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Lee, by (His Son) Captain Robert E. Lee + +This eBook is for the use of anyone anywhere at no cost and with +almost no restrictions whatsoever. You may copy it, give it away or +re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included +with this eBook or online at www.gutenberg.org + + +Title: Recollections and Letters of General Robert E. Lee + +Author: (His Son) Captain Robert E. Lee + +Release Date: September, 2000 [EBook #2323] +Last Updated: November 10, 2016 + +Language: English + +Character set encoding: UTF-8 + +*** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK ROBERT E. LEE *** + + + + +Produced by Brett Fishburne and David Widger + + + + + +</pre> + <div style="height: 8em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h1> + RECOLLECTIONS AND LETTERS + </h1> + <h3> + OF + </h3> + <h1> + GENERAL ROBERT E. LEE + </h1> + <h2> + <br /> by Captain Robert E. Lee, His Son + </h2> + <p> + <br /> <br /> + </p> + <hr /> + <p> + <br /> <br /> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <big><b>CONTENTS</b></big> + </p> + <p> + <br /> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0025"> Chapter I — Services in the United States + Army </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0026"> Chapter II — The Confederate General </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0027"> Chapter III — Letters to Wife and Daughters + </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0028"> Chapter IV — Army Life of Robert the + Younger </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0029"> Chapter V — The Army of Northern Virginia + </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0030"> Chapter VI — The Winter of 1863-4 </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0031"> Chapter VII — Fronting the Army of the + Potomac </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0032"> Chapter VIII — The Surrender </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0033"> Chapter IX — A Private Citizen </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0034"> Chapter X — President of Washington College + </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0035"> Chapter XI — The Idol of the South </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0036"> Chapter XII — Lee’s Opinion upon the Late + War </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0037"> Chapter XIII — Family Affairs </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0038"> Chapter XIV — An Ideal Father </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0039"> Chapter XV — Mountain Rides </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0040"> Chapter XVI — An Advisor of Young Men </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0041"> Chapter XVII — The Reconstruction Period + </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0042"> Chapter XVIII — Mrs. R. E. Lee </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0043"> Chapter XIX — Lee’s Letters to His Sons + </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0044"> Chapter XX — The New Home in Lexington </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0045"> Chapter XXI — Failing Health </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0046"> Chapter XXII — The Southern Trip </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0047"> Chapter XXIII — A Round of Visits </a> + </p> + <p class="toc"> + <a href="#link2HCH0048"> Chapter XXIV — Last Days </a> + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0001" id="link2HCH0001"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> <br /> <br /> + </p> + <hr /> + <p> + <br /> <br /> + </p> + <h2> + DETAILED CONTENTS + </h2> + <h2> + Chapter I Services in the United States Army Captain Lee, of the + </h2> + <p> + Engineers, a hero to his child—The family pets—Home from the + Mexican War—Three years in Baltimore—Superintendent of the + West Point Military Academy—Lieutenant-Colonel of Second Cavalry—Supresses + “John Brown Raid” at Harper’s Ferry—Commands the Department of + Taxes.............. 3 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0002" id="link2HCH0002"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter II The Confederate General Resigns from Colonelcy of First + </h2> + <p> + United States Cavalry—Motives for this step—Chosen to command + Virginia forces—Anxiety about his wife, family, and possessions—Chief + advisor to President Davis—Battle of Manassas—Military + operations in West Virginia—Letter to State + Governor......................... 24 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0003" id="link2HCH0003"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter III Letters to Wife and Daughters From Camp on Sewell’s + </h2> + <p> + Mountain—Quotation from Colonel Taylor’s book—From Professor + Wm. P. Trent—From Mr. Davis’s Memorial Address—Defense of + Southern ports—Christmas, 1861—The General visits his father’s + grave—Commands, under the President, all the armies of the + Confederate States ................. 48 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0004" id="link2HCH0004"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter IV Army Life of Robert the Younger Volunteer in Rockbridge + </h2> + <p> + Artillery—“Four Years with General Lee” quoted—Meeting between + father and son—Personal characteristics of the General—Death + of his daughter Annie—His son Robert raised from the ranks—the + horses, “Grace Darling” and “Traveller”—Fredricksburg—Freeing + slaves .................. 69 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0005" id="link2HCH0005"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter V The Army of Northern Virginia The General’s sympathy for + </h2> + <p> + his suffering soldiers—Chancellorsville—Death of “Stonewall” + Jackson—General Fitzhugh Lee wounded and captured—Escape of + his brother Robert—Gettysburg—Religious revival—Infantry + review—Unsatisfactory commissariat........................... 91 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0006" id="link2HCH0006"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter VI The Winter of 1863-4 The Lee family in Richmond—The + </h2> + <p> + General’s letters to them from Camps Rappahannock and Rapidan—Death + of Mrs. Fitzhugh Lee—Preparations to meet General Grant—The + Wilderness—Spottsylvania Court House—Death of General Stuart—General + Lee’s illness ... 112 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0007" id="link2HCH0007"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter VII Fronting the Army of the Potomac Battle of Cold + </h2> + <p> + Harbour—Siege of Petersburg—The General intrusts a mission to + his son Robert—Battle of the Crater—Grant crosses the James + River—General Long’s pen-picture of Lee—Knitting socks for the + soldiers—A Christmas dinner—Incidents of camp life... 128 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0008" id="link2HCH0008"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter VIII The Surrender Fort Fisher captured—Lee made + </h2> + <p> + Commander-in-Chief—Battle of Five Forks—The General’s farewell + to his men—His reception in Richmond after the surrender—President + Davis hears the news—Lee’s visitors—His son Robert turns + farmer ........... 144 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0009" id="link2HCH0009"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter IX A Private Citizen Lee’s conception of the part—His + influence + </h2> + <p> + exerted toward the restoration of Virginia—He visits old friends + throughout the country—Receives offers of positions—Compares + notes with the Union General Hunter—Longs for a country home—Finds + one at “Derwent,” near Cartersville................... 162 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0010" id="link2HCH0010"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter X President of Washington College Patriotic motives for + </h2> + <p> + acceptance of trust—Condition of college—The General’s arrival + at Lexington—He prepares for the removal of his family to that city—Advice + to Robert Junior—Trip to “Bremo” on private canal-boat—Mrs. + Lee’s invalidism........... 179 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0011" id="link2HCH0011"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XI The Idol of the South Photographs and autographs in + </h2> + <p> + demand—The General’s interest in young people—His happy home + life—Labours at Washington College—He gains financial aid for + it—Worsley’s translation of Homer dedicated to him—Tributes + from other English scholars...... 198 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0012" id="link2HCH0012"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XII Lee’s Opinion upon the Late War His intention to write + </h2> + <p> + the history of his Virginia campaigns—Called before a committee of + Congress—Preaches patience and silence in the South—Shuns + controversy and publicity—Corresponds with an Englishman, Herbert C. + Saunders ............. 218 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0013" id="link2HCH0013"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XIII Family Affairs The General writes to his sons—To his + wife + </h2> + <p> + at Rockbridge Baths—He joins her there about once a week—Distinguished + and undistinguished callers at his Lexington home—He advocates early + hours—His fondness for animals ................. 235 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0014" id="link2HCH0014"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XIV An Ideal Father Letters to Mildred Lee—To Robert—To + </h2> + <p> + Fitzhugh—Interviewed by Swinton, historian of the Army of the + Potomac—Improvement in grounds and buildings of Washington College—Punctuality + a prominent trait of its President—A strong supporter of the + Y.M.C.A.............................. 252 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0015" id="link2HCH0015"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XV Mountain Rides An incident about “Traveller”—The + General’s + </h2> + <p> + love for children—His friendship with Ex-President Davis—A + ride with his daughter to the Peaks of Otter—Mildred Lee’s narrative—Mrs. + Lee at the White Sulphur Springs—The great attention paid her + husband there—His idea of life ..................... 264 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0016" id="link2HCH0016"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XVI An Advisor of Young Men Lee’s policy as college + </h2> + <p> + president—His advice on agricultural matters—His affection for + his prospective daughter-in-law—Fitzhugh’s wedding—The + General’s ovation at Petersburg—his personal interest in the + students under his care......... 280 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0017" id="link2HCH0017"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XVII The Reconstruction Period The General believes in + </h2> + <p> + the enforcement of law and order—His moral influence in the college—Playful + humour shown in his letters—His opinion of negro labour—Mr. + Davis’s trial—Letter to Mrs. Fitzhugh Lee—Intercourse with + Faculty ........... 299 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0018" id="link2HCH0018"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XVIII Mrs. R. E. Lee Goes to Warm Springs for rheumatism—Her + </h2> + <p> + daughter Mildred takes typhoid there—Removes to Hot Springs—Her + husband’s devotion—Visit of Fitzhugh and bride to Lexington—Miss + Jones, a would-be benefactor of Washington College—Fate of + Washington relics belonging to Mrs. Lee’s family.................. 318 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0019" id="link2HCH0019"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XIX Lee’s Letters to His Sons The building of Robert’s + </h2> + <p> + house—The General as a railroad delegate—Lionised in Baltimore—Calls + on President Grant—Visits Alexandria—Declines to be + interviewed—Interested in his grandson—The Washington + portraits................ 339 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0020" id="link2HCH0020"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XX The New Home in Lexington Numerous guests—Further + sojourns + </h2> + <p> + at different Baths—Death of the General’s brother, Smith Lee—Visits + to “Ravensworth” and “The White House”—Meetings with interesting + people at White Sulphur Springs—Death of Professor Preston + ............... 357 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0021" id="link2HCH0021"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XXI Failing Health The General declines lucrative positions + </h2> + <p> + in New York and Atlanta—He suffers from an obstinate cold—Local + gossip—He is advised to go South in the spring of 1870—Desires + to visit his daughter Annie’s grave .......................... 376 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0022" id="link2HCH0022"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XXII The Southern Trip Letters to Mrs. Lee from Richmond and + </h2> + <p> + Savannah—From Brandon—Agnes Lee’s account of her father’s + greetings from old friends and old soldiers—Wilmington and Norfolk + do him honour—Visits to Fitzhugh and Robert in their + homes................ 388 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0023" id="link2HCH0023"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XXIII A Round of Visits Baltimore—Alexandria—A + war-talk with + </h2> + <p> + Cousin Cassius Lee—“Ravensworth”—Letter to Doctor Buckler + declining invitation to Europe—To General Cooper—To Mrs. Lee + from the Hot Springs—Tired of public places—Preference for + country life .......... 412 + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0024" id="link2HCH0024"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XXIV Last Days Letter to his wife—To Mr. Tagart—Obituary + </h2> + <p> + notice in “Personal Reminiscences of General Robert E. Lee”—Mrs. + Lee’s account of his death .............................. 431 + </p> + <p> + <br /> <br /> + </p> + <hr /> + <p> + <br /> <br /> <a name="link2HCH0025" id="link2HCH0025"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter I — Services in the United States Army + </h2> + <p> + Captain Lee, of the Engineers, a hero to his child—The family pets—Home + from the Mexican War—Three years in Baltimore—Superintendent + of the West Point Military Academy—Lieutenant-Colonel of Second + Cavalry—Supresses “John Brown Raid” at Harper’s Ferry—Commands + the Department of Taxes + </p> + <p> + The first vivid recollection I have of my father is his arrival at + Arlington, after his return from the Mexican War. I can remember some + events of which he seemed a part, when we lived at Fort Hamilton, New + York, about 1846, but they are more like dreams, very indistinct and + disconnected—naturally so, for I was at that time about three years + old. But the day of his return to Arlington, after an absence of more than + two years, I have always remembered. I had a frock or blouse of some light + wash material, probably cotton, a blue ground dotted over with white + diamond figures. Of this I was very proud, and wanted to wear it on this + important occasion. Eliza, my “mammy,” objecting, we had a contest and I + won. Clothed in this, my very best, and with my hair freshly curled in + long golden ringlets, I went down into the larger hall where the whole + household was assembled, eagerly greeting my father, who had just arrived + on horseback from Washington, having missed in some way the carriage which + had been sent for him. + </p> + <p> + There was visiting us at this time Mrs. Lippitt, a friend of my mother’s, + with her little boy, Armistead, about my age and size, also with long + curls. Whether he wore as handsome a suit as mine I cannot remember, but + he and I were left together in the background, feeling rather frightened + and awed. After a moment’s greeting to those surrounding him, my father + pushed through the crowd, exclaiming: + </p> + <p> + “Where is my little boy?” + </p> + <p> + He then took up in his arms and kissed—not me, his own child in his + best frock with clean face and well-arranged curls—but my little + playmate, Armistead! I remember nothing more of any circumstances + connected with that time, save that I was shocked and humiliated. I have + no doubt that he was at once informed of his mistake and made ample amends + to me. + </p> + <p> + A letter from my father to his brother Captain S. S. Lee, United States + Nave, dated “Arlington, June 30, 1848,” tells of his coming home: + </p> + <p> + “Here I am once again, my dear Smith, perfectly surrounded by Mary and her + precious children, who seem to devote themselves to staring at the furrows + in my face and the white hairs in my head. It is not surprising that I am + hardly recognisable to some of the young eyes around me and perfectly + unknown to the youngest. But some of the older ones gaze with astonishment + and wonder at me, and seem at a loss to reconcile what they see and what + was pictured in their imaginations. I find them, too, much grown, and all + well, and I have much cause for thankfulness, and gratitude to that good + God who has once more united us.” + </p> + <p> + My next recollection of my father is in Baltimore, while we were on a + visit to his sister, Mrs. Marshall, the wife of Judge Marshall. I remember + being down on the wharves, where my father had taken me to see the landing + of a mustang pony which he had gotten for me in Mexico, and which had been + shipped from Vera Cruz to Baltimore in a sailing vessel. I was all eyes + for the pony, and a very miserable, sad-looking object he was. From his + long voyage, cramped quarters and unavoidable lack of grooming, he was + rather a disappointment to me, but I soon got over all that. As I grew + older, and was able to ride and appreciate him, he became the joy and + pride of my life. I was taught to ride on him by Jim Connally, the + faithful Irish servant of my father, who had been with him in Mexico. Jim + used to tell me, in his quizzical way, that he and “Santa Anna” (the + pony’s name) were the first men on the walls of Chepultepec. This pony was + pure white, five years old and about fourteen hands high. For his inches, + he was as good a horse as I ever have seen. While we lived in Baltimore, + he and “Grace Darling,” my father’s favourite mare, were members of our + family. + </p> + <p> + Grace Darling was a chestnut of fine size and of great power, which he had + bought in Texas on his way out to Mexico, her owner having died on the + march out. She was with him during the entire campaign, and was shot seven + times; at least, as a little fellow I used to brag about that number of + bullets being in her, and since I could point out the scars of each one, I + presume it was so. My father was very much attached to her and proud of + her, always petting her and talking to her in a loving way, when he rode + her or went to see her in her stall. Of her he wrote on his return home: + </p> + <p> + “I only arrived yesterday, after a long journey up the Mississippi, which + route I was induced to take, for the better accommodation of my horse, as + I wished to spare her as much annoyance and fatigue as possible, she + already having undergone so much suffering in my service. I landed her at + Wheeling and left her to come over with Jim.” + </p> + <p> + Santa Anna was found lying cold and dead in the park at Arlington one + morning in the winter of ‘60-’61. Grace Darling was taken in the spring of + ‘62 from the White House [My brother’s place on the Pamunkey River, where + the mare had been sent for save keeping.”] by some Federal quartermaster, + when McClellan occupied that place as his base of supplies during his + attack on Richmond. When we lived in Baltimore, I was greatly struck one + day by hearing two ladies who were visiting us saying: + </p> + <p> + “Everybody and everything—his family, his friends, his horse, and + his dog—loves Colonel Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The dog referred to was a black-and-tan terrier named “Spec,” very bright + and intelligent and really a member of the family, respected and beloved + by ourselves and well known to all who knew us. My father picked up his + mother in the “Narrows” while crossing from Fort Hamilton to the + fortifications opposite on Staten Island. She had doubtless fallen + overboard from some passing vessel and had drifted out of sight before her + absence had been discovered. He rescued her and took her home, where she + was welcomed by his children an made much of. She was a handsome little + thing, with cropped ears and a short tail. My father named her “Dart.” She + was a fine ratter, and with the assistance of a Maltese cat, also a member + of the family, the many rats which infested the house and stables were + driven away or destroyed. She and the cat were fed out of the same plate, + but Dart was not allowed to begin the meal until the cat had finished. + </p> + <p> + Spec was born at Fort Hamilton and was the joy of us children, our pet and + companion. My father would not allow his tail and ears to be cropped. When + he grew up, he accompanied us everywhere and was in the habit of going + into church with the family. As some of the little ones allowed their + devotions to be disturbed by Spec’s presence, my father determined to + leave him at home on those occasions. So the next Sunday morning, he was + sent up to the front room of the second story. After the family had left + for church he contented himself for awhile looking out of the window, + which was open, it being summer time. Presently impatience overcame his + judgement and he jumped to the ground, landed safely notwithstanding the + distance, joined the family just as they reached the church, and went in + with them as usual, much to the joy of the children. After that he was + allowed to go to church whenever he wished. My father was very fond of + him, and loved to talk to him and about him as if he were really one of + us. In a letter to my mother, dated Fort Hamilton, January 18, 1846, when + she and her children were on a visit to Arlington, he thus speaks of him: + </p> + <p> + “...I am very solitary, and my only company is my dogs and cats. But + ‘Spec’ has become so jealous now that he will hardly let me look at the + cats. He seems to be afraid that I am going off from him, and never lets + me stir without him. Lies down in the office from eight to four without + moving, and turns himself before the fire as the side from it becomes + cold. I catch him sometimes sitting up looking at me so intently that I am + for a moment startled...” + </p> + <p> + In a letter from Mexico written a year later—December 25, ‘46, to my + mother, he says: + </p> + <p> + “...Can’t you cure poor ‘Spec.’ Cheer him up—take him to walk with + you and tell the children to cheer him up...” + </p> + <p> + In another letter from Mexico to his eldest boy, just after the capture of + Vera Cruz, he sends this message to Spec.... + </p> + <p> + “Tell him I wish he was here with me. He would have been of great service + in telling me when I was coming upon the Mexicans. When I was + reconnoitering around Vera Cruz, their dogs frequently told me by barking + when I was approaching them too nearly....” + </p> + <p> + When he returned to Arlington from Mexico, Spec was the first to recognise + him, and the extravagance of his demonstrations of delight left no doubt + that he knew at once his kind master and loving friend, though he had been + absent three years. Sometime during our residence in Baltimore, Spec + disappeared, and we never knew his fate. + </p> + <p> + From that early time I began to be impressed with my father’s character, + as compared with other men. Every member of the household respected, + revered and loved him as a matter of course, but it began to dawn on me + that every one else with whom I was thrown held him high in their regard. + At forty-five years of age he was active, strong, and as handsome as he + had ever been. I never remember his being ill. I presume he was indisposed + at times; but no impressions of that kind remain. He was always bright and + gay with us little folk, romping, playing, and joking with us. With the + older children, he was just as companionable, and the have seen him join + my elder brothers and their friends when they would try their powers at a + high jump put up in our yard. The two younger children he petted a great + deal, and our greatest treat was to get into his bed in the morning and + lie close to him, listening while he talked to us in his bright, + entertaining way. This custom we kept up until I was ten years old and + over. Although he was so joyous and familiar with us, he was very firm on + all proper occasions, never indulged us in anything that was not good for + us, and exacted the most implicit obedience. I always knew that it was + impossible to disobey my father. I felt it in me, I never thought why, but + was perfectly sure when he gave an order that it had to be obeyed. My + mother I could sometimes circumvent, and at times took liberties with her + orders, construing them to suit myself; but exact obedience to every + mandate of my father was part of my life and being at that time. He was + very fond of having his hands tickled, and, what was still more curious, + it pleased and delighted him to take off his slippers and place his feet + in our laps in order to have them tickled. Often, as little things, after + romping all day, the enforced sitting would be too much for us, and our + drowsiness would soon show itself in continued nods. Then, to arouse, us, + he had a way of stirring us up with his foot—laughing heartily at + and with us. He would often tell us the most delightful stories, and then + there was no nodding. Sometimes, however, our interest in his wonderful + tales became so engrossing that we would forget to do our duty—when + he would declare, “No tickling, no story!” When we were a little older, + our elder sister told us one winter the ever-delightful “Lady of the + Lake.” Of course, she told it in prose and arranged it to suit our mental + capacity. Our father was generally in his corner by the fire, most + probably with a foot in either the lap of myself or youngest sister—the + tickling going on briskly—and would come in at different points of + the tale and repeat line after line of the poem—much to our + disapproval—but to his great enjoyment. + </p> + <p> + In January, 1849, Captain Lee was one of a board of army officers + appointed to examine the coasts of Florida and its defenses and to + recommend locations for new fortifications. In April he was assigned to + the duty of the construction of Fort Carroll, in the Patapsco River below + Baltimore. He was there, I think, for three years, and lived in a house on + Madison Street, three doors above Biddle. I used to go down with him to + the Fort quite often. We went to the wharf in a “bus,” and there we were + met by a boat with two oarsmen, who rowed us down to Sollers Point, where + I was generally left under the care of the people who lived there, while + my father went over to the Fort, a short distance out in the river. These + days were happy ones for me. The wharves, the shipping, the river, the + boat and oarsmen, and the country dinner we had at the house at Sollers + Point, all made a strong impression on me; but above all I remember my + father, his gentle, loving care of me, his bright talk, his stories, his + maxims and teachings. I was very proud of him and of the evident respect + for and trust in him every one showed. These impressions, obtained at that + time, have never left me. He was a great favourite in Baltimore, as he was + everywhere, especially with ladies and little children. When he and my + mother went out in the evening to some entertainment, we were often + allowed to sit up and see them off; my father, as I remember, always in + full uniform, always ready and waiting for my mother, who was generally + late. He would chide her gently, in a playful way and with a bright smile. + He would then bid us good-bye, and I would go to sleep with this beautiful + picture in my mind, the golden epaulets and all—chiefly the + epaulets. + </p> + <p> + In Baltimore, I went to my first school, that of a Mr. Rollins on Mulberry + Street, and I remember how interested my father was in my studies, my + failures, and my little triumphs. Indeed, he was so always, as long as I + was at school and college, and I only wish that all of the kind, sensible, + useful letters he wrote me had been preserved. + </p> + <p> + My memory as to the move from Baltimore, which occurred in 1852, is very + dim. I think the family went to Arlington to remain until my father had + arranged for our removal to the new home at West Point. + </p> + <p> + My recollection of my father as Superintendent of the West Point Military + Academy is much more distinct. He lived in the house which is still + occupied by the Superintendent. It was built of stone, large and roomy, + with gardens, stables, and pasture lots. We, the two youngest children, + enjoyed it all. “Grace Darling” and “Santa Anna” were there with us, and + many a fine ride did I have with my father in the afternoons, when, + released from his office, he would mount his old mare and, with Santa Anna + carrying me by his side, take a five or ten-mile trot. Though the pony + cantered delightfully, he would make me keep him in a trot, saying + playfully that the hammering sustained was good for me. We rode the + dragoon-seat, no posting, and until I became accustomed to it I used to be + very tired by the time I got back. + </p> + <p> + My father was the most punctual man I ever knew. He was always ready for + family prayers, for meals, and met every engagement, social or business, + at the moment. He expected all of us to be the same, and taught us the use + and necessity of forming such habits for the convenience of all concerned. + I never knew him late for Sunday service at the Post Chapel. He used to + appear some minutes before the rest of us, in uniform, jokingly rallying + my mother for being late, and for forgetting something at the last moment. + When he could wait no longer for her, he would say that he was off and + would march along to church by himself, or with any of the children who + were ready. There he sat very straight—well up the middle aisle—and, + as I remember, always became very sleepy, and sometimes even took a little + nap during the sermon. At that time, this drowsiness of my father’s was + something awful to me, inexplicable. I know it was very hard for me to + keep awake, and frequently I did not; but why he, who to my mind could do + everything right, without any effort, should sometimes be overcome, I + could not understand, and did not try to do so. + </p> + <p> + It was against the rules that the cadets should go beyond certain limits + without permission. Of course they did go sometimes, and when caught were + given quite a number of “demerits.” My father was riding out one afternoon + with me, and, while rounding a turn in the mountain road with a deep woody + ravine on one side, we came suddenly upon three cadets far beyond the + limits. They immediately leaped over a low wall on the side of the road + and disappeared from our view. + </p> + <p> + We rode on for a minute in silence; then my father said: “Did you know + those young men? But no; if you did, don’t say so. I wish boys would do + what was right, it would be so much easier for all parties!” + </p> + <p> + He knew he would have to report them, but, not being sure of who they + were, I presume he wished to give them the benefit of the doubt. At any + rate, I never heard any more about it. One of the three asked me the next + day if my father had recognised them, and I told him what had occurred. + </p> + <p> + By this time I had become old enough to have a room to myself, and, to + encourage me in being useful and practical, my father made me attend to + it, just as the cadets had to do with their quarters in barracks and in + camp. He at first even went through the form of inspecting it, to see if I + had performed my duty properly, and I think I enjoyed this until the + novelty wore off. However, I was kept at it, becoming in time very + proficient, and the knowledge so acquired has been of great use to me all + through life. + </p> + <p> + My father always encouraged me in every healthy outdoor exercise and + sport. He taught me to ride, constantly giving me minute instructions, + with the reasons for them. He gave me my first sled, and sometimes used to + come out where we boys were coasting to look on. He gave me my first pair + of skates, and placed me in the care of a trustworthy person, inquiring + regularly how I progressed. It was the same with swimming, which he was + very anxious I should learn in a proper manner. Professor Bailey had a son + about my age, now himself a professor at Brown University, Providence, + Rhode Island, who became my great chum. I took my first lesson in the + water with him, under the direction and supervision of his father. My + father inquired constantly how I was getting along, and made me describe + exactly my method and stroke, explaining to me what he considered the best + way to swim, and the reasons therefor. + </p> + <p> + I went to day-school at West Point, and had always a sympathetic helper in + my father; often he would come into the room where I studied at night, + and, sitting down by me, would show me how to overcome a hard sentence in + my Latin reader or a difficult sum in arithmetic, not by giving me the + translation of the troublesome sentence or the answer to the sum, but by + showing me, step by step, the way to the right solutions. He was very + patient, very loving, very good to me, and I remember trying my best to + please him in my studies. When I was able to bring home a good report from + my teacher, he was greatly pleased, and showed it in his eye and voice, + but he always insisted that I should get the “maximum,” that he would + never be perfectly satisfied with less. That I did sometimes win it, + deservedly, I know was due to his judicious and wise method of exciting my + ambition and perseverance. I have endeavoured to show how fond my father + was of his children, and as the best picture I can offer of his loving, + tender devotion to us all, I give here a letter from him written about + this time to one of his daughters who was staying with our grandmother, + Mrs. Custis, at Arlington: + </p> + <p> + “West Point, February 25, 1853 + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Annie: I take advantage of your gracious permission to write + to you, and there is no telling how far my feelings might carry men were I + not limited by the conveyance furnished by the Mim’s [His pet name for my + mother] letter, which lies before me, and which must, the Mim says so, go + in this morning’s mail. But my limited time does not diminish my affection + for you, Annie, nor prevent my thinking of you and wishing for you. I long + to see you through the dilatory nights. At dawn when I rise, and all day, + my thoughts revert to you in expressions that you cannot hear or I repeat. + I hope you will always appear to me as you are now painted on my heart, + and that you will endeavor to improve and so conduct yourself as to make + you happy and me joyful all our lives. Diligent and earnest attention to + ALL your duties can only accomplish this. I am told you are growing very + tall, and I hope very straight. I do not know what the Cadets will say if + the Superintendent’s CHILDREN do not practice what he demands of them. + They will naturally say he had better attend to his own before he corrects + other people’s children, and as he permits his to stoop it is hard he will + not allow them. You and Agnes [His third daughter] must not, therefore, + bring me into discredit with my young friends, or give them reason to + think that I require more of them than of my own. I presume your mother + has told all about us, our neighbors, and our affairs. And indeed she may + have done that and not said much either, so far as I know. But we are all + well and have much to be grateful for. To-morrow we anticipate the + pleasure of your brother’s [His son, Custis] company, which is always a + source of pleasure to us. It is the only time we see him, except when the + Corps come under my view at some of their exercises, when my eye is sure + to distinguish him among his comrades and follow him over the plain. Give + much love to your dear grandmother, grandfather, Agnes, Miss Sue, + Lucretia, and all friends, including the servants. Write sometimes, and + think always of your Affectionate father, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In a letter to my mother written many years previous to this time, he + says: + </p> + <p> + “I pray God to watch over and direct our efforts in guarding our dear + little son....Oh, what pleasure I lose in being separated from my + children! Nothing can compensate me for that....” + </p> + <p> + In another letter of about the same time: + </p> + <p> + “You do not know how much I have missed you and the children, my dear + Mary. To be alone in a crowd is very solitary. In the woods, I feel + sympathy with the trees and birds, in whose company I take delight, but + experience no pleasure in a strange crowd. I hope you are all well and + will continue so, and, therefore, must again urge you to be very prudent + and careful of those dear children. If I could only get a squeeze at that + little fellow, turning up his sweet mouth to ‘keese baba!’ You must not + let him run wild in my absence, and will have to exercise firm authority + over all of them. This will not require severity or even strictness, but + constant attention and an unwavering course. Mildness and forbearance will + strengthen their affection for you, while it will maintain your control + over them.” + </p> + <p> + In a letter to one of his sons he writes as follows: + </p> + <p> + “I cannot go to bed, my dear son, without writing you a few lines, to + thank you for your letter, which gave me great pleasure....You and Custis + must take great care of your kind mother and dear sisters when your father + is dead. To do that you must learn to be good. Be true, kind and generous, + and pray earnestly to God to enable you to keep His Commandments ‘and walk + in the same all the days of your life.’ I hope to come on soon to see that + little baby you have got to show me. You must give her a kiss for me, and + one to all the children, to your mother, and grandmother” + </p> + <p> + The expression of such sentiments as these was common to my father all + through his life, and to show that it was all children, and not his own + little folk alone that charmed and fascinated him, I quote from a letter + to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “...I saw a number of little girls all dressed up in their white frocks + and pantalets, their hair plaited and tied up with ribbons, running and + chasing each other in all directions. I counted twenty-three nearly the + same size. As I drew up my horse to admire the spectacle, a man appeared + at the door with the twenty-fourth in his arms. + </p> + <p> + “‘My friend,’ said I, ‘are all these your children?’ + </p> + <p> + “‘Yes,’ he said, ‘and there are nine more in the house, and this is the + youngest.’ + </p> + <p> + “Upon further inquiry, however, I found that they were only temporarily + his, and that they were invited to a party at his house. He said, however, + he had been admiring them before I came up, and just wished that he had a + million of dollars, and that they were all his in reality. I do not think + the eldest exceeded seven or eight years old. It was the prettiest sight I + have seen in the west, and, perhaps, in my life....” + </p> + <p> + As Superintendent of the Military Academy at West Point my father had to + entertain a good deal, and I remember well how handsome and grand he + looked in uniform, how genial and bright, how considerate of everybody’s + comfort of mind and body. He was always a great favourite with the ladies, + especially the young ones. His fine presence, his gentle, courteous + manners and kindly smile put them at once at ease with him. + </p> + <p> + Among the cadets at this time were my eldest brother, Custis, who + graduated first in his class in 1854, and my father’s nephew, Fitz. Lee, a + third classman, besides other relatives and friends. Saturday being a + half-holiday for the cadets, it was the custom for all social events in + which they were to take part to be placed on that afternoon or evening. + Nearly every Saturday a number of these young men were invited to our + house to tea, or supper, for it was a good, substantial meal. The misery + of some of these lads, owing to embarrassment, possibly from awe of the + Superintendent, was pitiable and evident even to me, a boy of ten or + eleven years old. But as soon as my father got command, as it were, of the + situation, one could see how quickly most of them were put at their ease. + He would address himself to the task of making them feel comfortable and + at home, and his genial manner and pleasant ways at once succeeded. + </p> + <p> + In the spring of ‘53 my grandmother, Mrs. Custis, died. This was the first + death in our immediate family. She was very dear to us, and was admired, + esteemed and loved by all who had ever known her. Bishop Meade, of + Virginia, writes of her: + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. Mary Custis, of Arlington, the wife of Mr. Washington Custis, + grandson of Mrs. General Washington was the daughter of Mr. William + Fitzhugh, of Chatham. Scarcely is there a Christian lady in our land more + honoured than she was, and none more loved and esteemed. For good sense, + prudence, sincerity, benevolence, unaffected piety, disinterested zeal in + every good work, deep humanity and retiring modesty—for all the + virtues which adorn the wife, the mother, and the friend—I never + knew her superior.” + </p> + <p> + In a letter written to my mother soon after this sad event my father says: + </p> + <p> + “May God give you strength to enable you to bear and say, ‘His will be + done.’ She has gone from all trouble, care and sorrow to a holy + immortality, there to rejoice and praise forever the God and Saviour she + so long and truly served. Let that be our comfort and that our + consolation. May our death be like hers, and may we meet in happiness in + Heaven.” + </p> + <p> + In another letter about the same time he writes: + </p> + <p> + “She was to me all that a mother could be, and I yield to none in + admiration for her character, love for her virtues, and veneration for her + memory.” + </p> + <p> + At this time, my father’s family and friends persuaded him to allow R. S. + Weir, Professor of Painting and Drawing at the Academy, to paint his + portrait. As far as I remember, there was only one sitting, and the artist + had to finish it from memory or from the glimpses he obtained as his + subject in the regular course of their daily lives at “The Point.” This + picture shows my father in the undress uniform of a Colonel of Engineers + [His appointment of Superintendent of the Military Academy carried with it + the temporary rank of Colonel of Engineers], and many think it a very good + likeness. To me, the expression of strength peculiar to his face is + wanting, and the mouth fails to portray that sweetness of disposition so + characteristic of his countenance. Still, it was like him at that time. My + father never could bear to have his picture taken, and there are no + likenesses of him that really give his sweet expression. Sitting for a + picture was such a serious business with him that he never could “look + pleasant.” + </p> + <p> + In 1855 my father was appointed to the lieutenant-colonelcy of the Second + Cavalry, one of the two regiments just raised. He left West Point to enter + upon his new duties, and his family went to Arlington to live. During the + fall and winter of 1855 and ‘56, the Second Cavalry was recruited and + organised at Jefferson Barracks, Missouri, under the direction of Colonel + Lee, and in the following spring was marched to western Texas, where it + was assigned the duty of protecting the settlers in that wild country. + </p> + <p> + I did not see my father again until he came to my mother at Arlington + after the death of her father, G. W. P. Custis, in October 1857. He took + charge of my mother’s estate after her father’s death, and commenced at + once to put it in order—not an easy task, as it consisted of several + plantations and many negroes. I was at a boarding-school, after the family + returned to Arlington, and saw my father only during the holidays, if he + happened to be at home. He was always fond of farming, and took great + interest in the improvements he immediately began at Arlington relating to + the cultivation of the farm, to the buildings, roads, fences, fields, and + stock, so that in a very short time the appearance of everything on the + estate was improved. He often said that he longed for the time when he + could have a farm of his own, where he could end his days in quiet and + peace, interested in the care and improvement of his own land. This idea + was always with him. In a letter to his son, written in July, ‘65, + referring to some proposed indictments of prominent Confederates, he says: + </p> + <p> + “...As soon as I can ascertain their intention toward me, if not + prevented, I shall endeavour to procure some humble, but quiet abode for + your mother and sisters, where I hope they can be happy. As I before said, + I want to get in some grass country where the natural product of the land + will do much for my subsistence....” + </p> + <p> + Again in a letter to his son, dated October, 1865, after he had accepted + the presidency of Washington College, Lexington, Virginia: + </p> + <p> + “I should have selected a more quiet life and a more retired abode than + Lexington. I should have preferred a small farm, where I could have earned + my daily bread.” + </p> + <p> + About this time I was given a gun of my own and was allowed to go shooting + by myself. My father, to give me an incentive, offered a reward for every + crow-scalp I could bring him, and, in order that I might get to work at + once, advanced a small sum with which to buy powder and shot, this sum to + be returned to him out of the first scalps obtained. My industry and zeal + were great, my hopes high, and by good luck I did succeed in bagging two + crows about the second time I went out. I showed them with great pride to + my father, intimating that I should shortly be able to return him his + loan, and that he must be prepared to hand over to me very soon further + rewards for my skill. His eyes twinkled, and his smile showed that he had + strong doubts of my making an income by killing crows, and he was right, + for I never killed another, though I tried hard and long. + </p> + <p> + I saw but little of my father after we left West Point. He went to Texas, + as I have stated, in ‘55 and remained until the fall of ‘57, the time of + my grandfather’s death. He was then at Arlington about a year. Returning + to his regiment, he remained in Texas until the autumn of ‘59, when he + came again to Arlington, having applied for leave in order to finish the + settling of my grandfather’s estate. During this visit he was selected by + the Secretary of War to suppress the famous “John Brown Raid,” and was + sent to Harper’s Ferry in command of the United States troops. + </p> + <p> + From his memorandum book the following entries were taken: + </p> + <p> + “October 17, 1859. Received orders from the Secretary of War in person, to + repair in evening train to Harper’s Ferry. + </p> + <p> + “Reached Harper’s Ferry at 11 P.M.... Posted marines in the United States + Armory. Waited until daylight, as a number of citizens were held as + hostages, whose lives were threatened. Tuesday about sunrise, with twelve + marines, under Lieutenant Green, broke in the door of the engine-house, + secured the insurgents, and relieved the prisoners unhurt. All the + insurgents killed or mortally wounded, but four, John Brown, Stevens, + Coppie, and Shields.” + </p> + <p> + Brown was tried and convicted and sentenced to be hanged on December 2, + 1859. Colonel Lee writes as follows to his wife: + </p> + <p> + “Harper’s Ferry, December 1, 1859. + </p> + <p> + “I arrived here, dearest Mary, yesterday about noon, with four companies + from Fort Monroe, and was busy all the evening and night getting + accommodation for the men, etc., and posting sentinels and piquets to + insure timely notice of the approach of the enemy. The night has passed + off quietly. The feelings of the community seem to be calmed down, and I + have been received with every kindness. Mr. Fry is among the officers from + Old Point. There are several young men, former acquaintances of ours, as + cadets, Mr. Bingham of Custis’s class, Sam Cooper, etc., but the senior + officers I never met before, except Captain Howe, the friend of our Cousin + Harriet R——. + </p> + <p> + “I presume we are fixed her till after the 16th. To-morrow will probably + be the last of Captain Brown. There will be less interest for the others, + but still I think the troops will not be withdrawn till they are similarly + disposed of. + </p> + <p> + “Custis will have informed you that I had to go to Baltimore the evening I + left you, to make arrangements for the transportation of the troops.... + This morning I was introduced to Mrs. Brown, who, with a Mrs. Tyndall and + a Mr. And Mrs. McKim, all from Philadelphia, had come on to have a last + interview with her husband. As it is a matter over which I have no control + I referred them to General Taliaferro [General William B. Taliaferro, + commanding Virginia troops at Harper’s Ferry]. + </p> + <p> + “You must write to me at this place. I hope you are all well. Give love to + everybody. Tell Smith [Sydney Smith Lee, of the United States Navy, his + brother] that no charming women have insisted on taking care of me as they + are always doing of him—I am left to my own resources. I will write + you again soon, and will always be truly and affectionately yours, + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. M. C. Lee. R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In February, 1860, he was ordered to take command of the Department of + Texas. There he remained a year. The first months after his arrival were + spent in the vain pursuit of the famous brigand, Cortinez, who was + continually stealing across the Rio Grande, burning the homes, driving off + the stock of the ranchmen, and then retreating into Mexico. The summer + months he spent in San Antonio, and while there interested himself with + the good people of that town in building an Episcopal church, to which he + contributed largely. + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0026" id="link2HCH0026"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter II — The Confederate General + </h2> + <p> + Resigns from Colonelcy of First United States Cavalry—Motives for + this step—Chosen to command Virginia forces—Anxiety about his + wife, family, and possessions—Chief advisor to President Davis—Battle + of Manassas—Military operations in West Virginia—Letter to + State Governor + </p> + <p> + In February, 1861, after the secession of Texas, my father was ordered to + report to General Scott, the Commander-in-Chief of the United States Army. + He immediately relinquished the command of his regiment, and departed from + Fort Mason, Texas, for Washington. He reached Arlington March 1st. April + 17th, Virginia seceded. On the 18th Colonel Lee had a long interview with + General Scott. On April 20th he tendered his resignation of his commission + in the United States Army. The same day he wrote to General Scott the + following letter: + </p> + <p> + “Arlington, Virginia, April 20, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “General: Since my interview with you on the 18th inst. I have felt that I + ought no longer to retain my commission in the Army. I therefore tender my + resignation, which I request you will recommend for acceptance. It would + have been presented at once but for the struggle it has cost me to + separate myself from a service to which I have devoted the best years of + my life, and all the ability I possessed. + </p> + <p> + “During the whole of that time—more than a quarter of a century—I + have experienced nothing but kindness from my superiors and a most cordial + friendship from my comrades. To no one, General, have I been as much + indebted as to yourself for uniform kindness and consideration, and it has + always been my ardent desire to merit your approbation. I shall carry tot + he grave the most grateful recollections of your kind consideration, and + your name and fame shall always be dear to me. + </p> + <p> + “Save in the defense of my native State, I never desire again to draw my + sword. + </p> + <p> + “Be pleased to accept my most earnest wishes for the continuance of your + happiness and prosperity, and believe me most truly yours, + </p> + <p> + “(Signed) + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee” + </p> + <p> + His resignation was written the same day. + </p> + <p> + “Arlington, Washington City P.O., April 20, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “Honourable Simon Cameron, Secretary of War. + </p> + <p> + “Sir: I have the honour to tender the resignation of my command as Colonel + of the First Regiment of Cavalry. + </p> + <p> + “Very respectfully your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee, + </p> + <p> + “Colonel First Cavalry.” + </p> + <p> + To show further his great feeling in thus having to leave the army with + which he had been associated for so long, I give two more letters, one to + his sister, Mrs. Anne Marshall, of Baltimore, the other to his brother, + Captain Sydney Smith Lee, of the United States Navy: + </p> + <p> + “Arlington, Virginia, April 20, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Sister: I am grieved at my inability to see you.... I have been + waiting for a ‘more convenient season,’ which has brought to many before + me deep and lasting regret. Now we are in a state of war which will yield + to nothing. The whole South is in a state of revolution, into which + Virginia, after a long struggle, has been drawn; and though I recognise no + necessity for this state of things, and would have forborne and pleaded to + the end for redress of grievances, real or supposed, yet in my own person + I had to meet the question whether I should take part against my native + State. + </p> + <p> + “With all my devotion to the Union and the feeling of loyalty and duty of + an American citizen, I have not been able to make up my mind to raise my + hand against my relatives, my children, my home. I have therefore resigned + my commission in the Army, and save in defense of my native State, with + the sincere hope that my poor services may never be needed, I hope I may + never be called on to draw my sword. I know you will blame me; but you + must think as kindly of me as you can, and believe that I have endeavoured + to do what I thought right. + </p> + <p> + “To show you the feeling and struggle it has cost me, I send you a copy of + my letter of resignation. I have no time for more. May God guard and + protect you and yours, and shower upon you everlasting blessings, is the + prayer of your devoted brother, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “Arlington, Virginia, April 20, 1860. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Brother Smith: The question which was the subject of my earnest + consultation with you on the 18th inst. has in my own mind been decided. + After the most anxious inquiry as to the correct course for me to pursue, + I concluded to resign, and sent in my resignation this morning. I wished + to wait till the Ordinance of secession should be acted on by the people + of Virginia; but war seems to have commenced, and I am liable at any time + to be ordered on duty which I could not conscientiously perform. To save + me from such a position, and to prevent the necessity of resigning under + orders, I had to act at once, and before I could see you again on the + subject, as I had wished. I am now a private citizen, and have no other + ambition than to remain at home. Save in defense of my native State, I + have no desire ever again to draw my sword. I send you my warmest love. + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate brother, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + I will give here one of my father’s letters, written after the war, in + which is his account of his resignation from the United States Army: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, February 25, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “Honourable Reverdy Johnson, + </p> + <p> + “United States Senate, Washington, D. C. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Sir: My attention has been called to the official report of the + debate in the Senate of the United States, on the 19th instant, in which + you did my the kindness to doubt the correctness of the statement made by + the Honourable Simon Cameron, in regard to myself. I desire that you may + feel certain of my conduct on the occasion referred to, so far as my + individual statement can make you. I never intimated to any one that I + desired the command of the United States Army; nor did I ever have a + conversation with but one gentleman, Mr. Francis Preston Blair, on the + subject, which was at his invitation, and, as I understood, at the + instance of President Lincoln. After listening to his remarks, I declined + the offer that he made me, to take command of the army that was to be + brought into the field; stating, as candidly and courteously as I could, + that, though opposed to secession and deprecating war, I could take no + part in an invasion of the Southern States. I went directly from the + interview with Mr. Blair to the office of General Scott; told him of the + proposition that had been made to me, and my decision. Upon reflection + after returning to my home, I concluded that I ought no longer to retain + the commission I held in the United States Army, and on the second morning + thereafter I forwarded my resignation to General Scott. At the time, I + hoped that peace would have been preserved; that some way would have been + found to save the country from the calamities of war; and I then had no + other intention than to pass the remainder of my life as a private + citizen. Two days afterward, upon the invitation of the Governor of + Virginia, I repaired to Richmond; found that the Convention then in + session had passed the ordinance withdrawing the State from the Union; and + accepted the commission of commander of its forces, which was tendered me. + </p> + <p> + “These are the ample facts of the case, and they show that Mr. Cameron has + been misinformed. + </p> + <p> + “I am with great respect, + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + My father reached Richmond April 22, 1861. The next day he was introduced + to the Virginia Convention, and offered by them the command of the + military forces of his State. In his reply to Mr. John Janney, the + President, who spoke for the Convention, he said: + </p> + <p> + “Mr. President and Gentlemen of the Convention: Deeply impressed with the + solemnity of the occasion on which I appear before you, and profoundly + grateful for the honour conferred upon me, I accept the position your + partiality has assigned me, though I would greatly have preferred your + choice should have fallen on one more capable. + </p> + <p> + “Trusting to Almighty God, an approving conscience, and the aid of my + fellow citizens, I will devote myself to the defense and service of my + native State, in whose behalf alone would I have ever drawn my sword.” + </p> + <p> + On April 26th, from Richmond, he wrote to his wife: + </p> + <p> + “...I am very anxious about you. You have to move and make arrangements to + go to some point of safety, which you must select. The Mount Vernon plate + and pictures ought to be secured. Keep quiet while you remain and in your + preparation. War is inevitable, and there is no telling when it will burst + around you. Virginia, yesterday, I understand, joined the Confederate + States. What policy they may adopt I cannot conjecture. May God bless and + preserve you, and have mercy upon all our people, is the constant prayer + of your affectionate husband, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + On April 30th: + </p> + <p> + “On going to my room last night I found my trunk and sword there, and + opening them this morning discovered the package of letters and was very + glad to learn you were all well and as yet peaceful. I fear the latter + state will not continue long.... I think therefore you had better prepare + all things for removal, that is, the plate, pictures, etc., and be + prepared at any moment. Where to go is the difficulty. When the war + commences no place will be exempt, in my opinion, and indeed all the + avenues into the State will be the scenes of military operations. + </p> + <p> + “There is no prospect or intention of the Government to propose a truce. + Do not be deceived by it.... May God preserve you all and bring peace to + our distracted country.” + </p> + <p> + Again to my mother at Arlington: + </p> + <p> + “Richmond, May 2, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “My dear Mary: I received last night your letter of the 1st, with + contents. It gave me great pleasure to learn that you are all well and in + peace. You know how pleased I should be to have you and my dear daughters + with me. That I fear can not be. There is no place that I can expect to be + but in the field, and there is no rest for me to look to, but I want you + to be in a place of safety.... We have only to be resigned to God’s will + and pleasure, and do all we can for our protection.... I have just + received Custis’s letter of the 30th, inclosing the acceptance of my + resignation. It is stated that it will take effect April 25th. I resigned + on the 20th, and wished it to take effect that day. I cannot consent to + its running on further, and he must receive no pay, if they tender it, + beyond that day, but return the whole, if need be....” + </p> + <p> + From another letter to my mother, dated May 8th: + </p> + <p> + “...I grieve at the necessity that drives you from your home. I can + appreciate your feelings on the occasion, and pray that you may receive + comfort and strength in the difficulties that surround you. When I reflect + upon the calamity impending over the country, my own sorrows sink into + insignificance.... Be content and resigned to God’s will. I shall be able + to write seldom. Write to me, as you letters will be my greatest comfort. + I send a check for $500; it is all I have in bank. Pay the children’s + school expenses....” + </p> + <p> + To my mother, still at Arlington: + </p> + <p> + “Richmond, May 11, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “I have received your letter of the 9th from Arlington. I had supposed you + were at Ravensworth.... I am glad to hear that you are at peace, and + enjoying the sweet weather and beautiful flowers. You had better complete + your arrangements and retire further from the scene of war. It may burst + upon you at any time. It is sad to think of the devastation, if not ruin, + it may bring upon a spot so endeared to us. But God’s will be done. We + must be resigned. May He guard and keep you all, is my constant prayer.” + </p> + <p> + All this time my father was very hard at work organising and equipping the + volunteers who were pouring into Richmond from the Southern States, but he + was in constant correspondence with my mother, helping her all he could in + her arrangements for leaving her home. His letters show that he thought of + everything, even the least, and he gave the most particular directions + about his family, their effects, the servants, the horses, the farm, + pictures, plate, and furniture. Being called to Norfolk suddenly, before + going he wrote to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “Richmond, May 16, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I am called down to Norfolk and leave this afternoon. I + expect to return Friday, but may be delayed. I write to advise you of my + absence, in case you should not receive answers to any letters that may + arrive. I have not heard from you since I last wrote; nor have I anything + to relate. I heard from my dear little Rob, who had an attack of chills + and fever. He hoped to escape the next paroxysm.... I witnessed the + opening of the convention [The Episcopal Convention of the Diocese of + Virginia] yesterday, and heard the good Bishop’s [Bishop Meade, of + Virginia] sermon, being the 50th anniversary of his ministry. It was a + most impressive scene, and more than once I felt the tears coming down my + cheek. It was from the text, ‘and Pharoh said unto Jacob, how old art + thou?’ It was full of humility and self-reproach. I saw Mr. Walker, Bishop + Johns, Bishop Atkinson, etc. I have not been able to attend any other + services, and presume the session will not be prolonged. I suppose it may + be considered a small attendance. Should Custis arrive during my absence, + I will leave word for him to take my room at the Spotswood till my return. + Smith [His brother, S. S. Lee, C. S. N.] is well and enjoys a ride in the + afternoon with Mrs. Stannard. The charming women, you know, always find + him out. Give much love to Cousin Anna, Nannie, and dear daughters. When + Rob leaves the University take him with you. + </p> + <p> + “Truly and affectionately, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + By this time my mother and all the family had left Arlington. My brother, + Custis, had joined my father in Richmond, the girls had gone to Fauquier + county, to visit relatives, and my mother to Ravensworth, about ten miles + from Arlington towards Fairfax Court House, where her aunt, Mrs. A. M. + Fitzhugh, lived. Always considerate of the happiness and comfort of + others, my father feared that his wife’s presence at Ravensworth might + possibly bring annoyance to “Cousin Anna,” as he called our aunt, and he + wrote to my mother, urging her not to remain there. He sympathised with + her in having to leave her home, which she never saw again. + </p> + <p> + “Richmond, May 25, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “I have been trying, dearest Mary, ever since the receipt of your letter + by Custis, to write to you. I sympathise deeply in your feelings at + leaving your dear home. I have experienced them myself, and they are + constantly revived. I fear we have not been grateful enough for the + happiness there within our reach, and our Heavenly Father has found it + necessary to deprive us of what He has given us. I acknowledge my + ingratitude, my transgressions, and my unworthiness, and submit with + resignation to what he thinks proper to inflict upon me. We must trust all + then to him, and I do not think it prudent or right for you to return + there, while the United States troops occupy that country. I have gone + over all this ground before, and have just written Cousin Anna on the + subject. + </p> + <p> + “While writing, I received a telegram from Cousin John Goldsborough [a + cousin of Mrs. Fitzhugh], urging your departure ‘South.’ I suppose he is + impressed with the risk of your present position, and in addition to the + possibility, or probability, of personal annoyance to yourself, I fear + your presence may provoke annoyance in Cousin Anna. But unless Cousin Anna + goes with you, I shall be distressed about her being there alone. If the + girls went to ‘Kinloch’ or ‘Eastern View,’ you and Cousin Anna might take + care of yourselves, because you could get in the carriage and go off in an + emergency. But I really am afraid that you may prove more harm than + comfort to her. Mr. Wm. C. Rives has just been in to say that if you and + Cousin Anna will go to his house, he will be very glad for you to stay as + long as you please. That his son has a commodious house just opposite his, + unoccupied, partially furnished; that you could, if you prefer, take that, + bring up servants and what you desire, and remain there as independent as + at home.... I must now leave the matter to you, and pray that God may + guard you. I have no time for more. I know and feel the discomfort of your + position, but it cannot be helped, and we must bear our trials like + Christians.... If you and Cousin Anna choose to come here, you know how + happy we shall be to see you. I shall take the field as soon now as I + can.... + </p> + <p> + “Ever yours truly and devotedly, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee” + </p> + <p> + Three days later he was at Manassas, only a short distance from + Ravensworth, and he sent her this short note: + </p> + <p> + “Manassas, May 28, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “I reached here, dearest Mary, this afternoon. I am very much occupied in + examining matters, and have to go out to look over the ground. Cousin John + tempts me strongly to go down, but I never visit for many reasons. If for + no other, to prevent compromising the house, for my visit would certainly + be known. + </p> + <p> + “I have written to you fully and to Cousin Anna. I am decidedly of the + opinion that it would be better for you to leave, on your account and + Cousin Anna’s. My only objection is the leaving of Cousin Anna alone, if + she will not go with you. If you prefer Richmond, go with Nannie. + Otherwise, go to the upper country, as John indicates. I fear I cannot be + with you anywhere. I do not think Richmond will be permanent. + </p> + <p> + “Truly, R.” + </p> + <p> + I may as well say here, that “Cousin Anna” never did leave “Ravensworth” + during the war. She remained there, with only a few faithful servants, and + managed to escape any serious molestation. “Nannie” was Mrs. S. S. Lee, + who shortly after this time went to Richmond. + </p> + <p> + On May 25th, my father was transferred, with all the Virginia troops, to + the Confederate States Army. He ceased to be a Major-General, and became a + Brigadier. No higher rank having been created as yet in the Confederate + service. Later, when the rank was created, he was made a full general. + </p> + <p> + By the end of May, to quote from General Long, + </p> + <p> + “Lee had organised, equipped, and sent to the field more than thirty + thousand men, and various regiments were in a forward state of + preparation.” + </p> + <p> + When the Confederate government moved from Montgomery to Richmond, and + President Davis took charge of all military movements, my father was kept + near him as his constant and trusted adviser. His experience as an + engineer was of great service to the young Confederacy, and he was called + upon often for advice for the location of batteries and troops on our + different defensive lines. In a letter to my mother he speaks of one of + these trips to the waters east of Richmond. + </p> + <p> + “Richmond, June 9, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “...I have just returned from a visit to the batteries and troops on James + and York rivers, etc., where I was some days. I called a few hours at the + White House. Saw Charlotte and Annie. Fitzhugh was away, but got out of + the cars as I got in. Our little boy looked very sweet and seemed glad to + kiss me good-bye. Charlotte said she was going to prepare to leave for the + summer, but had not determined where to go. I could only see some of the + servants about the house and the stables. They were all well.... You may + be aware that the Confederate Government is established here. Yesterday I + turned over to it the command of the military and naval forces of the + State, in accordance with the proclamation of the Government and the + agreement between the State and the Confederate States. I do not know what + my position will be. I should like to retire to private life, if I could + be with you and the children, but if I can be of any service to the State + or her cause I must continue. Mr. Davis and all his Cabinet are here.... + Good-bye. Give much love to kind friends. May God guard and bless you, + them, and our suffering country, and enable me to perform my duty. I think + of you constantly. Write me what you will do. Direct here. + </p> + <p> + “Always yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + To my mother, who was now in Fauquier County, staying at “Kinloch,” Mr. + Edward Turner’s home, he writes on June 24th, from Richmond: + </p> + <p> + “...Your future arrangements are the source of much anxiety to me. No one + can say what is in the future, nor is it wise to anticipate evil. But it + is well to prepare for what may reasonably happen and be provided for the + worst. There is no saying when you can return to your home or what may be + its condition when you do return. What, then, can you do in the meantime? + To remain with friends may be incumbent, and where can you go?... My + movements are very uncertain, and I wish to take the field as soon as + certain arrangements can be made. I may go at any moment, and to any point + where it may be necessary.... Many of our old friends are dropping in. E. + P. Alexander is here, Jimmy Hill, Alston, Jenifer, etc., and I hear that + my old colonel, A. S. Johnston, is crossing the plains from California.... + </p> + <p> + “As ever, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + I again quote from a letter to my mother, dated Richmond, July 12, 1861: + </p> + <p> + “...I am very anxious to get into the field, but am detained by matters + beyond my control. I have never heard of the appointment, to which you + allude, of Commander-in-Chief of the Confederate States Army, nor have I + any expectation or wish for it. President Davis holds that position. Since + the transfer of the military operations in Virginia to the authorities of + the Confederate States, I have only occupied the position of a general in + that service, with the duties devolved on me by the President. I have been + labouring to prepare and get into the field the Virginia troops, and to + strengthen, by those from the other States, the threatened commands of + Johnston, Beauregard, Huger, Garnett, etc. Where I shall go I do not know, + as that will depend upon President Davis. As usual in getting through with + a thing, I have broken down a little and had to take my bed last evening, + but am at my office this morning and hope will soon be right again.... My + young friend Mr. Vest has just returned from a search in the city for + ‘Dixie,’ and says he has visited every place in Richmond without finding + it. I suppose it is exhausted. Always yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “The booksellers say ‘Dixie’ is not to be had in Virginia. R. E. L.” + </p> + <p> + On July 21st occurred the battle of Manassas. In a letter to my mother + written on the 27th, my father says: + </p> + <p> + “...That indeed was a glorious victory and has lightened the pressure upon + our front amazingly. Do not grieve for the brave dead. Sorrow for those + they left behind—friends, relatives, and families. The former are at + rest. The latter must suffer. The battle will be repeated there in greater + force. I hope God will again smile on us and strengthen our hearts and + arms. I wished to partake in the former struggle, and am mortified at my + absence, but the President thought it more important I should be here. I + could not have done as well as has been done, but I could have helped, and + taken part in the struggle for my home and neighbourhood. So the work is + done I care not by whom it is done. I leave to-morrow for the Northwest + Army. I wished to go before, as I wrote you, and was all prepared, but the + indications were so evident of the coming battle, and in the uncertainty + of the result, the President forbade my departure. Now it is necessary and + he consents. I cannot say for how long, but will write you.... I inclose + you a letter from Markie [Miss Martha Custis Williams—second cousin + of my mother, afterward Mrs. Admiral Carter, U.S.N.]. Write to her if you + can and thank her for her letter to me. I have not time. My whole time is + occupied, and all my thoughts and strength are given to the cause to which + my life, be it long or short, will be devoted. Tell her not to mind the + reports she sees in the papers. They are made to injure and occasion + distrust. Those that know me will not believe them. Those that do not will + not care for them. I laugh at them. Give love to all, and for yourself + accept the constant prayers and love of truly yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + It was thought best at this time to send General Lee to take command of + military operations in West Virginia. The ordinary difficulties of a + campaign in this country of mountains and bad roads were greatly increased + by incessant rains, sickness of all kinds amongst the new troops, and the + hostility of many of the inhabitants of the Southern cause. My father’s + letters, which I will give here, tell of his trials and troubles, and + describe at the same time the beauty of the scenery and some of the + military movements. + </p> + <p> + About August 1st he started for his new command, and he writes to my + mother on his arrival at Huntersville, Pocahontas County, now West + Virginia: + </p> + <p> + “Huntersville, August 4, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “I reached here yesterday, dearest Mary, to visit this portion of the + army. The day after my arrival at Staunton, I set off for Monterey, where + the army of General Garnett’s command is stationed. Two regiments and a + field-battery occupy the Alleghany Mountains in advance, about thirty + miles, and this division guards the road to Staunton. The division here + guards the road leading to the Warm Springs to Milboro and Covington. Two + regiments are advanced about twenty-eight miles to Middle Mountain. + Fitzhugh [Major W. H. F. Lee—General Lee’s second son] with his + squadron is between that point and this. I have not seen him. I understand + he is well. South of here again is another column of our enemies, making + their way up the Kanawha Valley, and, from General Wise’s report, are not + far from Lewisburgh. Their object seems to be to get possession of the + Virginia Central Railroad and the Virginia and Tennessee Railroad. By the + first they can approach Richmond; by the last interrupt our reinforcements + from the South. The points from which we can be attacked are numerous, and + their means are unlimited. So we must always be on the alert. My + uneasiness on these points brought me out here. It is so difficult to get + our people, unaccustomed to the necessities of war, to comprehend and + promptly execute the measures required for the occasion. General Jackson + of Georgia commands on the Monterey line, General Loring on this line, and + General Wise, supported by General Floyd, on the Kanawha line. The + soldiers everywhere are sick. The measles are prevalent throughout the + whole army, and you know that disease leaves unpleasant results, attacks + on the lungs, typhoid, etc., especially in camp, where accommodations for + the sick are poor. I travelled from Staunton on horseback. A part of the + road, as far as Buffalo Gap, I passed over in the summer of 1840, on my + return to St. Louis, after bringing you home. If any one had then told me + that the next time I travelled that road would have been on my present + errand, I should have supposed him insane. I enjoyed the mountains, as I + rode along. The views are magnificent—the valleys so beautiful, the + scenery so peaceful. What a glorious world Almighty God has given us. How + thankless and ungrateful we are, and how we labour to mar his gifts. I + hope you received my letters from Richmond. Give love to daughter and + Mildred. I did not see Rob as I passed through Charlottesville. He was at + the University and I could not stop.” + </p> + <p> + A few days later there is another letter: + </p> + <p> + “Camp at Valley Mountain, August 9, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “I have been here, dear Mary, three days, coming from Monterey to + Huntersville and thence here. We are on the dividing ridge looking north + down the Tygart’s river valley, whose waters flow into the Monongahela and + South towards the Elk River and Greenbriar, flowing into the Kanawha. In + the valley north of us lie Huttonsville and Beverly, occupied by our + invaders, and the Rich Mountains west, the scene of our former disaster, + and the Cheat Mountains east, their present stronghold, are in full view. + </p> + <p> + “The mountains are beautiful, fertile to the tops, covered with the + richest sward of bluegrass and white clover, the inclosed fields waving + with the natural growth of timothy. The inhabitants are few and population + sparse. This is a magnificent grazing country, and all it needs is labour + to clear the mountain-sides of its great growth of timber. There surely is + no lack of moisture at this time. It has rained, I believe, some portion + of every day since I left Staunton. Now it is pouring, and the wind, + having veered around to every point of the compass, has settled down to + the northeast. What that portends in these regions I do not know. Colonel + Washington [John Augustin Washington, great-nephew of General Washington, + and Mt. Vernon’s last owner bearing that name], Captain Taylor, and myself + are in one tent, which as yet protects us. I have enjoyed the company of + Fitzhugh since I have been here. He is very well and very active, and as + yet the war has not reduced him much. He dined with me yesterday and + preserves his fine appetite. To-day he is out reconnoitering and has the + full benefit of this rain. I fear he is without his overcoat, as I do not + recollect seeing it on his saddle. I told you he had been promoted to a + major in cavalry, and is the commanding cavalry officer on this line at + present. He is as sanguine, cheerful, and hearty as ever. I sent him some + corn-meal this morning and he sent me some butter—a mutual + interchange of good things. There are but few of your acquaintances in + this army. I find here in the ranks of one company Henry Tiffany. The + company is composed principally of Baltimoreans—George Lemmon and + Douglas Mercer are in it. It is a very fine company, well drilled and well + instructed. I find that our friend, J. J. Reynolds, of West Point memory, + is in command of the troops immediately in front of us. He is a + brigadier-general. You may recollect him as the Assistant Professor of + Philosophy, and lived in the cottage beyond the west gate, with his + little, pale-faced wife, a great friend of Lawrence and Markie. He + resigned on being relieved from West Point, and was made professor of some + college in the West. Fitzhugh was the bearer of a flag the other day, and + he recognised him. He was very polite and made inquiries of us all. I am + told they feel very safe and are very confident of success. Their numbers + are said to be large, ranging from 12,000 to 30,000, but it is impossible + for me to get correct information either as to their strength or position. + Our citizens beyond this are all on their side. Our movements seem to be + rapidly communicated to them, while theirs come to us slowly and + indistinctly. I have two regiments here, with others coming up. I think we + shall shut up this road to the Central Railroad which they strongly + threaten. Our supplies come up slowly. We have plenty of beef and can get + some bread. I hope you are well and are content. I have heard nothing of + you or the children since I left Richmond. You must write there.... The + men are suffering from the measles, etc., as elsewhere, but are cheerful + and light-hearted. The atmosphere, when it is not raining, is delightful. + You must give much love to daughter and ‘Life’ [Pet names for his two + daughters, Mary and Mildred]. I want to see you all very much, but I know + not when that can be. May God guard and protect you all. In Him alone is + our hope. Remember me to Ned [M. Edward Carter Turner, of Kinloch, my + father’s cousin] and all at ‘Kinloch’ and Avenel [The house of the + Berbeleys, in Fauquier County]. Send word to Miss Lou Washington [Eldest + daughter of John Augustin Washington] that her father is sitting on his + blanket sewing the strap on his haversack. I think she out to be here to + do it. Always yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In a letter to his two daughters who were in Richmond, he writes: + </p> + <p> + “Valley Mountain, August 29, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Daughters: I have just received your letters of the 24th and + am rejoiced to hear that you are well and enjoying the company of your + friends.... It rains here all the time, literally. There has not been + sunshine enough since my arrival to dry my clothes. Perry [his servant—had + been in the dining-room at Arlington] is my washerman, and socks and + towels suffer. But the worst of the rain is that the ground has become so + saturated with water that the constant travel on the roads has made them + almost impassable, so that I cannot get up sufficient supplies for the + troops to move. It is raining now. Has been all day, last night, day + before, and day before that, etc., etc. But we must be patient. It is + quite cool, too. I have on all my winter clothes and am writing in my + overcoat. All the clouds seem to concentrate over this ridge of mountains, + and by whatever wind they are driven, give us rain. The mountains are + magnificent. The sugar-maples are beginning to turn already, and the grass + is luxuriant. + </p> + <p> + “‘Richmond’ [His horse] has not been accustomed to such fare or such + treatment. But he gets along tolerably, complains some, and has not much + superfluous flesh. There has been much sickness among the men—measles, + etc.—and the weather has been unfavourable. I hope their attacks are + nearly over, and that they will come out with the sun. Our party has kept + well.... Although we may be too weak to break through the lines, I feel + well satisfied that the enemy cannot at present reach Richmond by either + of these routes, leading to Staunton, Milborough or Covington. He must + find some other way.... God Bless you, my children, and preserve you from + all harm is the constant prayer of + </p> + <p> + “Your devoted father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + On account of rheumatism, my mother was anxious to go to the Hot Springs + in Bath County. She was now staying at “Audley,” Clarke County, Virginia, + with Mrs. Lorenzo Lewis, who had just sent her six sons into the army. + Bath County was not very far from the seat of war in western Virginia, and + my father was asked as to the safety of the Hot Springs from occupation by + the enemy. He writes as follows to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “Valley Mountain, September 1, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “I have received, dearest Mary, your letter of August 18th from Audley, + and am very glad to get news of your whereabouts.... I am very glad you + are enabled to see so many of your friends. I hope you have found all well + in your tour, and am very glad that our cousin Esther bears the separation + from all her sons so bravely. I have no doubt they will do good service in + our Southern cause, and wish they could be placed according to their + fancies.... I fear you have postponed your visit to the Hot too late. It + must be quite cold there now, judging from the temperature here, and it + has been raining in these mountains since July 24th.... I see Fitzhugh + quite often, though he is encamped four miles from me. He is very well and + not at all harmed by the campaign. + </p> + <p> + “We have a great deal of sickness among the soldiers, and now those on the + sick-list would form an army. The measles is still among them, though I + hope it is dying out. But it is a disease which though light in childhood + is severe in manhood, and prepares the system for other attacks. The + constant cold rains, with no shelter but tents, have aggravated it. All + these drawbacks, with impassable roads, have paralysed our efforts. Still + I think you will be safe at the Hot, for the present. We are right up to + the enemy on three lines, and in the Kanawha he has been pushed beyond the + Gauley.... My poor little Rob I never hear from scarcely. He is busy, I + suppose, and knows not where to direct.... + </p> + <p> + “With much affection, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + From the same camp, to my mother, on September 9th: + </p> + <p> + “...I hope from the tone of your letter that you feel better, and wish I + could see you and be with you. I trust we may meet this fall somewhere, if + only for a little time. I have written to Robert telling him if, after + considering what I have previously said to him on the subject of his + joining the company he desires under Major Ross, he still thinks it best + for him to do so, I will not withhold my consent. It seems he will be + eighteen; I thought seventeen. I am unable to judge for him and he must + decide for himself. In reply to a recent letter from him to me on the same + subject, I said to him all I could. I pray God to bring him to the right + conclusion.... For military news, I must refer you to the papers. You will + see there more than ever occurs, and what does occur the relation must be + taken with some allowance. Do not believe anything you see about me. There + has been no battle, only skirmishing with the outposts, and nothing done + of any moment. The weather is still unfavourable to us. The roads, or + rather tracks of mud, are almost impassable and the number of sick + large.... + </p> + <p> + “Truly and devotedly yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + My mother was at the Hot Springs—I had taken her there and was with + her. I don’t now remember why, but it was decided that I should return to + the University of Virginia, which opened October 1st, and continue my + course there. While at the Springs my mother received this letter from my + father: + </p> + <p> + “Valley Mount, September 17, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “I received, dear Mary, your letter of the 5th by Beverly Turner [A son of + Mr. Edward Turner, of ‘Kinloch’], who is a nice young soldier. I am pained + to see find young men like him, of education and standing, from all the + old and respectable families in the State, serving in the ranks. I hope in + time they will receive their reward. I met him as I was returning from an + expedition to the enemy’s works, which I had hoped to have surprised on + the morning of the 12th, both at Cheat Mountain and on Valley River. All + the attacking parties with great labour had reached their destination, + over mountains considered impassable to bodies of troops, notwithstanding + a heavy storm that set in the day before and raged all night, in which + they had to stand up till daylight. Their arms were then unserviceable, + and they in poor condition for a fierce assault against artillery and + superior numbers. After waiting till 10 o’clock for the assault on Cheat + Mountain, which did not take place, and which was to have been the signal + for the rest, they were withdrawn, and, after waiting three days in front + of the enemy, hoping he would come out of his trenches, we returned to our + position at this place. I can not tell you my regret and mortification at + the untoward events that caused the failure of the plan. I had taken every + precaution to ensure success and counted on it, but the Ruler of the + Universe willed otherwise and sent a storm to disconcert a well-laid plan, + and to destroy my hopes. We are no worse off now than before, except the + disclosure of our plan, against which they will guard. We met with one + heavy loss which grieves me deeply: Colonel Washington accompanied + Fitzhugh on a reconnoitering expedition, and I fear they were carried away + by their zeal and approached the enemy’s pickets. The first they knew was + a volley from a concealed party within a few yards of them. Their balls + passed through the Colonel’s body, then struck Fitzhugh’s horse, and the + horse of one of the men was killed. Fitzhugh mounted the Colonel’s horse + and brought him off. I am much grieved. He was always anxious to go on + these expeditions. This was the first day I assented. Since I had been + thrown into such intimate relations with him, I had learned to appreciate + him very highly. Morning and evening have I seen him on his knees praying + to his Maker. + </p> + <p> + “‘The righteous perisheth and no man layeth it to heart, and merciful men + are taken away, none considering that the righteous is taken away from the + evil to come.’ May God have mercy on us all! I suppose you are at the Hot + Springs and will direct to you there. Our poor sick, I know, suffer much. + They bring it on themselves by not doing what they are told. They are + worse than children, for the latter can be forced.... + </p> + <p> + “Truly yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + On the same day he wrote the Governor of Virginia: + </p> + <p> + “Valley Mountain, September 17, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Governor: I received your very kind note of the 5th instant, just + as I was about to accompany General Loring’s command on an expedition to + the enemy’s works in front, or I would have before thanked you for the + interest you take in my welfare, and your too flattering expressions of my + ability. Indeed, you overrate me much, and I feel humbled when I weigh + myself by your standard. I am, however, very grateful for your confidence, + and I can answer for my sincerity in the earnest endeavour I make to + advance the cause I have so much at heart, though conscious of the slow + progress I make. I was very sanguine of taking the enemy’s works on last + Thursday morning. I had considered the subject well. With great effort the + troops intended for the surprise had reached their destination, having + traversed twenty miles of steep, rugged mountain paths; and the last day + through a terrible storm, which lasted all night, and in which they had to + stand drenched to the skin in cold rain. Still, their spirits were good. + When morning broke, I could see the enemy’s tents on Valley River, at the + point on the Huttonsville road just below me. It was a tempting sight. We + waited for the attack on Cheat Mountain, which was to be the signal. Till + 10 A. M. the men were cleaning their unserviceable arms. But the signal + did not come. All chance for a surprise was gone. The provisions of the + men had been destroyed the preceding day by the storm. They had nothing to + eat that morning, could not hold out another day, and were obliged to be + withdrawn. The party sent to Cheat Mountain to take that in rear had also + to be withdrawn. The attack to come off the east side failed from the + difficulties in the way; the opportunity was lost, and our plan + discovered. It is a grievous disappointment to me, I assure you, but for + the rain-storm, I have no doubt it would have succeeded. This, Governor, + is for your own eye. Please do not speak of it; we must try again. Our + greatest loss is the death of my dear friend, Colonel Washington. He and + my son were reconnoitering the front of the enemy. They came unawares upon + a concealed party, who fired upon them within twenty yards, and the + Colonel fell pierced by three balls. My son’s horse received three shots, + but he escaped on the Colonel’s horse. His zeal for the cause to which he + had devoted himself carried him, I fear, too far. We took some seventy + prisoners, and killed some twenty-five or thirty of the enemy. Our loss + was small besides what I have mentioned. Our greatest difficulty is the + roads. It has been raining in these mountains about six weeks. It is + impossible to get along. It is that which has paralysed all our efforts. + With sincere thanks for your good wishes, + </p> + <p> + “I am very truly yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “His Excellency, Governor John Letcher.” