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+Title: Love--Marriage--Birth Control
+ Being a Speech delivered at the Church Congress at
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+ LOVE--MARRIAGE--
+ BIRTH CONTROL
+
+
+ Being a Speech delivered at the Church
+ Congress at Birmingham, October, 1921:
+
+
+ WITH A FOREWORD
+
+ BY
+ LORD DAWSON OF PENN
+
+
+ [Illustration: logo]
+
+
+ London
+ NISBET & CO. LTD.
+ 22 BERNERS STREET, W.1
+
+
+
+ _First Published January, 1922_
+ _Reprinted January, 1922_
+ _Reprinted February, 1922_
+ _Reprinted April, 1922_
+
+ _All rights reserved_
+
+
+
+
+ FOREWORD
+
+
+At the Church Congress held this autumn at Birmingham I was honoured by
+an invitation to speak on "Sexual Relationships."
+
+The subject-matter of that speech has aroused widespread interest and
+some controversy. It is being published in response to numerous requests
+and because most of the reports, being of necessity condensed,
+inadequately and even in some instances incorrectly set forth the views
+I endeavoured to champion; for any speech on a subject so difficult to
+handle needs to be read in its entirety if misapprehensions are to be
+avoided.
+
+And first, may I thank numerous correspondents; and those in
+disagreement equally with those in agreement with me. One and all they
+bear testimony, if indeed such were needed, to how widespread and
+responsible is the interest on this question, and therefore to the
+wisdom of its full consideration. Amongst the letters are intimate human
+documents which pathetically disclose, as does professional experience,
+how frequently happiness is marred by ignorance of either the principles
+or the methods which should condition the true conception of sexual
+relationships.
+
+I elected to deal with these relationships in their healthy rather than
+their morbid aspects, because the study of health is a sure way to
+lessen disease. Mere denunciations of evil serve but small purpose. The
+aim of statesmanship is rather to seek out causes and ponder over
+remedies, and prominent among remedies is surely the study of the
+significance and purport of sex love in a well-ordered and Christian
+community and provision for its healthy outlet. To this the first part
+of my speech was devoted. The view there upheld has brought forth a
+large measure of agreement and no reasoned disagreement.
+
+The second part of my speech dealing with birth control (or what in
+strict accuracy should be called conception control) has aroused more
+controversy, but I venture to think that some, at least, of the
+criticism directed against my argument will disappear with a perusal of
+this full text of my speech. Therein will be found condemnation of
+infertile marriages and a strong plea that children are essential to the
+health and happiness of man and woman, are necessary to each other and
+of vital importance to the nation.
+
+The difference between my critics and myself is not as to the vital
+necessity of the family following marriage, but rather this--they would
+like to see the large families prevalent fifty years ago restored (and
+where means and circumstances are favourable, such large families may be
+the source of much happiness); whereas under present-day conditions I
+should regard them as seldom attainable and desirable, and would favour
+smaller families of children born at predetermined intervals.
+
+A married couple who have produced four children in twenty years cannot
+be said to have ignored the precept "be fruitful and multiply and
+replenish the earth" because they have so selected the times for the
+conceptions of their children as to enable them to give those children a
+better upbringing rather than have selfishly left the sequence of their
+offspring to blind chance.
+
+The argument that the nation should foster large families in order more
+quickly to people the untenanted portions of the Empire, and so add to
+the strength and wealth of the British Dominions, requires serious
+attention, not in isolation, but in conjunction with other
+considerations, and calls forth varying opinions from economists.
+
+On the other hand, emigration into _foreign_ lands would seem to be a
+source of weakness to a nation. The feeding, clothing and educating of a
+young Briton cost the nation a definite sum of money, say, L400; if at
+the age of twenty, when he is ready to produce, that young Briton
+emigrates to a foreign state, he is a definite loss to the country of
+his birth and the country of his adoption is the gainer.
+
+From another standpoint the criticism is made that I have not urged the
+paramount necessity of diminishing the population of these islands. With
+the economic soundness of this view others are better fitted to deal,
+but no economic considerations would outweigh the importance of child
+life inspiring the homes of the land, and if the number and sequence of
+children can be regulated by the parents' circumstances, these homes
+will increase in number, will start when parents are younger and confer
+greater benefits alike on the family and the State. If need be, the
+State could grant a progressive rebate of taxation, and educational
+facilities for each of three children born after the second and where
+the father is twenty-five years of age or upwards.
