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diff --git a/.gitattributes b/.gitattributes new file mode 100644 index 0000000..6833f05 --- /dev/null +++ b/.gitattributes @@ -0,0 +1,3 @@ +* text=auto +*.txt text +*.md text diff --git a/20932-0.txt b/20932-0.txt new file mode 100644 index 0000000..030d7f9 --- /dev/null +++ b/20932-0.txt @@ -0,0 +1,2452 @@ +The Project Gutenberg EBook of Advice to a Young Man upon First Going to +Oxford, by Edward Berens + +This eBook is for the use of anyone anywhere at no cost and with +almost no restrictions whatsoever. You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Advice to a Young Man upon First Going to Oxford + In Ten Letters, From an Uncle to His Nephew + +Author: Edward Berens + +Release Date: March 29, 2007 [EBook #20932] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: UTF-8 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK ADVICE TO A YOUNG MAN *** + + + + +Produced by Irma + + + + + + + + + LETTERS, + &c. + + + + + ADVICE TO A YOUNG MAN + + UPON + FIRST GOING TO OXFORD, + + IN + TEN LETTERS, + + FROM AN UNCLE TO HIS NEPHEW. + + * * * * * + + BY THE + REV. EDWARD BERENS, M.A. + LATE FELLOW OF ORIEL COLLEGE. + + * * * * * + + LONDON: + PRINTED FOR J. G. & F. RIVINGTON, + ST. PAUL'S CHURCH YARD, + AND WATERLOO PLACE, PALL MALL. + + * * * * * + + 1832. + + + + + LONDON: + GILBERT & RIVINGTON, PRINTERS, + St. John's Square. + + + + +I have long thought that a book was wanted, of the nature of that which +I have here attempted. How far I have succeeded in the attempt, the +public will determine. + +I have had,--have at present,--and (if I live,) expect to have +hereafter,--several nephews at Oxford; all having to make their own way +in the world, and all, consequently, having abundant reason for being +economical, both of their time and of their money, during their +residence at the University. These Letters were not addressed to any one +of them in particular, but are intended, like some official documents, +"for all whom they may concern." Perhaps I had more especially in view, +those of them who are destined for my own profession. + + E. B. + + + + +CONTENTS. + + + LETTER. PAGE. + + I. Sense of Religion 1 + + II. Choice of Friends 13 + + III. Conversation 27 + + IV. Against yielding to the Influence of Numbers 45 + + V. Improvement of Time 55 + + VI. Punctuality 72 + + VII. Amusements 85 + + VIII. Expenses, and running into Debt 99 + + IX. Temperance 114 + + X. English Reading 137 + + + + +LETTER I. + +SENSE OF RELIGION. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +It gives me sincere pleasure to hear that you have actually become a +member of the University of Oxford. This satisfaction, perhaps, may in +some degree be attributed to the pleasing recollection of my own Oxford +life, but certainly it arises principally from anticipation of the +substantial benefits which you, I trust, will derive from your connexion +with that seat of learning. At the same time, I will own that my +satisfaction is not entirely unmixed with something like apprehension. +An University education has many and great advantages, but it also is +attended with many temptations;--temptations to which too many young men +have yielded, sometimes to the great injury of their character, and the +utter ruin of all their future prospects. + +In fact, you are now entering upon the most important period--the +_turning point_--of your whole life. You have become, in a great +measure, your own master. For though you will be under a certain degree +of discipline and _surveillance_, yet in a multiplicity of cases you +will have to act for yourself--to take your own line. You will have to +contend against the allurements of pleasure and dissipation, and you +have just reached the age when the natural passions and appetites become +most impatient of restraint. At the same time, you will be exposed to +the influence both of the example and of the solicitations of lively +young men, who will try to carry you along with them in their career of +thoughtlessness and folly, and who will think it strange, and _show_ you +that they think it strange, if you run not with them to the same excess +of riot. Against all these moral trials and temptations, your best +safeguard will be found in a strong sense of religion, kept habitually +present to your mind. You must endeavour, according to the language of +Scripture--(and in writing to you I shall always gladly make use of the +very words of Scripture, when they suit my purpose, as having a force +and an authority which no other words can possess)--you must endeavour +to _set the Lord always before you_. Never for a moment forget that you +are continually in the presence of that awful Being, who can, and who +will, call you to a strict account for all that you do amiss. Nothing +can excuse your forgetting Him. + +If you at all believe in a Supreme Being, the Creator and Governor of +the world; if you believe that God is, and that he is a rewarder of them +that diligently seek him, and at the same time an avenger to execute +wrath upon every soul that doeth evil, the least particle of common +sense or common feeling will tell you, that nothing should be put in +competition with his will. When his will is clear, it _must_ be obeyed +without hesitation. I am sure that you will assent to this. If religion +is any thing, it is _every thing_. It is, indeed, the one thing needful, +in comparison with which every thing else sinks into insignificance, +into nothingness. + +Endeavour, then, to keep up in your mind and heart this habitual sense +of religion by every means in your power. It will require from you +considerable care and attention. The lively spirits natural to your time +of life, and the thoughtless levity of some of the young men into whose +society you will be thrown, will have a tendency to make you think less +of religion, if not to induce you entirely to forget it. Be ever on your +guard against thus swerving from your allegiance to your Creator. + +Nothing will contribute more to preserve you from this danger than +regularity and earnestness in your private devotions. When you rise in +the morning, seek from God spiritual strength to enable you to resist +and overcome the temptations to which you may be exposed during the day. +Every night implore his forgiveness for your many failings and +transgressions, and his protection against the dangers which surround +you. Suffer nothing to induce you to neglect private prayer. + +You will of course be required every day to attend chapel. Consider +such attendance not as an irksome duty, not as a mere matter of routine +and college discipline, but try to regard it as a privilege, and to take +a real interest and pleasure in it. Acquire the habit of joining +fervently in the prayers, and of constantly deriving from the lessons +and other portions of Scripture, the doctrinal and practical instruction +which they were intended to convey. Many college chapels are furnished +with Greek Testaments and Septuagints. You will judge from experience, +whether following the lessons in the Greek assists in fixing your +attention, or whether it diverts it from the matter to the language. My +own opinion is in favour of the practice. + +Make a point of giving to Sunday as much of a religious character as +you can. I am not recommending a Jewish strictness. Let Sunday be a day +of cheerfulness; but let your reading and your thoughts, as far as may +be, partake of the sacred character of the day. + +The study of the Scriptures constitutes an important part of your +preparation for your degree. This study will furnish an appropriate +employment for a considerable portion of the Sunday. Always attend the +University Sermons. I recommend this not merely as a branch of +academical discipline, but as a means of religious and intellectual +improvement. The sermon will generally, I believe, be worth attending +to. The select preachers are chosen, for the most part, from the ablest +men in the University; men, several of whom are likely hereafter to fill +the highest stations in the Church. You will seldom be driven to have +recourse to the advice of the pious Nicole in his Essay, "_des moyens de +profiter de mauvais sermons_." The various modes in which different +preachers enforce or illustrate the same great truths, and the +diversities of their style and manner, may afford you matter--not of +ill-natured criticism--but of useful reflection. Some colleges require +their under-graduates to give every week in writing a summary of the +sermon which they have heard at St. Mary's. If you adopt this practice, +you will find it contribute greatly to fix your attention, and to give +you a habit of arranging and expressing your ideas with facility and +readiness. Of course, some preachers deserve this steadiness of +attention much more than others. + +It is, I trust, unnecessary to remind you of the duty of receiving the +Lord's Supper, whenever it is administered in your college chapel. In +some colleges, nearly all the under-graduates partake of this ordinance; +in others, I believe, almost all neglect it: at least this was the case +formerly. In such and similar cases, you must be guided, not by common +practice, not by the example of numbers, but by what you know to be your +duty. If you feel any doubt or difficulty, frankly mention it to your +tutor. There are, I am persuaded, few tutors now in Oxford, who would +not be able and willing to assist you with their advice. + +This attention to your religious duties need not be attended by any +preciseness or austerity of manner. On the contrary, I should wish you +to be at all times cheerful and good humoured, ready to take part in any +innocent gaiety. My object is to impress upon you the absolute necessity +of always putting religion in the _first place_. If you really believe +what you profess to believe, do not hesitate as to shewing it in your +conduct. Never be so weak as to be ashamed of doing what you know to be +your duty. Never be guilty of such unmanly cowardice as to be ashamed +of avowing your allegiance to your Creator and your Redeemer. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + + + +LETTER II. + +CHOICE OF FRIENDS, AND BEHAVIOUR IN SOCIETY. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +Among the many advantages of an University, few rank higher, both in +general estimation and in reality, than the opportunity which it affords +of forming valuable and lasting friendships. Indeed this advantage can +hardly be rated too highly. I look back to the intimacies which I +contracted at college, as among the greatest blessings of a life, which +has been eminently blessed in various ways. I still hold intercourse +with many of my Oxford friends, whose characters and attainments do +honour to the place where their education and their minds were matured. +And even the recollection of most of those, who have been removed from +this lower world, is attended with a soothing melancholy, which partakes +more of pleasure and thankfulness for having enjoyed their society, than +of pain. _The memory of the just is blessed[14:1]._ + +I hope, my dear nephew, that you will improve this advantage to the +utmost. In your intimacies, however, endeavour to be guided rather by +judgment than by mere fancy. Sameness of pursuits, similarity of +dispositions and inclinations generally contribute much to throw men +together; but be careful not to attach yourself to any man as a +_friend_, unless he is a man of moral worth, and of real religious +principle. Intimacy with a man who is unrestrained by religion, _must_ +be attended with great danger. Your own natural appetites will +continually solicit you to forbidden indulgences, and will not be kept +in due subjection without difficulty. If their solicitations are +seconded by the example and by the conversations of an intimate +associate, your peril will be extreme. Intimacy with a man of bad +principles and immoral character, may utterly blast all your prospects +of happiness both in this world and the next. + +You will of course have the greater power of _selection_, if your +general acquaintance is pretty extensive. I acknowledge, that my opinion +is rather in favour of your forming an extensive acquaintance, provided +that you never suffer it to encroach upon your time, or to lead you into +any compromise of religious principle. Going to the University +constitutes a sort of entrance into the world, an introduction to manly +life; but this advantage is lost if you seclude yourself altogether from +society. In order, however, to acquire or to retain such an +acquaintance, your manners and general demeanour must be acceptable or +popular. + +One of the first requisites, in order to be thus acceptable, is the +neglect, the forgetfulness of _self_--a readiness to put _self_ in the +back-ground. Any obtrusion of self, any appearance of self-love, +self-interest, self-conceit, or self-applause, tends to expose a man to +dislike, perhaps to contempt. + +One way in which this disregard, this abandonment of self, must show +itself, is real unaffected humility. Most of the external forms and +modes of modern politeness, its bows and obeisances, its professions of +respect and service, its adulations, are nothing but an affectation of +such humility, and bear witness to its value when it exists in reality. +When it does so exist, and still is free from any servility of manner, +any unworthy compliances, nothing contributes more to make a man +acceptable and popular in society. It inflicts no unnecessary wounds on +any one's pride or self-love. And, you will observe, that it is the +temper and behaviour, inculcated by the general spirit and by the +particular precepts of religion, which bids us _in honour to prefer one +another_; and says, _in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better +than himself_. + +Another requisite is, a willingness to please and to be pleased. Some +men seem to think it beneath them, and a mark of littleness of mind, to +wish or to try to please any body, and wrap themselves up in a cold +superciliousness. Others seem determined never to be pleased with any +thing or any person, but are always finding fault. They have no eye +for, no perception of, merits or beauties, either external or internal, +but are keen and quick-sighted in detecting blemishes, and eloquent in +exaggerating them[20:1]. If any person's good qualities, or any work of +art or of genius is commended, they are sure to throw in some +observations calculated to depreciate and disparage them. And with +respect even to the works of Nature, and the dispensations of +Providence, they are more ready to see and to point out evils, than to +acknowledge advantages. This temper--this habit of disparagement--is +certainly very unamiable; and justly offensive, not only to those who +are run down by it as its immediate objects, but to all who witness it. +A man who consults his own comfort, or the comfort of those with whom he +associates, should be disposed to make the best of every thing. I would +by no means wish him in the slightest degree to compromise truth, or to +make the remotest approach to flattery; but I would have him see every +thing in the most favourable point of view, and disposed to pursue and +to dwell upon what is good rather than upon what is bad. Too much of +that which is bad is sure to be forced upon our attention, without our +taking any pains to look out for it. + +Be always on your guard against hurting the feelings, or even shocking +the prejudices, of those with whom you associate. A little observation, +and some attention to your own feelings in similar circumstances, will +soon teach you what is likely to be annoying to others. Make every +allowance for their self-love, and for attachment to their own opinions. + +Never give unnecessary pain or mortification. It is _unnecessary_, when +it can be avoided without compromising the consistency of your own +character, or hazarding the interests of religion and of truth. + +In short, my dear nephew, if you will study St. Paul's account of the +nature and properties of charity, and regulate your temper and your +behaviour accordingly, you will want little in order to be a perfect +gentleman, in the highest sense of the word. I will not enter upon this +account in detail, but must refer you to Fenelon's excellent book on +this subject, if it should come in your way, or even to my own +Sermon[22:1]. Give me your attention, however, for a minute or two, to a +few slight remarks upon charity--merely as it bears upon our conduct in +society. + +_Charity suffereth long_--μακροθυμει--it bears patiently with other +men's defects of temper, discourteousness of behaviour, and awkwardness +of manner; and is _kind_, gentle, and obliging--χρηστευεται. + +Charity envieth not--ου ζηλοι. It is free from those little jealousies, +and rivalries, and emulations, which, where they are admitted, sometimes +give sourness to the temper, and bitterness to the behaviour. + +Charity _vaunteth not itself_--ου περευεται; it is not rash or over +hasty; it is not overbearing, positive, and peremptory, in language or +manner; _is not puffed up_--ου φυσιουται; is not inflated with an +opinion of its own worth or consequence; and, that being the case, it +doth not behave itself unseemly--ουκ ασχημονει; it does not treat +other men with disdain and superciliousness. + +Charity _seeketh not her own_--ου ζητει τα ἑαυτης--that is, she is not +_selfish_. Charity neglects not altogether her own concerns, or her own +interests, but does not attend to them exclusively; does not _so_ attend +to them, as to be unmindful of, or inattentive to, the interests and +welfare of others. + +Charity is not easily provoked--ου παροξυνεται. Nothing more +disturbs the peace and comfort of society than the being easily +provoked. When a man is touchy and waspish, he is always looking out +for, and catching at, occasions of offence. + +Charity rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; it does +not take pleasure in hearing of misdoings and evil conduct, but +delights in accounts of praiseworthy actions, and in the spread of sound +religious principles. + +Charity _beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, +endureth all things_; παντα στεγει, παντα πιστευει, παντα ελπιζει, παντα +ὑπομενει. + +I will not, my dear nephew, lengthen a long letter, by endeavouring to +point out the precise meaning of these expressions. You may understand +from them, that charity is patient of ill-usage; that instead of being +suspicious and disposed to cavil and carp at every thing, it is open and +ingenuous, ready to give men credit for speaking the truth, when there +is no good reason to think otherwise; and that it is disposed to hope +the best, to think as favourably as it can of those with whom it comes +in contact; and if it cannot actually think well of them at present, to +_hope_ for their amendment and reformation. + +I think you will agree with me, that a man influenced by this spirit +would be an acceptable man in society, and that the best practical +Christian would be the best gentleman[26:1]. + + I remain, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[14:1] Prov. x. 7. + +[20:1] See Numbers 72, 74, and 98, of the Rambler. + +[22:1] See Village Sermons. + +[26:1] See Jones's Letters from a Tutor to his Pupils. + + + + +LETTER III. + +CONVERSATION. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +I take it for granted, that upon first going from school to Oxford, and +entering into society different, in many respects, from any that you +have hitherto been accustomed to, you feel some of that shyness which +belongs to the character of most Englishmen. I should be sorry if you +did not. You probably feel diffident, too, of your ability to bear your +part in general conversation, and an apprehension of being, on that +account, set down as a stupid fellow. But don't be uneasy. More young +men, I am persuaded, hurt themselves by talking too much, than by +talking too little. When a fresh-man, at first starting, is quite at his +ease, and talks readily upon any subject that happens to be uppermost, +some of his companions may be amused at his coolness, but most of them +will be disgusted. If, by your look and manner, you show that you are +alive to what is said by others, and now and then throw in a remark, not +destitute of meaning, you will be more generally popular than one of +those random talkers. Men of a certain standing, qualified by their +liveliness or by their information to bear a leading part in +conversation, do not like to see an undue share of it engrossed by +others, especially by a mere youngster. They greatly prefer a good +listener to a ready talker. + +Young practitioners in Doctors' Commons have, I believe, to pass through +their year of silence, before they are allowed to speak. During the +period of silence, they quietly observe, and become acquainted with, the +usages and practice of the court. Something similar to this period of +quiet observation, might not be inexpedient for a noviciate in society. +At all events, never talk for talking's sake; never speak unless you +have something to say worth attending to. + +You will, I am sure, my dear nephew, take it in good part, if I point +out a few of the conversational faults, of which young men are apt to be +guilty. It is natural that we should talk most of that in which we are +most interested. Now, of all things in the world, a young man feels most +interested in _himself_. But if, in consequence of such feeling, he +ventures to talk much of himself, of his own habits, his own pursuits, +his own feelings, his own achievements, he will very soon be set down as +a bore and a conceited coxcomb. A young man naturally feels a strong +interest, an interest increased by separation, in his own immediate +family. This feeling, with some young men, is so deep, that they shun +the mention of any thing closely connected with their _home_ as a sort +of profanation, a desecration of things sacred. With others, this +feeling takes the opposite direction, and leads them--_celebrare +domestica facta_--to introduce the concerns of their own nearest +relations into the conversation of a mixed party. Take care that you +never are guilty of such a violation of good taste and correct judgment. +Interesting as your home and its inmates are to _you_, nothing can well +be less interesting to those, who are unacquainted with them. It will be +a stretch of courtesy and good-nature, if they tolerate the mention of +them without some expression either of ridicule or of distaste. If you +speak of your home-concerns at all, let it be only to one or two +intimate friends, who, from the regard which they feel for _you_, may be +supposed to take an interest in all belonging to you. + +Be on your guard against getting into the habit of telling long stories: +they generally are tiresome. Many circumstances, in addition to the +feeling that you have them to tell, may give them a consequence in your +eyes, which they do not in reality possess. Lively anecdotes, or short +narratives, told with spirit, are among the most amusing ingredients in +conversation; but even with them, if you often meet the same company, +there is considerable danger of falling into repetition. + +Never be guilty of falling into the too common practice of indulging in +scandal, the practice of talking of men disparagingly, of running down +their character behind their backs. I by no means wish you to flatter +any man, whether present or absent, or to speak favourably of character +or of conduct which does not deserve it. But beware of _detraction_. +Nothing is more unamiable in any man, especially in a _young_ man; and, +what is of infinitely more consequence, nothing is more opposite to the +spirit and the precepts of religion, which repeatedly enjoins us to +_speak evil of no man_. Bear in mind the advice of one of the most +sagacious and penetrating observers of human nature:--_Whether it be to +a friend or foe, talk not of other men's lives; and if thou canst, +without offence, reveal them not[34:1]._ _If thou canst without +offence_;--circumstances may require that the truth should be +revealed,--that the real truth should be spoken and made known, even +though it should be injurious,--though it should be absolutely fatal to +another man's character. But do not take pleasure in telling any thing +to another's prejudice; do not make the tearing of a character in pieces +a matter of amusement. By such conduct you would not only be guilty of a +gross violation of Christian charity, but will probably bring yourself +into many scrapes in a worldly point of view. In a mixed company, there +may chance to be some friend or connexion of him, whom you are running +down; or, at all events, what you say will be repeated,--_a bird of the +air will carry the matter_,--till it comes to the ears of the injured +person. And what will be the consequence? A feeling of aversion and +dislike, a spirit of hostility to you, will, not unnaturally, be +engendered, both in him and in such of his friends and connections as +are acquainted with the circumstance. + +One of the most unwarrantable kinds or forms of detraction, is the +attributing of any man's conduct to corrupt or unworthy motives. A man's +real motives are known only to God and to himself; indeed, very often +to God _alone_, as from the deceitfulness and intricacy of the human +heart, a man himself is sometimes ignorant as to what his real motives +actually are. Certainly it is rash and presumptuous for any other man to +pretend to decide upon them, and most uncharitable and unjust to +pronounce them to be corrupt, when they are capable of a favourable +interpretation. Express your disapprobation of unworthy actions as +strongly as you please; but beware of rash and uncharitable censure, and +especially beware of the presumption of imputing to any corrupt and evil +motives. + +As I have cautioned you against violating Christian charity in +conversation, so I must warn you against infringing on Christian +purity. You have arrived at a period of life, when your utmost care and +vigilance will be requisite, to keep your natural passions and appetites +within proper bounds. Indeed, all your care will be ineffectual unless +assisted by Divine grace. Do not take part in conversation which is +calculated to add to their importunity or to their strength. Thoughtless +young men, under the influence of these feelings, sometimes indulge in +_foolish talking and jesting_[37:1], of most pernicious tendency, and +most inconsistent with the Christian character. Avoid and discourage +conversation of this nature, so far as you possibly can. Do not add +fuel to a flame which already burns but too fiercely. _Fools make a mock +at sin_[38:1]; and none but _fools_ should be capable of making a joke +of temptations and vices, which in themselves are awfully serious, which +lead on to eternal ruin. + +I hope you will never be so unfortunate, as to fall much into the +company of men, who make a jest of religion, or of any thing connected +with religion. Those who are bent upon following the guidance of their +own appetites, and their own wills, naturally dislike that which would +check and restrain them. They are consequently apt to become +_scoffers_, and to attempt to turn religion and its sanctions into +ridicule. Avoid the society and conversation of such men, as you would +avoid the plague. If unhappily thrown among them, discountenance them to +the utmost. + +Do not indulge yourself in a habit of raillery or banter. Raillery is a +difficult thing to manage well, and very apt both to give pain to him +who is the object of it, and to reflect discredit on him who attempts +it. Sometimes you see one or two young men, of more liveliness than +sense, picking out some quiet person in company as a _butt_, at which +they may point their wit, and carrying on an attack of banter and +ridicule. This is, probably, not only annoying to him, but tiresome and +painful to all the right feeling men who chance to be present. + +I am glad to join in, or to witness, a honest hearty laugh, when any +thing really calls for it. Beware, however, of the practice of laughing +when there is nothing to laugh at. Some people fall into a way of giving +the accompaniment of a laugh to almost every thing that they utter, +especially if they have any direct intention to be jocular. This habit +is disagreeable to most of those who witness it. It proceeds, I believe, +generally from a sort of shyness and awkwardness contracted in early +youth, and is, as I know from experience, difficult to get rid of. It +certainly is inconsistent with the manners and habits of good society. +Be always the last to laugh at your own jokes, or your own _good_ +stories. If they are really worth laughing at, the company will find it +out, and by premature or excessive laughter you will mar their effect. + +As you get on in society, you will probably often fall into discussion +and argument. When this is the case, take care not to be too positive or +peremptory in your manner. Be solicitous to allow their full weight to +the arguments of your antagonist. Do not suffer the impression of the +force and correctness of your own reasoning, to render you blind to what +is urged against you. Above all, keep your temper. If you lose your +temper, victory will be deprived of its credit, and defeat will be more +disgraceful. At the same time you will run a double chance of being +defeated, without having the wit to see, or the manliness to own it. +Believe me, my dear nephew, (to adopt the very words of one of the most +sagacious and distinguished of modern statesmen) "that the arms with +which the ill dispositions of the world are to be combated, and the +qualities by which it is to be reconciled to us, and we reconciled to +it, are moderation, gentleness, a little indulgence to others, and a +great deal of distrust of ourselves; which are not qualities of a mean +spirit, as some may possibly think them, but virtues of a great and +noble kind, and such as dignify our nature as much as they contribute to +our repose and fortune; for nothing can be so unworthy of a +well-composed soul, as to pass away life in bickerings and litigations, +in snarling and scuffling with every one about us. Again and again, my +dear,--we must be at peace with our species; if not for their sakes, yet +very much for our own[43:1]." + +But my letter grows long, and I must hasten to conclude it. Read +repeatedly Cowper's lively poem on conversation, which seems to me to +have much of the spirit and accurate moral taste of Horace, with the +elevation derived from Christianity. Read, too, if you can lay your hand +on it, Bishop Horne's paper on conversation, in the Olla Podrida. In +these two essays you will find many of the sentiments which I have +expressed, only given in a much more engaging manner. In the 78th and +83d Numbers of the Idler, many common faults in conversation are exposed +with a degree of humour, in which our great moralist did not very +frequently indulge. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[34:1] Ecclus. xix. 8. + +[37:1] Ephes. v. 4. and Coloss. iii. 8. + +[38:1] Prov. xiv. 9. + +[43:1] Prior's Life of Burke, p. 215. Second edition. + + + + +LETTER IV. + +AGAINST YIELDING TO THE INFLUENCE OF NUMBERS. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +When I advised you to fall in, so far as you reasonably can, with the +wishes and inclinations of those with whom you associate, you +understood, I trust, that compliance should never go so far, as to +involve the slightest sacrifice of truth or of principle. When carried +to this culpable extent, it becomes an instance of weak and unmanly +cowardice. + +One of the greatest dangers to which young men are exposed upon their +first entrance into the world, is that which arises from their readiness +to be swayed by the example or by the persuasion of their companions. +The example, and still more the persuasion, of a single individual, is +sometimes not without difficulty resisted, and the difficulty of +resistance is greatly increased by the influence of numbers. A young man +dreads the imputation of singularity. He cannot bear to stand out +against the example, perhaps the solicitations, of those among whom he +lives. He suffers himself, therefore, to be carried along by the stream, +and led into conduct, of which, in his conscience, he utterly +disapproves. + +Never, my dear nephew, do you be guilty of such weakness. Avoid +singularity, whenever it can be avoided with innocence: an affectation +of singularity for singularity's sake, generally proceeds from conceit +or self-sufficiency. But where the path of duty is clear, let no example +or persuasion induce you to swerve from it. Keep ever impressed upon +your mind the admonition of Scripture, _Thou shalt not follow a +multitude to do evil_. + +Never suffer yourself to be laughed out of what is right. Never be +ashamed of adhering to what you know to be your duty. In matters of duty +keep in mind the words of Scripture, _Fear ye not the reproach of men, +neither be afraid of their revilings_. Never expose yourself to the +censure justly cast upon those who value the praise or the approbation +of men,--of giddy, thoughtless, sensual men, more than the praise of +God. Remember, my dear nephew, the solemn warning of our Lord: _If any +man shall be ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful +generation, of him shall the Son of man be ashamed when he cometh in his +glory with his holy angels_. + +In your steady adherence to the dictates of conscience, you will always +find some who will respect you for it; or, even if you should stand +alone, like Abdiel, "among the faithless, the only faithful," you will +be supported by the testimony of your own heart, and by an humble +confidence in the approbation of the Almighty. One or two instances may, +probably, make my meaning more clear. + +Perhaps a few joyous spirits have devised some scheme of irregular, +sensual gratification,--of Bacchanalian revelry;--or, perhaps, two or +three dunces, whose intellects and moral feelings are of such a stamp, +as to render them rather impracticable subjects for academical +discipline, have contrived some plan of impotent resistance to the +college authorities, or some plot of petty and vexatious annoyance, in +order to give vent to their mortification, when such silly resistance +has been proved to be ineffectual. Wishing for the screen or protection +of numbers, they will try to persuade their companions, that they will +be wanting in manly spirit, or in social feeling, if they refuse to join +them. And is there, after all, any thing so very _spirited_, any thing +of high-minded and noble daring in behaviour, which seeks to screen +itself by concealment and subterfuge, and which, if detected, braves, +not any personal danger or suffering, but merely the terrors of an +imposition? If the offence is so aggravated as to entail the heavier +penalty, rustication, or expulsion, such punishment inflicts, indeed, +severe grief upon the parents and friends of the offender; but he +himself, with the short-sightedness of folly, perhaps almost enjoys the +idleness and the freedom from academical restraint, to which rustication +consigns him. A young Oxonian is apt to feel very indignant if not +treated by deans and tutors, as a man and as a gentleman; but has he any +right to expect to be so treated, if he condescends to adopt the +practices of a mischievous or a truant school boy? + +I am no friend to the unnecessary imposition of oaths; but, I own, I do +not see how any thing like deliberate and systematic opposition to +academical authority, can be reconciled with the oath of academical +obedience taken by every freshman. I know well that the usual +construction of that oath,--(I doubt not the legitimate +construction)--is, that the person who takes it will obey the statutes, +or submit to the penalty imposed upon the infraction of them. I am +aware, too, that the violation of the strict letter of many of the +statutes is acquiesced in, and almost sanctioned, by those in authority; +but surely a _deliberate_ and _contumacious_ contravention of the +statutes, accompanied by a natural endeavour to evade punishment, is +hardly consistent with the spirit of the oath. Certainly it is +inconsistent with the spirit of Christianity, which everywhere +inculcates a dutiful submission to the constituted authorities; a +compliance, in all things lawful, with the regulations of the place in +which we are, and of the society which has received us among its +members. No man is compelled to go to the University; but if he does go +thither, he should make up his mind to comply with its rules, during the +short period of his residence. + +Perhaps, my dear nephew, you may think that I have all this time been +combating, or, rather, seeking to _lay_, a phantom of my own raising; +that I have been making mole-hills into mountains; or, like Don Quixote, +turning wind-mills into giants: but, in my long Oxford life, I have +heard of so many instances of the silly behaviour of which I have been +speaking, that I wish to put you on your guard against it. True +manliness consists in adhering to what you think to be right. In +keeping steadily to the path of duty, notwithstanding the solicitations, +or the taunts, or the ridicule of your associates, there is more proper +spirit and moral courage, than in braving the rebuke or the impositions +of a dean or a proctor. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + + + +LETTER V. + +IMPROVEMENT OF TIME. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +I trust that you are now hard at work. I can figure you with your +Herodotus before you, your Scapula on one side, and your maps on the +other, _setting-to_ in good earnest. You have, I am sure, fully +determined to make the most of your time. The time which you must +necessarily pass in Oxford, in order to take your bachelor's degree, is +but little after all. Your whole actual residence, during the three +years, will probably not much exceed a year and a half. Certainly, of +this _modicum_ of time you cannot afford to waste any portion. Make a +point of devoting it to real study, to real strenuous exertion. You owe +this to yourself--to your own credit and character; you owe it to your +parents, who have probably put themselves to some pecuniary +inconvenience, in order to give you the advantage of an Oxford +education; you owe it to God, to whom you are responsible for the +employment of your time, as well as for the proper use of your other +talents. Fix in your mind and memory the lesson taught you by the +sun-dial in the Quadrangle at All Souls--"_Pereunt et imputantur_;" or +that of another similar monitor--"_Ab hoc momento pendet æternitas_." +Take time for exercise; take time for relaxation; but make steady +reading your object and your business. Do not be so weak, or so unmanly, +or so vain, as to be ashamed of being known to read. You went to Oxford +on purpose to study; why should you be ashamed of keeping that purpose +in view? + +In the choice of your studies, be guided implicitly by the advice of +your tutor. Very likely you may not see the use of some branches of +science, or of reading some particular books. But do not fancy that in +such matters you are wiser than older men, who have maturely considered +these things again and again. If you mean to be your own guide and your +own teacher, you had better have staid away from Oxford altogether. It +is one great advantage of academical education, that a definite course +of reading is marked out for you. When a young man,--indeed, when _any_ +man,--is left entirely to his own choice, he is apt to be distracted by +the many different branches of study, the many different books, which +present themselves, and to fall into a habit of desultory reading, +productive of little lasting benefit. You are saved from this +distraction and perplexity, throwing upon other shoulders the trouble +and responsibility of making a proper choice. + +I believe almost every tutor now in Oxford, will direct his pupils to +devote a certain portion of their time to the highest of all +studies--the study of religion. Some knowledge of religion is absolutely +indispensable, in order to pass your examination for your degree. But +independently of all academical objects, you cannot help feeling +satisfied that time so employed, is employed well and wisely. Such +study, with the blessing of God upon it, will be beneficial to you +through the whole of your future existence, both in this world and the +next. + +Among the many advantages of an university education, must be reckoned +the opportunity of attending public lectures, such lectures especially, +as are illustrated, by an expensive philosophical apparatus, or by the +inspection of actual specimens. The experiments conducted by means of +such apparatus, and the handing round of specimens, are not only +absolutely essential, oftentimes, to the comprehension of the science to +which they belong, but contribute powerfully to fix it in the memory. If +you can spare the time from your severer studies, and if your tutor does +not disapprove, I should strongly advise you to attend in succession the +lectures on natural philosophy,--on chemistry,--on mineralogy,--and on +geology. Some acquaintance with these sciences, is in itself so +interesting and useful, and is now so general, that you ought not, I +think, to miss your present opportunity of acquiring it: so favourable +an opportunity you will hardly meet with again. + +Much may be done by a judicious distribution of your time. When you have +made such a distribution, keep to it steadily. Be peremptory with +yourself in adhering to it, and be peremptory in preventing others from +encroaching upon it,--from encroaching upon it, at least, unnecessarily. +I suppose that, upon the average, you may get four or five hours' steady +reading before dinner, and three or four after. This will leave you +abundant time for exercise, for relaxation, and for society. Certainly +it will not spare you any for mere _lounging_; either for lounging +yourself, or being lounged upon by others. If you cannot avoid the +latter by any other means, you will be reduced to the alternative of +shutting your door, or, if that term is still in use, of _sporting oak_ +against them. If they reproach you, set them, as their punishment, to +read the paper in the Idler on the robbery of time[62:1]. + +Either of your time, or of your money, waste as little as possible upon +newspapers. I admit, that of all periods of history, the time in which +we actually live is, _to us_, the most interesting. I admit that, both +with a view to your taking part in the conversation of general society, +as well as upon other accounts, some knowledge of passing events is +desirable, or even necessary. For such purposes, a rapid glance at the +newspaper, or even what is picked up by hearsay, will, generally +speaking, be sufficient. While reading for your degree, however, you +really cannot spare time to read the newspapers _through_. The most +important portions of them are, perhaps, the debates during the session +of parliament, and the trials. Of the debates, a considerable part is +very trifling and unprofitable; and, in order to read with real +advantage those speeches which are most deserving of attention, it is +necessary to be possessed of a considerable portion of that knowledge of +history, of legislation, of political economy, of mercantile and +financial transactions, the _foundations_ of which you are at Oxford +engaged in laying. It is not to be wished that an under-graduate should +affect to be an experienced politician, prepared to give a strong and +decided opinion upon subjects, upon which able and experienced men, +possessed of ten times his knowledge, find a difficulty in making up +their mind. In the reports of trials, many curious facts, and much +interesting information are to be found. In order to understand many of +them, however, it is requisite to have a more intimate acquaintance with +the rules of English jurisprudence, and with the practice of the courts, +than can be expected in a young man as yet hardly set free from the +eggshell of school. Upon the subject of newspapers, however, I will say +no more. I well know, that in merely touching upon it, I tread upon +delicate and debateable ground. + +Take sufficient time for relaxation; but let your relaxations, as far as +you can, be intellectual and improving. + +Oxford now presents opportunities, both of acquiring some knowledge of +natural history, and of cultivating a taste in the fine arts, which it +by no means possessed when I was an under-graduate. For these we are +principally indebted to those two admirable brothers[66:1], who have so +long devoted their time, their money, their distinguished talents, and +their various attainments, in the first place, to plans of beneficence, +and in the next, to the advancement of science and the cultivation of +taste. It is to them that we owe the enlargement, the arrangement, and +in fact the greater part of the contents, of the Museum, which now +contains a very interesting collection of specimens, particularly in +British ornithology. To them we are indebted for the excellent casts (in +the Radcliffe Library) from the most perfect specimens of sculpture, and +for the beautiful models (in the Picture Gallery) of the most celebrated +remains of ancient architecture. The Picture Gallery itself contains +many paintings, which, if not of any great excellence as works of art, +yet are well deserving of attention on very many accounts; and the +copies from the Cartoons, especially if you can be assisted with a few +hints from Richardson or Sir Joshua Reynolds, are most interesting +objects of study and contemplation. I am surprised that the young men in +Oxford make so little use of these advantages. Many of them seem hardly +to be aware of their existence. + +Among other modes of relaxation, not unconnected with intellectual +improvement, I should advise you to make yourself a little acquainted +with our early English architecture. If you can buy or borrow either +Bentham's Essay on Gothic Architecture, or Milner's accurate and elegant +Treatise on the Ecclesiastical Architecture of England during the middle +ages, you will need no other assistance, excepting, indeed, a friend +disposed to go along with you in this pursuit. Oxford and its immediate +neighbourhood will furnish you with many interesting specimens from the +Saxon and Norman, in the cathedral, St. Peter's in the East, and Iffley +church, down to the utter depravation of the art, or rather the total +change of style, in the time of Henry the Eighth. + +These interesting pursuits, however, I mention, as you must follow them, +if you follow them at all, merely _by the by_. They must not be suffered +to interfere with your severer studies. When engaged in those studies, +give them your whole undivided attention. _Whatsoever your hand, or your +head, findeth to do, do it with all your might._ + +The habits of study and of intellectual improvement, which you acquire +at Oxford, you should carry with you into the vacation. During the +vacation, you may, perhaps, take more time for society--the society +especially of your own immediate family--and more for relaxation; but +still do not _waste_ your time; still consider yourself as responsible +for the right employment of it. Make sure of the ground which you gained +during the term, by going over by yourself, what you then read with your +tutor. Improve your acquaintance with the standard writers of our own +country, and acquire some knowledge of modern history. In short, make +the most of your leisure. Read Bishop Home's sermon on redeeming the +time, and the papers in the Spectator and the Rambler to which he +refers. Read, _and learn by heart_, what is said on the loss of time in +the second of Young's Night Thoughts: + + "Part with it as with money, sparing; pay + No moment but in purchase of its worth." + +But my letter grows long, and (you will say) tedious. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[62:1] Vol. I. No. 14. + +[66:1] John Duncan, Esq. and Philip Duncan, Esq. of New College. + + + + +LETTER VI. + +PUNCTUALITY. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +I ventured to give you some advice respecting the employment of your +time; perhaps I ought to follow up that letter with a few remarks upon +PUNCTUALITY. Unless you acquire the habit of punctuality, you will be +apt, not only to lose your own time, but to make unjustifiable inroads +upon the time of other persons. + +Endeavour, therefore, to _keep to your time_ in every appointment, +whether the appointment be made by yourself or by others, (the college +authorities for instance,) whether it be with a superior, an equal, or +an inferior. Whether it be in a matter of business or in a matter of +pleasure, try always to be true to it. Let this be your system and your +habit. Some deviations from punctuality may now and then be unavoidable; +but do not let them occur unless they _really are_ unavoidable in +fairness and reason. If you have yourself made an appointment, your word +is, to a certain degree, pledged to your keeping to it. The case is in +some measure the same, when, though the appointment is actually made by +others, you have acceded to it. + +Want of punctuality seems to proceed either from pride and +superciliousness, or from some infirmity, some weakness of character. +Most men try to be punctual in any appointment with a man of rank +superior to themselves, especially if they have any object, any +interest, in conciliating his favour. And, on the other hand, too many +persons seem to feel themselves at liberty to be unpunctual in an +appointment with an inferior. It is not worth while, they think, to care +about being exact with one so much beneath them. "Let him wait till I am +at leisure to attend to him," exclaims such a man, in the proud +consciousness of superiority; and, perhaps, some trifle, or mere +indolence, is all that he has to plead for his neglect. + +You, my dear nephew, have, I trust, long since learned, that you have no +right to treat any man, however low his rank may be, with +disrespect,--with any thing approaching to contempt. You well know, that +both reason and religion require us to regard all men as our brothers, +and that one of the golden rules of the latter is, _in lowliness of +mind, let each esteem others better than himself_. Whatever a man's rank +in life may be, he has a right to punctuality as he has a right to +truth; and you have no right, by your unpunctuality, to rob him either +of his time or his patience. Certainly you have no right to give him by +such means the painful feeling that he is neglected, and neglected +because he is despised. + +And thus, also, with men of your own age and your own rank in life; in +all the little engagements and appointments, whether of business or of +pleasure, which occur in the common intercourse of society, endeavour +still to maintain the habit of punctuality. As every man wishes to have +the character of being true to his word, so it will be to your credit to +have the character of being true to your engagements, whether those +engagements relate to great matters or to small. + +But though want of punctuality is sometimes occasioned by pride, it +must more frequently proceed from a certain degree of weakness of +character, or from mere indolence. A man acknowledges punctuality to be +right and desirable, but cannot muster up sufficient energy and +resolution. He cannot prevail upon himself to quit his bed, or his easy +chair, or his fire-side, or the employment by which he chances to be +occupied, till the time fixed on has passed away. His friends are kept +waiting; those who have business to transact with him lose their temper; +they, again, are perhaps disappointing others, and all because he had +not sufficient decision of character, sufficient command of himself, to +be punctual. + +You may remember seeing at my house my friend Mr. M.[78:1] He was at +Oxford a very good-humoured fellow, and every body liked him; but he +never could contrive to be in time for any thing. He got imposition upon +imposition for being too late for chapel; he came to dine in hall when +other men were going away; and his friends were almost afraid of making +an appointment with him, either for business or for amusement, because +they knew beforehand that he would not keep it. When, after leaving +Oxford, he established himself as a country gentleman in his paternal +mansion, the same habit still clung to him. No time was fixed for any +thing, or if it was fixed, it was never kept. Neither his guests nor his +servants knew at what hour either breakfast, or dinner, or any other +domestic arrangement, would take place. Consequently, their time and +their spirits were wasted in uncertainty. When engaged to dine at a +neighbour's, perhaps he would forget the engagement altogether; or, if +he chanced to remember it, would not arrive till the master of the feast +had given him up in despair, after allowing possibly an extra half hour, +during which, the solemn pause which sometimes takes place before +dinner, had become more solemn, from the annoyance of seeing a whole +party kept waiting by the unpunctuality of one person. The servants, +meanwhile, were yawning and fidgetting backwards and forwards in the +listlessness of expectation; the cook perplexed with the sore dilemma of +seeing all the productions of her skill, either chilled with cold from +being kept back, or burnt to a cinder; and the temper even of the lady +of the house a little out of tune, from the certainty that the dinner +would be spoiled. Of all these various vexations, the sole cause was to +be found in Mr. M.'s want of energy. He could not bring himself, +perhaps, either to shorten a pleasant ride, or to lay down a book which +interested him, or to quit his own chair by the fire-side, in order to +dress. The convenience and comfort, and for a time the good humour, of a +whole company, were to be sacrificed to his indolence, his _vis +inertiæ_, and unpunctuality. + +Never permit yourself, my dear nephew, thus to trifle with the time or +the temper of any persons, whether high or low, with whom you have any +intercourse. Make a point of always being in time. I think it is said of +Lord Nelson (though I cannot hit upon the passage in his life), that +when some friend was fixing an appointment of importance at a certain +hour, the hero added, "Say a quarter _before_--to that quarter _before_, +I have owed all my success in life." I do not advise you actually to be +_before_ the time of an engagement, which some people will complain of +as being worse than being too late, but be so much beforehand as to be +master of your time, or to have it in your power to be punctual almost +to a minute. When you are received as a guest in a friend's house, +consider compliance with the hours and habits of the family, as a +natural return for the hospitality which is shown to you. There is +something incongruous in seeing a young person deranging, by his +unpunctuality, the economy and regularity of a whole household. And do +not suffer the kindness and indulgence of your parents to induce you, +when with them, to be less attentive to punctuality than you are, when +with other persons of superior age or rank to yourself. Never let them +wait for you; make a point of being always ready. An excellent friend of +mine lays it down as a maxim, that _habitual unpunctuality is positive +incivility_. + +I have alluded to the unpunctuality of one of my college friends: I will +contrast it with the punctuality of another. The latter when at Oxford +was distinguished for lively talents, and for an exuberance of spirits +bursting forth into every possible variety of fun. He is now the owner +of a spacious and splendid mansion, with a large establishment of +servants, and often a considerable number of guests, attracted by his +many amiable and excellent qualities. He still retains his playfulness +of wit, but his domestic arrangements are a model of punctuality. Family +prayers, and every meal, are to a minute. His guests and servants, +consequently, know exactly what they have to depend on, the arrangements +of the day, whether for business or for amusement, can be made with +precision, and every thing is done at its proper time. This is +punctuality on a greater scale. You and I, my dear nephew, must attend +to it in smaller matters. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[78:1] Mr. M. is imaginary. + + + + +LETTER VII. + +AMUSEMENTS. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +In a former letter I recommended to you certain modes of relaxation, +having some connection with intellectual improvement. You will, perhaps, +tell me that you want relaxation more entire and complete; that the +intellect requires perfect rest; that you must have _amusement_ in the +strict etymological sense of the word. You may be right. I have already +advised you to take sufficient time for _exercise_, and the exercise of +the body will generally give rest and refreshment to the mind. + +In your choice of amusement, however--amusement, I mean, as combined +with exercise--you must have strict regard to economy, both of money and +of time. Do not think me an old woman, if I add, that regard for _both_ +should keep you from any excessive bodily exertion, such as will unfit +you for study, or seriously affect your health. I am told that the +latter effect has of late, not unfrequently, been the result of over +fatigue in _rowing_; that many young men have died at an early age; that +others live on with all their powers debilitated, from having +overstrained their nerves, and their whole muscular system, in +boat-races. Rowing is in itself a salutary and delightful species of +exercise; and the facility of practising it, is one among the many +advantages of Oxford; but when carried to the excess which I have +alluded to, it is foolish and culpable. + +I would have a young man regardless of danger, willing to risk limbs, +health, or life itself, for the benefit of his fellow-creatures. He +should, like Hamlet, "hold his life at a pin's fee," when any adequate +object is to be answered by putting it in jeopardy. But a man has _no +right_ to risk either his life or his limbs for a bravado, in mere idle +vanity and ostentation. Such wanton risk is cruelty to his parents and +friends, and a presumptuous tempting of Providence. + +_Riding_, for riding's sake, must, with your finances, be out of the +question. The utmost that you ought to allow yourself, is a hack once or +twice a term, for some specific purpose--to visit a distant friend, +perhaps, or to see some interesting object lying beyond the range of a +walk. What I have said of riding, applies, with ten-fold force, to +hunting, which entails expense--(the hire of a hunter, the hire of a +hack probably to take you to cover, sundry ostlers and helpers, and very +likely a jovial dinner at an inn)--utterly inconsistent with an average +allowance; which entails, also, a waste of time, which, in the short +period of an Oxford residence, can ill be spared. + +What shall I say of _cricket_? I have great respect for cricket, as a +national and a manly game. The demand which it makes upon your Oxford +time is confined to the short term between Easter and the long vacation, +and it does not require a very large portion of the day. It is not +_necessarily_ attended with any expense. Whether the incidental expenses +of _uniform_ (if you belong to a club), tent, dinner, &c. &c. are such +as you can fairly afford, is for your consideration. They need not be +high, and, in my good will to the game, I am anxious that they should +be kept down. + +_Tennis_ is an animated game, of much variety in itself, and requiring +great variety of muscular exertion. It is connected with many historical +and chivalrous recollections, and carries the mind back to our Henry the +Fifth and the "mocking Dauphin" of France. As it cannot be played +without a spacious and expensive edifice, it is altogether an +aristocratic game, and demands an aristocratic purse. It is a game which +requires a good deal of practice, and, consequently, a good deal of +expenditure, in order to acquire a tolerable degree of skill; and your +skill will seldom have an opportunity of showing itself after you have +quitted Oxford, as you will seldom fall in with a tennis-court. I have +no hesitation in saying, that you, my dear nephew, have no money that +you have a right to spend upon yourself in this manner. + +You will never, I trust, annoy any of the neighbouring country +gentlemen, by attacking their game. You know how tender a point this is, +and how susceptible most landed proprietors are upon the subject; and +your own good feeling, and sense of propriety, and common fairness, will +prevent you from trespassing in this manner. You can imagine how +indignant you would yourself feel at such an invasion, and will not be +guilty towards another of a wrong, of which you would complain loudly +if it were offered to yourself. + +After all, _walking_ is the cheapest exercise, and, perhaps, the best. +If you wish to give it variety, you will find plenty of ditches to leap, +steeps to ascend, and hills to run up or down. And, dull as are most of +the great roads leading into Oxford, the country round abounds in +interesting objects within reach of a walk. There is much natural +scenery, possessed of a good deal of variety and picturesque character; +and there are many buildings, and remains of buildings, which either +from something in themselves, or from adventitious circumstances, well +deserve to be looked at. The church at Cumnor, for instance, not only +has within itself much to interest a man fond of architectural or +antiquarian investigation, but, in common with the remains or site of +Cumnor hall, and the village of Dry Sandford, have acquired a sort of +classical notoriety from the magical pen of Sir Walter Scott. The +picturesque ruins of the kitchen, and other buildings at Stanton +Harcourt, the slight vestiges of Godston Nunnery, the Town Hall, the +Gaol, and the two churches at Abingdon, may all become, each in its +turn, the object of a pedestrian expedition. The residence of the +Speaker, Lenthall, at Bessilsleigh, may deserve notice, from historical +recollections, though for no other reason. The Saxon church in Iffley I +have already mentioned. The recently-built Saxon chapel at Kennington is +done in excellent taste, and is a most gratifying instance of the +munificence and piety of an individual clergyman, devoting, I believe, +almost all his resources to the work. The church at Wytham will show you +that a church very lately erected may, by correct judgment, be made to +present the appearance of having been built five hundred years ago. But +I must not go on in this way, or you will think that you have got hold +of an Oxford guide. Most of the villages and village churches in the +neighbourhood, have some character of their own worth examining. + +So much for amusements connected with exercise, which has led me into +something like a repetition of some of the sentiments in a former +letter. + +A few words on sedentary amusements. + +If you read _in earnest_, and are bent upon making the most of your +time, you will have little of it left for amusements of a sedentary +nature. + +The less you have to do with cards the better. Young men can have no +occasion for the assistance of cards in order to pass their time; and +there seems to be something almost incongruous in the idea of _their_ +sitting down to a rubber. Nor do they need the excitement: if they wish +for it, that very wish is a reason why they ought not to have it. If +they play for money--or, at all events, if they play for such sums as +make the winning or losing an object of any degree of consequence--they +become gamblers; and of the many bad passions which gambling sometimes +calls into activity, and of the destructive consequences which it +entails, no one is ignorant. If you once get into the habit of playing, +you will, perhaps, not know when to stop. Cards are very seductive, and +you may find yourself become a gambler almost before you are aware of +it. Perhaps the best plan is _not to know_ how to play, which furnishes +an answer always ready. + +Chess is a game of elegance and interest, and the being a good +chess-player, carries with it a certain impression of general ability +and of intellectual activity and resource. Perhaps I may allow that +playing at chess adds a certain degree of interest to the perusal of the +history of a campaign, whether ancient or modern, with its various +moves, its checks and counter-checks, its retreats and _castlings_. But +chess is a fascinating game, and will be apt to make larger demands upon +your time than you can afford. If you indulge in it at all, you must be +peremptory with yourself in resisting its tendency to incroach either +upon your time or your _temper_. Sometimes, too, it requires so much +exertion of thought,--is such a strain upon the mind,--that it hardly +can answer the purposes of relaxation. If you play, by all means read +Franklin's Essay on the Morals of Chess. For clearness of head, for +truth-telling simplicity and honesty of purpose, and for perspicuity and +liveliness of style, Franklin has, perhaps, no superior. + +Always recollect that improvement, moral and intellectual, is the great +object for which you were sent to Oxford. With that object nothing must +be suffered to interfere. + + I remain, &c. &c. + + + + +LETTER VIII. + +EXPENSES, AND RUNNING IN DEBT. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +I do not know exactly what allowance your father has been able to give +you, but whatever it may be, I trust that you are resolutely determined +to keep within it. This will, of course, require a good deal of care and +attention. Many young men, when, upon going to the University, they find +in their pockets a much larger sum than they ever possessed before, +fancy themselves rich, and at liberty to allow themselves various +unnecessary indulgences. The consequence is, that they become entangled +in debts, from which they can never extricate themselves during their +continuance at Oxford. Be on your guard against getting thus hampered. +Take it for granted, that the regular and necessary claims upon your +finances will leave but little over for the indulgence of pleasure or +fancy. + +The expenses of an University education are often most unfairly +exaggerated by writers and speakers, who are fond of running down all +old institutions. These carpers affect to set down to the score of the +University all the money that is spent by the young men who reside in +it. They seem to forget that, wherever a young man may be, he must eat +and drink, and must purchase clothes suitable to his station in society. +I was myself, as you probably know, at Christ Church, where I took my +degree, and afterwards became a Fellow of Oriel. At Oriel, (which may +probably be taken as a fair average of the rest of the University,) the +_necessary_ annual expenses of a commoner are from 70l. to 80l., or +thereabouts[101:1]. This includes room-rent, batels, (that is, +breakfast, dinner, &c. _exclusive_ of tea and sugar), tuition, +University and College dues, coals, letters, washing, servants. The +University dues are less than 1l. per annum. There are, perhaps, few +places in England, where a gentleman can be comfortably lodged and +boarded at a much cheaper rate. Still there will always be many +incidental expenses, and you must put in practice a pretty severe +economy in order to meet them. + +In the manner in which you spend your money, as in every thing else, +accustom yourself to a certain degree of self-denial. Do not buy any +thing merely because it hits your fancy, and you think you should _like +to have it_, but consider whether you cannot easily _do without it_. Be +as liberal as you can reasonably afford to be in assisting others, +especially the poor, but spend as little as you can help upon yourself. +Above all, never buy, or order, any thing which you are unable to pay +for. + +The habit of running in debt is pregnant with evil and misery of every +description. It often--perhaps generally--amounts to positive +dishonesty. The money which you owe a tradesman is really his property. +The articles, which you have received from him, are hardly your own, +until you have paid for them. If you keep them, without paying for them +when the seller wishes and asks for payment, you deprive a man of that +which belongs to him; and is not that something approaching to robbery? +To a man possessed of proper feeling and a nice sense of honour, it must +be very painful to suffer a tradesman to ask twice for what is clearly +his right. To affect to be offended with such an application, and to +meet it with superciliousness and insolence, is injustice carried to its +height. + +The manner in which some men, who would be ready to shoot any one who +disputed their claims to be considered as gentlemen, treat their +creditors, whom they choose to call _duns_, would, from its contrariety +to any thing like reason, be almost ludicrous, if it were not so +culpable, so cruel, and so dishonest. + +A tradesman, from not being able to recover the money owed to him, sees +himself in danger of losing his credit, and, together with his credit, +the means of getting a maintenance; he sees his wife and children +perhaps upon the very verge of misery, and yet, if he civilly asks for +what is his due, he is considered as troublesome and impertinent, +perhaps reproached and insulted! + +Upon this subject I shall allow myself to quote the words of Delany, the +friend of Dean Swift, one of the most animated and sensible of our +sermon writers. + +"Running in debt with tradesmen, and neglecting to pay them in due time, +is utterly ruinous to the whole business of trade and commerce, and +absolutely destructive of the very principles upon which it is built, +and by which it subsists; and yet this is a crime every day committed by +men of fortune and quality, with as little remorse as they eat and +drink; and if the tradesman demands his money, it is odds but he is +either threatened or turned into a jest. The son of Sirach's wise +observation is here every day verified, merely substituting the words +_rich_ and _poor_, for the words _debtor_ and _creditor_. _The debtor +hath done wrong, and yet he threateneth; the creditor is wronged, and +yet he must entreat also._ If threats will not rid these men of their +importunate creditors, then are they to be deluded with fair words and +plausible excuses, to pay attendance from day to day, to the loss of +more time, and neglect of more business, than perhaps the debt is worth; +and so the first injury, instead of being repaired is doubled. And yet +the _gentleman_ debtor, the author of this evil, is so far from +repenting of it, that it is odds but he vaunts his wit and dexterity in +doing it. _As a mad man_ (saith Solomon) _who casteth firebrands, +arrows, and death: so is the man that deceiveth his neighbour, and +saith, Am I not in jest?_ And, indeed, it is scarce to be conceived how +any man can deal more destruction and ruin around him, than by deceiving +and breaking faith with the fair trader; for it is well known, his +credit, his whole subsistence, depends upon keeping his word, and being +strictly punctual in his payments and his promises; and, if he fail in +these, he is undone at once. And how is it possible he should not fail, +if the gentlemen he deals with fail him? He hath no way of raising money +but by sale of his goods; and if those to whom they are trusted will not +pay him, it is impossible he can pay his creditors; and, if he do not +pay them, it is impossible but he must be ruined, and, perhaps, many +more with him. For traders are linked and dependent on one another; and +one man's fall throws down many more with him: the shop-keeper is in +debt to the maker or the merchant; and these again to the journeyman, +the farmer, or the foreign correspondent; and so the ruin becomes +complicated, and extended beyond imagination!" + +"Credit is to a tradesman what honour is to a gentleman: to a man that +is truly such, (a gentleman,) his honour is as dear as his life: to the +trader, credit is as life itself; for he cannot live without it." + +You, my dear nephew, will never, I trust, stoop so low as to be guilty +of such dishonesty. But then you must keep a vigilant eye upon your +expenses. Paying ready money for every thing may be sometimes +inconvenient, and may, perhaps, occasion mistakes; but never leave +Oxford for a vacation without clearing off every thing that you owe. +Take receipts, and keep them. The most honest and respectable tradesman +may sometimes, in the hurry of business, omit to cross a charge out of +his book, and will feel a satisfaction in having any doubt as to payment +removed. Have such receipts tied up and docketed, so that you may refer +to any one of them readily. + +Never suffer yourself to be led into needless expense by the example of +your companions, and never be ashamed of saying that you cannot afford +it. + +We sometimes see weak young men vying with each other in the expensive +elegance of their furniture and dress, or in the luxury of their +entertainments. A man of large fortune produces at his table a variety +of costly wines, abundance of ice, and a splendid dessert. Others, from +a silly vanity, affect to do the same, although such expensive luxuries +are altogether inconsistent with their finances, and with the general +habits of men in their rank of life. The more such expenses and foolish +ostentation can be checked by the college _authorities_ the better. At +all events, do not _you_ be so weak as to fall into them. There is no +disgrace in being poor, but there is disgrace and dishonesty too, in +contracting debts which you are unable to discharge. + +Some young Oxonians, I am afraid, after spending the larger portion of +their allowance upon amusements and self-indulgence, drive off the +payment of what they regard as their more _creditable_ debts till they +take their degree, under the idea that they will then be paid by their +fathers. This is a most unwarrantable,--sometimes a _cruel_,--drain upon +parental kindness. Poets may well speak of university expenses "pinching +parents black and blue[112:1]," when this is the case. + +The majority of parents, as I have already said, do not send their sons +to the University without some degree of pecuniary inconvenience to +themselves. It is, indeed, hard upon them, when, in addition to an +annual allowance, which, probably, they have furnished not without +difficulty, they are called upon for a considerable sum, in order to +save their sons' credit--perhaps in order to enable him to take his +degree. For you are aware that an unpaid tradesman has the power, if he +thinks fit to exert it, of stopping the degree of a spendthrift +under-graduate. This power, I believe, is seldom, if ever, exercised. +But surely the being liable to it, through your own misconduct and +extravagance, would be attended with a feeling of painful humiliation. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[101:1] June, 1832. + +[112:1] Cowper. + + + + +LETTER IX. + +TEMPERANCE. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +In the present state of society, it is, perhaps, less necessary than it +would have been formerly, that I should give you any caution or advice +on the subject of _temperance_. Five-and-thirty years ago, it was +customary to drink a good deal of wine after dinner, and young men at +Oxford were not behind-hand with the rest of the world in complying with +this bad custom. + +It was _then_ generally the system, to initiate a freshman by making +him completely drunk. Scripture is by no means sufficiently listened to +_now_, but perhaps its warnings were less known and less regarded +_then_. The master of the revels and his abettors were ignorant, or +unmindful, of the threatenings denounced by the voice of +Inspiration,--_Woe unto him that giveth his neighbour drink, that +puttest thy bottle to him, and makest him drunken also_: and again--_Woe +unto them that are mighty to drink wine, and men of strength to mingle +strong drink_. Regardless of these denunciations, and trusting to the +strength of their own heads, and the practised discipline of their own +stomachs, their _noble_ ambition was to make drunk as many of their +guests as possible, especially any luckless freshman who chanced to be +of the party. Those who, whether from religious principle or from +manliness of character, did not choose to submit to be made drunk, were +obliged either to encounter these _kind_ endeavours with sturdy +resistance,--resistance which sometimes occasioned a total cessation of +intercourse and acquaintance,--or to evade them by stratagem. Glass +after glass was dexterously emptied upon the carpet under the table, or +the purple stream sought concealment under heaps of walnut-shells and +orange-peel. In short, at a tolerably large wine-party there was wasted, +or _worse than wasted_, a quantity of Port wine sufficient to check the +ravages of a typhus fever in an entire village. + +These days of _Celtic barbarism_ are, I hope, utterly passed away. As in +general society very little wine is consumed, (_excepting at dinner_,) +so Oxford has caught the spirit of the times, and the bacchanalian +revels to which I have alluded are, I believe, much less common than +they were formerly, if not entirely exploded. I am afraid, however, that +even now more wine is drunk in some colleges, than is consistent either +with Christian temperance, or with habits of study, or with the +preservation of health. + +I need not point out to _you_, my dear nephew, the evils which, in a +religious point of view, result from drinking to excess. You, I well +know, would shudder at the idea of wilfully depriving yourself of +reason, and of sinking yourself to the situation of a beast or of a +maniac. A man, who has thrown away his reason, has little right to hope +for the continuance of the assisting and preventing grace of God. And +destitute of the controlling guidance, both of reason and of Divine +Grace, what is there left to prevent his ungoverned passions from +carrying him into the most perilous excesses? There are deadly vices, to +which young men are, at all times, but too powerfully solicited by their +natural appetites; and when those appetites are stimulated by drinking, +and all salutary control shaken off, the danger is great indeed. You +perhaps may remember an Eastern apologue to the following effect, (I +know not where to find it): The Devil having, by the impulse of terror, +induced a holy man to consent to commit _some_ crime, allowed him to +choose, whether he would get drunk, or be guilty of either of two of the +most horrible enormities he could conceive. The poor victim chose +drunkenness, as being the least offence, but in the state to which he +had thus brought himself, was guilty of all three. + +And even if you are kept back from any additional guilt, yet you well +know, that by throwing away your reason, you become capable of being +guilty of all sorts of absurdities,--that you are liable to say and do a +hundred foolish things, of which, when you return to your senses, you +will be heartily ashamed,--that you expose yourself to the ridicule and +contempt of those, who witness the degraded state to which you have +reduced yourself. + +A drunken _Christian_ is almost a contradiction in terms; and something +the same may be said of a drunken _gentleman_. Among many in the middle +and the industrious classes of society, there is much intelligence, much +quick perception of what is morally right, and of general propriety of +behaviour. As such men are not backward in shewing respect, where +respect is really due, so they are keen-sighted in detecting gross +inconsistencies of conduct, and ready to bestow the full measure of +contempt upon those, who, while placed above them by the advantages of +birth, and fortune, and education, yet meanly condescend, by their vices +and their excesses, to degrade themselves below them. + +The inconsistency of any excess in drinking, with the main purpose for +which you were sent to Oxford, is palpable. You go to Oxford professedly +for study. Independently of the time actually occupied by a wine-party, +any excess will, probably, indispose you for study the morning after; + + Corpus onustum + Hesternis vitiis animum quoque prægravat una, + Atque affigit humo divinæ particulam auræ. + +You will rise from your bed heavy and languid, probably with some +disposition to headache; and will be far more inclined to lounge in an +easy-chair, or to saunter about in listless idleness, than to sit down +to active mental exertion. + +I must add, that the habit of drinking much wine during your continuance +at Oxford, is not unlikely materially to injure your health in the +succeeding periods of your life. Such habit has a tendency permanently +to derange and weaken the digestive powers, and to injure and harden the +internal coats and the orifices of the stomach. I am persuaded, that +much of the tendency to apoplectic and paralytic affections; much of the +general indisposition, which we often witness in men advanced beyond the +middle period of the usual term of human life,--men who have of late +perhaps, lived temperately--is to be attributed to the wine which they +drank when young. + +But I will not dwell longer on the evils of excessive drinking. You know +the admonitions of Scripture,--_Take heed lest at any time your hearts +be overcharged with surfeiting and drunkenness. Be not drunk with wine, +wherein is excess._ You know that _drunkards cannot inherit the kingdom +of God_; you know that drunkenness is spoken of by St. Paul as being the +vice of those, who remain sunk in the thick darkness of ignorance and +heathenism, and as utterly unbefitting those who are blessed with the +light of the Gospel. Indeed, it is unworthy of any man possessed only of +common sense. + +Guard, then, my dear nephew, against this degrading habit with +determined resolution. Let neither the example, nor the solicitations, +nor the taunting jests of your companions, induce you to demean yourself +so far, as to be guilty of a vice so utterly unworthy of you, both as a +man and as a Christian. If they, for their amusement, were to request +you to cut off your right hand, you would not feel bound to comply with +them. Do not, for their gratification, expose yourself in the condition +of a fool, or an idiot. Do not, in order to please a party of +thoughtless revellers, incur the displeasure of Almighty God, and run +the hazard of eternal ruin. + +And take care, that you do not yourself _acquire_ a taste for any such +sensual indulgences. "The appetite for intoxicating liquors," says +Paley, "appears to be almost always _acquired_." Guard against the first +beginnings of intemperance. _Principiis obsta._ If you are not on your +guard, you will be in danger of being carried on, step by step, until +retreat becomes out of the question. + +You would avoid many trials of your firmness, and be relieved probably +from much irksome importunity, if you could make up your mind to +renounce wine altogether. This you would do with the less difficulty, if +backed by the sanction of medical advice. I apprehend that most medical +men, if desired to give their _candid_ opinion, would recommend +abstinence from wine as conducive to a _young_ man's health both of body +and mind. I knew _water-drinkers_ at Oxford, who yielded to none of +their companions in liveliness and all social qualities, either in their +own room or at the wine-party of a friend. Many young men in the army, +I believe, adopt this system, from motives both of moral and of +economical prudence. A pint, or even half a pint, of wine per day, makes +a considerable hole in the pay of a subaltern, or in the stipend of a +country curate, or in the allowance of a briefless barrister. Avoid +acquiring factitious wants. Do not by habit make wine necessary to your +comfort. It is wise, when young, not to indulge in luxuries which in any +future period of your life you probably will not be able to afford, +consistently with the claims which will then be pressing upon you. I +throw out this idea, however, for your own consideration, without urging +it as matter of positive advice. I think, however, that your intellect +will be clearer, and your mind often more cheerful, if you comply with +the suggestion. + +Shall I add a word or two upon temperance in _eating_? I hope that there +are few young men who are apt to be guilty of the _porcine_ vice of +eating to excess; in plain English--of _gluttony_. Perhaps, however, the +temptations of a well-appointed dinner, prepared by an exquisite +_artiste_, may induce them occasionally to transgress. It is, perhaps, +hardly fair to quote from any thing so well known as Addison's paper on +Temperance, in the Spectator[128:1], but it is much to my purpose. "It +is said of Diogenes, that meeting a young man who was going to a feast, +he took him up in the street, and carried him home to his friends, as +one who was running into imminent danger, had not he prevented him. What +would that philosopher have said, had he been present at the luxury of a +modern meal? Would he not have thought the master of a family mad, and +have begged his servants to tie down his hands, had he seen him devour +fowl, fish, and flesh; swallow oil and vinegar, wines and spices; throw +down salads of twenty different sorts, sauces of a hundred ingredients, +confections and fruits of numberless sweets and flavours? What unnatural +motions and counter-ferments must such a medley of intemperance produce +in the body? For my part, when I behold a fashionable table, set out in +all its magnificence, I fancy that I see gouts and dropsies, fevers and +lethargies, with innumerable distempers, lying in ambuscade among the +dishes." + +"Nature delights in the most plain and simple diet." He then gives some +rules for temperance, which are well worth attending to. This passage of +Addison is much in the spirit of that of Horace: + + ----"Variæ res + Ut noceant homini, credas, memor illius escæ + Quæ simplex olim tibi sederit. At simul assis + Miscueris elixa, simul conchylia turdis; + Dulcia se in bilem vertent, stomachoque tumultum + Lenta feret pituita." + +Most of the modern writers on dietetics, as well as those who have +preceded them, recommend a very considerable abridgment of the quantity +of food, usually consumed at the table of the affluent. + +And while I strongly advise you to be rather abstemious as to _quantity_ +of food, so I wish you not to be in the slightest degree fastidious as +to its _quality_, provided it is wholesome, and free from qualities +absolutely revolting. You may naturally like one thing better than +another, and partake of what you prefer, when it comes in your way; but +it is painful to see a young man of any intellect indulging in the +niceties of an epicure, and really appearing to care much about what he +eats, and what he drinks. When I commenced the life of a country +clergyman, I was often received, with almost parental kindness, in a +house, in which good taste of all kinds,--moral, intellectual, social, +and _culinary_,--presided in an eminent degree. Every now and then, some +particular dish made its appearance, under the impression that I was +particularly fond of it. Probably I had eaten of it some days before, +because it chanced to be near me, or from some similar accident. I was +grateful for the kindness and attention, but felt mortified, almost +degraded, at its being supposed that I cared about one thing more than +another, where all were good and wholesome. + +Do not get into the habit of spending your money in ices, and other +delicacies, at the pastry-cook's and confectioner's. You say that you +are hungry;-- + + "--------Panis + Latrantem stomachum bene leniet." + +If your hunger would disdain a piece of dry bread, it certainly has no +claim to be attended to at all. You say that you can _afford_ to indulge +yourself in the delicacies to which I have alluded. I do not think that +you can; at all events, your money may be more worthily spent-- + + "Non est melius quo insumere possis? + Cur eget indignus quisquam, te divite? Quare + Templa ruunt antiqua Deûm?" + +In other words, if you have the money to spare, give it to the +deserving poor, or to the Church-building Society. Few expenses are +more unsatisfactory in retrospect,--I had almost said, more +_disgraceful_,--than those which have been incurred by sensual +self-indulgence; incurred to gratify a vitiated palate and a pampered +appetite. + +Self-denial is recommended by the classical writers of antiquity, as +well as by the most sensible of modern authors; and, what is of +infinitely more importance, is strongly inculcated by the Christian +religion. But how shall self-denial be practised _at all_, if it cannot +be practised in the low matter of eating and drinking? + +Read again and again the paper of Addison, and the Satire of Horace, +(the second of the second Book), from which I have made my quotations. +Read also the following passages from that accurate observer of the +habits and manners of social life, the son of Sirach: + +_If thou sit at a bountiful table, be not greedy upon it, and say not, +There is much meat on it.--Eat, as it becometh a man, those things that +are set before thee; and devour not, lest thou be hated. Leave off +first for manners' sake; and be not insatiable, lest thou offend._ + +_A very little is sufficient for a man well nurtured, and he fetcheth +not his wind short upon his bed._ + +_Sound sleep cometh of moderate eating; he riseth early, and his wits +are with him: but the pain of watching, and choler, and pangs of the +belly, are with an insatiable man._ + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[128:1] No. 195. + + + + +LETTER X. + +ENGLISH READING. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +When at Oxford, you will not have much time for any reading, excepting +that which has some reference to your examination. During the vacations, +however, which occupy about half the year, you are more at liberty, and +will do well, as I have already suggested to you, to give a good deal of +your leisure to increasing your acquaintance with the classical writers +of your own language. + +Both at Oxford and home, endeavour, on most days, to catch some little +portion of time,--a quarter of an hour may be sufficient,--for religious +reading. Melmoth's "Great Importance of a Religious Life," and the +abridgment of Law's "Serious Call," adopted by the Society for Promoting +Christian Knowledge, are two of the best books that occur to me, for the +purpose of impressing you with the absolute necessity, of giving +religion the first place in your thoughts and your heart. You may read +either of them through in an hour. Of the former, 42,000 copies were +sold in the eighteen years preceding 1784. I mention this as an evidence +of its popularity. + +Some thirty years ago I was requested by a friend, to recommend some +practical book to put into the hands of a young person. I named Nelson's +"Practice of True Devotion," and have since seen no reason to alter my +opinion. Let that be one of the first books that you make use of. If you +read _one_ chapter each day (and do not read more), it will last you +about three weeks. After an interval of a year or so, go through it +again. + +Take next for this purpose Jeremy Taylor's "Holy Living and Dying," +first reading (if you can borrow the book) what is said of this work by +his highly-gifted and most amiable editor, Bishop Heber. One passage +from Heber's remarks I must allow myself to quote: "But I will not +select, where all may be read with advantage, and can hardly be read +without admiration. To clothe virtue in its most picturesque and +attractive colouring; to enforce with all the terrors of the divine law, +its essential obligations; and to distinguish, in almost every instance +most successfully, between what is prudent and what is necessary; what +may fitly be done, and what cannot safely be left undone;--this is the +triumph of a Christian moralist; and this Jeremy Taylor has, in a great +degree, achieved in his Discourse on Holy Living." You will recollect +that this book was written nearly two hundred years ago, and must not be +surprised if you find a few expressions, and one or two sentiments, +rather obsolete. One of the five rules which Taylor gives in his +Dedication, "for the application of the counsels which follow," applies +to all books of a similar character. "They that will, with profit, make +use of the proper instruments of virtue, must so live as if they were +always under the physician's hand. For the counsels of religion are not +to be applied to the distempers of the soul, as men used to take +hellebore; _but they must dwell together with the spirit of a man, and +be twisted about his understanding for ever: they must be used like +nourishment, that is, by a daily care and meditation_--not like a single +medicine, and upon the actual pressure of a present necessity." + +The genuine spirit of Jeremy Taylor, with more correctness of taste, is +found in that delightful book, "The Christian Year." Read it repeatedly. +It is every where full of poetry, and of the purest devotional feeling. +The more you are imbued with the spirit which pervades that beautiful +volume, the more fit you will be to have your part in "the communion of +saints," among _the spirits of just men made perfect_. + +Archbishop Seeker's Lectures on the Catechism, contain a body of +divinity, doctrinal and practical, singularly judicious and useful. They +are full of good sense and accurate information. The style, perhaps, is +rather involved, and not very engaging; but you see a mind in full +possession of its subject, anxious to put you in full possession of it +also, without omitting any thing of importance. + +Gilpin's Lectures on the Catechism are of a different character. This +also is a very good and a very pleasing book, written with a particular +view to young persons engaged in reading the Greek and Latin Classics. + +Ogden's Sermons, on Prayer, the Creed, and the Ten Commandments, &c. are +the offspring of a clear and powerful intellect, expressed in language +remarkably perspicuous and elegant. + +_After_ these books, take some opportunity of reading the Sermons of +Bishop Butler, including the Preface. This is not a book to be read in a +room full of brothers and sisters. It demands close attention, and will +give some exercise to all your intellectual powers; but it richly merits +to have such attention and pains bestowed upon it. It deserves, indeed +requires, more than a single reading. After Butler's Sermons read his +"Analogy." + +You will do well, at any odd intervals, or _snatches_ of time, to make +yourself familiar with Addison and Johnson. False delicacy shall not +prevent me from recommending the selection from the writings of Addison +which I made a few years ago. My reasons for making such selection are +given in the Preface. The same reasons now induce me to recommend it to +you. + +Johnson requires no pruning. You can hardly read a paper in the Rambler +or Idler, and, I will add, the Adventurer, without deriving from it some +improvement, either moral or intellectual, or both. The structure and +cadence of Johnson's sentences is certainly monotonous; but I seldom +read half a page without being struck by the depth of his thought, the +accuracy and minuteness of his observation, and the astonishing extent +of his multifarious reading. + +In order to enter with more discrimination into the style of our +different authors, read often "Blair's Lectures." They are, I believe, +sometimes spoken slightingly of by men of learning; I, however, as an +unlearned man, think them particularly useful. The Lecture on the Origin +of Language, indeed, the absurdity of which has been exposed with so +much playfulness by Cowper, might well have been omitted. + +I have already advised you, during the two longer vacations, to acquire, +or to keep up, some knowledge of modern history. Russell's "Modern +Europe" is, upon the whole, a useful book. It is, perhaps, too +compendious; and I dislike its being given in the form of letters. +Robertson's "Charles the Fifth" you have probably read already; if not, +read it carefully when, in Russell, you arrive at the period at which it +commences. Pay particular attention to the First Book. Perhaps Robertson +was not sufficiently impressed with the importance and the effects of +the Reformation in Germany; and he formed, I think, an unfair estimate +of the character and motives of Luther. This matter will, I doubt not, +be shortly set right in the Life of Luther about to be given to the +public by one of the ablest and most learned men of the present +day[147:1]. + +With respect to the history of our own country, I hardly know what +advice to give you. Hume's style is very pleasing, but he cannot be +implicitly depended on, especially where religion and the ministers of +religion are concerned. + +Henry's "History of Great Britain" is a very good and accurate book; but +the continuity of the narrative is broken by the multiplicity of +divisions in each period, (learning, arts, commerce, manners, &c. &c.), +and by the transitions to the history of Scotland. + +Lingard I have not read; I am told that his style is good, and his +information extensive. It was natural that, as a zealous Romanist, he +should seek to extenuate the faults of men of his own persuasion, and to +exaggerate the failings, and place in an unfavourable point of view the +motives and actions of the assailants of Popery; but he has, I think, +been fully convicted of carrying misrepresentation beyond all reasonable +bounds. There was but too much of bigotry and persecution on both sides. + +Turner's History is, I believe, strictly honest and impartial, and a +work of prodigious labour and research. + +But in our attention to prose writers, we must not forget the classical +poets of our own country. Make yourself familiarly acquainted with +Shakspeare, Milton, and Pope. The more you read of Young and Cowper, the +better. Young is sometimes turgid, with a good deal of bad taste; but he +abounds in real poetry, and in strong truths most forcibly expressed. +Cowper sometimes carries simplicity to the verge of being prosaic; but +he is generally graceful, often pathetic, and sometimes approaches to +sublimity. Of both, it was the common object to increase the influence +of genuine Christianity; of both, the perusal has a direct tendency to +make you a better and a more religious man. + +Two of our most distinguished living poets--Sir Walter Scott and +Southey--have seen their poetry cast into shade by the popularity of +their own prose. The poems of both will live, and have justice done them +by posterity. "Madoc" was many years ago recommended to me by one of the +most able, and most candid, of our living authors. I read it with much +interest. "The Curse of Kehama" is full of high and wild poetry; and +"Roderick, the last of the Goths" gives a noble picture of deep +penitence and of devoted patriotism. You will hardly read any ten lines +of the longer poems of Sir Walter Scott, without meeting with some +striking beauty of expression or of sentiment. + +I am afraid, however, that the English poets, both those of former times +and those of the present day, have been, in great measure, superseded, +among you young Oxonians, by Lord Byron. In almost every +under-graduate's room that I happen to enter, _he_ seems to have taken +possession. Lord Byron, as a poet, has certainly many transcendant +merits,--merits which are peculiarly fascinating to young men. The +interest which I,--which _every one_,--naturally must feel in the moral +and intellectual habits and pursuits of such an important portion of the +community, makes me deeply lament the noble poet's excessive popularity +among you. I am perfectly aware, that by the following remarks I shall +expose myself to the indignation of some men, and, possibly, to the +contempt of others: but I feel that my opinion on this subject is not +taken up on slight grounds; and I _must say my say_. + +The publication of Lord Byron's life and correspondence has contributed, +a good deal, to divest him of that mystery, which hung about him, and in +which he himself so much delighted; and has brought him down rather +more to the level of ordinary mortals. They show him to us as a man +possessed of splendid talents, of extensive and various attainments, and +of the _seeds_ of many noble and generous qualities; but as a man +actuated by ungovernable passions, and by an overweening opinion of his +own superiority to all other mortals. _Self_, whether intellectual or +sensual, seems to have been the idol that he worshipped. _His own_ +antient family, _his own_ talents, _his own_ attainments, _his own_ +whims, _his own_ passions, _his own_ excesses, seem all to have +furnished food for his vanity, because they were _his own_. + +I acknowledge that, in all the circumstances of his _bringing up_, he +was singularly unfortunate. His early destitution, the character and +habits of his mother, the neglect of his noble relations, the venal +praises of his parasites and dependents, all acted upon his character +with pernicious influence. + + "Untaught in youth his heart to tame, + His springs of life were poison'd." + +He was sensitively alive to all the beauties and the sublimities of +external nature, and had a most penetrating insight into the complicated +feelings, and the various workings of the human heart, with all its +passions and affections; consequently, he abounds in passages of great +beauty, and of singular strength and power. The gratification derived +from the perusal of such passages, however, to a man at least who really +believes himself to be an immortal and a responsible being, is but a +poor compensation for the moral effects of many of his poems, his +_later_ poems more especially[155:1]. They too often appear to breathe a +spirit of engrossing selfishness; a spirit of captious and gloomy +scepticism,--scepticism extending, not only to revelation, but to the +primary truths of what is called natural religion, and even the most +acknowledged bonds of moral obligation. The tendency of his writings is +to make you dissatisfied with almost every thing, and every body in this +world, and at the same time to unfit you for the world to come; indeed, +to make you doubt, whether the idea of a world to come is not altogether +a mere delusion. + +Lord Byron particularly excels in describing female loveliness, and the +effect which such loveliness produces upon the ardent temperament of +youth. In fact, the feeling within themselves so much that responds to +these descriptions, is one great cause of the popularity of Lord Byron +among young people. The sensations to which I allude, however, are of +themselves but too importunate. It is most unwise to excite them,--to +give them additional energy,--by the perusal of the high-wrought and +glowing descriptions of this poet of the passions. + +I had heard much of Don Juan, and felt some curiosity to read it; but I +was aware of the manner in which bold and flippant ribaldry sometimes +takes hold of the mind, even when shocked at it. I knew well, that human +nature has in itself but too much of passion and sensuality, without +needing any additional stimulus. I was unwilling "to soil my mind" when +I could avoid it. For my own sake, I was unwilling to see the most +destructive vices treated as mere matter of jest, and the most awful +truths of religion introduced in connexion with ludicrous images, and +spoken of in the language of mockery. However much our judgment may +disapprove of these things, yet the ludicrous passages and images are +too apt to stick by us, even when we most wish to shake them off. + +A book was advertised, called "The Beauties of Don Juan, including those +passages only which are calculated to extend the real fame of Lord +Byron." The editor acknowledges that the poem itself, from the unpruned +luxuriance of the author's powers, "has remained a sealed +volume"--certainly it _ought_ to be a _sealed volume_--"to the fairest +portion of the community." This _expurgate_ selection, however, though +it contains many passages of great beauty, is a book which I should be +sorry indeed to place in the hands of any young lady; and one against +which I would _forewarn_ every young man, who is not prepared to run the +risk of sacrificing, at the shrine of genius, Christian faith, and +Christian soberness, and Christian purity. + +The description of the shipwreck had been spoken of as particularly +fine. I read it. Not long since several accounts of actual shipwrecks +and disasters at sea were published[159:1]. Some of these accounts, are +among the most interesting and edifying narratives, that I am acquainted +with. They abound in instances of heroic courage, of unshaken endurance, +of a noble disregard of self, of the warmest benevolence, and of the +most exalted piety. Don Juan seems to have taken a wayward pleasure in +culling from these narratives the most distressing and painful facts, +and then mixing them up in doggrel verse, with ludicrous images and +ludicrous rhymes; the main _wit_ often consisting in some unexpected +absurdity of sound or cadence. + +One of the most dreadful consequences of shipwreck is, when a remnant of +the crew, cast off in an open boat, are reduced, by extremity of +hunger, to determine by lot, which of them shall first be made the food +of his companions. Even in such calamity, this perverse and bitter +spirit contrives to find matter for merriment. He laughed in himself +when he wrote the stanzas, and tries to make his readers laugh; though +they must feel indignant with themselves if they give way to the +impulse. + +I conclude my letter with two sayings of Bishop Horne's. "He who +sacrifices religion to wit, like the people mentioned by Ælian, worships +a fly, and offers up an ox to it." Again; "Sir Peter Lely made it a +rule, never to look at a bad picture, having found, by experience, +that, whenever he did so, his pencil took a tint from it. Apply this to +bad books and bad company." + +However brilliant the talents of a writer may be, yet, if a book has a +tendency to produce a bad effect upon the moral habits of the mind, that +book is a _bad_ book. + + "When I behold a genius bright and base, + Of tow'ring talents, and terrestrial aims; + Methinks I see, as thrown from her high sphere, + The glorious fragments of a soul immortal, + With rubbish mixt, and glitt'ring in the dust." + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[147:1] Rev. Hugh James Rose. + +[155:1] Childe Harold and the _four_ first tales (I am speaking only of +the larger works) are most free from objection, at the same time that +they are the most beautiful and interesting. + +[159:1] The Loss of the Kent, and Narratives of the Shipwrecks of the +Lady Hobart packet, the Cabalva, &c. &c. + + + + +PRAYERS + + +_A Prayer before Study._ + +(FROM DR. JOHNSON.) + +Almighty God, in whose hands are all the powers of man; who givest +understanding and takest it away; who, as it seemeth good unto thee, +enlightenest the thoughts of the simple, and darkenest the meditations +of the wise, be present with me in my studies and inquiries. + +Grant, O Lord, that I may not lavish away the life which thou hast given +me on useless trifles, nor waste it in vain searches after things which +thou hast hidden from me. + +Enable me, by thy Holy Spirit, so to shun sloth and negligence, that +every day may discharge part of the task which thou hast allotted me; +and so further with thy help that labour which, without thy help, must +be ineffectual, that I may obtain in all my undertakings such success as +will most promote thy glory, and the salvation of my own soul, for the +sake of Jesus Christ. + + +_Prayer after Time unprofitably spent._ + +(FROM DR. JOHNSON.) + +O Lord, in whose hands are life and death; by whose power I am +sustained, and by whose mercy I am spared, look down upon me with pity. +Forgive me, that I have this day neglected the duty which thou hast +assigned to it, and suffered the hours, of which I must give account, to +pass away without any endeavour to accomplish thy will, or to promote my +own salvation. Make me to remember, O God, that every day is thy gift, +and ought to be used according to thy command. Grant me, therefore, so +to repent of my negligence, that I may obtain mercy from thee, and pass +the time which thou shalt yet allow me in diligent performance of thy +commands, through Jesus Christ. _Amen._ + + +_Prayer for Temperance._ + +(FROM BISHOP JEREMY TAYLOR.) + +O Almighty God and gracious Father of men and angels, who openest thy +hand and fillest all things living with plenty; and hast provided for +thy servant sufficient to satisfy all my needs: teach me to use thy +creatures soberly and temperately, that I may not with loads of meat and +drink make the temptations of my enemy to prevail upon me, or my spirit +unapt for the performance of my duty, or my body healthless, or my +affections sensual and unholy. O my God, never suffer that the blessings +which thou givest me may minister either to sin or sickness, but to +health, and holiness, and thanksgiving; that in the strength of thy +provision I may cheerfully, and actively, and diligently serve thee; +that I may worthily feast at thy table here, and be accounted worthy, +through thy grace, to be admitted to thy table hereafter, through Jesus +Christ, our Mediator and Redeemer. _Amen._ + + +_Prayer for the right government of the tongue._ + +O God, watch over me this day for good; and grant that I may so keep +the door of my mouth that I may not speak unadvisedly with my lips. +Preserve me from offending with my tongue either against charity or +purity. Let me not be guilty of foolish and immodest talking and +jesting, of evil-speaking or censoriousness, or of any other of the many +sins of the tongue. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Advice to a Young Man upon First Going to Oxford + In Ten Letters, From an Uncle to His Nephew + +Author: Edward Berens + +Release Date: March 29, 2007 [EBook #20932] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK ADVICE TO A YOUNG MAN *** + + + + +Produced by Irma pehar, Louise Pryor and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net (This +file was produced from images generously made available +by The Internet Archive/Canadian Libraries) + + + + + +{Transcriber's note: + +Greek has been transliterated and is surrounded with ++: +makrothymei+} + + + + + LETTERS, + &c. + + + + + ADVICE TO A YOUNG MAN + + UPON + FIRST GOING TO OXFORD, + + IN + TEN LETTERS, + + FROM AN UNCLE TO HIS NEPHEW. + + * * * * * + + BY THE + REV. EDWARD BERENS, M.A. + LATE FELLOW OF ORIEL COLLEGE. + + * * * * * + + LONDON: + PRINTED FOR J. G. & F. RIVINGTON, + ST. PAUL'S CHURCH YARD, + AND WATERLOO PLACE, PALL MALL. + + * * * * * + + 1832. + + + + + LONDON: + GILBERT & RIVINGTON, PRINTERS, + St. John's Square. + + + + +I have long thought that a book was wanted, of the nature of that which +I have here attempted. How far I have succeeded in the attempt, the +public will determine. + +I have had,--have at present,--and (if I live,) expect to have +hereafter,--several nephews at Oxford; all having to make their own way +in the world, and all, consequently, having abundant reason for being +economical, both of their time and of their money, during their +residence at the University. These Letters were not addressed to any one +of them in particular, but are intended, like some official documents, +"for all whom they may concern." Perhaps I had more especially in view, +those of them who are destined for my own profession. + + E. B. + + + + +CONTENTS. + + + LETTER. PAGE. + + I. Sense of Religion 1 + + II. Choice of Friends 13 + + III. Conversation 27 + + IV. Against yielding to the Influence of Numbers 45 + + V. Improvement of Time 55 + + VI. Punctuality 72 + + VII. Amusements 85 + + VIII. Expenses, and running into Debt 99 + + IX. Temperance 114 + + X. English Reading 137 + + + + +LETTER I. + +SENSE OF RELIGION. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +It gives me sincere pleasure to hear that you have actually become a +member of the University of Oxford. This satisfaction, perhaps, may in +some degree be attributed to the pleasing recollection of my own Oxford +life, but certainly it arises principally from anticipation of the +substantial benefits which you, I trust, will derive from your connexion +with that seat of learning. At the same time, I will own that my +satisfaction is not entirely unmixed with something like apprehension. +An University education has many and great advantages, but it also is +attended with many temptations;--temptations to which too many young men +have yielded, sometimes to the great injury of their character, and the +utter ruin of all their future prospects. + +In fact, you are now entering upon the most important period--the +_turning point_--of your whole life. You have become, in a great +measure, your own master. For though you will be under a certain degree +of discipline and _surveillance_, yet in a multiplicity of cases you +will have to act for yourself--to take your own line. You will have to +contend against the allurements of pleasure and dissipation, and you +have just reached the age when the natural passions and appetites become +most impatient of restraint. At the same time, you will be exposed to +the influence both of the example and of the solicitations of lively +young men, who will try to carry you along with them in their career of +thoughtlessness and folly, and who will think it strange, and _show_ you +that they think it strange, if you run not with them to the same excess +of riot. Against all these moral trials and temptations, your best +safeguard will be found in a strong sense of religion, kept habitually +present to your mind. You must endeavour, according to the language of +Scripture--(and in writing to you I shall always gladly make use of the +very words of Scripture, when they suit my purpose, as having a force +and an authority which no other words can possess)--you must endeavour +to _set the Lord always before you_. Never for a moment forget that you +are continually in the presence of that awful Being, who can, and who +will, call you to a strict account for all that you do amiss. Nothing +can excuse your forgetting Him. + +If you at all believe in a Supreme Being, the Creator and Governor of +the world; if you believe that God is, and that he is a rewarder of them +that diligently seek him, and at the same time an avenger to execute +wrath upon every soul that doeth evil, the least particle of common +sense or common feeling will tell you, that nothing should be put in +competition with his will. When his will is clear, it _must_ be obeyed +without hesitation. I am sure that you will assent to this. If religion +is any thing, it is _every thing_. It is, indeed, the one thing needful, +in comparison with which every thing else sinks into insignificance, +into nothingness. + +Endeavour, then, to keep up in your mind and heart this habitual sense +of religion by every means in your power. It will require from you +considerable care and attention. The lively spirits natural to your time +of life, and the thoughtless levity of some of the young men into whose +society you will be thrown, will have a tendency to make you think less +of religion, if not to induce you entirely to forget it. Be ever on your +guard against thus swerving from your allegiance to your Creator. + +Nothing will contribute more to preserve you from this danger than +regularity and earnestness in your private devotions. When you rise in +the morning, seek from God spiritual strength to enable you to resist +and overcome the temptations to which you may be exposed during the day. +Every night implore his forgiveness for your many failings and +transgressions, and his protection against the dangers which surround +you. Suffer nothing to induce you to neglect private prayer. + +You will of course be required every day to attend chapel. Consider +such attendance not as an irksome duty, not as a mere matter of routine +and college discipline, but try to regard it as a privilege, and to take +a real interest and pleasure in it. Acquire the habit of joining +fervently in the prayers, and of constantly deriving from the lessons +and other portions of Scripture, the doctrinal and practical instruction +which they were intended to convey. Many college chapels are furnished +with Greek Testaments and Septuagints. You will judge from experience, +whether following the lessons in the Greek assists in fixing your +attention, or whether it diverts it from the matter to the language. My +own opinion is in favour of the practice. + +Make a point of giving to Sunday as much of a religious character as +you can. I am not recommending a Jewish strictness. Let Sunday be a day +of cheerfulness; but let your reading and your thoughts, as far as may +be, partake of the sacred character of the day. + +The study of the Scriptures constitutes an important part of your +preparation for your degree. This study will furnish an appropriate +employment for a considerable portion of the Sunday. Always attend the +University Sermons. I recommend this not merely as a branch of +academical discipline, but as a means of religious and intellectual +improvement. The sermon will generally, I believe, be worth attending +to. The select preachers are chosen, for the most part, from the ablest +men in the University; men, several of whom are likely hereafter to fill +the highest stations in the Church. You will seldom be driven to have +recourse to the advice of the pious Nicole in his Essay, "_des moyens de +profiter de mauvais sermons_." The various modes in which different +preachers enforce or illustrate the same great truths, and the +diversities of their style and manner, may afford you matter--not of +ill-natured criticism--but of useful reflection. Some colleges require +their under-graduates to give every week in writing a summary of the +sermon which they have heard at St. Mary's. If you adopt this practice, +you will find it contribute greatly to fix your attention, and to give +you a habit of arranging and expressing your ideas with facility and +readiness. Of course, some preachers deserve this steadiness of +attention much more than others. + +It is, I trust, unnecessary to remind you of the duty of receiving the +Lord's Supper, whenever it is administered in your college chapel. In +some colleges, nearly all the under-graduates partake of this ordinance; +in others, I believe, almost all neglect it: at least this was the case +formerly. In such and similar cases, you must be guided, not by common +practice, not by the example of numbers, but by what you know to be your +duty. If you feel any doubt or difficulty, frankly mention it to your +tutor. There are, I am persuaded, few tutors now in Oxford, who would +not be able and willing to assist you with their advice. + +This attention to your religious duties need not be attended by any +preciseness or austerity of manner. On the contrary, I should wish you +to be at all times cheerful and good humoured, ready to take part in any +innocent gaiety. My object is to impress upon you the absolute necessity +of always putting religion in the _first place_. If you really believe +what you profess to believe, do not hesitate as to shewing it in your +conduct. Never be so weak as to be ashamed of doing what you know to be +your duty. Never be guilty of such unmanly cowardice as to be ashamed +of avowing your allegiance to your Creator and your Redeemer. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + + + +LETTER II. + +CHOICE OF FRIENDS, AND BEHAVIOUR IN SOCIETY. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +Among the many advantages of an University, few rank higher, both in +general estimation and in reality, than the opportunity which it affords +of forming valuable and lasting friendships. Indeed this advantage can +hardly be rated too highly. I look back to the intimacies which I +contracted at college, as among the greatest blessings of a life, which +has been eminently blessed in various ways. I still hold intercourse +with many of my Oxford friends, whose characters and attainments do +honour to the place where their education and their minds were matured. +And even the recollection of most of those, who have been removed from +this lower world, is attended with a soothing melancholy, which partakes +more of pleasure and thankfulness for having enjoyed their society, than +of pain. _The memory of the just is blessed[14:1]._ + +I hope, my dear nephew, that you will improve this advantage to the +utmost. In your intimacies, however, endeavour to be guided rather by +judgment than by mere fancy. Sameness of pursuits, similarity of +dispositions and inclinations generally contribute much to throw men +together; but be careful not to attach yourself to any man as a +_friend_, unless he is a man of moral worth, and of real religious +principle. Intimacy with a man who is unrestrained by religion, _must_ +be attended with great danger. Your own natural appetites will +continually solicit you to forbidden indulgences, and will not be kept +in due subjection without difficulty. If their solicitations are +seconded by the example and by the conversations of an intimate +associate, your peril will be extreme. Intimacy with a man of bad +principles and immoral character, may utterly blast all your prospects +of happiness both in this world and the next. + +You will of course have the greater power of _selection_, if your +general acquaintance is pretty extensive. I acknowledge, that my opinion +is rather in favour of your forming an extensive acquaintance, provided +that you never suffer it to encroach upon your time, or to lead you into +any compromise of religious principle. Going to the University +constitutes a sort of entrance into the world, an introduction to manly +life; but this advantage is lost if you seclude yourself altogether from +society. In order, however, to acquire or to retain such an +acquaintance, your manners and general demeanour must be acceptable or +popular. + +One of the first requisites, in order to be thus acceptable, is the +neglect, the forgetfulness of _self_--a readiness to put _self_ in the +back-ground. Any obtrusion of self, any appearance of self-love, +self-interest, self-conceit, or self-applause, tends to expose a man to +dislike, perhaps to contempt. + +One way in which this disregard, this abandonment of self, must show +itself, is real unaffected humility. Most of the external forms and +modes of modern politeness, its bows and obeisances, its professions of +respect and service, its adulations, are nothing but an affectation of +such humility, and bear witness to its value when it exists in reality. +When it does so exist, and still is free from any servility of manner, +any unworthy compliances, nothing contributes more to make a man +acceptable and popular in society. It inflicts no unnecessary wounds on +any one's pride or self-love. And, you will observe, that it is the +temper and behaviour, inculcated by the general spirit and by the +particular precepts of religion, which bids us _in honour to prefer one +another_; and says, _in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better +than himself_. + +Another requisite is, a willingness to please and to be pleased. Some +men seem to think it beneath them, and a mark of littleness of mind, to +wish or to try to please any body, and wrap themselves up in a cold +superciliousness. Others seem determined never to be pleased with any +thing or any person, but are always finding fault. They have no eye +for, no perception of, merits or beauties, either external or internal, +but are keen and quick-sighted in detecting blemishes, and eloquent in +exaggerating them[20:1]. If any person's good qualities, or any work of +art or of genius is commended, they are sure to throw in some +observations calculated to depreciate and disparage them. And with +respect even to the works of Nature, and the dispensations of +Providence, they are more ready to see and to point out evils, than to +acknowledge advantages. This temper--this habit of disparagement--is +certainly very unamiable; and justly offensive, not only to those who +are run down by it as its immediate objects, but to all who witness it. +A man who consults his own comfort, or the comfort of those with whom he +associates, should be disposed to make the best of every thing. I would +by no means wish him in the slightest degree to compromise truth, or to +make the remotest approach to flattery; but I would have him see every +thing in the most favourable point of view, and disposed to pursue and +to dwell upon what is good rather than upon what is bad. Too much of +that which is bad is sure to be forced upon our attention, without our +taking any pains to look out for it. + +Be always on your guard against hurting the feelings, or even shocking +the prejudices, of those with whom you associate. A little observation, +and some attention to your own feelings in similar circumstances, will +soon teach you what is likely to be annoying to others. Make every +allowance for their self-love, and for attachment to their own opinions. + +Never give unnecessary pain or mortification. It is _unnecessary_, when +it can be avoided without compromising the consistency of your own +character, or hazarding the interests of religion and of truth. + +In short, my dear nephew, if you will study St. Paul's account of the +nature and properties of charity, and regulate your temper and your +behaviour accordingly, you will want little in order to be a perfect +gentleman, in the highest sense of the word. I will not enter upon this +account in detail, but must refer you to Fenelon's excellent book on +this subject, if it should come in your way, or even to my own +Sermon[22:1]. Give me your attention, however, for a minute or two, to a +few slight remarks upon charity--merely as it bears upon our conduct in +society. + +_Charity suffereth long_--+makrothymei+--it bears patiently with other +men's defects of temper, discourteousness of behaviour, and awkwardness +of manner; and is _kind_, gentle, and obliging--+chrsteuetai+. + +Charity envieth not--+ou zloi+. It is free from those little jealousies, +and rivalries, and emulations, which, where they are admitted, sometimes +give sourness to the temper, and bitterness to the behaviour. + +Charity _vaunteth not itself_--+ou perpereuetai+; it is not rash or over +hasty; it is not overbearing, positive, and peremptory, in language or +manner; _is not puffed up_--+ou physioutai+; is not inflated with an +opinion of its own worth or consequence; and, that being the case, it +doth not behave itself unseemly--+ouk aschmonei+; it does not treat +other men with disdain and superciliousness. + +Charity _seeketh not her own_--+ou ztei ta heauts+--that is, she is not +_selfish_. Charity neglects not altogether her own concerns, or her own +interests, but does not attend to them exclusively; does not _so_ attend +to them, as to be unmindful of, or inattentive to, the interests and +welfare of others. + +Charity is not easily provoked--+ou paroxynetai+. Nothing more +disturbs the peace and comfort of society than the being easily +provoked. When a man is touchy and waspish, he is always looking out +for, and catching at, occasions of offence. + +Charity rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; it does +not take pleasure in hearing of misdoings and evil conduct, but +delights in accounts of praiseworthy actions, and in the spread of sound +religious principles. + +Charity _beareth all things, believeth all thing, hopeth all things, +endureth all things_; +panta stegei, panta pisteuei, panta elpizei, panta +hypomenei+. + +I will not, my dear nephew, lengthen a long letter, by endeavouring to +point out the precise meaning of these expressions. You may understand +from them, that charity is patient of ill-usage; that instead of being +suspicious and disposed to cavil and carp at every thing, it is open and +ingenuous, ready to give men credit for speaking the truth, when there +is no good reason to think otherwise; and that it is disposed to hope +the best, to think as favourably as it can of those with whom it comes +in contact; and if it cannot actually think well of them at present, to +_hope_ for their amendment and reformation. + +I think you will agree with me, that a man influenced by this spirit +would be an acceptable man in society, and that the best practical +Christian would be the best gentleman[26:1]. + + I remain, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[14:1] Prov. x. 7. + +[20:1] See Numbers 72, 74, and 98, of the Rambler. + +[22:1] See Village Sermons. + +[26:1] See Jones's Letters from a Tutor to his Pupils. + + + + +LETTER III. + +CONVERSATION. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +I take it for granted, that upon first going from school to Oxford, and +entering into society different, in many respects, from any that you +have hitherto been accustomed to, you feel some of that shyness which +belongs to the character of most Englishmen. I should be sorry if you +did not. You probably feel diffident, too, of your ability to bear your +part in general conversation, and an apprehension of being, on that +account, set down as a stupid fellow. But don't be uneasy. More young +men, I am persuaded, hurt themselves by talking too much, than by +talking too little. When a fresh-man, at first starting, is quite at his +ease, and talks readily upon any subject that happens to be uppermost, +some of his companions may be amused at his coolness, but most of them +will be disgusted. If, by your look and manner, you show that you are +alive to what is said by others, and now and then throw in a remark, not +destitute of meaning, you will be more generally popular than one of +those random talkers. Men of a certain standing, qualified by their +liveliness or by their information to bear a leading part in +conversation, do not like to see an undue share of it engrossed by +others, especially by a mere youngster. They greatly prefer a good +listener to a ready talker. + +Young practitioners in Doctors' Commons have, I believe, to pass through +their year of silence, before they are allowed to speak. During the +period of silence, they quietly observe, and become acquainted with, the +usages and practice of the court. Something similar to this period of +quiet observation, might not be inexpedient for a noviciate in society. +At all events, never talk for talking's sake; never speak unless you +have something to say worth attending to. + +You will, I am sure, my dear nephew, take it in good part, if I point +out a few of the conversational faults, of which young men are apt to be +guilty. It is natural that we should talk most of that in which we are +most interested. Now, of all things in the world, a young man feels most +interested in _himself_. But if, in consequence of such feeling, he +ventures to talk much of himself, of his own habits, his own pursuits, +his own feelings, his own achievements, he will very soon be set down as +a bore and a conceited coxcomb. A young man naturally feels a strong +interest, an interest increased by separation, in his own immediate +family. This feeling, with some young men, is so deep, that they shun +the mention of any thing closely connected with their _home_ as a sort +of profanation, a desecration of things sacred. With others, this +feeling takes the opposite direction, and leads them--_celebrare +domestica facta_--to introduce the concerns of their own nearest +relations into the conversation of a mixed party. Take care that you +never are guilty of such a violation of good taste and correct judgment. +Interesting as your home and its inmates are to _you_, nothing can well +be less interesting to those, who are unacquainted with them. It will be +a stretch of courtesy and good-nature, if they tolerate the mention of +them without some expression either of ridicule or of distaste. If you +speak of your home-concerns at all, let it be only to one or two +intimate friends, who, from the regard which they feel for _you_, may be +supposed to take an interest in all belonging to you. + +Be on your guard against getting into the habit of telling long stories: +they generally are tiresome. Many circumstances, in addition to the +feeling that you have them to tell, may give them a consequence in your +eyes, which they do not in reality possess. Lively anecdotes, or short +narratives, told with spirit, are among the most amusing ingredients in +conversation; but even with them, if you often meet the same company, +there is considerable danger of falling into repetition. + +Never be guilty of falling into the too common practice of indulging in +scandal, the practice of talking of men disparagingly, of running down +their character behind their backs. I by no means wish you to flatter +any man, whether present or absent, or to speak favourably of character +or of conduct which does not deserve it. But beware of _detraction_. +Nothing is more unamiable in any man, especially in a _young_ man; and, +what is of infinitely more consequence, nothing is more opposite to the +spirit and the precepts of religion, which repeatedly enjoins us to +_speak evil of no man_. Bear in mind the advice of one of the most +sagacious and penetrating observers of human nature:--_Whether it be to +a friend or foe, talk not of other men's lives; and if thou canst, +without offence, reveal them not[34:1]._ _If thou canst without +offence_;--circumstances may require that the truth should be +revealed,--that the real truth should be spoken and made known, even +though it should be injurious,--though it should be absolutely fatal to +another man's character. But do not take pleasure in telling any thing +to another's prejudice; do not make the tearing of a character in pieces +a matter of amusement. By such conduct you would not only be guilty of a +gross violation of Christian charity, but will probably bring yourself +into many scrapes in a worldly point of view. In a mixed company, there +may chance to be some friend or connexion of him, whom you are running +down; or, at all events, what you say will be repeated,--_a bird of the +air will carry the matter_,--till it comes to the ears of the injured +person. And what will be the consequence? A feeling of aversion and +dislike, a spirit of hostility to you, will, not unnaturally, be +engendered, both in him and in such of his friends and connections as +are acquainted with the circumstance. + +One of the most unwarrantable kinds or forms of detraction, is the +attributing of any man's conduct to corrupt or unworthy motives. A man's +real motives are known only to God and to himself; indeed, very often +to God _alone_, as from the deceitfulness and intricacy of the human +heart, a man himself is sometimes ignorant as to what his real motives +actually are. Certainly it is rash and presumptuous for any other man to +pretend to decide upon them, and most uncharitable and unjust to +pronounce them to be corrupt, when they are capable of a favourable +interpretation. Express your disapprobation of unworthy actions as +strongly as you please; but beware of rash and uncharitable censure, and +especially beware of the presumption of imputing to any corrupt and evil +motives. + +As I have cautioned you against violating Christian charity in +conversation, so I must warn you against infringing on Christian +purity. You have arrived at a period of life, when your utmost care and +vigilance will be requisite, to keep your natural passions and appetites +within proper bounds. Indeed, all your care will be ineffectual unless +assisted by Divine grace. Do not take part in conversation which is +calculated to add to their importunity or to their strength. Thoughtless +young men, under the influence of these feelings, sometimes indulge in +_foolish talking and jesting_[37:1], of most pernicious tendency, and +most inconsistent with the Christian character. Avoid and discourage +conversation of this nature, so far as you possibly can. Do not add +fuel to a flame which already burns but too fiercely. _Fools make a mock +at sin_[38:1]; and none but _fools_ should be capable of making a joke +of temptations and vices, which in themselves are awfully serious, which +lead on to eternal ruin. + +I hope you will never be so unfortunate, as to fall much into the +company of men, who make a jest of religion, or of any thing connected +with religion. Those who are bent upon following the guidance of their +own appetites, and their own wills, naturally dislike that which would +check and restrain them. They are consequently apt to become +_scoffers_, and to attempt to turn religion and its sanctions into +ridicule. Avoid the society and conversation of such men, as you would +avoid the plague. If unhappily thrown among them, discountenance them to +the utmost. + +Do not indulge yourself in a habit of raillery or banter. Raillery is a +difficult thing to manage well, and very apt both to give pain to him +who is the object of it, and to reflect discredit on him who attempts +it. Sometimes you see one or two young men, of more liveliness than +sense, picking out some quiet person in company as a _butt_, at which +they may point their wit, and carrying on an attack of banter and +ridicule. This is, probably, not only annoying to him, but tiresome and +painful to all the right feeling men who chance to be present. + +I am glad to join in, or to witness, a honest hearty laugh, when any +thing really calls for it. Beware, however, of the practice of laughing +when there is nothing to laugh at. Some people fall into a way of giving +the accompaniment of a laugh to almost every thing that they utter, +especially if they have any direct intention to be jocular. This habit +is disagreeable to most of those who witness it. It proceeds, I believe, +generally from a sort of shyness and awkwardness contracted in early +youth, and is, as I know from experience, difficult to get rid of. It +certainly is inconsistent with the manners and habits of good society. +Be always the last to laugh at your own jokes, or your own _good_ +stories. If they are really worth laughing at, the company will find it +out, and by premature or excessive laughter you will mar their effect. + +As you get on in society, you will probably often fall into discussion +and argument. When this is the case, take care not to be too positive or +peremptory in your manner. Be solicitous to allow their full weight to +the arguments of your antagonist. Do not suffer the impression of the +force and correctness of your own reasoning, to render you blind to what +is urged against you. Above all, keep your temper. If you lose your +temper, victory will be deprived of its credit, and defeat will be more +disgraceful. At the same time you will run a double chance of being +defeated, without having the wit to see, or the manliness to own it. +Believe me, my dear nephew, (to adopt the very words of one of the most +sagacious and distinguished of modern statesmen) "that the arms with +which the ill dispositions of the world are to be combated, and the +qualities by which it is to be reconciled to us, and we reconciled to +it, are moderation, gentleness, a little indulgence to others, and a +great deal of distrust of ourselves; which are not qualities of a mean +spirit, as some may possibly think them, but virtues of a great and +noble kind, and such as dignify our nature as much as they contribute to +our repose and fortune; for nothing can be so unworthy of a +well-composed soul, as to pass away life in bickerings and litigations, +in snarling and scuffling with every one about us. Again and again, my +dear,--we must be at peace with our species; if not for their sakes, yet +very much for our own[43:1]." + +But my letter grows long, and I must hasten to conclude it. Read +repeatedly Cowper's lively poem on conversation, which seems to me to +have much of the spirit and accurate moral taste of Horace, with the +elevation derived from Christianity. Read, too, if you can lay your hand +on it, Bishop Horne's paper on conversation, in the Olla Podrida. In +these two essays you will find many of the sentiments which I have +expressed, only given in a much more engaging manner. In the 78th and +83d Numbers of the Idler, many common faults in conversation are exposed +with a degree of humour, in which our great moralist did not very +frequently indulge. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[34:1] Ecclus. xix. 8. + +[37:1] Ephes. v. 4. and Coloss. iii. 8. + +[38:1] Prov. xiv. 9. + +[43:1] Prior's Life of Burke, p. 215. Second edition. + + + + +LETTER IV. + +AGAINST YIELDING TO THE INFLUENCE OF NUMBERS. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +When I advised you to fall in, so far as you reasonably can, with the +wishes and inclinations of those with whom you associate, you +understood, I trust, that compliance should never go so far, as to +involve the slightest sacrifice of truth or of principle. When carried +to this culpable extent, it becomes an instance of weak and unmanly +cowardice. + +One of the greatest dangers to which young men are exposed upon their +first entrance into the world, is that which arises from their readiness +to be swayed by the example or by the persuasion of their companions. +The example, and still more the persuasion, of a single individual, is +sometimes not without difficulty resisted, and the difficulty of +resistance is greatly increased by the influence of numbers. A young man +dreads the imputation of singularity. He cannot bear to stand out +against the example, perhaps the solicitations, of those among whom he +lives. He suffers himself, therefore, to be carried along by the stream, +and led into conduct, of which, in his conscience, he utterly +disapproves. + +Never, my dear nephew, do you be guilty of such weakness. Avoid +singularity, whenever it can be avoided with innocence: an affectation +of singularity for singularity's sake, generally proceeds from conceit +or self-sufficiency. But where the path of duty is clear, let no example +or persuasion induce you to swerve from it. Keep ever impressed upon +your mind the admonition of Scripture, _Thou shalt not follow a +multitude to do evil_. + +Never suffer yourself to be laughed out of what is right. Never be +ashamed of adhering to what you know to be your duty. In matters of duty +keep in mind the words of Scripture, _Fear ye not the reproach of men, +neither be afraid of their revilings_. Never expose yourself to the +censure justly cast upon those who value the praise or the approbation +of men,--of giddy, thoughtless, sensual men, more than the praise of +God. Remember, my dear nephew, the solemn warning of our Lord: _If any +man shall be ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful +generation, of him shall the Son of man be ashamed when he cometh in his +glory with his holy angels_. + +In your steady adherence to the dictates of conscience, you will always +find some who will respect you for it; or, even if you should stand +alone, like Abdiel, "among the faithless, the only faithful," you will +be supported by the testimony of your own heart, and by an humble +confidence in the approbation of the Almighty. One or two instances may, +probably, make my meaning more clear. + +Perhaps a few joyous spirits have devised some scheme of irregular, +sensual gratification,--of Bacchanalian revelry;--or, perhaps, two or +three dunces, whose intellects and moral feelings are of such a stamp, +as to render them rather impracticable subjects for academical +discipline, have contrived some plan of impotent resistance to the +college authorities, or some plot of petty and vexatious annoyance, in +order to give vent to their mortification, when such silly resistance +has been proved to be ineffectual. Wishing for the screen or protection +of numbers, they will try to persuade their companions, that they will +be wanting in manly spirit, or in social feeling, if they refuse to join +them. And is there, after all, any thing so very _spirited_, any thing +of high-minded and noble daring in behaviour, which seeks to screen +itself by concealment and subterfuge, and which, if detected, braves, +not any personal danger or suffering, but merely the terrors of an +imposition? If the offence is so aggravated as to entail the heavier +penalty, rustication, or expulsion, such punishment inflicts, indeed, +severe grief upon the parents and friends of the offender; but he +himself, with the short-sightedness of folly, perhaps almost enjoys the +idleness and the freedom from academical restraint, to which rustication +consigns him. A young Oxonian is apt to feel very indignant if not +treated by deans and tutors, as a man and as a gentleman; but has he any +right to expect to be so treated, if he condescends to adopt the +practices of a mischievous or a truant school boy? + +I am no friend to the unnecessary imposition of oaths; but, I own, I do +not see how any thing like deliberate and systematic opposition to +academical authority, can be reconciled with the oath of academical +obedience taken by every freshman. I know well that the usual +construction of that oath,--(I doubt not the legitimate +construction)--is, that the person who takes it will obey the statutes, +or submit to the penalty imposed upon the infraction of them. I am +aware, too, that the violation of the strict letter of many of the +statutes is acquiesced in, and almost sanctioned, by those in authority; +but surely a _deliberate_ and _contumacious_ contravention of the +statutes, accompanied by a natural endeavour to evade punishment, is +hardly consistent with the spirit of the oath. Certainly it is +inconsistent with the spirit of Christianity, which everywhere +inculcates a dutiful submission to the constituted authorities; a +compliance, in all things lawful, with the regulations of the place in +which we are, and of the society which has received us among its +members. No man is compelled to go to the University; but if he does go +thither, he should make up his mind to comply with its rules, during the +short period of his residence. + +Perhaps, my dear nephew, you may think that I have all this time been +combating, or, rather, seeking to _lay_, a phantom of my own raising; +that I have been making mole-hills into mountains; or, like Don Quixote, +turning wind-mills into giants: but, in my long Oxford life, I have +heard of so many instances of the silly behaviour of which I have been +speaking, that I wish to put you on your guard against it. True +manliness consists in adhering to what you think to be right. In +keeping steadily to the path of duty, notwithstanding the solicitations, +or the taunts, or the ridicule of your associates, there is more proper +spirit and moral courage, than in braving the rebuke or the impositions +of a dean or a proctor. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + + + +LETTER V. + +IMPROVEMENT OF TIME. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +I trust that you are now hard at work. I can figure you with your +Herodotus before you, your Scapula on one side, and your maps on the +other, _setting-to_ in good earnest. You have, I am sure, fully +determined to make the most of your time. The time which you must +necessarily pass in Oxford, in order to take your bachelor's degree, is +but little after all. Your whole actual residence, during the three +years, will probably not much exceed a year and a half. Certainly, of +this _modicum_ of time you cannot afford to waste any portion. Make a +point of devoting it to real study, to real strenuous exertion. You owe +this to yourself--to your own credit and character; you owe it to your +parents, who have probably put themselves to some pecuniary +inconvenience, in order to give you the advantage of an Oxford +education; you owe it to God, to whom you are responsible for the +employment of your time, as well as for the proper use of your other +talents. Fix in your mind and memory the lesson taught you by the +sun-dial in the Quadrangle at All Souls--"_Pereunt et imputantur_;" or +that of another similar monitor--"_Ab hoc momento pendet ternitas_." +Take time for exercise; take time for relaxation; but make steady +reading your object and your business. Do not be so weak, or so unmanly, +or so vain, as to be ashamed of being known to read. You went to Oxford +on purpose to study; why should you be ashamed of keeping that purpose +in view? + +In the choice of your studies, be guided implicitly by the advice of +your tutor. Very likely you may not see the use of some branches of +science, or of reading some particular books. But do not fancy that in +such matters you are wiser than older men, who have maturely considered +these things again and again. If you mean to be your own guide and your +own teacher, you had better have staid away from Oxford altogether. It +is one great advantage of academical education, that a definite course +of reading is marked out for you. When a young man,--indeed, when _any_ +man,--is left entirely to his own choice, he is apt to be distracted by +the many different branches of study, the many different books, which +present themselves, and to fall into a habit of desultory reading, +productive of little lasting benefit. You are saved from this +distraction and perplexity, throwing upon other shoulders the trouble +and responsibility of making a proper choice. + +I believe almost every tutor now in Oxford, will direct his pupils to +devote a certain portion of their time to the highest of all +studies--the study of religion. Some knowledge of religion is absolutely +indispensable, in order to pass your examination for your degree. But +independently of all academical objects, you cannot help feeling +satisfied that time so employed, is employed well and wisely. Such +study, with the blessing of God upon it, will be beneficial to you +through the whole of your future existence, both in this world and the +next. + +Among the many advantages of an university education, must be reckoned +the opportunity of attending public lectures, such lectures especially, +as are illustrated, by an expensive philosophical apparatus, or by the +inspection of actual specimens. The experiments conducted by means of +such apparatus, and the handing round of specimens, are not only +absolutely essential, oftentimes, to the comprehension of the science to +which they belong, but contribute powerfully to fix it in the memory. If +you can spare the time from your severer studies, and if your tutor does +not disapprove, I should strongly advise you to attend in succession the +lectures on natural philosophy,--on chemistry,--on mineralogy,--and on +geology. Some acquaintance with these sciences, is in itself so +interesting and useful, and is now so general, that you ought not, I +think, to miss your present opportunity of acquiring it: so favourable +an opportunity you will hardly meet with again. + +Much may be done by a judicious distribution of your time. When you have +made such a distribution, keep to it steadily. Be peremptory with +yourself in adhering to it, and be peremptory in preventing others from +encroaching upon it,--from encroaching upon it, at least, unnecessarily. +I suppose that, upon the average, you may get four or five hours' steady +reading before dinner, and three or four after. This will leave you +abundant time for exercise, for relaxation, and for society. Certainly +it will not spare you any for mere _lounging_; either for lounging +yourself, or being lounged upon by others. If you cannot avoid the +latter by any other means, you will be reduced to the alternative of +shutting your door, or, if that term is still in use, of _sporting oak_ +against them. If they reproach you, set them, as their punishment, to +read the paper in the Idler on the robbery of time[62:1]. + +Either of your time, or of your money, waste as little as possible upon +newspapers. I admit, that of all periods of history, the time in which +we actually live is, _to us_, the most interesting. I admit that, both +with a view to your taking part in the conversation of general society, +as well as upon other accounts, some knowledge of passing events is +desirable, or even necessary. For such purposes, a rapid glance at the +newspaper, or even what is picked up by hearsay, will, generally +speaking, be sufficient. While reading for your degree, however, you +really cannot spare time to read the newspapers _through_. The most +important portions of them are, perhaps, the debates during the session +of parliament, and the trials. Of the debates, a considerable part is +very trifling and unprofitable; and, in order to read with real +advantage those speeches which are most deserving of attention, it is +necessary to be possessed of a considerable portion of that knowledge of +history, of legislation, of political economy, of mercantile and +financial transactions, the _foundations_ of which you are at Oxford +engaged in laying. It is not to be wished that an under-graduate should +affect to be an experienced politician, prepared to give a strong and +decided opinion upon subjects, upon which able and experienced men, +possessed of ten times his knowledge, find a difficulty in making up +their mind. In the reports of trials, many curious facts, and much +interesting information are to be found. In order to understand many of +them, however, it is requisite to have a more intimate acquaintance with +the rules of English jurisprudence, and with the practice of the courts, +than can be expected in a young man as yet hardly set free from the +eggshell of school. Upon the subject of newspapers, however, I will say +no more. I well know, that in merely touching upon it, I tread upon +delicate and debateable ground. + +Take sufficient time for relaxation; but let your relaxations, as far as +you can, be intellectual and improving. + +Oxford now presents opportunities, both of acquiring some knowledge of +natural history, and of cultivating a taste in the fine arts, which it +by no means possessed when I was an under-graduate. For these we are +principally indebted to those two admirable brothers[66:1], who have so +long devoted their time, their money, their distinguished talents, and +their various attainments, in the first place, to plans of beneficence, +and in the next, to the advancement of science and the cultivation of +taste. It is to them that we owe the enlargement, the arrangement, and +in fact the greater part of the contents, of the Museum, which now +contains a very interesting collection of specimens, particularly in +British ornithology. To them we are indebted for the excellent casts (in +the Radcliffe Library) from the most perfect specimens of sculpture, and +for the beautiful models (in the Picture Gallery) of the most celebrated +remains of ancient architecture. The Picture Gallery itself contains +many paintings, which, if not of any great excellence as works of art, +yet are well deserving of attention on very many accounts; and the +copies from the Cartoons, especially if you can be assisted with a few +hints from Richardson or Sir Joshua Reynolds, are most interesting +objects of study and contemplation. I am surprised that the young men in +Oxford make so little use of these advantages. Many of them seem hardly +to be aware of their existence. + +Among other modes of relaxation, not unconnected with intellectual +improvement, I should advise you to make yourself a little acquainted +with our early English architecture. If you can buy or borrow either +Bentham's Essay on Gothic Architecture, or Milner's accurate and elegant +Treatise on the Ecclesiastical Architecture of England during the middle +ages, you will need no other assistance, excepting, indeed, a friend +disposed to go along with you in this pursuit. Oxford and its immediate +neighbourhood will furnish you with many interesting specimens from the +Saxon and Norman, in the cathedral, St. Peter's in the East, and Iffley +church, down to the utter depravation of the art, or rather the total +change of style, in the time of Henry the Eighth. + +These interesting pursuits, however, I mention, as you must follow them, +if you follow them at all, merely _by the by_. They must not be suffered +to interfere with your severer studies. When engaged in those studies, +give them your whole undivided attention. _Whatsoever your hand, or your +head, findeth to do, do it with all your might._ + +The habits of study and of intellectual improvement, which you acquire +at Oxford, you should carry with you into the vacation. During the +vacation, you may, perhaps, take more time for society--the society +especially of your own immediate family--and more for relaxation; but +still do not _waste_ your time; still consider yourself as responsible +for the right employment of it. Make sure of the ground which you gained +during the term, by going over by yourself, what you then read with your +tutor. Improve your acquaintance with the standard writers of our own +country, and acquire some knowledge of modern history. In short, make +the most of your leisure. Read Bishop Home's sermon on redeeming the +time, and the papers in the Spectator and the Rambler to which he +refers. Read, _and learn by heart_, what is said on the loss of time in +the second of Young's Night Thoughts: + + "Part with it as with money, sparing; pay + No moment but in purchase of its worth." + +But my letter grows long, and (you will say) tedious. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[62:1] Vol. I. No. 14. + +[66:1] John Duncan, Esq. and Philip Duncan, Esq. of New College. + + + + +LETTER VI. + +PUNCTUALITY. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +I ventured to give you some advice respecting the employment of your +time; perhaps I ought to follow up that letter with a few remarks upon +PUNCTUALITY. Unless you acquire the habit of punctuality, you will be +apt, not only to lose your own time, but to make unjustifiable inroads +upon the time of other persons. + +Endeavour, therefore, to _keep to your time_ in every appointment, +whether the appointment be made by yourself or by others, (the college +authorities for instance,) whether it be with a superior, an equal, or +an inferior. Whether it be in a matter of business or in a matter of +pleasure, try always to be true to it. Let this be your system and your +habit. Some deviations from punctuality may now and then be unavoidable; +but do not let them occur unless they _really are_ unavoidable in +fairness and reason. If you have yourself made an appointment, your word +is, to a certain degree, pledged to your keeping to it. The case is in +some measure the same, when, though the appointment is actually made by +others, you have acceded to it. + +Want of punctuality seems to proceed either from pride and +superciliousness, or from some infirmity, some weakness of character. +Most men try to be punctual in any appointment with a man of rank +superior to themselves, especially if they have any object, any +interest, in conciliating his favour. And, on the other hand, too many +persons seem to feel themselves at liberty to be unpunctual in an +appointment with an inferior. It is not worth while, they think, to care +about being exact with one so much beneath them. "Let him wait till I am +at leisure to attend to him," exclaims such a man, in the proud +consciousness of superiority; and, perhaps, some trifle, or mere +indolence, is all that he has to plead for his neglect. + +You, my dear nephew, have, I trust, long since learned, that you have no +right to treat any man, however low his rank may be, with +disrespect,--with any thing approaching to contempt. You well know, that +both reason and religion require us to regard all men as our brothers, +and that one of the golden rules of the latter is, _in lowliness of +mind, let each esteem others better than himself_. Whatever a man's rank +in life may be, he has a right to punctuality as he has a right to +truth; and you have no right, by your unpunctuality, to rob him either +of his time or his patience. Certainly you have no right to give him by +such means the painful feeling that he is neglected, and neglected +because he is despised. + +And thus, also, with men of your own age and your own rank in life; in +all the little engagements and appointments, whether of business or of +pleasure, which occur in the common intercourse of society, endeavour +still to maintain the habit of punctuality. As every man wishes to have +the character of being true to his word, so it will be to your credit to +have the character of being true to your engagements, whether those +engagements relate to great matters or to small. + +But though want of punctuality is sometimes occasioned by pride, it +must more frequently proceed from a certain degree of weakness of +character, or from mere indolence. A man acknowledges punctuality to be +right and desirable, but cannot muster up sufficient energy and +resolution. He cannot prevail upon himself to quit his bed, or his easy +chair, or his fire-side, or the employment by which he chances to be +occupied, till the time fixed on has passed away. His friends are kept +waiting; those who have business to transact with him lose their temper; +they, again, are perhaps disappointing others, and all because he had +not sufficient decision of character, sufficient command of himself, to +be punctual. + +You may remember seeing at my house my friend Mr. M.[78:1] He was at +Oxford a very good-humoured fellow, and every body liked him; but he +never could contrive to be in time for any thing. He got imposition upon +imposition for being too late for chapel; he came to dine in hall when +other men were going away; and his friends were almost afraid of making +an appointment with him, either for business or for amusement, because +they knew beforehand that he would not keep it. When, after leaving +Oxford, he established himself as a country gentleman in his paternal +mansion, the same habit still clung to him. No time was fixed for any +thing, or if it was fixed, it was never kept. Neither his guests nor his +servants knew at what hour either breakfast, or dinner, or any other +domestic arrangement, would take place. Consequently, their time and +their spirits were wasted in uncertainty. When engaged to dine at a +neighbour's, perhaps he would forget the engagement altogether; or, if +he chanced to remember it, would not arrive till the master of the feast +had given him up in despair, after allowing possibly an extra half hour, +during which, the solemn pause which sometimes takes place before +dinner, had become more solemn, from the annoyance of seeing a whole +party kept waiting by the unpunctuality of one person. The servants, +meanwhile, were yawning and fidgetting backwards and forwards in the +listlessness of expectation; the cook perplexed with the sore dilemma of +seeing all the productions of her skill, either chilled with cold from +being kept back, or burnt to a cinder; and the temper even of the lady +of the house a little out of tune, from the certainty that the dinner +would be spoiled. Of all these various vexations, the sole cause was to +be found in Mr. M.'s want of energy. He could not bring himself, +perhaps, either to shorten a pleasant ride, or to lay down a book which +interested him, or to quit his own chair by the fire-side, in order to +dress. The convenience and comfort, and for a time the good humour, of a +whole company, were to be sacrificed to his indolence, his _vis +inerti_, and unpunctuality. + +Never permit yourself, my dear nephew, thus to trifle with the time or +the temper of any persons, whether high or low, with whom you have any +intercourse. Make a point of always being in time. I think it is said of +Lord Nelson (though I cannot hit upon the passage in his life), that +when some friend was fixing an appointment of importance at a certain +hour, the hero added, "Say a quarter _before_--to that quarter _before_, +I have owed all my success in life." I do not advise you actually to be +_before_ the time of an engagement, which some people will complain of +as being worse than being too late, but be so much beforehand as to be +master of your time, or to have it in your power to be punctual almost +to a minute. When you are received as a guest in a friend's house, +consider compliance with the hours and habits of the family, as a +natural return for the hospitality which is shown to you. There is +something incongruous in seeing a young person deranging, by his +unpunctuality, the economy and regularity of a whole household. And do +not suffer the kindness and indulgence of your parents to induce you, +when with them, to be less attentive to punctuality than you are, when +with other persons of superior age or rank to yourself. Never let them +wait for you; make a point of being always ready. An excellent friend of +mine lays it down as a maxim, that _habitual unpunctuality is positive +incivility_. + +I have alluded to the unpunctuality of one of my college friends: I will +contrast it with the punctuality of another. The latter when at Oxford +was distinguished for lively talents, and for an exuberance of spirits +bursting forth into every possible variety of fun. He is now the owner +of a spacious and splendid mansion, with a large establishment of +servants, and often a considerable number of guests, attracted by his +many amiable and excellent qualities. He still retains his playfulness +of wit, but his domestic arrangements are a model of punctuality. Family +prayers, and every meal, are to a minute. His guests and servants, +consequently, know exactly what they have to depend on, the arrangements +of the day, whether for business or for amusement, can be made with +precision, and every thing is done at its proper time. This is +punctuality on a greater scale. You and I, my dear nephew, must attend +to it in smaller matters. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[78:1] Mr. M. is imaginary. + + + + +LETTER VII. + +AMUSEMENTS. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +In a former letter I recommended to you certain modes of relaxation, +having some connection with intellectual improvement. You will, perhaps, +tell me that you want relaxation more entire and complete; that the +intellect requires perfect rest; that you must have _amusement_ in the +strict etymological sense of the word. You may be right. I have already +advised you to take sufficient time for _exercise_, and the exercise of +the body will generally give rest and refreshment to the mind. + +In your choice of amusement, however--amusement, I mean, as combined +with exercise--you must have strict regard to economy, both of money and +of time. Do not think me an old woman, if I add, that regard for _both_ +should keep you from any excessive bodily exertion, such as will unfit +you for study, or seriously affect your health. I am told that the +latter effect has of late, not unfrequently, been the result of over +fatigue in _rowing_; that many young men have died at an early age; that +others live on with all their powers debilitated, from having +overstrained their nerves, and their whole muscular system, in +boat-races. Rowing is in itself a salutary and delightful species of +exercise; and the facility of practising it, is one among the many +advantages of Oxford; but when carried to the excess which I have +alluded to, it is foolish and culpable. + +I would have a young man regardless of danger, willing to risk limbs, +health, or life itself, for the benefit of his fellow-creatures. He +should, like Hamlet, "hold his life at a pin's fee," when any adequate +object is to be answered by putting it in jeopardy. But a man has _no +right_ to risk either his life or his limbs for a bravado, in mere idle +vanity and ostentation. Such wanton risk is cruelty to his parents and +friends, and a presumptuous tempting of Providence. + +_Riding_, for riding's sake, must, with your finances, be out of the +question. The utmost that you ought to allow yourself, is a hack once or +twice a term, for some specific purpose--to visit a distant friend, +perhaps, or to see some interesting object lying beyond the range of a +walk. What I have said of riding, applies, with ten-fold force, to +hunting, which entails expense--(the hire of a hunter, the hire of a +hack probably to take you to cover, sundry ostlers and helpers, and very +likely a jovial dinner at an inn)--utterly inconsistent with an average +allowance; which entails, also, a waste of time, which, in the short +period of an Oxford residence, can ill be spared. + +What shall I say of _cricket_? I have great respect for cricket, as a +national and a manly game. The demand which it makes upon your Oxford +time is confined to the short term between Easter and the long vacation, +and it does not require a very large portion of the day. It is not +_necessarily_ attended with any expense. Whether the incidental expenses +of _uniform_ (if you belong to a club), tent, dinner, &c. &c. are such +as you can fairly afford, is for your consideration. They need not be +high, and, in my good will to the game, I am anxious that they should +be kept down. + +_Tennis_ is an animated game, of much variety in itself, and requiring +great variety of muscular exertion. It is connected with many historical +and chivalrous recollections, and carries the mind back to our Henry the +Fifth and the "mocking Dauphin" of France. As it cannot be played +without a spacious and expensive edifice, it is altogether an +aristocratic game, and demands an aristocratic purse. It is a game which +requires a good deal of practice, and, consequently, a good deal of +expenditure, in order to acquire a tolerable degree of skill; and your +skill will seldom have an opportunity of showing itself after you have +quitted Oxford, as you will seldom fall in with a tennis-court. I have +no hesitation in saying, that you, my dear nephew, have no money that +you have a right to spend upon yourself in this manner. + +You will never, I trust, annoy any of the neighbouring country +gentlemen, by attacking their game. You know how tender a point this is, +and how susceptible most landed proprietors are upon the subject; and +your own good feeling, and sense of propriety, and common fairness, will +prevent you from trespassing in this manner. You can imagine how +indignant you would yourself feel at such an invasion, and will not be +guilty towards another of a wrong, of which you would complain loudly +if it were offered to yourself. + +After all, _walking_ is the cheapest exercise, and, perhaps, the best. +If you wish to give it variety, you will find plenty of ditches to leap, +steeps to ascend, and hills to run up or down. And, dull as are most of +the great roads leading into Oxford, the country round abounds in +interesting objects within reach of a walk. There is much natural +scenery, possessed of a good deal of variety and picturesque character; +and there are many buildings, and remains of buildings, which either +from something in themselves, or from adventitious circumstances, well +deserve to be looked at. The church at Cumnor, for instance, not only +has within itself much to interest a man fond of architectural or +antiquarian investigation, but, in common with the remains or site of +Cumnor hall, and the village of Dry Sandford, have acquired a sort of +classical notoriety from the magical pen of Sir Walter Scott. The +picturesque ruins of the kitchen, and other buildings at Stanton +Harcourt, the slight vestiges of Godston Nunnery, the Town Hall, the +Gaol, and the two churches at Abingdon, may all become, each in its +turn, the object of a pedestrian expedition. The residence of the +Speaker, Lenthall, at Bessilsleigh, may deserve notice, from historical +recollections, though for no other reason. The Saxon church in Iffley I +have already mentioned. The recently-built Saxon chapel at Kennington is +done in excellent taste, and is a most gratifying instance of the +munificence and piety of an individual clergyman, devoting, I believe, +almost all his resources to the work. The church at Wytham will show you +that a church very lately erected may, by correct judgment, be made to +present the appearance of having been built five hundred years ago. But +I must not go on in this way, or you will think that you have got hold +of an Oxford guide. Most of the villages and village churches in the +neighbourhood, have some character of their own worth examining. + +So much for amusements connected with exercise, which has led me into +something like a repetition of some of the sentiments in a former +letter. + +A few words on sedentary amusements. + +If you read _in earnest_, and are bent upon making the most of your +time, you will have little of it left for amusements of a sedentary +nature. + +The less you have to do with cards the better. Young men can have no +occasion for the assistance of cards in order to pass their time; and +there seems to be something almost incongruous in the idea of _their_ +sitting down to a rubber. Nor do they need the excitement: if they wish +for it, that very wish is a reason why they ought not to have it. If +they play for money--or, at all events, if they play for such sums as +make the winning or losing an object of any degree of consequence--they +become gamblers; and of the many bad passions which gambling sometimes +calls into activity, and of the destructive consequences which it +entails, no one is ignorant. If you once get into the habit of playing, +you will, perhaps, not know when to stop. Cards are very seductive, and +you may find yourself become a gambler almost before you are aware of +it. Perhaps the best plan is _not to know_ how to play, which furnishes +an answer always ready. + +Chess is a game of elegance and interest, and the being a good +chess-player, carries with it a certain impression of general ability +and of intellectual activity and resource. Perhaps I may allow that +playing at chess adds a certain degree of interest to the perusal of the +history of a campaign, whether ancient or modern, with its various +moves, its checks and counter-checks, its retreats and _castlings_. But +chess is a fascinating game, and will be apt to make larger demands upon +your time than you can afford. If you indulge in it at all, you must be +peremptory with yourself in resisting its tendency to incroach either +upon your time or your _temper_. Sometimes, too, it requires so much +exertion of thought,--is such a strain upon the mind,--that it hardly +can answer the purposes of relaxation. If you play, by all means read +Franklin's Essay on the Morals of Chess. For clearness of head, for +truth-telling simplicity and honesty of purpose, and for perspicuity and +liveliness of style, Franklin has, perhaps, no superior. + +Always recollect that improvement, moral and intellectual, is the great +object for which you were sent to Oxford. With that object nothing must +be suffered to interfere. + + I remain, &c. &c. + + + + +LETTER VIII. + +EXPENSES, AND RUNNING IN DEBT. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +I do not know exactly what allowance your father has been able to give +you, but whatever it may be, I trust that you are resolutely determined +to keep within it. This will, of course, require a good deal of care and +attention. Many young men, when, upon going to the University, they find +in their pockets a much larger sum than they ever possessed before, +fancy themselves rich, and at liberty to allow themselves various +unnecessary indulgences. The consequence is, that they become entangled +in debts, from which they can never extricate themselves during their +continuance at Oxford. Be on your guard against getting thus hampered. +Take it for granted, that the regular and necessary claims upon your +finances will leave but little over for the indulgence of pleasure or +fancy. + +The expenses of an University education are often most unfairly +exaggerated by writers and speakers, who are fond of running down all +old institutions. These carpers affect to set down to the score of the +University all the money that is spent by the young men who reside in +it. They seem to forget that, wherever a young man may be, he must eat +and drink, and must purchase clothes suitable to his station in society. +I was myself, as you probably know, at Christ Church, where I took my +degree, and afterwards became a Fellow of Oriel. At Oriel, (which may +probably be taken as a fair average of the rest of the University,) the +_necessary_ annual expenses of a commoner are from 70l. to 80l., or +thereabouts[101:1]. This includes room-rent, batels, (that is, +breakfast, dinner, &c. _exclusive_ of tea and sugar), tuition, +University and College dues, coals, letters, washing, servants. The +University dues are less than 1l. per annum. There are, perhaps, few +places in England, where a gentleman can be comfortably lodged and +boarded at a much cheaper rate. Still there will always be many +incidental expenses, and you must put in practice a pretty severe +economy in order to meet them. + +In the manner in which you spend your money, as in every thing else, +accustom yourself to a certain degree of self-denial. Do not buy any +thing merely because it hits your fancy, and you think you should _like +to have it_, but consider whether you cannot easily _do without it_. Be +as liberal as you can reasonably afford to be in assisting others, +especially the poor, but spend as little as you can help upon yourself. +Above all, never buy, or order, any thing which you are unable to pay +for. + +The habit of running in debt is pregnant with evil and misery of every +description. It often--perhaps generally--amounts to positive +dishonesty. The money which you owe a tradesman is really his property. +The articles, which you have received from him, are hardly your own, +until you have paid for them. If you keep them, without paying for them +when the seller wishes and asks for payment, you deprive a man of that +which belongs to him; and is not that something approaching to robbery? +To a man possessed of proper feeling and a nice sense of honour, it must +be very painful to suffer a tradesman to ask twice for what is clearly +his right. To affect to be offended with such an application, and to +meet it with superciliousness and insolence, is injustice carried to its +height. + +The manner in which some men, who would be ready to shoot any one who +disputed their claims to be considered as gentlemen, treat their +creditors, whom they choose to call _duns_, would, from its contrariety +to any thing like reason, be almost ludicrous, if it were not so +culpable, so cruel, and so dishonest. + +A tradesman, from not being able to recover the money owed to him, sees +himself in danger of losing his credit, and, together with his credit, +the means of getting a maintenance; he sees his wife and children +perhaps upon the very verge of misery, and yet, if he civilly asks for +what is his due, he is considered as troublesome and impertinent, +perhaps reproached and insulted! + +Upon this subject I shall allow myself to quote the words of Delany, the +friend of Dean Swift, one of the most animated and sensible of our +sermon writers. + +"Running in debt with tradesmen, and neglecting to pay them in due time, +is utterly ruinous to the whole business of trade and commerce, and +absolutely destructive of the very principles upon which it is built, +and by which it subsists; and yet this is a crime every day committed by +men of fortune and quality, with as little remorse as they eat and +drink; and if the tradesman demands his money, it is odds but he is +either threatened or turned into a jest. The son of Sirach's wise +observation is here every day verified, merely substituting the words +_rich_ and _poor_, for the words _debtor_ and _creditor_. _The debtor +hath done wrong, and yet he threateneth; the creditor is wronged, and +yet he must entreat also._ If threats will not rid these men of their +importunate creditors, then are they to be deluded with fair words and +plausible excuses, to pay attendance from day to day, to the loss of +more time, and neglect of more business, than perhaps the debt is worth; +and so the first injury, instead of being repaired is doubled. And yet +the _gentleman_ debtor, the author of this evil, is so far from +repenting of it, that it is odds but he vaunts his wit and dexterity in +doing it. _As a mad man_ (saith Solomon) _who casteth firebrands, +arrows, and death: so is the man that deceiveth his neighbour, and +saith, Am I not in jest?_ And, indeed, it is scarce to be conceived how +any man can deal more destruction and ruin around him, than by deceiving +and breaking faith with the fair trader; for it is well known, his +credit, his whole subsistence, depends upon keeping his word, and being +strictly punctual in his payments and his promises; and, if he fail in +these, he is undone at once. And how is it possible he should not fail, +if the gentlemen he deals with fail him? He hath no way of raising money +but by sale of his goods; and if those to whom they are trusted will not +pay him, it is impossible he can pay his creditors; and, if he do not +pay them, it is impossible but he must be ruined, and, perhaps, many +more with him. For traders are linked and dependent on one another; and +one man's fall throws down many more with him: the shop-keeper is in +debt to the maker or the merchant; and these again to the journeyman, +the farmer, or the foreign correspondent; and so the ruin becomes +complicated, and extended beyond imagination!" + +"Credit is to a tradesman what honour is to a gentleman: to a man that +is truly such, (a gentleman,) his honour is as dear as his life: to the +trader, credit is as life itself; for he cannot live without it." + +You, my dear nephew, will never, I trust, stoop so low as to be guilty +of such dishonesty. But then you must keep a vigilant eye upon your +expenses. Paying ready money for every thing may be sometimes +inconvenient, and may, perhaps, occasion mistakes; but never leave +Oxford for a vacation without clearing off every thing that you owe. +Take receipts, and keep them. The most honest and respectable tradesman +may sometimes, in the hurry of business, omit to cross a charge out of +his book, and will feel a satisfaction in having any doubt as to payment +removed. Have such receipts tied up and docketed, so that you may refer +to any one of them readily. + +Never suffer yourself to be led into needless expense by the example of +your companions, and never be ashamed of saying that you cannot afford +it. + +We sometimes see weak young men vying with each other in the expensive +elegance of their furniture and dress, or in the luxury of their +entertainments. A man of large fortune produces at his table a variety +of costly wines, abundance of ice, and a splendid dessert. Others, from +a silly vanity, affect to do the same, although such expensive luxuries +are altogether inconsistent with their finances, and with the general +habits of men in their rank of life. The more such expenses and foolish +ostentation can be checked by the college _authorities_ the better. At +all events, do not _you_ be so weak as to fall into them. There is no +disgrace in being poor, but there is disgrace and dishonesty too, in +contracting debts which you are unable to discharge. + +Some young Oxonians, I am afraid, after spending the larger portion of +their allowance upon amusements and self-indulgence, drive off the +payment of what they regard as their more _creditable_ debts till they +take their degree, under the idea that they will then be paid by their +fathers. This is a most unwarrantable,--sometimes a _cruel_,--drain upon +parental kindness. Poets may well speak of university expenses "pinching +parents black and blue[112:1]," when this is the case. + +The majority of parents, as I have already said, do not send their sons +to the University without some degree of pecuniary inconvenience to +themselves. It is, indeed, hard upon them, when, in addition to an +annual allowance, which, probably, they have furnished not without +difficulty, they are called upon for a considerable sum, in order to +save their sons' credit--perhaps in order to enable him to take his +degree. For you are aware that an unpaid tradesman has the power, if he +thinks fit to exert it, of stopping the degree of a spendthrift +under-graduate. This power, I believe, is seldom, if ever, exercised. +But surely the being liable to it, through your own misconduct and +extravagance, would be attended with a feeling of painful humiliation. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[101:1] June, 1832. + +[112:1] Cowper. + + + + +LETTER IX. + +TEMPERANCE. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +In the present state of society, it is, perhaps, less necessary than it +would have been formerly, that I should give you any caution or advice +on the subject of _temperance_. Five-and-thirty years ago, it was +customary to drink a good deal of wine after dinner, and young men at +Oxford were not behind-hand with the rest of the world in complying with +this bad custom. + +It was _then_ generally the system, to initiate a freshman by making +him completely drunk. Scripture is by no means sufficiently listened to +_now_, but perhaps its warnings were less known and less regarded +_then_. The master of the revels and his abettors were ignorant, or +unmindful, of the threatenings denounced by the voice of +Inspiration,--_Woe unto him that giveth his neighbour drink, that +puttest thy bottle to him, and makest him drunken also_: and again--_Woe +unto them that are mighty to drink wine, and men of strength to mingle +strong drink_. Regardless of these denunciations, and trusting to the +strength of their own heads, and the practised discipline of their own +stomachs, their _noble_ ambition was to make drunk as many of their +guests as possible, especially any luckless freshman who chanced to be +of the party. Those who, whether from religious principle or from +manliness of character, did not choose to submit to be made drunk, were +obliged either to encounter these _kind_ endeavours with sturdy +resistance,--resistance which sometimes occasioned a total cessation of +intercourse and acquaintance,--or to evade them by stratagem. Glass +after glass was dexterously emptied upon the carpet under the table, or +the purple stream sought concealment under heaps of walnut-shells and +orange-peel. In short, at a tolerably large wine-party there was wasted, +or _worse than wasted_, a quantity of Port wine sufficient to check the +ravages of a typhus fever in an entire village. + +These days of _Celtic barbarism_ are, I hope, utterly passed away. As in +general society very little wine is consumed, (_excepting at dinner_,) +so Oxford has caught the spirit of the times, and the bacchanalian +revels to which I have alluded are, I believe, much less common than +they were formerly, if not entirely exploded. I am afraid, however, that +even now more wine is drunk in some colleges, than is consistent either +with Christian temperance, or with habits of study, or with the +preservation of health. + +I need not point out to _you_, my dear nephew, the evils which, in a +religious point of view, result from drinking to excess. You, I well +know, would shudder at the idea of wilfully depriving yourself of +reason, and of sinking yourself to the situation of a beast or of a +maniac. A man, who has thrown away his reason, has little right to hope +for the continuance of the assisting and preventing grace of God. And +destitute of the controlling guidance, both of reason and of Divine +Grace, what is there left to prevent his ungoverned passions from +carrying him into the most perilous excesses? There are deadly vices, to +which young men are, at all times, but too powerfully solicited by their +natural appetites; and when those appetites are stimulated by drinking, +and all salutary control shaken off, the danger is great indeed. You +perhaps may remember an Eastern apologue to the following effect, (I +know not where to find it): The Devil having, by the impulse of terror, +induced a holy man to consent to commit _some_ crime, allowed him to +choose, whether he would get drunk, or be guilty of either of two of the +most horrible enormities he could conceive. The poor victim chose +drunkenness, as being the least offence, but in the state to which he +had thus brought himself, was guilty of all three. + +And even if you are kept back from any additional guilt, yet you well +know, that by throwing away your reason, you become capable of being +guilty of all sorts of absurdities,--that you are liable to say and do a +hundred foolish things, of which, when you return to your senses, you +will be heartily ashamed,--that you expose yourself to the ridicule and +contempt of those, who witness the degraded state to which you have +reduced yourself. + +A drunken _Christian_ is almost a contradiction in terms; and something +the same may be said of a drunken _gentleman_. Among many in the middle +and the industrious classes of society, there is much intelligence, much +quick perception of what is morally right, and of general propriety of +behaviour. As such men are not backward in shewing respect, where +respect is really due, so they are keen-sighted in detecting gross +inconsistencies of conduct, and ready to bestow the full measure of +contempt upon those, who, while placed above them by the advantages of +birth, and fortune, and education, yet meanly condescend, by their vices +and their excesses, to degrade themselves below them. + +The inconsistency of any excess in drinking, with the main purpose for +which you were sent to Oxford, is palpable. You go to Oxford professedly +for study. Independently of the time actually occupied by a wine-party, +any excess will, probably, indispose you for study the morning after; + + Corpus onustum + Hesternis vitiis animum quoque prgravat una, + Atque affigit humo divin particulam aur. + +You will rise from your bed heavy and languid, probably with some +disposition to headache; and will be far more inclined to lounge in an +easy-chair, or to saunter about in listless idleness, than to sit down +to active mental exertion. + +I must add, that the habit of drinking much wine during your continuance +at Oxford, is not unlikely materially to injure your health in the +succeeding periods of your life. Such habit has a tendency permanently +to derange and weaken the digestive powers, and to injure and harden the +internal coats and the orifices of the stomach. I am persuaded, that +much of the tendency to apoplectic and paralytic affections; much of the +general indisposition, which we often witness in men advanced beyond the +middle period of the usual term of human life,--men who have of late +perhaps, lived temperately--is to be attributed to the wine which they +drank when young. + +But I will not dwell longer on the evils of excessive drinking. You know +the admonitions of Scripture,--_Take heed lest at any time your hearts +be overcharged with surfeiting and drunkenness. Be not drunk with wine, +wherein is excess._ You know that _drunkards cannot inherit the kingdom +of God_; you know that drunkenness is spoken of by St. Paul as being the +vice of those, who remain sunk in the thick darkness of ignorance and +heathenism, and as utterly unbefitting those who are blessed with the +light of the Gospel. Indeed, it is unworthy of any man possessed only of +common sense. + +Guard, then, my dear nephew, against this degrading habit with +determined resolution. Let neither the example, nor the solicitations, +nor the taunting jests of your companions, induce you to demean yourself +so far, as to be guilty of a vice so utterly unworthy of you, both as a +man and as a Christian. If they, for their amusement, were to request +you to cut off your right hand, you would not feel bound to comply with +them. Do not, for their gratification, expose yourself in the condition +of a fool, or an idiot. Do not, in order to please a party of +thoughtless revellers, incur the displeasure of Almighty God, and run +the hazard of eternal ruin. + +And take care, that you do not yourself _acquire_ a taste for any such +sensual indulgences. "The appetite for intoxicating liquors," says +Paley, "appears to be almost always _acquired_." Guard against the first +beginnings of intemperance. _Principiis obsta._ If you are not on your +guard, you will be in danger of being carried on, step by step, until +retreat becomes out of the question. + +You would avoid many trials of your firmness, and be relieved probably +from much irksome importunity, if you could make up your mind to +renounce wine altogether. This you would do with the less difficulty, if +backed by the sanction of medical advice. I apprehend that most medical +men, if desired to give their _candid_ opinion, would recommend +abstinence from wine as conducive to a _young_ man's health both of body +and mind. I knew _water-drinkers_ at Oxford, who yielded to none of +their companions in liveliness and all social qualities, either in their +own room or at the wine-party of a friend. Many young men in the army, +I believe, adopt this system, from motives both of moral and of +economical prudence. A pint, or even half a pint, of wine per day, makes +a considerable hole in the pay of a subaltern, or in the stipend of a +country curate, or in the allowance of a briefless barrister. Avoid +acquiring factitious wants. Do not by habit make wine necessary to your +comfort. It is wise, when young, not to indulge in luxuries which in any +future period of your life you probably will not be able to afford, +consistently with the claims which will then be pressing upon you. I +throw out this idea, however, for your own consideration, without urging +it as matter of positive advice. I think, however, that your intellect +will be clearer, and your mind often more cheerful, if you comply with +the suggestion. + +Shall I add a word or two upon temperance in _eating_? I hope that there +are few young men who are apt to be guilty of the _porcine_ vice of +eating to excess; in plain English--of _gluttony_. Perhaps, however, the +temptations of a well-appointed dinner, prepared by an exquisite +_artiste_, may induce them occasionally to transgress. It is, perhaps, +hardly fair to quote from any thing so well known as Addison's paper on +Temperance, in the Spectator[128:1], but it is much to my purpose. "It +is said of Diogenes, that meeting a young man who was going to a feast, +he took him up in the street, and carried him home to his friends, as +one who was running into imminent danger, had not he prevented him. What +would that philosopher have said, had he been present at the luxury of a +modern meal? Would he not have thought the master of a family mad, and +have begged his servants to tie down his hands, had he seen him devour +fowl, fish, and flesh; swallow oil and vinegar, wines and spices; throw +down salads of twenty different sorts, sauces of a hundred ingredients, +confections and fruits of numberless sweets and flavours? What unnatural +motions and counter-ferments must such a medley of intemperance produce +in the body? For my part, when I behold a fashionable table, set out in +all its magnificence, I fancy that I see gouts and dropsies, fevers and +lethargies, with innumerable distempers, lying in ambuscade among the +dishes." + +"Nature delights in the most plain and simple diet." He then gives some +rules for temperance, which are well worth attending to. This passage of +Addison is much in the spirit of that of Horace: + + ----"Vari res + Ut noceant homini, credas, memor illius esc + Qu simplex olim tibi sederit. At simul assis + Miscueris elixa, simul conchylia turdis; + Dulcia se in bilem vertent, stomachoque tumultum + Lenta feret pituita." + +Most of the modern writers on dietetics, as well as those who have +preceded them, recommend a very considerable abridgment of the quantity +of food, usually consumed at the table of the affluent. + +And while I strongly advise you to be rather abstemious as to _quantity_ +of food, so I wish you not to be in the slightest degree fastidious as +to its _quality_, provided it is wholesome, and free from qualities +absolutely revolting. You may naturally like one thing better than +another, and partake of what you prefer, when it comes in your way; but +it is painful to see a young man of any intellect indulging in the +niceties of an epicure, and really appearing to care much about what he +eats, and what he drinks. When I commenced the life of a country +clergyman, I was often received, with almost parental kindness, in a +house, in which good taste of all kinds,--moral, intellectual, social, +and _culinary_,--presided in an eminent degree. Every now and then, some +particular dish made its appearance, under the impression that I was +particularly fond of it. Probably I had eaten of it some days before, +because it chanced to be near me, or from some similar accident. I was +grateful for the kindness and attention, but felt mortified, almost +degraded, at its being supposed that I cared about one thing more than +another, where all were good and wholesome. + +Do not get into the habit of spending your money in ices, and other +delicacies, at the pastry-cook's and confectioner's. You say that you +are hungry;-- + + "--------Panis + Latrantem stomachum bene leniet." + +If your hunger would disdain a piece of dry bread, it certainly has no +claim to be attended to at all. You say that you can _afford_ to indulge +yourself in the delicacies to which I have alluded. I do not think that +you can; at all events, your money may be more worthily spent-- + + "Non est melius quo insumere possis? + Cur eget indignus quisquam, te divite? Quare + Templa ruunt antiqua Dem?" + +In other words, if you have the money to spare, give it to the +deserving poor, or to the Church-building Society. Few expenses are +more unsatisfactory in retrospect,--I had almost said, more +_disgraceful_,--than those which have been incurred by sensual +self-indulgence; incurred to gratify a vitiated palate and a pampered +appetite. + +Self-denial is recommended by the classical writers of antiquity, as +well as by the most sensible of modern authors; and, what is of +infinitely more importance, is strongly inculcated by the Christian +religion. But how shall self-denial be practised _at all_, if it cannot +be practised in the low matter of eating and drinking? + +Read again and again the paper of Addison, and the Satire of Horace, +(the second of the second Book), from which I have made my quotations. +Read also the following passages from that accurate observer of the +habits and manners of social life, the son of Sirach: + +_If thou sit at a bountiful table, be not greedy upon it, and say not, +There is much meat on it.--Eat, as it becometh a man, those things that +are set before thee; and devour not, lest thou be hated. Leave off +first for manners' sake; and be not insatiable, lest thou offend._ + +_A very little is sufficient for a man well nurtured, and he fetcheth +not his wind short upon his bed._ + +_Sound sleep cometh of moderate eating; he riseth early, and his wits +are with him: but the pain of watching, and choler, and pangs of the +belly, are with an insatiable man._ + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[128:1] No. 195. + + + + +LETTER X. + +ENGLISH READING. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +When at Oxford, you will not have much time for any reading, excepting +that which has some reference to your examination. During the vacations, +however, which occupy about half the year, you are more at liberty, and +will do well, as I have already suggested to you, to give a good deal of +your leisure to increasing your acquaintance with the classical writers +of your own language. + +Both at Oxford and home, endeavour, on most days, to catch some little +portion of time,--a quarter of an hour may be sufficient,--for religious +reading. Melmoth's "Great Importance of a Religious Life," and the +abridgment of Law's "Serious Call," adopted by the Society for Promoting +Christian Knowledge, are two of the best books that occur to me, for the +purpose of impressing you with the absolute necessity, of giving +religion the first place in your thoughts and your heart. You may read +either of them through in an hour. Of the former, 42,000 copies were +sold in the eighteen years preceding 1784. I mention this as an evidence +of its popularity. + +Some thirty years ago I was requested by a friend, to recommend some +practical book to put into the hands of a young person. I named Nelson's +"Practice of True Devotion," and have since seen no reason to alter my +opinion. Let that be one of the first books that you make use of. If you +read _one_ chapter each day (and do not read more), it will last you +about three weeks. After an interval of a year or so, go through it +again. + +Take next for this purpose Jeremy Taylor's "Holy Living and Dying," +first reading (if you can borrow the book) what is said of this work by +his highly-gifted and most amiable editor, Bishop Heber. One passage +from Heber's remarks I must allow myself to quote: "But I will not +select, where all may be read with advantage, and can hardly be read +without admiration. To clothe virtue in its most picturesque and +attractive colouring; to enforce with all the terrors of the divine law, +its essential obligations; and to distinguish, in almost every instance +most successfully, between what is prudent and what is necessary; what +may fitly be done, and what cannot safely be left undone;--this is the +triumph of a Christian moralist; and this Jeremy Taylor has, in a great +degree, achieved in his Discourse on Holy Living." You will recollect +that this book was written nearly two hundred years ago, and must not be +surprised if you find a few expressions, and one or two sentiments, +rather obsolete. One of the five rules which Taylor gives in his +Dedication, "for the application of the counsels which follow," applies +to all books of a similar character. "They that will, with profit, make +use of the proper instruments of virtue, must so live as if they were +always under the physician's hand. For the counsels of religion are not +to be applied to the distempers of the soul, as men used to take +hellebore; _but they must dwell together with the spirit of a man, and +be twisted about his understanding for ever: they must be used like +nourishment, that is, by a daily care and meditation_--not like a single +medicine, and upon the actual pressure of a present necessity." + +The genuine spirit of Jeremy Taylor, with more correctness of taste, is +found in that delightful book, "The Christian Year." Read it repeatedly. +It is every where full of poetry, and of the purest devotional feeling. +The more you are imbued with the spirit which pervades that beautiful +volume, the more fit you will be to have your part in "the communion of +saints," among _the spirits of just men made perfect_. + +Archbishop Seeker's Lectures on the Catechism, contain a body of +divinity, doctrinal and practical, singularly judicious and useful. They +are full of good sense and accurate information. The style, perhaps, is +rather involved, and not very engaging; but you see a mind in full +possession of its subject, anxious to put you in full possession of it +also, without omitting any thing of importance. + +Gilpin's Lectures on the Catechism are of a different character. This +also is a very good and a very pleasing book, written with a particular +view to young persons engaged in reading the Greek and Latin Classics. + +Ogden's Sermons, on Prayer, the Creed, and the Ten Commandments, &c. are +the offspring of a clear and powerful intellect, expressed in language +remarkably perspicuous and elegant. + +_After_ these books, take some opportunity of reading the Sermons of +Bishop Butler, including the Preface. This is not a book to be read in a +room full of brothers and sisters. It demands close attention, and will +give some exercise to all your intellectual powers; but it richly merits +to have such attention and pains bestowed upon it. It deserves, indeed +requires, more than a single reading. After Butler's Sermons read his +"Analogy." + +You will do well, at any odd intervals, or _snatches_ of time, to make +yourself familiar with Addison and Johnson. False delicacy shall not +prevent me from recommending the selection from the writings of Addison +which I made a few years ago. My reasons for making such selection are +given in the Preface. The same reasons now induce me to recommend it to +you. + +Johnson requires no pruning. You can hardly read a paper in the Rambler +or Idler, and, I will add, the Adventurer, without deriving from it some +improvement, either moral or intellectual, or both. The structure and +cadence of Johnson's sentences is certainly monotonous; but I seldom +read half a page without being struck by the depth of his thought, the +accuracy and minuteness of his observation, and the astonishing extent +of his multifarious reading. + +In order to enter with more discrimination into the style of our +different authors, read often "Blair's Lectures." They are, I believe, +sometimes spoken slightingly of by men of learning; I, however, as an +unlearned man, think them particularly useful. The Lecture on the Origin +of Language, indeed, the absurdity of which has been exposed with so +much playfulness by Cowper, might well have been omitted. + +I have already advised you, during the two longer vacations, to acquire, +or to keep up, some knowledge of modern history. Russell's "Modern +Europe" is, upon the whole, a useful book. It is, perhaps, too +compendious; and I dislike its being given in the form of letters. +Robertson's "Charles the Fifth" you have probably read already; if not, +read it carefully when, in Russell, you arrive at the period at which it +commences. Pay particular attention to the First Book. Perhaps Robertson +was not sufficiently impressed with the importance and the effects of +the Reformation in Germany; and he formed, I think, an unfair estimate +of the character and motives of Luther. This matter will, I doubt not, +be shortly set right in the Life of Luther about to be given to the +public by one of the ablest and most learned men of the present +day[147:1]. + +With respect to the history of our own country, I hardly know what +advice to give you. Hume's style is very pleasing, but he cannot be +implicitly depended on, especially where religion and the ministers of +religion are concerned. + +Henry's "History of Great Britain" is a very good and accurate book; but +the continuity of the narrative is broken by the multiplicity of +divisions in each period, (learning, arts, commerce, manners, &c. &c.), +and by the transitions to the history of Scotland. + +Lingard I have not read; I am told that his style is good, and his +information extensive. It was natural that, as a zealous Romanist, he +should seek to extenuate the faults of men of his own persuasion, and to +exaggerate the failings, and place in an unfavourable point of view the +motives and actions of the assailants of Popery; but he has, I think, +been fully convicted of carrying misrepresentation beyond all reasonable +bounds. There was but too much of bigotry and persecution on both sides. + +Turner's History is, I believe, strictly honest and impartial, and a +work of prodigious labour and research. + +But in our attention to prose writers, we must not forget the classical +poets of our own country. Make yourself familiarly acquainted with +Shakspeare, Milton, and Pope. The more you read of Young and Cowper, the +better. Young is sometimes turgid, with a good deal of bad taste; but he +abounds in real poetry, and in strong truths most forcibly expressed. +Cowper sometimes carries simplicity to the verge of being prosaic; but +he is generally graceful, often pathetic, and sometimes approaches to +sublimity. Of both, it was the common object to increase the influence +of genuine Christianity; of both, the perusal has a direct tendency to +make you a better and a more religious man. + +Two of our most distinguished living poets--Sir Walter Scott and +Southey--have seen their poetry cast into shade by the popularity of +their own prose. The poems of both will live, and have justice done them +by posterity. "Madoc" was many years ago recommended to me by one of the +most able, and most candid, of our living authors. I read it with much +interest. "The Curse of Kehama" is full of high and wild poetry; and +"Roderick, the last of the Goths" gives a noble picture of deep +penitence and of devoted patriotism. You will hardly read any ten lines +of the longer poems of Sir Walter Scott, without meeting with some +striking beauty of expression or of sentiment. + +I am afraid, however, that the English poets, both those of former times +and those of the present day, have been, in great measure, superseded, +among you young Oxonians, by Lord Byron. In almost every +under-graduate's room that I happen to enter, _he_ seems to have taken +possession. Lord Byron, as a poet, has certainly many transcendant +merits,--merits which are peculiarly fascinating to young men. The +interest which I,--which _every one_,--naturally must feel in the moral +and intellectual habits and pursuits of such an important portion of the +community, makes me deeply lament the noble poet's excessive popularity +among you. I am perfectly aware, that by the following remarks I shall +expose myself to the indignation of some men, and, possibly, to the +contempt of others: but I feel that my opinion on this subject is not +taken up on slight grounds; and I _must say my say_. + +The publication of Lord Byron's life and correspondence has contributed, +a good deal, to divest him of that mystery, which hung about him, and in +which he himself so much delighted; and has brought him down rather +more to the level of ordinary mortals. They show him to us as a man +possessed of splendid talents, of extensive and various attainments, and +of the _seeds_ of many noble and generous qualities; but as a man +actuated by ungovernable passions, and by an overweening opinion of his +own superiority to all other mortals. _Self_, whether intellectual or +sensual, seems to have been the idol that he worshipped. _His own_ +antient family, _his own_ talents, _his own_ attainments, _his own_ +whims, _his own_ passions, _his own_ excesses, seem all to have +furnished food for his vanity, because they were _his own_. + +I acknowledge that, in all the circumstances of his _bringing up_, he +was singularly unfortunate. His early destitution, the character and +habits of his mother, the neglect of his noble relations, the venal +praises of his parasites and dependents, all acted upon his character +with pernicious influence. + + "Untaught in youth his heart to tame, + His springs of life were poison'd." + +He was sensitively alive to all the beauties and the sublimities of +external nature, and had a most penetrating insight into the complicated +feelings, and the various workings of the human heart, with all its +passions and affections; consequently, he abounds in passages of great +beauty, and of singular strength and power. The gratification derived +from the perusal of such passages, however, to a man at least who really +believes himself to be an immortal and a responsible being, is but a +poor compensation for the moral effects of many of his poems, his +_later_ poems more especially[155:1]. They too often appear to breathe a +spirit of engrossing selfishness; a spirit of captious and gloomy +scepticism,--scepticism extending, not only to revelation, but to the +primary truths of what is called natural religion, and even the most +acknowledged bonds of moral obligation. The tendency of his writings is +to make you dissatisfied with almost every thing, and every body in this +world, and at the same time to unfit you for the world to come; indeed, +to make you doubt, whether the idea of a world to come is not altogether +a mere delusion. + +Lord Byron particularly excels in describing female loveliness, and the +effect which such loveliness produces upon the ardent temperament of +youth. In fact, the feeling within themselves so much that responds to +these descriptions, is one great cause of the popularity of Lord Byron +among young people. The sensations to which I allude, however, are of +themselves but too importunate. It is most unwise to excite them,--to +give them additional energy,--by the perusal of the high-wrought and +glowing descriptions of this poet of the passions. + +I had heard much of Don Juan, and felt some curiosity to read it; but I +was aware of the manner in which bold and flippant ribaldry sometimes +takes hold of the mind, even when shocked at it. I knew well, that human +nature has in itself but too much of passion and sensuality, without +needing any additional stimulus. I was unwilling "to soil my mind" when +I could avoid it. For my own sake, I was unwilling to see the most +destructive vices treated as mere matter of jest, and the most awful +truths of religion introduced in connexion with ludicrous images, and +spoken of in the language of mockery. However much our judgment may +disapprove of these things, yet the ludicrous passages and images are +too apt to stick by us, even when we most wish to shake them off. + +A book was advertised, called "The Beauties of Don Juan, including those +passages only which are calculated to extend the real fame of Lord +Byron." The editor acknowledges that the poem itself, from the unpruned +luxuriance of the author's powers, "has remained a sealed +volume"--certainly it _ought_ to be a _sealed volume_--"to the fairest +portion of the community." This _expurgate_ selection, however, though +it contains many passages of great beauty, is a book which I should be +sorry indeed to place in the hands of any young lady; and one against +which I would _forewarn_ every young man, who is not prepared to run the +risk of sacrificing, at the shrine of genius, Christian faith, and +Christian soberness, and Christian purity. + +The description of the shipwreck had been spoken of as particularly +fine. I read it. Not long since several accounts of actual shipwrecks +and disasters at sea were published[159:1]. Some of these accounts, are +among the most interesting and edifying narratives, that I am acquainted +with. They abound in instances of heroic courage, of unshaken endurance, +of a noble disregard of self, of the warmest benevolence, and of the +most exalted piety. Don Juan seems to have taken a wayward pleasure in +culling from these narratives the most distressing and painful facts, +and then mixing them up in doggrel verse, with ludicrous images and +ludicrous rhymes; the main _wit_ often consisting in some unexpected +absurdity of sound or cadence. + +One of the most dreadful consequences of shipwreck is, when a remnant of +the crew, cast off in an open boat, are reduced, by extremity of +hunger, to determine by lot, which of them shall first be made the food +of his companions. Even in such calamity, this perverse and bitter +spirit contrives to find matter for merriment. He laughed in himself +when he wrote the stanzas, and tries to make his readers laugh; though +they must feel indignant with themselves if they give way to the +impulse. + +I conclude my letter with two sayings of Bishop Horne's. "He who +sacrifices religion to wit, like the people mentioned by lian, worships +a fly, and offers up an ox to it." Again; "Sir Peter Lely made it a +rule, never to look at a bad picture, having found, by experience, +that, whenever he did so, his pencil took a tint from it. Apply this to +bad books and bad company." + +However brilliant the talents of a writer may be, yet, if a book has a +tendency to produce a bad effect upon the moral habits of the mind, that +book is a _bad_ book. + + "When I behold a genius bright and base, + Of tow'ring talents, and terrestrial aims; + Methinks I see, as thrown from her high sphere, + The glorious fragments of a soul immortal, + With rubbish mixt, and glitt'ring in the dust." + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[147:1] Rev. Hugh James Rose. + +[155:1] Childe Harold and the _four_ first tales (I am speaking only of +the larger works) are most free from objection, at the same time that +they are the most beautiful and interesting. + +[159:1] The Loss of the Kent, and Narratives of the Shipwrecks of the +Lady Hobart packet, the Cabalva, &c. &c. + + + + +PRAYERS + + +_A Prayer before Study._ + +(FROM DR. JOHNSON.) + +Almighty God, in whose hands are all the powers of man; who givest +understanding and takest it away; who, as it seemeth good unto thee, +enlightenest the thoughts of the simple, and darkenest the meditations +of the wise, be present with me in my studies and inquiries. + +Grant, O Lord, that I may not lavish away the life which thou hast given +me on useless trifles, nor waste it in vain searches after things which +thou hast hidden from me. + +Enable me, by thy Holy Spirit, so to shun sloth and negligence, that +every day may discharge part of the task which thou hast allotted me; +and so further with thy help that labour which, without thy help, must +be ineffectual, that I may obtain in all my undertakings such success as +will most promote thy glory, and the salvation of my own soul, for the +sake of Jesus Christ. + + +_Prayer after Time unprofitably spent._ + +(FROM DR. JOHNSON.) + +O Lord, in whose hands are life and death; by whose power I am +sustained, and by whose mercy I am spared, look down upon me with pity. +Forgive me, that I have this day neglected the duty which thou hast +assigned to it, and suffered the hours, of which I must give account, to +pass away without any endeavour to accomplish thy will, or to promote my +own salvation. Make me to remember, O God, that every day is thy gift, +and ought to be used according to thy command. Grant me, therefore, so +to repent of my negligence, that I may obtain mercy from thee, and pass +the time which thou shalt yet allow me in diligent performance of thy +commands, through Jesus Christ. _Amen._ + + +_Prayer for Temperance._ + +(FROM BISHOP JEREMY TAYLOR.) + +O Almighty God and gracious Father of men and angels, who openest thy +hand and fillest all things living with plenty; and hast provided for +thy servant sufficient to satisfy all my needs: teach me to use thy +creatures soberly and temperately, that I may not with loads of meat and +drink make the temptations of my enemy to prevail upon me, or my spirit +unapt for the performance of my duty, or my body healthless, or my +affections sensual and unholy. O my God, never suffer that the blessings +which thou givest me may minister either to sin or sickness, but to +health, and holiness, and thanksgiving; that in the strength of thy +provision I may cheerfully, and actively, and diligently serve thee; +that I may worthily feast at thy table here, and be accounted worthy, +through thy grace, to be admitted to thy table hereafter, through Jesus +Christ, our Mediator and Redeemer. _Amen._ + + +_Prayer for the right government of the tongue._ + +O God, watch over me this day for good; and grant that I may so keep +the door of my mouth that I may not speak unadvisedly with my lips. +Preserve me from offending with my tongue either against charity or +purity. Let me not be guilty of foolish and immodest talking and +jesting, of evil-speaking or censoriousness, or of any other of the many +sins of the tongue. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Advice to a Young Man upon First Going to Oxford + In Ten Letters, From an Uncle to His Nephew + +Author: Edward Berens + +Release Date: March 29, 2007 [EBook #20932] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ISO-8859-1 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK ADVICE TO A YOUNG MAN *** + + + + +Produced by Irma pehar, Louise Pryor and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net (This +file was produced from images generously made available +by The Internet Archive/Canadian Libraries) + + + + + + +</pre> + + + + +<p class="center biggap bigger"> +LETTERS,<br /> + + +&c.</p> + + + + + + <h1>ADVICE TO A YOUNG MAN<br /> + + <span class="littlest">UPON</span><br /> + + FIRST GOING TO OXFORD,<br /> + + + <span class="littlest">IN</span><br /> + <span class="little">TEN LETTERS,</span><br /> + + <span class="littlest">FROM AN UNCLE TO HIS NEPHEW.</span> +</h1> + +<hr /> + + <p class="center littler">BY THE<br /> + + <span class="biggest">REV. EDWARD BERENS, M.A.</span><br /> + LATE FELLOW OF ORIEL COLLEGE. +</p> + +<hr /> + + <p class="center littler"><span class="biggest">LONDON:<br /> + PRINTED FOR J. G. & F. RIVINGTON,</span><br /> + ST. PAUL’S CHURCH YARD,<br /> + AND WATERLOO PLACE, PALL MALL. +</p> +<hr /> + + <p class="center">1832.</p> + + + + + <p class="center biggap little">LONDON:<br /> + GILBERT & RIVINGTON, PRINTERS,<br /> + St. John’s Square. +</p> + + + + +<p class="biggap">I have long thought that a book was wanted, of the nature of that which +I have here attempted. How far I have succeeded in the attempt, the +public will determine.</p> + +<p>I have had,—have at present,—and (if I live,) expect to have +hereafter,—several nephews at Oxford; all having to make their own way +in the world, and all, consequently, having abundant reason for being +economical, both of their time and of their money, during their +residence at the University. These Letters were not addressed to any one +of them in particular, but are intended, like some official documents, +“for all whom they may concern.” Perhaps I had more especially in view, +those of them who are destined for my own profession.</p> + +<p class="yours"> +E. B. +</p> + + + + + +<h2><a name="CONTENTS" id="CONTENTS"></a>CONTENTS.</h2> + +<div class="center"> +<table> + <tr><td class="little">LETTER.</td><td> </td><td class="toright little">PAGE.</td></tr> + <tr><td class="toright"><a href="#LETTER_I">I.</a></td><td> Sense of Religion</td><td class="toright"><a href="#Page_1">1</a></td></tr> + <tr><td class="toright"><a href="#LETTER_II">II.</a></td><td>Choice of Friends</td><td class="toright"><a href="#Page_13">13</a></td></tr> + <tr><td class="toright"><a href="#LETTER_III">III.</a></td><td>Conversation</td><td class="toright"><a href="#Page_27">27</a></td></tr> + <tr><td class="toright"><a href="#LETTER_IV">IV.</a></td><td>Against yielding to the Influence of Numbers</td><td class="toright"><a href="#Page_45">45</a></td></tr> + <tr><td class="toright"><a href="#LETTER_V">V.</a></td><td>Improvement of Time</td><td class="toright"><a href="#Page_55">55</a></td></tr> + <tr><td class="toright"><a href="#LETTER_VI">VI.</a></td><td>Punctuality</td><td class="toright"><a href="#Page_72">72</a></td></tr> + <tr><td class="toright"><a href="#LETTER_VII">VII.</a></td><td>Amusements</td><td class="toright"><a href="#Page_85">85</a></td></tr> + <tr><td class="toright"><a href="#LETTER_VIII">VIII.</a></td><td>Expenses, and running into Debt</td><td class="toright"><a href="#Page_99">99</a></td></tr> + <tr><td class="toright"><a href="#LETTER_IX">IX.</a></td><td>Temperance</td><td class="toright"><a href="#Page_114">114</a></td></tr> + <tr><td class="toright"><a href="#LETTER_X">X.</a></td><td>English Reading</td><td class="toright"><a href="#Page_137">137</a></td></tr> +</table> +</div> + + + + + +<h2><span class="pagebreak" title="1"> </span><a name="Page_1" id="Page_1"></a> +<a name="LETTER_I" id="LETTER_I"></a>LETTER I.</h2> + +<p class="lettertitle">SENSE OF RELIGION.</p> + + +<p class="salutation">MY DEAR NEPHEW,</p> + +<p>It gives me sincere pleasure to hear that you have actually become a +member of the University of Oxford. This satisfaction, perhaps, may in +some degree be attributed to the pleasing recollection of my own Oxford +life, but certainly it arises principally from anticipation of the +substantial benefits which you, I trust, will derive from your connexion +with that seat of learning. At the same time, I will own that my +satisfaction is not entirely +<span class="pagebreak" title="2"> </span><a name="Page_2" id="Page_2"></a> +unmixed with something like apprehension. +An University education has many and great advantages, but it also is +attended with many temptations;—temptations to which too many young men +have yielded, sometimes to the great injury of their character, and the +utter ruin of all their future prospects.</p> + +<p>In fact, you are now entering upon the most important period—the +<i>turning point</i>—of your whole life. You have become, in a great +measure, your own master. For though you will be under a certain degree +of discipline and <i>surveillance</i>, yet in a multiplicity of cases you +will have to act for yourself—to take your own line. You will have to +contend against the allure +<span class="pagebreak" title="3"> </span><a name="Page_3" id="Page_3"></a> +ments of pleasure and dissipation, and you +have just reached the age when the natural passions and appetites become +most impatient of restraint. At the same time, you will be exposed to +the influence both of the example and of the solicitations of lively +young men, who will try to carry you along with them in their career of +thoughtlessness and folly, and who will think it strange, and <i>show</i> you +that they think it strange, if you run not with them to the same excess +of riot. Against all these moral trials and temptations, your best +safeguard will be found in a strong sense of religion, kept habitually +present to your mind. You must endeavour, according to the language of +Scripture—(and in writing to you I +<span class="pagebreak" title="4"> </span><a name="Page_4" id="Page_4"></a> +shall always gladly make use of the +very words of Scripture, when they suit my purpose, as having a force +and an authority which no other words can possess)—you must endeavour +to <i>set the Lord always before you</i>. Never for a moment forget that you +are continually in the presence of that awful Being, who can, and who +will, call you to a strict account for all that you do amiss. Nothing +can excuse your forgetting Him.</p> + +<p>If you at all believe in a Supreme Being, the Creator and Governor of +the world; if you believe that God is, and that he is a rewarder of them +that diligently seek him, and at the same time an avenger to execute +wrath upon every soul that doeth evil, +<span class="pagebreak" title="5"> </span><a name="Page_5" id="Page_5"></a> +the least particle of common +sense or common feeling will tell you, that nothing should be put in +competition with his will. When his will is clear, it <i>must</i> be obeyed +without hesitation. I am sure that you will assent to this. If religion +is any thing, it is <i>every thing</i>. It is, indeed, the one thing needful, +in comparison with which every thing else sinks into insignificance, +into nothingness.</p> + +<p>Endeavour, then, to keep up in your mind and heart this habitual sense +of religion by every means in your power. It will require from you +considerable care and attention. The lively spirits natural to your time +of life, and the thoughtless levity of some of the young men into whose +society you will be +<span class="pagebreak" title="6"> </span><a name="Page_6" id="Page_6"></a> +thrown, will have a tendency to make you think less +of religion, if not to induce you entirely to forget it. Be ever on your +guard against thus swerving from your allegiance to your Creator.</p> + +<p>Nothing will contribute more to preserve you from this danger than +regularity and earnestness in your private devotions. When you rise in +the morning, seek from God spiritual strength to enable you to resist +and overcome the temptations to which you may be exposed during the day. +Every night implore his forgiveness for your many failings and +transgressions, and his protection against the dangers which surround +you. Suffer nothing to induce you to neglect private prayer.</p> + +<p>You will of course be required every +<span class="pagebreak" title="7"> </span><a name="Page_7" id="Page_7"></a> +day to attend chapel. Consider +such attendance not as an irksome duty, not as a mere matter of routine +and college discipline, but try to regard it as a privilege, and to take +a real interest and pleasure in it. Acquire the habit of joining +fervently in the prayers, and of constantly deriving from the lessons +and other portions of Scripture, the doctrinal and practical instruction +which they were intended to convey. Many college chapels are furnished +with Greek Testaments and Septuagints. You will judge from experience, +whether following the lessons in the Greek assists in fixing your +attention, or whether it diverts it from the matter to the language. My +own opinion is in favour of the practice.</p> + +<p> +<span class="pagebreak" title="8"> </span><a name="Page_8" id="Page_8"></a> +Make a point of giving to Sunday as much of a religious character as +you can. I am not recommending a Jewish strictness. Let Sunday be a day +of cheerfulness; but let your reading and your thoughts, as far as may +be, partake of the sacred character of the day.</p> + +<p>The study of the Scriptures constitutes an important part of your +preparation for your degree. This study will furnish an appropriate +employment for a considerable portion of the Sunday. Always attend the +University Sermons. I recommend this not merely as a branch of +academical discipline, but as a means of religious and intellectual +improvement. The sermon will generally, I believe, be +<span class="pagebreak" title="9"> </span><a name="Page_9" id="Page_9"></a> +worth attending +to. The select preachers are chosen, for the most part, from the ablest +men in the University; men, several of whom are likely hereafter to fill +the highest stations in the Church. You will seldom be driven to have +recourse to the advice of the pious Nicole in his Essay, “<i>des moyens de +profiter de mauvais sermons</i>.” The various modes in which different +preachers enforce or illustrate the same great truths, and the +diversities of their style and manner, may afford you matter—not of +ill-natured criticism—but of useful reflection. Some colleges require +their under-graduates to give every week in writing a summary of the +sermon which they have heard at St. Mary’s. If you adopt +<span class="pagebreak" title="10"> </span><a name="Page_10" id="Page_10"></a> +this practice, +you will find it contribute greatly to fix your attention, and to give +you a habit of arranging and expressing your ideas with facility and +readiness. Of course, some preachers deserve this steadiness of +attention much more than others.</p> + +<p>It is, I trust, unnecessary to remind you of the duty of receiving the +Lord’s Supper, whenever it is administered in your college chapel. In +some colleges, nearly all the under-graduates partake of this ordinance; +in others, I believe, almost all neglect it: at least this was the case +formerly. In such and similar cases, you must be guided, not by common +practice, not by the example of numbers, but by what you know to be your +duty. If +<span class="pagebreak" title="11"> </span><a name="Page_11" id="Page_11"></a> +you feel any doubt or difficulty, frankly mention it to your +tutor. There are, I am persuaded, few tutors now in Oxford, who would +not be able and willing to assist you with their advice.</p> + +<p>This attention to your religious duties need not be attended by any +preciseness or austerity of manner. On the contrary, I should wish you +to be at all times cheerful and good humoured, ready to take part in any +innocent gaiety. My object is to impress upon you the absolute necessity +of always putting religion in the <i>first place</i>. If you really believe +what you profess to believe, do not hesitate as to shewing it in your +conduct. Never be so weak as to be ashamed of doing what you know to be +your +<span class="pagebreak" title="12"> </span><a name="Page_12" id="Page_12"></a> +duty. Never be guilty of such unmanly cowardice as to be ashamed +of avowing your allegiance to your Creator and your Redeemer.</p> + +<p class="yours"> +<span class="indentremain">I remain,</span><br /> +<span class="indentnephew">My dear Nephew,</span><br /> +Your affectionate Uncle. +</p> + + + + + + +<h2> +<span class="pagebreak" title="13"> </span><a name="Page_13" id="Page_13"></a> +<a name="LETTER_II" id="LETTER_II"></a>LETTER II.