far as mere knowledge is concerned, the + information the child had already received from its mother. But + it would by no means supplant or replace the personal and + intimate relationship of confidence between mother and child. + That is always to be aimed at, and though it may not be possible + among the ill-educated masses of to-day, nothing else will + adequately take its place. + +There can be no doubt, however, that while in the future the school will +most probably be regarded as the proper place in which to teach the +elements of physiology--and not as at present a merely emasculated and +effeminated physiology--the introduction of such reformed teaching is as +yet impracticable in many communities. A coarse and ill-bred community +moves in a vicious circle. Its members are brought up to believe that sex +matters are filthy, and when they become adults they protest violently +against their children being taught this filthy knowledge. The teacher's +task is thus rendered at the best difficult, and under democratic +conditions impossible. We cannot, therefore, hope for any immediate +introduction of sexual physiology into schools, even in the unobtrusive +form in which alone it could properly be introduced, that is to say as a +natural and inevitable part of general physiology. + +This objection to animal physiology by no means applies, however, to +botany. There can be little doubt that botany is of all the natural +sciences that which best admits of this incidental instruction in the +fundamental facts of sex, when we are concerned with children below the +age of puberty. There are at least two reasons why this should be so. In +the first place botany really presents the beginnings of sex, in their +most naked and essential forms; it makes clear the nature, origin, and +significance of sex. In the second place, in dealing with plants the facts +of sex can be stated to children of either sex or any age quite plainly +and nakedly without any reserve, for no one nowadays regards the botanical +facts of sex as in any way offensive. The expounder of sex in plants also +has on his side the advantage of being able to assert, without question, +the entire beauty of the sexual process. He is not confronted by the +ignorance, bad education, and false associations which have made it so +difficult either to see or to show the beauty of sex in animals. From the +sex-life of plants to the sex-life of the lower animals there is, however, +but a step which the teacher, according to his discretion, may take. + + An early educational authority, Salzmann, in 1785 advocated the + sexual enlightenment of children by first teaching them botany, + to be followed by zooelogy. In modern times the method of + imparting sex knowledge to children by means, in the first place, + of botany, has been generally advocated, and from the most + various quarters. Thus Marro (_La Puberta_, p. 300) recommends + this plan. J. Hudrey-Menos ("La Question du Sexe dans + l'Education," _Revue Socialiste_, June, 1895), gives the same + advice. Rudolf Sommer, in a paper entitled "Maedchenerziehung oder + Menschenbildung?" (_Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Jahrgang I, + Heft 3) recommends that the first introduction of sex knowledge + to children should be made by talking to them on simple natural + history subjects; "there are endless opportunities," he remarks, + "over a fairy-tale, or a walk, or a fruit, or an egg, the sowing + of seed or the nest-building of birds." Canon Lyttelton + (_Training of the Young in Laws of Sex_, pp. 74 et seq.) advises + a somewhat similar method, though laying chief stress on personal + confidence between the child and his mother; "reference is made + to the animal world just so far as the child's knowledge extends, + so as to prevent the new facts from being viewed in isolation, + but the main emphasis is laid on his feeling for his mother and + the instinct which exists in nearly all children of reverence due + to the maternal relation;" he adds that, however difficult the + subject may seem, the essential facts of paternity must also be + explained to boys and girls alike. Keyes, again (_New York + Medical Journal_, Feb. 10, 1906), advocates teaching children + from an early age the sexual facts of plant life and also + concerning insects and other lower animals, and so gradually + leading up to human beings, the matter being thus robbed of its + unwholesome mystery. Mrs. Ennis Richmond (_Boyhood_, p. 62) + recommends that children should be sent to spend some of their + time upon a farm, so that they may not only become acquainted + with the general facts of the natural world, but also with the + sexual lives of animals, learning things which it is difficult to + teach verbally. Karina Karin ("Wie erzieht man ein Kind zuer + wissenden Keuschheit?" _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Jahrgang I, + Heft 4), reproducing some of her talks with her nine-year old + son, from the time that he first asked her where children came + from, shows how she began with telling him about flowers, to pass + on to fish and birds, and finally to the facts of human + pregnancy, showing him pictures from an obstetrical manual of the + child in its mother's body. It may be added that the advisability + of beginning the sex teaching of children with the facts of + botany was repeatedly emphasized by various speakers at the + special meeting of the German Congress for Combating Venereal + Disease devoted to the subject of sexual instruction + (_Sexualpaedagogik_, especially pp. 36, 47, 76). + +The transition from botany to the elementary zooelogy of the lower animals, +to human anatomy and physiology, and to the science of anthropology based +on these, is simple and natural. It is not likely to be taken in detail +until the age of puberty. Sex enters into all these subjects and should +not be artificially excluded from them in the education of either boys or +girls. The text-books from which the sexual system is entirely omitted +ought no longer to be tolerated. The nature and secretion of the +testicles, the meaning of the ovaries and of menstruation, as well as the +significance of metabolism and the urinary excretion, should be clear in +their main lines to all boys and girls who have reached the age of +puberty. + +At puberty there arises a new and powerful reason why boys and girls +should receive definite instruction in matters of sex. Before that age it +is possible for the foolish parent to imagine that a child may be +preserved in ignorant innocence.[25] At puberty that belief is obviously +no longer possible. The efflorescence of puberty with the development of +the sexual organs, the appearance of hair in unfamiliar places, the +general related organic changes, the spontaneous and perhaps alarming +occurrence in boys of seminal emissions, and in girls of menstruation, the +unaccustomed and sometimes acute recognition of sexual desire accompanied +by new sensations in the sexual organs and leading perhaps to +masturbation; all these arouse, as we cannot fail to realize, a new +anxiety in the boy's or girl's mind, and a new curiosity, all the more +acute in many cases because it is carefully concealed as too private, and +even too shameful, to speak of to anyone. In boys, especially if of +sensitive temperament, the suffering thus caused may be keen and +prolonged. + + A doctor of philosophy, prominent in his profession, wrote to + Stanley Hall (_Adolescence_, vol. i, p. 452): "My entire youth, + from six to eighteen, was made miserable from lack of knowledge + that any one who knew anything of the nature of puberty might + have given; this long sense of defect, dread of operation, shame + and worry, has left an indelible mark." There are certainly many + men who could say the same. Lancaster ("Psychology and Pedagogy + of Adolescence," _Pedagogical Seminary_, July, 1897, pp. 123-5) + speaks strongly regarding the evils of ignorance of sexual + hygiene, and the terrible fact that millions of youths are always + in the hands of quacks who dupe them into the belief that they + are on the road to an awful destiny merely because they have + occasional emissions during sleep. "This is not a light matter," + Lancaster declares. "It strikes at the very foundation of our + inmost life. It deals with the reproductory part of our natures, + and must have a deep hereditary influence. It is a natural result + of the foolish false modesty shown regarding all sex instruction. + Every boy should be taught the simple physiological facts before + his life is forever blighted by this cause." Lancaster has had in + his hands one thousand letters, mostly written by young people, + who were usually normal, and addressed to quacks who were duping + them. From time to time the suicides of youths from this cause + are reported, and in many mysterious suicides this has + undoubtedly been the real cause. "Week after week," writes the + _British Medical Journal_ in an editorial ("Dangerous Quack + Literature: The Moral of a Recent Suicide," Oct. 1, 1892), "we + receive despairing letters from those victims of foul birds of + prey who have obtained their first hold on those they rob, + torture and often ruin, by advertisements inserted by newspapers + of a respectable, nay, even of a valuable and respected, + character." It is added that the wealthy proprietors of such + newspapers, often enjoying a reputation for benevolence, even + when the matter is brought before them, refuse to interfere as + they would thereby lose a source of income, and a censorship of + advertisements is proposed. This, however, is difficult, and + would be quite unnecessary if youths received proper + enlightenment from their natural guardians. + + Masturbation, and the fear that by an occasional and perhaps + outgrown practice of masturbation they have sometimes done + themselves irreparable injury, is a common source of anxiety to + boys. It has long been a question whether a boy should be warned + against masturbation. At a meeting of the Section of Psychology + of the British Medical Association some years ago, four speakers, + including the President (Dr. Blandford), were decidedly in favor + of parents warning their children against masturbation, while + three speakers were decidedly against that course, mainly on the + ground that it was possible to pass through even a public school + life without hearing of masturbation, and also that the warning + against masturbation might encourage the practice. It is, + however, becoming more and more clearly realized that ignorance, + even if it can be maintained, is a perilous possession, while the + teaching that consists, as it should, in a loving mother's + counsel to the child from his earliest years to treat his sexual + parts with care and respect, can only lead to masturbation in the + child who is already irresistibly impelled to it. Most of the sex + manuals for boys touch on masturbation, sometimes exaggerating + its dangers; such exaggeration should be avoided, for it leads to + far worse evils than those it attempts to prevent. It seems + undesirable that any warnings about masturbation should form part + of school instruction, unless under very special circumstances. + The sexual instruction imparted in the school on sexual as on + other subjects should be absolutely impersonal and objective. + + At this point we approach one of the difficulties in the way of + sexual enlightenment: the ignorance or unwisdom of the would-be + teachers. This difficulty at present exists both in the home and + the school, while it destroys the value of many manuals written + for the sexual instruction of the young. The mother, who ought to + be the child's confidant and guide in matters of sexual + education, and could naturally be so if left to her own healthy + instincts, has usually been brought up in false traditions which + it requires a high degree of intelligence and character to escape + from; the school-teacher, even if only called upon to give + instruction in natural history, is oppressed by the same + traditions, and by false shame concerning the whole subject of + sex; the writer of manuals on sex has often only freed himself + from these bonds in order to advocate dogmatic, unscientific, and + sometimes mischievous opinions which have been evolved in entire + ignorance of the real facts. As Moll says (Das _Sexualleben des + Kindes_, p. 276), necessary as sexual enlightenment is, we cannot + help feeling a little skeptical as to its results so long as + those who ought to enlighten are themselves often in need of + enlightenment. He refers also to the fact that even among + competent authorities there is difference of opinion concerning + important matters, as, for instance, whether masturbation is + physiological at the first development of the sexual impulse and + how far sexual abstinence is beneficial. But it is evident that + the difficulties due to false tradition and ignorance will + diminish as sound traditions and better knowledge become more + widely diffused. + +The girl at puberty is usually less keenly and definitely conscious of her +sexual nature than the boy. But the risks she runs from sexual ignorance, +though for the most part different, are more subtle and less easy to +repair. She is often extremely inquisitive concerning these matters; the +thoughts of adolescent girls, and often their conversation among +themselves, revolve much around sexual and allied mysteries. Even in the +matter of conscious sexual impulse the girl is often not so widely +different from her brother, nor so much less likely to escape the +contamination of evil communications, so that the scruples of foolish and +ignorant persons who dread to "sully her purity" by proper instruction are +exceedingly misplaced. + + Conversations dealing with the important mysteries of human + nature, Obici and Marchesini were told by ladies who had formerly + been pupils in Italian Normal Schools, are the order of the day + in schools and colleges, and specially circle around procreation, + the most difficult mystery of all. In England, even in the best + and most modern colleges, in which games and physical exercise + are much cultivated, I am told that "the majority of the girls + are entirely ignorant of all sexual matters, and understand + nothing whatever about them. But they do wonder about them, and + talk about them constantly" (see Appendix D, "The School + Friendships of Girls," in the second volume of these _Studies_). + "The restricted life and fettered mind of girls," wrote a + well-known physician some years ago (J. Milner Fothergill, + _Adolescence_, 1880, pp. 20, 22) "leave them with less to + actively occupy their thoughts than is the case with boys. They + are studiously taught concealment, and a girl may be a perfect + model of outward decorum and yet have a very filthy mind. The + prudishness with which she is brought up leaves her no + alternative but to view her passions from the nasty side of human + nature. All healthy thought on the subject is vigorously + repressed. Everything is done to darken her mind and foul her + imagination by throwing her back on her own thoughts and a + literature with which she is ashamed to own acquaintance. It is + opposed to a girl's best interests to prevent her from having + fair and just conceptions about herself and her nature. Many a + fair young girl is irredeemably ruined on the very threshold of + life, herself and her family disgraced, from ignorance as much as + from vice. When the moment of temptation comes she falls without + any palpable resistance; she has no trained educated power of + resistance within herself; her whole future hangs, not upon + herself, but upon the perfection of the social safeguards by + which she is hedged and surrounded." Under the free social order + of America to-day much the same results are found. In an + instructive article ("Why Girls Go Wrong," _Ladies' Home + Journal_, Jan., 1907) B.B. Lindsey, who, as Judge of the Juvenile + Court of Denver, is able to speak with authority, brings forward + ample evidence on this head. Both girls and boys, he has found, + sometimes possess manuscript books in which they had written down + the crudest sexual things. These children were often sweet-faced, + pleasant, refined and intelligent, and they had respectable + parents; but no one had ever spoken to them of sex matters, + except the worst of their school-fellows or some coarse-minded + and reckless adult. By careful inquiry Lindsey found that only in + one in twenty cases had the parents ever spoken to the children + of sexual subjects. In nearly every case the children + acknowledged that it was not from their parents, but in the + street or from older companions, that they learnt the facts of + sex. The parents usually imagined that their children were + absolutely ignorant of these matters, and were astonished to + realize their mistake; "parents do not know their children, nor + have they the least idea of what their children know, or what + their children talk about and do when away from them." The + parents guilty of this neglect to instruct their children, are, + Lindsey declares, traitors to their children. From his own + experience he judges that nine-tenths of the girls who "go + wrong," whether or not they sink in the world, do so owing to the + inattention of their parents, and that in the case of most + prostitutes the mischief is really done before the age of twelve; + "every wayward girl I have talked to has assured me of this + truth." He considers that nine-tenths of school-boys and + school-girls, in town or country, are very inquisitive regarding + matters of sex, and, to his own amazement, he has found that in + the girls this is as marked as in the boys. + +It is the business of the girl's mother, at least as much as of the boy's, +to watch over her child from the earliest years and to win her confidence +in all the intimate and personal matters of sex. With these aspects the +school cannot properly meddle. But in matters of physical sexual hygiene, +notably menstruation, in regard to which all girls stand on the same +level, it is certainly the duty of the teacher to take an actively +watchful part, and, moreover, to direct the general work of education +accordingly, and to ensure that the pupil shall rest whenever that may +seem to be desirable. This is part of the very elements of the education +of girls. To disregard it should disqualify a teacher from taking further +share in educational work. Yet it is constantly and persistently +neglected. A large number of girls have not even been prepared by their +mothers or teachers for the first onset of the menstrual flow, sometimes +with disastrous results both to their bodily and mental health.[26] + + "I know of no large girl's school," wrote a distinguished + gynaecologist, Sir W.S. Playfair ("Education and Training of Girls + at Puberty," _British Medical Journal_, Dec. 7, 1895), "in which + the absolute distinction which exists between boys and girls as + regards the dominant menstrual function is systematically cared + for and attended to. Indeed, the feeling of all schoolmistresses + is distinctly antagonistic to such an admission. The contention + is that there is no real difference between an adolescent male + and female, that what is good for one is good for the other, and + that such as there is is due to the evil customs of the past + which have denied to women the ambitions and advantages open to + men, and that this will disappear when a happier era is + inaugurated. If this be so, how comes it that while every + practical physician of experience has seen many cases of anaemia + and chlorosis in girls, accompanied by amenorrhaea or menorrhagia, + headaches, palpitations, emaciation, and all the familiar + accompaniments of breakdown, an analogous condition in a + school-boy is so rare that it may well be doubted if it is ever + seen at all?" + + It is, however, only the excuses for this almost criminal + negligence, as it ought to be considered, which are new; the + negligence itself is ancient. Half a century earlier, before the + new era of feminine education, another distinguished + gynaecologist, Tilt (_Elements of Health and Principles of Female + Hygiene_, 1852, p. 18) stated that from a statistical inquiry + regarding the onset of menstruation in nearly one thousand women + he found that "25 per cent. were totally unprepared for its + appearance; that thirteen out of the twenty-five were much + frightened, screamed, or went into hysterical fits; and that six + out of the thirteen thought themselves wounded and washed with + cold water. Of those frightened ... the general health was + seriously impaired." + + Engelmann, after stating that his experience in America was + similar to Tilt's in England, continues ("The Health of the + American Girl," _Transactions of the Southern Surgical and + Gynaecological Society_, 1890): "To innumerable women has fright, + nervous and emotional excitement, exposure to cold, brought + injury at puberty. What more natural than that the anxious girl, + surprised by the sudden and unexpected loss of the precious + life-fluid, should seek to check the bleeding wound--as she + supposes? For this purpose the use of cold washes and + applications is common, some even seek to stop the flow by a cold + bath, as was done by a now careful mother, who long lay at the + point of death from the result of such indiscretion, and but + slowly, by years of care, regained her health. The terrible + warning has not been lost, and mindful of her own experience she + has taught her children a lesson which but few are fortunate + enough to learn--the individual care during periods of functional + activity which is needful for the preservation of woman's + health." + + In a study of one hundred and twenty-five American high school + girls Dr. Helen Kennedy refers to the "modesty" which makes it + impossible even for mothers and daughters to speak to each other + concerning the menstrual functions. "Thirty-six girls in this + high school passed into womanhood with no knowledge whatever, + from a proper source, of all that makes them women. Thirty-nine + were probably not much wiser, for they stated that they had + received some instruction, but had not talked freely on the + matter. From the fact that the curious girl did not talk freely + on what naturally interested her, it is possible she was put off + with a few words as to personal care, and a reprimand for her + curiosity. Less than half of the girls felt free to talk with + their mothers of this most important matter!" (Helen Kennedy, + "Effects of High School Work upon Girls During Adolescence," + _Pedagogical Seminary_, June, 1896.) + + The same state of things probably also prevails in other + countries. Thus, as regards France, Edmond de Goncourt in + _Cherie_ (pp. 137-139) described the terror of his young heroine + at the appearance of the first menstrual period for which she + had never been prepared. He adds: "It is very seldom, indeed, + that women speak of this eventuality. Mothers fear to warn their + daughters, elder sisters dislike confidences with their younger + sisters, governesses are generally mute with girls who have no + mothers or sisters." + + Sometimes this leads to suicide or to attempts at suicide. Thus a + few years ago the case was reported in the French newspapers of a + young girl of fifteen, who threw herself into the Seine at + Saint-Ouen. She was rescued, and on being brought before the + police commissioner said that she had been attacked by an + "unknown disease" which had driven her to despair. Discreet + inquiry revealed that the mysterious malady was one common to all + women, and the girl was restored to her insufficiently punished + parents. + +Half a century ago the sexual life of girls was ignored by their parents +and teachers from reasons of prudishness; at the present time, when quite +different ideas prevail regarding feminine education, it is ignored on the +ground that girls should be as independent of their physiological sexual +life as boys are. The fact that this mischievous neglect has prevailed +equally under such different conditions indicates clearly that the varying +reasons assigned for it are merely the cloaks of ignorance. With the +growth of knowledge we may reasonably hope that one of the chief evils +which at present undermine in early life not only healthy motherhood but +healthy womanhood generally, may be gradually eliminated. The data now +being accumulated show not only the extreme prevalence of painful, +disordered, and absent menstruation in adolescent girls and young women, +but also the great and sometimes permanent evils inflicted upon even +healthy girls when at the beginning of sexual life they are subjected to +severe strain of any kind. Medical authorities, whichever sex they belong +to, may now be said to be almost or quite unanimous on this point. Some +years ago, indeed, Dr. Mary Putnam Jacobi, in a very able book, _The +Question of Rest for Women_, concluded that "ordinarily healthy" women may +disregard the menstrual period, but she admitted that forty-six per cent, +of women are not "ordinarily healthy," and a minority which comes so near +to being a majority can by no means be dismissed as a negligible quantity. +Girls themselves, indeed, carried away by the ardor of their pursuit of +work or amusement, are usually recklessly and ignorantly indifferent to +the serious risks they run. But the opinions of teachers are now tending +to agree with medical opinion in recognizing the importance of care and +rest during the years of adolescence, and teachers are even prepared to +admit that a year's rest from hard work during the period that a girl's +sexual life is becoming established, while it may ensure her health and +vigor, is not even a disadvantage from the educational point of view. With +the growth of knowledge and the decay of ancient prejudices, we may +reasonably hope that women will be emancipated from the traditions of a +false civilization, which have forced her to regard her glory as her +shame,--though it has never been so among robust primitive peoples,--and +it is encouraging to find that so distinguished an educator as Principal +Stanley Hall looks forward with confidence to such a time. In his +exhaustive work on _Adolescence_ he writes: "Instead of shame of this +function girls should be taught the greatest reverence for it, and should +help it to normality by regularly stepping aside at stated times for a few +years till it is well established and normal. To higher beings that looked +down upon human life as we do upon flowers, these would be the most +interesting and beautiful hours of blossoming. With more self-knowledge +women will have more self-respect at this time. Savagery reveres this +state and it gives to women a mystic awe. The time may come when we must +even change the divisions of the year for women, leaving to man his week +and giving to her the same number of Sabbaths per year, but in groups of +four successive days per month. When woman asserts her true physiological +rights she will begin here, and will glory in what, in an age of +ignorance, man made her think to be her shame. The pathos about the +leaders of woman's so-called emancipation, is that they, even more than +those they would persuade, accept man's estimate of this state."[27] + +These wise words cannot be too deeply pondered. The pathos of the +situation has indeed been--at all events in the past for to-day a more +enlightened generation is growing up--that the very leaders of the woman's +movement have often betrayed the cause of women. They have adopted the +ideals of men, they have urged women to become second-rate men, they have +declared that the healthy natural woman disregards the presence of her +menstrual functions. This is the very reverse of the truth. "They claim," +remarks Engelmann, "that woman in her natural state is the physical equal +of man, and constantly point to the primitive woman, the female of savage +peoples, as an example of this supposed axiom. Do they know how well this +same savage is aware of the weakness of woman and her susceptibility at +certain periods of her life? And with what care he protects her from harm +at these periods? I believe not. The importance of surrounding women with +certain precautions during the height of these great functional waves of +her existence was appreciated by all peoples living in an approximately +natural state, by all races at all times; and among their comparatively +few religious customs this one, affording rest to women, was most +persistently adhered to." It is among the white races alone that the +sexual invalidism of women prevails, and it is the white races alone, +which, outgrowing the religious ideas with which the menstrual seclusion +of women was associated, have flung away that beneficent seclusion itself, +throwing away the baby with the bath in an almost literal sense.[28] + + In Germany Tobler has investigated the menstrual histories of + over one thousand women (_Monatsschrift fuer Geburtshuelfe und + Gynaekologie_, July, 1905). He finds that in the great majority of + women at the present day menstruation is associated with + distinct deterioration of the general health, and diminution of + functional energy. In 26 per cent. local pain, general malaise, + and mental and nervous anomalies coexisted; in larger proportion + come the cases in which local pain, general weak health or + psychic abnormality was experienced alone at this period. In 16 + per cent. only none of these symptoms were experienced. In a very + small separate group the physical and mental functions were + stronger during this period, but in half of these cases there was + distinct disturbance during the intermenstrual period. Tobler + concludes that, while menstruation itself is physiological, all + these disturbances are pathological. + + As far as England is concerned, at a discussion of normal and + painful menstruation at a meeting of the British Association of + Registered Medical Women on the 7th of July, 1908, it was stated + by Miss Bentham that 50 per cent. of girls in good position + suffered from painful menstruation. Mrs. Dunnett said it usually + occurred between the ages of twenty-four and thirty, being + frequently due to neglect to rest during menstruation in the + earlier years, and Mrs. Grainger Evans had found that this + condition was very common among elementary school teachers who + had worked hard for examinations during early girlhood. + + In America various investigations have been carried out, showing + the prevalence of disturbance in the sexual health of school + girls and young women. Thus Dr. Helen P. Kennedy obtained + elaborate data concerning the menstrual life of one hundred and + twenty-five high school girls of the average age of eighteen + ("Effect of High School Work upon Girls During Adolescence," + _Pedagogical Seminary_, June, 1896). Only twenty-eight felt no + pain during the period; half the total number experienced + disagreeable symptoms before the period (such as headache, + malaise, irritability of temper), while forty-four complained of + other symptoms besides pain during the period (especially + headache and great weakness). Jane Kelley Sabine (quoted in + _Boston Medical and Surgical Journal_, Sept. 15, 1904) found in + New England schools among two thousand girls that 75 per cent. + had menstrual troubles, 90 per cent. had leucorrhoea and ovarian + neuralgia, and 60 per cent. had to give up work for two days + during each month. These results seem more than usually + unfavorable, but are significant, as they cover a large number of + cases. The conditions in the Pacific States are not much better. + Dr. Mary Ritter (in a paper read before the California State + Medical Society in 1903) stated that of 660 Freshmen girls at the + University of California, 67 per cent. were subject to menstrual + disorders, 27 per cent. to headaches, 30 per cent. to backaches, + 29 per cent. were habitually constipated, 16 per cent. had + abnormal heart sounds; only 23 per cent. were free from + functional disturbances. Dr. Helen MacMurchey, in an interesting + paper on "Physiological Phenomena Preceding or Accompanying + Menstruation" (_Lancet_, Oct. 5, 1901), by inquiries among one + hundred medical women, nurses, and women teachers in Toronto + concerning the presence or absence of twenty-one different + abnormal menstrual phenomena, found that between 50 and 60 per + cent. admitted that they were liable at this time to disturbed + sleep, to headache, to mental depression, to digestive + disturbance, or to disturbance of the special senses, while about + 25 to 50 per cent. were liable to neuralgia, to vertigo, to + excessive nervous energy, to defective nervous and muscular + power, to cutaneous hyperaesthesia, to vasomotor disturbances, to + constipation, to diarrhoea, to increased urination, to cutaneous + eruption, to increased liability to take cold, or to irritating + watery discharges before or after the menstrual discharge. This + inquiry is of much interest, because it clearly brings out the + marked prevalence at menstruation of conditions which, though not + necessarily of any gravity, yet definitely indicate decreased + power of resistance to morbid influences and diminished + efficiency for work. + + How serious an impediment menstrual troubles are to a woman is + indicated by the fact that the women who achieve success and fame + seem seldom to be greatly affected by them. To that we may, in + part, attribute the frequency with which leaders of the women's + movement have treated menstruation as a thing of no importance in + a woman's life. Adele Gerhard, and Helene Simon, also, in their + valuable and impartial work, _Mutterschaft und Geistige Arbeit_ + (p. 312), failed to find, in their inquiries among women of + distinguished ability, that menstruation was regarded as + seriously disturbing to work. + + Of late the suggestion that adolescent girls shall not only rest + from work during two days of the menstrual period, but have an + entire holiday from school during the first year of sexual life, + has frequently been put forward, both from the medical and the + educational side. At the meeting of the Association of Registered + Medical Women, already referred to, Miss Sturge spoke of the good + results obtained in a school where, during the first two years + after puberty, the girls were kept in bed for the first two days + of each menstrual period. Some years ago Dr. G.W. Cook ("Some + Disorders of Menstruation," _American Journal of Obstetrics_, + April, 1896), after giving cases in point, wrote: "It is my + deliberate conviction that no girl should be confined at study + during the year of her puberty, but she should live an outdoor + life." In an article on "Alumna's Children," by "An Alumna" + (_Popular Science Monthly_, May, 1904), dealing with the sexual + invalidism of American women and the severe strain of motherhood + upon them, the author, though she is by no means hostile to + education, which is not, she declares, at fault, pleads for rest + for the pubertal girl. "If the brain claims her whole vitality, + how can there be any proper development? Just as very young + children should give all their strength for some years solely to + physical growth before the brain is allowed to make any + considerable demands, so at this critical period in the life of + the woman nothing should obstruct the right of way of this + important system. A year at the least should be made especially + easy for her, with neither mental nor nervous strain; and + throughout the rest of her school days she should have her + periodical day of rest, free from any study or overexertion." In + another article on the same subject in the same journal ("The + Health of American Girls," Sept., 1907), Nellie Comins Whitaker + advocates a similar course. "I am coming to be convinced, + somewhat against my wish, that there are many cases when the girl + ought to be taken out of school entirely for some months or for a + year _at the period of puberty_." She adds that the chief + obstacle in the way is the girl's own likes and dislikes, and the + ignorance of her mother who has been accustomed to think that + pain is a woman's natural lot. + + Such a period of rest from mental strain, while it would fortify + the organism in its resistance to any reasonable strain later, + need by no means be lost for education in the wider sense of the + word, for the education required in classrooms is but a small + part of the education required for life. Nor should it by any + means be reserved merely for the sickly and delicate girl. The + tragic part of the present neglect to give girls a really sound + and fitting education is that the best and finest girls are + thereby so often ruined. Even the English policeman, who + admittedly belongs in physical vigor and nervous balance to the + flower of the population, is unable to bear the strain of his + life, and is said to be worn out in twenty-five years. It is + equally foolish to submit the finest flowers of girlhood to a + strain which is admittedly too severe. + +It seems to be clear that the main factor in the common sexual and general +invalidism of girls and young women is bad hygiene, in the first place +consisting in neglect of the menstrual functions and in the second place +in faulty habits generally. In all the more essential matters that concern +the hygiene of the body the traditions of girls--and this seems to be more +especially the case in the Anglo-Saxon countries--are inferior to those of +youths. Women are much more inclined than men to subordinate these things +to what seems to them some more urgent interest or fancy of the moment; +they are trained to wear awkward and constricting garments, they are +indifferent to regular and substantial meals, preferring innutritious and +indigestible foods and drinks; they are apt to disregard the demands of +the bowels and the bladder out of laziness or modesty; they are even +indifferent to physical cleanliness.[29] In a great number of minor ways, +which separately may seem to be of little importance, they play into the +hands of an environment which, not always having been adequately adjusted +to their special needs, would exert a considerable stress and strain even +if they carefully sought to guard themselves against it. It has been found +in an American Women's College in which about half the scholars wore +corsets and half not, that nearly all the honors and prizes went to the +non-corset-wearers. McBride, in bringing forward this fact, pertinently +remarks, "If the wearing of a single style of dress will make this +difference in the lives of young women, and that, too, in their most +vigorous and resistive period, how much difference will a score of +unhealthy habits make, if persisted in for a life-time?"[30] + + "It seems evident," A.E. Giles concludes ("Some Points of + Preventive Treatment in the Diseases of Women," _The Hospital_, + April 10, 1897) "that dysmenorrhoea might be to a large extent + prevented by attention to general health and education. Short + hours of work, especially of standing; plenty of outdoor + exercise--tennis, boating, cycling, gymnastics, and walking for + those who cannot afford these; regularity of meals and food of + the proper quality--not the incessant tea and bread and butter + with variation of pastry; the avoidance of overexertion and + prolonged fatigue; these are some of the principal things which + require attention. Let girls pursue their study, but more + leisurely; they will arrive at the same goal, but a little + later." The benefit of allowing free movement and exercise to the + whole body is undoubtedly very great, both as regards the sexual + and general physical health and the mental balance; in order to + insure this it is necessary to avoid heavy and constricting + garments, more especially around the chest, for it is in + respiratory power and chest expansion more than in any other + respect that girls fall behind boys (see, e.g., Havelock Ellis, + _Man and Woman_, Ch. IX). In old days the great obstacle to the + free exercise of girls lay in an ideal of feminine behavior which + involved a prim restraint on every natural movement of the body. + At the present day that ideal is not so fervently preached as of + old, but its traditional influence still to some extent persists, + while there is the further difficulty that adequate time and + opportunity and encouragement are by no means generally afforded + to girls for the cultivation and training of the romping + instincts which are really a serious part of education, for it is + by such free exercise of the whole body that the neuro-muscular + system, the basis of all vital activity, is built up. The neglect + of such education is to-day clearly visible in the structure of + our women. Dr. F. May Dickinson Berry, Medical Examiner to the + Technical Education Board of the London County Council, found + (_British Medical Journal_, May 28, 1904) among over 1,500 girls, + who represent the flower of the schools, since they had obtained + scholarships enabling them to proceed to higher grade schools, + that 22 per cent, presented some degree, not always pronounced, + of lateral curvature of the spine, though such cases were very + rare among the boys. In the same way among a very similar class + of select girls at the Chicago Normal School, Miss Lura Sanborn + (_Doctors' Magazine_, Dec., 1900) found 17 per cent, with spinal + curvature, in some cases of a very pronounced degree. There is no + reason why a girl should not have as straight a back as a boy, + and the cause can only lie in the defective muscular development + which was found in most of the cases, sometimes accompanied by + anaemia. Here and there nowadays, among the better social classes, + there is ample provision for the development of muscular power in + girls, but in any generalized way there is no adequate + opportunity for such exercise, and among the working class, above + all, in the section of it which touches the lower middle class, + although their lives are destined to be filled with a constant + strain on the neuro-muscular system from work at home or in + shops, etc., there is usually a minimum of healthy exercise and + physical development. Dr. W.A.B. Sellman, of Baltimore ("Causes + of Painful Menstruation in Unmarried Women," _American Journal + Obstetrics_, Nov., 1907), emphasizes the admirable results + obtained by moderate physical exercise for young women, and in + training them to care for their bodies and to rest their nervous + systems, while Dr. Charlotte Brown, of San Francisco, rightly + insists on the establishment in all towns and villages alike of + outdoor gymnastic fields for women and girls, and of a building, + in connection with every large school, for training in physical, + manual, and domestic science. The provision of special + playgrounds is necessary where the exercising of girls is so + unfamiliar as to cause an embarrassing amount of attention from + the opposite sex, though when it is an immemorial custom it can + be carried out on the village green without attracting the + slightest attention, as I have seen in Spain, where one cannot + fail to connect it with the physical vigor of the women. In boys' + schools games are not only encouraged, but made compulsory; but + this is by no means a universal rule in girls' schools. It is not + necessary, and is indeed highly undesirable, that the games + adopted should be those of boys. In England especially, where the + movements of women are so often marked by awkwardness, angularity + and lack of grace, it is essential that nothing should be done to + emphasize these characteristics, for where vigor involves + violence we are in the presence of a lack of due neuro-muscular + cooerdination. Swimming, when possible, and especially some forms + of dancing, are admirably adapted to develop the bodily movements + of women both vigorously and harmoniously (see, e.g., Havelock + Ellis, _Man and Woman_, Ch. VII). At the International Congress + of School Hygiene in 1907 (see, e.g., _British Medical Journal_, + Aug. 24, 1907) Dr. L.H. Gulick, formerly Director of Physical + Training in the Public Schools of New York City, stated that + after many experiments it had been found in the New York + elementary and high schools that folk-dancing constituted the + very best exercise for girls. "The dances selected involved many + contractions of the large muscular masses of the body and had + therefore a great effect on respiration, circulation and + nutrition. Such movements, moreover, when done as dances, could + be carried on three or four times as long without producing + fatigue as formal gymnastics. Many folk-dances were imitative, + sowing and reaping dance, dances expressing trade movements (the + shoemaker's dance), others illustrating attack and defense, or + the pursuit of game. Such neuro-muscular movements were racially + old and fitted in with man's expressive life, and if it were + accepted that the folk-dances really expressed an epitome of + man's neuro-muscular history, as distinguished from mere + permutation of movements, the folk-dance combinations should be + preferred on these biological grounds to the unselected, or even + the physiologically selected. From the aesthetic point of view the + sense of beauty as shown in dancing was far commoner than the + power to sing, paint or model." + +It must always be remembered that in realizing the especial demands of +woman's nature, we do not commit ourselves to the belief that higher +education is unfitted for a woman. That question may now be regarded as +settled. There is therefore no longer any need for the feverish anxiety of +the early leaders of feminine education to prove that girls can be +educated exactly as if they were boys, and yield at least as good +educational results. At the present time, indeed, that anxiety is not only +unnecessary but mischievous. It is now more necessary to show that women +have special needs just as men have special needs, and that it is as bad +for women, and therefore, for the world, to force them to accept the +special laws and limitations of men as it would be bad for men, and +therefore, for the world, to force men to accept the special laws and +limitations of women. Each sex must seek to reach the goal by following +the laws of its own nature, even although it remains desirable that, both +in the school and in the world, they should work so far as possible side +by side. The great fact to be remembered always is that, not only are +women, in physical size and physical texture, slighter and finer than men, +but that to an extent altogether unknown among men, their centre of +gravity is apt to be deflected by the series of rhythmic sexual curves on +which they are always living. They are thus more delicately poised and any +kind of stress or strain--cerebral, nervous, or muscular--is more likely +to produce serious disturbance and requires an accurate adjustment to +their special needs. + + The fact that it is stress and strain in general, and not + necessarily educational studies, that are injurious to adolescent + women, is sufficiently proved, if proof is necessary, by the fact + that sexual arrest, and physical or nervous breakdown, occur with + extreme frequency in girls who work in shops or mills, even in + girls who have never been to school at all. Even excesses in + athletics--which now not infrequently occur as a reaction against + woman's indifference to physical exercise--are bad. Cycling is + beneficial for women who can ride without pain or discomfort, + and, according to Watkins, it is even beneficial in many diseased + and disordered pelvic conditions, but excessive cycling is evil + in its results on women, more especially by inducing rigidity of + the perineum to an extent which may even prevent childbirth and + necessitate operation. I may add that the same objection applies + to much horse-riding. In the same way everything which causes + shocks to the body is apt to be dangerous to women, since in the + womb they possess a delicately poised organ which varies in + weight at different times, and it would, for instance, be + impossible to commend football as a game for girls. "I do not + believe," wrote Miss H. Ballantine, Director of Vassar College + Gymnasium, to Prof. W. Thomas (_Sex and Society_, p. 22) "women + can ever, no matter what the training, approach men in their + physical achievements; and," she wisely adds, "I see no reason + why they should." There seem, indeed, as has already been + indicated, to be reasons why they should not, especially if they + look forward to becoming mothers. I have noticed that women who + have lived a very robust and athletic outdoor life, so far from + always having the easy confinements which we might anticipate, + sometimes have very seriously difficult times, imperilling the + life of the child. On making this observation to a distinguished + obstetrician, the late Dr. Engelmann, who was an ardent advocate + of physical exercise for women (in e.g. his presidential address, + "The Health of the American Girl," _Transactions Southern + Surgical and Gynaecological Association_, 1890), he replied that + he had himself made the same observation, and that instructors in + physical training, both in America and England, had also told him + of such cases among their pupils. "I hold," he wrote, "precisely + the opinion you express [as to the unfavorable influence of + muscular development in women]. _Athletics_, i.e., overdone + physical training, causes the girl's system to approximate to the + masculine; this is so whether due to sport or necessity. The + woman who indulges in it approximates to the male in her + attributes; this is marked in diminished sexual intensity, and in + increased difficulty of childbirth, with, in time, lessened + fecundity. Healthy habits improve, but masculine muscular + development diminishes, womanly qualities, although it is true + that the peasant and the laboring woman have easy labor. I have + never advocated muscular development for girls, only physical + training, but have perhaps said too much for it and praised it + too unguardedly. In schools and colleges, so far, however, it is + insufficient rather than too much; only the wealthy have too much + golf and athletic sports. I am collecting new material, but from + what I already have seen I am impressed with the truth of what + you say. I am studying the point, and shall elaborate the + explanation." Any publication on this subject was, however, + prevented by Engelmann's death a few years later. + +A proper recognition of the special nature of woman, of her peculiar needs +and her dignity, has a significance beyond its importance in education and +hygiene. The traditions and training to which she is subjected in this +matter have a subtle and far-reaching significance, according as they are +good or evil. If she is taught, implicitly or explicitly, contempt for the +characteristics of her own sex, she naturally develops masculine ideals +which may permanently discolor her vision of life and distort her +practical activities; it has been found that as many as fifty per cent. of +American school girls have masculine ideals, while fifteen per cent. +American and no fewer than thirty-four per cent. English school girls +wished to be men, though scarcely any boys wished to be women.[31] With +the same tendency may be connected that neglect to cultivate the emotions, +which, by a mischievously extravagant but inevitable reaction from the +opposite extreme, has sometimes marked the modern training of women. In +the finely developed woman, intelligence is interpenetrated with emotion. +If there is an exaggerated and isolated culture of intelligence a tendency +shows itself to disharmony which breaks up the character or impairs its +completeness. In this connection Reibmayr has remarked that the American +woman may serve as a warning.[32] Within the emotional sphere itself, it +may be added, there is a tendency to disharmony in women owing to the +contradictory nature of the feelings which are traditionally impressed +upon her, a contradiction which dates back indeed to the identification of +sacredness and impurity at the dawn of civilization. "Every girl and +woman," wrote Hellmann, in a pioneering book which pushed a sound +principle to eccentric extremes, "is taught to regard her sexual parts as +a precious and sacred spot, only to be approached by a husband or in +special circumstances a doctor. She is, at the same time, taught to regard +this spot as a kind of water-closet which she ought to be extremely +ashamed to possess, and the mere mention of which should cause a painful +blush."[33] The average unthinking woman accepts the incongruity of this +opposition without question, and grows accustomed to adapt herself to each +of the incompatibles according to circumstances. The more thoughtful woman +works out a private theory of her own. But in very many cases this +mischievous opposition exerts a subtly perverting influence on the whole +outlook towards Nature and life. In a few cases, also, in women of +sensitive temperament, it even undermines and ruins the psychic +personality. + + Thus Boris Sidis has recorded a case illustrating the disastrous + results of inculcating on a morbidly sensitive girl the doctrine + of the impurity of women. She was educated in a convent. "While + there she was impressed with the belief that woman is a vessel of + vice and impurity. This seemed to have been imbued in her by one + of the nuns who was very holy and practiced self-mortification. + With the onset of her periods, and with the observation of the + same in the other girls, this doctrine of female impurity was all + the stronger impressed on her sensitive mind." It lapsed, + however, from conscious memory and only came to the foreground in + subsequent years with the exhaustion and fatigue of prolonged + office work. Then she married. Now "she has an extreme abhorrence + of women. Woman, to the patient, is impurity, filth, the very + incarnation of degradation and vice. The house wash must not be + given to a laundry where women work. Nothing must be picked up in + the street, not even the most valuable object, perchance it might + have been dropped by a woman" (Boris Sidis, "Studies in + Psychopathology," _Boston Medical and Surgical Journal_, April 4, + 1907). That is the logical outcome of much of the traditional + teaching which is given to girls. Fortunately, the healthy mind + offers a natural resistance to its complete acceptation, yet it + usually, in some degree, persists and exerts a mischievous + influence. + +It is, however, not only in her relations to herself and to her sex that a +girl's thoughts and feelings tend to be distorted by the ignorance or the +false traditions by which she is so often carefully surrounded. Her +happiness in marriage, her whole future career, is put in peril. The +innocent young woman must always risk much in entering the door of +indissoluble marriage; she knows nothing truly of her husband, she knows +nothing of the great laws of love, she knows nothing of her own +possibilities, and, worse still, she is even ignorant of her ignorance. +She runs the risk of losing the game while she is still only beginning to +learn it. To some extent that is quite inevitable if we are to insist +that a woman should bind herself to marry a man before she has experienced +the nature of the forces that marriage may unloose in her. A young girl +believes she possesses a certain character; she arranges her future in +accordance with that character; she marries. Then, in a considerable +proportion of cases (five out of six, according to the novelist Bourget), +within a year or even a week, she finds she was completely mistaken in +herself and in the man she has married; she discovers within her another +self, and that self detests the man to whom she is bound. That is a +possible fate against which only the woman who has already been aroused to +love is entitled to regard herself as fairly protected. + +There is, however, a certain kind of protection which it is possible to +afford the bride, even without departing from our most conventional +conceptions of marriage. We can at least insist that she shall be +accurately informed as to the exact nature of her physical relations to +her future husband and be safeguarded from the shocks or the disillusions +which marriage might otherwise bring. Notwithstanding the decay of +prejudices, it is probable that even to-day the majority of women of the +so-called educated class marry with only the vaguest and most inaccurate +notions, picked up more or less clandestinely, concerning the nature of +the sexual relationships. So highly intelligent a woman as Madame Adam has +stated that she believed herself bound to marry a man who had kissed her +on the mouth, imagining that to be the supreme act of sexual union,[34] +and it has frequently happened that women have married sexually inverted +persons of their own sex, not always knowingly, but believing them to be +men, and never discovering their mistake; it is not long indeed since in +America three women were thus successively married to the same woman, none +of them apparently ever finding out the real sex of the "husband." "The +civilized girl," as Edward Carpenter remarks, "is led to the 'altar' +often in uttermost ignorance and misunderstanding of the sacrificial rites +about to be consummated." Certainly more rapes have been effected in +marriage than outside it.[35] The girl is full of vague and romantic faith +in the promises of love, often heightened by the ecstasies depicted in +sentimental novels from which every touch of wholesome reality has been +carefully omitted. "All the candor of faith is there," as Senancour puts +it in his book _De l'Amour_, "the desires of inexperience, the needs of a +new life, the hopes of an upright heart. She has all the faculties of +love, she must love; she has all the means of pleasure, she must be loved. +Everything expresses love and demands love: this hand formed for sweet +caresses, an eye whose resources are unknown if it must not say that it +consents to be loved, a bosom which is motionless and useless without +love, and will fade without having been worshipped; these feelings that +are so vast, so tender, so voluptuous, the ambition of the heart, the +heroism of passion! She needs must follow the delicious rule which the law +of the world has dictated. That intoxicating part, which she knows so +well, which everything recalls, which the day inspires and the night +commands, what young, sensitive, loving woman can imagine that she shall +not play it?" But when the actual drama of love begins to unroll before +her, and she realizes the true nature of the "intoxicating part" she has +to play, then, it has often happened, the case is altered; she finds +herself altogether unprepared, and is overcome with terror and alarm. All +the felicity of her married life may then hang on a few chances, her +husband's skill and consideration, her own presence of mind. Hirschfeld +records the case of an innocent young girl of seventeen--in this case, it +eventually proved, an invert--who was persuaded to marry but on +discovering what marriage meant energetically resisted her husband's +sexual approaches. He appealed to her mother to explain to her daughter +the nature of "wifely duties." But the young wife replied to her mother's +expostulations, "If that is my wifely duty then it was your parental duty +to have told me beforehand, for, if I had known, I should never have +married." The husband in this case, much in love with his wife, sought for +eight years to over-persuade her, but in vain, and a separation finally +took place.[36] That, no doubt, is an extreme case, but how many innocent +young inverted girls never realize their true nature until after marriage, +and how many perfectly normal girls are so shocked by the too sudden +initiation of marriage that their beautiful early dreams of love never +develop slowly and wholesomely into the acceptance of its still more +beautiful realities? + +Before the age of puberty it would seem that the sexual initiation of the +child--apart from such scientific information as would form part of school +courses in botany and zooelogy--should be the exclusive privilege of the +mother, or whomever it may be to whom the mother's duties are delegated. +At puberty more authoritative and precise advice is desirable than the +mother may be able or willing to give. It is at this age that she should +put into her son's or daughter's hands some one or other of the very +numerous manuals to which reference has already been made (page 53), +expounding the physical and moral aspects of the sexual life and the +principles of sexual hygiene. The boy or girl is already, we may take it, +acquainted with the facts of motherhood, and the origin of babies, as well +as, more or less precisely, with the father's part in their procreation. +Whatever manual is now placed in his or her hands should at least deal +summarily, but definitely, with the sexual relationship, and should also +comment, warningly but in no alarmist spirit, with the chief auto-erotic +phenomena, and by no means exclusively with masturbation. Nothing but good +can come of the use of such a manual, if it has been wisely selected; it +will supplant what the mother has already done, what the teacher may still +be doing, and what later may be done by private interview with a doctor. +It has indeed been argued that the boy or girl to whom such literature is +presented will merely make it an opportunity for morbid revelry and +sensual enjoyment. It can well be believed that this may sometimes happen +with boys or girls from whom all sexual facts have always been +mysteriously veiled, and that when at last they find the opportunity of +gratifying their long-repressed and perfectly natural curiosity they are +overcome by the excitement of the event. It could not happen to children +who have been naturally and wholesomely brought up. At a later age, during +adolescence, there is doubtless great advantage in the plan, now +frequently adopted, especially in Germany, of giving lectures, addresses, +or quiet talks to young people of each sex separately. The speaker is +usually a specially selected teacher, a doctor or other qualified person +who may be brought in for this special purpose. + + Stanley Hall, after remarking that sexual education should be + chiefly from fathers to sons and from mothers to daughters, adds: + "It may be that in the future this kind of initiation will again + become an art, and experts will tell us with more confidence how + to do our duty to the manifold exigencies, types and stages of + youth, and instead of feeling baffled and defeated, we shall see + that this age and theme is the supreme opening for the highest + pedagogy to do its best and most transforming work, as well as + being the greatest of all opportunities for the teacher of + religion" (Stanley Hall, _Adolescence_, vol. i, p. 469). "At + Williams College, Harvard, Johns Hopkins and Clark," the same + distinguished teacher observes (ib., p. 465), "I have made it a + duty in my departmental teaching to speak very briefly, but + plainly to young men under my instruction, personally if I deemed + it wise, and often, though here only in general terms, before + student bodies, and I believe I have nowhere done more good, but + it is a painful duty. It requires tact and some degree of hard + and strenuous common sense rather than technical knowledge." + + It is scarcely necessary to say that the ordinary teacher of + either sex is quite incompetent to speak of sexual hygiene. It is + a task to which all, or some, teachers must be trained. A + beginning in this direction has been made in Germany by the + delivery to teachers of courses of lectures on sexual hygiene in + education. In Prussia the first attempt was made in Breslau when + the central school authorities requested Dr. Martin Chotzen to + deliver such a course to one hundred and fifty teachers who took + the greatest interest in the lectures, which covered the anatomy + of the sexual organs, the development of the sexual instinct, its + chief perversions, venereal diseases, and the importance of the + cultivation of self-control. In _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_ + (Bd. i, Heft 7) Dr. Fritz Reuther gives the substance of lectures + which he has delivered to a class of young teachers; they cover + much the same ground as Chotzen's. + + There is no evidence that in England the Minister of Education + has yet taken any steps to insure the delivery of lectures on + sexual hygiene to the pupils who are about to leave school. In + Prussia, however, the Ministry of Education has taken an active + interest in this matter, and such lectures are beginning to be + commonly delivered, though attendance at them is not usually + obligatory. Some years ago (in 1900), when it was proposed to + deliver a series of lectures on sexual hygiene to the advanced + pupils in Berlin schools, under the auspices of a society for the + improvement of morals, the municipal authorities withdrew their + permission to use the classrooms, on the ground that "such + lectures would be extremely dangerous to the moral sense of an + audience of the young." The same objection has been made by + municipal officials in France. In Germany, at all events, + however, opinion is rapidly growing more enlightened. In England + little or no progress has yet been made, but in America steps are + being taken in this direction, as by the Chicago Society for + Social Hygiene. It must, indeed, be said that those who oppose + the sexual enlightenment of youth in large cities are directly + allying themselves, whether or not they know it, with the + influences that make for vice and immorality. + + Such lectures are also given to girls on leaving school, not only + girls of the well-to-do, but also those of the poor class, who + need them fully as much, and in some respects more. Thus Dr. A. + Heidenhain has published a lecture (_Sexuelle Belehrung der aus + den Volksschule entlassenen Maedchen_, 1907), accompanied by + anatomical tables, which he has delivered to girls about to leave + school, and which is intended to be put into their hands at this + time. Salvat, in a Lyons thesis (_La Depopulation de la France_, + 1903), insists that the hygiene of pregnancy and the care of + infants should form part of the subject of such lectures. These + subjects might well be left, however, to a somewhat later period. + +Something is clearly needed beyond lectures on these matters. It should be +the business of the parents or other guardians of every adolescent youth +and girl to arrange that, once at least at this period of life, there +should be a private, personal interview with a medical man to afford an +opportunity for a friendly and confidential talk concerning the main +points of sexual hygiene. The family doctor would be the best for this +duty because he would be familiar with the personal temperament of the +youth and the family tendencies.[37] In the case of girls a woman doctor +would often be preferred. Sex is properly a mystery; and to the unspoilt +youth, it is instinctively so; except in an abstract and technical form it +cannot properly form the subject of lectures. In a private and +individualized conversation between the novice in life and the expert, it +is possible to say many necessary things that could not be said in public, +and it is possible, moreover, for the youth to ask questions which shyness +and reserve make it impossible to put to parents, while the convenient +opportunity of putting them naturally to the expert otherwise seldom or +never occurs. Most youths have their own special ignorances, their own +special difficulties, difficulties and ignorances that could sometimes be +resolved by a word. Yet it by no means infrequently happens that they +carry them far on into adult life because they have lacked the +opportunity, or the skill and assurance to create the opportunity, of +obtaining enlightenment. + +It must be clearly understood that these talks are of medical, hygienic, +and physiological character; they are not to be used for retailing moral +platitudes. To make them that would be a fatal mistake. The young are +often very hostile to merely conventional moral maxims, and suspect their +hollowness, not always without reason. The end to be aimed at here is +enlightenment. Certainly knowledge can never be immoral, but nothing is +gained by jumbling up knowledge and morality together. + +In emphasizing the nature of the physician's task in this matter as purely +and simply that of wise practical enlightenment, nothing is implied +against the advantages, and indeed the immense value in sexual hygiene, of +the moral, religious, ideal elements of life. It is not the primary +business of the physician to inspire these, but they have a very intimate +relation with the sexual life, and every boy and girl at puberty, and +never before puberty, should be granted the privilege--and not the duty or +the task--of initiation into those elements of the world's life which are, +at the same time, natural functions of the adolescent soul. Here, however, +is the sphere of the religious or ethical teacher. At puberty he has his +great opportunity, the greatest he can ever obtain. The flower of sex that +blossoms in the body at puberty has its spiritual counterpart which at the +same moment blossoms in the soul. The churches from of old have recognized +the religious significance of this moment, for it is this period of life +that they have appointed as the time of confirmation and similar rites. +With the progress of the ages, it is true, such rites become merely formal +and apparently meaningless fossils. But they have a meaning nevertheless, +and are capable of being again vitalized. Nor in their spirit and essence +should they be confined to those who accept supernaturally revealed +religion. They concern all ethical teachers, who must realize that it is +at puberty that they are called upon to inspire or to fortify the great +ideal aspirations which at this period tend spontaneously to arise in the +youth's or maiden's soul.[38] + +The age of puberty, I have said, marks the period at which this new kind +of sexual initiation is called for. Before puberty, although the psychic +emotion of love frequently develops, as well as sometimes physical sexual +emotions that are mostly vague and diffused, definite and localized sexual +sensations are rare. For the normal boy or girl love is usually an +unspecialized emotion; it is in Guyau's words "a state in which the body +has but the smallest place." At the first rising of the sun of sex the +boy or girl sees, as Blake said he saw at sunrise, not a round yellow body +emerging above the horizon, or any other physical manifestation, but a +great company of singing angels. With the definite eruption of physical +sexual manifestation and desire, whether at puberty or later in +adolescence, a new turbulent disturbing influence appears. Against the +force of this influence, mere intellectual enlightenment, or even loving +maternal counsel--the agencies we have so far been concerned with--may be +powerless. In gaining control of it we must find our auxiliary in the fact +that puberty is the efflorescence not only of a new physical but a new +psychic force. The ideal world naturally unfolds itself to the boy or girl +at puberty. The magic of beauty, the instinct of modesty, the naturalness +of self-restraint, the idea of unselfish love, the meaning of duty, the +feeling for art and poetry, the craving for religious conceptions and +emotions--all these things awake spontaneously in the unspoiled boy or +girl at puberty. I say "unspoiled," for if these things have been thrust +on the child before puberty when they have yet no meaning for him--as is +unfortunately far too often done, more especially as regards religious +notions--then it is but too likely that he will fail to react properly at +that moment of his development when he would otherwise naturally respond +to them. Under natural conditions this is the period for spiritual +initiation. Now, and not before, is the time for the religious or ethical +teacher as the case may be--for all religions and ethical systems may +equally adapt themselves to this task--to take the boy or girl in hand, +not with any special and obtrusive reference to the sexual impulses but +for the purpose of assisting the development and manifestation of this +psychic puberty, of indirectly aiding the young soul to escape from sexual +dangers by harnessing his chariot to a star that may help to save it from +sticking fast in any miry ruts of the flesh. + +Such an initiation, it is important to remark, is more than an +introduction to the sphere of religious sentiment. It is an initiation +into manhood, it must involve a recognition of the masculine even more +than of the feminine virtues. This has been well understood by the finest +primitive races. They constantly give their boys and girls an initiation +at puberty; it is an initiation that involves not merely education in the +ordinary sense, but a stern discipline of the character, feats of +endurance, the trial of character, the testing of the muscles of the soul +as much as of the body. + + Ceremonies of initiation into manhood at puberty--involving + physical and mental discipline, as well as instruction, lasting + for weeks or months, and never identical for both sexes--are + common among savages in all parts of the world. They nearly + always involve the endurance of a certain amount of pain and + hardship, a wise measure of training which the softness of + civilization has too foolishly allowed to drop, for the ability + to endure hardness is an essential condition of all real manhood. + It is as a corrective to this tendency to flabbiness in modern + education that the teaching of Nietzsche is so invaluable. + + The initiation of boys among the natives of Torres Straits has + been elaborately described by A.C. Haddon (_Reports + Anthropological Expedition to Torres Straits_, vol. v, Chs. VII + and XII). It lasts a month, involves much severe training and + power of endurance, and includes admirable moral instruction. + Haddon remarks that it formed "a very good discipline," and adds, + "it is not easy to conceive of a more effectual means for a rapid + training." + + Among the aborigines of Victoria, Australia, the initiatory + ceremonies, as described by R.H. Mathews ("Some Initiation + Ceremonies," _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1905, Heft 6), last + for seven months, and constitute an admirable discipline. The + boys are taken away by the elders of the tribe, subjected to many + trials of patience and endurance of pain and discomfort, + sometimes involving even the swallowing of urine and excrement, + brought into contact with strange tribes, taught the laws and + folk-lore, and at the end meetings are held at which betrothals + are arranged. + + Among the northern tribes of Central Australia the initiation + ceremonies involve circumcision and urethral subincision, as well + as hard manual labor and hardships. The initiation of girls into + womanhood is accompanied by cutting open of the vagina. These + ceremonies have been described by Spencer and Gillen (_Northern + Tribes of Central Australia_, Ch. XI). Among various peoples in + British East Africa (including the Masai) pubertal initiation is + a great ceremonial event extending over a period of many months, + and it includes circumcision in boys, and in girls + clitoridectomy, as well as, among some tribes, removal of the + nymphae. A girl who winces or cries out during the operation is + disgraced among the women and expelled from the settlement. When + the ceremony has been satisfactorily completed the boy or girl is + marriageable (C. Marsh Beadnell, "Circumcision and Clitoridectomy + as Practiced by the Natives of British East Africa," _British + Medical Journal_, April 29, 1905). + + Initiation among the African Bawenda, as described by a + missionary, is in three stages: (1) A stage of instruction and + discipline during which the traditions and sacred things of the + tribe are revealed, the art of warfare taught, self-restraint and + endurance borne; then the youths are counted as full-grown. (2) + In the next stage the art of dancing is practiced, by each sex + separately, during the day. (3) In the final stage, which is that + of complete sexual initiation, the two sexes dance together by + night; the scene, in the opinion of the good missionary, "does + not bear description;" the initiated are now complete adults, + with all the privileges and responsibilities of adults (Rev. E. + Gottschling, "The Bawenda," _Journal Anthropological + Institution_, July to Dec., 1905, p. 372. Cf., an interesting + account of the Bawenda Tondo schools by another missionary, + Wessmann, _The Bawenda_, pp. 60 et seq.). + + The initiation of girls in Azimba Land, Central Africa, has been + fully and interestingly described by H. Crawford Angus ("The + Chensamwali' or Initiation Ceremony of Girls," _Zeitschrift fuer + Ethnologie_, 1898, Heft 6). At the first sign of menstruation the + girl is taken by her mother out of the village to a grass hut + prepared for her where only the women are allowed to visit her. + At the end of menstruation she is taken to a secluded spot and + the women dance round her, no men being present. It was only with + much difficulty that Angus was enabled to witness the ceremony. + The girl is then informed in regard to the hygiene of + menstruation. "Many songs about the relations between men and + women are sung, and the girl is instructed as to all her duties + when she becomes a wife.... The girl is taught to be faithful to + her husband, and to try and bear children. The whole matter is + looked upon as a matter of course, and not as a thing to be + ashamed of or to hide, and being thus openly treated of and no + secrecy made about it, you find in this tribe that the women are + very virtuous, because the subject of married life has no glamour + for them. When a woman is pregnant she is again danced; this time + all the dancers are naked, and she is taught how to behave and + what to do when the time of her delivery arrives." + + Among the Yuman Indians of California, as described by Horatio + Rust ("A Puberty Ceremony of the Mission Indians," _American + Anthropologist_, Jan. to March, 1906, p. 28) the girls are at + puberty prepared for marriage by a ceremony. They are wrapped in + blankets and placed in a warm pit, where they lie looking very + happy as they peer out through their covers. For four days and + nights they lie here (occasionally going away for food), while + the old women of the tribe dance and sing round the pit + constantly. At times the old women throw silver coins among the + crowd to teach the girls to be generous. They also give away + cloth and wheat, to teach them to be kind to the old and needy; + and they sow wild seeds broadcast over the girls to cause them to + be prolific. Finally, all strangers are ordered away, garlands + are placed on the girls' heads, and they are led to a hillside + and shown the large and sacred stone, symbolical of the female + organs of generation and resembling them, which is said to + protect women. Then grain is thrown over all present, and the + ceremony is over. + + The Thlinkeet Eskimo women were long noted for their fine + qualities. At puberty they were secluded, sometimes for a whole + year, being kept in darkness, suffering, and filth. Yet defective + and unsatisfactory as this initiation was, "Langsdorf suggests," + says Bancroft (_Native Races of Pacific_, vol. i, p. 110), + referring to the virtues of the Thlinkeet woman, "that it may be + during this period of confinement that the foundation of her + influence is laid; that in modest reserve and meditation her + character is strengthened, and she comes forth cleansed in mind + as well as body." + +We have lost these ancient and invaluable rites of initiation into manhood +and womanhood, with their inestimable moral benefits; at the most we have +merely preserved the shells of initiation in which the core has decayed. +In time, we cannot doubt, they will be revived in modern forms. At present +the spiritual initiation of youths and maidens is left to the chances of +some happy accident, and usually it is of a purely cerebral character +which cannot be perfectly wholesome, and is at the best absurdly +incomplete. + +This cerebral initiation commonly occurs to the youth through the medium +of literature. The influence of literature in sexual education thus +extends, in an incalculable degree, beyond the narrow sphere of manuals on +sexual hygiene, however admirable and desirable these may be. The greater +part of literature is more or less distinctly penetrated by erotic and +auto-erotic conceptions and impulses; nearly all imaginative literature +proceeds from the root of sex to flower in visions of beauty and ecstasy. +The Divine Comedy of Dante is herein the immortal type of the poet's +evolution. The youth becomes acquainted with the imaginative +representations of love before he becomes acquainted with the reality of +love, so that, as Leo Berg puts it, "the way to love among civilized +peoples passes through imagination." All literature is thus, to the +adolescent soul, a part of sexual education.[39] It depends, to some +extent, though fortunately not entirely, on the judgment of those in +authority over the young soul whether the literature to which the youth or +girl is admitted is or is not of the large and humanizing order. + + All great literature touches nakedly and sanely on the central + facts of sex. It is always consoling to remember this in an age + of petty pruderies. And it is a satisfaction to know that it + would not be possible to emasculate the literature of the great + ages, however desirable it might seem to the men of more + degenerate ages, or to close the avenues to that literature + against the young. All our religious and literary traditions + serve to fortify the position of the Bible and of Shakespeare. + "So many men and women," writes a correspondent, a literary man, + "gain sexual ideas in childhood from reading the Old Testament, + that the Bible may be called an erotic text-book. Most persons of + either sex with whom I have conversed on the subject, say that + the Books of Moses, and the stories of Amnon and Tamar, Lot and + his daughters, Potiphar's wife and Joseph, etc., caused + speculation and curiosity, and gave them information of the + sexual relationship. A boy and girl of fifteen, both friends of + the writer, and now over thirty years of age, used to find out + erotic passages in the Bible on Sunday mornings, while in a + Dissenting chapel, and pass their Bibles to one another, with + their fingers on the portions that interested them." In the same + way many a young woman has borrowed Shakespeare in order to read + the glowing erotic poetry of _Venus and Adonis_, which her + friends have told her about. + + The Bible, it may be remarked, is not in every respect, a model + introduction for the young mind to the questions of sex. But even + its frank acceptance, as of divine origin, of sexual rules so + unlike those that are nominally our own, such as polygamy and + concubinage, helps to enlarge the vision of the youthful mind by + showing that the rules surrounding the child are not those + everywhere and always valid, while the nakedness and realism of + the Bible cannot but be a wholesome and tonic corrective to + conventional pruderies. + + We must, indeed, always protest against the absurd confusion + whereby nakedness of speech is regarded as equivalent to + immorality, and not the less because it is often adopted even in + what are regarded as intellectual quarters. When in the House of + Lords, in the last century, the question of the exclusion of + Byron's statue from Westminster Abbey was under discussion, Lord + Brougham "denied that Shakespeare was more moral than Byron. He + could, on the contrary, point out in a single page of Shakespeare + more grossness than was to be found in all Lord Byron's works." + The conclusion Brougham thus reached, that Byron is an + incomparably more moral writer than Shakespeare, ought to have + been a sufficient _reductio ad absurdum_ of his argument, but it + does not appear that anyone pointed out the vulgar confusion into + which he had fallen. + + It may be said that the special attractiveness which the + nakedness of great literature sometimes possesses for young minds + is unwholesome. But it must be remembered that the peculiar + interest of this element is merely due to the fact that elsewhere + there is an inveterate and abnormal concealment. It must also be + said that the statements of the great writers about natural + things are never degrading, nor even erotically exciting to the + young, and what Emilia Pardo Bazan tells of herself and her + delight when a child in the historical books of the Old + Testament, that the crude passages in them failed to send the + faintest cloud of trouble across her young imagination, is + equally true of most children. It is necessary, indeed, that + these naked and serious things should be left standing, even if + only to counterbalance the lewdly comic efforts to besmirch love + and sex, which are visible to all in every low-class bookseller's + shop window. + + This point of view was vigorously championed by the speakers on + sexual education at the Third Congress of the German Gesellschaft + zur Bekaempfung der Geschlechtskrankheiten in 1907. Thus Enderlin, + speaking as a headmaster, protested against the custom of + bowdlerizing poems and folk-songs for the use of children, and + thus robbing them of the finest introduction to purified sexual + impulses and the highest sphere of emotion, while at the same + time they are recklessly exposed to the "psychic infection" of + the vulgar comic papers everywhere exposed for sale. "So long as + children are too young to respond to erotic poetry it cannot hurt + them; when they are old enough to respond it can only benefit + them by opening to them the highest and purest channels of human + emotion" (_Sexualpaedagogik_, p. 60). Professor Schaefenacker (id., + p. 98) expresses himself in the same sense, and remarks that "the + method of removing from school-books all those passages which, in + the opinion of short-sighted and narrow-hearted schoolmasters, + are unsuited for youth, must be decisively condemned." Every + healthy boy and girl who has reached the age of puberty may be + safely allowed to ramble in any good library, however varied its + contents. So far from needing guidance they will usually show a + much more refined taste than their elders. At this age, when the + emotions are still virginal and sensitive, the things that are + realistic, ugly, or morbid, jar on the young spirit and are cast + aside, though in adult life, with the coarsening of mental + texture which comes of years and experience, this repugnance, + doubtless by an equally sound and natural instinct, may become + much less acute. + + Ellen Key in Ch. VI of her _Century of the Child_ well summarizes + the reasons against the practice of selecting for children books + that are "suitable" for them, a practice which she considers one + of the follies of modern education. The child should be free to + read all great literature, and will himself instinctively put + aside the things he is not yet ripe for. His cooler senses are + undisturbed by scenes that his elders find too exciting, while + even at a later stage it is not the nakedness of great + literature, but much more the method of the modern novel, which + is likely to stain the imagination, falsify reality and injure + taste. It is concealment which misleads and coarsens, producing a + state of mind in which even the Bible becomes a stimulus to the + senses. The writings of the great masters yield the imaginative + food which the child craves, and the erotic moment in them is too + brief to be overheating. It is the more necessary, Ellen Key + remarks, for children to be introduced to great literature, since + they often have little opportunity to occupy themselves with it + in later life. Many years earlier Ruskin, in _Sesame and Lilies_, + had eloquently urged that even young girls should be allowed to + range freely in libraries. + +What has been said about literature applies equally to art. Art, as well +as literature, and in the same indirect way, can be made a valuable aid in +the task of sexual enlightenment and sexual hygiene. Modern art may, +indeed, for the most part, be ignored from this point of view, but +children cannot be too early familiarized with the representations of the +nude in ancient sculpture and in the paintings of the old masters of the +Italian school. In this way they may be immunized, as Enderlin expresses +it, against those representations of the nude which make an appeal to the +baser instincts. Early familiarity with nudity in art is at the same time +an aid to the attainment of a proper attitude towards purity in nature. +"He who has once learnt," as Hoeller remarks, "to enjoy peacefully +nakedness in art, will be able to look on nakedness in nature as on a work +of art." + + Casts of classic nude statues and reproductions of the pictures + of the old Venetian and other Italian masters may fittingly be + used to adorn schoolrooms, not so much as objects of instruction + as things of beauty with which the child cannot too early become + familiarized. In Italy it is said to be usual for school classes + to be taken by their teachers to the art museums with good + results; such visits form part of the official scheme of + education. + + There can be no doubt that such early familiarity with the beauty + of nudity in classic art is widely needed among all social + classes and in many countries. It is to this defect of our + education that we must attribute the occasional, and indeed in + America and England frequent, occurrence of such incidents as + petitions and protests against the exhibition of nude statuary in + art museums, the display of pictures so inoffensive as Leighton's + "Bath of Psyche" in shop windows, and the demand for the draping + of the naked personifications of abstract virtues in + architectural street decoration. So imperfect is still the + education of the multitude that in these matters the ill-bred + fanatic of pruriency usually gains his will. Such a state of + things cannot but have an unwholesome reaction on the moral + atmosphere of the community in which it is possible. Even from + the religious point of view, prurient prudery is not justifiable. + Northcote has very temperately and sensibly discussed the + question of the nude in art from the standpoint of Christian + morality. He points out that not only is the nude in art not to + be condemned without qualification, and that the nude is by no + means necessarily the erotic, but he also adds that even erotic + art, in its best and purest manifestations, only arouses emotions + that are the legitimate object of man's aspirations. It would be + impossible even to represent Biblical stories adequately on + canvas or in marble if erotic art were to be tabooed (Rev. H. + Northcote, _Christianity and Sex Problems_, Ch. XIV). + + Early familiarity with the nude in classic and early Italian art + should be combined at puberty with an equal familiarity with + photographs of beautiful and naturally developed nude models. In + former years books containing such pictures in a suitable and + attractive manner to place before the young were difficult to + procure. Now this difficulty no longer exists. Dr. C.H. Stratz, + of The Hague, has been the pioneer in this matter, and in a + series of beautiful books (notably in _Der Koerper des Kindes, Die + Schoenheit des Weiblichen Koerpers_ and _Die Rassenschoenheit des + Weibes_, all published by Enke in Stuttgart), he has brought + together a large number of admirably selected photographs of nude + but entirely chaste figures. More recently Dr. Shufeldt, of + Washington (who dedicates his work to Stratz), has published his + _Studies of the Human Form_ in which, in the same spirit, he has + brought together the results of his own studies of the naked + human form during many years. It is necessary to correct the + impressions received from classic sources by good photographic + illustrations on account of the false conventions prevailing in + classic works, though those conventions were not necessarily + false for the artists who originated them. The omission of the + pudendal hair, in representations of the nude was, for instance, + quite natural for the people of countries still under Oriental + influence are accustomed to remove the hair from the body. If, + however, under quite different conditions, we perpetuate that + artistic convention to-day, we put ourselves into a perverse + relation to nature. There is ample evidence of this. "There is + one convention so ancient, so necessary, so universal," writes + Mr. Frederic Harrison (_Nineteenth Century and After_, Aug., + 1907), "that its deliberate defiance to-day may arouse the bile + of the least squeamish of men and should make women withdraw at + once." If boys and girls were brought up at their mother's knees + in familiarity with pictures of beautiful and natural nakedness, + it would be impossible for anyone to write such silly and + shameful words as these. + + There can be no doubt that among ourselves the simple and direct + attitude of the child towards nakedness is so early crushed out + of him that intelligent education is necessary in order that he + may be enabled to discern what is and what is not obscene. To the + plough-boy and the country servant-girl all nakedness, including + that of Greek statuary, is alike shameful or lustful. "I have a + picture of women like that," said a countryman with a grin, as he + pointed to a photograph of one of Tintoret's most beautiful + groups, "smoking cigarettes." And the mass of people in most + northern countries have still passed little beyond this stage of + discernment; in ability to distinguish between the beautiful and + the obscene they are still on the level of the plough-boy and the + servant-girl. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[18] These manifestations have been dealt with in the study of Autoerotism +in vol. i of the present _Studies_. It may be added that the sexual life +of the child has been exhaustively investigated by Moll, _Das Sexualleben +des Kindes_, 1909. + +[19] This genital efflorescence in the sexual glands and breasts at birth +or in early infancy has been discussed in a Paris thesis, by Camille +Renouf (_La Crise Genital et les Manifestations Connexes chez le Foetus et +le Nouveau-ne_, 1905); he is unable to offer a satisfactory explanation of +these phenomena. + +[20] Amelineau, _La Morale des Egyptiens_, p. 64. + +[21] "The Social Evil in Philadelphia," _Arena_, March, 1896. + +[22] Moll, _Kontraere Sexualempfindung_, third edition, p. 592. + +[23] This powerlessness of the law and the police is well recognized by +lawyers familiar with the matter. Thus F. Werthauer (_Sittlichkeitsdelikte +der Grosstadt_, 1907) insists throughout on the importance of parents and +teachers imparting to children from their early years a progressively +increasing knowledge of sexual matters. + +[24] "Parents must be taught how to impart information," remarks E.L. +Keyes ("Education upon Sexual Matters," _New York Medical Journal_, Feb. +10, 1906), "and this teaching of the parent should begin when he is +himself a child." + +[25] Moll (op. cit., p. 224) argues well how impossible it is to preserve +children from sights and influence connected with the sexual life. + +[26] Girls are not even prepared, in many cases, for the appearance of the +pubic hair. This unexpected growth of hair frequently causes young girls +much secret worry, and often they carefully cut it off. + +[27] G.S. Hall, _Adolescence_, vol. i, p. 511. Many years ago, in 1875, +the late Dr. Clarke, in his _Sex in Education_, advised menstrual rest for +girls, and thereby aroused a violent opposition which would certainly not +be found nowadays, when the special risks of womanhood are becoming more +clearly understood. + +[28] For a summary of the physical and mental phenomena of the menstrual +period, see Havelock Ellis: _Man and Woman_, Ch. XI. The primitive +conception of menstruation is briefly discussed in Appendix A to the first +volume of these _Studies_, and more elaborately by J.G. Frazer in _The +Golden Bough_. A large collection of facts with regard to the menstrual +seclusion of women throughout the world will be found in Ploss and +Bartels, _Das Weib_. The pubertal seclusion of girls at Torres Straits has +been especially studied by Seligmann, _Reports Anthropological Expedition +to Torres Straits_, vol. v, Ch. VI. + +[29] Thus Miss Lura Sanborn, Director of Physical Training at the Chicago +Normal School, found that a bath once a fortnight was not unusual. At the +menstrual period especially there is still a superstitious dread of water. +Girls should always be taught that at this period, above all, cleanliness +is imperatively necessary. There should be a tepid hip bath night and +morning, and a vaginal douche (which should never be cold) is always +advantageous, both for comfort as well as cleanliness. There is not the +slightest reason to dread water during menstruation. This point was +discussed a few years ago in the _British Medical Journal_ with complete +unanimity of opinion. A distinguished American obstetrician, also, Dr. J. +Clifton Edgar, after a careful study of opinion and practice in this +matter ("Bathing During the Menstrual Period," _American Journal +Obstetrics_, Sept., 1900), concludes that it is possible and beneficial to +take cold baths (though not sea-baths) during the period, provided due +precautions are observed, and that there are no sudden changes of habits. +Such a course should not be indiscriminately adopted, but there can be no +doubt that in sturdy peasant women who are inured to it early in life even +prolonged immersion in the sea in fishing has no evil results, and is even +beneficial. Houzel (_Annales de Gynecologie_, Dec., 1894) has published +statistics of the menstrual life of 123 fisherwomen on the French coast. +They were accustomed to shrimp for hours at a time in the sea, often to +above the waist, and then walk about in their wet clothes selling the +shrimps. They all insisted that their menstruation was easier when they +were actively at work. Their periods are notably regular, and their +fertility is high. + +[30] J.H. McBride, "The Life and Health of Our Girls in Relation to Their +Future," _Alienist and Neurologist_, Feb., 1904. + +[31] W.G. Chambers, "The Evolution of Ideals," _Pedagogical Seminary_, +March, 1903; Catherine Dodd, "School Children's Ideals," _National +Review_, Feb. and Dec., 1900, and June, 1901. No German girls acknowledged +a wish to be men; they said it would be wicked. Among Flemish girls, +however, Varendonck found at Ghent (_Archives de Psychologie_, July, 1908) +that 26 per cent. had men as their ideals. + +[32] A. Reibmayr, _Die Entwicklungsgeschichte des Talentes und Genies_, +1908, Bd. i, p. 70. + +[33] R. Hellmann, _Ueber Geschlechtsfreiheit_, p. 14. + +[34] This belief seems frequent among young girls in Continental Europe. +It forms the subject of one of Marcel Prevost's _Lettres de Femmes_. In +Austria, according to Freud, it is not uncommon, exclusively among girls. + +[35] Yet, according to English law, rape is a crime which it is impossible +for a husband to commit on his wife (see, e.g., Nevill Geary, _The Law of +Marriage_, Ch. XV, Sect. V). The performance of the marriage ceremony, +however, even if it necessarily involved a clear explanation of marital +privileges, cannot be regarded as adequate justification for an act of +sexual intercourse performed with violence or without the wife's consent. + +[36] Hirschfeld, _Jahrbuch fuer Sexuelle Zwischenstufen_, 1903, p. 88. It +may be added that a horror of coitus is not necessarily due to bad +education, and may also occur in hereditarily degenerate women, whose +ancestors have shown similar or allied mental peculiarities. A case of +such "functional impotence" has been reported in a young Italian wife of +twenty-one, who was otherwise healthy, and strongly attached to her +husband. The marriage was annulled on the ground that "rudimentary sexual +or emotional paranoia, which renders a wife invincibly refractory to +sexual union, notwithstanding the integrity of the sexual organs, +constitutes psychic functional impotence" (_Archivio di Psichiatria_, +1906, fasc. vi, p. 806). + +[37] The reasonableness of this step is so obvious that it should scarcely +need insistence. "The instruction of school-boys and school-girls is most +adequately effected by an elderly doctor," Naecke remarks, "sometimes +perhaps the school-doctor." "I strongly advocate," says Clouston (_The +Hygiene of Mind_, p. 249), "that the family doctor, guided by the parent +and the teacher, is by far the best instructor and monitor." Moll is of +the same opinion. + +[38] I have further developed this argument in "Religion and the Child," +_Nineteenth Century and After_, 1907. + +[39] The intimate relation of art and poetry to the sexual impulse has +been realized in a fragmentary way by many who have not attained to any +wide vision of auto-erotic activity in life. "Poetry is necessarily +related to the sexual function," says Metchnikoff (_Essais Optimistes_, p. +352), who also quotes with approval the statement of Moebius (previously +made by Ferrero and many others) that "artistic aptitudes must probably be +considered as secondary sexual characters." + + + + +CHAPTER III. + +SEXUAL EDUCATION AND NAKEDNESS. + +The Greek Attitude Towards Nakedness--How the Romans Modified That +Attitude--The Influence of Christianity--Nakedness in Mediaeval +Times--Evolution of the Horror of Nakedness--Concomitant Change in the +Conception of Nakedness--Prudery--The Romantic Movement--Rise of a New +Feeling in Regard to Nakedness--The Hygienic Aspect of Nakedness--How +Children May Be Accustomed to Nakedness--Nakedness Not Inimical to +Modesty--The Instinct of Physical Pride--The Value of Nakedness in +Education--The AEsthetic Value of Nakedness--The Human Body as One of the +Prime Tonics of Life--How Nakedness May Be Cultivated--The Moral Value of +Nakedness. + + +The discussion of the value of nakedness in art leads us on to the allied +question of nakedness in nature. What is the psychological influence of +familiarity with nakedness? How far should children be made familiar with +the naked body? This is a question in regard to which different opinions +have been held in different ages, and during recent years a remarkable +change has begun to come over the minds of practical educationalists in +regard to it. + +In Sparta, in Chios, and elsewhere in Greece, women at one time practiced +gymnastic feats and dances in nakedness, together with the men, or in +their presence.[40] Plato in his _Republic_ approved of such customs and +said that the ridicule of those who laughed at them was but "unripe fruit +plucked from the tree of knowledge." On many questions Plato's opinions +changed, but not on this. In the _Laws_, which are the last outcome of his +philosophic reflection in old age, he still advocates (Bk. viii) a similar +co-education of the sexes and their cooeperation in all the works of life, +in part with a view to blunt the over-keen edge of sexual appetite; with +the same object he advocated the association together of youths and girls +without constraint in costumes which offered no concealment to the form. + +It is noteworthy that the Romans, a coarser-grained people than the Greeks +and in our narrow modern sense more "moral," showed no perception of the +moralizing and refining influence of nakedness. Nudity to them was merely +a licentious indulgence, to be treated with contempt even when it was +enjoyed. It was confined to the stage, and clamored for by the populace. +In the Floralia, especially, the crowd seem to have claimed it as their +right that the actors should play naked, probably, it has been thought, as +a survival of a folk-ritual. But the Romans, though they were eager to run +to the theatre, felt nothing but disdain for the performers. "Flagitii +principium est, nudare inter cives corpora." So thought old Ennius, as +reported by Cicero, and that remained the genuine Roman feeling to the +last. "Quanta perversitas!" as Tertullian exclaimed. "Artem magnificant, +artificem notant."[41] In this matter the Romans, although they aroused +the horror of the Christians, were yet in reality laying the foundation of +Christian morality. + +Christianity, which found so many of Plato's opinions congenial, would +have nothing to do with his view of nakedness and failed to recognize its +psychological correctness. The reason was simple, and indeed +simple-minded. The Church was passionately eager to fight against what it +called "the flesh," and thus fell into the error of confusing the +subjective question of sexual desire with the objective spectacle of the +naked form. "The flesh" is evil; therefore, "the flesh" must be hidden. +And they hid it, without understanding that in so doing they had not +suppressed the craving for the human form, but, on the contrary, had +heightened it by imparting to it the additional fascination of a forbidden +mystery. + + Burton, in his _Anatomy of Melancholy_ (Part III, Sect II, Mem. + II, Subs. IV), referring to the recommendations of Plato, adds: + "But _Eusebius_ and _Theodoret_ worthily lash him for it; and + well they might: for as one saith, the very sight of naked + parts, _causeth enormous, exceeding concupiscences, and stirs up + both men and women to burning lust_." Yet, as Burton himself adds + further on in the same section of his work (Mem. V, Subs. III), + without protest, "some are of opinion, that to see a woman naked, + is able of itself to alter his affection; and it is worthy of + consideration, saith _Montaigne_, the Frenchman, in his Essays, + that the skilfullest masters of amorous dalliance appoint for a + remedy of venereous passions, a full survey of the body." + + There ought to be no question regarding the fact that it is the + adorned, the partially concealed body, and not the absolutely + naked body, which acts as a sexual excitant. I have brought + together some evidence on this point in the study of "The + Evolution of Modesty." "In Madagascar, West Africa, and the + Cape," says G.F. Scott Elliot (_A Naturalist in Mid-Africa_, p. + 36), "I have always found the same rule. Chastity varies + inversely as the amount of clothing." It is now indeed generally + held that one of the chief primary objects of ornament and + clothing was the stimulation of sexual desire, and artists' + models are well aware that when they are completely unclothed, + they are most safe from undesired masculine advances. "A favorite + model of mine told me," remarks Dr. Shufeldt (_Medical Brief_, + Oct., 1904), the distinguished author of _Studies of the Human + Form_, "that it was her practice to disrobe as soon after + entering the artist's studio as possible, for, as men are not + always responsible for their emotions, she felt that she was far + less likely to arouse or excite them when entirely nude than when + only semi-draped." This fact is, indeed, quite familiar to + artists' models. If the conquest of sexual desire were the first + and last consideration of life it would be more reasonable to + prohibit clothing than to prohibit nakedness. + +When Christianity absorbed the whole of the European world this strict +avoidance of even the sight of "the flesh," although nominally accepted by +all as the desirable ideal, could only be carried out, thoroughly and +completely, in the cloister. In the practice of the world outside, +although the original Christian ideals remained influential, various pagan +and primitive traditions in favor of nakedness still persisted, and were, +to some extent, allowed to manifest themselves, alike in ordinary custom +and on special occasions. + + How widespread is the occasional or habitual practice of + nakedness in the world generally, and how entirely concordant it + is with even a most sensitive modesty, has been set forth in "The + Evolution of Modesty," in vol. i of these _Studies_. + + Even during the Christian era the impulse to adopt nudity, often + with the feeling that it was an especially sacred practice, has + persisted. The Adamites of the second century, who read and + prayed naked, and celebrated the sacrament naked, according to + the statement quoted by St. Augustine, seem to have caused little + scandal so long as they only practiced nudity in their sacred + ceremonies. The German Brethren of the Free Spirit, in the + thirteenth century, combined so much chastity with promiscuous + nakedness that orthodox Catholics believed they were assisted by + the Devil. The French Picards, at a much later date, insisted on + public nakedness, believing that God had sent their leader into + the world as a new Adam to reestablish the law of Nature; they + were persecuted and were finally exterminated by the Hussites. + + In daily life, however, a considerable degree of nakedness was + tolerated during mediaeval times. This was notably so in the + public baths, frequented by men and women together. Thus Alwin + Schultz remarks (in his _Hoefische Leben zur Zeit der + Minnesaenger_), that the women of the aristocratic classes, though + not the men, were often naked in these baths except for a hat and + a necklace. + + It is sometimes stated that in the mediaeval religious plays Adam + and Eve were absolutely naked. Chambers doubts this, and thinks + they wore flesh-colored tights, or were, as in a later play of + this kind, "apparelled in white leather" (E.K. Chambers, _The + Mediaeval Stage_, vol. i, p. 5). It may be so, but the public + exposure even of the sexual organs was permitted, and that in + aristocratic houses, for John of Salisbury (in a passage quoted + by Buckle, _Commonplace Book_, 541) protests against this custom. + + The women of the feminist sixteenth century in France, as R. de + Maulde la Claviere remarks (_Revue de l'Art_, Jan., 1898), had no + scruple in recompensing their adorers by admitting them to their + toilette, or even their bath. Late in the century they became + still less prudish, and many well-known ladies allowed themselves + to be painted naked down to the waist, as we see in the portrait + of "Gabrielle d'Estrees au Bain" at Chantilly. Many of these + pictures, however, are certainly not real portraits. + + Even in the middle of the seventeenth century in England + nakedness was not prohibited in public, for Pepys tells us that + on July 29, 1667, a Quaker came into Westminster Hall, crying, + "Repent! Repent!" being in a state of nakedness, except that he + was "very civilly tied about the privities to avoid scandal." + (This was doubtless Solomon Eccles, who was accustomed to go + about in this costume, both before and after the Restoration. He + had been a distinguished musician, and, though eccentric, was + apparently not insane.) + + In a chapter, "De la Nudite," and in the appendices of his book, + _De l'Amour_ (vol. i, p. 221), Senancour gives instances of the + occasional practice of nudity in Europe, and adds some + interesting remarks of his own; so, also, Dulaure (_Des Divinites + Generatrices_, Ch. XV). It would appear, as a rule, that though + complete nudity was allowed in other respects, it was usual to + cover the sexual parts. + +The movement of revolt against nakedness never became completely +victorious until the nineteenth century. That century represented the +triumph of all the forces that banned public nakedness everywhere and +altogether. If, as Pudor insists, nakedness is aristocratic and the +slavery of clothes a plebeian characteristic imposed on the lower classes +by an upper class who reserved to themselves the privilege of physical +culture, we may perhaps connect this with the outburst of democratic +plebeianism which, as Nietzsche pointed out, reached its climax in the +nineteenth century. It is in any case certainly interesting to observe +that by this time the movement had entirely changed its character. It had +become general, but at the same time its foundation had been undermined. +It had largely lost its religious and moral character, and instead was +regarded as a matter of convention. The nineteenth century man who +encountered the spectacle of white limbs flashing in the sunlight no +longer felt like the mediaeval ascetic that he was risking the salvation of +his immortal soul or even courting the depravation of his morals; he +merely felt that it was "indecent" or, in extreme cases, "disgusting." +That is to say he regarded the matter as simply a question of conventional +etiquette, at the worst, of taste, of aesthetics. In thus bringing down his +repugnance to nakedness to so low a plane he had indeed rendered it +generally acceptable, but at the same time he had deprived it of high +sanction. His profound horror of nakedness was out of relation to the +frivolous grounds on which he based it. + + We must not, however, under-rate the tenacity with which this + horror of nakedness was held. Nothing illustrates more vividly + the deeply ingrained hatred which the nineteenth century felt of + nakedness than the ferocity--there is no other word for it--with + which Christian missionaries to savages all over the world, even + in the tropics, insisted on their converts adopting the + conventional clothing of Northern Europe. Travellers' narratives + abound in references to the emphasis placed by missionaries on + this change of custom, which was both injurious to the health of + the people and degrading to their dignity. It is sufficient to + quote one authoritative witness, Lord Stanmore, formerly Governor + of Fiji, who read a long paper to the Anglican Missionary + Conference in 1894 on the subject of "Undue Introduction of + Western Ways." "In the centre of the village," he remarked in + quoting a typical case (and referring not to Fiji but to Tonga), + "is the church, a wooden barn-like building. If the day be + Sunday, we shall find the native minister arrayed in a + greenish-black swallow-tail coat, a neckcloth, once white, and a + pair of spectacles, which he probably does not need, preaching to + a congregation, the male portion of which is dressed in much the + same manner as himself, while the women are dizened out in old + battered hats or bonnets, and shapeless gowns like bathing + dresses, or it may be in crinolines of an early type. Chiefs of + influence and women of high birth, who in their native dress + would look, and do look, the ladies and gentlemen they are, are, + by their Sunday finery, given the appearance of attendants upon + Jack-in-the-Green. If a visit be paid to the houses of the town, + after the morning's work of the people is over, the family will + be found sitting on chairs, listless and uncomfortable, in a room + full of litter. In the houses of the superior native clergy there + will be a yet greater aping of the manners of the West. There + will be chairs covered with hideous antimacassars, tasteless + round worsted-work mats for absent flower jars, and a lot of ugly + cheap and vulgar china chimney ornaments, which, there being no + fireplace, and consequently no chimney-piece, are set out in + order on a rickety deal table. The whole life of these village + folk is one piece of unreal acting. They are continually asking + themselves whether they are incurring any of the penalties + entailed by infraction of the long table of prohibitions, and + whether they are living up to the foreign garments they wear. + Their faces have, for the most part, an expression of sullen + discontent, they move about silently and joylessly, rebels in + heart to the restrictive code on them, but which they fear to + cast off, partly from a vague apprehension of possible secular + results, and partly because they suppose they will cease to be + good Christians if they do so. They have good ground for their + dissatisfaction. At the time when I visited the villages I have + specially in my eye, it was punishable by fine and imprisonment + to wear native clothing, punishable by fine and imprisonment to + wear long hair or a garland of flowers; punishable by fine or + imprisonment to wrestle or to play at ball; punishable by fine + and imprisonment to build a native-fashioned house; punishable + not to wear shirt and trousers, and in certain localities coat + and shoes also; and, in addition to laws enforcing a strictly + puritanical observation of the Sabbath, it was punishable by fine + and imprisonment to bathe on Sundays. In some other places + bathing on Sunday was punishable by flogging; and to my + knowledge women have been flogged for no other offense. Men in + such circumstances are ripe for revolt, and sometimes the revolt + comes." + + An obvious result of reducing the feeling about nakedness to an + unreasoning but imperative convention is the tendency to + prudishness. This, as we know, is a form of pseudo-modesty which, + being a convention, and not a natural feeling, is capable of + unlimited extension. It is by no means confined to modern times + or to Christian Europe. The ancient Hebrews were not entirely + free from prudishness, and we find in the Old Testament that by a + curious euphemism the sexual organs are sometimes referred to as + "the feet." The Turks are capable of prudishness. So, indeed, + were even the ancient Greeks. "Dion the philosopher tells us," + remarks Clement of Alexandria (_Stromates_, Bk. IV, Ch. XIX) + "that a certain woman, Lysidica, through excess of modesty, + bathed in her clothes, and that Philotera, when she was to enter + the bath, gradually drew back her tunic as the water covered her + naked parts; and then rising by degrees, put it on." Mincing + prudes were found among the early Christians, and their ways are + graphically described by St. Jerome in one of his letters to + Eustochium: "These women," he says, "speak between their teeth or + with the edge of the lips, and with a lisping tongue, only half + pronouncing their words, because they regard as gross whatever is + natural. Such as these," declares Jerome, the scholar in him + overcoming the ascetic, "corrupt even language." Whenever a new + and artificial "modesty" is imposed upon savages prudery tends to + arise. Haddon describes this among the natives of Torres Straits, + where even the children now suffer from exaggerated prudishness, + though formerly absolutely naked and unashamed (_Cambridge + Anthropological Expedition to Torres Straits_, vol. v, p. 271). + +The nineteenth century, which witnessed the triumph of timidity and +prudery in this matter, also produced the first fruitful germ of new +conceptions of nakedness. To some extent these were embodied in the great +Romantic movement. Rousseau, indeed, had placed no special insistence on +nakedness as an element of the return to Nature which he preached so +influentially. A new feeling in this matter emerged, however, with +characteristic extravagance, in some of the episodes of the Revolution, +while in Germany in the pioneering _Lucinde_ of Friedrich Schlegel, a +characteristic figure in the Romantic movement, a still unfamiliar +conception of the body was set forth in a serious and earnest spirit. + +In England, Blake with his strange and flaming genius, proclaimed a +mystical gospel which involved the spiritual glorification of the body and +contempt for the civilized worship of clothes ("As to a modern man," he +wrote, "stripped from his load of clothing he is like a dead corpse"); +while, later, in America, Thoreau and Whitman and Burroughs asserted, +still more definitely, a not dissimilar message concerning the need of +returning to Nature. + + We find the importance of the sight of the body--though very + narrowly, for the avoidance of fraud in the preliminaries of + marriage--set forth as early as the sixteenth century by Sir + Thomas More in his _Utopia_, which is so rich in new and fruitful + ideas. In Utopia, according to Sir Thomas More, before marriage, + a staid and honest matron "showeth the woman, be she maid or + widow, naked to the wooer. And likewise a sage and discreet man + exhibiteth the wooer naked to the woman. At this custom we + laughed and disallowed it as foolish. But they, on their part, do + greatly wonder at the folly of all other nations which, in buying + a colt where a little money is in hazard, be so chary and + circumspect that though he be almost all bare, yet they will not + buy him unless the saddle and all the harness be taken off, lest + under these coverings be hid some gall or sore. And yet, in + choosing a wife, which shall be either pleasure or displeasure to + them all their life after, they be so reckless that all the + residue of the woman's body being covered with clothes, they + estimate her scarcely by one handsbreadth (for they can see no + more but her face) and so join her to them, not without great + jeopardy of evil agreeing together, if anything in her body + afterward should chance to offend or mislike them. Verily, so + foul deformity may be hid under these coverings that it may quite + alienate and take away the man's mind from his wife, when it + shall not be lawful for their bodies to be separate again. If + such deformity happen by any chance after the marriage is + consummate and finished, well, there is no remedy but patience. + But it were well done that a law were made whereby all such + deceits were eschewed and avoided beforehand." + + The clear conception of what may be called the spiritual value of + nakedness--by no means from More's point of view, but as a part + of natural hygiene in the widest sense, and as a high and special + aspect of the purifying and ennobling function of beauty--is of + much later date. It is not clearly expressed until the time of + the Romantic movement at the beginning of the nineteenth century. + We have it admirably set forth in Senancour's _De l'Amour_ (first + edition, 1806; fourth and enlarged edition, 1834), which still + remains one of the best books on the morality of love. After + remarking that nakedness by no means abolishes modesty, he + proceeds to advocate occasional partial or complete nudity. "Let + us suppose," he remarks, somewhat in the spirit of Plato, "a + country in which at certain general festivals the women should be + absolutely free to be nearly or even quite naked. Swimming, + waltzing, walking, those who thought good to do so might remain + unclothed in the presence of men. No doubt the illusions of love + would be little known, and passion would see a diminution of its + transports. But is it passion that in general ennobles human + affairs? We need honest attachments and delicate delights, and + all these we may obtain while still preserving our + common-sense.... Such nakedness would demand corresponding + institutions, strong and simple, and a great respect for those + conventions which belong to all times" (Senancour, _De l'Amour_, + vol. i, p. 314). + + From that time onwards references to the value and desirability + of nakedness become more and more frequent in all civilized + countries, sometimes mingled with sarcastic allusions to the + false conventions we have inherited in this matter. Thus Thoreau + writes in his journal on June 12, 1852, as he looks at boys + bathing in the river: "The color of their bodies in the sun at a + distance is pleasing. I hear the sound of their sport borne over + the water. As yet we have not man in Nature. What a singular fact + for an angel visitant to this earth to carry back in his + note-book, that men were forbidden to expose their bodies under + the severest penalties." + + Iwan Bloch, in Chapter VII of his _Sexual Life of Our Time_, + discusses this question of nakedness from the modern point of + view, and concludes: "A natural conception of nakedness: that is + the watchword of the future. All the hygienic, aesthetic, and + moral efforts of our time are pointing in that direction." + + Stratz, as befits one who has worked so strenuously in the cause + of human health and beauty, admirably sets forth the stage which + we have now attained in this matter. After pointing out (_Die + Frauenkleidung_, third edition, 1904, p. 30) that, in opposition + to the pagan world which worshipped naked gods, Christianity + developed the idea that nakedness was merely sexual, and + therefore immoral, he proceeds: "But over all glimmered on the + heavenly heights of the Cross, the naked body of the Saviour. + Under that protection there has gradually disengaged itself from + the confusion of ideas a new transfigured form of nakedness made + free after long struggle. I would call this _artistic nakedness_, + for as it was immortalized by the old Greeks through art, so also + among us it has been awakened to new life by art. Artistic + nakedness is, in its nature, much higher than either the natural + or the sensual conception of nakedness. The simple child of + Nature sees in nakedness nothing at all; the clothed man sees in + the uncovered body only a sensual irritation. But at the highest + standpoint man consciously returns to Nature, and recognizes that + under the manifold coverings of human fabrication there is + hidden the most splendid creature that God has created. One may + stand in silent, worshipping wonder before the sight; another may + be impelled to imitate and show to his fellow-man what in that + holy moment he has seen. But both enjoy the spectacle of human + beauty with full consciousness and enlightened purity of + thought." + +It was not, however, so much on these more spiritual sides, but on the +side of hygiene, that the nineteenth century furnished its chief practical +contribution to the new attitude towards nakedness. + + Lord Monboddo, the Scotch judge, who was a pioneer in regard to + many modern ideas, had already in the eighteenth century realized + the hygienic value of "air-baths," and he invented that now + familiar name. "Lord Monboddo," says Boswell, in 1777 (_Life of + Johnson_, edited by Hill, vol. iii, p. 168) "told me that he + awaked every morning at four, and then for his health got up and + walked in his room naked, with the window open, which he called + taking _an air-bath_." It is said also, I know not on what + authority, that he made his beautiful daughters take an air-bath + naked on the terrace every morning. Another distinguished man of + the same century, Benjamin Franklin, used sometimes to work naked + in his study on hygienic grounds, and, it is recorded, once + affrighted a servant-girl by opening the door in an absent-minded + moment, thus unattired. + + Rikli seems to have been the apostle of air-baths and sun-baths + regarded as a systematic method. He established light-and + air-baths over half a century ago at Trieste and elsewhere in + Austria. His motto was: "Light, Truth, and Freedom are the motive + forces towards the highest development of physical and moral + health." Man is not a fish, he declared; light and air are the + first conditions of a highly organized life. Solaria for the + treatment of a number of different disordered conditions are now + commonly established, and most systems of natural therapeutics + attach prime importance to light and air, while in medicine + generally it is beginning to be recognized that such influences + can by no means be neglected. Dr. Fernand Sandoz, in his + _Introduction a la Therapeutique Naturiste par les agents + Physiques et Dietetiques_ (1907) sets forth such methods + comprehensively. In Germany sun-baths have become widely common; + thus Lenkei (in a paper summarized in _British Medical Journal_, + Oct. 31, 1908) prescribes them with much benefit in tuberculosis, + rheumatic conditions, obesity, anaemia, neurasthenia, etc. He + considers that their peculiar value lies in the action of light. + Professor J.N. Hyde, of Chicago, even believes ("Light-Hunger in + the Production of Psoriasis," _British Medical Journal_, Oct. 6, + 1906), that psoriasis is caused by deficiency of sunlight, and + is best cured by the application of light. This belief, which has + not, however, been generally accepted in its unqualified form, he + ingeniously supports by the fact that psoriasis tends to appear + on the most exposed parts of the body, which may be held to + naturally receive and require the maximum of light, and by the + absence of the disease in hot countries and among negroes. + + The hygienic value of nakedness is indicated by the robust health + of the savages throughout the world who go naked. The vigor of + the Irish, also, has been connected with the fact that (as Fynes + Moryson's _Itinerary_ shows) both sexes, even among persons of + high social class, were accustomed to go naked except for a + mantle, especially in more remote parts of the country, as late + as the seventeenth century. Where-ever primitive races abandon + nakedness for clothing, at once the tendency to disease, + mortality, and degeneracy notably increases, though it must be + remembered that the use of clothing is commonly accompanied by + the introduction of other bad habits. "Nakedness is the only + condition universal among vigorous and healthy savages; at every + other point perhaps they differ," remarks Frederick Boyle in a + paper ("Savages and Clothes," _Monthly Review_, Sept., 1905) in + which he brings together much evidence concerning the hygienic + advantages of the natural human state in which man is "all face." + + It is in Germany that a return towards nakedness has been most + ably and thoroughly advocated, notably by Dr. H. Pudor in his + _Nackt-Cultur_, and by R. Ungewitter in _Die Nacktheit_ (first + published in 1905), a book which has had a very large circulation + in many editions. These writers enthusiastically advocate + nakedness, not only on hygienic, but on moral and artistic + grounds. Pudor insists more especially that "nakedness, both in + gymnastics and in sport, is a method of cure and a method of + regeneration;" he advocates co-education in this culture of + nakedness. Although he makes large claims for + nakedness--believing that all the nations which have disregarded + these claims have rapidly become decadent--Pudor is less hopeful + than Ungewitter of any speedy victory over the prejudices opposed + to the culture of nakedness. He considers that the immediate task + is education, and that a practical commencement may best be made + with the foot which is specially in need of hygiene and exercise; + a large part of the first volume of his book is devoted to the + foot. + +As the matter is to-day viewed by those educationalists who are equally +alive to sanitary and sexual considerations, the claims of nakedness, so +far as concerns the young, are regarded as part alike of physical and +moral hygiene. The free contact of the naked body with air and water and +light makes for the health of the body; familiarity with the sight of the +body abolishes petty pruriencies, trains the sense of beauty, and makes +for the health of the soul. This double aspect of the matter has +undoubtedly weighed greatly with those teachers who now approve of customs +which, a few years ago, would have been hastily dismissed as "indecent." +There is still a wide difference of opinion as to the limits to which the +practice of nakedness may be carried, and also as to the age when it +should begin to be restricted. The fact that the adult generation of +to-day grew up under the influence of the old horror of nakedness is an +inevitable check on any revolutionary changes in these matters. + + Maria Lischnewska, one of the ablest advocates of the methodical + enlightenment of children in matters of sex (op. cit.), clearly + realizes that a sane attitude towards the body lies at the root + of a sound education for life. She finds that the chief objection + encountered in such education, as applied in the higher classes + of schools, is "the horror of the civilized man at his own body." + She shows that there can be no doubt that those who are engaged + in the difficult task of working towards the abolition of that + superstitious horror have taken up a moral task of the first + importance. + + Walter Gerhard, in a thoughtful and sensible paper on the + educational question ("Ein Kapitel zur Erziehungsfrage," + _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, vol. i, Heft 2), points out that + it is the adult who needs education in this matter--as in so many + other matters of sexual enlightenment--considerably more than the + child. Parents educate their children from the earliest years in + prudery, and vainly flatter themselves that they have thereby + promoted their modesty and morality. He records his own early + life in a tropical land and accustomed to nakedness from the + first. "It was not till I came to Germany when nearly twenty that + I learnt that the human body is indecent, and that it must not be + shown because that 'would arouse bad impulses.' It was not till + the human body was entirely withdrawn from my sight and after I + was constantly told that there was something improper behind + clothes, that I was able to understand this.... Until then I had + not known that a naked body, by the mere fact of being naked, + could arouse erotic feelings. I had known erotic feelings, but + they had not arisen from the sight of the naked body, but + gradually blossomed from the union of our souls." And he draws + the final moral that, if only for the sake of our children, we + must learn to educate ourselves. + + Forel (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, p. 140), speaking in entirely the + same sense as Gerhard, remarks that prudery may be either caused + or cured in children. It may be caused by undue anxiety in + covering their bodies and hiding from them the bodies of others. + It may be cured by making them realize that there is nothing in + the body that is unnatural and that we need be ashamed of, and by + encouraging bathing of the sexes in common. He points out (p. + 512) the advantages of allowing children to be acquainted with + the adult forms which they will themselves some day assume, and + condemns the conduct of those foolish persons who assume that + children already possess the adult's erotic feelings about the + body. That is so far from being the case that children are + frequently unable to distinguish the sex of other children apart + from their clothes. + + At the Mannheim Congress of the German Society for Combating + Venereal Diseases, specially devoted to sexual hygiene, the + speakers constantly referred to the necessity of promoting + familiarity with the naked body. Thus Eulenburg and Julian + Marcuse (_Sexualpaedagogik_, p. 264) emphasize the importance of + air-baths, not only for the sake of the physical health of the + young, but in the interests of rational sexual training. Hoeller, + a teacher, speaking at the same congress (op. cit., p. 85), after + insisting on familiarity with the nude in art and literature, and + protesting against the bowdlerising of poems for the young, + continues: "By bathing-drawers ordinances no soul was ever yet + saved from moral ruin. One who has learnt to enjoy peacefully the + naked in art is only stirred by the naked in nature as by a work + of art." Enderlin, another teacher, speaking in the same sense + (p. 58), points out that nakedness cannot act sexually or + immorally on the child, since the sexual impulse has not yet + become pronounced, and the earlier he is introduced to the naked + in nature and in art, as a matter of course, the less likely are + the sexual feelings to be developed precociously. The child thus, + indeed, becomes immune to impure influences, so that later, when + representations of the nude are brought before him for the object + of provoking his wantonness, they are powerless to injure him. It + is important, Enderlin adds, for familiarity with the nude in art + to be learnt at school, for most of us, as Siebert remarks, have + to learn purity through art. + + Nakedness in bathing, remarks Boelsche in his _Liebesleben in der + Natur_ (vol. iii, pp. 139 et seq.), we already in some measure + possess; we need it in physical exercises, at first for the sexes + separately; then, when we have grown accustomed to the idea, + occasionally for both sexes together. We need to acquire the + capacity to see the bodies of individuals of the other sex with + such self-control and such natural instinct that they become + non-erotic to us and can be gazed at without erotic feeling. Art, + he says, shows that this is possible in civilization. Science, he + adds, comes to the aid of the same view. + + Ungewitter (_Die Nacktheit_, p. 57) also advocates boys and girls + engaging in play and gymnastics together, entirely naked in + air-baths. "In this way," he believes, "the gymnasium would + become a school of morality, in which young growing things would + be able to retain their purity as long as possible through + becoming naturally accustomed to each other. At the same time + their bodies would be hardened and developed, and the perception + of beautiful and natural forms awakened." To those who have any + "moral" doubts on the matter, he mentions the custom in remote + country districts of boys and girls bathing together quite naked + and without any sexual consciousness. Rudolf Sommer, similarly, + in an excellent article entitled "Maedchenerziehung oder + Menschenbildung?" (_Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Bd. i, Heft 3) + advises that children should be made accustomed to each other's + nakedness from an early age in the family life of the house or + the garden, in games, and especially in bathing; he remarks that + parents having children of only one sex should cultivate for + their children's sake intimate relations with a family having + children of like age of the opposite sex, so that they may grow + up together. + +It is scarcely necessary to add that the cultivation of nakedness must +always be conciliated with respect for the natural instincts of modesty. +If the practice of nakedness led the young to experience a diminished +reverence for their own or others' personalities the advantages of it +would be too dearly bought. This is, in part, a matter of wholesome +instinct, in part of wise training. We now know that the absence of +clothes has little relation with the absence of modesty, such relation as +there is being of the inverse order, for the savage races which go naked +are usually more modest than those which wear clothes. The saying quoted +by Herodotus in the early Greek world that "A woman takes off her modesty +with her shift" was a favorite text of the Christian Fathers. But +Plutarch, who was also a moralist, had already protested against it at the +close of the Greek world: "By no means," he declared, "she who is modest +clothes herself with modesty when she lays aside her tunic." "A woman may +be naked," as Mrs. Bishop, the traveller, remarked to Dr. Baelz, in Japan, +"and yet behave like a lady."[42] + +The question is complicated among ourselves because established +traditions of rigid concealment have fostered a pruriency which is an +offensive insult to naked modesty. In many lands the women who are +accustomed to be almost or quite naked in the presence of their own people +cover themselves as soon as they become conscious of the lustful +inquisitive eyes of Europeans. Stratz refers to the prevalence of this +impulse of offended modesty in Japan, and mentions that he himself failed +to arouse it simply because he was a physician, and, moreover, had long +lived in another land (Java) where also the custom of nakedness +prevails.[43] So long as this unnatural prurience exists a free +unqualified nakedness is rendered difficult. + +Modesty is not, however, the only natural impulse which has to be +considered in relation to the custom of nakedness. It seems probable that +in cultivating the practice of nakedness we are not merely carrying out a +moral and hygienic prescription but allowing legitimate scope to an +instinct which at some periods of life, especially in adolescence, is +spontaneous and natural, even, it may be, wholesomely based in the +traditions of the race in sexual selection. Our rigid conventions make it +impossible for us to discover the laws of nature in this matter by +stifling them at the outset. It may well be that there is a rhythmic +harmony and concordance between impulses of modesty and impulses of +ostentation, though we have done our best to disguise the natural law by +our stupid and perverse by-laws. + + Stanley Hall, who emphasizes the importance of nakedness, remarks + that at puberty we have much reason to assume that in a state of + nature there is a certain instinctive pride and ostentation that + accompanies the new local development, and quotes the observation + of Dr. Seerley that the impulse to conceal the sexual organs is + especially marked in young men who are underdeveloped, but not + evident in those who are developed beyond the average. Stanley + Hall (_Adolescence_, vol. ii, p. 97), also refers to the + frequency with which not only "virtuous young men, but even + women, rather glory in occasions when they can display the beauty + of their forms without reserve, not only to themselves and to + loved ones, but even to others with proper pretexts." + + Many have doubtless noted this tendency, especially in women, and + chiefly in those who are conscious of beautiful physical + development. Madame Celine Renooz believes that the tendency + corresponds to a really deep-rooted instinct in women, little or + not at all manifested in men who have consequently sought to + impose artificially on women their own masculine conceptions of + modesty. "In the actual life of the young girl to-day there is a + moment when, by a secret atavism, she feels the pride of her sex, + the intuition of her moral superiority and cannot understand why + she must hide its cause. At this moment, wavering between the + laws of Nature and social conventions, she scarcely knows if + nakedness should, or should not, affright her. A sort of confused + atavistic memory recalls to her a period before clothing was + known, and reveals to her as a paradisaical ideal the customs of + that human epoch" (Celine Renooz, _Psychologie Comparee de + l'Homme et de la Femme_, pp. 85-87). Perhaps this was obscurely + felt by the German girl (mentioned in Kalbeck's _Life of + Brahms_), who said: "One enjoys music twice as much + _decolletee_." + +From the point of view with which we are here essentially concerned there +are three ways in which the cultivation of nakedness--so far as it is +permitted by the slow education of public opinion--tends to exert an +influence: (1) It is an important element in the sexual hygiene of the +young, introducing a wholesome knowledge and incuriosity into a sphere +once given up to prudery and pruriency. (2) The effect of nakedness is +beneficial on those of more mature age, also, in so far as it tends to +cultivate the sense of beauty and to furnish the tonic and consoling +influences of natural vigor and grace. (3) The custom of nakedness, in its +inception at all events, has a dynamic psychological influence also on +morals, an influence exerted in the substitution of a strenuous and +positive morality for the merely negative and timid morality which has +ruled in this sphere. + +Perhaps there are not many adults who realize the intense and secret +absorption of thought in the minds of many boys and some girls concerning +the problem of the physical conformation of the other sex, and the time, +patience, and intellectual energy which they are willing to expend on the +solution of this problem. This is mostly effected in secret, but not +seldom the secret impulse manifests itself with a sudden violence which in +the blind eyes of the law is reckoned as crime. A German lawyer, Dr. +Werthauer, has lately stated that if there were a due degree of +familiarity with the natural organs and functions of the opposite sex +ninety per cent. of the indecent acts of youths with girl children would +disappear, for in most cases these are not assaults but merely the +innocent, though uncontrollable, outcome of a repressed natural curiosity. +It is quite true that not a few children boldly enlist each others' +cooeperation in the settlement of the question and resolve it to their +mutual satisfaction. But even this is not altogether satisfactory, for the +end is not attained openly and wholesomely, with a due subordination of +the specifically sexual, but with a consciousness of wrong-doing and an +exclusive attentiveness to the merely physical fact which tend directly to +develop sexual excitement. When familiarity with the naked body of the +other sex is gained openly and with no consciousness of indecorum, in the +course of work and of play, in exercise or gymnastics, in running or in +bathing, from a child's earliest years, no unwholesome results accompany +the knowledge of the essential facts of physical conformation thus +naturally acquired. The prurience and prudery which have poisoned sexual +life in the past are alike rendered impossible. + +Nakedness has, however, a hygienic value, as well as a spiritual +significance, far beyond its influences in allaying the natural +inquisitiveness of the young or acting as a preventative of morbid +emotion. It is an inspiration to adults who have long outgrown any +youthful curiosities. The vision of the essential and eternal human form, +the nearest thing to us in all the world, with its vigor and its beauty +and its grace, is one of the prime tonics of life. "The power of a woman's +body," said James Hinton, "is no more bodily than the power of music is a +power of atmospheric vibrations." It is more than all the beautiful and +stimulating things of the world, than flowers or stars or the sea. History +and legend and myth reveal to us the sacred and awful influence of +nakedness, for, as Stanley Hall says, nakedness has always been "a +talisman of wondrous power with gods and men." How sorely men crave for +the spectacle of the human body--even to-day after generations have +inculcated the notion that it is an indecorous and even disgusting +spectacle--is witnessed by the eagerness with which they seek after the +spectacle of even its imperfect and meretricious forms, although these +certainly possess a heady and stimulating quality which can never be found +in the pathetic simplicity of naked beauty. It was another spectacle when +the queens of ancient Madagascar at the annual Fandroon, or feast of the +bath, laid aside their royal robes and while their subjects crowded the +palace courtyard, descended the marble steps to the bath in complete +nakedness. When we make our conventions of clothing rigid we at once +spread a feast for lust and deny ourselves one of the prime tonics of +life. + + "I was feeling in despair and walking despondently along a + Melbourne street," writes the Australian author of a yet + unpublished autobiography, "when three children came running out + of a lane and crossed the road in full daylight. The beauty and + texture of their legs in the open air filled me with joy, so that + I forgot all my troubles whilst looking at them. It was a bright + revelation, an unexpected glimpse of Paradise, and I have never + ceased to thank the happy combination of shape, pure blood, and + fine skin of these poverty-stricken children, for the wind seemed + to quicken their golden beauty, and I retained the rosy vision of + their natural young limbs, so much more divine than those always + under cover. Another occasion when naked young limbs made me + forget all my gloom and despondency was on my first visit to + Adelaide. I came on a naked boy leaning on the railing near the + Baths, and the beauty of his face, torso, fair young limbs and + exquisite feet filled me with joy and renewed hope. The tears + came to my eyes, and I said to myself, 'While there is beauty in + the world I will continue to struggle,'" + + We must, as Boelsche declares (loc. cit.), accustom ourselves to + gaze on the naked human body exactly as we gaze at a beautiful + flower, not merely with the pity with which the doctor looks at + the body, but with joy in its strength and health and beauty. For + a flower, as Boelsche truly adds, is not merely "naked body," it + is the most sacred region of the body, the sexual organs of the + plant. + + "For girls to dance naked," said Hinton, "is the only truly pure + form of dancing, and in due time it must therefore come about. + This is certain: girls will dance naked and men will be pure + enough to gaze on them." It has already been so in Greece, he + elsewhere remarks, as it is to-day in Japan (as more recently + described by Stratz). It is nearly forty years since these + prophetic words were written, but Hinton himself would probably + have been surprised at the progress which has already been made + slowly (for all true progress must be slow) towards this goal. + Even on the stage new and more natural traditions are beginning + to prevail in Europe. It is not many years since an English + actress regarded as a calumny the statement that she appeared on + the stage bare-foot, and brought an action for libel, winning + substantial damages. Such a result would scarcely be possible + to-day. The movement in which Isadora Duncan was a pioneer has + led to a partial disuse among dancers of the offensive device of + tights, and it is no longer considered indecorous to show many + parts of the body which it was formerly usual to cover. + + It should, however, be added at the same time that, while + dancers, in so far as they are genuine artists, are entitled to + determine the conditions most favorable to their art, nothing + whatever is gained for the cause of a wholesome culture of + nakedness by the "living statues" and "living pictures" which + have obtained an international vogue during recent years. These + may be legitimate as variety performances, but they have nothing + whatever to do with either Nature or art. Dr. Pudor, writing as + one of the earliest apostles of the culture of nakedness, has + energetically protested against these performances + (_Sexual-Probleme_, Dec., 1908, p. 828). He rightly points out + that nakedness, to be wholesome, requires the open air, the + meadows, the sunlight, and that nakedness at night, in a music + hall, by artificial light, in the presence of spectators who are + themselves clothed, has no element of morality about it. Attempts + have here and there been quietly made to cultivate a certain + amount of mutual nakedness as between the sexes on remote country + excursions. It is significant to find a record of such an + experiment in Ungewitter's _Die Nacktheit_. In this case a party + of people, men and women, would regularly every Sunday seek + remote spots in woods or meadows where they would settle down, + picnic, and enjoy games. "They made themselves as comfortable as + possible, the men laying aside their coats, waistcoats, boots and + socks; the women their blouses, skirts, shoes and stockings. + Gradually, as the moral conception of nakedness developed in + their minds, more and more clothing fell away, until the men wore + nothing but bathing-drawers and the women only their chemises. In + this 'costume' games were carried out in common, and a regular + camp-life led. The ladies (some of whom were unmarried) would + then lie in hammocks and we men on the grass, and the intercourse + was delightful. We felt as members of one family, and behaved + accordingly. In an entirely natural and unembarrassed way we gave + ourselves up entirely to the liberating feelings aroused by this + light- and air-bath, and passed these splendid hours in joyous + singing and dancing, in wantonly childish fashion, freed from the + burden of a false civilization. It was, of course, necessary to + seek spots as remote as possible from high-roads, for fear of + being disturbed. At the same time we by no means failed in + natural modesty and consideration towards one another. Children, + who can be entirely naked, may be allowed to take part in such + meetings of adults, and will thus be brought up free from morbid + prudery" (R. Ungewitter, _Die Nacktheit_, p. 58). + + No doubt it may be said that the ideal in this matter is the + possibility of permitting complete nakedness. This may be + admitted, and it is undoubtedly true that our rigid police + regulations do much to artificially foster a concealment in this + matter which is not based on any natural instinct. Dr. Shufeldt + narrates in his _Studies of the Human Form_ that once in the + course of a photographic expedition in the woods he came upon two + boys, naked except for bathing-drawers, engaged in getting water + lilies from a pond. He found them a good subject for his camera, + but they could not be induced to remove their drawers, by no + means out of either modesty or mock-modesty, but simply because + they feared they might possibly be caught and arrested. We have + to recognize that at the present day the general popular + sentiment is not yet sufficiently educated to allow of public + disregard for the convention of covering the sexual centres, and + all attempts to extend the bounds of nakedness must show a due + regard for this requirement. As concerns women, Valentin Lehr, of + Freiburg, in Breisgau, has invented a costume (figured in + Ungewitter's _Die Nacktheit_) which is suitable for either public + water-baths or air-baths, because it meets the demand of those + whose minimum requirement is that the chief sexual centres of the + body should be covered in public, while it is otherwise fairly + unobjectionable. It consists of two pieces, made of porous + material, one covering the breasts with a band over the + shoulders, and the other covering the abdomen below the navel and + drawn between the legs. This minimal costume, while neither ideal + nor aesthetic, adequately covers the sexual regions of the body, + while leaving the arms, waist, hips, and legs entirely free. + +There finally remains the moral aspect of nakedness. Although this has +been emphasized by many during the past half century it is still +unfamiliar to the majority. The human body can never be a little thing. +The wise educator may see to it that boys and girls are brought up in a +natural and wholesome familiarity with each other, but a certain terror +and beauty must always attach to the spectacle of the body, a mixed +attraction and repulsion. Because it has this force it naturally calls out +the virtue of those who take part in the spectacle, and makes impossible +any soft compliance to emotion. Even if we admit that the spectacle of +nakedness is a challenge to passion it is still a challenge that calls +out the ennobling qualities of self-control. It is but a poor sort of +virtue that lies in fleeing into the desert from things that we fear may +have in them a temptation. We have to learn that it is even worse to +attempt to create a desert around us in the midst of civilization. We +cannot dispense with passions if we would; reason, as Holbach said, is the +art of choosing the right passions, and education the art of sowing and +cultivating them in human hearts. The spectacle of nakedness has its moral +value in teaching us to learn to enjoy what we do not possess, a lesson +which is an essential part of the training for any kind of fine social +life. The child has to learn to look at flowers and not pluck them; the +man has to learn to look at a woman's beauty and not desire to possess it. +The joyous conquest over that "erotic kleptomania," as Ellen Key has well +said, reveals the blossoming of a fine civilization. We fancy the conquest +is difficult, even impossibly difficult. But it is not so. This impulse, +like other human impulses, tends under natural conditions to develop +temperately and wholesomely. We artificially press a stupid and brutal +hand on it, and it is driven into the two unnatural extremes of repression +and license, one extreme as foul as the other. + +To those who have been bred under bad conditions, it may indeed seem +hopeless to attempt to rise to the level of the Greeks and the other finer +tempered peoples of antiquity in realizing the moral, as well as the +pedagogic, hygienic, and aesthetic advantages[44] of admitting into life +the spectacle of the naked human body. But unless we do we hopelessly +fetter ourselves in our march along the road of civilization, we deprive +ourselves at once of a source of moral strength and of joyous inspiration. +Just as Wesley once asked why the devil should have all the best tunes, so +to-day men are beginning to ask why the human body, the most divine melody +at its finest moments that creation has yielded, should be allowed to +become the perquisite of those who lust for the obscene. And some are, +further, convinced that by enlisting it on the side of purity and strength +they are raising the most powerful of all bulwarks against the invasion of +a vicious conception of life and the consequent degradation of sex. These +are considerations which we cannot longer afford to neglect, however great +the opposition they arouse among the unthinking. + + "Folk are afraid of such things rousing the passions," Edward + Carpenter remarks. "No doubt the things may act that way. But + why, we may ask, should people be afraid of rousing passions + which, after all, are the great driving forces of human life?" It + is true, the same writer continues, our conventional moral + formulae are no longer strong enough to control passion + adequately, and that we are generating steam in a boiler that is + cankered with rust. "The cure is not to cut off the passions, or + to be weakly afraid of them, but to find a new, sound, healthy + engine of general morality and common sense within which they + will work" (Edward Carpenter, _Albany Review_, Sept., 1907). + + So far as I am aware, however, it was James Hinton who chiefly + sought to make clear the possibility of a positive morality on + the basis of nakedness, beauty, and sexual influence, regarded as + dynamic forces which, when suppressed, make for corruption and + when wisely used serve to inspire and ennoble life. He worked out + his thoughts on this matter in MSS., written from about 1870 to + his death two years later, which, never having been prepared for + publication, remain in a fragmentary state and have not been + published. I quote a few brief characteristic passages: "Is not," + he wrote, "the Hindu refusal to see a woman eating strangely like + ours to see one naked? The real sensuality of the thought is + visibly identical.... Suppose, because they are delicious to eat, + pineapples were forbidden to be seen, except in pictures, and + about that there was something dubious. Suppose no one might have + sight of a pineapple unless he were rich enough to purchase one + for his particular eating, the sight and the eating being so + indissolubly joined. What lustfulness would surround them, what + constant pruriency, what stealing!... Miss ---- told us of her + Syrian adventures, and how she went into a wood-carver's shop and + he would not look at her; and how she took up a tool and worked, + till at last he looked, and they both burst out laughing. Will it + not be even so with our looking at women altogether? There will + come a _work_--and at last we shall look up and both burst out + laughing.... When men see truly what is amiss, and act with + reason and forethought in respect to the sexual relations, will + they not insist on the enjoyment of women's beauty by youths, and + from the earliest age, that the first feeling may be of beauty? + Will they not say, 'We must not allow the false purity, we must + have the true.' The false has been tried, and it is not good + enough; the power purely to enjoy beauty must be gained; + attempting to do with less is fatal. Every instructor of youth + shall say: 'This beauty of woman, God's chief work of beauty, it + is good you see it; it is a pleasure that serves good; all beauty + serves it, and above all this, for its office is to make you + pure. Come to it as you come to daily bread, or pure air, or the + cleansing bath: this is pure to you if you be pure, it will aid + you in your effort to be so. But if any of you are impure, and + make of it the feeder of impurity, then you should be ashamed and + pray; it is not for you our life can be ordered; it is for men + and not for beasts.' This must come when men open their eyes, and + act coolly and with reason and forethought, and not in mere panic + in respect to the sexual passion in its moral relations." + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[40] Thus Athenaeus (Bk. xiii, Ch. XX) says: "In the Island of Chios it is +a beautiful sight to go to the gymnasia and the race-courses, and to see +the young men wrestling naked with the maidens who are also naked." + +[41] Augustine (_De civitate Dei_, lib. ii, cap. XIII) refers to the same +point, contrasting the Romans with the Greeks who honored their actors. + +[42] See "The Evolution of Modesty" in the first volume of these +_Studies_, where this question of the relationship of nakedness to modesty +is fully discussed. + +[43] C.H. Stratz, _Die Koerperformen in Kunst und Leben der Japaner_, +Second edition, Ch. III; id., _Frauenkleidung_, Third edition, pp. 22, 30. + +[44] I have not considered it in place here to emphasize the aesthetic +influence of familiarity with nakedness. The most aesthetic nations +(notably the Greeks and the Japanese) have been those that preserved a +certain degree of familiarity with the naked body. "In all arts," +Maeterlinck remarks, "civilized peoples have approached or departed from +pure beauty according as they approached or departed from the habit of +nakedness." Ungewitter insists on the advantage to the artist of being +able to study the naked body in movement, and it may be worth mentioning +that Fidus (Hugo Hoeppener), the German artist of to-day who has exerted +great influence by his fresh, powerful and yet reverent delineation of the +naked human form in all its varying aspects, attributes his inspiration +and vision to the fact that, as a pupil of Diefenbach, he was accustomed +with his companions to work naked in the solitudes outside Munich which +they frequented (F. Enzensberger, "Fidus," _Deutsche Kultur_, Aug., 1906). + + + + +CHAPTER IV. + +THE VALUATION OF SEXUAL LOVE. + +The Conception of Sexual Love--The Attitude of Mediaeval Asceticism--St. +Bernard and St. Odo of Cluny--The Ascetic Insistence on the Proximity of +the Sexual and Excretory Centres--Love as a Sacrament of Nature--The Idea +of the Impurity of Sex in Primitive Religions Generally--Theories of the +Origin of This Idea--The Anti-Ascetic Element in the Bible and Early +Christianity--Clement of Alexandria--St. Augustine's Attitude--The +Recognition of the Sacredness of the Body by Tertullian, Rufinus and +Athanasius--The Reformation--The Sexual Instinct regarded as Beastly--The +Human Sexual Instinct Not Animal-like--Lust and Love--The Definition of +Love--Love and Names for Love Unknown in Some Parts of the World--Romantic +Love of Late Development in the White Race--The Mystery of Sexual +Desire--Whether Love is a Delusion--The Spiritual as Well as the Physical +Structure of the World in Part Built up on Sexual Love--The Testimony of +Men of Intellect to the Supremacy of Love. + + +It will be seen that the preceding discussion of nakedness has a +significance beyond what it appeared to possess at the outset. The +hygienic value, physically and mentally, of familiarity with nakedness +during the early years of life, however considerable it may be, is not the +only value which such familiarity possesses. Beyond its aesthetic value, +also, there lies in it a moral value, a source of dynamic energy. And now, +taking a still further step, we may say that it has a spiritual value in +relation to our whole conception of the sexual impulse. Our attitude +towards the naked human body is the test of our attitude towards the +instinct of sex. If our own and our fellows' bodies seem to us +intrinsically shameful or disgusting, nothing will ever really ennoble or +purify our conceptions of sexual love. Love craves the flesh, and if the +flesh is shameful the lover must be shameful. "Se la cosa amata e vile," +as Leonardo da Vinci profoundly said, "l'amante se fa vile." However +illogical it may have been, there really was a justification for the old +Christian identification of the flesh with the sexual instinct. They stand +or fall together; we cannot degrade the one and exalt the other. As our +feelings towards nakedness are, so will be our feelings towards love. + +"Man is nothing else than fetid sperm, a sack of dung, the food of +worms.... You have never seen a viler dung-hill." Such was the outcome of +St. Bernard's cloistered _Meditationes Piissimae_.[45] Sometimes, indeed, +these mediaeval monks would admit that the skin possessed a certain +superficial beauty, but they only made that admission in order to +emphasize the hideousness of the body when deprived of this film of +loveliness, and strained all their perverse intellectual acumen, and their +ferocious irony, as they eagerly pointed the finger of mockery at every +detail of what seemed to them the pitiful figure of man. St. Odo of +Cluny--charming saint as he was and a pioneer in his appreciation of the +wild beauty of the Alps he had often traversed--was yet an adept in this +art of reviling the beauty of the human body. That beauty only lies in the +skin, he insists; if we could see beneath the skin women would arouse +nothing but nausea. Their adornments are but blood and mucus and bile. If +we refuse to touch dung and phlegm even with a fingertip, how can we +desire to embrace a sack of dung?[46] The mediaeval monks of the more +contemplative order, indeed, often found here a delectable field of +meditation, and the Christian world generally was content to accept their +opinions in more or less diluted versions, or at all events never made any +definite protest against them. + +Even men of science accepted these conceptions and are, indeed, only now +beginning to emancipate themselves from such ancient superstitions. R. de +Graef in the Preface to his famous treatise on the generative organs of +women, _De Mulierum Organis Generatione Inservientibus_, dedicated to +Cosmo III de Medici in 1672, considered it necessary to apologize for the +subject of his work. Even a century later, Linnaeus in his great work, _The +System of Nature_, dismissed as "abominable" the exact study of the female +genitals, although he admitted the scientific interest of such +investigations. And if men of science have found it difficult to attain an +objective vision of women we cannot be surprised that medieval and still +more ancient conceptions have often been subtly mingled with the views of +philosophical and semi-philosophical writers.[47] + +We may regard as a special variety of the ascetic view of sex,--for the +ascetics, as we see, freely but not quite legitimately, based their +asceticism largely on aesthetic considerations,--that insistence on the +proximity of the sexual to the excretory centres which found expression in +the early Church in Augustine's depreciatory assertion: "Inter faeces et +urinam nascimur," and still persists among many who by no means always +associate it with religious asceticism.[48] "As a result of what +ridiculous economy, and of what Mephistophilian irony," asks Tarde,[49] +"has Nature imagined that a function so lofty, so worthy of the poetic and +philosophical hymns which have celebrated it, only deserved to have its +exclusive organ shared with that of the vilest corporal functions?" + +It may, however, be pointed out that this view of the matter, however +unconsciously, is itself the outcome of the ascetic depreciation of the +body. From a scientific point of view, the metabolic processes of the +body from one end to the other, whether regarded chemically or +psychologically, are all interwoven and all of equal dignity. We cannot +separate out any particular chemical or biological process and declare: +This is vile. Even what we call excrement still stores up the stuff of our +lives. Eating has to some persons seemed a disgusting process. But yet it +has been possible to say, with Thoreau, that "the gods have really +intended that men should feed divinely, as themselves, on their own nectar +and ambrosia.... I have felt that eating became a sacrament, a method of +communion, an ecstatic exercise, and a sitting at the communion table of +the world." + +The sacraments of Nature are in this way everywhere woven into the texture +of men's and women's bodies. Lips good to kiss with are indeed first of +all chiefly good to eat and drink with. So accumulated and overlapped have +the centres of force become in the long course of development, that the +mucous membranes of the natural orifices, through the sensitiveness gained +in their own offices, all become agents to thrill the soul in the contact +of love; it is idle to discriminate high or low, pure or impure; all alike +are sanctified already by the extreme unction of Nature. The nose receives +the breath of life; the vagina receives the water of life. Ultimately the +worth and loveliness of life must be measured by the worth and loveliness +for us of the instruments of life. The swelling breasts are such divinely +gracious insignia of womanhood because of the potential child that hangs +at them and sucks; the large curves of the hips are so voluptuous because +of the potential child they clasp within them; there can be no division +here, we cannot cut the roots from the tree. The supreme function of +manhood--the handing on of the lamp of life to future races--is carried +on, it is true, by the same instrument that is the daily conduit of the +bladder. It has been said in scorn that we are born between urine and +excrement; it may be said, in reverence, that the passage through this +channel of birth is a sacrament of Nature's more sacred and significant +than men could ever invent. + +These relationships have been sometimes perceived and their meaning +realized by a sort of mystical intuition. We catch glimpses of such an +insight now and again, first among the poets and later among the +physicians of the Renaissance. In 1664 Rolfincius, in his _Ordo et Methods +Generationi Partium etc._, at the outset of the second Part devoted to the +sexual organs of women, sets forth what ancient writers have said of the +Eleusinian and other mysteries and the devotion and purity demanded of +those who approached these sacred rites. It is so also with us, he +continues, in the rites of scientific investigation. "We also operate with +sacred things. The organs of sex are to be held among sacred things. They +who approach these altars must come with devout minds. Let the profane +stand without, and the doors be closed." In those days, even for science, +faith and intuition were alone possible. It is only of recent years that +the histologist's microscope and the physiological chemist's test-tube +have furnished them with a rational basis. It is no longer possible to cut +Nature in two and assert that here she is pure and there impure.[50] + + There thus appears to be no adequate ground for agreeing with + those who consider that the proximity of the generative and + excretory centres is "a stupid bungle of Nature's." An + association which is so ancient and primitive in Nature can only + seem repulsive to those whose feelings have become morbidly + unnatural. It may further be remarked that the anus, which is the + more aesthetically unattractive of the excretory centres, is + comparatively remote from the sexual centre, and that, as R. + Hellmann remarked many years ago in discussing this question + (_Ueber Geschlechtsfreiheit_, p. 82): "In the first place, + freshly voided urine has nothing specially unpleasant about it, + and in the second place, even if it had, we might reflect that a + rosy mouth by no means loses its charm merely because it fails to + invite a kiss at the moment when its possessor is vomiting." + + A clergyman writes suggesting that we may go further and find a + positive advantage in this proximity: "I am glad that you do not + agree with the man who considered that Nature had bungled by + using the genitals for urinary purposes; apart from teleological + or theological grounds I could not follow that line of reasoning. + I think there is no need for disgust concerning the urinary + organs, though I feel that the anus can never be attractive to + the normal mind; but the anus is quite separate from the + genitals. I would suggest that the proximity serves a good end in + making the organs more or less secret except at times of sexual + emotion or to those in love. The result is some degree of + repulsion at ordinary times and a strong attraction at times of + sexual activity. Hence, the ordinary guarding of the parts, from + fear of creating disgust, greatly increases their attractiveness + at other times when sexual emotion is paramount. Further, the + feeling of disgust itself is merely the result of habit and + sentiment, however useful it may be, and according to Scripture + everything is clean and good. The ascetic feeling of repulsion, + if we go back to origin, is due to other than Christian + influence. Christianity came out of Judaism which had no sense of + the impurity of marriage, for 'unclean' in the Old Testament + simply means 'sacred.' The ascetic side of the religion of + Christianity is no part of the religion of Christ as it came from + the hands of its Founder, and the modern feeling on this matter + is a lingering remnant of the heresy of the Manichaeans." I may + add, however, that, as Northcote points out (_Christianity and + Sex Problems_, p. 14), side by side in the Old Testament with the + frank recognition of sexuality, there is a circle of ideas + revealing the feeling of impurity in sex and of shame in + connection with it. Christianity inherited this mixed feeling. It + has really been a widespread and almost universal feeling among + the ancient and primitive peoples that there is something impure + and sinful in the things of sex, so that those who would lead a + religious life must avoid sexual relationships; even in India + celibacy has commanded respect (see, e.g., Westermarck, + _Marriage_, pp. 150 et seq.). As to the original foundation of + this notion--which it is unnecessary to discuss more fully + here--many theories have been put forward; St. Augustine, in his + _De Civitate Dei_, sets forth the ingenious idea that the penis, + being liable to spontaneous movements and erections that are not + under the control of the will, is a shameful organ and involves + the whole sphere of sex in its shame. Westermarck argues that + among nearly all peoples there is a feeling against sexual + relationship with members of the same family or household, and as + sex was thus banished from the sphere of domestic life a notion + of its general impurity arose; Northcote points out that from the + first it has been necessary to seek concealment for sexual + intercourse, because at that moment the couple would be a prey to + hostile attacks, and that it was by an easy transition that sex + came to be regarded as a thing that ought to be concealed, and, + therefore, a sinful thing. (Diderot, in his _Supplement au Voyage + de Bougainville_, had already referred to this motive for + seclusion as "the only natural element in modesty.") Crawley has + devoted a large part of his suggestive work, _The Mystic Rose_, + to showing that, to savage man, sex is a perilous, dangerous, and + enfeebling element in life, and, therefore, sinful. + +It would, however, be a mistake to think that such men as St. Bernard and +St. Odo of Cluny, admirably as they represented the ascetic and even the +general Christian views of their own time, are to be regarded as +altogether typical exponents of the genuine and primitive Christian view. +So far as I have been able to discover, during the first thousand years of +Christianity we do not find this concentrated intellectual and emotional +ferocity of attack on the body; it only developed at the moment when, with +Pope Gregory VII, mediaeval Christianity reached the climax of its conquest +over the souls of European men, in the establishment of the celibacy of +the secular clergy, and the growth of the great cloistered communities of +monks in severely regulated and secluded orders.[51] Before that the +teachers of asceticism were more concerned to exhort to chastity and +modesty than to direct a deliberate and systematic attack on the whole +body; they concentrated their attention rather on spiritual virtues than +on physical imperfections. And if we go back to the Gospels we find little +of the mediaeval ascetic spirit in the reported sayings and doings of +Jesus, which may rather indeed be said to reveal, on the whole, +notwithstanding their underlying asceticism, a certain tenderness and +indulgence to the body, while even Paul, though not tender towards the +body, exhorts to reverence towards it as a temple of the Holy Spirit. + +We cannot expect to find the Fathers of the Church sympathetic towards the +spectacle of the naked human body, for their position was based on a +revolt against paganism, and paganism had cultivated the body. Nakedness +had been more especially associated with the public bath, the gymnasium, +and the theatre; in profoundly disapproving of these pagan institutions +Christianity discouraged nakedness. The fact that familiarity with +nakedness was favorable, rather than opposed, to the chastity to which it +attached so much importance, the Church--though indeed at one moment it +accepted nakedness in the rite of baptism--was for the most part unable to +see if it was indeed a fact which the special conditions of decadent +classic life had tended to disguise. But in their decided preference for +the dressed over the naked human body the early Christians frequently +hesitated to take the further step of asserting that the body is a focus +of impurity and that the physical organs of sex are a device of the devil. +On the contrary, indeed, some of the most distinguished of the Fathers, +especially those of the Eastern Church who had felt the vivifying breath +of Greek thought, occasionally expressed themselves on the subject of +Nature, sex, and the body in a spirit which would have won the approval of +Goethe or Whitman. + +Clement of Alexandria, with all the eccentricities of his over-subtle +intellect, was yet the most genuinely Greek of all the Fathers, and it is +not surprising that the dying ray of classic light reflected from his mind +shed some illumination over this question of sex. He protested, for +instance, against that prudery which, as the sun of the classic world set, +had begun to overshadow life. "We should not be ashamed to name," he +declared, "what God has not been ashamed to create."[52] It was a +memorable declaration because, while it accepted the old classic feeling +of no shame in the presence of nature, it put that feeling on a new and +religious basis harmonious to Christianity. Throughout, though not always +quite consistently, Clement defends the body and the functions of sex +against those who treated them with contempt. And as the cause of sex is +the cause of women he always strongly asserts the dignity of women, and +also proclaims the holiness of marriage, a state which he sometimes places +above that of virginity.[53] + +Unfortunately, it must be said, St. Augustine--another North African, but +of Roman Carthage and not of Greek Alexandria--thought that he had a +convincing answer to the kind of argument which Clement presented, and so +great was the force of his passionate and potent genius that he was able +in the end to make his answer prevail. For Augustine sin was hereditary, +and sin had its special seat and symbol in the sexual organs; the fact of +sin has modified the original divine act of creation, and we cannot treat +sex and its organs as though there had been no inherited sin. Our sexual +organs, he declares, have become shameful because, through sin, they are +now moved by lust. At the same time Augustine by no means takes up the +mediaeval ascetic position of contemptuous hatred towards the body. Nothing +can be further from Odo of Cluny than Augustine's enthusiasm about the +body, even about the exquisite harmony of the parts beneath the skin. "I +believe it may be concluded," he even says, "that in the creation of the +human body beauty was more regarded than necessity. In truth, necessity is +a transitory thing, and the time is coming when we shall be able to enjoy +one another's beauty without any lust."[54] Even in the sphere of sex he +would be willing to admit purity and beauty, apart from the inherited +influence of Adam's sin. In Paradise, he says, had Paradise continued, the +act of generation would have been as simple and free from shame as the act +of the hand in scattering seed on to the earth. "Sexual conjugation would +have been under the control of the will without any sexual desire. The +semen would be injected into the vagina in as simple a manner as the +menstrual fluid is now ejected. There would not have been any words which +could be called obscene, but all that might be said of these members would +have been as pure as what is said of the other parts of the body."[55] +That, however, for Augustine, is what might have been in Paradise where, +as he believed, sexual desire had no existence. As things are, he held, we +are right to be ashamed, we do well to blush. And it was natural that, as +Clement of Alexandria mentions, many heretics should have gone further on +this road and believed that while God made man down to the navel, the rest +was made by another power; such heretics have their descendants among us +even to-day. + +Alike in the Eastern and Western Churches, however, both before and after +Augustine, though not so often after, great Fathers and teachers have +uttered opinions which recall those of Clement rather than of Augustine. +We cannot lay very much weight on the utterance of the extravagant and +often contradictory Tertullian, but it is worth noting that, while he +declared that woman is the gate of hell, he also said that we must +approach Nature with reverence and not with blushes. "Natura veneranda +est, non erubescenda." "No Christian author," it has indeed been said, +"has so energetically spoken against the heretical contempt of the body as +Tertullian. Soul and body, according to Tertullian, are in the closest +association. The soul is the life-principle of the body, but there is no +activity of the soul which is not manifested and conditioned by the +flesh."[56] More weight attaches to Rufinus Tyrannius, the friend and +fellow-student of St. Jerome, in the fourth century, who wrote a +commentary on the Apostles' Creed, which was greatly esteemed by the early +and mediaeval Church, and is indeed still valued even to-day. Here, in +answer to those who declared that there was obscenity in the fact of +Christ's birth through the sexual organs of a woman, Rufinus replies that +God created the sexual organs, and that "it is not Nature but merely human +opinion which teaches that these parts are obscene. For the rest, all the +parts of the body are made from the same clay, whatever differences there +may be in their uses and functions."[57] He looks at the matter, we see, +piously indeed, but naturally and simply, like Clement, and not, like +Augustine, through the distorting medium of a theological system. +Athanasius, in the Eastern Church, spoke in the same sense as Rufinus in +the Western Church. A certain monk named Amun had been much grieved by the +occurrence of seminal emissions during sleep, and he wrote to Athanasius +to inquire if such emissions are a sin. In the letter he wrote in reply, +Athanasius seeks to reassure Amun. "All things," he tells him, "are pure +to the pure. For what, I ask, dear and pious friend, can there be sinful +or naturally impure in excrement? Man is the handwork of God. There is +certainly nothing in us that is impure."[58] We feel as we read these +utterances that the seeds of prudery and pruriency are already alive in +the popular mind, but yet we see also that some of the most distinguished +thinkers of the early Christian Church, in striking contrast to the more +morbid and narrow-minded mediaeval ascetics, clearly stood aside from the +popular movement. On the whole, they were submerged because Christianity, +like Buddhism, had in it from the first a germ that lent itself to ascetic +renunciation, and the sexual life is always the first impulse to be +sacrificed to the passion for renunciation. But there were other germs +also in Christianity, and Luther, who in his own plebeian way asserted the +rights of the body, although he broke with mediaeval asceticism, by no +means thereby cast himself off from the traditions of the early Christian +Church. + +I have thought it worth while to bring forward this evidence, although I +am perfectly well aware that the facts of Nature gain no additional +support from the authority of the Fathers or even of the Bible. Nature and +humanity existed before the Bible and would continue to exist although the +Bible should be forgotten. But the attitude of Christianity on this point +has so often been unreservedly condemned that it seems as well to point +out that at its finest moments, when it was a young and growing power in +the world, the utterances of Christianity were often at one with those of +Nature and reason. There are many, it may be added, who find it a matter +of consolation that in following the natural and rational path in this +matter they are not thereby altogether breaking with the religious +traditions of their race. + + It is scarcely necessary to remark that when we turn from + Christianity to the other great world-religions, we do not + usually meet with so ambiguous an attitude towards sex. The + Mahommedans were as emphatic in asserting the sanctity of sex as + they were in asserting physical cleanliness; they were prepared + to carry the functions of sex into the future life, and were + never worried, as Luther and so many other Christians have been, + concerning the lack of occupation in Heaven. In India, although + India is the home of the most extreme forms of religious + asceticism, sexual love has been sanctified and divinized to a + greater extent than in any other part of the world. "It seems + never to have entered into the heads of the Hindu legislators," + said Sir William Jones long since (_Works_, vol. ii, p. 311), + "that anything natural could be offensively obscene, a + singularity which pervades all their writings, but is no proof of + the depravity of their morals." The sexual act has often had a + religious significance in India, and the minutest details of the + sexual life and its variations are discussed in Indian erotic + treatises in a spirit of gravity, while nowhere else have the + anatomical and physiological sexual characters of women been + studied with such minute and adoring reverence. "Love in India, + both as regards theory and practice," remarks Richard Schmidt + (_Beitraege zur Indischen Erotik_, p. 2) "possesses an importance + which it is impossible for us even to conceive." + +In Protestant countries the influence of the Reformation, by +rehabilitating sex as natural, indirectly tended to substitute in popular +feeling towards sex the opprobrium of sinfulness by the opprobrium of +animality. Henceforth the sexual impulse must be disguised or adorned to +become respectably human. This may be illustrated by a passage in Pepys's +_Diary_ in the seventeenth century. On the morning after the wedding day +it was customary to call up new married couples by music; the absence of +this music on one occasion (in 1667) seemed to Pepys "as if they had +married like dog and bitch." We no longer insist on the music, but the +same feeling still exists in the craving for other disguises and +adornments for the sexual impulse. We do not always realize that love +brings its own sanctity with it. + +Nowadays indeed, whenever the repugnance to the sexual side of life +manifests itself, the assertion nearly always made is not so much that it +is "sinful" as that it is "beastly." It is regarded as that part of man +which most closely allies him to the lower animals. It should scarcely be +necessary to point out that this is a mistake. On whichever side, indeed, +we approach it, the implication that sex in man and animals is identical +cannot be borne out. From the point of view of those who accept this +identity it would be much more correct to say that men are inferior, +rather than on a level with animals, for in animals under natural +conditions the sexual instinct is strictly subordinated to reproduction +and very little susceptible to deviation, so that from the standpoint of +those who wish to minimize sex, animals are nearer to the ideal, and such +persons must say with Woods Hutchinson: "Take it altogether, our animal +ancestors have quite as good reason to be ashamed of us as we of them." +But if we look at the matter from a wider biological standpoint of +development, our conclusion must be very different. + +So far from being animal-like, the human impulses of sex are among the +least animal-like acquisitions of man. The human sphere of sex differs +from the animal sphere of sex to a singularly great extent.[59] Breathing +is an animal function and here we cannot compete with birds; locomotion is +an animal function and here we cannot equal quadrupeds; we have made no +notable advance in our circulatory, digestive, renal, or hepatic +functions. Even as regards vision and hearing, there are many animals that +are more keen-sighted than man, and many that are capable of hearing +sounds that to him are inaudible. But there are no animals in whom the +sexual instinct is so sensitive, so highly developed, so varied in its +manifestations, so constantly alert, so capable of irradiating the highest +and remotest parts of the organism. The sexual activities of man and woman +belong not to that lower part of our nature which degrades us to the level +of the "brute," but to the higher part which raises us towards all the +finest activities and ideals we are capable of. It is true that it is +chiefly in the mouths of a few ignorant and ill-bred women that we find +sex referred to as "bestial" or "the animal part of our nature."[60] But +since women are the mothers and teachers of the human race this is a piece +of ignorance and ill-breeding which cannot be too swiftly eradicated. + +There are some who seem to think that they have held the balance evenly, +and finally stated the matter, if they admit that sexual love may be +either beautiful or disgusting, and that either view is equally normal and +legitimate. "Listen in turn," Tarde remarks, "to two men who, one cold, +the other ardent, one chaste, the other in love, both equally educated and +large-minded, are estimating the same thing: one judges as disgusting, +odious, revolting, and bestial what the other judges to be delicious, +exquisite, ineffable, divine. What, for one, is in Christian phraseology, +an unforgivable sin, is, for the other, the state of true grace. Acts that +for one seem a sad and occasional necessity, stains that must be carefully +effaced by long intervals of continence, are for the other the golden +nails from which all the rest of conduct and existence is suspended, the +things that alone give human life its value."[61] Yet we may well doubt +whether both these persons are "equally well-educated and broad-minded." +The savage feels that sex is perilous, and he is right. But the person who +feels that the sexual impulse is bad, or even low and vulgar, is an +absurdity in the universe, an anomaly. He is like those persons in our +insane asylums, who feel that the instinct of nutrition is evil and so +proceed to starve themselves. They are alike spiritual outcasts in the +universe whose children they are. It is another matter when a man declares +that, personally, in his own case, he cherishes an ascetic ideal which +leads him to restrain, so far as possible, either or both impulses. The +man, who is sanely ascetic seeks a discipline which aids the ideal he has +personally set before himself. He may still remain theoretically in +harmony with the universe to which he belongs. But to pour contempt on +the sexual life, to throw the veil of "impurity" over it, is, as Nietzsche +declared, the unpardonable sin against the Holy Ghost of Life. + +There are many who seek to conciliate prejudice and reason in their +valuation of sex by drawing a sharp distinction between "lust" and "love," +rejecting the one and accepting the other. It is quite proper to make such +a distinction, but the manner in which it is made will by no means usually +bear examination. We have to define what we mean by "lust" and what we +mean by "love," and this is not easy if they are regarded as mutually +exclusive. It is sometimes said that "lust" must be understood as meaning +a reckless indulgence of the sexual impulse without regard to other +considerations. So understood, we are quite safe in rejecting it. But that +is an entirely arbitrary definition of the word. "Lust" is really a very +ambiguous term; it is a good word that has changed its moral values, and +therefore we need to define it very carefully before we venture to use it. +Properly speaking, "lust" is an entirely colorless word[62] and merely +means desire in general and sexual desire in particular; it corresponds to +"hunger" or "thirst"; to use it in an offensive sense is much the same as +though we should always assume that the word "hungry" had the offensive +meaning of "greedy." The result has been that sensitive minds indignantly +reject the term "lust" in connection with love.