+
+It is held by some that artificial birth control is contrary to
+Christian morals. This is the view firmly held by the Roman Catholic
+Church, and since the governance of the Roman communion is based on
+"authority," its decisions are binding on its members and command our
+respect. But pronouncements of Protestant communions do not owe their
+force to "authority," but to the conviction they carry in the minds and
+consciences of their people, and no clear scriptural sanction for the
+condemnation of birth control has been given, nor does the report of the
+Lambeth Conference vouchsafe any reasons why it is physically and
+morally harmful.
+
+A distinguished prelate of our Church has characterised the views herein
+set forth as "very unguarded."[1] If by that expression he means
+"careless," he cannot have done me the honour of reading my speech,
+which, whatever its demerits, bears ample evidence of carefully
+considered thought and expression. If by "unguarded" he means
+"outspoken," I will plead justification. For is it not time that a
+question which deeply concerns not only the thought, but the practice of
+the thinking portions of communities should be fully considered and its
+strength and its weakness disclosed by full discussion? The world looks
+to its leaders for reasoned guidance, not for assertion which may be but
+the husk of a thought that has gone. What is wanted is reasoned
+consideration, not unreasoned condemnation. For churchmen and statesmen
+alike, opportunism helps in situations which are small, but never in
+those which are large; there clarity of principle alone stands forth as
+a beacon to light the path.
+
+ [Footnote 1: Diocesan Conference at York.]
+
+The fear that discussion of this vital problem will endanger morality
+surely loses sight of the fact of knowledge being so fundamental to our
+well-being, that incidental dangers encountered along its path must not
+deter us from its continued pursuit.
+
+Moreover, it will be noticed that I have discriminated between the
+principle of birth control and the methods of its application, the
+latter being preferably determined by the advice of the family doctor
+rather than by the perusal of books in general circulation.
+
+The attitude of mind of the Church towards the problems of sexual
+relationships is part of a larger question, viz., the ever-widening gap
+between the formal teaching of the Church and the actual belief of the
+present generation, including many who by baptism and early training
+belong to her fold.
+
+This gap between authority and actuality of belief imposes a strain on
+intellectual integrity and weakens the foundations of a real allegiance.
+For those of us who are of mature years the gap is bridged by the tender
+associations of our childhood and the memory of parents, for whom no
+such gap existed, and whose faith and character have left indelible
+impressions on our lives. But for the youth of to-day no such bridge
+exists. The War has caused a hiatus and thought has broken with
+tradition. Thus, youth is no longer willing to accept forms and formulae
+only on account of their age. So it has set out on a voyage of inquiry,
+and finding some things which are doubtful and others which are
+insufficient, is searching for forms of expression more in harmony with
+the realities of life and knowledge. Although becoming estranged in
+thought from the Church, it is possessed of deep religious feeling and,
+firm on the rock foundation of faith, is trying to build a
+superstructure more in accord with the progress of revelation, not only
+in religion, but in science, and the needs of the world in which it
+moves and has its being.
+
+
+ Far be it, that I should write thee sin or blame,
+ Or think thee unbefitting holiest place,
+ Perpetual fountain of domestic sweets,
+ Whose bed is undefiled and chaste pronounced,
+ Present, or past, as saints and patriarchs used.
+ Here Love his golden shafts employs, here lights
+ His constant lamp, and waves his purple wings,
+ Reigns here and revels; not in the bought smile
+ Of harlots, loveless, joyless, unendeared,
+ Casual fruition; nor in court-amours,
+ Mixed dance, or wanton mask, or midnight ball,
+ Or serenate, which the starved lover sings
+ To his proud fair, best quitted with disdain.
+ These, lulled by nightingales, embracing slept,
+ And on their naked limbs the flowery roof
+ Showered roses, which the morn repaired.
+
+ _Paradise Lost,_
+ Book IV.