</h2> + +<p class="lettertitle">CHOICE OF FRIENDS, AND BEHAVIOUR IN SOCIETY.</p> + + +<p class="salutation">MY DEAR NEPHEW,</p> + +<p>Among the many advantages of an University, few rank higher, both in +general estimation and in reality, than the opportunity which it affords +of forming valuable and lasting friendships. Indeed this advantage can +hardly be rated too highly. I look back to the intimacies which I +contracted at college, as among the greatest blessings of a life, which +has been eminently blessed in various ways. I still hold +<span class="pagebreak" title="14"> </span><a name="Page_14" id="Page_14"></a> +intercourse +with many of my Oxford friends, whose characters and attainments do +honour to the place where their education and their minds were matured. +And even the recollection of most of those, who have been removed from +this lower world, is attended with a soothing melancholy, which partakes +more of pleasure and thankfulness for having enjoyed their society, than +of pain. <i>The memory of the just is blessed</i><a name="fnm_14_1" id="fnm_14_1"></a><a href="#fn_14_1" class="fnnum">14:1</a>.</p> + +<p>I hope, my dear nephew, that you will improve this advantage to the +utmost. In your intimacies, however, endeavour to be guided rather by +judgment than by mere fancy. Sameness of pursuits, similarity of +dispositions +<span class="pagebreak" title="15"> </span><a name="Page_15" id="Page_15"></a> +and inclinations generally contribute much to throw men +together; but be careful not to attach yourself to any man as a +<i>friend</i>, unless he is a man of moral worth, and of real religious +principle. Intimacy with a man who is unrestrained by religion, <i>must</i> +be attended with great danger. Your own natural appetites will +continually solicit you to forbidden indulgences, and will not be kept +in due subjection without difficulty. If their solicitations are +seconded by the example and by the conversations of an intimate +associate, your peril will be extreme. Intimacy with a man of bad +principles and immoral character, may utterly blast all your prospects +of happiness both in this world and the next.</p> + +<p> +<span class="pagebreak" title="16"> </span><a name="Page_16" id="Page_16"></a> +You will of course have the greater power of <i>selection</i>, if your +general acquaintance is pretty extensive. I acknowledge, that my opinion +is rather in favour of your forming an extensive acquaintance, provided +that you never suffer it to encroach upon your time, or to lead you into +any compromise of religious principle. Going to the University +constitutes a sort of entrance into the world, an introduction to manly +life; but this advantage is lost if you seclude yourself altogether from +society. In order, however, to acquire or to retain such an +acquaintance, your manners and general demeanour must be acceptable or +popular.</p> + +<p>One of the first requisites, in order to be thus acceptable, is the +neglect, +<span class="pagebreak" title="17"> </span><a name="Page_17" id="Page_17"></a> +the forgetfulness of <i>self</i>—a readiness to put <i>self</i> in the +back-ground. Any obtrusion of self, any appearance of self-love, +self-interest, self-conceit, or self-applause, tends to expose a man to +dislike, perhaps to contempt.</p> + +<p>One way in which this disregard, this abandonment of self, must show +itself, is real unaffected humility. Most of the external forms and +modes of modern politeness, its bows and obeisances, its professions of +respect and service, its adulations, are nothing but an affectation of +such humility, and bear witness to its value when it exists in reality. +When it does so exist, and still is free from any servility of manner, +any unworthy compliances, nothing contributes more +<span class="pagebreak" title="18"> </span><a name="Page_18" id="Page_18"></a> +to make a man +acceptable and popular in society. It inflicts no unnecessary wounds on +any one’s pride or self-love. And, you will observe, that it is the +temper and behaviour, inculcated by the general spirit and by the +particular precepts of religion, which bids us <i>in honour to prefer one +another</i>; and says, <i>in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better +than himself</i>.</p> + +<p>Another requisite is, a willingness to please and to be pleased. Some +men seem to think it beneath them, and a mark of littleness of mind, to +wish or to try to please any body, and wrap themselves up in a cold +superciliousness. Others seem determined never to be pleased with any + +<span class="pagebreak" title="19"> </span><a name="Page_19" id="Page_19"></a> +thing or any person, but are always finding fault. They have no eye +for, no perception of, merits or beauties, either external or internal, +but are keen and quick-sighted in detecting blemishes, and eloquent in +exaggerating them<a name="fnm_20_1" id="fnm_20_1"></a><a href="#fn_20_1" class="fnnum">20:1</a>. If any person’s good qualities, or any work of +art or of genius is commended, they are sure to throw in some +observations calculated to depreciate and disparage them. And with +respect even to the works of Nature, and the dispensations of +Providence, they are more ready to see and to point out evils, than to +acknowledge advantages. +<span class="pagebreak" title="20"> </span><a name="Page_20" id="Page_20"></a> +This temper—this habit of disparagement—is +certainly very unamiable; and justly offensive, not only to those who +are run down by it as its immediate objects, but to all who witness it. +A man who consults his own comfort, or the comfort of those with whom he +associates, should be disposed to make the best of every thing. I would +by no means wish him in the slightest degree to compromise truth, or to +make the remotest approach to flattery; but I would have him see every +thing in the most favourable point of view, and disposed to pursue and +to dwell upon what is good rather than upon what is bad. Too much of +that which is bad is sure to be forced +<span class="pagebreak" title="21"> </span><a name="Page_21" id="Page_21"></a> +upon our attention, without our +taking any pains to look out for it.</p> + +<p>Be always on your guard against hurting the feelings, or even shocking +the prejudices, of those with whom you associate. A little observation, +and some attention to your own feelings in similar circumstances, will +soon teach you what is likely to be annoying to others. Make every +allowance for their self-love, and for attachment to their own opinions.</p> + +<p>Never give unnecessary pain or mortification. It is <i>unnecessary</i>, when +it can be avoided without compromising the consistency of your own +character, or hazarding the interests of religion and of truth.</p> + +<p>In short, my dear nephew, if you +<span class="pagebreak" title="22"> </span><a name="Page_22" id="Page_22"></a> +will study St. Paul’s account of the +nature and properties of charity, and regulate your temper and your +behaviour accordingly, you will want little in order to be a perfect +gentleman, in the highest sense of the word. I will not enter upon this +account in detail, but must refer you to Fenelon’s excellent book on +this subject, if it should come in your way, or even to my own +Sermon<a name="fnm_22_1" id="fnm_22_1"></a><a href="#fn_22_1" class="fnnum">22:1</a>. Give me your attention, however, for a minute or two, to a +few slight remarks upon charity—merely as it bears upon our conduct in +society.</p> + +<p><i>Charity suffereth long</i>—<span class="translit" title="makrothymei">μακροθυμει</span>—it bears patiently with +other men’s +<span class="pagebreak" title="23"> </span><a name="Page_23" id="Page_23"></a> +defects of temper, discourteousness of behaviour, and +awkwardness of manner; and is <i>kind</i>, gentle, and obliging—<span class="translit" title="chrsteuetai">χρηστευεται</span>.</p> + +<p>Charity envieth not—<span class="translit" title="ou zloi">ου ζηλοι</span>. It is free from those little +jealousies, and rivalries, and emulations, which, where they are +admitted, sometimes give sourness to the temper, and bitterness to the +behaviour.</p> + +<p>Charity <i>vaunteth not itself</i>—<span class="translit" title="ou perpereuetai">ου περευεται</span>; it is not rash +or over hasty; it is not overbearing, positive, and peremptory, in +language or manner; <i>is not puffed up</i>—<span class="translit" title="ou physioutai">ου φυσιουται</span>; is not +inflated with an opinion of its own worth or consequence; and, that +being the case, it doth not behave itself unseemly—<span class="translit" title="ouk aschmonei">ουκ +ασχημονει</span>; it does not +<span class="pagebreak" title="24"> </span><a name="Page_24" id="Page_24"></a> +treat other men with disdain and +superciliousness.</p> + +<p>Charity <i>seeketh not her own</i>—<span class="translit" title="ou ztei ta heauts">ου ζητει τα ἑαυτης</span>—that is, +she is not <i>selfish</i>. Charity neglects not altogether her own concerns, +or her own interests, but does not attend to them exclusively; does not +<i>so</i> attend to them, as to be unmindful of, or inattentive to, the +interests and welfare of others.</p> + +<p>Charity is not easily provoked—<span class="translit" title="ou paroxynetai">ου παροξυνεται</span>. Nothing more +disturbs the peace and comfort of society than the being easily +provoked. When a man is touchy and waspish, he is always looking out +for, and catching at, occasions of offence.</p> + +<p>Charity rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; it does +not +<span class="pagebreak" title="25"> </span><a name="Page_25" id="Page_25"></a> +take pleasure in hearing of misdoings and evil conduct, but +delights in accounts of praiseworthy actions, and in the spread of sound +religious principles.</p> + +<p>Charity <i>beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, +endureth all things</i>; <span class="translit" title="panta stegei, panta pisteuei, panta elpizei, panta hypomenei">παντα στεγει, παντα πιστευει, παντα ελπιζει, παντα +ὑπομενει</span>.</p> + +<p>I will not, my dear nephew, lengthen a long letter, by endeavouring to +point out the precise meaning of these expressions. You may understand +from them, that charity is patient of ill-usage; that instead of being +suspicious and disposed to cavil and carp at every thing, it is open and +ingenuous, ready to give men credit for speaking the truth, when there +is no good reason +<span class="pagebreak" title="26"> </span><a name="Page_26" id="Page_26"></a> +to think otherwise; and that it is disposed to hope +the best, to think as favourably as it can of those with whom it comes +in contact; and if it cannot actually think well of them at present, to +<i>hope</i> for their amendment and reformation.</p> + +<p>I think you will agree with me, that a man influenced by this spirit +would be an acceptable man in society, and that the best practical +Christian would be the best gentleman<a name="fnm_26_1" id="fnm_26_1"></a><a href="#fn_26_1" class="fnnum">26:1</a>.</p> + +<p class="yours"> +<span class="indentremain">I remain,</span><br /> +Your affectionate Uncle.<br /> +</p> + + +<div class="footnotes"> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_14_1" id="fn_14_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_14_1">14:1</a></span> Prov. x. 7.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_20_1" id="fn_20_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_20_1">20:1</a></span> See Numbers 72, 74, and 98, of the Rambler.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_22_1" id="fn_22_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_22_1">22:1</a></span> See Village Sermons.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_26_1" id="fn_26_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_26_1">26:1</a></span> See Jones’s Letters from a Tutor to his Pupils.</p></div> +</div> + + + + + +<h2> +<span class="pagebreak" title="27"> </span><a name="Page_27" id="Page_27"></a><a name="LETTER_III" id="LETTER_III"></a>LETTER III.</h2> + +<p class="lettertitle">CONVERSATION.</p> + + +<p class="salutation">MY DEAR NEPHEW,</p> + +<p>I take it for granted, that upon first going from school to Oxford, and +entering into society different, in many respects, from any that you +have hitherto been accustomed to, you feel some of that shyness which +belongs to the character of most Englishmen. I should be sorry if you +did not. You probably feel diffident, too, of your ability to bear your +part in general conversation, and an apprehension of +<span class="pagebreak" title="28"> </span><a name="Page_28" id="Page_28"></a> +being, on that +account, set down as a stupid fellow. But don’t be uneasy. More young +men, I am persuaded, hurt themselves by talking too much, than by +talking too little. When a fresh-man, at first starting, is quite at his +ease, and talks readily upon any subject that happens to be uppermost, +some of his companions may be amused at his coolness, but most of them +will be disgusted. If, by your look and manner, you show that you are +alive to what is said by others, and now and then throw in a remark, not +destitute of meaning, you will be more generally popular than one of +those random talkers. Men of a certain standing, qualified by their +liveliness or by their information to bear a +<span class="pagebreak" title="29"> </span><a name="Page_29" id="Page_29"></a> +leading part in +conversation, do not like to see an undue share of it engrossed by +others, especially by a mere youngster. They greatly prefer a good +listener to a ready talker.</p> + +<p>Young practitioners in Doctors’ Commons have, I believe, to pass through +their year of silence, before they are allowed to speak. During the +period of silence, they quietly observe, and become acquainted with, the +usages and practice of the court. Something similar to this period of +quiet observation, might not be inexpedient for a noviciate in society. +At all events, never talk for talking’s sake; never speak unless you +have something to say worth attending to.</p> + +<p>You will, I am sure, my dear nephew, +<span class="pagebreak" title="30"> </span><a name="Page_30" id="Page_30"></a> +take it in good part, if I point +out a few of the conversational faults, of which young men are apt to be +guilty. It is natural that we should talk most of that in which we are +most interested. Now, of all things in the world, a young man feels most +interested in <i>himself</i>. But if, in consequence of such feeling, he +ventures to talk much of himself, of his own habits, his own pursuits, +his own feelings, his own achievements, he will very soon be set down as +a bore and a conceited coxcomb. A young man naturally feels a strong +interest, an interest increased by separation, in his own immediate +family. This feeling, with some young men, is so deep, that they shun +the mention of any thing +<span class="pagebreak" title="31"> </span><a name="Page_31" id="Page_31"></a> +closely connected with their <i>home</i> as a sort +of profanation, a desecration of things sacred. With others, this +feeling takes the opposite direction, and leads them—<i>celebrare +domestica facta</i>—to introduce the concerns of their own nearest +relations into the conversation of a mixed party. Take care that you +never are guilty of such a violation of good taste and correct judgment. +Interesting as your home and its inmates are to <i>you</i>, nothing can well +be less interesting to those, who are unacquainted with them. It will be +a stretch of courtesy and good-nature, if they tolerate the mention of +them without some expression either of ridicule or of distaste. If you +speak of your home-concerns at all, let it +<span class="pagebreak" title="32"> </span><a name="Page_32" id="Page_32"></a> +be only to one or two +intimate friends, who, from the regard which they feel for <i>you</i>, may be +supposed to take an interest in all belonging to you.</p> + +<p>Be on your guard against getting into the habit of telling long stories: +they generally are tiresome. Many circumstances, in addition to the +feeling that you have them to tell, may give them a consequence in your +eyes, which they do not in reality possess. Lively anecdotes, or short +narratives, told with spirit, are among the most amusing ingredients in +conversation; but even with them, if you often meet the same company, +there is considerable danger of falling into repetition.</p> + +<p>Never be guilty of falling into the too common practice of indulging in + +<span class="pagebreak" title="33"> </span><a name="Page_33" id="Page_33"></a> +scandal, the practice of talking of men disparagingly, of running down +their character behind their backs. I by no means wish you to flatter +any man, whether present or absent, or to speak favourably of character +or of conduct which does not deserve it. But beware of <i>detraction</i>. +Nothing is more unamiable in any man, especially in a <i>young</i> man; and, +what is of infinitely more consequence, nothing is more opposite to the +spirit and the precepts of religion, which repeatedly enjoins us to +<i>speak evil of no man</i>. Bear in mind the advice of one of the most +sagacious and penetrating observers of human nature:—<i>Whether it be to +a friend or foe, talk not of other men’s lives; and if thou +<span class="pagebreak" title="34"> </span><a name="Page_34" id="Page_34"></a> +canst, +without offence, reveal them not<a name="fnm_34_1" id="fnm_34_1"></a><a href="#fn_34_1" class="fnnum">34:1</a>.</i> <i>If thou canst without +offence</i>;—circumstances may require that the truth should be +revealed,—that the real truth should be spoken and made known, even +though it should be injurious,—though it should be absolutely fatal to +another man’s character. But do not take pleasure in telling any thing +to another’s prejudice; do not make the tearing of a character in pieces +a matter of amusement. By such conduct you would not only be guilty of a +gross violation of Christian charity, but will probably bring yourself +into many scrapes in a worldly point of view. In a mixed company, +<span class="pagebreak" title="35"> </span><a name="Page_35" id="Page_35"></a> +there +may chance to be some friend or connexion of him, whom you are running +down; or, at all events, what you say will be repeated,—<i>a bird of the +air will carry the matter</i>,—till it comes to the ears of the injured +person. And what will be the consequence? A feeling of aversion and +dislike, a spirit of hostility to you, will, not unnaturally, be +engendered, both in him and in such of his friends and connections as +are acquainted with the circumstance.</p> + +<p>One of the most unwarrantable kinds or forms of detraction, is the +attributing of any man’s conduct to corrupt or unworthy motives. A man’s +real motives are known only to God and to himself; indeed, very +<span class="pagebreak" title="36"> </span><a name="Page_36" id="Page_36"></a> +often +to God <i>alone</i>, as from the deceitfulness and intricacy of the human +heart, a man himself is sometimes ignorant as to what his real motives +actually are. Certainly it is rash and presumptuous for any other man to +pretend to decide upon them, and most uncharitable and unjust to +pronounce them to be corrupt, when they are capable of a favourable +interpretation. Express your disapprobation of unworthy actions as +strongly as you please; but beware of rash and uncharitable censure, and +especially beware of the presumption of imputing to any corrupt and evil +motives.</p> + +<p>As I have cautioned you against violating Christian charity in +conversation, so I must warn you against +<span class="pagebreak" title="37"> </span><a name="Page_37" id="Page_37"></a> +infringing on Christian +purity. You have arrived at a period of life, when your utmost care and +vigilance will be requisite, to keep your natural passions and appetites +within proper bounds. Indeed, all your care will be ineffectual unless +assisted by Divine grace. Do not take part in conversation which is +calculated to add to their importunity or to their strength. Thoughtless +young men, under the influence of these feelings, sometimes indulge in +<i>foolish talking and jesting</i><a name="fnm_37_1" id="fnm_37_1"></a><a href="#fn_37_1" class="fnnum">37:1</a>, of most pernicious tendency, and +most inconsistent with the Christian character. Avoid and discourage +conversation of this nature, +<span class="pagebreak" title="38"> </span><a name="Page_38" id="Page_38"></a> +so far as you possibly can. Do not add +fuel to a flame which already burns but too fiercely. <i>Fools make a mock +at sin</i><a name="fnm_38_1" id="fnm_38_1"></a><a href="#fn_38_1" class="fnnum">38:1</a>; and none but <i>fools</i> should be capable of making a joke +of temptations and vices, which in themselves are awfully serious, which +lead on to eternal ruin.</p> + +<p>I hope you will never be so unfortunate, as to fall much into the +company of men, who make a jest of religion, or of any thing connected +with religion. Those who are bent upon following the guidance of their +own appetites, and their own wills, naturally dislike that which would +check and restrain them. They are consequently +<span class="pagebreak" title="39"> </span><a name="Page_39" id="Page_39"></a> +apt to become +<i>scoffers</i>, and to attempt to turn religion and its sanctions into +ridicule. Avoid the society and conversation of such men, as you would +avoid the plague. If unhappily thrown among them, discountenance them to +the utmost.</p> + +<p>Do not indulge yourself in a habit of raillery or banter. Raillery is a +difficult thing to manage well, and very apt both to give pain to him +who is the object of it, and to reflect discredit on him who attempts +it. Sometimes you see one or two young men, of more liveliness than +sense, picking out some quiet person in company as a <i>butt</i>, at which +they may point their wit, and carrying on an attack of banter and +ridicule. This is, probably, +<span class="pagebreak" title="40"> </span><a name="Page_40" id="Page_40"></a> +not only annoying to him, but tiresome and +painful to all the right feeling men who chance to be present.</p> + +<p>I am glad to join in, or to witness, a honest hearty laugh, when any +thing really calls for it. Beware, however, of the practice of laughing +when there is nothing to laugh at. Some people fall into a way of giving +the accompaniment of a laugh to almost every thing that they utter, +especially if they have any direct intention to be jocular. This habit +is disagreeable to most of those who witness it. It proceeds, I believe, +generally from a sort of shyness and awkwardness contracted in early +youth, and is, as I know from experience, +<span class="pagebreak" title="41"> </span><a name="Page_41" id="Page_41"></a> +difficult to get rid of. It +certainly is inconsistent with the manners and habits of good society. +Be always the last to laugh at your own jokes, or your own <i>good</i> +stories. If they are really worth laughing at, the company will find it +out, and by premature or excessive laughter you will mar their effect.</p> + +<p>As you get on in society, you will probably often fall into discussion +and argument. When this is the case, take care not to be too positive or +peremptory in your manner. Be solicitous to allow their full weight to +the arguments of your antagonist. Do not suffer the impression of the +force and correctness of your own reasoning, to render you blind to what + +<span class="pagebreak" title="42"> </span><a name="Page_42" id="Page_42"></a> +is urged against you. Above all, keep your temper. If you lose your +temper, victory will be deprived of its credit, and defeat will be more +disgraceful. At the same time you will run a double chance of being +defeated, without having the wit to see, or the manliness to own it. +Believe me, my dear nephew, (to adopt the very words of one of the most +sagacious and distinguished of modern statesmen) “that the arms with +which the ill dispositions of the world are to be combated, and the +qualities by which it is to be reconciled to us, and we reconciled to +it, are moderation, gentleness, a little indulgence to others, and a +great deal of distrust of ourselves; which are not qualities of +<span class="pagebreak" title="43"> </span><a name="Page_43" id="Page_43"></a> +a mean +spirit, as some may possibly think them, but virtues of a great and +noble kind, and such as dignify our nature as much as they contribute to +our repose and fortune; for nothing can be so unworthy of a +well-composed soul, as to pass away life in bickerings and litigations, +in snarling and scuffling with every one about us. Again and again, my +dear,—we must be at peace with our species; if not for their sakes, yet +very much for our own<a name="fnm_43_1" id="fnm_43_1"></a><a href="#fn_43_1" class="fnnum">43:1</a>.”</p> + +<p>But my letter grows long, and I must hasten to conclude it. Read +repeatedly Cowper’s lively poem on +<span class="pagebreak" title="44"> </span><a name="Page_44" id="Page_44"></a> +conversation, which seems to me to +have much of the spirit and accurate moral taste of Horace, with the +elevation derived from Christianity. Read, too, if you can lay your hand +on it, Bishop Horne’s paper on conversation, in the Olla Podrida. In +these two essays you will find many of the sentiments which I have +expressed, only given in a much more engaging manner. In the 78th and +83d Numbers of the Idler, many common faults in conversation are exposed +with a degree of humour, in which our great moralist did not very +frequently indulge.</p> + +<p class="yours"> +<span class="indentremain">I remain,</span><br /> +<span class="indentnephew">My dear Nephew,</span><br /> +Your affectionate Uncle. +</p> + + +<div class="footnotes"> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_34_1" id="fn_34_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_34_1">34:1</a></span> Ecclus. xix. 8.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_37_1" id="fn_37_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_37_1">37:1</a></span> Ephes. v. 4. and Coloss. iii. 8.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_38_1" id="fn_38_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_38_1">38:1</a></span> Prov. xiv. 9.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_43_1" id="fn_43_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_43_1">43:1</a></span> Prior’s Life of Burke, p. 215. Second edition.</p></div> +</div> + + +<h2> +<span class="pagebreak" title="45"> </span><a name="Page_45" id="Page_45"></a> +<a name="LETTER_IV" id="LETTER_IV"></a>LETTER IV.</h2> + +<p class="lettertitle">AGAINST YIELDING TO THE INFLUENCE OF NUMBERS.</p> + + +<p class="salutation smcap">My dear Nephew,</p> + +<p>When I advised you to fall in, so far as you reasonably can, with the +wishes and inclinations of those with whom you associate, you +understood, I trust, that compliance should never go so far, as to +involve the slightest sacrifice of truth or of principle. When carried +to this culpable extent, it becomes an instance of weak and unmanly +cowardice.</p> + +<p>One of the greatest dangers to +<span class="pagebreak" title="46"> </span><a name="Page_46" id="Page_46"></a> +which young men are exposed upon their +first entrance into the world, is that which arises from their readiness +to be swayed by the example or by the persuasion of their companions. +The example, and still more the persuasion, of a single individual, is +sometimes not without difficulty resisted, and the difficulty of +resistance is greatly increased by the influence of numbers. A young man +dreads the imputation of singularity. He cannot bear to stand out +against the example, perhaps the solicitations, of those among whom he +lives. He suffers himself, therefore, to be carried along by the stream, +and led into conduct, of which, in his conscience, he utterly +disapproves.</p> + +<p> +<span class="pagebreak" title="47"> </span><a name="Page_47" id="Page_47"></a> +Never, my dear nephew, do you be guilty of such weakness. Avoid +singularity, whenever it can be avoided with innocence: an affectation +of singularity for singularity’s sake, generally proceeds from conceit +or self-sufficiency. But where the path of duty is clear, let no example +or persuasion induce you to swerve from it. Keep ever impressed upon +your mind the admonition of Scripture, <i>Thou shalt not follow a +multitude to do evil</i>.</p> + +<p>Never suffer yourself to be laughed out of what is right. Never be +ashamed of adhering to what you know to be your duty. In matters of duty +keep in mind the words of Scripture, <i>Fear ye not the reproach +<span class="pagebreak" title="48"> </span><a name="Page_48" id="Page_48"></a> +of men, +neither be afraid of their revilings</i>. Never expose yourself to the +censure justly cast upon those who value the praise or the approbation +of men,—of giddy, thoughtless, sensual men, more than the praise of +God. Remember, my dear nephew, the solemn warning of our Lord: <i>If any +man shall be ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful +generation, of him shall the Son of man be ashamed when he cometh in his +glory with his holy angels</i>.</p> + +<p>In your steady adherence to the dictates of conscience, you will always +find some who will respect you for it; or, even if you should stand +alone, like Abdiel, “among the faithless, the only faithful,” you will +be supported +<span class="pagebreak" title="49"> </span><a name="Page_49" id="Page_49"></a> +by the testimony of your own heart, and by an humble +confidence in the approbation of the Almighty. One or two instances may, +probably, make my meaning more clear.</p> + +<p>Perhaps a few joyous spirits have devised some scheme of irregular, +sensual gratification,—of Bacchanalian revelry;—or, perhaps, two or +three dunces, whose intellects and moral feelings are of such a stamp, +as to render them rather impracticable subjects for academical +discipline, have contrived some plan of impotent resistance to the +college authorities, or some plot of petty and vexatious annoyance, in +order to give vent to their mortification, when such silly resistance + +<span class="pagebreak" title="50"> </span><a name="Page_50" id="Page_50"></a> +has been proved to be ineffectual. Wishing for the screen or protection +of numbers, they will try to persuade their companions, that they will +be wanting in manly spirit, or in social feeling, if they refuse to join +them. And is there, after all, any thing so very <i>spirited</i>, any thing +of high-minded and noble daring in behaviour, which seeks to screen +itself by concealment and subterfuge, and which, if detected, braves, +not any personal danger or suffering, but merely the terrors of an +imposition? If the offence is so aggravated as to entail the heavier +penalty, rustication, or expulsion, such punishment inflicts, indeed, +severe grief upon the parents and friends of the offender; but he + +<span class="pagebreak" title="51"> </span><a name="Page_51" id="Page_51"></a> +himself, with the short-sightedness of folly, perhaps almost enjoys the +idleness and the freedom from academical restraint, to which rustication +consigns him. A young Oxonian is apt to feel very indignant if not +treated by deans and tutors, as a man and as a gentleman; but has he any +right to expect to be so treated, if he condescends to adopt the +practices of a mischievous or a truant school boy?</p> + +<p>I am no friend to the unnecessary imposition of oaths; but, I own, I do +not see how any thing like deliberate and systematic opposition to +academical authority, can be reconciled with the oath of academical +obedience taken by every freshman. I know well that the usual +construction of that +<span class="pagebreak" title="52"> </span><a name="Page_52" id="Page_52"></a> +oath,—(I doubt not the legitimate +construction)—is, that the person who takes it will obey the statutes, +or submit to the penalty imposed upon the infraction of them. I am +aware, too, that the violation of the strict letter of many of the +statutes is acquiesced in, and almost sanctioned, by those in authority; +but surely a <i>deliberate</i> and <i>contumacious</i> contravention of the +statutes, accompanied by a natural endeavour to evade punishment, is +hardly consistent with the spirit of the oath. Certainly it is +inconsistent with the spirit of Christianity, which everywhere +inculcates a dutiful submission to the constituted authorities; a +compliance, in all things lawful, with the regulations of the place in +which we +<span class="pagebreak" title="53"> </span><a name="Page_53" id="Page_53"></a> +are, and of the society which has received us among its +members. No man is compelled to go to the University; but if he does go +thither, he should make up his mind to comply with its rules, during the +short period of his residence.</p> + +<p>Perhaps, my dear nephew, you may think that I have all this time been +combating, or, rather, seeking to <i>lay</i>, a phantom of my own raising; +that I have been making mole-hills into mountains; or, like Don Quixote, +turning wind-mills into giants: but, in my long Oxford life, I have +heard of so many instances of the silly behaviour of which I have been +speaking, that I wish to put you on your guard against it. True +manliness +<span class="pagebreak" title="54"> </span><a name="Page_54" id="Page_54"></a> +consists in adhering to what you think to be right. In +keeping steadily to the path of duty, notwithstanding the solicitations, +or the taunts, or the ridicule of your associates, there is more proper +spirit and moral courage, than in braving the rebuke or the impositions +of a dean or a proctor.</p> + +<p class="yours"> +<span class="indentremain">I remain,</span><br /> +<span class="indentnephew">My dear Nephew,</span><br /> +Your affectionate Uncle. +</p> + + +<h2> +<span class="pagebreak" title="55"> </span><a name="Page_55" id="Page_55"></a> +<a name="LETTER_V" id="LETTER_V"></a>LETTER V.</h2> + +<p class="lettertitle">IMPROVEMENT OF TIME.</p> + + +<p class="salutation">MY DEAR NEPHEW,</p> + +<p>I trust that you are now hard at work. I can figure you with your +Herodotus before you, your Scapula on one side, and your maps on the +other, <i>setting-to</i> in good earnest. You have, I am sure, fully +determined to make the most of your time. The time which you must +necessarily pass in Oxford, in order to take your bachelor’s degree, is +but little after all. +<span class="pagebreak" title="56"> </span><a name="Page_56" id="Page_56"></a> +Your whole actual residence, during the three +years, will probably not much exceed a year and a half. Certainly, of +this <i>modicum</i> of time you cannot afford to waste any portion. Make a +point of devoting it to real study, to real strenuous exertion. You owe +this to yourself—to your own credit and character; you owe it to your +parents, who have probably put themselves to some pecuniary +inconvenience, in order to give you the advantage of an Oxford +education; you owe it to God, to whom you are responsible for the +employment of your time, as well as for the proper use of your other +talents. Fix in your mind and memory the lesson taught you by the +sun-dial in the Quadrangle at All +<span class="pagebreak" title="57"> </span><a name="Page_57" id="Page_57"></a> +Souls—“<i>Pereunt et imputantur</i>;” or +that of another similar monitor—“<i>Ab hoc momento pendet æternitas</i>.” +Take time for exercise; take time for relaxation; but make steady +reading your object and your business. Do not be so weak, or so unmanly, +or so vain, as to be ashamed of being known to read. You went to Oxford +on purpose to study; why should you be ashamed of keeping that purpose +in view?</p> + +<p>In the choice of your studies, be guided implicitly by the advice of +your tutor. Very likely you may not see the use of some branches of +science, or of reading some particular books. But do not fancy that in +such +<span class="pagebreak" title="58"> </span><a name="Page_58" id="Page_58"></a> +matters you are wiser than older men, who have maturely considered +these things again and again. If you mean to be your own guide and your +own teacher, you had better have staid away from Oxford altogether. It +is one great advantage of academical education, that a definite course +of reading is marked out for you. When a young man,—indeed, when <i>any</i> +man,—is left entirely to his own choice, he is apt to be distracted by +the many different branches of study, the many different books, which +present themselves, and to fall into a habit of desultory reading, +productive of little lasting benefit. You are saved from this +distraction and perplexity, throw +<span class="pagebreak" title="59"> </span><a name="Page_59" id="Page_59"></a> +ing upon other shoulders the trouble +and responsibility of making a proper choice.</p> + +<p>I believe almost every tutor now in Oxford, will direct his pupils to +devote a certain portion of their time to the highest of all +studies—the study of religion. Some knowledge of religion is absolutely +indispensable, in order to pass your examination for your degree. But +independently of all academical objects, you cannot help feeling +satisfied that time so employed, is employed well and wisely. Such +study, with the blessing of God upon it, will be beneficial to you +through the whole of your future existence, both in this world and the +next.</p> + +<p> +<span class="pagebreak" title="60"> </span><a name="Page_60" id="Page_60"></a> +Among the many advantages of an university education, must be reckoned +the opportunity of attending public lectures, such lectures especially, +as are illustrated, by an expensive philosophical apparatus, or by the +inspection of actual specimens. The experiments conducted by means of +such apparatus, and the handing round of specimens, are not only +absolutely essential, oftentimes, to the comprehension of the science to +which they belong, but contribute powerfully to fix it in the memory. If +you can spare the time from your severer studies, and if your tutor does +not disapprove, I should strongly advise you to attend in succession the +lectures on natural philosophy,—on chemistry,—on +<span class="pagebreak" title="61"> </span><a name="Page_61" id="Page_61"></a> +mineralogy,—and on +geology. Some acquaintance with these sciences, is in itself so +interesting and useful, and is now so general, that you ought not, I +think, to miss your present opportunity of acquiring it: so favourable +an opportunity you will hardly meet with again.</p> + +<p>Much may be done by a judicious distribution of your time. When you have +made such a distribution, keep to it steadily. Be peremptory with +yourself in adhering to it, and be peremptory in preventing others from +encroaching upon it,—from encroaching upon it, at least, unnecessarily. +I suppose that, upon the average, you may get four or five hours’ steady +reading before dinner, and three or four +<span class="pagebreak" title="62"> </span><a name="Page_62" id="Page_62"></a> +after. This will leave you +abundant time for exercise, for relaxation, and for society. Certainly +it will not spare you any for mere <i>lounging</i>; either for lounging +yourself, or being lounged upon by others. If you cannot avoid the +latter by any other means, you will be reduced to the alternative of +shutting your door, or, if that term is still in use, of <i>sporting oak</i> +against them. If they reproach you, set them, as their punishment, to +read the paper in the Idler on the robbery of time<a name="fnm_62_1" id="fnm_62_1"></a><a href="#fn_62_1" class="fnnum">62:1</a>.</p> + +<p>Either of your time, or of your money, waste as little as possible upon +newspapers. I admit, that of +<span class="pagebreak" title="63"> </span><a name="Page_63" id="Page_63"></a> +all periods of history, the time in which +we actually live is, <i>to us</i>, the most interesting. I admit that, both +with a view to your taking part in the conversation of general society, +as well as upon other accounts, some knowledge of passing events is +desirable, or even necessary. For such purposes, a rapid glance at the +newspaper, or even what is picked up by hearsay, will, generally +speaking, be sufficient. While reading for your degree, however, you +really cannot spare time to read the newspapers <i>through</i>. The most +important portions of them are, perhaps, the debates during the session +of parliament, and the trials. Of the debates, a considerable part is +very trifling and +<span class="pagebreak" title="64"> </span><a name="Page_64" id="Page_64"></a> +unprofitable; and, in order to read with real +advantage those speeches which are most deserving of attention, it is +necessary to be possessed of a considerable portion of that knowledge of +history, of legislation, of political economy, of mercantile and +financial transactions, the <i>foundations</i> of which you are at Oxford +engaged in laying. It is not to be wished that an under-graduate should +affect to be an experienced politician, prepared to give a strong and +decided opinion upon subjects, upon which able and experienced men, +possessed of ten times his knowledge, find a difficulty in making up +their mind. In the reports of trials, many curious facts, and much +interesting information are +<span class="pagebreak" title="65"> </span><a name="Page_65" id="Page_65"></a> +to be found. In order to understand many of +them, however, it is requisite to have a more intimate acquaintance with +the rules of English jurisprudence, and with the practice of the courts, +than can be expected in a young man as yet hardly set free from the +eggshell of school. Upon the subject of newspapers, however, I will say +no more. I well know, that in merely touching upon it, I tread upon +delicate and debateable ground.</p> + +<p>Take sufficient time for relaxation; but let your relaxations, as far as +you can, be intellectual and improving.</p> + +<p>Oxford now presents opportunities, both of acquiring some knowledge of +natural history, and of cultivating a +<span class="pagebreak" title="66"> </span><a name="Page_66" id="Page_66"></a> +taste in the fine arts, which it +by no means possessed when I was an under-graduate. For these we are +principally indebted to those two admirable brothers<a name="fnm_66_1" id="fnm_66_1"></a><a href="#fn_66_1" class="fnnum">66:1</a>, who have so +long devoted their time, their money, their distinguished talents, and +their various attainments, in the first place, to plans of beneficence, +and in the next, to the advancement of science and the cultivation of +taste. It is to them that we owe the enlargement, the arrangement, and +in fact the greater part of the contents, of the Museum, which now +contains a very interesting +<span class="pagebreak" title="67"> </span><a name="Page_67" id="Page_67"></a> +collection of specimens, particularly in +British ornithology. To them we are indebted for the excellent casts (in +the Radcliffe Library) from the most perfect specimens of sculpture, and +for the beautiful models (in the Picture Gallery) of the most celebrated +remains of ancient architecture. The Picture Gallery itself contains +many paintings, which, if not of any great excellence as works of art, +yet are well deserving of attention on very many accounts; and the +copies from the Cartoons, especially if you can be assisted with a few +hints from Richardson or Sir Joshua Reynolds, are most interesting +objects of study and contemplation. I am surprised that the young men in +Oxford +<span class="pagebreak" title="68"> </span><a name="Page_68" id="Page_68"></a> +make so little use of these advantages. Many of them seem hardly +to be aware of their existence.</p> + +<p>Among other modes of relaxation, not unconnected with intellectual +improvement, I should advise you to make yourself a little acquainted +with our early English architecture. If you can buy or borrow either +Bentham’s Essay on Gothic Architecture, or Milner’s accurate and elegant +Treatise on the Ecclesiastical Architecture of England during the middle +ages, you will need no other assistance, excepting, indeed, a friend +disposed to go along with you in this pursuit. Oxford and its immediate +neighbourhood will furnish you with many interesting specimens from the + +<span class="pagebreak" title="69"> </span><a name="Page_69" id="Page_69"></a> +Saxon and Norman, in the cathedral, St. Peter’s in the East, and Iffley +church, down to the utter depravation of the art, or rather the total +change of style, in the time of Henry the Eighth.</p> + +<p>These interesting pursuits, however, I mention, as you must follow them, +if you follow them at all, merely <i>by the by</i>. They must not be suffered +to interfere with your severer studies. When engaged in those studies, +give them your whole undivided attention. <i>Whatsoever your hand, or your +head, findeth to do, do it with all your might.</i></p> + +<p>The habits of study and of intellectual improvement, which you acquire +at Oxford, you should carry +<span class="pagebreak" title="70"> </span><a name="Page_70" id="Page_70"></a> +with you into the vacation. During the +vacation, you may, perhaps, take more time for society—the society +especially of your own immediate family—and more for relaxation; but +still do not <i>waste</i> your time; still consider yourself as responsible +for the right employment of it. Make sure of the ground which you gained +during the term, by going over by yourself, what you then read with your +tutor. Improve your acquaintance with the standard writers of our own +country, and acquire some knowledge of modern history. In short, make +the most of your leisure. Read Bishop Home’s sermon on redeeming the +time, and the papers in the Spectator and the Rambler to which he + +<span class="pagebreak" title="71"> </span><a name="Page_71" id="Page_71"></a> +refers. Read, <i>and learn by heart</i>, what is said on the loss of time in +the second of Young’s Night Thoughts:</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">“Part with it as with money, sparing; pay<br /></span> +<span class="i0">No moment but in purchase of its worth.”<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>But my letter grows long, and (you will say) tedious.</p> + +<p class="yours"> +<span class="indentremain">I remain,</span><br /> +<span class="indentnephew">My dear Nephew,</span><br /> +Your affectionate Uncle. +</p> + + +<div class="footnotes"> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_62_1" id="fn_62_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_62_1">62:1</a></span> Vol. I. No. 14.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_66_1" id="fn_66_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_66_1">66:1</a></span> John Duncan, Esq. and Philip Duncan, Esq. of New +College.</p></div> +</div> + + + +<h2> +<span class="pagebreak" title="72"> </span><a name="Page_72" id="Page_72"></a> +<a name="LETTER_VI" id="LETTER_VI"></a>LETTER VI.</h2> + +<p class="lettertitle">PUNCTUALITY.</p> + + +<p class="salutation">MY DEAR NEPHEW,</p> + +<p>I ventured to give you some advice respecting the employment of your +time; perhaps I ought to follow up that letter with a few remarks upon +<span class="smcap">punctuality</span>. Unless you acquire the habit of punctuality, you will be +apt, not only to lose your own time, but to make unjustifiable inroads +upon the time of other persons.</p> + +<p> +<span class="pagebreak" title="73"> </span><a name="Page_73" id="Page_73"></a> +Endeavour, therefore, to <i>keep to your time</i> in every appointment, +whether the appointment be made by yourself or by others, (the college +authorities for instance,) whether it be with a superior, an equal, or +an inferior. Whether it be in a matter of business or in a matter of +pleasure, try always to be true to it. Let this be your system and your +habit. Some deviations from punctuality may now and then be unavoidable; +but do not let them occur unless they <i>really are</i> unavoidable in +fairness and reason. If you have yourself made an appointment, your word +is, to a certain degree, pledged to your keeping to it. The case is in +some measure the same, when, though the appointment +<span class="pagebreak" title="74"> </span><a name="Page_74" id="Page_74"></a> +is actually made by +others, you have acceded to it.</p> + +<p>Want of punctuality seems to proceed either from pride and +superciliousness, or from some infirmity, some weakness of character. +Most men try to be punctual in any appointment with a man of rank +superior to themselves, especially if they have any object, any +interest, in conciliating his favour. And, on the other hand, too many +persons seem to feel themselves at liberty to be unpunctual in an +appointment with an inferior. It is not worth while, they think, to care +about being exact with one so much beneath them. “Let him wait till I am +at leisure to attend to him,” exclaims such a man, in the +<span class="pagebreak" title="75"> </span><a name="Page_75" id="Page_75"></a> +proud +consciousness of superiority; and, perhaps, some trifle, or mere +indolence, is all that he has to plead for his neglect.</p> + +<p>You, my dear nephew, have, I trust, long since learned, that you have no +right to treat any man, however low his rank may be, with +disrespect,—with any thing approaching to contempt. You well know, that +both reason and religion require us to regard all men as our brothers, +and that one of the golden rules of the latter is, <i>in lowliness of +mind, let each esteem others better than himself</i>. Whatever a man’s rank +in life may be, he has a right to punctuality as he has a right to +truth; and you have no right, by your unpunctuality, to rob him +<span class="pagebreak" title="76"> </span><a name="Page_76" id="Page_76"></a> +either +of his time or his patience. Certainly you have no right to give him by +such means the painful feeling that he is neglected, and neglected +because he is despised.</p> + +<p>And thus, also, with men of your own age and your own rank in life; in +all the little engagements and appointments, whether of business or of +pleasure, which occur in the common intercourse of society, endeavour +still to maintain the habit of punctuality. As every man wishes to have +the character of being true to his word, so it will be to your credit to +have the character of being true to your engagements, whether those +engagements relate to great matters or to small.</p> + +<p> +<span class="pagebreak" title="77"> </span><a name="Page_77" id="Page_77"></a> +But though want of punctuality is sometimes occasioned by pride, it +must more frequently proceed from a certain degree of weakness of +character, or from mere indolence. A man acknowledges punctuality to be +right and desirable, but cannot muster up sufficient energy and +resolution. He cannot prevail upon himself to quit his bed, or his easy +chair, or his fire-side, or the employment by which he chances to be +occupied, till the time fixed on has passed away. His friends are kept +waiting; those who have business to transact with him lose their temper; +they, again, are perhaps disappointing others, and all because he had +not sufficient decision +<span class="pagebreak" title="78"> </span><a name="Page_78" id="Page_78"></a> +of character, sufficient command of himself, to +be punctual.</p> + +<p>You may remember seeing at my house my friend Mr. M.<a name="fnm_78_1" id="fnm_78_1"></a><a href="#fn_78_1" class="fnnum">78:1</a> He was at +Oxford a very good-humoured fellow, and every body liked him; but he +never could contrive to be in time for any thing. He got imposition upon +imposition for being too late for chapel; he came to dine in hall when +other men were going away; and his friends were almost afraid of making +an appointment with him, either for business or for amusement, because +they knew beforehand that he would not keep it. When, after leaving +Oxford, he established himself as a +<span class="pagebreak" title="79"> </span><a name="Page_79" id="Page_79"></a> +country gentleman in his paternal +mansion, the same habit still clung to him. No time was fixed for any +thing, or if it was fixed, it was never kept. Neither his guests nor his +servants knew at what hour either breakfast, or dinner, or any other +domestic arrangement, would take place. Consequently, their time and +their spirits were wasted in uncertainty. When engaged to dine at a +neighbour’s, perhaps he would forget the engagement altogether; or, if +he chanced to remember it, would not arrive till the master of the feast +had given him up in despair, after allowing possibly an extra half hour, +during which, the solemn pause which sometimes takes place before +dinner, had become more +<span class="pagebreak" title="80"> </span><a name="Page_80" id="Page_80"></a> +solemn, from the annoyance of seeing a whole +party kept waiting by the unpunctuality of one person. The servants, +meanwhile, were yawning and fidgetting backwards and forwards in the +listlessness of expectation; the cook perplexed with the sore dilemma of +seeing all the productions of her skill, either chilled with cold from +being kept back, or burnt to a cinder; and the temper even of the lady +of the house a little out of tune, from the certainty that the dinner +would be spoiled. Of all these various vexations, the sole cause was to +be found in Mr. M.’s want of energy. He could not bring himself, +perhaps, either to shorten a pleasant ride, or to lay down a book +<span class="pagebreak" title="81"> </span><a name="Page_81" id="Page_81"></a> +which +interested him, or to quit his own chair by the fire-side, in order to +dress. The convenience and comfort, and for a time the good humour, of a +whole company, were to be sacrificed to his indolence, his <i>vis +inertiæ</i>, and unpunctuality.</p> + +<p>Never permit yourself, my dear nephew, thus to trifle with the time or +the temper of any persons, whether high or low, with whom you have any +intercourse. Make a point of always being in time. I think it is said of +Lord Nelson (though I cannot hit upon the passage in his life), that +when some friend was fixing an appointment of importance at a certain +hour, the hero added, “Say a quarter <i>before</i>—to that quarter <i>before</i>, +I +<span class="pagebreak" title="82"> </span><a name="Page_82" id="Page_82"></a> +have owed all my success in life.” I do not advise you actually to be +<i>before</i> the time of an engagement, which some people will complain of +as being worse than being too late, but be so much beforehand as to be +master of your time, or to have it in your power to be punctual almost +to a minute. When you are received as a guest in a friend’s house, +consider compliance with the hours and habits of the family, as a +natural return for the hospitality which is shown to you. There is +something incongruous in seeing a young person deranging, by his +unpunctuality, the economy and regularity of a whole household. And do +not suffer the kindness and indulgence of your parents to induce +<span class="pagebreak" title="83"> </span><a name="Page_83" id="Page_83"></a> +you, +when with them, to be less attentive to punctuality than you are, when +with other persons of superior age or rank to yourself. Never let them +wait for you; make a point of being always ready. An excellent friend of +mine lays it down as a maxim, that <i>habitual unpunctuality is positive +incivility</i>.</p> + +<p>I have alluded to the unpunctuality of one of my college friends: I will +contrast it with the punctuality of another. The latter when at Oxford +was distinguished for lively talents, and for an exuberance of spirits +bursting forth into every possible variety of fun. He is now the owner +of a spacious and splendid mansion, with a large establishment of +servants, and +<span class="pagebreak" title="84"> </span><a name="Page_84" id="Page_84"></a> +often a considerable number of guests, attracted by his +many amiable and excellent qualities. He still retains his playfulness +of wit, but his domestic arrangements are a model of punctuality. Family +prayers, and every meal, are to a minute. His guests and servants, +consequently, know exactly what they have to depend on, the arrangements +of the day, whether for business or for amusement, can be made with +precision, and every thing is done at its proper time. This is +punctuality on a greater scale. You and I, my dear nephew, must attend +to it in smaller matters.</p> + +<p class="yours"> +<span class="indentremain">I remain,</span><br /> +<span class="indentnephew">My dear Nephew,</span><br /> +Your affectionate Uncle. +</p> + + +<div class="footnotes"> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_78_1" id="fn_78_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_78_1">78:1</a></span> Mr. M. is imaginary.</p></div> +</div> + + +<h2> +<span class="pagebreak" title="85"> </span><a name="Page_85" id="Page_85"></a> +<a name="LETTER_VII" id="LETTER_VII"></a>LETTER VII.</h2> + +<p class="lettertitle">AMUSEMENTS.</p> + + +<p class="salutation">MY DEAR NEPHEW,</p> + +<p>In a former letter I recommended to you certain modes of relaxation, +having some connection with intellectual improvement. You will, perhaps, +tell me that you want relaxation more entire and complete; that the +intellect requires perfect rest; that you must have <i>amusement</i> in the +strict etymological sense of the word. You may be right. I have already +advised +<span class="pagebreak" title="86"> </span><a name="Page_86" id="Page_86"></a> +you to take sufficient time for <i>exercise</i>, and the exercise of +the body will generally give rest and refreshment to the mind.</p> + +<p>In your choice of amusement, however—amusement, I mean, as combined +with exercise—you must have strict regard to economy, both of money and +of time. Do not think me an old woman, if I add, that regard for <i>both</i> +should keep you from any excessive bodily exertion, such as will unfit +you for study, or seriously affect your health. I am told that the +latter effect has of late, not unfrequently, been the result of over +fatigue in <i>rowing</i>; that many young men have died at an early age; that +others live on with all their powers +<span class="pagebreak" title="87"> </span><a name="Page_87" id="Page_87"></a> +debilitated, from having +overstrained their nerves, and their whole muscular system, in +boat-races. Rowing is in itself a salutary and delightful species of +exercise; and the facility of practising it, is one among the many +advantages of Oxford; but when carried to the excess which I have +alluded to, it is foolish and culpable.