[63] In the early use of +our language, "lust," "lusty," and "lustful" conveyed the sense of +wholesome and normal sexual vigor; now, with the partial exception of +"lusty," they have been so completely degraded to a lower sense that +although it would be very convenient to restore them to their original +and proper place, which still remains vacant, the attempt at such a +restoration scarcely seems a hopeful task. We have so deeply poisoned the +springs of feeling in these matters with mediaeval ascetic crudities that +all our words of sex tend soon to become bespattered with filth; we may +pick them up from the mud into which they have fallen and seek to purify +them, but to many eyes they will still seem dirty. One result of this +tendency is that we have no simple, precise, natural word for the love of +the sexes, and are compelled to fall back on the general term, which is so +extensive in its range that in English and French and most of the other +leading languages of Europe, it is equally correct to "love" God or to +"love" eating. + +Love, in the sexual sense, is, summarily considered, a synthesis of lust +(in the primitive and uncolored sense of sexual emotion) and friendship. +It is incorrect to apply the term "love" in the sexual sense to elementary +and uncomplicated sexual desire; it is equally incorrect to apply it to +any variety or combination of varieties of friendship. There can be no +sexual love without lust; but, on the other hand, until the currents of +lust in the organism have been so irradiated as to affect other parts of +the psychic organism--at the least the affections and the social +feelings--it is not yet sexual love. Lust, the specific sexual impulse, is +indeed the primary and essential element in this synthesis, for it alone +is adequate to the end of reproduction, not only in animals but in men. +But it is not until lust is expanded and irradiated that it develops into +the exquisite and enthralling flower of love. We may call to mind what +happens among plants: on the one hand we have the lower organisms in which +sex is carried on summarily and cryptogamically, never shedding any shower +of gorgeous blossoms on the world, and on the other hand the higher plants +among whom sex has become phanersgamous and expanded enormously into form +and color and fragrance. + + While "lust" is, of course, known all over the world, and there + are everywhere words to designate it, "love" is not universally + known, and in many languages there are no words for "love." The + failures to find love are often remarkable and unexpected. We may + find it where we least expect it. Sexual desire became idealized + (as Sergi has pointed out) even by some animals, especially + birds, for when a bird pines to death for the loss of its mate + this cannot be due to the uncomplicated instinct of sex, but must + involve the interweaving of that instinct with the other elements + of life to a degree which is rare even among the most civilized + men. Some savage races seem to have no fundamental notion of + love, and (like the American Nahuas) no primary word for it, + while, on the other hand, in Quichua, the language of the ancient + Peruvians, there are nearly six hundred combinations of the verb + _munay_, to love. Among some peoples love seems to be confined to + the women. Letourneau (_L'Evolution Litteraire_, p. 529) points + out that in various parts of the world women have taken a leading + part in creating erotic poetry. It may be mentioned in this + connection that suicide from erotic motives among primitive + peoples occurs chiefly among women (_Zeitschrift fuer + Sozialwissenschaft_, 1899, p. 578). Not a few savages possess + love-poems, as, for instance, the Suahali (Velten, in his _Prosa + und Poesie der Suahali_, devotes a section to love-poems + reproduced in the Suahali language). D.G. Brinton, in an + interesting paper on "The Conception of Love in Some American + Languages" (_Proceedings American Philosophical Society_, vol. + xxiii, p. 546, 1886) states that the words for love in these + languages reveal four main ways of expressing the conception: (1) + inarticulate cries of emotion; (2) assertions of sameness or + similarity; (3) assertions of conjunction or union; (4) + assertions of a wish, desire, a longing. Brinton adds that "these + same notions are those which underlie the majority of the words + of love in the great Aryan family of languages." The remarkable + fact emerges, however, that the peoples of Aryan tongue were slow + in developing their conception of sexual love. Brinton remarks + that the American Mayas must be placed above the peoples of early + Aryan culture, in that they possessed a radical word for the joy + of love which was in significance purely psychical, referring + strictly to a mental state, and neither to similarity nor desire. + Even the Greeks were late in developing any ideal of sexual love. + This has been well brought out by E.F.M. Benecke in his + _Antimachus of Colophon and the Position of Women in Greek + Poetry_, a book which contains some hazardous assertions, but is + highly instructive from the present point of view. The Greek + lyric poets wrote practically no love poems at all to women + before Anacreon, and his were only written in old age. True love + for the Greeks was nearly always homosexual. The Ionian lyric + poets of early Greece regarded woman as only an instrument of + pleasure and the founder of the family. Theognis compares + marriage to cattle-breeding; Alcman, when he wishes to be + complimentary to the Spartan girls, speaks of them as his "female + boy-friends." AEschylus makes even a father assume that his + daughters will misbehave if left to themselves. There is no + sexual love in Sophocles, and in Euripides it is only the women + who fall in love. Benecke concludes (p. 67) that in Greece sexual + love, down to a comparatively later period, was looked down on, + and held to be unworthy of public discussion and representation. + It was in Magna Graecia rather than in Greece itself that men took + interest in women, and it was not until the Alexandrian period, + and notably in Asclepiades, Benecke maintains, that the love of + women was regarded as a matter of life and death. Thereafter the + conception of sexual love, in its romantic aspects, appears in + European life. With the Celtic story of Tristram, as Gaston Paris + remarks, it finally appears in the Christian European world of + poetry as the chief point in human life, the great motive force + of conduct. + + Romantic love failed, however, to penetrate the masses in Europe. + In the sixteenth century, or whenever it was that the ballad of + "Glasgerion" was written, we see it is assumed that a churl's + relation to his mistress is confined to the mere act of sexual + intercourse; he fails to kiss her on arriving or departing; it is + only the knight, the man of upper class, who would think of + offering that tender civility. And at the present day in, for + instance, the region between East Friesland and the Alps, Bloch + states (_Sexualleben unserer Zeit_, p. 29), following E.H. Meyer, + that the word "love" is unknown among the masses, and only its + coarse counterpart recognized. + + On the other side of the world, in Japan, sexual love seems to be + in as great disrepute as it was in ancient Greece; thus Miss + Tsuda, a Japanese head-mistress, and herself a Christian, remarks + (as quoted by Mrs. Eraser in _World's Work and Play_, Dec., + 1906): "That word 'love' has been hitherto a word unknown among + our girls, in the foreign sense. Duty, submission, + kindness--these were the sentiments which a girl was expected to + bring to the husband who had been chosen for her--and many happy, + harmonious marriages were the result. Now, your dear sentimental + foreign women say to our girls: 'It is wicked to marry without + love; the obedience to parents in such a case is an outrage + against nature and Christianity. If you love a man you must + sacrifice everything to marry him.'" + + When, however, love is fully developed it becomes an enormously + extended, highly complex emotion, and lust, even in the best + sense of that word, becomes merely a cooerdinated element among + many other elements. Herbert Spencer, in an interesting passage + of his _Principles of Psychology_ (Part IV, Ch. VIII), has + analyzed love into as many as nine distinct and important + elements: (1) the physical impulse of sex; (2) the feeling for + beauty; (3) affection; (4) admiration and respect; (5) love of + approbation; (6) self-esteem; (7) proprietary feeling; (8) + extended liberty of action from the absence of personal barriers; + (9) exaltation of the sympathies. "This passion," he concludes, + "fuses into one immense aggregate most of the elementary + excitations of which we are capable." + +It is scarcely necessary to say that to define sexual love, or even to +analyze its components, is by no means to explain its mystery. We seek to +satisfy our intelligence by means of a coherent picture of love, but the +gulf between that picture and the emotional reality must always be +incommensurable and impassable. "There is no word more often pronounced +than that of love," wrote Bonstetten many years ago, "yet there is no +subject more mysterious. Of that which touches us most nearly we know +least. We measure the march of the stars and we do not know how we love." +And however expert we have become in detecting and analyzing the causes, +the concomitants, and the results of love, we must still make the same +confession to-day. We may, as some have done, attempt to explain love as a +form of hunger and thirst, or as a force analogous to electricity, or as a +kind of magnetism, or as a variety of chemical affinity, or as a vital +tropism, but these explanations are nothing more than ways of expressing +to ourselves the magnitude of the phenomenon we are in the presence of. + +What has always baffled men in the contemplation of sexual love is the +seeming inadequacy of its cause, the immense discrepancy between the +necessarily circumscribed region of mucous membrane which is the final +goal of such love and the sea of world-embracing emotions to which it +seems as the door, so that, as Remy de Gourmont has said, "the mucous +membranes, by an ineffable mystery, enclose in their obscure folds all the +riches of the infinite." It is a mystery before which the thinker and the +artist are alike overcome. Donnay, in his play _L'Escalade_, makes a cold +and stern man of science, who regards love as a mere mental disorder which +can be cured like other disorders, at last fall desperately in love +himself. He forces his way into the girl's room, by a ladder, at dead of +night, and breaks into a long and passionate speech: "Everything that +touches you becomes to me mysterious and sacred. Ah! to think that a thing +so well known as a woman's body, which sculptors have modelled, which +poets have sung of, which men of science like myself have dissected, that +such a thing should suddenly become an unknown mystery and an infinite joy +merely because it is the body of one particular woman--what insanity! And +yet that is what I feel."[64] + +That love is a natural insanity, a temporary delusion which the individual +is compelled to suffer for the sake of the race, is indeed an explanation +that has suggested itself to many who have been baffled by this mystery. +That, as we know, was the explanation offered by Schopenhauer. When a +youth and a girl fall into each other's arms in the ecstacy of love they +imagine that they are seeking their own happiness. But it is not so, said +Schopenhauer; they are deluded by the genius of the race into the belief +that they are seeking a personal end in order that they may be induced to +effect a far greater impersonal end: the creation of the future race. The +intensity of their passion is not the measure of the personal happiness +they will secure but the measure of their aptitude for producing +offspring. In accepting passion and renouncing the counsels of cautious +prudence the youth and the girl are really sacrificing their chances of +selfish happiness and fulfilling the larger ends of Nature. As +Schopenhauer saw the matter, there was here no vulgar illusion. The lovers +thought that they were reaching towards a boundlessly immense personal +happiness; they were probably deceived. But they were deceived not because +the reality was less than their imagination, but because it was more; +instead of pursuing, as they thought, a merely personal end they were +carrying on the creative work of the world, a task better left undone, as +Schopenhauer viewed it, but a task whose magnitude he fully +recognized.[65] + +It must be remembered that in the lower sense of deception, love may be, +and frequently is, a delusion. A man may deceive himself, or be deceived +by the object of his attraction, concerning the qualities that she +possesses or fails to possess. In first love, occurring in youth, such +deception is perhaps entirely normal, and in certain suggestible and +inflammable types of people it is peculiarly apt to occur. This kind of +deception, although far more frequent and conspicuous in matters of +love--and more serious because of the tightness of the marriage bond--is +liable to occur in any relation of life. For most people, however, and +those not the least sane or the least wise, the memory of the exaltation +of love, even when the period of that exaltation is over, still remains +as, at the least, the memory of one of the most real and essential facts +of life.[66] + + Some writers seem to confuse the liability in matters of love to + deception or disappointment with the larger question of a + metaphysical illusion in Schopenhauer's sense. To some extent + this confusion perhaps exists in the discussion of love by + Renouvier and Prat in _La Nouvelle Monadologie_ (pp. 216 _et + seq._). In considering whether love is or is not a delusion, they + answer that it is or is not according as we are, or are not, + dominated by selfishness and injustice. "It was not an essential + error which presided over the creation of the _idol_, for the + idol is only what in all things the _ideal_ is. But to realize + the ideal in love two persons are needed, and therein is the + great difficulty. We are never justified," they conclude, "in + casting contempt on our love, or even on its object, for if it is + true that we have not gained possession of the sovereign beauty + of the world it is equally true that we have not attained a + degree of perfection that would have entitled us justly to claim + so great a prize." And perhaps most of us, it may be added, must + admit in the end, if we are honest with ourselves, that the + prizes of love we have gained in the world, whatever their flaws, + are far greater than we deserved. + +We may well agree that in a certain sense not love alone but all the +passions and desires of men are illusions. In that sense the Gospel of +Buddha is justified, and we may recognize the inspiration of Shakespeare +(in the _Tempest_) and of Calderon (in _La Vida es Sueno_), who felt that +ultimately the whole world is an insubstantial dream. But short of that +large and ultimate vision we cannot accept illusion; we cannot admit that +love is a delusion in some special and peculiar sense that men's other +cravings and aspirations escape. On the contrary, it is the most solid of +realities. All the progressive forms of life are built up on the +attraction of sex. If we admit the action of sexual selection--as we can +scarcely fail to do if we purge it from its unessential +accretions[67]--love has moulded the precise shape and color, the +essential beauty, alike of animal and human life. + +If we further reflect that, as many investigators believe, not only the +physical structure of life but also its spiritual structure--our social +feelings, our morality, our religion, our poetry and art--are, in some +degree at least, also built up on the impulse of sex, and would have been, +if not non-existent, certainly altogether different had other than sexual +methods of propagation prevailed in the world, we may easily realize that +we can only fall into confusion by dismissing love as a delusion. The +whole edifice of life topples down, for as the idealist Schiller long +since said, it is entirely built up on hunger and on love. To look upon +love as in any special sense a delusion is merely to fall into the trap of +a shallow cynicism. Love is only a delusion in so far as the whole of life +is a delusion, and if we accept the fact of life it is unphilosophical to +refuse to accept the fact of love. + + It is unnecessary here to magnify the functions of love in the + world; it is sufficient to investigate its workings in its own + proper sphere. It may, however, be worth while to quote a few + expressions of thinkers, belonging to various schools, who have + pointed out what seemed to them the far-ranging significance of + the sexual emotions for the moral life. "The passions are the + heavenly fire which gives life to the moral world," wrote + Helvetius long since in _De l'Esprit_. "The activity of the mind + depends on the activity of the passions, and it is at the period + of the passions, from the age of twenty-five to thirty-five or + forty that men are capable of the greatest efforts of virtue or + of genius." "What touches sex," wrote Zola, "touches the centre + of social life." Even our regard for the praise and blame of + others has a sexual origin, Professor Thomas argues + (_Psychological Review_, Jan., 1904, pp. 61-67), and it is love + which is the source of susceptibility generally and of the + altruistic side of life. "The appearance of sex," Professor Woods + Hutchinson attempts to show ("Love as a Factor in Evolution," + _Monist_, 1898), "the development of maleness and femaleness, was + not only the birthplace of affection, the well-spring of all + morality, but an enormous economic advantage to the race and an + absolute necessity of progress. In it first we find any conscious + longing for or active impulse toward a fellow creature." "Were + man robbed of the instinct of procreation, and of all that + spiritually springs therefrom," exclaimed Maudsley in his + _Physiology of Mind_, "that moment would all poetry, and perhaps + also his whole moral sense, be obliterated from his life." "One + seems to oneself transfigured, stronger, richer, more complete; + one _is_ more complete," says Nietzsche (_Der Wille zur Macht_, + p. 389), "we find here art as an organic function: we find it + inlaid in the most angelic instinct of 'love:' we find it as the + greatest stimulant of life.... It is not merely that it changes + the feeling of values: the lover _is_ worth more, is stronger. In + animals this condition produces new weapons, pigments, colors, + and forms, above all new movements, new rhythms, a new seductive + music. It is not otherwise in man.... Even in art the door is + opened to him. If we subtract from lyrical work in words and + sounds the suggestions of that intestinal fever, what is left + over in poetry and music? _L'Art pour l'art_ perhaps, the + quacking virtuosity of cold frogs who perish in their marsh. All + the rest is created by love." + + It would be easy to multiply citations tending to show how many + diverse thinkers have come to the conclusion that sexual love + (including therewith parental and especially maternal love) is + the source of the chief manifestations of life. How far they are + justified in that conclusion, it is not our business now to + inquire. + +It is undoubtedly true that, as we have seen when discussing the erratic +and imperfect distribution of the conception of love, and even of words +for love, over the world, by no means all people are equally apt for +experiencing, even at any time in their lives, the emotions of sexual +exaltation. The difference between the knight and the churl still +subsists, and both may sometimes be found in all social strata. Even the +refinements of sexual enjoyment, it is unnecessary to insist, quite +commonly remain on a merely physical basis, and have little effect on the +intellectual and emotional nature.[68] But this is not the case with the +people who have most powerfully influenced the course of the world's +thought and feeling. The personal reality of love, its importance for the +individual life, are facts that have been testified to by some of the +greatest thinkers, after lives devoted to the attainment of intellectual +labor. The experience of Renan, who toward the end of his life set down in +his remarkable drama _L'Abbesse de Jouarre_, his conviction that, even +from the point of view of chastity, love is, after all, the supreme thing +in the world, is far from standing alone. "Love has always appeared as an +inferior mode of human music, ambition as the superior mode," wrote Tarde, +the distinguished sociologist, at the end of his life. "But will it always +be thus? Are there not reasons for thinking that the future perhaps +reserves for us the ineffable surprise of an inversion of that secular +order?" Laplace, half an hour before his death, took up a volume of his +own _Mecanique Celeste_, and said: "All that is only trifles, there is +nothing true but love." Comte, who had spent his life in building up a +Positive Philosophy which should be absolutely real, found (as indeed it +may be said the great English Positivist Mill also found) the culmination +of all his ideals in a woman, who was, he said, Egeria and Beatrice and +Laura in one, and he wrote: "There is nothing real in the world but love. +One grows tired of thinking, and even of acting; one never grows tired of +loving, nor of saying so. In the worst tortures of affection I have never +ceased to feel that the essential of happiness is that the heart should be +worthily filled--even with pain, yes, even with pain, the bitterest pain." +And Sophie Kowalewsky, after intellectual achievements which have placed +her among the most distinguished of her sex, pathetically wrote: "Why can +no one love me? I could give more than most women, and yet the most +insignificant women are loved and I am not." Love, they all seem to say, +is the one thing that is supremely worth while. The greatest and most +brilliant of the world's intellectual giants, in their moments of final +insight, thus reach the habitual level of the humble and almost anonymous +persons, cloistered from the world, who wrote _The Imitation of Christ_ or +_The Letters of a Portuguese Nun_. And how many others! + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[45] _Meditationes Piissimae de Cognitione Humanae Conditionis_, Migne's +_Patrologia_, vol. clxxiv, p. 489, cap. III, "De Dignitate Animae et +Vilitate Corporis." It may be worth while to quote more at length the +vigorous language of the original. "Si diligenter consideres quid per os +et nares caeterosque corporis meatus egrediatur, vilius sterquilinum +numquam vidisti.... Attende, homo, quid fuisti ante ortum, et quid es ab +ortu usque ad occasum, atque quid eris post hanc vitam. Profecto fuit +quand non eras: postea de vili materia factus, et vilissimo panno +involutus, menstruali sanguine in utero materno fuisti nutritus, et tunica +tua fuit pellis secundina. Nihil aliud est homo quam sperma fetidum, +saccus stercorum, cibus vermium.... Quid superbis, pulvis et cinis, cujus +conceptus cula, nasci miseria, vivere poena, mori angustia?" + +[46] See (in Mignes' edition) _S. Odonis abbatis Cluniacensis +Collationes_, lib. ii, cap. IX. + +[47] Duehren (_Neue Forshungen ueber die Marquis de Sade_, pp. 432 et seq.) +shows how the ascetic view of woman's body persisted, for instance, in +Schopenhauer and De Sade. + +[48] In "The Evolution of Modesty," in the first volume of these +_Studies_, and again in the fifth volume in discussing urolagnia in the +study of "Erotic Symbolism," the mutual reactions of the sexual and +excretory centres were fully dealt with. + +[49] "La Morale Sexuelle," _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Jan., +1907. + +[50] The above passage, now slightly modified, originally formed an +unpublished part of an essay on Walt Whitman in _The New Spirit_, first +issued in 1889. + +[51] Even in the ninth century, however, when the monastic movement was +rapidly developing, there were some who withstood the tendencies of the +new ascetics. Thus, in 850, Ratramnus, the monk of Corbie, wrote a +treatise (_Liber de eo quod Christus ex Virgine natus est_) to prove that +Mary really gave birth to Jesus through her sexual organs, and not, as +some high-strung persons were beginning to think could alone be possible, +through the more conventionally decent breasts. The sexual organs were +sanctified. "Spiritus sanctus ... et thalamum tanto dignum sponso +sanctificavit et portam" (Achery, _Spicilegium_, vol. i, p. 55). + +[52] _Paedagogus_, lib. ii, cap. X. Elsewhere (id., lib. ii, Ch. VI) he +makes a more detailed statement to the same effect. + +[53] See, e.g., Wilhelm Capitaine, _Die Moral des Clemens von +Alexandrien_, pp. 112 et seq. + +[54] _De Civitate Dei_, lib. xxii, cap. XXIV. "There is no need," he says +again (id., lib. xiv, cap. V) "that in our sins and vices we accuse the +nature of the flesh to the injury of the Creator, for in its own kind and +degree the flesh is good." + +[55] St. Augustine, _De Civitate Dei_, lib. xiv, cap. XXIII-XXVI. +Chrysostom and Gregory, of Nyssa, thought that in Paradise human beings +would have multiplied by special creation, but such is not the accepted +Catholic doctrine. + +[56] W. Capitaine, _Die Moral des Clemens von Alexandrien_, pp. 112 et +seq. Without the body, Tertullian declared, there could be no virginity +and no salvation. The soul itself is corporeal. He carries, indeed, his +idea of the omnipresence of the body to the absurd. + +[57] Rufinus, _Commentarius in Symbolum Apostolorum_, cap. XII. + +[58] Migne, _Patrologia Graeca_, vol. xxvi, pp. 1170 et seq. + +[59] Even in physical conformation the human sexual organs, when compared +with those of the lower animals, show marked differences (see "The +Mechanism of Detumescence," in the fifth volume of these _Studies_). + +[60] It may perhaps be as well to point out, with Forel (_Die Sexuelle +Frage_, p. 208), that the word "bestial" is generally used quite +incorrectly in this connection. Indeed, not only for the higher, but also +for the lower manifestation of the sexual impulse, it would usually be +more correct to use instead the qualification "human." + +[61] _Loc. cit._, _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Jan., 1907. + +[62] It has, however, become colored and suspect from an early period in +the history of Christianity. St. Augustine (_De Civitate Dei_, lib. xiv, +cap. XV), while admitting that libido or lust is merely the generic name +for all desire, adds that, as specially applied to the sexual appetite, it +is justly and properly mixed up with ideas of shame. + +[63] Hinton well illustrates this feeling. "We call by the name of lust," +he declares in his MSS., "the most simple and natural desires. We might as +well term hunger and thirst 'lust' as so call sex-passion, when expressing +simply Nature's prompting. We miscall it 'lust,' cruelly libelling those +to whom we ascribe it, and introduce absolute disorder. For, by foolishly +confounding Nature's demands with lust, we insist upon restraint upon +her." + +[64] Several centuries earlier another French writer, the distinguished +physician, A. Laurentius (Des Laurens) in his _Historia Anatomica Humani +Corporis_ (lib. viii, Quaestio vii) had likewise puzzled over "the +incredible desire of coitus," and asked how it was that "that divine +animal, full of reason and judgment, which we call Man, should be +attracted to those obscene parts of women, soiled with filth, which are +placed, like a sewer, in the lowest part of the body." It is noteworthy +that, from the first, and equally among men of religion, men of science, +and men of letters, the mystery of this problem has peculiarly appealed to +the French mind. + +[65] Schopenhauer, _Die Welt als Wille und Vorstellung_, vol. ii, pp. 608 +et seq. + +[66] "Perhaps there is scarcely a man," wrote Malthus, a clergyman as well +as one of the profoundest thinkers of his day (_Essay on the Principle of +Population_, 1798, Ch. XI), "who has once experienced the genuine delight +of virtuous love, however great his intellectual pleasures may have been, +that does not look back to the period as the sunny spot in his whole life, +where his imagination loves to bask, which he recollects and contemplates +with the fondest regrets, and which he would most wish to live over again. +The superiority of intellectual to sexual pleasures consists rather in +their filling up more time, in their having a larger range, and in their +being less liable to satiate, than in their being more real and +essential." + +[67] The whole argument of the fourth volume of these _Studies_, on +"Sexual Selection in Man," points in this direction. + +[68] "Perhaps most average men," Forel remarks (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, p. +307), "are but slightly receptive to the intoxication of love; they are at +most on the level of the _gourmet_, which is by no means necessarily an +immoral plane, but is certainly not that of poetry." + + + + +CHAPTER V. + +THE FUNCTION OF CHASTITY. + +Chastity Essential to the Dignity of Love--The Eighteenth Century Revolt +Against the Ideal of Chastity--Unnatural Forms of Chastity--The +Psychological Basis of Asceticism--Asceticism and Chastity as Savage +Virtues--The Significance of Tahiti--Chastity Among Barbarous +Peoples--Chastity Among the Early Christians--Struggles of the Saints with +the Flesh--The Romance of Christian Chastity--Its Decay in Mediaeval +Times--_Aucassin et Nicolette_ and the new Romance of Chaste Love--The +Unchastity of the Northern Barbarians--The Penitentials--Influence of the +Renaissance and the Reformation--The Revolt Against Virginity as a +Virtue--The Modern Conception of Chastity as a Virtue--The Influences That +Favor the Virtue of Chastity--Chastity as a Discipline--The Value of +Chastity for the Artist--Potency and Impotence in Popular Estimation--The +Correct Definitions of Asceticism and Chastity. + + +The supreme importance of chastity, and even of asceticism, has never at +any time, or in any greatly vital human society, altogether failed of +recognition. Sometimes chastity has been exalted in human estimation, +sometimes it has been debased; it has frequently changed the nature of its +manifestations; but it has always been there. It is even a part of the +beautiful vision of all Nature. "The glory of the world is seen only by a +chaste mind," said Thoreau with his fine extravagance. "To whomsoever this +fact is not an awful but beautiful mystery there are no flowers in +Nature." Without chastity it is impossible to maintain the dignity of +sexual love. The society in which its estimation sinks to a minimum is in +the last stages of degeneration. Chastity has for sexual love an +importance which it can never lose, least of all to-day. + +It is quite true that during the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries many +men of high moral and intellectual distinction pronounced very decidedly +their condemnation of the ideal of chastity. The great Buffon refused to +recognize chastity as an ideal and referred scornfully to "that kind of +insanity which has turned a girl's virginity into a thing with a real +existence," while William Morris, in his downright manner, once declared +at a meeting of the Fellowship of the New Life, that asceticism is "the +most disgusting vice that afflicted human nature." Blake, though he seems +always to have been a strictly moral man in the most conventional sense, +felt nothing but contempt for chastity, and sometimes confers a kind of +religious solemnity on the idea of unchastity. Shelley, who may have been +unwise in sexual matters but can scarcely be called unchaste, also often +seems to associate religion and morality, not with chastity, but with +unchastity, and much the same may be said of James Hinton.[69] + +But all these men--with other men of high character who have pronounced +similar opinions--were reacting against false, decayed, and conventional +forms of chastity. They were not rebelling against an ideal; they were +seeking to set up an ideal in a place where they realized that a +mischievous pretense was masquerading as a moral reality. + +We cannot accept an ideal of chastity unless we ruthlessly cast aside all +the unnatural and empty forms of chastity. If chastity is merely a +fatiguing effort to emulate in the sexual sphere the exploits of +professional fasting men, an effort using up all the energies of the +organism and resulting in no achievement greater than the abstinence it +involves, then it is surely an unworthy ideal. If it is a feeble +submission to an external conventional law which there is no courage to +break, then it is not an ideal at all. If it is a rule of morality imposed +by one sex on the opposite sex, then it is an injustice and provocative of +revolt. If it is an abstinence from the usual forms of sexuality, replaced +by more abnormal or more secret forms, then it is simply an unreality +based on misconception. And if it is merely an external acceptance of +conventions without any further acceptance, even in act, then it is a +contemptible farce. These are the forms of chastity which during the past +two centuries many fine-souled men have vigorously rejected. + +The fact that chastity, or asceticism, is a real virtue, with fine uses, +becomes evident when we realize that it has flourished at all times, in +connection with all kinds of religions and the most various moral codes. +We find it pronounced among savages, and the special virtues of +savagery--hardness, endurance, and bravery--are intimately connected with +the cultivation of chastity and asceticism.[70] It is true that savages +seldom have any ideal of chastity in the degraded modern sense, as a state +of permanent abstinence from sexual relationships having a merit of its +own apart from any use. They esteem chastity for its values, magical or +real, as a method of self-control which contributes towards the attainment +of important ends. The ability to bear pain and restraint is nearly always +a main element in the initiation of youths at puberty. The custom of +refraining from sexual intercourse before expeditions of war and hunting, +and other serious concerns involving great muscular and mental strain, +whatever the motives assigned, is a sagacious method of economizing +energy. The extremely widespread habit of avoiding intercourse during +pregnancy and suckling, again, is an admirable precaution in sexual +hygiene which it is extremely difficult to obtain the observance of in +civilization. Savages, also, are perfectly well aware how valuable sexual +continence is, in combination with fasting and solitude, to acquire the +aptitude for abnormal spiritual powers. + + Thus C. Hill Tout (_Journal Anthropological Institute_, + Jan.-June, 1905, pp. 143-145) gives an interesting account of the + self-discipline undergone by those among the Salish Indians of + British Columbia, who seek to acquire shamanistic powers. The + psychic effects of such training on these men, says Hill Tout, + is undoubted. "It enables them to undertake and accomplish feats + of abnormal strength, agility, and endurance; and gives them at + times, besides a general exaltation of the senses, undoubted + clairvoyant and other supernormal mental and bodily powers." At + the other end of the world, as shown by the _Reports of the + Anthropological Expedition to Torres Straits_ (vol. v, p. 321), + closely analogous methods of obtaining supernatural powers are + also customary. + + There are fundamental psychological reasons for the wide + prevalence of asceticism and for the remarkable manner in which + it involves self-mortification, even acute physical suffering. + Such pain is an actual psychic stimulant, more especially in + slightly neurotic persons. This is well illustrated by a young + woman, a patient of Janet's, who suffered from mental depression + and was accustomed to find relief by slightly burning her hands + and feet. She herself clearly understood the nature of her + actions. "I feel," she said, "that I make an effort when I hold + my hands on the stove, or when I pour boiling water on my feet; + it is a violent act and it awakens me: I feel that it is really + done by myself and not by another.... To make a mental effort by + itself is too difficult for me; I have to supplement it by + physical efforts. I have not succeeded in any other way; that is + all: when I brace myself up to burn myself I make my mind freer, + lighter and more active for several days. Why do you speak of my + desire for mortification? My parents believe that, but it is + absurd. It would be a mortification if it brought any suffering, + but I enjoy this suffering, it gives me back my mind; it prevents + my thoughts from stopping: what would one not do to attain such + happiness?" (P. Janet, "The Pathogenesis of Some Impulsions," + _Journal of Abnormal Psychology_, April, 1906.) If we understand + this psychological process we may realize how it is that even in + the higher religions, however else they may differ, the practical + value of asceticism and mortification as the necessary door to + the most exalted religious state is almost universally + recognized, and with complete cheerfulness. "Asceticism and + ecstacy are inseparable," as Probst-Biraben remarks at the outset + of an interesting paper on Mahommedan mysticism ("L'Extase dans + le Mysticisme Musulman," _Revue Philosophique_, Nov., 1906). + Asceticism is the necessary ante-chamber to spiritual perfection. + +It thus happens that savage peoples largely base their often admirable +enforcement of asceticism not on the practical grounds that would justify +it, but on religious grounds that with the growth of intelligence fall +into discredit.[71] Even, however, when the scrupulous observances of +savages, whether in sexual or in non-sexual matters, are without any +obviously sound basis it cannot be said that they are entirely useless if +they tend to encourage self-control and the sense of reverence.[72] The +would-be intelligent and practical peoples who cast aside primitive +observances because they seem baseless or even ridiculous, need a still +finer practical sense and still greater intelligence in order to realize +that, though the reasons for the observances have been wrong, yet the +observances themselves may have been necessary methods of attaining +personal and social efficiency. It constantly happens in the course of +civilization that we have to revive old observances and furnish them with +new reasons. + + In considering the moral quality of chastity among savages, we + must carefully separate that chastity which among semi-primitive + peoples is exclusively imposed upon women. This has no moral + quality whatever, for it is not exercised as a useful discipline, + but merely enforced in order to heighten the economic and erotic + value of the women. Many authorities believe that the regard for + women as property furnishes the true reason for the widespread + insistence on virginity in brides. Thus A.B. Ellis, speaking of + the West Coast of Africa (_Yoruba-Speaking Peoples_, pp. 183 _et + seq._), says that girls of good class are betrothed as mere + children, and are carefully guarded from men, while girls of + lower class are seldom betrothed, and may lead any life they + choose. "In this custom of infant or child betrothals we probably + find the key to that curious regard for ante-nuptial chastity + found not only among the tribes of the Gold and Slave Coasts, but + also among many other uncivilized peoples in different parts of + the world." In a very different part of the world, in Northern + Siberia, "the Yakuts," Sieroshevski states (_Journal + Anthropological Institute_, Jan.-June, 1901, p. 96), "see + nothing immoral in illicit love, providing only that nobody + suffers material loss by it. It is true that parents will scold a + daughter if her conduct threatens to deprive them of their gain + from the bride-price; but if once they have lost hope of marrying + her off, or if the bride-price has been spent, they manifest + complete indifference to her conduct. Maidens who no longer + expect marriage are not restrained at all, if they observe + decorum it is only out of respect to custom." Westermarck + (_History of Human Marriage_, pp. 123 et seq.) also shows the + connection between the high estimates of virginity and the + conception of woman as property, and returning to the question in + his later work, _The Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_ + (vol. ii, Ch. XLII), after pointing out that "marriage by + purchase has thus raised the standard of female chastity," he + refers (p. 437) to the significant fact that the seduction of an + unmarried girl "is chiefly, if not exclusively, regarded as an + offense against the parents or family of the girl," and there is + no indication that it is ever held by savages that any wrong has + been done to the woman herself. Westermarck recognizes at the + same time that the preference given to virgins has also a + biological basis in the instinctive masculine feeling of jealousy + in regard to women who have had intercourse with other men, and + especially in the erotic charm for men of the emotional state of + shyness which accompanies virginity. (This point has been dealt + with in the discussion of Modesty in vol. i of these _Studies_.) + + It is scarcely necessary to add that the insistence on the + virginity of brides is by no means confined, as A.B. Ellis seems + to imply, to uncivilized peoples, nor is it necessary that + wife-purchase should always accompany it. The preference still + persists, not only by virtue of its natural biological basis, but + as a refinement and extension of the idea of woman as property, + among those civilized peoples who, like ourselves, inherit a form + of marriage to some extent based on wife-purchase. Under such + conditions a woman's chastity has an important social function to + perform, being, as Mrs. Mona Caird has put it (_The Morality of + Marriage_, 1897, p. 88), the watch-dog of man's property. The + fact that no element of ideal morality enters into the question + is shown by the usual absence of any demand for ante-nuptial + chastity in the husband. + + It must not be supposed that when, as is most usually the case, + there is no complete and permanent prohibition of extra-nuptial + intercourse, mere unrestrained license prevails. That has + probably never happened anywhere among uncontaminated savages. + The rule probably is that, as among the tribes at Torres Straits + (_Reports Cambridge Anthropological Expedition_, vol. v, p. 275), + there is no complete continence before marriage, but neither is + there any unbridled license. + + The example of Tahiti is instructive as regards the prevalence of + chastity among peoples of what we generally consider low grades + of civilization. Tahiti, according to all who have visited it, + from the earliest explorers down to that distinguished American + surgeon, the late Dr. Nicholas Senn, is an island possessing + qualities of natural beauty and climatic excellence, which it is + impossible to rate too highly. "I seemed to be transported into + the garden of Eden," said Bougainville in 1768. But, mainly under + the influence of the early English missionaries who held ideas of + theoretical morality totally alien to those of the inhabitants of + the islands, the Tahitians have become the stock example of a + population given over to licentiousness and all its awful + results. Thus, in his valuable _Polynesian Researches_ (second + edition, 1832, vol. i, Ch. IX) William Ellis says that the + Tahitians practiced "the worst pollutions of which it was + possible for man to be guilty," though not specifying them. When, + however, we carefully examine the narratives of the early + visitors to Tahiti, before the population became contaminated by + contact with Europeans, it becomes clear that this view needs + serious modification. "The great plenty of good and nourishing + food," wrote an early explorer, J.R. Forster (_Observations Made + on a Voyage Round the World_, 1778, pp. 231, 409, 422), "together + with the fine climate, the beauty and unreserved behavior of + their females, invite them powerfully to the enjoyments and + pleasures of love. They begin very early to abandon themselves to + the most libidinous scenes. Their songs, their dances, and + dramatic performances, breathe a spirit of luxury." Yet he is + over and over again impelled to set down facts which bear + testimony to the virtues of these people. Though rather + effeminate in build, they are athletic, he says. Moreover, in + their wars they fight with great bravery and valor. They are, for + the rest, hospitable. He remarks that they treat their married + women with great respect, and that women generally are nearly the + equals of men, both in intelligence and in social position; he + gives a charming description of the women. "In short, their + character," Forster concludes, "is as amiable as that of any + nation that ever came unimproved out of the hands of Nature," and + he remarks that, as was felt by the South Sea peoples generally, + "whenever we came to this happy island we could evidently + perceive the opulence and happiness of its inhabitants." It is + noteworthy also, that, notwithstanding the high importance which + the Tahitians attached to the erotic side of life, they were not + deficient in regard for chastity. When Cook, who visited Tahiti + many times, was among "this benevolent humane" people, he noted + their esteem for chastity, and found that not only were betrothed + girls strictly guarded before marriage, but that men also who had + refrained from sexual intercourse for some time before marriage + were believed to pass at death immediately into the abode of the + blessed. "Their behavior, on all occasions, seems to indicate a + great openness and generosity of disposition. I never saw them, + in any misfortune, labor under the appearance of anxiety, after + the critical moment was past. Neither does care ever seem to + wrinkle their brow. On the contrary, even the approach of death + does not appear to alter their usual vivacity" (_Third Voyage of + Discovery_, 1776-1780). Turnbull visited Tahiti at a later period + (_A Voyage Round the World in 1800_, etc., pp. 374-5), but while + finding all sorts of vices among them, he is yet compelled to + admit their virtues: "Their manner of addressing strangers, from + the king to the meanest subject, is courteous and affable in the + extreme.... They certainly live amongst each other in more + harmony than is usual amongst Europeans. During the whole time I + was amongst them I never saw such a thing as a battle.... I never + remember to have seen an Otaheitean out of temper. They jest upon + each other with greater freedom than the Europeans, but these + jests are never taken in ill part.... With regard to food, it is, + I believe, an invariable law in Otaheite that whatever is + possessed by one is common to all." Thus we see that even among a + people who are commonly referred to as the supreme example of a + nation given up to uncontrolled licentiousness, the claims of + chastity were admitted, and many other virtues vigorously + flourished. The Tahitians were brave, hospitable, + self-controlled, courteous, considerate to the needs of others, + chivalrous to women, even appreciative of the advantages of + sexual restraint, to an extent which has rarely, if ever, been + known among those Christian nations which have looked down upon + them as abandoned to unspeakable vices. + +As we turn from savages towards peoples in the barbarous and civilized +stages we find a general tendency for chastity, in so far as it is a +common possession of the common people, to be less regarded, or to be +retained only as a traditional convention no longer strictly observed. The +old grounds for chastity in primitive religions and _tabu_ have decayed +and no new grounds have been generally established. "Although the progress +of civilization," wrote Gibbon long ago, "has undoubtedly contributed to +assuage the fiercer passions of human nature, it seems to have been less +favorable to the virtue of chastity," and Westermarck concludes that +"irregular connections between the sexes have, on the whole, exhibited a +tendency to increase along with the progress of civilization." + +The main difference in the social function of chastity as we pass from +savagery to higher stages of culture seems to be that it ceases to exist +as a general hygienic measure or a general ceremonial observance, and, for +the most part, becomes confined to special philosophic or religious sects +which cultivate it to an extreme degree in a more or less professional +way. This state of things is well illustrated by the Roman Empire during +the early centuries of the Christian era.[73] Christianity itself was at +first one of these sects enamored of the ideal of chastity; but by its +superior vitality it replaced all the others and finally imposed its +ideals, though by no means its primitive practices, on European society +generally. + +Chastity manifested itself in primitive Christianity in two different +though not necessarily opposed ways. On the one hand it took a stern and +practical form in vigorous men and women who, after being brought up in a +society permitting a high degree of sexual indulgence, suddenly found +themselves convinced of the sin of such indulgence. The battle with the +society they had been born into, and with their own old impulses and +habits, became so severe that they often found themselves compelled to +retire from the world altogether. Thus it was that the parched solitudes +of Egypt were peopled with hermits largely occupied with the problem of +subduing their own flesh. Their pre-occupation, and indeed the +pre-occupation of much early Christian literature, with sexual matters, +may be said to be vastly greater than was the case with the pagan society +they had left. Paganism accepted sexual indulgence and was then able to +dismiss it, so that in classic literature we find very little insistence +on sexual details except in writers like Martial, Juvenal and Petronius +who introduce them mainly for satirical ends. But the Christians could not +thus escape from the obsession of sex; it was ever with them. We catch +interesting glimpses of their struggles, for the most part barren +struggles, in the Epistles of St. Jerome, who had himself been an athlete +in these ascetic contests. + + "Oh, how many times," wrote St. Jerome to Eustochium, the virgin + to whom he addressed one of the longest and most interesting of + his letters, "when in the desert, in that vast solitude which, + burnt up by the heart of the sun, offers but a horrible dwelling + to monks, I imagined myself among the delights of Rome! I was + alone, for my soul was full of bitterness. My limbs were covered + by a wretched sack and my skin was as black as an Ethiopian's. + Every day I wept and groaned, and if I was unwillingly overcome + by sleep my lean body lay on the bare earth. I say nothing of my + food and drink, for in the desert even invalids have no drink but + cold water, and cooked food is regarded as a luxury. Well, I, + who, out of fear of hell, had condemned myself to this prison, + companion of scorpions and wild beasts, often seemed in + imagination among bands of girls. My face was pale with fasting + and my mind within my frigid body was burning with desire; the + fires of lust would still flare up in a body that already seemed + to be dead. Then, deprived of all help, I threw myself at the + feet of Jesus, washing them with my tears and drying them with my + hair, subjugating my rebellious flesh by long fasts. I remember + that more than once I passed the night uttering cries and + striking my breast until God sent me peace." "Our century," wrote + St. Chrysostom in his _Discourse to Those Who Keep Virgins in + Their Houses_, "has seen many men who have bound their bodies + with chains, clothed themselves in sacks, retired to the summits + of mountains where they have lived in constant vigil and fasting, + giving the example of the most austere discipline and forbidding + all women to cross the thresholds of their humble dwellings; and + yet, in spite of all the severities they have exercised on + themselves, it was with difficulty they could repress the fury of + their passions." Hilarion, says Jerome, saw visions of naked + women when he lay down on his solitary couch and delicious meats + when he sat down to his frugal table. Such experiences rendered + the early saints very scrupulous. "They used to say," we are told + in an interesting history of the Egyptian anchorites, Palladius's + _Paradise of the Holy Fathers_, belonging to the fourth century + (A.W. Budge, _The Paradise_, vol. ii, p. 129), "that Abba Isaac + went out and found the footprint of a woman on the road, and he + thought about it in his mind and destroyed it saying, 'If a + brother seeth it he may fall.'" Similarly, according to the rules + of St. Caesarius of Aries for nuns, no male clothing was to be + taken into the convent for the purpose of washing or mending. + Even in old age, a certain anxiety about chastity still remained. + One of the brothers, we are told in _The Paradise_ (p. 132) said + to Abba Zeno, "Behold thou hast grown old, how is the matter of + fornication?" The venerable saint replied, "It knocketh, but it + passeth on." + + As the centuries went by the same strenuous anxiety to guard + chastity still remained, and the old struggle constantly + reappeared (see, e.g., Migne's _Dictionnaire d'Ascetisme_, art. + "Demon, Tentation du"). Some saints, it is true, like Luigi di + Gonzaga, were so angelically natured that they never felt the + sting of sexual desire. These seem to have been the exception. + St. Benedict and St. Francis experienced the difficulty of + subduing the flesh. St. Magdalena de Pozzi, in order to dispel + sexual desires, would roll on thorny bushes till the blood came. + Some saints kept a special cask of cold water in their cells to + stand in (Lea, _Sacerdotal Celibacy_, vol. i, p. 124). On the + other hand, the Blessed Angela de Fulginio tells us in her + _Visiones_ (cap. XIX) that, until forbidden by her confessor, she + would place hot coals in her secret parts, hoping by material + fire to extinguish the fire of concupiscence. St. Aldhelm, the + holy Bishop of Sherborne, in the eighth century, also adopted a + homeopathic method of treatment, though of a more literal kind, + for William of Malmsbury states that when tempted by the flesh he + would have women to sit and lie by him until he grew calm again; + the method proved very successful, for the reason, it was + thought, that the Devil felt he had been made a fool of. + + In time the Catholic practice and theory of asceticism became + more formalized and elaborated, and its beneficial effects were + held to extend beyond the individual himself. "Asceticism from + the Christian point of view," writes Brenier de Montmorand in an + interesting study ("Ascetisme et Mysticisme," _Revue + Philosophique_, March, 1904) "is nothing else than all the + therapeutic measures making for moral purification. The Christian + ascetic is an athlete struggling to transform his corrupt nature + and make a road to God through the obstacles due to his passions + and the world. He is not working in his own interests alone, + but--by virtue of the reversibility of merit which compensates + that of solidarity in error--for the good and for the salvation + of the whole of society." + +This is the aspect of early Christian asceticism most often emphasized. +But there is another aspect which may be less familiar, but has been by no +means less important. Primitive Christian chastity was on one side a +strenuous discipline. On another side it was a romance, and this indeed +was its most specifically Christian side, for athletic asceticism has been +associated with the most various religious and philosophic beliefs. If, +indeed, it had not possessed the charm of a new sensation, of a delicious +freedom, of an unknown adventure, it would never have conquered the +European world. There are only a few in that world who have in them the +stuff of moral athletes; there are many who respond to the attraction of +romance. + +The Christians rejected the grosser forms of sexual indulgence, but in +doing so they entered with a more delicate ardor into the more refined +forms of sexual intimacy. They cultivated a relationship of brothers and +sisters to each other, they kissed one another; at one time, in the +spiritual orgy of baptism, they were not ashamed to adopt complete +nakedness.[74] + +A very instructive picture of the forms which chastity assumed among the +early Christians is given us in the treatise of Chrysostom _Against Those +who Keep Virgins in their Houses_. Our fathers, Chrysostom begins, only +knew two forms of sexual intimacy, marriage and fornication. Now a third +form has appeared: men introduce young girls into their houses and keep +them there permanently, respecting their virginity. "What," Chrysostom +asks, "is the reason? It seems to me that life in common with a woman is +sweet, even outside conjugal union and fleshly commerce. That is my +feeling; and perhaps it is not my feeling alone; it may also be that of +these men. They would not hold their honor so cheap nor give rise to such +scandals if this pleasure were not violent and tyrannical.... That there +should really be a pleasure in this which produces a love more ardent than +conjugal union may surprise you at first. But when I give you the proofs +you will agree that it is so." The absence of restraint to desire in +marriage, he continues, often leads to speedy disgust, and even apart from +this, sexual intercourse, pregnancy, delivery, lactation, the bringing up +of children, and all the pains and anxieties that accompany these things +soon destroy youth and dull the point of pleasure. The virgin is free from +these burdens. She retains her vigor and youthfulness, and even at the age +of forty may rival the young nubile girl. "A double ardor thus burns in +the heart of him who lives with her, and the gratification of desire never +extinguishes the bright flame which ever continues to increase in +strength." Chrysostom describes minutely all the little cares and +attentions which the modern girls of his time required, and which these +men delighted to expend on their virginal sweethearts whether in public or +in private. He cannot help thinking, however, that the man who lavishes +kisses and caresses on a woman whose virginity he retains is putting +himself somewhat in the position of Tantalus. But this new refinement of +tender chastity, which came as a delicious discovery to the early +Christians who had resolutely thrust away the licentiousness of the pagan +world, was deeply rooted, as we discover from the frequency with which the +grave Fathers of the Church, apprehensive of scandal, felt called upon to +reprove it, though their condemnation is sometimes not without a trace of +secret sympathy.[75] + +There was one form in which the new Christian chastity flourished +exuberantly and unchecked: it conquered literature. The most charming, +and, we may be sure, the most popular literature of the early Church lay +in the innumerable romances of erotic chastity--to some extent, it may +well be, founded on fact--which are embodied to-day in the _Acta +Sanctorum_. We can see in even the most simple and non-miraculous early +Christian records of the martyrdom of women that the writers were fully +aware of the delicate charm of the heroine who, like Perpetua at Carthage, +tossed by wild cattle in the arena, rises to gather her torn garment +around her and to put up her disheveled hair.[76] It was an easy step to +the stories of romantic adventure. Among these delightful stories I may +refer especially to the legend of Thekla, which has been placed, +incorrectly it may be, as early as the first century, "The Bride and +Bridegroom of India" in _Judas Thomas's Acts_, "The Virgin of Antioch" as +narrated by St. Ambrose, the history of "Achilleus and Nereus," "Mygdonia +and Karish," and "Two Lovers of Auvergne" as told by Gregory of Tours. +Early Christian literature abounds in the stories of lovers who had indeed +preserved their chastity, and had yet discovered the most exquisite +secrets of love. + + Thekla's day is the twenty-third of September. There is a very + good Syriac version (by Lipsius and others regarded as more + primitive than the Greek version) of the _Acts of Paul and + Thekla_ (see, e.g., Wright's _Apocryphal Acts_). These _Acts_ + belong to the latter part of the second century. The story is + that Thekla, refusing to yield to the passion of the high priest + of Syria, was put, naked but for a girdle (_subligaculum_) into + the arena on the back of a lioness, which licked her feet and + fought for her against the other beasts, dying in her defense. + The other beasts, however, did her no harm, and she was finally + released. A queen loaded her with money, she modified her dress + to look like a man, travelled to meet Paul, and lived to old age. + Sir W.M. Ramsay has written an interesting study of these _Acts_ + (_The Church in the Roman Empire_, Ch. XVI). He is of opinion + that the _Acts_ are based on a first century document, and is + able to disentangle many elements of truth from the story. He + states that it is the only evidence we possess of the ideas and + actions of women during the first century in Asia Minor, where + their position was so high and their influence so great. Thekla + represents the assertion of woman's rights, and she administered + the rite of baptism, though in the existing versions of the + _Acts_ these features are toned down or eliminated. + + Some of the most typical of these early Christian romances are + described as Gnostical in origin, with something of the germs of + Manichaean dualism which were held in the rich and complex matrix + of Gnosticism, while the spirit of these romances is also largely + Montanist, with the combined chastity and ardor, the pronounced + feminine tone due to its origin in Asia Minor, which marked + Montanism. It cannot be denied, however, that they largely passed + into the main stream of Christian tradition, and form an + essential and important part of that tradition. (Renan, in his + _Marc-Aurele_, Chs. IX and XV, insists on the immense debt of + Christianity to Gnostic and Montanist contributions). A + characteristic example is the story of "The Betrothed of India" + in _Judas Thomas's Acts_ (Wright's _Apocryphal Acts_). Judas + Thomas was sold by his master Jesus to an Indian merchant who + required a carpenter to go with him to India. On disembarking at + the city of Sandaruk they heard the sounds of music and singing, + and learnt that it was the wedding-feast of the King's daughter, + which all must attend, rich and poor, slaves and freemen, + strangers and citizens. Judas Thomas went, with his new master, + to the banquet and reclined with a garland of myrtle placed on + his head. When a Hebrew flute-player came and stood over him and + played, he sang the songs of Christ, and it was seen that he was + more beautiful than all that were there and the King sent for him + to bless the young couple in the bridal chamber. And when all + were gone out and the door of the bridal chamber closed, the + bridegroom approached the bride, and saw, as it were, Judas + Thomas still talking with her. But it was our Lord who said to + him, "I am not Judas, but his brother." And our Lord sat down on + the bed beside the young people and began to say to them: + "Remember, my children, what my brother spake with you, and know + to whom he committed you, and know that if ye preserve yourselves + from this filthy intercourse ye become pure temples, and are + saved from afflictions manifest and hidden, and from the heavy + care of children, the end whereof is bitter sorrow. For their + sakes ye will become oppressors and robbers, and ye will be + grievously tortured for their injuries. For children are the + cause of many pains; either the King falls upon them or a demon + lays hold of them, or paralysis befalls them. And if they be + healthy they come to ill, either by adultery, or theft, or + fornication, or covetousness, or vain-glory. But if ye will be + persuaded by me, and keep yourselves purely unto God, ye shall + have living children to whom not one of these blemishes and hurts + cometh nigh; and ye shall be without care and without grief and + without sorrow, and ye shall hope for the time when ye shall see + the true wedding-feast." The young couple were persuaded, and + refrained from lust, and our Lord vanished. And in the morning, + when it was dawn, the King had the table furnished early and + brought in before the bridegroom and bride. And he found them + sitting the one opposite the other, and the face of the bride was + uncovered and the bridegroom was very cheerful. The mother of the + bride saith to her: "Why art thou sitting thus, and art not + ashamed, but art as if, lo, thou wert married a long time, and + for many a day?" And her father, too, said; "Is it thy great love + for thy husband that prevents thee from even veiling thyself?" + And the bride answered and said: "Truly, my father, I am in great + love, and am praying to my Lord that I may continue in this love + which I have experienced this night. I am not veiled, because the + veil of corruption is taken from me, and I am not ashamed, + because the deed of shame has been removed far from me, and I am + cheerful and gay, and despise this deed of corruption and the + joys of this wedding-feast, because I am invited to the true + wedding-feast. I have not had intercourse with a husband, the end + whereof is bitter repentance, because I am betrothed to the true + Husband." The bridegroom answered also in the same spirit, very + naturally to the dismay of the King, who sent for the sorcerer + whom he had asked to bless his unlucky daughter. But Judas Thomas + had already left the city and at his inn the King's stewards + found only the flute-player, sitting and weeping because he had + not taken her with him. She was glad, however, when she heard + what had happened, and hastened to the young couple, and lived + with them ever afterwards. The King also was finally reconciled, + and all ended chastely, but happily. + + In these same _Judas Thomas's Acts_, which are not later than the + fourth century, we find (eighth act) the story of Mygdonia and + Karish. Mygdonia, the wife of Karish, is converted by Thomas and + flees from her husband, naked save for the curtain of the chamber + door which she has wrapped around her, to her old nurse. With the + nurse she goes to Thomas, who pours holy oil over her head, + bidding the nurse to anoint her all over with it; then a cloth is + put round her loins and he baptizes her; then she is clothed and + he gives her the sacrament. The young rapture of chastity grows + lyrical at times, and Judas Thomas breaks out: "Purity is the + athlete who is not overcome. Purity is the truth that blencheth + not. Purity is worthy before God of being to Him a familiar + handmaiden. Purity is the messenger of concord which bringeth the + tidings of peace." + + Another romance of chastity is furnished by the episode of + Drusiana in _The History of the Apostles_ traditionally + attributed to Abdias, Bishop of Babylon (Bk. v, Ch. IV, _et + seq._). Drusiana is the wife of Andronicus, and is so pious that + she will not have intercourse with him. The youth Callimachus + falls madly in love with her, and his amorous attempts involve + many exciting adventures, but the chastity of Drusiana is finally + triumphant. + + A characteristic example of the literature we are here concerned + with is St. Ambrose's story of "The Virgin in the Brothel" + (narrated in his _De Virginibus_, Migne's edition of Ambrose's + Works, vols. iii-iv, p. 211). A certain virgin, St. Ambrose tells + us, who lately lived at Antioch, was condemned either to + sacrifice to the gods or to go to the brothel. She chose the + latter alternative. But the first man who came in to her was a + Christian soldier who called her "sister," and bade her have no + fear. He proposed that they should exchange clothes. This was + done and she escaped, while the soldier was led away to death. At + the place of execution, however, she ran up and exclaimed that it + was not death she feared but shame. He, however, maintained that + he had been condemned to death in her place. Finally the crown of + martyrdom for which they contended was adjudged to both. + + We constantly observe in the early documents of this romantic + literature of chastity that chastity is insisted on by no means + chiefly because of its rewards after death, nor even because the + virgin who devotes herself to it secures in Christ an ever-young + lover whose golden-haired beauty is sometimes emphasized. Its + chief charm is represented as lying in its own joy and freedom + and the security it involves from all the troubles, + inconveniences and bondages of matrimony. This early Christian + movement of romantic chastity was clearly, in large measure, a + revolt of women against men and marriage. This is well brought + out in the instructive story, supposed to be of third century + origin, of the eunuchs Achilleus and Nereus, as narrated in the + _Acta Sanctorum_, May 12th. Achilleus and Nereus were Christian + eunuchs of the bedchamber to Domitia, a virgin of noble birth, + related to the Emperor Domitian and betrothed to Aurelian, son + of a Consul. One day, as their mistress was putting on her jewels + and her purple garments embroidered with gold, they began in turn + to talk to her about all the joys and advantages of virginity, as + compared to marriage with a mere man. The conversation is + developed at great length and with much eloquence. Domitia was + finally persuaded. She suffered much from Aurelian in + consequence, and when he obtained her banishment to an island she + went thither with Achilleus and Nereus, who were put to death. + Incidentally, the death of Felicula, another heroine of chastity, + is described. When elevated on the rack because she would not + marry, she constantly refused to deny Jesus, whom she called her + lover. "Ego non nego amatorem meum!" + + A special department of this literature is concerned with stories + of the conversions or the penitence of courtesans. St. + Martinianus, for instance (Feb. 13), was tempted by the courtesan + Zoe, but converted her. The story of St. Margaret of Cortona + (Feb. 22), a penitent courtesan, is late, for she belongs to the + thirteenth century. The most delightful document in this + literature is probably the latest, the fourteenth century Italian + devotional romance called _The Life of Saint Mary Magdalen_, + commonly associated with the name of Frate Domenico Cavalca. (It + has been translated into English). It is the delicately and + deliciously told romance of the chaste and passionate love of the + sweet sinner, Mary Magdalene, for her beloved Master. + + As time went on the insistence on the joys of chastity in this + life became less marked, and chastity is more and more regarded + as a state only to be fully rewarded in a future life. Even, + however, in Gregory of Tours's charming story of "The Two Lovers + of Auvergne," in which this attitude is clear, the pleasures of + chaste love in this life are brought out as clearly as in any of + the early romances (_Historia Francorum_, lib. i, cap. XLII). Two + senators of Auvergne each had an only child, and they betrothed + them to each other. When the wedding day came and the young + couple were placed in bed, the bride turned to the wall and wept + bitterly. The bridegroom implored her to tell him what was the + matter, and, turning towards him, she said that if she were to + weep all her days she could never wash away her grief for she had + resolved to give her little body immaculate to Christ, untouched + by men, and now instead of immortal roses she had only had on her + brow faded roses, which deformed rather than adorned it, and + instead of the dowry of Paradise which Christ had promised her + she had become the consort of a merely mortal man. She deplored + her sad fate at considerable length and with much gentle + eloquence. At length the bridegroom, overcome by her sweet words, + felt that eternal life had shone before him like a great light, + and declared that if she wished to abstain from carnal desires he + was of the same mind. She was grateful, and with clasped hands + they fell asleep. For many years they thus lived together, + chastely sharing the same bed. At length she died and was buried, + her lover restoring her immaculate to the hands of Christ. Soon + afterwards he died also, and was placed in a separate tomb. Then + a miracle happened which made manifest the magnitude of this + chaste love, for the two bodies were found mysteriously placed + together. To this day, Gregory concludes (writing in the sixth + century), the people of the place call them "The Two Lovers." + + Although Renan (_Marc-Aurele_, Ch. XV) briefly called attention + to the existence of this copious early Christian literature + setting forth the romance of chastity, it seems as yet to have + received little or no study. It is, however, of considerable + importance, not merely for its own sake, but on account of its + psychological significance in making clear the nature of the + motive forces which made chastity easy and charming to the people + of the early Christian world, even when it involved complete + abstinence from sexual intercourse. The early Church + anathematized the eroticism of the Pagan world, and exorcized it + in the most effectual way by setting up a new and more exquisite + eroticism of its own. + +During the Middle Ages the primitive freshness of Christian chastity began +to lose its charm. No more romances of chastity were written, and in +actual life men no longer sought daring adventures in the field of +chastity. So far as the old ideals survived at all it was in the secular +field of chivalry. The last notable figure to emulate the achievements of +the early Christians was Robert of Arbrissel in Normandy. + + Robert of Arbrissel, who founded, in the eleventh century, the + famous and distinguished Order of Fontevrault for women, was a + Breton. This Celtic origin is doubtless significant, for it may + explain his unfailing ardor and gaiety, and his enthusiastic + veneration for womanhood. Even those of his friends who + deprecated what they considered his scandalous conduct bear + testimony to his unfailing and cheerful temperament, his + alertness in action, his readiness for any deed of humanity, and + his entire freedom from severity. He attracted immense crowds of + people of all conditions, especially women, including + prostitutes, and his influence over women was great. Once he went + into a brothel to warm his feet, and, incidentally, converted all + the women there. "Who are you?" asked one of them, "I have been + here twenty-five years and nobody has ever come here to talk + about God." Robert's relation with his nuns at Fontevrault was + very intimate, and he would often sleep with them. This is set + forth precisely in letters written by friends of his, bishops and + abbots, one of whom remarks that Robert had "discovered a new + but fruitless form of martyrdom." A royal abbess of Fontevrault + in the seventeenth century, pretending that the venerated founder + of the order could not possibly have been guilty of such + scandalous conduct, and that the letters must therefore be + spurious, had the originals destroyed, so far as possible. The + Bollandists, in an unscholarly and incomplete account of the + matter (_Acta Sanctorum_, Feb. 25), adopted this view. J. von + Walter, however, in a recent and thorough study of Robert of + Arbrissel (_Die Ersten Wanderprediger Frankreichs_, Theil I), + shows that there is no reason whatever to doubt the authentic and + reliable character of the impugned letters. + +The early Christian legends of chastity had, however, their successors. +_Aucassin et Nicolette_, which was probably written in Northern France +towards the end of the twelfth century, is above all the descendant of the +stories in the _Acta Sanctorum_ and elsewhere. It embodied their spirit +and carried it forward, uniting their delicate feeling for chastity and +purity with the ideal of monogamic love. _Aucassin et Nicolette_ was the +death-knell of the primitive Christian romance of chastity. It was the +discovery that the chaste refinements of delicacy and devotion were +possible within the strictly normal sphere of sexual love. + +There were at least two causes which tended to extinguish the primitive +Christian attraction to chastity, even apart from the influence of the +Church authorities in repressing its romantic manifestations. In the first +place, the submergence of the old pagan world, with its practice and, to +some extent, ideal of sexual indulgence, removed the foil which had given +grace and delicacy to the tender freedom of the young Christians. In the +second place, the austerities which the early Christians had gladly +practised for the sake of their soul's health, were robbed of their charm +and spontaneity by being made a formal part of codes of punishment for +sin, first in the Penitentials and afterwards at the discretion of +confessors. This, it may be added, was rendered the more necessary because +the ideal of Christian chastity was no longer largely the possession of +refined people who had been rendered immune to Pagan license by being +brought up in its midst, and even themselves steeped in it. It was clearly +from the first a serious matter for the violent North Africans to maintain +the ideal of chastity, and when Christianity spread to Northern Europe it +seemed almost a hopeless task to acclimatize its ideals among the wild +Germans. Hereafter it became necessary for celibacy to be imposed on the +regular clergy by the stern force of ecclesiastical authority, while +voluntary celibacy was only kept alive by a succession of religious +enthusiasts perpetually founding new Orders. An asceticism thus enforced +could not always be accompanied by the ardent exaltation necessary to +maintain it, and in its artificial efforts at self-preservation it +frequently fell from its insecure heights to the depths of unrestrained +license.[77] This fatality of all hazardous efforts to overpass humanity's +normal limits begun to be realized after the Middle Ages were over by +clear-sighted thinkers. "Qui veut faire l'ange," said Pascal, pungently +summing up this view of the matter, "fait la bete." That had often been +illustrated in the history of the Church. + + The Penitentials began to come into use in the seventh century, + and became of wide prevalence and authority during the ninth and + tenth centuries. They were bodies of law, partly spiritual and + partly secular, and were thrown into the form of catalogues of + offences with the exact measure of penance prescribed for each + offence. They represented the introduction of social order among + untamed barbarians, and were codes of criminal law much more than + part of a system of sacramental confession and penance. In France + and Spain, where order on a Christian basis already existed, they + were little needed. They had their origin in Ireland and England, + and especially flourished in Germany; Charlemagne supported them + (see, e.g., Lea, _History of Auricular Confession_, vol. ii, p. + 96, also Ch. XVII; Hugh Williams, edition of Gildas, Part II, + Appendix 3; the chief Penitentials are reproduced in + Wasserschleben's _Bussordnungen_). + + In 1216 the Lateran Council, under Innocent III, made confession + obligatory. The priestly prerogative of regulating the amount of + penance according to circumstances, with greater flexibility than + the rigid Penitentials admitted, was first absolutely asserted by + Peter of Poitiers. Then Alain de Lille threw aside the + Penitentials as obsolete, and declared that the priest himself + must inquire into the circumstances of each sin and weigh + precisely its guilt (Lea, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 171). + + Long before this period, however, the ideals of chastity, so far + as they involved any considerable degree of continence, although + they had become firmly hardened into the conventional traditions + and ideals of the Christian Church, had ceased to have any great + charm or force for the people living in Christendom. Among the + Northern barbarians, with different traditions of a more vigorous + and natural order behind them, the demands of sex were often + frankly exhibited. The monk Ordericus Vitalis, in the eleventh + century, notes what he calls the "lasciviousness" of the wives of + the Norman conquerors of England who, when left alone at home, + sent messages that if their husbands failed to return speedily + they would take new ones. The celibacy of the clergy was only + established with the very greatest difficulty, and when it was + established, priests became unchaste. Archbishop Odo of Rouen, in + the thirteenth century, recorded in the diary of his diocesan + visitations that there was one unchaste priest in every five + parishes, and even as regards the Italy of the same period the + friar Salimbene in his remarkable autobiography shows how little + chastity was regarded in the religious life. Chastity could now + only be maintained by force, usually the moral force of + ecclesiastical authority, which was itself undermined by + unchastity, but sometimes even physical force. It was in the + thirteenth century, in the opinion of some, that the girdle of + chastity (_cingula castitatis_) first begins to appear, but the + chief authority, Caufeynon (_La Ceinture de Chastete_, 1904) + believes it only dates from the Renaissance (Schultz, _Das + Hoefische Leben zur Zeit der Minnesaenger_, vol. i, p. 595; Dufour, + _Histoire de la Prostitution_, vol. v, p. 272; Krauss, + _Anthropophyteia_, vol. iii, p. 247). In the sixteenth century + convents were liable to become almost brothels, as we learn on + the unimpeachable authority of Burchard, a Pope's secretary, in + his _Diarium_, edited by Thuasne who brings together additional + authorities for this statement in a footnote (vol. ii, p. 79); + that they remained so in the eighteenth century we see clearly in + the pages of Casanova's _Memoires_, and in many other documents + of the period. + +The Renaissance and the rise of humanism undoubtedly affected the feeling +towards asceticism and chastity. On the one hand a new and ancient +sanction was found for the disregard of virtues which men began to look +upon as merely monkish, and on the other hand the finer spirits affected +by the new movement began to realize that chastity might be better +cultivated and observed by those who were free to do as they would than by +those who were under the compulsion of priestly authority. That is the +feeling that prevails in Montaigne, and that is the idea of Rabelais when +he made it the only rule of his Abbey of Theleme: "Fay ce que vouldras." + + A little later this doctrine was repeated in varying tones by + many writers more or less tinged by the culture brought into + fashion by the Renaissance. "As long as Danae was free," remarks + Ferrand in his sixteenth century treatise, _De la Maladie + d'Amour_, "she was chaste." And Sir Kenelm Digby, the latest + representative of the Renaissance spirit, insists in his _Private + Memoirs_ that the liberty which Lycurgus, "the wisest human + law-maker that ever was," gave to women to communicate their + bodies to men to whom they were drawn by noble affection, and the + hope of generous offspring, was the true cause why "real chastity + flourished in Sparta more than in any other part of the world." + +In Protestant countries the ascetic ideal of chastity was still further +discredited by the Reformation movement which was in considerable part a +revolt against compulsory celibacy. Religion was thus no longer placed on +the side of chastity. In the eighteenth century, if not earlier, the +authority of Nature also was commonly invoked against chastity. It has +thus happened that during the past two centuries serious opinion +concerning chastity has only been partially favorable to it. It began to +be felt that an unhappy and injurious mistake had been perpetrated by +attempting to maintain a lofty ideal which encouraged hypocrisy. "The +human race would gain much," as Senancour wrote early in the nineteenth +century in his remarkable book on love, "if virtue were made less +laborious. The merit would not be so great, but what is the use of an +elevation which can rarely be sustained?"[78] + +There can be no doubt that the undue discredit into which the idea of +chastity began to fall from the eighteenth century onwards was largely +due to the existence of that merely external and conventional physical +chastity which was arbitrarily enforced so far as it could be +enforced,--and is indeed in some degree still enforced, nominally or +really,--upon all respectable women outside marriage. The conception of +the physical virtue of virginity had degraded the conception of the +spiritual virtue of chastity. A mere routine, it was felt, prescribed to a +whole sex, whether they would or not, could never possess the beauty and +charm of a virtue. At the same time it began to be realized that, as a +matter of fact, the state of compulsory virginity is not only not a state +especially favorable to the cultivation of real virtues, but that it is +bound up with qualities which are no longer regarded as of high value.[79] + + "How arbitrary, artificial, contrary to Nature, is the life now + imposed upon women in this matter of chastity!" wrote James + Hinton forty years ago. "Think of that line: 'A woman who + deliberates is lost.' We _make_ danger, making all womanhood hang + upon a point like this, and surrounding it with unnatural and + preternatural dangers. There is a wanton unreason embodied in the + life of woman now; the present 'virtue' is a morbid unhealthy + plant. Nature and God never poised the life of a woman upon such + a needle's point. The whole modern idea of chastity has in it + sensual exaggeration, surely, in part, remaining to us from other + times, with what was good in it in great part gone." + + "The whole grace of virginity," wrote another philosopher, + Guyau, "is ignorance. Virginity, like certain fruits, can only + be preserved by a process of desiccation." + + Merimee pointed out the same desiccating influence of virginity. + In a letter dated 1859 he wrote: "I think that nowadays people + attach far too much importance to chastity. Not that I deny that + chastity is a virtue, but there are degrees in virtues just as + there are in vices. It seems to be absurd that a woman should be + banished from society for having had a lover, while a woman who + is miserly, double-faced and spiteful goes everywhere. The + morality of this age is assuredly not that which is taught in the + Gospel. In my opinion it is better to love too much than not + enough. Nowadays dry hearts are stuck up on a pinnacle" (_Revue + des Deux Mondes_, April, 1896). + + Dr. H. Paul has developed an allied point. She writes: "There are + girls who, even as children, have prostituted themselves by + masturbation and lascivious thoughts. The purity of their souls + has long been lost and nothing remains unknown to them, but--they + have preserved their hymens! That is for the sake of the future + husband. Let no one dare to doubt their innocence with that + unimpeachable evidence! And if another girl, who has passed her + childhood in complete purity, now, with awakened senses and warm + impetuous womanliness, gives herself to a man in love or even + only in passion, they all stand up and scream that she is + 'dishonored!' And, not least, the prostituted girl with the + hymen. It is she indeed who screams loudest and throws the + biggest stones. Yet the 'dishonored' woman, who is sound and + wholesome, need not fear to tell what she has done to the man who + desires her in marriage, speaking as one human being to another. + She has no need to blush, she has exercised her human rights, and + no reasonable man will on that account esteem her the less" (Dr. + H. Paul, "Die Ueberschaetzung der Jungfernschaft," _Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, Bd. ii, p. 14, 1907). + + In a similar spirit writes F. Erhard (_Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, Bd. i, p. 408): "Virginity in one sense has its + worth, but in the ordinary sense it is greatly overestimated. + Apart from the fact that a girl who possesses it may yet be + thoroughly perverted, this over-estimation of virginity leads to + the girl who is without it being despised, and has further + resulted in the development of a special industry for the + preparation, by means of a prudishly cloistral education, of + girls who will bring to their husbands the peculiar dainty of a + bride who knows nothing about anything. Naturally, this can only + be achieved at the expense of any rational education. What the + undeveloped little goose may turn into, no man can foresee." + + Freud (_Sexual-Probleme_, March, 1908) also points out the evil + results of the education for marriage which is given to girls on + the basis of this ideal of virginity. "Education undertakes the + task of repressing the girl's sensuality until the time of + betrothal. It not only forbids sexual relations and sets a high + premium on innocence, but it also withdraws the ripening womanly + individuality from temptation, maintaining a state of ignorance + concerning the practical side of the part she is intended to play + in life, and enduring no stirring of love which cannot lead to + marriage. The result is that when she is suddenly permitted to + fall in love by the authority of her elders, the girl cannot + bring her psychic disposition to bear, and goes into marriage + uncertain of her own feelings. As a consequence of this + artificial retardation of the function of love she brings nothing + but deception to the husband who has set all his desires upon + her, and manifests frigidity in her physical relations with him." + + Senancour (_De l'Amour_, vol. i, p. 285) even believes that, when + it is possible to leave out of consideration the question of + offspring, not only will the law of chastity become equal for the + two sexes, but there will be a tendency for the situation of the + sexes to be, to some extent, changed. "Continence becomes a + counsel rather than a precept, and it is in women that the + voluptuous inclination will be regarded with most indulgence. Man + is made for work; he only meets pleasure in passing; he must be + content that women should occupy themselves with it more than he. + It is men whom it exhausts, and men must always, in part, + restrain their desires." + +As, however, we liberate ourselves from the bondage of a compulsory +physical chastity, it becomes possible to rehabilitate chastity as a +virtue. At the present day it can no longer be said that there is on the +part of thinkers and moralists any active hostility to the idea of +chastity; there is, on the contrary, a tendency to recognize the value of +chastity. But this recognition has been accompanied by a return to the +older and sounder conception of chastity. The preservation of a rigid +sexual abstinence, an empty virginity, can only be regarded as a +pseudo-chastity. The only positive virtue which Aristotle could have +recognized in this field was a temperance involving restraint of the lower +impulses, a wise exercise and not a non-exercise.[80] The best thinkers of +the Christian Church adopted the same conception; St. Basil in his +important monastic rules laid no weight on self-discipline as an end in +itself, but regarded it as an instrument for enabling the spirit to gain +power over the flesh. St. Augustine declared that continence is only +excellent when practised in the faith of the highest good,[81] and he +regarded chastity as "an orderly movement of the soul subordinating lower +things to higher things, and specially to be manifested in conjugal +relationships"; Thomas Aquinas, defining chastity in much the same way, +defined impurity as the enjoyment of sexual pleasure not according to +right reason, whether as regards the object or the conditions.[82] But for +a time the voices of the great moralists were unheard. The virtue of +chastity was swamped in the popular Christian passion for the annihilation +of the flesh, and that view was, in the sixteenth century, finally +consecrated by the Council of Trent, which formally pronounced an anathema +upon anyone who should declare that the state of virginity and celibacy +was not better than the state of matrimony. Nowadays the pseudo-chastity +that was of value on the simple ground that any kind of continence is of +higher spiritual worth than any kind of sexual relationship belongs to the +past, except for those who adhere to ancient ascetic creeds. The mystic +value of virginity has gone; it seems only to arouse in the modern man's +mind the idea of a piquancy craved by the hardened rake;[83] it is men who +have themselves long passed the age of innocence who attach so much +importance to the innocence of their brides. The conception of life-long +continence as an ideal has also gone; at the best it is regarded as a mere +matter of personal preference. And the conventional simulation of +universal chastity, at the bidding of respectability, is coming to be +regarded as a hindrance rather than a help to the cultivation of any real +chastity.[84] + +The chastity that is regarded by the moralist of to-day as a virtue has +its worth by no means in its abstinence. It is not, in St. Theresa's +words, the virtue of the tortoise which withdraws its limbs under its +carapace. It is a virtue because it is a discipline in self-control, +because it helps to fortify the character and will, and because it is +directly favorable to the cultivation of the most beautiful, exalted, and +effective sexual life. So viewed, chastity may be opposed to the demands +of debased mediaeval Catholicism, but it is in harmony with the demands of +our civilized life to-day, and by no means at variance with the +requirements of Nature. + +There is always an analogy between the instinct of reproduction and the +instinct of nutrition. In the matter of eating it is the influence of +science, of physiology, which has finally put aside an exaggerated +asceticism, and made eating "pure." The same process, as James Hinton well +pointed out, has been made possible in the sexual relationships; "science +has in its hands the key to purity."[85] + +Many influences have, however, worked together to favor an insistence on +chastity. There has, in the first place, been an inevitable reaction +against the sexual facility which had come to be regarded as natural. Such +facility was found to have no moral value, for it tended to relaxation of +moral fibre and was unfavorable to the finest sexual satisfaction. It +could not even claim to be natural in any broad sense of the word, for, in +Nature generally, sexual gratification tends to be rare and difficult.[86] +Courtship is arduous and long, the season of love is strictly delimited, +pregnancy interrupts sexual relationships. Even among savages, so long as +they have been untainted by civilization, virility is usually maintained +by a fine asceticism; the endurance of hardship, self-control and +restraint, tempered by rare orgies, constitute a discipline which covers +the sexual as well as every other department of savage life. To preserve +the same virility in civilized life, it may well be felt, we must +deliberately cultivate a virtue which under savage conditions of life is +natural.[87] + +The influence of Nietzsche, direct and indirect, has been on the side of +the virtue of chastity in its modern sense. The command: "Be hard," as +Nietzsche used it, was not so much an injunction to an unfeeling +indifference towards others as an appeal for a more strenuous attitude +towards one's self, the cultivation of a self-control able to gather up +and hold in the forces of the soul for expenditure on deliberately +accepted ends. "A relative chastity," he wrote, "a fundamental and wise +foresight in the face of erotic things, even in thought, is part of a fine +reasonableness in life, even in richly endowed and complete natures."[88] +In this matter Nietzsche is a typical representative of the modern +movement for the restoration of chastity to its proper place as a real and +beneficial virtue, and not a mere empty convention. Such a movement could +not fail to make itself felt, for all that favors facility and luxurious +softness in sexual matters is quickly felt to degrade character as well as +to diminish the finest erotic satisfaction. For erotic satisfaction, in +its highest planes, is only possible when we have secured for the sexual +impulse a high degree of what Colin Scott calls "irradiation," that is to +say a wide diffusion through the whole of the psychic organism. And that +can only be attained by placing impediments in the way of the swift and +direct gratification of sexual desire, by compelling it to increase its +force, to take long circuits, to charge the whole organism so highly that +the final climax of gratified love is not the trivial detumescence of a +petty desire but the immense consummation of a longing in which the whole +soul as well as the whole body has its part. "Only the chaste can be +really obscene," said Huysmans. And on a higher plane, only the chaste can +really love. + + "Physical purity," remarks Hans Menjago ("Die Ueberschaetzung der + Physischen Reinheit," _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, vol. ii, + Part VIII) "was originally valued as a sign of greater strength + of will and firmness of character, and it marked a rise above + primitive conditions. This purity was difficult to preserve in + those unsure days; it was rare and unusual. From this rarity rose + the superstition of supernatural power residing in the virgin. + But this has no meaning as soon as such purity becomes general + and a specially conspicuous degree of firmness of character is no + longer needed to maintain it.... Physical purity can only possess + value when it is the result of individual strength of character, + and not when it is the result of compulsory rules of morality." + + Konrad Hoeller, who has given special attention to the sexual + question in schools, remarks in relation to physical exercise: + "The greatest advantage of physical exercises, however, is not + the development of the active and passive strength of the body + and its skill, but the establishment and fortification of the + authority of the will over the body and its needs, so much given + up to indolence. He who has learnt to endure and overcome, for + the sake of a definite aim, hunger and thirst and fatigue, will + be the better able to withstand sexual impulses and the + temptation to gratify them, when better insight and aesthetic + feeling have made clear to him, as one used to maintain authority + over his body, that to yield would be injurious or disgraceful" + (K. Hoeller, "Die Aufgabe der Volksschule," _Sexualpaedagogik_, p. + 70). Professor Schaefenacker (id., p. 102), who also emphasizes + the importance of self-control and self-restraint, thinks a youth + must bear in mind his future mission, as citizen and father of a + family. + + A subtle and penetrative thinker of to-day, Jules de Gaultier, + writing on morals without reference to this specific question, + has discussed what new internal inhibitory motives we can appeal + to in replacing the old external inhibition of authority and + belief which is now decayed. He answers that the state of feeling + on which old faiths were based still persists. "May not," he + asks, "the desire for a thing that we love and wish for + beneficently replace the belief that a thing is by divine will, + or in the nature of things? Will not the presence of a bridle on + the frenzy of instinct reveal itself as a useful attitude adopted + by instinct itself for its own conservation, as a symptom of the + force and health of instinct? Is not empire over oneself, the + power of regulating one's acts, a mark of superiority and a + motive for self-esteem? Will not this joy of pride have the same + authority in preserving the instincts as was once possessed by + religious fear and the pretended imperatives of reason?" (Jules + de Gaultier, _La Dependance de la Morale et l'Independance des + Moeurs_, p. 153.) + + H.G. Wells (in _A Modern Utopia_), pointing out the importance of + chastity, though rejecting celibacy, invokes, like Jules de + Gaultier, the motive of pride. "Civilization has developed far + more rapidly than man has modified. Under the unnatural + perfection of security, liberty, and abundance our civilization + has attained, the normal untrained human being is disposed to + excess in almost every direction; he tends to eat too much and + too elaborately, to drink too much, to become lazy faster than + his work can be reduced, to waste his interest upon displays, and + to make love too much and too elaborately. He gets out of + training, and concentrates upon egoistic or erotic broodings. Our + founders organized motives from all sorts of sources, but I think + the chief force to give men self-control is pride. Pride may not + be the noblest thing in the soul, but it is the best king there, + for all that. They looked to it to keep a man clean and sound and + sane. In this matter, as in all matters of natural desire, they + held no appetite must be glutted, no appetite must have + artificial whets, and also and equally that no appetite should be + starved. A man must come from the table satisfied, but not + replete. And, in the matter of love, a straight and clean desire + for a clean and straight fellow-creature was our founders' ideal. + They enjoined marriage between equals as the duty to the race, + and they framed directions of the precisest sort to prevent that + uxorious inseparableness, that connubiality, that sometimes + reduces a couple of people to something jointly less than + either." + + With regard to chastity as an element of erotic satisfaction, + Edward Carpenter writes (_Love's Coming of Age_, p. 11): "There + is a kind of illusion about physical desire similar to that which + a child suffers from when, seeing a beautiful flower, it + instantly snatches the same, and destroys in a few moments the + form and fragrance which attracted it. He only gets the full + glory who holds himself back a little, and truly possesses, who + is willing, if need be, not to possess. He is indeed a master of + life who, accepting the grosser desires as they come to his body, + and not refusing them, knows how to transform them at will into + the most rare and fragrant flowers of human emotion." + +Beyond its functions in building up character, in heightening and +ennobling the erotic life, and in subserving the adequate fulfilment of +family and social duties, chastity has a more special value for those who +cultivate the arts. We may not always be inclined to believe the writers +who have declared that their verse alone is wanton, but their lives +chaste. It is certainly true, however, that a relationship of this kind +tends to occur. The stuff of the sexual life, as Nietzsche says, is the +stuff of art; if it is expended in one channel it is lost for the other. +The masters of all the more intensely emotional arts have frequently +cultivated a high degree of chastity. This is notably the case as regards +music; one thinks of Mozart,[89] of Beethoven, of Schubert, and many +lesser men. In the case of poets and novelists chastity may usually seem +to be less prevalent but it is frequently well-marked, and is not seldom +disguised by the resounding reverberations which even the slightest +love-episode often exerts on the poetic organism. Goethe's life seems, at +a first glance, to be a long series of continuous love-episodes. Yet when +we remember that it was the very long life of a man whose vigor remained +until the end, that his attachments long and profoundly affected his +emotional life and his work, and that with most of the women he has +immortalized he never had actual sexual relationships at all, and when we +realize, moreover, that, throughout, he accomplished an almost +inconceivably vast amount of work, we shall probably conclude that sexual +indulgence had a very much smaller part in Goethe's life than in that of +many an average man on whom it leaves no obvious emotional or intellectual +trace whatever. Sterne, again, declared that he must always have a +Dulcinea dancing in his head, yet the amount of his intimate relations +with women appears to have been small. Balzac spent his life toiling at +his desk and carrying on during many years a love correspondence with a +woman he scarcely ever saw and at the end only spent a few months of +married life with. The like experience has befallen many artistic +creators. For, in the words of Landor, "absence is the invisible and +incorporeal mother of ideal beauty." + +We do well to remember that, while the auto-erotic manifestations through +the brain are of infinite variety and importance, the brain and the +sexual organs are yet the great rivals in using up bodily energy, and that +there is an antagonism between extreme brain vigor and extreme sexual +vigor, even although they may sometimes both appear at different periods +in the same individual.[90] In this sense there is no paradox in the +saying of Ramon Correa that potency is impotence and impotence potency, +for a high degree of energy, whether in athletics or in intellect or in +sexual activity, is unfavorable to the display of energy in other +directions. Every high degree of potency has its related impotencies. + + It may be added that we may find a curiously inconsistent proof + of the excessive importance attached to sexual function by a + society which systematically tries to depreciate sex, in the + disgrace which is attributed to the lack of "virile" potency. + Although civilized life offers immense scope for the activities + of sexually impotent persons, the impotent man is made to feel + that, while he need not be greatly concerned if he suffers from + nervous disturbances of digestion, if he should suffer just as + innocently from nervous disturbances of the sexual impulse, it is + almost a crime. A striking example of this was shown, a few years + ago, when it was plausibly suggested that Carlyle's relations + with his wife might best be explained by supposing that he + suffered from some trouble of sexual potency. At once admirers + rushed forward to "defend" Carlyle from this "disgraceful" + charge; they were more shocked than if it had been alleged that + he was a syphilitic. Yet impotence is, at the most, an infirmity, + whether due to some congenital anatomical defect or to a + disturbance of nervous balance in the delicate sexual mechanism, + such as is apt to occur in men of abnormally sensitive + temperament. It is no more disgraceful to suffer from it than + from dyspepsia, with which, indeed, it may be associated. Many + men of genius and high moral character have been sexually + deformed. This was the case with Cowper (though this significant + fact is suppressed by his biographers); Ruskin was divorced for a + reason of this kind; and J.S. Mill, it is said, was sexually of + little more than infantile development. + +Up to this point I have been considering the quality of chastity and the +quality of asceticism in their most general sense and without any attempt +at precise differentiation.[91] But if we are to accept these as modern +virtues, valid to-day, it is necessary that we should be somewhat more +precise in defining them. It seems most convenient, and most strictly +accordant also with etymology, if we agree to mean by asceticism or +_ascesis_, the athlete quality of self-discipline, controlling, by no +means necessarily for indefinitely prolonged periods, the gratification of +the sexual impulse. By chastity, which is primarily the quality of purity, +and secondarily that of holiness, rather than of abstinence, we may best +understand a due proportion between erotic claims and the other claims of +life. "Chastity," as Ellen Key well says, "is harmony between body and +soul in relation to love." Thus comprehended, asceticism is the virtue of +control that leads up to erotic gratification, and chastity is the virtue +which exerts its harmonizing influence in the erotic life itself. + +It will be seen that asceticism by no means necessarily involves perpetual +continence. Properly understood, asceticism is a discipline, a training, +which has reference to an end not itself. If it is compulsorily perpetual, +whether at the dictates of a religious dogma, or as a mere fetish, it is +no longer on a natural basis, and it is no longer moral, for the restraint +of a man who has spent his whole life in a prison is of no value for life. +If it is to be natural and to be moral asceticism must have an end outside +itself, it must subserve the ends of vital activity, which cannot be +subserved by a person who is engaged in a perpetual struggle with his own +natural instincts. A man may, indeed, as a matter of taste or preference, +live his whole life in sexual abstinence, freely and easily, but in that +case he is not an ascetic, and his abstinence is neither a subject for +applause nor for criticism. + +In the same way chastity, far from involving sexual abstinence, only has +its value when it is brought within the erotic sphere. A purity that is +ignorance, when the age of childish innocence is once passed, is mere +stupidity; it is nearer to vice than to virtue. Nor is purity consonant +with effort and struggle; in that respect it differs from asceticism. "We +conquer the bondage of sex," Rosa Mayreder says, "by acceptance, not by +denials, and men can only do this with the help of women." The would-be +chastity of cold calculation is equally unbeautiful and unreal, and +without any sort of value. A true and worthy chastity can only be +supported by an ardent ideal, whether, as among the early Christians, this +is the erotic ideal of a new romance, or, as among ourselves, a more +humanly erotic ideal. "Only erotic idealism," says Ellen Key, "can arouse +enthusiasm for chastity." Chastity in a healthily developed person can +thus be beautifully exercised only in the actual erotic life; in part it +is the natural instinct of dignity and temperance; in part it is the art +of touching the things of sex with hands that remember their aptness for +all the fine ends of life. Upon the doorway of entrance to the inmost +sanctuary of love there is thus the same inscription as on the doorway to +the Epidaurian Sanctuary of Aesculapius: "None but the pure shall enter +here." + + It will be seen that the definition of chastity remains somewhat + lacking in precision. That is inevitable. We cannot grasp purity + tightly, for, like snow, it will merely melt in our hands. + "Purity itself forbids too minute a system of rules for the + observance of purity," well says Sidgwick (_Methods of Ethics_, + Bk. iii, Ch. IX). Elsewhere (op. cit., Bk. iii, Ch. XI) he + attempts to answer the question: What sexual relations are + essentially impure? and concludes that no answer is possible. + "There appears to be no distinct principle, having any claim to + self-evidence, upon which the question can be answered so as to + command general assent." Even what is called "Free Love," he + adds, "in so far as it is earnestly advocated as a means to a + completer harmony of sentiment between men and women, cannot be + condemned as impure, for it seems paradoxical to distinguish + purity from impurity merely by less rapidity of transition." + + Moll, from the standpoint of medical psychology, reaches the same + conclusion as Sidgwick from that of ethics. In a report on the + "Value of Chastity for Men," published as an appendix to the + third edition (1899) of his _Kontraere Sexualempfindung_, the + distinguished Berlin physician discusses the matter with much + vigorous common sense, insisting that "chaste and unchaste are + _relative ideas_." We must not, he states, as is so often done, + identify "chaste" with "sexually abstinent." He adds that we are + not justified in describing all extra-marital sexual intercourse + as unchaste, for, if we do so, we shall be compelled to regard + nearly all men, and some very estimable women, as unchaste. He + rightly insists that in this matter we must apply the same rule + to women as to men, and he points out that even when it involves + what may be technically adultery sexual intercourse is not + necessarily unchaste. He takes the case of a girl who, at + eighteen, when still mentally immature, is married to a man with + whom she finds it impossible to live and a separation + consequently occurs, although a divorce may be impossible to + obtain. If she now falls passionately in love with a man her love + may be entirely chaste, though it involves what is technically + adultery. + +In thus understanding asceticism and chastity, and their beneficial +functions in life, we see that they occupy a place midway between the +artificially exaggerated position they once held and that to which they +were degraded by the inevitable reaction of total indifference or actual +hostility which followed. Asceticism and chastity are not rigid +categorical imperatives; they are useful means to desirable ends; they are +wise and beautiful arts. They demand our estimation, but not our +over-estimation. For in over-estimating them, it is too often forgotten, +we over-estimate the sexual instinct. The instinct of sex is indeed +extremely important. Yet it has not that all-embracing and supereminent +importance which some, even of those who fight against it, are accustomed +to believe. That artificially magnified conception of the sexual impulse +is fortified by the artificial emphasis placed upon asceticism. We may +learn the real place of the sexual impulse in learning how we may +reasonably and naturally view the restraints on that impulse. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[69] For Blake and for Shelley, as well as, it may be added, for Hinton, +chastity, as Todhunter remarks in his _Study of Shelley_, is "a type of +submission to the actual, a renunciation of the infinite, and is therefore +hated by them. The chaste man, i.e., the man of prudence and self-control, +is the man who has lost the nakedness of his primitive innocence." + +[70] For evidence of the practices of savages in this matter, see Appendix +_A_ to the third volume of these _Studies_, "The Sexual Instinct in +Savages." Cf. also Chs. IV and VII of Westermarck's _History of Human +Marriage_, and also Chs. XXXVIII and XLI of the same author's _Origin and +Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. ii; Frazer's _Golden Bough_ contains +much bearing on this subject, as also Crawley's _Mystic Rose_. + +[71] See, e.g., Westermarck, _Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_, +vol. ii, pp. 412 et seq. + +[72] Thus an old Maori declared, a few years ago, that the decline of his +race has been entirely due to the loss of the ancient religious faith in +the _tabu_. "For," said he (I quote from an Auckland newspaper), "in the +olden-time our _tapu_ ramified the whole social system. The head, the +hair, spots where apparitions appeared, places which the _tohungas_ +proclaimed as sacred, we have forgotten and disregarded. Who nowadays +thinks of the sacredness of the head? See when the kettle boils, the young +man jumps up, whips the cap off his head, and uses it for a kettle-holder. +Who nowadays but looks on with indifference when the barber of the +village, if he be near the fire, shakes the loose hair off his cloth into +it, and the joke and the laughter goes on as if no sacred operation had +just been concluded. Food is consumed on places which, in bygone days, it +dared not even be carried over." + +[73] Thus, long before Christian monks arose, the ascetic life of the +cloister on very similar lines existed in Egypt in the worship of Serapis +(Dill, _Roman Society_, p. 79). + +[74] At night, in the baptistry, with lamps dimly burning, the women were +stripped even of their tunics, plunged three times in the pool, then +anointed, dressed in white, and kissed. + +[75] Thus Jerome, in his letter to Eustochium, refers to those couples who +"share the same room, often even the same bed, and call us suspicious if +we draw any conclusions," while Cyprian (_Epistola_, 86) is unable to +approve of those men he hears of, one a deacon, who live in familiar +intercourse with virgins, even sleeping in the same bed with them, for, he +declares, the feminine sex is weak and youth is wanton. + +[76] Perpetua (_Acta Sanctorum_, March 7) is termed by Hort and Mayor +"that fairest flower in the garden of post-Apostolic Christendom." She was +not, however, a virgin, but a young mother with a baby at her breast. + +[77] The strength of early Christian asceticism lay in its spontaneous and +voluntary character. When, in the ninth century, the Carlovingians +attempted to enforce monastic and clerical celibacy, the result was a +great outburst of unchastity and crime; nunneries became brothels, nuns +were frequently guilty of infanticide, monks committed unspeakable +abominations, the regular clergy formed incestuous relations with their +nearest female relatives (Lea, _History of Sacerdotal Celibacy_, vol. i, +pp, 155 et seq.). + +[78] Senancour, _De l'Amour_, vol. ii, p. 233. Islam has placed much less +stress on chastity than Christianity, but practically, it would appear, +there is often more regard for chastity under Mohammedan rule than under +Christian rule. Thus it is stated by "Viator" (_Fortnightly Review_, Dec., +1908) that formerly, under Turkish Moslem rule, it was impossible to buy +the virtue of women in Bosnia, but that now, under the Christian rule of +Austria, it is everywhere possible to buy women near the Austrian +frontier. + +[79] The basis of this feeling was strengthened when it was shown by +scholars that the physical virtue of "virginity" had been masquerading +under a false name. To remain a virgin seems to have meant at the first, +among peoples of early Aryan culture, by no means to take a vow of +chastity, but to refuse to submit to the yoke of patriarchal marriage. The +women who preferred to stand outside marriage were "virgins," even though +mothers of large families, and AEschylus speaks of the Amazons as +"virgins," while in Greek the child of an unmarried girl was always "the +virgin's son." The history of Artemis, the most primitive of Greek +deities, is instructive from this point of view. She was originally only +virginal in the sense that she rejected marriage, being the goddess of a +nomadic and matriarchal hunting people who had not yet adopted marriage, +and she was the goddess of childbirth, worshipped with orgiastic dances +and phallic emblems. It was by a late transformation that Artemis became +the goddess of chastity (Farnell, _Cults of the Greek States_, vol. ii, +pp. 442 et seq.; Sir W.M. Ramsay, _Cities of Phrygia_, vol. i, p. 96; Paul +Lafargue, "Les Mythes Historiques," _Revue des Idees_, Dec., 1904). + +[80] See, e.g., Nicomachean Ethics, Bk. iii, Ch. XIII. + +[81] _De Civitate Dei_, lib. xv, cap. XX. A little further on (lib. xvi, +cap. XXV) he refers to Abraham as a man able to use women as a man should, +his wife temperately, his concubine compliantly, neither immoderately. + +[82] _Summa_, Migne's edition, vol. iii, qu. 154, art. I. + +[83] See the Study of Modesty in the first volume of these _Studies_. + +[84] The majority of chaste youths, remarks an acute critic of modern life +(Hellpach, _Nervositaet und Kultur_, p. 175), are merely actuated by +traditional principles, or by shyness, fear of venereal infections, lack +of self-confidence, want of money, very seldom by any consideration for a +future wife, and that indeed would be a tragi-comic error, for a woman +lays no importance on intact masculinity. Moreover, he adds, the chaste +man is unable to choose a wife wisely, and it is among teachers and +clergymen--the chastest class--that most unhappy marriages are made. +Milton had already made this fact an argument for facility of divorce. + +[85] "In eating," said Hinton, "we have achieved the task of combining +pleasure with an absence of 'lust.' The problem for man and woman is so to +use and possess the sexual passion as to make it the minister to higher +things, with no restraint on it but that. It is essentially connected with +things of the spiritual order, and would naturally revolve round them. To +think of it as merely bodily is a mistake." + +[86] See "Analysis of the Sexual Impulse," and Appendix, "The Sexual +Instinct in Savages," in vol. iii of these _Studies_. + +[87] I have elsewhere discussed more at length the need in modern +civilized life of a natural and sincere asceticism (see _Affirmations_, +1898) "St. Francis and Others." + +[88] _Der Wille zur Macht_, p. 392. + +[89] At the age of twenty-five, when he had already produced much fine +work, Mozart wrote in his letters that he had never touched a woman, +though he longed for love and marriage. He could not afford to marry, he +would not seduce an innocent girl, a venial relation was repulsive to him. + +[90] Reibmayr, _Die Entwicklungsgeschichte des Talentes und Genies._, Bd. +i, p. 437. + +[91] We may exclude altogether, it is scarcely necessary to repeat, the +quality of virginity--that is to say, the possession of an intact +hymen--since this is a merely physical quality with no necessary ethical +relationships. The demand for virginity in women is, for the most part, +either the demand for a better marketable article, or for a more powerful +stimulant to masculine desire. Virginity involves no moral qualities in +its possessor. Chastity and asceticism, on the other hand, are meaningless +terms, except as demands made by the spirit on itself or on the body it +controls. + + + + +CHAPTER VI. + +THE PROBLEM OF SEXUAL ABSTINENCE. + +The Influence of Tradition--The Theological Conception of Lust--Tendency +of These Influences to Degrade Sexual Morality--Their Result in Creating +the Problem of Sexual Abstinence--The Protests Against Sexual +Abstinence--Sexual Abstinence and Genius--Sexual Abstinence in Women--The +Advocates of Sexual Abstinence--Intermediate Attitude--Unsatisfactory +Nature of the Whole Discussion--Criticism of the Conception of Sexual +Abstinence--Sexual Abstinence as Compared to Abstinence from Food--No +Complete Analogy--The Morality of Sexual Abstinence Entirely Negative--Is +It the Physician's Duty to Advise Extra-Conjugal Sexual +Intercourse?--Opinions of Those Who Affirm or Deny This Duty--The +Conclusion Against Such Advice--The Physician Bound by the Social and +Moral Ideas of His Age--The Physician as Reformer--Sexual Abstinence and +Sexual Hygiene--Alcohol--The Influence of Physical and Mental +Exercise--The Inadequacy of Sexual Hygiene in This Field--The Unreal +Nature of the Conception of Sexual Abstinence--The Necessity of Replacing +It by a More Positive Ideal. + + +When we look at the matter from a purely abstract or even purely +biological point of view, it might seem that in deciding that asceticism +and chastity are of high value for the personal life we have said all that +is necessary to say. That, however, is very far from being the case. We +soon realize here, as at every point in the practical application of +sexual psychology, that it is not sufficient to determine the abstractly +right course along biological lines. We have to harmonize our biological +demands with social demands. We are ruled not only by natural instincts +but by inherited traditions, that in the far past were solidly based on +intelligible grounds, and that even still, by the mere fact of their +existence, exert a force which we cannot and ought not to ignore. + +In discussing the valuation of the sexual impulse we found that we had +good ground for making a very high estimate of love. In discussing +chastity and asceticism we found that they also are highly to be valued. +And we found that, so far from any contradiction being here involved, +love and chastity are intertwined in all their finest developments, and +that there is thus a perfect harmony in apparent opposition. But when we +come to consider the matter in detail, in its particular personal +applications, we find that a new factor asserts itself. We find that our +inherited social and religious traditions exert a pressure, all on one +side, which makes it impossible to place the relations of love and +chastity simply on the basis of biology and reason. We are confronted at +the outset by our traditions. On the one side these traditions have +weighted the word "lust"--considered as expressing all the manifestations +of the sexual impulse which are outside marriage or which fail to have +marriage as their direct and ostentatious end--with deprecatory and +sinister meanings. And on the other side these traditions have created the +problem of "sexual abstinence," which has nothing to do with either +asceticism or chastity as these have been defined in the previous chapter, +but merely with the purely negative pressure on the sexual impulse, +exerted, independently of the individual's wishes, by his religious and +social environment. + +The theological conception of "lust," or "libido," as sin, followed +logically the early Christian conception of "the flesh," and became +inevitable as soon as that conception was firmly established. Not only, +indeed, had early Christian ideals a degrading influence on the estimation +of sexual desire _per se_, but they tended to depreciate generally the +dignity of the sexual relationship. If a man made sexual advances to a +woman outside marriage, and thus brought her within the despised circle of +"lust," he was injuring her because he was impairing her religious and +moral value.[92] The only way he could repair the damage done was by +paying her money or by entering into a forced and therefore probably +unfortunate marriage with her. That is to say that sexual relationships +were, by the ecclesiastical traditions, placed on a pecuniary basis, on +the same level as prostitution. By its well-meant intentions to support +the theological morality which had developed on an ascetic basis, the +Church was thus really undermining even that form of sexual relationship +which it sanctified. + + Gregory the Great ordered that the seducer of a virgin shall + marry her, or, in case of refusal, be severely punished + corporally and shut up in a monastery to perform penance. + According to other ecclesiastical rules, the seducer of a virgin, + though held to no responsibility by the civil forum, was required + to marry her, or to find a husband and furnish a dowry for her. + Such rules had their good side, and were especially equitable + when seduction had been accomplished by deceit. But they largely + tended in practice to subordinate all questions of sexual + morality to a money question. The reparation to the woman, also, + largely became necessary because the ecclesiastical conception of + lust caused her value to be depreciated by contact with lust, and + the reparation might be said to constitute a part of penance. + Aquinas held that lust, in however slight a degree, is a mortal + sin, and most of the more influential theologians took a view + nearly or quite as rigid. Some, however, held that a certain + degree of delectation is possible in these matters without mortal + sin, or asserted, for instance, that to feel the touch of a soft + and warm hand is not mortal sin so long as no sexual feeling is + thereby aroused. Others, however, held that such distinctions are + impossible, and that all pleasures of this kind are sinful. Tomas + Sanchez endeavored at much length to establish rules for the + complicated problems of delectation that thus arose, but he was + constrained to admit that no rules are really possible, and that + such matters must be left to the judgment of a prudent man. At + that point casuistry dissolves and the modern point of view + emerges (see, e.g., Lea, _History of Auricular Confession_, vol. + ii, pp. 57, 115, 246, etc.). + +Even to-day the influence of the old traditions of the Church still +unconsciously survives among us. That is inevitable as regards religious +teachers, but it is found also in men of science, even in Protestant +countries. The result is that quite contradictory dogmas are found side by +side, even in the same writer. On the one hand, the manifestations of the +sexual impulse are emphatically condemned as both unnecessary and evil; on +the other hand, marriage, which is fundamentally (whatever else it may +also be) a manifestation of the sexual impulse, receives equally emphatic +approval as the only proper and moral form of living.[93] There can be no +reasonable doubt whatever that it is to the surviving and pervading +influence of the ancient traditional theological conception of _libido_ +that we must largely attribute the sharp difference of opinions among +physicians on the question of sexual abstinence and the otherwise +unnecessary acrimony with which these opinions have sometimes been stated. + +On the one side, we find the emphatic statement that sexual intercourse is +necessary and that health cannot be maintained unless the sexual +activities are regularly exercised. + +"All parts of the body which are developed for a definite use are kept in +health, and in the enjoyment of fair growth and of long youth, by the +fulfilment of that use, and by their appropriate exercise in the +employment to which they are accustomed." In that statement, which occurs +in the great Hippocratic treatise "On the Joints," we have the classic +expression of the doctrine which in ever varying forms has been taught by +all those who have protested against sexual abstinence. When we come down +to the sixteenth century outbreak of Protestantism we find that Luther's +revolt against Catholicism was in part a protest against the teaching of +sexual abstinence. "He to whom the gift of continence is not given," he +said in his _Table Talk_, "will not become chaste by fasting and vigils. +For my own part I was not excessively tormented [though elsewhere he +speaks of the great fires of lust by which he had been troubled], but all +the same the more I macerated myself the more I burnt." And three hundred +years later, Bebel, the would-be nineteenth century Luther of a different +Protestantism, took the same attitude towards sexual abstinence, while +Hinton the physician and philosopher, living in a land of rigid sexual +conventionalism and prudery, and moved by keen sympathy for the sufferings +he saw around him, would break into passionate sarcasm when confronted by +the doctrine of sexual abstinence. "There are innumerable ills--terrible +destructions, madness even, the ruin of lives--for which the embrace of +man and woman would be a remedy. No one thinks of questioning it. +Terrible evils and a remedy in a delight and joy! And man has chosen so to +muddle his life that he must say: 'There, that would be a remedy, but I +cannot use it. I _must be virtuous!_'" + + If we confine ourselves to modern times and to fairly precise + medical statements, we find in Schurig's _Spermatologia_ (1720, + pp. 274 et seq.), not only a discussion of the advantages of + moderate sexual intercourse in a number of disorders, as + witnessed by famous authorities, but also a list of + results--including anorexia, insanity, impotence, epilepsy, even + death--which were believed to have been due to sexual abstinence. + This extreme view of the possible evils of sexual abstinence + seems to have been part of the Renaissance traditions of medicine + stiffened by a certain opposition between religion and science. + It was still rigorously stated by Lallemand early in the + nineteenth century. Subsequently, the medical statements of the + evil results of sexual abstinence became more temperate and + measured, though still often pronounced. Thus Gyurkovechky + believes that these results may be as serious as those of sexual + excess. Krafft-Ebing showed that sexual abstinence could produce + a state of general nervous excitement (_Jahrbuch fuer + Psychiatrie_, Bd. viii, Heft 1 and 2). Schrenck-Notzing regards + sexual abstinence as a cause of extreme sexual hyperaesthesia and + of various perversions (in a chapter on sexual abstinence in his + _Kriminalpsychologische und Psychopathologische Studien_, 1902, + pp. 174-178). He records in illustration the case of a man of + thirty-six who had masturbated in moderation as a boy, but + abandoned the practice entirely, on moral grounds, twenty years + ago, and has never had sexual intercourse, feeling proud to enter + marriage a chaste man, but now for years has suffered greatly + from extreme sexual hyperaesthesia and concentration of thought on + sexual subjects, notwithstanding a strong will and the resolve + not to masturbate or indulge in illicit intercourse. In another + case a vigorous and healthy man, not inverted, and with strong + sexual desires, who remained abstinent up to marriage, suffers + from psychic impotence, and his wife remains a virgin + notwithstanding all her affection and caresses. Ord considered + that sexual abstinence might produce many minor evils. "Most of + us," he wrote (_British Medical Journal_, Aug. 2, 1884) "have, no + doubt, been consulted by men, chaste in act, who are tormented by + sexual excitement. They tell one stories of long-continued local + excitement, followed by intense muscular weariness, or by severe + aching pain in the back and legs. In some I have had complaints + of swelling and stiffness in the legs, and of pains in the + joints, particularly in the knees;" he gives the case of a man + who suffered after prolonged chastity from inflammatory + conditions of knees and was only cured by marriage. Pearce + Gould, it may be added, finds that "excessive ungratified sexual + desire" is one of the causes of acute orchitis. Remondino ("Some + Observations on Continence as a Factor in Health and Disease," + _Pacific Medical Journal_, Jan., 1900) records the case of a + gentleman of nearly seventy who, during the prolonged illness of + his wife, suffered from frequent and extreme priapism, causing + insomnia. He was very certain that his troubles were not due to + his continence, but all treatment failed and there were no + spontaneous emissions. At last Remondino advised him to, as he + expresses it, "imitate Solomon." He did so, and all the symptoms + at once disappeared. This case is of special interest, because + the symptoms were not accompanied by any conscious sexual desire. + It is no longer generally believed that sexual abstinence tends + to produce insanity, and the occasional cases in which prolonged + and intense sexual desire in young women is followed by insanity + will usually be found to occur on a basis of hereditary + degeneration. It is held by many authorities, however, that minor + mental troubles, of a more or less vague character, as well as + neurasthenia and hysteria, are by no means infrequently due to + sexual abstinence. Thus Freud, who has carefully studied + angstneurosis, the obsession of anxiety, finds that it is a + result of sexual abstinence, and may indeed be considered as a + vicarious form of such abstinence (Freud, _Sammlung Kleiner + Schriften zur Neurosenlehre_, 1906, pp. 76 et seq.). + + The whole subject of sexual abstinence has been discussed at + length by Nystroem, of Stockholm, in _Das Geschlechtsleben und + seine Gesetze_, Ch. III. He concludes that it is desirable that + continence should be preserved as long as possible in order to + strengthen the physical health and to develop the intelligence + and character. The doctrine of permanent sexual abstinence, + however, he regards as entirely false, except in the case of a + small number of religious or philosophic persons. "Complete + abstinence during a long period of years cannot be borne without + producing serious results both on the body and the mind.... + Certainly, a young man should repress his sexual impulses as long + as possible and avoid everything that may artificially act as a + sexual stimulant. If, however, he has done so, and still suffers + from unsatisfied normal sexual desires, and if he sees no + possibility of marriage within a reasonable time, no one should + dare to say that he is committing a sin if, with mutual + understanding, he enters into sexual relations with a woman + friend, or forms temporary sexual relationships, provided, that + is, that he takes the honorable precaution of begetting no + children, unless his partner is entirely willing to become a + mother, and he is prepared to accept all the responsibilities of + fatherhood." In an article of later date ("Die Einwirkung der + Sexuellen Abstinenz auf die Gesundheit," _Sexual-Probleme_, July, + 1908) Nystroem vigorously sums up his views. He includes among the + results of sexual abstinence orchitis, frequent involuntary + seminal emissions, impotence, neurasthenia, depression, and a + great variety of nervous disturbances of vaguer character, + involving diminished power of work, limited enjoyment of life, + sleeplessness, nervousness, and pre-occupation with sexual + desires and imaginations. More especially there is heightened + sexual irritability with erections, or even seminal emissions on + the slightest occasion, as on gazing at an attractive woman or in + social intercourse with her, or in the presence of works of art + representing naked figures. Nystroem has had the opportunity of + investigating and recording ninety cases of persons who have + presented these and similar symptoms as the result, he believes, + of sexual abstinence. He has published some of these cases + (_Zeitschrift fuer Sexualwissenschaft_, Oct., 1908), but it may be + added that Rohleder ("Die Abstinentia Sexualis," ib., Nov., 1908) + has criticized these cases, and doubts whether any of them are + conclusive. Rohleder believes that the bad results of sexual + abstinence are never permanent, and also that no anatomically + pathological states (such as orchitis) can be thereby produced. + But he considers, nevertheless, that even incomplete and + temporary sexual abstinence may produce fairly serious results, + and especially neurasthenic disturbances of various kinds, such + as nervous irritability, anxiety, depression, disinclination for + work; also diurnal emissions, premature ejaculations, and even a + state approaching satyriasis; and in women hysteria, + hystero-epilepsy, and nymphomaniacal manifestations; all these + symptoms may, however, he believes, be cured when the abstinence + ceases. + + Many advocates of sexual abstinence have attached importance to + the fact that men of great genius have apparently been completely + continent throughout life. This is certainly true (see _ante_, p. + 173). But this fact can scarcely be invoked as an argument in + favor of the advantages of sexual abstinence among the ordinary + population. J.F. Scott selects Jesus, Newton, Beethoven, and Kant + as "men of vigor and mental acumen who have lived chastely as + bachelors." It cannot, however, be said that Dr. Scott has been + happy in the four figures whom he has been able to select from + the whole history of human genius as examples of life-long sexual + abstinence. We know little with absolute certainty of Jesus, and + even if we reject the diagnosis which Professor Binet-Sangle (in + his _Folie de Jesus_) has built up from a minute study of the + Gospels, there are many reasons why we should refrain from + emphasizing the example of his sexual abstinence; Newton, apart + from his stupendous genius in a special field, was an incomplete + and unsatisfactory human being who ultimately reached a condition + very like insanity; Beethoven was a thoroughly morbid and + diseased man, who led an intensely unhappy existence; Kant, from + first to last, was a feeble valetudinarian. It would probably be + difficult to find a healthy normal man who would voluntarily + accept the life led by any of these four, even as the price of + their fame. J.A. Godfrey (_Science of Sex_, pp. 139-147) + discusses at length the question whether sexual abstinence is + favorable to ordinary intellectual vigor, deciding that it is + not, and that we cannot argue from the occasional sexual + abstinence of men of genius, who are often abnormally + constituted, and physically below the average, to the normally + developed man. Sexual abstinence, it may be added, is by no means + always a favorable sign, even in men who stand intellectually + above the average. "I have not obtained the impression," remarks + Freud (_Sexual-Probleme_, March, 1908), "that sexual abstinence + is helpful to energetic and independent men of action or original + thinkers, to courageous liberators or reformers. The sexual + conduct of a man is often symbolic of his whole method of + reaction in the world. The man who energetically grasps the + object of his sexual desire may be trusted to show a similarly + relentless energy in the pursuit of other aims." + +Many, though not all, who deny that prolonged sexual abstinence is +harmless, include women in this statement. There are some authorities +indeed who believe that, whether or not any conscious sexual desire is +present, sexual abstinence is less easily tolerated by women than by +men.[94] + + Cabanis, in his famous and pioneering work, _Rapports du Physique + et du Moral_, said in 1802, that women not only bear sexual + excess more easily than men, but sexual privations with more + difficulty, and a cautious and experienced observer of to-day, + Loewenfeld (_Sexualleben und Nervenleiden_, 1899, p. 53), while + not considering that normal women bear sexual abstinence less + easily than men, adds that this is not the case with women of + neuropathic disposition, who suffer much more from this cause, + and either masturbate when sexual intercourse is impossible or + fall into hystero-neurasthenic states. Busch stated (_Das + Geschlechtsleben des Weibes_, 1839, vol. i, pp. 69, 71) that not + only is the working of the sexual functions in the organism + stronger in women than in men, but that the bad results of sexual + abstinence are more marked in women. Sir Benjamin Brodie said + long ago that the evils of continence to women are perhaps + greater than those of incontinence, and to-day Hammer (_Die + Gesundheitlichen Gefahren der Geschlechtlichen Enthaltsamkeit_, + 1904) states that, so far as reasons of health are concerned, + sexual abstinence is no more to be recommended to women than to + men. Nystroem is of the same opinion, though he thinks that women + bear sexual abstinence better than men, and has discussed this + special question at length in a section of his _Geschlechtsleben + und seine Gesetze_. He agrees with the experienced Erb that a + large number of completely chaste women of high character, and + possessing distinguished qualities of mind and heart, are more or + less disordered through their sexual abstinence; this is + specially often the case with women married to impotent men, + though it is frequently not until they approach the age of + thirty, Nystroem remarks, that women definitely realize their + sexual needs. + + A great many women who are healthy, chaste, and modest, feel at + times such powerful sexual desire that they can scarcely resist + the temptation to go into the street and solicit the first man + they meet. Not a few such women, often of good breeding, do + actually offer themselves to men with whom they may have perhaps + only the slightest acquaintance. Routh records such cases + (_British Gynaecological Journal_, Feb., 1887), and most men have + met with them at some time. When a woman of high moral character + and strong passions is subjected for a very long period to the + perpetual strain of such sexual craving, especially if combined + with love for a definite individual, a chain of evil results, + physical and moral, may be set up, and numerous distinguished + physicians have recorded such cases, which terminated at once in + complete recovery as soon as the passion was gratified. Lauvergne + long since described a case. A fairly typical case of this kind + was reported in detail by Brachet (_De l'Hypochondrie_, p. 69) + and embodied by Griesinger in his classic work on "Mental + Pathology." It concerned a healthy married lady, twenty-six years + old, having three children. A visiting acquaintance completely + gained her affections, but she strenuously resisted the seducing + influence, and concealed the violent passion that he had aroused + in her. Various serious symptoms, physical and mental, slowly + began to appear, and she developed what seemed to be signs of + consumption. Six months' stay in the south of France produced no + improvement, either in the bodily or mental symptoms. On + returning home she became still worse. Then she again met the + object of her passion, succumbed, abandoned her husband and + children, and fled with him. Six months later she was scarcely + recognizable; beauty, freshness and plumpness had taken the place + of emaciation; while the symptoms of consumption and all other + troubles had entirely disappeared. A somewhat similar case is + recorded by Camill Lederer, of Vienna (_Monatsschrift fuer + Harnkrankheiten und Sexuelle Hygiene_, 1906, Heft 3). A widow, a + few months after her husband's death, began to cough, with + symptoms of bronchial catarrh, but no definite signs of lung + disease. Treatment and change of climate proved entirely + unavailing to effect a cure. Two years later, as no signs of + disease had appeared in the lungs, though the symptoms continued, + she married again. Within a very few weeks all symptoms had + disappeared, and she was entirely fresh and well. + + Numerous distinguished gynaecologists have recorded their belief + that sexual excitement is a remedy for various disorders of the + sexual system in women, and that abstinence is a cause of such + disorders. Matthews Duncan said that sexual excitement is the + only remedy for amenorrhoea; "the only emmenagogue medicine that + I know of," he wrote (_Medical Times_, Feb. 2, 1884), "is not to + be found in the Pharmacopoeia: it is erotic excitement. Of the + value of erotic excitement there is no doubt." Anstie, in his + work on _Neuralgia_, refers to the beneficial effect of sexual + intercourse on dysmenorrhoea, remarking that the necessity of the + full natural exercise of the sexual function is shown by the + great improvement in such cases after marriage, and especially + after childbirth. (It may be remarked that not all authorities + find dysmenorrhoea benefited by marriage, and some consider that + the disease is often thereby aggravated; see, e.g., Wythe Cook, + _American Journal Obstetrics_, Dec., 1893.) The distinguished + gynaecologist, Tilt, at a somewhat earlier date (_On Uterine and + Ovarian Inflammation_, 1862, p. 309), insisted on the evil + results of sexual abstinence in producing ovarian irritation, and + perhaps subacute ovaritis, remarking that this was specially + pronounced in young widows, and in prostitutes placed in + penitentiaries. Intense desire, he pointed out, determines + organic movements resembling those required for the gratification + of the desire. These burning desires, which can only be quenched + by their legitimate satisfaction, are still further heightened by + the erotic influence of thoughts, books, pictures, music, which + are often even more sexually stimulating than social intercourse + with men, but the excitement thus produced is not relieved by + that natural collapse which should follow a state of vital + turgescence. After referring to the biological facts which show + the effect of psychic influences on the formative powers of the + ovario-uterine organs in animals, Tilt continues: "I may fairly + infer that similar incitements on the mind of females may have a + stimulating effect on the organs of ovulation. I have frequently + known menstruation to be irregular, profuse, or abnormal in type + during courtship in women in whom nothing similar had previously + occurred, and that this protracted the treatment of chronic + ovaritis and of uterine inflammation." Bonnifield, of Cincinnati + (_Medical Standard_, Dec., 1896), considers that unsatisfied + sexual desire is an important cause of catarrhal endometritis. It + is well known that uterine fibroids bear a definite relation to + organic sexual activity, and that sexual abstinence, more + especially the long-continued deprivation of pregnancy, is a very + important cause of the disease. This is well shown by an analysis + by A.E. Giles (_Lancet_, March 2, 1907) of one hundred and fifty + cases. As many as fifty-six of these cases, more than a third, + were unmarried women, though nearly all were over thirty years of + age. Of the ninety-four married women, thirty-four had never been + pregnant; of those who had been pregnant, thirty-six had not been + so for at least ten years. Thus eighty-four per cent, had either + not been pregnant at all, or had had no pregnancy for at least + ten years. It is, therefore, evident that deprivation of sexual + function, whether or not involving abstinence from sexual + intercourse, is an important cause of uterine fibroid tumors. + Balls-Headley, of Victoria (_Evolution of the Diseases of Women_, + 1894, and "Etiology of Diseases of Female Genital Organs," + Allbutt and Playfair, _System of Gynaecology_,) believes that + unsatisfied sexual desire is a factor in very many disorders of + the sexual organs in women. "My views," he writes in a private + letter, "are founded on a really special gynaecological practice + of twenty years, during which I have myself taken about seven + thousand most careful records. The normal woman is sexually + well-formed and her sexual feelings require satisfaction in the + direction of the production of the next generation, but under the + restrictive and now especially abnormal conditions of + civilization some women undergo hereditary atrophy, and the + uterus and sexual feelings are feeble; in others of good average + local development the feeling is in restraint; in others the + feelings, as well as the organs, are strong, and if normal use be + withheld evils ensue. Bearing in mind these varieties of + congenital development in relation to the respective condition of + virginity, or sterile or parous married life, the mode of + occurrence and of progress of disease grows on the physician's + mind, and there is no more occasion for bewilderment than to the + mathematician studying conic sections, when his knowledge has + grown from the basis of the science. The problem is suggested: + Has a crowd of unassociated diseases fallen as through a sieve on + woman, or have these affections almost necessarily ensued from + the circumstances of her unnatural environment?" It may be added + that Kisch (_Sexual Life of Woman_), while protesting against any + exaggerated estimate of the effects of sexual abstinence, + considers that in women it may result, not only in numerous local + disorders, but also in nervous disturbance, hysteria, and even + insanity, while in neurasthenic women "regulated sexual + intercourse has an actively beneficial effect which is often + striking." + + It is important to remark that the evil results of sexual + abstinence in women, in the opinion of many of those who insist + upon their importance, are by no means merely due to unsatisfied + sexual desire. They may be pronounced even when the woman herself + has not the slightest consciousness of sexual needs. This was + clearly pointed out forty years ago by the sagacious Anstie (_op. + cit._) In women, especially, he remarks, "a certain restless + hyperactivity of mind, and perhaps of body also, seems to be the + expression of Nature's unconscious resentment of the _neglect of + sexual functions_." Such women, he adds, have kept themselves + free from masturbation "at the expense of a perpetual and almost + fierce activity of mind and muscle." Anstie had found that some + of the worst cases of the form of nervosity and neurasthenia + which he termed "spinal irritation," often accompanied by + irritable stomach and anaemia, get well on marriage. "There can be + no question," he continues, "that a very large proportion of + these cases in single women (who form by far the greater number + of subjects of spinal irritation) are due to this conscious or + unconscious irritation kept up by an unsatisfied sexual want. It + is certain that very many young persons (women more especially) + are tormented by the irritability of the sexual organs without + having the least consciousness of sexual desire, and present the + sad spectacle of a _vie manquee_ without ever knowing the true + source of the misery which incapacitates them for all the active + duties of life. It is a singular fact that in occasional + instances one may even see two sisters, inheriting the same kind + of nervous organization, both tormented with the symptoms of + spinal irritation and both probably suffering from repressed + sexual functions, but of whom one shall be pure-minded and + entirely unconscious of the real source of her troubles, while + the other is a victim to conscious and fruitless sexual + irritation." In this matter Anstie may be regarded as a + forerunner of Freud, who has developed with great subtlety and + analytic power the doctrine of the transformation of repressed + sexual instinct in women into morbid forms. He considers that the + nervosity of to-day is largely due to the injurious action on the + sexual life of that repression of natural instincts on which our + civilization is built up. (Perhaps the clearest brief statement + of Freud's views on the matter is to be found in a very + suggestive article, "Die 'Kulturelle' Sexualmoral und die Moderne + Nervositaet," in _Sexual-Probleme_, March, 1908, reprinted in the + second series of Freud's _Sammlung Kleiner Schriften zur + Neurosenlehre_, 1909). We possess the aptitude, he says, of + sublimating and transforming our sexual activities into other + activities of a psychically related character, but non-sexual. + This process cannot, however, be carried out to an unlimited + extent any more than can the conversion of heat into mechanical + work in our machines. A certain amount of direct sexual + satisfaction is for most organizations indispensable, and the + renunciation of this individually varying amount is punished by + manifestations which we are compelled to regard as morbid. The + process of sublimation, under the influence of civilization, + leads both to sexual perversions and to psycho-neuroses. These + two conditions are closely related, as Freud views the process of + their development; they stand to each other as positive and + negative, sexual perversions being the positive pole and + psycho-neuroses the negative. It often happens, he remarks, that + a brother may be sexually perverse, while his sister, with a + weaker sexual temperament, is a neurotic whose symptoms are a + transformation of her brother's perversion; while in many + families the men are immoral, the women pure and refined but + highly nervous. In the case of women who have no defect of sexual + impulse there is yet the same pressure of civilized morality + pushing them into neurotic states. It is a terribly serious + injustice, Freud remarks, that the civilized standard of sexual + life is the same for all persons, because though some, by their + organization, may easily accept it, for others it involves the + most difficult psychic sacrifices. The unmarried girl, who has + become nervously weak, cannot be advised to seek relief in + marriage, for she must be strong in order to "bear" marriage, + while we urge a man on no account to marry a girl who is not + strong. The married woman who has experienced the deceptions of + marriage has usually no way of relief left but by abandoning her + virtue. "The more strenuously she has been educated, and the more + completely she has been subjected to the demands of civilization, + the more she fears this way of escape, and in the conflict + between her desires and her sense of duty, she also seeks + refuge--in neurosis. Nothing protects her virtue so surely as + disease." Taking a still wider view of the influence of the + narrow "civilized" conception of sexual morality on women, Freud + finds that it is not limited to the production of neurotic + conditions; it affects the whole intellectual aptitude of women. + Their education denies them any occupation with sexual problems, + although such problems are so full of interest to them, for it + inculcates the ancient prejudice that any curiosity in such + matters is unwomanly and a proof of wicked inclinations. They are + thus terrified from thinking, and knowledge is deprived of worth. + The prohibition to think extends, automatically and inevitably, + far beyond the sexual sphere. "I do not believe," Freud + concludes, "that there is any opposition between intellectual + work and sexual activity such as was supposed by Moebius. I am of + opinion that the unquestionable fact of the intellectual + inferiority of so many women is due to the inhibition of thought + imposed upon them for the purpose of sexual repression." + + It is only of recent years that this problem has been realized + and faced, though solitary thinkers, like Hinton, have been + keenly conscious of its existence; for "sorrowing virtue," as + Mrs. Ella Wheeler Wilcox puts it, "is more ashamed of its woes + than unhappy sin, because the world has tears for the latter and + only ridicule for the former." "It is an almost cynical trait of + our age," Hellpach wrote a few years ago, "that it is constantly + discussing the theme of prostitution, of police control, of the + age of consent, of the 'white slavery,' and passes over the moral + struggle of woman's soul without an attempt to answer her burning + questions." + +On the other hand we find medical writers not only asserting with much +moral fervor that sexual intercourse outside marriage is always and +altogether unnecessary, but declaring, moreover, the harmlessness or even +the advantages of sexual abstinence. + + Ribbing, the Swedish professor, in his _Hygiene Sexuelle_, + advocates sexual abstinence outside marriage, and asserts its + harmlessness. Gilles de la Tourette, Fere, and Augagneur in + France agree. In Germany Fuerbringer (Senator and Kaminer, _Health + and Disease in Relation to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 228) asserts + that continence is possible and necessary, though admitting that + it may, however, mean serious mischief in exceptional cases. + Eulenburg (_Sexuale Neuropathie_, p. 14) doubts whether anyone, + who otherwise lived a reasonable life, ever became ill, or more + precisely neurasthenic, through sexual abstinence. Hegar, + replying to the arguments of Bebel in his well-known book on + women, denies that sexual abstinence can ever produce satyriasis + or nymphomania. Naecke, who has frequently discussed the problem + of sexual abstinence (e.g., _Archiv fuer Kriminal-Anthropologie_, + 1903, Heft 1, and _Sexual-Probleme_, June, 1908), maintains that + sexual abstinence can, at most, produce rare and slight + unfavorable results, and that it is no more likely to produce + insanity, even in predisposed individuals, than are the opposite + extremes of sexual excess and masturbation. He adds that, so far + as his own observations are concerned, the patients in asylums + suffer scarcely at all from their compulsory sexual abstinence. + + It is in England, however, that the virtues of sexual abstinence + have been most loudly and emphatically proclaimed, sometimes + indeed with considerable lack of cautious qualification. Acton, + in his _Reproductive Organs_, sets forth the traditional English + view, as well as Beale in his _Morality and the Moral Question_. + A more distinguished representative of the same view was Paget, + who, in his lecture on "Sexual Hypochondriasis," coupled sexual + intercourse with "theft or lying." Sir William Gowers (_Syphilis + and the Nervous System_, 1892, p. 126) also proclaims the + advantages of "unbroken chastity," more especially as a method of + avoiding syphilis. He is not hopeful, however, even as regards + his own remedy, for he adds: "We can trace small ground for hope + that the disease will thus be materially reduced." He would + still, however, preach chastity to the individual, and he does so + with all the ascetic ardor of a mediaeval monk. "With all the + force that any knowledge I possess, and any authority I have, can + give, I assert that no man ever yet was in the slightest degree + or way the worse for continence or better for incontinence. From + the latter all are worse morally; a clear majority are worse + physically; and in no small number the result is, and ever will + be, utter physical shipwreck on one of the many rocks, sharp, + jagged-edged, which beset the way, or on one of the many beds of + festering slime which no care can possibly avoid." In America the + same view widely prevails, and Dr. J.F. Scott, in his + _Sexual-Instinct_ (second edition, 1908, Ch. III), argues very + vigorously and at great length in favor of sexual abstinence. He + will not even admit that there are two sides to the question, + though if that were the case, the length and the energy of his + arguments would be unnecessary. + + Among medical authorities who have discussed the question of + sexual abstinence at length it is not, indeed, usually possible + to find such unqualified opinions in its favor as those I have + quoted. There can be no doubt, however, that a large proportion + of physicians, not excluding prominent and distinguished + authorities, when casually confronted with the question whether + sexual abstinence is harmless, will at once adopt the obvious + path of least resistance and reply: Yes. In only a few cases will + they even make any qualification of this affirmative answer. This + tendency is very well illustrated by an inquiry made by Dr. + Ludwig Jacobsohn, of St. Petersburgh ("Die Sexuelle + Enthaltsamkeit im Lichte der Medizin," _St. Petersburger + Medicinische Wochenschrift_, March 17, 1907). He wrote to over + two hundred distinguished Russian and German professors of + physiology, neurology, psychiatry, etc., asking them if they + regarded sexual abstinence as harmless. The majority returned no + answer; eleven Russian and twenty-eight Germans replied, but four + of them merely said that "they had no personal experience," etc.; + there thus remained thirty-five. Of these E. Pflueger, of Bonn, + was skeptical of the advantage of any propaganda of abstinence: + "if all the authorities in the world declared the harmlessness of + abstinence that would have no influence on youth. Forces are here + in play that break through all obstacles." The harmlessness of + abstinence was affirmed by Kraepelin, Cramer, Gaertner, Tuczek, + Schottelius, Gaffky, Finkler, Selenew, Lassar, Seifert, Gruber; + the last, however, added that he knew very few abstinent young + men, and himself only considered abstinence good before full + development, and intercourse not dangerous in moderation even + before then. Brieger knew cases of abstinence without harmful + results, but himself thought that no general opinion could be + given. Juergensen said that abstinence _in itself_ is not harmful, + but that in some cases intercourse exerts a more beneficial + influence. Hoffmann said that abstinence is harmless, adding that + though it certainly leads to masturbation, that is better than + gonorrhoea, to say nothing of syphilis, and is easily kept within + bounds. Struempell replied that sexual abstinence is harmless, and + indirectly useful as preserving from the risk of venereal + disease, but that sexual intercourse, being normal, is always + more desirable. Hensen said that abstinence is not to be + unconditionally approved. Rumpf replied that abstinence was not + harmful for most before the age of thirty, but after that age + there was a tendency to mental obsessions, and marriage should + take place at twenty-five. Leyden also considered abstinence + harmless until towards thirty, when it leads to psychic + anomalies, especially states of anxiety, and a certain + affectation. Hein replied that abstinence is harmless for most, + but in some leads to hysterical manifestations and indirectly to + bad results from masturbation, while for the normal man + abstinence cannot be directly beneficial, since intercourse is + natural. Gruetzner thought that abstinence is almost never + harmful. Nescheda said it is harmless in itself, but harmful in + so far as it leads to unnatural modes of gratification. Neisser + believes that more prolonged abstinence than is now usual would + be beneficial, but admitted the sexual excitations of our + civilization; he added that of course he saw no harm for healthy + men in intercourse. Hoche replied that abstinence is quite + harmless in normal persons, but not always so in abnormal + persons. Weber thought it had a useful influence in increasing + will-power. Tarnowsky said it is good in early manhood, but + likely to be unfavorable after twenty-five. Orlow replied that, + especially in youth, it is harmless, and a man should be as + chaste as his wife. Popow said that abstinence is good at all + ages and preserves the energy. Blumenau said that in adult age + abstinence is neither normal nor beneficial, and generally leads + to masturbation, though not generally to nervous disorders; but + that even masturbation is better than syphilis. Tschiriew saw no + harm in abstinence up to thirty, and thought sexual weakness more + likely to follow excess than abstinence. Tschish regarded + abstinence as beneficial rather than harmful up to twenty-five or + twenty-eight, but thought it difficult to decide after that age + when nervous alterations seem to be caused. Darkschewitcz + regarded abstinence as harmless up to twenty-five. Fraenkel said + it was harmless for most, but that for a considerable proportion + of people intercourse is a necessity. Erb's opinion is regarded + by Jacobsohn as standing alone; he placed the age below which + abstinence is harmless at twenty; after that age he regarded it + as injurious to health, seriously impeding work and capacity, + while in neurotic persons it leads to still more serious results. + Jacobsohn concludes that the general opinion of those answering + the inquiry may thus be expressed: "Youth should be abstinent. + Abstinence can in no way injure them; on the contrary, it is + beneficial. If our young people will remain abstinent and avoid + extra-conjugal intercourse they will maintain a high ideal of + love and preserve themselves from venereal diseases." + + The harmlessness of sexual abstinence was likewise affirmed in + America in a resolution passed by the American Medical + Association in 1906. The proposition thus formally accepted was + thus worded: "Continence is not incompatible with health." It + ought to be generally realized that abstract propositions of this + kind are worthless, because they mean nothing. Every sane person, + when confronted by the demand to boldly affirm or deny the + proposition, "Continence is not incompatible with health," is + bound to affirm it. He might firmly believe that continence is + incompatible with the health of most people, and that prolonged + continence is incompatible with anyone's health, and yet, if he + is to be honest in the use of language, it would be impossible + for him to deny the vague and abstract proposition that + "Continence is not incompatible with health." Such propositions + are therefore not only without value, but actually misleading. + + It is obvious that the more extreme and unqualified opinions in + favor of sexual abstinence are based not on medical, but on what + the writers regard as moral considerations. Moreover, as the same + writers are usually equally emphatic in regard to the advantages + of sexual intercourse in marriage, it is clear that they have + committed themselves to a contradiction. The same act, as Naecke + rightly points out, cannot become good or bad according as it is + performed in or out of marriage. There is no magic efficacy in a + few words pronounced by a priest or a government official. + + Remondino (loc. cit.) remarks that the authorities who have + committed themselves to declarations in favor of the + unconditional advantages of sexual abstinence tend to fall into + three errors: (1) they generalize unduly, instead of considering + each case individually, on its own merits; (2) they fail to + realize that human nature is influenced by highly mixed and + complex motives and cannot be assumed to be amenable only to + motives of abstract morality; (3) they ignore the great army of + masturbators and sexual perverts who make no complaint of sexual + suffering, but by maintaining a rigid sexual abstinence, so far + as normal relationships are concerned, gradually drift into + currents whence there is no return. + +Between those who unconditionally affirm or deny the harmlessness of +sexual abstinence we find an intermediate party of authorities whose +opinions are more qualified. Many of those who occupy this more guarded +position are men whose opinions carry much weight, and it is probable that +with them rather than with the more extreme advocates on either side the +greater measure of reason lies. So complex a question as this cannot be +adequately investigated merely in the abstract, and settled by an +unqualified negative or affirmative. It is a matter in which every case +requires its own special and personal consideration. + + "Where there is such a marked opposition of opinion truth is not + exclusively on one side," remarks Loewenfeld (_Sexualleben und + Nervenleiden_, second edition, p. 40). Sexual abstinence is + certainly often injurious to neuropathic persons. (This is now + believed by a large number of authorities, and was perhaps first + decisively stated by Krafft-Ebing, "Ueber Neurosen durch + Abstinenz," _Jahrbuch fuer Psychiatrie_, 1889, p. 1). Loewenfeld + finds no special proclivity to neurasthenia among the Catholic + clergy, and when it does occur, there is no reason to suppose a + sexual causation. "In healthy and not hereditarily neuropathic + men complete abstinence is possible without injury to the nervous + system." Injurious effects, he continues, when they appear, + seldom occur until between twenty-four and thirty-six years of + age, and even then are not usually serious enough to lead to a + visit to a doctor, consisting mainly in frequency of nocturnal + emissions, pain in testes or rectum, hyperaesthesia in the + presence of women or of sexual ideas. If, however, conditions + arise which specially stimulate the sexual emotions, neurasthenia + may be produced. Loewenfeld agrees with Freud and Gattel that the + neurosis of anxiety tends to occur in the abstinent, careful + examination showing that the abstinence is a factor in its + production in both sexes. It is common among young women married + to much older men, often appearing during the first years of + marriage. Under special circumstances, therefore, abstinence can + be injurious, but on the whole the difficulties due to such + abstinence are not severe, and they only exceptionally call forth + actual disturbance in the nervous or psychic spheres. Moll takes + a similar temperate and discriminating view. He regards sexual + abstinence before marriage as the ideal, but points out that we + must avoid any doctrinal extremes in preaching sexual abstinence, + for such preaching will merely lead to hypocrisy. Intercourse + with prostitutes, and the tendency to change a woman like a + garment, induce loss of sensitiveness to the spiritual and + personal element in woman, while the dangers of sexual abstinence + must no more be exaggerated than the dangers of sexual + intercourse (Moll, _Libido Sexualis_, 1898, vol. i, p. 848; id., + _Kontraere Sexualempfindung_, 1899, p. 588). Bloch also (in a + chapter on the question of sexual abstinence in his _Sexualleben + unserer Zeit_, 1908) takes a similar standpoint. He advocates + abstention during early life and temporary abstention in adult + life, such abstention being valuable, not only for the + conservation and transformation of energy, but also to emphasize + the fact that life contains other matters to strive for beyond + the ends of sex. Redlich (_Medizinische Klinik_, 1908, No. 7) + also, in a careful study of the medical aspects of the question, + takes an intermediate standpoint in relation to the relative + advantages and disadvantages of sexual abstinence. "We may say + that sexual abstinence is not a condition which must, under all + circumstances and at any price, be avoided, though it is true + that for the majority of healthy adult persons regular sexual + intercourse is advantageous, and sometimes is even to be + recommended." + + It may be added that from the standpoint of Christian religious + morality this same attitude, between the extremes of either + party, recognizing the advantages of sexual abstinence, but not + insisting that they shall be purchased at any price, has also + found representation. Thus, in England, an Anglican clergyman, + the Rev. H. Northcote (_Christianity and Sex Problems_, pp. 58, + 60) deals temperately and sympathetically with the difficulties + of sexual abstinence, and is by no means convinced that such + abstinence is always an unmixed advantage; while in Germany a + Catholic priest, Karl Jentsch (_Sexualethik, Sexualjustiz, + Sexualpolizei_, 1900) sets himself to oppose the rigorous and + unqualified assertions of Ribbing in favor of sexual abstinence. + Jentsch thus expresses what he conceives ought to be the attitude + of fathers, of public opinion, of the State and the Church + towards the young man in this matter: "Endeavor to be abstinent + until marriage. Many succeed in this. If you can succeed, it is + good. But, if you cannot succeed, it is unnecessary to cast + reproaches on yourself and to regard yourself as a scoundrel or a + lost sinner. Provided that you do not abandon yourself to mere + enjoyment or wantonness, but are content with what is necessary + to restore your peace of mind, self-possession, and cheerful + capacity for work, and also that you observe the precautions + which physicians or experienced friends impress upon you." + +When we thus analyze and investigate the the three main streams of expert +opinions in regard to this question of sexual abstinence--the opinions in +favor of it, the opinions in opposition to it, and the opinions which take +an intermediate course--we can scarcely fail to conclude how +unsatisfactory the whole discussion is. The state of "sexual abstinence" +is a completely vague and indefinite state. The indefinite and even +meaningless character of the expression "sexual abstinence" is shown by +the frequency with which those who argue about it assume that it can, may, +or even must, involve masturbation. That fact alone largely deprives it of +value as morality and altogether as abstinence. At this point, indeed, we +reach the most fundamental criticism to which the conception of "sexual +abstinence" lies open. Rohleder, an experienced physician and a recognized +authority on questions of sexual pathology, has submitted the current +views on "sexual abstinence" to a searching criticism in a lengthy and +important paper.[95] He denies altogether that strict sexual abstinence +exists at all. "Sexual abstinence," he points out, in any strict scenes of +the term, must involve abstinence not merely from sexual intercourse but +from auto-erotic manifestations, from masturbation, from homosexual acts, +from all sexually perverse practices. It must further involve a permanent +abstention from indulgence in erotic imaginations and voluptuous reverie. +When, however, it is possible thus to render the whole psychic field a +_tabula rasa_ so far as sexual activity is concerned--and if it fails to +be so constantly and consistently there is no strict sexual +abstinence--then, Rohleder points out, we have to consider whether we are +not in presence of a case of sexual anaesthesia, of _anaphrodisia +sexualis_. That is a question which is rarely, if ever, faced by those who +discuss sexual abstinence. It is, however, an extremely pertinent +question, because, as Rohleder insists, if sexual anaesthesia exists the +question of sexual abstinence falls to the ground, for we can only +"abstain" from actions that are in our power. Complete sexual anaesthesia +is, however, so rare a state that it may be practically left out of +consideration, and as the sexual impulse, if it exists, must by +physiological necessity sometimes become active in some shape--even if +only, according to Freud's view, by transformation into some morbid +neurotic condition--we reach the conclusion that "sexual abstinence" is +strictly impossible. Rohleder has met with a few cases in which there +seemed to him no escape from the conclusion that sexual abstinence +existed, but in all of these he subsequently found that he was mistaken, +usually owing to the practice of masturbation, which he believes to be +extremely common and very frequently accompanied by a persistent attempt +to deceive the physician concerning its existence. The only kind of +"sexual abstinence" that exists is a partial and temporary abstinence. +Instead of saying, as some say, "Permanent abstinence is unnatural and +cannot exist without physical and mental injury," we ought to say, +Rohleder believes, "Permanent abstinence is unnatural and has never +existed." + +It is impossible not to feel as we contemplate this chaotic mass of +opinions, that the whole discussion is revolving round a purely negative +idea, and that fundamental fact is responsible for what at first seem to +be startling conflicts of statement. If indeed we were to eliminate what +is commonly regarded as the religious and moral aspect of the matter--an +aspect, be it remembered, which has no bearing on the essential natural +facts of the question--we cannot fail to perceive that these ostentatious +differences of conviction would be reduced within very narrow and trifling +limits. + +We cannot strictly coordinate the impulse of reproduction with the impulse +of nutrition. There are very important differences between them, more +especially the fundamental difference that while the satisfaction of the +one impulse is absolutely necessary both to the life of the individual and +of the race, the satisfaction of the other is absolutely necessary only to +the life of the race. But when we reduce this question to one of "sexual +abstinence" we are obviously placing it on the same basis as that of +abstinence from food, that is to say at the very opposite pole to which we +place it when (as in the previous chapter) we consider it from the point +of view of asceticism and chastity. It thus comes about that on this +negative basis there really is an interesting analogy between nutritive +abstinence, though necessarily only maintained incompletely and for a +short time, and sexual abstinence, maintained more completely and for a +longer time. A patient of Janet's seems to bring out clearly this +resemblance. Nadia, whom Janet was able to study during five years, was a +young woman of twenty-seven, healthy and intelligent, not suffering from +hysteria nor from anorexia, for she had a normal appetite. But she had an +idea; she was anxious to be slim and to attain this end she cut down her +meals to the smallest size, merely a little soup and a few eggs. She +suffered much from the abstinence she thus imposed on herself, and was +always hungry, though sometimes her hunger was masked by the inevitable +stomach trouble caused by so long a persistence in this _regime_. At +times, indeed, she had been so hungry that she had devoured greedily +whatever she could lay her hands on, and not infrequently she could not +resist the temptation to eat a few biscuits in secret. Such actions caused +her horrible remorse, but, all the same, she would be guilty of them +again. She realized the great efforts demanded by her way of life, and +indeed looked upon herself as a heroine for resisting so long. +"Sometimes," she told Janet, "I passed whole hours in thinking about food, +I was so hungry. I swallowed my saliva, I bit my handkerchief, I rolled +on the ground, I wanted to eat so badly. I searched books for descriptions +of meals and feasts, I tried to deceive my hunger by imagining that I too +was enjoying all these good things. I was really famished, and in spite of +a few weaknesses for biscuits I know that I showed much courage."[96] +Nadia's motive idea, that she wished to be slim, corresponds to the +abstinent man's idea that he wishes to be "moral," and only differs from +it by having the advantage of being somewhat more positive and personal, +for the idea of the person who wishes to avoid sexual indulgence because +it is "not right" is often not merely negative but impersonal and imposed +by the social and religious environment. Nadia's occasional outbursts of +reckless greediness correspond to the sudden impulses to resort to +prostitution, and her secret weaknesses for biscuits, followed by keen +remorse, to lapses into the habit of masturbation. Her fits of struggling +and rolling on the ground are precisely like the outbursts of futile +desire which occasionally occur to young abstinent men and women in health +and strength. The absorption in thoughts about meals and in literary +descriptions of meals is clearly analogous to the abstinent man's +absorption in wanton thoughts and erotic books. Finally, Nadia's +conviction that she is a heroine corresponds exactly to the attitude of +self-righteousness which often marks the sexually abstinent. + +If we turn to Freud's penetrating and suggestive study of the problem of +sexual abstinence in relation to "civilized" sexual morality, we find +that, though he makes no reference to the analogy with abstinence from +food, his words would for the most part have an equal application to both +cases. "The task of subduing so powerful an instinct as the sexual +impulse, otherwise than by giving it satisfaction," he writes, "is one +which may employ the whole strength of a man. Subjugation through +sublimation, by guiding the sexual forces into higher civilizational +paths, may succeed with a minority, and even with these only for a time, +least easily during the years of ardent youthful energy. Most others +become neurotic or otherwise come to grief. Experience shows that the +majority of people constituting our society are constitutionally unequal +to the task of abstinence. We say, indeed, that the struggle with this +powerful impulse and the emphasis the struggle involves on the ethical and +aesthetic forces in the soul's life 'steels' the character, and for a few +favorably organized natures this is true; it must also be acknowledged +that the differentiation of individual character so marked in our time +only becomes possible through sexual limitations. But in by far the +majority of cases the struggle with sensuality uses up the available +energy of character, and this at the very time when the young man needs +all his strength in order to win his place in the world."[97] + +When we have put the problem on this negative basis of abstinence it is +difficult to see how we can dispute the justice of Freud's conclusions. +They hold good equally for abstinence from food and abstinence from sexual +love. When we have placed the problem on a more positive basis, and are +able to invoke the more active and fruitful motives of asceticism and +chastity this unfortunate fight against a natural impulse is abolished. If +chastity is an ideal of the harmonious play of all the organic impulses of +the soul and body, if asceticism, properly understood, is the athletic +striving for a worthy object which causes, for the time, an indifference +to the gratification of sexual impulses, we are on wholesome and natural +ground, and there is no waste of energy in fruitless striving for a +negative end, whether imposed artificially from without, as it usually is, +or voluntarily chosen by the individual himself. + +For there is really no complete analogy between sexual desire and hunger, +between abstinence from sexual relations and abstinence from food. When we +put them both on the basis of abstinence we put them on a basis which +covers the impulse for food but only half covers the impulse for sexual +love. We confer no pleasure and no service on our food when we eat it. But +the half of sexual love, perhaps the most important and ennobling half, +lies in what we give and not in what we take. To reduce this question to +the low level of abstinence, is not only to centre it in a merely negative +denial but to make it a solely self-regarding question. Instead of asking: +How can I bring joy and strength to another? we only ask: How can I +preserve my empty virtue? + +Therefore it is that from whatever aspect we consider the +question,--whether in view of the flagrant contradiction between the +authorities who have discussed this question, or of the illegitimate +mingling here of moral and physiological considerations, or of the merely +negative and indeed unnatural character of the "virtue" thus set up, or of +the failure involved to grasp the ennoblingly altruistic and mutual side +of sexual love,--from whatever aspect we approach the problem of "sexual +abstinence" we ought only to agree to do so under protest. + +If we thus decide to approach it, and if we have reached the +conviction--which, in view of all the evidence we can scarcely +escape--that, while sexual abstinence in so far as it may be recognized as +possible is not incompatible with health, there are yet many adults for +whom it is harmful, and a very much larger number for whom when prolonged +it is undesirable, we encounter a serious problem. It is a problem which +confronts any person, and especially the physician, who may be called upon +to give professional advice to his fellows on this matter. If sexual +relationships are sometimes desirable for unmarried persons, or for +married persons who, for any reason, are debarred from conjugal union, is +a physician justified in recommending such sexual relationships to his +patient? This is a question that has frequently been debated and decided +in opposing senses. + + Various distinguished physicians, especially in Germany, have + proclaimed the duty of the doctor to recommend sexual intercourse + to his patient whenever he considers it desirable. Gyurkovechky, + for instance, has fully discussed this question, and answered it + in the affirmative. Nystroem (_Sexual-Probleme_, July, 1908, p. + 413) states that it is the physician's duty, in some cases of + sexual weakness, when all other methods of treatment have failed, + to recommend sexual intercourse as the best remedy. Dr. Max + Marcuse stands out as a conspicuous advocate of the unconditional + duty of the physician to advocate sexual intercourse in some + cases, both to men and to women, and has on many occasions argued + in this sense (e.g., _Darf der Arzt zum Ausserehelichen + Geschlechtsverkehr raten?_ 1904). Marcuse is strongly of opinion + that a physician who, allowing himself to be influenced by moral, + sociological, or other considerations, neglects to recommend + sexual intercourse when he considers it desirable for the + patient's health, is unworthy of his profession, and should + either give up medicine or send his patients to other doctors. + This attitude, though not usually so emphatically stated, seems + to be widely accepted. Lederer goes even further when he states + (_Monatsschrift fuer Harnkrankheiten und Sexuelle Hygiene_, 1906, + Heft 3) that it is the physician's duty in the case of a woman + who is suffering from her husband's impotence, to advise her to + have intercourse with another man, adding that "whether she does + so with her husband's consent is no affair of the physician's, + for he is not the guardian of morality, but the guardian of + health." The physicians who publicly take this attitude are, + however, a small minority. In England, so far as I am aware, no + physician of eminence has openly proclaimed the duty of the + doctor to advise sexual intercourse outside marriage, although, + it is scarcely necessary to add, in England, as elsewhere, it + happens that doctors, including women doctors, from time to time + privately point out to their unmarried and even married patients, + that sexual intercourse would probably be beneficial. + + The duty of the physician to recommend sexual intercourse has + been denied as emphatically as it has been affirmed. Thus + Eulenburg (_Sexuale Neuropathie_, p. 43), would by no means + advise extra-conjugal relations to his patient; "such advice is + quite outside the physician's competence." It is, of course, + denied by those who regard sexual abstinence as always harmless, + if not beneficial. But it is also denied by many who consider + that, under some circumstances, sexual intercourse would do good. + + Moll has especially, and on many occasions, discussed the duty of + the physician in relation to the question of advising sexual + intercourse outside marriage (e.g., in his comprehensive work, + _Aerztliche Ethik_, 1902; also _Zeitschrift fuer Aerztliche + Fortbildung_, 1905, Nos. 12-15; _Mutterschutz_, 1905, Heft 3; + _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, vol. ii, Heft 8). At the outset + Moll had been disposed to assert the right of the physician to + recommend sexual intercourse under some circumstances; "so long + as marriage is unduly delayed and sexual intercourse outside + marriage exists," he wrote (_Die Contraere Sexualempfindung_, + second edition, p. 287), "so long, I think, we may use such + intercourse therapeutically, provided that the rights of no third + person (husband or wife) are injured." In all his later writings, + however, Moll ranges himself clearly and decisively on the + opposite side. He considers that the physician has no right to + overlook the possible results of his advice in inflicting + venereal disease, or, in the case of a woman, pregnancy, on his + patient, and he believes that these serious results are far more + likely to happen than is always admitted by those who defend the + legitimacy of such advice. Nor will Moll admit that the physician + is entitled to overlook the moral aspects of the question. A + physician may know that a poor man could obtain many things good + for his health by stealing, but he cannot advise him to steal. + Moll takes the case of a Catholic priest who is suffering from + neurasthenia due to sexual abstinence. Even although the + physician feels certain that the priest may be able to avoid all + the risks of disease as well as of publicity, he is not entitled + to urge him to sexual intercourse. He has to remember that in + thus causing a priest to break his vows of chastity he may induce + a mental conflict and a bitter remorse which may lead to the + worst results, even on his patient's physical health. Similar + results, Moll remarks, may follow such advice when given to a + married man or woman, to say nothing of possible divorce + proceedings and accompanying evils. + + Rohleder (_Vorlesungen ueber Geschlechtstrieb und Gesamtes + Geschlechtsleben der Menschen_) adopts a somewhat qualified + attitude in this matter. As a general rule he is decidedly + against recommending sexual intercourse outside marriage to those + who are suffering from partial or temporary abstinence (the only + form of abstinence he recognizes), partly on the ground that the + evils of abstinence are not serious or permanent, and partly + because the patient is fairly certain to exercise his own + judgment in the matter. But in some classes of cases he + recommends such intercourse, and notably to bisexual persons, on + the ground that he is thus preserving his patient from the + criminal risks of homosexual practices. + +It seems to me that there should be no doubt whatever as to the correct +professional attitude of the physician in relation to this question of +advice concerning sexual intercourse. The physician is never entitled to +advise his patient to adopt sexual intercourse outside marriage nor any +method of relief which is commonly regarded as illegitimate. It is said +that the physician has nothing to do with considerations of conventional +morality. If he considers that champagne would be good for a poor patient +he ought to recommend him to take champagne; he is not called upon to +consider whether the patient will beg, borrow, or steal the champagne. +But, after all, even if that be admitted, it must still be said that the +physician knows that the champagne, however obtained, is not likely to be +poisonous. When, however, he prescribes sexual intercourse, with the same +lofty indifference to practical considerations, he has no such knowledge. +In giving such a prescription the physician has in fact not the slightest +knowledge of what he may be prescribing. He may be giving his patient a +venereal disease; he may be giving the anxieties and responsibilities of +an illegitimate child; the prescriber is quite in the dark. He is in the +same position as if he had prescribed a quack medicine of which the +composition was unknown to him, with the added disadvantage that the +medicine may turn out to be far more potently explosive than is the case +with the usually innocuous patent medicine. The utmost that a physician +can properly permit himself to do is to put the case impartially before +his patient and to present to him all the risks. The solution must be for +the patient himself to work out, as best he can, for it involves social +and other considerations which, while they are indeed by no means outside +the sphere of medicine, are certainly entirely outside the control of the +individual private practitioner of medicine. + + Moll also is of opinion that this impartial presentation of the + case for and against sexual intercourse corresponds to the + physician's duty in the matter. It is, indeed, a duty which can + scarcely be escaped by the physician in many cases. Moll points + out that it can by no means be assimilated, as some have + supposed, with the recommendation of sexual intercourse. It is, + on the contrary, he remarks, much more analogous to the + physician's duty in reference to operations. He puts before the + patient the nature of the operation, its advantages and its + risks, but he leaves it to the patient's judgment to accept or + reject the operation. Lewitt also (_Geschlechtliche + Enthaltsamkeit und Gesundheitsstoerungen_, 1905), after discussing + the various opinions on this question, comes to the conclusion + that the physician, if he thinks that intercourse outside + marriage might be beneficial, should explain the difficulties and + leave the patient himself to decide. + +There is another reason why, having regard to the prevailing moral +opinions at all events among the middle classes, a physician should +refrain from advising extra-conjugal intercourse: he places himself in a +false relation to his social environment. He is recommending a remedy the +nature of which he could not publicly avow, and so destroying the public +confidence in himself. The only physician who is morally entitled to +advise his patients to enter into extra-conjugal relationships is one who +openly acknowledges that he is prepared to give such advice. The doctor +who is openly working for social reform has perhaps won the moral right to +give advice in accordance with the tendency of his public activity, but +even then his advice may be very dubiously judicious, and he would be +better advised to confine his efforts at social reform to his public +activities. The voice of the physician, as Professor Max Flesch of +Frankfort observes, is more and more heard in the development and new +growth of social institutions; he is a natural leaders in such movements, +and proposals for reform properly come from him. "But," as Flesch +continues, "publicly to accept the excellence of existing institutions and +in the privacy of the consulting-room to give advice which assumes the +imperfection of those institutions is illogical and confusing. It is the +physician's business to give advice which is in accordance with the +interests of the community as a whole, and those interests require that +sexual relationships should be entered into between healthy men and women +who are able and willing to accept the results of their union. That should +be the physician's rule of conduct. Only so can he become, what to-day he +is often proclaimed to be, the leader of the nation."