+
+
+
+
+ LOVE--MARRIAGE--BIRTH CONTROL
+
+
+May I make certain preliminary observations? Painters and poets depict
+Love to us in golden hues and arouse in us happy and sympathetic, and, I
+trust, reminiscent response, helping us to realise that life without the
+love of man and woman would be like the world without sunshine.
+
+Though, therefore, the social student in his approach to the subject is
+not helped by the beauties of colour and song, it behoves him to avoid
+undue solemnity, and still more an air of portentous foreboding.
+
+In each age customs have been deplored as heralds of evil, but the evils
+have seldom materialised.
+
+One of the difficulties of this subject is that those who are called
+upon to give counsel are apt to forget the strength of the forces to be
+dealt with, for it is during youth especially that sex attractions are
+so powerful, and, may I add, so delightful. Middle-aged people may be
+divided into three classes.
+
+Those who are still young.
+
+Those who have forgotten they were young.
+
+Those who were never young.
+
+And it is with the first class before my eyes that I am privileged to
+address this audience.
+
+I will confine my attention to the sexual relationships between
+unrelated adult people in youth and prime.
+
+It is common ground that sex love between such people should be the
+physical expression of a lasting affection, and be so intimately blended
+with the feelings of helpfulness, sympathy, and intimate friendship as
+to form a union of body, mind and spirit. It further should be
+associated with the love of and desire for children.
+
+This complex is best secured by the institution of marriage.
+
+All its constituent features, except two, are vividly realised in
+intimate friendship, and above all, in that unique bond between mother
+and son which with some of us is the most wonderful thing in our lives.
+
+Its two exclusively distinctive features are: _sex love_ and _child
+love_.
+
+These are the real problems before us to-day, particularly the former,
+and if in these remarks I seem to concentrate on the problems of sex
+love, be it understood I do so from a desire to save the time of the
+meeting and not because I think sex love should reign alone in
+unbalanced supremacy.
+
+And by sex love I mean that love which involves intercourse or the
+desire for such.
+
+It is necessary to my argument to emphasise that sex love is one of the
+clamant dominating forces of the world. Not only does history show the
+destinies of nations and dynasties determined by its sway--but here in
+our every-day life we see its influence, direct or indirect, forceful
+and ubiquitous beyond aught else.
+
+
+ AN IMPERIOUS INSTINCT.
+
+Any statesmanlike review, therefore, will recognise that here we have an
+instinct--so fundamental, so imperious--that its influence is a fact which
+has to be accepted: suppress it you cannot. You may guide it into
+healthy channels--but an outlet it will have, and if that outlet is
+inadequate or unduly obstructed, irregular channels will be forced.
+
+We uphold the control of sex love outside marriage by the individual--and
+that we are right in so doing is incontestable. But let us realise that
+in practice self-control has a breaking point, and that if in any
+community marriage is difficult or late of attainment, an increase of
+irregular unions will inevitably result.
+
+That the Church recognises this is shown by the statement that marriage
+was instituted to prevent sin. In considering the problem of illicit
+intercourse and its attendant evils the social conditions that make for
+a wholesome life are of more efficiency than Acts of Parliament to
+suppress vice.
+
+My desire, however, on this occasion is rather to consider sex love in
+relation to marriage. The first point I wish to make is that people need
+more knowledge of the scientific bearings of sex relations and more
+clearly defined guidance of their rightful purport and practice. They
+are imperfectly provided with both. We talk about instructing the young
+when we are neither clear nor agreed amongst ourselves, and the young
+are endangered as much by crudity as by absence of instruction.
+
+All are agreed that union of body should be in association with union of
+mind and soul; all are agreed that the rearing of children is a
+pre-eminent purpose. But what purport is there beyond these? Here there
+is a lack of precision.
+
+
+ THE CHURCH AND MARRIAGE.
+
+What does the Church service say? It says "Marriage was ordained for a
+remedy against sin, and to avoid fornication; that such persons as have
+not the gift of continency might marry and keep themselves undefiled
+members of Christ's body."
+
+Now this is a very negative blessing. It implies that where
+unfortunately people cannot be continent that marriage gives the best
+way out--enables them to get relief within the pale of virtue. This
+attitude affords to sex love no positive purport or merit of its own,
+and is in striking conflict with the facts of life through the
+ages--facts which carry social approval.