</p> + +<p>I would have a young man regardless of danger, willing to risk limbs, +health, or life itself, for the benefit of his fellow-creatures. He +should, like Hamlet, “hold his life at a pin’s fee,” when any adequate +object is to be answered by putting it in jeopardy. But a man has <i>no +right</i> to risk either his life or his limbs for a bravado, in +<span class="pagebreak" title="88"> </span><a name="Page_88" id="Page_88"></a> +mere idle +vanity and ostentation. Such wanton risk is cruelty to his parents and +friends, and a presumptuous tempting of Providence.</p> + +<p><i>Riding</i>, for riding’s sake, must, with your finances, be out of the +question. The utmost that you ought to allow yourself, is a hack once or +twice a term, for some specific purpose—to visit a distant friend, +perhaps, or to see some interesting object lying beyond the range of a +walk. What I have said of riding, applies, with ten-fold force, to +hunting, which entails expense—(the hire of a hunter, the hire of a +hack probably to take you to cover, sundry ostlers and helpers, and very +likely a jovial dinner at an inn)—utterly inconsistent with an +<span class="pagebreak" title="89"> </span><a name="Page_89" id="Page_89"></a> +average +allowance; which entails, also, a waste of time, which, in the short +period of an Oxford residence, can ill be spared.</p> + +<p>What shall I say of <i>cricket</i>? I have great respect for cricket, as a +national and a manly game. The demand which it makes upon your Oxford +time is confined to the short term between Easter and the long vacation, +and it does not require a very large portion of the day. It is not +<i>necessarily</i> attended with any expense. Whether the incidental expenses +of <i>uniform</i> (if you belong to a club), tent, dinner, &c. &c. are such +as you can fairly afford, is for your consideration. They need not be +high, and, in my good will to the +<span class="pagebreak" title="90"> </span><a name="Page_90" id="Page_90"></a> +game, I am anxious that they should +be kept down.</p> + +<p><i>Tennis</i> is an animated game, of much variety in itself, and requiring +great variety of muscular exertion. It is connected with many historical +and chivalrous recollections, and carries the mind back to our Henry the +Fifth and the “mocking Dauphin” of France. As it cannot be played +without a spacious and expensive edifice, it is altogether an +aristocratic game, and demands an aristocratic purse. It is a game which +requires a good deal of practice, and, consequently, a good deal of +expenditure, in order to acquire a tolerable degree of skill; and your +skill will seldom have an opportunity of showing itself after you +<span class="pagebreak" title="91"> </span><a name="Page_91" id="Page_91"></a> +have +quitted Oxford, as you will seldom fall in with a tennis-court. I have +no hesitation in saying, that you, my dear nephew, have no money that +you have a right to spend upon yourself in this manner.</p> + +<p>You will never, I trust, annoy any of the neighbouring country +gentlemen, by attacking their game. You know how tender a point this is, +and how susceptible most landed proprietors are upon the subject; and +your own good feeling, and sense of propriety, and common fairness, will +prevent you from trespassing in this manner. You can imagine how +indignant you would yourself feel at such an invasion, and will not be + +<span class="pagebreak" title="92"> </span><a name="Page_92" id="Page_92"></a> +guilty towards another of a wrong, of which you would complain loudly +if it were offered to yourself.</p> + +<p>After all, <i>walking</i> is the cheapest exercise, and, perhaps, the best. +If you wish to give it variety, you will find plenty of ditches to leap, +steeps to ascend, and hills to run up or down. And, dull as are most of +the great roads leading into Oxford, the country round abounds in +interesting objects within reach of a walk. There is much natural +scenery, possessed of a good deal of variety and picturesque character; +and there are many buildings, and remains of buildings, which either +from something in themselves, or from adventitious circumstances, well +deserve to be looked at. The +<span class="pagebreak" title="93"> </span><a name="Page_93" id="Page_93"></a> +church at Cumnor, for instance, not only +has within itself much to interest a man fond of architectural or +antiquarian investigation, but, in common with the remains or site of +Cumnor hall, and the village of Dry Sandford, have acquired a sort of +classical notoriety from the magical pen of Sir Walter Scott. The +picturesque ruins of the kitchen, and other buildings at Stanton +Harcourt, the slight vestiges of Godston Nunnery, the Town Hall, the +Gaol, and the two churches at Abingdon, may all become, each in its +turn, the object of a pedestrian expedition. The residence of the +Speaker, Lenthall, at Bessilsleigh, may deserve notice, from historical +recollections, though for no other reason. The Saxon +<span class="pagebreak" title="94"> </span><a name="Page_94" id="Page_94"></a> +church in Iffley I +have already mentioned. The recently-built Saxon chapel at Kennington is +done in excellent taste, and is a most gratifying instance of the +munificence and piety of an individual clergyman, devoting, I believe, +almost all his resources to the work. The church at Wytham will show you +that a church very lately erected may, by correct judgment, be made to +present the appearance of having been built five hundred years ago. But +I must not go on in this way, or you will think that you have got hold +of an Oxford guide. Most of the villages and village churches in the +neighbourhood, have some character of their own worth examining.</p> + +<p> +<span class="pagebreak" title="95"> </span><a name="Page_95" id="Page_95"></a> +So much for amusements connected with exercise, which has led me into +something like a repetition of some of the sentiments in a former +letter.</p> + +<p>A few words on sedentary amusements.</p> + +<p>If you read <i>in earnest</i>, and are bent upon making the most of your +time, you will have little of it left for amusements of a sedentary +nature.</p> + +<p>The less you have to do with cards the better. Young men can have no +occasion for the assistance of cards in order to pass their time; and +there seems to be something almost incongruous in the idea of <i>their</i> +sitting down to a rubber. Nor do they need the excitement: if they wish +for it, that very wish is a reason why they +<span class="pagebreak" title="96"> </span><a name="Page_96" id="Page_96"></a> +ought not to have it. If +they play for money—or, at all events, if they play for such sums as +make the winning or losing an object of any degree of consequence—they +become gamblers; and of the many bad passions which gambling sometimes +calls into activity, and of the destructive consequences which it +entails, no one is ignorant. If you once get into the habit of playing, +you will, perhaps, not know when to stop. Cards are very seductive, and +you may find yourself become a gambler almost before you are aware of +it. Perhaps the best plan is <i>not to know</i> how to play, which furnishes +an answer always ready.</p> + +<p>Chess is a game of elegance and +<span class="pagebreak" title="97"> </span><a name="Page_97" id="Page_97"></a> +interest, and the being a good +chess-player, carries with it a certain impression of general ability +and of intellectual activity and resource. Perhaps I may allow that +playing at chess adds a certain degree of interest to the perusal of the +history of a campaign, whether ancient or modern, with its various +moves, its checks and counter-checks, its retreats and <i>castlings</i>. But +chess is a fascinating game, and will be apt to make larger demands upon +your time than you can afford. If you indulge in it at all, you must be +peremptory with yourself in resisting its tendency to incroach either +upon your time or your <i>temper</i>. Sometimes, too, it requires so much +exertion of +<span class="pagebreak" title="98"> </span><a name="Page_98" id="Page_98"></a> +thought,—is such a strain upon the mind,—that it hardly +can answer the purposes of relaxation. If you play, by all means read +Franklin’s Essay on the Morals of Chess. For clearness of head, for +truth-telling simplicity and honesty of purpose, and for perspicuity and +liveliness of style, Franklin has, perhaps, no superior.</p> + +<p>Always recollect that improvement, moral and intellectual, is the great +object for which you were sent to Oxford. With that object nothing must +be suffered to interfere.</p> + +<p class="yours"> +<span class="indentremain">I remain, &c. &c.</span><br /> +</p> + + + +<h2> +<span class="pagebreak" title="99"> </span><a name="Page_99" id="Page_99"></a> +<a name="LETTER_VIII" id="LETTER_VIII"></a>LETTER VIII.</h2> + +<p class="lettertitle">EXPENSES, AND RUNNING IN DEBT.</p> + + +<p class="salutation">MY DEAR NEPHEW,</p> + +<p>I do not know exactly what allowance your father has been able to give +you, but whatever it may be, I trust that you are resolutely determined +to keep within it. This will, of course, require a good deal of care and +attention. Many young men, when, upon going to the University, they find +in their pockets a much larger sum than they ever possessed before, +fancy themselves rich, and at liberty to allow +<span class="pagebreak" title="100"> </span><a name="Page_100" id="Page_100"></a> +themselves various +unnecessary indulgences. The consequence is, that they become entangled +in debts, from which they can never extricate themselves during their +continuance at Oxford. Be on your guard against getting thus hampered. +Take it for granted, that the regular and necessary claims upon your +finances will leave but little over for the indulgence of pleasure or +fancy.</p> + +<p>The expenses of an University education are often most unfairly +exaggerated by writers and speakers, who are fond of running down all +old institutions. These carpers affect to set down to the score of the +University all the money that is spent by the young men who reside in +it. They +<span class="pagebreak" title="101"> </span><a name="Page_101" id="Page_101"></a> +seem to forget that, wherever a young man may be, he must eat +and drink, and must purchase clothes suitable to his station in society. +I was myself, as you probably know, at Christ Church, where I took my +degree, and afterwards became a Fellow of Oriel. At Oriel, (which may +probably be taken as a fair average of the rest of the University,) the +<i>necessary</i> annual expenses of a commoner are from 70<i>l.</i> to 80<i>l.</i>, or +thereabouts<a name="fnm_101_1" id="fnm_101_1"></a><a href="#fn_101_1" class="fnnum">101:1</a>. This includes room-rent, batels, (that is, +breakfast, dinner, &c. <i>exclusive</i> of tea and sugar), tuition, +University and College dues, coals, letters, washing, servants. The +University dues are less than 1<i>l.</i> per annum. There are, +<span class="pagebreak" title="102"> </span><a name="Page_102" id="Page_102"></a> +perhaps, few +places in England, where a gentleman can be comfortably lodged and +boarded at a much cheaper rate. Still there will always be many +incidental expenses, and you must put in practice a pretty severe +economy in order to meet them.</p> + +<p>In the manner in which you spend your money, as in every thing else, +accustom yourself to a certain degree of self-denial. Do not buy any +thing merely because it hits your fancy, and you think you should <i>like +to have it</i>, but consider whether you cannot easily <i>do without it</i>. Be +as liberal as you can reasonably afford to be in assisting others, +especially the poor, but spend as little as you can help upon yourself. +Above all, never buy, or +<span class="pagebreak" title="103"> </span><a name="Page_103" id="Page_103"></a> +order, any thing which you are unable to pay +for.</p> + +<p>The habit of running in debt is pregnant with evil and misery of every +description. It often—perhaps generally—amounts to positive +dishonesty. The money which you owe a tradesman is really his property. +The articles, which you have received from him, are hardly your own, +until you have paid for them. If you keep them, without paying for them +when the seller wishes and asks for payment, you deprive a man of that +which belongs to him; and is not that something approaching to robbery? +To a man possessed of proper feeling and a nice sense of honour, it must +be very painful to suffer a tradesman +<span class="pagebreak" title="104"> </span><a name="Page_104" id="Page_104"></a> +to ask twice for what is clearly +his right. To affect to be offended with such an application, and to +meet it with superciliousness and insolence, is injustice carried to its +height.</p> + +<p>The manner in which some men, who would be ready to shoot any one who +disputed their claims to be considered as gentlemen, treat their +creditors, whom they choose to call <i>duns</i>, would, from its contrariety +to any thing like reason, be almost ludicrous, if it were not so +culpable, so cruel, and so dishonest.</p> + +<p>A tradesman, from not being able to recover the money owed to him, sees +himself in danger of losing his credit, and, together with his credit, +the means of getting a maintenance; +<span class="pagebreak" title="105"> </span><a name="Page_105" id="Page_105"></a> +he sees his wife and children +perhaps upon the very verge of misery, and yet, if he civilly asks for +what is his due, he is considered as troublesome and impertinent, +perhaps reproached and insulted!</p> + +<p>Upon this subject I shall allow myself to quote the words of Delany, the +friend of Dean Swift, one of the most animated and sensible of our +sermon writers.</p> + +<p>“Running in debt with tradesmen, and neglecting to pay them in due time, +is utterly ruinous to the whole business of trade and commerce, and +absolutely destructive of the very principles upon which it is built, +and by which it subsists; and yet this is a crime every day committed by +men +<span class="pagebreak" title="106"> </span><a name="Page_106" id="Page_106"></a> +of fortune and quality, with as little remorse as they eat and +drink; and if the tradesman demands his money, it is odds but he is +either threatened or turned into a jest. The son of Sirach’s wise +observation is here every day verified, merely substituting the words +<i>rich</i> and <i>poor</i>, for the words <i>debtor</i> and <i>creditor</i>. <i>The debtor +hath done wrong, and yet he threateneth; the creditor is wronged, and +yet he must entreat also.</i> If threats will not rid these men of their +importunate creditors, then are they to be deluded with fair words and +plausible excuses, to pay attendance from day to day, to the loss of +more time, and neglect of more business, than perhaps the debt is worth; +and so the first injury, instead +<span class="pagebreak" title="107"> </span><a name="Page_107" id="Page_107"></a> +of being repaired is doubled. And yet +the <i>gentleman</i> debtor, the author of this evil, is so far from +repenting of it, that it is odds but he vaunts his wit and dexterity in +doing it. <i>As a mad man</i> (saith Solomon) <i>who casteth firebrands, +arrows, and death: so is the man that deceiveth his neighbour, and +saith, Am I not in jest?</i> And, indeed, it is scarce to be conceived how +any man can deal more destruction and ruin around him, than by deceiving +and breaking faith with the fair trader; for it is well known, his +credit, his whole subsistence, depends upon keeping his word, and being +strictly punctual in his payments and his promises; and, if he fail in +these, he is undone at once. +<span class="pagebreak" title="108"> </span><a name="Page_108" id="Page_108"></a> +And how is it possible he should not fail, +if the gentlemen he deals with fail him? He hath no way of raising money +but by sale of his goods; and if those to whom they are trusted will not +pay him, it is impossible he can pay his creditors; and, if he do not +pay them, it is impossible but he must be ruined, and, perhaps, many +more with him. For traders are linked and dependent on one another; and +one man’s fall throws down many more with him: the shop-keeper is in +debt to the maker or the merchant; and these again to the journeyman, +the farmer, or the foreign correspondent; and so the ruin becomes +complicated, and extended beyond imagination!“</p> + +<p> +<span class="pagebreak" title="109"> </span><a name="Page_109" id="Page_109"></a> +“Credit is to a tradesman what honour is to a gentleman: to a man that +is truly such, (a gentleman,) his honour is as dear as his life: to the +trader, credit is as life itself; for he cannot live without it.”</p> + +<p>You, my dear nephew, will never, I trust, stoop so low as to be guilty +of such dishonesty. But then you must keep a vigilant eye upon your +expenses. Paying ready money for every thing may be sometimes +inconvenient, and may, perhaps, occasion mistakes; but never leave +Oxford for a vacation without clearing off every thing that you owe. +Take receipts, and keep them. The most honest and respectable tradesman +may sometimes, in the hurry of business, omit +<span class="pagebreak" title="110"> </span><a name="Page_110" id="Page_110"></a> +to cross a charge out of +his book, and will feel a satisfaction in having any doubt as to payment +removed. Have such receipts tied up and docketed, so that you may refer +to any one of them readily.</p> + +<p>Never suffer yourself to be led into needless expense by the example of +your companions, and never be ashamed of saying that you cannot afford +it.</p> + +<p>We sometimes see weak young men vying with each other in the expensive +elegance of their furniture and dress, or in the luxury of their +entertainments. A man of large fortune produces at his table a variety +of costly wines, abundance of ice, and a splendid dessert. Others, from +a +<span class="pagebreak" title="111"> </span><a name="Page_111" id="Page_111"></a> +silly vanity, affect to do the same, although such expensive luxuries +are altogether inconsistent with their finances, and with the general +habits of men in their rank of life. The more such expenses and foolish +ostentation can be checked by the college <i>authorities</i> the better. At +all events, do not <i>you</i> be so weak as to fall into them. There is no +disgrace in being poor, but there is disgrace and dishonesty too, in +contracting debts which you are unable to discharge.</p> + +<p>Some young Oxonians, I am afraid, after spending the larger portion of +their allowance upon amusements and self-indulgence, drive off the +payment of what they regard as their more <i>creditable</i> debts till they +take their +<span class="pagebreak" title="112"> </span><a name="Page_112" id="Page_112"></a> +degree, under the idea that they will then be paid by their +fathers. This is a most unwarrantable,—sometimes a <i>cruel</i>,—drain upon +parental kindness. Poets may well speak of university expenses “pinching +parents black and blue<a name="fnm_112_1" id="fnm_112_1"></a><a href="#fn_112_1" class="fnnum">112:1</a>,” when this is the case.</p> + +<p>The majority of parents, as I have already said, do not send their sons +to the University without some degree of pecuniary inconvenience to +themselves. It is, indeed, hard upon them, when, in addition to an +annual allowance, which, probably, they have furnished not without +difficulty, they are called upon for a considerable sum, in order to +save their sons’ credit—perhaps +<span class="pagebreak" title="113"> </span><a name="Page_113" id="Page_113"></a> +in order to enable him to take his +degree. For you are aware that an unpaid tradesman has the power, if he +thinks fit to exert it, of stopping the degree of a spendthrift +under-graduate. This power, I believe, is seldom, if ever, exercised. +But surely the being liable to it, through your own misconduct and +extravagance, would be attended with a feeling of painful humiliation.</p> + +<p class="yours"> +<span class="indentremain">I remain,</span><br /> +<span class="indentnephew">My dear Nephew,</span><br /> +Your affectionate Uncle. +</p> + + +<div class="footnotes"> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_101_1" id="fn_101_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_101_1">101:1</a></span> June, 1832.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_112_1" id="fn_112_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_112_1">112:1</a></span> Cowper.</p></div> +</div> + + +<h2> +<span class="pagebreak" title="114"> </span><a name="Page_114" id="Page_114"></a> +<a name="LETTER_IX" id="LETTER_IX"></a>LETTER IX.</h2> + +<p class="lettertitle">TEMPERANCE.</p> + + +<p class="salutation smcap">My dear Nephew,</p> + +<p>In the present state of society, it is, perhaps, less necessary than it +would have been formerly, that I should give you any caution or advice +on the subject of <i>temperance</i>. Five-and-thirty years ago, it was +customary to drink a good deal of wine after dinner, and young men at +Oxford were not behind-hand with the rest of the world in complying with +this bad custom.</p> + +<p> +<span class="pagebreak" title="115"> </span><a name="Page_115" id="Page_115"></a> +It was <i>then</i> generally the system, to initiate a freshman by making +him completely drunk. Scripture is by no means sufficiently listened to +<i>now</i>, but perhaps its warnings were less known and less regarded +<i>then</i>. The master of the revels and his abettors were ignorant, or +unmindful, of the threatenings denounced by the voice of +Inspiration,—<i>Woe unto him that giveth his neighbour drink, that +puttest thy bottle to him, and makest him drunken also</i>: and again—<i>Woe +unto them that are mighty to drink wine, and men of strength to mingle +strong drink</i>. Regardless of these denunciations, and trusting to the +strength of their own heads, and the practised discipline of their own +stomachs, their <i>noble</i> ambition was +<span class="pagebreak" title="116"> </span><a name="Page_116" id="Page_116"></a> +to make drunk as many of their +guests as possible, especially any luckless freshman who chanced to be +of the party. Those who, whether from religious principle or from +manliness of character, did not choose to submit to be made drunk, were +obliged either to encounter these <i>kind</i> endeavours with sturdy +resistance,—resistance which sometimes occasioned a total cessation of +intercourse and acquaintance,—or to evade them by stratagem. Glass +after glass was dexterously emptied upon the carpet under the table, or +the purple stream sought concealment under heaps of walnut-shells and +orange-peel. In short, at a tolerably large wine-party there was wasted, +or <i>worse than +<span class="pagebreak" title="117"> </span><a name="Page_117" id="Page_117"></a> +wasted</i>, a quantity of Port wine sufficient to check the +ravages of a typhus fever in an entire village.</p> + +<p>These days of <i>Celtic barbarism</i> are, I hope, utterly passed away. As in +general society very little wine is consumed, (<i>excepting at dinner</i>,) +so Oxford has caught the spirit of the times, and the bacchanalian +revels to which I have alluded are, I believe, much less common than +they were formerly, if not entirely exploded. I am afraid, however, that +even now more wine is drunk in some colleges, than is consistent either +with Christian temperance, or with habits of study, or with the +preservation of health.</p> + +<p>I need not point out to <i>you</i>, my dear nephew, the evils which, in a + +<span class="pagebreak" title="118"> </span><a name="Page_118" id="Page_118"></a> +religious point of view, result from drinking to excess. You, I well +know, would shudder at the idea of wilfully depriving yourself of +reason, and of sinking yourself to the situation of a beast or of a +maniac. A man, who has thrown away his reason, has little right to hope +for the continuance of the assisting and preventing grace of God. And +destitute of the controlling guidance, both of reason and of Divine +Grace, what is there left to prevent his ungoverned passions from +carrying him into the most perilous excesses? There are deadly vices, to +which young men are, at all times, but too powerfully solicited by their +natural appetites; and when those appetites are stimulated +<span class="pagebreak" title="119"> </span><a name="Page_119" id="Page_119"></a> +by drinking, +and all salutary control shaken off, the danger is great indeed. You +perhaps may remember an Eastern apologue to the following effect, (I +know not where to find it): The Devil having, by the impulse of terror, +induced a holy man to consent to commit <i>some</i> crime, allowed him to +choose, whether he would get drunk, or be guilty of either of two of the +most horrible enormities he could conceive. The poor victim chose +drunkenness, as being the least offence, but in the state to which he +had thus brought himself, was guilty of all three.</p> + +<p>And even if you are kept back from any additional guilt, yet you well + +<span class="pagebreak" title="120"> </span><a name="Page_120" id="Page_120"></a> +know, that by throwing away your reason, you become capable of being +guilty of all sorts of absurdities,—that you are liable to say and do a +hundred foolish things, of which, when you return to your senses, you +will be heartily ashamed,—that you expose yourself to the ridicule and +contempt of those, who witness the degraded state to which you have +reduced yourself.</p> + +<p>A drunken <i>Christian</i> is almost a contradiction in terms; and something +the same may be said of a drunken <i>gentleman</i>. Among many in the middle +and the industrious classes of society, there is much intelligence, much +quick perception of what is +<span class="pagebreak" title="121"> </span><a name="Page_121" id="Page_121"></a> +morally right, and of general propriety of +behaviour. As such men are not backward in shewing respect, where +respect is really due, so they are keen-sighted in detecting gross +inconsistencies of conduct, and ready to bestow the full measure of +contempt upon those, who, while placed above them by the advantages of +birth, and fortune, and education, yet meanly condescend, by their vices +and their excesses, to degrade themselves below them.</p> + +<p>The inconsistency of any excess in drinking, with the main purpose for +which you were sent to Oxford, is palpable. You go to Oxford professedly +for study. Independently of the time actually occupied by a wine-party, +<span class="pagebreak" title="122"> </span><a name="Page_122" id="Page_122"></a> + +any excess will, probably, indispose you for study the morning after;</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i6">Corpus onustum<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Hesternis vitiis animum quoque prægravat una,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Atque affigit humo divinæ particulam auræ.<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>You will rise from your bed heavy and languid, probably with some +disposition to headache; and will be far more inclined to lounge in an +easy-chair, or to saunter about in listless idleness, than to sit down +to active mental exertion.</p> + +<p>I must add, that the habit of drinking much wine during your continuance +at Oxford, is not unlikely materially to injure your health in the +succeeding periods of your life. Such +<span class="pagebreak" title="123"> </span><a name="Page_123" id="Page_123"></a> +habit has a tendency permanently +to derange and weaken the digestive powers, and to injure and harden the +internal coats and the orifices of the stomach. I am persuaded, that +much of the tendency to apoplectic and paralytic affections; much of the +general indisposition, which we often witness in men advanced beyond the +middle period of the usual term of human life,—men who have of late +perhaps, lived temperately—is to be attributed to the wine which they +drank when young.</p> + +<p>But I will not dwell longer on the evils of excessive drinking. You know +the admonitions of Scripture,—<i>Take heed lest at any time your hearts +be overcharged with surfeiting and +<span class="pagebreak" title="124"> </span><a name="Page_124" id="Page_124"></a> +drunkenness. Be not drunk with wine, +wherein is excess.</i> You know that <i>drunkards cannot inherit the kingdom +of God</i>; you know that drunkenness is spoken of by St. Paul as being the +vice of those, who remain sunk in the thick darkness of ignorance and +heathenism, and as utterly unbefitting those who are blessed with the +light of the Gospel. Indeed, it is unworthy of any man possessed only of +common sense.</p> + +<p>Guard, then, my dear nephew, against this degrading habit with +determined resolution. Let neither the example, nor the solicitations, +nor the taunting jests of your companions, induce you to demean yourself +so far, as to be guilty of a vice so +<span class="pagebreak" title="125"> </span><a name="Page_125" id="Page_125"></a> +utterly unworthy of you, both as a +man and as a Christian. If they, for their amusement, were to request +you to cut off your right hand, you would not feel bound to comply with +them. Do not, for their gratification, expose yourself in the condition +of a fool, or an idiot. Do not, in order to please a party of +thoughtless revellers, incur the displeasure of Almighty God, and run +the hazard of eternal ruin.</p> + +<p>And take care, that you do not yourself <i>acquire</i> a taste for any such +sensual indulgences. “The appetite for intoxicating liquors,” says +Paley, “appears to be almost always <i>acquired</i>.” Guard against the first +beginnings of intemperance. <i>Principiis obsta.</i> If you are not on your +guard, +<span class="pagebreak" title="126"> </span><a name="Page_126" id="Page_126"></a> +you will be in danger of being carried on, step by step, until +retreat becomes out of the question.</p> + +<p>You would avoid many trials of your firmness, and be relieved probably +from much irksome importunity, if you could make up your mind to +renounce wine altogether. This you would do with the less difficulty, if +backed by the sanction of medical advice. I apprehend that most medical +men, if desired to give their <i>candid</i> opinion, would recommend +abstinence from wine as conducive to a <i>young</i> man’s health both of body +and mind. I knew <i>water-drinkers</i> at Oxford, who yielded to none of +their companions in liveliness and all social qualities, either in their +own room or +<span class="pagebreak" title="127"> </span><a name="Page_127" id="Page_127"></a> +at the wine-party of a friend. Many young men in the army, +I believe, adopt this system, from motives both of moral and of +economical prudence. A pint, or even half a pint, of wine per day, makes +a considerable hole in the pay of a subaltern, or in the stipend of a +country curate, or in the allowance of a briefless barrister. Avoid +acquiring factitious wants. Do not by habit make wine necessary to your +comfort. It is wise, when young, not to indulge in luxuries which in any +future period of your life you probably will not be able to afford, +consistently with the claims which will then be pressing upon you. I +throw out this idea, however, for your own consideration, without urging +it +<span class="pagebreak" title="128"> </span><a name="Page_128" id="Page_128"></a> +as matter of positive advice. I think, however, that your intellect +will be clearer, and your mind often more cheerful, if you comply with +the suggestion.</p> + +<p>Shall I add a word or two upon temperance in <i>eating</i>? I hope that there +are few young men who are apt to be guilty of the <i>porcine</i> vice of +eating to excess; in plain English—of <i>gluttony</i>. Perhaps, however, the +temptations of a well-appointed dinner, prepared by an exquisite +<i>artiste</i>, may induce them occasionally to transgress. It is, perhaps, +hardly fair to quote from any thing so well known as Addison’s paper on +Temperance, in the Spectator<a name="fnm_128_1" id="fnm_128_1"></a><a href="#fn_128_1" class="fnnum">128:1</a>, but it is much to +<span class="pagebreak" title="129"> </span><a name="Page_129" id="Page_129"></a> +my purpose. “It +is said of Diogenes, that meeting a young man who was going to a feast, +he took him up in the street, and carried him home to his friends, as +one who was running into imminent danger, had not he prevented him. What +would that philosopher have said, had he been present at the luxury of a +modern meal? Would he not have thought the master of a family mad, and +have begged his servants to tie down his hands, had he seen him devour +fowl, fish, and flesh; swallow oil and vinegar, wines and spices; throw +down salads of twenty different sorts, sauces of a hundred ingredients, +confections and fruits of numberless sweets and flavours? What unnatural +motions +<span class="pagebreak" title="130"> </span><a name="Page_130" id="Page_130"></a> +and counter-ferments must such a medley of intemperance produce +in the body? For my part, when I behold a fashionable table, set out in +all its magnificence, I fancy that I see gouts and dropsies, fevers and +lethargies, with innumerable distempers, lying in ambuscade among the +dishes.”</p> + +<p>“Nature delights in the most plain and simple diet.” He then gives some +rules for temperance, which are well worth attending to. This passage of +Addison is much in the spirit of that of Horace:</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i5">——“Variæ res<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Ut noceant homini, credas, memor illius escæ<br /></span> + +<span class="pagebreak" title="131"> </span><a name="Page_131" id="Page_131"></a> +<span class="i0">Quæ simplex olim tibi sederit. At simul assis<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Miscueris elixa, simul conchylia turdis;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Dulcia se in bilem vertent, stomachoque tumultum<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Lenta feret pituita.”<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>Most of the modern writers on dietetics, as well as those who have +preceded them, recommend a very considerable abridgment of the quantity +of food, usually consumed at the table of the affluent.</p> + +<p>And while I strongly advise you to be rather abstemious as to <i>quantity</i> +of food, so I wish you not to be in the slightest degree fastidious as +to its <i>quality</i>, provided it is wholesome, and free from qualities +absolutely revolting. You may naturally like one +<span class="pagebreak" title="132"> </span><a name="Page_132" id="Page_132"></a> +thing better than +another, and partake of what you prefer, when it comes in your way; but +it is painful to see a young man of any intellect indulging in the +niceties of an epicure, and really appearing to care much about what he +eats, and what he drinks. When I commenced the life of a country +clergyman, I was often received, with almost parental kindness, in a +house, in which good taste of all kinds,—moral, intellectual, social, +and <i>culinary</i>,—presided in an eminent degree. Every now and then, some +particular dish made its appearance, under the impression that I was +particularly fond of it. Probably I had eaten of it some days before, +because it chanced to be near me, or from +<span class="pagebreak" title="133"> </span><a name="Page_133" id="Page_133"></a> +some similar accident. I was +grateful for the kindness and attention, but felt mortified, almost +degraded, at its being supposed that I cared about one thing more than +another, where all were good and wholesome.</p> + +<p>Do not get into the habit of spending your money in ices, and other +delicacies, at the pastry-cook’s and confectioner’s. You say that you +are hungry;—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i3">“————Panis<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Latrantem stomachum bene leniet.”<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>If your hunger would disdain a piece of dry bread, it certainly has no +claim to be attended to at all. You say that you can <i>afford</i> to indulge +yourself in the delicacies to which I have alluded. I do not think that +you +<span class="pagebreak" title="134"> </span><a name="Page_134" id="Page_134"></a> +can; at all events, your money may be more worthily spent—</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i1">“Non est melius quo insumere possis?<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Cur eget indignus quisquam, te divite? Quare<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Templa ruunt antiqua Deûm?”<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>In other words, if you have the money to spare, give it to the deserving +poor, or to the Church-building Society. Few expenses are more +unsatisfactory in retrospect,—I had almost said, more +<i>disgraceful</i>,—than those which have been incurred by sensual +self-indulgence; incurred to gratify a vitiated palate and a pampered +appetite.</p> + +<p>Self-denial is recommended by the classical writers of antiquity, as +well +<span class="pagebreak" title="135"> </span><a name="Page_135" id="Page_135"></a> +as by the most sensible of modern authors; and, what is of +infinitely more importance, is strongly inculcated by the Christian +religion. But how shall self-denial be practised <i>at all</i>, if it cannot +be practised in the low matter of eating and drinking?</p> + +<p>Read again and again the paper of Addison, and the Satire of Horace, +(the second of the second Book), from which I have made my quotations. +Read also the following passages from that accurate observer of the +habits and manners of social life, the son of Sirach:</p> + +<p><i>If thou sit at a bountiful table, be not greedy upon it, and say not, +There is much meat on it.—Eat, as it becometh a man, those things that +are set before +<span class="pagebreak" title="136"> </span><a name="Page_136" id="Page_136"></a> +thee; and devour not, lest thou be hated. Leave off +first for manners’ sake; and be not insatiable, lest thou offend.</i></p> + +<p><i>A very little is sufficient for a man well nurtured, and he fetcheth +not his wind short upon his bed.</i></p> + +<p><i>Sound sleep cometh of moderate eating; he riseth early, and his wits +are with him: but the pain of watching, and choler, and pangs of the +belly, are with an insatiable man.</i></p> + +<p class="yours"> +<span class="indentremain">I remain,</span><br /> +<span class="indentnephew">My dear Nephew,</span><br /> +Your affectionate Uncle. +</p> + + +<div class="footnotes"> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_128_1" id="fn_128_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_128_1">128:1</a></span> No. 195.</p></div> +</div> + + +<h2> +<span class="pagebreak" title="137"> </span><a name="Page_137" id="Page_137"></a> +<a name="LETTER_X" id="LETTER_X"></a>LETTER X.</h2> + +<p class="lettertitle">ENGLISH READING.</p> + + +<p class="salutation">MY DEAR NEPHEW,</p> + +<p>When at Oxford, you will not have much time for any reading, excepting +that which has some reference to your examination. During the vacations, +however, which occupy about half the year, you are more at liberty, and +will do well, as I have already suggested to you, to give a good deal of +your leisure to increasing your acquaintance with the classical writers +of your own language.</p> + +<p> +<span class="pagebreak" title="138"> </span><a name="Page_138" id="Page_138"></a> +Both at Oxford and home, endeavour, on most days, to catch some little +portion of time,—a quarter of an hour may be sufficient,—for religious +reading. Melmoth’s “Great Importance of a Religious Life,” and the +abridgment of Law’s “Serious Call,” adopted by the Society for Promoting +Christian Knowledge, are two of the best books that occur to me, for the +purpose of impressing you with the absolute necessity, of giving +religion the first place in your thoughts and your heart. You may read +either of them through in an hour. Of the former, 42,000 copies were +sold in the eighteen years preceding 1784. I mention this as an evidence +of its popularity.</p> + +<p> +<span class="pagebreak" title="139"> </span><a name="Page_139" id="Page_139"></a> +Some thirty years ago I was requested by a friend, to recommend some +practical book to put into the hands of a young person. I named Nelson’s +“Practice of True Devotion,” and have since seen no reason to alter my +opinion. Let that be one of the first books that you make use of. If you +read <i>one</i> chapter each day (and do not read more), it will last you +about three weeks. After an interval of a year or so, go through it +again.</p> + +<p>Take next for this purpose Jeremy Taylor’s “Holy Living and Dying,” +first reading (if you can borrow the book) what is said of this work by +his highly-gifted and most amiable editor, Bishop Heber. One passage +from Heber’s remarks I must allow myself +<span class="pagebreak" title="140"> </span><a name="Page_140" id="Page_140"></a> +to quote: “But I will not +select, where all may be read with advantage, and can hardly be read +without admiration. To clothe virtue in its most picturesque and +attractive colouring; to enforce with all the terrors of the divine law, +its essential obligations; and to distinguish, in almost every instance +most successfully, between what is prudent and what is necessary; what +may fitly be done, and what cannot safely be left undone;—this is the +triumph of a Christian moralist; and this Jeremy Taylor has, in a great +degree, achieved in his Discourse on Holy Living.” You will recollect +that this book was written nearly two hundred years ago, and must not be +surprised if +<span class="pagebreak" title="141"> </span><a name="Page_141" id="Page_141"></a> +you find a few expressions, and one or two sentiments, +rather obsolete. One of the five rules which Taylor gives in his +Dedication, “for the application of the counsels which follow,” applies +to all books of a similar character. “They that will, with profit, make +use of the proper instruments of virtue, must so live as if they were +always under the physician’s hand. For the counsels of religion are not +to be applied to the distempers of the soul, as men used to take +hellebore; <i>but they must dwell together with the spirit of a man, and +be twisted about his understanding for ever: they must be used like +nourishment, that is, by a daily care and meditation</i>—not like a single +medicine, +<span class="pagebreak" title="142"> </span><a name="Page_142" id="Page_142"></a> +and upon the actual pressure of a present necessity.”</p> + +<p>The genuine spirit of Jeremy Taylor, with more correctness of taste, is +found in that delightful book, “The Christian Year.” Read it repeatedly. +It is every where full of poetry, and of the purest devotional feeling. +The more you are imbued with the spirit which pervades that beautiful +volume, the more fit you will be to have your part in “the communion of +saints,” among <i>the spirits of just men made perfect</i>.</p> + +<p>Archbishop Seeker’s Lectures on the Catechism, contain a body of +divinity, doctrinal and practical, singularly judicious and useful. They +are full of good sense and accurate +<span class="pagebreak" title="143"> </span><a name="Page_143" id="Page_143"></a> +information. The style, perhaps, is +rather involved, and not very engaging; but you see a mind in full +possession of its subject, anxious to put you in full possession of it +also, without omitting any thing of importance.</p> + +<p>Gilpin’s Lectures on the Catechism are of a different character. This +also is a very good and a very pleasing book, written with a particular +view to young persons engaged in reading the Greek and Latin Classics.</p> + +<p>Ogden’s Sermons, on Prayer, the Creed, and the Ten Commandments, &c. are +the offspring of a clear and powerful intellect, expressed in language +remarkably perspicuous and elegant.</p> + +<p> +<span class="pagebreak" title="144"> </span><a name="Page_144" id="Page_144"></a> +<i>After</i> these books, take some opportunity of reading the Sermons of +Bishop Butler, including the Preface. This is not a book to be read in a +room full of brothers and sisters. It demands close attention, and will +give some exercise to all your intellectual powers; but it richly merits +to have such attention and pains bestowed upon it. It deserves, indeed +requires, more than a single reading. After Butler’s Sermons read his +“Analogy.”</p> + +<p>You will do well, at any odd intervals, or <i>snatches</i> of time, to make +yourself familiar with Addison and Johnson. False delicacy shall not +prevent me from recommending the selection from the writings of Addison + +<span class="pagebreak" title="145"> </span><a name="Page_145" id="Page_145"></a> +which I made a few years ago. My reasons for making such selection are +given in the Preface. The same reasons now induce me to recommend it to +you.</p> + +<p>Johnson requires no pruning. You can hardly read a paper in the Rambler +or Idler, and, I will add, the Adventurer, without deriving from it some +improvement, either moral or intellectual, or both. The structure and +cadence of Johnson’s sentences is certainly monotonous; but I seldom +read half a page without being struck by the depth of his thought, the +accuracy and minuteness of his observation, and the astonishing extent +of his multifarious reading.</p> + +<p>In order to enter with more discrimination +<span class="pagebreak" title="146"> </span><a name="Page_146" id="Page_146"></a> +into the style of our +different authors, read often “Blair’s Lectures.” They are, I believe, +sometimes spoken slightingly of by men of learning; I, however, as an +unlearned man, think them particularly useful. The Lecture on the Origin +of Language, indeed, the absurdity of which has been exposed with so +much playfulness by Cowper, might well have been omitted.</p> + +<p>I have already advised you, during the two longer vacations, to acquire, +or to keep up, some knowledge of modern history. Russell’s “Modern +Europe” is, upon the whole, a useful book. It is, perhaps, too +compendious; and I dislike its being given in the form of letters. +Robertson’s “Charles the Fifth” you have probably +<span class="pagebreak" title="147"> </span><a name="Page_147" id="Page_147"></a> +read already; if not, +read it carefully when, in Russell, you arrive at the period at which it +commences. Pay particular attention to the First Book. Perhaps Robertson +was not sufficiently impressed with the importance and the effects of +the Reformation in Germany; and he formed, I think, an unfair estimate +of the character and motives of Luther. This matter will, I doubt not, +be shortly set right in the Life of Luther about to be given to the +public by one of the ablest and most learned men of the present +day<a name="fnm_147_1" id="fnm_147_1"></a><a href="#fn_147_1" class="fnnum">147:1</a>.</p> + +<p>With respect to the history of our own country, I hardly know what +advice to give you. Hume’s style is +<span class="pagebreak" title="148"> </span><a name="Page_148" id="Page_148"></a> +very pleasing, but he cannot be +implicitly depended on, especially where religion and the ministers of +religion are concerned.</p> + +<p>Henry’s “History of Great Britain” is a very good and accurate book; but +the continuity of the narrative is broken by the multiplicity of +divisions in each period, (learning, arts, commerce, manners, &c. &c.), +and by the transitions to the history of Scotland.</p> + +<p>Lingard I have not read; I am told that his style is good, and his +information extensive. It was natural that, as a zealous Romanist, he +should seek to extenuate the faults of men of his own persuasion, and to +exaggerate the failings, and place in an unfavourable point of view the +motives +<span class="pagebreak" title="149"> </span><a name="Page_149" id="Page_149"></a> +and actions of the assailants of Popery; but he has, I think, +been fully convicted of carrying misrepresentation beyond all reasonable +bounds. There was but too much of bigotry and persecution on both sides.</p> + +<p>Turner’s History is, I believe, strictly honest and impartial, and a +work of prodigious labour and research.</p> + +<p>But in our attention to prose writers, we must not forget the classical +poets of our own country. Make yourself familiarly acquainted with +Shakspeare, Milton, and Pope. The more you read of Young and Cowper, the +better. Young is sometimes turgid, with a good deal of bad taste; but he +abounds in real poetry, and in strong +<span class="pagebreak" title="150"> </span><a name="Page_150" id="Page_150"></a> +truths most forcibly expressed. +Cowper sometimes carries simplicity to the verge of being prosaic; but +he is generally graceful, often pathetic, and sometimes approaches to +sublimity. Of both, it was the common object to increase the influence +of genuine Christianity; of both, the perusal has a direct tendency to +make you a better and a more religious man.</p> + +<p>Two of our most distinguished living poets—Sir Walter Scott and +Southey—have seen their poetry cast into shade by the popularity of +their own prose. The poems of both will live, and have justice done them +by posterity. “Madoc” was many years ago recommended to me by one of the +most able, and most candid, of our +<span class="pagebreak" title="151"> </span><a name="Page_151" id="Page_151"></a> +living authors. I read it with much +interest. “The Curse of Kehama” is full of high and wild poetry; and +“Roderick, the last of the Goths” gives a noble picture of deep +penitence and of devoted patriotism. You will hardly read any ten lines +of the longer poems of Sir Walter Scott, without meeting with some +striking beauty of expression or of sentiment.</p> + +<p>I am afraid, however, that the English poets, both those of former times +and those of the present day, have been, in great measure, superseded, +among you young Oxonians, by Lord Byron. In almost every +under-graduate’s room that I happen to enter, <i>he</i> seems to have taken +possession. Lord Byron, as a poet, has certainly many transcendant +merits,—merits +<span class="pagebreak" title="152"> </span><a name="Page_152" id="Page_152"></a> +which are peculiarly fascinating to young men. The +interest which I,—which <i>every one</i>,—naturally must feel in the moral +and intellectual habits and pursuits of such an important portion of the +community, makes me deeply lament the noble poet’s excessive popularity +among you. I am perfectly aware, that by the following remarks I shall +expose myself to the indignation of some men, and, possibly, to the +contempt of others: but I feel that my opinion on this subject is not +taken up on slight grounds; and I <i>must say my say</i>.</p> + +<p>The publication of Lord Byron’s life and correspondence has contributed, +a good deal, to divest him of that mystery, which hung about him, and in +which he himself so much delighted; +<span class="pagebreak" title="153"> </span><a name="Page_153" id="Page_153"></a> +and has brought him down rather +more to the level of ordinary mortals. They show him to us as a man +possessed of splendid talents, of extensive and various attainments, and +of the <i>seeds</i> of many noble and generous qualities; but as a man +actuated by ungovernable passions, and by an overweening opinion of his +own superiority to all other mortals. <i>Self</i>, whether intellectual or +sensual, seems to have been the idol that he worshipped. <i>His own</i> +antient family, <i>his own</i> talents, <i>his own</i> attainments, <i>his own</i> +whims, <i>his own</i> passions, <i>his own</i> excesses, seem all to have +furnished food for his vanity, because they were <i>his own</i>.</p> + +<p>I acknowledge that, in all the circumstances +<span class="pagebreak" title="154"> </span><a name="Page_154" id="Page_154"></a> +of his <i>bringing up</i>, he +was singularly unfortunate. His early destitution, the character and +habits of his mother, the neglect of his noble relations, the venal +praises of his parasites and dependents, all acted upon his character +with pernicious influence.</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i1">“Untaught in youth his heart to tame,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">His springs of life were poison’d.”<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p>He was sensitively alive to all the beauties and the sublimities of +external nature, and had a most penetrating insight into the complicated +feelings, and the various workings of the human heart, with all its +passions and affections; consequently, he abounds in passages of great +beauty, and of +<span class="pagebreak" title="155"> </span><a name="Page_155" id="Page_155"></a> +singular strength and power. The gratification derived +from the perusal of such passages, however, to a man at least who really +believes himself to be an immortal and a responsible being, is but a +poor compensation for the moral effects of many of his poems, his +<i>later</i> poems more especially<a name="fnm_155_1" id="fnm_155_1"></a><a href="#fn_155_1" class="fnnum">155:1</a>. They too often appear to breathe a +spirit of engrossing selfishness; a spirit of captious and gloomy +scepticism,—scepticism extending, not only to revelation, but to the +primary truths of what is called natural religion, and even the most +acknowledged +<span class="pagebreak" title="156"> </span><a name="Page_156" id="Page_156"></a> +bonds of moral obligation. The tendency of his writings is +to make you dissatisfied with almost every thing, and every body in this +world, and at the same time to unfit you for the world to come; indeed, +to make you doubt, whether the idea of a world to come is not altogether +a mere delusion.</p> + +<p>Lord Byron particularly excels in describing female loveliness, and the +effect which such loveliness produces upon the ardent temperament of +youth. In fact, the feeling within themselves so much that responds to +these descriptions, is one great cause of the popularity of Lord Byron +among young people. The sensations to which I allude, however, are of +themselves +<span class="pagebreak" title="157"> </span><a name="Page_157" id="Page_157"></a> +but too importunate. It is most unwise to excite them,—to +give them additional energy,—by the perusal of the high-wrought and +glowing descriptions of this poet of the passions.</p> + +<p>I had heard much of Don Juan, and felt some curiosity to read it; but I +was aware of the manner in which bold and flippant ribaldry sometimes +takes hold of the mind, even when shocked at it. I knew well, that human +nature has in itself but too much of passion and sensuality, without +needing any additional stimulus. I was unwilling “to soil my mind” when +I could avoid it. For my own sake, I was unwilling to see the most +destructive vices treated +<span class="pagebreak" title="158"> </span><a name="Page_158" id="Page_158"></a> +as mere matter of jest, and the most awful +truths of religion introduced in connexion with ludicrous images, and +spoken of in the language of mockery. However much our judgment may +disapprove of these things, yet the ludicrous passages and images are +too apt to stick by us, even when we most wish to shake them off.</p> + +<p>A book was advertised, called “The Beauties of Don Juan, including those +passages only which are calculated to extend the real fame of Lord +Byron.” The editor acknowledges that the poem itself, from the unpruned +luxuriance of the author’s powers, “has remained a sealed +volume”—certainly it <i>ought</i> to be a <i>sealed volume</i>—“to the fairest +portion of the community.” +<span class="pagebreak" title="159"> </span><a name="Page_159" id="Page_159"></a> +This <i>expurgate</i> selection, however, though +it contains many passages of great beauty, is a book which I should be +sorry indeed to place in the hands of any young lady; and one against +which I would <i>forewarn</i> every young man, who is not prepared to run the +risk of sacrificing, at the shrine of genius, Christian faith, and +Christian soberness, and Christian purity.</p> + +<p>The description of the shipwreck had been spoken of as particularly +fine. I read it. Not long since several accounts of actual shipwrecks +and disasters at sea were published<a name="fnm_159_1" id="fnm_159_1"></a><a href="#fn_159_1" class="fnnum">159:1</a>. +<span class="pagebreak" title="160"> </span><a name="Page_160" id="Page_160"></a> +Some of these accounts, are +among the most interesting and edifying narratives, that I am acquainted +with. They abound in instances of heroic courage, of unshaken endurance, +of a noble disregard of self, of the warmest benevolence, and of the +most exalted piety. Don Juan seems to have taken a wayward pleasure in +culling from these narratives the most distressing and painful facts, +and then mixing them up in doggrel verse, with ludicrous images and +ludicrous rhymes; the main <i>wit</i> often consisting in some unexpected +absurdity of sound or cadence.</p> + +<p>One of the most dreadful consequences of shipwreck is, when a remnant of +the crew, cast off in an open +<span class="pagebreak" title="161"> </span><a name="Page_161" id="Page_161"></a> +boat, are reduced, by extremity of +hunger, to determine by lot, which of them shall first be made the food +of his companions. Even in such calamity, this perverse and bitter +spirit contrives to find matter for merriment. He laughed in himself +when he wrote the stanzas, and tries to make his readers laugh; though +they must feel indignant with themselves if they give way to the +impulse.</p> + +<p>I conclude my letter with two sayings of Bishop Horne’s. “He who +sacrifices religion to wit, like the people mentioned by Ælian, worships +a fly, and offers up an ox to it.” Again; “Sir Peter Lely made it a +rule, never to look at a bad picture, +<span class="pagebreak" title="162"> </span><a name="Page_162" id="Page_162"></a> +having found, by experience, +that, whenever he did so, his pencil took a tint from it. Apply this to +bad books and bad company.”