[98] This view is +not, as we see, entirely in accord with that which assumes that the +physician's duty is solely and entirely to his patient, without regard to +the bearing of his advice on social conduct. The patient's interests are +primary, but they are not entitled to be placed in antagonism to the +interests of society. The advice given by the wise physician must always +be in harmony with the social and moral tone of his age. Thus it is that +the tendency among the younger generation of physicians to-day to take an +active interest in raising that tone and in promoting social reform--a +tendency which exists not only in Germany where such interests have long +been acute, but also in so conservative a land as England--is full of +promise for the future. + +The physician is usually content to consider his duty to his patient in +relationship to sexual abstinence as sufficiently fulfilled when he +attempts to allay sexual hyperaesthesia by medical or hygienic treatment. +It can scarcely be claimed, however, that the results of such treatment +are usually satisfactory, and sometimes indeed the treatment has a result +which is the reverse of that intended. The difficulty generally is that in +order to be efficacious the treatment must be carried to an extreme which +exhausts or inhibits not only the genital activities alone but the +activities of the whole organism, and short of that it may prove a +stimulant rather than a sedative. It is difficult and usually impossible +to separate out a man's sexual activities and bring influence to bear on +these activities alone. Sexual activity is so closely intertwined with the +other organic activities, erotic exuberance is so much a flower which is +rooted in the whole organism, that the blow which crushes it may strike +down the whole man. The bromides are universally recognized as powerful +sexual sedatives, but their influence in this respect only makes itself +felt when they have dulled all the finest energies of the organism. +Physical exercise is universally recommended to sexually hyperaesthetic +patients. Yet most people, men and women, find that physical exercise is a +positive stimulus to sexual activity. This is notably so as regards +walking, and exuberantly energetic young women who are troubled by the +irritant activity of their healthy sexual emotions sometimes spend a large +part of their time in the vain attempt to lull their activity by long +walks. Physical exercise only proves efficacious in this respect when it +is carried to an extent which produces general exhaustion. Then indeed the +sexual activity is lulled; but so are all the mental and physical +activities. It is undoubtedly true that exercises and games of all sorts +for young people of both sexes have a sexually hygienic as well as a +generally hygienic influence which is undoubtedly beneficial. They are, on +all grounds, to be preferred to prolonged sedentary occupations. But it is +idle to suppose that games and exercises will suppress the sexual +impulses, for in so far as they favor health, they favor all the impulses +that are the result of health. The most that can be expected is that they +may tend to restrain the manifestations of sex by dispersing the energy +they generate. + +There are many physical rules and precautions which are advocated, not +without reason, as tending to inhibit or diminish sexual activity. The +avoidance of heat and the cultivation of cold is one of the most important +of these. Hot climates, a close atmosphere, heavy bed-clothing, hot baths, +all tend powerfully to excite the sexual system, for that system is a +peripheral sensory organ, and whatever stimulates the skin generally, +stimulates the sexual system.[99] Cold, which contracts the skin, also +deadens the sexual feelings, a fact which the ascetics of old knew and +acted upon. The garments and the posture of the body are not without +influence. Constriction or pressure in the neighborhood of the sexual +region, even tight corsets, as well as internal pressure, as from a +distended bladder, are sources of sexual irritation. Sleeping on the back, +which congests the spinal centres, also acts in the same way, as has long +been known by those who attend to sexual hygiene; thus it is stated that +in the Franciscan order it is prohibited to lie on the back. Food and +drink are, further, powerful sexual stimulants. This is true even of the +simplest and most wholesome nourishment, but it is more especially true of +flesh meat, and, above all, of alcohol in its stronger forms such as +spirits, liqueurs, sparkling and heavy wines, and even many English beers. +This has always been clearly realized by those who cultivate asceticism, +and it is one of the powerful reasons why alcohol should not be given in +early youth. As St. Jerome wrote, when telling Eustochium that she must +avoid wine like poison, "wine and youth are the two fires of lust. Why +add oil to the flame?"[100] Idleness, again, especially when combined with +rich living, promotes sexual activity, as Burton sets forth at length in +his _Anatomy of Melancholy_, and constant occupation, on the other hand, +concentrates the wandering activities. + +Mental exercise, like physical exercise, has sometimes been advocated as a +method of calming sexual excitement, but it seems to be equally equivocal +in its action. If it is profoundly interesting and exciting it may stir up +rather than lull the sexual emotions. If it arouses little interest it is +unable to exert any kind of influence. This is true even of mathematical +occupations which have been advocated by various authorities, including +Broussais, as aids to sexual hygiene.[101] "I have tried mechanical mental +work," a lady writes, "such as solving arithmetical or algebraic problems, +but it does no good; in fact it seems only to increase the excitement." "I +studied and especially turned my attention to mathematics," a clergyman +writes, "with a view to check my sexual tendencies. To a certain extent I +was successful. But at the approach of an old friend, a voice or a touch, +these tendencies came back again with renewed strength. I found +mathematics, however, the best thing on the whole to take off my attention +from women, better than religious exercises which I tried when younger +(twenty-two to thirty)." At the best, however, such devices are of merely +temporary efficacy. + +It is easier to avoid arousing the sexual impulses than to impose silence +on them by hygienic measures when once they are aroused. It is, +therefore, in childhood and youth that all these measures may be most +reasonably observed in order to avoid any premature sexual excitement. In +one group of stolidly normal children influences that might be expected to +act sexually pass away unperceived. At the other extreme, another group of +children are so neurotically and precociously sensitive that no +precautions will preserve them from such influences. But between these +groups there is another, probably much the largest, who resist slight +sexual suggestions but may succumb to stronger or longer influences, and +on these the cares of sexual hygiene may profitably be bestowed.[102] + +After puberty, when the spontaneous and inner voice of sex may at any +moment suddenly make itself heard, all hygienic precautions are liable to +be flung to the winds, and even the youth or maiden most anxious to retain +the ideals of chastity can often do little but wait till the storm has +passed. It sometimes happens that a prolonged period of sexual storm and +stress occurs soon after puberty, and then dies away although there has +been little or no sexual gratification, to be succeeded by a period of +comparative calm. It must be remembered that in many, and perhaps most, +individuals, men and women, the sexual appetite, unlike hunger or thirst, +can after a prolonged struggle, be reduced to a more or less quiescent +state which, far from injuring, may even benefit the physical and psychic +vigor generally. This may happen whether or not sexual gratification has +been obtained. If there has never been any such gratification, the +struggle is less severe and sooner over, unless the individual is of +highly erotic temperament. If there has been gratification, if the mind +is filled not merely with desires but with joyous experience to which the +body also has grown accustomed, then the struggle is longer and more +painfully absorbing. The succeeding relief, however, if it comes, is +sometimes more complete and is more likely to be associated with a state +of psychic health. For the fundamental experiences of life, under normal +conditions, bring not only intellectual sanity, but emotional +pacification. A conquest of the sexual appetites which has never at any +period involved a gratification of these appetites seldom produces results +that commend themselves as rich and beautiful. + +In these combats there are, however, no permanent conquests. For a very +large number of people, indeed, though there may be emotional changes and +fluctuations dependent on a variety of circumstances, there can scarcely +be said to be any conquest at all. They are either always yielding to the +impulses that assail them, or always resisting those impulses, in the +first case with remorse, in the second with dissatisfaction. In either +case much of their lives, at the time when life is most vigorous, is +wasted. With women, if they happen to be of strong passions and reckless +impulses to abandonment, the results may be highly enervating, if not +disastrous to the general psychic life. It is to this cause, indeed, that +some have been inclined to attribute the frequent mediocrity of women's +work in artistic and intellectual fields. Women of intellectual force are +frequently if not generally women of strong passions, and if they resist +the tendency to merge themselves in the duties of maternity their lives +are often wasted in emotional conflict and their psychic natures +impoverished.[103] + + The extent to which sexual abstinence and the struggles it + involves may hamper and absorb the individual throughout life is + well illustrated in the following case. A lady, vigorous, robust, + and generally healthy, of great intelligence and high character, + has reached middle life without marrying, or ever having sexual + relationships. She was an only child, and when between three and + four years of age, a playmate some six years older, initiated her + into the habit of playing with her sexual parts. She was, + however, at this age quite devoid of sexual feelings, and the + habit dropped naturally, without any bad effects, as soon as she + left the neighborhood of this girl a year or so later. Her health + was good and even brilliant, and she developed vigorously at + puberty. At the age of sixteen, however, a mental shock caused + menstruation to diminish in amount during some years, and + simultaneously with this diminution persistent sexual excitement + appeared spontaneously, for the first time. She regarded such + feelings as abnormal and unhealthy, and exerted all her powers of + self-control in resisting them. But will power had no effect in + diminishing the feelings. There was constant and imperious + excitement, with the sense of vibration, tension, pressure, + dilatation and tickling, accompanied, it may be, by some ovarian + congestion, for she felt that on the left side there was a + network of sexual nerves, and retroversion of the uterus was + detected some years later. Her life was strenuous with many + duties, but no occupation could be pursued without this + undercurrent of sexual hyperaesthesia involving perpetual + self-control. This continued more or less acutely for many years, + when menstruation suddenly stopped altogether, much before the + usual period of the climacteric. At the same time the sexual + excitement ceased, and she became calm, peaceful, and happy. + Diminished menstruation was associated with sexual excitement, + but abundant menstruation and its complete absence were both + accompanied by the relief of excitement. This lasted for two + years. Then, for the treatment of a trifling degree of anaemia, + she was subjected to a long, and, in her case, injudicious course + of hypodermic injections of strychnia. From that time, five years + ago, up to the present, there has been constant sexual + excitement, and she has always to be on guard lest she should be + overtaken by a sexual spasm. Her torture is increased by the fact + that her traditions make it impossible for her (except under very + exceptional circumstances) to allude to the cause of her + sufferings. "A woman is handicapped," she writes. "She may never + speak to anyone on such a subject. She must live her tragedy + alone, smiling as much as she can under the strain of her + terrible burden." To add to her trouble, two years ago, she felt + impelled to resort to masturbation, and has done so about once a + month since; this not only brings no real relief, and leaves + irritability, wakefulness, and dark marks under the eyes, but is + a cause of remorse to her, for she regards masturbation as + entirely abnormal and unnatural. She has tried to gain benefit, + not merely by the usual methods of physical hygiene, but by + suggestion, Christian Science, etc., but all in vain. "I may + say," she writes, "that it is the most passionate desire of my + heart to be freed from this bondage, that I may relax the + terrible years-long tension of resistance, and be happy in my own + way. If I had this affliction once a month, once a week, even + twice a week, to stand against it would be child's play. I should + scorn to resort to unnatural means, however moderately. But + self-control itself has its revenges, and I sometimes feel as if + it is no longer to be borne." + +Thus while it is an immense benefit in physical and psychic development if +the eruption of the disturbing sexual emotions can be delayed until +puberty or adolescence, and while it is a very great advantage, after that +eruption has occurred, to be able to gain control of these emotions, to +crush altogether the sexual nature would be a barren, if not, indeed, a +perilous victory, bringing with it no satisfaction. "If I had only had +three weeks' happiness," said a woman, "I would not quarrel with Fate, but +to have one's whole life so absolutely empty is horrible." If such vacuous +self-restraint may, by courtesy, be termed a virtue, it is but a negative +virtue. The persons who achieve it, as the result of congenitally feeble +sexual aptitudes, merely (as Gyurkovechky, Fuerbringer, and Loewenfeld have +all alike remarked) made a virtue of their weakness. Many others, whose +instincts were less weak, when they disdainfully put to flight the desires +of sex in early life, have found that in later life that foe returns in +tenfold force and perhaps in unnatural shapes.[104] + +The conception of "sexual abstinence" is, we see, an entirely false and +artificial conception. It is not only ill-adjusted to the hygienic facts +of the case but it fails even to invoke any genuinely moral motive, for it +is exclusively self-regarding and self-centred. It only becomes genuinely +moral, and truly inspiring, when we transform it into the altruistic +virtue of self-sacrifice. When we have done so we see that the element of +abstinence in it ceases to be essential, "Self-sacrifice," writes the +author of a thoughtful book on the sexual life, "is acknowledged to be the +basis of virtue; the noblest instances of self-sacrifice are those +dictated by sexual affection. Sympathy is the secret of altruism; nowhere +is sympathy more real and complete than in love. Courage, both moral and +physical, the love of truth and honor, the spirit of enterprise, and the +admiration of moral worth, are all inspired by love as by nothing else in +human nature. Celibacy denies itself that inspiration or restricts its +influence, according to the measure of its denial of sexual intimacy. Thus +the deliberate adoption of a consistently celibate life implies the +narrowing down of emotional and moral experience to a degree which is, +from the broad scientific standpoint, unjustified by any of the advantages +piously supposed to accrue from it."[105] + +In a sane natural order all the impulses are centred in the fulfilment of +needs and not in their denial. Moreover, in this special matter of sex, it +is inevitable that the needs of others, and not merely the needs of the +individual himself, should determine action. It is more especially the +needs of the female which are the determining factor; for those needs are +more various, complex and elusive, and in his attentiveness to their +gratification the male finds a source of endless erotic satisfaction. It +might be thought that the introduction of an altruistic motive here is +merely the claim of theoretical morality insisting that there shall be a +firm curb on animal instinct. But, as we have again and again seen +throughout the long course of these _Studies_, it is not so. The animal +instinct itself makes this demand. It is a biological law that rules +throughout the zooelogical world and has involved the universality of +courtship. In man it is only modified because in man sexual needs are not +entirely concentrated in reproduction, but more or less penetrate the +whole of life. + +While from the point of view of society, as from that of Nature, the end +and object of the sexual impulse is procreation, and nothing beyond +procreation, that is by no means true for the individual, whose main +object it must be to fulfil himself harmoniously with that due regard for +others which the art of living demands. Even if sexual relationships had +no connection with procreation whatever--as some Central Australian tribes +believe--they would still be justifiable, and are, indeed, an +indispensable aid to the best moral development of the individual, for it +is only in so intimate a relationship as that of sex that the finest +graces and aptitudes of life have full scope. Even the saints cannot +forego the sexual side of life. The best and most accomplished saints from +Jerome to Tolstoy--even the exquisite Francis of Assisi--had stored up in +their past all the experiences that go to the complete realization of +life, and if it were not so they would have been the less saints. + +The element of positive virtue thus only enters when the control of the +sexual impulse has passed beyond the stage of rigid and sterile abstinence +and has become not merely a deliberate refusal of what is evil in sex, but +a deliberate acceptance of what is good. It is only at that moment that +such control becomes a real part of the great art of living. For the art +of living, like any other art, is not compatible with rigidity, but lies +in the weaving of a perpetual harmony between refusing and accepting, +between giving and taking.[106] + +The future, it is clear, belongs ultimately to those who are slowly +building up sounder traditions into the structure of life. The "problem of +sexual abstinence" will more and more sink into insignificance. There +remain the great solid fact of love, the great solid fact of chastity. +Those are eternal. Between them there is nothing but harmony. The +development of one involves the development of the other. + +It has been necessary to treat seriously this problem of "sexual +abstinence" because we have behind us the traditions of two thousand years +based on certain ideals of sexual law and sexual license, together with +the long effort to build up practices more or less conditioned by those +ideals. We cannot immediately escape from these traditions even when we +question their validity for ourselves. We have not only to recognize their +existence, but also to accept the fact that for some time to come they +must still to a considerable extent control the thoughts and even in some +degree the actions of existing communities. + +It is undoubtedly deplorable. It involves the introduction of an +artificiality into a real natural order. Love is real and positive; +chastity is real and positive. But sexual abstinence is unreal and +negative, in the strict sense perhaps impossible. The underlying feelings +of all those who have emphasized its importance is that a physiological +process can be good or bad according as it is or is not carried out under +certain arbitrary external conditions, which render it licit or illicit. +An act of sexual intercourse under the name of "marriage" is beneficial; +the very same act, under the name of "incontinence," is pernicious. No +physiological process, and still less any spiritual process, can bear such +restriction. It is as much as to say that a meal becomes good or bad, +digestible or indigestible, according as a grace is or is not pronounced +before the eating of it. + +It is deplorable because, such a conception being essentially unreal, an +element of unreality is thus introduced into a matter of the gravest +concern alike to the individual and to society. Artificial disputes have +been introduced where no matter of real dispute need exist. A contest has +been carried on marked by all the ferocity which marks contests about +metaphysical or pseudo-metaphysical differences having no concrete basis +in the actual world. As will happen in such cases, there has, after all, +been no real difference between the disputants because the point they +quarreled over was unreal. In truth each side was right and each side was +wrong. + +It is necessary, we see, that the balance should be held even. An absolute +license is bad; an absolute abstinence--even though some by nature or +circumstances are urgently called to adopt it--is also bad. They are both +alike away from the gracious equilibrium of Nature. And the force, we see, +which naturally holds this balance even is the biological fact that the +act of sexual union is the satisfaction of the erotic needs, not of one +person, but of two persons. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[92] This view was an ambiguous improvement on the view, universally +prevalent, as Westermarck has shown, among primitive peoples, that the +sexual act involves indignity to a woman or depreciation of her only in so +far as she is the property of another person who is the really injured +party. + +[93] This implicit contradiction has been acutely pointed out from the +religious side by the Rev. H. Northcote, _Christianity and Sex Problems_, +p. 53. + +[94] It has already been necessary to discuss this point briefly in "The +Sexual Impulse in Women," vol. iii of these _Studies_. + +[95] "Die Abstinentia Sexualis," _Zeitschrift fuer Sexualwissenschaft_, +Nov., 1908. + +[96] P. Janet, "La Maladie du Scrupule," _Revue Philosophique_, May, 1901. + +[97] S. Freud, _Sexual-Probleme_, March, 1908. As Adele Schreiber also +points out (_Mutterschutz_, Jan., 1907, p. 30), it is not enough to prove +that abstinence is not dangerous; we have to remember that the spiritual +and physical energy used up in repressing this mighty instinct often +reduces a joyous and energetic nature to a weary and faded shadow. +Similarly, Helene Stoecker (_Die Liebe und die Frauen_, p. 105) says: "The +question whether abstinence is harmful is, to say the truth, a ridiculous +question. One needs to be no nervous specialist to know, as a matter of +course, that a life of happy love and marriage is the healthy life, and +its complete absence cannot fail to lead to severe psychic depression, +even if no direct physiological disturbances can be demonstrated." + +[98] Max Flesch, "Ehe, Hygine und Sexuelle Moral," _Mutterschutz_, 1905, +Heft 7. + +[99] See the Section on Touch in the fourth volume of these _Studies_. + +[100] "I have had two years' close experience and connexion with the +Trappists," wrote Dr. Butterfield, of Natal (_British Medical Journal_, +Sept. 15, 1906, p. 668), "both as medical attendant and as being a +Catholic in creed myself. I have studied them and investigated their life, +habits and diet, and though I should be very backward in adopting it +myself, as not suited to me individually, the great bulk of them are in +absolute ideal health and strength, seldom ailing, capable of vast work, +mental and physical. Their life is very simple and very regular. A +healthier body of men and women, with perfect equanimity of temper--this +latter I lay great stress on--it would be difficult to find. Health beams +in their eyes and countenance and actions. Only in sickness or prolonged +journeys are they allowed any strong foods--meats, eggs, etc.--or any +alcohol." + +[101] Fere, _L'Instinct Sexuel_, second edition, p. 332. + +[102] Rural life, as we have seen when discussing its relation to sexual +precocity, _is_ on one side the reverse of a safeguard against sexual +influences. But, on the other hand, in so far as it involves hard work and +simple living under conditions that are not nervously stimulating, it is +favorable to a considerably delayed sexual activity in youth and to a +relative continence. Ammon, in the course of his anthropological +investigations of Baden conscripts, found that sexual intercourse was rare +in the country before twenty, and even sexual emissions during sleep rare +before nineteen or twenty. It is said, also, he repeats, that no one has a +right to run after girls who does not yet carry a gun, and the elder lads +sometimes brutally ill-treat any younger boy found going about with a +girl. No doubt this is often preliminary to much license later. + +[103] The numerical preponderance which celibate women teachers have now +gained in the American school system has caused much misgiving among many +sagacious observers, and is said to be unsatisfactory in its results on +the pupils of both sexes. A distinguished authority, Professor McKeen +Cattell ("The School and the Family," _Popular Science Monthly_, Jan., +1909), referring to this preponderance of "devitalized and unsexed +spinsters," goes so far as to say that "the ultimate result of letting the +celibate female be the usual teacher has been such as to make it a +question whether it would not be an advantage to the country if the whole +school plant could be scrapped." + +[104] Corre (_Les Criminels_, p. 351) mentions that of thirteen priests +convicted of crime, six were guilty of sexual attempts on children, and of +eighty-three convicted lay teachers, forty-eight had committed similar +offenses. This was at a time when lay teachers were in practice almost +compelled to live a celibate life; altered conditions have greatly +diminished this class of offense among them. Without going so far as +crime, many moral and religious men, clergymen and others, who have led +severely abstinent lives in youth, sometimes experience in middle age or +later the eruption of almost uncontrollable sexual impulses, normal or +abnormal. In women such manifestations are apt to take the form of +obsessional thoughts of sexual character, as e.g., the case +(_Comptes-Rendus Congres International de Medecine_, Moscow, 1897, vol. +iv, p. 27) of a chaste woman who was compelled to think about and look at +the sexual organs of men. + +[105] J.A. Godfrey, _The Science of Sex_, p. 138. + +[106] See, e.g., Havelock Ellis, "St. Francis and Others," _Affirmations_. + + + + +CHAPTER VII. + +PROSTITUTION. + +I. _The Orgy:_--The Religious Origin of the Orgy--The Feast of +Fools--Recognition of the Orgy by the Greeks and Romans--The Orgy Among +Savages--The Drama--The Object Subserved by the Orgy. + +II. _The Origin and Development of Prostitution:_--The Definition of +Prostitution--Prostitution Among Savages--The Conditions Under Which +Professional Prostitution Arises--Sacred Prostitution--The Rite of +Mylitta--The Practice of Prostitution to Obtain a Marriage Portion--The +Rise of Secular Prostitution in Greece--Prostitution in the East--India, +China, Japan, etc.--Prostitution in Rome--The Influence of Christianity on +Prostitution--The Effort to Combat Prostitution--The Mediaeval Brothel--The +Appearance of the Courtesan--Tullia D'Aragona--Veronica Franco--Ninon de +Lenclos--Later Attempts to Eradicate Prostitution--The Regulation of +Prostitution--Its Futility Becoming Recognized. + +III. _The Causes of Prostitution:_--Prostitution as a Part of the Marriage +System--The Complex Causation of Prostitution--The Motives Assigned by +Prostitutes--(1) Economic Factor of Prostitution--Poverty Seldom the Chief +Motive for Prostitution--But Economic Pressure Exerts a Real +Influence--The Large Proportion of Prostitutes Recruited from Domestic +Service--Significance of This Fact--(2) The Biological Factor of +Prostitution--The So-called Born-Prostitute--Alleged Identity with the +Born-Criminal--The Sexual Instinct in Prostitutes--The Physical and +Psychic Characters of Prostitutes--(3) Moral Necessity as a Factor in the +Existence of Prostitution--The Moral Advocates of Prostitution--The Moral +Attitude of Christianity Towards Prostitution--The Attitude of +Protestantism--Recent Advocates of the Moral Necessity of +Prostitution--(4) Civilizational Value as a Factor of Prostitution--The +Influence of Urban Life--The Craving for Excitement--Why Servant-girls +so Often Turn to Prostitution--The Small Part Played by +Seduction--Prostitutes Come Largely from the Country--The Appeal of +Civilization Attracts Women to Prostitution--The Corresponding Attraction +Felt by Men--The Prostitute as Artist and Leader of Fashion--The Charm of +Vulgarity. + +IV. _The Present Social Attitude Towards Prostitution:_--The Decay of the +Brothel--The Tendency to the Humanization of Prostitution--The Monetary +Aspects of Prostitution--The Geisha--The Hetaira--The Moral Revolt +Against Prostitution--Squalid Vice Based on Luxurious Virtue--The Ordinary +Attitude Towards Prostitutes--Its Cruelty Absurd--The Need of Reforming +Prostitution--The Need of Reforming Marriage--These These Two Needs +Closely Correlated--The Dynamic Relationships Involved. + + +_I. The Orgy_. + +Traditional morality, religion, and established convention combine to +promote not only the extreme of rigid abstinence but also that of reckless +license. They preach and idealize the one extreme; they drive those who +cannot accept it to adopt the opposite extreme. In the great ages of +religion it even happens that the severity of the rule of abstinence is +more or less deliberately tempered by the permission for occasional +outbursts of license. We thus have the orgy, which flourished in mediaeval +days and is, indeed, in its largest sense, a universal manifestation, +having a function to fulfil in every orderly and laborious civilization, +built up on natural energies that are bound by more or less inevitable +restraints. + +The consideration of the orgy, it may be said, lifts us beyond the merely +sexual sphere, into a higher and wider region which belongs to religion. +The Greek _orgeia_ referred originally to ritual things done with a +religious purpose, though later, when dances of Bacchanals and the like +lost their sacred and inspiring character, the idea was fostered by +Christianity that such things were immoral.[107] Yet Christianity was +itself in its origin an orgy of the higher spiritual activities released +from the uncongenial servitude of classic civilization, a great festival +of the poor and the humble, of the slave and the sinner. And when, with +the necessity for orderly social organization, Christianity had ceased to +be this it still recognized, as Paganism had done, the need for an +occasional orgy. It appears that in 743 at a Synod held in Hainault +reference was made to the February debauch (_de Spurcalibus in februario_) +as a pagan practice; yet it was precisely this pagan festival which was +embodied in the accepted customs of the Christian Church as the chief orgy +of the ecclesiastical year, the great Carnival prefixed to the long fast +of Lent. The celebration on Shrove Tuesday and the previous Sunday +constituted a Christian Bacchanalian festival in which all classes joined. +The greatest freedom and activity of physical movement was encouraged; +"some go about naked without shame, some crawl on all fours, some on +stilts, some imitate animals."[108] As time went on the Carnival lost its +most strongly marked Bacchanalian features, but it still retains its +essential character as a permitted and temporary relaxation of the tension +of customary restraints and conventions. The Mediaeval Feast of Fools--a +New Year's Revel well established by the twelfth century, mainly in +France--presented an expressive picture of a Christian orgy in its extreme +form, for here the most sacred ceremonies of the Church became the subject +of fantastic parody. The Church, according to Nietzsche's saying, like all +wise legislators, recognized that where great impulses and habits have to +be cultivated, intercalary days must be appointed in which these impulses +and habits may be denied, and so learn to hunger anew.[109] The clergy +took the leading part in these folk-festivals, for to the men of that age, +as Meray remarks, "the temple offered the complete notes of the human +gamut; they found there the teaching of all duties, the consolation of all +sorrows, the satisfaction of all joys. The sacred festivals of mediaeval +Christianity were not a survival from Roman times; they leapt from the +very heart of Christian society."[110] But, as Meray admits, all great and +vigorous peoples, of the East and the West, have found it necessary +sometimes to play with their sacred things. + +Among the Greeks and Romans this need is everywhere visible, not only in +their comedy and their literature generally, but in everyday life. As +Nietzsche truly remarks (in his _Geburt der Tragoedie_) the Greeks +recognized all natural impulses, even those that are seemingly unworthy, +and safeguarded them from working mischief by providing channels into +which, on special days and in special rites, the surplus of wild energy +might harmlessly flow. Plutarch, the last and most influential of the +Greek moralists, well says, when advocating festivals (in his essay "On +the Training of Children"), that "even in bows and harps we loosen their +strings that we may bend and wind them up again." Seneca, perhaps the most +influential of Roman if not of European moralists, even recommended +occasional drunkenness. "Sometimes," he wrote in his _De Tranquillilate_, +"we ought to come even to the point of intoxication, not for the purpose +of drowning ourselves but of sinking ourselves deep in wine. For it washes +away cares and raises our spirits from the lowest depths. The inventor of +wine is called _Liber_ because he frees the soul from the servitude of +care, releases it from slavery, quickens it, and makes it bolder for all +undertakings." The Romans were a sterner and more serious people than the +Greeks, but on that very account they recognized the necessity of +occasionally relaxing their moral fibres in order to preserve their tone, +and encouraged the prevalence of festivals which were marked by much more +abandonment than those of Greece. When these festivals began to lose +their moral sanction and to fall into decay the decadence of Rome had +begun. + +All over the world, and not excepting the most primitive savages--for even +savage life is built up on systematic constraints which sometimes need +relaxation--the principle of the orgy is recognized and accepted. Thus +Spencer and Gillen describe[111] the Nathagura or fire-ceremony of the +Warramunga tribe of Central Australia, a festival taken part in by both +sexes, in which all the ordinary rules of social life are broken, a kind +of Saturnalia in which, however, there is no sexual license, for sexual +license is, it need scarcely be said, no essential part of the orgy, even +when the orgy lightens the burden of sexual constraints. In a widely +different part of the world, in British Columbia, the Salish Indians, +according to Hill Tout,[112] believed that, long before the whites came, +their ancestors observed a Sabbath or seventh day ceremony for dancing and +praying, assembling at sunrise and dancing till noon. The Sabbath, or +periodically recurring orgy,--not a day of tension and constraint but a +festival of joy, a rest from all the duties of everyday life,--has, as we +know, formed an essential part of many of the orderly ancient +civilizations on which our own has been built;[113] it is highly probable +that the stability of these ancient civilizations was intimately +associated with their recognition of the need of a Sabbath orgy. Such +festivals are, indeed, as Crawley observes, processes of purification and +reinvigoration, the effort to put off "the old man" and put on "the new +man," to enter with fresh energy on the path of everyday life.[114] + +The orgy is an institution which by no means has its significance only for +the past. On the contrary, the high tension, the rigid routine, the gray +monotony of modern life insistently call for moments of organic relief, +though the precise form that that orgiastic relief takes must necessarily +change with other social changes. As Wilhelm von Humboldt said, "just as +men need suffering in order to become strong so they need joy in order to +become good." Charles Wagner, insisting more recently (in his _Jeunesse_) +on the same need of joy in our modern life, regrets that dancing in the +old, free, and natural manner has gone out of fashion or become +unwholesome. Dancing is indeed the most fundamental and primitive form of +the orgy, and that which most completely and healthfully fulfils its +object. For while it is undoubtedly, as we see even among animals, a +process by which sexual tumescence is accomplished,[115] it by no means +necessarily becomes focused in sexual detumescence but it may itself +become a detumescent discharge of accumulated energy. It was on this +account that, at all events in former days, the clergy in Spain, on moral +grounds, openly encouraged the national passion for dancing. Among +cultured people in modern times, the orgy tends to take on a purely +cerebral form, which is less wholesome because it fails to lead to +harmonious discharge along motor channels. In these comparatively passive +forms, however, the orgy tends to become more and more pronounced under +the conditions of civilization. Aristotle's famous statement concerning +the function of tragedy as "purgation" seems to be a recognition of the +beneficial effects of the orgy.[116] Wagner's music-dramas appeal +powerfully to this need; the theatre, now as ever, fulfils a great +function of the same kind, inherited from the ancient days when it was the +ordered expression of a sexual festival.[117] The theatre, indeed, tends +at the present time to assume a larger importance and to approximate to +the more serious dramatic performances of classic days by being +transferred to the day-time and the open-air. France has especially taken +the initiative in these performances, analogous to the Dionysiac festivals +of antiquity and the Mysteries and Moralities of the Middle Ages. The +movement began some years ago at Orange. In 1907 there were, in France, as +many as thirty open-air theatres ("Theatres de la Nature," "Theatres du +Soleil," etc.,) while it is in Marseilles that the first formal open-air +theatre has been erected since classic days.[118] In England, likewise, +there has been a great extension of popular interest in dramatic +performances, and the newly instituted Pageants, carried out and taken +part in by the population of the region commemorated in the Pageant, are +festivals of the same character. In England, however, at the present time, +the real popular orgiastic festivals are the Bank holidays, with which may +be associated the more occasional celebrations, "Maffekings," etc., often +called out by comparatively insignificant national events but still +adequate to arouse orgiastic emotions as genuine as those of antiquity, +though they are lacking in beauty and religious consecration. It is easy +indeed for the narrowly austere person to view such manifestations with a +supercilious smile, but in the eyes of the moralist and the philosopher +these orgiastic festivals exert a salutary and preservative function. In +every age of dull and monotonous routine--and all civilization involves +such routine--many natural impulses and functions tend to become +suppressed, atrophied, or perverted. They need these moments of joyous +exercise and expression, moments in which they may not necessarily attain +their full activity but in which they will at all events be able, as +Cyples expresses it, to rehearse their great possibilities.[119] + + +_II. The Origin and Development of Prostitution_. + +The more refined forms of the orgy flourish in civilization, although on +account of their mainly cerebral character they are not the most +beneficent or the most effective. The more primitive and muscular forms of +the orgy tend, on the other hand, under the influence of civilization, to +fall into discredit and to be so far as possible suppressed altogether. It +is partly in this way that civilization encourages prostitution. For the +orgy in its primitive forms, forbidden to show itself openly and +reputably, seeks the darkness, and allying itself with a fundamental +instinct to which civilized society offers no complete legitimate +satisfaction, it firmly entrenches itself in the very centre of civilized +life, and thereby constitutes a problem of immense difficulty and +importance.[120] + +It is commonly said that prostitution has existed always and everywhere. +That statement is far from correct. A kind of amateur prostitution is +occasionally found among savages, but usually it is only when barbarism is +fully developed and is already approaching the stage of civilization that +well developed prostitution is found. It exists in a systematic form in +every civilization. + +What is prostitution? There has been considerable discussion as to the +correct definition of prostitution.[121] The Roman Ulpian said that a +prostitute was one who openly abandons her body to a number of men without +choice, for money.[122] Not all modern definitions have been so +satisfactory. It is sometimes said a prostitute is a woman who gives +herself to numerous men. To be sound, however, a definition must be +applicable to both sexes alike and we should certainly hesitate to +describe a man who had sexual intercourse with many women as a prostitute. +The idea of venality, the intention to sell the favors of the body, is +essential to the conception of prostitution. Thus Guyot defines a +prostitute as "any person for whom sexual relationships are subordinated +to gain."[123] It is not, however, adequate to define a prostitute simply +as a woman who sells her body. That is done every day by women who become +wives in order to gain a home and a livelihood, yet, immoral as this +conduct may be from any high ethical standpoint, it would be inconvenient +and even misleading to call it prostitution.[124] It is better, therefore, +to define a prostitute as a woman who temporarily sells her sexual favors +to various persons. Thus, according to Wharton's _Law-lexicon_ a +prostitute is "a woman who indiscriminately consorts with men for hire"; +Bonger states that "those women are prostitutes who sell their bodies for +the exercise of sexual acts and make of this a profession";[125] Richard +again states that "a prostitute is a woman who publicly gives herself to +the first comer in return for a pecuniary remuneration."[126] As, finally, +the prevalence of homosexuality has led to the existence of male +prostitutes, the definition must be put in a form irrespective of sex, and +we may, therefore, say that a prostitute is a person who makes it a +profession to gratify the lust of various persons of the opposite sex or +the same sex. + + It is essential that the act of prostitution should be habitually + performed with "various persons." A woman who gains her living by + being mistress to a man, to whom she is faithful, is not a + prostitute, although she often becomes one afterwards, and may + have been one before. The exact point at which a woman begins to + be a prostitute is a question of considerable importance in + countries in which prostitutes are subject to registration. Thus + in Berlin, not long ago, a girl who was mistress to a rich + cavalry officer and supported by him, during the illness of the + officer accidentally met a man whom she had formerly known, and + once or twice invited him to see her, receiving from him presents + in money. This somehow came to the knowledge of the police, and + she was arrested and sentenced to one day's imprisonment as an + unregistered prostitute. On appeal, however, the sentence was + annulled. Liszt, in his _Strafrecht_, lays it down that a girl + who obtains whole or part of her income from "fixed + relationships" is not practicing unchastity for gain in the sense + of the German law (_Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Jahrgang 1, + Heft 9, p. 345). + +It is not altogether easy to explain the origin of the systematized +professional prostitution with the existence of which we are familiar in +civilization. The amateur kind of prostitution which has sometimes been +noted among primitive peoples--the fact, that is, that a man may give a +woman a present in seeking to persuade her to allow him to have +intercourse with her--is really not prostitution as we understand it. The +present in such a case is merely part of a kind of courtship leading to a +temporary relationship. The woman more or less retains her social position +and is not forced to make an avocation of selling herself because +henceforth no other career is possible to her. When Cook came to New +Zealand his men found that the women were not impregnable, "but the terms +and manner of compliance were as decent as those in marriage among us," +and according "to their notions the agreement was as innocent." The +consent of the woman's friends was necessary, and when the preliminaries +were settled it was also necessary to treat this "Juliet of a night" with +"the same delicacy as is here required with the wife for life, and the +lover who presumed to take any liberties by which this was violated was +sure to be disappointed."[127] In some of the Melanesian Islands, it is +said that women would sometimes become prostitutes, or on account of their +bad conduct be forced to become prostitutes for a time; they were not, +however, particularly despised, and when they had in this way accumulated +a certain amount of property they could marry well, after which it would +not be proper to refer to their former career.[128] + +When prostitution first arises among a primitive people it sometimes +happens that little or no stigma is attached to it for the reason that the +community has not yet become accustomed to attach any special value to the +presence of virginity. Schurtz quotes from the old Arabic geographer +Al-Bekri some interesting remarks about the Slavs: "The women of the +Slavs, after they have married, are faithful to their husbands. If, +however, a young girl falls in love with a man she goes to him and +satisfies her passion. And if a man marries and finds his wife a virgin he +says to her: 'If you were worth anything men would have loved you, and you +would have chosen one who would have taken away your virginity.' Then he +drives her away and renounces her." It is a feeling of this kind which, +among some peoples, leads a girl to be proud of the presents she has +received from her lovers and to preserve them as a dowry for her marriage, +knowing that her value will thus be still further heightened. Even among +the Southern Slavs of modern Europe, who have preserved much of the +primitive sexual freedom, this freedom, as Krauss, who has minutely +studied the manners and customs of these peoples, declares, is +fundamentally different from vice, licentiousness, or immodesty.[129] + +Prostitution tends to arise, as Schurtz has pointed out, in every society +in which early marriage is difficult and intercourse outside marriage is +socially disapproved. "Venal women everywhere appear as soon as the free +sexual intercourse of young people is repressed, without the necessary +consequences being impeded by unusually early marriages."[130] The +repression of sexual intimacies outside marriage is a phenomenon of +civilization, but it is not itself by any means a measure of a people's +general level, and may, therefore, begin to appear at an early period. But +it is important to remember that the primitive and rudimentary forms of +prostitution, when they occur, are merely temporary, and +frequently--though not invariably--involve no degrading influence on the +woman in public estimation, sometimes indeed increasing her value as a +wife. The woman who sells herself for money purely as a professional +matter, without any thought of love or passion, and who, by virtue of her +profession, belongs to a pariah class definitely and rigidly excluded from +the main body of her sex, is a phenomenon which can seldom be found except +in developed civilization. It is altogether incorrect to speak of +prostitutes as a mere survival from primitive times. + +On the whole, while among savages sexual relationships are sometimes free +before marriage, as well as on the occasion of special festivals, they are +rarely truly promiscuous and still more rarely venal. When savage women +nowadays sell themselves, or are sold by their husbands, it has usually +been found that we are concerned with the contamination of European +civilization. + +The definite ways in which professional prostitution may arise are no +doubt many.[131] We may assent to the general principle, laid down by +Schurtz, that whenever the free union of young people is impeded under +conditions in which early marriage is also difficult prostitution must +certainly arise. There are, however, different ways in which this +principle may take shape. So far as our western civilization is +concerned--the civilization, that is to say, which has its cradle in the +Mediterranean basin--it would seem that the origin of prostitution is to +be found primarily in a religious custom, religion, the great conserver of +social traditions, preserving in a transformed shape a primitive freedom +that was passing out of general social life.[132] The typical example is +that recorded by Herodotus, in the fifth century before Christ, at the +temple of Mylitta, the Babylonian Venus, where every woman once in her +life had to come and give herself to the first stranger who threw a coin +in her lap, in worship of the goddess. The money could not be refused, +however small the amount, but it was given as an offertory to the temple, +and the woman, having followed the man and thus made oblation to Mylitta, +returned home and lived chastely ever afterwards.[133] Very similar +customs existed in other parts of Western Asia, in North Africa, in Cyprus +and other islands of the Eastern Mediterranean, and also in Greece, where +the Temple of Aphrodite on the fort at Corinth possessed over a thousand +hierodules, dedicated to the service of the goddess, from time to time, as +Strabo states, by those who desired to make thank-offering for mercies +vouchsafed to them. Pindar refers to the hospitable young Corinthian women +ministrants whose thoughts often turn towards Ourania Aphrodite[134] in +whose temple they burned incense; and Athenaeus mentions the importance +that was attached to the prayers of the Corinthian prostitutes in any +national calamity.[135] + +We seem here to be in the presence, not merely of a religiously preserved +survival of a greater sexual freedom formerly existing,[136] but of a +specialized and ritualized development of that primitive cult of the +generative forces of Nature which involves the belief that all natural +fruitfulness is associated with, and promoted by, acts of human sexual +intercourse which thus acquire a religious significance. At a later stage +acts of sexual intercourse having a religious significance become +specialized and localized in temples, and by a rational transition of +ideas it becomes believed that such acts of sexual intercourse in the +service of the god, or with persons devoted to the god's service, brought +benefits to the individual who performed them, more especially, if a +woman, by insuring her fertility. Among primitive peoples generally this +conception is embodied mainly in seasonal festivals, but among the peoples +of Western Asia who had ceased to be primitive, and among whom traditional +priestly and hieratic influences had acquired very great influence, the +earlier generative cult had thus, it seems probable, naturally changed +its form in becoming attached to the temples.[137] + + The theory that religious prostitution developed, as a general + rule, out of the belief that the generative activity of human + beings possessed a mysterious and sacred influence in promoting + the fertility of Nature generally seems to have been first set + forth by Mannhardt in his _Antike Wald- und Feldkulte_ (pp. 283 + et seq.). It is supported by Dr. F.S. Krauss ("Beischlafausuebung + als Kulthandlung," _Anthropophyteia_, vol. iii, p. 20), who + refers to the significant fact that in Baruch's time, at a period + long anterior to Herodotus, sacred prostitution took place under + the trees. Dr. J.G. Frazer has more especially developed this + conception of the origin of sacred prostitution in his _Adonis, + Attis, Osiris_. He thus summarizes his lengthy discussion: "We + may conclude that a great Mother Goddess, the personification of + all the reproductive energies of nature, was worshipped under + different names, but with a substantial similarity of myth and + ritual by many peoples of western Asia; that associated with her + was a lover, or rather series of lovers, divine yet mortal, with + whom she mated year by year, their commerce being deemed + essential to the propagation of animals and plants, each in their + several kind; and further, that the fabulous union of the divine + pair was simulated, and, as it were, multiplied on earth by the + real, though temporary, union of the human sexes at the sanctuary + of the goddess for the sake of thereby ensuring the fruitfulness + of the ground and the increase of man and beast. In course of + time, as the institution of individual marriage grew in favor, + and the old communism fell more and more into discredit, the + revival of the ancient practice, even for a single occasion in a + woman's life, became ever more repugnant to the moral sense of + the people, and accordingly they resorted to various expedients + for evading in practice the obligation which they still + acknowledged in theory.... But while the majority of women thus + contrived to observe the form of religion without sacrificing + their virtue, it was still thought necessary to the general + welfare that a certain number of them should discharge the old + obligation in the old way. These became prostitutes, either for + life or for a term of years, at one of the temples: dedicated to + the service of religion, they were invested with a sacred + character, and their vocation, far from being deemed infamous, + was probably long regarded by the laity as an exercise of more + than common virtue, and rewarded with a tribute of mixed wonder, + reverence, and pity, not unlike that which in some parts of the + world is still paid to women who seek to honor their Creator in a + different way by renouncing the natural functions of their sex + and the tenderest relations of humanity" (J.G. Frazer, _Adonis, + Attis, Osiris_, 1907, pp. 23 et seq.). + + It is difficult to resist the conclusion that this theory + represents the central and primitive idea which led to the + development of sacred prostitution. It seems equally clear, + however, that as time went on, and especially as temple cults + developed and priestly influence increased, this fundamental and + primitive idea tended to become modified, and even transformed. + The primitive conception became specialized in the belief that + religious benefits, and especially the gift of fruitfulness, were + gained _by the worshipper_, who thus sought the goddess's favor + by an act of unchastity which might be presumed to be agreeable + to an unchaste deity. The rite of Mylitta, as described by + Herodotus, was a late development of this kind in an ancient + civilization, and the benefit sought was evidently for the + worshipper herself. This has been pointed out by Dr. Westermarck, + who remarks that the words spoken to the woman by her partner as + he gives her the coin--"May the goddess be auspicious to + thee!"--themselves indicate that the object of the act was to + insure her fertility, and he refers also to the fact that + strangers frequently had a semi-supernatural character, and their + benefits a specially efficacious character (Westermarck, _Origin + and Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. ii, p. 446). It may be + added that the rite of Mylitta thus became analogous with another + Mediterranean rite, in which the act of simulating intercourse + with the representative of a god, or his image, ensured a woman's + fertility. This is the rite practiced by the Egyptians of Mendes, + in which a woman went through the ceremony of simulated + intercourse with the sacred goat, regarded as the representative + of a deity of Pan-like character (Herodotus, Bk. ii, Ch. XLVI; + and see Dulaure, _Des Divinites Generatrices_, Ch. II; cf. vol. v + of these _Studies_, "Erotic Symbolism," Sect. IV). This rite was + maintained by Roman women, in connection with the statues of + Priapus, to a very much later date, and St. Augustine mentions + how Roman matrons placed the young bride on the erect member of + Priapus (_De Civitate Dei_, Bk. iii, Ch. IX). The idea evidently + running through this whole group of phenomena is that the deity, + or the representative or even mere image of the deity, is able, + through a real or simulated act of intercourse, to confer on the + worshipper a portion of its own exalted generative activity. + +At a later period, in Corinth, prostitutes were still the priestesses of +Venus, more or less loosely attached to her temples, and so long as that +was the case they enjoyed a considerable degree of esteem. At this stage, +however, we realize that religious prostitution was developing a +utilitarian side. These temples flourished chiefly in sea-coast towns, in +islands, in large cities to which many strangers and sailors came. The +priestesses of Cyprus burnt incense on her altars and invoked her sacred +aid, but at the same time Pindar addresses them as "young girls who +welcome all strangers and give them hospitality." Side by side with the +religious significance of the act of generation the needs of men far from +home were already beginning to be definitely recognized. The Babylonian +woman had gone to the temple of Mylitta to fulfil a personal religious +duty; the Corinthian priestess had begun to act as an avowed minister to +the sexual needs of men in strange cities. + +The custom which Herodotus noted in Lydia of young girls prostituting +themselves in order to acquire a marriage portion which they may dispose +of as they think fit (Bk. I, Ch. 93) may very well have developed (as +Frazer also believes) out of religious prostitution; we can indeed trace +its evolution in Cyprus where eventually, at the period when Justinian +visited the island, the money given by strangers to the women was no +longer placed on the altar but put into a chest to form marriage-portions +for them. It is a custom to be found in Japan and various other parts of +the world, notably among the Ouled-Nail of Algeria,[138] and is not +necessarily always based on religious prostitution; but it obviously +cannot exist except among peoples who see nothing very derogatory in free +sexual intercourse for the purpose of obtaining money, so that the custom +of Mylitta furnished a natural basis for it.[139] + +As a more spiritual conception of religion developed, and as the growth of +civilization tended to deprive sexual intercourse of its sacred halo, +religious prostitution in Greece was slowly abolished, though on the +coasts of Asia Minor both religious prostitution and prostitution for the +purpose of obtaining a marriage portion persisted to the time of +Constantine, who put an end to these ancient customs.[140] Superstition +was on the side of the old religious prostitution; it was believed that +women who had never sacrificed to Aphrodite became consumed by lust, and +according to the legend recorded by Ovid--a legend which seems to point to +a certain antagonism between sacred and secular prostitution--this was the +case with the women who first became public prostitutes. The decay of +religious prostitution, doubtless combined with the cravings always born +of the growth of civilization, led up to the first establishment, +attributed by legend to Solon, of a public brothel, a purely secular +establishment for a purely secular end: the safeguarding of the virtue of +the general population and the increase of the public revenue. With that +institution the evolution of prostitution, and of the modern marriage +system of which it forms part, was completed. The Athenian _dikterion_ is +the modern brothel; the _dikteriade_ is the modern state-regulated +prostitute. The free _hetairae_, indeed, subsequently arose, educated women +having no taint of the _dikterion_, but they likewise had no official part +in public worship.[141] The primitive conception of the sanctity of sexual +intercourse in the divine service had been utterly lost. + + A fairly typical example of the conditions existing among savages + is to be found in the South Sea Island of Rotuma, where + "prostitution for money or gifts was quite unknown." Adultery + after marriage was also unknown. But there was great freedom in + the formation of sexual relationships before marriage (J. Stanley + Gardiner, _Journal Anthropological Institute_, February, 1898, p. + 409). Much the same is said of the Bantu Ba mbola of Africa (_op. + cit._, July-December, 1905, p. 410). + + Among the early Cymri of Wales, representing a more advanced + social stage, prostitution appears to have been not absolutely + unknown, but public prostitution was punished by loss of valuable + privileges (R.B. Holt, "Marriage Laws and Customs of the Cymri," + _Journal Anthropological Institute_, August-November, 1898, pp. + 161-163). + + Prostitution was practically unknown in Burmah, and regarded as + shameful before the coming of the English and the example of the + modern Hindus. The missionaries have unintentionally, but + inevitably, favored the growth of prostitution by condemning free + unions (_Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, November, 1903, p. + 720). The English brought prostitution to India. "That was not + specially the fault of the English," said a Brahmin to Jules + Bois, "it is the crime of your civilization. We have never had + prostitutes. I mean by that horrible word the brutalized servants + of the gross desire of the passerby. We had, and we have, castes + of singers and dancers who are married to trees--yes, to + trees--by touching ceremonies which date from Vedic times; our + priests bless them and receive much money from them. They do not + refuse themselves to those who love them and please them. Kings + have made them rich. They represent all the arts; they are the + visible beauty of the universe" (Jules Bois, _Visions de l'Inde_, + p. 55). + + Religious prostitutes, it may be added, "the servants of the + god," are connected with temples in Southern India and the + Deccan. They are devoted to their sacred calling from their + earliest years, and it is their chief business to dance before + the image of the god, to whom they are married (though in Upper + India professional dancing girls are married to inanimate + objects), but they are also trained in arousing and assuaging the + desires of devotees who come on pilgrimage to the shrine. For the + betrothal rites by which, in India, sacred prostitutes are + consecrated, see, e.g., A. Van Gennep, _Rites de Passage_, p. + 142. + + In many parts of Western Asia, where barbarism had reached a high + stage of development, prostitution was not unknown, though + usually disapproved. The Hebrews knew it, and the historical + Biblical references to prostitutes imply little reprobation. + Jephtha was the son of a prostitute, brought up with the + legitimate children, and the story of Tamar is instructive. But + the legal codes were extremely severe on Jewish maidens who + became prostitutes (the offense was quite tolerable in strange + women), while Hebrew moralists exercised their invectives against + prostitution; it is sufficient to refer to a well-known passage + in the Book of Proverbs (see art. "Harlot," by Cheyne, in the + _Encyclopaedia Biblica_). Mahomed also severely condemned + prostitution, though somewhat more tolerant to it in slave + women; according to Haleby, however, prostitution was practically + unknown in Islam during the first centuries after the Prophet's + time. + + The Persian adherents of the somewhat ascetic _Zendavesta_ also + knew prostitution, and regarded it with repulsion: "It is the + Gahi [the courtesan, as an incarnation of the female demon, + Gahi], O Spitama Zarathustra! who mixes in her the seed of the + faithful and the unfaithful, of the worshipper of Mazda and the + worshipper of the Daevas, of the wicked and the righteous. Her + look dries up one-third of the mighty floods that run from the + mountains, O Zarathustra; her look withers one-third of the + beautiful, golden-hued, growing plants, O Zarathustra; her look + withers one-third of the strength of Spenta Armaiti [the earth]; + and her touch withers in the faithful one-third of his good + thoughts, of his good words, of his good deeds, one-third of his + strength, of his victorious power, of his holiness. Verily I say + unto thee, O Spitama Zarathustra! such creatures ought to be + killed even more than gliding snakes, than howling wolves, than + the she-wolf that falls upon the fold, or than the she-frog that + falls upon the waters with her thousandfold brood" (_Zend-Avesta, + the Vendidad_, translated by James Darmesteter, Farfad XVIII). + + In practice, however, prostitution is well established in the + modern East. Thus in the Tartar-Turcoman region houses of + prostitution lying outside the paths frequented by Christians + have been described by a writer who appears to be well informed + ("Orientalische Prostitution," _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, + 1907, Bd. ii, Heft 1). These houses are not regarded as immoral + or forbidden, but as places in which the visitor will find a + woman who gives him for a few hours the illusion of being in his + own home, with the pleasure of enjoying her songs, dances, and + recitations, and finally her body. Payment is made at the door, + and no subsequent question of money arises; the visitor is + henceforth among friends, almost as if in his own family. He + treats the prostitute almost as if she were his wife, and no + indecorum or coarseness of speech occurs. "There is no obscenity + in the Oriental brothel." At the same time there is no artificial + pretence of innocence. + + In Eastern Asia, among the peoples of Mongolian stock, especially + in China, we find prostitution firmly established and organized + on a practical business basis. Prostitution is here accepted and + viewed with no serious disfavor, but the prostitute herself is, + nevertheless, treated with contempt. Young children are + frequently sold to be trained to a life of prostitution, educated + accordingly, and kept shut up from the world. Young widows + (remarriage being disapproved) frequently also slide into a life + of prostitution. Chinese prostitutes often end through opium and + the ravages of syphilis (see, e.g., Coltman's _The Chinese_, + 1900, Ch. VII). In ancient China, it is said prostitutes were a + superior class and occupied a position somewhat similar to that + of the _hetairae_ in Greece. Even in modern China, however, where + they are very numerous, and the flower boats, in which in towns + by the sea they usually live, very luxurious, it is chiefly for + entertainment, according to some writers, that they are resorted + to. Tschang Ki Tong, military attache in Paris (as quoted by + Ploss and Bartels), describes the flower boat as less analogous + to a European brothel than to a _cafe chantant_; the young + Chinaman comes here for music, for tea, for agreeable + conversation with the flower-maidens, who are by no means + necessarily called upon to minister to the lust of their + visitors. + + In Japan, the prostitute's lot is not so degraded as in China. + The greater refinement of Japanese civilization allows the + prostitute to retain a higher degree of self-respect. She is + sometimes regarded with pity, but less often with contempt. She + may associate openly with men, ultimately be married, even to men + of good social class, and rank as a respectable woman. "In riding + from Tokio to Yokohama, the past winter," Coltman observes (_op. + cit._, p. 113), "I saw a party of four young men and three quite + pretty and gaily-painted prostitutes, in the same car, who were + having a glorious time. They had two or three bottles of various + liquors, oranges, and fancy cakes, and they ate, drank and sang, + besides playing jokes on each other and frolicking like so many + kittens. You may travel the whole length of the Chinese Empire + and never witness such a scene." Yet the history of Japanese + prostitutes (which has been written in an interesting and + well-informed book, _The Nightless City_, by an English student + of sociology who remains anonymous) shows that prostitution in + Japan has not only been severely regulated, but very widely + looked down upon, and that Japanese prostitutes have often had to + suffer greatly; they were at one time practically slaves and + often treated with much hardship. They are free now, and any + condition approaching slavery is strictly prohibited and guarded + against. It would seem, however, that the palmiest days of + Japanese prostitution lay some centuries back. Up to the middle + of the eighteenth century Japanese prostitutes were highly + accomplished in singing, dancing, music, etc. Towards this + period, however, they seem to have declined in social + consideration and to have ceased to be well educated. Yet even + to-day, says Matignon ("La Prostitution au Japon," _Archives + d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, October, 1906), less infamy attaches + to prostitution in Japan than in Europe, while at the same time + there is less immorality in Japan than in Europe. Though + prostitution is organized like the postal or telegraph service, + there is also much clandestine prostitution. The prostitution + quarters are clean, beautiful and well-kept, but the Japanese + prostitutes have lost much of their native good taste in costume + by trying to imitate European fashions. It was when prostitution + began to decline two centuries ago, that the geishas first + appeared and were organized in such a way that they should not, + if possible, compete as prostitutes with the recognized and + licensed inhabitants of the Yoshiwara, as the quarter is called + to which prostitutes are confined. The geishas, of course, are + not prostitutes, though their virtue may not always be + impregnable, and in social position they correspond to actresses + in Europe. + + In Korea, at all events before Korea fell into the hands of the + Japanese, it would seem that there was no distinction between the + class of dancing girls and prostitutes. "Among the courtesans," + Angus Hamilton states, "the mental abilities are trained and + developed with a view to making them brilliant and entertaining + companions. These 'leaves of sunlight' are called _gisaing_, and + correspond to the geishas of Japan. Officially, they are attached + to a department of government, and are controlled by a bureau of + their own, in common with the Court musicians. They are supported + from the national treasury, and they are in evidence at official + dinners and all palace entertainments. They read and recite; they + dance and sing; they become accomplished artists and musicians. + They dress with exceptional taste; they move with exceeding + grace; they are delicate in appearance, very frail and very + human, very tender, sympathetic, and imaginative." But though + they are certainly the prettiest women in Korea, move in the + highest society, and might become concubines of the Emperor, they + are not allowed to marry men of good class (Angus Hamilton, + _Korea_, p. 52). + +The history of European prostitution, as of so many other modern +institutions, may properly be said to begin in Rome. Here at the outset we +already find that inconsistently mixed attitude towards prostitution which +to-day is still preserved. In Greece it was in many respects different. +Greece was nearer to the days of religious prostitution, and the sincerity +and refinement of Greek civilization made it possible for the better kind +of prostitute to exert, and often be worthy to exert, an influence in all +departments of life which she has never been able to exercise since, +except perhaps occasionally, in a much slighter degree, in France. The +course, vigorous, practical Roman was quite ready to tolerate the +prostitute, but he was not prepared to carry that toleration to its +logical results; he never felt bound to harmonize inconsistent facts of +life. Cicero, a moralist of no mean order, without expressing approval of +prostitution, yet could not understand how anyone should wish to prohibit +youths from commerce with prostitutes, such severity being out of harmony +with all the customs of the past or the present.[142] But the superior +class of Roman prostitutes, the _bonae mulieres_, had no such dignified +position as the Greek _hetairae_. Their influence was indeed immense, but +it was confined, as it is in the case of their European successors to-day, +to fashions, customs, and arts. There was always a certain moral rigidity +in the Roman which prevented him from yielding far in this direction. He +encouraged brothels, but he only entered them with covered head and face +concealed in his cloak. In the same way, while he tolerated the +prostitute, beyond a certain point he sharply curtailed her privileges. +Not only was she deprived of all influence in the higher concerns of life, +but she might not even wear the _vitta_ or the _stola_; she could indeed +go almost naked if she pleased, but she must not ape the emblems of the +respectable Roman matron.[143] + +The rise of Christianity to political power produced on the whole less +change of policy than might have been anticipated. The Christian rulers +had to deal practically as best they might with a very mixed, turbulent, +and semi-pagan world. The leading fathers of the Church were inclined to +tolerate prostitution for the avoidance of greater evils, and Christian +emperors, like their pagan predecessors, were willing to derive a tax from +prostitution. The right of prostitution to exist was, however, no longer +so unquestionably recognized as in pagan days, and from time to time some +vigorous ruler sought to repress prostitution by severe enactments. The +younger Theodosius and Valentinian definitely ordained that there should +be no more brothels and that anyone giving shelter to a prostitute should +be punished. Justinian confirmed that measure and ordered that all panders +were to be exiled on pain of death. These enactments were quite vain. But +during a thousand years they were repeated again and again in various +parts of Europe, and invariably with the same fruitless or worse than +fruitless results. Theodoric, king of the Visigoths, punished with death +those who promoted prostitution, and Recared, a Catholic king of the same +people in the sixth century, prohibited prostitution altogether and +ordered that a prostitute, when found, should receive three hundred +strokes of the whip and be driven out of the city. Charlemagne, as well as +Genserich in Carthage, and later Frederick Barbarossa in Germany, made +severe laws against prostitution which were all of no effect, for even if +they seemed to be effective for the time the reaction was all the greater +afterwards.[144] + +It is in France that the most persistent efforts have been made to combat +prostitution. Most notable of all were the efforts of the King and Saint, +Louis IX. In 1254 St. Louis ordained that prostitutes should be driven out +altogether and deprived of all their money and goods, even to their +mantles and gowns. In 1256 he repeated this ordinance and in 1269, before +setting out for the Crusades, he ordered the destruction of all places of +prostitution. The repetition of those decrees shows how ineffectual they +were. They even made matters worse, for prostitutes were forced to mingle +with the general population and their influence was thus extended. St. +Louis was unable to put down prostitution even in his own camp in the +East, and it existed outside his own tent. His legislation, however, was +frequently imitated by subsequent rulers of France, even to the middle of +the seventeenth century, always with the same ineffectual and worse +results. In 1560 an edict of Charles IX abolished brothels, but the number +of prostitutes was thereby increased rather than diminished, while many +new kinds of brothels appeared in unsuspected shapes and were more +dangerous than the more recognized brothels which had been +suppressed.[145] In spite of all such legislation, or because of it, there +has been no country in which prostitution has played a more conspicuous +part.[146] + +At Mantua, so great was the repulsion aroused by prostitutes that they +were compelled to buy in the markets any fruit or bread that had been +soiled by the mere touch of their hands. It was so also in Avignon in +1243. In Catalonia they could not sit at the same table as a lady or a +knight or kiss any honorable person.[147] Even in Venice, the paradise of +prostitution, numerous and severe regulations were passed against it, and +it was long before the Venetian rulers resigned themselves to its +toleration and regulation.[148] + +The last vigorous attempt to uproot prostitution in Europe was that of +Maria Theresa at Vienna in the middle of the eighteenth century. Although +of such recent date it may be mentioned here because it was mediaeval alike +in its conception and methods. Its object indeed, was to suppress not only +prostitution, but fornication generally, and the means adopted were fines, +imprisonment, whipping and torture. The supposed causes of fornication +were also dealt with severely; short dresses were prohibited; billiard +rooms and cafes were inspected; no waitresses were allowed, and when +discovered, a waitress was liable to be handcuffed and carried off by the +police. The Chastity Commission, under which these measures were +rigorously carried out, was, apparently, established in 1751 and was +quietly abolished by the Emperor Joseph II, in the early years of his +reign. It was the general opinion that this severe legislation was really +ineffective, and that it caused much more serious evils than it +cured.[149] It is certain in any case that, for a long time past, +illegitimacy has been more prevalent in Vienna than in any other great +European capital. + +Yet the attitude towards prostitutes was always mixed and inconsistent at +different places or different times, or even at the same time and place. +Dufour has aptly compared their position to that of the mediaeval Jews; +they were continually persecuted, ecclesiastically, civilly, and socially, +yet all classes were glad to have recourse to them and it was impossible +to do without them. In some countries, including England in the fourteenth +century, a special costume was imposed on prostitutes as a mark of +infamy.[150] Yet in many respects no infamy whatever attached to +prostitution. High placed officials could claim payment of their expenses +incurred in visiting prostitutes when traveling on public business. +Prostitution sometimes played an official part in festivities and +receptions accorded by great cities to royal guests, and the brothel might +form an important part of the city's hospitality. When the Emperor +Sigismund came to Ulm in 1434 the streets were illuminated at such times +as he or his suite desired to visit the common brothel. Brothels under +municipal protection are found in the thirteenth century in Augsburg, in +Vienna, in Hamburg.[151] In France the best known _abbayes_ of prostitutes +were those of Toulouse and Montpellier.[152] Durkheim is of opinion that +in the early middle ages, before this period, free love and marriage were +less severely differentiated. It was the rise of the middle class, he +considers, anxious to protect their wives and daughters, which led to a +regulated and publicly recognized attempt to direct debauchery into a +separate channel, brought under control.[153] These brothels constituted a +kind of public service, the directors of them being regarded almost as +public officials, bound to keep a certain number of prostitutes, to charge +according to a fixed tariff, and not to receive into their houses girls +belonging to the neighborhood. The institutions of this kind lasted for +three centuries. It was, in part, perhaps, the impetus of the new +Protestant movement, but mainly the terrible devastation produced by the +introduction of syphilis from America at the end of the fifteenth century +which, as Burckhardt and others have pointed out, led to the decline of +the mediaeval brothels.[154] + +The superior modern prostitute, the "courtesan" who had no connection with +the brothel, seems to have been the outcome of the Renaissance and made +her appearance in Italy at the end of the fifteenth century. "Courtesan" +or "cortegiana" meant a lady following the court, and the term began at +this time to be applied to a superior prostitute observing a certain +degree of decorum and restraint.[155] In the papal court of Alexander +Borgia the courtesan flourished even when her conduct was not altogether +dignified. Burchard, the faithful and unimpeachable chronicler of this +court, describes in his diary how, one evening, in October, 1501, the Pope +sent for fifty courtesans to be brought to his chamber; after supper, in +the presence of Caesar Borgia and his young sister Lucrezia, they danced +with the servitors and others who were present, at first clothed, +afterwards naked. The candlesticks with lighted candles were then placed +upon the floor and chestnuts thrown among them, to be gathered by the +women crawling between the candlesticks on their hands and feet. Finally a +number of prizes were brought forth to be awarded to those men "qui +pluries dictos meretrices carnaliter agnoscerent," the victor in the +contest being decided according to the judgment of the spectators.[156] +This scene, enacted publicly in the Apostolic palace and serenely set +forth by the impartial secretary, is at once a notable episode in the +history of modern prostitution and one of the most illuminating +illustrations we possess of the paganism of the Renaissance. + + Before the term "courtesan" came into repute, prostitutes were + even in Italy commonly called "sinners," _peccatrice_. The + change, Graf remarks in a very interesting study of the + Renaissance prostitute ("Una Cortigiana fra Mille," _Attraverso + il Cinquecento_, pp. 217-351), "reveals a profound alteration in + ideas and in life;" a term that suggested infamy gave place to + one that suggested approval, and even honor, for the courts of + the Renaissance period represented the finest culture of the + time. The best of these courtesans seem to have been not + altogether unworthy of the honor they received. We can detect + this in their letters. There is a chapter on the letters of + Renaissance prostitutes, especially those of Camilla de Pisa + which are marked by genuine passion, in Lothar Schmidt's + _Frauenbriefe der Renaissance_. The famous Imperia, called by a + Pope in the early years of the sixteenth century "nobilissimum + Romae scortum," knew Latin and could write Italian verse. Other + courtesans knew Italian and Latin poetry by heart, while they + were accomplished in music, dancing, and speech. We are reminded + of ancient Greece, and Graf, discussing how far the Renaissance + courtesans resembled the hetairae, finds a very considerable + likeness, especially in culture and influence, though with some + differences due to the antagonism between religion and + prostitution at the later period. + + The most distinguished figure in every respect among the + courtesans of that time was certainly Tullia D'Aragona. She was + probably the daughter of Cardinal D'Aragona (an illegitimate + scion of the Spanish royal family) by a Ferrarese courtesan who + became his mistress. Tullia has gained a high reputation by her + verse. Her best sonnet is addressed to a youth of twenty, whom + she passionately loved, but who did not return her love. Her + _Guerrino Meschino_, a translation from the Spanish, is a very + pure and chaste work. She was a woman of refined instincts and + aspirations, and once at least she abandoned her life of + prostitution. She was held in high esteem and respect. When, in + 1546, Cosimo, Duke of Florence, ordered all prostitutes to wear a + yellow veil or handkerchief as a public badge of their + profession, Tullia appealed to the Duchess, a Spanish lady of + high character, and received permission to dispense with this + badge on account of her "rara scienzia di poesia et filosofia." + She dedicated her _Rime_ to the Duchess. Tullia D'Aragona was + very beautiful, with yellow hair, and remarkably large and bright + eyes, which dominated those who came near her. She was of proud + bearing and inspired unusual respect (G. Biagi, "Un' Etera + Romana," _Nuova Antologia_, vol. iv, 1886, pp. 655-711; S. + Bongi, _Rivista critica della Letteratura Italiana_, 1886, IV, p. + 186). + + Tullia D'Aragona was clearly not a courtesan at heart. Perhaps + the most typical example of the Renaissance courtesan at her best + is furnished by Veronica Franco, born in 1546 at Venice, of + middle class family and in early life married to a doctor. Of her + also it has been said that, while by profession a prostitute, she + was by inclination a poet. But she appears to have been well + content with her profession, and never ashamed of it. Her life + and character have been studied by Arturo Graf, and more slightly + in a little book by Tassini. She was highly cultured, and knew + several languages; she also sang well and played on many + instruments. In one of her letters she advises a youth who was + madly in love with her that if he wishes to obtain her favors he + must leave off importuning her and devote himself tranquilly to + study. "You know well," she adds, "that all those who claim to be + able to gain my love, and who are extremely dear to me, are + strenuous in studious discipline.... If my fortune allowed it I + would spend all my time quietly in the academies of virtuous + men." The Diotimas and Aspasias of antiquity, as Graf comments, + would not have demanded so much of their lovers. In her poems it + is possible to trace some of her love histories, and she often + shows herself torn by jealousy at the thought that perhaps + another woman may approach her beloved. Once she fell in love + with an ecclesiastic, possibly a bishop, with whom she had no + relationships, and after a long absence, which healed her love, + she and he became sincere friends. Once she was visited by Henry + III of France, who took away her portrait, while on her part she + promised to dedicate a book to him; she so far fulfilled this as + to address some sonnets to him and a letter; "neither did the + King feel ashamed of his intimacy with the courtesan," remarks + Graf, "nor did she suspect that he would feel ashamed of it." + When Montaigne passed through Venice she sent him a little book + of hers, as we learn from his _Journal_, though they do not + appear to have met. Tintoret was one of her many distinguished + friends, and she was a strenuous advocate of the high qualities + of modern, as compared with ancient, art. Her friendships were + affectionate, and she even seems to have had various grand ladies + among her friends. She was, however, so far from being ashamed of + her profession of courtesan that in one of her poems she affirms + she has been taught by Apollo other arts besides those he is + usually regarded as teaching: + + "Cosi dolce e gustevole divento, + Quando mi trovo con persona in letto + Da cui amata e gradita mi sento." + + In a certain _catalogo_ of the prices of Venetian courtesans + Veronica is assigned only 2 scudi for her favors, while the + courtesan to whom the catalogue is dedicated is set down at 25 + scudi. Graf thinks there may be some mistake or malice here, and + an Italian gentleman of the time states that she required not + less than 50 scudi from those to whom she was willing to accord + what Montaigne called the "negotiation entiere." + + In regard to this matter it may be mentioned that, as stated by + Bandello, it was the custom for a Venetian prostitute to have six + or seven gentlemen at a time as her lovers. Each was entitled to + come to sup and sleep with her on one night of the week, leaving + her days free. They paid her so much per month, but she always + definitely reserved the right to receive a stranger passing + through Venice, if she wished, changing the time of her + appointment with her lover for the night. The high and special + prices which we find recorded are, of course, those demanded from + the casual distinguished stranger who came to Venice as, once in + the sixteenth century, Montaigne came. + + In 1580 (when not more than thirty-four) Veronica confessed to + the Holy Office that she had had six children. In the same year + she formed the design of founding a home, which should not be a + monastery, where prostitutes who wished to abandon their mode of + life could find a refuge with their children, if they had any. + This seems to have led to the establishment of a Casa del + Soccorso. In 1591 she died of fever, reconciled with God and + blessed by many unfortunates. She had a good heart and a sound + intellect, and was the last of the great Renaissance courtesans + who revived Greek hetairism (Graf, _Attraverso il Cinquecento_, + pp. 217-351). Even in sixteenth century Venice, however, it will + be seen, Veronica Franco seems to have been not altogether at + peace in the career of a courtesan. She was clearly not adapted + for ordinary marriage, yet under the most favorable conditions + that the modern world has ever offered it may still be doubted + whether a prostitute's career can offer complete satisfaction to + a woman of large heart and brain. + + Ninon de Lenclos, who is frequently called "the last of the great + courtesans," may seem an exception to the general rule as to the + inability of a woman of good heart, high character, and fine + intelligence to find satisfaction in a prostitute's life. But it + is a total misconception alike of Ninon de Lenclos's temperament + and her career to regard her as in any true sense a prostitute at + all. A knowledge of even the barest outlines of her life ought to + prevent such a mistake. Born early in the seventeenth century, + she was of good family on both sides; her mother was a woman of + severe life, but her father, a gentleman of Touraine, inspired + her with his own Epicurean philosophy as well as his love of + music. She was extremely well educated. At the age of sixteen or + seventeen she had her first lover, the noble and valiant Gaspard + de Coligny; he was followed for half a century by a long + succession of other lovers, sometimes more than one at a time; + three years was the longest period during which she was faithful + to one lover. Her attractions lasted so long that, it is said, + three generations of Sevignes were among her lovers. Tallemant + des Reaux enables us to study in detail her _liaisons_. + + It is not, however, the abundance of lovers which makes a woman a + prostitute, but the nature of her relationships with them. + Sainte-Beuve, in an otherwise admirable study of Ninon de Lenclos + (_Causeries du Lundi_, vol. iv), seems to reckon her among the + courtesans. But no woman is a prostitute unless she uses men as a + source of pecuniary gain. Not only is there no evidence that this + was the case with Ninon, but all the evidence excludes such a + relationship. "It required much skill," said Voltaire, "and a + great deal of love on her part, to induce her to accept + presents." Tallemant, indeed, says that she sometimes took money + from her lovers, but this statement probably involves nothing + beyond what is contained in Voltaire's remark, and, in any case, + Tallemant's gossip, though usually well-informed, was not always + reliable. All are agreed as to her extreme disinterestedness. + + When we hear precisely of Ninon de Lenclos in connection with + money, it is not as receiving a gift, but only as repaying a debt + to an old lover, or restoring a large sum left with her for safe + keeping when the owner was exiled. Such incidents are far from + suggesting the professional prostitute of any age; they are + rather the relationships which might exist between men friends. + Ninon de Lenclos's character was in many respects far from + perfect, but she combined many masculine virtues, and especially + probity, with a temperament which, on the whole, was certainly + feminine; she hated hypocrisy, and she was never influenced by + pecuniary considerations. She was, moreover, never reckless, but + always retained a certain self-restraint and temperance, even in + eating and drinking, and, we are told, she never drank wine. She + was, as Sainte-Beuve has remarked, the first to realize that + there must be the same virtues for men and for women, and that it + is absurd to reduce all feminine virtues to one. "Our sex has + been burdened with all the frivolities," she wrote, "and men have + reserved to themselves the essential qualities: I have made + myself a man." She sometimes dressed as a man when riding (see, + e.g., _Correspondence Authentique_ of Ninon de Lenclos, with a + good introduction by Emile Colombey). Consciously or not, she + represented a new feminine idea at a period when--as we may see + in many forgotten novels written by the women of that time--ideas + were beginning to emerge in the feminine sphere. She was the + first, and doubtless, from one point of view, the most extreme + representative of a small and distinguished group of French women + among whom Georges Sand is the finest personality. + + Thus it is idle to attempt to adorn the history of prostitution + with the name of Ninon de Lenclos. A debauched old prostitute + would never, like Ninon towards the end of her long life, have + been able to retain or to conquer the affection and the esteem + of many of the best men and women of her time; even to the + austere Saint-Simon it seemed that there reigned in her little + court a decorum which the greatest princesses cannot achieve. She + was not a prostitute, but a woman of unique personality with a + little streak of genius in it. That she was inimitable we need + not perhaps greatly regret. In her old age, in 1699, her old + friend and former lover, Saint-Evremond, wrote to her, with only + a little exaggeration, that there were few princesses and few + saints who would not leave their courts and their cloisters to + change places with her. "If I had known beforehand what my life + would be I would have hanged myself," was her oft-quoted answer. + It is, indeed, a solitary phrase that slips in, perhaps as the + expression of a momentary mood; one may make too much of it. More + truly characteristic is the fine saying in which her Epicurean + philosophy seems to stretch out towards Nietzsche: "La joie de + l'esprit en marque la force." + +The frank acceptance of prostitution by the spiritual or even the temporal +power has since the Renaissance become more and more exceptional. The +opposite extreme of attempting to uproot prostitution has also in practice +been altogether abandoned. Sporadic attempts have indeed been made, here +and there, to put down prostitution with a strong hand even in quite +modern times. It is now, however, realized that in such a case the remedy +is worse than the disease. + + In 1860 a Mayor of Portsmouth felt it his duty to attempt to + suppress prostitution. "In the early part of his mayoralty," + according to a witness before the Select Committee on the + Contagious Diseases Acts (p. 393), "there was an order passed + that every beerhouse-keeper and licensed victualer in the borough + known to harbor these women would be dealt with, and probably + lose his license. On a given day about three hundred or four + hundred of these forlorn outcasts were bundled wholesale into the + streets, and they formed up in a large body, many of them with + only a shift and a petticoat on, and with a lot of drunken men + and boys with a fife and fiddle they paraded the streets for + several days. They marched in a body to the workhouse, but for + many reasons they were refused admittance.... These women + wandered about for two or three days shelterless, and it was felt + that the remedy was very much worse than the disease, and the + women were allowed to go back to their former places." + + Similar experiments have been made even more recently in America. + "In Pittsburg, Pennsylvania, in 1891, the houses of prostitutes + were closed, the inmates turned out upon the streets, and were + refused lodging and even food by the citizens of that place. A + wave of popular remonstrance, all over the country, at the + outrage on humanity, created a reaction which resulted in a last + condition by no means better than the first." In the same year + also a similar incident occurred in New York with the same + unfortunate results (Isidore Dyer, "The Municipal Control of + Prostitution in the United States," report presented to the + Brussels International Conference in 1899). + +There grew up instead the tendency to regulate prostitution, to give it a +semi-official toleration which enabled the authorities to exercise a +control over it, and to guard as far as possible against its evil by +medical and police inspection. The new brothel system differed from the +ancient mediaeval houses of prostitution in important respects; it involved +a routine of medical inspection and it endeavored to suppress any rivalry +by unlicensed prostitutes outside. Bernard Mandeville, the author of the +_Fable of the Bees_, and an acute thinker, was a pioneer in the advocacy +of this system. In 1724, in his _Modest Defense of Publick Stews_, he +argues that "the encouraging of public whoring will not only prevent most +of the mischievous effects of this vice, but even lessen the quantity of +whoring in general, and reduce it to the narrowest bounds which it can +possibly be contained in." He proposed to discourage private prostitution +by giving special privileges and immunities to brothels by Act of +Parliament. His scheme involved the erection of one hundred brothels in a +special quarter of the city, to contain two thousand prostitutes and one +hundred matrons of ability and experience with physicians and surgeons, as +well as commissioners to oversee the whole. Mandeville was regarded merely +as a cynic or worse, and his scheme was ignored or treated with contempt. +It was left to the genius of Napoleon, eighty years later, to establish +the system of "maisons de tolerance," which had so great an influence over +modern European practice during a large part of the last century and even +still in its numerous survivals forms the subject of widely divergent +opinions. + +On the whole, however, it must be said that the system of registering, +examining, and regularizing prostitutes now belongs to the past. Many +great battles have been fought over this question; the most important is +that which raged for many years in England over the Contagious Diseases +Acts, and is embodied in the 600 pages of a Report by a Select Committee +on these Acts issued in 1882. The majority of the members of the Committee +reported favorably to the Acts which were, notwithstanding, repealed in +1886, since which date no serious attempt has been made in England to +establish them again. + +At the present time, although the old system still stands in many +countries with the inert stolidity of established institutions, it no +longer commands general approval. As Paul and Victor Margueritte have +truly stated, in the course of an acute examination of the phenomena of +state-regulated prostitution as found in Paris, the system is "barbarous +to start with and almost inefficacious as well." The expert is every day +more clearly demonstrating its inefficacy while the psychologist and the +sociologist are constantly becoming more convinced that it is barbarous. + +It can indeed by no means be said that any unanimity has been attained. It +is obviously so urgently necessary to combat the flood of disease and +misery which proceeds directly from the spread of syphilis and gonorrhoea, +and indirectly from the prostitution which is the chief propagator of +these diseases, that we cannot be surprised that many should eagerly catch +at any system which seems to promise a palliation of the evils. At the +present time, however, it is those best acquainted with the operation of +the system of control who have most clearly realized that the supposed +palliation is for the most part illusory,[157] and in any case attained at +the cost of the artificial production of other evils. In France, where the +system of the registration and control of prostitutes has been +established for over a century,[158] and where consequently its +advantages, if such there are, should be clearly realized, it meets with +almost impassioned opposition from able men belonging to every section of +the community. In Germany the opposition to regularized control has long +been led by well-equipped experts, headed by Blaschko of Berlin. Precisely +the same conclusions are being reached in America. Gottheil, of New York, +finds that the municipal control of prostitution is "neither successful +nor desirable." Heidingsfeld concludes that the regulation and control +system in force in Cincinnati has done little good and much harm; under +the system among the private patients in his own clinic the proportion of +cases of both syphilis and gonorrhoea has increased; "suppression of +prostitutes is impossible and control is impracticable."[159] + + It is in Germany that the attempt to regulate prostitution still + remains most persistent, with results that in Germany itself are + regarded as unfortunate. Thus the German law inflicts a penalty + on householders who permit illegitimate sexual intercourse in + their houses. This is meant to strike the unlicensed prostitute, + but it really encourages prostitution, for a decent youth and + girl who decide to form a relationship which later may develop + into marriage, and which is not illegal (for extra-marital sexual + intercourse _per se_ is not in Germany, as it is by the + antiquated laws of several American States, a punishable + offense), are subjected to so much trouble and annoyance by the + suspicious police that it is much easier for the girl to become a + prostitute and put herself under the protection of the police. + The law was largely directed against those who live on the + profits of prostitution. But in practice it works out + differently. The prostitute simply has to pay extravagantly high + rents, so that her landlord really lives on the fruits of her + trade, while she has to carry on her business with increased + activity and on a larger scale in order to cover her heavy + expenses (P. Hausmeister, "Zur Analyse der Prostitution," + _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, vol. ii, 1907, p. 294). + + In Italy, opinion on this matter is much divided. The regulation + of prostitution has been successively adopted, abandoned, and + readopted. In Switzerland, the land of governmental experiments, + various plans are tried in different cantons. In some there is + no attempt to interfere with prostitution, except under special + circumstances; in others all prostitution, and even fornication + generally, is punishable; in Geneva only native prostitutes are + permitted to practice; in Zurich, since 1897, prostitution is + prohibited, but care is taken to put no difficulties in the path + of free sexual relationships which are not for gain. With these + different regulations, morals in Switzerland generally are said + to be much on the same level as elsewhere (Moreau-Christophe, _Du + Probleme de la Misere_, vol. iii, p. 259). The same conclusion + holds good of London. A disinterested observer, Felix Remo (_La + Vie Galante en Angleterre_, 1888, p. 237), concluded that, + notwithstanding its free trade in prostitution, its alcoholic + excesses, its vices of all kinds, "London is one of the most + moral capitals in Europe." The movement towards freedom in this + matter has been evidenced in recent years by the abandonment of + the system of regulation by Denmark in 1906. + +Even the most ardent advocates of the registration of prostitutes +recognize that not only is the tendency of civilization opposed rather +than favorable to the system, but that in the numerous countries where the +system persists registered prostitutes are losing ground in the struggle +against clandestine prostitutes. Even in France, the classic land of +police-controlled prostitutes, the "maisons de tolerance" have long been +steadily decreasing in number, by no means because prostitution is +decreasing but because low-class _brasseries_ and small _cafes-chantants_, +which are really unlicensed brothels, are taking their place.[160] + +The wholesale regularization of prostitution in civilized centres is +nowadays, indeed, advocated by few, if any, of the authorities who belong +to the newer school. It is at most claimed as desirable in certain places +under special circumstances.[161] Even those who would still be glad to +see prostitution thoroughly in the control of the police now recognize +that experience shows this to be impossible. As many girls begin their +career as prostitutes at a very early age, a sound system of regulation +should be prepared to enroll as permanent prostitutes even girls who are +little more than children. That, however, is a logical conclusion against +which the moral sense, and even the common sense, of a community +instinctively revolts. In Paris girls may not be inscribed as prostitutes +until they have reached the age of sixteen and some consider even that age +too low.[162] Moreover, whenever she becomes diseased, or grows tired of +her position, the registered woman may always slip out of the hands of the +police and establish herself elsewhere as a clandestine prostitute. Every +rigid attempt to keep prostitution within the police ring leads to +offensive interference with the actions and the freedom of respectable +women which cannot fail to be intolerable in any free community. Even in a +city like London, where prostitution is relatively free, the supervision +of the police has led to scandalous police charges against women who have +done nothing whatever which should legitimately arouse suspicion of their +behavior. The escape of the infected woman from the police cordon has, it +is obvious, an effect in raising the apparent level of health of +registered women, and the police statistics are still further fallaciously +improved by the fact that the inmates of brothels are older on the average +than clandestine prostitutes and have become immune to disease.[163] These +facts are now becoming fairly obvious and well recognized. The state +regulation of prostitution is undesirable, on moral grounds for the +oft-emphasized reason that it is only applied to one sex, and on practical +grounds because it is ineffective. Society allows the police to harass the +prostitute with petty persecutions under the guise of charges of +"solicitation," "disorderly conduct," etc., but it is no longer convinced +that she ought to be under the absolute control of the police. + +The problem of prostitution, when we look at it narrowly, seems to be in +the same position to-day as at any time in the course of the past three +thousand years. In order, however, to comprehend the real significance of +prostitution, and to attain a reasonable attitude towards it, we must look +at it from a broader point of view; we must consider not only its +evolution and history, but its causes and its relation to the wider +aspects of modern social life. When we thus view the problem from a +broader standpoint we shall find that there is no conflict between the +claims of ethics and those of social hygiene, and that the cooerdinated +activity of both is involved in the progressive refinement and +purification of civilized sexual relationships. + + +_III. The Causes of Prostitution._ + +The history of the rise and development of prostitution enables us to see +that prostitution is not an accident of our marriage system, but an +essential constituent which appears concurrently with its other essential +constituents. The gradual development of the family on a patriarchal and +largely monogamic basis rendered it more and more difficult for a woman to +dispose of her own person. She belongs in the first place to her father, +whose interest it was to guard her carefully until a husband appeared who +could afford to purchase her. In the enhancement of her value the new idea +of the market value of virginity gradually developed, and where a "virgin" +had previously meant a woman who was free to do as she would with her own +body its meaning was now reversed and it came to mean a woman who was +precluded from having intercourse with men. When she was transferred from +her father to a husband, she was still guarded with the same care; +husband and father alike found their interest in preserving their women +from unmarried men. The situation thus produced resulted in the existence +of a large body of young men who were not yet rich enough to obtain wives, +and a large number of young women, not yet chosen as wives, and many of +whom could never expect to become wives. At such a point in social +evolution prostitution is clearly inevitable; it is not so much the +indispensable concomitant of marriage as an essential part of the whole +system. Some of the superfluous or neglected women, utilizing their money +value and perhaps at the same time reviving traditions of an earlier +freedom, find their social function in selling their favors to gratify the +temporary desires of the men who have not yet been able to acquire wives. +Thus every link in the chain of the marriage system is firmly welded and +the complete circle formed. + +But while the history of the rise and development of prostitution shows us +how indestructible and essential an element prostitution is of the +marriage system which has long prevailed in Europe--under very varied +racial, political, social, and religious conditions--it yet fails to +supply us in every respect with the data necessary to reach a definite +attitude towards prostitution to-day. In order to understand the place of +prostitution in our existing system, it is necessary that we should +analyze the chief factors of prostitution. We may most conveniently learn +to understand these if we consider prostitution, in order, under four +aspects. These are: (1) _economic_ necessity; (2) _biological_ +predisposition; (3) _moral_ advantages; and (4) what may be called its +_civilizational_ value. + +While these four factors of prostitution seem to me those that here +chiefly concern us, it is scarcely necessary to point out that many other +causes contribute to produce and modify prostitution. Prostitutes +themselves often seek to lead other girls to adopt the same paths; +recruits must be found for brothels, whence we have the "white slave +trade," which is now being energetically combated in many parts of the +world; while all the forms of seduction towards this life are favored and +often predisposed to by alcoholism. It will generally be found that +several causes have combined to push a girl into the career of +prostitution. + + The ways in which various factors of environment and suggestion + unite to lead a girl into the paths of prostitution are indicated + in the following statement in which a correspondent has set forth + his own conclusions on this matter as a man of the world: "I have + had a somewhat varied experience among loose women, and can say, + without hesitation, that not more than 1 per cent, of the women I + have known could be regarded as educated. This indicates that + almost invariably they are of humble origin, and the terrible + cases of overcrowding that are daily brought to light suggest + that at very early ages the sense of modesty becomes extinct, and + long before puberty a familiarity with things sexual takes place. + As soon as they are old enough these girls are seduced by their + sweethearts; the familiarity with which they regard sexual + matters removes the restraint which surrounds a girl whose early + life has been spent in decent surroundings. Later they go to work + in factories and shops; if pretty and attractive, they consort + with managers and foremen. Then the love of finery, which forms + so large a part of the feminine character, tempts the girl to + become the 'kept' woman of some man of means. A remarkable thing + in this connection is the fact that they rarely enjoy excitement + with their protectors, preferring rather the coarser embraces of + some man nearer their own station in life, very often a soldier. + I have not known many women who were seduced and deserted, though + this is a fiction much affected by prostitutes. Barmaids supply a + considerable number to the ranks of prostitution, largely on + account of their addiction to drink; drunkenness invariably leads + to laxness of moral restraint in women. Another potent factor in + the production of prostitutes lies in the flare of finery + flaunted by some friend who has adopted the life. A girl, working + hard to live, sees some friend, perhaps making a call in the + street where the hard-working girl lives, clothed in finery, + while she herself can hardly get enough to eat. She has a + conversation with her finely-clad friend who tells her how easily + she can earn money, explaining what a vital asset the sexual + organs are, and soon another one is added to the ranks." + + There is some interest in considering the reasons assigned for + prostitutes entering their career. In some countries this has + been estimated by those who come closely into official or other + contact with prostitutes. In other countries, it is the rule for + girls, before they are registered as prostitutes, to state the + reasons for which they desire to enter the career. + + Parent-Duchatelet, whose work on prostitutes in Paris is still an + authority, presented the first estimate of this kind. He found + that of over five thousand prostitutes, 1441 were influenced by + poverty, 1425 by seduction of lovers who had abandoned them, + 1255 by the loss of parents from death or other cause. By such an + estimate, nearly the whole number are accounted for by + wretchedness, that is by economic causes, alone + (Parent-Duchatelet, _De la Prostitution_, 1857, vol. i, p. 107). + + In Brussels during a period of twenty years (1865-1884) 3505 + women were inscribed as prostitutes. The causes they assigned for + desiring to take to this career present a different picture from + that shown by Parent-Duchatelet, but perhaps a more reliable one, + although there are some marked and curious discrepancies. Out of + the 3505, 1523 explained that extreme poverty was the cause of + their degradation; 1118 frankly confessed that their sexual + passions were the cause; 420 attributed their fall to evil + company; 316 said they were disgusted and weary of their work, + because the toil was so arduous and the pay so small; 101 had + been abandoned by their lovers; 10 had quarrelled with their + parents; 7 were abandoned by their husbands; 4 did not agree with + their guardians; 3 had family quarrels; 2 were compelled to + prostitute themselves by their husbands, and 1 by her parents + (_Lancet_, June 28, 1890, p. 1442). + + In London, Merrick found that of 16,022 prostitutes who passed + through his hands during the years he was chaplain at Millbank + prison, 5061 voluntarily left home or situation for "a life of + pleasure;" 3363 assigned poverty as the cause; 3154 were + "seduced" and drifted on to the street; 1636 were betrayed by + promises of marriage and abandoned by lover and relations. On the + whole, Merrick states, 4790, or nearly one-third of the whole + number, may be said to owe the adoption of their career directly + to men, 11,232 to other causes. He adds that of those pleading + poverty a large number were indolent and incapable (G.P. Merrick, + _Work Among the Fallen_, p. 38). + + Logan, an English city missionary with an extensive acquaintance + with prostitutes, divided them into the following groups: (1) + One-fourth of the girls are servants, especially in public + houses, beer shops, etc., and thus led into the life; (2) + one-fourth come from factories, etc.; (3) nearly one-fourth are + recruited by procuresses who visit country towns, markets, etc.; + (4) a final group includes, on the one hand, those who are + induced to become prostitutes by destitution, or indolence, or a + bad temper, which unfits them for ordinary avocations, and, on + the other hand, those who have been seduced by a false promise of + marriage (W. Logan, _The Great Social Evil_, 1871, p. 53). + + In America Sanger has reported the results of inquiries made of + two thousand New York prostitutes as to the causes which induced + them to take up their avocation: + + Destitution 525 + Inclination 513 + Seduced and abandoned 258 + Drink and desire for drink 181 + Ill-treatment by parents, relations, or husbands 164 + As an easy life 124 + Bad company 84 + Persuaded by prostitutes 71 + Too idle to work 29 + Violated 27 + Seduced on emigrant ship 16 + Seduced in emigrant boarding homes 8 + ----- + 2,000 + + (Sanger, _History of Prostitution_, p. 488.) + + In America, again, more recently, Professor Woods Hutchinson put + himself into communication with some thirty representative men in + various great metropolitan centres, and thus summarizes the + answers as regards the etiology of prostitution: + + Per cent. + + Love of display, luxury and idleness 42.1 + Bad family surroundings 23.8 + Seduction in which they were innocent victims 11.3 + Lack of employment 9.4 + Heredity 7.8 + Primary sexual appetite 5.6 + + (Woods Hutchinson, "The Economics of Prostitution," _American + Gynaecologic and Obstetric Journal_, September, 1895; _Id., The + Gospel According to Darwin_, p. 194.) + + In Italy, in 1881, among 10,422 inscribed prostitutes from the + age of seventeen upwards, the causes of prostitution were + classified as follows: + + Vice and depravity 2,752 + Death of parents, husband, etc. 2,139 + Seduction by lover 1,653 + Seduction by employer 927 + Abandoned by parents, husband, etc. 794 + Love of luxury 698 + Incitement by lover or other persons outside + family 666 + Incitement by parents or husband 400 + To support parents or children 393 + + (Ferriani, _Minorenni Delinquenti_, p. 193.) The reasons + assigned by Russian prostitutes for taking up their career are + (according to Federow) as follows: + + 38.5 per cent. insufficient wages. + 21. per cent. desire for amusement. + 14. per cent. loss of place. + 9.5 per cent. persuasion by women friends. + 6.5 per cent. loss of habit of work. + 5.5 per cent. chagrin, and to punish lover. + .5 per cent. drunkenness. + + (Summarized in _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Nov. 15, + 1901.) + +1. _The Economic Causation of Prostitution_.--Writers on prostitution +frequently assert that economic conditions lie at the root of prostitution +and that its chief cause is poverty, while prostitutes themselves often +declare that the difficulty of earning a livelihood in other ways was a +main cause in inducing them to adopt this career. "Of all the causes of +prostitution," Parent-Duchatelet wrote a century ago, "particularly in +Paris, and probably in all large cities, none is more active than lack of +work and the misery which is the inevitable result of insufficient wages." +In England, also, to a large extent, Sherwell states, "morals fluctuate +with trade."[164] It is equally so in Berlin where the number of +registered prostitutes increases during bad years.[165] It is so also in +America. It is the same in Japan; "the cause of causes is poverty."[166] + +Thus the broad and general statement that prostitution is largely or +mainly an economic phenomenon, due to the low wages of women or to sudden +depressions in trade, is everywhere made by investigators. It must, +however, be added that these general statements are considerably qualified +in the light of the detailed investigations made by careful inquirers. +Thus Stroehmberg, who minutely investigated 462 prostitutes, found that +only one assigned destitution as the reason for adopting her career, and +on investigation this was found to be an impudent lie.[167] Hammer found +that of ninety registered German prostitutes not one had entered on the +career out of want or to support a child, while some went on the street +while in the possession of money, or without wishing to be paid.[168] +Pastor Buschmann, of the Teltow Magdalene Home in Berlin, finds that it is +not want but indifference to moral considerations which leads girls to +become prostitutes. In Germany, before a girl is put on the police +register, due care is always taken to give her a chance of entering a Home +and getting work; in Berlin, in the course of ten years, only two +girls--out of thousands--were willing to take advantage of this +opportunity. The difficulty experienced by English Rescue Homes in finding +girls who are willing to be "rescued" is notorious. The same difficulty is +found in other cities, even where entirely different conditions prevail; +thus it is found in Madrid, according to Bernaldo de Quiros and Llanas +Aguilaniedo, that the prostitutes who enter the Homes, notwithstanding all +the devotion of the nuns, on leaving at once return to their old life. +While the economic factor in prostitution undoubtedly exists, the undue +frequency and emphasis with which it is put forward and accepted is +clearly due, in part to ignorance of the real facts, in part to the fact +that such an assumption appeals to those whose weakness it is to explain +all social phenomena by economic causes, and in part to its obvious +plausibility.[169] + +Prostitutes are mainly recruited from the ranks of factory girls, domestic +servants, shop girls, and waitresses. In some of these occupations it is +difficult to obtain employment all the year round. In this way many +milliners, dressmakers and tailoresses become prostitutes when business is +slack, and return to business when the season begins. Sometimes the +regular work of the day is supplemented concurrently by prostitution in +the street in the evening. It is said, possibly with some truth, that +amateur prostitution of this kind is extremely prevalent in England, as it +is not checked by the precautions which, in countries where prostitution +is regulated, the clandestine prostitute must adopt in order to avoid +registration. Certain public lavatories and dressing-rooms in central +London are said to be used by the girls for putting on, and finally +washing off before going home, the customary paint.[170] It is certain +that in England a large proportion of parents belonging to the working and +even lower middle class ranks are unacquainted with the nature of the +lives led by their own daughters. It must be added, also, that +occasionally this conduct of the daughter is winked at or encouraged by +the parents; thus a correspondent writes that he "knows some towns in +England where prostitution is not regarded as anything disgraceful, and +can remember many cases where the mother's house has been used by the +daughter with the mother's knowledge." + +Acton, in a well-informed book on London prostitution, written in the +middle of the last century, said that prostitution is "a transitory stage, +through which an untold number of British women are ever on their +passage."[171] This statement was strenuously denied at the time by many +earnest moralists who refused to admit that it was possible for a woman +who had sunk into so deep a pit of degradation ever to climb out again, +respectably safe and sound. Yet it is certainly true as regards a +considerable proportion of women, not only in England, but in other +countries also. Thus Parent-Duchatelet, the greatest authority on French +prostitution, stated that "prostitution is for the majority only a +transitory stage; it is quitted usually during the first year; very few +prostitutes continue until extinction." It is difficult, however, to +ascertain precisely of how large a proportion this is true; there are no +data which would serve as a basis for exact estimation,[172] and it is +impossible to expect that respectable married women would admit that they +had ever been "on the streets"; they would not, perhaps, always admit it +even to themselves. + + The following case, though noted down over twenty years ago, is + fairly typical of a certain class, among the lower ranks of + prostitution, in which the economic factor counts for much, but + in which we ought not too hastily to assume that it is the sole + factor. + + Widow, aged thirty, with two children. Works in an umbrella + manufactory in the East End of London, earning eighteen shillings + a week by hard work, and increasing her income by occasionally + going out on the streets in the evenings. She haunts a quiet side + street which is one of the approaches to a large city railway + terminus. She is a comfortable, almost matronly-looking woman, + quietly dressed in a way that is only noticeable from the skirts + being rather short. If spoken to she may remark that she is + "waiting for a lady friend," talks in an affected way about the + weather, and parenthetically introduces her offers. She will + either lead a man into one of the silent neighboring lanes filled + with warehouses, or will take him home with her. She is willing + to accept any sum the man may be willing or able to give; + occasionally it is a sovereign, sometimes it is only a sixpence; + on an average she earns a few shillings in an evening. She had + only been in London for ten months; before that she lived in + Newcastle. She did not go on the streets there; "circumstances + alter cases," she sagely remarks. Though not speaking well of + the police, she says they do not interfere with her as they do + with some of the girls. She never gives them money, but hints + that it is sometimes necessary to gratify their desires in order + to keep on good terms with them. + +It must always be remembered, for it is sometimes forgotten by socialists +and social reformers, that while the pressure of poverty exerts a markedly +modifying influence on prostitution, in that it increases the ranks of the +women who thereby seek a livelihood and may thus be properly regarded as a +factor of prostitution, no practicable raising of the rate of women's +wages could possibly serve, directly and alone, to abolish prostitution. +De Molinari, an economist, after remarking that "prostitution is an +industry" and that if other competing industries can offer women +sufficiently high pecuniary inducements they will not be so frequently +attracted to prostitution, proceeds to point out that that by no means +settles the question. "Like every other industry prostitution is governed +by the demand of the need to which it responds. As long as that need and +that demand persist, they will provoke an offer. It is the need and the +demand that we must act on, and perhaps science will furnish us the means +to do so."[173] In what way Molinari expects science to diminish the +demand for prostitutes, however, is not clearly brought out. + +Not only have we to admit that no practicable rise in the rate of wages +paid to women in ordinary industries can possibly compete with the wages +which fairly attractive women of quite ordinary ability can earn by +prostitution,[174] but we have also to realize that a rise in general +prosperity--which alone can render a rise of women's wages healthy and +normal--involves a rise in the wages of prostitution, and an increase in +the number of prostitutes. So that if good wages is to be regarded as the +antagonist of prostitution, we can only say that it more than gives back +with one hand what it takes with the other. To so marked a degree is this +the case that Despres in a detailed moral and demographic study of the +distribution of prostitution in France comes to the conclusion that we +must reverse the ancient doctrine that "poverty engenders prostitution" +since prostitution regularly increases with wealth,[175] and as a +departement rises in wealth and prosperity, so the number both of its +inscribed and its free prostitutes rises also. There is indeed a fallacy +here, for while it is true, as Despres argues, that wealth demands +prostitution, it is also true that a wealthy community involves the +extreme of poverty as well as of riches and that it is among the poorer +elements that prostitution chiefly finds its recruits. The ancient dictum +that "poverty engenders prostitution" still stands, but it is complicated +and qualified by the complex conditions of civilization. Bonger, in his +able discussion of the economic side of the question, has realized the +wide and deep basis of prostitution when he reaches the conclusion that it +is "on the one hand the inevitable complement of the existing legal +monogamy, and on the other hand the result of the bad conditions in which +many young girls grow up, the result of the physical and psychical +wretchedness in which the women of the people live, and the consequence +also of the inferior position of women in our actual society."[176] A +narrowly economic consideration of prostitution can by no means bring us +to the root of the matter. + + One circumstance alone should have sufficed to indicate that the + inability of many women to secure "a living wage," is far from + being the most fundamental cause of prostitution: a large + proportion of prostitutes come from the ranks of domestic + service. Of all the great groups of female workers, domestic + servants are the freest from economic anxieties; they do not pay + for food or for lodging; they often live as well as their + mistresses, and in a large proportion of cases they have fewer + money anxieties than their mistresses. Moreover, they supply an + almost universal demand, so that there is never any need for even + very moderately competent servants to be in want of work. They + constitute, it is true, a very large body which could not fail to + supply a certain contingent of recruits to prostitution. But when + we see that domestic service is the chief reservoir from which + prostitutes are drawn, it should be clear that the craving for + food and shelter is by no means the chief cause of prostitution. + + It may be added that, although the significance of this + predominance of servants among prostitutes is seldom realized by + those who fancy that to remove poverty is to abolish + prostitution, it has not been ignored by the more thoughtful + students of social questions. Thus Sherwell, while pointing out + truly that, to a large extent, "morals fluctuate with trade," + adds that, against the importance of the economic factor, it is a + suggestive and in every way impressive fact that the majority of + the girls who frequent the West End of London (88 per cent., + according to the Salvation Army's Registers) are drawn from + domestic service where the economic struggle is not severely felt + (Arthur Sherwell, _Life in West London_, Ch. V, "Prostitution"). + + It is at the same time worthy of note that by the conditions of + their lives servants, more than any other class, resemble + prostitutes (Bernaldo de Quiros and Llanas Aguilaniedo have + pointed this out in _La Mala Vida en Madrid_, p. 240). Like + prostitutes, they are a class of women apart; they are not + entitled to the considerations and the little courtesies usually + paid to other women; in some countries they are even registered, + like prostitutes; it is scarcely surprising that when they suffer + from so many of the disadvantages of the prostitute, they should + sometimes desire to possess also some of her advantages. Lily + Braun (_Frauenfrage_, pp. 389 et seq.) has set forth in detail + these unfavorable conditions of domestic labor as they bear on + the tendency of servant-girls to become prostitutes. R. de + Ryckere, in his important work, _La Servante Criminelle_ (1907, + pp. 460 et seq.; cf., the same author's article, "La Criminalite + Ancillaire," _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, July and + December, 1906), has studied the psychology of the servant-girl. + He finds that she is specially marked by lack of foresight, + vanity, lack of invention, tendency to imitation, and mobility of + mind. These are characters which ally her to the prostitute. De + Ryckere estimates the proportion of former servants among + prostitutes generally as fifty per cent., and adds that what is + called the "white slavery" here finds its most complacent and + docile victims. He remarks, however, that the servant prostitute + is, on the whole, not so much immoral as non-moral. + + In Paris Parent-Duchatelet found that, in proportion to their + number, servants furnished the largest contingent to + prostitution, and his editors also found that they head the list + (Parent-Duchatelet, edition 1857, vol. i, p. 83). Among + clandestine prostitutes at Paris, Commenge has more recently + found that former servants constitute forty per cent. In Bordeaux + Jeannel (_De le Prostitution Publique_, p. 102) also found that + in 1860 forty per cent, of prostitutes had been servants, + seamstresses coming next with thirty-seven per cent. + + In Germany and Austria it has long been recognized that domestic + service furnishes the chief number of recruits to prostitution. + Lippert, in Germany, and Gross-Hoffinger, in Austria, pointed out + this predominance of maid-servants and its significance before + the middle of the nineteenth century, and more recently Blaschko + has stated ("Hygiene der Syphilis" in Weyl's _Handbuch der + Hygiene_, Bd. ii, p. 40) that among Berlin prostitutes in 1898 + maid-servants stand at the head with fifty-one per cent. + Baumgarten has stated that in Vienna the proportion of servants + is fifty-eight per cent. + + In England, according to the Report of a Select Committee of the + Lords on the laws for the protection of children, sixty per cent, + of prostitutes have been servants. F. Remo, in his _Vie Galante + en Angleterre_, states the proportion as eighty per cent. It + would appear to be even higher as regards the West End of London. + Taking London as a whole the extensive statistics of Merrick + (_Work Among the Fallen_), chaplain of the Millbank Prison, + showed that out of 14,790 prostitutes, 5823, or about forty per + cent., had previously been servants, laundresses coming next, and + then dressmakers; classifying his data somewhat more summarily + and roughly, Merrick found that the proportion of servants was + fifty-three per cent. + + In America, among two thousand prostitutes, Sanger states that + forty-three per cent, had been servants, dressmakers coming next, + but at a long interval, with six per cent. (Sanger, _History of + Prostitution_, p. 524). Among Philadelphia prostitutes, Goodchild + states that "domestics are probably in largest proportion," + although some recruits may be found from almost any occupation. + + It is the same in other countries. In Italy, according to Tammeo + (_La Prostituzione_, p. 100), servants come first among + prostitutes with a proportion of twenty-eight per cent., followed + by the group of dressmakers, tailoresses and milliners, seventeen + per cent. In Sardinia, A Mantegazza states, most prostitutes are + servants from the country. In Russia, according to Fiaux, the + proportion is forty-five per cent. In Madrid, according to Eslava + (as quoted by Bernaldo de Quiros and Llanas Aguilaniedo (_La Mala + Vida, en Madrid_, p. 239)), servants come at the head of + registered prostitutes with twenty-seven per cent.--almost the + same proportion as in Italy--and are followed by dressmakers. In + Sweden, according to Welander (_Monatshefte fuer Praktische + Dermatologie_, 1899, p. 477) among 2541 inscribed prostitutes, + 1586 (or sixty-two per cent.) were domestic servants; at a long + interval followed 210 seamstresses, then 168 factory workers, + etc. + +2. _The Biological Factor of Prostitution_.--Economic considerations, as +we see, have a highly important modificatory influence on prostitution, +although it is by no means correct to assert that they form its main +cause. There is another question which has exercised many investigators: +To what extent are prostitutes predestined to this career by organic +constitution? It is generally admitted that economic and other conditions +are an exciting cause of prostitution; in how far are those who succumb +predisposed by the possession of abnormal personal characteristics? Some +inquirers have argued that this predisposition is so marked that +prostitution may fairly be regarded as a feminine equivalent for +criminality, and that in a family in which the men instinctively turn to +crime, the women instinctively turn to prostitution. Others have as +strenuously denied this conclusion. + + Lombroso has more especially advocated the doctrine that + prostitution is the vicarious equivalent of criminality. In this + he was developing the results reached, in the important study of + the Jukes family, by Dugdale, who found that "there where the + brothers commit crime, the sisters adopt prostitution;" the fines + and imprisonments of the women of the family were not for + violations of the right of property, but mainly for offences + against public decency. "The psychological as well as anatomical + identity of the criminal and the born prostitute," Lombroso and + Ferrero concluded, "could not be more complete: both are + identical with the moral insane, and therefore, according to the + axiom, equal to each other. There is the same lack of moral + sense, the same hardness of heart, the same precocious taste for + evil, the same indifference to social infamy, the same + volatility, love of idleness, and lack of foresight, the same + taste for facile pleasures, for the orgy and for alcohol, the + same, or almost the same, vanity. Prostitution is only the + feminine side of criminality. And so true is it that prostitution + and criminality are two analogous, or, so to say, parallel, + phenomena, that at their extremes they meet. The prostitute is, + therefore, psychologically a criminal: if she commits no offenses + it is because her physical weakness, her small intelligence, the + facility of acquiring what she wants by more easy methods, + dispenses her from the necessity of crime, and on these very + grounds prostitution represents the specific form of feminine + criminality." The authors add that "prostitution is, in a certain + sense, socially useful as an outlet for masculine sexuality and a + preventive of crime" (Lombroso and Ferrero, _La Donna + Delinquente_, 1893, p. 571). + + Those who have opposed this view have taken various grounds, and + by no means always understood the position they are attacking. + Thus W. Fischer (in _Die Prostitution_) vigorously argues that + prostitution is not an inoffensive equivalent of criminality, but + a factor of criminality. Fere, again (in _Degenerescence et + Criminalite_), asserts that criminality and prostitution are not + equivalent, but identical. "Prostitutes and criminals," he holds, + "have as a common character their unproductiveness, and + consequently they are both anti-social. Prostitution thus + constitutes a form of criminality." The essential character of + criminals is not, however, their unproductiveness, for that they + share with a considerable proportion of the wealthiest of the + upper classes; it must be added, also, that the prostitute, + unlike the criminal, is exercising an activity for which there is + a demand, for which she is willingly paid, and for which she has + to work (it has sometimes been noted that the prostitute looks + down on the thief, who "does not work"); she is carrying on a + profession, and is neither more nor less productive than those + who carry on many more reputable professions. Aschaffenburg, also + believing himself in opposition to Lombroso, argues, somewhat + differently from Fere, that prostitution is not indeed, as Fere + said, a form of criminality, but that it is too frequently united + with criminality to be regarded as an equivalent. Moenkemoeller has + more recently supported the same view. Here, however, as usual, + there is a wide difference of opinion as to the proportion of + prostitutes of whom this is true. It is recognized by all + investigators to be true of a certain number, but while + Baumgarten, from an examination of eight thousand prostitutes, + only found a minute proportion who were criminals, Stroehmberg + found that among 462 prostitutes there were as many as 175 + thieves. From another side, Morasso (as quoted in _Archivio di + Psichiatria_, 1896, fasc. I), on the strength of his own + investigations, is more clearly in opposition to Lombroso, since + he protests altogether against any purely degenerative view of + prostitutes which would in any way assimilate them with + criminals. + +The question of the sexuality of prostitutes, which has a certain bearing +on the question of their tendency to degeneration, has been settled by +different writers in different senses. While some, like Morasso, assert +that sexual impulse is a main cause inducing women to adopt a prostitute's +career, others assert that prostitutes are usually almost devoid of sexual +impulse. Lombroso refers to the prevalence of sexual frigidity among +prostitutes.[177] In London, Merrick, speaking from a knowledge of over +16,000 prostitutes, states that he has met with "only a very few cases" +in which gross sexual desire has been the motive to adopt a life of +prostitution. In Paris, Raciborski had stated at a much earlier period +that "among prostitutes one finds very few who are prompted to libertinage +by sexual ardor."[178] Commenge, again, a careful student of the Parisian +prostitute, cannot admit that sexual desire is to be classed among the +serious causes of prostitution. "I have made inquiries of thousands of +women on this point," he states, "and only a very small number have told +me that they were driven to prostitution for the satisfaction of sexual +needs. Although girls who give themselves to prostitution are often +lacking in frankness, on this point, I believe, they have no wish to +deceive. When they have sexual needs they do not conceal them, but, on the +contrary, show a certain _amour-propre_ in acknowledging them, as a +sufficient sort of justification for their life; so that if only a very +small minority avow this motive the reason is that for the great majority +it has no existence." + +There can be no doubt that the statements made regarding the sexual +frigidity of prostitutes are often much too unqualified. This is in part +certainly due to the fact that they are usually made by those who speak +from a knowledge of old prostitutes whose habitual familiarity with normal +sexual intercourse in its least attractive aspects has resulted in +complete indifference to such intercourse, so far as their clients are +concerned.[179] It may be stated with truth that to the woman of deep +passions the ephemeral and superficial relationships of prostitution can +offer no temptation. And it may be added that the majority of prostitutes +begin their career at a very early age, long before the somewhat late +period at which in women the tendency for passion to become strong, has +yet arrived.[180] It may also be said that an indifference to sexual +relationships, a tendency to attach no personal value to them, is often a +predisposing cause in the adoption of a prostitute's career; the general +mental shallowness of prostitutes may well be accompanied by shallowness +of physical emotion. On the other hand, many prostitutes, at all events +early in their careers, appear to show a marked degree of sensuality, and +to women of coarse sexual fibre the career of prostitution has not been +without attractions from this point of view; the gratification of physical +desire is known to act as a motive in some cases and is clearly indicated +in others.[181] This is scarcely surprising when we remember that +prostitutes are in a very large proportion of cases remarkably robust and +healthy persons in general respects.[182] They withstand without +difficulty the risks of their profession, and though under its influence +the manifestations of sexual feeling can scarcely fail to become modified +or perverted in course of time, that is no proof of the original absence +of sexual sensibility. It is not even a proof of its loss, for the real +sexual nature of the normal prostitute, and her possibilities of sexual +ardor, are chiefly manifested, not in her professional relations with her +clients, but in her relations with her "fancy boy" or "bully."[183] It is +quite true that the conditions of her life often make it practically +advantageous to the prostitute to have attached to her a man who is +devoted to her interests and will defend them if necessary, but that is +only a secondary, occasional, and subsidiary advantage of the "fancy boy," +so far as prostitutes generally are concerned. She is attracted to him +primarily because he appeals to her personally and she wants him for +herself. The motive of her attachment is, above all, erotic, in the full +sense, involving not merely sexual relations but possession and common +interests, a permanent and intimate life led together. "You know that what +one does in the way of business cannot fill one's heart," said a German +prostitute; "Why should we not have a husband like other women? I, too, +need love. If that were not so we should not want a bully." And he, on his +part, reciprocates this feeling and is by no means merely moved by +self-interest.[184] + + One of my correspondents, who has had much experience of + prostitutes, not only in Britain, but also in Germany, France, + Belgium and Holland, has found that the normal manifestations of + sexual feeling are much more common in British than in + continental prostitutes. "I should say," he writes, "that in + normal coitus foreign women are generally unconscious of sexual + excitement. I don't think I have ever known a foreign woman who + had any semblance of orgasm. British women, on the other hand, if + a man is moderately kind, and shows that he has some feelings + beyond mere sensual gratification, often abandon themselves to + the wildest delights of sexual excitement. Of course in this + life, as in others, there is keen competition, and a woman, to + vie with her competitors, must please her gentlemen friends; but + a man of the world can always distinguish between real and + simulated passion." (It is possible, however, that he may be most + successful in arousing the feelings of his own fellow-country + women.) On the other hand, this writer finds that the foreign + women are more anxious to provide for the enjoyment of their + temporary consorts and to ascertain what pleases them. "The + foreigner seems to make it the business of her life to discover + some abnormal mode of sexual gratification for her consort." For + their own pleasure also foreign prostitutes frequently ask for + _cunnilinctus_, in preference to normal coitus, while anal coitus + is also common. The difference evidently is that the British + women, when they seek gratification, find it in normal coitus, + while the foreign women prefer more abnormal methods. There is, + however, one class of British prostitutes which this + correspondent finds to be an exception to the general rule: the + class of those who are recruited from the lower walks of the + stage. "Such women are generally more licentious--that is to say, + more acquainted with the bizarre in sexualism--than girls who + come from shops or bars; they show a knowledge of _fellatio_, and + even anal coitus, and during menstruation frequently suggest + inter-mammary coitus." + +On the whole it would appear that prostitutes, though not usually impelled +to their life by motives of sensuality, on entering and during the early +part of their career possess a fairly average amount of sexual impulse, +with variations in both directions of excess and deficiency as well as of +perversion. At a somewhat later period it is useless to attempt to measure +the sexual impulse of prostitutes by the amount of pleasure they take in +the professional performance of sexual intercourse. It is necessary to +ascertain whether they possess sexual instincts which are gratified in +other ways. In a large proportion of cases this is found to be so. +Masturbation, especially, is extremely common among prostitutes +everywhere; however prevalent it may be among women who have no other +means of obtaining sexual gratification it is admitted by all to be still +more prevalent among prostitutes, indeed almost universal.[185] + +Homosexuality, though not so common as masturbation, is very frequently +found among prostitutes--in France, it would seem, more frequently than in +England--and it may indeed be said that it occurs more often among +prostitutes than among any other class of women. It is favored by the +acquired distaste for normal coitus due to professional intercourse with +men, which leads homosexual relationships to be regarded as pure and ideal +by comparison. It would appear also that in a considerable proportion of +cases prostitutes present a congenital condition of sexual inversion, such +a condition, with an accompanying indifference to intercourse with men, +being a predisposing cause of the adoption of a prostitute's career. +Kurella even regards prostitutes as constituting a sub-variety of +congenital inverts. Anna Rueling in Germany states that about twenty per +cent. prostitutes are homosexual; when asked what induced them to become +prostitutes, more than one inverted woman of the street has replied to her +that it was purely a matter of business, sexual feeling not coming into +the question except with a friend of the same sex.[186] + +The occurrence of congenital inversion among prostitutes--although we need +not regard prostitutes as necessarily degenerate as a class--suggests the +question whether we are likely to find an unusually large number of +physical and other anomalies among them. It cannot be said that there is +unanimity of opinion on this point. For some authorities prostitutes are +merely normal ordinary women of low social rank, if indeed their instincts +are not even a little superior to those of the class in which they were +born. Other investigators find among them so large a proportion of +individuals deviating from the normal that they are inclined to place +prostitutes generally among one or other of the abnormal classes.[187] + + Baumgarten, in Vienna, from a knowledge of over 8000 prostitutes, + concluded that only a very minute proportion are either criminal + or psychopathic in temperament or organization (_Archiv fuer + Kriminal-Anthropologie_, vol. xi, 1902). It is not clear, + however, that Baumgarten carried out any detailed and precise + investigations. Mr. Lane, a London police magistrate, has stated + as the result of his own observation, that prostitution is "at + once a symptom and outcome of the same deteriorated physique and + decadent moral fibre which determine the manufacture of male + tramps, petty thieves, and professional beggars, of whom the + prostitute is in general the female analogue" (_Ethnological + Journal_, April, 1905, p. 41). This estimate is doubtless correct + as regards a considerable proportion of the women, often + enfeebled by drink, who pass through the police courts, but it + could scarcely be applied without qualification to prostitutes + generally. + + Morasso (_Archivio di Psichiatria_, 1896, fasc. I) has protested + against a purely degenerative view of prostitutes on the strength + of his own observations. There is, he states, a category of + prostitutes, unknown to scientific inquirers, which he calls that + of the _prostitute di alto bordo_. Among these the signs of + degeneration, physical or moral, are not to be found in greater + number than among women who do not belong to prostitution. They + reveal all sorts of characters, some of them showing great + refinement, and are chiefly marked off by the possession of an + unusual degree of sexual appetite. Even among the more degraded + group of the _bassa prostituzione_, he asserts, we find a + predominance of sexual, as well as professional, characters, + rather than the signs of degeneration. It is sufficient to quote + one more testimony, as set down many years ago by a woman of high + intelligence and character, Mrs. Craik, the novelist: "The women + who fall are by no means the worst of their station," she wrote. + "I have heard it affirmed by more than one lady--by one in + particular whose experience was as large as her benevolence--that + many of them are of the very best, refined, intelligent, + truthful, and affectionate. 'I don't know how it is,' she would + say, 'whether their very superiority makes them dissatisfied with + their own rank--such brutes or clowns as laboring men often + are!--so that they fall easier victims to the rank above them; or + whether, though this theory will shock many people, other virtues + can exist and flourish entirely distinct from, and after the + loss of, that which we are accustomed to believe the + indispensable prime virtue of our sex--chastity. I cannot explain + it; I can only say that it is so, that some of my most promising + village girls have been the first to come to harm; and some of + the best and most faithful servants I ever had, have been girls + who have fallen into shame, and who, had I not gone to the rescue + and put them in the way to do well, would infallibly have become + "lost women"'" (_A Woman's Thoughts About Women_, 1858, p. 291). + Various writers have insisted on the good moral qualities of + prostitutes. Thus in France, Despine first enumerates their vices + as (1) greediness and love of drink, (2) lying, (3) anger, (4) + want of order and untidiness, (5) mobility of character, (6) need + of movement, (7) tendency to homosexuality; and then proceeds to + detail their good qualities: their maternal and filial affection, + their charity to each other; and their refusal to denounce each + other; while they are frequently religious, sometimes modest, and + generally very honest (Despine, _Psychologie Naturelle_, vol. + iii, pp. 207 et seq.; as regards Sicilian prostitutes, cf. + Callari, _Archivio di Psichiatria_, fasc. IV, 1903). The charity + towards each other, often manifested in distress, is largely + neutralized by a tendency to professional suspicion and jealousy + of each other. + + Lombroso believes that the basis of prostitution must be found in + moral idiocy. If by moral idiocy we are to understand a condition + at all closely allied with insanity, this assertion is dubious. + There seems no clear relationship between prostitution and + insanity, and Tammeo has shown (_La Prostituzione_, p. 76) that + the frequency of prostitutes in the various Italian provinces is + in inverse ratio to the frequency of insane persons; as insanity + increases, prostitution decreases. But if we mean a minor degree + of moral imbecility--that is to say, a bluntness of perception + for the ordinary moral considerations of civilization which, + while it is largely due to the hardening influence of an + unfavorable early environment, may also rest on a congenital + predisposition--there can be no doubt that moral imbecility of + slight degree is very frequently found among prostitutes. It + would be plausible, doubtless, to say that every woman who gives + her virginity in exchange for an inadequate return is an + imbecile. If she gives herself for love, she has, at the worst, + made a foolish mistake, such as the young and inexperienced may + at any time make. But if she deliberately proposes to sell + herself, and does so for nothing or next to nothing, the case is + altered. The experiences of Commenge in Paris are instructive on + this point. "For many young girls," he writes, "modesty has no + existence, they experience no emotion in showing themselves + completely undressed, they abandon themselves to any chance + individual whom they will never see again. They attach no + importance to their virginity; they are deflowered under the + strangest conditions, without the least thought or care about the + act they are accomplishing. No sentiment, no calculation, pushes + them into a man's arms. They let themselves go without reflexion + and without motive, in an almost animal manner, from indifference + and without pleasure." He was acquainted with forty-five girls + between the ages of twelve and seventeen who were deflowered by + chance strangers whom they never met again; they lost their + virginity, in Dumas's phrase, as they lost their milk-teeth, and + could give no plausible account of the loss. A girl of fifteen, + mentioned by Commenge, living with her parents who supplied all + her wants, lost her virginity by casually meeting a man who + offered her two francs if she would go with him; she did so + without demur and soon begun to accost men on her own account. A + girl of fourteen, also living comfortably with her parents, + sacrificed her virginity at a fair in return for a glass of beer, + and henceforth begun to associate with prostitutes. Another girl + of the same age, at a local fete, wishing to go round on the + hobby horse, spontaneously offered herself to the man directing + the machinery for the pleasure of a ride. Yet another girl, of + fifteen, at another fete, offered her virginity in return for the + same momentary joy (Commenge, _Prostitution Clandestine_, 1897, + pp. 101 et seq.). In the United States, Dr. W. Travis Gibb, + examining physician to the New York Society for the Prevention of + Cruelty to Children, bears similar testimony to the fact that in + a fairly large proportion of "rape" cases the child is the + willing victim. "It is horribly pathetic," he says (_Medical + Record_, April 20, 1907), "to learn how far a nickel or a quarter + will go towards purchasing the virtue of these children." + + In estimating the tendency of prostitutes to display congenital + physical anomalies, the crudest and most obvious test, though not + a precise or satisfactory one, is the general impression produced + by the face. In France, when nearly 1000 prostitutes were divided + into five groups from the point of view of their looks, only from + seven to fourteen per cent, were found to belong to the first + group, or that of those who could be said to possess youth and + beauty (Jeannel, _De la Prostitution Publique_, 1860, p. 168). + Woods Hutchinson, again, judging from an extensive acquaintance + with London, Paris, Vienna, New York, Philadelphia, and Chicago, + asserts that a handsome or even attractive-looking prostitute, is + rare, and that the general average of beauty is lower than in any + other class of women. "Whatever other evils," he remarks, "the + fatal power of beauty may be responsible for, it has nothing to + do with prostitution" (Woods Hutchinson, "The Economics of + Prostitution," _American Gynaecological and Obstetric Journal_, + September, 1895). It must, of course, be borne in mind that these + estimates are liable to be vitiated through being based chiefly + on the inspection of women who most obviously belong to the class + of prostitutes and have already been coarsened by their + profession. + + If we may conclude--and the fact is probably undisputed--that + beautiful, agreeable, and harmoniously formed faces are rare + rather than common among prostitutes, we may certainly say that + minute examination will reveal a large number of physical + abnormalities. One of the earliest important physical + investigations of prostitutes was that of Dr. Pauline Tarnowsky + in Russia (first published in the _Vratch_ in 1887, and + afterwards as _Etudes anthropometriques sur les Prostituees et + les Voleuses_). She examined fifty St. Petersburg prostitutes who + had been inmates of a brothel for not less than two years, and + also fifty peasant women of, so far as possible, the same age and + mental development. She found that (1) the prostitute showed + shorter anterior-posterior and transverse diameters of skull; (2) + a proportion equal to eighty-four per cent. showed various signs + of physical degeneration (irregular skull, asymmetry of face, + anomalies of hard palate, teeth, ears, etc.). This tendency to + anomaly among the prostitutes was to some extent explained when + it was found that about four-fifths of them had parents who were + habitual drunkards, and nearly one-fifth were the last survivors + of large families; such families have been often produced by + degenerate parents. + + The frequency of hereditary degeneration has been noted by + Bonhoeffer among German prostitutes. He investigated 190 Breslau + prostitutes in prison, and therefore of a more abnormal class + than ordinary prostitutes, and found that 102 were hereditarily + degenerate, and mostly with one or both parents who were + drunkards; 53 also showed feeble-mindedness (_Zeitschrift fuer die + Gesamte Strafwissenschaft_, Bd. xxiii, p. 106). + + The most detailed examinations of ordinary non-criminal + prostitutes, both anthropometrically and as regards the + prevalence of anomalies, have been made in Italy, though not on a + sufficiently large number of subjects to yield absolutely + decisive results. Thus Fornasari made a detailed examination of + sixty prostitutes belonging chiefly to Emilia and Venice, and + also of twenty-seven others belonging to Bologna, the latter + group being compared with a third group of twenty normal women + belonging to Bologna (_Archivio di Psichiatria_, 1892, fasc. VI). + The prostitutes were found to be of lower type than the normal + individuals, having smaller heads and larger faces. As the author + himself points out, his subjects were not sufficiently numerous + to justify far-reaching generalizations, but it may be worth + while to summarize some of his results. At equal heights the + prostitutes showed greater weight; at equal ages they were of + shorter stature than other women, not only of well-to-do, but of + the poor class: height of face, bi-zygomatic diameter (though not + the distance between zygomas), the distance from chin to external + auditory meatus, and the size of the jaw were all greater in the + prostitutes; the hands were longer and broader, compared to the + palm, than in ordinary women; the foot also was longer in + prostitutes, and the thigh, as compared to the calf, was larger. + It is noteworthy that in most particulars, and especially in + regard to head measurements, the variations were much greater + among the prostitutes than among the other women examined; this + is to some extent, though not entirely, to be accounted for by + the slightly greater number of the former. + + Ardu (in the same number of the _Archivio_) gave the result of + observations (undertaken at Lombroso's suggestion) as to the + frequency of abnormalities among prostitutes. The subjects were + seventy-four in number and belonged to Professor Giovannini's + _Clinica Sifilopatica_ at Turin. The abnormalities investigated + were virile distribution of hair on pubes, chest, and limbs, + hypertrichosis on forehead, left-handedness, atrophy of nipple, + and tattooing (which was only found once). Combining Ardu's + observations with another series of observations on fifty-five + prostitutes examined by Lombroso, it is found that virile + disposition of hair is found in fifteen per cent. as against six + per cent. in normal women; some degree of hypertrichosis in + eighteen per cent.; left-handedness in eleven per cent. (but in + normal women as high as twelve per cent. according to Gallia); + and atrophy of nipple in twelve per cent. + + Giuffrida-Ruggeri, again (_Atti della, Societa Romana di + Antropologia_, 1897, p. 216), on examining eighty-two prostitutes + found anomalies in the following order of decreasing frequency: + tendency of eyebrows to meet, lack of cranial symmetry, + depression at root of nose, defective development of calves, + hypertrichosis and other anomalies of hair, adherent or absent + lobule, prominent zigoma, prominent forehead or frontal bones, + bad implantation of teeth, Darwinian tubercle of ear, thin + vertical lips. These signs are separately of little or no + importance, though together not without significance as an + indication of general anomaly. + + More recently Ascarilla, in an elaborate study (_Archivio di + Psichiatria_, 1906, fasc. VI, p. 812) of the finger prints of + prostitutes, comes to the conclusion that even in this respect + prostitutes tend to form a class showing morphological + inferiority to normal women. The patterns tend to show unusual + simplicity and uniformity, and the significance of this is + indicated by the fact that a similar uniformity is shown by the + finger prints of the insane and deaf-mutes (De Sanctis and + Toscano, _Atti Societa Romana Antropologia_, vol. viii, 1901, + fasc. II). + + In Chicago Dr. Harriet Alexander, in conjunction with Dr. E.S. + Talbot and Dr. J.G. Kiernan, examined thirty prostitutes in the + Bridewell, or House of Correction; only the "obtuse" class of + professional prostitutes reach this institution, and it is not + therefore surprising that they were found to exhibit very marked + stigmata of degeneracy. In race nearly half of those examined + were Celtic Irish. In sixteen the zygomatic processes were + unequal and very prominent. Other facial asymmetries were common. + In three cases the heads were of Mongoloid type; sixteen were + epignathic, and eleven prognathic; five showed arrest of + development of face. Brachycephaly predominated (seventeen + cases); the rest were mesaticephalic; there were no + dolichocephals. Abnormalities in shape of the skull were + numerous, and twenty-nine had defective ears. Four were + demonstrably insane, and one was an epileptic (H.C.B. Alexander, + "Physical Abnormalities in Prostitutes," Chicago Academy of + Medicine, April, 1893; E.S. Talbot, _Degeneracy_, p. 320; _Id., + Irregularities of the Teeth_, fourth edition, p. 141). + +It would seem, on the whole, so far as the evidence at present goes, that +prostitutes are not quite normal representatives of the ranks into which +they were born. There has been a process of selection of individuals who +slightly deviate congenitally from the normal average and are, +correspondingly, slightly inapt for normal life.[188] The psychic +characteristics which accompany such deviation are not always necessarily +of an obviously unfavorable nature; the slightly neurotic girl of low +class birth--disinclined for hard work, through defective energy, and +perhaps greedy and selfish--may even seem to possess a refinement superior +to her station. While, however, there is a tendency to anomaly among +prostitutes, it must be clearly recognized that that tendency remains +slight so long as we consider impartially the whole class of prostitutes. +Those investigators who have reached the conclusion that prostitutes are a +highly degenerate and abnormal class have only observed special groups of +prostitutes, more especially those who are frequently found in prison. It +is not possible to form a just conception of prostitutes by studying them +only in prison, any more than it would be possible to form a just +conception of clergymen, doctors, or lawyers by studying them exclusively +in prison, and this remains true even although a much larger proportion of +prostitutes than of members of the more reputable professions pass through +prisons; that fact no doubt partly indicates the greater abnormality of +prostitutes. + +It has, of course, to be remembered that the special conditions of the +lives of prostitutes tend to cause in them the appearance of certain +professional characteristics which are entirely acquired and not +congenital. In that way we may account for the gradual modification of the +feminine secondary and tertiary sexual characters, and the appearance of +masculine characters, such as the frequent deep voice, etc.[189] But with +all due allowance for these acquired characters, it remains true that such +comparative investigations as have so far been made, although +inconclusive, seem to indicate that, even apart from the prevalence of +acquired anomalies, the professional selection of their avocation tends to +separate out from the general population of the same social class, +individuals who possess anthropometrical characters varying in a definite +direction. The observations thus made seem, in this way, to indicate that +prostitutes tend to be in weight over the average, though not in stature, +that in length of arm they are inferior though the hands are longer (this +has been found alike in Italy and Russia); they have smaller ankles and +larger calves, and still larger thighs in proportion to their large +calves. The estimated skull capacity and the skull circumference and +diameters are somewhat below the normal, not only when compared with +respectable women but also with thieves; there is a tendency to +brachycephaly (both in Italy and Russia); the cheek-bones are usually +prominent and the jaws developed; the hair is darker than in respectable +women though less so than in thieves; it is also unusually abundant, not +only on the head but also on the pudenda and elsewhere; the eyes have been +found to be decidedly darker than those of either respectable women or +criminals.[190] + +So far as the evidence goes it serves to indicate that prostitutes tend to +approximate to the type which, as was shown in the previous volume, there +is reason to regard as specially indicative of developed sexuality. It is, +however, unnecessary to discuss this question until our anthropometrical +knowledge of prostitutes is more extended and precise. + +3. _The Moral Justification of Prostitution_.--There are and always have +been moralists--many of them people whose opinions are deserving of the +most serious respect--who consider that, allowing for the need of +improved hygienic conditions, the existence of prostitution presents no +serious problem for solution. It is, at most, they say, a necessary evil, +and, at best, a beneficent institution, the bulwark of the home, the +inevitable reverse of which monogamy is the obverse. "The immoral guardian +of public morality," is the definition of prostitutes given by one writer, +who takes the humble view of the matter, and another, taking the loftier +ground, writes: "The prostitute fulfils a social mission. She is the +guardian of virginal modesty, the channel to carry off adulterous desire, +the protector of matrons who fear late maternity; it is her part to act as +the shield of the family." "Female Decii," said Balzac in his _Physiologie +du Mariage_ of prostitutes, "they sacrifice themselves for the republic +and make of their bodies a rampart for the protection of respectable +families." In the same way Schopenhauer called prostitutes "human +sacrifices on the altar of monogamy." Lecky, again, in an oft-quoted +passage of rhetoric,[191] may be said to combine both the higher and the +lower view of the prostitute's mission in human society, to which he even +seeks to give a hieratic character. "The supreme type of vice," he +declared, "she is ultimately the most efficient guardian of virtue. But +for her, the unchallenged purity of countless happy homes would be +polluted, and not a few who, in the pride of their untempted chastity, +think of her with an indignant shudder, would have known the agony of +remorse and of despair. On that one degraded and ignoble form are +concentrated the passions that might have filled the world with shame. She +remains, while creeds and civilizations rise and fall, the eternal +priestess of humanity, blasted for the sins of the people."[192] + +I am not aware that the Greeks were greatly concerned with the moral +justification of prostitution. They had not allowed it to assume very +offensive forms and for the most part they were content to accept it. The +Romans usually accepted it, too, but, we gather, not quite so easily. +There was an austerely serious, almost Puritanic, spirit in the Romans of +the old stock and they seem sometimes to have felt the need to assure +themselves that prostitution really was morally justifiable. It is +significant to note that they were accustomed to remember that Cato was +said to have expressed satisfaction on seeing a man emerge from a brothel, +for otherwise he might have gone to lie with his neighbor's wife.[193] + +The social necessity of prostitution is the most ancient of all the +arguments of moralists in favor of the toleration of prostitutes; and if +we accept the eternal validity of the marriage system with which +prostitution developed, and of the theoretical morality based on that +system, this is an exceedingly forcible, if not an unanswerable, argument. + +The advent of Christianity, with its special attitude towards the "flesh," +necessarily caused an enormous increase of attention to the moral aspects +of prostitution. When prostitution was not morally denounced, it became +clearly necessary to morally justify it; it was impossible for a Church, +whose ideals were more or less ascetic, to be benevolently indifferent in +such a matter. As a rule we seem to find throughout that while the more +independent and irresponsible divines take the side of denunciation, those +theologians who have had thrust upon them the grave responsibilities of +ecclesiastical statesmanship have rather tended towards the reluctant +moral justification of prostitution. Of this we have an example of the +first importance in St. Augustine, after St. Paul the chief builder of the +Christian Church. In a treatise written in 386 to justify the Divine +regulation of the world, we find him declaring that just as the +executioner, however repulsive he may be, occupies a necessary place in +society, so the prostitute and her like, however sordid and ugly and +wicked they may be, are equally necessary; remove prostitutes from human +affairs and you would pollute the world with lust: "Aufer meretrices de +rebus humanis, turbaveris omnia libidinibus."[194] Aquinas, the only +theological thinker of Christendom who can be named with Augustine, was of +the same mind with him on this question of prostitution. He maintained the +sinfulness of fornication but he accepted the necessity of prostitution as +a beneficial part of the social structure, comparing it to the sewers +which keep a palace pure.[195] "Prostitution in towns is like the sewer in +a palace; take away the sewers and the palace becomes an impure and +stinking place." Liguori, the most influential theologian of more modern +times, was of the like opinion. + +This wavering and semi-indulgent attitude towards prostitution was indeed +generally maintained by theologians. Some, following Augustine and +Aquinas, would permit prostitution for the avoidance of greater evils; +others were altogether opposed to it; others, again, would allow it in +towns but nowhere else. It was, however, universally held by theologians +that the prostitute has a right to her wages, and is not obliged to make +restitution.[196] The earlier Christian moralists found no difficulty in +maintaining that there is no sin in renting a house to a prostitute for +the purposes of her trade; absolution was always granted for this and +abstention not required.[197] Fornication, however, always remained a sin, +and from the twelfth century onwards the Church made a series of organized +attempts to reclaim prostitutes. All Catholic theologians hold that a +prostitute is bound to confess the sin of prostitution, and most, though +not all, theologians have believed that a man also must confess +intercourse with a prostitute. At the same time, while there was a certain +indulgence to the prostitute herself, the Church was always very severe on +those who lived on the profits of promoting prostitution, on the +_lenones_. Thus the Council of Elvira, which was ready to receive without +penance the prostitute who married, refused reconciliation, even at death, +to persons who had been guilty of _lenocinium_.[198] + +Protestantism, in this as in many other matters of sexual morality, having +abandoned the confessional, was usually able to escape the necessity for +any definite and responsible utterances concerning the moral status of +prostitution. When it expressed any opinion, or sought to initiate any +practical action, it naturally founded itself on the Biblical injunctions +against fornication, as expressed by St. Paul, and showed no mercy for +prostitutes and no toleration for prostitution. This attitude, which was +that of the Puritans, was the more easy since in Protestant countries, +with the exception of special districts at special periods--such as Geneva +and New England in the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries--theologians +have in these matters been called upon to furnish religious exhortation +rather than to carry out practical policies. The latter task they have +left to others, and a certain confusion and uncertainty has thus often +arisen in the lay Protestant mind. This attitude in a thoughtful and +serious writer, is well illustrated in England by Burton, writing a +century after the Reformation. He refers with mitigated approval to "our +Pseudo-Catholics," who are severe with adultery but indulgent to +fornication, being perhaps of Cato's mind that it should be encouraged to +avoid worse mischiefs at home, and who holds brothels "as necessary as +churches" and "have whole Colleges of Courtesans in their towns and +cities." "They hold it impossible," he continues, "for idle persons, +young, rich and lusty, so many servants, monks, friars, to live honest, +too tyrannical a burden to compel them to be chaste, and most unfit to +suffer poor men, younger brothers and soldiers at all to marry, as also +diseased persons, votaries, priests, servants. Therefore as well to keep +and ease the one as the other, they tolerate and wink at these kind of +brothel-houses and stews. Many probable arguments they have to prove the +lawfulness, the necessity, and a toleration of them, as of usery; and +without question in policy they are not to be contradicted, but altogether +in religion."[199] + +It was not until the beginning of the following century that the ancient +argument of St. Augustine for the moral justification of prostitution was +boldly and decisively stated in Protestant England, by Bernard Mandeville +in his _Fable of the Bees_, and at its first promulgation it seemed so +offensive to the public mind that the book was suppressed. "If courtesans +and strumpets were to be prosecuted with as much rigor as some silly +people would have it," Mandeville wrote, "what locks or bars would be +sufficient to preserve the honor of our wives and daughters?... It is +manifest that there is a necessity of sacrificing one part of womankind to +preserve the other, and prevent a filthiness of a more heinous nature. +From whence I think I may justly conclude that chastity may be supported +by incontinence, and the best of virtues want the assistance of the worst +of vices."[200] After Mandeville's time this view of prostitution began to +become common in Protestant as well as in other countries, though it was +not usually so clearly expressed. + + It may be of interest to gather together a few more modern + examples of statements brought forward for the moral + justification of prostitution. + + Thus in France Meusnier de Querlon, in his story of _Psaphion_, + written in the middle of the eighteenth century, puts into the + mouth of a Greek courtesan many interesting reflections + concerning the life and position of the prostitute. She defends + her profession with much skill, and argues that while men imagine + that prostitutes are merely the despised victims of their + pleasures, these would-be tyrants are really dupes who are + ministering to the needs of the women they trample beneath their + feet, and themselves equally deserve the contempt they bestow. + "We return disgust for disgust, as they must surely perceive. We + often abandon to them merely a statue, and while inflamed by + their own desires they consume themselves on insensible charms, + our tranquil coldness leisurely enjoys their sensibility. Then it + is we resume all our rights. A little hot blood has brought + these proud creatures to our feet, and rendered us mistresses of + their fate. On which side, I ask, is the advantage?" But all men, + she adds, are not so unjust towards the prostitute, and she + proceeds to pronounce a eulogy, not without a slight touch of + irony in it, of the utility, facility, and convenience of the + brothel. + + A large number of the modern writers on prostitution insist on + its socially beneficial character. Thus Charles Richard concludes + his book on the subject with the words: "The conduct of society + with regard to prostitution must proceed from the principle of + gratitude without false shame for its utility, and compassion for + the poor creatures at whose expense this is attained" (_La + Prostitution devant le Philosophe_, 1882, p. 171). "To make + marriage permanent is to make it difficult," an American medical + writer observes; "to make it difficult is to defer it; to defer + it is to maintain in the community an increasing number of + sexually perfect individuals, with normal, or, in cases where + repression is prolonged, excessive sexual appetites. The social + evil is the natural outcome of the physical nature of man, his + inherited impulses, and the artificial conditions under which he + is compelled to live" ("The Social Evil," _Medicine_, August and + September, 1906). Woods Hutchinson, while speaking with strong + disapproval of prostitution and regarding prostitutes as "the + worst specimens of the sex," yet regards prostitution as a social + agency of the highest value. "From a medico-economic point of + view I venture to claim it as one of the grand selective and + eliminative agencies of nature, and of highest value to the + community. It may be roughly characterized as a safety valve for + the institution of marriage" (_The Gospel According to Darwin_, + p. 193; cf. the same author's article on "The Economics of + Prostitution," summarized in _Boston Medical and Surgical + Journal_, November 21, 1895). Adolf Gerson, in a somewhat similar + spirit, argues ("Die Ursache der Prostitution," + _Sexual-Probleme_, September, 1908) that "prostitution is one of + the means used by Nature to limit the procreative activity of + men, and especially to postpone the period of sexual maturity." + Molinari considers that the social benefits of prostitution have + been manifested in various ways from the first; by sterilizing, + for instance, the more excessive manifestations of the sexual + impulse prostitution suppressed the necessity for the infanticide + of superfluous children, and led to the prohibition of that + primitive method of limiting the population (G. de Molinari, _La + Viriculture_, p. 45). In quite another way than that mentioned by + Molinari, prostitution has even in very recent times led to the + abandonment of infanticide. In the Chinese province of Ping-Yang, + Matignon states, it was usual not many years ago for poor parents + to kill forty per cent. of the girl children, or even all of + them, at birth, for they were too expensive to rear and brought + nothing in, since men who wished to marry could easily obtain a + wife in the neighboring province of Wenchu, where women were + very easy to obtain. Now, however, the line of steamships along + the coast makes it very easy for girls to reach the brothels of + Shang-Hai, where they can earn money for their families; the + custom of killing them has therefore died out (Matignon, + _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, 1896, p. 72). "Under + present conditions," writes Dr. F. Erhard ("Auch ein Wort zur + Ehereform," _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Jahrgang I, Heft 9), + "prostitution (in the broadest sense, including free + relationships) is necessary in order that young men may, in some + degree, learn to know women, for conventional conversation cannot + suffice for this; an exact knowledge of feminine thought and + action is, however, necessary for a proper choice, since it is + seldom possible to rely on the certainty of instinct. It is good + also that men should wear off their horns before marriage, for + the polygamous tendency will break through somewhere. + Prostitution will only spoil those men in whom there is not much + to spoil, and if the desire for marriage is thus lost, the man's + unbegotten children may have cause to thank him." Neisser, Naecke, + and many others, have pleaded for prostitution, and even for + brothels, as "necessary evils." + + It is scarcely necessary to add that many, among even the + strongest upholders of the moral advantages of prostitution, + believe that some improvement in method is still desirable. Thus + Berault looks forward to a time when regulated brothels will + become less contemptible. Various improvements may, he thinks, in + the near future, "deprive them of the barbarous attributes which + mark them out for the opprobrium of the skeptical or ignorant + multitude, while their recognizable advantages will put an end to + the contempt aroused by their cynical aspect" (_La Maison de + Tolerance_, These de Paris, 1904). + +4. _The Civilizational Value of Prostitution._--The moral argument for +prostitution is based on the belief that our marriage system is so +infinitely precious that an institution which serves as its buttress must +be kept in existence, however ugly or otherwise objectionable it may in +itself be. There is, however, another argument in support of prostitution +which scarcely receives the emphasis it deserves. I refer to its influence +in adding an element, in some form or another necessary, of gaiety and +variety to the ordered complexity of modern life, a relief from the +monotony of its mechanical routine, a distraction from its dull and +respectable monotony. This is distinct from the more specific function of +prostitution as an outlet for superfluous sexual energy, and may even +affect those who have little or no commerce with prostitutes. This +element may be said to constitute the civilizational value of +prostitution. + +It is not merely the general conditions of civilization, but more +specifically the conditions of urban life, which make this factor +insistent. Urban life imposes by the stress of competition a very severe +and exacting routine of dull work. At the same time it makes men and women +more sensitive to new impressions, more enamored of excitement and change. +It multiplies the opportunities of social intercourse; it decreases the +chances of detection of illegitimate intercourse while at the same time it +makes marriage more difficult, for, by heightening social ambitions and +increasing the expenses of living, it postpones the time when a home can +be created. Urban life delays marriage and yet renders the substitutes for +marriage more imperative.[201] + +There cannot be the slightest doubt that it is this motive--the effort to +supplement the imperfect opportunities for self-development offered by our +restrained, mechanical, and laborious civilization--which plays one of the +chief parts in inducing women to adopt, temporarily or permanently, a +prostitute's life. We have seen that the economic factor is not, as was +once supposed, by any means predominant in this choice. Nor, again, is +there any reason to suppose that an over-mastering sexual impulse is a +leading factor. But a large number of young women turn instinctively to a +life of prostitution because they are moved by an obscure impulse which +they can scarcely define to themselves or express, and are often ashamed +to confess. It is, therefore, surprising that this motive should find so +large a place even in the formal statistics of the factors of +prostitution. Merrick, in London, found that 5000, or nearly a third, of +the prostitutes he investigated, voluntarily gave up home or situation +"for a life of pleasure," and he puts this at the head of the causes of +prostitution.[202] In America Sanger found that "inclination" came almost +at the head of the causes of prostitution, while Woods Hutchinson found +"love of display, luxury and idleness" by far at the head. "Disgusted and +wearied with work" is the reason assigned by a large number of Belgian +girls when stating to the police their wish to be enrolled as prostitutes. +In Italy a similar motive is estimated to play an important part. In +Russia "desire for amusement" comes second among the causes of +prostitution. There can, I think, be little doubt that, as a thoughtful +student of London life has concluded, the problem of prostitution is "at +bottom a mad and irresistible craving for excitement, a serious and wilful +revolt against the monotony of commonplace ideals, and the uninspired +drudgery of everyday life."[203] It is this factor of prostitution, we may +reasonably conclude, which is mainly responsible for the fact, pointed out +by F. Schiller,[204] that with the development of civilization the supply +of prostitutes tends to outgrow the demand. + + Charles Booth seems to be of the same opinion, and quotes (_Life + and Labor of the People_, Third Series, vol. vii, p. 364) from a + Rescue Committee Report: "The popular idea is, that these women + are eager to leave a life of sin. The plain and simple truth is + that, for the most part, they have no desire at all to be + rescued. So many of these women do not, and will not, regard + prostitution as a sin. 'I am taken out to dinner and to some + place of amusement every night; why should I give it up?'" + Merrick, who found that five per cent. of 14,000 prostitutes who + passed through Millbank Prison, were accustomed to combine + religious observance with the practice of their profession, also + remarks in regard to their feelings about morality: "I am + convinced that there are many poor men and women who do not in + the least understand what is implied in the term 'immorality.' + Out of courtesy to you, they may assent to what you say, but they + do not comprehend your meaning when you talk of virtue or purity; + you are simply talking over their heads" (Merrick, op. cit., p. + 28). The same attitude may be found among prostitutes everywhere. + In Italy Ferriani mentions a girl of fifteen who, when accused of + indecency with a man in a public garden, denied with tears and + much indignation. He finally induced her to confess, and then + asked her: "Why did you try to make me believe you were a good + girl?" She hesitated, smiled, and said: "Because _they say_ girls + ought not to do what I do, but ought to work. But I am what I am, + and it is no concern of theirs." This attitude is often more than + an instinctive feeling; in intelligent prostitutes it frequently + becomes a reasoned conviction. "I can bear everything, if so it + must be," wrote the author of the _Tagebuch einer Verlorenen_ (p. + 291), "even serious and honorable contempt, but I cannot bear + scorn. Contempt--yes, if it is justified. If a poor and pretty + girl with sick and bitter heart stands alone in life, cast off, + with temptations and seductions offering on every side, and, in + spite of that, out of inner conviction she chooses the grey and + monotonous path of renunciation and middle-class morality, I + recognize in that girl a personality, who has a certain + justification in looking down with contemptuous pity on weaker + girls. But those geese who, under the eyes of their shepherds and + life-long owners, have always been pastured in smooth green + fields, have certainly no right to laugh scornfully at others who + have not been so fortunate." Nor must it be supposed that there + is necessarily any sophistry in the prostitute's justification of + herself. Some of our best thinkers and observers have reached a + conclusion that is not dissimilar. "The actual conditions of + society are opposed to any high moral feeling in women," Marro + observes (_La Puberta_, p. 462), "for between those who sell + themselves to prostitution and those who sell themselves to + marriage, the only difference is in price and duration of the + contract." + +We have already seen how very large a part in prostitution is furnished by +those who have left domestic service to adopt this life (_ante_ p. 264). +It is not difficult to find in this fact evidence of the kind of impulse +which impels a woman to adopt the career of prostitution. "The servant, in +our society of equality," wrote Goncourt, recalling somewhat earlier days +when she was often admitted to a place in the family life, "has become +nothing but a paid pariah, a machine for doing household work, and is no +longer allowed to share the employer's human life."[205] And in England, +even half a century ago, we already find the same statements concerning +the servant's position: "domestic service is a complete slavery," with +early hours and late hours, and constant running up and down stairs till +her legs are swollen; "an amount of ingenuity appears too often to be +exercised, worthy of a better cause, in obtaining the largest possible +amount of labor out of the domestic machine"; in addition she is "a kind +of lightning conductor," to receive the ill-temper and morbid feelings of +her mistress and the young ladies; so that, as some have said, "I felt so +miserable I did not care what became of me, I wished I was dead."