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0027" id="link2HCH0027"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter III — Letters to Wife and Daughters + </h2> + <p> + From Camp on Sewell’s Mountain—Quotation from Colonel Taylor’s book—From + Professor Wm. P. Trent—From Mr. Davis’s Memorial Address—Defense + of Southern ports—Christmas, 1861—The General visits his + father’s grave—Commands, under the President, all the armies of the + Confederate States + </p> + <p> + The season being too far advanced to attempt any further movements away + from our base of supplies, and the same reasons preventing any advance of + the Federal forces, the campaign in this part of Virginia ended for the + winter. In the Kanawha Valley, however, the enemy had been and were quite + active. Large reinforcements under General Rosecrans were sent there to + assist General Cox, the officer in command at that point. General Loring, + leaving a sufficient force to watch the enemy at Cheat Mountain, moved the + rest of his army to join the commands of Generals Floyd and Wise, who were + opposing the advance of Cox. General Lee, about September 20th, reached + General Floyd’s camp, and immediately proceeded to arrange the lines of + defense. Shortly after his arrival there he wrote to my mother at the Hot + Springs: + </p> + <p> + “Camp on Sewell’s Mountain, + </p> + <p> + “September 26, 1881. + </p> + <p> + “I have just received, dear Mary, your letter of the 17th and 19th + instants, with one from Robert. I have but little time for writing + to-night, and will, therefore, write to you.... Having now disposed of + business matters, I will say how glad I am to hear from you, and to learn + that you have reached the Hot in safety, with daughter and Rob. I pray + that its healing waters may benefit you all. I am glad to hear of + Charlotte and the girls, and hope all will go well with them. I infer you + received my letter before leaving Valley Mountain, though you did not + direct your letter ‘via Lewisburg, Greenbrier County,’ and hence its + delay. I told you of the death of Colonel Washington. I grieve for his + loss, though trust him to the mercy of our Heavenly Father. May He have + mercy on us all. + </p> + <p> + “It is raining heavily. The men are all exposed on the mountain, with the + enemy opposite to us. We are without tents, and for two nights I have lain + buttoned up in my overcoat. To-day my tent came up and I am in it. Yet I + fear I shall not sleep for thinking of the poor men. I wrote about socks + for myself. I have no doubt the yarn ones you mention will be very + acceptable to the men here or elsewhere. If you can send them here, I will + distribute them to the most needy. Tell Rob I could not write to him for + want of time. My heart is always with you and my children. May God guard + and bless you all is the constant prayer of + </p> + <p> + “Your devoted husband, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + To my mother, still at the Hot Springs: + </p> + <p> + “Sewell’s Mountain, October 7, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “I received, dear Mary, your letter by Doctor Quintard, with the cotton + socks. Both were very acceptable, though the latter I have not yet tried. + At the time of their reception the enemy was threatening an attack, which + was continued till Saturday night, when under cover of darkness we + suddenly withdrew. Your letter of the 2d, with the yarn socks, four pairs, + was handed to me when I was preparing to follow, and I could not at the + time attend to either. But I have since, and as I found Perry in desperate + need, I bestowed a couple of pairs on him, as a present from you, the + others I have put in my trunk and suppose they will fall to the lot of + Meredith [His cook—a servant from the White House], into the state + of whose hose I have not yet inquired. Should any sick man require them + first, he shall have them, but Meredith will have no one near to supply + him but me, and will naturally expect that attention. I hope, dear Mary, + you and daughter, as well as poor little Rob, have derived some benefit + from the sanitary baths of the Hot. What does daughter intend to do during + the winter? And, indeed, what do you? It is time you were determining. + There is no prospect of your returning to Arlington. I think you had + better select some comfortable place in the Carolinas or Georgia, and all + board together. If Mildred goes to school at Raleigh, why not go there? It + is a good opportunity to try a warmer climate for your rheumatism. If I + thought our enemies would not make a vigorous move against Richmond, I + would recommend to rent a house there. But under these circumstances I + would not feel as if you were permanently located if there. I am ignorant + where I shall be. In the field somewhere, I suspect, so I have little hope + of being with you, though I hope to be able to see you.... I heard from + Fitzhugh the other day. He is well, though his command is greatly reduced + by sickness. I wished much to bring him with me; but there is too much + cavalry on this line now, and I am dismounting them. I could not, + therefore, order more. The weather is almost as bad here as in the + mountains I left. There was a drenching rain yesterday, and as I had left + my overcoat in camp I was thoroughly wet from head to foot. It has been + raining ever since and is now coming down with a will. But I have my + clothes out on the bushes and they will be well washed. + </p> + <p> + “The force of the enemy, by a few prisoners captured yesterday and + civilians on the road, is put down from 17,000 to 20,000. Some went as + high as 22,000. General Floyd thinks 18,000. I do not think it exceeds + 9,000 or 10,000, though it exceeds ours. I wish he had attacked us, as I + believe he would have been repulsed with great loss. His plan was to + attack us at all points at the same time. The rumbling of his wheels, + etc., was heard by our pickets, but as that was customary at night in the + moving and placing of his cannon, the officer of the day to whom it was + reported paid no particular attention to it, supposing it to be a + preparation for attack in the morning. When day appeared, the bird had + flown, and the misfortune was that the reduced condition of our horses for + want of provender, exposure to cold rains in these mountains, and want of + provisions for the men prevented the vigorous pursuit and following up + that was proper. We can only get up provisions from day to day—which + paralyses our operations. + </p> + <p> + “I am sorry, as you say, that the movements of the armies cannot keep pace + with the expectations of the editors of papers. I know they can regulate + matters satisfactorily to themselves on paper. I wish they could do so in + the field. No one wishes them more success than I do and would be happy to + see them have full swing. I hope something will be done to please them. + Give much love to the children and everybody, and believe me. + </p> + <p> + “Always yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Colonel Taylor, in his “Four Years with General Lee,” says: + </p> + <p> + “We had now reached the latter days of October. The lateness of the season + and the condition of the roads precluded the idea of earnest, aggressive + operations, and the campaign in western Virginia was virtually concluded. + </p> + <p> + “Judged from its results, it must be confessed that this series of + operations was a failure. At its conclusion, a large portion of the State + was in possession of the Federals, including the rich valleys of the Ohio + and Kanawha rivers, and so remained until the close of the war. For this, + however, General Lee cannot reasonably be held accountable. Disaster had + befallen the Confederate arms, and the worst had been accomplished before + he had reached the theatre of operations; the Alleghanies there + constituted the dividing line between the hostile forces, and in this + network of mountains, sterile and rendered absolutely impracticable by a + prolonged season of rain, Nature had provided an insurmountable barrier to + operations in this transmontane country.... It was doubtless because of + similar embarrassments that the Federal general retired, in the face of + inferior numbers, to a point near his base of supplies.” + </p> + <p> + Professor William P. Trent, in his “Robert E. Lee,” after describing + briefly the movements of the contending armies, writes: + </p> + <p> + “There was, then, nothing to do but to acknowledge the campaign a failure. + The Confederate Government withdrew its troops and sent them elsewhere. + Lee, whom the press abused and even former friends began to regard as + overrated, was assigned to command the Department of South Carolina, + Georgia, and Florida; and her western counties were lost to the Old + Dominion forever. It must have been a crushing blow to Lee at the time, + but he bore it uncomplainingly.... And when all is said, no commander, + however great, can succeed against bad roads, bad weather, sickness of + troops, lack of judgement and harmony among subordinates, and a strong, + alert enemy. Yet this is what Lee was expected to do.” + </p> + <p> + Mr. Davis, in an address before a memorial meeting at Richmond in 1870, + speaking of General Lee in this campaign, said: + </p> + <p> + “He came back, carrying the heavy weight of defeat, and unappreciated by + the people whom he served, for they could not know, as I knew, that, if + his plans and orders had been carried out, the result would have been + victory rather than retreat. You did not know it; for I should not have + known it had he not breathed it in my ear only at my earnest request, and + begging that nothing be said about it. The clamour which then arose + followed him when he went to South Carolina, so that it became necessary + on his departure to write a letter to the Governor of that State, telling + him what manner of man he was. Yet, through all this, with a magnanimity + rarely equalled, he stood in silence, without defending himself or + allowing others to defend him, for he was unwilling to offend any one who + was wearing a sword and striking blows for the Confederacy.” + </p> + <p> + After returning to Richmond, my father resumed his position as advisor and + counsellor to Mr. Davis. From there he writes to my mother, who had left + the Hot Springs and gone on to “Shirley,” on James River: + </p> + <p> + “Richmond, November 5, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I received last night your letter of the 2d, and would have + answered it at once, but was detained with the Secretary till after 11 P. + M. I fear now I may miss the mail. Saturday evening I tried to get down to + you to spend Sunday, but could find no government boat going down, and the + passenger boats all go in the morning. I then went to the stable and got + out my horse, but it was near night then and I was ignorant both of the + road and distance and I gave it up. I was obliged to be here Monday, and + as it would have consumed all Sunday to go and come, I have remained for + better times. The President said I could not go to-day, so I must see what + can be done to-morrow. I will come, however, wherever you are, either + Shirley or the White House, as soon as possible, and if not sooner, + Saturday at all events.... I am, as ever, Yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The day after this letter was written, my father was ordered to South + Carolina for the purpose of directing and supervising the construction of + a line of defense along the southern coast. I give here several letters to + members of his family which tell of his duties and manner of life: + </p> + <p> + “Savannah, November 18, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: This is the first moment I have had to write to you, and + now am waiting the call to breakfast, on my way to Brunswick, Fernandina, + etc. This is my second visit to Savannah. Night before last, I returned to + Coosawhatchie, South Carolina, from Charleston, where I have placed my + headquarters, and last night came here, arriving after midnight. I + received in Charleston your letter from Shirley. It was a grievous + disappointment to me not to have seen you, but better times will come, I + hope.... You probably have seen the operations of the enemy’s fleet. Since + their first attack they have been quiescent apparently, confining + themselves to Hilton Head, where they are apparently fortifying. + </p> + <p> + “I have no time for more. Love to all. + </p> + <p> + “Yours very affectionately and truly, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “Charleston, November 15, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Daughter: I have received your letter forwarded to Richmond + by Mr. Powell, and I also got, while in the West, the letter sent by B. + Turner. I can write but seldom, but your letters always give me great + pleasure. I am glad you had such a pleasant visit to ‘Kinloch.’ I have + passed a great many pleasant days there myself in my young days. Now you + must labour at your books and gain knowledge and wisdom. Do not mind what + Rob says. I have a beautiful white beard. It is much admired. At least, + much remarked on. You know I have told you not to believe what the young + men tell you. I was unable to see your poor mother when in Richmond. + Before I could get down I was sent off here. Another forlorn hope + expedition. Worse than West Virginia.... I have much to do in this + country. I have been to Savannah and have to go again. The enemy is quiet + after his conquest of Port Royal Harbor and his whole fleet is lying + there. May God guard and protect you, my dear child, prays your + </p> + <p> + “Affectionate father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The above letter was written to his youngest daughter Mildred, who was at + school in Winchester, Virginia. Two of my sisters were in King George + County, Virginia, at “Clydale,” the summer home of Dr. Richard Stuart, + with whose family we had been a long time intimate. From there they had + driven to “Stratford,” in Westmoreland County, about thirty miles distant, + where my father was born. They had written him of this trip, and this is + his reply: + </p> + <p> + “Savannah, November 22, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “My Darling Daughters: I have just received your joint letter of October + 24th from ‘Clydale.’ It was very cheering to me, and the affection and + sympathy you expressed were very grateful to my feelings. I wish indeed I + could see you, be with you, and never again part from you. God only can + give me that happiness. I pray for it night and day. But my prayers I know + are not worthy to be heard. I received your former letter in western + Virginia, but had no opportunity to reply to it. I enjoyed it, + nevertheless. I am glad you do not wait to hear from me, as that would + deprive me of the pleasure of hearing from you often. I am so pressed with + business. I am much pleased at your description of Stratford and your + visit. It is endeared to me by many recollections, and it has been always + a great desire of my life to be able to purchase it. Now that we have no + other home, and the one we so loved has been foully polluted, the desire + is stronger with me than ever. The horse-chestnut you mention in the + garden was planted by my mother. I am sorry the vault is so dilapidated. + You did not mention the spring, on of the objects of my earliest + recollections. I am very glad, my precious Agnes, that you have become so + early a riser. It is a good habit, and in these times for mighty works + advantage should be taken of every hour. I much regretted being obliged to + come from Richmond without seeing your poor mother.... This is my second + visit to Savannah. I have been down the coast to Amelia Island to examine + the defenses. They are poor indeed, and I have laid off work enough to + employ our people a month. I hope our enemy will be polite enough to wait + for us. It is difficult to get our people to realise their position.... + Good-bye, my dear daughters. + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + To his daughter Annie: + </p> + <p> + “Coosawhatchie, South Carolina, December 8, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Annie: I have taken the only quiet time I have been able to + find on this holy day to thank you for your letter of the 29th ulto. One + of the miseries of war is that there is no Sabbath, and the current of + work and strife has no cessation. How can we be pardoned for all our + offenses! I am glad that you have joined your mamma again and that some of + you are together at last. It would be a great happiness to me were you all + at some quiet place, remote from the vicissitudes of war, where I could + consider you safe. You must have had a pleasant time at ‘Clydale.’ I hope + indeed that ‘Cedar Grove’ may be saved from the ruin and pillage that + other places have received at the hands of our enemies, who are pursuing + the same course here as the have practised elsewhere. Unfortunately, too, + the numerous deep estuaries, all accessible to their ships, expose the + multitude of islands to their predatory excursions, and what they leave is + finished by the negroes whose masters have deserted their plantations, + subject to visitations of the enemy. I am afraid Cousin Julia [Mrs. + Richard Stuart] will not be able to defend her home if attacked by the + vandals, for they have little respect for anybody, and if they catch the + Doctor [Doctor Richard Stuart] they will certainly send him to Fort Warren + or La Fayette. I fear, too, the Yankees will bear off their pretty + daughters. I am very glad you visited ‘Chatham’ [the home of the + Fitzhughs, where my grandmother Custis was born]. I was there many years + ago, when it was the residence of Judge Coulter, and some of the avenues + of poplar, so dear to your grandmama, still existed. I presume they have + all gone now. The letter that you and Agnes wrote from ‘Clydale’ I replied + to and sent to that place. You know I never have any news. I am trying to + get a force to make headway on our defenses, but it comes in very slow. + The people do not seem to realise that there is a war. + </p> + <p> + “It is very warm here, if that is news, and as an evidence I inclose some + violets I plucked in the yard of a deserted house I occupy. I wish I could + see you and give them in person.... Good-bye, my precious child. Give much + love to everybody, and believe me, + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + From the same place, on December 2d, he writes to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “I received last night, dear Mary, your letter of the 12th, and am + delighted to learn that you are all well and so many of you are together. + I am much pleased that Fitzhugh has an opportunity to be with you all and + will not be so far removed from his home in his new field of action. I + hope to see him at the head of a find regiment and that he will be able to + do good service in the cause of his country. If Mary and Rob get to you + Christmas, you will have quite a family party, especially if Fitzhugh is + not obliged to leave his home and sweet wife before that time. I shall + think of you all on that holy day more intensely than usual, and shall + pray to the great God of Heaven to shower His blessings upon you in this + world, and to unite you all in His courts in the world to come. With a + grateful heart I thank Him for His preservation thus far, and trust to His + mercy and kindness for the future. Oh, that I were more worthy, more + thankful for all He has done and continues to do for me! Perry and + Meredith [his two coloured servants] send their respects to all.... + </p> + <p> + “Truly and affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + From the same place, on Christmas Day, he writes to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “I cannot let this day of grateful rejoicing pass, dear Mary, without some + communication with you. I am thankful for the many among the past that I + have passed with you, and the remembrance of them fills me with pleasure. + For those on which we have been separated we must not repine. Now we must + be content with the many blessings we receive. If we can only become + sensible of our transgressions, so as to be fully penitent and forgiven, + that this heavy punishment under which we labour may with justice be + removed from us and the whole nation, what a gracious consummation of all + that we have endured it will be! + </p> + <p> + “I hope you had a pleasant visit to Richmond.... If you were to see this + place, I think you would have it, too. I am here but little myself. The + days I am not here I visit some point exposed to the enemy, and after our + dinner at early candle-light, am engaged in writing till eleven or twelve + o’clock at night.... AS to our old home, if not destroyed, it will be + difficult ever to be recognised. Even if the enemy had wished to preserve + it, it would almost have been impossible. With the number of troops + encamped around it, the change of officers, etc., the want of fuel, + shelter, etc., and all the dire necessities of war, it is vain to think of + its being in a habitable condition. I fear, too, books, furniture, and the + relics of Mount Vernon will be gone. It is better to make up our minds to + a general loss. They cannot take away the remembrance of the spot, and the + memories of those that to us rendered it sacred. That will remain to us as + long as life will last, and that we can preserve. In the absence of a + home, I wish I could purchase ‘Stratford.’ That is the only other place + that I could go to, now accessible to us, that would inspire me with + feelings of pleasure and local love. You and the girls could remain there + in quiet. It is a poor place, but we could make enough cornbread and bacon + for our support, and the girls could weave us clothes. I wonder if it is + for sale and at how much. Ask Fitzhugh to try to find out, when he gets to + Fredericksburg. You must not build your hopes on peace on account of the + United States going into a war with England [on account of the Trent + affair]. She will be very loath to do that, notwithstanding the bluster of + the Northern papers. Her rulers are not entirely mad, and if they find + England is in earnest, and that war or a restitution of their captives + must be the consequence, they will adopt the latter. We must make up our + minds to fight our battles and win our independence alone. No one will + help us. We require no extraneous aid, if true to ourselves. But we must + be patient. It is not a light achievement and cannot be accomplished at + once.... I wrote a few days since, giving you all the news, and have now + therefore nothing to relate. The enemy is still quiet and increasing in + strength. We grow in size slowly but are working hard. I have had a day of + labour instead of rest, and have written intervals to some of the + children. I hope they are with you, and inclose my letters.... + </p> + <p> + “Affectionately and truly, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In the next letter to my mother he describes a visit to the grave of his + father at Dungeness, on Cumberland Island, Georgia. Dungeness was + presented to General Nathaniel Green by the State of Georgia for services + rendered her in the Revolution. General Henry Lee, returning from the West + Indies, where he had been for some months on account of his health, landed + there, and in a few days died, March 15, 1818. He was most kindly cared + for by the daughter of his old commander, and was buried there in the + garden of Dungeness. At the time of my father’s visit the place belonged + to a great-nephew of General Green, Mr. Nightingale. + </p> + <p> + “Coosawhatchie, South Carolina, January 18, 1862. + </p> + <p> + “On my return, day before yesterday, from Florida, dear Mary, I received + your letter of the 1st inst. I am very glad to find that you had a + pleasant family meeting Christmas, and that it was so large. I am truly + grateful for all the mercies we enjoy, notwithstanding the miseries of + war, and join heartily in the wish that the next year may find us at peace + with all the world. I am delighted to hear that our little grandson [his + first grandchild—son of my brother Fitzhugh. He died in 1863] is + improving so fast and is becoming such a perfect gentleman. May his path + be strewn with flowers and his life with happiness. I am very glad to hear + also that his dear papa is promoted. It will be gratifying to him and + increase, I hope, his means of usefulness. Robert wrote me he saw him on + his way through Charlottesville with his squadron, and that he was well. + While at Fernandina I went over to Cumberland Island and walked up to + ‘Dungeness,’ the former residence of General Green. It was my first visit + to the house, and I had the gratification at length of visiting my + father’s grave. He died there, you may recollect, on his way from the West + Indies, and was interred in one corner of the family cemetery. The spot is + marked by a plain marble slab, with his name, age, and her daughter, Mrs. + Shaw, and her husband. The place is at present owned by Mr. Nightingale, + nephew of Mrs. Shaw, who married a daughter of Mr. James King. The family + have moved into the interior of Georgia, leaving only a few servants and a + white gardener on the place. The garden was beautiful, inclosed by the + finest hedge I have ever seen. It was of the wild olive, which, in Mrs. + Shaw’s lifetime, during my tour of duty in Savannah in early life, was so + productive, had been destroyed by an insect that has proved fatal to the + orange on the coast of Georgia and Florida. There was a fine grove of + olives, from which, I learn, Mr. Nightingale procures oil. The garden was + filled with roses and beautiful vines, the names of which I do not know. + Among them was the tomato-vine in full bearing, with the ripe fruit on it. + There has yet been no frost in that region of country this winter. I went + in the dining-room and parlour, in which the furniture still remained.... + The house has never been finished, but is a fine, large one and + beautifully located. A magnificent grove of live-oaks envelops the road + from the landing to the house.... Love to everybody and God bless you all. + </p> + <p> + “Truly and faithfully yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + From the same place there is another letter to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “Coosawhatchie, South Carolina, January 28, 1862. + </p> + <p> + “I have just returned from Charleston, and received your letter of the + 14th, dear Mary.... I was called to Charleston by the appearance off the + bar of a fleet of vessels the true character and intent of which could not + be discerned during the continuance of the storm which obscured the view. + Saturday, however, all doubt was dispelled, and from the beach on + Sullivan’s Island the preparations for sinking them were plainly seen. + Twenty-one were visible the first day of my arrival, but at the end of the + storm, Saturday, only seventeen were seen. Five of these were vessels of + war: what became of the other four is not known. The twelve old + merchantmen were being stripped of their spars, masts, etc., and by sunset + seven were prepared apparently for sinking across the mouth of the Maffitt + Channel, they were placed in a line about two hundred yards apart, about + four miles from Fort Moultrie. They will do but little harm to the + channel, I think, but may deter vessels from running out at night for fear + of getting on them. There now seem to be indications of a movement against + Savannah. The enemy’s gunboats are pushing up the creek to cut off + communication between the city and Fort Pulaski on Cockspur Island. Unless + I have better news, I must go there to-day. There are so many points of + attack, and so little means to meet them on the water, that there is but + little rest.... Perry and Meredith are well and send regards to + everybody.... + </p> + <p> + “Very truly and sincerely yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + It was most important that the defenses of Charleston and Savannah should + be made as strong as possible. The difficulties in the way were many and + great, but General Lee’s perseverance overcame most of them. The result + was that neither of those cities fell till the close of the war, and a + region of country was preserved to the Confederacy necessary for the + feeding of its armies. Of course all of this was not accomplished by my + father alone in the four months he was there; but the plans of defense he + laid down were successfully followed. + </p> + <p> + While in Savannah, he writes to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “Savannah, February 8, 1862. + </p> + <p> + “I wrote to you, dear Mary, the day I left Coosawhatchie for this place. I + have been here ever since, endeavouring to push forward the work for the + defense of the city, which has lagged terribly and which ought to have + been finished. But it is difficult to arouse ourselves from ease and + comfort to labour and self-denial. + </p> + <p> + “Guns are scarce, as well as ammunition, and I shall have to break up + batteries on the coast to provide, I fear, for this city. Our enemies are + endeavouring to work their way through the creeks that traverse the + impassable marshes stretching along the interior of the coast and + communicating with the sounds and sea, through which the Savannah flows, + and thus avoid the entrance of the river commanded by Fort Pulaski. Their + boats require only seven feet of water to float them, and the tide rises + seven feet, so that at high water they can work their way and rest on the + mud at low. They are also provided with dredges and appliances for + removing obstructions through the creeks in question, which cannot be + guarded by batteries. I hope, however, we shall be able to stop them, and + I daily pray to the Giver of all victories to enable us to do so.... I + trust you are all well and doing well, and wish I could do anything to + promote either. I have more here than I can do, and more, I fear, than I + can well accomplish. It is so very hard to get anything done, and while + all wish well and mean well, it is so different to get them to act + energetically and promptly.... The news from Kentucky and Tennessee is not + favourable, but we must make up our minds to meet with reverses and + overcome them. I hope God will at last crown our efforts with success. But + the contest must be long and severe, and the whole country has to go + through much suffering. It is necessary we should be humbled and taught to + be less boastful, less selfish, and more devoted to right and justice to + all the world.... Always yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + To my mother: + </p> + <p> + “Savannah, February 23, 1862. + </p> + <p> + “I have been wishing, dear Mary, to write to you for more than a week, but + every day and every hour seem so taken up that I have found it + impossible.... The news from Tennessee and North Carolina is not all + cheering, and disasters seem to be thickening around us. It calls for + renewed energies and redoubled strength on our part, and, I hope, will + produce it. I fear our soldiers have not realised the necessity for the + endurance and labour they are called upon to undergo, and that it is + better to sacrifice themselves than our cause. God, I hope, will shield us + and give us success. Here the enemy is progressing slowly in his designs, + and does not seem prepared, or to have determined when or where to make + his attack. His gunboats are pushing up all the creeks and marshes of the + Savannah, and have attained a position so near the river as to shell the + steamers navigating it. None have as yet been struck. I am engaged in + constructing a line of defense at Fort Jackson which, if time permits and + guns can be obtained, I hope will keep them out. They can bring such + overwhelming force in all their movements that it has the effect to + demoralise our new troops. The accounts given in the papers of the + quantity of cotton shipped to New York are, of course, exaggerated. It is + cotton in the seed and dirt, and has to be ginned and cleaned after its + arrival. It is said that the negroes are employed in picking and + collecting it, and are paid a certain amount. But all these things are + gathered from rumour, and can only be believed as they appear probable, + which this seems to be.... I went yesterday to church, being the day + appointed for fasting and prayer. I wish I could have passed it more + devoutly. The bishop (Elliott) gave a most beautiful prayer for the + President, which I hope may be heard and answered.... Here the yellow + jasmine, red-bud, orange-tree, etc., perfume the whole woods, and the + japonicas and azaleas cover the garden. Perry and Meredith are well. May + God bless and keep you always is the constant prayer of your husband, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + To his daughter Annie: + </p> + <p> + “Savannah, March 2, 1862. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Annie: It has been a long time since I have written to you, + but you have been constantly in my thoughts. I think of you all, + separately and collectively, in the busy hours of the day and the silent + hours of the night, and the recollection of each and every one whiles away + the long night, in which my anxious thoughts drive away sleep. But I + always feel that you and Agnes at those times are sound asleep, and that + is immaterial to either where the blockaders are or what their progress is + in the river. I hope you are all well, and as happy as you can be in these + perilous times to our country. They look dark at present, and it is plain + we have not suffered enough, laboured enough, repented enough, to deserve + success. But they will brighten after awhile, and I trust that a merciful + God will arouse us to a sense of our danger, bless our honest efforts, and + drive back our enemies to their homes. Our people have not been earnest + enough, have thought too much of themselves and their ease, and instead of + turning out to a man, have been content to nurse themselves and their + dimes, and leave the protection of themselves and families to others. To + satisfy their consciences, they have been clamorous in criticising what + others have done, and endeavoured to prove that they ought to do nothing. + This is not the way to accomplish our independence. I have been doing all + I can with our small means and slow workmen to defend the cities and coast + here. Against ordinary numbers we are pretty strong, but against the hosts + our enemies seem able to bring everywhere there is no calculating. But if + our men will stand to their work, we shall give them trouble and damage + them yet. They have worked their way across the marshes, with their + dredges, under cover of their gunboats, to the Savannah River, about Fort + Pulaski. I presume they will endeavour to reduce the fort and thus open a + way for their vessels up the river. But we have an interior line they must + force before reaching the city. It is on this line we are working, slowly + to my anxious mind, but as fast as I can drive them.... Good-bye, my dear + child. May God bless you and our poor country. + </p> + <p> + “Your devoted father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Soon after this letter was written my father was recalled to Richmond, + “and was assigned on the 13th of March, under the direction of the + President, to the conduct of the military operations of all the armies of + the Confederate States” [“Four Years with General Lee”]. My mother was + still at the White House, my brother’s place on the Pamunkey, and there my + father wrote to her: + </p> + <p> + “Richmond, March 14, 1862. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I have been trying all the week to write to you, but have + not been able. I have been placed on duty here to conduct operations under + the direction of the President. It will give me great pleasure to do + anything I can to relieve him and serve the country, but I do not see + either advantage or pleasure in my duties. But I will not complain, but do + my best. I do not see at present either that it will enable me to see much + more of you. In the present condition of affairs no one can foresee what + may happen, nor in my judgement is it advisable for any one to make + arrangements with a view to permanency or pleasure. The presence of some + one at the White House is necessary as long as practicable. How long it + will be practicable for you an Charlotte to remain there I cannot say. The + enemy is pushing us back in all directions, and how far he will be + successful depends much upon our efforts and the mercy of Providence. I + shall, in all human probability, soon have to take the field, so for the + present I think things had better remain as they are. Write me your views. + If you think it best for you to come to Richmond I can soon make + arrangements for your comfort and shall be very glad of your company and + presence. We have experienced a great affliction both in our private and + public relations. Our good and noble Bishop Meade died last night. He was + very anxious to see you, sent you his love and kindest remembrances, and + had I known in time yesterday I should have sent expressly for you to come + up. But I did not know of his wish or condition till after the departure + of the cars yesterday. Between 6 and 7 P. M. yesterday he sent for me, + said he wished to bid me good-bye, and to give me his blessing, which he + did in the most affecting manner. Called me Robert and reverted to the + time I used to say the catechism to him. He invoked the blessing of God + upon me and the country. He spoke with difficulty and pain, but was + perfectly calm and clear. His hand was then cold and pulseless, yet he + shook mine warmly. ‘I ne’er shall look upon his like again.’ He died + during the night. I presume the papers of to-morrow will tell you all.... + </p> + <p> + “Very truly and sincerely, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The next day he again writes to my mother. + </p> + <p> + “Richmond, March 15, 1861. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I wrote you yesterday by mail. On returning to my quarters + last night after 11 P. M. Custis informed me Robert had arrived and had + made up his mind to go into the army. He stayed at the Spottswood, and + this morning I went with him to get his overcoat, blankets, etc. There is + great difficulty in procuring what is good. They all have to be made, and + he has gone to the office of the adjutant-general of Virginia to engage in + the service. God grant it may be for his good as He has permitted it. I + must be resigned. I told him of the exemption granted by the Secretary of + War to the professors and students of the university, but he expressed no + desire to take advantage of it. It would be useless for him to go, if he + did not improve himself, nor would I wish him to go merely for exemption. + As I have done all in the matter that seems proper and right, I must now + leave the rest in the hands of our merciful God. I hope our son will do + his duty and make a good soldier.... I had expected yesterday to go to + North Carolina this morning, but the President changed his mind. I should + like to go to see you to-morrow, but in the present condition of things do + not feel that I ought to be absent.... I may have to go to North Carolina + or Norfolk yet. New Berne, N. C., has fallen into the hands of the enemy. + In Arkansas our troops under Van Dorn have had a hard battle, but nothing + decisive gained. Four generals killed—McIntosh, McCullogh, Herbert, + and Slack. General Price wounded. Loss on both sides said to be heavy.... + </p> + <p> + “Very truly yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0028" id="link2HCH0028"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter IV — Army Life of Robert the Younger + </h2> + <p> + Volunteer in Rockbridge Artillery—“Four Years with General Lee” + quoted—Meeting between father and son—Personal characteristics + of the General—Death of his daughter Annie—His son Robert + raised from the ranks—the horses, “Grace Darling” and “Traveller”—Fredricksburg—Freeing + slaves + </p> + <p> + Like all the students at the university, I was wild to go into the army, + and wrote my father that I was afraid the war would be over before I had a + chance to serve. His reply was that I need have no fear of that + contingency, that I must study hard and fit myself to be useful to my + country when I was old enough to be of real service to her; so, very + properly, I was not allowed to have my wish then. In a letter to my mother + written April, ‘61, he says: + </p> + <p> + “I wrote to Robert that I could not consent to take boys from their + schools and young men from their colleges and put them in the ranks at the + beginning of a war, when they are not wanted and when there are men enough + for that purpose. The war may last ten years. Where are our ranks to be + filled from then? I was willing for his company to continue at their + studies, to keep up its organisation, and to perfect themselves in their + military exercises, and to perform duty at the college; but NOT to be + called into the field. I therefore wished him to remain. If the exercises + at the college are suspended, he can then come home....” + </p> + <p> + But in the spring of ‘62 he allowed me to volunteer, and I having selected + the company I wished to join, the Rockbridge Artillery, he gave his + approval, and wrote me to come to Richmond, where he would give me my + outfit. He was just as sweet and loving to me then as in the old days. I + had seen so little of him during the last six years that I stood somewhat + in awe of him. I soon found, however, that I had no cause for such a + feeling. He took great pains in getting what was necessary for me. The + baggage of a private in a Confederate battery was not extensive. How + little was needed my father, even at that time, did not know, for though + he was very careful in providing me with the least amount he thought + necessary, I soon found by experience that he had given me a great deal + too much. It was characteristic of his consideration for others and the + unselfishness of his nature, that at this time, when weighed down, + harassed and burdened by the cares incident to bringing the untrained + forces of the Confederacy into the field, and preparing them for a + struggle the seriousness of which he knew better than any one, he should + give his time and attention to the minute details of fitting out his + youngest son as a private soldier. I think it worthy of note that the son + of the commanding general enlisting as a private in his army was not + thought to be anything remarkable or unusual. Neither my mother, my + family, my friends nor myself expected any other course, and I do not + suppose it ever occurred to my father to think of giving me an office, + which he could easily have done. I know it never occurred to me, nor did I + ever hear, at that time or afterwards, from anyone, that I might have been + entitled to better rank than that of a private because of my father’s + prominence in Virginia and in the Confederacy. With the good advice to be + obedient to all authority, to do my duty in everything, great or small, he + bade me good-bye, and sent me off to the Valley of Virginia, where the + command in which I was about to enlist were serving under “Stonewall + Jackson.” + </p> + <p> + Of my father’s military duties at this time, Colonel Taylor, in his “Four + Years with General Lee,” says: + </p> + <p> + “Exercising a constant supervision over the condition of affairs at each + important point, thoroughly informed as to the resources and necessities + of the several commanders of armies in the field, as well as of the + dangers which respectively threatened them, he was enabled to give them + wise counsel, to offer them valuable suggestions, and to respond to their + demands for assistance and support to such extent as the limited resources + of the government would permit. It was in great measure due to his advice + and encouragement that General Magruder so stoutly and so gallantly held + his lines on the Peninsula against General McClellan until troops could be + sent to his relief from General Johnston’s army. I recollect a telegraphic + despatch received by General Lee from General Magruder, in which he stated + that a council of war which he had convened had unanimously determined + that his army should retreat, in reply to which General Lee urged him to + maintain his lines, and to make as bold a front as possible, and + encouraged him with the prospect of being reinforced. No better + illustration of the nature and importance of the duty performed by General + Lee, while in this position, can be given than the following letter—one + of a number of similar import—written by him to General Jackson, the + ‘rough’ or original draft of which is still in my possession: + </p> + <p> + “‘Headquarters, Richmond, Virginia, April 29, 1862. + </p> + <p> + “‘Major-General T. J. Jackson, commanding, etc., Swift Run Gap, Virginia. + </p> + <p> + “‘General: I have had the honour to receive your letter of yesterday’s + date. From the reports that reach me that are entitled to credit, the + force of the enemy opposite Fredericksburg is represented as too large to + admit of any diminution whatever of our army in that vicinity at present, + as it might not only invite an attack on Richmond, but jeopard the safety + of the army in the Peninsula. I regret, therefore, that your request to + have five thousand men sent from that army to reinforce you cannot be + complied with. Can you not draw enough from the command of General Edward + Johnson to warrant you in attacking Banks? The last return received from + that army show a present force of upward of thirty-five hundred, which, it + is hoped, has since increased by recruits and returned furloughs. As he + does not appear to be pressed, it is suggested that a portion of his force + might be temporarily removed from its present position and made available + for the movement in question. A decisive and successful blow at Banks’s + column would be fraught with the happiest results, and I deeply regret my + inability to send you the reinforcements you ask. If, however, you think + the combined forces of Generals Ewell and Johnson, with your own, + inadequate for the move, General Ewell might, with the assistance of + General Anderson’s army near Fredericksburg, strike at McDowell’s army + between that city and Acquia, with much promise of success; provided you + feel sufficiently strong alone to hold Banks in check. + </p> + <p> + “‘Very truly yours, + </p> + <p> + “‘R. E. Lee.’ + </p> + <p> + “The reader will observe that this letter bears the date ‘April 29, 1862.’ + On May 5th or 6th, General Jackson formed a junction between his own + command and that of General Edward Johnson; on May 8th, he defeated Milroy + at McDowell. Soon thereafter, the command of General Ewell was united to + that already under Jackson, and on the 25th of the same month Banks was + defeated and put to flight. Other incidents might be cited to illustrate + this branch of the important service rendered at this period by General + Lee. The line of earthworks around the city of Richmond, and other + preparations for resisting an attack, testified to the immense care and + labour bestowed upon the defense of the capital, so seriously threatened + by the army of General McClellan.” + </p> + <p> + On May 31st, the battle of Seven Pines was fought, and General Joseph E. + Johnston, commanding the Confederate Army, was severely wounded. The next + day, by order of the President, General Lee took command of the Army of + Northern Virginia. + </p> + <p> + The day after the battle of Cold Harbor, during the “Seven Days” fighting + around Richmond, was the first time I met my father after I had joined + General Jackson. The tremendous work Stonewall’s men had performed, + including the rapid march from the Valley of Virginia, the short rations, + the bad water, and the great heat, had begun to tell upon us, and I was + pretty well worn out. On this particular morning, my battery had not moved + from its bivouac ground of the previous night, but was parked in an open + field all ready, waiting orders. Most of the men were lying down, many + sleeping, myself among the latter number. To get some shade and to be out + of the way, I had crawled under a caisson, and was busy making up many + lost hours of rest. Suddenly I was rudely awakened by a comrade, prodding + me with a sponge-staff as I had failed to be aroused by his call, and was + told to get up and come out, that some one wished to see me. Half awake, I + staggered out, and found myself face to face with General Lee and his + staff. Their fresh uniforms, bright equipments and well-groomed horses + contrasted so forcibly with the war-worn appearance of our command that I + was completely dazed. It took me a moment or two to realise what it all + meant, but when I saw my father’s loving eyes and smile it became clear to + me that he had ridden by to see if I was safe and to ask how I was getting + along. I remember well how curiously those with him gazed at me, and I am + sure that it must have struck them as very odd that such a dirty, ragged, + unkempt youth could have been the son of this grand-looking victorious + commander. + </p> + <p> + I was introduced recently to a gentleman, now living in Washington, who, + when he found out my name, said he had met me once before and that it was + on this occasion. At that time he was a member of the Tenth Virginia + Infantry, Jackson’s Division, and was camped near our battery. Seeing + General Lee and staff approach, he, with others, drew near to have a look + at them, and thus witnessed the meeting between father and son. He also + said that he had often told of this incident as illustrating the peculiar + composition of our army. + </p> + <p> + After McClellan’s change of base to Harrison’s Landing on James River, the + army lay inactive around Richmond. I had a short furlough on account of + sickness, and saw my father; also my mother and sisters, who were then + living in Richmond. He was the same loving father to us all, as kind and + thoughtful of my mother, who as an invalid, and of us, his children, as if + our comfort and happiness were all he had to care for. His great victory + did not elate him, so far as one could see. In a letter of July 9th, to my + mother, he says: + </p> + <p> + “...I have returned to my old quarters and am filled with gratitude to our + Heavenly Father for all the mercies He has extended to us. Our success has + not been so great or complete as we could have desired, but God knows what + is best for us. Our enemy met with a heavy loss, from which it must take + him some time to recover, before he can recommence his operations....” + </p> + <p> + The honourable Alexander H. Stephens, Vice-President of the Confederate + States, says of General Lee: + </p> + <p> + “What I had seen General lee to be at first—child-like in simplicity + and unselfish in his character—he remained, unspoiled by praise and + by success.” + </p> + <p> + He was the same in victory or defeat, always calm and contained. Jackson, + having had a short rest, was now moved up to Gordonsville. I rejoined my + command and went with him, supplied with new clothes and a fresh stock of + health. In a letter to his three daughters who were in North Carolina, + dated Richmond, July 18, 1862, he writes describing my condition: + </p> + <p> + “Rob came out to see me one afternoon. He had been much worn down by his + marching and fighting, and had gone to his mamma to get a little rest. He + was thin but well, but, not being able to get a clean shirt, has not gone + to see Miss Norvell. He has rejoined his company and gone off with General + Jackson, as good as new again, I hope, inasmuch as your mother thought, by + means of a bath and a profusion of soap, she had cleansed the outward man + considerably, and replenished his lost wardrobe.” + </p> + <p> + From Gordonsville we were moved on to Orange County, and then commenced + that series of manoeuvres by the Army of Northern Virginia, beginning with + the battle of Cedar Mountain and ending with second Manassas. + </p> + <p> + When I again saw my father, he rode at the head of Longstreet’s men on the + field of Manassas, and we of Jackson’s corps, hard pressed for two days, + welcomed him and the divisions which followed him with great cheers. Two + rifle-guns from our battery had been detached and sent to join + Longstreet’s advance artillery, under General Stephen D. Lee, moving into + action on our right. I was “Number 1” at one of these guns. We advanced + rapidly, from hill to hill, firing as fast as we could, trying to keep + ahead of our gallant comrades, just arrived. As we were ordered to cease + firing from the last position we took, and the breathless cannoneers were + leaning on their guns, General Lee and staff galloped up, and from this + point of vantage scanned the movements of the enemy and of our forces. The + general reined in “Traveller” close by my gun, not fifteen feet from me. I + looked at them all some few minutes, and then went up and spoke to Captain + Mason of the staff, who had not the slightest idea who I was. When he + found me out he was greatly amused, and introduced me to several others + whom I already knew. My appearance was even less prepossessing that when I + had met my father at Cold Harbour, for I had been marching night and day + for four days, with no opportunity to wash myself or my clothes; my face + and hands were blackened with powder-sweat, and the few garments I had on + were ragged and stained with the red soil of that section. When the + General, after a moment or two, dropped his glass to his side, and turned + to his staff, Captain Mason said: + </p> + <p> + “General, here is some one who wants to speak to you.” + </p> + <p> + The General, seeing a much-begrimed artillery-man, sponge-staff in hand, + said: + </p> + <p> + “Well, my many, what can I do for you?” I replied: + </p> + <p> + “Why, General, don’t you know me?” and he, of course, at once recognised + me, and was very much amused at my appearance and most glad to see that I + was safe and well. + </p> + <p> + We, of the ranks, used to have our opinions on all subjects. The armies, + their generals, and their manoeuvres were freely discussed. If there was + one point on which the entire army was unanimous—I speak of the rank + and file—it was that we were not in the least afraid of General + Pope, but were perfectly sure of whipping him whenever we could meet him. + The passages I quote here from two of General Lee’s letters indicate that + this feeling may possibly have extended to our officers. In a letter to my + mother, from near Richmond, dated July 28, 1862, he says: + </p> + <p> + “...When you write to Rob, tell him to catch Pope for me, and also bring + in his cousin, Louis Marshall, who, I am told, is on his staff. I could + forgive the latter’s fighting against us, but not his joining Pope.” + </p> + <p> + And again: + </p> + <p> + “...Johnny Lee [his nephew] saw Louis Marshall after Jackson’s last + battle, who asked him kindly after his old uncle, and said his mother was + well. Johnny said Louis looked wretched himself. I am sorry he is in such + bad company, but I suppose he could not help it.” + </p> + <p> + As one of the Army of Northern Virginia, I occasionally saw the + commander-in-chief, on the march, or passed the headquarters close enough + to recognise him and members of his staff, but as a private soldier in + Jackson’s corps did not have much time, during that campaign, for + visiting, and until the battle of Sharpsburg I had no opportunity of + speaking to him. On that occasion our battery had been severely handled, + losing many men and horses. Having three guns disabled, we were ordered to + withdraw, and while moving back we passed General Lee and several of his + staff, grouped on a little knoll near the road. Having no definite orders + where to go, our captain, seeing the commanding general, halted us and + rode over to get some instructions. Some others and myself went along to + see and hear. General Lee was dismounted with some of his staff around + him, a courier holding his horse. Captain Poague, commanding our battery, + the Rockbridge Artillery, saluted, reported our condition, and asked for + instructions. The General, listening patiently looked at us—his eyes + passing over me without any sign of recognition—and then ordered + Captain Poague to take the most serviceable horses and men, man the + uninjured gun, send the disabled part of his command back to refit, and + report to the front for duty. As Poague turned to go, I went up to speak + to my father. When he found out who I was, he congratulated me on being + well and unhurt. I then said: + </p> + <p> + “General, are you going to send us in again?” + </p> + <p> + “Yes, my son,” he replied, with a smile; “you all must do what you can to + help drive these people back.” + </p> + <p> + This meeting between General Lee and his son has been told very often and + in many different ways, but the above is what I remember of the + circumstances. + </p> + <p> + He was much on foot during this part of the campaign, and moved about + either in an ambulance or on horseback, with a courier leading his horse. + The accident which temporarily disabled him happened before he left + Virginia. He had dismounted, and was sitting on a fallen log, with the + bridle reins hung over his arm. Traveller, becoming frightened at + something, suddenly dashed away, threw him violently to the ground, + spraining both hands and breaking a small bone in one of them. A letter + written some weeks afterward to my mother alludes to this meeting with his + son, and to the condition of his hands: + </p> + <p> + “...I have not laid eyes on Rob since I saw him in the battle of + Sharpsburg—going in with a single gun of his for the second time, + after his company had been withdrawn in consequence of three of its guns + having been disabled. Custis has seen him and says he is very well, and + apparently happy and content. My hands are improving slowly, and, with my + left hand, I am able to dress and undress myself, which is a great + comfort. My right is becoming of some assistance, too, thought it is still + swollen and sometimes painful. The bandages have been removed. I am now + able to sign my name. It has been six weeks to-day since I was injured, + and I have at last discarded the sling.” + </p> + <p> + After the army recrossed the Potomac into Virginia, we were camped for + some time in the vicinity of Winchester. One beautiful afternoon in + October, a courier from headquarters rode up to our camp, found me out, + and handed me a note from my father. It told me of the death of my sister + Annie. As I have lost this letter to me, I quote from one to my mother + about the same time. It was dated October 26, 1862: + </p> + <p> + “...I cannot express the anguish I feel at the death of our sweet Annie. + To know that I shall never see her again on earth, that her place in our + circle, which I always hoped one day to enjoy, is forever vacant, is + agonising in the extreme. But God in this, as in all things, has mingled + mercy with the blow, in selecting that one best prepared to leave us. May + you be able to join me in saying ‘His will be done!’ ...I know how much + you will grieve and how much she will be mourned. I wish I could give you + any comfort, but beyond our hope in the great mercy of God, and the belief + that he takes her at the time and place when it is best for her to go, + there is none. May that same mercy be extended to us all, and may we be + prepared for His summons.” + </p> + <p> + In a letter to my sister Mary, one month later, from “Camp near + Fredericksburg”: + </p> + <p> + “...The death of my dear Annie was, indeed, to me a bitter pang, but ‘the + Lord gave and the Lord has taken away: blessed be the name of the Lord.’ + In the quiet hours of the night, when there is nothing to lighten the full + weight of my grief, I feel as if I should be overwhelmed. I have always + counted, if God should spare me a few days after this Civil War has ended, + that I should have her with me, but year after year my hopes go out, and I + must be resigned....” + </p> + <p> + To this daughter whose loss grieved him so he was specially devoted. She + died in North Carolina, at the Warren White Sulphur Springs. At the close + of the war, the citizens of the county erected over her grave a handsome + monument. General lee was invited to be present at the ceremonies of the + unveiling. In his reply, he says: + </p> + <p> + “...I have always cherished the intention of visiting the tomb of her who + never gave me aught but pleasure;... Though absent in person, my heart + will be with you, and my sorrow and devotions will be mingled with + yours.... I inclose, according to your request, the date of my daughter’s + birth and the inscription proposed for the monument over her tomb. The + latter are the last lines of the hymn which she asked for just before her + death.” + </p> + <p> + A visitor to her grave, some years after the war, thus describes it: + </p> + <p> + “In the beautiful and quiet graveyard near the Springs a plain shaft of + native granite marks the grave of this beloved daughter. On one side is + cut in the stone, ‘Annie C. Lee, daughter of General R. E. Lee and Mary C. + Lee’—and on the opposite—‘Born at Arlington, June 18, 1839, + and died at White Sulphur Springs, Warren County, North Carolina, Oct. 20, + 1862.’ On another side are the lines selected by her father, + </p> +<pre xml:space="preserve"> + “‘Perfect and true are all His ways + Whom heaven adores and earth obeys.’” + </pre> + <p> + That autumn I was offered the position of Lt. and A. D. C. on the staff of + my brother, W. H. F. Lee, just promoted from the colonelcy of the 9th + Virginia Cavalry to the command of a brigade in the same arm of the + service. My father had told me when I joined the army to do my whole duty + faithfully, not to be rash about volunteering for any service out of my + regular line, and always to accept promotion. After consulting him, it was + decided that I should take the position offered, and he presented me with + a horse and one of his swords. My promotion necessitated my having an + honourable discharge as a private, from the ranks, and this I obtained in + the proper way from General “Stonewall” Jackson, commanding the corps of + which my company was a part, and was thus introduced for the first time to + that remarkable man. Having served in his command since my enlistment, I + had been seeing him daily. “Old Jack,” at a distance, was as familiar to + me as one of the battery guns, but I had never met him, and felt much awe + at being ushered into his presence. This feeling, however, was groundless, + for he was seemingly so much embarrassed by the interview that I really + felt sorry for him before he dismissed me with my discharge papers, + properly made out and signed. + </p> + <p> + I had received a letter from my father telling me to come to him as soon + as I had gotten my discharge from my company, so I proceeded at once to + his headquarters, which were situated near Orange Court House, on a wooded + hill just east of the village. I found there the horse which he gave me. + She was a daughter of his mare, “Grace Darling,” and, though not so + handsome as her mother, she inherited many of her good qualities and + carried me well until the end of the war and for thirteen years afterward. + She was four years old, a solid bay, and never failed me a single day + during three years’ hard work. The General was on the point of moving his + headquarters down to Fredericksburg, some of the army having already gone + forward to that city. I think the camp was struck the day after I arrived, + and as the General’s hands were not yet entirely well, he allowed me, as a + great favour, to ride his horse “Traveller.” Amongst the soldiers this + horse was as well known as was his master. He was a handsome iron-gray + with black points—mane and tail very dark—sixteen hands high, + and five years old. He was born near the White Sulphur Springs, West + Virginia, and attracted the notice of my father when he was in that part + of the State in 1861. He was never known to tire, and, though quiet and + sensible in general and afraid of nothing, yet if not regularly exercised, + he fretted a good deal especially in a crowd of horses. But there can be + no better description of this famous horse than the one given by his + master. It was dictated to his daughter Agnes at Lexington, Virginia, + after the war, in response to some artist who had asked for a description, + and was corrected in his own handwriting: + </p> + <p> + “If I were an artist like you I would draw a true picture of Traveller—representing + his fine proportions, muscular figure, deep chest and short back, strong + haunches, flat legs, small head, broad forehead, delicate ears, quick eye, + small feet, and black mane and tail. Such a picture would inspire a poet, + whose genius could then depict his worth and describe his endurance of + toil, hunger, thirst, heat, cold, and the dangers and sufferings through + which he passed. He could dilate upon his sagacity and affection, and his + invariable response to every wish of his rider. He might even imagine his + thoughts, through the long night marches and days of battle through which + he has passed. But I am no artist; I can only say he is a Confederate + gray. I purchased him in the mountains of Virginia in the autumn of 1861, + and he has been my patient follower ever since—to Georgia, the + Carolinas, and back to Virginia. He carried me through the Seven Days + battle around Richmond, the second Manassas, at Sharpsburg, + Fredericksburg, the last day at Chancellorsville, to Pennsylvania, at + Gettysburg, and back to the Rappahannock. From the commencement of the + campaign in 1864 at Orange, till its close around Petersburg, the saddle + was scarcely off his back, as he passed through the fire of the + Wilderness, Spottsylvania, Cold Harbour, and across the James River. He + was almost in daily requisition in the winter of 1864-65 on the long line + of defenses from Chickahominy, north of Richmond, to Hatcher’s Run, south + of the Appomattox. In the campaign of 1865, he bore me from Petersburg to + the final days at Appomattox Court House. You must know the comfort he is + to me in my present retirement. He is well supplied with equipments. Two + sets have been sent to him from England, one from the ladies of Baltimore, + and one was made for him in Richmond; but I think his favourite is the + American saddle from St. Louis. Of all his companions in toil, ‘Richmond,’ + ‘Brown Roan,’ ‘Ajax,’ and quiet ‘Lucy Long,’ he is the only one that + retained his vigour. The first two expired under their onerous burden, and + the last two failed. You can, I am sure, from what I have said, paint his + portrait.” + </p> + <p> + The general had the strongest affection for Traveller, which he showed on + all occasions, and his allowing me to ride him on this long march was a + great compliment. Possibly he wanted to give me a good hammering before he + turned me over to the cavalry. During my soldier life, so far, I had been + on foot, having backed nothing more lively than a tired artillery horse; + so I mounted with some misgivings, though I was very proud of my steed. My + misgivings were fully realised, for Traveller would not walk a step. He + took a short, high trot—a buck-trot, as compared with a buck-jump—and + kept it up to Fredericksburg, some thirty miles. Though young, strong, and + tough, I was glad when the journey ended. This was my first introduction + to the cavalry service. I think I am safe in saying that I could have + walked the distance with much less discomfort and fatigue. My father + having thus given me a horse and presented me with one of his swords, also + supplied my purse so that I could get myself an outfit suitable to my new + position, and he sent me on to join my command, stationed not far away on + the Rappahannock, southward from Fredericksburg. + </p> + <p> + As an officer in the cavalry on the staff, I had more frequent + opportunities of seeing my father than as a private in the artillery. In + the course of duty, I was sometimes sent to him to report the condition of + affairs at the front, or on the flank of the army, and I also, + occasionally, paid him a visit. At these times, he would take me into his + tent, talk to me about my mother and sisters, about my horse and myself, + or the people and the country where my command happened to be stationed. I + think my presence was very grateful to him, and he seemed to brighten up + when I came. I remember, he always took it as a matter of course that I + must be hungry (and I was for three years), so he invariably made his + mess-steward, Bryan, give me something to eat, if I did not have time to + wait for the regular meal. His headquarters at this time, just before the + battle of Fredericksburg and after, were at a point on the road between + Fredericksburg and Hamilton’s Crossing, selected on account of its + accessibility. Notwithstanding there was near-by a good house vacant, he + lived in his tents. His quarters were very unpretentious, consisting of + three or four “wall-tents” and several more common ones. They were pitched + on the edge of an old pine field, near a grove of forest trees from which + he drew his supply of fire-wood, while the pines helped to shelter his + tents and horses from the cold winds. Though from the outside they were + rather dismal, especially through the dreary winter time, within they were + cheerful, and the surroundings as neat and comfortable as possible under + the circumstances. + </p> + <p> + On November 24, 1862, in a letter to his daughter Mary, he writes: + </p> + <p> + “...General Burnside’s whole army is apparently opposite Fredericksburg + and stretches from the Rappahannock to the Potomac. What his intentions + are he has not yet disclosed. I am sorry he is in position to oppress our + friends and citizens of the Northern Neck. He threatens to bombard + Fredericksburg, and the noble spirit displayed by its citizens, + particularly the women and children, has elicited my highest admiration. + They have been abandoning their homes, night and day, during all this + inclement weather, cheerfully and uncomplainingly, with only such + assistance as our wagons and ambulances could afford, women, girls, + children, trudging through the mud and bivouacking in the open fields.” + </p> + <p> + How the battle of Fredericksburg was fought and won all the world has + heard, and I shall not attempt to describe it. On December 11th, the day + Burnside commenced his attack, General Lee wrote to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “...The enemy, after bombarding the town of Fredericksburg, setting fire + to many houses and knocking down nearly all those along the river, crossed + over a large force about dark, and now occupies the town. We hold the + hills commanding it, and hope we shall be able to damage him yet. His + position and heavy guns command the town entirely.” + </p> + <p> + On December 16th, in another letter to my mother, he tells of the + recrossing of the Federals: + </p> + <p> + “I had supposed they were just preparing for battle, and was saving our + men for the conflict. Their hosts crown the hill and plain beyond the + river, and their numbers to me are unknown. Still I felt the confidence we + could stand the shock, and was anxious for the blow that is to fall on + some point, and was prepared to meet it here. Yesterday evening I had my + suspicions that they might return during the night, but could not believe + they would relinquish their hopes after all their boasting and + preparation, and when I say that the latter is equal to the former you + will have some idea of the magnitude. This morning they were all safe on + the north side of the Rappahannock. They went as they came—in the + night. They suffered heavily as far as the battle went, but it did not go + far enough to satisfy me. Our loss was comparatively slight, and I think + will not exceed two thousand. The contest will have now to be renewed, but + on what field I cannot say.” + </p> + <p> + I did not see my father at any time during the fighting; some days after + it was all over, I saw him, as calm and composed as if nothing unusual had + happened, and he never referred to his great victory, except to deplore + the loss of his brave officers and soldiers or the sufferings of the sick + and wounded. He repeatedly referred to the hardships so bravely endured by + the inhabitants of Fredericksburg, who had been obliged to flee from the + town, the women and children, the old and the feeble, whose sufferings cut + him to the heart. On Christmas Day he writes to his youngest daughter, + Mildred, who was at school in North Carolina: + </p> + <p> + “...I cannot tell you how I long to see you when a little quiet occurs. My + thoughts revert to you, your sisters, and your mother; my heart aches for + our reunion. Your brothers I see occasionally. This morning Fitzhugh rode + by with his young aide-de-camp (Rob) at the head of his brigade, on his + way up the Rappahannock. You must study hard, gain knowledge, and learn + your duty to God and your neighbour: that is the great object of life. I + have no news, confined constantly to camp, and my thoughts occupied with + its necessities and duties. I am, however, happy in the knowledge that + General Burnside and army will not eat their promised Christmas dinner in + Richmond to-day.” + </p> + <p> + On the next day he writes as follows to his daughter Agnes, who was with + her mother in Richmond: + </p> + <p> + “Camp Fredericksburg, December 26, 1862. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Little Agnes: I have not heard of you for a long time. I wish + you were with me, for always solitary, I am sometimes weary, and long for + the reunion of my family once again. But I will not speak of myself, but + of you.... I have seen the ladies in this vicinity only when flying from + the enemy, and it caused me acute grief to witness their exposure and + suffering. But a more noble spirit was never displayed anywhere. The faces + of old and young were wreathed with smiles, and glowed with happiness at + their sacrifices for the good of their country. Many have lost EVERYTHING. + What the fire and shells of the enemy spared, their pillagers destroyed. + But God will shelter them, I know. So much heroism will not be unregarded. + I can only hold oral communication with your sister [His daughter Mary, in + King George county, within the lines of the enemy], and have forbidden the + scouts to bring any writing, and have taken some back that I had given + them for her. If caught, it would compromise them. They only convey + messages. I learn in that way she is well. + </p> + <p> + “Your devoted father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + I give another letter he wrote on Christmas Day, besides the one quoted + above, to his daughter, Mildred. It was written to his wife, and is + interesting as giving an insight into his private feelings and views + regarding this great victory: + </p> + <p> + “...I will commence this holy day by writing to you. My heart is filled + with gratitude to Almighty God for His unspeakable mercies with which He + has blessed us in this day, for those He has granted us from the beginning + of life, and particularly for those He has vouchsafed us during the past + year. What should have become of us without His crowning help and + protection? Oh, if our people would only recognise it and cease from vain + self-boasting and adulation, how strong would be my belief in final + success and happiness to our country! But what a cruel thing is war; to + separate and destroy families and friends, and mar the purest joys and + happiness God has granted us in this world; to fill our hearts with hatred + instead of love for our neighbours, and to devastate the fair face of this + beautiful world! I pray that, on this day when only peace and good-will + are preached to mankind, better thoughts may fill the hearts of our + enemies and turn them to peace. Our army was never in such good health and + condition since I have been attached to it. I believe they share with me + my disappointment that the enemy did not renew the combat on the 13th. I + was holding back all day and husbanding our strength and ammunition for + the great struggle, for which I thought I was preparing. Had I divined + that was to have been his only effort, he would have had more of it. My + heart bleeds at the death of every one of our gallant men.” + </p> + <p> + One marked characteristic of my father was his habit of attending to all + business matters promptly. He was never idle, and what he had to do he + performed with care and precision. Mr. Custis, my grandfather, had made + him executor of his will, wherein it was directed that all the slaves + belonging to the estate should be set free after the expiration of so many + years. The time had now arrived, and notwithstanding the exacting duties + of his position, the care of his suffering soldiers, and his anxiety about + their future, immediate and distant, he proceeded according to the law of + the land to carry out the provisions of the will, and had delivered to + every one of the servants, where it was possible, their manumission + papers. From his letters written at this time I give a few extracts + bearing on this subject: + </p> + <p> + “...As regards the liberation of the people, I wish to progress in it as + far as I can. Those hired in Richmond can still find employment there if + they choose. Those in the country can do the same or remain on the farms. + I hope they will all do well and behave themselves. I should like, if I + could, to attend to their wants and see them placed to the best advantage. + But that is impossible. All that choose can leave the State before the war + closes.... + </p> + <p> + “...I executed the deed of manumission sent me by Mr. Caskie, and returned + it to him. I perceived that John Sawyer and James’s names, among the + Arlington people, had been omitted, and inserted them. I fear there are + others among the White House lot which I did not discover. As to the + attacks of the Northern papers, I do not mind them, and do not think it + wise to make the publication you suggest. If all the names of the people + at Arlington and on the Pamunkey are not embraced in this deed I have + executed, I should like a supplementary deed to be drawn up, containing + all those omitted. They are entitled to their freedom and I wish to give + it to them. Those that have been carried away, I hope are free and happy; + I cannot get their papers to them, and they do not require them. I will + give them if they ever call for them. It will be useless to ask their + restitution to manumit them....” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0029" id="link2HCH0029"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter V — The Army of Northern Virginia + </h2> + <p> + The General’s sympathy for his suffering soldiers—Chancellorsville—Death + of “Stonewall” Jackson—General Fitzhugh Lee wounded and captured—Escape + of his brother Robert—Gettysburg—Religious revival—Infantry + review—Unsatisfactory commissariat + </p> + <p> + During this winter, which was a very severe one, the sufferings of General + Lee’s soldiers on account of insufficient shelter and clothing, the scant + rations for man and beast, the increasing destitution throughout the + country, and his inability to better these conditions, bore heavily upon + him. But he was bright and cheerful to those around him, never complaining + of any one nor about anything and often indulging in his quaint humour, + especially with the younger officers, as when he remarked to one of them, + who complained of the tough biscuit at breakfast: + </p> + <p> + “You ought not to mind that; they will stick by you the longer!” + </p> + <p> + His headquarters continued all the winter at the same place, and with + stove and fire-places in the tents, the General and his military family + managed to keep fairly comfortable. On February 6, 1863, he wrote to his + daughter, Agnes from this camp: + </p> + <p> + “Camp Fredericksburg, February 6, 1863. + </p> + <p> + “...I read yesterday, my precious daughter, your letter, and grieved very + much when last in Richmond at not seeing you. My movements are so + uncertain that I cannot be relied on for anything. The only place I am to + be found is in camp, and I am so cross now that I am not worth seeing + anywhere. Here you will have to take me with the three stools—the + snow, the rain, and the mud. The storm of the last twenty-four hours has + added to our stock of all, and we are now in a floating condition. But the + sun and the wind will carry all off in time, and then we shall appreciate + our relief. Our horses and mules suffer the most. They have to bear the + cold and rain, tug through the mud, and suffer all the time with hunger. + The roads are wretched, almost impassable. I heard of Mag lately. One of + our scouts brought me a card of Margaret Stuart’s with a pair of gauntlets + directed to ‘Cousin Robert.’... I have no news. General Hooker is obliged + to do something. I do not know what it will be. He is playing the Chinese + game, trying what frightening will do. He runs out his guns, starts his + wagons and troops up and down the river, and creates an excitement + generally. Our men look on in wonder, give a cheer, and all again subsides + in statu quo ante bellum. I wish you were here with me to-day. You would + have to sit by this little stove, look out at the rain, and keep yourself + dry. But here come, in all the wet, the adjutants-general with the papers. + I must stop and go to work. See how kind God is; we have plenty to do in + good weather and bad....” + </p> + <p> + “Your devoted father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + On February 23d, he writes to Mrs. Lee: + </p> + <p> + “Camp Fredericksburg, February 23, 1863. + </p> + <p> + “The weather is now very hard upon our poor bushmen. This morning the + whole country is covered with a mantle of snow fully a foot deep. It was + nearly up to my knees as I stepped out this morning, and our poor horses + were enveloped. We have dug them out and opened our avenues a little, but + it will be terrible and the roads impassable. No cars from Richmond + yesterday. I fear our short rations for man and horse will have to be + curtailed. Our enemies have their troubles too. They are very strong + immediately in front, but have withdrawn their troops above and below us + back toward Acquia Creek. I owe Mr. F. J. Hooker [“Fighting Joe” was + Hooker’s most popular sobriquet in the Federal army] no thanks for keeping + me here. He ought to have made up his mind long ago about what do to—24th. + The cars have arrived and brought me a young French officer, full of + vivacity, and ardent for service with me. I think the appearance of things + will cool him. If they do not, the night will, for he brought no blankets. + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The dreary winter gradually passed away. Toward the last of April, the two + armies, which had been opposite each other for four months, began to move, + and, about the first of May, the greatest of Lee’s battles was fought. My + command was on the extreme left, and, as Hooker crossed the river, we + followed a raiding party of the enemy’s cavalry over toward the James + River above Richmond; so I did not see my father at any time during the + several day’s fighting. The joy of our victory at Chancellorsville was + saddened by the death of “Stonewall” Jackson. His loss was the heaviest + blow the Army of Northern Virginia ever sustained. To Jackson’s note + telling him he was wounded, my father replied: + </p> + <p> + “I cannot express my regret at the occurance. Could I have directed + events, I should have chosen for the good of the country to have been + disabled in your stead. I congratulate you on the victory, which is due to + your skill and energy.” + </p> + <p> + Jackson said, when this was read to him, + </p> + <p> + “Better that ten Jacksons should fall than one Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Afterward, when it was reported that Jackson was doing well, General Lee + playfully sent him word: + </p> + <p> + “You are better off than I am, for while you have only lost your LEFT, I + have lost my RIGHT arm.” + </p> + <p> + Then, hearing that he was worse, he said: + </p> + <p> + “Tell him that I am praying for him as I believe I have never prayed for + myself.” + </p> + <p> + After his death, General Lee writes to my mother, on May 11th: + </p> + <p> + “...In addition to the deaths of officers and friends consequent upon the + late battles, you will see that we have to mourn the loss of the great and + good Jackson. Any victory would be dear at such a price. His remains go to + Richmond to-day. I know not how to replace him. God’s will be done! I + trust He will raise up some one in his place....” + </p> + <p> + Jones, in his Memoirs, says: “To one of his officers, after Jackson’s + death, he [General Lee] said: ‘I had such implicit confidence in Jackson’s + skill and energy that I never troubled myself to give him detailed + instructions. The most general suggestions were all that he needed.’” + </p> + <p> + To one of his aides, who came to his tent, April 29th, to inform him that + the enemy had crossed the Rappahannock River in heavy force, General Lee + made the playful reply: + </p> + <p> + “Well, I heard firing, and I was beginning to think it was time some of + you lazy young fellows were coming to tell me what it was all about. Say + to General Jackson that he knows just as well what to do with the enemy as + I do.” + </p> + <p> + Jackson said of Lee, when it was intimated by some, at the time he first + took command, that he was slow: + </p> + <p> + “He is cautious. He ought to be. But he is NOT slow. Lee is a phenomenon. + He is the only man whom I would follow blindfold.” + </p> + <p> + As the story of these great men year by year is made plainer to the world, + their love, trust, and respect for each other will be better understood. + As commander and lieutenant they were exactly suited. When General Lee + wanted a movement made and gave Jackson an outline of his plans and the + object to be gained, it was performed promptly, well, and thoroughly, if + it was possible for flesh and blood to do it. + </p> + <p> + At the end of May, the Army of Northern Virginia, rested and strengthened, + was ready for active operations. On May 31st General Lee writes to Mrs. + Lee: + </p> + <p> + “...General Hooker has been very daring this past week, and quite active. + He has not said what he intends to do, but is giving out by his movements + that he designs crossing the Rappahannock. I hope we may be able to + frustrate his plans, in part, if not in whole.... I pray that our merciful + Father in Heaven may protect and direct us! In that case, I fear no odds + and no numbers.” + </p> + <p> + About June 5th most of the army was gathered around Culpeper. Its + efficiency, confidence, and MORALE were never better. On June 7th the + entire cavalry corps was reviewed on the plain near Brandy Station in + Culpeper by General Lee. We had been preparing ourselves for this event + for some days, cleaning, mending and polishing, and I remember were very + proud of our appearance. In fact, it was a grand sight—about eight + thousand well-mounted men riding by their beloved commander, first passing + by him in a walk and then a trot. He writes to my mother next day—June + 8, 1863: + </p> + <p> + “...I reviewed the cavalry in this section yesterday. It was a splendid + sight. The men and horses looked well. They have recuperated since last + fall. Stuart [J. E. B. Stuart, commanding cavalry corps.] was in all his + glory. Your sons and nephews [two sons and three nephews] were well and + flourishing. The country here looks very green and pretty, notwithstanding + the ravages of war. What a beautiful world God, in His loving kindness to + His creatures, has given us! What a shame that men endowed with reason and + knowledge of right should mar His gifts....” + </p> + <p> + The next day, June 9th, a large force of the enemy’s cavalry, supported by + infantry, crossed the Rappahannock and attacked General Stuart. The + conflict lasted until dark, when “The enemy was compelled to recross the + river, with heavy loss, leaving about five hundred prisoners, three pieces + of artillery, and several colours in our hands.” + </p> + <p> + During the engagement, about 3 P. M., my brother, General W. H. F. Lee, my + commanding officer, was severely wounded. In a letter dated the 11th of + the month, my father writes to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “...My supplications continue to ascend for you, my children, and my + country. When I last wrote I did not suppose that Fitzhugh would be soon + sent to the rear disabled, and I hope it will be for a short time. I saw + him the night after the battle—indeed, met him on the field as they + were bringing him from the front. He is young and healthy, and I trust + will soon be up again. He seemed to be more concerned about his brave men + and officers, who had fallen in the battle, than about himself....” + </p> + <p> + It was decided, the next day, to send my brother to “Hickory Hill,” the + home of Mr. W. F. Wickham, in Hanover County, about twenty miles from + Richmond, and I was put in charge of him to take him there and to be with + him until his wound should heal. Thus it happened that I did not meet my + father again until after Gettysburg had been fought, and the army had + recrossed into Virginia, almost to the same place I had left it. My father + wrote my brother a note the morning after he was wounded, before he left + Culpeper. It shows his consideration and tenderness: + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Son: I send you a dispatch, received from C. last night. I hope + you are comfortable this morning. I wish I could see you, but I cannot. + Take care of yourself, and make haste and get well and return. Though I + scarcely ever saw you, it was a great comfort to know that you were near + and with me. I could think of you and hope to see you. May we yet meet in + peace and happiness....” + </p> + <p> + In a letter to my brother’s wife, written on the 11th, his love and + concern for both of them are plainly shown: + </p> + <p> + “I am so grieved, my dear daughter, to send Fitzhugh to you wounded. But I + am so grateful that his wound is of a character to give us full hope of a + speedy recovery. With his youth and strength to aid him, and your tender + care to nurse him, I trust he will soon be well again. I know that you + will unite with me in thanks to Almighty God, who has so often sheltered + him in the hour of danger, for his recent deliverance, and lift up your + whole heart in praise to Him for sparing a life so dear to us, while + enabling him to do his duty in the station in which he had placed him. Ask + him to join us in supplication that He may always cover him with the + shadow of His almighty arm, and teach him that his only refuge is in Him, + the greatness of whose mercy reacheth unto the heavens, and His truth unto + the clouds. As some good is always mixed with the evil in this world, you + will now have him with you for a time, and I shall look to you to cure him + soon and send him back to me....” + </p> + <p> + My brother reached “Hickory Hill” quite comfortably, and his wound + commenced to heal finely. His wife joined him, my mother and sisters came + up from Richmond, and he had all the tender care he could wish. He + occupied “the office” in the yard, while I slept in the room adjoining and + became quite an expert nurse. About two weeks after our arrival, one + lovely morning as we all came out from the breakfast table, stepping into + the front porch with Mrs. Wickham, we were much surprised to hear to or + three shots down in the direction of the outer gate, where there was a + large grove of hickory trees. Mrs. Wickham said some one must be after her + squirrels, as there were many in those woods and she asked me to run down + and stop whoever was shooting them. I got my hat, and at once started off + to do her bidding. I had not gone over a hundred yards toward the grove, + when I saw, coming up at a gallop to the gate I was making for, five or + six Federal cavalrymen. I knew what it meant at once, so I rushed back to + the office and told my brother. He immediately understood the situation + and directed me to get away—said I could do no good by staying, that + the soldiers could not and would not hurt him, and there was nothing to be + gained by my falling into their hands; but that, on the contrary, I might + do a great deal of good by eluding them, making my way to “North Wales,” a + plantation across the Pamunkey River, and saving our horses. + </p> + <p> + So I ran out, got over the fence and behind a thick hedge, just as I heard + the tramp and clank of quite a body of troopers riding up. Behind this + hedge I crept along until I reached a body of woods, were I was perfectly + safe. From a hill near by I ascertained that there was a large raiding + party of Federal cavalry in the main road, and the heavy smoke ascending + from the Court House, about three miles away, told me that they were + burning the railroad buildings at that place. After waiting until I + thought the coast was clear, I worked my way very cautiously back to the + vicinity of the house to find out what was going on. Fortunately, I took + advantage of the luxuriant shrubbery in the old garden at the rear of the + house, and when I looked out from the last box bush that screened me, + about twenty yards from the back porch, I perceived that I was too soon, + for there were standing, sitting and walking about quite a number of the + bluecoats. I jumped back behind the group of box trees, and, flinging + myself flat under a thick fir, crawled close up to the trunk under the + low-hanging branches, and lay there for some hours. + </p> + <p> + I saw my brother brought out from the office on a mattress, and placed in + the “Hickory Hill” carriage, to which was hitched Mr. Wichkam’s horses, + and then saw him driven away, a soldier on the box and a mounted guard + surrounding him. He was carried to the “White House” in this way, and then + sent by water to Fortress Monroe. This party had been sent out especially + to capture him, and he was held as a hostage (for the safety of some + Federal officers we had captured) for nine long, weary months. + </p> + <p> + The next day I found out that all the horses but one had been saved by the + faithfulness of our servants. The one lost, my brother’s favourite and + best horse, was ridden straight into the column by Scott, a negro servant, + who had him out for exercise. Before he knew our enemies, he and the horse + were prisoners. Scott watched for his opportunity, and, not being guarded, + soon got away. By crawling through a culvert, under the road, while the + cavalry was passing along, he made his way into a deep ditch in the + adjoining field, thence succeeded in reaching the farm where the rest of + the horses were, and hurried them off to a safe place in the woods, just + as the Federal cavalry rode up to get them. + </p> + <p> + In a letter dated Culpeper, July 26th, to my brother’s wife, my father + thus urges resignation: + </p> + <p> + “I received, last night, my darling daughter, your letter of the 18th from + ‘Hickory Hill.’... You must not be sick while Fitzhugh is away, or he will + be more restless under his separation. Get strong and hearty by his + return, that he may the more rejoice at the sight of you.... I can + appreciate your distress at Fitzhugh’s situation. I deeply sympathise with + it, and in the lone hours of the night I groan in sorrow at his captivity + and separation from you. But we must bear it, exercise all our patience, + and do nothing to aggravate the evil. This, besides injuring ourselves, + would rejoice our enemies and be sinful in the eyes of God. In His own + good time He will relieve us and make all things work together for our + good, if we give Him our love and place in Him our trust. I can see no + harm that can result from Fitzhugh’s capture, except his detention. I feel + assured that he will be well attended to. He will be in the hands of old + army officers and surgeons, most of whom are men of principle and + humanity. His wound, I understand, has not been injured by his removal, + but is doing well. Nothing would do him more harm than for him to learn + that you were sick and sad. How could he get well? So cheer up and prove + your fortitude and patriotism.... You may think of Fitzhugh and love him + as much as you please, but do not grieve over him or grow sad.” + </p> + <p> + From Williamsport, to my mother, he thus writes of his son’s capture: + </p> + <p> + “I have heard with great grief that Fitzhugh has been captured by the + enemy. Had not expected that he would be taken from his bed and carried + off, but we must bear this additional affliction with fortitude and + resignation, and not repine at the will of God. It will eventuate in some + good that we know not of now. We must bear our labours and hardships + manfully. Our noble men are cheerful and confident. I constantly remember + you in my thoughts and prayers.” + </p> + <p> + On July 12th, from near Hagerstown, he writes again about him: + </p> + <p> + “The consequences of war are horrid enough at best, surrounded by all the + ameliorations of civilisation and Christianity. I am very sorry for the + injuries done the family at Hickory Hill, and particularly that our dear + old Uncle Williams, in his eightieth year, should be subjected to such + treatment. But we cannot help it, and must endure it. You will, however, + learn before this reaches you that our success at Gettysburg was not so + great as reported—in fact, that we failed to drive the enemy from + his position, and that our army withdrew to the Potomac. Had the river not + unexpectedly risen, all would have been well with us; but God, in His + all-wise providence, willed otherwise, and our communications have been + interrupted and almost cut off. The waters have subsided to about four + feet, and, if they continue, by to-morrow, I hope, our communications will + be open. I trust that a merciful God, our only hope and refuge, will not + desert us in this hour of need, and will deliver us by His almighty hand, + that the whole world may recognise His power and all hearts be lifted up + in adoration and praise of His unbounded loving-kindness. We must, + however, submit to His almighty will, whatever that may be. May God guide + and protect us all is my constant prayer.” + </p> + <p> + In 1868, in a letter to Major Wm. M. McDonald, of Berryville, Clarke + County, Virginia, who was intending to write a school history, and had + written to my father, asking for information about some of his great + battles, the following statement appears: + </p> + <p> + “As to the battle of Gettysburg, I must again refer you to the official + accounts. Its loss was occasioned by a combination of circumstances. It + was commenced in the absence of correct intelligence. It was continued in + the effort to overcome the difficulties by which we were surrounded, and + it would have been gained could one determined and united blow have been + delivered by our whole line. As it was, victory trembled in the balance + for three days, and the battle resulted in the infliction of as great an + amount of injury as was received and in frustrating the Federal campaign + for the season.” + </p> + <p> + After my brother’s capture I went to Richmond, taking with me his horses + and servants. After remaining there a short time, I mounted my mare and + started back to the army, which I found at its old camping-ground in + Culpeper. I stopped at first for a few days with my father. He was very + glad to see me and the could tell him all about my mother and sisters, and + many other friends whom I had just left in Richmond. He appeared to be + unchanged in manner and appearance. The disappointment in the Gettysburg + campaign, to which he alludes in his letter to my mother, was not shown in + anything he said or did. He was calm and dignified with all, at times + bright and cheerful, and always had a pleasant word for those about him. + The army lay inactive, along the line of the Rappahannock and the Rapidan + for two months, watching the enemy, who was in our front. We were very + anxious to attack or to be attacked, but each general desired to fight on + ground of his won choosing. + </p> + <p> + During this period, and indeed at all times, my father was fully employed. + Besides the care of his own immediate command, he advised with the + President and Secretary of War as to the movements and dispositions of the + other armies in the Confederacy. In looking over his correspondence one is + astonished a the amount of it and at its varied character. He always + answered all letters addressed to him, from whatever source, if it was + possible. During this winter he devoted himself especially to looking + after the welfare of his troops, their clothing, shoes, and rations, all + three of which were becoming very scarce. Often, indeed, his army had only + a few days’ rations in sight. Here are some letters written to the + authorities, showing how he was hampered in his movements by the + deficiencies existing in the quartermaster’s and commissary departments. + To the Quartermaster-General, at Richmond, he writes, October, 1863, after + his movement around General Meade’s right, to Manassas: + </p> + <p> + “...The want of supplies of shoes, clothing and blankets is very great. + Nothing but my unwillingness to expose the men to the hardships that would + have resulted from moving them into Loudoun in their present condition + induced me to return to the Rappahannock. But I was averse to marching + them over the rough roads of that region, at a season, too when frosts are + certain and snow probable, unless they were better provided to encounter + them without suffering. I should, otherwise have endeavoured to detain + General Meade near the Potomac, if I could not throw him to the north + side.” + </p> + <p> + In a letter of the same time to the Honourable James A. Seddon, Secretary + of War: + </p> + <p> + “...If General Meade is disposed to remain quiet where he is, it was my + intention, provided the army could be supplied with clothing, again to + advance and threaten his position. Nothing prevented my continuing in his + front but the destitute condition of the men, thousands of whom are + barefooted, a greater number partially shod, and nearly all without + overcoats, blankets, or warm clothing. I think the sublimest sight of war + was the cheerfulness and alacrity exhibited by this army in the pursuit of + the enemy under all the trial and privations to which it was exposed....” + </p> + <p> + Later on, in January, when the sever weather commenced, he again writes to + the Quartermaster-General on the same subject: + </p> + <p> + “General: The want of shoes and blankets in this army continues to cause + much suffering and to impair its efficiency. In one regiment I am informed + that there are only fifty men with serviceable shoes, and a brigade that + recently went on picket was compelled to leave several hundred men in + camp, who were unable to bear the exposure of duty, being destitute of + shoes and blankets.... The supply, by running the blockade, has become so + precarious that I think we should turn our attention chiefly to our own + resources, and I should like to be informed how far the latter can be + counted upon.... I trust that no efforts will be spared to develop our own + resources of supply, as a further dependence upon those from abroad can + result in nothing but increase of suffering and want. I am, with great + respect, + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee, General.” + </p> + <p> + There was at this time a great revival of religion in the army. My father + became much interested in it, and did what he could to promote in his + camps all sacred exercises. Reverend J. W. Jones, in his “Personal + Reminiscences of General R. E. Lee,” says: + </p> + <p> + “General Lee’s orders and reports always gratefully recognised ‘The Lord + of Hosts’ as the ‘Giver of Victory,’ and expressed an humble dependence + upon and trust in Him.’” + </p> + <p> + All his correspondence shows the same devout feeling. + </p> + <p> + On August 13, 1863, he issued the following order: + </p> + <p> + “Headquarters, Army Northern Virginia, August 13, 1863. + </p> + <p> + “The President of the Confederate States has, in the name of the people, + appointed August 21st as a day of fasting, humiliation, and prayer. A + strict observance of the day is enjoined upon the officers and soldiers of + this army. All military duties, except such as are absolutely necessary, + will be suspended. The commanding officers of brigades and regiments are + requested to cause divine services, suitable to the occasion, to be + performed in their respective commands. Soldiers! we have sinned against + Almighty God. We have forgotten His signal mercies, and have cultivated a + revengeful, haughty, and boastful spirit. We have not remembered that the + defenders of a just cause should be pure in His eyes; that ‘our times are + in His hands,’ and we have relied too much on our own arms for the + achievement of our independence. God is our only refuge and our strength. + Let us humble ourselves before Him. Let us confess our many sins, and + beseech Him to give us a higher courage, a purer patriotism, and more + determined will; that He will hasten the time when war, with its sorrows + and sufferings, shall cease, and that He will give us a name and place + among the nations of the earth. + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee, General.” + </p> + <p> + His was a practical, every-day religion, which supported him all through + his life, enabled him to bear with equanimity every reverse of fortune, + and to accept her gifts without undue elation. During this period of rest, + so unusual to the Army of Northern Virginia, several reviews were held + before the commanding general. I remember being present when that of the + Third Army Corps, General A. P. Hill commanding, took place. Some of us + young cavalrymen, then stationed near the Rappahannock, rode over to + Orange Court House to see this grand military pageant. From all parts of + the army, officers and men who could get leave came to look on, and from + all the surrounding country the people, old and young, ladies and + children, came in every pattern of vehicle and on horseback, to see twenty + thousand of that “incomparable infantry” of the Army of Northern Virginia + pass in review before their great commander. + </p> + <p> + The General was mounted on Traveller, looking very proud of his master, + who had on sash and sword, which he very rarely wore, a pair of new + cavalry gauntlets, and, I think, a new hat. At any rate, he looked + unusually fine, and sat his horse like a perfect picture of grace and + power. The infantry was drawn up in column by divisions, with their bright + muskets all glittering in the sun, their battle-flags standing straight + out before the breeze, and their bands playing, awaiting the inspection of + the General, before they broke into column by companies and marched past + him in review. When all was ready, General Hill and staff rode up to + General Lee, and the two generals, with their respective staffs, galloped + around front and rear of each of the three divisions standing motionless + on the plain. As the cavalcade reached the head of each division, its + commanding officer joined in and followed as far as the next division, so + that there was a continual infusion of fresh groups into the original one + all along the lines. Traveller started with a long lope, and never changed + his stride. His rider sat erect and calm, not noticing anything but the + gray lines of men whom he knew so well. The pace was very fast, as there + were nine good miles to go, and the escort began to become less and less, + dropping out one by one from different causes as Traveller raced along + without check. When the General drew up, after this nine-mile gallop, + under the standard at the reviewing-stand, flushed with the exercise as + well as with pride in his brave men, he raised his hat and saluted. Then + arose a shout of applause and admiration from the entire assemblage, the + memory of which to this day moistens the eye of every old soldier. The + corps was then passed in review at a quick-step, company front. It was a + most imposing sight. After it was all over, my father rode up to several + carriages whose occupants he knew and gladdened them by a smile, a word, + or a shake of the hand. He found several of us young officers with some + pretty cousins of his from Richmond, and he was very bright and cheerful, + joking us young people about each other. His letters to my mother and + sister this summer and fall help to give an insight into his thoughts and + feelings. On July 15th, from Bunker Hill, in a letter to his wife, he + says: + </p> + <p> + “...The army has returned to Virginia. Its return is rather sooner than I + had originally contemplated, but having accomplished much of what I + proposed on leaving the Rappahannock—namely, relieving the valley of + the presence of the enemy and drawing his army north of the Potomac—I + determined to recross the latter river. The enemy, after centering his + forces in our front, began to fortify himself in his position and bring up + his troops, militia, etc.