</p> + +<p>However brilliant the talents of a writer may be, yet, if a book has a +tendency to produce a bad effect upon the moral habits of the mind, that +book is a <i>bad</i> book.</p> + +<div class="poem"><div class="stanza"> +<span class="i0">“When I behold a genius bright and base,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Of tow’ring talents, and terrestrial aims;<br /></span> +<span class="i0">Methinks I see, as thrown from her high sphere,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">The glorious fragments of a soul immortal,<br /></span> +<span class="i0">With rubbish mixt, and glitt’ring in the dust.”<br /></span> +</div></div> + +<p class="yours"> +<span class="indentremain">I remain,</span><br /> +<span class="indentnephew">My dear Nephew,</span><br /> +Your affectionate Uncle. +</p> + + +<div class="footnotes"> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_147_1" id="fn_147_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_147_1">147:1</a></span> Rev. Hugh James Rose.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_155_1" id="fn_155_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_155_1">155:1</a></span> Childe Harold and the <i>four</i> first tales (I am speaking +only of the larger works) are most free from objection, at the same time +that they are the most beautiful and interesting.</p></div> + +<div class="footnote"><p><a name="fn_159_1" id="fn_159_1"></a><span class="label"><a href="#fnm_159_1">159:1</a></span> The Loss of the Kent, and Narratives of the Shipwrecks +of the Lady Hobart packet, the Cabalva, &c. &c.</p></div> +</div> + + +<h2> +<span class="pagebreak" title="163"> </span><a name="Page_163" id="Page_163"></a> +<a name="PRAYERS" id="PRAYERS"></a>PRAYERS</h2> + + +<h3>A Prayer before Study.</h3> + +<p class="lettertitle">(FROM DR. JOHNSON.)</p> + +<p>Almighty God, in whose hands are all the powers of man; who givest +understanding and takest it away; who, as it seemeth good unto thee, +enlightenest the thoughts of the simple, and darkenest the meditations +of the wise, be present with me in my studies and inquiries.</p> + +<p>Grant, O Lord, that I may not lavish away the life which thou hast given +me on useless trifles, nor waste it in vain searches after things which +thou hast hidden from me.</p> + +<p>Enable me, by thy Holy Spirit, so to shun sloth and negligence, that +every day may discharge part of the task which thou hast allotted me; +and so further with thy help that +<span class="pagebreak" title="164"> </span><a name="Page_164" id="Page_164"></a> +labour which, without thy help, must +be ineffectual, that I may obtain in all my undertakings such success as +will most promote thy glory, and the salvation of my own soul, for the +sake of Jesus Christ.</p> + + +<h3>Prayer after Time unprofitably spent.</h3> + +<p class="lettertitle">(FROM DR. JOHNSON.)</p> + +<p>O Lord, in whose hands are life and death; by whose power I am +sustained, and by whose mercy I am spared, look down upon me with pity. +Forgive me, that I have this day neglected the duty which thou hast +assigned to it, and suffered the hours, of which I must give account, to +pass away without any endeavour to accomplish thy will, or to promote my +own salvation. Make me to remember, +<span class="pagebreak" title="165"> </span><a name="Page_165" id="Page_165"></a> +O God, that every day is thy gift, +and ought to be used according to thy command. Grant me, therefore, so +to repent of my negligence, that I may obtain mercy from thee, and pass +the time which thou shalt yet allow me in diligent performance of thy +commands, through Jesus Christ. <i class="indent1">Amen.</i></p> + + +<h3>Prayer for Temperance.</h3> + +<p class="lettertitle">(FROM BISHOP JEREMY TAYLOR.)</p> + +<p>O Almighty God and gracious Father of men and angels, who openest thy +hand and fillest all things living with plenty; and hast provided for +thy servant sufficient to satisfy all my needs: teach me to use thy +creatures soberly and temperately, that I may not with loads of meat and +drink make +<span class="pagebreak" title="166"> </span><a name="Page_166" id="Page_166"></a> +the temptations of my enemy to prevail upon me, or my spirit +unapt for the performance of my duty, or my body healthless, or my +affections sensual and unholy. O my God, never suffer that the blessings +which thou givest me may minister either to sin or sickness, but to +health, and holiness, and thanksgiving; that in the strength of thy +provision I may cheerfully, and actively, and diligently serve thee; +that I may worthily feast at thy table here, and be accounted worthy, +through thy grace, to be admitted to thy table hereafter, through Jesus +Christ, our Mediator and Redeemer. <i class="indent1">Amen.</i></p> + + +<h3>Prayer for the right government of the tongue.</h3> + +<p >O God, watch over me this day for good; and grant that I may so keep + +<span class="pagebreak" title="167"> </span><a name="Page_167" id="Page_167"></a> +the door of my mouth that I may not speak unadvisedly with my lips. +Preserve me from offending with my tongue either against charity or +purity. Let me not be guilty of foolish and immodest talking and +jesting, of evil-speaking or censoriousness, or of any other of the many +sins of the tongue. Grant that all my conversation may be such as +becometh one who professes to be the servant and disciple of thy beloved +Son, in whose name I beseech thee to hear my prayers.</p> + + + + + + + + +<pre> + + + + + +End of the Project Gutenberg EBook of Advice to a Young Man upon First Going +to Oxford, by Edward Berens + +*** END OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK ADVICE TO A YOUNG MAN *** + +***** This file should be named 20932-h.htm or 20932-h.zip ***** +This and all associated files of various formats will be found in: + http://www.gutenberg.org/2/0/9/3/20932/ + +Produced by Irma pehar, Louise Pryor and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net (This +file was produced from images generously made available +by The Internet Archive/Canadian Libraries) + + +Updated editions will replace the previous one--the old editions +will be renamed. + +Creating the works from public domain print editions means that no +one owns a United States copyright in these works, so the Foundation +(and you!) can copy and distribute it in the United States without +permission and without paying copyright royalties. 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You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Advice to a Young Man upon First Going to Oxford + In Ten Letters, From an Uncle to His Nephew + +Author: Edward Berens + +Release Date: March 29, 2007 [EBook #20932] + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: ASCII + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK ADVICE TO A YOUNG MAN *** + + + + +Produced by Irma Spehar, Louise Pryor and the Online +Distributed Proofreading Team at http://www.pgdp.net (This +file was produced from images generously made available +by The Internet Archive/Canadian Libraries) + + + + + +{Transcriber's note: + +Greek has been transliterated and is surrounded with ++: +makrothymei+} + + + + + LETTERS, + &c. + + + + + ADVICE TO A YOUNG MAN + + UPON + FIRST GOING TO OXFORD, + + IN + TEN LETTERS, + + FROM AN UNCLE TO HIS NEPHEW. + + * * * * * + + BY THE + REV. EDWARD BERENS, M.A. + LATE FELLOW OF ORIEL COLLEGE. + + * * * * * + + LONDON: + PRINTED FOR J. G. & F. RIVINGTON, + ST. PAUL'S CHURCH YARD, + AND WATERLOO PLACE, PALL MALL. + + * * * * * + + 1832. + + + + + LONDON: + GILBERT & RIVINGTON, PRINTERS, + St. John's Square. + + + + +I have long thought that a book was wanted, of the nature of that which +I have here attempted. How far I have succeeded in the attempt, the +public will determine. + +I have had,--have at present,--and (if I live,) expect to have +hereafter,--several nephews at Oxford; all having to make their own way +in the world, and all, consequently, having abundant reason for being +economical, both of their time and of their money, during their +residence at the University. These Letters were not addressed to any one +of them in particular, but are intended, like some official documents, +"for all whom they may concern." Perhaps I had more especially in view, +those of them who are destined for my own profession. + + E. B. + + + + +CONTENTS. + + + LETTER. PAGE. + + I. Sense of Religion 1 + + II. Choice of Friends 13 + + III. Conversation 27 + + IV. Against yielding to the Influence of Numbers 45 + + V. Improvement of Time 55 + + VI. Punctuality 72 + + VII. Amusements 85 + + VIII. Expenses, and running into Debt 99 + + IX. Temperance 114 + + X. English Reading 137 + + + + +LETTER I. + +SENSE OF RELIGION. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +It gives me sincere pleasure to hear that you have actually become a +member of the University of Oxford. This satisfaction, perhaps, may in +some degree be attributed to the pleasing recollection of my own Oxford +life, but certainly it arises principally from anticipation of the +substantial benefits which you, I trust, will derive from your connexion +with that seat of learning. At the same time, I will own that my +satisfaction is not entirely unmixed with something like apprehension. +An University education has many and great advantages, but it also is +attended with many temptations;--temptations to which too many young men +have yielded, sometimes to the great injury of their character, and the +utter ruin of all their future prospects. + +In fact, you are now entering upon the most important period--the +_turning point_--of your whole life. You have become, in a great +measure, your own master. For though you will be under a certain degree +of discipline and _surveillance_, yet in a multiplicity of cases you +will have to act for yourself--to take your own line. You will have to +contend against the allurements of pleasure and dissipation, and you +have just reached the age when the natural passions and appetites become +most impatient of restraint. At the same time, you will be exposed to +the influence both of the example and of the solicitations of lively +young men, who will try to carry you along with them in their career of +thoughtlessness and folly, and who will think it strange, and _show_ you +that they think it strange, if you run not with them to the same excess +of riot. Against all these moral trials and temptations, your best +safeguard will be found in a strong sense of religion, kept habitually +present to your mind. You must endeavour, according to the language of +Scripture--(and in writing to you I shall always gladly make use of the +very words of Scripture, when they suit my purpose, as having a force +and an authority which no other words can possess)--you must endeavour +to _set the Lord always before you_. Never for a moment forget that you +are continually in the presence of that awful Being, who can, and who +will, call you to a strict account for all that you do amiss. Nothing +can excuse your forgetting Him. + +If you at all believe in a Supreme Being, the Creator and Governor of +the world; if you believe that God is, and that he is a rewarder of them +that diligently seek him, and at the same time an avenger to execute +wrath upon every soul that doeth evil, the least particle of common +sense or common feeling will tell you, that nothing should be put in +competition with his will. When his will is clear, it _must_ be obeyed +without hesitation. I am sure that you will assent to this. If religion +is any thing, it is _every thing_. It is, indeed, the one thing needful, +in comparison with which every thing else sinks into insignificance, +into nothingness. + +Endeavour, then, to keep up in your mind and heart this habitual sense +of religion by every means in your power. It will require from you +considerable care and attention. The lively spirits natural to your time +of life, and the thoughtless levity of some of the young men into whose +society you will be thrown, will have a tendency to make you think less +of religion, if not to induce you entirely to forget it. Be ever on your +guard against thus swerving from your allegiance to your Creator. + +Nothing will contribute more to preserve you from this danger than +regularity and earnestness in your private devotions. When you rise in +the morning, seek from God spiritual strength to enable you to resist +and overcome the temptations to which you may be exposed during the day. +Every night implore his forgiveness for your many failings and +transgressions, and his protection against the dangers which surround +you. Suffer nothing to induce you to neglect private prayer. + +You will of course be required every day to attend chapel. Consider +such attendance not as an irksome duty, not as a mere matter of routine +and college discipline, but try to regard it as a privilege, and to take +a real interest and pleasure in it. Acquire the habit of joining +fervently in the prayers, and of constantly deriving from the lessons +and other portions of Scripture, the doctrinal and practical instruction +which they were intended to convey. Many college chapels are furnished +with Greek Testaments and Septuagints. You will judge from experience, +whether following the lessons in the Greek assists in fixing your +attention, or whether it diverts it from the matter to the language. My +own opinion is in favour of the practice. + +Make a point of giving to Sunday as much of a religious character as +you can. I am not recommending a Jewish strictness. Let Sunday be a day +of cheerfulness; but let your reading and your thoughts, as far as may +be, partake of the sacred character of the day. + +The study of the Scriptures constitutes an important part of your +preparation for your degree. This study will furnish an appropriate +employment for a considerable portion of the Sunday. Always attend the +University Sermons. I recommend this not merely as a branch of +academical discipline, but as a means of religious and intellectual +improvement. The sermon will generally, I believe, be worth attending +to. The select preachers are chosen, for the most part, from the ablest +men in the University; men, several of whom are likely hereafter to fill +the highest stations in the Church. You will seldom be driven to have +recourse to the advice of the pious Nicole in his Essay, "_des moyens de +profiter de mauvais sermons_." The various modes in which different +preachers enforce or illustrate the same great truths, and the +diversities of their style and manner, may afford you matter--not of +ill-natured criticism--but of useful reflection. Some colleges require +their under-graduates to give every week in writing a summary of the +sermon which they have heard at St. Mary's. If you adopt this practice, +you will find it contribute greatly to fix your attention, and to give +you a habit of arranging and expressing your ideas with facility and +readiness. Of course, some preachers deserve this steadiness of +attention much more than others. + +It is, I trust, unnecessary to remind you of the duty of receiving the +Lord's Supper, whenever it is administered in your college chapel. In +some colleges, nearly all the under-graduates partake of this ordinance; +in others, I believe, almost all neglect it: at least this was the case +formerly. In such and similar cases, you must be guided, not by common +practice, not by the example of numbers, but by what you know to be your +duty. If you feel any doubt or difficulty, frankly mention it to your +tutor. There are, I am persuaded, few tutors now in Oxford, who would +not be able and willing to assist you with their advice. + +This attention to your religious duties need not be attended by any +preciseness or austerity of manner. On the contrary, I should wish you +to be at all times cheerful and good humoured, ready to take part in any +innocent gaiety. My object is to impress upon you the absolute necessity +of always putting religion in the _first place_. If you really believe +what you profess to believe, do not hesitate as to shewing it in your +conduct. Never be so weak as to be ashamed of doing what you know to be +your duty. Never be guilty of such unmanly cowardice as to be ashamed +of avowing your allegiance to your Creator and your Redeemer. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + + + +LETTER II. + +CHOICE OF FRIENDS, AND BEHAVIOUR IN SOCIETY. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +Among the many advantages of an University, few rank higher, both in +general estimation and in reality, than the opportunity which it affords +of forming valuable and lasting friendships. Indeed this advantage can +hardly be rated too highly. I look back to the intimacies which I +contracted at college, as among the greatest blessings of a life, which +has been eminently blessed in various ways. I still hold intercourse +with many of my Oxford friends, whose characters and attainments do +honour to the place where their education and their minds were matured. +And even the recollection of most of those, who have been removed from +this lower world, is attended with a soothing melancholy, which partakes +more of pleasure and thankfulness for having enjoyed their society, than +of pain. _The memory of the just is blessed[14:1]._ + +I hope, my dear nephew, that you will improve this advantage to the +utmost. In your intimacies, however, endeavour to be guided rather by +judgment than by mere fancy. Sameness of pursuits, similarity of +dispositions and inclinations generally contribute much to throw men +together; but be careful not to attach yourself to any man as a +_friend_, unless he is a man of moral worth, and of real religious +principle. Intimacy with a man who is unrestrained by religion, _must_ +be attended with great danger. Your own natural appetites will +continually solicit you to forbidden indulgences, and will not be kept +in due subjection without difficulty. If their solicitations are +seconded by the example and by the conversations of an intimate +associate, your peril will be extreme. Intimacy with a man of bad +principles and immoral character, may utterly blast all your prospects +of happiness both in this world and the next. + +You will of course have the greater power of _selection_, if your +general acquaintance is pretty extensive. I acknowledge, that my opinion +is rather in favour of your forming an extensive acquaintance, provided +that you never suffer it to encroach upon your time, or to lead you into +any compromise of religious principle. Going to the University +constitutes a sort of entrance into the world, an introduction to manly +life; but this advantage is lost if you seclude yourself altogether from +society. In order, however, to acquire or to retain such an +acquaintance, your manners and general demeanour must be acceptable or +popular. + +One of the first requisites, in order to be thus acceptable, is the +neglect, the forgetfulness of _self_--a readiness to put _self_ in the +back-ground. Any obtrusion of self, any appearance of self-love, +self-interest, self-conceit, or self-applause, tends to expose a man to +dislike, perhaps to contempt. + +One way in which this disregard, this abandonment of self, must show +itself, is real unaffected humility. Most of the external forms and +modes of modern politeness, its bows and obeisances, its professions of +respect and service, its adulations, are nothing but an affectation of +such humility, and bear witness to its value when it exists in reality. +When it does so exist, and still is free from any servility of manner, +any unworthy compliances, nothing contributes more to make a man +acceptable and popular in society. It inflicts no unnecessary wounds on +any one's pride or self-love. And, you will observe, that it is the +temper and behaviour, inculcated by the general spirit and by the +particular precepts of religion, which bids us _in honour to prefer one +another_; and says, _in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better +than himself_. + +Another requisite is, a willingness to please and to be pleased. Some +men seem to think it beneath them, and a mark of littleness of mind, to +wish or to try to please any body, and wrap themselves up in a cold +superciliousness. Others seem determined never to be pleased with any +thing or any person, but are always finding fault. They have no eye +for, no perception of, merits or beauties, either external or internal, +but are keen and quick-sighted in detecting blemishes, and eloquent in +exaggerating them[20:1]. If any person's good qualities, or any work of +art or of genius is commended, they are sure to throw in some +observations calculated to depreciate and disparage them. And with +respect even to the works of Nature, and the dispensations of +Providence, they are more ready to see and to point out evils, than to +acknowledge advantages. This temper--this habit of disparagement--is +certainly very unamiable; and justly offensive, not only to those who +are run down by it as its immediate objects, but to all who witness it. +A man who consults his own comfort, or the comfort of those with whom he +associates, should be disposed to make the best of every thing. I would +by no means wish him in the slightest degree to compromise truth, or to +make the remotest approach to flattery; but I would have him see every +thing in the most favourable point of view, and disposed to pursue and +to dwell upon what is good rather than upon what is bad. Too much of +that which is bad is sure to be forced upon our attention, without our +taking any pains to look out for it. + +Be always on your guard against hurting the feelings, or even shocking +the prejudices, of those with whom you associate. A little observation, +and some attention to your own feelings in similar circumstances, will +soon teach you what is likely to be annoying to others. Make every +allowance for their self-love, and for attachment to their own opinions. + +Never give unnecessary pain or mortification. It is _unnecessary_, when +it can be avoided without compromising the consistency of your own +character, or hazarding the interests of religion and of truth. + +In short, my dear nephew, if you will study St. Paul's account of the +nature and properties of charity, and regulate your temper and your +behaviour accordingly, you will want little in order to be a perfect +gentleman, in the highest sense of the word. I will not enter upon this +account in detail, but must refer you to Fenelon's excellent book on +this subject, if it should come in your way, or even to my own +Sermon[22:1]. Give me your attention, however, for a minute or two, to a +few slight remarks upon charity--merely as it bears upon our conduct in +society. + +_Charity suffereth long_--+makrothymei+--it bears patiently with other +men's defects of temper, discourteousness of behaviour, and awkwardness +of manner; and is _kind_, gentle, and obliging--+chresteuetai+. + +Charity envieth not--+ou zeloi+. It is free from those little jealousies, +and rivalries, and emulations, which, where they are admitted, sometimes +give sourness to the temper, and bitterness to the behaviour. + +Charity _vaunteth not itself_--+ou perpereuetai+; it is not rash or over +hasty; it is not overbearing, positive, and peremptory, in language or +manner; _is not puffed up_--+ou physioutai+; is not inflated with an +opinion of its own worth or consequence; and, that being the case, it +doth not behave itself unseemly--+ouk aschemonei+; it does not treat +other men with disdain and superciliousness. + +Charity _seeketh not her own_--+ou zetei ta heautes+--that is, she is not +_selfish_. Charity neglects not altogether her own concerns, or her own +interests, but does not attend to them exclusively; does not _so_ attend +to them, as to be unmindful of, or inattentive to, the interests and +welfare of others. + +Charity is not easily provoked--+ou paroxynetai+. Nothing more +disturbs the peace and comfort of society than the being easily +provoked. When a man is touchy and waspish, he is always looking out +for, and catching at, occasions of offence. + +Charity rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; it does +not take pleasure in hearing of misdoings and evil conduct, but +delights in accounts of praiseworthy actions, and in the spread of sound +religious principles. + +Charity _beareth all things, believeth all thing, hopeth all things, +endureth all things_; +panta stegei, panta pisteuei, panta elpizei, panta +hypomenei+. + +I will not, my dear nephew, lengthen a long letter, by endeavouring to +point out the precise meaning of these expressions. You may understand +from them, that charity is patient of ill-usage; that instead of being +suspicious and disposed to cavil and carp at every thing, it is open and +ingenuous, ready to give men credit for speaking the truth, when there +is no good reason to think otherwise; and that it is disposed to hope +the best, to think as favourably as it can of those with whom it comes +in contact; and if it cannot actually think well of them at present, to +_hope_ for their amendment and reformation. + +I think you will agree with me, that a man influenced by this spirit +would be an acceptable man in society, and that the best practical +Christian would be the best gentleman[26:1]. + + I remain, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[14:1] Prov. x. 7. + +[20:1] See Numbers 72, 74, and 98, of the Rambler. + +[22:1] See Village Sermons. + +[26:1] See Jones's Letters from a Tutor to his Pupils. + + + + +LETTER III. + +CONVERSATION. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +I take it for granted, that upon first going from school to Oxford, and +entering into society different, in many respects, from any that you +have hitherto been accustomed to, you feel some of that shyness which +belongs to the character of most Englishmen. I should be sorry if you +did not. You probably feel diffident, too, of your ability to bear your +part in general conversation, and an apprehension of being, on that +account, set down as a stupid fellow. But don't be uneasy. More young +men, I am persuaded, hurt themselves by talking too much, than by +talking too little. When a fresh-man, at first starting, is quite at his +ease, and talks readily upon any subject that happens to be uppermost, +some of his companions may be amused at his coolness, but most of them +will be disgusted. If, by your look and manner, you show that you are +alive to what is said by others, and now and then throw in a remark, not +destitute of meaning, you will be more generally popular than one of +those random talkers. Men of a certain standing, qualified by their +liveliness or by their information to bear a leading part in +conversation, do not like to see an undue share of it engrossed by +others, especially by a mere youngster. They greatly prefer a good +listener to a ready talker. + +Young practitioners in Doctors' Commons have, I believe, to pass through +their year of silence, before they are allowed to speak. During the +period of silence, they quietly observe, and become acquainted with, the +usages and practice of the court. Something similar to this period of +quiet observation, might not be inexpedient for a noviciate in society. +At all events, never talk for talking's sake; never speak unless you +have something to say worth attending to. + +You will, I am sure, my dear nephew, take it in good part, if I point +out a few of the conversational faults, of which young men are apt to be +guilty. It is natural that we should talk most of that in which we are +most interested. Now, of all things in the world, a young man feels most +interested in _himself_. But if, in consequence of such feeling, he +ventures to talk much of himself, of his own habits, his own pursuits, +his own feelings, his own achievements, he will very soon be set down as +a bore and a conceited coxcomb. A young man naturally feels a strong +interest, an interest increased by separation, in his own immediate +family. This feeling, with some young men, is so deep, that they shun +the mention of any thing closely connected with their _home_ as a sort +of profanation, a desecration of things sacred. With others, this +feeling takes the opposite direction, and leads them--_celebrare +domestica facta_--to introduce the concerns of their own nearest +relations into the conversation of a mixed party. Take care that you +never are guilty of such a violation of good taste and correct judgment. +Interesting as your home and its inmates are to _you_, nothing can well +be less interesting to those, who are unacquainted with them. It will be +a stretch of courtesy and good-nature, if they tolerate the mention of +them without some expression either of ridicule or of distaste. If you +speak of your home-concerns at all, let it be only to one or two +intimate friends, who, from the regard which they feel for _you_, may be +supposed to take an interest in all belonging to you. + +Be on your guard against getting into the habit of telling long stories: +they generally are tiresome. Many circumstances, in addition to the +feeling that you have them to tell, may give them a consequence in your +eyes, which they do not in reality possess. Lively anecdotes, or short +narratives, told with spirit, are among the most amusing ingredients in +conversation; but even with them, if you often meet the same company, +there is considerable danger of falling into repetition. + +Never be guilty of falling into the too common practice of indulging in +scandal, the practice of talking of men disparagingly, of running down +their character behind their backs. I by no means wish you to flatter +any man, whether present or absent, or to speak favourably of character +or of conduct which does not deserve it. But beware of _detraction_. +Nothing is more unamiable in any man, especially in a _young_ man; and, +what is of infinitely more consequence, nothing is more opposite to the +spirit and the precepts of religion, which repeatedly enjoins us to +_speak evil of no man_. Bear in mind the advice of one of the most +sagacious and penetrating observers of human nature:--_Whether it be to +a friend or foe, talk not of other men's lives; and if thou canst, +without offence, reveal them not[34:1]._ _If thou canst without +offence_;--circumstances may require that the truth should be +revealed,--that the real truth should be spoken and made known, even +though it should be injurious,--though it should be absolutely fatal to +another man's character. But do not take pleasure in telling any thing +to another's prejudice; do not make the tearing of a character in pieces +a matter of amusement. By such conduct you would not only be guilty of a +gross violation of Christian charity, but will probably bring yourself +into many scrapes in a worldly point of view. In a mixed company, there +may chance to be some friend or connexion of him, whom you are running +down; or, at all events, what you say will be repeated,--_a bird of the +air will carry the matter_,--till it comes to the ears of the injured +person. And what will be the consequence? A feeling of aversion and +dislike, a spirit of hostility to you, will, not unnaturally, be +engendered, both in him and in such of his friends and connections as +are acquainted with the circumstance. + +One of the most unwarrantable kinds or forms of detraction, is the +attributing of any man's conduct to corrupt or unworthy motives. A man's +real motives are known only to God and to himself; indeed, very often +to God _alone_, as from the deceitfulness and intricacy of the human +heart, a man himself is sometimes ignorant as to what his real motives +actually are. Certainly it is rash and presumptuous for any other man to +pretend to decide upon them, and most uncharitable and unjust to +pronounce them to be corrupt, when they are capable of a favourable +interpretation. Express your disapprobation of unworthy actions as +strongly as you please; but beware of rash and uncharitable censure, and +especially beware of the presumption of imputing to any corrupt and evil +motives. + +As I have cautioned you against violating Christian charity in +conversation, so I must warn you against infringing on Christian +purity. You have arrived at a period of life, when your utmost care and +vigilance will be requisite, to keep your natural passions and appetites +within proper bounds. Indeed, all your care will be ineffectual unless +assisted by Divine grace. Do not take part in conversation which is +calculated to add to their importunity or to their strength. Thoughtless +young men, under the influence of these feelings, sometimes indulge in +_foolish talking and jesting_[37:1], of most pernicious tendency, and +most inconsistent with the Christian character. Avoid and discourage +conversation of this nature, so far as you possibly can. Do not add +fuel to a flame which already burns but too fiercely. _Fools make a mock +at sin_[38:1]; and none but _fools_ should be capable of making a joke +of temptations and vices, which in themselves are awfully serious, which +lead on to eternal ruin. + +I hope you will never be so unfortunate, as to fall much into the +company of men, who make a jest of religion, or of any thing connected +with religion. Those who are bent upon following the guidance of their +own appetites, and their own wills, naturally dislike that which would +check and restrain them. They are consequently apt to become +_scoffers_, and to attempt to turn religion and its sanctions into +ridicule. Avoid the society and conversation of such men, as you would +avoid the plague. If unhappily thrown among them, discountenance them to +the utmost. + +Do not indulge yourself in a habit of raillery or banter. Raillery is a +difficult thing to manage well, and very apt both to give pain to him +who is the object of it, and to reflect discredit on him who attempts +it. Sometimes you see one or two young men, of more liveliness than +sense, picking out some quiet person in company as a _butt_, at which +they may point their wit, and carrying on an attack of banter and +ridicule. This is, probably, not only annoying to him, but tiresome and +painful to all the right feeling men who chance to be present. + +I am glad to join in, or to witness, a honest hearty laugh, when any +thing really calls for it. Beware, however, of the practice of laughing +when there is nothing to laugh at. Some people fall into a way of giving +the accompaniment of a laugh to almost every thing that they utter, +especially if they have any direct intention to be jocular. This habit +is disagreeable to most of those who witness it. It proceeds, I believe, +generally from a sort of shyness and awkwardness contracted in early +youth, and is, as I know from experience, difficult to get rid of. It +certainly is inconsistent with the manners and habits of good society. +Be always the last to laugh at your own jokes, or your own _good_ +stories. If they are really worth laughing at, the company will find it +out, and by premature or excessive laughter you will mar their effect. + +As you get on in society, you will probably often fall into discussion +and argument. When this is the case, take care not to be too positive or +peremptory in your manner. Be solicitous to allow their full weight to +the arguments of your antagonist. Do not suffer the impression of the +force and correctness of your own reasoning, to render you blind to what +is urged against you. Above all, keep your temper. If you lose your +temper, victory will be deprived of its credit, and defeat will be more +disgraceful. At the same time you will run a double chance of being +defeated, without having the wit to see, or the manliness to own it. +Believe me, my dear nephew, (to adopt the very words of one of the most +sagacious and distinguished of modern statesmen) "that the arms with +which the ill dispositions of the world are to be combated, and the +qualities by which it is to be reconciled to us, and we reconciled to +it, are moderation, gentleness, a little indulgence to others, and a +great deal of distrust of ourselves; which are not qualities of a mean +spirit, as some may possibly think them, but virtues of a great and +noble kind, and such as dignify our nature as much as they contribute to +our repose and fortune; for nothing can be so unworthy of a +well-composed soul, as to pass away life in bickerings and litigations, +in snarling and scuffling with every one about us. Again and again, my +dear,--we must be at peace with our species; if not for their sakes, yet +very much for our own[43:1]." + +But my letter grows long, and I must hasten to conclude it. Read +repeatedly Cowper's lively poem on conversation, which seems to me to +have much of the spirit and accurate moral taste of Horace, with the +elevation derived from Christianity. Read, too, if you can lay your hand +on it, Bishop Horne's paper on conversation, in the Olla Podrida. In +these two essays you will find many of the sentiments which I have +expressed, only given in a much more engaging manner. In the 78th and +83d Numbers of the Idler, many common faults in conversation are exposed +with a degree of humour, in which our great moralist did not very +frequently indulge. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[34:1] Ecclus. xix. 8. + +[37:1] Ephes. v. 4. and Coloss. iii. 8. + +[38:1] Prov. xiv. 9. + +[43:1] Prior's Life of Burke, p. 215. Second edition. + + + + +LETTER IV. + +AGAINST YIELDING TO THE INFLUENCE OF NUMBERS. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +When I advised you to fall in, so far as you reasonably can, with the +wishes and inclinations of those with whom you associate, you +understood, I trust, that compliance should never go so far, as to +involve the slightest sacrifice of truth or of principle. When carried +to this culpable extent, it becomes an instance of weak and unmanly +cowardice. + +One of the greatest dangers to which young men are exposed upon their +first entrance into the world, is that which arises from their readiness +to be swayed by the example or by the persuasion of their companions. +The example, and still more the persuasion, of a single individual, is +sometimes not without difficulty resisted, and the difficulty of +resistance is greatly increased by the influence of numbers. A young man +dreads the imputation of singularity. He cannot bear to stand out +against the example, perhaps the solicitations, of those among whom he +lives. He suffers himself, therefore, to be carried along by the stream, +and led into conduct, of which, in his conscience, he utterly +disapproves. + +Never, my dear nephew, do you be guilty of such weakness. Avoid +singularity, whenever it can be avoided with innocence: an affectation +of singularity for singularity's sake, generally proceeds from conceit +or self-sufficiency. But where the path of duty is clear, let no example +or persuasion induce you to swerve from it. Keep ever impressed upon +your mind the admonition of Scripture, _Thou shalt not follow a +multitude to do evil_. + +Never suffer yourself to be laughed out of what is right. Never be +ashamed of adhering to what you know to be your duty. In matters of duty +keep in mind the words of Scripture, _Fear ye not the reproach of men, +neither be afraid of their revilings_. Never expose yourself to the +censure justly cast upon those who value the praise or the approbation +of men,--of giddy, thoughtless, sensual men, more than the praise of +God. Remember, my dear nephew, the solemn warning of our Lord: _If any +man shall be ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful +generation, of him shall the Son of man be ashamed when he cometh in his +glory with his holy angels_. + +In your steady adherence to the dictates of conscience, you will always +find some who will respect you for it; or, even if you should stand +alone, like Abdiel, "among the faithless, the only faithful," you will +be supported by the testimony of your own heart, and by an humble +confidence in the approbation of the Almighty. One or two instances may, +probably, make my meaning more clear. + +Perhaps a few joyous spirits have devised some scheme of irregular, +sensual gratification,--of Bacchanalian revelry;--or, perhaps, two or +three dunces, whose intellects and moral feelings are of such a stamp, +as to render them rather impracticable subjects for academical +discipline, have contrived some plan of impotent resistance to the +college authorities, or some plot of petty and vexatious annoyance, in +order to give vent to their mortification, when such silly resistance +has been proved to be ineffectual. Wishing for the screen or protection +of numbers, they will try to persuade their companions, that they will +be wanting in manly spirit, or in social feeling, if they refuse to join +them. And is there, after all, any thing so very _spirited_, any thing +of high-minded and noble daring in behaviour, which seeks to screen +itself by concealment and subterfuge, and which, if detected, braves, +not any personal danger or suffering, but merely the terrors of an +imposition? If the offence is so aggravated as to entail the heavier +penalty, rustication, or expulsion, such punishment inflicts, indeed, +severe grief upon the parents and friends of the offender; but he +himself, with the short-sightedness of folly, perhaps almost enjoys the +idleness and the freedom from academical restraint, to which rustication +consigns him. A young Oxonian is apt to feel very indignant if not +treated by deans and tutors, as a man and as a gentleman; but has he any +right to expect to be so treated, if he condescends to adopt the +practices of a mischievous or a truant school boy? + +I am no friend to the unnecessary imposition of oaths; but, I own, I do +not see how any thing like deliberate and systematic opposition to +academical authority, can be reconciled with the oath of academical +obedience taken by every freshman. I know well that the usual +construction of that oath,--(I doubt not the legitimate +construction)--is, that the person who takes it will obey the statutes, +or submit to the penalty imposed upon the infraction of them. I am +aware, too, that the violation of the strict letter of many of the +statutes is acquiesced in, and almost sanctioned, by those in authority; +but surely a _deliberate_ and _contumacious_ contravention of the +statutes, accompanied by a natural endeavour to evade punishment, is +hardly consistent with the spirit of the oath. Certainly it is +inconsistent with the spirit of Christianity, which everywhere +inculcates a dutiful submission to the constituted authorities; a +compliance, in all things lawful, with the regulations of the place in +which we are, and of the society which has received us among its +members. No man is compelled to go to the University; but if he does go +thither, he should make up his mind to comply with its rules, during the +short period of his residence. + +Perhaps, my dear nephew, you may think that I have all this time been +combating, or, rather, seeking to _lay_, a phantom of my own raising; +that I have been making mole-hills into mountains; or, like Don Quixote, +turning wind-mills into giants: but, in my long Oxford life, I have +heard of so many instances of the silly behaviour of which I have been +speaking, that I wish to put you on your guard against it. True +manliness consists in adhering to what you think to be right. In +keeping steadily to the path of duty, notwithstanding the solicitations, +or the taunts, or the ridicule of your associates, there is more proper +spirit and moral courage, than in braving the rebuke or the impositions +of a dean or a proctor. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + + + +LETTER V. + +IMPROVEMENT OF TIME. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +I trust that you are now hard at work. I can figure you with your +Herodotus before you, your Scapula on one side, and your maps on the +other, _setting-to_ in good earnest. You have, I am sure, fully +determined to make the most of your time. The time which you must +necessarily pass in Oxford, in order to take your bachelor's degree, is +but little after all. Your whole actual residence, during the three +years, will probably not much exceed a year and a half. Certainly, of +this _modicum_ of time you cannot afford to waste any portion. Make a +point of devoting it to real study, to real strenuous exertion. You owe +this to yourself--to your own credit and character; you owe it to your +parents, who have probably put themselves to some pecuniary +inconvenience, in order to give you the advantage of an Oxford +education; you owe it to God, to whom you are responsible for the +employment of your time, as well as for the proper use of your other +talents. Fix in your mind and memory the lesson taught you by the +sun-dial in the Quadrangle at All Souls--"_Pereunt et imputantur_;" or +that of another similar monitor--"_Ab hoc momento pendet aeternitas_." +Take time for exercise; take time for relaxation; but make steady +reading your object and your business. Do not be so weak, or so unmanly, +or so vain, as to be ashamed of being known to read. You went to Oxford +on purpose to study; why should you be ashamed of keeping that purpose +in view? + +In the choice of your studies, be guided implicitly by the advice of +your tutor. Very likely you may not see the use of some branches of +science, or of reading some particular books. But do not fancy that in +such matters you are wiser than older men, who have maturely considered +these things again and again. If you mean to be your own guide and your +own teacher, you had better have staid away from Oxford altogether. It +is one great advantage of academical education, that a definite course +of reading is marked out for you. When a young man,--indeed, when _any_ +man,--is left entirely to his own choice, he is apt to be distracted by +the many different branches of study, the many different books, which +present themselves, and to fall into a habit of desultory reading, +productive of little lasting benefit. You are saved from this +distraction and perplexity, throwing upon other shoulders the trouble +and responsibility of making a proper choice. + +I believe almost every tutor now in Oxford, will direct his pupils to +devote a certain portion of their time to the highest of all +studies--the study of religion. Some knowledge of religion is absolutely +indispensable, in order to pass your examination for your degree. But +independently of all academical objects, you cannot help feeling +satisfied that time so employed, is employed well and wisely. Such +study, with the blessing of God upon it, will be beneficial to you +through the whole of your future existence, both in this world and the +next. + +Among the many advantages of an university education, must be reckoned +the opportunity of attending public lectures, such lectures especially, +as are illustrated, by an expensive philosophical apparatus, or by the +inspection of actual specimens. The experiments conducted by means of +such apparatus, and the handing round of specimens, are not only +absolutely essential, oftentimes, to the comprehension of the science to +which they belong, but contribute powerfully to fix it in the memory. If +you can spare the time from your severer studies, and if your tutor does +not disapprove, I should strongly advise you to attend in succession the +lectures on natural philosophy,--on chemistry,--on mineralogy,--and on +geology. Some acquaintance with these sciences, is in itself so +interesting and useful, and is now so general, that you ought not, I +think, to miss your present opportunity of acquiring it: so favourable +an opportunity you will hardly meet with again. + +Much may be done by a judicious distribution of your time. When you have +made such a distribution, keep to it steadily. Be peremptory with +yourself in adhering to it, and be peremptory in preventing others from +encroaching upon it,--from encroaching upon it, at least, unnecessarily. +I suppose that, upon the average, you may get four or five hours' steady +reading before dinner, and three or four after. This will leave you +abundant time for exercise, for relaxation, and for society. Certainly +it will not spare you any for mere _lounging_; either for lounging +yourself, or being lounged upon by others. If you cannot avoid the +latter by any other means, you will be reduced to the alternative of +shutting your door, or, if that term is still in use, of _sporting oak_ +against them. If they reproach you, set them, as their punishment, to +read the paper in the Idler on the robbery of time[62:1]. + +Either of your time, or of your money, waste as little as possible upon +newspapers. I admit, that of all periods of history, the time in which +we actually live is, _to us_, the most interesting. I admit that, both +with a view to your taking part in the conversation of general society, +as well as upon other accounts, some knowledge of passing events is +desirable, or even necessary. For such purposes, a rapid glance at the +newspaper, or even what is picked up by hearsay, will, generally +speaking, be sufficient. While reading for your degree, however, you +really cannot spare time to read the newspapers _through_. The most +important portions of them are, perhaps, the debates during the session +of parliament, and the trials. Of the debates, a considerable part is +very trifling and unprofitable; and, in order to read with real +advantage those speeches which are most deserving of attention, it is +necessary to be possessed of a considerable portion of that knowledge of +history, of legislation, of political economy, of mercantile and +financial transactions, the _foundations_ of which you are at Oxford +engaged in laying. It is not to be wished that an under-graduate should +affect to be an experienced politician, prepared to give a strong and +decided opinion upon subjects, upon which able and experienced men, +possessed of ten times his knowledge, find a difficulty in making up +their mind. In the reports of trials, many curious facts, and much +interesting information are to be found. In order to understand many of +them, however, it is requisite to have a more intimate acquaintance with +the rules of English jurisprudence, and with the practice of the courts, +than can be expected in a young man as yet hardly set free from the +eggshell of school. Upon the subject of newspapers, however, I will say +no more. I well know, that in merely touching upon it, I tread upon +delicate and debateable ground. + +Take sufficient time for relaxation; but let your relaxations, as far as +you can, be intellectual and improving. + +Oxford now presents opportunities, both of acquiring some knowledge of +natural history, and of cultivating a taste in the fine arts, which it +by no means possessed when I was an under-graduate. For these we are +principally indebted to those two admirable brothers[66:1], who have so +long devoted their time, their money, their distinguished talents, and +their various attainments, in the first place, to plans of beneficence, +and in the next, to the advancement of science and the cultivation of +taste. It is to them that we owe the enlargement, the arrangement, and +in fact the greater part of the contents, of the Museum, which now +contains a very interesting collection of specimens, particularly in +British ornithology. To them we are indebted for the excellent casts (in +the Radcliffe Library) from the most perfect specimens of sculpture, and +for the beautiful models (in the Picture Gallery) of the most celebrated +remains of ancient architecture. The Picture Gallery itself contains +many paintings, which, if not of any great excellence as works of art, +yet are well deserving of attention on very many accounts; and the +copies from the Cartoons, especially if you can be assisted with a few +hints from Richardson or Sir Joshua Reynolds, are most interesting +objects of study and contemplation. I am surprised that the young men in +Oxford make so little use of these advantages. Many of them seem hardly +to be aware of their existence. + +Among other modes of relaxation, not unconnected with intellectual +improvement, I should advise you to make yourself a little acquainted +with our early English architecture. If you can buy or borrow either +Bentham's Essay on Gothic Architecture, or Milner's accurate and elegant +Treatise on the Ecclesiastical Architecture of England during the middle +ages, you will need no other assistance, excepting, indeed, a friend +disposed to go along with you in this pursuit. Oxford and its immediate +neighbourhood will furnish you with many interesting specimens from the +Saxon and Norman, in the cathedral, St. Peter's in the East, and Iffley +church, down to the utter depravation of the art, or rather the total +change of style, in the time of Henry the Eighth. + +These interesting pursuits, however, I mention, as you must follow them, +if you follow them at all, merely _by the by_. They must not be suffered +to interfere with your severer studies. When engaged in those studies, +give them your whole undivided attention. _Whatsoever your hand, or your +head, findeth to do, do it with all your might._ + +The habits of study and of intellectual improvement, which you acquire +at Oxford, you should carry with you into the vacation. During the +vacation, you may, perhaps, take more time for society--the society +especially of your own immediate family--and more for relaxation; but +still do not _waste_ your time; still consider yourself as responsible +for the right employment of it. Make sure of the ground which you gained +during the term, by going over by yourself, what you then read with your +tutor. Improve your acquaintance with the standard writers of our own +country, and acquire some knowledge of modern history. In short, make +the most of your leisure. Read Bishop Home's sermon on redeeming the +time, and the papers in the Spectator and the Rambler to which he +refers. Read, _and learn by heart_, what is said on the loss of time in +the second of Young's Night Thoughts: + + "Part with it as with money, sparing; pay + No moment but in purchase of its worth." + +But my letter grows long, and (you will say) tedious. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[62:1] Vol. I. No. 14. + +[66:1] John Duncan, Esq. and Philip Duncan, Esq. of New College. + + + + +LETTER VI. + +PUNCTUALITY. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +I ventured to give you some advice respecting the employment of your +time; perhaps I ought to follow up that letter with a few remarks upon +PUNCTUALITY. Unless you acquire the habit of punctuality, you will be +apt, not only to lose your own time, but to make unjustifiable inroads +upon the time of other persons. + +Endeavour, therefore, to _keep to your time_ in every appointment, +whether the appointment be made by yourself or by others, (the college +authorities for instance,) whether it be with a superior, an equal, or +an inferior. Whether it be in a matter of business or in a matter of +pleasure, try always to be true to it. Let this be your system and your +habit. Some deviations from punctuality may now and then be unavoidable; +but do not let them occur unless they _really are_ unavoidable in +fairness and reason. If you have yourself made an appointment, your word +is, to a certain degree, pledged to your keeping to it. The case is in +some measure the same, when, though the appointment is actually made by +others, you have acceded to it. + +Want of punctuality seems to proceed either from pride and +superciliousness, or from some infirmity, some weakness of character. +Most men try to be punctual in any appointment with a man of rank +superior to themselves, especially if they have any object, any +interest, in conciliating his favour. And, on the other hand, too many +persons seem to feel themselves at liberty to be unpunctual in an +appointment with an inferior. It is not worth while, they think, to care +about being exact with one so much beneath them. "Let him wait till I am +at leisure to attend to him," exclaims such a man, in the proud +consciousness of superiority; and, perhaps, some trifle, or mere +indolence, is all that he has to plead for his neglect. + +You, my dear nephew, have, I trust, long since learned, that you have no +right to treat any man, however low his rank may be, with +disrespect,--with any thing approaching to contempt. You well know, that +both reason and religion require us to regard all men as our brothers, +and that one of the golden rules of the latter is, _in lowliness of +mind, let each esteem others better than himself_. Whatever a man's rank +in life may be, he has a right to punctuality as he has a right to +truth; and you have no right, by your unpunctuality, to rob him either +of his time or his patience. Certainly you have no right to give him by +such means the painful feeling that he is neglected, and neglected +because he is despised. + +And thus, also, with men of your own age and your own rank in life; in +all the little engagements and appointments, whether of business or of +pleasure, which occur in the common intercourse of society, endeavour +still to maintain the habit of punctuality. As every man wishes to have +the character of being true to his word, so it will be to your credit to +have the character of being true to your engagements, whether those +engagements relate to great matters or to small. + +But though want of punctuality is sometimes occasioned by pride, it +must more frequently proceed from a certain degree of weakness of +character, or from mere indolence. A man acknowledges punctuality to be +right and desirable, but cannot muster up sufficient energy and +resolution. He cannot prevail upon himself to quit his bed, or his easy +chair, or his fire-side, or the employment by which he chances to be +occupied, till the time fixed on has passed away. His friends are kept +waiting; those who have business to transact with him lose their temper; +they, again, are perhaps disappointing others, and all because he had +not sufficient decision of character, sufficient command of himself, to +be punctual. + +You may remember seeing at my house my friend Mr. M.