[206] The +servant is deprived of all human relationships; she must not betray the +existence of any simple impulse, or natural need. At the same time she +lives on the fringe of luxury; she is surrounded by the tantalizing +visions of pleasure and amusement for which her fresh young nature +craves.[207] It is not surprising that, repelled by unrelieved drudgery +and attracted by idle luxury, she should take the plunge which will alone +enable her to enjoy the glittering aspects of civilization which seem so +desirable to her.[208] + + It is sometimes stated that the prevalence of prostitution among + girls who were formerly servants is due to the immense numbers of + servants who are seduced by their masters or the young men of the + family, and are thus forced on to the streets. Undoubtedly in a + certain proportion of cases, perhaps sometimes a fairly + considerable proportion, this is a decisive factor in the matter, + but it scarcely seems to be the chief factor. The existence of + relationships between servants and masters, it must be + remembered, by no means necessarily implies seduction. In a + large number of cases the servant in a household is, in sexual + matters, the teacher rather than the pupil. (In "The Sexual + Impulse in Women," in the third volume of these _Studies_, I have + discussed the part played by servants as sexual initiators of the + young boys in the households in which they are placed.) The more + precise statistics of the causes of prostitution seldom assign + seduction as the main determining factor in more than about + twenty per cent. of cases, though this is obviously one of the + most easily avowable motives (see _ante_, p. 256). Seduction by + any kind of employer constitutes only a proportion (usually less + than half) even of these cases. The special case of seduction of + servants by masters can thus play no very considerable part as a + factor of prostitution. + + The statistics of the parentage of illegitimate children have + some bearing on this question. In a series of 180 unmarried + mothers assisted by the Berlin Bund fuer Mutterschutz, particulars + are given of the occupations both of the mothers, and, as far as + possible, of the fathers. The former were one-third + servant-girls, and the great majority of the remainder assistants + in trades or girls carrying on work at home. At the head of the + fathers (among 120 cases) came artisans (33), followed by + tradespeople (22); only a small proportion (20 to 25) could be + described as "gentlemen," and even this proportion loses some of + its significance when it is pointed out that some of the girls + were also of the middle-class; in nineteen cases the fathers were + married men (_Mutterschutz_, January, 1907, p. 45). + + Most authorities in most countries are of opinion that girls who + eventually (usually between the ages of fifteen and twenty) + become prostitutes have lost their virginity at an early age, and + in the great majority of cases through men of their own class. + "The girl of the people falls by the people," stated Reuss in + France (_La Prostitution_, p. 41). "It is her like, workers like + herself, who have the first fruits of her beauty and virginity. + The man of the world who covers her with gold and jewels only has + their leavings." Martineau, again (_De la Prostitution + Clandestine_, 1885), showed that prostitutes are usually + deflowered by men of their own class. And Jeannel, in Bordeaux, + found reason for believing that it is not chiefly their masters + who lead servants astray; they often go into service because they + have been seduced in the country, while lazy, greedy, and + unintelligent girls are sent from the country into the town to + service. In Edinburgh, W. Tait (_Magdalenism_, 1842) found that + soldiers more than any other class in the community are the + seducers of women, the Highlanders being especially notorious in + this respect. Soldiers have this reputation everywhere, and in + Germany especially it is constantly found that the presence of + the soldiery in a country district, as at the annual manoeuvres, + is the cause of unchastity and illegitimate births; it is so also + in Austria, where, long ago, Gross-Hoffinger stated that + soldiers were responsible for at least a third of all + illegitimate births, a share out of all proportion to their + numbers. In Italy, Marro, investigating the occasion of the loss + of virginity in twenty-two prostitutes, found that ten gave + themselves more or less spontaneously to lovers or masters, ten + yielded in the expectation of marriage, and two were outraged + (_La Puberta_, p. 461). The loss of virginity, Marro adds, though + it may not be the direct cause of prostitution, often leads on to + it. "When a door has once been broken in," a prostitute said to + him, "it is difficult to keep it closed." In Sardinia, as A. + Mantegazza and Ciuffo found, prostitutes are very largely + servants from the country who have already been deflowered by men + of their own class. + +This civilizational factor of prostitution, the influence of luxury and +excitement and refinement in attracting the girl of the people, as the +flame attracts the moth, is indicated by the fact that it is the +country-dwellers who chiefly succumb to the fascination. The girls whose +adolescent explosive and orgiastic impulses, sometimes increased by a +slight congenital lack of nervous balance, have been latent in the dull +monotony of country life and heightened by the spectacle of luxury acting +on the unrelieved drudgery of town life, find at last their complete +gratification in the career of a prostitute. To the town girl, born and +bred in the town, this career has not usually much attraction, unless she +has been brought up from the first in an environment that predisposes her +to adopt it. She is familiar from childhood with the excitements of urban +civilization and they do not intoxicate her; she is, moreover, more shrewd +to take care of herself than the country girl, and too well acquainted +with the real facts of the prostitute's life to be very anxious to adopt +her career. Beyond this, also, it is probable that the stocks she belongs +to possess a native or acquired power of resistance to unbalancing +influences which has enabled them to survive in urban life. She has become +immune to the poisons of that life.[209] + + In all great cities a large proportion, if not the majority, of + the inhabitants have usually been born outside the city (in + London only about fifty per cent. of heads of households are + definitely reported as born in London); and it is not therefore + surprising that prostitutes also should often be outsiders. Still + it remains a significant fact that so typically urban a + phenomenon as prostitution should be so largely recruited from + the country. This is everywhere the case. Merrick enumerates the + regions from which came some 14,000 prostitutes who passed + through Millbank Prison. Middlesex, Kent, Surrey, Essex and Devon + are the counties that stand at the head, and Merrick estimates + that the contingent of London from the four counties which make + up London was 7000, or one-half of the whole; military towns like + Colchester and naval ports like Plymouth supply many prostitutes + to London; Ireland furnished many more than Scotland, and Germany + far more than any other European country, France being scarcely + represented at all (Merrick, _Work Among the Fallen_, 1890, pp. + 14-18). It is, of course, possible that the proportions among + those who pass through a prison do not accurately represent the + proportions among prostitutes generally. The registers of the + London Salvation Army Rescue Home show that sixty per cent. of + the girls and women come from the provinces (A. Sherwell, _Life + in West London_, Ch. V). This is exactly the same proportion as + Tait found among prostitutes generally, half a century earlier, + in Edinburgh. Sanger found that of 2000 prostitutes in New York + as many as 1238 were born abroad (706 in Ireland), while of the + remaining 762 only half were born in the State of New York, and + clearly (though the exact figures are not given) a still smaller + proportion in New York City. Prostitutes come from the + North--where the climate is uncongenial, and manufacturing and + sedentary occupations prevail--much more than from the South; + thus Maine, a cold bleak maritime State, sent twenty-four of + these prostitutes to New York, while equidistant Virginia, which + at the same rate should have sent seventy-two, only sent nine; + there was a similar difference between Rhode Island and Maryland + (Sanger, _History of Prostitution_, p. 452). It is instructive to + see here the influence of a dreary climate and monotonous labor + in stimulating the appetite for a "life of pleasure." In France, + as shown by a map in Parent-Duchatelet's work (vol. i, pp. 37-64, + 1857), if the country is divided into five zones, on the whole + running east and west, there is a steady and progressive decrease + in the number of prostitutes each zone sends to Paris, as we + descend southwards. Little more than a third seem to belong to + Paris, and, as in America, it is the serious and hard-working + North, with its relatively cold climate, which furnishes the + largest contingent; even in old France, Dufour remarks (_op. + cit._, vol. iv, Ch. XV), prostitution, as the _fabliaux_ and + _romans_ show, was less infamous in the _langue d'oil_ than in + the _langue d'oc_, so that they were doubtless rare in the + South. At a later period Reuss states (_La Prostitution_, p. 12) + that "nearly all the prostitutes of Paris come from the + provinces." Jeannel found that of one thousand Bordeaux + prostitutes only forty-six belonged to the city itself, and + Potton (Appendix to Parent-Duchatelet, vol. ii, p. 446) states + that of nearly four thousand Lyons prostitutes only 376 belonged + to Lyons. In Vienna, in 1873, Schrank remarks that of over 1500 + prostitutes only 615 were born in Vienna. The general rule, it + will be seen, though the variations are wide, is that little more + than a third of a city's prostitutes are children of the city. + + It is interesting to note that this tendency of the prostitute to + reach cities from afar, this migratory tendency--which they + nowadays share with waiters--is no merely modern phenomenon. + "There are few cities in Lombardy, or France, or Gaul," wrote St. + Boniface nearly twelve centuries ago, "in which there is not an + adulteress or prostitute of the English nation," and the Saint + attributes this to the custom of going on pilgrimage to foreign + shrines. At the present time there is no marked English element + among Continental prostitutes. Thus in Paris, according to Reuss + (_La Prostitution_, p. 12), the foreign prostitutes in decreasing + order are Belgian, German (Alsace-Lorraine), Swiss (especially + Geneva), Italian, Spanish, and only then English. Connoisseurs in + this matter say, indeed, that the English prostitute, as compared + with her Continental (and especially French) sister, fails to + show to advantage, being usually grasping as regards money and + deficient in charm. + +It is the appeal of civilization, though not of what is finest and best in +civilization, which more than any other motive, calls women to the career +of a prostitute. It is now necessary to point out that for the man also, +the same appeal makes itself felt in the person of the prostitute. The +common and ignorant assumption that prostitution exists to satisfy the +gross sensuality of the young unmarried man, and that if he is taught to +bridle gross sexual impulse or induced to marry early the prostitute must +be idle, is altogether incorrect. If all men married when quite young, not +only would the remedy be worse than the disease--a point which it would be +out of place to discuss here--but the remedy would not cure the disease. +The prostitute is something more than a channel to drain off superfluous +sexual energy, and her attraction by no means ceases when men are married, +for a large number of the men who visit prostitutes, if not the majority, +are married. And alike whether they are married or unmarried the motive +is not one of uncomplicated lust. + + In England, a well-informed writer remarks that "the value of + marriage as a moral agent is evidenced by the fact that all the + better-class prostitutes in London are almost entirely supported + by married men," while in Germany, as stated in the interesting + series of reminiscences by a former prostitute, Hedwig Hard's + _Beichte einer Gefallenen_, (p. 208), the majority of the men who + visit prostitutes are married. The estimate is probably + excessive. Neisser states that only twenty-five per cent. of + cases of gonorrhoea occur in married men. This indication is + probably misleading in the opposite direction, as the married + would be less reckless than the young and unmarried. As regards + the motives which lead married men to prostitutes, Hedwig Hard + narrates from her own experiences an incident which is + instructive and no doubt typical. In the town in which she lived + quietly as a prostitute a man of the best social class was + introduced by a friend, and visited her habitually. She had often + seen and admired his wife, who was one of the beauties of the + place, and had two charming children; husband and wife seemed + devoted to each other, and every one envied their happiness. He + was a man of intellect and culture who encouraged Hedwig's love + of books; she became greatly attached to him, and one day + ventured to ask him how he could leave his lovely and charming + wife to come to one who was not worthy to tie her shoe-lace. + "Yes, my child," he answered, "but all her beauty and culture + brings nothing to my heart. She is cold, cold as ice, proper, + and, above all, phlegmatic. Pampered and spoilt, she lives only + for herself; we are two good comrades, and nothing more. If, for + instance, I come back from the club in the evening and go to her + bed, perhaps a little excited, she becomes nervous and she thinks + it improper to wake her. If I kiss her she defends herself, and + tells me that I smell horribly of cigars and wine. And if perhaps + I attempt more, she jumps out of bed, bristles up as though I + were assaulting her, and threatens to throw herself out of the + window if I touch her. So, for the sake of peace, I leave her + alone and come to you." There can be no doubt whatever that this + is the experience of many married men who would be well content + to find the sweetheart as well as the friend in their wives. But + the wives, from a variety of causes, have proved incapable of + becoming the sexual mates of their husbands. And the husbands, + without being carried away by any impulse of strong passion or + any desire for infidelity, seek abroad what they cannot find at + home. + + This is not the only reason why married men visit prostitutes. + Even men who are happily married to women in all chief respects + fitted to them, are apt to find, after some years of married + life, a mysterious craving for variety. They are not tired of + their wives, they have not the least wish or intention to abandon + them, they will not, if they can help it, give them the slightest + pain. But from time to time they are led by an almost + irresistible and involuntary impulse to seek a temporary intimacy + with women to whom nothing would persuade them to join themselves + permanently. Pepys, whose _Diary_, in addition to its other + claims upon us, is a psychological document of unique importance, + furnishes a very characteristic example of this kind of impulse. + He had married a young and charming wife, to whom he is greatly + attached, and he lives happily with her, save for a few + occasional domestic quarrels soon healed by kisses; his love is + witnessed by his jealousy, a jealousy which, as he admits, is + quite unreasonable, for she is a faithful and devoted wife. Yet a + few years after marriage, and in the midst of a life of strenuous + official activity, Pepys cannot resist the temptation to seek the + temporary favors of other women, seldom prostitutes, but nearly + always women of low social class--shop women, workmen's wives, + superior servant-girls. Often he is content to invite them to a + quiet ale-house, and to take a few trivial liberties. Sometimes + they absolutely refuse to allow more than this; when that happens + he frequently thanks Almighty God (as he makes his entry in his + _Diary_ at night) that he has been saved from temptation and from + loss of time and money; in any case, he is apt to vow that it + shall never occur again. It always does occur again. Pepys is + quite sincere with himself; he makes no attempt at justification + or excuse; he knows that he has yielded to a temptation; it is an + impulse that comes over him at intervals, an impulse that he + seems unable long to resist. Throughout it all he remains an + estimable and diligent official, and in most respects a tolerably + virtuous man, with a genuine dislike of loose people and loose + talk. The attitude of Pepys is brought out with incomparable + simplicity and sincerity because he is setting down these things + for his own eyes only, but his case is substantially that of a + vast number of other men, perhaps indeed of the typical _homme + moyen sensuel_ (see Pepys, _Diary_, ed. Wheatley; e.g., vol. iv, + passim). + + There is a third class of married men, less considerable in + number but not unimportant, who are impelled to visit + prostitutes: the class of sexually perverted men. There are a + great many reasons why such men may desire to be married, and in + some cases they marry women with whom they find it possible to + obtain the particular form of sexual gratification they crave. + But in a large proportion of cases this is not possible. The + conventionally bred woman often cannot bring herself to humor + even some quite innocent fetishistic whim of her husband's, for + it is too alien to her feelings and too incomprehensible to her + ideas, even though she may be genuinely in love with him; in many + cases the husband would not venture to ask, and scarcely even + wish, that his wife should lend herself to play the fantastic or + possibly degrading part his desires demand. In such a case he + turns naturally to the prostitute, the only woman whose business + it is to fulfil his peculiar needs. Marriage has brought no + relief to these men, and they constitute a noteworthy proportion + of a prostitute's clients in every great city. The most ordinary + prostitute of any experience can supply cases from among her own + visitors to illustrate a treatise of psychopathic sexuality. It + may suffice here to quote a passage from the confessions of a + young London (Strand) prostitute as written down from her lips by + a friend to whom I am indebted for the document; I have merely + turned a few colloquial terms into more technical forms. After + describing how, when she was still a child of thirteen in the + country, a rich old gentleman would frequently come and exhibit + himself before her and other girls, and was eventually arrested + and imprisoned, she spoke of the perversities she had met with + since she had become a prostitute. She knew a young man, about + twenty-five, generally dressed in a sporting style, who always + came with a pair of live pigeons, which he brought in a basket. + She and the girl with whom she lived had to undress and take the + pigeons and wring their necks; he would stand in front of them, + and as the necks were wrung orgasm occurred. Once a man met her + in the street and asked her if he might come with her and lick + her boots. She agreed, and he took her to a hotel, paid half a + guinea for a room, and, when she sat down, got under the table + and licked her boots, which were covered with mud; he did nothing + more. Then there were some things, she said, that were too dirty + to repeat; well, one man came home with her and her friend and + made them urinate into his mouth. She also had stories of + flagellation, generally of men who whipped the girls, more rarely + of men who liked to be whipped by them. One man, who brought a + new birch every time, liked to whip her friend until he drew + blood. She knew another man who would do nothing but smack her + nates violently. Now all these things, which come into the + ordinary day's work of the prostitute, are rooted in deep and + almost irresistible impulses (as will be clear to any reader of + the discussion of Erotic Symbolism in the previous volume of + these _Studies_). They must find some outlet. But it is only the + prostitute who can be relied upon, through her interests and + training, to overcome the natural repulsion to such actions, and + gratify desires which, without gratification, might take on other + and more dangerous forms. + +Although Woods Hutchinson quotes with approval the declaration of a +friend, "Out of thousands I have never seen one with good table manners," +there is still a real sense in which the prostitute represents, however +inadequately, the attraction of civilization. "There was no house in +which I could habitually see a lady's face and hear a lady's voice," wrote +the novelist Anthony Trollope in his _Autobiography_, concerning his early +life in London. "No allurement to decent respectability came in my way. It +seems to me that in such circumstances the temptations of loose life will +almost certainly prevail with a young man. The temptation at any rate +prevailed with me." In every great city, it has been said, there are +thousands of men who have no right to call any woman but a barmaid by her +Christian name.[210] All the brilliant fever of civilization pulses round +them in the streets but their lips never touch it. It is the prostitute +who incarnates this fascination of the city, far better than the virginal +woman, even if intimacy with her were within reach. The prostitute +represents it because she herself feels it, because she has even +sacrificed her woman's honor in the effort to identify herself with it. +She has unbridled feminine instincts, she is a mistress of the feminine +arts of adornment, she can speak to him concerning the mysteries of +womanhood and the luxuries of sex with an immediate freedom and knowledge +the innocent maiden cloistered in her home would be incapable of. She +appeals to him by no means only because she can gratify the lower desires +of sex, but also because she is, in her way, an artist, an expert in the +art of feminine exploitation, a leader of feminine fashions. For she is +this, and there are, as Simmel has stated in his _Philosophie der Mode_, +good psychological reasons why she always should be this. Her uncertain +social position makes all that is conventional and established hateful to +her, while her temperament makes perpetual novelty delightful. In new +fashions she finds "an aesthetic form of that instinct of destruction which +seems peculiar to all pariah existences, in so far as they are not +completely enslaved in spirit." + + "However surprising it may seem to some," a modern writer + remarks, "prostitutes must be put on the same level as artists. + Both use their gifts and talents for the joy and pleasure of + others, and, as a rule, for payment. What is the essential + difference between a singer who gives pleasure to hearers by her + throat and a prostitute who gives pleasure to those who seek her + by another part of her body? All art works on the senses." He + refers to the significant fact that actors, and especially + actresses, were formerly regarded much as prostitutes are now (R. + Hellmann, _Ueber Geschlechtsfreiheit_, pp. 245-252). + + Bernaldo de Quiros and Llanas Aguilaniedo (_La Mala Vida en + Madrid_, p. 242) trace the same influence still lower in the + social scale. They are describing the more squalid kind of _cafe + chantant_, in which, in Spain and elsewhere, the most vicious and + degenerate feminine creatures become waitresses (and occasionally + singers and dancers), playing the part of amiable and + distinguished _hetairae_ to the public of carmen and shop-boys who + frequent these resorts. "Dressed with what seems to the youth + irreproachable taste, with hair elaborately prepared, and clean + face adorned with flowers or trinkets, affable and at times + haughty, superior in charm and in finery to the other women he is + able to know, the waitresses become the most elevated example of + the _femme galante_ whom he is able to contemplate and talk to, + the courtesan of his sphere." + +But while to the simple, ignorant, and hungry youth the prostitute appeals +as the embodiment of many of the refinements and perversities of +civilization, on many more complex and civilized men she exerts an +attraction of an almost reverse kind. She appeals by her fresh and natural +coarseness, her frank familiarity with the crudest facts of life; and so +lifts them for a moment out of the withering atmosphere of artificial +thought and unreal sentiment in which so many civilized persons are +compelled to spend the greater part of their lives. They feel in the words +which the royal friend of a woman of this temperament is said to have used +in explaining her incomprehensible influence over him: "She is so +splendidly vulgar!" + + In illustration of this aspect of the appeal of prostitution, I + may quote a passage in which the novelist, Hermant, in his + _Confession d'un Enfant d'Hier_ (Lettre VII), has set down the + reasons which may lead the super-refined child of a cultured age, + yet by no means radically or completely vicious, to find + satisfaction in commerce with prostitutes: "As long as my heart + was not touched the object of my satisfaction was completely + indifferent to me. I was, moreover, a great lover of absolute + liberty, which is only possible in the circle of these anonymous + creatures and in their reserved dwelling. There everything became + permissible. With other women, however low we may seek them, + certain convenances must be observed, a kind of protocol. To + these one can say everything: one is protected by incognito and + assured that nothing will be divulged. I profited by this + freedom, which suited my age, but with a perverse fancy which was + not characteristic of my years. I scarcely know where I found + what I said to them, for it was the opposite of my tastes, which + were simple, and, if I may venture to say so, classic. It is true + that, in matters of love, unrestrained naturalism always tends to + perversion, a fact that can only seem paradoxical at first sight. + Primitive peoples have many traits in common with degenerates. It + was, however, only in words that I was unbridled; and that was + the only occasion on which I can recollect seriously lying. But + that necessity, which I then experienced, of expelling a lower + depth of ignoble instincts, seems to me characteristic and + humiliating. I may add that even in the midst of these + dissipations I retained a certain reserve. The contacts to which + I exposed myself failed to soil me; nothing was left when I had + crossed the threshold. I have always retained, from that forcible + and indifferent commerce, the habit of attributing no consequence + to the action of the flesh. The amorous function, which religion + and morality have surrounded with mystery or seasoned with sin, + seems to me a function like any other, a little vile, but + agreeable, and one to which the usual epilogue is too long.... + This kind of companionship only lasted for a short time." This + analysis of the attitude of a certain common type of civilized + modern man seems to be just, but it may perhaps occur to some + readers that a commerce which led to "the action of the flesh" + being regarded as of no consequence can scarcely be said to have + left no taint. + + In a somewhat similar manner, Henri de Regnier, in his novel, + _Les Rencontres de Monsieur Breot_ (p. 50), represents Bercaille + as deliberately preferring to take his pleasures with + servant-girls rather than with ladies, for pleasure was, to his + mind, a kind of service, which could well be accommodated with + the services they are accustomed to give; and then they are + robust and agreeable, they possess the _naivete_ which is always + charming in the common people, and they are not apt to be + repelled by those little accidents which might offend the + fastidious sensibilities of delicately bred ladies. + + Bloch, who has especially emphasized this side of the appeal of + prostitution (_Das Sexualleben unserer Zeit_, pp. 359-362), + refers to the delicate and sensitive young Danish writer, J.P. + Jakobsen, who seems to have acutely felt the contrast between the + higher and more habitual impulses, and the occasional outburst of + what he felt to be lower instincts; in his _Niels Lyhne_ he + describes the kind of double life in which a man is true for a + fortnight to the god he worships, and is then overcome by other + powers which madly bear him in their grip towards what he feels + to be humiliating, perverse, and filthy. "At such moments," Bloch + remarks, "the man is another being. The 'two souls' in the breast + become a reality. Is that the famous scholar, the lofty idealist, + the fine-souled aesthetician, the artist who has given us so many + splendid and pure works in poetry and painting? We no longer + recognize him, for at such moments another being has come to the + surface, another nature is moving within him, and with the power + of an elementary force is impelling him towards things at which + his 'upper consciousness,' the civilized man within him, would + shudder." Bloch believes that we are here concerned with a kind + of normal masculine masochism, which prostitution serves to + gratify. + + +_IV. The Present Social Attitude Towards Prostitution._ + +We have now surveyed the complex fact of prostitution in some of its most +various and typical aspects, seeking to realise, intelligently and +sympathetically, the fundamental part it plays as an elementary +constituent of our marriage system. Finally we have to consider the +grounds on which prostitution now appears to a large and growing number of +persons not only an unsatisfactory method of sexual gratification but a +radically bad method. + +The movement of antagonism towards prostitution manifests itself most +conspicuously, as might beforehand have been anticipated, by a feeling of +repugnance towards the most ancient and typical, once the most credited +and best established prostitutional manifestation, the brothel. The growth +of this repugnance is not confined to one or two countries but is +international, and may thus be regarded as corresponding to a real +tendency in our civilization. It is equally pronounced in prostitutes +themselves and in the people who are their clients. The distaste on the +one side increases the distaste on the other. Since only the most helpless +or the most stupid prostitutes are nowadays willing to accept the +servitude of the brothel, the brothel-keeper is forced to resort to +extraordinary methods for entrapping victims, and even to take part in +that cosmopolitan trade in "white slaves" which exists solely to feed +brothels.[211] This state of things has a natural reaction in prejudicing +the clients of prostitution against an institution which is going out of +fashion and out of credit. An even more fundamental antipathy is +engendered by the fact that the brothel fails to respond to the high +degree of personal freedom and variety which civilization produces, and +always demands even when it fails to produce. On one side the prostitute +is disinclined to enter into a slavery which usually fails even to bring +her any reward; on the other side her client feels it as part of the +fascination of prostitution under civilized conditions that he shall enjoy +a freedom and choice the brothel cannot provide.[212] Thus it comes about +that brothels which once contained nearly all the women who made it a +business to minister to the sexual needs of men, now contain only a +decreasing minority, and that the transformation of cloistered +prostitution into free prostitution is approved by many social reformers +as a gain to the cause of morality.[213] + +The decay of brothels, whether as cause or as effect, has been associated +with a vast increase of prostitution outside brothels. But the repugnance +to brothels in many essential respects also applies to prostitution +generally, and, as we shall see, it is exerting a profoundly modifying +influence on that prostitution. + +The changing feeling in regard to prostitution seems to express itself +mainly in two ways. On the one hand there are those who, without desiring +to abolish prostitution, resent the abnegation which accompanies it, and +are disgusted by its sordid aspects. They may have no moral scruples +against prostitution, and they know no reason why a woman should not +freely do as she will with her own person. But they believe that, if +prostitution is necessary, the relationships of men with prostitutes +should be humane and agreeable to each party, and not degrading to either. +It must be remembered that under the conditions of civilized urban life, +the discipline of work is often too severe, and the excitements of urban +existence too constant, to render an abandonment to orgy a desirable +recreation. The gross form of orgy appeals, not to the town-dweller but to +the peasant, and to the sailor or soldier who reaches the town after long +periods of dreary routine and emotional abstinence. It is a mistake, even, +to suppose that the attraction of prostitution is inevitably associated +with the fulfilment of the sexual act. So far is this from being the case +that the most attractive prostitute may be a woman who, possessing few +sexual needs of her own, desires to please by the charm of her +personality; these are among those who most often find good husbands. +There are many men who are even well content merely to have a few hours' +free intimacy with an agreeable woman, without any further favor, although +that may be open to them. For a very large number of men under urban +conditions of existence the prostitute is ceasing to be the degraded +instrument of a moment's lustful desire; they seek an agreeable human +person with whom they may find relaxation from the daily stress or routine +of life. When an act of prostitution is thus put on a humane basis, +although it by no means thereby becomes conducive to the best development +of either party, it at least ceases to be hopelessly degrading. Otherwise +it would not have been possible for religious prostitution to flourish for +so long in ancient days among honorable women of good birth on the shores +of the Mediterranean, even in regions like Lydia, where the position of +women was peculiarly high.[214] + +It is true that the monetary side of prostitution would still exist. But +it is possible to exaggerate its importance. It must be pointed out that, +though it is usual to speak of the prostitute as a woman who "sells +herself," this is rather a crude and inexact way of expressing, in its +typical form, the relationship of a prostitute to her client. A prostitute +is not a commodity with a market-price, like a loaf or a leg of mutton. +She is much more on a level with people belonging to the professional +classes, who accept fees in return for services rendered; the amount of +the fee varies, on the one hand in accordance with professional standing, +on the other hand in accordance with the client's means, and under special +circumstances may be graciously dispensed with altogether. Prostitution +places on a venal basis intimate relationships which ought to spring up +from natural love, and in so doing degrades them. But strictly speaking +there is in such a case no "sale." To speak of a prostitute "selling +herself" is scarcely even a pardonable rhetorical exaggeration; it is both +inexact and unjust.[215] + + This tendency in an advanced civilization towards the + humanization of prostitution is the reverse process, we may note, + to that which takes place at an earlier stage of civilization + when the ancient conception of the religious dignity of + prostitution begins to fall into disrepute. When men cease to + reverence women who are prostitutes in the service of a goddess + they set up in their place prostitutes who are merely abject + slaves, flattering themselves that they are thereby working in + the cause of "progress" and "morality." On the shores of the + Mediterranean this process took place more than two thousand + years ago, and is associated with the name of Solon. To-day we + may see the same process going on in India. In some parts of + India (as at Jejuri, near Poonah) first born girls are dedicated + to Khandoba or other gods; they are married to the god and termed + _muralis_. They serve in the temple, sweep it, and wash the holy + vessels, also they dance, sing and prostitute themselves. They + are forbidden to marry, and they live in the homes of their + parents, brothers, or sisters; being consecrated to religious + service, they are untouched by degradation. Nowadays, however, + Indian "reformers," in the name of "civilization and science," + seek to persuade the _muralis_ that they are "plunged in a career + of degradation." No doubt in time the would-be moralists will + drive the _muralis_ out of their temples and their homes, deprive + them of all self-respect, and convert them into wretched + outcasts, all in the cause of "science and civilization" (see, + e.g., an article by Mrs. Kashibai Deodhar, _The New Reformer_, + October, 1907). So it is that early reformers create for the + reformers of a later day the task of humanizing prostitution + afresh. + + There can be no doubt that this more humane conception of + prostitution is to-day beginning to be realized in the actual + civilized life of Europe. Thus in writing of prostitution in + Paris, Dr. Robert Michels ("Erotische Streifzuege," + _Mutterschutz_, 1906, Heft 9, p. 368) remarks: "While in Germany + the prostitute is generally considered as an 'outcast' creature, + and treated accordingly, an instrument of masculine lust to be + used and thrown away, and whom one would under no circumstances + recognize in public, in France the prostitute plays in many + respects the part which once give significance and fame to the + _hetairae_ of Athens." And after describing the consideration and + respect which the Parisian prostitute is often able to require of + her friends, and the non-sexual relation of comradeship which she + can enter into with other men, the writer continues: "A girl who + certainly yields herself for money, but by no means for the first + comer's money, and who, in addition to her 'business friends,' + feels the need of, so to say, non-sexual companions with whom she + can associate in a free comrade-like way, and by whom she is + treated and valued as a free human being, is not wholly lost for + the moral worth of humanity." All prostitution is bad, Michels + concludes, but we should have reason to congratulate ourselves if + love-relationships of this Parisian species represented the + lowest known form of extra-conjugal sexuality. (As bearing on the + relative consideration accorded to prostitutes I may mention that + a Paris prostitute remarked to a friend of mine that Englishmen + would ask her questions which no Frenchman would venture to ask.) + + It is not, however, only in Paris, although here more markedly + and prominently, that this humanizing change in prostitution is + beginning to make itself felt. It is manifested, for instance, in + the greater openness of a man's sexual life. "While he formerly + slinked into a brothel in a remote street," Dr. Willy Hellpach + remarks (_Nervositaet und Kultur_, p. 169), "he now walks abroad + with his 'liaison,' visiting the theatres and cafes, without + indeed any anxiety to meet his acquaintances, but with no + embarrassment on that point. The thing is becoming more + commonplace, more--natural." It is also, Hellpach proceeds to + point out, thus becoming more moral also, and much unwholesome + prudery and pruriency is being done away with. + + In England, where change is slow, this tendency to the + humanization of prostitution may be less pronounced. But it + certainly exists. In the middle of the last century Lecky wrote + (_History of European Morals_, vol. ii, p. 285) that habitual + prostitution "is in no other European country so hopelessly + vicious or so irrevocable." That statement, which was also made + by Parent-Duchatelet and other foreign observers, is fully + confirmed by the evidence on record. But it is a statement which + would hardly be made to-day, except perhaps, in reference to + special confined areas of our cities. It is the same in America, + and we may doubtless find this tendency reflected in the report + on _The Social Evil_ (1902), drawn up by a committee in New York, + who gave it (p. 176) as one of their chief recommendations that + prostitution should no longer be regarded as a crime, in which + light, one gathers, it had formerly been regarded in New York. + That may seem but a small step in the path of humanization, but + it is in the right direction. + + It is by no means only in lands of European civilization that we + may trace with developing culture the refinement and humanization + of the slighter bonds of relationship with women. In Japan + exactly the same demands led, several centuries ago, to the + appearance of the geisha. In the course of an interesting and + precise study of the geisha Mr. R.T. Farrer remarks (_Nineteenth + Century_, April, 1904): "The geisha is in no sense necessarily a + courtesan. She is a woman educated to attract; perfected from her + childhood in all the intricacies of Japanese literature; + practiced in wit and repartee; inured to the rapid give-and-take + of conversation on every topic, human and divine. From her + earliest youth she is broken into an inviolable charm of manner + incomprehensible to the finest European, yet she is almost + invariably a blossom of the lower classes, with dumpy claws, and + squat, ugly nails. Her education, physical and moral, is far + harder than that of the _ballerina_, and her success is achieved + only after years of struggle and a bitter agony of torture.... + And the geisha's social position may be compared with that of the + European actress. The Geisha-house offers prizes as desirable as + any of the Western stage. A great geisha with twenty nobles + sitting round her, contending for her laughter, and kept in + constant check by the flashing bodkin of her wit, holds a + position no less high and famous than that of Sarah Bernhardt in + her prime. She is equally sought, equally flattered, quite as + madly adored, that quiet little elderly plain girl in dull blue. + But she is prized thus primarily for her tongue, whose power only + ripens fully as her physical charms decline. She demands vast + sums for her owners, and even so often appears and dances only at + her own pleasure. Few, if any, Westerners ever see a really + famous geisha. She is too great to come before a European, except + for an august or imperial command. Finally she may, and + frequently does, marry into exalted places. In all this there is + not the slightest necessity for any illicit relation." + + In some respects the position of the ancient Greek _hetaira_ was + more analogous to that of the Japanese _geisha_ than to that of + the prostitute in the strict sense. For the Greeks, indeed, the + _hetaira_, was not strictly a _porne_ or prostitute at all. The + name meant friend or companion, and the woman to whom the name + was applied held an honorable position, which could not be + accorded to the mere prostitute. Athenaeus (Bk. xiii, Chs. + XXVIII-XXX) brings together passages showing that the _hetaira_ + could be regarded as an independent citizen, pure, simple, and + virtuous, altogether distinct from the common crew of + prostitutes, though these might ape her name. The _hetairae_ "were + almost the only Greek women," says Donaldson (_Woman_, p. 59), + "who exhibited what was best and noblest in women's nature." This + fact renders it more intelligible why a woman of such + intellectual distinction as Aspasia should have been a _hetaira_. + There seems little doubt as to her intellectual distinction. + "AEschines, in his dialogue entitled 'Aspasia,'" writes Gomperz, + the historian of Greek philosophy (_Greek Thinkers_, vol. iii, + pp. 124 and 343), "puts in the mouth of that distinguished woman + an incisive criticism of the mode of life traditional for her + sex. It would be exceedingly strange," Gomperz adds, in arguing + that an inference may thus be drawn concerning the historical + Aspasia, "if three authors--Plato, Xenophon and AEschines--had + agreed in fictitiously enduing the companion of Pericles with + what we might very reasonably have expected her to possess--a + highly cultivated mind and intellectual influence." It is even + possible that the movement for woman's right which, as we dimly + divine through the pages of Aristophanes, took place in Athens in + the fourth century B.C., was led by _hetairae_. According to Ivo + Bruns (_Frauenemancipation in Athen_, 1900, p. 19) "the most + certain information which we possess concerning Aspasia bears a + strong resemblance to the picture which Euripides and + Aristophanes present to us of the leaders of the woman movement." + It was the existence of this movement which made Plato's ideas on + the community of women appear far less absurd than they do to us. + It may perhaps be thought by some that this movement represented + on a higher plane that love of distruction, or, as we should + better say, that spirit of revolt and aspiration, which Simmel + finds to mark the intellectual and artistic activity of those who + are unclassed or dubiously classed in the social hierarchy. Ninon + de Lenclos, as we have seen, was not strictly a courtesan, but + she was a pioneer in the assertion of woman's rights. Aphra Behn + who, a little later in England, occupied a similarly dubious + social position, was likewise a pioneer in generous humanitarian + aspirations, which have since been adopted in the world at + large. + + These refinements of prostitution may be said to be chiefly the + outcome of the late and more developed stages in civilization. As + Schurtz has put it (_Altersklassen und Maennerbuende_, p. 191): + "The cheerful, skilful and artistically accomplished _hetaira_ + frequently stands as an ideal figure in opposition to the + intellectually uncultivated wife banished to the interior of the + house. The courtesan of the Italian Renaissance, Japanese + geishas, Chinese flower-girls, and Indian bayaderas, all show + some not unnoble features, the breath of a free artistic + existence. They have achieved--with, it is true, the sacrifice of + their highest worth--an independence from the oppressive rule of + man and of household duties, and a part of the feminine endowment + which is so often crippled comes in them to brilliant + development. Prostitution in its best form may thus offer a path + by which these feminine characteristics may exert a certain + influence on the development of civilization. We may also believe + that the artistic activity of women is in some measure able to + offer a counterpoise to the otherwise less pleasant results of + sexual abandonment, preventing the coarsening and destruction of + the emotional life; in his _Magda_ Sudermann has described a type + of woman who, from the standpoint of strict morality, is open to + condemnation, but in her art finds a foothold, the strength of + which even ill-will must unwillingly recognize." In his _Sex and + Character_, Weininger has developed in a more extreme and + extravagant manner the conception of the prostitute as a + fundamental and essential part of life, a permanent feminine + type. + +There are others, apparently in increasing numbers, who approach the +problem of prostitution not from an aesthetic standpoint but from a moral +standpoint. This moral attitude is not, however, that conventionalized +morality of Cato and St. Augustine and Lecky, set forth in previous pages, +according to which the prostitute in the street must be accepted as the +guardian of the wife in the home. These moralists reject indeed the claim +of that belief to be considered moral at all. They hold that it is not +morally possible that the honor of some women shall be purchaseable at the +price of the dishonor of other women, because at such a price virtue loses +all moral worth. When they read that, as Goncourt stated, "the most +luxurious articles of women's _trousseaux_, the bridal chemises of girls +with dowries of six hundred thousand francs, are made in the prison of +Clairvaux,"[216] they see the symbol of the intimate dependence of our +luxurious virtue on our squalid vice. And while they accept the +historical and sociological evidence which shows that prostitution is an +inevitable part of the marriage system which still survives among us, they +ask whether it is not possible so to modify our marriage system that it +shall not be necessary to divide feminine humanity into "disreputable" +women, who make sacrifices which it is dishonorable to make, and +"respectable" women, who take sacrifices which it cannot be less +dishonorable to accept. + + Prostitutes, a distinguished man of science has said (Duclaux, + _L'Hygiene Sociale_, p. 243), "have become things which the + public uses when it wants them, and throws on the dungheap when + it has made them vile. In its pharisaism it even has the + insolence to treat their trade as shameful, as though it were not + just as shameful to buy as to sell in this market." Bloch + (_Sexualleben unserer Zeit_, Ch. XV) insists that prostitution + must be ennobled, and that only so can it be even diminished. + Isidore Dyer, of New Orleans, also argues that we cannot check + prostitution unless we create "in the minds of men and women a + spirit of tolerance instead of intolerance of fallen women." This + point may be illustrated by a remark by the prostitute author of + the _Tagebuch einer Verlorenen_. "If the profession of yielding + the body ceased to be a shameful one," she wrote, "the army of + 'unfortunates' would diminish by four-fifths--I will even say + nine-tenths. Myself, for example! How gladly would I take a + situation as companion or governess!" "One of two things," wrote + the eminent sociologist Tarde ("La Morale Sexuelle," _Archives + d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, January, 1907), "either prostitution + will disappear through continuing to be dishonorable and will be + replaced by some other institution which will better remedy the + defects of monogamous marriage, or it will survive by becoming + respectable, that is to say, by making itself respected, whether + liked or disliked." Tarde thought this might perhaps come about + by a better organization of prostitutes, a more careful selection + among those who desired admission to their ranks and the + cultivation of professional virtues which would raise their moral + level. "If courtesans fulfil a need," Balzac had already said in + his _Physiologie du Mariage_, "they must become an institution." + +This moral attitude is supported and enforced by the inevitable democratic +tendency of civilization which, although it by no means destroys the idea +of class, undermines that idea as the mark of fundamental human +distinctions and renders it superficial. Prostitution no longer makes a +woman a slave; it ought not to make her even a pariah: "My body is my +own," said the young German prostitute of to-day, "and what I do with it +is nobody else's concern." When the prostitute was literally a slave moral +duty towards her was by no means necessarily identical with moral duty +towards the free woman. But when, even in the same family, the prostitute +may be separated by a great and impassable social gulf from her married +sister, it becomes possible to see, and in the opinion of many +imperatively necessary to see, that a readjustment of moral values is +required. For thousands of years prostitution has been defended on the +ground that the prostitute is necessary to ensure the "purity of women." +In a democratic age it begins to be realized that prostitutes also are +women. + +The developing sense of a fundamental human equality underlying the +surface divisions of class tends to make the usual attitude towards the +prostitute, the attitude of her clients even more than that of society +generally, seem painfully cruel. The callous and coarsely frivolous tone +of so many young men about prostitutes, it has been said, is "simply +cruelty of a peculiarly brutal kind," not to be discerned in any other +relation of life.[217] And if this attitude is cruel even in speech it is +still more cruel in action, whatever attempts may be made to disguise its +cruelty. + + Canon Lyttelton's remarks may be taken to refer chiefly to young + men of the upper middle class. Concerning what is perhaps the + usual attitude of lower middle class people towards prostitution, + I may quote from a remarkable communication which has reached me + from Australia: "What are the views of a young man brought up in + a middle-class Christian English family on prostitutes? Take my + father, for instance. He first mentioned prostitutes to me, if I + remember rightly, when speaking of his life before marriage. And + he spoke of them as he would speak of a horse he had hired, paid + for, and dismissed from his mind when it had rendered him + service. Although my mother was so kind and good she spoke of + abandoned women with disgust and scorn as of some unclean animal. + As it flatters vanity and pride to be able with good countenance + and universal consent to look down on something, I soon grasped + the situation and adopted an attitude which is, in the main, that + of most middle-class Christian Englishmen towards prostitutes. + But as puberty develops this attitude has to be accommodated with + the wish to make use of this scum, these moral lepers. The + ordinary young man, who likes a spice of immorality and has it + when in town, and thinks it is not likely to come to his mother's + or sisters' ears, does not get over his arrogance and disgust or + abate them in the least. He takes them with him, more or less + disguised, to the brothel, and they color his thoughts and + actions all the time he is sleeping with prostitutes, or kissing + them, or passing his hands over them, as he would over a mare, + getting as much as he can for his money. To tell the truth, on + the whole, that was my attitude too. But if anyone had asked me + for the smallest reason for this attitude, for this feeling of + superiority, pride, _hauteur_, and prejudice, I should, like any + other 'respectable' young man, have been entirely at a loss, and + could only have gaped foolishly." + +From the modern moral standpoint which now concerns us, not only is the +cruelty involved in the dishonor of the prostitute absurd, but not less +absurd, and often not less cruel, seems the honor bestowed on the +respectable women on the other side of the social gulf. It is well +recognized that men sometimes go to prostitutes to gratify the excitement +aroused by fondling their betrothed.[218] As the emotional and physical +results of ungratified excitement are not infrequently more serious in +women than in men, the betrothed women in these cases are equally +justified in seeking relief from other men, and the vicious circle of +absurdity might thus be completed. + +From the point of view of the modern moralist there is another +consideration which was altogether overlooked in the conventional and +traditional morality we have inherited, and was indeed practically +non-existent in the ancient days when that morality was still a living +reality. Women are no longer divided only into the two groups of wives who +are to be honored, and prostitutes who are the dishonored guardians of +that honor; there is a large third class of women who are neither wives +nor prostitutes. For this group of the unmarried virtuous the traditional +morality had no place at all; it simply ignored them. But the new +moralist, who is learning to recognize both the claims of the individual +and the claims of society, begins to ask whether on the one hand these +women are not entitled to the satisfaction of their affectional and +emotional impulses if they so desire, and on the other hand whether, since +a high civilization involves a diminished birthrate, the community is not +entitled to encourage every healthy and able-bodied woman to contribute to +maintain the birthrate when she so desires. + +All the considerations briefly indicated in the preceding pages--the +fundamental sense of human equality generated by our civilization, the +repugnance to cruelty which accompanies the refinement of urban life, the +ugly contrast of extremes which shock our developing democratic +tendencies, the growing sense of the rights of the individual to authority +over his own person, the no less strongly emphasized right of the +community to the best that the individual can yield--all these +considerations are every day more strongly influencing the modern moralist +to assume towards the prostitute an attitude altogether different from +that of the morality which we derived from Cato and Augustine. He sees the +question in a larger and more dynamic manner. Instead of declaring that it +is well worth while to tolerate and at the same time to condemn the +prostitute, in order to preserve the sanctity of the wife in her home, he +is not only more inclined to regard each as the proper guardian of her own +moral freedom, but he is less certain about the time-honored position of +the prostitute, and moreover, by no means sure that the wife in the home +may not be fully as much in need of rescuing as the prostitute in the +street; he is prepared to consider whether reform in this matter is not +most likely to take place in the shape of a fairer apportionment of sexual +privileges and sexual duties to women generally, with an inevitably +resultant elevation in the sexual lives of men also. + + The revolt of many serious reformers against the injustice and + degradation now involved by our system of prostitution is so + profound that some have declared themselves ready to accept any + revolution of ideas which would bring about a more wholesome + transmutation of moral values. "Better indeed were a saturnalia + of _free_ men and women," exclaims Edward Carpenter (_Love's + Coming of Age_, p. 62), "than the spectacle which, as it is, our + great cities present at night." + + Even those who would be quite content with as conservative a + treatment as possible of social institutions still cannot fail to + realize that prostitution is unsatisfactory, unless we are + content to make very humble claims of the sexual act. "The act of + prostitution," Godfrey declares (_The Science of Sex_, p. 202), + "may be physiologically complete, but it is complete in no other + sense. All the moral and intellectual factors which combine with + physical desire to form the perfect sexual attraction are absent. + All the higher elements of love--admiration, respect, honor, and + self-sacrificing devotion--are as foreign to prostitution as to + the egoistic act of masturbation. The principal drawbacks to the + morality of the act lie in its associations more than in the act + itself. Any affectional quality which a more or less promiscuous + connection might possess is at once destroyed by the intrusion of + the monetary element. In the resulting degradation the woman has + the largest share, since it makes her a pariah and involves her + in all the hardening and depraving influences of social + ostracism. But her degradation only serves to render her + influence on her partners more demoralizing. Prostitution," he + concludes, "has a strong tendency towards emphasizing the + naturally selfish attitude of men towards women, and encouraging + them in the delusion, born of unregulated passions, that the + sexual act itself is the aim and end of the sex life. + Prostitution can therefore make no claim to afford even a + temporary solution to the sex problem. It fulfils only that + mission which has made it a 'necessary evil'--the mission of + palliative to the physical rigors of celibacy and monogamy. It + does so at the cost of a considerable amount of physical and + moral deterioration, much of which is undoubtedly due to the + action of society in completing the degradation of the prostitute + by persistent ostracism. Prostitution was not so great an evil + when it was not thought so great, yet even at its best it was a + real evil, a melancholy and sordid travesty of sincere and + natural passional relations. It is an evil which we are bound to + have with us so long as celibacy is a custom and monogamy a law." + It is the wife as well as the prostitute who is degraded by a + system which makes venal love possible. "The time has gone past," + the same writer remarks elsewhere (p. 195) "when a mere ceremony + can really sanctify what is base and transform lust and greed + into the sincerity of sexual affection. If, to enter into sexual + connections with a man for a solely material end is a disgrace to + humanity, it is a disgrace under the marriage bond just as much + as apart from the hypocritical blessing of the church or the law. + If the public prostitute is a being who deserves to be treated as + a pariah, it is hopelessly irrational to withhold every sort of + moral opprobrium from the woman who leads a similar life under a + different set of external circumstances. Either the prostitute + wife must come under the moral ban, or there must be an end to + the complete ostracism under which the prostitute labors." + + The thinker who more clearly and fundamentally than others, and + first of all, realized the dynamical relationships of + prostitution, as dependent upon a change in the other social + relationships of life, was James Hinton. More than thirty years + ago, in fragmentary writings that still remain unpublished, since + he never worked them into an orderly form, Hinton gave vigorous + and often passionate expression to this fundamental idea. It may + be worth while to quote a few brief passages from Hinton's MSS.: + "I feel that the laws of force should hold also amid the waves of + human passion, that the relations of mechanics are true, and will + rule also in human life.... There is a tension, a crushing of the + soul, by our modern life, and it is ready for a sudden spring to + a different order in which the forces shall rearrange themselves. + It is a dynamical question presented in moral terms.... Keeping a + portion of the woman population without prospect of marriage + means having prostitutes, that is women as instruments of man's + mere sensuality, and this means the killing, in many of them, of + all pure love or capacity of it. This is the fact we have to + face.... To-day I saw a young woman whose life was being consumed + by her want of love, a case of threatened utter misery: now see + the price at which we purchase her ill-health; for her ill-health + we pay the crushing of another girl into hell. We give that for + it; her wretchedness of soul and body are bought by prostitution; + we have prostitutes made for that.... We devote some women + recklessly to perdition to make a hothouse Heaven for the + rest.... One wears herself out in vainly trying to endure + pleasures she is not strong enough to enjoy, while other women + are perishing for lack of these very pleasures. If marriage is + this, is it not embodied lust? The happy Christian homes are the + true dark places of the earth.... Prostitution for man, restraint + for woman--they are two sides of the same thing, and both are + denials of love, like luxury and asceticism. The mountains of + restraint must be used to fill up the abysses of luxury." + + Some of Hinton's views were set forth by a writer intimately + acquainted with him in a pamphlet entitled _The Future of + Marriage: An Eirenicon for a Question of To-day_, by a + Respectable Woman (1885). "When once the conviction is forced + home upon the 'good' women," the writer remarks, "that their + place of honor and privilege rests upon the degradation of others + as its basis, they will never rest till they have either + abandoned it or sought for it some other pedestal. If our + inflexible marriage system has for its essential condition the + existence side by side with it of prostitution, then one of two + things follows: either prostitution must be shown to be + compatible with the well-being, moral and physical, of the women + who practice it, or our marriage system must be condemned. If it + was clearly put before anyone, he could not seriously assert that + to be 'virtue' which could only be practiced at the expense of + another's vice.... Whilst the laws of physics are becoming so + universally recognized that no one dreams of attempting to + annihilate a particle of matter, or of force, yet we do not + instinctively apply the same conception to moral forces, but + think and act as if we could simply do away with an evil, while + leaving unchanged that which gives it its strength. This is the + only view of the social problem which can give us hope. That + prostitution should simply cease, leaving everything else as it + is, would be disastrous if it were possible. But it is not + possible. The weakness of all existing efforts to put down + prostitution is that they are directed against it as an isolated + thing, whereas it is only one of the symptoms proceeding from a + common disease." + + Ellen Key, who during recent years has been the chief apostle of + a gospel of sexual morality based on the needs of women as the + mothers of the race, has, in a somewhat similar spirit, denounced + alike prostitution and rigid marriage, declaring (in her _Essays + on Love and Marriage_) that "the development of erotic personal + consciousness is as much hindered by socially regulated + 'morality' as by socially regulated 'immorality,'" and that "the + two lowest and socially sanctioned expressions of sexual dualism, + rigid marriage and prostitution, will gradually become + impossible, because with the conquest of the idea of erotic unity + they will no longer correspond to human needs." + +We may sum up the present situation as regards prostitution by saying that +on the one hand there is a tendency for its elevation, in association with +the growing humanity and refinement of civilization, characteristics which +must inevitably tend to mark more and more both those women who become +prostitutes and those men who seek them; on the other hand, but perhaps +through the same dynamic force, there is a tendency towards the slow +elimination of prostitution by the successful competition of higher and +purer methods of sexual relationship freed from pecuniary considerations. +This refinement and humanization, this competition by better forms of +sexual love, are indeed an essential part of progress as civilization +becomes more truly sound, wholesome, and sincere. + +This moral change cannot, it seems probable, fail to be accompanied by the +realization that the facts of human life are more important than the +forms. For all changes from lower to higher social forms, from savagery to +civilization, are accompanied--in so far as they are vital changes--by a +slow and painful groping towards the truth that it is only in natural +relations that sanity and sanctity can be found, for, as Nietzsche said, +the "return" to Nature should rather be called the "ascent." Only so can +we achieve the final elimination from our hearts of that clinging +tradition that there is any impurity or dishonor in acts of love for which +the reasonable, and not merely the conventional, conditions have been +fulfilled. For it is vain to attempt to cleanse our laws, or even our +by-laws, until we have first cleansed our hearts. + +It would be out of place here to push further the statement of the moral +question as it is to-day beginning to shape itself in the sphere of sex. +In a psychological discussion we are only concerned to set down the actual +attitude of the moralist, and of civilization. The practical outcome of +that attitude must be left to moralists and sociologists and the community +generally to work out. + +Our inquiry has also, it may be hoped, incidentally tended to show that in +practically dealing with the question of prostitution it is pre-eminently +necessary to remember the warning which, as regards many other social +problems, has been embodied by Herbert Spencer in his famous illustration +of the bent iron plate. In trying to make the bent plate smooth, it is +useless, Spencer pointed out, to hammer directly on the buckled up part; +if we do so we merely find that we have made matters worse; our hammering, +to be effective, must be around, and not directly on, the offensive +elevation we wish to reduce; only so can the iron plate be hammered +smooth.[219] But this elementary law has not been understood by +moralists. The plain, practical, common-sense reformer, as he fancied +himself to be--from the time of Charlemagne onwards--has over and over +again brought his heavy fist directly down on to the evil of prostitution +and has always made matters worse. It is only by wisely working outside +and around the evil that we can hope to lessen it effectually. By aiming +to develop and raise the relationships of men to women, and of women to +women, by modifying our notions of sexual relationships, and by +introducing a saner and truer conception of womanhood and of the +responsibilities of women as well as of men, by attaining, socially as +well as economically, a higher level of human living--it is only by such +methods as these that we can reasonably expect to see any diminution and +alleviation of the evil of prostitution. So long as we are incapable of +such methods we must be content with the prostitution we deserve, learning +to treat it with the pity, and the respect, which so intimate a failure of +our civilization is entitled to. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[107] See, e.g., Cheetham's Hulsean Lectures, _The Mysteries, Pagan and +Christian_, pp. 123, 136. + +[108] Hormayr's _Taschenbuch_, 1835, p. 255. Hagelstange, in a chapter on +mediaeval festivals in his _Sueddeutsches Bauernleben im Mittelalter_, +shows how, in these Christian orgies which were really of pagan origin, the +German people reacted with tremendous and boisterous energy against the +laborious and monotonous existence of everyday life. + +[109] This was clearly realized by the more intelligent upholders of the +Feast of Fools. Austere persons wished to abolish this Feast, and in a +remarkable petition sent up to the Theological Faculty of Paris (and +quoted by Flogel, _Geschichte des Grotesk-Komischen_, fourth edition, p. +204) the case for the Feast is thus presented: "We do this according to +ancient custom, in order that folly, which is second nature to man and +seems to be inborn, may at least once a year have free outlet. Wine casks +would burst if we failed sometimes to remove the bung and let in air. Now +we are all ill-bound casks and barrels which would let out the wine of +wisdom if by constant devotion and fear of God we allowed it to ferment. +We must let in air so that it may not be spoilt. Thus on some days we give +ourselves up to sport, so that with the greater zeal we may afterwards +return to the worship of God." The Feast of Fools was not suppressed until +the middle of the sixteenth century, and relics of it persisted (as at +Aix) till near the end of the eighteenth century. + +[110] A Meray, _La Vie au Temps des Libres Precheurs_, vol. ii, Ch. X. A +good and scholarly account of the Feast of Fools is given by E.K. +Chambers, _The Mediaeval Stage_, Ch. XIII. It is true that the Church and +the early Fathers often anathematized the theatre. But Gregory of +Nazianzen wished to found a Christian theatre; the Mediaeval Mysteries were +certainly under the protection of the clergy; and St. Thomas Aquinas, the +greatest of the schoolmen, only condemns the theatre with cautious +qualifications. + +[111] Spencer and Gillen, _Northern Tribes of Central Australia_, Ch. XII. + +[112] _Journal Anthropological Institute_, July-Dec., 1904, p. 329. + +[113] Westermarck (_Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. ii, +pp. 283-9) shows how widespread is the custom of setting apart a +periodical rest day. + +[114] A.E. Crawley, _The Mystic Rose_, pp. 273 et seq., Crawley brings +into association with this function of great festivals the custom, found +in some parts of the world, of exchanging wives at these times. "It has +nothing whatever to do with the marriage system, except as breaking it for +a season, women of forbidden degree being lent, on the same grounds as +conventions and ordinary relations are broken at festivals of the +Saturnalia type, the object being to change life and start afresh, by +exchanging every thing one can, while the very act of exchange coincides +with the other desire, to weld the community together" (Ib., p. 479). + +[115] See "The Analysis of the Sexual Impulse" in vol. iii of these +_Studies_. + +[116] G. Murray, _Ancient Greek Literature_, p. 211. + +[117] The Greek drama probably arose out of a folk-festival of more or +less sexual character, and it is even possible that the mediaeval drama had +a somewhat similar origin (see Donaldson, _The Greek Theatre_; Gilbert +Murray, loc. cit.; Karl Pearson, _The Chances of Death_, vol. ii, pp. +135-6, 280 et seq.). + +[118] R. Canudo, "Les Choreges Francais," _Mercure de France_, May 1, +1907, p. 180. + +[119] "This is, in fact," Cyples declares (_The Process of Human +Experience_, p. 743), "Art's great function--to rehearse within us greater +egoistic possibilities, to habituate us to larger actualizations of +personality in a rudimentary manner," and so to arouse, "aimlessly but +splendidly, the sheer as yet unfulfilled possibilities within us." + +[120] Even when monotonous labor is intellectual, it is not thereby +protected against degrading orgiastic reactions. Prof. L. Gurlitt shows +(_Die Neue Generation_, January, 1909, pp. 31-6) how the strenuous, +unremitting intellectual work of Prussian seminaries leads among both +teachers and scholars to the worst forms of the orgy. + +[121] Rabutaux discusses various definitions of prostitution, _De la +Prostitution en Europe_, pp. 119 et seq. For the origin of the names to +designate the prostitute, see Schrader, _Reallexicon_, art. +"Beischlaeferin." + +[122] _Digest_, lib. xxiii, tit. ii, p. 43. If she only gave herself to +one or two persons, though for money, it was not prostitution. + +[123] Guyot, _La Prostitution_, p. 8. The element of venality is +essential, and religious writers (like Robert Wardlaw, D.D., of Edinburgh, +in his _Lectures on Female Prostitution_, 1842, p. 14) who define +prostitution as "the illicit intercourse of the sexes," and synonymous +with theological "fornication," fall into an absurd confusion. + +[124] "Such marriages are sometimes stigmatized as 'legalized +prostitution,'" remarks Sidgwick (_Methods of Ethics_, Bk. iii, Ch. XI), +"but the phrase is felt to be extravagant and paradoxical." + +[125] Bonger, _Criminalite et Conditions Economiques_, p. 378. Bonger +believes that the act of prostitution is "intrinsically equal to that of a +man or woman who contracts a marriage for economical reasons." + +[126] E. Richard, _La Prostitution a Paris_, 1890, p. 44. It may be +questioned whether publicity or notoriety should form an essential part of +the definition; it seems, however, to be involved, or the prostitute +cannot obtain clients. Reuss states that she must, in addition, be +absolutely without means of subsistence; that is certainly not essential. +Nor is it necessary, as the _Digest_ insisted, that the act should be +performed "without pleasure;" that may be as it will, without affecting +the prostitutional nature of the act. + +[127] Hawkesworth, _Account of the Voyages_, etc., 1775, vol. ii, p. 254. + +[128] R.W. Codrington, _The Melanesians_, p. 235. + +[129] F.S. Krauss, _Romanische Forschungen_, 1903, p. 290. + +[130] H. Schurtz, _Altersklassen und Maennerbuende_, 1902, p. 190. In this +work Schurtz brings together (pp. 189-201) some examples of the germs of +prostitution among primitive peoples. Many facts and references are given +by Westermarck (_History of Human Marriage_, pp. 66 et seq., and _Origin +and Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. ii, pp. 441 _et seq._). + +[131] Bachofen (more especially in his _Mutterrecht_ and _Sage von +Tanaquil_) argued that even religious prostitution sprang from the +resistance of primitive instincts to the individualization of love. Cf. +Robertson Smith, _Religion of Semites_, second edition, p. 59. + +[132] Whatever the reason may be, there can be no doubt that there is a +widespread tendency for religion and prostitution to be associated; it is +possibly to some extent a special case of that general connection between +the religious and sexual impulses which has been discussed elsewhere +(Appendix C to vol. i of these _Studies_). Thus A.B. Ellis, in his book on +_The Ewe-speaking Peoples of West Africa_ (pp. 124, 141) states that here +women dedicated to a god become promiscuous prostitutes. W.G. Sumner +(_Folkways_, Ch. XVI) brings together many facts concerning the wide +distribution of religious prostitution. + +[133] Herodotus, Bk. I, Ch. CXCIX; Baruch, Ch. VI, p. 43. Modern scholars +confirm the statements of Herodotus from the study of Babylonian +literature, though inclined to deny that religious prostitution occupied +so large a place as he gives it. A tablet of the Gilgamash epic, according +to Morris Jastrow, refers to prostitutes as attendants of the goddess +Ishtar in the city Uruk (or Erech), which was thus a centre, and perhaps +the chief centre, of the rites described by Herodotus (Morris Jastrow, +_The Religion of Babylonia and Assyria_, 1898, p. 475). Ishtar was the +goddess of fertility, the great mother goddess, and the prostitutes were +priestesses, attached to her worship, who took part in ceremonies intended +to symbolize fertility. These priestesses of Ishtar were known by the +general name Kadishtu, "the holy ones" (op. cit., pp. 485, 660). + +[134] It is usual among modern writers to associate Aphrodite Pandemos, +rather than Ourania, with venal or promiscuous sexuality, but this is a +complete mistake, for the Aphrodite Pandemos was purely political and had +no sexual significance. The mistake was introduced, perhaps intentionally, +by Plato. It has been suggested that that arch-juggler, who disliked +democratic ideas, purposely sought to pervert and vulgarize the conception +of Aphrodite Pandemos (Farnell, _Cults of Greek States_, vol. ii, p. 660). + +[135] Athenaeus, Bk. xiii, cap. XXXII. It appears that the only other +Hellenic community where the temple cult involved unchastity was a city of +the Locri Epizephyrii (Farnell, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 636). + +[136] I do not say an earlier "promiscuity," for the theory of a primitive +sexual promiscuity is now widely discredited, though there can be no +reasonable doubt that the early prevalence of mother-right was more +favorable to the sexual freedom of women than the later patriarchal +system. Thus in very early Egyptian days a woman could give her favors to +any man she chose by sending him her garment, even if she were married. In +time the growth of the rights of men led to this being regarded as +criminal, but the priestesses of Amen retained the privilege to the last, +as being under divine protection (Flinders Petrie, _Egyptian Tales_, pp. +10, 48). + +[137] It should be added that Farnell ("The Position of Women in Ancient +Religion," _Archiv fuer Religionswissenschaft_, 1904, p. 88) seeks to +explain the religious prostitution of Babylonia as a special religious +modification of the custom of destroying virginity before marriage in +order to safeguard the husband from the mystic dangers of defloration. +E.S. Hartland, also ("Concerning the Rite at the Temple of Mylitta," +_Anthropological Essays Presented to E.B. Tyler_, p. 189), suggests that +this was a puberty rite connected with ceremonial defloration. This theory +is not, however, generally accepted by Semitic scholars. + +[138] The girls of this tribe, who are remarkably pretty, after spending +two or three years in thus amassing a little dowry, return home to marry, +and are said to make model wives and mothers. They are described by +Bertherand in Parent-Duchatelet, _La Prostitution a Paris_, vol. ii, p. +539. + +[139] In Abyssinia (according to Fiaschi, _British Medical Journal_, March +13, 1897), where prostitution has always been held in high esteem, the +prostitutes, who are now subject to medical examination twice a week, +still attach no disgrace to their profession, and easily find husbands +afterwards. Potter (_Sohrab and Rustem_, pp. 168 et seq.) gives references +as regards peoples, widely dispersed in the Old World and the New, among +whom the young women have practiced prostitution to obtain a dowry. + +[140] At Tralles, in Lydia, even in the second century A.D., as Sir W.M. +Ramsay notes (_Cities of Phrygia_, vol. i, pp. 94, 115), sacred +prostitution was still an honorable practice for women of good birth who +"felt themselves called upon to live the divine life under the influence +of divine inspiration." + +[141] The gradual secularization of prostitution from its earlier +religious form has been traced by various writers (see, e.g., Dupouey, _La +Prostitution dans l'Antiquite_). The earliest complimentary reference to +the _Hetaira_ in literature is to be found, according to Benecke +(_Antimachus of Colophon_, p. 36), in Bacchylides. + +[142] Cicero, _Oratio pro Coelio_, Cap. XX. + +[143] Pierre Dufour, _Histoire de la Prostitution_, vol. ii, Chs. XIX-XX. +The real author of this well-known history of prostitution, which, though +not scholarly in its methods, brings together a great mass of interesting +information, is said to be Paul Lacroix. + +[144] Rabutaux, in his _Histoire de la Prostitution en Europe_, describes +many attempts to suppress prostitution; cf. Dufour, _op. cit._, vol. iii. + +[145] Dufour, op. cit., vol. vi, Ch. XLI. It was in the reign of the +homosexual Henry III that the tolerance of brothels was established. + +[146] In the eighteenth century, especially, houses of prostitution in +Paris attained to an astonishing degree of elaboration and prosperity. +Owing to the constant watchful attention of the police a vast amount of +detailed information concerning these establishments was accumulated, and +during recent years much of it has been published. A summary of this +literature will be found in Duehren's _Neue Forshungen ueber den Marquis de +Sade und seine Zeit_, 1904, pp. 97 et seq. + +[147] Rabutaux, op. cit., p. 54. + +[148] Calza has written the history of Venetian prostitution; and some of +the documents he found have been reproduced by Mantegazza, _Gli Amori +degli Uomimi_, cap. XIV. At the beginning of the seventeenth century, a +comparatively late period, Coryat visited Venice, and in his _Crudities_ +gives a full and interesting account of its courtesans, who then numbered, +he says, at least 20,000; the revenue they brought into the State +maintained a dozen galleys. + +[149] J. Schrank, _Die Prostitution in Wien_, Bd. I, pp. 152-206. + +[150] U. Robert, _Les Signes d'Infamie au Moyen Age_, Ch. IV. + +[151] Rudeck (_Geschichte der oeffentlichen Sittlichkeit in Deutschland_, +pp. 26-36) gives many details concerning the important part played by +prostitutes and brothels in mediaeval German life. + +[152] They are described by Rabutaux, op. cit., pp. 90 _et seq._ + +[153] _L'Annee Sociologique_, seventh year, 1904, p. 440. + +[154] Bloch, _Der Ursprung der Syphilis_. As regards the German +"Frauenhausen" see Max Bauer, _Das Geschlechtsleben in der Deutschen +Vergangenheit_, pp. 133-214. In Paris, Dufour states (op. cit., vol. v, +Ch. XXXIV), brothels under the ordinances of St. Louis had many rights +which they lost at last in 1560, when they became merely tolerated houses, +without statutes, special costumes, or confinement to special streets. + +[155] "Cortegiana, hoc est meretrix honesta," wrote Burchard, the Pope's +Secretary, at the beginning of the sixteenth century, _Diarium_, ed. +Thuasne, vol. ii, p. 442; other authorities are quoted by Thuasne in a +note. + +[156] Burchard, _Diarium_, vol. iii, p. 167. Thuasne quotes other +authorities in confirmation. + +[157] The example of Holland, where some large cities have adopted the +regulation of prostitution and others have not, is instructive as regards +the illusory nature of the advantages of regulation. In 1883 Dr. Despres +brought forward figures, supplied by Dutch officials, showing that in +Rotterdam, where prostitution was regulated, both prostitution and +venereal diseases were more prevalent than in Amsterdam, a city without +regulation (A. Despres, _La Prostitution en France_, p. 122). + +[158] It was in 1802 that the medical inspection of prostitutes in Paris +brothels was introduced, though not until 1825 fully established and made +general. + +[159] M.L. Heidingsfeld, "The Control of Prostitution," _Journal American +Medical Association_, January 30, 1904. + +[160] See, e.g., G. Berault, _La Maison de Tolerance_, These de Paris, +1904. + +[161] Thus the circumstances of the English army in India are of a special +character. A number of statements (from the reports of committees, +official publications, etc.) regarding the good influence of regulation in +reducing venereal diseases in India are brought together by +Surgeon-Colonel F.H. Welch, "The Prevention of Syphilis," _Lancet_, August +12, 1899. The system has been abolished, but only as the result of a +popular outcry and not on the question of its merits. + +[162] Thus Richard, who accepts regulation and was instructed to report on +it for the Paris Municipal Council, would not have girls inscribed as +professional prostitutes until they are of age and able to realize what +they are binding themselves to (E. Richard, _La Prostitution a Paris_, p. +147). But at that age a large proportion of prostitutes have been +practicing their profession for years. + +[163] In Germany, where the cure of infected prostitutes under regulation +is nearly everywhere compulsory, usually at the cost of the community, it +is found that 18 is the average age at which they are affected by +syphilis; the average age of prostitutes in brothels is higher than that +of those outside, and a much larger proportion have therefore become +immune to disease (Blaschko, "Hygiene der Syphilis," in Weyl's _Handbuch +der Hygiene_, Bd. ii, p. 62, 1900). + +[164] A. Sherwell, _Life in West London_, 1897, Ch. V. + +[165] Bonger brings together statistics illustrating this point, op. cit., +pp. 402-6. + +[166] _The Nightless City_, p. 125. + +[167] Stroehmberg, as quoted by Aschaffenburg, _Das Verbrechen_, 1903, p. +77. + +[168] _Monatsschrift fuer Harnkrankheiten und Sexuelle Hygiene_, 1906. Heft +10, p. 460. But this cause is undoubtedly effective in some cases of +unmarried women in Germany unable to get work (see article by Sister +Henrietta Arendt, Police-Assistant at Stuttgart, _Sexual-Probleme_, +December, 1908). + +[169] Thus, for instance, we find Irma von Troll-Borostyani saying in her +book, _Im Freien Reich_ (p. 176): "Go and ask these unfortunate creatures +if they willingly and freely devoted themselves to vice. And nearly all of +them will tell you a story of need and destitution, of hunger and lack of +work, which compelled them to it, or else of love and seduction and the +fear of the discovery of their false step which drove them out of their +homes, helpless and forsaken, into the pool of vice from which there is +hardly any salvation." It is, of course, quite true that the prostitute is +frequently ready to tell such stories to philanthropic persons who expect +to hear them, and sometimes even put the words into her mouth. + +[170] C. Booth, _Life and Labour_, final volume, p. 125. Similarly in +Sweden, Kullberg states that girls of thirteen to seventeen, living at +home with their parents in comfortable circumstances, have often been +found on the streets. + +[171] W. Acton, _Prostitution_, 1870, pp. 39, 49. + +[172] In Lyons, according to Potton, of 3884 prostitutes, 3194 abandoned, +or apparently abandoned, their profession; in Paris a very large number +became servants, dressmakers, or tailoresses, occupations which, in many +cases, doubtless, they had exercised before (Parent-Duchatelet, _De la +Prostitution_, 1857, vol. i, p. 584; vol. ii, p. 451). Sloggett (quoted by +Acton) stated that at Davenport, 250 of the 1775 prostitutes there +married. It is well known that prostitutes occasionally marry extremely +well. It was remarked nearly a century ago that marriages of prostitutes +to rich men were especially frequent in England, and usually turned out +well; the same seems to be true still. In their own social rank they not +infrequently marry cabmen and policemen, the two classes of men with whom +they are brought most closely in contact in the streets. As regards +Germany, C.K. Schneider (_Die Prostituirte und die Gesellschaft_), states +that young prostitutes take up all sorts of occupations and situations, +sometimes, if they have saved a little money, establishing a business, +while old prostitutes become procuresses, brothel-keepers, lavatory women, +and so on. Not a few prostitutes marry, he adds, but the proportion among +inscribed German prostitutes is very small, less than 2 per cent. + +[173] G. de Molinari, _La Viriculture_, 1897, p. 155. + +[174] Reuss and other writers have reproduced typical extracts from the +private account books of prostitutes, showing the high rate of their +earnings. Even in the common brothels, in Philadelphia (according to +Goodchild, "The Social Evil in Philadelphia," _Arena_, March, 1896), girls +earn twenty dollars or more a week, which is far more than they could earn +in any other occupation open to them. + +[175] A. Despres, _La Prostitution en France_, 1883. + +[176] Bonger, _Criminalite et Conditions Economiques_, 1905, pp. 378-414. + +[177] _La Donna Delinquente_, p. 401. + +[178] Raciborski, _Traite de l'Impuissance_, p. 20. It may be added that +Bergh, a leading authority on the anatomical peculiarities of the external +female sexual organs, who believe that strong development of the external +genital organs accompanies libidinous tendencies, has not found such +development to be common among prostitutes. + +[179] Hammer, who has had much opportunity of studying the psychology of +prostitutes, remarks that he has seen no reason to suspect sexual coldness +(_Monatsschrift fuer Harnkrankheiten und Sexuelle Hygiene_, 1906, Heft 2, +p. 85), although, as he has elsewhere stated, he is of opinion that +indolence, rather than excess of sensuality, is the chief cause of +prostitution. + +[180] See "The Sexual Impulse in Women," in the third volume of these +_Studies_. + +[181] Tait stated that in Edinburgh many married women living with their +husbands in comfortable circumstances, and having children, were found to +be acting as prostitutes, that is, in the regular habit of making +assignations with strangers (W. Tait, _Magdalenism in Edinburgh_, 1842, p. +16). + +[182] Janke brings together opinions to this effect, _Die Willkuerliche +Hervorbringen des Geschlechts_, p. 275. "If we compare a prostitute of +thirty-five with her respectable sister," Acton remarked (_Prostitution_, +1870, p. 39), "we seldom find that the constitutional ravages often +thought to be necessary consequences of prostitution exceed those +attributable to the cares of a family and the heart-wearing struggles of +virtuous labor." + +[183] Hirschfeld states (_Wesen der Liebe_, p. 35) that the desire for +intercourse with a sympathetic person is heightened, and not decreased, by +a professional act of coitus. + +[184] This has been clearly shown by Hans Ostwald (from whom I take the +above-quoted observation of a prostitute), one of the best authorities on +prostitute life and character; see, e.g., his article, "Die erotischen +Beziehungen zwischen Dirne und Zuhaelter," _Sexual-Probleme_, June, 1908. +In the subsequent number of the same periodical (July, 1908, p. 393) Dr. +Max Marcuse supports Ostwald's experiences, and says that the letters of +prostitutes and their bullies are love-letters exactly like those of +respectable people of the same class, and with the same elements of love +and jealousy; these relationships, he remarks, often prove very enduring. +The prostitute author of the _Tagebuch einer Verlorenen_ (p. 147) also has +some remarks on the prostitute's relations to her bully, stating that it +is simply the natural relationship of a girl to her lover. + +[185] Thus Moraglia found that among 180 prostitutes in North Italian +brothels, and among 23 elegant Italian and foreign cocottes, every one +admitted that she masturbated, preferably by friction of the clitoris; 113 +of them, the majority, declared that they preferred solitary or mutual +masturbation to normal coitus. Hammer states (_Zehn Lebenslaeufe Berliner +Kontrollmaedchen_ in Ostwald's series of "Grosstadt Dokumente," 1905) that +when in hospital all but three or four of sixty prostitutes masturbate, +and those who do not are laughed at by the rest. + +[186] _Jahrbuch fuer Sexuelle Zwischenstufen_, Jahrgang VII, 1905, p. 148; +"Sexual Inversion," vol. ii of these _Studies_, Ch. IV. Hammer found that +of twenty-five prostitutes in a reformatory as many as twenty-three were +homosexual, or, on good grounds, suspected to be such. Hirschfeld +(_Berlins Drittes Geschlecht_, p. 65) mentions that prostitutes sometimes +accost better-class women who, from their man-like air, they take to be +homosexual; from persons of their own sex prostitutes will accept a +smaller remuneration, and sometimes refuse payment altogether. + +[187] With prostitution, as with criminality, it is of course difficult to +disentangle the element of heredity from that of environment, even when we +have good grounds for believing that the factor of heredity here, as +throughout the whole of life, cannot fail to carry much weight. It is +certain, in any case, that prostitution frequently runs in families. "It +has often been my experience," writes a former prostitute (Hedwig Hard, +_Beichte einer Gefallenen_, p. 156) "that when in a family a girl enters +this path, her sister soon afterwards follows her: I have met with +innumerable cases; sometimes three sisters will all be on the register, +and I knew a case of four sisters, whose mother, a midwife, had been in +prison, and the father drank. In this case, all four sisters, who were +very beautiful, married, one at least very happily, to a rich doctor who +took her out of the brothel at sixteen and educated her." + +[188] This fact is not contradicted by the undoubted fact that prostitutes +are by no means always contented with the life they choose. + +[189] This point has been discussed by Bloch, _Sexualleben unserer Zeit_, +Ch. XIII. + +[190] Various series of observations are summarized by Lombroso and +Ferrero, _La Donna Delinquente_, 1893, Part III, cap. IV. + +[191] _History of European Morals_, vol. iii, p. 283. + +[192] Similarly Lord Morley has written (_Diderot_, vol. ii, p. 20): "The +purity of the family, so lovely and dear as it is, has still only been +secured hitherto by retaining a vast and dolorous host of female outcasts +... upon whose heads, as upon the scapegoat of the Hebrew ordinance, we +put all the iniquities of the children of the house, and all their +transgressions in all their sins, and then banish them with maledictions +into the foul outer wilderness and the land not inhabited." + +[193] Horace, _Satires_, lib. i, 2. + +[194] Augustine, _De Ordine_, Bk. II, Ch. IV. + +[195] _De Regimine Principum_ (_Opuscula XX_), lib. iv, cap. XIV. I am +indebted to the Rev. H. Northcote for the reference to the precise place +where this statement occurs; it is usually quoted more vaguely. + +[196] Lea, _History of Auricular Confession_, vol. ii, p. 69. There was +even, it seems, an eccentric decision of the Salamanca theologians that a +nun might so receive money, "licite et valide." + +[197] Lea, op. cit., vol. ii, pp. 263, 399. + +[198] Rabutaux, _De la Prostitution en Europe_, pp. 22 et seq. + +[199] Burton, _Anatomy of Melancholy_, Part III, Sect. III, Mem. IV, Subs. +II. + +[200] B. Mandeville, _Remarks to Fable of the Bees_, 1714, pp. 93-9; cf. +P. Sakmann, _Bernard de Mandeville_, pp. 101-4. + +[201] These conditions favor temporary free unions, but they also favor +prostitution. The reason is, according to Adolf Gerson (_Sexual-Probleme_, +September, 1908), that the woman of good class will not have free unions. +Partly moved by moral traditions, and partly by the feeling that a man +should be legally her property, she will not give herself out of love to a +man; and he therefore turns to the lower-class woman who gives herself for +money. + +[202] Many girls, said Ellice Hopkins, get into mischief merely because +they have in them an element of the "black kitten," which must frolic and +play, but has no desire to get into danger. "Do you not think it a little +hard," she added, "that men should have dug by the side of her foolish +dancing feet a bottomless pit, and that she cannot have her jump and fun +in safety, and put on her fine feathers like the silly bird-witted thing +she is, without a single false step dashing her over the brink, and +leaving her with the very womanhood dashed out of her?" + +[203] A. Sherwell, _Life in West London_, 1897, Ch. V. + +[204] As quoted by Bloch, _Sexualleben Unserer Zeit_, p. 358. In Berlin +during recent years the number of prostitutes has increased at nearly +double the rate at which the general population has increased. It is no +doubt probable that the supply tends to increase the demand. + +[205] Goncourt, _Journal_, vol. iii, p. 49. + +[206] Vanderkiste, _The Dens of London_, 1854, p. 242. + +[207] Bonger (_Criminalite et Conditions Economiques_, p. 406) refers to +the prevalence of prostitution among dressmakers and milliners, as well as +among servants, as showing the influence of contact with luxury, and adds +that the rich women, who look down on prostitution, do not always realize +that they are themselves an important factor of prostitution, both by +their luxury and their idleness; while they do not seem to be aware that +they would themselves act in the same way if placed under the same +conditions. + +[208] H. Lippert, in his book on prostitution in Hamburg, laid much stress +on the craving for dress and adornment as a factor of prostitution, and +Bloch (_Das Sexualleben unsurer Zeit_, p. 372) considers that this factor +is usually underestimated, and that it exerts an especially powerful +influence on servants. + +[209] Since this was written the influence of several generations of +town-life in immunizing a stock to the evils of that life (though without +reference to prostitution) has been set forth by Reibmayr, _Die +Entwicklungsgeschichte des Talentes und Genies_, 1908, vol. ii, pp. 73 _et +seq._ + +[210] In France this intimacy is embodied in the delicious privilege of +_tutoiement_. "The mystery of _tutoiement!_" exclaims Ernest La Jennesse +in _L'Holocauste:_ "Barriers broken down, veils drawn away, and the ease +of existence! At a time when I was very lonely, and trying to grow +accustomed to Paris and to misfortune, I would go miles--on foot, +naturally--to see a girl cousin and an aunt, merely to have something to +_tutoyer_. Sometimes they were not at home, and I had to come back with my +_tu_, my thirst for confidence and familiarity and brotherliness." + +[211] For some facts and references to the extensive literature concerning +this trade, see, e.g., Bloch, _Das Sexualleben Unserer Zeit_, pp. 374-376; +also K.M. Baer, _Zeitschrift fuer Sexualwissenschaft_, Sept., 1908; +Paulucci de Calboli, _Nuova Antologia_, April, 1902. + +[212] These considerations do not, it is true, apply to many kinds of +sexual perverts who form an important proportion of the clients of +brothels. These can frequently find what they crave inside a brothel much +more easily than outside. + +[213] Thus Charles Booth, in his great work on _Life and Labor in London_, +final volume (p. 128), recommends that "houses of accommodation," instead +of being hunted out, should be tolerated as a step towards the suppression +of brothels. + +[214] "Towns like Woolwich, Aldershot, Portsmouth, Plymouth," it has been +said, "abound with wretched, filthy monsters that bear no resemblance to +women; but it is drink, scorn, brutality and disease which have reduced +them to this state, not the mere fact of associating with men." + +[215] "The contract of prostitution in the opinion of prostitutes +themselves," Bernaldo de Quiros and Llanas Aguilaniedo remark (_La Mala +Vida en Madrid_, p. 254), "cannot be assimilated to a sale, nor to a +contract of work, nor to any other form of barter recognized by the civil +law. They consider that in these pacts there always enters an element +which makes it much more like a gift in a matter in which no payment could +be adequate. 'A woman's body is without price' is an axiom of +prostitution. The money placed in the hands of her who procures the +satisfaction of sexual desire is not the price of the act, but an offering +which the priestess of Venus applies to her maintenance." To the Spaniard, +it is true, every transaction which resembles trade is repugnant, but the +principle underlying this feeling holds good of prostitution generally. + +[216] _Journal des Goncourt_, vol. iii; this was in 1866. + +[217] Rev. the Hon. C. Lyttelton, _Training of the Young in Laws of Sex_, +p. 42. + +[218] See, e.g., R.W. Taylor, _Treatise on Sexual Disorders_, 1897, pp. +74-5. Georg Hirth (_Wege zur Heimat_, 1909, p. 619) narrates the case of a +young officer who, being excited by the caresses of his betrothed and +having too much respect for her to go further than this, and too much +respect for himself to resort to masturbation, knew nothing better than to +go to a prostitute. Syphilis developed a few days after the wedding. Hirth +adds, briefly, that the results were terrible. + +[219] It is an oft-quoted passage, but can scarcely be quoted too often: +"You see that this wrought-iron plate is not quite flat: it sticks up a +little, here towards the left--'cockles,' as we say. How shall we flatten +it? Obviously, you reply, by hitting down on the part that is prominent. +Well, here is a hammer, and I give the plate a blow as you advise. Harder, +you say. Still no effect. Another stroke? Well, there is one, and another, +and another. The prominence remains, you see: the evil is as great as +ever--greater, indeed. But that is not all. Look at the warp which the +plate has got near the opposite edge. Where it was flat before it is now +curved. A pretty bungle we have made of it. Instead of curing the original +defect we have produced a second. Had we asked an artisan practiced in +'planishing,' as it is called, he would have told us that no good was to +be done, but only mischief, by hitting down on the projecting part. He +would have taught us how to give variously-directed and specially-adjusted +blows with a hammer elsewhere: so attacking the evil, not by direct, but +by indirect actions. The required process is less simple than you thought. +Even a sheet of metal is not to be successfully dealt with after those +common-sense methods in which you have so much confidence. What, then, +shall we say about a society?... Is humanity more readily straightened +than an iron plate?" (_The Study of Sociology_, p. 270.) + + + + +CHAPTER VIII. + +THE CONQUEST OF THE VENEREAL DISEASES. + +The Significance of the Venereal Diseases--The History of Syphilis--The +Problem of Its Origin--The Social Gravity of Syphilis--The Social Dangers +of Gonorrhoea--The Modern Change in the Methods of Combating +Venereal Diseases--Causes of the Decay of the System of Police +Regulation--Necessity of Facing the Facts--The Innocent Victims of +Venereal Diseases--Diseases Not Crimes--The Principle of Notification--The +Scandinavian System--Gratuitous Treatment--Punishment for Transmitting +Venereal Diseases--Sexual Education in Relation to Venereal +Diseases--Lectures, Etc.--Discussion in Novels and on the Stage--The +"Disgusting" Not the "Immoral." + + +It may, perhaps, excite surprise that in the preceding discussion of +prostitution scarcely a word has been said of venereal diseases. In the +eyes of many people, the question of prostitution is simply the question +of syphilis. But from the psychological point of view with which we are +directly concerned, as from the moral point of view with which we cannot +fail to be indirectly concerned, the question of the diseases which may +be, and so frequently are, associated with prostitution cannot be placed +in the first line of significance. The two questions, however intimately +they may be mingled, are fundamentally distinct. Not only would venereal +diseases still persist even though prostitution had absolutely ceased, +but, on the other hand, when we have brought syphilis under the same +control as we have brought the somewhat analogous disease of leprosy, the +problem of prostitution would still remain. + +Yet, even from the standpoint which we here occupy, it is scarcely +possible to ignore the question of venereal disease, for the psychological +and moral aspects of prostitution, and even the whole question of the +sexual relationships, are, to some extent, affected by the existence of +the serious diseases which are specially liable to be propagated by sexual +intercourse. + +Fournier, one of the leading authorities on this subject, has well said +that syphilis, alcoholism, and tuberculosis are the three modern plagues. +At a much earlier period (1851) Schopenhauer in _Parerga und Paralipomena_ +had expressed the opinion that the two things which mark modern social +life, in distinction from that of antiquity, and to the advantage of the +latter, are the knightly principle of honor and venereal disease; +together, he added, they have poisoned life, and introduced a hostile and +even diabolical element into the relations of the sexes, which has +indirectly affected all other social relationships.[220] It is like a +merchandise, says Havelburg, of syphilis, which civilization has +everywhere carried, so that only a very few remote districts of the globe +(as in Central Africa and Central Brazil) are to-day free from it.[221] + +It is undoubtedly true that in the older civilized countries the +manifestations of syphilis, though still severe and a cause of physical +deterioration in the individual and the race, are less severe than they +were even a generation ago.[222] This is partly the result of earlier and +better treatment, partly, it is possible, the result also of the +syphilization of the race, some degree of immunity having now become an +inherited possession, although it must be remembered that an attack of +syphilis does not necessarily confer immunity from the actual attack of +the disease even in the same individual. But it must be added that, even +though it has become less severe, syphilis, in the opinion of many, is +nevertheless still spreading, even in the chief centres of civilization; +this has been noted alike in Paris and in London.[223] + +According to the belief which is now tending to prevail, syphilis was +brought to Europe at the end of the fifteenth century by the first +discoverers of America. In Seville, the chief European port for America, +it was known as the Indian disease, but when Charles VIII and his army +first brought it to Italy in 1495, although this connection with the +French was only accidental, it was called the Gallic disease, "a monstrous +disease," said Cataneus, "never seen in previous centuries and altogether +unknown in the world." + +The synonyms of syphilis were at first almost innumerable. It was in his +Latin poem _Syphilis sive Morbus Gallicus_, written before 1521 and +published at Verona in 1530, that Fracastorus finally gave the disease its +now universally accepted name, inventing a romantic myth to account for +its origin. + + Although the weight of authoritative opinion now seems to incline + towards the belief that syphilis was brought to Europe from + America, on the discovery of the New World, it is only within + quite recent years that that belief has gained ground, and it + scarcely even yet seems certain that what the Spaniards brought + back from America was really a disease absolutely new to the Old + World, and not a more virulent form of an old disease of which + the manifestations had become benign. Buret, for instance (_Le + Syphilis Aujourd'hui et chez les Anciens_, 1890), who some years + ago reached "the deep conviction that syphilis dates from the + creation of man," and believed, from a minute study of classic + authors, that syphilis existed in Rome under the Caesars, was of + opinion that it has broken out at different places and at + different times, in epidemic bursts exhibiting different + combinations of its manifold symptoms, so that it passed + unnoticed at ordinary times, and at the times of its more intense + manifestation was looked upon as a hitherto unknown disease. It + was thus regarded in classic times, he considers, as coming from + Egypt, though he looked upon its real home as Asia. Leopold Glueck + has likewise quoted (_Archiv fuer Dermatologie und Syphilis_, + January, 1899) passages from the medical epigrams of a sixteenth + century physician, Gabriel Ayala, declaring that syphilis is not + really a new disease, though popularly supposed to be so, but an + old disease which has broken out with hitherto unknown violence. + There is, however, no conclusive reason for believing that + syphilis was known at all in classic antiquity. A.V. Notthaft + ("Die Legende von der Althertums-syphilis," in the Rindfleisch + _Festschrift_, 1907, pp. 377-592) has critically investigated the + passages in classic authors which were supposed by Rosenbaum, + Buret, Proksch and others to refer to syphilis. It is quite + true, Notthaft admits, that many of these passages might possibly + refer to syphilis, and one or two would even better fit syphilis + than any other disease. But, on the whole, they furnish no proof + at all, and no syphilologist, he concludes, has ever succeeded in + demonstrating that syphilis was known in antiquity. That belief + is a legend. The most damning argument against it, Notthaft + points out, is the fact that, although in antiquity there were + great physicians who were keen observers, not one of them gives + any description of the primary, secondary, tertiary, and + congenital forms of this disease. China is frequently mentioned + as the original home of syphilis, but this belief is also quite + without basis, and the Japanese physician, Okamura, has shown + (_Monatsschrift fuer praktische Dermatologie_, vol. xxviii, pp. + 296 et seq.) that Chinese records reveal nothing relating to + syphilis earlier than the sixteenth century. At the Paris Academy + of Medicine in 1900 photographs from Egypt were exhibited by + Fouquet of human remains which date from B.C. 2400, showing bone + lesions which seemed to be clearly syphilitic; Fournier, however, + one of the greatest of authorities, considered that the diagnosis + of syphilis could not be maintained until other conditions liable + to produce somewhat similar bone lesions had been eliminated + (_British Medical Journal_, September 29, 1900, p. 946). In + Florida and various regions of Central America, in undoubtedly + pre-Columbian burial places, diseased bones have been found which + good authorities have declared could not be anything else than + syphilitic (e.g., _British Medical Journal_, November 20, 1897, + p. 1487), though it may be noted that so recently as 1899 the + cautious Virchow stated that pre-Columbian syphilis in America + was still for him an open question (_Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, + Heft 2 and 3, 1899, p. 216). From another side, Seler, the + distinguished authority on Mexican antiquity, shows (_Zeitschrift + fuer Ethnologie_, 1895, Heft 5, p. 449) that the ancient Mexicans + were acquainted with a disease which, as they described it, might + well have been syphilis. It is obvious, however, that while the + difficulty of demonstrating syphilitic diseased bones in America + is as great as in Europe, the demonstration, however complete, + would not suffice to show that the disease had not already an + existence also in the Old World. The plausible theory of Ayala + that fifteenth century syphilis was a virulent recrudescence of + an ancient disease has frequently been revived in more modern + times. Thus J. Knott ("The Origin of Syphilis," _New York Medical + Journal_, October 31, 1908) suggests that though not new in + fifteenth century Europe, it was then imported afresh in a form + rendered more aggravated by coming from an exotic race, as is + believed often to be the case. + + It was in the eighteenth century that Jean Astruc began the + rehabilitation of the belief that syphilis is really a + comparatively modern disease of American origin, and since then + various authorities of weight have given their adherence to this + view. It is to the energy and learning of Dr. Iwan Bloch, of + Berlin (the first volume of whose important work, _Der Ursprung + der Syphilis_, was published in 1901) that we owe the fullest + statement of the evidence in favor of the American origin of + syphilis. Bloch regards Ruy Diaz de Isla, a distinguished Spanish + physician, as the weightiest witness for the Indian origin of the + disease, and concludes that it was brought to Europe by + Columbus's men from Central America, more precisely from the + Island of Haiti, to Spain in 1493 and 1494, and immediately + afterwards was spread by the armies of Charles VIII in an + epidemic fashion over Italy and the other countries of Europe. + + It may be added that even if we have to accept the theory that + the central regions of America constitute the place of origin of + European syphilis, we still have to recognize that syphilis has + spread in the North American continent very much more slowly and + partially than it has in Europe, and even at the present day + there are American Indian tribes among whom it is unknown. + Holder, on the basis of his own experiences among Indian tribes, + as well as of wide inquiries among agency physicians, prepared a + table showing that among some thirty tribes and groups of tribes, + eighteen were almost or entirely free from venereal disease, + while among thirteen it was very prevalent. Almost without + exception, the tribes where syphilis is rare or unknown refuse + sexual intercourse with strangers, while those among whom such + disease is prevalent are morally lax. It is the whites who are + the source of infection among these tribes (A.B. Holder, "Gynecic + Notes Among the American Indians," _American Journal of + Obstetrics_, 1892, No. 1). + +Syphilis is only one, certainly the most important, of a group of three +entirely distinct "venereal diseases" which have only been distinguished +in recent times, and so far as their precise nature and causation are +concerned, are indeed only to-day beginning to be understood, although two +of them were certainly known in antiquity. It is but seventy years ago +since Ricord, the great French syphilologist, following Bassereau, first +taught the complete independence of syphilis both from gonorrhoea +and soft chancre, at the same time expounding clearly the three stages, +primary, secondary and tertiary, through which syphilitic manifestations +tend to pass, while the full extent of tertiary syphilitic symptoms is +scarcely yet grasped, and it is only to-day beginning to be generally +realized that two of the most prevalent and serious diseases of the brain +and nervous system--general paralysis and tabes dorsalis or locomotor +ataxia--have their predominant though not sole and exclusive cause in the +invasion of the syphilitic poison many years before. In 1879 a new stage +of more precise knowledge of the venereal diseases began with Neisser's +discovery of the gonococcus which is the specific cause of gonorrhoea. +This was followed a few years later by the discovery by Ducrey and Unna of +the bacillus of soft chancre, the least important of the venereal diseases +because exclusively local in its effects. Finally, in 1905--after +Metchnikoff had prepared the way by succeeding in carrying syphilis from +man to monkey, and Lassar, by inoculation, from monkey to monkey--Fritz +Schaudinn made his great discovery of the protozoal _Spirochoeta +pallida_ (since sometimes called _Treponema pallidum_), which is now +generally regarded as the cause of syphilis, and thus revealed the final +hiding place of one of the most dangerous and insidious foes of +humanity.[224] + +There is no more subtle poison than that of syphilis. It is not, like +smallpox or typhoid, a disease which produces a brief and sudden storm, a +violent struggle with the forces of life, in which it tends, even without +treatment, provided the organism is healthy, to succumb, leaving little or +no traces of its ravages behind. It penetrates ever deeper and deeper into +the organism, with the passage of time leading to ever new manifestations, +and no tissue is safe from its attack. And so subtle is this all-pervading +poison that though its outward manifestations are amenable to prolonged +treatment, it is often difficult to say that the poison has been finally +killed out.[225] + +The immense importance of syphilis, and the chief reason why it is +necessary to consider it here, lies in the fact that its results are not +confined to the individual himself, nor even to the persons to whom he may +impart it by the contagion due to contact in or out of sexual +relationships: it affects the offspring, and it affects the power to +produce offspring. It attacks men and women at the centre of life, as the +progenitors of the coming race, inflicting either sterility or the +tendency to aborted and diseased products of conception. The father alone +can perhaps transmit syphilis to his child, even though the mother escapes +infection, and the child born of syphilitic parents may come into the +world apparently healthy only to reveal its syphilitic origin after a +period of months or even years. Thus syphilis is probably a main cause of +the enfeeblement of the race.[226] + +Alike in the individual and in his offspring syphilis shows its +deteriorating effects on all the structures of the body, but especially on +the brain and nervous system. There are, as has been pointed out by Mott, +a leading authority in this matter,[227] five ways in which syphilis +affects the brain and nervous system: (1) by moral shock; (2) by the +effects of the poison in producing anaemia and impaired general nutrition; +(3) by causing inflammation of the membranes and tissues of the brain; (4) +by producing arterial degeneration, leading on to brain-softening, +paralysis, and dementia; (5) as a main cause of the para-syphilitic +affections of general paralysis and tabes dorsalis. + +It is only within recent years that medical men have recognized the +preponderant part played by acquired or inherited syphilis in producing +general paralysis, which so largely helps to fill lunatic asylums, and +tabes dorsalis which is the most important disease of the spinal cord. +Even to-day it can scarcely be said that there is complete agreement as +to the supreme importance of the factor of syphilis in these diseases. +There can, however, be little doubt that in about ninety-five per cent. at +least of cases of general paralysis syphilis is present.[228] + +Syphilis is not indeed by itself an adequate cause of general paralysis +for among many savage peoples syphilis is very common while general +paralysis is very rare. It is, as Krafft-Ebing was accustomed to say, +syphilization and civilization working together which produce general +paralysis, perhaps in many cases, there is reason for thinking, on a +nervous soil that is hereditarily degenerated to some extent; this is +shown by the abnormal prevalence of congenital stigmata of degeneration +found in general paralytics by Naecke and others. "Paralyticus nascitur +atque fit," according to the dictum of Obersteiner. Once undermined by +syphilis, the deteriorated brain is unable to resist the jars and strains +of civilized life, and the result is general paralysis, truly described as +"one of the most terrible scourges of modern times." In 1902 the +Psychological Section of the British Medical Association, embodying the +most competent English authority on this question, unanimously passed a +resolution recommending that the attention of the Legislature and other +public bodies should be called to the necessity for immediate action in +view of the fact that "general paralysis, a very grave and frequent form +of brain disease, together with other varieties of insanity, is largely +due to syphilis, and is therefore preventable." Yet not a single step has +yet been taken in this direction. + +The dangers of syphilis lie not alone in its potency and its persistence +but also in its prevalence. It is difficult to state the exact incidence +of syphilis, but a great many partial investigations have been made in +various countries, and it would appear that from five to twenty per cent. +of the population in European countries is syphilitic, while about fifteen +per cent. of the syphilitic cases die from causes directly or indirectly +due to the disease.[229] In France generally, Fournier estimates that +seventeen per cent. of the whole population have had syphilis, and at +Toulouse, Audry considers that eighteen per cent. of all his patients are +syphilitic. In Copenhagen, where notification is obligatory, over four per +cent. of the population are said to be syphilitic. In America a committee +of the Medical Society of New York, appointed to investigate the question, +reported as the result of exhaustive inquiry that in the city of New York +not less than a quarter of a million of cases of venereal disease occurred +every year, and a leading New York dermatologist has stated that among the +better class families he knows intimately at least one-third of the sons +have had syphilis. In Germany eight hundred thousand cases of venereal +disease are by one authority estimated to occur yearly, and in the larger +universities twenty-five per cent. of the students are infected every +term, venereal disease being, however, specially common among students. +The yearly number of men invalided in the German army by venereal diseases +equals a third of the total number wounded in the Franco-Prussian war. Yet +the German army stands fairly high as regards freedom from venereal +disease when compared with the British army which is more syphilized than +any other European army.[230] The British army, however, being +professional and not national, is less representative of the people than +is the case in countries where some form of conscription prevails. At one +London hospital it could be ascertained that ten per cent. of the patients +had had syphilis; this probably means a real proportion of about fifteen +per cent., a high though not extremely high ratio. Yet it is obvious that +even if the ratio is really lower than this the national loss in life and +health, in defective procreation and racial deterioration, must be +enormous and practically incalculable. Even in cash the venereal budget is +comparable in amount to the general budget of a great nation. Stritch +estimates that the cost to the British nation of venereal diseases in the +army, navy and Government departments alone, amounts annually to +L3,000,000, and when allowance is made for superannuations and sick-leave +indirectly occasioned through these diseases, though not appearing in the +returns as such, the more accurate estimate of the cost to the nation is +stated to be L7,000,000. The adoption of simple hygienic measures for the +prevention and the speedy cure of venereal diseases will be not only +indirectly but even directly a source of immense wealth to the nation. + +Syphilis is the most obviously and conspicuously appalling of the venereal +diseases. Yet it is less frequent and in some respects less dangerously +insidious than the other chief venereal disease, gonorrhoea.[231] +At one time the serious nature of gonorrhoea, especially in women, was +little realized. Men accepted it with a light heart as a trivial accident; +women ignored it. This failure to realize the gravity of gonorrhoea, even +sometimes on the part of the medical profession--so that it has been +popularly looked upon, in Grandin's words, as of little more significance +than a cold in the nose--has led to a reaction on the part of some towards +an opposite extreme, and the risks and dangers of gonorrhoea have been +even unduly magnified. This is notably the case as regards sterility. The +inflammatory results of gonorrhoea are indubitably a potent cause of +sterility in both sexes; some authorities have stated that not only eighty +per cent. of the deaths from inflammatory diseases of the pelvic organs +and the majority of the cases of chronic invalidism in women, but ninety +per cent. of involuntary sterile marriages, are due to gonorrhoea. +Neisser, a great authority, ascribes to this disease without doubt fifty +per cent, of such marriages. Even this estimate is in the experience of +some observers excessive. It is fully proved that the great majority of +men who have had gonorrhoea, even if they marry within two years of being +infected, fail to convey the disease to their wives, and even of the women +infected by their husbands more than half have children. This is, for +instance, the result of Erb's experience, and Kisch speaks still more +strongly in the same sense. Bumm, again, although regarding gonorrhoea as +one of the two chief causes of sterility in women, finds that it is not +the most frequent cause, being only responsible for about one-third of the +cases; the other two-thirds are due to developmental faults in the genital +organs. Dunning in America has reached results which are fairly concordant +with Bumm's. + +With regard to another of the terrible results of gonorrhoea, the part it +plays in producing life-long blindness from infection of the eyes at +birth, there has long been no sort of doubt. The Committee of the +Ophthalmological Society in 1884, reported that thirty to forty-one per +cent. of the inmates of four asylums for the blind in England owed their +blindness to this cause.[232] In German asylums Reinhard found that thirty +per cent. lost their sight from the same cause. The total number of +persons blind from gonorrhoeal infection from their mothers at birth is +enormous. The British Royal Commission on the Condition of the Blind +estimated there were about seven thousand persons in the United Kingdom +alone (or twenty-two per cent. of the blind persons in the country) who +became blind as the result of this disease, and Mookerji stated in his +address on Ophthalmalogy at the Indian Medical Congress of 1894 that in +Bengal alone there were six hundred thousand totally blind beggars, forty +per cent. of whom lost their sight at birth through maternal gonorrhoea; +and this refers to the beggar class alone. + +Although gonorrhoea is liable to produce many and various calamities,[233] +there can be no doubt that the majority of gonorrhoeal persons escape +either suffering or inflicting any very serious injury. The special reason +why gonorrhoea has become so peculiarly serious a scourge is its extreme +prevalence. It is difficult to estimate the proportion of men and women in +the general population who have had gonorrhoea, and the estimates vary +within wide limits. They are often set too high. Erb, of Heidelberg, +anxious to disprove exaggerated estimates of the prevalence of gonorrhoea, +went over the records of two thousand two hundred patients in his private +practice (excluding all hospital patients) and found the proportion of +those who had suffered from gonorrhoea was 48.5 per cent. + +Among the working classes the disease is much less prevalent than among +higher-class people. In a Berlin Industrial Sick Club, 412 per 10,000 men +and 69 per 10,000 women had gonorrhoea in a year; taking a series of years +the Club showed a steady increase in the number of men, and decrease in +the number of women, with venereal infection; this seems to indicate that +the laboring classes are beginning to have intercourse more with +prostitutes and less with respectable girls.[234] In America Wood Ruggles +has given (as had Noggerath previously, for New York), the prevalence of +gonorrhoea among adult males as from 75 to 80 per cent.; Tenney places it +much lower, 20 per cent. for males and 5 per cent. for females. In +England, a writer in the _Lancet_, some years ago,[235] found as the +result of experience and inquiries that 75 per cent. adult males have had +gonorrhoea once, 40 per cent. twice, 15 per cent. three or more times. +According to Dulberg about twenty per cent. of new cases occur in married +men of good social class, the disease being comparatively rare among +married men of the working class in England. + +Gonorrhoea in its prevalence is thus only second to measles and in the +gravity of its results scarcely second to tuberculosis. "And yet," as +Grandin remarks in comparing gonorrhoea to tuberculosis, "witness the +activity of the crusade against the latter and the criminal apathy +displayed when the former is concerned."[236] The public must learn to +understand, another writer remarks, that "gonorrhoea is a pest that +concerns its highest interests and most sacred relations as much as do +smallpox, cholera, diphtheria, or tuberculosis."[237] + +It cannot fairly be said that no attempts have been made to beat back the +flood of venereal disease. On the contrary, such attempts have been made +from the first. But they have never been effectual;[238] they have never +been modified to changed condition; at the present day they are +hopelessly unscientific and entirely opposed alike to the social and the +individual demands of modern peoples. At the various conferences on this +question which have been held during recent years the only generally +accepted conclusion which has emerged is that all the existing systems +of interference or non-interference with prostitution are +unsatisfactory.[239] + +The character of prostitution has changed and the methods of dealing with +it must change. Brothels, and the systems of official regulation which +grew up with special reference to brothels, are alike out of date; they +have about them a mediaeval atmosphere, an antiquated spirit, which now +render them unattractive and suspected. The conspicuously distinctive +brothel is falling into disrepute; the liveried prostitute absolutely +under municipal control can scarcely be said to exist. Prostitution tends +to become more diffused, more intimately mingled with social life +generally, less easily distinguished as a definitely separable part of +life. We can nowadays only influence it by methods of permeation which +bear upon the whole of our social life. + + The objection to the regulation of prostitution is still of slow + growth, but it is steadily developing everywhere, and may be + traced equally in scientific opinion and in popular feeling. In + France the municipalities of some of the largest cities have + either suppressed the system of regulation entirely or shown + their disapproval of it, while an inquiry among several hundred + medical men showed that less than one-third were in favor of + maintaining regulation (_Die Neue Generation_, June, 1909, p. + 244). In Germany, where there is in some respects more patient + endurance of interference with the liberty of the individual than + in France, England, or America, various elaborate systems for + organizing prostitution and dealing with venereal disease + continue to be maintained, but they cannot be completely carried + out, and it is generally admitted that in any case they could not + accomplish the objects sought. Thus in Saxony no brothels are + officially tolerated, though as a matter of fact they + nevertheless exist. Here, as in many other parts of Germany, most + minute and extensive regulations are framed for the use of + prostitutes. Thus at Leipzig they must not sit on the benches in + public promenades, nor go to picture galleries, or theatres, or + concerts, or restaurants, nor look out of their windows, nor + stare about them in the street, nor smile, nor wink, etc., etc. + In fact, a German prostitute who possesses the heroic + self-control to carry out conscientiously all the self-denying + ordinances officially decreed for her guidance would seem to be + entitled to a Government pension for life. + + Two methods of dealing with prostitution prevail in Germany. In + some cities public houses of prostitution are tolerated (though + not licensed); in other cities prostitution is "free," though + "secret." Hamburg is the most important city where houses of + prostitution are tolerated and segregated. But, it is stated, + "everywhere, by far the larger proportion of the prostitutes + belong to the so-called 'secret' class." In Hamburg, alone, are + suspected men, when accused of infecting women, officially + examined; men of every social class must obey a summons of this + kind, which is issued secretly, and if diseased, they are bound + to go under treatment, if necessary under compulsory treatment in + the city hospital, until no longer dangerous to the community. + + In Germany it is only when a woman has been repeatedly observed + to act suspiciously in the streets that she is quietly warned; if + the warning is disregarded she is invited to give her name and + address to the police, and interviewed. It is not until these + methods fail that she is officially inscribed as a prostitute. + The inscribed women, in some cities at all events, contribute to + a sick benefit fund which pays their expenses when in hospital. + The hesitation of the police to inscribe a woman on the official + list is legitimate and inevitable, for no other course would be + tolerated; yet the majority of prostitutes begin their careers + very young, and as they tend to become infected very early after + their careers begin, it is obvious that this delay contributes to + render the system of regulation ineffective. In Berlin, where + there are no officially recognized brothels, there are some six + thousand inscribed prostitutes, but it is estimated that there + are over sixty thousand prostitutes who are not inscribed. (The + foregoing facts are taken from a series of papers describing + personal investigations in Germany made by Dr. F. Bierhoff, of + New York, "Police Methods for the Sanitary Control of + Prostitution," _New York Medical Journal_, August, 1907.) The + estimation of the amount of clandestine prostitution can indeed + never be much more than guesswork; exactly the same figure of + sixty thousand is commonly brought forward as the probable number + of prostitutes not only in Berlin, but also in London and in New + York. It is absolutely impossible to say whether it is under or + over the real number, for secret prostitution is quite + intangible. Even if the facts were miraculously revealed there + would still remain the difficulty of deciding what is and what is + not prostitution. The avowed and public prostitute is linked by + various gradations on the one side to the respectable girl living + at home who seeks some little relief from the oppression of her + respectability, and on the other hand to the married woman who + has married for the sake of a home. In any case, however, it is + very certain that public prostitutes living entirely on the + earnings of prostitution form but a small proportion of the vast + army of women who may be said, in a wide sense of the word, to be + prostitutes, i.e., who use their attractiveness to obtain from + men not love alone, but money or goods. + +"The struggle against syphilis is only possible if we agree to regard its +victims as unfortunate and not as guilty.... We must give up the prejudice +which has led to the creation of the term 'shameful diseases,' and which +commands silence concerning this scourge of the family and of humanity." +In these words of Duclaux, the distinguished successor of Pasteur at the +Pasteur Institute, in his noble and admirable work _L'Hygiene Sociale_, we +have indicated to us, I am convinced, the only road by which we can +approach the rational and successful treatment of the great social problem +of venereal disease. + + The supreme importance of this key to the solution of a problem + which has often seemed insoluble is to-day beginning to become + recognized in all quarters, and in every country. Thus a + distinguished German authority, Professor Finger (_Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, Bd. i, Heft 5) declares that venereal disease must + not be regarded as the well-merited punishment for a debauched + life, but as an unhappy accident. It seems to be in France, + however, that this truth has been proclaimed with most courage + and humanity, and not alone by the followers of science and + medicine, but by many who might well be excused from interfering + with so difficult and ungrateful a task. Thus the brothers, Paul + and Victor Margueritte, who occupy a brilliant and honorable + place in contemporary French letters, have distinguished + themselves by advocating a more humane attitude towards + prostitutes, and a more modern method of dealing with the + question of venereal disease. "The true method of prevention is + that which makes it clear to all that syphilis is not a + mysterious and terrible thing, the penalty of the sin of the + flesh, a sort of shameful evil branded by Catholic malediction, + but an ordinary disease which may be treated and cured." It may + be remarked that the aversion to acknowledge venereal disease is + at least as marked in France as in any other country; "maladies + honteuses" is a consecrated French term, just as "loathsome + disease" is in English; "in the hospital," says Landret, "it + requires much trouble to obtain an avowal of gonorrhoea, + and we may esteem ourselves happy if the patient acknowledges the + fact of having had syphilis." + +No evils can be combated until they are recognized, simply and frankly, +and honestly discussed. It is a significant and even symbolic fact that +the bacteria of disease rarely flourish when they are open to the free +currents of pure air. Obscurity, disguise, concealment furnish the best +conditions for their vigor and diffusion, and these favoring conditions we +have for centuries past accorded to venereal diseases. It was not always +so, as indeed the survival of the word 'venereal' itself in this +connection, with its reference to a goddess, alone suffices to show. Even +the name "syphilis" itself, taken from a romantic poem in which +Fracastorus sought a mythological origin for the disease, bears witness to +the same fact. The romantic attitude is indeed as much out of date as that +of hypocritical and shamefaced obscurantism. We need to face these +diseases in the same simple, direct, and courageous way which has already +been adopted successfully in the ease of smallpox, a disease which, of +old, men thought analogous to syphilis and which was indeed once almost as +terrible in its ravages. + +At this point, however, we encounter those who say that it is unnecessary +to show any sort of recognition of venereal diseases, and immoral to do +anything that might seem to involve indulgence to those who suffer from +such diseases; they have got what they deserve and may well be left to +perish. Those who take this attitude place themselves so far outside the +pale of civilization--to say nothing of morality or religion--that they +might well be disregarded. The progress of the race, the development of +humanity, in fact and in feeling, has consisted in the elimination of an +attitude which it is an insult to primitive peoples to term savage. Yet +it is an attitude which should not be ignored for it still carries weight +with many who are too weak to withstand those who juggle with fine moral +phrases. I have even seen in a medical quarter the statement that venereal +disease cannot be put on the same level with other infectious diseases +because it is "the result of voluntary action." But all the diseases, +indeed all the accidents and misfortunes of suffering human beings, are +equally the involuntary results of voluntary actions. The man who is run +over in crossing the street, the family poisoned by unwholesome food, the +mother who catches the disease of the child she is nursing, all these +suffer as the involuntary result of the voluntary act of gratifying some +fundamental human instinct--the instinct of activity, the instinct of +nutrition, the instinct of affection. The instinct of sex is as +fundamental as any of these, and the involuntary evils which may follow +the voluntary act of gratifying it stand on exactly the same level. This +is the essential fact: a human being in following the human instincts +implanted within him has stumbled and fallen. Any person who sees, not +this essential fact but merely some subsidiary aspect of it, reveals a +mind that is twisted and perverted; he has no claim to arrest our +attention. + +But even if we were to adopt the standpoint of the would-be moralist, and +to agree that everyone must be left to suffer his deserts, it is far +indeed from being the fact that all those who contract venereal diseases +are in any sense receiving their deserts. In a large number of cases the +disease has been inflicted on them in the most absolutely involuntary +manner. This is, of course, true in the case of the vast number of infants +who are infected at conception or at birth. But it is also true in a +scarcely less absolute manner of a large proportion of persons infected in +later life. + +_Syphilis insontium_, or syphilis of the innocent, as it is commonly +called, may be said to fall into five groups: (1) the vast army of +congenitally syphilitic infants who inherit the disease from father or +mother; (2) the constantly occurring cases of syphilis contracted, in the +course of their professional duties, by doctors, midwives and wet-nurses; +(3) infection as a result of affection, as in simple kissing; (4) +accidental infection from casual contacts and from using in common the +objects and utensils of daily life, such as cups, towels, razors, knives +(as in ritual circumcision), etc; (5) the infection of wives by their +husbands.[240] + +Hereditary congenital syphilis belongs to the ordinary pathology of the +disease and is a chief element in its social danger since it is +responsible for an enormous infantile mortality.[241] The risks of +extragenital infection in the professional activity of doctors, midwives +and wet-nurses is also universally recognized. In the case of wet-nurses +infected by their employers' syphilitic infants at their breast, the +penalty inflicted on the innocent is peculiarly harsh and unnecessary. The +influence of infected low-class midwives is notably dangerous, for they +may inflict widespread injury in ignorance; thus the case has been +recorded of a midwife, whose finger became infected in the course of her +duties, and directly or indirectly contaminated one hundred persons. +Kissing is an extremely common source of syphilitic infection, and of all +extragenital regions the mouth is by far the most frequent seat of primary +syphilitic sores. In some cases, it is true, especially in prostitutes, +this is the result of abnormal sexual contacts. But in the majority of +cases it is the result of ordinary and slight kisses as between young +children, between parents and children, between lovers and friends and +acquaintances. Fairly typical examples, which have been reported, are +those of a child, kissed by a prostitute, who became infected and +subsequently infected its mother and grandmother; of a young French bride +contaminated on her wedding-day by one of the guests who, according to +French custom, kissed her on the cheek after the ceremony; of an American +girl who, returning from a ball, kissed, at parting, the young man who had +accompanied her home, thus acquiring the disease which she not long +afterwards imparted in the same way to her mother and three sisters. The +ignorant and unthinking are apt to ridicule those who point out the +serious risks of miscellaneous kissing. But it remains nevertheless true +that people who are not intimate enough to know the state of each other's +health are not intimate enough to kiss each other. Infection by the use of +domestic utensils, linen, etc., while comparatively rare among the better +social classes, is extremely common among the lower classes and among the +less civilized nations; in Russia, according to Tarnowsky, the chief +authority, seventy per cent. of all cases of syphilis in the rural +districts are due to this cause and to ordinary kissing, and a special +conference in St. Petersburg in 1897, for the consideration of the methods +of dealing with venereal disease, recorded its opinion to the same effect; +much the same seems to be true regarding Bosnia and various parts of the +Balkan peninsula where syphilis is extremely prevalent among the +peasantry. As regards the last group, according to Bulkley in America, +fifty per cent. of women generally contract syphilis innocently, chiefly +from their husbands, while Fournier states that in France seventy-five per +cent. of married women with syphilis have been infected by their husbands, +most frequently (seventy per cent.) by husbands who were themselves +infected before marriage and supposed that they were cured. Among men the +proportion of syphilitics who have been accidentally infected, though less +than among women, is still very considerable; it is stated to be at least +ten per cent., and possibly it is a much larger proportion of cases. The +scrupulous moralist who is anxious that all should have their deserts +cannot fail to be still more anxious to prevent the innocent from +suffering in place of the guilty. But it is absolutely impossible for him +to combine these two aims; syphilis cannot be at the same time perpetuated +for the guilty and abolished for the innocent. + + I have been taking only syphilis into account, but nearly all + that is said of the accidental infection of syphilis applies with + equal or greater force to gonorrhoea, for though gonorrhoea does + not enter into the system by so many channels as syphilis, it is + a more common as well as a more subtle and elusive disease. + + The literature of Syphilis Insontium is extremely extensive. + There is a bibliography at the end of Duncan Bulkley's _Syphilis + in the Innocent_, and a comprehensive summary of the question in + a Leipzig Inaugural Dissertation by F. Moses, _Zur Kasuistik der + Extragenitalen Syphilis-infektion_, 1904. + +Even, however, when we have put aside the vast number of venereally +infected people who may be said to be, in the narrowest and most +conventionally moral sense, "innocent" victims of the diseases they have +contracted, there is still much to be said on this question. It must be +remembered that the majority of those who contract venereal diseases by +illegitimate sexual intercourse are young. They are youths, ignorant of +life, scarcely yet escaped from home, still undeveloped, incompletely +educated, and easily duped by women; in many cases they have met, as they +thought, a "nice" girl, not indeed strictly virtuous but, it seemed to +them, above all suspicion of disease, though in reality she was a +clandestine prostitute. Or they are young girls who have indeed ceased to +be absolutely chaste, but have not yet lost all their innocence, and who +do not consider themselves, and are not by others considered, prostitutes; +that indeed, is one of the rocks on which the system of police regulation +of prostitution comes to grief, for the police cannot catch the prostitute +at a sufficiently early stage. Of women who become syphilitic, according +to Fournier, twenty per cent. are infected before they are nineteen; in +hospitals the proportion is as high as forty per cent.; and of men fifteen +per cent. cases occur between eleven and twenty-one years of age. The age +of maximum frequency of infection is for women twenty years (in the rural +population eighteen), and for men twenty-three years. In Germany Erb +finds that as many as eighty-five per cent men with gonorrhoea +contracted the disease between the ages of sixteen and twenty-five, a very +small percentage being infected after thirty. These young things for the +most part fell into a trap which Nature had baited with her most +fascinating lure; they were usually ignorant; not seldom they were +deceived by an attractive personality; often they were overcome by +passion; frequently all prudence and reserve had been lost in the fumes of +wine. From a truly moral point of view they were scarcely less innocent +than children. + + "I ask," says Duclaux, "whether when a young man, or a young + girl, abandon themselves to a dangerous caress society has done + what it can to warn them. Perhaps its intentions were good, but + when the need came for precise knowledge a silly prudery has held + it back, and it has left its children without _viaticum_.... I + will go further, and proclaim that in a large number of cases the + husbands who contaminate their wives are innocent. No one is + responsible for the evil which he commits without knowing it and + without willing it." I may recall the suggestive fact, already + referred to, that the majority of husbands who infect their wives + contracted the disease before marriage. They entered on marriage + believing that their disease was cured, and that they had broken + with their past. Doctors have sometimes (and quacks frequently) + contributed to this result by too sanguine an estimate of the + period necessary to destroy the poison. So great an authority as + Fournier formerly believed that the syphilitic could safely be + allowed to marry three or four years after the date of infection, + but now, with increased experience, he extends the period to four + or five years. It is undoubtedly true that, especially when + treatment has been thorough and prompt, the diseased + constitution, in a majority of cases, can be brought under + complete control in a shorter period than this, but there is + always a certain proportion of cases in which the powers of + infection persist for many years, and even when the syphilitic + husband is no longer capable of infecting his wife he may still + perhaps be in a condition to effect a disastrous influence on the + offspring. + +In nearly all these cases there was more or less ignorance--which is but +another word for innocence as we commonly understand innocence--and when +at last, after the event, the facts are more or less bluntly explained to +the victim he frequently exclaims: "Nobody told me!" It is this fact which +condemns the pseudo-moralist. If he had seen to it that mothers began to +explain the facts of sex to their little boys and girls from childhood, if +he had (as Dr. Joseph Price urges) taught the risks of venereal disease in +the Sunday-school, if he had plainly preached on the relations of the +sexes from the pulpit, if he had seen to it that every youth at the +beginning of adolescence received some simple technical instruction from +his family doctor concerning sexual health and sexual disease--then, +though there would still remain the need of pity for those who strayed +from a path that must always be difficult to walk in, the would-be +moralist at all events would in some measure be exculpated. But he has +seldom indeed lifted a finger to do any of these things. + +Even those who may be unwilling to abandon an attitude of private moral +intolerance towards the victims of venereal diseases may still do well to +remember that since the public manifestation of their intolerance is +mischievous, and at the best useless, it is necessary for them to restrain +it in the interests of society. They would not be the less free to order +their own personal conduct in the strictest accordance with their superior +moral rigidity; and that after all is for them the main thing. But for the +sake of society it is necessary for them to adopt what they may consider +the convention of a purely hygienic attitude towards these diseases. The +erring are inevitably frightened by an attitude of moral reprobation into +methods of concealment, and these produce an endless chain of social evils +which can only be dissipated by openness. As Duclaux has so earnestly +insisted, it is impossible to grapple successfully with venereal disease +unless we consent not to introduce our prejudices, or even our morals and +religion, into the question, but treat it purely and simply as a sanitary +question. And if the pseudo-moralist still has difficulty in cooeperating +towards the healing of this social sore he may be reminded that he +himself--like every one of us little though we may know it--has certainly +had a great army of syphilitic and gonorrhoeal persons among his own +ancestors during the past four centuries. We are all bound together, and +it is absurd, even when it is not inhuman, to cast contempt on our own +flesh and blood. + +I have discussed rather fully the attitude of those who plead morality as +a reason for ignoring the social necessity of combating venereal disease, +because although there may not be many who seriously and understandingly +adopt so anti-social and inhuman an attitude there are certainly many who +are glad at need of the existence of so fine an excuse for their moral +indifference or their mental indolence.[242] When they are confronted by +this great and difficult problem they find it easy to offer the remedy of +conventional morality, although they are well aware that on a large scale +that remedy has long been proved to be ineffectual. They ostentatiously +affect to proffer the useless thick end of the wedge at a point where it +is only possible with much skill and prudence to insinuate the thin +working end. + +The general acceptance of the fact that syphilis and gonorrhoea +are diseases, and not necessarily crimes or sins, is the condition for any +practical attempt to deal with this question from the sanitary point of +view which is now taking the place of the antiquated and ineffective +police point of view. The Scandinavian countries of Europe have been the +pioneers in practical modern hygienic methods of dealing with venereal +disease. There are several reasons why this has come about. All the +problems of sex--of sexual love as well as of sexual disease--have long +been prominent in these countries, and an impatience with prudish +hypocrisy seems here to have been more pronounced than elsewhere; we see +this spirit, for instance, emphatically embodied in the plays of Ibsen, +and to some extent in Bjoernson's works. The fearless and energetic temper +of the people impels them to deal practically with sexual difficulties, +while their strong instincts of independence render them averse to the +bureaucratic police methods which have flourished in Germany and France. +The Scandinavians have thus been the natural pioneers of the methods of +combating venereal diseases which are now becoming generally recognized +to be the methods of the future, and they have fully organized the system +of putting venereal diseases under the ordinary law and dealing with them +as with other contagious diseases. + +The first step in dealing with a contagious disease is to apply to it the +recognized principles of notification. Every new application of the +principle, it is true, meets with opposition. It is without practical +result, it is an unwarranted inquisition into the affairs of the +individual, it is a new tax on the busy medical practitioner, etc. +Certainly notification by itself will not arrest the progress of any +infectious disease. But it is an essential element in every attempt to +deal with the prevention of disease. Unless we know precisely the exact +incidence, local variations, and temporary fluctuations of a disease we +are entirely in the dark and can only beat about at random. All progress +in public hygiene has been accompanied by the increased notification of +disease, and most authorities are agreed that such notification must be +still further extended, any slight inconvenience thus caused to +individuals being of trifling importance compared to the great public +interests at stake. It is true that so great an authority as Neisser has +expressed doubt concerning the extension of notification to gonorrhoea; +the diagnosis cannot be infallible, and the patients often give false +names. These objections, however, seem trivial; diagnosis can very seldom +be infallible (though in this field no one has done so much for exact +diagnosis as Neisser himself), and names are not necessary for +notification, and are not indeed required in the form of compulsory +notification of venereal disease which existed a few years ago in Norway. + +The principle of the compulsory notification of venereal diseases seems to +have been first established in Prussia, where it dates from 1835. The +system here, however, is only partial, not being obligatory in all cases +but only when in the doctor's opinion secrecy might be harmful to the +patient himself or to the community; it is only obligatory when the +patient is a soldier. This method of notification is indeed on a wrong +basis, it is not part of a comprehensive sanitary system but merely an +auxiliary to police methods of dealing with prostitution. According to +the Scandinavian system, notification, though not an essential part of +this system, rests on an entirely different basis. + +The Scandinavian plan in a modified form has lately been established in +Denmark. This little country, so closely adjoining Germany, for some time +followed in this matter the example of its great neighbor and adopted the +police regulation of prostitution and venereal disease. The more +fundamental Scandinavian affinities of Denmark were, however, eventually +asserted, and in 1906, the system of regulation was entirely abandoned and +Denmark resolved to rely on thorough and systematic application of the +sanitary principle already accepted in the country, although something of +German influence still persists in the strict regulation of the streets +and the penalties imposed upon brothel-keepers, leaving prostitution +itself free. The decisive feature of the present system is, however, that +the sanitary authorities are now exclusively medical. Everyone, whatever +his social or financial position, is entitled to the free treatment of +venereal disease. Whether he avails himself of it or not, he is in any +case bound to undergo treatment. Every diseased person is thus, so far as +it can be achieved, in a doctor's hands. All doctors have their +instructions in regard to such cases, they have not only to inform their +patients that they cannot marry so long as risks of infection are +estimated to be present, but that they are liable for the expenses of +treatment, as well as the dangers suffered, by any persons whom they may +infect. Although it has not been possible to make the system at every +point thoroughly operative, its general success is indicated by the entire +reliance now placed on it, and the abandonment of the police regulation of +prostitution. A system very similar to that of Denmark was established +some years previously in Norway. The principle of the treatment of +venereal disease at the public expense exists also in Sweden as well as in +Finland, where treatment is compulsory.[243] + +It can scarcely be said that the principle of notification has yet been +properly applied on a large scale to venereal diseases. But it is +constantly becoming more widely advocated, more especially in England and +the United States,[244] where national temperament and political +traditions render the system of the police regulation of prostitution +impossible--even if it were more effective than it practically is--and +where the system of dealing with venereal disease on the basis of public +health has to be recognized as not only the best but the only possible +system.[245] + +In association with this, it is necessary, as is also becoming ever more +widely recognized, that there should be the most ample facilities for the +gratuitous treatment of venereal diseases; the general establishment of +free dispensaries, open in the evenings, is especially necessary, for many +can only seek advice and help at this time. It is largely to the +systematic introduction of facilities for gratuitous treatment that the +enormous reduction in venereal disease in Sweden, Norway, and Bosnia is +attributed. It is the absence of the facilities for treatment, the implied +feeling that the victims of venereal disease are not sufferers but merely +offenders not entitled to care, that has in the past operated so +disastrously in artificially promoting the dissemination of preventable +diseases which might be brought under control. + +If we dispense with the paternal methods of police regulation, if we rely +on the general principles of medical hygiene, and for the rest allow the +responsibility for his own good or bad actions to rest on the individual +himself, there is a further step, already fully recognized in principle, +which we cannot neglect to take: We must look on every person as +accountable for the venereal diseases he transmits. So long as we refuse +to recognize venereal diseases as on the same level as other infectious +diseases, and so long as we offer no full and fair facilities for their +treatment, it is unjust to bring the individual to account for spreading +them. But if we publicly recognize the danger of infectious venereal +diseases, and if we leave freedom to the individual, we must inevitably +declare, with Duclaux, that every man or woman must be held responsible +for the diseases he or she communicates. + +According to the Oldenburg Code of 1814 it was a punishable offence for a +venereally diseased person to have sexual intercourse with a healthy +person, whether or not infection resulted. In Germany to-day, however, +there is no law of this kind, although eminent German legal authorities, +notably Von Liszt, are of opinion that a paragraph should be added to the +Code declaring that sexual intercourse on the part of a person who knows +that he is diseased should be punishable by imprisonment for a period not +exceeding two years, the law not to be applied as between married couples +except on the application of one of the parties. At the present time in +Germany the transmission of venereal disease is only punishable as a +special case of the infliction of bodily injury.[246] In this matter +Germany is behind most of the Scandinavian countries where individual +responsibility for venereal infection is well recognized and actively +enforced. + +In France, though the law is not definite and satisfactory, actions for +the transmission of syphilis are successfully brought before the courts. +Opinion seems to be more decisively in favor of punishment for this +offense than it is in Germany. In 1883 Despres discussed the matter and +considered the objections. Few may avail themselves of the law, he +remarks, but all would be rendered more cautious by the fear of infringing +it; while the difficulties of tracing and proving infection are not +greater, he points out, than those of tracing and proving paternity in the +case of illegitimate children. Despres would punish with imprisonment for +not more than two years any person, knowing himself to be diseased, who +transmitted a venereal disease, and would merely fine those who +communicated the contagion by imprudence, not realizing that they were +diseased.[247] The question has more recently been discussed by Aurientis +in a Paris thesis. He states that the present French law as regards the +transmission of sexual diseases is not clearly established and is +difficult to act upon, but it is certainly just that those who have been +contaminated and injured in this way should easily be able to obtain +reparation. Although it is admitted in principle that the communication of +syphilis is an offence even under common law he is in agreement with those +who would treat it as a special offence, making a new and more practical +law.[248] Heavy damages are even at the present time obtained in the +French courts from men who have infected young women in sexual +intercourse, and also from the doctors as well as the mothers of +syphilitic infants who have infected the foster-mothers they were +entrusted to. Although the French Penal Code forbids in general the +disclosure of professional secrets, it is the duty of the medical +practitioner to warn the foster-mother in such a case of the danger she is +incurring, but without naming the disease; if he neglects to give this +warning he may be held liable. + +In England, as well as in the United States, the law is more +unsatisfactory and more helpless, in relation to this class of offences, +than it is in France. The mischievous and barbarous notion, already dealt +with, according to which venereal disease is the result of illicit +intercourse and should be tolerated as a just visitation of God, seems +still to flourish in these countries with fatal persistency. In England +the communication of venereal disease by illicit intercourse is not an +actionable wrong if the act of intercourse has been voluntary, even +although there has been wilful and intentional concealment of the disease. +_Ex turpi causa non oritur actio_, it is sententiously said; for there is +much dormitative virtue in a Latin maxim. No legal offence has still been +committed if a husband contaminates his wife, or a wife her husband.[249] +The "freedom" enjoyed in this matter by England and the United States is +well illustrated by an American case quoted by Dr. Isidore Dyer, of New +Orleans, in his report to the Brussels Conference on the Prevention of +Venereal Diseases, in 1899: "A patient with primary syphilis refused even +charitable treatment and carried a book wherein she kept the number of men +she had inoculated. When I first saw her she declared the number had +reached two hundred and nineteen and that she would not be treated until +she had had revenge on five hundred men." In a community where the most +elementary rules of justice prevailed facilities would exist to enable +this woman to obtain damages from the man who had injured her or even to +secure his conviction to a term of imprisonment. In obtaining some +indemnity for the wrong done her, and securing the "revenge" she craved, +she would at the same time have conferred a benefit on society. She is +shut out from any action against the one person who injured her; but as a +sort of compensation she is allowed to become a radiating focus of +disease, to shorten many lives, to cause many deaths, to pile up +incalculable damages; and in so doing she is to-day perfectly within her +legal rights. A community which encourages this state of things is not +only immoral but stupid. + +There seems, however, to be a growing body of influential opinion, both in +England and in the United States, in favor of making the transmission of +venereal disease an offence punishable by heavy fine or by +imprisonment.[250] In any enactment no stress should be put on the +infection being conveyed "knowingly." Any formal limitation of this kind +is unnecessary, as in such a case the Court always takes into account the +offender's ignorance or mere negligence, and it is mischievous because it +tends to render an enactment ineffective and to put a premium on +ignorance; the husbands who infect their wives with gonorrhoea +immediately after marriage have usually done so from ignorance, and it +should be at least necessary for them to prove that they have been +fortified in their ignorance by medical advice. It is sometimes said that +the existing law could be utilized for bringing actions of this kind, and +that no greater facilities should be offered for fear of increasing +attempts at blackmail. The inutility of the law at present for this +purpose is shown by the fact that it seldom or never happens that any +attempt is made to utilize it, while not only are there a number of +existing punishable offences which form the subject of attempts at +blackmail, but blackmail can still be demanded even in regard to +disreputable actions that are not legally punishable at all. Moreover, the +attempt to levy blackmail is itself an offence always sternly dealt with +in the courts. + +It is possible to trace the beginning of a recognition that the +transmission of a venereal disease is a matter of which legal cognizance +may be taken in the English law courts. It is now well settled that the +infection of a wife by her husband may be held to constitute the legal +cruelty which, according to the present law, must be proved, in addition +to adultery, before a wife can obtain divorce from her husband. In 1777 +Restif de la Bretonne proposed in his _Gynographes_ that the communication +of a venereal disease should itself be an adequate ground for divorce; +this, however, is not at present generally accepted.[251] + +It is sometimes said that it is very well to make the individual legally +responsible for the venereal disease he communicates, but that the +difficulties of bringing that responsibility home would still remain. And +those who admit these difficulties frequently reply that at the worst we +should have in our hands a means of educating responsibility; the man who +deliberately ran the risk of transmitting such infection would be made to +feel that he was no longer fairly within his legal rights but had done a +bad action. We are thus led on finally to what is now becoming generally +recognized as the chief and central method of combating venereal disease, +if we are to accept the principle of individual responsibility as ruling +in this sphere of life. Organized sanitary and medical precautions, and +proper legal protection for those who have been injured, are inoperative +without the educative influence of elementary hygienic instruction placed +in the possession of every young man and woman. In a sphere that is +necessarily so intimate medical organization and legal resort can never be +all-sufficing; knowledge is needed at every step in every individual to +guide and even to awaken that sense of personal moral responsibility which +must here always rule. Wherever the importance of these questions is +becoming acutely realized--and notably at the Congresses of the German +Society for Combating Venereal Disease--the problem is resolving itself +mainly into one of education.[252] And although opinion and practice in +this matter are to-day more advanced in Germany than elsewhere the +conviction of this necessity is becoming scarcely less pronounced in all +other civilized countries, in England and America as much as in France and +the Scandinavian lands. + +A knowledge of the risks of disease by sexual intercourse, both in and out +of marriage,--and indeed, apart from sexual intercourse altogether,--is a +further stage of that sexual education which, as we have already seen, +must begin, so far as the elements are concerned, at a very early age. +Youths and girls should be taught, as the distinguished Austrian +economist, Anton von Menger wrote, shortly before his death, in his +excellent little book, _Neue Sittenlehre_, that the production of children +is a crime when the parents are syphilitic or otherwise incompetent +through transmissible chronic diseases. Information about venereal disease +should not indeed be given until after puberty is well established. It is +unnecessary and undesirable to impart medical knowledge to young boys and +girls and to warn them against risks they are yet little liable to be +exposed to. It is when the age of strong sexual instinct, actual or +potential, begins that the risks, under some circumstances, of yielding to +it, need to be clearly present to the mind. No one who reflects on the +actual facts of life ought to doubt that it is in the highest degree +desirable that every adolescent youth and girl ought to receive some +elementary instruction in the general facts of venereal disease, +tuberculosis, and alcoholism. These three "plagues of civilization" are so +widespread, so subtle and manifold in their operation, that everyone comes +in contact with them during life, and that everyone is liable to suffer, +even before he is aware, perhaps hopelessly and forever, from the results +of that contact. Vague declamation about immorality and vaguer warnings +against it have no effect and possess no meaning, while rhetorical +exaggeration is unnecessary. A very simple and concise statement of the +actual facts concerning the evils that beset life is quite sufficient and +adequate, and quite essential. To ignore this need is only possible to +those who take a dangerously frivolous view of life. + +It is the young woman as much as the youth who needs this enlightenment. +There are still some persons so ill-informed as to believe that though it +may be necessary to instruct the youth it is best to leave his sister +unsullied, as they consider it, by a knowledge of the facts of life. This +is the very reverse of the truth. It is desirable indeed that all should +be acquainted with facts so vital to humanity, even although not +themselves personally concerned. But the girl is even more concerned than +the youth. A man has the matter more within his own grasp, and if he so +chooses he may avoid all the grosser risks of contact with venereal +disease. But it is not so with the woman. Whatever her own purity, she +cannot be sure that she may not have to guard against the possibility of +disease in her future husband as well as in those to whom she may entrust +her child. It is a possibility which the educated woman, so far from +being dispensed from, is more liable to encounter than is the +working-class woman, for venereal disease is less prevalent among the poor +than the rich.[253] The careful physician, even when his patient is a +minister of religion, considers it his duty to inquire if he has had +syphilis, and the clergyman of most severely correct life recognizes the +need of such inquiry and may perhaps smile, but seldom feels himself +insulted. The relationship between husband and wife is even much more +intimate and important than that between doctor and patient, and a woman +is not dispensed from the necessity of such inquiry concerning her future +husband by the conviction that the reply must surely be satisfactory. +Moreover, it may well be in some cases that, if she is adequately +enlightened, she may be the means of saving him, before it is too late, +from the guilt of premature marriage and its fateful consequences, so +deserving to earn his everlasting gratitude. Even if she fails in winning +that, she still has her duty to herself and to the future race which her +children will help to form. + + In most countries there is a growing feeling in favor of the + enlightenment of young women equally with young men as regards + venereal diseases. Thus in Germany Max Flesch, in his + _Prostitution und Frauenkrankheiten_, considers that at the end + of their school days all girls should receive instruction + concerning the grave physical and social dangers to which women + are exposed in life. In France Duclaux (in his _L'Hygiene + Sociale_) is emphatic that women must be taught. "Already," he + states, "doctors who by custom have been made, in spite of + themselves, the husband's accomplices, will tell you of the + ironical gaze they sometimes encounter when they seek to lead a + wife astray concerning the causes of her ills. The day is + approaching of a revolt against the social lie which has made so + many victims, and you will be obliged to teach women what they + need to know in order to guard themselves against you." It is the + same in America. Reform in this field, Isidore Dyer declares, + must emblazon on its flag the motto, "Knowledge is Health," as + well of mind as of body, for women as well as for men. In a + discussion introduced by Denslow Lewis at the annual meeting of + the American Medical Association in 1901 on the limitation of + venereal diseases (_Medico-Legal Journal_, June and September, + 1903), there was a fairly general agreement among all the + speakers that almost or quite the chief method of prevention lay + in education, the education of women as much as of men. + "Education lies at the bottom of the whole thing," declared one + speaker (Seneca Egbert, of Philadelphia), "and we will never gain + much headway until every young man, and every young woman, even + before she falls in love and becomes engaged, knows what these + diseases are, and what it will mean if she marries a man who has + contracted them." "Educate father and mother, and they will + educate their sons and daughters," exclaims Egbert Grandin, more + especially in regard to gonorrhoea (_Medical Record_, May 26, + 1906); "I lay stress on the daughter because she becomes the + chief sufferer from inoculation, and it is her right to know that + she should protect herself against the gonorrhoeic as well as + against the alcoholic." + +We must fully face the fact that it is the woman herself who must be +accounted responsible, as much as a man, for securing the right conditions +of a marriage she proposes to enter into. In practice, at the outset, that +responsibility may no doubt be in part delegated to parents or guardians. +It is unreasonable that any false delicacy should be felt about this +matter on either side. Questions of money and of income are discussed +before marriage, and as public opinion grows sounder none will question +the necessity of discussing the still more serious question of health, +alike that of the prospective bridegroom and of the bride. An incalculable +amount of disease and marital unhappiness would be prevented if before an +engagement was finally concluded each party placed himself or herself in +the hands of a physician and authorized him to report to the other party. +Such a report would extend far beyond venereal disease. If its necessity +became generally recognized it would put an end to much fraud which now +takes place when entering the marriage bond. It constantly happens at +present that one party or the other conceals the existence of some serious +disease or disability which is speedily discovered after marriage, +sometimes with a painful and alarming shock--as when a man discovers his +wife in an epileptic fit on the wedding night--and always with the bitter +and abiding sense of having been duped. There can be no reasonable doubt +that such concealment is an adequate cause of divorce. Sir Thomas More +doubtless sought to guard against such frauds when he ordained in his +_Utopia_ that each party should before marriage be shown naked to the +other. The quaint ceremony he describes was based on a reasonable idea, +for it is ludicrous, if it were not often tragic in its results, that any +person should be asked to undertake to embrace for life a person whom he +or she has not so much as seen. + +It may be necessary to point out that every movement in this direction +must be the spontaneous action of individuals directing their own lives +according to the rules of an enlightened conscience, and cannot be +initiated by the dictation of the community as a whole enforcing its +commands by law. In these matters law can only come in at the end, not at +the beginning. In the essential matters of marriage and procreation laws +are primarily made in the brains and consciences of individuals for their +own guidance. Unless such laws are already embodied in the actual practice +of the great majority of the community it is useless for parliaments to +enact them by statute. They will be ineffective or else they will be worse +than ineffective by producing undesigned mischiefs. We can only go to the +root of the matter by insisting on education in moral responsibility and +instruction, in matters of fact. + +The question arises as to the best person to impart this instruction. As +we have seen there can be little doubt that before puberty the parents, +and especially the mother, are the proper instructors of their children in +esoteric knowledge. But after puberty the case is altered. The boy and the +girl are becoming less amenable to parental influence, there is greater +shyness on both sides, and the parents rarely possess the more technical +knowledge that is now required. At this stage it seems that the assistance +of the physician, of the family doctor if he has the proper qualities for +the task, should be called in. The plan usually adopted, and now widely +carried out, is that of lectures setting forth the main facts concerning +venereal diseases, their dangers, and allied topics.[254] This method is +quite excellent. Such lectures should be delivered at intervals by medical +lecturers at all urban, educational, manufacturing, military, and naval +centres, wherever indeed a large number of young persons are gathered +together. It should be the business of the central educational authority +either to carry them out or to enforce on those controlling or employing +young persons the duty of providing such lectures. The lectures should be +free to all who have attained the age of sixteen. + + In Germany the principle of instruction by lectures concerning + venereal diseases seems to have become established, at all events + so far as young men are concerned, and such lectures are + constantly becoming more usual. In 1907 the Minister of Education + established courses of lectures by doctors on sexual hygiene and + venereal diseases for higher schools and educational + institutions, though attendance was not made compulsory. The + courses now frequently given by medical men to the higher classes + in German secondary schools on the general principles of sexual + anatomy and physiology nearly always include sexual hygiene with + special reference to venereal diseases (see, e.g., + _Sexualpaedagogik_, pp. 131-153). In Austria, also, lectures on + personal hygiene and the dangers of venereal disease are + delivered to students about to leave the gymnasium for the + university; and the working men's clubs have instituted regular + courses of lectures on the same subjects delivered by physicians. + In France many distinguished men, both inside and outside the + medical profession, are working for the cause of the instruction + of the young in sexual hygiene, though they have to contend + against a more obstinate degree of prejudice and prudery on the + part of the middle class than is to be found in the Germanic + lands. The Commission Extraparlementaire du Regime des Moeurs, + with the conjunction of Augagneur, Alfred Fournier, Yves Guyot, + Gide, and other distinguished professors, teachers, etc., has + lately pronounced in favor of the official establishment of + instruction in sexual hygiene, to be given in the highest classes + at the lycees, or in the earliest class at higher educational + colleges; such instruction, it is argued, would not only furnish + needed enlightenment, but also educate the sense of moral + responsibility. There is in France, also, an active and + distinguished though unofficial Societe Francaise de Prophylaxie + Sanitaire et Morale, which delivers public lectures on sexual + hygiene. Fournier, Pinard, Burlureaux and other eminent + physicians have written pamphlets on this subject for popular + distribution (see, e.g., _Le Progres Medical_ of September, + 1907). In England and the United States very little has yet been + done in this direction, but in the United States, at all events, + opinion in favor of action is rapidly growing (see, e.g., W.A. + Funk, "The Venereal Peril," _Medical Record_, April 13, 1907). + The American Society of Sanitary and Moral Prophylaxis (based on + the parent society founded in Paris in 1900 by Fournier) was + established in New York in 1905. There are similar societies in + Chicago and Philadelphia. The main object is to study venereal + diseases and to work toward their social control. Doctors, + laymen, and women are members. Lectures and short talks are now + given under the auspices of these societies to small groups of + young women in social settlements, and in other ways, with + encouraging success; it is found to be an excellent method of + reaching the young women of the working classes. Both men and + women physicians take part in the lectures (Clement Cleveland, + Presidential Address on "Prophylaxis of Venereal Diseases," + _Transactions American Gynecological Society_, Philadelphia, vol. + xxxii, 1907). + + An important auxiliary method of carrying out the task of sexual + hygiene, and at the same time of spreading useful enlightenment, + is furnished by the method of giving to every syphilitic patient + in clinics where such cases are treated a card of instruction for + his guidance in hygienic matters, together with a warning of the + risks of marriage within four or five years after infection, and + in no case without medical advice. Such printed instruction, in + clear, simple, and incisive language, should be put into the + hands of every syphilitic patient as a matter of routine, and it + might be as well to have a corresponding card for gonorrhoeal + patients. This plan has already been introduced at some + hospitals, and it is so simple and unobjectionable a precaution + that it will, no doubt, be generally adopted. In some countries + this measure is carried out on a wider scale. Thus in Austria, as + the result of a movement in which several university professors + have taken an active part, leaflets and circulars, explaining + briefly the chief symptoms of venereal diseases and warning + against quacks and secret remedies, are circulated among young + laborers and factory hands, matriculating students, and scholars + who are leaving trade schools. + + In France, where great social questions are sometimes faced with + a more chivalrous daring than elsewhere, the dangers of syphilis, + and the social position of the prostitute, have alike been dealt + with by distinguished novelists and dramatists. Huysmans + inaugurated this movement with his first novel, _Marthe_, which + was immediately suppressed by the police. Shortly afterwards + Edmond de Goncourt published _La Fille Elisa_, the first notable + novel of the kind by a distinguished author. It was written with + much reticence, and was not indeed a work of high artistic + value, but it boldly faced a great social problem and clearly set + forth the evils of the common attitude towards prostitution. It + was dramatized and played by Antoine at the Theatre Libre, but + when, in 1891, Antoine wished to produce it at the + Porte-Saint-Martin Theatre, the censor interfered and prohibited + the play on account of its "contexture generale." The Minister of + Education defended this decision on the ground that there was + much in the play that might arouse repugnance and disgust. + "Repugnance here is more moral than attraction," exclaimed M. + Paul Deroulede, and the newspapers criticized a censure which + permitted on the stage all the trivial indecencies which favor + prostitution, but cannot tolerate any attack on prostitution. In + more recent years the brothers Margueritte, both in novels and in + journalism, have largely devoted their distinguished abilities + and high literary skill to the courageous and enlightened + advocacy of many social reforms. Victor Margueritte, in his + _Prostituee_ (1907)--a novel which has attracted wide attention + and been translated into various languages--has sought to + represent the condition of women in our actual society, and more + especially the condition of the prostitute under what he regards + as the odious and iniquitous system still prevailing. The book is + a faithful picture of the real facts, thanks to the assistance + the author received from the Paris Prefecture of Police, and + largely for that reason is not altogether a satisfactory work of + art, but it vividly and poignantly represents the cruelty, + indifference, and hypocrisy so often shown by men towards women, + and is a book which, on that account, cannot be too widely read. + One of the most notable of modern plays is Brieux's _Les Avaries_ + (1902). This distinguished dramatist, himself a medical man, + dedicates his play to Fournier, the greatest of syphilographers. + "I think with you," he writes here, "that syphilis will lose much + of its danger when it is possible to speak openly of an evil + which is neither a shame nor a punishment, and when those who + suffer from it, knowing what evils they may propagate, will + better understand their duties towards others and towards + themselves." The story developed in the drama is the old and + typical story of the young man who has spent his bachelor days in + what he considers a discrete and regular manner, having only had + two mistresses, neither of them prostitutes, but at the end of + this period, at a gay supper at which he bids farewell to his + bachelor life, he commits a fatal indiscretion and becomes + infected by syphilis; his marriage is approaching and he goes to + a distinguished specialist who warns him that treatment takes + time, and that marriage is impossible for several years; he finds + a quack, however, who undertakes to cure him in six months; at + the end of the time he marries; a syphilitic child is born; the + wife discovers the state of things and forsakes her home to + return to her parents; her indignant father, a deputy in + Parliament, arrives in Paris; the last word is with the great + specialist who brings finally some degree of peace and hope into + the family. The chief morals Brieux points out are that it is the + duty of the bride's parents before marriage to ascertain the + bridegroom's health; that the bridegroom should have a doctor's + certificate; that at every marriage the part of the doctors is at + least as important as that of the lawyers. Even if it were a less + accomplished work of art than it is, _Les Avaries_ is a play + which, from the social and educative point of view alone, all who + have reached the age of adolescence should be compelled to see. + + Another aspect of the same problem has been presented in _Plus + Fort que le Mal_, a book written in dramatic form (though not as + a properly constituted play intended for the stage) by a + distinguished French medical author who here adopts the name of + Espy de Metz. The author (who is not, however, pleading _pro + domo_) calls for a more sympathetic attitude towards those who + suffer from syphilis, and though he writes with much less + dramatic skill than Brieux, and scarcely presents his moral in so + unequivocal a form, his work is a notable contribution to the + dramatic literature of syphilis. + + It will probably be some time before these questions, poignant as + they are from the dramatic point of view, and vitally important + from the social point of view, are introduced on the English or + the American stage. It is a remarkable fact that, notwithstanding + the Puritanic elements which still exist in Anglo-Saxon thought + and feeling generally, the Puritanic aspect of life has never + received embodiment in the English or American drama. On the + English stage it is never permitted to hint at the tragic side of + wantonness; vice must always be made seductive, even though a + _deus ex machina_ causes it to collapse at the end of the + performance. As Mr. Bernard Shaw has said, the English theatrical + method by no means banishes vice; it merely consents that it + shall be made attractive; its charms are advertised and its + penalties suppressed. "Now, it is futile to plead that the stage + is not the proper place for the representation and discussion of + illegal operations, incest, and venereal disease. If the stage is + the proper place for the exhibition and discussion of seduction, + adultery, promiscuity, and prostitution, it must be thrown open + to all the consequences of these things, or it will demoralize + the nation." + + The impulse to insist that vice shall always be made attractive + is not really, notwithstanding appearances, a vicious impulse. It + arises from a mental confusion, a common psychic tendency, which + is by no means confined to Anglo-Saxon lands, and is even more + well marked among the better educated in the merely literary + sense, than among the worse educated people. The aesthetic is + confused with the moral, and what arouses disgust is thus + regarded as immoral. In France the novels of Zola, the most + pedestrianally moralistic of writers, were for a long time + supposed to be immoral because they were often disgusting. The + same feeling is still more widespread in England. If a + prostitute is brought on the stage, and she is pretty, + well-dressed, seductive, she may gaily sail through the play and + every one is satisfied. But if she were not particularly pretty, + well-dressed, or seductive, if it were made plain that she was + diseased and was reckless in infecting others with that disease, + if it were hinted that she could on occasion be foul-mouthed, if, + in short, a picture were shown from life--then we should hear + that the unfortunate dramatist had committed something that was + "disgusting" and "immoral." Disgusting it might be, but, on that + very account, it would be moral. There is a distinction here that + the psychologist cannot too often point out or the moralist too + often emphasize. + +It is not for the physician to complicate and confuse his own task as +teacher by mixing it up with considerations which belong to the spiritual +sphere. But in carrying out impartially his own special work of +enlightenment he will always do well to remember that there is in the +adolescent mind, as it has been necessary to point out in a previous +chapter, a spontaneous force working on the side of sexual hygiene. Those +who believe that the adolescent mind is merely bent on sensual indulgence +are not less false and mischievous in their influence than are those who +think it possible and desirable for adolescents to be preserved in sheer +sexual ignorance. However concealed, suppressed, or deformed--usually by +the misplaced and premature zeal of foolish parents and teachers--there +arise at puberty ideal impulses which, even though they may be rooted in +sex, yet in their scope transcend sex. These are capable of becoming far +more potent guides of the physical sex impulse than are merely material or +even hygienic considerations. + +It is time to summarize and conclude this discussion of the prevention of +venereal disease, which, though it may seem to the superficial observer to +be merely a medical and sanitary question outside the psychologist's +sphere, is yet seen on closer view to be intimately related even to the +most spiritual conception of the sexual relationships. Not only are +venereal diseases the foes to the finer development of the race, but we +cannot attain to any wholesome and beautiful vision of the relationships +of sex so long as such relationships are liable at every moment to be +corrupted and undermined at their source. We cannot yet precisely measure +the interval which must elapse before, so far as Europe at least is +concerned, syphilis and gonorrhoea are sent to that limbo of monstrous old +dead diseases to which plague and leprosy have gone and smallpox is +already drawing near. But society is beginning to realize that into this +field also must be brought the weapons of light and air, the sword and the +breastplate with which all diseases can alone be attacked. As we have +seen, there are four methods by which in the more enlightened countries +venereal disease is now beginning to be combated.