+
+The recent pronouncement of the Church as set forth in Resolution 68 of
+the Lambeth Conference seems to imply condemnation of sex love as such,
+and to imply sanction of sex love _only_ as a means to an end--namely,
+procreation, though it must be admitted it lacks that clearness of
+direction which in so vital a matter one would have expected. It almost
+reminds me of one of those diplomatic formulae which is not intended to
+be too clear. Allow me to quote from it:--
+
+"In opposition to the teaching which under the name of science and
+religion encourages married people in the deliberate cultivation of
+sexual union as an end in itself, we steadfastly uphold what must always
+be regarded as the governing consideration of Christian marriage. One is
+the primary purpose for which marriage exists--namely, the continuation
+of the race through the gift and heritage of children; the other is the
+paramount importance in married life of deliberate and thoughtful
+self-control."
+
+
+ THE FACTS OF LIFE.
+
+Now the plain meaning of this statement is that sexual union should take
+place for the sole purpose of procreation, that sexual union as _an_ end
+in itself--not, mind you, _the_ only end--(there we should all agree), but
+sexual union as _an_ end in itself is to be condemned.
+
+That means that sexual intercourse should rightly take place _only_ for
+the purpose of procreation.
+
+Now the large majority of conceptions take place immediately after and
+before the monthly period.
+
+Quite a large family could easily result from quite a few sexual unions.
+For the rest the couple should be celibate. Any intercourse not having
+procreation as its intention is "sexual union as an end in itself," and
+therefore by inference condemned by the Lambeth Conference.
+
+Think of the facts of life. Let us recall our own love--our marriage,
+our honeymoon. Has not sexual union over and over again been the
+physical expression of our love without thought or intention of
+procreation? Have we all been wrong? Or is it that the Church lacks that
+vital contact with the realities of life which accounts for the gulf
+between her and the people?
+
+The love envisaged by the Lambeth Conference is an invertebrate joyless
+thing--not worth the having. Fortunately it is in contrast to the real
+thing as practised by clergy and laity.
+
+Fancy an ardent lover (and what respect have you for a lover who is not
+ardent)--the type you would like your daughter to marry--virile,
+ambitious, chivalrous--a man who means to work hard and love hard. Fancy
+putting before these lovers--eager and expectant of the joys before
+them--the Lambeth picture of marriage. Do you expect to gain their
+confidence?
+
+They ask for bread; you give them a stone.
+
+
+ ALLEGIANCE OF THE YOUNG.
+
+Authority, and I include under authority the Churches, will never gain
+the allegiance of the young unless their attitude is more frank, more
+courageous, and more in accordance with realities.
+
+And to tell you the truth, I am not sure that too much prudent
+self-restraint suits love and its purport. Romance and deliberate
+self-control do not, to my mind, rhyme very well together. A touch of
+madness to begin with does no harm. Heaven knows life sobers it soon
+enough. If you don't start life with a head of steam you won't get far.
+
+Sex love has, apart from parenthood, a purport of its own. It is
+something to prize and to cherish for its own sake. It is an essential
+part of health and happiness in marriage. And now, if you will allow me,
+I will carry this argument a step further.
+
+If sexual union is a gift of God it is worth learning how to use it.
+Within its own sphere it should be cultivated so as to bring physical
+satisfaction to both, not merely to one. The attainment of mutual and
+reciprocal joy in their relations constitutes a firm bond between two
+people and makes for durability of their marriage tie.
+
+Reciprocity in sex love is the physical counterpart of sympathy. More
+marriages fail from inadequate and clumsy sex love than from too much
+sex love.
+
+
+ PASSION A WORTHY POSSESSION.
+
+The lack of proper understanding is in no small measure responsible for
+the unfulfilment of (connubial) happiness, and every degree of
+discontent and unhappiness may from this cause occur, leading to rupture
+of the marriage bond itself. How often do medical men have to deal with
+these difficulties, and how fortunate if such difficulties are disclosed
+early enough in married life to be rectified. Otherwise how tragic may
+be their consequences, and many a case in the Divorce Court has thus
+had its origin.
+
+To the foregoing contentions it might be objected you are encouraging
+passion. My reply would be, passion is a worthy possession; most men,
+who are any good, are capable of passion.