[78:1] He was at +Oxford a very good-humoured fellow, and every body liked him; but he +never could contrive to be in time for any thing. He got imposition upon +imposition for being too late for chapel; he came to dine in hall when +other men were going away; and his friends were almost afraid of making +an appointment with him, either for business or for amusement, because +they knew beforehand that he would not keep it. When, after leaving +Oxford, he established himself as a country gentleman in his paternal +mansion, the same habit still clung to him. No time was fixed for any +thing, or if it was fixed, it was never kept. Neither his guests nor his +servants knew at what hour either breakfast, or dinner, or any other +domestic arrangement, would take place. Consequently, their time and +their spirits were wasted in uncertainty. When engaged to dine at a +neighbour's, perhaps he would forget the engagement altogether; or, if +he chanced to remember it, would not arrive till the master of the feast +had given him up in despair, after allowing possibly an extra half hour, +during which, the solemn pause which sometimes takes place before +dinner, had become more solemn, from the annoyance of seeing a whole +party kept waiting by the unpunctuality of one person. The servants, +meanwhile, were yawning and fidgetting backwards and forwards in the +listlessness of expectation; the cook perplexed with the sore dilemma of +seeing all the productions of her skill, either chilled with cold from +being kept back, or burnt to a cinder; and the temper even of the lady +of the house a little out of tune, from the certainty that the dinner +would be spoiled. Of all these various vexations, the sole cause was to +be found in Mr. M.'s want of energy. He could not bring himself, +perhaps, either to shorten a pleasant ride, or to lay down a book which +interested him, or to quit his own chair by the fire-side, in order to +dress. The convenience and comfort, and for a time the good humour, of a +whole company, were to be sacrificed to his indolence, his _vis +inertiae_, and unpunctuality. + +Never permit yourself, my dear nephew, thus to trifle with the time or +the temper of any persons, whether high or low, with whom you have any +intercourse. Make a point of always being in time. I think it is said of +Lord Nelson (though I cannot hit upon the passage in his life), that +when some friend was fixing an appointment of importance at a certain +hour, the hero added, "Say a quarter _before_--to that quarter _before_, +I have owed all my success in life." I do not advise you actually to be +_before_ the time of an engagement, which some people will complain of +as being worse than being too late, but be so much beforehand as to be +master of your time, or to have it in your power to be punctual almost +to a minute. When you are received as a guest in a friend's house, +consider compliance with the hours and habits of the family, as a +natural return for the hospitality which is shown to you. There is +something incongruous in seeing a young person deranging, by his +unpunctuality, the economy and regularity of a whole household. And do +not suffer the kindness and indulgence of your parents to induce you, +when with them, to be less attentive to punctuality than you are, when +with other persons of superior age or rank to yourself. Never let them +wait for you; make a point of being always ready. An excellent friend of +mine lays it down as a maxim, that _habitual unpunctuality is positive +incivility_. + +I have alluded to the unpunctuality of one of my college friends: I will +contrast it with the punctuality of another. The latter when at Oxford +was distinguished for lively talents, and for an exuberance of spirits +bursting forth into every possible variety of fun. He is now the owner +of a spacious and splendid mansion, with a large establishment of +servants, and often a considerable number of guests, attracted by his +many amiable and excellent qualities. He still retains his playfulness +of wit, but his domestic arrangements are a model of punctuality. Family +prayers, and every meal, are to a minute. His guests and servants, +consequently, know exactly what they have to depend on, the arrangements +of the day, whether for business or for amusement, can be made with +precision, and every thing is done at its proper time. This is +punctuality on a greater scale. You and I, my dear nephew, must attend +to it in smaller matters. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[78:1] Mr. M. is imaginary. + + + + +LETTER VII. + +AMUSEMENTS. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +In a former letter I recommended to you certain modes of relaxation, +having some connection with intellectual improvement. You will, perhaps, +tell me that you want relaxation more entire and complete; that the +intellect requires perfect rest; that you must have _amusement_ in the +strict etymological sense of the word. You may be right. I have already +advised you to take sufficient time for _exercise_, and the exercise of +the body will generally give rest and refreshment to the mind. + +In your choice of amusement, however--amusement, I mean, as combined +with exercise--you must have strict regard to economy, both of money and +of time. Do not think me an old woman, if I add, that regard for _both_ +should keep you from any excessive bodily exertion, such as will unfit +you for study, or seriously affect your health. I am told that the +latter effect has of late, not unfrequently, been the result of over +fatigue in _rowing_; that many young men have died at an early age; that +others live on with all their powers debilitated, from having +overstrained their nerves, and their whole muscular system, in +boat-races. Rowing is in itself a salutary and delightful species of +exercise; and the facility of practising it, is one among the many +advantages of Oxford; but when carried to the excess which I have +alluded to, it is foolish and culpable. + +I would have a young man regardless of danger, willing to risk limbs, +health, or life itself, for the benefit of his fellow-creatures. He +should, like Hamlet, "hold his life at a pin's fee," when any adequate +object is to be answered by putting it in jeopardy. But a man has _no +right_ to risk either his life or his limbs for a bravado, in mere idle +vanity and ostentation. Such wanton risk is cruelty to his parents and +friends, and a presumptuous tempting of Providence. + +_Riding_, for riding's sake, must, with your finances, be out of the +question. The utmost that you ought to allow yourself, is a hack once or +twice a term, for some specific purpose--to visit a distant friend, +perhaps, or to see some interesting object lying beyond the range of a +walk. What I have said of riding, applies, with ten-fold force, to +hunting, which entails expense--(the hire of a hunter, the hire of a +hack probably to take you to cover, sundry ostlers and helpers, and very +likely a jovial dinner at an inn)--utterly inconsistent with an average +allowance; which entails, also, a waste of time, which, in the short +period of an Oxford residence, can ill be spared. + +What shall I say of _cricket_? I have great respect for cricket, as a +national and a manly game. The demand which it makes upon your Oxford +time is confined to the short term between Easter and the long vacation, +and it does not require a very large portion of the day. It is not +_necessarily_ attended with any expense. Whether the incidental expenses +of _uniform_ (if you belong to a club), tent, dinner, &c. &c. are such +as you can fairly afford, is for your consideration. They need not be +high, and, in my good will to the game, I am anxious that they should +be kept down. + +_Tennis_ is an animated game, of much variety in itself, and requiring +great variety of muscular exertion. It is connected with many historical +and chivalrous recollections, and carries the mind back to our Henry the +Fifth and the "mocking Dauphin" of France. As it cannot be played +without a spacious and expensive edifice, it is altogether an +aristocratic game, and demands an aristocratic purse. It is a game which +requires a good deal of practice, and, consequently, a good deal of +expenditure, in order to acquire a tolerable degree of skill; and your +skill will seldom have an opportunity of showing itself after you have +quitted Oxford, as you will seldom fall in with a tennis-court. I have +no hesitation in saying, that you, my dear nephew, have no money that +you have a right to spend upon yourself in this manner. + +You will never, I trust, annoy any of the neighbouring country +gentlemen, by attacking their game. You know how tender a point this is, +and how susceptible most landed proprietors are upon the subject; and +your own good feeling, and sense of propriety, and common fairness, will +prevent you from trespassing in this manner. You can imagine how +indignant you would yourself feel at such an invasion, and will not be +guilty towards another of a wrong, of which you would complain loudly +if it were offered to yourself. + +After all, _walking_ is the cheapest exercise, and, perhaps, the best. +If you wish to give it variety, you will find plenty of ditches to leap, +steeps to ascend, and hills to run up or down. And, dull as are most of +the great roads leading into Oxford, the country round abounds in +interesting objects within reach of a walk. There is much natural +scenery, possessed of a good deal of variety and picturesque character; +and there are many buildings, and remains of buildings, which either +from something in themselves, or from adventitious circumstances, well +deserve to be looked at. The church at Cumnor, for instance, not only +has within itself much to interest a man fond of architectural or +antiquarian investigation, but, in common with the remains or site of +Cumnor hall, and the village of Dry Sandford, have acquired a sort of +classical notoriety from the magical pen of Sir Walter Scott. The +picturesque ruins of the kitchen, and other buildings at Stanton +Harcourt, the slight vestiges of Godston Nunnery, the Town Hall, the +Gaol, and the two churches at Abingdon, may all become, each in its +turn, the object of a pedestrian expedition. The residence of the +Speaker, Lenthall, at Bessilsleigh, may deserve notice, from historical +recollections, though for no other reason. The Saxon church in Iffley I +have already mentioned. The recently-built Saxon chapel at Kennington is +done in excellent taste, and is a most gratifying instance of the +munificence and piety of an individual clergyman, devoting, I believe, +almost all his resources to the work. The church at Wytham will show you +that a church very lately erected may, by correct judgment, be made to +present the appearance of having been built five hundred years ago. But +I must not go on in this way, or you will think that you have got hold +of an Oxford guide. Most of the villages and village churches in the +neighbourhood, have some character of their own worth examining. + +So much for amusements connected with exercise, which has led me into +something like a repetition of some of the sentiments in a former +letter. + +A few words on sedentary amusements. + +If you read _in earnest_, and are bent upon making the most of your +time, you will have little of it left for amusements of a sedentary +nature. + +The less you have to do with cards the better. Young men can have no +occasion for the assistance of cards in order to pass their time; and +there seems to be something almost incongruous in the idea of _their_ +sitting down to a rubber. Nor do they need the excitement: if they wish +for it, that very wish is a reason why they ought not to have it. If +they play for money--or, at all events, if they play for such sums as +make the winning or losing an object of any degree of consequence--they +become gamblers; and of the many bad passions which gambling sometimes +calls into activity, and of the destructive consequences which it +entails, no one is ignorant. If you once get into the habit of playing, +you will, perhaps, not know when to stop. Cards are very seductive, and +you may find yourself become a gambler almost before you are aware of +it. Perhaps the best plan is _not to know_ how to play, which furnishes +an answer always ready. + +Chess is a game of elegance and interest, and the being a good +chess-player, carries with it a certain impression of general ability +and of intellectual activity and resource. Perhaps I may allow that +playing at chess adds a certain degree of interest to the perusal of the +history of a campaign, whether ancient or modern, with its various +moves, its checks and counter-checks, its retreats and _castlings_. But +chess is a fascinating game, and will be apt to make larger demands upon +your time than you can afford. If you indulge in it at all, you must be +peremptory with yourself in resisting its tendency to incroach either +upon your time or your _temper_. Sometimes, too, it requires so much +exertion of thought,--is such a strain upon the mind,--that it hardly +can answer the purposes of relaxation. If you play, by all means read +Franklin's Essay on the Morals of Chess. For clearness of head, for +truth-telling simplicity and honesty of purpose, and for perspicuity and +liveliness of style, Franklin has, perhaps, no superior. + +Always recollect that improvement, moral and intellectual, is the great +object for which you were sent to Oxford. With that object nothing must +be suffered to interfere. + + I remain, &c. &c. + + + + +LETTER VIII. + +EXPENSES, AND RUNNING IN DEBT. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +I do not know exactly what allowance your father has been able to give +you, but whatever it may be, I trust that you are resolutely determined +to keep within it. This will, of course, require a good deal of care and +attention. Many young men, when, upon going to the University, they find +in their pockets a much larger sum than they ever possessed before, +fancy themselves rich, and at liberty to allow themselves various +unnecessary indulgences. The consequence is, that they become entangled +in debts, from which they can never extricate themselves during their +continuance at Oxford. Be on your guard against getting thus hampered. +Take it for granted, that the regular and necessary claims upon your +finances will leave but little over for the indulgence of pleasure or +fancy. + +The expenses of an University education are often most unfairly +exaggerated by writers and speakers, who are fond of running down all +old institutions. These carpers affect to set down to the score of the +University all the money that is spent by the young men who reside in +it. They seem to forget that, wherever a young man may be, he must eat +and drink, and must purchase clothes suitable to his station in society. +I was myself, as you probably know, at Christ Church, where I took my +degree, and afterwards became a Fellow of Oriel. At Oriel, (which may +probably be taken as a fair average of the rest of the University,) the +_necessary_ annual expenses of a commoner are from 70l. to 80l., or +thereabouts[101:1]. This includes room-rent, batels, (that is, +breakfast, dinner, &c. _exclusive_ of tea and sugar), tuition, +University and College dues, coals, letters, washing, servants. The +University dues are less than 1l. per annum. There are, perhaps, few +places in England, where a gentleman can be comfortably lodged and +boarded at a much cheaper rate. Still there will always be many +incidental expenses, and you must put in practice a pretty severe +economy in order to meet them. + +In the manner in which you spend your money, as in every thing else, +accustom yourself to a certain degree of self-denial. Do not buy any +thing merely because it hits your fancy, and you think you should _like +to have it_, but consider whether you cannot easily _do without it_. Be +as liberal as you can reasonably afford to be in assisting others, +especially the poor, but spend as little as you can help upon yourself. +Above all, never buy, or order, any thing which you are unable to pay +for. + +The habit of running in debt is pregnant with evil and misery of every +description. It often--perhaps generally--amounts to positive +dishonesty. The money which you owe a tradesman is really his property. +The articles, which you have received from him, are hardly your own, +until you have paid for them. If you keep them, without paying for them +when the seller wishes and asks for payment, you deprive a man of that +which belongs to him; and is not that something approaching to robbery? +To a man possessed of proper feeling and a nice sense of honour, it must +be very painful to suffer a tradesman to ask twice for what is clearly +his right. To affect to be offended with such an application, and to +meet it with superciliousness and insolence, is injustice carried to its +height. + +The manner in which some men, who would be ready to shoot any one who +disputed their claims to be considered as gentlemen, treat their +creditors, whom they choose to call _duns_, would, from its contrariety +to any thing like reason, be almost ludicrous, if it were not so +culpable, so cruel, and so dishonest. + +A tradesman, from not being able to recover the money owed to him, sees +himself in danger of losing his credit, and, together with his credit, +the means of getting a maintenance; he sees his wife and children +perhaps upon the very verge of misery, and yet, if he civilly asks for +what is his due, he is considered as troublesome and impertinent, +perhaps reproached and insulted! + +Upon this subject I shall allow myself to quote the words of Delany, the +friend of Dean Swift, one of the most animated and sensible of our +sermon writers. + +"Running in debt with tradesmen, and neglecting to pay them in due time, +is utterly ruinous to the whole business of trade and commerce, and +absolutely destructive of the very principles upon which it is built, +and by which it subsists; and yet this is a crime every day committed by +men of fortune and quality, with as little remorse as they eat and +drink; and if the tradesman demands his money, it is odds but he is +either threatened or turned into a jest. The son of Sirach's wise +observation is here every day verified, merely substituting the words +_rich_ and _poor_, for the words _debtor_ and _creditor_. _The debtor +hath done wrong, and yet he threateneth; the creditor is wronged, and +yet he must entreat also._ If threats will not rid these men of their +importunate creditors, then are they to be deluded with fair words and +plausible excuses, to pay attendance from day to day, to the loss of +more time, and neglect of more business, than perhaps the debt is worth; +and so the first injury, instead of being repaired is doubled. And yet +the _gentleman_ debtor, the author of this evil, is so far from +repenting of it, that it is odds but he vaunts his wit and dexterity in +doing it. _As a mad man_ (saith Solomon) _who casteth firebrands, +arrows, and death: so is the man that deceiveth his neighbour, and +saith, Am I not in jest?_ And, indeed, it is scarce to be conceived how +any man can deal more destruction and ruin around him, than by deceiving +and breaking faith with the fair trader; for it is well known, his +credit, his whole subsistence, depends upon keeping his word, and being +strictly punctual in his payments and his promises; and, if he fail in +these, he is undone at once. And how is it possible he should not fail, +if the gentlemen he deals with fail him? He hath no way of raising money +but by sale of his goods; and if those to whom they are trusted will not +pay him, it is impossible he can pay his creditors; and, if he do not +pay them, it is impossible but he must be ruined, and, perhaps, many +more with him. For traders are linked and dependent on one another; and +one man's fall throws down many more with him: the shop-keeper is in +debt to the maker or the merchant; and these again to the journeyman, +the farmer, or the foreign correspondent; and so the ruin becomes +complicated, and extended beyond imagination!" + +"Credit is to a tradesman what honour is to a gentleman: to a man that +is truly such, (a gentleman,) his honour is as dear as his life: to the +trader, credit is as life itself; for he cannot live without it." + +You, my dear nephew, will never, I trust, stoop so low as to be guilty +of such dishonesty. But then you must keep a vigilant eye upon your +expenses. Paying ready money for every thing may be sometimes +inconvenient, and may, perhaps, occasion mistakes; but never leave +Oxford for a vacation without clearing off every thing that you owe. +Take receipts, and keep them. The most honest and respectable tradesman +may sometimes, in the hurry of business, omit to cross a charge out of +his book, and will feel a satisfaction in having any doubt as to payment +removed. Have such receipts tied up and docketed, so that you may refer +to any one of them readily. + +Never suffer yourself to be led into needless expense by the example of +your companions, and never be ashamed of saying that you cannot afford +it. + +We sometimes see weak young men vying with each other in the expensive +elegance of their furniture and dress, or in the luxury of their +entertainments. A man of large fortune produces at his table a variety +of costly wines, abundance of ice, and a splendid dessert. Others, from +a silly vanity, affect to do the same, although such expensive luxuries +are altogether inconsistent with their finances, and with the general +habits of men in their rank of life. The more such expenses and foolish +ostentation can be checked by the college _authorities_ the better. At +all events, do not _you_ be so weak as to fall into them. There is no +disgrace in being poor, but there is disgrace and dishonesty too, in +contracting debts which you are unable to discharge. + +Some young Oxonians, I am afraid, after spending the larger portion of +their allowance upon amusements and self-indulgence, drive off the +payment of what they regard as their more _creditable_ debts till they +take their degree, under the idea that they will then be paid by their +fathers. This is a most unwarrantable,--sometimes a _cruel_,--drain upon +parental kindness. Poets may well speak of university expenses "pinching +parents black and blue[112:1]," when this is the case. + +The majority of parents, as I have already said, do not send their sons +to the University without some degree of pecuniary inconvenience to +themselves. It is, indeed, hard upon them, when, in addition to an +annual allowance, which, probably, they have furnished not without +difficulty, they are called upon for a considerable sum, in order to +save their sons' credit--perhaps in order to enable him to take his +degree. For you are aware that an unpaid tradesman has the power, if he +thinks fit to exert it, of stopping the degree of a spendthrift +under-graduate. This power, I believe, is seldom, if ever, exercised. +But surely the being liable to it, through your own misconduct and +extravagance, would be attended with a feeling of painful humiliation. + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[101:1] June, 1832. + +[112:1] Cowper. + + + + +LETTER IX. + +TEMPERANCE. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +In the present state of society, it is, perhaps, less necessary than it +would have been formerly, that I should give you any caution or advice +on the subject of _temperance_. Five-and-thirty years ago, it was +customary to drink a good deal of wine after dinner, and young men at +Oxford were not behind-hand with the rest of the world in complying with +this bad custom. + +It was _then_ generally the system, to initiate a freshman by making +him completely drunk. Scripture is by no means sufficiently listened to +_now_, but perhaps its warnings were less known and less regarded +_then_. The master of the revels and his abettors were ignorant, or +unmindful, of the threatenings denounced by the voice of +Inspiration,--_Woe unto him that giveth his neighbour drink, that +puttest thy bottle to him, and makest him drunken also_: and again--_Woe +unto them that are mighty to drink wine, and men of strength to mingle +strong drink_. Regardless of these denunciations, and trusting to the +strength of their own heads, and the practised discipline of their own +stomachs, their _noble_ ambition was to make drunk as many of their +guests as possible, especially any luckless freshman who chanced to be +of the party. Those who, whether from religious principle or from +manliness of character, did not choose to submit to be made drunk, were +obliged either to encounter these _kind_ endeavours with sturdy +resistance,--resistance which sometimes occasioned a total cessation of +intercourse and acquaintance,--or to evade them by stratagem. Glass +after glass was dexterously emptied upon the carpet under the table, or +the purple stream sought concealment under heaps of walnut-shells and +orange-peel. In short, at a tolerably large wine-party there was wasted, +or _worse than wasted_, a quantity of Port wine sufficient to check the +ravages of a typhus fever in an entire village. + +These days of _Celtic barbarism_ are, I hope, utterly passed away. As in +general society very little wine is consumed, (_excepting at dinner_,) +so Oxford has caught the spirit of the times, and the bacchanalian +revels to which I have alluded are, I believe, much less common than +they were formerly, if not entirely exploded. I am afraid, however, that +even now more wine is drunk in some colleges, than is consistent either +with Christian temperance, or with habits of study, or with the +preservation of health. + +I need not point out to _you_, my dear nephew, the evils which, in a +religious point of view, result from drinking to excess. You, I well +know, would shudder at the idea of wilfully depriving yourself of +reason, and of sinking yourself to the situation of a beast or of a +maniac. A man, who has thrown away his reason, has little right to hope +for the continuance of the assisting and preventing grace of God. And +destitute of the controlling guidance, both of reason and of Divine +Grace, what is there left to prevent his ungoverned passions from +carrying him into the most perilous excesses? There are deadly vices, to +which young men are, at all times, but too powerfully solicited by their +natural appetites; and when those appetites are stimulated by drinking, +and all salutary control shaken off, the danger is great indeed. You +perhaps may remember an Eastern apologue to the following effect, (I +know not where to find it): The Devil having, by the impulse of terror, +induced a holy man to consent to commit _some_ crime, allowed him to +choose, whether he would get drunk, or be guilty of either of two of the +most horrible enormities he could conceive. The poor victim chose +drunkenness, as being the least offence, but in the state to which he +had thus brought himself, was guilty of all three. + +And even if you are kept back from any additional guilt, yet you well +know, that by throwing away your reason, you become capable of being +guilty of all sorts of absurdities,--that you are liable to say and do a +hundred foolish things, of which, when you return to your senses, you +will be heartily ashamed,--that you expose yourself to the ridicule and +contempt of those, who witness the degraded state to which you have +reduced yourself. + +A drunken _Christian_ is almost a contradiction in terms; and something +the same may be said of a drunken _gentleman_. Among many in the middle +and the industrious classes of society, there is much intelligence, much +quick perception of what is morally right, and of general propriety of +behaviour. As such men are not backward in shewing respect, where +respect is really due, so they are keen-sighted in detecting gross +inconsistencies of conduct, and ready to bestow the full measure of +contempt upon those, who, while placed above them by the advantages of +birth, and fortune, and education, yet meanly condescend, by their vices +and their excesses, to degrade themselves below them. + +The inconsistency of any excess in drinking, with the main purpose for +which you were sent to Oxford, is palpable. You go to Oxford professedly +for study. Independently of the time actually occupied by a wine-party, +any excess will, probably, indispose you for study the morning after; + + Corpus onustum + Hesternis vitiis animum quoque praegravat una, + Atque affigit humo divinae particulam aurae. + +You will rise from your bed heavy and languid, probably with some +disposition to headache; and will be far more inclined to lounge in an +easy-chair, or to saunter about in listless idleness, than to sit down +to active mental exertion. + +I must add, that the habit of drinking much wine during your continuance +at Oxford, is not unlikely materially to injure your health in the +succeeding periods of your life. Such habit has a tendency permanently +to derange and weaken the digestive powers, and to injure and harden the +internal coats and the orifices of the stomach. I am persuaded, that +much of the tendency to apoplectic and paralytic affections; much of the +general indisposition, which we often witness in men advanced beyond the +middle period of the usual term of human life,--men who have of late +perhaps, lived temperately--is to be attributed to the wine which they +drank when young. + +But I will not dwell longer on the evils of excessive drinking. You know +the admonitions of Scripture,--_Take heed lest at any time your hearts +be overcharged with surfeiting and drunkenness. Be not drunk with wine, +wherein is excess._ You know that _drunkards cannot inherit the kingdom +of God_; you know that drunkenness is spoken of by St. Paul as being the +vice of those, who remain sunk in the thick darkness of ignorance and +heathenism, and as utterly unbefitting those who are blessed with the +light of the Gospel. Indeed, it is unworthy of any man possessed only of +common sense. + +Guard, then, my dear nephew, against this degrading habit with +determined resolution. Let neither the example, nor the solicitations, +nor the taunting jests of your companions, induce you to demean yourself +so far, as to be guilty of a vice so utterly unworthy of you, both as a +man and as a Christian. If they, for their amusement, were to request +you to cut off your right hand, you would not feel bound to comply with +them. Do not, for their gratification, expose yourself in the condition +of a fool, or an idiot. Do not, in order to please a party of +thoughtless revellers, incur the displeasure of Almighty God, and run +the hazard of eternal ruin. + +And take care, that you do not yourself _acquire_ a taste for any such +sensual indulgences. "The appetite for intoxicating liquors," says +Paley, "appears to be almost always _acquired_." Guard against the first +beginnings of intemperance. _Principiis obsta._ If you are not on your +guard, you will be in danger of being carried on, step by step, until +retreat becomes out of the question. + +You would avoid many trials of your firmness, and be relieved probably +from much irksome importunity, if you could make up your mind to +renounce wine altogether. This you would do with the less difficulty, if +backed by the sanction of medical advice. I apprehend that most medical +men, if desired to give their _candid_ opinion, would recommend +abstinence from wine as conducive to a _young_ man's health both of body +and mind. I knew _water-drinkers_ at Oxford, who yielded to none of +their companions in liveliness and all social qualities, either in their +own room or at the wine-party of a friend. Many young men in the army, +I believe, adopt this system, from motives both of moral and of +economical prudence. A pint, or even half a pint, of wine per day, makes +a considerable hole in the pay of a subaltern, or in the stipend of a +country curate, or in the allowance of a briefless barrister. Avoid +acquiring factitious wants. Do not by habit make wine necessary to your +comfort. It is wise, when young, not to indulge in luxuries which in any +future period of your life you probably will not be able to afford, +consistently with the claims which will then be pressing upon you. I +throw out this idea, however, for your own consideration, without urging +it as matter of positive advice. I think, however, that your intellect +will be clearer, and your mind often more cheerful, if you comply with +the suggestion. + +Shall I add a word or two upon temperance in _eating_? I hope that there +are few young men who are apt to be guilty of the _porcine_ vice of +eating to excess; in plain English--of _gluttony_. Perhaps, however, the +temptations of a well-appointed dinner, prepared by an exquisite +_artiste_, may induce them occasionally to transgress. It is, perhaps, +hardly fair to quote from any thing so well known as Addison's paper on +Temperance, in the Spectator[128:1], but it is much to my purpose. "It +is said of Diogenes, that meeting a young man who was going to a feast, +he took him up in the street, and carried him home to his friends, as +one who was running into imminent danger, had not he prevented him. What +would that philosopher have said, had he been present at the luxury of a +modern meal? Would he not have thought the master of a family mad, and +have begged his servants to tie down his hands, had he seen him devour +fowl, fish, and flesh; swallow oil and vinegar, wines and spices; throw +down salads of twenty different sorts, sauces of a hundred ingredients, +confections and fruits of numberless sweets and flavours? What unnatural +motions and counter-ferments must such a medley of intemperance produce +in the body? For my part, when I behold a fashionable table, set out in +all its magnificence, I fancy that I see gouts and dropsies, fevers and +lethargies, with innumerable distempers, lying in ambuscade among the +dishes." + +"Nature delights in the most plain and simple diet." He then gives some +rules for temperance, which are well worth attending to. This passage of +Addison is much in the spirit of that of Horace: + + ----"Variae res + Ut noceant homini, credas, memor illius escae + Quae simplex olim tibi sederit. At simul assis + Miscueris elixa, simul conchylia turdis; + Dulcia se in bilem vertent, stomachoque tumultum + Lenta feret pituita." + +Most of the modern writers on dietetics, as well as those who have +preceded them, recommend a very considerable abridgment of the quantity +of food, usually consumed at the table of the affluent. + +And while I strongly advise you to be rather abstemious as to _quantity_ +of food, so I wish you not to be in the slightest degree fastidious as +to its _quality_, provided it is wholesome, and free from qualities +absolutely revolting. You may naturally like one thing better than +another, and partake of what you prefer, when it comes in your way; but +it is painful to see a young man of any intellect indulging in the +niceties of an epicure, and really appearing to care much about what he +eats, and what he drinks. When I commenced the life of a country +clergyman, I was often received, with almost parental kindness, in a +house, in which good taste of all kinds,--moral, intellectual, social, +and _culinary_,--presided in an eminent degree. Every now and then, some +particular dish made its appearance, under the impression that I was +particularly fond of it. Probably I had eaten of it some days before, +because it chanced to be near me, or from some similar accident. I was +grateful for the kindness and attention, but felt mortified, almost +degraded, at its being supposed that I cared about one thing more than +another, where all were good and wholesome. + +Do not get into the habit of spending your money in ices, and other +delicacies, at the pastry-cook's and confectioner's. You say that you +are hungry;-- + + "--------Panis + Latrantem stomachum bene leniet." + +If your hunger would disdain a piece of dry bread, it certainly has no +claim to be attended to at all. You say that you can _afford_ to indulge +yourself in the delicacies to which I have alluded. I do not think that +you can; at all events, your money may be more worthily spent-- + + "Non est melius quo insumere possis? + Cur eget indignus quisquam, te divite? Quare + Templa ruunt antiqua Deum?" + +In other words, if you have the money to spare, give it to the +deserving poor, or to the Church-building Society. Few expenses are +more unsatisfactory in retrospect,--I had almost said, more +_disgraceful_,--than those which have been incurred by sensual +self-indulgence; incurred to gratify a vitiated palate and a pampered +appetite. + +Self-denial is recommended by the classical writers of antiquity, as +well as by the most sensible of modern authors; and, what is of +infinitely more importance, is strongly inculcated by the Christian +religion. But how shall self-denial be practised _at all_, if it cannot +be practised in the low matter of eating and drinking? + +Read again and again the paper of Addison, and the Satire of Horace, +(the second of the second Book), from which I have made my quotations. +Read also the following passages from that accurate observer of the +habits and manners of social life, the son of Sirach: + +_If thou sit at a bountiful table, be not greedy upon it, and say not, +There is much meat on it.--Eat, as it becometh a man, those things that +are set before thee; and devour not, lest thou be hated. Leave off +first for manners' sake; and be not insatiable, lest thou offend._ + +_A very little is sufficient for a man well nurtured, and he fetcheth +not his wind short upon his bed._ + +_Sound sleep cometh of moderate eating; he riseth early, and his wits +are with him: but the pain of watching, and choler, and pangs of the +belly, are with an insatiable man._ + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[128:1] No. 195. + + + + +LETTER X. + +ENGLISH READING. + + +MY DEAR NEPHEW, + +When at Oxford, you will not have much time for any reading, excepting +that which has some reference to your examination. During the vacations, +however, which occupy about half the year, you are more at liberty, and +will do well, as I have already suggested to you, to give a good deal of +your leisure to increasing your acquaintance with the classical writers +of your own language. + +Both at Oxford and home, endeavour, on most days, to catch some little +portion of time,--a quarter of an hour may be sufficient,--for religious +reading. Melmoth's "Great Importance of a Religious Life," and the +abridgment of Law's "Serious Call," adopted by the Society for Promoting +Christian Knowledge, are two of the best books that occur to me, for the +purpose of impressing you with the absolute necessity, of giving +religion the first place in your thoughts and your heart. You may read +either of them through in an hour. Of the former, 42,000 copies were +sold in the eighteen years preceding 1784. I mention this as an evidence +of its popularity. + +Some thirty years ago I was requested by a friend, to recommend some +practical book to put into the hands of a young person. I named Nelson's +"Practice of True Devotion," and have since seen no reason to alter my +opinion. Let that be one of the first books that you make use of. If you +read _one_ chapter each day (and do not read more), it will last you +about three weeks. After an interval of a year or so, go through it +again. + +Take next for this purpose Jeremy Taylor's "Holy Living and Dying," +first reading (if you can borrow the book) what is said of this work by +his highly-gifted and most amiable editor, Bishop Heber. One passage +from Heber's remarks I must allow myself to quote: "But I will not +select, where all may be read with advantage, and can hardly be read +without admiration. To clothe virtue in its most picturesque and +attractive colouring; to enforce with all the terrors of the divine law, +its essential obligations; and to distinguish, in almost every instance +most successfully, between what is prudent and what is necessary; what +may fitly be done, and what cannot safely be left undone;--this is the +triumph of a Christian moralist; and this Jeremy Taylor has, in a great +degree, achieved in his Discourse on Holy Living." You will recollect +that this book was written nearly two hundred years ago, and must not be +surprised if you find a few expressions, and one or two sentiments, +rather obsolete. One of the five rules which Taylor gives in his +Dedication, "for the application of the counsels which follow," applies +to all books of a similar character. "They that will, with profit, make +use of the proper instruments of virtue, must so live as if they were +always under the physician's hand. For the counsels of religion are not +to be applied to the distempers of the soul, as men used to take +hellebore; _but they must dwell together with the spirit of a man, and +be twisted about his understanding for ever: they must be used like +nourishment, that is, by a daily care and meditation_--not like a single +medicine, and upon the actual pressure of a present necessity." + +The genuine spirit of Jeremy Taylor, with more correctness of taste, is +found in that delightful book, "The Christian Year." Read it repeatedly. +It is every where full of poetry, and of the purest devotional feeling. +The more you are imbued with the spirit which pervades that beautiful +volume, the more fit you will be to have your part in "the communion of +saints," among _the spirits of just men made perfect_. + +Archbishop Seeker's Lectures on the Catechism, contain a body of +divinity, doctrinal and practical, singularly judicious and useful. They +are full of good sense and accurate information. The style, perhaps, is +rather involved, and not very engaging; but you see a mind in full +possession of its subject, anxious to put you in full possession of it +also, without omitting any thing of importance. + +Gilpin's Lectures on the Catechism are of a different character. This +also is a very good and a very pleasing book, written with a particular +view to young persons engaged in reading the Greek and Latin Classics. + +Ogden's Sermons, on Prayer, the Creed, and the Ten Commandments, &c. are +the offspring of a clear and powerful intellect, expressed in language +remarkably perspicuous and elegant. + +_After_ these books, take some opportunity of reading the Sermons of +Bishop Butler, including the Preface. This is not a book to be read in a +room full of brothers and sisters. It demands close attention, and will +give some exercise to all your intellectual powers; but it richly merits +to have such attention and pains bestowed upon it. It deserves, indeed +requires, more than a single reading. After Butler's Sermons read his +"Analogy." + +You will do well, at any odd intervals, or _snatches_ of time, to make +yourself familiar with Addison and Johnson. False delicacy shall not +prevent me from recommending the selection from the writings of Addison +which I made a few years ago. My reasons for making such selection are +given in the Preface. The same reasons now induce me to recommend it to +you. + +Johnson requires no pruning. You can hardly read a paper in the Rambler +or Idler, and, I will add, the Adventurer, without deriving from it some +improvement, either moral or intellectual, or both. The structure and +cadence of Johnson's sentences is certainly monotonous; but I seldom +read half a page without being struck by the depth of his thought, the +accuracy and minuteness of his observation, and the astonishing extent +of his multifarious reading. + +In order to enter with more discrimination into the style of our +different authors, read often "Blair's Lectures." They are, I believe, +sometimes spoken slightingly of by men of learning; I, however, as an +unlearned man, think them particularly useful. The Lecture on the Origin +of Language, indeed, the absurdity of which has been exposed with so +much playfulness by Cowper, might well have been omitted. + +I have already advised you, during the two longer vacations, to acquire, +or to keep up, some knowledge of modern history. Russell's "Modern +Europe" is, upon the whole, a useful book. It is, perhaps, too +compendious; and I dislike its being given in the form of letters. +Robertson's "Charles the Fifth" you have probably read already; if not, +read it carefully when, in Russell, you arrive at the period at which it +commences. Pay particular attention to the First Book. Perhaps Robertson +was not sufficiently impressed with the importance and the effects of +the Reformation in Germany; and he formed, I think, an unfair estimate +of the character and motives of Luther. This matter will, I doubt not, +be shortly set right in the Life of Luther about to be given to the +public by one of the ablest and most learned men of the present +day[147:1]. + +With respect to the history of our own country, I hardly know what +advice to give you. Hume's style is very pleasing, but he cannot be +implicitly depended on, especially where religion and the ministers of +religion are concerned. + +Henry's "History of Great Britain" is a very good and accurate book; but +the continuity of the narrative is broken by the multiplicity of +divisions in each period, (learning, arts, commerce, manners, &c. &c.), +and by the transitions to the history of Scotland. + +Lingard I have not read; I am told that his style is good, and his +information extensive. It was natural that, as a zealous Romanist, he +should seek to extenuate the faults of men of his own persuasion, and to +exaggerate the failings, and place in an unfavourable point of view the +motives and actions of the assailants of Popery; but he has, I think, +been fully convicted of carrying misrepresentation beyond all reasonable +bounds. There was but too much of bigotry and persecution on both sides. + +Turner's History is, I believe, strictly honest and impartial, and a +work of prodigious labour and research. + +But in our attention to prose writers, we must not forget the classical +poets of our own country. Make yourself familiarly acquainted with +Shakspeare, Milton, and Pope. The more you read of Young and Cowper, the +better. Young is sometimes turgid, with a good deal of bad taste; but he +abounds in real poetry, and in strong truths most forcibly expressed. +Cowper sometimes carries simplicity to the verge of being prosaic; but +he is generally graceful, often pathetic, and sometimes approaches to +sublimity. Of both, it was the common object to increase the influence +of genuine Christianity; of both, the perusal has a direct tendency to +make you a better and a more religious man. + +Two of our most distinguished living poets--Sir Walter Scott and +Southey--have seen their poetry cast into shade by the popularity of +their own prose. The poems of both will live, and have justice done them +by posterity. "Madoc" was many years ago recommended to me by one of the +most able, and most candid, of our living authors. I read it with much +interest. "The Curse of Kehama" is full of high and wild poetry; and +"Roderick, the last of the Goths" gives a noble picture of deep +penitence and of devoted patriotism. You will hardly read any ten lines +of the longer poems of Sir Walter Scott, without meeting with some +striking beauty of expression or of sentiment. + +I am afraid, however, that the English poets, both those of former times +and those of the present day, have been, in great measure, superseded, +among you young Oxonians, by Lord Byron. In almost every +under-graduate's room that I happen to enter, _he_ seems to have taken +possession. Lord Byron, as a poet, has certainly many transcendant +merits,--merits which are peculiarly fascinating to young men. The +interest which I,--which _every one_,--naturally must feel in the moral +and intellectual habits and pursuits of such an important portion of the +community, makes me deeply lament the noble poet's excessive popularity +among you. I am perfectly aware, that by the following remarks I shall +expose myself to the indignation of some men, and, possibly, to the +contempt of others: but I feel that my opinion on this subject is not +taken up on slight grounds; and I _must say my say_. + +The publication of Lord Byron's life and correspondence has contributed, +a good deal, to divest him of that mystery, which hung about him, and in +which he himself so much delighted; and has brought him down rather +more to the level of ordinary mortals. They show him to us as a man +possessed of splendid talents, of extensive and various attainments, and +of the _seeds_ of many noble and generous qualities; but as a man +actuated by ungovernable passions, and by an overweening opinion of his +own superiority to all other mortals. _Self_, whether intellectual or +sensual, seems to have been the idol that he worshipped. _His own_ +antient family, _his own_ talents, _his own_ attainments, _his own_ +whims, _his own_ passions, _his own_ excesses, seem all to have +furnished food for his vanity, because they were _his own_. + +I acknowledge that, in all the circumstances of his _bringing up_, he +was singularly unfortunate. His early destitution, the character and +habits of his mother, the neglect of his noble relations, the venal +praises of his parasites and dependents, all acted upon his character +with pernicious influence. + + "Untaught in youth his heart to tame, + His springs of life were poison'd." + +He was sensitively alive to all the beauties and the sublimities of +external nature, and had a most penetrating insight into the complicated +feelings, and the various workings of the human heart, with all its +passions and affections; consequently, he abounds in passages of great +beauty, and of singular strength and power. The gratification derived +from the perusal of such passages, however, to a man at least who really +believes himself to be an immortal and a responsible being, is but a +poor compensation for the moral effects of many of his poems, his +_later_ poems more especially[155:1]. They too often appear to breathe a +spirit of engrossing selfishness; a spirit of captious and gloomy +scepticism,--scepticism extending, not only to revelation, but to the +primary truths of what is called natural religion, and even the most +acknowledged bonds of moral obligation. The tendency of his writings is +to make you dissatisfied with almost every thing, and every body in this +world, and at the same time to unfit you for the world to come; indeed, +to make you doubt, whether the idea of a world to come is not altogether +a mere delusion. + +Lord Byron particularly excels in describing female loveliness, and the +effect which such loveliness produces upon the ardent temperament of +youth. In fact, the feeling within themselves so much that responds to +these descriptions, is one great cause of the popularity of Lord Byron +among young people. The sensations to which I allude, however, are of +themselves but too importunate. It is most unwise to excite them,--to +give them additional energy,--by the perusal of the high-wrought and +glowing descriptions of this poet of the passions. + +I had heard much of Don Juan, and felt some curiosity to read it; but I +was aware of the manner in which bold and flippant ribaldry sometimes +takes hold of the mind, even when shocked at it. I knew well, that human +nature has in itself but too much of passion and sensuality, without +needing any additional stimulus. I was unwilling "to soil my mind" when +I could avoid it. For my own sake, I was unwilling to see the most +destructive vices treated as mere matter of jest, and the most awful +truths of religion introduced in connexion with ludicrous images, and +spoken of in the language of mockery. However much our judgment may +disapprove of these things, yet the ludicrous passages and images are +too apt to stick by us, even when we most wish to shake them off. + +A book was advertised, called "The Beauties of Don Juan, including those +passages only which are calculated to extend the real fame of Lord +Byron." The editor acknowledges that the poem itself, from the unpruned +luxuriance of the author's powers, "has remained a sealed +volume"--certainly it _ought_ to be a _sealed volume_--"to the fairest +portion of the community." This _expurgate_ selection, however, though +it contains many passages of great beauty, is a book which I should be +sorry indeed to place in the hands of any young lady; and one against +which I would _forewarn_ every young man, who is not prepared to run the +risk of sacrificing, at the shrine of genius, Christian faith, and +Christian soberness, and Christian purity. + +The description of the shipwreck had been spoken of as particularly +fine. I read it. Not long since several accounts of actual shipwrecks +and disasters at sea were published[159:1]. Some of these accounts, are +among the most interesting and edifying narratives, that I am acquainted +with. They abound in instances of heroic courage, of unshaken endurance, +of a noble disregard of self, of the warmest benevolence, and of the +most exalted piety. Don Juan seems to have taken a wayward pleasure in +culling from these narratives the most distressing and painful facts, +and then mixing them up in doggrel verse, with ludicrous images and +ludicrous rhymes; the main _wit_ often consisting in some unexpected +absurdity of sound or cadence. + +One of the most dreadful consequences of shipwreck is, when a remnant of +the crew, cast off in an open boat, are reduced, by extremity of +hunger, to determine by lot, which of them shall first be made the food +of his companions. Even in such calamity, this perverse and bitter +spirit contrives to find matter for merriment. He laughed in himself +when he wrote the stanzas, and tries to make his readers laugh; though +they must feel indignant with themselves if they give way to the +impulse. + +I conclude my letter with two sayings of Bishop Horne's. "He who +sacrifices religion to wit, like the people mentioned by AElian, worships +a fly, and offers up an ox to it." Again; "Sir Peter Lely made it a +rule, never to look at a bad picture, having found, by experience, +that, whenever he did so, his pencil took a tint from it. Apply this to +bad books and bad company." + +However brilliant the talents of a writer may be, yet, if a book has a +tendency to produce a bad effect upon the moral habits of the mind, that +book is a _bad_ book. + + "When I behold a genius bright and base, + Of tow'ring talents, and terrestrial aims; + Methinks I see, as thrown from her high sphere, + The glorious fragments of a soul immortal, + With rubbish mixt, and glitt'ring in the dust." + + I remain, + My dear Nephew, + Your affectionate Uncle. + + +FOOTNOTES: + +[147:1] Rev. Hugh James Rose. + +[155:1] Childe Harold and the _four_ first tales (I am speaking only of +the larger works) are most free from objection, at the same time that +they are the most beautiful and interesting. + +[159:1] The Loss of the Kent, and Narratives of the Shipwrecks of the +Lady Hobart packet, the Cabalva, &c. &c. + + + + +PRAYERS + + +_A Prayer before Study._ + +(FROM DR. JOHNSON.) + +Almighty God, in whose hands are all the powers of man; who givest +understanding and takest it away; who, as it seemeth good unto thee, +enlightenest the thoughts of the simple, and darkenest the meditations +of the wise, be present with me in my studies and inquiries. + +Grant, O Lord, that I may not lavish away the life which thou hast given +me on useless trifles, nor waste it in vain searches after things which +thou hast hidden from me. + +Enable me, by thy Holy Spirit, so to shun sloth and negligence, that +every day may discharge part of the task which thou hast allotted me; +and so further with thy help that labour which, without thy help, must +be ineffectual, that I may obtain in all my undertakings such success as +will most promote thy glory, and the salvation of my own soul, for the +sake of Jesus Christ. + + +_Prayer after Time unprofitably spent._ + +(FROM DR. JOHNSON.) + +O Lord, in whose hands are life and death; by whose power I am +sustained, and by whose mercy I am spared, look down upon me with pity. +Forgive me, that I have this day neglected the duty which thou hast +assigned to it, and suffered the hours, of which I must give account, to +pass away without any endeavour to accomplish thy will, or to promote my +own salvation. Make me to remember, O God, that every day is thy gift, +and ought to be used according to thy command. Grant me, therefore, so +to repent of my negligence, that I may obtain mercy from thee, and pass +the time which thou shalt yet allow me in diligent performance of thy +commands, through Jesus Christ. _Amen._ + + +_Prayer for Temperance._ + +(FROM BISHOP JEREMY TAYLOR.) + +O Almighty God and gracious Father of men and angels, who openest thy +hand and fillest all things living with plenty; and hast provided for +thy servant sufficient to satisfy all my needs: teach me to use thy +creatures soberly and temperately, that I may not with loads of meat and +drink make the temptations of my enemy to prevail upon me, or my spirit +unapt for the performance of my duty, or my body healthless, or my +affections sensual and unholy. O my God, never suffer that the blessings +which thou givest me may minister either to sin or sickness, but to +health, and holiness, and thanksgiving; that in the strength of thy +provision I may cheerfully, and actively, and diligently serve thee; +that I may worthily feast at thy table here, and be accounted worthy, +through thy grace, to be admitted to thy table hereafter, through Jesus +Christ, our Mediator and Redeemer. _Amen._ + + +_Prayer for the right government of the tongue._ + +O God, watch over me this day for good; and grant that I may so keep +the door of my mouth that I may not speak unadvisedly with my lips. +Preserve me from offending with my tongue either against charity or +purity. Let me not be guilty of foolish and immodest talking and +jesting, of evil-speaking or censoriousness, or of any other of the many +sins of the tongue. 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