[255] (1) By proclaiming +openly that the venereal diseases are diseases like any other disease, +although more subtle and terrible than most, which may attack anyone from +the unborn baby to its grandmother, and that they are not, more than other +diseases, the shameful penalties of sin, from which relief is only to be +sought, if at all, by stealth, but human calamities; (2) by adopting +methods of securing official information concerning the extent, +distribution, and variation of venereal disease, through the already +recognized plan of notification and otherwise, and by providing such +facilities for treatment, especially for free treatment, as may be found +necessary; (3) by training the individual sense of moral responsibility, +so that every member of the community may realize that to inflict a +serious disease on another person, even only as a result of reckless +negligence, is a more serious offence than if he or she had used the knife +or the gun or poison as the method of attack, and that it is necessary to +introduce special legal provision in every country to assist the recovery +of damages for such injuries and to inflict penalties by loss of liberty +or otherwise; (4) by the spread of hygienic knowledge, so that all +adolescents, youths and girls alike, may be furnished at the outset of +adult life with an equipment of information which will assist them to +avoid the grosser risks of contamination and enable them to recognize and +avoid danger at the earliest stages. + +A few years ago, when no method of combating venereal disease was known +except that system of police regulation which is now in its decadence, it +would have been impossible to bring forward such considerations as these; +they would have seemed Utopian. To-day they are not only recognizable as +practical, but they are being actually put into practice, although, it is +true, with very varying energy and insight in different countries. Yet it +is certain that in the competition of nationalities, as Max von Niessen +has well said, "that country will best take a leading place in the march +of civilization which has the foresight and courage to introduce and carry +through those practical movements of sexual hygiene which have so wide and +significant a bearing on its own future, and that of the human race +generally."[256] + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[220] It is probable that Schopenhauer felt a more than merely speculative +interest in this matter. Bloch has shown good reason for believing that +Schopenhauer himself contracted syphilis in 1813, and that this was a +factor in constituting his conception of the world and in confirming his +constitutional pessimism (_Medizinische Klinik_, Nos. 25 and 26, 1906). + +[221] Havelburg, in Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation +to Marriage_, vol. i, pp. 186-189. + +[222] This is the very definite opinion of Lowndes after an experience of +fifty-four years in the treatment of venereal diseases in Liverpool +(_British Medical Journal_, Feb. 9, 1907, p. 334). It is further indicated +by the fact (if it is a real fact) that since 1876 there has been a +decline of both the infantile and general mortality from syphilis in +England. + +[223] "There is no doubt whatever that syphilis is on the increase in +London, judging from hospital work alone," says Pernet (_British Medical +Journal_, March 30, 1907). Syphilis was evidently very prevalent, however, +a century or two ago, and there is no ground for asserting positively that +it is more prevalent to-day. + +[224] See, e.g., A. Neisser, _Die experimentelle Syphilisforschung_, 1906, +and E. Hoffmann (who was associated with Schaudinn's discovery), _Die +Aetiologie der Syphilis_, 1906; D'Arcy Power, _A System of Syphilis_, +1908, etc.; F.W. Mott, "Pathology of Syphilis in the Light of Modern +Research," _British Medical Journal_, February 20, 1909; also, _Archives +of Neurology and Psychiatry_, vol. iv, 1909. + +[225] There is some difference of opinion on this point, and though it +seems probable that early and thorough treatment usually cures the disease +in a few years and renders further complications highly improbable, it is +not possible, even under the most favorable circumstances, to speak with +absolute certainty as to the future. + +[226] "That syphilis has been, and is, one of the chief causes of physical +degeneration in England cannot be denied, and it is a fact that is +acknowledged on all sides," writes Lieutenant-Colonel Lambkin, the medical +officer in command of the London Military Hospital for Venereal Diseases. +"To grapple with the treatment of syphilis among the civil population of +England ought to be the chief object of those interested in that most +burning question, the physical degeneration of our race" (_British Medical +Journal_, August 19, 1905). + +[227] F.W. Mott, "Syphilis as a Cause of Insanity," _British Medical +Journal_, October 18, 1902. + +[228] It can seldom be proved in more than eighty per cent. of cases, but +in twenty per cent. of old syphilitic cases it is commonly impossible to +find traces of the disease or to obtain a history of it. Crocker found +that it was only in eighty per cent. of cases of absolutely certain +syphilitic skin diseases that he could obtain a history of syphilitic +infection, and Mott found exactly the same percentage in absolutely +certain syphilitic lesions of the brain; Mott believes (e.g., "Syphilis in +Relation to the Nervous System," _British Medical Journal_, January 4, +1908) that syphilis is the essential cause of general paralysis and tabes. + +[229] Audry. _La Semaine Medicale_, June 26, 1907. When Europeans carry +syphilis to lands inhabited by people of lower race, the results are often +very much worse than this. Thus Lambkin, as a result of a special mission +to investigate syphilis in Uganda, found that in some districts as many as +ninety per cent, of the people suffer from syphilis, and fifty to sixty +per cent, of the infant mortality is due to this cause. These people are +Baganda, a highly intelligent, powerful, and well-organized tribe before +they received, in the gift of syphilis, the full benefit of civilization +and Christianity, which (Lambkin points out) has been largely the cause of +the spread of the disease by breaking down social customs and emancipating +the women. Christianity is powerful enough to break down the old morality, +but not powerful enough to build up a new morality (_British Medical +Journal_, October 3, 1908, p. 1037). + +[230] Even within the limits of the English army it is found In India +(H.C. French, _Syphilis in the Army_, 1907) that venereal disease is ten +times more frequent among British troops than among Native troops. Outside +of national armies it is found, by admission to hospital and death rates, +that the United States stands far away at the head for frequency of +venereal disease, being followed by Great Britain, then France and +Austria-Hungary, Russia, and Germany. + +[231] There is no dispute concerning the antiquity of gonorrhoea in the +Old World as there is regarding syphilis. The disease was certainly known +at a very remote period. Even Esarhaddon, the famous King of Assyria, +referred to in the Old Testament, was treated by the priests for a +disorder which, as described in the cuneiform documents of the time, could +only have been gonorrhoea. The disease was also well known to the ancient +Egyptians, and evidently common, for they recorded many prescriptions for +its treatment (Oefele, "Gonorrhoe 1350 vor Christi Geburt," _Monatshefte +fuer Praktische Dermatologie_, 1899, p. 260). + +[232] Cf. Memorandum by Sydney Stephenson, Report of Ophthalmia Neonatorum +Committee, _British Medical Journal_, May 8, 1909. + +[233] The extent of these evils is set forth, e.g., in a comprehensive +essay by Taylor, _American Journal Obstetrics_, January, 1908. + +[234] Neisser brings together figures bearing on the prevalence of +gonorrhoea in Germany, Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in +Relation to Marriage_, vol. ii, pp. 486-492. + +[235] _Lancet_, September 23, 1882. As regards women, Dr. Frances Ivens +(_British Medical Journal_, June 19, 1909) has found at Liverpool that 14 +per cent. of gynaecological cases revealed the presence of gonorrhoea. They +were mostly poor respectable married women. This is probably a high +proportion, as Liverpool is a busy seaport, but it is less than Saenger's +estimate of 18 per cent. + +[236] E.H. Grandin, _Medical Record_, May 26, 1906. + +[237] E.W. Cushing, "Sociological Aspects of Gonorrhoea," _Transactions +American Gynecological Society_, vol. xxii, 1897. + +[238] It is only in very small communities ruled by an autocratic power +with absolute authority to control conditions and to examine persons of +both sexes that reglementation becomes in any degree effectual. This is +well shown by Dr. W.E. Harwood, who describes the system he organized in +the mines of the Minnesota Iron Company (_Journal American Medical +Association_, December 22, 1906). The women in the brothels on the +company's estate were of the lowest class, and disease was very prevalent. +Careful examination of the women was established, and control of the men, +who, immediately on becoming diseased, were bound to declare by what woman +they had been infected. The woman was responsible for the medical bill of +the man she infected, and even for his board, if incapacitated, and the +women were compelled to maintain a fund for their own hospital expenses +when required. In this way venereal disease, though not entirely uprooted, +was very greatly diminished. + +[239] A clear and comprehensive statement of the present position of the +question is given by Iwan Bloch, _Das Sexualleben Unserer Zeit_, Chs. +XIII-XV. How ineffectual the system of police regulation is, even in +Germany, where police interference is tolerated to so marked a degree, may +be illustrated by the case of Mannheim. Here the regulation of +prostitution is very severe and thorough, yet a careful inquiry in 1905 +among the doctors of Mannheim (ninety-two of whom sent in detailed +returns) showed that of six hundred cases of venereal disease in men, +nearly half had been contracted from prostitutes. About half the remaining +cases (nearly a quarter of the whole) were due to waitresses and +bar-maids; then followed servant-girls (Lion and Loeb, in +_Sexualpaedagogik_, the Proceedings of the Third German Congress for +Combating Venereal Diseases, 1907, p. 295). + +[240] A sixth less numerous class might be added of the young girls, often +no more than children, who have been practically raped by men who believe +that intercourse with a virgin is a cure for obstinate venereal disease. +In America this belief is frequently held by Italians, Chinese, negroes, +etc. W. Travis Gibb, Examining Physician of the New York Society for the +Prevention of Cruelty to Children, has examined over 900 raped children +(only a small proportion, he states, of the cases actually occurring), and +finds that thirteen per cent have venereal diseases. A fairly large +proportion of these cases, among girls from twelve to sixteen, are, he +states, willing victims. Dr. Flora Pollack, also, of the Johns Hopkins +Hospital Dispensary, estimates that in Baltimore alone from 800 to 1,000 +children between the ages of one and fifteen are venereally infected every +year. The largest number, she finds, is at the age of six, and the chief +cause appears to be, not lust, but superstition. + +[241] For a discussion of inherited syphilis, see, e.g., Clement Lucas, +_Lancet_, February 1, 1908. + +[242] Much harm has been done in some countries by the foolish and +mischievous practice of friendly societies and sick clubs of ignoring +venereal diseases, and not according free medical aid or sick pay to those +members who suffer from them. This practice prevailed, for instance, in +Vienna until 1907, when a more humane and enlightened policy was +inaugurated, venereal diseases being placed on the same level as other +diseases. + +[243] Active measures against venereal disease were introduced in Sweden +early in the last century, and compulsory and gratuitous treatment +established. Compulsory notification was introduced many years ago in +Norway, and by 1907 there was a great diminution in the prevalence of +venereal diseases; there is compulsory treatment. + +[244] See, e.g., Morrow, _Social Diseases and Marriage_, Ch. XXXVII. + +[245] A committee of the Medical Society of New York, appointed in 1902 to +consider this question, reported in favor of notification without giving +names and addresses, and Dr. C.R. Drysdale, who took an active part in the +Brussels International Conference of 1899, advocated a similar plan in +England, _British Medical Journal_, February 3, 1900. + +[246] Thus in Munich, in 1908, a man who had given gonorrhoea to a +servant-girl was sent to prison for ten months on this ground. The state +of German opinion to-day on this subject is summarized by Bloch, +_Sexualleben unserer Zeit_, p. 424. + +[247] A. Despres, _La Prostitution a Paris_, p. 191. + +[248] F. Aurientis, _Etude Medico-legale sur la jurisprudence actuelle a +propos de la Transmission des Maladies Veneriennes_, These de Paris, 1906. + +[249] In England at present "a husband knowingly and wilfully infecting +his wife with the venereal disease, cannot be convicted criminally, either +under a charge of assault or of inflicting grievous bodily harm" (N. +Geary, _The Law of Marriage_, p. 479). This was decided in 1888 in the +case of _R. v. Clarence_ by nine judges to four judges in the Court for +the Consideration of Crown Cases Reserved. + +[250] Modern democratic sentiment is opposed to the sequestration of a +prostitute merely because she is diseased. But there can be no reasonable +doubt whatever that if a diseased prostitute infects another person, and +is unable to pay the very heavy damages which should be demanded in such a +case, she ought to be secluded and subjected to treatment. That is +necessary in the interests of the community. But it is also necessary, to +avoid placing a premium on the commission of an offence which would ensure +gratuitous treatment and provision for a prostitute without means, that +she should be furnished with facilities for treatment in any case. + +[251] It has, however, been decided by the Paris Court of Appeal that for +a husband to marry when knowingly suffering from a venereal disease and to +communicate that disease to his wife is a sufficient cause for divorce +(_Semaine Medicale_, May, 1896). + +[252] The large volume, entitled _Sexualpaedagogik_, containing the +Proceedings of the Third of these Congresses, almost ignores the special +subject of venereal disease, and is devoted to the questions involved by +the general sexual education of the young, which, as many of the speakers +maintained, must begin with the child at his mother's knee. + +[253] "Workmen, soldiers, and so on," Neisser remarks (Senator and +Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation to Marriage_, vol. ii, p. 485), +"can more easily find non-prostitute girls of their own class willing to +enter into amorous relations with them which result in sexual intercourse, +and they are therefore less exposed to the danger of infection than those +men who have recourse almost exclusively to prostitutes" (see also Bloch, +_Sexualleben unserer Zeit_, p. 437). + +[254] The character and extent of such lectures are fully discussed in the +Proceedings of the Third Congress of the German Society for Combating +Venereal Diseases, _Sexualpaedagogik_, 1907. + +[255] I leave out of account, as beyond the scope of the present work, the +auxiliary aids to the suppression of venereal diseases furnished by the +promising new methods, only now beginning to be understood, of treating or +even aborting such diseases (see, e.g., Metchnikoff, _The New Hygiene_, +1906). + +[256] Max von Niessen, "Herr Doktor, darf ich heiraten?" _Mutterschutz_, +1906, p. 352. + + + + +CHAPTER IX. + +SEXUAL MORALITY. + +Prostitution in Relation to Our Marriage System--Marriage and +Morality--The Definition of the Term "Morality"--Theoretical Morality--Its +Division Into Traditional Morality and Ideal Morality--Practical +Morality--Practical Morality Based on Custom--The Only Subject of +Scientific Ethics--The Reaction Between Theoretical and Practical +Morality--Sexual Morality in the Past an Application of Economic +Morality--The Combined Rigidity and Laxity of This Morality--The +Growth of a Specific Sexual Morality and the Evolution of Moral +Ideals--Manifestations of Sexual Morality--Disregard of the Forms of +Marriage--Trial Marriage--Marriage After Conception of Child--Phenomena in +Germany, Anglo-Saxon Countries, Russia, etc.--The Status of Woman--The +Historical Tendency Favoring Moral Equality of Women with Men--The Theory +of the Matriarchate--Mother-Descent--Women in Babylonia--Egypt--Rome--The +Eighteenth and Nineteenth Centuries--The Historical Tendency +Favoring Moral Inequality of Woman--The Ambiguous Influence of +Christianity--Influence of Teutonic Custom and Feudalism--Chivalry--Woman +in England--The Sale of Wives--The Vanishing Subjection of +Woman--Inaptitude of the Modern Man to Domineer--The Growth of Moral +Responsibility in Women--The Concomitant Development of Economic +Independence--The Increase of Women Who Work--Invasion of the Modern +Industrial Field by Women--In How Far This Is Socially Justifiable--The +Sexual Responsibility of Women and Its Consequences--The Alleged Moral +Inferiority of Women--The "Self-Sacrifice" of Women--Society Not Concerned +with Sexual Relationships--Procreation the Sole Sexual Concern of the +State--The Supreme Importance of Maternity. + + +It has been necessary to deal fully with the phenomena of prostitution +because, however aloof we may personally choose to hold ourselves from +those phenomena, they really bring us to the heart of the sexual question +in so far as it constitutes a social problem. If we look at prostitution +from the outside, as an objective phenomenon, as a question of social +dynamics, it is seen to be not a merely accidental and eliminable incident +of our present marriage system but an integral part of it, without which +it would fall to pieces. This will probably be fairly clear to all who +have followed the preceding exposition of prostitutional phenomena. There +is, however, more than this to be said. Not only is prostitution to-day, +as it has been for more than two thousand years, the buttress of our +marriage system, but if we look at marriage, not from the outside as a +formal institution, but from the inside with relation to the motives that +constitute it, we find that marriage in a large proportion of cases is +itself in certain respects a form of prostitution. This has been +emphasized so often and from so many widely different standpoints that it +may seem hardly necessary to labor the point here. But the point is one of +extreme importance in relation to the question of sexual morality. Our +social conditions are unfavorable to the development of a high moral +feeling in woman. The difference between the woman who sells herself in +prostitution and the woman who sells herself in marriage, according to the +saying of Marro already quoted, "is only a difference in price and +duration of the contract." Or, as Forel puts it, marriage is "a more +fashionable form of prostitution," that is to say, a mode of obtaining, or +disposing of, for monetary considerations, a sexual commodity. Marriage +is, indeed, not merely a more fashionable form of prostitution, it is a +form sanctified by law and religion, and the question of morality is not +allowed to intrude. Morality may be outraged with impunity provided that +law and religion have been invoked. The essential principle of +prostitution is thus legalized and sanctified among us. That is why it is +so difficult to arouse any serious indignation, or to maintain any +reasoned objections, against our prostitution considered by itself. The +most plausible ground is that of those[257] who, bringing marriage down to +the level of prostitution, maintain that the prostitute is a "blackleg" +who is accepting less than the "market rate of wages," i.e., marriage, for +the sexual services she renders. But even this low ground is quite unsafe. +The prostitute is really paid extremely well considering how little she +gives in return; the wife is really paid extremely badly considering how +much she often gives, and how much she necessarily gives up. For the sake +of the advantage of economic dependence on her husband, she must give up, +as Ellen Key observes, those rights over her children, her property, her +work, and her own person which she enjoys as an unmarried woman, even, it +may be added, as a prostitute. The prostitute never signs away the right +over her own person, as the wife is compelled to do; the prostitute, +unlike the wife, retains her freedom and her personal rights, although +these may not often be of much worth. It is the wife rather than the +prostitute who is the "blackleg." + + It is by no means only during recent years that our marriage + system has been arraigned before the bar of morals. Forty years + ago James Hinton exhausted the vocabulary of denunciation in + describing the immorality and selfish licentiousness which our + marriage system covers with the cloak of legality and sanctity. + "There is an unsoundness in our marriage relations," Hinton + wrote. "Not only practically are they dreadful, but they do not + answer to feelings and convictions far too widespread to be + wisely ignored. Take the case of women of marked eminence + consenting to be a married man's mistress; of pure and simple + girls saying they cannot see why they should have a marriage by + law; of a lady saying that if she were in love she would not have + any legal tie; of its being necessary--or thought so by good and + wise men--to keep one sex in bitter and often fatal ignorance. + These things (and how many more) show some deep unsoundness in + the marriage relations. This must be probed and searched to the + bottom." + + At an earlier date, in 1847, Gross-Hoffinger, in his _Die + Schicksale der Frauen und die Prostitution_--a remarkable book + which Bloch, with little exaggeration, describes as possessing an + epoch-marking significance--vigorously showed that the problem of + prostitution is in reality the problem of marriage, and that we + can only reform away prostitution by reforming marriage, regarded + as a compulsory institution resting on an antiquated economic + basis. Gross-Hoffinger was a pioneering precursor of Ellen Key. + + More than a century and a half earlier a man of very different + type scathingly analyzed the morality of his time, with a brutal + frankness, indeed, that seemed to his contemporaries a + revoltingly cynical attitude towards their sacred institutions, + and they felt that nothing was left to them save to burn his + books. Describing modern marriage in his _Fable of the Bees_ + (1714, p. 64), and what that marriage might legally cover, + Mandeville wrote: "The fine gentleman I spoke of need not + practice any greater self-denial than the savage, and the latter + acted more according to the laws of nature and sincerity than the + first. The man that gratifies his appetite after the manner the + custom of the country allows of, has no censure to fear. If he + is hotter than goats or bulls, as soon as the ceremony is over, + let him sate and fatigue himself with joy and ecstasies of + pleasure, raise and indulge his appetite by turns, as + extravagantly as his strength and manhood will give him leave. He + may, with safety, laugh at the wise men that should reprove him: + all the women and above nine in ten of the men are of his side; + nay, he has the liberty of valuing himself upon the fury of his + unbridled passions, and the more he wallows in lust and strains + every faculty to be abandonedly voluptuous, the sooner he shall + have the good-will and gain the affection of the women, not the + young, vain, and lascivious only, but the prudent, grave, and + most sober matrons." + + Thus the charge brought against our marriage system from the + point of view of morality is that it subordinates the sexual + relationship to considerations of money and of lust. That is + precisely the essence of prostitution. + +The only legitimately moral end of marriage--whether we regard it from the +wider biological standpoint or from the narrower standpoint of human +society--is as a sexual selection, effected in accordance with the laws of +sexual selection, and having as its direct object a united life of +complete mutual love and as its indirect object the procreation of the +race. Unless procreation forms part of the object of marriage, society has +nothing whatever to do with it and has no right to make its voice heard. +But if procreation is one of the ends of marriage, then it is imperative +from the biological and social points of view that no influences outside +the proper natural influence of sexual selection should be permitted to +affect the choice of conjugal partners, for in so far as wholesome sexual +selection is interfered with the offspring is likely to be injured and the +interests of the race affected. + + It must, of course, be clearly understood that the idea of + marriage as a form of sexual union based not on biological but on + economic considerations, is very ancient, and is sometimes found + in societies that are almost primitive. Whenever, however, + marriage on a purely property basis, and without due regard to + sexual selection, has occurred among comparatively primitive and + vigorous peoples, it has been largely deprived of its evil + results by the recognition of its merely economic character, and + by the absence of any desire to suppress, even nominally, other + sexual relationships on a more natural basis which were outside + this artificial form of marriage. Polygamy especially tended to + conciliate unions on an economic basis with unions on a natural + sexual basis. Our modern marriage system has, however, acquired + an artificial rigidity which excludes the possibility of this + natural safeguard and compensation. Whatever its real moral + content may be, a modern marriage is always "legal" and "sacred." + We are indeed so accustomed to economic forms of marriage that, + as Sidgwick truly observed (_Method of Ethics_, Bk. ii, Ch. XI), + when they are spoken of as "legalized prostitution" it constantly + happens that "the phrase is felt to be extravagant and + paradoxical." + +A man who marries for money or for ambition is departing from the +biological and moral ends of marriage. A woman who sells herself for life +is morally on the same level as one who sells herself for a night. The +fact that the payment seems larger, that in return for rendering certain +domestic services and certain personal complacencies--services and +complacencies in which she may be quite inexpert--she will secure an +almshouse in which she will be fed and clothed and sheltered for life +makes no difference in the moral aspect of her case. The moral +responsibility is, it need scarcely be said, at least as much the man's as +the woman's. It is largely due to the ignorance and even the indifference +of men, who often know little or nothing of the nature of women and the +art of love. The unintelligence with which even men who might, one thinks, +be not without experience, select as a mate, a woman who, however fine and +charming she may be, possesses none of the qualities which her wooer +really craves, is a perpetual marvel. To refrain from testing and proving +the temper and quality of the woman he desires for a mate is no doubt an +amiable trait of humility on a man's part. But it is certain that a man +should never be content with less than the best of what a woman's soul and +body have to give, however unworthy he may feel himself of such a +possession. This demand, it must be remarked, is in the highest interests +of the woman herself. A woman can offer to a man what is a part at all +events of the secret of the universe. The woman degrades herself who sinks +to the level of a candidate for an asylum for the destitute. + +Our discussion of the psychic facts of sex has thus, it will be seen, +brought us up to the question of morality. Over and over again, in +setting forth the phenomena of prostitution, it has been necessary to use +the word "moral." That word, however, is vague and even, it may be, +misleading because it has several senses. So far, it has been left to the +intelligent reader, as he will not fail to perceive, to decide from the +context in what sense the word was used. But at the present point, before +we proceed to discuss sexual psychology in relation to marriage, it is +necessary, in order to avoid ambiguity, to remind the reader what +precisely are the chief main senses in which the word "morality" is +commonly used. + +The morality with which ethical treatises are concerned is _theoretical +morality_. It is concerned with what people "ought"--or what is "right" +for them--to do. Socrates in the Platonic dialogues was concerned with +such theoretical morality: what "ought" people to seek in their actions? +The great bulk of ethical literature, until recent times one may say the +whole of it, is concerned with that question. Such theoretical morality +is, as Sidgwick said, a study rather than a science, for science can only +be based on what is, not on what ought to be. + +Even within the sphere of theoretical morality there are two very +different kinds of morality, so different indeed that sometimes each +regards the other as even inimical or at best only by courtesy, with yet a +shade of contempt, "moral." These two kinds of theoretical morality are +_traditional morality_ and _ideal morality_. Traditional morality is +founded on the long established practices of a community and possesses the +stability of all theoretical ideas based in the past social life and +surrounding every individual born into the community from his earliest +years. It becomes the voice of conscience which speaks automatically in +favor of all the rules that are thus firmly fixed, even when the +individual himself no longer accepts them. Many persons, for example, who +were brought up in childhood to the Puritanical observance of Sunday, will +recall how, long after they had ceased to believe that such observances +were "right," they yet in the violation of them heard the protest of the +automatically aroused voice of "conscience," that is to say the expression +within the individual of customary rules which have indeed now ceased to +be his own but were those of the community in which he was brought up. + +Ideal morality, on the other hand, refers not to the past of the community +but to its future. It is based not on the old social actions that are +becoming antiquated, and perhaps even anti-social in their tendency, but +on new social actions that are as yet only practiced by a small though +growing minority of the community. Nietzsche in modern times has been a +conspicuous champion of ideal morality, the heroic morality of the +pioneer, of the individual of the coming community, against traditional +morality, or, as he called it, herd-morality, the morality of the crowd. +These two moralities are necessarily opposed to each other, but, we have +to remember, they are both equally sound and equally indispensable, not +only to those who accept them but to the community which they both +contribute to hold in vital theoretical balance. We have seen them both, +for instance, applied to the question of prostitution; traditional +morality defends prostitution, not for its own sake, but for the sake of +the marriage system which it regards as sufficiently precious to be worth +a sacrifice, while ideal morality refuses to accept the necessity of +prostitution, and looks forward to progressive changes in the marriage +system which will modify and diminish prostitution. + +But altogether outside theoretical morality, or the question of what +people "ought" to do, there remains _practical morality_, or the question +of what, as a matter of fact, people actually do. This is the really +fundamental and essential morality. Latin _mores_ and Greek aethos both +refer to _custom_, to the things that are, and not to the things that +"ought" to be, except in the indirect and secondary sense that whatever +the members of the community, in the mass, actually do, is the thing that +they feel they ought to do. In the first place, however, a moral act was +not done because it was felt that it ought to be done, but for reasons of +a much deeper and more instinctive character.[258] It was not first done +because it was felt it ought to be done, but it was felt it "ought" to be +done because it had actually become the custom to do it. + +The actions of a community are determined by the vital needs of a +community under the special circumstances of its culture, time, and land. +When it is the general custom for children to kill their aged parents that +custom is always found to be the best not only for the community but even +for the old people themselves, who desire it; the action is both +practically moral and theoretically moral.[259] And when, as among +ourselves, the aged are kept alive, that action is also both practically +and theoretically moral; it is in no wise dependent on any law or rule +opposed to the taking of life, for we glory in the taking of life under +the patriotic name of "war," and are fairly indifferent to it when +involved by the demands of our industrial system; but the killing of the +aged no longer subserves any social need and their preservation ministers +to our civilized emotional needs. The killing of a man is indeed +notoriously an act which differs widely in its moral value at different +periods and in different countries. It was quite moral in England two +centuries ago and less, to kill a man for trifling offences against +property, for such punishment commended itself as desirable to the general +sense of the educated community. To-day it would be regarded as highly +immoral. We are even yet only beginning to doubt the morality of +condemning to death and imprisoning for life an unmarried girl who +destroyed her infant at birth, solely actuated, against all her natural +impulses, by the primitive instinct of self-defense. It cannot be said +that we have yet begun to doubt the morality of killing men in war, though +we no longer approve of killing women and children, or even non-combatants +generally. Every age or land has its own morality. + +"Custom, in the strict sense of the word," well says Westermarck, +"involves a moral rule.... Society is the school in which men learn to +distinguish between right and wrong. The headmaster is custom."[260] +Custom is not only the basis of morality but also of law. "Custom is +law."[261] The field of theoretical morality has been found so fascinating +a playground for clever philosophers that there has sometimes been a +danger of forgetting that, after all, it is not theoretical morality but +practical morality, the question of what men in the mass of a community +actually do, which constitutes the real stuff of morals.[262] If we define +more precisely what we mean by morals, on the practical side, we may say +that it is constituted by those customs which the great majority of the +members of a community regard as conducive to the welfare of the community +at some particular time and place. It is for this reason--i.e., because it +is a question of what is and not of merely what some think ought to +be--that practical morals form the proper subject of science. "If the word +'ethics' is to be used as the name for a science," Westermarck says, "the +object of that science can only be to study the moral consciousness as a +fact."[263] + + Lecky's _History of European Morals_ is a study in practical + rather than in theoretical morals. Dr. Westermarck's great work, + _The Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_, is a more modern + example of the objectively scientific discussion of morals, + although this is not perhaps clearly brought out by the title. It + is essentially a description of the actual historical facts of + what has been, and not of what "ought" to be. Mr. L.T. Hobhouse's + _Morals in Evolution_, published almost at the same time, is + similarly a work which, while professedly dealing with ideas, + i.e., with rules and regulations, and indeed disclaiming the task + of being "the history of conduct," yet limits itself to those + rules which are "in fact, the normal conduct of the average man" + (vol. i, p. 26). In other words, it is essentially a history of + practical morality, and not of theoretical morality. One of the + most subtle and suggestive of living thinkers, M. Jules de + Gaultier, in several of his books, and notably in _La Dependance + de la Morale et l'Independance des Moeurs_ (1907), has analyzed + the conception of morals in a somewhat similar sense. "Phenomena + relative to conduct," as he puts it (op. cit., p. 58), "are given + in experience like other phenomena, so that morality, or the + totality of the laws which at any given moment of historic + evolution are applied to human practice, is dependent on + customs." I may also refer to the masterly exposition of this + aspect of morality in Levy-Bruhl's _La Morale et la Science des + Moeurs_ (there is an English translation). + +Practical morality is thus the solid natural fact which forms the +biological basis of theoretical morality, whether traditional or ideal. +The excessive fear, so widespread among us, lest we should injure morality +is misplaced. We cannot hurt morals though we can hurt ourselves. Morals +is based on nature and can at the most only be modified. As Crawley +rightly insists,[264] even the categorical imperatives of our moral +traditions, so far from being, as is often popularly supposed, attempts to +suppress Nature, arise in the desire to assist Nature; they are simply an +attempt at the rigid formulation of natural impulses. The evil of them +only lies in the fact that, like all things that become rigid and dead, +they tend to persist beyond the period when they were a beneficial vital +reaction to the environment. They thus provoke new forms of ideal +morality; and practical morals develops new structures, in accordance with +new vital relationships, to replace older and desiccated traditions. + +There is clearly an intimate relationship between theoretical morals and +practical morals or morality proper. For not only is theoretical morality +the outcome in consciousness of realized practices embodied in the +general life of the community, but, having thus become conscious, it +reacts on those practices and tends to support them or, by its own +spontaneous growth, to modify them. This action is diverse, according as +we are dealing with one or the other of the strongly marked divisions of +theoretical morality: traditional and posterior morality, retarding the +vital growth of moral practice, or ideal and anterior morality, +stimulating the vital growth of moral practice. Practical morality, or +morals proper, may be said to stand between these two divisions of +theoretical morality. Practice is perpetually following after anterior +theoretical morality, in so far of course as ideal morality really is +anterior and not, as so often happens, astray up a blind alley. Posterior +or traditional morality always follows after practice. The result is that +while the actual morality, in practice at any time or place, is always +closely related to theoretical morality, it can never exactly correspond +to either of its forms. It always fails to catch up with ideal morality; +it is always outgrowing traditional morality. + +It has been necessary at this point to formulate definitely the three +chief forms in which the word "moral" is used, although under one shape or +another they cannot but be familiar to the reader. In the discussion of +prostitution it has indeed been easily possible to follow the usual custom +of allowing the special sense in which the word was used to be determined +by the context. But now, when we are, for the moment, directly concerned +with the specific question of the evolution of sexual morality, it is +necessary to be more precise in formulating the terms we use. In this +chapter, except when it is otherwise stated, we are concerned primarily +with morals proper, with actual conduct as it develops among the masses of +a community, and only secondarily with anterior morality or with posterior +morality. + +Sexual morality, like all other kinds of morality, is necessarily +constituted by inherited traditions modified by new adaptations to the +changing social environment. If the influence of tradition becomes unduly +pronounced the moral life tends to decay and lose its vital adaptability. +If adaptability becomes too facile the moral life tends to become unstable +and to lose authority. It is only by a reasonable synthesis of structure +and function--of what is called the traditional with what is called the +ideal--that the moral life can retain its authority without losing its +reality. Many, even among those who call themselves moralists, have found +this hard to understand. In a vain desire for an impossible logicality +they have over-emphasized either the ideal influence on practical morals +or, still more frequently, the traditional influence, which has appealed +to them because of the impressive authority its _dicta_ seem to convey. +The results in the sphere we are here concerned with have often been +unfortunate, for no social impulse is so rebellious to decayed traditions, +so volcanically eruptive, as that of sex. + +We are accustomed to identify our present marriage system with "morality" +in the abstract, and for many people, perhaps for most, it is difficult to +realize that the slow and insensible movement which is always affecting +social life at the present time, as at every other time, is profoundly +affecting our sexual morality. A transference of values is constantly +taking place; what was once the very standard of morality becomes immoral, +what was once without question immoral becomes a new standard. Such a +process is almost as bewildering as for the European world two thousand +years ago was the great struggle between the Roman city and the Christian +Church, when it became necessary to realize that what Marcus Aurelius, the +great pattern of morality, had sought to crush as without question +immoral,[265] was becoming regarded as the supreme standard of morality. +The classic world considered love and pity and self-sacrifice as little +better than weakness and sometimes worse; the Christian world not only +regarded them as moralities but incarnated them in a god. Our sexual +morality has likewise disregarded natural human emotions, and is incapable +of understanding those who declare that to retain unduly traditional laws +that are opposed to the vital needs of human societies is not a morality +but an immorality. + +The reason why the gradual evolution of moral ideals, which is always +taking place, tends in the sexual sphere, at all events among ourselves, +to reach a stage in which there seems to be an opposition between +different standards lies in the fact that as yet we really have no +specific sexual morality at all.[266] That may seem surprising at first to +one who reflects on the immense weight which is usually attached to +"sexual morality." And it is undoubtedly true that we have a morality +which we apply to the sphere of sex. But that morality is one which +belongs mainly to the sphere of property and was very largely developed on +a property basis. All the historians of morals in general, and of marriage +in particular, have set forth this fact, and illustrated it with a wealth +of historical material. We have as yet no generally recognized sexual +morality which has been based on the specific sexual facts of life. That +becomes clear at once when we realize the central fact that the sexual +relationship is based on love, at the very least on sexual desire, and +that that basis is so deep as to be even physiological, for in the absence +of such sexual desire it is physiologically impossible for a man to effect +intercourse with a woman. Any specific sexual morality must be based on +that fact. But our so-called "sexual morality," so far from being based on +that fact, attempts to ignore it altogether. It makes contracts, it +arranges sexual relationships beforehand, it offers to guarantee +permanency of sexual inclinations. It introduces, that is, considerations +of a kind that is perfectly sound in the economic sphere to which such +considerations rightly belong, but ridiculously incongruous in the sphere +of sex to which they have solemnly been applied. The economic +relationships of life, in the large sense, are, as we shall see, extremely +important in the evolution of any sound sexual morality, but they belong +to the conditions of its development and do not constitute its basis.[267] + + The fact that, from the legal point of view, marriage is + primarily an arrangement for securing the rights of property and + inheritance is well illustrated by the English divorce law + to-day. According to this law, if a woman has sexual intercourse + with any man beside her husband, he is entitled to divorce her; + if, however, the husband has intercourse with another woman + beside his wife, she is not entitled to a divorce; that is only + accorded if, in addition, he has also been cruel to her, or + deserted her, and from any standpoint of ideal morality such a + law is obviously unjust, and it has now been discarded in nearly + all civilized lands except England. + + But from the standpoint of property and inheritance it is quite + intelligible, and on that ground it is still supported by the + majority of Englishmen. If the wife has intercourse with other + men there is a risk that the husband's property will be inherited + by a child who is not his own. But the sexual intercourse of the + husband with other women is followed by no such risk. The + infidelity of the wife is a serious offence against property; the + infidelity of the husband is no offence against property, and + cannot possibly, therefore, be regarded as a ground for divorce + from our legal point of view. The fact that his adultery + complicated by cruelty is such a ground, is simply a concession + to modern feeling. Yet, as Helena Stoecker truly points out + ("Verschiedenheit im Liebesleben des Weibes und des Mannes," + _Zeitschrift fuer Sexualwissenschaft_, Dec., 1908), a married man + who has an unacknowledged child with a woman outside of marriage, + has committed an act as seriously anti-social as a married woman + who has a child without acknowledging that the father is not her + husband. In the first case, the husband, and in the second case, + the wife, have placed an undue amount of responsibility on + another person. (The same point is brought forward by the author + of _The Question of English Divorce_, p. 56.) + + I insist here on the economic element in our sexual morality, + because that is the element which has given it a kind of + stability and become established in law. But if we take a wider + view of our sexual morality, we cannot ignore the ancient element + of asceticism, which has given religious passion and sanction to + it. Our sexual morality is thus, in reality, a bastard born of + the union of property-morality with primitive ascetic morality, + neither in true relationship to the vital facts of the sexual + life. It is, indeed, the property element which, with a few + inconsistencies, has become finally the main concern of our law, + but the ascetic element (with, in the past, a wavering + relationship to law) has had an important part in moulding + popular sentiment and in creating an attitude of reprobation + towards sexual intercourse _per se_, although such intercourse is + regarded as an essential part of the property-based and + religiously sanctified institution of legal marriage. + + The glorification of virginity led by imperceptible stages to the + formulation of "fornication" as a deadly sin, and finally as an + actual secular "crime." It is sometimes stated that it was not + until the Council of Trent that the Church formally anathematized + those who held that the state of marriage was higher than that of + virginity, but the opinion had been more or less formally held + from almost the earliest ages of Christianity, and is clear in + the epistles of Paul. All the theologians agree that fornication + is a mortal sin. Caramuel, indeed, the distinguished Spanish + theologian, who made unusual concessions to the demands of reason + and nature, held that fornication is only evil because it is + forbidden, but Innocent XI formally condemned that proposition. + Fornication as a mortal sin became gradually secularized into + fornication as a crime. Fornication was a crime in France even as + late as the eighteenth century, as Tarde found in his historical + investigations of criminal procedure in Perigord; adultery was + also a crime and severely punished quite independently of any + complaint from either of the parties (Tarde, "Archeologie + Criminelle en Perigord," _Archives de l'Anthropologie + Criminelle_, Nov. 15, 1898). + + The Puritans of the Commonwealth days in England (like the + Puritans of Geneva) followed the Catholic example and adopted + ecclesiastical offences against chastity into the secular law. By + an Act passed in 1653 fornication became punishable by three + months' imprisonment inflicted on both parties. By the same Act + the adultery of a wife (nothing is said of a husband) was made + felony, both for her and her partner in guilt, and therefore + punishable by death (Scobell, _Acts and Ordinances_, p. 121). + +The action of a pseudo-morality, such as our sexual morality has been, is +double-edged. On the one side it induces a secret and shamefaced laxity, +on the other it upholds a rigid and uninspiring theoretical code which so +few can consistently follow that theoretical morality is thereby degraded +into a more or less empty form. "The human race would gain much," said the +wise Senancour, "if virtue were made less laborious. The merit would not +be so great, but what is the use of an elevation which can rarely be +sustained?"[268] At present, as a more recent moralist, Ellen Key, puts +it, we only have an immorality which favors vice and makes virtue +irrealizable, and, as she exclaims with pardonable extravagance, to preach +a sounder morality to the young, without at the same time condemning the +society which encourages the prevailing immorality, is "worse than folly, +it is crime." + +It is on the lines along which Senancour a century ago and Ellen Key +to-day are great pioneers that the new forms of anterior or ideal +theoretical morality are now moving, in advance, according to the general +tendency in morals, of traditional morality and even of practice. + +There is one great modern movement of a definite kind which will serve to +show how clearly sexual morality is to-day moving towards a new +standpoint. This is the changing attitude of the bulk of the community +towards both State marriage and religious marriage, and the growing +tendency to disallow State interference with sexual relationships, apart +from the production of children. + +There has no doubt always been a tendency among the masses of the +population in Europe to dispense with the official sanction of sexual +relationships until such relationships have been well established and the +hope of offspring has become justifiable. This tendency has been +crystallized into recognized customs among numberless rural communities +little touched either by the disturbing influences of the outside world or +the controlling influences of theological Christian conceptions. But at +the present day this tendency is not confined to the more primitive and +isolated communities of Europe among whom, on the contrary, it has tended +to die out. It is an unquestionable fact, says Professor Bruno Meyer, that +far more than the half of sexual intercourse now takes place outside legal +marriage.[269] It is among the intelligent classes and in prosperous and +progressive communities that this movement is chiefly marked. We see +throughout the world the practical common sense of the people shaping +itself in the direction which has been pioneered by the ideal moralists +who invariably precede the new growth of practical morality. + +The voluntary childless marriages of to-day have served to show the +possibility of such unions outside legal marriage, and such free unions +are becoming, as Mrs. Parsons points out, "a progressive substitute for +marriage."[270] The gradual but steady rise in the age for entering on +legal marriage also points in the same direction, though it indicates not +merely an increase of free unions but an increase of all forms of normal +and abnormal sexuality outside marriage. Thus in England and Wales, in +1906, only 43 per 1,000 husbands and 146 per 1,000 wives were under age, +while the average age for husbands was 28.6 years and for wives 26.4 +years. For men the age has gone up some eight months during the past forty +years, for women more than this. In the large cities, like London, where +the possibilities of extra-matrimonial relationships are greater, the age +for legal marriage is higher than in the country. + + If we are to regard the age of legal marriage as, on the whole, + the age at which the population enters into sexual unions, it is + undoubtedly too late. Beyer, a leading German neurologist, finds + that there are evils alike in early and in late marriage, and + comes to the conclusion that in temperate zones the best age for + women to marry is the twenty-first year, and for men the + twenty-fifth year. + + Yet, under bad economic conditions and with a rigid marriage law, + early marriages are in every respect disastrous. They are among + the poor a sign of destitution. The very poorest marry first, and + they do so through the feeling that their condition cannot be + worse. (Dr. Michael Ryan brought together much interesting + evidence concerning the causes of early marriage in Ireland in + his _Philosophy of Marriage_, 1837, pp. 58-72). Among the poor, + therefore, early marriage is always a misfortune. "Many good + people," says Mr. Thomas Holmes, Secretary of the Howard + Association and missionary at police courts (in an interview, + _Daily Chronicle_, Sept. 8, 1906), "advise boys and girls to get + married in order to prevent what they call a 'disgrace.' This I + consider to be absolutely wicked, and it leads to far greater + evils than it can possibly avert." + + Early marriages are one of the commonest causes both of + prostitution and divorce. They lead to prostitution in + innumerable cases, even when no outward separation takes place. + The fact that they lead to divorce is shown by the significant + circumstance that in England, although only 146 per 1,000 women + are under twenty-one at marriage, of the wives concerned in + divorce cases, 280 per 1,000 were under twenty-one at marriage, + and this discrepancy is even greater than it appears, for in the + well-to-do class, which can alone afford the luxury of divorce, + the normal age at marriage is much higher than for the population + generally. Inexperience, as was long ago pointed out by Milton + (who had learnt this lesson to his cost), leads to shipwreck in + marriage. "They who have lived most loosely," he wrote, "prove + most successful in their matches, because their wild affections, + unsettling at will, have been so many divorces to teach them + experience." + + Miss Clapperton, referring to the educated classes, advocates + very early marriage, even during student life, which might then + be to some extent carried on side by side (_Scientific + Meliorism_, Ch. XVII). Ellen Key, also, advocates early marriage. + But she wisely adds that it involves the necessity for easy + divorce. That, indeed, is the only condition which can render + early marriage generally desirable. Young people--unless they + possess very simple and inert natures--can neither foretell the + course of their own development and their own strongest needs, + nor estimate accurately the nature and quality of another + personality. A marriage formed at an early age very speedily + ceases to be a marriage in anything but name. Sometimes a young + girl applies for a separation from her husband even on the very + day after marriage. + +The more or less permanent free unions formed among us in Europe are +usually to be regarded merely as trial-marriages. That is to say they are +a precaution rendered desirable both by uncertainty as to either the +harmony or the fruitfulness of union until actual experiment has been +made, and by the practical impossibility of otherwise rectifying any +mistake in consequence of the antiquated rigidity of most European divorce +laws. Such trial marriages are therefore demanded by prudence and caution, +and as foresight increases with the development of civilization, and +constantly grows among us, we may expect that there will be a parallel +development in the frequency of trial marriage and in the social attitude +towards such unions. The only alternative--that a radical reform in +European marriage laws should render the divorce of a legal marriage as +economical and as convenient as the divorce of a free marriage--cannot yet +be expected, for law always lags behind public opinion and public +practice. + +If, however, we take a wider historical view, we find that we are in +presence of a phenomenon which, though favored by modern conditions, is +very ancient and widespread, dating, so far as Europe is concerned, from +the time when the Church first sought to impose ecclesiastical marriage, +so that it is practically a continuation of the ancient European custom of +private marriage. + + Trial-marriages pass by imperceptible gradations into the group + of courtship customs which, while allowing the young couple to + spend the night together, in a position of more or less intimacy, + exclude, as a rule, actual sexual intercourse. Night-courtship + flourishes in stable and well-knit European communities not + liable to disorganization by contact with strangers. It seems to + be specially common in Teutonic and Celtic lands, and is known by + various names, as _Probenaechte, fensterln, Kiltgang, + hand-fasting, bundling, sitting-up, courting on the bed, etc_. It + is well known in Wales; it is found in various English counties + as in Cheshire; it existed in eighteenth century Ireland + (according to Richard Twiss's _Travels_); in New England it was + known as _tarrying_; in Holland it is called _questing_. In + Norway, where it is called _night-running_, on account of the + long distance between the homesteads, I am told that it is + generally practiced, though the clergy preach against it; the + young girl puts on several extra skirts and goes to bed, and the + young man enters by door or window and goes to bed with her; they + talk all night, and are not bound to marry unless it should + happen that the girl becomes pregnant. + + Rhys and Brynmor-Jones (_Welsh People_, pp. 582-4) have an + interesting passage on this night-courtship with numerous + references. As regards Germany see, e.g., Rudeck, _Geschichte der + oeffentlichen Sittlichkeit_, pp. 146-154. With reference to + trial-marriage generally many facts and references are given by + M.A. Potter (_Sohrab and Rustem_, pp. 129-137). + + The custom of free marriage unions, usually rendered legal before + or after the birth of children, seems to be fairly common in + many, or perhaps all, rural parts of England. The union is made + legal, if found satisfactory, even when there is no prospect of + children. In some counties it is said to be almost a universal + practice for the women to have sexual relationships before legal + marriage; sometimes she marries the first man whom she tries; + sometimes she tries several before finding the man who suits her. + Such marriages necessarily, on the whole, turn out better than + marriages in which the woman, knowing nothing of what awaits her + and having no other experiences for comparison, is liable to be + disillusioned or to feel that she "might have done better." Even + when legal recognition is not sought until after the birth of + children, it by no means follows that any moral deterioration is + involved. Thus in some parts of Staffordshire where it is the + custom of the women to have a child before marriage, + notwithstanding this "corruption," we are told (Burton, _City of + the Saints_, Appendix IV), the women are "very good neighbors, + excellent, hard-working, and affectionate wives and mothers." + + "The lower social classes, especially peasants," remarks Dr. + Ehrhard ("Auch Ein Wort zur Ehereform," _Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, Jahrgang I, Heft 10), "know better than we that + the marriage bed is the foundation of marriage. On that account + they have retained the primitive custom of trial-marriage which, + in the Middle Ages, was still practiced even in the best circles. + It has the further advantage that the marriage is not concluded + until it has shown itself to be fruitful. Trial-marriage assumes, + of course, that virginity is not valued beyond its true worth." + With regard to this point it may be mentioned that in many parts + of the world a woman is more highly esteemed if she has had + intercourse before marriage (see, e.g., Potter, op. cit., pp. 163 + et seq.). While virginity is one of the sexual attractions a + woman may possess, an attraction that is based on a natural + instinct (see "The Evolution of Modesty," in vol. i of these + _Studies_), yet an exaggerated attention to virginity can only be + regarded as a sexual perversion, allied to _paidophilia_, the + sexual attraction to children. + + In very small cooerdinated communities the primitive custom of + trial-marriage tends to decay when there is a great invasion of + strangers who have not been brought up to the custom (which seems + to them indistinguishable from the license of prostitution), and + who fail to undertake the obligations which trial-marriage + involves. This is what happened in the case of the so-called + "island custom" of Portland, which lasted well on into the + nineteenth century; according to this custom a woman before + marriage lived with her lover until pregnant and then married + him; she was always strictly faithful to him while living with + him, but if no pregnancy occurred the couple might decide that + they were not meant for each other, and break off relations. The + result was that for a long period of years no illegitimate + children were born, and few marriages were childless. But when + the Portland stone trade was developed, the workmen imported from + London took advantage of the "island custom," but refused to + fulfil the obligation of marriage when pregnancy occurred. The + custom consequently fell into disuse (see, e.g., translator's + note to Bloch's _Sexual Life of Our Time_, p. 237, and the + quotation there given from Hutchins, _History and Antiquities of + Dorset_, vol. ii, p. 820). + + It is, however, by no means only in rural districts, but in great + cities also that marriages are at the outset free unions. Thus in + Paris Despres stated more than thirty years ago (_La Prostitution + a Paris_, p. 137) that in an average arrondissement nine out of + ten legal marriages are the consolidation of a free union; + though, while that was an average, in a few arrondissements it + was only three out of ten. Much the same conditions prevail in + Paris to-day; at least half the marriages, it is stated, are of + this kind. + + In Teutonic lands the custom of free unions is very ancient and + well-established. Thus in Sweden, Ellen Key states (_Liebe und + Ehe_, p. 123), the majority of the population begin married life + in this way. The arrangement is found to be beneficial, and + "marital fidelity is as great as pre-marital freedom is + unbounded." In Denmark, also, a large number of children are + conceived before the unions of the parents are legalized (Rubin + and Westergaard, quoted by Gaedeken, _Archives d'Anthropologie + Criminelle_, Feb. 15, 1909). + + In Germany not only is the proportion of illegitimate births very + high, since in Berlin it is 17 per cent., and in some towns very + much higher, but ante-nuptial conceptions take place in nearly + half the marriages, and sometimes in the majority. Thus in Berlin + more than 40 per cent, of all legitimate firstborn children are + conceived before marriage, while in some rural provinces (where + the proportion of illegitimate births is lower) the percentage of + marriages following ante-nuptial conceptions is much higher than + in Berlin. The conditions in rural Germany have been especially + investigated by a committee of Lutheran pastors, and were set + forth a few years ago in two volumes, _Die Geschlecht-sittlich + Verhaeltnisse im Deutschen Reiche_, which are full of instruction + concerning German sexual morality. In Hanover, it is said in this + work, the majority of authorities state that intercourse before + marriage is the rule. At the very least, a _probe_, or trial, is + regarded as a matter-of-course preliminary to a marriage, since + no one wishes "to buy a pig in a poke." In Saxony, likewise, we + are told, it is seldom that a girl fails to have intercourse + before marriage, or that her first child is not born, or at all + events conceived, outside marriage. This is justified as a proper + proving of a bride before taking her for good. "One does not buy + even a penny pipe without trying it," a German pastor was + informed. Around Stettin, in twelve districts (nearly half the + whole), sexual intercourse before marriage is a recognized + custom, and in the remainder, if not exactly a custom, it is very + common, and is not severely or even at all condemned by public + opinion. In some districts marriage immediately follows + pregnancy. In the Dantzig neighborhood, again, according to the + Lutheran Committee, intercourse before marriage occurs in more + than half the cases, but marriage by no means always follows + pregnancy. Nearly all the girls who go as servants have lovers, + and country people in engaging servants sometimes tell them that + at evening and night they may do as they like. This state of + things is found to be favorable to conjugal fidelity. The German + peasant girl, as another authority remarks (E.H. Meyer, _Deutsche + Volkskunde_, 1898, pp. 154, 164), has her own room; she may + receive her lover; it is no great shame if she gives herself to + him. The number of women who enter legal marriage still virgins + is not large (this refers more especially to Baden), but public + opinion protects them, and such opinion is unfavorable to the + disregard of the responsibilities involved by sexual + relationships. The German woman is less chaste before marriage + than her French or Italian sister. But, Meyer adds, she is + probably more faithful after marriage than they are. + + It is assumed by many that this state of German morality as it + exists to-day is a new phenomenon, and the sign of a rapid + national degeneration. That is by no means the case. In this + connection we may accept the evidence of Catholic priests, who, + by the experience of the confessional, are enabled to speak with + authority. An old Bavarian priest thus writes (_Geschlecht und + Gesellschaft_, 1907, Bd. ii, Heft I): "At Moral Congresses we + hear laudation of 'the good old times' when, faith and morality + prevailed among the people. Whether that is correct is another + question. As a young priest I heard of as many and as serious + sins as I now hear of as an old man. The morality of the people + is not greater nor is it less. The error is the belief that + immorality goes out of the towns and poisons the country. People + talk as though the country were a pure Paradise of innocence. I + will by no means call our country people immoral, but from an + experience of many years I can say that in sexual respects there + is no difference between town and country. I have learnt to know + more than a hundred different parishes, and in the most various + localities, in the mountain and in the plain, on poor land and on + rich land. But everywhere I find the same morals and lack of + morals. There are everywhere the same men, though in the country + there are often better Christians than in the towns." + + If, however, we go much farther back than the memories of a + living man it seems highly probable that the sexual customs of + the German people of the present day are not substantially + different--though it may well be that at different periods + different circumstances have accentuated them--from what they + were in the dawn of Teutonic history. This is the opinion of one + of the profoundest students of Indo-Germanic origins. In his + _Reallexicon_ (art. "Keuschheit") O. Schrader points out that the + oft-quoted Tacitus, strictly considered, can only be taken to + prove that women were chaste after marriage, and that no + prostitution existed. There can be no doubt, he adds, and the + earliest historical evidence shows, that women in ancient Germany + were not chaste before marriage. This fact has been disguised by + the tendency of the old classic writers to idealize the Northern + peoples. + + Thus we have to realize that the conception of "German virtue," + which has been rendered so familiar to the world by a long + succession of German writers, by no means involves any special + devotion to the virtue of chastity. Tacitus, indeed, in the + passage more often quoted in Germany than any other passage in + classic literature, while correctly emphasizing the late puberty + of the Germans and their brutal punishment of conjugal infidelity + on the part of the wife, seemed to imply that they were also + chaste. But we have always to remark that Tacitus wrote as a + satirizing moralist as well as a historian, and that, as he + declaimed concerning the virtues of the German barbarians, he had + one eye on the Roman gallery whose vices he desired to lash. Much + the same perplexing confusion has been created by Gildas, who, in + describing the results of the Saxon Conquest of Britain, wrote as + a preacher as well as a historian, and the same moral purpose (as + Dill has pointed out) distorts Salvian's picture of the vices of + fifth century Gaul. (I may add that some of the evidence in favor + of the sexual freedom involved by early Teutonic faiths and + customs is brought together in the study of "Sexual Periodicity" + in the first volume of these _Studies_; cf. also, Rudeck, + _Geschichte der oeffentlichen Sittlichkeit in Deutschland_, 1897, + pp. 146 et seq.). + + The freedom and tolerance of Russian sexual customs is fairly + well-known. As a Russian correspondent writes to me, "the + liberalism of Russian manners enables youths and girls to enjoy + complete independence. They visit each other alone, they walk out + alone, and they return home at any hour they please. They have a + liberty of movement as complete as that of grown-up persons; some + avail themselves of it to discuss politics and others to make + love. They are able also to procure any books they please; thus + on the table of a college girl I knew I saw the _Elements of + Social Science_, then prohibited in Russia; this girl lived with + her aunt, but she had her own room, which only her friends were + allowed to enter: her aunt or other relations never entered it. + Naturally, she went out and came back at what hours she pleased. + Many other college girls enjoy the same freedom in their + families. It is very different in Italy, where girls have no + freedom of movement, and can neither go out alone nor receive + gentlemen alone, and where, unlike Russia, a girl who has sexual + intercourse outside marriage is really 'lost' and 'dishonored'" + (cf. _Sexual-Probleme_, Aug., 1908, p. 506). + + It would appear that freedom of sexual relationships in + Russia--apart from the influence of ancient custom--has largely + been rendered necessary by the difficulty of divorce. Married + couples, who were unable to secure divorce, separated and found + new partners without legal marriage. In 1907, however, an attempt + was made to remedy this defect in the law; a liberal divorce law + has been introduced, mutual consent with separation for a period + of over a year being recognized as adequate ground for divorce + (Beiblatt to _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Bd. ii, Heft 5, p. + 145). + + During recent years there has developed among educated young men + and women in Russia a movement of sexual license, which, though + it is doubtless supported by the old traditions of sexual + freedom, must by no means be confused with that freedom, since it + is directly due to causes of an entirely different order. The + strenuous revolutionary efforts made during the last years of the + past century to attain political freedom absorbed the younger and + more energetic section of the educated classes, involved a high + degree of mental tension, and were accompanied by a tendency to + asceticism. The prospect of death was constantly before their + eyes, and any pre-occupation with sexual matters would have been + felt as out of harmony with the spirit of revolution. But during + the present century revolutionary activity has largely ceased. It + has been, to a considerable extent, replaced by a movement of + interest in sexual problems and of indulgence in sexual + unrestraint, often taking on a somewhat licentious and sensual + character. "Free love" unions have been formed by the students of + both sexes for the cultivation of these tendencies. A novel, + Artzibascheff's _Ssanin_, has had great influence in promoting + these tendencies. It is not likely that this movement, in its + more extravagant forms, will be of long duration. (For some + account of this movement, see, e.g., Werner Daya, "Die Sexuelle + Bewegung in Russland," _Zeitschrift fuer Sexualwissenschaft_, + Aug., 1908; also, "Les Associations Erotiques en Russe," _Journal + du Droit International Prive_, Jan., 1909, fully summarized in + _Revue des Idees_, Feb., 1909.) + + The movement of sexual freedom in Russia lies much deeper, + however, than this fashion of sensual license; it is found in + remote and uncontaminated parts of the country, and is connected + with very ancient customs. + + There is considerable interest in realizing the existence of + long-continued sexual freedom--by some incorrectly termed + "immorality," for what is in accordance with the customs or + _mores_ of a people cannot be immoral--among peoples so virile + and robust, so eminently capable of splendid achievements, as the + Germans and the Russians. There is, however, a perhaps even + greater interest in tracing the development of the same tendency + among new prosperous and highly progressive communities who have + either not inherited the custom of sexual freedom or are now only + reviving it. We may, for instance, take the case of Australia and + New Zealand. This development may not, indeed, be altogether + recent. The frankness of sexual freedom in Australia and the + tolerance in regard to it were conspicuous thirty years ago to + those who came from England to live in the Southern continent, + and were doubtless equally visible at an earlier date. It seems, + however, to have developed with the increase of self-conscious + civilization. "After careful inquiry," says the Rev. H. + Northcote, who has lived for many years in the Southern + hemisphere (_Christianity and Sex Problems_, Ch. VIII), "the + writer finds sufficient evidence that of recent years intercourse + out of wedlock has tended towards an actual increase in parts of + Australia." Coghlan, the chief authority on Australian + statistics, states more precisely in his _Childbirth in New South + Wales_, published a few years ago: "The prevalence of births of + ante-nuptial conception--a matter hitherto little understood--has + now been completely investigated. In New South Wales, during six + years, there were 13,366 marriages, in respect of which there was + ante-nuptial conception, and, as the total number of marriages + was 49,641, at least twenty-seven marriages in a hundred followed + conception. During the same period the illegitimate births + numbered 14,779; there were, therefore, 28,145 cases of + conception amongst unmarried women; in 13,366 instances marriage + preceded the birth of the child, so that the children were + legitimatized in rather more than forty-seven cases out of one + hundred. A study of the figures of births of ante-nuptial + conception makes it obvious that in a very large number of + instances pre-marital intercourse is not an anticipation of + marriage already arranged, but that the marriages are forced upon + the parties, and would not be entered into were it not for the + condition of the woman" (cf. Powys, _Biometrika_, vol. i, 1901-2, + p. 30). That marriage should be, as Coghlan puts it, "forced upon + the parties," is not, of course, desirable in the general moral + interests, and it is also a sign of imperfect moral + responsibility in the parties themselves. + + The existence of such a state of things, in a young country + belonging to a part of the world where the general level of + prosperity, intelligence, morality and social responsibility may + perhaps be said to be higher than in any other region inhabited + by people of white race, is a fact of the very first significance + when we are attempting to forecast the direction in which + civilized morality is moving. + +It is sometimes said, or at least implied, that in this movement women are +taking only a passive part, and that the initiative lies with men who are +probably animated by a desire to escape the responsibilities of marriage. +This is very far from being the case. + + The active part taken by German girls in sexual matters is + referred to again and again by the Lutheran pastors in their + elaborate and detailed report. Of the Dantzig district it is said + "the young girls give themselves to the youths, or even seduce + them." The military manoeuvres are frequently a source of + unchastity in rural districts. "The fault is not merely with the + soldiers, but chiefly with the girls, who become half mad as soon + as they see a soldier," it is reported from the Dresden district. + And in summarizing conditions in East Germany the report states: + "In sexual wantonness girls are not behind the young men; they + allow themselves to be seduced only too willingly; even grown-up + girls often go with half-grown youths, and girls frequently give + themselves to several men, one after the other. It is by no means + always the youth who effects the seduction, it is very frequently + the girls who entice the youth to sexual intercourse; they do not + always wait till the men come to their rooms, but will go to the + men's rooms and await them in their beds. With this inclination + to sexual intercourse, it is not surprising that many believe + that after sixteen no girl is a virgin. Unchastity among the + rural laboring classes is universal, and equally pronounced in + both sexes" (op. cit., vol. i, 218). + + Among women of the educated classes the conditions are somewhat + different. Restraints, both internal and external, are very much + greater. Virginity, at all events in its physical fact, is + retained, for the most part, till long past girlhood, and when it + is lost that loss is concealed with a scrupulous care and + prudence unknown to the working-classes. Yet the fundamental + tendencies remain the same. So far as England is concerned, + Geoffrey Mortimer quite truly writes (_Chapters on Human Love_, + 1898, p. 117) that the two groups of (1) women who live in + constant secret association with a single lover, and (2) women + who give themselves to men, without fear, from the force of their + passions, are "much larger than is generally supposed. In all + classes of society there are women who are only virgins by + repute. Many have borne children without being even suspected of + cohabitation; but the majority adopt methods of preventing + conception. A doctor in a small provincial town declared to me + that such irregular intimacies were the rule, and not by any + means the exception in his district." As regards Germany, a lady + doctor, Frau Adams-Lehmann, states in a volume of the + Transactions of the German Society for Combating Venereal Disease + (_Sexualpaedagogik_, p. 271): "I can say that during consultation + hours I see very few virgins over thirty. These women," she adds, + "are sensible, courageous and natural, often the best of their + sex; and we ought to give them our moral support. They are + working towards a new age." + +It is frequently stated that the pronounced tendency witnessed at the +present time to dispense as long as possible with the formal ceremony of +binding marriage is unfortunate because it places women in a +disadvantageous position. In so far as the social environment in which she +lives views with disapproval sexual relationship without formal marriage, +the statement is obviously to that extent true, though it must be +remarked, on the other hand, that when social opinion strongly favors +legal marriage it acts as a compelling force in the direction of +legitimating free unions. But if the absence of the formal marriage bond +constituted a real and intrinsic disadvantage to women in sexual relations +they would not show themselves so increasingly ready to dispense with it. +And, as a matter of fact, those who are intimately acquainted with the +facts declare that the absence of formal marriage tends to give increased +consideration to women and is even favorable to fidelity and to the +prolongation of the union. This seems to be true as regards people of the +most different social classes and even of different races. It is probably +based on fundamental psychological facts, for the sense of compulsion +always tends to produce a movement of exasperation and revolt. We are not +here concerned with the question as to how far formal marriage also is +based on natural facts; that is a question which will come up for +discussion at a later stage. + + The advantage for women of free sexual unions over compulsory + marriage is well recognized in the case of the working classes of + London, among whom sexual relationships before marriage are not + unusual, and are indulgently regarded. It is, for instance, + clearly asserted in the monumental work of C. Booth, _Life and + Labour of the People_. "It is even said of rough laborers," we + read, for instance, in the final volume of this work (p. 41), + "that they behave best if not married to the woman with whom they + live." The evidence on this point is often the more impressive + because brought forward by people who are very far indeed from + being anxious to base any general conclusions on it. Thus in the + same volume a clergyman is quoted as saying: "These people manage + to live together fairly peaceably so long as they are not + married, but if they marry it always seems to lead to blows and + rows." + + It may be said that in such a case we witness not so much the + operation of a natural law as the influences of a great centre of + civilization exerting its moralizing effects even on those who + stand outside the legally recognized institution of marriage. + That contention may, however, be thrust aside. We find exactly + the same tendency in Jamaica where the population is largely + colored, and the stress of a high civilization can scarcely be + said to exist. Legal marriage is here discarded to an even + greater extent than in London, for little care is taken to + legitimate children by marriage. It was found by a committee + appointed to inquire into the marriage laws of Jamaica, that + three out of every five births are illegitimate, that is to say + that legal illegitimacy has ceased to be immoral, having become + the recognized custom of the majority of the inhabitants. There + is no social feeling against illegitimacy. The men approve of the + decay of legal marriage, because they say the women work better + in the house when they are not married; the women approve of it, + because they say that men are more faithful when not bound by + legal marriage. This has been well brought out by W.P. + Livingstone in his interesting book, _Black Jamaica_ (1899). The + people recognize, he tells us (p. 210), that "faithful living + together constitutes marriage;" they say that they are "married + but not parsoned." One reason against legal marriage is that they + are disinclined to incur the expense of the official sanction. + (In Venezuela, it may be added, where also the majority of births + take place outside official marriage, the chief reason is stated + to be, not moral laxity, but the same disinclination to pay the + expenses of legal weddings.) Frequently in later life, sometimes + when they have grown up sons and daughters, couples go through + the official ceremony. (In Abyssinia, also, it is stated by + Hugues Le Roux, where the people are Christian and marriage is + indissoluble and the ceremony expensive, it is not usual for + married couples to make their unions legal until old age is + coming on, _Sexual-Probleme_, April, 1908, p. 217.) It is + significant that this condition of things in Jamaica, as + elsewhere, is associated with the superiority of women. "The + women of the peasant class," remarks Livingstone (p. 212), "are + still practically independent of the men, and are frequently + their superiors, both in physical and mental capacity." They + refuse to bind themselves to a man who may turn out to be good + for nothing, a burden instead of a help and protection. So long + as the unions are free they are likely to be permanent. If made + legal, the risk is that they will become intolerable, and cease + by one of the parties leaving the other. "The necessity for + mutual kindness and forbearance establishes a condition that is + the best guarantee of permanency" (p. 214). It is said, however, + that under the influence of religious and social pressure the + people are becoming more anxious to adopt "respectable" ideas of + sexual relationships, though it seems evident, in view of + Livingstone's statement, that such respectability is likely to + involve a decrease of real morality. Livingstone points out, + however, one serious defect in the present conditions which makes + it easy for immoral men to escape paternal responsibilities, and + this is the absence of legal provision for the registration of + the father's name on birth certificates (p. 256). In every + country where the majority of births are illegitimate it is an + obvious social necessity that the names of both parents should be + duly registered on all birth certificates. It has been an + unpardonable failure on the part of the Jamaican Government to + neglect the simple measure needed to give "each child born in the + country a legal father" (p. 258). + +We thus see that we have to-day reached a position in which--partly owing +to economic causes and partly to causes which are more deeply rooted in +the tendencies involved by civilization--women are more often detached +than of old from legal sexual relationship with men and both sexes are +less inclined than in earlier stages of civilization to sacrifice their +own independence even when they form such relationships. "I never heard of +a woman over sixteen years of age who, prior to the breakdown of +aboriginal customs after the coming of the whites, had not a husband," +wrote Curr of the Australian Blacks.[271] Even as regards some parts of +Europe, it is still possible to-day to make almost the same statement. But +in all the richer, more energetic, and progressive countries very +different conditions prevail. Marriage is late and a certain proportion of +men, and a still larger proportion of women (who exceed the men in the +general population) never marry at all.[272] + +Before we consider the fateful significance of this fact of the growing +proportion of adult unmarried women whose sexual relationships are +unrecognized by the state and largely unrecognized altogether, it may be +well to glance summarily at the two historical streams of tendency, both +still in action among us, which affect the status of women, the one +favoring the social equality of the sexes, the other favoring the social +subjection of women. It is not difficult to trace these two streams both +in conduct and opinion, in practical morality and in theoretical morality. + +At one time it was widely held that in early states of society, before the +establishment of the patriarchal stage which places women under the +protection of men, a matriarchal stage prevailed in which women possessed +supreme power.[273] Bachofen, half a century ago, was the great champion +of this view. He found a typical example of a matriarchal state among the +ancient Lycians of Asia Minor with whom, Herodotus stated, the child takes +the name of the mother, and follows her status, not that of the +father.[274] Such peoples, Bachofen believed, were gynaecocratic; power was +in the hands of women. It can no longer be said that this opinion, in the +form held by Bachofen, meets with any considerable support. As to the +widespread prevalence of descent through the mother, there is no doubt +whatever that it has prevailed very widely. But such descent through the +mother, it has become recognized, by no means necessarily involves the +power of the mother, and mother-descent may even be combined with a +patriarchal system.[275] There has even been a tendency to run to the +opposite extreme from Bachofen and to deny that mother-descent conferred +any special claim for consideration on women. That, however, seems +scarcely in accordance with the evidence and even in the absence of +evidence could scarcely be regarded as probable. It would seem that we may +fairly take as a type of the matriarchal family that based on the _ambil +anak_ marriage of Sumatra, in which the husband lives in the wife's +family, paying nothing and occupying a subordinate position. The example +of the Lycians is here in point, for although, as reported by Herodotus, +there is nothing to show that there was anything of the nature of a +gynaecocracy in Lycia, we know that women in all these regions of Asia +Minor enjoyed high consideration and influence, traces of which may be +detected in the early literature and history of Christianity. A decisive +and better known example of the favorable influence of mother-descent on +the status of woman is afforded by the _beena_ marriage of early Arabia. +Under such a system the wife is not only preserved from the subjection +involved by purchase, which always casts upon her some shadow of the +inferiority belonging to property, but she herself is the owner of the +tent and the household property, and enjoys the dignity always involved by +the possession of property and the ability to free herself from her +husband.[276] + +It is also impossible to avoid connecting the primitive tendency to +mother-descent, and the emphasis it involved on maternal rather than +paternal generative energy, with the tendency to place the goddess rather +than the god in the forefront of primitive pantheons, a tendency which +cannot possibly fail to reflect honor on the sex to which the supreme +deity belongs, and which may be connected with the large part which +primitive women often play in the functions of religion. Thus, according +to traditions common to all the central tribes of Australia, the woman +formerly took a much greater share in the performance of sacred ceremonies +which are now regarded as coming almost exclusively within the masculine +province, and in at least one tribe which seems to retain ancient +practices the women still actually take part in these ceremonies.[277] It +seems to have been much the same in Europe. We observe, too, both in the +Celtic pantheon and among Mediterranean peoples, that while all the +ancient divinities have receded into the dim background yet the goddesses +loom larger than the gods.[278] In Ireland, where ancient custom and +tradition have always been very tenaciously preserved, women retained a +very high position, and much freedom both before and after marriage. +"Every woman," it was said, "is to go the way she willeth freely," and +after marriage she enjoyed a better position and greater freedom of +divorce than was afforded either by the Christian Church or the English +common law.[279] There is less difficulty in recognizing that +mother-descent was peculiarly favorable to the high status of women when +we realize that even under very unfavorable conditions women have been +able to exert great pressure on the men and to resist successfully the +attempts to tyrannize over them.[280] + +If we consider the status of woman in the great empires of antiquity we +find on the whole that in their early stage, the stage of growth, as well +as in their final stage, the stage of fruition, women tend to occupy a +favorable position, while in their middle stage, usually the stage of +predominating military organization on a patriarchal basis, women occupy a +less favorable position. This cyclic movement seems to be almost a natural +law of the development of great social groups. It was apparently well +marked in the very stable and orderly growth of Babylonia. In the earliest +times a Babylonian woman had complete independence and equal rights with +her brothers and her husband; later (as shown by the code of Hamurabi) a +woman's rights, though not her duties, were more circumscribed; in the +still later Neo-Babylonian periods, she again acquired equal rights with +her husband.[281] + +In Egypt the position of women stood highest at the end, but it seems to +have been high throughout the whole of the long course of Egyptian +history, and continuously improving, while the fact that little regard was +paid to prenuptial chastity and that marriage contracts placed no stress +on virginity indicate the absence of the conception of women as property. +More than three thousand five hundred years ago men and women were +recognized as equal in Egypt. The high position of the Egyptian woman is +significantly indicated by the fact that her child was never illegitimate; +illegitimacy was not recognized even in the case of a slave woman's +child.[282] "It is the glory of Egyptian morality," says Amelineau, "to +have been the first to express the Dignity of Woman."[283] The idea of +marital authority was altogether unknown in Egypt. There can be no doubt +that the high status of woman in two civilizations so stable, so vital, so +long-lived, and so influential on human culture as Babylonia and Egypt, is +a fact of much significance. + + Among the Jews there seems to have been no intermediate stage of + subordination of women, but instead a gradual progress throughout + from complete subjection of the woman as wife to ever greater + freedom. At first the husband could repudiate his wife at will + without cause. (This was not an extension of patriarchal + authority, but a purely marital authority.) The restrictions on + this authority gradually increased, and begin to be observable + already in the Book of Deuteronomy. The Mishnah went further and + forbade divorce whenever the wife's condition inspired pity (as + in insanity, captivity, etc.). By A.D. 1025, divorce was no + longer possible except for legitimate reasons or by the wife's + consent. At the same time, the wife also began to acquire the + right of divorce in the form of compelling the husband to + repudiate her on penalty of punishment in case of refusal. On + divorce the wife became an independent woman in her own right, + and was permitted to carry off the dowry which her husband gave + her on marriage. Thus, notwithstanding Jewish respect for the + letter of the law, the flexible jurisprudence of the Rabbis, in + harmony with the growth of culture, accorded an ever-growing + measure of sexual justice and equality to women (D.W. Amram, _The + Jewish Law of Divorce_). + + Among the Arabs the tendency of progress has also been favorable + to women in many respects, especially as regards inheritance. + Before Mahommed, in accordance with the system prevailing at + Medina, women had little or no right of inheritance. The + legislation of the Koran modified this rule, without entirely + abolishing it, and placed women in a much better position. This + is attributed largely to the fact that Mahommed belonged not to + Medina, but to Mecca, where traces of matriarchal custom still + survived (W. Marcais, _Des Parents et des Allies Successibles en + Droit Musulman_). + + It may be pointed out--for it is not always realized--that even + that stage of civilization--when it occurs--which involves the + subordination and subjection of woman and her rights really has + its origin in the need for the protection of women, and is + sometimes even a sign of the acquirement of new privileges by + women. They are, as it were, locked up, not in order to deprive + them of their rights, but in order to guard those rights. In the + later more stable phase of civilization, when women are no longer + exposed to the same dangers, this motive is forgotten and the + guardianship of woman and her rights seems, and indeed has really + become, a hardship rather than an advantage. + +Of the status of women at Rome in the earliest periods we know little or +nothing; the patriarchal system was already firmly established when Roman +history begins to become clear and it involved unusually strict +subordination of the woman to her father first and then to her husband. +But nothing is more certain than that the status of women in Rome rose +with the rise of civilization, exactly in the same way as in Babylonia and +in Egypt. In the case of Rome, however, the growing refinement of +civilization, and the expansion of the Empire, were associated with the +magnificent development of the system of Roman law, which in its final +forms consecrated the position of women. In the last days of the Republic +women already began to attain the same legal level as men, and later the +great Antonine jurisconsults, guided by their theory of natural law, +reached the conception of the equality of the sexes as a principle of the +code of equity. The patriarchal subordination of women fell into complete +discredit, and this continued until, in the days of Justinian, under the +influence of Christianity, the position of women began to suffer.[284] In +the best days the older forms of Roman marriage gave place to a form +(apparently old but not hitherto considered reputable) which amounted in +law to a temporary deposit of the woman by her family. She was independent +of her husband (more especially as she came to him with her own dowry) and +only nominally dependent on her family. Marriage was a private contract, +accompanied by a religious ceremony if desired, and being a contract it +could be dissolved, for any reason, in the presence of competent +witnesses and with due legal forms, after the advice of the family council +had been taken. Consent was the essence of this marriage and no shame, +therefore, attached to its dissolution. Nor had it any evil effect either +on the happiness or the morals of Roman women.[285] Such a system is +obviously more in harmony with modern civilized feeling than any system +that has ever been set up in Christendom. + +In Rome, also, it is clear that this system was not a mere legal invention +but the natural outgrowth of an enlightened public feeling in favor of the +equality of men and women, often even in the field of sexual morality. +Plautus, who makes the old slave Syra ask why there is not the same law in +this respect for the husband as for the wife,[286] had preceded the legist +Ulpian who wrote: "It seems to be very unjust that a man demands chastity +of his wife while he himself shows no example of it."[287] Such demands +lie deeper than social legislation, but the fact that these questions +presented themselves to typical Roman men indicates the general attitude +towards women. In the final stage of Roman society the bond of the +patriarchal system so far as women were concerned dwindled to a mere +thread binding them to their fathers and leaving them quite free face to +face with their husbands. "The Roman matron of the Empire," says Hobhouse, +"was more fully her own mistress than the married woman of any earlier +civilization, with the possible exception of a certain period of Egyptian +history, and, it must be added, than the wife of any later civilization +down to our own generation."[288] + + On the strength of the statements of two satirical writers, + Juvenal and Tacitus, it has been supposed by many that Roman + women of the late period were given up to license. It is, + however, idle to seek in satirists any balanced picture of a + great civilization. Hobhouse (loc. cit., p. 216) concludes that + on the whole, Roman women worthily retained the position of their + husbands' companions, counsellors and friends which they had + held when an austere system placed them legally in his power. + Most authorities seem now to be of this opinion, though at an + earlier period Friedlaender expressed himself more dubiously. Thus + Dill, in his judicious _Roman Society_ (p. 163), states that the + Roman woman's position, both in law and in fact, rose during the + Empire; without being less virtuous or respected, she became far + more accomplished and attractive; with fewer restraints she had + greater charm and influence, even in public affairs, and was more + and more the equal of her husband. "In the last age of the + Western Empire there is no deterioration in the position and + influence of women." Principal Donaldson, also, in his valuable + historical sketch, _Woman_, considers (p. 113) that there was no + degradation of morals in the Roman Empire; "the licentiousness of + Pagan Rome is nothing to the licentiousness of Christian Africa, + Rome, and Gaul, if we can put any reliance on the description of + Salvian." Salvian's description of Christendom is probably + exaggerated and one-sided, but exactly the same may be said in an + even greater degree of the descriptions of ancient Rome left by + clever Pagan satirists and ascetic Christian preachers. + +It thus becomes necessary to leap over considerably more than a thousand +years before we reach a stage of civilization in any degree approaching in +height the final stage of Roman society. In the eighteenth and nineteenth +centuries, at first in France, then in England, we find once more the +moral and legal movement tending towards the equalization of women with +men. We find also a long series of pioneers of that movement foreshadowing +its developments: Mary Astor, "Sophia, a Lady of Quality," Segur, Mrs. +Wheeler, and very notably Mary Wollstonecraft in _A Vindication of the +Rights of Woman_, and John Stuart Mill in _The Subjection of Women_.[289] + +The main European stream of influences in this matter within historical +times has involved, we can scarcely doubt when we take into consideration +its complex phenomena as a whole, the maintenance of an inequality to the +disadvantage of women. The fine legacy of Roman law to Europe was indeed +favorable to women, but that legacy was dispersed and for the most part +lost in the more predominating influence of tenacious Teutonic custom +associated with the vigorously organized Christian Church. Notwithstanding +that the facts do not all point in the same direction, and that there is +consequently some difference of opinion, it seems evident that on the +whole both Teutonic custom and Christian religion were unfavorable to the +equality of women with men. Teutonic custom in this matter was determined +by two decisive factors: (1) the existence of marriage by purchase which +although, as Crawley has pointed out, it by no means necessarily involves +the degradation of women, certainly tends to place them in an inferior +position, and (2) pre-occupation with war which is always accompanied by a +depreciation of peaceful and feminine occupations and an indifference to +love. Christianity was at its origin favorable to women because it +liberated and glorified the most essentially feminine emotions, but when +it became an established and organized religion with definitely ascetic +ideals, its whole emotional tone grew unfavorable to women. It had from +the first excluded them from any priestly function. It now regarded them +as the special representatives of the despised element of sex in +life.[290] The eccentric Tertullian had once declared that woman was +_janua Diaboli_; nearly seven hundred years later, even the gentle and +philosophic Anselm wrote: _Femina fax est Satanae_.[291] + + Thus among the Franks, with whom the practice of monogamy + prevailed, a woman was never free; she could not buy or sell or + inherit without the permission of those to whom she belonged. She + passed into the possession of her husband by acquisition, and + when he fixed the wedding day he gave her parents coins of small + money as _arrha_, and the day after the wedding she received from + him a present, the _morgengabe_. A widow belonged to her parents + again (Bedolliere, _Histoire de Moeurs des Francais_, + vol. i, p. 180). It is true that the Salic law ordained a + pecuniary fine for touching a woman, even for squeezing her + finger, but it is clear that the offence thus committed was an + offence against property, and by no means against the sanctity of + a woman's personality. The primitive German husband could sell + his children, and sometimes his wife, even into slavery. In the + eleventh century cases of wife-selling are still heard of, though + no longer recognized by law. + + The traditions of Christianity were more favorable to sexual + equality than were Teutonic customs, but in becoming amalgamated + with those customs they added their own special contribution as + to woman's impurity. This spiritual inferiority of woman was + significantly shown by the restrictions sometimes placed on women + in church, and even in the right to enter a church; in some + places they were compelled to remain in the narthex, even in + non-monastic churches (see for these rules, Smith and Cheetham, + _Dictionary of Christian Antiquities_, art. "Sexes, Separation + of"). + + By attempting to desexualize the idea of man and to oversexualize + the idea of woman, Christianity necessarily degraded the position + of woman and the conception of womanhood. As Donaldson well + remarks, in pointing this out (op. cit., p. 182), "I may define + man as a male human being and woman as a female human being.... + What the early Christians did was to strike the 'male' out of the + definition of man, and 'human being' out of the definition of + woman." Religion generally appears to be a powerfully depressing + influence on the position of woman notwithstanding the appeal + which it makes to woman. Westermarck considers, indeed (_Origin + and Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. i, p. 669), that + religion "has probably been the most persistent cause of the + wife's subjection to her husband's rule." + + It is sometimes said that the Christian tendency to place women + in an inferior spiritual position went so far that a church + council formally denied that women have souls. This foolish story + has indeed been repeated in a parrot-like fashion by a number of + writers. The source of the story is probably to be found in the + fact, recorded by Gregory of Tours, in his history (lib. viii, + cap. XX), that at the Council of Macon, in 585, a bishop was in + doubt as to whether the term "man" included woman, but was + convinced by the other members of the Council that it did. The + same difficulty has presented itself to lawyers in more modern + times, and has not always been resolved so favorably to woman as + by the Christian Council of Macon. + + The low estimate of women that prevailed even in the early Church + is admitted by Christian scholars. "We cannot but notice," writes + Meyrick (art. "Marriage," Smith and Cheetham, _Dictionary of + Christian Antiquities_), "even in the greatest of the Christian + fathers a lamentably low estimate of woman, and consequently of + the marriage relationship. Even St. Augustine can see no + justification for marriage, except in a grave desire deliberately + adopted of having children; and in accordance with this view, all + married intercourse, except for this single purpose, is harshly + condemned. If marriage is sought after for the sake of children, + it is justifiable; if entered into as a _remedium_ to avoid worse + evils, it is pardonable; the idea of the mutual society, help, + and comfort that the one ought to have of the other, both in + prosperity and adversity, hardly existed, and could hardly yet + exist." + + From the woman's point of view, Lily Braun, in her important work + on the woman question (_Die Frauenfrage_, 1901, pp. 28 et seq.) + concludes that, in so far as Christianity was favorable to women, + we must see that favorable influence in the placing of women on + the same moral level as men, as illustrated in the saying of + Jesus, "Let him who is without sin amongst you cast the first + stone," implying that each sex owes the same fidelity. It + reached, she adds, no further than this. "Christianity, which + women accepted as a deliverance with so much enthusiasm, and died + for as martyrs, has not fulfilled their hopes." + + Even as regards the moral equality of the sexes in marriage, the + position of Christian authorities was sometimes equivocal. One of + the greatest of the Fathers, St. Basil, in the latter half of the + fourth century, distinguished between adultery and fornication as + committed by a married man; if with a married woman, it was + adultery; if with an unmarried woman, it was merely fornication. + In the former case, a wife should not receive her husband back; + in the latter case, she should (art. "Adultery," Smith and + Cheetham, _Dictionary of Christian Antiquities_). Such a + decision, by attaching supreme importance to a distinction which + could make no difference to the wife, involved a failure to + recognize her moral personality. Many of the Fathers in the + Western Church, however, like Jerome, Augustine, and Ambrose, + could see no reason why the moral law should not be the same for + the husband as for the wife, but as late Roman feeling both on + the legal and popular side was already approximating to that + view, the influence of Christianity was scarcely required to + attain it. It ultimately received formal sanction in the Roman + Canon Law, which decreed that adultery is equally committed by + either conjugal party in two degrees: (1) _simplex_, of the + married with the unmarried, and (2) _duplex_, of the married with + the married. + + It can scarcely be said, however, that Christianity succeeded in + attaining the inclusion of this view of the moral equality of the + sexes into actual practical morality. It was accepted in theory; + it was not followed in practice. W.G. Sumner, discussing this + question (_Folkways_, pp. 359-361), concludes: "Why are these + views not in the _mores?_ Undoubtedly it is because they are + dogmatic in form, invented or imposed by theological authority or + philosophical speculation. They do not grow out of the experience + of life, and cannot be verified by it. The reasons are in + ultimate physiological facts, by virtue of which one is a woman + and the other is a man." There is, however, more to be said on + this point later. + +It was probably, however, not so much the Church as Teutonic customs and +the development of the feudal system, with the masculine and military +ideals it fostered, that was chiefly decisive in fixing the inferior +position of women in the mediaeval world. Even the ideas of chivalry, which +have often been supposed to be peculiarly favorable to women, so far as +they affected women seem to have been of little practical significance. + + In his great work on chivalry Gautier brings forward much + evidence to show that the feudal spirit, like the military spirit + always and everywhere, on the whole involved at bottom a disdain + for women, even though it occasionally idealized them. "Go into + your painted and gilded rooms," we read in _Renaus de Montauban_, + "sit in the shade, make yourselves comfortable, drink, eat, work + tapestry, dye silk, but remember that you must not occupy + yourselves with our affairs. Our business is to strike with the + steel sword. Silence!" And if the woman insists she is struck on + the face till the blood comes. The husband had a legal right to + beat his wife, not only for adultery, but even for contradicting + him. Women were not, however, entirely without power, and in a + thirteenth century collection of _Coutumes_, it is set down that + a husband must only beat his wife reasonably, _resnablement_. (As + regards the husband's right to chastise his wife, see also + Hobhouse, _Morals in Evolution_, vol. i, p. 234. In England it + was not until the reign of Charles II, from which so many modern + movements date, that the husband was deprived of this legal + right.) + + In the eyes of a feudal knight, it may be added, the beauty of a + horse competed, often successfully, with the beauty of a woman. + In _Girbers de Metz_, two knights, Garin and his cousin Girbert, + ride by a window at which sits a beautiful girl with the face of + a rose and the white flesh of a lily. "Look, cousin Girbert, + look! By Saint Mary, a beautiful woman!" "Ah," Girbert replies, + "a beautiful beast is my horse!" "I have never seen anything so + charming as that young girl with her fresh color and her dark + eyes," says Garin. "I know no steed to compare with mine," + retorts Girbert. When the men were thus absorbed in the things + that pertain to war, it is not surprising that amorous advances + were left to young girls to make. "In all the _chansons de + geste_," Gautier remarks, "it is the young girls who make the + advances, often with effrontery," though, he adds, wives are + represented as more virtuous (L. Gautier, _La Chevalerie_, pp. + 236-8, 348-50). + + In England Pollock and Maitland (_History of English Law_, vol. + ii, p. 437) do not believe that a life-long tutela of women ever + existed as among other Teutonic peoples. "From the Conquest + onwards," Hobhouse states (op. cit., vol. i, p. 224), "the + unmarried English woman, on attaining her majority, becomes + fully equipped with all legal and civil rights, as much a legal + personality as the Babylonian woman had been three thousand years + before." But the developed English law more than made up for any + privileges thus accorded to the unmarried by the inconsistent + manner in which it swathed up the wife in endless folds of + irresponsibility, except when she committed the supreme offence + of injuring her lord and master. The English wife, as Hobhouse + continues (loc. cit.) was, if not her husband's slave, at any + rate his liege subject; if she killed him it was "petty treason," + the revolt of a subject against a sovereign in a miniature + kingdom, and a more serious offence than murder. Murder she could + not commit in his presence, for her personality was merged in + him; he was responsible for most of her crimes and offences (it + was that fact which gave him the right to chastise her), and he + could not even enter into a contract with her, for that would be + entering into a contract with himself. "The very being and legal + existence of a woman is suspended during marriage," said + Blackstone, "or at least is incorporated and consolidated into + that of her husband, under whose wing, protection and cover she + performs everything. So great a favorite," he added, "is the + female sex of the laws of England." "The strength of woman," says + Hobhouse, interpreting the sense of the English law, "was her + weakness. She conquered by yielding. Her gentleness had to be + guarded from the turmoil of the world, her fragrance to be kept + sweet and fresh, away from the dust and the smoke of battle. + Hence her need of a champion and guardian." + + In France the wife of the mediaeval and Renaissance periods + occupied much the same position in her husband's house. He was + her absolute master and lord, the head and soul of "the feminine + and feeble creature" who owed to him "perfect love and + obedience." She was his chief servant, the eldest of his + children, his wife and subject; she signed herself "your humble + obedient daughter and friend," when she wrote to him. The + historian, De Maulde la Claviere, who has brought together + evidence on this point in his _Femmes de la Renaissance_, remarks + that even though the husband enjoyed this lofty and superior + position in marriage, it was still generally he, and not the + wife, who complained of the hardships of marriage. + +Law and custom assumed that a woman should be more or less under the +protection of a man, and even the ideals of fine womanhood which arose in +this society, during feudal and later times, were necessarily tinged by +the same conception. It involved the inequality of women as compared with +men, but under the social conditions of a feudal society such inequality +was to woman's advantage. Masculine force was the determining factor in +life and it was necessary that every woman should have a portion of this +force on her side. This sound and reasonable idea naturally tended to +persist even after the growth of civilization rendered force a much less +decisive factor in social life. In England in Queen Elizabeth's time no +woman must be masterless, although the feminine subjects of Queen +Elizabeth had in their sovereign the object lesson of a woman who could +play a very brilliant and effective part in life and yet remain absolutely +masterless. Still later, in the eighteenth century, even so fine a +moralist as Shaftesbury, in his _Characteristics_, refers to lovers of +married women as invaders of property. If such conceptions still ruled +even in the best minds, it is not surprising that in the same century, +even in the following century, they were carried out into practice by less +educated people who frankly bought and sold women. + + Schrader, in his _Reallexicon_ (art. "Brautkauf"), points out + that, originally, the purchase of a wife was the purchase of her + person, and not merely of the right of protecting her. The + original conception probably persisted long in Great Britain on + account of its remoteness from the centres of civilization. In + the eleventh century Gregory VII desired Lanfranc to stop the + sale of wives in Scotland and elsewhere in the island of the + English (Pike, _History of Crime in England_, vol. i, p. 99). The + practice never quite died out, however, in remote country + districts. + + Such transactions have taken place even in London. Thus in the + _Annual Register_ for 1767 (p. 99) we read: "About three weeks + ago a bricklayer's laborer at Marylebone sold a woman, whom he + had cohabited with for several years, to a fellow-workman for a + quarter guinea and a gallon of beer. The workman went off with + the purchase, and she has since had the good fortune to have a + legacy of L200, and some plate, left her by a deceased uncle in + Devonshire. The parties were married last Friday." + + The Rev. J. Edward Vaux (_Church Folk-lore_, second edition, p. + 146) narrates two authentic cases in which women had been bought + by their husbands in open market in the nineteenth century. In + one case the wife, with her own full consent, was brought to + market with a halter round her neck, sold for half a crown, and + led to her new home, twelve miles off by the new husband who had + purchased her; in the other case a publican bought another man's + wife for a two-gallon jar of gin. + + It is the same conception of woman as property which, even to the + present, has caused the retention in many legal codes of clauses + rendering a man liable to pay pecuniary damages to a woman, + previously a virgin, whom he has intercourse with and + subsequently forsakes (Natalie Fuchs, "Die Jungfernschaft im + Recht und Sitte," _Sexual-Probleme_, Feb., 1908). The woman is + "dishonored" by sexual intercourse, depreciated in her market + value, exactly as a new garment becomes "second-hand," even if it + has but once been worn. A man, on the other hand, would disdain + the idea that his personal value could be diminished by any + number of acts of sexual intercourse. + + This fact has even led some to advocate the "abolition of + physical virginity." Thus the German authoress of _Una + Poenitentium_ (1907), considering that the protection of a woman + is by no means so well secured by a little piece of membrane as + by the presence of a true and watchful soul inside, advocates the + operation of removal of the hymen in childhood. It is undoubtedly + true that the undue importance attached to the hymen has led to a + false conception of feminine "honor," and to an unwholesome + conception of feminine purity. + +Custom and law are slowly changing in harmony with changed social +conditions which no longer demand the subjection of women either in their +own interests or in the interests of the community. Concomitantly with +these changes a different ideal of womanly personality is developing. It +is true that the ancient ideal of the lordship of the husband over the +wife is still more or less consciously affirmed around us. The husband +frequently dictates to the wife what avocations she may not pursue, what +places she may not visit, what people she may not know, what books she may +not read. He assumes to control her, even in personal matters having no +direct concern with himself, by virtue of the old masculine prerogative of +force which placed a woman under the hand, as the ancient patriarchal +legists termed it, of a man. It is, however, becoming more and more widely +recognized that such a part is not suited to the modern man. The modern +man, as Rosa Mayreder has pointed out in a thoughtful essay,[292] is no +longer equipped to play this domineering part in relation to his wife. The +"noble savage," leading a wild life on mountain and in forest, hunting +dangerous beasts and scalping enemies when necessary, may occasionally +bring his club gently and effectively on to the head of his wife, even, it +may be, with grateful appreciation on her part.[293] But the modern man, +who for the most part spends his days tamely at a desk, who has been +trained to endure silently the insults and humiliations which superior +officials or patronizing clients may inflict upon him, this typical modern +man is no longer able to assume effectually the part of the "noble savage" +when he returns to his home. He is indeed so unfitted for the part that +his wife resents his attempts to play it. He is gradually recognizing +this, even apart from any consciousness of the general trend of +civilization. The modern man of ideas recognizes that, as a matter of +principle, his wife is entitled to equality with himself; the modern man +of the world feels that it would be both ridiculous and inconvenient not +to accord his wife much the same kind of freedom which he himself +possesses. And, moreover, while the modern man has to some extent acquired +feminine qualities, the modern woman has to a corresponding extent +acquired masculine qualities. + +Brief and summary as the preceding discussion has necessarily been, it +will have served to bring us face to face with the central fact in the +sexual morality which the growth of civilization has at the present day +rendered inevitable: personal responsibility. "The responsible human +being, man or woman, is the centre of modern ethics as of modern law;" +that is the conclusion reached by Hobhouse in his discussion of the +evolution of human morality.[294] The movement which is taking place among +us to liberate sexual relationships from an excessive bondage to fixed and +arbitrary regulations would have been impossible and mischievous but for +the concomitant growth of a sense of personal responsibility in the +members of the community. It could not indeed have subsisted for a single +year without degenerating into license and disorder. Freedom in sexual +relations involves mutual trust and that can only rest on a basis of +personal responsibility. Where there can be no reliance on personal +responsibility there can be no freedom. In most fields of moral action +this sense of personal responsibility is acquired at a fairly early stage +of social progress. Sexual morality is the last field of morality to be +brought within the sphere of personal responsibility. The community +imposes the most varied, complicated, and artificial codes of sexual +morality on its members, especially its feminine members, and, naturally +enough, it is always very suspicious of their ability to observe these +codes, and is careful to allow them, so far as possible, no personal +responsibility in the matter. But a training in restraint, when carried +through a long series of generations, is the best preparation for freedom. +The law laid on the earlier generations, as old theology stated the +matter, has been the schoolmaster to bring the later generations to +Christ; or, as new science expresses exactly the same idea, the later +generations have become immunized and have finally acquired a certain +degree of protection against the virus which would have destroyed the +earlier generations. + + The process by which a people acquires the sense of personal + responsibility is slow, and perhaps it cannot be adequately + acquired at all by races lacking a high grade of nervous + organization. This is especially the case as regards sexual + morality, and has often been illustrated on the contact of a + higher with a lower civilization. It has constantly happened that + missionaries--entirely against their own wishes, it need not be + said--by overthrowing the strict moral system they have found + established, and by substituting the freedom of European customs + among people entirely unprepared for such freedom, have exerted + the most disastrous effects on morality. This has been the case + among the formerly well-organized and highly moral Baganda of + Central Africa, as recorded in an official report by Colonel + Lambkin (_British Medical Journal_, Oct. 3, 1908). + + As regards Polynesia, also, R.L. Stevenson, in his interesting + book, _In the South Seas_ (Ch. V), pointed out that, while before + the coming of the whites the Polynesians were, on the whole, + chaste, and the young carefully watched, now it is far otherwise. + + Even in Fiji, where, according to Lord Stanmore--who was High + Commissioner of the Pacific, and an independent + critic--missionary effort has been "wonderfully successful," + where all own at least nominal allegiance to Christianity, which + has much modified life and character, yet chastity has suffered. + This was shown by a Royal Commission on the condition of the + native races in Fiji. Mr. Fitchett, commenting on this report + (Australasian _Review of Reviews_, Oct., 1897) remarks: "Not a + few witnesses examined by the commission declare that the moral + advance in Fiji is of a curiously patchy type. The abolition of + polygamy, for example, they say, has not told at every point in + favor of women. The woman is the toiler in Fiji; and when the + support of the husband was distributed over four wives, the + burden on each wife was less than it is now, when it has to be + carried by one. In heathen times female chastity was guarded by + the club; a faithless wife, an unmarried mother, was summarily + put to death. Christianity has abolished club-law, and purely + moral restraints, or the terror of the penalties of the next + world, do not, to the limited imagination of the Fijian, quite + take its place. So the standard of Fijian chastity is + distressingly low." + + It must always be remembered that when the highly organized + primitive system of mixed spiritual and physical restraints is + removed, chastity becomes more delicately and unstably poised. + The controlling power of personal responsibility, valuable and + essential as it is, cannot permanently and unremittingly restrain + the volcanic forces of the passion of love even in high + civilizations. "No perfection of moral constitution in a woman," + Hinlon has well said, "no power of will, no wish and resolution + to be 'good,' no force of religion or control of custom, can + secure what is called the virtue of woman. The emotion of + absolute devotion with which some man may inspire her will sweep + them all away. Society, in choosing to erect itself on that + basis, chooses inevitable disorder, and so long as it continues + to choose it will continue to have that result." + +It is necessary to insist for a while on this personal responsibility in +matters of sexual morality, in the form in which it is making itself felt +among us, and to search out its implications. The most important of these +is undoubtedly economic independence. That is indeed so important that +moral responsibility in any fine sense can scarcely be said to have any +existence in its absence. Moral responsibility and economic independence +are indeed really identical; they are but two sides of the same social +fact. The responsible person is the person who is able to answer for his +actions and, if need be, to pay for them. The economically dependent +person can accept a criminal responsibility; he can, with an empty purse, +go to prison or to death. But in the ordinary sphere of everyday morality +that large penalty is not required of him; if he goes against the wishes +of his family or his friends or his parish, they may turn their backs on +him but they cannot usually demand against him the last penalties of the +law. He can exert his own personal responsibility, he can freely choose to +go his own way and to maintain himself in it before his fellowmen on one +condition, that he is able to pay for it. His personal responsibility has +little or no meaning except in so far as it is also economic independence. + +In civilized societies as they attain maturity, the women tend to acquire +a greater and greater degree alike of moral responsibility and economic +independence. Any freedom and seeming equality of women, even when it +actually assumes the air of superiority, which is not so based, is unreal. +It is only on sufferance; it is the freedom accorded to the child, because +it asks for it so prettily or may scream if it is refused. This is merely +parasitism.[295] The basis of economic independence ensures a more real +freedom. Even in societies which by law and custom hold women in strict +subordination, the woman who happens to be placed in possession of +property enjoys a high degree alike of independence and of +responsibility.[296] The growth of a high civilization seems indeed to be +so closely identified with the economic freedom and independence of women +that it is difficult to say which is cause and which effect. Herodotus, in +his fascinating account of Egypt, a land which he regarded as admirable +beyond all other lands, noted with surprise that, totally unlike the +fashion of Greece, women left the men at home to the management of the +loom and went to market to transact the business of commerce.[297] It is +the economic factor in social life which secures the moral responsibility +of women and which chiefly determines the position of the wife in relation +to her husband.[298] In this respect in its late stages civilization +returns to the same point it had occupied at the beginning, when, as has +already been noted, we find greater equality with men and at the same time +greater economic independence.[299] + +In all the leading modern civilized countries, for a century past, custom +and law have combined to give an ever greater economic independence to +women. In some respects England took the lead by inaugurating the great +industrial movement which slowly swept women into its ranks,[300] and made +inevitable the legal changes which, by 1882, insured to a married woman +the possession of her own earnings. The same movement, with its same +consequences, is going on elsewhere. In the United States, just as in +England, there is a vast army of five million women, rapidly increasing, +who earn their own living, and their position in relation to men workers +is even better than in England. In France from twenty-five to seventy-five +per cent. of the workers in most of the chief industries--the liberal +professions, commerce, agriculture, factory industries--are women, and in +some of the very largest, such as home industries and textile industries, +more women are employed than men. In Japan, it is said, three-fifths of +the factory workers are women, and all the textile industries are in the +hands of women.[301] This movement is the outward expression of the modern +conception of personal rights, personal moral worth, and personal +responsibility, which, as Hobhouse has remarked, has compelled women to +take their lives into their own hands, and has at the same time rendered +the ancient marriage laws an anachronism, and the ancient ideals of +feminine innocence shrouded from the world a mere piece of false +sentiment.[302] + + There can be no doubt that the entrance of women into the field + of industrial work, in rivalry with men and under somewhat the + same conditions as men, raises serious questions of another + order. The general tendency of civilization towards the economic + independence and the moral responsibility of women is + unquestionable. But it is by no means absolutely clear that it is + best for women, and, therefore, for the community, that women + should exercise all the ordinary avocations and professions of + men on the same level as men. Not only have the conditions of the + avocations and professions developed in accordance with the + special aptitudes of men, but the fact that the sexual processes + by which the race is propagated demand an incomparably greater + expenditure of time and energy on the part of women than of men, + precludes women in the mass from devoting themselves so + exclusively as men to industrial work. For some biologists, + indeed, it seems clear that outside the home and the school women + should not work at all. "Any nation that works its women is + damned," says Woods Hutchinson (_The Gospel According to Darwin_, + p. 199). That view is extreme. Yet from the economic side, also, + Hobson, in summing up this question, regards the tendency of + machine-industry to drive women away from the home as "a tendency + antagonistic to civilization." The neglect of the home, he + states, is, "on the whole, the worst injury modern industry has + inflicted on our lives, and it is difficult to see how it can be + compensated by any increase of material products. Factory life + for women, save in extremely rare cases, saps the physical and + moral health of the family. The exigencies of factory life are + inconsistent with the position of a good mother, a good wife, or + the maker of a home. Save in extreme circumstances, no increase + of the family wage can balance these losses, whose values stand + upon a higher qualitative level" (J.A. Hobson, _Evolution of + Modern Capitalism_, Ch. XII; cf. what has been said in Ch. I of + the present volume). It is now beginning to be recognized that + the early pioneers of the "woman's movement" in working to remove + the "subjection of woman" were still dominated by the old ideals + of that subjection, according to which the masculine is in all + main respects the superior sex. Whatever was good for man, they + thought, must be equally good for woman. That has been the source + of all that was unbalanced and unstable, sometimes both a little + pathetic and a little absurd, in the old "woman's movement." + There was a failure to perceive that, first of all, women must + claim their right to their own womanhood as mothers of the race, + and thereby the supreme law-givers in the sphere of sex and the + large part of life dependent on sex. This special position of + woman seems likely to require a readjustment of economic + conditions to their needs, though it is not likely that such + readjustment would be permitted to affect their independence or + their responsibility. We have had, as Madame Juliette Adam has + put it, the rights of men sacrificing women, followed by the + rights of women sacrificing the child; that must be followed by + the rights of the child reconstituting the family. It has already + been necessary to touch on this point in the first chapter of + this volume, and it will again be necessary in the last chapter. + +The question as to the method by which the economic independence of women +will be completely insured, and the part which the community may be +expected to take in insuring it, on the ground of woman's special +child-bearing functions, is from the present point of view subsidiary. +There can be no doubt, however, as to the reality of the movement in that +direction, whatever doubt there may be as to the final adjustment of the +details. It is only necessary in this place to touch on some of the +general and more obvious respects in which the growth of woman's +responsibility is affecting sexual morality. + +The first and most obvious way in which the sense of moral responsibility +works is in an insistence on reality in the relationships of sex. Moral +irresponsibility has too often combined with economic dependence to induce +a woman to treat the sexual event in her life which is biologically of +most fateful gravity as a merely gay and trivial event, at the most an +event which has given her a triumph over her rivals and over the superior +male, who, on his part, willingly condescends, for the moment, to assume +the part of the vanquished. "Gallantry to the ladies," we are told of the +hero of the greatest and most typical of English novels, "was among his +principles of honor, and he held it as much incumbent on him to accept a +challenge to love as if it had been a challenge to fight;" he heroically +goes home for the night with a lady of title he meets at a masquerade, +though at the time very much in love with the girl whom he eventually +marries.[303] The woman whose power lies only in her charms, and who is +free to allow the burden of responsibility to fall on a man's +shoulder,[304] could lightly play the seducing part, and thereby exert +independence and authority in the only shapes open to her. The man on his +part, introducing the misplaced idea of "honor" into the field from which +the natural idea of responsibility has been banished, is prepared to +descend at the lady's bidding into the arena, according to the old legend, +and rescue the glove, even though he afterwards flings it contemptuously +in her face. The ancient conception of gallantry, which Tom Jones so well +embodies, is the direct outcome of a system involving the moral +irresponsibility and economic dependence of women, and is as opposed to +the conceptions, prevailing in the earlier and later civilized stages, of +approximate sexual equality as it is to the biological traditions of +natural courtship in the world generally. + +In controlling her own sexual life, and in realizing that her +responsibility for such control can no longer be shifted on to the +shoulders of the other sex, women will also indirectly affect the sexual +lives of men, much as men already affect the sexual lives of women. In +what ways that influence will in the main be exerted it is still premature +to say. According to some, just as formerly men bought their wives and +demanded prenuptial virginity in the article thus purchased, so nowadays, +among the better classes, women are able to buy their husbands, and in +their turn are disposed to demand continence.[305] That, however, is too +simple-minded a way of viewing the question. It is enough to refer to the +fact that women are not attracted to virginal innocence in men and that +they frequently have good ground for viewing such innocence with +suspicion.[306] Yet it may well be believed that women will more and more +prefer to exert a certain discrimination in the approval of their +husbands' past lives. However instinctively a woman may desire that her +husband shall be initiated in the art of making love to her, she may often +well doubt whether the finest initiation is to be secured from the average +prostitute. Prostitution, as we have seen, is ultimately as incompatible +with complete sexual responsibility as is the patriarchal marriage system +with which it has been so closely associated. It is an arrangement mainly +determined by the demands of men, to whatever extent it may have +incidentally subserved various needs of women. Men arranged that one group +of women should be set apart to minister exclusively to their sexual +necessities, while another group should be brought up in asceticism as +candidates for the privilege of ministering to their household and family +necessities. That this has been in many respects a most excellent +arrangement is sufficiently proved by the fact that it has nourished for +so long a period, notwithstanding the influences that are antagonistic to +it. But it is obviously only possible during a certain stage of +civilization and in association with a certain social organization. It is +not completely congruous with a democratic stage of civilization involving +the economic independence and the sexual responsibility of both sexes +alike in all social classes. It is possible that women may begin to +realize this fact earlier than men. + +It is also believed by many that women will realize that a high degree of +moral responsibility is not easily compatible with the practice of +dissimulation and that economic independence will deprive deceit--which is +always the resort of the weak--of whatever moral justification it may +possess. Here, however, it is necessary to speak with caution or we may be +unjust to women. It must be remarked that in the sphere of sex men also +are often the weak, and are therefore apt to resort to the refuge of the +weak. With the recognition of that fact we may also recognize that +deception in women has been the cause of much of the age-long blunders of +the masculine mind in the contemplation of feminine ways. Men have +constantly committed the double error of overlooking the dissimulation of +women and of over-estimating it. This fact has always served to render +more difficult still the inevitably difficult course of women through the +devious path of sexual behavior. Pepys, who represents so vividly and so +frankly the vices and virtues of the ordinary masculine mind, tells how +one day when he called to see Mrs. Martin her sister Doll went out for a +bottle of wine and came back indignant because a Dutchman had pulled her +into a stable and tumbled and tossed her. Pepys having been himself often +permitted to take liberties with her, it seemed to him that her +indignation with the Dutchman was "the best instance of woman's falseness +in the world."[307] He assumes without question that a woman who has +accorded the privilege of familiarity to a man she knows and, one hopes, +respects, would be prepared to accept complacently the brutal attentions +of the first drunken stranger she meets in the street. + +It was the assumption of woman's falseness which led the ultra-masculine +Pepys into a sufficiently absurd error. At this point, indeed, we +encounter what has seemed to some a serious obstacle to the full moral +responsibility of women. Dissimulation, Lombroso and Ferrero argue, is in +woman "almost physiological," and they give various grounds for this +conclusion.[308] The theologians, on their side, have reached a similar +conclusion. "A confessor must not immediately believe a woman's words," +says Father Gury, "for women are habitually inclined to lie."[309] This +tendency, which seems to be commonly believed to affect women as a sex, +however free from it a vast number of individual women are, may be said, +and with truth, to be largely the result of the subjection of women and +therefore likely to disappear as that subjection disappears. In so far, +however, as it is "almost physiological," and based on radical feminine +characters, such as modesty, affectability, and sympathy, which have an +organic basis in the feminine constitution and can therefore never +altogether be changed, feminine dissimulation seems scarcely likely to +disappear. The utmost that can be expected is that it should be held in +check by the developed sense of moral responsibility, and, being reduced +to its simply natural proportions, become recognizably intelligible. + + It is unnecessary to remark that there can be no question here as + to any inherent moral superiority of one sex over the other. The + answer to that question was well stated many years ago by one of + the most subtle moralists of love. "Taken altogether," concluded + Senancour (_De l'Amour_, vol. ii, p. 85), "we have no reason to + assert the moral superiority of either sex. Both sexes, with + their errors and their good intentions, very equally fulfil the + ends of nature. We may well believe that in either of the two + divisions of the human species the sum of evil and that of good + are about equal. If, for instance, as regards love, we oppose the + visibly licentious conduct of men to the apparent reserve of + women, it would be a vain valuation, for the number of faults + committed by women with men is necessarily the same as that of + men with women. There exist among us fewer scrupulous men than + perfectly honest women, but it is easy to see how the balance is + restored. If this question of the moral preeminence of one sex + over the other were not insoluble it would still remain very + complicated with reference to the whole of the species, or even + the whole of a nation, and any dispute here seems idle." + + This conclusion is in accordance with the general compensatory + and complementary relationship of women to men (see, e.g., + Havelock Ellis, _Man and Woman_, fourth edition, especially pp. + 448 et seq.). + + In a recent symposium on the question whether women are morally + inferior to men, with special reference to aptitude for loyalty + (_La Revue_, Jan. 1, 1909), to which various distinguished French + men and women contributed their opinions, some declared that + women are usually superior; others regarded it as a question of + difference rather than of superiority or inferiority; all were + agreed that when they enjoy the same independence as men, women + are quite as loyal as men. + +It is undoubtedly true that--partly as a result of ancient traditions and +education, partly of genuine feminine characteristics--many women are +diffident as to their right to moral responsibility and unwilling to +assume it. And an attempt is made to justify their attitude by asserting +that woman's part in life is naturally that of self-sacrifice, or, to put +the statement in a somewhat more technical form, that women are naturally +masochistic; and that there is, as Krafft-Ebing argues, a natural "sexual +subjection" of woman. It is by no means clear that this statement is +absolutely true, and if it were true it would not serve to abolish the +moral responsibility of women. + + Bloch (_Beitraege zur AEtiologie der Psychopathia Sexualis_, Part + II, p. 178), in agreement with Eulenburg, energetically denies + that there is any such natural "sexual subjection" of women, + regarding it as artificially produced, the result of the socially + inferior position of women, and arguing that such subjection is + in much higher degree a physiological characteristic of men than + of women. (It has been necessary to discuss this question in + dealing with "Love and Pain" in the third volume of these + _Studies_.) It seems certainly clear that the notion that women + are especially prone to self-sacrifice has little biological + validity. Self-sacrifice by compulsion, whether physical or moral + compulsion, is not worthy of the name; when it is deliberate it + is simply the sacrifice of a lesser good for the sake of a + greater good. Doubtless a man who eats a good dinner may be said + to "sacrifice" his hunger. Even within the sphere of traditional + morality a woman who sacrifices her "honor" for the sake of her + love to a man has, by her "sacrifice," gained something that she + values more. "What a triumph it is to a woman," a woman has said, + "to give pleasure to a man she loves!" And in a morality on a + sound biological basis no "sacrifice" is here called for. It may + rather be said that the biological laws of courtship + fundamentally demand self-sacrifice of the male rather than of + the female. Thus the lioness, according to Gerard the + lion-hunter, gives herself to the most vigorous of her lion + wooers; she encourages them to fight among themselves for + superiority, lying on her belly to gaze at the combat and lashing + her tail with delight. Every female is wooed by many males, but + she only accepts one; it is not the female who is called upon for + erotic self-sacrifice, but the male. That is indeed part of the + divine compensation of Nature, for since the heavier part of the + burden of sex rests on the female, it is fitting that she should + be less called upon for renunciation. + +It thus seems probable that the increase of moral responsibility may tend +to make a woman's conduct more intelligible to others;[310] it will in any +case certainly tend to make it less the concern of others. This is +emphatically the case as regards the relations of sex. In the past men +have been invited to excel in many forms of virtue; only one virtue has +been open to women. That is no longer possible. To place upon a woman the +main responsibility for her own sexual conduct is to deprive that conduct +of its conspicuously public character as a virtue or a vice. Sexual union, +for a woman as much as for a man, is a physiological fact; it may also be +a spiritual fact; but it is not a social act. It is, on the contrary, an +act which, beyond all other acts, demands retirement and mystery for its +accomplishment. That indeed is a general human, almost zooelogical, fact. +Moreover, this demand of mystery is more especially made by woman in +virtue of her greater modesty which, we have found reason to believe, has +a biological basis. It is not until a child is born or conceived that the +community has any right to interest itself in the sexual acts of its +members. The sexual act is of no more concern to the community than any +other private physiological act. It is an impertinence, if not an outrage, +to seek to inquire into it. But the birth of a child is a social act. Not +what goes into the womb but what comes out of it concerns society. The +community is invited to receive a new citizen. It is entitled to demand +that that citizen shall be worthy of a place in its midst and that he +shall be properly introduced by a responsible father and a responsible +mother. The whole of sexual morality, as Ellen Key has said, revolves +round the child. + +At this final point in our discussion of sexual morality we may perhaps be +able to realize the immensity of the change which has been involved by the +development in women of moral responsibility. So long as responsibility +was denied to women, so long as a father or a husband, backed up by the +community, held himself responsible for a woman's sexual behavior, for +her "virtue," it was necessary that the whole of sexual morality should +revolve around the entrance to the vagina. It became absolutely essential +to the maintenance of morality that all eyes in the community should be +constantly directed on to that point, and the whole marriage law had to be +adjusted accordingly. That is no longer possible. When a woman assumes her +own moral responsibility, in sexual as in other matters, it becomes not +only intolerable but meaningless for the community to pry into her most +intimate physiological or spiritual acts. She is herself directly +responsible to society as soon as she performs a social act, and not +before. + +In relation to the fact of maternity the realization of all that is +involved in the new moral responsibility of women is especially +significant. Under a system of morality by which a man is left free to +accept the responsibility for his sexual acts while a woman is not equally +free to do the like, a premium is placed on sexual acts which have no end +in procreation, and a penalty is placed on the acts which lead to +procreation. The reason is that it is the former class of acts in which +men find chief gratification; it is the latter class in which women find +chief gratification. For the tragic part of the old sexual morality in its +bearing on women was that while it made men alone morally responsible for +sexual acts in which both a man and a woman took part, women were rendered +both socially and legally incapable of availing themselves of the fact of +masculine responsibility unless they had fulfilled conditions which men +had laid down for them, and yet refrained from imposing upon themselves. +The act of sexual intercourse, being the sexual act in which men found +chief pleasure, was under all circumstances an act of little social +gravity; the act of bringing a child into the world, which is for women +the most massively gratifying of all sexual acts, was counted a crime +unless the mother had before fulfilled the conditions demanded by man. +That was perhaps the most unfortunate and certainly the most unnatural of +the results of the patriarchal regulation of society. It has never existed +in any great State where women have possessed some degree of regulative +power. + + It has, of course, been said by abstract theorists that women + have the matter in their own hands. They must never love a man + until they have safely locked him up in the legal bonds of + matrimony. Such an argument is absolutely futile, for it ignores + the fact that, while love and even monogamy are natural, legal + marriage is merely an external form, with a very feeble power of + subjugating natural impulses, except when those impulses are + weak, and no power at all of subjugating them permanently. + Civilization involves the growth of foresight, and of + self-control in both sexes; but it is foolish to attempt to place + on these fine and ultimate outgrowths of civilization a strain + which they could never bear. How foolish it is has been shown, + once and for all, by Lea in his admirable _History of Sacerdotal + Celibacy_. + + Moreover, when we compare the respective aptitudes of men and + women in this particular region, it must be remembered that men + possess a greater power of forethought and self-control than + women, notwithstanding the modesty and reserve of women. The + sexual sphere is immensely larger in women, so that when its + activity is once aroused it is much more difficult to master or + control. (The reasons were set out in detail in the discussion of + "The Sexual Impulse in Women" in volume iii of these _Studies_.) + It is, therefore, unfair to women, and unduly favors men, when + too heavy a premium is placed on forethought and self-restraint + in sexual matters. Since women play the predominant part in the + sexual field their natural demands, rather than those of men, + must furnish the standard. + +With the realization of the moral responsibility of women the natural +relations of life spring back to their due biological adjustment. +Motherhood is restored to its natural sacredness. It becomes the concern +of the woman herself, and not of society nor of any individual, to +determine the conditions under which the child shall be conceived. Society +is entitled to require that the father shall in every case acknowledge the +fact of his paternity, but it must leave the chief responsibility for all +the circumstances of child-production to the mother. That is the point of +view which is now gaining ground in all civilized lands both in theory and +in practice.[311] + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[257] E.g., E. Belfort Bax, _Outspoken Essays_, p. 6. + +[258] Such reasons are connected with communal welfare. "All immoral acts +result in communal unhappiness, all moral acts in communal happiness," as +Prof. A. Mathews remarks, "Science and Morality," _Popular Science +Monthly_, March, 1909. + +[259] See Westermarck, _Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. +i, pp. 386-390, 522. + +[260] Westermarck, _Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_, pp. 9, +159; also the whole of Ch. VII. Actions that are in accordance with custom +call forth public approval, actions that are opposed to custom call forth +public resentment, and Westermarck powerfully argues that such approval +and such resentment are the foundation of moral judgments. + +[261] This is well recognized by legal writers (e.g., E.A. Schroeder, _Das +Recht in der Geschlechtlichen Ordnung_, p. 5). + +[262] W.G. Sumner (_Folkways_, p. 418) even considers it desirable to +change the form of the word in order to emphasize the real and fundamental +meaning of morals, and proposes the word _mores_ to indicate "popular +usages and traditions conducive to societal reform." "'Immoral,'" he +points out, "never means anything but contrary to the _mores_ of the time +and place." There is, however, no need whatever to abolish or to +supplement the good old ancient word "morality," so long as we clearly +realize that, on the practical side, it means essentially custom. + +[263] Westermarck, op. cit., vol. i, p. 19. + +[264] See, e.g., "Exogamy and the Mating of Cousins," in _Essays Presented +to E.B. Tylor_, 1907, p. 53. "In many departments of primitive life we +find a naive desire to, as it were, assist Nature, to affirm what is +normal, and later to confirm it by the categorical imperative of custom +and law. This tendency still flourishes in our civilized communities, and, +as the worship of the normal, is often a deadly foe to the abnormal and +eccentric, and too often paralyzes originality." + +[265] The spirit of Christianity, as illustrated by Paulinus, in his +_Epistle XXV_, was from the Roman point of view, as Dill remarks (_Roman +Society_, p. 11), "a renunciation, not only of citizenship, but of all the +hard-won fruits of civilization and social life." + +[266] It thus happens that, as Lecky said in his _History of European +Morals_, "of all the departments of ethics the questions concerning the +relations of the sexes and the proper position of woman are those upon the +future of which there rests the greatest uncertainty." Some progress has +perhaps been made since these words were written, but they still hold true +for the majority of people. + +[267] Concerning economic marriage as a vestigial survival, see, e.g., +Bloch, _The Sexual Life of Our Time_, p. 212. + +[268] Senancour, _De l'Amour_, vol. ii, p. 233. The author of _The +Question of English Divorce_ attributes the absence of any widespread +feeling against sexual license to the absurd rigidity of the law. + +[269] Bruno Meyer, "Etwas von Positiver Sexualreform," _Sexual-Probleme_, +Nov., 1908. + +[270] Elsie Clews Parsons, _The Family_, p. 351. Dr. Parsons rightly +thinks such unions a social evil when they check the development of +personality. + +[271] For evidence regarding the general absence of celibacy among both +savage and barbarous peoples, see, e.g., Westermarck, _History of Human +Marriage_, Ch. VII. + +[272] There are, for instance, two millions of unmarried women in France, +while in Belgium 30 per cent, of the women, and in Germany sometimes even +50 per cent, are unmarried. + +[273] Such a position would not be biologically unreasonable, in view of +the greatly preponderant part played by the female in the sexual process +which insures the conservation of the race. "If the sexual instinct is +regarded solely from the physical side," says D.W.H. Busch (_Das +Geschlechtsleben des Weibes_, 1839, vol. i, p. 201), "the woman cannot be +regarded as the property of the man, but with equal and greater reason the +man may be regarded as the property of the woman." + +[274] Herodotus, Bk. i, Ch. CLXXIII. + +[275] That power and relationship are entirely distinct was pointed out +many years ago by L. von Dargun, _Mutterrecht und Vaterrecht_, 1892. +Westermarck (_Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. i, p. 655), +who is inclined to think that Steinmetz has not proved conclusively that +mother-descent involves less authority of husband over wife, makes the +important qualification that the husband's authority is impaired when he +lives among his wife's kinsfolk. + +[276] Robertson Smith, _Kinship and Marriage in Early Arabia_; J.G. Frazer +has pointed out (_Academy_, March 27, 1886) that the partially Semitic +peoples on the North frontier of Abyssinia, not subjected to the +revolutionary processes of Islam, preserve a system closely resembling +_beena_ marriage, as well as some traces of the opposite system, by +Robertson Smith called _ba'al_ marriage, in which the wife is acquired by +purchase and becomes a piece of property. + +[277] Spencer and Gillen, _Northern Tribes of Central Australia_, p. 358. + +[278] Rhys and Brynmor-Jones, _The Welsh People_, pp. 55-6; cf. Rhys, +_Celtic Heathendom_, p. 93. + +[279] Rhys and Brynmor-Jones, op. cit., p. 214. + +[280] Crawley (_The Mystic Rose_, p. 41 et seq.) gives numerous instances. + +[281] Revillout, "La Femme dans l'Antiquite," _Journal Asiatique_, 1906, +vol. vii, p. 57. See, also, Victor Marx, _Beitraege zur Assyriologie_, +1899, Bd. iv, Heft 1. + +[282] Donaldson, _Woman_, pp. 196, 241 et seq. Nietzold, (_Die Ehe in_ +"_Agypten_," p. 17), thinks the statement of Diodorus that no children +were illegitimate, needs qualification, but that certainly the +illegitimate child in Egypt was at no social disadvantage. + +[283] Amelineau, _La Morale Egyptienne_, p. 194; Hobhouse, _Morals in +Evolution_, vol. i, p. 187; Flinders Petrie, _Religion and Conscience in +Ancient Egypt_, pp. 131 et seq. + +[284] Maine, _Ancient Law_, Ch. V. + +[285] Donaldson, _Woman_, pp. 109, 120. + +[286] _Mercator_, iv, 5. + +[287] Digest XLVIII, 13, 5. + +[288] Hobhouse, _Morals in Evolution_, vol. i, p. 213. + +[289] For an account of the work of some of the less known of these +pioneers, see a series of articles by Harriet McIlquham in the +_Westminster Review_, especially Nov., 1898, and Nov., 1903. + +[290] The influence of Christianity on the position of women has been well +discussed by Lecky, _History of European Morals_, vol. ii, pp. 316 et +seq., and more recently by Donaldson, _Woman_, Bk. iii. + +[291] Migne, _Patrologia_, vol. clviii, p. 680. + +[292] Rosa Mayreder, "Einiges ueber die Starke Faust," _Zur Kritik der +Weiblichkeit_, 1905. + +[293] Rasmussen (_People of the Polar North_, p. 56), describes a +ferocious quarrel between husband and wife, who each in turn knocked the +other down. "Somewhat later, when I peeped in, they were lying +affectionately asleep, with their arms around each other." + +[294] Hobhouse, _Morals in Evolution_, vol. ii, p. 367. Dr. Stoecker, in +_Die Liebe und die Frauen_, also insists on the significance of this +factor of personal responsibility. + +[295] Olive Schreiner has especially emphasized the evils of parasitism +for women. "The increased wealth of the male," she remarks ("The Woman's +Movement of Our Day," _Harper's Bazaar_, Jan., 1902), "no more of +necessity benefits and raises the female upon whom he expends it, than the +increased wealth of his mistress necessarily benefits, mentally or +physically, a poodle, because she can then give him a down cushion in +place of one of feathers, and chicken in place of beef." Olive Schreiner +believes that feminine parasitism is a danger which really threatens +society at the present time, and that if not averted "the whole body of +females in civilized societies must sink into a state of more or less +absolute dependence." + +[296] In Rome and in Japan, Hobhouse notes (op. cit., vol. i, pp. 169, +176), the patriarchal system reached its fullest extension, yet the laws +of both these countries placed the husband in a position of practical +subjugation to a rich wife. + +[297] Herodotus, Bk. ii, Ch. XXXV. Herodotus noted that it was the woman +and not the man on whom the responsibility for supporting aged parents +rested. That alone involved a very high economic position of women. It is +not surprising that to some observers, as to Diodorus Siculus, it seemed +that the Egyptian woman was mistress over her husband. + +[298] Hobhouse (loc. cit.), Hale, and also Grosse, believe that good +economic position of a people involves high position of women. Westermarck +(_Moral Ideas_, vol. i, p. 661), here in agreement with Olive Schreiner, +thinks this statement cannot be accepted without modification, though +agreeing that agricultural life has a good effect on woman's position, +because they themselves become actively engaged in it. A good economic +position has no real effect in raising woman's position, unless women +themselves take a real and not merely parasitic part in it. + +[299] Westermarck (_Moral Ideas_, vol. i, Ch. XXVI, vol. ii, p. 29) gives +numerous references with regard to the considerable proprietary and other +privileges of women among savages which tend to be lost at a somewhat +higher stage of culture. + +[300] The steady rise in the proportion of women among English workers in +machine industries began in 1851. There are now, it is estimated, three +and a half million women employed in industrial occupations, beside a +million and a half domestic servants. (See for details, James Haslam, in a +series of papers in the _Englishwoman_ 1909.) + +[301] See, e.g., J.A. Hobson, _The Evolution of Modern Capitalism_, second +edition, 1907, Ch. XII, "Women in Modern Industry." + +[302] Hobhouse, op. cit., vol. i, p. 228. + +[303] Fielding, _Tom Jones_, Bk. iii, Ch. VII. + +[304] Even the Church to some extent adopted this allotment of the +responsibility, and "solicitation," i.e., the sin of a confessor in +seducing his female penitent, is constantly treated as exclusively the +confessor's sin. + +[305] Adolf Gerson, _Sexual-Probleme_, Sept., 1908, p. 547. + +[306] It has already been necessary to refer to the unfortunate results +which may follow the ignorance of husbands (see, e.g., "The Sexual Impulse +in Women," vol. iii of these _Studies_), and will be necessary again in +Ch. XI of the present volume. + +[307] Pepys, _Diary_, ed. Wheatley, vol. vii, p. 10. + +[308] Lombroso and Ferrero, _La Donna Delinquente_; cf. Havelock Ellis, +_Man and Woman_, fourth edition, p. 196. + +[309] Gury, _Theologie Morale_, art. 381. + +[310] "Men will not learn what women are," remarks Rosa Mayreder (_Zur +Kritik der Weiblichkeit_, p. 199), "until they have left off prescribing +what they ought to be." + +[311] It has been set out, for instance, by Professor Wahrmund in _Ehe und +Eherecht_, 1908. I need scarcely refer again to the writings of Ellen Key, +which may be said to be almost epoch-making in their significance, +especially (in German translation) _Ueber Liebe und Ehe_ (also French +translation), and (in English translation, Putnam, 1909), the valuable, +though less important work, _The Century of the Child_. See also Edward +Carpenter, _Love's Coming of Age_; Forel, _Die Sexuelle Frage_ (English +translation, abridged, _The Sexual Question_, Rebman, 1908); Bloch, +_Sexualleben unsere Zeit_ (English translation, _The Sexual Life of Our +Time_, Rebman, 1908); Helene Stoecker, _Die Liebe und die Frauen_, 1906; +and Paul Lapie, _La Femme dans la Famille_, 1908. + + + + +CHAPTER X. + +MARRIAGE. + +The Definition of Marriage--Marriage Among Animals--The Predominance of +Monogamy--The Question of Group Marriage--Monogamy a Natural Fact, Not +Based on Human Law--The Tendency to Place the Form of Marriage Above the +Fact of Marriage--The History of Marriage--Marriage in Ancient +Rome--Germanic Influence on Marriage--Bride-Sale--The Ring--The Influence +of Christianity on Marriage--The Great Extent of This Influence--The +Sacrament of Matrimony--Origin and Growth of the Sacramental +Conception--The Church Made Marriage a Public Act--Canon Law--Its Sound +Core--Its Development--Its Confusions and Absurdities--Peculiarities of +English Marriage Law--Influence of the Reformation on Marriage--The +Protestant Conception of Marriage as a Secular Contract--The Puritan +Reform of Marriage--Milton as the Pioneer of Marriage Reform--His Views on +Divorce--The Backward Position of England in Marriage Reform--Criticism of +the English Divorce Law--Traditions of the Canon Law Still Persistent--The +Question of Damages for Adultery--Collusion as a Bar to +Divorce--Divorce in France, Germany, Austria, Russia, etc.--The United +States--Impossibility of Deciding by Statute the Causes for +Divorce--Divorce by Mutual Consent--Its Origin and Development--Impeded by +the Traditions of Canon Law--Wilhelm von Humboldt--Modern Pioneer +Advocates of Divorce by Mutual Consent--The Arguments Against Facility of +Divorce--The Interests of the Children--The Protection of Women--The +Present Tendency of the Divorce Movement--Marriage Not a Contract--The +Proposal of Marriage for a Term of Years--Legal Disabilities and +Disadvantages in the Position of the Husband and the Wife--Marriage Not a +Contract But a Fact--Only the Non-Essentials of Marriage, Not the +Essentials, a Proper Matter for Contract--The Legal Recognition of +Marriage as a Fact Without Any Ceremony--Contracts of the Person Opposed +to Modern Tendencies--The Factor of Moral Responsibility--Marriage as an +Ethical Sacrament--Personal Responsibility Involves Freedom--Freedom the +Best Guarantee of Stability--False Ideas of Individualism--Modern Tendency +of Marriage--With the Birth of a Child Marriage Ceases to be a Private +Concern--Every Child Must Have a Legal Father and Mother--How This Can be +Effected--The Firm Basis of Monogamy--The Question of Marriage +Variations--Such Variations Not Inimical to Monogamy--The Most Common +Variations--The Flexibility of Marriage Holds Variations in +Check--Marriage Variations _versus_ Prostitution--Marriage on a Reasonable +and Humane Basis--Summary and Conclusion. + + +The discussion in the previous chapter of the nature of sexual morality, +with the brief sketch it involved of the direction in which that morality +is moving, has necessarily left many points vague. It may still be asked +what definite and precise forms sexual unions are tending to take among +us, and what relation these unions bear to the religious, social, and +legal traditions we have inherited. These are matters about which a very +considerable amount of uncertainty seems to prevail, for it is not unusual +to hear revolutionary or eccentric opinions concerning them. + +Sexual union, involving the cohabitation, temporary or permanent, of two +or more persons, and having for one of its chief ends the production and +care of offspring, is commonly termed marriage. The group so constituted +forms a family. This is the sense in which the words "marriage" and the +"family" are most properly used, whether we speak of animals or of Man. +There is thus seen to be room for variation as regards both the time +during which the union lasts, and the number of individuals who form it, +the chief factor in the determination of these points being the interests +of the offspring. In actual practice, however, sexual unions, not only in +Man but among the higher animals, tend to last beyond the needs of the +offspring of a single season, while the fact that in most species the +numbers of males and females are approximately equal makes it inevitable +that both among animals and in Man the family is produced by a single +sexual couple, that is to say that monogamy is, with however many +exceptions, necessarily the fundamental rule. + +It will thus be seen that marriage centres in the child, and has at the +outset no reason for existence apart from the welfare of the offspring. +Among those animals of lowly organization which are able to provide for +themselves from the beginning of existence there is no family and no need +for marriage. Among human races, when sexual unions are not followed by +offspring, there may be other reasons for the continuance of the union +but they are not reasons in which either Nature or society is in the +slightest degree directly concerned. The marriage which grew up among +animals by heredity on the basis of natural selection, and which has been +continued by the lower human races through custom and tradition, by the +more civilized races through the superimposed regulative influence of +legal institutions, has been marriage for the sake of the offspring.[312] +Even in civilized races among whom the proportion of sterile marriages is +large, marriage tends to be so constituted as always to assume the +procreation of children and to involve the permanence required by such +procreation. + + Among birds, which from the point of view of erotic development + stand at the head of the animal world, monogamy frequently + prevails (according to some estimates among 90 per cent.), and + unions tend to be permanent; there is an approximation to the + same condition among some of the higher mammals, especially the + anthropoid apes; thus among gorillas and oran-utans permanent + monogamic marriages take place, the young sometimes remaining + with the parents to the age of six, while any approach to loose + behavior on the part of the wife is severely punished by the + husband. The variations that occur are often simply matters of + adaptation to circumstances; thus, according to J.G. Millais + (_Natural History of British Ducks_, pp. 8, 63), the Shoveler + duck, though normally monogamic, will become polyandric when + males are in excess, the two males being in constant and amicable + attendance on the female without signs of jealousy; among the + monogamic mallards, similarly, polygyny and polyandry may also + occur. See also R.W. Shufeldt, "Mating Among Birds," _American + Naturalist_, March, 1907; for mammal marriages, a valuable paper + by Robert Mueller, "Saeugethierehen," _Sexual-Probleme_, Jan., + 1909, and as regards the general prevalence of monogamy, Woods + Hutchinson, "Animal Marriage," _Contemporary Review_, Oct., 1904, + and Sept., 1905. + + There has long been a dispute among the historians of marriage as + to the first form of human marriage. Some assume a primitive + promiscuity gradually modified in the direction of monogamy; + others argue that man began where the anthropoid apes left off, + and that monogamy has prevailed, on the whole, throughout. Both + these opposed views, in an extreme form, seem untenable, and the + truth appears to lie midway. It has been shown by various + writers, and notably Westermarck (_History of Human Marriage_, + Chs. IV-VI), that there is no sound evidence in favor of + primitive promiscuity, and that at the present day there are few, + if any, savage peoples living in genuine unrestricted sexual + promiscuity. This theory of a primitive promiscuity seems to have + been suggested, as J.A. Godfrey has pointed out (_Science of + Sex_, p. 112), by the existence in civilized societies of + promiscuous prostitution, though this kind of promiscuity was + really the result, rather than the origin, of marriage. On the + other hand, it can scarcely be said that there is any convincing + evidence of primitive strict monogamy beyond the assumption that + early man continued the sexual habits of the anthropoid apes. It + would seem probable, however, that the great forward step + involved in passing from ape to man was associated with a change + in sexual habits involving the temporary adoption of a more + complex system than monogamy. It is difficult to see in what + other social field than that of sex primitive man could find + exercise for the developing intellectual and moral aptitudes, the + subtle distinctions and moral restraints, which the strict + monogamy practiced by animals could afford no scope for. It is + also equally difficult to see on what basis other than that of a + more closely associated sexual system the combined and harmonious + efforts needed for social progress could have developed. It is + probable that at least one of the motives for exogamy, or + marriage outside the group, is (as was probably first pointed out + by St. Augustine in his _De Civitate Dei_) the need of creating a + larger social circle, and so facilitating social activities and + progress. Exactly the same end is effected by a complex marriage + system binding a large number of people together by common + interests. The strictly small and confined monogamic family, + however excellently it subserved the interests of the offspring, + contained no promise of a wider social progress. We see this + among both ants and bees, who of all animals, have attained the + highest social organization; their progress was only possible + through a profound modification of the systems of sexual + relationship. As Espinas said many years ago (in his suggestive + work, _Des Societes Animales_): "The cohesion of the family and + the probabilities for the birth of societies are inverse." Or, as + Schurtz more recently pointed out, although individual marriage + has prevailed more or less from the first, early social + institutions, early ideas and early religion involved sexual + customs which modified a strict monogamy. + + The most primitive form of complex human marriage which has yet + been demonstrated as still in existence is what is called + group-marriage, in which all the women of one class are regarded + as the actual, or at all events potential, wives of all the men + in another class. This has been observed among some central + Australian tribes, a people as primitive and as secluded from + external influence as could well be found, and there is evidence + to show that it was formerly more widespread among them. "In the + Urabunna tribe, for example," say Spencer and Gillen, "a group of + men actually do have, continually and as a normal condition, + marital relations with a group of women. This state of affairs + has nothing whatever to do with polygamy any more than it has + with polyandry. It is simply a question of a group of men and a + group of women who may lawfully have what we call marital + relations. There is nothing whatever abnormal about it, and, in + all probability, this system of what has been called group + marriage, serving as it does to bind more or less closely + together groups of individuals who are mutually interested in one + another's welfare, has been one of the most powerful agents in + the early stages of the upward development of the human race" + (Spencer and Gillen, _Northern Tribes of Central Australia_, p. + 74; cf. A.W. Howitt, _The Native Tribes of South-East + Australia_). Group-marriage, with female descent, as found in + Australia, tends to become transformed by various stages of + progress into individual marriage with descent in the male line, + a survival of group-marriage perhaps persisting in the + much-discussed _jus primae noctis_. (It should be added that Mr. + N.W. Thomas, in his book on _Kinship and Marriage in Australia_, + 1908, concludes that group-marriage in Australia has not been + demonstrated, and that Professor Westermarck, in his _Origin and + Development of the Moral Ideas_, as in his previous _History of + Human Marriage_, maintains a skeptical opinion in regard to + group-marriage generally; he thinks the Urabunna custom may have + developed out of ordinary individual marriage, and regards the + group-marriage theory as "the residuary legatee of the old theory + of promiscuity." Durkheim also believes that the Australian + marriage system is not primitive, "Organisation Matrimoniale + Australienne," _L'Annee Sociologique_, eighth year, 1905). With + the attainment of a certain level of social progress it is easy + to see that a wide and complicated system of sexual relationships + ceases to have its value, and a more or less qualified monogamy + tends to prevail as more in harmony with the claims of social + stability and executive masculine energy. + + The best historical discussion of marriage is still probably + Westermarck's _History of Human Marriage_, though at some points + it now needs to be corrected or supplemented; among more recent + books dealing with primitive sexual conceptions may be specially + mentioned Crawley's _Mystic Rose_, while the facts concerning the + transformation of marriage among the higher human races are set + forth in G.E. Howard's _History of Matrimonial Institutions_ (3 + vols.), which contains copious bibliographical references. There + is an admirably compact, but clear and comprehensive, sketch of + the development of modern marriage in Pollock and Maitland, + _History of English Law_, vol. ii. + +It is necessary to make allowance for variations, thereby shunning the +extreme theorists who insist on moulding all facts to their theories, but +we may conclude that--as the approximately equal number of the sexes +indicates--in the human species, as among many of the higher animals, a +more or less permanent monogamy has on the whole tended to prevail. That +is a fact of great significance in its implications. For we have to +realize that we are here in the presence of a natural fact. Sexual +relationships, in human as in animal societies, follow a natural law, +oscillating on each side of the norm, and there is no place for the theory +that that law was imposed artificially. If all artificial "laws" could be +abolished the natural order of the sexual relationships would continue to +subsist substantially as at present. Virtue, said Cicero, is but Nature +carried out to the utmost. Or, as Holbach put it, arguing that our +institutions tend whither Nature tends, "art is only Nature acting by the +help of the instruments she has herself made." Shakespeare had already +seen much the same truth when he said that the art which adds to Nature +"is an art that Nature makes." Law and religion have buttressed monogamy; +it is not based on them but on the needs and customs of mankind, and these +constitute its completely adequate sanctions.[313] Or, as Cope put it, +marriage is not the creation of law but the law is its creation.[314] +Crawley, again, throughout his study of primitive sex relationships, +emphasizes the fact that our formal marriage system is not, as so many +religious and moral writers once supposed, a forcible repression of +natural impulses, but merely the rigid crystallization of those natural +impulses, which in a more fluid form have been in human nature from the +first. Our conventional forms, we must believe, have not introduced any +elements of value, while in some respects they have been mischievous. + + It is necessary to bear in mind that the conclusion that + monogamic marriage is natural, and represents an order which is + in harmony with the instincts of the majority of people, by no + means involves agreement with the details of any particular legal + system of monogamy. Monogamic marriage is a natural biological + fact, alike in many animals and in man. But no system of legal + regulation is a natural biological fact. When a highly esteemed + alienist, Dr. Clouston, writes (_The Hygiene of Mind_, p. 245) + "there is only one natural mode of gratifying sexual _nisus_ and + reproductive instinct, that of marriage," the statement requires + considerable exegesis before it can be accepted, or even receive + an intelligible meaning, and if we are to understand by + "marriage" the particular form and implications of the English + marriage law, or even of the somewhat more enlightened Scotch + law, the statement is absolutely false. There is a world of + difference, as J.A. Godfrey remarks (_The Science of Sex_, 1901, + p. 278), between natural monogamous marriage and our legal + system; "the former is the outward expression of the best that + lies in the sexuality of man; the latter is a creation in which + religious and moral superstitions have played a most important + part, not always to the benefit of individual and social health." + + We must, therefore, guard against the tendency to think that + there is anything rigid or formal in the natural order of + monogamy. Some sociologists would even limit the naturalness of + monogamy still further. Thus Tarde ("La Morale Sexuelle," + _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, Jan., 1907), while + accepting as natural under present conditions the tendency for + monogamy, mitigated by more or less clandestine concubinage, to + prevail over all other forms of marriage, considers that this is + not due to any irresistible influence, but merely to the fact + that this kind of marriage is practiced by the majority of + people, including the most civilized. + + With the acceptance of the tendency to monogamy we are not at the + end of sexual morality, but only at the beginning. It is not + monogamy that is the main thing, but the kind of lives that + people lead in monogamy. The mere acceptance of a monogamic rule + carries us but a little way. That is a fact which cannot fail to + impress itself on those who approach the questions of sex from + the psychological side. + +If monogamy is thus firmly based it is unreasonable to fear, or to hope +for, any radical modification in the institution of marriage, regarded, +not under its temporary religious and legal aspects but as an order which +appeared on the earth even earlier than man. Monogamy is the most natural +expression of an impulse which cannot, as a rule, be so adequately +realized in full fruition under conditions involving a less prolonged +period of mutual communion and intimacy. Variations, regarded as +inevitable oscillations around the norm, are also natural, but union in +couples must always be the rule because the numbers of the sexes are +always approximately equal, while the needs of the emotional life, even +apart from the needs of offspring, demand that such unions based on mutual +attraction should be so far as possible permanent. + + It must here again be repeated that it is the reality, and not + the form or the permanence of the marriage union, which is its + essential and valuable part. It is not the legal or religious + formality which sanctifies marriage, it is the reality of the + marriage which sanctifies the form. Fielding has satirized in + Nightingale, Tom Jones's friend, the shallow-brained view of + connubial society which degrades the reality of marriage to exalt + the form. Nightingale has the greatest difficulty in marrying a + girl with whom he has already had sexual relations, although he + is the only man who has had relations with her. To Jones's + arguments he replies: "Common-sense warrants all you say, but yet + you well know that the opinion of the world is so contrary to it, + that were I to marry a whore, though my own, I should be ashamed + of ever showing my face again." It cannot be said that Fielding's + satire is even yet out of date. Thus in Prussia, according to + Adele Schreiber ("Heirathsbeschraenkungen," _Die Neue Generation_, + Feb., 1909), it seems to be still practically impossible for a + military officer to marry the mother of his own illegitimate + child. + + The glorification of the form at the expense of the reality of + marriage has even been attempted in poetry by Tennyson in the + least inspired of his works, _The Idylls of the King_. In + "Lancelot and Elaine" and "Guinevere" (as Julia Magruder points + out, _North American Review_, April, 1905) Guinevere is married + to King Arthur, whom she has never seen, when already in love + with Lancelot, so that the "marriage" was merely a ceremony, and + not a real marriage (cf., May Child, "The Weird of Sir Lancelot," + _North American Review_, Dec., 1908). + +It may seem to some that so conservative an estimate of the tendencies of +civilization in matters of sexual love is due to a timid adherence to mere +tradition. That is not the case. We have to recognize that marriage is +firmly held in position by the pressure of two opposing forces. There are +two currents in the stream of our civilization: one that moves towards an +ever greater social order and cohesion, the other that moves towards an +ever greater individual freedom. There is real harmony underlying the +apparent opposition of these two tendencies, and each is indeed the +indispensable complement of the other. There can be no real freedom for +the individual in the things that concern that individual alone unless +there is a coherent order in the things that concern him as a social unit. +Marriage in one of its aspects only concerns the two individuals involved; +in another of its aspects it chiefly concerns society. The two forces +cannot combine to act destructively on marriage, for the one counteracts +the other. They combine to support monogamy, in all essentials, on its +immemorial basis. + +It must be added that in the circumstances of monogamy that are not +essential there always has been, and always must be, perpetual +transformation. All traditional institutions, however firmly founded on +natural impulses, are always growing dead and rigid at some points and +putting forth vitally new growths at other points. It is the effort to +maintain their vitality, and to preserve their elastic adjustment to the +environment, which involves this process of transformation in +non-essentials. + +The only way in which we can fruitfully approach the question of the value +of the transformations now taking place in our marriage-system is by +considering the history of that system in the past. In that way we learn +the real significance of the marriage-system, and we understand what +transformations are, or are not, associated with a fine civilization. When +we are acquainted with the changes of the past we are enabled to face more +confidently the changes of the present. + +The history of the marriage-system of modern civilized peoples begins in +the later days of the Roman Empire at the time when the foundations were +being laid of that Roman law which has exerted so large an influence in +Christendom. Reference has already been made[315] to the significant fact +that in late Rome women had acquired a position of nearly complete +independence in relation to their husbands, while the patriarchal +authority still exerted over them by their fathers had become, for the +most part, almost nominal. This high status of women was associated, as it +naturally tends to be, with a high degree of freedom in the marriage +system. Roman law had no power of intervening in the formation of +marriages and there were no legal forms of marriage. The Romans recognized +that marriage is a fact and not a mere legal form; in marriage by _usus_ +there was no ceremony at all; it was constituted by the mere fact of +living together for a whole year; yet such marriage was regarded as just +as legal and complete as if it had been inaugurated by the sacred rite of +_confarreatio_. Marriage was a matter of simple private agreement in which +the man and the woman approached each other on a footing of equality. The +wife retained full control of her own property; the barbarity of admitting +an action for restitution of conjugal rights was impossible, divorce was a +private transaction to which the wife was as fully entitled as the +husband, and it required no inquisitorial intervention of magistrate or +court; Augustus ordained, indeed, that a public declaration was necessary, +but the divorce itself was a private legal act of the two persons +concerned.[316] It is interesting to note this enlightened conception of +marriage prevailing in the greatest and most masterful Empire which has +ever dominated the world, at the period not indeed of its greatest +force,--for the maximum of force and the maximum of expansion, the bud and +the full flower, are necessarily incompatible,--but at the period of its +fullest development. In the chaos that followed the dissolution of the +Empire Roman law remained as a precious legacy to the new developing +nations, but its influence was inextricably mingled with that of +Christianity, which, though not at the first anxious to set up marriage +laws of its own, gradually revealed a growing ascetic feeling hostile +alike to the dignity of the married woman and the freedom of marriage and +divorce.[317] With that influence was combined the influence, introduced +through the Bible, of the barbaric Jewish marriage-system conferring on +the husband rights in marriage and divorce which were totally denied to +the wife; this was an influence which gained still greater force at the +Reformation when the authority once accorded to the Church was largely +transformed to the Bible. Finally, there was in a great part of Europe, +including the most energetic and expansive parts, the influence of the +Germans, an influence still more primitive than that of the Jews, +involving the conception of the wife as almost her husband's chattel, and +marriage as a purchase. All these influences clashed and often appeared +side by side, though they could not be harmonized. The result was that the +fifteen hundred years that followed the complete conquest of Christianity +represent on the whole the most degraded condition to which the marriage +system has ever been known to fall for so long a period during the whole +course of human history. + +At first indeed the beneficent influence of Rome continued in some degree +to prevail and even exhibited new developments. In the time of the +Christian Emperors freedom of divorce by mutual consent was alternately +maintained, and abolished.[318] We even find the wise and far-seeing +provision of the law enacting that a contract of the two parties never to +separate could have no legal validity. Justinian's prohibition of divorce +by consent led to much domestic unhappiness, and even crime, which appears +to be the reason why it was immediately abrogated by his successor, +Theodosius, still maintaining the late Roman tradition of the moral +equality of the sexes, allowed the wife equally with the husband to obtain +a divorce for adultery; that is a point we have not yet attained in +England to-day. + +It seems to be admitted on all sides that it was largely the fatal +influence of the irruption of the barbarous Germans which degraded, when +it failed to sweep away, the noble conception of the equality of women +with men, and the dignity and freedom of marriage, slowly moulded by the +organizing genius of the Roman into a great tradition which still retains +a supreme value. The influence of Christianity had at the first no +degrading influence of this kind; for the ascetic ideal was not yet +predominant, priests married as a matter of course, and there was no +difficulty in accepting the marriage order established in the secular +world; it was even possible to add to it a new vitality and freedom. But +the Germans, with all the primitively acquisitive and combative instincts +of untamed savages, went far beyond even the early Romans in the +subjection of their wives; they allowed indeed to their unmarried girls a +large measure of indulgence and even sexual freedom,--just as the +Christians also reverenced their virgins,[319]--but the German marriage +system placed the wife, as compared to the wife of the Roman Empire, in a +condition little better than that of a domestic slave. In one form or +another, under one disguise or another, the system of wife-purchase +prevailed among the Germans, and, whenever that system is influential, +even when the wife is honored her privileges are diminished.