—and those around Washington and + Alexandria. This gave him enormous odds. It also circumscribed our limits + for procuring subsistence for men and animals, which, with the uncertain + state of the river, rendered it hazardous for us to continue on the north + side. It has been raining a great deal since we first crossed the Potomac, + making the roads horrid and embarrassing our operations. The night we + recrossed it rained terribly, yet we got all over safe, save such vehicles + as broke down on the road from the mud, rocks, etc. We are all well. I + hope we will yet be able to damage our adversaries when they meet us. That + it should be so, we must implore the forgiveness of God for our sins, and + the continuance of His blessings. There is nothing but His almighty power + that can sustain us. God bless you all....” + </p> + <p> + Later, July 26th, he writes from Camp Culpeper: + </p> + <p> + “...After crossing the Potomac, finding that the Shenandoah was six feet + above the fording-stage, and, having waited for a week for it to fall, so + that I might cross into Loudoun, fearing that the enemy might take + advantage of our position and move upon Richmond, I determined to ascend + the Valley and cross into Culpeper. Two corps are here with me. The third + passed Thornton’s Gap, and I hope will be in striking distance to-morrow. + The army has laboured hard, endured much, and behaved nobly. It has + accomplished all that could be reasonably expected. It ought not to have + been expected to perform impossibilities, or to have fulfilled the + anticipations of the thoughtless and unreasonable.” + </p> + <p> + On August 2d, from the same camp, he again writes to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “...I have heard of some doctor having reached Richmond, who had seen our + son at Fortress Monroe. He said that his wound is improving, and that he + himself was well and walking about on crutches. The exchange of prisoners + that had been going on has, for some cause, been suspended, owing to some + crotchet or other, but I hope will soon be resumed, and that we shall have + him back soon. The armies are in such close proximity that frequent + collisions are common along the outposts. Yesterday the enemy laid down + two or three pontoon bridges across the Rappahannock and crossed his + cavalry, with a big force of his infantry. It looked at first as if it + were the advance of his army, and, as I had not intended to deliver + battle, I directed our cavalry to retire slowly before them and to check + their too rapid pursuit. Finding, later in the day, that their army was + not following, I ordered out the infantry and drove them back to the + river. I suppose they intended to push on to Richmond by this or some + other route. I trust, however, they will never reach there....” + </p> + <p> + On August 23d, from the camp near Orange Court House, General Lee writes + to Mrs. Lee: + </p> + <p> + “...My camp is near Mr. Erasmus Taylor’s house, who has been very kind in + contributing to our comfort. His wife sends us every day, buttermilk, loaf + bread, ice, and such vegetables as she has. I cannot get her to desist, + thought I have made two special visits to that effect. All the brides have + come on a visit to the army: Mrs. Ewell, Mrs. Walker, Mrs. Heth, etc. + General Meade’s army is north of the Rappahannock along the Orange and + Alexandria Railroad. He is very quiet....” + </p> + <p> + “September 4, 1863. + </p> + <p> + “...You see I am still here. When I wrote last, the indications were that + the enemy would move against us any day; but this past week he has been + very quiet, and seems at present to continue so. I was out looking at him + yesterday, from Clarke’s Mountain. He has spread himself over a large + surface and looks immense....” + </p> + <p> + And on September 18th, from the same camp: + </p> + <p> + “...The enemy state that they have heard of a great reduction in our + forces here, and are now going to drive us back to Richmond. I trust they + will not succeed; but our hope and our refuge is in our merciful Father in + Heaven....” + </p> + <p> + On October 9th, the Army of Northern Virginia was put in motion, and wa + pushed around Meade’s right. Meade was gradually forced back to a position + near the old battlefield at Manassas. Although we had hard marching, much + skirmishing, and several severe fights between the cavalry of both armies, + nothing permanent was accomplished, and in about ten days we were back on + our old lines. In a letter of October 19, 1863, to his wife, my father + says: + </p> + <p> + “...I have returned to the Rappahannock. I did not pursue with the main + army beyond Bristoe or Broad Run. Our advance went as far as Bull Run, + where the enemy was entrenched, extending his right as far as ‘Chantilly,’ + in the yard of which he was building a redoubt. I could have thrown him + farther back, but saw no chance of bringing him to battle, and it would + only have served to fatigue our troops by advancing farther. I should + certainly have endeavored to throw them north of the Potomac; but + thousands were barefooted, thousands with fragments of shoes, and all + without overcoats, blankets, or warm clothing. I could not bear to expose + them to certain suffering and an uncertain issue....” + </p> + <p> + On October 25th, from “Camp Rappahannock,” he writes again to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “...I moved yesterday into a nice pine thicket, and Perry is to-day + engaged in constructing a chimney in front of my tent, which will make it + warm and comfortable. I have no idea when Fitzhugh [his son, Major General + Fitzhugh Lee] will be exchanged. The Federal authorities still resist all + exchanges, because they think it is to our interest to make them. Any + desire expressed on our part for the exchange of any individual magnifies + the difficulty, as they at once think some great benefit is to result to + us from it. His detention is very grievous to me, and, besides, I want his + services. I am glad you have some socks for the army. Send them to me. + They will come safely. Tell the girls [his daughters] to send all they + can. I wish they could make some shoes, too. We have thousands of + barefooted men. There is no news. General Meade, I believe, is repairing + the railroad, and I presume will come on again. If I could only get some + shoes and clothes for the men, I would save him the trouble....” + </p> + <p> + One can see from these letters of my father how deeply he felt for the + sufferings of his soldiers, and how his plans were hindered by inadequate + supplies of food and clothing. I heard him constantly allude to these + troubles; indeed, they seemed never absent from his mind. + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0030" id="link2HCH0030"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter VI — The Winter of 1863-4 + </h2> + <p> + The Lee family in Richmond—The General’s letters to them from Camps + Rappahannock and Rapidan—Death of Mrs. Fitzhugh Lee—Preparations + to meet General Grant—The Wilderness—Spottsylvania Court House—Death + of General Stuart—General Lee’s illness + </p> + <p> + My mother had quite recently rented a house on Clay Street in Richmond + which, though small, gave her a roof of her own, and it also enabled her + at times to entertain some of her many friends. Of this new home, and of a + visit of a soldier’s wife to him, the General thus writes: + </p> + <p> + “Camp Rappahannock, November 1, 1863. + </p> + <p> + “I received yesterday, dear Mary, your letter of the 29th, and am very + glad to learn that you find your new abode so comfortable and so well + arranged. The only fault I find in it is that it is not large enough for + you all, and that Charlotte, whom I fear requires much attention, is by + herself. Where is ‘Life’ to go, too, for I suppose she is a very big + personage? But you have never told me where it is situated, or how I am to + direct to you. Perhaps that may be the cause of delay in my letters. I am + sorry you find such difficulty in procuring yarn for socks, etc. I fear my + daughters have not taken to the spinning-wheel and loom, as I have + recommended. I shall not be able to recommend them to the brave soldiers + for wives. I had a visit from a soldier’s wife to-day, who was on a visit + with her husband. She was from Abbeville district, S. C. Said she had not + seen her husband for more than two years, and, as he had written to her + for clothes, she herself thought she would bring them on. It was the first + time she had travelled by railroad, but she got along very well by + herself. She brought an entire suit of her own manufacture for her + husband. She spun the yarn and made the clothes herself. She clad her + three young children in the same way, and had on a beautiful pair of + gloves she had made for herself. Her children she had left with her + sister. She said she had been here a week and must return to-morrow, and + thought she could not go back without seeing me. Her husband accompanied + her to my tent, in his nice gray suit. She was very pleasing in her + address and modest in her manner, and was clad in a nice, new alpaca. I am + certain she could not have made that. Ask Misses Agnes and Sally Warwick + what they think of that. They need not ask me for permission to get + married until they can do likewise. She, in fact, was an admirable woman. + Said she was willing to give up everything she had in the world to attain + our independence, and the only complaint she made of the conduct of our + enemies was their arming our servants against us. Her greatest difficulty + was to procure shoes. She made them for herself and children of cloth with + leather soles. She sat with me about ten minutes and took her leave—another + mark of sense—and made no request for herself or husband. I wrote + you about my wants in my former letter. My rheumatism I hope is a little + better, but I have had to-day, and indeed always have, much pain. I trust + it will pass away.... I have just had a visit from my nephews, Fitz, John, + and Henry [General “Fitz” Lee, and his two brothers, Major John Mason Lee + and Captain Henry Carter Lee]. The former is now on a little expedition. + The latter accompanies him. As soon as I was left alone, I committed them + in a fervent prayer to the care and guidance of our Heavenly Father.... I + pray you may be made whole and happy. + </p> + <p> + “Truly and devotedly yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Another letter from the same camp is interesting: + </p> + <p> + “Camp Rappahannock, November 5, 1863. + </p> + <p> + “I received last night, dear Mary, your letter of the 2d.... I am glad to + hear that Charlotte is better. I hope that she will get strong and well, + poor child. The visit of her ‘grandpa’ will cheer her up. I trust, and I + know, he gave her plenty of good advice. Tell Mrs. Atkinson that her son + Nelson is a very good scout and a good soldier. I wish I had some way of + promoting him. I received the bucket of butter she was so kind as to send + me, but have had no opportunity of returning the vessel, which I hope to + be able to do. I am sorry Smith does not like your house. I have told you + my only objection to it, and wish it were large enough to hold Charlotte. + It must have reminded you of old times to have your brother Carter and + Uncle Williams [Mr. Charles Carter Lee, the General’s brother; Mr. + Williams Carter, the General’s uncle] to see you. I think my rheumatism is + better to-day. I have been through a great deal with comparatively little + suffering. I have been wanting to review the cavalry for some time, and + appointed to-day with fear and trembling. I had not been on horseback for + five days previously and feared I should not get through. The governor was + here and told me Mrs. Letcher had seen you recently. I saw all my nephews + looking very handsome, and Rob too. The latter says he has written to you + three times since he crossed the river. Tell “Chas.” I think F’s old + regiment, the 9th, made the best appearance in review. + </p> + <p> + “While on the ground, a man rode up to me and said he was just from + Alexandria and had been requested to give me a box, which he handed me, + but did not know who sent it. It contained a handsome pair of gilt spurs. + Good-night. May a kind heavenly Father guard you all. + </p> + <p> + “Truly and affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + When our cavalry was reviewed the preceding summer, it happened that we + engaged the next day, June 9th, the enemy’s entire force of that arm, in + the famous battle of Brandy Station. Since then there had been a sort of + superstition amongst us that if we wanted a fight all that was necessary + was to have a review. We were now on the same ground we had occupied in + June, and the enemy was in force just across the river. As it happened, + the fighting did take place, though the cavalry was not alone engaged. Not + the day after the review, but on November 7th, Meade advanced and crossed + the Rappahannock, while our army fell back and took up our position on the + line of the Rapidan. + </p> + <p> + Before the two armies settled down into winter quarters, General Meade + tried once more to get at us, and on the 26th of November, with ten days’ + rations and in light marching order, he crossed the Rapidan and attempted + to turn our right. But he was unable to do anything, being met at every + point by the Army of Northern Virginia, heavily entrenched and anxious for + an attack. Long says: + </p> + <p> + “Meade declared that the position could not be carried without the loss of + thirty thousand men. This contingency was too terrible to be entertained—yet + the rations of the men were nearly exhausted, and nothing remained but + retreat. This was safely accomplished on the night of December 1st....” + </p> + <p> + Lee was more surprised at the retreat of Meade than he had been at his + advance, and his men, who had been in high spirits at the prospect of + obliterating the memory of Gettysburg, were sadly disappointed at the loss + of the opportunity. To my mother, General Lee wrote on December 4th, from + “Camp Rapidan”: + </p> + <p> + “...You will probably have seen that General Meade has retired to his old + position on the Rappahannock, without giving us battle. I had expected + from his movements, and all that I had heard, that it was his intention to + do so, and after the first day, when I thought it necessary to skirmish + pretty sharply with him, on both flanks, to ascertain his views, I waited, + patiently, his attack. On Tuesday, however, I thought he had changed his + mind, and that night made preparations to move around his left next + morning and attack him. But when day dawned he was nowhere to be seen. He + had commenced to withdraw at dark Tuesday evening. We pursued to the + Rapidan, but he was over. Owing to the nature of the ground, it was to our + advantage to receive rather than to make the attack. I am greatly + disappointed at his getting off with so little damage, but we do not know + what is best for us. I believe a kind God has ordered all things for our + good....” + </p> + <p> + About this time the people of the City of Richmond, to show their esteem + for my father, desired to present him with a home. General Lee, on hearing + of it, thus wrote to the President of the Council: + </p> + <p> + “...I assure you, sir, that no want of appreciation of the honour + conferred upon me by this resolution—or insensibility to the kind + feelings which prompted it—induces me to ask, as I most respectfully + do, that no further proceedings be taken with reference to the subject. + The house is not necessary for the use of my family, and my own duties + will prevent my residence in Richmond. I should therefore be compelled to + decline the generous offer, and I trust that whatever means the City + Council may have to spare for this purpose may be devoted to the relief of + the families of our soldiers in the field, who are more in want of + assistance, and more deserving it, than myself....” + </p> + <p> + My brother was still in prison, and his detention gave my father great + concern. In a letter to my mother, written November 21st, he says: + </p> + <p> + “...I see by the papers that our son has been sent to Fort Lafayette. Any + place would be better than Fort Monroe, with Butler in command. His long + confinement is very grievous to me, yet it may all turn out for the + best....” + </p> + <p> + To his daughter-in-law my father was devoutedly attached. His love for her + was like that for his own children, and when her husband was captured and + thrown, wounded, into prison, his great tenderness for her was shown on + all occasions. Her death about this time, though expected, was a great + blow to him. When news came to Gen. W. H. F. Lee, at Fortress Monroe, that + his wife Charlotte was dying in Richmond, he made application to General + Butler, commanding that post, that he be allowed to go to her for 48 + hours, his brother Custis Lee, of equal rank with himself, having formally + volunteered in writing to take his place, as a hostage, was curtly and + peremptorily refused. + </p> + <p> + In his letter to my mother, of December 27th, my father says: + </p> + <p> + “...Custis’s despatch which I received last night demolished all the + hopes, in which I had been indulging during the day, of dear Charlotte’s + recovery. It has pleased God to take from us one exceedingly dear to us, + and we must be resigned to His holy will. She, I trust, will enjoy peace + and happiness forever, while we must patiently struggle on under all the + ills that may be in store for us. What a glorious thought it is that she + has joined her little cherubs and our angel Annie [his second daughter] in + Heaven. Thus is link by link the strong chain broken that binds us to the + earth, and our passage soothed to another world. Oh, that we may be at + last united in that heaven of rest, where trouble and sorrow never enter, + to join in an everlasting chorus of praise and glory to our Lord and + Saviour! I grieve for our lost darling as a father only can grieve for a + daughter, and my sorrow is heightened by the thought of the anguish her + death will cause our dear son and the poignancy it will give to the bars + of his prison. May God in His mercy enable him to bear the blow He has so + suddenly dealt, and sanctify it to his everlasting happiness!” + </p> + <p> + After Meade’s last move, the weather becoming wintry, the troops fixed up + for themselves winter quarters, and the cavalry and artillery were sent + back along the line of the Chesapeake & Ohio Railroad, where forage + could be more easily obtained for their horses. On January 24, 1864, the + General writes to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “...I have had to disperse the cavalry as much as possible, to obtain + forage for their horses, and it is that which causes trouble. Provisions + for the men, too, are very scarce, and, with very light diet and light + clothing, I fear they suffer, but still they are cheerful and + uncomplaining. I received a report from one division the other day in + which it stated that over four hundred men were barefooted and over a + thousand without blankets.” + </p> + <p> + Lee was the idol of his men. Colonel Charles Marshall, who was his A. D. + C. and military secretary, illustrates this well in the following + incident: + </p> + <p> + “While the Army was on the Rapidan, in the winter of 1863-4, it became + necessary, as was often the case, to put the men on very short rations. + Their duty was hard, not only on the outposts during the winter, but in + the construction of roads, to facilitate communication between the + different parts of the army. One day General Lee received a letter from a + private soldier, whose name I do not now remember, informing him of the + work that he had to do, and stating that his rations were not sufficient + to enable him to undergo the fatigue. He said, however, that if it was + absolutely necessary to put him on such short allowance, he would make the + best of it, but that he and his comrades wanted to know if General Lee was + aware that his men were getting so little to eat, because if he was aware + of it he was sure there must be some necessity for it. General Lee did not + reply directly to the letter, but issued a general order in which he + informed the soldiers of his efforts in their behalf, and that their + privation was beyond his means of present relief, but assured them that he + was making every effort to procure sufficient supplies. After that there + was not a murmur in the army, and the hungry men went cheerfully to their + hard work.” + </p> + <p> + When I returned to the army in the summer, I reported to my old brigade, + which was gallantly commanded by John R. Chambliss, colonel of the 13th + Virginia Cavalry, the senior officer of the brigade. Later, I had been + assigned to duty with General Fitz Lee and was with him at this time. My + mother was anxious that I should be with my father, thinking, I have no + doubt, that my continued presence would be a comfort to him. She must have + written him to that effect, for in a letter to her, dated February, 1864, + he says: + </p> + <p> + “...In reference to Rob, his company would be a great pleasure and comfort + to me, and he would be extremely useful in various ways, but I am opposed + to officers surrounding themselves with their sons and relatives. It is + wrong in principle, and in that case selections would be made from private + and social relations, rather than for the public good. There is the same + objection to his going with Fitz Lee. I should prefer Rob’s being in the + line, in an independent position, where he could rise by his own merit and + not through the recommendation of his relatives. I expect him soon, when I + can better see what he himself thinks. The young men have no fondness for + the society of the old general. He is too heavy and sombre for them....” + </p> + <p> + If anything was said to me on this occasion by my father, I do not + remember it. I rather think that something prevented the interview, for I + cannot believe that it could have entirely escaped my memory. At any rate, + I remained with General Fitz Lee until my brother’s return from prison in + April of that year. Fitz Lee’s brigade camped near Charlottesville, on the + Chesapeake & Ohio Railroad, in January, in order that forage could be + more readily obtained. The officers, to amuse themselves and to return in + part the courtesies and kindnesses of the ladies of the town, gave a ball. + It was a grand affair for those times. Committees were appointed and + printed invitations issued. As a member of the invitation committee, I + sent one to the general commanding the army. Here is his opinion of it, in + a letter to me: + </p> + <p> + “...I inclose a letter for you, which has been sent to my care. I hope you + are well and all around you are so. Tell Fitz I grieve over the hardships + and sufferings of his men, in their late expedition. I should have + preferred his waiting for more favourable weather. He accomplished much + under the circumstances, but would have done more in better weather. I am + afraid he was anxious to get back to the ball. This is a bad time for such + things. We have too grave subjects on hand to engage in such trivial + amusements. I would rather his officers should entertain themselves in + fattening their horses, healing their men, and recruiting their regiments. + There are too many Lees on the committee. I like all to be present at the + battles, but can excuse them at balls. But the saying is, ‘Children will + be children.’ I think he had better move his camp farther from + Charlottesville, and perhaps he will get more work and less play. He and I + are too old for such assemblies. I want him to write me how his men are, + his horses, and what I can do to full up the ranks....” + </p> + <p> + In this winter and spring of 1864, every exertion possible was made by my + father to increase the strength of his army and to improve its efficiency. + He knew full well that the enemy was getting together an enormous force, + and that his vast resources would be put forth to crush us in the spring. + His letters at this time to President Davis and the Secretary of War show + how well he understood the difficulties of his position. + </p> + <p> + “In none of them,” General Long says, “does he show a symptom of despair + or breathe a thought of giving up the contest. To the last, he remained + full of resources, energetic and defiant, and ready to bear upon his + shoulders the whole burden of the conduct of the war.” + </p> + <p> + In a letter to President Davis, written March, 1864, he says: + </p> + <p> + “Mr. President: Since my former letter on the subject, the indications + that operations in Virginia will be vigorously prosecuted by the enemy are + stronger than they then were. General Grant has returned from the army in + the West. He is, at present, with the Army of the Potomac, which is being + organised and recruited.... Every train brings recruits and it is stated + that every available regiment at the North is added to it.... + </p> + <p> + “Their plans are not sufficiently developed to discover them, but I think + we can assume that, if General Grant is to direct operations on this + frontier, he will concentrate a large force on one or more lines, and + prudence dictates that we should make such preparations as are in our + power....” + </p> + <p> + On April 6th he again writes to the President: + </p> + <p> + “...All the information I receive tends to show that the great effort of + the enemy in this campaign will be made in Virginia.... Reinforcements are + certainly daily arriving to the Army of the Potomac.... The tone of the + Northern papers, as well as the impression prevailing in their armies, go + to show that Grant with a large force is to move against Richmond.... The + movements and reports of the enemy may be intended to mislead us, and + should therefore be carefully observed. But all the information that + reaches me goes to strengthen the belief that General Grant is preparing + to move against Richmond.” + </p> + <p> + The question of feeding his army was ever before him. To see his men + hungry and cold, and his horses ill fed, was a great pain to him. To Mr. + Davis he thus writes on this subject: + </p> + <p> + “Headquarters, April 12, 1864. + </p> + <p> + “Mr. President: My anxiety on the subject of provisions for the army is so + great that I cannot refrain from expressing it to Your Excellency. I + cannot see how we can operate with our present supplies. Any derangement + in their arrival or disaster to the railroad would render it impossible + for me to keep the army together, and might force a retreat to North + Carolina. There is nothing to be had in this section for men or animals. + We have rations for the troops to-day and to-morrow. I hope a new supply + arrived last night, but I have not yet had a report. Every exertion should + be made to supply the depots at Richmond and at other points. All pleasure + travel should cease, and everything be devoted to necessary wants. + </p> + <p> + “I am, with great respect, your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee, General.” + </p> + <p> + In a letter written to our cousin, Margaret Stuart, of whom he was very + fond, dated March 29th, he says: + </p> + <p> + “...The indications at present are that we shall have a hard struggle. + General Grant is with the Army of the Potomac. All the officer’s wives, + sick, etc., have been sent to Washington. No ingress into or egress from + the lines is now permitted and no papers are allowed to come out—they + claim to be assembling a large force....” + </p> + <p> + Again, April 28th, he writes to this same young cousin: + </p> + <p> + “...I dislike to send letters within reach of the enemy, as they might + serve, if captured, to bring distress on others. But you must sometimes + cast your thoughts on the Army of Northern Virginia, and never forget it + in your prayers. It is preparing for a great struggle, but I pray and + trust that the great God, mighty to deliver, will spread over it His + almighty arms, and drive its enemies before it....” + </p> + <p> + One perceives from these letters how clearly my father foresaw the storm + that was so soon to burst upon him. He used every means within his power + to increase and strengthen his army to meet it, and he continually urged + the authorities at Richmond to make preparations in the way of supplies of + ammunition, rations, and clothing. + </p> + <p> + I shall not attempt to describe any part of this campaign except in a very + general way. It has been well written up by both sides, and what was done + by the Army of Northern Virginia we all know. I saw my father only once or + twice, to speak to him, during the thirty odd days from the Wilderness to + Petersburg, but, in common with all his soldiers, I felt that he was ever + near, that he could be entirely trusted with the care of us, that he would + not fail us, that it would all end well. The feeling of trust that we had + in him was simply sublime. When I say “we,” I mean the men of my age and + standing, officers and privates alike. Older heads may have begun to see + the “beginning of the end” when they saw that slaughter and defeat did not + deter our enemy, but made him the more determined in his “hammering” + process; but it never occurred to me, and to thousands and thousands like + me, that there was any occasion for uneasiness. We firmly believed that + “Marse Robert,” as his soldiers lovingly called him, would bring us out of + this trouble all right. + </p> + <p> + When Grant reached Spottsylvania Court House, he sent all of his cavalry, + under Sheridan, to break our communications. They were met at Yellow + Tavern, six miles from Richmond, by General Stuart, with three brigades of + Confederate cavalry, and were attacked so fiercely that they were held + there nearly all day, giving time for the troops around Richmond to + concentrate for the defense of the city. + </p> + <p> + In this fight General Stuart fell mortally wounded, and he died the next + day in Richmond. The death of our noted cavalry leader was a great blow to + our cause—a loss second only to that of Jackson. + </p> + <p> + Captain W. Gordon McCabe writes me: + </p> + <p> + “I was sitting on my horse very near to General Lee, who was talking to my + colonel, William Johnson Pegram, when a courier galloped up with the + despatch announcing that Stuart had been mortally wounded and was dying. + General Lee was evidently greatly affected, and said slowly, as he folded + up the despatch, ‘General Stuart has been mortally wounded: a most + valuable and able officer.’ Then, after a moment, he added in a voice of + deep feeling ‘HE NEVER BROUGHT ME A PIECE OF FALSE INFORMATION’—turned + and looked away. What praise dearer to a soldier’s heart could fall from + the lips of the commanding general touching his Chief of Cavalry! These + simple words of Lee constitute, I think, the fittest inscription for the + monument that is soon to be erected to the memory of the great cavalry + leader of the ‘Army of Northern Virginia.’” + </p> + <p> + In a letter from my father to my mother, dated Spottsylvania Court House, + May 16th, he says: + </p> + <p> + “...As I write I am expecting the sound of the guns every moment. I grieve + over the loss of our gallant officers and men, and miss their aid and + sympathy. A more zealous, ardent, brave, and devoted soldier than Stuart + the Confederacy cannot have. Praise be to God for having sustained us so + far. I have thought of you very often in these eventful days. God bless + and preserve you.” + </p> + <p> + General Lee, in his order announcing the death of Stuart, thus speaks of + him: + </p> + <p> + “...Among the gallant soldiers who have fallen in this war, General Stuart + was second to none in valour, in zeal, and in unflinching devotion to his + country. His achievements form a conspicuous part of the history of this + army, with which his name and services will be forever associated. To + military capacity of a high order and to the noble virtues of the soldier + he added the brighter graces of a pure life, guided and sustained by the + Christian’s faith and hope. The mysterious hand of an all-wise God has + removed him from the scene of his usefulness and fame. His grateful + countrymen will mourn his loss and cherish his memory. To his comrades in + arms he has left the proud recollections of his deeds and the inspiring + influence of his example.” + </p> + <p> + Speaking of the operations around Spottsylvania Court House, Swinton, the + historian of the Army of the Potomac, says: + </p> + <p> + “Before the lines of Spottsylvania, the Army of the Potomac had for twelve + days and nights engaged in a fierce wrestle in which it had done all that + valour may do to carry a position by nature and art impregnable. In this + contest, unparalleled in its continuous fury, and swelling to the + proportions of a campaign, language is inadequate to convey an impression + of the labours, fatigues, and sufferings of the troops, who fought by day, + only to march by night, from point to point of the long line, and renew + the fight on the morrow. Above forty thousand men had already fallen in + the bloody encounters of the Wilderness and Spottsylvania, and the + exhausted army began to lose its spirits. It was with joy, therefore, that + it at length turned its back upon the lines of Spottsylvania.” + </p> + <p> + General Long, in his “Memoirs of General Lee,” speaking of our army at + this time, says: + </p> + <p> + “In no previous operations did the Army of Northern Virginia display + higher soldierly qualities. Regardless of numbers, every breach was + filled, and, with unparalleled stubbornness, its lines were maintained. + The soldiers of that army not only gratified their countrymen, but by + their gallantry and vigour won the admiration of their enemies. Whenever + the men in blue appeared they were met by those in gray, and muzzle to + muzzle and point to point they measured their foeman’s strength.” + </p> + <p> + When we learned that General Lee was ill—confined for a day or two + to his tent, at the time he was confronting General Grant on the North + Anna—this terrible thought forced itself upon us: Suppose disease + should disable him, even for a time, or, worse, should take him forever + from the front of his men! It could not be! It was too awful to consider! + And we banished any such possibility from our minds. When we saw him out + again, on the lines, riding Traveller as usual, it was as if some great + crushing weight had been suddenly lifted from our hearts. Colonel Walter + H. Taylor, his adjutant-general, says: + </p> + <p> + “The indisposition of General Lee...was more serious than was generally + supposed. Those near him were very apprehensive lest he should be + compelled to give up.” + </p> + <p> + General Early also writes of this circumstance: + </p> + <p> + “One of his three corps commanders [Longstreet] had been disabled by + wounds at the Wilderness, and another was too unwell to command his corps + [A. P. Hill], while he (General Lee) was suffering from a most annoying + and weakening disease. In fact, nothing but his own determined will + enabled him to keep the field at all; and it was then rendered more + manifest than ever that he was the head and front, the very life and soul + of the army.” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0031" id="link2HCH0031"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter VII — Fronting the Army of the Potomac + </h2> + <p> + Battle of Cold Harbour—Siege of Petersburg—The General + intrusts a mission to his son Robert—Battle of the Crater—Grant + crosses the James River—General Long’s pen-picture of Lee—Knitting + socks for the soldiers—A Christmas dinner—Incidents of camp + life + </p> + <p> + From the North Anna River the Federal Army moved by its left flank, + seeking to find its adversary unprepared, but the Army of Northern + Virginia steadily confronted it, ever ready to receive any attack. At Cold + Harbour they paused, facing each other, and General Grant, having received + sixteen thousand men from Butler by way of Yorktown on June 1st, made an + attack, but found our lines immovable. In his “Memoirs” he writes: + </p> + <p> + “June 2d was spent in getting troops into position for attack on the 3d. + On June 3d, we again assaulted the enemy’s works in the hope of driving + him from his position. In this attempt our loss was heavy, while that of + the enemy, I have reason to believe, was comparatively light.” + </p> + <p> + This assault was repelled along the whole line, with the most terrible + slaughter yet recorded in our war. Yet in a few hours these beaten men + were ordered to move up to our lines again. Swinton, the historian of the + Army of the Potomac, thus describes what happened when this order was sent + to the men: + </p> + <p> + “The order was issued through these officers” (the corps commanders) “To + their subordinate commanders, and from them descended through the wonted + channels; but no man stirred, and the immobile lines pronounced a verdict, + silent, yet emphatic, against further slaughter. The loss on the Union + side in this sanguinary action was more than thirteen thousand, while on + the part of the Confederates it is doubtful whether it reached that many + hundreds.” + </p> + <p> + Colonel Walter H. Taylor, in his “Four Years with General Lee,” says: + </p> + <p> + “Soon after this, he (Grant) abandoned his chosen line of operations, and + moved his army to the south side of the James River. The struggle from + Wilderness to this point covers a period of about one month, during which + time there had been an almost daily encounter of hostile arms, and the + Army of Northern Virginia had placed hors de combat of the army under + General Grant a number equal to its entire numerical strength at the + commencement of the campaign, and, notwithstanding its own heavy losses + and the reinforcements received by the enemy, still presented an + impregnable front to its opponent, and constituted and insuperable barrier + to General Grant’s ‘On to Richmond.’” + </p> + <p> + Thus after thirty days of marching, starving, fighting, and with a loss of + more than sixty thousand men, General Grant reached the James River, near + Petersburg, which he could have done at any time he so desired without the + loss of a single man. The baffling of our determined foe so successfully + raised the spirits of our rank and file, and their confidence in their + commander knew no bounds. + </p> + <p> + The two armies now commenced a contest which could end only one way. If + General Lee had been permitted to evacuate Petersburg and Richmond, to + fall back upon some interior point, nearer supplies for man and beast and + within supporting distance of the remaining forces of the Confederacy, the + surrender would certainly have been put off—possibly never have + taken place—and the result of the war changed. The Army of the + Potomac placed itself on the James, through whose channel it had easy + access to the wide world whence to secure for itself an unlimited supply + of men and munitions of war. General Lee, with a line thirty miles long to + defend and with only 35,000 men to hold it, with no chance of + reinforcements, no reserves with which to fill up the ranks lessened daily + by death in battle and by disease, had to sit still and see his army, on + half rations or less, melt away because it was deemed advisable by his + government, for political and other purposes, to hold Richmond, the + Confederacy’s capital. + </p> + <p> + In an article by Lord Wolseley, in “Macmillan’s Magazine,” he says: + </p> + <p> + “Lee was opposed to the final defense of Richmond that was urged upon him + for political, not military reasons. It was a great strategic error. + General Grant’s large army of men was easily fed, and its daily losses + easily recruited from a near base; whereas, if it had been drawn into the + interior after the little army with which Lee endeavoured to protect + Richmond, its fighting strength would have been largely reduced by the + detachments required to guard a long line of communications through a + hostile country.” + </p> + <p> + During the nine months the siege of Petersburg lasted, I saw my father but + seldom. His headquarters were near the town, my command was on the extreme + right of the army, and during the winter, in order to get forage, we were + moved still further away, close to the border of North Carolina. During + this summer, I had occasion, once or twice, to report to him at his + headquarters, once about July 1st by his special order. I remember how we + all racked our brains to account for this order, which was for me to + report “at once to the commanding general,” and many wild guesses were + made by my young companions as to what was to become of me. Their surmises + extended from my being shot for unlawful foraging to my being sent on a + mission abroad to solicit the recognition of our independence. I reported + at once, and found my father expecting me, with a bed prepared. It was + characteristic of him that he never said a word about what I was wanted + for until he was ready with full instructions. I was fed at once, for I + was still hungry, my bed was shown me, and I was told to rest and sleep + well, as he wanted me in the morning, and that I would need all my + strength. + </p> + <p> + The next morning he gave me a letter to General Early, who, with his + command, was at that time in Maryland, threatening Washington. My mission + was to carry this letter to him. As Early had cut loose from his + communications with Virginia, and as there was a chance of any messenger + being caught by raiding parties, my father gave me verbally the contents + of his letter, and told me that if I saw any chance of my capture to + destroy it, then, if I did reach the General, I should be able to tell him + what he had written. He cautioned me to keep my own counsel, and to say + nothing to any one as to my destination. Orders for a relay of horses from + Staunton, where the railroad terminated, to the Potomac had been + telegraphed, and I was to start at once. This I did, seeing my sisters and + mother in Richmond while waiting for the train to Staunton, and having + very great difficulty in keeping from them my destination. But I did, and, + riding night and day, came up with General Early at a point in Maryland + some miles beyond the old battlefield of Sharpsburg. I delivered the + letter to him, returned to Petersburg, and reported to my father. Much + gratified by the evident pleasure of the General at my diligence and at + the news I had brought from Early and his men, after a night’s rest and + two good meals I returned to my command, never telling my comrades until + long afterward what had been done to me by the commanding general. + </p> + <p> + My father’s relations with the citizens of Petersburg were of the kindest + description. The ladies were ever trying to make him more comfortable, + sending him of their scanty fare more than they could well spare. He + always tried to prevent them, and when he could do so without hurting + their feelings he would turn over to the hospitals the dainties sent him—much + to the disgust of his mess-steward, Bryan. Bryan was an Irishman, + perfectly devoted to my father, and, in his opinion, there was nothing in + the eatable line which was too good for the General. He was an excellent + caterer, a good forager, and, but for my father’s frowning down anything + approaching lavishness, the headquarter’s table would have made a much + better show. During this period of the war, Bryan was so handicapped by + the universal scarcity of all sorts of provisions that his talents were + almost entirely hidden. The ladies not only were anxious to feed the + General, but also to clothe him. From Camp Petersburg he writes to my + mother, June 24th: + </p> + <p> + “...The ladies of Petersburg have sent me a nice set of shirts. They were + given to me by Mrs. James R. Branch and her mother, Mrs. Thomas Branch. In + fact, they have given me everything, which I fear they cannot spare—vegetables, + bread, milk, ice-cream. To-day one of them sent me a nice peach—the + first one I think I have seen for two years. I sent it to Mrs. Shippen [an + invalid lady, in the yard of whose country place (“Violet Bank”) Lee’s + tents were pitched]. Mr. Platt had services again to-day under the trees + near my camp. We had quite a large congregation of citizens, ladies and + gentlemen, and our usual number of soldiers. During the services, I + constantly heard the shells crashing among the houses of Petersburg. Tell + ‘Life’ [his pet name for my sister Mildred] I send her a song composed by + a French soldier. As she is so learned in the language, I want he to send + my a reply in verse.” + </p> + <p> + June 30, 1864, the anniversary of his wedding day, he thus writes to my + mother: + </p> + <p> + “...I was very glad to receive your letter yesterday, and to hear that you + were better. I trust that you will continue to improve and soon be as well + as usual. God grant that you may be entirely restored in His own good + time. Do you recollect what a happy day thirty-three years ago this was? + How many hopes and pleasures it gave birth to! God has been very merciful + and kind to us, and how thankless and sinful I have been. I pray that He + may continue His mercies and blessings to us, and give us a little peace + and rest together in this world, and finally gather us and all He has + given us around His throne in the world to come. The President has just + arrived, and I must bring my letter to a close.” + </p> + <p> + My mother had been quite ill that summer, and my father’s anxiety for her + comfort and welfare, his desire to be with her to help her, was very + great. The sick in the Confederacy at this period of universal scarcity + suffered for want of the simplest medicines. All that could be had were + given to hospitals. To his youngest daughter the General writes, and sends + to Mrs. Lee what little he could find in the way of fruit: + </p> + <p> + “...I received this morning by your brother your note of the 3d, and am + glad to hear that your mother is better. I sent out immediately to try to + find some lemons, but could only procure two, sent to me by a kind lady, + Mrs. Kirkland, in Petersburg. These were gathered from her own trees. + There are none to be purchased. I found one in my valise, dried up, which + I also send, as it may prove of some value. I also put up some early + apples which you can roast for your mother, and one pear. This is all the + fruit I can get. You must go to the market every morning and see if you + cannot find some fruit for her. There are no lemons to be had. Tell her + lemonade is not as palatable or digestible as buttermilk. Try to get some + good buttermilk for her. With ice, it is delicious and very nutritious.” + </p> + <p> + My sister Mildred had a pet squirrel which ran about the house in + Richmond. She had named it “Custis Morgan,” after her brother Custis, and + General John Morgan, the great cavalry leader of the western army. He + ventured out one day to see the city, and never returned. In a letter to + Mildred, July 10th, my father alludes to his escape, and apparently + considers it a blessing: + </p> + <p> + “...I was pleased on the arrival of my little courier to learn that you + were better, and that ‘Custis Morgan’ was still among the missing. I think + the farther he gets from you the better you will be. The shells scattered + the poor inhabitants of Petersburg so that many of the churches are + closed. Indeed, they have been visited by the enemy’s shells. Mr. Platt, + pastor of the principal Episcopal church, had services at my headquarters + to-day. The services were under the trees, and the discourse on the + subject of salvation....” + </p> + <p> + About this time, the enemy, having been at work on a mine for nearly a + month, exploded it, and attacked our lines with a large force. The ensuing + contest was called the Battle of the Crater. General Lee, having suspected + that a mine was being run under his works, was partly prepared for it, and + the attack was repulsed very quickly with great loss to the enemy. In the + address of Capt. W. Gordon McCabe before the Association of the Army of + Northern Virginia—November 2, 1876—speaking of this event, he + says: + </p> + <p> + “From the mysterious paragraphs in the Northern papers, and from reports + of deserters, though those last were vague and contradictory, Lee and + Beauregard suspected that the enemy was mining in front of some one of the + three salients on Beauregard’s front, and the latter officer had in + consequence directed counter-mines to be sunk from all three, meanwhile + constructing gorge-lines in the rear upon which the troops might retire in + case of surprise or disaster.... But the counter-mining on the part of the + Confederates was after a time discontinued, owing to the lack of proper + tools, the inexperience of the troops in such work, and the arduous nature + of their service in the trenches.” + </p> + <p> + The mine was sprung July 30th. On the 31st, the General writes: + </p> + <p> + “...Yesterday morning the enemy sprung a mine under one of our batteries + on the line and got possession of a portion of our intrenchments. It was + the part defended by General Beauregard’s troops, I sent General Mahone + with two brigades of Hill’s corps, who charged them handsomely, + recapturing the intrenchments and guns, twelve stands of colours, + seventy-three officers, including General Bartlett, his staff, three + colonels, and eight hundred and fifty enlisted men. There were upward of + five hundred of his dead and unburied in the trenches, among them many + officers and blacks. He suffered severely. He has withdrawn his troops + from the north side of the James. I do not know what he will attempt next. + He is mining on other points along our line. I trust he will not succeed + in bettering his last attempt....” + </p> + <p> + Grant, by means of a pontoon bridge, permanently established across the + James, was able to move his troops very quickly from one side to the + other, and could attack either flank, while making a feint on the opposite + one. This occurred several times during the summer, but General Lee seemed + always to have anticipated the movement and to be able to distinguish the + feint from the real attack. On August 14th, he speaks of one of these + movements in a letter to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “...I have been kept from church to-day by the enemy’s crossing to the + north side of the James River and the necessity of moving troops to meet + him. I do not know what his intentions are. He is said to be cutting a + canal across the Dutch Gap, a point in the river—but I cannot, as + yet, discover it. I was up there yesterday, and saw nothing to indicate + it. We shall ascertain in a day or two. I received to-day a kind letter + from Reverend Mr. Cole, of Culpeper Court House. He is a most excellent + man in all the relations of life. He says there is not a church standing + in all that country, within the lines formerly occupied by the enemy. All + are razed to the ground, and the materials used often for the vilest + purposes. Two of the churches at the Court House barely escaped + destruction. The pews were all taken out to make seats for the theatre. + The fact was reported to the commanding officer by their own men of the + Christian Commission, but he took no steps to rebuke or arrest it. We must + suffer patiently to the end, when all things will be made right....” + </p> + <p> + To oppose this movement (of August 14th), which was in heavy force, our + cavalry division was moved over to the north side, together with infantry + and artillery, and we had a very lively time for several days. In the + engagement on the 15th of August I was shot in the arm and disabled for + about three weeks. The wound was a very simple one—just severe + enough to give me a furlough, which I enjoyed intensely. Time heals all + wounds, it is said. I remember it cured mine all too soon, for, being on a + wounded leave, provided it did not keep one in bed, was the best luck a + soldier could have. I got back the last of September, and in passing + stopped to see my father. I take from General Long a pen-picture of him at + this time, which accords with my own recollection of his appearance: + </p> + <p> + “...General Lee continued in excellent health and bore his many cares with + his usual equanimity. He had aged somewhat in appearance since the + beginning of the war, but had rather gained than lost in physical vigour, + from the severe life he had led. His hair had grown gray, but his face had + the ruddy hue of health, and his eyes were as clear and bright as ever. + His dress was always a plain, gray uniform, with cavalry boots reaching to + his knees, and a broad-brimmed gray felt hat. He seldom wore a weapon, and + his only mark of rank was the stars on his collar. Though always + abstemious in diet, he seemed able to bear any amount of fatigue, being + capable of remaining in his saddle all day and at his desk half the + night.” + </p> + <p> + I cannot refrain from further quoting from the same author this beautiful + description of the mutual love, respect, and esteem existing between my + father and his soldiers: + </p> + <p> + “No commander was ever more careful, and never had care for the comfort of + an army given rise to greater devotion. He was constantly calling the + attention of the authorities to the wants of his soldiers, making every + effort to provide them with food and clothing. The feeling for him was one + of love, not of awe and dread. They could approach him with the assurance + that they would be received with kindness and consideration, and that any + just complaint would receive proper attention. There was no condescension + in his manner, but he was ever simple, kind, and sympathetic, and his men, + while having unbounded faith in him as a leader, almost worshipped him as + a man. These relations of affection and mutual confidence between the army + and its commander had much to do with the undaunted bravery displayed by + the men, and bore a due share in the many victories they gained.” + </p> + <p> + Colonel Charles Marshall, in his address before the “Association of the + Army of Northern Virginia,” also alludes to this “wonderful influence over + the troops under his command. I can best describe that influence by saying + that such was the love and veneration of the men for him that they came to + look upon the cause as General Lee’s cause, and they fought for it because + they loved him. To them he represented cause, country, and all.” + </p> + <p> + All persons who were ever thrown into close relations with him had + somewhat these same feelings. How could they help it? Here is a letter to + his youngest daughter which shows his beautiful love and tenderness for us + all. Throughout the war, he constantly took the time from his arduous + labours to send to his wife and daughters such evidences of his affection + for them: + </p> + <p> + “Camp Petersburg, November 6, 1864. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Life: This is the first day I have had leisure to answer your + letter. I enjoyed it very much at the time of its reception, and have + enjoyed it since, but I have often thought of you in the meantime, and + have seen you besides. Indeed, I may say, you are never out of my + thoughts. I hope you think of me often, and if you could know how + earnestly I desire your true happiness, how ardently I pray you may be + directed to every good and saved from every evil, you would as sincerely + strive for its accomplishment. Now in your youth you must be careful to + discipline your thoughts, words, and actions. Habituate yourself to useful + employment, regular improvement, and to the benefit of all those around + your. You have had some opportunity of learning the rudiments of your + education—not as good as I should have desired, but I am much + cheered by the belief that you availed yourself of it—and I think + you are now prepared by diligence and study to learn whatever you desire. + Do not allow yourself to forget what you have spent so much time and + labour acquiring, but increase it every day by extended application. I + hope you will embrace in your studies all useful acquisitions. I was much + pleased to hear that while at ‘Bremo’ you passed much of your time in + reading and music. All accomplishments will enable you to give pleasure, + and thus exert a wholesome influence. Never neglect the means of making + yourself useful in the world. I think you will not have to complain of Rob + again for neglecting your schoolmates. He has equipped himself with a new + uniform from top to toe, and, with a new and handsome horse, is + cultivating a marvellous beard and preparing for conquest. I went down on + the lines to the right, Friday, beyond Rowanty Creek, and pitched my camp + within six miles of Fitzhugh’s last night. Rob came up and spent the night + with me, and Fitzhugh appeared early in the morning. They rode with me + till late that day. I visited the battlefield in that quarter, and General + Hampton in describing it said there had not been during the war a more + spirited charge than Fitzhugh’s division made that day up the Boydton + plank road, driving cavalry and infantry before him, in which he was + stopped by night. I did not know before that his horse had been shot under + him. Give a great deal of love to your dear mother, and kiss your sisters + for me. Tell them they must keep well, not talk too much, and go to bed + early. + </p> + <p> + “Ever your devoted father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + He refers in this letter to his coming down near our command, and my + brother’s visit and mine to him. Everything was quiet, and we greatly + enjoyed seeing him and being with him. The weather, too, was fine, and he + seemed to delight in our ride with him along the lines. I didn’t think I + saw him but once more until everything was over and we met in Richmond. + Some time before this, my mother, fearing for his health under the great + amount of exposure and work he had to do, wrote to him and begged him to + take better care of himself. In his reply, he says: + </p> + <p> + “...But what care can a man give to himself in the time of war? It is from + no desire for exposure or hazard that I live in a tent, but from + necessity. I must be where I can, speedily, at all times attend to the + duties of my position, and be near or accessible to the officers with whom + I have to act. I have been offered rooms in the houses of our citizens, + but I could not turn the dwellings of my kind hosts into a barrack where + officers, couriers, distressed women, etc., would be entering day and + night....” + </p> + <p> + General Fitz Lee, in his life of my father, says of him at this time: + </p> + <p> + “Self-possessed and calm, Lee struggled to solve the huge military + problem, and make the sum of smaller numbers equal to that of greater + numbers.... His thoughts ever turned upon the soldiers of his army, the + ragged gallant fellows around him—whose pinched cheeks told hunger + was their portion, and whose shivering forms denoted the absence of proper + clothing.” + </p> + <p> + His letters to my mother during the winter tell how much his men were in + need. My mother was an invalid from rheumatism, confined to a + rolling-chair. To help the cause with her own hands as far as she could, + she was constantly occupied in knitting socks for the soldiers, and + induced all around her to do the same. She sent them directly to my + father, and he always acknowledged them. November 30th, he says: + </p> + <p> + “...I received yesterday your letter on the 27th and am glad to learn your + supply of socks is so large. If two or three hundred would send an equal + number, we should have a sufficiency. I will endeavour to have them + distributed to the most needy....” + </p> + <p> + And on December 17th: + </p> + <p> + “...I received day before yesterday the box with hats, gloves, and socks; + also the barrel of apples. You had better have kept the latter, as it + would have been more useful to you than to me, and I should have enjoyed + its consumption by you and the girls more than by me....” + </p> + <p> + His friends and admirers were constantly sending him presents; some, + simple mementos of their love and affection; others, substantial and + material comforts for the outer and inner man. The following letter, from + its date, is evidently an acknowledgement of Christmas gifts sent him: + </p> + <p> + “December 30th.... The Lyons furs and fur robe have also arrived safely, + but I can learn nothing of the saddle of mutton. Bryan, of whom I inquired + as to its arrival, is greatly alarmed lest it has been sent to the + soldiers’ dinner. If the soldiers get it, I shall be content. I can do + very well without it. In fact, I should rather they should have it than + I....” + </p> + <p> + The soldiers’ “dinner” here referred to was a Christmas dinner, sent by + the entire country, as far as they could, to the poor starving men in the + trenches and camps along the lines. It would not be considered much now, + but when the conditions were such as my father describes when he wrote the + Secretary of War, + </p> + <p> + “The struggle now is to keep the army fed and clothed. Only fifty men in + some regiments have shoes, and bacon is only issued once in a few days,” + anything besides the one-quarter of a pound of bacon and musty corn-bread + was a treat of great service, and might be construed as “a Christmas + dinner.” + </p> + <p> + I have mentioned before my father’s devotion to children. This sentiment + pervaded his whole nature. At any time the presence of a little child + would bring a brightness to his smile, a tender softness to his glance, + and drive away gloom or care. Here is his account of a visit paid him, + early in January, 1865, by three little women: + </p> + <p> + “...Yesterday afternoon three little girls walked into my room, each with + a small basket. The eldest carried some fresh eggs, laid by her own hens; + the second, some pickles made by her mother; the third, some popcorn grown + in her garden. They were accompanied by a young maid with a block of soap + made by her mother. They were the daughters of a Mrs. Nottingham, a + refugee from Northhampton County, who lived near Eastville, not far from + ‘old Arlington.’ The eldest of the girls, whose age did not exceed eight + years, had a small wheel on which she spun for her mother, who wove all + the cloth for her two brothers—boys of twelve and fourteen years. I + have not had so pleasant a visit for a long time. I fortunately was able + to fill their baskets with apples, which distressed poor Bryan [his + mess-steward], and I begged them to bring me nothing but kisses and to + keep the eggs, corn, etc., for themselves. I pray daily and almost hourly + to our Heavenly Father to come to the relief of you and our afflicted + country. I know He will order all things for our good, and we must be + content.” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0032" id="link2HCH0032"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter VIII — The Surrender + </h2> + <p> + Fort Fisher captured—Lee made Commander-in-Chief—Battle of + Five Forks—The General’s farewell to his men—His reception in + Richmond after the surrender—President Davis hears the news—Lee’s + visitors—His son Robert turns farmer + </p> + <p> + The year 1865 had now commenced. The strength of that thin gray line, + drawn out to less than one thousand men to the mile, which had repulsed + every attempt of the enemy to break through it, was daily becoming less. + The capture of Fort Fisher, our last open port, January 15th, cut off all + supplies and munitions from the outside world. Sherman had reached + Savannah in December, from which point he was ready to unite with Grant at + any time. From General Lee’s letters, official and private, one gets a + clear view of the desperateness of his position. He had been made + commander-in-chief of all the military forces in the Confederate States on + February 6th. In his order issued on accepting this command he says: + </p> + <p> + “...Deeply impressed with the difficulties and responsibilities of the + position, and humbly invoking the guidance of Almighty God, I rely for + success upon the courage and fortitude of the army, sustained by the + patriotism and firmness of the people, confident that their united efforts + under the blessing of Heaven will secure peace and independence....” + </p> + <p> + General Beauregard, who had so ably defended Petersburg when it was first + attacked, and who had assisted so materially in its subsequent defense, + had been sent to gather troops to try to check Sherman’s advance through + the Carolinas. But Beauregard’s health was now very bad, and it was feared + he would have to abandon the field. In a letter to the Secretary of War, + dated February 21, 1865, my father says: + </p> + <p> + “...In the event of the necessity of abandoning our position on James + River, I shall endeavour to unite the corps of the army about Burkeville + [junction of Southside and Danville Railroad], so as to retain + communication with the North and South as long as practicable, and also + with the West, I should think Lynchburg, or some point west, the most + advantageous place to which to remove stores from Richmond. This, however, + is a most difficult point at this time to decide, and the place may have + to be changed by circumstances. It was my intention in my former letter to + apply for General Joseph E. Johnston, that I might assign him to duty, + should circumstances permit. I have had no official report of the + condition of General Beauregard’s health. It is stated from many sources + to be bad. If he should break down entirely, it might be fatal. In that + event, I should have no one with whom to supply his place. I therefore + respectfully request General Johnston may be ordered to report to me, and + that I may be informed where he is.” + </p> + <p> + In a letter to the Secretary of War, written the next day: + </p> + <p> + “...But you may expect Sheridan to move up the Valley, and Stoneman from + Knoxville, as Sherman draws near Roanoke. What then will become of those + sections of the country? I know of no other troops that could be given to + Beauregard. Bragg will be forced back by Schofield, I fear, and, until I + abandon James River, nothing can be sent from this army. Grant, I think, + is now preparing to draw out by his left with the intent of enveloping me. + He may wait till his other columns approach nearer, or he may be preparing + to anticipate my withdrawal. I cannot tell yet.... Everything of value + should be removed from Richmond. It is of the first importance to save all + powder. The cavalry and artillery of the army are still scattered for want + of provender, and our supply and ammunition trains, which out to be with + the army in case of sudden movement, are absent collecting provisions and + forage—some in western Virginia and some in North Carolina. You will + see to what straits we are reduced; but I trust to work out.” + </p> + <p> + On the same day, in a letter to my mother, he writes: + </p> + <p> + “...After sending my note this morning, I received from the express office + a back of socks. You will have to send down your offerings as soon as you + can, and bring your work to a close, for I think General Grant will move + against us soon—within a week, if nothing prevents—and no man + can tell what may be the result; but trusting to a merciful God, who does + not always give the battle to the strong, I pray we may not be + overwhelmed. I shall, however, endeavour to do my duty and fight to the + last. Should it be necessary to abandon our position to prevent being + surrounded, what will you do? You must consider the question, and make up + your mind. It is a fearful condition, and we must rely for guidance and + protection upon a kind Providence....” + </p> + <p> + About this time, I saw my father for the last time until after the + surrender. We had been ordered up to the army from our camp nearly forty + miles away, reaching the vicinity of Petersburg the morning of the attack + of General Gordon on Fort Stedman, on March 25th. My brother and I had + ridden ahead of the division to report its presence, when we met the + General riding Traveller, almost alone, back from that part of the lines + opposite the fort. Since then I have often recalled the sadness of his + face, its careworn expression. When he caught sight of his two sons, a + bright smile at once lit up his countenance, and he showed very plainly + his pleasure at seeing us. He thanked my brother for responding so + promptly to his call upon him, and regretted that events had so shaped + themselves that the division would not then be needed, as he had hoped it + would be. + </p> + <p> + No good results followed Gordon’s gallant attack. His supports did not + come up a the proper time, and our losses were very heavy, mostly + prisoners. Two days after this, Sheridan, with ten thousand mounted men, + joined Grant, having marched from the Valley of Virginia via Staunton and + Charlottesville. On the 28th, everything being ready, General Grant + commenced to turn our right, and having more than three men to our one, he + had no difficult task. On that very day my father wrote to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “...I have received your note with a bag of socks. I return the bag and + receipt. The count is all right this time. I have put in the bag General + Scott’s autobiography, which I thought you might like to read. The + General, of course, stands out prominently, and does not hide his light + under a bushel, but he appears the bold, sagacious, truthful man that he + is. I inclose a note from little Agnes. I shall be very glad to see her + to-morrow, but cannot recommend pleasure trips now....” + </p> + <p> + On April 1st the Battle of Five Forks was fought, where about fifty + thousand infantry and cavalry—more men than were in our entire army—attacked + our extreme right and turned it, so that, to save our communications, we + had to abandon our lines at Petersburg, giving up that city and Richmond. + Form that time to April 9th the Army of Northern Virginia struggled to get + back to some position where it could concentrate its forces and make a + stand; but the whole world knows of that six-days’ retreat. I shall not + attempt to describe it in detail—indeed, I could not if I would, for + I was not present all the time—but will quote from those who have + made it a study and who are far better fitted to record it than I am. + General Early, in his address at Lexington, Virginia, January 19, 1872—General + Lee’s birthday—eloquently and briefly describes these six days as + follows: + </p> + <p> + “...The retreat from the lines of Richmond and Petersburg began in the + early days of April, and the remnant of the Army of Northern Virginia fell + back, more than one hundred miles, before its overpowering antagonists, + repeatedly presenting front to the latter and giving battle so as to check + his progress. Finally, from mere exhaustion, less than eight thousand men + with arms in their hands, of the noblest army that ever fought ‘in the + tide of time,’ were surrendered at Appomattox to an army of 150,000 men; + the sword of Robert E. Lee, without a blemish on it, was sheathed forever; + and the flag, to which he had added such luster, was furled, to be, + henceforth, embalmed in the affectionate remembrance of those who remained + faithful during all our trials, and will do so to the end.” + </p> + <p> + Colonel Archer Anderson, in his address at the unveiling of the Lee + monument in Richmond, Virginia, May 29, 1890, speaking of the siege of + Petersburg and of the surrender, utters these noble words: + </p> + <p> + “...Of the siege of Petersburg, I have only time to say that in it for + nine months the Confederate commander displayed every art by which genius + and courage can make good the lack of numbers and resources. But the + increasing misfortunes of the Confederate arms on other theatres of the + war gradually cut off the supply of men and means. The Army of Northern + Virginia ceased to be recruited, it ceased to be adequately fed. It lived + for months on less than one-third rations. It was demoralised, not by the + enemy in its front, but by the enemy in Georgia and the Carolinas. It + dwindled to 35,000 men, holding a front of thirty-five miles; but over the + enemy it still cast the shadow of its great name. Again and again, by a + bold offensive, it arrested the Federal movement to fasten on its + communications. At last, an irresistible concentration of forces broke + through its long thin line of battle. Petersburg had to be abandoned. + Richmond was evacuated. Trains bearing supplies were intercepted, and a + starving army, harassed for seven days by incessant attacks on rear and + flank, found itself completely hemmed in by overwhelming masses. Nothing + remained to it but its stainless honour, its unbroken courage. In those + last solemn scenes, when strong men, losing all self-control, broke down + and sobbed like children, Lee stood forth as great as in the days of + victory and triumph. No disaster crushed his spirit, no extremity of + danger ruffled his bearing. In the agony of dissolution now invading that + proud army, which for four years had wrested victory from every peril, in + that blackness of utter darkness, he preserved the serene lucidity of his + mind. He looked the stubborn facts calmly in the face, and when no + military resource remained, when he recognised the impossibility of making + another march or fighting another battle, he bowed his head in submission + to that Power which makes and unmakes nations. The surrender of the + fragments of the Army of Northern Virginia closed the imperishable record + of his military life....” + </p> + <p> + From the London “Standard,” at the time of his last illness, I quote these + words relative to this retreat: + </p> + <p> + “When the Army of Northern Virginia marched out of the lines around + Petersburg and Richmond, it still numbered some twenty-six thousand men. + After a retreat of six days, in the face of an overwhelming enemy, with a + crushing artillery—a retreat impeded by constant fighting and + harassed by countless hordes of cavalry—eight thousand were given up + by the capitulation at Appomattox Court House. Brilliant as were General + Lee’s earlier triumphs, we believe that he gave higher proofs of genius in + his last campaign, and that hardly any of his victories were so honourable + to himself and his army as that of his six-days’ retreat.” + </p> + <p> + Swinton, in his “History of the Army of the Potomac,” after justly + praising its deeds, thus speaks of its great opponent, the Army of + Northern Virginia: + </p> + <p> + “Nor can there fail to arise the image of that other army that was the + adversary of the Army of the Potomac, and—who that once looked upon + it can ever forget it?—that array of tattered uniforms and bright + muskets—that body of incomparable infantry, the Army of Northern + Virginia, which, for four years, carried the revolt on its bayonets, + opposing a constant front to the mighty concentration of power brought + against it; which, receiving terrible blows, did not fail to give the + like, and which, vital in all its parts, died only with its annihilation.” + </p> + <p> + General Long, in speaking of its hardships and struggles during the + retreat, thus describes how the army looked up to their commander and + trusted him to bring them through all their troubles: + </p> + <p> + “General Lee had never appeared more grandly heroic than on this occasion. + All eyes were raised to him for a deliverance which no human seemed able + to give. He alone was expected to provide food for the starving army and + rescue it from the attacks of a powerful and eager enemy. Under the + accumulation of difficulties, his courage seemed to expand, and wherever + he appeared his presence inspired the weak and weary with renewed energy + to continue the toilsome march. During these trying scenes his countenance + wore its habitual calm, grave expression. Those who watched his face to + catch a glimpse of what was passing in his mind could gather thence no + trace of his inner sentiments.” + </p> + <p> + No one can tell what he suffered. He did in all things what he considered + right. Self he absolutely abandoned. As he said, so he believed, that + “human virtue should equal human calamity.” A day or two before the + surrender, he said to General Pendleton: + </p> + <p> + “...I have never believed we could, against the gigantic combination for + our subjugation, make good in the long run our independence unless foreign + powers should, directly or indirectly, assist us.... But such + considerations really made with me no difference. We had, I was satisfied, + sacred principles to maintain and rights to defend, for which we were in + duty bound to do our best, even if we perished in the endeavour.” + </p> + <p> + After his last attempt was made with Gordon and Fitz Lee to break through + the lines of the enemy in the early morning of the 9th, and Colonel + Veneble informed him that it was not possible, he said: + </p> + <p> + “Then there is nothing left me but to go and see General Grant.” When some + one near him, hearing this, said: + </p> + <p> + “Oh, General, what will history say of the surrender of the army in the + field?” he replied: + </p> + <p> + “Yes, I know they will say hard things of us; they will not understand how + we were overwhelmed by numbers; but that is not the question, Colonel; the + question is, is it right to surrender this army? If it is right, then I + will take all the responsibility.” + </p> + <p> + There had been some correspondence with Grant just before the conversation + with General Pendleton. After Gordon’s attack failed, a flag of truce was + sent out, and, about eleven o’clock, General Lee went to meet General + Grant. The terms of surrender were agreed upon, and then General Lee + called attention to the pressing needs of his men. He said: + </p> + <p> + “I have a thousand or more of your men and officers, whom we have required + to march along with us for several days. I shall be glad to send them to + your lines as soon as it can be arranged, for I have no provisions for + them. My own men have been living for the last few days principally upon + parched cord, and we are badly in need of both rations and forage.” + </p> + <p> + Grant said he would at once send him 25,000 rations. General Lee told him + that amount would be ample and a great relief. He then rode back to his + troops. The rations issued then to our army were the supplies destined for + us but captured at Amelia Court House. Had they reached us in time, they + would have given the half-starved troops that were left strength enough to + make a further struggle. General Long graphically pictures the last + scenes: + </p> + <p> + “It is impossible to describe the anguish of the troops when it was known + that the surrender of the army was inevitable. Of all their trials, this + was the greatest and hardest to endure. There was no consciousness of + shame; each heart could boast with honest pride that its duty had been + done to the end, and that still unsullied remained its honour. When, after + this interview with General Grant, General Lee again appeared, a shout of + welcome instinctively went up from the army. But instantly recollecting + the sad occasion that brought him before them, their shouts sank into + silence, every hat was raised, and the bronzed faces of thousands of grim + warriors were bathed in tears. As he rode slowly along the lines, hundreds + of his devoted veterans pressed around the noble chief, trying to take his + hand, touch his person, or even lay their hands upon his horse, thus + exhibiting for him their great affection. The General then with head bare, + and tears flowing freely down his manly cheeks, bade adieu to the army.” + </p> + <p> + In a few words: “Men, we have fought through the war together; I have done + my best for you; my heart is too full to say more,” he bade them good-bye + and told them to return to their homes and become good citizens. The next + day he issued his farewell address, the last order published to the army: + </p> + <p> + “Headquarters, Army of Northern Virginia, April 10, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “After four years’ of arduous service, marked by unsurpassed courage and + fortitude, the Army of Northern Virginia has been compelled to yield to + overwhelming numbers and resources. I need not tell the survivors of so + many hard-fought battles, who have remained steadfast to the last, that I + have consented to this result from no distrust of them; but, feeling that + valour and devotion could accomplish nothing that could compensate for the + loss that would have attended the continuation of the contest, I have + determined to avoid the useless sacrifice of those whose past services + have endeared them to their countrymen. By the terms of the agreement, + officers and men can return to their homes and remain there until + exchanged. You will take with you the satisfaction that proceeds from the + consciousness of duty faithfully performed; and I earnestly pray that a + merciful God will extend to you his blessing and protection. With an + increasing admiration of your constancy and devotion to your country, and + a grateful remembrance of your kind and generous consideration of myself, + I bid you an affectionate farewell. + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee, General.” + </p> + <p> + General Long says that General Meade called on General Lee on the 10th, + and in the course of conversation remarked: + </p> + <p> + “Now that the war may be considered over, I hope you will not deem it + improper for me to ask, for my personal information, the strength of your + army during the operations around Richmond and Petersburg.” General Lee + replied: + </p> + <p> + “At no time did my force exceed 35,000 men; often it was less.” With a + look of surprise, Meade answered: + </p> + <p> + “General, you amaze me; we always estimated your force at about seventy + thousand men.” + </p> + <p> + General de Chanal, a French officer, who was present, states that General + Lee, who had been an associate of Meade’s in the engineers in the “old + army,” said to him pleasantly: + </p> + <p> + “Meade, years are telling on you; your hair is getting quite gray.” + </p> + <p> + “Ah, General Lee,” was Meade’s prompt reply, “it is not the work of years; + YOU are responsible for my gray hairs!” + </p> + <p> + “Three days after the surrender,” says Long, “the Army of Northern + Virginia had dispersed in every direction, and three weeks later the + veterans of a hundred battles had exchanged the musket and the sword for + the implements of husbandry. It is worthy of remark that never before was + there an army disbanded with less disorder. Thousands of soldiers were set + adrift on the world without a penny in their pockets to enable them to + reach their homes. Yet none of the scenes of riot that often follow the + disbanding of armies marked their course.” + </p> + <p> + A day or two after the surrender, General Lee started for Richmond, riding + Traveller, who had carried him so well all through the war. He was + accompanied by some of his staff. On the way, he stopped at the house of + his eldest brother, Charles Carter Lee, who lived on the Upper James in + Powhatan County. He spent the evening in talking with his brother, but + when bedtime came, though begged by his host to take the room and bed + prepared for him, he insisted on going to his old tent, pitched by the + roadside, and passed the night in the quarters he was accustomed to. On + April 15th he arrived in Richmond. The people there soon recognised him; + men, women, and children crowded around him, cheering and waving hats and + handkerchiefs. It was more like the welcome to a conqueror than to a + defeated prisoner on parole. He raised his hat in response to their + greetings, and rode quietly to his home on Franklin Street, where my + mother and sisters were anxiously awaiting him. Thus he returned to that + private family life for which he had always longed, and become what he + always desired to be—a peaceful citizen in a peaceful land. + </p> + <p> + In attempting to describe these last days of the Army of Northern + Virginia, I have quoted largely from Long, Jones, Taylor, and Fitz Lee, + all of whom have given more or less full accounts of the movements of both + armies. + </p> + <p> + It so happened that shortly after we left our lines, April 2d or 3d, in + one of the innumerable contests, my horse was shot, and in getting him and + myself off the field, having no choice of routes, the pursuing Federal + cavalry intervened between men and the rest of our command, so I had to + make my way around the head of Sheridan’s advance squadrons before I could + rejoin our forces. This I did not succeed in accomplishing until April + 9th, the day of the surrender, for my wounded horse had to be left with a + farmer, who kindly gave me one in exchange, saying I could send him back + when I was able, or, if I was prevented, that I could keep him and he + would replace him with mine when he got well. + </p> + <p> + As I was riding toward Appomattox on the 9th, I met a body of our cavalry + with General T. H. Rosser at the head. He told me that General Lee and his + army had surrendered, and that this force had made its way out, and was + marching back to Lynchburg, expecting thence to reach General Johnston’s + army. To say that I was surprised does not express my feelings. I had + never heard the word “surrender” mentioned, nor even a suggested, in + connection with our general or our army. I could not believe it, and did + not until I was positively assured by all my friends who were with + Rosser’s column that it was absolutely so. Very sadly I turned back and + went to Lynchburg along with them. There I found some wagons from our + headquarters which had been sent back, and with them the horses and + servants of the staff. These I got together, not believing for an instant + that our struggle was over, and, with several officers from our command + and others, we made our way to Greensboro, North Carolina. There I found + Mr. Davis and his cabinet and representatives of the Confederate + departments from Richmond. There was a great diversity of opinion amongst + all present as to what we should do. After waiting a couple of days, + looking over the situation from every point of view, consulting with my + uncle, Commodore S. S. Lee, of the Confederate Navy, and with many others, + old friends of my father and staunch adherents of the Southern cause, it + was determined to go back to Virginia to get our paroles, go home, and go + to work. + </p> + <p> + While at Greensboro I went to see President Davis, just before he + proceeded on his way further south. He was calm and dignified, and, in his + conversation with several officers of rank who were there, seemed to + think, and so expressed himself, that our cause was not lost, though + sorely stricken, and that we could rally our forces west of the + Mississippi and make good our fight. While I was in the room, Mr. Davis + received the first official communication from General Lee of his + surrender. Colonel John Taylor Woods, his aide-de-camp, had taken me in to + see the President, and he and I were standing by him when the despatch + from General Lee was brought to him. After reading it, he handed it + without comment to us; then, turning away, he silently wept bitter tears. + He seemed quite broken at the moment by this tangible evidence of the loss + of his army and the misfortune of its general. All of us, respecting his + great grief, silently withdrew, leaving him with Colonel Wood. I never saw + him again. + </p> + <p> + I started for Richmond, accompanied by several companions, with the + servants and horses belonging to our headquarters. These I had brought + down with me from Lynchburg, where I had found them after the surrender. + After two week of marching and resting, I arrived in Richmond and found my + father there, in the house on Franklin Street, now the rooms of the + “Virginia Historical Society,” and also my mother, brother, and sisters. + They were all much relieved at my reappearance. + </p> + <p> + As well as I can recall my father at this time, he appeared to be very + well physically, though he looked older, grayer, more quiet and reserved. + He seemed very tired, and was always glad to talk of any other subject + than that of the war or anything pertaining thereto. We all tried to cheer + and help him. And the people of Richmond and of the entire South were as + kind and considerate as it was possible to be. Indeed, I think their great + kindness tired him. He appreciated it all, was courteous, grateful, and + polite, but he had been under such a terrible strain for several years + that he needed the time and quiet to get back his strength of heart and + mind. All sorts and conditions of people came to see him: officers and + soldiers from both armies, statesmen, politicians, ministers of the + Gospel, mothers and wives to ask about husbands and sons of whom they had + heard nothing. To keep him from being overtaxed by this incessant stream + of visitors, we formed a sort of guard of the young men in the house, some + of whom took it by turns to keep the door and, if possible, turn strangers + away. My father was gentle, kind, and polite to all, and never willingly, + so far as I know, refused to see any one. + </p> + <p> + Dan lee, late of the Confederate States Navy, my first cousin, and myself, + one day had charge of the front door, when at it appeared a Federal + soldier, accompanied by a darkey carrying a large willow basket filled to + the brim with provisions of every kind. The man was Irish all over, and + showed by his uniform and carriage that he was a “regular,” and not a + volunteer. On our asking him what he wanted, he replied that he wanted to + see General Lee, that he had heard down the street the General and his + family were suffering for lack of something to eat, that he had been with + “the Colonel” when he commanded the Second Cavalry, and, as long as he had + a cent, his old colonel should not suffer. My father, who had stepped into + another room as he heard the bell ring, hearing something of the + conversation, came out into the hall. The old Irishman, as soon as he saw + him, drew himself up and saluted, and repeated to the General, with tears + streaming down his cheeks, what he had just said to us. My father was very + much touched, thanked him heartily for his kindness and generosity, but + told him that he did not need the things he had brought and could not take + them. This seemed to disappoint the old soldier greatly, and he pleaded so + hard to be allowed to present the supplies to his old colonel, whom he + believed to be in want of them, that at last my father said that he would + accept the basket and sent it to the hospital, for the sick and wounded, + who were really in great need. Though he was not satisfied, he submitted + to this compromise, and then to our surprise and dismay, in bidding the + General good-bye, threw his arms around him and was attempting to kiss + him, when “Dan” and I interfered. As he was leaving, he said: + </p> + <p> + “Good-bye, Colonel! God bless ye! If I could have got over in time I would + have been with ye!” + </p> + <p> + A day or two after that, when “Dan” was doorkeeper, three Federal + officers, a colonel, a major, and a doctor, called and asked to see + General Lee. They were shown into the parlour, presented their cards, and + said they desired to pay their respects as officers of the United States + Army. When Dan went out with the three cards, he was told by some one that + my father was up stairs engaged with some other visitor, so he returned + and told them this and they departed. When my father came down, was shown + the cards and told of the three visitors, he was quite put out at Dan’s + not having brought him the cards at the time and that afternoon mounted + him on one of his horses and sent him over to Manchester, where they were + camped, to look up the three officers and to tell them he would be glad to + see them at any time they might be pleased to call. However, Dan failed to + find them. + </p> + <p> + He had another visit at this time which affected him deeply. Two + Confederate soldiers in very dilapidated clothing, worn and emaciated in + body, came to see him. They said they had been selected from about sixty + other fellows, too ragged to come themselves, to offer him a home in the + mountains of Virginia. The home was a good house and farm, and near by was + a defile, in some rugged hills, from which they could defy the entire + Federal Army. They made this offer of a home and their protection because + there was a report that he was about to be indicted for treason. The + General had to decline to go with them, but the tears came into his eyes + at this hearty exhibition of loyalty. + </p> + <p> + After being in Richmond a few days, and by the advice of my father getting + my parole from the United States Provost Marshal there, the question as to + what I should do came up. My father told me that I could go back to + college if I desired and prepare myself for some profession—that he + had a little money which he would be willing and glad to devote to the + completion of my education. I think he was strongly in favour of my going + back to college. At the same time he told me that, if I preferred it, I + could take possession of my farm land in King William County, which I had + inherited from my grandfather, Mr. Custis, and make my home there. As + there was little left of the farm but the land, he thought he could + arrange to help me build a house and purchase stock and machinery. + </p> + <p> + My brother, General W. H. F. Lee, had already gone down to his place, “The + White House” in New Kent County, with Major John Lee, our first cousin, + had erected a shanty, and gone to work, breaking up land for a corn crop, + putting their cavalry horses to the plow. As I thought my father had use + for any means he might have in caring for my mother and sisters, and as I + had this property, I determined to become a farmer. However, I did not + decide positively, and in the meantime it was thought best that I should + join my brother and cousin at the White House and help them make their + crop of corn. In returning to Richmond, I had left at “Hickory Hill,” + General Wickham’s place in Hanover County, our horses and servants, taken + with me from Lynchburg to Greensboro and back. So bidding all my friends + and family good-bye, I went by rail to “Hickory Hill” and started the next + day with three servants and about eight horses for New Kent, stopping the + first night at “Pampatike.” The next day I reached the White House, where + the reinforcements I brought with me were hailed with delight. + </p> + <p> + Though I have been a farmer from that day to this, I will say that the + crop of corn which we planted that summer, with ourselves and army + servants as laborers and our old cavalry horses as teams, and which we did + not finish planting until the 9th of June, was the best I ever made. + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0033" id="link2HCH0033"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter IX — A Private Citizen + </h2> + <p> + Lee’s conception of the part—His influence exerted toward the + restoration of Virginia—He visits old friends throughout the country—Receives + offers of positions—Compares notes with the Union General Hunter—Longs + for a country home—Finds one at “Derwent,” near Cartersville + </p> + <p> + My father remained quietly in Richmond with my mother and sisters. He was + now a private citizen for the first time in his life. As he had always + been a good soldier, so now he became a good citizen. My father’s advice + to all his old officers and men was to submit to the authority of the land + and to stay at home, now that their native States needed them more than + ever. His advice and example had great influence with all. In a letter to + Colonel Walter Taylor [his old A. A. G.], he speaks on this point: + </p> + <p> + “...I am sorry to hear that our returned soldiers cannot obtain + employment. Tell them they must all set to work, and if they cannot do + what they prefer, do what they can. Virginia wants all their aid, all + their support, and the presence of all her sons to sustain and recuperate + her. They must therefore put themselves in a position to take part in her + government, and not be deterred by obstacles in their way. There is much + to be done which they only can do....” + </p> + <p> + And in a letter, a month later, to an officer asking his opinion about a + decree of the Emperor of Mexico encouraging the emigration from the South + to that country: + </p> + <p> + “...I do not know how far their emigration to another land will conduce to + their prosperity. Although prospects may not now be cheering, I have + entertained the opinion that, unless prevented by circumstances or + necessity, it would be better for them and the country if they remained at + their homes and shared the fate of their respective States....” + </p> + <p> + Again, in a letter to Governor Letcher [the “War Governor” of Virginia]: + </p> + <p> + “...The duty of its citizens, then, appears to me too plain to admit of + doubt. All should unite in honest efforts to obliterate the effects of the + war and to restore the blessing of peace. They should remain, if possible, + in the country; promote harmony and good feeling, qualify themselves to + vote and elect to the State and general legislatures wise and patriotic + men, who will devote their abilities to the interests of the country and + the healing of all dissensions. I have invariably recommended this course + since the cessation of hostilities, and have endeavoured to practise it + myself....” + </p> + <p> + Also in a letter of still later date, to Captain Josiah Tatnall, of the + Confederate States Navy, he thus emphasises the same sentiment: + </p> + <p> + “...I believe it to be the duty of every one to unite in the restoration + of the country and the reestablishment of peace and harmony. These + considerations governed be in the counsels I gave to others, and induced + me on the 13th of June to make application to be included in the terms of + the amnesty proclamation....” + </p> + <p> + These letters and many more show plainly his conception of what was right + for all to do at this time. I have heard him repeatedly give similar + advice to relatives and friends and to strangers who sought it. The + following letters to General Grant and to President Johnson show how he + gave to the people of the South an example of quiet submission to the + government of the country: + </p> + <p> + “Richmond, Virginia, June 13, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “Lieutenant-General U. S. Grant, Commanding the + </p> + <p> + “Armies of the United States. + </p> + <p> + “General: Upon reading the President’s proclamation of the 29th ult., I + came to Richmond to ascertain what was proper or required of me to do, + when I learned that, with others, the was to be indicted for treason by + the grand jury at Norfolk. I had supposed that the officers and men of the + Army of Northern Virginia were, by the terms of their surrender, protected + by the United States Government from molestation so long as they conformed + to its conditions. I am ready to meet any charges that may be preferred + against me, and do not wish to avoid trail; but, if I am correct as to the + protection granted by my parole, and am not to be prosecuted, I desire to + comply with the provision of the President’s proclamation, and, therefore, + inclose the required application, which I request, in that event, may be + acted on. I am with great respect, + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient servant, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “Richmond, Virginia, June 13, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “His Excellency Andrew Johnson, President of the United States. + </p> + <p> + “Sir: Being excluded from the provisions of the amnesty and pardon + contained in the proclamation of the 29th ult., I hereby apply for the + benefits and full restoration of all rights as privileges extended to + those included in its terms. I graduated at the Military Academy at West + Point in June, 1829; resigned from the United States Army, April, 1861; + was a general in the Confederate Army, and included in the surrender of + the Army of Northern Virginia, April 9, 1865. I have the honour to be, + very respectfully, + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient servant, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Of this latter letter, my brother, Custis Lee, writes me: + </p> + <p> + “When General Lee requested me to make a copy of this letter, he remarked + it was but right for him to set an example of making a formal submission + to the civil authorities, and that he thought, by do doing, he might + possibly be in a better position to be of use to the Confederates who were + not protected by military paroles, especially Mr. Davis.” + </p> + <p> + Colonel Charles Marshall [a grandson of Chief Justice Marshall, and Lee’s + military secretary] says: + </p> + <p> + “...He (General Lee) set to work to use his great influence to reconcile + the people of the South to the hard consequences of their defeat, to + inspire them with hope, to lead them to accept, freely and frankly, the + government that had been established by the result of the war, and thus + relieve them from the military rule.... The advice and example of General + Lee did more to incline the scale in favour of a frank and manly adoption + of that course of conduct which tended to the restoration of peace and + harmony than all the Federal garrisons in all the military districts.” + </p> + <p> + My father was at this time anxious to secure for himself and family a + house somewhere in the country. He had always had a desire to be the owner + of a small farm, where he could end his days in peace and quiet. The life + in Richmond was not suited to him. He wanted quiet and rest, but could not + get it there, for people were too attentive to him. So in the first days + of June he mounted old Traveller and, unattended, rode down to “Pampatike”—some + twenty-five miles—to pay a visit of several days to his relations + there. This is an old Carter property, belonging then and now to Colonel + Thomas H. Carter, who, but lately returned from Appomattox Court House, + was living there with his wife and children. Colonel Carter, whose father + was a first cousin of General Lee’s, entered the Army of Northern Virginia + in the spring of 1861, as captain of the “King William Battery,” rose + grade by grade by his skill and gallantry, and surrendered in the spring + of 1865, as Colonel and Chief of Artillery of his corps at that time. He + was highly esteemed and much beloved by my father, and our families had + been intimate for a long time. + </p> + <p> + “Pampatike” is a large, old-fashioned plantation, lying along the Pamunkey + River, between the Piping Tree and New Castle ferries. Part of the house + is very old, and, from time to time, as more rooms were needed, additions + have been made, giving the whole a very quaint and picturesque appearance. + At the old-fashioned dinner hour of three o’clock, my father, mounted on + Traveller, unannounced, unexpected, and alone, rode up to the door. The + horse and rider were at once recognised by Colonel Carter, and he was + gladly welcomed by his kinsfolk. I am sure the days passed here were the + happiest he had spent for many years. He was very weary of town, of the + incessant unrest incident to his position, of the crowds of persons of all + sorts and conditions striving to see him; so one can imagine the joy of + master and horse when, after a hot ride of over twenty miles, they reached + this quiet resting-place. My father, Colonel Carter tells me, enjoyed + every moment of his stay. There were three children in the house, the two + youngest little girls of five and three years old. These were his special + delight, and he followed them around, talking baby-talk to them and + getting them to talk to him. Every morning before he was up they went into + his room, at his special request, to pay him a visit. Another great + pleasure was to watch Traveller enjoy himself. He had him turned out on + the lawn, where the June grass was very fine, abundant, and at its prime, + and would allow no cord to be fed to him, saying he had had plenty of that + during the last four years, and that the grass and the liberty were what + he needed. He talked to Colonel Carter much about Mexico, its people and + climate; also about the old families living in that neighbourhood and + elsewhere in the State, with whom both Colonel Carter and himself were + connected; but he said very little about the recent war, and only in + answer to some direct question. + </p> + <p> + About six miles from “Pampatike,” on the same river and close to its + banks, is “Chericoke,” another old Virginia homestead, which had belonged + to the Braxtons for generations, and, at that time, was the home of Corbin + Braxton’s widow. General Lee was invited to dine there, and to meet him my + brother, cousin, and I, from the White House, were asked, besides General + Rosser, who was staying in the neighbourhood, and several others. This old + Virginia house had long been noted for its lavish hospitality and + bountiful table. Mrs. Braxton had never realised that the war should make + any change in this respect, and her table was still spread in those days + of desolation as it had been before the war, when there was plenty in the + land. So we sat down to a repast composed of all the good things for which + that country was famous. John and I did not seem to think there was too + much in sight—at any rate, it did not daunt us, and we did our best + to lessen the quantity, consuming, I think, our share and more! We had + been for so many years in the habit of being hungry that it was not + strange we continued to be so awhile yet. But my father took a different + view of the abundance displayed, and, during his drive back, said to + Colonel Carter: + </p> + <p> + “Thomas, there was enough dinner to-day for twenty people. All this will + now have to be changed; you cannot afford it; we shall have to practise + economy.” + </p> + <p> + In talking with Colonel Carter about the situation of farmers at that time + in the South, and of their prospects for the future, he urged him to get + rid of the negroes left on the farm—some ninety-odd in number, + principally women and children, with a few old men—saying the + government would provide for them, and advised him to secure white labour. + The Colonel told him he had to use, for immediate needs, such force as he + had, being unable at that time to get whites. Whereupon General Lee + remarked: + </p> + <p> + “I have always observed that wherever you find the negro, everything is + going down around him, and wherever you find a white man, you see + everything around him improving.” + </p> + <p> + He was thinking strongly of taking a house in the country for himself and + family, and asked the Colonel whether he could not suggest some part of + the State that might suit him. Colonel Carter mentioned Clarke County as + representing the natural-grass section of Virginia, and Gloucester County + the salt-water. My father unhesitatingly pronounced in favour of the + grass-growing country. He told Mrs. Carter how pleased he was to hear that + she had received her husband in tears when he returned from the surrender, + as showing the true spirit, for, though glad to see him, she wept because + he could fight no more for the cause. The day after this dinner he had to + turn his back on those dear friends and their sweet home. + </p> + <p> + When Traveller was brought up to the door for him to mount, he walked all + around him, looking carefully at the horse, saddle, and bridle. Apparently + the blanket was not arranged to suit him, for he held the bridle while + “Uncle Henry” took off the saddle. Then he took off the blanket himself, + spread it out on the grass, and, folding it to suit his own idea of + fitness, carefully placed it on Traveller’s back, and superintended + closely the putting on and girthing of the saddle. This being done, he + bade everybody good-bye, and, mounting his horse, rode away homeward—to + Richmond. After crossing the Pamunkey at Newcastle ferry, he rode into + “Ingleside,” about a mile from the river, the lovely home of Mrs. Mary + Braxton. Here he dismounted and paid his respects to the mistress of the + house and her daughters, who were also cousins. That afternoon he reached + Richmond, returning by the same road he had travelled coming out. After + his visit, which he had enjoyed so much, he began looking about more than + ever to find a country home. + </p> + <p> + The house he was occupying in Richmond belonged to Mr. John Stewart, of + “Brook Hill,” who was noted for his devotion to the cause of the South and + his kindness to all those who had suffered in the conflict. My brother + Custis had rented it at the time he was appointed on Mr. Davis’s staff. A + mess had been established there by my brother and several other officers + on duty in Richmond. In time, my mother and sister had been made members + of it, and it had been the headquarters of all of the family during the + war, when in town. My father was desirous of making some settlement with + his landlord for its long use, but before he could take the final steps my + mother received the following note from Mr. Stewart: + </p> + <p> + “...I am not presuming on your good opinion, when I feel that you will + believe me, first, that you and yours are heartily welcome to the house as + long as your convenience leads you to stay in Richmond; and, next, that + you owe me nothing, but, if you insist on paying, that the payment must be + in Confederate currency, for which along it was rented to your son. You do + not know how much gratification it is, and will afford me and my whole + family during the remainder of our lives, to reflect that we have been + brought into contact, and to know and to appreciate you and all that are + dear to you.” + </p> + <p> + My father had been offered, since the surrender, houses lands, and money, + as well as positions as president of business associations and chartered + corporations. + </p> + <p> + “An English nobleman,” Long says, “desired him to accept a mansion and an + estate commensurate with his individual merits and the greatness of an + historic family.” + </p> + <p> + He replied: “I am deeply grateful; I cannot desert my native State in the + hour of her adversity. I must abide her fortunes, and share her fate.” + </p> + <p> + Until his death, he was constantly in receipt of such offers, all of which + he thought proper to decline. He wrote to General Long: + </p> + <p> + “I am looking for some little, quiet home in the woods, where I can + procure shelter and my daily bread, if permitted by the victor. I wish to + get Mrs. Lee out of the city as soon as practical.” + </p> + <p> + It so happened that nearly exactly what he was looking for was just then + offered to him. Mrs. Elizabeth Randolph Cocke, of Cumberland County, a + granddaughter of Edmund Randolph, had on her estate a small cottage which, + with the land attached, she placed at his disposal. The retired situation + of this little home, and the cordial way in which Mrs. Cocke insisted on + his coming, induced my father to accept her invitation. + </p> + <p> + Captain Edmund Randolph Cocke [Mrs. Cocke’s second son who lived with his + mother at Oakland] writes me the following: + </p> + <p> + “Oakland, Virginia, October 25, 1896. + </p> + <p> + “My mother, whose sympathies for everybody and everything connected with + our cause were the greatest and most enlarged of any one I ever knew, + thought it might be agreeable and acceptable to General Lee to have a + retired placed in which to rest. Having this little house unoccupied, she + invited him to accept it as a home as long as he might find it pleasant to + himself. The General came up with your mother and sisters about the last + of June, General Custis Lee having preceded them a day or two on + Traveller. At that time our mode of travel was on the canal by + horse-packet: leaving Richmond at a little before sunset, the boat reached + Pemberton, our landing, about sunrise. General Custis and I went down to + meet them, and we all reached home in time for breakfast. That night on + the boat the Captain had had the most comfortable bed put up that he could + command, which was offered to your father. But he preferred to sleep on + deck, which he did, with his military cloak thrown over him. No doubt that + was the last night he ever spent under the open sky. After a week spent + here, General Lee removed, with his family, to “Derwent.” There he spent + several months of quiet and rest, only interrupted by the calls of those + who came in all honesty and sincerity to pay their respects to him. Old + soldiers, citizens, men and women, all came without parade or ceremony. + During this time he rode on Traveller daily, taking sometimes long trips—once + I recall, going to his brother’s, Mr. Carter Lee’s, about twenty miles, + and at another time to Bremo, about thirty miles. During the month of + August he was visited by Judge Brockenborough, of Lexington, who, as + Rector of the Board of Trustees of Washington College, tendered him, on + behalf of the Board, the presidency of the college. After considering the + matter for several weeks, he decided to accept this position. + </p> + <p> + “...During that summer he was a regular attendant at the various churches + in our neighbourhood, whenever there was a service. I never heard your + father discuss public matters at all, nor did he express his opinion of + public men. On one occasion, I did hear him condemn with great severity + the Secretary of War, Stanton. This was at the time Mrs. Surratt was + condemned and executed. At another time I heard him speak harshly of + General Hunter, who had written to him to get his approval of his + movements, during the Valley Campaign, against General Early. With these + exceptions, I never heard him speak of public men or measures.” + </p> + <p> + In this connection I quote the Rev. J. Wm. Jones in his “Personal + Reminiscences of General Robert E. Lee”: + </p> + <p> + “Not long after the close of the war, General Lee received a letter from + General David Hunger, of the Federal Army, in which he begged information + on two points: + </p> + <p> + “1. His (Hunter’s) campaign in the summer of 1864 was undertaken on + information received at the War Department in Washington that General Lee + was about to detach forty thousand picked troops to send General Johnston. + Did not his (Hunter’s) movements prevent this, and relieve Sherman to that + extent? + </p> + <p> + “2. When he (Hunter) found it necessary to retreat from before Lynchburg, + did not he adopt the most feasible line of retreat? + </p> + <p> + “General Lee wrote a very courteous reply, in which he said: + </p> + <p> + “‘The information upon which your campaign was undertaken was erroneous. I + had NO TROOPS to spare General Johnston and no intention of sending him + any—CERTAINLY NOT FORTY THOUSAND, AS THAT WOULD HAVE TAKEN ABOUT ALL + I HAD. + </p> + <p> + “‘As to the second point—I would say that I am not advised as to the + motives which induced you to adopt the line of retreat which you took, and + am not, perhaps competent to judge of the question, BUT I CERTAINLY + EXPECTED YOU TO RETREAT BY WAY OF THE SHENANDOAH VALLEY [the emphasis is + Dr. Jones’s], and was gratified at the time that you preferred the route + through the mountains of the Ohio—leaving the valley open for + General Early’s advance into Maryland.’” + </p> + <p> + Before leaving Richmond, my father wrote the following letter to Colonel + Ordway, then Provost Marshal: + </p> + <p> + “Richmond, Virginia, June 21, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “Lt.