+
+You all enjoy ardent and passionate love in art and literature. Why not
+give it a place in real life?
+
+Why some people look askance at passion is because they are confusing it
+with sensuality. Sex love without passion is a poor, lifeless thing.
+Sensuality, on the other hand, is on a level with gluttony--a physical
+excess--detached from sentiment, chivalry, or tenderness.
+
+It is just as important to give sex love its place as to avoid its over
+emphasis. Its real and effective restraints are those imposed by a
+loving and sympathetic companionship, by the privileges of parenthood,
+the exacting claims of career and that civic sense which prompts men to
+do social service.
+
+Now that the revision of the Prayer Book is receiving consideration, I
+should like to suggest, with great respect, that an addition be made to
+the objects of marriage in the Marriage Service, in these terms: "The
+complete realisation of the love of this man and this woman, the one for
+the other."
+
+
+ BIRTH CONTROL.
+
+And now, if you will permit me, I will pass on to consider the
+all-important question of Birth Control.
+
+First, I will put forward with confidence the view that birth control
+is here to stay. It is an established fact, and for good or evil has to
+be accepted. Although the extent of its application can be and is being
+modified, no denunciations will abolish it.
+
+Despite the influence and condemnations of the Church, it has been
+practised in France for well over half a century, and in Belgium and
+other Catholic countries is extending. And if the Roman Catholic Church,
+with its compact organisation, its power of authority, and its
+discipline, cannot check this procedure, is it likely that Protestant
+Churches will be able to do so?--for Protestant religions depend for
+their strength on the conviction and esteem they establish in the heads
+and hearts of their people.
+
+The reasons which lead parents to limit their offspring are sometimes
+selfish, but more often honourable and cogent. The desire to marry and
+to rear children well equipped for life's struggle, limited incomes, the
+cost of living, burdensome taxation, are forcible motives; and, further,
+amongst the educated classes there is the desire of women to take a part
+in life and their husband's careers, which is incompatible with
+oft-recurring pregnancies. Absence of birth control means late
+marriages, and these carry with them irregular unions and all the
+baneful consequences.
+
+It is idle to decry illicit intercourse and interpose obstacles to
+marriage at one and the same time.
+
+But, say many whose opinions are entitled to our respect: "Yes--birth
+control may be necessary, but the only birth control which is
+justifiable is voluntary abstention from connubial relations." Such
+abstention would be either ineffective or, if effective, impracticable
+and harmful to health and happiness.
+
+To limit the size of a family to, say, four children during a
+child-bearing period of 20-25 years, would be to impose on a married
+couple an amount of abstention which for long periods would almost be
+equivalent to celibacy, and when one remembers that owing to economic
+reasons the abstention would have to be most strict during the earlier
+years of married life when desires are strongest, I maintain a demand is
+being made which for the mass of people it is impossible to meet; that
+the endeavours to meet it would impose a strain hostile to health and
+happiness and carry with them grave dangers to morals.
+
+Imagine a young married couple in love with each other--the parents, say,
+of one child, who feel they cannot afford another child for, say, three
+years--being expected to occupy the same room and to abstain for two
+years. The thing is preposterous. You might as well put water by the
+side of a man suffering from thirst and tell him not to drink it.
+
+And further than that, if the efforts to abstain are seriously made the
+strain involved is harmful to the health and temper--if the efforts do
+not succeed the minds of husband and wife are troubled by doubts and
+anxieties which are damaging to their intimate relationships. And,
+moreover, if this harmful restraint succeeds in preventing conception
+there eventuates the inevitable prevalence of sex excitement followed
+by abortive and half-realised satisfaction, and the enhanced risk of the
+man or woman yielding to outside sex temptations.
+
+No--birth control by abstention is either ineffective, or, if effective,
+is pernicious.
+
+
+ THE HOME'S TRUE INTERESTS.
+
+I will next consider Artificial Control. The forces in modern life which
+make for birth control are so strong that only convincing reasons will
+make people desist from it. It is said to be unnatural and intrinsically
+immoral. This word unnatural perplexes me. Civilisation involves the
+chaining of natural forces and their conversion to man's will and uses.