[320] Among +the Teutonic peoples generally, as among the early English, marriage was +indeed a private transaction but it took the form of a sale of the bride +by the father, or other legal guardian, to the bridegroom. The _beweddung_ +was a real contract of sale.[321] "Sale-marriage" was the most usual form +of marriage. The ring, indeed, probably was not in origin, as some have +supposed, a mark of servitude, but rather a form of bride-price, or +_arrha_, that is to say, earnest money on the contract of marriage and so +the symbol of it.[322] At first a sign of the bride's purchase, it was not +till later that the ring acquired the significance of subjection to the +bridegroom, and that significance, later in the Middle Ages, was further +emphasized by other ceremonies. Thus in England the York and Sarum manuals +in some of their forms direct the bride, after the delivery of the ring, +to fall at her husband's feet, and sometimes to kiss his right foot. In +Russia, also, the bride kissed her husband's feet. At a later period, in +France, this custom was attenuated, and it became customary for the bride +to let the ring fall in front of the altar and then stoop at her husband's +feet to pick it up.[323] Feudalism carried on, and by its military +character exaggerated, these Teutonic influences. A fief was land held on +condition of military service, and the nature of its influence on marriage +is implied in that fact. The woman was given with the fief and her own +will counted for nothing.[324] + +The Christian Church in the beginning accepted the forms of marriage +already existing in those countries in which it found itself, the Roman +forms in the lands of Latin tradition and the German forms in Teutonic +lands. It merely demanded (as it also demanded for other civil contracts, +such as an ordinary sale) that they should be hallowed by priestly +benediction. But the marriage was recognized by the Church even in the +absence of such benediction. There was no special religious marriage +service, either in the East or the West, earlier than the sixth century. +It was simply the custom for the married couple, after the secular +ceremonies were completed, to attend the church, listen to the ordinary +service and take the sacrament. A special marriage service was developed +slowly, and it was no part of the real marriage. During the tenth century +(at all events in Italy and France) it was beginning to become customary +to celebrate the first part of the real nuptials, still a purely temporal +act, outside the church door. Soon this was followed by the regular +bride-mass, directly applicable to the occasion, inside the church. By the +twelfth century the priest directed the ceremony, now involving an +imposing ritual, which began outside the church and ended with the bridal +mass inside. By the thirteenth century, the priest, superseding the +guardians of the young couple, himself officiated through the whole +ceremony. Up to that time marriage had been a purely private business +transaction. Thus, after more than a millennium of Christianity, not by +law but by the slow growth of custom, ecclesiastical marriage was +established.[325] + +It was undoubtedly an event of very great importance not merely for the +Church but for the whole history of European marriage even down to to-day. +The whole of our public method of celebrating marriage to-day is based on +that of the Catholic Church as established in the twelfth century and +formulated in the Canon law. Even the publication of banns has its origin +here, and the fact that in our modern civil marriage the public ceremony +takes place in an office and not in a Church may disguise but cannot +alter the fact that it is the direct and unquestionable descendant of the +public ecclesiastical ceremony which embodied the slow and subtle +triumph--so slow and subtle that its history is difficult to trace--of +Christian priests over the private affairs of men and women. Before they +set themselves to this task marriage everywhere was the private business +of the persons concerned; when they had completed their task,--and it was +not absolutely complete until the Council of Trent,--a private marriage +had become a sin and almost a crime.[326] + +It may seem a matter for surprise that the Church which, as we know, had +shown an ever greater tendency to reverence virginity and to cast +contumely on the sexual relationship, should yet, parallel with that +movement and with the growing influence of asceticism, have shown so great +an anxiety to capture marriage and to confer on it a public, dignified, +and religious character. There was, however, no contradiction. The factors +that were constituting European marriage, taken as a whole, were indeed of +very diverse characters and often involved unreconciled contradictions. +But so far as the central efforts of the ecclesiastical legislators were +concerned, there was a definite and intelligible point of view. The very +depreciation of the sexual instinct involved the necessity, since the +instinct could not be uprooted, of constituting for it a legitimate +channel, so that ecclesiastical matrimony was, it has been said, +"analogous to a license to sell intoxicating liquors."[327] Moreover, +matrimony exhibited the power of the Church to confer on the license a +dignity and distinction which would clearly separate it from the general +stream of lust. Sexual enjoyment is impure, the faithful cannot partake of +it until it has been purified by the ministrations of the Church. The +solemnization of marriage was the necessary result of the sanctification +of virginity. It became necessary to sanctify marriage also, and hence +was developed the indissoluble sacrament of matrimony. The conception of +marriage as a religious sacrament, a conception of far-reaching influence, +is the great contribution of the Catholic Church to the history of +marriage. + + It is important to remember that, while Christianity brought the + idea of marriage as a sacrament into the main stream of the + institutional history of Europe, that idea was merely developed, + not invented, by the Church. It is an ancient and even primitive + idea. The Jews believed that marriage is a magico-religious bond, + having in it something mystical resembling a sacrament, and that + idea, says Durkheim (_L'Annee Sociologique_, eighth year, 1905, + p. 419), is perhaps very archaic, and hangs on to the generally + magic character of sex relations. "The mere act of union," + Crawley remarks (_The Mystic Rose_, p. 318) concerning savages, + "is potentially a marriage ceremony of the sacramental kind.... + One may even credit the earliest animistic men with some such + vague conception before any ceremony became crystallized." The + essence of a marriage ceremony, the same writer continues, "is + the 'joining together' of a man and a woman; in the words of our + English service, 'for this cause shall a man leave his father and + mother and shall be joined unto his wife; and they two shall be + one flesh.' At the other side of the world, amongst the Orang + Benuas, these words are pronounced by an elder, when a marriage + is solemnized: 'Listen all ye that are present; those that were + distant are now brought together; those that were separated are + now united.' Marriage ceremonies in all stages of culture may be + called religious with as much propriety as any ceremony whatever. + Those who were separated are now joined together, those who were + mutually taboo now break the taboo." Thus marriage ceremonies + prevent sin and neutralize danger. + + The Catholic conception of marriage was, it is clear, in + essentials precisely the primitive conception. Christianity drew + the sacramental idea from the archaic traditions in popular + consciousness, and its own ecclesiastical contribution lay in + slowly giving that idea a formal and rigid shape, and in + declaring it indissoluble. As among savages, it was in the act of + consent that the essence of the sacrament lay; the intervention + of the priest was not, in principle, necessary to give marriage + its religiously binding character. The essence of the sacrament + was mutual acceptance of each other by the man and the woman, as + husband and wife, and technically the priest who presided at the + ceremony was simply a witness of the sacrament. The essential + fact being thus the mental act of consent, the sacrament of + matrimony had the peculiar character of being without any outward + and visible sign. Perhaps it was this fact, instinctively felt + as a weakness, which led to the immense emphasis on the + indissolubility of the sacrament of matrimony, already + established by St. Augustine. The Canonists brought forward + various arguments to account for that indissolubility, and a + frequent argument has always been the Scriptural application of + the term "one flesh" to married couples; but the favorite + argument of the Canonists was that matrimony represents the union + of Christ with the Church; that is indissoluble, and therefore + its image must be indissoluble (Esmein, op. cit., vol. i, p. 64). + In part, also, one may well believe, the idea of the + indissolubility of marriage suggested itself to the + ecclesiastical mind by a natural association of ideas: the vow of + virginity in monasticism was indissoluble; ought not the vow of + sexual relationship in matrimony to be similarly indissoluble? It + appears that it was not until 1164, in Peter Lombard's + _Sentences_, that clear and formal recognition is found of + matrimony as one of the seven sacraments (Howard, op. cit., vol. + i, p. 333). + +The Church, however, had not only made marriage a religious act; it had +also made it a public act. The officiating priest, who had now become the +arbiter of marriage, was bound by all the injunctions and prohibitions of +the Church, and he could not allow himself to bend to the inclinations and +interests of individual couples or their guardians. It was inevitable that +in this matter, as in other similar matters, a code of ecclesiastical +regulations should be gradually developed for his guidance. This need of +the Church, due to its growing control of the world's affairs, was the +origin of Canon law. With the development of Canon law the whole field of +the regulation of the sexual relationships, and the control of its +aberrations, became an exclusively ecclesiastical matter. The secular law +could take no more direct cognizance of adultery than of fornication or +masturbation; bigamy, incest, and sodomy were not temporal crimes; the +Church was supreme in the whole sphere of sex. + +It was during the twelfth century that Canon law developed, and Gratian +was the master mind who first moulded it. He belonged to the Bolognese +school of jurisprudence which had inherited the sane traditions of Roman +law. The Canons which Gratian compiled were, however, no more the mere +result of legal traditions than they were the outcome of cloistered +theological speculation. They were the result of a response to the +practical needs of the day before those needs had had time to form a +foundation for fine-spun subtleties. At a somewhat later period, before +the close of the century, the Italian jurists were vanquished by the +Gallic theologians of Paris as represented by Peter Lombard. The result +was the introduction of mischievous complexities which went far to rob +Canon law alike of its certainty and its adaptation to human necessities. + +Notwithstanding, however, all the parasitic accretions which swiftly began +to form around the Canon law and to entangle its practical activity, that +legislation embodied--predominantly at the outset and more obscurely +throughout its whole period of vital activity--a sound core of real value. +The Canon law recognized at the outset that the essential fact of marriage +is the actual sexual union, accomplished with the intention of +inaugurating a permanent relationship. The _copula carnalis_, the making +of two "one flesh," according to the Scriptural phrase, a mystic symbol of +the union of the Church to Christ, was the essence of marriage, and the +mutual consent of the couple alone sufficed to constitute marriage, even +without any religious benediction, or without any ceremony at all. The +formless and unblessed union was still a real and binding marriage if the +two parties had willed it so to be.[328] + + Whatever hard things may be said about the Canon law, it must + never be forgotten that it carried through the Middle Ages until + the middle of the sixteenth century the great truth that the + essence of marriage lies not in rites and forms, but in the + mutual consent of the two persons who marry each other. When the + Catholic Church, in its growing rigidity, lost that conception, + it was taken up by the Protestants and Puritans in their first + stage of ardent vital activity, though it was more or less + dropped as they fell back into a state of subservience to forms. + It continued to be maintained by moralists and poets. Thus George + Chapman, the dramatist, who was both moralist and poet, in _The + Gentleman Usher_ (1606), represents the riteless marriage of his + hero and heroine, which the latter thus introduces:-- + + "May not we now + Our contract make and marry before Heaven? + Are not the laws of God and Nature more + Than formal laws of men? Are outward rites + More virtuous than the very substance is + Of holy nuptials solemnized within? + .... The eternal acts of our pure souls + Knit us with God, the soul of all the world, + He shall be priest to us; and with such rites + As we can here devise we will express + And strongly ratify our hearts' true vows, + Which no external violence shall dissolve." + + And to-day, Ellen Key, the distinguished prophet of marriage + reform, declares at the end of her _Liebe und Ehe_ that the true + marriage law contains only the paragraph: "They who love each + other are husband and wife." + +The establishment of marriage on this sound and naturalistic basis had the +further excellent result that it placed the man and the woman, who could +thus constitute marriage by their consent in entire disregard of the +wishes of their parents or families, on the same moral level. Here the +Church was following alike the later Romans and the early Christians like +Lactantius and Jerome who had declared that what was licit for a man was +licit for a woman. The Penitentials also attempted to set up this same +moral law for both sexes. The Canonists finally allowed a certain +supremacy to the husband, though, on the other hand, they sometimes seemed +to assign even the chief part in marriage to the wife, and the attempt was +made to derive the word _matrimonium_ from _matris munium_, thereby +declaring the maternal function to be the essential fact of marriage.[329] + +The sound elements in the Canon law conception of marriage were, however, +from a very early period largely if not altogether neutralized by the +verbal subtleties by which they were overlaid, and even by its own +fundamental original defects. Even in the thirteenth century it began to +be possible to attach a superior force to marriage verbally formed _per +verba de praesenti_ than to one constituted by sexual union, while so many +impediments to marriage were set up that it became difficult to know what +marriages were valid, an important point since a marriage even innocently +contracted within the prohibited degrees was only a putative marriage. The +most serious and the most profoundly unnatural feature of this +ecclesiastical conception of marriage was the flagrant contradiction +between the extreme facility with which the gate of marriage was flung +open to the young couple, even if they were little more than children, and +the extreme rigor with which it was locked and bolted when they were +inside. That is still the defect of the marriage system we have inherited +from the Church, but in the hands of the Canonists it was emphasized both +on the side of its facility for entrance and of its difficulty for +exit.[330] Alike from the standpoint of reason and of humanity the gate +that is easy of ingress must be easy of egress; or if the exit is +necessarily difficult then extreme care must be taken in admission. But +neither of these necessary precautions was possible to the Canonists. +Matrimony was a sacrament and all must be welcome to a sacrament, the more +so since otherwise they may be thrust into the mortal sin of fornication. +On the other side, since matrimony was a sacrament, when once truly +formed, beyond the permissible power of verbal quibbles to invalidate, it +could never be abrogated. The very institution that, in the view of the +Church, had been set up as a bulwark against license became itself an +instrument for artificially creating license. So that the net result of +the Canon law in the long run was the production of a state of things +which--in the eyes of a large part of Christendom--more than neutralized +the soundness of its original conception.[331] + + In England, where from the ninth century, marriage was generally + accepted by the ecclesiastical and temporal powers as + indissoluble, Canon law was, in the main, established as in the + rest of Christendom. There were, however, certain points in which + Canon law was not accepted by the law of England. By English law + a ceremony before a priest was necessary to the validity of a + marriage, though in Scotland the Canon law doctrine was accepted + that simple consent of the parties, even exchanged secretly, + sufficed to constitute marriage. Again, the issue of a void + marriage contracted in innocence, and the issue of persons who + subsequently marry each other, are legitimate by Canon law, but + not by the common law of England (Geary, _Marriage and Family + Relations_, p. 3; Pollock and Maitland, loc. cit.). The Canonists + regarded the disabilities attaching to bastardy as a punishment + inflicted on the offending parents, and considered, therefore, + that no burden should fall on the children when there had been a + ceremony in good faith on the part of one at least of the + parents. In this respect the English law is less reasonable and + humane. It was at the Council of Merton, in 1236, that the barons + of England rejected the proposal to make the laws of England + harmonize with the Canon law, that is, with the ecclesiastical + law of Christendom generally, in allowing children born before + wedlock to be legitimated by subsequent marriage. Grosseteste + poured forth his eloquence and his arguments in favor of the + change, but in vain, and the law of England has ever since stood + alone in this respect (Freeman, "Merton Priory," _English Towns + and Districts_). The proposal was rejected in the famous formula, + "Nolumus leges Angliae mutare," a formula which merely stood for + an unreasonable and inhumane obstinacy. + + In the United States, while by common law subsequent marriage + fails to legitimate children born before marriage, in many of the + States the subsequent marriage of the parents effects by statute + the legitimacy of the child, sometimes (as in Maine) + automatically, more usually (as in Massachusetts) through special + acknowledgment by the father. + +The appearance of Luther and the Reformation involved the decay of the +Canon law system so far as Europe as a whole was concerned. It was for +many reasons impossible for the Protestant reformers to retain formally +either the Catholic conception of matrimony or the precariously elaborate +legal structure which the Church had built up on that conception. It can +scarcely be said, indeed, that the Protestant attitude towards the +Catholic idea of matrimony was altogether a clear, logical, or consistent +attitude. It was a revolt, an emotional impulse, rather than a matter of +reasoned principle. In its inevitable necessity, under the circumstances +of the rise of Protestantism, lies its justification, and, on the whole, +its wholesome soundness. It took the form, which may seem strange in a +religious movement, of proclaiming that marriage is not a religious but a +secular matter. Marriage is, said Luther, "a worldly thing," and Calvin +put it on the same level as house-building, farming, or shoe-making. But +while this secularization of marriage represents the general and final +drift of Protestantism, the leaders of Protestantism were themselves not +altogether confident and clear-sighted in the matter. Even Luther was a +little confused on this point; sometimes he seems to call marriage "a +sacrament," sometimes "a temporal business," to be left to the state.[332] +It was the latter view which tended to prevail. But at first there was a +period of confusion, if not of chaos, in the minds of the Reformers; not +only were they not always convinced in their own minds; they were at +variance with each other, especially on the very practical question of +divorce. Luther on the whole belonged to the more rigid party, including +Calvin and Beza, which would grant divorce only for adultery and malicious +desertion; some, including many of the early English Protestants, were in +favor of allowing the husband to divorce for adultery but not the wife. +Another party, including Zwingli, were influenced by Erasmus in a more +liberal direction, and--moving towards the standpoint of Roman Imperial +legislation--admitted various causes of divorce. Some, like Bucer, +anticipating Milton, would even allow divorce when the husband was unable +to love his wife. At the beginning some of the Reformers adopted the +principle of self-divorce, as it prevailed among the Jews and was accepted +by some early Church Councils. In this way Luther held that the cause for +the divorce itself effected the divorce without any judicial decree, +though a magisterial permission was needed for remarriage. This question +of remarriage, and the treatment of the adulterer, were also matters of +dispute. The remarriage of the innocent party was generally accepted; in +England it began in the middle of the sixteenth century, was pronounced +valid by the Archbishop of Canterbury, and confirmed by Parliament. Many +Reformers were opposed, however, to the remarriage of the adulterous +party. Beust, Beza, and Melancthon would have him hanged and so settle the +question of remarriage; Luther and Calvin would like to kill him, but +since the civil rulers were slack in adopting that measure they allowed +him to remarry, if possible in some other part of the country.[333] + +The final outcome was that Protestantism framed a conception of marriage +mainly on the legal and economic factor--a factor not ignored but strictly +subordinated by the Canonists--and regarded it as essentially a contract. +In so doing they were on the negative side effecting a real progress, for +they broke the power of an antiquated and artificial system, but on the +positive side they were merely returning to a conception which prevails in +barbarous societies, and is most pronounced when marriage is most +assimilable to purchase. The steps taken by Protestantism involved a +considerable change in the nature of marriage, but not necessarily any +great changes in its form. Marriage was no longer a sacrament, but it was +still a public and not a private function and was still, however +inconsistently, solemnized in Church. And as Protestantism had no rival +code to set up, both in Germany and England it fell back on the general +principles of Canon law, modifying them to suit its own special attitude +and needs.[334] It was the later Puritanic movement, first in the +Netherlands (1580), then in England (1653), and afterwards in New England, +which introduced a serious and coherent conception of Protestant marriage, +and began to establish it on a civil base. + + The English Reformers under Edward VI and his enlightened + advisers, including Archbishop Cranmer, took liberal views of + marriage, and were prepared to carry through many admirable + reforms. The early death of that King exerted a profound + influence on the legal history of English marriage. The Catholic + reaction under Queen Mary killed off the more radical Reformers, + while the subsequent accession of Queen Elizabeth, whose attitude + towards marriage was grudging, illiberal, and old-fashioned, + approximating to that of her father, Henry VIII (as witnessed, + for instance, in her decided opposition to the marriage of the + clergy), permanently affected English marriage law. It became + less liberal than that of other Protestant countries, and closer + to that of Catholic countries. + + The reform of marriage attempted by the Puritans began in England + in 1644, when an Act was passed asserting "marriage to be no + sacrament, nor peculiar to the Church of God, but common to + mankind and of public interest to every Commonwealth." The Act + added, notwithstanding, that it was expedient marriage should be + solemnized by "a lawful minister of the Word." The more radical + Act of 1653 swept away this provision, and made marriage purely + secular. The banns were to be published (by registrars specially + appointed) in the Church, or (if the parties desired) the + market-place. The marriage was to be performed by a Justice of + the Peace; the age of consent to marriage for a man was made + sixteen, for a woman fourteen (Scobell's _Acts and Ordinances_, + pp. 86, 236). The Restoration abolished this sensible Act, and + reintroduced Canon-law traditions, but the Puritan conception of + marriage was carried over to America, where it took root and + flourished. + +It was out of Puritanism, moreover, as represented by Milton, that the +first genuinely modern though as yet still imperfect conception of the +marriage relationship was destined to emerge. The early Reformers in this +matter acted mainly from an obscure instinct of natural revolt in an +environment of plebeian materialism. The Puritans were moved by their +feeling for simplicity and civil order as the conditions for religious +freedom. Milton, in his _Doctrine and Discipline of Divorce_, published in +1643, when he was thirty-five years of age, proclaimed the supremacy of +the substance of marriage over the form of it, and the spiritual autonomy +of the individual in the regulation of that form. He had grasped the +meaning of that conception of personal responsibility which is the +foundation of sexual relationships as they are beginning to appear to men +to-day. If Milton had left behind him only his writings on marriage and +divorce they would have sufficed to stamp him with the seal of genius. +Christendom had to wait a century and a half before another man of genius +of the first rank, Wilhelm von Humboldt, spoke out with equal authority +and clearness in favor of free marriage and free divorce. + + It is to the honor of Milton, and one of his chief claims on our + gratitude, that he is the first great protagonist in Christendom + of the doctrine that marriage is a private matter, and that, + therefore, it should be freely dissoluble by mutual consent, or + even at the desire of one of the parties. We owe to him, says + Howard, "the boldest defence of the liberty of divorce which had + yet appeared. If taken in the abstract, and applied to both sexes + alike, it is perhaps the strongest defence which can be made + through an appeal to mere authority;" though his arguments, being + based on reason and experience, are often ill sustained by his + authority; he is really speaking the language of the modern + social reformer, and Milton's writings on this subject are now + sometimes ranked in importance above all his other work (Masson, + _Life of Milton_, vol. iii; Howard, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 86, + vol. iii, p. 251; C.B. Wheeler, "Milton's Doctrine and Discipline + of Divorce," _Nineteenth Century_, Jan., 1907). + + Marriage, said Milton, "is not a mere carnal coition, but a human + society; where that cannot be had there can be no true marriage" + (_Doctrine of Divorce_, Bk. i, Ch. XIII); it is "a covenant, the + very being whereof consists not in a forced cohabitation, and + counterfeit performance of duties, but in unfeigned love and + peace" (Ib., Ch. VI). Any marriage that is less than this is "an + idol, nothing in the world." The weak point in Milton's + presentation of the matter is that he never explicitly accords to + the wife the same power of initiative in marriage and divorce as + to the husband. There is, however, nothing in his argument to + prevent its equal application to the wife, an application which, + while never asserting he never denies; and it has been pointed + out that he assumes that women are the equals of men and demands + from them intellectual and spiritual companionship; however ready + Milton may have been to grant complete equality of divorce to the + wife, it would have been impossible for a seventeenth century + Puritan to have obtained any hearing for such a doctrine; his + arguments would have been received with, if that were possible, + even more neglect than they actually met. (Milton's scornful + sonnet concerning the reception of his book is well known.) + + Milton insists that in the conventional Christian marriage + exclusive importance is attached to carnal connection. So long as + that connection is possible, no matter what antipathy may exist + between the couple, no matter how mistaken they may have been + "through any error, concealment, or misadventure," no matter if + it is impossible for them to "live in any union or contentment + all their days," yet the marriage still holds good, the two must + "fadge together" (op. cit., Bk. i). It is the Canon law, he says, + which is at fault, "doubtless by the policy of the devil," for + the Canon law leads to licentiousness (op. cit.). It is, he + argues, the absence of reasonable liberty which causes license, + and it is the men who desire to retain the privileges of license + who oppose the introduction of reasonable liberty. + + The just ground for divorce is "indisposition, unfitness, or + contrariety of mind, arising from a cause in nature unchangeable, + hindering, and ever likely to hinder, the main benefits of + conjugal society, which are solace and peace." Without the "deep + and serious verity" of mutual love, wedlock is "nothing but the + empty husks of a mere outside matrimony," a mere hypocrisy, and + must be dissolved (op. cit.). + + Milton goes beyond the usual Puritan standpoint, and not only + rejects courts and magistrates, but approves of self-divorce; for + divorce cannot rightly belong to any civil or earthly power, + since "ofttimes the causes of seeking divorce reside so deeply in + the radical and innocent affections of nature, as is not within + the diocese of law to tamper with." He adds that, for the + prevention of injustice, special points may be referred to the + magistrate, who should not, however, in any case, be able to + forbid divorce (op. cit., Bk. ii, Ch. XXI). Speaking from a + standpoint which we have not even yet attained, he protests + against the absurdity of "authorizing a judicial court to toss + about and divulge the unaccountable and secret reason of + disaffection between man and wife." + + In modern times Hinton was accustomed to compare the marriage law + to the law of the Sabbath as broken by Jesus. We find exactly the + same comparison in Milton. The Sabbath, he believes, was made for + God. "Yet when the good of man comes into the scales, we have + that voice of infinite goodness and benignity, that 'Sabbath was + made for man and not man for Sabbath.' What thing ever was made + more for man alone, and less for God, than marriage?" (_op. + cit._, Bk. i, Ch. XI). "If man be lord of the Sabbath, can he be + less than lord of marriage?" + +Milton, in this matter as in others, stood outside the currents of his +age. His conception of marriage made no more impression on contemporary +life than his _Paradise Lost_. Even his own Puritan party who had passed +the Act of 1653 had strangely failed to transfer divorce and nullity cases +to the temporal courts, which would at least have been a step on the right +road. The Puritan influence was transferred to America and constituted the +leaven which still works in producing the liberal though too minutely +detailed divorce laws of many States. The American secular marriage +procedure followed that set up by the English Commonwealth, and the dictum +of the great Quaker, George Fox, "We marry none, but are witnesses of +it,"[335] (which was really the sound kernel in the Canon law) is regarded +as the spirit of the marriage law of the conservative but liberal State of +Pennsylvania, where, as recently as 1885, a statute was passed expressly +authorizing a man and woman to solemnize their own marriage.[336] + +In England itself the reforms in marriage law effected by the Puritans +were at the Restoration largely submerged. For two and a half centuries +longer the English spiritual courts administered what was substantially +the old Canon law. Divorce had, indeed, become more difficult than before +the Reformation, and the married woman's lot was in consequence harder. +From the sixteenth century to the second half of the nineteenth, English +marriage law was peculiarly harsh and rigid, much less liberal than that +of any other Protestant country. Divorce was unknown to the ordinary +English law, and a special act of Parliament, at enormous expense, was +necessary to procure it in individual cases.[337] There was even an +attitude of self-righteousness in the maintenance of this system. It was +regarded as moral. There was complete failure to realize that nothing is +more immoral than the existence of unreal sexual unions, not only from +the point of view of theoretical but also of practical morality, for no +community could tolerate a majority of such unions.[338] In 1857 an act +for reforming the system was at last passed with great difficulty. It was +a somewhat incoherent and make-shift measure, and was avowedly put forward +only as a step towards further reform; but it still substantially governs +English procedure, and in the eyes of many has set a permanent standard of +morality. The spirit of blind conservatism,--_Nolumus leges Angliae +mutare_,--which in this sphere had reasserted itself after the vital +movement of Reform and Puritanism, still persists. In questions of +marriage and divorce English legislation and English public feeling are +behind alike both the Latin land of France and the Puritanically moulded +land of the United States. + + The author of an able and temperate essay on _The Question of + English Divorce_, summing up the characteristics of the English + divorce law, concludes that it is: (1) unequal, (2) immoral, (3) + contradictory, (4) illogical, (5) uncertain, and (6) unsuited to + present requirements. It was only grudgingly introduced in a + bill, presented to Parliament in 1857, which was stubbornly + resisted during a whole session, not only on religious grounds by + the opponents of divorce, but also by the friends of divorce, who + desired a more liberal measure. It dealt with the sexes + unequally, granting the husband but not the wife divorce for + adultery alone. In introducing the bill the Attorney-General + apologized for this defect, stating that the measure was not + intended to be final, but merely as a step towards further + legislation. That was more than half a century ago, but the + further step has not yet been taken. Incomplete and + unsatisfactory as the measure was, it seems to have been regarded + by many as revolutionary and dangerous in the highest degree. The + author of an article on "Modern Divorce" in the _Universal + Review_ for July, 1859, while approving in principle of the + establishment of a special Divorce Court, yet declared that the + new court was "tending to destroy marriage as a social + institution and to sap female chastity," and that "everyone now + is a husband and wife at will." "No one," he adds, "can now + justly quibble at a deficiency of matrimonial vomitories." + + Yet, according to this law, it is not even possible for a wife to + obtain a divorce for her husband's adultery, unless he is also + cruel or deserts her. At first "cruelty" meant physical cruelty + and of a serious kind. But in course of time the meaning of the + word was extended to pain inflicted on the mind, and now coldness + and neglect may almost of themselves constitute cruelty, though + the English court has sometimes had the greatest hesitation in + accepting the most atrocious forms of refined cruelty, because it + involved no "physical" element. "The time may very reasonably be + looked forward to, however," a legal writer has stated + (Montmorency, "The Changing Status of a Married Woman," _Law + Quarterly Review_, April, 1897), "when almost any act of + misconduct will, in itself, be considered to convey such mental + agony to the innocent party as to constitute the cruelty + requisite under the Act of 1857." (The question of cruelty is + fully discussed in J.R. Bishop's _Commentaries on Marriage, + Divorce and Separation_, 1891, vol. i, Ch. XLIX; cf. Howard, op. + cit., vol. ii, p. 111). + + There can be little doubt, however, that cruelty alone is a + reasonable cause for divorce. In many American States, where the + facilities for divorce are much greater than in England, cruelty + is recognized as itself sufficient cause, whether the wife or the + husband is the complainant. The acts of cruelty alleged have + sometimes been seemingly very trivial. Thus divorces have been + pronounced in America on the ground of the "cruel and inhuman + conduct" of a wife who failed to sew her husband's buttons on, or + because a wife "struck plaintiff a violent blow with her bustle," + or because a husband does not cut his toe-nails, or because + "during our whole married life my husband has never offered to + take me out riding. This has been a source of great mental + suffering and injury." In many other cases, it must be added, the + cruelty inflicted by the husband, even by the wife--for though + usually, it is not always, the husband who is the brute--is of an + atrocious and heart-rending character (_Report on Marriage and + Divorce in the United States_, issued by Hon. Carroll D. Wright, + Commissioner of Labor, 1889). But even in many of the apparently + trivial cases--as of a husband who will not wash, and a wife who + is constantly evincing a hasty temper--it must be admitted that + circumstances which, in the more ordinary relationships of life + may be tolerated, become intolerable in the intimate relationship + of sexual union. As a matter of fact, it has been found by + careful investigation that the American courts weigh well the + cases that come before them, and are not careless in the granting + of decrees of divorce. + + In 1859 an exaggerated importance was attached to the gross + reasons for divorce, to the neglect of subtle but equally fatal + impediments to the continuance of marriage. This was pointed out + by Gladstone, who was opposed to making adultery a cause of + divorce at all. "We have many causes," he said, "more fatal to + the great obligation of marriage, as disease, idiocy, crime + involving punishment for life." Nowadays we are beginning to + recognize not only such causes as these, but others of a far more + intimate character which, as Milton long ago realized, cannot be + embodied in statutes, or pleaded in law courts. The matrimonial + bond is not merely a physical union, and we have to learn that, + as the author of _The Question of English Divorce_ (p. 49) + remarks, "other than physical divergencies are, in fact, by far + the most important of the originating causes of matrimonial + disaster." + + In England and Wales more husbands than wives petition for + divorce, the wives who petition being about 40 per cent, of the + whole. Divorces are increasing, though the number is not large, + in 1907 about 1,300, of whom less than half remarried. The + inadequacy of the divorce law is shown by the fact that during + the same year about 7,000 orders for judicial separation were + issued by magistrates. These separation orders not only do not + give the right to remarry, but they make it impossible to obtain + divorce. They are, in effect, an official permission to form + relationships outside State marriage. + + In the United States during the years 1887-1906 nearly 40 per + cent, of the divorces granted were for "desertion," which is + variously interpreted in different States, and must often mean a + separation by mutual consent. Of the remainder, 19 per cent, were + for unfaithfulness, and the same proportion for cruelty; but + while the divorces granted to husbands for the infidelity of + their wives are nearly three times as great proportionately as + those granted to wives for their husband's adultery, with regard + to cruelty it is the reverse, wives obtaining 27 per cent, of + their divorces on that ground and husbands only 10 per cent. + + In Prussia divorce is increasing. In 1907 there were eight + thousand divorces, the cause in half the cases being adultery, + and in about a thousand cases malicious desertion. In cases of + desertion the husbands were the guilty parties nearly twice as + often as the wives, in cases of adultery only a fifth to an + eighth part. + +There cannot be the slightest doubt that the difficulty, the confusion, +the inconsistency, and the flagrant indecency which surround divorce and +the methods of securing it are due solely and entirely to the subtle +persistence of traditions based, on the one hand, on the Canon law +doctrines of the indissolubility of marriage and the sin of sexual +intercourse outside marriage, and, on the other hand, on the primitive +idea of marriage as a contract which economically subordinates the wife to +the husband and renders her person, or at all events her guardianship, his +property. It is only when we realize how deeply these traditions have +become embedded in the religious, legal, social and sentimental life of +Europe that we can understand how it is that barbaric notions of marriage +and divorce can to-day subsist in a stage of civilization which has, in +many respects, advanced beyond such notions. + +The Canon law conception of the abstract religious sanctity of matrimony, +when transferred to the moral sphere, makes a breach of the marriage +relationship seem a public wrong; the conception of the contractive +subordination of the wife makes such a breach on her part, and even, by +transference of ideas, on his part, seem a private wrong. These two ideas +of wrong incoherently flourish side by side in the vulgar mind, even +to-day. + +The economic subordination of the wife as a species of property +significantly comes into view when we find that a husband can claim, and +often secure, large sums of money from the man who sexually approaches his +property, by such trespass damaging it in its master's eyes.[339] To a +psychologist it would be obvious that a husband who has lacked the skill +so to gain and to hold his wife's love and respect that it is not +perfectly easy and natural to her to reject the advances of any other man +owes at least as much damages to her as she or her partner owes to him; +while if the failure is really on her side, if she is so incapable of +responding to love and trust and so easy a prey to an outsider, then +surely the husband, far from wishing for any money compensation, should +consider himself more than fully compensated by being delivered from the +necessity of supporting such a woman. In the absence of any false +traditions that would be obvious. It might not, indeed, be unreasonable +that a husband should pay heavily in order to free himself from a wife +whom, evidently, he has made a serious mistake in choosing. But to ordain +that a man should actually be indemnified because he has shown himself +incapable of winning a woman's love is an idea that could not occur in a +civilized society that was not twisted by inherited prejudice.[340] Yet as +matters are to-day there are civilized countries in which it is legally +possible for a husband to enter a prayer for damages against his wife's +paramour in combination with either a petition for judicial separation or +for dissolution of wedlock. In this way adultery is not a crime but a +private injury.[341] + +At the same time, however, the influence of Canon law comes inconsistently +to the surface and asserts that a breach of matrimony is a public wrong, a +sin transformed by the State into something almost or quite like a crime. +This is clearly indicated by the fact that in some countries the adulterer +is liable to imprisonment, a liability scarcely nowadays carried into +practice. But exactly the same idea is beautifully illustrated by the +doctrine of "collusion," which, in theory, is still strictly observed in +many countries. According to the doctrine of "collusion" the conditions +necessary to make the divorce possible must on no account be secured by +mutual agreement. In practice it is impossible to prevent more or less +collusion, but if proved in court it constitutes an absolute impediment to +the granting of a divorce, however just and imperative the demand for +divorce may be. + + The English Divorce Act of 1857 refused divorce when there was + collusion, as well as when there was any countercharge against + the petitioner, and the Matrimonial Causes Act of 1860 provided + the machinery for guaranteeing these bars to divorce. This + question of collusion is discussed by G.P. Bishop (op. cit., + vol. ii, Ch. IX). "However just a cause may be," Bishop remarks, + "if parties collude in its management, so that in real fact both + parties are plaintiffs, while by the record the one appears as + plaintiff and the other as defendant, it cannot go forward. All + conduct of this sort, disturbing to the course of justice, falls + within the general idea of fraud on the court. Such is the + doctrine in principle everywhere." + +It is quite evident that from the social or the moral point of view, it is +best that when a husband and wife can no longer live together, they should +part amicably, and in harmonious agreement effect all the arrangements +rendered necessary by their separation. The law ridiculously forbids them +to do so, and declares that they must not part at all unless they are +willing to part as enemies. In order to reach a still lower depth of +absurdity and immorality the law goes on to say that if as a matter of +fact they have succeeded in becoming enemies to each other to such an +extent that each has wrongs to plead against the other party they cannot +be divorced at all![342] That is to say that when a married couple have +reached a degree of separation which makes it imperatively necessary, not +merely in their own interests but in the moral interests of society, that +they should be separated and their relations to other parties concerned +regularized, then they must on no account be separated. + +It is clear how these provisions of the law are totally opposed to the +demands of reason and morality. Yet at the same time it is equally clear +how no efforts of the lawyers, however skilful or humane those efforts may +be, can bring the present law into harmony with the demands of modern +civilization. It is not the lawyers who are at fault; they have done +their best, and, in England, it is entirely owing to the skilful and +cautious way in which the judges have so far as possible pressed the law +into harmony with modern needs, that our antiquated divorce laws have +survived at all. It is the system which is wrong. That system is the +illegitimate outgrowth of the Canon law which grew up around conceptions +long since dead. It involves the placing of the person who imperils the +theoretical indissolubility of the matrimonial bond in the position of a +criminal, now that he can no longer be publicly condemned as a sinner. To +aid and abet that criminal is itself an offence, and the aider and abettor +of the criminal must, therefore, be inconsequently punished by the curious +method of refraining from punishing the criminal. We do not openly assert +that the defendant in a divorce case is a criminal; that would be to +render the absurdity of it too obvious, and, moreover, would be hardly +consistent with the permission to claim damages which is based on a +different idea. We hover uncertainly between two conceptions of divorce, +both of them bad, each inconsistent with the other, and neither of them +capable of being pushed to its logical conclusions. + +The result is that if a perfectly virtuous married couple comes forward to +claim divorce, they are told that it is out of the question, for in such a +case there must be a "defendant." They are to be punished for their +virtue. If each commits adultery and they again come forward to claim +divorce, they are told that it is still out of the question, for there +must be a "plaintiff." Before they were punished for their virtue; now +they are to be punished in exactly the same way for their lack of it. The +couple must humor the law by adopting a course of action which may be +utterly repugnant to both. If only the wife alone will commit adultery, if +only the husband will commit adultery and also inflict some act of cruelty +upon his wife, if the innocent party will descend to the degradation of +employing detectives and hunting up witnesses, the law is at their feet +and hastens to accord to both parties the permission to remarry. Provided, +of course, that the parties have arranged this without "collusion." That +is to say that our law, with its ecclesiastical traditions behind it, +says to the wife: Be a sinner, or to the husband: Be a sinner and a +criminal--then we will do all you wish. The law puts a premium on sin and +on crime. In order to pile absurdity on absurdity it claims that this is +done in the cause of "public morality." To those who accept this point of +view it seems that the sweeping away of divorce laws would undermine the +bases of morality. Yet there can be little doubt that the sooner such +"morality" is undermined, and indeed utterly destroyed, the better it will +be for true morality. + + There is an influential movement in England for the reform of + divorce, on the grounds that the present law is unjust, + illogical, and immoral, represented by the Divorce Law Reform + Union. Even the former president of the Divorce Court, Lord + Gorell, declared from the bench in 1906 that the English law + produces deplorable results, and is "full of inconsistencies, + anomalies and inequalities, amounting almost to absurdities." The + points in the law which have aroused most protest, as being most + behind the law of other nations, are the great expense of + divorce, the inequality of the sexes, the failure to grant + divorces for desertion and in cases of hopeless insanity, and the + failure of separation orders to enable the separated parties to + marry again. Separation orders are granted by magistrates for + cruelty, adultery, and desertion. This "separation" is really the + direct descendant of the Canon law divorce _a mensa et thoro_, + and the inability to marry which it involves is merely a survival + of the Canon law tradition. At the present time + magistrates--exercising their discretion, it is admitted, in a + careful and prudent manner--issue some 7,000 separation orders + annually, so that every year the population is increased by + 14,000 individuals mostly in the age of sexual vigor, and some + little more than children, who are forbidden by law to form legal + marriages. They contribute powerfully to the great forward + movement which, as was shown in the previous chapter, marks the + morality of our age. But it is highly undesirable that free + marriages should be formed, helplessly, by couples who have no + choice in the matter, for it is unlikely that under such + circumstances any high level of personal responsibility can be + reached. The matter could be easily remedied by dropping + altogether a Canon law tradition which no longer has any vitality + or meaning, and giving to the magistrate's separation order the + force of a decree of divorce. + + New Zealand and the Australian colonies, led by Victoria in 1889, + have passed divorce laws which, while more or less framed on the + English model, represent a distinct advance. Thus in New Zealand + the grounds for divorce are adultery on either side, wilful + desertion, habitual drunkenness, and conviction to imprisonment + for a term of years. + +It is natural that an Englishman should feel acutely sensitive to this +blot in the law of England and desire the speedy disappearance of a system +so open to scathing sarcasm. It is natural that every humane person should +grow impatient of the spectacle of so many blighted lives, of so much +misery inflicted on innocent persons--and on persons who even when +technically guilty are often the victims of unnatural circumstances--by +the persistence of a mediaeval system of ecclesiastical tyranny and +inquisitorial insolence into an age when sexual relationships are becoming +regarded as the sacred secret of the persons intimately concerned, and +when more and more we rely on the responsibility of the individual in +making and maintaining such relationships. + +When, however, we refrain from concentrating our attention on particular +countries and embrace the general movement of civilization in the matter +of divorce during recent times, there cannot be the slightest doubt as to +the direction of that movement. England was a pioneer in the movement half +a century ago, and to-day every civilized country is moving in the same +direction. France broke with the old ecclesiastical tradition of the +indissolubility of matrimony in 1885 by a divorce law in some respects +very reasonable. The wife may obtain a divorce on an equality with the +husband (though she is liable to imprisonment for adultery), the +co-respondent occupies a very subordinate position in adultery charges, +and facility is offered for divorce on the ground of simple _injures +graves_ (excluding as far as possible mere incompatibility of temper), +while the judge has the power, which he often successfully exerts, to +effect a reconciliation in private or to grant a decree without public +trial. The influence of France has doubtless been influential in moulding +the divorce laws of the other Latin countries. + +In Prussia an enlightened divorce law formerly prevailed by which it was +possible for a couple to separate without scandal when it was clearly +shown that they could not live together in agreement. But the German Code +of 1900 introduced provisions as regards divorce which--while in some +respects more liberal than those of the English law, especially by +permitting divorce for desertion and insanity--are, on the whole, +retrograde as compared with the earlier Prussian law and place the matter +on a cruder and more brutal basis. For two years after the Code came into +operations the number of divorces sank; after that the public and the +courts adapted themselves to the new provisions (more especially one which +allowed divorce for serious neglect of conjugal duties) and the number of +divorces began to increase with great rapidity. "But," remarks Hirschfeld, +"how painful it has now become to read divorce cases! One side abuses the +other, makes accusations of the grossest character, employs detectives to +obtain the necessary proofs of 'dishonorable and immoral conduct,' +whereas, before, both parties realized that they had been deceived in each +other, that they failed to suit each other, and that they could no longer +live together. Thus we see that the narrowing of individual responsibility +in sexual matters has not only had no practical effect, but leads to +injurious results of a serious kind."[343] In England a similar state of +things has prevailed ever since divorce was established, but it seems to +have become too familiar to excite either pain or disgust. Yet, as Adner +has pointed out,[344] it has moved in a direction contrary to the general +tendency of civilization, not only by increasing the inquisitorial +authority of public courts but by emphasizing merely external causes of +divorce and abolishing the more subtle internal causes which constantly +grow in importance with the refinement of civilization. + +In Austria until recent years, Canon law ruled absolutely, and matrimony +was indissoluble, as it still remains for the Catholic population. The +results as regards matrimonial happiness were in the highest degree +deplorable. Half a century ago Gross-Hoffinger investigated the marital +happiness of 100 Viennese couples of all social classes, without choice of +cases, and presented the results in detail. He found that 48 couples were +positively unhappy, only 16 were undoubtedly happy, and even among these +there was only one case in which happiness resulted from mutual +faithfulness, happiness in the other cases being only attained by setting +aside the question of fidelity.[345] This picture, it is to be hoped, no +longer remains true. There is an influential Austrian Marriage Reform +Association, publishing a journal called _Die Fessel_, or The Fetter. "One +was chained to another," we are told. "In certain circumstances this must +have been the worst and most torturing penalty of all. The most bizarre +and repulsive couplings took place. There were, it is true, many +affectionate companionships of the chain. But there were many more which +inflicted an eternity of suffering upon one of the pair." This quotation, +it must be added, has nothing to do with what the Canonists, borrowing the +technical term for a prisoner's shackles, suggestively termed the +_vinculum matrimonii_; it was written many years ago concerning the +galleys of the old French convict system. It is, however, recalled to +one's mind by the title which the Austrian Marriage Reform Association has +given to its official organ. + +Russia, where the marriage laws are arranged by the Holy Synod aided by +jurists, stands almost alone among the great countries in the reasonable +simplicity of its divorce provisions. Before 1907 divorce was very +difficult to obtain in Russia, but in that year it became possible for a +married couple to separate by mutual consent and after living apart for a +year to become thereby entitled to a divorce enabling them to remarry. +This provision is in accordance with the humane conception of the sexual +relationship which has always tended to prevail in Russia, whither, it +must be remembered, the stern and unnatural ideals of compulsory celibacy +cherished by the Western Church never completely penetrated; the clergy of +the Eastern Church are married, though the marriage must take place before +they enter the priesthood, and they could not sympathize with the +anti-sexual tone of the marriage regulations laid down by the celibate +clergy of the west. + +Switzerland, again, which has been regarded as the political laboratory +of Europe, also stands apart in the liberality of its divorce legislation. +A renewable divorce for two years may be obtained in Switzerland when +there are "circumstances which seriously affect the maintenance of the +conjugal tie." To the Grand Duchy of Luxembourg, finally, belongs the +honor of having firmly maintained throughout the great principle of +divorce by mutual consent under legal conditions, as established by +Napoleon in his Code of 1803. The smaller countries generally are in +advance of the large in matters of divorce law. The Norwegian law is +liberal. The new Roumanian Code permits divorce by mutual consent, +provided both parents grant equal shares of their property to the +children. The little principality of Monaco has recently introduced the +reasonable provision of granting divorce for, among other causes, +alcoholism, syphilis, and epilepsy, so protecting the future race. + +Outside Europe the most instructive example of the tendency of divorce is +undoubtedly furnished by the United States of America. The divorce laws of +the States are mainly on a Puritanic basis, and they retain not only the +Puritanic love of individual freedom but the Puritanic precisianism.[346] +In some States, notably Iowa, the statute-makers have been constantly +engaged in adopting, changing, abrogating and re-enacting the provisions +of their divorce laws, and Howard has shown how much confusion and +awkwardness arise by such perpetual legislative fiddling over small +details. + +This restless precisianism has somewhat disguised the generally broad and +liberal tendency of marriage law in America, and has encouraged foreign +criticism of American social institutions. As a matter of fact the +prevalence of divorce in America is enormously exaggerated. The proportion +of divorced persons in the population appears to be less than one per +cent., and, contrary to a frequent assertion, it is by no means the rule +for divorced persons to remarry immediately. Taking into account the +special conditions of life in the United States the prevalence of divorce +is small and its character by no means reveals a low grade morality. An +impartial and competent critic of the American people, Professor +Muensterberg, remarks that the real ground which mainly leads to divorce in +the United States--not the mere legal pretexts made compulsory by the +precisianism of the law--is the highly ethical objection to continuing +externally in a marriage which has ceased to be spiritually congenial. "It +is the women especially," he says, "and generally the very best women, who +prefer to take the step, with all the hardships which it involves, to +prolonging a marriage which is spiritually hypocritical and immoral."[347] + +The people of the United States, above all others, cherish ideals of +individualism; they are also the people among whom, above all others, +there is the greatest amount of what Reibmayr calls "blood-chaos." Under +such circumstances the difficulties of conjugal life are necessarily at a +maximum, and marriage union is liable to subtle impediments which must +forever elude the statute-book.[348] There can be little doubt that the +practical sagacity of the American people will enable them sooner or later +to recognize this fact, and that finally fulfilling the Puritanic drift of +their divorce legislation--as foreshadowed in its outcome by Milton--they +will agree to trust their own citizens with the responsibility of deciding +so private a matter as their conjugal relationships, with, of course, +authority in the courts to see that no injustice is committed. It is, +indeed, surprising that the American people, usually intolerant of State +interference, should in this matter so long have tolerated such +interference in so private a matter. + +The movement of divorce is not confined to Christendom; it is a mark of +modern civilization. In Japan the proportion of divorces is higher than in +any other country, not excluding the United States.[349] The most vigorous +and progressive countries are those that insist most firmly on the purity +of sexual unions. In the United States it was pointed out many years ago +that divorce is most prevalent where the standard of education and +morality is highest. It was the New England States, with strong Puritanic +traditions of moral freedom, which took the lead in granting facility to +divorce. The divorce movement is not, as some have foolishly supposed, a +movement making for immorality.[350] Immorality is the inevitable +accompaniment of indissoluble marriage; the emphasis on the sanctity of a +merely formal union discourages the growth of moral responsibility as +regards the hypothetically unholy unions which grow up beneath its shadow. +To insist, on the other hand, by establishing facility of divorce, that +sexual unions shall be real, is to work in the cause of morality. The +lands in which divorce by mutual consent has prevailed longest are +probably among the most, and not the least, moral of lands. + +Surprise has been expressed that although divorce by mutual consent +commended itself as an obviously just and reasonable measure two thousand +years ago to the legally-minded Romans that solution has even yet been so +rarely attained by modern states.[351] Wherever society is established on +a solidly organized basis and the claims of reason and humanity receive +due consideration--even when the general level of civilization is not in +every respect high--there we find a tendency to divorce by mutual consent. + + In Japan, according to the new Civil Code, much as in ancient + Rome, marriage is effected by giving notice of the fact to the + registrar in the presence of two witnesses, and with the consent + (in the case of young couples) of the heads of their families. + There may be a ceremony, but it is not demanded by the law. + Divorce is effected in exactly the same way, by simply having the + registration cancelled, provided both husband and wife are over + twenty-five years of age. For younger couples unhappily married, + and for cases in which mutual consent cannot be obtained, + judicial divorce exists. This is granted for various specific + causes, of which the most important is "grave insult, such as to + render living together unbearable" (Ernest W. Clement, "The New + Woman in Japan," _American Journal Sociology_, March, 1903). Such + a system, like so much else achieved by Japanese organization, + seems reasonable, guarded, and effective. + + In the very different and far more ancient marriage system of + China, divorce by mutual consent is equally well-established. + Such divorce by mutual consent takes place for incompatibility of + temperament, or when both husband and wife desire it. There are, + however, various antiquated and peculiar provisions in the + Chinese marriage laws, and divorce is compulsory for the wife's + adultery or serious physical injuries inflicted by either party + on the other. (The marriage laws of China are fully set forth by + Paul d'Enjoy, _La Revue_, Sept. 1, 1905.) + + Among the Eskimo (who, as readers of Nansen's fascinating books + on their morals will know, are in some respects a highly + socialized people) the sexes are absolutely equal, marriages are + perfectly free, and separation is equally free. The result is + that there are no uncongenial unions, and that no unpleasant word + is heard between man and wife (Stefansson, _Harper's Magazine_, + Nov., 1908). + + Among the ancient Welsh, women, both before and after marriage, + enjoyed great freedom, far more than was afforded either by + Christianity or the English Common law. "Practically either + husband or wife could separate when either one or both chose" + (Rhys and Brynmor-Jones, _The Welsh People_, p. 214). It was so + also in ancient Ireland. Women held a very high position, and the + marriage tie was very free, so as to be practically, it would + appear, dissoluble by mutual consent. So far as the Brehon laws + show, says Ginnell (_The Brehon Laws_, p. 212), "the marriage + relation was extremely loose, and divorce was as easy, and could + be obtained on as slight ground, as is now the case in some of + the States of the American Union. It appears to have been + obtained more easily by the wife than by the husband. When + obtained on her petition, she took away with her all the property + she had brought her husband, all her husband had settled upon + her on their marriage, and in addition so much of her husband's + property as her industry appeared to have entitled her to." + + Even in early French history we find that divorce by mutual + consent was very common. It was sufficient to prepare in + duplicate a formal document to this effect: "Since between N. and + his wife there is discord instead of charity according to God, + and that in consequence it is impossible for them to live + together, it has pleased both to separate, and they have + accordingly done so." Each of the parties was thus free either to + retire into a cloister or to contract another union (E. de la + Bedolliere, _Histoire des Moeurs des Francais_, vol. i, p. 317). + Such a practice, however it might accord with the germinal + principle of consent embodied in the Canon law, was far too + opposed to the ecclesiastical doctrine of the sacramental + indissolubility of matrimony to be permanently allowed, and it + was completely crushed out. + +The fact that we so rarely find divorce by mutual consent in Christendom +until the beginning of the nineteenth century, that then it required a man +of stupendous and revolutionary genius like Napoleon to reintroduce it, +and that even he was unable to do so effectually, is clearly due to the +immense victory which the ascetic spirit of Christianity, as firmly +embodied in the Canon law, had gained over the souls and bodies of men. So +subjugated were European traditions and institutions by this spirit that +even the volcanic emotional uprising of the Reformation, as we have seen, +could not shake it off. When Protestant States naturally resumed the +control of secular affairs which had been absorbed by the Church, and +rescued from ecclesiastical hands those things which belonged to the +sphere of the individual conscience, it might have seemed that marriage +and divorce would have been among the first concerns to be thus +transferred. Yet, as we know, England was about as much enslaved to the +spirit and even the letter of Canon law in the nineteenth as in the +fourteenth century, and even to-day English law, though no longer +supported by the feeling of the masses, clings to the same traditions. + +There seems to be little doubt, however, that the modern movement for +divorce must inevitably tend to reach the goal of separation by the will +of both parties, or, under proper conditions and restrictions, by the +will of one party. It now requires the will of two persons to form a +marriage; law insists on that condition.[352] It is logical as well as +just that law should take the next step involved by the historical +evolution of marriage, and equally insist that it requires the will of two +persons to maintain a marriage. This solution is, without doubt, the only +way of deliverance from the crudities, the indecencies, the inextricable +complexities which are introduced into law by the vain attempt to foresee +in detail all the possibilities of conjugal disharmony which may arise +under the conditions of modern civilization. It is, moreover, we may rest +assured, the only solution which the growing modern sense of personal +responsibility in sexual matters traced in the previous chapter--the +responsibility of women as well as of men--will be content to accept. + + The subtle and complex character of the sexual relationships in a + high civilization and the unhappy results of their State + regulation were well expressed by Wilhelm von Humboldt in his + _Ideen zu einen Versuch die Grenzen der Wirksamkeit des Staates + zu bestimmen_, so long ago as 1792. "A union so closely allied + with the very nature of the respective individuals must be + attended with the most hurtful consequences when the State + attempts to regulate it by law, or, through the force of its + institutions, to make it repose on anything save simple + inclination. When we remember, moreover, that the State can only + contemplate the final results of such regulations on the race, we + shall be still more ready to admit the justice of this + conclusion. It may reasonably be argued that a solicitude for the + race only conducts to the same results as the highest solicitude + for the most beautiful development of the inner man. For, after + careful observation, it has been found that the uninterrupted + union of one man with one woman is most beneficial to the race, + and it is likewise undeniable that no other union springs from + true, natural, harmonious love. And further, it may be observed, + that such love leads to the same results as those very relations + which law and custom tend to establish. The radical error seems + to be that the law commands; whereas such a relation cannot mould + itself according to external arrangements, but depends wholly on + inclination; and wherever coercion or guidance comes into + collision with inclination, they divert it still farther from the + proper path. Wherefore it appears to me that the State should not + only loosen the bonds in this instance and leave ampler freedom + to the citizen, but that it should entirely withdraw its active + solicitude from the institution of marriage, and, both generally + and in its particular modifications, should rather leave it + wholly to the free choice of the individuals, and the various + contracts they may enter into with respect to it. I should not be + deterred from the adoption of this principle by the fear that all + family relations might be disturbed, for, although such a fear + might be justified by considerations of particular circumstances + and localities, it could not fairly be entertained in an inquiry + into the nature of men and States in general. For experience + frequently convinces us that just where law has imposed no + fetters, morality most surely binds; the idea of external + coercion is one entirely foreign to an institution which, like + marriage, reposes only on inclination and an inward sense of + duty; and the results of such coercive institutions do not at all + correspond to the intentions in which they originate." + + A long succession of distinguished thinkers--moralists, + sociologists, political reformers--have maintained the social + advantages of divorce by mutual consent, or, under guarded + circumstances, at the wish of one party. Mutual consent was the + corner-stone of Milton's conception of marriage. Montesquieu said + that true divorce must be the result of mutual consent and based + on the impossibility of living together. Senancour seems to agree + with Montesquieu. Lord Morley (_Diderot_, vol. ii, Ch. I), + echoing and approving the conclusions of Diderot's _Supplement au + Voyage de Bougainville_ (1772), adds that the separation of + husband and wife is "a transaction in itself perfectly natural + and blameless, and often not only laudable, but a duty." Bloch + (_Sexual Life of Our Time_, p. 240), with many other writers, + emphasizes the truth of Shelley's saying, that the freedom of + marriage is the guarantee of its durability. (That the facts of + life point in the same direction has been shown in the previous + chapter.) The learned Caspari (_Die Soziale Frage ueber die + Freiheit der Ehe_), while disclaiming any prevision of the + future, declares that if sexual relationships are to remain or to + become moral, there must be an easier dissolution of marriage. + Howard, at the conclusion of his exhaustive history of + matrimonial institutions (vol. iii p. 220), though he himself + believes that marriage is peculiarly in need of regulation by + law, is yet constrained to admit that it is perfectly clear to + the student of history that the modern divorce movement is "but a + part of the mighty movement for social liberation which has been + gaining in volume and strength since the Reformation." Similarly + the cautious and judicial Westermarck concludes the chapter on + marriage of his _Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_ (vol. + ii, p. 398) with the statement that "when both husband and wife + desire to separate, it seems to many enlightened minds that the + State has no right to prevent them from dissolving the marriage + contract, provided the children are properly cared for; and that, + for the children, also, it is better to have the supervision of + one parent only than of two who cannot agree." + + In France the leaders of the movement of social reform seem to be + almost, or quite, unanimous in believing that the next step in + regard to divorce is the establishment of divorce by mutual + consent. This was, for instance, the result reached in a + symposium to which thirty-one distinguished men and women + contributed. All were in favor of divorce by mutual consent; the + only exception was Madame Adam, who said she had reached a state + of skepticism with regard to political and social forms, but + admitted that for nearly half a century she had been a strong + advocate of divorce. A large number of the contributors were in + favor of divorce at the desire of one party only (_La Revue_, + March 1, 1901). In other countries, also, there is a growing + recognition that this solution of the question, with due + precautions to avoid any abuses to which it might otherwise be + liable, is the proper and inevitable solution. + + As to the exact method by which divorce by mutual consent should + be effected, opinions differ, and the matter is likely to be + differently arranged in different countries. The Japanese plan + seems simple and judicious (see _ante_, p. 461). Paul and Victor + Margueritte (_Quelques Idees_, pp. 3 et seq.), while realizing + that the conflict of feeling in the matter of personal + associations involves decisions which are entirely outside the + competence of legal tribunals, recognize that such tribunals are + necessary in order to deal with the property of divorced persons, + and also, in the last resort, with the question of the care of + the children. They should not act in public. These writers + propose that each party should choose a representative, and that + these two should choose a third; and that this tribunal should + privately investigate, and if they agreed should register the + divorce, which should take place six or twelve months later, or + three years later, if only desired by one of the parties. Dr. + Shufeldt ("Psychopathia Sexualis and Divorce") proposes that a + divorce-court judge should conduct, alone, the hearing of any + cases of marital discord, the husband and wife appearing directly + before him, without counsel, though with their witnesses, if + necessary; should medical experts be required the judge alone + would be empowered to call them. + +When we realize that the long delay in the acceptance of so just and +natural a basis of divorce is due to an artificial tension created by the +pressure of the dead hand of Canon law--a tension confined exclusively to +Christendom--we may also realize that with the final disappearance of that +tension the just and natural order in this relationship will spring back +the more swiftly because that relief has been so long delayed. "Nature +abhors a vacuum nowhere more than in a marriage," Ellen Key remarks in the +language of antiquated physical metaphor; the vacuum will somehow be +filled, and if it cannot be filled in a natural and orderly manner it will +be filled in an unnatural and disorderly manner. It is the business of +society to see that no laws stand in the way of the establishment of +natural order. + +Reform upon a reasonable basis has been made difficult by the unfortunate +retention of the idea of delinquency. With the traditions of the Canonists +at the back of our heads we have somehow persuaded ourselves that there +cannot be a divorce unless there is a delinquent, a real serious +delinquent who, if he had his deserts, would be imprisoned and consigned +to infamy. But in the marriage relationship, as in all other +relationships, it is only in a very small number of cases that one party +stands towards the other as a criminal, even a defendant. This is often +obvious in the early stages of conjugal alienation. But it remains true in +the end. The wife commits adultery and the husband as a matter of course +assumes the position of plaintiff. But we do not inquire how it is that he +has not so won her love that her adultery is out of the question; such +inquiry might lead to the conclusion that the real defendant is the +husband. And similarly when the husband is accused of brutal cruelty the +law takes no heed to inquire whether in the infliction of less brutal but +not less poignant wounds, the wife also should not be made defendant. +There are a few cases, but only a few, in which the relationship of +plaintiff and defendant is not a totally false and artificial +relationship, an immoral legal fiction. In most cases, if the truth were +fully known, husband and wife should come side by side to the divorce +court and declare: "We are both in the wrong: we have not been able to +fulfil our engagements to each other; we have erred in choosing each +other." The long reports of the case in open court, the mutual +recriminations, the detectives, the servant girls and other witnesses, the +infamous inquisition into intimate secrets--all these things, which no +necessity could ever justify, are altogether unnecessary. + +It is said by some that if there were no impediments to divorce a man +might be married in succession to half a dozen women. These simple-minded +or ignorant persons do not seem to be aware that even when marriage is +absolutely indissoluble a man can, and frequently does, carry on sexual +relationships not merely successively, but, if he chooses, even +simultaneously, with half a dozen women. There is, however, this important +difference that, in the one case, the man is encouraged by the law to +believe that he need only treat at most one of the six women with anything +approaching to justice and humanity; in the other case the law insists +that he shall fairly and openly fulfil his obligations towards all the six +women. It is a very important difference, and there ought to be no +question as to which state of things is moral and which immoral. It is no +concern of the State to inquire into the number of persons with whom a man +or a woman chooses to have sexual relationships; it is a private matter +which may indeed affect their own finer spiritual development but which it +is impertinent for the State to pry into. It is, however, the concern of +the State, in its own collective interest and that of its members, to see +that no injustice is done. + +But what about the children? That is necessarily a very important +question. The question of the arrangements made for the children in cases +of divorce is always one to which the State must give its regulative +attention, for it is only when there are children that the State has any +real concern in the matter. + +At one time it was even supposed by some that the existence of children +was a serious argument against facility of divorce. A more reasonable view +is now generally taken. It is, in the first place, recognized that a very +large proportion of couples seeking divorce have no children. In England +the proportion is about forty per cent.; in some other countries it is +doubtless larger still. But even when there are children no one who +realizes what the conditions are in families where the parents ought to be +but are not divorced can have any doubt that usually those conditions are +extremely bad for the children. The tension between the parents absorbs +energy which should be devoted to the children. The spectacle of the +grievances or quarrels of their parents is demoralizing for the children, +and usually fatal to any respect towards them. At the best it is +injuriously distressing to the children. One effective parent, there +cannot be the slightest doubt, is far better for a child than two +ineffective parents. There is a further point, often overlooked, for +consideration here. Two people when living together at variance--one of +them perhaps, it is not rarely the case, nervously abnormal or +diseased--are not fitted to become parents, nor in the best condition for +procreation. It is, therefore, not merely an act of justice to the +individual, but a measure called for in the interests of the State, that +new citizens should not be brought into the community through such +defective channels.[353] From this point of view all the interests of the +State are on the side of facility of divorce. + +There is a final argument which is often brought forward against facility +of divorce. Marriage, it is said, is for the protection of women; +facilitate divorce and women are robbed of that protection. It is obvious +that this argument has little application as against divorce by mutual +consent. Certainly it is necessary that divorce should only be arranged +under conditions which in each individual case have received the approval +of the law as just. But it must always be remembered that the essential +fact of marriage is not naturally, and should never artificially be made, +an economic question. It is possible--that is a question which society +will have to consider--that a woman should be paid for being a mother on +the ground that she is rearing new citizens for the State. But neither the +State nor her husband nor anyone else ought to pay her for exercising +conjugal rights. The fact that such an argument can be brought forward +shows how far we are from the sound biological attitude towards sexual +relationships. Equally unsound is the notion that the virgin bride brings +her husband at marriage an important capital which is consumed in the +first act of intercourse and can never be recovered. That is a notion +which has survived into civilization, but it belongs to barbarism and not +to civilization. So far as it has any validity it lies within a sphere of +erotic perversity which cannot be taken into consideration in an +estimation of moral values. For most men, however, in any case, whether +they realize it or not, the woman who has been initiated into the +mysteries of love has a higher erotic value than the virgin, and there +need be no anxiety on this ground concerning the wife who has lost her +virginity. It is probably a significant fact that this anxiety for the +protection of women by the limitation of divorce is chiefly brought +forward by men and not by women themselves. A woman at marriage is +deprived by society and the law of her own name. She has been deprived +until recently of the right to her own earnings. She is deprived of the +most intimate rights in her own person. She is deprived under some +circumstances of her own child, against whom she may have committed no +offence whatever. It is perhaps scarcely surprising that she is not +greatly appreciative of the protection afforded her by the withholding of +the right to divorce her husband. "Ah, no, no protection!" a brilliant +French woman has written. "We have been protected long enough. The only +protection to grant women is to cease protecting them."[354] As a matter +of fact the divorce movement appears to develop, on the whole, with that +development of woman's moral responsibility traced in the previous +chapter, and where divorce is freest women occupy the highest position. + +We cannot fail to realize as we grasp the nature and direction of the +modern movement of divorce that the final tendency of that movement is to +efface itself. Necessary as the Divorce Court has been as the inevitable +corollary of an impossible ecclesiastical conception of marriage, no +institution is now more hideous, more alien to the instinctive feelings +generated by a fine civilization, and more opposed to the dignity of +womanhood.[355] Its disappearance and its substitution by private +arrangements, effected on their contractive sides, especially if there are +children to provide for, under legal and if necessary judicial +supervision, is, and always has been, the natural result of the attainment +of a reasonably high stage of civilization. The Divorce Court has merely +been a phase in the history of modern marriage, and a phase that has +really been repugnant to all concerned in it. There is no need to view the +project of its ultimate disappearance with anything but satisfaction. It +was merely the outcome of an artificial conception of marriage. It is time +to return to the consideration of that conception. + +We have seen that when the Catholic development of the archaic conception +of marriage as a sacrament, slowly elaborated and fossilized by the +ingenuity of the Canonists, was at last nominally dethroned, though not +destroyed, by the movement associated with the Reformation, it was +replaced by the conception of marriage as a contract. This conception of +marriage as a contract still enjoys a considerable amount of credit +amongst us. + +There must always be contractive elements, implicit or explicit, in a +marriage; that was well recognized even by the Canonists. But when we +treat marriage as all contract, and nothing but contract, we have to +realize that we have set up a very peculiar form of contract, not +voidable, like other contracts, by the agreement of the parties to it, but +dissoluble as a sort of punishment of delinquency rather than by the +voluntary annulment of a bond.[356] When the Protestant Reformers seized +on the idea of marriage as a contract they were not influenced by any +reasoned analysis of the special characteristics of a contract; they were +merely anxious to secure a plausible ground, already admitted even by the +Canonists to cover certain aspects of the matrimonial union, on which they +could declare that marriage is a secular and not an ecclesiastical matter, +a civil bond and not a sacramental process.[357] + +Like so much else in the Protestant revolt, the strength of this attitude +lay in the fact that it was a protest, based on its negative side on +reasonable and natural grounds. But while Protestantism was right in its +attempt--for it was only an attempt--to deny the authority of Canon law, +that attempt was altogether unsatisfactory on the positive side. As a +matter of fact marriage is not a true contract and no attempt has ever +been made to convert it into a true contract. + + Various writers have treated marriage as an actual contract or + argued that it ought to be converted into a true contract. Mrs. + Mona Caird, for instance ("The Morality of Marriage," + _Fortnightly Review_, 1890), believes that when marriage becomes + really a contract "a couple would draw up their agreement, or + depute the task to their friends, as is now generally done as + regards marriage settlements. They agree to live together on such + and such terms, making certain stipulations within the limits of + the code." The State, she holds, should, however, demand an + interval of time between notice of divorce and the divorce + itself, if still desired when that interval has passed. + Similarly, in the United States Dr. Shufeldt ("Needed Revision of + the Laws of Marriage and Divorce," _Medico-Legal Journal_, Dec., + 1897) insists that marriage must be entirely put into the hands + of the legal profession and "made a civil contract, explicit in + detail, and defining terms of divorce, in the event that a + dissolution of the contract is subsequently desired." He adds + that medical certificates of freedom from hereditary and acquired + disease should be required, and properly regulated probationary + marriages also be instituted. + + In France, a deputy of the Chamber was, in 1891, so convinced + that marriage is a contract, like any other contract, that he + declared that "to perform music at the celebration of a marriage + is as ridiculous as it would be to send for a tenor to a notary's + to celebrate a sale of timber." He was of quite different mind + from Pepys, who, a couple of centuries earlier, had been equally + indignant at the absence of music from a wedding, which, he said, + made it like a coupling of dog and bitch. + + A frequent demand of those who insist that marriage must be + regarded as a contract is marriage contracted for a term of + years. Marriages could be contracted for a term of five years or + less in old Japan, and it is said that they were rarely or never + dissolved at the end of the term. Goethe, in his + _Wahlverwandtschaften_ (Part I, Ch. X) incidentally introduced a + proposal for marriages for a term of five years and attached much + moral significance to the prolongation of the marriage beyond + that term without external compulsion. (Bloch considers that + Goethe had probably heard of the Japanese custom, _Sexual Life of + Our Time_, p. 241.) Professor E.D. Cope ("The Marriage Problem," + _Open Court_, Nov. 15 and 22, 1888), likewise, in order to remove + matrimony from the domain of caprice and to permit full and fair + trial, advocated "a system of civil marriage contracts which + shall run for a definite time. These contracts should be of the + same value and effect as the existing marriage contract. The time + limits should be increased rapidly, so as to prevent women of + mature years being deprived of support. The first contract ought + not to run for less than five years, so as to give ample + opportunity for acquaintance, and for the recovery from temporary + disagreements." This first contract, Cope held, should be + terminable at the wish of either party; the second contract, for + ten or fifteen years, should only be terminable at the wish of + both parties, and the third should be permanent and indissoluble. + George Meredith, the distinguished novelist, also, more recently, + threw out the suggestion that marriages should be contracted for + a term of years. + + It can scarcely be said that marriages for a term of years + constitute a very satisfactory solution of the difficulties at + present encountered. They would not commend themselves to young + lovers, who believe that their love is eternal, nor, so long as + the union proves satisfactory, is there any need to introduce the + disturbing idea of a legal termination of the contract. On the + other hand, if the union proves unhappy, it is not reasonable to + insist on the continuation for ten or even five years of an empty + form which corresponds to no real marriage union. Even if + marriage is placed on the most prosaic contractive basis it is a + mistake, and indeed an impossibility, to pre-ordain the length of + its duration. The system of fixing the duration of marriage + beforehand for a term of years involves exactly the same + principle as the system of fixing it beforehand for life. It is + open to the same objection that it is incompatible with any + vital relationship. As the demand for vital reality and + effectiveness in social relationships grows, this fact is + increasingly felt. We see exactly the same change among us in + regard to the system of inflicting fixed sentences of + imprisonment on criminals. To send a man to prison for five years + or for life, without any regard to the unknown problem of the + vital reaction of imprisonment on the man--a reaction which will + be different in every individual case--is slowly coming to be + regarded as an absurdity. + +If marriage were really placed on the basis of a contract, not only would +that contract be voidable at the will of the two parties concerned, +without any question of delinquency coming into the question, but those +parties would at the outset themselves determine the conditions regulating +the contract. But nothing could be more unlike our actual marriage. The +two parties are bidden to accept each other as husband and wife; they are +not invited to make a contract; they are not even told that, little as +they may know it, they have in fact made a very complicated and elaborate +contract that was framed on lines laid down, for a large part, thousands +of years before they were born. Unless they have studied law they are +totally ignorant, also, that this contract contains clauses which under +some circumstances may be fatal to either of them. All that happens is +that a young couple, perhaps little more than children, momentarily dazed +by emotion, are hurried before the clergyman or the civil registrar of +marriages, to bind themselves together for life, knowing nothing of the +world and scarcely more of each other, knowing nothing also of the +marriage laws, not even perhaps so much as that there are any marriage +laws, never realizing that--as has been truly said--from the place they +are entering beneath a garland of flowers there is, on this side of death, +no exit except through the trapdoor of a sewer.[358] + + When a woman marries she gives up the right to her own person. + Thus, according to the law of England, a man "cannot be guilty of + a rape upon his lawful wife." Stephen, who, in the first edition + of his _Digest of Criminal Law_, thought that under some + circumstances a man might be indicted for rape upon his wife, in + the last edition withdrew that opinion. A man may rape a + prostitute, but he cannot rape his wife. Having once given her + consent to sexual intercourse by the act of marrying a man, she + has given it forever, whatever new circumstances may arise, and + he has no need to ask her consent to sexual intercourse, not even + if he is knowingly suffering at the time from a venereal disease + (see, e.g., an article on "Sex Bias," _Westminster Review_, + March, 1888). + + The duty of the wife to allow "conjugal rights" to her husband is + another aspect of her legal subjection to him. Even in the + nineteenth century a Suffolk lady of good family was imprisoned + in Ipswich Goal for many years and fed on bread and water, though + suffering from various diseases, till she died, simply because + she continued to disregard the decree requiring her to render + conjugal rights to her husband. This state of things was partly + reformed by the Matrimonial Causes Bill of 1884, and that bill + was passed, not to protect women, but men, against punishment for + refusal to restore conjugal rights. Undoubtedly, the modern + tendency, although it has progressed very slowly, is against + applying compulsion to either husband or wife to yield "conjugal + rights;" and since the Jackson case it is not possible in England + for a husband to use force in attempting to compel his wife to + live with him. This tendency is still more marked in the United + States; thus the Iowa Supreme Court, a few years ago, decided + that excessive demands for coitus constituted cruelty of a degree + justifying divorce (J.G. Kiernan, _Alienist and Neurologist_, + Nov. 1906, p. 466). + + The slender tenure of the wife over her person is not confined to + the sexual sphere, but even extends to her right to life. In + England, if a wife kills her husband, it was formerly the very + serious offence of "petit treason," and it is still murder. But, + if a husband kills his wife and is able to plead her adultery and + his jealousy, it is only manslaughter. (In France, where jealousy + is regarded with extreme indulgence, even a wife who kills her + husband is often acquitted.) + + It must not, however, be supposed that all the legal inequalities + involved by marriage are in favor of the husband. A large number + of injustices are also inflicted on the husband. The husband, for + instance, is legally responsible for the libels uttered by his + wife, and he is equally responsible civilly for the frauds she + commits, even if she is living apart from him. (This was, for + instance, held by an English judge in 1908; "he could only say he + regretted it, for it seems a hard case. But it was the law.") + Belfort Bax has, in recent years, especially insisted on the + hardships inflicted by English law in such ways as these. There + can be no doubt that marriage, as at present constituted, + inflicts serious wrongs on the husband as well as on the wife. + +Marriage is, therefore, not only not a contract in the true sense,[359] +but in the only sense in which it is a contract it is a contract of an +exceedingly bad kind. When the Canonists superseded the old conception of +marriage as a contract of purchase by their sacramental marriage, they +were in many respects effecting a real progress, and the return to the +idea of a contract, as soon as its temporary value as a protest has +ceased, proves altogether out of harmony with any advanced stage of +civilization. It was revived in days before the revolt against slavery had +been inaugurated. Personal contracts are out of harmony with our modern +civilization and our ideas of individual liberty. A man can no longer +contract himself as a slave nor sell his wife. Yet marriage, regarded as a +contract, is of precisely the same class as those transactions.[360] In +every high stage of civilization this fact is clearly recognized, and +young couples are not even allowed to contract themselves out in marriage +unconditionally. We see this, for instance, in the wise legislation of the +Romans. Even under the Christian Emperors that sound principle was +maintained and the lawyer Paulus wrote:[361] "Marriage was so free, +according to ancient opinion, that even agreements between the parties not +to separate from one another could have no validity." In so far as the +essence and not any accidental circumstance of the marital relationships +is made a contract, it is a contract of a nature which the two parties +concerned are not competent to make. Biologically and psychologically it +cannot be valid, and with the growth of a humane civilization it is +explicitly declared to be legally invalid. + +For, there can be no doubt about it, the intimate and essential fact of +marriage--the relationship of sexual intercourse--is not and cannot be a +contract. It is not a contract but a fact; it cannot be effected by any +mere act of will on the part of the parties concerned; it cannot be +maintained by any mere act of will. To will such a contract is merely to +perform a worse than indecorous farce. Certainly many of the circumstances +of marriage are properly the subject of contract, to be voluntarily and +deliberately made by the parties to the contract. But the essential fact +of marriage--a love strong enough to render the most intimate of +relationships possible and desirable through an indefinite number of +years--cannot be made a matter for contract. Alike from the physical point +of view, and the psychical point of view, no binding contract--and a +contract is worthless if it is not binding--can possibly be made. And the +making of such pseudo-contracts concerning the future of a marriage, +before it has even been ascertained that the marriage can ever become a +fact at all, is not only impossible but absurd. + +It is of course true that this impossibility, this absurdity, are never +visible to the contracting parties. They have applied to the question all +the very restricted tests that are conventionally permitted to them, and +the satisfactory results of these tests, together with the consciousness +of possessing an immense and apparently inexhaustible fund of loving +emotion, seem to them adequate to the fulfilment of the contract +throughout life, if not indeed eternity. + +As a child of seven I chanced to be in a semi-tropical island of the +Pacific supplied with fruit, especially grapes, from the mainland, and a +dusky market woman always presented a large bunch of grapes to the little +English stranger. But a day came when the proffered bunch was firmly +refused; the superabundance of grapes had produced a reaction of disgust. +A space of nearly forty years was needed to overcome the repugnance to +grapes thus acquired. Yet there can be no doubt that if at the age of six +that little boy had been asked to sign a contract binding him to accept +grapes every day, to keep them always near him, to eat them and to enjoy +them every day, he would have signed that contract as joyously as any +radiant bridegroom or demure bride signs the register in the vestry. But +is a complex man or woman, with unknown capacities for changing or +deteriorating, and with incalculable aptitudes for inflicting torture and +arousing loathing, is such a creature more easy to be bound to than an +exquisite fruit? All the countries of the world in which the subtle +influence of the Canon law of Christendom still makes itself felt, have +not yet grasped a general truth which is well within the practical +experience of a child of seven.[362] + + The notion that such a relationship as that of marriage can rest + on so fragile a basis as a pre-ordained contract has naturally + never prevailed widely in its extreme form, and has been unknown + altogether in many parts of the world. The Romans, as we know, + explicitly rejected it, and even at a comparatively early period + recognized the legality of marriage by _usus_, thus declaring in + effect that marriage must be a fact, and not a mere undertaking. + There has been a widespread legal tendency, especially where the + traditions of Roman law have retained any influence, to regard + the cohabitation of marriage as the essential fact of the + relationship. It was an old rule even under the Catholic Church + that marriage may be presumed from cohabitation (see, e.g., + Zacchia, _Questionum Medico-legalium Opus_, edition of 1688, vol. + iii, p. 234). Even in England cohabitation is already one of the + presumptions in favor of the existence of marriage (though not + necessarily by itself regarded as sufficient), provided the woman + is of unblemished character, and does not appear to be a common + prostitute (Nevill Geary, _The Law of Marriage_, Ch. III). If, + however, according to Lord Watson's judicial statement in the + Dysart Peerage case, a man takes his mistress to a hotel or goes + with her to a baby-linen shop and speaks of her as his wife, it + is to be presumed that he is acting for the sake of decency, and + this furnishes no evidence of marriage. In Scotland the + presumption of marriage arises on much slighter grounds than in + England. This may be connected with the ancient and deep-rooted + custom in Scotland of marriage by exchange of consent (Geary, op. + cit. Ch. XVIII; cf., Howard, _Matrimonial Institutions_, vol. i, + p. 316). + + In the Bredalbane case (Campbell _v._ Campbell, 1867), which was + of great importance because it involved the succession to the + vast estates of the Marquis of Bredalbane, the House of Lords + decided than even an adulterous connection may, on ceasing to be + adulterous, become matrimonial by the simple consent of the + parties, as evidenced by habit and repute, without any need for + the matrimonial character of the connection to be indicated by + any public act, nor any necessity to prove the specific period + when the consent was interchanged. This decision has been + confirmed in the Dysart case (Geary, loc. cit.; cf. C.G. + Garrison, "Limits of Divorce," _Contemporary Review_, Feb., + 1894). Similarly, as decided by Justice Kekewich in the Wagstaff + case in 1907, if a man leaves money to his "widow," on condition + that she never marries again, although he has never been married + to her, and though she has been legally married to another man, + the testator's intentions must be upheld. Garrison, in his + valuable discussion of this aspect of legal marriage (_loc. + cit._), forcibly insists that by English law marriage is a fact + and not a contract, and that where "conduct characterized by + connubial purpose and constancy" exists, there marriage legally + exists, marriage being simply "a name for an existing fact." + + In the United States, marriage "by habit and repute" similarly + exists, and in some States has even been confirmed and extended + by statute (J.P. Bishop, _Commentaries_, vol. i, Ch. XV). + "Whatever the form of the ceremony, and even if all ceremony was + dispensed with," said Judge Cooley, of Michigan, in 1875 (in an + opinion accepted as authoritative by the Federal courts), "if the + parties agreed presently to take each other for husband and wife, + and from that time lived together professedly in that relation, + proof of these facts would be sufficient.... This has been the + settled doctrine of the American courts." (Howard, op. cit., vol. + iii, pp. 177 et seq. Twenty-three States sanction common-law + marriage, while eighteen repudiate, or are inclined to repudiate, + any informal agreement.) + + This legal recognition by the highest judicial authorities, alike + in Great Britain and the United States, that marriage is + essentially a fact, and that no evidence of any form or ceremony + of marriage is required for the most complete legal recognition + of marriage, undoubtedly carries with it highly important + implications. It became clear that the reform of marriage is + possible even without change in the law, and that honorable + sexual relationships, even when entered into without any legal + forms, are already entitled to full legal recognition and + protection. There are, however, it need scarcely be added here, + other considerations which render reform along these lines + incomplete. + +It thus tends to come about that with the growth of civilization the +conception of marriage as a contract falls more and more into discredit. +It is realized, on the one hand, that personal contracts are out of +harmony with our general and social attitude, for if we reject the idea of +a human being contracting himself as a slave, how much more we should +reject the idea of entering by contract into the still more intimate +relationship of a husband or a wife; on the other hand it is felt that the +idea of pre-ordained contracts on a matter over which the individual +himself has no control is quite unreal and when any strict rules of equity +prevail, necessarily invalid. It is true that we still constantly find +writers sententiously asserting their notions of the duties or the +privileges involved by the "contract" of marriage, with no more attempt to +analyze the meaning of the term "contract" in this connection than the +Protestant Reformers made, but it can scarcely be said that these writers +have yet reached the alphabet of the subject they dogmatize about. + +The transference of marriage from the Church to the State which, in the +lands where it first occurred, we owe to Protestantism and, in the +English-speaking lands, especially to Puritanism, while a necessary stage, +had the unfortunate result of secularizing the sexual relationships. That +is to say, it ignored the transcendent element in love which is really the +essential part of such relationships, and it concentrated attention on +those formal and accidental parts of marriage which can alone be dealt +with in a rigid and precise manner, and can alone properly form the +subject of contracts. The Canon law, fantastic and impossible as it became +in many of its developments, at least insisted on the natural and actual +fact of marriage as, above all, a bodily union, while, at the same time, +it regarded that union as no mere secular business contract but a sacred +and exalted function, a divine fact, and the symbol of the most divine +fact in the world. We are returning to-day to the Canonist's conception of +marriage on a higher and freer plane, bringing back the exalted conception +of the Canon law, yet retaining the individualism which the Puritan +wrongly thought he could secure on the basis of mere secularization, +while, further, we recognize that the whole process belongs to the private +sphere of moral responsibility. As Hobhouse has well said, in tracing the +evolutionary history of the modern conception of marriage, the sacramental +idea of marriage has again emerged but on a higher plane; "from being a +sacrament in the magical, it has become one in the ethical, sense." We are +thus tending towards, though we have not yet legally achieved, marriage +made and maintained by consent, "a union between two free and responsible +persons in which the equal rights of both are maintained."[363] + + It is supposed by some that to look upon sexual union as a + sacrament is necessarily to accept the ancient Catholic view, + embodied in the Canon law, that matrimony is indissoluble. That + is, however, a mistake. Even the Canonists themselves were never + able to put forward any coherent and consistent ground for the + indissolubility of matrimony which could commend itself + rationally, while Luther and Milton and Wilhelm von Humboldt, who + maintained the religious and sacred nature of sexual + union--though they were cautious about using the term sacrament + on account of its ecclesiastical implications--so far from + believing that its sanctity involved indissolubility, argued in + the reverse sense. This point of view may be defended even from a + strictly Protestant standpoint. "I take it," Mr. G.C. Maberly + says, "that the Prayer Book definition of a sacrament, 'the + outward and visible sign of an inward and spiritual grace,' is + generally accepted. In marriage the legal and physical unions are + the outward and visible signs, while the inward and spiritual + grace is the God-given love that makes the union of heart and + soul: and it is precisely because I take this view of marriage + that I consider the legal and physical union should be dissolved + whenever the spiritual union of unselfish, divine love and + affection has ceased. It seems to me that the sacramental view of + marriage compels us to say that those who continue the legal or + physical union when the spiritual union has ceased, are--to quote + again from the Prayer Book words applied to those who take the + outward sign of another sacrament when the inward and spiritual + grace is not present--'eating and drinking their own damnation.'" + +If from the point we have now reached we look back at the question of +divorce we see that, as the modern aspects of the marriage relationship +becomes more clearly realized by the community, that question will be +immensely simplified. Since marriage is not a mere contract but a fact of +conduct, and even a sacred fact, the free participation of both parties is +needed to maintain it. To introduce the idea of delinquency and punishment +into divorce, to foster mutual recrimination, to publish to the world the +secrets of the heart or the senses, is not only immoral, it is altogether +out of place. In the question as to when a marriage has ceased to be a +marriage the two parties concerned can alone be the supreme judges; the +State, if the State is called in, can but register the sentence they +pronounce, merely seeing to it that no injustice is involved in the +carrying out of that sentence.[364] + +In discussing in the previous chapter the direction in which sexual +morality tends to develop with the development of civilization we came to +the conclusion that in its main lines it involved, above all, personal +responsibility. A relationship fixed among savage peoples by social custom +which none dare break, and in a higher stage of culture by formal laws +which must be observed in the letter even if broken in the spirit, becomes +gradually transferred to the sphere of individual moral responsibility. +Such a transference is necessarily meaningless, and indeed impossible, +unless the increasing stringency of the moral bond is accompanied by the +decreasing stringency of the formal bond. It is only by the process of +loosening the artificial restraints that the natural restraints can exert +their full control. That process takes place in two ways, in part on the +basis of the indifference to formal marriage which has marked the masses +of the population everywhere and doubtless stretches back to the tenth +century before the domination of ecclesiastical matrimony began, and +partly by the progressive modification of marriage laws which were made +necessary by the needs of the propertied classes anxious to secure the +State recognition of their unions. The whole process is necessarily a +gradual and indeed imperceptible process. It is impossible to fix +definitely the dates of the stages by which the Church effected the +immense revolution by which it grasped, and eventually transferred to the +State, the complete control of marriage, for that revolution was effected +without the intervention of any law. It will be equally difficult to +perceive the transference of the control of marriage from the State to +the individuals concerned, and the more difficult because, as we shall +see, although the essential and intimately personal fact of marriage is +not a proper matter for State control, there are certain aspects of +marriage which touch the interests of the community so closely that the +State is bound to insist on their registration and to take an interest in +their settlement. + +The result of dissolving the formal stringency of the marriage +relationship, it is sometimes said, would be a tendency to an immoral +laxity. Those who make this statement overlook the fact that laxity tends +to reach a maximum as a result of stringency, and that where the merely +external authority of a rigid marriage law prevails, there the extreme +excesses of license most flourish. It is also undoubtedly true, and for +the same reason, that any sudden removal of restraints necessarily +involves a reaction to the opposite extreme of license; a slave is not +changed at a stroke into an autonomous freeman. Yet we have to remember +that the marriage order existed for millenniums before any attempt was +made to mould it into arbitrary shapes by human legislation. Such +legislation, we have seen, was indeed the effort of the human spirit to +affirm more emphatically the demands of its own instincts.[365] But its +final result is to choke and impede rather than to further the instincts +which inspired it. Its gradual disappearance allows the natural order free +and proper scope. + + The great truth that compulsion is not really a force on the side + of virtue, but on the side of vice, had been clearly realized by + the genius of Rabelais, when he said of his ideal social state, + the Abbey of Thelema, that there was but one clause in its rule: + Fay ce que vouldras. "Because," said Rabelais (Bk. i, Ch. VII), + "men that are free, well-born, well-bred, and conversant in + honest companies, have naturally an instinct and spur that + prompts them unto virtuous actions and withdraws them from vice. + These same men, when by base subjection and constraint they are + brought under and kept down, turn aside from that noble + disposition by which they freely were inclined to virtue, to + shake off and break that bond of servitude." So that when a man + and a woman who had lived under the rule of Thelema married each + other, Rabelais tells us, their mutual love lasted undiminished + to the day of their death. + + When the loss of autonomous freedom fails to lead to licentious + rebellion it incurs the opposite risk and tends to become a + flabby reliance on an external support. The artificial support of + marriage by State regulation then resembles the artificial + support of the body furnished by corset-wearing. The reasons for + and against adopting artificial support are the same in one case + as the other. Corsets really give a feeling of support; they + really furnish without trouble a fairly satisfactory appearance + of decorum; they are a real protection against various accidents. + But the price at which they furnish these advantages is serious, + and the advantages themselves only exist under unnatural + conditions. The corset cramps the form and the healthy + development of the organs; it enfeebles the voluntary muscular + system; it is incompatible with perfect grace and beauty; it + diminishes the sum of active energy. It exerts, in short, the + same kind of influence on physical responsibility as formal + marriage on moral responsibility. + + It is too often forgotten, and must therefore be repeated, that + married people do not remain together because of any religious or + legal tie; that tie is merely the historical outcome of their + natural tendency to remain together, a tendency which is itself + far older than history. "Love would exist in the world to-day, + just as pure and just as enduring," says Shufeldt (_Medico-Legal + Journal_, Dec., 1897), "had man never invented 'marriage.' Truly + affined mates would have remained faithful to each other as long + as life lasted. It is only when men attempt to improve upon + nature that crime, disease, and unhappiness step in." "The + abolition of marriage in the form now practiced," wrote Godwin + more than a century ago (_Political Justice_, second edition, + 1796, vol. i, p. 248), "will be attended with no evils. We are + apt to represent it to ourselves as the harbinger of brutal lust + and depravity. But it really happens in this, as in other cases, + that the positive laws which are made to restrain our vices + irritate and multiply them." And Professor Lester Ward, in + insisting on the strength of the monogamic sentiment in modern + society, truly remarks (_International Journal of Ethics_, Oct., + 1896) that the rebellion against rigid marriage bonds "is, in + reality, due to the very strengthening of the true bonds of + conjugal affection, coupled with a rational and altogether proper + determination on the part of individuals to accept, in so + important a matter, nothing less than the genuine article." "If + by a single stroke," says Professor Woods Hutchinson + (_Contemporary Review_, Sept., 1905), "all marriage ties now in + existence were struck off or declared illegal, eight-tenths of + all couples would be remarried within forty eight hours, and + seven-tenths could not be kept asunder with bayonets." An + experiment of this kind on a small scale was witnessed in 1909 in + an English village in Buckinghamshire. It was found that the + parish church had never been licensed for marriages, and that in + consequence all the people who had gone through the ceremony of + marriage in that church during the previous half century had + never been legally married. Yet, so far as could be ascertained, + not a single couple thus released from the legal compulsion of + marriage took advantage of the freedom bestowed. In the face of + such a fact it is obviously impossible to attach any moral value + to the form of marriage. + +It is certainly inevitable that during a period of transition the natural +order is to some extent disturbed by the persistence, even though in a +weakened form, of external bonds which are beginning to be consciously +realized as inimical to the authoritative control of individual moral +responsibility. We can clearly trace this at the present time. A sensitive +anxiety to escape from external constraint induces an under-valuation of +the significance of personal constraint in the relationship of marriage. +Everyone is probably familiar with cases in which a couple will live +together through long years without entering the legal bond of marriage, +notwithstanding difficulties in their mutual relationship which would have +long since caused a separation or a divorce had they been legally married. +When the inherent difficulties of the marital relationship are complicated +by the difficulties due to external constraint, the development of +individual moral responsibility cuts two ways, and leads to results that +are not entirely satisfactory. This has been seen in the United States of +America and attention has often been called to it by thoughtful American +observers. It is, naturally, noted especially in women because it is in +women that the new growth of personal freedom and moral responsibility has +chiefly made itself felt. The first stirring of these new impulses, +especially when associated, as it often is, with inexperience and +ignorance, leads to impatience with the natural order, to a demand for +impossible conditions of existence, and to an inaptitude not only for the +arbitrary bondage of law but even for the wholesome and necessary bonds of +human social life. It is always a hard lesson for the young and idealistic +that in order to command Nature we must obey her; it can only be learnt +through contact with life and by the attainment of full human growth. + + Dr. Felix Adler (in an address before the Society of Ethical + Culture of New York, Nov. 17, 1889) called attention to what he + regarded as the most deep-rooted cause of an undue prevalence of + divorce in America. "The false idea of individual liberty is + largely held in America," and when applied to family life it + often leads to an impatience with these duties which the + individual is either born into or has voluntarily accepted. "I am + constrained to think that the prevalence of divorce is to be + ascribed in no small degree to the influence of democratic + ideas--that is, of false democratic ideas--and our hope lies in + advancing towards a higher and truer democracy." A more recent + American writer, this time a woman, Anna A. Rogers ("Why American + Marriages Fail," _Atlantic Monthly_, Sept., 1907) speaks in the + same sense, though perhaps in too unqualified a manner. She + states that the frequency of divorce in America is due to three + causes: (1) woman's failure to realize that marriage is her work + in the world; (2) her growing individualism; (3) her lost art of + giving, replaced by a highly developed receptive faculty. The + American woman, this writer states, in discovering her own + individuality has not yet learnt how to manage it; it is still + "largely a useless, uneasy factor, vouchsafing her very little + more peace than it does those in her immediate surcharged + vicinity." Her circumstances tend to make of her "a curious + anomalous hybrid; a cross between a magnificent, rather + unmannerly boy, and a spoiled, exacting _demi-mondaine_, who + sincerely loves in this world herself alone." She has not yet + learnt that woman's supreme work in the world can only be + attained through the voluntary acceptance of the restraints of + marriage. The same writer points out that the fault is not alone + with American women, but also with American men. Their idolatry + of their women is largely responsible for that intolerance and + selfishness which causes so many divorces; "American women are, + as a whole, pampered and worshipped out of all reason." But the + men, who lend themselves to this, do not feel that they can treat + their wives with the same comradeship as the French treat their + wives, nor seek their advice with the same reliance; the American + woman is placed on an unreal pedestal. Yet another American + writer, Rafford Pyke ("Husbands and Wives," _Cosmopolitan_, + 1902), points out that only a small proportion of American + marriages are really unhappy, these being chiefly among the more + cultured classes, in which the movement of expansion in women's + interests and lives is taking place; it is more often the wife + than the husband who is disappointed in marriage, and this is + largely due to her inability to merge, not necessarily + subordinate, her individuality in an equal union with his. + "Marriage to-day is becoming more and more dependent for its + success upon the adjustment of conditions that are psychical. + Whereas in former generations it was sufficient that the union + should involve physical reciprocity, in this age of ours the + union must involve a psychic reciprocity as well. And whereas, + heretofore, the community of interest was attained with ease, it + is now becoming far more difficult because of the tendency to + discourage a woman who marries from merging her separate + individuality in her husband's. Yet, unless she does this, how + can she have a complete and perfect interest in the life + together, and, for that matter, how can he have such an interest + either?" + + Professor Muensterberg, the distinguished psychologist, in his + frank but appreciative study of American institutions, _The + Americans_, taking a broader outlook, points out that the + influence of women on morals in America has not been in every + respect satisfactory, in so far as it has tended to encourage + shallowness and superficiality. "The American woman who has + scarcely a shred of education," he remarks (p. 587), "looks in + vain for any subject on which she has not firm convictions + already at hand.... The arrogance of this feminine lack of + knowledge is the symptom of a profound trait in the feminine + soul, and points to dangers springing from the domination of + women in the intellectual life.... And in no other civilized land + are ethical conceptions so worm-eaten by superstitions." + +We have seen that the modern tendency as regards marriage is towards its +recognition as a voluntary union entered into by two free, equal, and +morally responsible persons, and that that union is rather of the nature +of an ethical sacrament than of a contract, so that in its essence as a +physical and spiritual bond it is outside the sphere of the State's +action. It has been necessary to labor that point before we approach what +may seem to many not only a different but even a totally opposed aspect of +marriage. If the marriage union itself cannot be a matter for contract, it +naturally leads to a fact which must necessarily be a matter for implicit +or explicit contract, a matter, moreover, in which the community at large +has a real and proper interest: that is the fact of procreation.[366] + +The ancient Egyptians--among whom matrimonial institutions were so elastic +and the position of woman so high--recognized a provisional and slight +marriage bond for the purpose of testing fecundity.[367] Among ourselves +the law makes no such paternal provision, leaving to young couples +themselves the responsibility of making any tests, a permission, we know, +they largely avail themselves of, usually entering the legal bonds of +marriage, however, before the birth of their child. That legal bond is a +recognition that the introduction of a new individual into the community +is not, like sexual union, a mere personal fact, but a social fact, a fact +in which the State cannot fail to be concerned. And the more we +investigate the tendency of the modern marriage movement the more we shall +realize that its attitude of freedom, of individual moral responsibility, +in the formation of sexual relationships, is compensated by an attitude of +stringency, of strict social oversight, in the matter of procreation. Two +people who form an erotic relationship are bound, when they reach the +conviction that their relationship is a real marriage, having its natural +end in procreation, to subscribe to a contract which, though it may leave +themselves personally free, must yet bind them both to their duties +towards their children.[368] + +The necessity for such an undertaking is double, even apart from the fact +that it is in the highest interests of the parents themselves. It is +required in the interests of the child. It is required in the interests of +the State. A child can be bred, and well-bred, by one effective parent. +But to equip a child adequately for its entrance into life both parents +are usually needed. The State on its side--that is to say, the community +of which parents and child alike form part--is bound to know who these +persons are who have become sponsors for a new individual now introduced +into its midst. The most Individualistic State, the most Socialistic +State, are alike bound, if faithful to the interests, both biological and +economic, of their constituent members generally, to insist on the full +legal and recognized parentage of the father and mother of every child. +That is clearly demanded in the interests of the child; it is clearly +demanded also in the interests of the State. + +The barrier which in Christendom has opposed itself to the natural +recognition of this fact, so injuring alike the child and the State, has +clearly been the rigidity of the marriage system, more especially as +moulded by the Canon law. The Canonists attributed a truly immense +importance to the _copula carnalis_, as they technically termed it. They +centred marriage strictly in the vagina; they were not greatly concerned +about either the presence or the absence of the child. The vagina, as we +know, has not always proved a very firm centre for the support of +marriage, and that centre is now being gradually transferred to the child. +If we turn from the Canonists to the writings of a modern like Ellen Key, +who so accurately represents much that is most characteristic and +essential in the late tendencies of marriage development, we seem to have +entered a new world, even a newly illuminated world. For "in the new +sexual morality, as in Corregio's _Notte_, the light emanates from the +child."[369] + +No doubt this change is largely a matter of sentiment, of, as we sometimes +say, mere sentiment, although there is nothing so powerful in human +affairs as sentiment, and the revolution effected by Jesus, the later +revolution effected by Rousseau, were mainly revolutions in sentiment. But +the change is also a matter of the growing recognition of interests and +rights, and as such it manifests itself in law. We can scarcely doubt that +we are approaching a time when it will be generally understood that the +entrance into the world of every child, without exception, should be +preceded by the formation of a marriage contract which, while in no way +binding the father and mother to any duties, or any privileges, towards +each other, binds them both towards their child and at the same time +ensures their responsibility towards the State. It is impossible for the +State to obtain more than this, but it should be impossible for it to +demand less. A contract of such a kind "marries" the father and mother so +far as the parentage of the individual child is concerned, and in no other +respect; it is a contract which leaves entirely unaffected their past, +present, or future relations towards other persons, otherwise it would be +impossible to enforce it. In all parts of the world this elementary demand +of social morality is slowly beginning to be recognized, and as it affects +hundreds of thousands of infants[370] who are yearly branded as +"illegitimate" through no act of their own, no one can say that the +recognition has come too soon. As yet, indeed, it seems nowhere to be +complete. + + Most attempts or proposals for the avoidance of illegitimate + births are concerned with the legalizing of unions of a less + binding degree than the present legal marriage. Such unions would + serve to counteract other evils. Thus an English writer, who has + devoted much study to sex questions, writes in a private letter: + "The best remedy for the licentiousness of celibate men and the + mental and physical troubles of continence in woman would be + found in a recognized honorable system of free unions and + trial-marriages, in which preventive intercourse is practiced + until the lovers were old enough to become parents, and possessed + of sufficient means to support a family. The prospect of a + loveless existence for young men and women of ardent natures is + intolerable and as terrible as the prospect of painful illness + and death. But I think the old order must change ere long." + + In Teutonic countries there is a strongly marked current of + feeling in the direction of establishing legal unions of a lower + degree than marriage. They exist in Sweden, as also in Norway + where by a recent law the illegitimate child is entitled to the + same rights in relation to both parents as the legitimate child, + bearing the father's name and inheriting his property (_Die Neue + Generation_, July, 1909, p. 303). In France the well-known judge, + Magnard, so honorably distinguished for his attitude towards + cases of infanticide by young mothers, has said: "I heartily wish + that alongside the institution of marriage as it now exists we + had a free union constituted by simple declaration before a + magistrate and conferring almost the same family rights as + ordinary marriage." This wish has been widely echoed. + + In China, although polygamy in the strict sense cannot properly + be said to exist, the interests of the child, the woman, and the + State are alike safeguarded by enabling a man to enter into a + kind of secondary marriage with the mother of his child. "Thanks + to this system," Paul d'Enjoy states (_La Revue_, Sept., 1905), + "which allows the husband to marry the woman he desires, without + being prevented by previous and undissolved unions, it is only + right to remark that there are no seduced and abandoned girls, + except such as no law could save from what is really innate + depravity; and that there are no illegitimate children except + those whose mothers are unhappily nearer to animals by their + senses than to human beings by their reason and dignity." + + The new civil code of Japan, which is in many respects so + advanced, allows an illegitimate child to be "recognized" by + giving notice to the registrar; when a married man so recognizes + a child, it appears, the child may be adopted by the wife as her + own, though not actually rendered legitimate. This state of + things represents a transition stage; it can scarcely be said to + recognize the rights of the "recognized" child's mother. Japan, + it may be added, has adopted the principle of the automatic + legitimation by marriage of the children born to the couple + before marriage. + + In Australia, where women possess a larger share than elsewhere + in making and administering the laws, some attention is beginning + to be given to the rights of illegitimate children. Thus in South + Australia, paternity may be proved before birth, and the father + (by magistrate's order) provides lodging for one month before and + after birth, as well as nurse, doctor, and clothing, furnishing + security that he will do so; after birth, at the magistrate's + decision, he pays a weekly sum for the child's maintenance. An + "illegitimate" mother may also be kept in a public institution at + the public expense for six months to enable her to become + attached to her child. + + Such provisions are developed from the widely recognized right of + the unmarried woman to claim support for her child from its + father. In France, indeed, and in the legal codes which follow + the French example, it is not legally permitted to inquire into + the paternity of an illegitimate child. Such a law is, needless + to say, alike unjust to the mother, to the child, and to the + State. In Austria, the law goes to the opposite, though certainly + more reasonable, extreme, and permits even the mother who has had + several lovers to select for herself which she chooses to make + responsible for her child. The German code adopts an intermediate + course, and comes only to the aid of the unmarried mother who has + one lover. In all such cases, however, the aid given is + pecuniary only; it insures the mother no recognition or respect, + and (as Wahrmund has truly said in his _Ehe und Eherecht_) it is + still necessary to insist on "the unconditional sanctity of + motherhood, which is entitled, under whatever circumstances it + arises, to the respect and protection of society." + + It must be added that, from the social point of view, it is not + the sexual union which requires legal recognition, but the child + which is the product of that union. It would, moreover, be + hopeless to attempt to legalize all sexual connection, but it is + comparatively easy to legalize all children. + +There has been much discussion in the past concerning the particular form +which marriage ought to take. Many theorists have exercised their +ingenuity in inventing and preaching new and unusual marriage-arrangements +as panaceas for social ills; while others have exerted even greater energy +in denouncing all such proposals as subversive of the foundations of human +society. We may regard all such discussions, on the one side or the other, +as idle. + +In the first place marriage customs are far too fundamental, far too +intimately blended with the primary substance of human and indeed animal +society, to be in the slightest degree shaken by the theories or the +practices of mere individuals, or even groups of individuals. +Monogamy--the more or less prolonged cohabitation of two individuals of +opposite sex--has been the prevailing type of sexual relationship among +the higher vertebrates and through the greater part of human history. This +is admitted even by those who believe (without any sound evidence) that +man has passed through a stage of sexual promiscuity. There have been +tendencies to variation in one direction or another, but at the lowest +stages and the highest stages, so far as can be seen, monogamy represents +the prevailing rule. + +It must be said also, in the second place, that the natural prevalence of +monogamy as the normal type of sexual relationship by no means excludes +variations. Indeed it assumes them. "There is nothing precise in Nature," +according to Diderot's saying. The line of Nature is a curve that +oscillates from side to side of the norm. Such oscillations inevitably +occur in harmony with changes in environmental conditions, and, no doubt, +with peculiarities of personal disposition. So long as no arbitrary and +merely external attempt is made to force Nature, the vital order is +harmoniously maintained. Among certain species of ducks when males are in +excess polyandric families are constituted, the two males attending their +female partner without jealousy, but when the sexes again become equal in +number the monogamic order is restored. The natural human deviations from +the monogamic order seem to be generally of this character, and largely +conditioned by the social and economic environment. The most common +variation, and that which most clearly possesses a biological foundation, +is the tendency to polygyny, which is found at all stages of culture, +even, in an unrecognized and more or less promiscuous shape, in the +highest civilization.[371] It must be remembered, however, that recognized +polygyny is not the rule even where it prevails; it is merely permissive; +there is never a sufficient excess of women to allow more than a few of +the richer and more influential persons to have more than one wife.[372] + +It has further to be borne in mind that a certain elasticity of the formal +side of marriage while, on the one side, it permits variations from the +general monogamic order, where such are healthful or needed to restore a +balance in natural conditions, on the other hand restrains such variations +in so far as they are due to the disturbing influence of artificial +constraint. Much of the polygyny, and polyandry also, which prevails among +us to-day is an altogether artificial and unnatural form of polygamy. +Marriages which on a more natural basis would be dissolved cannot legally +be dissolved, and consequently the parties to them, instead of changing +their partners and so preserving the natural monogamic order, take on +other additional partners and so introduce an unnatural polygamy. There +will always be variations from the monogamic order and civilization is +certainly not hostile to sexual variation. Whether we reckon these +variations as legitimate or illegitimate, they will still take place; of +that we may be certain. The path of social wisdom seems to lie on the one +hand in making the marriage relationship flexible enough to reduce to a +minimum these deviations--not because such deviations are intrinsically +bad but because they ought not to be forced into existence--and on the +other hand in according to these deviations when they occur such a measure +of recognition as will deprive them of injurious influence and enable +justice to be done to all the parties concerned. We too often forget that +our failure to recognize such variations merely means that we accord in +such cases an illegitimate permission to perpetrate injustice. In those +parts of the world in which polygyny is recognized as a permissible +variation a man is legally held to his natural obligations towards all his +sexual mates and towards the children he has by those mates. In no part of +the world is polygyny so prevalent as in Christendom; in no part of the +world is it so easy for a man to escape the obligations incurred by +polygyny. We imagine that if we refuse to recognize the fact of polygyny, +we may refuse to recognize any obligations incurred by polygyny. By +enabling a man to escape so easily from the obligations of his polygamous +relationships we encourage him, if he is unscrupulous, to enter into them; +we place a premium on the immorality we loftily condemn.[373] Our polygyny +has no legal existence, and therefore its obligations can have no legal +existence. The ostrich, it was once imagined, hides its head in the sand +and attempts to annihilate facts by refusing to look at them; but there is +only one known animal which adopts this course of action, and it is called +Man. + +Monogamy, in the fundamental biological sense, represents the natural +order into which the majority of sexual facts will always naturally fall +because it is the relationship which most adequately corresponds to all +the physical and spiritual facts involved. But if we realize that sexual +relationships primarily concern only the persons who enter into those +relationships, and if we further realize that the interest of society in +such relationships is confined to the children which they produce, we +shall also realize that to fix by law the number of women with whom a man +shall have sexual relationships, and the number of men with whom a woman +shall unite herself, is more unreasonable than it would be to fix by law +the number of children they shall produce. The State has a right to +declare whether it needs few citizens or many; but in attempting to +regulate the sexual relationships of its members the State attempts an +impossible task and is at the same time guilty of an impertinence. + + There is always a tendency, at certain stages of civilization, to + insist on a merely formal and external uniformity, and a + corresponding failure to see not only that such uniformity is + unreal, but also that it has an injurious effect, in so far as it + checks beneficial variations. The tendency is by no means + confined to the sexual sphere. In England there is, for instance, + a tendency to make building laws which enjoin, in regard to + places of human habitation, all sorts of provisions that on the + whole are fairly beneficial, but which in practice act + injuriously, because they render many simple and excellent human + habitations absolutely illegal, merely because such habitations + fail to conform to regulations which, under some circumstances, + are not only unnecessary, but mischievous. + + Variation is a fact that will exist whether we will or no; it can + only become healthful if we recognize and allow for it. We may + even have to recognize that it is a more marked tendency in + civilization than in more primitive social stages. Thus Gerson + argues (_Sexual-Probleme_, Sept., 1908, p. 538) that just as the + civilized man cannot be content with the coarse and monotonous + food which satisfies the peasant, so it is in sexual matters; the + peasant youth and girl in their sexual relationships are nearly + always monogamous, but civilized people, with their more + versatile and sensitive tastes, are apt to crave for variety. + Senancour (_De l'Amour_, vol. ii, "Du Partage," p. 127) seems to + admit the possibility of marriage variations, as of sharing a + wife, provided nothing is done to cause rivalry, or to impair the + soul's candor. Lecky, near the end of his _History of European + Morals_, declared his belief that, while the permanent union of + two persons is the normal and prevailing type of marriage, it by + no means follows that, in the interests of society, it should be + the only form. Remy de Gourmont similarly (_Physique de l'Amour_, + p. 186), while stating that the couple is the natural form of + marriage and its prolonged continuance a condition of human + superiority, adds that the permanence of the union can only be + achieved with difficulty. So, also, Professor W. Thomas (_Sex and + Society_, 1907, p. 193), while regarding monogamy as subserving + social needs, adds: "Speaking from the biological standpoint + monogamy does not, as a rule, answer to the conditions of highest + stimulation, since here the problematical and elusive elements + disappear to some extent, and the object of attention has grown + so familiar in consciousness that the emotional reactions are + qualified. This is the fundamental explanation of the fact that + married men and women frequently become interested in others than + their partners in matrimony." + + Pepys, whose unconscious self-dissection admirably illustrates so + many psychological tendencies, clearly shows how--by a logic of + feeling deeper than any intellectual logic--the devotion to + monogamy subsists side by side with an irresistible passion for + sexual variety. With his constantly recurring wayward attraction + to a long series of women he retains throughout a deep and + unchanging affection for his charming young wife. In the privacy + of his _Diary_ he frequently refers to her in terms of endearment + which cannot be feigned; he enjoys her society; he is very + particular about her dress; he delights in her progress in music, + and spends much money on her training; he is absurdly jealous + when he finds her in the society of a man. His subsidiary + relationships with other women recur irresistibly, but he has no + wish either to make them very permanent or to allow them to + engross him unduly. Pepys represents a common type of civilized + "monogamist" who is perfectly sincere and extremely convinced in + his advocacy of monogamy, as he understands it, but at the same + time believes and acts on the belief that monogamy by no means + excludes the need for sexual variation. Lord Morley's statement + (_Diderot_, vol. ii, p. 20) that "man is instinctively + polygamous," can by no means be accepted, but if we interpret it + as meaning that man is an instinctively monogamous animal with a + concomitant desire for sexual variation, there is much evidence + in its favor. + + Women must be as free as men to mould their own amatory life. + Many consider, however, that such freedom on the part of women + will be, and ought to be, exercised within narrower limits (see, + e.g., Bloch, _Sexual Life of Our Time_, Ch. X). In part this + limitation is considered due to the greater absorption of a woman + in the task of breeding and rearing her child, and in part to a + less range of psychic activities. A man, as G. Hirth puts it, + expressing this view of the matter (_Wege zur Liebe_, p. 342), + "has not only room in his intellectual horizon for very various + interests, but his power of erotic expansion is much greater and + more differentiated than that of women, although he may lack the + intimacy and depth of a woman's devotion." + + It may be argued that, since variations in the sexual order will + inevitably take place, whether or not they are recognized or + authorized, no harm is likely to be done by using the weight of + social and legal authority on the side of that form which is + generally regarded as the best, and, so far as possible, covering + the other forms with infamy. There are many obvious defects in + such an attitude, apart from the supremely important fact that to + cast infamy on sexual relationships is to exert a despicable + cruelty on women, who are inevitably the chief sufferers. Not the + least is the injustice and the hampering of vital energy which it + inflicts on the better and more scrupulous people to the + advantage of the worse and less scrupulous. This always happens + when authority exerts its power in favor of a form. When, in the + thirteenth century, Alexander III--one of the greatest and most + effective potentates who ever ruled Christendom--was consulted by + the Bishop of Exeter concerning subdeacons who persisted in + marrying, the Pope directed him to inquire into the lives and + characters of the offenders; if they were of regular habits and + staid morality, they were to be forcibly separated and the wives + driven out; if they were men of notoriously disorderly character, + they were to be permitted to retain their wives, if they so + desired (Lea, _History of Sacerdotal Celibacy_, third edition, + vol. i, p. 396). It was an astute policy, and was carried out by + the same Pope elsewhere, but it is easy to see that it was + altogether opposed to morality in every sense of the term. It + destroyed the happiness and the efficiency of the best men; it + left the worst men absolutely free. To-day we are quite willing + to recognize the evil result of this policy; it was dictated by a + Pope and carried out seven hundred years ago. Yet in England we + carry out exactly the same policy to-day by means of our + separation orders, which are scattered broadcast among the + population. None of the couples thus separated--and never + disciplined to celibacy as are the Catholic clergy of to-day--may + marry again; we, in effect, bid the more scrupulous among them to + become celibates, and to the less scrupulous we grant permission + to do as they like. This process is carried on by virtue of the + collective inertia of the community, and when it is supported by + arguments, if that ever happens, they are of an antiquarian + character which can only call forth a pitying smile. + + It may be added that there is a further reason why the custom of + branding sexual variations from the norm as "immoral" is not so + harmless as some affect to believe: such variations appear to be + not uncommon among men and women of superlative ability whose + powers are needed unimpeded in the service of mankind. To attempt + to fit such persons into the narrow moulds which suit the + majority is not only an injustice to them as individuals, but it + is an offence against society, which may fairly claim that its + best members shall not be hampered in its service. The notion + that the person whose sexual needs differ from those of the + average is necessarily a socially bad person, is a notion + unsupported by facts. Every case must be judged on its own + merits. + +Undoubtedly the most common variation from normal monogamy has in all +stages of human culture been polygyny or the sexual union of one man with +more than one woman. It has sometimes been socially and legally +recognized, and sometimes unrecognized, but in either case it has not +failed to occur. Polyandry, or the union of a woman with more than one +man, has been comparatively rare and for intelligible reasons: men have +most usually been in a better position, economically and legally, to +organize a household with themselves as the centre; a woman is, unlike a +man, by nature and often by custom unfitted for intercourse for +considerable periods at a time; a woman, moreover, has her thoughts and +affections more concentrated on her children. Apart from this the +biological masculine traditions point to polygyny much more than the +feminine traditions point to polyandry. Although it is true that a woman +can undergo a much greater amount of sexual intercourse than a man, it +also remains true that the phenomena of courtship in nature have made it +the duty of the male to be alert in offering his sexual attention to the +female, whose part it has been to suspend her choice coyly until she is +sure of her preference. Polygynic conditions have also proved +advantageous, as they have permitted the most vigorous and successful +members of a community to have the largest number of mates and so to +transmit their own superior qualities. + + "Polygamy," writes Woods Hutchinson (_Contemporary Review_, Oct., + 1904), though he recognizes the advantages of monogamy, "as a + racial institution, among animals as among men, has many solid + and weighty considerations in its favor, and has resulted in + both human and pre-human times, in the production of a very high + type of both individual and social development." He points out + that it promotes intelligence, cooeperation, and division of + labor, while the keen competition for women weeds out the weaker + and less attractive males. + + Among our European ancestors, alike among Germans and Celts, + polygyny and other sexual forms existed as occasional variations. + Tacitus noted polygyny in Germany, and Caesar found in Britain + that brothers would hold their wives in common, the children + being reckoned to the man to whom the woman had been first given + in marriage (see, e.g., Traill's _Social England_, vol. i, p. + 103, for a discussion of this point). The husband's assistant, + also, who might be called in to impregnate the wife when the + husband was impotent, existed in Germany, and was indeed a + general Indo-Germanic institution (Schrader, _Reallexicon_, art. + "Zeugungshelfer"). The corresponding institution of the concubine + has been still more deeply rooted and widespread. Up to + comparatively modern times, indeed, in accordance with the + traditions of Roman law, the concubine held a recognized and + honorable position, below that of a wife but with definite legal + rights, though it was not always, or indeed usually, legal for a + married man to have a concubine. In ancient Wales, as well as in + Rome, the concubine was accepted and never despised (R.B. Holt, + "Marriage Laws of the Cymri," _Journal Anthropological + Institute_, Aug. and Nov., 1898, p. 155). The fact that when a + concubine entered the house of a married man her dignity and + legal position were less than those of the wife preserved + domestic peace and safeguarded the wife's interests. (A Korean + husband cannot take a concubine under his roof without his wife's + permission, but she rarely objects, and seems to enjoy the + companionship, says Louise Jordan Miln, _Quaint Korea_, 1895, p. + 92.) In old Europe, we must remember, as Dufour points out in + speaking of the time of Charlemagne (_Histoire de la + Prostitution_, vol. iii, p. 226), "concubine" was an honorable + term; the concubine was by no means a mistress, and she could be + accused of adultery just the same as a wife. In England, late in + the thirteenth century, Bracton speaks of the _concubina + legitima_ as entitled to certain rights and considerations, and + it was the same in other parts of Europe, sometimes for several + centuries later (see Lea, _History of Sacerdotal Celibacy_, vol. + i, p. 230). The early Christian Church was frequently inclined to + recognize the concubine, at all events if attached to an + unmarried man, for we may trace in the Church "the wish to look + upon every permanent union of man or woman as possessing the + character of a marriage in the eyes of God, and, therefore, in + the judgment of the Church" (art. "Concubinage," Smith and + Cheetham, _Dictionary of Christian Antiquities_). This was the + feeling of St. Augustine (who had himself, before his conversion, + had a concubine who was apparently a Christian), and the Council + of Toledo admitted an unmarried man who was faithful to a + concubine. As the law of the Catholic Church grew more and more + rigid, it necessarily lost touch with human needs. It was not so + in the early Church during the great ages of its vital growth. In + those ages even the strenuous general rule of monogamy was + relaxed when such relaxation seemed reasonable. This was so, for + instance, in the case of sexual impotency. Thus early in the + eighth century Gregory II, writing to Boniface, the apostle of + Germany, in answer to a question by the latter, replies that when + a wife is incapable from physical infirmity from fulfilling her + marital duties it is permissible for the husband to take a second + wife, though he must not withdraw maintenance from the first. A + little later Archbishop Egbert of York, in his _Dialogus de + Institutione Ecclesiastica_, though more cautiously, admits that + when one of two married persons is infirm the other, with the + permission of the infirm one, may marry again, but the infirm one + is not allowed to marry again during the other's life. Impotency + at the time of marriage, of course, made the marriage void + without the intervention of any ecclesiastical law. But Aquinas, + and later theologians, allow that an excessive disgust for a wife + justifies a man in regarding himself as impotent in relation to + her. These rules are, of course, quite distinct from the + permissions to break the marriage laws granted to kings and + princes; such permissions do not count as evidence of the + Church's rules, for, as the Council of Constantinople prudently + decided in 809, "Divine law can do nothing against Kings" (art. + "Bigamy," _Dictionary of Christian Antiquities_). The law of + monogamy was also relaxed in cases of enforced or voluntary + desertion. Thus the Council of Vermerie (752) enacted that if a + wife will not accompany her husband when he is compelled to + follow his lord into another land, he may marry again, provided + he sees no hope of returning. Theodore of Canterbury (688), + again, pronounces that if a wife is carried away by the enemy and + her husband cannot redeem her, he may marry again after an + interval of a year, or, if there is a chance of redeeming her, + after an interval of five years; the wife may do the same. Such + rules, though not general, show, as Meyrick points out (art. + "Marriage," _Dictionary of Christian Antiquities_), a willingness + "to meet particular cases as they arise." + + As the Canon law grew rigid and the Catholic Church lost its + vital adaptibility, sexual variations ceased to be recognized + within its sphere. We have to wait for the Reformation for any + further movement. Many of the early Protestant Reformers, + especially in Germany, were prepared to admit a considerable + degree of vital flexibility in sexual relationships. Thus Luther + advised married women with impotent husbands, in cases where + there was no wish or opportunity for divorce, to have sexual + relations with another man, by preference the husband's brother; + the children were to be reckoned to the husband ("Die Sexuelle + Frage bei Luther," _Mutterschutz_, Sept., 1908). + + In England the Puritan spirit, which so largely occupied itself + with the reform of marriage, could not fail to be concerned with + the question of sexual variations, and from time to time we find + the proposal to legalize polygyny. Thus, in 1658, "A Person of + Quality" published in London a small pamphlet dedicated to the + Lord Protector, entitled _A Remedy for Uncleanness_. It was in + the form of a number of queries, asking why we should not admit + polygamy for the avoidance of adultery and infanticide. The + writer inquires whether it may not "stand with a gracious spirit, + and be every way consistent with the principles of a man fearing + God and loving holiness, to have more women than one to his + proper use.... He that takes another man's ox or ass is doubtless + a transgressor; but he that puts himself out of the occasion of + that temptation by keeping of his own seems to be a right honest + and well-meaning man." + + More than a century later (1780), an able, learned, and + distinguished London clergyman of high character (who had been a + lawyer before entering the Church), the Rev. Martin Madan, also + advocated polygamy in a book called _Thelyphthora; or, a Treatise + on Female Ruin_. Madan had been brought into close contact with + prostitution through a chaplaincy at the Lock Hospital, and, like + the Puritan advocate of polygamy, he came to the conclusion that + only by the reform of marriage is it possible to work against + prostitution and the evils of sexual intercourse outside + marriage. His remarkable book aroused much controversy and strong + feeling against the author, so that he found it desirable to + leave London and settle in the country. Projects of marriage + reform have never since come from the Church, but from + philosophers and moralists, though not rarely from writers of + definitely religious character. Senancour, who was so delicate + and sensitive a moralist in the sexual sphere, introduced a + temperate discussion of polygamy into his _De l'Amour_ (vol. ii, + pp. 117-126). It seemed to him to be neither positively contrary + nor positively conformed to the general tendency of our present + conventions, and he concluded that "the method of conciliation, + in part, would be no longer to require that the union of a man + and a woman should only cease with the death of one of them." + Cope, the biologist, expressed a somewhat more decided opinion. + Under some circumstances, if all three parties agreed, he saw no + objection to polygyny or polyandry. "There are some cases of + hardship," he said, "which such permission would remedy. Such, + for instance, would be the case where the man or woman had become + the victim of a chronic disease; or, when either party should be + childless, and in other contingencies that could be imagined." + There would be no compulsion in any direction, and full + responsibility as at present. Such cases could only arise + exceptionally, and would not call for social antagonism. For the + most part, Cope remarks, "the best way to deal with polygamy is + to let it alone" (E.D. Cope, "The Marriage Problem," _Open + Court_, Nov. 15 and 22, 1888). In England, Dr. John Chapman, the + editor of the _Westminster Review_, and a close associate of the + leaders of the Radical movement in the Victorian period, was + opposed to State dictation as regards the form of marriage, and + believed that a certain amount of sexual variation would be + socially beneficial. Thus he wrote in 1884 (in a private letter): + "I think that as human beings become less selfish polygamy [i.e., + polygyny], and even polyandry, in an ennobled form, will become + increasingly frequent." + + James Hinton, who, a few years earlier, had devoted much thought + and attention to the sexual question, and regarded it as indeed + the greatest of moral problems, was strongly in favor of a more + vital flexibility of marriage regulations, an adaptation to human + needs such as the early Christian Church admitted. Marriage, he + declared, must be "subordinated to service," since marriage, like + the Sabbath, is made for man and not man for marriage. Thus in + case of one partner becoming insane he would permit the other + partner to marry again, the claim of the insane partner, in case + of recovery, still remaining valid. That would be a form of + polygamy, but Hinton was careful to point out that by "polygamy" + he meant "less a particular marriage-order than such an order as + best serves good, and which therefore must be essentially + variable. Monogamy may be good, even the only good order, if of + free choice; but a _law_ for it is another thing. The sexual + relationship must be a _natural_ thing. The true social life will + not be any fixed and definite relationship, as of monogamy, + polygamy, or anything else, but a perfect subordination of every + sexual relationship whatever to reason and human good." + + Ellen Key, who is an enthusiastic advocate of monogamy, and who + believes that the civilized development of personal love removes + all danger of the growth of polygamy, still admits the existence + of variations. She has in mind such solutions of difficult + problems as Goethe had before him when he proposed at first in + his _Stella_ to represent the force of affection and tender + memories as too strong to admit of the rupture of an old bond in + the presence of a new bond. The problem of sexual variation, she + remarks, however (_Liebe und Ethik_, p. 12), has changed its form + under modern conditions; it is no longer a struggle between the + demand of society for a rigid marriage-order and the demand of + the individual for sexual satisfaction, but it has become the + problem of harmonizing the ennoblement of the race with + heightened requirements of erotic happiness. She also points out + that the existence of a partner who requires the other partner's + care as a nurse or as an intellectual companion by no means + deprives that other partner of the right to fatherhood or + motherhood, and that such rights must be safeguarded (Ellen Key, + _Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, pp. 166-168). + + A prominent and extreme advocate of polygyny, not as a simple + rare variation, but as a marriage order superior to monogamy, is + to be found at the present day in Professor Christian von + Ehrenfels of Prague (see, e.g., his _Sexualethik_, 1908; "Die + Postulate des Lebens," _Sexual-Probleme_, Oct., 1908; and letter + to Ellen Key in her _Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 466). Ehrenfels + believes that the number of men inapt for satisfactory + reproduction is much larger than that of women, and that + therefore when these are left out of account, a polygynic + marriage order becomes necessary. He calls this + "reproduction-marriage" (Zeugungsehe), and considers that it will + entirely replace the present marriage order, to which it is + morally superior. It would be based on private contracts. + Ehrenfels holds that women would offer no objection, as a woman, + he believes, attaches less importance to a man as a wooer than as + the father of her child. Ehrenfels's doctrine has been seriously + attacked from many sides, and his proposals are not in the line + of our progress. Any radical modification of the existing + monogamic order is not to be expected, even if it were generally + recognized, which cannot be said to be the case, that it is + desirable. The question of sexual variations, it must be + remembered, is not a question of introducing an entirely new form + of marriage, but only of recognizing the rights of individuals, + in exceptional cases, to adopt such aberrant forms, and of + recognizing the corresponding duties of such individuals to + accept the responsibilities of any aberrant marriage forms they + may find it best to adopt. So far as the question of sexual + variations is more than this, it is, as Hinton argued, a + dynamical method of working towards the abolition of the perilous + and dangerous promiscuity of prostitution. A rigid marriage order + involves prostitution; a flexible marriage order largely--though + not, it may be, entirely--renders prostitution unnecessary. The + democratic morality of the present day, so far as the indications + at present go, is opposed to the encouragement of a _quasi_-slave + class, with diminished social rights, such as prostitutes always + constitute in a more or less marked degree. It is fairly evident, + also, that the rapidly growing influence of medical hygiene is on + the same side. We may, therefore, reasonably expect in the future + a slow though steady increase in the recognition, and even the + extension, of those variations of the monogamic order which have, + in reality, never ceased to exist. + +It is lamentable that at this period of the world's history, nearly two +thousand years after the wise legislators of Rome had completed their +work, it should still be necessary to conclude that we are to-day only +beginning to place marriage on a reasonable and humane basis. I have +repeatedly pointed out how largely the Canon law has been responsible for +this arrest of development. One may say, indeed, that the whole attitude +of the Church, after it had once acquired complete worldly dominance, +must be held responsible. In the earlier centuries the attitude of +Christianity was, on the whole, admirable. It held aloft great ideals but +it refrained from enforcing those ideals at all costs; thus its ideals +remained genuine and could not degenerate into mere hypocritical empty +forms; much flexibility was allowed when it seemed to be for human good +and made for the avoidance of evil and injustice. But when the Church +attained temporal power, and when that power was concentrated in the hands +of Popes who subordinated moral and religious interests to political +interests, all the claims of reason and humanity were flung to the winds. +The ideal was no more a fact than it was before, but it was now treated as +a fact. Human relationships remained what they were before, as complicated +and as various, but henceforth one rigid pattern, admirable as an ideal +but worse than empty as a form, was arbitrarily set up, and all deviations +from it treated either as non-existent or damnable. The vitality was +crushed out of the most central human institutions, and they are only +to-day beginning to lift their heads afresh. + +If--to sum up--we consider the course which the regulation of marriage has +run during the Christian era, the only period which immediately concerns +us, it is not difficult to trace the main outlines. Marriage began as a +private arrangement, which the Church, without being able to control, was +willing to bless, as it also blessed many other secular affairs of men, +making no undue attempt to limit its natural flexibility to human needs. +Gradually and imperceptibly, however, without the medium of any law, +Christianity gained the complete control of marriage, cooerdinated it with +its already evolved conceptions of the evil of lust, of the virtue of +chastity, of the mortal sin of fornication, and, having through the +influence of these dominating conceptions limited the flexibility of +marriage in every possible direction, it placed it on a lofty but narrow +pedestal as the sacrament of matrimony. For reasons which by no means lay +in the nature of the sexual relationships, but which probably seemed +cogent to sacerdotal legislators who assimilated it to ordination, +matrimony was declared indissoluble. Nothing was so easy to enter as the +gate of matrimony, but, after the manner of a mouse-trap, it opened +inwards and not outwards; once in there was no way out alive. The Church's +regulation of marriage while, like the celibacy of the clergy, it was a +success from the point of view of ecclesiastical politics, and even at +first from the point of view of civilization, for it at least introduced +order into a chaotic society, was in the long run a failure from the point +of view of society and morals. On the one hand it drifted into absurd +subtleties and quibbles; on the other, not being based on either reason or +humanity, it had none of that vital adaptability to the needs of life, +which early Christianity, while holding aloft austere ideals, still +largely retained. On the side of tradition this code of marriage law +became awkward and impracticable; on the biological side it was hopelessly +false. The way was thus prepared for the Protestant reintroduction of the +conception of marriage as a contract, that conception being, however, +brought forward less on its merits than as a protest against the +difficulties and absurdities of the Catholic Canon law. The contractive +view, which still largely persists even to-day, speedily took over much of +the Canon law doctrines of marriage, becoming in practice a kind of +reformed and secularized Canon law. It was somewhat more adapted to modern +needs, but it retained much of the rigidity of the Catholic marriage +without its sacramental character, and it never made any attempt to become +more than nominally contractive. It has been of the nature of an +incongruous compromise and has represented a transitional phase towards +free private marriage. We can recognize that phase in the tendency, well +marked in all civilized lands, to an ever increasing flexibility of +marriage. The idea, and even the fact, of marriage by consent and divorce +by failure of that consent, which we are now approaching, has never indeed +been quite extinct. In the Latin countries it has survived with the +tradition of Roman law; in the English-speaking countries it is bound up +with the spirit of Puritanism which insists that in the things that +concern the individual alone the individual himself shall be the supreme +judge. That doctrine as applied to marriage was in England magnificently +asserted by the genius of Milton, and in America it has been a leaven +which is still working in marriage legislation towards an inevitable goal +which is scarcely yet in sight. The marriage system of the future, as it +moves along its present course, will resemble the old Christian system in +that it will recognize the sacred and sacramental character of the sexual +relationship, and it will resemble the civil conception in that it will +insist that marriage, so far as it involves procreation, shall be publicly +registered by the State. But in opposition to the Church it will recognize +that marriage, in so far as it is purely a sexual relationship, is a +private matter the conditions of which must be left to the persons who +alone are concerned in it; and in opposition to the civil theory it will +recognize that marriage is in its essence a fact and not a contract, +though it may give rise to contracts, so long as such contracts do not +touch that essential fact. And in one respect it will go beyond either the +ecclesiastical conception or the civil conception. Man has in recent times +gained control of his own procreative powers, and that control involves a +shifting of the centre of gravity of marriage, in so far as marriage is an +affair of the State, from the vagina to the child which is the fruit of +the womb. Marriage as a state institution will centre, not around the +sexual relationship, but around the child which is the outcome of that +relationship. In so far as marriage is an inviolable public contract it +will be of such a nature that it will be capable of automatically covering +with its protection every child that is born into the world, so that every +child may possess a legal mother and a legal father. On the one side, +therefore, marriage is tending to become less stringent; on the other side +it is tending to become more stringent. On the personal side it is a +sacred and intimate relationship with which the State has no concern; on +the social side it is the assumption of the responsible public sponsorship +of a new member of the State. Some among us are working to further one of +these aspects of marriage, some to further the other aspect. Both are +indispensable to establish a perfect harmony. It is necessary to hold the +two aspects of marriage apart, in order to do equal justice to the +individual and to society, but in so far as marriage approaches its ideal +state those two aspects become one. + +We have now completed the discussion of marriage as it presents itself to +the modern man born in what in mediaeval days was called Christendom. It is +not an easy subject to discuss. It is indeed a very difficult subject, and +only after many years is it possible to detect the main drift of its +apparently opposing and confused currents when one is oneself in the midst +of them. To an Englishman it is, perhaps, peculiarly difficult, for the +Englishman is nothing if not insular; in that fact lie whatever virtues he +possesses, as well as their reverse sides.[374] + +Yet it is worth while to attempt to climb to a height from which we can +view the stream of social tendency in its true proportions and estimate +its direction. It is necessary to do so if we value our mental peace in an +age when men's minds are agitated by many petty movements which have +nothing to do with their great temporal interests, to say nothing of their +eternal interests. When we have attained a wide vision of the solid +biological facts of life, when we have grasped the great historical +streams of tradition,--which together make up the map of human +affairs,--we can face serenely the little social transitions which take +place in our own age, as they have taken place in every age. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[312] Rosenthal, of Breslau, from the legal side, goes so far as to argue +("Grundfragen des Eheproblems," _Die Neue Generation_, Dec., 1908), that +the intention of procreation is essential to the conception of legal +marriage. + +[313] J.A. Godfrey, _Science of Sex_, p. 119. + +[314] E.D. Cope, "The Marriage Problem," _Open Court_, Nov., 1888. + +[315] See _ante_, p. 395. + +[316] Waechter, _Eheschiedungen_, pp. 95 et seq.; Esmein, _Marriage en +Droit Canonique_, vol. i, p. 6; Howard, _History of Matrimonial +Institutions_, vol. ii, p. 15. Howard (in agreement with Lecky) considers +that the freedom of divorce was only abused by a small section of the +Roman population, and that such abuse, so far as it existed, was not the +cause of any decline of Roman morals. + +[317] The opinions of the Christian Fathers were very varied, and they +were sometimes doubtful about them; see, e.g., the opinions collected by +Cranmer and enumerated by Burnet, _History of Reformation_ (ed. Nares), +vol. ii, p. 91. + +[318] Constantine, the first Christian Emperor, enacted a strict and +peculiar divorce law (allowing a wife to divorce her husband only when he +was a homicide, a poisoner, or a violator of sepulchres), which could not +be maintained. In 497, therefore, Anastasius decreed divorce by mutual +consent. This was abolished by Justinian, who only allowed divorce for +various specified causes, among them, however, including the husband's +adultery. These restrictions proved unworkable, and Justinian's successor +and nephew, Justin, restored divorce by mutual consent. Finally, in 870, +Leo the Philosopher returned to Justinian's enactment (see, e.g., Smith +and Cheetham, _Dictionary of Christian Antiquities_, arts. "Adultery" and +"Marriage"). + +[319] The element of reverence in the early German attitude towards women +and the privileges which even the married woman enjoyed, so far as Tacitus +can be considered a reliable guide, seem to have been the surviving +vestiges of an earlier social state on a more matriarchal basis. They are +most distinct at the dawn of German history. From the first, however, +though divorce by mutual consent seems to have been possible, German +custom was pitiless to the married woman who was unfaithful, sterile, or +otherwise offended, though for some time after the introduction of +Christianity it was no offence for the German husband to commit adultery +(Westermarck, _Origin of the Moral Ideas_, vol. ii, p. 453). + +[320] "This form of marriage," says Hobhouse (op. cit., vol. i, p. 156), +"is intimately associated with the extension of marital power." Cf. +Howard, op. cit., vol. i, p. 231. The very subordinate position of the +mediaeval German woman is set forth by Hagelstange, _Sueddeutsches +Bauernleben in Mittelalter_, 1898, pp. 70 et seq. + +[321] Howard, op. cit., vol. i, p. 259; Smith and Cheetham, _Dictionary of +Christian Antiquities_, art. _Arrhae_. It would appear, however, that the +"bride-sale," of which Tacitus speaks, was not strictly the sale of a +chattel nor of a slave-girl, but the sale of the _mund_ or protectorship +over the girl. It is true the distinction may not always have been clear +to those who took part in the transaction. Similarly the Anglo-Saxon +betrothal was not so much a payment of the bride's price to her kinsmen, +although as a matter of fact, they might make a profit out of the +transaction, as a covenant stipulating for the bride's honorable treatment +as wife and widow. Reminiscences of this, remark Pollock and Maitland (op. +cit., vol. ii, p. 364), may be found in "that curious cabinet of +antiquities, the marriage ritual of the English Church." + +[322] Howard, op. cit., vol. i, pp. 278-281, 386. The _Arrha_ crept into +Roman and Byzantine law during the sixth century. + +[323] J. Wickham Legg, _Ecclesiological Essays_, p. 189. It may be added +that the idea of the subordination of the wife to the husband appeared in +the Christian Church at a somewhat early period, and no doubt +independently of Germanic influences; St. Augustine said (Sermo XXXVII, +cap. vi) that a good _materfamilias_ must not be ashamed to call herself +her husband's servant (_ancilla_). + +[324] See, e.g., L. Gautier, _La Chevalerie_, Ch. IX. + +[325] Howard, op. cit., vol. i, pp. 293 et seq.; Esmein, _op. cit._, vol. +i, pp. 25 et seq.; Smith and Cheetham, _Dictionary of Christian +Antiquities_ art. "Contract of Marriage." + +[326] Any later changes in Catholic Canon law have merely been in the +direction of making matrimony still narrower and still more remote from +the practice of the world. By a papal decree of 1907, civil marriages and +marriages in non-Catholic places of worship are declared to be not only +sinful and unlawful (which they were before), but actually null and void. + +[327] E.S.P. Haynes, _Our Divorce Law_, p. 3. + +[328] It was the Council of Trent, in the sixteenth century, which made +ecclesiastical rites essential to binding marriage; but even then +fifty-six prelates voted against that decision. + +[329] Esmein, op. cit., vol. i, p. 91. + +[330] It is sometimes said that the Catholic Church is able to diminish +the evils of its doctrine of the indissolubility of marriage by the number +of impediments to marriage it admits, thus affording free scope for +dispensations from marriage. This scarcely seems to be the case. Dr. P.J. +Hayes, who speaks with authority as Chancellor of the Catholic Archdiocese +of New York, states ("Impediments to Marriage in the Catholic Church," +_North American Review_, May, 1905) that even in so modern and so mixed a +community as this there are few applications for dispensations on account +of impediments; there are 15,000 Catholic marriages per annum in New York +City, but scarcely five per annum are questioned as to validity, and these +chiefly on the ground of bigamy. + +[331] The Canonists, say Pollock and Maitland (loc. cit.), "made a +capricious mess of the marriage law." "Seldom," says Howard (_op. cit._, +vol i, p. 340), "have mere theory and subtle quibbling had more disastrous +consequences in practical life than in the case of the distinction between +_sponsalia de praesenti_ and _de futuro_." + +[332] Howard, op. cit., vol. i, pp. 386 et seq. On the whole, however, +Luther's opinion was that marriage, though a sacred and mysterious thing, +is not a sacrament; his various statements on the matter are brought +together by Strampff, _Luther ueber die Ehe_, pp. 204-214. + +[333] Howard, op. cit., vol. ii, pp. 61 et seq. + +[334] Probably as a result of the somewhat confused and incoherent +attitude of the Reformers, the Canon law of marriage, in a modified form, +really persisted in Protestant countries to a greater extent than in +Catholic countries; in France, especially, it has been much more +profoundly modified (Esmein, op. cit., vol. i, p. 33). + +[335] The Quaker conception of marriage is still vitally influential. +"Why," says Mrs. Besant (_Marriage_, p. 19), "should not we take a leaf +out of the Quaker's book, and substitute for the present legal forms of +marriage a simple declaration publicly made?" + +[336] Howard, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 456. The actual practice in +Pennsylvania appears, however, to differ little from that usual in the +other States. + +[337] Howard, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 109. "It is, indeed, wonderful," +Howard remarks, "that a great nation, priding herself on a love of equity +and social liberty, should thus for five generations tolerate an invidious +indulgence, rather than frankly and courageously to free herself from the +shackles of an ecclesiastical tradition." + +[338] "The enforced continuance of an unsuccessful union is perhaps the +most immoral thing which a civilized society ever countenanced, far less +encouraged," says Godfrey (_Science of Sex_, p. 123). "The morality of a +union is dependent upon mutual desire, and a union dictated by any other +cause is outside the moral pale, however custom may sanction it, or +religion and law condone it." + +[339] Adultery in most savage and barbarous societies is regarded, in the +words of Westermarck, as "an illegitimate appropriation of the exclusive +claims which the husband has acquired by the purchase of his wife, as an +offence against property;" the seducer is, therefore, punished as a thief, +by fine, mutilation, even death (_Origin of the Moral Ideas_, vol. ii, pp. +447 et seq.; id., _History of Human Marriage_, p. 121). Among some peoples +it is the seducer who alone suffers, and not the wife. + +[340] It is sometimes said in defence of the claim for damages for +seducing a wife that women are often weak and unable to resist masculine +advances, so that the law ought to press heavily on the man who takes +advantage of that weakness. This argument seems a little antiquated. The +law is beginning to accept the responsibility even of married women in +other respects, and can scarcely refuse to accept it for the control of +her own person. Moreover, if it is so natural for the woman to yield, it +is scarcely legitimate to punish the man with whom she has performed that +natural act. It must further be said that if a wife's adultery is only an +irresponsible feminine weakness, a most undue brutality is inflicted on +her by publicly demanding her pecuniary price from her lover. If, indeed, +we accept this argument, we ought to reintroduce the mediaeval girdle of +chastity. + +[341] Howard, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 114. + +[342] This rule is, in England, by no means a dead letter. Thus, in 1907, +a wife who had left her home, leaving a letter stating that her husband +was not the father of her child, subsequently brought an action for +divorce, which, as the husband made no defence, she obtained. But, the +King's Proctor having learnt the facts, the decree was rescinded. Then the +husband brought an action for divorce, but could not obtain it, having +already admitted his own adultery by leaving the previous case undefended. +He took the matter up to the Court of Appeal, but his petition was +dismissed, the Court being of opinion that "to grant relief in such a case +was not in the interest of public morality." The safest way in England to +render what is legally termed marriage absolutely indissoluble is for both +parties to commit adultery. + +[343] Magnus Hirschfeld, _Zeitschrift fuer Sexualwissenschaft_, Oct., 1908. + +[344] H. Adner, "Die Richterliche Beurteilung der 'Zerruetteten' Ehe," +_Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Bd. ii, Teil 8. + +[345] Gross-Hoffinger, _Die Schichsale der Frauen und die Prostitution_, +1847; Bloch presents a full summary of the results of this inquiry in an +_Appendix_ to Ch. X of his _Sexual Life of Our Times_. + +[346] Divorce in the United States is fully discussed by Howard, op. cit., +vol. iii. + +[347] H. Muensterberg, _The Americans_, p. 575. Similarly, Dr. Felix Adler, +in a study of "The Ethics of Divorce" (_The Ethical Record_, 1890, p. +200), although not himself an admirer of divorce, believes that the first +cause of the frequency of divorce in the United States is the high +position of women. + +[348] In an important article, with illustrative cases, on "The +Neuro-psychical Element in Conjugal Aversion" (_Journal of Nervous and +Mental Diseases_, Sept., 1892) Smith Baker refers to the cases in which "a +man may find himself progressively becoming antipathetic, through +recognition of the comparatively less developed personality of the one to +whom he happens to be married. Marrying, perhaps, before he has learned to +accurately judge of character and its tendencies, he awakens to the fact +that he is honorably bound to live all his physiological life with, not a +real companion, but a mere counterfeit." The cases are still more +numerous, the same writer observes, in which the sexual appetite of the +wife fails to reveal itself except as the result of education and +practice. "This sort of natural-unnatural condition is the source of much +disappointment, and of intense suffering on the part of the woman as well +as of family dissatisfaction." Yet such causes for divorce are far too +complex to be stated in statute-books, and far too intimate to be pleaded +in courts of justice. + +[349] Ten years ago, if not still, the United States came fourth in order +of frequency of divorce, after Japan, Denmark, and Switzerland. + +[350] Lecky, the historian of European morals, has pointed out (_Democracy +and Liberty_, vol. ii, p. 172) the close connection generally between +facility of divorce and a high standard of sexual morality. + +[351] So, e.g., Hobhouse, _Morals in Evolution_, vol. i, p. 237. + +[352] In England this step was taken in the reign of Henry VII, when the +forcible marriage of women against their will was forbidden by statute (3 +Henry VII, c. 2). Even in the middle of the seventeenth century, however, +the question of forcible marriage had again to be dealt with (_Inderwick_, +Interregnum, pp. 40 et seq.). + +[353] Woods Hutchinson (_Contemporary Review_, Sept., 1905) argues that +when there is epilepsy, insanity, moral perversion, habitual drunkenness, +or criminal conduct of any kind, divorce, for the sake of the next +generation, should be not permissive but compulsory. Mere divorce, +however, would not suffice to attain the ends desired. + +[354] Similarly in Germany, Wanda von Sacher-Masoch, who had suffered much +from marriage, whatever her own defects of character may have been, writes +at the end of _Meine Lebensbeichte_ that "as long as women have not the +courage to regulate, without State-interference or Church-interference, +relationships which concern themselves alone, they will not be free." In +place of this old decayed system of marriage so opposed to our modern +thoughts and feelings, she would have private contracts made by a lawyer. +In England, at a much earlier period, Charles Kingsley, who was an ardent +friend to women's movements, and whose feeling for womanhood amounted +almost to worship, wrote to J.S. Mill: "There will never be a good world +for women until the last remnant of the Canon law is civilized off the +earth." + +[355] "No fouler institution was ever invented," declared Auberon Herbert +many years ago, expressing, before its time, a feeling which has since +become more common; "and its existence drags on, to our deep shame, +because we have not the courage frankly to say that the sexual relations +of husband and wife, or those who live together, concern their own selves, +and do not concern the prying, gloating, self-righteous, and intensely +untruthful world outside." + +[356] Hobhouse, op. cit. vol. i, p. 237. + +[357] The same conception of marriage as a contract still persists to some +extent also in the United States, whither it was carried by the early +Protestants and Puritans. No definition of marriage is indeed usually laid +down by the States, but, Howard says (op. cit., vol. ii, p. 395), "in +effect matrimony is treated as a relation partaking of the nature of both +status and contract." + +[358] This point of view has been vigorously set forth by Paul and Victor +Margueritte, _Quelques Idees_. + +[359] I may remark that this was pointed out, and its consequences +vigorously argued, many years ago by C.G. Garrison, "Limits of Divorce," +_Contemporary Review_, Feb., 1894. "It may safely be asserted," he +concludes, "that marriage presents not one attribute or incident of +anything remotely resembling a contract, either in form, remedy, +procedure, or result; but that in all these aspects, on the contrary, it +is fatally hostile to the principles and practices of that division of the +rights of persons." Marriage is not contract, but conduct. + +[360] See, e.g., P. and V. Margueritte, op. cit. + +[361] As quoted by Howard, op. cit., vol. ii, p. 29. + +[362] Ellen Key similarly (_Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 343) remarks that to +talk of "the duty of life-long fidelity" is much the same as to talk of +"the duty of life-long health." A man may promise, she adds, to do his +best to preserve his life, or his love; he cannot unconditionally +undertake to preserve them. + +[363] Hobhouse, op. cit., vol. 1, pp. 159, 237-9; cf. P. and V. +Margueritte, _Quelques Idees_. + +[364] "Divorce," as Garrison puts it ("Limits of Divorce," _Contemporary +Review_, Feb., 1894), "is the judicial announcement that conduct once +connubial in character and purpose, has lost these qualities.... Divorce +is a question of fact, and not a license to break a promise." + +[365] See, _ante_, p. 425. + +[366] It has been necessary to discuss reproduction in the first chapter +of the present volume, and it will again be necessary in the concluding +chapter. Here we are only concerned with procreation as an element of +marriage. + +[367] Nietzold, _Die Ehe in AEgypten zur Ptolemaeisch-roemischen Zeit_, 1903, +p. 3. This bond also accorded rights to any children that might be born +during its existence. + +[368] See, e.g., Ellen Key, _Mutter und Kind_, p. 21. The necessity for +the combination of greater freedom of sexual relationships with greater +stringency of parental relationships was clearly realized at an earlier +period by another able woman writer, Miss J.H. Clapperton, in her notable +book, _Scientific Meliorism_, published in 1885. "Legal changes," she +wrote (p. 320), "are required in two directions, viz., towards greater +freedom as to marriage and greater strictness as to parentage. The +marriage union is essentially a private matter with which society has no +call and no right to interfere. Childbirth, on the contrary, is a public +event. It touches the interests of the whole nation." + +[369] Ellen Key, _Liebe und Ehe_, p. 168; cf. the same author's _Century +of the Child_. + +[370] In Germany alone 180,000 "illegitimate" children are born every +year, and the number is rapidly increasing; in England it is only 40,000 +per annum, the strong feeling which often exists against such births in +England (as also in France) leading to the wide adoption of methods for +preventing conception. + +[371] "Where are real monogamists to be found?" asked Schopenhauer in his +essay, "Ueber die Weibe." And James Hinton was wont to ask: "What is the +meaning of maintaining monogamy? Is there any chance of getting it, I +should like to know? Do you call English life monogamous?" + +[372] "Almost everywhere," says Westermarck of polygyny (which he +discusses fully in Chs. XX-XXII of his _History of Human Marriage_) "it is +confined to the smaller part of the people, the vast majority being +monogamous." Maurice Gregory (_Contemporary Review_, Sept., 1906) gives +statistics showing that nearly everywhere the tendency is towards equality +in number of the sexes. + +[373] In a polygamous land a man is of course as much bound by his +obligations to his second wife as to his first. Among ourselves the man's +"second wife" is degraded with the name of "mistress," and the worse he +treats her and her children the more his "morality" is approved, just as +the Catholic Church, when struggling to establish sacerdotal celibacy, +approved more highly the priest who had illegitimate relations with women +than the priest who decently and openly married. If his neglect induces a +married man's mistress to make known her relationship to him the man is +justified in prosecuting her, and his counsel, assured of general +sympathy, will state in court that "this woman has even been so wicked as +to write to the prosecutor's wife!" + +[374] Howard, in his judicial _History of Matrimonial Institutions_ (vol. +ii. pp. 96 et seq.), cannot refrain from drawing attention to the almost +insanely wild character of the language used in England not so many years +ago by those who opposed marriage with a deceased wife's sister, and he +contrasts it with the much more reasonable attitude of the Catholic +Church. "Pictures have been drawn," he remarks, "of the moral anarchy such +marriages must produce, which are read by American, Colonial, and +Continental observers with a bewilderment that is not unmixed with +disgust, and are, indeed, a curious illustration of the extreme insularity +of the English mind." So recently as A.D. 1908 a bill was brought into the +British House of Lords proposing that desertion without cause for two +years shall be a ground for divorce, a reasonable and humane measure which +is law in most parts of the civilized world. The Lord Chancellor (Lord +Loreburn), a Liberal, and in the sphere of politics an enlightened and +sagacious leader, declared that such a proposal was "absolutely +impossible." The House rejected the proposal by 61 votes to 2. Even the +marriage decrees of the Council of Trent were not affirmed by such an +overwhelming majority. In matters of marriage legislation England has +scarcely yet emerged from the Middle Ages. + + + + +CHAPTER XI. + +THE ART OF LOVE. + +Marriage Not Only for Procreation--Theologians on the _Sacramentum +Solationis_--Importance of the _Art of Love_--The Basis of Stability in +Marriage and the Condition for Right Procreation--The Art of Love the +Bulwark Against Divorce--The Unity of Love and Marriage a Principle of +Modern Morality--Christianity and the Art of Love--Ovid--The Art of Love +Among Primitive Peoples--Sexual Initiation in Africa and Elsewhere--The +Tendency to Spontaneous Development of the Art of Love in Early +Life--Flirtation--Sexual Ignorance in Women--The Husband's Place in Sexual +Initiation--Sexual Ignorance in Men--The Husband's Education for +Marriage--The Injury Done by the Ignorance of Husbands--The Physical and +Mental Results of Unskilful Coitus--Women Understand the Art of Love +Better Than Men--Ancient and Modern Opinions Concerning Frequency of +Coitus--Variation in Sexual Capacity--The Sexual Appetite--The Art of Love +Based on the Biological Facts of Courtship--The Art of Pleasing Women--The +Lover Compared to the Musician--The Proposal as a Part of +Courtship--Divination in the Art of Love--The Importance of the +Preliminaries in Courtship--The Unskilful Husband Frequently the Cause of +the Frigid Wife--The Difficulty of Courtship--Simultaneous Orgasm--The +Evils of Incomplete Gratification in Women--Coitus Interruptus--Coitus +Reservatus--The Human Method of Coitus--Variations in Coitus--Posture in +Coitus--The Best Time for Coitus--The Influence of Coitus in Marriage--The +Advantages of Absence in Marriage--The Risks of Absence--Jealousy--The +Primitive Function of Jealousy--Its Predominance Among Animals, Savages, +etc., and in Pathological States--An Anti-Social Emotion--Jealousy +Incompatible with the Progress of Civilization--The Possibility of Loving +More Than One Person at a Time--Platonic Friendship--The Conditions Which +Make It Possible--The Maternal Element in Woman's Love--The Final +Development of Conjugal Love--The Problem of Love One of the Greatest of +Social Questions. + + +It will be clear from the preceding discussion that there are two elements +in every marriage so far as that marriage is complete. On the one hand +marriage is a union prompted by mutual love and only sustainable as a +reality, apart from its mere formal side, by the cultivation of such love. +On the other hand marriage is a method for propagating the race and +having its end in offspring. In the first aspect its aim is erotic, in the +second parental. Both these ends have long been generally recognized. We +find them set forth, for instance, in the marriage service of the Church +of England, where it is stated that marriage exists both for "the mutual +society, help and comfort that the one ought to have of the other," and +also for "the procreation of children." Without the factor of mutual love +the proper conditions for procreation cannot exist; without the factor of +procreation the sexual union, however beautiful and sacred a relationship +it may in itself be, remains, in essence, a private relationship, +incomplete as a marriage and without public significance. It becomes +necessary, therefore, to supplement the preceding discussion of marriage +in its general outlines by a final and more intimate consideration of +marriage in its essence, as embracing the art of love and the science of +procreation. + + There has already been occasion from time to time to refer to + those who, starting from various points of view, have sought to + limit the scope of marriage and to suppress one or other of its + elements. (See e.g., _ante_, p. 135.) + + In modern times the tendency has been to exclude the factor of + procreation, and to regard the relationship of marriage as + exclusively lying in the relationship of the two parties to each + other. Apart from the fact, which it is unnecessary again to call + attention to, that, from the public and social point of view, a + marriage without children, however important to the two persons + concerned, is a relationship without any public significance, it + must further be said that, in the absence of children, even the + personal erotic life itself is apt to suffer, for in the normal + erotic life, especially in women, sexual love tends to grow into + parental love. Moreover, the full development of mutual love and + dependence is with difficulty attained, and there is absence of + that closest of bonds, the mutual cooeperation of two persons in + producing a new person. The perfect and complete marriage in its + full development is a trinity. + + Those who seek to eliminate the erotic factor from marriage as + unessential, or at all events as only permissible when strictly + subordinated to the end of procreation, have made themselves + heard from time to time at various periods. Even the ancients, + Greeks and Romans alike, in their more severe moments advocated + the elimination of the erotic element from marriage, and its + confinement to extra-marital relationships, that is so far as men + were concerned; for the erotic needs of married women they had no + provision to make. Montaigne, soaked in classic traditions, has + admirably set forth the reasons for eliminating the erotic + interest from marriage: "One does not marry for oneself, whatever + may be said; a man marries as much, or more, for his posterity, + for his family; the usage and interest of marriage touch our race + beyond ourselves.... Thus it is a kind of incest to employ, in + this venerable and sacred parentage, the efforts and the + extravagances of amorous license" (_Essais_, Bk. i, Ch. XXIX; Bk. + iii, Ch. V). This point of view easily commended itself to the + early Christians, who, however, deliberately overlooked its + reverse side, the establishment of erotic interests outside + marriage. "To have intercourse except for procreation," said + Clement of Alexandria (_Paedagogus_, Bk. ii, Ch. X), "is to do + injury to Nature." While, however, that statement is quite true + of the lower animals, it is not true of man, and especially not + true of civilized man, whose erotic needs are far more developed, + and far more intimately associated with the finest and highest + part of the organism, than is the case among animals generally. + For the animal, sexual desire, except when called forth by the + conditions involved by procreative necessities, has no existence. + It is far otherwise in man, for whom, even when the question of + procreation is altogether excluded, sexual love is still an + insistent need, and even a condition of the finest spiritual + development. The Catholic Church, therefore, while regarding with + admiration a continence in marriage which excluded sexual + relations except for the end of procreation, has followed St. + Augustine in treating intercourse apart from procreation with + considerable indulgence, as only a venial sin. Here, however, the + Church was inclined to draw the line, and it appears that in 1679 + Innocent XI condemned the proposition that "the conjugal act, + practiced for pleasure alone, is exempt even from venial sin." + + Protestant theologians have been inclined to go further, and + therein they found some authority even in Catholic writers. John + a Lasco, the Catholic Bishop who became a Protestant and settled + in England during Edward VI's reign, was following many mediaeval + theologians when he recognized the _sacramentum solationis_, in + addition to _proles_, as an element of marriage. Cranmer, in his + marriage service of 1549, stated that "mutual help and comfort," + as well as procreation, enter into the object of marriage + (Wickham Legg, _Ecclesiological Essays_, p. 204; Howard, + _Matrimonial Institutions_, vol. i, p. 398). Modern theologians + speak still more distinctly. "The sexual act," says Northcote + (_Christianity and Sex Problems_, p. 55), "is a love act. Duly + regulated, it conduces to the ethical welfare of the individual + and promotes his efficiency as a social unit. The act itself and + its surrounding emotions stimulate within the organism the + powerful movements of a vast psychic life." At an earlier period + also, Schleiermacher, in his _Letters on Lucinde_, had pointed + out the great significance of love for the spiritual development + of the individual. + + Edward Carpenter truly remarks, in _Love's Coming of Age_, that + sexual love is not only needed for physical creation, but also + for spiritual creation. Bloch, again, in discussing this question + (_The Sexual Life of Our Time_, Ch. VI) concludes that "love and + the sexual embrace have not only an end in procreation, they + constitute an end in themselves, and are necessary for the life, + development, and inner growth of the individual himself." + +It is argued by some, who admit mutual love as a constituent part of +marriage, that such love, once recognized at the outset, may be taken for +granted, and requires no further discussion; there is, they believe, no +art of love to be either learnt or taught; it comes by nature. Nothing +could be further from the truth, most of all as regards civilized man. +Even the elementary fact of coitus needs to be taught. No one could take a +more austerely Puritanic view of sexual affairs than Sir James Paget, and +yet Paget (in his lecture on "Sexual Hypochondriasis") declared that +"Ignorance about sexual affairs seems to be a notable characteristic of +the more civilized part of the human race. Among ourselves it is certain +that the method of copulating needs to be taught, and that they to whom it +is not taught remain quite ignorant about it." Gallard, again, remarks +similarly (in his _Clinique des Maladies des Femmes_) that young people, +like Daphnis in Longus's pastoral, need a beautiful Lycenion to give them +a solid education, practical as well as theoretical, in these matters, and +he considers that mothers should instruct their daughters at marriage, and +fathers their sons. Philosophers have from time to time recognized the +gravity of these questions and have discoursed concerning them; thus +Epicurus, as Plutarch tells us,[375] would discuss with his disciples +various sexual matters, such as the proper time for coitus; but then, as +now, there were obscurantists who would leave even the central facts of +life to the hazards of chance or ignorance, and these presumed to blame +the philosopher. + +There is, however, much more to be learnt in these matters than the mere +elementary facts of sexual intercourse. The art of love certainly includes +such primary facts of sexual hygiene, but it involves also the whole +erotic discipline of marriage, and that is why its significance is so +great, for the welfare and happiness of the individual, for the stability +of sexual unions, and indirectly for the race, since the art of love is +ultimately the art of attaining the right conditions for procreation. + +"It seems extremely probable," wrote Professor E.D. Cope,[376] "that if +this subject could be properly understood, and become, in the details of +its practical conduct, a part of a written social science, the monogamic +marriage might attain a far more general success than is often found in +actual life." There can be no doubt whatever that this is the case. In the +great majority of marriages success depends exclusively upon the knowledge +of the art of love possessed by the two persons who enter into it. A +life-long monogamic union may, indeed, persist in the absence of the +slightest inborn or acquired art of love, out of religious resignation or +sheer stupidity. But that attitude is now becoming less common. As we have +seen in the previous chapter, divorces are becoming more frequent and more +easily obtainable in every civilized country. This is a tendency of +civilization; it is the result of a demand that marriage should be a real +relationship, and that when it ceases to be real as a relationship it +should also cease as a form. That is an inevitable tendency, involved in +our growing democratization, for the democracy seems to care more for +realities than for forms, however venerable. We cannot fight against it; +and we should be wrong to fight against it even if we could. + +Yet while we are bound to aid the tendency to divorce, and to insist that +a valid marriage needs the wills of two persons to maintain it, it is +difficult for anyone to argue that divorce is in itself desirable. It is +always a confession of failure. Two persons, who, if they have been moved +in the slightest degree by the normal and regular impulse of sexual +selection, at the outset regarded each other as lovable, have, on one +side or the other or on both, proved not lovable. There has been a failure +in the fundamental art of love. If we are to counterbalance facility of +divorce our only sound course is to increase the stability of marriage, +and that is only possible by cultivating the art of love, the primal +foundation of marriage. + +It is by no means unnecessary to emphasize this point. There are still +many persons who have failed to realize it. There are even people who seem +to imagine that it is unimportant whether or not pleasure is present in +the sexual act. "I do not believe mutual pleasure in the sexual act has +any particular bearing on the happiness of life," once remarked Dr. Howard +A. Kelly.[377] Such a statement means--if indeed it means anything--that +the marriage tie has no "particular bearing" on human happiness; it means +that the way must be freely opened to adultery and divorce. Even the most +perverse ascetic of the Middle Ages scarcely ventured to make a statement +so flagrantly opposed to the experiences of humanity, and the fact that a +distinguished gynecologist of the twentieth century can make it, with +almost the air of stating a truism, is ample justification for the +emphasis which it has nowadays become necessary to place on the art of +love. "Uxor enim dignitatis nomen est, non voluptatis," was indeed an +ancient Pagan dictum. But it is not in harmony with modern ideas. It was +not even altogether in harmony with Christianity. For our modern morality, +as Ellen Key well says, the unity of love and marriage is a fundamental +principle.[378] + +The neglect of the art of love has not been a universal phenomenon; it is +more especially characteristic of Christendom. The spirit of ancient Rome +undoubtedly predisposed Europe to such a neglect, for with their rough +cultivation of the military virtues and their inaptitude for the finer +aspects of civilization the Romans were willing to regard love as a +permissible indulgence, but they were not, as a people, prepared to +cultivate it as an art. Their poets do not, in this matter, represent the +moral feeling of their best people. It is indeed a highly significant +fact that Ovid, the most distinguished Latin poet who concerned himself +much with the art of love, associated that art not so much with morality +as with immorality. As he viewed it, the art of love was less the art of +retaining a woman in her home than the art of winning her away from it; it +was the adulterer's art rather than the husband's art. Such a conception +would be impossible out of Europe, but it proved very favorable to the +growth of the Christian attitude towards the art of love. + + Love as an art, as well as a passion, seems to have received + considerable study in antiquity, though the results of that study + have perished. Cadmus Milesius, says Suidas, wrote fourteen great + volumes on the passion of love, but they are not now to be found. + Rohde (_Das Griechische Roman_, p. 55) has a brief section on the + Greek philosophic writers on love. Bloch (_Beitraege zur + Psychopathia Sexualis_, Teil I, p. 191) enumerates the ancient + women writers who dealt with the art of love. Montaigne + (_Essais_, liv. ii, Ch. V) gives a list of ancient classical lost + books on love. Burton (_Anatomy of Melancholy_, Bell's edition, + vol. iii, p. 2) also gives a list of lost books on love. Burton + himself dealt at length with the manifold signs of love and its + grievous symptoms. Boissier de Sauvages, early in the eighteenth + century, published a Latin thesis, _De Amore_, discussing love + somewhat in the same spirit as Burton, as a psychic disease to be + treated and cured. + + The breath of Christian asceticism had passed over love; it was + no longer, as in classic days, an art to be cultivated, but only + a malady to be cured. The true inheritor of the classic spirit in + this, as in many other matters, was not the Christian world, but + the world of Islam. _The Perfumed Garden_ of the Sheik Nefzaoui + was probably written in the city of Tunis early in the sixteenth + century by an author who belonged to the south of Tunis. Its + opening invocation clearly indicates that it departs widely from + the conception of love as a disease: "Praise be to God who has + placed man's greatest pleasures in the natural parts of woman, + and has destined the natural parts of man to afford the greatest + enjoyments to woman." The Arabic book, _El Ktab_, or "The Secret + Laws of Love," is a modern work, by Omer Haleby Abu Othman, who + was born in Algiers of a Moorish mother and a Turkish father. + +For Christianity the permission to yield to the sexual impulse at all was +merely a concession to human weakness, an indulgence only possible when it +was carefully hedged and guarded on every side. Almost from the first the +Christians began to cultivate the art of virginity, and they could not so +dislocate their point of view as to approve of the art of love. All their +passionate adoration in the sphere of sex went out towards chastity. +Possessed by such ideals, they could only tolerate human love at all by +giving to one special form of it a religious sacramental character, and +even that sacramental halo imparted to love a quasi-ascetic character +which precluded the idea of regarding love as an art.[379] Love gained a +religious element but it lost a moral element, since, outside +Christianity, the art of love is part of the foundation of sexual +morality, wherever such morality in any degree exists. In Christendom love +in marriage was left to shift for itself as best it might; the art of love +was a dubious art which was held to indicate a certain commerce with +immorality and even indeed to be itself immoral. That feeling was +doubtless strengthened by the fact that Ovid was the most conspicuous +master in literature of the art of love. His literary reputation--far +greater than it now seems to us[380]--gave distinction to his position as +the author of the chief extant text-book of the art of love. With Humanism +and the Renaissance and the consequent realization that Christianity had +overlooked one side of life, Ovid's _Ars Amatoria_ was placed on a +pedestal it had not occupied before or since. It represented a step +forward in civilization; it revealed love not as a mere animal instinct or +a mere pledged duty, but as a complex, humane, and refined relationship +which demanded cultivation; "_arte regendus amor_." Boccaccio made a wise +teacher put Ovid's _Ars Amatoria_ into the hands of the young. In an age +still oppressed by the mediaeval spirit, it was a much needed text-book, +but it possessed the fatal defect, as a text-book, of presenting the +erotic claims of the individual as divorced from the claims of good social +order. It never succeeded in establishing itself as a generally accepted +manual of love, and in the eyes of many it served to stamp the subject it +dealt with as one that lies outside the limits of good morals. + +When, however, we take a wider survey, and inquire into the discipline for +life that is imparted to the young in many parts of the world, we shall +frequently find that the art of love, understood in varying ways, is an +essential part of that discipline. Summary, though generally adequate, as +are the educational methods of primitive peoples, they not seldom include +a training in those arts which render a woman agreeable to a man and a man +agreeable to a woman in the relationship of marriage, and it is often more +or less dimly realized that courtship is not a mere preliminary to +marriage, but a biologically essential part of the marriage relationship +throughout. + + Sexual initiation is carried out very thoroughly in Azimba land, + Central Africa. H. Crawford Angus, the first European to visit + the Azimba people, lived among them for a year, and has described + the Chensamwali, or initiation ceremony, of girls. "At the first + sign of menstruation in a young girl, she is taught the mysteries + of womanhood, and is shown the different positions for sexual + intercourse. The vagina is handled freely, and if not previously + enlarged (which may have taken place at the harvest festival when + a boy and girl are allowed to 'keep house' during the day-time by + themselves, and when quasi-intercourse takes place) it is now + enlarged by means of a horn or corn-cob, which is inserted and + secured in place by bands of bark cloth. When all signs [of + menstruation] have passed, a public announcement of a dance is + given to the women in the village. At this dance no men are + allowed to be present, and it was only with a great deal of + trouble that I managed to witness it. The girl to be 'danced' is + led back from the bush to her mother's hut where she is kept in + solitude to the morning of the dance. On that morning she is + placed on the ground in a sitting position, while the dancers + form a ring around her. Several songs are then sung with + reference to the genital organs. The girl is then stripped and + made to go through the mimic performance of sexual intercourse, + and if the movements are not enacted properly, as is often the + case when the girl is timid and bashful, one of the older women + will take her place and show her how she is to perform. Many + songs about the relation between men and women are sung, and the + girl is instructed as to all her duties when she becomes a wife. + She is also instructed that during the time of her menstruation + she is unclean, and that during her monthly period she must close + her vulva with a pad of fibre used for the purpose. The object of + the dance is to inculcate to the girl the knowledge of married + life. The girl is taught to be faithful to her husband and to try + to bear children, and she is also taught the various arts and + methods of making herself seductive and pleasing to her husband, + and of thus retaining him in her power." (H. Crawford Angus, "The + Chensamwali," _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1898, Heft 6, p. + 479). + + In Abyssinia, as well as on the Zanzibar coast, according to + Stecker (quoted by Ploss-Bartels, _Das Weib_, Section 119) young + girls are educated in buttock movements which increase their + charm in coitus. These movements, of a rotatory character, are + called Duk-Duk. To be ignorant of Duk-Duk is a great disgrace to + a girl. Among the Swahili women of Zanzibar, indeed, a complete + artistic system of hip-movements is cultivated, to be displayed + in coitus. It prevails more especially on the coast, and a + Swahili woman is not counted a "lady" (bibi) unless she is + acquainted with this art. From sixty to eighty young women + practice this buttock dance together for some eight hours a day, + laying aside all clothing, and singing the while. The public are + not admitted. The dance, which is a kind of imitation of coitus, + has been described by Zache ("Sitten und Gebraeuche der Suaheli," + _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1899, Heft 2-3, p. 72). The more + accomplished dancers excite general admiration. During the latter + part of this initiation various feats are imposed, to test the + girl's skill and self-control. For instance, she must dance up to + a fire and remove from the midst of the fire a vessel full of + water to the brim, without spilling it. At the end of three + months the training is over, and the girl goes home in festival + attire. She is now eligible for marriage. Similar customs are + said to prevail in the Dutch East Indies and elsewhere. + + The Hebrews had erotic dances, which were doubtless related to + the art of love in marriage, and among the Greeks, and their + disciples the Romans, the conception of love as an art which + needs training, skill, and cultivation, was still extant. That + conception was crushed by Christianity which, although it + sanctified the institution of matrimony, degraded that sexual + love which is normally the content of marriage. + + In 1176 the question was brought before a Court of Love by a + baron and lady of Champagne, whether love is compatible with + marriage. "No," said the baron, "I admire and respect the sweet + intimacy of married couples, but I cannot call it love. Love + desires obstacles, mystery, stolen favors. Now husbands and wives + boldly avow their relationship; they possess each other without + contradiction and without reserve. It cannot then be love that + they experience." And after mature deliberation the ladies of the + Court of Love adopted the baron's conclusions (E. de la + Bedolliere, _Histoire des Moeurs des Francais_, vol. iii, p. + 334). There was undoubtedly an element of truth in the baron's + arguments. Yet it may well be doubted whether in any + non-Christian country it would ever have been possible to obtain + acceptance for the doctrine that love and marriage are + incompatible. This doctrine was, however, as Ribot points out in + his _Logique des Sentiments_, inevitable, when, as among the + medieval nobility, marriage was merely a political or domestic + treaty and could not, therefore, be a method of moral elevation. + + "Why is it," asked Retif de la Bretonne, towards the end of the + eighteenth century, "that girls who have no morals are more + seductive and more loveable than honest women? It is because, + like the Greek courtesans to whom grace and voluptuousness were + taught, they have studied the art of pleasing. Among the foolish + detractors of my _Contemporaines_, not one guessed the + philosophic aim of nearly everyone of these tales, which is to + suggest to honest women the ways of making themselves loved. I + should like to see the institution of initiations, such as those + of the ancients.... To-day the happiness of the human species is + abandoned to chance; all the experience of women is individual, + like that of animals; it is lost with those women who, being + naturally amiable, might have taught others to become so. + Prostitutes alone make a superficial study of it, and the lessons + they receive are, for the most part, as harmful as those of + respectable Greek and Roman matrons were holy and honorable, only + tending to wantonness, to the exhaustion alike of the purse and + of the physical faculties, while the aim of the ancient matrons + was the union of husband and wife and their mutual attachment + through pleasure. The Christian religion annihilated the + Mysteries as infamous, but we may regard that annihilation as one + of the wrongs done by Christianity to humanity, as the work of + men with little enlightenment and bitter zeal, dangerous puritans + who were the natural enemies of marriage" (Retif de la Bretonne, + _Monsieur Nicolas_, reprint of 1883, vol. x, pp. 160-3). It may + be added that Duehren (Dr. Iwan Bloch) regards Retif as "a master + in the _Ars Amandi_," and discusses him from this point of view + in his _Retif de la Bretonne_ (pp. 362-371). + +Whether or not Christianity is to be held responsible, it cannot be +doubted that throughout Christendom there has been a lamentable failure to +recognize the supreme importance, not only erotically but morally, of the +art of love. Even in the great revival of sexual enlightenment now taking +place around us there is rarely even the faintest recognition that in +sexual enlightenment the one thing essentially necessary is a knowledge of +the art of love. For the most part, sexual instruction as at present +understood, is purely negative, a mere string of thou-shalt-nots. If that +failure were due to the conscious and deliberate recognition that while +the art of love must be based on physiological and psychological +knowledge, it is far too subtle, too complex, too personal, to be +formulated in lectures and manuals, it would be reasonable and sound. But +it seems to rest entirely on ignorance, indifference, or worse. + +Love-making is indeed, like other arts, an art that is partly natural--"an +art that nature makes"--and therefore it is a natural subject for learning +and exercising in play. Children left to themselves tend, both playfully +and seriously, to practice love, alike on the physical and the psychic +sides.[381] But this play is on its physical side sternly repressed by +their elders, when discovered, and on its psychic side laughed at. Among +the well-bred classes it is usually starved out at an early age. + +After puberty, if not before, there is another form in which the art of +love is largely experimented and practised, especially in England and +America, the form of flirtation. In its elementary manifestations flirting +is entirely natural and normal; we may trace it even in animals; it is +simply the beginning of courtship, at the early stage when courtship may +yet, if desired, be broken off. Under modern civilized conditions, +however, flirtation is often more than this. These conditions make +marriage difficult; they make love and its engagements too serious a +matter to be entered on lightly; they make actual sexual intercourse +dangerous as well as disreputable. Flirtation adapts itself to these +conditions. Instead of being merely the preliminary stage of normal +courtship, it is developed into a form of sexual gratification as complete +as due observation of the conditions already mentioned will allow. In +Germany, and especially in France where it is held in great abhorrence, +this is the only form of flirtation known; it is regarded as an +exportation from the United States and is denominated "flirtage." Its +practical outcome is held to be the "demi-vierge," who knows and has +experienced the joys of sex while yet retaining her hymen intact. + + This degenerate form of flirtation, cultivated not as a part of + courtship, but for its own sake, has been well described by Forel + (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, pp. 97-101). He defines it as including + "all those expressions of the sexual instinct of one individual + towards another individual which excite the other's sexual + instinct, coitus being always excepted." In the beginning it may + be merely a provocative look or a simple apparently unintentional + touch or contact; and by slight gradations it may pass on to + caresses, kisses, embraces, and even extend to pressure or + friction of the sexual parts, sometimes leading to orgasm. Thus, + Forel mentions, a sensuous woman by the pressure of her garments + in dancing can produce ejaculation in her partner. Most usually + the process is that voluptuous contact and revery which, in + English slang, is called "spooning." From first to last there + need not be any explicit explanations, proposals, or declarations + on either side, and neither party is committed to any + relationship with the other beyond the period devoted to + flirtage. In one form, however, flirtage consists entirely in the + excitement of a conversation devoted to erotic and indecorous + topics. Either the man or the woman may take the active part in + flirtage, but in a woman more refinement and skill is required to + play the active part without repelling the man or injuring her + reputation. Indeed, much the same is true of men also, for women, + while they often like flirting, usually prefer its more refined + forms. There are infinite forms of flirtage, and while as a + preliminary part of courtship, it has its normal place and + justification, Forel concludes that "as an end in itself, and + never passing beyond itself, it is a phenomenon of degeneration." + + From the French point of view, flirtage and flirtation generally + have been discussed by Madame Bentzon ("Family Life in America," + _Forum_, March, 1896) who, however, fails to realize the natural + basis of flirtation in courtship. She regards it as a sin against + the law "Thou shalt not play with love," for it ought to have the + excuse of an irresistible passion, but she thinks it is + comparatively inoffensive in America (though still a + deteriorating influence on the women) on account of the + temperament, education, and habits of the people. It must, + however, be remembered that play has a proper relationship to all + vital activities, and that a reasonable criticism of flirtation + is concerned rather with its normal limitations than with its + right to exist (see the observations on the natural basis of + coquetry and the ends it subserves in "The Evolution of Modesty" + in volume i of these _Studies_). + +While flirtation in its natural form--though not in the perverted form of +"flirtage"--has sound justification, alike as a method of testing a lover +and of acquiring some small part of the art of love, it remains an +altogether inadequate preparation for love. This is sufficiently shown by +the frequent inaptitude for the art of love, and even for the mere +physical act of love, so frequently manifested both by men and women in +the very countries where flirtation most flourishes. + +This ignorance, not merely of the art of love but even of the physical +facts of sexual love, is marked not only in women, especially women of the +middle class, but also in men, for the civilized man, as Fritsch long ago +remarked, often knows less of the facts of the sexual life than a +milkmaid. It shows itself differently, however, in the two sexes. + +Among women sexual ignorance ranges from complete innocence of the fact +that it involves any intimate bodily relationship at all to +misapprehensions of the most various kind; some think that the +relationship consists in lying side by side, many that intercourse takes +place at the navel, not a few that the act occupies the whole night. It +has been necessary in a previous chapter to discuss the general evils of +sexual ignorance; it is here necessary to refer to its more special evils +as regards the relationship of marriage. Girls are educated with the vague +idea that they will marry,--quite correctly, for the majority of them do +marry,--but the idea that they must be educated for the career that will +naturally fall to their lot is an idea which as yet has never seemed to +occur to the teachers of girls. Their heads are crammed to stupidity with +the knowledge of facts which it is no one's concern to know, but the +supremely important training for life they are totally unable to teach. +Women are trained for nearly every avocation under the sun; for the +supreme avocation of wifehood and motherhood they are never trained at +all! + +It may be said, and with truth, that the present incompetent training of +girls is likely to continue so long as the mothers of girls are content to +demand nothing better. It may also be said, with even greater truth, that +there is much that concerns the knowledge of sexual relationships which +the mother herself may most properly impart to her daughter. It may +further be asserted, most unanswerably, that the art of love, with which +we are here more especially concerned, can only be learnt by actual +experience, an experience which our social traditions make it difficult +for a virtuous girl to acquire with credit. Without here attempting to +apportion the share of blame which falls to each cause, it remains +unfortunate that a woman should so often enter marriage with the worst +possible equipment of prejudices and misapprehensions, even when she +believes, as often happens, that she knows all about it. Even with the +best equipment, a woman, under present conditions, enters marriage at a +disadvantage. She awakes to the full realization of love more slowly than +a man, and, on the average, at a later age, so that her experiences of the +life of sex before marriage have usually been of a much more restricted +kind than her husband's.[382] So that even with the best preparation, it +often happens that it is not until several years after marriage that a +woman clearly realizes her own sexual needs and adequately estimates her +husband's ability to satisfy those needs. We cannot over-estimate the +personal and social importance of a complete preparation for marriage, and +the greater the difficulties placed in the way of divorce the more weight +necessarily attaches to that preparation.[383] + + Everyone is probably acquainted with many cases of the extreme + ignorance of women on entering marriage. The following case + concerning a woman of twenty-seven, who had been asked in + marriage, is somewhat extreme, but not very exceptional. "She did + not feel sure of her affection and she asked a woman cousin + concerning the meaning of love. This cousin lent her Ellis + Ethelmer's pamphlet, _The Human Flower_. She learnt from this + that men desired the body of a woman, and this so appalled her + that she was quite ill for several days. The next time her lover + attempted a caress she told him that it was 'lust.' Since then + she has read George Moore's _Sister Teresa_, and the knowledge + that 'women can be as bad as men' has made her sad." The + "Histories" contained in the Appendices to previous volumes of + these _Studies_ reveal numerous instances of the deplorable + ignorance of young girls concerning the most central facts of the + sexual life. It is not surprising, under such circumstances, that + marriage leads to disillusionment or repulsion. + + It is commonly said that the duty of initiating the wife into the + privileges and obligations of marriage properly belongs to the + husband. Apart, however, altogether from the fact that it is + unjust to a woman to compel her to bind herself in marriage + before she has fully realized what marriage means, it must also + be said that there are many things necessary for women to know + that it is unreasonable to expect a husband to explain. This is, + for instance, notably the case as regards the more fatiguing and + exhausting effects of coitus on a man as compared with a woman. + The inexperienced bride cannot know beforehand that the + frequently repeated orgasms which render her vigorous and radiant + exert a depressing effect on her husband, and his masculine pride + induces him to attempt to conceal that fact. The bride, in her + innocence, is unconscious that her pleasure is bought at her + husband's expense, and that what is not excess to her, may be a + serious excess to him. The woman who knows (notably, for + instance, a widow who remarries) is careful to guard her + husband's health in this respect, by restraining her own ardor, + for she realizes that a man is not willing to admit that he is + incapable of satisfying his wife's desires. (G. Hirth has also + pointed out how important it is that women should know before + marriage the natural limits of masculine potency, _Wege zur + Liebe_, p. 571.) + +The ignorance of women of all that concerns the art of love, and their +total lack of preparation for the natural facts of the sexual life, would +perhaps be of less evil augury for marriage if it were always compensated +by the knowledge, skill, and considerateness of the husband. But that is +by no means always the case. Within the ordinary range we find, at all +events in England, the large group of men whose knowledge of women before +marriage has been mainly confined to prostitutes, and the important and +not inconsiderable group of men who have had no intimate intercourse with +women, their sexual experiences having been confined to masturbation or +other auto-erotic manifestations, and to flirtation. Certainly the man of +sensitive and intelligent temperament, whatever his training or lack of +training, may succeed with patience and consideration in overcoming all +the difficulties placed in the way of love by the mixture of ignorances +and prejudices which so often in woman takes the place of an education for +the erotic part of her life. But it cannot be said that either of these +two groups of men has been well equipped for the task. The training and +experience which a man receives from a prostitute, even under fairly +favorable conditions, scarcely form the right preparation for approaching +a woman of his own class who has no intimate erotic experiences.[384] The +frequent result is that he is liable to waver between two opposite courses +of action, both of them mistaken. On the one hand, he may treat his bride +as a prostitute, or as a novice to be speedily moulded into the sexual +shape he is most accustomed to, thus running the risk either of perverting +or of disgusting her. On the other hand, realizing that the purity and +dignity of his bride place her in an altogether different class from the +women he has previously known, he may go to the opposite extreme of +treating her with an exaggerated respect, and so fail either to arouse or +to gratify her erotic needs. It is difficult to say which of these two +courses of action is the more unfortunate; the result of both, however, is +frequently found to be that a nominal marriage never becomes a real +marriage.[385] + +Yet there can be no doubt whatever that the other group of men, the men +who enter marriage without any erotic experiences, run even greater risks. +These are often the best of men, both as regards personal character and +mental power. It is indeed astonishing to find how ignorant, both +practically and theoretically, very able and highly educated men may be +concerning sexual matters. + + "Complete abstinence during youth," says Freud (_Sexual-Probleme_, + March, 1908), "is not the best preparation for marriage in + a young man. Women divine this and prefer those of their + wooers who have already proved themselves to be men with + other women." Ellen Key, referring to the demand sometimes made + by women for purity in men (_Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 96), asks + whether women realize the effect of their admiration of the + experienced and confident man who knows women, on the shy and + hesitating youth, "who perhaps has been struggling hard for his + erotic purity, in the hope that a woman's happy smile will be the + reward of his conquest, and who is condemned to see how that + woman looks down on him with lofty compassion and gazes with + admiration at the leopard's spots." When the lover, in Laura + Marholm's _Was war es_? says to the heroine, "I have never yet + touched a woman," the girl "turns from him with horror, and it + seemed to her that a cold shudder went through her, a chilling + deception." The same feeling is manifested in an exaggerated form + in the passion often experienced by vigorous girls of eighteen to + twenty-four for old roues. (This has been discussed by Forel, + _Die Sexuelle Frage_, pp. 217 et seq.) + + Other factors may enter in a woman's preference for the man who + has conquered other women. Even the most religious and moral + young woman, Valera remarks (_Dona Luz_, p. 205), likes to marry + a man who has loved many women; it gives a greater value to his + choice of her; it also offers her an opportunity of converting + him to higher ideals. No doubt when the inexperienced man meets + in marriage the equally inexperienced woman they often succeed in + adapting themselves to each other and a permanent _modus vivendi_ + is constituted. But it is by no means so always. If the wife is + taught by instinct or experience she is apt to resent the + awkwardness and helplessness of her husband in the art of love. + Even if she is ignorant she may be permanently alienated and + become chronically frigid, through the brutal inconsiderateness + of her ignorant husband in carrying out what he conceives to be + his marital duties. (It has already been necessary to touch on + this point in discussing "The Sexual Impulse in Women" in vol. + iii of these _Studies_.) Sometimes, indeed, serious physical + injury has been inflicted on the bride owing to this ignorance of + the husband. + + "I take it that most men have had pre-matrimonial + sex-relationships," a correspondent writes. "But I have known one + man at least who, up till the age of twenty, had not even a + rudimentary idea of sex matters. At twenty-nine, a few months + before marriage, he came to ask me how coitus was performed, and + displayed an ignorance that I could not believe to exist in the + mind of an otherwise intelligent man. He had evidently no + instinct to guide him, as the brutes have, and his reason was + unable to supply the necessary knowledge. It is very curious that + man should lose this instinctive knowledge. I have known another + man almost equally ignorant. He also came to me for advice in + marital duties. Both of these men masturbated, and they were + normally passionate." Such cases are not so very rare. Usually, + however, a certain amount of information has been acquired from + some for the most part unsatisfactory source, and the ignorance + is only partial, though not on that account less dangerous. + + Balzac has compared the average husband to an orang-utan trying + to play the violin. "Love, as we instinctively feel, is the most + melodious of harmonies. Woman is a delicious instrument of + pleasure, but it is necessary to know its quivering strings, + study the pose of it, its timid keyboard, the changing and + capricious fingering. How many orangs--men, I mean, marry without + knowing what a woman is!... Nearly all men marry in the most + profound ignorance of women and of love" (Balzac, _Physiologie du + Mariage_, Meditation VII). + + Neugebauer (_Monatsschrift fuer Geburtshuelfe_, 1889, Bk. ix, pp. + 221 et seq.) has collected over one hundred and fifty cases of + injury to women in coitus inflicted by the penis. The causes were + brutality, drunkenness of one or both parties, unusual position + in coitus, disproportion of the organs, pathological conditions + of the woman's organs (Cf. R.W. Taylor, _Practical Treatise on + Sexual Disorders_, Ch. XXXV). Blumreich also discusses the + injuries produced by violent coitus (Senator and Kaminer, _Health + and Disease in Relation to Marriage_, vol. ii, pp. 770-779). C.M. + Green (_Boston Medical and Surgical Journal_, 13 Ap., 1893) + records two cases of rupture of vagina by sexual intercourse in + newly-married ladies, without evidence of any great violence. + Mylott (_British Medical Journal_, Sept. 16, 1899) records a + similar case occurring on the wedding night. The amount of force + sometimes exerted in coitus is evidenced by the cases, occurring + from time to time, in which intercourse takes place by the + urethra. + + Eulenburg finds (_Sexuale Neuropathie_, p. 69) that vaginismus, a + condition of spasmodic contraction of the vulva and exaggerated + sensibility on the attempt to effect coitus, is due to forcible + and unskilful attempts at the first coitus. Adler (_Die + Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes_, p. 160) also + believes that the scarred remains of the hymen, together with + painful memories of a violent first coitus, are the most frequent + cause of vaginismus. + + The occasional cases, however, of physical injury or of + pathological condition produced by violent coitus at the + beginning of marriage constitute but a very small portion of the + evidence which witnesses to the evil results of the prevalent + ignorance regarding the art of love. As regards Germany, + Fuerbringer writes (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in + Relation to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 215): "I am perfectly satisfied + that the number of young married women who have a lasting painful + recollection of their first sexual intercourse exceeds by far the + number of those who venture to consult a doctor." As regards + England, the following experience is instructive: A lady asked + six married women in succession, privately, on the same day + concerning their bridal experiences. To all, sexual intercourse + had come as a shock; two had been absolutely ignorant about + sexual matters; the others had thought they knew what coitus was, + but were none the less shocked. These women were of the middle + class, perhaps above the average in intelligence; one was a + doctor. + + Breuer and Freud, in their _Studien ueber Hysterie_ (p. 216), + pointed out that the bridal night is practically often a rape, + and that it sometimes leads to hysteria, which is not cured until + satisfying sexual relationships are established. Even when there + is no violence, Kisch (_Sexual Life of Woman_, Part II) regards + awkward and inexperienced coitus, leading to incomplete + excitement of the wife, as the chief cause of dyspareunia, or + absence of sexual gratification, although gross disproportion in + the size of the male and female organs, or disease in either + party, may lead to the same result. Dyspareunia, Kisch adds, is + astonishingly frequent, though sometimes women complain of it + without justification in order to arouse sympathy for themselves + as sacrifices on the altar of marriage; the constant sign is + absence of ejaculation on the woman's part. Kisch also observes + that wedding night deflorations are often really rapes. One young + bride, known to him, was so ignorant of the physical side of + love, and so overwhelmed by her husband's first attempt at + intercourse, that she fled from the house in the night, and + nothing would ever persuade her to return to her husband. (It is + worth noting that by Canon law, under such circumstances, the + Church might hold the marriage invalid. See Thomas Slater's + _Moral Theology_, vol. ii, p. 318, and a case in point, both + quoted by Rev. C.J. Shebbeare, "Marriage Law in the Church of + England," _Nineteenth Century_, Aug., 1909, p. 263.) Kisch + considers, also, that wedding tours are a mistake; since the + fatigue, the excitement, the long journeys, sight-seeing, false + modesty, bad hotel arrangements, often combine to affect the + bride unfavorably and produce the germs of serious illness. This + is undoubtedly the case. + + The extreme psychic importance of the manner in which the act of + defloration is accomplished is strongly emphasized by Adler. He + regards it as a frequent cause of permanent sexual anaesthesia. + "This first moment in which the man's individuality attains its + full rights often decides the whole of life. The unskilled, + over-excited husband can then implant the seed of feminine + insensibility, and by continued awkwardness and coarseness + develop it into permanent anaesthesia. The man who takes + possession of his rights with reckless brutal masculine force + merely causes his wife anxiety and pain, and with every + repetition of the act increases her repulsion.... A large + proportion of cold-natured women represent a sacrifice by men, + due either to unconscious awkwardness, or, occasionally, to + conscious brutality towards the tender plant which should have + been cherished with peculiar art and love, but has been robbed of + the splendor of its development. All her life long, a wistful and + trembling woman will preserve the recollection of a brutal + wedding night, and, often enough, it remains a perpetual source + of inhibition every time that the husband seeks anew to gratify + his desires without adapting himself to his wife's desires for + love" (O. Adler, _Die Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung des + Weibes_, pp. 159 et seq., 181 et seq.). "I have seen an honest + woman shudder with horror at her husband's approach," wrote + Diderot long ago in his essay "Sur les Femmes"; "I have seen her + plunge in the bath and feel herself never sufficiently washed + from the stain of duty." The same may still be said of a vast + army of women, victims of a pernicious system of morality which + has taught them false ideas of "conjugal duty" and has failed to + teach their husbands the art of love. + +Women, when their fine natural instincts have not been hopelessly +perverted by the pruderies and prejudices which are so diligently +instilled into them, understand the art of love more readily than men. +Even when little more than children they can often completely take the cue +that is given to them. Much more than is the case with men, at all events +under civilized conditions, the art of love is with them an art that +Nature makes. They always know more of love, as Montaigne long since said, +than men can teach them, for it is a discipline that is born in their +blood.[386] + + The extensive inquiries of Sanford Bell (loc. cit.) show that the + emotions of sex-love may appear as early as the third year. It + must also be remembered that, both physically and psychically, + girls are more precocious, more mature, than boys (see, e.g., + Havelock Ellis, _Man and Woman_, fourth edition, pp. 34 _et + seq._, 200, etc.). Thus, by the time she has reached the age of + puberty a girl has had time to become an accomplished mistress of + the minor arts of love. That the age of puberty is for girls the + age of love seems to be widely recognized by the popular mind. + Thus in a popular song of Bresse a girl sings:-- + + "J'ai calcule mon age, + J'ai quatorze a quinze ans. + Ne suis-je pas dans l'age + D'y avoir un amant?" + + This matter of the sexual precocity of girls has an important + bearing on the question of the "age of consent," or the age at + which it should be legal for a girl to consent to sexual + intercourse. Until within the last twenty-five years there has + been a tendency to set a very low age (even as low as ten) as the + age above which a man commits no offence in having sexual + intercourse with a girl. In recent years there has been a + tendency to run to the opposite and equally unfortunate extreme + of raising it to a very late age. In England, by the Criminal Law + Amendment Act of 1885, the age of consent was raised to sixteen + (this clause of the bill being carried in the House of Commons by + a majority of 108). This seems to be the reasonable age at which + the limit should be set and its extreme high limit in temperate + climates. It is the age recognized by the Italian Criminal Code, + and in many other parts of the civilized world. Gladstone, + however, was in favor of raising it to eighteen, and Howard, in + discussing this question as regards the United States + (_Matrimonial Institutions_, vol. iii, pp. 195-203), thinks it + ought everywhere to be raised to twenty-one, so coinciding with + the age of legal majority at which a woman can enter into + business or political relations. There has been, during recent + years, a wide limit of variation in the legislation of the + different American States on this point, the differences of the + two limits being as much as eight years, and in some important + States the act of intercourse with a girl under eighteen is + declared to be "rape," and punishable with imprisonment for life. + + Such enactments as these, however, it must be recognized, are + arbitrary, artificial, and unnatural. They do not rest on a sound + biological basis, and cannot be enforced by the common sense of + the community. There is no proper analogy between the age of + legal majority which is fixed, approximately, with reference to + the ability to comprehend abstract matters of intelligence, and + the age of sexual maturity which occurs much earlier, both + physically and psychically, and is determined in women by a very + precise biological event: the completion of puberty in the onset + of menstruation. Among peoples living under natural conditions in + all parts of the world it is recognized that a girl becomes + sexually a woman at puberty; at that epoch she receives her + initiation into adult life and becomes a wife and a mother. To + declare that the act of intercourse with a woman who, by the + natural instinct of mankind generally, is regarded as old enough + for all the duties of womanhood, is a criminal act of rape, + punishable by imprisonment for life, can only be considered an + abuse of language, and, what is worse, an abuse of law, even if + we leave all psychological and moral considerations out of the + question, for it deprives the conception of rape of all that + renders it naturally and properly revolting. + + The sound view in this question is clearly the view that it is + the girl's puberty which constitutes the criterion of the man's + criminality in sexually approaching her. In the temperate regions + of Europe and North America the average age of the appearance of + menstruation, the critical moment in the establishment of + complete puberty, is fifteen (see, e.g., Havelock Ellis, _Man and + Woman_, Ch. XI; the facts are set forth at length in Kisch's + _Sexual Life of Woman_, 1909). Therefore it is reasonable that + the act of an adult man in having sexual connection with a girl + under sixteen, with or without her consent, should properly be a + criminal act, severely punishable. In those lands where the + average age of puberty is higher or lower, the age of consent + should be raised or lowered accordingly. (Bruno Meyer, arguing + against any attempt to raise the age of consent above sixteen, + considers that the proper age of consent is generally fourteen, + for, as he rightly insists, the line of division is between the + ripe and the unripe personality, and while the latter should be + strictly preserved from the sphere of sexuality, only voluntary, + not compulsory, influence should be brought to bear on the + former. _Sexual-Probleme_, Ap., 1909.) + + If we take into our view the wider considerations of psychology, + morality, and law, we shall find ample justification for this + point of view. We have to remember that a girl, during all the + years of ordinary school life, is always more advanced, both + physically and psychically, than a boy of the same age, and we + have to recognize that this precocity covers her sexual + development; for even though it is true, on the average, that + active sexual desire is not usually aroused in women until a + somewhat later age, there is also truth in the observation of Mr. + Thomas Hardy (_New Review_, June, 1894): "It has never struck me + that the spider is invariably male and the fly invariably + female." Even, therefore, when sexual intercourse takes place + between a girl and a youth somewhat older than herself, she is + likely to be the more mature, the more self-possessed, and the + more responsible of the two, and often the one who has taken the + more active part in initiating the act. (This point has been + discussed in "The Sexual Impulse in Women" in vol. iii of these + _Studies_.) It must also be remembered that when a girl has once + reached the age of puberty, and put on all the manner and habits + as well as the physical development of a woman, it is no longer + possible for a man always to estimate her age. It is easy to see + that a girl has not yet reached the age of puberty; it is + impossible to tell whether a mature woman is under or over + eighteen; it is therefore, to say the least, unjust to make her + male partner's fate for life depend on the recognition of a + distinction which has no basis in nature. Such considerations + are, indeed, so obvious that there is no chance of carrying out + thoroughly in practice the doctrine that a man should be + imprisoned for life for having intercourse with a girl who is + over the age of sixteen. It is better, from the legal point of + view, to cast the net less widely and to be quite sure that it is + adapted to catch the real and conscious offender, who may be + punished without offending the common sense of the community. + (Cf. Bloch, _The Sexual Life of Our Time_, Ch. XXIV; he considers + that the "age of consent" should begin with the completion of the + sixteenth year.) + + It may be necessary to add that the establishment of the "age of + consent" on this basis by no means implies that intercourse with + girls but little over sixteen should be encouraged, or even + socially and morally tolerated. Here, however, we are not in the + sphere of law. It is the natural tendency of the well-born and + well-nurtured girl under civilized conditions to hold herself in + reserve, and the pressure whereby that tendency is maintained and + furthered must be supplied by the whole of her environment, + primarily by the intelligent reflection of the girl herself when + she has reached the age of adolescence. To foster in a young + woman who has long passed the epoch of puberty the notion that + she has no responsibility in the guardianship of her own body and + soul is out of harmony with modern feeling, as well as + unfavorable to the training of women for the world. The States + which have been induced to adopt the high limit of the age of + consent have, indeed, thereby made an abject confession of their + inability to maintain a decent moral level by more legitimate + means; they may profitably serve as a warning rather than as an + example. + +The knowledge of women cannot, however, replace, the ignorance of men, +but, on the contrary, merely serves to reveal it. For in the art of love +the man must necessarily take the initiative. It is he who must first +unseal the mystery of the intimacies and audacities which the woman's +heart may hold. The risk of meeting with even the shadow of contempt or +disgust is too serious to allow a woman, even a wife, to reveal the +secrets of love to a man who has not shown himself to be an +initiate.[387] Numberless are the jovial and contented husbands who have +never suspected, and will never know, that their wives carry about with +them, sometimes with silent resentment, the ache of mysterious _tabus_. +The feeling that there are delicious privacies and privileges which she +has never been asked to take, or forced to accept, often erotically +divorces a wife from a husband who never realizes what he has missed.[388] +The case of such husbands is all the harder because, for the most part, +all that they have done is the result of the morality that has been +preached to them. They have been taught from boyhood to be strenuous and +manly and clean-minded, to seek by all means to put out of their minds the +thought of women or the longing for sensuous indulgence. They have been +told on all sides that only in marriage is it right or even safe to +approach women. They have acquired the notion that sexual indulgence and +all that appertains to it is something low and degrading, at the worst a +mere natural necessity, at the best a duty to be accomplished in a direct, +honorable and straight-forward manner. No one seems to have told them that +love is an art, and that to gain real possession of a woman's soul and +body is a task that requires the whole of a man's best skill and insight. +It may well be that when a man learns his lesson too late he is inclined +to turn ferociously on the society that by its conspiracy of +pseudo-morality has done its best to ruin his life, and that of his wife. +In some of these cases husband or wife or both are finally attracted to a +third person, and a divorce enables them to start afresh with better +experience under happier auspices. But as things are at present that is a +sad and serious process, for many impossible. They are happier, as Milton +pointed out, whose trials of love before marriage "have been so many +divorces to teach them experience." + +The general ignorance concerning the art of love may be gauged by the fact +that perhaps the question in this matter most frequently asked is the +crude question how often sexual intercourse should take place. That is a +question, indeed, which has occupied the founders of religion, the +law-givers, and the philosophers of mankind, from the earliest times.[389] +Zoroaster said it should be once in every nine days. The laws of Manes +allowed intercourse during fourteen days of the month, but a famous +ancient Hindu physician, Susruta, prescribed it six times a month, except +during the heat of summer when it should be once a month, while other +Hindu authorities say three or four times a month. Solon's requirement of +the citizen that intercourse should take place three times a month fairly +agrees with Zoroaster's. Mohammed, in the Koran, decrees intercourse once +a week. The Jewish Talmud is more discriminating, and distinguishes +between different classes of people; on the vigorous and healthy young +man, not compelled to work hard, once a day is imposed, on the ordinary +working man twice a week, on learned men once a week. Luther considered +twice a week the proper frequency of intercourse. + +It will be observed that, as we might expect, these estimates tend to +allow a greater interval in the earlier ages when erotic stimulation was +probably less and erotic erethism probably rare, and to involve an +increased frequency as we approach modern civilization. It will also be +observed that variation occurs within fairly narrow limits. This is +probably due to the fact that these law-givers were in all cases men. +Women law-givers would certainly have shown a much greater tendency to +variation, since the variations of the sexual impulse are greater in +women.[390] Thus Zenobia required the approach of her husband once a +month, provided that impregnation had not taken place the previous month, +while another queen went very far to the other extreme, for we are told +that the Queen of Aragon, after mature deliberation, ordained six times a +day as the proper rule in a legitimate marriage.[391] + + It may be remarked, in passing, that the estimates of the proper + frequency of sexual intercourse may always be taken to assume + that there is a cessation during the menstrual period. This is + especially the case as regards early periods of culture when + intercourse at this time is usually regarded as either dangerous + or sinful, or both. (This point has been discussed in the + "Phenomena of Periodicity" in volume i of these _Studies_.) Under + civilized conditions the inhibition is due to aesthetic reasons, + the wife, even if she desires intercourse, feeling a repugnance + to be approached at a time when she regards herself as + "disgusting," and the husband easily sharing this attitude. It + may, however, be pointed out that the aesthetic objection is very + largely the result of the superstitious horror of water which is + still widely felt at this time, and would, to some extent, + disappear if a more scrupulous cleanliness were observed. It + remains a good general rule to abstain from sexual intercourse + during the menstrual period, but in some cases there may be + adequate reason for breaking it. This is so when desire is + specially strong at this time, or when intercourse is physically + difficult at other times but easier during the relaxation of the + parts caused by menstruation. It must be remembered also that the + time when the menstrual flow is beginning to cease is probably, + more than any other period of the month, the biologically proper + time for sexual intercourse, since not only is intercourse + easiest then, and also most gratifying to the female, but it + affords the most favorable opportunity for securing + fertilization. + + Schurig long since brought together evidence (_Parthenologia_, + pp. 302 et seq.) showing that coitus is most easy during + menstruation. Some of the Catholic theologians (like Sanchez, and + later, Liguori), going against the popular opinion, have + distinctly permitted intercourse during menstruation, though many + earlier theologians regarded it as a mortal sin. From the + medical side, Kossmann (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease + in Relation to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 249) advocates coitus not + only at the end of menstruation, but even during the latter part + of the period, as being the time when women most usually need it, + the marked disagreeableness of temper often shown by women at + this time, he says, being connected with the suppression, + demanded by custom, of a natural desire. "It is almost always + during menstruation that the first clouds appear on the + matrimonial horizon." + +In modern times the physiologists and physicians who have expressed any +opinion on this subject have usually come very near to Luther's dictum. +Haller said that intercourse should not be much more frequent than twice a +week.[392] Acton said once a week, and so also Hammond, even for healthy +men between the ages of twenty-five and forty.[393] Fuerbringer only +slightly exceeds this estimate by advocating from fifty to one hundred +single acts in the year.[394] Forel advises two or three times a week for +a man in the prime of manhood, but he adds that for some healthy and +vigorous men once a month appears to be excess.[395] Mantegazza, in his +_Hygiene of Love_, also states that, for a man between twenty and thirty, +two or three times a week represents the proper amount of intercourse, and +between the ages of thirty and forty-five, twice a week. Guyot recommends +every three days.[396] + +It seems, however, quite unnecessary to lay down any general rules +regarding the frequency of coitus. Individual desire and individual +aptitude, even within the limits of health, vary enormously. Moreover, if +we recognize that the restraint of desire is sometimes desirable, and +often necessary for prolonged periods, it is as well to refrain from any +appearance of asserting the necessity of sexual intercourse at frequent +and regular intervals. The question is chiefly of importance in order to +guard against excess, or even against the attempt to live habitually close +to the threshold of excess. Many authorities are, therefore, careful to +point out that it is inadvisable to be too definite. Thus Erb, while +remarking that, for some, Luther's dictum represents the extreme maximum, +adds that others can go far beyond that amount with impunity, and he +considers that such variations are congenital.[397] Ribbing, again, while +expressing general agreement with Luther's rule, protests against any +attempt to lay down laws for everyone, and is inclined to say that as +often as one likes is a safe rule, so long as there are no bad +after-effects.[398] + + It seems to be generally agreed that bad effects from excess in + coitus, when they do occur, are rare in women (see, e.g., + Hammond, _Sexual Impotence_, p. 127). Occasionally, however, evil + effects occur in women. (The case, possibly to be mentioned in + this connection, has been recorded of a man whose three wives all + became insane after marriage, _Journal of Mental Science_, Jan., + 1879, p. 611.) In cases of sexual excess great physical + exhaustion, with suspicion and delusions, is often observed. + Hutchinson has recorded three cases of temporary blindness, all + in men, the result of sexual excess after marriage (_Archives of + Surgery_, Jan., 1893). The old medical authors attributed many + evil results to excess in coitus. Thus Schurig (_Spermatologia_, + 1720, pp. 260 et seq.) brings together cases of insanity, + apoplexy, syncope, epilepsy, loss of memory, blindness, baldness, + unilateral perspiration, gout, and death attributed to this + cause; of death many cases are given, some in women, but one may + easily perceive that _post_ was often mistaken for _propter_. + +There is, however, another consideration which can scarcely escape the +reader of the present work. Nearly all the estimates of the desirable +frequence of coitus are framed to suit the supposed physiological needs of +the husband,[399] and they appear usually to be framed in the same spirit +of exclusive attention to those needs as though the physiological needs of +the evacuation of the bowels or the bladder were in question. But sexual +needs are the needs of two persons, of the husband and of the wife. It is +not enough to ascertain the needs of the husband; it is also necessary to +ascertain the needs of the wife. The resultant must be a harmonious +adjustment of these two groups of needs. That consideration alone, in +conjunction with the wide variations of individual needs, suffices to +render any definite rules of very trifling value. + + It is important to remember the wide limits of variation in + sexual capacity, as well as the fact that such variations in + either direction may be healthy and normal, though undoubtedly + when they become extreme variations may have a pathological + significance. In one case, for instance, a man has intercourse + once a month and finds this sufficient; he has no nocturnal + emissions nor any strong desires in the interval; yet he leads an + idle and luxurious life and is not restrained by any moral or + religious scruples; if he much exceeds the frequency which suits + him he suffers from ill-health, though otherwise quite healthy + except for a weak digestion. At the other extreme, a happily + married couple, between forty-five and fifty, much attached to + each other, had engaged in sexual intercourse every night for + twenty years, except during the menstrual period and advanced + pregnancy, which had only occurred once; they are hearty, + full-blooded, intellectual people, fond of good living, and they + attribute their affection and constancy to this frequent + indulgence in coitus; the only child, a girl, is not strong, + though fairly healthy. + + The cases are numerous in which, on special occasions, it is + possible for people who are passionately attached to each other + to repeat the act of coitus, or at all events the orgasm, an + inordinate number of times within a few hours. This usually + occurs at the beginning of an intimacy or after a long + separation. Thus in one case a newly-married woman experienced + the orgasm fourteen times in one night, her husband in the same + period experiencing it seven times. In another case a woman who + had lived a chaste life, when sexual relationships finally began, + once experienced orgasm fourteen or fifteen times to her + partner's three times. In a case which, I have been assured may + be accepted as authentic, a young wife of highly erotic, very + erethic, slightly abnormal temperament, after a month's absence + from her husband, was excited twenty-six times within an hour and + a quarter; her husband, a much older man, having two orgasms + during this period; the wife admitted that she felt a "complete + wreck" after this, but it is evident that if this case may be + regarded as authentic the orgasms were of extremely slight + intensity. A young woman, newly married to a physically robust + man, once had intercourse with him eight times in two hours, + orgasm occurring each time in both parties. Guttceit (_Dreissig + Jahre Praxis_, vol. ii. p. 311), in Russia, knew many cases in + which young men of twenty-two to twenty-eight had intercourse + more than ten times in one night, though after the fourth time + there is seldom any semen. He had known some men who had + masturbated in early boyhood, and began to consort with women at + fifteen, yet remained sexually vigorous in old age, while he knew + others who began intercourse late and were losing force at forty. + Mantegazza, who knew a man who had intercourse fourteen times in + one day, remarks that the stories of the old Italian novelists + show that twelve times was regarded as a rare exception. + Burchard, Alexander VI's secretary, states that the Florentine + Ambassador's son, in Rome in 1489, "knew a girl seven times in + one hour" (J. Burchard, _Diarium_, ed. Thuasne, vol. i, p. 329). + Olivier, Charlemagne's knight, boasted, according to legend, that + he could show his virile power one hundred times in one night, if + allowed to sleep with the Emperor of Constantinople's daughter; + he was allowed to try, it is said, and succeeded thirty times + (Schultz, _Das Hoefische Leben_, vol. i, p. 581). + + It will be seen that whenever the sexual act is repeated + frequently within a short time it is very rarely indeed that the + husband can keep pace with the wife. It is true that the woman's + sexual energy is aroused more slowly and with more difficulty + than the man's, but as it becomes aroused its momentum increases. + The man, whose energy is easily aroused, is easily exhausted; the + woman has often scarcely attained her energy until after the + first orgasm is over. It is sometimes a surprise to a young + husband, happily married, to find that the act of sexual + intercourse which completely satisfies him has only served to + arouse his wife's ardor. Very many women feel that the repetition + of the act several times in succession is needed to, as they may + express it, "clear the system," and, far from producing + sleepiness and fatigue, it renders them bright and lively. + + The young and vigorous woman, who has lived a chaste life, + sometimes feels when she commences sexual relationships as though + she really required several husbands, and needed intercourse at + least once a day, though later when she becomes adjusted to + married life she reaches the conclusion that her desires are not + abnormally excessive. The husband has to adjust himself to his + wife's needs, through his sexual force when he possesses it, and, + if not, through his skill and consideration. The rare men who + possess a genital potency which they can exert to the + gratification of women without injury to themselves have been, by + Professor Benedikt, termed "sexual athletes," and he remarks that + such men easily dominate women. He rightly regards Casanova as + the type of the sexual athlete (_Archives d'Anthropologie + Criminelle_, Jan., 1896). Naecke reports the case of a man whom he + regards as a sexual athlete, who throughout his life had + intercourse once or twice daily with his wife, or if she was + unwilling, with another woman, until he became insane at the age + of seventy-five (_Zeitschrift fuer Sexualwissenschaft_, Aug., + 1908, p. 507). This should probably, however, be regarded rather + as a case of morbid hyperaesthesia than of sexual athleticism. + +At this stage we reach the fundamental elements of the art of love. We +have seen that many moral practices and moral theories which have been +widely current in Christendom have developed traditions, still by no means +extinct among us, which were profoundly antagonistic to the art of love. +The idea grew up of "marital duties," of "conjugal rights."[400] The +husband had the right and the duty to perform sexual intercourse with his +wife, whatever her wishes in the matter might be, while the wife had the +duty and the right (the duty in her case being usually put first) to +submit to such intercourse, which she was frequently taught to regard as +something low and merely physical, an unpleasant and almost degrading +necessity which she would do well to put out of her thoughts as speedily +as possible. It is not surprising that such an attitude towards marriage +has been highly favorable to conjugal unhappiness, more especially that of +the wife,[401] and it has tended to promote adultery and divorce. We might +have been more surprised had it been otherwise. + +The art of love is based on the fundamental natural fact of courtship; and +courtship is the effort of the male to make himself acceptable to the +female.[402] "The art of love," said Vatsyayana, one of the greatest of +authorities, "is the art of pleasing women." "A man must never permit +himself a pleasure with his wife," said Balzac in his _Physiologie du +Mariage_, "which he has not the skill first to make her desire." The whole +art of love is there. Women, naturally and instinctively, seek to make +themselves desirable to men, even to men whom they are supremely +indifferent to, and the woman who is in love with a man, by an equally +natural instinct, seeks to shape herself to the measure which individually +pleases him. This tendency is not really modified by the fundamental fact +that in these matters it is only the arts that Nature makes which are +truly effective. It is finally by what he is that a man arouses a woman's +deepest emotions of sympathy or of antipathy, and he is often pleasing her +more by displaying his fitness to play a great part in the world outside +than by any acquired accomplishments in the arts of courtship. When, +however, the serious and intimate play of physical love begins, the +woman's part is, even biologically, on the surface the more passive +part.[403] She is, on the physical side, inevitably the instrument in +love; it must be his hand and his bow which evoke the music. + +In speaking of the art of love, however, it is impossible to disentangle +completely the spiritual from the physical. The very attempt to do so is, +indeed, a fatal mistake. The man who can only perceive the physical side +of the sexual relationship is, as Hinton was accustomed to say, on a level +with the man who, in listening to a sonata of Beethoven on the violin, is +only conscious of the physical fact that a horse's tail is being scraped +against a sheep's entrails. + + The image of the musical instrument constantly recurs to those + who write of the art of love. Balzac's comparison of the + unskilful husband to the orang-utan attempting to play the violin + has already been quoted. Dr. Jules Guyot, in his serious and + admirable little book, _Breviaire de l'Amour Experimental_, falls + on to the same comparison: "There are an immense number of + ignorant, selfish, and brutal men who give themselves no trouble + to study the instrument which God has confided to them, and do + not so much as suspect that it is necessary to study it in order + to draw out its slightest chords.... Every direct contact, even + with the clitoris, every attempt at coitus [when the feminine + organism is not aroused], exercises a painful sensation, an + instinctive repulsion, a feeling of disgust and aversion. Any + man, any husband, who is ignorant of this fact, is ridiculous and + contemptible. Any man, any husband, who, knowing it, dares to + disregard it, has committed an outrage.... In the final + combination of man and woman, the positive element, the husband, + has the initiative and the responsibility for the conjugal life. + He is the minstrel who will produce harmony or cacophony by his + hand and his bow. The wife, from this point of view, is really + the many-stringed instrument who will give out harmonious or + discordant sounds, according as she is well or ill handled" + (Guyot, _Breviaire_, pp. 99, 115, 138). + + That such love corresponds to the woman's need there cannot be + any doubt. All developed women desire to be loved, says Ellen + Key, not "en male" but "en artiste" (_Liebe und Ehe_, p. 92). + "Only a man of whom she feels that he has also the artist's joy + in her, and who shows this joy through his timid and delicate + touch on her soul as on her body, can keep the woman of to-day. + She will only belong to a man who continues to long for her even + when he holds her locked in his arms. And when such a woman + breaks out: 'You want me, but you cannot caress me, you cannot + tell what I want,' then that man is judged." Love is indeed, as + Remy de Gourmont remarks, a delicate art, for which, as for + painting or music, only some are apt. + +It must not be supposed that the demand on the lover and husband to +approach a woman in the same spirit, with the same consideration and +skilful touch, as a musician takes up his instrument is merely a demand +made by modern women who are probably neurotic or hysterical. No reader of +these _Studies_ who has followed the discussions of courtship and of +sexual selection in previous volumes can fail to realize that--although we +have sought to befool ourselves by giving an illegitimate connotation to +the word "brutal"--consideration and respect for the female is all but +universal in the sexual relationships of the animals below man; it is only +at the furthest remove from the "brutes," among civilized men, that sexual +"brutality" is at all common, and even there it is chiefly the result of +ignorance. If we go as low as the insects, who have been disciplined by +no family life, and are generally counted as careless and wanton, we may +sometimes find this attitude towards the female fully developed, and the +extreme consideration of the male for the female whom yet he holds firmly +beneath him, the tender preliminaries, the extremely gradual approach to +the supreme sexual act, may well furnish an admirable lesson. + +This greater difficulty and delay on the part of women in responding to +the erotic excitation of courtship is really very fundamental and--as has +so often been necessary to point out in previous volumes of these +_Studies_--it covers the whole of woman's erotic life, from the earliest +age when coyness and modesty develop. A woman's love develops much more +slowly than a man's for a much longer period. There is real psychological +significance in the fact that a man's desire for a woman tends to arise +spontaneously, while a woman's desire for a man tends only to be aroused +gradually, in the measure of her complexly developing relationship to him. +Hence her sexual emotion is often less abstract, more intimately +associated with the individual lover in whom it is centred. "The way to my +senses is through my heart," wrote Mary Wollstonecraft to her lover Imlay, +"but, forgive me! I think there is sometimes a shorter cut to yours." She +spoke for the best, if not for the largest part, of her sex. A man often +reaches the full limit of his physical capacity for love at a single step, +and it would appear that his psychic limits are often not more difficult +to reach. This is the solid fact underlying the more hazardous statement, +so often made, that woman is monogamic and man polygamic. + + On the more physical side, Guttceit states that a month after + marriage not more than two women out of ten have experienced the + full pleasure of sexual intercourse, and it may not be for six + months, a year, or even till after the birth of several children, + that a woman experiences the full enjoyment of the physical + relationship, and even then only with a man she completely loves, + so that the conditions of sexual gratification are much more + complex in women than in men. Similarly, on the psychic side, + Ellen Key remarks (_Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 111): "It is + certainly true that a woman desires sexual gratification from a + man. But while in her this desire not seldom only appears after + she has begun to love a man enough to give her life for him, a + man often desires to possess a woman physically before he loves + her enough to give even his little finger for her. The fact that + love in a woman mostly goes from the soul to the senses and often + fails to reach them, and that in a man it mostly goes from the + senses to the soul and frequently never reaches that goal--this + is of all the existing differences between men and women that + which causes most torture to both." It will, of course, be + apparent to the reader of the fourth volume of these _Studies_ on + "Sexual Selection in Man" that the method of stating the + difference which has commended itself to Mary Wollstonecraft, + Ellen Key, and others, is not strictly correct, and the chastest + woman, after, for example, taking too hot a bath, may find that + her heart is not the only path through which her senses may be + affected. The senses are the only channels to the external world + which we possess, and love must come through these channels or + not at all. The difference, however, seems to be a real one, if + we translate it to mean that, as we have seen reason to believe + in previous volumes of these _Studies_, there are in women (1) + preferential sensory paths of sexual stimuli, such as, + apparently, a predominence of tactile and auditory paths as + compared with men; (2) a more massive, complex, and delicately + poised sexual mechanism; and, as a result of this, (3) eventually + a greater amount of nervous and cerebral sexual irradiation. + + It must be remembered, at the same time, that while this + distinction represents a real tendency in sexual differentiation, + with an organic and not merely traditional basis, it has about it + nothing whatever that is absolute. There are a vast number of + women whose sexual facility, again by natural tendency and not + merely by acquired habits, is as marked as that of any man, if + not more so. In the sexual field, as we have seen in a previous + volume (_Analysis of the Sexual Impulse_), the range of + variability is greater in women than in men. + +The fact that love is an art, a method of drawing music from an +instrument, and not the mere commission of an act by mutual consent, makes +any verbal agreement to love of little moment. If love were a matter of +contract, of simple intellectual consent, of question and answer, it would +never have come into the world at all. Love appeared as art from the +first, and the subsequent developments of the summary methods of reason +and speech cannot abolish that fundamental fact. This is scarcely realized +by those ill-advised lovers who consider that the first step in +courtship--and perhaps even the whole of courtship--is for a man to ask a +woman to be his wife. That is so far from being the case that it +constantly happens that the premature exhibition of so large a demand at +once and for ever damns all the wooer's chances. It is lamentable, no +doubt, that so grave and fateful a matter as that of marriage should so +often be decided without calm deliberation and reasonable forethought. But +sexual relationships can never, and should never, be merely a matter of +cold calculation. When a woman is suddenly confronted by the demand that +she should yield herself up as a wife to a man who has not yet succeeded +in gaining her affections she will not fail to find--provided she is +lifted above the cold-hearted motives of self-interest--that there are +many sound reasons why she should not do so. And having thus squarely +faced the question in cool blood and decided it, she will henceforth, +probably, meet that wooer with a tunic of steel enclosing her breast. + + "Love must be _revealed_ by acts and not _betrayed_ by words. I + regard as abnormal the extraordinary method of a hasty avowal + beforehand; for that represents not the direct but the reflex + path of transmission. However sweet and normal the avowal may be + when once reciprocity has been realized, as a method of conquest + I consider it dangerous and likely to produce the reverse of the + result desired." I take these wise words from a thoughtful "Essai + sur l'Amour" (_Archives de Psychologie_, 1904) by a + non-psychological Swiss writer who is recording his own + experiences, and who insists much on the predominance of the + spiritual and mental element in love. + + It is worthy of note that this recognition that direct speech is + out of place in courtship must not be regarded as a refinement of + civilization. Among primitive peoples everywhere it is perfectly + well recognized that the offer of love, and its acceptance or its + refusal, must be made by actions symbolically, and not by the + crude method of question and answer. Among the Indians of + Paraguay, who allow much sexual freedom to their women, but never + buy or sell love, Mantegazza states (_Rio de la Plata e + Tenerife_, 1867, p. 225) that a girl of the people will come to + your door or window and timidly, with a confused air, ask you, in + the Guarani tongue, for a drink of water. But she will smile if + you innocently offer her water. Among the Tarahumari Indians of + Mexico, with whom the initiative in courting belongs to the + women, the girl takes the first step through her parents, then + she throws small pebbles at the young man; if he throws them back + the matter is concluded (Carl Lumholtz, _Scribner's Magazine_, + Sept., 1894, p. 299). In many parts of the world it is the woman + who chooses her husband (see, e.g., M.A. Potter, _Sohrab and + Rustem_, pp. 169 et seq.), and she very frequently adopts a + symbolical method of proposal. Except when the commercial element + predominates in marriage, a similar method is frequently adopted + by men also in making proposals of marriage. + +It is not only at the beginning of courtship that the act of love has +little room for formal declarations, for the demands and the avowals that +can be clearly defined in speech. The same rule holds even in the most +intimate relationships of old lovers, throughout the married life. The +permanent element in modesty, which survives every sexual initiation to +become intertwined with all the exquisite impudicities of love, combines +with a true erotic instinct to rebel against formal demands, against +verbal affirmations or denials. Love's requests cannot be made in words, +nor truthfully answered in words: a fine divination is still needed as +long as love lasts. + + The fact that the needs of love cannot be expressed but must be + divined has long been recognized by those who have written of the + art of love, alike by writers within and without the European + Christian traditions. Thus Zacchia, in his great medico-legal + treatise, points out that a husband must be attentive to the + signs of sexual desire in his wife. "Women," he says, "when + sexual desire arises within them are accustomed to ask their + husbands questions on matters of love; they flatter and caress + them; they allow some part of their body to be uncovered as if by + accident; their breasts appear to swell; they show unusual + alacrity; they blush; their eyes are bright; and if they + experience unusual ardor they stammer, talk beside the mark, and + are scarcely mistress of themselves. At the same time their + private parts become hot and swell. All these signs should + convince a husband, however inattentive he may be, that his wife + craves for satisfaction" (_Zacchiae Quaestionum Medico-legalium + Opus_, lib. vii, tit. iii, quaest. I; vol. ii, p. 624 in ed. of + 1688). + + The old Hindu erotic writers attributed great importance alike to + the man's attentiveness to the woman's erotic needs, and to his + skill and consideration in all the preliminaries of the sexual + act. He must do all that he can to procure her pleasure, says + Vatsyayana. When she is on her bed and perhaps absorbed in + conversation, he gently unfastens the knot of her lower garment. + If she protests he closes her mouth with kisses. Some authors, + Vatsyayana remarks, hold that the lover should begin by sucking + the nipples of her breasts. When erection occurs he touches her + with his hands, softly caressing the various parts of her body. + He should always press those parts of her body towards which she + turns her eyes. If she is shy, and it is the first time, he will + place his hands between her thighs which she will instinctively + press together. If she is young he will put his hands on her + breasts, and she will no doubt cover them with her own. If she is + mature he will do all that may seem fitting and agreeable to both + parties. Then he will take her hair and her chin between his + fingers and kiss them. If she is very young she will blush and + close her eyes. By the way in which she receives his caresses he + will divine what pleases her most in union. The signs of her + enjoyment are that her body becomes limp, her eyes close, she + loses all timidity, and takes part in the movements which bring + her most closely to him. If, on the other hand, she feels no + pleasure, she strikes the bed with her hands, will not allow the + man to continue, is sullen, even bites or kicks, and continues + the movements of coitus when the man has finished. In such cases, + Vatsyayana adds, it is his duty to rub the vulva with his hand + before union until it is moist, and he should perform the same + movements afterwards if his own orgasm has occurred first. + + With regard to Indian erotic art generally, and more especially + Vatsyayana, who appears to have lived some sixteen hundred years + ago, information will be found in Valentino, "L'Hygiene conjugale + chez les Hindous," _Archives Generales de Medecine_, Ap. 25, + 1905; Iwan Bloch, "Indische Medizin," Puschmann's _Handbuch der + Geschichte der Medizin_, vol. i; Heimann and Stephan, "Beitraege + zur Ehehygiene nach der Lehren des Kamasutram," _Zeitschaft fuer + Sexualwissenschaft_, Sept., 1908; also a review of Richard + Schmidt's German translation of the _Kamashastra_ of Vatsyayana + in _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1902, Heft 2. There has long + existed an English translation of this work. In the lengthy + preface to the French translation Lamairesse points out the + superiority of Indian erotic art to that of the Latin poets by + its loftier spirit, and greater purity and idealism. It is + throughout marked by respect for women, and its spirit is + expressed in the well-known proverb: "Thou shalt not strike a + woman even with a flower." See also Margaret Noble's _Web of + Indian Life_, especially Ch. III, "On the Hindu Woman as Wife," + and Ch. IV, "Love Strong as Death." + + The advice given to husbands by Guyot (_Breviaire de l'Amour + Experimental_, p. 422) closely conforms to that given, under very + different social conditions, by Zacchia and Vatsyayana. "In a + state of sexual need and desire the woman's lips are firm and + vibrant, the breasts are swollen, and the nipples erect. The + intelligent husband cannot be deceived by these signs. If they do + not exist, it is his part to provoke them by his kisses and + caresses, and if, in spite of his tender and delicate + excitations, the lips show no heat and the breasts no swelling, + and especially if the nipples are disagreeably irritated by + slight suction, he must arrest his transports and abstain from + all contact with the organs of generation, for he would certainly + find them in a state of exhaustion and disposed to repulsion. If, + on the contrary, the accessory organs are animated, or become + animated beneath his caresses, he must extend them to the + generative organs, and especially to the clitoris, which beneath + his touch will become full of appetite and ardor." + + The importance of the preliminary titillation of the sexual + organs has been emphasized by a long succession alike of erotic + writers and physicians, from Ovid (_Ars Amatoria_ end of Bk. II) + onwards. Eulenburg (_Die Sexuale Neuropathie_, p. 79) considers + that titillation is sometimes necessary, and Adler, likewise + insisting on the preliminaries of psychic and physical courtship + (_Die Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes_, p. 188), + observes that the man who is gifted with insight and skill in + these matters possesses a charm which will draw sparks of + sensibility from the coldest feminine heart. The advice of the + physician is at one in this matter with the maxims of the erotic + artist and with the needs of the loving woman. In making love + there must be no haste, wrote Ovid:-- + + "Crede mihi, non est Veneris properanda voluptas, + Sed sensim tarda prolicienda mora." + + "Husbands, like spoiled children," a woman has written, "too + often miss the pleasure which might otherwise be theirs, by + clamoring for it at the wrong time. The man who thinks this + prolonged courtship previous to the act of sex union wearisome, + has never given it a trial. It is the approach to the marital + embrace, as well as the embrace itself, which constitutes the + charm of the relation between the sexes." + + It not seldom happens, remarks Adler (op. cit., p. 186), that the + insensibility of the wife must be treated--in the husband. And + Guyot, bringing forward the same point, writes (op. cit., p. + 130): "If by a delay of tender study the husband has understood + his young bride, if he is able to realize for her the ineffable + happiness and dreams of youth, he will be beloved forever; he + will be her master and sovereign lord. If he has failed to + understand her he will fatigue and exhaust himself in vain + efforts, and finally class her among the indifferent and cold + women. She will be his wife by duty, the mother of his children. + He will take his pleasure elsewhere, for man is ever in pursuit + of the woman who experiences the genesic spasm. Thus the vague + and unintelligent search for a half who can unite in that + delirious finale is the chief cause of all conjugal dissolutions. + In such a case a man resembles a bad musician who changes his + violin in the hope that a new instrument will bring the melody he + is unable to play." + +The fact that there is thus an art in love, and that sexual intercourse is +not a mere physical act to be executed by force of muscles, may help to +explain why it is that in so many parts of the world defloration is not +immediately effected on marriage.[404] No doubt religious or magic reasons +may also intervene here, but, as so often happens, they harmonize with the +biological process. This is the case even among uncivilized peoples who +marry early. The need for delay and considerate skill is far greater when, +as among ourselves, a woman's marriage is delayed long past the +establishment of puberty to a period when it is more difficult to break +down the psychic and perhaps even physical barriers of personality. + +It has to be added that the art of love in the act of courtship is not +confined to the preliminaries to the single act of coitus. In a sense the +life of love is a continuous courtship with a constant progression. The +establishment of physical intercourse is but the beginning of it. This is +especially true of women. "The consummation of love," says Senancour,[405] +"which is often the end of love with man is only the beginning of love +with woman, a test of trust, a gage of future pleasure, a sort of +engagement for an intimacy to come." "A woman's soul and body," says +another writer,[406] "are not given at one stroke at a given moment; but +only slowly, little by little, through many stages, are both delivered to +the beloved. Instead of abandoning the young woman to the bridegroom on +the wedding night, as an entrapped mouse is flung to the cat to be +devoured, it would be better to let the young bridal couple live side by +side, like two friends and comrades, until they gradually learn how to +develop and use their sexual consciousness." The conventional wedding is +out of place as a preliminary to the consummation of marriage, if only on +the ground that it is impossible to say at what stage in the endless +process of courtship it ought to take place. + +A woman, unlike a man, is prepared by Nature, to play a skilful part in +the art of love. The man's part in courtship, which is that of the male +throughout the zooelogical series, may be difficult and hazardous, but it +is in a straight line, fairly simple and direct. The woman's part, having +to follow at the same moment two quite different impulses, is necessarily +always in a zigzag or a curve. That is to say that at every erotic moment +her action is the resultant of the combined force of her desire (conscious +or unconscious) and her modesty. She must sail through a tortuous channel +with Scylla on the one side and Charybdis on the other, and to avoid +either danger too anxiously may mean risking shipwreck on the other side. +She must be impenetrable to all the world, but it must be an +impenetrability not too obscure for the divination of the right man. Her +speech must be honest, but yet on no account tell everything; her actions +must be the outcome of her impulses, and on that very account be capable +of two interpretations. It is only in the last resort of complete intimacy +that she can become the perfect woman, + + "Whose speech Truth knows not from her thought, + Nor Love her body from her soul." + +For many a woman the conditions for that final erotic avatar--"that +splendid shamelessness which," as Rafford Pyke says, "is the finest thing +in perfect love"--never present themselves at all. She is compelled to be +to the end of her erotic life, what she must always be at the beginning, a +complex and duplex personality, naturally artful. Therewith she is better +prepared than man to play her part in the art of love. + +The man's part in the art of love is, however, by no means easy. That is +not always realized by the women who complain of his lack of skill in +playing it. Although a man has not to cultivate the same natural duplicity +as a woman, it is necessary that he should possess a considerable power of +divination. He is not well prepared for that, because the traditional +masculine virtue is force rather than insight. The male's work in the +world, we are told, is domination, and it is by such domination that the +female is attracted. There is an element of truth in that doctrine, an +element of truth which may well lead astray the man who too exclusively +relies upon it in the art of love. Violence is bad in every art, and in +the erotic art the female desires to be won to love and not to be ordered +to love. That is fundamental. We sometimes see the matter so stated as if +the objection to force and domination in love constituted some quite new +and revolutionary demand of the "modern woman." That is, it need scarcely +be said, the result of ignorance. The art of love, being an art that +Nature makes, is the same now as in essentials it has always been,[407] +and it was well established before woman came into existence. That it has +not always been very skilfully played is another matter. And, so far as +the man is concerned, it is this very tradition of masculine predominance +which has contributed to the difficulty of playing it skilfully. The woman +admires the male's force; she even wishes herself to be forced to the +things that she altogether desires; and yet she revolts from any exertion +of force outside that narrow circle, either before the boundary of it is +reached or after the boundary is passed. Thus the man's position is really +more difficult than the women who complain of his awkwardness in love are +always ready to admit. He must cultivate force, not only in the world but +even for display in the erotic field; he must be able to divine the +moments when, in love, force is no longer force because his own will is +his partner's will; he must, at the same time, hold himself in complete +restraint lest he should fall into the fatal error of yielding to his own +impulse of domination; and all this at the very moment when his emotions +are least under control. We need scarcely be surprised that of the myriads +who embark on the sea of love, so few women, so very few men, come safely +into port. + +It may still seem to some that in dwelling on the laws that guide the +erotic life, if that life is to be healthy and complete, we have wandered +away from the consideration of the sexual instinct in its relationship to +society. It may therefore be desirable to return to first principles and +to point out that we are still clinging to the fundamental facts of the +personal and social life. Marriage, as we have seen reason to believe, is +a great social institution; procreation, which is, on the public side, its +supreme function, is a great social end. But marriage and procreation are +both based on the erotic life. If the erotic life is not sound, then +marriage is broken up, practically if not always formally, and the process +of procreation is carried out under unfavorable conditions or not at all. + +This social and personal importance of the erotic life, though, under the +influence of a false morality and an equally false modesty, it has +sometimes been allowed to fall into the background in stages of artificial +civilization, has always been clearly realized by those peoples who have +vitally grasped the relationships of life. Among most uncivilized races +there appear to be few or no "sexually frigid" women. It is little to the +credit of our own "civilization" that it should be possible for physicians +to-day to assert, even with the faintest plausibility, that there are some +25 per cent. of women who may thus be described. + +The whole sexual structure of the world is built up on the general fact +that the intimate contact of the male and female who have chosen each +other is mutually pleasurable. Below this general fact is the more +specific fact that in the normal accomplishment of the act of sexual +consummation the two partners experience the acute gratification of +simultaneous orgasm. Herein, it has been said, lies the secret of love. It +is the very basis of love, the condition of the healthy exercise of the +sexual functions, and, in many cases, it seems probable, the condition +also of fertilization. + + Even savages in a very low degree of culture are sometimes + patient and considerate in evoking and waiting for the signs of + sexual desire in their females. (I may refer to the significant + case of the Caroline Islanders, as described by Kubary in his + ethnographic study of that people and quoted in volume iv of + these _Studies_, "Sexual Selection in Man," Sect. III.) In + Catholic days theological influence worked wholesomely in the + same direction, although the theologians were so keen to detect + the mortal sin of lust. It is true that the Catholic insistence + on the desirability of simultaneous orgasm was largely due to the + mistaken notion that to secure conception it was necessary that + there should be "insemination" on the part of the wife as well as + of the husband, but that was not the sole source of the + theological view. Thus Zacchia discusses whether a man ought to + continue with his wife until she has the orgasm and feels + satisfied, and he decides that that is the husband's duty; + otherwise the wife falls into danger either of experiencing the + orgasm during sleep, or, more probably, by self-excitation, "for + many women, when their desires have not been satisfied by coitus, + place one thigh on the other, pressing and rubbing them together + until the orgasm occurs, in the belief that if they abstain from + using the hands they have committed no sin." Some theologians, he + adds, favor that belief, notably Hurtado de Mendoza and Sanchez, + and he further quotes the opinion of the latter that women who + have not been satisfied in coitus are liable to become hysterical + or melancholic (_Zacchiae Quaestionum Medico-legalium Opus_, lib. + vii, tit. iii, quaest. VI). In the same spirit some theologians + seem to have permitted _irrumatio_ (without ejaculation), so long + as it is only the preliminary to the normal sexual act. + + Nowadays physicians have fully confirmed the belief of Sanchez. + It is well recognized that women in whom, from whatever cause, + acute sexual excitement occurs with frequency without being + followed by the due natural relief of orgasm are liable to + various nervous and congestive symptoms which diminish their + vital effectiveness, and very possibly lead to a breakdown in + health. Kisch has described, as a cardiac neurosis of sexual + origin, a pathological tachycardia which is an exaggeration of + the physiological quick heart of sexual excitement. J. Inglis + Parsons (_British Medical Journal_, Oct. 22, 1904, p. 1062) + refers to the ovarian pain produced by strong unsatisfied sexual + excitement, often in vigorous unmarried women, and sometimes a + cause of great distress. An experienced Austrian gynaecologist + told Hirth (_Wege zur Heimat_, p. 613) that of every hundred + women who come to him with uterine troubles seventy suffered from + congestion of the womb, which he regarded as due to incomplete + coitus. + + It is frequently stated that the evil of incomplete gratification + and absence of orgasm in women is chiefly due to male withdrawal, + that is to say _coitus interruptus_, in which the penis is + hastily withdrawn as soon as involuntary ejaculation is + impending; and it is sometimes said that the same widely + prevalent practice is also productive of slight or serious + results in the male (see, e.g., L.B. Bangs, _Transactions New + York Academy of Medicine_, vol. ix, 1893; D.S. Booth, "Coitus + Interruptus and Coitus Reservatus as Causes of Profound Neurosis + and Psychosis," _Alienist and Neurologist_, Nov., 1906; also, + _Alienist and Neurologist_, Oct., 1897, p. 588). + + It is undoubtedly true that coitus interruptus, since it involves + sudden withdrawal on the part of the man without reference to the + stage of sexual excitation which his partner may have reached, + cannot fail to produce frequently an injurious nervous effect on + the woman, though the injurious effect on the man, who obtains + ejaculation, is little or none. But the practice is so widespread + that it cannot be regarded as necessarily involving this evil + result. There can, I am assured, be no doubt whatever that + Blumreich is justified in his statement (Senator and Kaminer, + _Health and Disease in Relation to Marriage_, vol. ii, p. 783) + that "interrupted coitus is injurious to the genital system of + those women only who are disturbed in their sensation of delight + by this form of cohabitation, in whom the orgasm is not produced, + and who continue for hours subsequently to be tormented by + feelings of an unsatisfied desire." Equally injurious effects + follow in normal coitus when the man's orgasm occurs too soon. + "These phenomena, therefore," he concludes, "are not + characteristic of interrupted coitus, but consequences of an + imperfectly concluded sexual cohabitation as such." Kisch, + likewise, in his elaborate and authoritative work on _The Sexual + Life of Woman_, also states that the question of the evil results + of _coitus interruptus_ in women is simply a question of whether + or not they receive sexual satisfaction. (Cf. also Fuerbringer, + _Health and Disease in Relation to Marriage_, vol. i, pp. 232 _et + seq._) This is clearly the most reasonable view to take + concerning what is the simplest, the most widespread, and + certainly the most ancient of the methods of preventing + conception. In the Book of Genesis we find it practiced by Onan, + and to come down to modern times, in the sixteenth century it + seems to have been familiar to French ladies, who, according to + Brantome, enjoined it on their lovers. + + Coitus reservatus,--in which intercourse is maintained even for + very long periods, during which the woman may have orgasm several + times while the man succeeds in holding back orgasm,--so far from + being injurious to the woman, is probably the form of coitus + which gives her the maximum of gratification and relief. For most + men, however, it seems probable that this self-control over the + processes leading to the involuntary act of detumescence is + difficult to acquire, while in weak, nervous, and erethic persons + it is impossible. It is, however, a desirable condition for + completely adequate coitus, and in the East this is fully + recognized, and the aptitude carefully cultivated. Thus W.D. + Sutherland states ("Einiges ueber das Alltagsleben und die + Volksmedizin unter den Bauern Britischostindiens," _Muenchener + Medizinische Wochenschrift_, No. 12, 1906) that the Hindu smokes + and talks during intercourse in order to delay orgasm, and + sometimes applies an opium paste to the glans of the penis for + the same purpose. (See also vol. iii of these _Studies_, "The + Sexual Impulse in Women.") Some authorities have, indeed, stated + that the prolongation of the act of coitus is injurious in its + effect on the male. Thus R.W. Taylor (_Practical Treatise on + Sexual Disorders_, third ed., p. 121) states that it tends to + cause atonic impotence, and Loewenfeld (_Sexualleben und + Nervenleiden_, p. 74) thinks that the swift and unimpeded + culmination of the sexual act is necessary in order to preserve + the vigor of the reflex reactions. This is probably true of + extreme and often repeated cases of indefinite prolongation of + pronounced erection without detumescence, but it is not true + within fairly wide limits in the case of healthy persons. + Prolonged _coitus reservatus_ was a practice of the complex + marriage system of the Oneida community, and I was assured by the + late Noyes Miller, who had spent the greater part of his life in + the community, that the practice had no sort of evil result. + _Coitus reservatus_ was erected into a principle in the Oneida + community. Every man in the community was theoretically the + husband of every woman, but every man was not free to have + children with every woman. Sexual initiation took place soon + after puberty in the case of boys, some years later in the case + of girls, by a much older person of the opposite sex. In + intercourse the male inserted his penis into the vagina and + retained it there for even an hour without emission, though + orgasm took place in the woman. There was usually no emission in + the case of the man, even after withdrawal, and he felt no need + of emission. The social feeling of the community was a force on + the side of this practice, the careless, unskilful men being + avoided by women, while the general romantic sentiment of + affection for all the women in the community was also a force. + Masturbation was unknown, and no irregular relations took place + with persons outside the community. The practice was maintained + for thirty years, and was finally abandoned, not on its demerits, + but in deference to the opinions of the outside world. Mr. Miller + admitted that the practice became more difficult in ordinary + marriage, which favors a more mechanical habit of intercourse. + The information received from Mr. Miller is supplemented in a + pamphlet entitled _Male Continence_ (the name given to _coitus + reservatus_ in the community), written in 1872 by the founder, + John Humphrey Noyes. The practice is based, he says, on the fact + that sexual intercourse consists of two acts, a social and a + propagative, and that if propagation is to be scientific there + must be no confusion of these two acts, and procreation must + never be involuntary. It was in 1844, he states, that this idea + occurred to him as a result of a resolve to abstain from sexual + intercourse in consequence of his wife's delicate health and + inability to bear healthy children, and in his own case he found + the practice "a great deliverance. It made a happy household." He + points out that the chief members of the Oneida community + "belonged to the most respectable families in Vermont, had been + educated in the best schools of New England morality and + refinement, and were, by the ordinary standards, irreproachable + in their conduct so far as sexual matters are concerned, till + they deliberately commenced, in 1846, the experiment of a new + state of society, on principles which they had been long maturing + and were prepared to defend before the World." In relation to + male continence, therefore, Noyes thought the community might + fairly be considered "the Committee of Providence to test its + value in actual life." He states that a careful medical + comparison of the statistics of the community had shown that the + rate of nervous disease in the community was considerably below + the average outside, and that only two cases of nervous disorder + had occurred which could be traced with any probability to a + misuse of male continence. This has been confirmed by Van de + Warker, who studied forty-two women of the community without + finding any undue prevalence of reproductive diseases, nor could + he find any diseased condition attributable to the sexual habits + of the community (cf. C. Reed, _Text-Book of Gynecology_, 1901, + p. 9). + + Noyes believed that "male continence" had never previously been a + definitely recognized practice based on theory, though there + might have been occasional approximation to it. This is probably + true if the coitus is _reservatus_ in the full sense, with + complete absence of emission. Prolonged coitus, however, + permitting the woman to have orgasm more than once, while the man + has none, has long been recognized. Thus in the seventeenth + century Zacchia discussed whether such a practice is legitimate + (_Zacchiae Quaestionum Opus_, ed. of 1688, lib. vii, tit. iii, + quaest. VI). In modern times it is occasionally practiced, without + any theory, and is always appreciated by the woman, while it + appears to have no bad effect on the man. In such a case it will + happen that the act of coitus may last for an hour and a quarter + or even longer, the maximum of the woman's pleasure not being + reached until three-quarters of an hour have passed; during this + period the woman will experience orgasm some four or five times, + the man only at the end. It may occasionally happen that a little + later the woman again experiences desire, and intercourse begins + afresh in the same way. But after that she is satisfied, and + there is no recurrence of desire. + + It may be desirable at this point to refer briefly to the chief + variations in the method of effecting coitus in their + relationship to the art of love and the attainment of adequate + and satisfying detumescence. + + The primary and essential characteristic of the specifically + human method of coitus is the fact that it takes place face to + face. The fact that in what is usually considered the typically + normal method of coitus the woman lies supine and the man above + her is secondary. Psychically, this front-to-front attitude + represents a great advance over the quadrupedal method. The two + partners reveal to each other the most important, the most + beautiful, the most expressive sides of themselves, and thus + multiply the mutual pleasure and harmony of the intimate act of + union. Moreover, this face-to-face attitude possesses a great + significance, in the fact that it is the outward sign that the + human couple has outgrown the animal sexual attitude of the + hunter seizing his prey in the act of flight, and content to + enjoy it in that attitude, from behind. The human male may be + said to retain the same attitude, but the female has turned + round; she has faced her partner and approached him, and so + symbolizes her deliberate consent to the act of union. + + The human variations in the exercise of coitus, both individual + and national, are, however, extremely numerous. "To be quite + frank," says Fuerbringer (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease + in Relation to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 213), "I can hardly think of + any combination which does not figure among my case-notes as + having been practiced by my patients." We must not too hastily + conclude that such variations are due to vicious training. That + is far from being the case. They often occur naturally and + spontaneously. Freud has properly pointed out (in the second + series of his _Beitraege zur Neurosenlehre_, "Bruchstueck" etc.) + that we must not be too shocked even when the idea of _fellatio_ + spontaneously presents itself to a woman, for that idea has a + harmless origin in the resemblance between the penis and the + nipple. Similarly, it may be added, the desire for + _cunnilinctus_, which seems to be much more often latently + present in women than is the desire for its performance in men, + has a natural analogy in the pleasure of suckling, a pleasure + which is itself indeed often erotically tinged (see vol. iv of + these _Studies_, "Sexual Selection in Man," Touch, Sect. III). + + Every variation in this matter, remarks Remy de Gourmont + (_Physique de l'Amour_, p. 264) partakes of the sin of luxury, + and some of the theologians have indeed considered any position + in coitus but that which is usually called normal in Europe as a + mortal sin. Other theologians, however, regarded such variations + as only venial sins, provided ejaculation took place in the + vagina, just as some theologians would permit _irrumatio_ as a + preliminary to coitus, provided there was no ejaculation. Aquinas + took a serious view of the deviations from normal intercourse; + Sanchez was more indulgent, especially in view of his doctrine, + derived from the Greek and Arabic natural philosophers, that the + womb can attract the sperm, so that the natural end may be + attained even in unusual positions. + + Whatever difference of opinion there may have been among ancient + theologians, it is well recognized by modern physicians that + variations from the ordinary method of coitus are desirable in + special cases. Thus Kisch points out (_Sterilitaet des Weibes_, p. + 107) that in some cases it is only possible for the woman to + experience sexual excitement when coitus takes place in the + lateral position, or in the _a posteriori_ position, or when the + usual position is reversed; and in his _Sexual Life of Woman_, + also, Kisch recommends several variations of position for coitus. + Adler points out (op. cit., pp. 151, 186) the value of the same + positions in some cases, and remarks that such variations often + call forth latent sexual feelings as by a charm. Such cases are + indeed, by no means infrequent, the advantage of the unusual + position being due either to physical or psychic causes, and the + discovery of the right variation is sometimes found in a merely + playful attempt. It has occasionally happened, also, that when + intercourse has habitually taken place in an abnormal position, + no satisfaction is experienced by the woman until the normal + position is adopted. The only fairly common variation of coitus + which meets with unqualified disapproval is that in the erect + posture. (See e.g., Hammond, op. cit. pp. 257 et seq.) + + Lucretius specially recommended the quadrupedal variation of + coitus (Bk. iv, 1258), and Ovid describes (end of Bk. iii of the + _Ars Amatoria_) what he regards as agreeable variations, giving + the preference, as the easiest and simplest method, to that in + which the woman lies half supine on her side. Perhaps, however, + the variation which is nearest to the normal attitude and which + has most often and most completely commended itself is that + apparently known to Arabic erotic writers as _dok el arz_, in + which the man is seated and his partner is astride his thighs, + embracing his body with her legs and his neck with her arms, + while he embraces her waist; this is stated in the Arabic + _Perfumed Garden_ to be the method preferred by most women. + + The other most usual variation is the inverse normal position in + which the man is supine, and the woman adapts herself to this + position, which permits of several modifications obviously + advantageous, especially when the man is much larger than his + partner. The Christian as well as the Mahommedan theologians + appear, indeed, to have been generally opposed to this superior + position of the female, apparently, it would seem, because they + regarded the literal subjection of the male which it involves as + symbolic of a moral subjection. The testimony of many people + to-day, however, is decidedly in favor of this position, more + especially as regards the woman, since it enables her to obtain a + better adjustment and greater control of the process, and so + frequently to secure sexual satisfaction which she may find + difficult or impossible in the normal position. + + The theologians seem to have been less unfavorably disposed to + the position normal among quadrupeds, _a posteriori_, though the + old Penitentials were inclined to treat it severely, the + Penitential of Angers prescribing forty days penance, and + Egbert's three years, if practiced habitually. (It is discussed + by J. Petermann, "Venus Aversa," _Sexual-Probleme_, Feb., 1909). + There are good reasons why in many cases this position should be + desirable, more especially from the point of view of women, who + indeed not infrequently prefer it. It must be always remembered, + as has already been pointed out, that in the progress from + anthropoid to man it is the female, not the male, whose method of + coitus has been revolutionized. While, however, the obverse human + position represents a psychic advance, there has never been a + complete physical readjustment of the female organs to the + obverse method. More especially, in Adler's opinion (op. cit., + pp. 117-119), the position of the clitoris is such that, as a + rule, it is more easily excited by coitus from behind than from + in front. A more recent writer, Klotz, in his book, _Der Mensch + ein Vierfuessler_ (1908), even takes the too extreme position that + the quadrupedal method of coitus, being the only method that + insures due contact with the clitoris, is the natural human + method. It must, however, be admitted that the posterior mode of + coitus is not only a widespread, but a very important variation, + in either of its two most important forms: the Pompeiian method, + in which the woman bends forwards and the man approaches behind, + or the method described by Boccaccio, in which the man is supine + and the woman astride. + + _Fellatio_ and _cunnilinctus_, while they are not strictly + methods of coitus, in so far as they do not involve the + penetration of the penis into the vagina, are very widespread as + preliminaries, or as vicarious forms of coitus, alike among + civilized and uncivilized peoples. Thus, in India, I am told that + _fellatio_ is almost universal in households, and regarded as a + natural duty towards the paterfamilias. As regards _cunnilinctus_ + Max Dessoir has stated (_Allgemeine Zeitschrift fuer Psychiatrie_, + 1894, Heft 5) that the superior Berlin prostitutes say that about + a quarter of their clients desire to exercise this, and that in + France and Italy the proportion is higher; the number of women + who find _cunnilinctus_ agreeable is without doubt much greater. + Intercourse _per anum_ must also be regarded as a vicarious form + of coitus. It appears to be not uncommon, especially among the + lower social classes, and while most often due to the wish to + avoid conception, it is also sometimes practiced as a sexual + aberration, at the wish either of the man or the woman, the anus + being to some extent an erogenous zone. + + The ethnic variations in method of coitus were briefly discussed + in volume v of these _Studies_, "The Mechanism of Detumescence," + Section II. In all civilized countries, from the earliest times, + writers on the erotic art have formally and systematically set + forth the different positions for coitus. The earliest writing of + this kind now extant seems to be an Egyptian papyrus preserved at + Turin of the date B.C. 1300; in this, fourteen different + positions are represented. The Indians, according to Iwan Bloch, + recognize altogether forty-eight different positions; the _Ananga + Ranga_ describes thirty-two main forms. The Mohammedan _Perfumed + Garden_ describes forty forms, as well as six different kinds of + movement during coitus. The Eastern books of this kind are, on + the whole, superior to those that have been produced by the + Western world, not only by their greater thoroughness, but by the + higher spirit by which they have often been inspired. + + The ancient Greek erotic writings, now all lost, in which the + modes of coitus were described, were nearly all attributed to + women. According to a legend recorded by Suidas, the earliest + writer of this kind was Astyanassa, the maid of Helen of Troy. + Elephantis, the poetess, is supposed to have enumerated nine + different postures. Numerous women of later date wrote on these + subjects, and one book is attributed to Polycrates, the sophist. + + Aretino--who wrote after the influence of Christianity had + degraded erotic matters perilously near to that region of + pornography from which they are only to-day beginning to be + rescued--in his _Sonnetti Lussuriosi_ described twenty-six + different methods of coitus, each one accompanied by an + illustrative design by Giulio Romano, the chief among Raphael's + pupils. Veniero, in his _Puttana Errante_, described thirty-two + positions. More recently Forberg, the chief modern authority, has + enumerated ninety positions, but, it is said, only forty-eight + can, even on the most liberal estimate, be regarded as coming + within the range of normal variation. + + The disgrace which has overtaken the sexual act, and rendered it + a deed of darkness, is doubtless largely responsible for the fact + that the chief time for its consummation among modern civilized + peoples is the darkness of the early night in stuffy bedrooms + when the fatigue of the day's labors is struggling with the + artificial stimulation produced by heavy meals and alcoholic + drinks. This habit is partly responsible for the indifference or + even disgust with which women sometimes view coitus. + + Many more primitive peoples are wiser. The New Guinea Papuans of + Astrolabe Bay, according to Vahness (_Zeitschrift fuer + Ethnologie_, 1900, Heft 5, p. 414), though it must be remembered + that the association of the sexual act with darkness is much + older than Christianity, and connected with early religious + notions (cf. Hesiod, _Works and Days_, Bk. II), always have + sexual intercourse in the open air. The hard-working women of the + Gebvuka and Buru Islands, again, are too tired for coitus at + night; it is carried out in the day time under the trees, and the + Serang Islanders also have coitus in the woods (Ploss and + Bartels, Das _Weib_, Bk. i, Ch. XVII). + + It is obviously impracticable to follow these examples in modern + cities, even if avocation and climate permitted. It is also + agreed that sexual intercourse should be followed by repose. + There seems to be little doubt, however, that the early morning + and the daylight are a more favorable time than the early night. + Conception should take place in the light, said Michelet + (_L'Amour_, p. 153); sexual intercourse in the darkness of night + is an act committed with a mere female animal; in the day-time it + is union with a loving and beloved individual person. + + This has been widely recognized. The Greeks, as we gather from + Aristophanes in the _Archarnians_, regarded sunrise as the + appropriate time for coitus. The South Slavs also say that dawn + is the time for coitus. Many modern authorities have urged the + advantages of early morning coitus. Morning, said Roubaud + (_Traite de l'Impuissance_, pp. 151-3) is the time for coitus, + and even if desire is greater in the evening, pleasure is greater + in the morning. Osiander also advised early morning coitus, and + Venette, in an earlier century, discussing "at what hour a man + should amorously embrace his wife" (_La Generation de l'Homme_, + Part II, Ch. V), while thinking it is best to follow inclination, + remarks that "a beautiful woman looks better by sunlight than by + candlelight." A few authorities, like Burdach, have been content + to accept the custom of night coitus, and Busch (_Das + Geschlechtsleben des Weibes_, vol. i, p. 214) was inclined to + think the darkness of night the most "natural" time, while + Fuerbringer (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation + to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 217) thinks that early morning is + "occasionally" the best time. + + To some, on the other hand, the exercise of sexual intercourse in + the sunlight and the open air seems so important that they are + inclined to elevate it to the rank of a religious exercise. I + quote from a communication on this point received from Australia: + "This shameful thing that must not be spoken of or done (except + in the dark) will some day, I believe, become the one religious + ceremony of the human race, in the spring. (Oh, what springs!) + People will have become very sane, well-bred, aristocratic (all + of them aristocrats), and on the whole opposed to rites and + superstitions, for they will have a perfect knowledge of the + past. The coition of lovers in the springtime will be the one + religious ceremony they will allow themselves. I have a vision + sometimes of the holy scene, but I am afraid it is too beautiful + to describe. 'The intercourse of the sexes, I have dreamed, is + ineffably beautiful, too fair to be remembered,' wrote the chaste + Thoreau. Verily human beauty, joy, and love will reach their + divinest height during those inaugural days of springtide + coupling. When the world is one Paradise, the consummation of the + lovers, the youngest and most beautiful, will take place in + certain sacred valleys in sight of thousands assembled to witness + it. For days it will take place in these valleys where the sun + will rise on a dream of passionate voices, of clinging human + forms, of flowers and waters, and the purple and gold of the + sunrise are reflected on hills illumined with pansies. [I know + not if the writer recalled George Chapman's "Enamelled pansies + used at nuptials still"], and repeated on golden human flesh and + human hair. In these sacred valleys the subtle perfume of the + pansies will mingle with the divine fragrance of healthy naked + young women and men in the spring coupling. You and I shall not + see that, but we may help to make it possible." This rhapsody (an + unconscious repetition of Saint-Lambert's at Mlle. Quinault's + table in the eighteenth century) serves to illustrate the revolt + which tends to take place against the unnatural and artificial + degradation of the sexual act. + + In some parts of the world it has seemed perfectly natural and + reasonable that so great and significant an act as that of coitus + should be consecrated to the divinity, and hence arose the custom + of prayer before sexual intercourse. Thus Zoroaster ordained that + a married couple should pray before coitus, and after the act + they should say together: "O, Sapondomad, I trust this seed to + thee, preserve it for me, for it is a man." In the Gorong + Archipelago it is customary also for husband and wife to pray + together before the sexual act (Ploss and Bartels, _Das Weib_, + Bd. i, Ch. XVII). The civilized man, however, has come to regard + his stomach as the most important of his organs, and he utters + his conventional grace, not before love, but only before food. + Even the degraded ritual vestiges of the religious recognition of + coitus are difficult to find in Europe. We may perhaps detect it + among the Spaniards, with their tenacious instinct for ritual, in + the solemn etiquette with which, in the seventeenth century, it + was customary, according to Madame d'Aulnoy, for the King to + enter the bedchamber of the Queen: "He has on his slippers, his + black mantle over his shoulder, his shield on one arm, a bottle + hanging by a cord over the other arm (this bottle is not to drink + from, but for a quite opposite purpose, which you will guess). + With all this the King must also have his great sword in one hand + and a dark lantern in the other. In this way he must enter, + alone, the Queen's chamber" (Madame d'Aulnoy, _Relation du Voyage + d'Espagne_, 1692, vol. iii, p. 221). + +In discussing the art of love it is necessary to give a primary place to +the central fact of coitus, on account of the ignorance that widely +prevails concerning it, and the unfortunate prejudices which in their +fungous broods flourish in the noisome obscurity around it. The traditions +of the Christian Church, which overspread the whole of Europe, and set up +for worship a Divine Virgin and her Divine Son, both of whom it +elaborately disengaged from personal contact with sexuality effectually +crushed any attempt to find a sacred and avowable ideal in married love. +Even the Church's own efforts to elevate matrimony were negatived by its +own ideals. That influence depresses our civilization even to-day. When +Walt Whitman wrote his "Children of Adam" he was giving imperfect +expression to conceptions of the religious nature of sexual love which +have existed wholesomely and naturally in all parts of the world, but had +not yet penetrated the darkness of Christendom where they still seemed +strange and new, if not terrible. And the refusal to recognize the +solemnity of sex had involved the placing of a pall of blackness and +disrepute on the supreme sexual act itself. It was shut out from the +sunshine and excluded from the sphere of worship. + +The sexual act is important from the point of view of erotic art, not only +from the ignorance and prejudices which surround it, but also because it +has a real value even in regard to the psychic side of married life. +"These organs," according to the oft-quoted saying of the old French +physician, Ambrose Pare, "make peace in the household." How this comes +about we see illustrated from time to time in Pepys's Diary. At the same +time, it is scarcely necessary to say, after all that has gone before, +that this ancient source of domestic peace tends to be indefinitely +complicated by the infinite variety in erotic needs, which become ever +more pronounced with the growth of civilization.[408] + +The art of love is, indeed, only beginning with the establishment of +sexual intercourse. In the adjustment of that relationship all the forces +of nature are so strongly engaged that under completely favorable +conditions--which indeed very rarely occur in our civilization--the +knowledge of the art and a possible skill in its exercise come almost of +themselves. The real test of the artist in love is in the skill to carry +it beyond the period when the interests of nature, having been really or +seemingly secured, begin to slacken. The whole art of love, it has been +well said, lies in forever finding something new in the same person. The +art of love is even more the art of retaining love than of arousing it. +Otherwise it tends to degenerate towards the Shakespearian lust, + + "Past reason hunted, and no sooner had, + Past reason hated," + +though it must be remembered that even from the most strictly natural +point of view the transitions of passion are not normally towards +repulsion but towards affection.[409] + +The young man and woman who are brought into the complete unrestraint of +marriage after a prolonged and unnatural separation, during which desire +and the satisfactions of desire have been artificially disconnected, are +certainly not under the best conditions for learning the art of love. They +are tempted by reckless and promiscuous indulgence in the intimacies of +marriage to fling carelessly aside all the reasons that make that art +worth learning. "There are married people," as Ellen Key remarks, "who +might have loved each other all their lives if they had not been +compelled, every day and all the year, to direct their habits, wills, and +inclinations towards each other." + +All the tendencies of our civilized life are, in personal matters, towards +individualism; they involve the specialization, and they ensure the +sacredness, of personal habits and even peculiarities. This individualism +cannot be broken down suddenly at the arbitrary dictation of a tradition, +or even by the force of passion from which the restraints have been +removed. Out of deference to the conventions and prejudices of their +friends, or out of the reckless abandonment of young love, or merely out +of a fear of hurting each other's feelings, young couples have often +plunged prematurely into an unbroken intimacy which is even more +disastrous to the permanency of marriage than the failure ever to reach a +complete intimacy at all. That is one of the chief reasons why most +writers on the moral hygiene of marriage nowadays recommend separate beds +for the married couple, if possible separate bedrooms, and even sometimes, +with Ellen Key, see no objection to their living in separate houses. +Certainly the happiest marriages have often involved the closest and most +unbroken intimacy, in persons peculiarly fitted for such intimacy. It is +far from true that, as Bloch has affirmed, familiarity is fatal to love. +It is deadly to a love that has no roots, but it is the nourishment of the +deeply-rooted love. Yet it remains true that absence is needed to maintain +the keen freshness and fine idealism of love. "Absence," as Landor said, +"is the invisible and incorporeal mother of ideal beauty." The married +lovers who are only able to meet for comparatively brief periods between +long absences have often experienced in these meetings a life-long +succession of honeymoons.[410] + +There can be no question that as presence has its risks for love, so also +has absence. Absence like presence, in the end, if too prolonged, effaces +the memory of love, and absence, further, by the multiplied points of +contact with the world which it frequently involves, introduces the +problem of jealousy, although, it must be added, it is difficult indeed to +secure a degree of association which excludes jealousy or even the +opportunities for motives of jealousy. The problem of jealousy is so +fundamental in the art of love that it is necessary at this point to +devote to it a brief discussion. + +Jealousy is based on fundamental instincts which are visible at the +beginning of animal life. Descartes defined jealousy as "a kind of fear +related to a desire to preserve a possession." Every impulse of +acquisition in the animal world is stimulated into greater activity by the +presence of a rival who may snatch beforehand the coveted object. This +seems to be a fundamental fact in the animal world; it has been a +life-conserving tendency, for, it has been said, an animal that stood +aside while its fellows were gorging themselves with food, and experienced +nothing but pure satisfaction in the spectacle, would speedily perish. But +in this fact we have the natural basis of jealousy.[411] + +It is in reference to food that this impulse appears first and most +conspicuously among animals. It is a well-known fact that association +with other animals induces an animal to eat much more than when kept by +himself. He ceases to eat from hunger but eats, as it has been put, in +order to preserve his food from rivals in the only strong box he knows. +The same feeling is transferred among animals to the field of sex. And +further in the relations of dogs and other domesticated animals to their +masters the emotion of jealousy is often very keenly marked.[412] + +Jealousy is an emotion which is at its maximum among animals, among +savages,[413] among children,[414] in the senile, in the degenerate, and +very specially in chronic alcoholics.[415] It is worthy of note that the +supreme artists and masters of the human heart who have most consummately +represented the tragedy of jealousy clearly recognized that it is either +atavistic or pathological; Shakespeare made his Othello a barbarian, and +Tolstoy made the Pozdnischeff of his _Kreutzer Sonata_ a lunatic. It is an +anti-social emotion, though it has been maintained by some that it has +been the cause of chastity and fidelity. Gesell, for instance, while +admitting its anti-social character and accumulating quotations in +evidence of the torture and disaster it occasions, seems to think that it +still ought to be encouraged in order to foster sexual virtues. Very +decided opinions have been expressed in the opposite sense. Jealousy, like +other shadows, says Ellen Key, belongs only to the dawn and the setting of +love, and a man should feel that it is a miracle, and not his right, if +the sun stands still at the zenith.[416] + +Even therefore if jealousy has been a beneficial influence at the +beginning of civilization, as well as among animals,--as may probably be +admitted, though on the whole it seems rather to be the by-product of a +beneficial influence than such an influence itself,--it is still by no +means clear that it therefore becomes a desirable emotion in more advanced +stages of civilization. There are many primitive emotions, like anger and +fear, which we do not think it desirable to encourage in complex civilized +societies but rather seek to restrain and control, and even if we are +inclined to attribute an original value to jealousy, it seems to be among +these emotions that it ought to be placed. + + Miss Clapperton, in discussing this problem (_Scientific + Meliorism_, pp. 129-137), follows Darwin (_Descent of Man_, Part + I, Ch. IV) in thinking that jealousy led to "the inculcation of + female virtue," but she adds that it has also been a cause of + woman's subjection, and now needs to be eliminated. "To rid + ourselves as rapidly as may be of jealousy is essential; + otherwise the great movement in favor of equality of sex will + necessarily meet with checks and grave obstruction." + + Ribot (_La Logique des Sentiments_, pp. 75 et seq.; _Essai sur + les Passions_, pp. 91, 175), while stating that subjectively the + estimate of jealousy must differ in accordance with the ideal of + life held, considers that objectively we must incline to an + unfavorable estimate "Even a brief passion is a rupture in the + normal life; it is an abnormal, if not a pathological state, an + excrescence, a parasitism." + + Forel (_Die Sexuelle Frage_, Ch. V) speaks very strongly in the + same sense, and considers that it is necessary to eliminate + jealousy by non-procreation of the jealous. Jealousy is, he + declares, "the worst and unfortunately the most deeply-rooted of + the 'irradiations,' or, better, the 'contrast-reactions,' of + sexual love inherited from our animal ancestors. An old German + saying, 'Eifersucht ist eine Leidenschaft die mit Eifer sucht was + Leider schafft,' says by no means too much.... Jealousy is a + heritage of animality and barbarism; I would recall this to those + who, under the name of 'injured honor,' attempt to justify it and + place it on a high pedestal. An unfaithful husband is ten times + more to be wished for a woman than a jealous husband.... We often + hear of 'justifiable jealousy.' I believe, however, that there is + no justifiable jealousy; it is always atavistic or else + pathological; at the best it is nothing more than a brutal + animal stupidity. A man who, by nature, that is by his hereditary + constitution, is jealous is certain to poison his own life and + that of his wife. Such men ought on no account to marry. Both + education and selection should work together to eliminate + jealousy as far as possible from the human brain." + + Eric Gillard in an article on "Jealousy" (_Free Review_, Sept., + 1896), in opposition to those who believe that jealousy "makes + the home," declares that, on the contrary, it is the chief force + that unmakes the home. "So long as egotism waters it with the + tears of sentiment and shields it from the cold blasts of + scientific inquiry, so long will it thrive. But the time will + come when it will be burned in the Garden of Love as a noxious + weed. Its mephitic influence in society is too palpable to be + overlooked. It turns homes that might be sanctuaries of love into + hells of discord and hate; it causes suicides, and it drives + thousands to drink, reckless excesses, and madness. Makes the + home! One of your married men friends sees a probable seducer in + every man who smiles at his wife; another is jealous of his + wife's women acquaintances; a third is wounded because his wife + shows so much attention to the children. Some of the women you + know display jealousy of every other woman, of their husband's + acquaintances, and some, of his very dog. You must be completely + monopolized or you do not thoroughly love. You must admire no one + but the person with whom you have immured yourself for life. Old + friendships must be dissolved, new friendships must not be + formed, for fear of invoking the beautiful emotion that 'makes + the home.'" + +Even if jealousy in matters of sex could be admitted to be an emotion +working on the side of civilized progress, it must still be pointed out +that it merely acts externally; it can have little or no real influence; +the jealous person seldom makes himself more lovable by his jealousy and +frequently much less lovable. The main effect of his jealousy is to +increase, and not seldom to excite, the causes for jealousy, and at the +same time to encourage hypocrisy. + + All the circumstances, accompaniments, and results of domestic + jealousy in their completely typical form, are well illustrated + by a very serious episode in the history of the Pepys household, + and have been fully and faithfully set down by the great diarist. + The offence--an embrace of his wife's lady-help, as she might now + be termed--was a slight one, but, as Pepys himself admits, quite + inexcusable. He is writing, being in his thirty-sixth year, on + the 25th of Oct., 1668 (Lord's Day). "After supper, to have my + hair combed by Deb, which occasioned the greatest sorrow to me + that ever I knew in this world, for my wife, coming up suddenly, + did find me embracing the girl.... I was at a wonderful loss upon + it, and the girl also, and I endeavored to put it off, but my + wife was struck mute and grew angry.... Heartily afflicted for + this folly of mine.... So ends this month," he writes a few days + later, "with some quiet to my mind, though not perfect, after the + greatest falling out with my poor wife, and through my folly with + the girl, that ever I had, and I have reason to be sorry and + ashamed of it, and more to be troubled for the poor girl's sake. + Sixth November. Up, and presently my wife up with me, which she + professedly now do every day to dress me, that I may not see + Willet [Deb], and do eye me, whether I cast my eye upon her, or + no, and do keep me from going into the room where she is. Ninth + November. Up, and I did, by a little note which I flung to Deb, + advise her that I did continue to deny that ever I kissed her, + and so she might govern herself. The truth is that I did + adventure upon God's pardoning me this lie, knowing how heavy a + thing it would be for me, to the ruin of the poor girl, and next + knowing that if my wife should know all it would be impossible + for her ever to be at peace with me again, and so our whole lives + would be uncomfortable. The girl read, and as I bid her returned + me the note, flinging it to me in passing by." Next day, however, + he is "mightily troubled," for his wife has obtained a confession + from the girl of the kissing. For some nights Mr. and Mrs. Pepys + are both sleepless, with much weeping on either side. Deb gets + another place, leaving on the 14th of November, and Pepys is + never able to see her before she leaves the house, his wife + keeping him always under her eye. It is evident that Pepys now + feels strongly attracted to Deb, though there is no evidence of + this before she became the subject of the quarrel. On the 13th of + November, hearing she was to leave next day, he writes: "The + truth is I have a good mind to have the maidenhead of this girl." + He was, however, the "more troubled to see how my wife is by this + means likely forever to have her hand over me, and that I shall + forever be a slave to her--that is to say, only in matters of + pleasure." At the same time his love for his wife was by no means + diminished, nor hers for him. "I must here remark," he says, + "that I have lain with my moher [i.e., _muger_, wife] as a + husband more times since this falling out than in, I believe, + twelve months before. And with more pleasure to her than in all + the time of our marriage before." The next day was Sunday. On + Monday Pepys at once begins to make inquiries which will put him + on the track of Deb. On the 18th he finds her. She gets up into + the coach with him, and he kisses her and takes liberties with + her, at the same time advising her "to have a care of her honor + and to fear God," allowing no one else to do what he has done; he + also tells her how she can find him if she desires. Pepys now + feels that everything is settled satisfactorily, and his heart + is full of joy. But his joy is short-lived, for Mrs. Pepys + discovers this interview with Deb on the following day. Pepys + denies it at first, then confesses, and there is a more furious + scene than ever. Pepys is now really alarmed, for his wife + threatens to leave him; he definitely abandons Deb, and with + prayers to God resolves never to do the like again. Mrs. Pepys is + not satisfied, however, till she makes her husband write a letter + to Deb, telling her that she is little better than a whore, and + that he hates her, though Deb is spared this, not by any + stratagem of Pepys, but by the considerateness of the friend to + whom the letter was entrusted for delivery. Moreover, Mrs. Pepys + arranges with her husband that, in future, whenever he goes + abroad he shall be accompanied everywhere by his clerk. We see + that Mrs. Pepys plays with what appears to be triumphant skill + and success the part of the jealous and avenging wife, and digs + her little French heels remorselessly into her prostrate husband + and her rival. Unfortunately, we do not know what the final + outcome was, for a little later, owing to trouble with his + eyesight, Pepys was compelled to bring his Diary to an end. It is + evident, however, when we survey the whole of this perhaps + typical episode, that neither husband nor wife were in the + slightest degree prepared for the commonplace position into which + they were thrown; that each of them appears in a painful, + undignified, and humiliating light; that as a result of it the + husband acquires almost a genuine and strong affection for the + girl who is the cause of the quarrel; and finally that, even + though he is compelled, for the time at all events, to yield to + his wife, he remains at the end exactly what he was at the + beginning. Nor had husband or wife the very slightest wish to + leave each other; the bond of marriage remained firm, but it had + been degraded by insincerity on one side and the jealous endeavor + on the other to secure fidelity by compulsion. + +Apart altogether, however, from the question of its effectiveness, or even +of the misery that it causes to all concerned, it is evident that jealousy +is incompatible with all the tendencies of civilization. We have seen that +a certain degree of variation is involved in the sexual relationship, as +in all other relationships, and unless we are to continue to perpetuate +many evils and injustices, that fact has to be faced and recognized. We +have also seen that the line of our advance involves a constant increase +in moral responsibility and self-government, and that, in its turn, +implies not only a high degree of sincerity but also the recognition that +no person has any right, or indeed any power, to control the emotions and +actions of another person. If our sun of love stands still at midday, +according to Ellen Key's phrase, that is a miracle to be greeted with awe +and gratitude, and by no means a right to be demanded. The claim of +jealousy falls with the claim of conjugal rights. + + It is quite possible, Bloch remarks (_The Sexual Life of Our + Time_, Ch. X), to love more than one person at the same time, + with nearly equal tenderness, and to be honestly able to assure + each of the passion felt for her or him. Bloch adds that the vast + psychic differentiation involved by modern civilization increases + the possibility of this double love, for it is difficult for + anyone to find his complement in a single person, and that this + applies to women as well as to men. + + Georg Hirth likewise points out (_Wege zur Heimat_, pp. 543-552) + that it is important to remember that women, as well as men, can + love two persons at the same time. Men flatter themselves, he + remarks, with the prejudice that the female heart, or rather + brain, can only hold one man at a time, and that if there is a + second man it is by a kind of prostitution. Nearly all erotic + writers, poets, and novelists, even physicians and psychologists, + belong to this class, he says; they look on a woman as property, + and of course two men cannot "possess" a woman. (Regarding + novelists, however, the remark may be interpolated that there are + many exceptions, and Thomas Hardy, for instance, frequently + represents a woman as more or less in love with two men at the + same time.) As against this desire to depreciate women's psychic + capacity, Hirth maintains that a woman is not necessarily obliged + to be untrue to one man because she has conceived a passion for + another man. "Today," Hirth truly declares, "only love and + justice can count as honorable motives in marriage. The modern + man accords to the beloved wife and life-companion the same + freedom which he himself took before marriage, and perhaps still + takes in marriage. If she makes no use of it, as is to be + hoped--so much the better! But let there be no lies, no + deception; the indispensable foundation of modern marriage is + boundless sincerity and friendship, the deepest trust, + affectionate devotion, and consideration. This is the best + safeguard against adultery.... Let him, however, who is, + nevertheless, overtaken by the outbreak of it console himself + with the undoubted fact that of two real lovers the most + noble-minded and deep-seeing _friend_ will always have the + preference." These wise words cannot be too deeply meditated. The + policy of jealousy is only successful--when it is successful--in + the hands of the man who counts the external husk of love more + precious than the kernel. + +It seems to some that the recognition of variations in sexual +relationships, of the tendency of the monogamic to overpass its +self-imposed bounds, is at best a sad necessity, and a lamentable fall +from a high ideal. That, however, is the reverse of the truth. The great +evil of monogamy, and its most seriously weak point, is its tendency to +self-concentration at the expense of the outer world. The devil always +comes to a man in the shape of his wife and children, said Hinton. The +family is a great social influence in so far as it is the best instrument +for creating children who will make the future citizens; but in a certain +sense the family is an anti-social influence, for it tends to absorb +unduly the energy that is needed for the invigoration of society. It is +possible, indeed, that that fact led to the modification of the monogamic +system in early developing periods of human history, when social expansion +and cohesion were the primary necessities. The family too often tends to +resemble, as someone has said, the secluded collection of grubs sometimes +revealed in their narrow home when we casually raise a flat stone in our +gardens. Great as are the problems of love, and great as should be our +attention to them, it must always be remembered that love is not a little +circle that is complete in itself. It is the nature of love to irradiate. +Just as family life exists mainly for the social end of breeding the +future race, so family love has its social ends in the extension of +sympathy and affection to those outside it, and even in ends that go +beyond love altogether.[417] + +The question is debated from time to time as to how far it is possible for +men and women to have intimate friendships with each other outside the +erotic sphere.[418] There can be no doubt whatever that it is perfectly +possible for a man and a woman to experience for each other a friendship +which never intrudes into the sexual sphere. As a rule, however, this only +happens under special conditions, and those are generally conditions which +exclude the closest and most intimate friendship. If, as we have seen, +love may be defined as a synthesis of lust and friendship, friendship +inevitably enters into the erotic sphere. Just as sexual emotion tends to +merge into friendship, so friendship between persons of opposite sex, if +young, healthy, and attractive, tends to involve sexual emotion. The two +feelings are too closely allied for an artificial barrier to be +permanently placed between them without protest. Men who offer a woman +friendship usually find that it is not received with much satisfaction +except as the first installment of a warmer emotion, and women who offer +friendship to a man usually find that he responds with an offer of love; +very often the "friendship" is from the first simply love or flirtation +masquerading under another name. + + "In the long run," a woman writes (in a letter published in + _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Bd. i, Heft 7), "the senses become + discontented at their complete exclusion. And I believe that a + man can only come into the closest mutual association with a + woman by whom, consciously or unconsciously, he is physically + attracted. He cannot enter into the closest psychic intercourse + with a woman with whom he could not imagine himself in physical + intercourse. His prevailing wish is for the possession of a + woman, of the whole woman, her soul as well as her body. And a + woman also cannot imagine an intimate relation to a man in which + the heart and the body, as well as the mind, are not involved. + (Naturally I am thinking of people with sound nerves and healthy + blood.) Can a woman carry on a Platonic relation with a man from + year to year without the thought sometimes coming to her: 'Why + does he never kiss me? Have I no charm for him?' And in the most + concealed corner of her heart will it not happen that she uses + that word 'kiss' in the more comprehensive sense in which the + French sometimes employ it?" There is undoubtedly an element of + truth in this statement. The frontier between erotic love and + friendship is vague, and an intimate psychic intercourse that is + sternly debarred from ever manifesting itself in a caress, or + other physical manifestation of tender intimacy, tends to be + constrained, and arouses unspoken and unspeakable thoughts and + desires which are fatal to any complete friendship. + +Undoubtedly the only perfect "Platonic friendships" are those which have +been reached through the portal of a preliminary erotic intimacy. In such +a case bad lovers, when they have resolutely traversed the erotic stage, +may become exceedingly good friends. A satisfactory friendship is +possible between brother and sister because they have been physically +intimate in childhood, and all erotic curiosities are absent. The most +admirable "Platonic friendship" may often be attained by husband and wife +in whom sympathy and affection and common interests have outlived passion. +In nearly all the most famous friendships of distinguished men and +women--as we know in some cases and divine in others--an hour's passion, +in Sainte-Beuve's words, has served as the golden key to unlock the most +precious and intimate secrets of friendship.[419] + +The friendships that have been entered through the erotic portal possess +an intimacy and retain a spiritually erotic character which could not be +attained on the basis of a normal friendship between persons of the same +sex. This is true in a far higher degree of the ultimate relationship, +under fortunate circumstances, of husband and wife in the years after +passion has become impossible. They have ceased to be passionate lovers +but they have not become mere friends and comrades. More especially their +relationship takes on elements borrowed from the attitude of child to +parent, of parent to child. Everyone from his first years retains +something of the child which cannot be revealed to all the world; everyone +acquires something of the guardian paternal or maternal spirit. Husband +and wife are each child to the other, and are indeed parent and child by +turn. And here still the woman retains a certain erotic supremacy, for she +is to the last more of a child than it is ever easy for the man to be, and +much more essentially a mother than he is a father. + + Groos (_Der AEsthetische Genuss_, p. 249) has pointed out that + "love" is really made up of both sexual instinct and parental + instinct. + + "So-called happy marriages," says Professor W. Thomas (_Sex and + Society_, p. 246), "represent an equilibrium reached through an + extension of the maternal interest of the woman to the man, + whereby she looks after his personal needs as she does after + those of the children--cherishing him, in fact, as a child--or + in an extension to woman on the part of man of the nurture and + affection which is in his nature to give to pets and all helpless + (and preferably dumb) creatures." + + "When the devotion in the tie between mother and son," a woman + writes, "is added to the relation of husband and wife, the union + of marriage is raised to the high and beautiful dignity it + deserves, and can attain in this world. It comprehends sympathy, + love, and perfect understanding, even of the faults and + weaknesses of both sides." "The foundation of every true woman's + love," another woman writes, "is a mother's tenderness. He whom + she loves is a child of larger growth, although she may at the + same time have a deep respect for him." (See also, for similar + opinion of another woman of distinguished intellectual ability, + footnote at beginning of "The Psychic State in Pregnancy" in + volume v of these _Studies_.) + + It is on the basis of these elemental human facts that the + permanently seductive and inspiring relationships of sex are + developed, and not by the emergence of personalities who combine + impossibly exalted characteristics. "The task is extremely + difficult," says Kisch in his _Sexual Life of Woman_, "but a + clever and virtuous modern wife must endeavor to combine in her + single personality the sensuous attractiveness of an Aspasia, the + chastity of a Lucrece, and the intellectual greatness of a + Cornelia." And in an earlier century we are told in the novel of + _La Tia Fingida_, which has sometimes been attributed to + Cervantes, that "a woman should be an angel in the street, a + saint in church, beautiful at the window, honest in the house, + and a demon in bed." The demands made of men by women, on the + other hand, have been almost too lofty to bear definite + formulation at all. "Ninety-nine out of a hundred loving women," + says Helene Stoecker, "certainly believe that if a thousand other + men have behaved ignobly, and forsaken, ill-used, and deceived + the woman they love, the man they love is an exception, marked + out from all other men; that is the reason they love him." It may + be doubted, however, if the great lovers have ever stood very far + above the ordinary level of humanity by their possession of + perfection. They have been human, and their art of love has not + always excluded the possession of human frailties; perfection, + indeed, even if it could be found, would furnish a bad soil for + love to strike deep roots in. + +It is only when we realize the highly complex nature of the elements which +make up erotic love that we can understand how it is that that love can +constitute so tremendous a revelation and exert so profound an influence +even in men of the greatest genius and intellect and in the sphere of +their most spiritual activity. It is not merely passion, nor any conscious +skill in the erotic art,--important as these may be,--that would serve to +account for Goethe's relationship to Frau von Stein, or Wagner's to +Mathilde Wesendonck, or that of Robert and Elizabeth Browning to each +other.[420] + +It may now be clear to the reader why it has been necessary in a +discussion of the sexual impulse in its relationship to society to deal +with the art of love. It is true that there is nothing so intimately +private and personal as the erotic affairs of the individual. Yet it is +equally true that these affairs lie at the basis of the social life, and +furnish the conditions--good or bad as the case may be--of that +procreative act which is a supreme concern of the State. It is because the +question of love is of such purely private interest that it tends to be +submerged in the question of breed. We have to realize, not only that the +question of love subserves the question of breed, but also that love has a +proper, a necessary, even a socially wholesome claim, to stand by itself +and to be regarded for its own worth. + + In the profoundly suggestive study of love which the + distinguished sociologist Tarde left behind at his death + (_Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, loc. cit.), there are + some interesting remarks on this point: "Society," he says, "has + been far more, and more intelligently, preoccupied with the + problem of answering the 'question of breed' than the 'question + of love.' The first problem fills all our civil and commercial + codes. The second problem has never been clearly stated, or + looked in the face, not even in antiquity, still less since the + coming of Christianity, for merely to offer the solutions of + marriage and prostitution is manifestly inadequate. Statesmen + have only seen the side on which it touches population. Hence + the marriage laws. Sterile love they profess to disdain. Yet it + is evident that, though born as the serf of generation, love + tends by civilization to be freed from it. In place of a simple + method of procreation it has become an end, it has created itself + a title, a royal title. Our gardens cultivate flowers that are + all the more charming because they are sterile; why is the double + corolla of love held more infamous than the sterilized flowers of + our gardens?" Tarde replies that the reason is that our + politicians are merely ambitious persons thirsting for power and + wealth, and even when they are lovers they are Don Juans rather + than Virgils. "The future," he continues, "is to the Virgilians, + because if the ambition of power, the regal wealth of American or + European millionarism, once seemed nobler, love now more and more + attracts to itself the best and highest parts of the soul, where + lies the hidden ferment of all that is greatest in science and + art, and more and more those studious and artist souls multiply + who, intent on their peaceful activities, hold in horror the + business men and the politicians, and will one day succeed in + driving them back. That assuredly will be the great and capital + revolution of humanity, an active psychological revolution: the + recognized preponderance of the meditative and contemplative, the + lover's side of the human soul, over the feverish, expansive, + rapacious, and ambitious side. And then it will be understood + that one of the greatest of social problems, perhaps the most + arduous of all, has been the problem of love." + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[375] _Quaestionum Convivalium_, lib. iii, quaestio 6. + +[376] E.D. Cope, "The Marriage Problem," _Open Court_, Nov. 1888. + +[377] Columbus meeting of the American Medical Association, 1900. + +[378] Ellen Key, _Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 24. + +[379] In an admirable article on Friedrich Schlegel's _Lucinde_ +(_Mutterschutz_, 1906, Heft 5), Heinrich Meyer-Benfey, in pointing out +that the Catholic sacramental conception of marriage licensed love, but +failed to elevate it, regards _Lucinde_, with all its defects, as the +first expression of the unity of the senses and the soul, and, as such, +the basis of the new ethics of love. It must, however, be said that four +hundred years earlier Pontano had expressed this same erotic unity far +more robustly and wholesomely than Schlegel, though the Latin verse in +which he wrote, fresh and vital as it is, remained without influence. +Pontano's _Carmina_, including the "De Amore Conjugali," have at length +been reprinted in a scholarly edition by Soldati. + +[380] From the thirteenth to the seventeenth centuries Ovid was, in +reality, the most popular and influential classic poet. His works played a +large part in moulding Renaissance literature, not least in England, where +Marlowe translated his _Amores_, and Shakespeare, during the early years +of his literary activity, was greatly indebted to him (see, e.g., Sidney +Lee, "Ovid and Shakespeare's Sonnets," _Quarterly Review_, Ap., 1909). + +[381] This has already been discussed in Chapter II. + +[382] By the age of twenty-five, as G. Hirth remarks (_Wege zur Heimat_, +p. 541), an energetic and sexually disposed man in a large city has, for +the most part, already had relations with some twenty-five women, perhaps +even as many as fifty, while a well-bred and cultivated woman at that age +is still only beginning to realize the slowly summating excitations of +sex. + +[383] In his study of "Conjugal Aversion" (_Journal Nervous and Mental +Disease_, Sept., 1892) Smith Baker points out the value of adequate sexual +knowledge before marriage in lessening the risks of such aversion. + +[384] "It may be said to the honor of men," Adler truly remarks (op. cit., +p. 182), "that it is perhaps not often their conscious brutality that is +at fault in this matter, but merely lack of skill and lack of +understanding. The husband who is not specially endowed by nature and +experience for psychic intercourse with women, is not likely, through his +earlier intercourse with Venus vulgivaga, to bring into marriage any +useful knowledge, psychic or physical." + +[385] "The first night," writes a correspondent concerning his marriage, +"she found the act very painful and was frightened and surprised at the +size of my penis, and at my suddenly getting on her. We had talked very +openly about sex things before marriage, and it never occurred to me that +she was ignorant of the details of the act. I imagined it would disgust +her to talk about these things; but I now see I should have explained +things to her. Before marrying I had come to the conclusion that the +respect owed to one's wife was incompatible with any talk that might seem +indecent, and also I had made a resolve not to subject her to what I +thought then were dirty tricks, even to be naked and to have her naked. In +fact, I was the victim of mock modesty; it was an artificial reaction from +the life I had been living before marriage. Now it seems to me to be +natural, if you love a woman, to do whatever occurs to you and to her. If +I had not felt it wrong to encourage such acts between us, there might +have been established a sexual sympathy which would have bound me more +closely to her." + +[386] Montaigne, _Essais_, Bk. iii, Ch. V. It is a significant fact that, +even in the matter of information, women, notwithstanding much ignorance +and inexperience, are often better equipped for marriage than men. As +Fuerbringer remarks (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation +to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 212), although the wife is usually more chaste at +marriage than the husband, yet "she is generally the better informed +partner in matters pertaining to the married state, in spite of occasional +astonishing confessions." + +[387] "She never loses her self-respect nor my respect for her," a man +writes in a letter, "simply because we are desperately in love with one +another, and everything we do--some of which the lowest prostitute might +refuse to do--seems but one attempt after another to translate our passion +into action. I never realized before, not that to the pure all things are +pure, indeed, but that to the lover nothing is indecent. Yes, I have +always felt it, to love her is a liberal education." It is obviously only +the existence of such an attitude as this that can enable a pure woman to +be passionate. + +[388] "To be really understood," as Rafford Pyke well says, "to say what +she likes, to utter her innermost thoughts in her own way, to cast aside +the traditional conventions that gall her and repress her, to have someone +near her with whom she can be quite frank, and yet to know that not a +syllable of what she says will be misinterpreted or mistaken, but rather +felt just as she feels it all--how wonderfully sweet is this to every +woman, and how few men are there who can give it to her!" + +[389] In more recent times it has been discussed in relation to the +frequency of spontaneous nocturnal emissions. See "The Phenomena of Sexual +Periodicity," Sect. II, in volume i of these _Studies_, and cf. Mr. +Perry-Coste's remarks on "The Annual Rhythm," in Appendix B of the same +volume. + +[390] See "The Sexual Impulse in Women," vol. iii of these _Studies_. + +[391] Zenobia's practice is referred to by Gibbon, _Decline and Fall_, ed. +Bury, vol. i, p. 302. The Queen of Aragon's decision is recorded by the +Montpellier jurist, Nicolas Bohier (Boerius) in his _Decisiones_, etc., +ed. of 1579, p. 563; it is referred to by Montaigne, _Essais_, Bk. iii, +Ch. V. + +[392] Haller, _Elementa Physiologiae_, 1778, vol. vii, p. 57. + +[393] Hammond, _Sexual Impotence_, p. 129. + +[394] Fuerbringer, Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation to +Marriage_, vol. i, p. 221. + +[395] Forel, _Die Sexuelle Frage_, p. 80. + +[396] Guyot, _Breviaire de l'Amour Experimental_, p. 144. + +[397] Erb, Ziemssen's _Handbuch_, Bd. xi, ii, p. 148. Guttceit also +considered that the very wide variations found are congenital and natural. +It may be added that some believe that there are racial variations. Thus +it has been stated that the genital force of the Englishman is low, and +that of the Frenchman (especially Provencal, Languedocian, and Gascon) +high, while Loewenfeld believes that the Germanic race excels the French in +aptitude to repeat the sex act frequently. It is probable that little +weight attaches to these opinions, and that the chief differences are +individual rather than racial. + +[398] Ribbing, _L'Hygiene Sexualle_, p. 75. Kisch, in his _Sexual Life of +Woman_, expresses the same opinion. + +[399] Mohammed, who often displayed a consideration for women very rare in +the founders of religions, is an exception. His prescription of once a +week represented the right of the wife, quite independently of the number +of wives a man might possess. + +[400] How fragile the claim of "conjugal rights" is, may be sufficiently +proved by the fact that it is now considered by many that the very term +"conjugal rights" arose merely by a mistake for "conjugal rites." Before +1733, when legal proceedings were in Latin, the term used was _obsequies_, +and "rights," instead of "rites," seems to have been merely a typesetter's +error (see _Notes and Queries_, May 16, 1891; May 6, 1899). This +explanation, it should be added, only applies to the consecrated term, for +there can be no doubt that the underlying idea has an existence quite +independent of the term. + +[401] "In most marriages that are not happy," it is said in Rafford Pyke's +thoughtful paper on "Husbands and Wives" (_Cosmopolitan_, 1902), "it is +the wife rather than the husband who is oftenest disappointed." + +[402] See "Analysis of the Sexual Impulse," in vol. iii of these +_Studies_. + +[403] It is well recognized by erotic writers, however, that women may +sometimes take a comparatively active part. Thus Vatsyayana says that +sometimes the woman may take the man's position, and with flowers in her +hair and smiles mixed with sighs and bent head, caressing him and pressing +her breasts against him, say: "You have been my conqueror; it is my turn +to make you cry for mercy." + +[404] Thus among the Swahili it is on the third day after marriage that +the bridegroom is allowed, by custom, to complete defloration, according +to Zache, _Zeitschrift fuer Ethnologie_, 1899, II-III, p. 84. + +[405] _De l'Amour_, vol. ii, p. 57. + +[406] Robert Michels, "Brautstandsmoral," _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, +Jahrgang I, Heft 12. + +[407] I may refer once more to the facts brought together in volume iii of +these _Studies_, "The Analysis of the Sexual Impulse." + +[408] This has been pointed out, for instance, by Rutgers, "Sexuelle +Differenzierung," _Die Neue Generation_, Dec., 1908. + +[409] Thus, among the Eskimo, who practice temporary wife-exchange, +Rasmussen states that "a man generally discovers that his own wife is, in +spite of all, the best." + +[410] "I have always held with the late Professor Laycock," remarks +Clouston (_Hygiene of Mind_, p. 214), "who was a very subtle student of +human nature, that a married couple need not be always together to be +happy, and that in fact reasonable absences and partings tend towards +ultimate and closer union." That the prolongation of passion is only +compatible with absence scarcely needs pointing out; as Mary +Wollstonecraft long since said (_Rights of Woman_, original ed., p. 61), +it is only in absence or in misfortune that passion is durable. It may be +added, however, that in her love-letters to Imlay she wrote: "I have ever +declared that two people who mean to live together ought not to be long +separated." + +[411] "Viewed broadly," says Arnold L. Gesell, in his interesting study of +"Jealousy" (_American Journal of Psychology_, Oct., 1906), "jealousy seems +such a necessary psychological accompaniment to biological behavior, +amidst competitive struggle, that one is tempted to consider it +genetically among the oldest of the emotions, synonymous almost with the +will to live, and to make it scarcely less fundamental than fear or anger. +In fact, jealousy readily passes into anger, and is itself a brand of +fear.... In sociability and mutual aid we see the other side of the +shield; but jealousy, however anti-social it may be, retains a function in +zooelogical economy: viz., to conserve the individual as against the group. +It is Nature's great corrective for the purely social emotions." + +[412] Many illustrations are brought together in Gesell's study of +"Jealousy." + +[413] Jealousy among lower races may be disguised or modified by tribal +customs. Thus Rasmussen (_People of the Polar North_, p. 65) says in +reference to the Eskimo custom of wife-exchange: "A man once told me that +he only beat his wife when she would not receive other men. She would have +nothing to do with anyone but him--and that was her only failing!" +Rasmussen elsewhere shows that the Eskimo are capable of extreme jealousy. + +[414] See, e.g., Moll, _Sexualleben des Kindes_, p. 158; cf., Gesell's +"Study of Jealousy." + +[415] Jealousy is notoriously common among drunkards. As K. Birnbaum +points out ("Das Sexualleben der Alkokolisten," _Sexual-Probleme_, Jan., +1909), this jealousy is, in most cases, more or less well-founded, for the +wife, disgusted with her husband, naturally seeks sympathy and +companionship elsewhere. Alcoholic jealousy, however, goes far beyond its +basis of support in fact, and is entangled with delusions and +hallucinations. (See e.g., G. Dumas, "La Logique d'un Dement," _Revue +Philosophique_, Feb., 1908; also Stefanowski, "Morbid Jealousy," _Alienist +and Neurologist_, July, 1893.) + +[416] Ellen Key, _Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 335. + +[417] Schrempf points out ("Von Stella zu Klaerchen," _Mutterschutz_, 1906, +Heft 7, p. 264) that Goethe strove to show in _Egmont_ that a woman is +repelled by the love of a man who knows nothing beyond his love to her, +and that it is easy for her to devote herself to the man whose aims lie in +the larger world beyond herself. There is profound truth in this view. + +[418] A discussion on "Platonic friendship" of this kind by several +writers, mostly women, whose opinions were nearly equally divided, may be +found, for instance, in the _Lady's Realm_, March, 1900. + +[419] There are no doubt important exceptions. Thus Merimee's famous +friendship with Mlle. Jenny Dacquin, enshrined in the _Lettres a une +Inconnue_, was perhaps Platonic throughout on Merimee's side, Mlle. +Dacquin adapting herself to his attitude. Cf. A. Lefebvre, _La Celebre +Inconnue de Merimee_, 1908. + +[420] The love-letters of all these distinguished persons have been +published. Rosa Mayreder (_Zur Kritik der Weiblichkeit_, pp. 229 _et +seq._) discusses the question of the humble and absolute manner in which +even men of the most masculine and impetuous genius abandon themselves to +the inspiration of the beloved woman. The case of the Brownings, who have +been termed "the hero and heroine of the most wonderful love-story that +the world knows of," is specially notable; (Ellen Key has written of the +Brownings from this point of view in _Menschen_, and reference may be made +to an article on the Brownings' love-letters in the _Edinburgh Review_, +April, 1899). It is scarcely necessary to add that an erotic relationship +may mean very much to persons of high intellectual ability, even when its +issue is not happy; of Mary Wollstonecraft, one of the most intellectually +distinguished of women, it may be said that the letters which enshrine her +love to the worthless Imlay are among the most passionate and pathetic +love-letters in English. + + + + +CHAPTER XII. + +THE SCIENCE OF PROCREATION. + +The Relationship of the Science of Procreation to the Art of Love--Sexual +Desire and Sexual Pleasure as the Conditions of Conception--Reproduction +Formerly Left to Caprice and Lust--The Question of Procreation as a +Religious Question--The Creed of Eugenics--Ellen Key and Sir Francis +Galton--Our Debt to Posterity--The Problem of Replacing Natural +Selection--The Origin and Development of Eugenics--The General Acceptance +of Eugenical Principles To-day--The Two Channels by Which Eugenical +Principles are Becoming Embodied in Practice--The Sense of Sexual +Responsibility in Women--The Rejection of Compulsory Motherhood--The +Privilege of Voluntary Motherhood--Causes of the Degradation of +Motherhood--The Control of Conception--Now Practiced by the Majority of +the Population in Civilized Countries--The Fallacy of "Racial +Suicide"--Are Large Families a Stigma of Degeneration?--Procreative +Control the Outcome of Natural and Civilized Progress--The Growth of +Neo-Malthusian Beliefs and Practices--Facultative Sterility as Distinct +from Neo-Malthusianism--The Medical and Hygienic Necessity of Control of +Conception--Preventive Methods--Abortion--The New Doctrine of the Duty to +Practice Abortion--How Far is this Justifiable?