-Col. Albert Ordway, Provost Marshal, Department of Virginia. + </p> + <p> + “Colonel: I propose establishing my family next week in Cumberland County, + Virginia, near Cartersville, on the James River canal. On announcing my + intention to General Patrick, when he was on duty in Richmond, he stated + that no passport for the purpose was necessary. Should there have been any + change in the orders of the Department rendering passports necessary, I + request that I may be furnished with them. My son, G. W. Custis Lee, a + paroled prisoner with myself, will accompany me. Very respectfully your + obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The latter part of June, my father, mother, brother Custis, and sisters + went to “Derwent,” the name of the little place which was to be his home + for that summer. They went by canal-boat from Richmond to Cartersville, + and then had a drive of about six miles. Mrs. Cocke lived at “Oakland,” + two miles away, and her generous heart was made glad by the opportunity of + supplying my father and his family with every comfort that it was possible + to get at the time. In his letters to me, still at the White House busy + with our corn, he gives a description of the surroundings: + </p> + <p> + “...We are all well, and established in a comfortable but small house, in + a grove of oaks, belonging to Mr. Thomas Cocke [Mrs. Cocke’s eldest son]. + It contains four rooms, and there is a house in the yard which when fitted + up will give us another. Only your mother, Agnes, and Mildred are with me. + Custis, who has had a return of his attack...is at Mrs. Cocke’s house, + about two miles off—is convalescent, I hope. I have been nowhere as + yet. The weather has been excessively hot, but this morning there is an + agreeable change, with some rain. The country here is poor but healthy, + and we are at a long distance from you all. I can do nothing until I learn + what decision in my case is made in Washington. All unite with me in much + love. + </p> + <p> + “Very truly, your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The “case” referred to here was the indictment in June by a grand jury in + Norfolk, Virginia, of Mr. Davis, General Lee, and others, for treason or + something like it. + </p> + <p> + The Hon. Reverdy Johnson offered his professional services to my father in + this case, but there was no trial, as a letter from General Grant to the + authorities insisted that the parole given by him to the officers and + soldiers of the Army of Northern Virginia should be respected. The + following letter explains itself: + </p> + <p> + “Near Cartersville, Virginia, July 27, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “Hon. Reverdy Johnson, Baltimore, Md. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Sir: I very much regret that I did not see you on your recent + visit to Richmond, that I might have thanked you for the interest you have + shown in my behalf, and you great kindness in offering me your + professional services in the indictment which I now understand is pending + against me. I am very glad, however, that you had an opportunity of + reading a copy of General Grant’s letter of the 20th inst. to me, which I + left with Mr. Macfarland for that purpose, and also that he might show it + to other officers of the Army of Northern Virginia in my condition. I did + not wish to give it greater publicity without the assent of General Grant, + supposing that, if he desired it made public, he would take steps to have + it done. Should he consent to your request to have it published, I, of + course, have no objection. But should he not, I request that you only use + it in the manner I have above indicated. Again offering you my warmest + thanks for your sympathy and consideration for my welfare, I am, with great + respect, + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient Servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In another letter to me he tells of his visit to his brother Charles + Carter Lee in Powhatan County, which was an easy ride from “Derwent.” He + was very fond of making these little excursion, and Traveller, that + summer, was in constant use: + </p> + <p> + “Near Cartersville, July 22, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Rob: I have just returned from a visit to your Uncle Carter, and, + among my letters, find one from some of your comrades to you, which I + inclose. I was happy to discover from the direction that it was intended + for you and not for me. I find Agnes quite sick, and have sent for the + doctor, as I do not know what to do for her. Poor little thing! she seems + quite prostrated. Custis, I am told, is better. He is still at Mrs. + Cocke’s. The rest of us are well. I saw several of your comrades, Cockes, + Kennons and Gilliams, who inquired after you all. Give my love to F. and + Johnny, in which all here unite, and believe me most truly and + affectionately + </p> + <p> + “Your father, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Robert E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In another letter he gives an account of a trip that he and Traveller had + taken across the river into Albemarle County: + </p> + <p> + “Near Cartersville, August 21, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Bertus: I received only a few days ago your letter of the 12th. I + am very sorry to hear of your afflictions, but hope you have shaken off + all of them. You must keep your eyes open, you precious boy, and not run + against noxious vines and fevers. I have just returned from a visit to + Fluvanna. I rode up the gray and extended my peregrinations into + Albemarle, but no further than the Green Mountain neighbourhood. I made + short rides, stopping every evening with some friend, and had a very + pleasant time. I commended you to all the young ladies on the road, but + did not know I was extolling a poisoned beau! You must go up and see Miss + Francis Galt. Tell Fitzhugh I wrote to him before I went away. I am glad + to hear that your corn is so fine, and that you are making preparations to + put in a good crop of wheat. I wish I had a little farm somewhere, to be + at work too. Custis is paying a visit to his friend, Captain Watkins, in + Powhatan. He came up for him last Saturday, and bore him off. He has got + quite well now, and I hope will continue so. Agnes is also well, though + still feeble and thin. Your mother, Life, and myself as usual. We have not + heard for some time from daughter. A report has reached us of her being at + Mr. Burwell’s. Miss Mary Cocke and her brother John paid us a short visit + from Saturday to Monday, and several of our neighbors have been over to + spend the day. We have a quiet time, which is delightful to me, but I fear + not so exhilarating to the girls. I missed Uncle Carter’s visit. He and + his Robert rode up on a pair of colts while I was in Fluvanna, and spent + several days. I wish we were nearer you boys. I want to see you very much, + but do not know when that can be. I hope Johnny is well. I have heard + nothing from his father since we parted in Richmond, but hear that Fitz + has gone to see his mother. All here send their best love to you, and I + pray that every happiness may attend you. + </p> + <p> + “Your devoted father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Robert E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “Bertus” was a contraction of Robertus, my father’s pet name for me as a + child. My afflictions were “poison-oak,” chills, and fever. The letter to + my brother Fitzhugh, here referred to, I also give: + </p> + <p> + “Near Cartersville, Cumberland County, Virginia, July 29, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: I was very glad to receive, by the last packet from + Richmond, your letter of the 22d. We had all been quite anxious to hear + from you, and were much gratified to learn that you were all well, and + doing well. It is very cheering to me to hear of your good prospects for + corn and your cheerful prospects for the future. God grant they may be + realised, which, I am sure, they will be, if you will unite sound + judgement to your usual energy in your operations. As to the indictments, + I hope you, at last, may not be prosecuted. I see no other reason for it + than for prosecuting ALL who ever engaged in the war. I think, however, we + may expect procrastination in measures of relief, denunciatory threats, + etc. We must be patient, and let them take their course. As soon as I can + ascertain their intention toward me, if not prevented, I shall endeavour + to procure some humble, but quiet, abode for your mother and sisters, + where I hope they can be happy. As I before said, I want to get in some + grass country, where the natural product of the land will do much for my + subsistence.... Our neighbours are very kind, and do everything in the + world to promote our comfort. If Agnes is well enough, I propose to ride + up to ‘Bremo’ next week. I wish I was near enough to see you. Give much + love to Rob and Johnny, the Carters and Braxtons. All here unite in love + and best wishes for you all. + </p> + <p> + “Most affectionately, your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0034" id="link2HCH0034"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter X — President of Washington College + </h2> + <p> + Patriotic motives for acceptance of trust—Condition of college—The + General’s arrival at Lexington—He prepares for the removal of his + family to that city—Advice to Robert Junior—Trip to “Bremo” on + private canal-boat—Mrs. Lee’s invalidism + </p> + <p> + About this time my father received from the Board of Trustees of + Washington College a notification of his election to the presidency of + that institution, at a meeting of the board held in Lexington, Virginia, + on August 4, 1865. The letter apprising him of the action was presented by + Judge John W. Brockenborough, rector of the college. This was a complete + surprise to my father. He had already been offered the vice-chancellorship + of the “University of the South,” at Sewanee, Tennessee, but declined it + on the ground that it was denominational, and to some suggestions that he + should connect himself with the University of Virginia he objected because + it was a State institution. + </p> + <p> + Washington College had started as an academy in 1749. It was the first + classical school opened in the Valley of Virginia. After a struggle of + many years, under a succession of principals and with several changes of + site, it at length acquired such a reputation as to attract the attention + of General Washington. He gave it a handsome endowment, and the + institution changed its name from “Liberty Hall Academy” to Washington + College. In the summer of 1865, the college, through the calamities of + civil war, had reached the lowest point of depression it had ever known. + Its buildings, library, and apparatus had suffered from the sack and + plunder of hostile soldiery. Its invested funds, owing to the general + impoverishment throughout the land, were for the time being rendered + unproductive and their ultimate value was most uncertain. Four professors + still remained on duty, and there were about forty students, mainly from + the country around Lexington. It was not a State institution, nor confined + to any one religious denomination, so two objections which might have been + made by my father were removed. But the college in later years had only a + local reputation. It was very poor, indifferently equipped with buildings, + and with no means in sight to improve its condition. + </p> + <p> + “There was a general expectation that he would decline the position as not + sufficiently lucrative, if his purpose was to repair the ruins of his + private fortune resulting from the war; as not lifting him conspicuously + enough in the public gaze, if he was ambitious of office or further + distinction; or as involving too great labour and anxiety, if he coveted + repose after the terrible contest from which he had just emerged.” + [Professor E. S. Joynes] + </p> + <p> + He was very reluctant to accept this appointment, but for none of the + above reasons, as the average man might have been. Why he was doubtful of + undertaking the responsibilities of such a position his letter of + acceptance clearly shows. He considered the matter carefully and then + wrote the following letter to the committee: + </p> + <p> + “Powhatan County, August 24, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “Gentlemen: I have delayed for some days replying to your letter of the + 5th inst., informing me of my election by the board of trustees to the + presidency of Washington College, from a desire to give the subject due + consideration. Fully impressed with the responsibilities of the office, I + have feared that I should be unable to discharge its duties to the + satisfaction of the trustees or to the benefit of the country. The proper + education of youth requires not only great ability, but I fear more + strength than I now possess, for I do not feel able to undergo the labour + of conducting classes in regular courses of instruction. I could not, + therefore, undertake more than the general administration and supervision + of the institution. I could not, therefore, undertake more than the + general administration and supervision of the institution. There is + another subject which has caused me some serious reflection, and is, I + think, worthy of the consideration of the board. Being excluded from the + terms of amnesty in the proclamation of the President of the United + States, of the 29th of May last, and an object of censure to a portion of + the country, I have thought it probable that my occupation of the position + of president might draw upon the college a feeling of hostility; and I + should, therefore, cause injury to an institution which it would be my + highest desire to advance. I think it the duty of every citizen, in the + present condition of the country, to do all in his power to aid in the + restoration of peace and harmony, and in no way to oppose the policy of + the State or general government directed to that object. It is + particularly incumbent on those charged with the instruction of the young + to set them an example of submission to authority, and I could not consent + t be the cause of animadversion upon the college. Should you, however, + take a different view, and think that my services in the position tendered + to me by the board will be advantageous to the college and country, I will + yield to your judgement and accept it; otherwise, I must most respectfully + decline the office. Begging you to express to the trustees of the college + my heartfelt gratitude for the honour conferred upon me, and requesting + you to accept my cordial thanks for the kind manner in which you have + communicated their decision, I am, gentlemen, with great respect, your + most obedient servant, R. E. Lee” + </p> + <p> + To present a clearer view of some of the motives influencing my father in + accepting this trust—for such he considered it—I give an + extract from an address on the occasion of his death, by Bishop Wilmer, of + Louisiana, delivered at the University of the South, at Sewanee, + Tennessee: + </p> + <p> + “I was seated,” says Bishop Wilmer, “at the close of the day, in my + Virginia home, when I beheld, through the thickening shades of evening, a + horseman entering the yard, whom I soon recognised as General Lee. The + next morning he placed in my hands the correspondence with the authorities + of Washington College at Lexington. He had been invited to become + president of that institution. I confess to a momentary feeling of chagrin + at the proposed change (shall I say revulsion?) in his history. The + institution was one of local interest, and comparatively unknown to our + people. I named others more conspicuous which would welcome him with + ardour at the presiding head. I soon discovered that his mind towered + above these earthly distinctions; that, in his judgement, the CAUSE gave + dignity to the institution, and not the wealth of its endowment or the + renown of its scholars; that this door and not another was opened to him + by Providence, and he only wished to be assured of his competency to + fulfil his trust and this to make his few remaining years a comfort and + blessing to his suffering country. I had spoken to his human feelings; he + had now revealed himself to me as one ‘whose life was hid with Christ in + God.’ My speech was no longer restrained. I congratulated him that his + heart was inclined to this great cause, and that he was prepared to give + to the world this august testimony to the importance of Christian + education. How he listened to my feeble words; how he beckoned me to his + side, as the fulness of heart found utterance; how his whole countenance + glowed with animation as I spoke of the Holy Ghost as the great Teacher, + whose presence was required to make education a blessing, which otherwise + might be the curse of mankind; how feelingly he responded, how ELOQUENTLY, + as I never heard him speak before—can never be effaced from memory; + and nothing more sacred mingles with my reminiscences of the dead.” + </p> + <p> + The board of trustees, on August 31st, adopted and sent to General Lee + resolutions saying that, in spite of his objections, “his connection with + the institution would greatly promote its prosperity and advance the + general interest of education, and urged him to enter upon his duties as + president at his earliest convenience.” + </p> + <p> + My father had had nearly four years’ experience in the charge of young men + at West Point. The conditions at that place, to be sure, were very + different from those at the one to which he was now going, but the work in + the main was the same—to train, improve and elevate. I think he was + influenced, in making up his mind to accept this position, by the great + need of education in his State and in the South, and by the opportunity + that he saw at Washington College for starting almost from the beginning, + and for helping, by his experience and example, the youth of his country + to become good and useful citizens. + </p> + <p> + In the latter part of September, he mounted Traveller and started alone + for Lexington. He was four days on the journey, stopping with some friend + each night. He rode into Lexington on the afternoon of the fourth day, no + one knowing of his coming until he quietly drew up and dismounted at the + village inn. Professor White, who had just turned into the main street as + the General halted in front of the hotel, said he knew in a moment that + this stately rider on the iron-gray charger must be General Lee. He, + therefore, at once went forward, as two or three old soldiers gathered + around to help the General down, and insisted on taking him to the home of + Colonel Reid, the professor’s father-in-law, where he had already been + invited to stay. My father, with his usual consideration for others, as it + was late in the afternoon, had determined to remain at the hotel that + night and go to Mr. Reid’s in the morning; but yielding to Captain White’s + (he always called him “Captain,” his Confederate title) assurances that + all was made ready for him, he accompanied him to the home of his kind + host. + </p> + <p> + The next morning, before breakfast, he wrote the following letter to my + mother announcing his safe arrival. The “Captain Edmund” and “Mr. Preston” + mentioned in it were the sons of our revered friend and benefactress Mrs. + E. R. Cocke. Colonel Preston and Captain Frank were her brother and + nephew: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, September 19, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I reached here yesterday about one P.M., and on riding up + to the hotel was met by Professor White, of Washington College, who + brought me up to his father-in-law’s, Colonel Reid, the oldest member of + the trustees of the college, where I am very comfortably quartered. To-day + I will look out for accommodations elsewhere, as the Colonel has a large + family and I fear I am intruding upon his hospitality. I have not yet + visited the college grounds. They seem to be beautifully located, and the + buildings are undergoing repairs. The house assigned to the president, I + am told, has been rented to Dr. Madison (I believe), who has not been able + to procure another residence, and I do not know when it will be vacated, + nor can I tell you more about it. I saw Mrs. and Colonel Preston, Captain + Frank, and his sister. All the family are well. I shall go after breakfast + to inquire after my trunks. I had a very pleasant journey here. The first + two days were very hot, but, reaching the mountain region the third day, + the temperature was much cooler. I came up in four days’ easy rides, + getting to my stopping-place by one P.M. each day, except the third, when + I slept on top of the Blue Ridge, which I reached at three P.M. The + scenery was beautiful all the way. I am writing before breakfast, and must + be short. Last night I found a blanket and coverlid rather light covering, + and this morning I see a fire in the dining-room. I have thought much of + you all since I left. Give much love to the girls and Custis and remember + me to all at ‘Oakland.’ + </p> + <p> + “Most affectionately yours, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + When he first arrived, the family, very naturally, stood a little in awe + of him. This feeling, however, was soon dispelled, for his simple and + unaffected manners in a short while put them at ease. There were some + little children in the house, and they and the General at once became + great friends. With these kind and hospitable friends he stayed several + days. After being present at a meeting of the board of trustees, he rode + Traveller over to the Rockbridge Baths—eleven miles from Lexington—and + from there writes to my mother, on September 25th: + </p> + <p> + “...Am very glad to hear of Rob’s arrival. I am sorry that I missed seeing + the latter, but find it was necessary that I should have been present at + the meeting of the board of trustees on the 20th. They adjourned on the + eve of the 21st, and on the morning of the 22d I rode over here, where I + found Annie and Miss Belle [Mrs. Chapman Leigh and Miss Belle Harrison, of + Brandon, both very dear friends and cousins of my father].... The babies + [Mrs. Leigh’s] are well and sweet. I have taken the baths every day since + my arrival, and like them very much. In fact, they are delightful, and I + wish you were all here to enjoy them.... Annie and Belle go in two, and + sometimes three, times a day. Yesterday I procured some horses and took + them up to the top of Jump Mountain, where we had one of the most + beautiful views I ever saw. To-day I could get but one horse, and Miss + Belle and I rode up Hays Creek Valley, which possessed beauties of a + different kind. I shall return to Lexington on the 29th. I perceive, as + yet, no change in my rheumatic affection.... Tell Custis I am much obliged + to him for his attention to my baggage. All the articles enumerated by him + arrived safely at Colonel Reid’s Thursday morning early. I also received + the package of letters he sent.... I hope he may receive the appointment + at the V. M. I. Everyone interested has expressed a desire he should do + so, and I am more desirous than all of them. If he comes by land, he will + find the route I took very pleasant, and about 108 miles, namely: ‘Bremo’—Dr. + Wilmer’s—Waynesboro’—Greenville. He will find me at the + Lexington Hotel.... I wish you were all here with me. I feel very solitary + and miss you all dreadfully. Give much love to the girls and boys—kind + remembrances to Mrs. P., Miss Louisa, and Mrs. Thos. Cocke. I have no + news. Most affectionately, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “P.S.—Annie and Belle send a great deal of love to all. R. E. L.” + </p> + <p> + These little excursions and the meeting with old friends and dear cousins + were sources of real enjoyment and grateful rest. The pains of the past, + the worries of the present, and the cares for the future were, for the + time being, banished. My father earnestly desired a quiet, informal + inauguration, and his wish was gratified. On October 2, 1865, in the + presence of the trustees, professors and students, after solemn and + appropriate prayer by the Rev. W. S. White, D. D., the oldest Christian + minister in the town [the father of Professor (or “Captain”) White], he + took the oath of office as required by the laws of the college, and was + thus legally inaugurated as its president. + </p> + <p> + On October 3d he wrote my mother: + </p> + <p> + “...I am glad to hear that Rob is improving, and hope you had the pleasure + of seeing Mr. Dana [Our old pastor of Christ’s Church, Alexandria, the + trusted friend of my grandmother and mother, who had baptised all the + children at Arlington].... The college opened yesterday, and a fine set of + youths, about fifty, made their appearance in a body. It is supposed that + many more will be coming during the month. The scarcity of money + everywhere embarrasses all proceedings. General Smith informs me that the + Military Institute will commence its exercises on the 16th inst.; and that + Custis was unanimously elected to the chair of Civil Engineering [The + Virginia Military Institute, a State institution, modelled after the U. S. + Military Academy at West Point, was located in Lexington, and its grounds + adjoined those of Washington College. Since its foundation in 1839, unto + this time, General F. H. Smith had been its superintendent.]. I am living + at the Lexington Hotel, and he must come there if he comes up.... The + ladies have furnished me a very nice room in the college for my office; + new carpet from Baltimore, curtains, etc. They are always doing something + kind.... I came up September 30th from the Baths. Annie and Miss Belle + still there and very well. They expect to be here on the 10th.... You tell + me nothing of the girls. I hope Agnes is getting strong and fat. I wished + for them both at the Baths. Annie and Belle were my only companions. I + could not trespass upon them always. The scenery is beautiful here, but I + fear it will be locked up in winter by the time you come. Nothing could be + more beautiful than the mountains now.... + </p> + <p> + “Most affectionately, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In addition to his duties as college president, my father had to make all + the arrangements for his new home. The house assigned him by the college + was occupied by Dr. Madison, who was to move out as soon as he could. + Carpenters, painters and glaziers had to be put to work to get it into + condition; furniture, carpets, bedding to be provided, a cook procured, + servants and provisions supplied. + </p> + <p> + My mother was an invalid and absent, and as my sisters were with her, + everything down to the minutest details was done by my father’s directions + and under his superintendence. He had always been noted for his care and + attention to the little things, and that trait, apparent in him when a + mere lad, practised all through his busy and eventful life, stood him in + good stead now. The difficulties to be overcome were made greater by the + scarcity and inaccessibility of supplies and workmen and the smallness of + his means. In addition, he conducted a large correspondence, always + answering every letter. To every member of his family he wrote + continually, and was interested in all our pursuits, advising and helping + us as no one else could have done. Some of his letters to my mother at + this time show how he looked into every matter, great or small, which + related to her comfort and welfare, and to the preparation of her new + home. For example, on October 9th he writes: + </p> + <p> + “...Life is indeed gliding away and I have nothing of good to show for + mine that is past. I pray I may be spared to accomplish something for the + benefit of mankind and the honour of God.... I hope I may be able to get + the house prepared for you in time to reach here before the cold weather. + Dr. Madison has sent me word that he will vacate the house on the 16th + inst., this day week. I will commence to make some outside repairs this + week, so as to get at the inside next, and hope by the 1st of November it + will be ready for you. There is no furniture belonging to the house, but + we shall require but little to commence with. Mr. Green, of Alexandria, to + whom I had written, says that his manufacturing machinery, etc., has been + so much injured that, although it has been returned to him, he cannot + resume operations until next year, but that he will purchase for us + anything we desire. I believe nothing is manufactured in Richmond—everything + comes from the North, and we might as well write to Baltimore at once for + what we want. What do you think? I believe nothing of consequence is + manufactured here. I will see this week what can be done....” + </p> + <p> + And again, a few days later, he writes: + </p> + <p> + “...I hope you are all well, and as comfortable as can be. I am very + anxious to get you all here, but have made little progress in + accomplishing it so far. Dr. M. expects to vacate the house this week, but + I fear it is not certain he can do so.... I engaged some carpenters last + week to repair the roof, fences, stable, etc., but for want of material + they could not make a commencement. There is no lumber here at hand. + Everything has to be prepared. I have not been in the house yet, but I + hear there is much to be done. We shall have to be patient. As soon as it + is vacated, I will set to work. I think it will be more expeditious and + cheaper to write to Renwick [of Baltimore] to send what articles of + furniture will be required, and also to order some carpets from + Baltimore....” + </p> + <p> + In a postscript, dated the 17th, he says: + </p> + <p> + “The carpenters made a beginning on the house yesterday. I hope it may be + vacated this week. I will prepare your room first. The rest of us can + bivouac. Love to all. Most affectionately, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + On October 19th: + </p> + <p> + “...I have been over the house we are to occupy. It is in wretched + condition. Mrs. M. has not yet vacated it, but I have some men at work, + though this storm has interrupted their operations and I fear little will + be done this week. I think I can make your room comfortable. The upstairs + is very convenient and the rest of the house sufficiently so. I think you + had better write at once to Brit [the “Brit” mentioned here is Mrs. + Birtannia Kennon, of “Tudor Place,” my mother’s first cousin. She had + saved for us a great many of the household goods from Arlington, having + gotten permission from the Federal authorities to do so, at the time it + was occupied by their forces] to send the curtains you speak of, and the + carpets. It is better to use what we have than to buy others. Their use + where originally intended [Arlington, to that beloved home my mother still + hoped to return] is very uncertain. They have been tossed about for four + years, and may be lost or ruined. They can come by express to Lynchburg, + and then up the canal, or by Richmond. The merchants say the former is the + best way—much more expeditious and but little more expensive.” + </p> + <p> + Spending the summer on the Pamunkey at the White House, exposed all day in + the fields to the sun, and at night to the malaria from the river and + marshes, I became by the last of September one continuous “chill,” so it + was decided that, as the corn was made, the fodder saved, the wheat land + broken up, and hands not so greatly needed, I should get a furlough. + Mounting my mare, I started on a visit to my mother and sisters, hoping + that the change to the upper country would help me to get rid of the + malaria. When I reached “Derwent” my father had gone to Lexington, but my + mother and the rest were there to welcome me and dose me for my ailments. + There was still some discussion among us all as to what was the best thing + for me to do, and I wrote to my father, telling him of my preference for a + farmer’s life and my desire to work my own land. The following letter, + which he wrote me in reply, is, like all I ever got from him, full of + love, tenderness, and good, sensible advice: + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Son: I did not receive until yesterday your letter of the 8th + inst. I regret very much having missed seeing you—still more to hear + that you have been suffering from intermittent fever. I think the best + thing you can do is to eradicate the disease from your system, and unless + there is some necessity for your returning to the White House, you had + better accompany your mother here. I have thought very earnestly as to + your future. I do not know to what stage your education has been carried, + or whether it would be advantageous for you to pursue it further. Of that + you can judge. If you do, and will apply yourself so as to get the worth + of your money, I can advance it to you for this year at least. If you do + not, and wish to take possession of your farm, I can assist you a little + in that. As matters now stand, you could raise money on your farm only by + mortgaging it, which would put you in debt at the beginning of your life, + and I fear in the end would swallow up all your property. As soon as I am + restored to civil rights, if I ever am, I will settle up your + grandfather’s estate, and put you in possession of your share. The land + may be responsible for some portion of his debts or legacies. If so, you + will have to assume it. In the meantime, I think it would be better for + you, if you determine to farm your land, to go down there as you propose + and begin on a moderate scale. I can furnish you means to buy a team, + wagon, implements, etc. What will it cost? If you cannot wait to accompany + your mother here, come up to see me and we can talk it over. You could + come up in the packet and return again. If you do come, ask Agnes for my + box of private papers I left with her, and bring it with you; but do not + lose it for your life, or we are all ruined. Wrap it up with your clothes + and put it in a carpet-bag or valise, so that you can keep it with you or + within your sight, and do not call attention to it. I am glad to hear that + Fitzhugh keeps so well, and that he is prospering in his farming + operations. Give him a great deal of love for me. The first thing you must + do is to get well. + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + His letters to his daughters tell, in a playful way, much of his life, and + are full of the quiet humor in which he so often indulged. We were still + at “Derwent,” awaiting the time when the house in Lexington should be + ready. It had been decided that I should remain and accompany my mother + and sisters to Lexington, and that some of us, or all, should go up the + river to “Bremo,” the beautiful seat of Dr. Charles Cocke, and pay a visit + there before proceeding to Lexington. Here is a letter from my father to + his daughter Mildred: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, October 29, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Life: Your nice letter gave me much pleasure and made me the + more anxious to see you. I think you girls, after your mother is + comfortable at ‘Bremo,’ will have to come up and arrange the house for her + reception. You know I am a poor hand and can do nothing without your + advice. Your brother, too, is wild for the want of admonition. Col. Blair + is now his ‘fidus Achates,’ and as he is almost as gray as your papa, and + wears the same uniform, all gray, he is sometimes taken for him by the + young girls, who consider your brother the most attentive of sons, and + giving good promise of making a desirable husband. He will find himself + married some of these days before he knows it. You had better be near him. + I hope you give attention to Robert. Miss Sallie will thaw some of the ice + from his heart. Tell her she must come up here, as I want to see her + badly. I do not know what you will do with your chickens, unless you take + them to ‘Bremo,’ and thus bring them here. I suppose Robert would not eat + ‘Laura Chilton’ and ‘Don Ella McKay.’ Still less would he devour his + sister ‘Mildred’ [these were the names of some of my sister’s pet + chickens]. I have scarcely gotten acquainted with the young ladies. They + look very nice in the walks, but I rarely get near them. Traveller is my + only companion; I may also say my pleasure. He and I, whenever + practicable, wander out in the mountains and enjoy sweet confidence. The + boys are plucking out his tail, and he is presenting the appearance of a + plucked chicken. Two of the belles of the neighborhood have recently been + married—Miss Mattie Jordan to Dr. Cameron, and Miss Rose Cameron to + Dr. Sherod. The former couple go to Louisburg, West Virginia, and start + to-morrow on horseback, the bride’s trousseau in a baggage wagon; the + latter to Winchester. Miss Sherod, one of the bridesmaids, said she knew + you there. I did not attend the weddings, but have seen the pairs of + doves. Both of the brides are remarkable in this county of equestrianism + for their good riding and beauty. With true affection, Your fond father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + To his daughter Agnes, about the same time, he writes: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, October 26, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Agnes: I will begin the correspondence of the day by thanking you + for your letter of the 9th. It will, I am sure, be to me intellectually + what my morning’s feast is corporeally. It will strengthen me for the day, + and smooth the rough points which constantly protrude in my epistles. I am + glad Robert is with you. It will be a great comfort to him, and I hope, in + addition, will dissipate his chills. He can also accompany you in your + walks and rides and be that silent sympathy (for he is a man of few words) + which is so soothing. Though marble to women, he is so only externally, + and you will find him warm and cheering. Tell him I want him to go to see + Miss Francis Galt (I think her smile will awake some sweet music in him), + and be careful to take precautions against the return of the chills, on + the 7th, 14th, and 21st days.... I want very much to have you all with me + again, and miss you dreadfully. I hope another month will accomplish it. + In the meantime, you must get very well. This is a beautiful spot by + nature—man has done but little for it. Love to all. Most + affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “Your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + About the first week of November we all went by canal-boat to “Bremo,” + some twenty-five miles up the James River, where we remained the guests of + Doctor and Mrs. Charles Cocke until we went to Lexington. My sister Agnes, + while there, was invited to Richmond to assist at the wedding of a very + dear friend, Miss Sally Warwick. She wrote my father asking his advice and + approval, and received this reply, so characteristic of his playful, + humorous mood: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, November 16, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Little Agnes: I have just received your letter of the 13th + and hasten to reply. It is very hard for you to apply to me to advise you + to go away from me. You know how much I want to see you, and how important + you are to me. But in order to help you to make up your mind, if it will + promote your pleasure and Sally’s happiness, I will say go. You may inform + Sally from me, however, that no preparations are necessary, and if they + were no one could help her. She has just got to wade through it as if it + was an attack of measles or anything else—naturally. As she would + not marry Custis, she may marry whom she chooses. I shall wish her every + happiness, just the same, for she knows nobody loves her as much as I do. + I do not think, upon reflection, she will consider it right to refuse my + son and take away my daughter. She need not tell me whom she is going to + marry. I suppose it is some cross old widower, with a dozen children. She + will not be satisfied at her sacrifice with less, and I should think that + would be cross sufficient. I hope ‘Life’ is not going to desert us too, + and when are we to see you?... I have received your mother’s letter + announcing her arrival at ‘Bremo.’... Tell your mother, however, to come + when she chooses and when most to her comfort and convenience. She can + come to the hotel where I am, and stay until the house is ready. There is + no difficulty in that, and she can be very comfortable. My rooms are up on + the 3d floor and her meals can be sent to her. Tell Rob the chills will + soon leave him now. Mrs. Cocke will cure him. Give much love to your + mamma, Mildred, Rob, and all at ‘Bremo.’ + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Miss Agnes Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Colonel Ellis, President of the James River and Kanawha Canal Company, + placed at my mother’s disposal his private boat, which enabled her to + reach “Bremo” with great ease and comfort, and when she was ready to go to + Lexington the same boat was again given her. It was well fitted up with + sleeping accommodations, carried a cook, and had a dining-room. It + corresponded to the private car of the present railroad magnate, and, + though not so sumptuous, was more roomy and comfortable. When provisions + became scarce we purchased fresh supplies from any farm-house near the + canal-bank, tied up at night, and made about four miles an hour during the + day. It was slow but sure, and no mode of travel, even at the present day, + could have suited my mother better. She was a great invalid from + rheumatism, and had to be lifted whenever she moved. When put in her + wheel-chair, she could propel herself on a level floor, or could move + about her room very slowly and with great difficulty on her crutches, but + she was always bright, sunny-tempered, and uncomplaining, constantly + occupied with her books, letters, knitting, and painting, for the last of + which she had a great talent. + </p> + <p> + On November 20th my father writes to her from Lexington: + </p> + <p> + “I was very glad to hear, by your letter of the 11th, of your safe arrival + at ‘Bremo.’ I feel very grateful to Col. Ellis for his thoughtful + consideration in sending you in his boat, as you made the journey in so + much more comfort. It is indeed sad to be removed from our kind friends at + ‘Oakland,’ who seemed never to tire of contributing to our convenience and + pleasure, and who even continue their kindness at this distance. Just as + the room which I had selected for you was finished, I received the + accompanying note from Mrs. Cocke, to which I responded and thanked her in + your name, placing the room at her disposal. The paint is hardly dry yet, + but will be ready this week, to receive the furniture if completed. I know + no more about it than is contained in her note. I was also informed, last + night, that a very handsome piano had been set up in the house, brought + from Baltimore by the maker as a present from his firm or some friends. I + have not seen it or the maker. This is an article of furniture that we + might well dispense with under present circumstances, though I am equally + obliged to those whose generosity prompted its bestowal. Tell Mildred I + shall now insist on her resuming her music, and, in addition to her other + labours, she must practise SEVEN hours a day on the piano, until she + becomes sufficiently proficient to play agreeably to herself and others, + and promptly and gracefully, whenever invited. I think we should enjoy all + the amenities of life that are within our reach, and which have been + provided for us by our Heavenly Father.... I am sorry Rob has a return of + his chills, but he will soon lose them now. Ask Miss Mary to disperse + them. She is very active and energetic; they cannot stand before her.... I + hope Agnes has received my letter, and that she has made up her mind to + come up to her papa. Tell her there are plenty of weddings here, if she + likes those things. There is to be one Tuesday—Miss Mamie Williamson + to Captain Eoff. Beverley Turner is to be married the same night, to Miss + Rose Skinker, and sweet Margaret will also leave us. If they go at three a + night, there will soon be none of our acquaintances left. I told Agnes to + tell you to come up whenever most convenient to you. If the house is + habitable I will take you there. If not, will bring you to the hotel.... I + wish I could take advantage of this fine weather to perform the + journey....” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0035" id="link2HCH0035"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XI — The Idol of the South + </h2> + <p> + Photographs and autographs in demand—The General’s interest in young + people—His happy home life—Labours at Washington College—He + gains financial aid for it—Worsley’s translation of Homer dedicated + to him—Tributes from other English scholars + </p> + <p> + The people of Virginia and of the entire South were continually giving + evidence of their intense love for General Lee. From all nations, even + from the Northern States, came to him marks of admiration and respect. + Just at this time he received many applications for his photograph with + autograph attached. I believe there were none of the little things in life + so irksome to him as having his picture taken in any way, but, when able + to comply, he could not refuse to do what was asked of him by those who + were willing and anxious to do so much for him. + </p> + <p> + In the following letter the photographs referred to had been sent to him + for his signature, from a supply that my mother generally kept on hand. + She was often asked for them by those who very considerately desired to + save my father the trouble: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, November 21, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I have just received your letter of the 17th, and return + the photographs with my signatures. I wrote to you by the boat of + yesterday morning. I also sent you a packet of letters by Captain + Wilkinson [commander of the canal packet], which also ought to have + reached you to-day. I have nothing to add to my former letters, and only + write now that you may receive the photos before you leave. I answered + Agnes’ letter immediately, and inclosed her several letters. I was in + hopes she had made up her mind to eschew weddings and stick to her pap. I + do not think she can help little Sallie. Besides, she will not take the + oath—how can she get married? The wedding party from this place go + down in the boat to-night to Lynchburg—Miss Williamson and Captain + Eoff. They are to be married in church at eight P. M. and embark at + eleven. I wish them a pleasant passage and am glad I am not of the party. + The scenery along the river will no doubt be cheering and agreeable. I + think the repairs of the house will be completed this week; should the + furniture arrive, it will be habitable next. The weather is still + beautiful, which is in our favour. I am glad Caroline is so promising. I + have engaged no servant here yet, nor have I found one to my liking, we + can get some of some kind, and do better when we can. I have heard nothing + of the wedding at ‘Belmead,’ and do not think Preston will go. Mrs. Cocke + is very well, but the furniture she intends for your room is not yet + completed. It will be more comfortable and agreeable to you to go at once + to the house on your arrival. But if there is anything to make it more + desirable for you to come before the house is ready, you must come to the + hotel. If we could only get comfortable weather in December, it would be + better not to go into the house until it is dry, the paint hard, etc. It + will require all this week to get the wood done; then it must be scoured, + etc., and the furniture properly arranged. Tell Rob he will soon be well. + He must cheer up and come and see his papa. Give my love to Mrs. Cocke, + Miss Mary, etc., etc. Tell Agnes, if she thinks Sallie is IN EXTREMIS, to + go to her. I do not want her to pass away, but it is a great + disappointment to me not to have her with me. I am getting very old and + infirm now, and she had better come to her papa and take care of him. + </p> + <p> + “Most affectionately yours, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. M. C. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + My father was always greatly interested in the love affairs of his + relatives, friends, and acquaintances. His letters during the war show + this in very many ways. One would suppose that the general commanding an + army in active operations could not find the time even to think of such + trifles, much less to write about them; but he knew of very many such + affairs among his officers and even his men, and would on occasion refer + to them before the parties themselves, very much to their surprise and + discomfiture. Bishop Peterkin, of West Virginia, who served on the staff + of General Pendleton, tells me of the following instances, in illustration + of this characteristic: + </p> + <p> + “It was in the winter of 1863-4, when we were camped near Orange Court + House, that, meeting the General after I had come back from a short visit + to Richmond, he asked after my father, and then said, ‘Did you see Miss + ——?’ and I replied, ‘No, sir; I did not.’ Then again, ‘Did you + see Miss ——?’ and when I still replied ‘No,’ he added, with a + smile, ‘How exceedingly busy you must have been.’ + </p> + <p> + “Again—at the cavalry review at Brandy Station, on June 8, 1863—we + had galloped all around the lines, when the General took his post for the + ‘march past,’ and all the staff in attendance grouped themselves about + him. There being no special orders about our positions, I got pretty near + the General. I noticed that several times he turned and looked toward an + ambulance near us, filled with young girls. At At last, after regiments + and brigades had gone by, the Horse Artillery came up. The General turned + and, finding me near him, said, ‘Go and tell that young lady with the blue + ribbon in her hat that such-and-such a battery is coming.’ + </p> + <p> + “I rode up and saluted the young lady. There was great surprise shown by + the entire party, as I was not known to any of them, and when I came out + with my message there was a universal shout, while the General looked on + with a merry twinkle in his eye. It was evidently the following up on his + part of some joke which he had with the young lady about an officer in + this battery.” + </p> + <p> + My mother had arranged to start for Lexington on November 28th, via the + canal, but for some reason was prevented on that day. In his next letter, + my father, who was most anxious that she should make the journey before + the bad weather set in, expresses his disappointment at not finding her on + the packet on the expected morning. + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, November 20, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I am much disappointed that you did not arrive on the boat + last night, and as you had determined when you wrote Saturday, the 25th, + to take the boat as it passed Tuesday, I fear you were prevented either by + the indisposition of yourself or of Robert’s. I shall, however, hope that + it was owing to some less distressing cause. Our room is all ready and + looks remarkably nice. Mrs. Cocke, in her great kindness, seems to have + provided everything for it that you require, and you will have nothing to + do but to take possession. The ladies have also arranged the other rooms + as far as the furniture will allow. They have put down the carpets in the + parlour, dining-room, and two chambers upstairs, and have put furniture in + one room. They have also put up the curtains in the rooms downstairs, and + put a table and chairs in the dining-room. We have, therefore, everything + which is required for living, as soon as the crockery, etc., arrives from + ‘Derwent,’ of which as yet I have heard nothing. Neither has the furniture + from Baltimore arrived, and the season is so far advanced that we may be + deprived of that all winter. But with what we now have, if we can get that + from ‘Derwent,’ we shall do very well. There is some report of the packets + between this place and Lynchburg being withdrawn from the line, which + renders me more uneasy about your journey up. This is a bright and + beautiful morning, and there is no indication of a change of weather, but + the season is very uncertain, and snow and ice may be upon us any day. I + think you had better come now the first opportunity. Do not take the boat + which passes ‘Bremo’ Saturday. It reaches Lynchburg Sunday morning, + arriving here Monday night. You would in that case have to lie at the + wharf at Lynchburg all day Sunday. I have heard of Agnes’ arrival in + Richmond, and shall be happy to have ‘Precious Life’ write me again. I + have engaged a man for the balance of the year, who professes to know + everything. He can at least make up fires, and go on errands, and attend + to the yard and stable. I have heard nothing of Jimmy. Give my kind + regards to all at ‘Bremo.’ Custis is well and went to the boat to meet you + this morning. The boat stops one and one-quarter miles from town. Remain + aboard until we come. + </p> + <p> + “Most affectionately yours, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “P.S.—Since writing the foregoing I have received your letter of the + 28th. I shall expect you Saturday morning. R. E. L. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. M. C. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + At this time the packet-boat from Lynchburg to Lexington, via the James + River and Kanawha Canal, was the easiest way of reaching Lexington from + the outside world. It was indeed the only way, except by stage from + Goshen, twenty-one miles distant, a station of the Chesapeake & Ohio + R. R. The canal ran from Lynchburg to Richmond, and just after the war did + a large business. The boats were very uncertain in their schedules, and my + father was therefore very particular in his directions to my mother, to + insure her as far as he could a comfortable journey [my father was not + aware, when he wrote such explicit directions about the route, that + Colonel Ellis had again put his boat at my mother’s service]. + </p> + <p> + We did get off at last, and after a very comfortable trip arrived at + Lexington on the morning of December 2d. My father, on Traveller, was + there to meet us, and, putting us all in a carriage, escorted us to our + new home. On arriving, we found awaiting us a delicious breakfast sent by + Mrs. Nelson, the wife of Professor Nelson. The house was in good order—thanks + to the ladies of Lexington—but rather bare of furniture, except my + mother’s rooms. Mrs. Cocke had completely furnished them, and her loving + thoughtfulness had not forgotten the smallest detail. Mrs. Margaret J. + Preston, the talented and well-known poetess, had drawn the designs for + the furniture, and a one-armed Confederate soldier had made it all. A + handsomely carved grand piano, presented by Stieff, the famous maker of + Baltimore, stood alone in the parlour. The floors were covered with the + carpets rescued from Arlington—much too large and folded under to + suit the reduced size of the rooms. Some of the bedrooms were partially + furnished, and the dining-room had enough in it to make us very + comfortable. We were all very grateful and happy—glad to get home—the + only one we had had for four long years. + </p> + <p> + My father appeared bright and even gay. He was happy in seeing us all, and + in knowing that my mother was comfortably established near to him. He + showed us over the house, and pointed with evident satisfaction to the + goodly array of pickles, preserves, and brandy-peaches which our kind + neighbors had placed in the store-room. Indeed, for days and weeks + afterward supplies came pouring in to my mother from the people in the + town and country, even from the poor mountaineers, who, anxious to “do + something to help General Lee,” brought in hand-bags of walnuts, potatoes, + and game. Such kindness—delicate and considerate always—as was + shown to my father’s family by the people, both of the town and the + country around, not only then but to this day, has never been surpassed in + any community. It was a tribute of love and sympathy from honest and + tender hearts to the man who had done all that he could do for them. + </p> + <p> + My father was much interested in all the arrangements of the house, even + to the least thing. He would laugh merrily over the difficulties that + appalled the rest of us. Our servants were few and unskilled, but his + patience and self-control never failed. The silver of the family had been + sent to Lexington for safe-keeping early in the war. When General Hunger + raided the Valley of Virginia and advanced upon Lexington, to remove + temptation out of his way, this silver, in two large chests, had been + intrusted to the care of the old and faithful sergeant at the Virginia + Military Institute, and he had buried it in some safe place known only to + himself. I was sent out with him to dig it up and bring it in. We found it + safe and sound, but black with mould and damp, useless for the time being, + so my father opened his camp-chest and we used his forks, spoons, plates, + etc., while his camp-stools supplied the deficiency in seats. He often + teased my sisters about their experiments in cookery and household arts, + encouraging them to renewed efforts after lamentable failures. When they + succeeded in a dish for the table, or completed any garment with their own + hands, he was lavish with his praise. He would say: + </p> + <p> + “You are all very helpless; I don’t know what you will do when I am gone,” + and “If you want to be missed by your friends—be useful.” + </p> + <p> + He at once set to work to improve all around him, laid out a vegetable + garden, planted roses and shrubs, set out fruit and yard trees, made new + walks and repaired the stables, so that in a short time we were quite + comfortable and very happy. He at last had a home of his own, with his + wife and daughters around him, and though it was not the little farm in + the quiet country for which he had so longed, it was very near to it, and + it gave rest to himself and those he loved most dearly. + </p> + <p> + His duties as president of Washington College were far from light. His + time was fully occupied, and his new position did not relieve him from + responsibility, care and anxiety. He took pains to become acquainted with + each student personally, to be really his guide and friend. Their success + gratified and pleased him, and their failures, in any degree, pained and + grieved him, and their failures, in any degree, pained and grieved him. He + felt that he was responsible for their well-doing and progress, and he + worked very hard to make them good students and useful men. + </p> + <p> + The grounds and buildings of the college soon began to show his care, + attention, and good taste. In all his life, wherever he happened to be, he + immediately set to work to better his surroundings. The sites selected for + his headquarter camps during the war, if occupied for more than a day, + showed his tasteful touch. When superintendent at West Point, the + improvements suggested and planned by him were going on for the three + years he remained there. Very soon after he assumed charge of Arlington, + the place showed, in its improved condition, the effects of his energetic + industry. The college at Lexington was a splendid field for the exercise + of his abilities in this line. The neighbouring Virginia Military + Institute soon followed the example he had set, and after a year the + municipal authorities of Lexington were aroused to the necessity of + bettering their streets and sidewalks, and its inhabitants realised the + need of improving and beautifying their homes. He managed a very large + correspondence, answering every letter when possible, the greater + proportion with his own hand. To the members of his own family who were + away he wrote regularly, and was their best correspondent on home matters, + telling in his charming way all the sayings and doings of the household + and the neighbours. + </p> + <p> + My sister Agnes had gone to the wedding of Miss Warwick direct from + “Bremo,” and was in Richmond when my father sent her two of the first + letters he wrote after the arrival of my mother in Lexington: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, December 5, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “My Worrying Little Agnes: your letter of the 1st received to-night. I + have autographed the photographs and send a gross of the latter and a lock + of hair. Present my love to the recipients and thank them for their + favours. Sally is going to marry a widower. I think I ought to know, as + she refused my son, and I do not wish to know his name. I wonder if she + knows how many children he has. Tell Mr. Warwick I am sorry for him. I do + not know what he will do without his sweet daughter. Nor do I know what I + will do without her, either. Your mother has written—Mildred, too—and + I presume has told you all domestic news. Custis is promenading the floor, + Rob reading the papers, and Mildred packing her dress. Your mamma is up to + her eyes in news and I am crabbed as usual. I miss you very much and hope + this is the last wedding you will attend. Good-bye. Love to everybody. + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Miss Agnes Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The other is dated nearly a month later, and from this it appears that the + wedding so often referred to is about to take place: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, January 3, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Little Agnes: I sat down to give my dear little Sally—for + she is dear to me in the broadest, highest sense of the word—the + benefit of Jeremy Taylor’s opinion on hasty marriages. But, on reflection, + I fear it would be words lost, for your mother says her experience has + taught her that when a young woman makes up her mind to get married, you + might as well let her alone. You must, therefore, just thank her for the + pretty inkstand, and say that I’ll need no reminder of her, but I do not + know when I shall make up my mind to stain it with ink. I was very glad to + receive your letter of the 26th, and to think that you were mindful of us. + I know you do not wish to be away, though you are striving to get as far + away as possible. When you reach Norfolk, you will be so convenient to New + York, whence steamers depart almost daily for Europe. Let us know when you + sail. But I do not write to restrain your movements, though you know how + solitary I am without you. I inclose...which, with what I gave Mildred, I + hope will answer your purpose. Send me or bring me the photographs I asked + for. I like them of the last edition; they seem to take with the little + school-girls, and I have nothing else to give them. I hope you will have a + safe and pleasant trip. Tell Mr. Warwick I shall sorrow with him to-night—though + I believe Mrs. Lee is right. Remember me to all friends, and believe me, + </p> + <p> + “Your devoted father, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Miss Agnes Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The latter part of January my father was sent by the board of trustees to + Richmond to converse with the Committee on Education of the Virginia + Legislature, then in session, as to some funds of the State held by + Washington College. His mission was, I believe, successful, and great + material aid was gained. He remained no long than was absolutely + necessary, and, returning to his duties at Lexington, encountered a severe + snow-storm. The difficulties he had to overcome are described in the + following letter to his daughter Agnes, whom he had met in Richmond, and + who had gone from there to visit some friends in Norfolk: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, January 29, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Little Agnes: I have received your letter of the 17th, + transmitting the photographs, for which I am very much obliged. I returned + the one for Miss Laura Lippett, whom I wish I could see once again. It + would be more agreeable to me than any photograph. I had quite a + successful journey up, notwithstanding the storm. The snow increased as we + approached the mountains, and night had set in before we reached Staunton. + The next morning, before sunrise, in spite of the predictions of the wise + ones, I took passage on the single car which was attached to the + locomotive, and arrived at Goshen about 10 A. M., where, after some little + encouragement, the stage-driver attached his horses to the stage, and we + started slowly through the mountains, breaking the track. On reaching the + Baths, the North River was unfordable, but I was ferried across in a + skiff, with all my bundles (I picked up two more in Staunton and one at + Goshen) and packages, and took a stage detained on the opposite bank for + Lexington, where I arrived in good time. I found all as well as usual, and + disappointed at not seeing you with me, though I was not expected. I told + them how anxious you were to come with me, and how you wanted to see them, + but that you looked so wretchedly I could not encourage you. I hope you + are now in Norfolk, and that the fish and oysters will fatten you and cure + your feet!... But get strong and keep well, and do not wear yourself out + in the pursuit of pleasure. I hope you will soon join us, and that + Lexington may prove to you a happy home. Your mother is a great sufferer, + but is as quiet and uncomplaining as ever. Mildred is active and cheerful, + and Custis and I as silent as our wont. Major Campbell Brown is here on a + visit. I am surprised to find him such a talker. I am very sorry to find + that Preston Cocke has been obliged to leave on account of his health. I + have one comfort: my dear nephew will never injure himself by studying. Do + not be alarmed about him.... Remember me to Colonel Taylor, all his + mother’s family, his wife, the Bakers, Seldens, etc. I know none of the + latter but the Doctor, for whom I have always had a great esteem. Your + mother, brother, and Mildred send their best love and kindest wishes. I am + always, + </p> + <p> + “Your devoted father, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Miss Agnes Lee.” + </p> + <p> + It was at Dr. Seldon’s house that my sister was visiting. He had been very + kind in offering assistance to my father and mother. I remember well the + supper given me and several of my comrades when we were coming back from + the surrender, and while the Doctor and his family were refugees at + Liberty, now Bedford City, Va. Stopping there one night, weary and hungry, + while looking for quarters for man and beast, I got a note asking me and + my friends to come to their house. An invitation of that kind was never + refused in those days. We went and were treated as if we had been sons of + the house, the young ladies themselves waiting on us. In the morning, when + we were about to start, they filled our haversacks with rations, and Mrs. + Selden, taking me aside, offered me a handful of gold pieces saying that + she had more and that she could not bear to think of my father’s son being + without as long as she possessed any. + </p> + <p> + The love and devotion shown my father by all the people of the South was + deeply appreciated by him. He longed to help them, but was almost + powerless. I think he felt that something could be done in that direction + by teaching and training their youth, and I am sure this idea greatly + influenced him in deciding to accept the presidency of Washington College. + The advantages to the South of a proper education of her youth were very + evident to him. He strongly urged it wherever and whenever he could. In a + letter written at this time to the Reverend G. W. Leyburn, he speaks very + forcibly on the subject: + </p> + <p> + “So greatly have those interests [educational] been disturbed at the + South, and so much does its future condition depend upon the rising + generation, that I consider the proper education of its youth one of the + most important objects now to be attained, and one from which the greatest + benefits may be expected. Nothing will compensate us for the depression of + the standard of our moral and intellectual culture, and each State should + take the most energetic measures to revive the schools and colleges, and, + if possible, to increase the facilities for instruction, and to elevate + the standard of learning....” + </p> + <p> + Again, in a letter to General John B. Gordon, written December, 1867, he + says: + </p> + <p> + “The thorough education of all classes of the people is the most + efficacious means, in my opinion, of promoting the prosperity of the + South. The material interests of its citizens, as well as their moral and + intellectual culture, depend upon its accomplishment. The text-books of + our schools, therefore, should not only be clear, systematic, and + scientific, but they should be acceptable to parents and pupils in order + to enlist the minds of all in the subjects.” + </p> + <p> + In a letter to a friend in Baltimore he is equally earnest: + </p> + <p> + “I agree with you fully as to the importance of a more practical course of + instruction in our schools and colleges, which, calling forth the genius + and energies of our people, will tend to develop the resources and promote + the interests of the country.” + </p> + <p> + In many other letters at this time and later on, especially in one to + Professor Minor, who had been appointed with him upon a board by the + Educational Society of Virginia, did he urge the importance of education + for the present and future safety, welfare, and prosperity of the country. + Among the many tokens of respect and admiration, love, and sympathy which + my father received from all over the world, there was one that touched him + deeply. It was a “Translation of Homer’s Iliad by Philip Stanhope Worsley, + Fellow of Corpus Christi College, Oxford, England,” which the talented + young poet and author sent him, through the General’s nephew, Mr. Edward + Lee Childe, of Paris, a special friend of Mr. Worsley. I copy the latter’s + letter to Mr. Childe, as it shows some of the motives influencing him in + the dedication of his work: + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Friend: You will allow me in dedicating this work to you, to + offer it at the same time as a poor yet not altogether unmeaning tribute + of my reverence for your brave and illustrious uncle, General Lee. He is + the hero, like Hector of the Iliad, of the most glorious cause for which + men fight, and some of the grandest passages in the poem come to me with + yet more affecting power when I remember his lofty character and + undeserved misfortunes. The great names that your country has bequeathed + from its four lurid years of national life as examples to mankind can + never be forgotten, and among these none will be more honoured, while + history endures, by all true hears, than that of your noble relative. I + need not say more, for I know you must be aware how much I feel the honour + of associating my work, however indirectly, with one whose goodness and + genius are alike so admirable. Accept this token of my deepest sympathy + and regard, and believe me, + </p> + <p> + “Ever most sincerely yours, + </p> + <p> + “P. S. Worsley.” + </p> + <p> + On the fly-leaf of the volume he sent my father was written the following + beautiful inscription: + </p> +<pre xml:space="preserve"> + “To General Lee, + The most stainless of living commanders + and, except in fortune, the greatest, + this volume is presented + with the writer’s earnest sympathy + and respectful admiration + ‘... oios yap epveto Idiov Ektwp.’ + + Iliad VI—403.” + </pre> + <p> + and just beneath, by the same hand, the following beautiful verses: + </p> +<pre xml:space="preserve"> + “The grand old bard that never dies, + Receive him in our English tongue! + I send thee, but with weeping eyes, + The story that he sung. + + “Thy Troy is fallen,—thy dear land + Is marred beneath the spoiler’s heel— + I cannot trust my trembling hand + To write the things I feel. + + “Ah, realm of tears!—but let her bear + This blazon to the end of time: + No nation rose so white and fair, + None fell so pure of crime. + + “The widow’s moan, the orphan’s wail, + Come round thee; but in truth be strong! + Eternal Right, though all else fail, + Can never be made Wrong. + + “An Angel’s heart, an angel’s mouth, + Not Homer’s, could alone for me + Hymn well the great Confederate South— + Virginia first, and LEE. + + “P. S. W.” + </pre> + <p> + His letter of thanks, and the one which he wrote later, when he heard of + the ill health of Mr. Worsley—both of which I give here—show + very plainly how much he was pleased: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, February 10, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “Mr. P. S. Worsley. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Sir: I have received the copy of your translation of the Iliad + which you so kindly presented to me. Its perusal has been my evening’s + recreation, and I have never more enjoyed the beauty and grandeur of the + poem than as recited by you. The translation is as truthful as powerful, + and faithfully represents the imagery and rhythm of the bold original. The + undeserved compliment in prose and verse, on the first leaves of the + volume, I received as your tribute to the merit of my countrymen, who + struggled for constitutional government. + </p> + <p> + “With great respect, + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, March 14, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mr. Worsley: In a letter just received from my nephew, Mr. + Childe, I regret to learn that, at his last accounts from you, you were + greatly indisposed. So great is my interest in your welfare that I cannot + refrain, even at the risk of intruding upon your sickroom, from expressing + my sincere sympathy in your affliction. I trust, however, that ere this + you have recovered and are again in perfect health. Like many of your + tastes and pursuits, I fear you may confine yourself too closely to your + reading. Less mental labour and more of the fresh air of Heaven might + bring to you more comfort, and to your friends more enjoyment, even in the + way in which you now delight them. Should a visit to this distracted + country promise you any recreation, I hope I need not assure you how happy + I should be to see you at Lexington. I can give you a quiet room, and + careful nursing, and a horse that would delight to carry you over our + beautiful mountains. I hope my letter informing you of the pleasure I + derived from the perusal of your translation of the Iliad, in which I + endeavoured to express my thanks for the great compliment you paid me in + its dedication, has informed you of my high appreciation of the work. + </p> + <p> + “Wishing you every happiness in this world, and praying that eternal peace + may be your portion in that to come, I am most truly, Your friend and + servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + That winter, my father was accustomed to read aloud in the long evenings + to my mother and sisters “The Grand Old Bard,” equally to his own and his + listeners’ enjoyment. + </p> + <p> + Two or three years after this, Professor George Long, of England, a + distinguished scholar, sent my father a copy of the second edition of his + “Thoughts of the Emperor Marcus Aurelius.” The first edition of this + translation was pirated by a Northern publisher, who dedicated the book + back to Emerson. This made Long very indignant, and he immediately brought + out a second edition with the following prefatory note: + </p> + <p> + “...I have never dedicated a book to any man and if I dedicated this, I + should choose the man whose name seemed to me most worthy to be joined to + that of the Roman soldier and philosopher. I might dedicate the book to + the successful general who is now the President of the United States, with + the hope that his integrity and justice will restore peace and happiness, + so far as he can, to those unhappy States which have suffered so much from + war and the unrelenting hostility of wicked men. But as the Roman poet + says, + </p> + <p> + “‘Victrix causa deis placuit, sed victa Catoni;’ + </p> + <p> + “And if I dedicated this little book to any man, I would dedicate it to + him who led the Confederate armies against the powerful invader, and + retired from an unequal contest defeated, but not dishonoured; to the + noble Virginian soldier whose talents and virtues place him by the side of + the best and wisest man who sat on the throne of the imperial Caesars.” + </p> + <p> + These two nearly similar tributes came from the best cultured thought of + England, and the London Standard, speaking more for the nation at large, + says: + </p> + <p> + “A country which has given birth to men like him, and those who followed + him, may look the chivalry of Europe in the face without shame; for the + FATHERLANDS OF SIDNEY AND BAYARD NEVER PRODUCED A NOBLER SOLDIER, + GENTLEMAN, AND CHRISTIAN THAN GENERAL ROBERT E. LEE.” + </p> + <p> + In a letter to his old friend, Mr. H. Tutweiler, of Virginia, Professor + Long sent the following message to my father, which, however, was never + received by him, it having been sent to my mother only after his death: + </p> + <p> + “I did not answer General Lee’s letter [one of thanks for the book, sent + by Professor Long through Mr. Tutweiler], because I thought that he is + probably troubled with many letters. If you should have occasion to write + to him, I beg you will present to him my most respectful regards, and my + hope that he will leave behind him some commentary to be placed on the + same shelf with Caesar’s. I am afraid he is too modest to do this. I shall + always keep General lee’s letter, and will leave it to somebody who will + cherish the remembrance of a great soldier and a good man. If I were not + detained here by circumstances, I would cross the Atlantic to see the + first and noblest man of our days.” + </p> + <p> + Another noble English gentleman, who had shown great kindness to the South + and who was a warm admirer of General Lee, was the Honorable A. W. + Beresford Hope. He, I think, was at the head of a number of English + gentlemen who presented the superb statue of “Stonewall” Jackson by Foley + to the State of Virginia. It now stands in the Capitol Square at Richmond, + and is a treasure of which the whole Commonwealth may justly be proud. + Through Mr. Hope, my father received a handsome copy of the Bible, and, in + acknowledgement of Mr. Hope’s letter, he wrote the following: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, April 16, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “Honourable A. W. Beresford Hope, Bedgebury Park, Kent, England + </p> + <p> + “Sir: I have received within a few days your letter of November 14, 1865, + and had hoped that by this time it would have been followed by the copy of + the Holy Scriptures to which you refer, that I might have known the + generous donors, whose names, you state, are inscribed on its pages. Its + failure to reach me will, I fear, deprive me of that pleasure, and I must + ask the favour of you to thank them most heartily for their kindness in + providing me with a book in comparison with which all others in my eyes + are of minor importance, and which in all my perplexities has never failed + to give me light and strength. Your assurance of the esteem in which I am + held by a large portion of the British nation, as well as by those for + whom you speak, is most grateful to my feelings, though I am aware that I + am indebted to their generous natures, and not to my own merit, for their + good opinion. I beg, sir, that you will accept my sincere thanks for the + kind sentiments which you have expressed toward me, and my unfeigned + admiration of your exalted character. I am, with great respect, + </p> + <p> + “Your most obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0036" id="link2HCH0036"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XII — Lee’s Opinion upon the Late War + </h2> + <p> + His intention to write the history of his Virginia campaigns—Called + before a committee of Congress—Preaches patience and silence in the + South—Shuns controversy and publicity—Corresponds with an + Englishman, Herbert C. Saunders + </p> + <p> + My father had a strong desire at this time to write a history of his + campaigns. I think, however, he gradually gave it up when he saw the great + difficulties to be overcome and the labour required to produce anything + worthy of the subject, especially as he began to realise that his strength + was slowly failing—a fact which his letters indicate. Just after the + cessation of hostilities, he had taken some preliminary steps toward + acquiring the necessary material. In a circular letter which he sent out + to a great many of his general officers, he wrote: + </p> + <p> + “I am desirous that the bravery and devotion of the Army of Northern + Virginia be correctly transmitted to posterity. This is the only tribute + that can now be paid to the worth of its noble officers and soldiers, and + I am anxious to collect the necessary information for the history of its + campaigns, including the operations in the Valley and in Western Virginia, + from its organisation to its final surrender....” + </p> + <p> + In a letter to the Honourable W. B. Reid, of Philadelphia, he writes on + the same subject: + </p> + <p> + “...I concur with you entirely as to the importance of a true history of + the war, and it is my purpose, unless prevented, to write the history of + the campaigns in Virginia. With this view, I have been engaged since the + cessation of hostilities in endeavouring to procure the necessary official + information. All my records, reports, returns, etc., etc., with the + headquarters of the army, were needlessly destroyed by the clerks having + them in charge on the retreat from Petersburg, and such as had been + forwarded to the War Department in Richmond were either destroyed in the + conflagration or captured at the South in the attempt to save them. I + desire to obtain some vouchers in support of my memory, or I should + otherwise have made some progress in the narrative, they have not even my + letter or order-books to which to refer. I have thought it possible that + some of my official correspondence, which would be of value to me, might + be found among the captured records in Washington, and that General Grant, + who possesses magnanimity as well as ability, might cause me to be + furnished with copies. I have, however, hesitated to approach him on the + subject, as it is one in which he would naturally feel no interest.” + </p> + <p> + In a letter to General Early, written in November, 1865, on the same + subject, he says: + </p> + <p> + “...I desire, if not prevented, to write a history of the campaigns in + Virginia.... Your reports of your operations in ‘64 and ‘65 were among + those destroyed. Can not you repeat them, and send me copies of such + letters, orders, etc., of mine (including that last letter, to which you + refer), and particularly give me your recollections of our effective + strength at the principal battles? My only object is to transmit, if + possible, the truth to posterity, and do justice to our brave soldiers.” + </p> + <p> + Here is another letter to General Early, written March 16th, containing + references to the same subject, and to two letters of General Early which + had been published in the papers. It is interesting, also, as showing his + moderation in speaking of those who had misrepresented his words and acts: + </p> + <p> + “My Dear General: I am very much obliged to you for the copies of my + letters, forwarded with yours of January 25th. I hope you will be able to + send me reports of the operations of your commands in the campaign, from + the Wilderness to Richmond, at Lynchburg, in the Valley, Maryland, etc.; + all statistics as regards numbers, destruction of private property by the + Federal troops, etc., I should like to have, as I wish my memory + strengthened on these points. It will be difficult to get the world to + understand the odds against which we fought, and the destruction or loss + of all returns of the army embarrass me very much. I read your letter from + Havana to the New York Times, and was pleased with the temper in which it + was written. I have since received the paper containing it, published in + the City of Mexico, and also your letter in reference to Mr. Davis. I + understand and appreciate the motives which prompted both letters, and + think they will be of service in the way you intended. I have been much + pained to see the attempts made to cast odium upon Mr. Davis, but do not + think they will be successful with the reflecting or informed portion of + the country. The accusations against myself I have not thought proper to + notice, or even to correct misrepresentations of my words or acts. WE + SHALL HAVE TO BE PATIENT and suffer for awhile at least; and all + controversy, I think, will only serve to prolong angry and bitter feeling, + and postpone the period when reason and charity may resume their sway. At + present, the public mind is not prepared to receive the truth. The + feelings which influenced you to leave the country were natural, and, I + presume, were uppermost in the breasts of many. It was a matter which each + one had to decide for himself, as he only could know the reasons which + governed him. I was particularly anxious on your account, as I had the + same apprehensions to which you refer. I am truly glad that you are beyond + the reach of annoyance, and hope you may be able to employ yourself + profitably and usefully. Mexico is a beautiful country, fertile, of vast + resources; and, with a stable government and virtuous population, will + rise to greatness. I do not think that your letters can be construed by + your former associates as reflecting upon them, and I have never heard the + least blame cast by those who have remained upon those who thought it best + to leave the country. I think I stated in a former letter the reasons + which governed me, and will not therefore repeat them. I hope, in time, + peace will be restored to the country, and that the South may enjoy some + measure of prosperity. I fear, however, much suffering is still in store + for her, and that her people must be prepared to exercise fortitude and + forbearance. I must beg you to present my kind regards to the gentlemen + with you, and, with my best wishes for yourself and undiminished esteem, I + am, + </p> + <p> + “Most truly yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + That his purpose had been heard of in the outside world is evident from + this reply to a publisher in Cincinnati: + </p> + <p> + “Near Cartersville, Virginia, August 26, 1865. + </p> + <p> + “Mr. Joseph Topham, Cincinnati, Ohio. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Sir: I have just received your letter of the 17th inst., in + reference to a history of the late war to be written by myself. I cannot, + at present, undertake such a work, but am endeavouring to collect certain + material to enable me to write a history of the campaigns in Virginia. Its + completion is uncertain, and dependent upon so many contingencies that I + think it useless to speak of arrangements for its publication at present. + Thanking you for your kind proposition, I am, + </p> + <p> + “Very respectfully yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + There were a great many letters of this kind from Northern publishing + houses, and his replies were all of the same character. His failure to + carry out this much cherished wish is greatly to be deplored. How much we + and our children have missed, those who know his truth and honesty of + purpose, his manliness, simplicity, and charity, can best tell. + </p> + <p> + During the last days of February he was summoned to Washington to appear + before a committee of Congress which was inquiring into the conditions of + things in the Southern States, with a view to passing some of the + so-called reconstruction measures. His testimony was simple, direct, and + dignified, and is well worth reading by all who wish to hear the plain + truth. It was his first appearance in any city save Richmond since the + war, and being at a time of such political excitement, his visit was an + occasion of absorbing interest to the crowds then in the capital. + </p> + <p> + When in Washington, Armanda, one of the house-servants at Arlington, + called on him but failed to see him. In answer to a letter from her, my + father replies as follows: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, March 9, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “Amanda Parks. + </p> + <p> + “Amanda: I have received your letter of the 27th ult., and regret very + much that I did not see you when I was in Washington. I heard on returning + to my room, Sunday night, that you had been to see me; and I was sorry to + have missed you, for I wished to learn how you were, and how all the + people from Arlington were getting on in the world. My interest in them is + as great now as it ever was, and I sincerely wish for their happiness and + prosperity. At the period specified in Mr. Custis’s will—five years + from the time of his death—I caused the liberation of all the people + at Arlington, as well as those at the White House and Romancoke, to be + recorded in the Hustings Court at Richmond; and letters of manumission to + be given to those with whom I could communicate who desired them. In + consequence of the war which then existed, I could do nothing more for + them. I do not know why you should ask if I am angry with you. I am not + aware of your having done anything to give me offense, and I hope you + would not say or do what was wrong. While you lived at Arlington you + behaved very well, and were attentive and faithful to your duties. I hope + you will always conduct yourself in the same manner. Wishing you health, + happiness, and success in life, I am truly, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Shortly after his return to Lexington, he writes to Mrs. Jefferson Davis. + In this letter he expresses such noble sentiments, and is so moderate and + sensible in his views of those who were harassing him and the South, that + all who read it must profit thereby: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, February 23, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mrs. Davis: Your letter of the 12th inst. reached Lexington + during my absence at Washington. I have never seen Mr. Colfax’s speech, + and am, therefore, ignorant of the statements it contained. Had it, + however, come under my notice, I doubt whether I should have thought it + proper to reply. I HAVE THOUGHT, FROM THE TIME OF THE CESSATION OF THE + HOSTILITIES, THAT SILENCE AND PATIENCE ON THE PART OF THE SOUTH WAS THE + TRUE COURSE; and I think so still. CONTROVERSY OF ALL KINDS will, in my + opinion, only serve to continue excitement and passion, and will prevent + the public mind from the acknowledgement and acceptance of the truth. + These considerations have kept me from replying to accusations made + against myself, and induced me to recommend the same to others. As regards + the treatment of the Andersonville prisoners, to which you allude, I know + nothing and can say nothing of my own knowledge. I never had anything to + do with any prisoners, except to send those taken on the fields, where I + was engaged, to the Provost Marshal General at Richmond. I have felt most + keenly the sufferings and imprisonment of your husband, and have earnestly + consulted with friends as to any possible mode of affording him relief and + consolation. He enjoys the sympathy and respect of all good men; and if, + as you state, his trial is now near, the exhibition of the while truth in + his case will, I trust, prove his defense and justification. With sincere + prayers for his health and speedy restoration to liberty, and earnest + supplications to God that He may take you and yours under His guidance and + protection, I am, with great respect, + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In further illustration of these views, held so strongly by him and + practised so faithfully throughout his life, the following, written to a + gentleman in Baltimore, is given: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, April 13, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Sir: Your letter of the 5th inst., inclosing a slip from the + Baltimore “American,” has been received. The same statement has been + published at the North for several years. The statement is not true; but I + have not thought proper to publish a contradiction, being unwilling to be + drawn into a newspaper discussion, believing that those who know me would + not credit it and those who do not would care nothing about it. I cannot + now depart from the rule I have followed. It is so easy to make + accusations against the people at the South upon similar testimony, that + those so disposed, should one be refuted, will immediately create another; + and thus you would be led into endless controversy. I think it better to + leave their correction to the return of reason and good feeling. + </p> + <p> + “Thanking you for your interest in my behalf, and begging you to consider + my letter as intended only for yourself, I am, + </p> + <p> + “Most respectfully your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In this connection I give the following letter thanking Mr. Burr for a + copy of the “Old Guard” which he had sent him, and showing also what, in + his opinion, the South had fought for, and of what true republicanism + consists: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, January 5, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “Mr. C. Chauncey Burr. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Sir: I am very much obliged to you for your letter of the 27th + ult., and for the number of the ‘Old Guard’ which you kindly sent me. I am + glad to know that the intelligent and respectable people at the North are + true and conservative in their opinions, for I believe by no other course + can the right interests of the country be maintained. All that the South + has ever desired was that the Union, as established by our forefathers, + should be preserved, and that the government as originally organised + should be administered in purity and truth. If such is the desire of the + North, there can be no contention between the two sections, and all true + patriots will unite in advocating that policy which will soonest restore + the country to tranquility and order, and serve to perpetuate true + republicanism. Please accept my thanks for your advocacy of right and + liberty and the kind sentiments which you express toward myself, and + believe me to be, with great respect, + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + An interesting view of my father’s desire to keep himself from public + attention is shown by his correspondence with an English gentleman, Mr. + Herbert C. Saunders. The connected interview states his opinions on + several points which are valuable. The copy of these papers was kindly + furnished me by Mr. John Lyle Campbell, the Proctor of Washington and Lee + University: + </p> + <p> + “Washington and Lee University, Lexington, Virginia, January 19, 1900. + </p> + <p> + “Capt. Robert E. Lee, West Point, Virginia. + </p> + <p> + “Dear Capt. Lee: I inclose the copy promised you of the papers found in + General Lee’s desk. The paper seems to have had his careful revision, as + there are a good many passages stricken out and a good many insertions in + what seems to me undoubtedly to be his handwriting; and I was very much + interested in the changes that he made, as they were most characteristic + of him—toning everything down, striking out adjectives, turning + phrases from a personal to a general character, and always adding + simplicity and force to the original. It seems to me most likely that he + was a first disposed to allow the publication, but declined at last, on + August 22d, the full limit of time indicated in Mr. Saunders’s letter. I + am Yours truly, + </p> + <p> + “(Dict.) Jno. L. Campbell.” + </p> + <p> + The papers of which the following are copies were found in General Robert + E. Lee’s desk in the President’s office at Washington and Lee University. + On the envelope in which they were inclosed was the following indorsement + in General Lee’s handwriting: + </p> + <p> + “London, July 31, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “Herbert C. Sanders asks permission to publish his conversation with me. + August 22d—Refused.” + </p> + <p> + “3 Bolton Gardens, South Kensington, London, July 31, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear General Lee: Presuming on the acquaintance with you which I had + the honour and pleasure of making last November at Lexington, while + travelling in Virginia, I venture now to write to you under these + circumstances. You may remember that, at the time I presented to you my + letter of introduction, I told you that two other Englishmen, friends of + mine, who had come with me to America, were then making a tour through + Georgia, the Carolinas, and some other Southern States. One of them, Mr. + Kennaway, was so much interested with all he saw, and the people at home + have appreciated his letters descriptive of it so well, that he is + intending to publish a short account of his visit. Not having, however, + had an introduction to yourself, he is anxious to avail himself of the + somewhat full accounts I wrote home at the time, descriptive of my most + interesting interview with you, and, with this view, he has asked me to + put into the shape of a letter all those more prominent points which occur + to me as gathered from my letters and my recollection, and which are + likely to interest and instruct the English public. I have, after some + hesitation, acceded to the request—a hesitation caused mainly by the + fact that at the time I saw you I neither prepared my notes with a view to + publication nor did I inform you that there was any chance of what you + told me being repeated. I may add that I never until a month or two ago + had the slightest thought of publishing anything, and, in fact, have + constantly resisted the many applications by my friends that I should let + my letters see the light. My object in now writing to you is to know + whether you have any objection to my giving my friend the inclosed short + account of our interview, as it would, I am convinced, add greatly to the + interest of the narrative. If you have no objection to this, perhaps you + would kindly correct any statements put into your mouth which are not + quite accurate, or expunge anything which might prejudice you with the + public either of the North or the South, if unluckily anything of this + nature should have crept in. My letters, were written a day or two after + the conversation, but you had so much of interest and new to tell me that + I do not feel sure that I may not have confused names of battles, etc., in + some instances. It will be necessary for me to deliver my part of the + performance early in September to the publishers, and, therefore, I should + feel much obliged by your sending me an answer at your earliest + convenience. There will be a mail due here about the first of that month, + leaving the United States on Wednesday, the 22d, and I shall, therefore, + wait till its arrival before sending my letter to Mr. Kennaway; but should + I not hear from you then I shall consider you have no objections to make + or alterations to suggest, and act accordingly. If you have any new facts + which you think it desirable should be known by the public, it will give + me much pleasure to be the medium of their communication. + </p> + <p> + “I am sure I need scarcely tell you with what keen interest I have read + all the accounts from your continent of the proceedings in Congress and + elsewhere in connection with the reconstruction of the South. I do + sincerely trust it may be eventually effected in a way satisfactory to the + South, and I most deeply deplore the steps taken by the Radical side of + the House to set the two (North and South) by the ears again. President + Johnson’s policy seems to me to be that which, if pursued, would be most + likely to contribute to the consolidation of the country; but I am both + surprised and pained to find how little power the Executive has against so + strong a faction as the Radicals, who, while they claim to represent the + North, do, in fact, but misrepresent the country. I am sure you will + believe that I say with sincerity that I always take great interest in + anything I hears said or that I read of yourself, and I am happy to say + that, even with all the rancour of the Northern Radicals against the + South, it is little they find of ill to say of you. + </p> + <p> + “Hoping you will not think I am doing wrong in the course I propose to + take, and that your answer may be satisfactory, I remain, my dear General + Lee, + </p> + <p> + “Yours very sincerely, Herbert C. Saunders. + </p> + <p> + “General Robert E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, August 22, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “Mr. Herbert C. Saunders, + </p> + <p> + “3 Bolton Gardens, South Kensington, London, England. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mr. Saunders: I received to-day your letter of the 31st ult. What + I stated to you in conversation, during the visit which you did me the + honour to pay me in November last, was entirely for your own information, + and was in no way intended for publication. My only object was to gratify + the interest which you apparently evinced on the several topics which were + introduced, and to point to facts which you might investigate, if you so + desired, in your own way. I have an objection to the publication of my + private conversations, which are never intended but for those to whom they + are addressed. I cannot, therefore, without an entire disregard of the + rule which I have followed in other cases, and in violation of my own + sense of propriety, assent to what you propose. I hope, therefore, you + will excuse me. What you may think proper to publish I hope will be the + result of your own observations and convictions, and not on my authority. + In the hasty perusal which I have been obliged to give the manuscript + inclosed to me, I perceive many inaccuracies, resulting as much, from my + imperfect narrative as from misapprehension on your part. Though fully + appreciating your kind wish to correct certain erroneous statements as + regards myself, I prefer remaining silent to doing anything that might + excite angry discussion at this time, when strong efforts are being made + by conservative men, North and South, to sustain President Johnson in his + policy, which, I think, offers the only means of healing the lamentable + divisions of the country, and which the result of the late convention at + Philadelphia gives great promise of doing. Thanking you for the + opportunity afforded me of expressing my opinion before executing your + purpose, I am, etc., + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The following is Mr. Saunders’ account of the interview: + </p> + <p> + “On only one subject would he take at any length about his own conduct, + and that was with reference to the treatment of the Federal prisoners who + had fallen into his hands. He seemed to feel deeply the backhanded stigma + cast upon him by his having been included by name in the first indictment + framed against Wirz, though he was afterward omitted from the new charges. + He explained to me the circumstances under which he had arranged with + McClellan for the exchange of prisoners; how he had, after the battles of + Manassas, Fredericksburg, and (I think) Chancellorsville, sent all the + wounded over to the enemy on the engagement of their generals to parole + them. He also told me that on several occasions his commissary generals + had come to him after a battle and represented that he had not rations + enough both for prisoners and the army when the former had to be sent + several days’ march to their place of confinement, and he had always given + orders that the wants of the prisoners should be first attended to, as + from their position they could not save themselves from starvation by + foraging or otherwise, as the army could when in straits for provisions. + The General also explained how every effort had always been made by the + Confederates to do away with the necessity of retaining prisoners by + offering every facility for exchange, till at last, when all exchange was + refused, they found themselves with 30,000 prisoners for whom they were + quite unable to do as much as they wished in the way of food. He stated, + furthermore, that many of their hardships arose from the necessity of + constantly changing the prisons to prevent recapture. With the management + of the prisons he assured me he had no more to do than I had, and did not + even know that Wirz was in charge of Andersonville prison (at least, I + think he asserted this) till after the war was over. I could quite + sympathise with him in his feeling of pain under which his generous nature + evidently suffered that the authorities at Washington should have included + him and others similarly circumstanced in this charge of cruelty at the + time that letters written by himself (General Lee), taken in Richmond when + captured, complaining that the troops in his army had actually been for + days together on several occasions without an ounce of meat, were in + possession of the military authorities. + </p> + <p> + “When discussing the state of feeling in England with regard to the war, + he assured me that it had all along given him the greatest pleasure to + feel that the Southern cause had the sympathies of so many in the ‘old + country,’ to which he looked as a second home; but, in answer to my + questions, he replied that he had never expected us to give them material + aid, and added that he thought all governments were right in studying only + the interests of their own people and in not going to war for an ‘idea’ + when they had no distinct cause of quarrel. + </p> + <p> + “On the subject of slavery, he assured me that he had always been in + favour of the emancipation of the negroes, and that in Virginia the + feeling had been strongly inclining in the same direction, till the + ill-judged enthusiasm (accounting to rancour) of the abolitionists in the + North had turned the southern tide of feeling in the other direction. In + Virginia, about thirty years ago, an ordinance for the emancipation of the + slaves had been rejected by only a small majority, and every one fully + expected at the next convention it would have been carried, but for the + above cause. He went on to say that there was scarcely a Virginian new who + was not glad that the subject had been definitely settled, though nearly + all regretted that they had not been wise enough to do it themselves the + first year of the war. Allusion was made by him to a conversation he had + with a distinguished countryman of mine. He had been visiting a large + slave plantation (Shirley) on the James River. The Englishman had told him + that the working population were better cared for there than in any + country he had ever visited, but that he must never expect an approval of + the institution of slavery by England, or aid from her in any cause in + which that question was involved. Taking these facts and the well-known + antipathy of the mass of the English to the institution in consideration, + he said he had never expected help from England. The people ‘at the South’ + (as the expression is), in the main, though scarcely unanimously, seem to + hold much the same language as General Lee with reference to our + neutrality, and to be much less bitter than Northerners generally—who, + I must confess, in my own opinion, have much less cause to complain of our + interpretation of the laws of neutrality than the South. I may mention + here, by way of parenthesis, that I was, on two separate occasions (one in + Washington and once in Lexington), told that there were many people in the + country who wished that General Washington had never lived and that they + were still subjects of Queen Victoria; but I should certainly say as a + rule the Americans are much too well satisfied with themselves for this + feeling to be at all common. General Lee, in the course of this to me most + interesting evening’s seance, gave me many details of the war too long to + put on paper, but, with reference to the small result of their numerous + victories, accounted for it in this way: the force which the Confederates + brought to bear was so often inferior in numbers to that of the Yankees + that the more they followed up the victory against one portion of the + enemy’s line the more did they lay themselves open to being surrounded by + the remainder of the enemy. He likened the operation to a man breasting a + wave of the sea, who, as rapidly as he clears a way before him, is + enveloped by the very water he has displaced. He spoke of the final + surrender as inevitable owing to the superiority in numbers of the enemy. + His own army had, during the last few weeks, suffered materially from + defection in its ranks, and, discouraged by failures and worn out by + hardships, had at the time of the surrender only 7,892 men under arms, and + this little army was almost surrounded by one of 100,000. They might, the + General said with an air piteous to behold, have cut their way out as they + had done before, but, looking upon the struggle as hopeless, I was not + surprised to hear him say that he thought it cruel to prolong it. In two + other battles he named (Sharpsburg and Chancellorsville, I think he said), + the Confederates were to the Federals in point of numbers as 35,000 to + 120,000 and 45,000 to 155,000 respectively, so that the mere disparity of + numbers was not sufficient to convince him of the necessity of surrender; + but feeling that his own army was persuaded of the ultimate hopelessness + of the contest as evidenced by their defection, he took the course of + surrendering his army in lieu of reserving it for utter annihilation. + </p> + <p> + “Turning to the political bearing of the important question at issue, the + great Southern general gave me, at some length, his feelings with regard + to the abstract right of secession. This right, he told me, was held as a + constitutional maxim at the South. As to its exercise at the time on the + part of the South, he was distinctly opposed, and it was not until Lincoln + issued a proclamation for 75,000 men to invade the South, which was deemed + clearly unconstitutional, that Virginia withdrew from the United States. + </p> + <p> + “We discussed a variety of other topics, and, at eleven o’clock when I + rose to go, he begged me to stay on, as he found the nights full long. His + son, General Custis Lee, who had distinguished himself much during the + war, but whom I had not the good fortune of meeting, is the only one of + his family at present with him at Lexington, where he occupies the + position of a professor in the Military Institute of Virginia. This + college had 250 cadets in it when the war broke out, General ‘Stonewall’ + Jackson being one of the professors. At one moment in the war, when the + Federal were advancing steadily up the Shenandoah Valley, these youths + (from 16 to 22 years of age) were marched to join the Confederate Army, + and did good service. In one battle at Newmarket, of which I shall have + occasion to speak later in my letters, they distinguished themselves in a + conspicuous way under the leadership of Colonel Shipp, who is still their + commandant. By a brilliant charge, they contributed, in a great measure, + to turn the tide of affairs, losing nine of their number killed and more + than forty wounded. General Hunter, on a subsequent occasion, when + occupying Lexington with a body of Federal troops, quartered his men in + the Military Institute for several days, and, on leaving, had the building—a + very handsome and extensive one—fired in numerous places, completely + destroying all but the external walls, which now stand. The professors’ + houses stood in detached positions, and these, too, with the house of Mr. + Letcher, a former governor of the State, he also burnt to the ground. The + Washington college, the presidency of which General Lee now holds, they + also ransacked, destroying everything it contained, and were preparing it + for the flames, to which they were with difficulty restrained from + devoting it by earnest representations of its strictly educational + nature.” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0037" id="link2HCH0037"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XIII — Family Affairs + </h2> + <p> + The General writes to his sons—To his wife at Rockbridge Baths—He + joins her there about once a week—Distinguished and undistinguished + callers at his Lexington home—He advocates early hours—His + fondness for animals + </p> + <p> + I had before this time gone to my farm in King William County and started + out in life as a farmer. As there was nothing but the land and a few old + buildings left, for several years I had a very up-hill time. My father + encouraged, advised me, and gave me material aid. His letters to me at + this time will show the interest he took in my welfare. In one written + March 16, 1866, after advising me as to steps to be taken in repairing an + old mill on the place, he writes: + </p> + <p> + “I am clear for your doing everything to improve your property and make it + remunerative as far as you can. You know my objections to incurring debt. + I cannot overcome it.... I hope you will overcome your chills, and by next + winter you must patch up your house, and get a sweet wife. You will be + more comfortable, and not so lonesome. Let her bring a cow and a churn. + That will be all you will want.... Give my love to Fitzhugh. I wish he + were regularly established. He cannot afford to be idle. He will be + miserable.” + </p> + <p> + My brother Fitzhugh, here referred to, was negotiating to rent his farm, + the White House, to some so-called English capitalists, and had not as yet + established himself. In another letter to me, of May 26, 1866, my father + says: + </p> + <p> + “...I will state, at the outset, that I desire you to consider Romancoke + with its appurtenances your own; to do with as you consider most to your + interest; to sell, farm, or let; subject, however, to the conditions + imposed by your grandfather’s will, as construed by the decree of the + Court of Appeals of Virginia, which declares, ‘If the legacies are not + paid off by the personal property, hires of slaves, rents, and sale of the + real estate, charged with their payment, at the end of five years, the + portion unpaid remains a charge upon the White House and Romancoke until + paid. The devisees take their estates cum onere.’ + </p> + <p> + “The result of the war having deprived the estates of the benefit of the + hire of the slaves and the sale of Smith’s Island, and the personal + property having all been swept off by the Federal armies, there is nothing + left but the land of the two estates named. A court might make some + deduction from the amount of the legacies to be paid in consideration of + these circumstances, and I should think it would be fair to do so. But of + that I cannot say. Now, with this understanding, make your own + arrangements to suit yourself, and as you may determine most conducive to + your interests. In confirming your action, as the executor or your + grandfather, I must, however, take such measures as may be necessary to + carry out the purpose of his will.... If you are determined to hold the + estate, I think you ought to make it profitable. As to the means of doing + so, you must decide for yourself. I am unable to do it for you, and might + lead you astray. Therefore, while always willing to give you any advice in + my power, in whatever you do you must feel that the whole responsibility + rests with you.... I wish, my dear son, I could be of some advantage to + you, but I can only give you my love and earnest prayers, and commit you + to the keeping of that God who never forgets those who serve Him. May He + watch over and preserve you. + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In another letter, of June 13th, after telling me of the visit of a cousin + of my mother’s and how much gratification it was to have her with them, he + regrets that he son, who brought his mother up to Lexington, had to hurry + home on account of having left his wife and little son: + </p> + <p> + “...When you have such pleasing spurs in your flanks, I hope you may be on + the fair road to prosperity. All unite in love to you and Fitzhugh. Ask + the latter if George has yet found a horse to trade with the gray. We miss + him very much [my brother had recently visited Lexington], and want to see + you as badly. You may judge how poorly we are off. The examination has + commenced at Washington College. Three days are over successfully, and I + hope to finish in twelve more. —— has been up in two subjects, + and not got thrown. He has two more. But, in the meantime, I am much + occupied, and will be confined all day. I have no time for letters of + affection, so must tell you good-bye. + </p> + <p> + “Most affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + This was the first final examination at Washington College since my father + became its president. He worked very hard, and was kept busy attending to + all the details and the putting into practice of several new methods and + systems he had introduced. + </p> + <p> + That summer he took my mother to the Rockbridge Baths, about eleven miles + from Lexington, to give her the benefit of the waters, which, he hoped, + might give her some relief from the continual pain she suffered. She did + derive benefit, but, unfortunately, had a fall which seriously impeded the + improvement. In reply to a note from my mother telling him of her + misfortune and asking him to send her some medicines, he writes the + following note: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, August 10, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: On receiving your note, yesterday, I had only time to get + the arnica and send it by the stage. I am very sorry that you received + such a fall, and fear it must have been a heavy shock to you. I am, + however, very thankful that you escaped greater injury, and hope it is no + worse than you describe. I will endeavour to get down to see you to-morrow + evening, and trust I may find you somewhat relieved from its effects. We + are pretty well here. Many people are out of town, and I have not seen + those who are in. Love to the girls. + </p> + <p> + “Truly and affectionately yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. M. C. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + My father was still very busy with his college work, and, after + establishing her there, spent most of the time in Lexington, riding + Traveller over to see her whenever he could get a spare day. Among the few + letters preserved of those written to her at this time, I have a note of + July 16th: + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I am glad to see by your letter of yesterday that you are + recovering so well from your fall. I hope you may soon be well again.... + Caroline [the cook] got back this morning. Left her daughter better. Says + there is a very good girl in Lynchburg, from General Cocke’s estate, + anxious to live with us. I shall have more conversation with her + [Caroline], and, if satisfied, will write for her, by the boat to-night. + Her father is in Lynchburg, and anxious for her to come.... Tell Mrs. + Cabell I am sorry to have missed seeing her. Where is Katie? I wish she + would send her to see me. I will endeavour to find some one to carry this + to you. Love to all. + </p> + <p> + “Very affectionately and truly yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The mails in those days were not very direct, and private messenger was + often the surest and speediest method of letter-carriage. In the absence + of my mother, my father was trying to better the staff of servants. Their + inefficiency was the drawback to our comfort then, as it is now. Often the + recommendation of some was only the name of the estate from which they + came. A few days later, my father writes again: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, July 20, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I was glad to receive your note this morning, and wish it + could have reported a marked improvement in your health. But that, I + trust, will come in time. It has been impossible for me to return to you + this week, and, indeed, I do not see how I can absent myself at all. I + shall endeavour to go to the Baths Monday, and hope during the week you + may be able to determine whether it would be more advantageous for you to + remain there or go further, as I shall have to return here as soon as I + can. I can accomplish nothing while absent. Custis ahs determined to + accompany Mr. Harris to the White Sulphur Monday, and the girls seem + indifferent about leaving home. They ask, properly, what is to become of + it? Mr. Pierre Chouteau, son of Julia Gratiot and Charles Chouteau, will + hand you this. He will remain over Sunday at the Baths, and can tell you + all about St. Louis. I send such letters as have come for you. I have no + news. The heat seems to extend everywhere, but it will be cool enough + after a time. We are as usual, except that ‘Aunt’ Caroline [the cook] + seems more overcome, and Harriet [the maid] indulges in lighter attire. I + fear Mrs. Myers had an awful time. The Elliotts do not seem in haste to + leave town. They are waiting for a cool day to go to the Natural Bridge, + and do not seem to have decided whether to go to the Baths or Alum + Springs. We had an arrival last night from the latter place—General + Colquit and daughters. They return to-morrow. The girls will write of + domestic matters. I received a letter from Rob at Romancoke. He is still + taking cholagogue, but well. Nothing of interest has occurred. + </p> + <p> + “Affectionately yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Cholagogue was a fever-and-argue remedy of which I partook largely at that + time. After this letter, my sisters joined my mother at the Baths, my + father still spending most of his time in Lexington, but riding over to + see them whenever he could. He was very busy repairing some of the old + buildings of the college and arranging his work for the next session. Here + is another short note to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, August 2, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: Mr. Campbell has just informed me that Cousins George and + Eleanor Goldsborough are with you. Tell them they must not go till I can + get to the Baths. I think the waters of the latter will do them as much + good as anything they can try, and the sight of them will do me great + benefit. I find here much to do, but will endeavour to be with you + to-morrow evening or Saturday morning. Custis has just come, but finding + me occupied with builders, shook hands, got his dinner, and left for the + Institute. So I do not know where he is from or where he will go next. Our + neighbours are generally well, and inquire for you. Colonel Reid better. + Tell the girls, if I find them improving, I will bring them something. + Remember me to Cousins George and Eleanor and all the ladies. I have about + a bushel of letters to answer and other things to do. + </p> + <p> + “Very affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + On one of his visits to my mother, he took advantage of the comparative + quiet and rest there and wrote me a long letter, which I give her in full: + </p> + <p> + “Rockbridge Baths, July 28, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Robert: I was very glad to see from your letter of the 2d the + progress you are making in your farm. I hope things may move prosperously + with you, but you must not expect this result without corresponding + attention and labour. I should like very much to visit you, but it will be + impossible. I have little time for anything but my business. I am here + with your mother, waiting to see the effects of these waters upon her + disease, before proceeding to the Warm Springs. She is pleased with the + bath, which she finds very agreeable, and it has reduced the swelling in + her feet and ankles, from which she has been suffering for a long time, + and, in fact, from her account, entirely removed it. This is a great + relief in itself, and, I hope, may be followed by greater. I do not think + she moves with more facility, though I think she walks [on her crutches] + oftener and longer than heretofore, and probably with more confidence. She + has been her too short a time to pronounce positively as to the effects of + the water, and will have to remain three or four weeks before we determine + whether she will go further. I am unwilling for her to lose the whole + summer here unless it promises some advantage, and, after the middle of + next week, unless some marked change takes place, shall take her to the + Warm Springs. Custis has gone to the White Sulphur, but expects to be in + Richmond on August 6th to meet Fitzhugh, with the view of going to the + Warrenton White Sulphur Springs in North Carolina, to witness the erection + of a monument over dear Annie, which the kind people of that country have + prepared for the purpose. My attendance on your mother, which is + necessary, prevents my being present. Agnes and Mildred are here. I think + the baths have been beneficial to them already, though they have not been + here a week. I will leave them to describe the place and visitors. I + applied the dressing of salt to the old meadow at Arlington with the view + of renovating the grass. I believe it is equally good for corn. It was + refuse salt—Liverpool—which I bought cheaply in Alexandria + from the sacks having decayed and broken, but I cannot recollect exactly + how much I applied to the acre. I think it was about two or three bushels + to the acre. You had better consult some work on farming as to the + quantity. I would advise you to apply manure of some kind to all your + land. I believe there is nothing better or cheaper for you to begin with + than shell lime. I would prefer cultivating less land manured in some way + than a large amount unassisted. We are always delighted to hear from you, + and I trust with care you may escape the chills. The incentives I spoke of + were a sweet wife and child. God bless you, my dear son. + </p> + <p> + “Most affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + My mother continued to improve so much that she did not go that summer to + the Warm Springs. My father spent most of his time in Lexington, but rode + over to the Baths about once a week. There was nothing he enjoyed more + than a good long ride on Traveller. It rested him from the cares and + worries incident to his duties, and gave him renewed energy for his work. + He was often seen that summer along the eleven miles of mountain road + between Lexington and the Baths. He made himself acquainted with the + people living near it, talked to them about their affairs, encouraged and + advised them, and always had a cheery greeting and a pleasant word for + them. The little children along his route soon became acquainted with the + gray horse and his stately rider. College reopened the last of September + and by October he had his wife and daughters with him again. He write to + me on October 18th, trying to help me in my agricultural perplexities: + </p> + <p> + “...Am glad to hear that you are well and progressing favourably. Your + Uncle Smith says, in a letter just received in which he writes of his + difficulties and drawbacks, ‘I must tell you that if you desire to succeed + in any matter relating to agriculture you must personally superintend and + see to everything.’ Perhaps your experience coincides with his. + </p> + <p> + “I hope your wheat will reimburse you for your labour and guano. I think + you are right in improving your land. You will gain by cultivating less + and cultivating that well, and I would endeavour to manure every crop—as + to the kind of manure which will be the most profitable, you must + experiment. Lime acts finely on your land and is more lasting than guano. + If you can, get shells to burn on your land, or, if not, shell lime from + Baltimore. I think you would thereby more certainly and more cheaply + restore your fields. I hope your sale of ship-timber may place you in + funds to make experiments. You will have to attend to your contractors. + They will generally bear great attention, and then circumvent you.... I + hope I shall see you this winter, when we can talk over the matter. We are + pretty well. Your mother is better by her visit to the Baths. Mildred + talks of going to the Eastern Shore of Maryland next month, and I fear + will be absent from us all winter. I must refer you to your sisters for + all news. They are great letter-writers, and their correspondence extends + over the globe. Miss Etta Seldon is with us. All our summer visitors have + gone, and some who, I hoped, would have visited us have not come.... + Good-bye, my dear son. God bless you.... + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “Robert E. Lee, Jr.” + </p> + <p> + My uncle, Smith Lee, was farming on the Potomac, and was constantly + sending me messages of condolence through my father. Our experiences were + the same as all others starting to farm under the new order of things. My + father was very hospitable, and it delighted him to have his relatives and + friends come and see him. So many kindnesses had been shown to himself and + family for the last five years that he greatly enjoyed this, his first + opportunity of greeting in his own home those who had so often offered my + mother and sisters the shelter of theirs. The country around Lexington was + most beautiful, and the climate in the summer and autumn all that could be + desired. So, at those seasons, whenever he was at home, there was + generally some one visiting him, nearly always relatives or old and dear + friends. He entertained very simply, made every one feel at home, and was + always considerate and careful of the amusement and welfare of his guests. + </p> + <p> + People came from all over the world to Lexington to see him. Amongst the + visitors from afar were the marquis of Lorne and the Hon. Mr. Cooper, who + were on a tour through the United States. They came to Lexington to see + General Lee. When they called at the house there happened to be no servant + at hand, and my father, meeting them at the door, received their cards. + Not having on his glasses, he could not read the names, but ushered the + strangers into the parlour, and presented them to Mrs. Lee, without + calling their names. My mother thought the tall, slender youth was a new + student, and entered into conversation with him as such. Struck by his + delicate appearance, she cautioned him against the harsh winter climate of + the mountains, and urged him to be careful of his health. On this, Mr. + Cooper explained who his companion was, and there was much amusement over + the mistake. + </p> + <p> + The professors and students of the two institutions of learning were + constant visitors, especially in the evenings, when young men came to see + the girls. If his daughters had guests, my father usually sat with my + mother in the dining-room adjoining the drawing-room. When the clock + struck ten he would rise and close the shutters carefully and slowly, and, + if that hint was not taken, he would simply say “Good night, young + gentlemen.” The effect was immediate and lasting, and his wishes in that + matter, finally becoming generally known, were always respected. Captain + W., who had very soon found out the General’s views as to the time of + leaving, was told on one occasion that General Lee had praised him very + much. + </p> + <p> + “Do you know why?” said the Captain. “It is because I have never been + caught in the parlour at ten o’clock. I came very near it least night, but + got into the porch before the General shut the first blind. That’s the + reason he calls me ‘a fine young man.’” + </p> + <p> + A young friend who was a cadet at the Virginia Military Institute called + on my sisters one evening, and remarked, just for something to say: + </p> + <p> + “Do you know this is the first civilian’s house I have entered in + Lexington.” + </p> + <p> + My father was in the room in the room in his gray Confederate coat, shorn + of the buttons; also my two brothers, Custis and Fitzhugh, both of whom + had been generals in the Confederate Army; so there was quite a laugh over + the term CIVILIAN. I have already mentioned how particular my father was + about answering all letters. It was a great tax on his time, and some of + them must have been a trial to his temper. The following will explain + itself: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, September 5, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “A. J. Requier, 81 Cedar St., New York. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Sir: I am very much obliged to you for your kind letter of the + 22d ult. So many articles formerly belonging to me are scattered over the + country that I fear I have not time to devote to their recovery. I know no + one in Buffalo whom I could ask to reclaim the Bible in question. If the + lady who has it will use it, as I hope she will, she will herself seek to + restore it to the rightful owner. I will, therefore, leave the decision of + the question to her and her conscience. I have read with great pleasure + the poem you sent me, and thank you sincerely for your interest in my + behalf. With great respect, + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Here is another one of many of a similar character: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, September 26, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “Mr. E. A. Pollard, 104 West Baltimore St., Baltimore, Md. + </p> + <p> + “Dear Sir: I return you my thanks for the compliment paid me by your + proposition to write a history of my life. It is a hazardous undertaking + to publish the life of any one while living, and there are but few who + would desire to read a true history of themselves. Independently of the + few national events with which mine has been connected, it presents little + to interest the general reader, nor do I know where to refer you for the + necessary materials. All my private, as well as public, records have been + destroyed or lost, except what is to be found in published documents, and + I know of nothing available for the purpose. Should you, therefore, + determine to undertake the work, you must rely upon yourself, as my time + is so fully occupied that I am unable to promise you any assistance. + </p> + <p> + “Very respectfully, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + This autumn my sister Mildred paid a visit to our cousins, Mr. and Mrs. + George Golsborough, living at “Ashby,” near Easton, on the Eastern Shore + of Maryland. She remained away there and elsewhere for several months. My + father’s letters to her, many of which have been preserved, are most + interesting. They show very plainly many beautiful phases of his noble + character and disposition: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, December 21, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Life: I was very glad to receive your letter of the 15th + inst., and to learn that you were well and happy. May you be always as + much so as is consistent with your welfare here and hereafter, is my daily + prayer. I was much pleased, too, that, while enjoying the kindness of your + friends, we were not forgotten. Experience will teach you that, + notwithstanding all appearances to the contrary, you will never receive + such a love as is felt for you by your father and mother. That lives + through absence, difficulties, and times. Your own feelings will teach you + how it should be returned and appreciated. I want to see you very much, + and miss you at every turn, yet am glad of this opportunity for you to be + with those who, I know, will do all in their power to give you pleasure. I + hope you will also find time to read and improve your mind. Read history, + works of truth, not novels and romances. Get correct views of life, and + learn to see the world in its true light. It will enable you to live + pleasantly, to do good, and, when summoned away, to leave without regret. + Your friends here inquire constantly after you, and wish for your return. + Mrs. White and Mrs. McElwee particularly regret your absence, and the + former sends especial thanks for your letter of remembrance. We get on in + our usual way. Agnes takes good care of us, and is very thoughtful and + attentive. She has not great velocity, but is systematic and quiet. After + to-day, the mornings will begin to lengthen a little, and her trials to + lessen. It is very cold, the ground is covered with six inches of snow, + and the mountains, as far as the eye can reach in every direction, elevate + their white crests as monuments of winter. This is the night for the + supper for the repairs to the Episcopal church. Your mother and sisters + are busy with their contributions. It is to take place at the hotel, and + your brother, cousins, and father are to attend. On Monday night (24th), + the supper for the Presbyterian church is to be held at their + lecture-room. They are to have music and every attraction. I hope both may + be productive of good. But you know the Episcopalians are few in numbers + and light in purse, and must be resigned to small returns.... I must leave + to your sisters a description of these feasts, and also an account of the + operation of the Reading Club. As far as I can judge, it is a great + institution for the discussion of apples and chestnuts, but is quite + innocent of the pleasures of literature. It, however, brings the young + people together, and promotes sociability and conversation. Our feline + companions are flourishing. Young Baxter is growing in gracefulness and + favour, and gives cat-like evidences of future worth. He possesses the + fashionable colour of ‘moonlight on the water,’ apparently a dingy hue of + the kitchen, and is strictly aristocratic in appearance and conduct. Tom, + surnamed ‘The Nipper,’ from the manner in which he slaughters our enemies, + the rats and the mice, is admired for his gravity and sobriety, as well as + for his strict attention to the pursuits of his race. They both feel your + absence sorely. Traveller and Custis are both well, and pursue their usual + dignified gait and habits, and are not led away by the frivolous + entertainments of lectures and concerts. All send united love, and all + wish for your return. Remember me most kindly to Cousins Eleanor and + George, John, Mary, Ida, and all at ‘Myrtle Grove,’ and to other kind + friends when you meet them. Mrs. Grady carried yesterday to Mr. Charles + Kerr, in Baltimore, a small package for you. Be careful of your health, + and do not eat more than half the plum-puddings Cousin Eleanor has + prepared for Xmas. I am glad to hear that you are fattening, and I hope + you will reach 125 lbs. Think always of your father, who loves you dearly. + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “P.S., 22d.—Rob arrived last night with ‘Lucy Long.’ He thinks it + too bad you are away. He has not seen you for two years. + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “Baxter” and “Tom, the Nipper” were Mildred’s pets. All of us had a + fondness for cats, inherited from my mother and her father, Mr. Custis. My + father was very fond of them in his way and in their place, and was kind + to them and considerate of their feelings. My father was very fond of them + in his way and in their place, and was kind to them and considerate of + their feelings. My mother told of his hearing one of the house-pets, + possibly Baxter or the Nipper, crying and lamenting under his window one + stormy night. The General got out of bed, opened the window, and called + pussy to come in. The window was so high that the animal could not jump up + to it. My father then stepped softly across the room, took one of my + mother’s crutches, and held it so far out of the window that he became wet + from falling rain; but he persuaded the cat to climb up along the crutch, + and into the window, before he thought of dry clothing fo himself. “Lucy + Long” was my father’s mare, which had been lost or stolen at the end of + the war, and which I had just brought back to him. I will give in the + following letter his account of her: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, September 4, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “Dr. C. S. Garnett. + </p> + <p> + “Dear Sir: I am much obliged to you for your letter of the 23d ult. and + the information it contained. The mare about which my son wrote you was + bred by Mr. Stephen Dandridge, of ‘The Bower,’ Berkeley County, Virginia, + and was purchased from him for me by General J. E. B. Stuart in the fall + of 1862—after the return of the army from Maryland. She is nine or + ten years old, about fifteen hands high, square built, sorrel (not + chestnut) colour, has a fast walk, easy pace, and short canter. When I + parted with her she had a full long mane and tail. I rode her in + conjunction with my gray horse from the fall of ‘62 to the spring of ‘64, + when she was sent back for refreshment; and it was in recalling her in the + spring of ‘65 from Mr. Hairston’s, in Henry County, that she got into + Major Paxton’s stables of public horses and went to Danville with them. I + think she might be recognised by any member of the Army of Northern + Virginia, in Essex, unless much changed. I now recollect no distinctive + marks about her except a blaze in her forehead and white hind-legs. My + son, General W. H. F. Lee, residing at the White House, in New Kent, might + recognise her, and also my son Robert, who resides near West Point, in + King William. Captain Hopkins, to whom you refer in your letter, is dead, + but Major Paxton, who had general charge of the public stables, and to + whom I referred you letter, has sent me the accompanying affidavits of two + of the men employed by him. Should their evidence not be satisfactory, he + will procure statements from some of the officers, which probably may be + more definite. I should be obliged to you, if the mare in question is the + one I am seeking for, that you would take steps to recover her, as I am + desirous of reclaiming her in consideration of the donor, General Stuart. + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient servant, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + It was proved to the satisfaction of all parties that the mare in question + was “Lucy Long,” and my father reimbursed the man who had bought her from + some one who had no right to her. She was brought to my place and I + recognised her at once. She stayed with me until I was ready to pay my + Christmas visit to Lexington. She then was put on the train and sent to + Staunton, where I met her. I found there Colonel William Allan, a + professor of Washington College, who had a buggy and no horse, and as I + had a horse and no buggy, we joined forces and I drove him over to + Lexington, “Lucy Long” carrying us with great ease to herself and comfort + to us. My father was glad to get her, as he was very fond of her. When he + heard how she came over, he was really shocked, as he thought she had + never been broken to harness. She lived to be thirty-three years old, and + was then chloroformed, because my brother thought she had ceased to enjoy + life. For the last ten years of her life she was boarded out in the + country, where she did nothing but rest, and until about a year before her + death she seemed in good health and spirits. + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0038" id="link2HCH0038"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XIV — An Ideal Father + </h2> + <p> + Letters to Mildred Lee—To Robert—To Fitzhugh—Interviewed + by Swinton, historian of the Army of the Potomac—Improvement in + grounds and buildings of Washington College—Punctuality a prominent + trait of its President—A strong supporter of the Y.M.C.A. + </p> + <p> + My sister, after the Christmas holidays, went from “Ashby” to Baltimore, + Cousins George and Eleanor Goldsborough taking her with them to their town + house. I think my father always wanted his daughters with him. When they + were away he missed them, their love, care, and attention. The next letter + I find is to Mildred in Baltimore: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, January 27, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Daughter: Your letter to your mother gave us the satisfactory + information of your continued good health, for I feared that your long + silence had been caused by indisposition of body, rather than that due to + writing. I hope you will not let so long an interval between your letters + occur again, for you know I am always longing to hear from you, when I + cannot see you, and a few lines, if only to say you are well, will prevent + unpleasant apprehensions. I am delighted at your increased bodily + dimensions, and your diminished drapery. One hundred and twenty-eight + avoirdupois is approximately a proper standard. Seven more pounds will + make you all right. But I fear before I see you the unnatural life, which + I fear you will lead in Baltimore, will reduce you to skin and bone. Do + not go out to many parties, preserve your simple tastes and manners, and + you will enjoy more pleasure. Plainness and simplicity of dress, early + hours, and rational amusements, I wish you to practise. You must thank + Cousins Eleanor and George for all their kindness to you, and remember me + to all friends. If you see your uncle Marshall, present my kind regards to + him, and my best wishes for his health and happiness. I hope you will see + Robert. I heart that he stayed at Mr. Edward Dallam’s when in Baltimore, + but do not know whether he will return there from Lynwood. I was sorry to + hear that you lost your purse. Perhaps the finder was more in want than + you are, and it may be of service to him, and you can do without it. A + little money is sometimes useful. You must bear in mind that it will not + be becoming in a Virginia girl now to be fine or fashionable, and that + gentility as well as self-respect requires moderation in dress and gaiety. + While her people are suffering, she should practise self-denial and show + her sympathy in their affliction. We are all pretty well. Your poor mother + suffers more pain than usual during this inclement weather. Your sister is + devoted to the snow and ice, and Agnes is becoming a very good + housekeeper. She has received a letter from a gentleman, whose judgement + she respects, recommending her to acquire that useful knowledge, and + assuring her that it will not only promote domestic happiness, but will + add greatly to connubial bliss. This is a great encouragement to her. Our + young friends, the law students and cadets, all inquire after you and wish + for your return. You know that is my wish and hope, so whenever you are + ready to return you will know that I am waiting to receive you. I will + leave your mother and sisters to give you all domestic news. Tell Annette + I have been looking for her in every stage since her letter last fall, and + that I hope for her arrival daily. Nipper is well, and endeavors, by stern + gravity, to repress the frivolity of Baxter. All unite in much love, and I + am, as ever, + </p> + <p> + “Your father, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Miss Mildred Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Just after the intermediate examinations, he writes to Mildred again: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, February 16, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Daughter: I have wished to answer your letter of the 2d for + some days, but have not been able. The intermediate examinations which + were in progress when it arrived continued ten entire days, and since + their termination the necessary arrangements for the resumption of + studies, and the reorganisation of the classes, have occupied my time not + devoted to other pressing matters. The students generally passed very + creditable examinations. Many of your friends were distinguished. The + ordeal through which the higher classes passed was as severe as any I ever + witnessed. Colonel Johnston [William Preston Johnston, the son of General + Albert Sidney Johnston, who fell at Shiloh. He had recently been elected + to the chair of History and Literature at Washington College.] has arrived + and entered upon his duties. He is living at the hotel with his wife and + six sweet little children, being unable to procure a house, and the + college being too poor to build one for him. We have other professors also + houseless. Robert has returned to his ‘broken-back cottage,’ though he + confesses to having enjoyed great pleasure during his visit to Baltimore. + He dwells with delight upon his intercourse with the Misses ——, + whom he considers angels upon earth, without wings. His account of them + increases my desire to get them to Virginia. Miss —— once + promised me to have Fitzhugh. Tell her I will release her from her + engagement if she will take Rob. He was also much gratified at being able + to spend a week with you, and I am getting very anxious for your return. + The winter has passed, the snow and ice have disappeared, and the birds + have returned to their favourite resorts in the yard. We have, however, a + sea of mud around us, through which we have to plunge, but I hope the + pleasant air and sun now visiting us will soon dissipate it. I am glad you + are enjoying yourself among such kind friends, but do not remain too long, + as you may detain Cousins Eleanor and George from the Eastern Shore. + Markie has sent me a likeness of you on porcelain, from the negative taken + by the celebrated Plecker, which she carried with her to Philadelphia. It + is very good, but I prefer the original.... Everybody seems anxious for + your return, and is surprised you can stay so long from your papa. May God + bless and keep you, my dear child, is the constant prayer of + </p> + <p> + “Your devoted father, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Before Mildred returned to Lexington she received one more letter from my + father, in which he advises her of the two routes to Lexington, and tells + her some college news: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, February 23, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Daughter: Agnes wishes you to purchase some articles for her, + and your mother and sister may have some commissions, which I fear will + reduce your purse to an inconvenient collapse. I therefore send a check + for —— dollars, which I hope will enable you to gratify their + wishes and serve as a reserve for your own wants. I hope you are well and + passing your time profitably as well as pleasantly. The cadets are under + the impression that you are at the Patapsco Institute, and will expect to + find you, on your return, more agreeable than ever. They are labouring so + industriously in mental culture that they believe every one is similarly + engaged. I went last evening to the celebration of the anniversary of the + Washington Society, and was much pleased with the speeches. It was held in + the Methodist church, which was filled to overflowing. The institute and + Ann Smith [Female Academy] were represented. Your sisters were present, + and as they were both absent from breakfast this morning I fear so much + learning made them sleepy. They were also at a cadet hop on the 21st, and + did not get home till between two and three A. M. on the 22d. I suppose, + therefore, they had ‘splendid times’ and very fresh society. We were + somewhat surprised the other morning at Mrs. Grady’s committing matrimony. + I missed, at our chapel exercises, Captain Grady and our acting chaplain, + but did not know at the time what prevented their attendance. I heard + afterwards that they had put the happy pair in the stage and sent them on + their way rejoicing. She is now Mrs. Richard Norris, and has gone to + Baltimore. It will be but fair now that Captain Grady should go to + Baltimore and bring us a young lady from there in return for his mother. + If you see Miss Armistead, ask her to be ready on short notice, as we are + a people of few words in this region, and proceed in all matters in a + businesslike way. Agnes, I suppose, has told you of all matters of gaiety + and fashion. She has, no doubt, too, kept you advised of the progress of + young Baxter and of the deeds of ‘Thomas the Nipper.’ They are both + flourishing, and are much admired.... The roads are so muddy that my + evening rides have been suspended, and I see nobody.... You must write me + when to expect you. The stage from Staunton now crosses during the night, + and, when the roads are favourable, arrives about two A. M. When the roads + are unfavourable, it gets in generally in time for an early breakfast. The + canal-boats have resumed their trips now, so you will have a choice of + routes from Richmond, if you conclude to go there. All unite with me in + much love, and I am, always, + </p> + <p> + “Your father, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + From Lexington I had gone to Baltimore for a short visit, and had spent a + week with Mildred at the home of our cousin, Mr. George Washington Peter, + near Ellicott City. Soon after getting back to my farm, I received the + following letter from my father, still trying to help me along in my work: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, February 8, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Son: I was very glad to learn from your letter of the 31st ult. + that you had enjoyed your visit to Baltimore, for I feared when you left + us that you might have a visit from your shaking enemy. I trust, however, + that he has now left you never to return. Still be prudent and watch his + approach closely. I hope you may be able to procure some good mules in + Richmond, as it is a matter of importance to your operations. If you can + get the lime delivered at ten cents, I do not know a more economical + application to your land. I believe you will be repaid by the first crop, + provided it acts as I think it will. Of this you must judge, and I can + only say that if you can accomplish it, and wish to try, I can send you + $300, and will send it by draft to you, or to any one in Baltimore that + you will designate, as soon as I hear from you. I commend you for not + wishing to go in debt, or to proceed faster in your operations than + prudence dictates. I think it economy to improve your land, and to begin + upon the system you prefer as soon as possible. It is your only chance of + success, so let me know. I have to write in haste, as the examination is + in progress, and I have to be present. George and Robert both came up + to-day in the subjects in which they are respectively weakest, so give + them your good wishes. I received yesterday a letter from Mildred + regretting your departure from Baltimore, and expressing the pleasure she + derived from having been with you even a short week. I hope she will + continue well and return to us soon. We are all about as you left us. The + weather has moderated and the ice disappeared from the river, though the + boats have not yet resumed their trips. Mud predominates now instead of + snow.... Wishing you all happiness, I am, Your affectionate father, R. E. + Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Robert E. Lee, Jr.” + </p> + <p> + The Robert and George mentioned here were two of his nephews whom he was + educating at the college, the sons, respectively, of his brothers, Sydney + Smith Lee and Charles Carter Lee. They were members of his household and + were treated as his own family. + </p> + <p> + To my brother Fitzhugh he writes at this time the following, chiding him + for his extravagance in a Christmas gift, and asking for some data of the + movements of his command. It is full of good advice, encouragement, and + affection: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, February 26, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: You must not think because I write so seldom that you + are absent from my thoughts. I think of you constantly, and am every + revolving in my mind all that concerns you. I have an ardent desire to see + you re-established at your home and enjoying the pleasure of prosperity + around you. I know this cannot be accomplished at once, but must come from + continuous labour, economy, and industry, and be the result of years of + good management. We have now nothing to do but to attend to our material + interest which collectively will advance the interests of the State, and + to await events. The dominant party cannot reign forever, and truth and + justice will at last prevail. I hope I shall be able to get down to see + you and Rob during the next vacation. I shall then have a more correct + apprehension of existing circumstances, and can follow your progress more + satisfactorily. I was very much obliged to you for the nice eye-glasses + you sent me Xmas, and asked your mother and the girls to thank you for + them, which I hope they did. I fear they are too nice for my present + circumstances, and do not think you ought to spend anything, except on + your farm, until you get that in a prosperous condition. We have all, now, + to confine ourselves strictly to our necessities.... While you are your + own manager you can carry on cultivation on a large scale with + comparatively less expense than on a small scale, and your profits will of + course be greater. I would commence a system of progressive improvement + which would improve your land and add steadily to your income. I have + received, lately, from Fitz Lee a narrative of the operations of his + division of cavalry. I requested Custis to write to you for a report of + your operations during the winter of 1863-4 down to April 18, 1865. How + are you progressing with it? I know the difficulties of making such a + narrative at this time; still, by correspondence with your officers, and + by exerting your own memory, much can be done, and it will help me greatly + in my undertaking. Make it as full as you can, embracing all circumstances + bearing on the campaigns affecting your operations and illustrating the + conduct of your division. I hope you will be able to get up to see us this + spring or summer. Select the time when you can best absent yourself, that + you may feel the freer and enjoy yourself the more.... I wish I were + nearer to you all.... Your mother is about the same, busy with her needle + and her pen, and as cheerful as ever.... + </p> + <p> + “Affectionately your father, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “General Wm. H. F. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + His desire for accounts from his officers of the movements of their + commands shows he still intended to attempt to write his campaigns with + the Army of Northern Virginia. Some months later he writes again to my + brother, and in it he alludes to the dark cloud of the “reconstruction” + days, hanging then over the South: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, June 8, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Son: Your letter written on your birthday has been welcomed by + the whole family, and I assure you that we reciprocate your regrets at the + distance which separates us. Although the future is still dark, and the + prospects gloomy, I am confident that, if we all unite in doing our duty, + and earnestly work to extract what good we can out of the evil that now + hangs over our dear land, the time is not distant when the angry cloud + will be lifted from our horizon and the sun in his pristine brightness + again shine forth. I, therefore, can anticipate for you many years of + happiness and prosperity, and in my daily prayers to the God of mercy and + truth I invoke His choicest blessings upon you. May He gather you under + the shadow of His almighty wing, direct you in all your ways, and give you + peace and everlasting life. It would be most pleasant to my feelings could + I again, as you propose, gather you all around me, but I fear that will + not be in this world. Let us all so live that we may be united in that + world where there is no more separation, and where sorrow and pain never + come. I think after next year I will have done all the good I can for the + college, and I should then like, if peace is restored to the country, to + retire to some quiet spot, east of the mountains, where I might prepare a + home for your mother and sisters after my death, and where I could earn my + daily bread. We will talk of it when we meet. This summer I wish to carry + your mother to some of the mineral springs where she might obtain some + relief, but it is hard to know where that can be found. She seems now to + prefer White Sulphur, merely on the ground, I believe, that she has never + tried those waters, and, therefore, they might be of service to her. If + she makes up her mind to go, I will endeavour to get her there with one of + the girls, at least. Mildred has returned to us, looking very well, and + says she has had a very pleasant tour among her friends, and has received + a great deal of kindness wherever she has been. She seems to be very + contented now at home. I think you did right to defer her visit to us + until you had more leisure. I am glad your prospects for a harvest are so + good. Every one must look to his material interests now, as labour is our + only resource. The completion of the railroad to the Pamunkey will be a + great advantage to you in getting to market what you make, and I hope you + will put everything to account. I hope Robert is doing well. Mary is in + Staunton, where she went a week since to attend Miss Stribling’s + wedding.... Miss Mary Stewart is staying with us, and I believe is to + remain until July, when her sister Belle is to join her. The examination + of the students has been progressing a week and will continue until the + 20th. The young men have, so far, done very well on the whole.... Mr. + Swinton has paid his visit. He seemed to be gentlemanly, but I derive no + pleasure from my interviews with book-makers. I have either to appear + uncivil, or run the risk of being dragged before the public.... I am, + </p> + <p> + “Always as ever, your father, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “General Wm. H. Fitzhugh Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The Pamunkey was the name of the river on which the White House, my + brother’s estate, was situated. The railroad from Richmond, torn up during + the war, had just been rebuilt to that point. Swinton was the historian of + the Federal Amy of the Potomac. He spent some days in Lexington, and, I + suppose, sought from my father information on points connected with his + history of the movements of General Grant’s army. + </p> + <p> + My father, as I have said before, commenced almost as soon as he became + the president of the college to improve the grounds, roads, walks, fences, + etc., and systematically kept up this work up to the time of his death. + The walks about the college grounds were in very bad condition, and, in + wet weather, often ankle-deep in mud. As a first step toward improving + them the president had a quantity of limestone broken up and spread upon + the roads and walks. The rough, jagged surface was most uninviting, and + horsemen and footmen naturally took to the grass. Seeing Colonel T. L. + Preston riding one day across the campus on his way to his classes at the + Virginia Military Institute, my father remarked: + </p> + <p> + “Ah, Colonel, I have depended upon you and your big sorrel to help smooth + down my walks!” + </p> + <p> + Another day, a student who was walking on the grass saw the General not + far away, and immediately stepped into the middle of the rocks, upon which + he manfully trudged along. A strange lady, going in the same direction, + followed in the student’s footsteps, and when the youth came within + speaking distance, my father, with a twinkle in his eye, thanked him for + setting so good an example, and added, “The ladies do not generally take + kindly to my walks.” + </p> + <p> + The buildings also were altered and renovated, so far as funds for the + purpose permitted. He urged the erection as soon as possible of a chapel, + which should be of dimensions suitable for the demands of the college. + There were other objects calling for a far greater outlay of money than + the resources of the college afforded, but he deemed this of great + importance, and succeeded in getting appropriations for it first. He + hastened the selection of the site and the drawing of the plans, the + completion of the work was much retarded owing to the want of funds, but + his interest in its erection never flagged. He gave it his personal + superintendence from first to last, visiting it often two or three times a + day. After it was dedicated, he always attended morning prayers and all + other religious exercises held there, unless prevented by sickness. + Whenever I was there on a visit I always went with him every morning to + chapel. He had a certain seat which he occupied, and you could have kept + your watch regulated by the time he entered the doors. As he thought well + of the young men who left his drawing-room by ten o’clock, so he placed in + a higher estimate those who attended chapel regularly, especially if they + got there in proper time. There was no regular chaplain, but the ministers + of the different denominations who had churches in the village undertook, + by turns, to perform a month’s service. The hour was forty-five minutes + past seven o’clock every morning, except Sunday, during the session, save + in the three winter months, December, January, and February, when it was + one hour later. He was the earnest friend and strong support of the Young + Men’s Christian Association, and an annual contributor to its funds. Upon + one occasion, at least, he placed in its library a collection of suitable + books, which he had purchased with that intention. In his annual reports + to the trustees, he always made mention of the association, giving an + account of its operations and progress. + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0039" id="link2HCH0039"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XV — Mountain Rides + </h2> + <p> + An incident about “Traveller”—The General’s love for children—His + friendship with Ex-President Davis—A ride with his daughter to the + Peaks of Otter—Mildred Lee’s narrative—Mrs. Lee at the White + Sulphur Springs—The great attention paid her husband there—His + idea of life + </p> + <p> + Since the arrival of “Lucy Long” my father was generally accompanied by + one of my sisters in his rides, whenever the weather and the condition of + the roads admitted of their going. It took very severe weather to keep him + in, though often he could not spare the time, for during the winter months + the days were very short. Every Monday afternoon there was a faculty + meeting, and the vestry meetings of his church were held two or three + times a month. Whenever I was in Lexington I rode with him, and when he + was prevented by any of the above-mentioned causes he would ask me to take + Traveller out and give him a gallop, which I was delighted to do, and I + think I had my revenge for his treatment of me on that ride from Orange to + Fredericksburg in the winter of 1862. My father’s affection for his horses + was very deep and strong. In a letter written from the Springs one summer, + to his clerk in Lexington, he says: + </p> + <p> + “How is Traveller? Tell him I miss him dreadfully, and have repented of + our separation but once—and that is the whole time since we parted.” + </p> + <p> + I think Traveller appreciated his love and sympathy, and returned it as + much as was in a horse’s nature to do. As illustrative of this bond + between them, a very pretty story was told me by Mrs. S. P. Lee [Daughter + of General W. N. Pendleton, Chief of Artillery of the A. N. Va., and widow + of Colonel Edwin Grey Lee, C. S. A.]: + </p> + <p> + “One afternoon in July of this year, the General rode down to the + canal-boat landing to put on board a young lady who had been visiting his + daughters and was returning home. He dismounted, tied Traveller to a post, + and was standing on the boat making his adieux, when some one called out + that Traveller was loose. Sure enough, the gallant gray was making his way + up the road, increasing his speed as a number of boys and men tried to + stop him. My father immediately stepped ashore, called to the crowd to + stand still, and advancing a few steps gave a peculiar low whistle. At the + first sound, Traveller stopped and pricked up his ears. The General + whistled a second time, and the horse with a glad whinny turned and + trotted quietly back to his master, who patted and coaxed him before tying + him up again. To a bystander expressing surprise at the creature’s + docility the General observed that he did not see how any man could ride a + horse for any length of time without a perfect understanding being + established between them. My sister Mildred, who rode with him constantly + this summer, tells me of his enjoyment of their long rides out into the + beautiful, restful country. Nothing seemed to delight him so much. + </p> + <p> + “I have often known him to give rein to Traveller and to at full speed to + the top of some long hill, then turn and wait for me jogging along on + Lucy, calling out with merry voice, ‘Come along, Miss Lucy, Miss Lucy, + Lucy Long!’ He would question the country people about the roads, where + they came from, where they led to, and soon knew every farmer’s name and + every homestead in the country. He often said: + </p> + <p> + “‘I wish I had a little farm of my own, where we could live in peace to + the end of our days. You girls could attend to the dairy and the cows and + the sheep and wait on your mother and me, for it is time now for us old + people to rest and for the young people to work.’” + </p> + <p> + All the children in the country around were devoted to him, and felt no + hesitation in approaching him, after they once knew him. He used to meet + his favourites among the little ones on the street, and would sometimes + lift them up in front of him to give them a ride on Traveller. That was + the greatest treat he could provide. There is a very pretty story told of + Virginia Lee Letcher, his god-daughter, and her baby sister, Fannie, which + is yet remembered among the Lexington people. Jennie had been followed by + her persistent sister, and all the coaxing and the commanding of the + six-year-old failed to make the younger return home. Fannie had sat down + by the roadside to pout, when General Lee came riding by. Jeannie at once + appealed to him: + </p> + <p> + “General Lee, won’t you please make this child go home to her mother?” + </p> + <p> + The General immediately rode over to where Fannie sat, leaned over from + his saddle and drew her up into his lap. There she sat in royal + contentment, and was thus grandly escorted home. When Mrs. Letcher + inquired of Jennie why she had given General Lee so much trouble, she + received the naive reply: + </p> + <p> + “I couldn’t make Fan go home, and I thought HE could do anything.” + [Daughters of Governor John Letcher—the War Governor of Virginia] + </p> + <p> + There was a little boy living with his mother, who had come from New York. + His father had been killed in our army. The little fellow, now Colonel + Grier Monroe, of New York city, was much teased at his playmates calling + him “Yankee” when he knew he was not one. One day he marched into my + father’s office in the college, stated his case, and asked for redress. + </p> + <p> + “The next boy that calls you ‘Yankee’ send him to me,” said the General, + which, when reported, struck such terror into the hearts of his small + comrades that the offense was never repeated. + </p> + <p> + There was another little boy who was accustomed to clamber up by the side + of my father at the morning chapel exercises, and was so kindly treated + that, whenever he saw his distinguished friend, he straightway assumed a + position beside him. At the college commencement, which was held in the + chapel, the little fellow glided from his mother’s side and quietly stole + up to the platform. Soon he was nestled at the feet of the dignified + president, and, resting his head upon his knees, dropped asleep. General + Lee tenderly remained without moving, preferring to suffer from the + constrained position rather than disturb the innocent slumberer. This boy + is now the Reverend Carter Jones of he Baptist Church. + </p> + <p> + About this time Ex-President Davis was freed from the confinement of his + prison at Fortress Monroe, where he had been for about two years. There + was a warm personal friendship between these two men, dating from the time + they were cadets at West Point together, and as his unjust and unnecessary + imprisonment had pained and distressed none more than my father, so his + release gave him corresponding joy. He at once wrote to him the following + letter, full of feeling and sympathy: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, June 1, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “Honourable Jefferson Davis. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mr. Davis: You can conceive better than I can express the misery + which your friends have suffered from your long imprisonment, and the + other afflictions incident thereto. To no one has this been more painful + than to me, and the impossibility of affording relief has added to my + distress. Your release has lifted a load from my heart which I have not + words to tell. My daily prayer to the great Ruler of the world is that He + may shield you from all future harm, guard you from all evil, and give you + that peace which the world cannot take away. That the rest of your days + may be triumphantly happy is the sincere and earnest wish of + </p> + <p> + “Your most obedient, faithful friend and servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Though my father would take no part in the politics of the country, and + rarely expressed his views on questions of that nature then occupying the + minds of all, nevertheless, when he deemed it necessary, and to the proper + person, he very plainly said what he thought. The following letter to + General Longstreet, in answer to one from him written about this time, + illustrates what I have said in this connection, and explains itself: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, October 29, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “General J. Longstreet, 21 Carondelet Street, New Orleans, La. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear General: When I received your letter of the 8th of June, I had + just returned from a short trip to Bedford County, and was preparing for a + more extended visit to the White Sulphur Springs for the benefit of Mrs. + Lee’s health. As I could not write such a letter as you desired, and as + you stated that you would leave New Orleans for Mexico in a week from the + time you wrote, to be absent some months, I determined to delay my reply + till my return. Although I have been here more than a month, I have been + so occupied by necessary business, and so incommoded by the effects of an + attack of illness, from which I have not yet recovered, that this is the + first day that I have been able to write to you. I have avoided all + discussion of political questions since the cessation of hostilities, and + have, in my own conduct, and in my recommendations to others, endeavoured + to conform to existing circumstances. I consider this the part of wisdom, + as well as of duty; but, while I think we should act under the law and + according to the law imposed upon us, I cannot think the course pursued by + the dominant political party the best for the interests of the country, + and therefore cannot say so or give it my approval. This is the reason why + I could not comply with the request in your letter. I am of the opinion + that all who can should vote for the most intelligent, honest, and + conscientious men eligible to office, irrespective of former party + opinions, who will endeavour to make the new constitutions and the laws + passed under them as beneficial as possible to the true interests, + prosperity, and liberty of all classes and conditions of the people. With + my best wishes for your health and happiness, and my kindest regards to + Mrs. Longstreet and your children, I am, with great regard, and very truly + and sincerely yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + This summer my father paid a visit to the Peaks of Otter, a famous group + of mountains in the Blue Ridge range, situated in Bedford County, + Virginia. He rode Traveller, and my sister Mildred accompanied him on + “Lucy Long.” After visiting the Peaks and ascending the summit, which is + 4,000 feet in height, he rode on to Liberty, now Bedford City, ten miles + distant, and spent the night at “Avenel,” the home of the Burwells, who + were friends and connections of his. + </p> + <p> + From there the riding party went to Captain Bufurd’s, about twelve miles + distant, where they spent the night and the next day. The Captain was a + farmer, a great admirer and a staunch upholder of his native State, + Viriginia, in her fight for constitutional liberty, from ‘61 to ‘65. He + had sent his sons into the army, and had given of his substance freely to + support the troops, as well as the poor and needy, the widow and orphan, + who had been left in want by the death in battle of their natural + protectors and by the ravages of war. In the early years of the struggle, + my mother and sisters, when “refugeeing,” had boarded, as they thought and + intended at the time, at his home. But when they tried to induce him to + accept pay for the shelter and food he had given them for a month or more, + he sternly refused. His was a patriotism that hesitated at no sacrifice, + and was of a kind and character that admitted of no self-consideration. + This trait, so strongly developed in him, attracted the admiration and + respect of my father. The visit he paid him was to thank him in person for + the kindness extended to his wife and daughters, and also for a very large + and handsome horse which he had sent my father the last year, I think, of + the war. My sister Mildred tells me what she can recollect of this ride. + It is a source of endless regret to us that we cannot recall more. His + championship was at all times delightful to his children, and on an + occasion of this kind, invigorated by the exercise, inspired by the bright + skies and relieved of all harassing cares, he became almost a boy again. + </p> + <p> + My sister Mildred says: + </p> + <p> + “We started at daybreak one perfect June day, papa on Traveller, I on Lucy + Long, our saddle-bags being our only luggage. He was in the gayest humour, + laughing and joking with me as I paced along by his side on quiet ‘Miss + Lucy.’ Traveller seemed to sympathise with his master, his springy step, + high head, and bright eye clearly showing how happy he was and how much + interest he took in this journey. He had to be constantly chided for his + restlessness, and was told that it would be well for him to reserve some + of his too abundant energy for the latter part of his trip. At midday we + dismounted, and, tying our horses while resting on the soft grass under a + wild-plum hedge by the roadside, ate our lunch. We then rode on, and soon + came to the James River, which was crossed by a ferry-boat. The ferry-man + was an old soldier, who of course recognised papa, and refused payment; + nor could he be induced to take any. Further on the road, as our horses + were climbing a steep rocky ascent, we met some little children, with very + dirty faces, playing on the roadside. He spoke to them in his gentle, + playful way, alluding to their faces and the desirability of using a + little water. They stared at us with open-eyed astonishment, and then + scampered off up the hill; a few minutes later, in rounding this hill, we + passed a little cabin, when out they all ran with clean faces, fresh + aprons, and their hair nicely brushed, one little girl exclaiming, ‘We + know you are General Lee! we have got your picture!’ + </p> + <p> + “That night about nine o’clock we reached the little mountain inn at the + foot of the Peaks, ate a hearty supper, and soon went to bed, tired out by + our thirty-mile ride. Our bedrooms seemed to be a loft, and the beds were + of feathers, but I, at last, slept without turning. Next morning, at dawn + of day, we set out, accompanied by the master of the house, and rode for a + long time up the mountain-side, Lucy following closely behind Traveller. + Finally it became impossible to proceed further on horseback, so the + horses were fastened to some trees and we climbed the rest of the way to + the summit on foot. When the top was reached, we sat for a long time on a + great rock, gazing down on the glorious prospect beneath. Papa spoke but a + few words, and seemed very sad. I have heard there is now a mark on the + rock showing where we sat. The inn-keeper, who accompanied us all the way, + told us that we had ridden nearer the top than any other persons up to + that time. Regaining our horses, we proceeded on our second day’s journey, + which was to end at Liberty, some ten miles distant. + </p> + <p> + “We had not ridden far, when suddenly a black thunder-cloud arose and in a + few minutes a heavy shower broke over us. We galloped back to a log cabin + we had just passed. Papa lifted me off of Lucy and, dripping with water, I + rushed in, while he led the horse under an adjacent shed, the woman of the + house looked dark and glum on seeing the pools of water forming from my + dress on her freshly scoured floor, and when papa came in with his muddy + boots her expression was more forbidding and gloomy. He asked her + permission to wait there until the shower was over, and praised her nice + white floor, regretting that we had marred its beauty. At this praise, so + becomingly bestowed, she was slightly appeased, and asked us into the best + room, which was adorned with colored prints of Lee, Jackson, Davis, and + Johnston. When the shower ceased and papa went out for the horses I told + her who I was. Poor woman! She seemed stunned and kept on saying: ‘What + will Joe say? What will Joe say!’ Joe was her husband, and had been, like + every other man in the country, a soldier in the ‘Army of Northern + Virginia.’ + </p> + <p> + “The shower over and the sun shining brightly, we rode along joyously + through the refreshed hills and dust-laid roads arriving at Liberty in + good time, and went to ‘Avenel,’ the pretty home of the Burwells. The + comforts of this sweet old place seemed very delicious to me after my + short experience of roughing it. Papa was much amused when I appeared in + crinoline, my ‘hoops’ having been squeezed into the saddle-bags and + brought with me. We remained here the next day, Sunday, and the day after + rode on some twelve miles to Captain Buford’s. The Captain, in his + shirt-sleeves, received us with open arms, seemed much surprised at my + full growth, and said, ‘Why, General, you called her your ‘little girl,’ + and she is a real chuck of a gal!’ He showed us his fine Jersey cattle, + his rich fields and well-filled barns, and delighted in talking of the + time during the war when mama, Mary, and Agnes paid him a visit. He + overflowed with kindness and hospitality, and his table fairly groaned + with the good things. Papa afterwards constantly quoted his original + sayings, especially one on early rising, which was made on the eve of our + arrival, when he told us good-night. Papa asked him what time he must be + ready for breakfast next morning. + </p> + <p> + “‘Well, General,’ said the Captain, ‘as you have been riding hard, and as + you are company, we will not have breakfast to-morrow until sun-up,’ which + meant in those June days somewhere before five o’clock. + </p> + <p> + “After a day spent pleasantly here, we started next morning early on our + return. Halting for a short time in Buchanan, we stopped at Colonel Edmund + Pendleton’s who then lived there in an imposing white pillared edifice, + formerly a bank. Mrs. Pendelton gave us some delicious apricots from her + garden, which my father enjoyed greatly. We then proceeded on the road to + Lexington, going by the Natural Bridge, where we had another short rest, + and reached home the same night, about ten o’clock, after a forty-mile + ride. + </p> + <p> + “Shortly after this visit Captain Bufurd sent me a fine Jersey cow, on + condition that I would get up early every morning and milk her, and also + send him a part of the butter I made.” + </p> + <p> + After my father returned from this trip, he began his arrangements for + taking my mother to the Greenbriar White Sulphur Springs. He hoped that + the waters and the change might be of service to her general health, even + if they should not alleviated the severity of her rheumatic pains. About + the first of July, my mother, sister Agnes and Miss Mary Pendleton, with + my brother Custis in charge, set out for the White Sulphur Springs. My + father, with Professor J. J. White, decided to make the journey to the + same place on horseback. They started a day in advance and were at + Covington when the ladies, travelling by stage-coach to Goshen, thence by + rail, arrived there. After spending the night at Covington, the passengers + were put into as many stage-coaches as were necessary, and the long, rough + drive over the mountains by “Callahan’s” commenced. + </p> + <p> + General Lee on Traveller was at once recognised, and when it was found out + by his fellow-travellers that Mrs. Lee was with him, attentions and + services of all kinds were pressed on her party, and a most enjoyable + lunch was sent to the stage reserved for her. Seeing that the other stages + were much crowded, while the one reserved for his wife had vacant seats, + my father insisted that some of the others should join his party, which + they very gladly did. He and Professor White went ahead of the stages on + their horses. + </p> + <p> + At the White Sulphur Springs the “Harrison cottage,” in “Baltimore Row,” + had been put at my father’s disposal, and the entire party was soon most + pleasantly established there. Mr. W. W. Corcoran, of Washington, Professor + White, Miss Mary Pendleton, Agnes and my father and brother had a table + together. Almost every day some special dainty was sent to this table. My + mother, of course, had her meals served in her cottage. Her faithful and + capable servant, Milly Howard, was always most eager for her to appear her + best, and took great pride in dressing her up, so far as she was allowed, + in becoming caps, etc., to receive her numerous visitors. My father’s + usual custom while there was to spend some time in the morning in the + large parlour of the hotel, before taking his ride on Traveller. After + dinner he went again to the parlour, and also after tea. + </p> + <p> + Among the company were many old friends and acquaintances from Baltimore, + who could not sufficiently testify their pleasure in this renewal of + intercourse. Whenever he appeared in the parlour or ballroom he was the + centre of attraction, and in vain the young men tried to engage the + attention of the young ladies when General Lee was present. + </p> + <p> + During his visit, a circus came to “Dry Creek,” a neighbouring settlement, + and gave an exhibition. The manager rode over to the Springs, came to my + father’s cottage, and insisted on leaving several tickets, begging that + General Lee would permit him to send carriages for him and any friends he + might like to take to his show. These offers my father courteously + declined, but bought many tickets, which he presented to his little + friends at the Springs. + </p> + <p> + During the morning he rode over to “Dry Creek,” where the crowds of + country people, many of them his old soldiers, feasted their eyes on him + to the neglect of the circus. That night a special exhibition was given by + the manager to General Lee’s friends, who were taken to seats draped with + Confederate colors, red, and white. After the return from the circus, my + father invited a large party to his cottage to partake of a huge + watermelon sent him by express from Mobile. It weighed about sixty pounds, + and its producer thought the only fitting way he could dispose of it was + to present it to General Lee. + </p> + <p> + Every possible attention that love, admiration, and respect could prompt + was paid my father by the guests at the Springs, each one seeming anxious + to do him homage. My mother and sisters shared it all with him, for any + attention and kindness shown them went straight to his heart. + </p> + <p> + After spending three weeks at “the White,” my father’s party went to the + Old Sweet Springs, where they were all made very comfortable, one of the + parlours being turned into a bedroom for my mother, so that in her wheeled + chair she could go out on the verandas and into the ballroom. + </p> + <p> + He was taken quite sick there, and, though he rode over from the White + Sulphur Springs, was unable to continue his early rides for some time. His + room was on the first floor, with a window opening on the end of the + building. One morning, when he was very unwell and it was important that + he should not be disturbed, Miss Pendleton found a countryman cautiously + opening the shutters from the outside. She quickly interfered, saying: + </p> + <p> + “Go away; that is General Lee’s room.” + </p> + <p> + The man dropped back, saying mournfully: + </p> + <p> + “I only wanted to see him.” + </p> + <p> + On another occasion some country people came to the Springs with plums and + berries for sale. Catching sight of him on the piazza, they put down their + baskets, took off their hats, and hurrahed most lustily for “Marse Bob”. + They were his old soldiers. When he acknowledged their loyalty by shaking + hands with them, they insisted on presenting him with their fruit. + </p> + <p> + About the first week in September my father rode back to Lexington on + Traveller, Custis taking my mother and Agnes back over the same tedious + journey by stage and rail. + </p> + <p> + There have been preserved very few letters from him at this time. I found + one to me, full of kindness, wholesome advice, and offers of aid, in which + he sends his thanks to the President of the York River Railroad for a + courtesy tendered him: + </p> + <p> + “White Sulphur Springs, Greenbriar County, West Virginia, + </p> + <p> + “August 5, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Son: I received to-day your letter of the 28th ult., inclosing a + free ticket over the Richmond & York River Railroad, from its + president, Mr. Dudley. Please present him my grateful thanks for this mark + of his esteem. I am very glad to hear that the road is completed to the + White House, and that a boat connects it with Norfolk, the convenience of + the community and the interests of the road will be promoted thereby. It + is a difficult undertaking in these times to build a road, and I hope the + company will soon be able to finish it to West Point. I suppose you have + received before this the letter from your mother and Agnes, announcing our + arrival at this place and informing you of the company. The latter has + been much increased, and among the arrivals are the Daingerfields, + Haxalls, Capertons, Miss Belle Harrison, etc., etc. I told Agnes to tell + you how much we wished you were with us, and as an inducement for you to + join us, if you could leave home, if you would come, I would pay your + expenses. I feel very sensibly, in my old age, the absence of my children, + though I recognise the necessity of every one’s attending to his business, + and admire him the more for so doing. I am very glad that you and Fitzhugh + have, so far, escaped the fever, and hope you may avoid it altogether. Be + prudent. I am very sorry that your harvest promises a poor yield. It will + be better next year, but you must continue systematically the improvement + of the land. I know of no better method than by liming, and if you wish to + prosecute it, and are in need of help, I will aid you to the extent of + last year or more. So make your arrangements, and let me know your wishes. + A farmer’s life is one of labour, but it is also one of pleasure, and the + consciousness of steady improvement, though it may be slow, is very + encouraging. I think you had better also begin to make arrangements to + build yourself a house. If you can do nothing more than prepare a site, + lay out a garden, orchard, etc., and get a small house partly finished, so + as to inhabit it, it will add to your comfort and health. I can help you + in that too. Think about it. Then, too, you must get a nice wife. I do not + like you being so lonely. I fear you will fall in love with celibacy. I + have heard some very pleasing reports of Fitzhugh. I hope that his + desires, if beneficial to his happiness, may be crowned with success. I + saw the lady when I was in Petersburg, and was much pleased with her. I + will get Agnes or your mother to tell you what occurs at the Springs. + There are some 500 people here, very pleasant and kind, but most of my + time is passed alone with Traveller in the mountains. I hope your mother + may derive some benefit from the waters, but I see none now. It will, at + least, afford her some variety, and give her some pleasure, of which there + is a dearth with us now. Give much love to Fitzhugh. All unite in love to + you. God bless you, my son, prays + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Early in September my father sent my mother sister home to Lexington, + while he mounted Traveller and rode back by way of the Hot Springs, + Healing, and Rockbridge Alum. He was detained by indisposition a day or + two at the Healing, and writes to my mother a little note from that place: + </p> + <p> + “Healing Springs, September 12, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I arrived here on the 10th, and had expected to resume my + journey this morning, but did not feel able. Should nothing prevent, I + will leave here to-morrow, but I fear I shall not be able to reach the + Rockbridge Alum, which I am told is twenty-nine miles distant. In that + event, I will halt on the road, and arrive there on Saturday, lie over + Sunday, and reach Lexington on Monday. I am very anxious to get to + Lexington, and think nothing on the route will benefit me, as I feel much + concerned about the resumption of the college exercises. Mr. John Stewart, + Misses Mary and Marian, Mr. Price, and his daughters came over from the + Hot yesterday to see me. The Stewarts are there on Miss Belle’s account. + Give much love to everybody. I hope you reached Lexington safely and + comfortably and that all are well. I hope to see you Monday. Till then, + farewell. + </p> + <p> + “Very truly and affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + It is to be regretted that we have no accounts of these rides, the people + he met, and what he said to them, where he stayed, and who were his hosts. + He was very fond of horseback journeys, enjoyed the quiet and rest, the + freedom of mind and body, the close sympathy of his old warhorse, and the + beauties of Nature which are to be seen at every turn in the mountains of + Virginia. Ah, if we could only obtain some records of his thoughts as he + rode all alone along the mountain roads, how much it would help us all in + our trials and troubles! He was a man of few words, very loath to talk + about himself, nor do I believe any one ever knew what that great heart + suffered. His idea of life was to do his duty, at whatever cost, and to + try to help others to theirs. + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0040" id="link2HCH0040"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XVI — An Advisor of Young Men + </h2> + <p> + Lee’s policy as college president—His advice on agricultural matters—His + affection for his prospective daughter-in-law—Fitzhugh’s wedding—The + General’s ovation at Petersburg—his personal interest in the + students under his care + </p> + <p> + The college exercises were resumed in the last weeks of September. My + mother and sisters were all back at home. The President’s work, now more + in hand, began to show results. The number of students this session was + largely increased and the outlook of the college was very much brighter. + </p> + <p> + “He had from the beginning of his presidency a distinct policy and plan + which he had fully conceived and to which he steadily adhered, so that all + his particular measures of progress were but consistent steps in its + development. His object was nothing less than to establish and perfect an + institution which should meet the highest needs of education in every + department. At once, and without waiting for the means to be provided in + advance, he proceeded to develop this object. Under his advice, new chairs + were created, and professors called to fill them, so that before the end + of the first year the faculty was doubled in numbers. Still additional + chairs were created, and finally a complete system of ‘schools’ was + established and brought into full operation. So admirably was the plan + conceived and administered by General lee, that, heterogeneous as were the + students, especially in the early years, each one found his proper place, + and all were kept in line of complete and systematic study. Under this + organisation, and especially under the inspiration of his central + influence, the utmost harmony and utmost energy pervaded all the + departments of the college. The highest powers of both professors and + students were called forth, under the fullest responsibility. The + standards of scholarship were rapidly advanced; and soon the graduates of + Washington College were the acknowledged equals of those from the best + institutions elsewhere, and were eagerly sought after for the highest + positions as teachers in the best schools. The results...were due directly + and immediately, more than to all other causes, to the personal ability + and influence of General Lee as president of the college.” + </p> + <p> + So wrote Professor Edward S. Joynes in an article published soon after + General lee’s death, in the “University Monthly.” All of this had not been + accomplished as yet, but the work was well advanced, and the results began + to be evident. His health had not been strong since the middle of the + summer, but he never ceased in his endeavour to better the condition of + the college, and to improve the minds, morals, and bodies of the young men + committed to his charge. He writes to me about this time, encouraging me + to renewed efforts, telling me how to better my condition, and advising me + not to be cast down by difficulties: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Viriginia, October 26, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Rob: Your letter of the 10th did not give me a very favourable + account of yourself or your prospects, but I have no doubt it was true and + therefore commendable. We must not, however, yield to difficulties, but + strive the harder to overcome them. I am sorry for the failure of your + crops, your loneliness and uncomfortableness, and wish it were in my power + to visit you and advise with you. But you must come up this winter, when + convenient, and we will discuss the whole matter. Fitzhugh, I hope, will + be married soon, and then he will have more time to counsel with you. I + hope, between you two, you will devise some mode of relief. The only way + to improve your crop is to improve your land, which requires time, + patience, and good cultivation. Lime, I think, is one of the chief + instruments, and I advise you to apply that systematically and + judiciously. I think, too, you had better purchase another pair of mules. + I can help you in these items, and, if you need, can advance you $500. + Then, as regards a house, I can help you in that too, but you must first + select a site and a plan. The first can only be found on the land, and the + latter might be adopted on the progressive principle, commencing with the + minor members, and finishing with the principal ones as convenience or + necessity might authorise. If no better can be found, how would the + present site answer? If you are going to cultivate the lower part of the + farm, it would at least have the advantage of convenience, or if you + thought it better to divide and sell your farm it would answer for one of + the divisions. I am clear for your marrying, if you select a good wife; + otherwise you had better remain as you are for a time. An imprudent or + uncongenial woman is worse than THE MINKS [I had written to him that they + had destroyed all my hens]. I think, upon the whole, you are progressing + very well and have accomplished the worst part. A failure in crops will + occur occasionally to every farmer, even the best, with favourable + surroundings. It serves a good purpose, inculcates prudence and economy, + and excites energy and perseverance. These qualities will overcome + everything. You are very young still, and if you are virtuous and + laborious you will accomplish all the good you propose to yourself. Let me + know if you want the money. We are pretty well. I am better and your poor + mother more comfortable, I think, than she was last year. The girls are as + usual, and Custis is in far better health than he was before his visit to + the Springs. He seems, however, not happy, and I presume other people have + their troubles as well as farmers. God bless you, my son, and may He + guard, guide, and direct you in all you do. All would unite in love did + they know I was writing. + </p> + <p> + “Truly and affectionately, your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Robert E. Lee, Jr.” + </p> + <p> + My brother Fitzhugh was to be married that autumn. This event, so soon to + take place, gave my father great pleasure. He was an earnest advocate of + matrimony, and was constantly urging his sons to take to themselves wives. + With his daughters he was less pressing. Though apparently always willing + to have another daughter, he did not seem to long for any more sons. He + thus writes to my brother when his engagement was formally announced to + him: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, September 20, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: I have been anxious for some time to write to you, to + express the pleasure I have felt a the prospects of your marriage with + Miss Bolling; but sickness has prevented, and I am still so feeble that I + cannot attend to the pressing business connected with the college. As you + know how deeply I feel all that concerns you, you may feel assured of the + pleasure I derived from your letter to your mother informing her of your + engagement. I have the most pleasing recollection of ‘Miss Tabb,’ and of + her kindness to me, and now that she has consented to by my daughter the + measure of my gratitude is filled to overflowing. I hope she will not + delay the consummation, for I want to see her very much, and I fear she + will not come to see me until then. You must present her my warm love, and + you both must accept my earnest prayers and most fervent wishes for your + future happiness and prosperity. I am glad that your house is progressing + and that your crops promise well. I hope that you soon will be able to + come and see us. Your mother, I hope, has derived some benefit from her + visit to the Springs. Her general health is improved, but I see no + relaxation in her rheumatic complaint. The girls are quite well, and all + send love.... + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “General William H. F. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The young lady who was so soon to become a member of his family was Miss + Mary Tabb Bolling, the daughter of Mr. G. W. Bolling, of Petersburg, + Virginia. Her father had been very kind to General Lee during the eventful + months of the siege of that town, and his daughter had been often to see + him and was a great favourite of his. My brother was especially anxious + that his father should be present at his wedding, and had been urging him + to make his arrangements to come. The sickness to which he frequently + alludes in his recent letters had been annoying him since his return from + the White Sulphur Springs up to this time, and he now writes proposing + that my brother and bride should come to him instead of his going to the + wedding: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, November 15, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: I received this morning your letter of the 13th, and am + glad to hear of your safe arrival and of the favourable condition of + things at your home. I was afraid your house would not be ready at the + time supposed, but I would not delay the wedding on that account—you + can exist without it. We have one here at your service, though a poor one. + I am obliged to you for having arranged about my clothes. Upon reflection, + I think it better not to go to the White House and Romancoke before the + wedding. You and Robert could hardly pay the necessary attention to + business matters with your hands filled with love and matrimony. I think + of catching up Rob and marrying him to some of my sweethearts while I am + down, so as to prevent the necessity from him to reach Petersburg by the + 28th, and we have arranged to commence our journey on Monday night, 25th + inst., at 12 M., so as to reach Richmond Tuesday evening, remain there the + 27th and go to Petersburg the 28th. I do not think I shall be able to go + to the White House at all. I should not be able to aid you or Rob, my only + object, and would put you to much trouble.... We are all as you left us, + and miss you and Mildred very much. + </p> + <p> + “Very affectionately, your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “General William H. F. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + So it was all settled satisfactorily; my brother gained his point, and my + father arranged his affairs so that he could absent himself without + detriment to his work at the college. He left on the appointed day and + hour, and the morning after arriving in Richmond, writes my mother: + </p> + <p> + “Exchange Hotel, Richmond, November 26, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: We reached here yesterday about 4 P. M., after a not + uncomfortable journey, and found Fitzhugh waiting for the important event. + I doubt whether his house will be finished, from his account, till + January, though he thinks it will. His plans, I believe, as far as he can + form them, are to leave Petersburg the morning after the wedding for + Baltimore, where they will probably send a week gathering up their + furniture, etc., and after that all is undetermined. I renewed the + invitation for their visit to us, but he could not decide. Robert is + expected to-morrow. Mildred is well and seems to be perfectly happy, as + she had on, last evening, a dress about two yards longer than Norvell’s. I + saw Mr. Davis, who looks astonishingly well, and is quite cheerful. He + inquired particularly after you all. He is at Judge Ould’s. No one seems + to know what is to be done. Judge Chase had not arrived yesterday, but it + was thought probable he would reach here in the ten o’clock train last + night. I have not heard this morning. I will present myself to the court + this morning, and learn, I hope, what they wish of me. Williams Wickham is + here, and will attend the wedding. Annie will also go. Fitzhugh is to go + out to Hickory Hill this morning, and return this afternoon, to pay his + adieux. Mrs. Caskie was not well last evening. The rest as usual, and send + much love. Custis is well, and I have my clothes. I left my sleeve-buttons + in my shirt hanging up in my dressing-room. Ask Cornelia to take care of + them. Mr. Alexander said he would send you up some turkeys, and Colonel + Johnston, that he would help you revise the manuscript. It is time I + should get my breakfast, as I wish to transact some business before going + to court. Give much love to the girls and everybody. I hope you are well + and will want for nothing while I am away. Most truly yours, + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. M. C. Lee. R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + General Lee was summoned this time as a witness in the trial of Mr. Davis, + but after some delay a nolle prosequi was filed. General Lee after the war + was asked by a lady his opinion of the position and part Mr. Davis had + taken and acted during the war was asked by a lady of his opinion of the + position and part Mr. Davis had taken and acted during the war. He + replied: + </p> + <p> + “If my opinion is worth anything, you can ALWAYS say that few people could + have done better than Mr. Davis. I knew of none that could have done as + well.” + </p> + <p> + On the morning after the wedding he writes to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “Petersburg, November 29, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: Our son was married last night and shone in his happiness. + The bride looked lovely and was, in every way, captivating. The church was + crowded to its utmost capacity, and the streets thronged. Everything went + off well, and I will enter into details when I see you. Mr. Wickham and + Annie, Mr. Fry, John Wood, and others were present. Mr. Davis was + prevented from attending by the death of Mrs. Howell. The Misses Haxall, + Miss Enders, Miss Giles, etc., came down from Richmond. Fitzhugh lee was + one of the groomsmen, Custis very composed, and Rob suffering from chills. + Many of my acquaintances were present, and everybody was very kind. + Regrets were often expressed that you, Mary, and Agnes were not present. I + believe the plan was for the bride and groom to start on their travels + this morning, but I doubt whether it will be carried out, as I thought I + saw indications of a change of purpose before I left, which I had no doubt + would be strengthened by the reflections of this morning. I shall remain + to-day and return to Richmond to-morrow. I wish to go to Brandon Monday, + but do not know that I can accomplish it. Until leaving Richmond, my whole + time was taken up by the august court, so that I could do nothing nor see + anybody there. Mildred was all life, in white and curls. I am staying at + General Mahone’s and have got hold of one of his needlepens, with which I + can do nothing. Excuse illegibility. No one has descended to breakfast + yet. I received, on arriving here yesterday, at 3 P. M., a kind note from + our daughter asking me to come and see her as soon after my arrival as + convenient, which I did and carried over the necklace, which she + pronounced very pretty. Give my love to all. Most truly yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. M. C. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + A special car carried General Lee and the other wedding guests from + Richmond to Petersburg. He did not enter into the gay conversation of the + young people, but appeared sad and depressed, and seemed to dread seeing + the town of Petersburg and meeting its people. This feeling was dispelled + by the enthusiastic welcome given him by every one there. General Mahone, + whose guest he was to be, met him at the depot with a carriage and four + white horses. Many of the citizens tried to take out the horses and pull + the carriage into the town, but the General protested, declaring, if they + did so, he would have to get out and help them. The morning after the + wedding he drove out to “Turnbull’s” to see an old woman who had been very + kind to him, sending him eggs, butter, etc., when he had had his + headquarters near by during the siege. On his return he took lunch at Mr. + Bolling’s, and held an impromptu reception, everybody coming in to speak + to him. + </p> + <p> + That night he went to an entertainment given to the bride at Mr. + Johnson’s. He enjoyed the evening very much and expressed his feeling of + relief at seeing every one so bright and cheerful. He was delighted to + find the people so prosperous, and to observe that they had it in their + hearts to be gay and happy. The next morning he returned to Richmond. He + was escorted to the train in the same way in which he had been received. + All the people turned out to see him leave, and he departed amid + tremendous cheering. + </p> + <p> + My father enjoyed this visit. It had been a success in every way. His old + friends and soldiers called on him in great numbers, all eager to look on + his face and clasp his hand again. The night of the wedding, the streets + were filled with crowds anxious to see him once more, and many to look on + him for the first time. Where ever he was seen, he was treated with the + greatest love, admiration, and respect. It was with devotion, deep, + sincere, and true, mixed with awe and sadness, that they beheld their old + commander, on foot, in citizen’s dress, grayer than three years ago, but + still the same, passing along the ways where he had so often ridden on + Traveller, with the noise of battle all around. What a change for him; + what a difference to them! But their trust and faith in him were as + unshaken as ever. A glimpse of his feelings at this time is shown in one + of his letters written a few weeks later, which I will give in its proper + place. The day after his return to Richmond he write to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “Richmond, December 1, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I returned here yesterday with Custis, Robert and Fitz. + Lee. We left Fitzhugh and his bride in Petersburg. Mildred is with them. + In consequence of being told that the new couple were to leave Petersburg + the morning after the wedding, I had made my arrangements to return here + Saturday. If I had known that they would remain till Monday, as is now + their intention, I should have made my arrangements to stay. Mildred will + come up with them on Monday and go to Mrs. Caskie’s. I proposed to Custis, + Rob, and Fitz to remain in Petersburg till that time, but they preferred + coming with me. I shall go to Brandon to-morrow morning, and will take + Custis and Robert with me. I propose to return here Tuesday, finish my + business Wednesday, spend Thursday at Hickory Hill, take passage for + Lexington Friday, where I hope to arrive Saturday. As far as I could + judge, our new daughter will go to Baltimore December 2d and probably + return here the following Monday. Fitzhugh will go down to the White House + during the week and make arrangements for their sojourn there. He can go + down in the morning and return in the evening. I repeated our invitation + to her to visit us on their return from Baltimore, but she said Fitzhugh + thought it better fo them to defer it till the spring, but she would write + to let us know. I do not think she will come at this time, for she is in + that happy state which causes her to take pleasure in doing what she + thinks he prefers, and he, I think, would like to go to the White House + and arrange for winter. I went up to Caskie’s last evening. Saw Norvell, + but Mr. and Mrs. Caskie were both sick upstairs. The latter is better than + when I last wrote, and free from pain. I paid several visits yesterday + evening, and took Rob with me. Mrs. Triplett’s, Mrs. Peebles’, Mrs. + Brander’s, Mrs. J. R. Anderson’s. At the latter place I met Mrs. Robert + Stannard, who looked, I thought, remarkably well. She is living with Hugh + (her son), on his farm. I also went to Mrs. Dunlop’s and saw there General + and Miss Jennie Cooper. The latter looked remarkably well, but the former + is very thin. They will remain here some weeks. I have not seen Colonel + Allan since my return from Petersburg, but am told that he is better. You + must give a great deal of love to all with you. I am very anxious to get + back, and I hope that you are all well. It is very cold here this morning, + and ice is abundant. Good-bye. + </p> + <p> + “Truly and affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The people mentioned here as those he called on were all friends living in + Richmond, with whom my mother had become well acquainted during her stay + there, in war times. There were many others he went to see, for I remember + going with him. He sat only a few minutes at each place—“called just + to shake hands,” he would say. All were delighted to see him. From some + places where he had been well known he could hardly get away. He had a + kind word for all, and his excuse for hurrying on was that he must try to + see so and so, as Mrs. Lee had told him to be sure to do so. He was bright + and cheerful, and was pleased with the great affection shown him on all + sides. + </p> + <p> + On the day he had appointed—Monday, the 2d of December—we + started in the morning for “Brandon.” We took the steamer down James + River, passing through much of the country where he had opposed McClellan + in ‘62 and Grant in ‘64. Custis and I were with him. He said very little, + as I remember—nothing about the war—but was interested in all + the old homesteads along the route, many of which he had visited in the + days long ago and whose owners had been his relatives and friends. He + expressed great regret at not being able to stop at “Shirley,” which was + the birthplace and home of his mother before she married. He stayed at + “Brandon” one night only, taking the same boat as it returned next day to + Richmond. They were all glad to see him and sorry to let him go, but his + plans had been formed before-hand, according to his invariable custom, and + he carried them out without any change. Spending one day in Richmond, he + went from there to “Hickory Hill,” thence to Lexington, arriving there the + Saturday he had fixed on. I bade him and my brother Custis good-bye in + Richmond, and returned to my home. To my brother, Fitzhugh, after his + return from his wedding trip, he writes: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, December 21, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: I was very glad last night to receive your letter of + the 18th announcing your return to Richmond. I did not like my daughter to + be so far away. I am glad, however, that you had so pleasant a visit, + which has no doubt prepared you for the enjoyments of home, and will make + the repose of Xmas week in Petersburg doubly agreeable. I had a very + pleasant visit to Brandon after parting with you, which Custis and Robert + seemed equally to enjoy, and I regretted that I could only spend one + night. I passed Shirley both going and returning with regret, from my + inability to stop; but Custis and I spent a day at Hickory Hill on our way + up very agreeably. My visit to Petersburg was extremely pleasant. Besides + the pleasure of seeing my daughter and being with you, which was very + great, I was gratified in seeing many friends. In addition, when our + armies were in front of Petersburg I suffered so much in body and mind on + account of the good townspeople, especially on that gloomy night when I + was forced to abandon them, that I have always reverted to them in sadness + and sorrow. My old feelings returned to me, as I passed well-remembered + spots and recalled the ravages of the hostile shells. But when I saw the + cheerfulness with which the people were working to restore their + condition, and witnessed the comforts with which they were surrounded, a + load of sorrow which had been pressing upon me for years was lifted from + my heart. This is bad weather for completing your house, but it will soon + pass away, and your sweet helpmate will make everything go smoothly. When + the spring opens and the mocking-birds resume their song you will have + much to do. So you must prepare in time. You must give a great deal of + love for me to all at Mr. Bolling’s, to General and Mrs. Mahone, and other + friends. We shall be very glad when you can bring our daughter to see us. + Select the time most convenient to you, and do not let it be long distant. + Tell her I wish to see her very much, as do also her mama and sisters. + Your mother regrets that you did not receive her letter in answer to yours + from Baltimore. She wrote the day of its reception, and addressed it to + New York, as you directed. The box about which you inquired arrived safely + and was much enjoyed. Mary is in Baltimore, where she will probably spend + the winter. As I am so far from Mildred, it will be difficult for her to + make up her mind when to return, so that the whole care of the household + devolves upon Agnes, who is occupied all the morning, teaching our niece, + Mildred.... God bless you all is the prayer of Your devoted father, R. E. + Lee. + </p> + <p> + “General Wm. H. F. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The Christmas of 1867 I spent, as usual, in Lexington with my father. He + had been president of the college now a little more than two years. The + number of professors and students had largely increased. The chapel had + been build, many improvements made to the lecture-rooms and halls, the + grounds improved by the laying out of new roads and walks, the inclosures + renewed, the grass restored to the campus, and new shade trees set out + over the college grounds. The increase in the number of professors + demanded more houses for them. As a move in this direction, the trustees + decided to build a new house for the president, so that the one he now + occupied could be used for one of the faculty. Accordingly, the + appropriations of a sum was made, and my father was authorised to build + according to a plan of his own selection. He took a keen interest in this + matter, and at once commenced designing a new “President’s House” on the + lot which had previously been occupied by an old building devoted to the + same purpose. This was completed in the summer of 1869. + </p> + <p> + The endowment fund of the college had been increased by liberal + contributions from several philanthropic persons, and also by a better + investment of the resources already belonging to the institution. The fees + from the greater number of students also added much to its prosperity, his + interest in the student individually and collectively was untiring. By the + system of reports made weekly to the president, and monthly to the parent + or guardian, he knew well how each one of his charges was getting on, + whether or not he was progressing, or even holding his own. If the report + was unsatisfactory, the student was sent for and remonstrated with. If + that had no effect, the parents were advised, and requested to urge the + son to try to do better. If the student still persisted in wasting his + time and money, his parents were asked to call him home. + </p> + <p> + As illustrating how well the president was acquainted with the student, + and how accurate was his remembrance of their individuality, it is related + that on one occasion a name was read out in faculty meeting which was + unfamiliar to him. He asked that it be read out again, and repeated the + name to himself, adding in a tone of self-reproach: + </p> + <p> + “I have no recollection of a student of that name. It is very strange that + I have forgotten him. I thought I knew every one in college. How long has + he been here?” + </p> + <p> + An investigation proved that the student had recently entered during his + absence, and that he had never seen him. He won the confidence of the + students, and very soon their affections. He regarded a mass of petty + regulations as being only vexatious, and yet by his tact and firmness his + discipline became most effective. Very seldom was there any breaking of + the laws. He was so honoured and loved that they tried to please him in + all things. Of course, there were exceptions. I give here some letters + written to parents and guardians which will show how he tried to induce + these triflers to become men: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, March 25, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Sir: I am very glad to learn from your letter of the 13th inst. + that you have written your son in reference to his neglect of his studies. + I am sure your letter and the kind admonition of his mother will have a + beneficial effect upon him. I have myself told him as plainly but as + kindly as I could that it was necessary for him to change his course, or + that he would be obliged to return home. He had promised me that he would + henceforth be diligent and attentive, and endeavour in all things to + perform his duty. I hope that he may succeed, for I think he is able to do + well if he really makes the effort. Will you be so kind as to inform Mrs. + W. that I have received her letter of the 19th? It will give me great + pleasure at all times to aid her son in every way I can, but if he desires + no benefit from his connection with the college it will be to his interest + to return home. + </p> + <p> + “Very truly your obedient servant, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Here is another letter showing the patience and forbearance of the + president and his earnest desire to help on in life the young men + committed to his charge: + </p> + <p> + “Washington College, Lexington Virginia, April 20, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Sir: I regret to see, from your letter of the 29th ult., to the + clerk of the faculty, that you have misunderstood their action in + reference to your son. He was not dismissed, as you suppose, from the + college, but every means having been tried by the faculty to induce him to + attend faithfully and regularly to his studies without effect, and great + forbearance having been practised, it was thought best for him, and just + to you, that he should return home. The action of the faculty was + purposely designed, not to prevent his being received into any other + college, or to return to this, should you so desire. The monthly reports + are intended to advise parents of the progress of their sons, and it was + supposed you would have seen the little advancement made by yours in his + studies, and that no further notice was required. The action of the + faculty was caused by no immorality on his part, but by a systematic + neglect of his duties, which no counsel on the part of his professors, or + my own, could correct. In compliance, however, with your wishes, and on + the positive promise of amendment on the part of your son, he has been + received into college, and I sincerely hope that he will apply himself + diligently to his studies, and make an earnest effort to retrieve the time + he has lost. With great respect, + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient servant, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + This letter, too, shows his fatherly interest: + </p> + <p> + “Washington College, Lexington, Virginia, March 19, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Sir: Before this you have learned the affecting death of your + son. I can say nothing to mitigate your grief or to relieve your sorrow; + but if the sincere sympathy of his comrades and friends and of the entire + community can bring you any consolation, I can assure you that you possess + it in its fullest extent. When one, in the pureness and freshness of + youth, before having been contaminated by sin or afflicted by misery, is + called to the presence of his Merciful Creator, it must be solely for his + good. As difficult as this may be for you now to recognise, I hope you + will keep it constantly in your memory and take it to your comfort; and I + pray that He who in His wise Providence has permitted this crushing sorrow + may sanctify it to the happiness of all. Your son and his friend, Mr. + Birely, often passed their leisure hours in rowing on the river, and, on + last Saturday afternoon, the 4th inst., attempted what they had more than + once been cautioned against—to approach the foot of the dam, at the + public bridge. Unfortunately, their boat was caught by the return-current, + struck by the falling water, and was immediately upset. Their perilous + position was at once seen from the shore, and aid was hurried to their + relief, but before it could reach them both had perished. Efforts to + restore your son’s life, though long continued, were unavailing. Mr. + Birely’s body was not found until the next morning. Their remains were, + yesterday, Sunday, conveyed to the Episcopal church in this city, where + the sacred ceremony for the dead were performed, by the Reverend Dr. + Pendleton, who nineteen years ago, at the far-off home of their infancy, + placed upon them their baptismal vows. After the service a long procession + of the professors and students of the college, the officers and cadets of + the Virginia Military Academy, and the citizens of Lexington accompanied + their bodies to the packet-boat for Lynchburg, where they were place in + charge of Messrs. Wheeler & Baker to convey them to Frederick City. + </p> + <p> + “With great regard and sincere sympathy, I am, + </p> + <p> + “Most respectfully, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0041" id="link2HCH0041"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XVII — The Reconstruction Period + </h2> + <p> + The General believes in the enforcement of law and order—His moral + influence in the college—Playful humour shown in his letters—His + opinion of negro labour—Mr. Davis’s trial—Letter to Mrs. + Fitzhugh Lee—Intercourse with Faculty + </p> + <p> + Virginia was at this time still under military rule. The “reconstruction” + days were not over. My father had himself accepted the political situation + after the war, and had advised every one who had sought his advice to do + the same. The following incident and letters will show his acquiescence in + the law of the land, and ready submission to the authorities. In a street + disturbance that spring a student had been shot by a negro, and it was + reported that, in case of the young man’s death, the murderer would be + summarily dealt with by his college-mates. Captain Wagner, the military + commissioner, wrote to General Lee informing him of these reports. He + received the following reply: + </p> + <p> + “Washington College, Lexington, Virginia, May 4, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “Captain Wagner, Commissioner District, Lexington, Virginia. + </p> + <p> + “Sir: Upon investigation of the reports which you communicated to me + yesterday afternoon, I can find no foundation for the apprehension that + the students of Washington college contemplate any attack upon the man + confined in jail for shooting Mr. —— Friday night. On the + contrary, I have been assured by members of the faculty and individual + students that they have heard no suggestion of the kind, and they believe + that no such intention has been entertained or now exists. I think, + therefore, the reports made to you are groundless. + </p> + <p> + “Very respectfully, your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + However, in order to take all precautions and provide against any + disturbance, he wrote as follows to the president of the Young Men’s + Christian Association, whom he knew well and trusted, and who was a man of + much influence with his fellow-students: + </p> + <p> + “Mr. G. B. Strickler, + </p> + <p> + “President Young Men’s Christian Association, Washington College. + </p> + <p> + “I have just been informed by Captain Wagner, Military Commissioner of + this district, that from information received by him, he had reason to + apprehend that, should the wound received by Mr. —— Friday + night prove fatal, the students of Washington College contemplate taking + from the jail the man who shot him and inflicting upon him summary + punishment. I cannot believe that any such act is intended or would be + allowed by the students of Washington College, thought it is possible that + such an intention may have been spoken of amongst them. I think it only + necessary to call the attention of the students to the report to prevent + such an occurrence. I feel convinced that none would countenance such + outrage against law and order, but that all will cheerfully submit to the + administration of justice by the legal authorities. As the readiest way of + communicating with the students, at this hour, on Sunday, I have concluded + to address you this letter that through the members of the Young Men’s + Christian Association the students generally may be informed of the + apprehension entertained by the military authorities; and I earnestly + invoke the students to abstain from an violation of law, and to unite in + preserving quiet and order on this and every occasion. + </p> + <p> + “Very respectfully, your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The young man recovered, there was no disturbance of any kind, nor was it + believed that there would have been, after this appeal from the president, + even if the wound had proved fatal. + </p> + <p> + “Nor was it a moral influence alone that he exerted in the college. He was + equally careful of the intellectual interests. He watched the progress of + every class, attended all the examinations, and strove constantly to + stimulate both professors and students to the highest attainments. The + whole college, in a word, felt his influence as an ever-present motive, + and his character was quietly but irresistibly impressed upon it, not only + in the general working of all its departments, but in all the details of + each. Of this influence General Lee, modest as he was, was perfectly + aware, and, like a prudent ruler, he husbanded it with wise economy. He + preferred to confine his direct interposition to purely personal acts, and + rarely—and then only on critical occasions—did he step forward + to present himself before the whole body of students in the full dignity + of his presidential office. On these occasions, which in the latter years + hardly ever occurred, he would quietly post an address to the students, in + which, appealing only to the highest principals of conduct, he sought to + dissuade them from threatened evil. The addresses, which the boys + designated as his ‘general orders,’ were always of immediate efficacy. No + single case ever occurred in which they failed of instant and complete + effect; and no student would have been tolerated by his fellow-students + who would have dared to disregard such an appeal from General Lee.” + [Professor Joynes in “University Monthly”.] + </p> + <p> + My father had recovered form the spell of sickness of the previous summer + at the Old Sweet Springs, which had weakened and depressed him until about + the time he attended my brother’s wedding. That marriage had been a great + joy to him. His trip there and back, and his visits to “Brandon” and + “Hickory Hill,” the change of climate and scene, seeing old friends and + new places, had all contributed to benefit his health and spirits. I + remember this Christmas of 1867 he seemed particularly bright and + cheerful. I give a letter he wrote me after I had left for my home which + reflects his playful humour and good spirits: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, January 23, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Robert: I inclose a letter which has just arrived in the mail. It + seems to be from a nice young lady, judging from the style and address. I + hope she is the right one and that her response is favourable. Put in a + good crop, and recollect you may have two to feed after the harvest. We + are doing what we can in this region to supply the springs and streams + that form the lowland rivers. It is still raining, though the snow and ice + have not left us. After your departure, Mr. Gordon brought to me a letter + from Fitzhugh to your mother which had come in the Sunday mail and was + overlooked among the papers. I am sorry it had not been found before you + left, as you would have known their plans. Tell them I am sorry not to + have seen them. We miss you very much. ‘Life’ has it all her own way now, + and expends her energy in regulating her brother and putting your mother’s + drawers and presses to rights. It’s her only vent, and furnishes exercise + for body and mind. There is to be a great fete in your mother’s room + to-day. The Grace Church Sewing Society is to meet there at 10 A. M.—that + is, if the members are impervious to water. I charged the two Mildreds to + be seated with their white aprons on and with scissors and thimbles in + hand. I hope they may have a refreshing time. Good-bye. + </p> + <p> + “Your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Robert E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The second Mildred mentioned here was my father’s niece, daughter of + Charles Carter Lee. She was living with my father at this time, going to + school, and was, like her cousin the other Mildred, not very fond of her + needle. His nickname for her was “Powhattie,” derived, I presume, from her + native County of Powhatan. He was very fond of teasing her in his playful + way. Indeed, we all enjoyed that attention from him. He never teased any + one whom he did not especially like. + </p> + <p> + To his new daughter I find the following letter, written at this time, in + which he shows his affection and admiration for her: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, March 10, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “My Beautiful Daughter: I have been wishing to write to you for a long + time, but have supposed that you would be so engrossed with my sons, with + their plans and their projects, that you could not lend an ear to your + papa. But now I must tell you how much I have thought of you, how much I + want to see you, and how greatly I was disappointed at your not getting to + see us at the time you proposed. You must not postpone your visit too + long, or you may not find us here. Our winter, which has been long and + cold, I hope now is over. The gardeners are busy, the grass is growing + green, and the atmosphere warm and inspiring. I presume under its genial + influence you and Fitzhugh are busy improving your new home. I hope + everything is agreeable, and that you are becoming more and more + interested in making those around you happy. That is the true way to + secure your own happiness for which my poor prayers are daily offered to + the throne of the Most High. I have been summoned to Richmond the third + Thursday in this month, as a witness in the trial against Mr. Davis; and + though that will be a painful errand for me, I hope that it will give me + the pleasure of seeing you. I will endeavour to get down some day to the + White House, if it is only to spend Sunday with you. I hope that you will + be able to pay some attention to your poor brother Robert. Do not let his + elder brother monopolise you altogether. You will have to take care of + both till you can find some one like yourself to take Romancoke in hand. + Do you think Miss Anne Banister will consent? Mildred, you know, is the + only one of the girls who has been with us this winter. She has + consequently had her hands full, and considers herself now a great + character. She rules her brother and my nephews with an iron rod, and + scatters her advice broadcast among the young men of the college. I hope + that it may yield an abundant harvest. The young mothers of Lexington + ought to be extremely grateful to her for her suggestions to them as to + the proper mode of rearing their children, and though she finds many + unable to appreciate her system, she is nothing daunted by the obtuseness + of vision, but takes advantage of every opportunity to enlighten them as + to its benefits. Mary and Agnes are still in Baltimore, and are now at the + house of Mrs. Charles Howard. Agnes expects, I believe, to return to the + Peters near Ellicott City, and then go over to the Eastern Shore of + Maryland to visit the Goldsboroughs and other friends. I hardly think + either of them will get back before June. I have recently received a very + pretty picture from a young lady of Baltimore, Miss Mary Jones, whom I met + last summer at the White Sulphur Springs. In one of my morning rides to + the Beaver-dam Falls, near the Sweet Springs, I found her at the foot of + the falls making a sketch of the scene, and on her return home she + finished it and has sent it to me. It is beautifully painted and is a + faithful representation of the Falls. I think you will be pleased with it + when you come up, and agree with me in the opinion that it is the + principal ornament of our parlour. I am sorry to inform you that your poor + mama ahs been suffering more than usual lately from her rheumatic pains. + She took cold in some way, which produced a recurrence of her former + pangs, though she is in a measure now relieved. We often wish for you and + Fitzhugh. My only pleasure is in my solitary evening rides, which give me + abundant opportunity for quiet thought. With a great deal of love to your + husband, I am your sincerely attached father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. William H. Fitzhugh Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The next letter I find is a reply to one of mine, in which I evidently had + been confiding to him my agricultural woes: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, March 12, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Rob: I am sorry to learn from your letter of the 1st that the + winter has been so hard on your wheat. I hope, however, the present good + weather is shedding its influence upon it, and that it will turn out + better than it promises. You must, however, take a lesson from the last + season. What you do cultivate, do well. Improve and prepare the land in + the best manner; your labour will be less, and your profits more. Your + flat lands were always uncertain in wet winters. The uplands were more + sure. Is it not possible that some unbidden guest may have been feasting + on your corn? Six hundred bushels are are a large deficit in casting up + your account for the year. But you must make it up by economy and good + management. A farmer’s motto should be TOIL AND TRUST. I am glad that you + have got your lime and sown your oats and clover. Do you use the drill or + sow broadcast? I shall try to get down to see you if I go to Richmond, for + I am anxious to know how you are progressing and to see if in any way I + can aid you. Whenever I can, you must let me know. You must still think + about your house and make up your mind as to the site and kind, and + collect the material. I can help you to any kind of plan, and with some + ready money to pay the mechanics. I have presently had a visit from Dr. + Oliver, of Scotland, who is examining lands for immigrants from his + country. He seems to be a sensible and judicious man. From his account, I + do not think the Scotch and English would suit your part of the country. + It would require time from them to become acclimated, and they would + probably get dissatisfied, especially as there is so much mountainous + region where they could be accommodated. I think you will have to look to + the Germans; perhaps the Hollanders, as a class, would be the most useful. + When the railroad shall have been completed to West Point, I think there + will be no difficulty in getting the whites among you. I would try to get + some of our own young men in your employ. I rode out the other day to Mr. + Andrew Cameron’s and went into the field where he was plowing. I took + great pleasure in following the plows around the circuit. He had four in + operation. Three of them were held by his former comrades in the army, who + are regularly employed by him, and, he says, much to his satisfaction and + profit. People have got to work now. It is creditable to them to do so; + their bodies and their minds are benefited by it, and those who can and + will work will be advanced by it. You will never prosper with blacks, and + it is abhorrent to a reflecting mind to be supporting and cherishing those + who are plotting and working for your injury, and all of whose sympathies + and associations are antagonistic to yours. I wish them no evil in the + world—on the contrary, will do them every good in my power, and know + that they are misled by those to whom they have given their confidence; + but our material, social, and political interests are naturally with the + whites. Mr. Davis’ trial was fixed for the last of this month. If Judge + Chase’s presence is essential, I do not see how it can take place, unless + that of Mr. Johnson is to be postponed. I suppose that will be decided + to-day or to-morrow, and then I shall know what to expect. I shall not go + to Richmond unless necessary, as it is always inconvenient for me to leave + home, and I am not at all well. Your poor mother is also more ailing than + she is ordinarily, in consequence of a cold she has taken. But it is + passing away, I trust. I must leave you to her and Mildred for all local + and domestic news. Custis and the boys are well, and ‘Powhattie,’ I hope + has got rid of the chills. We hear regularly from Mary and Agnes, who seem + to be enjoying themselves, and I do not think from their programme that + they will get back to us till summer. All unite in much love, and I am + always, Your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + This same month he writes a long letter to his daughter Agnes, who was + visiting friends in Baltimore. The Annette, Mildred, and Mary he mentions + in this letter were the daughters of Charles Henry Carter, of “Goodwood,” + Maryland, a first cousin of my father: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, March 28, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Agnes: I was so glad to receive your letter, to learn that + you were well and enjoying yourself among pleasant friends. I hope that + you will soon get through all your visits and come home. Your uncle Smith + says you girls ought to marry his sons, as you both find it so agreeable + to be from home, and you could then live a true Bohemian life and have a + happy time generally. But I do not agree with him; I shall not give my + consent, so you must choose elsewhere. I have written to Annette telling + her of my alarm for her. Now that Mildred is engaged, and she sees how + much Mary is in love, I fear she will pick up an Adonis next, so that she + had better run away to the mountains at once. I am glad that you saw Mr. + Davis. It is a terrible thing to have this prosecution hanging over him, + and to be unable to fix his thoughts on a course of life or apply his + hands to the support of his family. But I hope a kind Providence will + shield and guide him. You must remember me to all my friends, the + Taggarts, Glenns, McKims, Marshalls, etc.... As to the young ladies you + mention, you must tell them that I want to see them very much, and hope + that they will all come to the mountains this summer, and not pass us by + in Lexington. When you go to ‘Goodwood’ and the Eastern Shore, do the same + there for me, and present me to all by name. Tell sweet Sallie Warwick I + think she ought to come to Lexington, if only to show those babies; but in + truth the want to see her more than them, so she may leave them with Major + Poor [her husband], if she chooses. You must see everybody you wish and + enjoy yourself as much as you can, and then come home. I told Mildred to + tell you if you wanted any funds you must let me know and where to send + them. I do not know whether she delivered my message. She has become very + imperious, and may not think you require any. She has been much exercised + of late on the score of servants, but hopes to get some relief on the 1st + proximo from the promised change of Miss Mary Dixon to Miss Eliza Cyrus. I + hope her expectations may be realised. Little Mildred has had a return of + her chills. It has been a sharp attack, and thought it has been arrested, + when I left her this morning I feared she might have a relapse, as this is + her regular day. She was looking remarkably well before it came on, better + than she had ever done, but every cold terminates in this way, however + slight it may be. Colds have been quite prevalent, and there have been two + deaths among the cadets from pneumonia. Fortunately so far the students + have escaped. I am relieved of mine I hope, and your poor mother is, I + hope, better. The storm seems to have subsided, and I trust the bright + weather may ameliorate her pains. Custis, Mildred, and the boys are well, + as are most of our friends in Lexington.... Fitzhugh writes that + everything is blooming at the ‘White House,’ and that his wheat is + splendid. I am in hopes that it is all due to the presence of my fair + daughter. Rob says that things at Romancoke are not so prosperous—you + see, there is no Mrs. R. E. Lee, Jr., there, and that may make the + difference. Cannot you persuade some of those pretty girls in Baltimore to + take compassion on a poor bachelor? I will give them a plan for a house if + they will build it.... All would unite with me in love if they knew I was + writing. You ought to be here to enjoy the birds Captain O. C. H. sends + us. With much love for yourself, and my poor prayers for your happiness, I + am, Your devoted father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + A few days afterward he writes to his son Fitzhugh, who was now + established very happily in his new house, and warns him not to depend + entirely on sentiment, but to arrange for something material. He also + speaks of Mr. Davis and his trial, which was continually being postponed, + and in the end was dismissed, and gives him some good advice about + importing cattle: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, March 30, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: I was very glad to receive your letter of the 19th, and + as you are aware of the order of the court postponing Mr. Davis’s trial + till the 14th proximo, I presume that you have not been expecting me down. + I see it stated in the Washington ‘Star’ that the trial is again postponed + till May 4th, but I have seen as yet no order from the court. Mr. and Mrs. + Davis went from Baltimore to New York on Tuesday last, and were to go on + to Canada. He said that he did not know what he should do or what he could + turn his hand to for support. As long as this trial is hanging over him, + of course, he can do nothing. He can apply his mind to nothing, nor could + he acquire the confidence of the business community in anything he might + undertake, from the apprehension of his being interrupted in the midst of + it. Agnes and Mary saw them as they passed through Baltimore. They say Mr. + Davis was well, though he had changed a great deal since they saw him + last. I am very glad that you are so pleased with your house. I think it + must be my daughter that gives it such a charm. I am sure that she will + make everything look bright to me. It is a good thing that the wheat is + doing so well, for I am not sure ‘that the flame you are so rich in will + light a fire in the kitchen, nor the little god turn the spit, spit, + spit.’ Some material element is necessary to make it burn brightly and + furnish some good dishes for the table. Shad are good in their way, but + they do not run up the Pamunkey all the year. I am glad that you are + making arrangements for some cows, and think you are right in getting + those of the best breed. It used to be thought that cows from the North + would not prosper in that lower country, and indeed cows from the upper + part of Virginia did not succeed well, but were apt to become sick and + die; and that the surest process to improve the stock was to purchase + calves of good breed and cross on the native stock. You must, therefore, + be careful and not invest too much. We have had a cold winter, and March + has been particularly harsh. Still, vegetation is progressing and the + wheat around Lexington looks beautiful. My garden is advancing in a small + way. Pease, spinach, and onions look promising, but my hot-bed plants are + poor. The new house, about which you inquire, is in statu quo before + winter. I believe the money is wanting and the workmen cannot proceed. We + require some of that latter article here, as elsewhere, and have but + little.... I heard of you in Richmond the other day, but did not learn + whether my daughter was with you. I wish you would send her up to her papa + when you go away. With much love, + </p> + <p> + “Your devoted father, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + A month later he writes me, telling me that he expects to be in Richmond + the following week, and will try to get down to see us; also telling of + his garden, and horse, and, as he always did, encouraging, cheering me, + and offering help: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, April 25, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Rob: Your letter of the 21st is just received. I am very glad + that your wheat is improving in appearance, and hope that at harvest it + will yield a fair return for your care and labour. Your corn I am sure + will be more remunerative than the crop of last year, and I trust that at + the end of the year you will find you have advanced in the field of + agriculture. Your mule and provender was a heavy loss. You must make it + up. Replace the first by a good one and I will pay for it. I hope the warm + sun will bring forward the grass to supply the latter. Should I go to + Richmond, next week, as I now expect, I will be prepared to pay for the + mule, and if I do not I will send you a check for the amount. I am sorry + to hear that you have not been well. You must get out of that too.... You + must refresh yourself when you can by going up to the White House to see + your brother and sister. Take a good look at the latter for me.... In our + garden nothing is up but the hardy plans, pease, potatoes, spinach, + onions, etc.... Beets, carrots, salsify, etc., have been sown a long time, + but are not up, and I cannot put in the beans, squash, etc., or set out + the hot-bed plants. But we can wait. I have not been as well this winter + as usual, and have been confined of late. I have taken up Traveller, + however, who is as rough as a bear, and have had two or three rides on + him, in the mud, which I think has benefited me. Mildred sometimes + accompanies me. Your mother, I am glad to say, is better. She has less + pain than when I last wrote, and is more active on her crutches.... + Good-bye, my dear son. If I go to Richmond I will try to get to see you. + </p> + <p> + “Affectionately your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee, Jr.” + </p> + <p> + My father came to Richmond, summoned to attend the trial of Mr. Davis, but + when he arrived he found that it was again postponed. So he went to the + White House and spent several days. I came up from Romancoke and stayed + with him till he left. It was a great pleasure to him to meet his sons and + to see his new daughter in her new home. After his return to Lexington he + wrote to her this letter: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Viriginia, May 29, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Daughter: I have been enjoying the memory, ever since my return, + my visit to the Pamunkey, and whenever I have thought of writing to you + the pleasure I experienced in your company and in that of Fitzhugh and + Robert absorbed the moment I could devote to a letter, and other calls + made me postpone it. But I have thought of you often, and always with + renewed pleasure; and I rejoice at your having around you more comforts + and within your reach more pleasures than I had anticipated. I pray that + both may be increased and be long continued. There is one thing I regret—that + you are so far from us. I know the difficulty of farmers and their wives + leaving home. Their success, and in a measure their pleasure, depend upon + their daily attention to their affairs, and it is almost an impossibility + for us old people to get to you. Yet I trust we may meet this summer some + time, and whenever you can you must come and see us. Our small house will + never be so full that there will not be room for you, or so empty that you + will not be most cordially welcome. Letters received from Mary and Agnes + report them still on the Eastern Shore of Maryland, where they were + detained by the sickness of Agnes. They expected, however, to be able to + return to Baltimore last Tuesday, 26th, where, after a few days’ sojourn, + they were to go to Mrs. Washington Peter’s. I fear, however, that Agnes + might not have been well enough, as she had had an attack of bilious fever + and was much prostrated. Should you find yourself in danger of becoming + sick, you must come right up to your papa. I know you will pine, but I + would rather you should suffer in that way than burn with fever, and while + on that subject I will tell you something that may be of comfort: you may + reasonably expect Fitzhugh soon to follow, so you will not suffer long. I + wish to take your mama to the Warm Springs, and to the Hot or Healing, if + she will go, to try to obtain for her some relief; but we will not leave + home till the last of June or first of July. I am so much occupied that I + feel that I ought never to go away, and every absence accumulates my work. + I had a pleasant visit of three days, to Lynchburg, attending the + Episcopal Convention, and I have not yet brought up my correspondence, + etc. I fear, too, I shall have to go to Richmond next week, as everything + seems to portend the certainty of Mr. Davis’s trial. God grant that, like + the impeachment of Mr. Johnson, it may be dismissed. If I do go, I fear I + shall have no time to visit you. The examinations of the senior classes of + the college are now in progress, and after their completion the + examination of the undergraduates will commence, and will not terminate + till the 15th of June, and the commencement exercises them begin and end + on the 18th. So you see how necessary it is for me to be here and that I + shall be obliged to hasten back as soon as permitted. I wanted, if + possible, to pass one day at ‘Shirley’—I have not been there for ten + years. It was the loved home of my mother, and a spot where I have passed + many happy days in early life, and one that probably I may never visit + again. But I do not know that I shall be able. We are all as usual, and + all would send much love if they knew I was writing. Mildred is very + happing in the company of Miss Charlotte Haxall, and Custis retains his + serenity of character. Our young members of the family are looking forward + to their return to Powhatan as soon as the college exercises close, which + I hope will bring some relief to me also. I see that you have been much + visited of late, but you know that no one wants to see you as much as I + do. Tell Fitzhugh that his old friend, Miss Helen Peters, has come to + Lexington, from New York, to pass the summer. She is now Mrs. Taylor and + has brought with her two babies. She is as cordial and affectionate as + ever. Give much love to Fitzhugh and Rob, and believe me always your + devoted father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. Wm. H. Fitzhugh Lee.” + </p> + <p> + My father was back at the college in full time for the “final + examinations.” He always made it a point to be present, and took his full + share of sitting in the rooms while the students were working on their + papers. When occasion offered, somewhat to the surprise of the learned + faculty, he showed himself thoroughly conversant with each and every + department. Even with Greek he seems somewhat familiar, and would question + the students as to their knowledge of this language, much to their + astonishment. + </p> + <p> + The commencement exercises of the college began about June 1st and lasted + a week. At this time, the town was crowded with visitors, and my father + had his house full, generally of young girls, friends of my sisters who + came to assist at the “final ball,” the great social event connected with + this college exercise. He seemed to enjoy their society as much as the + young men did, though he could not devote so much time to them as the boys + did, and I know that the girls enjoyed his society more than they did that + of their college adorers. On the occasion of an entertainment at his + house, in going amongst his guests, he approached a young lady, a great + belle, completely surrounded by her admirers—students, cadets, and + some old “Confeds.” He stopped and began to rally her on her conquests, + saying: + </p> + <p> + “You can do as you please to these other young gentlemen, but you must not + treat any of my OLD SOLDIERS badly.” + </p> + <p> + Those who have never known him cannot imagine the charm of his manner, the + brightness of his smile, and the pleasant way he had of speaking, + especially to young people and little children. His rebukes to the young + were administered in the kindest, gentlest way, almost persuasively, but + he could be stern when the occasion demanded. Colonel William Preston + Johnston, a member of his faculty and a very dear and trusted friend, + says: + </p> + <p> + “In his intercourse with his faculty he was courteous, kind, and often + rather playful in manner. We all thought he deferred entirely too much to + the expression of opinion on the part of the faculty, when we would have + preferred that he should simply indicate his own views or desire. One + characteristic of General Lee I noted then and have often recalled: I + never saw him take an ungraceful posture. No matter how long or fatiguing + a faculty meeting might be, he always preserved an attitude in which + dignity, decorum, and grace were united. He was a very well built man, + with rounded body and limbs, and seemed without the slightest affectation + of effort to sit or stand or walk just as a gentleman should. He was never + in a hurry, and all his gestures were easy and significant. He was always + an agreeable companion. There was a good deal of bonhomie and pleasantry + in his conversation. He was not exactly witty, nor was he very humorous, + though he gave a light turn to table-talk and enjoyed exceedingly any + pleasantry or fun, even. He often made a quaint or slightly caustic + remark, but he took care that it should not be too trenchant. On reading + his letters one discovers this playful spirit in many of them, as, for + instance, in his letter to the spiritualist who asked his opinion of Von + Moltke and the French war. He wrote in reply a most courteous letter in + which he said that ‘the question was one about which military critics + would differ, that his own judgement about such matters was poor at best, + and that inasmuch as they had the power to consult (through their mediums) + Caesar, Alexander, Napoleon, Wellington, and all of the other great + captains who had ever lived, he could not think of obtruding his opinion + in such company.’ General Lee did not talk politics, but he felt very + deeply the condition of the country, and expressed to me several times in + strong terms his disapproval of the course of the dominant party.” + </p> + <p> + There is a story told of my father which points to his playful manner here + alluded to. At a certain faculty meeting they were joking Mr. Harris, who + so long and so ably filled the chair of Latin, about his walking up the + aisle of the Presbyterian church with the stem of his pipe protruding from + his pocket. Mr. Harris took out the offending stem and began cutting it + shorter. My father, who had been enjoying the incident, said: + </p> + <p> + “No, Mr. Harris, don’t do that; next time leave it at home.” + </p> + <p> + Sometimes he deemed it advisable to be a little stern. One of the young + professors went off for a few days without asking the president’s + permission. On his return the General met him very stiffly, saying: + </p> + <p> + “Mr. ——, I congratulate you on your return to your friends and + duties. I was not aware of your absence until I heard it by chance.” + </p> + <p> + Mr. —— told this on himself, and added that it was the last + time he ever went away without a formal leave of absence. His + particularity in little things has often been commented on. He applied it + to all his affairs. Dr. Kirkpatrick, Professor of Moral Philosophy, came + into the president’s office and asked for a certain paper. My father told + him where it could be found. After a while, turning to the doctor he said: + </p> + <p> + “Did you find the paper?” + </p> + <p> + “Yes, General,” replied the Doctor. + </p> + <p> + “Did you return it to the place where you found it?” + </p> + <p> + “Yes, General.” + </p> + <p> + At another time he asked Professor Harris to look at a catalogue on the + table. The Professor took up a new one, wrapped ready for the mail, and + was about to tear the cover off, when my father, hastily handing him one + already opened, said: + </p> + <p> + “Take this, if you please.” + </p> + <p> + My mother used to say that he could go, in the dar, and lay his hand on + any article of his clothing, or upon any particular paper, after he had + once arranged them, provided they had not been disturbed. One of his + “quaint or slightly caustic remarks,” alluded to by Colonel Johnston, I + recall as told to me. He met a lady friend down in the town, who bitterly + complained that she could get nothing to eat in Lexington suitable for + Lent—no fish, no oysters, etc. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. ——,” the General replied, “I would not trouble myself so + much about special dishes; I suppose if we try to abstain from SPECIAL + SINS that is all that will be expected of us.” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0042" id="link2HCH0042"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XVIII — Mrs. R. E. Lee + </h2> + <p> + Goes to Warm Springs for rheumatism—Her daughter Mildred takes + typhoid there—Removes to Hot Springs—Her husband’s devotion—Visit + of Fitzhugh and bride to Lexington—Miss Jones, a would-be benefactor + of Washington College—Fate of Washington relics belonging to Mrs. + Lee’s family + </p> + <p> + That summer my father determined to take my mother to the Warm Springs, in + Bath County, Virginia, hoping that the baths there might be of service to + her, and purposing, if she was not benefited, to go to the Hot Springs, + five miles distant. He was most anxious that his new daughter should join + her there and go with him to any place she might select and come back with + them to Lexington. In the following letter to his son he tells of his + plans for the summer: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, July 1, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: I received yesterday your letter of the 28th ultimo, + and regret very much to learn of Tabb’s indisposition. I hope that she + will soon be well, and I wish very much she would join us in the mountains + and return here with us. In my letter to her about the time when she went + to her sister’s wedding, which I hope she got, I told her of my wishes on + the subject, and believe gave her our general plans. I can now say with + more distinctness that, unless something now unforeseen should prevent, I + will take your mother to the Warm Sprints, from the 10th to the 15th + inst., and after trying the water there about two weeks, if not + favourable, will take her over to the Hot. After seeing her comfortably + established, I will then go anywhere Tabb desires—to the Healing or + the White Sulphur or Sweet. I intend to go myself to the White Sulphur for + about a fortnight, to drink the water, and will take Mildred with me. + Agnes, having gone last summer, will not care to go, I presume, and can + remain with her mother. Mildred has been quite sick for the past week, but + is now much better, and in a week will be strong enough for the journey, I + think. If not, we shall have to delay our departure a little. Agnes was + also sick on the Eastern Shore of Maryland about three weeks, and, I am + told, looks badly. She is now at the University of Virginia, and will be + home in a few days and go with us to the Springs. You must arrange your + plans to suit your interests and convenience, coming to us when you can + and staying as long as you can. You know the interest I take in your + prosperity and advancement, which cannot be assured without earnest + attention to your business on your part, and therefore I never urge you to + act contrary to your own judgement in reference to them. As to my + daughter, Tabb, tell her if she will trust herself to her papa she shall + never want anything he can do for her, and I think she will find the + prediction in my letter to her verified. She might join us at Goshen and + go with us, or come here. Why did she not come up with her father? I went + to see him last evening, but he was out. Your mother, I presume, has told + you of home affairs. She has become nervous of late, and broods over her + troubles so much that I fear it increases her sufferings. I am therefore + the more anxious to give her new scenes and new thoughts. It is the + principal good I anticipate. Love to Rob. Custis still talks of visiting + you, but I have not heard of his having fixed the day of his departure. He + is quite well. With my best love to my daughter T—— and the + same to yourself, I am, + </p> + <p> + “Most affectionately your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The morning he left Lexington he, while waiting for the stage, writes as + follows to a great favourite of his, a friend of Mildred’s, who had been + on a visit to her that summer: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, July 14, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “...The stage is at the door to carry us to Goshen, and if Mrs. Lee’s + strength permits, we hope to reach the Warm Springs to-night. After two or + three week’s trial of its waters we shall go to the Hot, where, leaving + Agnes to take care of her mother, I shall take Mildred to the White + Sulphur, and hope to meet you at Covington and carry you along. Will you + not come?... Mildred is quite well again and is flying about this morning + with great activity. Agnes is following with slower steps, Mrs. Lee is + giving her last injunctions to Sam and Eliza. Letitia [my mother’s maid] + is looking on with wonder at the preparations, and trying to get a right + conception of the place to which she is going, which she seems to think is + something between a steel-trap and a spring-gun. Custis is waiting to help + his mother into the stage, and you see how patient I am. To add interest + to the scene, Dr. Barton has arrived to bid adieu and to give Mildred an + opportunity of looking her best. I believe he is the last rose of summer. + The others, with their fragrance and thorns, have all departed....” + </p> + <p> + A few days after their arrival at the Warm Springs Mildred was taken ill + with typhoid fever, and during many anxious weeks my father and Agnes were + her only nurses. My mother’s room was on the first floor of the + “Brockenborough Cottage,” my sister’s in the second, so she could not get + upstairs to her room. Mildred was very fanciful—would not have no + one but my father to nurse her, and could not sleep unless she had his + hand in hers. Night after night he sat by her side, watching over her and + attending to every want with gentleness and patience. He writes to the + same young lady, at Mildred’s request: + </p> + <p> + “Warm Springs, Virginia, July 30, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “...She [Mildred] has been so anxious to write to you, and so uneasy at + her inability to do so, that I hope you will permit me to tell you the + reason. She has been quite sick and is so still—confined to her bed + with low fever, which retains its hold very pertinaciously. She took cold + a few days after our arrival, from some imprudence, and she is very much + enfeebled. She has been more comfortable the last day or two, and I hope + is better, but I presume he recovery will necessarily be slow. You know + she is very fanciful, and as she seems to be more accessible to reason + from me, I have come be her chief nurse and am now writing in her room, + while she is sleeping.... This is a beautiful valley, and we have quite a + pleasant company—Mr. and Mrs. Chapman and their three daughters from + Alabama; Mrs. Coleman and her two daughters from Baltimore; some ladies + from Richmond, Washington, Kentucky, Iowa, etc., and an ever-changing + scene of faces. As soon as Mildred is strong enough, we will go to the + Hot, after which, if she desires it, I will take her to the White. Mrs. + Lee and Agnes are improving slightly, I am glad to say. We hear of many + friends at the Hot, Healing, and White, and hope we shall reach these + respective waters before they depart.... The Harrisons have written me + that they will be here on the 14th proximo, but unless Mildred’s recovery + is much retarded it will be too late for me to see them. The Caskies will + be at the Hot about the same time.... I am, + </p> + <p> + “Your most sincerely, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” On August 3d from the same place, he writes to my brother + Fitzhugh: + </p> + <p> + “...this was the day I had appointed to go to the Hot, but Mildred is too + sick to move. She was taken more than a fortnight since,...and her attack + seems to have partaken of a typhoid character. She has had since a low and + persistent fever, which retains its hold. She is very feeble, but, in the + doctor’s opinion, somewhat better. I myself see little change, except that + she is now free from pain. I cannot speak of our future movements. I fear + I shall have to abandon my visit to the White. Your mother and Agnes are + better than when they arrived. The former bathes freely, eats generously, + and sleeps sweetly. Agnes, though feeble, is stronger. I am the same, and + can see no effects of the waters upon myself. Give much love to my sweet + daughter and dear sons. All unite with me in this message.... I am, as + ever and always, + </p> + <p> + “Your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Another letter to my brother, Fitzhugh, from the Warm Springs, tells of + his daughter’s convalescence. Smith’s Island, of which he writes, belonged + to my grandfather’s estate, of which my father was executor. He was trying + to make some disposition of it, so that it might yield a revenue. It is + situated on the Atlantic just east of Cape Charles, in Northampton County, + Virginia. + </p> + <p> + “Warm Springs, Virginia, August 14, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: I received, yesterday, your letter of the 9th, and, as + your mother informed you of Mildred’s condition, I deferred replying to it + until to-day. I am glad to inform you that she is better, and that the + doctor pronounces her convalescent this morning. He says her progress must + necessarily be slow, but with care and prudence he sees nothing to prevent + her recovery, unless something unforeseen occurs. I hope, therefore, we + may dismiss our anxiety. As regards Smith’s Island, I should be very glad + if you could go over and see it, and, if you think proper, make such + disposition of it as you and Robert think most advantageous. See Mr. + Hamilton S. Neale (Eastville, Northampton County, Virginia) and consult + with him on the subject and let me know your determination. I think you + will find him kind and intelligent. I have visited the island twice in my + life, a long while ago, and thought that, if a person lived on it, he + might, by grazing, planting and fishing, make a comfortable living. You + and Robert might, if you choose, buy the island from the estate. I fear + the timber, etc., has been cut from it. I never thought it as valuable as + your grandfather did. You will have to go to Norfolk, take the steamer to + Cherrystone, where, I suppose, you can find a conveyance to Eastville. You + know Cobb’s Island has been a fashionable bathing-place. John Lewis wrote + that the beach was delightful and fare excellent, and that they had + sail-vessels there at the disposal of visitors. But Mr. Neale and Mr. John + Simpkins, the present agent, can put you in the way of visiting the + island, and you might carry my sweet daughter, Tabb, over and give her a + surf bath. But do not let the mosquitoes annoy her. Give her much love + from me. I am writing in Mildred’s room, who is very grateful for your + interest in her behalf. She is too weak to speak. I hope Rob had a + pleasant trip. Tell me Custis’s plans. I have not heard from him. Your + mother and Agnes unite in love to you, Rob, and Tabb. I have a fan in one + hand, while I wield a pen with the other, so excuse brevity. Most + affectionately yours, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “P.S.—George and Eleanor Goldsborough and Miss Mary G—— + express themselves as much pleased with Cobb’s Island. I do not know how + far it is east of Smith’s Island. R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + His daughter being convalescent, he carried out his plan, and went over to + the White Sulphur Springs, after he had placed my mother and sisters at + the Hot Springs. In a letter from there, on August 28th, he writes: + </p> + <p> + “...The place looks beautiful—the belles very handsome, and the + beaux very happy. All are gay, and only I solitary. I am all alone. There + was a grand fancy masked ball last night. The room was overflowing, the + music good, as much spring in the boards as in the conversation, and the + german continued till two o’clock this morning. I return to the Hot next + week, and the following to Lexington. Mildred is much better, but says she + has forgotten how to write. I hope that she will be strong enough to + return with me.... I am, Truly and affectionately yours, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + They all returned to Lexington early in September, in time for the opening + of the college. Mildred was still weak and nervous, nor did she recover + her normal strength for several months. She was always my father’s pet as + a little girl, and during this illness and convalescence he had been very + tender with her, humoring as far as he could all of her fancies. Not long + before that Christmas, she enumerated, just in fun, all the present she + wished—a long list. To her great surprise, when Christmas morning + came she found each article at her place a the breakfast-table—not + one omitted. + </p> + <p> + His sympathy with all who were suffering, ill, and afflicted was warm and + sincere. Colonel Shipp, now superintendent of the Virginia Military + Institute, was the commandant of cadets when my father came to Lexington. + He tells me that the he was ill for some weeks, laid up in his room, which + was next to that of my brother Custis. He hardly knew General Lee, and had + spoken to him only a few times, but my father went to see him quite often, + would sit by him, talk to him, and seemed much interested in his getting + well. He said that he would consult Mrs. Lee (“who is a great doctor”), + and he finally brought a bottle of something in which sudor-berries were + the chief ingredient. Colonel Shipp found out afterward that the + sudor-berries had been sent from the White House, and that my mother had + concocted the medicine. + </p> + <p> + On one occasion, calling at Colonel Preston’s, he missed two little boys + in the family circle, who were great favourites of his, and on asking for + them he was told that they were confined to the nursery by croup. The next + day, though the weather was of the worst description, he went trudging in + great storm-boots back to their house, carrying in one hand a basket of + pecan nuts and in the other a toy, which he left for his little sick + friends. + </p> + <p> + To my mother, who was a great invalid from rheumatism for more than ten + years, he was the most faithful attendant and tender nurse. Every want of + hers that he could supply he anticipated. His considerate fore-thought + saved her from much pain and trouble. During the war he constantly wrote + to her, even when on the march and amidst the most pressing duties. Every + summer of their life in Lexington he arranged that she should spend + several months at one of the many medicinal springs in the neighbouring + mountains, as much that she might be surrounded by new scenes and faces, + as for the benefit of the waters. Whenever he was in the room, the + privilege of pushing her wheeled chair into the dining-room and out on the + verandas or elsewhere about the house was yielded to him. He sat with her + daily, entertaining her with accounts of what was doing in the college, + and the news of the village, and would often read to her in the evening. + For her his love and care never ceased, his gentleness and patience never + ended. + </p> + <p> + This tenderness for the sick and helpless was developed in him when he was + a mere lad. His mother was an invalid, and he was her constant nurse. In + her last illness he mixed every dose of medicine she took, and was with + her night and day. If he left the room, she kept her eyes on the door till + he returned. He never left her but for a short time. After her death the + health of their faithful servant, Nat, became very bad. My father, then + just graduated from West Point, took him to the South, had the best + medical advice, a comfortable room, and everything that could be done to + restore him, and attended to him himself. + </p> + <p> + I can find few family letters written by my father at this time. Those + which have been preserved are to my brother Fitzhugh, and are mostly about + Smith’s Island and the settling up of my grandfather’s estate. The last of + September he writes: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, September 28, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: Your report of the condition of Smith’s Island + corresponds with my own impressions, based upon my knowledge of the island + and the reports of others. I think it would be advantageous, under present + circumstances, to make sale of the island as soon as a fair price can be + obtained, and I have so instructed Mr. Hamilton S. Neale, who has + consented to act as my agent.... I should like this while matter arranged + as soon as possible, for my life is very uncertain, and its settlement now + may avoid future difficulties. I am very glad to hear that you and Rob + have continued well, and that my daughter is improving. Give my love to + them both. The loss of your fine cows is a serious one, and I believe you + will have to procure them in your vicinity and improve them. Get some + calves this fall of a good breed. We hope that we shall see you this fall. + Your mother is as comfortable as usual, and Mildred is improving. Custis, + Mary, and Agnes are well, and all would send love, did they know I was + writing. + </p> + <p> + “Very affectionately your father, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + This autumn he had a visit from his nephew, Edward Lee Childe. Edward + lived in Paris, and had crossed over in the summer to see my father and + mother. He made a very pleasant impression on everybody, and was much + pleased with his visit. Here is a letter written by my father to my + brother just after Edward left: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, October 14, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: I have returned to Mr. Hamilton S. Neale the + advertisement of the sale of Smith’s Island, with my approval, and have + requested him to advertise in the Northern and Richmond papers, etc., and + to send out such other notices as he deems best calculated to attract + attention to the property, and to take every measure to enhance the value + of the island and to procure for your grandfather’s estate the full + benefit of the sale.... I have heard from Mr. Compton that my daughter + Tabb has returned to the White House in improved health, which I am very + glad of. I hope that you will soon be able to bring her up to see us. Do + not wait until the weather becomes too cold. Our mountain atmosphere in + winter is very harsh. So far, the weather has been delightful. Your cousin + Edward left us last Thursday evening on his way to see you. We enjoyed his + visit greatly. Agnes and I rode down to the Baths last Saturday to see the + Harrisons, and returned Sunday evening. They were well, and somewhat + benefited by their visit. Mr. George Ritchie’s death no doubt threw a + shade of sadness over the whole party on Mrs. Harrison’s account, though + all were charming and Miss Belle very sweet. We are about the same—your + poor mother comfortable, Mildred improving. All would unite in love to you + and yours, did they know I was writing. Give much love to my dear + daughter, Tabb, and tell her that I want to see her very much. + </p> + <p> + “Truly and affectionately your father, + </p> + <p> + “General W. H. Fitzhugh Lee. R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In a few days, he writes again, still about Smith’s Island, but adds much + about the family and friends: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, October 19, 1868. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: I received your letter of the 12th the day I last wrote + to you. I am glad we agree that $—— should be the minimum + limit for the price of Smith’s Island. You will see by my letter referred + to that it has been so fixed. December 22d is the day proposed by Mr. + Neale as the time of public sale, which was approved by me, though I + feared the notice might be too short. Still there are good reasons for the + sale being made without unnecessary delay. I think November, which you + suggest, would not afford sufficient notice. I would recommend that you + and Robert attend the sale, and be governed by circumstances in what you + do. I would go myself, but it would be a long, hard journey for me at that + season of the year, and I do not see any material good that I can do. Mr. + Neale kindly offered to meet me at Cherrystone landing and take me to his + house, but I shall decline in your favour. I am sorry that Edward did not + get down to see you, for I wanted him to see my daughter, Tabb. I am sure + he has seen none like her in Paris. He left here with the purpose of + visiting you and his uncle Smith, and I do not know what made him change + his mind. I hope that you will get in a good crop of wheat, and get it in + well. The latter is very important and unless accomplished may deprive you + of the whole benefit of your labour and expense. We shall look anxiously + for your visit. Do not put it off too late or the weather may be + unfavourable. Our mountain country is not the most pleasant in cold + weather, but we will try and make you warm. Give my love to Tabb, and tell + her I am wanting to see her all the time. All unite in love to her and + you. Your mother is about the same, very busy, and full of work. Mildred + is steadily improving, and is able to ride on horseback, which she is + beginning to enjoy. Mary and Agnes very well. We see but little of Custis. + He has joined the mess at the institute, which he finds very comfortable, + so that he rarely comes to our table to breakfast now. The rest of the + time he seems to be occupied with his classes and studies. Remember me to + Rob. I hear of a great many weddings, but his has not been announced yet. + He must not forget his house. I have not, and am going to take up the plan + very soon. Mildred says a good house is an effective card in the + matrimonial game. She is building a castle in the air. The Harrisons + propose leaving the Baths to-morrow. George arrived a week ago. I did not + get down Saturday to see them as I wished. I hope the health of the whole + party has been improved. I wish I could spend this month with you. That + lower country is delightful to me at this season, and I long to be on the + water again, but it cannot be. With much love, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “General Wm. H. Fitzhugh Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The last of October he went to Staunton on some business. He rode + Traveller, and Colonel Wm. Allan rode with him. It was the time of the + Augusta Agricultural Fair, and while there he visited the exhibition and + was received by the people with great demonstrations of delight. A student + standing by remarked dryly: + </p> + <p> + “I don’t see why the Staunton people make all this to do over General Lee; + why, in Lexington, he SENDS for me to come to see him!” + </p> + <p> + In a letter of November 2d he mentions this little journey: + </p> + <p> + “...I have recently paid a visit to Staunton and saw the young people + there. They seemed very happy in their fair, and the beaux with their + belles. I rode over on Traveller and was accompanied by Colonel Allan. The + former was delighted at the length of the road, and the latter relieved + from an obstinate cold from which he was suffering. On the second morning, + just as the knights were being marshalled to prove their prowess and + devotion, we commenced our journey back to Lexington, which we reached + before nine P. M., under the light of a beautiful moon.” + </p> + <p> + At this time his son Fitzhugh and his new daughter paid their + long-promised visit, which he enjoyed immensely. My mother and sisters + were charmed with her, and the entire community vied in paying her + attention. My father was proud of his daughter-in-law and much gratified + at his son’s marriage. He was delighted with the manner in which she + adapted herself to the ways of all her new relations, with her sweet + attention to my mother, and, above all, with her punctuality. She had been + warned beforehand by her husband that, to please his father, she must be + always ready for family prayers, which were read every morning by him just + before breakfast. This she succeeded in doing, never failing once to be on + time. As breakfast was at seven o’clock, it was no small feat for one not + accustomed to such early hours. She said afterward that she did not + believe that General Lee would have an entirely high opinion of any + person, even General Washington, if he could return to earth, if he were + not ready for prayers! After a delightful visit of three weeks my brother + and his wife returned home. Just as the latter was packing, my father came + into her room and filled all the space in the top of her trunk with pecan + nuts, which some friends had sent him from the South. + </p> + <p> + The hour fixed for the service in the college chapel was, as I have said, + a quarter to eight o’clock every morning except Sunday. In the three + winter months, December, January, and February, it was one hour later. As + the president never failed to attend, when not prevented by sickness or + absence, it was necessary to have an early breakfast. After chapel he went + to his office and was seated at his desk by eight o’clock, where he + remained, unless called out by public business, till two P.M. This room + was open to all in the college who had business with him. The new students + were required to report to him here in person, and from their first + interviews we obtained a knowledge of the young men of which he availed + himself in their future career in the college. As president, he was always + disposed to be lenient with students who were reported for disorderly + conduct or for failure in their studies or duties. He would say to the + faculty, when they seemed to think it necessary to send a student home: + </p> + <p> + “Don’t you think it would be better to bear with him a little longer? + Perhaps we may do him some good.” + </p> + <p> + Being sent for to this office was anything but pleasant to the students. + Lewis, one of the janitors, went around with the names of those the + president wanted to see, written by his own hand on a long slip of paper. + He carried the paper in one hand, a pencil in the other, and when he could + find the one he wanted in a crowd of his comrades, he took special + pleasure in serving his notice, and would say in his solemn, sepulchral + voice: + </p> + <p> + “Mr. ——, the president wants to see you at the office.” + </p> + <p> + Then Mr. —— took the pencil and made a cross-mark opposite his + name, which was evidence of his having received his summons. What + transpired at these interviews was seldom known, except as the student + himself might reveal it; for unless it became necessary to summon the + delinquent a second time, the president never alluded to the subject. An + old student writes me the following account of his experience in the + president’s office: + </p> + <p> + “I was a frolicsome chap at college, and, having been absent from class an + unreasonable number of times, was finally summoned to the General’s + office. Abject terror took possession of me in the presence of such wise + and quiet dignity; the reasons I had carefully prepared to give for my + absence stood on their heads, or toppled over. In reply to General Lee’s + grave but perfectly polite question, I stammered out a story about a + violent illness, and the conscious that I was at that moment the picture + of health, I hastened on with something about leaving my boots at the + cobbler’s, when General Lee interrupted me: ‘Stop, Mr. M——,’ + he said; ‘stop, sir! ONE GOOD REASON IS ENOUGH.’ But I could not be + mistaken about the twinkle in the old hero’s eyes!” + </p> + <p> + Only a few cases required more than one summons to appear at the office. + No instance is known where a student complained of injustice or harshness, + and the effect on his mind was that of greater respect and admiration for + the president. + </p> + <p> + The new house was approaching completion, and my father was much + interested in the work, going there very often and discussing with the + workmen their methods. That Christmas I spent two weeks in Lexington, and + many times my father took me all over the new building, explaining all the + details of his plan. All of his family were here together this Christmas + except Fitzhugh and his wife, an occurrence rather rare of late years. My + father’s health was unusually good, and he was bright and almost gay. He + rode out often, taking me with him, as it was too cold for the girls. He + also took me around with him visiting, and in the mild festivities of the + neighbours he joined with evident pleasure. My visit ended all too soon, + and the first week of January I started back to the “low country.” Soon + after my departure, he forwarded a letter to me with the accompanying one + of his own: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, January 14, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Rob: The accompanying letter was inclosed to me by Lawrence + Butler [The grandson of Nellie Custis, my grandfather’s sister, who + married Lawrence Lewis, the favourite nephew of Washington] with the + request that I would forward it, as he did not know your address, and urge + you to be present at his wedding. I do not know that I can say more, + except to inform you that he says he has the very girl for you if you will + come on. You must therefore decide the question according to your best + judgment. General Hoke, from North Carolina, has also sent you his + wedding-cards. We have missed you very much since your departure, and + wished you back. I hope you got home comfortably and found all well. Drive + all your work with judgment and energy, and when you have decided about + the house, let me know. Tell Fitzhugh I have signed the insurance policy + and sent it to Mr. Wickham for his signature, with the request that he + forward it to Grubb & Williams. The weather still continues pleasant, + and I fear we shall suffer for it by the late spring. There has so far + been a great lack of snow, and consequently the wheat is exposed to the + great changes of temperature. We are all as you left us. Custis, I think, + looks better. No news. Mail heavy this morning. Love to F—— + and T——. With great affection, + </p> + <p> + “Your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee, Jr.” + </p> + <p> + Some one wrote to General Lee suggesting that General Grant, then + president of the United States, should be invited to Washington College. + His reply was as follows: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, January 8, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Sir: I am much obliged to you for you letter of the 29th ult., + which I am sure has been prompted by the best motives. I should be glad if + General Grant would visit Washington College, and I should endeavour to + treat him with the courtesy and respect due the President of the United + States; but if I were to invite him to do so, it might not be agreeable to + him, and I fear my motives might be misunderstood at this time, both by + himself and others, and that evil would result instead of good. I will, + however, bear your suggestion in mind, and should a favourable opportunity + offer I shall be glad to take advantage of it. Wishing you happiness and + prosperity, I am, Very respectfully, + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + A lady living in New York wrote to General Lee in 1867, asking for a + catalogue of Washington College and a copy of its charter and laws. She + wished also to know whether or not the college was sectarian, and, if so, + of what denomination. She intimated that she desired to make a donation to + some institution of learning, and was rather inclined to select the + Episcopal Theological Seminary, near Alexandria, Virginia. The president + sent her the following reply to her letter: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, June 24, 1867. + </p> + <p> + “Miss Ann Upshur Jones, No. 156 Lafayette Avenue, Brooklyn, N. Y. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Madam: I have had the honour to receive your letter of the 17th + inst., and I send to your address a catalogue of Washington College and a + copy of its charter and laws. On the thirty-seventh page of the former, + and the eleventh of the latter, you will find what is prescribed on the + subject of religion. I do not know that it ever has been sectarian in its + character since it was chartered as a college; but it certainly is not so + now. Located in a Presbyterian community, it is natural that most of its + trustees and faculty should be of that denomination, though the rector, + president, and several of the professors are members of the Episcopal + Church. It is furthest from my wish to divert any donation from the + Theological Seminary at Alexandria, for I am well acquainted with the + merits of that institution, have a high respect for its professors, and am + an earnest advocate of its object. I only give you the information you + desire, and wish you to follow your own preferences in the matter. With + great respect, + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In 1869 she wrote again, stating that she proposed breaking up + housekeeping, that she had no family to whom to give her books, furniture, + and silver, that she did not wish to sell them nor store them away, and + had therefore determined to present them to the “greatest living man,” and + she begged him to accept them, or, if his house was already furnished, to + make use of them in his college. To this letter he replied: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, February 13, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Miss Jones: After long and diligent inquiry I only this moment + learned your address, and have been during this time greatly mortified at + my inability to acknowledge the receipt and disposition of your valuable + and interesting donation to Washington College. The books were arranged in + the library on their arrival, the globes in the philosophical department, + while the furniture, carpets, sofas, chairs, etc., have been applied to + the furnishing of the dais of the audience-room of the new chapel, to the + comfort and ornament of which they are a great addition. I have yet made + no disposition of the plate and tableware, and they are still in the boxes + in which they came. I inclose the resolution of thanks passed by the Board + of Trustees of the College at their annual meeting, to which I beg to add + my personal acknowledgments and grateful sense of your favour and kindness + to this institution. It would give me great pleasure if you would visit + Lexington at the commencement in June next, the third Thursday, that I + might then show you the successful operation of the college. Mrs. Lee + joins me in sentiments of esteem and regard, praying that the great and + merciful God may throw around you His protecting care and love. I am, with + great respect, + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Miss Ann Upshur Jones, No. 38 Union Square, New York.” + </p> + <p> + The plate, tableware, and a curious old work-table, for which no place + could be found in the college, valuable only on account of their antiquity + and quaintness, he finally allowed to be called his own. + </p> + <p> + When my mother hurriedly left her home in the spring of 1861, she found it + impossible to carry away the valuable relics of General Washington which + her father had inherited from Mount Vernon, and which had been objects of + great interest at Arlington for more than fifty years. After the Federal + authorities took possession of the place, the most valuable of these Mount + Vernon relics were conveyed to Washington City and placed in the Patent + Office, where they remained on exhibition for many years labelled + “Captured from Arlington.” They were then removed to the “National + Museum,” where they are now, but the card has been taken off. In 1869, a + member of Congress suggested to my mother that she should apply to + President Johnson to have them restored to her. In a letter from my father + to this same gentleman, this bit of quiet humour occurs: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, February 12, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “...Mrs. Lee has determined to act upon your suggestion and apply to + President Johnson for such of the relics from Arlington as are in the + Patent Office. From what I have learned, a great many things formerly + belonging to General Washington, bequeathed to her by her father, in the + shape of books, furniture, camp equipage, etc., were carried away by + individuals and are now scattered over the land. I hope the possessors + appreciate them and may imitate the example of their original owners, + whose conduct must at times be brought to their recollection by these + silent monitors. In this way they will accomplish good to the country....” + </p> + <p> + He refers to this same subject in a letter to the honourable George W. + Jones, Dubuque, Iowa: + </p> + <p> + “...In reference to certain articles which were taken from Arlington, + about which you inquire, Mrs. Lee is indebted to our old friend Captain + James May for the order from the present administration forbidding their + return. They were valuable to her as having belonged to her + great-grandmother (Mrs. General Washington), and having been bequeathed to + her by her father. But as the country desires them, she must give them up. + I hope their presence at the capital will keep in the remembrance of all + Americans the principles and virtues of Washington....” + </p> + <p> + To the Honourable Thomas Lawrence Jones, who endeavoured to have the order + to restore the relics to Mrs. Lee executed, the following letter of thanks + was written: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, March 29, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “Honourable Thomas Lawrence Jones, + </p> + <p> + “Washington City, District of Columbia. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Sir: I beg to be allowed to tender you my sincere thanks for your + efforts to have restored to Mrs. Lee certain family relics in the Patent + Office in Washington. The facts related in your speech in the House of + Representatives on the 3d inst., so far as known to me, are correct, and + had I conceived the view taken of the matter by Congress I should have + endeavoured to dissuade Mrs. Lee from applying for them. It may be a + question with some whether the retention of these articles is more ‘an + insult,’ in the language of the Committee on Public Buildings, ‘to the + loyal people of the United States,’ than their restoration; but of this I + am willing that they should be the judge, and since Congress has decided + to keep them, she must submit. However, her thanks to you, sir, are not + the less fervent for your kind intercession in her behalf, and with + highest regards, I am, with great respect, + </p> + <p> + “Your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Washington’s opinion of this transaction, if it could be obtained, would + be of interest to many Americans! [These relics were restored to the + family in 1903 by the order of President McKinley.] + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0043" id="link2HCH0043"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XIX — Lee’s Letters to His Sons + </h2> + <p> + The building of Robert’s house—The General as a railroad delegate—Lionised + in Baltimore—Calls on President Grant—Visits Alexandria—Declines + to be interviewed—Interested in his grandson—The Washington + portraits + </p> + <p> + My father, being very anxious that I should build a good house on my farm, + had agreed to supply the necessary means, and was interested in my plans + and estimates. In a letter of February 18th, after a long and full + explanation of the arrangements for the purchase of Smith’s Island by + Fitzhugh and myself, he writes: + </p> + <p> + “...I am glad that you are considering the construction of your house and + taking steps in the matter. Let me know how you advance, the amount of its + cost, etc., and when I can help you.... The fine weather we have had this + winter must have enabled you to advance in your farm work and put you + ahead in that, so you will come out square, I hope. We are as usual, your + poor mother about the same, the girls well, and I tolerable. All unite in + much love. + </p> + <p> + “Truly and affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + A week later he writes to me on the same subject: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, February 27, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Son: I am glad you have obtained a good pair of oxen. Try to get + another pair to work with them. I will make good the deficit in my + contribution. Your fences will be a great advantage to you, and I am + delighted at the good appearance of your wheat. I hope it will continue to + maturity. It is very probable, as you say, however, that it may fail in + the grain. Should you find it so, would it not be well next year to + experiment with phosphates? That must be the quality the land lacks. Have + you yet heard from Mr. West about your house? What are the estimates? Let + me know. The difficulty I fear now will be that the burning of the bricks + may draw you away from your crops. You must try not to neglect them. What + would the bricks cost if purchased? Ask F—— to cut the lumber + for you. I will furnish the funds to pay for it. I hope the break in the + mill will not prove serious, and that you may be able to make up your + delay in plowing occasioned by the necessary hauling. I am very glad to + hear that you and F—— can visit each other so easily. It will + be advantageous to communicate with each other, as well as a pleasure. I + suppose Tabb has not returned to the White House yet. I am delighted to + hear that she and her boy are so well. They will make everything on the + Pamunkey shine. We are all as usual. + </p> + <p> + “General Breckenridge [General John C. Breckenridge, of Kentucky, + ex-secretary of War of the Confederate South, had two sons at Washington + College at this time. One of them was since United States Minister a the + Court of St. Petersburg.] is on a visit to his sons and has been with us + to-day. He will return to Baltimore Monday. He looks well, seems cheerful, + and talks hopefully. All unite in love to you, and your acquaintances + inquire regularly after you. I think of you very often, and wish I were + nearer and could assist you. Custis is in better health this winter than + he has been, and seems content, though his sisters look after him very + closely. I have no news and never have. General B—— saw + Fitzhugh Lee in Alexandria. He told him he was a great farmer now, and + when he was away, his father, who had now taken to the land, showed + uncommon signs of management. Good-bye, my dear son. May you enjoy every + happiness prays your affectionate father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Robert E. Lee, Jr.” + </p> + <p> + The completion of the railroad from the “White House” to “West Point” made + communication between Fitzhugh and myself very easy. On February 11th, my + father had become the proud and happy possessor of a grandson, which event + gave him great joy. Mr. West, an architect of Richmond, had drawn me up + plans and estimates for a house. My father had also sent me a plan drawn + by himself. These plans I had submitted to several builders and sent their + bids to him to examine and consider. In the following letter, he gives me + his opinion: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, March 21, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Rob: I have received your two letters of the 3d and 9th insts., + and would have answered the former before, but had written a few days + before its date, and as our letters had been crossing each other, I + determined to let them get right. + </p> + <p> + “First, as to Smith’s Island, I merely want to fulfil the conditions of + the sale as prescribed in the published notice. I should have required + them of any other purchasers, and must require them of you.... + </p> + <p> + “Now as for the house: The estimates of your bidders are higher than I + anticipated, and I think too high by at least $1,000. You see, there is + about $1,000 difference between the highest and lowest of their offers you + sent me. What does F—— say about it? I am confident that the + could build that house here for but little over $2,000, including + materials, and I could to it there, if I could get two good workmen. But + you are unaccustomed to building, and I would not advise you to undertake + it, unless you could engage a proper foreman. If, therefore, I were in + your place, I should reject all the offers, unless the one you had not + received when you wrote suited better. I would not, however, give up my + house, but procure the bricks either by purchase or by making them on the + ground, as was most advantageous, and the shingles in the same way, and + get all the lumber and flooring prepared. While preparing the necessary + materials, I would see the builder that made the lowest offer, or any + other that I preferred, and get him to revise his estimate and cut it + down, leaving him a margin for profit; and when satisfied with his offer, + accept it and set him to work. + </p> + <p> + “Now as for the means: I understood when you were here that you could + manage the materials—that is, make arrangements for procuring the + bricks, lumber, shingles, and flooring. Indeed, you might also get the + lime and sand cheaper, perhaps, than the builder, and make a deduction on + his bill. I can let you have funds to pay your contractor. If I did not + understand you rightly—that is, if you cannot procure the materials, + I can help you in them too. In fact, if you desire so much, I can let you + have the whole amount, $3,500. you can have the use of it without + interest, and return it to me when I require it, or sooner if you are + able, as I take it from the fund I was saving for a homestead for your + mother. At present, I cannot use it, and it is of no advantage to me, + except its possession. Will that suit you? If it does not, let me know + what will, and you shall have that, too. You must feel that it gives me + pleasure to do anything I can for you, and if I had only myself to + consider, you should have it unconditionally, but I must consider one + person above all. I want you to do, therefore just as you prefer. I want + you to have the comfort of a house, but I do not wish to force one upon + you, against your will or against your judgement. I merely wish you to + feel that you can procure one without inconveniencing me. The only + hesitation I have on the subject is that I think you ought to get a better + house for $3,500 than I fear you will get. The house according to the + first plan, in my opinion, ought not to cost more than that sum. But if + you think the estimate is a fair one, and are satisfied, accept it and set + to work. But consult Fitzhugh, and let me know when you want the money, + and in what sums. Now that is plain, I hope, so keep this letter for + reference, as I have not time to take a copy. + </p> + <p> + “We are all pretty well. Your mother has been troubled by a cold, but is + over it I hope. The girls are well, and have as many opinions with as few + acts as ever; and Custis is so-so. We have had accounts of Lawrence + Butler’s wedding, and all were as gay as a flock of snow-birds. They + regretted your absence. I will ask your mother to send you reports. I am + tolerable and wish I could get down to see you. I had hoped to go down + this spring, but I fear the dilatoriness of the workmen in finishing the + house, and the necessity of my attending to it, getting the ground + inclosed and preparing the garden, will prevent me. I shall also have to + superintend the moving. In fact, it never seems convenient for me to go + away. Give much love to F——, my daughter Tabb, and grandson. I + wonder what he will think of his grandpa. All unite in love, and I am, as + always, + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Robert E. Lee, Jr.” + </p> + <p> + In April, there are two letters written on the same day, to each of his + sons, Fitzhugh and myself. I had determined for many reasons to postpone + building my house for the present, which decision my father regrets. In + the matter of Smith’s Island, the arrangements proposed by my brother and + myself for its purchase was agreed to by him: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, April 17, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Rob: I have written to Fitzhugh, informing him of my agreement to + al the propositions in your joint letter, which I hope will be + satisfactory to you. You can read my letter to him, so I will not repeat. + I am sorry that you have concluded not to build, but if, in your judgment + that is the best course, I must be content. I do not wish you to hamper + yourself with obligations, but to my mind building in the way proposed + would not be onerous to you and would have given you the use of a house + some years prior to the time that you may be able to erect one, and thus + have added to your comfort, health, and probable ability to increase your + resources from your farm. But I hoe you have decided wisely, and should + circumstances occur to cause you to change your views, you must not fail + to let me know; for I shall at all times stand ready to help you to the + extent of my ability, which I am now obliged to husband, lest I may become + a burden to others. I am very glad to learn that your farm is promising + better in the second cultivation of the fields, and feel assured that if + treated judiciously it will recover its fertility and be remunerative. If + you can perceive that you are progressing, though with a slow and regular + step, you have cause for congratulation and encouragement; for there are + many, I am sorry to say, that are worse off now than when they commenced + at the end of the war, and have to begin again. Industry with economy must + prevail in the end. There seems to be a necessity for my going to + Baltimore next Tuesday, but I feel so poorly now that I do not know that I + shall be able. If I do go, it will interfere materially with my proposed + visit to you and Fitzhugh this spring, and I fear will put an end to it. I + shall be obliged to spend some days in Alexandria on my return, and could + not then delay my return here. I hope to see you both some time this + summer, and, if I cannot get to you, you must come to me. I have been + confined to this house for more than a week with a bad cold, the effects + of which still cling to me, and thought I am better this morning, I am + suffering. Your mother, too, I am sorry to say, has been suffering from + the same cause, and has had to resort to medicine, as well as myself. You + know that is bad for old people. Agnes has not been well, but Mildred is + herself, and surrounded by her two fresh broods of kittens she would not + call the king her uncle...God bless you, my dear son, prays + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee, Jr.” + </p> + <p> + The letter to his son Fitzhugh is mostly upon business, but some of it + relates to more interesting matters: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, April 17, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: I expect to go to Baltimore next Tuesday, if well + enough. The Valley Railroad Company are very anxious for me to accompany + their delegation to that city with a view of obtaining from the mayor or + council a subscription for their road, and, though I believe I can be of + no service to them, they have made such a point of it that it would look + ill-mannered and unkind to refuse. I wish I could promise myself the + pleasure of returning by the ‘White House,’ but I cannot. If I go to + Baltimore, I must take time to pay certain visits and must stop a while in + Alexandria. I shall, therefore, from there be obliged to return here. If I + could stop there on my way to Baltimore, which I cannot for want of time, + I would then return by the ‘White House.’ I shall hope, however, to see + you and Rob during the summer, if I have to go down immediately after + commencement. But it is so inconvenient for me to leave home now that I + cannot say.... Poor little Agnes also has been visited by Doctor Barton of + late, but she is on the mend. ‘Life’ holds her own. Both of her cats have + fresh broods of kittens, and the world wags cheerily with her. Custis is + well, and Mary is still in New York, and all unite with me in much love to + you and my daughter Tabb and my grandson. I hope the latter has not formed + the acquaintance of his father in the same manner as Warrington Carter’s + child. + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “General Wm. H. Fitzhugh Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In order to induce the city of Baltimore to aid them in building their + railroad from Staunton to Salem, the Valley Railroad Company got together + a large delegation from the counties through which it was proposed the + line should pass, and sent it to that city to lay the plans before the + mayor and council and request assistance. Among those selected from + Rockbridge County was General Lee. Lexington at this time was one of the + most inaccessible points in Virginia. Fifty miles of canal, or + twenty-three of staging over a rough mountain road, were the only routes + in existence. The one from Lynchburg consumed twelve hours, the other, + from Goshen (a station on the Chesapeake & Ohio Railroad), from seven + to eleven. On one occasion, a gentleman during his first visit to + Lexington called on General Lee and on bidding him good-bye asked him the + best way to get back to Washington. + </p> + <p> + “It makes but little difference,” replied the General, “for whichever + route you select, you will wish you had taken the other.” + </p> + <p> + It was, therefore, the desire of all interested in the welfare of the two + institutions of learning located in Lexington that this road should be + built. My father’s previous habits of life, his nature and his tastes made + him averse to engaging in affairs of this character; but because of the + great advantage tot he college, should it be carried through, and a the + earnest request of many friends of his and of the road, he consented to + act. General John Echols, from Staunton, Colonel Pendleton, from Buchanan, + Judge McLaughlin, from Lexington, were amongst those who went with him. + While in Baltimore he stayed at the house of Mr. and Mrs. Samuel Tagart, + whom he had met several summers at the White Sulphur Springs. + </p> + <p> + The delegation was invited to the floor of the Corn and Flour Exchange, to + meet the business men of the city. My father, for the same reasons given + above, earnestly desired to be excused from this part of the programme, + and asked some of his friends to see Mr. John W. Garrett, the president of + the Baltimore & Ohio Railroad, who had the delegation in charge, and + try to have it so arranged. Mr. Garrett, however, was very positive. + </p> + <p> + “General Lee is a most interesting man; I think he had better come,” was + the message brought back to him. + </p> + <p> + As he appeared on the floor, which was filled with a great crowd, he was + greeted with deafening cheers, and was soon surrounded by the thousands + who had assembled there to see him. Everywhere that he appeared in the + city he received an ovation. Sunday intervening, he attended services in + the morning at St. Paul’s church on Charles Street. When it became known + that General Lee was there, large numbers collected to see him come out, + waiting patiently and quietly until the congregation was dismissed. As he + appeared at the door, all heads were uncovered and kept so until he had + passed through the long lines extending down the street. + </p> + <p> + A reception was given by Mr. Tagart in his honour. There his friends + crowded to see him, and the greatest affection and deference were shown + him. He had lived in Baltimore about twenty years before this time, and + many of his old friends were still there; besides, Baltimore had sent to + the Army of Northern Virginia a large body of her noble sons, who were + only too glad to greet once more their former commander. That he was still + “a prisoner on parole,” disfranchised from all civil rights, made their + love for him stronger and their welcome the more hearty. On his return to + Lexington, he was asked how he enjoyed his visit. With a sad smile, he + said: + </p> + <p> + “Very much; but they would make too much fuss over the old rebel.” + </p> + <p> + A few days after he came home, when one of his daughters remonstrated with + him about the hat he was wearing, he replied: + </p> + <p> + “You don’t like this hat? Why, I have seen a whole cityful come out to + admire it!” + </p> + <p> + There is only a short note to my mother that I can find written during + this trip: + </p> + <p> + “Baltimore, April 27, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I am still at Mr. Tagart’s, but propose going to-morrow to + Ella’s, and thence to Washington’s, which will consume Wednesday and + Thursday. If not obliged to return here, which I cannot tell till this + evening or to-morrow morning, I will then go to Washington, where I shall + be obliged to spend a day or two, and thence to Alexandria, so I shall not + be able to return to Lexington till the last of next week. What has become + of little Agnes? I have seen many of our old friends, of whom I will tell + you on my return. I have bought you a little carriage, the best I could + find, which I hope will enable you to take some pleasant rides. All send + love. Give mine to Mildred, and Custis, and all friends. I am just about + starting to Mrs. Baker’s. + </p> + <p> + “Truly and affectionately, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. M. C. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The “Ella” mentioned was Mrs. Sam George, of Baltimore, who as a girl had + always been a pet and favourite of my father. She was a daughter of his + first cousin, Mr. Charles Henry Carter, of “Goodwood,” Prince George + County, Maryland, and a schoolmate of my sister Mary. Their country place + was near Ellicott City. He went there to see her, and from there to + “Lynwood,” near by, the seat of Washington Peter, my mother’s first cousin + and an intimate friend of us all. + </p> + <p> + On Saturday, my father, accompanied by Mr. and Mrs. Tagart, went to + Washington on an early train. They drove immediately to the Executive + Mansion and called on the President. This meeting was of no political + significance whatever, but simply a call of courtesy. It had been + intimated to General Lee that it would be most agreeable to General Grant + to receive him. Mr. and Mrs. Tagart went with him, and they met there Mr. + Motley, the newly appointed Minister of England. The interview lasted + about fifteen minutes, and neither General Lee nor the President spoke a + word on political matters. While in Washington my father was the guest of + Mrs. Kennon, of Tudor Place, Georgetown Heights. On Sunday he dined with + Mrs. Podestad and her husband, the Secretary of the Spanish Legation, who + were old friends and relatives. + </p> + <p> + After leaving Washington, he stopped in Alexandria for several days, as + the guest of Mrs. A. M. Fitzhugh. It was at her country place, + “Ravensworth,” about ten miles from town, that his mother had died, and + there, in the old ivy-covered graveyard, she was buried. Mrs. Fitzhugh was + the wife of my mother’s uncle, Mr. William Henry Fitzhugh, who, having no + children, had made my mother his heir. The intimacy between “Arlington” + and “Ravensworth” was very close. Since Mr. Fitzhugh’s death, which + occurred some thirty years prior to this time, my father and mother and + their children had been thrown a great deal with his widow, and “Aunt + Maria,” as we called her, became almost a member of the family. She had + the greatest love and admiration for “Robert,” sought his advice in the + management of her estate, and trusted him implicitly. His brother, Admiral + Sidney Smith lee, came up from “Richland,” his home on the Potomac near + Acquia Creek, to meet him, and he found at Mrs. Fitzhugh’s “Aunt Nannie” + [Mrs. S. S. Lee] and her son Fitz. Lee. This was the first time they had + met each other since their parting in Richmond just after the war. + </p> + <p> + On his arrival in Alexandria my father had walked up from the wharf to + “Aunt Maria’s.” He was recognised by a number of citizens, who showed him + the greatest deference and respect. So many of his friends called upon him + at Mrs. Fitzhugh’s that it was arranged to have a reception for him at the + Mansion House. For three hours a constant stream of visitors poured into + the parlours. The reception was the greatest ovation that any individual + had received from the people of Alexandria since the days of Washington. + The next day, in Bishop Johns’ carriage, he drove out to Seminary Hill to + the home of Mr. Cassius F. Lee, his first cousin, where he spent the + night. In the afternoon he went to see the bishop and his family—General + Cooper and the Reverend Dr. Packard. The next morning, with Uncle Smith, + he attended Ascension-Day services at Christ church, and was afterward + entertained at a dinner-party given by Mr. John B. Daingerfield. Before he + left Alexandria he called on Mr. John Janney, who was president of the + Virginia Convention in 1861, when, as Colonel Lee, he appeared before it + and accepted the command of the Virginia forces, organised and to be + organised. + </p> + <p> + One evening a correspondent of the New York “Herald” paid him a visit for + the purpose of securing an interview. The General was courteous and + polite, but very firm. He stood during the interview, and finally + dismissed the reporter, saying: + </p> + <p> + “I shall be glad to see you as a friend, but request that the visit may + not be made in your professional capacity.” + </p> + <p> + The same correspondent had tried to interview him, for his paper, while he + was in Baltimore, but had failed. + </p> + <p> + My father was much amused at an occurance that took place during this + visit. Late one afternoon a visitor was announced. As the General was very + tired, Uncle Smith Lee volunteered to relieve him. The visitor was found + to be an Irishwoman, very stout and unprepossessing, who asked if she + could see the General. The Admiral bowed, intimating that he was the + desired person, when she said: + </p> + <p> + “My boy was with you in the war, honey, and I must kiss you for his sake.” + And with that she gave the Admiral an embrace and a kiss. Mr. Cassius Lee, + to whom he told this, suggested that he should take General Fitz. Lee + along to put forward in such emergencies. + </p> + <p> + My father’s first letter after his return to Lexington was the following: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, May 11, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: I reached here last Saturday, bringing Agnes and Miss + Peyton with me from Staunton. Found everybody well and Custis better. I + had, upon, the whole, a pleasant visit, and was particularly glad to see + again our old friends and neighbours in Alexandria and vicinity; though + should have preferred to enjoy their company in a more quiet way. Your + Uncle Smith came up to meet me, and your Aunt Nannie and Fitz. were there. + I had not seen them since I parted from them in Richmond after the war. I + wish I could have visited you and Rob and have seen my daughter and + grandson; but that pleasure, I trust, is preserved for a future day. How + is the little fellow? I was much relieved after parting from you to hear + from the doctors that it was the best time for him to have the + whooping-cough, in which opinion the ‘Mim’ concurs. I hope that he is + doing well. Bishop Whittle will be here Friday next and is invited to stay + with us. There are to be a great many preparatory religious exercises this + week. A great feeling of religion pervades the young in the community, + especially at the Virginia Military Institute. All send love. + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Since his establishment in Lexington, General Lee had been a member of the + vestry of Grace (Episcopal) church. At the council of 1868, which met at + Lynchburg, he had been sent as a delegate, and spent three days there. + This year the council was to meet in Fredericksburg, and he was again + elected to represent his church. This was a busy time with him. The + examinations were commencing, his new home was about ready to move into, + and the preparations for the commencement exercises had to be made; yet he + accepted the trust imposed upon him by his church and took a week out of + his valuable time to perform it. In his next letter to his son, after + writing on some Smith’s Island business, he tells him of his proposed + journey to Fredericksburg and of his regret at not being able to visit him + as he had intended: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, May 22, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: The weather here has been very hard on the corn-fields, + and I hear of many having to be replanted. The wheat, so far, is very + promising, and I am glad to hear that yours and Rob’s is equally so. I + have been elected by our little church to represent it at the coming + convention, and have concluded to go. I shall leave for Fredericksburg + Tuesday, June 1st, and shall endeavour while there to spend a night with + your Uncle Smith, the only visit I shall be able to make him. It is very + inconvenient for me to be absent at this time. The examination of the + senior classes is in progress, and I must hasten back to attend as many as + I can. The new house is about finished. The contractors say they will + deliver the keys on Monday, the 31st inst. I will make arrangements to + have it cleaned out during the week, so as to be able to move in on my + return. The commencement, a busy time with me, is approaching, and we must + try to be prepared; I shall not, therefore, be able to pay you a visit at + this time, but hope Custis and I will be able to do so after the close of + the session. I met Bishop Whittle at Lynchburg last convention, and was + much pleased with him. My favourable impressions were much strengthened + and increased by this visit here. + </p> + <p> + “I am so glad to learn that my little grandson is getting on so well with + his whooping-cough. You must kiss him and his mother for me. We are all + about the same. Your mother is becoming interested in her painting again, + and is employing her brush for the benefit of our little church, which is + very poor. She yet awhile confines herself to coloring photographs, and + principally to those of General and Mrs. Washington, which are sold very + readily. The girls are well, and have Miss Peyton with them still. Custis, + I hope, is better. He is getting over some of his confinement with his + classes now, which I hope will be of benefit to him. Give my love to + Robert and tell my daughter Tabb I long to see her. All unite with me in + affectionate love. I am, + </p> + <p> + “Truly your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + These photographs that were being coloured by my mother were from the + original portraits of General Washington by Peale and of Mrs. Washington + by W——. These paintings hung at Mt. Vernon until the death of + Mrs. Washington, and were then inherited by my grandfather, Mr. Custis. + They were at “Arlington” till ‘61, when they were removed to + “Ravensworth,” where they remained until the end of the war. When they + were being sent to Lexington, the boat carrying them on the canal between + Lynchburg and Lexington sank. These pictures, with many others belonging + to my mother, were very much injured and had to be sent to a restorer in + Baltimore, who made them as good as ever, and they were finally safely + hung in the president’s house in Lexington, and are now in the library of + the university. My mother coloured the photographs of these originals, and + sold a great many, on account of their association rather than their + merit. + </p> + <p> + There must have been some change of date in my father’s plans, for though + he said he would start on June 1st for Fredericksburg, his first and only + letter from there was written on May 28th: + </p> + <p> + “Fredericksburg, May 28, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I reached here Tuesday night, the night after the morning I + left you, about twelve o’clock and found Major Barton at the depot, who + conducted me to his house. The town seems very full of strangers, and I + have met many acquaintances. I have seen no one yet from ‘Cedar Grove,’ + and cannot learn whether any of them are coming. They are no doubt in + distress there, for you may have heard of the death of Charles Stuart, on + his way from Arkansas. He died at Lynchburg of congestive chills. Harriott + Cazenove (his sister) went on to see him, but he died before her arrival. + Rosalie, I heard, was at ‘Cedar Grove,’ Turbeville in Essex. I have + delivered all your packages but Margaret’s. Cassius Lee and all from the + seminary are here. Sally came up from Gloucester, and also Mrs. + Taliaferro. But I must tell you of all occurrences upon my return, and of + all whom I have met. All friends inquire very particularly and + affectionately after you, particularly your cousin, Mrs. ——, + who turns up every day at all assemblies, corners, and places, with some + anxious question on her mind upon which some mighty—thought to me + hidden—importance depends. Fitz. Lee arrived to-day, though I have + not seen him yet. If I can accomplish it, I will go to ‘Richland’ + to-morrow, Saturday, and spend Sunday, and take up my line of march + Monday, in which event I hope to reach Lexington Wednesday morning, or + rather Tuesday night, in the stage from Goshen. I may not be able to get + away from the council before Monday. In that case, I shall not arrive + before Wednesday night. Tell the girls there are quantities of young girls + here and people of all kinds. I hope that you are all well, and that + everything will be ready to move into our new house upon my arrival. I am + obliged to stop. I am also so much interrupted and occupied that, though I + have tried to write ever since my arrival, I have been unable. Love to + all. + </p> + <p> + “Very affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “Cedar Grove” was the plantation of Dr. Richard Stuart, in King George + County, some fifty miles from Fredericksburg. His wife, a Miss Calvert, of + “Riversdale,” Maryland, was a near cousin of my mother, had been her + bridesmaid, and the two families had been intimate all their lives. All + the persons mentioned by my father were cousins and friends, several of + them old neighbours from Alexandria and the Theological Seminary near by. + </p> + <p> + From Fredericksburg, after the completion of his duties at the council, he + went to “Richland” on the Potomac, near Acquia Creek, where his brother + Smith was then living. This meeting was a great pleasure to them both, for + two brothers were never more devoted. This was the last time they saw one + another alive, as Smith died two months afterward. + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0044" id="link2HCH0044"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XX — The New Home in Lexington + </h2> + <p> + Numerous guests—Further sojourns at different Baths—Death of + the General’s brother, Smith Lee—Visits to “Ravensworth” and “The + White House”—Meetings with interesting people at White Sulphur + Springs—Death of Professor Preston + </p> + <p> + On my father’s return to Lexington the new house was ready. It adjoined + the one he had been occupying, so the distance was not great and the + transfer was easily accomplished. It was much larger and more comfortable + than the one given up. My mother’s room was on the first floor and opened + out on the veranda, extending three sides of the house, where she could + she could be rolled in her chair. This she enjoyed intensely, for she was + very fond of the open air, and one could see her there every bright day, + with Mrs. “Ruffner,” a much petted cat, sitting on her shoulder or cradled + in her lap. My father’s favourite seat was in a deep window of the + dining-room, from which his eyes could rest on rolling fields of grass and + grain, bounded by the ever-changing mountains. After his early and simple + dinner, he usually took a nap of a few minutes, sitting upright in his + chair, his hand held and rubbed by one of his daughters. There was a new + stable, warm and sunny, for Traveller and his companion, “Lucy Long,” a + cow-house, wood-shed, garden, and yard, all planned, laid out, and built + by my father. The increased room enabled him to invite a great number to + visit him, and this summer the house was full. + </p> + <p> + In answer to a letter from me on business, which reached him during + commencement week, he writes: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Viriginia, June 19, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Son: I have just receive your letter of the 10th, and have only + time for a word.... I hope all things are going well with you both. With + the improvement of your farm, proceeds will increase, and, with + experience, judgment, and economy, will augment greatly. You will have to + get married if you wish to prosper, and must therefore make arrangements + to build your house this fall. If I live through this coming week, I wish + to pay you and F—— a visit the week following, about July 1st. + I am trying to persuade Custis to accompany me, but he has not yet + responded. I am very much occupied with examinations, visitors, + arrangements, etc. + </p> + <p> + “All are well, and would send love if accessible. Mildred is full of + housekeeping and dresses, and the house is full of young ladies—Misses + Jones, Albert, Burwell, Fairfax, and Wickham; others in expectation. + Good-bye, + </p> + <p> + “Affectionately your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Robert E. Lee, Jr. + </p> + <p> + Ten days later, he writes to his son, Fitzhugh, giving up his proposed + visit to him at this time, expressing his regrets at the necessity, and + telling his reasons for so doing: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Viriginia, June 30, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: This is the day that I had proposed to visit you, but I + find it impossible to get away. I find a great deal to do in closing up + the past session and in preparing for the new. In addition, our college + officers have all been changed—proctor, clerk, treasurer, librarian—and + the new incumbents enter upon their duties to-morrow. I shall have to be + with them some days to initiate and install them. That would only delay + me, but then on the 15th proximo the Educational Association of Virginia + will meet here, and I should not be able to return in time. As I have + never attended any of their meetings when elsewhere, if I were to go away + when appointed here it would look as if I wished to avoid them, which is + not the case. After that is over, I must locate your poor mother at the + Baths [Rockbridge Baths], which she has made up her mind to visit, and + prepare to go myself to the White Sulphur, the waters of which I want to + drink for three or four weeks. So I do not see how I could get to the + Pamunkey before fall. I want to get there very much to see you all, and, + as far as my personal predilections are concerned, would rather go there + than to the White; but the doctors think it would not be so beneficial to + me, and I am obliged now to consider my health. I propose, therefore, that + you bring Tabb and the baby up to the mountains and leave them either at + the Baths with ‘the Mim’ or with me, if you cannot remain. Tell Rob, if he + can, he must also come and see us. If he were here, now, he would find + very pleasant company, Misses Jones, Albert, Kirkland, Burwell, Fairfax, + and Wickham, all in the house, with others out of it. They are so much + engaged with the collegiates that Custis and I see but little of them, but + he could compete with the YEARLINGS, which we cannot. Tell my daughter + Tabb, her father is here, very well, and dined with us yesterday. Give my + much love to grandson. He must not forget me. I have a puppy and a kitten + for him to play with. All send love. + </p> + <p> + “Truly your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “General William H. Fitzhugh Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In a letter dated Lexington, Viriginia, July 9th, he gives a further + account of his plans for the summer: + </p> + <p> + “...I have delivered your letter to Mildred, who has just returned from a + visit to the University of Virginia, where she saw a great many persons + and met with a great deal of pleasure. She ought to be, and I believe is, + satisfied with commencements for this year, having participated in three. + I am sorry to tell you that I cannot go down to the Pamunkey this summer + as I had intended;... I had hoped to be able, after the conclusion of the + commencement exercises of Washington College, to visit the Pamunkey, and + to return by the 15th inst. so as to be present at the Convention of the + Teachers of Virginia, which assembles here on that day; but I was detained + here so long that I found I would be unable to accomplish what I desired. + Custis, who was to have accompanied me, will go down in a day or two.... + </p> + <p> + “About the 20th of this month I shall go to the Rockbridge Baths with Mrs. + Lee, who wishes to try the waters again, and after seeing her comfortably + located, if nothing prevents, I shall go with Mildred and Agnes to the + White Sulphur for a few weeks.... It is delightfully quiet here now. Both + institutions have closed, and all are off enjoying their holiday. I should + like to remain, if I could. Colonels Shipp and Harding have gone to get + married, report says. Colonel Lyle and Captain Henderson, it is said, will + not return. Captain Preston having been appointed professor at William and + Mary, we shall necessarily lose him, but Colonel Allen will be back, and + all the rest. We are as well as you left us. The girls had several friends + at commencement. All have departed except Miss Fairfax and Miss Wickham. + The election is over and the town tranquil.” + </p> + <p> + The quiet and rest which he so much desired, and which he was enjoying + when he wrote, did not long remain his. He had just gotten my mother + comfortably settled at the Baths, when he received the news of the sudden + death of his brother Smith. He went at once to Alexandria, hoping to be in + time for the burial. From there he writes my mother: + </p> + <p> + “Alexandria, July 25, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I arrived here last evening, too late to attend the burial + of my dear brother, an account of which I have clipped from the Alexandria + Gazette and inclose to you. I wish you would preserve it. Fitz. and Mary + went up to ‘Ravensworth’ the evening of the funeral services, Friday, 23d, + so that I have not seen them, but my nephew Smith is here, and from him I + have learned all particulars. The attack of his father was short, and his + death apparently unexpected until a short time before it occurred. Mary + [General Lee’s eldest daughter] was present, and I hope of some comfort to + her uncle and assistance to her aunt. Fitz. came here the afternoon of his + father’s death, Thursday, 22d, made all arrangements for the funeral, went + out to ‘Ravensworth’ to announce the intelligence to our aunt. He carried + down, Friday morning, on the steamer, Mrs. Cooper and Jennie, to stay with + his mother, and returned that afternoon with his father’s remains, which + were committed to earth as you will see described. + </p> + <p> + “John returned the next morning, yesterday, in the mail-boat, to his + mother, with whom Dan stayed. Robert arrived this morning and has gone to + ‘Ravensworth’ to announce my arrival. I shall remain here until I see or + hear from Fitz., for, as you will see by the Gazette’s account, the last + resting-place of the body has not been determined upon. Fitz., I + understand, wishes it interred at Hollywood, Richmond; Nannie a the + cemetery here, where her father, mother, and daughter are buried; and Mrs. + Fitzhugh at ‘Ravensworth.’ I think Nannie’s wishes should be consulted. I + shall probably leave to-day or to-morrow, and, after seeing all that + remains to us of our dear brother deposited in its last earthly home, and + mingling my sorrow for a brief season with that of his dear wife and + children, I shall return to you. Please send the letter after perusal to + Agnes and Mildred, as I shall be unable to write to them. I am staying at + the Mansion House. Our Aunt Maria did not come down to the funeral + services, prevented, I fear, by her rheumatic attack. May God bless us all + and preserve us for the time when we, too, must part, the one from the + other, which is now close at hand, and may we all meet again at the + foot-stool of our merciful God, to be joined by His eternal love never + more to separate. + </p> + <p> + “Most truly and affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. M. C. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The loss of his brother was a great sorrow to him. They were devoted to + each other, having always kept warm their boyish love. Smith’s admiration + for and trust in my father were unbounded, and it was delightful to see + them together and listen to the stories of the happy long ago they would + tell about each other. No one could be near my Uncle Smith without feeling + his joyful influence. My sister Mary, who knew him long and well, and who + was much attached to him, thus writes: + </p> + <p> + “No one who ever saw him can forget his beautiful face, charming + personality, and grace of manner which, joined to a nobility of character + and goodness of heart, attracted all who came in contact with him, and + made him the most generally beloved and popular of men. This was + especially so with women, to whom his conduct was that of a preux + chevalier, the most chivalric and courteous; and, having no daughters of + his own, he turned with the tenderest affection to the daughters of his + brother Robert.” + </p> + <p> + After all the arrangements connected with this sad event had been + completed, my father went up to “Ravensworth” to see “Aunt Maria,” who had + always been a second mother to his brother. There, amid the cool shades of + this lovely old home, he rested for a day or two from the fatigues of + travel and the intense heat. During this visit, as he passed the room in + which his mother had died, he lingered near the door and said to one + present: + </p> + <p> + “Forty years ago, I stood in this room by my mother’s death-bed! It seems + now but yesterday!” + </p> + <p> + While here he determined to go back to Lexington via Richmond, and to run + down thence to the “White House” to see his grandson. He arrived there on + Friday, July 30th. On Sunday he wrote to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “White House, New Kent, August 1, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I arrived here on Friday last and found them all well. Our + daughter Tabb has not been altogether well, and shows its effects. Her + baby, I think, would also be improved by mountain air. I have therefore + persuaded her to accompany me and join you at the Baths. We shall leave + Richmond, if nothing prevents, on Tuesday morning, 3d inst., and hope to + reach the Baths that evening in the stage from Goshen. I have written to + Mr. Peyton, requesting him to prepare a good room for Tabb and her little + family as near you as convenient, and trust we may reach there in health + and comfort at the time appointed. I hope I shall find you well and + comfortable, and Markie in the enjoyment of every good. How are the poor + little children? My previous letters will have informed you of everything + important. I will supply all omissions when I see you. Custis is here, + much improved. I have not yet seen Rob. Farmers here are threshing out + their wheat, which occupies them closely. Fitzhugh’s is turning out well, + and he hopes to gather a fair crop. Robert came up last Wednesday with his + friend Mr. Dallam, and went down Thursday. He was very well. Custis + arrived Saturday week. Mr. Kepler is here and will preach at St. Peter’s + this morning. I hope to attend. Mr. Kepler says his health is much + improved. Fitzhugh doses him with cholagogue. Good-bye. Affectionately + yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + St. Peter’s was the old Colonial church a few miles away, in which General + Washington and Mrs. Custis were married about one hundred years prior to + this time. Mr. Kepler, the pastor, preached there twice a month. He lived + in Richmond, and, to keep him free from fever-and-ague, my brother dosed + him freely with cholagogue whenever he came down into the malarial + country. I came up from Romancoke Sunday morning, arriving in time to be + present at the christening of my nephew, which ceremony was decided on + rather hurriedly in order that the grandfather might stand as godfather. + After returning from the morning service at St. Peter’s, where we all + went, it was decided that the mother and child should go to the mountains + with my father. As there were some preparations for the summer to be made, + his daughter and her baby went to Petersburg that afternoon, agreeing to + meet the General in Richmond Monday night and start for the Rockbridge + Baths Tuesday morning. On Monday, he writes to a friend, with whom he had + intended to stop for a day on his way back to Lexington: + </p> + <p> + “White House, New Kent County, August 1, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “...I had promised myself the pleasure of seeing you on my way to + Lexington, of spending with you one short day to cheer and refresh me; but + I shall travel up in a capacity that I have not undertaken for many years—as + escort to a young mother and her infant, and it will require the + concentration of all my faculties to perform my duties even with tolerable + comfort to my charge.... I go up with my daughter, I may say this time, + too, my youngest daughter [his daughter-in-law, Mrs. W. H. F. Lee], to + place her with her mama at the Rockbridge Baths, the waters of which I + hope will invigorate both mother and child, who have been wearied and + weakened by the long attack of whooping-cough from which the latter has + suffered. I came down from Richmond to spend Sunday and was fortunate + enough to find here my three sons, but I am sorry to say but one + daughter.... Most truly yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Monday night was spent in Richmond. It was soon known that General Lee was + at the Exchange Hotel, and great numbers came to call upon him, so that he + was compelled to hold an informal reception in the large parlours. The + next day, with his “new daughter” and her baby, he started for the Baths, + where they arrived safely the same night. Then he proceeded to carry out + his original plan for the summer, and went with his two daughters to the + White Sulphur Springs. From there he writes to his wife: + </p> + <p> + “White Sulphur Springs, Greenbrier County, West Virginia, + </p> + <p> + “August 10, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I received this morning your addenda to Annie Wickham’s + letter inclosing Custis’s. I also received by same mail a letter from Mr. + Richardson, reiterating his request to insert my portrait in my father’s + Memoirs, saying that it was by the desire ‘of many mutual friends’ on the + ground of its ‘giving additional interest to the work, and increasing its + sale.’ That may or may not be so; at any rate, I differ from them. + Besides, there is no good portrait accessible to him, and the engraving in + the ‘Lee Family’ I think would be an injury to any book. His recent + proposition of inserting my portrait where the family history is given + takes from it a part of my obligation, and if it were believed that such + an addition would add to the interest of the book, I should assent. I have + so told him, and that I would write to you for your suggestions, and to + ask whether you could send him a portrait worth inserting. What do you + think? + </p> + <p> + “There is to be a grand concert her to-night for the benefit of our church + in Lexington. It is gotten up by Miss Mary Jones and other kind people + here, and the proposition is so favourably received that I hope a handsome + sum will be realised. + </p> + <p> + “The girls are well. I do not know how long they will continue so. They + seem to be foot-free. A great many visitors were turned off last night—no + room for them! A grand ball in honour of Mr. Peabody is to come off + to-morrow, after which it is supposed there will be more breathing-space. + I have seen Mr. and Mrs. Charles Ridgely of ‘Hampton’ since I wrote, also + numerous other acquaintances. I should prefer more quiet. How is my + daughter Tabb? Mother and son are improving, I trust. I hope you and + Markie are also doing well. No change in myself as yet. The girls would + send love if I could find them. Affectionately yours, + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. R. E. Lee. R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + A few days later he writes: + </p> + <p> + “White Sulphur Springs, August 14, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I received last night your letter of the 13th—very + prompt delivery—and ma very glad to learn of the well-doing of all + with you. I am particularly pleased to hear that our daughter and grandson + are improving, and should you find them not benefiting I wish you would + urge them to try some other springs, for I have it greatly to heart that + they should receive all possible advantage from their summer trip. I hope + Markie will be benefited by the Red Sweet. The water is considered a great + tonic, but I fear none will be warm enough for her but the HOT. If I + cannot get over to see her, I will notify her of our departure from here, + which will be in about two weeks. I have received a letter from Fitz. Lee, + saying that Mary would leave ‘Richlands’ last Tuesday, 10th inst., for + ‘Ravensworth,’ which I presume she did, as his letter was postmarked that + day at Acquia Creek, and was probably mailed by him, or one of the boys, + on putting her aboard the mail-boat. You will be glad to learn that the + proceeds of the concert for our church at Lexington netted $605, which has + been subsequently increased to $805 by Messrs. Corcoran and Peabody with a + donation of $100 from each. For all of this I am extremely grateful. + </p> + <p> + “As regards the portrait for Mr. Richardson, you must do as you please. I + shall not write to him any more on the subject. Unless the portrait is + good and pleasing, I think it will be an injury to the book. I have had a + visit since commencing this letter from a Mr. William BATH, of New + Orleans, who showed me a wreath, made in part, she says, of my, your and + Mildred’s hair, sent her by you more than two years ago. She says she sent + you a similar one at the time, but of this I could tell her nothing, for I + recollect nothing about it. She says her necessities now compel her to put + her wreath up to raffle, and she desired to know whether I had any + objection to her scheme, and whether I would head the list. All this, as + you may imagine, is extremely agreeable to me, but I had to decline her + offer of taking a chance in her raffle. + </p> + <p> + “Miss Mary Jones has gone to the Sweet. Tell Miss Belle I wish she were + coming here. I shall be glad to see Mrs. Caskie. Mildred has her picture. + The girls are always busy at something, but never ready. The Stuarts have + arrived. Mrs. Julia is improving perceptibly. Love to all. + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The “Markie” referred to in each of the above letters was Martha Custis + Williams, a great-niece of my grandfather, Mr. Custis, who had for many + years lived at Arlington with her uncle. The “little children” were her + motherless nieces, whom she had brought that summer to the mountains for + their health. General Lee had been engaged for some time in bringing out a + third edition of his father’s “Memoirs of the War of ‘76 in the Southern + States.” It was now in the hands of his publisher, Mr. Richardson, of New + York. To this edition he had added a sketch of the famous “Light Horse + Harry,” written by himself. It was to his publisher’s proposition of + placing his portrait in the “Introduction” to the new work that he at + first objected, and then agreed, as stated in the two letters just given. + The season of ‘69 is still noted in the annals of the White Sulphur as + having had in its unusually large company so many noted and distinguished + men. Mr. George Peabody and Mr. W. W. Corcoran, the two great + philanthropists, were among them and helped to enlarge the receipts of the + concert for the benefit of the little Episcopal church in Lexington, of + which General Lee was a member and a vestryman. + </p> + <p> + by the last of August he was back again in Lexington, making arrangements + for the home-coming of his wife and her party from the Baths. Here is part + of another letter written soon after his arrival home, some lines of which + (apparently relating to the servants) have been partially obliterated by + time: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, August 31, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I received this evening your note by Miss Mays. You had + better come up whenever agreeable to your party...we can only try them and + make the best of them. Alice, when she gets well, will return if wanted. + If Cousin Julia [Mrs. Richard Stuart, of ‘Cedar Grove’] will return with + you, you can see her here as well as there, and we can all have that + pleasure. If she will not, you had better remain with her as long as she + will stay. Mrs. Pratt died to-day at 12:30 P. M. + </p> + <p> + “I received a letter to-day from Edward Childe saying that he and Blanche + would leave Liverpool in the ‘Fava’ on September 4th, and after spending a + few days in the North, would come to Lexington. He will probably reach + Boston about September 15th, so that they may be expected here from the + 20th to the 30th of September. I am anxious for them to see our daughter + and grandson and all our sons. Give my best love to all with you. The + girls would send love, but a ‘yearling’ and a ‘leader of the herd’ + [“Yearling” was a term that originated with us just after the war (when + many of the students were ex-soldiers), to distinguish the real boys from + the “Confeds.” From that expression, a professor came to be called a + “leader of the herd.” It was a form of speech that we had kept up amongst + ourselves.] occupy them. Affectionately yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. M. C. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + This session of Washington College opened with very favourable prospects. + The number of students was larger than ever before, every southern, and + some northern States being represented. The new chairs of instruction + which had been instituted were now in good working order, their professors + were comfortably established, and the entire machinery of the institution + was running well and smoothly. The president commenced to see some of the + results of his untiring energy and steady work. He had many plans which + lack of funds prevented him from carrying out. One of them was a School of + Commerce in which a student, while following the branches which would + discipline and cultivate the mind, might also receive special instruction + and systematic training in whatever pertained to business in the largest + sense of the term. Another was a School of Medicine, the plan for which, + with full details, was drawn up under his eye, and kept in readiness until + the funds of the institution should permit of its being carried into + effect. + </p> + <p> + His meeting with Mr. Peabody at the White Sulphur Springs attracted that + gentleman’s attention to the college and to his work as its president. To + a request for his photograph to be placed in the Peabody Institute among + the friends of its founder, he sends with the likeness the following note: + </p> + <p> + “Washington College, Virginia, September 25, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “F. Poole, Secretary Peabody Institute, Peabody, Massachusetts. + </p> + <p> + “Dear Sir: In compliance with your request, I send a photograph of myself, + the last that has been taken, and shall fell honoured in its being placed + among the ‘friends’ of Mr. Peabody, for, though they can be numbered by + millions, yet all can appreciate the man who was illustrated his age by + his munificent charities during his life, and by his wise provisions for + promoting the happiness of his fellow-creatures. + </p> + <p> + “Very respectfully, your obedient servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + My father’s family was now comfortably established in their new home, and + had the usual number of friends visiting them this autumn. In due time + Edward Childe, Blanche, and “Duckie,” their little dog, arrived and + remained for a week or two. The last-named member of the party was of + great interest. He was very minute, very helpless, and received more + attention than the average baby. He had crossed the Atlantic in fear and + trembling, and did not apparently enjoy the new world. His utter + helplessness and the great care taken of him by his mistress, his + ill-health and the unutterable woe of his countenance greatly excited my + father’s pity. After he went away, he often spoke of him, and referred to + him, I find, in one of his letters. During this trip to America, Edward + and his wife, carrying the wretched “Duckie” with them, paid their visit + to the “White House.” + </p> + <p> + This autumn the “little carriage” my father mentioned having purchased for + my mother in Baltimore was put into use. He frequently drove out in it + with my mother, his new daughter, and grandson. “Lucy Long,” under his + guidance, carefully carried them over the beautiful hills around + Lexington. One afternoon, while paying a visit with his daughter, Tabb, to + Colonel William Preston Johnston, who lived two miles down the river, in + pulling up a steep ascent to the front door, “Lucy” fell, choked into + unconsciousness by too tight a collar. My father jumped out, hastily got + off the harness, and on perceiving the cause of the accident reproached + himself vehemently for his carelessness and thoughtlessness. He was very + much distressed at this accident, petted his mare, saying to her in + soothing tones that he was ashamed of himself for having caused her all + this pain after she had been so faithful to him. + </p> + <p> + His rides on Traveller in which he delighted so much were not so frequent + now. He was not so strong as he had been through the spring and summer, + and, indeed, during November he had a very severe attack of cold, from + which he did not recover for several weeks. However, during the beautiful + days of October he was often seen out in the afternoons on his old gray. + His favourite route was the road leading to the Rockbridge Baths. A year + previous to this time, he would sometimes go as far as the Baths and + return in an afternoon, a trip of twenty miles. A part of this road led + through a dense forest. One afternoon, as he told the story himself, he + met a plain old soldier in the midst of these woods, who, recognising the + General, reined in his horse and said: + </p> + <p> + “General Lee, I am powerful glad to see you, and I feel like cheering + you.” + </p> + <p> + The General replied that this would not do, as they were all alone, only + two of them, and there would be no object whatever in cheering. But the + old soldier insisted that he must, and, waving his hat about his head, + cried out: + </p> + <p> + “Hurrah for General Lee!” and kept repeating it. As the General rode away + he continued to hear the cheers until he was out of sight. + </p> + <p> + On another afternoon, as Professors White and Nelson, taking a horseback + ride, approached the summit of a long hill, they heard behind them the + sound of a horse’s feet running rapidly. In a few moments General Lee + appeared on Traveller at full speed. On joining his friends he reined up + and said: + </p> + <p> + “I thought a little run would be good for Traveller.” + </p> + <p> + He often gave his horse a “breather,” as he called it. The animal was so + strong and powerful that he chafed at restraint, and, unless ridden + regularly and hard, had a very disagreeable, fretful trot. After a good + gallop up one of the long Rockbridge hills he would proceed at a quiet + walk. + </p> + <p> + The tenderness in my father’s heart for children I have already often + remarked upon. One afternoon two little girls, the daughters of two of his + professors, were riding on a gentle old horse up and down one of the back + streets of the town, fearing to go too far from home. The General, + starting out on his afternoon ride, came up with them, and knowing them + well, said gaily: + </p> + <p> + “Come with me, little girls, and I will show you a beautiful ride.” + </p> + <p> + Only too delighted, they consented to go. He took them out beyond the + fair-grounds, from which point there is one of the grandest stretches of + mountain scenery in the world. One of the little maidens had her face tied + up, as she was just recovering from the mumps. He pretended that he was + much alarmed lest his horse should catch them from her, and kept saying: + </p> + <p> + “I hope you won’t give Traveller the mumps!” and “What shall I do if + Traveller gets the mumps?” + </p> + <p> + An hour later, this party was seen returning, the two little girls in + sun-bonnets on the one old, sleepy horse, and General Lee by their side on + Traveller, who was stepping very proudly, as if in scorn of his lowly + companion. My father took the children to their homes, helped them + dismount, took a kiss from each, and, waving a parting salute, rode away. + It was such simple acts of kindness and consideration that made all + children confide in him and love him. + </p> + <p> + Soon after the attack of cold mentioned above, he writes to his son + Fitzhugh, then at the “White House” with his family: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, December 2, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh:... Your letters to Custis told us of your well-doing. I + want to see you all very much, and think the sight of my daughter and + grandson would do me good. I have had a wretched cold, the effects of + which have not left me, but I am better. The doctors still have me in + hand, but I fear can do no good. The present mild weather I hope will be + beneficial, enabling me to ride and be in the open air. But Traveller’s + trot is harder to me than it used to be and fatigues me. We are all as + usual—the women of the family very fierce and the men very mild. + Custis has been a little unwell, but is well regulated by his sisters. + Neither gaiety nor extravagance prevails amongst us, and the town is + quiet. Our community has been greatly grieved at the death of Mr. Frank + Preston, to whom I was much attached and for whom I had a high esteem. + Give my love to Bertus. Tell him I hope Mrs. Taylor will retain one of her + little daughters for him. She always reserves the youngest of the flock + from Custis, as he is not particular as to an early date. + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “General William H. F. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Frank Preston, at the time of his death, was professor of Greek at William + and Mary College. He had been, prior to his appointment to that position, + an assistant professor at Washington College. He was a native of + Lexington, a son of Colonel Thomas L. Preston, who was for so long a time + professor at the Virginia Military Institute. A brilliant scholar, trained + in the best German universities, and a gentleman in the highest sense of + the word. Frank had served his State in the late war, and had left an arm + on the heights of Winchester. On hearing of his death, President Lee + issued the following announcement: + </p> + <p> + “Washington College, November 23, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “The death of Professor Frank Preston, a distinguished graduate, and late + Associate Professor of Greek in this college, has caused the deepest + sorrow in the hearts of the institution. + </p> + <p> + “Endowed with a mind of rare capacity, which had been enriched by diligent + study and careful cultivation, he stood among the first in the State in + his pursuit in life. + </p> + <p> + “We who so long and so intimately possessed his acquaintance, and so fully + enjoyed the privilege of his companionship, feel especially his loss, and + grieve profoundly at his death; and we heartily sympathise with his + parents and relations in their great affliction, and truly participate in + the deep sorrow that has befallen them. + </p> + <p> + “With the view of testifying the esteem felt for his character and the + respect due to his memory, all academic exercises will be suspended for + the day, and the faculty and students are requested to attend in their + respective bodies his funeral services at the Presbyterian church, at + eleven o’clock, to pay the last sad tribute of respect to his earthly + remains, while cherishing in their hearts his many virtues. + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee, President.” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0045" id="link2HCH0045"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XXI — Failing Health + </h2> + <p> + The General declines lucrative positions in New York and Atlanta—He + suffers from an obstinate cold—Local gossip—He is advised to + go South in the spring of 1870—Desires to visit his daughter Annie’s + grave + </p> + <p> + After General Lee had accepted the presidency of Washington College, he + determined to devote himself entirely to the interest and improvement of + that institution. From this resolution he never wavered. An offer that he + should be a the head of a large house to represent southern commerce, that + he should reside in New York, and have placed at his disposal an immense + sum of money, he declined, saying: + </p> + <p> + “I am grateful, but I have a self-imposed task which I must accomplish. I + have led the young men of the South in battle; I have seen many of them + die on the field; I shall devote my remaining energies to training young + men to do their duty in life.” + </p> + <p> + To a request from some of his old officers that he should associate + himself with a business enterprise in the South, as its president, he + replied with the following letter: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, December 14, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “General J. B. Gordon, President, “Southern Life Insurance Company, + Atlanta, Georgia. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear General: I have received your letter of the 3d inst., and am duly + sensible of the kind feelings which prompted your proposal. It would be a + great pleasure to me to be associated with you, Hampton, B. H. Hill, and + the other good men whose names I see on your list of directors, but I feel + that I ought not to abandon the position I hold at Washington College at + this time, or as long as I can be of service to it. Thanking you for your + kind consideration, for which I know I am alone indebted for your + proposition to become president of the Southern Life Insurance Company, + and with kindest regards to Mrs. Gordon and my best wishes for yourself, I + am, + </p> + <p> + “Very truly yours, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + His correspondence shows that many like positions were made to him. + </p> + <p> + The Christmas of ‘69, neither my brother nor myself was with him. Knowing + of our plans in that respect, he wrote before the holidays to Fitzhugh, + wishing us both the compliments of the season and a pleasant time in the + visits we were going to make: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, December 18, 1869. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: I must begin by wishing you a pleasant Christmas and + many, many Happy New Years, and may each succeeding year bring to you and + yours increasing happiness. I shall think of you and my daughter and my + grandson very often during the season when families are generally united, + and though absent from you in person, you will always be present in mind, + and my poor prayers and best wishes will accompany you all wherever you + are. Bertus will also be remembered, and I hope that the festivities of + ‘Brandon’ will not drive from his memory the homely board at Lexington. I + trust that he will enjoy himself and find some on to fill that void in his + heart as completely as he will the one in his—system. Tell Tabb that + no one in Petersburg wants to see her half as much as her papa, and now + that her little boy has his mouth full of teeth, he would not appear so + LONESOME as he did in the summer. If she should find in the ‘Burg’ a + ‘Duckie’ to take his place, I beg that she will send him up to me. + </p> + <p> + “I duly received your letter previous to the 12th inst., and requested + some of the family who were writing about that time to inform you. When I + last wrote, I could not find it on my table and did not refer to it. ‘The + Mim’ says you excel her in counting, if you do not in writing, but she + does not think she is in your debt. I agree with you in your views about + Smith’s Island, and see no advantage in leasing it, but wish you could + sell it to advantage. I hope the prospects may be better in the spring. + Political affairs will be better, I think, and people will be more + sanguine and hopeful. You must be on the alert. I wish I could go down to + see you, but think it better for me to remain here. To leave home now and + return during the winter would be worse for me. It is too cold for your + mother to travel now. She says she will go down in the spring, but you + know what an exertion it is for her to leave home, and the inconvenience + if not the suffering, is great. The anticipation, however, is pleasing to + her and encourages hope, and I like her to enjoy it, though am not + sanguine that she will realise it. Mildred is probably with you, and can + tell you all about us. I am somewhat reconciled to her absence by the + knowledge of the benefit that she will be to Tabb. Tell the latter that + she [Mildred] is modest and backward in giving advice, but that she has + mines of wealth on that subject, and that she [Tabb] must endeavour to + extract from her her views on the management of a household, children, + etc., and the proper conduct to be observed toward husbands and the world + in general. I am sure my little son will receive many wise admonitions + which he will take open-mouthed. I have received a letter from your Uncle + Carter telling me of his pleasant visit to you and of his agreeable + impressions of his nephew and new niece. He was taken very sick in + Richmond and delayed there so long that he could not be present at Wm. + Kennon’s wedding, and missed the festivities at his neighbour Gilliam’s + and at Norwood. Indeed, he had not recovered his strength when Lucy wrote + a few days ago, and her account makes me very uneasy about him. I am glad + Rob has so agreeable a neighbour as General Cooke, and I presume it is the + North Carolina brigadier [A Virginian—son of General St. George + Cooke, of the Federal Army, who commanded a North Carolina brigade in A. + P. Hill’s corps, A. N. Va.]. When you go to Petersburg, present my kind + regards to Mr. and Mrs. Bolling, ‘Miss Melville,’ and all friends. All + here unite with me in love to you, Tabb, and the boy, in which Mildred is + included. + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “General William H. F. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + In a note, written the day after, acknowledging a paper sent to him to + sign, he says: + </p> + <p> + “...I wrote to you yesterday, Saturday, in reply to your former letter, + and stated the reasons why I could not visit you. Your mother has received + Mildred’s letter announcing her arrival in Richmond and will write to her + there. I can only repeat my love and prayers that every blessing may + attend you and yours. We are as usual. + </p> + <p> + “Truly and affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “General William H. F. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The attack of cold from which my father suffered in October had been very + severe. Rapid exercise on horseback or on foot produced pain and + difficulty in breathing. After he was considered by most of his friends to + have gotten well over it, it was very evident to his doctors and himself + that there was a serious trouble about the heart, and he often had great + weariness and depression. He complained but little, was often very bright + and cheerful, and still kept up his old-time fun and humour in his + conversation and letters, but his letters written during this year to his + immediate family show that he was constantly in pain and had begun to look + upon himself as an invalid. To Mildred, who was in Richmond on a visit to + friends, he writes jokingly about the difficulty experienced by the family + in finding out what she meant in a letter to him: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, January 8, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Life: I received you letter of the 4th. We held a family + council over it. It was passed from eager hand to hand and attracted + wondering eyes and mysterious looks. It produced few words but a deal of + thinking, and the conclusion arrived at, I believe unanimously, was that + there was a great fund of amusement and information in it if it could be + extracted. I have therefore determined to put it carefully away till your + return, seize a leisure day, and get you to interpret it. Your mother’s + commentary, in a suppressed soliloquy, was that you had succeeded in + writing a wretched hand. Agnes thought that it would keep this cold + weather—her thoughts running on jellies and oysters in the + storeroom; but I, indignant at such aspersions upon your accomplishments, + retained your epistle and read in an elevated tone an interesting + narrative of travels in sundry countries, describing gorgeous scenery, + hairbreadth escapes, and a series of remarkable events by flood and field, + not a word of which they declared was in your letter. Your return, I hope, + will prove the correctness of my version of your annals.... I have little + to tell. Gaiety continues. Last night there was a cadet hop. Night before, + a party at Colonel Johnston’s. The night preceding, a college + conversazione at your mother’s. It was given in honour of Miss Maggie + Johnston’s visit of a few days to us. You know how agreeable I am on such + occasions, but on this, I am told, I surpassed myself. + </p> + <p> + “On New year’s Day the usual receptions; many of our friends called. Many + of my ancients as well as juniors were present, and all enjoyed some good + Norfolk oysters. I refer you to Agnes for details. We are pretty well. I + think I am better. Your mother and sisters as usual. Custis busy with the + examination of the cadets, the students preparing for theirs. Cadet Cook, + who was so dangerously injured by a fall from his window on the 1st, it is + hoped now will recover. The Misses Pendleton were to have arrived this + morning, and Miss Ella Heninberger is on a visit to Miss Campbell. Miss + Lizzie Letcher still absent. Messrs. Anderson, Baker, W. Graves, Moorman, + Strickler, and Webb have all been on visits to their sweethearts, and have + left without them. ‘Mrs. Smith’ is as usual. ‘Gus’ is as wild as ever + [“Mrs. Smith” and “Gus” were the names of two of the pet cats of my + sister. “Gus” was short for Gustavus Adolphus.]. We catch our own rats and + mice now, and are independent of cats. All unite in love to you. + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Miss Mildred Lee.” + </p> + <p> + A month later he writes again to this daughter in the same playful strain, + and sends his remembrances to many friends in Richmond: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, February 2, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Life: Your letter of the 29th ultimo, which has been four + days on the road, reached me this morning, and my reply, unless our mails + whip up, will not get to you before Sunday or Monday. There is no danger, + therefore, of our correspondence becoming too brisk. What do the young + girls do whose lovers are at Washington College or the Institute? Their + tender hearts must always be in a lacerated and bleeding condition! I hope + you are not now in that category, for I see no pining swains among them, + whose thoughts and wishes are stretching eagerly toward Richmond. I am + glad you have had so pleasant a visit to the Andersons. You must present + my regards to them all, and I hope that Misses Ellen and Mary will come to + see you in the summer. I am sure you will have an agreeable time at Brook + Hill. Remember me to all the family, and tell Miss Belle to spare my + friend Wilkins. He is not in a condition to enjoy the sufferings which she + imposes on her Richmond beaux. Besides, his position entitles him to + tender treatment. + </p> + <p> + “I think it time that you should be thinking of returning home. I want to + see you very much, and as you have been receiving instruction from the + learned pig, I shall expect to see you much improved. We are not reduced + to apply to such instructors at Lexington. Here we have learned professors + to teach us what we wish to know, and the Franklin Institute to furnish us + lectures on science and literature. You had better come back, if you are + in search of information on any subject. I am glad that Miss ‘Nannie’ Wise + found one occasion on which her ready tongue failed her. She will have to + hold it in subjection now. I should like to see Miss Belle under such + similar circumstances, provided she did not die from suppressed ideas. + What an awful feeling she must experience, if the occasion should ever + come for her to restrain that active member! Although my friend Wilkins + would be very indulgent, I think he would want her to listen sometimes. + Miss Pendleton has just been over to give us some pleasing news. Her + niece, Miss Susan Meade, Philip’s daughter, is to be married next month to + a Mr. Brown, of Kentucky, who visited her two year ago upon the + recommendation of the Reverend Charles Page, found her a school-girl, and + has waited until she became a woman. He is rich, forty-nine, and has six + children. There is a fair start in the world for a young woman! I + recommend her example to you. We are all as usual, and ‘Mrs. Smith’ is + just the same. Miss Maggie Johnston, who has been staying with us + occasionally for a few days at a time, is now on a visit to us. There is + to be an anniversary celebration of the societies of the Institute on + Friday, and a student’s party on Monday night, and a dance at the College + Hotel. To-morrow night your mother has an evening for some young students. + Gaiety will never cease in Lexington so long as the ladies are so + attractive and the men so agreeable. Surprise parties are the fashion now. + Miss Lucy Campbell has her cousin, Miss Ella Heninberger, staying with + her, who assists her to surprise and capture too unwary youths. I am sorry + to hear of Mrs. Ould’s illness. If you see her, present me most kindly to + her; also to Mrs. George Randolph. Do beware of vanilla cream. Recollect + how far you are from home, and do not tamper with yourself. Our + semi-annual examination has been in progress for a fortnight. We shall + conclude on Saturday, which will be a great relief for me, for, in + addition to other things, I have to be six hours daily in the examination + rooms. I was sorry that I could not attend Mr. Peabody’s funeral, but I + did not feel able to undertake the journey, especially at this season. I + am getting better, I hope, and feel stronger than I did, but I cannot walk + much farther than to the college, though when I get on my horse I can ride + with comfort. Agnes accompanies me very often. I must refer you to her and + your mother for all local news. Give my love to Fitzhugh, and Tabb, and + Robert when you see them, and for yourself keep an abundance. I have + received letters from Edward and Blanche. They are very anxious about the + condition of political affairs in France. Blanche sent you some receipts + for creams, etc. You had better come and try them. + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Miss Mildred Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The following letter to his son, Fitzhugh, further shows his tender + interest in his children and grandson: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Viriginia, February 14, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh:...I hope that you are all well and that you will not + let any one spoil my grandson. Your mother has written all the family and + Lexington news. She gathers much more than I do. I go nowhere but to the + college, and when the weather permits I ride in the mountains. I am + better, I think, but still troubled. Mildred, I hope, is with you. When + she gets away from her papa, she does not know what she wants to do, tell + her. You have had a fine winter for work, and later you will have a + profitable season. Custis is well and very retired; I see no alarming + exhibition of attention to the ladies. I have great hopes of Robert. Give + much love to my daughter Tabb and to poor little ‘Life.’ I wish I could + see you all; it would do my pains good. Poor little Agnes is not at all + well, and I am urging her to go away for a while. Mary as usual. + </p> + <p> + “Affectionately your father, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “General W. H. F. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + After waiting all winter for the improvement in his health, my father, + yielding at last to the wishes of his family, physician, and friends, + determined to try the effect of a southern climate. It was thought it + might do him good, at any rate, to escape the rigours of a Lexington + March, and could do no harm. In the following letters to his children he + outlines his plans and touchingly alludes to the memory of his daughter + Annie, who died in 1862 and was buried at Warrenton Springs, North + Carolina: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, March 21, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Daughter: The doctors and others think I had better go to the + South in the hope of relieving the effects of the cold, under which I have + been labouring all the winter. I think I should do better here, and am + very reluctant to leave home in my present condition; but they seem so + interested in my recovery and so persuasive in their uneasiness that I + should appear obstinate, if not perverse, if I resisted longer. I + therefore consented to go, and will take Agnes to Savannah, as she seems + anxious to visit that city, or, perhaps, she will take me. I wish also to + visit my dear Annie’s grave before I die. I have always desired to do so + since the cessation of active hostilities, but have never been able. I + wish to see how calmly she sleeps away from us all, with her dear hands + folded over her breast as if in mute prayer, while her pure spirit is + traversing the land of the blessed. I shall diverge from the main route of + travel for this purpose, and it will depend somewhat upon my feelings and + somewhat upon my procuring an escort for Agnes, whether I go further + south. + </p> + <p> + “I am sorry not to be able to see you before I go, but if I return, I hope + to find you here well and happy. You must take good care of your mother + and do everything she wants. You must not shorten your trip on account of + our departure. Custis will be with her every day, and Mary is with her + still. The servants seem attractive. Good-bye, my dear child. Remember me + to all friends, and believe me, + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Miss Mildred Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, March 22, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: Your letter of the 17th inst. has been received. Lest I + should appear obstinate, if not perverse, I have yielded to the kind + importunities of my physicians and of the faculty to take a trip toward + the South. In pursuance of my resolution, I shall leave here Thursday next + in the packet-boat, and hope to arrive in Richmond on Friday afternoon. I + shall take with me, as my companion, Agnes, who has been my kind and + uncomplaining nurse, and if we could only get down to you that evening we + would do so, for I want to see you, my sweet daughter, and dear grandson. + But as the doctors think it important that I should reach a southern + climate as soon as practicable, I fear I shall have to leave my visit to + you till my return. I shall go first to Warrenton Springs, North Carolina, + to visit the grave of my dear Annie, where I have always promised myself + to go, and I think, if I accomplish it, I have no time to lose. I wish to + witness her quiet sleep, with her dear hands crossed over her breast, as + if it were in mute prayer, undisturbed by her distance from us, and to + feel that her pure spirit is waiting in bliss in the land of the blessed. + From there, according to my feelings, I shall either go down to Norfolk or + to Savannah, and take you if practicable on my return. I would ask you to + come up to Richmond, but my movements are unknown to myself, as I cannot + know the routes, schedules, etc., till I arrive there, but I have promised + not to linger there longer than necessary; so I must avoid temptation. We + are all as usual. Your mother still talks of visiting you, and when I urge + her to make preparations for the journey, she replies rather disdainfully + she has none to make; they have been made years ago. Custis and Mary are + well, and Mildred writes that she will be back by April 1st. We are having + beautiful weather now, which I hope may continue. From + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + To his daughter Mildred he writes again, giving her the minutest details + as to the routes home. This is very characteristic of him. We were always + fully instructed, all the roads of life were carefully marked out for us + by him: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, March 23, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Daughter: I wrote to you the other day, telling you of my + intention of going South and of my general plan as far as formed. This + morning your letter of the 21st arrived.... I hope you will get back + comfortably and safely, and if you can fall in with no escort, you had + better go as far as Alexandria, the first stage of your journey. Aunt + Maria, Cassius Lee, the Smiths, etc., would receive you. If you wish to + come by Goshen, you must take the train from Alexandria on Tuesday, + Thursday, or Saturday, so as to arrive here about twelve o’clock at night. + By taking the train from Alexandria on the alternate days, Monday, + Wednesday, or Friday, you will reach Staunton that evening by four P. M., + remain all night, and come over by daylight the following day in the + stage. By taking the train from Alexandria to Lynchburg, Mondays, + Wednesdays, or Fridays, you will reach there the same afternoon, about + four P. M., then go IMMEDIATELY to the packet-boat, and you will arrive + here next morning. This last is the EASIEST route, and the best if you + find no escort. Tell all the conductors and captains that you are my + runaway daughter, and they will take care of you. I leave to-morrow + evening on the packet-boat. I told you that Agnes would accompany me. Tell + my cousins Washington, Jane, and Mary that I wish I were going to see + them. I should then anticipate some pleasure. But the doctors say I must + turn my face the other way. I know they do not know everything, and yet I + have often had to do what I was told, without benefit to myself, and I + shall have to do it again. Good-bye, my dear daughter. All unite in love. + </p> + <p> + “Your affectionate father, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Miss Mildred Lee.” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0046" id="link2HCH0046"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XXII — The Southern Trip + </h2> + <p> + Letters to Mrs. Lee from Richmond and Savannah—From Brandon—Agnes + Lee’s account of her father’s greetings from old friends and old soldiers—Wilmington + and Norfolk do him honour—Visits to Fitzhugh and Robert in their + homes + </p> + <p> + It is to be regretted that so little was written by my father while on + this trip. In the letters extant he scarcely refers to his reception by + the people at different points visited. His daughter Agnes tells more, and + we can imagine how tenderly and joyfully he was greeted by his old + soldiers, their wives, children and friends. He was very unwilling to be + made a hero anywhere, and most reluctant to show himself to the crowds + assembled at every station along his route, pressing to catch sight of + him. + </p> + <p> + “Why should they care to see me?” he would say, when urged to appear on + the platform of the train; “I am only a poor old Confederate!” + </p> + <p> + This feeling, natural to him, was probably intensified at that time by the + state of his health. On Sunday he writes to my mother of his trip to + Richmond and of his stay there: + </p> + <p> + “Richmond, Virginia, March 29, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I reached here Friday afternoon, and had a more comfortable + journey than I expected. The night aboard the packet was very trying, but + I survived it, and the dust of the railroad the following day. Yesterday + the doctors, Huston, McCaw, and Cunningham, examined me for two hours, and + I believe, contemplate returning to-day. They say they will make up their + opinion and communicate it to Doctor Barton, who will write me what to do. + In the meantime they desire me to continue his prescriptions. I think I + feel better than when I left Lexington, certainly stronger, but am a + little feverish. Whether it is produced by the journey, or the toddies + that Agnes administers, I do not know. I have not been able to see + anybody, nor was I able to get the groceries yesterday. Agnes thinks you + will have enough to last till I get back here, when I will select them and + send them up. Should you want any particular article, write to Messrs. + Bacon & Lewis for it. I saw, yesterday morning, Mr. John Stewart and + Miss Mary [Miss Mary Stewart, of “Brook Hill,” afterward Mrs. Thomas + Pinckney, of South Carolina.], who had called to see Agnes but found she + was out. Miss Mary looked very sweet, and inquired about you all. Agnes + rode out there yesterday afternoon and saw all the family. I am told all + our friends here are well. Many of my northern friends have done me the + honour to call on me. Among them ‘Brick Pomeroy.’ The like to see all that + is going on. Agnes has gone to church with Colonel Corley. I was afraid to + go. The day is unfavourable, and I should see so many of my old friends, + to whom I would like to speak, that it might be injurious to me. I was in + hopes that Fitzhugh might make his appearance yesterday, when we should + have learned all about those below, but he did not. I hear that they are + all well, however. I expect to continue our journey to-morrow, if nothing + prevents, though I have not yet got the information I desire about the + routes. Still, I will get on. I will leave to Agnes to tell about herself. + Love to all, Truly, R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The next letter that I find is written from Savannah: + </p> + <p> + “Savannah, Georgia, April 2, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I reached here yesterday evening and have borne the journey + much better than I expected. I think I am stronger than when I left + Lexington, but otherwise can discover no difference. I have had a tedious + journey upon the whole, and have more than ever regretted that I undertook + it. However, I have enjoyed meeting many friends, and the old soldiers + have greeted me very cordially. My visit to dear Annie’s grave was + mournful, yet soothing to my feelings, and I was glad to have the + opportunity of thanking the kind friends for their care of her while + living and their attention to her since her death. I saw most of the + ladies of the committee who undertook the preparation of the monument and + the inclosure of the cemetery, and was very kindly received by all the + citizens of Warrenton, and, indeed, at all the towns through which we + passed. Yesterday, several gentlemen from Savannah met the train in which + we came from Augusta—General Lawton, Mr. Andrew Lowe, Mr. Hodgson, + etc., etc. I found they had arranged among themselves about my sojourn, so + I yielded at once, and, after depositing Agnes at General Lawton’s, I came + off to Mr. Lowe’s, where I am now domiciled. His house is partially + dismantled and he is keeping house alone, so I have a very quiet time. + This morning I took a short drive around the city with Agnes and Miss + Lawton, and on returning called on Mrs. Elliot, who has her two widowed + daughters living with, Mrs. Elliot and Mrs. Habersham. I also went to see + Mrs. Gordon, Mrs. Gilmer, and Mrs. Owen, and then returned to the Lowes’, + where I find he has invited some gentlemen to meet me at dinner—General + Joe Johnston, General Lawton, General Gilmer, Colonel Corley, etc. Colonel + Corley has stuck to me all the journey, and now talks of going to New + Orleans. The weather to-day is rather cool and raw, with an easterly wind, + and if it continues I will go on to Florida next week. The woods are + filled with flowers, yellow jasmine covering all the trees, etc., and + fresh vegetables everywhere. I must leave Agnes to give you all the + details. The writing-desk is placed in a dark corner in this handsome + house, prepared for younger eyes than mine, and I can hardly see what I + write. All friends inquire after you, Custis, Mary, and Mildred. Give my + love to all, and believe me, + </p> + <p> + “Most truly, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The Colonel Corley mentioned in the above letters had been on General + Lee’s staff, as chief quartermaster, from the time he assumed command of + the Army of Northern Virginia until the surrender. His voluntary service + as escort on this trip, so delicately offered and performed, was highly + appreciated by his old commander. A letter from his daughter to her + mother, written the next day tells many particulars of their journey, but + still leaves much to be desired: + </p> + <p> + “Savannah, Georgia, April 3, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “...I hardly know where to commence, I have so little time to write. We + left Richmond Monday, 2 P. M. We reached Warrenton at ten o’clock and were + taken to their house by Mr. and Mrs. White, who met us at the depot. The + next morning papa and I drove with Captain White’s horses to the cemetery. + Mrs. White gave me a quantity of beautiful white hyacinths, which she said + were for you, too, and I had brought some grey moss that Kitty Stiles had + given me. This I twined on the base of the monument. The flowers looked + very pure and beautiful. The place is just as it is in Mr. Hope’s picture + (which I have). It was a great satisfaction to be there again. We did not + go to the springs, a mile off. Returning, we stopped at Mr. Joe Jones’s + (old Mr. J——‘s son). They insisted on our taking dinner. He + has eleven children, I think, and there were numberless others there. They + loaded me with flowers, the garden full of hyacinths and early spring + flowers. Mrs. Jones is a very nice lady, one of those who were foremost in + erecting the monument. We then stopped at the farm of the Jones’s, who + were at the springs when we were there in the autumn of 1862, and Mrs. J—— + knew me at once, and asked affectionately after you. Saw Patty and Emma—all + the daughters married except Patty and the youngest. Mr. J—— + is very infirm—eighty-three years old. That evening a number of + persons came to see us, Mrs. Alston and Miss Brownlow, two others of the + committee of ladies. Every one was very kind. Indeed, I wish you could + travel with papa, to see the affection and feeling shown toward him + everywhere. We spent that night in the sleeping-car, very handsome and + comfortable, but the novelty, I suppose, made us wakeful. At Raleigh and + another place the people crowded to the depot and called ‘Lee! Lee!’ and + cheered vociferously, but we were locked up and ‘mum.’ Everywhere along + the road where meals were provided the landlords invited us in, and when + we would not get out, sent coffee and lunches. Even soldiers on the train + sent in fruit, and I think we were expected to die of eating. At Charlotte + and Salisbury there were other crowds and bands. Colonel Corley joined us + at C., having asked to go to Savannah with us. The train stopped fifteen + minutes at Columbia. Colonel Alexander Haskell took charge of the crowd, + which in spite of the pouring rain, stood there till we left. General E. + Porter Alexander was there, and was very hearty in his inquiries after all + of us. His little girl was lifted into the car. Namesakes appeared on the + way, of all sizes. Old ladies stretched their heads into the windows at + way-stations, and then drew back and said ‘He is mightily like his + pictures.’ We reached Augusta Wednesday night. The mayor and council met + us, having heard a few minutes before that papa was on the train. We were + whirled off to the hotel, and papa decided to spend Thursday there. They + had a reception the whole of the morning. Crowds came. Wounded soldiers, + servants, and working-men even. The sweetest little children—namesakes—dressed + to their eyes, with bouquets of japonica—or tiny cards in their + little fat hands—with their names. Robert Burwell, of Clarke, who + married Miss Clayton there; Randall, author of ‘My Maryland’; General + McLaws, Wright, Gardner, and many others. Saw the Misses Boggs, General B——‘s + sisters. Miss Rebecca knew Mrs. Kirkpatrick very well, and asked after + her. Miss Russell, with whose father and sisters we had been at the White + Sulphur, helped us to receive. She is very tall and handsome, and was + superb in a white lace shawl, a moire-antique with a train. The Branch + brothers rather took possession of me. Melville, who was at the Institute + [Virginia Military Institute, Lexington, Virginia] and knew the Letchers + very well, drove me in and around town—at the rate of a mile a + minute. Another brother took me to the ‘Skating Rink’ at night...a + serenade that night. At some point on the way here Generals Lawton and + Gilmer, Mr. Andrew Lowe, and others, got on the cars with us. Flowers were + given us at various places. I so much enjoyed the evidences of spring all + along our route—more and more advanced as we proceeded. The jasmine, + though passing away, was still in sufficient abundance, in some places, to + perfume the air. The dark marshes were rich in tall magnolia trees, + beautiful red buds, and other red blossoms I did not know. The jasmine and + the trees hanging with gray moss—perfectly weird-looking—have + been the least luxuriant places in the interim. Savannah is green with + live-oaks—and filled with trees and shrubbery. I wish you could see + a large marble table in the parlour, where I am writing, with a pyramid of + jasmine in the centre and four large plates full at the corners, almost + covering the square, all sent me Saturday. The Lawtons are as kind as + possible, wanted papa to stay here, but Mr. Andrew Lowe had arranged to + take him to his house at bed-time. So he lost the benefit of a serenade + from two bands, alternating, which we enjoyed—General Lawton telling + the crowd General Lee had retired from fatigue. Papa has borne the journey + and the crowds far better than I thought he would and seems stronger. + (Monday.) It seems impossible to finish this—I inclose some scraps + which will tell our story. Crowds of persons have been coming to see me + ever since I came. Saw Mrs. General Johnston—Nannie Hutchenson—of + course, and Reverend and Mrs. Moore yesterday. They left to-day.... + Colonel Corley has taken Corinne [Corinne Lawton] and me on a beautiful + drive this morning to ‘Bonaventure,’ which is to be a cemetery, and to + several places in its vicinity. I never saw anything more impressive and + beautiful than the avenues of live-oaks, literally covered with long gray + moss, arching over the roads. Tell Messrs. Owen and Minis I have seen + their families, who are very kind to us. General and Mrs. Gilmer asked + especially after Custis.... We think of going to Florida in a few days. + Haven’t heard from you. + </p> + <p> + “Agnes.” + </p> + <p> + This is the only letter from his daughter Agnes, written at this time, + that can be found. My father, in his letters to his family, left “details” + and “particulars” for her to describe, and doubtless she did so. + Unfortunately, there is but this single letter. + </p> + <p> + On April 17th, he writes again from Savannah to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I have received your letter of the Wednesday after our + departure and am glad to hear that you are well and getting on so + comfortably. The destruction of the bridge is really a loss to the + community, and I fear will inconvenience Mildred in her return. However, + the spring is now advancing and they ought to be able to get up the new + bridge. I hope I am a little better. I seem to be stronger and to walk + with less difficulty, but it may be owing to the better streets of + Savannah. I presume if any change takes place it will be gradual and slow. + Please say to Doctor Barton that I have received his letter and am obliged + to him for his kind advice. I shall begin to-day with his new + prescriptions and will follow them strictly. To-morrow I expect to go to + Florida, and will stop first at Amelia Island. The visitors to that region + are coming out, saying the weather is uncomfortably hot. If I find it so, + I shall return. Savannah has become very pleasant within the last few + days, and I dare say I shall do as well here as elsewhere. The spring, + however, is backward. I believe I told you that I was staying with Mr. + Andrew Lowe, who is very kind, and where I am very comfortable. I am going + to be separated from Agnes, and have received invitations from several of + the inhabitants where we could be united. But it is awkward to change. + Agnes has been sick, too, since her arrival, which has made me the more + anxious to be with her. You know she is like her papa—always wanting + something. She is, however, better to-day, as I learn, though I have not + seen her yet. I saw her twice yesterday. She was better then and came down + to Mrs. Lawton’s room, so I hope she will be well enough to go with me to + Amelia Island. The Messrs. Mackay got down from Etowa last evening, both + looking very well, and have reopened their old house in Broughton Street, + which I am glad of. I have see Mrs. Doctor Elliot and family, the + Andersons, Gordons, etc., etc., and all my former acquaintances and many + new ones. I do not think travelling in this way procures me much quiet and + repose. I wish I were back.... Give my love to her [his daughter Mary] and + to Custis, and tell the latter I hope that he will be able to keep Sam in + the seeds he may require. Praying a merciful God to guard and direct you + all, I am, + </p> + <p> + “Most affectionately, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “P. S.—I received a letter from F——: all well. + </p> + <p> + “R. E. L.” Sam was the gardener and man-of-all-work at Lexington. My + father took great interest in his garden and always had a fine one. Still, + in Savannah, he again writes to his wife acknowledging the letters + forwarded to him and commenting on the steps being taken: + </p> + <p> + “Savannah, Georgia, April 11, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I received yesterday your letters of the 3d and 6th, + inclosing Reverend Mr. Brantley’s and daughter’s and Cassius Lee’s. I + forwarded the petition to the President, accompanying the latter, to + Cassius, and asked him to give it to Mr. Smith. Hearing, while passing + through Richmond, of the decision of the Supreme Court referred to, I sent + word to Mr. Smith that if he thought the time and occasion propitious for + taking steps for the recovery of Arlington, the Mill, etc., to do so, but + to act quietly and discreetly. I presume the petition sent you for + signature was the consequence. I do not know whether this is a propitious + time or not, and should rather have had an opportunity to consult friends, + but am unable to do so. Tell Custis that I wish that he would act for me, + through you or others, for it is mainly on his account that I desire the + restitution of the property. I see that a resolution has been introduced + in Congress ‘to perfect the title of the Government to Arlington and other + National Cemeteries,’ which I have been apprehensive of stirring, so I + suppose the matter will come up anyhow. I did not sign the petition, for I + did not think it necessary, and believed the more I was kept out of sight + the better. We must hope for the best, speak as little and act as + discreetly as possible. + </p> + <p> + “The reverend Dr. Brantley was invited by the faculty of the college to + deliver the baccalaureate sermon next June, and I invited him and his + daughter, in the event of his accepting, to stay with us. Do you know + whether he has accepted? I should have gone to Florida last Friday as + proposed, but Agnes was not well enough. She took cold on the journey or + on her first arrival, and has been quite sick, but is better now. I have + not seen her this morning, but if she is sufficiently recovered we will + leave here to-morrow. I have received a message saying that she was much + better. As regards myself, my general health is pretty good. I feel + stronger than when I came. The warm weather has also dispelled some of the + rheumatic pains in my back, but I perceive no change in the stricture in + my chest. If I attempt to walk beyond a very slow gait, the pain is always + there. It is all true what the doctors say about its being aggravated by + any fresh cold, but how to avoid taking cold is the question. It seems + with me to be impossible. Everything and anything seems to give me one. I + meet with much kindness and consideration, but fear that nothing will + relieve my complaint, which is fixed and old. I must bear it. I hope that + you will not give over your trip to the ‘White House,’ if you still desire + to make it. I shall commence my return above the last of April, stopping + at some points, and will be a few days in Richmond, and the ‘White House’ + if able. I must leave to Agnes all details. Give much love to Custis, + Mary, and Mildred. Tell the latter I have received her letters. Remember + me to all friends. + </p> + <p> + “Most sincerely yours, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + After visiting Cumberland Island and going up to the St. John’s River as + far as Palatka, and spending the night at Colonel Cole’s place near there, + they returned to Savannah. Colonel Cole was on General Lee’s staff as + chief commissary during the time he commanded the Army of Northern + Virginia, and was a very dear friend of us all: + </p> + <p> + “Savannah, Georgia, April 18, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I have received your letter of the 13th, and am glad to + learn that you propose visiting the ‘White House,’ as I feared my journey + might prevent you. I am, however, very anxious on the subject, as I + apprehend the trip will be irksome and may produce great inconvenience and + pain. I hope you received my letter of the 11th, written just before my + departure for Florida. In case you did not, I will state that I forwarded + your petition to Cassius Lee as received, not thinking my signature + necessary or advantageous. I will send the money received from the + ‘University Publishing Company’ to Carter, for whom I intend it [This was + the money that came to General Lee from his new edition of his father’s + “Memoirs of the War in the Southern Department of the United States.”]. I + returned from Florida Saturday, 16th, having had a very pleasant trip as + far as Palatka on the St. John’s. We visited Comberland Island, and Agnes + decorated my father’s grave with beautiful fresh flowers. I presume it is + the last time I shall be able to pay to it my tribute of respect. The + cemetery is unharmed and the grave is in good order, though the house of + Dungeness has been burned and the island devastated. Mr. Nightingale, the + present proprietor, accompanied me from Brunswick. Mr. Andrew Lowe was so + kind as to go with us the whole way, thinking Agnes and I were unable to + take care of ourselves. Agnes seemed to enjoy the trip very much, and has + improved in health. I shall leave to her all details. We spent a night at + Colonel Cole’s, a beautiful place near Palatka, and ate oranges from the + trees. We passed some other beautiful places on the river, but could not + stop at any but Jacksonville, where we remained from 4 P. M. to 3 A. M. + next morning, rode over the town, etc., and were hospitably entertained by + Colonel Sanderson. The climate was delightful, the fish inviting and + abundant. We have returned to our old quarters, Agnes to the Lawtons’ and + I to the Lowe’s. We shall remain here this week, and will probably spend a + few days in Charleston and Norfolk, if we go that way, and at ‘Brandon’ + and ‘Shirley’ before going to the ‘White House,’ where we shall hope to + meet you. I know of no certain place where a letter will catch me before I + reach Richmond, where the doctors desire me to spend a few days that they + may again examine me. Write me there whether Fitzhugh is too full to + receive us. It will depend upon my feelings, weather, etc., whether I make + the digression by Norfolk. Poor little Agnes has had, I fear, but little + enjoyment so far, and I wish her to have all the pleasure she can gather + on the route. She is still weak and seems to suffer constantly from the + neuralgia. I hope I am better, I know that I am stronger, but I still have + the pain in my chest whenever I walk. I have felt it also occasionally of + late when quiescent, but not badly, which is new. To-day Doctors Arnold + and Reed, of this city, examined me for about an hour. They concur in the + opinion of the other physicians, and think it pretty certain that my + trouble arises from some adhesion of the parts, not from injury of the + lungs and heart, but that the pericardium may not be implicated, and the + adhesion may be between the pleura and ——, I have forgotten + the name. Their visit was at the urgent entreaty of friends, which I could + not well resist, and perhaps their opinion is not fully matured. I am + continuing the prescriptions of Doctors Barton and Madison. My rheumatic + pains, either from the effects of the medicine or the climate, or both, + have diminished, but the pain along the breast bone ever returns on my + making any exertion. I am glad Mildred has returned so well. I hope that + she will continue so. After perusal, send this letter to one of the + children to whom you may be writing, that Doctors Barton, etc., may be + informed how I am getting along, as I have been unable to write to them or + to any one at Lexington. I have so many letters to write in answer to kind + invitations, etc., and so many interruptions, that my time is consumed. + Besides, writing is irksome to me. Give my love to Fitzhugh, Tabb, and + Robert and to Custis, Mary, and Mildred when you write. Agnes said she was + going out to return some of her numerous visits to-day, and I presume will + not be able to write. She has had but little comfort in her clothes. Her + silk dress was spoiled on the way, and she returned it to Baltimore, but + has learned that they can do nothing with it, so she will have to do + without it, which I presume she can do. I hope you may reach the ‘White + House’ comfortably. I will apprise you of my movements from time to time. + I hope my godson will know you. Tell him I have numbers of his namesakes + since I left Virginia, of whom I was not aware. I hope they will come to + good. + </p> + <p> + “With great affection, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + From the following letters—all that I can find relating to this part + of the journey—it appears that the travellers started for Virginia, + stopping at Charleston, Wilmington, and Norfolk. Of their visit to + Charleston I can find no record. He and Agnes stayed at the beautiful home + of Mr. Bennet, who had two sons at the college, and a lovely daughter, + Mary Bennet. I remember Agnes telling me of the beautiful flowers and + other attentions lavished upon them. + </p> + <p> + At Wilmington they spent a day with Mr. and Mrs. Davis. His coming there + was known only to a few persons, as its announcement was by a private + telegram from Savannah, but quite a number of ladies and gentlemen secured + a small train and went out on the Southern Road to meet him. When they met + the regular passenger-train from Savannah, General Lee was taken from it + to the private one and welcomed by his many friends. He seemed bright and + cheerful and conversed with all. He spoke of his health not being good, + and on this account begged that there would be no public demonstration on + his arrival, nor during his stay at Wilmington. + </p> + <p> + On reaching that place, he accompanied Mr. George Davis [Attorney General + in Mr. Davis’s cabinet] to his house and was his guest during his sojourn + in the city. + </p> + <p> + Mrs. Davis was a Miss Fairfax, daughter of Dr. O. Fairfax, of Alexandria, + Virginia. They had been and were very old and dear friends and neighbours. + The next morning my father walked out and called on Bishop Atkinson, with + whom he had been well acquainted when they both lived in Baltimore, some + twelve years before, the one as rector of St. Peter’s (Episcopal) church, + the other as Captain of the United States Engineers, in charge of the + harbour defenses of the city. + </p> + <p> + There was a dinner given to my father that day at Mr. Davis’s home, and a + number of gentlemen were present. He was looking very well, but in + conversation said that he realised there was some trouble with his heart, + which he was satisfied was incurable. + </p> + <p> + The next day, May 1st, he left for Norfolk, Virginia, where Dr. and Mrs. + Selden were the kind entertainers of his daughter and himself. Agnes told + me that in going and returning from church the street was lined with + people who stood, hats off, in silent deference. From Norfolk they visited + “Lower” and “Upper Brandon” on the James River, the homes of the + Harrisons; then “Shirley,” higher up the river. Then they proceeded by way + of Richmond to the “White House,” my mother having arrived there from + Lexington a short time previously. The General wrote from “Brandon” to his + wife: + </p> + <p> + “‘Brandon’, May 7, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: We have reached this point on our journey. Mrs. Harrison + and Miss Belle are well and very kind, and I have been up to see Mr. + William Harrison and Mr. George and their families. The former is much + better than I expected to find him, and I hope will recover his health as + the spring advances. The ladies are all well, and Miss Gulie is very + handsome. Agnes and I went over to see Warrenton Carter and his wife this + morning. They are both very well, and everything around them looks + comfortable and flourishing. They have a nice home, and, as far as I could + see, everything is prospering. Their little boy was asleep, but we were + invited in to see him. He is a true Carter. Mrs. Page, the daughter of + General Richardson, is here on a visit, and Mrs. Murdock, wife of their + former pastor, arrived this morning. We are to go up to Mr. George + Harrison’s this evening, where the children are to have some tableaux, and + where we are expected to spend the evening. In Norfolk we saw all our + friends, but I did not succeed in getting out to Richard Page’s as I + desired, on account of the heavy rain on the appointed day and engagements + that interfered on others. Agnes and Mrs. Selden rode out, however, and + saw all the family. Everybody inquired kindly after you, down to Bryan, + and all sent their love. ‘Brandon’ is looking very beautiful, and it is + refreshing to look at the river. The garden is filled with flowers and + abounds in roses. The yellow jasmine is still in bloom and perfumes the + atmosphere. I have not heard from you or from Lexington since I left + Savannah. I hope all are well. I am better, I trust; am getting fat and + big, but am still rigid and painful in my back. On Tuesday night I expect + to go to ‘Shirley,’ and on Thursday, 12th inst., to Richmond, and on + Friday to the ‘White House,’ unless I hear that you are crowded, in which + case I will submit myself to the doctors for two or three days, as they + desire, and then go down. Agnes now says she will accompany me to the + ‘White House,’ so that I shall necessarily pass through Richmond, as our + baggage renders that route necessary. Therefore, unless something + unforeseen prevents, I shall be with you on Friday next. All unite in + love. Agnes, I hope, is better than when she left Lexington, but is not + strong. You must give a great deal of love to Fitzhugh, Tabb, my grandson + Robert, and all with you. + </p> + <p> + “Most truly and affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “P. S. —Monday. Your note of the 6th with Colonel Allen’s letter has + just been received. I am very sorry to hear of Tabb’s sickness. I hope + that she will be well by the time of my arrival. I shall be glad to see + Markie. + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + On the same date, he writes to his daughter Mildred at Lexington: + </p> + <p> + “‘Brandon,’ May 7, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Daughter: Miss Jennie is putting up her mail and says that my + letter must go with it, so I have but a few minutes to inform you that we + have reached this point on our way home. We stayed a day in Wilmington + with the Davises after leaving Charleston, and several with the Seldens in + Norfolk, and shall on Tuesday next go up to ‘Shirley,’ and then to the + ‘White House.’ Agnes threatens to abandon me at ‘Shirley,’ and I wish that + you were there to take her place. I am better, I hope, certainly am + stronger and have less pain, but am far from comfortable, and have little + ability to move or do anything, though am growing large and fat. Perhaps + that is the cause. All here are well and send love. Miss Belle very sweet; + all very kind. I rode yesterday to the other ‘Brandons,’ and saw all the + inhabitants. Captain Shirley spent the day here. Mr. Wm. Harrison much + better, and Miss Gulie very pretty. They have some visitors. It is quiet + and delightful here, the river is beautiful. Agnes will write when she + finds ‘time,’ which is a scarce commodity with her. I had intended to + write before breakfast, the longest portion of the day, but walked out and + forgot it. We have little time after breakfast. Give much love to Mary and + Custis. I hope that you are all well and comfortable. I was very glad to + receive your letter the morning I left Savannah, and I hope that ‘Mrs. + Smith’ and Traveller are enjoying themselves. I hope to get back to + Lexington about the 24th, but will write. After paying my visit to the + ‘White House’ I will have to spend some days in Richmond and at the + doctors’ request, as they wish to examine me again and more thoroughly. I + hope all are well at the college. Remember me to all there and in + Lexington. + </p> + <p> + “With affectionate love, Your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Miss Mildred Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The “White House,” my brother’s home at that time, is on the Pamunkey + River, about twenty-five miles north of “Shirley.” From my father’s letter + it is evident he had thought of driving over, instead of going by boat and + rail through Richmond. This plan was abandoned when his daughter + determined to accompany him, as a lady’s baggage, even in those days, was + too voluminous for private conveyance. Mr. Wm. Harrison lived at “Upper + Brandon” and Mr. George Harrison at “Middle Brandon.” The mistress of + “Lower Brandon,” the old historic home, was Mrs. Isabella Ritchie + Harrison, widow of the late George Harrison. Miss Jennie, referred to in + the above letter, was Miss Virginia Ritchie, sister of Mrs. Harrison. She + had succeeded in having a post-office established at “Lower Brandon” and + herself made postmistress. This was done for the convenience of the + “Brandons” and the immediate neighbourhood. The proceeds Miss Jennie gave + to the “Brandon” church. + </p> + <p> + Of his visit to “Shirley,” his mother’s home when she was a girl, and + where she was married to “Light Horse Harry,” I can find no account + written at the time. It is a few hours from “Brandon” to “Shirley” by + steamer on the beautiful James, and they arrived there Tuesday, May 10th, + and left the following Thursday by steamer for Richmond. So says the “Home + Journal” kept at “Shirley.” All the country came to see him, and there was + a large party to dinner. One of the daughters of the house, then a young + girl, says: + </p> + <p> + “I can only remember the great dignity and kindness of General Lee’s + bearing, how lovely he was to all of us girls, that he gave us his + photographs and write his name on them. He liked to have us tickle his + hands, but when Cousin Agnes came to sit by him that seemed to be her + privilege. We regarded him with the greatest veneration. We had heard of + God, but here was General Lee!” + </p> + <p> + My mother was now at the “White House.” I will here introduce portions of + a letter of the 9th and 13th of May from her to her daughter in Lexington, + telling of my father’s arrival on the 12th: + </p> + <p> + “‘White House,’ May 9, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “Fitzhugh took us on a delightful drive this morning, dear Mildred, to + Tunstall’s, where we got your letter, and Markie got nine, including + yours, so we were much gratified with our excursion. The road was fine, + with the exception of a few mud-holes, and the woods lovely with wild + flowers and dogwood blossoms and with all the fragrance of early spring, + the dark holly and pine intermingling with the delicate leaves just + brought out by the genial season, daisies, wild violets, and heart’s-ease. + I have not seen so many wild flowers since I left Arlington.... + </p> + <p> + “Thirteenth.—I determined, after commencing this, to wait and see + your papa, who arrived last evening with Agnes. He looks fatter, but I do + not like his complexion, and he seems still stiff. I have not yet had time + to hear much of their tour, except a grand dinner given them at Mr. + Benet’s. Your papa sends his love, and says he will be in Lexington + somewhere about the 24th.... + </p> + <p> + “There is no news. The country becomes more lovely each day. The locust + trees are in full bloom, and the polonia, the only tree left of all that + were planted by poor Charlotte and myself. How all our labours have come + to naught. The General has just come in. Robbie is riding on his knee, + sitting as grave as a judge. He says now ‘Markie,’ ‘Agnes,’ and many other + words, and calls me ‘Bonne Mama.’ We expect Rob this morning.... + </p> + <p> + “Yours affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “M. C. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + At this time my father was persuaded to make me a visit. He had been + invited before, when at different times he had been to the “White House,” + but something had hitherto always prevented his coming; now he decided to + come. My “Romancoke” farm was situated in King William County, on the + opposite side of the Pamunkey River, and some fifteen miles east of “White + House.” We arrived there in the afternoon, having come down by the + steamer, which at that time ran from “White House” to Baltimore. + “Romancoke” had been always a dependency of the “White House,” and was + managed by an overseer who was subordinate to the manager on the latter + estate. There was on it only a small house, of the size usual in our + country for that character of property. I had taken possession in 1866, + and was preparing to build a more comfortable residence, but in the + meantime I lived in the house which had been occupied by the different + overseers for about seventy-five years. Its accommodations were very + limited, simple, and it was much out of repair. Owing to the settling of + the underpinning in the centre, it had assumed a “sway-backed” outline, + which gave it the name of the “broken-back house.” No repairs had been + attempted, as I was preparing to build a new home. + </p> + <p> + My father, always dignified and self-contained, rarely gave any evidence + of being astonished or startled. His self-control was great and his + emotions were not on the surface, but when he entered and looked around my + bachelor quarters he appeared really much shocked. As I was much better + off in the matter of housekeeping than I had been for four years, I + flattered myself that I was doing very well. I can appreciate fully now + what he must have felt at the time. However, he soon rallied and concealed + his dismay by making kindly fun of my surroundings. The next day at dinner + he felt obliged to remark on my china, knives, and forks, and suggested + that I might at least better my holdings in that line. When he got back to + Richmond he sent me a full set of plated forks and spoons, which I have + been using from that day to this. He walked and drove over the farm, + discussed my plans for improvement, and was much interested in all my + work, advising me about the site of my new house, new barns, ice-house, + etc. He evidently enjoyed his visit, for the quiet and the rest were very + refreshing. + </p> + <p> + About thirty miles, as the crow flies, from my place, down York River, is + situated, in Gloucester County, “White Marsh,” an old Virginia home which + then belonged to Dr. Prosser Tabb, who with his wife and children was + living there. Mrs. Tabb was a near cousin of my father, and as a little + girl had been a pet and favourite. His affection and regard for her had + lasted from his early manhood. He had seen but little of her since the + war, and when “Cousin Rebecca,” as we called her, learned he was to be at + the “White House,” she wrote begging him to pay her a visit. This he had + agreed to do if it was possible. + </p> + <p> + While at the “White House,” we had consulted together as to the best + method of accomplishing this trip, and we determined to make it from + “Romancoke.” So I drove him to West Point, and there got aboard the + Baltimore steamer, taking my horse and trap with us. At Cappahoosic, a + wharf on the York, we landed and drove the nine miles to “White Marsh,” + arriving at “supper time,” as we still say in Virginia—i.e., about + 7:30 P. M. + </p> + <p> + When General Lee got off on the wharf, so great was the desire of the + passengers and crew to see him, that they all went to the side of the + boat, which caused her to list so that I was unable to get my horse out + through the gangway until the captain had ordered every one to the other + side. As the sun went down, it became chilly and I drove quite rapidly, + anxious to get my father out of the night air as soon as possible. He said + nothing at the time, nor did I know that he noticed my unusual speed. But + afterward he remarked on it to several persons, saying: + </p> + <p> + “I think Rob drives unnecessarily fast.” + </p> + <p> + We were expected, and were met at the door by all the family and guests. A + hearty welcome was given us. After supper he was the centre of the circle + in the drawing-room, and made the acquaintance of the children of the + house and of the friends and relatives of the family who were there. He + said little, but all listened eagerly to what he did say, and were charmed + with his pleasant smile and gracious manner. “Cousin Rebecca” introduced + him to her son-in-law, Captain Perrin, mentioning that he had been wounded + in the war and was still lame from the effects. The General replied that + at any rate he was all right now, for he had a pair of strong young feet + to wait upon him, indicating his young wife. + </p> + <p> + As was customary in this section of Virginia, the house was full of + visitors, and I shared my father’s room and bed. Though many a year had + passed since we had been bedfellows, he told me that he remembered well + the time when, as a little fellow, I had begged for this privilege. The + next day he walked about the beautiful gardens, and was driven over the + plantation and shown the landscapes and water views of the immediate + neighborhood. Mr. Graves, Dr. Tabb’s overseer, who had the honour of being + his coachman, fully appreciated it, and was delighted when my father + praised his management. He had been a soldier under the General, and had + stoutly carried his musket to Appomatox, where he surrendered it. When + told of this by Dr. Tabb, my father took occasion to compliment him on his + steadfast endurance and courage, but Graves simply and sincerely replied, + </p> + <p> + “Yes, General, I stuck to the army, but if you had in your entire command + a greater coward than I was, you ought to have had him shot.” + </p> + <p> + My father, who was greatly amused at his candour, spoke of it when he got + back from his drive saying “that sort of a coward makes a good soldier.” + </p> + <p> + That the drive had fatigued him was quite apparent to Cousin Rebecca, who + begged him to go and lie down to rest, but he declined, though, finally, + at her request, he consented to take a glass of wine. Mrs. Tabb was + anxious to give a general reception that day in his honour, so that all + the old soldiers in the country could have an opportunity of shaking hands + with him, but at the General’s request the idea was abandoned. + </p> + <p> + Several persons were invited to meet him at dinner, among them the Rev. + Mr. Phillips, an Englishman, the rector of Abingdon, an old Colonial + church in the country. He and his wife were ardent admirers of General + lee, and had often expressed a great desire to see him, so Mrs. Tabb + kindly gave them this opportunity. They were charmed with him, and, + writing to their friends in England, declared: + </p> + <p> + “The greatest event in our lives has occurred—we have seen General + Lee.” + </p> + <p> + One of his young cousins, in talking with him, wondered what fate was in + store for “us poor Virginians.” The General replied with an earnest, + softened look: + </p> + <p> + “You can work for Virginia, to build her up again, to make her great + again. You can teach your children to love and cherish her.” + </p> + <p> + I was struck with the tenderness of his manner to all these cousins, many + of whom he had never seen before, and the real affection and interest he + manifested toward them. He seemed pleased and touched by their love and + kindness. I think he enjoyed this visit, but it was plain that he was + easily fatigued. + </p> + <p> + To catch our steamer the next morning, an early start was necessary. + Arrangements were made the night before, and all good-byes said, for we + had to leave the house about five o’clock. That night he was very restless + and wakeful, and remarked that it was generally so with him whenever he + had to get up at an unusual hour, as he was always uneasy lest he might be + late. However, we got off in full time—made the connection with our + steamer, and returned immediately to the “White House.” I left the steamer + at West Point to take my horse home, after which I joined him at the + former place. + </p> + <p> + After a short stay at the “White House,” he started for Lexington, + stopping over in Richmond for a few days. From there he writes to his + daughter Mildred in Lexington: + </p> + <p> + “Richmond, Virginia, May 23, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Precious Daughter: I came up from the ‘White House’ this morning with + Agnes, but she threatens to divorce herself from me, and we have already + separated. She is at Dr. Fairfax’s and I am at Mr. Mcfarland’s. She + promises, however, to see me occasionally, and if I can restore our + travelling relations even at costly sacrifice I shall be happy to take her + along with me. I find I shall be detained here too long to take the + Wednesday’s boat from Lynchburg, but, if not prevented by circumstances + now not foreseen, I shall take the Friday’s boat, so as to reach Lexington + SATURDAY morning, 28th inst. If Sam is well enough, and it should be + otherwise convenient, he could meet me with Lucy and the carriage or with + Traveller. If not, I will get a seat up in the omnibus. Your mother + proposes to leave in the boat for Bremo on the 1st proximo, spend one week + there, and then continue her journey to Lexington. Agnes has not yet made + up her mind whether she will go with me, her mother, or remain for a + while. I hope to find you well, though alone. I must reserve all accounts + till we meet, which I am very anxious should take place as soon as + practicable. I am improving, I think, in general health, but cannot tell + certainly as to the difficulty in my chest, as I have been unable to test + my progress. I had a pleasant visit to F—— and Robert, and + enjoyed rest there, which I wanted. Love to Custis and kind regards to all + friends. I hope that I shall find all well and doing well. All at the + ‘White House’ send love. Poor Tabb is still sick. Markie Williams is with + your mother. Robert came up with us, but returns this evening. I have seen + Dr. Houston this morning, and I am to have a great medicine talk + to-morrow. + </p> + <p> + “Your devoted father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Miss Mildred Lee.” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0047" id="link2HCH0047"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XXIII — A Round of Visits + </h2> + <p> + Baltimore—Alexandria—A war-talk with Cousin Cassius Lee—“Ravensworth”—Letter + to Doctor Buckler declining invitation to Europe—To General Cooper—To + Mrs. Lee from the Hot Springs—Tired of public places—Preference + for country life + </p> + <p> + Judged by what he says of himself, my father’s trip South did him no + permanent good. The rest and change, the meeting with many old friends, + the great love and kindness shown him by all, gave him much pleasure, and + for a time it was thought he was better; but the main cause of his + troubles was not removed, though for a while held in check. + </p> + <p> + During the month of June he remained in Lexington, was present at the + final examinations of the college, and attended to all his duties as + usual. On July 1st he went to Baltimore in order to consult Dr. Thomas H. + Buckler about his health. + </p> + <p> + While there he stayed with Mr. and Mrs. Tagart. + </p> + <p> + My mother had returned to Lexington after her visit to “Bremo,” together + with my sister Agnes. To her, on July 2d, he writes: + </p> + <p> + “Baltimore, Maryland, July 2, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I reached her yesterday evening at 9:15 P. M. Found Mr. + Tagart at the depot waiting for me, where he had been since eight o’clock, + thanks to his having a punctual wife, who regulates everything for him, so + that he had plenty of time for reflection. I believe, however, the delay + was occasioned by change of schedule that day, of which Mrs. Tagart was + not advised. We arrived at Alexandria at 5:00 P. M., and were taken to + Washington and kept in the cars till 7:45, when we were sent on. It was + the hottest day I ever experienced, or I was in the hottest position I + ever occupied, both on board the packet and in the railroad cars, or I was + less able to stand it, for I never recollect having suffered so much. Dr. + Buckler came in to see me this morning, and examined me, stripped, for two + hours. He says he finds my lungs working well, the action of the heart a + little too much diffused, but nothing to injure. He is inclined to think + that my whole difficulty arises from rheumatic excitement, both the first + attack in front of Fredericksburg and the second last winter. Says I + appear to have a rheumatic constitution, must guard against cold, keep out + in the air, exercise, etc., as the other physicians prescribe. He will see + me again. In the meantime, he has told me to try lemon-juice and watch the + effect. I will endeavour to get out to Washington Peter’s on the 4th and + to Goodwood as soon as Dr. B—— is satisfied. Mr. and Mrs. + Tagart are very well and send regards. The messenger is waiting to take + this to the office. It is raining, and I have not been out nor seen any + one out of the house. I hope all are well with you, and regret that I was + obliged to come away. Tell the girls I was so overcome that I could not + get up this morning till 8:00 A. M. Give much love to everybody, and + believe me most truly, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The advantages of early rising my father ever held out to his daughters, + so that he knew they would enjoy hearing of his being late in getting down + in the morning. During this visit to Baltimore he took advantage of his + proximity to many old friends to visit them. + </p> + <p> + His next letter is from Alexandria to my mother: + </p> + <p> + “Alexandria, Virginia, July 15, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I arrived here last evening from Goodwood, and was glad to + hear from Burke this morning that our Aunt Maria was as well as usual. I + wish to get out to Cassius Lee’s this afternoon, and will spend to-morrow + on the Hill in visiting General Cooper, Mr. Mason, the Bishop, etc. [“Aunt + M——” was Mrs. Fitzhugh of “Ravensworth,” and “Burke,” her + coloured servant; Cassius Lee, my father’s cousin; General S. S. Cooper, + Adj. General of the C. S. armies; Mr. J. M. Mason, Senator in U. S. and C. + S. Congress; the Bishop, Bishop Johns of Virginia, all at that time living + on the “Hill”—or Seminary Hill—about two miles from + Alexandria.] Next week I shall go to Ravensworth and from there think I + shall proceed to Lexington. It is so hot that I shall be obliged to forego + my visit to Nannie and the ‘White House.’ It is intensely hot here and I + am unable to bear the heat now. I took cold yesterday in the cars or + elsewhere and am full of pains this morning, and was unable to sleep last + night. + </p> + <p> + “I have seen Mr. Smith [Mr. Francis L. Smith was my father’s lawyer. The + matter referred to which caused the remark, “The prospect is not + promising,” was the chance of getting back the estate of Arlington from + the U. S. Government. Mr. Smith and Mr. Cassius Lee were my father’s + advisers in this matter. “Nannie” was the widow of Captain S. S. Lee, my + father’s brother.] this morning and had with him a long business talk, and + will see him again after seeing Cassius. The prospect is not promising. I + got your letter at Charles’s. Thank Agnes for hers. All were well there + and on West River, and sent you all messages of love. I will give all + particulars when we meet. I am at the Mansion House, where it is piping + hot. I had felt better until I caught fresh cold, but no one can avoid it + in such weather. Love to all. I cannot fix yet the day of my return, but + it will be the last week in July. + </p> + <p> + “I hope Custis has got off, though I shall not be able to see him. + </p> + <p> + “Most truly and affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Mr. Cassius Lee was my father’s first cousin. They had been children + together, schoolmates in boyhood, and lifelong friends and neighbours. He + was my father’s trusted adviser in all business matters, and in him he had + the greatest confidence. Mr. Cazenove Lee, of Washington, D. C., his son, + has kindly furnished me with some of his recollections of this visit, + which I give in his own words: + </p> + <p> + “It is greatly to be regretted that an accurate and full account of this + visit was not preserved, for the conversations during those two or three + days were most interesting and would have filled a volume. It was the + review of a lifetime by two old men. It is believed that General Lee never + talked after the war with as little reserve as on this occasion. Only my + father and two of his boys were present. I can remember his telling my + father of meeting Mr. Leary, their old teacher at the Alexandria Academy, + during his late visit to the South, which recalled many incidents of their + school life. They talked of the war, and he told of the delay of Jackson + in getting on McClellan’s flank, causing the fight at Mechanicsville, + which fight he said was unexpected, but was necessary to prevent McClellan + from entering Richmond, from the front of which most of the troops had + been moved. He thought that if Jackson had been at Gettysburg he would + have gained a victory, ‘for’ said he, ‘Jackson would have held the heights + which Ewell took on the first day.’ He said that Ewell was a fine officer, + but would never take the responsibility of exceeding his orders, and + having been ordered to Gettysburg, he would not go farther and hold the + heights beyond the town. I asked him which of the Federal generals he + considered the greatest, and he answered most emphatically ‘McClellan by + all odds.’ He was asked why he did not come to Washington after second + Manassas. + </p> + <p> + “‘Because,’ he replied, ‘my men had nothing to eat,’ and pointing to Fort + Wade, in the rear of our home, he said, ‘I could not tell my men to take + that fort when they had had nothing to eat for three days. I went to + Maryland to feed my army.’ + </p> + <p> + “This led to a statement of the mismanagement of the Confederate + Commissary Department, of which he gave numerous instances, and mentioned + his embarrassments in consequence. He was also very severe in his + criticism of the newspapers, and said that patriotism did not seem to + influence them in the least, that movements of the army were published + which frustrated their plans, and, as an instance, he told of Longstreet’s + being sent to the Western Army and the efforts that were made to keep the + movement secret, but to no purpose, the papers having heralded it at once + to friend and foe alike. I also remember his saying that he advocated + putting the negroes in the army, and the arguments he advanced in favour + of it. My father remarked at table one day that he could not have starved + in the Confederate service if he could have gotten bread and milk. + </p> + <p> + “‘No,’ replied the General, ‘but frequently I could not get even that.’ + </p> + <p> + “His love of children was most marked, and he never failed to show them + patient consideration. On the occasion of this visit, his answers to all + our boyish questions were given with as much detail and as readily as if + we had been the most important men in the community. Several years before + the war I remember that my sister, brother, and myself, all young + children, drove over to Arlington Mills, and that while going there + Colonel Lee rode up on a beautiful black horse. He impressed my childish + fancy then as the handsomest and finest horseman I had ever seen—the + beau-ideal of a soldier. Upon seeing us he at once stopped, spoke to each + of us, and took my sister, then about ten years of age, upon his horse + before him, and rode with us for two miles, telling her, I remember, of + his boy Robby, who had a pony, and who should be her sweetheart. Often + have I seen him on the road or street or elsewhere, and though I was ‘only + a boy,’ he always stopped and had something pleasant to say to me.” + </p> + <p> + The Mr. Leary mentioned here was my father’s teacher when a boy in + Alexandria. His regard and esteem for him was very high, as is shown in + the following letter: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, December 15, 1866. + </p> + <p> + “Mr. Wm. B. Leary. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Sir: Your visit has recalled to me years long since passed, when + I was under your tuition and received daily your instruction. In parting + from you, I beg to express the gratitude I have felt all my life for the + affectionate fidelity which characterised your teaching and conduct toward + me. Should any of my friends, wherever your lot may be cast, desire to + know your qualifications as a teacher, I hope you will refer them to me; + for that is a subject on which I can speak knowingly and from experience. + Wishing you health, happiness, and prosperity, I am, affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “Your friend, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + His next letter is from “Ravensworth,” where he went after his visit to + the “Seminary Hill:” + </p> + <p> + “Ravensworth, Virginia, July 20, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I arrived here yesterday from Alexandria and found Aunt + Maria well in general health, but less free to walk than when I last saw + her. She is cheerful and quiet, but seems indisposed to try any of the + healing baths, or, indeed, any of the remedies resorted to in cases of + similar character, and seems to think nothing will be of avail. I hope in + time that she will be relieved. Her niece, Mrs. Goldsborough, the daughter + of her sister Wilhelmina, is with her. She seems to be a nice little lady—has + a big boy of eight months, and is expecting her husband to-morrow, so + nothing need be said more on her account. Mr. Dickens was over last + evening, and reports all well with him. All the family are to be over this + evening, so I cannot say more of them. Ravensworth is looking very well—I + mean the house and grounds, but little of the farm seems to be cultivated, + and is growing up with pines. I received your letter directed to + Alexandria after my return from my visit to Cassius, also Colonel + Williamson’s. Resolutions will not build the church. It will require + money. Mr. Smith did not give so favourable an account of Mr. Price as did + Mr. Green. I did not see Mr. P——, for it would have been of no + avail without having the plans, etc., and I cannot wait here to receive + them. I shall have to send them, or to invite him to Lexington after my + return. I propose to leave here, if nothing prevents, on Monday, 25th + inst. If I go by Goshen, I hope to reach Lexington that night, or Tuesday + morning after breakfast. I have heard a rumour that the water has been + withdrawn from the canal above Lynchburg for the purpose of repairs. If + that is so, I shall have to go by Goshen. My cold continues, but is + better. The weather is very hot and to me is almost insupportable. At 6:00 + P. M. yesterday, the thermometer in Ravensworth hall marked 86 degrees. + This morning, when I first went out, it stood at 84 degrees. Thank Agnes + for her letter. I cannot respond at this time. The letter you forwarded + from Mrs. Podestad describes the sickness her children have passed + through. She is now with them at Capon, and Miss Emily has gone to visit + Mrs. Barksdale in Greenbrier. Mrs. P—— says she will be ready + to visit you any time after the middle of August that you will notify her. + I am glad all are well with you, and hope the garden will give you some + vegetables. I am anxious to get back and see you all. Give much love to + the girls, including the Misses Selden. Tell them they must not leave till + I return, that I am hurrying back as fast as rheumatism will let me. I + have abandoned my visit to Nannie and the boys on the Pamunkey. Tell them + it is too hot and that I am too painful. Aunt M—— sends love + to all. Remember me to all friends. I must leave details till I return. + </p> + <p> + “Most truly and affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The building of the church here referenced to was the Episcopal church in + Lexington, which it was proposed to take down and replace with a larger + and better building. My father was a vestryman, and also a member of the + building committee. + </p> + <p> + Dr. Buckler, whom my father had consulted in July, was at this time on a + visit to Baltimore, having lived abroad with his family since 1866. When + about to return to Paris he wrote and asked my father to accompany him. + </p> + <p> + This invitation he was obliged to decline. + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, August 5, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Doctor: I have just received your letter of the 4th inviting me + to accompany you across the Atlantic, and I return you my cordial thanks + for your kind solicitation for my health and comfort. There is no one whom + I would prefer to have as a companion on the voyage, nor is there one, I + am sure, who would take better care of me. But I cannot impose myself upon + you. I have given you sufficient trouble already, and you must cure me on + this side of the Atlantic. If you are the man I take you for, you will do + so. You must present my warmest thanks to your wife for her remembrance of + me and her kind offer of the hospitalities of her house. Should I ever be + able to visit Europe I shall certainly accept them, but I hope she will + soon return to this country and that you will bring her up to the + mountains to us. We are all peaceable here now and she will find that we + are not as bad as we have been reported to be, and every one will extend + to her a hearty welcome, whereas Europe is now convulsed with the horrors + of war or the agony of its expectancy, and I fear for a season is destined + to feel the greatest calamity that can befall a people. I am pursuing your + directions and hope that I am deriving benefit from them. I have made my + arrangements to visit the Hot Springs, Virginia, on Monday next, as you + recommended, and trust I may find relief from them. My rheumatic pains + continue, but have diminished, and that in my shoulder, I think, has + lessened under the application of the blister. I shall endeavour to be + well by the fall. The letter you inclosed to me was from Mrs. Smith on the + Hudson—and not from Mr. Henry White, as you supposed. Good-bye, my + dear doctor; may you have a prosperous voyage and find your family all + well on your arrival, and may your own health be entirely restored. My + family unite with me in every kind wish, and I am most truly, + </p> + <p> + “Your friend, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Dr. Thomas H. Buckler.” + </p> + <p> + This letter to General Cooper (Adjutant General of the Confederate States + Army), written at this time, explains itself, and is one of many witnesses + of my father’s delicate consideration for old soldiers in distress: + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, August 4, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “General S. Cooper, Alexandria, Virginia. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear General: Impressed, with all the people of the South, with your + merits and services, I have with them admired your manly efforts to + support your family, and have regretted that more remunerative occupation, + better suited to your capacities and former habits, had not presented + itself. This has been a subject of conversation with some of us here, and + when in Savannah last spring I presented it to General Lawton, Colonel + Cole, and others, and suggested that efforts be made to raise a sum for + the relief of any pressing necessity. The idea was cordially adopted, and + it was hoped that an amount would be contributed that would enable you to + receive some relaxation. I have received a letter from General Lawton + regretting the smallness of the sum collected, $300, and explaining the + delay that had occurred, the general poverty of the people, the many calls + upon them, and the disposition to procrastinate when facts are not known + to them personally. To this sum I have only been able to add $100, but I + hope it may enable you to supply some immediate want and prevent you from + taxing your strength too much. You must also pardon me for my moving in + this matter, and for the foregoing explanation, which I feel obliged to + make that you might understand the subject. + </p> + <p> + “With my best wishes for your health and happiness and for the useful + prolongation of your honourable life, I am, with true regard, + </p> + <p> + “Your friend and servant, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + He remained at Lexington only for a short time, as it was decided that he + should go to the Hot Springs, Virginia, where he could try their famous + waters for his rheumatism. On the day of his arrival he writes to my + mother: + </p> + <p> + “Hot Springs, Bath County, Virginia, August 10, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: We reached here this morning about 9:30 A. M., Captain + White and I, after as pleasant a journey as we could have expected. After + taking the cars at Goshen, the old route by Milboro’ rose up so strong + before me that we determined to adhere to it. Reached the Bath Alum about + 4:00 P. M., where we passed the night and were in luck in finding several + schools or parts of them rusticating on alum-water. Mrs. Heath was in + charge of the detachment from Dr. Phillips’s [a well known girl’s school + at Staunton]. They presented a gay and happy appearance. This morning we + breakfasted at the Warm and had the attention of Richard. There is a small + party there, Admiral Louis Goldsborough and his wife and Miss West amongst + them. Here thee is quite a company. Mrs. Lemmon from Baltimore, her + daughter Mrs. Dobbin, Mrs. General Walker, wife of the ex-Secretary of War + of the Confederacy, Mrs. and Miss. Sivent, etc., etc. + </p> + <p> + “Dr. and Mrs. Cabell are here, and the Tandys and Mrs. Mac regret that you + are not with me...I saw Mrs. Maise at the Warm, and her sister from + Kentucky, Mrs. Tate. Rev. Mr. Mason and the Daingerfields have a girls’ + school in the village. The Warm seems to be retrograding. I hope the new + man, Edward, has arrived. Tell him to take good care of the cow, and ask + the girls to see to it and the garden, etc. I saw Mrs. Caskie at the + Baths. She looks very well. Her niece, Gay, is with her, a pretty child. + Mrs. Myers and her children are also there. Mrs. Asher also. Small + company, but select. All pleased with Mr. Brown [the manager of the + hotel]. Tell the girls I have no one to rub me now. Shall miss them in + this and other ways much. Dr. Cabell says I must continue my medicines and + commence with the hot spout to-morrow. He has great confidence in the + waters, and says that 95 out of 100 patients that he has treated have + recovered. I shall alternate the spout with the boiler. But he says the + great error is that people become impatient and do not stay long enough. I + hope I may be benefited, but it is a tedious prospect. I hope that you all + will continue well. If you wish to go to the Baths, or to come here, you + must do so and write me what you want, if there is anything I can do or + get for you. Give love to all the girls and remembrances to all friends. + Tell our neighbours that I was so occupied the last days I was in + Lexington that I had not time to bid them adieu. If you want more money + let me know. God bless you and preserve you all. Good-bye, dear Mary. + </p> + <p> + “Most truly, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. M. C. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + The Richard mentioned had been lately his house servant at Lexington, and + Edward was a new man he had engaged for the garden and stable. The letters + written to my mother and others of his family from the Hot Springs at this + time were frequent, and I give them in full, as they tell all we know now + of his visit there: + </p> + <p> + “Hot Springs, Bath County, Virginia, August 14, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I received this morning the last letters forwarded by you. + The first batch arrived yesterday. I am glad to hear that you all continue + well. I hope my letter of the 10th, announcing my arrival, has reached + you. It should have done so, it seems to me, previously to your note of + Friday. I have but little more to say than I had them. I have taken four + baths, Hot Spout, which seems to agree with me very well, but it is too + soon yet to look for results. I receive the water on my shoulder, back, + and chest. The sensation is pleasant, and so far I have succeeded in + preventing taking cold. The atmosphere, however, is damp, and temperature + variable. When the sun shines, it is hot; but when it rains, which is the + usual condition of the weather, the former the exception, it is cool. Mrs. + Sledge and party are here, the former improved. She was much better, went + over to the White and Sweet, retrograded, and returned. Will stay here + September. Many of our invalids are improving. Society has a rather solemn + appearance, and conversation runs mostly on personal ailments, baths, and + damp weather. There were some pretty tableaux last evening. The Misses + Tardy, Mrs. Dobbin, and the little girls, the performers. Mr. Washington + [William Washington, a well known painter of that day, who was for a short + time professor of painting and drawing at the Virginia Military Institute + at Lexington] is here. He looks well, is quiet, and has been copying + points of scenery in the neighbourhood. I do not know whether he was in + search of health or the picturesque. The latter is more easily found in + these mountains than the former. Captain White is well and sends + remembrances to all. I hope Edward has arrived and is an improvement on + the present occupant of the situation. If he does not present himself, + retain Henry till I come. I will endeavour to find some one. You do not + mention the cow; she is of more interest to me than the cats, and is + equally destructive of rats. I am glad the girls are well; what are they + troubling about now? I wish they were with me. I find many ladies here for + neuralgia. Mrs. General Walker has been much benefited, also others. If + little Agnes should desire to try the effects of the waters, tell her to + come on, I will take care of her. I suppose Tabb will go with her husband. + I am sorry Fitzhugh is complaining. I have written to Rob and Miss Lottie + [Miss Charlotte Haxall, afterward Mrs. Robert E. Lee, Jr., who died in + 1872]. I heard of Charles Carter’s [Charles Carter, of “Goodwood,” + Maryland, was my father’s first cousin. Mildred and Ella, two of his + daughters] passing up the road to the White, and Mildred preceded him a + week. Ella, I hear, is much improved. I shall not go to the White unless + specially called by something now unknown, but will remain here till the + end of the month, if I find it profitable, and then return to Lexington. I + hope the college is prospering. What does Mrs. Podestad say? I understand + that Markie Peter [Mrs. Peter was a near cousin of my mother, and with her + as a little girl our associations had been very near] and child are + occupying her old quarters at the Lomaxes near Warrenton. I have a merry + time with my old cronies, tell Mildred. I am getting too heavy for them + now. They soon drop me. I am getting uneasy about Edward and Blanche. The + reverses of the French, which seem to be light, appear to have demoralised + the nation. May God help all in affliction and keep and guard you and all + with you, is my constant prayer. + </p> + <p> + “Truly and affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. M. C. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “Hot Springs, Bath County, Virginia, August 19, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I received this morning your letters of the 14th and 18th, + inclosing Dr. Buckler’s, and was informed by Colonel Turner that he had + brough the package to which you referred. He has not yet sent it to me, + but, no doubt, will in time. I am sorry that Edward has not kept his + engagement, for I liked his appearance and recommendations, though perhaps + they are deceptive. You had better retain Harry till I come, unless you + fall in with a better. I am glad that you are all well. You have such + industrious little daughters that I am sure all will go well. Thank Agnes + for her letter and say to her that I have not seen Mr. Vanmeter or Blair, + but gave the letter to the former to Colonel White, who will send it to + him when he finds out his position. Mr. Thom arrived this morning and Mr. + John Jones and family rode over from the Healing. They are there for a + sick child. My old friend, Dr. Broaddus, and the Reverend Mr. Jones also + presented themselves.... I have been trying the Boiler for four days—and + the Spout the five preceding. I do not perceive any benefit yet, though + some little change in the seat of my pains. I will continue till the + middle of next week, the 29th, when, if no decided improvement takes + place, I think of going over to the Healing. Dr. Houston thinks that it + will be beneficial, whereas, Dr. Cabell recommends this. I am obliged to + be in Staunton on the 30th ult. to attend a meeting of the Valley Railroad + Company, so I shall leave here on the 29th for that purpose. After getting + through with that business, I shall return to Lexington. I am sorry that I + shall be called away, but I fear my stay here would be of no avail. + Colonel White is well and sends regards to all. I am glad that the cow is + better. She stands next in my affections to Traveller.... I hope that + Agnes’s neuralgia is better, and as she has not accepted my proposition I + presume she declines. Hot bathing is not agreeable to me either in its + operations or effects, but I see daily evidences of its good results on + others. I wish that it suited your case. You must try and get some one in + Sally’s place if Tabb, etc., come, and make them all comfortable. If you + want more money, let me know in time. Send over to Mr. Leyburn for the + flour, when you want it. Mr. Bowie, I suspect, can arrange it for you. I + fear Captain Brooks’s house will not be ready for occupancy this fall. I + hope that General Smith will begin Custis’s in time. I heard of him on his + way to Edward Cocke’s the other day. Mr. Washington is still here. Better, + I think. Again love to all. + </p> + <p> + “Most truly and affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “P.S.—Mr. Turner has just sent me the package. + </p> + <p> + “R. E. L.” + </p> + <p> + To his son Fitzhugh, who was at the “White House” with his family: + </p> + <p> + “Hot Springs, Bath County, Virginia, August 20, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Fitzhugh: I am very sorry to learn from your letter of the 18th, + received this morning, that Tabb is sick. I hope that it will be of short + duration and that she will soon throw off the chills. The mountain + doctors, however, do not understand them as well as the lowland, and are + apt to resort to the old practice. I wish that I could get to the White to + see you, but my time is too limited, owing to the late day that I was able + to leave Lexington. I propose staying here till the 29th inst., which will + only make my sojourn here two and a half weeks, and then going to + Staunton, where I am obliged to attend a meeting of the Valley Railroad + Company on the 30th. I hope that I shall not be detained there longer than + a day or two, when I will return to Lexington, where I hope to find you + all. You must tell Mr. and Mrs. Podestad, Mr. Carter, Ella, etc., how + sorry I am not to see them at the White, but that I hope they will call at + Lexington. I wrote to Ella on my first arrival here, but presume my letter + failed to reach her. You did not mention how her health was. I am much + concerned at Tabb’s indisposition, but am glad to hear that the baby is + well. Give my love to both, and I trust you will all be benefited by the + mountain air. My personal health is good, but I see no change in my + rheumatic attack, which is principally confined to my chest and back. I + inclose a note from your mother, transmitted on the supposition that I + would write to you. Professor White is with me and I have some few + acquaintances, but I am anxious to return. I am glad that Bertus has had a + short visit to the Orange. He says that he will come to Rockbridge in + September. Custis will be there by the first, and we shall all, I hope, be + together again. + </p> + <p> + “Affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + “Hot Springs, Bath County, Virginia, August 23, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I have received your various notes of the 17th and 18th, + and I am glad to hear of your well-being. Our good cow will be a loss to + us, but her troubles are all over now, and I am grateful to her for what + she has done for us. I hope that we did our duty to her. I have written to + Mr. Andrew Cameron to inquire about a young cow he has of mine, and asked + him to let you know if she is giving milk. If his report is good, you had + better send for her. She is, however, young, and will require very gentle + treatment. Caution Henry on that point. I have told him, Mr. C——, + also, that you would send for the horses, which I wish you would do as + soon as you can see that they will be properly cared for. Tell Henry to be + particularly gentle and kind to them, or the gray will give him great + trouble. He must wash them clean, and not pull out their manes and tails. + The girls will have to exercise them till Custis comes. I suppose we may + give up expecting Edward. Retain Henry till you can find someone better. + You had also better engage some woman or man for a month as a dining-room + servant. I think Easter has not intention of coming to us before October, + and she will not come then if Mr.—— can keep her. You will + have so many friends staying with you that you cannot make them + comfortable unless you have more servants. As I stated in a previous + letter, I shall go to Staunton on the 29th. I hope I shall be detained but + a few days. Lest your funds may run low, I send you a check.... The girls + can get it cashed. I may be detained, but I hope to return in time to see + our children and friends. I have been here a fortnight to-day. I hope that + I am better, but am aware of no material change, except that I am weaker. + I am very anxious to get back. It is very wearying at these public places + and the benefit hardly worth the cost. I do not think I can even stand + Lexington long. Colonels Allan and Johnston [Professors Wm. Allan and + William Preston Johnston of Washington College. The former afterward + principal of the McDonough School, near Baltimore, Maryland; the latter + president of Tulane University, New Orleans] arrived this evening on + horseback and have given me all Lexington news. Mr. Sledge and his wife, + from Huntsville, brother of the Colonel, also arrived, and a Mr. and Mrs. + Leeds, from New Orleans, with ten children, mostly little girls. The + latter are a great addition to my comfort. I have written to Fitzhugh and + Mrs. Podestad. Robert, you know, said he would make his annual visit the + first week in September. Tell the girls they must make preparations to + welcome all. Mrs. Walker, wife of the former Secretary of War in the + Confederacy, is here with her son, whom she says she is anxious to place + in the college, and wishes to visit Lexington with that view. I have + offered my escort and invited her to stay with us. I do not know whether + she will go with me. The girls will have to prepare my room for some of + the visitors, and put me anywhere. I can be very comfortable in the + library. Tell the little creatures they must work like beavers and get a + supply of eggs and chickens. Recollect there is flour at Leyburn’s mill + when you want it. Thank Mildred for her letter. Remember me to all, and + believe me, + </p> + <p> + “Always yours affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “Mrs. M. C. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “P.S.—I send you an order for the horses. Tell Henry to take with + him a bridle and halter. You must write for the cow if you want her. R. E. + Lee.” + </p> + <p> + Mr. Andrew Cameron owned a fine farm near Lexington, and kindly took care + of my father’s horses when he was away in the summer; also at different + times supplied him with a cow and took care of any calf, if there happened + to be one, till it was of service. My father constantly rode out to see + him, and enjoyed talking farming as they rode together over his fields. + His delight in every aspect of Nature was real and ever present. These + letters show, too, his care and consideration for animals. + </p> + <p> + His letter to his daughter Agnes is in lighter vein. His playful moods, so + usual with his children, never entirely left him. + </p> + <p> + “Hot Springs, Bath County, Virginia, August 23, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Agnes: I have received both of your letters, the last the 17th, + and thank you for them as well as for your care of my room and clothes. + The former I understand is used for a multiplicity of purposes, and the + cats and kittens have the full run of my establishment. Guard me against + ‘MISS SELDEN’ [Mildred’s kitten], I pray you. I am sorry that you are not + with me, as it possibly may have benefitted your neuralgia. But if MISS + BELLE is with you, I am sure she will be of greater service, and tell her + she must remain till I come, that she may cure me. That you may have some + other inducements than your flowers and weeds to take you out of doors, I + will write to your mother and send for the horses as soon as she can make + arrangements to have them cared for, and then you and Mildred and Miss + Belle, the one on Traveller, the other on Lucy, can scour the country and + keep us in eggs and chickens. I am sorry for the death of our good cow, + but glad that she is out of misery.... I do not think any of your friends + are here. Mr. Washington has been vibrating between this place and the + Healing, but does not seem to be well. Miss Alman, from Salem, + Massachusetts, whom you may recollect as having been at the White last + summer, is here with her father and mother. Miss Mollie Jourdan left + to-day, and Colonel Robert Preston arrived. The Chestnuts and Le Verts are + still here. I hope that you are well and that all is well with you. When + Custis comes, ask him to see to the horses and the cow and that they are + gently treated and properly fed. I know nothing of Henry’s capacity in + that way. I hope to be home next week and am very anxious to get back. + </p> + <p> + “Your father, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + <a name="link2HCH0048" id="link2HCH0048"> + <!-- H2 anchor --> </a> + </p> + <div style="height: 4em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> + <h2> + Chapter XXIV — Last Days + </h2> + <p> + Letter to his wife—To Mr. Tagart—Obituary notice in “Personal + Reminiscences of General Robert E. Lee”—Mrs. Lee’s account of his + death + </p> + <p> + The following is the last letter that I can find written by my father to + my mother. He was back in Lexington early in September, and was never + separated from her again while he lived: + </p> + <p> + “Hot Springs, August 27, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mary: I have received your letter of the 22d. I should remain + here a week longer if time permitted, as I have felt in the last few days + better than I have yet, but I am obliged to be in Staunton on the 30th and + therefore must leave Monday, 29th. I should not have time to return here. + The college opens on September 15th, and I wish to see that all things are + prepared. Possibly the little improvement now felt will continue. If not, + I shall have to bear my malady. I am truly sorry to hear of Edwin Lee’s + death [Colonel Edwin Grey Lee was a near cousin. He had distinguished + himself in the late war. At its commencement he had volunteered, and was + made a 2d. lieutenant in the Second Virginia regiment, “Stonewall + Brigade.” From that rank he quickly rose to be lieutenant colonel of the + 33d Virginia, in the same brigade. In 1862 his health, which was very + feeble, compelled him to resign, but after a short time he again entered + the service, though he never became strong enough to serve actively in the + field. General lee’s opinion of his abilities was very high.]. He was a + true man, and, if health had permitted, would have been an ornament as + well as a benefit to his race. He certainly was a great credit to the + name. Give my sincere sympathy to his wife and family. You have never + mentioned anything of Dr. Grahame. I have heard that he was in a critical + condition. I saw Colonels Allan and Johnston. They only stayed a day, and + went on to the White. I have heard of them on their return, and presume + they will reach Lexington to-morrow. Mr. George Taylor, who has been a + month at the White, arrived here to-day. Both he and his wife are well. + The company is thinning, though arrivals occur daily. Mr. Middleton and + his daughter and son, from Washington, whom you may recollect, also came. + But I hope to see you so soon that I will defer my narrative. I am glad + that Mary is enjoying herself and that Rob is so happy. May both long + continue so. I will endeavour to get the muslin, but fear I shall not + succeed. I trust I may not be detained in Staunton more than a day or two. + In that event, you may expect me Thursday, September 1st, but I cannot say + as to time. I hope that I shall find you all well. Give my love to Agnes + and Mildred, and Custis, if he has arrived. Colonel Turner is very well. + Tell his wife that he was exhibited to-day at the Healing as a specimen of + the health of the Hot. In my last I gave you my views about the servants + and sent you a check for ——, which I hope that you have + received. Most truly and affectionately, + </p> + <p> + “R. E. Lee.” + </p> + <p> + His last letter was written on the morning of the day he was taken ill, + September 28th. It was to Mr. Tagert, of Baltimore, at whose home he had + stayed the previous summer. Its tone was cheerful and hopeful, and he + wrote that he was much better and stronger. + </p> + <p> + “Lexington, Virginia, September 28, 1870. + </p> + <p> + “My Dear Mr. Tagart: Your note of the 26th reached me this morning, and + see how easy it is ‘to inveigle me into a correspondence.’ In fact, when a + man desires to do a thing, or when a thing gives a man pleasure, he + requires but small provocation to induce him to do it. Now I wanted to + hear how you and Mrs. Tagart were, what you were doing, and how you had + passed the summer, and I desired to tell you so. That is the reason I + write. In answer to your question, I reply that I am much better. I do not + know whether it is owing to having seen you and Doctor Buckler last + summer, or to my visit to the Hot Springs. Perhaps both. But my pains are + less, and my strength greater. In fact, I suppose I am as well as I shall + be. I am still following Doctor B——‘s directions, and in tie I + may improve still more. I expect to have to visit Baltimore this fall, in + relation to the Valley Railroad, and in that event I hope to see you, if + you will permit me. I am glad to hear that you spent a pleasant summer. + Colonel —— and I would have had a more agreeable one had you + been with us at the Hot, and as every place agrees so well with Mrs. + Tagert, I think she could have enjoyed as good health their as at + Saratoga, and we should have done better. Give my sincere regards to Mrs. + Tagart, and remember me to all friends, particularly Mr. ——. + Tell —— his brother is well and handsome, and I hope that he + will study, or his sweethearts in Baltimore will not pine for him long. + Captain —— is well and busy, and joins in my remembrances. + Mrs. Lee and my daughters unite with me in messages to you and Mrs. + Tagart, and I am most truly yours, R. E. Lee. + </p> + <p> + “S. H. Tagart, Esq.” + </p> + <p> + When my brother Fitzhugh and I reached Lexington, my father was no more. + He died the morning of our arrival—October 12th. He had apparently + improved after his first attack, and the summoning of my brother and + myself had been put off from day to day. After we did start we were + delayed by the floods, which at that time prevailed over the State. Of his + last illness and death I have heard from my family. + </p> + <p> + The best account of those last days was written by Colonel William Preston + Johnston for the “Personal Reminiscences of General Robert E. Lee,” by the + Rev. J. W. Jones, published in 1874. Colonel Johnston was an intimate + friend of the General and a distinguished member of the faculty of his + college. He was also one of the watchers by his dying bedside. I, + therefore, give it in full: + </p> + <p> + “The death of General Lee was not due to any sudden cause, but was the + result of agencies dating as far back as 1863. In the trying campaign of + that year he contracted a severe sore throat, that resulted in rheumatic + inflammation of the sac inclosing his heart. There is no doubt that after + this sickness his health was more or less impaired; and although he + complained little, yet rapid exercise on foot or on horseback produced + pain and difficulty breathing. In October, 1869, he was again attacked by + inflammation of the heart-sac, accompanied by muscular rheumatism of the + back, right side, and arms. The action of the heart was weakened by this + attack; the flush upon the face deepened, the rheumatism increased, and he + was troubled with weariness and depression. + </p> + <p> + “In March, 1870, General Lee, yielding to the solicitations of friends and + medical advisors, make a six-weeks’ visit to Georgia and Florida. He + returned greatly benefited by the influence of the genial climate, the + society of friends in those States, and the demonstrations of respect and + affection of the people of the South; his physical condition, however, was + not greatly improved. During this winter and spring he had said to his + son, General Custis Lee, that his attack was mortal; and had virtually + expressed the same belief to other trusted friends. And, now, with that + delicacy that pervaded all his actions, he seriously considered the + question of resigning the presidency of Washington College, ‘fearful that + he might not be equal to his duties.’ After listening, however, to the + affectionate remonstrances of the faculty and board of trustees, who well + knew the value of his wisdom in the supervision of the college and the + power of his mere presence and example upon the students, he resumed his + labours with the resolution to remain at his post and carry forward the + great work he had so auspiciously begun. + </p> + <p> + “During the summer he spent some weeks at the Hot Springs of Virginia, + using the baths, and came home seemingly better in health and spirits. He + entered upon the duties of the opening collegiate year in September with + that quiet zeal and noiseless energy that marked all his actions, and an + unusual elation was felt by those about him at the increased prospect that + long years of usefulness and honour would yet be added to his glorious + life. + </p> + <p> + “Wednesday, September 28, 1870, found General lee at the post of duty. In + the morning he was fully occupied with the correspondence and other tasks + incident to his office of president of Washington College, and he declined + offers of assistance from members of the faculty, of whose services he + sometimes availed himself. After dinner, at four o’clock, he attended a + vestry-meeting of Grace (Episcopal) church. The afternoon was chilly and + wet, and a steady rain had set in, which did not cease until it resulted + in a great flood, the most memorable and destructive in this region for a + hundred years. The church was rather cold and damp, and General Lee, + during the meeting, sat in a pew with his military cape cast loosely about + him. In a conversation that occupied the brief space preceding the call to + order, he took part, and told with marked cheerfulness of manner and + kindliness of tone some pleasant anecdotes of Bishop Meade and + Chief-Justice Marshall. The meeting was protracted until after seven + o’clock by a discussion touching the rebuilding of the church edifice and + the increase of the rector’s salary. General Lee acted as chairman, and, + after hearing all that was said, gave his own opinion, as was his wont, + briefly and without argument. He closed the meeting with a characteristic + act. The amount required for the minister’s salary still lacked a sum much + greater than General Lee’s proportion of the subscription, in view of his + frequent and generous contributions to the church and other charities, but + just before the adjournment, when the treasurer announced the amount of + the deficit still remaining, General Lee said in a low tone, ‘I will give + that sum.’ He seemed tired toward the close of the meeting, and, as was + afterward remarked, showed an unusual flush, but at the time no + apprehensions were felt. + </p> + <p> + “General Lee returned to his house, and, finding his family waiting tea + for him, took his place at the table, standing to say grace. The effort + was valid; the lips could not utter the prayer of the heart. Finding + himself unable to speak, he took his seat quietly and without agitation. + His face seemed to some of the anxious group about him to wear a look of + sublime resignation, and to evince a full knowledge that the hour had come + when all the cares and anxieties of his crowded life were at an end. His + physicians, Doctors H. S. Barton and R. L. Madison, arrived promptly, + applied the usual remedies, and placed him upon the couch from which he + was to rise no more. + </p> + <p> + “To him henceforth the things of this world were as nothing, and he bowed + with resignation to the command of the Master he had followed so long with + reverence. They symptoms of his attack resembled concussion of the brain, + without the attendant swoon. There was marked debility, a slightly + impaired consciousness, and a tendency to doze; but no paralysis of motion + or sensation, and no evidence of suffering or inflammation of the brain. + His physicians treated the case as one of venous congestion, and with + apparently favourable results. Yet, despite these propitious auguries + drawn from his physical symptoms, in view of the great mental strain he + had undergone, the gravest fears were felt that the attack was mortal. He + took without objection the medicines and diet prescribed, and was strong + enough to turn in bed without aid, and to sit up to take nourishment. + During the earlier days of his illness, though inclined to doze, he was + easily aroused, was quite conscious and observant, evidently understood + whatever was said to him, and answered questions briefly but + intelligently; he was, however, averse to much speaking, generally using + monosyllables, as had always been his habit when sick. + </p> + <p> + “When first attacked, he said to those who were removing his clothes, + pointing at the same time to his rheumatic shoulder, ‘You hurt my arm.’ + Although he seemed to be gradually improving until October 10th, he + apparently knew from the first that the appointed hour had come when he + must enter those dark gates that, closing, open no more on the earth. In + the words of his physician, ‘he neither expected nor desired to recover.’ + When General Custis Lee made some allusion to his recover, he shook his + head and pointed upward. On the Monday morning before his death, Doctor + Madison, finding him looking better, tried to cheer him. ‘How do you feel + to-day, General?’ General Lee replied slowly and distinctly: ‘I feel + better.’ The doctor then said: ‘You must make haste and get well; + Traveller has been standing so long in the stable that he needs exercise.’ + The General made no reply, but slowly shook his head and closed his eyes. + Several times during his illness he put aside his medicine, saying, ‘It is + of no use,’ but yielded patiently to the wishes of his physicians or + children, as if the slackened chords of being still responded to the touch + of duty or affection. + </p> + <p> + “On October 10th, during the afternoon, his pulse became feeble and rapid, + and his breathing hurried, with other evidences of great exhaustion. About + midnight he was seized with a shivering from extreme debility, and Doctor + Barton was obliged to announce the danger to the family. On October 11th, + he was evidently sinking; his respiration was hurried, his pulse feeble + and rapid. Though less observant, he still recognised whoever approached + him, but refused to take anything unless prescribed by his physicians. It + now became certain that the case was hopeless. His decline was rapid, yet + gentle; and soon after nine o’clock, on the morning of October 12th, he + closed his eyes, and his soul passed peacefully from earth. + </p> + <p> + “General Lee’s physicians attributed his death in great measure to moral + causes. The strain of his campaigns, the bitterness of defeat aggravated + by the bad faith an insolence of the victor, sympathy with the subsequent + sufferings of the Southern people, and the effort at calmness under these + accumulated sorrows, seemed the sufficient and real causes that slowly but + steadily undermined his health and led to his death, yet to those who saw + his composure under the greater and lesser trials of life, ad his justice + and forbearance with the most unjust and uncharitable, it seemed scarcely + credible that his serene soul was shaken by the evil that raged around + him. + </p> + <p> + “General Lee’s closing hours were consonant with his noble and disciplined + life. Never was more beautifully displayed how a long and severe education + of mind and character enables the soul to pass with equal step through + this supreme ordeal; never did the habits and qualities of a lifetime, + solemnly gathered into a few last sad hours, more grandly maintain + themselves amid the gloom and shadow of approaching death. The reticence, + the self-contained composure, the obedience to proper authority, the + magnanimity, and the Christian meekness, that marked all his actions, + still preserved their sway, in spite of the inroads of disease and the + creeping lethargy that weighted down his faculties. + </p> + <p> + “As the old hero lay in the darkened room, or with the lamp and + hearth-fire casting shadows upon his calm, noble front, all the missing + grandeur of his form, and face and brow remained; and death seemed to lose + its terrors and to borrow a grace and dignity in sublime keeping with the + life that was ebbing away. The great mind sank to its last repose, almost + with the equal poise of health. The few broken utterances that evinced at + times a wandering intellect were spoken under the influence of the + remedies administered; but as long as consciousness lasted there was + evidence that all the high, controlling influences of his whole life still + ruled; and even when stupor was laying its cold hand on the intellectual + perceptions, the moral nature, with its complete orb of duties and + affections, still asserted itself. A southern poet has celebrated in song + these last significant words, ‘Strike the tent’: and a thousand voices + were raised to give meaning to the uncertain sound, when the dying man + said, with emphasis, ‘Tell Hill he must come up!’ These sentences serve to + show most touchingly through what fields the imagination was passing; but + generally his words, though few, were coherent; but for the most part, + indeed, his silence was unbroken. + </p> + <p> + “This self-contained reticence had an awful grandeur, in solemn accord + with a life that needed no defense. Deeds which required no justification + must speak for him. His voiceless lips, like the shut gates of some + majestic temple, were closed, not for concealment, but because that within + was holy. Could the eye of the mourning watcher have pierced the gloom + that gathered about the recesses of that great soul it would have + perceived a presence there full of an ineffable glory. Leaning trustfully + upon the all-sustaining Arm, the man whose stature, measured by mortal + standards, seemed so great, passed from this world of shadows to the + realities of the hereafter.” + </p> + <p> + A letter from my mother to a dear friend tells the same sad story: + </p> + <p> + “...My husband came in. We had been waiting tea for him, and I remarked: + ‘You have kept us waiting a long time. Where have you been?’ He did not + reply, but stood up as if to say grace. Yet no word proceeded from his + lips, and he sat down in his chair perfectly upright and with a sublime + air of resignation on his countenance, and did not attempt to a reply to + our inquiries. That look was never forgotten, and I have no doubt he felt + that his hour had come; for though he submitted to the doctors, who were + immediately summoned, and who had not even reached their homes from the + same vestry-meeting, yet his whole demeanour during his illness showed one + who had taken leave of earth. He never smiled, and rarely attempted to + speak, except in dreams, and then he wandered to those dreadful + battle-fields. Once, when Agnes urged him to take some medicine, which he + always did with reluctance, he looked at her and said, ‘It is no use.’ But + afterward he took it. When he became so much better the doctor said, ‘You + must soon get out and ride your favorite gray!’ He shook his head most + emphatically and looked upward. He slept a great deal, but knew us all, + greeted us with a kindly pressure of the hand, and loved to have us around + him. For the last forty-eight hours he seemed quite insensible of our + presence. He breathed more heavily, and at last sank to rest with one + deep-drawn sigh. And oh, what a glorious rest was in store for him!” + </p> + <div style="height: 6em;"> + <br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /> + </div> +<pre xml:space="preserve"> + + + + + +End of the Project Gutenberg EBook of Recollections and Letters of General +Robert E. 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