+Much of medicine and surgery consists of means to overcome nature.
+
+When anaesthetics were first used at childbirth there was an outcry on
+the part of many worthy and religious people that their use under such
+circumstances was unnatural and wicked, because God meant woman to
+suffer the struggles and pains of childbirth. Now we all admit it is
+right to control the process of childbirth, and to save the mother as
+much pain as possible. It is no more unnatural to control conception by
+artificial means than to control childbirth by artificial means. Surely
+the whole question turns on whether these artificial means are for the
+good or harm of the individual and the community! Do all contraceptive
+measures damage the individual? The answer to that depends on the
+purpose for which they are used. If they are used to render unions
+childless or inadequately fruitful they are harmful. There are grounds
+for thinking that unrealisation of maternity favours sterility.
+
+Generally speaking, birth control before the first child is inadvisable.
+On the other hand, the justifiable use of birth control is to limit the
+number of children, and to spread out their arrival in such a way as to
+serve their true interests and those of their home.
+
+That such applications of birth control produce no harm receives support
+from the study of the numbers and distribution of the children of the
+professional classes.
+
+The advantage and disadvantage of this or that contraceptive is a
+technical matter for the doctors to determine.
+
+Again, it has been stated that artificial control is harmful because it
+leads to excessive indulgence. Experience and evidence are against this
+being a fact.
+
+Contraceptives by the time and circumstance of their application involve
+prudence and control. The proper and efficient restraints on undue
+sexual indulgence are to be found in mutual consideration, sympathy, and
+tenderness and the pressing claims of life's duties.
+
+The sensualist who is not deterred from excess by these considerations
+will be completely careless whether his indulgence results in children
+or not--he is moved by his selfish impulses alone.
+
+
+ CAREFUL DISTINCTION.
+
+Once more, careful distinction needs to be made between the use and the
+bad effects of the abuse of birth control. That its abuse produces harm
+I fully agree--harm to parents, to families, and to the nation. But abuse
+is not a just condemnation of legitimate use. Over-eating,
+over-drinking, over-smoking, over-sleeping, over-work do not carry
+condemnation of eating, drinking, smoking, sleeping, work.
+
+But the evils of excessive birth control are very real. There is first
+the individual--every woman is better in body and mind for child
+bearing--the periodic completion of the maternal cycle brings out the
+best, preserves youth and maintains vital contact with life. Maternity
+gives to woman her most beautiful attributes. Fancy being mad enough to
+suppress it! If one watches the woman with one child and all maternity
+finished before thirty, and compare her at forty with the woman of the
+same age who has had, say, four children at proper intervals, who
+usually has the advantage in preservation of youth and beauty? Not the
+former.
+
+On the other hand, it must be admitted that baby after baby every year
+or eighteen months wears and often exhausts a woman's strength. The
+inference is that the use of birth control is good, its abuse bad.
+
+Next, the children. Is it even necessary to refer to the failure of the
+single-child household? Poor little thing! Surrounded by over-anxious
+parents, spoilt, no children to play with, bored stiff by adults. And
+then, perhaps, illness, and it may be death--and when it is too late to
+produce another.
+
+Of the many tragedies I met in the war none exceeded that attaching to
+the loss of only children. It often means the end of all things; nothing
+to live for--just blank despair.
+
+
+ THE WAY OF HAPPINESS.
+
+The parents and the home both need children of varying ages. That is the
+way of happiness and enduring youth.
+
+And lastly, the national aspect may be stated very briefly. If England
+is not to lose her place in the world her population must be maintained.
+Unless fathers and mothers produce an average of over three children
+that population will not be maintained.
+
+If you say to a young husband and wife with their one or two children,
+"Do you like to contemplate that when you both leave life your country
+will, through your action, be worse off than when you entered life?"
+that is an appeal to patriotism, and likely to be a successful appeal.
+
+There are signs of a public opinion forming which will condemn the
+selfishness of marriages without their proper heritage of children, but
+such public opinion will not be strengthened by an indiscriminate
+condemnation of birth control.
+
+May I end my speech with an appeal that the Church approaches this
+question, in common with certain others, in the light of modern
+knowledge and the needs of a new world, and unhampered by traditions
+which have outworn their usefulness?
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