--Castration as a Method of +Controlling Procreation--Negative Eugenics and Positive Eugenics--The +Question of Certificates for Marriage--The Inadequacy of Eugenics by Act +of Parliament--The Quickening of the Social Conscience in Regard to +Heredity--Limitations to the Endowment of Motherhood--The Conditions +Favorable to Procreation--Sterility--The Question of Artificial +Fecundation--The Best Age of Procreation--The Question of Early +Motherhood--The Best Time for Procreation--The Completion of the Divine +Cycle of Life. + + +We have seen that the art of love has an independent and amply justifiable +right to existence apart, altogether, from procreation. Even if we still +believed--as all men must once have believed and some Central Australians +yet believe[421]--that sexual intercourse has no essential connection with +the propagation of the race it would have full right to existence. In its +finer manifestations as an art it is required in civilization for the full +development of the individual, and it is equally required for that +stability of relationships which is nearly everywhere regarded as a demand +of social morality. + +When we now turn to the second great constitutional factor of marriage, +procreation, the first point we encounter is that the art of love here +also has its place. In ancient times the sexual congruence of any man with +any woman was supposed to be so much a matter of course that all questions +of love and of the art of love could be left out of consideration. The +propagative act might, it was thought, be performed as impersonally, as +perfunctorily, as the early Christian Fathers imagined it had been +performed in Paradise. That view is no longer acceptable. It fails to +commend itself to men, and still less to women. We know that in +civilization at all events--and it is often indeed the same among +savages--erethism is not always easy between two persons selected at +random, nor even when they are more specially selected. And we also know, +on the authority of very distinguished gynaecologists, that it is not in +very many cases sufficient even to effect coitus, it is also necessary to +excite orgasm, if conception is to be achieved. + + Many primitive peoples, as well as the theologians of the Middle + Ages, have believed that sexual excitement on the woman's part is + necessary to conception, though they have sometimes mixed up that + belief with false science and mere superstition. The belief + itself is supported by some of the most cautious and experienced + modern gynaecologists. Thus, Matthews Duncan (in his lectures on + _Sterility in Women_) argued that the absence of sexual desire in + women, and the absence of pleasure in the sexual act, are + powerful influences making for sterility. He brought forward a + table based on his case-books, showing that of nearly four + hundred sterile women, only about one-fourth experienced sexual + desire, while less than half experienced pleasure in the sexual + act. In the absence, however, of a corresponding table concerning + fertile women, nothing is hereby absolutely proved, and, at most, + only a probability established. + + Kisch, more recently (in his _Sexual Life of Woman_), has dealt + fully with this question, and reaches the conclusion that it is + "extremely probable" that the active erotic participation of the + woman in coitus is an important link in the chain of conditions + producing conception. It acts, he remarks, in either or both of + two ways, by causing reflex changes in the cervical secretions, + and so facilitating the passage of the spermatozoa, and by + causing reflex erectile changes in the cervix itself, with slight + descent of the uterus, so rendering the entrance of the semen + easier. Kisch refers to the analogous fact that the first + occurrence of menstruation is favored by sexual excitement. + + Some authorities go so far as to assert that, until voluptuous + excitement occurs in women, no impregnation is possible. This + statement seems too extreme. It is true that the occurrence of + impregnation during sleep, or in anaesthesia, cannot be opposed to + it, for we know that the unconsciousness of these states by no + means prevents the occurrence of complete sexual excitement. We + cannot fail, however, to connect the fact that impregnation + frequently fails to occur for months and even years after + marriage, with the fact that sexual pleasure in coitus on the + wife's part also frequently fails to occur for a similar period. + +"Of all human instincts," Pinard has said,[422] "that of reproduction is +the only one which remains in the primitive condition and has received no +education. We procreate to-day as they procreated in the Stone Age. The +most important act in the life of man, the sublimest of all acts since it +is that of his reproduction, man accomplishes to-day with as much +carelessness as in the age of the cave-man." And though Pinard himself, as +the founder of puericulture, has greatly contributed to call attention to +the vast destinies that hang on the act of procreation, there still +remains a lamentable amount of truth in this statement. "Future +generations," writes Westermarck in his great history of moral ideas,[423] +"will probably with a kind of horror look back at a period when the most +important, and in its consequences the most far-reaching, function which +has fallen to the lot of man was entirely left to individual caprice and +lust." + +We are told in his _Table Talk_, that the great Luther was accustomed to +say that God's way of making man was very foolish ("sehr naerrisch"), and +that if God had deigned to take him into His counsel he would have +strongly advised Him to make the whole human race, as He made Adam, "out +of earth." And certainly if applied to the careless and reckless manner in +which procreation in Luther's day, as still for the most part in our own, +was usually carried out there was sound common sense in the Reformer's +remarks. If that is the way procreation is to be carried on, it would be +better to create and mould every human being afresh out of the earth; in +that way we could at all events eliminate evil heredity. It was, however, +unjust to place the responsibility on God. It is men and women who breed +the people that make the world good or bad. They seek to put the evils of +society on to something outside themselves. They see how large a +proportion of human beings are defective, ill-conditioned, anti-social, +incapable of leading a whole and beautiful human life. In old theological +language it was often said that such were "children of the Devil," and +Luther himself was often ready enough to attribute the evil of the world +to the direct interposition of the Devil. Yet these ill-conditioned people +who clog the wheels of society are, after all, in reality the children of +Man. The only Devil whom we can justly invoke in this matter is Man. + +The command "Be fruitful and multiply," which the ancient Hebrews put into +the mouth of their tribal God, was, as Crackanthorpe points out,[424] a +command supposed to have been uttered when there were only eight persons +in the world. If the time should ever again occur when the inhabitants of +the world could be counted on one's fingers, such an injunction, as +Crackanthorpe truly observes, would again be reasonable. But we have to +remember that to-day humanity has spawned itself over the world in +hundreds and even thousands of millions of creatures, a large proportion +of whom, as is but too obvious, ought never to have been born at all, and +the voice of Jehovah is now making itself heard through the leaders of +mankind in a very different sense. + +It is not surprising that as this fact tends to become generally +recognized, the question of the procreation of the race should gain a new +significance, and even tend to take on the character of a new religious +movement. Mere morality can never lead us to concern ourselves with the +future of the race, and in the days of old, men used to protest against +the tendency to subordinate the interests of religion to the claims of +"mere morality." There was a sound natural instinct underlying that +protest, so often and so vigorously made by Christianity, and again +revived to-day in a more intelligent form. The claim of the race is the +claim of religion. We have to beware lest we subordinate that claim to our +moralities. Moralities are, indeed, an inevitable part of our social order +from which we cannot escape; every community must have its _mores_. But we +are not entitled to make a fetich of our morality, sacrificing to it the +highest interests entrusted to us. The nations which have done so have +already signed their own death-warrant.[425] From this point of view, the +whole of Christianity, rightly considered, with its profound conviction of +the necessity for forethought and preparation for the life hereafter, has +been a preparation for eugenics, a schoolmaster to discipline within us a +higher ideal than itself taught, and we cannot therefore be surprised at +the solidity of the basis on which eugenical conceptions of life are +developing. + + The most distinguished pioneers of the new movement of devotion + to the creation of the race seem independently to have realized + its religious character. This attitude is equally marked in Ellen + Key and Francis Galton. In her _Century of the Child_ (English + translation, 1909), Ellen Key entirely identifies herself with + the eugenic movement. "It is only a question of time," she + elsewhere writes (_Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, p. 445), "when the + attitude of society towards a sexual union will depend not on the + form of the union, but on the value of the children created. Men + and women will then devote the same religious earnestness to the + psychic and physical perfectioning of this sexual task as + Christians have devoted to the salvation of their souls." + + Sir Francis Galton, writing a few years later, but without doubt + independently, in 1905, on "Restrictions in Marriage," and + "Eugenics as a Factor in Religion" (_Sociological Papers_ of the + Sociological Society, vol. ii, pp. 13, 53), remarks: "Religious + precepts, founded on the ethics and practice of older days, + require to be reinterpreted, to make them conform to the needs of + progressive nations. Ours are already so far behind modern + requirements that much of our practice and our profession cannot + be reconciled without illegitimate casuistry. It seems to me + that few things are more needed by us in England than a revision + of our religion, to adapt it to the intelligence and needs of + this present time.... Evolution is a grand phantasmagoria, but it + assumes an infinitely more interesting aspect under the knowledge + that the intelligent action of the human will is, in some small + measure, capable of guiding its course. Man has the power of + doing this largely, so far as the evolution of humanity is + concerned; he has already affected the quality and distribution + of organic life so widely that the changes on the surface of the + earth, merely through his disforestings and agriculture, would be + recognizable from a distance as great as that of the moon. + Eugenics is a virile creed, full of hopefulness, and appealing to + many of the noblest feelings of our nature." + + As will always happen in every great movement, a few fanatics + have carried into absurdity the belief in the supreme religious + importance of procreation. Love, apart from procreation, writes + one of these fanatics, Vacher de Lapouge, in the spirit of some + of the early Christian Fathers (see _ante_ p. 509), is an + aberration comparable to sadism and sodomy. Procreation is the + only thing that matters, and it must become "a legally prescribed + social duty" only to be exercised by carefully selected persons, + and forbidden to others, who must, by necessity, be deprived of + the power of procreation, while abortion and infanticide must, + under some circumstances, become compulsory. Romantic love will + disappear by a process of selection, as also will all religion + except a new form of phallic worship (G. Vacher de Lapouge, "Die + Crisis der Sexuellen Moral," _Politisch Anthropologische Revue_, + No. 8, 1908). It is sufficient to point out that love is, and + always must be, the natural portal to generation. Such excesses + of procreative fanaticism cannot fail to occur, and they render + the more necessary the emphasis which has here been placed on the + art of love. + +"What has posterity done for me that I should do anything for posterity?" +a cynic is said to have asked. The answer is very simple. The human race +has done everything for him. All that he is, and can be, is its creation; +all that he can do is the result of its laboriously accumulated +traditions. It is only by working towards the creation of a still better +posterity, that he can repay the good gifts which the human race has +brought him.[426] Just as, within the limits of this present life, many +who have received benefits and kindnesses they can never repay to the +actual givers, find a pleasure in vicariously repaying the like to +others, so the heritage we have received from our ascendents we can never +repay, save by handing it on in a better form to our descendants. + +It is undoubtedly true that the growth of eugenical ideals has not been, +for the most part, due to religious feeling. It has been chiefly the +outcome of a very gradual, but very comprehensive, movement towards social +amelioration, which has been going on for more than a century, and which +has involved a progressive effort towards the betterment of all the +conditions of life. The ideals of this movement were proclaimed in the +eighteenth century, they began to find expression early in the nineteenth +century, in the initiation of the modern system of sanitation, in the +growth of factory legislation, in all the movements which have been borne +onwards by socialism hand in hand with individualism. The inevitable +tendency has been slowly towards the root of the matter; it began to be +seen that comparatively little can be effected by improving the conditions +of life of adults; attention began to be concentrated on the child, on the +infant, on the embryo in its mother's womb, and this resulted in the +fruitful movement of puericulture inspired by Pinard, and finally the +problem is brought to its source at the point of procreation, and the +regulation of sexual selection between stocks and between individuals as +the prime condition of life. Here we have the science of eugenics which +Sir Francis Galton has done so much to make a definite, vital, and +practical study, and which in its wider bearings he defines as "the +science which deals with those social eugenics that influence, mentally or +physically, the racial qualities of future generations." In its largest +aspect, eugenics is, as Galton has elsewhere said, man's attempt "to +replace Natural Selection by other processes that are more merciful and +not less effective." + + In the last chapter of his _Memories of My Life_ (1908), on "Race + Improvement," Sir Francis Galton sets forth the origin and + development of his conception of the science of eugenics. The + term, "eugenics," he first used in 1884, in his _Human Faculty_, + but the conception dates from 1865, and even earlier. Galton has + more recently discussed the problems of eugenics in papers read + before the Sociological Society (_Sociological Papers_, vols. i + and ii, 1905), in the Herbert Spencer Lecture on "Probability the + Foundation of Eugenics," (1907), and elsewhere. Galton's numerous + memoirs on this subject have now been published in a collected + form by the Eugenics Education Society, which was established in + 1907, to further and to popularize the eugenical attitude towards + social questions; _The Eugenics Review_ is published by this + Society. On the more strictly scientific side, eugenic studies + are carried on in the Eugenics Laboratory of the University of + London, established by Sir Francis Galton, and now working in + connection with Professor Karl Pearson's biometric laboratory, in + University College. Much of Professor Pearson's statistical work + in this and allied directions, is the elaboration of ideas and + suggestions thrown out by Galton. See, e.g., Karl Pearson's + Robert Boyle Lecture, "The Scope and Importance to the State of + the Science of National Eugenics" (1907). _Biometrika_, edited by + Karl Pearson in association with other workers, contains numerous + statistical memoirs on eugenics. In Germany, the _Archiv fuer + Rassen und Gesellschafts-biologie_, and the + _Politisch-Anthropologische Revue_, are largely occupied with + various aspects of such subjects, and in America, _The Popular + Science Monthly_ from time to time, publishes articles which have + a bearing on eugenics. + +At one time there was a tendency to scoff, or to laugh, at the eugenic +movement. It was regarded as an attempt to breed men as men breed animals, +and it was thought a sufficiently easy task to sweep away this new +movement with the remark that love laughs at bolts and bars. It is now +beginning to be better understood. None but fanatics dream of abolishing +love in order to effect pairing by rule. It is merely a question of +limiting the possible number of mates from whom each may select a partner, +and that, we must remember, has always been done even by savages, for, as +it has been said, "eugenics is the oldest of the sciences." The question +has merely been transformed. Instead of being limited mechanically by +caste, we begin to see that the choice of sexual mates must be limited +intelligently by actual fitness. Promiscuous marriages have never been the +rule; the possibility of choice has always been narrow, and the most +primitive peoples have exerted the most marked self-restraint. It is not +so merely among remote races but among our own European ancestors. +Throughout the whole period of Catholic supremacy the Canon law +multiplied the impediments to matrimony, as by ordaining that +consanguinity to the fourth degree (third cousins), as well as spiritual +relationship, is an impediment, and by such arbitrary prohibitions limited +the range of possible mates at least as much as it would be limited by the +more reasonable dictates of eugenic considerations. + +At the present day it may be said that the principle of the voluntary +control of procreation, not for the selfish ends of the individual, but in +order to extinguish disease, to limit human misery, and to raise the +general level of humanity by substituting the ideal of quality for the +vulgar ideal of mere quantity, is now generally accepted, alike by medical +pathologists, embryologists and neurologists, and by sociologists and +moralists. + + It would be easy to multiply quotations from distinguished + authorities on this point. Thus, Metchnikoff points out (_Essais + Optimistes_, p. 419) that orthobiosis seems to involve the + limitation of offspring in the fight against disease. Ballantyne + concludes his great treatise on _Antenanal Pathology_ with the + statement that "Eugenics" or well-begetting, is one of the + world's most pressing problems. Dr. Louise Robinovitch, the + editor of the _Journal of Mental Pathology_, in a brilliant and + thoughtful paper, read before the Rome Congress of Psychology in + 1905, well spoke in the same sense: "Nations have not yet + elevated the energy of genesic function to the dignity of an + energy. Other energies known to us, even of the meanest grade, + have long since been wisely utilized, and their activities based + on the principle of the strictest possible economy. This economic + utilization has been brought about, not through any enforcement + of legislative restrictions, but through steadily progressive + human intelligence. Economic handling of genesic function will, + like the economic function of other energies, come about through + a steady and progressive intellectual development of nations." + "There are circumstances," says C.H. Hughes, ("Restricted + Procreation," _Alienist and Neurologist_, May, 1908), "under + which the propagation of a human life may be as gravely criminal + as the taking of a life already begun." + + From the general biological, as well as from the sociological + side, the acceptance of the same standpoint is constantly + becoming more general, for it is recognized as the inevitable + outcome of movements which have long been in progress. + + "Already," wrote Haycraft (_Darwinism and Race Progress_, p. + 160), referring to the law for the prevention of cruelty to + children, "public opinion has expressed itself in the public + rule that a man and woman, in begetting a child, must take upon + themselves the obligation and responsibility of seeing that that + child is not subjected to cruelty and hardship. It is but one + step more to say that a man and a woman shall be under obligation + not to produce children, when it is certain that, from their want + of physique, they will have to undergo suffering, and will keep + up but an unequal struggle with their fellows." Professor J. + Arthur Thomson, in his volume on _Heredity_ (1908), vigorously + and temperately pleads (p. 528) for rational methods of eugenics, + as specially demanded in an age like our own, when the unfit have + been given a better chance of reproduction than they have ever + been given in any other age. Bateson, again, referring to the + growing knowledge of heredity, remarks (_Mendel's Principles of + Heredity_, 1909, p. 305): "Genetic knowledge must certainly lead + to new conceptions of justice, and it is by no means impossible + that, in the light of such knowledge, public opinion will welcome + measures likely to do more for the extinction of the criminal and + the degenerate than has been accomplished by ages of penal + enactment." Adolescent youths and girls, said Anton von Menger, + in his last book, the pregnant _Neue Sittenlehre_ (1905), must be + taught that the production of children, under certain + circumstances, is a crime; they must also be taught the voluntary + restraint of conception, even in health; such teaching, Menger + rightly added, is a necessary preliminary to any legislation in + this direction. + + Of recent years, many books and articles have been devoted to the + advocacy of eugenic methods. Mention may be made, for instance, + of _Population and Progress_ (1907), by Montague Crackanthorpe, + President of the Eugenics Education Society. See also, Havelock + Ellis, "Eugenics and St. Valentine," _Nineteenth Century and + After_, May, 1906. It may be mentioned that nearly thirty years + ago, Miss J.H. Clapperton, in her _Scientific Meliorism_ (1885, + Ch. XVII), pointed out that the voluntary restraint of + procreation by Neo-Malthusian methods, apart from merely + prudential motives, there clearly recognized, is "a new key to + the social position," and a necessary condition for "national + regeneration." Professor Karl Pearson's _Groundwork of Eugenics_, + (1909) is, perhaps, the best brief introduction to the subject. + Mention may also be made of Dr. Saleeby's _Parenthood and Race + Culture_ (1909), written in a popular and enthusiastic manner. + + How widely the general principles of eugenics are now accepted as + the sound method of raising the level of the human race, was well + shown at a meeting of the Sociological Society, in 1905, when, + after Sir Francis Galton had read papers on the question, the + meeting heard the opinions of numerous sociologists, economists, + biologists, and well-known thinkers in various lands, who were + present, or who had sent communications. Some twenty-one + expressed more or less unqualified approval, and only three or + four had objections to offer, mostly on matters of detail + (_Sociological Papers_, published by the Sociological Society, + vol. ii, 1905). + +If we ask by what channels this impulse towards the control of procreation +for the elevation of the race is expressing itself in practical life, we +shall scarcely fail to find that there are at least two such channels: (1) +the growing sense of sexual responsibility among women as well as men, and +(2) the conquest of procreative control which has been achieved in recent +years, by the general adoption of methods for the prevention of +conception. + +It has already been necessary in a previous chapter to discuss the +far-reaching significance of woman's personal responsibility as an element +in the modification of the sexual life of modern communities. Here it need +only be pointed out that the autonomous authority of a woman over her own +person, in the sexual sphere, involves on her part a consent to the act of +procreation which must be deliberate. We are apt to think that this is a +new and almost revolutionary demand; it is, however, undoubtedly a +natural, ancient, and recognized privilege of women that they should not +be mothers without their own consent. Even in the Islamic world of the +_Arabian Nights_, we find that high praise is accorded to the "virtue and +courage" of the woman who, having been ravished in her sleep, exposed, and +abandoned on the highway, the infant that was the fruit of this +involuntary union, "not wishing," she said, "to take the responsibility +before Allah of a child that had been born without my consent."[427] The +approval with which this story is narrated clearly shows that to the +public of Islam it seemed entirely just and humane that a woman should not +have a child, except by her own deliberate will. We have been accustomed +to say in later days that the State needs children, and that it is the +business and the duty of women to supply them. But the State has no more +right than the individual to ravish a woman against her will. We are +beginning to realize that if the State wants children it must make it +agreeable to women to produce them, as under natural and equitable +conditions it cannot fail to be. "The women will solve the question of +mankind," said Ibsen in one of his rare and pregnant private utterances, +"and they will do it as mothers." But it is unthinkable that any question +should ever be solved by a helpless, unwilling, and involuntary act which +has not even attained to the dignity of animal joy. + + It is sometimes supposed, and even assumed, that the demand of + women that motherhood must never be compulsory, means that they + are unwilling to be mothers on any terms. In a few cases that may + be so, but it is certainly not the case as regards the majority + of sane and healthy women in any country. On the contrary, this + demand is usually associated with the desire to glorify + motherhood, if not, indeed, even with the thought of extending + motherhood to many who are to-day shut out from it. "It seems to + me," wrote Lady Henry Somerset, some years ago ("The Welcome + Child," _Arena_, April, 1895), "that life will be dearer and + nobler the more we recognize that there is no indelicacy in the + climax and crown of creative power, but, rather, that it is the + highest glory of the race. But if voluntary motherhood is the + crown of the race, involuntary compulsory motherhood is the very + opposite.... Only when both man and woman have learned that the + most sacred of all functions given to women must be exercised by + the free will alone, can children be born into the world who have + in them the joyous desire to live, who claim that sweetest + privilege of childhood, the certainty that they can expand in the + sunshine of the love which is their due." Ellen Key, similarly, + while pointing out (_Ueber Liebe und Ehe_, pp. 14, 265) that the + tyranny of the old Protestant religious spirit which enjoined on + women unlimited submission to joyless motherhood within "the + whited sepulchre of marriage" is now being broken, exalts the + privileges of voluntary motherhood, while admitting that there + may be a few exceptional cases in which women may withdraw + themselves from motherhood for the sake of the other demands of + their personality, though, "as a general rule, the woman who + refuses motherhood in order to serve humanity, is like a soldier + who prepares himself on the eve of battle for the forthcoming + struggle by opening his veins." Helene Stoecker, likewise, reckons + motherhood as one of the demands, one of the growing demands + indeed, which women now make. "If, to-day," she says (in the + Preface to _Liebe und die Frauen_, 1906), "all the good things of + life are claimed even for women--intellectual training, pecuniary + independence, a happy vocation in life, a respected social + position--and at the same time, as equally matter-of-course, and + equally necessary, marriage and child, that demand no longer + sounds, as it sounded a few years ago, the voice of a preacher in + the wilderness." + + The degradation to which motherhood has, in the eyes of many, + fallen, is due partly to the tendency to deprive women of any + voice in the question, and partly to what H.G. Wells calls + (_Socialism and the Family_, 1906) "the monstrous absurdity of + women discharging their supreme social function, bearing and + rearing children, in their spare time, as it were, while they + 'earn their living' by contributing some half mechanical element + to some trivial industrial product." It would be impracticable, + and even undesirable, to insist that married women should not be + allowed to work, for a work in the world is good for all. It is + estimated that over thirty per cent. of the women workers in + England are married or widows (James Haslam, _Englishwoman_, + June, 1909), and in Lancashire factories alone, in 1901, there + were 120,000 married women employed. But it would be easily + possible for the State to arrange, in its own interests, that a + woman's work at a trade should always give way to her work as a + mother. It is the more undesirable that married women should be + prohibited from working at a profession, since there are some + professions for which a married woman, or, rather, a mother, is + better equipped than an unmarried woman. This is notably the case + as regards teaching, and it would be a good policy to allow + married women teachers special privileges in the shape of + increased free time and leave of absence. While in many fields of + knowledge an unmarried woman may be a most excellent teacher, it + is highly undesirable that children, and especially girls, should + be brought exclusively under the educational influence of + unmarried teachers. + +The second great channel through which the impulse towards the control of +procreation for the elevation of the race is entering into practical life +is by the general adoption, by the educated classes of all countries--and +it must be remembered that, in this matter at all events, all classes are +gradually beginning to become educated--of methods for the prevention of +conception except when conception is deliberately desired. It is no longer +permissible to discuss the validity of this control, for it is an +accomplished fact and has become a part of our modern morality. "If a +course of conduct is habitually and deliberately pursued by vast +multitudes of otherwise well-conducted people, forming probably a majority +of the whole educated class of the nation," as Sidney Webb rightly puts +it, "we must assume that it does not conflict with their actual code of +morality."[428] + + There cannot be any doubt that, so far as England is concerned, + the prevention of conception is practiced, from prudential or + other motives, by the vast majority of the educated classes. This + fact is well within the knowledge of all who are intimately + acquainted with the facts of English family life. Thus, Dr. A.W. + Thomas writes (_British Medical Journal_, Oct. 20, 1906, p. + 1066): "From my experience as a general practitioner, I have no + hesitation in saying that ninety per cent. of young married + couples of the comfortably-off classes use preventives." As a + matter of fact, this rough estimate appears to be rather under + than over the mark. In the very able paper already quoted, in + which Sidney Webb shows that "the decline in the birthrate + appears to be much greater in those sections of the population + which give proofs of thrift and foresight," that this decline is + "principally, if not entirely, the result of deliberate + volition," and that "a volitional regulation of the marriage + state is now ubiquitous throughout England and Wales, among, + apparently, a large majority of the population," the results are + brought forward of a detailed inquiry carried out by the Fabian + Society. This inquiry covered 316 families, selected at random + from all parts of Great Britain, and belonging to all sections of + the middle class. The results are carefully analyzed, and it is + found that seventy-four families were unlimited, and two hundred + and forty-two voluntarily limited. When, however, the decade + 1890-99 is taken by itself as the typical period, it is found + that of 120 marriages, 107 were limited, and only thirteen + unlimited, while of these thirteen, five were childless at the + date of the return. In this decade, therefore, only seven + unlimited fertile marriages are reported, out of a total of 120. + + What is true of Great Britain is true of all other civilized + countries, in the highest degree true of the most civilized + countries, and it finds expression in the well-known phenomenon + of the decline of the birthrate. In modern times, this movement + of decline began in France, producing a slow but steady + diminution in the annual number of births, and in France the + movement seems now to be almost, or quite, arrested. But it has + since taken place in all other progressive countries, notably in + the United States, in Canada, in Australia, and in New Zealand, + as well as in Germany, Austro-Hungary, Italy, Spain, Switzerland, + Belgium, Holland, Denmark, Sweden, and Norway. In England, it has + been continuous since 1877. Of the great countries, Russia is + the only one in which it has not yet taken place, and among the + masses of the Russian population we find less education, more + poverty, a higher deathrate, and a greater amount of disease, + than in any other great, or even small, civilized country. + + It is sometimes said, indeed, that the decline of the birthrate + is not entirely due to the voluntary control of procreation. It + is undoubtedly true that certain other elements, common under + civilized conditions, such as the postponement of marriage in + women to a comparatively late age, tend to diminish the size of + the family. But when all such allowances have been made, the + decline is still found to be real and large. This has been shown, + for instance, by the statistical analyses made by Arthur + Newsholme and T.H.C. Stevenson, and by G. Yule, both published in + _Journal Royal Statistical Society_, April, 1906. + + Some have supposed that, since the Catholic Church forbids + incomplete sexual intercourse, this movement for the control of + procreation will involve a relatively much greater increase among + Catholic than among non-Catholic populations. This, however, is + only correct under certain conditions. It is quite true that in + Ireland there has been no fall in the birthrate, and that the + fall is but little marked in those Lancashire towns which possess + a large Irish element. But in Belgium, Italy, Spain, and other + mainly Catholic countries, the decline in the birthrate is duly + taking place. What has happened is that the Church--always alive + to sexual questions--has realized the importance of the modern + movement, and has adapted herself to it, by proclaiming to her + more ignorant and uneducated children that incomplete intercourse + is a deadly sin, while at the same time refraining from making + inquiries into this matter among her more educated members. The + question was definitely brought up for Papal judgment, in 1842, + by Bishop Bouvier of Le Mans, who stated the matter very clearly, + representing to the Pope (Gregory XVI) that the prevention of + conception was becoming very common, and that to treat it as a + deadly sin merely resulted in driving the penitent away from + confession. After mature consideration, the Curia Sacra + Poenitentiaria replied by pointing out, as regards the common + method of withdrawal before emission, that since it was due to + the wrong act of the man, the woman who has been forced by her + husband to consent to it, has committed no sin. Further, the + Bishop was reminded of the wise dictum of Liguori, "the most + learned and experienced man in these matters," that the confessor + is not usually called upon to make inquiry upon so delicate a + matter as the _debitum conjugale_, and, if his opinion is not + asked, he should be silent (Bouvier, _Dissertatio in sextum + Decalogi praeceptum; supplementum ad Tractatum de Matrimonio_. + 1849, pp. 179-182; quoted by Hans Ferdy, _Sexual-Probleme_, Aug., + 1908, p. 498). We see, therefore, that, among Catholic as well as + among non-Catholic populations, the adoption of preventive + methods of conception follows progress and civilization, and + that the general practice of such methods by Catholics (with the + tacit consent of the Church) is merely a matter of time. + +From time to time many energetic persons have noisily demanded that a stop +should be put to the decline of the birthrate, for, they argue, it means +"race suicide." It is now beginning to be realized, however, that this +outcry was a foolish and mischievous mistake. It is impossible to walk +through the streets of any great city, full of vast numbers of persons +who, obviously, ought never to have been born, without recognizing that +the birthrate is as yet very far above its normal and healthy limit. The +greatest States have often been the smallest so far as mere number of +citizens is concerned, for it is quality not quantity that counts. And +while it is true that the increase of the best types of citizens can only +enrich a State, it is now becoming intolerable that a nation should +increase by the mere dumping down of procreative refuse in its midst. It +is beginning to be realized that this process not only depreciates the +quality of a people but imposes on a State an inordinate financial burden. + + It is now well recognized that large families are associated with + degeneracy, and, in the widest sense, with abnormality of every + kind. Thus, it is undoubtedly true that men of genius tend to + belong to very large families, though it may be pointed out to + those who fear an alarming decrease of genius from the tendency + to the limitation of the family, that the position in the family + most often occupied by the child of genius is the firstborn. (See + Havelock Ellis, _A Study of British Genius_, pp. 115-120). The + insane, the idiotic, imbecile, and weak-minded, the criminal, the + epileptic, the hysterical, the neurasthenic, the tubercular, all, + it would appear, tend to belong to large families (see e.g., + Havelock Ellis, op. cit., p. 110; Toulouse, _Les Causes de la + Folie_, p. 91; Harriet Alexander, "Malthusianism and Degeneracy," + _Alienist and Neurologist_, Jan., 1901). It has, indeed, been + shown by Heron, Pearson, and Goring, that not only the + eldest-born, but also the second-born, are specially liable to + suffer from pathological defect (insanity, criminality, + tuberculosis). There is, however, it would seem, a fallacy in the + common interpretation of this fact. According to Van den Velden + (as quoted in _Sexual-Probleme_, May, 1909, p. 381), this + tendency is fully counterbalanced by the rising mortality of + children from the firstborn onward. The greater pathological + tendency of the earlier children is thus simply the result of a + less stringent selection by death. So far as they show any really + greater pathological tendency, apart from this fallacy, it is + perhaps due to premature marriage. There is another fallacy in + the frequent statement that the children in small families are + more feeble than those in large families. We have to distinguish + between a naturally small family, and an artificially small + family. A family which is small merely as the result of the + feeble procreative energy of the parents, is likely to be a + feeble family; a family which is small as the result of the + deliberate control of the parents, shows, of course, no such + tendency. + + These considerations, it will be seen, do not modify the tendency + of the large family to be degenerate. We may connect this + phenomenon with the disposition, often shown by nervously unsound + and abnormal persons, to believe that they have a special + aptitude to procreate fine children. "I believe that everyone has + a special vocation," said a man to Marro (_La Puberta_, p. 459); + "I find that it is my vocation to beget superior children." He + begat four,--an epileptic, a lunatic, a dipsomaniac, and a + valetudinarian,--and himself died insane. Most people have come + across somewhat similar, though perhaps less marked, cases of + this delusion. In a matter of such fateful gravity to other human + beings, no one can safely rely on his own unsupported + impressions. + +The demand of national efficiency thus corresponds with the demand of +developing humanitarianism, which, having begun by attempting to +ameliorate the conditions of life, has gradually begun to realize that it +is necessary to go deeper and to ameliorate life itself. For while it is +undoubtedly true that much may be done by acting systematically on the +conditions of life, the more searching analysis of evil environmental +conditions only serves to show that in large parts they are based in the +human organism itself and were not only pre-natal, but pre-conceptional, +being involved in the quality of the parental or ancestral organisms. + +Putting aside, however, all humanitarian considerations, the serious error +of attempting to stem the progress of civilization in the direction of +procreative control could never have occurred if the general tendencies of +zooelogical evolution had been understood, even in their elements. All +zooelogical progress is from the more prolific to the less prolific; the +higher the species the less fruitful are its individual members. The same +tendency is found within the limits of the human species, though not in an +invariable straight line; the growth of civilization involves a +diminution in fertility. This is by no means a new phenomenon; ancient +Rome and later Geneva, "the Protestant Rome," bear witness to it; no doubt +it has occurred in every high centre of moral and intellectual culture, +although the data for measuring the tendency no longer exist. When we take +a sufficiently wide and intelligent survey, we realize that the tendency +of a community to slacken its natural rate of increase is an essential +phenomenon of all advanced civilization. The more intelligent nations have +manifested the tendency first, and in each nation the more educated +classes have taken the lead, but it is only a matter of time to bring all +civilized nations, and all social classes in each nation, into line.[429] +This movement, we have to remember--in opposition to the ignorant outcry +of certain would-be moralists and politicians--is a beneficent movement. +It means a greater regard to the quality than to the quantity of the +increase; it involves the possibility of combating successfully the evils +of high mortality, disease, overcrowding, and all the manifold misfortunes +which inevitably accompany a too exuberant birthrate. For it is only in a +community which increases slowly that it is possible to secure the +adequate economic adjustment and environmental modifications necessary for +a sane and wholesome civic and personal life.[430] If those persons who +raise the cry of "race suicide" in face of the decline of the birthrate +really had the knowledge and intelligence to realize the manifold evils +which they are invoking they would deserve to be treated as criminals. + +On the practical side a knowledge of the possibility of preventing +conception has, doubtless, never been quite extinct in civilization and +even in lower stages of culture, though it has mostly been utilized for +ends of personal convenience or practiced in obedience to conventional +social rules which demanded chastity, and has only of recent times been +made subservient to the larger interests of society and the elevation of +the race. The theoretical basis of the control of procreation, on its +social and economic, as distinct from its eugenic, aspects, may be said to +date from Malthus's famous _Essay on Population_, first published in 1798, +an epoch-marking book,--though its central thesis is not susceptible of +actual demonstration,--since it not only served as the starting-point of +the modern humanitarian movement for the control of procreation, but also +furnished to Darwin (and independently to Wallace also) the fruitful idea +which was finally developed into the great evolutionary theory of natural +selection. + +Malthus, however, was very far from suggesting that the control of +procreation, which he advocated for the benefit of mankind, should be +exercised by the introduction of preventive methods into sexual +intercourse. He believed that civilization involved an increased power of +self-control, which would make it possible to refrain altogether from +sexual intercourse, when such self-restraint was demanded in the interests +of humanity. Later thinkers realized, however, that, while it is +undoubtedly true that civilization involves greater forethought and +greater self-control, we cannot anticipate that those qualities should be +developed to the extent demanded by Malthus, especially when the impulse +to be controlled is of so powerful and explosive a nature. + +James Mill was the pioneer in advocating Neo-Malthusian methods, though he +spoke cautiously. In 1818, in the article "Colony" in the supplement to +the _Encyclopaedia Britannica_, after remarking that the means of checking +the unrestricted increase of the population constitutes "the most +important practical problem to which the wisdom of the politician and +moralist can be applied," he continued: "If the superstitions of the +nursery were discarded, and the principle of utility kept steadily in +view, a solution might not be very difficult to be found." Four years +later, James Mill's friend, the Radical reformer, Francis Place, more +distinctly expressed the thought that was evidently in Mill's mind. After +enumerating the facts concerning the necessity of self-control in +procreation and the evils of early marriage, which he thinks ought to be +clearly taught, Place continues: "If a hundredth, perhaps a thousandth +part of the pains were taken to teach these truths, that are taken to +teach dogmas, a great change for the better might, in no considerable +space of time, be expected to take place in the appearance and the habits +of the people. If, above all, it were once clearly understood that it was +not disreputable for married persons to avail themselves of such +precautionary means as would, without being injurious to health, or +destructive of female delicacy, prevent conception, a sufficient check +might at once be given to the increase of population beyond the means of +subsistence; vice and misery, to a prodigious extent, might be removed +from society, and the object of Mr. Malthus, Mr. Godwin, and of every +philanthropic person, be promoted, by the increase of comfort, of +intelligence, and of moral conduct, in the mass of the population. The +course recommended will, I am fully persuaded, at some period be pursued +by the people even if left to themselves."[431] + +It was not long before Place's prophetic words began to be realized, and +in another half century the movement was affecting the birthrate of all +civilized lands, though it can scarcely yet be said that justice has been +done to the pioneers who promoted it in the face of much persecution from +the ignorant and superstitious public whom they sought to benefit. In +1831, Robert Dale Owen, the son of Robert Owen, published his _Moral +Physiology_, setting forth the methods of preventing conception. A little +later the brothers George and Charles Drysdale (born 1825 and 1829), two +ardent and unwearying philanthropists, devoted much of their energy to the +propagation of Neo-Malthusian principles. George Drysdale, in 1854, +published his _Elements of Social Science_, which during many years had +an enormous circulation all over Europe in eight different languages. It +was by no means in every respect a scientific or sound work, but it +certainly had great influence, and it came into the hands of many who +never saw any other work on sexual topics. Although the Neo-Malthusian +propagandists of those days often met with much obloquy, their cause was +triumphantly vindicated in 1876, when Charles Bradlaugh and Mrs. Besant, +having been prosecuted for disseminating Neo-Malthusian pamphlets, the +charge was dismissed, the Lord Chief Justice declaring that so ill-advised +and injudicious a charge had probably never before been made in a court of +justice. This trial, even by its mere publicity and apart from its issue, +gave an enormous impetus to the Neo-Malthusian movement. It is well known +that the steady decline in the English birthrate begun in 1877, the year +following the trial. There could be no more brilliant illustration of the +fact, that what used to be called "the instruments of Providence" are +indeed unconscious instruments in bringing about great ends which they +themselves were far from either intending or desiring. + + In 1877, Dr. C.R. Drysdale founded the Malthusian League, and + edited a periodical, _The Malthusian_, aided throughout by his + wife, Dr. Alice Drysdale Vickery. He died in 1907. (The noble and + pioneering work of the Drysdales has not yet been adequately + recognized in their own country; an appreciative and + well-informed article by Dr. Hermann Rohleder, "Dr. C.R. + Drysdale, Der Hauptvortreter der Neumalthusianische Lehre," + appeared in the _Zeitschrift fuer Sexualwissenschaft_, March, + 1908). There are now societies and periodicals in all civilized + countries for the propagation of Neo-Malthusian principles, as + they are still commonly called, though it would be desirable to + avoid the use of Malthus's name in this connection. In the + medical profession, the advocacy of preventive methods of sexual + intercourse, not on social, but on medical and hygienic grounds, + began same thirty years ago, though in France, at an earlier + date, Raciborski advocated the method of avoiding the + neighborhood of menstruation. In Germany, Dr. Mensinga, the + gynaecologist, is the most prominent advocate, on medical and + hygienic grounds, of what he terms "facultative sterility," which + he first put forward about 1889. In Russia, about the same time, + artificial sterility was first openly advocated by the + distinguished gynaecologist, Professor Ott, at the St. Petersburg + Obstetric and Gynaecological Society. Such medical + recommendations, in particular cases, are now becoming common. + + There are certain cases in which a person ought not to marry at + all; this is so, for instance, when there has been an attack of + insanity; it can never be said with certainty that a person who + has had one attack of insanity will not have another, and persons + who have had such attacks ought not, as Blandford says (Lumleian + Lectures on Insanity, _British Medical Journal_, April 20, 1895), + "to inflict on their partner for life, the anxiety, and even + danger, of another attack." There are other and numerous cases in + which marriage may be permitted, or may have already taken place, + under more favorable circumstances, but where it is, or has + become, highly desirable that there should be no children. This + is the case when a first attack of insanity occurs after + marriage, the more urgently if the affected party is the wife, + and especially if the disease takes the form of puerperal mania. + "What can be more lamentable," asks Blandford (loc. cit.), "than + to see a woman break down in childbed, recover, break down again + with the next child, and so on, for six, seven, or eight + children, the recovery between each being less and less, until + she is almost a chronic maniac?" It has been found, moreover, by + Tredgold (_Lancet_, May 17, 1902), that among children born to + insane mothers, the mortality is twice as great as the ordinary + infantile mortality, in even the poorest districts. In cases of + unions between persons with tuberculous antecedents, also, it is + held by many (e.g., by Massalongo, in discussing tuberculosis and + marriage at the Tuberculosis Congress, at Naples, in 1900) that + every precaution should be taken to make the marriage childless. + In a third class of cases, it is necessary to limit the children + to one or two; this happens in some forms of heart disease, in + which pregnancy has a progressively deteriorating effect on the + heart (Kisch, _Therapeutische Monatsheft_, Feb., 1898, and + _Sexual Life of Woman_; Vinay, _Lyon Medical_, Jan. 8, 1889); in + some cases of heart disease, however, it is possible that, though + there is no reason for prohibiting marriage, it is desirable for + a woman not to have any children (J.F. Blacker, "Heart Disease in + Relation to Pregnancy," _British Medical Journal_, May 25, 1907). + + In all such cases, the recommendation of preventive methods of + intercourse is obviously an indispensable aid to the physician in + emphasizing the supremacy of hygienic precautions. In the absence + of such methods, he can never be sure that his warnings will be + heard, and even the observance of his advice would be attended + with various undesirable results. It sometimes happens that a + married couple agree, even before marriage, to live together + without sexual relations, but, for various reasons, it is seldom + found possible or convenient to maintain this resolution for a + long period. + +It is the recognition of these and similar considerations which has +led--though only within recent years--on the one hand, as we have seen, to +the embodiment of the control of procreation into the practical morality +of all civilized nations, and, on the other hand, to the assertion, now +perhaps without exception, by all medical authorities on matters of sex +that the use of the methods of preventing conception is under certain +circumstances urgently necessary and quite harmless.[432] It arouses a +smile to-day when we find that less than a century ago it was possible for +an able and esteemed medical author to declare that the use of "various +abominable means" to prevent conception is "based upon a most presumptuous +doubt in the conservative power of the Creator."[433] + +The adaptation of theory to practice is not yet complete, and we could not +expect that it should be so, for, as we have seen, there is always an +antagonism between practical morality and traditional morality. From time +to time flagrant illustrations of this antagonism occur.[434] Even in +England, which played a pioneering part in the control of procreation, +attempts are still made--sometimes in quarters where we have a right to +expect a better knowledge--to cast discredit on a movement which, since +it has conquered alike scientific approval and popular practice, it is now +idle to call in question. + +It would be out of place to discuss here the various methods which are +used for the control of procreation, or their respective merits and +defects. It is sufficient to say that the condom or protective sheath, +which seems to be the most ancient of all methods of preventing +conception, after withdrawal, is now regarded by nearly all authorities +as, when properly used, the safest, the most convenient, and the most +harmless method.[435] This is the opinion of Krafft-Ebing, of Moll, of +Schrenck-Notzing, of Loewenfeld, of Forel, of Kisch, of Fuerbringer, to +mention only a few of the most distinguished medical authorities.[436] + + There is some interest in attempting to trace the origin and + history of the condom, though it seems impossible to do so with + any precision. It is probable that, in a rudimentary form, such + an appliance is of great antiquity. In China and Japan, it would + appear, rounds of oiled silk paper are used to cover the mouth of + the womb, at all events, by prostitutes. This seems the simplest + and most obvious mechanical method of preventing conception, and + may have suggested the application of a sheath to the penis as a + more effectual method. In Europe, it is in the middle of the + sixteenth century, in Italy, that we first seem to hear of such + appliances, in the shape of linen sheaths, adapted to the shape + of the penis; Fallopius recommended the use of such an appliance. + Improvements in the manufacture were gradually devised; the caecum + of the lamb was employed, and afterwards, isinglass. It appears + that a considerable improvement in the manufacture took place in + the seventeenth or eighteenth century, and this improvement was + generally associated with England. The appliance thus became + known as the English cape or mantle, the "capote anglaise," or + the "redingote anglaise," and, under the latter name, is referred + to by Casanova, in the middle of the eighteenth century + (Casanova, _Memoires_, ed. Garnier, vol. iv, p. 464); Casanova + never seems, however, to have used these redingotes himself, not + caring, he said, "to shut myself up in a piece of dead skin in + order to prove that I am perfectly alive." These capotes--then + made of goldbeaters' skin--were, also, it appears, known at an + earlier period to Mme. de Sevigne, who did not regard them with + favor, for, in one of her letters, she refers to them as + "cuirasses contre la volupte et toiles d'arraignee contre le + mal." The name, "condom," dates from the eighteenth century, + first appearing in France, and is generally considered to be that + of an English physician, or surgeon, who invented, or, rather, + improved the appliance. Condom is not, however, an English name, + but there is an English name, Condon, of which "condom" may well + be a corruption. This supposition is strengthened by the fact + that the word sometimes actually was written "condon." Thus, in + lines quoted by Bachaumont, in his _Diary_ (Dec. 15, 1773), and + supposed to be addressed to a former ballet dancer who had become + a prostitute, I find:-- + + "Du _condon_ cependant, vous connaissez l'usage, + * * * * * + "Le _condon_, c'est la loi, ma fille, et les prophetes!" + + The difficulty remains, however, of discovering any Englishman of + the name of Condon, who can plausibly be associated with the + condom; doubtless he took no care to put the matter on record, + never suspecting the fame that would accrue to his invention, or + the immortality that awaited his name. I find no mention of any + Condon in the records of the College of Physicians, and at the + College of Surgeons, also, where, indeed, the old lists are very + imperfect, Mr. Victor Plarr, the librarian, after kindly making a + search, has assured me that there is no record of the name. Other + varying explanations of the name have been offered, with more or + less assurance, though usually without any proofs. Thus, Hyrtl + (_Handbuch der Topographischen Anatomic_, 7th ed., vol. ii, p. + 212) states that the condom was originally called gondom, from + the name of the English discoverer, a Cavalier of Charles II's + Court, who first prepared it from the amnion of the sheep; Gondom + is, however, no more an English name than Condom. There happens + to be a French town, in Gascony, called Condom, and Bloch + suggests, without any evidence, that this furnished the name; if + so, however, it is improbable that it would have been unknown in + France. Finally, Hans Ferdy considers that it is derived from + "condus"--that which preserves--and, in accordance with his + theory, he terms the condom a condus. + + The early history of the condom is briefly discussed by various + writers, as by Proksch, _Die Vorbauung der Venerischen + Krankheiten_, p. 48; Bloch, _Sexual Life of Our Time_, Chs. XV + and XXVIII; Cabanes, _Indiscretions de l'Histoire_, p. 121, etc. + +The control of procreation by the prevention of conception has, we have +seen, become a part of the morality of civilized peoples. There is another +method, not indeed for preventing conception, but for limiting offspring, +which is of much more ancient appearance in the world, though it has at +different times been very differently viewed and still arouses widely +opposing opinions. This is the method of abortion. + +While the practice of abortion has by no means, like the practice of +preventing conception, become accepted in civilization, it scarcely +appears to excite profound repulsion in a large proportion of the +population of civilized countries. The majority of women, not excluding +educated and highly moral women, who become pregnant against their wish +contemplate the possibility of procuring abortion without the slightest +twinge of conscience, and often are not even aware of the usual +professional attitude of the Church, the law, and medicine regarding +abortion. Probably all doctors have encountered this fact, and even so +distinguished and correct a medico-legist as Brouardel stated[437] that he +had been not infrequently solicited to procure abortion, for themselves or +their wet-nurses, by ladies who looked on it as a perfectly natural thing, +and had not the least suspicion that the law regarded the deed as a crime. + +It is not, therefore, surprising that abortion is exceedingly common in +all civilized and progressive countries. It cannot, indeed, unfortunately, +be said that abortion has been conducted in accordance with eugenic +considerations, nor has it often been so much as advocated from the +eugenic standpoint. But in numerous classes of cases of undesired +pregnancy, occurring in women of character and energy, not accustomed to +submit tamely to conditions they may not have sought, and in any case +consider undesirable, abortion is frequently resorted to. It is usual to +regard the United States as a land in which the practice especially +flourishes, and certainly a land in which the ideal of chastity for +unmarried women, of freedom for married women, of independence for all, is +actively followed cannot fail to be favorable to the practice of abortion. +But the way in which the prevalence of abortion is proclaimed in the +United States is probably in large part due to the honesty of the +Americans in setting forth, and endeavoring to correct, what, rightly or +wrongly, they regard as social defects, and may not indicate any real +pre-eminence in the practice. Comparative statistics are difficult, and it +is certainly true that abortion is extremely common in England, in France, +and in Germany. It is probable that any national differences may be +accounted for by differences in general social habits and ideals. Thus in +Germany, where considerable sexual freedom is permitted to unmarried women +and married women are very domesticated, abortion may be less frequent +than in France where purity is stringently demanded from the young girl, +while the married woman demands freedom for work and for pleasure. But +such national differences, if they exist, are tending to be levelled down, +and charges of criminal abortion are constantly becoming more common in +Germany; though this increase, again, may be merely due to greater zeal in +pursuing the offence. + + Brouardel (op. cit., p. 39) quotes the opinion that, in New York, + only one in every thousand abortions is discovered. Dr. J.F. + Scott (_The Sexual Instinct_, Ch. VIII), who is himself strongly + opposed to the practice, considers that in America, the custom of + procuring abortion has to-day reached "such vast proportions as + to be almost beyond belief," while "countless thousands" of cases + are never reported. "It has increased so rapidly in our day and + generation," Scott states, "that it has created surprise and + alarm in the minds of all conscientious persons who are informed + of the extent to which it is carried." (The assumption that those + who approve of abortion are necessarily not "conscientious + persons" is, as we shall see, mistaken.) The change has taken + place since 1840. The Michigan Special Committee on Criminal + Abortion reported in 1881 that, from correspondence with nearly + one hundred physicians, it appeared that there came to the + knowledge of the profession seventeen abortions to every one + hundred pregnancies; to these, the committee believe, may be + added as many more that never came to the physician's knowledge. + The committee further quoted, though without endorsement, the + opinion of a physician who believed that a change is now coming + over public feeling in regard to the abortionist, who is + beginning to be regarded in America as a useful member of + society, and even a benefactor. + + In England, also, there appears to have been a marked increase of + abortion during recent years, perhaps specially marked among the + poor and hard-working classes. A writer in the _British Medical + Journal_ (April 9, 1904, p. 865) finds that abortion is + "wholesale and systematic," and gives four cases occurring in his + practice during four months, in which women either attempted to + produce abortion, or requested him to do so; they were married + women, usually with large families, and in delicate health, and + were willing to endure any suffering, if they might be saved from + further child-bearing. Abortion is frequently effected, or + attempted, by taking "Female Pills," which contain small portions + of lead, and are thus liable to produce very serious symptoms, + whether or not they induce abortion. Professor Arthur Hall, of + Sheffield, who has especially studied this use of lead ("The + Increasing Use of Lead as an Abortifacient," _British Medical + Journal_, March 18, 1905), finds that the practice has lately + become very common in the English Midlands, and is gradually, it + appears, widening its circle. It occurs chiefly among married + women with families, belonging to the working class, and it tends + to become specially prevalent during periods of trade depression + (cf. G. Newman, _Infant Mortality_, p. 81). Women of better + social class resort to professional abortionists, and sometimes + go over to Paris. + + In France, also, and especially in Paris, there has been a great + increase during recent years in the practice of abortion. (See + e.g., a discussion at the Paris Societe de Medecine Legale, + _Archives d'Anthropologie Criminelle_, May, 1907.) Doleris has + shown (_Bulletin de la Societe d'Obstetrique_, Feb., 1905) that + in the Paris Maternites the percentage of abortions in + pregnancies doubled between 1898 and 1904, and Doleris estimates + that about half of these abortions were artificially induced. In + France, abortion is mainly carried on by professional + abortionists. One of these, Mme. Thomas, who was condemned to + penal servitude, in 1891, acknowledged performing 10,000 + abortions during eight years; her charge for the operation was + two francs and upwards. She was a peasant's daughter, brought up + in the home of her uncle, a doctor, whose medical and obstetrical + books she had devoured (A. Hamon, _La France en 1891_, pp. + 629-631). French public opinion is lenient to abortion, + especially to women who perform the operation on themselves; not + many cases are brought into court, and of these, forty per cent. + are acquitted (Eugene Bausset, _L'Avortement Criminel_, These de + Paris, 1907). The professional abortionist is, however, usually + sent to prison. + + In Germany, also, abortion appears to have greatly increased + during recent years, and the yearly number of cases of criminal + abortion brought into the courts was, in 1903, more than double + as many as in 1885. (See, also, Elisabeth Zanzinger, _Geschlecht + und Gesellschaft_, Bd. II, Heft 5; and _Sexual-Probleme_, Jan., + 1908, p. 23.) + +In view of these facts it is not surprising that the induction of abortion +has been permitted and even encouraged in many civilizations. Its +unqualified condemnation is only found in Christendom, and is due to +theoretical notions. In Turkey, under ordinary circumstances, there is no +punishment for abortion. In the classic civilization of Greece and Rome, +likewise, abortion was permitted though with certain qualifications and +conditions. Plato admitted the mother's right to decide on abortion but +said that the question should be settled as early as possible in +pregnancy. Aristotle, who approved of abortion, was of the same opinion. +Zeno and the Stoics regarded the foetus as the fruit of the womb, the soul +being acquired at birth; this was in accordance with Roman law which +decreed that the foetus only became a human being at birth.[438] Among the +Romans abortion became very common, but, in accordance with the +patriarchal basis of early Roman institutions, it was the father, not the +mother, who had the right to exercise it. Christianity introduced a new +circle of ideas based on the importance of the soul, on its immortality, +and the necessity of baptism as a method of salvation from the results of +inherited sin. We already see this new attitude in St. Augustine who, +discussing whether embryos that died in the womb will rise at the +resurrection, says "I make bold neither to affirm nor to deny, although I +fail to see why, if they are not excluded from the number of the dead, +they should not attain to the resurrection of the dead."[439] The +criminality of abortion was, however, speedily established, and the early +Christian Emperors, in agreement with the Church, edicted many fantastic +and extreme penalties against abortion. This tendency continued under +ecclesiastical influence, unrestrained, until the humanitarian movement of +the eighteenth century, when Beccaria, Voltaire, Rousseau and other great +reformers succeeded in turning the tide of public opinion against the +barbarity of the laws, and the penalty of death for abortion was finally +abolished.[440] + +Medical science and practice at the present day--although it can scarcely +be said that it speaks with an absolutely unanimous voice--on the whole +occupies a position midway between that of the classic lawyers and that of +the later Christian ecclesiastics. It is, on the whole, in favor of +sacrificing the foetus whenever the interests of the mother demand such a +sacrifice. General medical opinion is not, however, prepared at present to +go further, and is distinctly disinclined to aid the parents in exerting +an unqualified control over the foetus in the womb, nor is it yet disposed +to practice abortion on eugenic grounds. It is obvious, indeed, that +medicine cannot in this matter take the initiative, for it is the primary +duty of medicine to save life. Society itself must assume the +responsibility of protecting the race. + + Dr. S. Macvie ("Mother _versus_ Child," _Transactions Edinburgh + Obstetrical Society_, vol. xxiv, 1899) elaborately discusses the + respective values of the foetus and the adult on the basis of + life-expectancy, and concludes that the foetus is merely + "a parasite performing no function whatever," and that "unless + the life-expectancy of the child covers the years in which its + potentiality is converted into actuality, the relative values of + the maternal and foetal life will be that of actual as against + potential." This statement seems fairly sound. Ballantyne + (_Manual of Antenatal Pathology: The Foetus_, p. 459) + endeavors to make the statement more precise by saying that "the + mother's life has a value, because she is what she is, while the + foetus only has a possible value, on account of what it may + become." + + Durlacher, among others, has discussed, in careful and cautious + detail, the various conditions in which the physician should, or + should not, induce abortion in the interests of the mother ("Der + Kuenstliche Abort," _Wiener Klinik_, Aug. and Sept., 1906); so + also, Eugen Wilhelm ("Die Abtreibung und das Recht des Arztes zur + Vernichtung der Leibesfrucht," _Sexual-Probleme_, May and June, + 1909). Wilhelm further discusses whether it is desirable to alter + the laws in order to give the physician greater freedom in + deciding on abortion. He concludes that this is not necessary, + and might even act injuriously, by unduly hampering medical + freedom. Any change in the law should merely be, he considers, in + the direction of asserting that the destruction of the foetus is + not abortion in the legal sense, provided it is indicated by the + rules of medical science. With reference to the timidity of some + medical men in inducing abortion, Wilhelm remarks that, even in + the present state of the law, the physician who conscientiously + effects abortion, in accordance with his best knowledge, even if + mistakenly, may consider himself safe from all legal penalties, + and that he is much more likely to come in conflict with the law + if it can be proved that death followed as a result of his + neglect to induce abortion. + + Pinard, who has discussed the right to control the foetal + life (_Annales de Gynecologie_, vols. lii and liii, 1899 and + 1900), inspired by his enthusiastic propaganda for the salvation + of infant life, is led to the unwarranted conclusion that no one + has the rights of life and death over the foetus; "the infant's + right to his life is an imprescriptible and sacred right, which + no power can take from him." There is a mistake here, unless + Pinard deliberately desires to place himself, like Tolstoy, in + opposition to current civilized morality. So far from the infant + having any "imprescriptible right to life," even the adult has, + in human societies, no such inalienable right, and very much less + the foetus, which is not strictly a human being at all. We assume + the right of terminating the lives of those individuals whose + anti-social conduct makes them dangerous, and, in war, we + deliberately terminate, amid general applause and enthusiasm, the + lives of men who have been specially selected for this purpose on + account of their physical and general efficiency. It would be + absurdly inconsistent to say that we have no rights over the + lives of creatures that have, as yet, no part in human society at + all, and are not so much as born. We are here in presence of a + vestige of ancient theological dogma, and there can be little + doubt that, on the theoretical side at all events, the + "imprescriptible right" of the embryo will go the same way as the + "imprescriptible right" of the spermatozoeon. Both rights are + indeed "imprescriptible." + +Of recent years a new, and, it must be admitted, somewhat unexpected, +aspect of this question of abortion has been revealed. Hitherto it has +been a question entirely in the hands of men, first, following the Roman +traditions, in the hands of Christian ecclesiastics, and later, in those +of the professional castes. Yet the question is in reality very largely, +and indeed mainly, a woman's question, and now, more especially in +Germany, it has been actively taken up by women. The Graefin Gisela +Streitberg occupies the pioneering place in this movement with her book +_Das Recht zur Beiseitigung Keimenden Lebens_, and was speedily followed, +from 1897 onwards, by a number of distinguished women who occupy a +prominent place in the German woman's movement, among others Helene +Stoecker, Oda Olberg, Elisabeth Zanzinger, Camilla Jellinek. All these +writers insist that the foetus is not yet an independent human being, and +that every woman, by virtue of the right over her own body, is entitled to +decide whether it shall become an independent human being. At the Woman's +Congress held in the autumn of 1905, a resolution was passed demanding +that abortion should only be punishable when effected by another person +against the wish of the pregnant women herself.[441] The acceptance of +this resolution by a representative assembly is interesting proof of the +interest now taken by women in the question, and of the strenuous attitude +they are tending to assume. + + Elisabeth Zanzinger ("Verbrechen gegen die Leibesfrucht," + _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Bd. II, Heft 5, 1907) ably and + energetically condemns the law which makes abortion a crime. "A + woman herself is the only legitimate possessor of her own body + and her own health.... Just as it is a woman's private right, and + most intimate concern, to present her virginity as her best gift + to the chosen of her heart, so it is certainly a pregnant woman's + own private concern if, for reasons which seem good to her, she + decides to destroy the results of her action." A woman who + destroys the embryo which might become a burden to the community, + or is likely to be an inferior member of society, this writer + urges, is doing a service to the community, which ought to reward + her, perhaps by granting her special privileges as regards the + upbringing of her other children. Oda Olberg, in a thoughtful + paper ("Ueber den Juristischen Schutz des Keimenden Lebens," _Die + Neue Generation_, June, 1908), endeavors to make clear all that + is involved in the effort to protect the developing embryo + against the organism that carries it, to protect a creature, that + is, against itself and its own instincts. She considers that most + of the women who terminate their pregnancies artificially would + only have produced undesirables, for the normal, healthy, robust + woman has no desire to effect abortion. "There are women who are + psychically sterile, without being physically so, and who possess + nothing of motherhood but the ability to bring forth. These, when + they abort, are simply correcting a failure of Nature." Some of + them, she remarks, by going on to term, become guilty of the far + worse offence of infanticide. As for the women who desire + abortion merely from motives of vanity, or convenience, Oda + Olberg points out that the circles in which these motives rule + are quite able to limit their children without having to resort + to abortion. She concludes that society must protect the young + life in every way, by social hygiene, by laws for the protection + of the workers, by spreading a new morality on the basis of the + laws of heredity. But we need no law to protect the young + creature against its own mother, for a thousand natural forces + are urging the mother to protect her own child, and we may be + sure that she will not disobey these forces without very good + reasons. Camilla Jellinek, again (_Die Strafrechtsreform_, etc., + Heidelberg, 1909), in a powerful and well-informed address before + the Associated German Frauenvereine, at Breslau, argues in the + same sense. + + The lawyers very speedily came to the assistance of the women in + this matter, the more readily, no doubt, since the traditions of + the greatest and most influential body of law already pointed, on + one side at all events, in the same direction. It may, indeed, be + claimed that it was from the side of law--and in Italy, the + classic land of legal reform--that this new movement first begun. + In 1888, Balestrini published, at Turin, his _Aborto, + Infanticidio ed Esposizione d'Infante_, in which he argued that + the penalty should be removed from abortion. It was a very able + and learned book, inspired by large ideas and a humanitarian + spirit, but though its importance is now recognized, it cannot be + said that it attracted much attention on publication. + + It is especially in Germany that, during recent years, lawyers + have followed women reformers, by advocating, more or less + completely, the abolition of the punishment for abortion. So + distinguished an authority as Von Liszt, in a private letter to + Camilla Jellinek (op. cit.), states that he regards the + punishment of abortion as "very doubtful," though he considers + its complete abolition impracticable; he thinks abortion might be + permitted during the early months of pregnancy, thus bringing + about a return of the old view. Hans Gross states his opinion + (_Archiv fuer Kriminal-Anthropologie_, Bd. XII, p. 345) that the + time is not far distant when abortion will no longer be punished. + Radbruch and Von Lilienthal speak in the same sense. Weinberg has + advocated a change in the law (_Mutterschutz_, 1905, Heft 8), + and Kurt Hiller (_Die Neue Generation_, April, 1909), also from + the legal side, argues that abortion should only be punishable + when effected by a married woman, without the knowledge and + consent of her husband. + +The medical profession, which took the first step in modern times in the +authorization of abortion, has not at present taken any further step. It +has been content to lay down the principle that when the interests of the +mother are opposed to those of the foetus, it is the latter which must be +sacrificed. It has hesitated to take the further step of placing abortion +on the eugenic basis, and of claiming the right to insist on abortion +whenever the medical and hygienic interests of society demand such a step. +This attitude is perfectly intelligible. Medicine has in the past been +chiefly identified with the saving of lives, even of worthless and worse +than worthless lives; "Keep everything alive! Keep everything alive!" +nervously cried Sir James Paget. Medicine has confined itself to the +humble task of attempting to cure evils, and is only to-day beginning to +undertake the larger and nobler task of preventing them. + + "The step from killing the child in the womb to murdering a + person when out of the womb, is a dangerously narrow one," sagely + remarks a recent medical author, probably speaking for many + others, who somehow succeed in blinding themselves to the fact + that this "dangerously narrow step" has been taken by mankind, + only too freely, for thousands of years past, long before + abortion was known in the world. + + Here and there, however, medical authors of repute have advocated + the further extension of abortion, with precautions, and under + proper supervision, as an aid to eugenic progress. Thus, + Professor Max Flesch (_Die Neue Generation_, April, 1909) is in + favor of a change in the law permitting abortion (provided it is + carried out by the physician) in special cases, as when the + mother's pregnancy has been due to force, when she has been + abandoned, or when, in the interests of the community, it is + desirable to prevent the propagation of insane, criminal, + alcoholic, or tuberculous persons. + + In France, a medical man, Dr. Jean Darricarrere, has written a + remarkable novel, _Le Droit d'Avortement_ (1906), which advocates + the thesis that a woman always possesses a complete right to + abortion, and is the supreme judge as to whether she will or not + undergo the pain and risks of childbirth. The question is, here, + however, obviously placed not on medical, but on humanitarian and + feminist grounds. + +We have seen that, alike on the side of practice and of theory, a great +change has taken place during recent years in the attitude towards +abortion. It must, however, clearly be recognized that, unlike the control +of procreation by methods for preventing conception, facultative abortion +has not yet been embodied in our current social morality. If it is +permissible to interpolate a personal opinion, I may say that to me it +seems that our morality is here fairly reasonable.[442] I am decidedly of +opinion that an unrestricted permission for women to practice abortion in +their own interests, or even for communities to practice it in the +interests of the race, would be to reach beyond the stage of civilization +we have at present attained. As Ellen Key very forcibly argues, a +civilization which permits, without protest, the barbarous slaughter of +its carefully selected adults in war has not yet won the right to destroy +deliberately even its most inferior vital products in the womb. A +civilization guilty of so reckless a waste of life cannot safely be +entrusted with this judicial function. The blind and aimless anxiety to +cherish the most hopeless and degraded forms of life, even of unborn life, +may well be a weakness, and since it often leads to incalculable +suffering, even a crime. But as yet there is an impenetrable barrier +against progress in this direction. Before we are entitled to take life +deliberately for the sake of purifying life, we must learn how to preserve +it by abolishing such destructive influences--war, disease, bad industrial +conditions--as are easily within our social power as civilized +nations.[443] + +There is, further, another consideration which seems to me to carry +weight. The progress of civilization is in the direction of greater +foresight, of greater prevention, of a diminished need for struggling with +the reckless lack of prevision. The necessity for abortion is precisely +one of those results of reckless action which civilization tends to +diminish. While we may admit that in a sounder state of civilization a few +cases might still occur when the induction of abortion would be desirable, +it seems probable that the number of such cases will decrease rather than +increase. In order to do away with the need for abortion, and to +counteract the propaganda in its favor, our main reliance must be placed, +on the one hand, on increased foresight in the determination of conception +and increased knowledge of the means for preventing conception,[444] and +on the other hand, on a better provision by the State for the care of +pregnant women, married and unmarried alike, and a practical recognition +of the qualified mother's claim on society.[445] There can be little doubt +that, in many a charge of criminal abortion, the real offence lies at the +door of those who have failed to exercise their social and professional +duty of making known the more natural and harmless methods for preventing +conception, or else by their social attitude have made the pregnant +woman's position intolerable. By active social reform in these two +directions, the new movement in favor of abortion may be kept in check, +and it may even be found that by stimulating such reform that movement has +been beneficial. + +We have seen that the deliberate restraint of conception has become a part +of our civilized morality, and that the practice and theory of facultative +abortion has gained a footing among us. There remains a third and yet more +radical method of controlling procreation, the method of preventing the +possibility of procreation altogether by the performance of castration or +other slighter operation having a like inhibitory effect on reproduction. +The other two methods only effect a single act of union or its results, +but castration affects all subsequent acts of sexual union and usually +destroys the procreative power permanently. + +Castration for various social and other purposes is an ancient and +widespread practice, carried out on men and on animals. There has, +however, been on the whole a certain prejudice against it when applied to +men. Many peoples have attached a very sacred value to the integrity of +the sexual organs. Among some primitive peoples the removal of these +organs has been regarded as a peculiarly ferocious insult, only to be +carried out in moments of great excitement, as after a battle. Medicine +has been opposed to any interference with the sexual organs. The oath +taken by the Greek physicians appears to prohibit castration: "I will not +cut."[446] In modern times a great change has taken place, the castration +of both men and women is commonly performed in diseased conditions; the +same operation is sometimes advocated and occasionally performed in the +hope that it may remove strong and abnormal sexual impulses. And during +recent years castration has been invoked in the cause of negative +eugenics, to a greater extent, indeed, on account of its more radical +character, than either the prevention of conception or abortion. + +The movement in favor of castration appears to have begun in the United +States, where various experiments have been made in embodying it in law. +It was first advocated merely as a punishment for criminals, and +especially sexual offenders, by Hammond, Everts, Lydston and others. From +this point of view, however, it seems to be unsatisfactory and perhaps +illegitimate. In many cases castration is no punishment at all, and indeed +a positive benefit. In other cases, when inflicted against the subject's +will, it may produce very disturbing mental effects, leading in already +degenerate or unbalanced persons to insanity, criminality, and anti-social +tendencies generally, much more dangerous than the original state. +Eugenic considerations, which were later brought forward, constitute a +much sounder argument for castration; in this case the castration is +carried out, by no means in order to inflict a barbarous and degrading +punishment, but, with the subject's consent, in order to protect the +community from the risk of useless or mischievous members. + + The fact that castration can no longer be properly considered a + punishment, is shown by the possibility of deliberately seeking + the operation simply for the sake of convenience, as a preferable + and most effective substitute for the adoption of preventive + methods in sexual intercourse. I am only at present acquainted + with one case in which this course has been adopted. This subject + is a medical man (of Puritan New England ancestry) with whose + sexual history, which is quite normal, I have been acquainted for + a long time past. His present age is thirty-nine. A few years + since, having a sufficiently large family, he adopted preventive + methods of intercourse. The subsequent events I narrate in his + own words: "The trouble, forethought, etc., rendered necessary by + preventive measures, grew more and more irksome to me as the + years passed by, and finally, I laid the matter before another + physician, and on his assurances, and after mature deliberation + with my wife, was operated on some time since, and rendered + sterile by having the vas deferens on each side exposed through a + slit in the scrotum, then tied in two places with silk and + severed between the ligatures. This was done under cocaine + infiltrative anaesthesia, and was not so extremely painful, though + what pain there was (dragging the cord out through the slit, + etc.) seemed very hard to endure. I was not out of my office a + single day, nor seriously disturbed in any way. In six days all + stitches in the scrotum were removed, and in three weeks I + abandoned the suspensory bandage that had been rendered necessary + by the extreme sensitiveness of the testicles and cord. + + "The operation has proved a most complete success in every way. + Sexual functions are _absolutely unaffected in any way + whatsoever_. There is no sense of discomfort or uneasiness in the + sexual tract, and what seems strangest of all to me, is the fact + that the semen, so far as one can judge by ordinary means of + observation, is undiminished in quantity and unchanged in + character. (Of course, the microscope would reveal its fatal + lack.) + + "My wife is delighted at having fear banished from our love, and, + taken all in all, it certainly seems as if life would mean more + to us both. Incidentally, the health of both of us seems better + than usual, particularly so in my wife's case, and this she + attributes to a soothing influence that is attained by allowing + the seminal fluid to be deposited in a perfectly normal manner, + and remain in contact with the vaginal secretions until it + naturally passes off. + + "This operation being comparatively new, and, as yet, not often + done on others than the insane, criminal, etc., I thought it + might be of interest to you. If I shed even the faintest ray of + light on this greatest of all human problems ... I shall be glad + indeed." + + Such a case, with its so far satisfactory issue, certainly + deserves to be placed on record, though it may well be that at + present it will not be widely imitated. + +The earliest advocacy of castration, which I have met with as a part of +negative eugenics, for the specific "purpose of prophylaxis as applied to +race improvement and the protection of society," is by Dr. F.E. Daniel, of +Texas, and dates from 1893.[447] Daniel mixed up, however, somewhat +inextricably, castration as a method of purifying the race, a method which +can be carried out with the concurrence of the individual operated on, +with castration as a punishment, to be inflicted for rape, sodomy, +bestiality, pederasty and even habitual masturbation, the method of its +performance, moreover, to be the extremely barbarous and primitive method +of total ablation of the sexual organs. In more recent years somewhat more +equitable, practical, and scientific methods of castration have been +advocated, not involving the removal of the sexual glands or organs, and +not as a punishment, but simply for the sake of protecting the community +and the race from the burden of probably unproductive and possibly +dangerous members. Naecke has, from 1899 onwards, repeatedly urged the +social advantages of this measure.[448] The propagation of the inferior +elements of society, Naecke insists, brings unhappiness into the family and +is a source of great expense to the State. He regards castration as the +only effective method of prevention, and concludes that it is, therefore, +our duty to adopt it, just as we have adopted vaccination, taking care to +secure the consent of the subject himself or his guardian, of the civil +authorities, and, if necessary, of a committee of experts. Professor +Angelo Zuccarelli of Naples has also, from 1899 onwards, emphasized the +importance of castration in the sterilization of the epileptic, the insane +of various classes, the alcoholic, the tuberculous, and instinctive +criminals, the choice of cases for operation to be made by a commission of +experts who would examine school-children, candidates for public +employments, or persons about to marry.[449] This movement rapidly gained +ground, and in 1905 at the annual meeting of Swiss alienists it was +unanimously agreed that the sterilization of the insane is desirable, and +that it is necessary that the question should be legally regulated. It is +in Switzerland, indeed, that the first steps have been taken in Europe to +carry out castration as a measure of social prophylaxis. The sixteenth +yearly report (1907) of the Cantonal asylum at Wil describes four cases of +castration, two in men and two in women, performed--with the permission of +the patients and the civil authorities--for social reasons; both women had +previously had illegitimate children who were a burden on the community, +and all four patients were sexually abnormal; the operation enabled the +patients to be liberated and to work, and the results were considered in +every respect satisfactory to all concerned.[450] + + The introduction of castration as a method of negative eugenics + has been facilitated by the use of new methods of performing it + without risk, and without actual removal of the testes or + ovaries. For men, there is the simple method of vasectomy, as + recommended by Naecke and many others. For women, there is the + corresponding, and almost equally simple and harmless method of + Kehrer, by section and ligation of the Fallopian tubes through + the vagina, as recommended by Kisch, or Rose's very similar + procedure, easily carried out in a few minutes by an experienced + hand, as recommended by Zuccarelli. + + It has been found that repeated exposure to the X-rays produces + sterility in both sexes, alike in animals and men, and X-ray + workers have to adopt various precautions to avoid suffering from + this effect. It has been suggested that the application of the + X-rays would be a good substitute for castration; it appears that + the effects of the application are only likely to last a few + years, which, in some doubtful cases, might be an advantage. (See + _British Medical Journal_, Aug. 13, 1904; ib., March 11, 1905; + ib., July 6, 1907.) + +It is scarcely possible, it seems to me, to view castration as a method of +negative eugenics with great enthusiasm. The recklessness, moreover, with +which it is sometimes proposed to apply it by law--owing no doubt to the +fact that it is not so obviously repulsive as the less radical procedure +of abortion--ought to render us very cautious. We must, too, dismiss the +idea of castration as a punishment; as such it is not merely barbarous but +degrading and is unlikely to have a beneficial effect. As a method of +negative eugenics it should never be carried out except with the subject's +consent. The fact that in some cases it might be necessary to enforce +seclusion in the absence of castration would doubtless be a fact exerting +influence in favor of such consent; but the consent is essential if the +subject of the operation is to be safeguarded from degradation. A man who +has been degraded and embittered by an enforced castration might not be +dangerous to posterity, but might very easily become a dangerous member of +the society in which he actually lived. With due precautions and +safeguards, castration may doubtless play a certain part in the elevation +and improvement of the race.[451] + +The methods we have been considering, in so far as they limit the +procreative powers of the less healthy and efficient stocks in a +community, are methods of eugenics. It must not, however, be supposed that +they are the whole of eugenics, or indeed that they are in any way +essential to a eugenic scheme. Eugenics is concerned with the whole of the +agencies which elevate and improve the human breed; abortion and +castration are methods which may be used to this end, but they are not +methods of which everyone approves, nor is it always clear that the ends +they effect would not better be attained by other methods; in any case +they are methods of negative eugenics. There remains the field of positive +eugenics, which is concerned, not with the elimination of the inferior +stocks but with ascertaining which are the superior stocks and with +furthering their procreative power. + +While the necessity of refraining from procreation is no longer a bar to +marriage, the question of whether two persons ought to marry each other +still remains in the majority of cases a serious question from the +standpoint of positive as well as of negative eugenics, for the normal +marriage cannot fail to involve children, as, indeed, its chief and most +desirable end. We have to consider not merely what are the stocks or the +individuals that are unfit to breed, but also what are these stocks or +individuals that are most fit to breed, and under what conditions +procreation may best be effected. The present imperfection of our +knowledge on these questions emphasizes the need for care and caution in +approaching their consideration. + + It may be fitting, at this point, to refer to the experiment of + the Oneida Community in establishing a system of scientific + propagation, under the guidance of a man whose ability and + distinction as a pioneer are only to-day beginning to be + adequately recognized. John Humphrey Noyes was too far ahead of + his own day to be recognized at his true worth; at the most, he + was regarded as the sagacious and successful founder of a sect, + and his attempts to apply eugenics to life only aroused ridicule + and persecution, so that he was, unfortunately, compelled by + outside pressure to bring a most instructive experiment to a + premature end. His aim and principle are set forth in an _Essay + on Scientific Propagation_, printed some forty years ago, which + discusses problems that are only now beginning to attract the + attention of the practical man, as within the range of social + politics. When Noyes turned his vigorous and practical mind to + the question of eugenics, that question was exclusively in the + hands of scientific men, who felt all the natural timidity of the + scientific man towards the realization of his proposals, and who + were not prepared to depart a hair's breadth from the + conventional customs of their time. The experiment of Noyes, at + Oneida, marked a new stage in the history of eugenics; whatever + might be the value of the experiment--and a first experiment + cannot well be final--with Noyes the questions of eugenics passed + beyond the purely academic stage in which, from the time of + Plato, they had peacefully reposed. "It is becoming clear," Noyes + states at the outset, "that the foundations of scientific society + are to be laid in the scientific propagation of human beings." In + doing this, we must attend to two things: blood (or heredity) and + training; and he puts blood first. In that, he was at one with + the most recent biometrical eugenists of to-day ("the nation has + for years been putting its money on 'Environment,' when + 'Heredity' wins in a canter," as Karl Pearson prefers to put it), + and at the same time revealed the breadth of his vision in + comparison with the ordinary social reformer, who, in that day, + was usually a fanatical believer in the influence of training and + surroundings. Noyes sets forth the position of Darwin on the + principles of breeding, and the step beyond Darwin, which had + been taken by Galton. He then remarks that, when Galton comes to + the point where it is necessary to advance from theory to the + duties the theory suggests, he "subsides into the meekest + conservatism." (It must be remembered that this was written at an + early stage in Galton's work.) This conclusion was entirely + opposed to Noyes' practical and religious temperament. "Duty is + plain; we say we ought to do it--we want to do it; but we cannot. + The law of God urges us on; but the law of society holds us back. + The boldest course is the safest. Let us take an honest and + steady look at the law. It is only in the timidity of ignorance + that the duty seems impracticable." Noyes anticipated Galton in + regarding eugenics as a matter of religion. + + Noyes proposed to term the work of modern science in propagation + "Stirpiculture," in which he has sometimes been followed by + others. He considered that it is the business of the + stirpiculturist to keep in view both quantity and quality of + stocks, and he held that, without diminishing quantity, it was + possible to raise the quality by exercising a very stringent + discrimination in selecting males. At this point, Noyes has been + supported in recent years by Karl Pearson and others, who have + shown that only a relatively small portion of a population is + needed to produce the next generation, and that, in fact, twelve + per cent. of one generation in man produces fifty per cent. of + the next generation. What we need to ensure is that this small + reproducing section of the population shall be the best adapted + for the purpose. "The _quantity_ of production will be in direct + proportion to the number of fertile females," as Noyes saw the + question, "and the _value_ produced, so far as it depends on + selection, will be nearly in inverse proportion to the number of + fertilizing males." In this matter, Noyes anticipated Ehrenfels. + The two principles to be held in mind were, "Breed from the + best," and "Breed in-and-in," with a cautious and occasional + introduction of new strains. (It may be noted that Reibmayr, in + his recent _Entwicklungsgeschichte des Genics und Talentes_, + argues that the superior races, and superior individuals, in the + human species, have been produced by an unconscious adherence to + exactly these principles.) "By segregating superior families, and + by breeding these in-and-in, superior varieties of human beings + might be produced, which would be comparable to the thoroughbreds + in all the domestic races." He illustrates this by the early + history of the Jews. + + Noyes finally criticises the present method, or lack of method, + in matters of propagation. Our marriage system, he states, + "leaves mating to be determined by a general scramble." By + ignoring, also, the great difference between the sexes in + reproductive power, it "restricts each man, whatever may be his + potency and his value, to the amount of production of which one + woman, chosen blindly, may be capable." Moreover, he continues, + "practically it discriminates against the best, and in favor of + the worst; for, while the good man will be limited by his + conscience to what the law allows, the bad man, free from moral + check, will distribute his seed beyond the legal limits, as + widely as he dares." "We are safe every way in saying that there + is no possibility of carrying the two precepts of scientific + propagation into an institution which pretends to no + discrimination, allows no suppression, gives no more liberty to + the best than to the worst, and which, in fact, must inevitably + discriminate the wrong way, so long as the inferior classes are + most prolific and least amenable to the admonitions of science + and morality." In modifying our sexual institutions, Noyes + insists there are two essential points to remember: the + preservation of liberty, and the preservation of the home. There + must be no compulsion about human scientific propagation; it must + be autonomous, directed by self-government, "by the free choice + of those who love science well enough to 'make themselves eunuchs + for the Kingdom of Heaven's sake.'" The home, also, must be + preserved, since "marriage is the best thing for man as he is;" + but it is necessary to enlarge the home, for, "if all could learn + to love other children than their own, there would be nothing to + hinder scientific propagation in the midst of homes far better + than any that now exist." + + This memorable pamphlet contains no exposition of the precise + measures adopted by the Oneida Community to carry out these + principles. The two essential points were, as we know, "male + continence" (see _ante_ p. 553), and the enlarged family, in + which all the men were the actual or potential mates of all the + women, but no union for propagation took place, except as the + result of reason and deliberate resolve. "The community," says + H.J. Seymour, one of the original members (_The Oneida + Community_, 1894, p. 5), "was a _family_, as distinctly separated + from surrounding society as ordinary households. The tie that + bound it together was as permanent, and at least as sacred, as + that of marriage. Every man's care, and the whole of the common + property, was pledged for the maintenance and protection of the + women, and the support and education of the children." It is not + probable that the Oneida Community presented in detail the model + to which human society generally will conform. But even at the + lowest estimate, its success showed, as Lord Morely has pointed + out (_Diderot_, vol. ii, p. 19), "how modifiable are some of + these facts of existing human character which are vulgarly deemed + to be ultimate and ineradicable," and that "the discipline of the + appetites and affections of sex," on which the future of + civilization largely rests, is very far from an impossibility. + + In many respects, the Oneida Community was ahead of its + time,--and even of ours,--but it is interesting to note that, in + the matter of the control of conception, our marriage system has + come into line with the theory and practice of Oneida; it cannot, + indeed, be said that we always control conception in accordance + with eugenic principles, but the fact that such control has now + become a generally accepted habit of civilization, to some extent + deprives Noyes' criticism of our marriage system of the force it + possessed half a century ago. Another change in our customs--the + advocacy, and even the practice, of abortion and + castration--would not have met with his approval; he was strongly + opposed to both, and with the high moral level that ruled his + community, neither was necessary to the maintenance of the + stirpiculture that prevailed. + + The Oneida Community endured for the space of one generation, and + came to an end in 1879, by no means through a recognition of + failure, but by a wise deference to external pressure. Its + members, many of them highly educated, continued to cherish the + memory of the practices and ideals of the Community. Noyes Miller + (the author of _The Strike of a Sex_, and _Zugassant's + Discovery_) to the last, looked with quiet confidence to the time + when, as he anticipated, the great discovery of Noyes would be + accepted and adopted by the world at large. Another member of the + Community (Henry J. Seymour) wrote of the Community long + afterwards that "It was an anticipation and imperfect miniature + of the Kingdom of Heaven on earth." + +Perhaps the commonest type of proposal or attempt to improve the +biological level of the race is by the exclusion of certain classes of +degenerates from marriage, or by the encouragement of better classes of +the community to marry. This seems to be, at present, the most popular +form of eugenics, and in so far as it is not effected by compulsion but is +the outcome of a voluntary resolve to treat the question of the creation +of the race with the jealous care and guardianship which so tremendously +serious, so godlike, a task involves, it has much to be said in its favor +and nothing against it. + +But it is quite another matter when the attempt is made to regulate such +an institution as marriage by law. In the first place we do not yet know +enough about the principles of heredity and the transmissibility of +pathological states to enable us to formulate sound legislative proposals +on this basis. Even so comparatively simple a matter as the relationship +of tuberculosis to heredity can scarcely be said to be a matter of common +agreement, even if it can yet be claimed that we possess adequate material +on which to attain a common agreement. Supposing, moreover, that our +knowledge on all these questions were far more advanced than it is, we +still should not have attained a position in which we could lay down +general propositions regarding the desirability or the undesirability of +certain classes of persons procreating. The question is necessarily an +individual question, and it can only be decided when all the circumstances +of the individual case have been fairly passed in review. + +The objection to any legislative and compulsory regulation of the right to +marry is, however, much more fundamental than the consideration that our +knowledge is at present inadequate. It lies in the extraordinary +confusion, in the minds of those who advocate such legislation, between +legal marriage and procreation. The persons who fall into such confusion +have not yet learnt the alphabet of the subject they presume to dictate +about, and are no more competent to legislate than a child who cannot tell +A from B is competent to read. + +Marriage, in so far as it is the partnership for mutual help and +consolation of two people who in such partnership are free, if they +please, to exercise sexual union, is an elementary right of every person +who is able to reason, who is guilty of no fraud or concealment, and who +is not likely to injure the partner selected, for in that case society is +entitled to interfere by virtue of its duty to protect its members. But +the right to marry, thus understood, in no way involves the right to +procreate. For while marriage _per se_ only affects the two individuals +concerned, and in no way affects the State, procreation, on the other +hand, primarily affects the community which is ultimately made up of +procreated persons, and only secondarily affects the two individuals who +are the instruments of procreation. So that just as the individual couple +has the first right in the question of marriage, the State has the first +right in the question of procreation. The State is just as incompetent to +lay down the law about marriage as the individual is to lay down the law +about procreation. + +That, however, is only one-half of the folly committed by those who would +select the candidates for matrimony by statute. Let us suppose--as is not +indeed easy to suppose--that a community will meekly accept the abstract +prohibitions of the statute book and quietly go home again when the +registrar of marriages informs them that they are shut out from legal +matrimony by the new table of prohibited degrees. An explicit prohibition +to procreate within marriage is an implicit permission to procreate +outside marriage. Thus the undesirable procreation, instead of being +carried out under the least dangerous conditions, is carried out under the +most dangerous conditions, and the net result to the community is not a +gain but a loss. + +What seems usually to happen, in the presence of a formal legislative +prohibition against the marriage of a particular class, is a combination +of various evils. In part the law becomes a dead letter, in part it is +evaded by skill and fraud, in part it is obeyed to give rise to worse +evils. This happened, for instance, in the Terek district of the Caucasus +where, on the demand of a medical committee, priests were prohibited from +marrying persons among whose relatives or ancestry any cases of leprosy +had occurred. So much and such various mischief was caused by this order +that it was speedily withdrawn.[452] + +If we remember that the Catholic Church was occupied for more than a +thousand years in the attempt to impose the prohibition of marriage on its +priesthood,--an educated and trained body of men, who had every spiritual +and worldly motive to accept the prohibition, and were, moreover, brought +up to regard asceticism as the best ideal in life,[453]--we may realize +how absurd it is to attempt to gain the same end by mere casual +prohibitions issued to untrained people with no motives to obey such +prohibitions, and no ideals of celibacy. + +The hopelessness and even absurdity of effecting the eugenic improvement +of the race by merely placing on the statute book prohibitions to certain +classes of people to enter the legal bonds of matrimony as at present +constituted, reveals the weakness of those who undervalue the eugenic +importance of environment. Those who affirm that heredity is everything +and environment nothing seem strangely to forget that it is precisely the +lower classes--those who are most subjected to the influence of bad +environment--who procreate most copiously, most recklessly, and most +disastrously. The restraint of procreation, and a concomitant regard for +heredity, increase _pari passu_ with improvement of the environment and +rise in social well-being. If even already it can be said that probably +fifty per cent. of sexual intercourse--perhaps the most procreatively +productive moiety--takes place outside legal marriage, it becomes obvious +that statutory prohibition to the unfit classes to refrain from legal +marriage merely involves their joining the procreating classes outside +legal matrimony. It is also clear that if we are to neglect the factor of +environment, and leave the lower social classes to the ignorance and +recklessness which are the result of such environment, the only practical +method of eugenics left open is that by castration and abortion. But this +method--if applied on a wholesale scale as it would need to be[454] and +without reference to the consent of the individual--is entirely opposed +to modern democratic feeling. Thus those short-sighted eugenists who +overlook the importance of environment are overlooking the only practical +channel through which their aims can be realized. Attention to procreation +and attention to environment are not, as some have supposed, antagonistic, +but they play harmoniously into each other's hands. The care for +environment leads to a restraint on reckless procreation, and the +restraint of procreation leads to improved environment. + +Legislation on marriage, to be effectual, must be enacted in the home, in +the school, in the doctor's consulting room. Force is helpless here; it is +education that is needed, not merely instruction, but the education of the +conscience and will, and the training of the emotions. + +Legal action may come in to further this process of education, though it +cannot replace it. Thus it is very desirable that when there has been a +concealment of serious disease by a party to a marriage such concealment +should be a ground for divorce. Epilepsy may be taken as typical of the +diseases which should be a bar to procreation, and their concealment +equivalent to an annulment of marriage.[455] In the United States the +Supreme Court of Errors of Connecticut laid it down in 1906 that the +Superior Court has the power to pass a decree of divorce when one of the +parties has concealed the existence of epilepsy. This weighty deliverence, +it has been well said,[456] marks a forward step in human progress. There +are many other seriously pathological conditions in which divorce should +be pronounced, or indeed, occur automatically, except when procreation has +been renounced, for in that case the State is no longer concerned in the +relationship, except to punish any fraud committed by concealment. + + The demand that a medical certificate of health should be + compulsory on marriage, has been especially made in France. In + 1858, Diday, of Lyons, proposed, indeed, that all persons, + without exception, should be compelled to possess a certificate + of health and disease, a kind of sanitary passport. In 1872, + Bertillon (Art. "Demographic," _Dictionnaire Encyclopedique des + Sciences Medicales_) advocated the registration, at marriage, of + the chief anthropological and pathological traits of the + contracting parties (height, weight, color of hair and eyes, + muscular force, size of head, condition of vision, hearing, etc., + deformities and defects, etc.), not so much, however, for the end + of preventing undesirable marriages, as to facilitate the study + and comparison of human groups at particular periods. Subsequent + demands, of a more limited and partial character, for legal + medical certificates as a condition of marriage, have been made + by Fournier (_Syphilis et Mariage_, 1890), Cazalis (_Le Science + et le Mariage_, 1890), and Jullien (_Blenorrhagie et Mariage_, + 1898). In Austria, Haskovec, of Prague ("Contrat Matrimonial et + L'Hygiene Publique," _Comptes-rendus Congres International de + Medecine_, Lisbon, 1906, Section VII, p. 600), argues that, on + marriage, a medical certificate should be presented, showing that + the subject is exempt from tuberculosis, alcoholism, syphilis, + gonorrhoea, severe mental, or nervous, or other degenerative + state, likely to be injurious to the other partner, or to the + offspring. In America, Rosenberg and Aronstam argue that every + candidate for marriage, male or female, should undergo a strict + examination by a competent board of medical examiners, concerning + (1) Family and Past History (syphilis, consumption, alcoholism, + nervous, and mental diseases), and (2) Status Presens (thorough + examination of all the organs); if satisfactory, a certificate of + matrimonial eligibility would then be granted. It is pointed out + that a measure of this kind would render unnecessary the acts + passed by some States for the punishment by fine, or + imprisonment, of the concealment of disease. Ellen Key also + considers (_Liebe und Ehe_, p. 436) that each party at marriage + should produce a certificate of health. "It seems to me just as + necessary," she remarks, elsewhere (_Century of the Child_, Ch. + I), "to demand medical testimony concerning capacity for + marriage, as concerning capacity for military service. In the one + case, it is a matter of giving life; in the other, of taking it, + although certainly the latter occasion has hitherto been + considered as much the more serious." + + The certificate, as usually advocated, would be a private but + necessary legitimation of the marriage in the eyes of the civil + and religious authorities. Such a step, being required for the + protection alike of the conjugal partner and of posterity, would + involve a new legal organization of the matrimonial contract. + That such demands are so frequently made, is a significant sign + of the growth of moral consciousness in the community, and it is + good that the public should be made acquainted with the urgent + need for them. But it is highly undesirable that they should, at + present, or, perhaps, ever, be embodied in legal codes. What is + needed is the cultivation of the feeling of individual + responsibility, and the development of social antagonism towards + those individuals who fail to recognize their responsibility. It + is the reality of marriage, and not its mere legal forms, that it + is necessary to act upon. + +The voluntary method is the only sound way of approach in this matter. +Duclaux considered that the candidate for marriage should possess a +certificate of health in much the same way as the candidate for life +assurance, the question of professional secrecy, as well as that of +compulsion, no more coming into one question than into the other. There is +no reason why such certificates, of an entirely voluntary character, +should not become customary among those persons who are sufficiently +enlightened to realize all the grave personal, family, and social issues +involved in marriage. The system of eugenic certification, as originated +and developed by Galton, will constitute a valuable instrument for raising +the moral consciousness in this matter. Galton's eugenic certificates +would deal mainly with the natural virtues of superior hereditary +breed--"the public recognition of a natural nobility"--but they would +include the question of personal health and personal aptitude.[457] + +To demand compulsory certificates of health at marriage is indeed to begin +at the wrong end. It would not only lead to evasions and antagonisms but +would probably call forth a reaction. It is first necessary to create an +enthusiasm for health, a moral conscience in matters of procreation, +together with, on the scientific side, a general habit of registering the +anthropological, psychological, and pathological data concerning the +individual, from birth onwards, altogether apart from marriage. The +earlier demands of Diday and Bertillon were thus not only on a sounder but +also a more practicable basis. If such records were kept from birth for +every child, there would be no need for special examination at marriage, +and many incidental ends would be gained. There is difficulty at present +in obtaining such records from the moment of birth, and, so far as I am +aware, no attempts have yet been made to establish their systematic +registration. But it is quite possible to begin at the beginning of school +life, and this is now done at many schools and colleges in England, +America, and elsewhere, more especially as regards anthropological, +physiological, and psychological data, each child being submitted to a +thorough and searching anthropometric examination, and thus furnished with +a systematic statement of his physical condition.[458] This examination +needs to be standardized and generalized, and repeated at fixed intervals. +"Every individual child," as is truly stated by Dr. Dukes, the Physician +to Rugby School, "on his entrance to a public school should be as +carefully and as thoroughly examined as if it were for life insurance." If +this procedure were general from an early age, there would be no hardship +in the production of the record at marriage, and no opportunity for fraud. +The _dossier_ of each person might well be registered by the State, as +wills already are, and, as in the case of wills, become freely open to +students when a century had elapsed. Until this has been done during +several centuries our knowledge of eugenics will remain rudimentary. + + There can be little doubt that the eugenic attitude towards + marriage, and the responsibility of the individual for the future + of the race, is becoming more recognized. It is constantly + happening that persons, about to marry, approach the physician in + a state of serious anxiety on this point. Urquhart, indeed + (_Journal of Mental Science_, April, 1907, p. 277), believes that + marriages are seldom broken off on this ground; this seems, + however, too pessimistic a view, and even when the marriage is + not broken off the resolve is often made to avoid procreation. + Clouston, who emphasizes (_Hygiene of the Mind_, p. 74) the + importance of "inquiries by each of the parties to the + life-contract, by their parents and their doctors, as to + heredity, temperament, and health," is more hopeful of the + results than Urquhart. "I have been very much impressed, of late + years," he writes (_Journal of Mental Science_, Oct., 1907, p. + 710), "with the way in which this subject is taking possession of + intelligent people, by the number of times one is consulted by + young men and young women, proposing to marry, or by their + fathers or mothers. I used to have the feeling in the back of my + mind, when I was consulted, that it did not matter what I said, + it would not make any difference. But it is making a difference; + and I, and others, could tell of scores of marriages which were + put off in consequence of psychiatric medical advice." + + Ellen Key, also, refers to the growing tendency among both men + and women, to be influenced by eugenic consideration in forming + partnerships for life (_Century of the Child_, Ch. I). The + recognition of the eugenic attitude towards marriage, the + quickening of the social and individual conscience in matters of + heredity, as also the systematic introduction of certification + and registration, will be furthered by the growing tendency to + the socialization of medicine, and, indeed, in its absence would + be impossible. (See e.g., Havelock Ellis, _The Nationalization of + Health_.) The growth of the State Medical Organization of Health + is steady and continuous, and is constantly covering a larger + field. The day of the private practitioner of medicine--who was + treated, as Duclaux (_L'Hygiene Sociale_, p. 263) put it, "like a + grocer, whose shop the customer may enter and leave as he + pleases, and when he pleases"--will, doubtless, soon be over. It + is now beginning to be felt that health is far too serious a + matter, not only from the individual but also from the social + point of view, to be left to private caprice. There is, indeed, a + tendency, in some quarters, to fear that some day society may + rush to the opposite extreme, and bow before medicine with the + same unreasoning deference that it once bowed before theology. + That danger is still very remote, nor is it likely, indeed, that + medicine will ever claim any authority of this kind. The spirit + of medicine has, notoriously, been rather towards the assertion + of scepticism than of dogma, and the fanatics in this field will + always be in a hopelessly small minority. + +The general introduction of authentic personal records covering all +essential data--hereditary, anthropometric and pathological--cannot fail +to be a force on the side of positive as well as of negative eugenics, for +it would tend to promote the procreation of the fit as well as restrict +that of the unfit, without any legislative compulsion. With the growth of +education a regard for such records as a preliminary to marriage would +become as much a matter of course as once was the regard to the +restrictions imposed by Canon law, and as still is a regard to money or to +caste. A woman can usually refrain from marrying a man with no money and +no prospects; a man may be passionately in love with a woman of lower +class than himself but he seldom marries her. It needs but a clear general +perception of all that is involved in heredity and health to make eugenic +considerations equally influential. + +A discriminating regard to the quality of offspring will act beneficially +on the side of positive eugenics by substituting the pernicious tendency +to put a premium on excess of childbirth by the more rational method of +putting a premium on the quality of the child. It has been one of the most +unfortunate results of the mania for protesting against that decline of +the birthrate which is always and everywhere the result of civilization, +that there has been a tendency to offer special social or pecuniary +advantages to the parents of large families. Since large families tend to +be degenerate, and to become a tax on the community, since rapid +pregnancies in succession are not only a serious drain on the strength of +the mother but are now known to depreciate seriously the quality of the +offspring, and since, moreover, it is in large families that disease and +mortality chiefly prevail, all the interests of the community are against +the placing of any premium on large families, even in the case of parents +of good stock. The interests of the State are bound up not with the +quantity but with the quality of its citizens, and the premium should be +placed not on the families that reach a certain size but on the individual +children that reach a certain standard; the attainment of this standard +could well be based on observations made from birth to the fifth year. A +premium on this basis would be as beneficial to a State as that on the +merely numerical basis is pernicious. + +This consideration applies with still greater force to the proposals for +the "systematic endowment of motherhood" of which we hear more and more. +So moderate and judicious a social reformer as Mr. Sidney Webb writes: "We +shall have to face the problem of the systematic endowment of motherhood, +and place this most indispensable of all professions upon an honorable +economic basis. At present it is ignored as an occupation, unremunerated, +and in no way honored by the State."[459] True as this statement is, it +must always be remembered that an indispensable preliminary to any +proposal for the endowment of motherhood by the State is a clear +conception of the kind of motherhood which the State requires. To endow +the reckless and indiscriminate motherhood which we see around us, to +encourage, that is, by State aid, the production of citizens a large +proportion of whom the State, if it dared, would like to destroy as unfit, +is too ridiculous a proposal to deserve discussion.[460] The only sound +reason, indeed, for the endowment of motherhood is that it would enable +the State, in its own interests, to further the natural selection of the +fit. + +As to the positive qualities which the State is entitled to endow in its +encouragement of motherhood, it is still too early to speak with complete +assurance. Negative eugenics tends to be ahead of positive eugenics; it is +easier to detect bad stocks than to be quite sure of good stocks. Both on +the scientific side and on the social side, however, we are beginning to +attain a clearer realization of the end to be attained and a more precise +knowledge of the methods of attaining it.[461] + +Even when we have gained a fairly clear conception of the stocks and the +individuals which we are justified in encouraging to undertake the task of +producing fit citizens for the State, the problems of procreation are by +no means at an end. Before we can so much as inquire what are the +conditions under which selected individuals may best procreate, there is +still the initial question to be decided whether those individuals are +both fertile and potent, for this is not guaranteed by the fact that they +belong to good stocks, nor is even the fact that a man and a woman are +fertile with other persons any positive proof that they will be fertile +with each other. Among the large masses of the population who do not seek +to make their unions legal until those unions have proved fertile, this +difficulty is settled in a simple and practical manner. The question is, +however, a serious and hazardous one, in the present state of the marriage +law in most countries, for those classes which are accustomed to bind +themselves in legal marriage without any knowledge of their potency and +fertility with each other. The matter is mostly left to chance, and as +legal marriage cannot usually be dissolved on the ground that there are no +offspring, even although procreation is commonly declared to be the chief +end of marriage, the question assumes much gravity. The ordinary range of +sterility is from seven to fifteen per cent. of all marriages, and in a +very large proportion of these it is a source of great concern. This could +be avoided, in some measure, by examination before marriage, and almost +altogether by ordaining that, as it is only through offspring that a +marriage has any concern for the State, a legal marriage could be +dissolved, after a certain period, at the will of either of the parties, +in the absence of such offspring. + + It was formerly supposed that when a union proved infertile, it + was the wife who was at fault. That belief is long since + exploded, but, even yet, a man is generally far more concerned + about his potency, that is, his ability to perform the mechanical + act of coitus, than about his fertility, that is, his ability to + produce living spermatozoa, though the latter condition is a much + more common source of sterility. "Any man," says Arthur Cooper + (_British Medical Journal_, May 11, 1907), "who has any sexual + defect or malformation, or who has suffered from any disease or + injury of the genito-urinary organs, even though comparatively + trivial or one-sided, and although his copulative power may be + unimpaired, should be looked upon as possibly sterile, until some + sort of evidence to the contrary has been obtained." In case of a + sterile marriage, the possible cause should first be investigated + in the husband, for it is comparatively easy to examine the + semen, and to ascertain if it contains active spermatozoa. + Prinzing, in a comprehensive study of sterile marriages ("Die + Sterilen Ehen," _Zeitschrift fuer Sozialwissenschaft_, 1904, Heft + 1 and 2), states that in two-fifths of sterile marriages the man + is at fault; one-third of such marriages are the result of + venereal diseases in the husband himself, or transmitted to the + wife. Gonorrhoea is not now considered so important a cause of + sterility as it was a few years ago; Schenk makes it responsible + for only about thirteen per cent. sterile marriages (cf. Kisch, + _The Sexual Life of Woman_). Pinkus (_Archiv fuer Gynaekologie_, + 1907) found that of nearly five hundred cases in which he + examined both partners, in 24.4 per cent. cases, the sterility + was directly due to the husband, and in 15.8 per cent. cases, + indirectly due, because caused by gonorrhoea with which he had + infected his wife. + + When sterility is due to a defect in the husband's spermatozoa, + and is not discovered, as it usually might be, before marriage, + the question of impregnating the wife by other methods has + occasionally arisen. Divorce on the ground of sterility is not + possible, and, even if it were, the couple, although they wish to + have a child, have not usually any wish to separate. Under these + circumstances, in order to secure the desired end, without + departing from widely accepted rules of morality, the attempt is + occasionally made to effect artificial fecundation by injecting + the semen from a healthy male. Attempts have been made to effect + artificial fecundation by various distinguished men, from John + Hunter to Schwalbe, but it is nearly always very difficult to + effect, and often impossible. This is easy to account for, if we + recall what has already been pointed out (_ante_ p. 577) + concerning the influence of erotic excitement in the woman in + securing conception; it is obviously a serious task for even the + most susceptible woman to evoke erotic enthusiasm _a propos_ of a + medical syringe. Schwalbe, for instance, records a case + (_Deutsche Medizinisches Wochenschrift_, Aug., 1908, p. 510) in + which,--in consequence of the husband's sterility and the wife's + anxiety, with her husband's consent, to be impregnated by the + semen of another man,--he made repeated careful attempts to + effect artificial fecundation; these attempts were, however, + fruitless, and the three parties concerned finally resigned + themselves to the natural method of intercourse, which was + successful. In another case, recorded by Schwalbe, in which the + husband was impotent but not sterile, six attempts were made to + effect artificial fecundation, and further efforts abandoned on + account of the disgust of all concerned. + + Opinion, on the whole, has been opposed to the practice of + artificial fecundation, even apart from the question of the + probabilities of success. Thus, in France, where there is a + considerable literature on the subject, the Paris Medical + Faculty, in 1885, after some hesitation, refused Gerard's thesis + on the history of artificial fecundation, afterwards published + independently. In 1883, the Bordeaux legal tribunal declared that + artificial fecundation was illegitimate, and a social danger. In + 1897, the Holy See also pronounced that the practice is unlawful + ("Artificial Fecundation before the Inquisition," _British + Medical Journal_, March 5, 1898). Apart, altogether, from this + attitude of medicine, law, and Church, it would certainly seem + that those who desire offspring would do well, as a rule, to + adopt the natural method, which is also the best, or else to + abandon to others the task of procreation, for which they are not + adequately equipped. + +When we have ascertained that two individuals both belong to sound and +healthy stocks, and, further, that they are themselves both apt for +procreation, it still remains to consider the conditions under which they +may best effect procreation.[462] There arises, for instance, the +question, often asked, What is the best age for procreation? + +The considerations which weigh in answering this question are of two +different orders, physiological, and social or moral. That is to say, that +it is necessary, on the one hand, that physical maturity should have been +fully attained, and the sexual cells completely developed; while, on the +other hand, it is necessary that the man shall have become able to support +a family, and that both partners shall have received a training in life +adequate to undertake the responsibilities and anxieties involved in the +rearing of children. While there have been variations at different times, +it scarcely appears that, on the whole, the general opinion as to the best +age for procreation has greatly varied in Europe during many centuries. +Hesiod indeed said that a woman should marry about fifteen and a man about +thirty,[463] but obstetricians have usually concluded that, in the +interests alike of the parents and their offspring, the procreative life +should not begin in women before twenty and in men before +twenty-five.[464] After thirty in women and after thirty-five or forty in +men it seems probable that the best conditions for procreation begin to +decline.[465] At the present time, in England and several other civilized +countries, the tendency has been for the age of marriage to fall at an +increasingly late age, on the average some years later than that usually +fixed as the most favorable age for the commencement of the procreative +life. But, on the whole, the average seldom departs widely from the +accepted standard, and there seems no good reason why we should desire to +modify this general tendency. + + At the same time, it by no means follows that wide variations, + under special circumstances, may not only be permissible, but + desirable. The male is capable of procreating, in some cases, + from about the age of thirteen until far beyond eighty, and at + this advanced age, the offspring, even if not notable for great + physical robustness, may possess high intellectual qualities. + (See e.g., Havelock Ellis, _A Study of British Genius_, pp. 120 + et seq.) The range of the procreative age in women begins earlier + (sometimes at eight), though it usually ceases by fifty, or + earlier, in only rare cases continuing to sixty or beyond. Cases + have been reported of pregnancy, or childbirth, at the age of + fifty-nine (e.g., _Lancet_, Aug. 5, 1905, p. 419). Lepage + (_Comptes-rendus Societe d'Obstetrique de Paris_, Oct., 1903) + reports a case of a primipara of fifty-seven; the child was + stillborn. Kisch (_Sexual Life of Woman_, Part II) refers to + cases of pregnancy in elderly women, and various references are + given in _British Medical Journal_, Aug. 8, 1903, p. 325. + + Of more importance is the question of early pregnancy. Several + investigators have devoted their attention to this question. + Thus, Spitta (in a Marburg Inaugural Dissertation, 1895) reviewed + the clinical history of 260 labors in primiparae of 18 and under, + as observed at the Marburg Maternity. He found that the general + health during pregnancy was not below the average of pregnant + women, while the mortality of the child at birth and during the + following weeks was not high, and the mortality of the mother was + by no means high. Picard (in a Paris thesis, 1903) has studied + childbirth in thirty-eight mothers below the age of sixteen. He + found that, although the pelvis is certainly not yet fully + developed in very young girls, the joints and bones are much more + yielding than in the adult, so that parturition, far from being + more difficult, is usually rapid and easy. The process of labor + itself, is essentially normal in these cases, and, even when + abnormalities occur (low insertion of the placenta is a common + anomaly) it is remarkable that the patients do not suffer from + them in the way common among older women. The average weight of + the child was three kilogrammes, or about 6 pounds, 9 ounces; it + sometimes required special care during the first few days after + birth, perhaps because labor in these cases is sometimes slow. + The recovery of the mother was, in every case, absolutely normal, + and the fact that these young mothers become pregnant again more + readily than primiparae of a more mature age, further contributes + to show that childbirth below the age of sixteen is in no way + injurious to the mother. Gache (_Annales de Gynecologie et + d'Obstetrique_, Dec., 1904) has attended ninety-one labors of + mothers under seventeen, in the Rawson Hospital, Buenos Ayres; + they were of so-called Latin race, mostly Spanish or Italian. + Gache found that these young mothers were by no means more + exposed than others to abortion or to other complications of + pregnancy. Except in four cases of slightly contracted pelvis, + delivery was normal, though rather longer than in older + primiparae. Damage to the soft parts was, however, rare, and, when + it occurred, in every case rapidly healed. The average weight of + the child was 3,039 grammes, or nearly 63/4 pounds. It may be noted + that most observers find that very early pregnancies occur in + women who begin to menstruate at an unusually early age, that is, + some years before the early pregnancy occurs. + + It is clear, however, that young mothers do remarkably well, + while there is no doubt whatever that they bear unusually fine + infants. Kleinwaechter, indeed, found that the younger the mother, + the bigger the child. It is not only physically that the children + of young mothers are superior. Marro has found (_Puberta_, p. + 257) that the children of mothers under 21 are superior to those + of older mothers both in conduct and intelligence, provided the + fathers are not too old or too young. The detailed records of + individual cases confirm these results, both as regards mother + and child. Thus, Milner (_Lancet_, June 7, 1902) records a case + of pregnancy in a girl of fourteen; the labor pains were very + mild, and delivery was easy. E.B. Wales, of New Jersey, has + recorded the history (reproduced in _Medical Reprints_, Sept. 15, + 1890) of a colored girl who became pregnant at the age of eleven. + She was of medium size, rather tall and slender, but well + developed, and began to menstruate at the age of ten. She was in + good health and spirits during pregnancy, and able to work. + Delivery was easy and natural, not notably prolonged, and + apparently not unduly painful, for there were no moans or + agitation. The child was a fine, healthy boy, weighing not less + than eleven pounds. Mother and child both did well, and there was + a great flow of milk. Whiteside Robertson (_British Medical + Journal_, Jan. 18, 1902) has recorded a case of pregnancy at the + age of thirteen, in a Colonial girl of British origin in Cape + Colony, which is notable from other points of view. During + pregnancy, she was anaemic, and appeared to be of poor development + and doubtfully normal pelvic conformation. Yet delivery took + place naturally, at full term, without difficulty or injury, and + the lying-in period was in every way satisfactory. The baby was + well-proportioned, and weighed 71/2 pounds. "I have rarely seen a + primipara enjoy easier labor," concluded Robertson, "and I have + never seen one look forward to the happy realization of + motherhood with greater satisfaction." + + The facts brought forward by obstetricians concerning the good + results of early pregnancy, as regards both mother and child, + have not yet received the attention they deserve. They are, + however, confirmed by many general tendencies which are now + fairly well recognized. The significant fact is known, for + instance, that in mothers over thirty, the proportion of + abortions and miscarriages is twice as great as in mothers + between the ages of fifteen and twenty, who also are superior in + this respect to mothers between the ages of twenty and thirty + (_Statistischer Jahrbuch_, Budapest, 1905). It was, again, proved + by Matthews Duncan, in his Goulstonian lecture, that the chances + of sterility in a woman increase with increase of age. It has, + further, been shown (Kisch, _Sexual Life of Woman_, Part II) that + the older a woman at marriage, the greater the average interval + before the first delivery, a tendency which seems to indicate + that it is the very young woman who is in the condition most apt + for procreation; Kisch is not, indeed, inclined to think that + this applies to women below twenty, but the fact, observed by + other obstetricians, that mothers under eighteen tend to become + pregnant again at an unusually short interval, goes far to + neutralize the exception made by Kisch. It may also be pointed + out that, among children of very young mothers, the sexes are + more nearly equal in number than is the case with older mothers. + This would seem to indicate that we are here in presence of a + normal equilibrium which will decrease as the age of the mother + is progressively disturbed in an abnormal direction. + + The facility of parturition at an early age, it may be noted, + corresponds to an equal facility in physical sexual intercourse, + a fact that is often overlooked. In Russia, where marriage still + takes place early, it was formerly common when the woman was only + twelve or thirteen, and Guttceit (_Dreissig Jahre Praxis_, vol. + i, p. 324) says that he was assured by women who married at this + age that the first coitus presented no especial difficulties. + + There is undoubtedly, at the present time, a considerable amount + of prejudice against early motherhood. In part, this is due to a + failure to realize that women are sexually much more precocious + than men, physically as well as psychically (see _ante_ p. 35). + The difference is about five years. This difference has been + virtually recognized for thousands of years, in the ancient + belief that the age of election for procreation is about twenty, + or less, for women, but about twenty-five for men; and it has + more lately been affirmed by the discovery that, while the male + is never capable of generation before thirteen, the female may, + in occasional instances, become pregnant at eight. (Some of the + recorded examples are quoted by Kisch.) In part, also, there is + an objection to the assumption of responsibilities so serious as + those of motherhood by a young girl, and there is the very + reasonable feeling that the obligations of a permanent marriage + tie ought not to be undertaken at an early age. On the other + hand, apart from the physical advantages, as regards both mother + and infant, on the side of early pregnancies, it is an advantage + for the child to have a young mother, who can devote herself + sympathetically and unreservedly to its interests, instead of + presenting the pathetic spectacle we so often witness in the + middle-aged woman who turns to motherhood when her youth and + mental flexibility are gone, and her habits and tastes have + settled into other grooves; it has sometimes been a great + blessing even to the very greatest men, like Goethe, to have had + a youthful mother. It would also, in many cases, be a great + advantage for the woman herself if she could bring her + procreative life to an end well before the age of twenty-five, so + that she could then, unhampered by child-bearing and mature in + experience, be free to enter on such wider activities in the + world as she might be fitted for. + + Such an arrangement of the procreative life of women would, + obviously, only be a variation, and would probably be unsuited + for the majority. Every case must be judged on its own merits. + The best age for procreation will probably continue to be + regarded as being, for most women, around the age of twenty. But + at a time like the present, when there is an unfortunate + tendency for motherhood to be unduly delayed, it becomes + necessary to insist on the advantages, in many cases, of early + motherhood. + +There are other conditions favorable or unfavorable to procreation which +it is now unnecessary to discuss in detail, since they have already been +incidentally dealt with in previous volumes of these _Studies_. There is, +for instance, the question of the time of year and the time of the +menstrual cycle which may most properly be selected for procreation.[466] +The best period is probably that when sexual desire is strongest, which is +the period when conception would appear, as a matter of fact, most often +to occur. This would be in spring or early summer,[467] and immediately +after (or shortly before) the menstrual period. The Chinese have observed +that the last day of menstruation and the two following +days--corresponding to the period of oestrus--constitute the most +favorable time for fecundation, and Bossi, of Genoa, has found that the +great majority of successes in both natural and artificial fecundation +occur at this period.[468] Soranus, as well as the Talmud, assigned the +period about menstruation as the best for impregnation, and Susruta, the +Indian physician, said that at this time pregnancy most readily occurs +because then the mouth of the womb is open, like the flower of the +water-lily to the sunshine. + +We have now at last reached the point from which we started, the moment of +conception, and the child again lies in its mother's womb. There remains +no more to be said. The divine cycle of life is completed. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[421] Spencer and Gillen, _Northern Tribes of Central Australia_, p. 330. + +[422] Academy of Medicine of Paris, March 31, 1908. + +[423] _The Origin and Development of the Moral Ideas_, vol. ii, p. 405. + +[424] _Population and Progress_, p. 41. + +[425] Cf. Reibmayr, _Entwicklungsgeschichte des Talentes und Genics_, Bd. +II, p. 31. + +[426] "The debt that we owe to those who have gone before us," says +Haycraft (_Darwinism and Race Progress_, p. 160), "we can only repay to +those who come after us." + +[427] Mardrus, _Les Mille Nuits_, vol. xvi, p. 158. + +[428] Sidney Webb, _Popular Science Monthly_, 1906, p. 526 (previously +published in the _London Times_, Oct. 11, 16, 1906). In Ch. IX of the +present volume it has already been necessary to discuss the meaning of the +term, "morality." + +[429] Thus, in Paris, in 1906, in the rich quarters, the birthrate per +1,000 inhabitants was 19.09; in well-to-do quarters, 22.51; and in poor +quarters, 29.70. Here we see that, while the birthrate falls and rises +with social class, even among the poor and least restrained class the +birthrate is still but little above the general average for England, where +prevention is widespread, and very considerably lower than the average +(now rapidly falling) in Germany. It is evident that even among the poor +class there is a process of leveling up to the higher classes in this +matter. + +[430] I have developed these points more in detail in two articles in the +_Independent Review_, November, 1903, and April, 1904. See also, Bushee, +"The Declining Birthrate and Its Causes," _Popular Science Monthly_, Aug., +1903. + +[431] Francis Place, _Illustrations and Proofs of the Principle of +Population_, 1822, p. 165. + +[432] See, e.g., a weighty chapter in the _Sexualleben und Nervenleiden_ +of Loewenfeld, one of the most judicious authorities on sexual pathology. +Twenty-five years ago, as many will remember, the medical student was +usually taught that preventive methods of intercourse led to all sorts of +serious results. At that time, however, reckless and undesirable methods +of prevention seem to have been more prevalent than now. + +[433] Michael Ryan, _Philosophy of Marriage_, p. 9. To enable "the +conservative power of the Creator" to exert itself on the myriads of +germinal human beings secreted during his life-time by even one man, would +require a world full of women, while the corresponding problem as regards +a woman is altogether too difficult to cope with. The process by which +life has been built up, far from being a process of universal +conservation, has been a process of stringent selection and vast +destruction; the progress effected by civilization merely lies in making +this blind process intelligent. + +[434] Thus, in Belgium, in 1908 (_Sexual-Probleme_, Feb., 1909, p. 136), a +physician (Dr. Mascaux) who had been prominent in promoting a knowledge of +preventive methods of conception, was condemned to three months +imprisonment for "offense against morality!" In such a case, Dr. Helene +Stoecker comments (_Die Neue Generation_, Jan., 1909, p. 7), "morality" is +another name for ignorance, timidity, hypocrisy, prudery, coarseness, and +lack of conscience. It must be remembered, however, in explanation of this +iniquitous judgment, that for some years past the clerical party has been +politically predominant in Belgium. + +[435] It has been objected that the condom cannot be used by the very +poorest, on account of its cost, but Hans Ferdy, in a detailed paper +(_Sexual-Probleme_, Dec., 1908), shows that the use of the condom can be +brought within the means of the very poorest, if care is taken to preserve +it under water when not in use. Nystroem (_Sexual Probleme_, Nov., 1908, p. +736) has issued a leaflet for the benefit of his patients and others, +recommending the condom, and explaining its use. + +[436] Thus, Kisch, in his _Sexual Life of Woman_, after discussing fully +the various methods of prevention, decides in favor of the condom. +Fuerbringer similarly (Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation +to Marriage_, vol. i, pp. 232 et seq.) concludes that the condom is +"relatively the most perfect anti-conceptual remedy." Forel (_Die Sexuelle +Frage_, pp. 457 et seq.) also discusses the question at length; any +aesthetic objection to the condom, Forel adds (p. 544), is due to the fact +that we are not accustomed to it; "eye-glasses are not specially aesthetic, +but the poetry of life does not suffer excessively from their use, which, +in many cases, cannot be dispensed with." + +[437] _L'Avortement_, p. 43. + +[438] There are some disputed points in Roman law and practice concerning +abortion; they are discussed in Balestrini's valuable book, _Aborto_, pp. +30 et seq. + +[439] Augustine, _De Civitate Dei_, Bk. XXII, Ch. XIII. + +[440] The development of opinion and law concerning abortion has been +traced by Eugene Bausset, _L'Avortement Criminel_, These de Paris, 1907. +For a summary of the practices of different peoples regarding abortion, +see W.G. Sumner, _Folkways_, Ch. VIII. + +[441] _Die Neue Generation_, May, 1908, p. 192. It may be added that in +England the attachment of any penalty at all to abortion, practiced in the +early months of pregnancy (before "quickening" has taken place), is merely +a modern innovation. + +[442] Even Balestrini, who is opposed to the punishment of abortion, is no +advocate of it. "Whenever abortion becomes a social custom," he remarks +(op. cit., p. 191), "it is the external manifestation of a people's +decadence, and far too deeply rooted to be cured by the mere attempt to +suppress the external manifestation." + +[443] Cf. Ellen Key, _Century of the Child_, Ch. I. Hirth (_Wege zur +Heimat_, p. 526) is likewise opposed to the encouragement of abortion, +though he would not actually punish the pregnant woman who induces +abortion. I would especially call attention to an able and cogent article +by Anna Pappritz ("Die Vernichtung des Keimenden Lebens," +_Sexual-Probleme_, July, 1909) who argues that the woman is not the sole +guardian of the embryo she bears, and that it is not in the interests of +society, nor even in her own interests, that she should be free to destroy +it at will. Anna Pappritz admits that the present barbarous laws in regard +to abortion must be modified, but maintains that they should not be +abolished. She proposes (1) a greatly reduced punishment for abortion; (2) +this punishment to be extended to the father, whether married or unmarried +(a provision already carried out in Norway, both for abortion and +infanticide); (3) permission to the physician to effect abortion when +there is good reason to suspect hereditary degeneration, as well as when +the woman has been impregnated by force. + +[444] Cf. Dr. Max Hirsch, _Sexual-Probleme_, Jan., 1908, p. 23. + +[445] Bausset (op. cit.) sets forth various social measures for the care +of pregnant and child-bearing women, which would tend to lessen criminal +abortion. + +[446] Gomperz, _Greek Thinkers_, vol. i, p. 564. + +[447] F.E. Daniel, President of the State Medical Association of Texas, +"Should Insane Criminals or Sexual Perverts be Allowed to Procreate?" +_Medico-legal Journal_, Dec., 1893; id., "The Cause and Prevention of +Rape," _Texas Medical Journal_, May, 1904. + +[448] P. Naecke, "Die Kastration bei gewissen Klassen von Degenerirten als +ein Wirksamer Socialer Schutz," _Archiv fuer Kriminal-Anthropologie_, Bd. +III, 1899, p. 58; id. "Kastration in Gewissen Faellen von +Geisteskrankheit," _Psychiatrisch-Neurologische Wochenschrift_, 1905, No. +29. + +[449] Angelo Zuccarelli, "Asessualizzazione o sterilizzazione dei +Degenerati," _L'Anomalo_, 1898-99, No. 6; id., "Sur la necessite et sur +les Moyens d'empecher la Reproduction des Hommes les plus Degeneres," +International Congress Criminal Anthropology, Amsterdam, 1901. + +[450] Naecke, _Neurologisches Centralblatt_, March 1, 1909. The +original account of these operations is reproduced in the +_Psychiatrisch-Neurologische Wochenschrift_, No. 2, 1909, with an +approving comment by the editor, Dr. Bresler. As regards castration in +America, see Flood, "Castration of Idiot Children," _American Journal +Psychology_, Jan., 1899; also, _Alienist and Neurologist_, Aug., 1909, p. +348. + +[451] It is probable that castration may prove especially advantageous in +the case of the feeble-minded. "In Somersetshire," says Tredgold ("The +Feeble-Mind as a Social Danger," _Eugenics Review_, July, 1909), "I found +that out of a total number of 167 feeble-minded women, nearly two-fifths +(61) had given birth to children, for the most part illegitimate. +Moreover, it is not uncommon, but, rather the rule, for these poor girls +to be admitted into the workhouse maternity wards again and again, and the +average number of offspring to each one of them is probably three or four, +although even six is not uncommon." In his work on _Mental Deficiency_ +(pp. 288-292) the same author shows that propagation by the mentally +deficient is, in England, "both a terrible and extensive evil." + +[452] This example is brought forward by Ledermann, "Skin Diseases and +Marriage," in Senator and Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation to +Marriage_. + +[453] I may here again refer to Lea's instructive _History of Sacerdotal +Celibacy_. + +[454] In England, 35,000 applicants for admission to the navy are annually +rejected, and although the physical requirements for enlistment in the +army are nowadays extremely moderate, it is estimated by General Maurice +that at least sixty per cent. of recruits and would-be recruits are +dismissed as unfit. (See e.g., William Coates, "The Duty of the Medical +Profession in the Prevention of National Deterioration," _British Medical +Journal_, May 1, 1909.) It can scarcely be claimed that men who are not +good enough for the army are good enough for the great task of creating +the future race. + +[455] The recognition of epilepsy as a bar to procreation is not recent. +There is said to be a record in the archives of the town of Lucon in which +epilepsy was adjudged to be a valid reason for the cancellation of a +betrothal (_British Medical Journal_, Feb. 14, 1903, p. 383). + +[456] _British Medical Journal_, April 14, 1906. In California and some +other States, it appears that deceit regarding health is a ground for the +annulment of marriage. + +[457] Sir F. Galton, _Inquiries Into Human Faculty_, Everyman's Library +edition, pp. 211 et seq.; cf. Galton's collected _Essays in Eugenics_, +recently published by the Eugenics Education Society. + +[458] For some account of the methods and results of the work in schools, +see Bertram C.A. Windle, "Anthropometric Work in Schools," _Medical +Magazine_, Feb., 1894. + +[459] The most notable steps in this direction have been taken in Germany. +For an account of the experiment at Karlsruhe, see _Die Neue Generation_, +Dec., 1908. + +[460] Wiethknudsen (as quoted in _Sexual-Probleme_, Dec., 1908, p. 837) +speaks strongly, but not too strongly, concerning the folly of any +indiscriminate endowment of procreation. + +[461] On the scientific side, in addition to the fruitful methods of +statistical biometrics, which have already been mentioned, much promise +attaches to work along the lines initiated by Mendel; see W. Bateson, +_Mendel's Principles of Heredity_, 1909; also, W.H. Lock, _Recent Progress +in the Study of Variation, Heredity, and Evolution_, and R.C. Punnett, +_Mendelism_, 1907 (American edition, with interesting preface by Gaylord +Wilshire, from the Socialistic point of view, 1909). + +[462] The study of the right conditions for procreation is very ancient. +In modern times we find that even the very first French medical book in +the vulgar tongue, the _Regime du Corps_, written by Alebrand of Florence +(who was physician to the King of France), in 1256, is largely devoted to +this matter, concerning which it gives much sound advice. See J.B. +Soalhat, _Les Idees de Maistre Alebrand de Florence sur la Puericulture_, +These de Paris, 1908. + +[463] Hesiod, _Works and Days_, II, 690-700. + +[464] This has long been the accepted opinion of medical authorities, as +may be judged by the statements brought together two centuries ago by +Schurig, _Parthenologia_, pp. 22-25. + +[465] The statement that, on the average, the best age for procreation in +men is before, rather than after, forty, by no means assumes the existence +of any "critical" age in men analogous to the menopause in women. This is +sometimes asserted, but there is no agreement in regard to it. Restif de +la Bretonne (_Monsieur Nicolas_, vol. x, p. 176) said that at the age of +forty delicacy of sentiment begins to go. Fuerbringer believes (Senator and +Kaminer, _Health and Disease in Relation to Marriage_, vol. i, p. 222) +that there is a decisive turn in a man's life in the sixth decade, or the +middle of the fifth, when desire and potency diminish. J.F. Sutherland +also states (_Comptes-rendus Congres International de Medecine_, 1900, +Section de Psychiatrie, p. 471) that there is, in men, about the +fifty-fifth year, a change analogous to the menopause in women, but only +in a certain proportion of men. It would appear that in most men the +decline of sexual feeling and potency is very gradual, and at first +manifests itself in increased power of control. + +[466] See, in vol. i, the study of "The Phenomena of Sexual Periodicity." + +[467] Among animals, also, spring litters are often said to be the best. + +[468] Bossi's results are summarized in _Archives d'Anthropologie +Criminelle_, Sept., 1891. Alebrand of Florence, the French King's +physician in the thirteenth century, also advised intercourse a day after +the end of menstruation. + + + + +POSTSCRIPT. + + +"The work that I was born to do is done," a great poet wrote when at last +he had completed his task. And although I am not entitled to sing any +_Nunc dimittis_, I am well aware that the task that has occupied the best +part of my life can have left few years and little strength for any work +that comes after. It is more than thirty years ago since the first resolve +to write the work now here concluded began to shape itself, still dimly +though insistently; the period of study and preparation occupied over +fifteen years, ending with the publication of _Man and Woman_, put forward +as a prolegomenon to the main work which, in the writing and publication, +has occupied the fifteen subsequent years. + +It was perhaps fortunate for my peace that I failed at the outset to +foresee all the perils that beset my path. I knew indeed that those who +investigate severely and intimately any subject which men are accustomed +to pass by on the other side lay themselves open to misunderstanding and +even obloquy. But I supposed that a secluded student who approached vital +social problems with precaution, making no direct appeal to the general +public, but only to the public's teachers, and who wrapped up the results +of his inquiries in technically written volumes open to few, I supposed +that such a student was at all events secure from any gross form of attack +on the part of the police or the government under whose protection he +imagined that he lived. That proved to be a mistake. When only one volume +of these _Studies_ had been written and published in England, a +prosecution, instigated by the government, put an end to the sale of that +volume in England, and led me to resolve that the subsequent volumes +should not be published in my own country. I do not complain. I am +grateful for the early and generous sympathy with which my work was +received in Germany and the United States, and I recognize that it has had +a wider circulation, both in English and the other chief languages of the +world, than would have been possible by the modest method of issue which +the government of my own country induced me to abandon. Nor has the effort +to crush my work resulted in any change in that work by so much as a +single word. With help, or without it, I have followed my own path to the +end. + +For it so happens that I come on both sides of my house from stocks of +Englishmen who, nearly three hundred years ago, had encountered just these +same difficulties and dangers before. In the seventeenth century, indeed, +the battle was around the problem of religion, as to-day it is around the +problem of sex. Since I have of late years realized this analogy I have +often thought of certain admirable and obscure men who were driven out, +robbed, and persecuted, some by the Church because the spirit of +Puritanism moved within them, some by the Puritans because they clung to +the ideals of the Church, yet both alike quiet and unflinching, both alike +fighting for causes of freedom or of order in a field which has now for +ever been won. That victory has often seemed of good augury to the perhaps +degenerate child of these men who has to-day sought to maintain the causes +of freedom and of order in another field. + +It sometimes seems, indeed, a hopeless task to move the pressure of inert +prejudices which are at no point so obstinate as this of sex. It may help +to restore the serenity of our optimism if we would more clearly realize +that in a very few generations all these prejudices will have perished and +be forgotten. He who follows in the steps of Nature after a law that was +not made by man, and is above and beyond man, has time as well as eternity +on his side, and can afford to be both patient and fearless. Men die, but +the ideas they seek to kill live. Our books may be thrown to the flames, +but in the next generation those flames become human souls. The +transformation is effected by the doctor in his consulting room, by the +teacher in the school, the preacher in the pulpit, the journalist in the +press. It is a transformation that is going on, slowly but surely, around +us. + +I am well aware that many will not feel able to accept the estimate of the +sexual situation as here set forth, more especially in the final volume. +Some will consider that estimate too conservative, others too +revolutionary. For there are always some who passionately seek to hold +fast to the past; there are always others who passionately seek to snatch +at what they imagine to be the future. But the wise man, standing midway +between both parties and sympathizing with each, knows that we are ever in +the stage of transition. The present is in every age merely the shifting +point at which past and future meet, and we can have no quarrel with +either. There can be no world without traditions; neither can there be any +life without movement. As Heracleitus knew at the outset of modern +philosophy, we cannot bathe twice in the same stream, though, as we know +to-day, the stream still flows in an unending circle. There is never a +moment when the new dawn is not breaking over the earth, and never a +moment when the sunset ceases to die. It is well to greet serenely even +the first glimmer of the dawn when we see it, not hastening towards it +with undue speed, nor leaving the sunset without gratitude for the dying +light that once was dawn. + +In the moral world we are ourselves the light-bearers, and the cosmic +process is in us made flesh. For a brief space it is granted to us, if we +will, to enlighten the darkness that surrounds our path. As in the ancient +torch-race, which seemed to Lucretius to be the symbol of all life, we +press forward torch in hand along the course. Soon from behind comes the +runner who will outpace us. All our skill lies in giving into his hand the +living torch, bright and unflickering, as we ourselves disappear in the +darkness. + +HAVELOCK ELLIS. + + + + +INDEX OF AUTHORS. + +Abdias +Achery +Acton +Adam, Mme. +Adler, Felix +Adler, O. +Adner +Aguilaniedo +Alebrand +Alexander, Dr. H. +Alexandre, Alcide +Allee, A. +Allen, L.M. +Allen, Mary W. +Ambrose, St. +Amelineau +Ammon +Amram, D.W. +Angela de Fulginio +Angus, H.C. +Anstie +Aquinas +Ardu +Arendt, Henrietta +Aretino +Aristotle +Aronstam +Ascarilla +Aschaffenburg +Astengo +Astor, Mary +Astruc +Athanasius +Athenaeus +Audry +Augagneur +Augustine, St. +Aurientis +Ayala + +Bacchimont +Bachaumont +Badley, J.H. +Baelz +Baer, K.M. +Baker, Smith +Balestrini +Ballantyne, Dr. +Ballantyne, Miss H. +Balls-Headley +Balzac +Bangs, L.B. +Bartels, Max +Basedow +Basil, St. +Bateson +Baumgarten +Bausset +Bax, Belfort +Bazan, Emilia Pardo +Beadnell, C.M. +Beddoes +Bedolliere +Bell, Sanford +Benecke +Benedikt +Bentzon, Mme. +Berault, G. +Berg, Leo +Bernard, St. +Berry, F. +Bertherand +Bertillon +Besant, Mrs. +Beza +Bierhoff +Birnbaum +Bishop, G.P. +Bishop, Mrs. +Blacker +Blake, William +Blandford +Blaschko +Bloch, Iwan +Bluhm, Agnes +Blumreich +Boccaccio +Bohier +Bois, Jules +Boissier, de Sauvages +Bollinger +Boelsche +Bonger +Bongi, S. +Bonhoeffer +Boniface, St. +Bonnifield +Bonstetten +Booth, C. +Booth, D.S. +Bossi +Bouchacourt +Bougainville +Bourget +Bouvier +Boyle, F. +Brachet +Braun, Lily +Brenier de Montmorand +Brenot, H. +Breuer +Brieux +Brinton +Brouardel +Brougham Lord +Brown, Dr. Charlotte +Bruns, Ivo +Brynmor-Jones +Bucer +Budge, A.W. +Buffon +Bulkley, D. +Bueller +Bumm +Bunge +Burchard +Burdach +Buret +Burnet +Burton, Sir R. +Burton, Robert +Busch +Bushee +Butler, G. +Butterfield +Byers + +Cabanis +Caird, Mona +Callari +Calvin +Calza +Canudo +Capitaine +Caron +Carpenter, Edward +Casanova +Caspari +Cataneus +Cattell, J. McKeen +Caufeynon +Cazalis +Chaignon +Chambers, E.K. +Chambers, W.G. +Chapman, G. +Chapman, J. +Cheetham +Cheng, Mme. +Cheyne +Child, May +Chotzen, M. +Chrysostom +Cicero +Ciuffo +Clapperton, Miss +Clappier +Clarke +Clement of Alexandria +Clement E. +Cleveland, C. +Clouston +Coates, W. +Codrington, R.W. +Coghlan +Colombey +Coltman +Commenge +Cook, G.W. +Cook, Capt. J. +Cooper, A. +Cope, E.D. +Correa, Roman +Coryat +Crackanthorpe +Cranmer +Crawley, A.E. +Crocker +Curr +Gushing, W. +Cyples + +Daniel, F.E. +Dareste +Dargun +Darmesteter, J. +Darricarrere +Darwin +Daudet, A. +D'Aulnoy, Mme. +Daya, W. +Debreyne +D'Enjoy, Paul +Dens +Deodhar, Mrs. Kashibai +Descartes +Despine +Despres +Dessoir, Max +Diaz de Isla +Diday +Diderot +Digby, Sir K. +Dill +Dluska, Mme. +Dodd, Catherine +Doleris +Donaldson, Principal +Donnay +Drysdale, C.R. +Drysdale, G. +Duclaux +Duehren, _see_ Bloch, Iwan. +Dufour, P. +Dukes +Dulaure +Dulberg +Dumas, G. +Duncan, Matthews +Dunnett +Dunning +Dupouey +Durkheim +Durlacher +Dyer, I. + +Edgar, J. Clifton +Egbert, S. +Ehrenfels, C. von +Elliot, G.F.S. +Ellis, Sir A.B. +Ellis, Havelock +Ellis, William +Elmy, Ben., _see_ Ethelmer, Ellis. +Enderlin, Max +Engelmann +Ennius +Enzensberger +Erb +Erhard, F. +Escherich +Esmein +Espy de Metz +Ethelmer, Ellis +Eulenburg +Evans, Mrs. Grainger + +Farnell +Farrer, R.T. +Federow +Ferdy, H. +Fere +Ferrand +Ferrero, G. +Ferriani +Fiaschi +Fiaux +Fielding +Finger +Fischer, W. +Fitchett +Flesch, Max +Flogel +Flood +Forberg +Forel +Fornasari +Fothergill, J.M. +Fouquet +Fournier +Fox, G. +Fracastorus +Fraser, Mrs. +Frazer, J.G. +Freeman +French, H.C. +Freud +Friedjung +Friedlaender +Fuchs, N. +Funk, W. +Fuerbringer +Fuerth, Henriette + +Gache +Gaedeken +Gallard +Galton, Sir F. +Gardiner, J.S. +Garrison, C.G. +Gaultier, J. de +Gautier, L. +Geary, N. +Gennep, A. Van +Gerard +Gerhard, Adele +Gerhard, W. +Gerson, A. +Gesell +Gibb, W.T. +Gibbon +Giles, A.E. +Giles, H.A. +Gillard, E. +Gillen +Gilles de la Tourette +Ginnell +Giuffrida-Ruggeri +Glueck, L. +Godard +Godfrey, J.A. +Godwin, W. +Goethe +Gomperz +Goncourt +Goodchild, F.M. +Goring +Gottheil +Gottschling +Gourmont, Remy de +Graef, R. de +Graf, A. +Grandin +Green, C.M. +Gregory the Great +Gregory of Nazianzen +Gregory of Nyssa +Gregory of Tours +Gregory M. +Griesinger +Gross +Gross, H. +Grosse +Gulick, L.H. +Gurlitt, L. +Gury +Guttceit +Guyau +Guyot +Gyurkovechky + +Haddon, A.C. +Hagelstange +Hale +Hall, A. +Hall, Stanley +Hall, W. +Haller +Hamilton, A. +Hammer +Hammond, W.A. +Hamon, A. +Hard, Hedwig +Hardy, Thomas +Harris, A. +Harrison, F. +Hartland, E.S. +Harwood, W.L. +Haskovec +Haslam, J. +Hausmeister, P. +Havelburg +Hawkesworth +Haycraft +Hayes, P.J. +Haynes, E.S.P. +Hegar +Heidenhain, A. +Heidingsfeld +Heimann +Hellmann +Hellpach +Helme, T.A. +Helvetius +Herbert, Auberon +Herman, G. +Hermant, A. +Herodotus +Heron +Hesiod +Hiller +Hinton +Hirsch, Max +Hirschfeld, Magnus +Hirth, G. +Hobhouse, L.T. +Hobson, J.A. +Hoffmann, E. +Holbach +Holder, A.B. +Holmes, T. +Holt, R.B. +Hopkins, Ellice +Hort +Houzel +Howard, G.B. +Howitt, A.W. +Hudrey-Menos, J. +Hughes, C.H. +Humboldt, W. Von +Hutchinson, Sir J. +Hutchinson, Woods +Hyde, J.N. +Hyrtl + +Inderwick +Ivens, F. + +Jacobi, Mary P. +Jacobsohn, L. +Janet +Janke +Jastrow, M. +Jeannel +Jellinek, C. +Jentsch, K. +Jerome, H. +John of Salisbury +Jones, Sir W. +Jullien + +Kaan +Kalbeck +Karin, Karina +Keller, G. +Kelly, H.A. +Kennedy, Helen +Key, Ellen +Keyes, E.L. +Kiernan +Kind, A. +Kingsley, C. +Kirk, E.B. +Kisch +Klotz +Knott, J. +Kossmann +Kowalewsky, Sophie +Krafft-Ebing +Krauss, F.S. +Krukenberg, Frau +Kubary +Kullberg +Kurella + +Lacroix, P. +Lafargue, Paul +La Jeunesse, E. +Lallemand +Lambkin +Lancaster +Landor +Landret +Langsdorf +Lapie +Laplace +Lasco, John a +Lauvergne +Laycock +Lea +Lecky +Lederer +Ledermann +Lee, Sidney +Lefebvre, A. +Legg, J.W. +Lemonnier, C. +Lenkei +Lepage +Letourneux +Levy-Bruhl +Lewis, Denslow +Lewitt +Leyboff +Lilienthal +Lindsey, B.B. +Lippert +Lischnewska, Maria +Liszt +Livingstone, W.P. +Lock, W.H. +Logan +Lombroso +Loewenfeld +Lowndes +Lucas, Clement +Lucretius +Lumholtz +Luther +Lydston +Lyttelton, E. + +Maberly, G.C. +MacMurchy, Dr. Helen +Macvie +Madam, M. +Maeterlinck +Magruder, J. +Maillard-Brune +Maine +Maitland +Malthus +Mandeville, B. +Mannhardt +Mantegazza, A. +Mantegazza, P. +Marcais +Marchesini +Marcuse, J. +Marcuse, M. +Margueritte, P. +Margueritte, V. +Marholm, L. +Marro +Martindale, Miss +Martineau +Marx, V. +Massalongo +Masson +Mathews, A. +Mathews, R.H. +Matignon +Maudsley +Maurice, General +Mayor +Mayreder, Rosa +McBride, G.H. +McCleary, G.F. +McIlquham +Melancthon +Menger, A. von +Menjago +Mensinga +Meredith, G. +Merimee +Merrick +Metchnikoff +Meyer-Benfey, H. +Meyer, Bruno +Meyer, E.H. +Meyrick +Michelet +Michels, R. +Migne +Mill, J. +Mill, J.S. +Millais, J.G. +Miller, Noyes +Miln, L.J. +Milner +Milton +Moebius +Molinari, G. de +Moll +Moenkemoeller +Montaigne +Montesquieu +Montmorency +Mookerji +Moore, Samson +Morasso +More, Sir T. +Moreau, Christophe +Morley, Lord +Morley, Margaret +Morris, William +Morrow +Mortimer, G. +Moryson, Fynes +Mott, F.W. +Multatuli +Muensterberg +Murray, Gilbert +Mylott + +Naecke +Naumann, F. +Nefzaoui +Neisser +Neugebauer +Newman, G. +Newsholme, A. +Niessen, Max von +Nietzold +Nietzsche +Niven +Noble, M. +Noggerath +Northcote, Rev. H. +Notthaft +Noyes, J.H. +Nystroem + +Obersteiner +Obici +Odo of Cluny +Oefele +Okamura +Olberg, Oda +Omer, Haleby +Ostwald, H. +Ott +Ovid +Owen, R.D. + +Paget, Sir J. +Palladius +Pappritz, Anna +Parent-Duchatelet +Pare +Parsons, E.C. +Parsons, J. +Patmore, C. +Paton, Noel +Paul, Dr. H. +Paulucci de Calboli +Paulus +Pearson, K. +Pechin +Pepys +Pernet +Perruc +Perry-Coste +Petermann, J. +Petrie, Flinders +Picard +Pike +Pinard +Pinkus +Pinloche +Place, Francis +Plato +Plarr, V. +Plautus +Playfair, Sir W.S. +Ploss +Plutarch +Pole, M.T. +Pollack, Flora +Pollock, Sir F. +Potter, M.A. +Potton +Power, D'Arcy +Powys +Prat +Price, J. +Prevost, M. +Prinzing +Probst-Biraben +Proksch +Pudor +Punnett +Pyke, Rafford + +Querlon, Meusnier de +Quiros, C. Bernaldo de + +Rabelais +Rabutaux +Raciborski +Radbruch +Ramdohr +Ramsay, Sir W.M. +Rasmussen +Ratramnus +Redlich +Reed, C. +Regnier, H. de +Reibmayr +Reinhard +Remo, P. +Remondino +Renan +Renooz, Celine +Renouf, C. +Renouvier +Restif de la Bretonne +Reuss +Reuther, F. +Revillout +Rhys, Sir J. +Ribbing +Ribot +Rich, H. +Richard, C. +Richard, E. +Richmond, Mrs. Ennis +Ritter, Dr. Mary +Robert, U. +Robertson, W. +Robinovitch, L. +Rogers, Anna +Rohde +Rohleder +Rolfincius +Rosenberg +Rosenthal +Rousseau +Routh +Rudeck +Rufinus Tyrannius +Ruggles, W. +Rueling, Anna +Ruskin +Russell, Mrs. Bertrand +Rust, H. +Rutgers +Ryan, M. +Ryckere, E. de + +Sabine, J.K. +Sacher-Masoch, Wanda von +Sainte-Beuve +Saleeby +Salimbene +Salvat +Sanborn, Lura +Sanchez, T. +Sandoz, F. +Sanger +Sarraute-Lourie, Mme. +Schaefenacker +Schaudinn +Schlegel, F. +Schmid, Marie von +Schmidt, R. +Schneider, C.K. +Schopenhauer +Schrader, O. +Schrank +Schreiber, Adele +Schreiner, Olive +Schrempf +Schrenck-Notzing +Schroeder, E.A. +Schroeder, T. +Schultz, Alwyn +Schultze-Malkowsky, E. +Schurig +Schurtz, H. +Schwalbe +Scott, Colin +Scott, J.F. +Segur +Seligmann +Sellman, W.A.B. +Senancour +Seneca +Seropian +Sevigne, Mme. de +Seymour, H.J. +Shakespeare +Shaw, G.B. +Shebbeare, Rev. C.J. +Shelley +Sherwell +Shufeldt +Sidgwick, H. +Sidis, Boris +Sieroshevski +Simmel +Simon, Helene +Sinclair, Sir W. +Smith, Robertson +Soalhat +Somerset, Lady Henry +Sommer, R. +Soranus +Spencer, Baldwin +Spencer, Herbert +Spitta +Stanmore, Lord +Stefanowski +Stefansson +Stevenson, R.L. +Stevenson, T.H.C. +Stoecker, Helene +Strampff +Stratz, C.H. +Streitberg, Graefin +Stroehmberg +Sturge, Miss +Suidas +Sullivan, W.C. +Sumner, W.G. +Susruta +Sutherland, J.F. +Sutherland, W.D. +Sykes, J.F.J. + +Tait, W. +Talbot, E.S. +Tammeo +Tarde +Tarnowsky, Pauline +Taylor, R.W. +Tenney +Tennyson +Terman, L.M. +Tertullian +Theresa, W. +Thomas, A.W. +Thomas, N.W. +Thomas, Prof. W. +Thomson, J.A. +Thoreau +Thuasne +Tilt +Tobler +Todhunter +Tolstoy +Tout, C. Hill +Traill +Tredgold +Trewby +Troll-Borostyani I. von +Trollope, A. +Turnbull + +Ulpian +Ungewitter +Unna +Urquhart + +Vacher de Lapouge +Valentino +Valera +Vanderkiste +Varendonck +Vatsyayana +Vaux, Rev. J.E. +Velden, Van den +Velten +Venette +Veniero +Vickery, A. Drysdale +Vinay +Vinci, L. de +Vines, Miss +Virchow +Vitrey +Voltaire +Vries, de + +Waechter +Wagner, C. +Wahrmund +Wales, E.B. +Walter, J. von +Ward, Lester +Wardlaw, R. +Warker, Van de +Warren, M.A. +Wasserschleben +Watkins +Webb, Sidney +Weinberg +Weininger +Welander +Welch, F.H. +Wells, H.G. +Werthauer +Wessmann +Westermarck +Wharton +Wheeler, C.B. +Wheeler, Mrs. +Whitaker, Nellie C. +Whitman, Walt +Wiedow +Wilcox, Ella W. +Wilhelm +William of Malmsbury +Williams, Dawson +Williams, Hugh +Williams, W. Roger +Windle, C.A. +Wollstonecraft, M. + +Yule, G. Adney + +Zacchia +Zache +Zanzinger, E. +Zeno +Zoroaster +Zuccarelli + + + + +INDEX OF SUBJECTS. + +Abortion, + arguments against + modern advocates of + the practice of +Abstinence, + alleged evil results of + alleged good results of + as a preparation for marriage + criticism of conception of + intermediate views of + moral results of + sexual, in relation to chastity + the problems of +Abyssinia, + prostitution in + sexual initiation in +Achilleus and Nereus, + legend of +Adultery +Africa, + chastity on West Coast of +Alcohol, + as a sexual stimulant + in pregnancy + in relation to the orgy +Alexander VI and courtesans +Ambil anak Marriage +America, + divorce in + marriage in + prostitution in +American Indians, + appreciate asceticism + sexual initiation among + their Sabbath orgies + words for love among +Aphrodite Pandemos +Art in relation to sexual impulse +Asceticism among early Christians + appreciated by savages + definition of + in religion + later degeneracy of + value of +Ascetics, + attitude towards sex of mediaeval +Aspasia +Athletics for women +Aucassin et Nicolette +Australia, + marriage system in + saturnalian festivals in + sexual initiation in +Auvergne, + story of the Two Lovers of +Azimba Land, + sexual initiation in + +Babies, + children's theories on the origin of +Babylonia, + high status of women in + religious prostitution in +Bawenda, + sexual initiation among +Beena marriage +Beethoven +Behn, Aphra +Belgium, + prostitution in +Bestial, + human sexual impulse not +Bible in relation to sexual education +Biometrics +Birth, + civilized tendency to premature +Birthrate, + decline of +Blindness in relation to gonorrhoea +Botany in sexual education +Bredalbane case +Breed _versus_ nurture +Bride-price +Brothel, + decay of + in ancient Rome + in the East + mediaeval + modern defence of + modern regulation of + origin of +Bundling +Burmah, + prostitution in + +Canon law, + defects of + its importance + origin of + persistence of its traditions + sound kernel of +Carlyle +Carnival, + origin of +Castration, + modern developments of + the practice of +Chastity among early Christians + definition of + girdle of + in modern Fiji + in what sense a virtue + modern attitude towards + Protestant attitude towards + romantic literature of + the function of +Child, + as foundation of marriage + characteristics of eldest born + its need of two parents +Childhood, + sexual activity in + sexual teaching in +China, + divorce in + prostitution in +Chivalry on position of women, + influence of +Christianity, + attitude towards chastity + attitude towards lust + attitude towards nakedness + failed to recognize importance of art of love + its influence on position of women + on marriage + mixed attitude towards sexual impulse + towards prostitution + towards seduction +Civilization and prostitution + and the sexual impulse +Coitus, + _a posteriori_ + best time for + during pregnancy + ethnic variations in + excess in + injuries due to unskilful + _interruptus_ + morbid horror of + needs to be taught + prayer before + proper frequency of + religious significance of + _reservatus_ +Collusion, + doctrine of +Conception, + conditions of + prevention of +Concubine +Condom +Conjugal rights or rites +Consent, + age of +Consultation de Nourrisson +Contract, + marriage as a +Corinth, + prostitution at +Country life and sexuality +Courtesan, + origin of term +Courtship, + the art of +Criminality in relation to prostitution +Cyprus, + prostitution at + +Dancing, + hygienic value of + as an orgy +D'Aragona, Tullia +Divorce, + by mutual consent + causes for + in ancient Rome + in ancient Wales + in China + in England + in France + in Germany + in Japan + in Russia + in Switzerland + in United States + Milton's views on + modern tendency of + Protestant attitude towards + question of damages for + reform of + tendency of legislation regarding + transmission of venereal disease as a cause for +Drama, + modern function of the +Dysmenorrhoea + +Economic factor, + of marriage + of prostitution +Education in matters of sex + for women +Egypt, + high status of women in +Eldest born child, + characteristics of +England, + marriage in + prostitution in +Erotic element in marriage +Eskimo, + divorce among + sexual initiation among +Eugenics + false ideas of + foundation by Galton + importance of environment in relation to + in relation to castration + Noyes a pioneer in + positive + wide acceptance of principle of +Excretory centers as affecting estimate of sexual impulse +Exogamy, + origin of + +Families and degeneracy, + large +Father in relation to family +Fecundation, + artificial +Festivals, + seasonal +Fidus +Fiji, + chastity in +Flirtation +Fools, Feast of +Fornication, + theological doctrine of +France, + divorce in + prostitution in +Franco, Veronica + +Gallantry, + the ancient conception of +Geisha, the +General paralysis and syphilis +Genius, + in relation to chastity + in relation to love +Germany, + divorce in + marriage in + prostitution in +Gestation, + length of +Girdle of chastity +Girls, + interest in sex matters + masculine ideals of +Girls, + sex education of + their need of sexual knowledge +Gnostic elements in early Christian literature +Goddesses in forefront of primitive pantheons +Gonorrhoea, + nature and results of + _And see_ Venereal Diseases. +Goutte de Lait +Greeks, + origin of their drama + prudery among + rarity of ideal sexual love among + their attitude towards nakedness + their conception of the orgy + their erotic writings +Group-marriage +Gynaecocracy, + alleged primitive + +Hetairae +Hindu attitude towards sex +Holland, + prostitution in +Homosexuality among prostitutes +Huddersfield scheme +Hysteria + +Ideals of girls, + masculine +Illegitimacy + in Germany +Imperia +Impotency in popular estimation +Impurity, + disastrous results of teaching feminine + early Christian views of +India, + story of The Betrothed of + sacred prostitution in +Individualism and Socialism +Infantile mortality + in relation to suckling by mother + in relation to syphilis +Infantile sexuality +Insanity and prostitution +Intellectual work in relation to sexual activity in men + in women +Ireland, + divorce in + high status of women in ancient +Italy, + prostitution in + +Jamaica, + results of free sexual unions in +Japan, + attitude towards love in + automatic legitimation of children in + divorce in + prostitution in +Jealousy +Jesus +Jews, + as parents + prostitution among ancient + status of women among +Judas Thomas's Acts + +Kadishtu +Kant +Korea, + prostitution in + +Lactation +Lectures on sexual hygiene +Lenclos, Ninon de +Love an essential part of marriage + art of + definition of + difficulties of art of + for more than one person + future development of + how far an illusion + in childhood + in relation to chastity + inevitable mystery of + its value for life + testimonies to immense importance of +Lust, + in relation to love + theological conception of +Lydian prostitution + +Mahommedanism and prostitution + and sanctity of sex + its regard for chastity +Male continence +Malthus +Mammary activity in infancy +Manuals of sexual hygiene +Maoris, + results of loss of old faith among +Marriage, + advantages of early + ambil anak + and prostitution + as a contract + as a fact + as a sacrament + as an ethical sacrament + beena + by capture + certificates for + criticism of + evolution of + for a term of years + from legal point of view + in early Christian times + in old English law + in relation to eugenics + in relation to morals + in Rome + independent of forms + inferior forms of + love as a factor of + modern tendencies in regard to + objections to early + objects of + procreation as a factor of + Protestant attitude towards + trial + variations in order of +Masturbation among prostitutes + anxiety of boys about + in relation to sexual abstinence +Matriarchy, + alleged primitive +Matrilineal descent +Mendelism +Mendes, + the rite at +Menstruation, + brought on by sexual excitement + coitus during + hygiene of + instruction regarding +Missionaries' attempt to impose European customs +Modesty consistent with nakedness +Monogamy +Montanist element in early Christian literature +Morality, + meaning of the term +Motherhood, + early age of + endowment of +Mothers, + duty to instruct daughters + duty to suckle infant + responsibility for their own procreative acts + schools for + the sexual teachers of children +Mylitta, + prostitution at temple of +Mystery in matters of sex, evil of + +Nakedness, + an alleged sexual stimulant + as a prime tonic of life + consistent with modesty + educational value of + hygienic value of + in literature and art + in mediaeval Europe + in relation to sexual education + its moral value + its spiritual value + modern attitude towards +Neo-Malthusianism +Neurasthenia, + sexual +Newton +New Zealand, + result of decay of _tapu_ in + sexual freedom in ancient +Night-courtship customs +Notification of Births Act + venereal diseases +Nurture _versus_ breed +Nutrition compared to reproduction + +Obscenity, + early Christian views of +Orgy, + among savages + in classic times + in mediaeval Christianity + its religious origin + modern need of +Oneida Community +Ouled-Nail prostitution +Ovarian irritation +Ovid + +Penitentials, the +Physician, + alleged duty to prescribe sexual intercourse + as a social reformer + his place in sexual hygiene +Platonic friendship +Poetry in relation to sexual impulse +Polygamy +Precocity, + sexual +Pregnancy, + among primitive peoples + coitus during + early + hygiene of +Premature birth +Procreation, + best age for + best season for + control of + its place in marriage + methods of control of + the science of +Promiscuity, + theory of primitive +Prostitutes, + as artists + as guardians of the home + at the Renaissance + attitudes towards bully + in Austria + in classic times + in France + in Italy + injustice of social attitude towards + number of servants who become + psychic and physical characteristics + tendency to homosexuality + their motives for adopting avocation + their sexual temperament + under Christianity +Prostitution, + among savages + as affected by Christianity + as an equivalent of criminality + causes of + civilizational value of + decay of State regulation of + definition of + economic factor of + essentially unsatisfactory nature of + in modern times + in relation to marriage + in the East + moral justification of + need for humanizing + on the stage + origin and development of + present social attitude towards + regulation of + religious + rise of secular + to acquire marriage portion +Protestantism, + attitude towards prostitution +Prudery in ancient times +Puberty, + initiation at, among savages + sexual education at + sexual hygiene at +Puericulture +Puritans, + attitude towards unchastity + towards marriage + +Quaker conception of marriage + +Rape, + cannot be committed by husband on wife + wedding night often a +Religious prostitution +Renaissance, + prostitutes at the +Reproduction compared to nutrition +Responsibility in matters of sex, + personal +Rest, + during pregnancy, importance of + during menstruation +Ring, + origin of wedding +Robert of Arbrissel +Romantic literature of chastity + love, late origin of +Rome, + attitude towards nakedness in ancient + conception of the orgy in + marriage in + prostitution in + status of women in +Russia, + divorce in + sexual freedom in + +Sabbath orgy +Sacrament, + marriage as a +Sacred prostitution +Sale-marriage +Savages, + prostitution among + rarity of love among + sexual education among +Scandinavian method of dealing with venereal diseases +School, + its place in sexual education +Schools for mothers +Seduction, + early Church's attitude towards +Servants frequently become prostitutes +Sexual abstinence +Sexual anaesthesia, + a cause of +Sexual education + among savages + and coitus + and nakedness +Sexual hygiene and art + and literature + and religion + at puberty + at school + in childhood + in relation to sexual abstinence +Sexual innocence, + value of +Sexual morality +Sexual neurasthenia +Sexual physiology in education +Sexual precocity +Shakespeare in relation to sexual education +Slavs, + sexual freedom among +Socialism and individualism +Spain, + prostitution in +Stage, + prostitution on the +State, + its interest in children + nurseries +Sterility in relation to gonorrhoea +Stirpiculture + causes of +Stork legend of origin of babies +Suckling in relation to puericulture +Swahili, + sexual education among +Switzerland, + divorce in + prostitution in +Syphilis, + its prevalence + nature and results of + of the innocent + questions of the origin of + _And see_ Venereal Diseases. + +Tahiti, + chastity and unchastity in old +Teachers and sexual hygiene +Teutonic custom, + influence on position of women + influence on marriage +Theatre, + as a beneficial form of the orgy + early Christian attitude towards +Thekla, + legend of +Town life and sexuality +Trappists, + regime of +Trent, Council of +Trial-marriage + +Urban life and sexuality +Uterine fibroids + +Vaginismus +Vasectomy +Venereal diseases, + conquest of the + free treatment of + need of enlightenment concerning + notification of + personal responsibility for + punishment for transmission of +Venice, + prostitution in +Virgin, + intercourse with as a cure for syphilis + original meaning of the term +Virginity, + why valued + +Wagner's music dramas +Wales, + divorce in ancient +White slavery +Wife-purchase among ancient Germans + in modern times +Woman movement +Women, + alleged tendency to dissimulation + among the Jews + and sexual abstinence + erotic characteristics of + ignorance of art of love + in Arabia + in Babylonia + in Egypt + in modern Europe + in relation to divorce + in relation to free sexual unions + in Rome + inequality before the law + moral equality with men + must not be compulsory mothers + not attracted to innocent men + position as affected by Teutonic custom + procreative age of + their high status in ancient Ireland + their need of economic independence + their need of personal responsibility + their need of sexual knowledge + understand love better than men + +Yakuts, + attitude towards virginity +Yuman Indians, + sexual initiation among + +Zooelogy and sexual education + + + +***END OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK STUDIES IN THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, +VOLUME 6 (OF 6)*** + + +******* This file should be named 13615.txt or 13615.zip ******* + + +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: +https://www.gutenberg.org/dirs/1/3/6/1/13615 + + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without 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